Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #63

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00:03:23.020 Without further ado,

00:03:23.780 we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:26.040 So please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:03:29.540 Go ahead.

00:03:29.820 My name's Alexa.

00:03:31.600 I'm 27.

00:03:33.280 I'm a noob Twitch streamer.

00:03:35.580 And then primarily, I am a manager for models

00:03:39.140 and a creative director at OnlyFans agency called Chic.

00:03:44.200 That's me.

00:03:47.240 My name is Karina.

00:03:49.140 I am, we have to say our age?

00:03:51.760 Yep.

00:03:53.200 I'm 26.

00:03:55.200 And I am a producer of content.

00:03:58.420 And I'm a writer.

00:03:59.820 What was the hesitation with the age there?

00:04:03.560 Usually, you don't ask a woman her age.

00:04:06.780 What kind of content do you do?

00:04:08.980 I produce skits, vlogs.

00:04:11.000 Like OnlyFans?

00:04:12.360 No.

00:04:12.880 No OnlyFans?

00:04:13.480 No OnlyFans.

00:04:14.460 So normally, you don't ask a woman her age.

00:04:16.400 What do you mean?

00:04:17.500 What do you mean?

00:04:18.300 What do you mean?

00:04:18.740 I've heard that term for like old women. 1.00

00:04:21.820 For old women? 1.00

00:04:22.940 Like old women. 1.00

00:04:24.220 I say all women.

00:04:24.300 Because like age is like but a number.

00:04:26.420 And it's like, why do we have to say that?

00:04:30.860 I think judgment comes when you give a certain age.

00:04:33.280 Like if I said I was 21, I might not get as much respect if I said I'm 32.

00:04:37.220 I don't know about that one.

00:04:38.240 You probably, I suspect you might get more respect.

00:04:40.300 It depends on, it depends on the person, like honestly, but why does it matter?

00:04:46.560 There's some people that really have mommy issues, so they prefer older women. 1.00

00:04:51.840 Did I say that out loud?

00:04:54.240 Yes, you can say that out loud.

00:04:56.420 Wait, so you normally don't ask a woman her age?

00:04:58.960 Yeah, that's not like.

00:05:00.120 It's such a cliche, but.

00:05:01.260 That's not like the first and foremost question.

00:05:03.040 Like I get you asking for my like username or my at, but like my age?

00:05:06.860 Which, interesting.

00:05:08.440 Wow, that seems like a basic demographic question to ask somebody.

00:05:12.120 I guess.

00:05:12.860 Do you want to know like my ethnicity and like what my sexual preference is too?

00:05:17.420 I might get, I certainly might.

00:05:19.320 What is your ethnicity while we're at it?

00:05:21.040 I'm from Russia, so.

00:05:22.460 But I'm Caucasian basically, yeah.

00:05:24.620 Aren't Russians or. 0.96

00:05:26.660 From the Caucasus mountains, yeah.

00:05:28.100 I'm from Uzbekistan too, so that's another free ball, but yeah.

00:05:32.660 Okay.

00:05:33.600 What about you?

00:05:35.240 Me?

00:05:35.440 Me, oh, I'm half.

00:05:36.700 Into the mic, into the mic.

00:05:37.680 No, no, no, no, no, your name, age, occupation.

00:05:39.960 Into the mic, please.

00:05:40.900 My name is Susan.

00:05:42.300 I am a registered nurse and I do some content online.

00:05:49.820 I just started with a new agency.

00:05:53.560 Oh, I'm 21 years old.

00:05:55.220 No, you're not.

00:05:57.520 Okay, Brian.

00:05:59.120 I'm 35.

00:06:01.700 Scorpio.

00:06:04.000 What else?

00:06:05.440 So, you said you do content.

00:06:06.980 What kind of content do you do?

00:06:08.180 I do content.

00:06:09.100 I don't do nudity.

00:06:11.420 So, you have an OnlyFans though?

00:06:12.940 I do.

00:06:13.560 Okay.

00:06:13.820 I do, but I just.

00:06:14.780 Sure.

00:06:15.200 Signed with a new agency.

00:06:17.120 Okay.

00:06:18.020 Siren agency.

00:06:19.740 And hopefully I can get some more stuff going.

00:06:26.480 And yeah, but I have a day job too.

00:06:29.620 You're a nurse. 0.96

00:06:30.400 Yeah.

00:06:30.580 What, like a pediatric, NICU?

00:06:33.900 Surgery.

00:06:34.540 Surgery.

00:06:35.100 Okay.

00:06:35.520 What about you?

00:06:36.300 I'm Ella.

00:06:37.120 I'm 18.

00:06:37.780 I go to UCSB and I'm a biochem major.

00:06:41.000 Okay.

00:06:41.460 Rock and roll.

00:06:42.060 What about you?

00:06:42.960 My name is Reese.

00:06:44.080 I'm 18 years old and I am a communications major at the University of California, Santa Barbara.

00:06:51.920 Cool.

00:06:52.600 What about you?

00:06:53.000 I'm Kayla, aka Enola Blaze.

00:06:57.300 I am 25 and I do OnlyFans.

00:07:00.480 Can I have you just tilt the microphone down towards you just to add?

00:07:04.900 That good?

00:07:05.580 Perfect.

00:07:06.400 Okay.

00:07:06.640 You do OnlyFans?

00:07:07.480 Yes.

00:07:07.900 How long have you been doing that?

00:07:11.080 Nine months, I think.

00:07:12.700 Okay.

00:07:13.320 Got it.

00:07:13.840 What about you?

00:07:14.760 Hi.

00:07:15.340 My name is Lindsay.

00:07:16.120 I'm 18 years old.

00:07:17.420 I go to Santa Barbara City College and I'm an entrepreneurship major.

00:07:20.640 My name is Haley.

00:07:23.320 I'm 18 years old.

00:07:24.480 I go to San Diego Miramar Community College majoring in engineering with an emphasis in

00:07:28.940 physics and I work for the family business.

00:07:33.120 My name is Rico.

00:07:35.360 I am 34 years old.

00:07:37.060 I am a poker player, Uber driver, fitness model, actor, comedian.

00:07:44.580 I do it all.

00:07:45.900 All around great guy?

00:07:46.840 I'm all around great guy.

00:07:48.160 All around great guy.

00:07:49.220 Cool, cool, cool.

00:07:49.700 All right.

00:07:50.840 Thank you for having me on, Brian.

00:07:52.100 Thank you for coming, man.

00:07:53.460 So everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:07:55.740 Guys, show them some love.

00:07:56.680 Give them a follow.

00:07:57.960 If you're a short girl, my DMs are open. 0.77

00:08:01.180 Okay.

00:08:01.580 So we're going to go around the table once more.

00:08:03.520 Current relationship status, single, friends with benefits, talking stage, situationship,

00:08:08.780 relationship.

00:08:10.120 Are you any of these?

00:08:11.840 And your longest relationship.

00:08:13.640 Go ahead.

00:08:13.860 So right now, kind of like talking situationship.

00:08:17.900 My longest relationship was five years from 19 to 24.

00:08:23.960 And then just a little bit of situationships after that, like during, you know, COVID bay

00:08:28.620 and all that.

00:08:29.180 And then, you know, how it goes.

00:08:33.500 I'm in a really serious situationship right now.

00:08:36.560 It's been going for like two years.

00:08:38.620 So I'm in love, but I'm also not really in a relationship until I'm married.

00:08:42.620 So, yeah.

00:08:45.300 Wait, sorry.

00:08:45.940 Could you just repeat which one you were?

00:08:49.000 My relationship status?

00:08:49.680 Yeah, single, right?

00:08:50.800 Yeah, like situationship, but like talking, like, yeah.

00:08:54.880 Same person, just one person.

00:08:56.400 How long has that been going on?

00:08:58.000 I've known him for two years.

00:08:59.100 Two years, gotcha.

00:08:59.720 And you're in a two-year situationship too?

00:09:02.560 It's more serious than hers.

00:09:04.240 I know her personally, yeah.

00:09:05.520 Oh, you guys know each other.

00:09:06.600 Okay.

00:09:07.700 Got it.

00:09:08.120 What about you?

00:09:10.100 I'm single.

00:09:12.620 Longest relationship?

00:09:14.720 Three years.

00:09:15.640 Three years.

00:09:16.120 Have you ever been married?

00:09:17.320 No.

00:09:18.040 Any kids?

00:09:18.840 No.

00:09:19.260 I have a dog.

00:09:20.880 A dog.

00:09:21.620 Okay.

00:09:22.120 That's...

00:09:22.600 My kid.

00:09:23.300 That's your child.

00:09:24.180 That's my baby.

00:09:24.880 That's your baby.

00:09:25.580 There you go.

00:09:26.820 I'm single.

00:09:27.800 Longest relationship is non-existent.

00:09:31.820 One question on that.

00:09:33.300 So have you ever...

00:09:34.400 You've never had a relationship?

00:09:35.680 No.

00:09:36.300 Okay.

00:09:37.400 What is the longest period of time that you've talked to somebody?

00:09:41.980 I'd say, honestly, probably like a week.

00:09:44.140 One week?

00:09:44.700 Yeah.

00:09:45.140 Okay.

00:09:47.020 I'm going to come back to the one week thing.

00:09:48.580 I'm going to let everyone get through this really quick first, though.

00:09:51.140 Go ahead.

00:09:52.740 I'm currently single, but the longest relationship I've ever been in lasted a year.

00:09:57.580 When did that end?

00:09:59.080 It was all throughout my junior year of high school.

00:10:01.300 Okay.

00:10:01.680 So that was two years ago?

00:10:03.300 Yeah, it was a while ago.

00:10:04.660 Gotcha.

00:10:05.960 Besides that, let's say in college, what's the longest period of time you've been seeing

00:10:10.360 a guy?

00:10:10.860 Because you said you're a freshman at UCSB, correct?

00:10:12.520 Yeah, I'm a freshman.

00:10:13.480 I was actually in a relationship about two months ago.

00:10:17.640 I was dating that guy for about six months, but long distance is really difficult.

00:10:21.440 It didn't work out.

00:10:22.060 Oh, it was long distance?

00:10:23.180 Yeah, we were long distance.

00:10:24.100 And it ended two months ago?

00:10:25.440 Yeah, January.

00:10:26.420 Okay.

00:10:26.940 Where was he?

00:10:28.200 Back at home, Bay Area.

00:10:29.860 Bay Area.

00:10:30.320 Yeah, okay.

00:10:31.300 Why did he dump you?

00:10:33.100 I actually ended things with him.

00:10:34.960 Why is that?

00:10:36.980 I just wasn't getting enough out of the relationship.

00:10:39.440 He would call me maybe once a week, like very little communication.

00:10:44.960 It's just like, you know, you want more out of a relationship.

00:10:48.760 You mentioned he would call you once a week.

00:10:51.680 Right.

00:10:52.120 He would call me maybe once a week, and then I would be trying to call him multiple times

00:10:55.840 a week, and he would pick up maybe 50% of the time.

00:11:00.760 Okay, so you were at least, you were trying to.

00:11:02.500 Oh, no, I was absolutely putting in effort, but then it got to a point where, you know,

00:11:05.860 it's really exhausting to be the one carrying the relationship on your back.

00:11:10.620 So, yeah, I got tired.

00:11:12.400 Okay.

00:11:13.640 Enola, what about you?

00:11:15.780 I am single.

00:11:18.240 I'm also a mom.

00:11:19.660 My longest relationship, I would say I never really had a real boyfriend or real relationship,

00:11:29.060 but the longest ever lasted was probably three years, I think.

00:11:37.660 What about the relationship with the father of your son?

00:11:41.620 Or is it a, sorry.

00:11:42.740 It's a girl.

00:11:43.460 It's your kid.

00:11:48.040 Do you know who the father is?

00:11:49.280 Yes, I know who the father is, but I wouldn't consider a relationship because I just think

00:11:53.340 I was, like, really brainwashed, and I got into it for wrong reasons, and it just led.

00:12:01.740 Were you in a cult?

00:12:03.420 No.

00:12:04.200 Brainwashed? 0.99

00:12:05.100 Like a sex cult? 1.00

00:12:06.420 No, he was, like, my pimp. 0.99

00:12:08.420 He was your pimp?

00:12:09.240 Yeah.

00:12:12.240 Your pimp?

00:12:13.560 Huh? 0.96

00:12:15.000 Your pimp?

00:12:15.740 You heard it right.

00:12:16.500 Yes. 0.63

00:12:16.720 I think she said pimp.

00:12:17.540 Oh, good times.

00:12:18.640 Pimpin' ain't easy.

00:12:19.580 Pimpin' ain't easy. 0.97

00:12:21.520 Okay, so you then, you previously did proper sex work then? 0.94

00:12:27.260 Correct. 0.99

00:12:27.300 Prostitution? 0.99

00:12:28.120 Correct. 0.96

00:12:28.720 Okay.

00:12:29.360 How long were you doing that for?

00:12:31.540 I started doing that probably 18.

00:12:34.860 18 years old?

00:12:35.620 Yeah.

00:12:35.800 Okay. 0.82

00:12:35.980 And are you still doing that kind of sex work? 0.73

00:12:42.360 Just a little closer to the mic.

00:12:43.980 Very seldom.

00:12:47.000 Very seldom.

00:12:48.140 Okay.

00:12:48.820 But occasionally?

00:12:49.820 Occasionally.

00:12:50.340 And then you're also, you said you do OnlyFans too, correct?

00:12:53.360 Yes.

00:12:53.380 Yep.

00:12:53.660 Do you do traditional corn?

00:12:56.140 Um, I have.

00:12:57.380 I don't do that anymore.

00:12:57.920 Not anymore.

00:12:58.440 But you do have OnlyFans?

00:12:59.720 Correct.

00:13:00.240 Okay, so you're single and you said you've never really been in a relationship?

00:13:04.300 No.

00:13:05.220 Okay.

00:13:06.560 I've wanted to.

00:13:07.860 What is the longest period of time that you've seen a guy?

00:13:13.040 Well, I suppose you're pimp, right?

00:13:14.380 But.

00:13:14.720 Correct.

00:13:15.280 Yeah.

00:13:15.520 I mean, I was really in love with somebody, which is who took my virginity.

00:13:20.320 I was in love with him since like, I'm going to say like 8 to probably 18.

00:13:28.940 And, yep, just never took me seriously.

00:13:32.500 Wait, you said, wait, 8 to?

00:13:34.320 You said.

00:13:35.380 8 to 18.

00:13:36.440 Like, I was in love with somebody.

00:13:37.820 Like, I pursued him that long.

00:13:39.620 8?

00:13:40.320 8.

00:13:40.820 8 years old.

00:13:41.360 How old was he?

00:13:42.360 Sheesh.

00:13:42.940 How old was he?

00:13:44.380 3 years older than me, I think.

00:13:45.420 3 years older?

00:13:46.120 Oh, okay.

00:13:46.600 Yeah, nothing crazy.

00:13:47.660 Yeah, as long as it wasn't like a grooming experience or anything like that.

00:13:50.460 Yeah, you're good.

00:13:51.360 Okay, cool.

00:13:55.300 Welcome to Soft White Underbelly. 0.79

00:13:57.600 I'm your host.

00:13:58.440 What's his name?

00:13:59.020 Mark or something?

00:13:59.820 What's that?

00:14:00.520 Have you been on Soft White Underbelly?

00:14:02.340 No, I've not.

00:14:03.020 This is my first podcast.

00:14:04.260 Really?

00:14:04.620 Yes.

00:14:04.960 You should go on Soft White Underbelly. 0.93

00:14:08.180 I want to go on a lot of podcasts, honestly.

00:14:11.920 Yeah, okay.

00:14:12.560 Well, because he brings on a lot of people with interesting paths, pasts.

00:14:17.380 So, I'll try to get you connected with him if that's something that might interest you.

00:14:21.820 What about you?

00:14:23.160 I'm currently single and I've never been in a committed relationship.

00:14:27.360 Never been.

00:14:28.660 What situation ship?

00:14:30.340 Is there a guy you're talking to right now?

00:14:32.680 No one seriously.

00:14:33.640 Have you, since you've been on the show before, have there been any suitors who have DM'd you?

00:14:39.160 Yes.

00:14:39.700 I got many very nice messages.

00:14:42.780 Really?

00:14:43.260 Yeah.

00:14:43.640 I got a very, like, overwhelmingly nice.

00:14:46.240 And they weren't all just hitting on me.

00:14:48.080 Really?

00:14:48.560 Okay.

00:14:48.800 That's good to hear.

00:14:49.260 A couple of mean ones, though?

00:14:50.840 There were a handful of mean ones.

00:14:52.780 But they were, like, unfounded.

00:14:54.780 It was kind of random stuff.

00:14:55.660 Unfounded.

00:14:56.300 Good word.

00:14:57.040 So, how many suitors DM'd you?

00:15:01.400 A hundred?

00:15:02.300 A hundred?

00:15:02.960 Off that one show?

00:15:03.960 Yeah.

00:15:04.400 Any sugar daddy offers?

00:15:06.060 No.

00:15:06.340 No sugar daddy offers.

00:15:07.860 Oh, okay.

00:15:09.440 Good times.

00:15:10.980 So, nobody really you're talking to, though?

00:15:16.820 Well, I have a friend who's connected me with a couple of friends that she knows that she

00:15:23.120 kind of wants to set me up with, but it's long distance and I'm not interested in starting

00:15:27.420 something long distance.

00:15:29.880 Okay.

00:15:30.860 And have any of the guys who DM'd you, have they offered to fly you out?

00:15:36.340 To, like, Miami or L.A. or any shit like that? 0.74

00:15:39.020 Well, I wouldn't fly to L.A.

00:15:41.480 But have you had the offers?

00:15:44.320 Well, Miami or Vegas, how about that?

00:15:46.560 I had one guy tell me to come to Toronto and then another guy told me to come to Nashville.

00:15:52.440 But they didn't offer to buy my ticket.

00:15:55.080 Okay.

00:15:55.500 Got it.

00:15:56.300 What about you?

00:15:57.920 My longer sleep, I'm in a relationship right now.

00:16:00.280 It's my only boyfriend I've ever had.

00:16:01.480 We've been dating for four years.

00:16:03.240 Oh, congratulations.

00:16:04.380 Thank you.

00:16:04.700 You're welcome.

00:16:06.340 So, I lost my virginity at 13 and I've pretty much had a girlfriend ever since then.

00:16:15.280 Not one girlfriend, multiple girlfriends.

00:16:17.100 I've always had a girlfriend.

00:16:18.080 I've never not had a girlfriend.

00:16:20.040 So.

00:16:21.820 13?

00:16:22.520 Yeah.

00:16:22.900 That's young.

00:16:23.220 9th grade.

00:16:23.740 That's young.

00:16:24.020 9th grade.

00:16:24.240 I had a growth spurt from 8th grade to 9th grade.

00:16:27.240 How tall are you, by the way?

00:16:28.160 6'4".

00:16:28.600 6'4".

00:16:28.960 I am 6'4".

00:16:29.660 You're a chad.

00:16:31.120 I am.

00:16:31.740 You're a chad.

00:16:32.180 Yeah.

00:16:32.440 I get that a lot.

00:16:35.780 But, yeah, man.

00:16:37.800 Life's good.

00:16:38.880 In the dating world.

00:16:41.280 But, I mean, no. 0.99

00:16:42.320 It still sucks. 0.99

00:16:42.920 It still sucks. 1.00

00:16:43.920 Women are awful sometimes. 1.00

00:16:45.820 Most of the time. 1.00

00:16:46.660 Most of the time.

00:16:47.520 But, I love them.

00:16:48.380 So, whatever.

00:16:49.860 You know.

00:16:50.420 Okay.

00:16:51.300 So, are you currently in a relationship?

00:16:53.860 Always.

00:16:55.300 You have.

00:16:55.840 How many girls are you seeing right now? 0.98

00:16:59.200 Uh.

00:17:03.500 Like.

00:17:04.700 Two?

00:17:05.320 Like, two and a half.

00:17:06.680 Two and a half.

00:17:07.360 Yeah.

00:17:07.640 Two and a half.

00:17:08.100 So, one is oral.

00:17:10.060 Well, all right.

00:17:10.680 Like, one is like.

00:17:12.140 She hasn't.

00:17:12.960 She hasn't been.

00:17:13.920 What's the word?

00:17:14.840 Like.

00:17:15.240 She's not a female? 1.00

00:17:15.840 She hasn't been promoted.

00:17:16.740 Not promoted.

00:17:17.360 Yeah.

00:17:17.540 She hasn't been promoted to.

00:17:18.560 Oh, man.

00:17:18.880 She hasn't been promoted to, like.

00:17:20.240 You know.

00:17:20.780 Official.

00:17:22.540 Girlfriend.

00:17:23.420 She's not under my protection.

00:17:25.000 If you will.

00:17:26.620 Under your protection.

00:17:27.680 She's auditioning.

00:17:29.020 Yeah.

00:17:29.320 Yeah.

00:17:29.460 She's still.

00:17:29.860 No.

00:17:30.100 Yeah.

00:17:30.240 She's still on probation. 0.55

00:17:31.180 She's still on probation. 0.55

00:17:31.920 She's on.

00:17:32.500 There's a probation.

00:17:33.500 Probationary period.

00:17:33.740 Probationary period.

00:17:34.520 How long is.

00:17:35.260 How long is the probationary period?

00:17:37.720 Uh.

00:17:38.720 Ooh.

00:17:39.640 That's tough.

00:17:40.560 I would say.

00:17:41.740 Probation last.

00:17:44.840 I don't know, man.

00:17:45.640 I run a tight ship.

00:17:46.520 You gotta get.

00:17:47.120 You got like.

00:17:48.960 You got like.

00:17:49.740 Three, four months. 0.99

00:17:52.320 To like not fuck up. 0.99

00:17:53.700 Oh. 0.99

00:17:54.640 And then it's.

00:17:55.340 And then it's over.

00:17:57.140 So.

00:17:57.740 Have you always.

00:18:00.200 Dated multiple women?

00:18:01.400 Or would you say.

00:18:02.200 You've had periods of monogamy?

00:18:03.420 Or.

00:18:03.540 Oh.

00:18:04.220 I'll try.

00:18:04.660 I tried it when I was like.

00:18:06.540 Twenty.

00:18:07.760 But I was like.

00:18:09.000 Man.

00:18:09.300 This is.

00:18:10.000 I almost said the art word. 0.95

00:18:11.420 This is ridiculous. 0.98

00:18:13.020 Like. 0.95

00:18:13.380 I just.

00:18:13.920 No.

00:18:14.160 Look.

00:18:14.280 I got all this testosterone.

00:18:15.540 Like.

00:18:15.680 Why would I do.

00:18:16.140 Like.

00:18:16.580 No guy.

00:18:17.560 Anywhere.

00:18:19.120 Works.

00:18:20.120 Forty.

00:18:20.760 Fifty.

00:18:21.300 Sixty.

00:18:21.600 Sixty.

00:18:21.640 Hours a week.

00:18:22.400 To be like.

00:18:23.180 Oh.

00:18:23.560 I just want to. 0.99

00:18:24.800 Just want to smash one girl. 1.00

00:18:26.200 Forever. 0.99

00:18:27.220 Like.

00:18:28.280 I want her to come. 0.64

00:18:29.460 Tell me to take out the trash.

00:18:30.760 Like.

00:18:31.060 No. 1.00

00:18:31.460 That's stupid. 1.00

00:18:32.000 So. 1.00

00:18:32.520 I'm not doing that.

00:18:33.160 No.

00:18:33.360 You're supposed to do that by yourself.

00:18:34.840 What?

00:18:35.160 Take out the trash?

00:18:35.860 Yeah.

00:18:35.880 She shouldn't ask you to take out the trash.

00:18:37.340 She should do it right?

00:18:38.420 No.

00:18:38.920 Men should do it. 0.89

00:18:40.000 Actually.

00:18:40.420 I had an ex of mine tell me.

00:18:41.680 See.

00:18:41.820 You would be on probation.

00:18:43.520 You're on probation.

00:18:44.580 Yeah.

00:18:44.900 You would be on probation.

00:18:45.600 Probation.

00:18:45.740 I used to take out the trash.

00:18:46.880 I used to take out the trash.

00:18:47.980 And.

00:18:48.400 My ex told me that.

00:18:49.680 Whenever he had somebody do that.

00:18:51.180 Like a woman do that. 1.00

00:18:51.960 He didn't love her anymore.

00:18:53.580 He like told me that.

00:18:54.440 And we broke up a little later.

00:18:54.740 Well that guy was weird. 0.94

00:18:55.760 You're dating a weirdo.

00:18:57.940 This is why I'm single. 0.93

00:18:59.280 I can't.

00:19:00.120 I'm mean to guys.

00:19:01.620 Unfortunately.

00:19:01.900 You're mean to guys?

00:19:02.760 Sometimes.

00:19:03.380 It depends on my mood.

00:19:05.560 Explain that.

00:19:06.440 How are you mean to men?

00:19:07.740 Well the thing is.

00:19:08.640 You know.

00:19:09.160 I mean.

00:19:09.520 I'm not in my 20s anymore.

00:19:11.020 So I've had experiences with different types of dating.

00:19:14.860 Even though I've always been in relationships.

00:19:17.340 And then.

00:19:17.780 You know.

00:19:18.180 It's like.

00:19:18.640 I was dating in Los Angeles.

00:19:20.080 So I've seen a good amount of different species.

00:19:25.040 Okay.

00:19:25.840 Of.

00:19:26.500 Species.

00:19:27.340 Species.

00:19:27.880 I think that's illegal.

00:19:29.280 So you think you could be mean to me?

00:19:30.500 That might be illegal.

00:19:31.460 No.

00:19:32.060 Horses.

00:19:32.460 I mean.

00:19:32.540 I don't.

00:19:32.740 I'm just not.

00:19:33.580 I'm not mean like.

00:19:35.220 Hey. 0.89

00:19:35.700 F off. 0.66

00:19:36.660 Or anything like that.

00:19:37.580 It's just.

00:19:38.000 I don't have.

00:19:38.440 Lizards.

00:19:39.220 Patience.

00:19:40.220 Oh.

00:19:40.580 I don't have patience.

00:19:41.800 You got to speak into the mic.

00:19:43.340 Patience.

00:19:44.040 Thank you for dropping your octaves a few there.

00:19:46.580 Okay.

00:19:47.940 So you don't have patience for men. 0.82

00:19:50.080 I don't have patience for boys.

00:19:55.040 Boys.

00:19:55.720 Correct.

00:19:56.620 Thank you.

00:19:57.400 So I have a theory that women that have never played organized sports. 1.00

00:20:06.020 Either gaming.

00:20:07.080 We'll say band.

00:20:07.940 If their dad wasn't in their life.

00:20:10.620 Oh.

00:20:10.780 Sorry.

00:20:11.580 That they make horrible girlfriends.

00:20:15.200 That weren't in organized sports.

00:20:16.900 Yeah.

00:20:17.240 They have to be in organized sports.

00:20:18.500 If their dad wasn't around.

00:20:19.620 Maybe band.

00:20:21.000 Like a.

00:20:21.240 Like a.

00:20:21.640 What is.

00:20:22.080 A discipline of some sort.

00:20:23.140 What is.

00:20:23.600 I'm just interested to know.

00:20:24.740 What's the connection between having a dad and organized sports?

00:20:27.980 Oh.

00:20:29.140 I'm not even disagreeing.

00:20:30.220 I just want to know.

00:20:30.620 What's your parable.

00:20:31.160 No.

00:20:31.260 It's because of.

00:20:31.740 Because of being in a relationship.

00:20:33.000 You have to have patience and discipline.

00:20:35.260 So.

00:20:35.780 Okay.

00:20:35.940 If your dad wasn't around to discipline you.

00:20:38.380 That's that.

00:20:39.000 If you've never been in organized sports.

00:20:40.360 Or a team.

00:20:42.020 Like.

00:20:42.600 Yeah.

00:20:42.960 You don't have patience.

00:20:43.780 Are you saying that moms. 0.94

00:20:45.400 Are worse disciplinarians than dads?

00:20:48.680 Like.

00:20:49.120 Is that your point?

00:20:49.780 Yes.

00:20:49.860 Yes.

00:20:50.100 Yes.

00:20:50.200 Absolutely.

00:20:50.480 You think so?

00:20:51.000 I know so.

00:20:51.840 But women are the people that are like. 1.00

00:20:53.780 Actually rearing the children.

00:20:55.280 And have them majority of the time.

00:20:56.660 I do think dads play a very important role.

00:20:58.680 But I don't think like.

00:20:59.680 As disciplinarians.

00:21:00.980 True.

00:21:01.380 But they do more than that.

00:21:03.120 Dads are also supposed to show their daughters.

00:21:05.040 How they're supposed to be loved and treated.

00:21:07.220 And to like.

00:21:07.940 Set their boundaries.

00:21:09.100 And all that kind of stuff.

00:21:10.160 As well.

00:21:10.700 So I do agree with you.

00:21:11.840 That like.

00:21:12.440 A strong.

00:21:13.200 Both paternal and maternal figure.

00:21:15.420 Are important in self-development.

00:21:17.400 But as far as like.

00:21:18.460 Mom's not being capable. 1.00

00:21:19.940 My mom whooped my ass. 1.00

00:21:21.320 So like. 1.00

00:21:21.960 Well no no no.

00:21:22.560 My dad never spanked me.

00:21:24.000 Ever.

00:21:24.460 Ever.

00:21:24.660 Ever.

00:21:24.760 I didn't say they weren't capable.

00:21:25.380 I was like.

00:21:25.780 Baby girl.

00:21:26.740 I didn't say they weren't capable.

00:21:28.100 You said they're worse at it.

00:21:29.520 But it's like.

00:21:29.900 My dad literally.

00:21:30.960 Like.

00:21:31.880 Would never.

00:21:32.760 Ever spank me.

00:21:33.720 And my mom.

00:21:34.460 And I'm thankful for her.

00:21:36.080 So why do you.

00:21:36.820 Equate discipline to like.

00:21:38.800 Violence.

00:21:39.420 And spankings. 1.00

00:21:39.960 It's not necessarily violence.

00:21:41.160 We could go into the whole like.

00:21:43.480 The whole debate.

00:21:44.520 Of whether it's like.

00:21:45.740 Okay to like. 0.98

00:21:46.680 Spank your kids. 1.00

00:21:47.440 And whatnot.

00:21:47.900 But that's kind of a whole different topic.

00:21:49.340 But discipline is just rules.

00:21:50.620 Yeah.

00:21:51.000 But obviously.

00:21:51.700 I'm using like.

00:21:52.540 Spanking as a representation. 0.99

00:21:54.480 For discipline.

00:21:55.360 Not necessarily saying.

00:21:56.660 That's only the way.

00:21:57.760 To discipline your children.

00:21:59.060 I also think.

00:21:59.680 Boys are more likely. 0.99

00:22:00.360 To be coddled by their moms.

00:22:02.200 And like.

00:22:02.600 Our mothers.

00:22:03.040 Like will discipline us harder.

00:22:04.640 Than they would their sons.

00:22:06.240 Which is why.

00:22:06.960 It's also important.

00:22:07.640 For a man to have. 0.93

00:22:09.060 Or a male to have like. 0.60

00:22:10.640 A father in his life.

00:22:12.120 But overall.

00:22:12.780 I agree with you.

00:22:13.700 But I get the connection.

00:22:14.760 With team sports.

00:22:15.520 Being like a team player.

00:22:17.060 But I guess.

00:22:17.660 My question is.

00:22:19.160 If you are asking.

00:22:20.280 These things of your women. 0.80

00:22:21.880 That are on probation.

00:22:23.120 What do you provide to them.

00:22:24.820 In return.

00:22:25.400 As part of being.

00:22:26.560 You know.

00:22:26.920 Captain of the team.

00:22:27.940 If you're being the leader.

00:22:29.580 What do I provide?

00:22:31.120 Yeah.

00:22:31.920 He's a 6'4 chat.

00:22:33.880 I mean.

00:22:34.780 Looks fade.

00:22:35.640 People get hunches in their back. 0.74

00:22:37.160 Black don't crack. 0.92

00:22:38.540 Right? 0.99

00:22:39.680 Right?

00:22:40.200 It does not crack.

00:22:41.280 It does not crack.

00:22:41.880 No crack.

00:22:42.660 Zero crack.

00:22:44.480 What they get.

00:22:45.040 They get to be with me.

00:22:46.120 I mean.

00:22:46.340 You get protection.

00:22:48.160 What do you offer?

00:22:48.660 Safety for one.

00:22:52.740 I think that is one thing.

00:22:54.380 That is very.

00:22:55.380 Under.

00:22:57.080 Undervalued.

00:22:57.840 In relationships.

00:22:59.340 Is the safety you get.

00:23:00.360 You essentially have a bodyguard.

00:23:01.800 When you go out.

00:23:02.500 Into the world.

00:23:03.140 I mean.

00:23:03.960 Sorry.

00:23:04.500 No.

00:23:04.740 No.

00:23:04.760 Go ahead.

00:23:04.960 I don't completely agree with that.

00:23:06.360 Because like.

00:23:07.260 Well it depends on who you date.

00:23:08.320 Yeah.

00:23:08.620 It depends on the person.

00:23:09.740 Like it's not every guy.

00:23:10.720 Who's going to protect you.

00:23:12.220 That you're going to be with.

00:23:13.340 And then.

00:23:13.700 You shouldn't.

00:23:14.820 Be with that man.

00:23:15.680 Right.

00:23:16.000 If you can't protect you.

00:23:16.680 Yeah.

00:23:17.200 Yeah.

00:23:17.440 And also.

00:23:17.820 Before you move.

00:23:18.840 We move on to the subject.

00:23:20.880 My dad passed away.

00:23:22.000 When I was 11.

00:23:22.680 And I've never.

00:23:24.180 Participated in any school sports.

00:23:26.040 Or anything like that.

00:23:27.240 No.

00:23:27.540 He didn't say that.

00:23:28.840 There was a correlation.

00:23:29.840 Between having a father.

00:23:31.460 And participation in school sports.

00:23:33.480 No.

00:23:33.820 He said.

00:23:35.160 You were just listing.

00:23:36.600 He's listing things.

00:23:37.280 But I'm saying like.

00:23:37.940 I don't meet.

00:23:38.820 Both of those criteria.

00:23:40.260 Oh.

00:23:40.640 I see.

00:23:41.020 I see what you're saying.

00:23:41.960 Let me just.

00:23:42.740 Do a couple things here.

00:23:45.240 Guys.

00:23:45.760 Just.

00:23:45.960 Just.

00:23:46.280 Since we shifted it.

00:23:47.240 I just want to do a reminder.

00:23:48.580 On the super chats.

00:23:49.700 And donations.

00:23:51.020 We've boosted.

00:23:52.120 The read.

00:23:53.340 Trigger.

00:23:54.040 To 100.

00:23:55.160 So read.

00:23:55.680 Answered.

00:23:56.020 The trigger to 100.

00:23:57.200 TTS is now set to 200.

00:23:59.020 I just want a smooth show.

00:24:01.200 Last show.

00:24:01.840 It was just a bit overwhelming.

00:24:02.800 With all the super chats.

00:24:03.660 So.

00:24:04.520 I might lower it again.

00:24:05.300 But just.

00:24:05.800 As you guys are kind of.

00:24:07.200 Coming into the stream.

00:24:08.200 I just want to let you guys know.

00:24:09.600 So I just want to also.

00:24:10.860 But with that.

00:24:11.600 I will be able to get to the read ones faster.

00:24:13.580 So Davon Jackson.

00:24:14.720 Thank you for the 100 man.

00:24:15.460 Appreciate it. 1.00

00:24:16.600 Stop being an asshole. 1.00

00:24:17.560 And answer the questions asked to you. 1.00

00:24:19.020 You're not cool or clever.

00:24:20.040 Or fighting for women's rights. 1.00

00:24:21.860 You're just being a dickhead. 0.99

00:24:24.080 Who's that directed to? 1.00

00:24:25.360 To me.

00:24:27.080 Who do you.

00:24:27.720 Who do you think that's directed to?

00:24:29.380 I don't even know.

00:24:30.440 I don't know.

00:24:31.120 I don't know.

00:24:31.740 I don't know.

00:24:32.300 I think it's related to the age thing.

00:24:34.520 Probably you.

00:24:36.320 Oh.

00:24:37.160 Wait.

00:24:37.480 What?

00:24:38.120 Oh me?

00:24:38.760 Yeah.

00:24:39.060 I don't fight for women's rights. 1.00

00:24:41.240 I only fight for women's wrongs. 1.00

00:24:42.920 That's all I'm here for.

00:24:43.980 To be honest.

00:24:44.180 What are women's wrongs? 1.00

00:24:46.140 Anything wrong.

00:24:47.240 I do not fight for anything.

00:24:49.680 Being promiscuous?

00:24:50.040 I don't fight for equality.

00:24:52.200 I believe that.

00:24:54.360 It was so much better in the 70s.

00:24:56.320 When men went to war.

00:24:57.380 And when women just like sat in the house. 1.00

00:25:00.040 And got poems sent to them.

00:25:02.440 I'm not sure if you're being facetious.

00:25:04.680 I am a little bit.

00:25:05.980 A little bit facetious.

00:25:06.960 A little bit.

00:25:07.480 Okay.

00:25:08.060 A little satirical.

00:25:09.180 All right.

00:25:10.280 That's wonderful.

00:25:11.540 All right.

00:25:11.900 Davon Jackson.

00:25:12.680 Thank you for the $100 soup chat.

00:25:14.880 Stop staring at the chat. 1.00

00:25:16.160 You look ridiculous. 1.00

00:25:17.080 Pay attention to the conversation. 0.99

00:25:18.400 You know, Davon, thank you so much for the support, man.

00:25:20.140 I want to give a big shout out and a heartfelt thank you to Davon, who's been one of our long-term supporters for months now, before we even really started picking up steam.

00:25:31.840 So, Davon, thank you for your continued support week after week, month after month.

00:25:37.300 I really appreciate you constantly supporting and being a patron of the show.

00:25:42.560 Thank you, man.

00:25:43.680 Okay.

00:25:44.580 And we can, oh, yeah, pull that one up while we have it.

00:25:47.560 Yo, Scott Aragon.

00:25:48.560 Thank you for the 100, man.

00:25:49.240 And 85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes.

00:25:53.160 Fathers keep their sons out of prisons and daughters off the stripper pole. 1.00

00:25:57.780 Well, Scott, that is profound and true.

00:26:03.240 Correlation does not imply causation.

00:26:06.620 So, first of all, show me the studies and then show me how they gather that data.

00:26:10.440 I mean, it's the majority of men in prisons were raised in single mother households. 0.68

00:26:17.380 That's negating all the other environmental factors.

00:26:19.760 Sure, there's other factors.

00:26:22.460 It's not a guarantee if you're raised by a single mother that you're going to become a criminal.

00:26:27.160 I see that it's more likely if you use that statistic to kind of boost your argument,

00:26:32.040 but that statistic in and of itself isn't a good argument.

00:26:35.720 What do you mean?

00:26:36.280 It's not a strong argument.

00:26:37.600 It's one facet to a very complicated social structure.

00:26:41.340 Well, actually, one of the strongest predictors of criminality, aside from socioeconomics,

00:26:50.260 is growing up in a one-parent, or it's not even necessarily one-parent household.

00:26:55.340 It's growing up without a father.

00:26:58.140 It's a major predictor.

00:26:59.840 It can.

00:27:00.440 Like, there are indicators, and you can pull out these, like, data points, of course.

00:27:05.100 Like, you can say, like, you know, if you wear a bra to bed, if 51% of women that wear a bra to bed get breast cancer,

00:27:13.240 you can say wearing a bra to bed causes breast cancer. 0.98

00:27:15.700 But you're not, like, looking at, okay, what's the air quality like in that area?

00:27:19.000 Why were those people placed in that area?

00:27:20.620 What kind of, like, policing is around that area that causes them to stay in that area more?

00:27:25.620 What kind of policing causes breast cancer, though? 1.00

00:27:26.880 I think that they're...

00:27:28.140 What?

00:27:28.320 That's not what I'm saying.

00:27:33.100 Yeah, not what I'm saying at all.

00:27:35.820 But my point is... 0.99

00:27:36.740 We're going to be the dumbest thing I've seen today. 0.89

00:27:38.000 Regardless of the example, my point is that one data point, even if you can pull out data points and say, 0.51

00:27:45.760 hey, this is, like, more likely in this scenario, true, but that doesn't cause it...

00:27:50.640 Or correlation does not imply causation.

00:27:52.460 There's a ton of other factors.

00:27:53.720 But you can...

00:27:54.380 Okay, removing all the stats, and they have done studies on this, and, you know, they take quite a bit of biographical information

00:28:01.780 from, you know, prisoners upon intake, and, you know, they've done studies on this.

00:28:07.300 Removing all that, though, I think it's just almost common knowledge that it's better to grow up with two parents versus one.

00:28:14.420 I actually agree with you guys.

00:28:17.380 And just because I might have a counterpoint and maybe a little devil's advocate doesn't mean I agree with the overall point

00:28:22.780 that a two-parent household is better and creates more well-rounded people.

00:28:27.000 However, like, it's just not a good...

00:28:30.220 It's not a strong argument, and, like, it's an incorrect use of data.

00:28:34.360 But it's a fact.

00:28:35.740 You can't disagree with a fact.

00:28:37.520 It's not a fact.

00:28:38.400 It's just a data point.

00:28:39.360 It's a fact.

00:28:40.140 The data point in and of itself is a fact, but the conclusion that you're drawing from the data point

00:28:44.180 isn't a fact.

00:28:45.120 That's a hypothesis.

00:28:46.800 That's like saying all the people in the NBA, like, the percentage of NBA players that are black are 75%.

00:28:53.480 That's a fact.

00:28:54.340 It doesn't matter.

00:28:57.140 It's more...

00:28:58.460 But being black isn't the overall factor of why they're in the NBA, though.

00:29:02.260 You see what I mean?

00:29:02.960 Like, their height, their talent, their athletic ability.

00:29:06.160 Why is it irrelevant?

00:29:06.780 I'm not saying it's irrelevant.

00:29:08.220 I'm just saying...

00:29:08.940 I agree with the overall point.

00:29:10.240 I'm just saying it's a poor argument to make, to spend $100 to put on the show.

