Whatever Podcast - July 11, 2023


Dating Talk #82

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Andrew Wilson Brian Atlas
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In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we have our first guest on the show, and it's a girl from Virginia! We talk about what it's like growing up in the 80s and 90s, and what it was like to grow up in a house with a beard.

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00:03:28.780 Okay, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
00:03:31.660 So, please, tell us your name, age, occupation, and where you're from.
00:03:35.320 Go ahead.
00:03:36.200 My name is Burke.
00:03:38.160 I'm 26 years old.
00:03:39.980 And I'm from Virginia, but I live in L.A. now.
00:03:43.380 And I do OnlyFans, so spicy content creator.
00:03:47.780 Rock and roll.
00:03:48.920 Hi, I'm Daria.
00:03:51.500 I'm 29.
00:03:54.300 I'm from Iran.
00:03:55.600 Grew up in the Valley, downtown, K-town, whatever.
00:03:59.960 School for photography, but do music, art, modeling, whatever.
00:04:04.280 When did you move from Iran?
00:04:05.980 I was eight.
00:04:07.060 Eight years old.
00:04:07.700 Yeah.
00:04:08.000 Do you speak Farsi, is it?
00:04:09.960 Yeah, I still do.
00:04:11.380 You still speak it?
00:04:12.360 Can we hear a little Farsi?
00:04:13.960 She looks like we have a big M. 0.86
00:04:15.540 Of course, yeah, totally.
00:04:17.740 I agree.
00:04:18.680 Okay, what about you?
00:04:20.480 Hi, my name is Mandy.
00:04:21.840 I'm from the San Fernando Valley, A1A.
00:04:25.220 I'm 23 and a full-time OnlyFans creator.
00:04:29.820 Okay, welcome.
00:04:31.500 My name is Aubrey.
00:04:32.660 I'm 19, from Kansas.
00:04:34.700 I live in Colorado currently, and I am a door-to-door solicitor, salesperson.
00:04:41.060 Sorry, age again?
00:04:42.260 19.
00:04:42.880 19, okay.
00:04:44.780 Got it.
00:04:45.260 What about you?
00:04:45.620 Hi, my name's Brittany.
00:04:48.120 I am 26 years old.
00:04:50.120 I am from Texas, and I am an OnlyFans model.
00:04:53.580 All right.
00:04:55.340 Hi, my name is Tasia.
00:04:57.180 I'm 24 years old.
00:04:58.980 I'm from New Mexico, and I'm a student pilot.
00:05:01.640 My name is Nicole.
00:05:05.960 I'm the panel elder.
00:05:07.280 I'm 39 years old, and I'm an investor and business owner, originally from California, and still
00:05:12.620 live here. 0.74
00:05:13.820 Sorry, my pen is fucking up properly.
00:05:16.660 Maddie is getting me a new one. 0.78
00:05:17.760 So, you're 20 what?
00:05:19.260 24.
00:05:19.800 24, and you're 39, correct?
00:05:22.100 Yes.
00:05:22.240 Thank you, Maddie.
00:05:24.260 Okay, 24. 0.99
00:05:26.140 Holy shit, this one's busted, too. 0.99
00:05:27.480 Okay. 0.99
00:05:28.220 I'll make it work.
00:05:29.140 Okay.
00:05:29.280 Okay, go ahead.
00:05:31.680 Hi, my name is Priya.
00:05:32.940 I'm 22 years old, and I'm from Sacramento, California.
00:05:37.700 I co-run a family business.
00:05:39.780 I'm an athlete, and I'm a full-time student at ASU Online.
00:05:44.060 All right.
00:05:45.740 Hi, my name is Grace.
00:05:47.220 I'm 18 years old.
00:05:48.440 I'm from San Diego, California, and I'm a marketing student at John Paul the Great Catholic
00:05:53.400 University.
00:05:54.160 My name is Jake, 27, Rattlesnake TV on YouTube, and I'm from Australia.
00:06:00.540 What part of Australia?
00:06:02.320 Brisbane.
00:06:03.160 Brisbane.
00:06:04.060 The land of dangerous fires.
00:06:04.480 That's the East Coast, right?
00:06:05.760 Yeah.
00:06:06.080 Okay.
00:06:06.860 Sweet.
00:06:07.900 All right.
00:06:08.760 And so, we're going to go out on the table one more time.
00:06:11.920 What is your current relationship status?
00:06:13.500 Are you single?
00:06:14.220 You got friends with benefits?
00:06:15.720 Talking stage?
00:06:17.380 Situationship?
00:06:18.080 Relationship?
00:06:18.520 And then, also, if you are single, how long have you been single, and what's your longest
00:06:23.500 relationship?
00:06:24.600 Go ahead.
00:06:25.620 Okay.
00:06:26.200 So, current relationship status, very single, and I've been single for about, oh, God, I
00:06:34.700 want to say, like, three years, and then longest relationship was around, it was, like, an on
00:06:40.680 and off relationship for, like, six months.
00:06:45.520 Sure.
00:06:46.700 Okay.
00:06:48.520 Um, I'm, I'm very single, as well.
00:06:51.920 Uh, last relationship, like, maybe two and a half years ago, I was engaged.
00:06:59.540 What's the difference between single and very single?
00:07:02.080 Oh, like, I'm not looking to not be single anytime soon.
00:07:06.200 You're not looking to not be single?
00:07:07.740 Anytime soon, though.
00:07:08.700 Okay, cool.
00:07:10.860 Me too.
00:07:12.300 You know, like, I'm, I'm good.
00:07:15.140 You almost get married, it's so, it's like.
00:07:17.640 Talking to the mic?
00:07:18.260 I'm going to reel back in, like, a lot.
00:07:20.660 Yeah.
00:07:21.280 Thank you.
00:07:21.980 Um, I'm single.
00:07:23.940 Uh, longest relationship was a year, about a year and a half ago was.
00:07:28.580 Did he break up, or did you break up?
00:07:31.440 Oh, uh, first of all.
00:07:33.240 You've got the question.
00:07:33.860 Um, uh.
00:07:36.400 What did he do?
00:07:38.880 What did he do?
00:07:39.860 Yeah.
00:07:40.240 What did he do?
00:07:41.600 That's the question.
00:07:43.440 Okay.
00:07:44.060 I can, I know what the answer is.
00:07:46.040 Uh, he broke up with me because I caught him cheating.
00:07:49.840 He broke up with you because you caught him cheating.
00:07:53.760 Yeah.
00:07:54.320 Interesting.
00:07:54.780 Interesting how that works.
00:07:55.740 Yeah, okay.
00:07:56.640 Yeah, right.
00:07:57.360 Okay.
00:07:58.800 Were you also cheating?
00:08:00.420 No.
00:08:01.260 Never.
00:08:02.620 Never?
00:08:03.440 Yeah.
00:08:03.820 Ever.
00:08:04.440 All right.
00:08:05.240 Not on my roster.
00:08:06.160 That sounded a little sarcastic.
00:08:09.620 No, I'm just kidding.
00:08:10.360 Never, never, never.
00:08:11.220 Wait, okay.
00:08:11.620 So just to recap, single, single, single.
00:08:13.840 Okay.
00:08:14.540 No, those two are very single.
00:08:16.260 Oh, very, very single.
00:08:17.760 Very single, yes.
00:08:18.980 Very single.
00:08:19.640 There's a difference, Brian.
00:08:20.100 Make difference, make difference.
00:08:21.820 Okay.
00:08:22.900 Sorry, Burke, what's your age again?
00:08:24.800 Um, I'm 26.
00:08:25.860 26, okay.
00:08:26.700 Very single for the both of you.
00:08:28.440 You're single.
00:08:29.580 Um, how long have you guys been single again?
00:08:31.500 Sorry, I had to get up and fix something.
00:08:33.040 Um, I've been single for like three years, I think.
00:08:36.760 Didn't you have a ting last time you were on the show?
00:08:40.420 I'm like wondering, when was I?
00:08:43.020 March?
00:08:43.380 I think it was March, or no. 1.00
00:08:46.500 Shit, when was that? 0.99
00:08:47.260 I'm like trying to think, because it was when I wore my blue wig, and I'm like, I'm trying 0.99
00:08:50.460 to think.
00:08:50.480 I think it was April.
00:08:52.140 Wait.
00:08:52.560 So you had a ting.
00:08:53.360 I thought it was January.
00:08:53.860 What's a ting?
00:08:54.600 Like a, like a thing with someone, but I like, listen.
00:08:57.780 So you had a ting, you wore the blue wig, now you have no ting.
00:09:00.280 Actually, yeah.
00:09:00.680 I honestly don't even remember.
00:09:01.900 I think it was February.
00:09:03.640 I think it was February, when you were last on the show.
00:09:08.180 February.
00:09:11.180 Oh, I don't even, I don't remember, actually.
00:09:14.020 If, who it was, honestly.
00:09:16.040 Okay, that's fine.
00:09:16.900 Probably not that important.
00:09:17.980 Yeah, not, probably not that important.
00:09:19.500 Got it.
00:09:20.460 What about you?
00:09:21.600 I'm single.
00:09:22.600 Been single for about two months.
00:09:24.260 My longest relationship is just over ten months.
00:09:28.100 Okay.
00:09:28.540 I am single.
00:09:32.700 I'm in a situation ship with my ex-boyfriend.
00:09:37.480 We've probably been on and off for like two years now.
00:09:40.660 We broke up two years ago.
00:09:42.100 And my longest relationship was two and a half years.
00:09:45.200 Is that the current situation ship?
00:09:48.360 No, it was not.
00:09:49.520 Okay.
00:09:50.360 I love that story.
00:09:51.720 Your ex-boyfriend is your current situation ship and your manager.
00:09:54.800 Yeah.
00:09:55.380 Amazing.
00:09:55.520 It's a great dynamic.
00:09:56.760 On OF.
00:09:57.180 Jeff, do you make content with him or you do solo content?
00:10:01.460 You have to go check that out.
00:10:02.820 Oh, my.
00:10:04.260 How much per month?
00:10:05.760 I'm okay.
00:10:06.240 I'll pass on that.
00:10:07.520 How much per month?
00:10:08.540 It's 15 per month.
00:10:09.460 Okay.
00:10:10.320 Is there a discount?
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00:10:16.860 So, the reason that we broke up, I was still finding a lot out about myself.
00:10:23.400 You know, went through some crazy stages and we just weren't in tune with each other.
00:10:27.900 Timing.
00:10:28.720 Yeah.
00:10:29.180 Timing for sure.
00:10:30.100 Heard that one before.
00:10:31.680 He's also in LA and I'm in Texas.
00:10:34.080 Okay.
00:10:34.360 So, it's kind of a long distance.
00:10:35.920 Okay.
00:10:36.640 A long distance situation ship and he manages your OnlyFans.
00:10:41.960 Yeah.
00:10:42.240 Good times.
00:10:42.700 Great dynamic right there.
00:10:44.200 Good times.
00:10:45.280 Does he stop managing it when you guys are like, you know how people are on again, off
00:10:48.700 again?
00:10:49.000 Like, if it's in and off again, does he kind of hands off when it comes to, like, uploading 0.98
00:10:53.620 like nudes and shit? 0.92
00:10:55.220 No, he's pretty professional when it comes to needing to stick to business. 0.99
00:10:59.320 Okay.
00:10:59.540 He should want the money.
00:11:00.380 He does give us our time if I'm like, hmm, what the hell are you doing?
00:11:03.280 And then, yeah.
00:11:04.980 All right.
00:11:05.540 Good times.
00:11:06.260 Good times.
00:11:06.780 He's very improductive.
00:11:07.560 And I did see in the pre-show information you provided for us, you said you consider yourself
00:11:14.600 traditional.
00:11:15.480 Is that correct?
00:11:16.600 Yes.
00:11:17.300 Traditional in what sense?
00:11:19.080 So, traditional in the sense that I like to be, like, the homemaker at home.
00:11:23.200 Okay.
00:11:23.300 So, if you, I provide as well.
00:11:25.880 But if you provide, I'm going to, like, I like to cook and I like to clean and I'll,
00:11:30.180 I don't know.
00:11:30.920 I'm just like a traditional housewife. 0.98
00:11:31.840 Sure.
00:11:31.960 I'm a housewife.
00:11:32.580 You domesticate.
00:11:33.080 Okay.
00:11:33.560 Yeah, I'm domesticated.
00:11:34.660 I definitely fall into that.
00:11:36.000 She's domesticated. 0.99
00:11:37.420 Okay.
00:11:37.740 And also, when you say traditional, is there a religious component to that or not really?
00:11:41.860 No, not really.
00:11:42.560 Okay.
00:11:42.940 Got it.
00:11:43.760 What about you?
00:11:45.100 I am single.
00:11:46.720 If you count a six-day committed relationship, then I've been single for four months.
00:11:51.320 If that doesn't count, it's been a year and a half.
00:11:53.660 How committed was that six days?
00:11:55.680 Wait.
00:11:56.180 Okay.
00:11:56.520 Can you just repeat that?
00:11:58.000 So, there was a six-day something.
00:12:00.980 Yes, a committed six-day relationship.
00:12:03.040 The commitment lasted for six days.
00:12:04.980 Indeed.
00:12:05.620 Wow.
00:12:06.160 Okay.
00:12:07.200 How did, how did it, that, how, just how?
00:12:13.300 I don't know.
00:12:14.040 You'd have to ask him.
00:12:15.160 I think these men are scared.
00:12:17.720 They're scared?
00:12:18.480 They're scared.
00:12:18.820 Well, he committed to it for six days.
00:12:20.240 On the seventh day, he said no.
00:12:21.940 On the seventh day.
00:12:23.680 On the seventh day, he pulled the plug.
00:12:26.520 Yeah, so.
00:12:27.600 Nothing good was created in six days, eh?
00:12:29.240 So, besides the.
00:12:30.520 That's kind of smart, though.
00:12:31.480 Yeah, besides the six-day thing, it's been, you said, a year and four months?
00:12:35.800 A year and a half.
00:12:37.060 A year and a half.
00:12:37.800 Yeah.
00:12:38.140 Just single.
00:12:39.120 Single, yeah.
00:12:40.120 Single, okay.
00:12:41.220 So, you're currently single?
00:12:42.880 Currently single.
00:12:43.780 Longest relationship was two and a half years.
00:12:46.440 Okay.
00:12:46.780 And you've been single, you said, for four months, was it?
00:12:49.040 Or how long have you been single?
00:12:49.960 Two months?
00:12:50.880 Single four months if you count the six-day relationship.
00:12:53.980 Okay.
00:12:54.540 Yeah.
00:12:54.700 So, that was four months ago?
00:12:56.280 That was four months ago.
00:12:57.200 Okay, gotcha, but if not, a year and a half, okay.
00:13:00.220 Correct.
00:13:00.520 And in our pre-show messages, you said that you only date outside your state and fly out
00:13:06.920 to go on dates.
00:13:07.760 Every relationship I've been in has been long distance at one point, if not the whole relationship.
00:13:12.420 Is that correct?
00:13:13.040 That is correct.
00:13:14.160 Okay.
00:13:16.740 So, you've never, what's going on locally?
00:13:19.560 Nothing locally, or?
00:13:21.400 I live in a scary place.
00:13:23.060 Where, what do you mean?
00:13:23.680 You live in, like, what's a scary place?
00:13:27.260 The whole state?
00:13:28.400 I apologize to our Kazakhstani viewers.
00:13:30.860 Kazakhstan.
00:13:31.400 Is that enough?
00:13:31.800 It's not scary.
00:13:32.940 Thank you, Kazakhstan.
00:13:33.940 All right.
00:13:34.420 I'm a fan of Kazakhstan.
00:13:35.720 I'd be glad to visit.
00:13:37.660 Wait, so, okay.
00:13:38.660 What's a scary place?
00:13:39.940 Are you, like, in the border, like, the border conflict where Ukraine and Russia is currently
00:13:44.400 fighting, or?
00:13:46.220 A little bit scarier.
00:13:47.600 You ever heard of?
00:13:48.520 Compton?
00:13:49.120 Breaking Bad?
00:13:50.700 New, Albuquerque?
00:13:51.640 Yeah.
00:13:53.040 Albuquerque, hold on, Albuquerque's worse than the current Ukraine conflict.
00:13:58.460 I'd say the dating scene is probably worse in Albuquerque than in Ukraine. 0.98
00:14:01.880 I mean.
00:14:02.200 Ukraine's got traditional men, at least.
00:14:04.900 So, New Mexico is not good right now.
00:14:10.420 For dating, it's scary, yeah.
00:14:11.920 How so?
00:14:13.980 There's not much to do, so got drugs, got alcohol, got feminine men. 1.00
00:14:21.640 In New Mexico?
00:14:22.780 Yeah.
00:14:23.420 Is New Mexico, like, more liberal or conservative?
00:14:26.140 Is it New State?
00:14:26.480 Well, in the city I'm in, it's pretty liberal.
00:14:29.000 Albuquerque's blue?
00:14:30.520 Albuquerque's blue, yeah.
00:14:31.320 Okay.
00:14:31.640 But I do long distance for a multitude of reasons.
00:14:34.800 I think it helps widening.
00:14:36.420 When you widen the dating pool, you've got better options.
00:14:39.940 Are you getting flown out by the dudes, or are you flying out to see the dudes?
00:14:43.800 No, I fly out to see them.
00:14:45.260 Don't you work in, like, an airline, or what's your job again?
00:14:48.760 Yeah, I fly for free.
00:14:49.780 I work at an airline.
00:14:50.780 Are you one of the desk people, or are you a flight attendant?
00:14:54.400 No, I'm a desk person.
00:14:55.680 You're, okay.
00:14:56.200 A ticket agent.
00:14:57.020 A ticket agent, and you get to fly for free?
00:14:59.180 I do get to fly for free.
00:14:59.840 Oh, that's convenient.
00:15:00.520 I'd be so flattered if someone flew to another state to come and gone on a date with you.
00:15:04.160 But then you find out it was part of their conversation.
00:15:06.460 I'm not the only one, apparently.
00:15:08.280 But then six days later, they abandon you.
00:15:10.360 What's up?
00:15:10.740 It's a win-win.
00:15:11.700 It's a win-win.
00:15:12.720 It's, yeah, it's really fun.
00:15:14.220 I recommend it, if any of you can do it.
00:15:16.540 Okay, so have you done any international travel to meet a guy, or is it strictly domestic?
00:15:25.460 International's a bit hard.
00:15:26.500 I dated in France for five months.
00:15:29.060 Okay.
00:15:29.880 Yeah.
00:15:31.280 So how are you meeting these dudes?
00:15:33.120 Like, are you just swiping in, like, New York and Vegas?
00:15:36.880 So you're on dating apps, right?
00:15:38.940 I am, yeah.
00:15:39.580 And you'll, like, put your location as Vegas or L.A. or...
00:15:43.280 Exactly.
00:15:43.780 Where's your, like, premier number one location you'd like to set it to?
00:15:47.880 Minneapolis.
00:15:48.840 Minneapolis, huh?
00:15:50.040 Please elaborate.
00:15:51.840 Got that premium.
00:15:52.460 Very random.
00:15:54.060 Got that Tinder premium.
00:15:57.300 Not on Tinder.
00:15:58.180 Yeah, they got sweet boys over there. 1.00
00:16:01.400 Oh, okay.
00:16:02.300 Minneapolis.
00:16:03.400 Yeah.
00:16:03.600 Isn't it cold there?
00:16:04.640 I love the cold.
00:16:05.880 But also, when you start a long-distance relationship first, people get a lot more vulnerable because
00:16:11.620 you're not face-to-face.
00:16:13.440 And it really, yeah, really moves things in a good direction.
00:16:16.120 You don't have to, like, go through that physical phase first, so you get to, like, know, you
00:16:20.840 know what I mean?
00:16:21.340 Like, know that person deeper.
00:16:23.260 Yeah.
00:16:23.620 Would you date someone who works for the APD?
00:16:28.480 Albuquerque Police Department?
00:16:29.600 Yeah.
00:16:29.740 I mean, my two-and-a-half-year relationship was with a cop.
00:16:33.760 Stop.
00:16:35.060 She said stop.
00:16:37.140 It's okay.
00:16:38.280 You got through it.
00:16:39.120 In your pre-show information, you also said that you used to be a hardcore leftist atheist
00:16:43.100 feminist, but you are now recently a conservative born-again Christian.
00:16:47.660 Thank you.
00:16:48.780 I love to hear it.
00:16:49.680 Yes.
00:16:50.420 Okay.
00:16:51.220 So when you were dating the cop, was this during your hardcore leftist atheist feminist
00:16:54.920 phase or your conservative born-again Christian phase? 0.55
00:16:58.500 Hardcore leftist atheist feminist phase. 0.83
00:17:00.640 How did you reconcile your hardcore leftist atheist feminist beliefs with dating a... 1.00
00:17:07.180 I like to say it can be pretty convincing, so I think we both got to a point of being pretty
00:17:13.440 moderate, but I've always been a tame leftist.
00:17:16.640 I mean, isn't that kind of the antithesis of being a hardcore anything?
00:17:22.260 I mean, can you be tame hardcore?
00:17:24.320 My beliefs were hardcore.
00:17:25.580 My delivery was sweet and gentle.
00:17:27.640 Okay.
00:17:27.920 I see.
00:17:28.700 So was your upbringing, like, were you brought up Christian or...
00:17:32.300 No.
00:17:33.100 Liberal Buddhist family.
00:17:35.060 Oh.
00:17:35.700 Yeah.
00:17:36.400 Okay.
00:17:37.060 Interesting.
00:17:37.820 Okay.
00:17:39.100 Well, moving on, what about you?
00:17:41.520 So my longest relationship was two years, and I've been single for a year now.
00:17:49.880 All right.
00:17:53.540 My longest relationship was five months.
00:17:56.960 I'm currently single and have been so for almost a year now.
00:18:02.740 I'm currently in a relationship, and this is the longest relationship.
00:18:06.260 It's been a month and a half, so I'm very new.
00:18:09.160 You got this.
00:18:12.680 Yes, I'm single.
00:18:13.960 Not very single, but single.
00:18:15.720 Tried to slide into Jenna Ortega's DMs.
00:18:17.800 She didn't reply, so...
00:18:19.480 Whose DMs?
00:18:20.540 Jenna Ortega.
00:18:21.760 You know the girl who does the dance? 1.00
00:18:23.080 That dance thing?
00:18:24.360 On Wednesday.
00:18:25.640 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:18:26.480 Okay.
00:18:26.820 I was like...
00:18:27.300 She didn't reply. 1.00
00:18:28.520 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00
00:18:31.620 Okay. 1.00
00:18:32.460 So you said sort of single, or...?
00:18:35.260 So single, but not very single, because the girls across were very single. 0.97
00:18:37.940 Oh, they're very single.
00:18:38.920 And when they defined it, they said that they don't want to be in a relationship anytime
00:18:41.820 soon.
00:18:42.200 So I'm single, but open-minded.
00:18:44.980 Wait, none of you want to be in a relationship?
00:18:46.880 Well, she said that, but I don't...
00:18:48.460 Yeah, that was my definition.
00:18:50.160 I don't know very single.
00:18:51.540 Listen, if I meet the right person, they're going to spoil me, make me happy, don't.
00:18:56.660 Very single seems like Cope now.
00:18:58.400 Agreed, but yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:19:01.240 Okay.
00:19:01.980 We just don't want Rattlesnake TV to misrepresent, you know, what you're looking for at the moment.
00:19:09.700 So...
00:19:10.020 Yeah.
00:19:10.480 Okay.
00:19:11.220 All right.
00:19:11.720 So the first thing that we're going to react to today is, this came out about two days
00:19:18.520 ago, Jonah Hill.
00:19:20.040 Are you guys all familiar with the famous actor Jonah Hill?
00:19:24.120 He was dating a woman two and a half years ago.
00:19:29.420 They broke up.
00:19:30.120 I think he's now having a kid with his new...
00:19:32.520 I don't know if it's either married or new girlfriend.
00:19:35.920 So I don't know if it was spurred on by the fact that he's announced that he's having
00:19:39.340 a child or did...
00:19:40.820 I don't know if the girlfriend gave birth.
00:19:42.600 In any case, ex-girlfriend comes out of the woodwork saying, Jonah Hill was emotionally
00:19:48.780 abusive and controlling and manipulative and narcissistic and misogynistic and every buzzword
00:19:54.260 that you can throw at somebody. 0.66
00:19:55.300 And there's a bunch of articles on this.
00:19:58.120 So if you can pull that up, Nick.
00:20:01.020 So this is on TMZ.
00:20:03.320 Ex-girlfriend posts his...
00:20:05.360 Can you mouse wheel control scroll up?
00:20:08.660 A little...
00:20:09.780 Yeah, that's fine.
00:20:10.760 Okay.
00:20:12.140 Scroll down. 0.97
00:20:13.180 Blast him as misogynist.
00:20:17.160 Scroll down just a tad so we can read this.
00:20:19.400 Oh, nope.
00:20:19.980 Nope.
00:20:20.280 Up, up, up.
00:20:21.660 Nope.
00:20:22.140 Now you're covering it.
00:20:23.180 Scroll down.
00:20:23.880 Oh, yes.
00:20:24.540 Nope.
00:20:25.360 Scroll down.
00:20:26.940 Yep.
00:20:27.240 Yeah, okay.
00:20:27.880 Jonah Hill's alleged dirty laundry is getting aired out by an ex who's posting what she claims
00:20:32.820 are a ton of old texts from him and painting him as a toxic partner.
00:20:38.120 Surf instructor Sarah Brady, J.H.'s former flame of about a year from back in 2021, is dragging
00:20:46.000 the new actor on her Instagram account and she's not holding anything back in a repudiation
00:20:50.780 of him as an alleged misogynist narcissist as she puts it herself.
00:20:56.840 And scroll down just a bit so we can see.
00:20:58.360 That's good right there.
00:20:59.280 So, the primary one that we're going to react to is that one on the right.
00:21:06.680 Can you alt tab over one?
00:21:09.040 I just want to see what we have pulled up here.
00:21:13.260 Or is it control tab?
00:21:14.360 I forgot.
00:21:14.640 So, this is Jonah Hill.
00:21:19.980 I don't know if you're curious.
00:21:21.240 39 years old.
00:21:22.060 Scroll down just a bit.
00:21:23.240 And every single, like, journal or whatever, they're all writing about him.
00:21:28.100 Glamour.
00:21:28.600 Scroll down just a tad.
00:21:29.400 So, we've got Vanity Fair, Glamour, Huffington Post, People Magazine, Washington Post.
00:21:34.460 Scroll down.
00:21:35.980 Entertainment Weekly.
00:21:37.000 Just keep scrolling.
00:21:37.860 Keep scrolling.
00:21:39.400 Okay.
00:21:39.880 I think that's fine.
00:21:40.520 Go to the next one really quick.
00:21:41.760 Yeah.
00:21:41.920 Go to the next tab.
00:21:43.180 Scroll down.
00:21:44.860 So, Huffington Post.
00:21:46.460 Yeah.
00:21:46.740 Just like pretty much every Vulture, Daily Mail, Independent. 0.71
00:21:51.460 They're all talking about this story of Jonah Hill, misogynist, narcissist, abuser.
00:21:57.740 So, we're going to actually investigate the text messages, and we're going to get your
00:22:01.600 guys' reaction to this.
00:22:03.240 Can you go to the next tab?
00:22:05.300 So, these are screenshots direct from her.
00:22:08.760 So, this is just one of the posts she made, and she says, reviving a pic I took down by
00:22:14.420 request of a misogynist narcissist.
00:22:16.400 So, I guess this is one of the photos that he requested she takes down.
00:22:19.940 I think this one's fairly tame, but there were definitely some other photos.
00:22:24.940 Go to the next.
00:22:27.740 Okay.
00:22:28.940 So, this is a text from Jonah Hill.
00:22:31.580 She took a screenshot of it and posted on her story. 1.00
00:22:34.800 She says, fuck it. 1.00
00:22:36.560 Plain and simple. 1.00
00:22:37.560 If you need, this is from Jonah.
00:22:39.240 If you need surfing with men, boundaryless, inappropriate friendships with men, to model, to post pictures, 0.70
00:22:47.300 I guess this is a list, to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit, to post sexual pictures,
00:22:52.660 friendships with women are in unstable places, and from your wild, recent past, beyond getting 0.50
00:22:59.080 lunch or a coffee or something.
00:23:01.860 Wait, sorry.
00:23:02.240 What happened there?
00:23:03.300 Why were we not visible in the window tab?
00:23:06.960 Or were we previously in the window tab?
00:23:09.500 We were in the window tab.
00:23:10.580 Yeah, we were in the window tab.
00:23:11.520 We were in the window tab.
00:23:12.700 Put it back into the window tab, though, please.
00:23:15.440 And you can, I mean, you can make a bigger, there's the other GH5 center down there.
00:23:22.500 The eyeball.
00:23:23.300 Well, yeah, cool.
00:23:28.800 Thank you, thank you.
00:23:30.460 So, friendships with women who are in unstable places from your wild, recent past, beyond
00:23:35.460 getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful, I am not the right partner for you.
00:23:40.780 If these things bring you to a place of happiness, I support it, and there will be no hard feelings.
00:23:47.300 These are my boundaries for romantic partnership.
00:23:50.220 My boundaries with you based on the ways these actions have hurt our trust.
00:23:56.540 So, there's a bunch of other screenshots, but we're going to just start focusing on this
00:24:00.160 one to start.
00:24:02.580 So, I guess there's a couple questions here, and I'll open it up to you guys.
00:24:08.600 Do you consider this to be abusive?
00:24:10.540 Do you consider it to be, is this manipulative controlling, or do you think it's reasonable?
00:24:14.500 And then, also, do you think it should have been shared publicly?
00:24:16.980 So, let's start with you.
00:24:17.860 Burke, why don't you go ahead?
00:24:18.900 Okay, so, first I'd like to say that I think that it's honestly pretty respectful of him
00:24:24.760 to state what he wants to find in a romantic partner, and if she is not doing those things,
00:24:31.540 like, there are so many people in this world that he can find that would respect that.
00:24:35.880 And I think that it's very, like, I love how he said, like, the boundaries and stuff
00:24:39.880 instead of going off on her or anything like that.
00:24:42.340 Like, I think that that's, like, I think that's great.
00:24:45.020 Yeah, I think that that's a very mature and adult thing to do.
00:24:48.400 Communicate your boundaries, yeah.
00:24:49.680 Well, A, like, definitely I don't think that should have been, like, shared publicly.
00:24:59.260 Like, personal, like, tips or, like, whatever, that should be kept to yourself.
00:25:05.760 And if you get bothered that people, like, comment on it, like, it was your choice to put it out there.
00:25:10.720 But, like, aside from that, like, yeah, I do agree, like, at least he said what he wanted.
00:25:18.780 And, like, it wasn't necessarily in, like, a mean way either.
00:25:24.600 Yeah, we can pull it back up really quick.
00:25:26.700 Go to the window tab.
00:25:28.800 So, I mean, he says, I'm not the right partner for you.
00:25:33.260 If those things bring you to a place of happiness, I support it, and there will be no hard feelings.
00:25:39.240 These are my boundaries for a romantic partnership.
00:25:41.640 So, he's saying, like, look, if you want to break up, basically, that's totally fine.
00:25:45.800 Respect it.
00:25:46.460 Just this is what I want in a romantic relationship.
00:25:49.620 I mean, yeah, I feel like he definitely did the best he could in that situation.
00:25:55.680 Like, regardless of, like, whatever else we don't know about.
00:25:58.500 Like, because that could play, like, a part in her reaction, but it's still not, like, okay to, like, put people on blast like that.
00:26:07.040 Even if you're, like, separated or something's happened between you guys, it's not other people's business to comment on or know about.
00:26:14.740 But especially, like, if no one's forcing you.
00:26:19.000 Why do you think she did it?
00:26:20.500 Why do you think she, you know, emotion over logic when, like, that's used to make a decision?
00:26:26.880 Do you think maybe it has something to do with the fact that he just had a child and he's happy?
00:26:30.420 It could be.
00:26:31.400 It could have sparked up, like, some old, you know, like, whatever issues she had with him while she was with him.
00:26:38.340 It could have sparked it up and made her think about it again.
00:26:41.160 But it's still not okay.
00:26:43.200 Yeah.
00:26:43.480 He said it pretty respectfully.
00:26:45.220 Yeah, and also, let's just, it's okay if you, you know, I suspect that most of us at this table are going to say probably shouldn't have shared it publicly.
00:26:55.120 But you might actually think, well, maybe he was being a bit controlling or maybe he was, you know, maybe he shouldn't try to restrict what his girlfriend is posting online or, you know, who she's associating with and hanging out with.
00:27:08.360 So, so, I don't want you to necessarily, like, just because she perhaps overstepped by sharing it publicly that she might not also be in some ways, I don't think she would necessarily be wrong for saying, well, hey, I do want to post this stuff.
00:27:26.540 And then the relationship should end there.
00:27:29.860 But perhaps a better way to frame this question, and we will continue going around the table, is would you object to a boyfriend or potential boyfriend wanting to restrict you from posting risque photos online,
00:27:44.540 from associating with, like, single, your single female friends who are fucking out partying and doing drugs? 0.90
00:27:51.720 And we don't know all the details, but, I mean, it sounded like she was associating with some scoundrels, let's just say, so. 0.99
00:27:59.080 I mean, honestly, you can't, that part is a little bit out of pocket, I'm going to say, like, especially if, like, you met me a certain way and you wanted to be in a relationship with me,
00:28:12.300 knowing that that's who I am, these are my friends, this is what I do, after you try to tell me, like, don't post or don't, but when you first were, like, meeting me,
00:28:23.320 that's what you saw, and that's what you came and got in a relationship with me for, like, you can't kind of, that part's a little too much.
00:28:30.440 So, but, you know, you have the option, like, he doesn't agree with that, that's fine, there's plenty of other people that agree with it, but, like, that's mine.
00:28:39.580 I don't see it as, like, manipulative, or, like, anything, like, abusive like that.
00:28:45.040 I could see how people could see it like that, because some people don't like being told what to do,
00:28:49.760 especially when it comes to social media, because social media is a big piece of life, I guess, now.
00:28:56.880 But, I mean, as an OnlyFans creator, yeah, it would be kind of hard for someone in a relationship with me to tell me to not post scandalous things online,
00:29:05.440 because that's kind of my job, but, you know, there's just some things, like, hanging out with men with no boundaries is weird.
00:29:14.880 You shouldn't do that when you're in a full committed relationship, and I'm not sure what else he, like, put up as, like, the rules.
00:29:24.560 We can pull it back up really quick, just to give everyone a little reminder.
00:29:28.040 So, she didn't want him to be surfing with men, boundary-less, inappropriate friendships with men,
00:29:37.100 to model, to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit, to post sexual pictures,
00:29:43.200 friendships with women who are in unstable places and from your wild recent past,
00:29:48.360 beyond getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful.
00:29:52.680 I agree with that.
00:29:54.240 Well, you're making a little bit of a...
00:29:56.040 And I'm like, what is, like, something respectable?
00:29:59.740 Like, can I only get coffee with my friend? 0.63
00:30:02.700 And, like, what fucking, like, excuse me, like, exchange little, like, notes about my recent, like, escapades, and that's it? 0.73
00:30:10.300 Like, that's, all right, bye, like, that's it, brunch. 0.97
00:30:12.680 He probably doesn't, he probably doesn't want his girl, like, going to the club or the bar with her, with her single female friends.
00:30:18.940 Single girls are recruiters. 1.00
00:30:20.260 Yeah, right.
00:30:21.440 There's a lot of people in L.A. that are, like, involved in a lot of, like, scandalous dirty stuff, doing drugs,
00:30:26.580 and just out till, like, 5 in the morning, every night.
00:30:30.360 Oh, hold on, just a sec.
00:30:31.700 Devon Malik donated $100.
00:30:34.520 God forbid a man emotionally manipulate a woman into being a good candidate to be the mother of his kids.
00:30:40.760 Word.
00:30:41.240 Yo, Devon, thank you for the TTS, man.
00:30:43.040 Very much appreciated.
00:30:44.040 Thanks.
00:30:44.220 Yeah, I mean, good point.
00:30:47.920 Devon Malik, is that Devon?
00:30:50.880 Okay, anyways, go ahead.
00:30:52.740 Thank you, man.
00:30:53.400 But, yeah, basically, like, I could see, like, on the way over here, me and Burke were talking about how, like, as a friend,
00:31:00.380 you should be able to point your good friends right or wrong and tell them,
00:31:04.180 and they should be able to, like, take that as perspective.
00:31:07.220 Do you think that girls tend to do that? 1.00
00:31:09.720 Because I find that a lot of the time when girls have single friends, the single friends tend to be recruiters. 0.94
00:31:13.860 They want you to come join the single train again?
00:31:15.800 1,000%.
00:31:16.440 A lot of single girls, they look at their friends, and they, no matter if they're in the wrong or the right, 0.98
00:31:20.720 you look at your friend as, like, okay, you're hurting.
00:31:22.980 Let's go out and party.
00:31:24.040 Let's get, you know, let's turn it out of track.
00:31:25.840 Do you think that's good advice for a girl in a relationship with a man who has an $11 million house in Malibu?
00:31:31.180 No, not always. 1.00
00:31:32.000 After a certain age, you've got to, like, you kind of just fuck it. 1.00
00:31:35.180 Sorry. 1.00
00:31:36.100 It's okay.
00:31:36.740 You get hurt.
00:31:38.640 You've got to pick yourself up, and you've got to get your stuff together.
00:31:41.480 Okay, so if one of your friends is in a happy relationship, and they have a fight, and she's hurting,
00:31:47.260 you'll come and say, let's go party.
00:31:50.180 Did they disrespect you?
00:31:51.880 Was it overstepping any boundaries?
00:31:54.360 No, I'm just saying, is that what you'd say?
00:31:56.360 No.
00:31:56.880 As long as they weren't disrespecting you, no boundaries are overstepped.
00:31:59.480 Fix that with your relationship.
00:32:00.700 You're happy.
00:32:01.260 You're in love.
00:32:01.420 Wait, wait.
00:32:01.680 So you wouldn't, as the friend, tell them to come out and party with you?
00:32:04.560 That wouldn't be your advice?
00:32:05.620 No.
00:32:05.880 Can I have you tilt your microphone down just a little bit and get a little closer to it?
00:32:11.380 Perfect.
00:32:12.040 Good, good, good.
00:32:12.520 A couple of people are saying your mic's a little low.
00:32:14.160 Sorry, sorry.
00:32:15.480 But why does it matter if you, like, want to go party with your friend?
00:32:18.660 Like, does that mean, like, directly, like, oh, we're going to go party?
