Dating Talk #82
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6 hours and 31 minutes
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185.47762
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289
Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we have our first guest on the show, and it's a girl from Virginia! We talk about what it's like growing up in the 80s and 90s, and what it was like to grow up in a house with a beard.
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Okay, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So, please, tell us your name, age, occupation, and where you're from.
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Grew up in the Valley, downtown, K-town, whatever.
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School for photography, but do music, art, modeling, whatever.
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I live in Colorado currently, and I am a door-to-door solicitor, salesperson.
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I'm 39 years old, and I'm an investor and business owner, originally from California, and still
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I'm 22 years old, and I'm from Sacramento, California.
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I'm an athlete, and I'm a full-time student at ASU Online.
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I'm from San Diego, California, and I'm a marketing student at John Paul the Great Catholic
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My name is Jake, 27, Rattlesnake TV on YouTube, and I'm from Australia.
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And so, we're going to go out on the table one more time.
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And then, also, if you are single, how long have you been single, and what's your longest
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So, current relationship status, very single, and I've been single for about, oh, God, I
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want to say, like, three years, and then longest relationship was around, it was, like, an on
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Uh, last relationship, like, maybe two and a half years ago, I was engaged.
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What's the difference between single and very single?
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Oh, like, I'm not looking to not be single anytime soon.
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Uh, longest relationship was a year, about a year and a half ago was.
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Uh, he broke up with me because I caught him cheating.
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He broke up with you because you caught him cheating.
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Um, I've been single for like three years, I think.
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Didn't you have a ting last time you were on the show?
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I'm like trying to think, because it was when I wore my blue wig, and I'm like, I'm trying
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Like a, like a thing with someone, but I like, listen.
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So you had a ting, you wore the blue wig, now you have no ting.
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I think it was February, when you were last on the show.
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My longest relationship is just over ten months.
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We've probably been on and off for like two years now.
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And my longest relationship was two and a half years.
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Your ex-boyfriend is your current situation ship and your manager.
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Jeff, do you make content with him or you do solo content?
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So, the reason that we broke up, I was still finding a lot out about myself.
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You know, went through some crazy stages and we just weren't in tune with each other.
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A long distance situation ship and he manages your OnlyFans.
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Does he stop managing it when you guys are like, you know how people are on again, off
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Like, if it's in and off again, does he kind of hands off when it comes to, like, uploading
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No, he's pretty professional when it comes to needing to stick to business.
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He does give us our time if I'm like, hmm, what the hell are you doing?
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And I did see in the pre-show information you provided for us, you said you consider yourself
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So, traditional in the sense that I like to be, like, the homemaker at home.
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But if you provide, I'm going to, like, I like to cook and I like to clean and I'll,
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And also, when you say traditional, is there a religious component to that or not really?
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If you count a six-day committed relationship, then I've been single for four months.
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If that doesn't count, it's been a year and a half.
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Yeah, besides the six-day thing, it's been, you said, a year and four months?
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And you've been single, you said, for four months, was it?
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Single four months if you count the six-day relationship.
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Okay, gotcha, but if not, a year and a half, okay.
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And in our pre-show messages, you said that you only date outside your state and fly out
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Every relationship I've been in has been long distance at one point, if not the whole relationship.
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Are you, like, in the border, like, the border conflict where Ukraine and Russia is currently
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Albuquerque, hold on, Albuquerque's worse than the current Ukraine conflict.
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I'd say the dating scene is probably worse in Albuquerque than in Ukraine.
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There's not much to do, so got drugs, got alcohol, got feminine men.
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Is New Mexico, like, more liberal or conservative?
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But I do long distance for a multitude of reasons.
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When you widen the dating pool, you've got better options.
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Are you getting flown out by the dudes, or are you flying out to see the dudes?
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Don't you work in, like, an airline, or what's your job again?
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Are you one of the desk people, or are you a flight attendant?
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I'd be so flattered if someone flew to another state to come and gone on a date with you.
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But then you find out it was part of their conversation.
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Okay, so have you done any international travel to meet a guy, or is it strictly domestic?
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Like, are you just swiping in, like, New York and Vegas?
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And you'll, like, put your location as Vegas or L.A. or...
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Where's your, like, premier number one location you'd like to set it to?
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But also, when you start a long-distance relationship first, people get a lot more vulnerable because
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And it really, yeah, really moves things in a good direction.
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You don't have to, like, go through that physical phase first, so you get to, like, know, you
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I mean, my two-and-a-half-year relationship was with a cop.
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In your pre-show information, you also said that you used to be a hardcore leftist atheist
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feminist, but you are now recently a conservative born-again Christian.
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So when you were dating the cop, was this during your hardcore leftist atheist feminist
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phase or your conservative born-again Christian phase?
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How did you reconcile your hardcore leftist atheist feminist beliefs with dating a...
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I like to say it can be pretty convincing, so I think we both got to a point of being pretty
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I mean, isn't that kind of the antithesis of being a hardcore anything?
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So was your upbringing, like, were you brought up Christian or...
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So my longest relationship was two years, and I've been single for a year now.
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I'm currently single and have been so for almost a year now.
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I'm currently in a relationship, and this is the longest relationship.
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So single, but not very single, because the girls across were very single.
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And when they defined it, they said that they don't want to be in a relationship anytime
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Wait, none of you want to be in a relationship?
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Listen, if I meet the right person, they're going to spoil me, make me happy, don't.
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We just don't want Rattlesnake TV to misrepresent, you know, what you're looking for at the moment.
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So the first thing that we're going to react to today is, this came out about two days
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Are you guys all familiar with the famous actor Jonah Hill?
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He was dating a woman two and a half years ago.
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I don't know if it's either married or new girlfriend.
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So I don't know if it was spurred on by the fact that he's announced that he's having
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In any case, ex-girlfriend comes out of the woodwork saying, Jonah Hill was emotionally
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abusive and controlling and manipulative and narcissistic and misogynistic and every buzzword
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Jonah Hill's alleged dirty laundry is getting aired out by an ex who's posting what she claims
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are a ton of old texts from him and painting him as a toxic partner.
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Surf instructor Sarah Brady, J.H.'s former flame of about a year from back in 2021, is dragging
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the new actor on her Instagram account and she's not holding anything back in a repudiation
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of him as an alleged misogynist narcissist as she puts it herself.
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So, the primary one that we're going to react to is that one on the right.
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I just want to see what we have pulled up here.
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And every single, like, journal or whatever, they're all writing about him.
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So, we've got Vanity Fair, Glamour, Huffington Post, People Magazine, Washington Post.
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Just like pretty much every Vulture, Daily Mail, Independent.
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They're all talking about this story of Jonah Hill, misogynist, narcissist, abuser.
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So, we're going to actually investigate the text messages, and we're going to get your
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So, this is just one of the posts she made, and she says, reviving a pic I took down by
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So, I guess this is one of the photos that he requested she takes down.
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I think this one's fairly tame, but there were definitely some other photos.
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She took a screenshot of it and posted on her story.
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If you need surfing with men, boundaryless, inappropriate friendships with men, to model, to post pictures,
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I guess this is a list, to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit, to post sexual pictures,
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friendships with women are in unstable places, and from your wild, recent past, beyond getting
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Put it back into the window tab, though, please.
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And you can, I mean, you can make a bigger, there's the other GH5 center down there.
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So, friendships with women who are in unstable places from your wild, recent past, beyond
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getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful, I am not the right partner for you.
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If these things bring you to a place of happiness, I support it, and there will be no hard feelings.
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These are my boundaries for romantic partnership.
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My boundaries with you based on the ways these actions have hurt our trust.
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So, there's a bunch of other screenshots, but we're going to just start focusing on this
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So, I guess there's a couple questions here, and I'll open it up to you guys.
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Do you consider it to be, is this manipulative controlling, or do you think it's reasonable?
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And then, also, do you think it should have been shared publicly?
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Okay, so, first I'd like to say that I think that it's honestly pretty respectful of him
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to state what he wants to find in a romantic partner, and if she is not doing those things,
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like, there are so many people in this world that he can find that would respect that.
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And I think that it's very, like, I love how he said, like, the boundaries and stuff
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instead of going off on her or anything like that.
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Like, I think that that's, like, I think that's great.
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Yeah, I think that that's a very mature and adult thing to do.
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Well, A, like, definitely I don't think that should have been, like, shared publicly.
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Like, personal, like, tips or, like, whatever, that should be kept to yourself.
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And if you get bothered that people, like, comment on it, like, it was your choice to put it out there.
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But, like, aside from that, like, yeah, I do agree, like, at least he said what he wanted.
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And, like, it wasn't necessarily in, like, a mean way either.
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So, I mean, he says, I'm not the right partner for you.
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If those things bring you to a place of happiness, I support it, and there will be no hard feelings.
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These are my boundaries for a romantic partnership.
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So, he's saying, like, look, if you want to break up, basically, that's totally fine.
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Just this is what I want in a romantic relationship.
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I mean, yeah, I feel like he definitely did the best he could in that situation.
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Like, regardless of, like, whatever else we don't know about.
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Like, because that could play, like, a part in her reaction, but it's still not, like, okay to, like, put people on blast like that.
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Even if you're, like, separated or something's happened between you guys, it's not other people's business to comment on or know about.
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Why do you think she, you know, emotion over logic when, like, that's used to make a decision?
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Do you think maybe it has something to do with the fact that he just had a child and he's happy?
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It could have sparked up, like, some old, you know, like, whatever issues she had with him while she was with him.
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It could have sparked it up and made her think about it again.
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Yeah, and also, let's just, it's okay if you, you know, I suspect that most of us at this table are going to say probably shouldn't have shared it publicly.
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But you might actually think, well, maybe he was being a bit controlling or maybe he was, you know, maybe he shouldn't try to restrict what his girlfriend is posting online or, you know, who she's associating with and hanging out with.
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So, so, I don't want you to necessarily, like, just because she perhaps overstepped by sharing it publicly that she might not also be in some ways, I don't think she would necessarily be wrong for saying, well, hey, I do want to post this stuff.
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But perhaps a better way to frame this question, and we will continue going around the table, is would you object to a boyfriend or potential boyfriend wanting to restrict you from posting risque photos online,
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from associating with, like, single, your single female friends who are fucking out partying and doing drugs?
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And we don't know all the details, but, I mean, it sounded like she was associating with some scoundrels, let's just say, so.
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I mean, honestly, you can't, that part is a little bit out of pocket, I'm going to say, like, especially if, like, you met me a certain way and you wanted to be in a relationship with me,
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knowing that that's who I am, these are my friends, this is what I do, after you try to tell me, like, don't post or don't, but when you first were, like, meeting me,
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that's what you saw, and that's what you came and got in a relationship with me for, like, you can't kind of, that part's a little too much.
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So, but, you know, you have the option, like, he doesn't agree with that, that's fine, there's plenty of other people that agree with it, but, like, that's mine.
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I don't see it as, like, manipulative, or, like, anything, like, abusive like that.
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I could see how people could see it like that, because some people don't like being told what to do,
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especially when it comes to social media, because social media is a big piece of life, I guess, now.
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But, I mean, as an OnlyFans creator, yeah, it would be kind of hard for someone in a relationship with me to tell me to not post scandalous things online,
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because that's kind of my job, but, you know, there's just some things, like, hanging out with men with no boundaries is weird.
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You shouldn't do that when you're in a full committed relationship, and I'm not sure what else he, like, put up as, like, the rules.
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We can pull it back up really quick, just to give everyone a little reminder.
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So, she didn't want him to be surfing with men, boundary-less, inappropriate friendships with men,
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to model, to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit, to post sexual pictures,
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friendships with women who are in unstable places and from your wild recent past,
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beyond getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful.
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And I'm like, what is, like, something respectable?
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And, like, what fucking, like, excuse me, like, exchange little, like, notes about my recent, like, escapades, and that's it?
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Like, that's, all right, bye, like, that's it, brunch.
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He probably doesn't, he probably doesn't want his girl, like, going to the club or the bar with her, with her single female friends.
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There's a lot of people in L.A. that are, like, involved in a lot of, like, scandalous dirty stuff, doing drugs,
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and just out till, like, 5 in the morning, every night.
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God forbid a man emotionally manipulate a woman into being a good candidate to be the mother of his kids.
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But, yeah, basically, like, I could see, like, on the way over here, me and Burke were talking about how, like, as a friend,
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you should be able to point your good friends right or wrong and tell them,
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and they should be able to, like, take that as perspective.
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Because I find that a lot of the time when girls have single friends, the single friends tend to be recruiters.
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They want you to come join the single train again?
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A lot of single girls, they look at their friends, and they, no matter if they're in the wrong or the right,
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you look at your friend as, like, okay, you're hurting.
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Let's get, you know, let's turn it out of track.
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Do you think that's good advice for a girl in a relationship with a man who has an $11 million house in Malibu?
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After a certain age, you've got to, like, you kind of just fuck it.
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You've got to pick yourself up, and you've got to get your stuff together.
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Okay, so if one of your friends is in a happy relationship, and they have a fight, and she's hurting,
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As long as they weren't disrespecting you, no boundaries are overstepped.
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So you wouldn't, as the friend, tell them to come out and party with you?
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Can I have you tilt your microphone down just a little bit and get a little closer to it?
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A couple of people are saying your mic's a little low.
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But why does it matter if you, like, want to go party with your friend?
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Like, does that mean, like, directly, like, oh, we're going to go party?
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Put yourself in Jonah Hill's shoes for just a second.
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So if your girl goes out and parties in L.A. with her friends, crazy friends from her
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recent past, and she's, like, hurting, or whatever it is, I'm not sure what the situation
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was, don't you think that's pretty much, that's a pretty big red flag for Jonah Hill?
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That his hurting girlfriend is going to go out and party?
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Because you know that those single friends are in her ear, like, oh, like, it's okay.
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You can just, like, kiss that guy or dance with that guy.
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And can I ask you guys, just quickly to follow up, is it, what's more unattractive?
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A man who sets boundaries, like, I think Jonah Hill's a bit of a bitch, if I'm honest, but
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like, a man who sets boundaries, or a man who has no boundaries?
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Unattractive is someone that doesn't have boundaries, because you know that he doesn't
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have boundaries with anybody else, any other women in his life, yeah.
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Let's just continue around the table, give everybody an opportunity to weigh in on it.
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I don't think he was disrespectful when he said at all.
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He stated his boundaries, and he's very clear with it.
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I think oftentimes women are really quick to throw the word abuse out there, and maybe,
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like, in other areas of their relationship, there was, like, semi, like, there's a whole
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scale, obviously, of what can be considered abuse.
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And that screenshot specifically, though, like, he was respectful, and he just stated where
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And, I mean, if you looked at it, turned the other direction, like, and it was her sending
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the text message, she probably would have a ton of people on her side with it.
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I'm pretty sure, when I read it, considering the job that I have, I'm going to have to post
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So I'm not going to date anyone that's going to tell me that I can't.
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I do respect that that's not what you want, though.
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But he stated right there that he's happy for her, there's no hard feelings, so he did
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Cute, like, bum photos when she's surfing, you know?
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Yeah, I mean, she's taking those pictures for herself.
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She feels good in those pictures, so she should be able to post those if she wants to.
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Like, I definitely take pictures, and I'll save it for myself, but, like, I don't know.
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I feel like it is, like, getting validation from other people, or, like, most of the other
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guys, because girls, you're not really posting for other girls, like, your body.
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You're posting it because your bum looks cute, and you're surfing.
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But we all post photos just to update our lives with people around us.
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Here, we'll come to that once we let everybody answer.
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I do want to add that Jonah Hill brought this on himself, and he was making reckless
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If he saw those photos, that should have been something that was addressed before entering
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I think all of his boundaries were valid, except for she can't surf with other guys, because
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I'm pretty sure she's a professional surfer, so it's like a work thing.
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Well, I think it's like intentionally going out, like paddling out with a guy, sitting next
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I think it's like in the same way if you just went on a hangout with a male alone, it's kind
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But I mean, so you're saying that because he should have known going in that, well,
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she was already posting these kind of photos, and she was already doing this before they
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got into a relationship, that it's kind of like, well, you should just accept it now that
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He should have never gotten into it in the first place if that wasn't addressed.
00:36:27.380
I mean, it's fair, like, for example, some of you guys here do OnlyFans.
00:36:30.800
It's kind of like if you date a girl knowing up front that she does OnlyFans and then expect
00:36:37.020
her to stop doing OnlyFans, I mean, you could negotiate that, but it's like, it's going to
00:36:44.160
be a pretty tough sell, I think, unless you're prepared to like fully support the girl at
00:36:53.360
But I think what his issue was is I don't think she was like a model.
00:36:58.500
I don't think she was like making money from posting on Instagram.
00:37:04.860
And so wouldn't it be fair to say like, because I think what originally happened is he saw her
00:37:14.380
So you could argue, hey, I mean, this is what you first messaged when you saw me.
00:37:19.780
But couldn't you make the argument that like you have no problem in she was engaging in
00:37:28.620
But once they started dating, he wanted her to act in a way that he thought was consistent
00:37:42.300
Now that I'm in a relationship with you, though, I want that to stop.
00:37:46.280
Yeah, I still think it should have been a conversation way sooner, but I commend him
00:38:06.460
I think when a text message goes out like that, that looks like it was constructed in
00:38:10.520
notes for like hours and hours, the problem started a lot earlier than when it was sent.
00:38:16.300
My guess is that someone like that probably had difficulty setting boundaries in the first
00:38:21.420
And I think that we're allowed to have our preferences and boundaries and what we want
00:38:26.360
And if we see things in their behavior, if I see something in a man's behavior that I
00:38:37.220
I'm not big into like behavior control of a man that I'm with.
00:38:43.640
So that text to me seems like things got really bad.
00:38:51.820
And I'm kind of like, well, why'd you stay so long?
00:38:58.280
Yeah, I definitely think that that is a conversation that needs to happen sooner in a relationship.
00:39:02.820
I'm not too sure how long their relationship lasted, but I definitely think that it should
00:39:10.960
All of his boundaries are completely valid, especially being a, for lack of better words,
00:39:19.960
You kind of have to protect your image at some point.
00:39:22.580
And the people that you date are definitely going to be associated with you.
00:39:32.660
I feel like they should have had that conversation so much sooner.
00:39:35.700
And over text, it's just kind of weird because you're in a relationship with that person.
00:39:42.000
I feel like you shouldn't be hiding all these emotions for so long and like not addressing
00:39:52.300
Like that makes no sense if you're actually in a good relationship.
00:39:56.540
Jonah Hill's also a male feminist as well, just so we know.
00:40:00.000
So he's, he's, he obviously, he had, he had zero frame in that relationship.
00:40:07.820
And the fact that he had to say all those things means that she's already crossed all
00:40:15.720
How would, how would you introduce that earlier on?
00:40:18.740
Like, cause do you think it's maybe like, you know, second day that's like take down
00:40:30.780
He can see that she's got a nice cute bum that she posts on, on Instagram.
00:40:38.180
And what we're going to do, so that wasn't the only thing she posted.
00:40:53.020
So, uh, then she started posting a bunch of like kind of semi-related stuff.
00:40:59.380
There's something about the equality wheel, um, for domestic violence.
00:41:06.740
Um, what is she wanting to achieve by posting all of this?
00:41:09.700
She's a bitter, she's a bitter person who's lost a millionaire.
00:41:14.800
Now, if you look at the very top, look how many stories she's posted.
00:41:21.620
Like, even if it's not like, if you're posting that many stories a day, I'm sorry.
00:41:26.440
If you're posting memes and shit, that's red flag.
00:41:29.840
Um, fucking 20, 20, 30 memes a day about fucking, anyways.
00:41:36.080
We're going to go through them all really quickly.
00:41:40.700
Um, uh, okay, just like, she's posting about it.
00:41:46.660
Um, she says that, uh, it was emotional abuse, not physical.
00:42:00.120
If your partner is talking to you like this, make an exit plan.
00:42:05.420
So, I mean, this is in reference to the list or whatever.
00:42:11.700
This is, like, I don't think she has a clear, like, idea or gauge.
00:42:26.220
Also, like, one thing I'd just point out is a lot of her, and we'll see this, she's mostly
00:42:36.400
And, I don't know, anytime you're just, like, excluding your responses, like, it'd be interesting
00:42:40.880
to obviously see the full, unedited back and forth that they've had.
00:42:52.760
I, too, struggle with mental health, but I do not use it to control people.
00:42:57.180
It's been a year of healing and growth with the help of loved ones and doctors to get
00:43:01.660
back to living my life without guilt, shame, and self-judgment for things as small as surfing
00:43:07.000
Rather, this seems like a very, um, a very, I don't know what's the right word.
00:43:13.340
Like, like, soft, like, you're destroyed because he, look, even if you, even if you're of the
00:43:21.200
opinion that this is controlling behavior, it does not rise to the level of, like, abusive,
00:43:26.660
like, it might be controlling, but, like, I feel like before, because we don't know the
00:43:35.600
context, so, like, he stated those things and was like, oh, like, you need to work on
00:43:40.320
She could have been like, oh, yes, definitely, I will do that.
00:43:43.360
And then, progressively, he started to get more and more frustrated because she was promising
00:43:46.960
that she would change something and she didn't.
00:43:49.180
This is called, this is, like, her shit testing him, though.
00:43:51.920
Yeah, she'll, she'll keep pushing the boundaries, pushing the boundaries, pushing the boundaries,
00:43:55.760
and then here we are with, like, 55 different Instagram stories.
00:43:58.400
It sounds like it had something to do with, like, her upbringing, too, because if she had
00:44:01.140
that much, like, guilt and shame to work through, it's probably, and oftentimes people get into
00:44:04.560
relationships that are familiar, and familiar is, like, family, so it's, like, you get into
00:44:09.300
these unhealthy dynamics with similar things you were, um.
00:44:13.580
Yeah, a trauma bond, and so it sounds like there was maybe some deeper-rooted childhood trauma
00:44:18.440
behind some of her, I guess, feeling this way that it was abusive.
00:44:22.700
I do think, like, there is a fine line between, like, abuse in that sense, especially emotional.
00:44:27.820
Like, it's really hard to gauge that because it's very different, obviously, than physical
00:44:46.320
Um, sharing this publicly now because keeping it to myself was causing more damage to my
00:44:56.780
I find it very interesting when people need to share their personal life, especially like
00:45:04.580
And needing to play the victim and get attention.
00:45:07.940
There's no reason that she should have posted any of this on the internet.
00:45:10.840
It doesn't help anybody, and she's pretty delusional if she truly thinks that this is
00:45:17.700
As well, I have no respect for Prince Harry putting his dirty laundry out with his family.
00:45:23.680
Especially if you claim that you want privacy and don't want to be in the public eye and
00:45:27.220
then sign multiple contracts to publish your business on the internet.
00:45:32.500
Yeah, I mean, it's definitely a pretty bad look to, one, to like talk shit, publicly talk
00:45:41.920
I mean, how many like relationships are truly, I mean, some relationships will end amicably,
00:45:47.680
but I mean, there's always some, people have arguments, people have disagreements.
00:45:52.320
I mean, I'm sure like everyone here has some ex that could either, you could say maybe something
00:45:57.820
negative about, or they could say something negative about you.
00:46:00.600
Maybe even you yourself reflect back on a past dating experience and you're like, maybe
00:46:11.700
So, I mean, I think it's just like, nobody's perfect.
00:46:15.460
And to just be publicly airing this shit is, it's so, it's such, I mean, if you were like
00:46:21.240
actually like physically abused or emotionally abused, then, then, you know.
00:46:31.080
And not the same, not the right place to address this.
00:46:33.960
And yeah, like I said, none of that's going to help anybody else other than, you know,
00:46:41.120
Let's pull it back up because there's a shit ton more.
00:46:49.000
Guys, it's so like self-congratulatory, like pat myself on the back.
00:46:58.280
Teen Vogue did for me what couples therapy didn't.
00:47:01.060
My boyfriend, and this is something from Teen Vogue.
00:47:03.280
My boyfriend says the way I dress at the beach is too revealing.
00:47:05.940
He says I shouldn't wear bikinis or short shorts.
00:47:13.820
And hey, look, if that's just you want to dress how you want to dress,
00:47:17.480
if that's just non-negotiable for you and you're a woman, I think that's fine.
00:47:22.020
And I think men are justified in having their preferences and boundaries.
00:47:26.120
It just comes down to a negotiation and a conversation.
00:47:36.920
If she wanted it, she could have said, okay, those are your boundaries.
00:47:51.960
I'm curious to know how much longer, because I don't know if they,
00:47:55.300
maybe someone knows, from the point she took the screenshots of that conversation,
00:48:11.020
And I think now, years after the fact, she's...
00:48:16.900
It is very interesting that this is happening two years after their relationship ended.
00:48:23.800
I get that his girlfriend is pregnant now, but I feel like there has to be some sort of
00:48:27.280
other incentive for her to post these so long afterwards.
00:48:29.840
Well, even what she's saying and what other people are saying,
00:48:32.920
and I don't know if we have the screenshots of this,
00:48:34.940
she's saying that, well, sometimes you don't realize you were traumatized until years later.
00:48:40.760
And, you know, sometimes you have to work through, you know,
00:48:45.400
to really know that something happened in the past that was wrong.
00:48:52.800
But if you don't work through it and post it on social media, go to therapy.
00:49:09.060
Even the person I loved and shared a bed with uses me and can't just be like,
00:49:20.640
I'm assuming that's a text message he sent to her.
00:49:29.800
The right boundaries in the right places don't limit.
00:49:35.800
As you heal, you'll stop trying to force people to see you in ways they're unwilling to.
00:49:40.160
You'll remember more often that choosing yourself is sacred,
00:50:16.640
So Jonah, I don't think Jonah Hill was 100% perfect here.
00:50:19.260
He was sending her, like, walls of text, which maybe came across,
00:50:29.620
You know, sending, like I said, sending these long walls of text.
00:50:33.920
But, I mean, she's being pretty crazy and opportunistic with the victim card.
00:50:38.240
It's so weird that it's texts, though, don't you think?
00:50:40.440
Like, that is an absolute face-to-face conversation every day of the week.
00:50:51.340
If you're dating, I feel like you, this is a conversation you could absolutely have in person,
00:51:02.420
I want my baby back, baby back, baby back, baby back, baby back.
00:51:06.760
I want my baby back, baby back, baby back, baby back.
00:51:13.760
Gorlock the Destroyer, thank you very much for your TTS.
00:51:23.720
I mean, I feel like that's kind of red flag right there, also, that he didn't have,
00:51:30.940
I'm not too educated on Jonah Hill and his, you know, his beliefs and his career,
00:51:37.680
But, yeah, it seems like that there, you know, nobody was perfect in that relationship.
00:51:42.760
I can say, I think, I could understand why, like, like, obviously I think it's definitely
00:51:46.960
better to handle things, if not face-to-face, like, at least over a phone call.
00:51:51.020
But I understand, like, if things had gotten as toxic as they did, why maybe it came to
00:51:58.420
Any man who is self-respecting would see that situation and be like, I'll talk to you when
00:52:03.820
I don't know how you guys could ever respect a man who would send those little quid, like...
00:52:11.980
I guess more so it depends on who initiated over text message, because a lot of the time
00:52:15.800
I think women would be more inclined to initiate over text.
00:52:18.240
Yeah, and then she just pushes him and he's just...
00:52:27.880
This is, like, probably the best way he thought or was taught by that therapist to explain
00:52:39.540
Like, don't you kind of get the gist of, like, how...
00:52:43.260
I think he definitely should have taken more of initiative in the beginning of the relationship
00:52:49.420
But I could understand why after it gets to that point where he, like, hadn't had that
00:52:53.560
voice for so long, why he was doing it the way he did.
00:52:56.860
But I agree he should have kind of taken it from the beginning.
00:53:08.600
Basically, we don't have to go back, but the previous one, he was being...
00:53:13.860
Actually, if you can go back one, Nick, you'll have to go...
00:53:21.320
And, guys, we have some spicy stuff coming up after this Jonah reaction.
00:53:32.480
So, he's being, like, literally just say hello and leave the convo.
00:53:43.700
Don't you reckon he sounds like Jonah Hill from Superbad?
00:53:48.220
That's something that I would expect his Superbad character of.
00:53:50.680
But, like, this is the problem with guys who get really rich and famous and they're still dorks.
00:53:54.840
Is the fact that, like, you know, he clearly can't hold that frame and he can't have that conversation.
00:53:59.780
Because, yeah, he still thinks that he's fat Jonah Hill from pre-Superbad, you know?
00:54:32.980
Well, even on that last text that she sent, she's manipulating him by saying, like...
00:54:39.700
It's like, I'm not good enough for you and I know, like, blah, blah, blah.
00:54:43.920
And also, she left out because she said, I'm sorry I said that.
00:54:49.480
Yeah, she said she's drunk, so she took the step to say stuff she shouldn't.
00:54:52.700
And another thing she kept on saying was that, like, oh, it's because I'm socially, like...
00:54:59.480
She's got this victim mindset of, like, I'm just the victim and, like, then pushing the manipulation back on him.
00:55:06.060
If someone ever says, I'm not good enough for you, leave.
00:55:09.420
They are obviously telling you something that you don't know yet and obviously they know.
00:55:25.280
It's a difference between guys and girls when it comes to simping.
00:55:33.100
If a girl dotes on you and says, you know, oh, like, I'm not good enough for you.
00:55:38.900
But if I say that to you, it'll be the biggest kick.
00:55:48.720
There's certain things that you girls live for, certain moments.
00:55:51.080
And the moments we live for is when you come up and just say, I love you.
00:55:56.180
But I feel like if they say that they don't feel like they're good enough for you, I feel
00:56:01.280
like if they say that they don't feel like they're good enough for you, that means they're
00:56:04.520
struggling with that a little bit on their own.
00:56:06.740
And so they don't feel good in that relationship.
00:56:10.940
I think that you should feel like comfortable with your partner, not like you're inferior
00:56:16.220
No, I think that the girl always has to love the guy a little bit more than the guy loves
00:56:20.700
So if she feels like she's kind of chasing him, she feels like he's the absolute best
00:56:24.260
she can get, then she's not going to leave him.
00:56:26.760
But if she feels like she's above him, then she'll leave his ass.