00:29:14.820 I am lost.

00:29:15.880 I have no idea what you're talking about.

00:29:18.080 So, do you think...

00:29:19.080 Do you think the following statement is wrong?

00:29:22.680 That...

00:29:23.160 I mean, I think the statement is essentially...

00:29:26.320 I mean, do you disagree that the majority of people who are in prisons grew up without fathers?

00:29:30.980 Do you disagree with that?

00:29:34.480 If that's what the actual...

00:29:35.920 If you took a poll and that's what the numbers came up to, then I don't disagree with that.

00:29:40.080 I would disagree with the statement that's saying they're in prison because they don't have fathers.

00:29:45.480 That's my point.

00:29:46.860 No, that's not the argument.

00:29:48.860 That's not what we're saying.

00:29:49.780 That's what he said on there.

00:29:51.360 He said...

00:29:51.980 He said...

00:29:52.020 I'll pull it back up.

00:29:52.460 He was using that information as a...

00:29:55.980 To strengthen the argument that he was trying to make where he's trying to say that, oh,

00:30:02.160 if you're not on a team sport and if you don't have a dad, you're a bad girlfriend.

00:30:05.740 That's literally what he said.

00:30:06.900 So, okay, he said...

00:30:07.720 He just said that a double-parent household makes it less likely for them to go to prison.

00:30:13.060 I've met people who went to prison and whose fathers went to prison and whose fathers' fathers went to prison

00:30:17.880 and they're passing down a legacy torch of going to prison.

00:30:21.060 So, I don't know.

00:30:21.920 It's a generalization.

00:30:23.160 That's what we're trying to say.

00:30:24.280 Interception does not make the rule.

00:30:26.640 Correlation does not imply causing.

00:30:27.860 But we live in a world of generalizations.

00:30:29.480 This is a great statistics class, but I think ultimately...

00:30:32.880 Let's get back to dating.

00:30:33.860 Can you cut out the sarcasm?

00:30:35.560 We don't need the attitude.

00:30:37.080 Let's just get back to dating.

00:30:38.080 Why do you think I'm attituding?

00:30:39.700 This is literally my personality.

00:30:41.240 I promise you.

00:30:41.860 If you think this is mean or rude, I'm not going to sugarcoat myself.

00:30:45.380 But, okay, if we're talking about something, we don't need the extra...

00:30:50.020 Okay.

00:30:50.680 Okay.

00:30:51.040 Okay, please talk about it.

00:30:52.100 Can you pull that back up, Eric?

00:30:53.200 Eric, so fathers keep their sons out of prison and their daughters off the pole.

00:31:00.340 Now, if you grow up without a father, it's not like your future is written in...

00:31:07.400 Like, you can still become a functioning member of society.

00:31:12.060 Absolutely.

00:31:12.640 It's not a guarantee that if you don't have a father, your life's going to be terrible

00:31:15.840 and you can be a wonderful person.

00:31:18.340 However, it helps to have a father.

00:31:21.740 I agree with that statement.

00:31:23.400 My whole point...

00:31:23.680 My whole point...

00:31:24.240 And we can get back to the dating show after this.

00:31:26.540 My whole point is that is a poor example or a poor argument to say that, like, it's just

00:31:34.680 picking one data point rather than, like, a whole inclusive, like, scope of what's actually

00:31:39.660 going on that put people in prison and put girls on the pole. 1.00

00:31:43.920 So, it's like, you're drawing a straight line when it's really a zigzag, is all I'm saying.

00:31:49.120 Like, and it's just, like, kind of...

00:31:51.000 I don't want to say an ignorant statement, but it's just, like, an obtuse statement.

00:31:54.920 I also want to say... 0.59

00:31:56.000 Because, you know, we have women here that... 1.00

00:31:58.080 I put myself on the pole for exercise.

00:32:00.840 Like, I do pole fitness.

00:32:02.700 And those classes are so expensive.

00:32:05.340 So, I give strippers so much credit because they are athletes.

00:32:10.820 I'm sorry.

00:32:11.360 If you've never climbed up on a pole, pulled yourself upside down, you don't know what working

00:32:17.100 out is.

00:32:17.660 What are you talking about?

00:32:18.460 What?

00:32:18.760 No one says stripper.

00:32:19.560 It's crazy.

00:32:20.480 Like, so, like, women... 1.00

00:32:22.120 Am I in a parallel universe?

00:32:22.960 No, we're talking about, oh, women are putting themselves on a pole. 1.00

00:32:28.340 Well, there are women that purposely want to go on the pole. 1.00

00:32:32.600 The pole's fun as F, you know, for whatever. 0.98

00:32:37.440 However you want to do it.

00:32:39.940 It's like, you know, and my thought on not having a father, it's based on choices, okay,

00:32:49.540 for the individual and education, honestly.

00:32:52.440 Because, you know, I've met people that did not have a good background.

00:32:57.920 However, they made the choice to go a different route than the, you know, the spiral, right?

00:33:07.740 It's based on education.

00:33:11.820 And it's not just, like, books.

00:33:13.260 It's, like, getting the right information.

00:33:16.420 Because you could get information from a friend.

00:33:19.460 Like, a real friend would tell you what's up.

00:33:22.580 Like, a bad friend would be like, yeah, go for it. 0.94

00:33:25.980 When it's, like, don't fucking, like, you know, not really there looking out for you. 0.92

00:33:32.200 So, you know, and that's just. 0.95

00:33:35.620 You're saying a lot of words.

00:33:37.360 It's a lot of words, Salas. 0.74

00:33:38.340 So, you're just basically saying.

00:33:39.700 But I get what you're saying.

00:33:40.320 I think what you're saying is the why.

00:33:42.880 You're saying the why.

00:33:44.160 The why is irrelevant.

00:33:45.680 What do you mean?

00:33:46.360 Like, you're saying.

00:33:46.920 You're talking about why these people are where they are.

00:33:49.720 We're just saying this is where they are.

00:33:51.480 This is the numbers.

00:33:52.360 And this is the reality of the world.

00:33:55.200 It's choices.

00:33:56.280 It's the individual's choice.

00:33:58.440 And also, there are people.

00:34:00.560 You do this three days a week?

00:34:02.160 Two days a week.

00:34:02.760 Two days a week.

00:34:04.320 I believe it's choices.

00:34:06.140 It's not because they have a father and a mother.

00:34:09.100 Because sometimes kids are screwed up with both parents.

00:34:12.840 I'm sorry.

00:34:13.820 Okay, let's move. 0.60

00:34:14.620 We're going to.

00:34:15.280 Last thing.

00:34:15.960 And then we're going to move on.

00:34:16.500 Yeah, last thing.

00:34:16.620 I think what she's just trying to say is that regardless of your environmental factors,

00:34:20.220 no matter how much they may weigh on you, you still have individual agency and choice.

00:34:24.620 Is what she's saying.

00:34:25.240 She just said it with a bunch of different examples.

00:34:27.380 So, I hear you.

00:34:28.880 Yeah, I could come up with a bunch of different things.

00:34:31.200 And I'm not just smacking my gums.

00:34:34.240 Okay.

00:34:34.720 Back to the dating show.

00:34:35.560 Back to the dating show.

00:34:37.200 Totally a virgin.

00:34:38.100 Explain that shirt.

00:34:43.660 I liked it, so I bought it.

00:34:45.040 But you're totally a virgin.

00:34:47.840 Totally.

00:34:48.640 Are you not a virgin?

00:34:50.460 It's like the same concept of me saying I've never been in a relationship before.

00:34:56.920 That's, I'm totally a virgin.

00:35:00.260 Who's in a situation ship?

00:35:03.520 Okay, so.

00:35:04.480 That's why you weren't one.

00:35:05.520 Coming back to you, you said that you've had your longest anything was one week.

00:35:10.380 I mean, I think it depends on, like, what your definition.

00:35:13.720 You said talking to someone.

00:35:14.900 Like, we are fresh out of high school, so we have a very different, like, relationship

00:35:18.940 to the, you know, how relationships work with people.

00:35:23.260 I never dated anybody in high school, and I never really spent, like, a considerable

00:35:26.600 amount of time talking to someone in, like, a dating kind of way.

00:35:30.120 Well, you were, you go to UCSB, correct?

00:35:32.140 Yeah.

00:35:32.300 So, you were here for the fall semester.

00:35:34.380 Is it quarter or semester at UCSB?

00:35:36.080 Quarter.

00:35:36.760 Okay, quarter.

00:35:37.860 So, that starts in, like, September?

00:35:40.380 Yeah.

00:35:40.760 Okay, and we're now in March.

00:35:42.180 That's, what, eight, seven, wait, six, seven months?

00:35:46.220 So, I mean, in that period of time, you know, UCSB is the number one party school in the

00:35:54.180 U.S.

00:35:54.840 There's parties every single weekend.

00:35:58.320 Just you two, actually.

00:35:59.420 How frequently do you guys party?

00:36:01.660 Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday?

00:36:03.500 Usually just Friday, Saturday.

00:36:05.340 But, I mean, it varies.

00:36:06.320 Some weekends, we don't go out at all.

00:36:07.520 Other weekends, you know, three days in a row.

00:36:09.660 Also, like, different definitions of, I guess, because, like, sometimes we'll go to parties.

00:36:13.200 Sometimes we're just hanging out with smaller groups of people.

00:36:15.880 But, again, I don't think it's necessarily, like, just going out to parties as a purpose

00:36:19.580 of, like, finding a relationship or whatever.

00:36:21.600 Like, we met a lot of cool people doing that.

00:36:23.540 No, I'm not saying that you need to go to these environments to necessarily find a relationship.

00:36:27.880 But the longest period of time you've ever talked to a guy, whether that's in college

00:36:31.600 or prior was one week, correct?

00:36:34.180 I mean, that was a generalization.

00:36:35.320 If I really think about it, I might have had someone who I was kind of interested in

00:36:38.260 that I talked to for a little bit longer than that.

00:36:40.380 But nothing to the point where I was like, I'm texting this person constantly.

00:36:44.000 I think that we're going to be in a relationship.

00:36:45.560 And so, kind of like, do you have a sense of what you're looking for?

00:36:48.920 As of right now, I don't.

00:36:50.220 I think still I'm just a very busy person.

00:36:53.840 And so, just not right now, no.

00:36:56.760 Okay.

00:36:57.300 So, when were, are you currently seeing someone right now?

00:37:03.380 No.

00:37:04.020 Are you currently hooking up with someone right now? 0.61

00:37:05.960 No.

00:37:06.360 When's the last time you hooked up with someone?

00:37:09.040 I think the last time I kissed someone was a couple of weeks ago.

00:37:12.520 That's not really what I mean by hook up, but.

00:37:14.740 Hook up, I don't know, probably a while ago.

00:37:17.720 It's been a minute?

00:37:18.380 Been a minute?

00:37:18.820 Yeah.

00:37:19.020 Okay, busy with school, you know.

00:37:20.300 Busy with school, I feel it, I feel it.

00:37:21.700 And what about you?

00:37:22.900 Are you talking to somebody right now?

00:37:24.280 No.

00:37:25.180 No.

00:37:26.140 I don't know.

00:37:27.040 But you party every weekend, right?

00:37:28.760 Yeah, I party every weekend, but that doesn't mean I'm getting with guys every weekend.

00:37:31.180 No, of course not.

00:37:31.920 But I mean, there's certainly, you know, like I said, UCSB, number one party school,

00:37:35.800 it's definitely quite a bit of a hook up culture.

00:37:37.840 I'm sure you guys would agree.

00:37:39.200 There's a crazy hook up culture here.

00:37:41.500 And it does seem, I've heard from both men and women,

00:37:43.300 that it seems to be, at least for people that live in this area,

00:37:46.680 it's hard for people to find relationships because everyone just wants to hook up, right?

00:37:50.620 Absolutely.

00:37:51.060 I mean, you brought up the fact that we've been here for, you know, six, seven months, whatnot.

00:37:55.360 But within that time frame, I have met a very small handful of people

00:38:01.500 who have expressed wanting a relationship in any kind.

00:38:05.060 The hook up culture is very prevalent here.

00:38:06.680 People don't want relationships here.

00:38:07.460 They don't want relationships.

00:38:08.280 People don't want relationships here.

00:38:08.800 Do you want a relationship?

00:38:10.400 No.

00:38:10.600 I mean, I just got out of one.

00:38:12.080 Right.

00:38:12.360 Two months ago, you said?

00:38:13.320 Yeah.

00:38:14.040 So jumping into something serious right now is just not really desirable for me.

00:38:20.080 Okay.

00:38:20.460 Got it.

00:38:21.520 So would you say you're kind of just doing your own thing?

00:38:26.320 Do you occasionally will do hookups or not really?

00:38:29.240 I mean, yeah, I have here and there.

00:38:31.580 But again, not really.

00:38:32.660 It's getting over a recent breakup and stuff.

00:38:35.400 Like I haven't really been putting myself out there.

00:38:37.080 Has there been a rebound?

00:38:37.740 Um, there was like one person I was seeing for like a very short period of time,

00:38:43.020 but I don't really talk to them anymore.

00:38:44.960 And what about you?

00:38:45.920 Any hookups here and there?

00:38:48.040 A couple.

00:38:48.520 Yeah.

00:38:48.740 A couple here and there.

00:38:49.780 Nothing super serious, but.

00:38:51.580 I have a question.

00:38:52.740 I'm, I'm very curious.

00:38:54.840 How do guys like you're around your age?

00:38:58.480 How do they talk to you guys?

00:39:01.080 Because that's the funny thing is that they don't.

00:39:04.240 I have gotten approached at a party maybe twice since being here.

00:39:07.800 Men and Ila Vista don't come up here.

00:39:08.840 Men don't approach us here.

00:39:11.640 I have.

00:39:13.060 Which, you know, it's, I find funny because I've, there's so many beautiful women here 0.99

00:39:17.560 in Ila Vista.

00:39:18.840 Honestly, I think that might be the problem.

00:39:20.540 Yeah.

00:39:20.740 There's so many of us here.

00:39:22.140 But, um, no, I've, me and my friends, like we never really get approached at parties.

00:39:26.680 So even the men who do come up and talk to us, they're, um.

00:39:29.500 You've been approached only twice.

00:39:30.720 I mean, that I can think of.

00:39:32.040 I mean, you can have conversations with people, but just like a guy coming up to you being

00:39:34.960 like, hey, can I get your number?

00:39:35.740 I didn't mean to interrupt you there.

00:39:37.000 You said, but the men who do approach us, you were about to say.

00:39:39.980 Um, I mean, it's again, very rare, but the ones who have approached me were like very,

00:39:45.640 very incoherent and very, very drunk.

00:39:47.800 I couldn't really hold, um, like a clear conversation with them.

00:39:51.560 So it's kind of iffy if it even like counts.

00:39:54.800 I think the biggest difference from when I was growing up to the generation now is I

00:40:01.220 remember being in, uh, eighth grade.

00:40:03.980 They, we used to have, uh, used to go home from school.

00:40:06.600 They used to have chat rooms that you could call and you would call the chat room.

00:40:10.700 You would enter the room and you would just talk to people.

00:40:13.120 You don't know where the, you don't know where they are.

00:40:15.220 And you would just, no, no, this is like an actual, no, no, no.

00:40:19.920 Like, um, I'm from Memphis and we, yeah, there was like a, yeah, there was a number you would

00:40:26.100 call and then you would just enter the chat and then you would just talk. 0.95

00:40:29.440 You might be just talking shit the whole time, but you might, might meet a girl. 0.99

00:40:32.260 You just talk to a girl and that's, that's all you did was talk. 0.99

00:40:36.540 Was it randomized?

00:40:37.780 Yeah, it's random.

00:40:38.440 You don't know.

00:40:39.080 Yeah.

00:40:39.240 You don't know who you're talking.

00:40:40.280 No, you can't see it.

00:40:41.240 This was, this was, yeah, this was pre, this was pre smartphone.

00:40:45.460 So they could have catfished like, and yeah, you could have been, I mean, yeah,

00:40:49.060 but yeah, you'd be like, oh, what school do you go to?

00:40:50.660 So like, I think that's why I like a lot of people.

00:40:53.480 Wait, that's the reason?

00:40:54.600 I've never.

00:40:55.220 Yeah, that's why, that's why.

00:40:56.040 I've never heard of that thing.

00:40:57.180 Well, yeah, but yeah, that's, I feel like that's why, well, that's one of the reasons

00:41:01.200 why I like.

00:41:02.280 You think because on social media.

00:41:03.920 Well, I think the big reason is dating apps and social media.

00:41:06.940 True.

00:41:07.260 That's why, like in the past, if a guy wanted to get a girl, he couldn't just get on an app

00:41:11.760 and swipe and hope like someone comes over.

00:41:14.240 Like now a lot of guys have access to the dating apps.

00:41:17.140 And whereas before, if you didn't approach a girl, you had nothing.

00:41:22.200 Yeah.

00:41:22.580 Even if like these guys aren't successful on the dating apps, they still like, they're

00:41:27.360 at least maybe getting some conversation, right?

00:41:29.780 Whereas at least attempting to get an option.

00:41:32.400 Whereas back then you had to approach a girl.

00:41:35.280 Yeah.

00:41:35.680 So I think not only are there more options, which I think you brushed on, but you also

00:41:41.340 get more of a chance to decide what you're going to respond with or how you were going

00:41:45.320 to talk, right?

00:41:47.700 Like voice to text or something like video to video or a guy approaching you at a party.

00:41:51.340 He has to actually think about how his like, how his swagger is, how he's, how his movements

00:41:56.140 are, everything.

00:41:57.060 But now it's just like, if you're like spitting game, like text to text, like you could think

00:42:02.020 about a response in two hours.

00:42:03.860 True.

00:42:04.020 Which I love and I hate for myself too, because I can think of something witty to say like

00:42:09.580 an hour later.

00:42:10.400 But I was like, if I was like this in person, is this really me or is this just like me

00:42:14.920 an hour later?

00:42:15.740 Women don't really need game though. 1.00

00:42:18.240 Really?

00:42:18.680 No, but it's important.

00:42:19.400 Women don't need game. 1.00

00:42:19.840 It's important to uphold.

00:42:22.300 Yeah.

00:42:23.260 That's fair.

00:42:24.220 Like respectfully, most men will just like sleep with like anything or anyone. 0.99

00:42:28.900 Um, if given the opportunity and chance, um, men will like fuck an apple pie. 0.99

00:42:34.600 Like they'll, they'll, they'll, American pie. 1.00

00:42:38.600 I know, I know.

00:42:39.400 Good film.

00:42:40.140 Good film.

00:42:40.540 Great film.

00:42:41.300 Uh, yeah.

00:42:42.620 Wait, you think American pie is a great film?

00:42:48.400 It did what it did at the time period it was portrayed in.

00:42:54.700 Honestly, I'm not gonna lie.

00:42:55.740 That's like one of my guilty pleasure favorite films.

00:42:58.160 Yeah, no, it's good.

00:42:59.340 Um, go ahead.

00:43:02.500 Someone was.

00:43:03.100 Oh, yeah.

00:43:03.800 American pie.

00:43:04.660 American.

00:43:05.260 This, was that where this one time from band camp?

00:43:08.100 Yeah, that's where that came from.

00:43:08.820 I used to, so I was in the marching band in high school and we used to always say that.

00:43:12.480 That was my favorite thing.

00:43:13.680 Kind of.

00:43:14.120 Oh, go ahead.

00:43:14.540 I'm not gonna lie. 0.97

00:43:15.340 I did, um, I did have sex with my couch at a point. 0.96

00:43:18.640 What? 0.94

00:43:19.660 Uh, well, no, I'd probably say like.

00:43:22.020 What?

00:43:22.720 Fourth, like fourth grade. 1.00

00:43:24.740 Like the, there's like crevices in the fucking. 0.99

00:43:28.160 Oh, that's like. 0.99

00:43:29.400 Have you guys seen Big Mouth where he like literally fucks the pillow and like the couch?

00:43:32.940 No, I need to watch that. 0.92

00:43:34.360 That's like literally humor.

00:43:36.340 No, there's some guys watching.

00:43:37.260 But it's about like going through puberty.

00:43:37.980 The guys watching, y'all have all done some weird stuff.

00:43:40.540 Don't, don't act like.

00:43:41.780 Girls too.

00:43:42.900 Yeah, y'all hump the edges of like counters and stuff.

00:43:47.400 Like.

00:43:47.800 That's true.

00:43:48.220 Yeah, everyone.

00:43:48.700 That's true actually.

00:43:49.400 Everyone's done some weird stuff.

00:43:50.660 Don't act like I'm.

00:43:51.900 For sure.

00:43:52.380 No, you're not alone.

00:43:52.980 Watch the TV show.

00:43:54.000 So they literally wrote it into their big mouth.

00:43:56.580 Like, I swear.

00:43:57.140 Oh, yeah.

00:43:59.060 So you're in a situationship, correct?

00:44:01.660 Yeah.

00:44:02.300 How long, how long has that?

00:44:04.760 Um, it's just been on and off.

00:44:06.320 And it's, it's kind of like, um, I don't know.

00:44:10.300 I'm just like really good friends with him.

00:44:11.900 And it's not necessarily like any expectations.

00:44:14.920 On and off for how long?

00:44:15.960 Um, I've known him for two years.

00:44:17.700 Yeah.

00:44:17.900 So you've been in a two year situationship.

00:44:19.980 Yeah.

00:44:20.220 But I'm just the type.

00:44:21.340 It's not even like, oh, I'm trying to get wifed or anything like that.

00:44:24.640 It's just, I'm the type that I am a relationship person.

00:44:28.440 So if I'm not in a committed relationship, then I typically just like date around.

00:44:34.240 And then if I connect with somebody, I stay with that one person and it can be casual.

00:44:39.280 It can be open.

00:44:40.200 Like I'm open minded.

00:44:41.780 So it's like, I don't mind if like he's, as long as there's clear communication, I don't

00:44:47.280 mind if he's like sleeping around or anything like that.

00:44:50.020 As long as he's honest with me, he's safe.

00:44:52.820 I'm safe.

00:44:53.600 All that kind of stuff.

00:44:54.560 If I'm not now, if my like wants to shift to where I want to be in a committed relationship,

00:45:00.180 I'd no longer be in that situation.

00:45:02.000 So you said you're, are you seeing other guys right now?

00:45:06.080 No, like I like, I'm a like relationship person.

00:45:09.280 So it's hard for me to actually like, yeah, but it's like, I like to just pick one person

00:45:13.320 and kind of stick with that person.

00:45:14.660 Cause I don't like catch feelings that often.

00:45:17.240 So I don't feel the need or draw to like go elsewhere as long as like, it's a respectful

00:45:22.540 relationship and yeah.

00:45:24.860 Like, is he sleeping with other girls?

00:45:26.860 I'm sure.

00:45:27.480 Like I'm, I'm sure he is.

00:45:28.940 You don't mind?

00:45:30.160 Um, not really.

00:45:32.340 No.

00:45:32.800 But you're, you're exclusive to him.

00:45:35.480 Yes.

00:45:36.000 Like, but not that I'm not like, Hey, this, like I'm only for you.

00:45:41.440 I'm basically your girlfriend without the title.

00:45:43.400 It's more just like, we have a mutual respect and I have all the freedom in the world to

00:45:49.320 go elsewhere.

00:45:49.820 I just don't want to personally because I don't like to sleep around.

00:45:54.120 Sure.

00:45:54.520 Like personally.

00:45:55.120 Okay.

00:45:55.500 So you could, so you can, if another guy were to come into the picture that you decided

00:46:03.480 this guy, this new guy's better than this situation ship and obviously trade up or whatever.

00:46:08.400 I mean, I don't know if it's trading up.

00:46:11.240 Cause like, like I said, I, what does that mean?

00:46:16.440 Exhibit, exhibit a Chad tall.

00:46:19.160 Yeah.

00:46:19.740 Chad, tall, good looking, but yeah, you know, tall, masculine, masculine.

00:46:26.120 I'll say he's a Chad.

00:46:27.160 Yeah.

00:46:27.660 How tall is he?

00:46:28.980 He's six, eight.

00:46:31.200 I am five, 10, six, one in heels.

00:46:34.180 So I like them tall.

00:46:36.600 Yeah.

00:46:37.160 Six, eight, six, nine.

00:46:37.980 Does he play basketball?

00:46:39.100 Um, he doesn't play any sports right now, but I'm, he's an athlete and like.

00:46:43.220 What kind of athlete?

00:46:44.180 Um, I think basketball, football, boxing.

00:46:46.820 Two year situation ship, you think?

00:46:49.100 I mean like he's older, so he doesn't do those things anymore.

00:46:53.160 I think he's 32.

00:46:54.980 Oh, okay.

00:46:55.720 Um, so he, so he's.

00:46:58.880 He's just, he's retired.

00:47:00.380 Like he'll play pickup and he'll go to the gym.

00:47:02.260 Okay.

00:47:02.440 But he's an athlete, he's like really, really, okay.

00:47:06.160 He's fit.

00:47:06.740 He's six, eight.

00:47:08.020 Okay.

00:47:08.920 Um, was he a pro former professional athlete or no?

00:47:13.140 Um, like overseas.

00:47:14.820 Yeah.

00:47:16.080 Basketball.

00:47:16.800 Oh, basketball.

00:47:18.020 But he's an American citizen.

00:47:19.380 Yes.

00:47:20.060 Okay.

00:47:20.880 So two years in a situation ship.

00:47:25.420 Do you want to get married and have kids at some point?

00:47:27.120 Um, I don't know about kids per se, but, um, like, yeah, marriage eventually.

00:47:33.700 Yeah.

00:47:33.960 I think I just need to be ready as my own individual person and grow myself and focus on like career

00:47:41.060 and stability and mental health and just being the best version of myself as cliche as that

00:47:47.160 sounds.

00:47:47.760 And then be in a space to be a good partner.

00:47:50.100 So it's, yeah, it's not like I'm pining.

00:47:53.380 Okay.

00:47:53.780 So you, you said you've been seeing it's on, on again, off again for two years.

00:47:58.080 Yeah.

00:47:58.460 But like the friendship has been consistent.

00:48:00.460 How long have you seen, um, how often do you see him?

00:48:03.380 Um, probably like we talk every day or see each other every day for the most part.

00:48:08.080 Really?

00:48:08.560 Yeah.

00:48:08.880 You don't live together though?

00:48:10.000 No, we live really near each other though.

00:48:11.720 Oh, okay.

00:48:12.220 Neighbors basically.

00:48:13.260 We like our friendship like is, um, I don't know.

00:48:18.160 You want to have somebody like-minded as you.

00:48:20.100 So it's like, if I'm working on my life and he's working on his and I can do something

00:48:23.360 to help him, I'm going to help him.

00:48:25.060 And if he can do something to help me, he's going to help me.

00:48:27.300 Like it's still a relationship or friendship.

00:48:29.700 You guys see each other every day?

00:48:31.820 Uh, at least briefly.

00:48:33.560 Like-

00:48:34.080 Briefly?

00:48:34.460 Yeah.

00:48:35.340 Like, not like some crazy hangout.

00:48:37.980 It could just be like, hey, I'm picking up this at your house.

00:48:40.120 Or like, you know, we kind of like have things intertwined a bit, but just as a friendship

00:48:45.140 kind of like, you know, partnership.

00:48:47.440 I mean, you, you say this is a situationship, but I mean, this sounds like a relationship

00:48:50.920 to me, but I mean-

00:48:52.460 I mean, not, not, not in title, but obviously like we-

00:48:56.580 And you guys see each other almost every day.

00:48:58.560 That's, I, that seems to be out of the realm of situationship, but, um, so, okay.

00:49:03.720 So-

00:49:03.940 That's my version of a situationship.

00:49:05.880 Throughout the entire course of the situationship, was there any point, I know you said not now,

00:49:10.620 you're not dating and seeing other guys, has there ever been a point where you're, uh,

00:49:16.320 you've hooked up with another guy while you were maybe earlier on in the situationship?

00:49:21.140 Um, like really early on, I was definitely like talking to other people and I was like,

00:49:25.660 honestly coming off of like a pretty bad breakup.

00:49:27.840 So I was like more trying to distract myself rather than like actually searching for somebody

00:49:33.640 or whatever.

00:49:34.520 I, there was one person I like talked to and maybe like hung out with, but I didn't like

00:49:39.500 really, there's not like a lot of overlap if any.

00:49:42.780 Okay.

00:49:43.340 So, but you're not like, you won't even go on a date with another guy, correct?

00:49:47.780 If I was feeling them, but I, to be honest, I just, one, it takes a lot of energy to like

00:49:54.400 go through the dating apps and all that kind of stuff.

00:49:57.360 And I don't necessarily, I'm a home body for the most part.

00:50:01.060 So I don't really have a lot of energy for that.

00:50:03.500 And what, I don't know what that means.

00:50:05.440 It's a good thing, don't we?

00:50:06.380 Okay.

00:50:06.600 So, so, but yeah, like, um, so I don't have like the energy for that.

00:50:10.540 And I honestly, I've not dated that many people cause I don't feel as much as I can mentally

00:50:16.200 connect on a friendship level.

00:50:17.440 I don't feel sexual attraction to a lot of people cause I'm like a demisexual.

00:50:22.060 Okay.

00:50:22.560 So, but.

00:50:23.940 A what?

00:50:24.600 A what sexual?

00:50:25.380 It doesn't matter.

00:50:26.240 It doesn't matter.

00:50:26.580 It's demisexual. 0.79

00:50:27.120 Okay.

00:50:27.320 So you said that he's seeing other girls, correct?

00:50:31.660 Um, yes, I, we have an, like the respect for each other that if I asked him a direct

00:50:38.160 question, he would tell me, but if I don't ask, he doesn't need to tell me.

00:50:42.260 And I don't necessarily always like need to be up in his business.

00:50:45.460 Do you, it's his life.

00:50:46.200 Do you want a relationship with him?

00:50:48.340 I would definitely be open to that and like want more, but it's all about timing.

00:50:53.840 Have you broached?

00:50:56.100 We've talked about it here and there, but what does he say?

00:50:59.340 Um, like it, again, it's a timing thing.

00:51:03.700 He doesn't like reject the idea at all.

00:51:06.380 It's more of just being on the same page about certain issues.

00:51:09.940 And then like, you know, men, they tie their emotional and mental health a lot to their

00:51:15.440 monetary status.

00:51:16.640 So, you know, with COVID and everything, a lot of people had setbacks and men often like

00:51:21.500 to do, like go it alone and like pull themselves up by their bootstraps and everything.

00:51:25.600 A good woman, in my opinion, could obviously help the situation, but men that takes such 0.96

00:51:31.180 a toll on their mental that they need to be in a good like space in all parts of their

00:51:35.380 life to then focus in on a relationship.

00:51:38.240 Um, but it's not something that I've like pressed for and it's not something he's pressed

00:51:42.580 for.

00:51:42.900 We're just kind of on the same page and we are in like a lot of communication about that.

00:51:47.200 Could this guy be your life partner?

00:51:48.340 I could see him being my life partner for sure.

00:51:51.520 And moving forward, would you continually be okay with him stepping out on you?

00:51:57.460 Like with other women? 1.00

00:51:58.840 I think we, like you're the main chick, but he's got, he'll fuck a chick here. 1.00

00:52:03.200 But I wouldn't be mad at us mutually agreeing to certain things. 0.99

00:52:09.120 You get, you get older, you try a lot of things, you know, you don't know.

00:52:12.180 Sounds like alpha widow. 1.00

00:52:13.340 So, okay.

00:52:14.440 So, I have a, I have a question.

00:52:16.700 So, why do, like most women get cheated on. 1.00

00:52:21.540 Have y'all, y'all been cheated on before?

00:52:24.120 No.

00:52:24.660 Or those with, you've never been cheated on?

00:52:27.120 I have not.

00:52:28.420 I have only had one boyfriend who I'm currently dating.

00:52:31.440 And you think he doesn't want any other?

00:52:36.240 Absolutely not.

00:52:38.780 Whether he's a human being and has interests.

00:52:40.860 Humans are biologically monogamous.

00:52:43.260 You said what?

00:52:44.360 Humans are biologically monogamous.

00:52:46.940 Bull crud.

00:52:47.680 No, they're not.

00:52:48.400 Yes, they are.

00:52:49.260 No, they're not.

00:52:51.140 You are.

00:52:51.720 You want one guy.

00:52:53.240 Homo sapiens?

00:52:54.220 We want, no, they're not.

00:52:56.060 We're not lobsters.

00:52:57.080 Humans are monogamous creatures.

00:52:58.380 It can take a simple Google search.

00:53:00.020 Oh, hold on.

00:53:01.180 Oh, my goodness.

00:53:01.720 I'm sorry.

00:53:02.040 Aaron Chambers super chatted $199.99.

00:53:04.720 Yo, thanks, Aaron.

00:53:05.440 Appreciate it, man.

00:53:07.220 Hey, Brian.

00:53:08.120 It's the Aaron slash Jessica attack again from Sunday.

00:53:11.840 Assika, would you consider bringing on Vince Dow and or Gavin McGinnis on show?

00:53:16.280 It would be a podcast to remember.

00:53:18.080 I'm not sure who Vince Dow is, but I know, isn't Gavin McGinnis the Proud Boys founder?

00:53:27.060 That might be, is that TOS?

00:53:30.740 I think he's banned on Twitch, so that might be TOS for us.

00:53:35.700 Yeah, honestly, I don't really know enough about them, but never say never.

00:53:41.340 Okay, sorry.

00:53:41.920 Go ahead.

00:53:42.200 Continue with your.

00:53:42.760 No, you said homo sapiens are, there's only like 11 mammals that are monogamous.

00:53:50.880 That is correct.

00:53:51.880 And humans aren't one of them.

00:53:53.260 They are.

00:53:54.700 I've read a book on it.

00:53:55.720 You can read.

00:53:56.260 You read a book on it.

00:53:57.300 It's called Sapiens, but you've all know a Harari.

00:53:58.520 So just because that one person made a book, it's right?

00:54:02.280 Scientific research.

00:54:04.280 I think that women are definitely long-term mating partners. 1.00

00:54:07.040 Yes, women are. 1.00

00:54:07.780 Women are, but men aren't. 1.00

00:54:08.940 We're completely and utterly opposites.

00:54:11.080 There has been a cultural, I think where it differs biologically and culturally, it's

00:54:16.200 been more culturally accepted, but biologically, lifelong mating partners.

00:54:20.180 Is it on Google Scholar?

00:54:21.020 No, culturally, it's.

00:54:23.200 It's a scientific book.

00:54:24.680 It's what, because that's what's good for society.

00:54:26.880 Very credited.

00:54:27.520 Aren't penguins also long-term mating partners?

00:54:29.120 I believe it.

00:54:29.140 Been peer-reviewed?

00:54:30.200 Yeah, penguins, parrots.

00:54:31.180 Et cetera.

00:54:32.160 Very.

00:54:32.920 Swans.

00:54:33.400 Maybe.

00:54:33.760 Swans?

00:54:35.040 Swans.

00:54:35.800 Geese.

00:54:36.960 Lobsters.

00:54:37.640 About a quarter of all primates.

00:54:39.800 About a quarter of all primates.

00:54:41.080 Lobsters are. 0.84

00:54:43.360 It's believable.

00:54:44.640 Crustaceans.

00:54:46.200 They're shellfish.

00:54:47.720 I was going to say the sea's cockroaches.

00:54:50.100 I think monogamous marriage is probably one of the best things you can do for yourself.

00:54:53.640 Absolutely.

00:54:53.940 To find happiness.

00:54:54.760 And for a culture that's extremely important.

00:54:56.520 Well, you don't find happiness.

00:54:57.660 I thought we already all agreed that a two-parent household is beneficial.

00:55:02.720 I agree.

00:55:03.200 I think you find happiness.

00:55:03.460 So how are we going to have a two-parent household if we don't, you know, endorse and promote marriage?

00:55:08.200 That's true.

00:55:08.580 You just said all this bad stuff about.

00:55:11.280 Single-family households.

00:55:12.500 Yeah.

00:55:13.060 But then you don't think.

00:55:14.080 You don't condone.

00:55:14.660 You should commit to marriage.

00:55:15.940 Look at Nick Cannon.

00:55:17.960 Come on.

00:55:18.760 He can do it.

00:55:19.780 If he can do it.

00:55:21.180 I never said marriage is bad.

00:55:22.900 Yeah, if he's a multimillionaire.

00:55:24.920 So marriage with multiple women is cool? 0.88

00:55:27.520 Yeah, absolutely.

00:55:28.400 Wait.

00:55:28.580 There's cultures that are like that.

00:55:30.400 Islam.

00:55:31.220 If you can take care of as many wives as you can, you can do that. 0.99

00:55:33.760 If I can interject.

00:55:34.320 They take advantage of that, though.

00:55:35.640 I agree.

00:55:35.980 Who takes advantage?

00:55:36.740 I know a lot of Arab men who take advantage of that.

00:55:40.900 Oh, like.

00:55:41.660 Well, there's good men and bad men everywhere.

00:55:44.640 There's always going to be somebody taking advantage of somebody.

00:55:47.600 But, yeah, that's fine.

00:55:49.900 You wanted to come in?

00:55:50.740 Go ahead.

00:55:51.120 Oh, I was going to say there was a quote somewhere that said that Nick Cannon regrets having so many children with so many different women because he can't be in all of their lives, like, often enough.

00:56:00.320 Like, how many birthdays does he have a year?

00:56:01.980 He has, like, 16, like, well, including his wives.

00:56:05.760 Or whatever, girlfriends, whatever, whatever.

00:56:09.460 Like, at least 20 to celebrate or to remember.

00:56:13.040 I can barely remember, like, five.

00:56:15.240 Yeah, and he has the financial resources, like, more financial resources than, like, 99% of men.

00:56:20.820 Yeah, I'm out of curiosity.

00:56:22.440 Nick Cannon's children will be fine.

00:56:24.040 Can you name someone who doesn't have an incredible amount of money that is in a productive, fulfilling, polyamorous relationship where their family and wives.

00:56:35.160 Yes, I know quite a few people.

00:56:37.280 Enjoy it?

00:56:37.780 Yes, I know quite a few people.

00:56:39.180 There's a whole community.

00:56:40.480 Mormons? 0.55

00:56:41.140 No, polyamorous.

00:56:42.020 Of people that are poly and happy and whatever.

00:56:46.340 I just, I think that that is the, like, a small sliver of people.

00:56:50.460 I think that's a very small sliver of people.

00:56:52.020 And if women take up just a little more than half the population and most women are not down for that, then how are we endorsing relationships where men get multiple women at once? 0.52

00:57:02.080 Because the men that can have girlfriends are going to have women. 1.00

00:57:08.500 Do you get what I'm saying?

00:57:09.740 Like, the men that can get girls, they're going to get girls. 1.00

00:57:14.800 And the men that don't, they just get girls. 1.00

00:57:16.500 What does that do for a society?

00:57:19.400 Some men don't even want multiple girls.

00:57:20.720 Do you think that's a good thing?

00:57:21.040 Like, I understand.

00:57:21.600 We're thinking that it's a small-minded.

00:57:22.740 Oh, just me.

00:57:23.320 I'm going to do this.

00:57:24.240 This gets me off.

00:57:25.140 I enjoy this.

00:57:25.900 But what, like, do you think this would be a good thing if, you know, everyone in America or, you know, that was the, like, quota?

00:57:34.200 That's what everyone's doing when...

00:57:36.200 Well, that used to be the, that used to be how the world was.

00:57:42.920 And we've evolved to marriages, committed marriages.

00:57:47.200 Right, because that's what was better for society.

00:57:49.260 But now we live in a world with social media where the women, y'all pick, you decide who you date. 1.00

00:57:54.900 Fuck social media. 1.00

00:57:55.480 There's dudes that don't get anything. 1.00

00:57:57.300 So, you guys decide to smash the dudes that are 6'8", 6'4", abs, attractive, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:58:07.920 You don't pick the other guys, right?

00:58:10.520 That's natural selection.

00:58:12.160 Yeah, I mean, I guess you're, where are you going?

00:58:14.540 It depends on who you're talking to.

00:58:16.440 Yeah.

00:58:16.720 So, I don't go for the length, height, and abs.

00:58:22.060 Okay.

00:58:23.060 Right, you go for guys you can be mean to.

00:58:25.380 Huh?

00:58:25.780 You go for guys you can be mean to.

00:58:27.300 No, I go for, I go for men. 0.97

00:58:30.220 Because I do agree.

00:58:31.840 Like, my, okay, I like making my money, right?

00:58:35.100 I love working.

00:58:37.080 That is something that I'm passionate about.

00:58:39.720 However, I still like to be taken care of.

00:58:42.260 So, I want someone that has their stuff together.

00:58:45.180 But then I'm also dating in my 30s, mid-30s, almost 40s, right?

00:58:50.960 So, it's different than, like, when I was dating in my 20s.

00:58:54.820 You guys are all in your 20s.

00:58:56.820 You're in your 30s.

00:58:57.860 Right.

00:58:58.000 But men in their 30s, I still consider, like, in your 20s.

00:59:02.140 You know?

00:59:02.600 I tend to date older.

00:59:04.480 Right.

00:59:04.760 But those older men are still going to date younger women.

00:59:07.920 Correct.

00:59:08.360 I'm younger than the older men.

00:59:10.340 Yes.

00:59:11.340 Right.

00:59:11.660 Correct.

00:59:12.220 She's in a different age bracket, baby.

00:59:14.260 No.

00:59:14.420 I'm in a good age bracket, I believe, right now.

00:59:17.360 Because, have you guys ever seen those memes?

00:59:20.580 It's like, don't play with me.

00:59:21.760 I could date you or your daddy.

00:59:23.680 I'm in that, like, I'm sorry, guys.

00:59:26.260 I love that.

00:59:26.780 I'm right there right now.

00:59:28.600 Yeah.

00:59:29.180 Right.

00:59:29.440 But I don't think you understand what I'm saying.

00:59:32.160 A man that, okay, what age of men are you saying that you date?

00:59:35.900 I usually like to date at least 40s and up.

00:59:39.740 So, what do you think is a man's prime?

00:59:43.920 When does a man hit his prime?

00:59:45.840 I think they don't start maturing.

00:59:47.680 I'm sorry for the ones that are mature.