00:32:21.700 Put yourself in Jonah Hill's shoes for just a second.
00:32:24.640 So if your girl goes out and parties in L.A. with her friends, crazy friends from her
00:32:30.480 recent past, and she's, like, hurting, or whatever it is, I'm not sure what the situation
00:32:34.440 was, don't you think that's pretty much, that's a pretty big red flag for Jonah Hill?
00:32:39.060 That his hurting girlfriend is going to go out and party?
00:32:42.320 100%.
00:32:42.680 Yes.
00:32:43.320 Because you know that those single friends are in her ear, like, oh, like, it's okay.
00:32:49.240 You can just, like, kiss that guy or dance with that guy.
00:32:51.100 Like, I think that's very toxic.
00:32:52.080 You'll never know.
00:32:53.000 You'll never know.
00:32:53.540 And can I ask you guys, just quickly to follow up, is it, what's more unattractive? 0.98
00:32:58.280 A man who sets boundaries, like, I think Jonah Hill's a bit of a bitch, if I'm honest, but 0.97
00:33:01.640 like, a man who sets boundaries, or a man who has no boundaries? 0.97
00:33:06.260 What's more attractive?
00:33:07.560 What's more unattractive?
00:33:08.820 What's a bigger turn on?
00:33:09.420 Unattractive is someone that doesn't have boundaries, because you know that he doesn't
00:33:12.460 have boundaries with anybody else, any other women in his life, yeah.
00:33:15.740 Exactly.
00:33:16.320 Yeah.
00:33:17.380 You're like a man who tells you what to do.
00:33:19.220 Let's just continue around the table, give everybody an opportunity to weigh in on it.
00:33:23.540 What about you?
00:33:24.960 I don't think he was disrespectful when he said at all.
00:33:27.680 He stated his boundaries, and he's very clear with it.
00:33:29.840 I think oftentimes women are really quick to throw the word abuse out there, and maybe, 1.00
00:33:36.640 like, in other areas of their relationship, there was, like, semi, like, there's a whole
00:33:40.040 scale, obviously, of what can be considered abuse.
00:33:42.180 And that screenshot specifically, though, like, he was respectful, and he just stated where
00:33:46.720 he was at.
00:33:47.760 And, I mean, if you looked at it, turned the other direction, like, and it was her sending
00:33:51.180 the text message, she probably would have a ton of people on her side with it. 0.97
00:33:54.740 But it's kind of double standard sometimes.
00:33:59.660 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:34:01.760 What about you?
00:34:02.740 Can you go back to the screenshot?
00:34:04.780 I'm pretty sure, when I read it, considering the job that I have, I'm going to have to post
00:34:10.360 those pictures.
00:34:11.440 So I'm not going to date anyone that's going to tell me that I can't.
00:34:14.520 I do respect that that's not what you want, though.
00:34:17.380 But he stated right there that he's happy for her, there's no hard feelings, so he did
00:34:22.060 give her the option.
00:34:25.680 She doesn't do OnlyFans, though. 0.94
00:34:27.460 She's a surfer.
00:34:28.920 She's a surfer.
00:34:30.100 Well, doesn't she surf in her, I mean, like...
00:34:32.960 Cute, like, bum photos when she's surfing, you know?
00:34:35.020 Yeah, I mean, she's taking those pictures for herself.
00:34:37.780 She feels good in those pictures, so she should be able to post those if she wants to.
00:34:41.000 Why does she need to post it, then?
00:34:42.260 She feels so good.
00:34:42.880 I feel like it comes down to the intent.
00:34:44.420 Like, I definitely take pictures, and I'll save it for myself, but, like, I don't know.
00:34:48.820 I feel like it is, like, getting validation from other people, or, like, most of the other
00:34:52.180 guys, because girls, you're not really posting for other girls, like, your body.
00:34:55.360 It's more so other guys.
00:34:56.940 You're posting it because your bum looks cute, and you're surfing.
00:34:59.960 Do we all have Instagram?
00:35:01.980 Everyone has Instagram?
00:35:03.320 You guys post on Instagram?
00:35:04.720 Yes.
00:35:05.880 Don't you guys...
00:35:06.720 Oh, you don't post on Instagram?
00:35:07.900 No, I don't.
00:35:08.560 I don't post bikini photos.
00:35:09.320 How many green flags over here?
00:35:10.460 Okay, not bikini photos.
00:35:11.500 Boyfriends are lucky.
00:35:12.100 Sorry, it's a good point.
00:35:13.180 But we all post photos just to update our lives with people around us.
00:35:18.560 Here, we'll come to that once we let everybody answer.
00:35:21.380 Go ahead.
00:35:22.420 I pretty much agree with everyone.
00:35:24.000 I do want to add that Jonah Hill brought this on himself, and he was making reckless
00:35:27.460 decisions and picking a partner.
00:35:29.540 If he saw those photos, that should have been something that was addressed before entering
00:35:32.760 into a relationship with her.
00:35:34.240 I think all of his boundaries were valid, except for she can't surf with other guys, because
00:35:40.060 I'm pretty sure she's a professional surfer, so it's like a work thing.
00:35:44.160 Well, I think it's like intentionally going out, like paddling out with a guy, sitting next
00:35:55.600 to him, talking to him.
00:35:56.760 I think it's like in the same way if you just went on a hangout with a male alone, it's kind
00:36:03.120 of a little suspect.
00:36:04.240 But I mean, so you're saying that because he should have known going in that, well,
00:36:12.000 she was already posting these kind of photos, and she was already doing this before they
00:36:17.100 got into a relationship, that it's kind of like, well, you should just accept it now that
00:36:21.180 you're in the relationship?
00:36:22.340 He should have never gotten into it in the first place if that wasn't addressed.
00:36:27.380 I mean, it's fair, like, for example, some of you guys here do OnlyFans.
00:36:30.800 It's kind of like if you date a girl knowing up front that she does OnlyFans and then expect 0.66
00:36:37.020 her to stop doing OnlyFans, I mean, you could negotiate that, but it's like, it's going to
00:36:44.160 be a pretty tough sell, I think, unless you're prepared to like fully support the girl at
00:36:50.420 her income level, whatever she was making.
00:36:53.360 But I think what his issue was is I don't think she was like a model.
00:36:58.500 I don't think she was like making money from posting on Instagram.
00:37:02.360 I think it was more like more hobbyist.
00:37:04.860 And so wouldn't it be fair to say like, because I think what originally happened is he saw her
00:37:11.720 like cute, sexy surfing photos.
00:37:14.380 So you could argue, hey, I mean, this is what you first messaged when you saw me.
00:37:18.660 Why should I have to take it down?
00:37:19.780 But couldn't you make the argument that like you have no problem in she was engaging in
00:37:26.080 what he considered single behavior.
00:37:28.620 But once they started dating, he wanted her to act in a way that he thought was consistent
00:37:34.600 with being in a relationship.
00:37:37.220 And his thing was, well, OK, you were single.
00:37:39.740 You're posting these kind of revealing photos.
00:37:41.900 Fine.
00:37:42.300 Now that I'm in a relationship with you, though, I want that to stop.
00:37:46.280 Yeah, I still think it should have been a conversation way sooner, but I commend him
00:37:52.300 for how he handled it.
00:37:53.380 I don't think he was totally bogus.
00:37:56.080 OK.
00:37:56.380 What about you?
00:37:57.540 What do you want to know specifically?
00:37:59.460 Well, just, I mean, your reaction.
00:38:00.840 Do you think it's abusive?
00:38:03.500 Do you think it was manipulative, controlling?
00:38:04.920 Do you think it's OK?
00:38:05.760 What do you think?
00:38:06.460 I think when a text message goes out like that, that looks like it was constructed in
00:38:10.520 notes for like hours and hours, the problem started a lot earlier than when it was sent.
00:38:16.300 My guess is that someone like that probably had difficulty setting boundaries in the first
00:38:20.680 place.
00:38:21.420 And I think that we're allowed to have our preferences and boundaries and what we want
00:38:25.720 with a partner.
00:38:26.360 And if we see things in their behavior, if I see something in a man's behavior that I
00:38:32.360 don't like, I just step away.
00:38:35.140 I exit the situation.
00:38:37.220 I'm not big into like behavior control of a man that I'm with.
00:38:43.640 So that text to me seems like things got really bad.
00:38:48.180 He was like, final straw.
00:38:50.400 Here are the bullet points.
00:38:51.820 And I'm kind of like, well, why'd you stay so long?
00:38:58.280 Yeah, I definitely think that that is a conversation that needs to happen sooner in a relationship.
00:39:02.820 I'm not too sure how long their relationship lasted, but I definitely think that it should
00:39:08.260 have happened soon in a relationship.
00:39:10.960 All of his boundaries are completely valid, especially being a, for lack of better words,
00:39:18.760 a celebrity of some sorts.
00:39:19.960 You kind of have to protect your image at some point.
00:39:22.580 And the people that you date are definitely going to be associated with you.
00:39:26.300 So, yeah.
00:39:29.700 I totally agree with you guys.
00:39:32.660 I feel like they should have had that conversation so much sooner.
00:39:35.700 And over text, it's just kind of weird because you're in a relationship with that person.
00:39:40.060 So you're, they're like your best friend.
00:39:42.000 I feel like you shouldn't be hiding all these emotions for so long and like not addressing
00:39:47.740 that in person in a conversation.
00:39:49.700 It shouldn't have been this bulleted list.
00:39:52.300 Like that makes no sense if you're actually in a good relationship.
00:39:56.280 Yeah.
00:39:56.540 Jonah Hill's also a male feminist as well, just so we know. 1.00
00:40:00.000 So he's, he's, he obviously, he had, he had zero frame in that relationship.
00:40:04.900 That was absolutely clear.
00:40:06.440 He should have set that from the jump.
00:40:07.820 And the fact that he had to say all those things means that she's already crossed all 0.67
00:40:10.760 of those boundaries already.
00:40:12.580 So it should have happened at the very start.
00:40:15.720 How would, how would you introduce that earlier on?
00:40:18.740 Like, cause do you think it's maybe like, you know, second day that's like take down
00:40:23.900 these photos?
00:40:24.760 You think it's maybe like much or?
00:40:26.500 Probably from the start.
00:40:27.420 Like he, he, he can see who she is.
00:40:29.400 He can see that she loves surfing.
00:40:30.780 He can see that she's got a nice cute bum that she posts on, on Instagram. 0.77
00:40:34.260 So he should have just set it from the jump.
00:40:36.460 Okay.
00:40:36.900 Yeah.
00:40:37.660 Got it.
00:40:38.180 And what we're going to do, so that wasn't the only thing she posted.
00:40:42.220 So, uh, Nick, can I have you pull it back up?
00:40:44.940 And then there's more.
00:40:49.180 Yeah.
00:40:49.720 Go to the next one. 0.99
00:40:51.060 There's a shit ton. 0.97
00:40:52.640 Okay. 0.87
00:40:53.020 So, uh, then she started posting a bunch of like kind of semi-related stuff.
00:40:59.380 There's something about the equality wheel, um, for domestic violence.
00:41:06.320 I don't know.
00:41:06.740 Um, what is she wanting to achieve by posting all of this?
00:41:09.700 She's a bitter, she's a bitter person who's lost a millionaire. 0.99
00:41:12.700 I'm trying to prove that he's abusive. 0.76
00:41:14.800 Now, if you look at the very top, look how many stories she's posted.
00:41:19.680 That in itself is a red flag.
00:41:21.620 Like, even if it's not like, if you're posting that many stories a day, I'm sorry.
00:41:25.580 That's more red flags. 0.97
00:41:26.440 If you're posting memes and shit, that's red flag. 1.00
00:41:29.840 Um, fucking 20, 20, 30 memes a day about fucking, anyways. 1.00
00:41:34.300 Uh, next one. 1.00
00:41:35.340 There's a ton.
00:41:36.080 We're going to go through them all really quickly.
00:41:38.340 Um, next one.
00:41:40.700 Um, uh, okay, just like, she's posting about it.
00:41:46.660 Um, she says that, uh, it was emotional abuse, not physical.
00:41:52.600 I mean, it's really not abuse, but okay.
00:41:56.140 Next.
00:41:56.560 What?
00:41:57.260 Not abuse at all.
00:41:58.220 Um, this is a warning to all girls. 0.96
00:42:00.120 If your partner is talking to you like this, make an exit plan.
00:42:03.380 Love y'all.
00:42:04.080 Call me if you need an ear.
00:42:05.420 So, I mean, this is in reference to the list or whatever.
00:42:08.120 Exit plan from Jonah Hill.
00:42:09.920 Yeah.
00:42:11.200 Um.
00:42:11.700 This is, like, I don't think she has a clear, like, idea or gauge.
00:42:18.380 So, keep going.
00:42:19.700 Next one.
00:42:22.140 Um.
00:42:24.340 Uh, sort of done with explaining this.
00:42:26.220 Also, like, one thing I'd just point out is a lot of her, and we'll see this, she's mostly 0.98
00:42:32.080 taking snippets of what he said.
00:42:34.120 Sometimes you see her responses.
00:42:36.400 And, I don't know, anytime you're just, like, excluding your responses, like, it'd be interesting
00:42:40.880 to obviously see the full, unedited back and forth that they've had.
00:42:45.720 But let's see the next one.
00:42:48.260 Okay, there's just more back and forth.
00:42:49.960 Next one.
00:42:51.180 She posted so much.
00:42:52.760 I, too, struggle with mental health, but I do not use it to control people.
00:42:55.820 Like, he did to me.
00:42:57.180 It's been a year of healing and growth with the help of loved ones and doctors to get
00:43:01.660 back to living my life without guilt, shame, and self-judgment for things as small as surfing
00:43:05.520 in a swimsuit.
00:43:07.000 Rather, this seems like a very, um, a very, I don't know what's the right word.
00:43:13.340 Like, like, soft, like, you're destroyed because he, look, even if you, even if you're of the 0.97
00:43:21.200 opinion that this is controlling behavior, it does not rise to the level of, like, abusive,
00:43:26.660 like, it might be controlling, but, like, I feel like before, because we don't know the
00:43:35.600 context, so, like, he stated those things and was like, oh, like, you need to work on
00:43:39.620 these things.
00:43:40.320 She could have been like, oh, yes, definitely, I will do that.
00:43:43.360 And then, progressively, he started to get more and more frustrated because she was promising
00:43:46.960 that she would change something and she didn't. 0.99
00:43:49.180 This is called, this is, like, her shit testing him, though. 0.99
00:43:51.480 Yeah. 0.99
00:43:51.920 Yeah, she'll, she'll keep pushing the boundaries, pushing the boundaries, pushing the boundaries, 0.99
00:43:55.760 and then here we are with, like, 55 different Instagram stories.
00:43:58.400 It sounds like it had something to do with, like, her upbringing, too, because if she had
00:44:01.140 that much, like, guilt and shame to work through, it's probably, and oftentimes people get into
00:44:04.560 relationships that are familiar, and familiar is, like, family, so it's, like, you get into
00:44:09.300 these unhealthy dynamics with similar things you were, um.
00:44:12.760 A trauma bond, by the way.
00:44:13.580 Yeah, a trauma bond, and so it sounds like there was maybe some deeper-rooted childhood trauma
00:44:18.440 behind some of her, I guess, feeling this way that it was abusive.
00:44:22.700 I do think, like, there is a fine line between, like, abuse in that sense, especially emotional.
00:44:27.820 Like, it's really hard to gauge that because it's very different, obviously, than physical
00:44:31.680 abuse, but, I mean, I can see like that.
00:44:33.780 There's more, though.
00:44:34.580 We have some more that we have to react to.
00:44:36.760 If you want to, uh, next one.
00:44:41.100 Okay, um, more, just next one.
00:44:46.320 Um, sharing this publicly now because keeping it to myself was causing more damage to my
00:44:52.140 mental health than sharing it could ever do.
00:44:55.620 I mean.
00:44:56.780 I find it very interesting when people need to share their personal life, especially like
00:45:00.780 this on the internet.
00:45:01.840 It seems very attention-seeky.
00:45:04.260 Oh, 100%.
00:45:04.580 And needing to play the victim and get attention.
00:45:07.940 There's no reason that she should have posted any of this on the internet.
00:45:10.840 It doesn't help anybody, and she's pretty delusional if she truly thinks that this is
00:45:14.960 any sort of abuse.
00:45:16.040 Facts.
00:45:16.360 It's never okay to post this stuff.
00:45:17.700 As well, I have no respect for Prince Harry putting his dirty laundry out with his family.
00:45:21.800 And like this, there's no excuse for it.
00:45:23.680 Especially if you claim that you want privacy and don't want to be in the public eye and
00:45:27.220 then sign multiple contracts to publish your business on the internet.
00:45:31.900 It's very interesting. 0.99
00:45:32.500 Yeah, I mean, it's definitely a pretty bad look to, one, to like talk shit, publicly talk 0.99
00:45:39.160 poorly about an ex. 0.97
00:45:41.920 I mean, how many like relationships are truly, I mean, some relationships will end amicably,
00:45:47.680 but I mean, there's always some, people have arguments, people have disagreements.
00:45:52.320 I mean, I'm sure like everyone here has some ex that could either, you could say maybe something
00:45:57.820 negative about, or they could say something negative about you.
00:46:00.600 Maybe even you yourself reflect back on a past dating experience and you're like, maybe
00:46:05.620 I could have handled this better.
00:46:06.960 Maybe I shouldn't have said this.
00:46:08.180 Maybe I should have just moved on.
00:46:10.060 Whatever it may be.
00:46:11.700 So, I mean, I think it's just like, nobody's perfect. 0.99
00:46:15.460 And to just be publicly airing this shit is, it's so, it's such, I mean, if you were like 0.99
00:46:21.240 actually like physically abused or emotionally abused, then, then, you know. 1.00
00:46:26.180 It's inappropriate.
00:46:27.400 Absolutely.
00:46:27.800 And it seems very Me Too-esque.
00:46:31.080 And not the same, not the right place to address this.
00:46:33.400 No.
00:46:33.960 And yeah, like I said, none of that's going to help anybody else other than, you know,
00:46:38.160 getting yourself attention.
00:46:39.780 Yeah.
00:46:41.120 Let's pull it back up because there's a shit ton more. 0.57
00:46:43.160 We'll try to blast through them.
00:46:44.400 Next one, please.
00:46:46.040 This is what healing looks like.
00:46:47.880 And I guess she's text.
00:46:49.000 Guys, it's so like self-congratulatory, like pat myself on the back.
00:46:53.440 I'm a victim, blah, blah, blah.
00:46:54.380 I'm in the West.
00:46:55.020 Let's see the next one.
00:46:58.280 Teen Vogue did for me what couples therapy didn't.
00:47:01.060 My boyfriend, and this is something from Teen Vogue.
00:47:03.280 My boyfriend says the way I dress at the beach is too revealing.
00:47:05.940 He says I shouldn't wear bikinis or short shorts.
00:47:08.480 I don't want to make him feel bad.
00:47:10.560 But I like my style, which I do.
00:47:12.360 Ditch the boyfriend, keep the bikini.
00:47:13.820 And hey, look, if that's just you want to dress how you want to dress,
00:47:17.480 if that's just non-negotiable for you and you're a woman, I think that's fine.
00:47:22.020 And I think men are justified in having their preferences and boundaries.
00:47:26.120 It just comes down to a negotiation and a conversation.
00:47:29.620 Let's bring it back.
00:47:33.240 Okay.
00:47:33.640 And he gave her a valid out.
00:47:36.800 Yeah.
00:47:36.920 If she wanted it, she could have said, okay, those are your boundaries.
00:47:41.520 I don't agree.
00:47:42.560 I'm not going to abide by those.
00:47:44.060 I'm going to do what I want to do.
00:47:45.620 She could have left. 0.99
00:47:47.520 He said no hard feelings.
00:47:48.640 That's totally fine.
00:47:49.460 I wish you the best.
00:47:50.640 But she didn't.
00:47:51.960 I'm curious to know how much longer, because I don't know if they,
00:47:55.300 maybe someone knows, from the point she took the screenshots of that conversation,
00:47:59.860 I think they stayed together.
00:48:01.260 I think she obliged him in his requests.
00:48:06.780 She took the photos down.
00:48:09.080 So they stayed together.
00:48:11.020 And I think now, years after the fact, she's...
00:48:14.200 After he's just had a kid.
00:48:15.580 That's kind of sus. 0.94
00:48:16.500 Yeah.
00:48:16.900 It is very interesting that this is happening two years after their relationship ended.
00:48:22.400 There has to be some sort of incentive.
00:48:23.800 I get that his girlfriend is pregnant now, but I feel like there has to be some sort of 0.80
00:48:27.280 other incentive for her to post these so long afterwards.
00:48:29.840 Well, even what she's saying and what other people are saying,
00:48:32.920 and I don't know if we have the screenshots of this,
00:48:34.940 she's saying that, well, sometimes you don't realize you were traumatized until years later.
00:48:40.760 And, you know, sometimes you have to work through, you know,
00:48:45.400 to really know that something happened in the past that was wrong.
00:48:50.160 And maybe that may be the case, but I mean...
00:48:52.800 But if you don't work through it and post it on social media, go to therapy.
00:48:58.620 Like, go take it to a therapist.
00:49:00.480 You don't have to post it.
00:49:01.120 You don't have to go to Teen Vogue.
00:49:02.220 Yeah, Teen Vogue.
00:49:03.340 Yeah.
00:49:03.940 Yeah.
00:49:04.660 Let's pull it back up.
00:49:05.720 Let's try to get through all of them.
00:49:07.500 Gaslight much.
00:49:09.060 Even the person I loved and shared a bed with uses me and can't just be like,
00:49:13.360 yeah, you were super nice.
00:49:14.340 It hurt so badly, but I'm done apologizing.
00:49:16.360 I was so lovely to you.
00:49:19.100 831.22?
00:49:20.640 I'm assuming that's a text message he sent to her.
00:49:22.340 I don't see how that's gaslighting.
00:49:22.900 I think that's sent to her.
00:49:24.300 Yeah, it is.
00:49:26.720 Next one.
00:49:28.700 And then some memes.
00:49:29.800 The right boundaries in the right places don't limit.
00:49:32.180 They liberate.
00:49:32.960 Okay.
00:49:33.300 Here come the memes that feel good.
00:49:35.460 Okay.
00:49:35.800 As you heal, you'll stop trying to force people to see you in ways they're unwilling to.
00:49:40.160 You'll remember more often that choosing yourself is sacred,
00:49:43.540 even if others don't.
00:49:45.260 Okay.
00:49:45.620 Next.
00:49:45.920 She being our couple.
00:49:48.760 Okay.
00:49:48.940 So I guess they went to couples therapy.
00:49:50.960 Red flag.
00:49:53.620 Okay.
00:49:54.140 Next.
00:49:57.880 There's so many of these.
00:50:05.160 Safe word.
00:50:05.860 It was pineapple.
00:50:06.680 Okay.
00:50:06.960 Next.
00:50:07.960 Safe word.
00:50:09.160 Oh, my gosh.
00:50:10.140 Okay.
00:50:10.540 Oh, and this is the one we already saw.
00:50:13.200 If I'm not the right partner for you.
00:50:15.200 Number one boyfriend.
00:50:16.640 So Jonah, I don't think Jonah Hill was 100% perfect here.
00:50:19.260 He was sending her, like, walls of text, which maybe came across,
00:50:23.520 I mean, definitely a little bit, a little bit.
00:50:26.020 A bit much.
00:50:27.020 A little too much.
00:50:27.700 A little extra.
00:50:29.620 You know, sending, like I said, sending these long walls of text.
00:50:33.920 But, I mean, she's being pretty crazy and opportunistic with the victim card. 1.00
00:50:38.240 It's so weird that it's texts, though, don't you think?
00:50:40.440 Like, that is an absolute face-to-face conversation every day of the week.
00:50:43.740 Specific screenshots, too.
00:50:45.080 Yeah.
00:50:45.660 Yeah.
00:50:46.320 And it seems very contract-like, you know?
00:50:49.180 Like, the bullet points and all of it.
00:50:50.920 Yeah.
00:50:51.340 If you're dating, I feel like you, this is a conversation you could absolutely have in person,
00:50:54.940 so it is very interesting.
00:50:56.720 Hold on just a second.
00:50:57.640 Gorlock the Destroyer donated $100.
00:51:00.880 Get in my belly. 0.97
00:51:02.420 I want my baby back, baby back, baby back, baby back, baby back.
00:51:06.400 Ribs. 0.52
00:51:06.760 I want my baby back, baby back, baby back, baby back.
00:51:10.800 Ribs. 0.52
00:51:11.540 Chill ye eyes, baby back ribs. 1.00
00:51:13.760 Gorlock the Destroyer, thank you very much for your TTS.
00:51:17.340 Much appreciated.
00:51:18.620 Priya, you were saying?
00:51:21.360 You were saying it's contract-y.
00:51:23.100 Yeah.
00:51:23.720 I mean, I feel like that's kind of red flag right there, also, that he didn't have,
00:51:27.640 the conversation earlier in the relationship.
00:51:30.100 It's very interesting.
00:51:30.940 I'm not too educated on Jonah Hill and his, you know, his beliefs and his career,
00:51:36.240 other than his pretty mainstream stuff.
00:51:37.680 But, yeah, it seems like that there, you know, nobody was perfect in that relationship.
00:51:42.760 I can say, I think, I could understand why, like, like, obviously I think it's definitely
00:51:46.960 better to handle things, if not face-to-face, like, at least over a phone call.
00:51:51.020 But I understand, like, if things had gotten as toxic as they did, why maybe it came to
00:51:55.740 text message instead.
00:51:56.680 I know, like, sometimes...
00:51:58.420 Any man who is self-respecting would see that situation and be like, I'll talk to you when
00:52:02.600 I see you.
00:52:02.980 He'd do it hands-off.
00:52:03.820 I don't know how you guys could ever respect a man who would send those little quid, like...
00:52:08.600 Very much agree.
00:52:09.500 It seems very immature.
00:52:11.980 I guess more so it depends on who initiated over text message, because a lot of the time
00:52:15.800 I think women would be more inclined to initiate over text. 1.00
00:52:18.240 Yeah, and then she just pushes him and he's just...
00:52:19.880 And they're both?
00:52:21.040 I mean, they're both in therapy.
00:52:23.580 That's a red flag that they're in therapy.
00:52:25.100 Not even a red flag.
00:52:26.540 Couples therapy.
00:52:27.480 Couples therapy.
00:52:27.880 This is, like, probably the best way he thought or was taught by that therapist to explain
00:52:34.100 himself.
00:52:35.800 It can't be...
00:52:36.760 Like, don't take it personally.
00:52:37.840 Like, you're going to therapy, too.
00:52:39.540 Like, don't you kind of get the gist of, like, how...
00:52:42.760 I don't know.
00:52:43.260 I think he definitely should have taken more of initiative in the beginning of the relationship
00:52:47.900 to state those boundaries.
00:52:49.420 But I could understand why after it gets to that point where he, like, hadn't had that
00:52:53.560 voice for so long, why he was doing it the way he did.
00:52:56.860 But I agree he should have kind of taken it from the beginning.
00:53:00.220 Let's pull up more of...
00:53:01.860 Let's see the rest.
00:53:03.160 I mean, there's a bunch.
00:53:03.960 We'll just try to blast through them.
00:53:05.740 Next one.
00:53:06.860 Oh, sorry. 1.00
00:53:07.700 Oh, shit. 0.98
00:53:08.600 Basically, we don't have to go back, but the previous one, he was being... 1.00
00:53:13.260 He was being pretty cringe.
00:53:13.860 Actually, if you can go back one, Nick, you'll have to go...
00:53:16.940 Here, I'm going to switch it back here.
00:53:18.180 And if you can just go out of F11 and do it.
00:53:21.080 But...
00:53:21.320 And, guys, we have some spicy stuff coming up after this Jonah reaction.
00:53:25.080 So, wait, why should I go to therapy?
00:53:27.560 Oh, F11?
00:53:28.700 No.
00:53:29.580 Yeah, you're good.
00:53:32.480 So, he's being, like, literally just say hello and leave the convo. 0.99
00:53:37.220 I love how your therapist thinks I suck. 0.88
00:53:40.080 I literally am the best boyfriend on earth. 1.00
00:53:42.080 That's pretty fucking cringe. 0.98
00:53:43.700 Don't you reckon he sounds like Jonah Hill from Superbad? 0.99
00:53:47.240 Yeah.
00:53:48.220 That's something that I would expect his Superbad character of. 0.93
00:53:50.680 But, like, this is the problem with guys who get really rich and famous and they're still dorks.
00:53:54.840 Is the fact that, like, you know, he clearly can't hold that frame and he can't have that conversation.
00:53:59.780 Because, yeah, he still thinks that he's fat Jonah Hill from pre-Superbad, you know?
00:54:04.740 He lost weight, though.
00:54:05.660 So, I mean, good for him.
00:54:06.340 Yeah, but I think he still exists in that.
00:54:08.680 Internally, he's still fat Jonah Hill.
00:54:10.400 Well, he's, like, super woke and...
00:54:12.280 Yeah, yeah.
00:54:13.380 Actually, there was a Vice article.
00:54:15.340 Pull it back up.
00:54:16.460 Next one.
00:54:20.300 Okay.
00:54:21.140 I don't know where this is.
00:54:22.620 I'm not even right now.
00:54:23.400 Okay, there's just more.
00:54:26.060 Icky to see him how...
00:54:27.280 Icky to see how I took blame for him.
00:54:30.480 Okay, I guess...
00:54:31.240 I don't know.
00:54:31.660 Next.
00:54:32.980 Well, even on that last text that she sent, she's manipulating him by saying, like...
00:54:37.340 Oh, did you read that?
00:54:37.720 I was, like, skimming it.
00:54:39.700 It's like, I'm not good enough for you and I know, like, blah, blah, blah.
00:54:42.180 Like, that's her manipulating him.
00:54:43.920 And also, she left out because she said, I'm sorry I said that.
00:54:46.440 Like, what did you say?
00:54:47.880 Right, so she, like... 0.99
00:54:48.780 What did you say when you were drunk?
00:54:49.480 Yeah, she said she's drunk, so she took the step to say stuff she shouldn't.
00:54:52.700 And another thing she kept on saying was that, like, oh, it's because I'm socially, like...
00:54:56.280 I'm socially...
00:54:57.000 Girls are very socially accurate. 1.00
00:54:59.480 She's got this victim mindset of, like, I'm just the victim and, like, then pushing the manipulation back on him.
00:55:05.420 Absolutely.
00:55:06.060 If someone ever says, I'm not good enough for you, leave.
00:55:09.420 They are obviously telling you something that you don't know yet and obviously they know.
00:55:13.600 It can be cute from a girl.
00:55:14.840 If a guy says it, leave, yes.
00:55:15.980 It can be cute coming from a girl.
00:55:17.360 Not anyone.
00:55:17.900 I'm not good enough.
00:55:18.480 It's kind of cute.
00:55:18.940 That's a real red flag.
00:55:20.180 Red flag.
00:55:20.940 No, no, no.
00:55:21.280 Because you don't...
00:55:22.040 If a guy says that, it's a simping thing.
00:55:24.380 But if a girl says... 1.00
00:55:25.280 It's a difference between guys and girls when it comes to simping.
00:55:28.040 Girls get rewarded for simping. 1.00
00:55:30.380 Guys get broken up with for simping.
00:55:32.080 It's very different.
00:55:33.100 If a girl dotes on you and says, you know, oh, like, I'm not good enough for you.
00:55:36.160 You're so amazing.
00:55:37.240 That's a great thing.
00:55:38.100 That's a green flag.
00:55:38.900 But if I say that to you, it'll be the biggest kick.
00:55:41.700 So it's like an ego feed?
00:55:44.360 Like, you know what I mean?
00:55:45.460 Yeah, exactly.
00:55:46.400 Men just want to be respected ultimately.
00:55:47.980 I want to...
00:55:48.720 There's certain things that you girls live for, certain moments.
00:55:51.080 And the moments we live for is when you come up and just say, I love you.
00:55:54.160 I could not live without you.
00:55:55.260 I respect you.
00:55:56.180 But I feel like if they say that they don't feel like they're good enough for you, I feel
00:56:01.280 like if they say that they don't feel like they're good enough for you, that means they're
00:56:04.520 struggling with that a little bit on their own.
00:56:06.740 And so they don't feel good in that relationship.
00:56:09.700 I don't think it's good.
00:56:10.940 I think that you should feel like comfortable with your partner, not like you're inferior
00:56:15.560 to them.
00:56:16.220 No, I think that the girl always has to love the guy a little bit more than the guy loves 0.85
00:56:20.060 the girl.
00:56:20.700 So if she feels like she's kind of chasing him, she feels like he's the absolute best
00:56:24.260 she can get, then she's not going to leave him. 1.00
00:56:26.760 But if she feels like she's above him, then she'll leave his ass. 0.99
00:56:29.220 I don't think she should feel above him. 0.99
00:56:31.060 I just don't feel like she should feel like she's lesser than him or like she's not good
00:56:35.940 enough.
00:56:36.220 I feel like she shouldn't feel like she's not good enough.
00:56:38.580 Have you ever heard of the term hypergamy?
00:56:41.500 No.
00:56:41.980 Yes.
00:56:42.240 So women are hypergamous daters, which means that they like to date across and up socioeconomic 1.00
00:56:46.240 hierarchy.
00:56:47.360 Men can date down.
00:56:49.380 Like, I'd be happy to date a girl who works at KFC. 0.54
00:56:52.120 Do you guys get KFC here?
00:56:53.260 Yes.
00:56:54.060 I'd be happy to date a girl that works at KFC. 1.00
00:56:56.680 If I worked at KFC, you guys wouldn't look twice at me.
00:56:59.620 So women tend to date up. 1.00
00:57:01.060 So we want you to look at her.
00:57:04.440 You guys say that, but I feel like there's a double standard for that, for sure.
00:57:08.480 What's the double standard?
00:57:09.260 Like that people, you'll say that you'll date someone that works, like a man that works
00:57:14.860 at KFC, but when you're in that situation, would you really?
00:57:17.980 No, God, no, you wouldn't.
00:57:18.900 Like, would you really?
00:57:19.480 No one at this table would.
00:57:20.160 Like, being honest, like, would you really?
00:57:22.200 It depends where you are in life.
00:57:23.500 Any girls here who would date a fast food worker? 1.00
00:57:26.360 I like to be spoiled.
00:57:28.080 It depends where you are in life.
00:57:29.540 Like, as a college student.
00:57:30.640 Granted, you are 18.
00:57:31.720 She's 18.
00:57:32.300 Yeah, absolutely.
00:57:33.460 Wait.
00:57:33.880 Oh, she. 0.99
00:57:34.180 A little slip.
00:57:35.000 So your KFC worker is studying medicine.
00:57:37.840 I mean, but let's also do a tier list.
00:57:40.320 Okay.
00:57:41.000 It's different.
00:57:42.140 Let's do a tier list of the respective fast food restaurants, because not all are, you
00:57:47.680 know, like Chick-fil-A is pretty up there, I'd say. 0.98
00:57:49.500 And then, like, if McDon't, like, KFC is pretty shit. 0.96
00:57:52.600 But, like, I feel like Chick-fil-A is more respectful. 0.98
00:57:55.480 You know?
00:57:56.280 Or, like, In-N-Out.
00:57:57.500 In-N-Out's like, probably top of the food chain.
00:58:00.720 Hey, if he owns the franchise.
00:58:02.940 No, but the fact of the matter is that the generalities don't really make the rule.
00:58:05.900 If it's Chick-fil-A, it doesn't really matter.
00:58:07.280 But the fact of the matter is that women tend to date up the socioeconomic hierarchy. 1.00
00:58:11.320 So we want you guys to be looking up at us and saying, oh, my God, you are the best thing
00:58:15.120 I could ever have.
00:58:16.320 Well, I would agree with that, too.
00:58:17.360 I wouldn't stay with a man if I didn't feel that way.
00:58:19.500 Exactly right.
00:58:20.040 No, I agree with you.
00:58:21.240 I just don't feel like you should always be in a state where you feel like you don't deserve
00:58:25.080 them.
00:58:26.020 Because that's just, it just, it's not a good way to feel.
00:58:29.140 I think maybe feeling, or feeling deserved is probably the wrong way to put it.
00:58:32.260 Yeah, exactly.
00:58:34.340 There's also, like, a psychological component to it.
00:58:36.720 In every relationship, there's somebody that loves the other person more than, you know,
00:58:40.860 the, the...
00:58:42.000 Yeah.
00:58:42.360 Deserved isn't the quite, isn't quite the right way to put it.
00:58:45.380 But, like, if you're looking up and you feel like they're the best you can get, that's
00:58:48.600 a good thing.
00:58:49.340 Yeah.
00:58:49.820 If you just feel like you're really lucky to have them.
00:58:51.100 I think it's admiration.
00:58:52.560 Yeah.
00:58:52.840 Admiration.
00:58:52.960 Yeah, no, I think they should definitely admire you.
00:58:55.220 If I'm looking at my girl, I'm like, oh, my God, like, I'm so lucky to have you.
00:58:59.700 Yeah, it's just not going to work.
00:59:01.040 What if they have hobbies outside of KFC?
00:59:04.480 Like, no.
00:59:05.120 You answer the question.
00:59:06.060 Would you date a guy who had, who worked at KFC with some hobbies or who liked to go rock
00:59:10.340 climbing? 0.98
00:59:10.860 If I, I could be an OnlyFans creator and also work at, like, fucking Subway, 7-Eleven, 1.00
00:59:15.120 fucking Walgreens. 0.99
00:59:15.800 But then those are, those are both careers. 0.99
00:59:17.380 Walgreens, 99s or Target, all of these places, in and out, they have insurance, they have
00:59:21.000 a lot of benefits. 0.97
00:59:21.440 So you're saying that he's, works at KFC, but he's fucking loaded because he has another 0.97
00:59:24.520 thing that he's got going on. 0.97
00:59:25.640 No, I think...
00:59:26.360 You can work in multiple jobs.
00:59:27.600 There's, you can never make too much money.
00:59:29.580 Like, that could be your, like...
00:59:30.140 That's not a hobby, though.
00:59:31.000 That's an...
00:59:31.720 Are you saying that if you were on a comparable level to the guy, like, if you were, like, 0.96
00:59:36.020 making shit money on OnlyFans and you also had a fast food job, then you would date a 0.95
00:59:42.200 fast food guy? 0.99
00:59:43.080 A couple bottom feeders.
00:59:43.860 I'm saying, like, okay, if he only worked at KFC and didn't do anything else, if he
00:59:48.120 didn't do anything else besides work at KFC, no.