00:56:31.060
I just don't feel like she should feel like she's lesser than him or like she's not good
00:56:36.220
I feel like she shouldn't feel like she's not good enough.
00:56:42.240
So women are hypergamous daters, which means that they like to date across and up socioeconomic
00:56:49.380
Like, I'd be happy to date a girl who works at KFC.
00:56:56.680
If I worked at KFC, you guys wouldn't look twice at me.
00:57:04.440
You guys say that, but I feel like there's a double standard for that, for sure.
00:57:09.260
Like that people, you'll say that you'll date someone that works, like a man that works
00:57:14.860
at KFC, but when you're in that situation, would you really?
00:57:23.500
Any girls here who would date a fast food worker?
00:57:42.140
Let's do a tier list of the respective fast food restaurants, because not all are, you
00:57:47.680
know, like Chick-fil-A is pretty up there, I'd say.
00:57:49.500
And then, like, if McDon't, like, KFC is pretty shit.
00:57:52.600
But, like, I feel like Chick-fil-A is more respectful.
00:57:57.500
In-N-Out's like, probably top of the food chain.
00:58:02.940
No, but the fact of the matter is that the generalities don't really make the rule.
00:58:07.280
But the fact of the matter is that women tend to date up the socioeconomic hierarchy.
00:58:11.320
So we want you guys to be looking up at us and saying, oh, my God, you are the best thing
00:58:17.360
I wouldn't stay with a man if I didn't feel that way.
00:58:21.240
I just don't feel like you should always be in a state where you feel like you don't deserve
00:58:26.020
Because that's just, it just, it's not a good way to feel.
00:58:29.140
I think maybe feeling, or feeling deserved is probably the wrong way to put it.
00:58:34.340
There's also, like, a psychological component to it.
00:58:36.720
In every relationship, there's somebody that loves the other person more than, you know,
00:58:42.360
Deserved isn't the quite, isn't quite the right way to put it.
00:58:45.380
But, like, if you're looking up and you feel like they're the best you can get, that's
00:58:49.820
If you just feel like you're really lucky to have them.
00:58:52.960
Yeah, no, I think they should definitely admire you.
00:58:55.220
If I'm looking at my girl, I'm like, oh, my God, like, I'm so lucky to have you.
00:59:06.060
Would you date a guy who had, who worked at KFC with some hobbies or who liked to go rock
00:59:10.860
If I, I could be an OnlyFans creator and also work at, like, fucking Subway, 7-Eleven,
00:59:17.380
Walgreens, 99s or Target, all of these places, in and out, they have insurance, they have
00:59:21.440
So you're saying that he's, works at KFC, but he's fucking loaded because he has another
00:59:31.720
Are you saying that if you were on a comparable level to the guy, like, if you were, like,
00:59:36.020
making shit money on OnlyFans and you also had a fast food job, then you would date a
00:59:43.860
I'm saying, like, okay, if he only worked at KFC and didn't do anything else, if he
00:59:48.120
didn't do anything else besides work at KFC, no.
00:59:51.440
Yeah, but what Brian's saying is, though, like, if you're earning high amounts of money
00:59:55.380
and then you're dating a guy who's earning minimum wage, then you're not going to put
01:00:00.080
But if you're just struggling away, posting your booty on OnlyFans and you're only making
01:00:03.520
like $10 a day, then he's, like, on your level, you know?
01:00:06.940
Yeah, I wouldn't be doing OnlyFans if that was it.
01:00:09.200
Speaking of which, we do have a couple girls here at the table who do OnlyFans and some of
01:00:16.100
So I'm curious, maybe we can go around the table.
01:00:19.180
What's, uh, I need an exact dollar figure, exactly how much you guys make per year.
01:00:34.080
How much do you make on OF or just in general, I guess, because maybe you do Bitcoin and shit,
01:00:43.440
Like, as OnlyFans creators, you don't have, like, a certain amount of money that you make
01:00:48.520
Well, let's just, how much do you make in a year?
01:00:59.200
There could be, like, a good month and a bad month.
01:01:11.600
You can, I mean, if you want to break it down to a month, but you could say, I made 300k
01:01:18.560
On a good month, I'd probably say maybe, like, 5 to 6k.
01:01:28.040
Have you, have you had, you've had a five-figure month, I'm assuming.
01:01:39.260
Has any of the girls here who do OF or any of you, anyone else, made over six figures in
01:02:15.020
I have a couple troll photos of Kiki over there, and that's it.
01:02:23.360
She's gonna, like, leak some ticks in a few years.
01:02:32.300
But just curious, how much do the non-OF girls make?
01:02:40.920
So I have been going to cosmetology school, but I took, I'm on a leave right now for the
01:03:11.800
Like, I'm still Christian, but I do follow, like, teachings of, like, other religions.
01:03:15.700
Like, my view as far as religious stance goes, like, I'm definitely one of those where
01:03:26.080
Honestly, no, I think it is that, like, there's, like, a lot of truth.
01:03:29.060
I think it's a lot of lies, a little bit of truth, and it's putting the puzzle pieces
01:03:31.880
together of things, so I don't necessarily throw myself in a box anymore where I'm out
01:03:41.460
I just didn't want to go to a four-year college, so I...
01:03:49.280
I at least thought, like, okay, worst-case scenario, like, let's say the world goes to shit.
01:03:56.140
Like, everyone's always going to need to get haircuts.
01:03:57.540
Wait, if the world goes to shit, you're going to be at...
01:04:04.320
If I'm with a girl in a zombie apocalypse, we're both buzzing our hair.
01:04:16.540
Bro, at least it'll look nice when you're killing zombies.
01:04:21.160
There is no makeup in the zombie apocalypse, okay?
01:04:24.320
I know, but honestly, that's why, like, I don't exactly know if I'm going to actually
01:04:29.140
I just thought it's kind of a place to start rather than, like, getting out of high school
01:04:41.920
Everyone there's very, like, up on their looks and, like, everyone's blonde.
01:04:45.820
And, like, I definitely was more down-to-earth out there.
01:04:50.440
Which is why I, like, need to take a break for a little while from it, too.
01:04:52.640
It's because, like, I'm not super into, like, making sure you always, you know, like, look
01:04:58.040
presentable, but you don't have to be super done up.
01:05:02.960
I'm still navigating what I'm going to end up doing.
01:05:22.500
I don't pull a traditional salary because I don't have a traditional job.
01:05:32.740
But I'll go with a salary of zero dollars since I'm starting a business and I have made zero dollars.
01:05:46.320
I'm a full-time student but have multiple sources of income.
01:06:02.200
Like, you're the guy who you're eventually going to marry.
01:06:05.440
How much money would you like him to be earning, say, when he turns?
01:06:09.940
I mean, we have a variety of ages here in this group.
01:06:13.600
But say when he's 30, 35, 40, in that age range.
01:06:18.900
How much would you like your future partner husband to be making?
01:06:30.700
Your future partner, how much do you think he's going to be earning?
01:06:53.220
Well, I was saying that I wouldn't necessarily date that.
01:06:55.240
I just want someone that has drive in their life.
01:06:58.560
And that is able to kind of let me be able to travel with them.
01:07:03.480
And, like, you can kind of spoil me in a sense.
01:07:14.300
I just want someone that has, like, drive and they are...
01:07:19.340
I don't have, like, a certain number, honestly.
01:07:21.860
Someone could come to me and they would be like,
01:07:24.420
Oh, I only make, like, 40K a year or something.
01:07:32.780
I think 45K is the average, the median average salary for men in the U.S.
01:07:42.620
I'm not trying to shit on anybody in the chat that makes that much or less.
01:07:45.660
But living in California, if you want to live in, like, a major city, you're probably going
01:07:51.280
to have to, you know, if you want a certain lifestyle, if you want to travel, for example,
01:07:56.840
If you want to, you know, afford a certain size house that has bedrooms for...
01:08:06.200
Like, I'm open to it, but I haven't met a person that I would...
01:08:11.560
Like, I want to meet someone that I'm like, oh, my God, I want to have your babies.
01:08:16.940
You know, you have to look, okay, well, what city do I want to live in?
01:08:25.560
Do you want the kids to have their own separate bedrooms?
01:08:28.400
Do you want to travel two or three times a year?
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Or, you know, there's a bunch of other factors that you have to, you know...
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Do you want kind of like a mid-tier, low-tier, or, like, maybe a bit more luxury?
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The cars you have, do you want one car, two cars?
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And international travel versus domestic, you know, so all these are a factor.
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So we can say that money doesn't matter, but if you do want to, for example, have kids,
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it's, you know, your partner's income is going to be, is going to have to be a factor in,
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Correct, but I'm, I'm more so attracted to, like, not even, like, a number.
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Like, I am more attracted to someone that has the drive in their life to, like, want to make that money.
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Like, if they are making 40K, but they have, like, business ideas that they're putting a promotion,
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I do see what you're saying, because women do tend to invest in men.
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They'll, like, they'll see someone with potential, and they'll see a potential winner,
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and they'll invest, my mom is hilarious like that.
01:09:29.540
She was, she was single at, like, 50, and she saw a guy who earned good money,
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not so, not so attractive in terms of what he had going on.
01:09:36.240
She took him, she goes, grow out the facial hair, we'll get you a new wardrobe, this, that,
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and now he walks around like an absolute don, and she's invested in that guy,
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Like, my mom, my dad wasn't making, like, a ton of money,
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but then they started dating, and she saw that he had this drive,
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and he's, like, doing very well for himself, he's doing amazing,
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and that's, like, something that I would want, like, honestly in life,
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I think some women move like that, but there's also, I think, just as many women.
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in that I think a lot of women wait at the finish line.
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So I think when, I don't think you're wrong for saying,
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and there's definitely a lot of women who do care about ambition,
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women are not so concerned with a man's ambition
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that want to fucking be SoundCloud rappers and shit
01:10:49.080
who have already reaped the benefits of said ambition.
01:10:54.920
and you see a guy who's, like, studying or whatever,
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and you know that he's going to be rich one day,
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And a lot of people who have ambition don't make it.
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Like, not everybody is going to make it, you know?
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like, realistic, everyday, like, type of thing, maybe.
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Let's continue on a little more with the Jonah Hill stuff,
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and I'm telling you I'm needing you to step up to the plate,
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but these losers don't get your time if you want me.
01:12:13.680
and your love of surfing and being in those situations
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and lack of awareness are not mutually exclusive.
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Okay, so I guess she was 25 when they were dating,
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These people don't get your time or your kindness
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but it sounds like she's hanging out with some dudes
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so you have to meet every single person I encounter,
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and they're automatically going to get an off vibe.
01:13:19.480
I'm sure you guys have met your partner's friends,
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and there are one or two people that you're like,
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It depends what they're doing around them as well.
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our other partners should be given the room to like,
01:13:49.640
they should be able to be around certain behaviors,
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and I think that if you're surrounding yourself with people that have horrible behaviors and patterns,
01:14:13.200
if you hang out with people that smoke all the time.
01:14:16.940
you are going to pick up a cigarette and smoke it with them.
01:14:23.480
you gotta put in an accountability of your own,
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if she's hanging out with these lowlifes constantly,
01:14:32.920
she's gonna be reflecting those behaviors that they're,
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Do you mind if we go around on the question I said before?
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he doesn't have boundaries with other people in his life,
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and like help you not hang out with people that are doing drugs,
01:15:26.660
Can you think of a situation where somebody's ever had
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and then he's like texting you every half an hour,
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like I don't view it as a way of like him being like,
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there's a fine line between really strict boundaries,
01:16:29.580
or you can't be that upset at the end of the day,
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I don't think you should discuss anything super important over text,
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just because like you can't see what they're trying to express.
01:16:43.580
and maybe that's what was happening with that whole scandal.
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you're self-aware enough to have set those boundaries,
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or at least thought that they were healthy to do that.
01:17:15.140
I think that he seems like he just figured that out.
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if the strict boundaries were you can't post on social media,
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Instagram is the biggest dating app in the world.
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You're still advertising yourself as single on Instagram.
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with the idea of you putting yourself out there
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for other men to kind of have access to in that way.
01:19:26.060
the attention or other people can't steal that.
02:32:54.800
it's a good question because there are different waves of like whatever makes you a feminist well
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i mean originally feminism what they said it was but there was different strains at that time as
02:33:09.340
well was that it was they wanted equality so they wanted the right to vote they wanted the right to
02:33:14.520
be able to you know do what do yeah education do what men could do be able to open bank accounts
02:33:19.560
be able to own property which they could do but not as much when you say they you mean women yeah
02:33:24.740
yes yes um i wouldn't call myself a feminist but i have heard that like feminism means like
02:33:31.520
equality not just for women but for everyone everyone should no feminism is about women it's
02:33:36.900
a women's movement but like this is the thing a lot of these times these days a lot of these
02:33:42.180
different movements get sort of intertwined like the trans and the black lives matter and the
02:33:46.040
feminists but and then you've got your second wave feminist which is like we can do anything a man
02:33:50.280
can do and then you get your third wave feminist which is like we hate men so there's different
02:33:55.060
sort of lines of feminism once upon a time i would have been a feminist yeah i mean i wouldn't yeah
02:34:01.540
yeah hating on any there's also the new person is like not there's like the new bimbo feminists
02:34:09.300
oh my gosh what is that yeah can you explain that i'm not educated like um a lot of women right now
02:34:15.860
are trying on tiktok especially yeah oh go ahead um they're trying to act like they are smart women but
02:34:23.180
they're trying to act stupid on purpose because they like i to as empowerment like sexual empowerment
02:34:29.620
so um they're sort of yeah sort of reversing it so it'll be women who often have like bleach blonde
02:34:39.140
hair um really big breasts wearing pink like barbie over the top spray tan and they proudly say that
02:34:48.120
they're they're bimbos or you're bimboizing yourself or bimboization um and it's and they're feminists
02:34:56.960
and it's called bimbo they're bimbo feminists but this is supposed to be like a positive thing yeah
02:35:01.920
they're saying it's empowering okay because guys just want them so much basically we have a very
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based panel tonight so i guess the question here would be what what like turns you off from
02:35:13.460
feminism if you guys could give like a what turns you off from feminism um yeah so i think that
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feminism now this like second third and maybe fourth wave feminism i don't know what wave we're on
02:35:24.140
currently but there's a there's a fourth i've heard okay um the future is female this narrative
02:35:29.740
yes if the future is female there is no future i agree um it's all about demasculating men
02:35:37.980
i believe um and i think it's resulted in the uh destruction of the nuclear family and that's why
02:35:44.560
nobody wants to get married less people are having kids um but to say that women don't need men i think
02:35:50.960
is a very horrible statement i think men and women complement each other and they both need each other
02:35:56.700
and we're completely different for positive and amazing reasons so i agree that's very very based
02:36:04.580
and you know i think you're right about that what do you think um i think that what turns me off about
02:36:11.860
that and like a lot of movements nowadays is that people aren't really fighting for equality they're
02:36:16.140
fighting to be more seen or like better than everyone else i think everyone if you're fighting for
02:36:21.400
equality you're not going to try and like have like oh make yourself more than exactly yeah
02:36:27.120
yeah um the future is female i think it's more i mean it's male and female i um i love men i think men
02:36:36.460
are great um and i think that we are interdependent and um i know i depend on a lot of different men
02:36:46.080
in my life for many different things um and that's a blessing to me i i do believe in the equal
02:36:55.560
treatment of people because i feel like um human persons all have equal dignity no matter who they
02:37:00.720
are or how they identify but i do hesitate to use the label feminist because of um what is attached
02:37:07.960
to it and the confusion around it and so i just steer clear of it such a base panel so much femininity in
02:37:15.060
the room my testosterone is going to spark yeah can we argue about something i feel like it's just
02:37:20.740
too it's too agreeable does anybody have does anybody have any hot takes that they want to throw out
02:37:27.940
there on feminism no just in general you know can i ask the panel would you would you this is going
02:37:35.660
to be the most milk toast question after my statement go ahead milk toast like vanilla just go ahead go
02:37:42.420
would you oh saved by the bell oh sorry curtis i'm gonna re-trigger it here hold on ask your
02:37:50.260
question would you ladies date a man who made less than you maybe even you made double than what he did
02:37:59.100
the tts is about to come in but um no no i would say i already have like a couple no no would you
02:38:08.780
oh okay we'll go around the table on this we'll start with burke so the question is would you date
02:38:12.500
a guy who makes less than you yeah oh okay hold on we'll get to it yo thank you curtis you guys aren't
02:38:21.360
getting off that easy the female prison guard is hulk hogan born with a and no conjugal visits
02:38:27.660
she threatens to throw you to the wolves if you don't you are on suicide watch so don't even try to
02:38:34.540
use that i will pray for you so this is for us i think uh curtis so the female guard prisoner
02:38:42.380
is hulk hogan with a you know what with a dick i guess we need to say that um that's not that's not
02:38:48.400
a female brother yeah that's not a female yeah what what is the uh what is the blanked out with a
02:38:55.540
huh what martin donated 100 thank you burke a few pre-flight logistics you appear to be five
02:39:05.420
foot seven inches and 124 pounds need to verify these stats as i'm six foot two inches 210 pounds
02:39:14.920
need to ensure that when i throw you up in the air and catch you with my tongue that we both avoid
02:39:20.420
injury okay your response burke um i am five six 115 pounds so i think that sounds perfect
02:39:29.120
okay spicy uh so to go back to curtis um curtis can you just clarify what is the blanked out
02:39:38.840
hulk hogan born with a how many stars is it it's six stars what is what what is would be censored
02:39:47.080
that's six hulk hogan born with a vagina maybe there you go with a vagine wait no that's five
02:39:52.480
characters six vagine vagina oh okay that's what it's called yeah okay hulk hogan born with a
02:40:01.800
vagina um if it's not hulk hogan then you know it's nothing so is it an innie or an out
02:40:06.940
if you're in for life and you don't get conjugal visits then hulk it is man's gotta eat
02:40:14.200
facts it's a pretty bad situation it's a pretty bad situation um not ideal but
02:40:28.200
pussy's pussy you know you know what i'm saying okay i guess just close your eyes
02:40:35.140
it'll be fine all right brother what does he say hail yeah brother yeah brother just don't
02:40:43.140
slick bit of duct tape on that close your eyes that's a pretty shitty situation i mean but uh
02:40:49.100
curtis thank you for that um so your question was to the panel uh would you date a guy who
02:40:54.100
makes less than you so we'll go around the table on this go ahead so like i said earlier um at my age
02:41:01.480
26 obviously if i was like way older i would want the man to be making a nice amount of money to
02:41:07.200
provide for me and our future family whatever um but as i was saying earlier um i find it very very
02:41:14.020
attractive when they have the drive to make that money and i i know like not everyone succeeds but
02:41:20.620
it's just like it's so attractive to me like with someone that has that what age group do you are you
02:41:26.380
talking about what age group do you look for in a man um i don't have like a specific age group
02:41:31.820
honestly but like but i don't i don't necessarily like saying that i am attracted to someone that
02:41:40.920
makes a certain amount of money because like if you had to give an average of the last three guys
02:41:44.660
you've been seeing what's the average age do you think like in their like 20s like like uh middle
02:41:53.980
north north yeah yeah so like my age um i was how old are you someone that was 30 i'm 26 26 so a guy
02:42:02.800
about 30 if he's 30 and he's got the drive but he doesn't have those benjamins is that is that
02:42:09.940
acceptable or is that unacceptable because you have to understand it is tough out here yeah like
02:42:16.920
when you walk when you walk around la and you i don't understand how people like live in los
02:42:22.380
angeles and just make a normal wage oh for sure yeah like it's it's so expensive and like life is
02:42:28.340
only getting more expensive inflation is only getting worse i don't know if you guys have noticed but
02:42:31.860
over the last 20 15 years or whatever it's only getting worse people used to be able to buy a house
02:42:37.160
off of a one person salary so like it's all well and good to say like drive but but life is going
02:42:43.800
to be fucking miserable if you don't have money i agree and you look like a girl who likes the finer
02:42:48.720
things might i add i do i do like to be spoiled well then drive won't spoil you number that so i would
02:42:55.900
prefer for the man to be making more money but like if i met someone that was making less than me
02:43:01.300
and he made me happy and like could provide me with things and like
02:43:04.840
i get what you're saying chemistry is there i think i think this is another product of why
02:43:09.880
feminism ruins everything because i think that like feminism also is like like says that like
02:43:16.040
gold diggers women like women who want to sort of just marry a man for his resources and i don't
02:43:21.380
think that there's anything wrong with that like women have also women have always since the beginning
02:43:25.820
of time looked for security and look for a man with resources and then men have always looked for
02:43:30.620
youth beauty and fertility since the absolute beginning of time but now i feel like women are
02:43:35.420
so afraid to just say yeah i like i want a guy who has resources and who can look after me i don't
02:43:39.840
think there's anything wrong with that but like it's such people like women are so hesitant to say
02:43:43.480
that yeah i mean i would love to be taken care of and like protected but i'm also i can also take
02:43:48.320
care of myself too so if i found someone that was like that genuinely made me happy and like we can do
02:43:53.800
things together that i'm passionate about that he's passionate about like i'm i wouldn't like
02:43:58.920
push him away because he doesn't make that money so it's not the be all and end all but if the other
02:44:03.140
ducks were to align you'd you'd you'd look at it but like yeah like i would prefer for a man to take
02:44:08.420
care of you could conceptually yeah not not have a man who makes a lot of money okay let's allow the
02:44:13.900
rest of the panel to answer what about you i mean i i i like i'm pretty sure i'm on the same page as
02:44:21.180
as burke about that like it's not it's not gonna like deter me from like talking to you or dating
02:44:27.680
your owner i've had experiences in my own past where i like i have i've been definitely pulling in
02:44:35.600
everything and it didn't didn't make him look any less like worse in my eyes but at the same time
02:44:44.140
like yeah i would prefer i would prefer more but i'm not gonna not give someone a chance like due to
02:44:52.900
that either because you know everybody has their time or like i might be down at some point and want
02:44:59.660
you to pull up and and put in the work where i did before whatever what about you um no i want them
02:45:08.800
to make more money than me um realistically the relationships i've been in maybe like let's count
02:45:13.940
the last past three um i've been the breadwinner and they hate it every single time it makes them feel
02:45:21.160
like not as manly and you know as much as guys are probably gonna hate that being like oh yeah she
02:45:28.040
wants to god she's a gold digger you know but like realistically like you know when i'm older i
02:45:33.060
want to invest in money i want to own my own store and i don't want to be doing only fans anymore so i
02:45:38.540
would like my man to take care of me and you know insurance make sure you're stable enough to take care
02:45:43.720
of the kids and you know the house and you know i'm gonna get my bread on the side with my store and
02:45:48.880
you're gonna get your bread with however you're making your money do you think that the um only fans
02:45:53.380
is hindering your ability to be able to do that a thousand percent yeah it's hard to be in a
02:45:57.760
relationship as a contact what's your what's your thought process on the trade-off that you've done
02:46:01.780
there so you've done a trade-off where you've traded your market value by putting your body on the
02:46:07.480
internet so what's the thought process in terms of making that trade-off because it seems like a
02:46:11.740
significant trade-off to make you're dating market value um well if that is what you want in the
02:46:18.180
future a man to look after you i mean realistically most men don't like only fans girls they don't
02:46:24.640
like you know their women being putting their body out so so with with your knowledge of that so you
02:46:29.920
understand that concept which is good but what why do you do it then why do you do only fans if if
02:46:35.400
you're sacrificing your your future um prospects because it's not necessarily what i do for money or
02:46:44.180
what i do as my job right now doesn't necessarily make me as a person that's whole like i'm not just
02:46:49.720
an only fans girl i'm not just mistress mandy i'm amanda and you know me that's how i am i'm not you
02:46:57.520
know full sex worker all the time you know if it's a client then it's kind of i'm work duty yeah but
02:47:02.060
you know i've got no like judgment whatsoever because like i said it is hard out here people
02:47:07.440
need to do what they need to do these days to be able to get by and make money but it's not just i'm
02:47:11.200
not doing it just to get by i chose to do this i wasn't pressured i wasn't and that's what i'm
02:47:15.620
asking is like you you chose to do this because and do you think what i'm asking is do you think it's
02:47:20.600
worth it for your future prospects and the fact that you that you could like it could be a repulsive
02:47:25.900
thing for somebody who potentially would would look at you as a partner long term but now it doesn't
02:47:31.180
because you do only fans that doesn't bother you that's a personal problem honestly i feel like
02:47:35.980
um i've had partners who have accepted it and they were fine with what i do um it just didn't
02:47:40.860
work out and then i have some partners where i wanted to be with them but they didn't want to be
02:47:45.260
with me because of i what i did but like i said it's just a personal personal preference um no judgment
02:47:51.520
no harsh feelings but my person will accept me for whatever i do however i am how do you how do you
02:47:58.960
frame it so if you're in a relationship and say you start seeing somebody because as guys this is this
02:48:04.080
is not a trivial thing to have your like girl have her body on the internet it's not a trivial
02:48:08.700
thing it's not an everyday thing whatsoever um so how do you frame it like when you guys have that
02:48:13.000
initial conversation if you're seeing each other well most of the time people have my instagram so
02:48:17.200
they automatically see the link in my bio yeah okay but uh you know um i do have that conversation
02:48:23.140
first hand before i even get into anything with the person i make sure hey you know i am a full send
02:48:28.240
creator on only fans i hope you know that i'm not gonna stop that um i'm not gonna you know just
02:48:34.680
drop my instagram you said before that you you find men with boundaries more attractive right
02:48:39.840
don't you think that would be a boundary for a man that you might find attractive yeah i've had
02:48:44.020
uh relationships in the past who weren't okay after knowing that i did have it and i completely was
02:48:50.700
like you know what respectable and i stopped doing only fans completely and then they fucked me over
02:48:55.480
so i started my shit again right let's continue moving along with this question and if we can try
02:49:00.980
to get this everyone's answer without constant uh you know go ahead um no i would not date a man
02:49:08.860
that makes less than me i mean even so like part of the reason that i decided to take my career like
02:49:14.060
toward cosmetology and hair was knowing that that's something that i if i want to can go fall back
02:49:19.220
on but the plan is honestly to have a family and be able to be at home with the kids and and take care of
02:49:24.900
things there i think like i said like naturally men men are the providers and um women are more
02:49:31.260
nurturing and i mean it's just kind of biology when it comes down to it um i would not date someone who
02:49:38.640
makes less money than me just i really enjoy the drive and i like to be with someone who has ambition
02:49:44.200
and pushes me to want to work for more so that's kind of just what i go after is someone with the hard
02:49:49.560
work ethic um and i know that everyone's saying like yeah people some people fail but it's the
02:49:55.780
part of getting back up and keeping on trying and keeping on going for that goal that's super attractive
02:50:01.040
to me i'm really shocked by everyone's answers um i think i would date a man who makes less than me
02:50:07.600
i think i'm probably gonna have to date a man that makes less than me because i'm gonna be
02:50:11.760
making a good amount of money um yeah well hold on expand on that a little bit you're gonna you're
02:50:18.000
gonna be making a lot of money what what do you mean doing what because right now pilot oh as a
02:50:23.140
pilot yeah how much do pilots make um you start off at about 90k and then in the middle of it about
02:50:31.120
250 towards the end of your career are you talking commercial pilot commercial yeah like flying flights
02:50:36.880
and yeah okay yeah so like if we're talking the big three which is the only thing i'm gonna i'm
02:50:43.420
gonna go what's the big three uh delta american united okay yeah about like hawaiian airlines
02:50:49.840
hawaiian airlines you're still making six figures yeah well you said by the end of the career you're
02:50:55.320
making 250k no that's like middle of career mid-career but so by the time what you're 45
02:51:01.500
40 you're gonna be making i'd say like 35 35 pilots are making 250k i mean if you get into it
02:51:09.700
young i'm young i'm gonna be in the airline and i'm gonna be flying airline in like two years have
02:51:14.840
you you're flying planes now i do fly planes now as a student like charter planes sort of thing you're
02:51:19.960
24 correct i'm 24 yeah okay so in okay is that true chat is that true the pilots make
02:51:30.100
at by 35 they make 250k but look at how much debt then is there in time spent for schooling
02:51:38.020
is that true chat what's the average like average commercial pilots uh income am i so while people
02:51:48.040
are um like getting their mile their their flight miles for especially their commercial pilot's
02:51:53.820
license you're actually teaching a lot as well yeah so it's sometimes it pays for itself yeah the
02:52:01.440
smallest the smallest dinkiest starter airlines are hiring brand new fresh out of school 90 000
02:52:07.780
dollars for pilots to be a pilot all right well even okay let's let's assume it's true right
02:52:13.080
um so you want to be a pilot okay there's there's a lot there so but you said you're you are willing
02:52:20.400
to date a guy who makes less than you and you you think frankly it's going to be difficult for you to
02:52:24.860
find a guy who's going to make as much as you will make is that correct yeah and i think the guys i think
02:52:30.460
you become a slave to money once you start making too much and so i think it's hard to find a wealthy
02:52:35.480
person who has strong morals and values i'd be willing to take the pay cut for someone who shares my
02:52:41.540
morals and values you think wealthy people have less morals and values i've seen it comparatively
02:52:47.100
to people who aren't wealthy i've i've seen their values be put in the wrong places and like i said
02:52:52.360
i think you become a slave to money as a general rule though you think that people who have resources
02:52:56.700
are have less morals generally sounds like the lib hasn't quite died in you i i've been i've been around
02:53:04.620
that community i've seen it firsthand it's not a blanket statement it's just very you see you see i find
02:53:09.760
that in order to get to the top there's a there's a misconception that you have to stand on people's
02:53:13.540
heads and that does happen obviously but in order to get to the top you also have to provide value
02:53:17.540
and you have to you have to solve problems and you have to hire people and you have to know how to
02:53:21.480
manage relationships and you have to know how to bring value in many different ways
02:53:26.560
yeah that's fair i don't think stepping on people to get to the top is the bad thing that's just
02:53:31.900
that's just the industry but i see people care more about cars purses materialistic things
02:53:38.920
and they're so focused on these materialistic things and not focused on their families spending
02:53:44.380
time with their families like they take so much time to work that they neglect their wives they
02:53:48.940
neglect their children and that's what i'm afraid of so you think people who are more wealthy and have
02:53:52.660
more resources tend to have less time so less time for their families yeah because once you start
02:53:57.420
making a ton of money you just can't stop you always want more like so yeah but also people who are
02:54:02.240
struggling for money are working a lot of jobs and usually both of the people in the household
02:54:07.660
and the time is very slim with the family and that's what they have to do i don't know that
02:54:12.760
it's necessarily um matters how much money you make the other thing is is just because someone
02:54:19.120
can't afford nice things doesn't mean that they aren't constantly focused on it and it doesn't
02:54:23.820
mean that they have if they are given the money that their mindset is like that as well so i think money
02:54:31.080
money can inflate that and show that but i think it would be unfair to say that people who are well
02:54:38.280
off or have money um have poor values or especially morals well in any case disregarding whether people
02:54:46.740
who are wealthy or not wealthy you know not as not making a conversation about assessing their moral
02:54:54.340
moral character um so you want to be a pilot uh and you anticipate you will end up making more than
02:55:01.640