00:59:52.700 I think that they don't get it out of that.

00:59:54.800 Because maybe I came from Los Angeles and, you know, you see guys that are, like, 39, 36 still in the club.

01:00:02.160 That's not a good look.

01:00:04.100 Right?

01:00:04.760 For me.

01:00:06.040 When do guys hit their prime?

01:00:07.700 In my humble opinion, I think at 40s and up, 40s and up with experience, for instance.

01:00:17.560 Okay.

01:00:17.920 So, no, no, no.

01:00:18.960 So, when do women hit their prime? 1.00

01:00:21.840 Well, it just depends because J-Lo's in her 50s and she looks better than she was in her 20s.

01:00:26.960 J-Lo's bank account is also very, very fast.

01:00:29.020 Correct.

01:00:29.460 So, we can't really compare it to these.

01:00:31.840 We don't care about money.

01:00:33.300 We don't care about your money.

01:00:34.840 Huh?

01:00:35.300 We don't care about how much money you make.

01:00:36.760 Don't worry about the screen.

01:00:37.540 I'm not, yeah, I'm not talking about the screen.

01:00:39.400 Don't worry about it.

01:00:40.060 Into the mic.

01:00:40.660 Into the mic.

01:00:41.180 Don't worry.

01:00:41.540 So, you know, the thing is, different standards are changing.

01:00:45.280 But answer, if you had to say, when do women hit their prime? 1.00

01:00:51.000 It really depends on the woman. 1.00

01:00:53.100 Oh, we, men judge what a woman's prime is, right? 1.00

01:00:56.900 Okay.

01:00:57.440 For, I think that.

01:00:58.600 So, at what age do you think men, I like myself in my 30s, but earlier 30s.

01:01:05.920 No, not you.

01:01:07.060 Think outside of yourself.

01:01:08.200 I'm sorry.

01:01:09.020 I'm just so selfish.

01:01:10.060 I don't know about other people in my life at home business.

01:01:12.460 Like, literal, like, physical health or all over?

01:01:15.960 Or are you talking about your actual, like, mental?

01:01:17.020 When it comes to dating, what men are attracted to?

01:01:19.620 What would men say that a woman's prime is? 0.99

01:01:23.180 When we look sexy.

01:01:23.980 I'm saying early 20s.

01:01:25.040 To answer your question.

01:01:26.120 Early 20s.

01:01:26.720 Boom.

01:01:27.220 Exactly.

01:01:27.820 Boom.

01:01:27.920 So, why would a guy in his 40s, in his prime, not want a woman in their prime? 0.88

01:01:32.560 Although, because of the mental.

01:01:33.940 If you're thinking, like, back in the day, okay, like, like, biologically healthy bodies

01:01:42.960 on the younger scale, right?

01:01:45.260 As you get older, it's just, you know.

01:01:48.180 When I turn 40 and I have money and I want to have a family, I'm not going to pick a woman 1.00

01:01:51.540 that's in her 30s. 0.99

01:01:52.820 Okay.

01:01:53.560 Well, that is your preference.

01:01:56.220 That is your preference.

01:01:57.480 How will she have kids if she's, like, unless you have a lot of money, like, it's more dangerous 0.99

01:02:01.780 to have kids after your 30s.

01:02:03.140 I know.

01:02:03.640 I agree.

01:02:04.240 Okay.

01:02:04.880 We agree.

01:02:05.260 For men, technically, it's 45 if you want to be healthy.

01:02:09.220 And if you're, like, smoking weed or drinking or whatever, then you're going to compromise

01:02:14.240 yourself, too.

01:02:15.840 So, you know, I don't want to get that detailed about it.

01:02:22.080 Like, with me, I waited way too long because I'm, like, going to be 36 this year as far as

01:02:27.740 children, but I do want kids, but it's, like, I'm going to put them on ice pretty soon, like,

01:02:36.120 extracting my eggs.

01:02:37.280 You're going to do that?

01:02:38.100 I really, that's my plan because I'm not just going to go and find slick Rick and then

01:02:43.700 just get knocked up. 1.00

01:02:44.920 Like, I've, like, I'm careful because I want to create with a human being that I am going

01:02:53.320 to have to be able to co-parent with, whether we're married or not.

01:02:59.020 Ideally, marriage, right?

01:03:01.260 But it's, like, you, there's so many people that just hate their spouse, and they stay

01:03:07.220 together for the children.

01:03:09.400 I'm sorry.

01:03:10.280 I think she wanted to say that.

01:03:10.980 Okay, so just to answer your question, I'm going to give men a little more credit and

01:03:15.160 say the ones that know that they want to settle down eventually, have kids, be married, I think

01:03:20.560 that they know at a relatively young age, I'm going to guess, like, 20.

01:03:25.100 So if you know that, you know, you want to be looking for a wife in your early 20s, this

01:03:30.380 is for the subset of men who are, like, I know I want to get married, they're probably

01:03:34.000 going to be looking to women around their own age.

01:03:36.460 So that's why I think we see marriages commonly between, like, 25 and 35 with, you know, non-age 1.00

01:03:43.440 gap marriages. 0.83

01:03:44.280 But then, of course, older 40-year-old men want women in their prime, and if women want

01:03:49.500 security, and, you know, if I'm 22 and I just want security, and this older man's 40

01:03:55.260 and he has the security and wants a young woman, that's why you see that together.

01:03:58.600 So I don't know how this got to be.

01:03:59.900 I have a question for you.

01:04:01.280 So you said when you're, like, in your 40s, you want to settle down, and you'd pick a

01:04:04.400 woman in her 20s, like, in her prime time.

01:04:06.320 Yes.

01:04:06.860 Okay.

01:04:07.320 What happens when she's 35, past her prime time?

01:04:11.340 You still committed?

01:04:12.380 Just get a different one, right?

01:04:13.820 Would you stay committed?

01:04:15.260 Yeah.

01:04:15.720 Why would I?

01:04:16.120 Okay.

01:04:16.220 No, I was just wondering.

01:04:16.940 Once you put in the work, put in the equity.

01:04:19.720 Okay.

01:04:20.060 No, I was just wondering.

01:04:20.540 You got equity now.

01:04:21.120 You didn't put in.

01:04:21.860 Yeah, you got years.

01:04:22.700 You got tenure.

01:04:23.500 Just wondering.

01:04:24.060 You're good.

01:04:24.320 Me, personally.

01:04:26.200 I've aged, like, and I'm 26.

01:04:29.120 I've aged, like, fine wine.

01:04:30.380 I was so, like, horrendous.

01:04:33.200 Huh?

01:04:33.600 I was horrendous.

01:04:34.880 Aged like fine wine?

01:04:36.460 Yeah.

01:04:37.020 That's what they say, right?

01:04:38.840 Yes.

01:04:39.760 I've heard that.

01:04:40.320 Have you heard that before?

01:04:40.760 I think you're beautiful.

01:04:41.840 Don't want to make a silly point out of this. 0.98

01:04:43.600 You're more busted. 0.90

01:04:45.120 Like, you're not busted at all.

01:04:46.180 But she was saying, like, she didn't know her makeup or hair routine.

01:04:49.620 No, I looked so bad when I was, like, 20, 21.

01:04:53.860 If I showed you pictures, like, fugly is, like, not the word.

01:04:58.440 Right, but if you would have found a real one.

01:05:00.460 No, I was just.

01:05:01.340 At 21, he would have been like, ah, I got you.

01:05:03.380 You know what's really funny?

01:05:03.660 What do you mean?

01:05:03.960 I dated.

01:05:05.680 So, I had a relationship in high school.

01:05:07.820 It lasted three years.

01:05:09.660 And right out of high school, my first boyfriend was 20 years older than me.

01:05:14.720 22 years older than me.

01:05:15.960 He was 42.

01:05:17.580 And we dated for, like, two years.

01:05:20.300 And I still wasn't at my prime.

01:05:23.380 I was awkward.

01:05:24.900 I was. 0.82

01:05:25.480 Well, y'all pick horrible men. 0.51

01:05:27.260 You want to know why?

01:05:28.140 I wasn't.

01:05:28.940 Obviously, because I'm 18 and I'm not even fully developed at all.

01:05:31.960 Like, my brain is.

01:05:33.780 My two brain cells are dancing together.

01:05:35.500 Like, what?

01:05:35.780 I'm not going to lie.

01:05:40.020 I kind of agree with you to a point.

01:05:42.800 To a point.

01:05:44.000 And I know I was talking about.

01:05:45.680 Earlier, I did, like, in the conversation, I did actually agree with you about, like, the two-parent household. 0.98

01:05:51.560 I was just saying that guy's argument sucked.

01:05:53.420 But what I'm saying, I agree with you to a point. 0.90

01:05:55.420 Because even in myself, I do question my own choices and who I pick as a partner.

01:06:00.300 And I attribute that a lot to, like, maybe I have something internal where, like, because of what happened with my dad, like, that's influencing my choices.

01:06:07.860 And as far as, like, the whole prime thing goes, what the actual problem is, too, is that, like, evolution and biology hasn't caught up to modern medicine.

01:06:17.340 People used to die at 40.

01:06:18.580 So it makes sense that women get into prime childbearing years from 14 to 30 because they would die shortly after because we didn't have antibiotics. 0.95

01:06:27.580 You know what I'm saying?

01:06:28.320 But now people are living to, like, 80 and men can just keep reproducing.

01:06:32.400 I saw a lot of comments about, like, population and for the population.

01:06:35.560 There's, like, 8 billion people.

01:06:36.440 We don't need any more people. 1.00

01:06:37.660 Like, that's also a stupid argument. 0.99

01:06:39.180 But I do kind of agree with you that, like, of course men are going to be attracted to women in their childbearing years, which is much younger. 0.99

01:06:45.900 As far as, like, mental development, have you tried to have a conversation with, like, an 18-year-old lately?

01:06:51.880 Like, when I was 18, I was attracted to 18-year-olds.

01:06:56.260 When I'm, like, 27, I look at an 18-year-old and it looks like a little boy.

01:07:00.780 So it's, like, that's the disconnect, I think.

01:07:03.120 And it's, like, there's value in older women because it's, like, you have age experience, like, tact. 0.98

01:07:10.120 I find that so not a good argument because I think that I'm 18.

01:07:15.700 And I think that you just put out a really bold statement the way that women hate the way men do. 0.99

01:07:20.760 Oh, all older women are this or all young women are that. 0.98

01:07:23.660 I think that you become smart through experiences and reading and listening to smart people rather than just aging.

01:07:31.740 I agree with you.

01:07:32.400 You can age well, you can age knowledgeably, or you cannot.

01:07:37.240 So just being older does not make you smarter.

01:07:39.600 I agree with you 100%.

01:07:41.080 That was a very broad generalization. 0.99

01:07:43.620 What I'm saying is, like, if I have a conversation with a 50-year-old, we don't have shit in common. 0.97

01:07:48.080 We come from a different time. 0.97

01:07:49.200 It's not about a time.

01:07:49.760 You don't have anything, like, what happened?

01:07:51.100 No, it's, like, even just, like, socially or, like, when you go to, like, social justice issues, politically, like, there's just age difference does kind of matter.

01:07:59.720 When, I'm not saying people can't connect.

01:08:01.740 Hold on, hold that thought one second.

01:08:02.720 Ben Martin superchatted $200.

01:08:04.460 Oh, dang.

01:08:05.080 Women age like milk in the summer southern sunshine. 1.00

01:08:08.020 You are welcome for the alliteration.

01:08:10.320 Wow, that was poetic, Mark Wavius.

01:08:13.480 Thank you very much for that.

01:08:14.400 I love that.

01:08:14.900 Yo, by the way, Eric, I clicked off one of the other superchats.

01:08:18.760 If you can show that one.

01:08:21.560 I think, yeah, yeah, just wait until.

01:08:23.840 Wait, can I think something?

01:08:25.140 Can I just finish the one point?

01:08:26.560 I swear.

01:08:26.700 Women shouldn't think. 1.00

01:08:27.780 You're right.

01:08:28.820 No thoughts.

01:08:29.240 Why are we thinking still?

01:08:30.920 No, I really didn't mean to demean younger people.

01:08:33.540 I'm just saying you're at different points in your life.

01:08:35.940 What I wanted at 18 is very different than what I wanted at 27.

01:08:39.520 So, it's, like, you got to find somebody, regardless of age, what aligns with you.

01:08:44.180 So, it's, like, when I say I'm talking to an 18-year-old boy, that's not somebody that probably wants to settle down and have a family and get married.

01:08:50.800 So, it's, like, that's why I'm saying there's a disconnect.

01:08:52.740 But biologically, of course, older men are going to be attracted to younger women.

01:08:56.200 And so, I agree with you.

01:08:57.200 And I agree with, like, the whole, like, parental figure thing, actually.

01:09:00.240 Yeah, it's a parental, it's totally a parental thing.

01:09:02.580 And I think it's, like, a, it's a strong word.

01:09:06.160 I don't even know.

01:09:06.720 Can I use it?

01:09:07.700 The G word? 0.98

01:09:08.420 G-rooming?

01:09:10.740 Is that a thing?

01:09:11.360 What?

01:09:11.900 Grooming?

01:09:12.840 What does that have to do with anything?

01:09:14.600 Well, like, we're talking about older guys.

01:09:16.740 We're talking about adult relationships.

01:09:18.540 That's irrelevant.

01:09:19.660 Right.

01:09:20.060 But, would that...

01:09:21.020 I'm not going to even entertain that conversation.

01:09:24.780 Older men who are attracted to younger women are not grooming.

01:09:29.860 Grooming is in the context of, like, predators.

01:09:33.280 No, yeah.

01:09:33.760 And that's not what I meant at all.

01:09:35.060 I meant it very loosely, as in, like, my experience, for example, when I'm 18, dating somebody who's 20 years older than me, what is the reason for that?

01:09:45.320 Money and security.

01:09:46.200 Because you're not stuck in your ways.

01:09:47.600 Probably.

01:09:47.700 And I didn't have any of that.

01:09:49.880 Let's take those factors away.

01:09:51.040 Money, security, all that other stuff that actually matters.

01:09:54.320 What I actually wanted was, like, essentially a father figure, somebody who can, like, tell me what's up with life.

01:10:00.020 Somebody who could guide me through life.

01:10:02.400 And that's what I needed.

01:10:03.540 I needed, got that philosophy out the way, and it's like, cool, I can start dating somebody who's, like, younger and more around my bracket of age.

01:10:11.540 That's my personal experience, and I just wanted to interject and say that that's possible.

01:10:15.420 That's possibly why you would be interested in a younger woman. 0.52

01:10:18.740 Because you could instill...

01:10:19.860 What happens with male and female relationships is males instill their philosophies to women. 0.96

01:10:24.400 And women, we either, if we love them, we're going to catch on to those philosophies, and we're going to be like, oh, okay, great. 0.99

01:10:29.520 Like, I'm, now, this might be my political party, or I agree with these things, morals.

01:10:35.080 Well, no, you have to do that to, like, you have to bring your girl on your same wavelength if you want to start a family, if she's going to be a mom to your children.

01:10:44.460 Right, absolutely.

01:10:45.200 You want to have the same...

01:10:46.140 Absolutely, and I think it's easier to do it when it's a younger chick, but yeah, that's awesome.

01:10:49.180 Yeah, because...

01:10:49.700 Everyone else is, like, stuck in their ways.

01:10:50.620 The younger you are, the...

01:10:51.720 As they're older.

01:10:52.740 I mean, it's healthier as far as the body, maybe, but, like, mentally, it's not for everybody.

01:11:00.600 Like, honestly, mentally, like, you're bringing a child into the world.

01:11:05.660 If you're still a child that can't even take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of another human being?

01:11:11.780 What child can't take care of...

01:11:12.980 What are you talking about?

01:11:13.720 I think that women are born with inherent maternal instincts, and I think that there is such thing as, you know, teen moms that become great, great moms, and, you know, financially, they can't take care of themselves, so I'm a little confused where you're going with this, because if you have a man to provide you with money and security, what do you need to do that for if you already have maternal instincts?

01:11:32.180 And I think that most women are born with those, and that's why most women become good moms. 0.97

01:11:36.800 But you can't, I agree, young moms are amazing moms, and moms are the best, yeah, we can go on all day about that, but there's something to be said about age and experience, life experience.

01:11:48.600 A lot happens in your 20s, and things level out when you get older.

01:11:51.500 Getting ran through and baggage and trauma.

01:11:53.840 Yeah.

01:11:54.100 I mean, men don't want that, men don't want that in a put-man experience.

01:11:59.100 So then why aren't they wifing us early?

01:12:00.860 Why are they running around town?

01:12:02.480 Like, you know, if they don't want us ran through and baggage and trauma, why are they, like, wait, they're waiting till, like, how are we, so, at 20, I should be looking for 40-year-olds that are ready to settle?

01:12:12.720 Like, I don't know how you, I don't know how you, it sounds like just a losing battle all around if you look at it, it's like all the responsibilities.

01:12:19.980 But it depends on if you're a wife, all wives are found, always. 0.99

01:12:24.740 If you're 20 years old and you're a wife, you're going to be found, period. 1.00

01:12:28.520 End of story.

01:12:31.820 I'm also going to play the devil's advocate.

01:12:35.260 So, you know, in the perfect world, yes, like, I, you know, had a few opportunities to get married, but I'm very selfish.

01:12:47.060 And just, you know, like.

01:12:52.300 At least you admitted.

01:12:53.380 Huh?

01:12:53.680 Yeah.

01:12:54.400 And I like my sleep.

01:12:56.180 That is why I've postponed from having children.

01:12:59.660 Because I even cried when I got my puppy and he would keep me up at night.

01:13:03.220 I'm like, oh, my God, I made such a mistake.

01:13:05.620 But, like, I'm just.

01:13:07.520 So you postponed having children for sleep?

01:13:10.240 You postponed having children for sleep?

01:13:12.380 Yeah.

01:13:12.760 Like, I'm selfish and I like my sleep.

01:13:15.740 And so when I have a kid, that kid's going to be my life.

01:13:20.180 Right?

01:13:21.040 So if I like my sleep, either have a kid or don't have a kid.

01:13:26.740 You probably shouldn't have a kid.

01:13:27.740 Correct.

01:13:28.320 That is why I don't have a kid.

01:13:30.640 Okay.

01:13:30.960 Thank you.

01:13:31.500 But, no, people think that it's very easy to raise children.

01:13:35.540 And that's why people are like, hmm, I wonder why so many people are going to jail or doing this or doing that.

01:13:41.740 Right.

01:13:42.320 Does anybody else here have a kid or am I the only one who has a kid here?

01:13:46.080 Because I'm really the only one who can speak on the topic of even having and raising a child.

01:13:51.180 Well, I mean, we all.

01:13:52.120 We're all adults and we all have rational faculties.

01:13:54.900 Especially as a mother, I completely understand what you're saying, like the mental readiness of having a kid.

01:14:02.820 You are never going to be ready to have a kid.

01:14:05.520 Never.

01:14:06.640 Especially as a woman.

01:14:08.360 Especially as a woman.

01:14:09.300 Only women have kids. 1.00

01:14:11.500 Yes.

01:14:12.060 But you have parents.

01:14:13.980 Some people have kids as a meal father as well.

01:14:17.420 And that is not cool.

01:14:19.280 But it happens.

01:14:20.220 Like, we're not in a perfect society.

01:14:22.760 You know, it's.

01:14:24.440 Yeah.

01:14:24.700 Anyway.

01:14:26.080 I get it.

01:14:26.600 Question.

01:14:27.160 So what to you is a wife? 1.00

01:14:29.440 How do you qualify?

01:14:30.600 How do you get tenured?

01:14:31.900 There we go.

01:14:32.680 Boom.

01:14:33.120 I'm going to graduate.

01:14:33.680 So a wife is someone who is coachable, agreeable, nice, patient, caring, trusting, loyal.

01:14:46.740 I would say beautiful inside and out.

01:14:52.500 Not promiscuous.

01:14:53.620 So what now what to you is a husband?

01:14:58.360 Protector, provider, leader.

01:15:00.340 What do you call it?

01:15:07.240 What's the word?

01:15:10.540 Yeah.

01:15:11.440 Guidance.

01:15:13.560 Yeah.

01:15:14.040 So in your opinion, how many men currently just in what age ranges do you think are actually

01:15:20.440 ready to step into that role versus how many women are out there ready to step in that role? 1.00

01:15:26.100 There are way more husbands than there are wives. 0.76

01:15:29.220 I like to agree.

01:15:31.020 Be more specific.

01:15:33.560 Think about your friendship group.

01:15:35.080 How many of them are ready to want to only be husbands?

01:15:38.120 Well, let's think about this.

01:15:39.660 How many women are promiscuous? 1.00

01:15:41.580 I don't know. 0.89

01:15:42.520 Well, a lot.

01:15:43.260 A lot.

01:15:43.740 You would know better than me.

01:15:45.440 I know.

01:15:46.240 Trust me.

01:15:46.820 I know.

01:15:47.480 Would you consider yourself a husband?

01:15:49.740 Huh?

01:15:50.720 Like, return your husband?

01:15:51.480 No.

01:15:52.220 I personally still have some growth to do, just financially.

01:15:56.180 But I know.

01:15:57.480 Fair enough.

01:15:57.860 So do you, how would you feel?

01:15:59.840 So like, as a woman, I, in my long term, when I get married, I hope that my husband never

01:16:08.060 had a stage where he was dating multiple women at a time.

01:16:10.500 I want to be with a man that always had his eye on one person and will not have a wandering

01:16:16.500 eye.

01:16:17.820 So, you know, is that fair of me to say?

01:16:21.040 That is, you're looking for a unicorn.

01:16:23.180 Well, I'm sorry.

01:16:23.840 I shouldn't say dating one person at a time.

01:16:25.820 Because I think that we use the word dating like it's sacred nowadays.

01:16:30.440 Like, when I think of dating, I think of like, you know, back in the day, oh, yeah, I dated

01:16:33.560 this person.

01:16:34.040 I went out with them.

01:16:34.640 Having dinner.

01:16:35.420 Yeah.

01:16:35.720 Like, going on a date with someone.

01:16:36.840 That's what I consider dating.

01:16:38.440 Having, you know, so it's totally fine with me if my future husband is dating multiple people

01:16:44.400 at a time, going to dinner with her, seeing her, whatever.

01:16:47.080 But what it sounds like you are in is like a polyamorous relationship.

01:16:50.320 And I would not be okay with marrying someone who has previously been in a polyamorously

01:16:55.740 defined relationship. 0.72

01:16:58.980 Like I said earlier, men that can get women always, like, does your boyfriend watch porn?

01:17:06.460 He actually, not right now.

01:17:08.160 He has in the past, but not anymore.

01:17:09.720 Okay, so that means he wants other women.

01:17:13.860 We, we, no, we, no, I agree.

01:17:15.140 That's exactly what that means.

01:17:16.080 He wants, we've had a culture that's pushed on us.

01:17:18.600 Our culture pushes sexuality on us.

01:17:21.580 Like, no, you're an adult.

01:17:22.340 He has in several ways.

01:17:23.800 But they've been dating since they were 14 and 16.

01:17:26.580 So when he's 16 and, like, a young guy at the peak of his sexual drive, how are you

01:17:32.400 going to say that now he, like, I just think that's unfair to say because he watched porn

01:17:37.440 when he was younger, he has a wandering eye?

01:17:40.240 No, I'm saying.

01:17:41.880 Currently? 0.97

01:17:43.400 Like, watch porn right now? 0.89

01:17:44.960 Yeah, does he watch porn now? 0.95

01:17:45.980 He does not.

01:17:46.960 How do you know?

01:17:48.520 Girlfriend knows. 1.00

01:17:49.380 We've talked about it.

01:17:50.160 He doesn't.

01:17:51.460 I know.

01:17:52.260 We've talked about it.

01:17:52.960 All right, I'm going to move this along.

01:17:54.320 Okay, we have a super chat here from Mark Quavius Martin.

01:17:57.520 Hey, thank you, man.

01:17:58.100 Ladies, can't, oh, hold on. 1.00

01:17:59.560 Let me hide that asteroid there. 0.70

01:18:00.840 Oops.

01:18:01.740 Okay, complimentary asteroid.

01:18:03.620 Yo, Mark Quavius, thank you, man.

01:18:05.140 Ladies, can you name one thing that women have been given autonomy over and haven't decimated 1.00

01:18:08.820 in real time?

01:18:11.160 Educational system, corporate world, social media voting, consumerism, child raising, marriage

01:18:15.340 and relationships, even gyms.

01:18:17.020 We live in a patriarchal funded matriarchy. 1.00

01:18:20.240 Whoa, the asteroid just keeps on coming.

01:18:22.840 I don't know what's going on.

01:18:23.500 Can I answer this?

01:18:26.400 Sure.

01:18:27.060 Mark Quavius, thank you, man.

01:18:28.060 I would say child raising.

01:18:30.100 I think that women continue to be, in general, good, strong mothers.

01:18:34.600 But I think that the reason kids are so weak and soft these days is not entirely to the

01:18:40.400 man's fault.

01:18:41.220 There is no testosterone in our society anymore.

01:18:44.080 So there is not as much of a masculine influence over our kids.

01:18:48.460 Is masculinity frowned upon?

01:18:50.260 Currently, it is.

01:18:52.340 And I think that that is awful.

01:18:53.700 I think that we've stripped men of their masculinity.

01:18:55.640 I think masculinity is very important.

01:18:58.520 As is femininity. 1.00

01:19:01.040 And that's why.

01:19:02.120 And you basically have women who have become more masculine and men who have become more 0.92

01:19:07.820 feminine.

01:19:08.360 Correct.

01:19:08.800 And I think it hurts society.

01:19:10.620 And who do we have to blame for that?

01:19:12.840 Media.

01:19:13.400 Social media.

01:19:14.180 Feminism. 1.00

01:19:14.980 Eating too much soy.

01:19:16.700 No, eating too much soy.

01:19:18.380 There's a lot of estrogen in soy products.

01:19:21.680 I'm sorry.

01:19:22.160 It's in everything.

01:19:22.880 It's true.

01:19:23.780 Sure. 1.00

01:19:24.040 I suppose diet and there's plastics out there in the water and shit. 0.99

01:19:28.740 And it's not just diet. 0.99

01:19:31.000 It's not just the singular consumer's fault.

01:19:34.280 Our structures and our, you know, I'm all for capitalism, but capitalism has emphasized,

01:19:40.540 you know, just profit margins with worse products.

01:19:45.580 Therefore, just, you know, overuse soil and put soy in everything. 0.71

01:19:48.780 And it's not necessarily men's fault, but, like, our, you know, the people running our

01:19:53.440 country have just, like, disintegrated with, like, the, the just basis of what human beings

01:19:59.580 should interact with.

01:20:00.980 We're all slaves.

01:20:01.480 Wait, hold on.

01:20:02.180 I want to give recent opportunity here because you made a little face.

01:20:05.500 I've been making a lot of faces.

01:20:07.280 Okay.

01:20:07.660 What was this most recent face about?

01:20:10.060 Oh, oh, pertaining to what part?

01:20:12.300 I think I said feminism is to blame. 1.00

01:20:14.520 No, it's soy.

01:20:15.600 Oh, feminism is to blame. 1.00

01:20:17.140 Um, because the way that I view feminism and the way I believe that, like, it's technically 1.00

01:20:21.500 defined, it's, it's about equality between men and women.

01:20:25.600 It's not trying to make men less masculine or women.

01:20:29.140 Erroneous.

01:20:30.440 Erroneous. 1.00

01:20:31.480 What the fuck? 1.00

01:20:32.340 Why does the asteroid keep coming? 1.00

01:20:33.960 I like it.

01:20:34.580 Wait, Eric, you're going to have to hide that. 1.00

01:20:36.380 What the fuck? 0.99

01:20:36.640 Let's just start civilization over is what they're saying. 1.00

01:20:39.880 Yeah, I don't know why it's, uh, yeah, I don't know why I'm not.

01:20:44.520 I don't know why I just hide it.

01:20:45.720 Uh, okay, go ahead.

01:20:46.820 But anyways.

01:20:47.280 You said it's about equality.

01:20:48.660 It's about equality and I personally don't view exploring the spectrum of masculinity and

01:20:54.100 femininity between both genders to be necessarily a bad thing. 1.00

01:20:58.360 Can I respond to that?

01:20:59.180 Um, I think that, uh, feminism today has, uh, gone a lot further than equality and I think 0.95

01:21:05.740 modern feminism is a lot different than feminism was maybe... 1.00

01:21:09.340 In the 70s.

01:21:10.120 Right.

01:21:10.420 Yeah, I agree with that.

01:21:11.380 I mean, feminism's always been a man-hating ideology, however, it's taken, uh, quite some 0.99

01:21:17.900 steps forward in that recently.

01:21:20.560 Uh, I, I reject this idea that feminism is about equality and here's why. 1.00

01:21:26.020 I believe feminism in its most, if I give it the most generous definition is a women's 1.00

01:21:33.380 advocacy movement.

01:21:34.340 There's not, and that's great.

01:21:35.900 Women's advocacy is great.

01:21:37.200 However, that's not the same as equality.

01:21:40.360 Feminism, feminists don't advocate for equality if said equality comes to the detriment of women. 1.00

01:21:47.360 So, if there is no benefit to be reaped by said equality in terms of benefit that benefits women, feminists will not pursue it. 1.00

01:21:58.260 So, you'll fight for equality if said equality benefits women, but not if it doesn't.

01:22:03.840 Not if it doesn't.

01:22:05.020 Yeah.

01:22:05.320 So, take, for example, the, the right to vote.

01:22:08.900 Women, for a period of time, I mean, it's a very small period of time when we're looking at it, but for a period of time, men had the right to vote, women didn't.

01:22:16.820 And, well, the reason why that is, is because men had responsibilities.

01:22:21.960 Chiefly, in order for you to be able to vote as a man, you had to be subject to military conscription.

01:22:27.220 Women never had that court, that responsibility. 1.00

01:22:32.240 But, women. 1.00

01:22:32.740 They never had that option.

01:22:33.740 They didn't, not responsibility.

01:22:34.580 That's a privilege.

01:22:35.060 They never had the option.

01:22:35.560 That's a privilege to not go to the Argonne Forest in France in 1917 and go get chemical gas by the Germans. 0.90

01:22:43.940 That's a privilege.

01:22:44.800 Part of that's biological, though.

01:22:46.240 Like, we're, we're weaker.

01:22:47.620 Like, genetically, we're weaker.

01:22:48.920 Yes, women are physically weaker. 1.00

01:22:49.720 The only, the only society that was, like, that was, like, the Vikings and, like, women fought side by side with men.

01:22:54.200 But, like, we are, grown man strength is different and you guys have different skill sets.

01:22:58.820 Just, like, you, you, men are physically superior.

01:23:01.920 Like, in, like, in, when it comes to just, like, actual physicality and, like, knowledge of the, the body.

01:23:08.380 Yeah.

01:23:08.520 And, like, you know, what is it, kinesiology?

01:23:11.180 That's fine.

01:23:11.720 Yes.

01:23:12.080 Like, so that makes sense.

01:23:12.840 Yes, I agree with you.

01:23:13.700 Men are physically stronger.

01:23:14.680 Men make better, better soldiers.

01:23:16.640 It's true. 0.98

01:23:17.200 However, that doesn't change the fact that some poor 18-year-old boy in Kentucky had to go the fucking, the Maginot line in France and go get trench foot and get fucking obliterated by a shell in 1918. 0.98

01:23:29.200 I agree. 0.78

01:23:29.500 You know, I, I don't know if you guys know the body count on, the, the death counts in, or the casualties in World War I and World War II, which are almost exclusively male casualties.

01:23:38.880 Who started the wars?

01:23:40.800 Actually, they've done studies on this.

01:23:42.340 Queens were much more likely to wage wars than kings. 1.00

01:23:44.600 Yep.

01:23:44.800 In any case, so saying that.

01:23:46.000 Okay.

01:23:46.440 Hold on.

01:23:46.940 Okay.

01:23:47.260 All the audience.

01:23:48.240 Jesus Christ.

01:23:49.780 What does that mean?

01:23:50.980 Oh, it got disconnected.

01:23:52.480 Well, Brian, you said never say never in a screw you way.

01:23:56.380 Bring on Gavin McGinnis. 0.96

01:23:57.620 You trolled people with feminists for Trump. 1.00

01:24:01.200 You got away with it.

01:24:02.720 Is he so much different?

01:24:04.680 Maybe err better at walking the line.

01:24:07.080 And you, I know it.

01:24:08.520 His voice matters.

01:24:10.280 Constitution exists.

01:24:12.100 Yo, Aaron Chambers, thank you for the big $200 donation.

01:24:16.640 I might be down to bring on Gavin.

01:24:19.420 We'll see.

01:24:20.360 We'll see.

01:24:20.780 But hey, thank you, man, so much for that big $200 donation, man.

01:24:24.600 That's huge, man.

01:24:25.220 Thank you.

01:24:26.200 So you said that men are to blame for the wars.

01:24:29.140 I didn't say that.

01:24:29.460 I just asked a question.

01:24:30.680 Okay.

01:24:31.080 So I'm trying to return to my original point, which was.

01:24:35.980 The responsibilities that men take on versus women, yeah. 0.92

01:24:39.440 Yeah.

01:24:39.680 So you don't see women fighting to equalize the draft. 0.93

01:24:45.900 That would be equality.

01:24:47.960 But I don't hear there's, women aren't in the streets demanding that they also be drafted 1.00

01:24:53.140 or be subject to the draft.

01:24:55.640 I would agree with you that society is extremely unfair to men and that the burden that they

01:25:01.140 have on them and the box that they're put in is, like, substantially unequal.

01:25:07.860 And while women have their issues, and those are important as well, I don't think it's 0.98

01:25:11.620 right to just dismiss men's issues at all.

01:25:15.700 However, okay, we can look at, like, the queens and other societies.

01:25:19.600 But talking about America, let's keep it to America.

01:25:22.540 We didn't create this system.

01:25:24.300 Do we benefit off of it in some ways?

01:25:26.500 Yes.

01:25:27.160 Did we fight to change it?

01:25:28.700 Yes.

01:25:28.960 Did it go too far in some places?

01:25:30.660 Yes.

01:25:30.960 And you use logic and knowledge and debate and common sense to try and get to a place

01:25:36.200 that's good for everybody.

01:25:37.280 But it's, like, saying that men have problems, too, shouldn't discredit any, like, women's

01:25:44.400 issues.

01:25:44.900 Because also, real quick side note, like, not all women had the right to vote. 1.00

01:25:48.740 Super, like, long ago, it was 1964 when black and brown women got the right to vote, 1.00

01:25:53.280 which is very recent.

01:25:54.600 But also, and it shouldn't happen the other way around, either.

01:25:59.060 Can we get a fact check on that?

01:26:00.040 I'm not convinced.

01:26:01.220 That's when the civil rights movement was.

01:26:04.540 So then, also, when do you think it was?

01:26:07.400 Well, I know.

01:26:08.200 Blacks got the right to vote before women. 0.99

01:26:10.500 I'm pretty sure ratification. 0.99

01:26:11.300 Yeah, but black people, yeah. 0.97

01:26:12.940 No, white women. 1.00

01:26:13.640 Are you talking about the poll tax? 0.70

01:26:14.940 No, I'm talking about white women. 1.00

01:26:15.960 I'm pretty sure you're factually wrong on there.

01:26:17.840 Okay, the civil rights movement was 1964.

01:26:20.360 But I'm not sure that's related to voting.

01:26:22.240 There were other.

01:26:22.580 It was voting rights.

01:26:23.520 They did technically have the right to vote illegally.

01:26:25.500 There were barriers, yes.

01:26:26.660 However, they had all these kind of, like, roadblocks.

01:26:31.340 Okay, so you're talking about intersectionality.

01:26:33.620 Yes.

01:26:33.800 At the end of the day, women got the right to vote in 1920. 1.00

01:26:36.920 White women. 1.00

01:26:37.660 That does matter, though.

01:26:38.600 All women got the right to vote in 1920. 0.98

01:26:40.620 Not equitably.

01:26:42.320 But we're getting off track because my point.

01:26:44.480 I'm not familiar with that information point, but it's kind of irrelevant.

01:26:46.500 We're getting off point, though, because my point is also that, like, women's issues

01:26:50.380 shouldn't negate men's issues either, like, at all.

01:26:54.260 And it's unfair that society.

01:26:56.420 What issues do you have?

01:26:56.960 As a woman, what issues do you have? 1.00

01:26:59.600 I would love to hear.

01:27:00.820 We're not always safe in all spaces.

01:27:03.940 Who's safe in all spaces?

01:27:04.840 I'm not safe in all spaces.

01:27:05.920 No, I agree with you, but you are more subject to other forms that you're a protector.

01:27:11.900 I mean, you're going to be safer in a lot more spaces than I'll be.

01:27:14.520 So you should, you should, you should, you should advise.

01:27:15.140 That's actually not true.

01:27:15.800 I'm more likely to be assaulted.

01:27:17.960 I'm talking about, okay, sexual assault.

01:27:20.080 Let's talk about that.

01:27:21.080 That's what I mean.

01:27:21.860 I didn't want to, like, go all the way there, but that's, like, a main thing that women 1.00

01:27:25.880 have to worry about literally every single day, even just, like, on your phone.

01:27:28.800 And the solution to sexual assault?

01:27:30.220 Yes, like, walking outside.

01:27:31.240 Strong men.

01:27:31.940 Actually.

01:27:32.940 Who will protect you from sexual assault? 1.00

01:27:34.240 Well, that's the solution to sexual assault is more strong men.

01:27:36.400 Oh, yeah.

01:27:36.740 No, I, I'm not saying, my whole point is that our issues shouldn't negate men's issues

01:27:41.880 and society is set up unfair for many people in many ways, but to say, like, oh, well,

01:27:48.800 feminism is just, like, man-hating, it's just, like, a myopic view of it. 1.00

01:27:53.020 It's really not just men.

01:27:54.600 But it should be womanism as well. 1.00

01:27:56.480 Feminism is problematic, because that's, feminism is created by women. 1.00

01:27:59.040 I don't think men and women should be equal. 1.00

01:28:01.660 You don't think men?

01:28:02.720 No.

01:28:03.160 High five, sis.

01:28:03.760 Can we please change the subject?

01:28:05.680 What do you mean?

01:28:06.220 How so?

01:28:06.880 I don't think, I don't think we are equal.

01:28:09.040 I think men have a different role in this world, and so do women. 0.97

01:28:13.700 We have opposite roles.

01:28:15.040 I think we should have similar opportunities, perhaps, but, and the choice is for the opportunities,

01:28:20.720 because everybody has a different level.

01:28:22.180 I think if a woman wants to live a masculine lifestyle, that's her decision, but it's not 1.00

01:28:27.040 the right one.

01:28:27.760 Oh.

01:28:28.360 Oh.

01:28:29.880 And I think that...

01:28:30.960 Okay, wait.

01:28:31.480 I wasn't, I wasn't co-signing all of that.

01:28:33.720 Well, for procreation, like, women are... 1.00

01:28:36.820 So, we don't need to procreate.

01:28:38.500 There's eight billion people.

01:28:39.240 What about, what about LGBTQIA?

01:28:41.920 I don't support. 1.00

01:28:43.080 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:28:44.380 Disavow. 1.00

01:28:44.780 Do you know, in America, the death rate is higher than the birth rate?

01:28:48.900 We do need to procreate. 0.99

01:28:50.100 There's eight billion people.

01:28:50.940 I just want to address one thing.

01:28:52.180 A few of you guys said when he was, you got, we were bringing up the, being assaulted and

01:28:56.520 stuff, being worried, walking home at night.

01:28:58.160 Actually, men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

01:29:01.320 Violent crime, probably so, but we're talking about, yeah.

01:29:04.940 It doesn't, that doesn't...

01:29:05.940 But also, I was, men are still the victims of it as well.

01:29:08.420 The gender of the perpetrator of someone who has victimized you doesn't undo the fact

01:29:14.200 that you've just been victimized.

01:29:15.680 Yeah.

01:29:16.180 So, it's kind of irrelevant.

01:29:18.540 You're right, but you can't negate, like, who are the main perpetrators and who are,

01:29:23.820 like, the victim, like, what is, exactly, it's a men problem.

01:29:28.040 What's that got to do with women? 1.00

01:29:29.320 When I spoke earlier, I was, like, primarily talking about sexual assault, where more, and

01:29:34.800 that is not to negate all the men that have been sexually assaulted at all, but if you

01:29:39.420 want to look at the numbers, primarily women are at a higher victim. 0.97

01:29:43.760 Not if you look at the prison statistics, men are more likely.

01:29:47.000 Prison is horrible in general.

01:29:48.300 So, if you look at everything, men are more likely to get sexual assault.

01:29:50.640 But my point is that, like, women didn't create prisons. 1.00

01:29:53.220 Or porn.

01:29:53.500 Like, we didn't set up the systems that are causing the damage to both men.

01:29:57.400 And you didn't create the world either.

01:29:58.920 You didn't create the world either.

01:30:00.400 Exactly.

01:30:00.860 I said women benefit. 1.00

01:30:01.920 You didn't create the world?

01:30:03.040 And men do too.

01:30:04.040 So, you think that if women happen to have been in charge... 1.00

01:30:07.160 No, I'm not saying that.

01:30:07.940 Can you stop interrupting?

01:30:08.900 Sorry.

01:30:09.180 If women happen to have been in charge, you think they wouldn't have established a justice 1.00

01:30:14.880 system that includes incarceration? 0.98

01:30:17.620 No, I think the way that the American industrial prison system is actually just fucked up in 0.87

01:30:22.800 general, and people shouldn't be put in cages.

01:30:24.800 There are examples of other countries that actually rehabilitate their incarcerated people.

01:30:30.480 Are you talking about Norway?

01:30:31.180 Yeah, this is very, like, socialist, like, um...

01:30:34.040 You don't believe in going to jail?

01:30:35.720 No, that's not what I said.

01:30:36.380 Can we just talk about rainbows and butterflies, please?

01:30:38.140 No, I was going to say, can we get to, like, some fun questions, honestly?

01:30:40.900 Can we please just talk about dating? 0.99

01:30:43.420 I can go all day about this shit. 0.99

01:30:44.880 I'm always going to say that. 0.99

01:30:45.800 This ain't fun.