00:59:51.160 Sorry.
00:59:51.440 Yeah, but what Brian's saying is, though, like, if you're earning high amounts of money
00:59:55.380 and then you're dating a guy who's earning minimum wage, then you're not going to put
00:59:59.540 up with that.
01:00:00.080 But if you're just struggling away, posting your booty on OnlyFans and you're only making
01:00:03.520 like $10 a day, then he's, like, on your level, you know?
01:00:06.940 Yeah, I wouldn't be doing OnlyFans if that was it.
01:00:09.200 Speaking of which, we do have a couple girls here at the table who do OnlyFans and some of 1.00
01:00:14.380 you may very well be high earners.
01:00:16.100 So I'm curious, maybe we can go around the table.
01:00:19.180 What's, uh, I need an exact dollar figure, exactly how much you guys make per year.
01:00:27.340 Everybody at the table.
01:00:28.860 Everybody.
01:00:30.000 Burke Baby. 1.00
01:00:31.780 That's your name, right? 0.99
01:00:34.080 How much do you make on OF or just in general, I guess, because maybe you do Bitcoin and shit, 0.99
01:00:38.700 too. 0.94
01:00:40.640 Honestly, it varies.
01:00:43.440 Like, as OnlyFans creators, you don't have, like, a certain amount of money that you make
01:00:47.700 each month.
01:00:48.520 Well, let's just, how much do you make in a year?
01:00:51.480 Six figures?
01:00:52.280 Seven figures?
01:00:53.960 I don't know.
01:00:54.560 Do you make seven figures in a year?
01:00:57.520 No, that's, like, that's insane.
01:00:59.200 There could be, like, a good month and a bad month.
01:01:01.760 Yeah.
01:01:02.180 It just depends.
01:01:02.820 Well, that's why I'm saying a year.
01:01:03.980 It depends.
01:01:04.500 It's like owning a store.
01:01:05.420 You never know how much.
01:01:06.400 No, but in a year, I mean, you know.
01:01:09.720 Okay, break it down to, like, a month, right?
01:01:11.600 You can, I mean, if you want to break it down to a month, but you could say, I made 300k
01:01:15.740 last year.
01:01:16.620 I made 300k this year.
01:01:18.560 On a good month, I'd probably say maybe, like, 5 to 6k.
01:01:22.480 Okay.
01:01:23.200 On, like, an okay month.
01:01:25.380 Okay.
01:01:25.640 But you've made more.
01:01:28.040 Have you, have you had, you've had a five-figure month, I'm assuming.
01:01:32.560 So, above 10,000?
01:01:36.740 Like, maybe, like, once or twice.
01:01:38.780 Okay.
01:01:39.260 Has any of the girls here who do OF or any of you, anyone else, made over six figures in
01:01:44.280 a month?
01:01:45.460 Anybody?
01:01:46.580 Bueller?
01:01:47.720 Bueller?
01:01:48.080 Who all here does OnlyFans?
01:01:50.120 I believe these three and then her.
01:01:52.820 Those three.
01:01:53.900 I have an OnlyFans, too.
01:01:55.180 What?
01:01:56.380 OnlyFans.com slash whatever.
01:01:58.020 Go sub.
01:01:58.640 I'm at, like, five figures each month.
01:02:01.340 Five figures each month?
01:02:02.140 Okay.
01:02:03.440 Okay.
01:02:03.900 Hot.
01:02:04.800 Okay.
01:02:05.360 How much do you make on OnlyFans, Brian?
01:02:07.940 Like, a hundred a month.
01:02:11.140 I don't post.
01:02:12.400 I don't post.
01:02:13.080 I just have.
01:02:13.780 That's also what it depends on.
01:02:15.020 I have a couple troll photos of Kiki over there, and that's it. 0.61
01:02:17.720 Hey, she's sexy. 1.00
01:02:18.420 Are you posting provocative photos of Kiki?
01:02:20.420 Are you exploiting her like that?
01:02:21.640 I am exploiting her.
01:02:23.360 She's gonna, like, leak some ticks in a few years. 1.00
01:02:25.180 Oh, yeah.
01:02:27.380 The robot.
01:02:28.880 Misogynistic of you, Brian. 0.63
01:02:30.440 It's coming for me.
01:02:32.300 But just curious, how much do the non-OF girls make? 1.00
01:02:37.740 It depends.
01:02:38.300 Well, you're 19, right?
01:02:39.280 So are you in school right now?
01:02:40.540 19.
01:02:40.920 So I have been going to cosmetology school, but I took, I'm on a leave right now for the
01:02:45.360 summer to make money.
01:02:46.020 Cosmetology school?
01:02:46.880 Yeah.
01:02:47.660 Red flag.
01:02:48.860 No.
01:02:49.400 Yeah.
01:02:49.600 Hair or makeup?
01:02:51.500 What?
01:02:52.180 Hair?
01:02:52.620 Well, like, hair and nails, but...
01:02:53.880 Hair and nails?
01:02:54.420 I'll first of all say...
01:02:55.140 Kalam!
01:02:55.820 Oh, my God. 1.00
01:02:56.420 Holy shit. 1.00
01:02:57.800 I know. 1.00
01:02:58.220 Major red flag.
01:02:59.040 And it's in Utah, which is, like, even worse.
01:03:01.100 Don't hit that point.
01:03:01.440 Are you Mormon?
01:03:02.060 You're a Mormon. 0.75
01:03:02.780 I grew up Mormon.
01:03:03.620 Oh, you grew up Mormon. 1.00
01:03:04.040 I'm not any Mormon, though.
01:03:05.140 Are you atheist, or are you agnostic, or...?
01:03:08.180 I...
01:03:08.780 It's...
01:03:10.120 You switched to Buddhism?
01:03:10.820 I don't know exactly what to consider.
01:03:11.800 Like, I'm still Christian, but I do follow, like, teachings of, like, other religions.
01:03:15.700 Like, my view as far as religious stance goes, like, I'm definitely one of those where
01:03:20.780 I say I'm not religious, but I'm spiritual.
01:03:22.380 I think when it comes to religion, like...
01:03:24.340 Pick us odd.
01:03:24.760 ...around the world...
01:03:26.080 Honestly, no, I think it is that, like, there's, like, a lot of truth.
01:03:29.060 I think it's a lot of lies, a little bit of truth, and it's putting the puzzle pieces
01:03:31.880 together of things, so I don't necessarily throw myself in a box anymore where I'm out
01:03:36.440 on that stuff, but, yeah, cosmetology school.
01:03:40.220 But I have a brain.
01:03:40.960 I use it.
01:03:41.460 I just didn't want to go to a four-year college, so I...
01:03:44.640 But did you want to be a hairdresser?
01:03:46.680 Honestly, I honestly don't know at this point.
01:03:48.580 Like, I... 0.99
01:03:49.280 I at least thought, like, okay, worst-case scenario, like, let's say the world goes to shit. 0.99
01:03:54.360 Like, I have, like, a hands-on thing. 0.98
01:03:56.140 Like, everyone's always going to need to get haircuts. 0.99
01:03:57.540 Wait, if the world goes to shit, you're going to be at... 1.00
01:03:59.820 Bro, if the world goes to shit, you're... 1.00
01:04:01.860 Nobody's going to give a fuck about haircuts. 1.00
01:04:03.540 No, they just... 0.97
01:04:04.320 If I'm with a girl in a zombie apocalypse, we're both buzzing our hair. 0.99
01:04:12.760 I don't give a fuck about your style. 0.97
01:04:14.400 I can give you a nice fade, like, you know. 0.99
01:04:16.540 Bro, at least it'll look nice when you're killing zombies. 0.90
01:04:19.640 We're tossing your makeup. 0.90
01:04:21.160 There is no makeup in the zombie apocalypse, okay?
01:04:24.320 I know, but honestly, that's why, like, I don't exactly know if I'm going to actually
01:04:27.760 do anything with that after.
01:04:29.140 I just thought it's kind of a place to start rather than, like, getting out of high school
01:04:32.460 and being aimless with my direction.
01:04:34.020 There's something to fall back on.
01:04:34.580 Yeah, fall back on something.
01:04:36.180 That's fair.
01:04:36.820 Like, the hair and nails.
01:04:38.520 But it's ironic, like, I...
01:04:40.260 And Utah, too.
01:04:41.140 Like, everyone's there.
01:04:41.920 Everyone there's very, like, up on their looks and, like, everyone's blonde. 0.95
01:04:45.820 And, like, I definitely was more down-to-earth out there.
01:04:48.920 Like, I had a hard time.
01:04:50.440 Which is why I, like, need to take a break for a little while from it, too.
01:04:52.640 It's because, like, I'm not super into, like, making sure you always, you know, like, look
01:04:58.040 presentable, but you don't have to be super done up.
01:05:00.020 Yeah.
01:05:00.260 And so it's just kind of...
01:05:01.940 Okay.
01:05:02.260 I'm still figuring out.
01:05:02.960 I'm still navigating what I'm going to end up doing.
01:05:04.360 Yeah, you got time.
01:05:05.160 I mean, yeah.
01:05:05.800 Definitely.
01:05:06.460 Okay.
01:05:08.580 You are the airline agent.
01:05:11.780 Yes.
01:05:12.000 How much are you pulling in?
01:05:13.740 I make a laughable wage.
01:05:15.500 But you get to fly for free, too.
01:05:16.720 But I'm rich in happiness and fulfillment.
01:05:18.680 That's beautiful.
01:05:19.220 Thank you.
01:05:19.700 All that matters.
01:05:22.500 I don't pull a traditional salary because I don't have a traditional job.
01:05:27.100 I have investments.
01:05:28.600 I'm not comfortable disclosing my net worth.
01:05:31.360 But I do okay.
01:05:32.740 But I'll go with a salary of zero dollars since I'm starting a business and I have made zero dollars.
01:05:39.940 Okay.
01:05:41.280 Hypergamy's good for you.
01:05:43.780 You got options.
01:05:46.320 I'm a full-time student but have multiple sources of income.
01:05:49.000 So, I do well.
01:05:50.700 Okay.
01:05:52.600 I'm working at, like, a stock firm right now.
01:05:55.660 And I'm making $15,000 a year.
01:05:58.500 Okay.
01:05:59.320 So, I mean, just curious.
01:06:00.620 Maybe a better question is also to ask.
01:06:02.200 Like, you're the guy who you're eventually going to marry.
01:06:05.440 How much money would you like him to be earning, say, when he turns?
01:06:09.940 I mean, we have a variety of ages here in this group.
01:06:13.600 But say when he's 30, 35, 40, in that age range.
01:06:18.900 How much would you like your future partner husband to be making? 0.99
01:06:23.220 $50,000, $75,000, $100,000?
01:06:26.760 More?
01:06:28.360 Here, we'll go around the table really quick.
01:06:30.700 Your future partner, how much do you think he's going to be earning?
01:06:34.840 Go ahead.
01:06:35.100 So, honestly.
01:06:36.840 Or do you want him to earn?
01:06:38.400 Honestly, I don't necessarily care.
01:06:41.820 Like, honestly, I don't really care.
01:06:43.720 Obviously, I don't want someone.
01:06:44.500 Stop the cap. 0.94
01:06:46.520 Stop it.
01:06:47.300 Stop it.
01:06:47.880 Let's be honest.
01:06:49.060 Otherwise, everyone's going to say that.
01:06:50.780 You did a KFC guy?
01:06:52.020 Come on.
01:06:52.520 No.
01:06:52.920 Okay.
01:06:53.220 Well, I was saying that I wouldn't necessarily date that.
01:06:55.240 I just want someone that has drive in their life.
01:06:58.560 And that is able to kind of let me be able to travel with them.
01:07:02.460 Like, we can travel together.
01:07:03.480 And, like, you can kind of spoil me in a sense.
01:07:05.500 With the money.
01:07:06.300 With what money?
01:07:07.040 What if he's poor?
01:07:08.540 You said you want to travel with him.
01:07:10.280 That's going to take money.
01:07:11.400 It's going to take money.
01:07:12.340 I don't have, like, a certain, like, number.
01:07:14.300 I just want someone that has, like, drive and they are...
01:07:19.340 I don't have, like, a certain number, honestly.
01:07:21.200 Like, I wouldn't...
01:07:21.860 Someone could come to me and they would be like,
01:07:24.420 Oh, I only make, like, 40K a year or something.
01:07:27.500 And, like...
01:07:28.700 That's pretty low.
01:07:29.520 That is pretty low.
01:07:30.540 It is pretty low.
01:07:31.160 Well, I think it's actually...
01:07:32.780 I think 45K is the average, the median average salary for men in the U.S.
01:07:39.820 That's not all it is.
01:07:40.600 But it's low in the...
01:07:42.620 I'm not trying to shit on anybody in the chat that makes that much or less. 0.50
01:07:45.660 But living in California, if you want to live in, like, a major city, you're probably going
01:07:51.280 to have to, you know, if you want a certain lifestyle, if you want to travel, for example,
01:07:55.880 go on vacations.
01:07:56.840 If you want to, you know, afford a certain size house that has bedrooms for...
01:08:01.100 Do you want kids?
01:08:02.460 Maybe you don't want kids.
01:08:03.480 I'm not sure, honestly.
01:08:04.760 I haven't met a person...
01:08:06.200 Like, I'm open to it, but I haven't met a person that I would...
01:08:10.280 I could see, like, a life...
01:08:11.560 Like, I want to meet someone that I'm like, oh, my God, I want to have your babies.
01:08:15.260 But it would break down like this.
01:08:16.940 You know, you have to look, okay, well, what city do I want to live in?
01:08:19.840 The square footage of the house.
01:08:21.140 How many bedrooms do you want?
01:08:22.760 How many bathrooms?
01:08:24.140 How many cars do you want to have?
01:08:25.560 Do you want the kids to have their own separate bedrooms? 0.96
01:08:28.400 Do you want to travel two or three times a year?
01:08:30.380 Or, you know, there's a bunch of other factors that you have to, you know...
01:08:35.780 And then what kind of house do you want?
01:08:37.720 Do you want kind of like a mid-tier, low-tier, or, like, maybe a bit more luxury?
01:08:40.780 The cars you have, do you want one car, two cars?
01:08:43.060 You want mid-tier cars?
01:08:44.360 You want luxury cars?
01:08:45.300 And international travel versus domestic, you know, so all these are a factor.
01:08:50.020 So we can say that money doesn't matter, but if you do want to, for example, have kids,
01:08:55.340 it's, you know, your partner's income is going to be, is going to have to be a factor in,
01:09:02.140 you know, a deciding factor in your partner.
01:09:05.520 Correct, but I'm, I'm more so attracted to, like, not even, like, a number.
01:09:11.120 Like, I am more attracted to someone that has the drive in their life to, like, want to make that money.
01:09:16.440 Like, if they are making 40K, but they have, like, business ideas that they're putting a promotion,
01:09:21.360 you know what I mean?
01:09:21.920 I do see what you're saying, because women do tend to invest in men.
01:09:23.980 They'll, like, they'll see someone with potential, and they'll see a potential winner,
01:09:27.480 and they'll invest, my mom is hilarious like that. 1.00
01:09:29.540 She was, she was single at, like, 50, and she saw a guy who earned good money,
01:09:33.360 not so, not so attractive in terms of what he had going on.
01:09:36.240 She took him, she goes, grow out the facial hair, we'll get you a new wardrobe, this, that, 0.99
01:09:40.460 and now he walks around like an absolute don, and she's invested in that guy,
01:09:43.440 and now took him from, like, a five to a nine.
01:09:46.580 No, yeah, and that's how my parents were.
01:09:48.260 Like, my mom, my dad wasn't making, like, a ton of money,
01:09:50.620 but then they started dating, and she saw that he had this drive,
01:09:54.700 and he's, like, doing very well for himself, he's doing amazing,
01:09:58.620 and that's, like, something that I would want, like, honestly in life,
01:10:02.580 to be able to grow with someone, and, yeah.
01:10:05.260 I think some women move like that, but there's also, I think, just as many women. 1.00
01:10:09.240 I disagree with you a bit slightly here,
01:10:11.380 in that I think a lot of women wait at the finish line. 1.00
01:10:15.480 And fuck the winners. 1.00
01:10:16.140 And fuck the winners. 1.00
01:10:17.300 So I think when, I don't think you're wrong for saying, 1.00
01:10:20.940 and there's definitely a lot of women who do care about ambition, 1.00
01:10:24.020 but I think my view on it is,
01:10:25.880 women are not so concerned with a man's ambition 1.00
01:10:28.100 as they are concerned with,
01:10:30.340 has he reaped the benefits of said ambition?
01:10:33.860 Because an ambitious guy who,
01:10:37.060 there's a lot of, like, really ambitious guys 0.99
01:10:39.040 that want to fucking be SoundCloud rappers and shit 0.99
01:10:41.420 that work at fast food restaurants, 0.99
01:10:44.100 maybe one day they'll be successful,
01:10:46.120 but I think women are much more attuned 0.98
01:10:47.780 to actually picking the men
01:10:49.080 who have already reaped the benefits of said ambition.
01:10:52.320 And it's an age thing as well.
01:10:53.580 Like, if you're 21,
01:10:54.920 and you see a guy who's, like, studying or whatever,
01:10:57.540 but he's broke,
01:10:58.460 and you know that he's going to be rich one day,
01:11:00.040 then that's a good horse to bet on.
01:11:01.700 But if he's 40,
01:11:03.240 and he's not earning any money,
01:11:04.620 but he's got ambition,
01:11:06.380 sorry, mate.
01:11:07.080 And a lot of people who have ambition don't make it.
01:11:10.660 Like, not everybody is going to make it, you know?
01:11:13.320 It's more about, I would say,
01:11:14.800 like, how is that matching up
01:11:18.580 to, like, the work they're putting in,
01:11:20.900 like, realistic, everyday, like, type of thing, maybe.
01:11:24.900 Word.
01:11:25.500 People have to be realistic.
01:11:27.220 People have to be realistic at some point.
01:11:29.040 You can have all the ambition in the world,
01:11:30.440 but not everyone can make it, unfortunately.
01:11:32.620 Not everybody is going to be a rock star.
01:11:35.020 Yep.
01:11:35.220 80-20 rule. 0.71
01:11:36.900 Let's continue on a little more with the Jonah Hill stuff,
01:11:39.140 then we're going to get the soup chats, guys,
01:11:40.500 and then we have some good stuff.
01:11:42.260 Some other good stuff to react to.
01:11:44.060 Okay, so this is another screenshot.
01:11:46.320 She's at the top.
01:11:47.180 I don't care for your misogyny.
01:11:49.200 What does he say here that's misogynistic?
01:11:51.620 We can't do surf social things.
01:11:54.500 Give regard to our relationship.
01:11:55.880 I've been vulnerable as possible,
01:11:59.340 and I'm telling you I'm needing you to step up to the plate,
01:12:02.380 which you can.
01:12:04.100 I'm sure of it, 0.97
01:12:05.060 but these losers don't get your time if you want me. 0.99
01:12:08.300 Straight up, it's consideration. 0.71
01:12:10.820 I respect your love of surfing,
01:12:12.320 and I respect myself as well,
01:12:13.680 and your love of surfing and being in those situations
01:12:16.020 and lack of awareness are not mutually exclusive.
01:12:18.800 This isn't me.
01:12:19.700 I have my own issues that I own.
01:12:21.680 If you want marriage and family,
01:12:23.040 you can't use the 25 card.
01:12:25.520 Okay, so I guess she was 25 when they were dating,
01:12:27.800 and she was still living her best life,
01:12:30.200 and I don't know. 1.00
01:12:31.540 Step up and cut the shit. 1.00
01:12:32.680 These people don't get your time or your kindness 1.00
01:12:35.240 at the sacrifices of minds.
01:12:37.540 So we don't know all the details here,
01:12:38.940 but it sounds like she's hanging out with some dudes
01:12:40.540 or something.
01:12:41.020 Who knows?
01:12:41.680 By these people,
01:12:42.520 he meant any friend of mine
01:12:44.600 that he hadn't personally approved of,
01:12:49.020 and somehow she's saying,
01:12:50.340 I don't care for your misogyny.
01:12:52.560 I don't see,
01:12:53.340 I mean,
01:12:53.620 if you guys can parse what she,
01:12:55.300 I don't see anything in this text here
01:12:57.800 that is misogynistic.
01:13:00.240 Absolutely not.
01:13:00.420 So like hateful of women 1.00
01:13:01.780 or contempt of women or,
01:13:03.620 I mean.
01:13:04.700 The personally approved,
01:13:07.500 I don't see,
01:13:08.160 okay,
01:13:08.420 it's not misogynistic,
01:13:10.260 but it's a little bit like,
01:13:12.400 okay,
01:13:12.720 so you have to meet every single person I encounter,
01:13:15.100 but there are people that,
01:13:16.340 you know,
01:13:16.520 your partner's going to meet,
01:13:17.420 and they're automatically going to get an off vibe.
01:13:19.480 I'm sure you guys have met your partner's friends,
01:13:21.560 and there are one or two people that you're like,
01:13:23.980 that person?
01:13:25.660 Mm-mm.
01:13:26.860 Right.
01:13:27.840 Like,
01:13:28.540 it's just how it is,
01:13:29.940 so I get that.
01:13:30.960 It depends what they're doing around them as well.
01:13:32.960 I mean,
01:13:33.480 there are definitely toxic friends.
01:13:34.820 I had an ex-girlfriend once who just,
01:13:37.000 one of her friends were all just coke heads, 1.00
01:13:38.900 and I couldn't stand it,
01:13:40.440 and I was like,
01:13:40.940 just don't hang out with them.
01:13:42.320 She wouldn't listen to me.
01:13:43.900 But like,
01:13:44.620 the,
01:13:44.820 the,
01:13:45.640 our other partners should be given the room to like,
01:13:49.640 they should be able to be around certain behaviors,
01:13:53.000 and like,
01:13:53.820 it depends on the relationship to be able to,
01:13:55.780 like,
01:13:56.120 control yourself.
01:13:56.920 To an extent,
01:13:57.900 you cannot,
01:13:58.320 you are who you hang out with.
01:13:59.780 No,
01:14:00.040 it's literally exactly what you do.
01:14:01.200 You,
01:14:01.560 you,
01:14:02.160 you reflect who you hang out with,
01:14:03.700 to a very large extent,
01:14:05.280 and I think that if you're surrounding yourself with people that have horrible behaviors and patterns,
01:14:10.280 that you're gonna,
01:14:11.280 you're gonna copy those as well.
01:14:12.680 That's saying where it's like,
01:14:13.200 if you hang out with people that smoke all the time.
01:14:15.600 Absolutely.
01:14:16.320 Eventually,
01:14:16.940 you are going to pick up a cigarette and smoke it with them.
01:14:19.060 Like,
01:14:19.080 you are who you,
01:14:19.900 what not.
01:14:20.700 You are who you hang out with.
01:14:22.060 But also,
01:14:22.520 at an extent,
01:14:23.020 you gotta,
01:14:23.480 you gotta put in an accountability of your own,
01:14:26.100 like.
01:14:26.720 Yeah,
01:14:26.940 you do have to practice self-control,
01:14:28.540 but it comes,
01:14:28.940 it comes to an extent,
01:14:30.400 if she's hanging out with these lowlifes constantly, 1.00
01:14:32.920 she's gonna be reflecting those behaviors that they're,
01:14:35.780 they're engaging in.
01:14:37.100 And of course,
01:14:38.300 if you have,
01:14:39.040 you know,
01:14:39.280 a friend that's going through a hard time,
01:14:40.540 and they're currently,
01:14:41.420 you know,
01:14:41.840 engaging in toxic behaviors,
01:14:43.900 that's a little bit different.
01:14:45.220 You're being a good friend,
01:14:46.440 but then you also,
01:14:47.560 like I said,
01:14:48.080 you have to practice self-control.
01:14:49.820 It's just a balance.
01:14:50.460 And not encourage those behaviors.
01:14:52.760 Yeah.
01:14:53.400 Do you mind if we go around on the question I said before?
01:14:56.140 What would you girls prefer?
01:14:57.800 A man with no boundaries, 0.99
01:14:59.320 or very strong boundaries,
01:15:00.860 and why?
01:15:02.220 Um,
01:15:02.660 I would say a man with very strong boundaries,
01:15:05.640 because,
01:15:06.620 like I said earlier,
01:15:07.500 if he doesn't have boundaries with you,
01:15:09.760 he doesn't have boundaries with other people in his life,
01:15:12.240 and that's already,
01:15:13.320 that's a red flag to me personally.
01:15:15.040 I think that if it comes from a good place,
01:15:17.100 and good intentions to help you in life,
01:15:20.200 and like help you not hang out with people that are doing drugs,
01:15:23.440 or stuff like that,
01:15:24.380 I think that it's a positive thing,
01:15:25.680 honestly.
01:15:26.660 Can you think of a situation where somebody's ever had
01:15:28.700 too strong boundaries with you?
01:15:30.080 If you're out on a night out,
01:15:35.680 for example,
01:15:36.360 and then he's like texting you every half an hour,
01:15:38.360 where are you,
01:15:38.800 where are you,
01:15:39.140 what time should I pick you up,
01:15:40.000 et cetera,
01:15:40.300 is that a turn off,
01:15:41.080 or are you happy that he cares?
01:15:42.120 No, I think that it's like he cares about me,
01:15:44.140 like he wants to make sure I get home safe,
01:15:45.860 like I don't view it as a way of like him being like,
01:15:48.260 oh,
01:15:48.400 she's doing something sketchy,
01:15:49.820 like I view it as a way of like,
01:15:51.660 oh,
01:15:51.800 I care about you,
01:15:52.500 I want to make sure that you get home safely,
01:15:54.000 and that you're like protected,
01:15:55.800 and I love,
01:15:56.620 that's what I look for,
01:15:57.300 I want to be protected,
01:15:58.120 and all that stuff like in a relationship,
01:16:00.380 yeah.
01:16:01.920 If he's texting every like 20 minutes,
01:16:04.420 I think that's codependency though,
01:16:06.140 there's a fine line between really strict boundaries,
01:16:09.160 and then just having insecurity,
01:16:11.340 yeah.
01:16:11.660 Leave some space,
01:16:12.560 like talk about your day,
01:16:13.600 or like leave some space for space,
01:16:16.320 everyone needs it.
01:16:17.580 It's just doing something so simple,
01:16:21.080 and did not have the time to,
01:16:23.540 text is a text for a reason,
01:16:25.580 so you can read it later,
01:16:27.320 and if it's important,
01:16:28.780 you call,
01:16:29.580 or you can't be that upset at the end of the day,
01:16:32.080 like.
01:16:33.100 Yeah,
01:16:33.460 I don't think you should discuss anything super important over text,
01:16:36.700 just because like you can't see what they're trying to express.
01:16:40.480 It's not personal.
01:16:40.860 There's room for miscommunication as well,
01:16:42.900 yeah.
01:16:43.140 Totally,
01:16:43.580 and maybe that's what was happening with that whole scandal.
01:16:46.140 She read it completely different.
01:16:49.280 What do you guys think?
01:16:50.020 No boundaries,
01:16:50.680 or too strict boundaries?
01:16:54.220 Somewhere in the middle would be me.
01:16:56.180 Not the question.
01:16:56.820 Like nice,
01:16:57.380 but I would definitely go for boundaries,
01:17:00.840 you know,
01:17:01.360 that shows that you know,
01:17:02.880 you're self-aware enough to have set those boundaries,
01:17:06.240 or at least thought that they were healthy to do that.
01:17:07.640 I mean,
01:17:07.660 when I say strict boundaries,
01:17:08.820 I mean Jonah boundaries.
01:17:10.740 I wouldn't say that's not really that strict.
01:17:12.940 You don't think they're strict?
01:17:14.380 I don't think so.
01:17:15.140 I think that he seems like he just figured that out.
01:17:18.260 But okay,
01:17:18.840 let's put this,
01:17:19.980 if the strict boundaries were you can't post on social media,
01:17:22.720 you have to give up your Instagram.
01:17:24.060 That's a strict boundary.
01:17:25.520 If you're supporting me,
01:17:27.160 and we're like going strong,
01:17:29.160 I want to have a family with you,
01:17:30.600 I see myself spending the rest of my life,
01:17:32.860 yeah.
01:17:33.440 So you'd give up your Instagram?
01:17:35.360 If the man took care of me,
01:17:38.880 yeah,
01:17:39.500 for sure.
01:17:39.760 You guys would all give up your Instagrams?
01:17:41.080 No.
01:17:41.560 I love to be spoiled.
01:17:42.240 Why not?
01:17:43.900 Because that's...
01:17:44.780 This is the guy,
01:17:46.100 you like this guy.
01:17:48.120 What does Instagram give you that he can't?
01:17:49.720 You should not be that insecure to a level
01:17:53.600 to think that like me having an Instagram
01:17:55.940 is going to ruin our bond.
01:17:58.820 Right.
01:17:59.300 So the act of him saying that is a turnoff.
01:18:02.640 But what if he's like,
01:18:03.680 everything else matches everything
01:18:05.740 that you would be looking for,
01:18:07.000 but the one thing is he's saying,
01:18:08.960 like,
01:18:09.100 just get rid of the Instagram.
01:18:10.460 Because maybe from his perspective,
01:18:11.400 it's like,
01:18:12.380 if he's giving you everything you need,
01:18:13.980 like,
01:18:14.240 what would you need from Instagram?
01:18:15.680 That's really tough.
01:18:16.280 Do you have other men's validation?
01:18:17.560 No.
01:18:18.200 What if I just...
01:18:19.560 This is what I want to post my art.
01:18:22.380 I want to share my art with the world.
01:18:24.460 Your art.
01:18:24.860 If he said you can have your art page,
01:18:26.840 but not your page.
01:18:29.500 But I can't post myself.
01:18:30.400 Yeah, exactly.
01:18:31.620 You can have your art page.
01:18:32.560 What's wrong with me?
01:18:33.140 Why can't I do that?
01:18:35.060 It's just his boundaries.
01:18:36.340 He's just...
01:18:36.940 But why is that a boundary?
01:18:37.900 Is it because you're afraid
01:18:39.060 that other people are going to steal me away?
01:18:42.180 Or like,
01:18:42.600 what's the deal?
01:18:43.280 You know what I mean?
01:18:43.860 There's...
01:18:44.300 I got another reason.
01:18:45.700 I got another reason.
01:18:45.860 I don't know why that depends.
01:18:47.120 That probably is a reason,
01:18:48.840 is the fact that there are a lot of girls... 1.00
01:18:51.680 My boy.
01:18:52.260 There are a lot of girls 0.99
01:18:52.960 who are getting a lot of attention
01:18:54.100 from a lot of guys on Instagram.
01:18:55.460 Instagram is the biggest dating app in the world.
01:18:57.720 You're still advertising yourself as single on Instagram.
01:19:01.220 Maybe it's not as much like you
01:19:03.100 as much as it is like guys know guys.
01:19:05.140 And so knowing what other guys are thinking
01:19:07.740 as they're like scrolling through
01:19:09.020 and looking at your stuff,
01:19:10.560 like maybe he's just not comfortable
01:19:11.620 with the idea of you putting yourself out there
01:19:13.640 for other men to kind of have access to in that way.
01:19:16.360 Guys know guys,
01:19:17.280 but I know myself.
01:19:18.520 And if you're dating me
01:19:19.500 and you really,
01:19:20.320 you really care about me like that
01:19:23.080 and know me,
01:19:23.820 then you should know that
01:19:26.060 the attention or other people can't steal that.
01:19:29.480 You know what I mean?
01:19:30.280 And if that's not the case,
01:19:31.580 then don't talk to me, please.
01:19:33.460 I've got a question for you.
01:19:35.600 If you knew that no guy
01:19:37.620 would ever see your Instagram,
01:19:39.520 would you still post pictures of yourself?
01:19:41.500 You're OnlyFans, right?
01:19:43.140 I have.
01:19:43.940 I have and I just a little...
01:19:46.900 Okay, that aside.
01:19:48.000 That's an avenue, yes.
01:19:49.240 That aside,
01:19:49.740 you're not making money.
01:19:50.720 If no guy could ever see your photos,
01:19:52.640 would you still post on Instagram?
01:19:54.500 I mean,
01:19:54.760 there's been times
01:19:55.280 where I haven't posted
01:19:56.020 for like two years at a time.
01:19:57.900 So like that's not...
01:19:59.180 And you would have given up Mr. Right.
01:20:00.540 You weren't even posting.
01:20:01.680 Mr. Right comes along.
01:20:02.620 It was just like,
01:20:03.920 I don't know what to...
01:20:05.200 I don't care.
01:20:06.220 Like I have pictures.
01:20:07.660 Do you feel like it's maybe
01:20:08.380 like an attachment thing for you?
01:20:10.060 Like you feel like somebody's
01:20:10.960 trying to control you?
01:20:11.800 Like you don't want to let go of that
01:20:12.980 autonomy that you have over Instagram?
01:20:15.220 Yeah.
01:20:15.720 It's like,
01:20:16.160 why is that the...
01:20:18.360 Why is that the...
01:20:18.980 What if he did it
01:20:19.600 in a very loving way
01:20:21.320 and he said,
01:20:22.240 you know,
01:20:22.500 this is who we are?
01:20:23.780 No, that still is telling me
01:20:25.040 that you have a problem with yourself
01:20:26.980 that you need to figure out
01:20:28.120 before I get any more invested in you.
01:20:30.960 So what if he had
01:20:31.620 a completely valid reason
01:20:32.660 that had nothing to do
01:20:33.520 with dating
01:20:34.040 or anything like that
01:20:35.420 that had nothing to do
01:20:36.240 with men looking at you?
01:20:37.360 What if it was like a safety reason?
01:20:39.400 Safety?
01:20:39.980 What kind of safety?
01:20:41.200 Just...
01:20:41.720 Make it make sense.
01:20:42.800 Just humor me.
01:20:43.340 Well, here's an example.
01:20:44.260 Here's an example.
01:20:44.680 Whatever it is,
01:20:45.060 make it make sense.
01:20:45.420 Some people will like
01:20:46.840 take stories
01:20:47.840 at a restaurant
01:20:48.960 while they're still
01:20:50.460 at the restaurant
01:20:51.060 and if you're like
01:20:52.160 with a high status guy,
01:20:53.460 he's like,
01:20:54.360 bro,
01:20:54.560 don't be letting people know 0.99
01:20:56.240 where the fuck we are right now. 0.99
01:20:57.820 You're with Jonah Hill. 0.99
01:20:58.620 You don't want people
01:20:59.860 to know like paparazzi 1.00
01:21:00.960 or fucking stalkers and shit. 1.00
01:21:02.080 The rapper got killed 1.00
01:21:02.800 because his girlfriend
01:21:03.560 posted a photo.
01:21:04.400 Who was that?
01:21:05.420 Who was that rapper?
01:21:06.340 Pop Smoke.
01:21:07.160 No, no, no.
01:21:07.680 It was a different rapper.
01:21:08.980 Who?
01:21:09.780 Oh, Nick knows it.
01:21:11.840 Nick behind the scenes
01:21:13.060 coming in clutch with the...
01:21:14.580 Yeah.
01:21:15.060 She posted like a photo
01:21:16.220 of like the food
01:21:17.000 and he was in it
01:21:18.080 and then they showed up
01:21:19.780 and they popped him.
01:21:20.320 What's his name?
01:21:20.720 Pop Smoke?
01:21:21.480 No, no.
01:21:22.580 Rest in peace
01:21:23.260 with Pop Smoke though.
01:21:24.080 Just humor us
01:21:25.880 and in a world
01:21:26.580 where there was a valid reason
01:21:28.560 that...
01:21:29.240 Don't make me
01:21:29.620 get my voice out.
01:21:31.980 Wait, what?
01:21:32.480 No, look, like...
01:21:34.160 Tell us how you really feel.
01:21:35.580 Tell us how you really feel.
01:21:36.840 Just...
01:21:37.940 That all give...
01:21:38.820 That's all giving
01:21:39.760 you're insecure. 0.83
01:21:41.120 There's something
01:21:41.620 you're still...
01:21:42.160 You haven't worked on.
01:21:43.000 Like you're not like...
01:21:44.400 If I'm not...
01:21:45.480 Say I'm dating you
01:21:47.380 and I had some crazy stalker 0.96
01:21:49.580 that was trying to kill me 0.92
01:21:51.140 and I said,
01:21:52.680 hey, you need to delete
01:21:53.580 your Instagram
01:21:54.120 if we're going to be together
01:21:55.420 because...
01:21:56.280 What does mine have to do with you?
01:21:58.080 You're with them.
01:21:58.740 If we're together,
01:22:00.280 you could be in jeopardy as well
01:22:01.700 but also things that you post
01:22:02.960 could totally give away
01:22:03.700 where I'm at,
01:22:04.340 what I'm doing.
01:22:04.560 Then obviously,
01:22:05.500 I don't want us to die
01:22:06.560 and I don't want to put...
01:22:07.960 I don't want to put myself
01:22:09.500 and my partner in danger
01:22:11.480 but if this is like a...
01:22:13.680 Like we're talking about
01:22:15.160 like a generalized...
01:22:16.120 We're just talking about
01:22:16.920 like theoretically
01:22:17.560 if this were the case.
01:22:19.240 Theoretically,
01:22:19.860 if it's like a special
01:22:20.760 like thing like that,
01:22:22.540 then yeah,
01:22:23.260 okay,
01:22:23.680 like whatever
01:22:26.200 but also
01:22:27.420 then don't get into
01:22:28.880 a relationship with me
01:22:30.260 knowing that
01:22:31.080 I'm choosing this path
01:22:33.020 in life
01:22:33.340 to want to be
01:22:34.120 more public than you.
01:22:35.480 Okay,
01:22:35.760 I thought I could change you.
01:22:36.960 We can't work it out.
01:22:38.100 Like it's okay.
01:22:38.720 Like we can be friends.
01:22:39.400 I thought I could fix you.
01:22:40.520 Here,
01:22:41.060 let's try to get through
01:22:43.080 the rest of the messages.
01:22:44.460 I'll just try to read them
01:22:45.220 and then we'll...
01:22:45.800 Go ahead.
01:22:48.260 Next.
01:22:49.600 So many.
01:22:50.640 I know.
01:22:51.340 Okay,
01:22:52.080 yep,
01:22:52.340 same one.
01:22:52.740 Next.
01:22:53.740 Next.
01:22:54.560 Okay, 0.97
01:22:54.820 you make me sick.
01:22:56.860 That makes me feel like,
01:22:57.820 okay,
01:22:58.160 I guess he made her sick.
01:23:01.360 Okay,
01:23:02.360 next one.