your partner yeah i hope not but that might be a reality it may very well be the case um my bigger
02:55:09.560
question with you being a pilot is i mean i know you talked about most of the people that you've dated
02:55:15.540
uh you fly to them uh do you think it makes for a stable relationship to be constantly gone from
02:55:24.140
your significant other because as a pilot you i assume you would be in a different city what
02:55:31.900
two-thirds of the year oh you can very easily manage it um i actually dated a pilot and he would just
02:55:39.680
could do one international trip a week and so he was just gone for two days out of the week and home
02:55:45.160
five days out of the week red flag i think well okay so for example i i've said this before i think
02:55:52.000
for example a flight attendant is a red flag in terms of like a career that a potential partner
02:55:57.860
i feel like i've pretty much reduced my options down to like two percent of women with all the red flags
02:56:03.440
i'm aware of but as a as a flight attendant or as a pilot you're constantly and i know you said
02:56:10.540
perhaps not for in your case but you're always in a new city so like for me if i was to date a flight
02:56:16.900
attendant well i just wouldn't want to because i i just feel like there's such an opportunity for
02:56:22.680
infidelity under those circumstances maybe that's me being like insecure or whatever but it's like
02:56:28.980
even even if we're in a committed relationship and there's not an opportunity for infidelity
02:56:35.680
my understanding is is that you're in a new city every week only there for a couple days
02:56:42.740
because for example i'll match with girls who are flight attendants on dating apps at least well i'm
02:56:48.200
not on any dating apps right now but when i used to be i'd match with a girl who's on a dating app
02:56:52.340
and she's a flight attendant you're in you're oh you're in town for a day and you're on a dating app
02:56:57.860
okay what are you looking for then you must be looking for casual sex
02:57:01.680
because you're in town for two days why are you on a dating app what's what is the only option
02:57:07.380
available to you casual sex so my assumption is people who are like flight attendants and
02:57:13.400
pilots probably fuck a lot i'm just you know that's my that's my impression yeah absolutely
02:57:20.420
they there's a very sexual sexually rampant culture within the airline industry i advise people not to
02:57:27.160
date pilots or flight attendants unless you meet them except you no no no unless there's always
02:57:32.000
going to be exception right if you look at them and you're like this is some of the most outstanding
02:57:36.740
moral values like truly the best you've ever seen i'd say i'd say don't go for it because it's insane
02:57:42.940
the things that happen fair enough well um i had a uh another thing here uh just really to touch on
02:57:49.440
this very quickly actually i'll come back to it but we'll continue going around would you date a guy
02:57:53.760
who makes less than you i would not date a man who makes less than me um it's not that simple with
02:58:00.040
me i also want him to have um a pretty solid net worth and a high credit score and no um irresponsible
02:58:09.280
debt and to make a certain amount of money that's reasonable that's based though it's because like
02:58:15.160
no offense or anything but as you get a little bit older you start to be able to like define what
02:58:19.560
you want a lot more right yeah i mean i i i'll go out on a lot of um dates with men and i will end
02:58:27.220
things um over various financial factors that to me are red flags such as
02:58:33.780
one person that i dated recently was 51 because i'm 39 so i'll date me i don't know if i would date
02:58:43.580
younger maybe if he was like a super solid 35 year old so i'll say like 35 to 55 i probably date
02:58:50.020
um and by the time you are in your 50s to me you need to have established um net worth you should
02:58:58.920
have investments in the stock market and or real estate crypto doesn't count because it's too volatile
02:59:03.620
um and you should know how to manage your money and that's why i feel like the credit score is
02:59:09.180
important because people can make a lot of money and waste a lot of money and to me that's also not
02:59:13.840
attractive so like he needs to have financial literacy and be successful and hold it all
02:59:18.660
together and make more than me see i respect that a lot i think a lot of people would look at and be
02:59:23.860
like oh you're you're so demanding or whatever but i think that if girls if women were to lay out those
02:59:28.680
sorts of things that would encourage men to be better in that regard with financial literacy
02:59:32.140
especially in this country like financial literacy is really not a thing like when i was looking
02:59:36.380
around la i was thinking if you guys did two things if you replaced all of like the weird sexual
02:59:41.700
stuff that's being taught to kids in school and all the racism that's been taught to kids in school
02:59:46.300
and you replace that with macro nutrients and financial literacy it would it would solve a lot
02:59:52.000
of problems in your country teach them from a young age i also think um a lot of relationship
02:59:59.060
problems are because of finance like and especially in marriage that's why a lot of people get divorced
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so being able to talk about that in the first like few dates is really important
03:00:08.820
community if a guy didn't want to pay on a first date like if he didn't pick up the tab would that
03:00:13.400
is that one of the red flags or deal breakers for you i just wouldn't go on a second date but i
03:00:18.220
wouldn't make a thing about it it's just not the person for me sure fair enough uh what about you
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me yeah uh which question uh would you date a guy who makes less than you um well i'm i'm pre-law so
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i anticipate that i'm going to be making a good a good amount of money in a few years i'm i'm pre-law
03:00:35.920
pre-law pre-law pre-law okay sorry you want to uh what kind of law do you want to go into uh sports
03:00:43.460
and entertainment sports and entertainment okay i originally wanted to do constitutional law though
03:00:48.360
um but yeah i anticipate making a good amount of money so i would definitely prefer for them to be
03:00:56.020
making more money than myself but if it were a comparable amount that'd be fine
03:00:59.240
comp when you say comparable do you mean equal to similar okay because i i've heard some study and
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maybe you're you might be familiar with this women will say they want a guy who makes the same as
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them but really that means like 56 they want a guy who actually makes 56 more than them
03:01:16.960
uh no i'd like to keep it within like 10 percent well oh you're saying that that means that they
03:01:23.000
need to be making 56 more than than they do is that what you're saying i forgot the exact wording on
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this maybe someone in the chat can uh help me out so no i'll be more specific if they make within like
03:01:34.420
10 15 of what i make then that would be that would be fine in either direction uh i mean if it's above
03:01:40.720
than go all out but but below i would say within like 10 15 okay what about you um i would date
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someone who makes less than me but i don't think i would marry someone who makes less than me because
03:01:53.540
i want to be a stay-at-home mom i want to work but like very little just because you have to do a
03:02:00.200
lot in the house and i want a lot of kids hell yeah just a reminder so who said that they would date
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a guy who makes less than them just show of hands you would date a guy who makes less than them
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okay show of hands i guess i need to scoot in here uh would you
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would you but then what's the then what's the point of dating if you're not gonna marry
03:02:21.920
hold on would you be okay with a stay-at-home dad so you're the 100% breadwinner and he's just
03:02:29.980
stay-at-home dad taking care of the kids that's a little that's a little bit of a reach like it
03:02:36.800
would be i don't know okay it wouldn't be a no picture this situation you come home from a long
03:02:43.280
day of work you're stressed and your man is at home and he's got dinner on the stove for you and
03:02:48.860
he's wearing a little a pink apron cute yeah and he's wearing his pink apron and then he has to go
03:02:53.460
and do the grocery shopping so he has to ask you for the credit card and then he jumps in your car
03:02:57.520
to go and drive to the shopping center to use your credit card imagine imagine how miserable
03:03:03.840
he would be he's miserable yes if my husband he would pull over and scream if my husband is like
03:03:12.140
stay-at-home dad and i'm the breadwinner my husband has his own car my husband has his own
03:03:18.080
card my husband is set just like but it's your money isn't it we all know it's your money and
03:03:23.060
that's fine as long as you're taking care of my kids our kids i don't know like that's like the
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i think in practice i think in practice you'd be you'd be pretty off it a man who takes care of
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his family is that not sexy taking care of your family as a man isn't being a stay-at-home dad
03:03:37.580
taking care of your family is providing financially i think you underestimate the bond that you form
03:03:45.240
with a child especially when they're young like you are when they're born you need to be glued to
03:03:50.420
them like they need you 24 7 yeah as a mother it's it's just not practical especially when
03:03:56.440
they're young to have a stay-at-home dad while you work well i mean i would be there like obviously
03:04:00.780
after i'm done giving birth i would be there for a certain amount of time but if you know
03:04:04.020
if i'm the breadwinner i'm i'm going to work and make sure my family's getting fed
03:04:07.740
so they're proverbs 21 19 donated 100 better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging
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wife based word uh yeah thank thank you proverbs 21 19 um okay uh so what i'd like to do at this
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point is uh i had a couple notes for each of you here uh some of you provided some pre-show
03:04:35.200
information actually you know what before we do that uh before we get into that juicy stuff
03:04:40.020
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03:05:00.460
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03:05:22.720
appreciate it okay um so let's see i had some notes here we have tasia so you just going back
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to what you said before you said you used to be a hardcore leftist atheist feminist but now you are
03:05:37.760
recently a conservative born again christian when you say born again are you so are you waiting until
03:05:43.200
marriage to have the sex i am but you're not a you're not a virgin correct but you're you're born
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again virgin i wouldn't put it that way but yeah i'm how would you put it well i'm just saving myself
03:05:59.580
for marriage from now on out okay you can't really reclaim virginity what was the catalyst for all of
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this might ask oh man there was there was a lot i think dating a cop made me realize a lot of the blm
03:06:14.060
stuff is ridiculous um going to france changed around yeah france yeah france changed me a lot
03:06:23.280
because france is ahead of us in their progressiveness um it's real weird out there the gender roles are
03:06:30.980
completely reversed like the guys are staying at home cooking cleaning in the south of france where it's
03:06:36.000
very liberal the north is different um but the women are like players and sexually promiscuous and
03:06:41.600
the guys like really want commitment and it's just so reverse it's actually it's actually a cultural
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thing with french is that the women tend to have like a side piece yeah women have side pieces yep
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yeah it's yeah i was born in france i didn't know about this shit i i didn't know brian
03:06:57.560
french women are okay let's not go there so france is like in flames at the moment so did you see the
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the the in flames like if there's been riots the last few weeks like yeah r.i.p the motherland
03:07:15.580
is france the motherland or the fatherland i guess it's my fault because my dad's from france
03:07:20.340
the motherland the mother has a because isn't russia the fatherland what wait what how do you
03:07:26.360
different chat how do you decide if it's fatherland or motherland how do you decide if your mom or dad
03:07:33.980
is from there so my mom's from italy so italy's my motherland oh okay i didn't know it was that
03:07:40.000
simple could be wrong okay so it's my fatherland yeah france is a failed society yeah it's going down
03:07:47.200
the drain there's a lot of a lot of other countries that are getting all anyways um let's not get
03:07:52.740
political but um okay so born again did you used to have like did you have a hoe phase or what like
03:08:00.940
were you like super crazy before no my my hoe phase was like kissing people in clubs and not going further
03:08:08.800
so yeah word what made you miserable about being a liberal atheist
03:08:14.340
i think as well the atheist i'll focus on the liberal first so liberalism you're just constantly
03:08:21.960
angry and offended and i i believe there's a lot more racism in the left than on the right and that
03:08:29.520
a lot of well-intentioned things but the road to hell is paved on good intentions um yeah it's very
03:08:36.700
regressive like this idea that black people can't well we won't get into we won't get into politics
03:08:42.040
um we can go there a little bit how do you feel brian what a quick tidbit on politics what's what
03:08:51.980
specific political topic are we talking about here black people what bro i'm 40 percent nigerian so i
03:08:58.800
feel like i can i can claim the um black black is the the political topic you wish to discuss is
03:09:07.880
black this could go so many ways um yeah i'm gonna pass on that one i'm gonna take a pass on that
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okay well we'll exclude any race the idea of oppression i think is very harmful when you're
03:09:18.340
telling people your country hates you you have opportunities stripped from you when really that's
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not the case like we're born in a country that we can do so much no matter where you came from
03:09:27.040
i came from i came from the sticks i came from the boondocks agree very much agree and here i am like
03:09:34.760
in the in the pilot field like it's yeah it's yeah i think it's ridiculous i think it's very harmful to
03:09:41.460
tell children especially that um you are disadvantaged purely for something that you cannot control and i
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think it does a lot to their their um mental capacity to be able to see themselves as uh somebody
03:09:55.420
that's going to provide value to society i think i think it really really harms kids especially
03:10:01.260
yeah it becomes self-fulfilling prophecy absolutely i did a video yesterday where we went to santa
03:10:05.820
monica pier and we were just interviewing people and we were asking if they think that if they think
03:10:09.700
america is racist every one of them said yes and i couldn't believe it because america i could believe
03:10:14.960
it but like america is so overtly non-racist like it's just a complete melting pot of all different
03:10:21.420
people all coexisting together and one of the girls was telling me um that she's from nigeria
03:10:27.120
and she said she came over when she was like eight and that she was she thought she was making a good
03:10:31.380
point to me but what she was saying was that she had no idea about racism until she went to school
03:10:35.600
and the school taught her all about racism and i was like and i said to us i was like so so you never
03:10:40.500
knew about it and then the school taught you about it and then she like couldn't quite put two and two
03:10:45.140
together but there's some serious indoctrination happening in this country absolutely i'm that
03:10:49.980
that's something close to like what i went through like i came here when i was eight so like
03:10:54.500
i didn't understand any even like the bullying like the verbal bullying i didn't i'm like that
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doesn't make sense all right i'm walking away or so i have a couple more notes here for each
03:11:05.940
people we have priya here you wanted to talk about dating someone with kids and how drug use
03:11:10.960
affects relationships and also age gaps or age differences in relationships is that so did you
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date someone with kids i have dated somebody with kids yes how old was it older guy uh yes he was 10
03:11:23.480
years older than me and just reminder you are 22 yes okay so he was well maybe this was a couple years
03:11:31.200
back or i know this was my most recent relationship just under a year ago okay so he was 31 you were 21
03:11:38.080
yes and he had kids okay uh and he also so he there's an age gap he had kids and he did drugs is
03:11:46.460
that correct no no no the the drugs was some a different uh meth heroin no um what drugs do you take
03:11:52.840
i do not do any drugs i've never touched any sort of drug um i do not support drugs whatsoever i think
03:11:59.300
they're incredibly harmful but the boyfriend that that you were dating did drugs yes um and you helped
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you bought his you you didn't partake but you bought the drugs for him no um was it meth or heroin
03:12:13.060
it was not either um pills benzos pills um no i started dating him and then found out about the drug
03:12:23.100
habits uh about two months into the relationship um was going to break up with him when i found out
03:12:30.200
and he begged me to stay with him i did uh believing exactly what he told exactly what he
03:12:37.020
wanted me to hear i want to change i don't want to live this lifestyle i don't want to just do it for
03:12:41.020
you but i want to do it for me too and it was good for a while and then eventually he broke up with me
03:12:45.440
because he believed i judged him for his partying habits uh god forbid i cared about his well-being
03:12:50.720
but um but yeah that was that was a different different situation than the than the one with
03:12:56.940
the kids word uh here let let's talk about the age gap one so that was your biggest age gap relationship
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you said it was 10 years correct yeah uh would you do it again um yeah i would do the age gap the kids
03:13:09.760
no kids yeah i can see that yeah uh we'll go around the table on this and we'll start with grace
03:13:14.520
actually uh would you date someone significantly older than you say like 10 10 15 years older than
03:13:20.680
you um i'm not sure because i look very young so i feel like i would feel like a baby in that
03:13:27.960
relationship and it depends if it's a really great guy and we vibe and i feel really comfortable and at
03:13:35.040
home then yeah but i'm also in a very very happy relationship right now if you were single but yeah
03:13:39.440
if i was single um i would consider it just really depends on the chemistry i don't really look
03:13:44.440
at age unless it's like creepy like if you give me creep vibes sure um what about you
03:13:51.460
yeah the oldest uh the biggest age gap i've had is 21 years he was 21 years my senior
03:13:59.320
okay good times so uh what what was the age breakdown like you were what 35 he was 50 i was
03:14:06.960
37 37 37 okay wait he was 59 so how old so yeah i was like yeah i was 32 30 no he was like 59
03:14:19.400
22 29 49 no what is my math wrong here 37 to 59 is 22. no like 59 to 49 49 to 39. 22 22.
03:14:32.400
39 yeah that's 20. yeah i'm trying to questioning my math over here okay no if he's 60 that and he was
03:14:42.440
20 years older than me that would make me 40. so he was 59 so i was only like 37 or 38. so 22
03:14:52.700
year age gap 22 year age gap 21 or 22 that wasn't in my 20s this was like two years ago
03:14:57.720
yep and he was gonna turn 60. word what about you age gap yes or no would do it how much i i actually
03:15:06.280
prefer age gap i like the 10 year age gap but you just gotta be careful because the older you get
03:15:11.680
the more baggage you got okay agreed um yeah i would date older um i typically stay within my age range but
03:15:21.220
or my age group but you know i'm open to different things i would date older as far as kind of the age
03:15:28.480
gap goes i do prefer someone probably minimum of three years older than i am just because i'm young
03:15:33.120
and honestly i'd be looking to settle down sooner than a lot of um people i guess are in my age range
03:15:39.380
um i would maybe go up to like like seven or eight years older i don't know if i'd hit 10 it kind of just
03:15:46.100
depends on kind of what grace is saying chemistry and the person specifically because you do have to
03:15:50.140
watch out for a lot of creepers when it comes to older guys sometimes so would you would you date
03:15:54.960
henry cavill no you wouldn't date henry do you know who that is i don't i mean i don't like it's
03:16:02.260
just celebrities in general i don't know we pull them up yeah we get uh nick can you do a little google
03:16:06.840
search for our boy henry cavill cavill how do you say that shit i don't know uh while he does that
03:16:14.280
it's probably gonna be a no but okay what about you um sorry um yeah i would date guys older than me
03:16:21.560
i wouldn't date someone younger than me okay got it um my biggest age gap is probably like i was 21
03:16:31.880
and he was 42 okay and then youngest was like well i don't know like more recently i've oh you've gone
03:16:40.760
the opposite direction i have i'm like what youngest was like 25 oh i thought you're about to say some
03:16:46.960
weird shit no no i've kept 25 26 okay okay okay it's like youngest i'm 29 yeah yeah so okay that's like
03:16:56.880
the youngest that can be acceptable for me because like sure sure do you have the photo nick boom uh
03:17:04.680
this is henry cavill yes superman superman yeah uh geralt fuck what's the little witcher how do you
03:17:12.740
say girl is it girl girl girl gerald gerald gerald gerald i don't know i don't watch that french one
03:17:20.620
i'm so i'm so bad with the faces to names but a couple weeks ago i was talking to some friends about
03:17:24.860
celebrities and he came up and would you date him no no come on yeah stop the cap he plays world of
03:17:32.740
warcraft does that change anything he's like probably less likely for me to date him okay
03:17:38.000
berk what about you age here um yeah i would definitely date kind of what uh grace was saying
03:17:44.040
um if we vibe we vibe uh i would go like maybe a year younger than me but not really much younger than
03:17:51.140
that um and then just because maturity but yeah definitely would date someone older than me and if
03:17:56.300
we vibe we vibe if we get along you make me happy you can please me
03:18:01.020
yeah then i'm done yeah okay definitely been like people that like are older and you expect a certain
03:18:09.600
like behavior from them and it doesn't matter like how much older they get so i would compare
03:18:15.500
the part where it's like dating older people is like oh sure proof of like it's gonna be good like
03:18:21.900
no like a lot of people like still at like a even 60s like are not well i also think something to take
03:18:28.660
into consideration at least for myself is is for men and women when each of them hit their prime like
03:18:34.100
what ages what age that looks at i know for women it's like mid mid-20s and for men it's more so in
03:18:39.280
their 30s i think so even from like like again i brought this up like the biological standpoint kind
03:18:45.140
of just makes sense to go for a little bit of an age gap there i mean and that age gaps actually
03:18:52.200
naturally manifest um i mean i think it's typically uh a two like i think the average is two to three
03:19:00.500
years i don't know if you know what the yeah like typically i think the age of well also the age of
03:19:05.740
first marriage it's younger for women than it is for men so i think that's another kind of
03:19:11.760
manifestation i think it makes sense particularly in the modern day because with like the way that
03:19:18.140
the market's going it's a little bit harder for men to create resources so if a man waits until he's
03:19:22.160
35 and then he checks up with a woman who's say 25 or so because girls are obviously waiting a little
03:19:28.200
bit more these days as well i think that 35 and 25 is like a perfect sort of age range i think there's
03:19:34.360
also a biological component to it as well well yeah i mean so there's the are you talking about
03:19:39.680
like fertility uh yeah fertility but also i mean just in a general sense i think that uh the majority
03:19:46.820
of women uh in terms of wanting to settle down and kind of understanding what they want out of a
03:19:51.640
relationship tend to figure that out a little bit earlier in life than men do um and yeah i think if
03:19:58.800
women are looking for commitment and looking to settle down and start a family i think they're
03:20:02.140
going to be looking for um men that are typically a little bit older than them any boss babes here
03:20:07.180
who have their eggs frozen no got any boss babes just freezing their eggs or anything um okay let's
03:20:15.300
see here we have miss aubrey roe she said a lot of people also act one way but expect unrealistic
03:20:21.880
results to their actions i think hookup culture is toxic and whether women want to admit it or not
03:20:29.140
word for word brian what's that you don't have to read a word for not verbatim i mean i mean you can
03:20:33.880
i just put it out there like pretty boldly on there i mean you can read it okay all right i just
03:20:38.280
kind of threw out uh she's saying we're uh women are the gatekeepers of sex or hookup culture so
03:20:46.120
basically what you're saying is is women are to blame for hookup culture okay well you're such a
03:20:50.660
misogynist aubrey yeah honestly i just hate women you're like a raging misogynist how dare you
03:20:56.880
no honestly what the reason i can i put it like that because i was like i'm just gonna
03:21:01.320
throw it out there but um can you do that again what the little is that is that your throwing
03:21:07.020
motion okay i'm a girl i throw like a girl that's why fair enough checks out because i'm a misogynist
03:21:12.180
so of course i've just clearly um okay no i would as far as like the expectations go what i find a
03:21:19.380
lot is like there are a lot of women who do want to settle down they do want to eventually have a
03:21:23.360
family but they wait so so late and then and then and then it's kind of too late or it's kind of
03:21:29.640
just biologically but also it's like what you put out is what you attract so if you're wondering why
03:21:34.980
you're not attracting these men that are that you're wanting to settle down with it's maybe because
03:21:39.260
you're not being the type of woman that the type of men you would want are attracted to and so
03:21:44.700
and then like playing that into hookup cultures like a lot of women like they want to you know
03:21:50.400
early in their 20s like they want to go clubbing and they want to go sleep around and they want to
03:21:53.920
just have that party lifestyle and then settle down later later on but at that point like you know
03:21:59.420
plays into the body count like at that point in a sense like in different ways their value to
03:22:04.100
has gone down as far as i guess market value when it comes to dating and what the type of like high
03:22:11.080
value men i don't know what you consider high value men even depends on the person i guess but
03:22:16.540
it just kind of henry cavill's pretty i mean he was superman so i guess superman but um but no i
03:22:24.540
just think as far as like hookup culture i mean ultimately like the woman i mean obviously other
03:22:31.420
than certain circumstances but the woman does get to determine like if they're gonna let a man into
03:22:35.380
their space in that sense so and that's why i think going back to earlier with how many people
03:22:41.400
each of us have slept with right that it can be a lot more important for women versus men because
03:22:47.260
ultimately that decision lays on the woman of whether she's gonna actually allow a man to even
03:22:52.960
have a chance with her i have a note here from nicole and nicole says i prefer dating man a man with a
03:23:00.360
high body count and certainly much higher than mine a low body count is subjective but i suspect mine is
03:23:06.660
lower than many women my age there are a few reasons it's attractive to me when a man has a high body
03:23:11.840
count and as a woman i do not aspire to have a count anywhere close to what the man i date have
03:23:17.320
nicole confirm or deny so you like say that i did say that i wouldn't say that i own it i prefer that he
03:23:26.580
has a really high body count but it doesn't bother me and to me there is something attractive about a man
03:23:32.780
who has a high body count who's just ran through like he's just a hundred ran through i hate the
03:23:38.120
term no he's not ran through he's he did the running through oh it doesn't bother me i've i have met men
03:23:45.160
who have dated i mean dated who have slept with what i'm like oh wow that's a lot of people you know
03:23:51.380
um but it doesn't in my eyes it doesn't take away from his value i don't know it just doesn't
03:23:57.680
i am 39 and people generally assume that i've slept with a lot more people than i have
03:24:04.880
um fun fact i was celibate from my late 20s until like 38 and i didn't even date so i had no sexual
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contact with men for almost a decade um that's like a whole tangent but yeah wait hold on wait
03:24:19.020
wait what were the what was the age range 28 29 to like 38 were you in like thinking about being a
03:24:26.200
nun i was yeah actually thinking about being a nun yeah i was you look good in the nun outfit thank
03:24:32.260
you but i was only looking at communities that had like really like really pretty habits like no ugly
03:24:37.580
ones habits that's what they're called yeah so i um that was pretty radical so i that's why i
03:24:44.120
originally made that choice because i needed to know if i could live the life um and what did he do
03:24:49.740
to you at 29 that's what everyone says what happened but actually that's like a very ignorant
03:24:55.080
question um but my 20s might like i don't i've never really been drunk like i don't i haven't
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done crazy drugs like i didn't have some i mean i think my 20s were pretty like like i had a few
03:25:11.000
long-term boyfriends 29 to 38 yeah who's the fucking absolute giga chad who came in at 38
03:25:19.660
and he had a high body he had a high body count who knocked you off your fucking nearly decade
03:25:27.940
long that was a good experience i could say it i want to meet a girl who hasn't had sex in nine years
03:25:35.540
yeah she's like the the pent-up sexual yeah it would have been bells ringing honestly so yeah i
03:25:44.320
don't know but all i'm saying is that for me if a man has a high body count it's not unattractive to
03:25:50.060
me um and maybe hot take i don't know but i feel that the reason it's attractive for a reason why
03:25:59.100
it's attractive for a woman to have a low body count and the reason it's seen as attractive or
03:26:04.040
something to aspire to as a man to have a higher body count is because both of those things are
03:26:07.980
difficult it's difficult for a man to rack up a really high body count with a lot of beautiful
03:26:13.100
women it's hard for a woman to constantly say no when she has men coming after her so to me it's more
03:26:20.500
that we are as a society glorifying what is the more difficult choice for each sex so and i'm not
03:26:27.760
saying like morally or anything if that's right or wrong or it should be that way or not but to me
03:26:32.820
that's what it feels like to me is we are saying that's the harder choice for that sex and so
03:26:38.020
that's why we think like kudos so you're 39 you were almost 10 years of celibacy between 29 to 38
03:26:48.580
the guy that you broke your celibacy for did you guys date for a while or was it
03:26:55.260
we did a little ting we did you did okay months you guys broke up recently or um it's pretty no
03:27:03.480
that this would have been when i was so i i just went over 39 so it was like beginning of when i was
03:27:08.780
like 30 and you said your longest relationship was two years yes or did you say you've been
03:27:13.540
single for two years no my longest relationship was two years and i've been single for um a year
03:27:18.580
okay huh you've been wait you've been single for a year okay so the thing with the guy who broke
03:27:24.780
your celibacy were you were you like when you met him did you were you kind of looking to for this to
03:27:31.700
be the end of your celibacy no we formed a really deep friendship deep friendship yeah we formed a really
03:27:38.480
like deep friendship was he also trying to was he part of the nun school or what was going on
03:27:42.860
no no he wasn't i just got to know him and and it just formed and i was i just did it wasn't like
03:27:51.980
some big thing yeah it was it just happened one thing led to another i made a choice it's not like
03:28:00.480
it just happened i made a choice to do it of course but it wasn't it's not as like dramatic maybe as
03:28:06.540
you're trying to make it sound i just found someone and i connected with them and i felt
03:28:11.240
that that really strict season of celibacy for me had served its purpose and i just wasn't there
03:28:16.640
anymore and that was okay i'm still very selective but why did you not do the nun thing you didn't
03:28:22.320
want to go ahead with that no um well they rejected me stop it they rejected me wait so hold on
03:28:32.920
were you like not trying to be celibate or this was like a very intentional thing i was intentionally
03:28:40.380
celibate intentionally yeah okay i made a choice okay so just to bring it back i mean you were saying
03:28:46.640
how you you prefer dating a man with high body count certainly much higher than yours um
03:28:52.440
maybe we can go around i mean it doesn't mean i don't mean that it needs to be high like they
03:28:58.640
need to have a hundred plus i think um i think you got you like a guy who's sexually experienced
03:29:04.000
i who knows his way around a woman's body i like who can locate the clitoris i like it and if he's a
03:29:11.040
good man then those women to me like they don't matter and i i if i'm with a man hold on just a second
03:29:18.060
thank you man don't you guys think a huge problematic outgrowth of social media hookup
03:29:24.580
culture is the destruction of female intellectualism the destruction of it the destruction of it um
03:29:32.160
was it ever there to begin with i'm kidding i'm kidding it's a joke guys um not not that much
03:29:37.760
i kid i kid i definitely don't think it's benefited it i don't know it just it doesn't bother me i
03:29:44.940
don't ask men how many women they've slept with just because it it it's kind it's irrelevant to me
03:29:51.240
um and if i'm with a man i'm with him because i i trust him and so i don't have insecurity with him
03:29:58.300
i don't like i just don't it's just not a thing i don't know word word yo thank you for the
03:30:06.460
super chat appreciate or the tts appreciate it okay um that's news to me the whole nun thing
03:30:14.680
did you did you have like a party phase or anything when you were younger like college did you
03:30:21.680
no go some frat parties i would go to college parties but i didn't drink so like but i love
03:30:26.940
dressing up so i would have like three or four costumes per halloween and go to all the parties
03:30:32.600
but i i don't i didn't get drunk or do drugs okay all right let's see here uh i had something
03:30:40.380
i think that's it for most of my notes um okay so let's get a couple soup chats in uh we have
03:30:54.780
burke can you read this one of course uh brian loving your content that you've been pushing
03:31:02.500
out thank you man representing the z y z z community this is yeah wait can you do this
03:31:08.040
australia represent this no it's like this here wait like the highest okay wait kind of like the
03:31:14.560
highest you know do you like this is this is this oh wait am i doing it look are these gang signs
03:31:21.100
i know what are you asking like this i've been having no like this out and look up look up higher
03:31:27.500
higher lift your lift your arm and now say rest in peace what is that what is congratulations you're
03:31:33.280
now gang affiliated just kidding just kidding go ahead go ahead um okay the ziz community get
03:31:40.720
aesthetic as fuck brah always take your drugs and doses that you've been prescribed legally the
03:31:47.380
simp in me want girl in pink with a dog in me refuses to to such what to such well there's two
03:31:55.060
girls wearing pink so you're gonna have to clarify mr woods which one all right can you read uh can
03:32:02.200
you read this one por favor um yes okay thoughts on men wanting to get married in a church um moss
03:32:09.280
synagogue um and with modern women being less religious it is harder to find normal women who
03:32:15.520
want that uh dating within limits dating pool uh plus i found a lot of those women are nuts so convert
03:32:22.540
women that aren't um women that aren't religious isn't that typically where marriage occurs in a
03:32:29.560
church even if you're like not religious isn't that no well i guess there's not if you're not
03:32:35.100
religious not in california not in california they do that shit at the beach i guess yeah beaches caves
03:32:40.420
disneyland i have never been to a wedding i just realized is that a red flag that's a red flag
03:32:47.520
people are like bro you don't have friends invite brian to your wedding i have never been to a
03:32:53.060
wedding do you know that you can hire professional bridesmaids like if you don't have friends or you
03:32:58.040
don't have a maid it's like only fans but for bridesmaids that shit is depressing son there was
03:33:03.500
like a movie about that with kevin hart or something there was i love there was like the best man like