01:30:46.740 Like, it is fun, but it's not fun.

01:30:48.220 I do want to...

01:30:48.840 Let's bring it back to dating.

01:30:50.100 Like, we're getting real.

01:30:51.700 Dating.

01:30:52.940 But just on the whole, like, well, it's done by other men, so it's just like...

01:30:56.980 So, men are killed by other men, therefore, that's not a problem?

01:31:00.460 Like, I just don't understand that.

01:31:01.940 Okay, let me put it in one thing, and we can honestly move on.

01:31:05.260 Ten seconds.

01:31:06.400 The issue is not male-female.

01:31:08.480 That's all shifting social norms and practices.

01:31:11.500 The issue is people and power.

01:31:13.620 Power corrupts people.

01:31:14.780 There's plenty of experience...

01:31:16.000 Stand for prison experiment.

01:31:18.160 Go watch it on Netflix.

01:31:19.460 That is a perfect example about how any person that gets power can...

01:31:24.660 It can corrupt them.

01:31:25.780 Same with...

01:31:26.620 That's so true.

01:31:27.280 Yeah, like, when you study, like, Nazi Germany...

01:31:29.620 People are always going to have power.

01:31:30.620 That's what I'm saying.

01:31:30.760 So, you're making it a male-female issue, and it's becoming divisive when really the issue

01:31:35.060 is where...

01:31:36.260 How we should look at our similarities and how we can help each other, and it's, like,

01:31:39.620 not productive to be like, well, this, what about, what about, what about isms?

01:31:43.120 But I agree with him saying...

01:31:44.380 I agree with you.

01:31:45.360 I agree with you.

01:31:46.080 I mean, but you have feminists to blame for this, because feminists, the core tenet of 1.00

01:31:51.520 feminism... 1.00

01:31:52.160 Yeah.

01:31:52.360 ...is the patriarchy theory.

01:31:53.820 Men as a class were the oppressors.

01:31:55.860 It's basically Marxism, communism.

01:31:57.260 Men as a class, oppressed women.

01:31:59.960 Women as a class are the oppressed. 1.00

01:32:02.340 What does that teach women to feel about men?

01:32:05.040 Nothing good.

01:32:06.140 Yeah.

01:32:06.380 If you teach this to women, you're basically teaching women to have contempt for men, and 0.62

01:32:11.340 that's what we're seeing playing out in real time.

01:32:14.840 Feminisms are... 1.00

01:32:15.720 Excuse me. 0.58

01:32:16.180 Feminists are the one who have perpetuated this patriarchy theory. 1.00

01:32:21.060 Feminists are the one who pitted men against women and women against men. 1.00

01:32:25.540 Now, we as men are pushing back and saying, we're saying, actually, no, there are some 0.96

01:32:32.120 things that are shitty to us, too. 0.69

01:32:34.640 So, we're playing the feminist game now. 1.00

01:32:37.680 I agree.

01:32:38.420 Feminism is actually really problematic in its whole ideation from the beginning of its 1.00

01:32:43.480 conception.

01:32:43.900 But, literally, my whole point is that I'm agreeing with you, is that men's issues shouldn't 1.00

01:32:50.000 negate women's because there are... 1.00

01:32:51.420 I agree.

01:32:52.020 I agree with you.

01:32:52.580 Yeah.

01:32:52.600 And women's issues should not negate men's because women can't just be like, well, you 1.00

01:32:58.020 guys don't have to deal with this, so shut up. 0.96

01:32:59.600 Like, you created this. 0.96

01:33:00.560 Like, I am making the point that, like, we are not to blame for the benefits that we do

01:33:06.020 get for, you know, like, being pretty girls and getting free stuff and stuff.

01:33:10.240 Men don't get that privilege. 1.00

01:33:11.280 Men are very shit on in society, and they don't get to enjoy certain things like women 1.00

01:33:16.440 do, and they don't get to have the same freedoms when it comes to expression. 1.00

01:33:20.020 Wait, you go ahead.

01:33:21.380 Go ahead.

01:33:22.020 Go ahead.

01:33:22.100 I said, I think men do get those privileges sometimes.

01:33:25.300 A lot of men that I have been with, and, like, even girls that I've seen on this show have 0.97

01:33:30.880 said, I have literally paid for a bum-ass dude our whole relationship. 0.99

01:33:36.160 And it's very common because men are more feminine now. 0.98

01:33:39.940 That's the exception, not the rule.

01:33:41.600 Yeah, we are talking in generalities.

01:33:43.300 I have a question.

01:33:44.600 Brian, if we lived in Brian world, what would laws look like in the sense of, like, equality?

01:33:51.200 Like, would women have the right to vote? 1.00

01:33:52.840 Like, I'm just wondering.

01:33:54.440 Well, I have total power.

01:33:57.520 I get rid of voting, first off.

01:34:00.020 I know.

01:34:00.700 Okay, I'm a dictator.

01:34:02.600 Sorry, Brian.

01:34:03.100 I know.

01:34:04.120 I'm keeping the power. 1.00

01:34:05.340 I'm just going to be the dick. 0.99

01:34:06.340 This is going to be an authoritarian regime. 0.99

01:34:08.740 How many concubines? 1.00

01:34:10.220 I will lead us to the promised land.

01:34:12.780 First off, first off, here's what I do.

01:34:15.400 The big thing is, big thing.

01:34:18.260 Well, there's a, wait, actually I have a list here.

01:34:20.600 Should I fill up my list?

01:34:21.100 You have an already written list?

01:34:22.720 Is this all Brian land?

01:34:23.940 I'm planning for when I overthrow.

01:34:25.700 Yeah, I'm going to stage a coup d'etat and get rid of the American government.

01:34:30.900 Storm the Capitol?

01:34:31.700 Yeah, I'm just going to take over.

01:34:33.100 Storm the Capitol.

01:34:34.140 Well, I won't get into that, but so, was that like a serious question?

01:34:38.900 Well, no, I just like, because this is my mind when.

01:34:41.080 I'm interested.

01:34:42.060 I also agree feminism is a man-hating concept, but I also am so proud to be an American,

01:34:49.940 and I love the freedom that I have with my country, and if I were back in the 70s,

01:34:54.500 I do think that I would fight for the right to vote.

01:34:56.220 I would fight for the right to work.

01:34:57.460 I have two jobs.

01:34:58.280 I love to work.

01:34:59.000 It's, you know, but one day I also want to be a mom and all those things.

01:35:02.780 So, I think that there is somewhat of a balance.

01:35:05.280 Like, I think that the feminist movement did achieve some good things,

01:35:08.580 and this is kind of what I'm asking you.

01:35:10.060 Do you think that the feminism movement as a whole should have just not happened,

01:35:16.420 and it should have stayed, you know, pretty cut and clean, women in the house, 1.00

01:35:20.540 men go to work? 0.81

01:35:21.180 Or do you think that we could have a little bit of improvement?

01:35:26.540 So, are you talking, like, throughout history?

01:35:29.260 Where do you think the feminist movement should have stopped? 0.99

01:35:32.720 Oh.

01:35:33.200 Well, I mean, you know, even the early suffragettes, first off,

01:35:36.340 they were the early feminist movements. 0.53

01:35:38.840 If you look up the Seneca Falls Convention or something, 0.83

01:35:42.720 in any case, feminists were brutally racist. 1.00

01:35:45.640 Yeah. 0.70

01:35:46.600 So, I mean, there's just like a...

01:35:50.040 That's what I mean. 0.99

01:35:50.500 It's fucked up from the start. 0.98

01:35:52.080 I mean, I believe in egalitarianism. 0.99

01:35:56.260 So, true equality between men and women, that's not feminism. 1.00

01:36:00.680 Okay, I agree.

01:36:01.760 So, I mean, I think...

01:36:03.320 Well, I don't agree with egalitarianism.

01:36:05.480 You don't agree with egalitarianism.

01:36:07.680 Yes, but I'm sorry.

01:36:10.980 So, would you say you want equity, not equality?

01:36:13.260 No, I certainly don't want equity.

01:36:15.580 Equity means playing your role and having it...

01:36:20.420 Dividing...

01:36:21.480 From my understanding, I could be wrong.

01:36:23.220 Equality is like everybody gets exactly the same thing handed to them.

01:36:27.400 Equity is everybody gets what's handed to them that works for them

01:36:31.820 specifically based on their, like, identity and intersectionality.

01:36:35.700 Well, I'm in favor of equality of...

01:36:38.260 What's the term?

01:36:40.160 Equality of opportunity, but I'm not in favor of equality of outcome.

01:36:44.520 Right.

01:36:45.320 Yes, 100%.

01:36:46.480 So...

01:36:47.140 I see what you're saying, yeah, and I agree with you,

01:36:48.720 but what I'm saying is, like, would you go more for equity then?

01:36:52.460 Because, like, say some...

01:36:53.540 Okay, so say...

01:36:54.060 So, is equity equality of outcome?

01:36:57.100 Because I'm not in favor of that.

01:36:58.380 No.

01:36:58.680 Equity is like, okay, so this person has...

01:37:01.200 It is about equality of outcome.

01:37:02.580 Equity is getting what you need to achieve the same thing as everyone else.

01:37:07.280 And that puts us in a communist kind of headspace where people lose the right to...

01:37:13.680 Or lose the interest to think and dream and do great things and, you know, come up with...

01:37:20.980 Yeah, I'm not going for communism here at all.

01:37:24.000 I just mean, like, some people are historically more disadvantaged than others based on their identity.

01:37:31.380 What identity are you alluding to?

01:37:34.160 Let's just go for racism.

01:37:35.980 Okay.

01:37:36.320 Yeah.

01:37:36.620 Like, there's clear racism.

01:37:38.100 That's not a secret.

01:37:39.640 And some people have disadvantages, systematic disadvantages because of that.

01:37:43.660 Like men?

01:37:44.200 So, equity.

01:37:45.500 Some men have disadvantages, yeah. 0.93

01:37:47.020 And all the layers of your identity...

01:37:49.000 All men in this country are systematically discriminated against.

01:37:54.340 Okay.

01:37:54.600 It's almost grandma's bedtime.

01:37:56.980 Can we please change the subject?

01:37:59.480 Yeah, we're going to go in circles forever.

01:38:00.080 I mean, if you want, you can leave.

01:38:01.660 Like, I don't...

01:38:02.100 I mean, we're just talking about it, but...

01:38:03.840 But let's throw some fun stuff in there.

01:38:05.320 I mean...

01:38:05.880 Let's lighten it up a little bit.

01:38:07.900 A little bit.

01:38:08.500 A little bit.

01:38:09.020 Like, what's everybody's kinks? 0.99

01:38:10.300 Come on.

01:38:11.100 Say it.

01:38:11.460 Come on.

01:38:12.380 Respect.

01:38:12.620 Somebody mute her mic for... 0.99

01:38:13.980 Somebody mute her mic for seven minutes so she doesn't bring it back to intersectionality. 1.00

01:38:19.400 Hey, I would...

01:38:20.300 All right.

01:38:20.320 Let me move it on.

01:38:21.040 Let me move it on.

01:38:21.820 Let me move it on.

01:38:22.420 Let me move it on.

01:38:22.440 You know...

01:38:23.140 All right.

01:38:23.740 So, let me see.

01:38:24.820 Do we have...

01:38:25.680 Thank you, Mark Quavius, for derailing the conversation there for...

01:38:30.880 Thank you, man.

01:38:32.180 Okay.

01:38:32.440 We have Ryan, the eating warrior.

01:38:34.820 Thank you for the hundred, man.

01:38:35.800 Asian corner chick needs to be silent. 1.00

01:38:37.600 LOL. 0.75

01:38:38.400 It's not her show.

01:38:39.100 You did not pay a hundred bucks to say that.

01:38:40.580 No.

01:38:41.460 No, he paid.

01:38:42.560 Okay.

01:38:43.520 Drop a stack right now.

01:38:46.060 A stack is $1,000, and I will keep my mouth shut and actually leave the building.

01:38:51.720 Wow.

01:38:52.080 Oh, okay.

01:38:53.240 All right.

01:38:53.440 It's $1,000.

01:38:54.460 I will leave the building.

01:38:56.380 And she'll say yes, Daddy.

01:38:57.360 Send it through Streamlabs, though.

01:38:59.480 Yo, by the way, Ryan's a Chad.

01:39:00.980 Look at that profile picture. 1.00

01:39:02.120 Like, he's got the fucking beard and... 1.00

01:39:04.040 Warrior. 1.00

01:39:04.420 Yeah, that's totally him.

01:39:06.000 What a Chad.

01:39:07.160 What a Chad.

01:39:07.540 The eating warrior.

01:39:09.040 Okay.

01:39:09.880 What do you eat?

01:39:10.360 All right.

01:39:10.840 So...

01:39:11.280 He's like, I'm vegan.

01:39:12.840 All right.

01:39:13.200 Why don't we...

01:39:14.020 Let me try to bring it back to... 0.99

01:39:16.400 What the fuck did I even... 0.99

01:39:17.340 Jesus, my penmanship is terrible. 0.99

01:39:19.420 What does that say?

01:39:20.320 Can you read that?

01:39:21.040 What did I...

01:39:21.720 Oh, Carrie? 0.96

01:39:22.280 Body count.

01:39:22.560 Is that Carrie?

01:39:23.280 No, this one right here.

01:39:24.940 Bro.

01:39:26.080 Carrie?

01:39:27.260 Hello?

01:39:29.760 It's because you're left-handed.

01:39:31.020 I'm a left-handed.

01:39:31.780 I'm scuffed.

01:39:33.240 Okay.

01:39:34.340 So...

01:39:36.780 I know I'm the rank queen, y'all, but I'm sorry.

01:39:38.960 Oh, here we go.

01:39:41.940 She really is.

01:39:42.600 Do women have game? 1.00

01:39:44.540 Yes.

01:39:45.320 Yeah.

01:39:45.740 And you mean...

01:39:46.580 Absolutely.

01:39:47.620 Yes?

01:39:48.240 I think so.

01:39:48.900 Reese?

01:39:49.340 I want to vouch for her.

01:39:50.900 She has some of the craziest game I've ever seen in my life. 0.99

01:39:53.480 I mean, I'll start with talking about the fact that I also date other women, so that

01:39:57.100 does bring in...

01:39:57.880 You already have a step up.

01:39:59.520 Yeah, you know, it's...

01:40:00.620 Is it...

01:40:00.900 Do you think it's harder dealing with men or women? 0.99

01:40:03.420 I think it's completely different, and I think it's harder to deal with assholes, but 0.99

01:40:07.160 there can be assholes that are men or women. 0.99

01:40:09.380 Fair enough. 0.99

01:40:10.440 Okay.

01:40:10.660 Who here else thinks they have game?

01:40:13.140 I think you need game to keep a relationship.

01:40:16.200 Like, how else do you keep it spicy?

01:40:17.880 Also, men love conflict, so every once in a while...

01:40:20.940 What?

01:40:21.480 Listen, I'm not saying like...

01:40:23.120 I'm not saying like, let me see your phone.

01:40:27.800 Let me see this.

01:40:28.460 Why are you talking to her? 1.00

01:40:29.280 Not that bullshit. 0.99

01:40:30.040 I'm saying like... 0.99

01:40:31.300 I'm on the list.

01:40:32.560 Jesus Christ.

01:40:33.140 You know what?

01:40:33.680 It's okay.

01:40:34.400 I understand. 0.91

01:40:35.040 You guys have never had great, amazing, mind-blowing sex.

01:40:38.080 It's okay. 0.90

01:40:38.640 I get it.

01:40:39.040 I get it.

01:40:39.980 Oh, my God.

01:40:40.060 No.

01:40:40.500 This is my case.

01:40:41.080 Oh, my God.

01:40:42.740 Women love conflict and drama, and I'm going to tell you why. 1.00

01:40:45.660 I'm going to tell you why.

01:40:46.240 So do men, and this is going back to...

01:40:48.380 No, we don't.

01:40:49.220 The world is hard enough.

01:40:50.340 We don't need drama from you guys.

01:40:52.140 The fun stuff.

01:40:54.140 What?

01:40:55.040 Okay.

01:40:56.100 Okay.

01:40:56.660 You know what?

01:40:57.160 It's so okay to be vanilla.

01:40:58.660 Like, I love missionary.

01:41:00.280 Like, that's fine, too.

01:41:00.900 Couldn't a girl be... 1.00

01:41:01.800 A girl can be good in bed and also bring you peace. 1.00

01:41:04.260 No.

01:41:05.220 She should only bring peace.

01:41:06.860 But you just said conflict.

01:41:08.160 You just said conflict.

01:41:09.740 Like, in a flirty way?

01:41:11.960 Y'all can't back me up on this?

01:41:13.140 Nah.

01:41:13.800 Okay.

01:41:14.040 Do you like...

01:41:14.540 Do I ask men all the time?

01:41:15.920 Like, it's...

01:41:16.880 Are you not having fun debating?

01:41:17.960 Like, that's your best friend.

01:41:18.880 Like, that's your best friend.

01:41:19.860 That's like...

01:41:20.620 You guys can go, like, banter back and forth and be like...

01:41:23.060 No, my girl is not my...

01:41:24.180 Any girlfriend is not my best friend.

01:41:25.960 I have guys that are my best friend.

01:41:27.400 My girlfriend is my girlfriend.

01:41:28.800 I'm just saying in, like, a best friend matter.

01:41:31.020 Okay.

01:41:31.280 So, women should not have opinions, I guess. 1.00

01:41:33.980 That's not what he said, but...

01:41:36.100 You said conflict.

01:41:37.100 You said conflict.

01:41:38.620 Yeah.

01:41:39.160 I don't think anyone, man or woman, wants conflict.

01:41:42.040 Like a little spice during...

01:41:43.280 Nope.

01:41:43.560 You know, like...

01:41:44.540 Spice during what?

01:41:45.860 During just the relationship.

01:41:47.540 Like, if every single day is just the same cycle over and over again, like, that's why

01:41:52.900 men cheat.

01:41:53.900 No.

01:41:54.120 No, no, no.

01:41:54.180 Like, you need a little bit of, like...

01:41:55.540 You need a little bit of, like, even fake, like, fake jealousy or just...

01:41:59.420 No, no.

01:41:59.840 I get what you're saying.

01:42:00.820 I get what you're saying.

01:42:01.400 I get what you're saying.

01:42:01.600 Like, oh, my God.

01:42:02.360 No, I get what you're saying.

01:42:02.680 Did you look at her?

01:42:03.440 It's okay, babe.

01:42:04.000 No, this is the whole, you know, the whole trope that nice guys finish last or whatever.

01:42:09.520 The reason why is because...

01:42:11.840 Think about it.

01:42:12.280 Well, we'll say...

01:42:13.080 Let's say 200, 300 years ago, you had a girl or whatever, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:42:17.280 You went to work.

01:42:18.380 If you went to work or you went on a...

01:42:20.320 You went out, there was a chance you might not come back. 1.00

01:42:23.700 So, the whole time that you're going away from your woman or whatever, she's fucking... 1.00

01:42:28.920 Her mind's racing. 0.99

01:42:31.180 There's constant, like, worry or whatever.

01:42:34.400 But now we live in a day where there's no worry.

01:42:36.340 You can tell, you know, like, so women need... 1.00

01:42:38.940 You can immediately call someone.

01:42:40.220 Yeah, women need that drama. 1.00

01:42:41.460 That drama isn't great.

01:42:42.560 Like, we progress too fast.

01:42:44.100 And I think men do, too, to understand that we care or that...

01:42:47.060 No, no, we don't.

01:42:47.620 Men like to chase, though.

01:42:48.220 You gotta think.

01:42:48.680 We are complete opposites.

01:42:50.540 You need that.

01:42:51.220 You guys get bored.

01:42:51.940 I think that you get the same drive out of having an intelligent conversation that possibly

01:42:56.380 you disagree with.

01:42:57.140 Yes, disagreeing is important in a relationship.

01:42:59.520 Simple. 1.00

01:42:59.820 I don't think it needs to be, oh, my God, did you look at her ass? 1.00

01:43:02.220 It can be, hey, let's talk politics. 0.99

01:43:04.260 Let's agree.

01:43:04.720 Let's get mad at each other.

01:43:05.780 Let's realize that we love each other, and this is why we're together, and it's great

01:43:09.220 to disagree and expand each other's brains, because I agree, you're dating someone that

01:43:12.660 you're just constantly, oh, I agree, oh, I agree, oh, I agree.

01:43:15.140 We're peace, we're peace.

01:43:15.860 Yeah, that's boring.

01:43:16.860 It gets boring.

01:43:17.780 Right, but what I'm saying is that's what y'all think.

01:43:19.680 It does not take away bringing peace.

01:43:21.360 Men, we don't think like that.

01:43:22.720 We don't want...

01:43:23.680 We don't want...

01:43:24.500 We don't need that.

01:43:25.140 I think that...

01:43:25.460 Y'all need that drama.

01:43:26.720 Y'all need your emotions spiked.

01:43:29.000 You need to get scared.

01:43:30.120 That's why you love women, though. 1.00

01:43:31.160 What?

01:43:31.680 That's why you love women. 1.00

01:43:32.800 Women keep that, like, zestiness. 1.00

01:43:35.780 You don't love women? 0.97

01:43:37.520 You're not hard right now.

01:43:40.240 Come on.

01:43:41.080 She's, like, bringing the spice.

01:43:44.060 I'm flabbergasted.

01:43:45.280 Oh, I'm not trying to...

01:43:45.820 You know you've got a little half ego.

01:43:47.560 I think that when you say, like, oh, men aren't interested in that, that's why I'm not interested

01:43:51.440 in most men.

01:43:52.580 And then again, this is a dating podcast where we talk about general things, but in my opinion,

01:43:57.840 I want to be with someone that I can have good intellectual conversations with.

01:44:01.820 No, I'm not saying that that's wrong.

01:44:03.020 I don't think that there are men out there that also value that in a woman.

01:44:05.800 So, no, maybe not ever.

01:44:06.540 No, I agree.

01:44:06.800 No, I agree.

01:44:07.480 I would love to have great conversations or whatever, but I don't need conflict.

01:44:11.060 I don't need...

01:44:11.780 No, not conflict, but disagreeing is...

01:44:13.980 No, I don't...

01:44:14.540 Why do I need...

01:44:15.080 Why do I need disagree?

01:44:16.040 I don't need a disagreement.

01:44:17.120 I don't need...

01:44:17.680 I don't need that.

01:44:18.740 Why would anyone need a disagreement?

01:44:21.760 Because it's fun.

01:44:22.540 You're challenged.

01:44:23.020 You're intellectually challenged.

01:44:24.600 So, it's not necessarily that, like, you can agree to disagree. 0.98

01:44:27.880 Like, I'm sure a lot of people are telling me to shut the fuck up, and I talk too much, 0.95

01:44:32.500 and that's... 0.98

01:44:32.980 I get it.

01:44:33.700 I do talk too much.

01:44:34.880 But, like, being intellectually challenged and stimulated, if you want to be with somebody

01:44:38.360 for 40, 50 years, bro, you're going to get bored.

01:44:41.380 Like, if she's just like, yeah, honey, but, like, I mean, you still got to bring in the

01:44:45.480 other... 0.99

01:44:45.880 Shut up. 1.00

01:44:47.320 Being a man is boring. 1.00

01:44:48.800 We go to work every day.

01:44:49.960 Being a man is boring.

01:44:51.100 Life isn't... 0.63

01:44:51.800 You've never, like, got into a fight with your girl, and then, like, the sex is phenomenal.

01:44:56.480 Because you have, like, some...

01:44:57.820 It ain't worth the fight.

01:44:59.160 No.

01:44:59.560 Some people...

01:45:00.420 I think the level of the sex... 0.90

01:45:02.360 Y'all date toxic dudes. 0.81

01:45:03.100 Yeah, and I don't do that.

01:45:04.140 But the level of...

01:45:05.080 I'm saying the disagreement can...

01:45:06.700 Y'all dating bums. 0.99

01:45:08.080 If you want to have that toxic makeup sex bullshit, any guy who's, like, on his purpose, he's already 1.00

01:45:13.920 stressed out enough with his job. 0.99

01:45:16.660 Absolutely.

01:45:17.120 And, like you said, it should be peace.

01:45:18.680 We want to have to be in a relationship with a girl that only adds to our stress level. 0.98

01:45:24.500 She's not saying that.

01:45:25.180 She's just saying sprinkle it in.

01:45:26.400 I didn't...

01:45:26.820 I did not...

01:45:27.180 No, we don't want sprinkles.

01:45:28.360 We don't want...

01:45:28.920 Well, that's what...

01:45:29.540 We want nothing.

01:45:29.740 That's what you want, and I would respect that.

01:45:31.260 But then you're like, oh, when you... 0.99

01:45:31.300 Brian, are you saying you want vanilla sex? 0.98

01:45:34.200 Why does it have to be tied about sex? 0.98

01:45:36.620 Like, why do y'all always tie about...

01:45:38.300 All of that...

01:45:38.780 All of that intertwines into...

01:45:41.040 Because what is the purpose of a relationship? 0.84

01:45:43.020 What's wrong with vanilla sex?

01:45:43.600 What is the purpose of a... 0.97

01:45:44.500 Sometimes vanilla's good.

01:45:46.060 Vanilla's good.

01:45:46.720 Vanilla is good.

01:45:47.620 Vanilla is safe.

01:45:49.340 Vanilla is safe.

01:45:50.120 Really quick on the vanilla thing.

01:45:51.340 What's up with the rough sex meta? 1.00

01:45:54.100 Why y'all want to be choked and hit and shit? 1.00

01:45:56.460 Can't we just like, can I not physically abuse you during sex? 1.00

01:45:59.360 Would that be so hard to ask? 0.98

01:46:01.440 Huh?

01:46:02.220 He loves...

01:46:02.660 Can we not?

01:46:03.380 I don't think it's about being physically abusive during sex.

01:46:07.320 I think it's like, I want a man to be assertive and take control.

01:46:12.020 And men really...

01:46:13.960 Well, some men do, but a lot of men don't.

01:46:16.220 Some men like to be...

01:46:17.140 You know the men that do?

01:46:18.900 What's that?

01:46:19.300 Men that have been with a lot of women.

01:46:20.940 Brian.

01:46:21.480 What? 0.91

01:46:22.020 Are you a munch? 0.70

01:46:23.140 Is you a munch? 0.90

01:46:24.020 Bro, this is such a weird term.

01:46:25.580 What's a munch? 0.93

01:46:26.620 A munch is a guy that goes down on girls. 1.00

01:46:29.700 Oh, you're a hero.

01:46:31.220 No, I don't do that.

01:46:33.200 At all?

01:46:33.760 I wouldn't support Brian Landon.

01:46:35.380 Another one.

01:46:35.980 Another one.

01:46:36.600 Actually, I would outlaw it.

01:46:38.280 Oh, in Brian.

01:46:39.200 Well, only for a man to do that.

01:46:40.840 You don't have my vote.

01:46:42.060 Wait, I can't vote.

01:46:42.600 I would.

01:46:43.140 But what about equality?

01:46:47.280 Bro, it's different.

01:46:48.360 What about equality?

01:46:49.780 It's different.

01:46:50.560 No, we don't need any of that.

01:46:51.540 It's different.

01:46:51.900 Anyway, so the purpose of relationship...

01:46:53.400 You're asking, why does it always go back to sex?

01:46:55.860 What's the purpose of a relationship?

01:46:58.400 Companionship.

01:46:59.940 Procreation, technically. 0.75

01:47:01.140 Bro, most of the time I spend with a girl is not having sex.

01:47:05.740 No, no, no, and it shouldn't be, and if it is, that's kinky, but that's not a real relationship

01:47:09.980 at all, right?

01:47:10.600 Sure, sure.

01:47:11.420 But the ultimate goal of you establishing this bond with her is so that you could maybe possibly

01:47:16.540 create a family or so you can, like, do the do with her, so...

01:47:21.180 But, okay, and this kind of...

01:47:22.560 So all of that, which is why I'm saying the sprinkles and the...

01:47:25.700 To create a whole entire cake.

01:47:27.200 Okay, I see what you're saying.

01:47:28.320 Let me...

01:47:28.600 So I'll adjust that, so... 0.98

01:47:32.220 Excuse me, I fucking... 0.97

01:47:33.860 The water went... 0.99

01:47:34.520 Okay.

01:47:34.700 Stop it. 1.00

01:47:35.740 What the fuck, bro? 1.00

01:47:37.840 I'm gonna blame it. 1.00

01:47:38.880 I don't know if it's...

01:47:40.000 Hold on.

01:47:42.820 Stop it.

01:47:43.500 What the...

01:47:44.080 Get some help.

01:47:46.280 Who's that towards?

01:47:47.900 Eric, you're gonna have to hide it.

01:47:49.580 So you're saying the sprinkles, right?

01:47:51.020 And you're saying...

01:47:52.320 What was the thing you were saying?

01:47:54.820 Oh, my God, my voice is...

01:47:56.040 Hold on.

01:47:57.560 I'm dying.

01:47:58.340 Sorry.

01:47:58.760 It's okay.

01:47:59.980 It's been a long day.

01:48:01.300 It's been a minute.

01:48:03.360 Throat's been through a bit today, huh? 1.00

01:48:04.800 What the fuck? 1.00

01:48:06.460 Pause on pause. 1.00

01:48:07.460 He's flustered.

01:48:08.760 No, no, no. 0.99

01:48:09.520 My water got all fucked up. 0.99

01:48:11.060 Here, I'll come back. 0.98

01:48:11.900 I'll come back to that.

01:48:12.840 Do you want to go on something?

01:48:13.920 I know you want to...

01:48:14.420 Oh, you were saying...

01:48:17.140 What'd you say about...

01:48:19.140 You were talking about...

01:48:21.140 The purpose of a relationship?

01:48:24.860 Like, what makes...

01:48:25.400 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:48:25.520 I think it's what makes a relationship different than a friendship.

01:48:28.300 Yeah, not the purpose.

01:48:28.580 No, no, I know what I was going to say.

01:48:29.780 So you were talking about, like, being spicy or whatever, blah, blah, blah.

01:48:33.560 Like, if I had three...

01:48:39.020 I don't spend a lot of...

01:48:40.860 Like, a man should not be spending a lot of time with a woman. 1.00

01:48:44.080 I agree. 0.99

01:48:44.560 Right, like, he should be fucking busy. 0.98

01:48:46.620 Like, and I feel like that, like... 0.99

01:48:48.020 Hell, yeah. 0.99

01:48:48.420 Yeah, there's no watching movies and shit. 1.00

01:48:49.780 My worst relationships was 24-7, we're together. 0.99

01:48:52.000 Like, that's...

01:48:52.260 So, yeah, so...

01:48:52.880 That's just codependency.

01:48:53.680 Right, that's awful.

01:48:54.440 So when you do see that woman or whatever, she's going to be excited to see you.

01:49:00.060 There's no...

01:49:00.480 Oh, right.

01:49:00.920 You don't need to be bored.

01:49:01.880 You don't...

01:49:02.400 Yeah, like, so there's no...

01:49:03.300 But within the few times that you're not...

01:49:05.040 Right, you can't...

01:49:05.620 It's impossible to get bored if you miss somebody.

01:49:08.640 Right.

01:49:09.100 So if your woman misses you, she's never going to get bored of you.

01:49:11.980 I can agree with everything you're saying.

01:49:13.680 And now I have this question for everybody.

01:49:15.820 Do you guys think that we live in a society now where you would...

01:49:19.200 You personally would live with your partner in the same house?

01:49:21.980 Because me personally, if I get married, even then, I think I would want, like, a separate house.

01:49:26.060 Not to just, like, always be in, but, like, just to have my own personal space.

01:49:30.940 Yeah, of course I would.

01:49:31.680 I would love to...

01:49:32.380 I'm 18, we have a boyfriend who lives together right now.

01:49:34.840 So, yeah.

01:49:35.400 I'd love it.

01:49:36.200 Yeah.

01:49:36.600 Oh, I would never live with a woman. 1.00

01:49:38.160 Live together?

01:49:38.940 No, we live together.

01:49:39.560 I've done it.

01:49:40.540 I've done it.

01:49:40.980 I will say I've done it.

01:49:41.680 I enjoy living together, like, that whole thought.

01:49:44.640 But I think I would want, like, two separate houses connected with a bridge.

01:49:48.580 That's, like, my idea.

01:49:48.980 I mean, that would be amazing.

01:49:50.340 If I had, like, him pay money, I would love that.

01:49:53.120 Like, he can sleep in the guest house.

01:49:55.440 Right.

01:49:55.940 But we're still close enough in proximity.

01:49:58.780 No, I think that for the sake of my family, I would want them growing up with, like, a traditional image of a mother and father.

01:50:05.680 In the same house all the time.

01:50:07.040 Oh, yeah, I guess, with kids, that's an exception.

01:50:09.780 No, I want my man to go off to husband land. 0.71

01:50:11.580 I don't know why I said that.

01:50:12.560 Go, yeah, go to husband land. 1.00

01:50:14.300 Go work, boy.

01:50:15.260 Like, go do your thing.

01:50:16.480 And I don't ever see a point in my life where I'm not working unless I have young children to, like, take care of at home.

01:50:22.220 But either way, like, I hope that my husband and I spend significant time every day apart from each other.

01:50:27.980 Because then you do value the time you spend together.

01:50:29.720 But I would hope that I, you know, I wouldn't marry someone that I didn't want to sleep in the same bed as.

01:50:36.160 Oh, for sure. 0.87

01:50:36.840 I don't know who here dates women, but y'all are mean. 1.00

01:50:40.580 So, like, hanging out with y'all, like, an extended period of time is just a ticking time.

01:50:45.020 Eventually, you're going to be mad about something for no reason at all.

01:50:48.380 So, like, you have to limit the time to spend around women. 1.00

01:50:51.760 Because, yeah, like, it's.

01:50:54.340 You're saying women get upset for no reason at all.

01:50:57.700 So, I think that men and women have totally different brains. 0.99

01:51:01.420 And if you talk to men who have been in marriages for a long time, from what I've gathered is they can actually appreciate the way a woman's brain works so differently. 0.98

01:51:11.200 No, you guys don't get it.

01:51:12.020 And we don't get how your brains work.

01:51:13.200 We're biologically different.

01:51:14.740 No, but we have to.

01:51:16.160 Men have to empathize.

01:51:18.040 We have to get you to date you.

01:51:20.080 You don't have to understand us.

01:51:21.480 So, we understand you.

01:51:23.020 But you don't understand us because you don't have to to date us.

01:51:25.280 I don't think that you understand.

01:51:27.260 I think that women can more simply understand men than men understand women. 1.00

01:51:32.100 Because women are crazy. 1.00

01:51:33.240 Women have, you know, complicated brains. 1.00

01:51:35.940 And I think that there's validity to that when guys are like, girls are so complicated.

01:51:39.340 We can't please them.

01:51:40.560 They don't want the nice guy.

01:51:41.460 They don't want the mean guy.

01:51:42.540 We're complicated creatures.

01:51:44.160 It's just how we're made.

01:51:45.400 How is it that we don't understand you guys if, like, our role.

01:51:49.600 Like, in my relationships, I'm pretty submissive in serving.

01:51:52.540 And it's like, if I roll this too.

01:51:54.520 You're submissive.

01:51:55.020 In my relationships.

01:51:56.180 You're submissive.

01:51:56.520 Yeah, but you have to be able to put me in my place.

01:51:58.220 You feel me?

01:51:58.560 So, you're conditionally, like, you're not submissive the entire time.

01:52:03.560 Would you say you're feminine in relationships? 1.00

01:52:05.300 Yeah, very.

01:52:06.080 Because I am outside of relationships.

01:52:09.200 Like, obviously a very outspoken person.

01:52:12.220 That has to seep into your relationships.

01:52:14.660 I'm not saying that I can't do better and maybe listen more and talk less.

01:52:18.400 Like, I definitely recognize my faults and all that.

01:52:20.820 But to his point, and I have, like, a lot of room to grow.

01:52:24.540 I'm not saying I'm ready to be a full wife or, you know, develop.

01:52:28.220 But to your point, like, if we're in that role most of the time, we have to understand you in order to cater to you.

01:52:34.460 You know what I'm saying?

01:52:35.260 Like, we have to anticipate your wants and needs.

01:52:37.960 Like, a good wife, in my opinion, would. 0.92

01:52:40.300 Like, if that's the role you want to take on in the relationship.

01:52:42.700 Speaking more empathy, not...

01:52:45.780 Like, empathize with men's issues? 0.88

01:52:47.820 I want to hear what Reese has to say on this.

01:52:50.080 Reese, what have you got for us?

01:52:51.660 Okay.

01:52:52.260 Again, like, on women understanding men and vice versa. 0.56

01:52:55.920 I feel like in my past relationships, I've had a pretty good understanding of how my partner's brain works.

01:53:00.160 Because I feel like if I don't understand them, we don't have, like, a real, actual connection.

01:53:05.120 Like, if we don't understand each other, then what are we doing?

01:53:07.820 You know?

01:53:08.220 Like, when I'm dating someone, I want to have a really deep, genuine connection with this person.

01:53:13.140 And it shouldn't matter that we're two different genders.

01:53:14.900 We should be able to understand each other.

01:53:17.500 Right?

01:53:19.040 Or at least, like, communicate to get to an understanding.

01:53:22.160 Yeah, exactly.

01:53:22.840 And that's why communication is so important.

01:53:25.340 Do you think that men and women communicate differently?

01:53:27.900 Mm-hmm.

01:53:28.300 Yeah.

01:53:28.780 Yeah, we're emotion-based.

01:53:30.260 I think we tend to use different methods of communication.

01:53:35.980 And then it also comes to the point of, like, you know, how much experience do you have with communication and how comfortable are you with actually, you know, using efficient methods of communication.

01:53:45.020 Yeah, I think in general, and girls, correct me if I'm wrong, but when a guy pisses me off, my first instinct, unless we're, you know, extremely close and I feel that I can do this without backlash, like, I want him to figure out what he did wrong.

01:53:59.820 And that's just a female thing. 1.00

01:54:02.340 Oh, okay.

01:54:02.760 I disagree.

01:54:03.280 I actually, like, well, actually, I have a tendency, if I get really upset with someone, I have a tendency to go quiet, which is a bad habit to have.

01:54:08.620 Yeah, and you want them to know what they did wrong.

01:54:11.280 And then eventually, they don't understand because we didn't communicate, and that's a, I won't say a female flaw, that's just a female characteristic. 1.00

01:54:18.460 We, you know, we want men to buy us flowers without telling, hey, you want to, or I want you to buy me flowers.

01:54:23.580 We want men to open our door without actually saying, hey, I want you to open my door.

01:54:27.280 Or, so, in, you know, the context of a fight, we want men to know, we want the man to know what he did wrong or what he said to piss us off rather than just say it.

01:54:38.840 So, I'm willing to say it, though, because if I want, I'm willing to say it, though, because if I want to maintain a healthy relationship, I want to.

01:54:46.560 Oh, sorry, sorry, I was going to give you a ding.

01:54:49.080 Oh, thank you.

01:54:49.760 I was going to give you a ding.

01:54:50.580 Because if I want to maintain a healthy relationship, I want to say, you know, I want to present my issues that I have and what we can do to fix them because, again, what's the point in suffering and being upset in a relationship?

01:55:02.120 Like, why am I going to silently suffer?

01:55:04.260 Yeah, that's why you're toxic. 1.00

01:55:06.900 You're toxic. 0.97

01:55:07.720 I think, though, that that comes with maturity and growth, but I agree with you on a baseline.

01:55:11.420 There's a great book, I won't go into depth, but it's called That's Not What I Said, and it talks about how women and men are conditioned differently.

01:55:18.080 Women are raised to be communal, men are raised in a hierarchy, and that conditions how we communicate.

01:55:23.220 Yeah, totally.

01:55:24.000 But to piggyback off what you said, you said you want your spouse to.

01:55:29.140 I said a general statement, a general statement.

01:55:31.620 Women in general want men to do things without having to tell them. 1.00

01:55:35.340 Right, so I'm just saying that's why women are awful disciplinarians. 1.00

01:55:39.620 Hold on just a sec, guys.

01:55:41.340 Because you don't just say what's wrong.

01:55:42.880 No, I think that the way.

01:55:43.960 Hold on.

01:55:44.480 Some women proves there is a reason why most cultures and religions throughout history had to keep female nature in check via laws or theological doctrine. 1.00

01:55:53.340 Women don't operate in logic. 1.00

01:55:55.540 They operate in emotion.

01:55:57.460 Repeal the 19th Amendment. 0.77

01:55:58.900 Repeal the 19th Amendment. 0.77

01:56:00.220 Can I say one thing?

01:56:01.260 I won't go further.

01:56:02.760 Anger is an emotion.

01:56:05.320 Men just process their emotions through anger. 0.74

01:56:08.560 So, yes, women are emotional, but so are men.

01:56:12.420 Lovely.

01:56:13.060 Yo, 10 out of 10.

01:56:13.960 Thank you for the big $200 streamlines donation, man.

01:56:16.920 Thank you.

01:56:17.640 Okay.

01:56:20.400 What were you guys talking about?

01:56:22.440 So you want a guy to open your door, your car door, and if he doesn't, that's like a deal breaker for you?

01:56:29.740 Yeah.

01:56:30.340 For me, that is.

01:56:30.820 Is that really a deal breaker for me if someone doesn't open the door for you that's like a deal breaker?

01:56:36.300 I think consistency for me.

01:56:39.460 Like, if you're going to open doors, always open the door.

01:56:42.900 Don't just do it once for first impression.

01:56:46.100 That's inconsistent.

01:56:48.420 Okay?

01:56:49.220 Like, I don't like that.

01:56:51.360 Like, in general.

01:56:53.920 It's just like a first impression thing.

01:56:55.540 If I'm with a man, like, if I'm, like, say he wanted to take me on a date, or I'm just hanging out with a dude and we go somewhere and, like, somebody has to open my door, I am not going to walk through the door until he opens it.

01:57:07.280 I will stand there and wait and look at him, like, are you going to open the door?

01:57:13.480 But it's like, if you want us to be feminine, stand in your masculinity.

01:57:17.120 Like, lead.

01:57:18.320 Absolutely.

01:57:19.000 There you go.