01:23:03.680 That just looks like
01:23:04.480 her own insecurities
01:23:05.480 that she's pushing onto him.
01:23:07.700 The amount of women 1.00
01:23:08.800 I know
01:23:09.480 and do not know
01:23:11.120 pouring in
01:23:11.760 with love and support
01:23:12.580 is not something
01:23:13.600 I was expecting
01:23:14.200 from sharing all this
01:23:15.060 and it really is
01:23:15.660 a beautiful silver lining.
01:23:17.200 It's been two years.
01:23:18.300 Next one.
01:23:19.060 Like a girl. 0.99
01:23:20.700 I hope my ex
01:23:22.600 has a daughter.
01:23:23.820 Maybe she'll turn him 0.99
01:23:24.860 into a real feminist 0.99
01:23:25.940 because the fact
01:23:27.120 that he calls himself
01:23:27.960 a feminist now 0.99
01:23:28.980 is laughable. 0.98
01:23:30.380 Okay.
01:23:30.640 He calls himself
01:23:31.260 a male feminist.
01:23:32.080 That was the red flag.
01:23:32.820 Yeah,
01:23:33.000 that was the red flag.
01:23:34.260 There's more.
01:23:35.100 Next one.
01:23:35.920 There's just so many of these.
01:23:37.000 We're just not even
01:23:37.500 going to react to all of them. 0.99
01:23:39.000 Oh shit, 1.00
01:23:39.780 she's posted. 0.99
01:23:40.480 Okay,
01:23:40.720 next one.
01:23:41.220 I don't know
01:23:41.440 why she's posting that.
01:23:46.180 Screenshots of her pics
01:23:47.340 and I guess
01:23:48.400 he was sending her
01:23:49.200 oh,
01:23:49.560 he's saying
01:23:50.460 here are like
01:23:51.000 the photos I dislike.
01:23:52.040 Next one.
01:23:54.140 I respect your skill
01:23:55.260 and your surfing
01:23:55.860 blah, blah, blah.
01:23:56.680 I respect that
01:23:57.240 you're hot and beautiful
01:23:58.120 but I also respect myself
01:24:00.640 and what I'm interested in
01:24:01.860 in my own life
01:24:02.800 and what I let
01:24:04.880 into my heart
01:24:05.620 and inner circle
01:24:06.300 so celebrate yourself
01:24:07.120 and your life
01:24:07.600 however you please
01:24:08.260 and shine bright
01:24:09.300 but I don't want
01:24:11.340 to have to deal
01:24:12.080 and we didn't see
01:24:13.800 the rest of it
01:24:14.500 but get whipped. 1.00
01:24:16.460 I did this all
01:24:17.320 in the name of
01:24:17.980 protecting him
01:24:18.740 from crippling anxiety.
01:24:20.700 That would be hurtful
01:24:21.820 and triggering for me.
01:24:23.980 Understood.
01:24:24.640 I don't need or want.
01:24:27.980 That's like this scene.
01:24:29.340 Okay,
01:24:29.800 oh,
01:24:30.020 something came in here.
01:24:30.440 It just looks like
01:24:31.040 they're both
01:24:31.540 very into care
01:24:32.480 and pushing that
01:24:33.180 onto each other.
01:24:34.820 That's all I'm saying.
01:24:35.900 So,
01:24:36.440 I mean,
01:24:37.140 I don't know.
01:24:37.660 That's a mess.
01:24:38.740 It hurt people,
01:24:39.440 hurt people.
01:24:39.920 Next.
01:24:41.960 Good job for me
01:24:42.920 taking all those
01:24:43.520 screenshots
01:24:43.920 to counteract
01:24:44.800 the gaslighting.
01:24:45.720 Grom,
01:24:46.060 me,
01:24:46.280 would be proud of us.
01:24:48.100 Okay,
01:24:48.900 congratulations.
01:24:50.900 What?
01:24:51.560 Okay.
01:24:52.260 Feeling fortunate
01:24:52.920 for all the amazing
01:24:53.940 women in my life 1.00
01:24:54.780 and extra fortunate
01:24:55.540 that I go to law school
01:24:56.640 with several of them
01:24:57.400 and that I'm sure
01:24:58.380 we'll cross paths
01:24:59.700 in our future careers.
01:25:01.660 So,
01:25:02.280 this is going to be
01:25:02.900 your future attorney
01:25:03.720 representing you
01:25:04.460 in the case
01:25:04.820 she's airing
01:25:05.520 her dirty laundry
01:25:06.280 about an ex.
01:25:07.760 That's a great look.
01:25:08.740 It's a great look.
01:25:11.460 I would not,
01:25:12.160 me personally,
01:25:12.760 as someone who's
01:25:13.380 gone to see lawyers
01:25:14.560 about various different things,
01:25:16.020 litigation,
01:25:18.560 I would not want
01:25:20.060 to go to a lawyer
01:25:20.800 that is this petty.
01:25:23.440 Can you keep it up?
01:25:24.160 Keep it up next one.
01:25:24.720 What if she gets upset
01:25:25.480 with you
01:25:26.000 and then she uses 0.99
01:25:27.280 some screenshots
01:25:28.000 or discloses
01:25:29.660 the information she should?
01:25:30.760 In her professional capacity,
01:25:32.160 I don't think
01:25:32.540 she would do that
01:25:33.120 but it's just such
01:25:33.820 an unprofessional
01:25:34.520 thing to do
01:25:35.520 and she's saying
01:25:37.000 she's now recommending
01:25:38.260 her people
01:25:38.880 boycott his documentary,
01:25:41.140 I guess.
01:25:41.820 Next one.
01:25:42.540 Oh my gosh.
01:25:44.480 People are making memes
01:25:45.740 of Free Sarah
01:25:47.300 as if she,
01:25:48.600 her situation
01:25:49.260 is comparable
01:25:49.920 to Britney Spears'
01:25:52.160 situation
01:25:52.660 where she was
01:25:53.260 in a conservatorship.
01:25:55.500 Also,
01:25:55.800 she claims to be bipolar
01:25:57.340 which is interesting
01:25:59.260 and apparently
01:26:00.820 a little research
01:26:02.480 that I did
01:26:03.420 on her,
01:26:04.760 I think she disclosed
01:26:06.180 that she's
01:26:08.080 type 1 bipolar
01:26:10.580 which is massive
01:26:12.020 manic upswings,
01:26:13.260 impulsive reckless
01:26:14.060 behavior on upswings.
01:26:15.560 Type 2 is more
01:26:16.300 the smaller
01:26:16.780 hypomanic swings
01:26:17.880 and then depressive phases.
01:26:19.720 That's courtesy
01:26:20.120 of Vermillion.
01:26:22.160 Thank you, man.
01:26:23.660 So she has
01:26:24.400 the crazier version 0.84
01:26:25.620 of bipolar,
01:26:27.580 apparently.
01:26:28.060 I'm not really
01:26:28.480 super familiar with,
01:26:29.240 is anyone here bipolar?
01:26:31.080 No.
01:26:31.660 Anybody?
01:26:32.340 Show of hands.
01:26:33.520 Any bipolar people?
01:26:34.660 Not diagnosed.
01:26:35.580 Not diagnosed.
01:26:36.820 Anybody?
01:26:37.600 A couple of you
01:26:38.360 sighed a little bit.
01:26:39.540 Some of us might be,
01:26:40.940 who knows?
01:26:41.800 I don't know.
01:26:41.940 Are you talking about,
01:26:42.400 is it you?
01:26:43.080 I don't know.
01:26:43.740 You got bipolar?
01:26:44.300 That's what I'm saying.
01:26:44.840 Here, let's just,
01:26:45.400 everybody.
01:26:45.560 I got some symptoms,
01:26:46.520 you know, but. 1.00
01:26:46.920 Oh, shit, okay. 0.99
01:26:47.820 Everybody at this, 0.99
01:26:48.920 just right now,
01:26:49.640 I want you all
01:26:50.120 to disclose 0.99
01:26:50.680 all your mental illnesses 0.76
01:26:52.480 and as well as 0.53
01:26:54.980 any medications
01:26:55.720 you might be taking.
01:26:56.580 Let's start with
01:26:57.000 trigger warning.
01:26:58.180 Rattlesnake TV?
01:26:59.560 Absolutely 100%
01:27:00.760 mentally healthy
01:27:01.800 and I reject
01:27:02.880 most of the
01:27:03.620 diagnoses.
01:27:05.040 Oh, guys,
01:27:05.820 look at how beautiful
01:27:06.640 it is outside.
01:27:07.440 You got a little palm tree.
01:27:08.920 It's like
01:27:09.400 twilight right now.
01:27:10.820 It's nice, you know.
01:27:12.240 Madison,
01:27:12.920 what drugs
01:27:13.860 are you taking?
01:27:15.140 None.
01:27:17.460 Oh, what? 1.00
01:27:18.460 What the fuck? 1.00
01:27:19.240 Okay. 1.00
01:27:20.620 What about you?
01:27:22.140 None.
01:27:23.220 Any mental diagnoses?
01:27:25.580 No, not that I know of.
01:27:27.680 Okay.
01:27:29.260 Very mentally stable
01:27:30.520 and healthy.
01:27:32.180 Based.
01:27:32.500 No drugs.
01:27:34.480 Let's not,
01:27:34.940 okay.
01:27:36.360 Go ahead.
01:27:37.400 Surely someone's,
01:27:38.320 someone's got something.
01:27:39.180 Yeah, oh my gosh.
01:27:40.040 I used to be liberal
01:27:41.600 but I took the red pill.
01:27:43.900 Did we skip over you?
01:27:45.100 We skipped, yeah.
01:27:46.180 Do you want to?
01:27:47.540 Yeah, I can share.
01:27:48.740 I take five milligrams
01:27:49.860 of Lexapro.
01:27:52.820 Okay.
01:27:53.280 Is that for anxiety,
01:27:54.500 depression?
01:27:55.300 No, it's for
01:27:56.620 more kind of
01:27:58.940 OCD
01:28:00.640 kind of tendencies.
01:28:02.720 It's pretty mild.
01:28:03.820 Like, I don't really
01:28:04.660 notice it.
01:28:05.680 What would happen
01:28:06.400 if you didn't take it?
01:28:07.400 If I didn't take it,
01:28:08.440 probably
01:28:09.540 I would have
01:28:11.560 like a lot more
01:28:12.420 kind of like
01:28:12.940 racing thoughts.
01:28:13.820 Like, it would be
01:28:14.280 a little more difficult
01:28:14.900 to organize my thoughts.
01:28:16.460 Okay.
01:28:18.100 Particularly like
01:28:18.760 late at night probably
01:28:19.680 like before sleep.
01:28:20.720 So it helps you sleep?
01:28:24.300 Indirectly,
01:28:24.840 I think so
01:28:25.720 but not directly.
01:28:27.360 Got it.
01:28:27.880 Like to calm
01:28:28.560 the brain.
01:28:30.220 It doesn't calm,
01:28:31.400 it more helps
01:28:32.460 organize it a little bit.
01:28:33.700 Oh, did you not
01:28:36.280 hear what I said?
01:28:37.300 You said you used
01:28:38.420 to be feminist 1.00
01:28:39.420 or liberal?
01:28:39.720 I used to be liberal
01:28:40.560 but I took the red pill.
01:28:41.820 No, it's already good.
01:28:42.440 It's already good.
01:28:43.460 Based.
01:28:44.100 You took the red pill?
01:28:45.040 I did.
01:28:45.660 Mm-hmm.
01:28:46.420 Based.
01:28:46.760 What was the red pill?
01:28:48.320 Oh, you know.
01:28:49.560 You know?
01:28:49.960 The flip side of YouTube.
01:28:51.740 The flip side of Twitter.
01:28:53.380 She started watching
01:28:53.980 my TV.
01:28:54.440 No, I...
01:28:55.040 Go subscribe.
01:28:56.580 Okay.
01:28:56.780 Um, I'm mentally stable
01:28:59.420 but I probably have
01:29:00.580 a few ex-boyfriends
01:29:01.560 that would like
01:29:02.120 to debate this topic.
01:29:04.400 Okay, so they would say
01:29:06.020 you're not mentally stable.
01:29:07.460 Yeah, but they don't realize
01:29:08.860 that my reaction
01:29:10.440 is probably a reaction
01:29:11.720 to their action.
01:29:13.740 But we're working on it.
01:29:15.220 But you also get to
01:29:16.380 choose how to react.
01:29:17.700 That's very true.
01:29:18.600 So therapy has helped me
01:29:19.680 with that a lot.
01:29:21.420 It's their fault.
01:29:22.260 So what would your boyfriend say
01:29:24.900 about you?
01:29:26.780 So there was one incident
01:29:28.740 that...
01:29:29.660 So my situation ship
01:29:31.540 keeps bringing it up.
01:29:32.920 So about two years ago
01:29:34.540 he owned a detail shop
01:29:36.840 where we're from
01:29:37.480 and one of his employees
01:29:39.600 was texting me
01:29:40.280 and was like,
01:29:40.740 oh, like he was hitting
01:29:41.660 on this girl
01:29:42.300 and asking her
01:29:42.860 to come over to his house
01:29:43.940 when we were at breakfast
01:29:44.740 and I asked him about it
01:29:46.800 and he was like,
01:29:47.260 no, she's just a friend.
01:29:48.840 And he was having
01:29:50.160 some sort of watch party
01:29:51.440 at his house
01:29:52.100 and he ended up
01:29:53.420 inviting this girl.
01:29:54.680 And I was really upset
01:29:55.820 with this.
01:29:56.780 And I was not controlling
01:29:58.300 my emotions at this time.
01:29:59.940 Sorry, I'm a little nervous.
01:30:01.540 But I was not controlling
01:30:02.660 my emotions at this time
01:30:03.940 and we got in a huge fight
01:30:05.740 and I may have kicked
01:30:08.660 a dent in his car,
01:30:10.160 but I immediately sent him
01:30:11.860 the money to pay for it
01:30:12.920 as soon as I was done.
01:30:14.000 So, you know,
01:30:14.460 I fixed it, right?
01:30:15.240 What else?
01:30:17.760 What else you got for us?
01:30:18.620 Yeah, that's mild.
01:30:19.280 It's more.
01:30:20.240 It's a little.
01:30:22.300 What else?
01:30:24.180 What did you do?
01:30:25.380 Vandalism.
01:30:26.380 Just some mild vandalism.
01:30:28.140 You know, one time
01:30:28.540 I chased him down the highway
01:30:29.680 going like 110.
01:30:31.340 There we go.
01:30:31.860 He comes out.
01:30:32.280 There we go.
01:30:32.960 Was it in the Only Things car?
01:30:34.740 No, it wasn't.
01:30:35.620 Oh, no.
01:30:36.240 I was in my,
01:30:36.980 I have a Benz too,
01:30:38.400 so I was just driving my car.
01:30:39.880 He was going to the bar
01:30:40.860 and I was like,
01:30:41.380 no, you're not.
01:30:41.880 Not without me.
01:30:42.520 I actually had COVID
01:30:43.420 during this time too,
01:30:44.540 so, you know,
01:30:45.520 we were risking it all.
01:30:47.100 Wait, you were,
01:30:47.900 so you were,
01:30:48.400 how fast were you going?
01:30:49.440 Like 110.
01:30:50.660 You were chasing him
01:30:51.600 down the highway?
01:30:52.660 Yeah, because he was trying
01:30:53.460 to go to the bar
01:30:54.220 and I was like,
01:30:55.020 no, you're not going
01:30:55.720 to the bar.
01:30:56.180 We're both sick with COVID
01:30:57.280 and he was like,
01:30:57.940 no, I'm going anyway
01:30:58.660 because he was asymptomatic. 0.54
01:31:01.320 Okay, kind of scummy,
01:31:02.540 but.
01:31:02.840 Very scummy.
01:31:03.920 But then like the whole
01:31:04.780 reckless endangerment thing
01:31:06.000 probably wasn't a good look.
01:31:06.720 Yeah, I just kind of
01:31:07.680 took it 10 times more, but.
01:31:09.640 Okay, so did you
01:31:10.560 catch up to him or?
01:31:11.900 I did and then
01:31:12.560 I decided to just,
01:31:13.500 I was like,
01:31:13.900 what am I doing?
01:31:14.580 Like, what were you
01:31:15.100 going to do to stop him?
01:31:16.640 I have no idea.
01:31:17.700 He's wielding a machete,
01:31:18.540 obviously.
01:31:18.980 At this point,
01:31:19.480 I was just like,
01:31:20.000 I just need to talk to him.
01:31:21.500 He's going to listen.
01:31:22.660 And now I look back
01:31:23.520 and I was like,
01:31:23.900 he definitely was just
01:31:24.640 going to do what he wanted to
01:31:25.600 and I should have
01:31:26.120 just stayed home.
01:31:27.460 This is current situationship?
01:31:28.900 Yes.
01:31:29.240 Is he going to be upset
01:31:29.800 that you were saying
01:31:30.680 all this, by the way?
01:31:31.280 Oh, no.
01:31:31.920 Oh, he's fine with it?
01:31:32.620 Is he watching this right now?
01:31:33.480 He's a cool guy.
01:31:34.080 He was downstairs.
01:31:34.560 What's the third one?
01:31:40.140 You said there were
01:31:40.520 like three things,
01:31:41.260 I think, or?
01:31:42.480 No.
01:31:43.620 There probably is
01:31:44.520 some more stuff.
01:31:45.800 I just cannot think of it
01:31:46.960 at the top of my head
01:31:47.700 right now.
01:31:48.240 Or you just can't
01:31:48.780 disclose it
01:31:49.340 because it's
01:31:50.060 statute of limitations.
01:31:51.400 I'm trying to think.
01:31:52.420 Self-incriminating.
01:31:53.720 Still got to wait
01:31:55.100 another year
01:31:55.600 before you disclose it.
01:31:56.300 Yeah, we'll just wait.
01:31:57.060 Okay.
01:31:57.640 I knew that was more.
01:31:58.300 What about you?
01:31:59.740 I'm mentally healthy.
01:32:01.120 I also would reject
01:32:02.100 any diagnoses.
01:32:02.780 I think a lot of people.
01:32:04.340 That's that Mormon in you. 0.51
01:32:05.560 Yeah.
01:32:06.140 That's that Mormon in you. 0.51
01:32:07.120 Oh, maybe.
01:32:08.480 Maybe just a little bit
01:32:09.400 of a logic.
01:32:10.100 That was probably.
01:32:10.680 Wait, you're ex-Mormon, right?
01:32:12.260 Yeah.
01:32:12.620 Wait, just curious.
01:32:13.580 What do they believe?
01:32:15.440 Isn't there something
01:32:15.920 about like a planet
01:32:16.760 and then there's like
01:32:17.580 spaceships that are
01:32:18.380 going to rescue you 0.99
01:32:19.000 or some shit? 0.98
01:32:19.680 That's Scientology, right? 1.00
01:32:21.200 Oh, that's Scientology?
01:32:22.260 Yeah.
01:32:22.720 I thought there was
01:32:23.420 something about that.
01:32:24.060 Tom Cruise is on that train.
01:32:25.660 He also rejects Big Pharma.
01:32:27.780 Isn't there something
01:32:28.260 about that Mormonism?
01:32:29.440 We support that decision.
01:32:30.660 Yeah, Tom Cruise.
01:32:31.680 Spaceship that's going to rescue you?
01:32:32.940 Am I?
01:32:33.600 Am I?
01:32:35.000 I mean, honestly,
01:32:36.060 like I was Mormon
01:32:39.280 until I was about 16
01:32:40.480 and so like from there
01:32:42.420 and honestly,
01:32:42.960 it was like something
01:32:43.440 that was like kind of
01:32:44.140 held over my head
01:32:44.800 in a sense.
01:32:45.700 Like it was like
01:32:46.220 if I didn't go to church
01:32:47.420 every Sunday,
01:32:47.860 my dad was like,
01:32:48.600 do you want your phone
01:32:49.120 for the week?
01:32:49.580 And I was like,
01:32:50.080 well, yeah.
01:32:50.680 So I went to church.
01:32:52.320 But since then,
01:32:53.260 I've like figured out
01:32:54.420 my own connection for myself
01:32:55.880 and it's a lot more meaningful.
01:32:57.080 Do you want to raise
01:32:57.940 your kids as Mormon?
01:32:59.460 Absolutely not.
01:33:00.120 No.
01:33:00.360 Have you been excommunicated?
01:33:03.080 No, my mom was.
01:33:04.440 Your mom was excommunicated?
01:33:06.220 Yeah, because she 0.97
01:33:07.480 That's a thing, right?
01:33:08.980 She publicly shared
01:33:09.620 some beliefs
01:33:10.120 that were contrary
01:33:10.960 or just not even contrary
01:33:12.460 but just not taught
01:33:13.820 in the LDS church.
01:33:15.100 Aren't they meant
01:33:15.560 to be like super friendly people?
01:33:17.860 Like overtly friendly?
01:33:18.560 It's ironic, yeah.
01:33:19.840 Yeah, they're super friendly.
01:33:20.560 Especially in Utah,
01:33:21.540 like it's surprising
01:33:23.020 how unfriendly the culture is
01:33:24.820 in a lot of different ways.
01:33:26.320 So it's very, very interesting.
01:33:29.380 It's very unique.
01:33:30.460 Are you religious at all still?
01:33:32.220 Like I was kind of said earlier,
01:33:33.760 like I'm not like religious
01:33:34.600 but spiritual.
01:33:35.360 So like I do,
01:33:36.160 like I still like follow Christ
01:33:37.820 and like God
01:33:38.540 have relationship there.
01:33:40.840 But yeah,
01:33:41.420 I think it's a lot more complex
01:33:43.180 than a lot of religions get into.
01:33:44.780 So you say that you follow Christ
01:33:46.720 and you follow God
01:33:47.520 so you have a specific definition
01:33:49.480 of what your spirituality entails
01:33:51.320 but you wouldn't call yourself religious?
01:33:53.620 No, because I think religion is, 0.97
01:33:55.040 I mean it's the organization
01:33:56.220 around, you know,
01:33:57.720 whatever spiritual belief that is.
01:33:59.240 Okay, yeah, I see what you're saying.
01:34:00.540 So I wouldn't say religious 0.98
01:34:02.320 just because like
01:34:03.080 when it comes down to religion,
01:34:04.480 like I think,
01:34:06.340 I mean it's imperfect organizations
01:34:07.900 because it's imperfect men
01:34:08.900 so therefore like
01:34:09.820 when it comes down to it,
01:34:11.220 I don't want to,
01:34:12.500 and I guess that's kind of why
01:34:13.700 I made the decision
01:34:14.360 to actually leave
01:34:16.100 the Mormon church
01:34:16.960 and like I like went
01:34:18.400 and got records removed
01:34:19.260 and everything like that.
01:34:20.960 It's interesting though
01:34:21.840 because like you said
01:34:23.080 you don't believe in Mormonism
01:34:24.740 but like do you think that,
01:34:26.340 so you said you don't believe
01:34:27.280 in religion
01:34:27.840 but do you think
01:34:28.660 that your experiences
01:34:29.320 with Mormonism
01:34:30.140 potentially turned you off
01:34:31.460 just believing
01:34:32.640 in a more generic religion?
01:34:33.960 I think somewhat.
01:34:35.180 So I think,
01:34:37.700 I mean definitely like
01:34:38.540 obviously that's where
01:34:39.140 the base of my beliefs
01:34:39.980 has come from
01:34:41.020 and obviously from there
01:34:42.540 like I've taken
01:34:43.220 what I was kind of cultivated
01:34:44.740 to believe growing up
01:34:45.800 and just learn for myself.
01:34:48.500 Like I think like
01:34:49.020 in order to get answers
01:34:49.840 for yourself
01:34:50.260 like you have to take it to God.
01:34:51.700 Like there's not going to be,
01:34:52.860 you can read as many scriptures,
01:34:54.140 you can read as many,
01:34:55.140 you know,
01:34:55.560 things or like whatever
01:34:56.400 like men are going to give to you 0.81
01:34:58.140 but anything that's
01:34:59.260 had the chance
01:35:00.200 to be even written down
01:35:01.060 has a chance to be swayed
01:35:02.140 one way or another
01:35:03.140 and I really think like
01:35:04.100 it's about having
01:35:04.640 that own connection
01:35:05.260 with Elohim
01:35:05.840 to figure out like
01:35:06.580 what that is.
01:35:07.360 I'd be very interested
01:35:08.500 to see where you are
01:35:09.340 five years from now
01:35:10.220 in your journey.
01:35:11.420 I am very interested
01:35:11.760 because it sounds like
01:35:12.160 even a year ago
01:35:12.980 like it's
01:35:13.540 really figuring things out.
01:35:14.420 Yeah and it's kind of
01:35:15.080 coming to the point
01:35:15.620 to where like
01:35:16.060 I've been a little more
01:35:16.880 wishy-washy in the past
01:35:17.840 but now I'm like
01:35:18.520 like I know,
01:35:20.760 I have a set of beliefs
01:35:22.360 that I know
01:35:22.760 that it's personal to me
01:35:24.260 and my experiences
01:35:25.600 rather than just
01:35:26.420 what people kind of
01:35:27.160 spoon-fed me to believe
01:35:28.820 because they told me
01:35:29.400 that would,
01:35:30.280 you know.
01:35:30.620 Okay, moving on.
01:35:32.960 We were talking
01:35:33.740 about mental illness
01:35:35.020 and if you're on any drugs,
01:35:36.480 I don't know
01:35:36.720 how to ask that question.
01:35:37.360 But if you guys want
01:35:38.200 to share really quick
01:35:39.240 and then let's continue on.
01:35:41.540 What you got for us?
01:35:43.340 Nothing diagnosed
01:35:44.420 but I do have
01:35:46.460 well, I mean anxiety.
01:35:48.280 No, I know drugs.
01:35:49.200 Okay.
01:35:49.960 No, not unmedicated
01:35:51.020 but you know,
01:35:52.680 getting through it.
01:35:53.820 Okay.
01:35:54.400 What about you?
01:35:56.820 You don't have to,
01:35:57.760 but this is a very
01:35:58.360 personal question
01:35:58.960 so if you guys
01:35:59.500 don't want to 1.00
01:35:59.960 fucking share this shit. 1.00
01:36:00.700 I'm not going to say 1.00
01:36:01.400 I'm like mentally healthy.
01:36:04.840 But you do take a cocktail
01:36:05.840 of various
01:36:06.500 mind-altering drugs.
01:36:09.720 Sometimes.
01:36:10.620 I go out.
01:36:11.680 I'm in that industry.
01:36:13.700 Sure.
01:36:14.100 You go out
01:36:15.260 and you know,
01:36:16.400 whatever.
01:36:16.800 It happens.
01:36:17.680 To the best of us.
01:36:18.420 I've done my rehab.
01:36:20.580 You did your time?
01:36:21.560 How long were you
01:36:22.680 in prison for?
01:36:23.160 I was in that
01:36:26.220 type of prison
01:36:27.060 for a year and a half.
01:36:28.300 Oh, really?
01:36:28.700 Were you actually
01:36:29.120 incarcerated?
01:36:30.140 No.
01:36:30.820 Wait.
01:36:31.280 Oh, rehab.
01:36:33.120 Oh, okay.
01:36:33.800 My ears just pricked up.
01:36:35.900 Oh my.
01:36:36.760 Yeah, so I did that
01:36:38.800 but that's because
01:36:41.380 I know I have
01:36:42.260 like other mental 0.99
01:36:43.900 things I need to,
01:36:45.260 you know.
01:36:45.920 Sure.
01:36:46.100 But still, no.
01:36:47.040 No diagnosis.
01:36:48.060 No, I don't know.
01:36:49.080 You said you were in rehab.
01:36:50.140 Are you...
01:36:50.500 No, I did.
01:36:51.280 I already finished it.
01:36:51.960 Are you sober?
01:36:53.220 No, not anymore.
01:36:54.700 Not fully, no.
01:36:55.340 How long were you sober?
01:36:56.980 A year and a half.
01:36:59.020 You fell off
01:36:59.860 when you came
01:37:00.640 to the podcast?
01:37:01.760 Was it earlier?
01:37:02.460 To Los Angeles.
01:37:04.120 When you moved to LA?
01:37:05.520 That happens
01:37:05.840 to a lot of people.
01:37:07.080 Don't move to LA.
01:37:08.260 If you want to be.
01:37:09.780 Or at least
01:37:10.620 like no one come here.
01:37:11.820 I've noticed that
01:37:12.480 since I've been here
01:37:13.080 the last few days.
01:37:13.880 And it's not like
01:37:14.680 respectfully, you know,
01:37:15.900 like you gotta like
01:37:17.300 build up to that
01:37:18.240 but not like I'm doing
01:37:20.420 like horribly.
01:37:22.280 I mean, if you know me
01:37:23.700 like this is like
01:37:24.660 pretty, it's pretty good.
01:37:27.880 But, yeah.
01:37:30.440 Burke, what's about you? 0.91
01:37:32.280 I would say
01:37:33.040 I'm pretty mentally healthy.
01:37:34.880 Sometimes I have like,
01:37:36.220 I'll get a little bit
01:37:36.880 of social anxiety
01:37:37.860 like randomly going
01:37:39.320 to places
01:37:40.000 with like a lot of people
01:37:41.960 just because like
01:37:42.740 it's very,
01:37:43.260 it makes me very anxious
01:37:44.160 sometimes.
01:37:45.460 And like,
01:37:46.540 I don't think
01:37:47.560 this is a mental illness
01:37:48.440 but I feel like 0.98
01:37:48.860 I'm like pretty horny
01:37:50.120 all the time.
01:37:50.920 So, if that's a mental illness
01:37:52.340 then yes,
01:37:52.820 I'm not mentally healthy.
01:37:54.120 I've thought about that.
01:37:55.180 No, honestly,
01:37:55.940 that's the thing though.
01:37:57.620 I think.
01:37:58.680 I understand that.
01:38:00.020 Yeah, we know.
01:38:01.640 Do you?
01:38:02.520 Oh, yeah.
01:38:03.200 We have 16 times
01:38:04.000 more testosterone 0.61
01:38:04.640 than you guys.
01:38:05.400 Oh, my. 0.98
01:38:06.120 That's the sexual hormone. 1.00
01:38:08.180 Try waking up
01:38:08.980 in the morning
01:38:09.300 as a guy.
01:38:09.700 Those levels are dropping.
01:38:13.600 Sorry?
01:38:14.180 Those levels are dropping.
01:38:16.520 Oh, yes, they are.
01:38:18.140 Our testosterone
01:38:18.640 is dropping big time
01:38:19.760 unfortunately.
01:38:20.020 My mental health
01:38:20.660 really does have like
01:38:21.480 Oh, me so horny. 0.82
01:38:23.040 Me like you. 0.95
01:38:23.760 It does.
01:38:24.820 Burke. 1.00
01:38:26.100 Okay.
01:38:26.860 All right.
01:38:27.560 Here, let's get
01:38:28.280 some chats out of the way.
01:38:29.540 We will come back
01:38:30.100 to the Jonah Hill thing
01:38:30.820 really quick
01:38:31.420 but first,
01:38:32.640 let us get these chats.
01:38:35.120 Give me just a sec
01:38:35.820 as it pops up.
01:38:37.080 Okay, we have Mick Gold.
01:38:38.500 Burke, can you read 1.00
01:38:39.220 this one for us?
01:38:40.280 Yes.
01:38:40.860 Okay, Mick Gold said
01:38:41.860 ask the ladies 0.96
01:38:42.760 how do you feel about this?
01:38:44.540 Men are allowed
01:38:45.460 only one emotion, anger
01:38:47.180 and women are allowed 1.00
01:38:48.640 every emotion
01:38:49.320 except anger.
01:38:50.380 If she's angry
01:38:51.300 she will cry.
01:38:54.260 Lots of luck, guys
01:38:55.600 figuring out
01:38:56.240 why she's crying, Mick Gold.
01:38:59.620 I don't really understand
01:39:00.660 the question.
01:39:01.000 Ask the ladies 0.96
01:39:01.780 how do you feel about this?
01:39:02.940 Men are only allowed 1.00
01:39:04.000 one emotion, anger.
01:39:05.400 Women are allowed 1.00
01:39:06.100 every emotion
01:39:06.860 except anger.
01:39:08.500 I understand the question.
01:39:11.200 It's kind of a statement.
01:39:12.720 It's asking
01:39:14.480 how you feel about that
01:39:16.420 because that's sort of
01:39:17.860 what's generally accepted.
01:39:20.260 Men are allowed
01:39:21.260 quote unquote
01:39:21.920 to show and express anger
01:39:24.200 but feel that
01:39:26.820 they are not able
01:39:27.700 to express
01:39:28.420 any other emotions
01:39:29.940 and women
01:39:31.640 and women
01:39:31.660 are able
01:39:32.720 to freely express
01:39:34.160 all sorts of emotions
01:39:35.600 except for anger.
01:39:38.920 Women 1.00
01:39:39.220 feeling that
01:39:40.560 they're not able
01:39:41.360 to express that emotion.
01:39:42.700 I see.
01:39:43.280 I think he's asking us
01:39:44.180 how we feel about that.
01:39:47.020 Word.
01:39:50.100 Well obviously
01:39:51.000 here we'll do this.
01:39:52.460 Agree or disagree
01:39:53.100 with what he's saying.
01:39:55.260 So
01:39:55.400 men are only allowed 1.00
01:39:57.780 one emotion, anger.
01:39:59.160 Women are allowed 1.00
01:39:59.960 every emotion
01:40:00.960 except anger.
01:40:02.660 Raise your hand
01:40:03.100 if you agree.
01:40:04.040 If you
01:40:04.160 don't raise your hand
01:40:06.060 I guess that means
01:40:06.520 you disagree.
01:40:10.020 I think it's a hard
01:40:11.120 question to parse
01:40:12.000 maybe.
01:40:12.880 Well hey
01:40:13.400 Mick Gold
01:40:14.840 thank you very much
01:40:15.580 for that.
01:40:16.080 and
01:40:17.520 I mean
01:40:18.820 I think perhaps
01:40:19.860 maybe what he's
01:40:22.500 getting at
01:40:22.940 is like
01:40:23.320 men
01:40:23.820 are not allowed
01:40:25.280 to cry
01:40:25.860 like not allowed
01:40:27.200 to show sadness
01:40:27.840 because it's like
01:40:28.700 viewed as weakness.
01:40:30.840 So I don't know.
01:40:32.480 But
01:40:32.720 okay Mick Gold
01:40:33.680 thank you very much.
01:40:34.320 We got Doc Vanablus
01:40:35.260 here.
01:40:35.580 Thank you man.
01:40:36.620 Bert can you read this?
01:40:38.300 Yes.
01:40:38.820 Okay.
01:40:39.420 Jonah administered
01:40:40.280 the laxative first.
01:40:42.120 Sarah then
01:40:42.800 took the emotional
01:40:43.680 dump on Instagram
01:40:44.520 and she seems to be
01:40:45.820 auditioning for the
01:40:46.640 role of Amber
01:40:47.900 Heard on the
01:40:48.500 Hallmark Channel.
01:40:50.400 Yeah that's
01:40:51.060 definitely
01:40:51.380 definitely some
01:40:52.260 Amber Heard
01:40:52.600 ish going
01:40:54.480 okay.
01:40:55.660 We have Marcus
01:40:56.360 Incendi
01:40:57.160 Incel
01:40:58.140 Incel
01:40:58.840 Incel
01:40:58.880 like Marcus
01:41:00.900 Morelius 1.00
01:41:02.320 wait fuck 1.00
01:41:03.360 Marcus Aurelius 1.00
01:41:04.700 Marcus Aurelius
01:41:05.640 except Marcus
01:41:06.900 Incel
01:41:07.380 okay.