03:33:09.960
that is yeah there was a movie about it yeah like that's cute uh gorton's fisherman uh i think
03:33:18.220
everyone's in fine with it i think what about he's asking he's asking if like we would if we would
03:33:24.760
quote unquote convert or get married in the church i don't know like i look i'm i'm rainian and like
03:33:30.560
technically like i was i'm supposed to be muslim technically speaking like clearly i'm not like
03:33:37.120
abiding by it but i thought you were devoutly what was the giveaway
03:33:40.740
a few things yes but like i would if you if i was like marrying like a someone christian or a catholic
03:33:48.600
you know like i would probably say like we'll do that whole spiel in the church and then like let's
03:33:56.460
do like whatever like my people would do too and then let's call it even that's it that's a good
03:34:03.760
point priya so we'll go really quickly around the table would you convert let's say your dream man
03:34:10.320
because some of you might already be religious so i'm thinking what if he was like a
03:34:17.800
a different religion or if those of you who are atheists let's just say he's christian
03:34:22.040
so would you convert to for your dream guy i would i would definitely not i'm very very strong in my
03:34:35.580
catholic faith i would not convert for a guy so i'm christian i would convert to be catholic but
03:34:43.460
that would be the only thing that i would be willing to convert to buddhism no jainism no
03:34:54.780
well so i actually dated my longest relationship the one who went to jail and i got out of a few
03:35:03.480
months ago um he was atheist and i based legitimately everything off of like god and spirituality so
03:35:12.780
like going through that was like the worst thing and going into it too like all the reasons that
03:35:18.060
our relationship ended i knew that was like going into it why it wouldn't work out and still
03:35:22.400
i don't i felt like i needed to gain experience on more some of the surface level things dating
03:35:27.240
yeah but it it taught me a lot but i realized like i would never like sure first and foremost like
03:35:33.100
you can get along like it doesn't matter how many hobbies you have in common like you'll learn to love
03:35:37.720
their hobbies but just like find somebody who has the same values as you do like that's the start
03:35:42.860
that is the most important thing yeah by the way gorton's fisherman here uh just want to say
03:35:48.720
don't forget the buddhist temples bro you're leaving that shit out come on man be please be
03:35:55.320
considerate of other religions you discriminatory fishermen okay uh the real mr meatball thank you man
03:36:03.400
uh why not go more into atheist libertarian a la and rand definitely much more thoughtful than
03:36:09.720
flipping from one empty calorie philosophy liberalism to another conservatism
03:36:14.520
and rand are we talking about the fountainhead are we talking about the uh what's her other book
03:36:20.800
atlas shrugged atlas shrugged virtue of selfishness virtue of selfishness that's a good one yeah is she
03:36:25.920
is she uh libertarian and rand is she libertarian she's like she's like her own sort of philosophy
03:36:32.420
yeah okay super capitalist like the the omni capitalist the real mr meatball uh actually uh
03:36:43.920
burke can i have you read this yes uh would y'all date someone who doesn't do social media and actively
03:36:49.620
dresses down to not be flashy yes totally red or green flag yeah yeah absolutely dresses down yeah but
03:37:00.400
defining dresses down i mean if you're not wearing designer labels all that that's perfectly
03:37:05.460
perfectly fine but i want you to look clean but i think not being too flashy yeah i like a man who
03:37:12.400
dresses well i want him to have nice pants nice grooming smell good have a nice watch have shoes
03:37:17.500
that go with it it doesn't need to be the most expensive but i appreciate when a man puts like
03:37:23.280
take care of his appearance i mean you can like i don't want him to intentionally make himself
03:37:27.900
smaller or intentionally make himself be hidden that's weird to me i'd be like why don't you want
03:37:33.680
to take up space you know dress down and still smell good and dress nice like yeah dressing down
03:37:39.420
like what do you mean yeah that's where i'm kind of flashy that's what i'm saying is like
03:37:43.820
what about let me let me throw something out there what about a guy who wears puma sweatpants no
03:38:01.560
and bro hold on let me finish a guy who wears puma sweatpants and like a black t-shirt and
03:38:11.220
a flannel if you're at home you'd wear no to the flannel is that why you're wearing a flannel
03:38:17.740
huh are you wearing puma sweatpants right now are they like slimmer oh uh i guess i i happen to be
03:38:23.540
wearing that so what do the bottom of your sweats look like like are they the long thick ending are
03:38:29.760
they like the scrunchie looking ones are we still talking about sweatpants what are we talking about
03:38:33.240
i'm giving those red flags i think i don't think that it's bro they're just they're just puma
03:38:38.980
yeah you don't have to wear like not wearing flannel is brian giving you guys red flags with the puma
03:38:45.140
i don't necessarily think it's a red flag it's just not a personal preference i like somebody that
03:38:51.360
knows how to put themselves together well but that being said you don't have to spend thousands of
03:38:55.620
dollars on an outfit i mean just like dress like occasion timing where are you doing where are you
03:39:01.340
not yeah right you know what i mean like like the time and place for everything but i also think with
03:39:06.440
the man with the watch you have to flash because a man when he shows up on a date if he's wearing an
03:39:12.680
eye watch i get major ick i get me because the watch is like the most purse is the most personal
03:39:20.140
accessory a man can have his watch and i feel like the eye watch is like the complete opposite of that
03:39:27.020
so like i look for men's watches on their um their dating profiles so is it a red flag if they're not
03:39:32.680
wearing a watch it's not a red flag but when a man's wearing a real watch and not an eye watch it
03:39:37.460
gets me going some kind of way i think it has to do with people making tasteful choices and i think
03:39:42.780
it's quality over quantity in that sense i do get it yeah yeah it's like he has some taste like or i
03:39:49.000
don't know like he there's something specific that he i don't know i don't know man with like a real
03:39:54.360
watches yeah i think it's about the occasion but also like just balancing it out like you don't have
03:39:59.100
to have everything super high quality but like don't walk around looking like a bum but i also
03:40:03.200
would want to be able to like you know go to the supermarket and like pull up in the sweatpants
03:40:06.780
with you know my significant other yeah can i can i ask you a question what's that so if you were to go
03:40:11.240
on a date with one of us what would you wear i'm not gonna lie i would wear this shit oh
03:40:17.060
would you expect us to dress up really nice are we going honestly like so okay here's here's my
03:40:24.960
thing okay come on i look if a girl dresses nice that's that's fine i actually kind of there's this
03:40:30.100
song it was his first hit by drake okay the best best i ever had is that it yeah hair tied
03:40:39.380
fuck how's that sweatpants hair hold on sweatpants hair tied chilling with no makeup on that's when
03:40:48.620
they're your prettiest hey no i don't i don't like like on the first date i will i'll tell a girl
03:40:59.200
their almed meatball donated one hundred dollars i'll chime and i watch guy oh my god maybe spend
03:41:07.360
that one hundred dollars on a new watch he's a he's a chad uh no but i actually prefer like i'll
03:41:14.380
i'll even tell a girl like well so okay i don't like i'm not a huge fan of makeup i don't really like
03:41:20.360
makeup so honestly anything more than a bit of like um maybe mascara eyeliner whatever like when you
03:41:27.320
start putting shit on your face or lipstick not a big fan not a big fan of it so uh i kind of like
03:41:33.260
the more uh low maintenance type of thing she can still dress well and not wear a lot of makeup and
03:41:40.200
a man can dress casually and still be well groomed and smell good and be put together and his sweat
03:41:45.400
pants fit nicely and he doesn't wear open plaid over a t-shirt you know to dinner well and a lot of it
03:41:52.180
has to do flannels are in son i don't know what you you guys missed the if you went to australia
03:41:57.620
you would be brought in flannel flannels are the shit y'all this is california black button up on
03:42:03.620
black button you know what hold on i'm i'm gonna change into something i'm gonna be right back
03:42:09.220
you guys tell me okay hold on you guys tell me if you would you know date me when i'm okay so
03:42:15.380
rattlesnake you take over you take over for a sec i'll be right back well i was i was gonna add to
03:42:20.980
you okay to the appearances i'm gonna say a lot of it has to do with how you carry yourself as well
03:42:26.340
having to do with like makeup because i even this past year for probably like a good six months
03:42:31.360
i just increasingly like went with less and less makeup just to like try to embrace more and more yeah
03:42:36.600
but i noticed over time like and my mom like told me this too she knows like i started carrying
03:42:40.940
myself a little bit differently in some ways it was like really good in other ways like when i
03:42:45.120
finally did start wearing like a little bit more makeup and i don't like i wear like maybe three
03:42:49.000
things like i don't go crazy anyway i don't really know how to do makeup that well but um like you just
03:42:54.520
kind of it like ups your confidence sometimes like you just feel like a little bit more but do you
03:42:59.920
think that has to do with the fact that people are now comparing themselves to people online
03:43:03.880
constantly and setting unrealistic standards i think that that's a huge thing yeah but it has
03:43:08.560
to do with the comparison for myself personally it was i was able to develop more confidence with my
03:43:12.560
natural beauty because like i got so used to wearing makeup every day like and it was just like mascara
03:43:17.180
right but even just going without mascara like i started to love like just like my facial features
03:43:21.740
the way they were without any of it and like totally i think it's just about like enhancing your
03:43:26.360
natural beauty rather than creating beauty of course it can be done tastefully and then it can be
03:43:30.800
it can be uh done not tastefully as well it can be damaging yeah absolutely the same thing happened
03:43:36.500
with me i think like a month ago i was one day i forgot like bringing my makeup when i was out
03:43:42.180
somewhere and i had like i didn't have any makeup on and i looked in the mirror and i thought i looked
03:43:47.460
hideous and i i was thinking about it and i shouldn't look at myself in the mirror and think i'm ugly
03:43:54.640
without makeup and so i'm sorry i'm really bad at talking right now because i'm kind of kind of nervous
03:44:00.340
i'm tired um but i i feel like it's wrong to look at yourself in the mirror without makeup and think
03:44:06.120
you're hideous and so i went on a trip to europe for two weeks and i was like i'm not gonna pack
03:44:10.300
makeup and it was terrible the first few days i felt like terrible in all my pictures but then
03:44:15.600
over time i felt more and more confident and now i can wear it for like special events but i'm trying
03:44:20.300
to go makeup free as well that's how it was for me too yeah i'm interested to know girls in your dms
03:44:27.420
what is the craziest thing you've ever been offered in terms of being flown out anything like that have
03:44:32.440
you ever accepted have you ever been tempted to accept no because of safety number one what have
03:44:38.880
you been offered is it true that you girls are getting offered to be flown out yeah i would say so
03:44:44.640
for like but for like sexual things and at the end of the day like are they pretty explicit
03:44:48.920
you have to do this sometimes like i'll get like messages in my dms like oh i'll i'll like pay you
03:44:54.360
to come fly out to me and like do whatever um and like safety is number one obviously um and i
03:45:01.340
wouldn't necessarily accept money for that like i want to talk to someone or like get to know them
03:45:06.420
and not just for sex like that's not like a thing i don't want to do that yeah yeah because you want
03:45:11.140
you to be careful as well yeah exactly how about yourself you've been flown out to somewhere
03:45:16.040
like you're unfamiliar with like yeah just anywhere have you been has someone slid into your dms and
03:45:21.920
said i'll pay you to do this and then you've either rejected or accepted it yeah and i agree with her on
03:45:29.040
the safety part like you can't you can't just decide that just no matter what amount of money you're
03:45:35.160
gonna give me like or or offering i don't know you so if you don't but if you did know them you
03:45:40.320
might do it who knows okay um like maybe the craziest thing would probably be like a car
03:45:50.320
but they've offered to buy you a car yeah but obviously like same thing with like safety reasons
03:45:56.000
like do you reckon that was serious a lot of stalkers huh do you reckon that was serious about
03:46:00.080
it what do you mean like do i think he was serious yeah he was like a stalker of mine
03:46:05.520
yeah right okay um i haven't had anyone slide into my dms but because you will after this
03:46:11.620
because i'm sure but because i go door to door and i talk to people every day a few weeks back i did
03:46:17.520
have this guy like he straight up offered to go take me and get a new car full up in cash i was like
03:46:23.740
sitting on the couch like trying to sell him like a smart home system and he's like yeah i'll buy you
03:46:27.880
a car and then i was like maybe i should be selling the fact that i'm broke instead of
03:46:31.260
this system but no then i was just kind of like well i'm gonna go talk to your neighbors but other
03:46:37.000
than that i haven't had any any crazy offers no it comes back to safety i am a really small person so
03:46:44.380
4 11 i'm 4 10 4 10 yeah you were giving me a little bit of grace with that extra inch
03:46:49.120
that's all right hey i got these booster seats over here i've been sliding around
03:46:52.760
what's it like being 4 10 um man i definitely get to experience the world at a lower level i guess
03:47:02.820
no i used so my first car had a 1999 tahoe and i put pedal extensions in there and i drove around
03:47:14.120
with that so like this small little girl hopped out of this jacked up truck you know what's your
03:47:19.980
cultural background so i was actually adopted from china when i was nine months old um and then i grew
03:47:25.860
up in texas and i'm still there currently trying to move to la never met your parents your adopted
03:47:31.020
parents no i have not it was a closed adoption oh yeah so in 1996 it was pretty adoption i'm pretty
03:47:37.600
sure in china you could only have one child oh i feel like i'm fancy over here stalingrad
03:47:46.940
stop it if you wore this on the first date women love a man in uniform but um i don't think this
03:47:53.340
is what we had in mind do you do you have a hat you have a hat to go with the rest of it or what
03:48:00.600
do you have a sword there i just think you're missing like yeah touch fine did you get a watch
03:48:05.960
also yeah do you have a watch do you have a sword do the medals match like maybe an eye watch
03:48:10.860
do you have a pocket watch yeah which is our investment piece okay yeah there you go perfect
03:48:23.680
stylin you know i'm hopping on it now he's one step above the occasion
03:48:32.300
we run away it's done it's you guys are panties are dropping instantly
03:48:38.980
instantly running and screaming the other direction
03:48:43.020
is it a soviet no it's a world war one oh oh united states it's quite a collector's item
03:48:51.900
i'm gonna be honest i would if a guy showed up in that uniform minus the hat on a first man
03:48:57.780
minus the hat on a first date you'd be into that shit i would do it yeah i'm kind of nerdy i have
03:49:04.380
like a weird world war fetish world war fetish yeah not like sexual but oh i mean when you say
03:49:11.400
fetish sexual it suggests that when you say fetish it's a romantic fetish yeah like romance novel
03:49:18.320
yeah pearl harbor love story that sort of thing he dies and then comes back you thought he was
03:49:25.580
comes back to life yeah you thought he was from the dead
03:49:28.280
oh my god ab check thank you for the uh 20 gifted memberships much appreciated wait okay so i think
03:49:36.620
before i got up and took a while to get fucking changed into this shit it's not an easy
03:49:41.340
it's not an easy thing to get into yeah it was tough this shit was hard uh
03:49:47.460
y'all were being very rude to me about my fashion choices i was deeply hurt and offended
03:49:55.920
that all of you were hating on my flannel and you need to lose the flannel i think yeah
03:50:02.000
whoa whoa whoa the flannels i know that's i know that's like your thing you know that's my thing
03:50:07.680
i know it's your thing but if maybe if you paired the flannel with like a nicer shirt underneath and
03:50:12.960
then like some jeans like it's jeans i dress for speed baby i dress for speed i ain't trying to
03:50:22.500
dress bro have you ever tried to throw a fucking high kick in jeans son how often you would think
03:50:29.100
son i'd be throwing kicks all day i'd be like you never know when you gotta be fucking kicking some
03:50:35.520
motherfucker see i i dress for a zombie apocalypse i'm fucking ready some some shit goes down bro
03:50:41.380
shit hits the fan see you guys overlook this shit because you'd be wearing heels and shit but
03:50:46.160
us men we gotta be thinking okay i don't ever wear sandals when i go out in public because in case
03:50:50.940
some shit goes down i want to be in some proper shoes so i can run yeah me and brian wolf back to
03:50:55.500
back that's what's up you guys you guys don't have the privilege hold on you guys don't have the
03:51:02.440
privilege of being conscious of these shit hits the fan scenarios that's why y'all be wearing heels and
03:51:09.440
you think you're gonna run away from a tsunami and heel son no we're we're on the coast why are you
03:51:13.960
looking at me we're here the fucking coast we are here this is the coast i'm the tallest here i do not
03:51:18.900
wear heels california son there could be a tsunami i won't even let you i have pumice sweats too i wear
03:51:24.480
flannels i'm not trying to get to high grounds and some heels son brian what is there ever is there
03:51:31.180
ever an occasion that you do dress up huh i said is there ever an occasion that you do dress up
03:51:35.560
funerals bar mitzvahs yeah no weddings no weddings just funerals and bar mitzvahs and weddings i guess
03:51:46.240
just go to utah everybody gets married in utah everyone's getting married so brian sweatpants
03:51:50.820
are comfortable there's weddings like every day yeah bill gates wore wait bill gates uh steve jobs
03:51:56.960
wore new balance new balance and he's a bill he was a billionaire before he tragically died of
03:52:03.360
cancer new balance is actually kind of nice it's pretty yeah but did he wear those kind of trending
03:52:08.820
what did you say he didn't wear the same fit i mean should the brand matter that much like i just
03:52:17.060
definitely quality but sometimes here's the thing here's what you guys don't understand it's not
03:52:22.460
our job as men to be the pretty ones that's y'all job no in america in europe because then that's
03:52:29.180
so nice they're not ready and they could not ready still be ready oh yeah it's not even it's not yeah
03:52:36.480
it's just it's just looking clean cut and knowing how to present yourself you know i look i was gonna
03:52:42.800
have a get a haircut is not even aerodynamic so me and brian pre-planned this i said i dressed nice
03:52:48.520
and i was like ryan are you gonna wear the flannel just so someone's ready you know repurpose it a
03:52:52.700
little bit yeah it's not even like a crazy amount of effort that needs to be put into it honestly
03:52:57.940
it's just kind of knowing how to style yourself and having a few really good kind of timeless pieces
03:53:02.940
you know what guys you've changed my mind it's the reverse of brian can i take you shopping
03:53:08.120
should we have a ceremony no and bury your flannels oh let me take the reverse of the the drake
03:53:14.620
let me take you shopping but not pay for it excuse me i'll help you i'll fix your wardrobe for you
03:53:20.940
i'm high maintenance you gotta wine and dine you're not gonna if you're gonna take me shopping you're
03:53:24.480
paying for that you know your worth yeah that's right yes queen
03:53:29.200
can you take that last part back the yes queen can we not go can we not use that one it's it's
03:53:37.440
done accept it okay uh let's see what are we did we it doesn't do social we did this one actively
03:53:44.320
dresses down to not be flashy the social media thing is a turn on not having social media no i like when
03:53:49.960
a man has social media donated 100 get a gold chain and he'll be golden no listen no listen do
03:53:59.800
you guys are you guys familiar with the band pearl jam do you guys know eddie vedder yes yes that's
03:54:04.240
what i'm going for okay okay put some respect now or or are you going for like it was a great look in
03:54:12.400
the early 90s it's a great look today so are you going for like the grunge like kurt cobain i'm
03:54:16.640
i'm looking for i'm yeah but okay but like the eddie vedder look which is okay yeah the kirk
03:54:22.280
kirkobain like they all all the most of the grunge band singers they all died but eddie vedder still
03:54:28.420
kicking so i'm going for the eddie vedder look i mean i'm sure he's gotten like plus sweatpants
03:54:33.800
you know you'll you'll get you'll get some some babes anybody want to try to sing a pearl jam song
03:54:40.560
really quick i grew up on rock band i it's always one like i'm spacing the pearl jam ones but i know
03:54:51.980
for a fact i have some on my playlist huh dude that was like that was one of the mates that you have to
03:54:57.520
know about which one 1970 1970 wait is a live is a live by pearl jam i think you're talking about
03:55:03.340
smashing pumpkins better man is a good song by pearl jam is a live by pearl jam i'm still that's the one
03:55:09.680
i'm just saying yeah oh i thought we were gonna get copyrighted yeah i know but you kind of just like
03:55:15.240
you didn't sing it you're just like i mean eddie vedder kind of sings like he has marbles in his
03:55:19.660
mouth but okay let's move on here we have uh the real mr meatball could you date someone
03:55:25.960
substantially smarter than you i hope to date somebody smarter than me because i need to learn
03:55:31.240
some things if they have high eq too like they have to be smart but also very understand how to
03:55:38.800
talk to people and socially yeah i dated a couple of men who are in the genius iq range and i found that
03:55:49.260
it actually turned out to be quite difficult for me so i like i like when a man is intelligent
03:55:54.300
and smarter than me in areas that i'm not so capable but i think i've learned from me there
03:55:59.780
is actually like a threshold where it's like it doesn't work for me i guess it's just about like
03:56:06.780
complimenting like like the areas where you each are i said like i i'd obviously rather date a man
03:56:12.440
that's smarter than not i've like dated guys for like even just talking about like like different
03:56:18.680
iq levels or like i don't know like study habits things like that like it's it's one of those
03:56:24.800
things again where um what's the word hi whatever it's like hypergamy yeah like i feel like it it's
03:56:30.560
the same thing with intelligence like i want somebody that like i can actually learn from and grow but i
03:56:35.380
also want them to be able to like grow for me and grow and learn from me in the same ways as well
03:56:39.480
instead of me feeling like i'm dragging them along because they're like you know they don't want to
03:56:45.380
try or they just right it doesn't click like that's their peak yeah yeah yeah because i've
03:56:51.380
dated guys where it's like i i'm like looking to get a little bit more out of them and i'm like oh
03:56:55.700
like that's it like that's kind of where it stops
03:56:59.080
jake from rattlesnake tv would you would you date a woman who's stupider than you
03:57:07.300
well of course i would of course yeah they're they're all i'd be much more hesitant to date a woman
03:57:13.300
that's smarter than me yeah i'd rather date a woman who's more stupider than me no way
03:57:17.640
absolutely wait you'd rather date a woman who's smart is that what you think no no i'd rather date
03:57:22.760
a woman who's less smart oh okay why do you think you deserve that that doesn't mean what do you
03:57:27.220
mean deserve like i don't know like what do you mean by that though like can you elaborate on that
03:57:31.720
like what what specifically do you want to know i just like i think that like how do you know
03:57:35.900
well you can tell i mean you have you have exchanges with them and you can see who gets the upper
03:57:40.980
hand and then you have to sort of go easy on them but like is it like wanting to like
03:57:44.740
be like the i don't know how to what's the word for it like are you asking if i were like the
03:57:51.380
power trip type of vibe like all right i'm gonna always know well you don't want you don't want
03:57:56.620
somebody who's always going to be constantly like challenging you on absolutely everything
03:58:01.060
because it's pretentious or like is that the right word i don't know so so like we like
03:58:06.720
somebody like me like i've got a business that i run and i'm constantly challenged by everything
03:58:12.200
around me all the time so when i get home i want tenderness and love and if someone if someone who
03:58:18.720
wants to help me with whatever endeavors i'm doing then that's fine but i don't want to get home and
03:58:22.480
have somebody who just wants to argue with me challenge me and all these sorts of things i don't
03:58:26.400
know when somebody yeah so i think it's important to be able to have intellectual conversations but
03:58:31.580
definitely definitely i said before i like smart girls yeah yeah no one no one needs a brand
03:58:37.220
anymore honestly you know i think one day you're going to be old and like you're going to be gray
03:58:41.760
and old and you're going to want to talk about something with someone and like some of the common
03:58:45.220
misconceptions that like a lot of guys say that they want a girl who's just going to sit there and
03:58:48.820
shut up and be quiet and i i personally don't think that i think that like you want somebody who can
03:58:52.940
have a conversation with you and dumber than you doesn't mean dumb or stupid in general yeah i feel
03:58:57.320
like you maybe worded it differently but i get i get what you're saying more now that you explain
03:59:02.380
it over so someone who's less less smart a little bit of an intelligence gap yes a small intelligence
03:59:08.760
gap i don't even know if it's like an intelligence gap stupid women are really hot like a girl who's
03:59:15.460
just dumb it's bimbo feminism it's just kind of fucking hot just somebody that's like a
03:59:20.720
you're going to be the victim to the bimbo feminism they're enough for guys like you what do you mean
03:59:25.080
the bimbo feminism what do you mean were you here for that part like i'll date i'll end up dating a
03:59:29.660
bimbo no like there's like that you're falling right into the trap are like the that i don't know
03:59:34.760
they're like the paris hilton personality i i love women like that i think they're great i think
03:59:40.860
they're funny they're funny i think i mean you know what i mean i think brian i think you're
03:59:45.220
afraid if they're too smart they're gonna start critiquing your outfit too much if they're too
03:59:49.540
smart they're too smart they're gonna critique my yeah no i feel like uh high iq people probably
03:59:54.640
don't give a shit about how you dress it's you could actually make the opposite argument that like
03:59:58.920
super high high iq women are like not super concerned with material history you can absolutely
04:00:04.020
like you could argue like really like low iq women are like really obsessed with vanity so
04:00:09.160
but uh because there's not much more depth to them after that when i when i say like a dumb like a
04:00:16.260
stupid by the way i'm kind of being facetious but not like a dumb woman that's gonna like
04:00:23.080
fuck up your life but like a simple woman you know sure it's just like simple because like
04:00:30.420
sometimes being hyper intelligent comes with neuroticism so it's like you know they're just
04:00:37.420
because like if you're kind of ignorance is bliss type of shit like if you're super smart and you're
04:00:42.940
just thinking about like man poverty i'm just like bro okay oh my god the world we all basically want a
04:00:53.520
balance i really was want i really was going to the airport looking at people thinking if there was an
04:00:59.580
apocalypse right now who would die first so i i mean wait what i was i'm thinking about how
04:01:04.760
you're like you want someone who doesn't you know they're just sitting there thinking about
04:01:07.480
like oh poverty like i was sitting there in the airport thinking like i wonder like i'm like oh that
04:01:12.300
lady would definitely die first if like zombies took over right now is that what you mean like
04:01:15.780
just thinking about like well like there's like stupid where they make mistakes and they fuck up you
04:01:22.560
know you don't want that what kind of mistakes what's the other and like you're you mean the
04:01:27.640
sweet spot of stupidity is all we're looking for yeah there's like a sweet spot sweet spot for sure
04:01:32.780
it depends on the personality as well like i'm somebody who's a big communicator like i'm traveling
04:01:36.940
with my brother we work together he's a terrible communicator internalizes everything so i find that
04:01:41.900
very frustrating so if i ever had a wife then i would need her to be a good communicator and i find that's
04:01:47.860
a form of intelligence that i would personally need whereas other people like my brother for
04:01:52.200
example he wouldn't care at all about that like you know he's a very creative smart but like wouldn't
04:01:56.800
not not necessarily like somebody who needs to communicate so we have we have here don don a
04:02:02.420
thank you for the uh donation man appreciate it i run 100 mile foot races in sandals lol 39 single
04:02:08.200
marine vet yeah there we go that's an exception you can do it in sandals around what did i miss was i
04:02:14.960
away from this part yeah you said that you don't wear you know you don't leave the house and he
04:02:19.640
ready to save people and he's saying he's a vet and he wears i run 100 look there's people who do
04:02:24.120
barefoot look i was gonna say i run barefoot when i run you finish that and you have blisters i'm just
04:02:29.280
i'm just saying the most comfortable way listen if you're trudging through the glass there's glass
04:02:35.080
strewn streets of the paris riots and then there's like um what what's uh what's like a uh disease you
04:02:43.740
can get on your uh hepatitis you know you want shoes when you're walking through the streets son
04:02:50.660
i'm not walking around new york city or san francisco in fucking barefoot just saying
04:02:56.640
shoes in a city look i go you go to the beach yeah you go in the sand fine you can you can go
04:03:01.000
barefoot but uh i'm just saying i'm just saying you know you can't do that brian do you think your
04:03:06.900
level of risk aversion is normal because even with like first dates and marriage and not wanting
04:03:12.560
to wear sandals huh are you genuinely asking what wait so what's the question what's your question
04:03:19.860
do you think your level of risk adversity is normal is my level of risk averseness normal yeah you're
04:03:29.840
like you're always worried about these weird situations i'm deeply worried about this you're
04:03:34.480
right yeah i'm super deep he's trolling you okay maybe maybe not the sandals but like the the
04:03:41.900
marriage and like not paying on a first date i do feel like really insecure when i'm wearing sandals
04:03:46.940
though not gonna lie like i do in the back of my head i'm like bro if shit goes down i'm fucked
04:03:52.300
you feel vulnerable right yeah like i'm going to chipotle bro who knows who's coming
04:03:58.020
some fucking gunman comes in chipotle i got my fucking sandals on i'm fucked i can't run and i
04:04:04.680
can't run in sandals son there's also the feet fetishers you don't want to be showing your toes
04:04:11.320
you know what's crazy you know what's fucking crazy if you there's a website called wiki feet
04:04:16.360
i'm on that shit not like someone someone uploaded my feet pics to that you're lying do you feel betrayed
04:04:23.500
i'll send it just like some weird dudes like a couple some weird dudes be screenshotting my feet
04:04:34.400
i know i didn't put it online i'm just saying there's like a photo and my feet happened to be
04:04:42.000
in the photo these motherfuckers like zoom in on the feet i literally have a wiki feet article about me
04:04:48.360
can we can we pull that article no it's they rate my shit though and i'm high rated
04:04:53.840
i'm super high rated on wiki feet watch out girls i'm coming for your bread
04:04:59.240
i'm coming for your only fans money hey class let's go let's fucking go wait so what was your
04:05:06.700
question seriously though i'll try to be serious what was your question does anyone remember my
04:05:11.900
do you think your level of risk aversity is realistic or is it normal you seem very highly
04:05:19.040
adverse my high is that what you're saying or like high anxiety i don't know you're like very
04:05:23.900
you're very nervous about certain situations i don't think he's nervous yeah man i'm just planning
04:05:28.260
for the worst yeah in terms of marriage in terms of marriage and he's beyond marriage you have to be
04:05:34.860
careful these days it's there's not it's not being risk averse it's being smart and calculated
04:05:38.600
not thinking with your dick yeah but even like not paying on the first date i feel like sometimes
04:05:43.120
you just got to risk the l i don't know there's been times when i have paid i've i feel like i've
04:05:50.220
paid on first dates like a lot of times and why do you do that fine just because i am i'm able to
04:05:58.280
and i want to and it doesn't matter i know it's gonna come back like it's just it's just one are these
04:06:04.320
are these dates where you're just going out to dinner or that is there an activity involved
04:06:07.920
in the day as well doesn't matter wait tasia has a question for me please restate your question i
04:06:15.400
will i will answer it do you think your level of risk aversion is normal what's what specifically
04:06:23.060
are we talking about here do you do you feel like it's normal for you to be so concerned about like
04:06:28.860
what could possibly go wrong in terms of marriage or well in terms of anxiety yeah i think it might be
04:06:35.640
more general but especially in dating and marriage so you're you're saying that like when it comes to
04:06:41.180
dating i am risk averse yeah more than the normal more than the norm well i think i think i'm i am
04:06:48.020
merely moving and operating the same way that like an average woman would move in terms of my screening
04:06:54.000
process because i think men are honestly terrible screeners and they'll honestly take anything that
04:07:00.040
comes whereas like i think i'm approaching like when it comes to the screening that i do like
04:07:05.840
it's commensurate with like the average woman so am i risk averse when it comes to dating probably
04:07:15.900
but that's smart to a degree it's smart i think you can miss out on a lot of great girls by refusing to
04:07:25.000
pay for a first date no that's some gangster shit they love that like your name is grace right
04:07:29.880
you can't tell me wait what's gangster not paying for it huh not paying for it
04:07:34.740
no it's cowardly how's it cow i take offense i take offense someone give me a glove i'm gonna
04:07:42.880
challenge you to a duel how dare you call me a coward you can't tell me that if a woman like grace
04:07:48.860
wanted to go on a date with you that you'd be like oh yeah she's sleeping with a bunch of men so i can't
04:07:52.860
buy this nice lady at a dinner oh no she's got the miley cyrus hair i don't know if i'm
04:07:57.740
wait so brian i don't know this about you you don't ever pay on first dates
04:08:02.180
there are some rare occasions in which i will pay for a first date like you don't even go half and
04:08:08.160
half like it's just a full you don't you don't like no no i'll pay i'll pay for my food of course
04:08:13.380
i'm a gentleman i'll pay for my food that's different wait what if how do you decide when you're
04:08:19.640
paying for her part of the like what does that look like how does that go down oh you want some
04:08:25.000
game i'll give you some game the check comes and you've decided at some point in the date like i'm
04:08:29.940
not paying for her portion what do you mean hold on at some point in the date i've just that's
04:08:34.320
predetermined there's not there's not the decision in the middle of the date where like i'm not paying
04:08:39.420
for this shit it's like going in i don't care how cool she is i ain't paying for that shit because
04:08:43.280
you said sometimes you'll pay sometimes you don't so i thought like what how do you oh that's fair
04:08:47.600
that's why i was like you're right how are you deciding yeah you've caught me so in the
04:08:52.980
one question at a time how do you form a line please i will answer all your questions when to
04:08:58.940
pay for a date and how do you decide when you're not going to and what does that look like on the
04:09:04.240
date for you so there's a uh one thing i'll look at is she's not right income okay income if she's
04:09:14.220
making good money if she's a professional she has a career under those circumstances
04:09:19.760
man i was about to cook bro yeah thank you victor i feel like brian is a bit too careful when it
04:09:27.720
comes to dating but it seems that's not enough looking at how the dating scene looks like in the
04:09:32.840
states in other places you don't have all these factors that make it harder for you cheers brie
04:09:38.840
brie brie huh is that cheese or some shit i'm assuming they meant brie like cheers brie yeah i
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get it i get it um well i mean one well okay one thing he's talking about like for example guys have
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to be cognizant when it comes to the not paying thing uh a lot of maybe not a lot of women but