01:57:19.340 You know, you want a woman to be submissive and quiet and agreeable. 1.00

01:57:22.840 But then you also want her to pay half the check. 1.00

01:57:24.860 So we need to come to a common ground where it's like, okay, you know what?

01:57:28.040 Men are going to be feminine. 1.00

01:57:29.220 Women are going to be masculine. 1.00

01:57:30.720 Or we take the step the other way.

01:57:32.280 As a man, I'm going to be manly.

01:57:34.320 I'm going to do the man thing to do.

01:57:35.800 And I expect my woman to, you know, follow behind me. 0.99

01:57:39.240 Submit, et cetera, et cetera.

01:57:40.060 I agree.

01:57:41.360 And I think Brian.

01:57:42.020 You better be.

01:57:43.320 I think great men.

01:57:44.260 That's why we all agree.

01:57:45.760 Yes, I agree.

01:57:46.660 We all agree.

01:57:47.220 Yes, I open my open card.

01:57:48.520 Yeah.

01:57:48.800 This is weird.

01:57:49.580 No, I disagree.

01:57:50.320 No, Brian doesn't.

01:57:51.460 I disagree.

01:57:52.060 You know, women can pay for their own food and they can open their own doors. 1.00

01:57:57.960 Oh, yeah.

01:57:58.820 When I'm not with you.

01:57:59.840 Food tastes better when a man pays for me. 1.00

01:58:02.480 Also, am I giving you my body?

01:58:06.080 Am I like, if we're friends and we're going out, hell yeah, we're splitting the bill.

01:58:10.340 If we're going out as a group, I hope to split the bill as well.

01:58:13.080 But if you're courting me to have further relations with me, going back to procreating, potentially

01:58:20.460 procreating with me, like that's just like one step is like paying the bill.

01:58:23.760 Maybe not every single time, but the first like three to five times at least.

01:58:28.540 You mean three to five?

01:58:29.360 Three to five dates?

01:58:30.080 Three to five dates.

01:58:31.040 Well, okay.

01:58:31.720 So, I mean, the thing is that I would say if on a balance of probabilities, if you look

01:58:39.520 at most women, most women themselves are not moving in a traditional way.

01:58:44.780 Correct.

01:58:45.420 So.

01:58:45.800 Job wise.

01:58:46.320 So then don't date most women.

01:58:48.740 This is what I was saying the last time I was on.

01:58:50.900 You know, you're saying, well, most women are sleeping with other men. 1.00

01:58:53.160 Most women are doing this. 1.00

01:58:53.940 Yeah, that's why.

01:58:54.260 You're not dating most women in the world.

01:58:56.000 Just pick better women. 1.00

01:58:57.020 You've already said you're on dating apps.

01:58:58.340 Why are you on dating apps if you're so against dating apps?

01:59:00.660 And you say the dating apps.

01:59:01.520 He's recruiting.

01:59:01.560 I'm on the dating apps to recruit.

01:59:04.940 It's the reverse finesse.

01:59:06.060 That's misleading.

01:59:07.420 Bro, women on dating apps do it for attention. 1.00

01:59:10.680 They have no intention of actually going on dates.

01:59:12.380 They put their Instagram in the thing.

01:59:13.580 They put their Venmo.

01:59:14.280 They put their Cash App.

01:59:15.280 They put their OnlyFans link.

01:59:16.560 I'm like the sole guy, the one guy out of the millions of men on dating apps who's doing

01:59:21.220 the reverse finesse.

01:59:22.520 So, whatever.

01:59:23.260 You're smart.

01:59:23.940 And that's not a reverse finesse.

01:59:25.000 You're just, that's equal rights right there.

01:59:26.180 I have a question for Brian.

01:59:27.480 Equal rights.

01:59:27.960 Equal rights.

01:59:29.300 So.

01:59:30.240 What's up?

01:59:30.620 No, I will not pay for the first date.

01:59:32.900 Boo.

01:59:33.480 I actually don't care about that.

01:59:35.160 I pay for my own food.

01:59:36.580 Okay.

01:59:37.080 Yeah.

01:59:37.620 Anyways.

01:59:39.840 So, just using context clues, not assuming anything.

01:59:43.220 Context clues?

01:59:44.020 You seem to have been with many women.

01:59:48.040 Correct me if I'm wrong.

01:59:49.220 More than like 20.

01:59:52.160 Like, right?

01:59:54.160 Listen, I'm a man of God.

01:59:55.780 Okay.

01:59:56.240 Okay.

01:59:56.540 I'm just asking something.

01:59:57.480 So, you preach that women should be innocent, should have a low body count, et cetera. 1.00

02:00:06.200 Yep. 0.77

02:00:07.880 But then why are you, but you're the one benefiting from women's promiscuity. 1.00

02:00:12.080 On these apps.

02:00:13.840 Well, he already said he doesn't use apps to hook up.

02:00:15.580 But I'm just saying, if you're going out with all these girls, you're the one benefiting

02:00:18.820 from women's promiscuity, the very thing you're preaching against. 0.97

02:00:21.280 So, that's where I kind of get a little confused.

02:00:22.960 Well, I'm not in favor of promiscuity for men or women.

02:00:26.980 I do acknowledge, though, that there is a bit of a difference when it comes to body count.

02:00:30.800 But I don't consider myself particularly promiscuous.

02:00:33.640 Like, if I don't drink, I don't go to bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't go to parties.

02:00:37.720 I'm not interested in one-night stands.

02:00:39.260 If a girl's visiting Santa Barbara, if she's a tourist, and she wants to hook up, I'll actually

02:00:42.980 say I'm not interested.

02:00:43.840 Oh, good for you.

02:00:44.660 A one-time thing doesn't interest me. 0.92

02:00:46.540 If I want to have sex with a girl, I want there to be a continuity. 0.95

02:00:50.120 So, like, I'm not trying to run through. 1.00

02:00:52.640 I'm not trying to fuck, like, three new chicks a week. 0.99

02:00:54.580 I'm not trying to do that. 0.99

02:00:55.680 Never was my interest.

02:00:56.880 If I wanted and decided that I want to sleep with a girl, I want there to be a continuity. 0.98

02:01:01.700 I want to continue seeing her.

02:01:03.420 Sometimes that leads into a relationship.

02:01:06.100 Maybe it's a couple months.

02:01:07.140 Maybe it's a couple weeks.

02:01:08.540 Maybe that's on her end.

02:01:09.640 I've hooked up with girls, and they just want something casual, and I didn't know, and then 0.87

02:01:14.580 it was one or two times, and that was it.

02:01:16.560 Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems you date for marriage.

02:01:19.920 No.

02:01:20.280 I don't want to get married.

02:01:21.720 Michael Nolson, change your mind?

02:01:27.220 Should I do a proposal chat?

02:01:28.800 Should I propose to someone on this panel?

02:01:30.180 How old are you?

02:01:32.120 You don't want to get married? 0.59

02:01:32.720 33.

02:01:33.340 Okay.

02:01:33.980 Why do you even talk to women? 1.00

02:01:36.760 You can have a partner.

02:01:38.300 You can have a girlfriend.

02:01:39.160 He has, like, the legal aspects.

02:01:40.780 Yeah, it's a deal.

02:01:41.380 Oh, I've heard.

02:01:41.920 Just legal aspects?

02:01:43.100 Yeah, but, I mean, no, just to answer your original question, I would not consider myself

02:01:49.820 promiscuous.

02:01:51.300 Okay.

02:01:51.700 I tend to, I don't have a roster.

02:01:54.700 I don't have time for it, because, honestly, any guy who's on his purpose, who's working 0.99

02:01:58.220 hard, frankly, just from a pure time perspective, will not have time to be fucking multiple chicks. 0.99

02:02:03.680 That's true. 1.00

02:02:04.140 Like, if you're actually hustling, you do not have time to fuck multiple chicks. 1.00

02:02:08.620 Because your work is your relationship, too. 1.00

02:02:11.200 Where I have a problem is where men are out here saying, women need to be innocent, but

02:02:14.740 they're the ones benefiting off the promiscuity.

02:02:16.300 I now understand that's not you.

02:02:17.840 Well, men and women want different things, but.

02:02:19.720 But, so, we live in a world now where a lot of the women have sex, like, easier and more 1.00

02:02:29.380 than men.

02:02:30.020 I agree. 0.50

02:02:30.600 So, if that happens, you can't, if there's a dude and he's only had sex with four girls

02:02:39.300 and he meets a girl that's had sex with 20 dudes, he's going to be at a disadvantage in

02:02:48.320 his, like, just in his mind.

02:02:50.880 You think that's a little emasculating?

02:02:52.840 Is that what you're trying to say?

02:02:53.560 Yeah, well, like.

02:02:54.300 Lack of experience?

02:02:55.360 Yeah, like, yeah, the lack, you can't, you can't be less experienced than your partner.

02:03:00.120 Would you use the word insecure in this instance?

02:03:02.680 No, no, no.

02:03:03.420 No, it's just.

02:03:06.340 I don't think it's insecure to not want to date the town bicycle.

02:03:09.300 No, no, I do too, but I was just trying to make a point, which I think that you are

02:03:13.060 just purposely not using that word, but.

02:03:15.260 Am I being evasive?

02:03:16.200 No, no, no, this was just the last podcast, I used the word insecure and I got freaking

02:03:20.740 jumped on by Brian, and, you know, that's what you're alluding to, and I did not mean

02:03:24.940 it in a negative sense.

02:03:25.860 I just think that if, you know, you're a man with a woman who's been with a lot of people,

02:03:30.400 insecurity is just a human emotion that everyone feels, it's a fact, you know, you might

02:03:36.660 feel insecure, and that's, you know, not a bad thing.

02:03:38.960 I think it's just a fact.

02:03:40.980 So I was wondering, would you use the word insecure in that instance, if you were a man

02:03:45.000 with a lower body count than the woman? 0.97

02:03:47.340 I don't know.

02:03:47.760 I've never been that guy.

02:03:48.600 You know what?

02:03:49.020 I am insecure about getting herpes.

02:03:53.120 I admit it.

02:03:53.900 I'm insecure about not wanting to get an STD.

02:03:56.680 I'm insecure about there being, hold on, I'm insecure about there being a risk of higher

02:04:01.860 divorce because she's had 10, 20, 30, 40 partners before me. 0.64

02:04:06.740 I'm insecure about her potentially having a greater likelihood of relationship dissatisfaction

02:04:13.500 because she's had so many previous partners.

02:04:15.840 I'm insecure because she's probably fried her brain and she's no longer able to pair bond

02:04:20.340 after having 50 previous sexual partners.

02:04:22.260 I totally agree with you.

02:04:23.020 I'm insecure about all these things.

02:04:24.520 I admit it.

02:04:25.680 Innocence in woman is a virtue and I totally agree with you. 1.00

02:04:28.900 Based.

02:04:31.720 So, Ella, you have game.

02:04:33.760 Eric, pull up her Instagram, not her profile.

02:04:37.160 We're going to play a game.

02:04:37.800 Do you have your phone on you? 1.00

02:04:39.340 Oh, damn. 1.00

02:04:40.120 Here we go. 0.99

02:04:40.500 Okay, so we're going to pretend like we are on a dating app or you've just slid into my

02:04:45.580 DMs.

02:04:46.120 So, you have game.

02:04:47.160 You're going to game me.

02:04:50.540 You're going to show the riz.

02:04:52.640 I only game women. 1.00

02:04:54.800 Oh, are you, you're game?

02:04:57.440 Yes.

02:04:58.060 Oh, okay.

02:04:58.720 Not bi.

02:05:00.860 Are you bi?

02:05:02.220 I wouldn't say bi.

02:05:03.100 I'm not really sure, but I do generally date women. 0.96

02:05:04.900 When you say you only game women, you don't pursue men, but you do pursue women, but you

02:05:09.300 are attracted to men.

02:05:10.260 Or I'm generally more attracted to women, so those are generally the people that I want 1.00

02:05:13.400 to work with.

02:05:13.440 Reese, do you have the riz?

02:05:16.060 Oh, boy.

02:05:16.960 Do you got riz?

02:05:17.580 Maybe.

02:05:18.760 Okay, let's try.

02:05:19.600 Maybe.

02:05:19.980 Let's try.

02:05:20.460 Eric, pull up her Instagram.

02:05:21.980 Oh, boy.

02:05:22.880 Pull up the chat on it if you know how to do that.

02:05:25.840 Let me know when you have it.

02:05:26.940 Not sure if the...

02:05:28.460 I mean, it should be one of the recent ones.

02:05:30.160 It's called Reesey.

02:05:32.220 Reesey with the sunglasses.

02:05:33.360 Oh, God.

02:05:33.640 Yeah.

02:05:34.680 I don't know if I have the best feed for this.

02:05:36.140 I don't have the most extensive feed.

02:05:37.940 Do you have your phone on you?

02:05:38.700 Yeah, I do.

02:05:39.320 Okay, pull up our conversation.

02:05:41.500 Okay.

02:05:48.140 Putting me on the spot.

02:05:51.940 You got it.

02:05:53.200 Do you have it, Eric?

02:05:54.160 You got it.

02:05:54.820 Okay, pull it up.

02:05:56.340 What are we doing?

02:05:57.600 Just pull it up.

02:05:58.900 It's a lot of pressure. 1.00

02:05:59.560 What the fuck? 1.00

02:06:00.140 This is... 1.00

02:06:00.540 Wait. 1.00

02:06:02.280 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:06:03.960 No, that's the right one, but it's not refreshing. 0.99

02:06:08.000 I don't know why that's...

02:06:09.440 Can you scroll down, Eric?

02:06:13.320 Can you refresh?

02:06:14.680 Here, hide it, and then refresh.

02:06:17.740 We're going to play a game.

02:06:20.360 Oh, boy.

02:06:20.820 You're going to game me.

02:06:22.400 Oh, God.

02:06:23.640 Sorry.

02:06:24.720 What was that?

02:06:25.800 I don't know. 1.00

02:06:26.420 That was like some dragon shit. 0.99

02:06:27.600 No, I don't know. 1.00

02:06:28.200 That came deep from my chest.

02:06:29.740 My bad.

02:06:31.340 It's the Riz. 0.99

02:06:32.320 It's the Riz. 0.99

02:06:32.940 It's coming up.

02:06:33.540 It's the Riz. 0.99

02:06:33.840 I'm warming up here.

02:06:36.360 Oh, God.

02:06:37.620 Can we all...

02:06:38.340 Okay, realistically, if a girl's doing this, she has a couple friends she's testing it with,

02:06:44.220 so are we allowed to give her some insight? 0.99

02:06:47.920 Pathetic. 1.00

02:06:48.720 What? 1.00

02:06:50.060 Okay, question while we wait.

02:06:52.260 What, to you, is good game from a guy's perspective?

02:06:55.000 Because we hear a lot.

02:06:55.920 Oh, I would actually love to know that.

02:06:57.680 Let me tell you.

02:06:58.220 Can you type something?

02:06:59.080 Just say test.

02:06:59.820 Men think they have game. 0.99

02:07:03.840 Actually, I would love to know.

02:07:05.240 What do you men?

02:07:05.920 Some do, but please.

02:07:07.120 Wait, what's the question?

02:07:08.220 Like, what, to you, is game from a men's perspective?

02:07:11.200 Like, oh, I got game.

02:07:12.080 Like, how do you approach a woman? 1.00

02:07:14.360 I'm great.

02:07:14.840 Now I'm getting called phlegm girl.

02:07:15.900 Oh, you're asking, like...

02:07:16.820 Yeah, like, what do the men do? 0.97

02:07:18.220 Because, like, we're going to go on the women's side, because typically we don't have to spend 0.99

02:07:21.840 here.

02:07:22.440 Eric, can you reload that one more time?

02:07:24.180 While we wait.

02:07:25.780 I'd love to hear.

02:07:27.080 What's that?

02:07:27.880 I said, what, to you, is good game on a guy's perspective?

02:07:30.880 Like, how would you approach a woman? 1.00

02:07:32.420 While we wait, because we're going to have her do the woman's side. 1.00

02:07:35.680 How would a guy approach a woman? 0.68

02:07:36.880 Yeah, like, yeah.

02:07:38.740 Because we have a lot of samples.

02:07:40.360 Well, I would say that one of the, being outcome independent.

02:07:44.020 Meaning, like, it doesn't matter what happens.

02:07:46.840 I'm just talking to you.

02:07:48.100 Like, I don't...

02:07:48.940 Okay, there we go.

02:07:49.840 Take it or leave it.

02:07:50.600 I agree.

02:07:51.020 So wait, you never answer the question.

02:07:52.240 Like, what do you consider game from women? 1.00

02:07:54.860 Like, what is, like, a big green flag?

02:07:56.400 And be like, oh, like, she is game.

02:07:58.420 Game from women? 1.00

02:07:58.600 Yeah, like...

02:07:59.800 Well, what?

02:08:00.380 Living in reality?

02:08:02.320 Women that live in reality? 1.00

02:08:03.180 All right, so pretend we...

02:08:04.200 Not delusional.

02:08:04.800 Here, here's the scenario.

02:08:06.100 We've either just matched on Christian Mingle.

02:08:09.680 That's right.

02:08:10.400 Farmer's meat.

02:08:10.960 Or...

02:08:11.600 Farmer's meat.

02:08:12.740 I like that one.

02:08:13.680 Or you're sliding into my DMs.

02:08:15.660 I'm sliding into...

02:08:16.180 I've actually never slid into someone's DMs before.

02:08:18.240 Let's...

02:08:19.120 Go ahead.

02:08:19.580 Gotta do it for the...

02:08:20.180 Oh, my God.

02:08:20.780 Okay.

02:08:21.980 Run your game.

02:08:23.140 Can she phone a friend if she needs to?

02:08:25.200 Phone a friend.

02:08:25.980 Nope.

02:08:26.340 Can I get a minute to think?

02:08:30.960 I don't want to just sit in silence.

02:08:32.400 Come on, babe. 1.00

02:08:33.100 It's the first words.

02:08:34.460 Oh, my goodness.

02:08:35.420 We gotta go back and forth.

02:08:36.460 I can't just start with...

02:08:37.600 High with...

02:08:38.160 Okay, I guess we're starting with high with two I's.

02:08:39.900 It's, like, the most basic start ever.

02:08:42.060 Wow, you've already failed.

02:08:43.160 I know, I've already failed.

02:08:44.180 I've already failed.

02:08:44.880 That's the bubble starter.

02:08:46.060 Okay, you know what?

02:08:47.940 Usually it would be easier for this as an actual person,

02:08:50.180 and I could, like, go off, like...

02:08:51.300 Okay, here, here, here.

02:08:51.880 The vibe I get from their feed.

02:08:53.600 Okay, go.

02:08:54.680 I just...

02:08:55.240 That's all I did.

02:08:55.980 And most girls would not even do this. 1.00

02:08:59.240 You gotta say, hi, cutie.

02:09:00.240 That's true.

02:09:01.400 Hi, cutie.

02:09:03.060 I don't know how to act on the spot.

02:09:04.500 You're making this really tough.

02:09:05.040 How you doing?

02:09:06.060 So you're...

02:09:06.600 I guess you're playing the dude, and I'm playing the chick.

02:09:09.440 You're playing...

02:09:09.980 I'm playing the dude.

02:09:11.520 Is it fair to say that this is, like, this weird alternate reality

02:09:15.500 that I don't care to partake in?

02:09:17.320 I've literally never said yes to a date through, like, Instagram DM.

02:09:20.380 If someone's hitting on me, it's probably...

02:09:22.340 It's not about you.

02:09:23.180 Don't worry about it.

02:09:23.860 Go ahead, Reese.

02:09:24.320 See, all I can think about right now is the bots that request me on my Instagram DMs

02:09:31.340 asking me to paint me, like, as a mural or, like, being my sugar baby.

02:09:34.960 That's the only, like, game I can think of.

02:09:37.000 If this was a conversation in person, you've basically been standing here looking at me

02:09:41.500 for a minute uncomfortably.

02:09:44.440 Imagine you're approaching me in person, so I need, like, quick, quick, quick.

02:09:47.900 Oh, my God.

02:09:49.060 I don't know.

02:09:49.520 You might have to pick someone else.

02:09:50.500 We matched on the dating app.

02:09:52.480 We matched on the dating app.

02:09:53.700 Phone a friend.

02:09:54.180 Boom, boom, boom.

02:09:54.940 Phone a friend.

02:09:56.780 I'm that friend.

02:09:57.660 You phone.

02:09:58.580 Just so you know.

02:10:06.320 Are the bubbles up?

02:10:07.620 Probably.

02:10:08.260 I'm typing.

02:10:09.520 I'm thinking.

02:10:10.660 Come on, girl. 1.00

02:10:11.200 You got it.

02:10:13.040 You're representing all of us.

02:10:14.200 Do I have, like, a fail noise?

02:10:17.740 I'm still, I'm typing.

02:10:18.720 I'm typing.

02:10:19.180 Can I do it?

02:10:23.380 I'm not impressed by your performance.

02:10:27.500 Oh, boy.

02:10:29.180 I can already tell that I don't like you. 1.00

02:10:35.980 Keep the change, you filthy animal. 0.99

02:10:39.340 I would just send a gif at this point, if you don't know what to say. 0.99

02:10:41.960 I might have to give up.

02:10:43.020 I'm so sorry to have wasted your time.

02:10:44.980 Yikes.

02:10:46.160 Who's next?

02:10:47.000 Or she could have responded to a story, right?

02:10:49.380 That.

02:10:49.940 Come on.

02:10:50.280 Just send a thirst trap, girl. 1.00

02:10:52.300 Just, like, something sexy.

02:10:54.540 I don't do that. 1.00

02:10:58.140 You could send a dick pic. 1.00

02:11:01.380 She doesn't. 1.00

02:11:02.740 Okay. 0.99

02:11:03.120 Are there any women here who would actually be very interested in receiving a dick pic from a random person? 1.00

02:11:07.480 Because I'm not one of those girls. 0.99

02:11:09.860 Yeah.

02:11:10.200 You know what? 1.00

02:11:10.660 I'd be down to receive pussy pic. 1.00

02:11:13.520 I'm sure. 0.99

02:11:13.860 I invite it.

02:11:14.860 Just randomly? 0.99

02:11:15.500 You don't want to be a dick pic. 0.97

02:11:16.460 Just open your inbox, and it's like, yeah. 0.96

02:11:18.700 You receive this photo, then what?

02:11:20.740 You ask her on a date?

02:11:21.900 That's very kind of you.

02:11:22.780 That was a very kind gesture, man.

02:11:24.120 She's the one I want to be with. 1.00

02:11:25.160 That's the pussy I want, but not to marry. 1.00

02:11:27.500 Guys will be like, oh, I want a girl to send me this or hit me up. 1.00

02:11:31.360 And then it's like, but that's not the girl you want to date you.

02:11:33.060 So what do you want it for?

02:11:33.520 Are we hiding it?

02:11:34.360 Okay, I guess we're hiding it. 0.99

02:11:34.980 I was going to say, with the sliding into the DMs, is she trying to fuck, or is she trying 1.00

02:11:38.380 to, like, date you, like, relationship? 0.99

02:11:40.200 Because that's two different things.

02:11:41.940 Like, two different things.

02:11:43.580 That was erroneous.

02:11:47.180 Every girl I've ever dated, I've had sex with on the first date. 0.93

02:11:51.020 Well, maybe that's why you haven't wiped any of them up yet.

02:11:54.460 Oh, I have.

02:11:56.000 That's Chad's status.

02:11:56.720 No, like, you're not, like, married to anyone.

02:11:58.860 It's okay, Reese.

02:11:59.560 Well, I don't want to do that.

02:12:00.920 Okay.

02:12:01.600 Oh, I'm sorry.

02:12:02.400 It's too late, Reese.

02:12:03.560 I think I've missed my opportunity.

02:12:05.500 Yeah, just, you can put your phone in on.

02:12:08.740 I might just have to delete my entire account at this point.

02:12:11.300 Have you thought about that?

02:12:12.720 How's it going?

02:12:14.380 Oh, here we go.

02:12:15.120 How's it hanging?

02:12:15.520 No, he's already removed it from the screen.

02:12:17.460 Are you typing still?

02:12:18.300 Yeah.

02:12:18.900 Okay, Eric, pull it back on.

02:12:20.880 All right.

02:12:22.140 All right, we'll give her a second shot. 1.00

02:12:23.780 Why don't you guys, like, imitate a phone call?

02:12:25.640 That's, like, the best I got.

02:12:27.040 I'm not impressed by your performance.

02:12:29.240 How's your day, baby?

02:12:29.920 I'm not either.

02:12:30.840 I'd love you.

02:12:31.240 I don't know.

02:12:31.760 I don't know.

02:12:32.120 Are you selling it?

02:12:35.940 Are you celibate or are you selling it, honey?

02:12:40.100 Yo, I want to ask the ladies really quick. 1.00

02:12:42.140 If a guy said this to you off a rip, how do you answer?

02:12:47.920 You don't.

02:12:48.580 I would ask, like, how show.

02:12:50.080 No, no, no.

02:12:50.860 Because if he's, it depends.

02:12:52.380 Because if he would say, I would love to take you out to dinner, then I'd be like, I'm interested. 0.99

02:12:57.620 But then if he would just, you know, send me a dick pic, then he's getting blocked. 0.99

02:13:01.520 It just depends where he's going with it. 0.99

02:13:02.820 Yeah, no dick pic. 0.94

02:13:03.420 What about, I want to have you to do it? 0.96

02:13:04.880 It's a little early on to decide. 0.99

02:13:06.860 Pussy pics are cool, though. 1.00

02:13:08.000 Pussy pics are okay. 0.99

02:13:08.740 Honestly, like, let's keep it a whole stack. 0.99

02:13:10.900 You're going to look at his profile and you're going to make a snap judgment.

02:13:13.580 And if you feel like you're attracted to them, then you're going to respond.

02:13:16.680 If you're not attracted to them, you're not going to respond because you can't get a good impression.

02:13:20.300 It's the same with dating apps.

02:13:21.420 You swipe left or right.

02:13:22.880 And you can't get a good impression of a real whole person off of, like, one message.

02:13:27.440 But, like, you're more inclined to respond if you're attracted.

02:13:30.300 Okay, so this brings me, let me do one super chat, and this will bring me to my next point.

02:13:34.220 So, first, let me just get this.

02:13:35.960 Did I read this one?

02:13:37.440 No.

02:13:37.940 El Emirati.

02:13:39.260 Thank you for the hundred, I believe, British pounds.

02:13:42.840 Yeah.

02:13:43.420 Yo, feminism is white supremacy for women. 1.00

02:13:45.800 White women rarely stand up for women of color. 1.00

02:13:48.400 First wave feminism was only formed because white women don't want black men to get voting rights before them. 1.00

02:13:53.620 Are these women more oppressed than, say, Native American men or black men?

02:13:58.200 White women? 1.00

02:13:59.260 No.

02:14:00.420 No.

02:14:00.780 No, white women are the least oppressed. 1.00

02:14:03.500 Thank you, El Emirati.

02:14:05.500 I think that was your first super chat, man.

02:14:06.560 Appreciate it, man.

02:14:07.060 Thank you.

02:14:07.760 We also have one, I believe, here.

02:14:11.080 Wait, no, we don't.

02:14:12.280 Did we do?

02:14:12.920 Wait.

02:14:14.320 This one came through as a TTS, right?

02:14:16.260 Oh.

02:14:16.840 Whoops.

02:14:17.240 10 out of 10.

02:14:18.060 Oops.

02:14:18.480 I triggered it again.

02:14:21.180 Watching modern women proves that. 1.00

02:14:23.420 Hold on.

02:14:23.780 I'm just going to hide it.

02:14:26.340 Oops.

02:14:26.660 Didn't mean to trigger that again.

02:14:27.920 My bad.

02:14:28.500 Okay.

02:14:28.780 So, the question is, I'm going to wait for Sandy here to come back.

02:14:34.680 Uh-oh.

02:14:35.860 Yo, Frankie K.

02:14:36.660 Good to see you, man.

02:14:38.020 By the way, oh, just a reminder for anyone who's kind of tuning in.

02:14:41.580 And we bumped up the TTS trigger and the Reed trigger.

02:14:46.580 So, Reed is 100.

02:14:48.040 TTS is 200.

02:14:50.600 Sandy is puffing on her vape.

02:14:53.940 Sandy, aren't you a nurse? 0.94

02:14:56.040 Sandy. 1.00

02:14:56.880 Wait, what the fuck? 1.00

02:14:57.560 Sarah. 1.00

02:14:58.360 Susan.

02:14:58.980 Susan.

02:14:59.300 Oh, my God.

02:14:59.540 I'm sorry.

02:15:00.280 I'm sorry.

02:15:01.080 I am so sad right now.

02:15:02.780 Sandy.

02:15:03.680 I'll pay for your McDonald's on the day to take you off to make up for it.

02:15:09.040 You're a nurse and you vape? 1.00

02:15:12.000 I have no game.

02:15:13.040 Oh, I do.

02:15:14.260 You vape? 0.99

02:15:14.400 Yeah, I do.

02:15:15.220 Do you smoke cigarettes?

02:15:16.480 I quit.

02:15:17.440 You used to?

02:15:18.800 Mm-hmm.

02:15:19.380 I'm human. 1.00

02:15:20.560 Like, if you stab me, I will bleed. 1.00

02:15:23.940 Okay? 0.98

02:15:24.560 Oh, thank you for explaining that.

02:15:27.160 Reese, are you still trying to game me up or what's up?

02:15:29.540 What are you doing?

02:15:29.840 No, I'm watching.

02:15:30.440 There's this influx of Instagram DMs coming towards me now, asking to work on my game and

02:15:36.760 to practice with them.

02:15:37.600 Are people actually really? 1.00

02:15:38.840 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:15:39.400 Yeah, people want me to practice my game with them, which I honestly could do. 0.99

02:15:42.120 But to be fair, game in person is a lot different than texting game.

02:15:46.380 Tell you what.

02:15:48.300 Game me right now.

02:15:49.100 Oh, God.

02:15:49.460 No, I already failed the first time.

02:15:51.340 You want me to embarrass myself again?

02:15:52.680 It should be way easier.

02:15:53.800 Oh, God.

02:15:54.440 Okay.

02:15:54.940 Come on, girl. 1.00

02:15:57.960 Oh, God.

02:15:59.420 All right.

02:15:59.760 So, me here.

02:16:00.580 I'm a girl.

02:16:01.260 You're a guy.

02:16:01.900 Oh, I'm a guy.

02:16:02.640 I'm Brianna.

02:16:03.360 I'm here with Requina?

02:16:05.980 Yeah.

02:16:06.460 Requina.

02:16:07.080 Yeah.

02:16:07.680 Okay.

02:16:08.140 By the way, remind me that we need to talk about the pimp stuff.

02:16:11.060 Remind me.

02:16:11.720 For sure.

02:16:13.020 Okay.

02:16:15.540 So, go ahead.

02:16:20.100 That's funny.

02:16:20.780 I'll leak plastic.

02:16:21.720 Okay.

02:16:22.000 Yes.

02:16:22.240 Here.

02:16:23.480 Where are we?

02:16:25.240 Oh, my God.

02:16:25.880 We're at a party.

02:16:26.920 We're at a party.

02:16:27.960 Usually, these interactions happen at parties.

02:16:29.840 At a party.

02:16:30.420 At parties.

02:16:31.340 So, yeah.

02:16:33.340 Like, the DJ is so good.

02:16:36.340 Oh, my TikToks.

02:16:37.840 Oh, my God.

02:16:38.920 Oh, super cute.

02:16:39.820 I love your shoes.

02:16:40.740 Thank you.

02:16:41.140 Oh, my God.

02:16:41.740 Yeah, I just got my nails done.

02:16:42.920 Oh, my God.

02:16:43.700 Hey, red flannel. 0.94

02:16:45.300 What the hell? 0.67

02:16:46.340 Hi. 0.81

02:16:47.320 Oh, girl.

02:16:47.880 He's talking to you.

02:16:48.700 Hi.

02:16:49.680 I was just wondering, if it was okay if I talked to you?

02:16:51.800 I saw you from across the room, and I just couldn't stop looking at you.

02:16:57.460 Lane.

02:16:58.340 Would you like to tell me your name?

02:17:01.400 Brianna.

02:17:03.880 Pretend like I'm kissing the top of your hand.

02:17:05.500 Oh, so nice to meet you, Brianna.

02:17:08.960 I'm Chad.

02:17:12.080 Hi, Chad.

02:17:13.400 You're Chad.

02:17:14.160 So, you come around here a lot, or?

02:17:16.580 I go to school here.

02:17:17.760 You go to school here.

02:17:18.780 You go to school here.

02:17:19.700 Yeah.

02:17:19.920 Oh, so you're smart, then.

02:17:21.620 I'm a comm major.

02:17:22.760 You're a comm major.

02:17:24.000 So, you're good at communicating.

02:17:25.500 Isn't that what?

02:17:26.360 Oh, wait.

02:17:27.520 I guess.

02:17:28.780 Sorry.

02:17:29.200 Sorry.

02:17:29.580 One more time.

02:17:30.400 I just.

02:17:30.900 I guess.

02:17:31.380 I, you know.

02:17:32.820 I like to talk to my girlfriends about.

02:17:35.500 Huh?

02:17:39.000 Someone seems a little flustered.

02:17:41.600 Excuse me?

02:17:42.680 I said someone seems a little flustered.

02:17:44.480 No, I just think you're weird.

02:17:46.100 Oh.

02:17:47.640 That seems like it'd be the end of the conversation, then.

02:17:50.020 We have to go to the bathroom.

02:17:51.340 Yeah, we have to go to the bathroom.

02:17:52.140 Yeah, yeah.

02:17:52.900 We have to go to the bathroom.

02:17:54.580 I'll see you later.

02:17:57.300 Bummer.

02:17:57.780 I think you did very well, and I think that they portrayed women a little unfairly.

02:18:02.000 To be fair, I'm not used to what they do in this situation.

02:18:04.460 I'm not going to give a little bit more than that.

02:18:07.720 I'm not going to lie.

02:18:08.800 I could not do what men do at all. 0.89

02:18:11.280 It takes a lot of courage to walk up to a woman and just start a conversation. 0.99

02:18:15.880 And, like, I mean, like you said, the way you go about it is just, like, talking to them

02:18:20.000 with no, like, outcome in mind and just talking to them like a person and, like, see what happens.

02:18:25.180 It takes years of practice.

02:18:27.280 I've been rejected.

02:18:27.760 That's so scary.

02:18:29.000 That's so scary.

02:18:30.100 I could not do that.

02:18:31.380 You have to get used to rejection.

02:18:33.680 Rejection therapy is something that everyone should do.

02:18:35.760 Focus, Reese.

02:18:36.260 That's a therapy?

02:18:37.400 I thought you went to the bathroom, right?

02:18:38.940 I thought this conversation was over.

02:18:40.480 Do you want to try again?

02:18:41.120 You go and ask a stranger for a hundred dollars.

02:18:42.020 Again?

02:18:42.620 Oh, boy.

02:18:43.680 Here, I'll be more favorable.

02:18:45.220 Okay. 0.50

02:18:46.220 But just to be clear, like, women will blank dudes like that. 1.00

02:18:50.140 That's true.

02:18:50.780 Women will blank, like, one-word answer. 1.00

02:18:52.740 So then why do you want to pursue that woman?

02:18:54.000 Go talk to the next one that has a lead.

02:18:55.460 Well, that's the thing.

02:18:56.420 If a woman's giving a blank-word answer, they probably don't want to be talking to you. 1.00

02:18:59.740 So this would be a lot easier if you were giving me something to work with here.

02:19:02.060 But there are some women that... 1.00

02:19:02.920 Well, you did kiss his hand, though.

02:19:04.200 I did kiss your hand.

02:19:05.360 That's a little weird.

02:19:06.140 I don't want to...

02:19:06.580 No, I like...

02:19:07.460 I like a little bit of chivalry.

02:19:10.060 Like, that's not the end of the world.

02:19:11.060 Chivalry is dead.

02:19:12.520 I know, I know.

02:19:12.960 That is B2.

02:19:13.840 You B2, Brian.

02:19:15.320 No.

02:19:15.700 I don't...

02:19:16.300 I don't...

02:19:16.580 No.

02:19:17.880 Okay, once more.

02:19:19.000 I'll be more favorable.

02:19:19.880 Oh, boy.

02:19:20.900 All right, we'll...

02:19:21.740 I feel like I already used my...

02:19:26.740 All right, let's...

02:19:27.440 Here, let's go back to the conversation here.

02:19:29.320 Yeah, I feel like we're done with the role-playing.

02:19:30.740 Sorry.

02:19:31.140 Okay.

02:19:31.720 Love that.

02:19:32.100 Love that.

02:19:32.500 There was an attempt made it.

02:19:33.900 Love that.

02:19:34.420 Okay, so kind of related to that, do women agree or disagree with the following statement?

02:19:40.320 Women have dating on easy mode. 1.00

02:19:42.940 What does that mean?

02:19:43.980 What does that mean, Brian?

02:19:46.000 No.

02:19:46.320 Women have dating on easy mode. 1.00

02:19:48.080 Agree or disagree.

02:19:49.180 That we don't, like, have to do as much to get, like, a date?

02:19:51.940 Like, can you be just a little one?

02:19:53.320 Before dating or during dating or after dating?

02:19:55.280 I mean, it's kind of just general question, I would say.

02:19:58.820 Then I would have...

02:19:59.580 Too general to answer.

02:20:00.400 Yeah, it's too general.

02:20:01.160 Yeah, because it...

02:20:02.920 Compared to men, how about that?

02:20:04.260 Does that make it easier?

02:20:05.360 No.

02:20:06.000 Before, during, or after?

02:20:07.420 Agree.

02:20:07.880 Agree.

02:20:08.540 Do women have dating easier than men? 0.99

02:20:11.660 Yes.

02:20:13.020 Absolutely.

02:20:14.320 You get, like, there are downsides to being a woman, for sure, and being in that atmosphere, 0.99

02:20:19.860 but, like, you should be, in my opinion, you should be a little bit courted, and you get approached.

02:20:27.660 Men have to really work, and, like, they have to be, like, reach a certain status themselves, and, like, have a certain, like...

02:20:36.080 You know, most women will, like, reject them if, like, they don't have a good job, or, like, they don't look a certain way, or, like, they're not tall enough, and whatever. 1.00

02:20:42.860 Women, you just have to be a woman, and, like, somebody is going to find you attractive, and you're the one getting approached 99% of the time. 1.00

02:20:52.360 And if you were to go and approach a man, you're most likely going to get some type of interest. 1.00

02:20:57.220 Shut up, bitch! 1.00

02:20:57.960 Yeah? 1.00

02:20:58.700 Damn. 0.99

02:21:00.000 There's this interesting... 1.00

02:21:01.260 I was on your side, fuck. 0.99

02:21:03.220 How does it go? 1.00

02:21:03.960 Um, or...

02:21:06.020 Did someone just fart?

02:21:07.140 No, that was my necklace.

02:21:07.940 Oh, my God. 0.97

02:21:09.320 What the frick? 0.97

02:21:10.760 You made me nervous. 0.99

02:21:11.300 Did somebody fart?

02:21:12.600 It's natural.

02:21:14.420 Um, come back to me.

02:21:17.200 Do you want to tell us something?

02:21:18.120 Come back to me.

02:21:18.780 What?

02:21:19.120 No, I'm just saying.

02:21:20.460 Do men or women have dating easier?

02:21:23.340 It depends on who you talk to.

02:21:26.760 I find it hard.

02:21:28.000 I hard filter before.

02:21:29.800 Like, if I see, like, a gym pick, I'm probably going to be like, no.

02:21:35.720 Because that's, like...

02:21:36.980 I am into fitness.

02:21:39.240 Obviously, it doesn't look like I work out right now, because I haven't.

02:21:42.180 But I can't do a gym rat.

02:21:44.860 I'm sorry.

02:21:45.420 That's just my personal preference.

02:21:47.240 I'm not a huge muscle woman.

02:21:48.980 Get off your back page thing.

02:21:52.360 Um, I asked you to skip me so I could look up something really, really cool.

02:21:56.500 Oh, you're looking something up.

02:21:57.440 Yeah, yeah.

02:21:57.520 It's related?

02:21:58.160 Okay, fine, fine, fine.

02:21:59.340 I mean, I just go through a filtering process.

02:22:03.620 Tell us your standards.

02:22:04.780 Why don't you start off there?

02:22:06.140 How tall are you?

02:22:06.700 Consistency.

02:22:07.060 How tall are you?

02:22:07.500 I'm 5'5".

02:22:08.220 Minimum height for the guy?

02:22:10.360 Um, I prefer taller.

02:22:16.460 Like, way tall.

02:22:17.320 Like, 6'3"?

02:22:18.300 Um, I mean, the thing is, that's not really...

02:22:24.300 I don't really go for appearance, first thing.

02:22:28.920 You don't?

02:22:29.440 No.

02:22:30.320 You sure?

02:22:30.860 Huh?

02:22:31.280 Yeah.

02:22:31.960 Yeah.

02:22:33.620 No, seriously, I don't.

02:22:35.700 I'm sorry.

02:22:36.480 I'm not shallow Hal.

02:22:38.160 Like, you know, I don't go for, like...

02:22:40.700 What's your type?

02:22:41.960 Huh?

02:22:42.240 What's your type?

02:22:43.860 Um...

02:22:44.260 If you just had to fire off, like, a couple physical traits, personality traits, what's

02:22:49.000 your type?

02:22:50.380 Well, my type is someone that has their stuff together.

02:22:54.520 Now...

02:22:54.860 Into the mic.

02:22:55.420 Closer, closer.

02:22:56.100 Someone that has their life together, right?

02:22:59.740 Because that's just at my phase right now.

02:23:03.840 You're a nurse. 0.96

02:23:04.900 Right.

02:23:05.280 How much do you make?

02:23:06.280 I...

02:23:06.720 I don't know.

02:23:08.420 A year?

02:23:09.100 I don't know.

02:23:09.780 Six figures, though.

02:23:10.520 I have no...

02:23:11.240 Ooh! 0.96

02:23:11.480 I have no idea.

02:23:13.060 You make six figures?

02:23:13.860 We're not going to talk expenses, but I feel that you're compensated properly for what

02:23:18.840 you do.