01:41:08.960 Brixton was
01:41:09.420 Kay Walsh
01:41:10.100 scheduled
01:41:10.620 thumbnail fake out
01:41:11.880 anyways. 0.98
01:41:12.660 Yeah we fucked up 0.98
01:41:13.360 on the thumbnail 0.97
01:41:13.820 we got
01:41:14.220 we accidentally put
01:41:15.540 we're gonna change
01:41:16.900 it after the show
01:41:17.540 your life is yours
01:41:18.920 to live as you
01:41:19.720 would have it
01:41:20.400 free of guilt
01:41:20.960 shame and fear
01:41:21.580 and whatever
01:41:22.060 struggles you face
01:41:23.020 you're not alone
01:41:24.000 good luck with it
01:41:24.980 and stay healthy
01:41:25.560 kings. 0.57
01:41:26.000 Hey Marcus
01:41:26.500 Incelidus
01:41:27.660 thank you very much
01:41:28.300 for the soup chat
01:41:29.440 we have one here
01:41:30.500 from Billy
01:41:31.280 via Instagram
01:41:32.480 my question is
01:41:33.260 if and this
01:41:33.840 he like prepaid
01:41:34.820 this or whatever
01:41:35.260 my question is
01:41:36.720 I think this is
01:41:37.320 directed at those
01:41:38.160 guys
01:41:38.420 if body count
01:41:40.120 doesn't make
01:41:40.920 a hoo-ha 1.00
01:41:41.800 more loose
01:41:42.940 why does it
01:41:43.840 matter
01:41:44.280 wouldn't you
01:41:45.460 rather be with
01:41:46.180 someone that
01:41:46.680 knows what
01:41:47.340 they're doing
01:41:47.920 versus a virgin 0.70
01:41:48.880 acting like
01:41:50.160 they're getting
01:41:50.720 stabbed 0.98
01:41:52.820 when you 1.00
01:41:53.580 F them 0.99
01:41:54.260 I hate
01:41:55.700 going slow 0.90
01:41:56.700 during sex 0.97
01:41:57.660 this is a guy 0.93
01:41:58.360 who never has
01:41:58.940 sex
01:41:59.280 first of all 0.92
01:42:00.220 so he's
01:42:01.680 kind of challenging
01:42:02.800 like why men
01:42:03.700 care about
01:42:04.500 body count
01:42:05.580 I mean it's
01:42:05.980 kind of
01:42:06.220 respectable
01:42:06.660 because
01:42:07.260 it goes
01:42:08.700 both ways
01:42:09.400 I guess
01:42:10.240 does it
01:42:10.880 well it is
01:42:12.160 it is a myth
01:42:12.900 it seems like
01:42:13.200 it's mostly
01:42:13.680 concerned about
01:42:14.720 like if women 1.00
01:42:16.620 have a more
01:42:17.340 like a higher
01:42:18.080 body count
01:42:18.700 than like if
01:42:19.200 guys
01:42:19.360 it sounds like
01:42:19.760 he's just got
01:42:20.220 a preference
01:42:20.820 for girls
01:42:21.960 who have a
01:42:22.880 higher body count
01:42:23.540 if that's
01:42:24.080 I wouldn't say
01:42:25.760 experience
01:42:26.220 he sounds like
01:42:28.160 he wants to
01:42:28.560 just go
01:42:29.000 go hard
01:42:29.500 at the paint
01:42:30.240 that's what
01:42:30.660 we say in
01:42:31.040 Australia
01:42:31.340 yeah well I
01:42:32.960 guess he's like
01:42:33.620 maybe he's been
01:42:34.540 with a virgin
01:42:35.040 and you know
01:42:36.040 yeah
01:42:36.580 I think but like
01:42:37.920 if you think about
01:42:38.500 it it sounds like
01:42:39.200 he wants to
01:42:39.760 he's talking about
01:42:40.500 a one night stand
01:42:41.260 though
01:42:41.500 he wants to
01:42:42.180 have a girl 1.00
01:42:42.740 who can fuck 1.00
01:42:43.360 but like 1.00
01:42:44.160 you know
01:42:44.580 it's a bit different
01:42:45.120 if you're looking
01:42:45.540 at a long term
01:42:46.060 partner
01:42:46.400 you know
01:42:46.800 wait
01:42:47.140 go ahead
01:42:48.200 go ahead
01:42:48.720 I was like
01:42:49.080 with a long term
01:42:49.920 partner
01:42:50.240 you can sort of
01:42:51.340 you know
01:42:51.600 she becomes
01:42:52.080 more experienced
01:42:52.740 sexually 0.61
01:42:53.060 but only with you
01:42:53.780 Rattlesnake TV
01:42:55.420 Jake
01:42:56.480 yes sir
01:42:57.200 even for a
01:42:58.180 one night stand
01:42:59.440 would you rather
01:43:00.320 get with a girl 1.00
01:43:00.860 who's a virgin
01:43:01.460 or a girl
01:43:01.940 who's slept with 0.54
01:43:02.800 50 guys
01:43:03.700 even if it's
01:43:05.460 just a one night stand
01:43:06.180 virgin
01:43:06.540 100%
01:43:07.500 why
01:43:07.960 would you not
01:43:08.700 feel bad 0.98
01:43:09.240 taking her virginity 0.99
01:43:10.300 for just a one night stand
01:43:11.600 no
01:43:12.160 no
01:43:12.780 because if it was
01:43:13.340 consensual
01:43:13.820 then
01:43:14.300 they get to choose
01:43:15.940 but the thing is
01:43:16.480 better me than
01:43:17.140 somebody else
01:43:17.940 like
01:43:18.200 the thing is
01:43:20.060 like
01:43:20.220 it's gonna sound
01:43:21.800 harsh
01:43:22.160 but a lot of the time
01:43:22.920 guys are actually
01:43:23.520 quite repulsed
01:43:24.300 by girls
01:43:25.200 who have
01:43:25.660 like a high
01:43:26.120 body count
01:43:26.600 it's not
01:43:27.240 it's something
01:43:27.600 that's like
01:43:28.260 we're internally
01:43:29.340 inherently
01:43:29.940 very repulsed
01:43:30.860 by
01:43:31.120 youth beauty
01:43:34.580 and fertility
01:43:35.200 it could
01:43:35.980 I think with women 1.00
01:43:37.080 it kind of
01:43:37.760 comes down to
01:43:38.560 I mean obviously
01:43:39.800 like guys
01:43:40.460 like when it
01:43:41.120 comes to men 0.96
01:43:41.740 according to women
01:43:43.200 like the woman 0.78
01:43:44.320 that like only
01:43:45.220 a certain amount
01:43:46.120 of men can get 0.77
01:43:46.840 like it kind of
01:43:47.380 shows the value
01:43:48.040 of how many
01:43:48.500 men she's allowed 0.99
01:43:49.820 in her
01:43:51.540 exactly
01:43:52.300 it's a very
01:43:53.100 attractive thing 0.91
01:43:53.760 if you meet a girl
01:43:54.540 who's got like
01:43:55.360 a lot of self-control
01:43:56.280 like that
01:43:56.720 it makes you feel
01:43:57.920 like you know
01:43:58.420 that you've
01:43:58.840 earned something
01:43:59.580 you know
01:44:00.060 and if you
01:44:01.280 don't feel like
01:44:01.920 you've earned it
01:44:02.360 then it's not
01:44:02.740 really that special
01:44:03.420 so scarcity
01:44:04.460 is important
01:44:05.260 are you saying
01:44:05.940 that like
01:44:06.580 being on the
01:44:07.740 other end of
01:44:08.520 like you also
01:44:09.360 have that same
01:44:10.220 discipline
01:44:10.660 or like
01:44:11.420 you just expect
01:44:12.380 that
01:44:12.680 me personally
01:44:14.420 or are you
01:44:14.720 talking guys
01:44:15.140 in general
01:44:15.540 I mean
01:44:16.340 you at the
01:44:17.420 moment
01:44:17.680 yeah
01:44:18.080 well
01:44:18.820 I probably
01:44:21.040 was a little
01:44:21.400 bit crazier
01:44:21.940 back in the
01:44:22.480 day
01:44:22.640 these days
01:44:23.100 I'm a little
01:44:23.500 bit more
01:44:23.880 sort of
01:44:24.140 reserved about
01:44:24.760 it
01:44:24.940 but I don't
01:44:25.760 think it is
01:44:26.260 as big a
01:44:26.720 problem for
01:44:27.240 guys as it
01:44:27.800 is for
01:44:28.080 girls 0.98
01:44:28.260 so if it
01:44:28.760 was like
01:44:29.240 if it
01:44:29.580 was reversed
01:44:30.240 and the
01:44:31.740 girl that
01:44:32.160 you were
01:44:32.440 dating
01:44:32.760 used to
01:44:33.560 be a little
01:44:34.640 crazier
01:44:35.140 body count
01:44:35.880 is still there
01:44:36.300 it depends
01:44:36.600 how crazy
01:44:37.080 really
01:44:37.520 it depends
01:44:38.000 how crazy
01:44:38.420 if we're
01:44:39.020 talking
01:44:39.300 three
01:44:40.320 no
01:44:41.280 hell no
01:44:42.660 I wouldn't
01:44:42.940 look at that
01:44:43.460 no
01:44:43.840 that's kind
01:44:45.020 of crazy
01:44:45.460 no it's
01:44:46.000 well the
01:44:46.320 thing is though
01:44:46.800 men and
01:44:47.100 women are 1.00
01:44:47.920 different
01:44:48.140 it's different
01:44:48.640 standards
01:44:49.240 that we're
01:44:49.560 not the same
01:44:49.960 we have
01:44:50.280 different things
01:44:50.920 like for
01:44:51.540 example
01:44:51.820 I don't
01:44:52.360 care how
01:44:52.720 much money
01:44:53.140 you guys
01:44:53.580 make
01:44:53.840 but women 1.00
01:44:54.520 care how
01:44:55.160 much money
01:44:55.620 we make
01:44:56.140 I care about
01:44:57.240 your past
01:44:57.840 you care about
01:44:58.660 my future
01:44:59.140 it's very
01:44:59.660 different
01:44:59.980 do you make
01:45:00.460 a lot of
01:45:00.760 money
01:45:01.020 it depends
01:45:02.140 what you
01:45:02.340 consider a lot
01:45:02.800 of money
01:45:03.080 do you
01:45:03.540 well do you
01:45:04.140 like to
01:45:04.440 spoil your
01:45:04.920 girl 0.91
01:45:05.180 I don't
01:45:06.300 have a
01:45:06.560 girl but 0.98
01:45:06.900 if I did
01:45:07.240 have a
01:45:07.440 girl yes
01:45:07.720 I'd spoil her
01:45:08.340 okay well
01:45:09.080 then I feel
01:45:09.540 like that's
01:45:10.000 why you
01:45:10.280 don't care
01:45:10.860 because that's
01:45:11.420 like that's
01:45:11.820 your love
01:45:12.100 language
01:45:12.660 what do
01:45:13.220 you mean
01:45:13.340 why I don't
01:45:13.680 care
01:45:13.920 like that's
01:45:14.620 why you
01:45:14.980 don't care
01:45:15.500 if they
01:45:15.920 don't make
01:45:16.320 enough
01:45:16.620 money
01:45:16.840 but I
01:45:17.200 think
01:45:17.360 most men
01:45:18.460 in general
01:45:19.000 are not
01:45:19.720 really
01:45:20.160 particularly
01:45:20.800 preoccupied
01:45:21.720 with the
01:45:23.120 income
01:45:23.440 that their
01:45:23.820 partner makes
01:45:24.400 because they
01:45:24.920 like to be
01:45:25.360 in charge
01:45:26.040 well I think
01:45:26.660 it just
01:45:26.940 comes down
01:45:27.360 to
01:45:27.600 I think
01:45:28.640 it just
01:45:28.900 comes down
01:45:29.300 to like
01:45:29.600 kind of
01:45:29.840 the different
01:45:30.240 roles
01:45:30.540 I mean
01:45:30.840 it depends
01:45:31.280 on like
01:45:31.660 people
01:45:31.980 I guess
01:45:32.800 how you feel
01:45:33.160 about like
01:45:33.480 more traditional
01:45:34.100 gender roles 0.99
01:45:38.340 more of like
01:45:39.080 the protector
01:45:39.520 and the
01:45:39.860 caretaker
01:45:40.340 and like
01:45:40.780 the provider
01:45:42.020 have been
01:45:42.540 built to
01:45:43.320 like take
01:45:43.720 lead in
01:45:44.060 that situation
01:45:44.680 which I think
01:45:45.500 plays into
01:45:45.960 like the whole
01:45:47.040 Jonah Hill
01:45:47.380 thing with
01:45:48.380 like you know
01:45:49.300 having like
01:45:49.920 the man
01:45:50.280 like the woman 0.78
01:45:50.960 more so
01:45:51.340 stepping into
01:45:51.780 the man's
01:45:52.180 frame
01:45:52.380 so that the
01:45:53.100 man can
01:45:53.440 take lead
01:45:53.960 in the
01:45:54.480 relationship
01:45:54.800 in that
01:45:55.180 sense
01:45:55.540 so that the
01:45:56.260 woman 0.99
01:45:56.480 like doesn't
01:45:57.320 have to
01:45:57.820 it sounded
01:45:58.240 to me like
01:45:58.740 Jonah Hill
01:45:59.160 was very much
01:45:59.860 in a very
01:46:00.620 feminine frame
01:46:01.460 in that
01:46:02.120 relationship
01:46:02.600 and he was
01:46:03.040 saying you
01:46:04.040 know I've
01:46:04.340 been so
01:46:04.700 vulnerable
01:46:05.100 I've been
01:46:05.500 the best
01:46:05.800 boyfriend ever
01:46:06.320 because society
01:46:06.980 has tricked him
01:46:07.760 into thinking
01:46:08.280 that being
01:46:08.740 very vulnerable
01:46:09.360 is the way
01:46:10.120 to be the
01:46:10.440 best boyfriend
01:46:10.920 ever
01:46:11.180 and then he
01:46:11.820 goes and identifies
01:46:12.780 as a male
01:46:13.300 feminist
01:46:13.720 and he writes
01:46:14.480 he does an
01:46:15.060 article with
01:46:15.500 Vice saying
01:46:16.020 how he wants
01:46:16.440 to fight
01:46:16.780 toxic masculinity 0.68
01:46:17.540 and it sounds
01:46:18.460 to me like
01:46:18.840 he was just
01:46:19.160 in a very
01:46:19.480 feminine frame
01:46:20.480 so
01:46:21.140 Brittany you
01:46:21.680 had something
01:46:22.200 are you okay
01:46:23.160 with a woman
01:46:23.780 making more
01:46:24.380 money than you
01:46:25.080 because I've
01:46:25.740 I've gone on
01:46:27.120 dates with guys
01:46:27.820 that I've made
01:46:28.320 more money than
01:46:28.900 and I feel like
01:46:29.580 it debasculates
01:46:30.440 them
01:46:30.680 they can't
01:46:31.320 handle it
01:46:31.980 they can't
01:46:32.500 handle it
01:46:33.020 you go ahead
01:46:34.840 and then I'll
01:46:35.500 answer
01:46:35.800 to be honest
01:46:38.120 it really depends
01:46:38.960 it's more of
01:46:39.460 an attitude
01:46:39.820 thing for me
01:46:40.580 like if
01:46:41.240 she makes 0.98
01:46:41.960 more money
01:46:42.360 than me
01:46:42.720 but like
01:46:43.200 the dynamics
01:46:44.000 in the relationship
01:46:44.620 are right
01:46:44.980 then it doesn't
01:46:45.480 really matter
01:46:46.080 but if she
01:46:48.280 makes something
01:46:49.320 like if I
01:46:50.140 have a girl
01:46:50.760 who makes
01:46:51.140 a lot of
01:46:51.460 money doing
01:46:51.780 something
01:46:51.980 that she's
01:46:52.300 very good
01:46:52.760 at
01:46:52.880 I find
01:46:53.160 that very
01:46:53.440 attractive
01:46:53.780 so I'm
01:46:54.540 not going
01:46:54.740 to be like
01:46:55.020 oh she
01:46:55.340 makes all
01:46:55.680 this money
01:46:56.040 like I'm
01:46:56.460 you know
01:46:56.960 if she's
01:46:57.640 like an
01:46:58.280 artist
01:46:58.540 or something
01:46:58.840 like that
01:46:59.140 and she
01:46:59.420 sells her
01:46:59.900 art
01:47:00.080 for big
01:47:00.400 money
01:47:00.620 I find
01:47:01.260 that very
01:47:01.560 attractive
01:47:01.880 I like
01:47:02.280 I find
01:47:02.680 creativity
01:47:03.140 and intelligence
01:47:03.760 very attractive
01:47:04.600 yeah
01:47:06.300 it doesn't
01:47:08.760 intimidate me
01:47:09.500 if a girl 0.97
01:47:10.580 makes more
01:47:11.020 money than me
01:47:11.520 although at
01:47:11.900 this point
01:47:12.420 in my life
01:47:12.860 that's a
01:47:13.520 very small
01:47:14.040 proportion
01:47:14.480 that make
01:47:15.780 more than
01:47:16.120 I do
01:47:16.540 but in
01:47:18.540 the past
01:47:18.880 I've dated
01:47:19.260 women who 0.99
01:47:19.680 make more
01:47:20.000 money than
01:47:20.320 me
01:47:20.420 I don't
01:47:21.100 it doesn't
01:47:21.780 bother me
01:47:22.220 but there
01:47:22.640 can be
01:47:23.180 some
01:47:23.400 corresponding
01:47:24.000 personality
01:47:25.300 traits
01:47:25.760 that can
01:47:26.700 come with
01:47:27.280 hyper successful
01:47:28.040 women 1.00
01:47:28.520 for example
01:47:29.460 I mean
01:47:29.720 to be
01:47:30.020 successful
01:47:30.420 in business
01:47:30.940 you need
01:47:31.260 to be
01:47:31.560 there's a
01:47:32.160 certain
01:47:32.340 degree of
01:47:32.800 cutthroat
01:47:33.280 like for
01:47:34.220 example
01:47:34.440 someone
01:47:34.700 who's
01:47:35.420 who's
01:47:35.960 a lawyer
01:47:37.140 temper mentally
01:47:38.320 whether you're
01:47:38.860 a man
01:47:39.080 or woman
01:47:39.660 is going
01:47:40.360 to probably
01:47:40.840 lean towards
01:47:41.440 being more
01:47:41.940 disagreeable
01:47:42.740 than like
01:47:43.380 the average
01:47:43.860 population
01:47:44.400 in order to
01:47:44.880 be a lawyer
01:47:45.400 you have to
01:47:46.680 be skilled
01:47:47.380 in argumentation
01:47:48.420 yes
01:47:48.760 so I mean
01:47:49.400 the lawyer
01:47:49.780 is going to 1.00
01:47:50.160 fucking 1.00
01:47:50.460 run circles 1.00
01:47:51.640 around you
01:47:52.120 when it
01:47:52.360 comes to
01:47:52.740 like
01:47:53.020 you know
01:47:53.620 if you ever
01:47:53.880 get into 1.00
01:47:54.140 a fucking 1.00
01:47:54.420 argument 1.00
01:47:54.720 with your
01:47:55.060 boyfriend
01:47:55.340 girlfriend
01:47:55.700 they're
01:47:55.920 a lawyer
01:47:56.220 like watch
01:47:56.740 out
01:47:56.980 not necessarily
01:47:58.240 but
01:47:58.740 they're going 1.00
01:47:59.580 to fucking 0.99
01:47:59.920 lay out 0.99
01:48:00.480 okay here's
01:48:00.920 the rules
01:48:01.320 here's the laws 0.99
01:48:01.840 and shit 0.99
01:48:02.800 but 1.00
01:48:03.840 that's not
01:48:04.940 always the case
01:48:05.440 there are
01:48:05.860 some women 1.00
01:48:06.320 who are
01:48:06.640 hyper successful
01:48:07.380 that are
01:48:07.780 still feminine
01:48:08.480 I think
01:48:09.840 it I think
01:48:10.760 the thing
01:48:11.060 with women
01:48:11.500 who make
01:48:11.800 a lot
01:48:11.980 of money
01:48:12.340 I think
01:48:13.500 it more
01:48:13.880 so falls
01:48:14.660 on women
01:48:15.860 who do
01:48:16.840 make a lot
01:48:17.240 of money
01:48:17.500 not finding
01:48:18.400 men who
01:48:19.360 who are
01:48:20.160 not on
01:48:20.580 their level
01:48:20.960 attractive
01:48:21.440 yes
01:48:21.840 because like
01:48:22.360 for example
01:48:22.760 take a woman 1.00
01:48:23.360 who's a lawyer
01:48:23.940 or take a woman 0.62
01:48:25.000 who's like
01:48:25.440 a successful
01:48:25.940 business woman
01:48:26.680 she's probably
01:48:27.700 not gonna
01:48:28.240 look at a guy
01:48:29.040 who as we
01:48:29.980 said earlier
01:48:30.520 works at like
01:48:31.080 a fast food
01:48:31.600 restaurant
01:48:31.960 and view
01:48:33.660 him as a
01:48:34.320 suitable
01:48:34.720 mate
01:48:35.800 whereas like
01:48:37.020 a guy who's
01:48:37.720 a guy who's
01:48:38.420 an attorney
01:48:38.820 will gladly
01:48:39.520 date like
01:48:40.040 a hot barista
01:48:40.840 or like
01:48:41.680 attractive
01:48:42.200 you know
01:48:43.060 she could be
01:48:43.840 a college student
01:48:44.500 or whatever
01:48:45.000 so
01:48:45.420 yo Andy
01:48:46.320 thank you man
01:48:46.800 I've never seen that
01:49:00.300 I haven't seen it
01:49:00.800 Sloan
01:49:01.280 wait who's the flower
01:49:02.380 is it you
01:49:02.900 I think it's me
01:49:03.700 she's got flowers
01:49:05.160 on her shirt
01:49:05.740 no it's definitely
01:49:06.580 you
01:49:06.840 yeah yeah
01:49:07.560 can we actually
01:49:09.460 pull that up
01:49:10.020 Nick can you
01:49:10.520 pull up another
01:49:10.920 tab
01:49:11.360 just whichever
01:49:12.460 one is the
01:49:13.060 whichever one
01:49:14.760 is we're on
01:49:15.520 with the
01:49:16.160 Jonah Hill
01:49:18.060 you can just
01:49:19.160 replace the tab
01:49:19.960 Sloan
01:49:21.560 Ferris Bueller
01:49:22.200 yeah you kind of
01:49:23.460 look like her
01:49:23.900 I reckon
01:49:24.640 ish
01:49:25.680 kinda
01:49:26.380 eh
01:49:26.940 nah I don't know
01:49:28.600 I love that
01:49:29.100 it's gone
01:49:29.860 backwards now
01:49:30.940 F11
01:49:31.740 absolutely
01:49:32.420 yeah
01:49:33.060 she's got dark
01:49:35.720 brown eyes
01:49:36.240 but it's a little
01:49:36.700 bit different
01:49:37.060 X out
01:49:39.160 just X out
01:49:39.820 of that
01:49:40.140 hit the X
01:49:41.020 where
01:49:42.640 Yahoo
01:49:43.360 nope
01:49:43.960 no no no
01:49:44.580 F11
01:49:45.100 the big photo
01:49:46.920 X
01:49:47.480 yeah yeah yeah
01:49:50.260 scroll down
01:49:50.980 I mean
01:49:53.180 kinda
01:49:53.940 I think it's
01:49:55.200 I think he thinks
01:49:56.040 all white people
01:49:56.840 look alike
01:49:57.340 or wait
01:49:58.600 I'm not white 0.88
01:49:59.340 oh you're not 0.93
01:49:59.780 what are you
01:50:00.280 I'm half Indian
01:50:01.120 oh half Indian
01:50:01.880 half
01:50:02.440 mixed European
01:50:03.680 yes I'm half
01:50:04.460 okay
01:50:04.660 well he thinks
01:50:06.680 okay
01:50:07.880 sorry I didn't
01:50:10.280 mean to
01:50:10.740 what's it called
01:50:12.320 when you
01:50:13.620 disprove
01:50:14.340 be insensitive
01:50:15.600 to your
01:50:16.000 racial identity
01:50:17.440 I guess
01:50:17.760 no it's okay
01:50:18.700 I'm not worried
01:50:19.480 about it at all
01:50:20.140 I misraced you
01:50:21.580 you know like
01:50:22.580 misgendered 0.97
01:50:23.320 but I misraced you
01:50:24.400 are you offended
01:50:25.440 no not at all
01:50:26.820 are you upset
01:50:27.180 do I need to
01:50:28.140 apologize
01:50:28.600 am I cancelled
01:50:29.940 thanks Brian
01:50:30.140 okay
01:50:31.400 thank you man
01:50:32.700 for that
01:50:33.060 TT
01:50:33.960 was it a TTS
01:50:34.840 I reckon it was
01:50:35.620 thank you man
01:50:36.080 where were we
01:50:37.640 we were talking
01:50:38.420 about a woman's
01:50:39.580 income
01:50:40.020 yeah I mean
01:50:41.560 here
01:50:42.020 Jake would you
01:50:43.240 would you date
01:50:43.980 she's not great
01:50:45.140 but she makes a lot 1.00
01:50:45.800 Kylie Jenner
01:50:47.520 no
01:50:47.800 no
01:50:49.040 no way
01:50:50.140 she's like
01:50:50.920 she's like
01:50:52.140 all up in that
01:50:53.080 LA
01:50:53.480 like influencer vibe
01:50:55.180 and it's just
01:50:55.620 it's not my thing
01:50:56.180 and she's a Kardashian
01:50:56.700 I find
01:50:57.680 I find humble
01:50:58.940 humble girls
01:50:59.680 very attractive
01:51:00.080 but you DM'd
01:51:00.540 Jenna Ortega
01:51:01.500 that was a joke
01:51:02.000 I never DM'd
01:51:02.760 oh you did DM her
01:51:03.860 it was a joke
01:51:05.620 and if I did
01:51:07.480 she would reply
01:51:08.020 yeah
01:51:08.540 we like the confidence
01:51:11.280 but yeah I think
01:51:12.500 as guys
01:51:12.980 like I mean
01:51:13.660 I
01:51:14.160 a lot of the women 1.00
01:51:15.160 I date
01:51:15.500 I'd say
01:51:15.940 you know
01:51:16.760 in recent history
01:51:17.780 they've
01:51:18.840 probably been
01:51:19.920 around my age
01:51:21.180 they've
01:51:21.620 been professionals
01:51:22.760 I like girls in STEM
01:51:24.220 so like girls who 0.98
01:51:25.620 you like dorky girls
01:51:26.700 yeah I kind of like 0.97
01:51:27.380 nerdy girls 1.00
01:51:27.880 so like 0.97
01:51:28.300 they tend to make
01:51:29.100 good money
01:51:29.480 like they'll
01:51:30.000 you know
01:51:31.240 anyways
01:51:31.880 in any case
01:51:32.540 but I would also
01:51:34.680 date like a girl 0.84
01:51:35.520 who's
01:51:36.080 21
01:51:37.900 who's
01:51:38.540 works at Chick-fil-A
01:51:40.320 would you date
01:51:41.340 like an influencer
01:51:42.020 like a Jenna
01:51:42.720 Jenna
01:51:44.260 or
01:51:44.960 Kylie Jenner
01:51:47.460 or Kylie Jenner
01:51:49.040 I would
01:51:50.440 honestly
01:51:51.100 and I'm
01:51:51.560 probably gonna get
01:51:52.300 dragged for this
01:51:52.860 but I feel like
01:51:53.380 I try to be very
01:51:54.520 upfront and honest
01:51:55.580 I would date her 0.89
01:51:57.120 opportunistically
01:51:58.120 granted
01:51:59.380 she is
01:52:00.280 a couple months
01:52:02.000 and then you
01:52:02.460 I was gonna say
01:52:03.340 she's attractive
01:52:04.200 but like
01:52:04.880 a lot of it's
01:52:05.840 really plastic
01:52:06.720 and I don't like
01:52:07.320 plastic
01:52:07.780 like I don't like
01:52:08.520 fake lips
01:52:09.040 I don't like 0.99
01:52:09.380 fake tits 1.00
01:52:10.000 no offense 0.99
01:52:11.940 to anybody here
01:52:12.580 who may have
01:52:13.240 plastic surgery
01:52:14.100 what
01:52:14.400 what's up
01:52:15.800 do you think
01:52:16.840 she would date you 0.78
01:52:17.780 oh
01:52:19.080 no
01:52:19.600 I mean
01:52:21.940 never say never
01:52:22.520 right
01:52:22.760 but
01:52:23.020 opportunistically
01:52:25.200 I mean
01:52:25.880 she could get
01:52:26.380 some
01:52:26.540 clear wise
01:52:27.660 but if you dated
01:52:29.420 her opportunistically
01:52:30.580 then are you doing
01:52:31.340 what Jonah's
01:52:32.080 ex-girlfriend's doing
01:52:33.200 and being an opportunist
01:52:35.080 well I think
01:52:36.300 I think there's a
01:52:37.160 difference
01:52:37.740 well
01:52:38.280 but here's the thing
01:52:39.240 I think there's a
01:52:39.840 difference between
01:52:40.720 like exposing
01:52:41.960 someone vindictively
01:52:43.260 for revenge
01:52:43.880 and like dating
01:52:45.120 someone for their
01:52:45.900 status
01:52:46.380 women do that 1.00
01:52:47.420 shit all the 1.00
01:52:48.580 fucking time 1.00
01:52:49.320 like women 1.00
01:52:50.440 will date a guy
01:52:51.340 who's like
01:52:52.160 and look
01:52:52.960 men will date
01:52:53.680 a woman 0.57
01:52:54.400 because she's 1.00
01:52:55.580 insanely fucking 0.99
01:52:56.480 hot 0.98
01:52:56.760 I just think
01:52:57.680 it happens
01:52:58.020 to be the case
01:52:58.560 that women 0.97
01:52:58.980 value status
01:53:00.100 and wealth
01:53:01.000 more than
01:53:01.500 more than
01:53:02.640 men do
01:53:03.100 it sounds unusual
01:53:04.180 because it's coming
01:53:04.640 from a guy
01:53:05.100 I'm just like
01:53:05.720 I'm being extremely
01:53:07.320 blunt
01:53:08.000 most people are not
01:53:09.380 going to admit
01:53:09.760 yeah I would date
01:53:10.360 someone who's like
01:53:10.980 extremely wealthy
01:53:11.840 and famous
01:53:12.280 for opportunistic
01:53:13.480 reasons
01:53:13.820 look I mean
01:53:15.300 also the lip
01:53:16.640 fillers
01:53:17.340 and the
01:53:17.680 plus single mom 0.98
01:53:20.360 that's incredibly
01:53:21.120 boring to be around
01:53:22.160 am I toxic
01:53:22.860 I'm being honest
01:53:24.680 you're being honest
01:53:26.760 I appreciate that
01:53:28.040 I feel that
01:53:29.660 but I don't know
01:53:30.920 there's
01:53:31.540 I don't know
01:53:32.580 would you date her
01:53:33.440 would you date her
01:53:34.280 if she came
01:53:35.160 came knocking
01:53:35.860 what
01:53:36.420 would you date her
01:53:37.520 who's her
01:53:38.480 Kylie Jenner
01:53:39.000 Kylie Jenner
01:53:40.080 are you bi
01:53:41.020 no
01:53:41.320 have we established that
01:53:42.640 yeah I like
01:53:43.300 I also like
01:53:44.600 no I would not
01:53:46.380 respectfully
01:53:47.380 collab on the way
01:53:49.280 is it opportunistically
01:53:50.920 or is it like
01:53:51.800 well you might
01:53:52.660 is that how we're
01:53:53.400 talking about
01:53:53.860 yeah you might
01:53:55.140 just be playing
01:53:55.680 the game like
01:53:56.100 Brian
01:53:56.360 you know what
01:53:58.580 though
01:53:58.900 maybe my framing
01:54:02.520 is wrong
01:54:03.040 doesn't everybody
01:54:04.080 date someone
01:54:04.880 from an opportunistic
01:54:06.280 like it's either
01:54:07.460 this person is
01:54:08.360 really physically
01:54:09.160 attractive
01:54:09.620 therefore I want
01:54:10.700 to date them
01:54:11.380 like
01:54:12.340 it starts
01:54:13.220 the catalyst
01:54:13.840 is like
01:54:14.640 what gets
01:54:16.660 your attention
01:54:17.320 okay so I'm not 0.99
01:54:18.160 a total scumbag 0.98
01:54:18.960 okay good 1.00
01:54:19.500 I'm glad
01:54:20.240 everybody agrees
01:54:21.040 some people
01:54:22.060 yes
01:54:22.500 it could be that
01:54:23.500 and a lot
01:54:24.220 like a majority
01:54:25.040 yeah maybe
01:54:25.780 but like
01:54:26.480 there is guys
01:54:27.760 that date women 1.00
01:54:28.720 opportunistically
01:54:29.920 like
01:54:30.900 we don't take
01:54:32.020 into account
01:54:32.520 like all the guys
01:54:33.360 that have dated
01:54:33.840 like famous
01:54:34.600 I think women 1.00
01:54:35.240 tend to like
01:54:35.980 socially calibrate
01:54:36.860 that sort of thing
01:54:37.600 a lot more though
01:54:38.360 like they tend
01:54:38.880 to really analyze
01:54:39.800 things socially
01:54:40.520 like social groups
01:54:41.460 and like
01:54:41.900 who's where
01:54:42.840 and then date people
01:54:43.920 because of future
01:54:44.580 prospects
01:54:44.980 and that sort of thing
01:54:45.700 whereas guys
01:54:46.220 are much more like
01:54:46.960 sort of
01:54:47.460 we see something
01:54:48.200 and we're like
01:54:48.560 okay yeah
01:54:49.000 she's cool
01:54:49.480 let's do this
01:54:50.880 as an OnlyFans creator
01:54:52.100 I've definitely
01:54:52.640 bumped into some guys
01:54:53.880 I don't know
01:54:54.980 if you guys
01:54:55.340 can relate with me
01:54:56.060 but some guys
01:54:56.740 who have definitely
01:54:57.220 been like
01:54:57.680 hey come be my
01:54:58.400 sugar mama 0.93
01:54:58.940 like
01:54:59.300 it's hard
01:55:00.860 it's kind of
01:55:01.960 but you'd also
01:55:02.560 you'd also
01:55:05.240 you'd also
01:55:05.880 bump into guys
01:55:06.880 who send you 1.00
01:55:07.640 photos of their penis 1.00
01:55:08.320 and say 1.00
01:55:08.660 laugh at it
01:55:09.360 you know
01:55:09.640 1000%
01:55:10.720 and I'll laugh at it
01:55:11.460 every single time
01:55:12.240 exactly
01:55:12.540 yeah
01:55:13.460 guys are 0.99
01:55:14.500 into weird shit 0.98
01:55:16.000 so like 0.98
01:55:16.340 OnlyFans
01:55:17.000 is like
01:55:17.600 you can't really
01:55:18.120 take that exception
01:55:19.100 and make it the rule
01:55:19.820 because it's a weird
01:55:21.000 universe
01:55:21.500 if you're only going
01:55:22.460 into a relationship
01:55:22.940 for someone
01:55:23.620 to take care of you
01:55:24.820 it's like
01:55:26.240 where are you going
01:55:27.020 into a relationship
01:55:27.400 you guys should
01:55:27.940 it's 100-100
01:55:28.700 someone should
01:55:30.760 take care of you
01:55:31.240 and you should
01:55:31.580 be able to
01:55:31.980 take care of someone
01:55:32.660 yes
01:55:33.160 can I ask a question
01:55:34.580 Brian
01:55:34.820 to the girls
01:55:35.720 who do OnlyFans
01:55:36.600 what is some
01:55:37.800 of the weirdest
01:55:38.280 requests you've
01:55:39.760 ever had
01:55:40.200 what's some
01:55:42.380 of the strangest
01:55:43.140 things you've
01:55:43.540 ever seen
01:55:44.020 I have one
01:55:46.000 okay go for it
01:55:46.860 someone asked
01:55:48.040 to like
01:55:48.800 okay this was
01:55:50.300 more of like
01:55:50.980 a request
01:55:51.800 right
01:55:52.880 than
01:55:53.540 spit it out
01:55:54.820 we're waiting
01:55:55.220 to give her
01:55:56.060 prolapse
01:55:56.800 in real life
01:55:57.860 like prolapse
01:55:59.040 them
01:55:59.420 wait what does
01:56:00.120 that mean
01:56:00.420 sit on that
01:56:03.540 for a second
01:56:04.180 do you know
01:56:06.800 I don't know
01:56:07.180 what that means
01:56:07.620 does anyone
01:56:08.240 probably know
01:56:08.860 what that means
01:56:09.560 no explain it
01:56:10.360 in the most
01:56:10.900 YouTube way
01:56:11.880 possible
01:56:12.300 prolapse
01:56:13.220 their 0.95
01:56:13.700 their bum hole 0.97
01:56:15.640 okay 0.58
01:56:16.120 oh
01:56:16.820 like
01:56:17.300 it's when
01:56:18.220 you like
01:56:18.860 the inside
01:56:19.640 is on the outside
01:56:20.980 oh what's
01:56:21.440 the next
01:56:21.740 what's the next
01:56:22.200 one
01:56:22.340 that was
01:56:25.120 like the weird
01:56:25.700 and I'm
01:56:26.220 I had to
01:56:26.940 look it up
01:56:27.880 I'm like
01:56:28.360 I don't even
01:56:28.760 know what
01:56:29.300 this person
01:56:29.680 you did it
01:56:30.620 no I didn't
01:56:31.720 I found out
01:56:34.180 what it was
01:56:34.820 and I'm like
01:56:35.280 I don't even
01:56:35.880 know
01:56:36.440 they wanted you
01:56:37.200 to do that
01:56:37.700 online for them
01:56:38.900 no
01:56:39.440 like that
01:56:40.080 it was a
01:56:40.680 request
01:56:41.200 for a larger
01:56:42.880 amount of money
01:56:43.660 to do it
01:56:44.340 in person
01:56:44.980 but I'm like
01:56:46.500 I don't
01:56:46.720 I don't have
01:56:47.840 the equipment
01:56:48.280 I don't have
01:56:49.020 the knowledge
01:56:49.500 at any point
01:56:54.020 did you stop
01:56:54.560 to think
01:56:54.860 that there
01:56:55.120 could be
01:56:55.460 some sort
01:56:55.820 of a serial
01:56:56.220 killer in
01:56:56.640 the making
01:56:56.940 here that
01:56:57.220 you should
01:56:57.440 tell the
01:56:57.700 authorities
01:56:58.040 no
01:56:59.000 no no
01:56:59.900 that's not
01:57:00.420 even the
01:57:00.740 worst
01:57:01.120 but like
01:57:01.760 that's
01:57:02.120 like
01:57:02.460 respectfully
01:57:04.080 like I
01:57:04.980 don't even
01:57:06.000 know what
01:57:06.480 that was
01:57:07.080 I don't even
01:57:07.560 know what
01:57:07.980 that was
01:57:08.720 but that
01:57:10.800 that is
01:57:11.360 definitely
01:57:11.880 like
01:57:12.960 all right
01:57:14.680 I'm all in
01:57:15.680 on this
01:57:15.940 conversation
01:57:16.440 who's next
01:57:17.120 ask me
01:57:20.080 to gag 0.96
01:57:21.320 on my
01:57:21.660 whole foot
01:57:22.380 and snot
01:57:23.160 on it
01:57:23.620 and then
01:57:24.040 collect all
01:57:24.780 of the spit
01:57:25.880 and the snot
01:57:26.520 in a bowl
01:57:27.100 and then
01:57:27.500 drink it
01:57:28.040 afterwards
01:57:28.500 did you do
01:57:31.420 it
01:57:31.620 no I did
01:57:32.860 not
01:57:33.400 that was
01:57:34.220 that was
01:57:34.740 a limit
01:57:35.060 for me
01:57:35.460 that was
01:57:36.120 wait he
01:57:36.580 wanted you
01:57:36.980 to like
01:57:37.340 yeah
01:57:38.540 he wanted
01:57:39.040 me to
01:57:42.100 drink
01:57:42.320 the fluids
01:57:42.800 okay
01:57:43.360 all right
01:57:44.380 after I was
01:57:44.980 done
01:57:45.140 he was like
01:57:45.460 collect everything
01:57:46.180 in a bowl
01:57:46.660 and drink
01:57:47.160 it when
01:57:47.480 you're done
01:57:47.920 and I
01:57:48.180 was like
01:57:48.580 this is
01:57:50.240 the problem
01:57:51.140 with porn
01:57:52.640 when guys 0.79
01:57:53.300 get too
01:57:53.840 into porn 0.60
01:57:54.520 like nothing 0.88
01:57:55.600 is enough
01:57:56.120 like you
01:57:56.680 get into
01:57:57.080 one thing
01:57:57.560 and then
01:57:57.820 it'll be a
01:57:58.280 bit more
01:57:58.540 extreme
01:57:58.940 a bit more
01:57:59.340 rough
01:57:59.660 a bit more
01:58:00.020 this
01:58:00.180 a bit more
01:58:00.480 that
01:58:00.620 and then
01:58:01.100 eventually
01:58:01.400 they're asking
01:58:01.880 someone to
01:58:02.420 gag on their
01:58:03.300 foot and snot
01:58:04.000 in a cup
01:58:04.440 or
01:58:04.600 yeah but we
01:58:05.540 can't shame
01:58:06.120 him for his
01:58:06.680 kinks 1.00
01:58:06.920 like someone
01:58:07.780 else is
01:58:08.820 gonna
01:58:08.960 hold on a
01:58:09.360 second
01:58:09.560 hold on a
01:58:09.980 second
01:58:10.160 I think
01:58:11.780 we should
01:58:12.520 shame that 0.91
01:58:13.120 kink
01:58:13.320 I agree
01:58:13.880 I think
01:58:14.300 that's a
01:58:14.740 shameable
01:58:15.180 at what
01:58:18.440 point
01:58:18.680 what you got
01:58:19.160 what you got
01:58:19.640 for us
01:58:19.880 oh god
01:58:22.100 I'm like
01:58:22.420 trying to
01:58:22.700 think
01:58:23.040 I would
01:58:26.460 say
01:58:26.940 I've gotten
01:58:28.580 like weird
01:58:29.060 bodily fluid
01:58:29.760 ones too
01:58:30.420 honestly
01:58:30.840 like people
01:58:31.620 I've gotten
01:58:32.380 a few times
01:58:32.960 where people
01:58:33.280 have asked
01:58:33.600 me to
01:58:34.020 like pee 0.91
01:58:34.580 on my
01:58:34.940 phone
01:58:35.380 for them
01:58:36.320 like in
01:58:36.600 a video
01:58:36.940 or like
01:58:37.620 make myself
01:58:38.240 throw up 0.57
01:58:38.960 for them 0.90
01:58:39.680 on a
01:58:39.960 video
01:58:40.260 and like
01:58:41.600 weird
01:58:42.760 it's just
01:58:43.240 like I
01:58:43.520 wouldn't
01:58:43.720 I don't
01:58:44.100 know
01:58:44.260 I feel
01:58:44.540 like that's
01:58:44.860 like the
01:58:45.140 weirdest
01:58:45.400 things
01:58:46.080 lucky
01:58:46.640 you've got
01:58:47.020 someone in
01:58:47.380 the Philippines
01:58:47.800 doing the
01:58:48.120 chats
01:58:48.420 no I
01:58:49.520 actually
01:58:49.800 don't
01:58:50.340 no
01:58:50.560 no I
01:58:51.120 swear
01:58:51.680 I really
01:58:52.460 don't
01:58:53.240 no
01:58:53.440 so you
01:58:59.500 do all
01:58:59.900 your
01:58:59.980 chats
01:59:00.260 I mean
01:59:01.960 probably
01:59:02.280 yeah
01:59:02.500 honestly I'm