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enough women do what's called a foodie call where they're going on dates with the without a genuine
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intention of pursuing anything whether it be sexually or romantically so they'll they'll go on a date
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with a guy because they had nothing better to do and they just want a free meal no i'm not saying
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all women do this but if you've dated long enough like you've ran into a girl who's a user just like
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i'm sure women have you guys have maybe ran into dudes who are fucking either misrepresenting the
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date like i can tell she's that kind of woman so i'm not gonna pay and then why are you taking well
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that's that's like a that's like a uh if that's the determining factor you wouldn't go if you knew why
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are you taking her yeah i wouldn't go right so how so when do you not pay for a date predetermined
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well like i was as i was about to say if she's a career woman if she's making her own money
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and also like living in california a lot of women you encounter tend to lean more liberal
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progressive so you kind of like bro you're you can't be feminist until the check comes you can pay
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like this is what you asked for maybe that's been vindictive but i'd say the main thing is for
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example if she's younger and she's in college or something like she's 21 she's still in college
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under those circumstances i'd be more inclined more inclined to pay but honestly i feel like you can
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do some even extra gangster shit and just do something for free do some free shit go for a little
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little so the best move and it's only a couple of men have ever done it it's when the the thing that i
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love the most is when the man excuses himself to go to the restroom and he pays the bill so that when
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it when so it's not even an issue at the table so he takes care of the bill and it's done and then
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they come and they say thank you that happened to me and i swear it was like wow yeah that was a class
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act because he was like i'm not even going to put her in a position he knows he knows who i am
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he's like i'm not even going to go there it didn't matter like what i made what i did whatever
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whatever he's like i don't mean of course i want to get it and so he just got it yeah listen this
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isn't like what i'm what i am putting out there is not like the most effective thing you can do the
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most effective thing you can do regardless of what the situation is whether it's a foodie call whether
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it's not whether she's liberal whether she's conservative is to pay for the date however as a
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matter of principle even though it comes at my detriment or my potential detriment by losing
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women for me it's kind of like a principle thing because because if you're like dating liberal women
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which i mean in my i i'm trying to avoid that in recent recency but like living in california living
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in santa barbara a super liberal place a lot of the women you're going to counter are probably like
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lean liberal you they'd probably say i believe in gender equality gender roles should be removed
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blah blah blah like i'm not gonna i'm not genders can be equal and have different roles
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men and women are equal in their dignity but you can't but they can have different roles
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and they can have and they can be complimentary you don't have to say that a woman
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is lesser than a man to justify paying for a woman's meal no that's that's not what i'm saying
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but there are certain gender roles that benefit men and there are certain gender roles that benefit
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women okay so you don't get to like gent equality is not a buffet where you pick and choose the
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benefits with which you like you you take the the equality that benefits you and disregard the
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that's my view so you're saying that if a woman i just for clarification so if the woman wants the
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right to vote and the right to an education then she shouldn't anticipate a man paying for her meal
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to to to give her a small social cue that he is of a provider mindset well being a provide being in
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the provider mindset that's a that's a uh traditional gender role i i i'm not sure the the two examples
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you gave are perfect examples but i'm trying to think of like you could think of one i'm trying to
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think of a a better example um for example okay you want a man who's a leader and who's a protector
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and who's going to take initiative right in what sense okay so well paying for the date that would
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be like a man being in the leadership position so if you want a man to be in that leadership position
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he ought to have like the man in a long-term relationship in a marriage should be the head
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of the household in other words the final decision on any issue is mine for example if i don't if i want
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my kids to not go to public school and i want them to go uh be homeschooled and you disagree with me
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it's my call right so i would only marry a man whose judgment i trusted in the first place okay so
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i'm only going to marry a man where i feel like he would make proper decisions for my life and my
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children's life and for the betterment of the family sure and so that's a that's a non
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issue to me that's so i want him to be a leader i if i don't respect him and i don't think he's a good
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decision maker well you shouldn't be dating then i wouldn't be dating him so i that's like of course
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i want that i'm trying to think of another example well here's go ahead priya i definitely agree with
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that but to an extent i think that just because i do believe that the man of the home is essentially
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the main decision maker there are probably going to be decisions that he's going to make that i don't
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fully agree with at the at that point in time but i'm going to trust him and believe because i
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trust his decision making capability and i trust that he has my um our well-being and the well-being
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of our you know future kids at the forefront of his mind and i have to trust that he's making these
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decisions for for that betterment i agree 100 and i actually think this i actually think that uh
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oftentimes men make better decisions 100 uh than i would make and i think i've learned in dating that
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sometimes men have a foresight that i don't have um and if i just defer to their decision and
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and what they've chosen i often find that if i sit back and allow it to play out it actually is a great
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decision um whereas when i was younger i think i might have been like well i don't i don't see that
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and i'm not sure and i think we should do it this way or whatever but now i don't know i feel
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differently now so i'm saying i agree with you no totally and oh go ahead go sorry just one more
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quick point um just women tend to be more emotional decision makers and men tend to be more rational so
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i think therefore that's why they it like historically make better and more uh trusted decisions so let me
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ask you a question is it a man's job to pay on a first date
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i think for me if a man doesn't pay he's not the man for me okay most likely now if i were to say
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it's a woman's job to cook and clean do you object to that statement or is that okay for you um i think
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that if someone's in a traditional gender world marriage and they've decided like the woman's going
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to stay home and cook and clean and and raise the kids and the husband's going to be a provider like
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that's fine now now i'm not just to clarify i'm not necessarily saying that that's what i believe
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yeah but as a woman even if you're a liberal leaning woman you're not going to get a ton of pushback if
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you say i want a guy who or i think men should pay for the first date however if a guy were to say
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i think a woman should cook and clean you're gonna get a lot well people will be losing their
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shit over that if a man wants a woman who wants to stay home and be a homemaker then he should find
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that kind of woman there's lots of women who want to do that i think that's great i have nothing wrong
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with that um i do know women who don't like when men pay on dates and that's fine too but you're asking
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my opinion do i think a man should pay on the first date that's i people have free will i they can
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do whatever they want all i'm saying is if i go on a date and i go to dinner if i'm asked out on a
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date from a man and we go to this dinner and the bill came and he wanted to split it with me
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i would split the bill i wouldn't say anything about it i would quietly pay my piece i would quietly like
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pay my piece of the bill but i wouldn't go on a second date with him that's fine and look everyone
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can have i mean i don't it's it's not like a big it's just my preference yeah okay but couldn't it
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be my preference to not want to pay on the first date it can be your preference yes okay but you
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object to it i don't object to it for you if that's your choice and that's attracting the kind
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of woman that you want but for me if you and i went on a first date and you said hey nicole let's go
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out to dinner we go to some seafood place i don't know you're wearing flannel and i'm looking great
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and then the bill came in and you wanted to uh you said okay let's split the bill i'd be like okay great
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like i wouldn't i wouldn't be negative in the moment i'd be polite and i'd split the bill with you but i
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wouldn't go out again yeah that's fine i mean well you're bringing up the physical appearance thing
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like in terms of a man's dress i mean i would simply just reiterate once again that's while it
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does add bonus points for man to be physically attractive or well-dressed that is not our primary
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method at least i believe of being attractive to a partner i agree um that's i think that's more
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within the realm of of women i agree in that situation though at the same time like it also
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does kind of depend on like who sure who invited who out well who invited who out yeah but generally
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generally speaking men are initiating first dates if i split the bill with a man it's because i'm not
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interested in him so i'll sometimes i will offer to split it sure or to pay it and yeah it's i'm not
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interested no and look there's definitely there's definitely guys and there's definitely guys that
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will be if you even offer to split they might be like turned off by that there are some guys who
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are gonna be like right that's why i would only do that it might be turned off i wasn't interested in
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him but then there there are definitely guys who will look at that and be like oh okay she wants to
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equally contribute to the start of this relationship like and i don't think that makes a guy like a
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super liberal soy boy cuck or anything i just i like when they reach for it i think when they pretend
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that they're gonna like find their person they don't they they have no intention i don't reach
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honestly though the hardest i i think the hardest thing a girl could do is she just pays for the
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whole fucking thing like she's a straight up simp that's so fucking hard if a girl's just that's
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actually that's actually a good girl like she's like i'll be true that's called simp that's called
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i did that a couple dates ago i went inside to the restroom and i paid the whole bill that
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shows that she's really trying but i wasn't interested in that that's just your nature i just got it
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like yeah i can't acts of service let's go um wait should we talk about how um lots of people
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are saying because i'm 39 i'm too picky and i shouldn't and i shouldn't have uh so many i
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shouldn't be asking for so much i'm asking for too much because i'm 39 yeah just out of curiosity
04:21:34.940
so yeah do you want kids i'm open either way you're open yeah i'm open to having a child um and
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if i don't have a child then i'm okay with that do you date people who do have kids i don't date
04:21:49.180
people with children no okay have you before i tried once because a friend of mine was like why
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don't you try dating men with kids and i tried it and it wasn't for me the question comes back to that
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like if you do want to have kids then obviously 39 you're getting on so it's going to be much much
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harder for you to have kids from now on so then i think that that's what people would be alluding
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to in terms of lowering the bar a little bit with your standards um yeah so for me so yeah i only have
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probably a few years if i want to have a child if i meet someone and we get on quickly and it's the
04:22:23.940
right person and i get pregnant we have a child that's beautiful if i don't meet the man who is for me
04:22:30.960
until my 50s and that time has passed for me um i can show my maternity and my femininity and that
04:22:38.400
love in other ways um and it will probably be something that i do mourn to some extent
04:22:44.300
but that's okay um i just would want to find the right person for me and how how much are you willing
04:22:52.600
to wiggle in terms of this arrangement because if you did want to have kids like like we just said
04:22:57.600
the clock's ticking quite a bit are you do you have wiggle room there or is it are you pretty
04:23:02.180
set in your ways let's just let's just take the first date for example okay i think that you're
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you expect too much in terms of the first date okay i can understand that you'd asking him or
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having him i'll explain it so like i can understand why you'd want someone to be financially sort of
04:23:19.200
stable and then obviously that first date thing that's a generosity thing um and you know that's
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that's an attractive thing but in terms of paying for the first dates maybe the guy is just seeing
04:23:30.660
if you're willing to go halves like maybe he's willing to maybe he's just maybe maybe he's just
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doing that to just see if you have if you if you understand reciprocity maybe and i've gone halves
04:23:41.560
and i've reached for my wallet and i've reached for my wallet with the intention to offer i've also
04:23:45.820
not done the old fumble yeah i've properly but i've i've i'll if i'm going like i'll actually you know
04:23:50.780
i will so i've done all the different yeah i just i i'm not sure if i really necessarily believe
04:23:58.900
you when you say that you that's an automatic no-go because it has to be something else that
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happened in the day because if he if it was a really good date and he was a good prospect and
04:24:10.520
if you do want to have kids in the future surely you wouldn't just not go on a second date because
04:24:15.400
he it's an interesting question because i think the men that i'm going on dates with
04:24:19.400
they they don't want me to pay for half so it's it's i i'm trying to imagine a scenario with them
04:24:25.900
a man i'm going on a date with who wants to go halves but i'm not like what about like i just said
04:24:31.660
reciprocity he wants to just he wants you to be showing that you're willing to reciprocate
04:24:37.700
from the jump okay so if i'm on a date and he wants me to go halves i'll go halves i've said that
04:24:44.960
but then you won't go on a second date probably not probably not but what if it was a what if it
04:24:51.280
was a good date otherwise and what if you were actually very surprised because he was generous
04:24:54.560
in other regards and he strikes he was a generous yeah then i would i would it's not an end-all be-all
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it's just it's a it's a difficult question because the men that i go on dates with
04:25:04.400
are not asking me to go have it's just like not in their nature really maybe to ask me to go
04:25:10.280
halvesies so i'm not in that scenario yeah i see what you mean i don't so so they i mean getting
04:25:18.080
back to the whole wiggle room thing there is wiggle room you do have wiggle room in in in terms of
04:25:22.820
the dates because it is it depends on what we're wiggling on like i just said what like he does like
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like he goes like he goes halvesies on a first date yeah just little things like that because
04:25:35.860
like if you do want to have children and that should be something that you're pursuing with
04:25:40.180
some vigor yeah rather than just saying oh well not him not him not him not him you know so yeah if
04:25:45.560
you're pursuing it then you'd want to maybe get to know somebody on a deeper level before you
04:25:49.720
reject them for not wanting to pay for the date every time sure i understand that yeah yeah jake from
04:25:55.620
rattlesnake tv are you saying that she has too high standards yes i am actually well you know i
04:26:04.160
actually appreciate the standards though i like i like the fact that you like know what you want but
04:26:08.800
in terms of your if i were you like and you know you were sort of heading towards your 40s
04:26:13.820
date a homeless person it's a just kidding i'm kidding it's it's it's not i don't my personal
04:26:18.780
opinion is that it's not a very nice existence to be north of 50 and not have a family
04:26:23.220
so that's fair yeah i was also thinking about never being married ever so we might have like
04:26:29.400
slightly different you know i think that's also so um yeah their own meatball donated 100
04:26:37.740
thank you man why not consider just doing it yourself or at least freeze your eggs to keep
04:26:43.700
your options open freeze the eggs option are they suggesting yourself isn't having a child
04:26:51.160
yeah they're saying have a child on your own like freeze your eggs we know what happens to
04:26:55.200
children who are raised without a father i don't what i don't prison i wouldn't do ivf
04:26:59.960
prison poverty prison wait children who are raised by only their father
04:27:03.840
children who are raised in single mother homes are 20 times more likely to end up in prison
04:27:10.080
far more likely to end up in poverty drop out of bad things
04:27:14.680
single fathers is much less much less single dads well i mean because obviously single dads
04:27:22.980
have more of the tough love and then single mothers are more nurturing so especially if you're a young
04:27:27.300
boy you're gonna walk all over your mother yeah and we're and we're also looking at the like the
04:27:31.180
majority of people that are going to prison are also men so boys that grow up without a strong and
04:27:36.840
good male figure in their lives that's that's the result of it yeah and also i was raised in a single
04:27:44.020
mother like home i was raised in a single parent home and i feel like it's not the greatest
04:27:51.760
environment to grow up in because you have so much of a burden put on you because i was the oldest so
04:27:57.120
i kind of was the second parent and i just i don't think it's fair like i don't think everyone
04:28:02.680
has the right to be a parent and like yeah i don't think freezing eggs is a ethical way to do
04:28:09.680
things yeah would you guys date a single father i would that's right i love that for you brad pit
04:28:18.780
would you pay for the first date huh would you pay for the first date he's a single father
04:28:22.680
so i did date a single father and it was not in the plans i never saw myself doing so it was just
04:28:32.120
we were good friends and it it progressed into more um he was a great guy but we didn't align on a lot
04:28:38.780
of values and the kids thing was a problem for me did you meet the kids i did yeah i actually i
04:28:44.080
scold i bet you're a great scolder i met the kids before we started dating because like i said we
04:28:49.740
were friends so i had met them prior to us starting to date um but yeah i did realize that in terms of
04:28:56.360
especially how he was a great parent but we had differences in how i would personally handle things
04:29:01.560
if they were my kids or if we had kids together there would be a lot of issues there word uh would
04:29:08.960
you date a single mom no i don't i don't think i would date a single mom nope i wouldn't wait so
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okay just to finish off our little point there so you said i was too sorry i gotta spit these out
04:29:22.640
don't look at me while i do the shape of that that was really uncomfortable
04:29:27.280
you think i'm risk averse when it comes to dating
04:29:32.620
yeah well and i wonder too do you want a traditional woman
04:29:37.200
do i want a traditional woman how many women are traditional that was the thing
04:29:44.900
okay you know what you gotta try brian get on bumble get on bumble and set your location in
04:29:52.040
different cities and go find you these women who aren't in la um well like the thing is right
04:29:58.180
just one other point with the like not wanting to pay um a lot of
04:30:03.700
a lot a lot of people are dating multiple people and i've said this before countless times
04:30:09.860
um one of my one of the reasons i don't want to pay for a first date is i don't want to feel i don't
04:30:15.720
want to be a sucker so like a lot of girls when they're single and a lot of guys move this way too
04:30:20.860
they're like dating and sleeping with multiple people they're single they're hooking up with a
04:30:25.340
person here hooking up with somebody there have three three four five people that they're
04:30:30.660
or dating in rotation and it's like i reserve i'm gonna reserve that treatment to somebody who's
04:30:39.860
loyal to me so you don't get girlfriend treatment until you're my girlfriend so if you're and like
04:30:44.780
most i think going into a first date you kind of have to go in in 2023 like assuming this person's
04:30:52.300
like could be fucking multiple other people right now i would feel like a total sucker paying for a
04:30:58.560
girl that just fucked a guy the night before so i can understand that you know the same thing yeah
04:31:04.900
you know i can understand that i'm like the i could be going out with a guy and he just sure
04:31:10.060
fuck like two girls how do you get past that i wouldn't even know like that's the whole point
04:31:14.280
just starting to date somebody like it's not like privilege well i i would like to meet a girl
04:31:20.620
that's not moving like that or just don't date people who are you know dating and sleeping with
04:31:26.120
multiple but how do you know because people be lying you can still feel somebody out and like
04:31:32.120
even how quickly they try to advance things with you you can tell sometimes plenty to know
04:31:37.140
there's here's the thing though there are girls that the their previous 20 sexual partners they
04:31:44.980
fucked on the first date and then they meet you and then they're like you know what i want a
04:31:51.200
boyfriend i'm gonna try this out let's wait and then they make you wait so it's not it's not
04:31:56.460
necessarily an indicator that that they don't you guys all know this is true okay when i when i to be
04:32:02.720
fair with you brian hold on one sec she had something go ahead i said they see something special you
04:32:07.320
know you're you're worth the wait wait no it was something before i think you had the point oh like
04:32:13.160
how do you get past that yeah how do you get past that how do you get past the whole okay we're just
04:32:17.300
going on dates hey now you're now you're my girlfriend so now i'm gonna be paying for all
04:32:21.000
this i'm gonna be taking you here and there and you're gonna be my parents but how do you get
04:32:24.240
past that how do you how do you get there what what does the transition look like yeah from how do
04:32:29.020
you start exclusive being decide you having some trouble no well you said i'm not gonna treat you
04:32:36.220
like my girlfriend until you're my girlfriend so do you just like treat them like a side until you're
04:32:41.460
ready to be like hey you'll i need to i need to know that you're not talking to other guys and
04:32:46.480
you're just talking to me and that we're exclusive but how does how does she prove that to you like
04:32:51.620
well it takes time right yeah but like what are the steps to like proving that to you like do i
04:32:56.400
have to like give you my phone like the indicators well you gotta like what like i feel like i think
04:33:03.100
the girl has to be the one that broaches the exclusivity conversation okay so the girl has to be
04:33:09.060
like conversation yeah the girl has to be like will you be my boyfriend trust huh so you think
04:33:16.800
you think that the woman should be asking them that's a hundred percent the a conversation the
04:33:21.540
girl should should initiate you think the girl should initiate asking out the guy no no no not asking
04:33:27.520
out the guy but like you've been dating and then what are we wants most of the time it is the woman
04:33:35.140
i think a lot of i think a lot of men might perceive that to be a turnoff and i think a lot of women
04:33:40.180
well those men don't don't want to like give any commitment yeah but if you really like the girl
04:33:45.920
and like you've been like holding your like frame for a while and then she comes to you and she says
04:33:50.500
like oh what are we and you've held out i think it's obvious at some point yeah you know but if you're
04:33:56.080
just if you're just like fucking a girl and then she's like what are we it's like yeah yeah ryan
04:34:00.440
i don't know maybe i'm changing my mind here maybe i think maybe okay this is i might experiment
04:34:06.020
in just splitting the bill all the time because you know what if i split the bill then i feel like he
04:34:12.900
will feel that he has less he won't come on and try to turn things sexual so quickly like i feel like
04:34:21.360
if i just split split split all the time sorry hold on just a sec donated 99 dollars brian number 80
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brought a refreshing group of gals would love to talk to these ladies about life in general seem
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chill elizabeth bro when she's absolutely stunning if i had ins to i'd do her oh well love the show
04:34:42.160
made this account for you bro dude chris disney thank you very much for the uh tts much appreciated
04:34:48.760
man yeah 80 was a it was a good episode elizabeth she was cool um thank you very much man much
04:34:53.540
appreciated go ahead with your point i was just gonna say it might uh maybe it'll keep in the
04:34:57.540
guy's mind like we're friends only we're friends only and it will keep them from trying things so
04:35:02.540
quickly okay if i hold my if i don't allow him to be paying for me well there's okay there's two
04:35:08.260
points there so there's definitely like scumbag dudes who feel entitled to sex if if they pay for
04:35:14.520
you which i disagree with i think if you a lot of them there's guys like oh i bought you dinner like
04:35:20.000
right that's that's really scummy if a guy has an expectation of sex um but the other thing is
04:35:25.080
like they'll view it as a friendship i don't think like uh i mean like as long as it started off the
04:35:31.260
scummy guys like oh okay what kind of friendship really exists between a man and a woman no no i'm
04:35:37.580
not saying platonic i'm not saying platonic no i don't have close if you're on a date with a guy
04:35:44.420
isn't it necessarily like if you're if you've gone on if you've just gone on a date with a guy i don't
04:35:49.820
think whether you split or not like removes the romantic undertones of no but if the guy's scummy
04:35:56.740
because this is what i'm thinking is like guys that go out and then they pay and then they think
04:36:00.520
like oh i can try and come on to her or whatever you know and i i that makes me very uncomfortable
04:36:05.800
so i'm just saying i'm just saying maybe i'll experiment with splitting i don't know why
04:36:12.740
you're fighting me on this i'm telling you maybe i maybe i will try splitting your motives
04:36:17.940
i mean it would it would potentially counter the that cohort of men who feel entitled to sex because
04:36:28.820
they've uh just paid for your for your dinner i think though that's really scummy behavior it is to
04:36:34.440
feel like entitled because you've paid for a girl on a date but um so it could potentially fend those
04:36:42.140
types of dudes off but um romantic um but uh yeah so okay so wow i've changed your mind congrats
04:36:52.100
maybe but i mean i yeah i don't know wait yeah i'm still confused do you want a traditional woman
04:37:01.600
what do you mean by okay so so do i want a woman with like a low body count who's like feminine and
04:37:07.580
yeah yeah okay because i i feel like when you tell girls oh you're on only fans but you want a
04:37:14.560
traditional guy doesn't make sense that's how i feel about you like you want a traditional woman but
04:37:18.860
you won't take that role in the beginning yeah that's that's a fair point um because i think
04:37:24.320
you're going to push away a lot of really great traditional woman who you would totally be into
04:37:28.960
and vice versa sure however can we agree that the discrepancy between not wanting to pay on the first
04:37:35.080
date like like the let's say the social faux pas or the egregiousness of no offense to the girls
04:37:44.360
here who do only fans uh doing sex work is like way more non-traditional than the guy who just wants
04:37:51.660
to split the bill like can we agree that that's skewing further away from tradition i don't think
04:37:58.200
the tradition matters i think how much it can be a red flag in the same way a guy will shut down the
04:38:03.060
body count a girl could very well shut down you based off that decision and i also think
04:38:08.560
like there's just risks you have to take in dating and i think if you you know but i've already laid
04:38:15.860
out the scenarios where like if she's in college and she is for example traditional uh and you know
04:38:23.860
she's younger she's not making a ton of money then then i'm more obliged to pay for the first date
04:38:30.560
however if you're a professional career woman i mean that in and of itself is kind of non-traditional
04:38:37.540
okay i think i think it sounds like you've kind of just accepted like anybody that that's going to
04:38:42.440
weed out and turn off from from seeing you as a romantic partner you've kind of accepted that yeah
04:38:47.780
well and take it as a well i don't want to be with that person they're not right for me and i mean the
04:38:52.360
other point the other thing that i would um point out when it comes to this is that um women who require
04:38:59.100
romance they're just not really that into you like because a girl will
04:39:06.000
so are you like a guy who's attractive enough you're not gonna be you even if he doesn't pay
04:39:14.360
maybe if you're it's your preference that he pays if he's attractive enough to you if you want him
04:39:19.900
bad enough that's not gonna deter you but then like what do you expect a courtship to look like
04:39:28.180
what do you mean like in terms of getting to know somebody when you first start dating
04:39:33.380
what do you expect that to look like if there's not going to be any romance involved
04:39:36.700
well i think you're like exaggerating the term romance a little too much like we're not what
04:39:44.160
no one's looking to like have rose petals laid out on the floor constantly when i say romance
04:39:48.880
basically just i mean as the guy obviously paying for you know romantic overtures sure flowers
04:39:56.160
gifts well those are things that you like especially the flowers and the gifts of course
04:40:00.880
a lot of women appreciate that for myself i love flowers gifts i don't really care too much about
04:40:05.000
but i'm a sucker for flowers you go on the first date with a guy he shows up at the flowers that's
04:40:08.920
too much yeah who said that depends you said that i think if i'm going oh well hold on it's too much
04:40:14.980
see if i'm still on the first date with a guy and he's pulling up with flowers i think he's trying
04:40:18.780
too hard if exactly but that's why all this like romantic shit the like it's no longer appreciated
04:40:26.720
on mass because as a guy you're it's like 50 50 either the girl appreciates it or honestly more
04:40:34.300
likely than not she's gonna be like it's something if a guy can show up and be himself it shows like
04:40:38.420
if he shows up shows up with flowers i'm wondering like okay is he trying to make up for something that
04:40:42.760
he feels like he lacks but why do you think that why is that not just a kind gesture that somebody
04:40:47.840
does that's a very classical gesture i think more so like it's it's that's the norm these days too
04:40:52.220
much like that's that's the norm in terms of like romance but in other countries like like i travel a
04:40:57.460
lot and live in live in europe quite a bit and in those countries women love that stuff yeah i mean
04:41:03.040
i'm sure it'd be nice i guess it's just more so i mean it depends on the context of if you've met
04:41:07.620
them previously if i met them in person i guess i'm thinking first date of like let's say it's off
04:41:11.620
of a dating app let's say it's off of like a dating app if it's off a dating app and i'm meeting
04:41:16.220
them for the first person which i'm not even on dating are you on farmers only hypothetically
04:41:20.200
christian mingle what are you on i'm not on any dating apps i actually don't like dating apps
04:41:24.640
there is excuse me it depends on there is a dating app it's called mutual and it's literally
04:41:29.640
yep it is just depends what is soaking is that what do you know i'm talking about is that