02:23:20.320 Yes, because I love what I do.

02:23:22.080 Yeah.

02:23:22.800 So, does that mean you're okay with settling for less money?

02:23:26.060 I think that nurses are entirely underpaid, so I'm just trying to feel out.

02:23:29.360 Are you not saying because...

02:23:30.600 Are you compensated pretty well, I think?

02:23:31.960 Yeah, nurses are compensated pretty well. 1.00

02:23:34.820 Okay.

02:23:35.160 So, you're on the high end of things.

02:23:36.400 I'm pretty...

02:23:37.040 Six figures.

02:23:37.480 I mean, I can't complain.

02:23:39.200 I love my career, so I didn't make a bad choice.

02:23:41.380 Did you make a bunch of money in Dogecoin, too?

02:23:44.080 I lost money in Dogecoin, so I'm not good with the crypto.

02:23:49.560 And then I had Voyager, which belly-upped, so...

02:23:53.060 Fit check, by the way.

02:23:54.200 Did you think I was looking up someone on backpages, or I was on my backpages?

02:23:58.600 Do you actually have a backpages?

02:23:59.620 I don't.

02:24:00.200 I'm just curious.

02:24:00.680 Is that a thing for prostitution? 1.00

02:24:01.680 I don't think that's a thing anymore.

02:24:03.040 They got rid of it.

02:24:04.000 Oh, that's so sad.

02:24:04.820 No, they still have it.

02:24:05.700 Backpage?

02:24:06.180 Yes.

02:24:06.580 I've seen vans outside of most...

02:24:08.660 Oh, yeah.

02:24:09.320 Like Runyon Canyon in Hollywood.

02:24:11.380 Yeah.

02:24:11.740 Backpage?

02:24:12.240 Yeah, they have vans that have whatever.

02:24:14.700 Okay, so you want to hire him.

02:24:16.100 Does he have to make as much as you or more?

02:24:17.880 I would prefer someone that makes more.

02:24:19.900 Because I like to be like wined and dined, like treated like a princess.

02:24:26.020 I don't drink, actually, but I like being treated like a princess.

02:24:30.480 I want to make my own money, but I want you to be able to take me out.

02:24:35.640 Wait, so, but do you make six figures?

02:24:38.880 I don't know.

02:24:40.220 I don't think...

02:24:40.380 Question.

02:24:40.700 I'm a new nurse.

02:24:42.300 Oh, you...

02:24:43.140 I don't have enough of the experience.

02:24:44.680 Closer to the mic.

02:24:45.360 I don't have enough of like time.

02:24:49.440 Yeah.

02:24:49.900 I'm still a new, like, just...

02:24:53.680 Well, nurses make good money, but... 1.00

02:24:55.220 I'm comfortable, but I would like to...

02:24:57.100 Do you have your own place?

02:24:58.080 Huh?

02:24:58.460 You have your own place?

02:24:59.260 No.

02:24:59.860 Certainly, like...

02:25:00.720 Do you live with your parents?

02:25:01.880 No.

02:25:03.300 Certain things just...

02:25:05.040 Yeah.

02:25:05.780 I would like a little bit more, because I'm not the type of person that likes to stay stagnant.

02:25:12.920 Like, I'm all...

02:25:13.440 Oh, so you're...

02:25:13.660 Are you a travel nurse?

02:25:14.860 I'm not a travel nurse.

02:25:16.080 Okay.

02:25:16.400 But I'm constantly trying to, like, evolve and do different things.

02:25:20.260 Wait, so you're a princess?

02:25:21.900 Yes.

02:25:22.520 You're a princess.

02:25:23.320 And you've never...

02:25:24.540 So, I make...

02:25:25.820 I have to make enough money to spoil myself and my dog.

02:25:29.960 And then, you know, that's number one, right?

02:25:33.480 And then, bills and et cetera.

02:25:36.760 Okay.

02:25:37.940 So, Reese, get off your phone.

02:25:40.820 Sorry.

02:25:41.920 Okay.

02:25:42.600 So, you're a princess.

02:25:46.920 Yeah.

02:25:49.820 But I like hustling, too.

02:25:52.720 Like, I love working.

02:25:53.760 But I have to love where I work and what I do.

02:25:56.880 And luckily, I've been able to find that.

02:26:01.380 But I like being able to do different things, you know?

02:26:05.920 And kind of grow as a person.

02:26:09.320 Like, I want to be a business owner.

02:26:11.100 Have you ever paid for a guy on a date?

02:26:14.740 Ever?

02:26:16.680 Yeah.

02:26:17.080 I mean, I don't mind spending money on people, but I will friend zone them.

02:26:22.260 Because I want my man to take care of me.

02:26:24.460 That's just my preference.

02:26:26.360 You know?

02:26:26.700 I will just friend zone you. 0.82

02:26:28.640 Which is totally fine.

02:26:30.260 But have you ever paid for a guy on a date with the interest of continuing the relationship?

02:26:36.500 Like, if they were to ask me on a date, and would I pay for it?

02:26:39.560 Whatever the scenario is, have you ever paid for a guy on a date, first date, and wanted to continue seeing him?

02:26:45.240 No, but, like, if I were to have a boyfriend, I would spoil them.

02:26:49.780 Like, I will buy things for them.

02:26:53.300 But no.

02:26:54.520 I don't think that I've ever gone on a date where I've had to go Dutch.

02:26:59.100 I'll pay for myself if I already am not interested in you.

02:27:03.880 I will fork out my money and go.

02:27:06.040 So it's like, I don't feel bad that I'm not interested.

02:27:09.060 Everything good, Reese?

02:27:10.580 Yeah, I think so.

02:27:11.500 Oh, okay.

02:27:13.140 I don't know where your friend is.

02:27:14.500 Is she still here?

02:27:16.020 She went out the door. 0.88

02:27:17.420 She went out the door, I think.

02:27:19.140 Okay.

02:27:20.120 Yeah, I was just going to go try and look for her.

02:27:22.600 Everything okay.

02:27:23.260 I think that's a...

02:27:24.860 I'm just going to try and look for her? 1.00

02:27:26.200 What the fuck? 1.00

02:27:27.160 That's rude. 1.00

02:27:28.260 Hello?

02:27:30.160 Is that...

02:27:30.920 Is it a Frank Castle?

02:27:32.140 Self Castle?

02:27:32.980 I'm just...

02:27:33.440 I'm just going to go and try and look for her.

02:27:38.800 Let's just let that be.

02:27:40.740 I don't know if they're coming back. 0.99

02:27:42.060 That's fucking weird. 0.97

02:27:42.700 I think that you have a great point. 0.99

02:27:43.760 I think that I want to make enough money to where I can spoil the man that I'm with.

02:27:48.920 And I think that I want to be with a man that spoils me and more.

02:27:53.440 So I think it's a mutual thing.

02:27:55.280 Again, I love to work.

02:27:56.500 So I hope that I'll always have a job.

02:27:58.140 I want to be a business owner.

02:27:59.400 I want to have passive income.

02:28:01.860 So either way, I do want to be contributing to our household.

02:28:06.260 But yeah, I want a man that makes more money than me.

02:28:09.680 Somebody said in the comments, her money is her money and his money is our money.

02:28:14.540 And honestly, I don't mean it in a money-sucking way.

02:28:18.720 Like, give me all your money.

02:28:20.120 But it's...

02:28:20.940 That's the mentality I'm looking for in a man.

02:28:23.080 Yeah.

02:28:23.680 And going back to...

02:28:25.160 We were mentioning about, like, multiple wives, Islam culture.

02:28:28.260 Like, that's the premises of that.

02:28:29.220 That doesn't work like that.

02:28:30.180 No, no.

02:28:30.460 It is the basis of that.

02:28:31.460 Absolutely it is.

02:28:32.180 That's why they have multiple wives and stuff. 1.00

02:28:34.560 Oh, okay.

02:28:35.260 I see what you're saying.

02:28:36.060 I see what you're saying.

02:28:36.640 The way that I was looking at it, when I say, like, the man says, like, this is our money.

02:28:42.180 You know, unless he's, like, unfathomably wealthy, then he probably can't be providing

02:28:49.500 for several women at a time.

02:28:51.040 Like, gosh, our generation's never going to be able to buy a house.

02:28:53.940 So how do we expect a man to, like, pay for...

02:28:58.020 I hope so.

02:28:58.360 I thought you were going to have two houses.

02:28:59.900 I hope so.

02:29:01.840 In fantasy land, right?

02:29:02.980 Like, it's funny to think about it.

02:29:04.000 We're going to have two.

02:29:04.660 Me and him are going to have two houses.

02:29:06.280 Him and I.

02:29:07.780 Us.

02:29:08.740 Oh.

02:29:09.280 Us.

02:29:11.020 I don't want to say.

02:29:13.260 Can I...

02:29:13.740 Have you ever let a woman pay on a date? 1.00

02:29:15.320 Can I ask?

02:29:15.980 Have you ever let a woman... 1.00

02:29:16.840 Absolutely.

02:29:17.120 Did you say you did corn?

02:29:19.020 Yeah.

02:29:19.540 So you never did, like, girl-on-girl scenes?

02:29:22.100 No.

02:29:22.760 Okay.

02:29:24.220 Let's talk about pimping.

02:29:25.600 Oh, okay.

02:29:26.420 Oh.

02:29:26.960 Can we finish that just real quick?

02:29:28.360 Yeah, yeah, sure.

02:29:28.580 I would love to talk about pimping.

02:29:29.340 To go back to, like, when you asked me if I supported the LGBTQ, that's something

02:29:35.840 I have struggled with myself is my sexuality, and that's something that I have... I had

02:29:41.260 to, like, really dig deep on, like, my childhood trauma and everything like that, and that's

02:29:46.000 still something that I struggle with today, is, like, getting out of my masculine form

02:29:53.440 is, like, when I feel like I want a woman, and that's something that I deal with today, still.

02:30:01.360 So are you saying you would want women, or...

02:30:03.880 No, no, I...

02:30:04.500 So you didn't know.

02:30:05.180 No, I would not want a woman. 1.00

02:30:06.020 No, that's fine, but when you see women together or men together, are you, like...

02:30:09.780 I don't, I'm...

02:30:10.140 No, I don't, like, make it a problem or anything.

02:30:12.220 I respect everybody, what they want to do, like...

02:30:14.520 Right.

02:30:15.620 Okay.

02:30:16.240 Mainly for lesbians and gays, but, like, the whole transgender thing and everything like 1.00

02:30:21.180 that, like, that's where it gets a little crazy overboard for me. 0.99

02:30:26.620 Okay, let's talk about your pimp. 0.96

02:30:28.240 Okay, so you had a pimp. 0.99

02:30:29.580 You used to do sex work. 0.99

02:30:31.220 Yeah.

02:30:31.780 How many tricks have you had?

02:30:34.980 I can't answer that.

02:30:37.480 Like, hundreds, thousands?

02:30:39.360 I would say hundreds.

02:30:45.220 I wouldn't say thousands.

02:30:47.340 You said yes.

02:30:49.020 Okay.

02:30:50.240 And from what age to what age were you doing that?

02:30:54.980 18 to now.

02:30:58.760 Oh, okay, so still sort of doing it a little bit.

02:31:00.980 Just, like, just, like, one, maybe two.

02:31:05.020 Okay.

02:31:05.980 Not necessarily, not sexual all the time, but definitely using them for their money. 0.69

02:31:12.580 So you were, what's the term?

02:31:18.180 Finescing?

02:31:18.800 Did you do the finesse?

02:31:20.140 Like, what does that mean?

02:31:21.180 Like a hustler?

02:31:22.220 I mean, you do...

02:31:22.760 Like, you'd hustle these guys?

02:31:23.800 Like, in the stripper sense, you do have to have that mentality because, like, you're paying 1.00

02:31:29.640 to be at this club and you're paying to work there to make this money, so you do have to

02:31:35.860 finesse men to make money at your job.

02:31:42.080 Okay.

02:31:43.080 Good times.

02:31:44.260 Yeah.

02:31:44.900 Good times.

02:31:45.680 Any cra... 0.98

02:31:46.160 Do you have, like, the most craziest sex worker pimp situation that ever happened? 0.99

02:31:52.660 Um, no, not... 0.99

02:31:57.180 Can I ask you a question?

02:31:58.380 What's that?

02:31:58.800 What's the most money you ever spent on a girl? 1.00

02:32:00.940 The most money I've ever spent on a girl? 0.99

02:32:02.960 Mm-hmm.

02:32:07.160 Most money I've ever spent on a girl? 0.97

02:32:12.940 No more than a hundred, I think.

02:32:15.980 I've spent, like, at least, like, $1,500 on a guy before.

02:32:20.480 On some, like, we're together.

02:32:21.600 No more than a hundred.

02:32:22.820 Wow.

02:32:23.440 A total, Brian?

02:32:24.740 That's so depressing.

02:32:30.360 Yeah, I'm not really, like...

02:32:32.700 What's your Roth IRA look like?

02:32:34.300 I hope it's, like, full.

02:32:35.960 Like, you better be doing the max contribution.

02:32:37.900 I've saved.

02:32:37.960 I've saved.

02:32:38.560 Because you're saving a lot of money, my friend.

02:32:40.520 I will tell you this.

02:32:41.640 Throughout the years, and listen, I want my super chatters...

02:32:44.720 Because girls cost money. 1.00

02:32:45.120 I want my super chatters to be confident in me, knowing that their contribution...

02:32:50.480 Their patronage to my channel is not somehow benefiting...

02:32:55.480 Women. 0.81

02:32:57.480 It's not getting him laid.

02:32:58.800 It's getting political, I feel like.

02:33:00.360 It's not benefiting...

02:33:01.540 Well, okay.

02:33:02.380 Before this channel, then.

02:33:04.420 No, I mean, throughout...

02:33:05.480 Whatever.

02:33:06.680 You know, maybe I think I've treated a girlfriend to a bocce. 1.00

02:33:11.400 That's nice.

02:33:12.500 You know, 30, 40 bucks each.

02:33:14.920 You know, I'm a generous guy.

02:33:17.160 I'm really...

02:33:18.020 I'm a generous man.

02:33:19.540 Money isn't everything to me.

02:33:20.860 I don't think everything should be based upon money.

02:33:22.780 Like, I know what I do for a living, but that's something that I chose to do because

02:33:27.080 of the, you know, the card life gave me.

02:33:32.060 I had a not so good childhood, and this is just what I decided to do.

02:33:37.500 Yeah.

02:33:37.680 I'll also add to that.

02:33:38.660 Of all the dates I've been on, I'd say the vast majority of them split the check.

02:33:44.480 I've split the check on the vast majority of dates.

02:33:47.300 I've maybe paid a couple times.

02:33:49.560 Do you get returning women? 1.00

02:33:51.180 Oh, I lose women. 1.00

02:33:52.360 You lose them.

02:33:52.980 I lose women. 1.00

02:33:53.620 Some of them come back.

02:33:54.580 Some of them, like, stick around and keep...

02:33:57.120 Yeah.

02:33:57.600 What percentage?

02:33:59.120 What percentage?

02:33:59.980 Yeah.

02:34:00.200 Well, I want to say first dates, I mean, it varies at what point, because sometimes

02:34:06.360 you have, like, a rough patch.

02:34:08.020 Other times, you're hitting on all cylinders.

02:34:10.940 You're doing good.

02:34:11.780 But first dates, honestly, I'd say one-fourth of first dates will go further.

02:34:23.260 That's fair.

02:34:23.920 I think that's a good...

02:34:24.200 I think that's a good...

02:34:25.480 That could happen.

02:34:26.280 That ratio can happen if you're even paying the bill in full.

02:34:28.980 Even if you're paying for the date, which is exactly why I don't pay, because the likelihood

02:34:33.560 of any given date going anywhere anyways is so greatly diminished for a variety of reasons,

02:34:40.740 chiefly, that women have way more options now. 1.00

02:34:43.600 There's dating apps.

02:34:44.320 There's social media.

02:34:45.420 Whereas back in the day, if you went on a date, like, back in the day, maybe you went

02:34:49.480 on three dates, then you had a wife. 1.00

02:34:54.640 Motherfuckers be out here going on six, seven dates a week and shit. 1.00

02:34:58.440 Yeah. 1.00

02:34:58.700 People aren't getting married anymore.

02:35:00.460 I think that's the problem. 1.00

02:35:01.440 Do you go out with, like, bad bitches? 1.00

02:35:03.820 Like, what's your type? 1.00

02:35:05.100 I like nerdy STEM chicks. 1.00

02:35:08.020 You like stack chicks? 0.95

02:35:09.820 STEM.

02:35:10.220 Oh, STEM. 0.77

02:35:10.600 STEM.

02:35:10.940 Sorry.

02:35:11.220 Like, science, technology, engineering, math.

02:35:13.240 Smart.

02:35:13.760 I like smart girls. 1.00

02:35:15.020 Yeah, smart kind of shy.

02:35:18.600 I consider myself more introverted, so I like introverted girls. 1.00

02:35:21.660 I like shy girls. 0.94

02:35:23.520 That's an interesting career path to have for an introvert.

02:35:26.980 I suppose so.

02:35:28.100 Quick question.

02:35:29.140 How much money?

02:35:29.840 Maybe that's why.

02:35:30.500 No.

02:35:30.800 Go ahead.

02:35:31.100 What's the largest amount of money you've spent on just yourself?

02:35:34.520 So is it about spoiling other people, or do you not spoil yourself?

02:35:37.600 I don't really spend a whole bunch on my...

02:35:40.920 Honestly, I don't really go on vacation as much.

02:35:42.500 I probably should, because I'm kind of a stress case, but I get, like, I'll get professional

02:35:50.160 massages, like, you know, occasionally.

02:35:52.680 That's good.

02:35:54.140 But yeah, I don't really, you know, I'm not really into consumerism all that much, so I

02:35:58.800 drive, I've been driving the same car that I've driven since 2012.

02:36:03.760 I bought a Toyota.

02:36:05.300 I don't need a fancy car.

02:36:07.560 I don't wear a watch.

02:36:08.800 I wear the same clothes, like, I wear sweatpants from Costco.

02:36:14.560 I just buy that in bulk.

02:36:16.140 Puma, let's go.

02:36:17.000 Give me the sponsorship.

02:36:17.800 All day.

02:36:18.080 I wear black, like, $5, $10 t-shirts from Kohl's.

02:36:23.220 Yeah, if you're just a frugal guy, in general, I think that's okay, instead of, like, yeah, 1.00

02:36:27.840 I'm a ball out, but not on these bitches, like, that's stupid, like, come on. 1.00

02:36:32.480 But if you're just frugal in general, and that's who you are, I think that's perfectly acceptable. 1.00

02:36:36.140 I mean, like...

02:36:36.780 Don't be with somebody that's, like, very materialistic.

02:36:38.960 I've been looking, though, for a girl who, I'm down to, like, for example, if I want 0.96

02:36:45.180 to go to Hawaii, I'm trying to go to Hawaii in, like, three weeks.

02:36:48.140 Yeah.

02:36:48.880 I'm looking.

02:36:49.440 I'm just saying.

02:36:50.100 But in that scenario, like, if it was my girlfriend, right, and let's say she's a bit younger than

02:36:56.780 me, you know, I'm obviously going to be out, well, I'm going to be out earning her under

02:37:03.580 those circumstances, like, I just, and I want to go to Hawaii, I want her to come with me,

02:37:06.960 I'll pay for the trip, that's fine.

02:37:09.600 That's more than $150, honey.

02:37:11.260 Well, I've not, I haven't taken a girl on vacation before.

02:37:14.580 Is it fair to say, though, that you wouldn't like a girl that would expect you to pay for 0.90

02:37:18.620 the trip, no matter what, just because of, like, you're the man?

02:37:21.840 Or do you feel like it is more masculine in your role to take care of your woman?

02:37:27.700 If she's traditional, then I would accept those expectations. 0.91

02:37:31.140 But if she's promiscuous and has a high body count and is not particularly feminine, 1.00

02:37:36.960 and has, like, no, we're not going to, we're not going to pick and choose when you get

02:37:42.680 traditional benefits from me.

02:37:44.740 If you are more traditional woman, or at the very least, as so long as you're feminine and

02:37:51.040 you bring me peace, under those circumstances, I'm much more willing to provide, fall into

02:37:58.460 the provider role.

02:37:59.340 But I find it very difficult for me to fall into the provider role, because I, frankly,

02:38:05.140 most of the women I encounter, I don't really, they don't strike me as traditional women.

02:38:11.700 Where are you meeting your, this is what I want to ask.

02:38:14.880 If one day, I know you don't want to get married, but you do want, or would be open to having

02:38:19.160 a life partner, like, why are you in Santa Barbara?

02:38:22.640 I feel like there's no culture in California, and I feel like there's definitely not a healthy

02:38:28.020 dating culture or anything that promotes marriage, like.

02:38:31.720 Japan, let's go. 1.00

02:38:33.340 Well, I mean, you're a grown man, like, why are you still here?

02:38:36.120 I mean, my business is here.

02:38:37.240 Well, I mean, first, I grew up in Santa Barbara.

02:38:39.260 I love Santa Barbara.

02:38:41.100 My business is here.

02:38:43.600 I don't know if I'm going to be, like, a passport bro, but, like, it's tempting.

02:38:48.800 It's definitely tempting, so.

02:38:50.620 I mean, man, we got time.

02:38:51.680 But California's failed society, that's for sure.

02:38:53.900 Man, we have time.

02:38:55.120 For what?

02:38:56.440 He has time.

02:38:57.740 He doesn't have a biological clock, so he can just do his business and make his money.

02:39:01.440 I mean, but as we already established, you know, your goal demographic is young 20s,

02:39:07.660 and as you grow older, you've already said, not today, but you've already said you're in

02:39:13.060 a position where you could take care of someone.

02:39:15.300 Yes.

02:39:15.460 Yeah, I could have a stay-at-home wife if I was so inclined. 0.95

02:39:19.960 Yeah, exactly.

02:39:20.540 And I could take care of everything.

02:39:21.740 I mean, you're at the age where, like, you're not going to grow in looks, so, you know, you

02:39:25.940 don't have a biological clock when it comes to kids.

02:39:27.740 Yeah, I peaked at, like, 23 in that department.

02:39:30.140 Can we see pictures of little Brian?

02:39:32.140 Aw.

02:39:32.660 I don't know if we want to pull up my Instagram, but.

02:39:35.760 Do it.

02:39:37.340 Yeah.

02:39:37.860 Real quick, I don't have an OnlyFans.

02:39:40.600 You can be honest.

02:39:41.240 I could be the only one, though, but, no, I really, I really honestly don't.

02:39:44.660 I do Twitch streaming, auntie underscore blazer.

02:39:46.900 Boom.

02:39:47.180 Boom.

02:39:47.860 So, continue.

02:39:49.360 By the way, can you swap with, can you take that chair?

02:39:52.040 I have the squeakiest chair on the planet.

02:39:52.760 Yeah, just take that chair, because I don't know if she's coming back. 0.95

02:39:55.140 I'm sorry, because I have to shift.

02:39:56.260 Yes.

02:39:56.580 So, what was your question?

02:40:02.740 Was that it?

02:40:03.560 Why California?

02:40:04.480 Yeah, why are you still here?

02:40:05.860 I didn't realize you grew up here, right?

02:40:07.120 For whatever reason, I thought you grew up here.

02:40:07.920 Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

02:40:09.320 All my, everything I have is here in California.

02:40:12.660 No, no.

02:40:13.420 Did you go to school?

02:40:14.820 Sort of.

02:40:15.960 Well, I think school is a scam, so that wasn't supposed to be, like, a dismissive question.

02:40:19.400 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:40:19.600 But I was just wondering.

02:40:20.920 Did you leave state to go to school?

02:40:23.160 No, I stayed here.

02:40:24.380 I don't want to, I'm not going to disclose exactly where.

02:40:26.540 I did go to Santa Barbara City College, then elsewhere, but I don't want to disclose on that.

02:40:33.680 Wait, what happened?

02:40:35.380 I switched chairs, because mine was so squeaky.

02:40:37.140 Oh, I see.

02:40:37.960 Okay.

02:40:38.200 And then homegrown.

02:40:39.480 So, you gave me a squeak.

02:40:40.220 Gotcha.

02:40:40.740 Can you put that microphone on the ground?

02:40:43.020 Wait, why did you move?

02:40:44.200 Wait, can you want to?

02:40:45.080 No, you, no, no, you stay here. 0.99

02:40:46.480 I just wanted her in a different chair, because that other one was fucking squeaky. 1.00

02:40:49.380 Can we still be spread off? 0.94

02:40:51.120 Yeah, can you just put that microphone on the ground?

02:40:53.040 Like, behind you?

02:40:54.720 Behind you.

02:40:55.600 What's up?

02:40:57.520 Scuffed, by the way.

02:40:58.880 Scuffed.

02:40:59.440 Wait, hold on.

02:41:00.180 Did you see that comment?

02:41:01.660 I didn't see it, but I'll actually read a couple comments now.

02:41:04.040 I saw that comment.

02:41:04.780 That was funny.

02:41:05.320 What was that?

02:41:05.940 Yeah, I mean, I definitely think it's hard in California.

02:41:08.940 I think California, what?

02:41:12.840 Seven.

02:41:14.000 Seven.

02:41:14.320 Yeah, I think California's not great, because it's, I'm not, like, super hardcore conservative

02:41:24.500 either, but, like, yeah, I mean, there is a hookup culture. 1.00

02:41:31.940 I mean, I don't know.

02:41:32.780 I don't even know where I lean politically, honestly.

02:41:34.820 Sometimes I say I'm kind of, like, center left.

02:41:36.520 Sometimes I think I'm, like, center right.

02:41:38.500 I don't really know.

02:41:39.340 In any case, yeah, there's, like, we're two hours north of L.A.

02:41:45.700 There's a major hookup culture, so. 0.98

02:41:48.740 Yeah.

02:41:49.520 I mean, I think everything in L.A. is literally, like, the devil and Hollywood and all that stuff.

02:41:53.980 Yeah, it's just, like, horrible.

02:41:54.500 It's just, like, horrible, and I think it's seeped into our culture.

02:41:57.560 Sure.

02:41:58.160 Let me get these soup chats.

02:41:59.320 Yo, Frankie K, thank you for the 100, man.

02:42:00.560 Appreciate it.

02:42:01.040 When men are concerned with your body count, it's not due to insecurity.

02:42:04.000 Men are more concerned that your oxytocin receptors have become so desensitized that you can't effectively pair bond

02:42:11.300 and that you're so focused with emotional validation that you'd give your body to anybody.

02:42:16.580 Yo, Frankie K, thank you for that $100 soup chat, man.

02:42:19.220 We will talk, excuse me, we will talk about body count here in a moment,

02:42:24.240 and then we had one that came through here that I'll get. 1.00

02:42:27.620 But, Brian, your wife is sitting to your left in red, stop being an idiot and put her on lockdown. 1.00

02:42:33.480 She will definitely go to Hawaii with you. 1.00

02:42:36.040 I love Maui.

02:42:38.880 But Brian won't open my door.

02:42:40.700 I respect for Brian.

02:42:41.980 I love a man who's about his hustle, but Brian won't open my door.

02:42:45.520 Maybe we can attend each other's wedding.

02:42:47.160 Oh, you're not getting married.

02:42:48.420 Yeah, I'll attend your wedding.

02:42:49.920 You're not going to attend my wedding.

02:42:50.680 But she's traditional.

02:42:51.680 She's what you're asking for.

02:42:52.700 Closer to the mic.

02:42:53.660 Sorry, she's traditional.

02:42:54.600 She's what you kind of, like, looking for.

02:42:56.240 Even he said he just doesn't, you know.

02:42:57.940 But maybe that would bring out the more, you know, traditional side of him.

02:43:02.020 There's no benefit for marriage. 0.69

02:43:02.040 That's why.

02:43:03.080 Men that are married are.

02:43:04.160 If you want to go off those, like, little data points, men that are married.

02:43:07.120 Just perfect, checked every box, like, 21 years old, virgin, would you marry her?

02:43:13.980 That's tempting.

02:43:15.380 That's tempting.

02:43:19.920 Possibly.

02:43:20.320 Brian, are you scared that she's going to take all your money?

02:43:24.520 Is that why you don't want to get married?

02:43:26.960 I mean, there's a financial component.

02:43:29.520 There's a financial component.

02:43:30.780 Prenup.

02:43:31.120 What are you talking about? 1.00

02:43:31.740 Prenups are bullshit. 1.00

02:43:32.960 I believe in prenups. 0.99

02:43:33.540 Why is a prenup? 0.98

02:43:34.720 Okay, why is a prenup bullshit? 0.98

02:43:36.660 Because they get thrown out. 0.98

02:43:38.400 Really?

02:43:38.480 They can get thrown out.

02:43:39.200 Yeah.

02:43:39.420 They can get thrown out.

02:43:39.920 If you cheat on her, they could get thrown out, right?

02:43:43.020 I just, there's no, I don't.

02:43:44.540 I would, like, I would definitely, yeah.

02:43:48.120 Marriage is security and you need to secure that. 0.64

02:43:49.600 I would never sign a prenup because I don't believe in divorce.

02:43:53.220 What if he divorced you?

02:43:54.380 Somebody can divorce you. 0.96

02:43:55.960 Somebody can leave you.

02:43:57.200 Well, like, probably not going into marriage with more money and that's why I would never

02:44:00.480 stop working.

02:44:01.280 That's why it's important to me to have passive income at a young age and make smart decisions

02:44:04.920 and put myself in a good spot.

02:44:06.420 Yeah, for sure.

02:44:06.920 But you can't control every factor in life.

02:44:09.240 And a prenup protects the woman as well, not just the man's money or your, like, if you

02:44:13.780 In California, divorce courts side with women an insane amount. 1.00

02:44:18.100 Like, literally, if you're a woman, you get divorced in California, you're going to be

02:44:20.920 just fine.

02:44:21.700 Well, I'll just say this.

02:44:22.780 I was at court once.

02:44:24.600 It was a litigation thing.

02:44:26.240 I'm not going to get into it.

02:44:27.640 A couple times.

02:44:28.720 And before my case was called, there was, it was a divorce case that involved children.

02:44:37.020 And it was the most brutally depressing thing I listened to.

02:44:40.740 So, sitting there at the Santa Barbara courthouse for 30 minutes, listening to these two argue

02:44:47.460 about finances and the custody of the children.

02:44:51.420 And I'm like, these people probably didn't imagine being in this situation when they got

02:44:56.040 married.

02:44:56.900 And so, is somebody's phone going off?

02:44:58.260 Sorry, it's my watch.

02:44:59.840 I'm on Do Not Disturb, but it's my watch is going off.

02:45:02.280 I'm so sorry.

02:45:03.540 I hear what you're saying.

02:45:04.760 Divorce court is the worst possible thing. 1.00

02:45:07.100 Your dad's a lawyer, right?

02:45:08.100 He's a bankruptcy attorney, so it's somehow even more depressing.

02:45:12.520 No, no, not more depressing, but my parents had an awful, awful divorce.

02:45:19.240 It took years to actually get divorced.

02:45:22.220 Right.

02:45:22.520 And my dad is remarried to someone who also did not necessarily have a cordial divorce.

02:45:27.780 And so, I've seen the ins and outs of divorce court, and it's awful.

02:45:31.680 And that's why marriage is a big thing.

02:45:34.200 Marriage is not like a pastime.

02:45:35.780 Are you Catholic?

02:45:37.260 My mom is, my dad's Jewish.

02:45:38.940 What are you?

02:45:40.620 Jewish.

02:45:41.140 Oh, okay.

02:45:41.580 Yeah, I was brought up Jewish.

02:45:43.080 Well, I know, I don't know what it is.

02:45:45.120 I was baptized, though.

02:45:46.120 I'm kind of, you know, I'm not necessarily religious.

02:45:48.380 I do consider myself spiritual, but I don't think the Jews would claim me back. 1.00

02:45:52.340 Because you said, well, you said that you don't believe in divorce.

02:45:56.100 And that's, I've heard that among, for Catholics, that that's like no good.

02:46:01.200 I just would never do that to my children.

02:46:03.620 Okay.

02:46:03.900 All right.

02:46:05.220 So, you would stay with somebody who's dissatisfying you or making you really depressed or they

02:46:09.980 change as a person and blah, blah, blah, and making your children work?

02:46:13.380 Once you become a mother, I think your children's needs prioritize over your own needs. 0.95

02:46:18.540 Absolutely.

02:46:18.760 But does that mean that they'll see a rotting marriage in front of them?

02:46:24.420 And then that's their standard of love?

02:46:26.240 I don't believe in bad marriages either.

02:46:27.960 No, I'm just kidding.

02:46:28.720 I love that.

02:46:29.680 I love that.

02:46:30.140 I, like, believe in manifesting and I am manifesting nothing but a perfect marriage because I want

02:46:38.360 to demonstrate to my children what love looks like.

02:46:41.180 I want them to see a healthy marriage and that's why I'm very picky with who I go out

02:46:45.040 with.

02:46:45.280 I'm very picky with who I would decide to date and I'd be very picky with who I would

02:46:49.480 decide to marry.

02:46:50.320 Weren't you just in a situationship?

02:46:52.880 Uh, no.

02:46:53.700 Recently?

02:46:54.420 Didn't you say you were in a situationship or dating around a bit?

02:46:58.080 Oh, yeah, like, I'll go on dates here and there but because, you know, if someone says,

02:47:01.720 hey, Lindsay, I think you're really cute, let me take you on a date.

02:47:03.900 I'm, and if he's, yeah, if he says it like that, I'm, sure, I'll go on a date with you

02:47:08.660 and it took two dates for me to just say, hey, I don't think this is, like, I don't see

02:47:12.440 a future.

02:47:13.480 I'm not going to waste his time.

02:47:14.380 I'm not going to waste my time.

02:47:15.580 So I have, make it really quick, go ahead.

02:47:18.680 Yeah, I was just going to say, I know you're going to say you're going to be selective with

02:47:21.320 your husband but, like, I tend to agree with you that relationships can get worked out

02:47:25.600 but, like, my, I was a child of divorce as well and, like, bottom, like, bottom line

02:47:31.980 is my dad was very emotionally abusive and it was, I was very relieved when they got divorced

02:47:36.600 because I wasn't in a good home environment part of the time and it caused a lot of, like,

02:47:41.380 emotional strife and issues, like, with me and my family.

02:47:44.540 So it's, like, I would say there's, like, exceptions and, like, that blanket statement.

02:47:48.660 Like, you can think you're picking the right person and then that person can change on

02:47:53.040 you.

02:47:53.140 I think that my original statement was silly and I, I choose to revoke that.

02:47:57.900 I, I believe in divorce.

02:47:58.820 I respect that.

02:47:59.100 My parents got divorced and I'm glad they did.

02:48:00.960 They had a horrible, not loving marriage and it benefited my older brother, my older sister

02:48:05.700 and I for them to get divorced.

02:48:07.200 It was not pretty.

02:48:08.020 It was not awesome.

02:48:08.700 Um, and so, but I, that is, that is, you know, I'm not going into marriage.

02:48:16.460 I am not going into marriage thinking, well, I can divorce him if it doesn't work out.

02:48:20.320 Oh, here we go.

02:48:21.180 She's the victim now.

02:48:22.140 Okay.

02:48:22.680 Uh, Stifler asked the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10. 0.98

02:48:27.260 Here we go.

02:48:27.660 We're going to start with you.

02:48:29.320 Go ahead.

02:48:30.860 I'm not going to, I'm going to pass on this.

02:48:32.940 No pass.

02:48:33.480 No passing.

02:48:34.100 No passing.

02:48:34.620 I feel like I'm getting, you know, purely wake up and I'm like, what the F, you know,

02:48:39.960 I'm like, how can I be this closer and closer and closer, closer.

02:48:43.080 No, like it just really depends on the day.

02:48:45.580 I think that I'm okay, but I have to give thanks to makeup and also my plastic surgeon,

02:48:51.360 Dr. Calvert.

02:48:53.020 Thank you.

02:48:53.780 Shout out Dr. Calvert.

02:48:55.700 Shout out.

02:48:57.060 What do you have?

02:48:58.620 What do you have done by the way? 0.98

02:48:59.800 Uh, my boobs.

02:49:00.700 And then I have fillers and Botox.

02:49:03.160 No.

02:49:03.480 Yeah.

02:49:03.600 These are natural.

02:49:04.400 Oh, I'm just kidding.

02:49:05.520 Lipo?

02:49:05.680 Is your nose?

02:49:06.580 No, not lipo.

02:49:07.500 No lipo. 0.92

02:49:08.020 I just got boobs when I graduated nursing school. 0.96

02:49:11.720 So recently? 0.79

02:49:12.660 Did you get a discount?

02:49:13.520 2019.

02:49:14.800 2019.

02:49:15.560 That's a little graduation gift.

02:49:16.960 It was, yeah.

02:49:17.960 Did your sugar daddy?

02:49:20.020 No.

02:49:20.740 You paid for it.

02:49:21.340 Graduated nursing school.

02:49:22.660 She's good.

02:49:23.740 Nurses all bet.

02:49:25.500 They could make up to 100 kids.

02:49:26.620 The thing is like, you have financing options as well, but then, um, yeah.

02:49:32.440 What?

02:49:32.800 Your nose is perfect.

02:49:33.660 Is your nose real?

02:49:34.400 My nose is real.

02:49:35.540 It's gorgeous.

02:49:36.080 Thank you.

02:49:36.520 That's awesome.

02:49:36.980 That's sweet.

02:49:37.320 But then it's contoured.

02:49:38.620 I mean, makeup.

02:49:39.900 I'm sorry.

02:49:40.640 I mean.

02:49:41.680 Yeah, makeup does wonders. 1.00

02:49:43.140 That's why I'm saying like, it really depends on the day.

02:49:46.020 I think I've read you.

02:49:47.220 I think I have you figured out.

02:49:49.260 Doubt it.

02:49:49.840 I'm honestly getting sugar mama vibes from you.

02:49:54.160 No.

02:49:55.060 Major sugar mama vibes.

02:49:56.240 No.

02:49:56.560 I think eventually.

02:49:57.420 No.

02:49:57.700 I'm like.

02:49:58.980 No.

02:49:59.780 No.

02:50:00.720 Major.

02:50:01.720 Me?

02:50:02.300 The sugar mama?

02:50:03.180 You're the sugar mama. 1.00

02:50:03.660 I'm sorry.

02:50:04.780 No.

02:50:05.720 Never.

02:50:06.080 I can see you with like a, like a 23 year old stud.

02:50:09.880 I don't go for studs and looks and stuff.

02:50:12.980 Like I see them like babies.

02:50:15.160 Oh.

02:50:16.200 Like.

02:50:17.140 Like a guy who plays lacrosse.

02:50:19.760 Like.

02:50:20.200 Not D1.

02:50:20.540 I see you as like the next millennia Trump.

02:50:23.400 No.

02:50:24.160 I like.

02:50:24.680 I mean, not with Donald.

02:50:25.640 But like, I see you with like an older, sophisticated, like.

02:50:28.180 Yes.

02:50:28.500 Like.

02:50:29.880 Yes.

02:50:30.220 That's what I want.

02:50:30.920 An older, sophisticated, sexy man.

02:50:34.760 An older.

02:50:35.400 I know.

02:50:35.980 I'm.

02:50:36.520 Unfortunately. 1.00

02:50:37.240 Shit, man. 1.00

02:50:38.000 We're out of luck. 1.00

02:50:38.540 We're different generations.

02:50:40.220 Unfortunately.

02:50:40.840 What do you mean?

02:50:41.380 How old are you again?

02:50:41.980 You're 35.

02:50:42.480 I'm 35.

02:50:43.660 And so that's why I was like.

02:50:45.020 I'm 33.

02:50:45.660 He's 34.

02:50:46.600 Cautious with coming on to.

02:50:48.700 Because you guys are college age.

02:50:51.300 Well, no.

02:50:51.780 27, 26.

02:50:51.980 And I'm not a sugar mama or cougar.

02:50:54.880 Oh.

02:50:56.080 Would you ever pay.

02:50:57.160 Would you.

02:50:57.680 If.

02:50:58.060 Can I.

02:50:58.480 I want to be matchmaker here.

02:50:59.680 Will you take him out on a date?

02:51:02.600 Will you take.

02:51:03.160 Will you take him out on a date?

02:51:04.020 The thing is.

02:51:04.840 I don't date just to date.

02:51:07.080 Like.

02:51:07.220 Do you date to have sex? 0.66

02:51:08.160 No. 0.99

02:51:08.740 Just come over.

02:51:11.200 No.

02:51:11.840 I mean.

02:51:12.320 I've had.

02:51:12.800 I want to go to Ruth Chris.

02:51:13.280 I've had lovers.

02:51:14.540 I've had lovers.

02:51:15.620 You have lovers right now?

02:51:16.460 Take me to Ruth.

02:51:16.820 Do you have.

02:51:17.440 Do you have a lover right now?

02:51:18.400 I do not.

02:51:19.040 I do not.

02:51:19.640 When's the last time you had a lover?

02:51:21.240 I haven't had a lover in a while.

02:51:23.380 It's been.

02:51:23.900 How long has it been?

02:51:25.980 Years.

02:51:26.940 Years?

02:51:27.260 Wait.

02:51:27.520 Hold on.

02:51:27.800 Whoa.

02:51:28.260 Whoa.

02:51:28.540 Whoa.

02:51:28.880 Whoa.

02:51:30.260 Years.

02:51:30.740 A lover for me is someone that I deeply care for.

02:51:35.380 When's the last time.

02:51:36.260 But we're not.

02:51:37.500 When's the last time you hooked up with somebody?

02:51:39.700 I don't kiss and tell either.

02:51:42.120 A lady does not kiss and tell. 1.00

02:51:43.940 No.

02:51:44.400 A fortnight?

02:51:44.640 Definitely not.

02:51:46.300 Fortnight?

02:51:47.300 Fortnight?

02:51:47.860 What's fortnight?

02:51:48.400 14 days.

02:51:49.180 Oh God.

02:51:49.640 No.

02:51:50.680 More.

02:51:51.300 Way more.

02:51:52.260 How long?

02:51:53.040 A year?

02:51:53.420 I'm sorry.

02:51:54.680 Like I have made.