01:59:03.120 going to have
01:59:03.400 to side with
01:59:03.840 brick on that
01:59:04.300 like probably
01:59:04.760 like pee on
01:59:05.300 my phone
01:59:05.920 on the phone
01:59:08.780 yeah I have
01:59:09.480 like other
01:59:10.320 people in my
01:59:11.060 life who do
01:59:11.760 OF
01:59:12.300 I don't want
01:59:13.200 to say
01:59:13.400 because I
01:59:13.640 don't want
01:59:13.820 to put their
01:59:14.060 business out
01:59:14.460 there but
01:59:14.720 they've asked
01:59:15.440 me to do
01:59:15.940 collabs with
01:59:16.760 them and
01:59:17.220 it's like
01:59:17.660 family members
01:59:18.960 and I'm
01:59:19.820 like no
01:59:20.400 they've you
01:59:22.040 know also
01:59:22.680 like confessed
01:59:23.380 their own
01:59:23.900 things to me
01:59:24.420 like things I
01:59:25.780 didn't feel
01:59:26.240 comfortable with
01:59:26.720 so I had to
01:59:27.040 block them
01:59:27.620 they've like
01:59:28.000 had
01:59:28.240 non-youtube
01:59:29.280 friendly things
01:59:30.180 members as
01:59:30.680 members as
01:59:30.700 well that
01:59:31.260 were like
01:59:31.640 weird as
01:59:32.240 hell
01:59:32.420 that's why
01:59:32.920 I never
01:59:33.460 look at
01:59:33.980 that's why
01:59:35.000 some messages
01:59:35.680 get very
01:59:36.200 overwhelming
01:59:36.680 they like
01:59:37.200 start confessing
01:59:37.880 secrets
01:59:38.240 haram
01:59:39.000 what are you
01:59:43.380 doing rattlesnake
01:59:44.380 sorry
01:59:45.120 sorry
01:59:45.920 I went a bit
01:59:47.180 out of the
01:59:47.520 YouTube
01:59:47.800 guidelines
01:59:48.200 I didn't ask
01:59:48.920 if we get
01:59:49.880 demonetized
01:59:50.540 you have to
01:59:50.960 make up for
01:59:51.920 the ad revenue
01:59:52.380 okay
01:59:52.640 I'll send you
01:59:53.360 a check
01:59:53.640 okay let's
01:59:55.560 do some
01:59:55.820 super chats
01:59:56.340 we have
01:59:56.980 Ligma Johnson
01:59:58.660 thank you for
01:59:59.440 becoming a
02:00:00.060 member
02:00:00.280 I get it
02:00:02.560 yo Puffy
02:00:03.640 Vegas
02:00:03.920 thank you
02:00:04.480 man
02:00:04.680 wait
02:00:05.360 hold on
02:00:06.980 okay
02:00:07.300 can you have
02:00:08.280 the girls 0.99
02:00:08.580 rate themselves
02:00:09.240 yeah we can
02:00:09.700 do that
02:00:10.000 we'll go
02:00:10.440 around the
02:00:10.740 table
02:00:10.980 we also
02:00:11.380 had this
02:00:11.700 one from
02:00:12.060 Stifler
02:00:12.440 so thank
02:00:13.620 you Puffy
02:00:13.920 Vegas
02:00:14.380 so he's
02:00:16.560 asking you to
02:00:17.080 rate yourself
02:00:17.620 on a scale
02:00:19.380 of one
02:00:19.680 to ten
02:00:20.020 in terms
02:00:20.600 of your
02:00:20.800 physical
02:00:21.100 appearance
02:00:21.500 your looks
02:00:22.320 let's start
02:00:23.580 with
02:00:23.820 start with
02:00:25.700 Burke over 1.00
02:00:26.140 here
02:00:26.620 okay
02:00:27.180 I would
02:00:28.540 say
02:00:28.940 I'm like
02:00:30.380 a
02:00:30.920 seven
02:00:31.860 seven
02:00:33.320 or eight
02:00:34.600 seven
02:00:36.140 and
02:00:37.980 but I
02:00:38.320 would say
02:00:38.720 like my
02:00:39.160 my mom
02:00:40.040 thinks I'm
02:00:40.480 a ten
02:00:40.840 okay
02:00:41.740 what about
02:00:42.000 you
02:00:42.220 I'm
02:00:47.800 at least
02:00:48.260 a solid
02:00:48.800 eight
02:00:49.260 eight
02:00:49.540 and a
02:00:49.880 half
02:00:50.420 and then
02:00:51.680 whatever
02:00:52.200 else
02:00:52.640 with my
02:00:53.420 that I
02:00:54.960 bring to
02:00:55.280 the table
02:00:55.680 I mean
02:00:56.220 it's a pure
02:00:57.720 physical right
02:00:58.320 no not
02:00:59.220 purely
02:00:59.480 physical
02:00:59.860 this is
02:01:00.280 purely
02:01:00.460 we're talking
02:01:00.840 purely
02:01:01.280 physical
02:01:01.980 all right
02:01:02.380 I'm a
02:01:02.680 eight
02:01:02.880 and a
02:01:03.260 half
02:01:03.520 okay
02:01:04.120 that's
02:01:04.680 what I
02:01:04.920 would say
02:01:05.300 purely
02:01:06.160 physical
02:01:06.660 maybe like
02:01:07.200 a seven
02:01:07.960 and a
02:01:08.220 half
02:01:08.560 come on
02:01:09.560 ladies 0.99
02:01:10.140 hold on
02:01:13.560 hold on
02:01:14.080 go ahead
02:01:14.700 seven
02:01:15.420 I would
02:01:17.020 rate myself
02:01:17.480 a nine
02:01:17.940 okay
02:01:19.000 say five
02:01:20.280 a six
02:01:23.500 I'm gonna
02:01:24.700 say six
02:01:25.120 point five
02:01:25.520 seven
02:01:25.820 I would
02:01:27.240 say a
02:01:27.600 six
02:01:27.940 a seven
02:01:28.420 if I'm
02:01:28.780 all glammed
02:01:29.220 up
02:01:30.000 I'd say
02:01:30.540 seven
02:01:30.920 I give
02:01:32.020 myself
02:01:32.360 like six
02:01:33.020 you guys
02:01:34.120 it's not
02:01:35.580 bad to
02:01:36.280 admit that
02:01:36.940 you're
02:01:37.120 average
02:01:37.420 don't
02:01:37.700 underestimate
02:01:38.200 six
02:01:39.140 women 1.00
02:01:39.600 the thing
02:01:40.340 is though
02:01:40.640 these things
02:01:41.020 operate on
02:01:41.520 a bell
02:01:41.800 curve
02:01:42.040 though
02:01:42.200 you have
02:01:42.400 to understand
02:01:42.820 that 90%
02:01:43.460 of the population
02:01:44.060 falls within
02:01:44.860 like the
02:01:45.320 four to
02:01:45.980 sort of
02:01:46.320 seven range
02:01:47.120 it's like
02:01:47.720 the rule
02:01:48.060 of anything
02:01:48.480 really
02:01:48.740 like the
02:01:49.200 the very
02:01:49.940 very end
02:01:50.600 of the
02:01:50.860 spectrums
02:01:51.300 are gonna
02:01:51.480 be like
02:01:51.900 much
02:01:52.340 much harder
02:01:52.980 to come
02:01:53.280 by
02:01:53.480 most people
02:01:54.400 operate
02:01:54.820 within those
02:01:55.260 middle bits
02:01:55.640 it's not
02:01:55.960 like it's
02:01:56.320 like 10%
02:01:56.900 are at the
02:01:57.260 top
02:01:57.760 it's a
02:01:57.940 bell
02:01:58.100 curve
02:01:58.340 there's
02:01:58.760 also an
02:01:59.180 objective
02:01:59.680 like standard
02:02:00.920 of beauty
02:02:01.480 but everyone
02:02:02.520 has their
02:02:02.980 personal preferences
02:02:03.580 that's my
02:02:03.980 opinion
02:02:04.420 realistically
02:02:05.340 you're not
02:02:05.720 gonna be
02:02:05.960 everyone's
02:02:06.440 type
02:02:06.780 have you
02:02:08.080 ever seen
02:02:08.340 an actual
02:02:08.660 tent it
02:02:08.980 like hurts
02:02:09.380 to look
02:02:09.680 at them
02:02:10.240 it's painful
02:02:11.300 Brad Pitt
02:02:13.740 when he was
02:02:14.220 young
02:02:14.540 oh man
02:02:15.040 Fight Club
02:02:15.500 personality
02:02:16.520 comes with
02:02:17.380 it
02:02:17.540 nah
02:02:17.940 not with
02:02:19.280 physical
02:02:19.660 alright we
02:02:21.220 have Puffy
02:02:21.660 Vegas here
02:02:22.180 hey thank
02:02:22.540 you man
02:02:22.820 appreciate it
02:02:24.700 no message
02:02:25.600 attached to
02:02:26.080 this one
02:02:26.400 but your
02:02:26.700 Chad
02:02:27.320 thank you
02:02:27.780 good to
02:02:28.300 see you
02:02:28.500 back in
02:02:28.800 the chat
02:02:29.140 Puffy
02:02:29.560 Vegas
02:02:30.060 I hope
02:02:31.200 your
02:02:31.400 Las Vegas
02:02:33.440 escapades
02:02:34.100 are going
02:02:34.480 well my
02:02:34.920 friend
02:02:35.280 alright we
02:02:36.120 have
02:02:36.260 Merrimore
02:02:36.740 hey welcome
02:02:37.120 back to
02:02:37.460 the chat
02:02:37.780 good to
02:02:38.060 see you
02:02:38.360 partner's
02:02:39.000 reputation
02:02:39.500 reflects the
02:02:40.220 other
02:02:40.460 partner
02:02:40.840 he's a
02:02:41.700 1%
02:02:42.160 public figure
02:02:42.740 man on
02:02:43.280 top of
02:02:43.620 that even
02:02:44.060 he gets
02:02:44.540 this kind
02:02:44.900 of
02:02:45.020 treatment
02:02:45.280 this is
02:02:46.180 related to
02:02:46.640 our
02:02:46.780 conversation
02:02:47.940 about
02:02:48.180 Jonah
02:02:48.520 Hill
02:02:48.980 Merrimore
02:02:50.520 thank you
02:02:50.780 very much
02:02:51.220 good to
02:02:52.000 see you
02:02:52.200 back in
02:02:52.440 the chat
02:02:52.720 man
02:02:52.920 thank you
02:02:53.300 for your
02:02:53.540 patronage
02:02:54.060 the
02:02:55.160 trace
02:02:55.680 thank you
02:02:56.700 for the
02:02:56.840 50
02:02:57.160 Burke 1.00
02:02:59.260 can I
02:02:59.640 have you
02:02:59.860 read this
02:03:00.220 one please
02:03:00.660 yes of
02:03:01.220 course
02:03:01.460 it's the
02:03:02.520 difference
02:03:02.920 between
02:03:03.420 I don't
02:03:04.060 deserve
02:03:04.380 you
02:03:04.620 and I'm
02:03:05.100 not
02:03:05.300 worthy
02:03:05.620 of
02:03:05.840 you
02:03:06.020 one
02:03:06.380 is
02:03:06.540 complimenting
02:03:07.120 their
02:03:07.260 partner
02:03:07.620 and the
02:03:08.360 other
02:03:08.540 is
02:03:08.760 degrading
02:03:09.180 themselves
02:03:09.660 in my
02:03:10.160 experience
02:03:10.580 women 1.00
02:03:10.820 typically
02:03:11.180 mean
02:03:11.480 the
02:03:11.660 first
02:03:11.980 and the
02:03:12.320 guys
02:03:12.600 mean
02:03:12.900 the
02:03:13.280 second
02:03:13.840 yeah
02:03:16.260 I don't
02:03:18.860 under
02:03:19.160 I don't
02:03:19.660 really
02:03:19.980 that's like
02:03:20.560 circling back
02:03:21.060 to an earlier
02:03:21.460 conversation
02:03:21.980 that we had
02:03:22.560 all right
02:03:23.400 thank you
02:03:24.460 very much
02:03:24.920 we have
02:03:25.460 Mr.
02:03:25.840 Cappadocia
02:03:26.400 here
02:03:26.740 hey good
02:03:27.400 to see you
02:03:27.740 in chat
02:03:27.980 man
02:03:28.140 thank you
02:03:28.720 for the
02:03:28.920 super
02:03:29.080 chat
02:03:29.300 girls 0.98
02:03:29.640 make it
02:03:30.020 on
02:03:30.160 OF
02:03:30.460 guys
02:03:30.780 making
02:03:31.060 in
02:03:31.200 crypto
02:03:31.580 shibarium
02:03:32.920 next
02:03:33.520 releases
02:03:34.080 next month
02:03:34.720 by bone
02:03:35.660 now
02:03:36.640 fellas
02:03:37.160 crypto
02:03:37.660 winter
02:03:37.960 is over
02:03:38.400 not
02:03:38.720 financial
02:03:39.120 advice
02:03:39.560 yo
02:03:40.780 Cappadocia
02:03:42.500 give me
02:03:42.800 some
02:03:42.960 advice
02:03:43.340 in the
02:03:43.980 DMs
02:03:44.400 about
02:03:44.680 some
02:03:45.000 moves
02:03:46.260 I
02:03:46.420 should
02:03:46.560 make
02:03:46.840 can
02:03:49.300 you
02:03:49.420 read
02:03:49.580 this
02:03:49.760 one
02:03:50.140 Elberco
02:03:51.320 that's
02:03:53.400 your
02:03:53.500 nickname
02:03:53.760 right
02:03:54.080 Elberco
02:03:55.100 not
02:03:56.720 that I've
02:03:57.280 heard of
02:03:57.860 unless
02:03:58.380 you know
02:03:58.720 something
02:03:58.920 that I
02:03:59.200 don't
02:03:59.640 disagree
02:04:02.280 with
02:04:02.640 Jake
02:04:02.920 when a
02:04:03.200 woman 0.99
02:04:03.380 looks up
02:04:03.740 to a
02:04:03.980 man
02:04:04.180 as more
02:04:04.520 capable
02:04:04.900 than
02:04:05.140 her
02:04:05.400 and empowers
02:04:06.020 him
02:04:06.340 that's
02:04:07.000 hyper
02:04:07.340 when she
02:04:10.480 says
02:04:10.700 she's
02:04:10.920 not
02:04:11.080 worth
02:04:11.320 him
02:04:11.540 that's
02:04:11.880 a
02:04:11.940 red
02:04:12.060 flag
02:04:12.440 Jake
02:04:12.820 went
02:04:13.040 standard
02:04:13.540 textbook
02:04:14.080 red
02:04:14.440 pill
02:04:14.660 without
02:04:14.900 understanding
02:04:15.480 women 1.00
02:04:15.960 and
02:04:16.220 trauma
02:04:16.640 common
02:04:17.160 RP
02:04:17.560 mistake
02:04:18.100 your
02:04:19.600 response
02:04:19.940 Jake
02:04:20.300 I think
02:04:21.660 we kind
02:04:21.960 of
02:04:22.300 cleared
02:04:23.080 that up
02:04:23.500 a little
02:04:23.720 bit
02:04:23.880 we just
02:04:24.420 had our
02:04:24.660 definitions
02:04:25.120 you caught
02:04:26.320 the first
02:04:27.060 bit but not
02:04:27.460 the second
02:04:27.780 bit and I
02:04:28.160 said I
02:04:28.980 think what
02:04:29.180 did we
02:04:29.340 say
02:04:29.540 we said
02:04:31.880 it was
02:04:32.100 more of
02:04:32.400 an
02:04:32.580 admiration
02:04:33.380 type of
02:04:34.880 point of
02:04:35.480 view
02:04:35.680 not
02:04:35.980 necessarily
02:04:36.480 like I
02:04:36.980 don't think
02:04:37.400 I'm good
02:04:37.720 enough for
02:04:38.180 you in a
02:04:38.960 literal sense
02:04:39.680 more
02:04:40.100 I don't
02:04:41.980 I don't
02:04:42.360 really
02:04:42.780 I know what
02:04:43.220 he means
02:04:43.480 by doesn't
02:04:44.660 understand
02:04:45.140 women and 0.99
02:04:45.860 trauma
02:04:46.200 I think
02:04:46.940 well the
02:04:47.680 last
02:04:48.040 the last
02:04:48.760 one
02:04:49.180 the last
02:04:50.080 comment that
02:04:50.560 we read
02:04:50.840 kind of goes
02:04:51.340 into it
02:04:51.840 how they
02:04:52.140 were differing
02:04:52.880 the difference
02:04:53.340 between
02:04:53.800 I'm
02:04:55.460 you're too
02:04:56.640 good for
02:04:56.980 me and
02:04:57.240 I'm not
02:04:57.600 good enough
02:04:57.940 for you
02:04:58.380 so I think
02:04:58.980 I was going
02:04:59.380 along the lines
02:05:00.040 of saying
02:05:00.320 like we
02:05:00.900 appreciate it
02:05:01.760 when women 1.00
02:05:02.160 like look up
02:05:02.740 to us
02:05:03.080 and that
02:05:03.560 women 1.00
02:05:03.740 like it's
02:05:04.400 this is
02:05:04.900 proven that
02:05:05.380 women date 0.97
02:05:06.000 up because
02:05:07.000 of hypergamy
02:05:07.620 but yeah
02:05:09.000 I think we
02:05:09.560 mostly agree
02:05:10.420 yeah I think
02:05:11.680 it's more of
02:05:12.760 a somebody
02:05:14.680 to look up
02:05:15.420 to I mean
02:05:16.160 in like the
02:05:17.900 kind of end
02:05:18.300 game it's
02:05:18.740 somebody that I
02:05:19.260 want to raise
02:05:19.940 my kids with
02:05:20.620 so I want
02:05:21.360 somebody that's
02:05:21.860 going to be
02:05:22.140 like a good
02:05:23.160 role model
02:05:23.700 and I don't
02:05:24.520 think that it's
02:05:25.000 like I wouldn't
02:05:25.760 say that it's
02:05:26.320 like a traumatic
02:05:26.960 it says trauma
02:05:27.960 to me if they
02:05:28.920 say like they
02:05:29.680 look up to you
02:05:30.540 I think he
02:05:31.200 was saying
02:05:31.600 like in the
02:05:32.840 way that you
02:05:33.140 were saying
02:05:33.560 before how
02:05:34.380 it was
02:05:34.960 how men
02:05:36.720 like when
02:05:37.300 women are 1.00
02:05:37.700 like I'm
02:05:38.080 not good
02:05:38.380 enough for
02:05:38.740 you before
02:05:40.280 we kind
02:05:40.660 of established
02:05:41.760 our definition
02:05:42.420 that's right
02:05:43.040 we established
02:05:43.500 it's not like
02:05:44.240 I'm not good
02:05:44.700 enough for you
02:05:45.180 but it's
02:05:45.460 like you know
02:05:46.120 like you're
02:05:46.820 the best
02:05:47.440 correct
02:05:47.700 yeah
02:05:47.940 all right
02:05:49.840 thank you very
02:05:50.500 much for that
02:05:50.960 TTS and
02:05:51.660 then we have
02:05:52.320 Andrew here
02:05:53.400 Burke and Mandy
02:05:54.560 you guys said
02:05:55.160 you wait this
02:05:55.840 one came through
02:05:56.680 as I guess
02:05:58.940 you guys can
02:05:59.480 respond again
02:06:00.860 I guess
02:06:01.280 I mean yes
02:06:02.760 we do
02:06:03.220 and we also
02:06:03.780 stream together
02:06:04.840 yes the collab
02:06:05.680 is coming soon
02:06:06.880 also what happened
02:06:10.160 yesterday
02:06:10.620 beautiful
02:06:11.760 all right
02:06:12.340 we have Sharon
02:06:13.180 here
02:06:13.660 Burke can you 1.00
02:06:14.820 read this one
02:06:15.240 yes
02:06:15.900 never ask an ex
02:06:17.420 anything about
02:06:18.020 a previous religion
02:06:19.320 I bet once she
02:06:20.640 has a couple kids
02:06:21.440 she'll find a religion
02:06:22.360 I'm a Mormon
02:06:23.640 derogatory term
02:06:24.760 married at 19
02:06:26.300 we have six kids
02:06:27.440 together for 20 years
02:06:28.780 oldest kid
02:06:30.020 daughter on a
02:06:30.860 mission
02:06:31.140 love the show
02:06:31.900 Brian
02:06:32.200 yo Sharon
02:06:33.660 thank you very
02:06:34.060 much
02:06:34.420 so
02:06:35.900 I'm a Mormon
02:06:37.460 derogatory term
02:06:39.280 have 60
02:06:40.180 what
02:06:40.560 oh by derogatory
02:06:42.400 it's
02:06:42.820 oh she
02:06:43.120 what
02:06:43.720 Mormon is more
02:06:44.440 of derogatory 0.79
02:06:45.100 they kind of
02:06:46.320 they go by
02:06:47.140 LDS
02:06:47.820 Latter-day Saints
02:06:48.820 and they kind of
02:06:50.040 it was deemed
02:06:50.700 that Mormon was
02:06:51.640 a derogatory term
02:06:53.080 a few years back
02:06:54.220 a few years back
02:06:55.120 this is like a
02:06:56.440 woke changing
02:06:57.180 of definition
02:06:57.680 it's like
02:06:58.000 they used to
02:06:58.660 literally like
02:06:59.280 have videos
02:06:59.820 where it's like
02:07:00.340 I'm a Mormon
02:07:00.960 like from the
02:07:01.880 church that they
02:07:02.400 put out
02:07:02.880 but then
02:07:03.600 was it
02:07:04.480 the South Park
02:07:05.640 guys who did
02:07:06.160 the Book of Mormon
02:07:06.820 did that
02:07:07.180 did that change
02:07:07.780 things
02:07:08.180 oh I don't know
02:07:08.960 I mean there's
02:07:09.500 lots of things
02:07:10.200 that do that
02:07:11.100 but I think
02:07:11.700 they went back
02:07:12.740 to like the
02:07:13.040 origin of Mormon
02:07:13.940 and where it
02:07:15.020 came from
02:07:15.380 and it wasn't
02:07:16.300 rather than
02:07:17.060 accepting it
02:07:17.620 if you're
02:07:18.240 self-referring
02:07:20.360 what if
02:07:21.320 you're
02:07:21.720 what is it
02:07:23.000 you say
02:07:23.320 I'm LDS
02:07:24.240 or what do you say
02:07:24.960 yeah LDS
02:07:25.700 Latter-day Saints
02:07:26.520 because the full name
02:07:27.140 Church of Jesus Christ
02:07:28.120 of Latter-day Saints
02:07:28.900 so it's more
02:07:30.520 respectful to say
02:07:31.160 LDS
02:07:31.640 no but
02:07:32.660 how do you
02:07:33.560 self-refer
02:07:34.200 like if
02:07:34.640 for example
02:07:35.360 say like
02:07:35.800 I'm LDS
02:07:36.420 I'm LDS
02:07:37.900 I'm LDS
02:07:38.580 yeah
02:07:38.920 that doesn't
02:07:39.600 because you know
02:07:40.340 for example
02:07:40.640 like I'm
02:07:41.980 I'm Christian
02:07:43.020 or I'm Mormon
02:07:44.120 like if you're
02:07:45.760 Christian you believe
02:07:46.440 in Christianity
02:07:47.040 but if you're just
02:07:48.240 LDS you believe
02:07:49.720 in LDS
02:07:50.340 well no
02:07:51.400 because
02:07:51.620 it's a Christian
02:07:53.620 church
02:07:54.200 but
02:07:54.700 they
02:07:55.540 I guess
02:07:56.060 they're just
02:07:56.500 a little more
02:07:57.700 specific rather than
02:07:58.560 just saying I'm a
02:07:59.100 Christian
02:07:59.460 but I'm a
02:08:00.140 Protestant
02:08:00.460 who believes
02:08:02.520 in Christianity
02:08:03.240 right so I guess
02:08:04.820 so I guess
02:08:05.320 LDS
02:08:05.980 I'm an LDS
02:08:07.160 I guess it just
02:08:07.640 goes like when I
02:08:08.460 was when I was a
02:08:09.400 member like I
02:08:10.080 would just say
02:08:10.620 like I'm LDS
02:08:11.200 or like I would
02:08:11.920 say I'm Mormon
02:08:12.500 because most people
02:08:13.520 like no one
02:08:14.060 really knows what
02:08:14.760 you're saying
02:08:15.200 if you say
02:08:15.540 LDS
02:08:15.840 so Mormon is 0.59
02:08:16.400 is no good 0.52
02:08:17.600 anymore
02:08:18.000 supposedly
02:08:19.000 I mean
02:08:19.420 it's not good
02:08:19.840 because I mean
02:08:20.700 I guess within
02:08:21.360 the church
02:08:21.720 like they
02:08:22.060 strayed away
02:08:22.540 from saying
02:08:23.220 you know
02:08:24.120 referring to
02:08:24.600 themselves as
02:08:25.120 Mormons
02:08:25.540 can I clear
02:08:27.220 this up a little
02:08:27.860 bit
02:08:28.180 what's up
02:08:28.680 can I clear
02:08:29.480 this up
02:08:29.900 oh you're
02:08:30.660 Mormon too
02:08:31.220 no but 0.85
02:08:32.540 oh excuse me
02:08:33.140 you're LDS too
02:08:34.000 so it's
02:08:35.920 offensive because
02:08:36.680 people don't
02:08:37.900 they don't view
02:08:38.420 Mormons as
02:08:38.960 Christians
02:08:39.340 and so they're
02:08:40.060 trying to
02:08:40.380 rebrand
02:08:40.880 with the
02:08:41.800 Church of
02:08:42.180 Jesus Christ
02:08:42.860 of Latter-day
02:08:43.440 Saint
02:08:43.740 to put
02:08:44.500 emphasis
02:08:44.900 on Christ
02:08:45.660 and that
02:08:46.060 they are
02:08:46.500 indeed
02:08:46.800 Christians
02:08:47.480 okay
02:08:48.480 but they
02:08:48.880 always were
02:08:49.360 Christians
02:08:49.880 yeah but
02:08:50.760 people
02:08:51.140 just
02:08:51.800 they're like 0.99
02:08:52.460 the black
02:08:53.000 Christian denominations 0.90
02:08:54.800 would not consider
02:08:55.580 them a valid
02:08:57.480 Christian religion
02:08:58.220 like I'm
02:08:58.980 Catholic
02:08:59.420 and we
02:09:00.040 would not
02:09:00.620 consider like
02:09:01.360 a Mormon
02:09:01.880 baptism is not
02:09:03.020 valid
02:09:03.360 yeah
02:09:03.900 for example
02:09:04.740 word
02:09:06.100 so
02:09:06.840 and I think
02:09:07.800 most
02:09:08.220 mainline
02:09:09.680 Protestant
02:09:10.260 religions
02:09:10.740 if
02:09:11.140 I think
02:09:12.360 I'm pretty
02:09:12.880 correct
02:09:13.240 also do
02:09:13.980 not consider
02:09:14.680 Mormons
02:09:15.500 to be
02:09:16.420 their own
02:09:17.580 Christians
02:09:18.160 they are
02:09:19.200 considered a
02:09:19.820 religious
02:09:20.400 cult
02:09:21.380 not a cult
02:09:22.120 like how we
02:09:22.960 think of a cult
02:09:23.540 but a cult
02:09:24.060 in that their
02:09:24.520 beliefs
02:09:24.900 do not meet
02:09:26.340 the criteria
02:09:26.920 to be considered
02:09:27.940 true Christianity
02:09:29.540 who here would
02:09:30.800 date a Scientologist
02:09:32.320 nobody
02:09:33.780 anybody
02:09:35.740 going once
02:09:37.180 going twice
02:09:37.960 what defines
02:09:39.580 a Scientologist
02:09:40.420 you adhere
02:09:42.060 to the
02:09:42.600 principles
02:09:43.180 and dogma
02:09:44.260 of Scientology
02:09:45.700 the great
02:09:46.860 L. Ron Hubbard
02:09:48.180 no
02:09:48.760 no way
02:09:50.620 I'm sorry
02:09:51.920 talk about red flags
02:09:53.800 that's
02:09:54.480 Scientology
02:09:55.040 I try to get you
02:09:55.720 on Hollywood
02:09:56.300 it's scary
02:09:56.780 none of you
02:09:57.100 would date
02:09:57.520 Tom Cruise
02:09:58.340 no
02:09:58.820 come on
02:09:59.280 I could be
02:10:00.100 friends with him
02:10:00.700 but I would not
02:10:01.500 date him
02:10:02.360 come on
02:10:02.940 somebody would
02:10:03.640 date Tom Cruise
02:10:04.240 to party with
02:10:05.780 but
02:10:06.300 Tom Cruise
02:10:07.320 is a good guy
02:10:07.800 to party with
02:10:08.400 he looks like
02:10:09.280 he would be
02:10:10.140 active
02:10:10.920 rich
02:10:11.400 active
02:10:12.540 still handsome
02:10:13.100 no but
02:10:14.040 he does his own
02:10:14.860 stunts
02:10:15.360 I will say
02:10:15.760 he is very
02:10:16.280 handsome
02:10:16.640 he's got a weird
02:10:17.560 has anybody
02:10:18.140 noticed his smile
02:10:19.600 are you guys
02:10:20.760 aware of his smile
02:10:21.600 it's overly
02:10:22.500 it's overly
02:10:23.460 his teeth
02:10:23.980 he has three teeth
02:10:25.060 his teeth are like 0.95
02:10:26.080 demonic
02:10:27.300 when he was younger
02:10:28.420 I love you Tom Cruise
02:10:29.140 please
02:10:29.540 has anyone ever seen
02:10:31.220 Tom Cruise
02:10:31.780 when he was younger
02:10:32.360 he had really
02:10:32.980 messed up teeth
02:10:33.840 veneers
02:10:34.780 only when he got
02:10:37.040 more established
02:10:38.220 he fixed his teeth
02:10:39.360 it's not just
02:10:40.140 messed up teeth
02:10:41.100 he's got an extra 1.00
02:10:43.720 tooth or some shit 0.97
02:10:44.540 I don't even know 0.91
02:10:45.300 it's like
02:10:45.520 it's like shifted over
02:10:49.380 let's see
02:10:51.740 give us a big smile
02:10:52.640 yeah you got that
02:10:54.000 Tom Cruise
02:10:54.400 cool
02:10:55.240 I'm worse
02:10:57.240 I got like
02:10:58.220 look
02:10:58.600 what's up
02:10:59.840 so you guys
02:11:07.620 would date him then
02:11:08.400 do you see
02:11:09.500 you see what I'm
02:11:10.200 talking about
02:11:10.720 like there's
02:11:11.160 it's a little
02:11:11.760 are we body shaming
02:11:13.700 Tom Cruise
02:11:14.200 can we please
02:11:15.720 not body shame
02:11:16.580 but search him
02:11:17.480 when he
02:11:17.920 I apologize
02:11:18.480 we're gonna get
02:11:18.920 cancelled for this
02:11:19.680 I'm gonna get
02:11:20.760 cancelled
02:11:21.040 here let's just
02:11:23.180 keep it going
02:11:23.980 he's a jed 0.98
02:11:24.420 it looks like
02:11:25.080 they photoshopped
02:11:26.040 an extra tooth
02:11:26.720 he didn't do anything
02:11:27.360 we got Curtis M
02:11:28.600 with Jake and Brian
02:11:29.780 date a female
02:11:30.680 prison guard
02:11:31.420 if you were
02:11:31.960 locked up for
02:11:32.660 life
02:11:33.040 yes
02:11:33.600 she's gonna
02:11:35.220 sneak you all
02:11:35.840 the snacks
02:11:36.280 any of them
02:11:37.740 any of them
02:11:38.600 yeah but you
02:11:39.160 can't you
02:11:39.760 could be married
02:11:40.420 and just do
02:11:40.940 conjugal visits
02:11:42.060 with your wife
02:11:43.220 she's gonna be
02:11:43.860 there more
02:11:44.680 oh true
02:11:45.500 she's there
02:11:46.300 dating
02:11:46.540 and she's gonna
02:11:47.120 she could get
02:11:47.740 you like freebies
02:11:48.840 or she can get
02:11:49.460 you need a woman's 1.00
02:11:50.460 touch
02:11:50.640 yeah but have you
02:11:53.300 seen female
02:11:54.640 prison
02:11:55.000 yeah
02:11:55.700 well it's that
02:11:56.640 or you're getting
02:11:57.200 the new inmates
02:11:57.880 and you're like
02:11:58.360 making one of them
02:11:58.820 yeah I guess
02:11:59.180 beggars can't be
02:12:00.620 choosers 0.98
02:12:01.020 yeah
02:12:01.260 my aunt's a prison 1.00
02:12:02.700 guard she's fine
02:12:03.680 oh what's up
02:12:04.280 yeah
02:12:04.600 oh she'd have a good 0.81
02:12:06.100 time
02:12:06.220 you know there's a lot
02:12:07.660 of female prison guards
02:12:08.700 who get fired for like
02:12:09.840 going down that path
02:12:10.500 oh they definitely
02:12:11.020 well cause
02:12:11.660 cause they're like
02:12:12.720 yeah
02:12:13.140 a lot of them
02:12:14.160 a lot of them
02:12:14.180 a lot of them
02:12:14.780 actually like
02:12:15.320 have a bit of a fantasy
02:12:16.140 it's a power dynamic
02:12:16.240 I feel like
02:12:17.100 and it's also
02:12:18.520 you know what I think
02:12:19.520 it is
02:12:19.960 you know what I think
02:12:21.340 it is
02:12:21.660 is that
02:12:22.440 a lot of men
02:12:24.160 who are in prison
02:12:26.020 despite being criminals
02:12:27.420 are hyper masculine 0.96
02:12:29.320 like very masculine
02:12:30.680 so these like
02:12:31.700 yeah
02:12:32.480 so these like
02:12:33.460 female prison guards 0.76
02:12:34.860 are like
02:12:35.980 socioeconomically
02:12:37.960 you're not like
02:12:38.620 in the best position
02:12:39.380 if you're like
02:12:39.900 a prison guard
02:12:40.440 so they're like
02:12:41.420 oh man
02:12:41.900 these guys are 0.99
02:12:42.380 fucking hot 0.99
02:12:43.100 because they're 0.99
02:12:44.880 pretty masculine
02:12:45.400 themselves
02:12:45.920 then the guys
02:12:46.560 are just like
02:12:47.040 at the next level
02:12:47.740 you know
02:12:48.120 they need that
02:12:48.920 next level
02:12:49.340 or they're just
02:12:49.800 about like
02:12:51.140 you know
02:12:51.920 you know there's
02:12:52.540 a lot of girls
02:12:53.060 like I knew a girl
02:12:54.000 once who used to
02:12:54.620 pen pal with like
02:12:55.500 guys
02:12:55.800 and she's Australian
02:12:56.560 she was pen paling
02:12:57.520 with guys who were
02:12:58.620 in like a prison
02:13:00.340 like San Quentin
02:13:01.180 doing life
02:13:02.400 just a normal girl 0.60
02:13:03.420 and I'm just like
02:13:04.180 god that's so funny
02:13:05.040 it's such a deep 0.97
02:13:05.840 sexual fantasy
02:13:06.660 that girls have 1.00
02:13:07.580 there
02:13:07.860 has any girl here
02:13:09.300 ever sent a letter
02:13:10.560 to an inmate
02:13:11.700 in prison
02:13:12.280 oh my god
02:13:12.860 she has
02:13:13.280 guilty as charged
02:13:17.020 we need details
02:13:17.800 I can't give details
02:13:19.120 I can't give details
02:13:19.880 come on
02:13:20.340 who
02:13:20.520 come on
02:13:21.480 let's pretend
02:13:22.140 let's pretend
02:13:23.460 it was your friend
02:13:24.160 let's pretend
02:13:25.040 it was someone else
02:13:25.780 tell us what she did
02:13:26.840 what she
02:13:29.080 your friend
02:13:29.700 your friend
02:13:30.700 your friend
02:13:31.120 sent letters
02:13:31.820 we're doing mental jujitsu
02:13:33.080 tell us what your friend did
02:13:34.200 no I can't
02:13:34.860 I really can't
02:13:35.700 sorry I should have never
02:13:36.620 have you girls
02:13:37.160 alright on this topic
02:13:38.200 have you girls ever seen the movie
02:13:39.280 365 days
02:13:40.860 yes
02:13:41.380 it's about
02:13:42.300 like a mafia
02:13:43.500 like mobster
02:13:44.580 who imprisons this girl
02:13:46.400 kidnaps her
02:13:47.440 and locks her up 0.96
02:13:48.200 for a whole year
02:13:49.020 and then eventually 1.00
02:13:49.960 they fuck 1.00
02:13:50.480 and like the tensions 1.00
02:13:51.540 just build up
02:13:52.240 this whole time
02:13:52.840 and for some
02:13:54.940 and for some reason
02:13:55.860 these
02:13:56.720 like women 1.00
02:13:57.980 absolutely
02:13:59.060 love this movie
02:14:00.120 it's like a
02:14:00.540 Fifty Shades of Grey
02:14:01.400 type thing
02:14:01.900 have you girls seen this
02:14:04.720 and if so
02:14:05.220 did it
02:14:05.660 did it get you going
02:14:06.500 a little bit
02:14:06.900 it did not
02:14:07.420 it definitely did you
02:14:08.080 because you were always horny
02:14:08.800 you were horny before the movie
02:14:09.980 it's true
02:14:12.580 it did
02:14:13.180 but also the guy
02:14:14.000 that played the character
02:14:14.720 he's very
02:14:15.280 very attractive
02:14:16.340 yeah he's very handsome
02:14:17.300 the accent
02:14:18.000 big Italian
02:14:18.480 yeah
02:14:18.880 well there's definitely
02:14:21.420 a discrepancy
02:14:22.320 between the
02:14:22.940 I mean maybe this is
02:14:24.580 also due to the fact
02:14:26.260 that there are more men
02:14:27.220 who are institutionalized
02:14:28.460 than women 0.99
02:14:28.880 but there are more women 1.00
02:14:30.820 who are contacting
02:14:32.660 men in prison
02:14:34.080 seeking
02:14:34.640 romance
02:14:36.120 than the reverse
02:14:37.060 there's not like dudes
02:14:38.240 who are just like
02:14:38.920 oh my god
02:14:39.640 no dude 0.99
02:14:40.300 get me a fucking 0.99
02:14:41.220 no 1.00
02:14:42.180 did you see the
02:14:43.420 Richard Ramirez
02:14:44.040 trial
02:14:44.920 the Richard
02:14:45.420 the night
02:14:46.300 the night
02:14:46.940 what's he called
02:14:49.720 the night
02:14:50.080 no Richard Ramirez
02:14:51.800 he's like the 0.94
02:14:52.620 a serial killer 0.54
02:14:53.640 and he's like
02:14:54.500 the football player
02:14:55.180 no no
02:14:55.700 that's a different guy
02:14:56.900 so this
02:14:57.580 let me just explain this
02:14:59.200 so Richard Ramirez
02:15:00.360 was like a serial killer
02:15:01.560 who used to literally
02:15:02.580 yes that's the one
02:15:04.300 he used to sneak
02:15:04.980 into people's houses 0.99
02:15:05.820 and kill them 1.00
02:15:06.800 like he's brutal 1.00
02:15:07.640 and he looks like 0.99
02:15:08.340 the devil 0.71
02:15:08.800 he's the scariest guy 0.96
02:15:09.880 I've ever seen
02:15:10.240 in my life
02:15:10.680 and at his trial
02:15:12.720 there were women 1.00
02:15:13.740 in their hunger
02:15:14.820 bro you look
02:15:15.320 all turned on right now 1.00
02:15:16.220 what the fuck 0.99
02:15:16.760 no I just 1.00
02:15:17.820 I also went through this
02:15:19.500 like there was women 0.98
02:15:20.200 that were in love
02:15:20.960 they were there
02:15:21.900 at the stands
02:15:22.720 watching him do his trial
02:15:24.320 and they were like
02:15:24.960 obsessed with him
02:15:25.880 because he was 0.76
02:15:26.500 he was a sex symbol
02:15:27.180 go back to these pictures 1.00
02:15:28.960 this man is ugly as hell 1.00
02:15:31.060 he's the creepiest 1.00
02:15:31.740 looking guy I've ever seen
02:15:32.560 Richard Ramirez
02:15:33.480 Richard Ramirez
02:15:34.620 yeah his eyes
02:15:36.020 he's not cute
02:15:36.380 he's terrifying
02:15:37.120 it's terrifying
02:15:37.620 but the thing is
02:15:38.420 back then
02:15:38.820 if you look at the women 0.97
02:15:39.600 they were into
02:15:40.340 gory stuff
02:15:41.520 they were into
02:15:42.080 like kidnapping
02:15:42.720 do you think it's changed though
02:15:44.040 I think it's something
02:15:45.100 that's like inherent
02:15:46.500 I don't like his king shame
02:15:47.200 but the thing is
02:15:47.940 this man
02:15:48.460 he actually
02:15:49.260 you know
02:15:50.000 took people's lives
02:15:51.100 it's a difference
02:15:51.740 between role playing
02:15:52.680 that stuff
02:15:53.100 and then actually doing that
02:15:54.300 there's a book called
02:15:55.440 A Billion Wicked Thoughts
02:15:56.960 I don't know if you guys
02:15:57.560 have ever heard of this book
02:15:58.420 so it's a book done by
02:15:59.940 a bunch of Google engineers
02:16:01.360 and basically what they did
02:16:02.920 was they took billions
02:16:03.800 of different Google searches
02:16:04.960 and then they rank ordered them
02:16:06.720 in different categories
02:16:08.020 and one of the categories
02:16:09.260 that they did
02:16:09.700 was female pornographic searches 0.77
02:16:11.200 and when they looked
02:16:12.440 at the most
02:16:13.800 search terms
02:16:15.640 for female pornographic fantasies
02:16:17.740 can I just really quickly 0.97
02:16:18.860 go around the table
02:16:19.540 just really quickly
02:16:20.180 give me one word
02:16:21.040 or one sentence
02:16:22.200 what you think
02:16:22.780 women would be searching 1.00
02:16:23.920 like what that would be
02:16:26.100 oh women 1.00
02:16:26.440 yes what do you think
02:16:27.400 women are searching on 0.97
02:16:28.140 when they look at porn 0.99
02:16:29.160 lesbian porn 1.00
02:16:30.420 lesbian 1.00
02:16:31.580 yeah
02:16:32.300 like BDSM
02:16:34.900 yeah
02:16:35.240 type vibes
02:16:36.080 yeah
02:16:36.340 yep
02:16:36.640 definitely lesbian 1.00
02:16:38.200 BDSM
02:16:39.300 but I think
02:16:41.080 like
02:16:41.560 big
02:16:42.800 yep 0.67
02:16:43.180 lesbian BDSM
02:16:43.760 I'm gonna say like 1.00
02:16:44.280 rape 0.99
02:16:44.700 rape fantasies 0.99
02:16:45.900 are 0.86
02:16:46.300 great
02:16:46.640 okay
02:16:47.320 let's not talk about this
02:16:48.900 can I tell you the five
02:16:51.520 because they're pretty
02:16:52.460 they're pretty PG
02:16:53.100 if you're gonna say
02:16:55.520 the R word
02:16:56.420 no no no
02:16:56.980 let's say C and C
02:16:58.100 call it C and C
02:16:59.200 so the five were
02:17:00.520 I might get some of these wrong
02:17:01.880 but vampire
02:17:03.160 surgeon
02:17:04.280 oh okay
02:17:05.420 pirate
02:17:06.720 I've heard it 0.83
02:17:07.900 billionaire
02:17:08.220 and something else
02:17:10.100 surgeon
02:17:10.480 surgeon
02:17:11.120 oh did you say surgeon
02:17:11.760 you might have said surgeon
02:17:12.660 that's interesting
02:17:13.440 werewolf
02:17:14.480 vampire
02:17:14.960 that was the other one
02:17:16.100 surgeon
02:17:16.540 yes
02:17:17.140 exactly
02:17:18.080 come on now
02:17:18.880 so