04:41:36.220
are we really getting oh i'm sorry is this is what is it haram i'm sorry i heard it's a thing
04:41:41.640
that's done okay i don't know it is a thing that's it's basically i don't it sounds like it's okay it's
04:41:47.380
just like a loophole for virgins i'm vile it's not even i don't know it's just weird there's a lot of
04:41:53.320
like guidelines i guess or okay but so you're on christian mingle you match with a dude he brings
04:41:57.640
you flowers turn off i guess it's more so like i guess okay you're right it really just just comes
04:42:03.000
down to how attractive he is at the end and also how confident he is as well because if he's a
04:42:07.060
confident man and he and he does that and he's like dressed up nice and he gives you flowers it's
04:42:11.100
going to be like yeah that's just i think it depends on so many factors like they could sweep me off
04:42:15.380
their feet otherwise like i'd or i could just be like oh if he's giving you flowers like please please
04:42:19.600
love me yeah exactly maybe maybe i've just had some experiences like that but flowers is like i don't
04:42:26.080
think the flowers are the make you make or break factor yeah that's that's what i was about to say
04:42:29.800
like flowers is never going to be like it's never going to be a maker no and so what's the point
04:42:37.160
but it is just an app okay so when you're when you're when you're especially in the first terms of
04:42:43.340
dating you of course like have this slow build up and it either obviously like like takes off or
04:42:51.280
drastically declines and you stop dating that person but there are little things that somebody
04:42:56.620
can do that slowly speed that process along if it was a guy that i had known previously as well
04:43:03.480
if i'd met him even like i met him in public and he like i got my phone number that way and we've
04:43:09.080
been chatting like a little bit then i feel like that's a different situation from somebody that
04:43:12.980
it's your very first time meeting them like a blind date type situation situation almost or like
04:43:17.420
a dating app yeah i still don't agree i think that like okay obviously and in the sense that we were
04:43:22.600
just talking about if someone shows up super nervous and really unsure of themselves flowers
04:43:26.680
aren't going to make or break that situation that's them but if somebody shows up and is very confident
04:43:31.160
and shows up with flowers whether it's the first time i'm meeting them or not i would absolutely
04:43:36.140
appreciate that i agree with you on that but these days how they care these days guys have to have to
04:43:41.040
absolutely wait to do that sort of stuff i just want to ask why is it that you guys so fervently
04:43:48.020
support a patriarchal traditional belief that men should pay for the first date i never said
04:43:55.940
are you guys in favor of the patriarchy hello i absolutely is the patriarchy kind of awesome
04:44:01.480
i appreciate the you know what can i can i say to the flowers thing i think there's a real problem in
04:44:10.000
our society with apathy in general but especially when it comes to dating it feels like a contest of who
04:44:15.780
cares less about this relationship yeah absolutely that's true more like nonchalant
04:44:20.780
yeah it's an exclusively thing that's happening in the west though yeah guarantee you like we have
04:44:27.620
a very strange and sick dating culture absolutely over here and like like i said before we have to
04:44:32.360
really wait before you give those gestures over here especially and even if you're somebody who
04:44:36.360
appreciates romance you just can't take that chance anymore but if you do that in other countries
04:44:40.420
then women will really really appreciate it from the jump so i think i think because there's all a
04:44:45.660
lot of people have fear about like the love bombing thing i know like it's a strange concept about that
04:44:49.860
about just coming on super strong and like you said it's just the culture out here like coming
04:44:55.960
on super strong and like retracting like out of nowhere yeah bromance is dead we have to
04:45:00.680
we have to get a couple of chats out of the way we also um nick was so kind as to put pull up my wick of
04:45:07.180
feet great looking forward to it oh god i'll have this on any fans later but let's go
04:45:13.880
go for it oh my gosh this is a thing control mouse wheel up please i've never heard of this
04:45:22.600
control yeah okay so somebody made this shit look at my rating four point four out of five
04:45:28.340
scroll down so i don't even know how they found some of these photos but laying in bed
04:45:36.220
wait what is that who got that picture oh that's on my instagram okay okay you're just asking
04:45:43.180
so does anyone here have a foot fetish nope good thank god i'm happy with people touching my feet
04:45:54.140
right how would you feel if you got into a relationship and the girlfriend asked you
04:45:58.140
to take that picture down because your feet are out what like i didn't post it on my instagram do
04:46:05.160
you think that would be controlling because your feet are out what like they look too good
04:46:08.740
no because a foot fetish like the the term fetish it's like uh i think it isn't something like
04:46:14.080
abnormal that someone's attracted to yeah so like there's nothing inherently sexual about feet
04:46:19.740
so like for a girl to ask me to remove i can't believe i'm analyzing this ridiculous question
04:46:25.260
i completely asked that as a joke too yeah i'm glad you're going no but but it would be like
04:46:28.940
no that that's well first off i i think men and women operate differently so like i don't think
04:46:34.680
so like if even if i had thirst traps on my instagram i think men and women's experiences on
04:46:41.720
social media is very very madison what are you doing come over come over get up what uh what
04:46:50.300
are you eating popcorn hell of a minute you're eating tasty you know how many calories that has
04:46:56.260
that has there's no caloric you want some popcorn girl what's up here you go there you go here eat
04:47:05.540
it on camera so they can see someone's got a popcorn i got you i got you that's gonna be somebody's fetish
04:47:12.600
now the attention men and women receive online is so vastly different so like i think it's it's
04:47:21.240
probably pretty reasonable for a guy to to ask his girl to not post certain types of pictures but it
04:47:25.780
doesn't really make sense for a girl to ask the same because like guys really are not posting like
04:47:31.220
sexualized photos on themselves the majority of them are not the majority of them are
04:47:35.520
current and uh and just the sheer amount of attention that men that women get versus men
04:47:41.980
is like astoundingly different yeah so like you can take an average girl with like a thousand
04:47:46.280
followers on instagram and she's like she's getting dm's she's getting offers to be flown out like so
04:47:51.640
um so whereas most men even attractive men are not really getting dm'd by chicks like there's maybe
04:47:59.660
occasionally but men really don't get that degree of attention so absolutely there's a
04:48:04.900
differential there so and a lot of that just has to do with the fact that like men i mean men are
04:48:10.240
typically the ones who do initiate yeah women and if it's the other way around i think women should
04:48:14.880
be simps though so i'm like i have a very honestly not a lot of people know how to handle that oh it's
04:48:21.200
great like if the fucking chicks all over you like simping it's wonderful yeah it's great
04:48:25.540
i think i've been simping with some people i was like too forward depends i'm curious how everybody
04:48:33.480
feels about that because i don't know how how it differs now versus like throughout time a little
04:48:37.920
bit but the idea of like women um like women asking for a man's phone number like kind of
04:48:43.800
initiating more of that or kind of being like considered forward sometimes like how do you guys
04:48:47.900
i guess how do you guys feel about we don't want a girl to be aggressive about it but you can still
04:48:52.500
you can still show interest you can still take initiative but do so in like a kind of a feminine
04:48:56.900
what's aggressive i've heard i've just heard like it's more so like women like or they they set the
04:49:02.060
guy up to be in the position to move it forward versus like the woman yes yeah you'll glance in our
04:49:07.740
direction for two seconds and then that's your sign i know please say about their eyelashes or top
04:49:12.960
what's like the aggressive if they're like constantly messaging you like i've had a few
04:49:17.840
girls do that where they were they like will constantly be constantly like i think people
04:49:21.160
would like describe it as clingy but if like a woman were to slide into your dms no no that's fine
04:49:26.560
if she slides into your dms that's fine if she does it once every three days then that's different
04:49:31.060
you know it's annoying but if but if you've made the initial contact and if you've gone on a date and
04:49:37.040
then she simps on you after that it's glorious okay so how about if it's if it's them sliding
04:49:41.900
into your dms like a friendlier approach as in like it's like oh just like catching up to be
04:49:47.220
friends versus like hey like i think you're attractive let's go out like how does that
04:49:52.160
differ is that too much then for a woman to say like hey no because if she does if she does that
04:49:56.340
then i think that she's doing that to a lot of other guys too i think it's like it's a little too much
04:50:00.540
it's a process you know if she's that forward with me then i'm like okay well then she's obviously
04:50:04.480
forwarded everyone else but if she but if it feels exclusive and if it feels like a little
04:50:08.480
bit more rare then that'll be different also anything like overtly sexual like if she's like
04:50:14.320
yo let me suck that dick it's like okay relax lady on the first brian but you're like women simping
04:50:22.420
what do you mean is that not no no it's just like two it's like simping in a cute way
04:50:27.760
i was in like a weird situation like maybe like wishing you had a good day yeah stuff like that
04:50:35.660
and also like when when you're just around just the two of you at home and she always got her hands
04:50:39.660
on you like i know i keep bringing it back but european girls are great like that they're very
04:50:43.740
affectionate even like if you're lying at the beach they're always just like touching your back and
04:50:47.320
stroking it just just like intimacy but yeah nice feminine tender yeah well that sort of thing
04:50:52.800
that's like what simping is for a girl i think a lot of people can choose intimacy for like i this
04:50:57.200
is one thing that i think is like people they've started from what love is and they think like lust
04:51:02.040
is love and intimacy means sex when in reality a lot of it has to just do has to do with affection
04:51:07.620
and genuine love and i think and often with a guy who's like you know very busy and career driven
04:51:14.440
and always around other guys and doing deals and like living a very sort of fast-paced masculine
04:51:19.820
lifestyle that's the perfect balance to have that escape as well exactly right to have that soft
04:51:25.240
like feminine touch is absolutely perfect yeah if a girl brings you peace that's that's huge that's
04:51:29.940
the biggest thing like a girl that gives you a headache it's a bit like as you said like if you're a guy
04:51:34.200
and you're a businessman if you have a stressful life when it comes to work like you need like a
04:51:39.900
chick that brings you peace there's no feeling in the world like a like a woman's warmth in that
04:51:44.340
regard and that's something i think can be so important as far as like balancing a household is
04:51:48.180
um for for those who i guess do want to go with more of the traditional route it's like that woman
04:51:53.320
is able to take that load off exactly right there's not there's also one of the greatest things that you
04:51:58.560
can experience is somebody making a home for you 100 coming home and there's and there's food on the
04:52:02.620
table and like you know the house is clean and it's just it's such a wonderful feeling and if a woman
04:52:08.200
does that she can honestly take a guy who operates at 95 to 100 and that's a big difference when you
04:52:14.580
get to the upper echelons like that when a guy's operating at a high level to have a woman there
04:52:18.700
who like can can push him to that next level it's a big thing men want peace and love and like a
04:52:24.640
caring touch from their from their from their girl and men or sorry women want security and protection
04:52:30.800
yeah and also to use that social calibration that you guys are so good at very observant like there
04:52:35.860
was a study done where they put people into a waiting room they thought they were doing something
04:52:39.120
else like a different study and they brought them out of the waiting room after like half an hour
04:52:42.600
and they they said to the man and the woman like a bunch of different people what did you notice and
04:52:46.960
the girls were telling them all the details of the room and everything and the guys were like i don't
04:52:50.400
remember anything so women are much more observant socially so if you guys can use that superpower
04:52:55.500
to like observe exactly what your man needs and take him to that next level honestly it's it's a genuine
04:53:01.300
superpower well that's something i think is so important especially we're talking about feminism
04:53:04.580
earlier like it's become like who's what's the better gender like who who can do more and trying
04:53:09.140
to compare it's like comparing apples and oranges when in reality it's like we're designed to complement
04:53:14.420
each other and work together rather than compete in that notion is being destroyed though because
04:53:19.540
feminism tells you you don't need to do anything for a man you're independent boss babe all of this
04:53:24.660
sort of crap whereas really we both complement each other and we both do things for each other and
04:53:29.620
there's nothing wrong with that and there's nothing wrong with living a life where you want to secure a
04:53:33.940
mate and a partner in a long-term relationship with somebody you can build a legacy and a family
04:53:38.580
with as well as like if if both i mean and if both want to work i think that's great like i i definitely
04:53:43.700
like would love to like stay at home as well but i know i want to still be out and about and have my
04:53:47.860
own things going on with that um but just the idea of like parents being away from the kids so much both
04:53:53.220
working super stressful and then coming home and being stressed with the kids that doesn't like there's no
04:53:58.580
balance to that there's not really anything that's gonna like help take that load off
04:54:03.780
there was a study done in 2019 that um found that the average like american family parents spend i think
04:54:12.340
it's 36 minutes of quality time with their children a day when the rest is just the blue head teachers
04:54:17.540
right they go to school for six to eight hours a day and learn god knows what yeah yeah okay so um
04:54:24.580
one question really quick related to this then we'll do we'll finish up on our chats then we're
04:54:28.900
going to wrap up here because we've gone uh quite long tonight uh okay related to this to our point
04:54:35.220
about the attention that men and women get on instagram social media um starting with you grace how
04:54:41.060
many dms would you say i know you're in a relationship right now um have you gone like a lot of dms how
04:54:46.500
many dms do you get a week a month i get i'm not like getting all the guys but i get like one or
04:54:53.700
two dms a week but they're not from very interesting like any guys that i would give any chance to sure
04:55:00.740
priya what about you how's how are the dms looking um nothing blue check mark well you can buy blue
04:55:06.180
check mark now so uh nothing nothing too crazy how many like uh in terms of volume though how many dms do
04:55:15.940
you get uh probably a handful a week but in terms of them being like outrageous you know claims like sugar
04:55:23.140
daddy kind of stuff i think maybe i've had like a total of 10 ever at least that i've seen
04:55:29.620
okay 10 sugar daddy offers and then a bunch of normal dudes probably just ran those yeah
04:55:36.580
wait so you want the sugar daddy no i don't want any of them you don't want any of them okay
04:55:41.700
what about you how are the dms um probably a handful a week but also i have my handle on my
04:55:48.660
dating profile so that they can see who i am outside of the six photos so a lot of them come from there
04:55:57.300
sure i don't post on instagram so no dms you've never gotten dm'd
04:56:04.500
no i don't think so okay that's fine i probably get a good good amount of dms
04:56:12.580
weekly but i am not currently looking so situationship of course getting in the way
04:56:20.180
um honestly i'm not the most active on instagram i kind of just get like the random like every now
04:56:26.740
and then maybe like one or two every few weeks kind of thing sometimes like mutual
04:56:32.580
okay um well because i do only fans everything's mostly just like slide ups on the thirst traps
04:56:39.700
okay but um like things i would actually take seriously
04:56:44.980
maybe like two three fingers on my hand i can count them but okay
04:56:49.380
what about you how many dms you getting like weekly yeah it depends what it depends what i'm
04:56:59.220
doing that week i guess and how much it's like average like one every month or i would say 20 30 100
04:57:06.980
plus around like the 10 15 or so a month about yeah i i just prefer like more in person anyway so
04:57:17.220
um i would say like a nice amount but it honestly just really really depends on what i'm posting
04:57:25.220
like on my stories what pictures i'm posting bikini pic yeah we're gonna get a nice amount but if i don't
04:57:32.100
post anything not really too often i don't know it depends yeah it really it honestly just really depends
04:57:40.260
okay got it good to know good to know um let's get these chat let's get these chats out the way
04:57:46.500
then we're gonna we'll do a brief after show then we're gonna wrap nick can you pull up the twitch
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really quick guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have
04:57:57.060
one twitch.tv slash whatever mods if you can spam in the chat nick just a reminder you got to make
04:58:02.020
sure it's f11 before you switch over um yo tism thank you for the uh 200 bits liddy likia thank you
04:58:08.580
for the oh six days ago oh it hasn't updated that's weird uh guys twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow
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04:58:20.260
dine and dash is a real thing when it comes to women on dates i've stopped dating because of it
04:58:25.380
it is bad all seems good then ghost note i'm six to 180 pounds and well enough off that i don't need to
04:58:31.940
worry um yeah i think uh jake from rattlesnake tv have you ever had an experience where you take a girl out
04:58:40.900
dinner everything seemed good then you never hear from her again yeah i've had plenty i mean i can't
04:58:47.540
really think of one off the top of my head but yeah it's definitely happened before but are you
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talking about dates where i've paid for it and then they've ghosted it yeah yeah yeah i think funny
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yeah i had one i've done some dine and dashes in myself i actually got arrested once for doing a dine and
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dash when i was younger yeah a little a little asian man chased me with a spatula and then i sprained my
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ankle and here and he sat on me for a while and then god damn okay we have uh we have nacho here
04:59:15.940
i love this podcast i like that you're all doing the normal as it should be i'm scared the child
04:59:20.340
has to grow up to different standards give me a follow and okay but it's a little self-promotion-y
04:59:27.140
but uh thank you thank you nacho for the uh nacho nunez follow him on instagram guys okay and then we have
04:59:33.700
the real mr meatball thank you man thank you for all your support tonight shoot me a dm on instagram
04:59:39.300
i like to uh connect with some of the uh you know top g patrons thank you man this man does a live
04:59:46.900
podcast he is way less risk averse than average thank you man uh the real mr meatball what kind of
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family background does everyone on the panel come from and what kind of roles are you all looking for in
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a relationship okay so family background let's just say uh are your parents throughout are your
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parents still together did were they divorced young um kind of roles are you all looking for in a
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relationship so uh what's the familial situation did your parents divorce when you were young single
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mother household what was that situation and then currently present day what do you what kind of roles
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are you looking for in a relationship 50 50 or more traditional go ahead um so i grew up with
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my parents together uh very honestly i'm very blessed for this with a very healthy family life um and i'm
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honestly looking for someone i was like a while ago i was like i don't want to get married at all but i've
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kind of grown into this view that i actually do want to have a man um that can kind of take care of me
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um i'm not sure if i really want kids right now but i think that like being able to travel with them
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and like having them protect me take care of me spoil me in a sense like i would absolutely love
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that honestly so i guess i'm more traditional but not because i don't know if i want kids yet if i meet
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someone where i do want them and i'm like oh yes i want you to like to put a baby in me then you do want
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kids it's just matter it just depends yeah 100 like i would love to have a kid yeah
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and just since we're running a little bit low on time i just ask if you can try to keep your
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answers brief to this one go ahead no you're fine you're fine um i guess my parents separated when i
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was eight and then me and my mom were single together like after that and had a stepdad shortly
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a little bit after for the for the rest of my adolescence or whatever and uh i would say like
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closer to a 50 50 role is what i'm looking for like yes the other it's great but i don't like i don't
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like expect everyone else to provide sure um my parents are divorced married when i was like one
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or two divorced when i was four um i'm looking for a hundred hundred relationship nothing's perfect but
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you know we'll work on it 100 relationship yeah so like when i say 50 50 i mean like i yeah i know
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like oh 100 100 both people should be putting in maximum effort i get that but are you wanting to
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like when it comes for example like down to split the bill um i mean if we're married yeah
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what do you mean no no i mean like first date first date who if you ask me out then i would
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expect you to pay if i asked you out i'm paying have you ever asked a guy out on a date um yeah i've
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asked people out on dates more often more often than guys ask you out on dates um i guess but i don't
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go out on dates often but i won't go out on a date if i you know i'm not making sure that like if
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i'm able to pay the bill i'm going on a date but if i'm like a guy with like a blue check mark and
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like that hundred thousand followers and like wants to take me to a boozy restaurant i'm probably not
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going to go because you know it's intimidating i don't like instagram dating and it's also like
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that's what you expect every single date i like you know picnics beach dates okay what about you um
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i grew up in a two-parent household my parents divorced like a year before i like left the house i guess
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and then they're both remarried now um i i think like traditional general rules can be 50 50 it
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just depends on like what it is it's 50 50 like regardless it's going to be i don't i just see
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traditional like more balanced it's just it's not necessarily going to be financially like you know
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i'm okay bringing in less money i probably prefer that so that i can focus on the home life more
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um okay so my parents were together until about a year after i graduated high school
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and then my dad married his high school sweetheart and my mom actually passed away a few years ago so
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that happened um i fall under the traditional side just because i like to take care of my man and i'm a
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caregiver when you say take care of your man how did how did that sort of manifest itself when you
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were barreling down the highway at 120 miles per hour so that was maybe like that was two years ago
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okay you've changed yeah you've changed okay okay
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um my parents were never together i spent most of my time at my great grandparents growing up
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and ideally i'd love to be a housewife being a pilot just kind of my backup plan if i don't find a man
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my parents were married for about 35 years before my father passed away unexpectedly from cancer
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but they were together until he died what i'm looking for in a relationship i mean it will depend
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a little bit on if there's kids involved or not so um i'm not sure what it would look like for me
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sure uh my parents uh divorced when i was about 10 11 years old um never had a great relationship
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with my father growing up um was very close with my mom and my mom's side of the family in terms of
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what i'm looking for in a relationship um i would say that i'm pretty traditional not totally traditional
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i am i love working so i would like to hustle in my early and mid 20s and then kind of slow down a
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little bit when i have kids not fully retire but want to dedicate a lot of time for the kids
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awesome um my parents are divorced my dad left on my birthday when i was 10 and um i was with my mom and
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my three siblings um and then i want to have a really traditional family with a bajillion kids
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and be a stay-at-home mom but i do want to work because i love working as well
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um yeah my parents were together until my old man passed away but um in terms of relationships
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i'd say i'm very traditional in my views so um i'd want to have a girl that's going to be
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probably contributing to what i'm doing and the business and probably a stay-at-home mom maybe
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even homeschool so probably pretty far down this down the traditional route we've been giving each
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other a few little bests every now and then homeschooling yeah yeah 100 i'd want to yeah that's
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that's that's what that's what the setup i'd want to go with yeah good times good
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eddie vedder donated 100 at home drawing pictures of mountaintops with him on top lemon yellow sun arms
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raised in a v in the dead laying pools of maroon below daddy didn't give attention to the fact that
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mommy didn't care king jeremy the wicked oh ruled his world that's a pearl gems that's jeremy
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i don't think that's the song jeremy from pearl jam okay um good times all right i think we're fully
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caught up on super chats there were just two last things we had to do uh really quick uh since we
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sort of touched on this the whole who should or the paying thing
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i want you all to think of your celebrity crush
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would you expect him to pay for the date or would you like let it slide because he's your celebrity
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crush you know like you okay a girl looks at who's like i'm trying to uh andrew tate often likes to cite
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to chris brown you see chris brown in the club you think he's going to be loyal to you you think
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he's going to pay for your for you on a date no you're just going to like he's so high status you're
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just going to fuck him and you don't care i would not go out with him again if i split a date
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if a celebrity took me out or my my dream guy i have a couple dreams celebrity guys
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but no you're that black and white with it i am there's also studies um that in the beginning
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of relationships like men tend to invest more and later down the line women actually put in
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more investment in the relationship so i don't think it's so black and white as traditional or
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non-traditional um and i think it's a good sign i'm gonna have to see that study i don't know
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go ahead you're gonna have to send that shit to me but yeah i'm pretty black i'm pretty black and
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white with it chris brown is not a great example i don't know why tate sides to that
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you lost me real quick on that one i don't know you see like who drake in the club is that i don't
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know if that's a great example too but like a lot of these girls who'd be like oh i'd never the guy
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has to pay but like if you if if a guy's attractive enough or high status enough all your rules go out
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the window incorrect hunt no they all your rules go out the window you're gonna break rules for like
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really high status attractive i think if they are high status that should show even more like that
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they're in even more of a position to to lead and to come forth in that way yeah yeah but i don't
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think that you would throw those rules out the window if he wasn't willing to do that no i don't
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think so whereas like the guy who's making an average income like he better pay for the first date
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but like a really high status guy who's more than capable of like paying it's like i'm definitely
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gonna pay for miss rihanna's bill for sure rihanna yeah oh you you swing both ways i swing always i'm
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pansexual oh you like pans you know what i hate that joke i can't stand you okay it doesn't need to
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be expensive he can just bring you to coffee he can take you to like a taco truck like this isn't
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we're not asking him to spend on like a five course dinner like go somewhere that you can afford to make a
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nice gesture if it's coffee it's coffee if it's tacos it's tacos if he wants to take you to oysters
05:10:14.740
fine but like choose something i just think it's it's a better way it's also less confusing like you
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just know what's going on third to last thing here i want to come back to this all of you said except
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for i believe britney and grace that you're either uh britney you're in a situationship grace you're in a
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relationship the rest of you are brutally single very single i'm just i'm not i don't think it's
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brutal yeah okay fair enough fair enough just just single fair enough but what does that actually mean
05:10:45.620
so i want to get a better sense of what you mean by being single so you you say you're single but come
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on when's the last time you were hung out with a guy romantically look at you smile cheek to cheek last
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by the way how do you wipe i'm just curious um my business
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oh no those are sharp one question at a time okay my bad no i'm curious okay so
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what's uh what was going on last night you had a little ting last night didn't you tell us about
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it i was actually going to sleep early so we can get ready for today okay fine 48 hours ago
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um what was going down friday night la you guys live in you you guys live in degenerate los angeles
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um what was going down you guys were at some posh nightclub right you two you two are girlfriends
05:11:42.420
right what you two are girlfriends right not like friends friends yeah yeah yeah so like
05:11:49.860
friday night what were you guys doing working together at the club at the strip club no we went
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to bed we went to bed super early because we had a photo are you guys housemates no oh we were just
05:12:00.180
with each other a lot all the time yeah um you guys might as well is there something hold on is
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there something here between you two that's my wife that's the love of my life we're gonna marry no
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no no no no they're asking like if there's like something like going on oh between us like
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romantically i don't know what i'm saying wait what what's the question because i think yes just
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are we are we no we're not no we're not romantically dating okay well we're not andy donated one hundred
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we haven't we have not done that reading a book thank you andy thank you
05:12:45.060
so look you're saying you're very single or whatever i don't know who's i think i don't know
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if you said you're very single very single okay but well no no i mean i'm very single meaning like
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i haven't been taken out on a date um when's the last time you hooked up with somebody oh
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i don't know if they want their business out like that
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just say the day we don't have to know who it is
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damn why are you huh what it was a man that's fine it's okay
05:13:20.340
it wasn't me it's okay it wasn't it wasn't burke it was not it was last night you went to say
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andy donated one hundred dollars got you g thank you brother wow thank you brother what
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whoa whoa okay so for you is last night burke what about you
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no no burke come on what you got for us you said you're single i am yeah when's the last time
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you hooked up with somebody miss single does does my dildo count what the fuck no no no that's that's an
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inanimate object it's not a someone we need like a a person it could be a
05:14:28.980
someone who identifies as a drag i don't know what it would i don't know
05:14:32.980