02:51:56.640 I have a date.

02:51:57.600 I just started on the dating app.

02:51:59.380 Uh oh.

02:51:59.900 And I seriously fall asleep once I start looking.

02:52:04.320 What app?

02:52:05.320 Huh?

02:52:05.660 Hinge.

02:52:06.300 Hinge.

02:52:06.560 I'm on Hinge.

02:52:07.760 However, I have fallen asleep on there and people are like, wow, you disappeared again.

02:52:14.620 It's like, so they wonder if I'm doing it for my social media.

02:52:19.340 It's not.

02:52:20.280 Like I'd like to find someone, but I'm lazy.

02:52:22.600 Like if she takes you out on a date, what do you think?

02:52:27.880 Where are we?

02:52:28.660 Where are we going?

02:52:30.160 I'm not taking anyone out on a date.

02:52:31.680 Why?

02:52:32.140 Why?

02:52:32.560 I don't even take myself out on a date.

02:52:33.680 What about equality?

02:52:34.900 Huh?

02:52:35.280 What about equality?

02:52:36.700 I, you know, the thing is, surprisingly, I'm an introvert and I'm extroverted during like,

02:52:46.220 no, like seriously, I prefer like, yeah, I know.

02:52:52.600 Savage.

02:52:55.880 Savage.

02:52:57.180 Savage, right?

02:52:58.300 That was the moment right there.

02:52:59.380 All right.

02:52:59.740 It's a no from her, basically.

02:53:01.760 She just wanted to take you out. 1.00

02:53:02.700 I have a stiff, oh, right there looks, okay, what do you rate yourself?

02:53:06.440 Next.

02:53:06.980 No, no.

02:53:07.380 Okay, here.

02:53:08.400 Let's start.

02:53:10.220 Somewhere.

02:53:11.360 Here.

02:53:11.960 Let's go to you then.

02:53:12.860 Oh, God.

02:53:13.740 Close into the mic.

02:53:14.480 That's funny.

02:53:16.800 We just talked about this.

02:53:19.140 I'm probably going to rate myself.

02:53:21.860 We're in Santa Barbara, so I'm probably like a Santa Barbara eight, maybe an LA seven for

02:53:28.460 myself.

02:53:28.960 You think?

02:53:29.600 Personally, my mom and I think that I'm a 10.

02:53:32.900 Absolutely.

02:53:33.380 That's me, but in perception of other people to me, I'm probably like, not everyone's type,

02:53:39.320 and I'm probably like a solid seven and a half, eight.

02:53:43.180 Wait, so you think in LA you're ranked?

02:53:46.860 I'm ranked lower, yeah.

02:53:48.540 It's a different scale.

02:53:49.540 It's a different scale.

02:53:49.880 No, the women in Santa Barbara are way more attractive. 1.00

02:53:52.340 I would, yeah.

02:53:53.300 Depends on your type.

02:53:54.120 Women. 0.81

02:53:54.600 Sure.

02:53:55.680 Women in Santa Barbara are more attractive. 0.99

02:53:57.080 Put those women in Santa Barbara that are attractive. 1.00

02:53:59.080 Higher cost of living.

02:53:59.660 Higher cost of living.

02:54:00.460 Okay, sure, sure, sure, sure, but let's say we take it to Idaho or like Tennessee.

02:54:05.780 Okay, what do you, what do you in Idaho find?

02:54:07.740 I feel like I would be married by now in Idaho.

02:54:10.840 You'd be locked down in Idaho.

02:54:12.000 I would be locked down.

02:54:13.100 You'd be married to a farmer, a potato farmer? 1.00

02:54:15.640 I'll be married to a farmer.

02:54:17.200 I'll pick up his accent.

02:54:18.440 Boise.

02:54:19.060 Oh, so you're into farmers?

02:54:20.100 Yeah, that is like the manliest occupation.

02:54:22.540 Yeah, why do you live in Santa Barbara?

02:54:24.020 We're from a very, a little country town down south of where?

02:54:29.900 Are y'all related?

02:54:30.640 Where do you guys know?

02:54:31.520 We went to high school together.

02:54:33.300 She's my sister's roommate.

02:54:34.780 Yeah, we, we're from a little town east of San Diego.

02:54:38.160 So it's like inland.

02:54:39.580 Farmer town, country, conservative.

02:54:41.580 If you don't have, if you, if you don't have horses, you're, you're the odd one out.

02:54:45.040 Yeah.

02:54:45.680 Cows in the middle of our town.

02:54:47.240 What's that?

02:54:47.600 Corn.

02:54:48.020 Not corn.

02:54:48.540 Chickens.

02:54:49.260 Lots of chickens.

02:54:50.540 We have like a llama farm, an alpaca farm.

02:54:52.520 That's so cute.

02:54:53.380 Our chicken farm is pretty big.

02:54:55.060 Yo, yo, hold on.

02:54:55.540 My house backs up to...

02:54:56.560 Okay, nobody cares.

02:54:57.360 Nobody cares about the chickens.

02:55:00.860 Okay.

02:55:01.500 Well, I do.

02:55:01.880 We have 4,000 people watching, guys.

02:55:04.140 Yo, can we...

02:55:04.920 The chat, the chat is on fire.

02:55:07.280 Can we please get to 2,000 likes?

02:55:09.320 Drop a thumbs up.

02:55:10.620 Okay.

02:55:11.800 So what about you?

02:55:12.680 What do you rate yourself?

02:55:14.740 Purely look, like purely looks, like no, like, probably like, especially in LA, like

02:55:21.600 a six and a half to like seven and a half, depending on your type.

02:55:24.460 Okay.

02:55:25.060 You got a good flow, though, with the hair.

02:55:27.060 That's an extra.

02:55:27.580 I mean, like, if I'm your type, to me, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

02:55:31.600 I can't really change how I look that much, so I'd rather work on other parts of myself.

02:55:36.140 And like, I can improve only so much, but my face is my face.

02:55:39.400 It doesn't matter!

02:55:41.020 Okay, Reese, what about you?

02:55:42.820 1 to 10.

02:55:44.920 I don't know.

02:55:45.600 It really like depends on the day, but maybe an 8.

02:55:49.560 I don't know.

02:55:50.580 Okay.

02:55:52.180 What about you?

02:55:53.320 I'd say I'm like an 8.

02:55:55.220 Okay.

02:55:56.320 6 without makeup, 7 and a half with makeup.

02:55:58.620 Oh, quick on that one.

02:56:00.740 Objectively, I think I'm pretty average, 5.

02:56:03.740 Okay.

02:56:04.960 What do you rate yourself?

02:56:07.680 Oh, me?

02:56:08.480 Oh.

02:56:12.020 Okay, I guess, I would say I'm about an 8.5.

02:56:15.680 Okay.

02:56:16.520 Yeah.

02:56:16.940 All right.

02:56:18.220 We're humble here.

02:56:19.720 Yeah, good crown.

02:56:20.420 All right.

02:56:21.260 Does anyone want to revise their answer?

02:56:23.340 I have a makeup remover.

02:56:25.840 No.

02:56:26.480 I have rosacea.

02:56:27.240 That's not fair.

02:56:28.280 You're so...

02:56:28.960 You want us to wipe our faces off?

02:56:33.500 I feel like we didn't give ratings indicative of needing to be humbled more.

02:56:39.580 Yeah.

02:56:39.860 I mean, you can see me without eyebrows, but these lashes are permanent.

02:56:44.800 I'm barely wearing makeup right now.

02:56:46.280 Yeah. 1.00

02:56:46.560 I do look like a naked moron. 0.99

02:56:47.920 I'm not wearing... 1.00

02:56:47.940 I said I'm barely wearing makeup right now.

02:56:49.620 I'm only wearing mascara.

02:56:50.780 Natural, natural.

02:56:51.540 We can tell.

02:56:51.980 You guys all look very natural.

02:56:52.660 No, I'm wearing a good amount of makeup.

02:56:54.380 I just...

02:56:54.860 I could tell.

02:56:55.420 Oh, okay.

02:56:55.820 Well, that you're not wearing long makeup.

02:56:56.980 I just focus on my face makeup because it's just my acne that I...

02:56:59.700 Wait.

02:57:00.460 Here, you didn't rate yourself.

02:57:01.880 What's your rating?

02:57:02.860 I'm not going to.

02:57:04.480 Just say you're a 10.

02:57:05.320 Just say it.

02:57:05.820 No.

02:57:06.160 You don't want to say it.

02:57:07.000 I would never say I was a 10.

02:57:08.700 Wait. 0.99

02:57:08.820 Seriously, I wake up and I'm like, what the fuck? 1.00

02:57:11.380 What the fuck? 1.00

02:57:12.200 Like, girl, you need some water and sleep. 1.00

02:57:15.900 What is beauty in the...

02:57:19.660 What is the beauty in the eye of the...

02:57:21.260 What does it actually mean?

02:57:23.040 I think, like...

02:57:24.640 What you're attracted to?

02:57:25.380 Everybody has different opinions and everybody's a different flavor.

02:57:28.580 Everybody has different tastes.

02:57:29.880 So, it's like someone's going to find me and be like, oh, my God, she's an 11 out of 10.

02:57:34.040 And that's their business. 0.99

02:57:35.280 And then some people are going to be like, she's a fucking three. 1.00

02:57:37.880 She's, like, huge and tall and all that kind of shit. 0.99

02:57:40.520 But, like, me personally, I have learned to not put too much stock... 0.99

02:57:45.340 Like, when I conceive of myself, I'm not my own type.

02:57:48.040 So, I wouldn't, like, rate myself a 10.

02:57:49.700 Because when I look in the mirror, it's not...

02:57:52.280 Like, if I could change, like, the way I look, I wouldn't pick this in particular.

02:57:57.520 Not that I think I'm ugly or hate myself.

02:57:59.540 I love myself.

02:58:00.340 But it's just, like...

02:58:01.420 It's literally just visual aesthetic preference, like, likes and dislikes.

02:58:05.500 It's not that deep.

02:58:06.840 And it's as deep as you make it.

02:58:08.640 Respectfully, I've made money off my looks myself.

02:58:11.460 So, that's why I can say...

02:58:13.920 Well, you know...

02:58:14.640 Wait, Reese Witherspoon.

02:58:16.620 We have one more question for you before you leave.

02:58:19.240 Last question here.

02:58:20.260 She's got to leave. 0.53

02:58:20.900 She's got to dip. 1.00

02:58:21.600 Yeah, I got to go.

02:58:22.920 Yeah.

02:58:23.480 Her friend is recalling her to the...

02:58:26.300 Oh, wait, sit down for this one.

02:58:27.700 Oh, no, no, no.

02:58:27.940 Okay.

02:58:28.360 Yeah, you got it.

02:58:28.820 It's going to take a minute.

02:58:29.320 Okay.

02:58:29.700 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:58:30.440 Okay, Reese.

02:58:31.640 Yes.

02:58:32.200 Is it easier for men or women to get laid? 0.99

02:58:35.240 I think it's easier for women to get laid. 1.00

02:58:42.700 Would you like me to expand?

02:58:44.580 Is that a question?

02:58:44.960 I feel like...

02:58:45.680 Is that up for debate?

02:58:46.780 That was a question.

02:58:48.300 That was a question.

02:58:49.060 Okay, yeah.

02:58:49.160 I feel like it's a pretty simple answer.

02:58:50.420 I think it's easier for women. 1.00

02:58:54.300 Men tend to have pretty low standards when the only thing they're looking for is sex.

02:58:57.680 Is there more to that?

02:59:02.720 I feel like...

02:59:03.620 I think she covered it.

02:59:04.860 Where did your friend go, by the way?

02:59:06.640 Did she text you?

02:59:07.880 Yeah, I...

02:59:08.480 Rude.

02:59:09.780 Sorry.

02:59:10.940 Well, not you, but...

02:59:12.300 Yeah, yeah, she texted me.

02:59:15.020 What did she say?

02:59:16.520 Was it too toxic for her?

02:59:18.740 Not necessarily.

02:59:19.780 There was just something said here and there that she was pretty uncomfortable with.

02:59:23.280 Oh, was it Enola?

02:59:25.740 Wait, did I say your name right?

02:59:26.680 I mean, Kayla's my name.

02:59:29.180 Oh, I thought it was Enola.

02:59:30.740 Enola Blaze, that's my stage name.

02:59:32.920 Oh, that's your stage name?

02:59:33.920 Is it because of Enola?

02:59:35.720 No, not necessarily.

02:59:36.760 It's just things here and there.

02:59:38.500 Oh.

02:59:39.760 Okay.

02:59:42.640 Great.

02:59:43.240 A little too toxic?

02:59:45.420 There was someone...

02:59:46.440 I mean, you know this is a pretty controversial podcast.

02:59:48.900 Mm-hmm.

02:59:50.060 Yeah.

02:59:50.820 A little bit.

02:59:51.920 Not really.

02:59:52.560 What was safe controversial here today?

02:59:54.460 Well, I think compared to other podcasts, I'm pretty tame.

02:59:56.900 But I think compared, like, of what you hear, for example, like, amongst your college peers,

03:00:03.300 especially living in Santa Barbara, UCSB, fairly, you know, fairly liberal.

03:00:09.480 Yeah, I suppose some of these things could be shocking to hear.

03:00:13.540 Do you want me to keep it a stack right now?

03:00:15.160 And this is not to come at anybody in particular, but to me, she seemed like she was part of the LGBTQ, and this is an assumption.

03:00:22.000 Uh-oh.

03:00:22.440 She said she did some men.

03:00:23.880 She said she was lesbian. 0.99

03:00:24.820 Yeah, so she might not be on track with some of the things that you said about trans and not supporting that, because that is a really controversial issue, and, like, I'm in support of anybody living their life however the fuck they want. 0.98

03:00:37.320 But that might have maybe made her feel some type of way, and she just chose to remove herself. 0.72

03:00:41.640 Sure.

03:00:41.800 That's the only thing I can think of, because, like, if you've watched this podcast or listened to any man in the last 10 years, like, you knew what to expect.

03:00:48.540 Like, that is the only thing, and that's not to, like, slight you.

03:00:51.920 That's just...

03:00:52.460 I agree.

03:00:52.980 She seems like a lovely girl.

03:00:54.780 I just think that if we could, like, sit here and have a cordial conversation, I think we're all, like, totally cool trying to find common ground on things.

03:01:01.180 You know, maybe we could get somewhere with something.

03:01:03.420 And, you know, it's good that she just removed herself from a situation she feels uncomfortable with, but I feel like constantly we have people in these subset communities that just walk away because they don't have anything to say.

03:01:14.320 Well, I suppose the polite thing, at least, I mean, if she was that uncomfortable with the conversation,

03:01:18.540 she could have... 0.82

03:01:19.880 She's free to obviously leave, but she could have at least said, hey, I'm going to...

03:01:23.420 I mean, she should have maybe, like, text you.

03:01:25.440 Maybe she didn't want to interrupt, and maybe, like, right now, since this is, like, a dating show, we already got into so many, like, kind of political issues.

03:01:32.820 It's not really the time or place to debate something that kind of heavy and deep, you know, that is...

03:01:40.220 We didn't even debate anything.

03:01:42.080 You just said she doesn't support...

03:01:44.360 No, that's fine, but she wanted to just probably remove herself. 0.99

03:01:48.260 Explore having relation or intimacy with...

03:01:53.680 Okay.

03:01:54.220 No.

03:01:54.560 All right.

03:01:55.140 No.

03:01:55.420 And first of all, someone wants to be cute over there, and I do...

03:02:00.900 Are you reading the chat?

03:02:01.820 Oh, I'm sorry.

03:02:02.820 If someone called me a man...

03:02:03.940 Someone called me a man.

03:02:04.860 Reese has to go.

03:02:05.540 I'm on there.

03:02:06.280 Thanks for having me.

03:02:07.540 Hi, Reese.

03:02:07.960 Oh, me too.

03:02:08.660 Drive safe.

03:02:09.600 Bye, guys.

03:02:10.100 Nice to meet you.

03:02:10.480 Yeah, not coming at you, by the way. 0.99

03:02:11.500 The ignorance. 0.95

03:02:12.780 Is your name Reese? 0.96

03:02:13.500 It's not the time.

03:02:14.580 Oh, okay.

03:02:15.380 You just said witherspoon, that's why.

03:02:16.980 Should I...

03:02:17.480 Triggered.

03:02:19.220 Could you put that on the ground, please?

03:02:21.280 Should we scoot over?

03:02:22.980 We could actually do a little scoot, I think, would be best.

03:02:26.820 Just make sure the mics don't get knocked over.

03:02:29.100 I mean, we're only going to go probably for another 20, 30 minutes.

03:02:32.540 Oh, we... 1.00

03:02:33.040 Shit. 1.00

03:02:34.920 Sorry, though. 1.00

03:02:36.980 Yes.

03:02:37.580 You were going to ask her to Maui, huh?

03:02:39.520 Huh?

03:02:39.780 You were going to ask her to Maui, huh?

03:02:41.440 I was.

03:02:42.200 I was going to ask for the Maui.

03:02:43.540 She was the one?

03:02:44.380 She was the one.

03:02:45.380 Come on.

03:02:45.860 Rip.

03:02:46.680 She reminded me of that one girl from... 1.00

03:02:49.280 Oh, my gosh.

03:02:52.020 I'm blanking.

03:02:52.940 How...

03:02:53.260 Ten Things I Hate About You.

03:02:56.920 Oh.

03:02:57.280 I'm forgetting her name.

03:02:58.340 She's beautiful.

03:02:59.940 Mandy Martin?

03:03:01.220 No.

03:03:01.460 Is that who it is?

03:03:02.600 No, with the guy that played the Joker.

03:03:04.780 We didn't even really, like...

03:03:06.500 Besides the, like, brief comment you made, we didn't even...

03:03:10.660 We didn't even...

03:03:11.840 We skipped over that.

03:03:13.100 Like, we didn't even really engage in that, so I don't know what the deal was.

03:03:15.780 I'm not...

03:03:16.360 Like I said, that's just my observation of what possibly, out of all the topics that

03:03:23.000 were broached in any particular manner, but, like, I could see someone that felt very passionately

03:03:28.580 about that, that was a part of the community, maybe didn't even want to engage it because

03:03:32.560 they already have...

03:03:33.800 They didn't have the energy or they knew where it was going to go because it is...

03:03:37.240 Yeah.

03:03:37.700 Like, it's...

03:03:38.920 Like, I could sit here and advocate and I would at, like, any time, but do...

03:03:44.120 Would it be productive?

03:03:46.620 I don't know because this is, like, ultimately...

03:03:48.980 Are you not allowed to talk about trans people?

03:03:51.260 Or...

03:03:51.500 No, you are, but, like, that was...

03:03:53.780 She took a stance and she probably didn't like the stance.

03:03:56.340 We also generalized it.

03:03:57.520 And then I narrowed it down, like, after she left.

03:03:59.600 I was like, wait, what did you mean by that?

03:04:01.400 Like, I narrowed it down, like, an hour and a half later.

03:04:03.820 I don't know what it was.

03:04:04.740 Yeah, I don't even...

03:04:05.580 Yeah, exactly.

03:04:06.560 She was sitting there.

03:04:07.500 Oh, she said what she did. 0.98

03:04:08.440 She didn't support it.

03:04:09.620 And then Karina.

03:04:10.500 That was the woman I was thinking of.

03:04:11.980 Julia Stiles.

03:04:12.920 Julia Stiles.

03:04:13.580 Oh, yeah, you're right.

03:04:14.520 I made it.

03:04:15.100 Mandy Moore is the one where she's... 1.00

03:04:16.420 Thank you, Mickey Mick.

03:04:17.060 You know, we could have been going to Hawaii together, but alas.

03:04:21.380 Yeah.

03:04:21.880 Okay, so, let's talk about body count really quick.

03:04:25.040 Should body count matter, yes or no?

03:04:26.960 Yes.

03:04:27.880 Oh, wait, well...

03:04:29.020 Here, let me start over here, and then we'll come to that.

03:04:30.920 That's fine.

03:04:31.580 For the man or the woman? 0.90

03:04:33.020 Both.

03:04:38.080 I think kind of.

03:04:40.880 I think it's more about how you go about your relationships, regardless of the number,

03:04:46.340 and how, like, you treat each partner, and how you enter and exit those engagements.

03:04:51.140 And that should be more reflective of, like, you than just a number.

03:04:57.460 So, yes and no.

03:04:58.680 What was the question?

03:04:59.700 Should body count matter?

03:05:01.500 Yeah.

03:05:01.840 For the most part.

03:05:06.260 It's a conversation I don't like to talk on.

03:05:09.600 Ask.

03:05:10.480 Wait, what?

03:05:11.180 What are you calling?

03:05:11.620 It's nasty.

03:05:12.340 Water?

03:05:12.580 What does it matter?

03:05:13.800 Why do you want to know?

03:05:15.140 Like, with your partner, so you...

03:05:17.340 You know, it's just one of those things where it's like, that was your life, this was my life,

03:05:21.720 that's not who I am, or that's not who you are, and stuff.

03:05:25.440 It's like, meet me where...

03:05:27.520 It's not a subject that you want to discuss.

03:05:29.780 You are so far away from the microphone.

03:05:32.080 I don't think anybody can hear you.

03:05:32.960 It's not a subject to discuss.

03:05:34.680 It's like...

03:05:35.080 Body count.

03:05:35.660 What's the point of you telling me you screwed an X amount?

03:05:40.680 It's like, am I supposed to be impressed or grossed out?

03:05:44.440 Like, you know, it's not something that I would like talking about.

03:05:50.000 You don't like talking about body count?

03:05:51.560 No, that's nasty.

03:05:52.920 Do you ask the partner?

03:05:53.180 Because, yes, there are diseases out there.

03:05:56.660 I'm sorry.

03:05:57.300 But you can't get a disease from talking about body count.

03:05:59.540 But I'm not going to judge someone on body count and stuff, either.

03:06:02.920 So, it doesn't matter to you whatsoever?

03:06:05.060 I don't want to know.

03:06:06.880 Oh.

03:06:07.380 So, I think that what you're saying is that it does matter to you, because if it was high,

03:06:10.980 it would bother you.

03:06:11.180 It's like, if you need to go to the bathroom for whatever reason, I do not need to know what

03:06:16.300 your reason is to go to the restroom. 0.99

03:06:18.320 That is your business.

03:06:21.180 You know?

03:06:21.640 Word.

03:06:22.600 Okay.

03:06:23.640 Well, here's a different question.

03:06:27.220 Would it upset you if a guy who, either on a first, second date, if a guy asked you

03:06:32.200 what your body count was?

03:06:33.660 I think that that would be kind of like an immature, that would be like me, hard pass

03:06:41.920 on you, I got to go.

03:06:43.320 Okay.

03:06:43.920 I'll come back to that.

03:06:44.840 I want to get everyone's answer on this, though.

03:06:46.580 Go ahead, and then we'll come back around.

03:06:48.180 I would want to know why he needs to know.

03:06:50.960 Because if it really, like that guy's comment, he was like, it was so in-depth and stuff.

03:06:56.060 But I don't know if all men are thinking that deep into it, or they're just like, oh, she

03:07:00.180 ran through or not, or whatever.

03:07:01.620 But it's like, I would want to know why.

03:07:03.060 And if you are someone to make snap judgments on people, if they asked me and wanted to know

03:07:08.160 my whole sexual history, I'd have no problem being open. 0.93

03:07:10.660 But if they just wanted to, like, call me a slut, if it was over a certain number, then 1.00

03:07:14.680 I'd be like, fuck off. 1.00

03:07:15.580 No, but they might want to use it as a criteria for disqualifying you from pursuing you further. 1.00

03:07:22.040 I honestly think that's fair.

03:07:23.340 If that's what they want in a partner, that's what they want.

03:07:25.900 Sure.

03:07:26.280 And if that's part of their criteria, maybe that's not somebody I want to be with.

03:07:29.980 We're not a match.

03:07:30.840 Yeah.

03:07:31.040 Move on.

03:07:32.180 There you go.

03:07:33.020 What about you?

03:07:34.620 Oh, yeah.

03:07:36.680 Wait, what?

03:07:37.320 Yeah.

03:07:37.760 It does.

03:07:38.560 Does it matter?

03:07:39.060 You said does it matter?

03:07:40.040 Was that the question?

03:07:40.800 No, the question, I switched it to.

03:07:42.640 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

03:07:43.380 Would you take an issue if a guy was asked you on a first or second date or something

03:07:48.660 early, fairly early on, let's say.

03:07:50.900 Yeah, early on is disrespectful.

03:07:51.820 About your body count.

03:07:52.880 Yeah, I think that's a, it's not disrespectful as much as it is, like, immature and novice.

03:07:59.580 And it's just like.

03:08:00.380 It's immature and novice.

03:08:01.300 Yeah, it's more of a question that you ask once you are willing to consider, like, settling

03:08:07.860 down with them.

03:08:09.160 That's when you should ask the question?

03:08:10.500 Not settling down.

03:08:11.260 What if you don't want to waste time?

03:08:12.420 Well, if I didn't want to waste time, I'll ask for your bank statements.

03:08:16.360 It's like, all right, let's see the bank statement.

03:08:18.280 You want to know my body count.

03:08:19.640 Let's get that personal then.

03:08:21.200 It's just, there's certain things that are, it's just, it's tacky.

03:08:25.620 Well, the difference there, I would say, is there's no way to, I mean, you can look

03:08:31.120 at a woman's behavior. 0.82

03:08:32.240 You can sort of look at their appearance and make, to some degree, a judgment over potential

03:08:38.020 promiscuity or body count, but if a guy tells you that he's a mechanical engineer in this

03:08:47.740 city, you can just go on to, what's the website where you can look at people's profile?

03:08:53.760 Yeah, well, there's websites where you can just, like, see how much they earn?

03:08:59.320 Like, no, no, no, not see how much specifically they earn, but you say, here's their A.

03:09:04.200 Oh, Glassdoor?

03:09:05.100 Like Glassdoor, you can see, okay, a software engineer in San Francisco is making, likely

03:09:11.220 to be making X amount.

03:09:12.160 So, I mean, if someone tells you they're a certain career, you're going to have a sense

03:09:16.260 of their earnings.

03:09:18.340 It's not foolproof, but, whereas with body count, it's kind of up in the air.

03:09:23.860 Yeah, but I've, like, I've misread guys before, and then, like, once we get into the body count

03:09:28.500 conversation, like, their body count is significantly, like, just lower than I thought it would be.

03:09:33.160 I'd be like, oh, you're, like, a 30, 40, you're an entertainer, you do this, you do that,

03:09:36.820 and they're like, nope, been with a handful of chicks in my whole life. 0.99

03:09:39.600 And it's really, like, but then it starts clicking as I see, like, how do they treat

03:09:44.420 women outside and all this other stuff.

03:09:46.580 Well, I feel like as dudes, I mean, you have to go through, I mean, me personally, like,

03:09:51.180 I went through, you know, a stage where I was knocking them down or whatever, but as

03:09:54.340 you get older, like, you realize, well, like, now I only have sex with women that I would 0.99

03:10:01.080 date, so if I wouldn't even date you, I won't even have sex with you because it's a waste 0.92

03:10:04.240 of time, I'm busy, I don't have time to do all that.

03:10:05.900 It's interesting, some people don't have to go through the hoe face to see that, too. 1.00

03:10:08.660 Well, yeah, true, true, true, but a lot of guys can't even have a hoe face. 0.98

03:10:12.460 A guy has to be able to have a hoe face. 1.00

03:10:14.340 Like, any girl can have a hoe face, but a guy, every guy can't have a hoe face. 1.00

03:10:19.080 I think a guy has to have a hoe face. 1.00

03:10:21.560 Where are you going with it?

03:10:22.560 I just think that there's different levels of, like, emotional intelligence.

03:10:26.820 Like, for me, yeah, I'm older, and I shouldn't have been here because I'm older, because,

03:10:32.460 you know, it's a different crowd.

03:10:33.880 However, it's like, if someone were to start a conversation with me like that, I would be

03:10:39.180 like, you know, my brain cells does not really have the capacity for this conversation.

03:10:45.140 Can you close the door, Eric?

03:10:46.340 I think that, can I jump in?

03:10:50.000 Okay.

03:10:50.200 Well, let me have her go first. 1.00

03:10:51.920 So, if a guy on a first or second date asks you, what's your body count?

03:10:58.220 I obviously, I have always, I'm always up front with everybody that I'm talking about,

03:11:04.060 my friends, my family, everybody.

03:11:07.300 If somebody asks me my body count, like, that's something I can't even give because I don't

03:11:11.680 personally know, but I don't think it's a respectful thing.

03:11:17.840 You think it's not respectful?

03:11:19.480 Yeah.

03:11:19.960 You know what else is not respectful?

03:11:22.500 People being on their phones while we're in the middle of a conversation.

03:11:29.240 I really hate when people do that.

03:11:30.360 Yeah, you're literally on your phone right now, literally.

03:11:33.220 Okay, so, yeah, you were on your phone.

03:11:35.760 Okay, so, what about you?

03:11:37.580 I think that body count does matter, and it's indicative of a lot of things.

03:11:41.860 I think that there's, when bringing up that conversation, I think if first date, you know,

03:11:48.120 a guy just comes off super blunt with it, I'm going to be like, okay, that was distasteful.

03:11:51.720 But I think that if, you know, if I'm going on a second or, let's say, third date with

03:11:55.880 somebody, I have significant interest in them because I'm not wasting my time going on a

03:12:00.700 third date with some guy I don't see a future with in any sense, and hopefully that's the

03:12:05.680 same back.

03:12:06.100 So, if on the third date he asks that question in a respectful sense, then I think that that

03:12:10.960 is definitely something that should be disclosed.

03:12:13.500 First date.

03:12:14.280 First date.

03:12:15.140 First date. 0.78

03:12:15.780 He's not being a dickhead about it, but he's just like, hey, listen. 0.91

03:12:19.020 No, it's all in delivery. 0.93

03:12:20.080 Everything is in delivery.

03:12:20.800 Okay, here's the framing.

03:12:21.540 Here's the framing. 0.99

03:12:22.160 It's not like, what's your body count, whore? 1.00

03:12:24.700 The framing is, hey, listen, I'm not interested in something casual. 0.99

03:12:29.800 I'm looking for something serious.

03:12:30.960 I happen to think that body count matters.

03:12:34.260 Just, it's something that's important to me.

03:12:36.860 I would like to know what your body count is.

03:12:40.000 Why is it important?

03:12:41.040 Because of everything else we spoke about?

03:12:43.580 Let me come back to that, but I'll tell you why body count's important.

03:12:46.660 But if he framed it in that way, would that still be disrespectful or rude?

03:12:51.840 No, I, like, honestly, I think the elegant thing to do would say, okay, well, what's the

03:12:59.900 number that's too high for you?

03:13:01.220 And if he said five, you know, depending on who I am.

03:13:06.480 No, depending on who I am and what my actual count is, I would say, thank you so much for

03:13:11.240 taking me out.

03:13:11.760 I'd leave half the bill and I'd leave.

03:13:13.000 Or I would say my number's under that.

03:13:14.780 And I'm glad we both value this thing.

03:13:17.080 Oh, wow.

03:13:17.640 It's yours.

03:13:18.200 You're so cordial.

03:13:19.800 I mean, that's, yeah, I suppose that's one way to do it.

03:13:22.980 Okay.

03:13:23.680 Wait, but I think that if a man sleeps with a woman and then asks for a body count and 0.66

03:13:28.980 acts like it matters to him, he's out the window. 1.00

03:13:31.680 I think that that is just garbage. 1.00

03:13:33.360 That's gross. 1.00

03:13:35.180 Wait, what's gross?

03:13:36.360 So let's say a man sleeps with a woman and he has this, you know, idea in his head, or

03:13:40.240 I shouldn't say idea in his head.

03:13:41.960 But if he has this, if he's, you know, has the motive to be in a, expectation of being

03:13:48.520 in a long-term or looking for a long-term thing and he sleeps with a woman and then

03:13:53.440 asks what her body count is because it matters to him, shame on him because he didn't, you

03:13:59.200 know, then she probably would not have done what she did if she knew his opinion on it.

03:14:04.840 Oh, sorry.

03:14:05.260 I mean, not necessarily, but if that's the biggest pre-qualifier, I think that's like,

03:14:14.080 like I said, the most novice and immature pre-qualifier ever.

03:14:17.780 It's immature to care about a woman's promiscuity. 1.00

03:14:20.520 Immediately and promiscuity as in like, how long ago is that past and present and future,

03:14:27.100 whatever.

03:14:27.560 But like, why aren't you thinking about like, how, how is she in public?

03:14:31.940 How does she treat you? 1.00

03:14:33.780 How does she speak to her family?

03:14:36.560 Does she even, you know, like those things are so much more important and you can't just

03:14:40.180 get everything hashed out in one date.

03:14:42.600 So that's why I think like the first date, that does not make sense.

03:14:45.200 Just be with someone that has the same values that you.

03:14:47.360 Some men want to freak that has a ton of experience.

03:14:49.840 Some want a little innocent virgin. 1.00

03:14:51.620 If they don't like who you are, don't be with them.

03:14:53.800 Don't feel personalized.

03:14:55.060 Just move on.

03:14:55.880 Like, honestly, like it's really like not, it's only as deep as you make it.

03:15:00.100 And if you want to put your value as a human being on your body count, that's on you and

03:15:04.820 vice versa.

03:15:05.500 If people want to do that to you and you take their opinion to heart, that's on you.

03:15:09.020 Yeah, but so many women have a serious issue with this being a preference that men have. 1.00

03:15:14.180 I get that.

03:15:15.200 A lot of women, I mean, a couple of women at the stable have it. 1.00

03:15:17.600 Find a man that doesn't.

03:15:18.240 Do you know, do you know that you're.

03:15:21.760 Wait, before I have you go, did you get to give your take on this?

03:15:26.120 Oh, I think body counts.

03:15:27.220 Like if a guy asked.

03:15:28.200 I wouldn't care.

03:15:28.600 No, I think it's important.

03:15:30.160 I think it's about self-respect for yourself.

03:15:32.200 They want to know you respect yourself.

03:15:33.440 Sure.

03:15:33.620 High standards.

03:15:34.320 Yeah.

03:15:34.640 Okay, cool.

03:15:36.420 Go ahead.

03:15:37.340 Yeah. 0.95

03:15:37.520 I was going to say, did you know that when you have sex with a guy, his DNA is inside 0.94

03:15:43.660 of you?

03:15:44.340 Like forever?

03:15:45.200 Yeah, forever.

03:15:45.740 Like there's a, there's a study or.

03:15:50.100 Oh, I've heard of this.

03:15:50.980 Yeah.

03:15:51.100 Like you, uh, he could, she couldn't even donate a bone marrow because yeah.

03:15:56.020 Like this guy's wife tried to, uh, donate bone marrow, but she couldn't because his DNA

03:16:01.580 was, was part of her, was part of her bone marrow.

03:16:05.120 So every time you share.

03:16:06.500 That's why sex is so spiritual.

03:16:07.240 Yeah.

03:16:07.580 It's like so important.

03:16:08.660 I think it's the highest connection you can, you can choose to have.

03:16:11.160 And I think that's why you should have a low body count because it's so spiritual.

03:16:14.440 I think sex is so, uh, such a big thing and should be a valued thing.

03:16:19.320 The same reason that sexual assault is so awful, you know, you know, punching someone in the

03:16:25.620 face is not the same as assaulting, sexually assaulting someone because, you know, high-fiving

03:16:33.240 someone is not the same as making love.

03:16:38.520 Agreed.

03:16:39.000 That was so simple.

03:16:41.680 All right.

03:16:42.140 Another one bites the dust.

03:16:46.600 She got work in the morning.

03:16:47.840 She got a nurse. 0.99

03:16:48.360 Nobody can just make it to the end.

03:16:51.180 Do you guys think promiscuous women make good moms? 1.00

03:16:55.480 Um, are they leaving their kids to go fuck people? 1.00

03:16:58.740 Like, you know, actively in work like that. 1.00

03:17:01.360 I don't think so.

03:17:02.080 Like, that's not good.

03:17:03.440 No, cause I believe in their past. 0.99

03:17:05.160 Well, I believe if you don't care what goes in your vagina, how can you care what comes 1.00

03:17:10.360 out of it? 1.00

03:17:11.380 That might be the stupidest thing I've ever heard in my life. 1.00

03:17:14.000 I'm not going to lie. 1.00

03:17:14.880 I don't know. 0.98

03:17:15.320 I don't think it's stupid. 0.99

03:17:16.080 No, because that's just saying that people stay stagnant their entire life. 0.78

03:17:20.120 Like, what if somebody has like a phase in their life where they were mentally going through

03:17:23.940 something and they did behaviors or whatever that, you know, you might judge.

03:17:28.220 Everybody might judge. 0.98

03:17:29.400 So if I murdered a bunch of kids. 0.98

03:17:31.200 Obviously, we're not talking about like rape. 0.99

03:17:33.240 I mean, the R word and murder.

03:17:35.460 Um, like stuff like that.

03:17:36.880 And like, we're not talking about like crimes that are harming people.

03:17:42.080 Ethics is about harm. 1.00

03:17:43.380 If you're harming somebody else, then like, absolutely.

03:17:45.880 But if it's just out of the standards of like acceptable society.

03:17:50.460 Get some help.

03:17:52.120 But I'm just, facts.

03:17:54.140 But, um.

03:17:54.540 Wait, do those memes come up when somebody like donates?

03:17:56.960 No, but people aren't stagnant.

03:17:58.260 People can grow.

03:17:58.960 People can change. 0.96

03:18:00.380 And that's just kind of a ridiculous.

03:18:02.280 Okay, stop it. 0.98

03:18:03.320 Oh, Jesus Christ.

03:18:04.240 Can you hide?

03:18:04.540 Stop it.

03:18:05.060 Can you hide that, Eric?

03:18:07.600 I'll know what's going on with it.

03:18:09.180 Okay.

03:18:09.720 Uh, so body count shouldn't matter, whatever.

03:18:12.680 Uh, what's your body count?

03:18:14.780 Uh, much lower than 10.

03:18:17.460 Much lower than 10?

03:18:19.160 What?

03:18:19.840 I was in a relationship for like five years and I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18.

03:18:24.020 So.

03:18:24.700 Until she didn't lose her virginity until 18. 0.94

03:18:27.220 18 or 19.

03:18:28.040 Something like that.

03:18:29.960 Okay.

03:18:30.940 Wait, what?

03:18:31.400 Before you leave, what's your body count?

03:18:32.840 Also, no judgment on people that have high body counts.

03:18:36.160 It's just a personal preference.

03:18:38.520 Susan.

03:18:39.560 Hi.

03:18:40.660 I'm a virgin.

03:18:42.880 Susan's a virgin. 0.88

03:18:44.100 I'm a virgin.

03:18:45.180 Totally a virgin.

03:18:46.440 Nice to meet you.

03:18:47.580 Nice to meet you.

03:18:48.560 Bye.

03:18:48.740 Bye.

03:18:49.640 Okay.

03:18:50.380 Um.

03:18:52.380 Seven?

03:18:53.820 Maybe around there.

03:18:54.680 I'd have to go back through history.

03:18:57.520 Okay.

03:18:58.620 What's your body count?

03:19:00.060 Body count doesn't matter.

03:19:00.920 What's your body?

03:19:01.240 Oh my God.

03:19:02.320 Sorry.

03:19:05.940 Okay.

03:19:06.420 I'll just, here, I'll answer for you since you're going to not answer.

03:19:09.020 It's 73. 0.98

03:19:11.580 That's fucking rude. 1.00

03:19:13.520 And very presumptuous of you. 1.00

03:19:16.100 Why is it rude if body count doesn't matter?

03:19:18.040 But I could, but I could say that yours is probably two.

03:19:20.260 Because to him it does, so he's making a statement.

03:19:21.140 Mine is two?

03:19:21.540 Yeah.

03:19:22.440 What?

03:19:22.740 Well, I mean, you're saying it's rude for me to just throw out some joke number.

03:19:26.700 So I've asked you a question, I've asked you a question and you're just refusing to answer

03:19:30.560 the question.

03:19:32.260 And you're just being like, oh, I'm a virgin.

03:19:33.980 I mean, come on.

03:19:34.520 You're not a virgin.

03:19:35.260 I just, I know, but I'm just setting up the shirt.

03:19:37.300 Like I wore the shirt for a reason. 0.94

03:19:38.660 I knew this frigging question was going to come up.

03:19:40.500 So what's the actual answer? 0.89

03:19:42.560 Less than 15.

03:19:45.280 Everyone's less than something tonight.

03:19:46.940 It doesn't mean like count beforehand, right?

03:19:49.460 But I mean, if your body count, for example, you said it's less than 10.

03:19:53.720 If, without disclosing my body count, let's say my body count was less than 10.

03:19:59.840 I would know precisely how many people I've slept with because that's a low number.

03:20:04.240 I would remember all those people.

03:20:05.520 Circle back to me.

03:20:05.980 I'll go through. 0.73

03:20:06.720 I would remember all the people I had sex with.

03:20:07.860 No, I remember them, but it's like, I do long term.

03:20:11.360 So it's like, I have to kind of, it's still a 10 year history.

03:20:14.860 Once you hit like 20 or 30, that's when I think.

03:20:17.480 It's not like I won't remember them.

03:20:18.720 I just didn't think about it before this moment in time.

03:20:20.880 Would you tell us your body count after we're done?

03:20:24.020 What about you?

03:20:25.000 Why won't you answer my question?

03:20:26.540 People that I've wanted to sleep with, six.

03:20:30.660 People you've wanted to sleep with, six.

03:20:33.280 What about total?

03:20:35.140 I can't, I don't know.

03:20:36.760 I erased that from my head.

03:20:39.060 Sure, sure, sure.

03:20:39.280 Do you think it's over 300?

03:20:40.720 No.

03:20:41.880 Okay.

03:20:43.180 Between, over 200.

03:20:44.260 So let me, let me just say this.

03:20:46.180 People, since the, the career path that I decided to take, that I was only seeing certain dudes at, like, it wasn't like different dudes every day, multiple different dudes.

03:20:57.660 It wasn't like that.

03:20:58.220 It's like one dude, and I would see him for as long as I could until something happened.

03:21:04.840 Okay.

03:21:05.120 So not that many.