02:17:19.180 okay vampire
02:17:20.320 wait hold on
02:17:21.200 okay
02:17:21.460 we're not gonna let you
02:17:22.740 off the hook that easily
02:17:23.800 oh wait
02:17:24.220 you sent
02:17:25.080 did you know this person
02:17:26.060 personally
02:17:26.680 stop I knew you were
02:17:27.700 gonna go back
02:17:28.380 oh no
02:17:29.240 come on
02:17:29.600 okay
02:17:29.880 I mean yeah
02:17:30.540 I knew the person
02:17:31.060 here let me ask
02:17:31.960 let me ask some questions
02:17:32.820 okay
02:17:33.160 what was his prison
02:17:35.840 like what was the length
02:17:36.920 of his prison sentence
02:17:38.040 do you know
02:17:38.640 five years
02:17:40.100 ten years
02:17:40.460 twenty years
02:17:40.920 life
02:17:41.340 I don't think I know that
02:17:42.640 I was
02:17:42.960 I was young
02:17:43.480 it was a while ago
02:17:44.640 were you dating him
02:17:45.880 prior to him being locked up
02:17:47.280 yes
02:17:47.600 okay so you were romantically
02:17:49.280 involved prior
02:17:50.020 okay I mean that's not
02:17:51.080 quite as
02:17:52.180 objectionable I suppose
02:17:54.040 how long were you involved
02:17:54.540 before he
02:17:55.280 went away
02:17:56.040 were you involved in the murder
02:17:57.580 no murder
02:17:59.580 oh okay
02:18:00.560 that's pretty based
02:18:01.280 there's like green flag
02:18:02.140 if you helped him hide the body
02:18:03.100 yeah that's kind of
02:18:03.880 that's kind of based
02:18:04.520 that's kind of like
02:18:05.340 right or not
02:18:06.180 yeah
02:18:06.680 oh it's okay
02:18:08.580 you sent him letters
02:18:09.580 you were already romantically
02:18:11.080 involved with him
02:18:11.860 this wasn't some guy
02:18:12.840 who you saw
02:18:13.540 on the news
02:18:13.940 yeah but letters
02:18:14.340 but the thing is
02:18:15.080 it was a lot of red flags
02:18:16.260 it was already like
02:18:17.020 I was already thinking
02:18:17.660 about not talking
02:18:18.380 drugs
02:18:18.620 already before
02:18:19.380 he had gotten in trouble
02:18:21.480 got in trouble
02:18:22.840 talked to him for a little bit
02:18:23.860 and then was like
02:18:24.400 this is boring
02:18:25.340 I need this in person stuff
02:18:26.820 can't do this long distance
02:18:27.740 locked up
02:18:28.340 can't do it
02:18:29.680 we'll see you later
02:18:31.180 it's a lot
02:18:32.300 that's a lot
02:18:32.820 it is a lot
02:18:33.420 wow
02:18:34.080 but I mean it was
02:18:34.720 you know
02:18:35.020 the role play was nice
02:18:36.240 for a bit
02:18:36.680 and now we're
02:18:37.320 on to the next
02:18:37.980 well and you said
02:18:38.400 you were really young
02:18:39.320 at the time too
02:18:39.980 yeah
02:18:40.100 right
02:18:40.320 yeah
02:18:40.680 okay anybody
02:18:42.260 anybody else here
02:18:43.160 sent a letter
02:18:43.780 to an inmate
02:18:44.540 welcome sir
02:18:45.880 anybody
02:18:46.480 I haven't sent a letter
02:18:47.560 but my
02:18:48.780 the longest
02:18:49.860 you had a conjugal
02:18:50.620 well a week and a half
02:18:52.080 into our relationship
02:18:52.920 he went to jail
02:18:53.780 for 18 days
02:18:54.780 I wouldn't have
02:18:56.400 picked it from you
02:18:57.040 wait huh
02:18:57.600 I know right
02:18:58.160 I would not have
02:18:58.720 picked it from you
02:18:59.300 wait what
02:18:59.440 okay
02:18:59.960 and I stayed with him
02:19:01.380 once after that one
02:19:02.500 oh
02:19:03.100 wait so okay
02:19:04.000 you had just started
02:19:05.180 seeing this guy
02:19:06.100 so yeah
02:19:06.820 so we'd been friends
02:19:07.700 for quite a few months
02:19:08.680 leading up to it
02:19:09.500 and then we became
02:19:10.280 like official boyfriend
02:19:11.180 girlfriend
02:19:11.560 a week and a half later
02:19:13.260 he got a DUI
02:19:14.600 upon being arrested
02:19:16.120 for a DUI
02:19:17.000 which I definitely
02:19:18.320 don't condone
02:19:18.960 drinking and driving
02:19:19.840 I wasn't there
02:19:20.520 when it happened
02:19:21.000 I just want to say that
02:19:22.060 but he
02:19:24.940 a few years back
02:19:26.700 like had a medical
02:19:28.080 emergency where he
02:19:28.780 cracked his head open
02:19:29.600 basically had a warrant
02:19:30.960 out for his arrest
02:19:31.700 for assault
02:19:32.300 because
02:19:33.000 this was in Texas
02:19:34.420 so he got a DUI
02:19:36.600 so he got a DUI
02:19:38.080 I hope he's like
02:19:38.960 not gonna get mad at me
02:19:39.860 for talking about this
02:19:40.780 right now
02:19:41.080 but he probably won't
02:19:42.120 but basically
02:19:43.480 he slapped a male
02:19:45.260 technician at the hospital
02:19:46.460 he had done shrooms
02:19:47.960 okay
02:19:48.300 it's like all these
02:19:49.740 details
02:19:49.960 I don't know
02:19:50.320 is we pretty
02:19:50.540 gonna have the 1.00
02:19:51.260 choker bitch 1.00
02:19:51.940 I don't know 1.00
02:19:52.760 and then
02:19:54.040 when he had a DUI
02:19:55.240 and they did like
02:19:56.100 a deeper search
02:19:57.100 it showed they had
02:19:57.780 an assault
02:19:58.160 so they had to
02:19:58.600 wait for Texas
02:19:59.060 to come get him
02:19:59.680 and extradite him
02:20:00.340 out to Texas
02:20:00.900 this was like
02:20:01.820 after I was like
02:20:02.460 it's always the ones
02:20:04.040 you don't expect
02:20:04.760 that like the bad boys
02:20:05.760 I was like sworn off
02:20:06.660 I was literally like
02:20:07.360 I just want to work
02:20:07.960 on myself
02:20:08.340 and I don't want
02:20:08.760 to date anybody
02:20:09.280 and then like the first guy
02:20:10.300 I like opened my heart to
02:20:11.240 he like
02:20:12.040 next minute
02:20:12.640 gets arrested
02:20:13.060 I'm like oh 0.99
02:20:13.680 good shit 0.99
02:20:14.360 congrats 0.99
02:20:15.120 thank you
02:20:15.960 nice
02:20:16.640 okay
02:20:18.200 what were we talking about
02:20:20.460 before we got on
02:20:22.160 to this point
02:20:22.580 have we sent letters
02:20:24.880 to any inmates
02:20:25.640 we were talking about
02:20:26.140 prison
02:20:26.760 oh the question was
02:20:28.200 would we date
02:20:29.000 a female prison 1.00
02:20:30.140 yes
02:20:30.880 god
02:20:32.020 we win
02:20:33.100 that's a topic
02:20:34.380 that we could go
02:20:35.200 far down
02:20:35.680 yeah
02:20:36.000 we'll move on
02:20:37.460 let's go back
02:20:38.360 let's finish up 1.00
02:20:39.240 the Jonah Hill shit 1.00
02:20:39.980 if you can pull that up 0.99
02:20:41.840 next
02:20:42.100 oh this is
02:20:43.000 Richard Ramirez
02:20:43.600 he looks like an ant
02:20:44.480 yeah he does look
02:20:45.960 kind of
02:20:46.240 on a good day
02:20:47.740 he's got good
02:20:48.720 cheekbones though
02:20:49.500 I guess 0.55
02:20:49.860 he's got crackhead
02:20:51.000 sort of cheekbones
02:20:51.420 he's kind of got
02:20:51.720 the Michael Jackson
02:20:52.660 look in some of these
02:20:53.480 he's a hard nose
02:20:53.800 for me
02:20:54.160 yeah
02:20:54.700 and like you look
02:20:56.980 into his eyes
02:20:57.540 and he's just 1.00
02:20:58.040 seen some shit 1.00
02:20:58.640 what's this chick 1.00
02:20:59.740 got to say
02:21:00.340 about our boy
02:21:01.140 Jonah Hill
02:21:01.860 Jonah Hill
02:21:02.440 if you ever want
02:21:03.000 to come on the podcast
02:21:03.840 we will
02:21:04.440 we will have your back
02:21:06.020 sir
02:21:06.300 okay
02:21:07.140 I don't know
02:21:08.380 something about
02:21:09.120 turning down jobs
02:21:10.100 for him
02:21:10.600 next 0.98
02:21:11.060 I'll roast him 0.96
02:21:11.700 if he comes on 0.99
02:21:12.260 this is
02:21:14.000 more from
02:21:15.100 Dr. Stern
02:21:15.920 is the couples therapist
02:21:16.740 we were seeing
02:21:17.460 once a week
02:21:17.980 for about four months
02:21:19.080 okay
02:21:20.120 next
02:21:20.860 let's just
02:21:21.760 I think
02:21:22.240 you can always
02:21:22.720 change your therapist
02:21:23.920 Jonah
02:21:24.480 will
02:21:26.520 okay
02:21:26.900 let me know
02:21:28.060 we'll respect you
02:21:29.280 either way
02:21:29.760 but there are
02:21:30.280 these are my boundaries
02:21:31.200 of this romantic
02:21:32.360 relationship
02:21:32.900 thanks
02:21:33.600 I'd love to know
02:21:36.520 before the premiere
02:21:37.920 so I'm not
02:21:38.660 put in the position
02:21:39.760 of publicly
02:21:40.300 flaunting our love
02:21:41.540 if my boundaries
02:21:42.220 are going to be
02:21:42.900 continued
02:21:43.980 to be disrespected
02:21:45.260 that would be hurtful
02:21:46.200 and triggering for me
02:21:46.940 and she says
02:21:47.540 understood
02:21:47.920 okay
02:21:48.320 next
02:21:48.920 abuse by the way
02:21:50.960 you know who
02:21:51.860 is this photo
02:21:53.220 revealing sexual
02:21:54.100 since she's in a bikini
02:21:55.420 and I guess this is
02:21:56.420 I don't know
02:21:57.700 if this is her
02:21:58.200 arguing with him
02:21:59.100 like sending him
02:21:59.860 I don't know
02:22:00.220 whatever
02:22:00.440 next
02:22:00.820 okay
02:22:03.640 I guess
02:22:03.900 next
02:22:04.500 these are
02:22:04.920 some photos
02:22:06.100 next
02:22:06.940 dump him
02:22:08.580 I would not 0.98
02:22:11.200 date any of these
02:22:11.880 oh okay
02:22:12.300 so she was sending him
02:22:13.400 photos of like
02:22:14.500 other girls 0.95
02:22:15.100 or whatever
02:22:15.480 trying to like
02:22:16.440 get a sense of
02:22:17.000 where his boundaries
02:22:17.800 laid
02:22:18.160 and
02:22:19.060 people who value
02:22:20.880 their internet presence
02:22:21.740 over their relationship
02:22:22.480 is not where I am
02:22:23.440 in life
02:22:23.840 and it's fine
02:22:24.500 if that's where
02:22:25.580 you are in life
02:22:26.540 wish you the best
02:22:27.160 with it
02:22:27.580 ex
02:22:27.900 please stop sending
02:22:28.900 me this stuff
02:22:29.540 thanks
02:22:30.020 life will present
02:22:31.080 real problems
02:22:32.040 these are
02:22:32.700 unnecessary
02:22:33.360 ones
02:22:34.500 okay
02:22:34.880 pretty reasonable
02:22:36.660 from Jonah Hill
02:22:37.960 okay next
02:22:38.640 what about the lady 0.98
02:22:40.180 she's pregnant 1.00
02:22:40.940 in that picture
02:22:41.700 it wasn't her
02:22:42.960 it was something else
02:22:43.820 I don't know
02:22:44.260 well maybe you should
02:22:46.900 have asked me more
02:22:47.780 about what I do
02:22:48.580 for work
02:22:49.120 before you decided
02:22:49.880 to date me then
02:22:50.640 a little late now
02:22:51.780 keep taking me for granted
02:22:52.780 go model
02:22:53.400 it's a fulfilling life
02:22:54.540 you'll love it
02:22:55.540 real depth
02:22:57.120 and substance
02:22:57.820 and sustainability
02:22:58.540 for relationships
02:22:59.440 but actually
02:23:00.060 I'm done
02:23:02.520 I think he's meant
02:23:03.340 to say I'm done
02:23:03.860 with this convo
02:23:04.540 next
02:23:04.880 your story matters
02:23:07.220 silence equals violence
02:23:08.880 what
02:23:10.620 well how would you know
02:23:12.300 how bad it was
02:23:13.200 unless I share
02:23:13.800 oh
02:23:14.200 I never acknowledged
02:23:16.700 that for you
02:23:17.120 well how would you know
02:23:17.960 how bad it was
02:23:18.780 unless I shared
02:23:19.760 these screenshots
02:23:20.580 I don't know
02:23:21.380 if this is a present
02:23:22.260 day conversation
02:23:23.280 she's having
02:23:23.800 with Jonah
02:23:24.340 but basically
02:23:25.500 she's saying
02:23:26.040 if she didn't
02:23:26.940 share this
02:23:27.460 it would be
02:23:28.020 it'd be violence
02:23:29.320 upon herself
02:23:30.220 next
02:23:32.220 she keeps poking 0.89
02:23:34.500 at him
02:23:35.180 and it's
02:23:35.840 just to make him
02:23:36.740 mad
02:23:36.960 yeah she sent
02:23:38.600 like at least
02:23:39.640 40 stories
02:23:40.480 in the past
02:23:40.980 48 hours
02:23:42.140 next
02:23:42.420 wait oh
02:23:44.820 whatever
02:23:45.440 someone being
02:23:46.000 an emotionally
02:23:46.480 abusive partner
02:23:47.200 doesn't mean
02:23:47.640 they're a terrible
02:23:48.080 person 0.94
02:23:48.580 again I mean
02:23:50.120 she's using 0.88
02:23:50.720 emotionally abusive
02:23:51.480 next
02:23:51.920 oh
02:23:54.880 wait
02:23:56.140 oh
02:23:57.500 sorry
02:23:58.480 this is one
02:23:59.040 mine
02:23:59.340 that's me 0.99
02:24:00.140 what the fuck 1.00
02:24:00.640 oh shit 1.00
02:24:01.760 someone got a shout out 1.00
02:24:02.660 whoops
02:24:04.520 no that's just
02:24:05.700 you know
02:24:06.080 she wanted to be
02:24:07.440 on the show
02:24:07.960 she wanted to be
02:24:08.500 on the show
02:24:08.960 yeah
02:24:09.240 good
02:24:09.980 oops
02:24:10.380 oopsies
02:24:11.140 okay
02:24:11.520 in any case
02:24:12.840 X out of all of those
02:24:14.840 all of the Jonah Hill
02:24:15.940 stuff because we're
02:24:16.480 done with that
02:24:17.140 and then we do
02:24:19.680 have one article
02:24:20.440 to pull up
02:24:20.980 from Jonah Hill
02:24:22.340 let me know
02:24:26.360 when you have it
02:24:26.880 good sir
02:24:27.500 do you know
02:24:29.520 how to
02:24:29.780 oh it's
02:24:30.720 control W
02:24:31.380 to
02:24:31.780 that's the command
02:24:33.300 to just X
02:24:33.960 out of the tab
02:24:34.540 so you don't have
02:24:35.420 to like click
02:24:35.880 click click click
02:24:36.500 while we do that
02:24:39.060 let me
02:24:39.340 I have some notes
02:24:40.180 here
02:24:40.540 we got Jonah
02:24:42.400 vice
02:24:42.900 okay we need
02:24:43.780 Priya
02:24:46.260 you have horses
02:24:47.020 are you a horse girl 1.00
02:24:48.040 yes
02:24:51.600 how many horses
02:24:52.440 do you have
02:24:52.960 I have three
02:24:53.700 three horses
02:24:56.580 do you do equestrian
02:24:58.900 I do yeah
02:24:59.980 I've ridden
02:25:02.300 competitively
02:25:03.060 since I was four
02:25:04.080 and done it
02:25:04.960 professionally
02:25:05.380 for the last
02:25:05.880 anybody else
02:25:06.400 here have a horse
02:25:07.540 any other
02:25:09.140 horse girls 1.00
02:25:09.580 I did equestrian
02:25:10.540 though in college
02:25:11.440 I know there's
02:25:12.260 a stigma
02:25:12.920 around horse girls 0.99
02:25:14.160 why
02:25:14.740 yeah can you
02:25:15.760 explain the stigma
02:25:16.740 horse girls 1.00
02:25:17.940 so I
02:25:17.960 I don't know
02:25:19.680 all that much
02:25:20.160 about it
02:25:20.440 I've heard it
02:25:20.880 from you know
02:25:21.440 guy friends
02:25:22.000 and
02:25:22.560 and
02:25:23.500 past romantic
02:25:25.460 interests
02:25:26.100 that have
02:25:26.720 you know
02:25:27.320 exclaimed
02:25:27.840 that they know
02:25:28.400 that there's
02:25:28.720 a stigma
02:25:29.080 around horse
02:25:29.540 girls 0.98
02:25:29.800 but
02:25:30.220 other than the
02:25:31.980 fact that I
02:25:32.600 have heard
02:25:33.400 that they are 0.98
02:25:33.900 generally crazy 0.88
02:25:35.180 I don't know
02:25:36.560 too much about it
02:25:37.080 I wonder what
02:25:37.440 it is about the
02:25:38.020 horses that make
02:25:38.720 them crazy
02:25:39.200 I couldn't tell 0.54
02:25:40.220 you
02:25:40.560 I don't know
02:25:43.400 if anybody else
02:25:43.980 wants to chime
02:25:44.560 in on that
02:25:44.900 if they are
02:25:45.320 more well-horsed
02:25:46.080 than I am
02:25:46.580 but
02:25:46.900 I thought that
02:25:48.580 was a green flag
02:25:49.300 horses
02:25:49.700 you gotta click
02:25:50.280 could be at the
02:25:51.660 club
02:25:51.920 I don't know
02:25:53.440 I have other
02:25:54.820 opinions on
02:25:55.680 like the benefits
02:25:56.980 of it
02:25:57.680 but I mean
02:25:58.660 I don't know
02:26:00.340 I think isn't
02:26:01.220 there a hierarchy
02:26:02.060 when it comes to
02:26:02.760 women who have 0.88
02:26:03.480 horses
02:26:03.880 as a guy
02:26:05.480 you will never
02:26:06.100 be number one
02:26:06.980 it's gonna be
02:26:07.740 it's gonna be
02:26:09.120 horse
02:26:09.660 dad's money
02:26:11.260 you
02:26:12.100 correct or
02:26:13.920 incorrect
02:26:14.240 so my dad
02:26:15.380 has never paid
02:26:16.340 for any of my
02:26:17.140 my horses
02:26:17.740 my dad did not
02:26:18.700 like the fact
02:26:19.200 that I was
02:26:19.580 involved in horses
02:26:20.340 so he did not
02:26:21.700 support it whatsoever
02:26:22.520 mom's money
02:26:23.740 no
02:26:24.320 mom definitely
02:26:26.160 helped a bit
02:26:26.640 when I was a kid
02:26:27.260 but for the most
02:26:27.980 part I started
02:26:28.800 working and
02:26:29.680 like to pay off
02:26:30.500 my horse habits
02:26:31.160 from age like
02:26:32.260 five
02:26:32.880 did you have to
02:26:33.860 frame it like that
02:26:34.680 I didn't mean
02:26:36.100 to phrase it like that
02:26:36.800 hold on
02:26:37.000 hold on
02:26:37.840 you're in horse
02:26:38.180 congratulations
02:26:39.660 a G600 jet
02:26:42.040 will arrive in
02:26:42.740 48 hours
02:26:43.780 you will be
02:26:44.720 flown out
02:26:45.240 and be required
02:26:45.940 to sign an
02:26:46.660 NDA with
02:26:47.320 ATRO
02:26:48.140 due to your
02:26:49.120 Cling Enos
02:26:49.720 post act
02:26:50.480 wear less
02:26:51.400 makeup
02:26:51.880 lose the
02:26:52.760 nose ring
02:26:53.320 Brian don't
02:26:54.540 embarrass me
02:26:55.320 with the
02:26:55.700 saving you
02:26:56.260 bear story
02:26:57.140 I just would
02:26:58.420 like to
02:26:58.820 remind you
02:26:59.740 Burke 1.00
02:27:00.200 of my
02:27:01.280 friend here
02:27:01.720 Marquavius
02:27:02.500 Martin
02:27:02.800 he did
02:27:03.640 rescue me
02:27:04.360 from
02:27:05.400 are you sure
02:27:06.580 it was a
02:27:06.840 bear
02:27:07.020 no that 1.00
02:27:07.520 that shit 1.00
02:27:07.960 that was 1.00
02:27:08.340 Mike Davis
02:27:08.820 he saved
02:27:09.740 me from
02:27:10.120 a shark
02:27:10.640 if I
02:27:11.880 recall
02:27:12.220 or was it
02:27:13.580 raccoon
02:27:14.120 I forgot
02:27:14.700 I think we need
02:27:15.100 the full
02:27:15.420 story
02:27:15.900 well I've been
02:27:17.480 saved numerous
02:27:18.260 times from
02:27:18.920 various wild
02:27:19.840 feral animals
02:27:20.840 by my audience
02:27:22.800 because I
02:27:23.820 I have a
02:27:25.120 relationship with
02:27:26.380 my viewers
02:27:26.900 we go camping
02:27:28.620 we go surfing
02:27:29.440 we hike
02:27:31.380 and it happens to
02:27:32.580 be the case
02:27:33.000 I don't know why
02:27:33.620 I think maybe
02:27:34.060 my pheromones 1.00
02:27:34.800 or some shit 1.00
02:27:35.220 animals are 1.00
02:27:35.780 attracted to me 1.00
02:27:36.480 and they fucking 0.99
02:27:37.440 like attack me 0.98
02:27:38.680 yeah so I've
02:27:40.680 been attacked
02:27:41.040 by a bear
02:27:41.660 a rabid
02:27:43.940 raccoon
02:27:44.520 and a shark
02:27:45.740 and all three
02:27:47.540 times I was
02:27:48.260 saved
02:27:48.780 by my
02:27:50.580 compatriots
02:27:51.540 that happen
02:27:52.640 to watch my
02:27:53.120 show
02:27:53.640 it's confusing
02:27:54.520 that's beautiful
02:27:55.500 it's very
02:27:56.460 beautiful
02:27:56.900 okay
02:27:57.480 Burke 1.00
02:27:58.720 do you accept
02:27:59.840 his invitation
02:28:00.660 to be flown
02:28:02.620 out
02:28:02.960 yeah he wants
02:28:03.740 to fly you
02:28:04.240 out
02:28:04.520 G600 jet
02:28:05.860 I don't know
02:28:07.700 what kind
02:28:07.980 of jet
02:28:08.220 that is
02:28:08.560 but
02:28:08.820 what's that
02:28:09.240 song
02:28:09.540 anybody know
02:28:10.900 that song
02:28:11.180 like a G6
02:28:12.500 yeah
02:28:12.880 far east
02:28:13.860 movement
02:28:14.320 that was a
02:28:15.000 tune back
02:28:15.320 do you accept
02:28:21.240 I do accept
02:28:22.440 I will take
02:28:23.300 the nose ring
02:28:23.740 done
02:28:24.400 it's done
02:28:26.400 okay sweet
02:28:27.380 what were we
02:28:29.740 oh we're talking
02:28:31.020 about horses
02:28:31.600 so you said
02:28:32.880 you bought
02:28:33.300 all your horses
02:28:34.040 aren't horses
02:28:34.940 like super
02:28:35.500 expensive
02:28:35.960 they can
02:28:36.580 be yeah
02:28:37.160 how long
02:28:38.160 have you
02:28:38.360 been riding
02:28:38.760 18 years
02:28:40.480 now
02:28:40.780 but so
02:28:41.400 you said
02:28:41.780 you had
02:28:42.000 a job
02:28:42.480 but like
02:28:42.820 were you
02:28:43.080 working
02:28:43.440 at like
02:28:44.260 seven
02:28:44.780 horse
02:28:45.140 habit
02:28:45.380 or some 1.00
02:28:45.700 shit 0.99
02:28:45.860 yeah 0.99
02:28:46.080 I started
02:28:46.740 like
02:28:47.440 essentially
02:28:49.280 just like
02:28:50.120 trading
02:28:50.900 manual labor
02:28:52.120 for like
02:28:52.800 to pay
02:28:53.020 off lessons
02:28:53.560 wait
02:28:53.860 question
02:28:54.180 for you
02:28:54.600 yes
02:28:54.920 the man
02:28:56.880 of your
02:28:57.140 dreams
02:28:57.640 okay
02:28:58.480 or your
02:28:59.200 horses
02:28:59.800 man of my
02:29:01.360 dreams
02:29:01.780 you're not
02:29:04.820 a real
02:29:05.100 horse girl
02:29:05.640 so I
02:29:08.240 mean I
02:29:08.560 love I
02:29:09.060 love the
02:29:09.300 horses but
02:29:09.980 they're not
02:29:10.460 you know the
02:29:11.100 end all be
02:29:11.620 all in life
02:29:12.240 I would
02:29:12.960 eventually like
02:29:13.500 to raise a
02:29:13.900 family and
02:29:14.520 obviously be
02:29:15.440 get married
02:29:16.340 and yeah
02:29:17.580 have a good
02:29:18.040 family life
02:29:18.580 the horses
02:29:19.700 are a plus
02:29:20.240 I'd like to
02:29:21.980 have both
02:29:22.300 though
02:29:22.560 good times
02:29:24.120 good times
02:29:25.100 okay
02:29:25.820 yeah pull
02:29:27.800 it up
02:29:28.020 Nick
02:29:28.460 pull it
02:29:29.340 up
02:29:29.560 okay so
02:29:31.400 this was the
02:29:31.900 vice article
02:29:32.540 from a couple
02:29:33.180 years ago
02:29:33.660 former pro
02:29:34.500 film
02:29:34.860 excuse me
02:29:35.800 former bro
02:29:36.880 film
02:29:37.300 king Jonah
02:29:38.080 Hill
02:29:38.360 wants to
02:29:39.260 fight
02:29:39.640 toxic
02:29:40.520 masculinity
02:29:41.320 he hopes
02:29:44.000 the fans
02:29:44.560 that loves
02:29:45.020 him in
02:29:45.300 super bad
02:29:45.740 will watch
02:29:46.220 him shed
02:29:46.580 light on
02:29:46.960 the ugly
02:29:48.440 side of
02:29:48.940 what binds
02:29:49.740 bros together
02:29:50.540 so he's like
02:29:50.980 feminist you know 1.00
02:29:51.740 so it's like
02:29:52.720 there he is
02:29:53.380 what is a man
02:29:54.560 being a feminist 0.98
02:29:55.460 really mean
02:29:56.340 it's a guy
02:29:56.960 who likes to
02:29:57.420 be pegged
02:29:57.900 basically 0.99
02:29:58.460 it's a cock 0.99
02:29:59.600 he likes to 1.00
02:30:00.060 be pegged
02:30:00.500 okay
02:30:00.840 alright
02:30:02.000 in any case
02:30:02.920 you can close
02:30:03.560 you can X
02:30:04.080 out of that
02:30:04.680 you can X
02:30:07.100 out of that
02:30:08.240 good times
02:30:10.340 okay
02:30:10.660 where were we
02:30:12.200 talking about
02:30:13.100 horses
02:30:13.460 I think
02:30:14.900 did you have
02:30:15.780 any more
02:30:16.080 questions about
02:30:16.660 the horses
02:30:17.000 Brian
02:30:17.340 are they
02:30:19.760 are horse
02:30:20.480 girls really 1.00
02:30:21.000 crazy 0.98
02:30:21.440 is that what
02:30:21.880 you're supposed
02:30:22.180 to say
02:30:22.320 I mean
02:30:22.620 maybe you can
02:30:23.360 shed some
02:30:23.720 light on
02:30:24.060 this
02:30:24.240 my understanding
02:30:25.620 is horse
02:30:26.640 girls 0.98
02:30:27.360 be crazy 0.98
02:30:28.600 I'm sure
02:30:30.900 but I feel
02:30:31.500 like there's
02:30:31.860 crazy girls 1.00
02:30:32.540 in every 0.98
02:30:33.060 every sport
02:30:34.500 every industry
02:30:35.200 but I feel
02:30:37.060 like it's
02:30:37.400 especially
02:30:38.180 noticeable
02:30:40.600 when it comes
02:30:41.460 to women
02:30:42.100 who have
02:30:42.420 horses
02:30:42.800 you know
02:30:44.100 kind of like
02:30:45.300 ballerinas
02:30:45.840 I don't
02:30:46.620 date them
02:30:47.120 personally
02:30:47.540 so I
02:30:48.820 can't give you
02:30:49.540 that
02:30:49.760 people
02:30:50.020 I said
02:30:51.720 I don't
02:30:52.240 date
02:30:52.500 horse
02:30:52.760 girls 0.98
02:30:52.960 myself
02:30:53.380 personally
02:30:54.120 so
02:30:54.500 anonymous
02:30:55.420 donated
02:30:56.180 one hundred
02:30:56.920 dollars
02:30:57.480 nobody cares
02:30:58.700 about
02:30:59.040 jonah hill
02:30:59.820 the girls 0.99
02:31:00.640 look bored
02:31:01.200 af
02:31:01.760 we have
02:31:03.860 talked a bit
02:31:04.780 jonah hill
02:31:05.540 for quite a while
02:31:06.280 you know
02:31:07.080 we just had to
02:31:07.580 wrap it up
02:31:08.060 but yeah
02:31:08.700 we're pretty much
02:31:09.300 done on the
02:31:10.320 jonah hill
02:31:10.860 thing I reckon
02:31:11.620 unless
02:31:12.040 no arabs 1.00
02:31:13.600 somebody in
02:31:15.520 the chat
02:31:15.880 said what
02:31:16.260 type of
02:31:16.600 horse
02:31:16.920 if they're
02:31:17.820 arabs
02:31:18.240 who's a
02:31:18.600 red flag
02:31:19.160 I thought
02:31:19.500 you were
02:31:19.740 talking about
02:31:20.180 men
02:31:20.560 it's a
02:31:22.480 breed of
02:31:22.920 horse
02:31:23.360 arabians
02:31:24.220 there's a
02:31:27.000 lot to say
02:31:27.520 about jonah
02:31:28.560 hill
02:31:28.720 the big
02:31:29.800 thing
02:31:31.160 since you
02:31:31.840 are so
02:31:32.240 bored
02:31:32.400 the chat
02:31:33.420 is
02:31:34.680 look who
02:31:36.640 knows what
02:31:37.460 happens in
02:31:37.920 the relationship
02:31:38.460 maybe she 0.99
02:31:39.000 has some
02:31:40.080 valid points
02:31:40.660 maybe he
02:31:41.100 has some
02:31:41.440 valid points
02:31:41.940 ultimately
02:31:42.400 though the
02:31:43.180 greater faux pas
02:31:44.260 was publicly
02:31:45.640 exposing this
02:31:47.360 non-story
02:31:48.240 where
02:31:49.240 it's just
02:31:50.940 looks really
02:31:51.540 bad on you
02:31:52.260 you're like
02:31:52.820 dragging jonah hill
02:31:53.760 for no reason
02:31:54.400 he just had a
02:31:55.080 kid or whatever
02:31:55.520 so
02:31:55.900 don't date a
02:31:56.560 feminist
02:31:56.880 either
02:31:57.300 what's that
02:31:58.280 don't date a
02:31:58.980 feminist
02:31:59.260 moral of the
02:31:59.900 story
02:32:00.180 don't date
02:32:00.740 and don't be 0.86
02:32:01.540 a male feminist 0.86
02:32:02.820 as well
02:32:03.320 any disagreements
02:32:04.920 with that
02:32:05.740 no disagreement
02:32:07.480 here
02:32:07.760 no disagreement
02:32:08.660 over here
02:32:09.180 either
02:32:09.420 I am not a
02:32:10.060 feminist
02:32:10.420 good good
02:32:11.300 show of hands
02:32:12.540 who
02:32:13.200 here
02:32:13.780 oh
02:32:14.720 hold on
02:32:15.820 777
02:32:17.200 donated
02:32:17.960 100
02:32:18.640 dollars
02:32:19.320 777
02:32:20.620 777
02:32:21.620 777
02:32:22.620 777
02:32:23.620 777
02:32:24.340 777
02:32:25.620 777
02:32:26.620 777
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02:32:37.960 777
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02:32:39.660 777
02:32:41.280 777
02:32:42.980 4
02:32:43.300 777
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02:32:46.000 777
02:32:46.440 777
02:32:46.500 777
02:32:47.940 that was beautiful
02:32:48.580 877
02:32:49.460 thank you
02:32:50.100 thank you very much
02:32:50.760 shove hands 0.99
02:32:52.300 who here is a 0.92
02:32:52.840 feminist
02:32:53.420 anybody
02:32:54.800 it's a good question because there are different waves of like whatever makes you a feminist well 1.00
02:33:03.960 i mean originally feminism what they said it was but there was different strains at that time as
02:33:09.340 well was that it was they wanted equality so they wanted the right to vote they wanted the right to
02:33:14.520 be able to you know do what do yeah education do what men could do be able to open bank accounts
02:33:19.560 be able to own property which they could do but not as much when you say they you mean women yeah 1.00
02:33:24.740 yes yes um i wouldn't call myself a feminist but i have heard that like feminism means like 1.00
02:33:31.520 equality not just for women but for everyone everyone should no feminism is about women it's 1.00
02:33:36.900 a women's movement but like this is the thing a lot of these times these days a lot of these 0.96
02:33:42.180 different movements get sort of intertwined like the trans and the black lives matter and the
02:33:46.040 feminists but and then you've got your second wave feminist which is like we can do anything a man 1.00
02:33:50.280 can do and then you get your third wave feminist which is like we hate men so there's different 1.00
02:33:55.060 sort of lines of feminism once upon a time i would have been a feminist yeah i mean i wouldn't yeah
02:34:01.540 yeah hating on any there's also the new person is like not there's like the new bimbo feminists 1.00
02:34:09.300 oh my gosh what is that yeah can you explain that i'm not educated like um a lot of women right now 0.92
02:34:15.860 are trying on tiktok especially yeah oh go ahead um they're trying to act like they are smart women but 1.00
02:34:23.180 they're trying to act stupid on purpose because they like i to as empowerment like sexual empowerment 0.95
02:34:29.620 so um they're sort of yeah sort of reversing it so it'll be women who often have like bleach blonde 1.00
02:34:39.140 hair um really big breasts wearing pink like barbie over the top spray tan and they proudly say that 0.72
02:34:48.120 they're they're bimbos or you're bimboizing yourself or bimboization um and it's and they're feminists 1.00
02:34:56.960 and it's called bimbo they're bimbo feminists but this is supposed to be like a positive thing yeah 1.00
02:35:01.920 they're saying it's empowering okay because guys just want them so much basically we have a very
02:35:08.400 based panel tonight so i guess the question here would be what what like turns you off from
02:35:13.460 feminism if you guys could give like a what turns you off from feminism um yeah so i think that
02:35:19.060 feminism now this like second third and maybe fourth wave feminism i don't know what wave we're on 1.00
02:35:24.140 currently but there's a there's a fourth i've heard okay um the future is female this narrative 0.89
02:35:29.740 yes if the future is female there is no future i agree um it's all about demasculating men 0.95
02:35:37.980 i believe um and i think it's resulted in the uh destruction of the nuclear family and that's why
02:35:44.560 nobody wants to get married less people are having kids um but to say that women don't need men i think 0.99
02:35:50.960 is a very horrible statement i think men and women complement each other and they both need each other
02:35:56.700 and we're completely different for positive and amazing reasons so i agree that's very very based
02:36:04.580 and you know i think you're right about that what do you think um i think that what turns me off about
02:36:11.860 that and like a lot of movements nowadays is that people aren't really fighting for equality they're
02:36:16.140 fighting to be more seen or like better than everyone else i think everyone if you're fighting for
02:36:21.400 equality you're not going to try and like have like oh make yourself more than exactly yeah
02:36:27.120 yeah um the future is female i think it's more i mean it's male and female i um i love men i think men
02:36:36.460 are great um and i think that we are interdependent and um i know i depend on a lot of different men
02:36:46.080 in my life for many different things um and that's a blessing to me i i do believe in the equal
02:36:55.560 treatment of people because i feel like um human persons all have equal dignity no matter who they
02:37:00.720 are or how they identify but i do hesitate to use the label feminist because of um what is attached
02:37:07.960 to it and the confusion around it and so i just steer clear of it such a base panel so much femininity in 0.95
02:37:15.060 the room my testosterone is going to spark yeah can we argue about something i feel like it's just
02:37:20.740 too it's too agreeable does anybody have does anybody have any hot takes that they want to throw out
02:37:27.940 there on feminism no just in general you know can i ask the panel would you would you this is going 0.57
02:37:35.660 to be the most milk toast question after my statement go ahead milk toast like vanilla just go ahead go
02:37:42.420 would you oh saved by the bell oh sorry curtis i'm gonna re-trigger it here hold on ask your
02:37:50.260 question would you ladies date a man who made less than you maybe even you made double than what he did 1.00
02:37:59.100 the tts is about to come in but um no no i would say i already have like a couple no no would you
02:38:08.780 oh okay we'll go around the table on this we'll start with burke so the question is would you date
02:38:12.500 a guy who makes less than you yeah oh okay hold on we'll get to it yo thank you curtis you guys aren't
02:38:21.360 getting off that easy the female prison guard is hulk hogan born with a and no conjugal visits 1.00
02:38:27.660 she threatens to throw you to the wolves if you don't you are on suicide watch so don't even try to
02:38:34.540 use that i will pray for you so this is for us i think uh curtis so the female guard prisoner 0.99
02:38:42.380 is hulk hogan with a you know what with a dick i guess we need to say that um that's not that's not 0.99
02:38:48.400 a female brother yeah that's not a female yeah what what is the uh what is the blanked out with a 0.99
02:38:55.540 huh what martin donated 100 thank you burke a few pre-flight logistics you appear to be five
02:39:05.420 foot seven inches and 124 pounds need to verify these stats as i'm six foot two inches 210 pounds
02:39:14.920 need to ensure that when i throw you up in the air and catch you with my tongue that we both avoid
02:39:20.420 injury okay your response burke um i am five six 115 pounds so i think that sounds perfect
02:39:29.120 okay spicy uh so to go back to curtis um curtis can you just clarify what is the blanked out
02:39:38.840 hulk hogan born with a how many stars is it it's six stars what is what what is would be censored 0.96
02:39:47.080 that's six hulk hogan born with a vagina maybe there you go with a vagine wait no that's five 0.98
02:39:52.480 characters six vagine vagina oh okay that's what it's called yeah okay hulk hogan born with a 1.00
02:40:01.800 vagina um if it's not hulk hogan then you know it's nothing so is it an innie or an out 0.99
02:40:06.940 if you're in for life and you don't get conjugal visits then hulk it is man's gotta eat 0.97
02:40:14.200 facts it's a pretty bad situation it's a pretty bad situation um not ideal but
02:40:25.580 we wrestlemania all right here we go 0.99
02:40:28.200 pussy's pussy you know you know what i'm saying okay i guess just close your eyes 0.99
02:40:35.140 it'll be fine all right brother what does he say hail yeah brother yeah brother just don't 1.00
02:40:43.140 slick bit of duct tape on that close your eyes that's a pretty shitty situation i mean but uh
02:40:49.100 curtis thank you for that um so your question was to the panel uh would you date a guy who
02:40:54.100 makes less than you so we'll go around the table on this go ahead so like i said earlier um at my age
02:41:01.480 26 obviously if i was like way older i would want the man to be making a nice amount of money to
02:41:07.200 provide for me and our future family whatever um but as i was saying earlier um i find it very very