i don't know um i don't know um a they them a she or her a zur whatever whatever you want to
05:14:40.100
can i say no comment like no yo just rat on your was it last night no comment that's my girl no
05:14:47.620
wait were you guys out together were you guys out together out anywhere closer to the mic we
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didn't go out anywhere andy donated 100 she was like night to don't let her cap she was light
05:15:00.660
night to don't let her last night i think she was oh i mean she's not lying about working last
05:15:07.300
night she was definitely doing that thing were you shooting a scene for only fans no no no wait
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question do you guys who who of you does bg content bg content so solo uh solo gg solo
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okay what about you what about you very single when's the last time you hooked up somebody
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into the mic please last hook up yeah i'm gonna say it's been a little bit of a dry season so
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like maybe like a week or so ago that's a dry season i know maybe a week ago less than the fortnight
05:15:59.620
okay it's a desert out here wait burke burke answer the question
05:16:06.260
otherwise shia labeouf is gonna pop through that screen
05:16:12.180
yesterday you said tomorrow so just do it make your dreams come true
05:16:18.420
okay um it was it was last night it was last night
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but not this is not not the same man this looks bad okay this looks is this a threesome no no are you
05:16:38.820
guys swingers is this like orgy type it looks and sounds bad but no i definitely had no idea
05:16:46.180
okay but you're getting like a what what is it i was gonna sit just you know like uh the whole like
05:16:51.700
crazy uh what's it called swinger party no no sex cults no no no what is it nylam was that the one
05:17:01.860
the sex cult has anybody here been in a sex cult like a many at no of course not priya looking at
05:17:10.100
you just kidding a sex cult have any of you been branded anybody here have a brand has anybody like
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a uh aubrey yeah did i get your name right yeah okay just don't check it um when's the last time
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i don't do hookups i if that's a relationship like i don't do hookups um you don't never
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i like i mean has there been some indiscretions in your past aubrey you want to share with us um
05:17:54.020
i mean i'm mormon whoa i'm sorry lds depends on who you ask no um i mean i've definitely like i've
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never been somebody who's like oh that person's really hot i just want to go like make out or like
05:18:07.940
mess around with them like it's so much it's always been deeper than that but um yeah no
05:18:14.740
i guess like my last relationship was the last time i like was with somebody in that way when
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did your relationship end um uh almost three months ago oh three months ago okay so it's been three
05:18:27.940
months oh i'm saved by the holy do it just do it a month my bad thanks for hosting these beautiful
05:18:38.340
women yo andy thank you very much for your uh insane patronage here at towards the end of the show much
05:18:43.940
appreciated man good to see you in the chat uh send us a dm on instagram at whatever uh yeah no
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i haven't hooked up with anybody okay all right
05:18:56.020
britney's in the situation what about you well you're born again virgin so i'm assuming nothing
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recently no nothing recently okay what about you last time i had sex with someone
05:19:13.940
okay um when you worded like that well i hook up does that i don't know yeah so sex um maybe
05:19:25.700
about it was about three months ago okay i thought the original question was the last time you went out
05:19:32.420
with somebody no i'm pretty sure it was about sex uh not since my last relationship okay cool
05:19:43.060
uh yeah you're what's that oh i said i'm a virgin oh did not know this did not know this are you
05:19:50.740
waiting until marriage yes i am congratulations that's awesome anybody else here waiting until
05:19:57.460
marriage do i count i am i think you count you count similar boat where i i'm still about where
05:20:04.180
like i don't know for marriage but i definitely waiting until it's like more i mean like i've only
05:20:11.220
in committed relationships anyway but like more heavily committed i guess like leading into marriage
05:20:17.060
wait is it and that's how like all your previous times you've been previously it's it's been in
05:20:25.060
relationship i don't yeah like i said i don't do hookups i don't do that stuff but um yeah also just
05:20:32.580
point of clarification what when someone says hook up to you guys do you think that that means one
05:20:37.940
night stand because for me when i think hook i just means think sex when i think hook up
05:20:43.060
like casual i was assuming you meant like if we were dating someone like that's not weird because
05:20:47.860
i don't because you could hook up with someone you're in a anyone i've reached those levels too
05:20:51.780
i've had like full intention of like having a relationship with right so yeah well i've had
05:21:00.260
some mistakes in the past not like some oh but what just tell us more say more anything like
05:21:06.660
what do you mean some mistakes well more so like what happens i've always held myself to that
05:21:10.740
standard so there's just like an incident where i like didn't and not anything like crazy don't
05:21:16.420
like everyone's gonna jump to like the craziest things but it was enough for me to learn like i
05:21:20.420
don't find value in putting myself in those situations or like want to lessons not learned
05:21:27.700
or lessons repeated and some things i just don't need to learn again do again cool okay i think that's
05:21:33.700
that okay we have one quick two more quick things um nick can you pull up the google search tab there's
05:21:41.060
a girl with pink hair that we need to pull up so this is a question for jake and for the chat would you date
05:21:52.180
this is the girl in the thumbnail would you date a girl who
05:21:56.100
had pink hair and that's such a is it a red is it a red flag if a girl has pink hair or like the
05:22:06.260
girl in this photo here or not blue hair not particularly i mean if she's a super traditional
05:22:13.060
feminine woman who's you know got her head switch scroll down it wouldn't bother me but i mean i'm more
05:22:19.380
into brunettes but you're more uh if she's a pink-haired feminist then absolutely not like okay
05:22:26.500
yeah if but if she's a pink-haired girl who just likes pink hair then yeah so i mean this is a
05:22:31.620
question for the chat chat is it a red flag if a girl has color hair so red blue pink do you think
05:22:41.380
it's a red flag could it be indicative of her politics maybe does she have daddy issues who knows
05:22:49.380
who knows i think i think the politics do tend to i'm not going to say all the time but they do tend
05:22:55.540
to kind of go when we when we're doing street videos my brother and i will always look for
05:23:00.660
colored hair if we want to get like a controversial or funny take from somebody if we're doing an
05:23:05.300
interview like when we were asking if america's racist we were desperately looking for someone with
05:23:08.740
blue or purple or green hair but it's definitely changed it's definitely changed because even because
05:23:14.340
obviously i'm in the industry with hair and all that like it used to be more of like an artistic
05:23:18.820
thing and it's definitely swayed way more to it it says a lot most times about your political
05:23:25.380
i think that it was like even though like the artistic thing has always been quite like a liberal
05:23:30.260
leaning people people who are more high in creativity and openness tend to lean a little
05:23:35.060
bit more liberal yeah and the last thing we're going to react to before we finally wrap up
05:23:40.100
is uh we have a andrew tate video this is a new one it's kind of out out there a little bit uh
05:23:50.740
it has to do well okay why don't we just play it and actually before we play it
05:23:57.060
what's your hydration like do you guys drink a lot of water i drink a lot of water would you guys say
05:24:03.060
you drink a lot of water 100 yeah priya yes absolutely you're a hydro yeah person i've got
05:24:08.980
a gallon i've got a gallon in my car right now sweet what about aubrey over there you drink a lot
05:24:14.580
of water i spend my days outside walking doors for like six to eight hours a day so you're a camel
05:24:22.260
because you know i've had experience you know a lot of i i noticed this and tate is about to you know
05:24:28.180
enforce what i'm about to say a lot of chicks don't be drinking water i don't know you guys i
05:24:34.340
hang out with you guys for seven hours straight you don't drink a drop of water what the
05:24:38.020
fuck or a ph level what are you just y'all just be drinking coffee and
05:24:42.900
shit i don't know from starbucks who's water is still fully i water is like the only thing
05:24:50.100
i stay away from nick please kindly play uh can you put it full screen i don't know which one that is i think
05:24:58.580
i think it's the the furthest one of it i think it's yeah click that one uh go
05:25:07.860
hold on before you play it let's just let everyone gather their peace
05:25:13.940
okay go ahead oh no no no video tab please video tab
05:25:22.500
i was supposed to do another tape speech in fact i'm gonna have to film two today see how hard i
05:25:29.780
work for you people because when i opened this can of water it reminded me of a simple fact
05:25:36.180
a fact which has annoyed me for a very long time and i've yet to talk about so we're going to talk
05:25:40.820
about it women don't drink water ever now when i say this people what do you mean women don't
05:25:48.500
drink water because like with all my tape speeches at the beginning people think i'm talking shit by
05:25:52.100
the end of it they're like you know what he's right hang around with a group of guys long enough
05:25:56.900
right there's usually a bottle of water around a guy's usually carrying a bottle of water you'll see
05:26:02.500
a man grab a bottle of water and drink a liter and throw the bottle away me personally i drink these
05:26:08.500
these cans of sparkling water i tear through 5 000 cans a month all i do is drink these i must
05:26:13.460
drink 30 40 a day i'm never without them near me ice cold sparkling water all the time i'm always
05:26:19.860
drinking water it's all i do next to my bed i drink as soon as i wake up i drink before i go to sleep
05:26:25.300
when i'm working i have water next to me all i do is drink water and if you notice any group of
05:26:31.700
men you're going to say the same thing hang out with a bunch of guys you're going to see someone
05:26:34.740
with water then hang around with a group of girls now most of you pussies probably don't hang around
05:26:41.140
groups of girls very often but i'm that guy who's often been sitting there with 20 chicks nobody has
05:26:45.620
any water nobody hydrates when's the last time you've seen a woman say i'm dehydrated i want to hydrate
05:26:52.180
when's the last time you've seen a woman quickly grab a bottle of water just finish it off ever
05:26:57.220
now i say this people go hmm i guess but i want you to actually go out in the world and pay attention to
05:27:03.300
this and you'll realize how astutely true it is women do not hydrate and why that annoys me is
05:27:10.100
because women are also the ones who are constantly endlessly complaining about these phantom headaches
05:27:17.940
they're the only ones who do it i don't believe that heads just hurt for no reason if i got a
05:27:24.900
crippling headache i'd be genuinely concerned maybe i've been poisoned maybe i have brain tumor i don't
05:27:30.820
i don't just get headaches my hand doesn't just start to hurt i've hurt it somehow so if i was going
05:27:38.340
through life and i had a really bad headache i think wow something's happened to me but women
05:27:43.460
just go through life i have a headache i have a headache i'm a headache i need pills you don't
05:27:47.300
need pills you need you need two liters of water you don't drink anything
05:27:50.820
i've been in dubai with women who end up having heat stroke i've seen them do it i've seen them lay
05:27:58.020
in bed i don't feel well oh i feel sick i need to go home you're in the desert and you want what two
05:28:05.220
martinis that's what you've drunk today two martinis and a fucking cigarette they don't drink war ever
05:28:12.020
i don't know how they survive i don't know when they finally decide they want to hydrate it's usually
05:28:16.820
some garbage starbucks maca latte with cream just pure sugar crap i don't know how females are alive
05:28:28.100
i don't know how this arrived now i am advocating for the health of women before everyone calls me a
05:28:33.540
fucking misogynist and tries to put me in jail for saying that women don't drink enough water i'm saying
05:28:38.740
the world would be a better place if everybody male and female was hydrated this is not a gendered
05:28:43.860
argument i believe in hydration for all before the fucking msm have a breakdown i'm just making
05:28:50.020
an observation i don't see women drink water ever and anybody who disagrees with it start to pay a
05:28:55.620
little bit more attention be more perspicacious and you will see as you go through life you'll
05:28:58.820
start seeing groups of women you'll see none of them have any water ever or when they say they're
05:29:02.020
thirsty they order a drink which is not hydrating it's just some sugar crap garbage you never see
05:29:06.580
women hydrate ever and next time you see a woman who says i have a headache have you got any
05:29:10.180
honey painkillers when's the last time you drank two liters of water young ladies when is the last
05:29:15.620
time that's what i literally say when's the last time you drank two liters of water what do you mean
05:29:20.580
i have a headache you have a headache because you're dehydrated that's why you have a headache when's the
05:29:24.420
last time you drank water no i just need painkillers you don't need painkillers you need
05:29:28.980
fucking water to drink by extension we're going to quickly flip over this whole idea of random
05:29:35.140
headaches it's something that has to go okay it upsets me and annoys me i don't know why we're
05:29:40.020
reacting to this uh any any thoughts from anybody on the panel i've never thought about that i drink
05:29:46.500
properly this is very important when it comes to dating drink water folks very important get your
05:29:52.500
gallon in a day well obviously you gotta drink water you were made like mostly of water so like
05:29:59.380
you get a lot of headaches i know a lot of people that do not actually drink water they drink iced tea they
05:30:04.260
drink coffee they drink soda they but they do not drink water you know people are women literally
05:30:09.540
people are women actually both i know i know a few men that do the same my grandpa throws up if he
05:30:14.420
drinks water straight based he just only drinks monsters all day but these people that i know they are not
05:30:22.340
healthy word i mean i don't know the people that i do see that don't drink water either they don't have
05:30:30.660
headaches but i don't know but also these are the same people that are going to fast food restaurants
05:30:36.420
and like they're not they're not like getting like the proper macronutrients in their diet ordering a
05:30:40.980
triple quarter panda with the diet cook right and calling it food yeah not food
05:30:48.180
okay uh well what we're gonna do is we're gonna do a short after show uh so if any of you want to
05:30:54.340
stick around for the after show you're welcome to but i know we've gone late so if any of you want to
05:30:58.420
take off you're also welcome to uh madison will be hosting that brief after show uh so guys last
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call hit that like button please on your way out big thank you for tuning in tonight you could have
05:31:11.220
been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who so
05:31:16.580
graciously super chats donates tips and supports the show really appreciate it thank you for all the uh
05:31:22.580
super chats and tts etc etc big thank you to the wonderful panel tonight this was probably one of the
05:31:28.340
more uh i don't know how i would describe it based panels we've had it was pretty you know i was
05:31:36.180
hoping you guys would argue with me a little bit with you i wanted some arguments about your outfit
05:31:41.300
choices what the what's wrong with you honestly brian like i think the look at you you're wearing like
05:31:47.780
a little i know is that a tank top i was gonna i was gonna bring a flannel flex for us i was gonna bring
05:31:53.060
come on aubrey let's see what you got i just started working on my arms okay let's see the
05:31:56.500
i don't know how to work on my arms come on you're wearing a look what no i'm scared what are those
05:32:00.740
high-waisted jeans yeah what's that necklace you've got what's that say it's a kendra scott brian
05:32:07.380
it's a nice one you have another woman's name thank you you have another woman's name very classy
05:32:12.500
yeah yeah what are you gonna do about it brian like bro pruma what huh joggers you still got
05:32:19.380
joggers oh joggers i don't know what these are these are some weird shoes they think i'm not a virgin
05:32:28.660
okay here lay up on the table no i'm just kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding yeah that's probably the
05:32:33.940
where's the stirrups um okay um what what you want the i like flannels listen brian i wear flannels
05:32:45.780
i get made fun of i had someone wait where do you live again well right now i live in colorado
05:32:50.500
but before that i was living in utah i usually live in utah i go to school in utah flannels are in
05:32:55.380
colorado you're from kansas i'm from kansas you don't really have an accent am i supposed to have an
05:33:00.420
accent you are a hundred if you're from kansas you must have an accent it's actually a law it's
05:33:05.220
actually a law do you want can you just what would a kansas what would that sound like go ahead
05:33:10.420
i'm from kansas um i like me a girl who don't wear tank tops and who uh lacks flannels you're giving
05:33:20.100
forrest gump right now forrest gump huh that sounds like that's a lot too southern for kansas
05:33:24.260
excuse me run forrest run that's what you're doing isn't that from kansas isn't kansas is like
05:33:31.140
a southern accent kansas is literally smacked up in the middle of the country they don't have
05:33:37.380
southern accents i mean i i have spent most of my life in kansas kansas kansas i don't know wait
05:33:44.100
what's i don't know isn't there a famous movie that took place in kansas superman the wizard of
05:33:49.220
oh the wizard of oz also but superman's from his um oh he's bro why are you talking on my flannels
05:33:55.860
i'm not i literally i was gonna bring a flannel and then you should have worn a flannel but it
05:33:59.540
could have been matching but it was dark green and you said we can't wear dark green i actually
05:34:03.140
probably was gonna wear a flannel but i'm glad i didn't now because i would have been made fun of
05:34:06.900
of you so you messed it up right it's good whatever see i'm more trying to avoid like the vomit
05:34:13.540
color you know like the green okay you know what number one anybody else i don't know
05:34:23.780
i don't even know i have a question for you brian what's should we should we say for the after you
05:34:28.020
want to stick around for the after show sure okay um by the way just show of hands who wants to stay
05:34:34.180
for the after show yeah that's fine no no that's fine you don't have to that's why it's the after show
05:34:41.300
it's like the after show so you priya madison grace you gotta i have to go that's totally fine
05:34:49.060
totally fine okay cool we're gonna wrap up here um so lastly uh big thank you to our chat mods any
05:34:55.300
women who want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram if you want to be on the show we will
05:35:00.660
be live again tuesday at 7 p.m pacific i got a very good show planned for you we have matt stay safe he
05:35:07.220
was previously on uh you guys really liked him he's going to be back on tuesday and uh yeah be sure
05:35:13.220
to tune in for that show anyways guys uh thank you for tuning in the after show is about to start can
05:35:20.660
we get some for those of you leaving can we get some o7s in the chat and please
05:35:27.060
say farewell to the guests who are now going to be departing madison i pass it over to you
05:35:50.660
for the after show tt uh we're gonna do uh we'll do tts i think we'll lower tts and super chats
05:35:59.860
will be uh we'll we'll read 20 and up oh actually let's kind of let's leave this on it's a bit better
05:36:09.780
lighting but uh yeah okay all right so super chats we'll do 20 and up uh on youtube and then
05:36:17.700
and then i'll change this so guys the after show is now commencing i should have a theme song for the
05:36:30.020
after show um you're sticking around we're gonna have you move over to this side if you want to sit
05:36:35.940
there i guess kiki needs to get involved yeah we could we could do that um
05:36:47.700
which one do you want me to run yeah yeah yeah we we went late it's super late um uh you sit in that
05:36:56.180
chair priya you can stay in the one that you're in
05:37:12.900
yeah just stay wait no stay there stay there oh wait what were you
05:37:16.500
yeah we're still alive it's just the weird transition period while we're doing the uh after
05:37:25.220
show let me save that okay tts is now uh 49.99 and up super chats are uh what's it called um 20 or 1999
05:37:39.140
and up i'm gonna change that last thing i am the captain now bye nice meeting you so nice to meet you
05:37:58.660
guys drive safe this was like blocking my face the whole time
05:38:03.460
i kind of liked it though the base game is still here how was your guys's experience how was yours
05:38:12.420
it was good it was good i was i'm a bit jet lagged still from coming all the way from rome a few
05:38:17.060
days ago where are you from well i was coming from rome from rome oh so i came a few days ago
05:38:24.180
so still a bit the second half of this podcast i've been nearly dead but yeah had to get that red
05:38:28.900
bowl for you yeah exactly yeah i came from rome on monday so yeah and i'm going back to italy next week
05:38:44.420
are we still talking into the microphone yeah yeah talking them into the mic still yeah so i came
05:38:49.780
from rome and going back to italy next week so italy and then italy for august turkey for september
05:38:55.700
and are you making content in all these places yeah normally i just sit myself in one place for a
05:39:02.820
month and we'll just make a bunch of content and then go to the next place so what how does your
05:39:06.820
content vary from country to country it actually doesn't okay we just get airbnbs and we'll just
05:39:12.100
like break down debates and do all that sort of thing got it okay it's interesting so you go out
05:39:16.100
and you interview people or what i do do that as well i interview people do debates break down clips
05:39:21.540
is it centered around dating or what no no it's more about culture politics that's the thing yeah
05:39:27.220
so wait so what do you do for work i might have missed this youtube youtube oh oh okay okay yeah
05:39:36.580
so um yeah we like mainly we break down debates we also do like street interviews we've got like a
05:39:42.900
little travel channel where we go and interview like girls as well from different cities and ask them
05:39:47.540
what they're looking for in a guy and so a little bit of dating stuff but that's more more of a side
05:39:51.700
yeah i don't know if you heard but brian like throughout the idea that like we should make
05:39:55.940
whatever like worldwide and just like have other people stream in like different countries because
05:40:00.420
like the dating culture is so different if you ever want to do it let me know yeah yeah you could
05:40:05.940
there'd be a there'd be a really good ones to be done in europe because the values are quite
05:40:09.940
different although many many places in europe becoming very woke what what country would you say is your
05:40:15.380
favorite in terms of the values that would probably italy for myself because i'm also italian but
05:40:21.140
they're all getting very woke as well like they're going very lefty yeah um and then up north in the
05:40:26.100
scandinavian countries they're very woke and then as when the further east you get the better it gets
05:40:31.220
yeah like russia romania those sorts of places they're like very traditional quite conservative
05:40:37.220
hungary's really good as well like hungary's beautiful girls traditional girls that sort of thing
05:40:41.860
yeah um and then yeah i like i like italy the most but it's a it's a different it's a completely
05:40:48.660
different world over there it really is yeah i agree it's like the worst place that you've seen like
05:40:54.500
dating wise yeah probably like south korea really yeah how so like what's different so i actually find
05:41:02.020
japan's pretty bad as well but like they're very closed off like they've they'd never ever flirt with
05:41:07.620
you like i'm quite a flirtatious person so like i'll walk past girls and like you know make eye
05:41:12.820
contact or you know just be giving some sort of a a vibe and like they just don't do it whatsoever
05:41:19.300
and they're very culturally homogenous as well so if they if they're if they um like are dating
05:41:25.540
then they'll they won't want to date a guy who's like not korean or not japanese because they'll bring
05:41:30.020
shame to their family you know what's your what's your background like my ethnic background um my
05:41:36.580
dad was born in thailand my mom was born here but they're both thai yeah i did a video with thai
05:41:42.580
girls as well really how is that thai girls are very very open and very receptive yeah like they're
05:41:49.140
and then like they're pretty they're pretty cheeky as well actually i like thai girls but yeah i don't
05:41:54.500
know like there's there's a real culture of like if you're a western you're basically a walking
05:41:58.420
talking dollar sign over there um they expect you to come over there pay the bills so i don't
05:42:04.420
know i don't really get like we do the videos and stuff but like i don't really get time to like
05:42:09.060
really date girls or anything because i'm pretty honest about that sort of thing i'll go in there
05:42:12.980
and i'll say i'm only here for like a few weeks you mean you're not a passport bro no oh i mean
05:42:19.460
i guess you you might call me that because i do sort of explore my options over there but if i'm
05:42:23.220
only there for like a week or two i'll just tell the girls and then normally they'll be like oh no
05:42:26.580
it's not that's honestly good for you though you get to experience like the different like dating
05:42:30.660
cultures in like so many different places so you like really know what you like 100 and then you
05:42:34.900
come over here and it's like quite it's quite bad like it's really bad i would i wouldn't even
05:42:40.500
bother wouldn't even bother with doing anything over here like you get girls who are very average
05:42:45.060
with massive expectations yeah yeah yeah honestly tonight talking to some of you girls has been
05:42:51.300
breath of fresh air because i thought we were doomed in the west honestly low-key kind of is
05:42:57.460
that the third flannel i think it's i think it's the joggers i think if you yeah if you major if you
05:43:03.700
got some nicer pants brian i it's not it's not like it's nice lululemon you got some slacks
05:43:10.100
some slacks i'm talking about brian's outfit right now i have a pair of l's that fit it's great for
05:43:17.060
at home but if we were if we were to go out on a date that's not what i would prefer you to wear
05:43:22.580
what would you dress what do you wear on a date brian well i don't i don't eat mcdonald's i would never
05:43:28.180
go to mcdonald's i don't i don't eat mcdonald's so it's a hard no for me you didn't you didn't you
05:43:35.140
didn't get me like run in the other direction with the splitting the check it's the mcdonald's so
05:43:40.740
it gets me it has me running for the hills boost if she ordered off like the dollar meal would you
05:43:46.500
would you still would you pay for her are you gonna are you gonna pay for our mcdonald's date
05:43:52.820
do you just want to blow a thousand dollars at mcdonald's one day
05:44:04.500
no just in general what the hell would you spend
05:44:09.540
you could do it now you have thousands of dollars saved up for mcdonald's you'd be able
05:44:14.100
to cure hunger of all the money i've not spent on days oh i see i'm probably saying like i wonder
05:44:22.180
if they've done the math like how much does the average guy spend on culture i think that
05:44:29.300
well i feel like it varies a lot because you might be able to i think it depends how many dates you go
05:44:34.180
on yeah i was gonna say it definitely depends on the kind of guy you are do you want to give a fit
05:44:38.420
check to the viewers yeah well it's also a lot of men some men are selected with the amount of dates
05:44:44.740
that they take women on and then some aren't so i guess i'll always do something free first so right
05:44:48.980
yeah brian's got the blue and black yeah yeah go for a little walk get coffee
05:44:53.620
all the gym pins on the collar the left of the collar i don't know if i would do a gym
05:44:59.540
uh plain black t-shirt and i've never i've gone on i've gone on on gym dates that i had no idea were
05:45:06.260
dates yeah so they've just asked you to go for a workout yeah because they don't want to like
05:45:12.900
directly ask you to go on a date i just feel like it's kind of an odd setting though i agree but also
05:45:18.580
like especially we got this for you so according to google our survey found that women spend a lot
05:45:28.740
less on dates every year than men so about so about yeah so men spend almost not quite but almost double
05:45:39.220
that makes sense yeah it makes sense that's the expectation so
05:45:42.500
how's that i ever made you like pay on a day sorry you can go first okay no go mine's a little
05:45:49.860
off topic oh just go go for it um question for the men i don't know if brian's listening but i
05:45:56.820
heard a guy who said that every woman he's ever slept with he's fallen in love with a little bit
05:46:03.780
have you experienced that no not at all having sex can be like taking a piss for a guy
05:46:08.420
who said that for a guy yeah it's probably not like that for a girl not for a girl for a girl
05:46:14.180
it's very different but for a guy like we we can quite easily do it and then not care whatsoever
05:46:18.820
do you confirm brian who said that it was just a friend of a friend so your
05:46:28.420
your friend said that they felt like what about if it's like a drunken if you if you like just drunk
05:46:33.380
you have sex with someone then you leave them like this is a male friend yeah i don't think he
05:46:38.580
necessarily meant like one night stands drunk at parties but even just like situationships or sleeping
05:46:44.260
with a girl a few times maybe i'm not sure the context yeah i think i think honestly i think girls
05:46:50.580
yes but guys can be quite easily very emotionally detached from sex yeah it really it really isn't
05:46:55.860
isn't a big deal the only reason we want to have self-control with it is because of like you know just
05:47:02.100
it's just for that reason being able to exercise self-control but otherwise it doesn't do any
05:47:06.340
i think there's this whole like who hurt you thing with guys like oh you know you have sex with all
05:47:10.180
these girls you must be damaged not necessarily you know like i don't necessarily think i think also a
05:47:16.580
lot of men oh god i honestly have no idea what it is yeah no idea i think a lot of men also go through
05:47:26.820
um phase in their like late teen early 20s especially um where they do explore you know a
05:47:36.500
lot of sexual activities more than women tend to i think that the like i think that women doing so
05:47:44.260
is a growing oftentimes it's also a competition for guys as well especially when you're younger
05:47:49.700
like in your teenage years and early 20s and there's a lot of stigma attached if you don't if you don't have
05:47:54.180
sex for a while if you if i went to the boys tomorrow and i was like hey like i haven't had
05:47:58.580
sex in like six months they'd be like yeah and that you'd be like really self-conscious about it
05:48:03.780
so there definitely is an element of that as well where it's like you're kind of like having you
05:48:07.300
feel like you have to keep up keep up with it sometimes totally yeah i guess that's kind of
05:48:15.140
uh yeah did we the 12 43 one or what is it this one did we show that one already
05:48:24.580
y'all should cater to east coast best coast folks i'm going to want to die tomorrow at work what
05:48:30.260
does guy on the panel do for work oh we just answered that yeah i'm a youtuber rattlesnake tv
05:48:35.780
mr meatball says south america has more traditional women western europe over eastern
05:48:46.020
europe south america definitely has more traditional women but they're very fiery as
05:48:51.540
well you got to watch the latinas they're very fiery but if you're saying western europe is better
05:48:56.340
than eastern europe then no way western europe is woke as like britain you can forget about britain
05:49:01.780
um germany extremely woke holland extremely woke switzerland austria all these places eastern europe
05:49:08.820
is where you want to look if you're a quote-unquote passport bro if you want to go to these places
05:49:12.740
like you go to russia right now all the guys are either conscripted or they left the country
05:49:16.100
it's an absolute free-for-all in russia were you there not yet but i did a podcast the other day
05:49:21.540
with a guy called wealthy well while the expert have you heard of him he like helps people like
05:49:25.700
offshore their businesses yeah and he's in russia at the moment he was telling me all about it and
05:49:30.500
yeah that's plenty to choose from i don't think there's any more
05:49:41.780
yeah what were we talking about like right before that guy's ability to detach
05:49:50.260
oh yeah i feel like everyone just goes through a phase for a little bit like men and women
05:49:55.380
so but it's a learning experience you know also i think there's a again a biological component to
05:50:02.100
that as well men are designed to repopulate the world where women are you know can only have one
05:50:09.620
child at the time and you know where our lives are essentially dedicated to raising that child you
05:50:15.460
think women get more emotionally attached to guys that they do sleep with though because have you
05:50:20.660
ever heard of pair bonding not that but brian might know this but there's like a thing called
05:50:26.660
alpha widow i think it was rollo tomasi in one in his book the um okay i can't remember what the book's
05:50:32.180
called famous book um but yeah he has this thing called being alpha widowed where like a girl will date
05:50:37.540
a guy and then like they'll have sex with this guy and then like they'll never be able to look at guys
05:50:44.180
the same again because they had this guy and he was like the ultimate the apex predator and then
05:50:48.900
every guy after that they can never so he's essentially alpha widowed her is what it's called
05:50:54.100
the rational male that's what it's called that's right interesting i i don't necessarily think so
05:50:59.460
i've never heard of that personally um yeah i feel like it might take longer for women to detach
05:51:06.100
themselves from like past sexual partners but i think it it does happen yeah i i tend to think that
05:51:12.660
like the more women the more guys that women sleep with the more damaged they become for that reason
05:51:19.540
because they've had so many experiences with so many different guys that they're going to then compare
05:51:23.620
their partner to all of those different guys i don't think it's all bonding yes exactly i was going to
05:51:28.500
say i don't think it's necessarily a comparison i think it's it has to do with pair bonding i think
05:51:32.180
that you engage especially with like especially for women sex is such a intimate um activity it's
05:51:38.580
the most intimate activity that you can possibly engage in and i think yeah the more people that
05:51:42.980
you do partake in that activity with the like the more desensitized you get to it so
05:51:50.900
absolutely you said you're right i got mixed up about the western and yes eastern europe thing yes
05:51:58.020
you know you want to avoid avoid western europe great britain is basically a lost cause they're
05:52:02.500
even worse than us british girls are yeah there's obviously some good ones everywhere but for the
05:52:07.300
most i lived in london for three years i lived in a like a little place called hackney wick and um
05:52:13.300
yeah it wasn't great i'm telling you that much have you how many people have you like dated in other
05:52:24.980
well i'm not really dating while i'm moving around because i'm just too busy with work yeah but
05:52:29.860
i've i've we said like you lived in london yeah did you date in london yeah i was updated like dutch
05:52:35.700
girls and like various different european yeah a lot of a lot of different ones even because even
05:52:42.820
my preference when i was living in australia was foreign girls as well so i used to date brazilian
05:52:51.860
do you still have a preference do you want to say something yes yes exotic european
05:52:57.860
italian spanish do you need the the helmet too all right here i'm maddie
05:53:10.180
how's it like looking at the back of my head for five hours is it a good time you have a great head
05:53:15.300
head good head of hair a great head not inappropriate um i'm surprised you don't pull
05:53:25.460
out more of these props man well you told me not to pull out the baby anymore yes you're like
05:53:35.220
okay put the baby away so i stopped holding the baby abilities yes sure this is a big green
05:53:41.460
oh this is a big test yeah you know you know what i mean here you go priya and then what's that
05:53:47.300
supposed to mean yeah it's a it's okay see how you hold a child we're assessing it yeah that's a
05:53:53.220
pretty good hold angelina jolie over here the adopted african child am i supposed to just hold this
05:54:04.020
for the rest of this time yes oh yeah got it is is this rugby yes it is in in asian countries they
05:54:12.980
will be working and they'll be having their child on their back yeah and they'll just be working away
05:54:23.540