03:21:05.880 I would say maybe, if I'm going to say highest, 100.

03:21:11.960 Okay.

03:21:12.880 How much did you charge, by the way?

03:21:14.920 Um, it varies.

03:21:19.820 Do you, did you set the prices?

03:21:22.060 I do set the prices.

03:21:24.060 Well, I was just saying you had a pimp.

03:21:25.640 I don't know if he set the prices.

03:21:27.000 No, I, I wouldn't consider him a good pimp.

03:21:31.060 Yeah, that's got disconnected.

03:21:32.880 It's all good.

03:21:34.020 I mean, I don't think there are good pimps out there, but.

03:21:36.800 What about Andrew Tate?

03:21:38.100 I love Andrew Tate.

03:21:39.300 You love Andrew Tate?

03:21:40.220 Yeah.

03:21:40.440 Um, W, uh, free Andrew Tate.

03:21:45.160 Free Top G.

03:21:46.040 Free Top G.

03:21:47.220 Free Top G.

03:21:47.680 He's out?

03:21:48.800 What?

03:21:49.180 I, I think so.

03:21:49.940 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:21:51.340 No, they keep extending it.

03:21:52.720 They are.

03:21:53.620 No way. 1.00

03:21:54.480 There's a bunch of, like, every fucking day, there's this fucking channel on YouTube called, 0.99

03:21:58.900 I think, chat, is it, there's BSN and, like, Festify, and they release every day the same, 0.99

03:22:04.960 like, clickbait shit, which is, like, Andrew Tate, release today. 0.72

03:22:09.260 And it's, like, brought these, do you guys know what I'm talking about? 0.98

03:22:12.940 BSN and, like, Festify, Testify on YouTube, they release these one-minute update videos,

03:22:19.380 and they're, like, Andrew Tate, release today. 0.99

03:22:21.840 I'm, like, fucking. 0.99

03:22:22.120 Just, like, tabloids of YouTube. 0.99

03:22:23.180 And I always click it. 1.00

03:22:24.040 I'm, like, oh, shit. 1.00

03:22:27.000 Festify, fucking, they clickbait worse than I do. 1.00

03:22:29.820 Okay. 1.00

03:22:30.820 Free Top G.

03:22:31.660 Okay.

03:22:32.320 So, what's the most you've ever charged a guy?

03:22:37.760 For some action.

03:22:41.120 Well, I mean, I would charge, I wish I could charge a lot.

03:22:44.340 The most I've ever got paid, um, $2,000.

03:22:48.560 $2,000.

03:22:49.120 Oh, nice.

03:22:50.020 Okay.

03:22:50.520 Okay.

03:22:50.820 How much did the pimp take?

03:22:52.940 So, or was this?

03:22:55.060 The situation with, I've had, I've had multiple pimps.

03:22:58.780 Multiple pimps.

03:22:59.520 But not serious ones.

03:23:01.560 But, so, like, in the beginning of when me and my pimp, my ex that I was with for three,

03:23:09.300 four years, I don't know.

03:23:10.140 Um, I gave him, like, all my money and he would give me, like, a little bit back.

03:23:16.580 Like, he would give me, like, maybe, like, $60 for, like, pocket money if I wanted to buy,

03:23:21.580 like, a dance outfit or something like that.

03:23:23.660 But, like, as time went on, like, he's the one who really pursued me and wanted to be in a relationship.

03:23:29.800 Don't read the chat right now.

03:23:30.660 I don't care.

03:23:31.200 Don't read the chat.

03:23:31.880 Um, he, he eventually told me, like, he loved me and he wanted to be with me.

03:23:36.660 So, I kind of just played my role and I was, like, you know, maybe this is it.

03:23:41.820 Maybe this is my man, you know?

03:23:43.720 Because I've always wanted to be married.

03:23:46.280 That's my goal.

03:23:47.780 I think that should be every woman's goal. 0.97

03:23:49.580 Um, and something just switched in him one day and, like, he just got extremely abusive.

03:23:57.500 Do you know what pimp stands for?

03:23:59.700 No.

03:24:00.140 Positive?

03:24:00.880 Were you going to do it?

03:24:01.880 Well, no, no, no, that's the Andrew Tate, but that one, the bad one, is a professional

03:24:05.840 in manipulating people.

03:24:07.460 Oh, okay.

03:24:08.600 Yeah.

03:24:09.340 The Andrew...

03:24:10.180 The Andrew Tate is the positively, inspirationally, motivating person.

03:24:13.960 Yes.

03:24:14.280 That's a good one.

03:24:14.960 That's a good pimp.

03:24:16.180 A positively...

03:24:16.580 I mean, a lot of pimps nowadays, they call themselves, like, lifestyle coach.

03:24:24.480 They do.

03:24:25.340 They do.

03:24:25.700 They kind of are a lifestyle coach.

03:24:27.440 That's funny.

03:24:28.100 Okay.

03:24:28.360 Um, so, the most you ever made was 2,000, but, okay.

03:24:32.900 Yeah, one person.

03:24:33.920 Got it.

03:24:35.080 Uh, body count?

03:24:36.920 That's an intimate detail of my life.

03:24:38.800 I declined to share because I don't think my future husband would appreciate that as well

03:24:44.240 as...

03:24:44.400 Sure.

03:24:45.380 Okay.

03:24:45.940 No, that's fair.

03:24:46.660 No, it's not.

03:24:48.620 I literally declined, and you were, like, 73.

03:24:52.100 And then you broke.

03:24:52.840 And you don't even guess right?

03:24:53.160 You can guess a million for mine.

03:24:54.520 That's so messed up.

03:24:55.640 I know.

03:24:55.920 I'm just saying, like...

03:24:56.520 I firmly believe that this is not something that, you know, the public needs to know.

03:25:00.300 It's okay.

03:25:00.840 No, and I agree with you, too.

03:25:01.980 You're just mad that I went hard on you.

03:25:04.420 Yeah, and I'm sure...

03:25:05.100 He did the first time, and I stood my ground.

03:25:07.140 Yeah, I'm sure she is perceived as more intellectual, so that's why you went harder on me.

03:25:11.720 No, no, no.

03:25:13.040 It's actually...

03:25:13.580 It's more...

03:25:14.300 Here's what it has to do.

03:25:15.380 Ooh, here.

03:25:15.980 Keep the entertainment.

03:25:16.420 I'll come to this in a bit.

03:25:17.620 Marquavius.

03:25:19.500 I'm actually half Ukrainian, too.

03:25:21.480 Like, I'm everything.

03:25:23.260 Aram.

03:25:23.860 Uzbeki, Russian, Ukrainian, but anyway.

03:25:26.200 Disavow.

03:25:27.020 Okay.

03:25:27.780 Facetious.

03:25:29.060 Cure your rosacea.

03:25:30.560 I don't have rosacea.

03:25:31.560 Glacius stats.

03:25:32.660 I love that.

03:25:33.280 Keep vigorously expressing your opinions.

03:25:35.460 Yeah, can you read it?

03:25:36.440 It will magically disappear.

03:25:39.060 Okay.

03:25:39.920 Your mom.

03:25:41.940 Oh, wow.

03:25:43.840 Did you know that Marquavius Martin is actually a Mensa member?

03:25:48.820 So he's like...

03:25:49.800 He has an IQ over 130.

03:25:51.880 Genius IQ.

03:25:53.360 Oh, I'm a genius. 1.00

03:25:54.340 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:25:55.360 He took a test and got it. 1.00

03:25:57.640 Wait, so okay.

03:25:59.360 You're upset.

03:26:00.100 You're upset that I grilled you.

03:26:02.400 What is AARP, by the way?

03:26:03.440 Oh, my God.

03:26:03.840 This chick's checked out. 1.00

03:26:04.760 Okay.

03:26:05.160 What?

03:26:06.220 Okay, I'm upset that you grilled me and you didn't grill her.

03:26:08.740 Yeah.

03:26:08.880 Well, I think it's because of your red hair.

03:26:11.080 Okay. 0.99

03:26:11.320 You know, like, with the bullfighting, they have, like, the red Toro, Toro shit? 0.98

03:26:15.720 Uh-huh. 0.98

03:26:16.360 Is it kind of pink? 0.98

03:26:17.320 It has, like, purple tones and shit. 0.91

03:26:18.920 I don't know. 0.94

03:26:19.480 In any case, I think the red hair...

03:26:20.700 You know, like, you know, like, how police are more likely to pull over red cars?

03:26:24.420 I think that's why.

03:26:25.540 Although she's wearing a red shirt, so I don't know.

03:26:27.160 Yeah, hold on.

03:26:27.820 Fair enough.

03:26:28.280 I came off very sarcastic in the beginning, but that's just because that's my humor, but

03:26:32.100 not everybody gets me. 0.73

03:26:33.060 She's just being a troll. 0.97

03:26:33.380 It's not, like, actually her. 0.54

03:26:35.040 Yeah, it's all good. 0.97

03:26:35.840 Actually, I don't give a fuck what people think on the internet of me. 0.97

03:26:38.640 My body? 0.99

03:26:39.420 A troll in a good way.

03:26:40.660 Y'all just don't get it.

03:26:41.200 Oh, I thought you...

03:26:41.600 Oh, sorry.

03:26:42.340 Sorry.

03:26:42.900 No, you're good.

03:26:43.500 I'm bad.

03:26:44.760 One.

03:26:46.000 Based.

03:26:47.880 Based.

03:26:48.440 She said that with pride, too.

03:26:49.680 She was like...

03:26:50.120 They got together at 14, though, so...

03:26:52.120 I don't know why it can make sense.

03:26:53.580 I love it.

03:26:54.680 Based.

03:26:55.720 She started dating him at 14.

03:26:57.540 Return to tradition.

03:26:59.060 But I'm not knocking you, but...

03:27:01.000 Reject modernity.

03:27:02.820 Embrace masculinity.

03:27:04.260 Bet.

03:27:05.200 I want to see that in the chat, boys.

03:27:06.640 What's your body count?

03:27:07.460 My body count, if I'm being honest...

03:27:10.380 Be honest.

03:27:11.860 I do not know.

03:27:13.860 Hundreds. 0.92

03:27:14.440 I've been having sex for longer than I haven't been having sex. 0.95

03:27:19.980 I'm pretty good at sex now.

03:27:23.060 But, no, I mean, it's in the hundreds.

03:27:26.580 There is a bet up there if he wants to.

03:27:28.440 Yeah, prove it.

03:27:29.340 Bring the couch.

03:27:30.100 He likes those, remember?

03:27:31.700 Prove it to you?

03:27:33.000 No, just to the world.

03:27:35.580 That's his own review of himself.

03:27:37.600 I'm not knocking you.

03:27:38.480 I'm just thinking...

03:27:38.740 OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

03:27:40.840 Go subscribe.

03:27:41.880 Oh, yeah.

03:27:42.180 Maybe I should get OnlyFans.

03:27:43.500 Oh, yeah.

03:27:43.960 I'll get OnlyFans.

03:27:44.880 I support it 100%. 0.98

03:27:46.160 Sex for the kids is valid. 0.99

03:27:46.640 We should go into business together.

03:27:48.320 I'll have you run the whatever OnlyFans, and you'll just like...

03:27:52.100 Yeah.

03:27:53.100 I'm down, bro.

03:27:54.000 Sign me up.

03:27:54.820 All right. 1.00

03:27:55.160 Fuck it. 1.00

03:27:55.380 Let's just... 1.00

03:27:55.960 I monetize what I'm good at.

03:27:57.600 Like, oh.

03:27:59.560 Slang his song.

03:28:00.440 I'm just trolling you, by the way.

03:28:01.600 I'm not being a hater.

03:28:02.400 Can I ask?

03:28:02.960 You said you were a comedian.

03:28:03.960 Can you tell us a joke?

03:28:05.100 A joke?

03:28:05.900 Yeah.

03:28:06.160 Ooh. 1.00

03:28:06.980 Ooh, fuck. 1.00

03:28:08.160 Yeah, do your set right now. 1.00

03:28:09.400 Do your set right now?

03:28:10.480 No, man.

03:28:10.980 I don't tell jokes for free.

03:28:13.460 Oh, good.

03:28:14.600 I notice his volume.

03:28:16.440 You ain't working for free over here?

03:28:18.700 No, I'm really sleepy.

03:28:20.520 So, what's your body count?

03:28:21.660 My body...

03:28:21.960 Okay, if I had to put a number on it, if I had to put a number on it, I would say...

03:28:28.860 Oh, man.

03:28:32.080 I hope they don't put this on like a...

03:28:34.480 Like, what do you call it?

03:28:35.680 How they make a short of it?

03:28:37.680 You're over it.

03:28:38.180 I'd say...

03:28:38.660 You're definitely overthinking it.

03:28:40.900 Just say the number.

03:28:42.660 You're in a safe place.

03:28:44.220 I'm in a safe place.

03:28:45.080 Yeah, you're safe.

03:28:45.480 The internet is a safe place.

03:28:47.180 Maybe like...

03:28:48.340 Lindsey, put this on while he thinks about it.

03:28:51.080 Okay.

03:28:51.360 What is that?

03:28:52.440 It's a World War I?

03:28:53.740 Whose head has been in this?

03:28:54.700 Huh?

03:28:55.520 Don't worry about it.

03:28:55.920 Maybe like three something?

03:28:57.380 Nobody.

03:28:57.800 Oh, three something?

03:28:58.680 Okay.

03:28:59.580 Triple digits.

03:29:01.100 No, no, no, no.

03:29:02.660 Two.

03:29:04.080 Like the high twos, maybe.

03:29:05.600 200.

03:29:07.080 Like two, almost threes, maybe.

03:29:10.040 I don't know, man.

03:29:10.820 Like I've done some... 0.91

03:29:11.900 I've done some sex parties. 0.90

03:29:13.980 I've done...

03:29:14.500 Like you gotta count all of those.

03:29:16.400 All of those count.

03:29:17.260 You know what I mean?

03:29:17.760 When you walk into sex parties, do you respect people there?

03:29:22.300 Like do you just have a baseline respect for them? 1.00

03:29:24.320 No, you just go and smack the shit out of everybody. 0.99

03:29:25.660 You just take whatever you want. 0.99

03:29:27.000 Yeah, what do you mean?

03:29:27.720 Of course you can respect people.

03:29:28.500 Well, there's a difference between treating someone with respect and actually respecting

03:29:31.060 them.

03:29:31.260 Because I treat everyone that I come in contact with with respect.

03:29:34.340 Yeah.

03:29:34.640 And I respect very few people.

03:29:36.500 No, I'm a gentleman.

03:29:37.340 I treat everybody nice.

03:29:39.160 Okay, so you treated them all with respect, but did you actually respect any of them?

03:29:44.000 But he's the same.

03:29:44.760 I don't know what you mean.

03:29:46.080 If he's going into that environment.

03:29:47.140 I don't know.

03:29:47.680 He's part of that community.

03:29:49.240 Yeah, no.

03:29:49.400 That he would be not respecting himself if he didn't respect them.

03:29:52.340 Yeah, no.

03:29:53.240 Like I love...

03:29:54.120 I don't... 0.90

03:29:55.340 Promiscuous women, that doesn't really bother me. 1.00

03:29:57.860 I don't really care. 0.69

03:29:58.740 I do it like...

03:29:59.240 Does my hat look good?

03:30:00.240 Yeah, it looks phenomenal.

03:30:01.100 But I... 1.00

03:30:03.100 For me, as long as a chick has burning desire for me, the shit really don't matter. 1.00

03:30:11.100 Because like I'm... 0.99

03:30:13.100 Like I said, I'm a unicorn.

03:30:15.000 Like I'm not...

03:30:16.540 Yeah, I don't have issues with chicks that I do. 1.00

03:30:20.580 Okay, I have a side question.

03:30:23.080 So I've seen like... 0.99

03:30:24.080 I watch like Love Island and shit. 0.99

03:30:25.580 Like I love trashy reality TV, just to numb my mind. 0.99

03:30:28.760 But like they always say like in Britain that they're like, yeah, my body counts like 400, 500.

03:30:34.400 Like how?

03:30:35.180 Like do you think that's real or like their cap about that?

03:30:38.800 Because they really are very proud of those numbers.

03:30:41.600 And I'm just...

03:30:42.740 It blows my mind.

03:30:43.620 I'm not judging.

03:30:44.300 But like how do you actually maintain that or get to those numbers?

03:30:48.300 Honestly.

03:30:49.460 Like...

03:30:50.060 Okay.

03:30:51.360 Well, college for one.

03:30:52.680 I went to college.

03:30:53.960 So that was...

03:30:56.240 Yeah.

03:30:56.420 Someone do the math on how many girls you'd have to smash. 1.00

03:30:59.360 Like at what rate to get to like thousands.

03:31:02.300 Dude, it goes pretty fast.

03:31:08.140 Oh, sure.

03:31:10.860 The...

03:31:12.120 Yeah, it's...

03:31:14.000 Yeah, you might go on a weekend.

03:31:15.300 Like if you have a wild weekend.

03:31:16.520 You go on vacation.

03:31:18.020 Like chicks on vacation. 1.00

03:31:19.180 They're wilding out.

03:31:20.180 They're like...

03:31:20.780 It's not...

03:31:22.220 Yeah.

03:31:22.720 The numbers add up pretty quick.

03:31:23.820 The numbers add up pretty quick.

03:31:26.620 Yeah, they add up pretty quick.

03:31:28.580 All right.

03:31:29.100 Let's...

03:31:29.940 Was there something we were supposed to react to?

03:31:34.040 You said there's like a video.

03:31:35.080 Eric.

03:31:35.800 Oh, that's awkward.

03:31:37.600 Here.

03:31:37.880 One thing really quick.

03:31:38.800 Let's pull this Yahoo thing up.

03:31:40.220 We'll look at it for two minutes and then we'll play video and then we're going to wrap.

03:31:44.520 Did I do...

03:31:45.820 Go ahead.

03:31:48.720 You can pull it up.

03:31:50.920 Most young men are single.

03:31:52.660 Ooh, voice crack.

03:31:54.360 Most young men are single.

03:31:55.700 Most young women are not. 0.88

03:31:57.300 Can you scroll down a little bit?

03:31:59.440 So this came out from Pew Research I think a month ago.

03:32:03.260 Can you see where...

03:32:04.940 Can you find the link to Pew Research?

03:32:07.880 There should be...

03:32:12.000 Scroll down.

03:32:12.440 Wait.

03:32:14.700 Oh, it's the very bottom one.

03:32:16.680 Wait.

03:32:16.880 Actually, store continues.

03:32:18.040 Click that.

03:32:19.920 Yeah, the 30% of US adults.

03:32:21.640 Yeah.

03:32:21.860 Click on that link.

03:32:24.540 Hopefully, it takes us to Pew.

03:32:27.120 Control mouse wheel.

03:32:28.180 Zoom in.

03:32:32.660 More.

03:32:33.260 Just do more.

03:32:34.320 Okay.

03:32:34.680 Scroll down.

03:32:35.140 All right.

03:32:37.140 So let's...

03:32:37.820 Okay.

03:32:38.080 Pause there.

03:32:38.740 Can you do one more?

03:32:39.820 Scroll in one more so we can see a bit better?

03:32:42.680 Okay.

03:32:43.940 Scroll down just a tad.

03:32:46.360 Okay.

03:32:46.840 So let's look at ages 18 to 29 and ages 18 to 29.

03:32:51.620 So for men, 63% of men between the ages of 18 to 29 report being single.

03:32:59.580 However, for women between the ages of 18 to 29, 34% of them report being single. 0.99

03:33:07.480 So what the fuck is going on there? 0.92

03:33:11.500 What that either means is that women are dating older men or that's part of it. 0.99

03:33:18.900 Or I think the bigger thing is, is that women are all dating the top tier of men. 0.68

03:33:25.660 So women are sharing men. 1.00

03:33:28.240 And then you...

03:33:28.700 So you have women. 0.88

03:33:29.460 They all...

03:33:29.820 They've got a boyfriend or they're in a situation ship with a guy.

03:33:33.880 And maybe that girl's dating multiple people. 1.00

03:33:37.240 He's dating multiple people.

03:33:38.540 But the men at the very top, they have a ton of options.

03:33:42.820 Then women below that have a little fewer options than the men. 0.99

03:33:46.740 Well, it's not that they have fewer, but these men are just running through chicks.

03:33:51.100 And then you have men who are average, who are basically getting nothing.

03:33:56.780 So this is shocking.

03:33:58.140 And this is like pretty catastrophic for society.

03:34:02.340 I feel like some of these guys aren't like claiming the girls too.

03:34:05.860 So there's that.

03:34:10.860 The women might think they're in a relationship. 1.00

03:34:12.680 Just how we were like bantering about being in a situation ship.

03:34:15.160 Wait, tilt the microphone so it's straight on.

03:34:16.520 The same way we were bantering that we're like in situation ships and wearing it proudly.

03:34:22.380 Like men won't like claim the same energy at all.

03:34:26.720 So, you know, a woman might think she's in a relationship, but it's so one-sided.

03:34:30.860 That could be another factor too.

03:34:32.380 By the way, did we, did I, Marquavius Martins, I see it's not starred here, Eric.

03:34:43.340 We didn't really read it, did we?

03:34:46.160 She read it to herself, kind of.

03:34:48.580 I don't want to screw Marquavius over here.

03:34:51.260 Marquavius, confirm or deny.

03:34:52.500 Was that an acceptable read of your, because she's kind of mumbling through it.

03:34:57.220 You should read it again.

03:34:58.140 Yeah, I didn't, I didn't see it starred here, so I was going to pull it back up.

03:35:03.320 Poor Eric.

03:35:04.640 Poor Eric.

03:35:05.340 Oh, yeah.

03:35:06.020 Carpal tunnel syndrome.

03:35:07.160 Let's go.

03:35:08.360 Let's go.

03:35:09.720 Oh, oh, he's going.

03:35:10.940 He's going for it.

03:35:12.100 Okay.

03:35:12.320 As soon as she comes back, we're going to watch a video and then we're going to.

03:35:16.280 So I'll tell you this story. 0.99

03:35:18.640 I had sex with a dude one time. 1.00

03:35:20.540 What the fuck? 1.00

03:35:23.040 Yeah. 1.00

03:35:24.780 Wait.

03:35:29.360 What?

03:35:30.000 Where was this when we were talking about gay rights?

03:35:32.460 No, hear me out, hear me out, hear me out.

03:35:34.440 So it was a girl.

03:35:35.600 Trans rights, let's go. 1.00

03:35:36.380 It was this girl, you know, she was sexy, had a nice big butt, whatever, whatever. 1.00

03:35:40.700 We had sex, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

03:35:41.600 And then at some point we got disconnected and then the next time I talked to her, she 0.95

03:35:46.740 had, I guess, decided she was now a dude or whatever. 0.70

03:35:52.360 But like she still had, I mean, she looked like a girl to me, but to her she was a dude.

03:35:59.200 It was the way she was identifying, but she still anatomically was a girl?

03:36:02.920 That's a girl.

03:36:03.560 What do you mean? 1.00

03:36:04.320 Did she still have a vagina? 1.00

03:36:04.880 Yes, she still had a vagina. 1.00

03:36:06.100 That's a woman. 1.00

03:36:06.860 She was born with a vagina? 1.00

03:36:08.020 Yeah. 1.00

03:36:08.500 Yeah, that's a girl, honey.

03:36:09.420 That's a woman. 1.00

03:36:10.100 I know, but today, but it's today's world.

03:36:14.500 She's a dude because she says she's a dude. 0.99

03:36:16.760 So I had sex with a dude. 0.98

03:36:17.760 Oh, like pronoun, gender, gender and sex are two different things. 0.97

03:36:21.580 Gender is a social construct.

03:36:23.000 Sex is your biological makeup.

03:36:24.540 And there's, that's a whole, we could get into the science.

03:36:27.600 I mean, no, I agree, but I'm just saying. 0.98

03:36:29.820 But just say you had sex with a dude. 1.00

03:36:31.180 We were all wiki and you had sex with a dude. 0.99

03:36:33.640 Yo, I was like top or bottom? 0.99

03:36:37.040 Explain it to me again. 1.00

03:36:38.160 No, she was born with a vagina. 1.00

03:36:39.460 You know, we had sex when she called herself a girl. 1.00

03:36:42.580 And then at some point she was like, all right. 0.99

03:36:45.020 She had titties? 1.00

03:36:45.720 Yeah. 1.00

03:36:46.440 Transgender. 1.00

03:36:46.980 It was a pussy. 1.00

03:36:47.700 Yeah. 1.00

03:36:47.920 It wasn't like a dick. 0.98

03:36:49.420 No, no. 0.99

03:36:50.560 That's not gay. 0.87

03:36:51.620 That's a woman. 1.00

03:36:51.900 I never said I was gay.

03:36:52.920 I just said I said I was gay. 0.80

03:36:54.360 The phrase sounds pretty gay.

03:36:55.620 I know. 0.97

03:36:56.160 The phrase is gay.

03:36:56.600 I framed it that way. 0.87

03:36:57.400 I framed it that way. 0.98

03:36:57.860 Every time I had sex with a dude. 0.98

03:36:59.640 Huh? 1.00

03:37:00.180 That's a woman. 1.00

03:37:01.060 But you can get canceled for saying that.

03:37:02.660 I don't care.

03:37:03.480 Yeah, you're right.

03:37:04.700 Facts are facts.

03:37:05.600 That's a woman. 1.00

03:37:05.940 No, yeah, yeah.

03:37:06.360 She's definitely a woman. 1.00

03:37:07.960 You have a vagina. 1.00

03:37:08.860 You're a woman. 1.00

03:37:09.400 Yeah.

03:37:09.820 It was funny, though.

03:37:10.860 Gender and sex are two different things. 0.99

03:37:12.260 Hey, the chat is on fire.

03:37:14.520 Oh, my God.

03:37:15.660 Gender and sex are two different things. 0.99

03:37:17.000 Transverse matter.

03:37:17.320 Yo, NGT Gaming.

03:37:18.800 Thank you for the $100 soup chat.

03:37:20.060 I think this is the first time I'm seeing you.

03:37:22.260 Welcome, man.

03:37:23.300 What are your thoughts of girls reusing guys from the past to make the body count number

03:37:26.940 and not go up?

03:37:29.940 Is that, like, done on purpose?

03:37:32.160 Or are they just spinning the block for their ex?

03:37:33.940 They still have feelings for it.

03:37:35.200 I've heard girls say this. 1.00

03:37:36.060 Really?

03:37:36.680 I've heard girls say this. 1.00

03:37:37.800 Apparently, it's a thing.

03:37:39.860 Recycling.

03:37:40.220 I'm not mad at it.

03:37:40.820 I think they call it recycling.

03:37:41.940 I don't think the guy's mad at it.

03:37:43.800 I mean, mine as well if he already hit.

03:37:47.500 You know what you're getting.

03:37:48.760 There's no surprises.

03:37:49.700 I guess that makes sense.

03:37:50.560 I think that should count.

03:37:51.480 Like, if the guy, what, if, it should count as, like, half a body, I think.

03:37:58.120 No way. 0.98

03:37:58.800 Because if they've, like, fucked people's scents, like, for example. 0.98

03:38:03.560 Exposure-wise, I feel you. 0.95

03:38:05.480 Yeah, exposure-wise, I feel like you gotta be careful.

03:38:08.240 So, what was your body count?

03:38:10.180 I'm a man of God.

03:38:11.080 I don't reveal.

03:38:12.000 Wow.

03:38:12.760 Okay.

03:38:13.400 I don't reveal.

03:38:13.840 So, we're just all Satan's disciples here.

03:38:16.940 666, yes, you are all.

03:38:18.640 That's his 599, baby.

03:38:20.260 That's his body count.

03:38:21.480 666.

03:38:22.040 You said it.

03:38:22.560 Drop it.

03:38:23.520 Wait, what?

03:38:24.680 That was your body count, that number.

03:38:26.860 Yeah, exactly.

03:38:27.800 There you go.

03:38:28.700 I wonder if someone has actually counted.

03:38:33.140 Like, with the goal to do that.

03:38:34.940 To get to 666.

03:38:35.420 That would be kind of sad when they got to the last one and they were like, this is it.

03:38:37.600 That's a hardcore Satanist.

03:38:39.120 That's some Satanist.

03:38:40.660 I'm sure there's somebody out there.

03:38:41.860 All right, let's do the Patrice clip. 0.99

03:38:43.540 Let's do the Patrice clip. 0.99

03:38:45.340 Patrice.

03:38:48.180 If you can hide this super chat.

03:38:52.640 All right.

03:38:53.460 Go for it.

03:38:56.280 Let me ask you a question.

03:38:58.660 Here's a question.

03:38:59.340 Here's a serious question.

03:39:01.640 Okay, ladies. 1.00

03:39:02.440 If you didn't have a vagina. 1.00

03:39:06.640 Like, say it was a terrible train accident, right? 1.00

03:39:08.640 And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away. 1.00

03:39:13.960 Or you're going to die. 1.00

03:39:17.620 How would you keep your man past, you get a two month guilty, I can't leave the bitch right away because she just lost the pussy in a train accident. 1.00

03:39:30.620 Can't just walk right out on him. 1.00

03:39:32.080 How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina? 1.00

03:39:41.640 Eric. 1.00

03:39:43.500 Pause it.

03:39:45.200 Go ahead.

03:39:46.500 What that mouth do. 1.00

03:39:48.840 Okay, mouth.

03:39:49.740 Sure.

03:39:50.720 I would like to add to that statement. 1.00

03:39:52.560 What that ass do. 1.00

03:39:54.380 Okay. 1.00

03:39:55.020 What the ass do. 1.00

03:39:55.800 Okay. 1.00

03:39:56.020 What about you?

03:39:58.520 Enola Blaze. 0.52

03:39:59.940 I would use my mouth.

03:40:00.980 Use the mouth. 0.99

03:40:02.680 Okay.

03:40:03.640 Yeah, I'd figure out a way to meet some biological needs.

03:40:07.440 Sure.

03:40:08.080 Okay.

03:40:08.720 What about you?

03:40:13.480 I don't know.

03:40:14.300 I'm not into weird stuff, so I don't know.

03:40:16.940 Is giving head weird to you?

03:40:19.480 Not weird, but not favorable.

03:40:23.560 At all.

03:40:25.700 I don't like it.

03:40:27.820 Okay, let's play the...

03:40:28.620 That's not fun.

03:40:29.120 Do you like getting it?

03:40:30.980 That's a different story.

03:40:32.780 Oh, interesting.

03:40:35.160 I like.

03:40:36.060 Okay, I feel you.

03:40:37.420 To each their own.

03:40:38.720 Okay, let's play the rest of the clip.

03:40:42.100 I don't know who said that.

03:40:43.340 We're all out of third grade.

03:40:44.720 Nobody said the word.

03:40:46.940 Huh?

03:40:47.400 I said the gene.

03:40:48.780 Yeah, that's funny.

03:40:49.820 Pay attention.

03:40:51.720 Wow.

03:40:53.260 Nothing?

03:40:53.860 You can talk.

03:40:54.240 You can talk. 1.00

03:40:58.740 Suck his dick. 1.00

03:40:59.580 Okay. 1.00

03:41:00.200 Mouth. 1.00

03:41:05.040 Asshole. 1.00

03:41:05.640 Okay, great. 0.99

03:41:07.680 You see what I'm saying? 0.98

03:41:08.500 Now, I've been getting pussy-beating the whole show, right? 0.94

03:41:11.480 But I give women the opportunity to say, 0.98

03:41:13.280 I'm going to make myself worth more.

03:41:15.220 But you just classified yourself as a series of holes.

03:41:19.220 But, you know, I'm...

03:41:21.840 I'm supposed to treat you special, 0.97

03:41:25.560 but you're just a bunch of holes for yourself.

03:41:30.020 No one said learn how to play Xbox,

03:41:32.200 learn how to play pool,

03:41:34.020 tell better stories, 1.00

03:41:35.400 get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in. 1.00

03:41:38.280 Oh, no. 1.00

03:41:40.040 What did he say?

03:41:40.880 Well, no.

03:41:41.440 Have another go.

03:41:41.940 Whatever.

03:41:42.300 Play X.

03:41:44.400 Okay.

03:41:45.220 Your reaction to that.

03:41:46.480 Yeah.

03:41:46.700 I was thinking, like,

03:41:48.280 bring other people into it as well.

03:41:49.860 But it is funny because, obviously,

03:41:51.360 when we answer that question,

03:41:53.040 your guys' whole point are,

03:41:54.300 men are hunters.

03:41:54.820 We need variety.

03:41:55.800 We're biologically programmed to want this, this, and this.

03:41:58.500 And everybody in a relationship

03:41:59.900 is going to want sexual satisfaction 0.88

03:42:01.900 if they're already dating me. 0.90

03:42:03.640 They want to be with me for me,

03:42:05.360 and the sexual stuff is just another component.

03:42:07.600 And if that gets taken away,

03:42:08.740 I'm going to replace that component.

03:42:10.220 So, yeah, a logical answer is to answer about sexuality.

03:42:13.940 It doesn't mean I'm classifying myself as a bunch of holes.

03:42:16.340 But I love it.

03:42:17.280 It's funny.

03:42:17.840 It was a good bit.

03:42:19.620 Okay.

03:42:20.860 I agree.

03:42:21.700 I agree.

03:42:22.380 Sorry.

03:42:22.740 That was just, like,

03:42:23.720 not the own you thought it was.

03:42:25.040 Yeah.

03:42:25.320 He was super funny.

03:42:26.240 I love that.

03:42:26.820 But it was funny.

03:42:27.680 It was a pretty good one.

03:42:28.540 No.

03:42:28.880 It was pretty good.

03:42:30.820 You guys took the bait, too.

03:42:32.600 You all took the bait.

03:42:33.700 But I just put the logic behind why we took the bait.

03:42:37.220 Right?

03:42:38.060 Yeah.

03:42:38.400 Like, it was inferred.

03:42:40.620 What did you want to say?

03:42:42.080 I would make a better sandwich.

03:42:44.360 I'll get really good.

03:42:45.400 Yeah.

03:42:45.960 Like, you should already be making the best sandwiches.

03:42:49.000 Like, what?

03:42:50.300 I really need to learn how to cook.

03:42:51.900 I don't cook at all. 0.99

03:42:53.020 We have vaginas, 1.00

03:42:53.960 and they still want to fuck other things. 1.00

03:42:55.540 Like, what do you mean? 0.99

03:42:58.560 Okay.

03:42:59.680 All right.

03:43:01.200 Okay, so any fun thoughts quickly before I wrap up the show?

03:43:11.160 Anything?

03:43:11.820 Okay.

03:43:13.100 Do you have a final question, or was that it?

03:43:16.180 I mean, I always have more questions, but I just...

03:43:18.600 Well, throw us out, like, a final end question.

03:43:22.040 I'm going to wrap up.

03:43:22.760 If you're a man of God,

03:43:23.700 why do you have so many hoes around you? 1.00

03:43:25.220 I am trying to introduce a new paradigm in dating.

03:43:32.780 Okay.

03:43:33.460 Which is?

03:43:34.420 I want to introduce a new paradigm in dating.

03:43:38.840 Cinedine.

03:43:39.460 A new paradigm.

03:43:41.120 Do you guys know that, like,

03:43:42.240 when you used to go see the movies,

03:43:43.720 there's, like, that intro before the movie?

03:43:46.560 Right.

03:43:47.720 Cinedine.

03:43:48.300 A new paradigm in... 0.99

03:43:50.940 What the fuck was the rest of it? 0.99

03:43:52.180 I don't know. 0.99

03:43:52.520 I did have a question that...

03:43:54.280 What's up?

03:43:55.020 What you got for me, Linda?

03:43:56.140 I was just wondering, like,

03:43:57.860 what is your goal in life?

03:43:59.140 Like, what do you want to do?

03:44:00.180 This just came up when we were talking about

03:44:02.120 how you don't spend your money.

03:44:03.120 So, like, I feel like when you ask most people that question,

03:44:05.340 it's A, have a family,

03:44:06.380 or B, like, be as successful and rich as I can be.

03:44:09.680 Right.

03:44:10.040 And you don't seem to fall under either of those.

03:44:12.160 Yeah.

03:44:12.360 Like, make enough money so I can say, 1.00

03:44:16.400 fuck you to the government. 1.00

03:44:20.040 And I want fuck you money 1.00

03:44:22.840 so I would never have to be in a situation 1.00

03:44:26.000 where I'm, like, have a boss or anything like that.

03:44:30.660 How much money do you think that is?

03:44:33.460 Probably that's...

03:44:34.220 I mean, it depends what age you retire,

03:44:36.440 but probably that's at least five or ten million dollars.

03:44:38.360 I think.

03:44:40.800 Like, regularly coming in,

03:44:42.140 not like you just won the lottery.

03:44:42.980 No, like, that's, I think,

03:44:44.280 the number where it's, like,

03:44:46.420 I think you're good is, like,

03:44:48.960 five or ten million net worth.

03:44:51.040 Do you have any black people

03:44:51.960 that are getting reparations in San Francisco?

03:44:55.920 Five million, that's all you need.

03:44:59.360 Is to change my skin color?

03:45:01.380 Wait, reparations?

03:45:02.600 What do you mean?

03:45:03.300 In San Francisco, they're talking about giving...

03:45:04.920 They're doing reparations?

03:45:05.440 Yeah, they're talking about giving people,

03:45:07.420 black people, five million dollars each.

03:45:08.720 How do you feel about all that?

03:45:09.700 Is it five million?

03:45:10.440 How do you feel about all that?

03:45:11.340 Do you think you deserve reparations?

03:45:13.000 Yeah, that's what I read.

03:45:15.180 You said, how do I feel about that?

03:45:16.340 Yeah, like, do you...

03:45:16.840 Well, I don't live in San Francisco,

03:45:18.060 so I'm pissed.

03:45:19.160 No, they have a program there.

03:45:21.520 Newsom is opening here, too, as well.

03:45:23.220 For reparations?

03:45:23.980 It's, like, $300,000 or something.

03:45:25.460 Do you think, in general,

03:45:26.920 people of color deserve reparations 1.00

03:45:29.240 for what their ancestors endured?

03:45:31.080 Yeah.

03:45:31.600 Oh, Jesus.

03:45:34.240 Dating talk, dating talk.

03:45:36.000 Yes.

03:45:36.400 All right.

03:45:37.580 The answer is yes.

03:45:39.040 Read history.

03:45:40.420 Yo, so...

03:45:41.880 For those of you who enjoyed the show

03:45:45.060 and you are interested in information

03:45:47.800 about the sexual marketplace,

03:45:50.580 you should really check out

03:45:51.980 RP Mentor Tokyo's channel on YouTube.

03:45:55.960 It's a little shout-out for him.

03:45:57.600 He left a super chat yesterday.

03:45:58.880 So, yeah, if you're interested

03:46:01.140 in looking at some of this stuff,

03:46:02.860 some data and information,

03:46:06.060 RP Mentor Tokyo on YouTube.

03:46:10.200 Anyways, guys...

03:46:11.160 I do have a final thought.

03:46:12.260 I'm so sorry.

03:46:13.100 One thing, it is important to me,

03:46:15.160 LGBTQ+,

03:46:16.100 okay, say it to this if you want.

03:46:19.060 LGBTQ rights matter,

03:46:20.440 trans rights matter,

03:46:21.520 all love to everybody,

03:46:22.700 no judgment anywhere,

03:46:23.600 sex work is valid. 0.99

03:46:24.540 Boom. 1.00

03:46:26.020 Fuck. 1.00

03:46:27.000 Haram! 1.00

03:46:27.860 Thank you.

03:46:29.560 Feel free to close it.

03:46:30.640 Feel free to hate that statement.

03:46:31.880 I don't care.

03:46:32.460 That's how I feel,

03:46:33.240 and everybody's entitled to this thing. 1.00

03:46:34.840 I'm just gonna say this shit 1.00

03:46:35.720 before the fucking end of the show. 1.00

03:46:37.640 Say some fucking other 1.00

03:46:38.820 fucking ridiculous shit. 1.00

03:46:40.140 Hey, guys. 1.00

03:46:40.440 All right.

03:46:42.160 Let's go get drunk.

03:46:43.740 All right.

03:46:44.420 Yo, thanks for tuning in tonight, guys.

03:46:45.920 You could have been anywhere in the world,

03:46:47.880 but you're here with me.

03:46:50.340 I appreciate that.

03:46:51.200 Thank you to everyone

03:46:51.760 who super chats and supports the show.

03:46:53.820 I think...

03:46:54.600 I don't know, guys.

03:46:55.620 Let me know in the chat really quick.

03:46:57.560 Lower back down the TTS

03:47:00.500 and the super chats.

03:47:01.540 Maybe...

03:47:02.380 I don't know.

03:47:02.860 I'm just...

03:47:03.380 I'm testing it out,

03:47:04.340 seeing how it goes,

03:47:06.000 but I think last show,

03:47:07.720 the TTS was interrupting a bit too much.

03:47:09.360 We had way too many super chats last show.

03:47:11.160 Went pretty long, so...

03:47:13.400 Anyways, let me...

03:47:14.520 I'm gonna fluctuate

03:47:16.160 and kind of see what works, what doesn't,

03:47:18.120 but let me know on that.

03:47:19.360 A big thank you to the panel who came.

03:47:20.960 Thank you to you guys

03:47:21.620 who stuck around for the entire show.

03:47:23.020 Why are you putting an L?

03:47:24.280 I'm getting L's.

03:47:25.340 Oh, you're putting...

03:47:25.960 Oh, she's an L? 1.00

03:47:26.660 Okay.

03:47:27.920 Thank you guys for coming.

03:47:29.580 Thank you for staying till the end.

03:47:30.920 Appreciate it.

03:47:31.960 Thank you to all of our chat mods

03:47:35.100 and any women who are short 1.00

03:47:36.820 and or who have largely a BMI DMs are open.

03:47:40.300 BD underscore at, let's just say.

03:47:41.860 Okay, we will be live again Sunday

03:47:43.580 at 7 p.m. Pacific.

03:47:45.780 Thank you guys for tuning in.

03:47:47.140 We will see you next time.

03:47:48.980 I hope you guys have a good night.

03:47:51.120 See you soon.

03:47:51.760 Peace.

Whatever Podcast - March 16, 2023

Dating Talk #63

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