i am why didn't we bring these props out earlier i like this who's the other asian
05:54:29.540
um you can pick i don't care i think we give rattlesnake yeah man give me a prop
05:54:38.340
let's give you the leonite the helmet oh wait what are you doing
05:54:42.580
oh that's terrible stop that this is not right now
05:54:49.940
nice mate it's it's heavy it's a heavy one what's your name again
05:54:52.740
aubry brian uh aubry has lost the character madison versus sophia in a boxing fight winner
05:55:01.620
gets the baby please brian oh she broke the african child wow abuse no brian why does everyone
05:55:10.260
keep saying i should fight sophia i don't even know who she is oh yeah we're actually organizing a
05:55:15.620
boxing match really for me i'm honored who is sophia you guys gonna do a whatever boxing event
05:55:22.340
i'm so confused i'm pretty sure she was on when i was gone but i don't know she was who she was
05:55:28.820
where did you get these babies i'm gonna read this super chat
05:55:33.940
you're just like posted up portugal has beautiful people cool coach culture and great nightlife for
05:55:39.220
meeting people too plus portugal is super cheap for western europe yeah okay have you been to portugal
05:55:44.900
i don't i don't get a helmet or anything about it yeah apparently i don't get a hat or a helmet
05:55:50.340
it's absolutely true i was gonna go there in october but in september but we elected for turkey
05:55:55.460
oh my god my boyfriend's portuguese your boyfriend's portuguese loves portugal
05:56:04.020
is he portuguese portuguese or like american uh half portuguese half white you guys
05:56:09.460
don't have cute little exotic babies i know what you guys have cute exotic babies i know yes i'm so
05:56:15.220
excited i'm waiting to like like at least graduate college i'm feeling really stylish i'm reading it
05:56:19.860
right now or we were just addressing it people are beautiful cool culture oh we got everyone set up
05:56:26.980
with the props i'm trying to madison your lip syncs with brian are always a baby come with a dick
05:56:32.660
yes that's what we were just looking at don't worry maddie that's hilarious sophia
05:56:37.700
more likely yeah that's what i was saying like the props and everything no i like the
05:56:42.900
the eye burning okay i just want to say i don't even know who sophia is so
05:56:48.180
y'all gotta okay y'all gotta give me a little more information it does when you first turned it on
05:56:52.740
i went a little blind for a second i'll go back and watch it it was so bright because you didn't
05:56:57.860
have it on the whole time we were here on tuesday i'll be back thank you so much i wear helmets all
05:57:03.700
the time but not this kind safety first protect what kind of helmet i think it just damaged my
05:57:09.220
eyesight could i maybe have like a different have you worn this doesn't damage your eyes with okay with
05:57:15.540
this being red and then the rest of it being blue i'm like it's just seeing other dimensions if she
05:57:20.500
wears it for so long she's literally gonna only see red in one eye get her no prop come on come
05:57:27.860
on brian you can't be you can't be you can't be harming your yeah i know that's why i like you do
05:57:34.180
do you want us to pass you this baby we can just we can trade them down yeah it's good we can like
05:57:45.300
cast them down yeah versus madison versus erica whatever you want who's erica maybe we can like
05:57:51.060
sneak maybe i can sit there and sink madison maybe wait what maybe i can sit there do you want to sit
05:57:57.700
in my seat or your seat one in the chat if you can hear me kind of being ridiculous back there can
05:58:02.420
you guys hear me or is it scott one in the chat if you can hear me let's see what they say
05:58:07.780
i'm not aquarius i'm sagittarius can you guys hear brian i don't really believe in those one in
05:58:17.700
the chat if you can hear brian one two we've got some toes one kinda okay should we give brian a mic
05:58:26.660
oh it's your decision now that's theirs not mine okay i guess we'll scoot down i guess they can kind
05:58:34.740
of hear you okay wait what are we doing wait i'm just curious right so i was really uh where where
05:58:42.580
you guys from again where y'all live i live in a small town uh in the sacramento area in california
05:58:49.300
jose what is the sacramento area oh i'm sorry shingle springs have you been living there your whole life
05:58:56.660
uh i lived in another part of another small town in california growing up um until about 10 years
05:59:03.700
ago and then i moved where i live now wait how about we do this madison yes i'll sit i'll take this
05:59:09.620
i'll sit in the back okay but you have a mic now yeah that's fine i'm cool with that and then we're
05:59:15.140
going to have five minutes perfect it's been yeah girls got work it's been fun madison has work but we
05:59:23.540
are trying to get it so that she uh she's going to become a twitch streamer so um on the whatever
05:59:29.860
my shoulders be wild i'm kind of scared madison is going to start streaming on the uh whatever twitch
05:59:37.780
channel and that's actually going to be her new full-time job playing uh world of warcraft i think
05:59:42.740
we're just gonna have you do just chatting to start off yeah i'm cool with that yeah just chatting um
05:59:48.740
um you're gonna have to drop out of college though i'm kidding i could never you don't have to do
05:59:54.340
i just woke up how the fuck is this still alive what's up somebody in chat said i just woke up and
05:59:59.780
how is this still alive we've been going we've been streaming for six hours damn yeah put a helmet on
06:00:07.060
now has it been six is it comfortable yeah i think it's been six is this your longest podcast
06:00:14.180
we've had some pretty freaking long yeah we just hit six six hours just now are you gonna try and
06:00:19.860
do like a 24 hour stream at some point oh lord no didn't that used to be like a thing on people
06:00:25.700
people still do it people definitely yeah walmart toilet paper for
06:00:29.460
i can't no i wouldn't i need my sleep i'm too old for that but yeah you know you know never say
06:00:39.380
never is that a oh you guys you guys like rugby over here yeah i'm a rugby fan i like really yeah
06:00:45.780
have you ever been to australia uh yeah yeah yeah have you guys ever been to australia have not but
06:00:52.420
would love to go always wanted to go the uh the wallabies quade cooper yes do you know them well
06:01:01.220
are you more like rugby league or rugby union or australian rules i'm i'm more into australian
06:01:08.660
australian rules football that's what it's called right afl aussie rules have you guys ever heard of
06:01:13.220
australian rules football yes it's a pretty brutal game i've played that for a few years but in terms
06:01:18.340
of rugby i'd go more rugby union how does australian rules differ um so australian rules is basically
06:01:25.540
it's like the rugby ball but it's more of like a oval sort of shape it's more rounded and it's a
06:01:31.300
harder ball and you drop it on your foot and you like this you kick it and then you could kick it to
06:01:36.340
somebody if they catch it they get to stop and then the goal is to eventually kick it through the goals
06:01:42.180
it's it's a different sort of sport it's very rough wait can you move those out of frame
06:01:47.060
i'm ocd i don't like yeah sorry i refuse to advertise your oh yeah what about the in-and-out
06:01:56.340
listen in and out gets a pass okay does it yeah no in and out if you're watching sponsor
06:02:02.260
sponsor the whatever podcast that would be such an epic sponsor it would be i need sponsors
06:02:07.860
i need sponsors brian what are these um cameras inside huh there's a little indoor big brother
06:02:15.460
watching you at all times did you set those up what do you mean did you put them up what do you mean
06:02:20.820
security cameras there's like seventy thousand dollars of did you like go to the store and buy
06:02:24.980
them and put them up yourself what the what well it's with the specific uh i sell i sell smart home
06:02:31.380
and security system who's trying to sell you i'm just asking kitchen you're not you're not happy with
06:02:37.060
myself yes please she gets not on my door so here not on me no because this is like my break this is
06:02:45.620
a break from all of that you can do it hello what do you want so you're a hairdresser so i've been going
06:02:52.820
to school to do hair but i'm currently on a leave of absence so that i can go knock people's doors and
06:03:01.300
sell smart homes smell smart homes are you trying to sell me right now is that why you're i could
06:03:06.980
if you wanted me to you know what actually happened though i on my way here well like at the denver
06:03:12.340
airport the shuttle bus driver straight up asked me like i like told him that i what i do for work and
06:03:17.380
then he gave me his information to like get him a system so it's pretty simple i mean i can
06:03:24.580
get hook you up wait madison they can't see everybody in the chat that if they send her up
06:03:28.420
if they need a security system that i'm gonna grow with the deals people either love me or they hate
06:03:33.220
me they love me because they get them a deal or they hate me because i knocked on their door jake is
06:03:37.700
so fine take the helmet off okay thank you much appreciated oh no don't you don't know keep it on
06:03:43.940
someone else's good to speak so you don't think i'm fine no you are fine with the helmet though
06:03:49.380
speak deeper i can i can hear my voice like reverberating around my did we read this one
06:03:54.340
madison versus sophia in the boxing fight winner gets the baby i read that yeah sophia might be coming
06:03:59.860
on tuesday so maybe you guys can who is sophia yeah i don't know the chat i guess is maybe simping
06:04:08.020
for her i don't know can you fight madison was she cool um my my dad has taught me a few moves
06:04:17.940
is your dad on the asian side yes okay so he can fight well both my parents are on the asian side
06:04:25.620
um hospitalized a guy a bit of winchang your dad hospitalized a guy yeah damn i don't really want
06:04:32.500
actually i probably shouldn't even says is your dad in the mafia maybe okay good times we had while
06:04:42.660
you were gone madison we had a girl on who was a vietnamese and a lot of people were suspecting that
06:04:52.100
maybe she was affiliated with the snake the snake which i guess is like some organized crime thing
06:04:58.660
what would be surprised those vietnamese man they like control the heroin they're crazy
06:05:03.060
well i'm not oh you're not no i thought you were vietnamese no huh you've been misleading me this
06:05:09.860
entire time no you never asked me i thought you were vietnamese that's kind of that's kind of messed
06:05:14.180
up that you didn't know that you're like why is that messed up well you are vietnamese come on
06:05:19.060
man she's from thailand i'm thai no you're not okay i'm vietnamese guys you were vietnamese i'm vietnamese
06:05:26.180
guys no i'm not i've never told you that ever no i'm pretty sure you told me brian this is yet
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another reason to cancel you this evening right because i asked if she was well this is i think
06:05:36.900
the second time you've racially profiled someone now yeah brian am i incorrectly i'm still deeply
06:05:45.300
offended what about what oh that i that you miss raced me i miss raced you oh you called her white
06:05:52.660
so are you not white she's you're half white yeah i'm i'm i'm half mixed european and then i'm half
06:05:59.140
indian asian like asian indian oh really yeah like as in india india yeah really you don't know
06:06:04.980
you need wait what's your can you share your last name patel oh yeah that's indian
06:06:11.300
trust me there's there's hundreds there's millions of priya patels in the world one of them's the uh
06:06:16.180
foreign foreign affairs secretary or something in the united kingdom have you been pretty
06:06:20.980
here yeah cool good times wait what were you saying aubrey you're talking shit yeah she was just
06:06:29.140
saying that you're racially profound oh wait so what about you're gonna get cancelled what was that
06:06:34.900
looking like michael jackson impersonator what i know i'm not gonna lie i used to love michael jackson when
06:06:41.220
i was a kid i did a school project on on like his music when i was probably like seven years old
06:06:46.420
because i do look like with the with the baby and i still love his music yeah yeah rest in peace
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what we're gonna do is we're gonna have madison fight do a boxing match with sophia and then we're
06:07:00.420
gonna have kiko either go up against taytay or nikki the kind of uh the the girl with the spider
06:07:10.420
tattoo on her neck i casually saw kiko walking down the street today i was just like eating a
06:07:14.740
burger and i did you like fangirl no but i had a second i literally like did like a double take
06:07:19.540
like i watched her walk by and i was like wait were you on state street i was just i was at the habit
06:07:24.180
as in rage quick kika rage quickly here i was i was really i was low-key hoping that she'd be
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i don't know honestly i've just been like walking around yeah no i see her like i see her like every
06:07:34.900
weekend i was trying to get her she works like downtown like a club brian i was really i was
06:07:39.380
actually kind of scared to come on here this was very tame compared to what i was
06:07:45.140
well first of all i think i talked to a couple of the girls we were all scared that we were going
06:07:49.060
to be like the only like kind of conservative girls on here i would have had your back if you
06:07:55.300
i know i thought about that too yeah well the panel was pretty stacked i think um i mean i thought
06:08:01.940
it was a good conversation but it was pretty tame like there wasn't a ton that we thought it was
06:08:06.660
boring i was fully ready to come like argue with people if there was a bit of purple hair on the
06:08:10.980
other side it would have been well there's the girl here in the middle who blasted tats like
06:08:16.980
yeah i was expecting a little pushback from her i was like a tiny bit but then i feel like there
06:08:23.700
were so many people with the same viewpoint in regards to certain things that like it kind of
06:08:30.100
just like i noticed like at one point or another there was just like three people against her not
06:08:35.060
like against but like just with opposing arguments yeah yeah it's tough like if it's not balanced like
06:08:41.700
if there's one girl who's like would otherwise challenge us if like she feels like she's gonna get
06:08:48.580
dogpiled then they're gonna be like a little more reserved with like vocalizing their they need a
06:08:54.420
big gail power around them yeah so that well you you hit them with the what'd you say earlier i think
06:09:01.060
you said slay queen or something stupid like that yeah i think you said yes queen yes queen
06:09:07.460
um not much better the soup chat we have steel surfer uh priya can you read this one for us brian's flannel
06:09:14.100
game is over 9 000. recommend buttercloth shirts for the style what's everyone's opinion on a man
06:09:20.020
dating multiple women but tells the girls that they have to be monogamous with him based
06:09:25.380
doesn't that come across as hypocritical come to dallas thank you thank you steel surfer for the uh
06:09:36.580
i'm not a fan anybody oh yeah i think that wait madison if frankie
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no just no okay no yeah in terms of that i think it just depends on the people's preference
06:09:48.180
you get stacks of girls out there who are fine with it if it's a guy who's gonna be paying the bills and
06:09:54.580
yeah guys who are cool with that too i mean i wouldn't do it because it's one girl is enough
06:09:59.300
like yeah for myself like i'm not as worried about like i'm not as worried about like the
06:10:05.300
physical things that i'm getting as far as like if they're gonna pay for like this and that it's
06:10:09.860
more so like like what i want is like that intimacy that genuine connection with one person and for them
06:10:15.140
to feel the same way yeah i like i said i wouldn't i wouldn't be down with it but like i think there are
06:10:20.580
a lot of people who genuinely just that's their lifestyle you know and there are girls who are looking
06:10:24.500
to get provided for and they're not looking for anything deeper and then there are guys who are just
06:10:28.420
looking to have multiple chicks and there's been guys like that throughout history but yeah that
06:10:33.540
sounds like a headache to me what about during back in like the spartan days yeah i don't know all my
06:10:40.020
boys back in the spartan thermopoly i don't know how they would deal with numerous women because i
06:10:44.980
feel like one woman would be enough of like chaos if you've got stamina like a spot is that what you are
06:10:50.340
in your relationships chaos i mean like no not necessarily chaos but like i definitely have my moments
06:10:55.140
where it's like like i'd get a little bit tired and then like a little grumpy that's why you have
06:11:00.900
to date wait nick can you pull up uh can you can you pull up aubrey's you have to do what you have to
06:11:06.740
date instagram oh my gosh no he was actually yeah it's in the description he was like the sweetest guy
06:11:12.500
ever too it was like the most unexpected thing it was a dui it was a dui yeah he wasn't pushing and the
06:11:18.660
assault was like oh because he was out of it because it because it was yuki needs a dating
06:11:23.940
coach but that was because of drugs which brings zirka and that was before are you gonna bring zucker
06:11:28.740
on brian i mean he was he was in la uh this past week and we were in contact and he was gonna maybe
06:11:41.220
come on the show do you have any any negative any bad feelings towards zirka or you guys have you guys
06:11:47.060
squashed the beef uh there's no there's no beef but and i don't know if he's gonna end up seeing this
06:11:54.340
uh i i'm like he says some wild on twitter and i don't know if he's trolling or if he's serious but
06:12:05.940
he says some pretty wild shit on twitter so i think he's like a he's a comedian he says in his
06:12:13.300
twitter bio that he's a comedian so i don't know if i take it so if you're able to put it back up
06:12:18.340
there thanks man i don't know if i like five five more minutes take it fully seriously but um these
06:12:24.100
days we have like in the attention economy you know you have to sort of there are people who like
06:12:28.900
you know have to say outrageous no you're right you're right um do you have aubrey's or actually before
06:12:34.980
you do that let me do uh we have sandeep penta here wait put it back for a sec
06:12:43.460
yo sandeep thank you for the uh super chat and i think this he meant to write this
06:12:48.340
is this really happening live like this yeah we're live right now it's 1 15 a.m here in california
06:12:54.900
it is i've got to drive to lax at 5 a.m oh you didn't get a hotel yeah i've got a hotel but oh but
06:13:02.100
you have to leave my flight's at 10 probably best to not sleep at that point sleep on the flight
06:13:08.100
yeah i'm gonna have to drive for three hours where where are you flying to um miami oh you're going to
06:13:13.060
my are you going on fnf or not no no no i didn't i didn't know those guys but yeah what are you doing
06:13:18.740
out in miami then um we're just gonna work for a week to be honest i've always wanted to check out
06:13:22.820
miami yo guys should rattlesnake be co-host are you down down to be the co-host of whatever i'm
06:13:31.140
looking for a co-host because everyone shit talks me in the chat and uh who said afl isn't a real
06:13:37.460
sport okay oh he's that's uh that's one of our mods nemesis i'll tell you what he's in australia
06:13:44.660
rattlesnake tv is going to be hitting the road in the next few months and we're going to be getting
06:13:49.060
buying a van a minivan or a truck or a bus of some sort and we're going to be i haven't actually
06:13:54.260
told anyone this yet putting some logos on the side creating a little studio so in america
06:14:00.420
probably in america yeah yeah that's going to happen in the future is this going to be your
06:14:04.260
first time in florida yeah okay it's only my second time in la it's actually nice up here i
06:14:08.820
wouldn't i wouldn't stay for very long in in la but i do like it i have a feeling you'll like you'll
06:14:13.780
like florida i spend the winters in florida and i absolutely adore it yeah i'm looking forward to it
06:14:18.900
bougie apparently you guys want to take out whatever international brian is this is this just
06:14:23.860
conjecture well i mean i have entertained like franchising whatever so basically giving someone
06:14:30.180
the framework to start their own thing like this and we bring it to a market like in
06:14:34.740
could be in south america it could be in asia it could be in europe it could be in australia
06:14:38.900
and basically and then we give them the framework here's how we do our setup we give them the technical
06:14:45.300
knowledge we'll we'll even i mean this is this is not anything i'm planning to do immediately but
06:14:51.620
we would fly out to their location turnkey give them basically set them up with a podcast studio
06:14:58.500
because i did all this shit on my own so i figured out all the fucking technical issues i was doing
06:15:03.220
youtube for 10 years but i used to watch videos yeah i've been doing youtube for 10 years but like
06:15:08.660
figuring out audio stuff like because i you know video stuff i was decent with but audio stuff like
06:15:14.340
that's a whole nother in some ways that's more complex than than video so i'm thinking like okay
06:15:19.860
franchise this shit like fight club every city like bunch of cities you could have a show you know and
06:15:26.260
it'd have to be san barbara is not not an ideal location to do this because it should be in la to be honest
06:15:32.180
but there this there's a serious market for this i reckon if you had a show in london where you could
06:15:36.980
get get because you know pearl yeah yeah she's in london but she might be moving to the states
06:15:42.820
that would be a good vibe though because like london also has such an like an eclectic group of
06:15:46.980
people as well so yeah but then you get stabbed and shit so i don't know about true no i wouldn't
06:15:51.220
be that happens in l i would have a franchise i could definitely do a franchise um i think that'd be a good
06:15:56.660
idea not and not only do we set them up with you know here's how to run the podcast here's all our
06:16:03.540
like knowledge that we've developed here's like what we send out like i have a i have like i could
06:16:10.100
write a book on this whole podcast setup um we also offer cross promotion so we say okay
06:16:17.220
franchise boom we'll uh we'll promote you every quarter you can come be on the show something
06:16:23.380
something like that this is just like big picture stuff that i was thinking about
06:16:27.140
um in order for for me to be interested in doing something like this we're talking like
06:16:31.700
you know like mid six figures you know for me to actually want to like spend my time like helping
06:16:37.620
someone set this up but um anyways let's move on from that uh wait so just curious you're on a flight
06:16:46.580
in three hours four hours or you have to leave i'm getting up at 4 30 i have to leave at
06:16:52.340
five and then i've got to be i'm going to be at lax at around eight flights at 10. i've got to i've
06:16:58.180
hired a car so i've got to go and drop that off and then okay into the airport but mate i'm fine
06:17:02.980
i've done a lot less sleep we've like sometimes like in asia and stuff we've had to do one hour
06:17:07.540
sleep and go film for the whole day so it's all good it's it's a good amount of sleep on the flight
06:17:11.940
what about you guys what are your plans um you guys kicking in the bus at noon tomorrow going back
06:17:17.860
to lax and then going home what about you priya i'm driving back to santa clarita tonight you're oh
06:17:24.900
you're in santa clarita that's like uh hour and a half los angeles ish like suburbs okay gotcha what
06:17:32.900
about you i'm heading to the airport after this hell yeah rock and roll uh very cool okay uh oh we
06:17:40.820
have to react to aubrey's instagram let's do it by the way guys super chats we'll do oh i should have
06:17:45.380
updated it in the description we're going to do super chats uh just 1999 and not before you do that
06:17:50.820
enjoy florida my state go to space club and versailles restaurant that's from mr meatball thank you man
06:17:57.380
how come my my instagram is the one of choice here i don't know i don't somehow it came up i think
06:18:02.660
i don't know uh jason witala brian's got to find a mini me and do the austin powers accent for a whole
06:18:08.900
show you know what's crazy guys is i have a friend who's a dwarf and i've invited him on but he's very
06:18:17.300
flaky and here's the problem though he's mexican oh holy shit that sounds so bad no no no like
06:18:27.540
i don't i don't mean it's bad i didn't mean it like that bro you're gonna barricade the
06:18:32.740
doors that's the most mexican place i've ever seen that's not what i mean i mean i'm white
06:18:39.940
mini me has to be like the same skin like oh my god jesus christ you're digging yourself a bigger hole
06:18:47.300
some dickhead is gonna clip that shit be like yo brian's but everyone's gonna be like everyone's
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gonna be like big w for the impression somebody's gonna clip bro i didn't mean like that son i did
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not mean that well i'm trying to say bro what listen and you're in libtown
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this is this is what i meant austin powers if you're not familiar with the movie mini me looks
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just like dr evil okay he looks just like him so my friend groovy baby paul okay his name's paul
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okay he happens to have a much darker complexion than me he can't be my mini me okay unless i get
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a 10. okay okay all right is it good this is aubrey's instagram are you still talking like this
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okay we're going to scroll down oh put it on gh guys the top sources the whole instagram thing i'm
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just starting to the very top one uh click the eyeball it's kind of symbolic but i was also just
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why is there a man's head clean it up a little bit cool oh that's my brother's head because i do
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hair let's scroll down let's go to the very bottom let's see the embarrassing photos that's right go
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for it she's pretty i used to be blonde oh oh there we go you know what very different let's do the
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one with the hat click on that first one oh shit you were kind of blocking it can you do you still go
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to bring them university no that was just okay i don't know why oh yeah you can do that oh yeah
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that's oh there's i don't wear any of that stuff anymore scoot the other one over there and scoot
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it over yeah no no no i was like my one of my parents sweatshirts i think i think that was my
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mom my mom went to that university so i think that was her here i want you to do control z
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no no no now you're fucking shut up major control z control z again control z again
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okay good well oh my god you know the honeycombs oh my god we're safe trying to clean up my account
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a little bit so it's like adding the little space blockers in there because
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my instagram's not your aesthetic you guys i'm just i'm so some dipshit's gonna
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fucking clip that fuck brian you know how you can solve the problem of finding yourself a mini me
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yeah have a kid have a child just do it that's the perfect mini me are you kidding
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i'm ready slow down there you'll pay for the day i've been noticing your nurturing abilities with
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that baby and i'm impressed yeah i'm like aubrey deforming her baby this baby looks seriously
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uncomfortable look at his facial expression here's the thing is i was trying to like hold it in a
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better way but you were doing some very inappropriate things okay don't say that
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you're doing some inappropriate things okay all i'll say is that his legs were backwards at one
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point in time that's yeah i don't know he's just an acrobat
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launch the little african baby i just like wait i just want my kids to do what they want to do and if
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he wants to you know dude is this audible hold on oh my god okay we're good and i'm the one who's
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your neighbors were like stop dropping your african baby again well he said that's what he said he had
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right and that was probably strike four you punch them what do you mean strike four do you know what
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color that doll is what the bro you're the one making it weird now what the f**k
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brian why did you have the babies again here i'll drop the white one too equality
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quality yeah yeah drop kick that yeah that one's not as heavy somehow i don't know okay let me read
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this we have uh super rc brian great pod down to co-host priya looks hella cute especially with hat
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on what sport do you play i played pro sport two i'm an equestrian i ride horses okay good times
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good times great classic thank you great times wait what were we what were we talking about before
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that doctor the doctor evil awesome is it a good accent is it good accent w for the uh impression i'd
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say is it okay like is it decent it was pretty decent i'm sorry i think we're gonna get copyrighted
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because everyone's gonna think it's austin powers the actual movie i'm gonna think that you're
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stitching the audio in someone just did a rating except grace isn't here so i don't know who he's
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referring to uh blair blair says it's a hundred out of ten pretty good okay please keep going with
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the dr evil brian drop kicked the baby mixture of trump and dr evil it's a great accent resembles a
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spirit of trump oh it's trump okay it was more like a trump china china listen we have the great
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wait i'm trying to think what what does he say i have the best words the best words oh wow
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he does like uh he does like a no he's very audible with his hands
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oh he does that doesn't he goes when he's making a joke he goes he does it's the it's the lion ted
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fab what is what's his like main thing that you say with the great
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maga i'm gonna make great i'm gonna make america great again no no no not that huge huge
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huge billions and billions and billions i don't know if i can do trump i don't know if i can do trump
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anybody anybody here can do trump anybody anybody here can do an accent i can do a french accent go
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ahead let's hear it what do you want me to say say i would i don't know um just go
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i am not very impressed by these americans and they're only fans i'm not impressed by your
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performance nice i like to do the um hey what's going on in here do i look like a fucking asshole to
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you that's pretty good that's pretty good 1960s new york like italian i used to be able to do a dora
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voice but oh my god have you seen the sopranos maybe we could do like a jersey sopranos type thing like
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i'm trying to think how i can get into the sopranos listen
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a gabba ghoul don't don't don't ever fuck me okay don't ever fuck me
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okay i'm cool with that like how about how about a vorat impression can either of you do they're
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nice they're nice i like you i like a sex it's nice
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this is my sister she's number three prostitute in all of kazakhstan
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give me your tears gypsy that's a good don't shrink me gypsy
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do not shrink me gypsum can you pull up the song the borat dance song we'll play like throw the
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yeah it's the borat dancing song people are already saying you're clipped brian what aussie i can do
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i don't it's probably going to get copyright let's not do it because i don't want i want to avoid
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i'm trying to think you name it you can't jinx a um no maybe not if i'm losing maybe next time
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maybe next time if i have a chance to catch the jinx someone said indian accents are their favorite for
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you know what's interesting is there's some accents are okay to do
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and other accents are not okay is borat okay to do is is an indian accent okay to do no no
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no why not you cannot do it no all i know are the ones i'm indian so
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those are the only ones i i give you the pass brian but they're not talking now
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they're not talking the indians and omegle they're doing other things
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but yeah i mean yeah you can't like it would you you could not do as a white person you you could
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definitely i don't think you're allowed to do an indian accent like an asian accent or like a black
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accent so why is that though is the world just too sensitive now nobody can i'm not sure why that
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is i don't know can you do an indian accent there you go that was really canceled okay you name it
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i've got it but if but if he's able to nail the accent i don't know if you can cancel him they might
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think i'm actually in comedians can do it yeah is it uh everyone wants you to do an indian accent
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wait did we read this one who needs a duck a wiggy model aubrey can you read this awesome after show
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great panel tonight great to see some beautiful based women still exist priya you willing to move
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and then we have claudia try south african accent oh fuck i feel like i can kind of do it
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this is africa no no no south african like african i was doing leonardo di caprio
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what does he say uh tia this is africa we need to get some petroleum look at me
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where is the diamond no that's not i feel like i am they took a
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it's like i'm actually i've got to talk here they took a bit like a little bit
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fuck i don't know is this right here this is kind of like no no no no don't be going
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don't be going let's do australian oh the australian yeah the thing is with australian
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you call that a knife this is a knife yeah okay that's all right it wasn't too bad it wasn't too
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bad you don't want to do new zealand though because that's when things get very dark when you go to that
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side of the pond yes yeah they all love sheeps a bit too much unfortunately my kiwi brethren to the east
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i don't know i don't know south african it's a bit like certificate it's a bit up here
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oh wait i don't know okay never mind okay um all right let's uh let's call it there let's wrap up
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there guys thank you for tuning in to the after show uh this is probably our longest stream ever i can't
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i need to stop doing this i need to wrap the shows at like three hours but uh yeah anyways um
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sticking around late i know you have uh some work tomorrow um thank you guys for tuning in tonight
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