02:41:14.020 attractive when they have the drive to make that money and i i know like not everyone succeeds but
02:41:20.620 it's just like it's so attractive to me like with someone that has that what age group do you are you
02:41:26.380 talking about what age group do you look for in a man um i don't have like a specific age group
02:41:31.820 honestly but like but i don't i don't necessarily like saying that i am attracted to someone that
02:41:40.920 makes a certain amount of money because like if you had to give an average of the last three guys
02:41:44.660 you've been seeing what's the average age do you think like in their like 20s like like uh middle
02:41:53.980 north north yeah yeah so like my age um i was how old are you someone that was 30 i'm 26 26 so a guy
02:42:02.800 about 30 if he's 30 and he's got the drive but he doesn't have those benjamins is that is that
02:42:09.940 acceptable or is that unacceptable because you have to understand it is tough out here yeah like
02:42:16.920 when you walk when you walk around la and you i don't understand how people like live in los
02:42:22.380 angeles and just make a normal wage oh for sure yeah like it's it's so expensive and like life is
02:42:28.340 only getting more expensive inflation is only getting worse i don't know if you guys have noticed but
02:42:31.860 over the last 20 15 years or whatever it's only getting worse people used to be able to buy a house
02:42:37.160 off of a one person salary so like it's all well and good to say like drive but but life is going 0.57
02:42:43.800 to be fucking miserable if you don't have money i agree and you look like a girl who likes the finer 0.95
02:42:48.720 things might i add i do i do like to be spoiled well then drive won't spoil you number that so i would 0.99
02:42:55.900 prefer for the man to be making more money but like if i met someone that was making less than me
02:43:01.300 and he made me happy and like could provide me with things and like
02:43:04.840 i get what you're saying chemistry is there i think i think this is another product of why
02:43:09.880 feminism ruins everything because i think that like feminism also is like like says that like 1.00
02:43:16.040 gold diggers women like women who want to sort of just marry a man for his resources and i don't 0.99
02:43:21.380 think that there's anything wrong with that like women have also women have always since the beginning 1.00
02:43:25.820 of time looked for security and look for a man with resources and then men have always looked for
02:43:30.620 youth beauty and fertility since the absolute beginning of time but now i feel like women are 1.00
02:43:35.420 so afraid to just say yeah i like i want a guy who has resources and who can look after me i don't
02:43:39.840 think there's anything wrong with that but like it's such people like women are so hesitant to say 1.00
02:43:43.480 that yeah i mean i would love to be taken care of and like protected but i'm also i can also take
02:43:48.320 care of myself too so if i found someone that was like that genuinely made me happy and like we can do
02:43:53.800 things together that i'm passionate about that he's passionate about like i'm i wouldn't like
02:43:58.920 push him away because he doesn't make that money so it's not the be all and end all but if the other
02:44:03.140 ducks were to align you'd you'd you'd look at it but like yeah like i would prefer for a man to take
02:44:08.420 care of you could conceptually yeah not not have a man who makes a lot of money okay let's allow the
02:44:13.900 rest of the panel to answer what about you i mean i i i like i'm pretty sure i'm on the same page as
02:44:21.180 as burke about that like it's not it's not gonna like deter me from like talking to you or dating
02:44:27.680 your owner i've had experiences in my own past where i like i have i've been definitely pulling in
02:44:35.600 everything and it didn't didn't make him look any less like worse in my eyes but at the same time
02:44:44.140 like yeah i would prefer i would prefer more but i'm not gonna not give someone a chance like due to
02:44:52.900 that either because you know everybody has their time or like i might be down at some point and want
02:44:59.660 you to pull up and and put in the work where i did before whatever what about you um no i want them
02:45:08.800 to make more money than me um realistically the relationships i've been in maybe like let's count
02:45:13.940 the last past three um i've been the breadwinner and they hate it every single time it makes them feel
02:45:21.160 like not as manly and you know as much as guys are probably gonna hate that being like oh yeah she
02:45:28.040 wants to god she's a gold digger you know but like realistically like you know when i'm older i 1.00
02:45:33.060 want to invest in money i want to own my own store and i don't want to be doing only fans anymore so i
02:45:38.540 would like my man to take care of me and you know insurance make sure you're stable enough to take care
02:45:43.720 of the kids and you know the house and you know i'm gonna get my bread on the side with my store and
02:45:48.880 you're gonna get your bread with however you're making your money do you think that the um only fans
02:45:53.380 is hindering your ability to be able to do that a thousand percent yeah it's hard to be in a
02:45:57.760 relationship as a contact what's your what's your thought process on the trade-off that you've done
02:46:01.780 there so you've done a trade-off where you've traded your market value by putting your body on the
02:46:07.480 internet so what's the thought process in terms of making that trade-off because it seems like a
02:46:11.740 significant trade-off to make you're dating market value um well if that is what you want in the
02:46:18.180 future a man to look after you i mean realistically most men don't like only fans girls they don't
02:46:24.640 like you know their women being putting their body out so so with with your knowledge of that so you 0.98
02:46:29.920 understand that concept which is good but what why do you do it then why do you do only fans if if
02:46:35.400 you're sacrificing your your future um prospects because it's not necessarily what i do for money or
02:46:44.180 what i do as my job right now doesn't necessarily make me as a person that's whole like i'm not just
02:46:49.720 an only fans girl i'm not just mistress mandy i'm amanda and you know me that's how i am i'm not you
02:46:57.520 know full sex worker all the time you know if it's a client then it's kind of i'm work duty yeah but
02:47:02.060 you know i've got no like judgment whatsoever because like i said it is hard out here people
02:47:07.440 need to do what they need to do these days to be able to get by and make money but it's not just i'm
02:47:11.200 not doing it just to get by i chose to do this i wasn't pressured i wasn't and that's what i'm
02:47:15.620 asking is like you you chose to do this because and do you think what i'm asking is do you think it's
02:47:20.600 worth it for your future prospects and the fact that you that you could like it could be a repulsive
02:47:25.900 thing for somebody who potentially would would look at you as a partner long term but now it doesn't
02:47:31.180 because you do only fans that doesn't bother you that's a personal problem honestly i feel like
02:47:35.980 um i've had partners who have accepted it and they were fine with what i do um it just didn't
02:47:40.860 work out and then i have some partners where i wanted to be with them but they didn't want to be
02:47:45.260 with me because of i what i did but like i said it's just a personal personal preference um no judgment
02:47:51.520 no harsh feelings but my person will accept me for whatever i do however i am how do you how do you
02:47:58.960 frame it so if you're in a relationship and say you start seeing somebody because as guys this is this
02:48:04.080 is not a trivial thing to have your like girl have her body on the internet it's not a trivial
02:48:08.700 thing it's not an everyday thing whatsoever um so how do you frame it like when you guys have that
02:48:13.000 initial conversation if you're seeing each other well most of the time people have my instagram so
02:48:17.200 they automatically see the link in my bio yeah okay but uh you know um i do have that conversation
02:48:23.140 first hand before i even get into anything with the person i make sure hey you know i am a full send
02:48:28.240 creator on only fans i hope you know that i'm not gonna stop that um i'm not gonna you know just
02:48:34.680 drop my instagram you said before that you you find men with boundaries more attractive right
02:48:39.840 don't you think that would be a boundary for a man that you might find attractive yeah i've had
02:48:44.020 uh relationships in the past who weren't okay after knowing that i did have it and i completely was 0.97
02:48:50.700 like you know what respectable and i stopped doing only fans completely and then they fucked me over 0.98
02:48:55.480 so i started my shit again right let's continue moving along with this question and if we can try 0.95
02:49:00.980 to get this everyone's answer without constant uh you know go ahead um no i would not date a man 0.91
02:49:08.860 that makes less than me i mean even so like part of the reason that i decided to take my career like
02:49:14.060 toward cosmetology and hair was knowing that that's something that i if i want to can go fall back
02:49:19.220 on but the plan is honestly to have a family and be able to be at home with the kids and and take care of
02:49:24.900 things there i think like i said like naturally men men are the providers and um women are more
02:49:31.260 nurturing and i mean it's just kind of biology when it comes down to it um i would not date someone who
02:49:38.640 makes less money than me just i really enjoy the drive and i like to be with someone who has ambition
02:49:44.200 and pushes me to want to work for more so that's kind of just what i go after is someone with the hard
02:49:49.560 work ethic um and i know that everyone's saying like yeah people some people fail but it's the
02:49:55.780 part of getting back up and keeping on trying and keeping on going for that goal that's super attractive
02:50:01.040 to me i'm really shocked by everyone's answers um i think i would date a man who makes less than me
02:50:07.600 i think i'm probably gonna have to date a man that makes less than me because i'm gonna be
02:50:11.760 making a good amount of money um yeah well hold on expand on that a little bit you're gonna you're
02:50:18.000 gonna be making a lot of money what what do you mean doing what because right now pilot oh as a
02:50:23.140 pilot yeah how much do pilots make um you start off at about 90k and then in the middle of it about
02:50:31.120 250 towards the end of your career are you talking commercial pilot commercial yeah like flying flights
02:50:36.880 and yeah okay yeah so like if we're talking the big three which is the only thing i'm gonna i'm
02:50:43.420 gonna go what's the big three uh delta american united okay yeah about like hawaiian airlines
02:50:49.840 hawaiian airlines you're still making six figures yeah well you said by the end of the career you're
02:50:55.320 making 250k no that's like middle of career mid-career but so by the time what you're 45
02:51:01.500 40 you're gonna be making i'd say like 35 35 pilots are making 250k i mean if you get into it
02:51:09.700 young i'm young i'm gonna be in the airline and i'm gonna be flying airline in like two years have
02:51:14.840 you you're flying planes now i do fly planes now as a student like charter planes sort of thing you're
02:51:19.960 24 correct i'm 24 yeah okay so in okay is that true chat is that true the pilots make
02:51:30.100 at by 35 they make 250k but look at how much debt then is there in time spent for schooling
02:51:38.020 is that true chat what's the average like average commercial pilots uh income am i so while people
02:51:48.040 are um like getting their mile their their flight miles for especially their commercial pilot's
02:51:53.820 license you're actually teaching a lot as well yeah so it's sometimes it pays for itself yeah the
02:52:01.440 smallest the smallest dinkiest starter airlines are hiring brand new fresh out of school 90 000
02:52:07.780 dollars for pilots to be a pilot all right well even okay let's let's assume it's true right
02:52:13.080 um so you want to be a pilot okay there's there's a lot there so but you said you're you are willing
02:52:20.400 to date a guy who makes less than you and you you think frankly it's going to be difficult for you to
02:52:24.860 find a guy who's going to make as much as you will make is that correct yeah and i think the guys i think
02:52:30.460 you become a slave to money once you start making too much and so i think it's hard to find a wealthy
02:52:35.480 person who has strong morals and values i'd be willing to take the pay cut for someone who shares my
02:52:41.540 morals and values you think wealthy people have less morals and values i've seen it comparatively
02:52:47.100 to people who aren't wealthy i've i've seen their values be put in the wrong places and like i said
02:52:52.360 i think you become a slave to money as a general rule though you think that people who have resources
02:52:56.700 are have less morals generally sounds like the lib hasn't quite died in you i i've been i've been around
02:53:04.620 that community i've seen it firsthand it's not a blanket statement it's just very you see you see i find
02:53:09.760 that in order to get to the top there's a there's a misconception that you have to stand on people's
02:53:13.540 heads and that does happen obviously but in order to get to the top you also have to provide value
02:53:17.540 and you have to you have to solve problems and you have to hire people and you have to know how to
02:53:21.480 manage relationships and you have to know how to bring value in many different ways
02:53:26.560 yeah that's fair i don't think stepping on people to get to the top is the bad thing that's just
02:53:31.900 that's just the industry but i see people care more about cars purses materialistic things 0.99
02:53:38.920 and they're so focused on these materialistic things and not focused on their families spending
02:53:44.380 time with their families like they take so much time to work that they neglect their wives they
02:53:48.940 neglect their children and that's what i'm afraid of so you think people who are more wealthy and have
02:53:52.660 more resources tend to have less time so less time for their families yeah because once you start
02:53:57.420 making a ton of money you just can't stop you always want more like so yeah but also people who are
02:54:02.240 struggling for money are working a lot of jobs and usually both of the people in the household
02:54:07.660 and the time is very slim with the family and that's what they have to do i don't know that
02:54:12.760 it's necessarily um matters how much money you make the other thing is is just because someone
02:54:19.120 can't afford nice things doesn't mean that they aren't constantly focused on it and it doesn't
02:54:23.820 mean that they have if they are given the money that their mindset is like that as well so i think money
02:54:31.080 money can inflate that and show that but i think it would be unfair to say that people who are well
02:54:38.280 off or have money um have poor values or especially morals well in any case disregarding whether people
02:54:46.740 who are wealthy or not wealthy you know not as not making a conversation about assessing their moral
02:54:54.340 moral character um so you want to be a pilot uh and you anticipate you will end up making more than
02:55:01.640 your partner yeah i hope not but that might be a reality it may very well be the case um my bigger
02:55:09.560 question with you being a pilot is i mean i know you talked about most of the people that you've dated
02:55:15.540 uh you fly to them uh do you think it makes for a stable relationship to be constantly gone from
02:55:24.140 your significant other because as a pilot you i assume you would be in a different city what
02:55:31.900 two-thirds of the year oh you can very easily manage it um i actually dated a pilot and he would just
02:55:39.680 could do one international trip a week and so he was just gone for two days out of the week and home
02:55:45.160 five days out of the week red flag i think well okay so for example i i've said this before i think
02:55:52.000 for example a flight attendant is a red flag in terms of like a career that a potential partner
02:55:57.860 i feel like i've pretty much reduced my options down to like two percent of women with all the red flags 1.00
02:56:03.440 i'm aware of but as a as a flight attendant or as a pilot you're constantly and i know you said
02:56:10.540 perhaps not for in your case but you're always in a new city so like for me if i was to date a flight
02:56:16.900 attendant well i just wouldn't want to because i i just feel like there's such an opportunity for
02:56:22.680 infidelity under those circumstances maybe that's me being like insecure or whatever but it's like
02:56:28.980 even even if we're in a committed relationship and there's not an opportunity for infidelity
02:56:35.680 my understanding is is that you're in a new city every week only there for a couple days
02:56:42.740 because for example i'll match with girls who are flight attendants on dating apps at least well i'm
02:56:48.200 not on any dating apps right now but when i used to be i'd match with a girl who's on a dating app
02:56:52.340 and she's a flight attendant you're in you're oh you're in town for a day and you're on a dating app
02:56:57.860 okay what are you looking for then you must be looking for casual sex
02:57:01.680 because you're in town for two days why are you on a dating app what's what is the only option 0.90
02:57:07.380 available to you casual sex so my assumption is people who are like flight attendants and 0.99
02:57:13.400 pilots probably fuck a lot i'm just you know that's my that's my impression yeah absolutely 0.99
02:57:20.420 they there's a very sexual sexually rampant culture within the airline industry i advise people not to 0.99
02:57:27.160 date pilots or flight attendants unless you meet them except you no no no unless there's always
02:57:32.000 going to be exception right if you look at them and you're like this is some of the most outstanding
02:57:36.740 moral values like truly the best you've ever seen i'd say i'd say don't go for it because it's insane
02:57:42.940 the things that happen fair enough well um i had a uh another thing here uh just really to touch on
02:57:49.440 this very quickly actually i'll come back to it but we'll continue going around would you date a guy
02:57:53.760 who makes less than you i would not date a man who makes less than me um it's not that simple with
02:58:00.040 me i also want him to have um a pretty solid net worth and a high credit score and no um irresponsible
02:58:09.280 debt and to make a certain amount of money that's reasonable that's based though it's because like
02:58:15.160 no offense or anything but as you get a little bit older you start to be able to like define what
02:58:19.560 you want a lot more right yeah i mean i i i'll go out on a lot of um dates with men and i will end
02:58:27.220 things um over various financial factors that to me are red flags such as
02:58:33.780 one person that i dated recently was 51 because i'm 39 so i'll date me i don't know if i would date
02:58:43.580 younger maybe if he was like a super solid 35 year old so i'll say like 35 to 55 i probably date
02:58:50.020 um and by the time you are in your 50s to me you need to have established um net worth you should
02:58:58.920 have investments in the stock market and or real estate crypto doesn't count because it's too volatile
02:59:03.620 um and you should know how to manage your money and that's why i feel like the credit score is
02:59:09.180 important because people can make a lot of money and waste a lot of money and to me that's also not
02:59:13.840 attractive so like he needs to have financial literacy and be successful and hold it all
02:59:18.660 together and make more than me see i respect that a lot i think a lot of people would look at and be
02:59:23.860 like oh you're you're so demanding or whatever but i think that if girls if women were to lay out those 1.00
02:59:28.680 sorts of things that would encourage men to be better in that regard with financial literacy
02:59:32.140 especially in this country like financial literacy is really not a thing like when i was looking
02:59:36.380 around la i was thinking if you guys did two things if you replaced all of like the weird sexual
02:59:41.700 stuff that's being taught to kids in school and all the racism that's been taught to kids in school
02:59:46.300 and you replace that with macro nutrients and financial literacy it would it would solve a lot
02:59:52.000 of problems in your country teach them from a young age i also think um a lot of relationship
02:59:59.060 problems are because of finance like and especially in marriage that's why a lot of people get divorced 1.00
03:00:03.600 so being able to talk about that in the first like few dates is really important
03:00:08.820 community if a guy didn't want to pay on a first date like if he didn't pick up the tab would that
03:00:13.400 is that one of the red flags or deal breakers for you i just wouldn't go on a second date but i
03:00:18.220 wouldn't make a thing about it it's just not the person for me sure fair enough uh what about you
03:00:22.760 me yeah uh which question uh would you date a guy who makes less than you um well i'm i'm pre-law so
03:00:31.200 i anticipate that i'm going to be making a good a good amount of money in a few years i'm i'm pre-law
03:00:35.920 pre-law pre-law pre-law okay sorry you want to uh what kind of law do you want to go into uh sports
03:00:43.460 and entertainment sports and entertainment okay i originally wanted to do constitutional law though
03:00:48.360 um but yeah i anticipate making a good amount of money so i would definitely prefer for them to be
03:00:56.020 making more money than myself but if it were a comparable amount that'd be fine
03:00:59.240 comp when you say comparable do you mean equal to similar okay because i i've heard some study and
03:01:07.060 maybe you're you might be familiar with this women will say they want a guy who makes the same as 0.94
03:01:12.040 them but really that means like 56 they want a guy who actually makes 56 more than them
03:01:16.960 uh no i'd like to keep it within like 10 percent well oh you're saying that that means that they
03:01:23.000 need to be making 56 more than than they do is that what you're saying i forgot the exact wording on
03:01:29.040 this maybe someone in the chat can uh help me out so no i'll be more specific if they make within like
03:01:34.420 10 15 of what i make then that would be that would be fine in either direction uh i mean if it's above
03:01:40.720 than go all out but but below i would say within like 10 15 okay what about you um i would date
03:01:49.600 someone who makes less than me but i don't think i would marry someone who makes less than me because
03:01:53.540 i want to be a stay-at-home mom i want to work but like very little just because you have to do a
03:02:00.200 lot in the house and i want a lot of kids hell yeah just a reminder so who said that they would date 1.00
03:02:06.440 a guy who makes less than them just show of hands you would date a guy who makes less than them
03:02:10.020 okay show of hands i guess i need to scoot in here uh would you
03:02:14.840 well i would date
03:02:17.360 would you but then what's the then what's the point of dating if you're not gonna marry
03:02:21.920 hold on would you be okay with a stay-at-home dad so you're the 100% breadwinner and he's just
03:02:29.980 stay-at-home dad taking care of the kids that's a little that's a little bit of a reach like it
03:02:36.800 would be i don't know okay it wouldn't be a no picture this situation you come home from a long
03:02:43.280 day of work you're stressed and your man is at home and he's got dinner on the stove for you and
03:02:48.860 he's wearing a little a pink apron cute yeah and he's wearing his pink apron and then he has to go
03:02:53.460 and do the grocery shopping so he has to ask you for the credit card and then he jumps in your car
03:02:57.520 to go and drive to the shopping center to use your credit card imagine imagine how miserable
03:03:03.840 he would be he's miserable yes if my husband he would pull over and scream if my husband is like
03:03:12.140 stay-at-home dad and i'm the breadwinner my husband has his own car my husband has his own
03:03:18.080 card my husband is set just like but it's your money isn't it we all know it's your money and
03:03:23.060 that's fine as long as you're taking care of my kids our kids i don't know like that's like the
03:03:28.240 i think in practice i think in practice you'd be you'd be pretty off it a man who takes care of
03:03:33.100 his family is that not sexy taking care of your family as a man isn't being a stay-at-home dad
03:03:37.580 taking care of your family is providing financially i think you underestimate the bond that you form
03:03:45.240 with a child especially when they're young like you are when they're born you need to be glued to
03:03:50.420 them like they need you 24 7 yeah as a mother it's it's just not practical especially when
03:03:56.440 they're young to have a stay-at-home dad while you work well i mean i would be there like obviously
03:04:00.780 after i'm done giving birth i would be there for a certain amount of time but if you know
03:04:04.020 if i'm the breadwinner i'm i'm going to work and make sure my family's getting fed
03:04:07.740 so they're proverbs 21 19 donated 100 better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging 0.98
03:04:17.300 wife based word uh yeah thank thank you proverbs 21 19 um okay uh so what i'd like to do at this
03:04:29.080 point is uh i had a couple notes for each of you here uh some of you provided some pre-show
03:04:35.200 information actually you know what before we do that uh before we get into that juicy stuff
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03:05:22.720 appreciate it okay um so let's see i had some notes here we have tasia so you just going back
03:05:32.400 to what you said before you said you used to be a hardcore leftist atheist feminist but now you are 1.00
03:05:37.760 recently a conservative born again christian when you say born again are you so are you waiting until 0.69
03:05:43.200 marriage to have the sex i am but you're not a you're not a virgin correct but you're you're born
03:05:52.280 again virgin i wouldn't put it that way but yeah i'm how would you put it well i'm just saving myself
03:05:59.580 for marriage from now on out okay you can't really reclaim virginity what was the catalyst for all of
03:06:06.180 this might ask oh man there was there was a lot i think dating a cop made me realize a lot of the blm
03:06:14.060 stuff is ridiculous um going to france changed around yeah france yeah france changed me a lot
03:06:23.280 because france is ahead of us in their progressiveness um it's real weird out there the gender roles are
03:06:30.980 completely reversed like the guys are staying at home cooking cleaning in the south of france where it's 0.98
03:06:36.000 very liberal the north is different um but the women are like players and sexually promiscuous and 1.00
03:06:41.600 the guys like really want commitment and it's just so reverse it's actually it's actually a cultural
03:06:46.300 thing with french is that the women tend to have like a side piece yeah women have side pieces yep 1.00
03:06:52.760 yeah it's yeah i was born in france i didn't know about this shit i i didn't know brian 0.98
03:06:57.560 french women are okay let's not go there so france is like in flames at the moment so did you see the 1.00
03:07:09.120 the the in flames like if there's been riots the last few weeks like yeah r.i.p the motherland
03:07:15.580 is france the motherland or the fatherland i guess it's my fault because my dad's from france
03:07:20.340 the motherland the mother has a because isn't russia the fatherland what wait what how do you
03:07:26.360 different chat how do you decide if it's fatherland or motherland how do you decide if your mom or dad
03:07:33.980 is from there so my mom's from italy so italy's my motherland oh okay i didn't know it was that
03:07:40.000 simple could be wrong okay so it's my fatherland yeah france is a failed society yeah it's going down
03:07:47.200 the drain there's a lot of a lot of other countries that are getting all anyways um let's not get
03:07:52.740 political but um okay so born again did you used to have like did you have a hoe phase or what like 0.86
03:08:00.940 were you like super crazy before no my my hoe phase was like kissing people in clubs and not going further 0.98
03:08:08.800 so yeah word what made you miserable about being a liberal atheist 0.97
03:08:14.340 i think as well the atheist i'll focus on the liberal first so liberalism you're just constantly
03:08:21.960 angry and offended and i i believe there's a lot more racism in the left than on the right and that
03:08:29.520 a lot of well-intentioned things but the road to hell is paved on good intentions um yeah it's very 0.64
03:08:36.700 regressive like this idea that black people can't well we won't get into we won't get into politics
03:08:42.040 um we can go there a little bit how do you feel brian what a quick tidbit on politics what's what
03:08:51.980 specific political topic are we talking about here black people what bro i'm 40 percent nigerian so i
03:08:58.800 feel like i can i can claim the um black black is the the political topic you wish to discuss is
03:09:07.880 black this could go so many ways um yeah i'm gonna pass on that one i'm gonna take a pass on that
03:09:12.920 okay well we'll exclude any race the idea of oppression i think is very harmful when you're
03:09:18.340 telling people your country hates you you have opportunities stripped from you when really that's
03:09:22.960 not the case like we're born in a country that we can do so much no matter where you came from
03:09:27.040 i came from i came from the sticks i came from the boondocks agree very much agree and here i am like
03:09:34.760 in the in the pilot field like it's yeah it's yeah i think it's ridiculous i think it's very harmful to
03:09:41.460 tell children especially that um you are disadvantaged purely for something that you cannot control and i
03:09:48.860 think it does a lot to their their um mental capacity to be able to see themselves as uh somebody
03:09:55.420 that's going to provide value to society i think i think it really really harms kids especially
03:10:01.260 yeah it becomes self-fulfilling prophecy absolutely i did a video yesterday where we went to santa
03:10:05.820 monica pier and we were just interviewing people and we were asking if they think that if they think
03:10:09.700 america is racist every one of them said yes and i couldn't believe it because america i could believe 0.55
03:10:14.960 it but like america is so overtly non-racist like it's just a complete melting pot of all different 0.94
03:10:21.420 people all coexisting together and one of the girls was telling me um that she's from nigeria
03:10:27.120 and she said she came over when she was like eight and that she was she thought she was making a good
03:10:31.380 point to me but what she was saying was that she had no idea about racism until she went to school
03:10:35.600 and the school taught her all about racism and i was like and i said to us i was like so so you never
03:10:40.500 knew about it and then the school taught you about it and then she like couldn't quite put two and two
03:10:45.140 together but there's some serious indoctrination happening in this country absolutely i'm that
03:10:49.980 that's something close to like what i went through like i came here when i was eight so like
03:10:54.500 i didn't understand any even like the bullying like the verbal bullying i didn't i'm like that
03:11:01.060 doesn't make sense all right i'm walking away or so i have a couple more notes here for each
03:11:05.940 people we have priya here you wanted to talk about dating someone with kids and how drug use 0.98
03:11:10.960 affects relationships and also age gaps or age differences in relationships is that so did you
03:11:17.900 date someone with kids i have dated somebody with kids yes how old was it older guy uh yes he was 10
03:11:23.480 years older than me and just reminder you are 22 yes okay so he was well maybe this was a couple years
03:11:31.200 back or i know this was my most recent relationship just under a year ago okay so he was 31 you were 21
03:11:38.080 yes and he had kids okay uh and he also so he there's an age gap he had kids and he did drugs is
03:11:46.460 that correct no no no the the drugs was some a different uh meth heroin no um what drugs do you take
03:11:52.840 i do not do any drugs i've never touched any sort of drug um i do not support drugs whatsoever i think
03:11:59.300 they're incredibly harmful but the boyfriend that that you were dating did drugs yes um and you helped
03:12:07.620 you bought his you you didn't partake but you bought the drugs for him no um was it meth or heroin
03:12:13.060 it was not either um pills benzos pills um no i started dating him and then found out about the drug
03:12:23.100 habits uh about two months into the relationship um was going to break up with him when i found out
03:12:30.200 and he begged me to stay with him i did uh believing exactly what he told exactly what he
03:12:37.020 wanted me to hear i want to change i don't want to live this lifestyle i don't want to just do it for
03:12:41.020 you but i want to do it for me too and it was good for a while and then eventually he broke up with me
03:12:45.440 because he believed i judged him for his partying habits uh god forbid i cared about his well-being
03:12:50.720 but um but yeah that was that was a different different situation than the than the one with
03:12:56.940 the kids word uh here let let's talk about the age gap one so that was your biggest age gap relationship
03:13:04.340 you said it was 10 years correct yeah uh would you do it again um yeah i would do the age gap the kids
03:13:09.760 no kids yeah i can see that yeah uh we'll go around the table on this and we'll start with grace
03:13:14.520 actually uh would you date someone significantly older than you say like 10 10 15 years older than
03:13:20.680 you um i'm not sure because i look very young so i feel like i would feel like a baby in that
03:13:27.960 relationship and it depends if it's a really great guy and we vibe and i feel really comfortable and at
03:13:35.040 home then yeah but i'm also in a very very happy relationship right now if you were single but yeah
03:13:39.440 if i was single um i would consider it just really depends on the chemistry i don't really look
03:13:44.440 at age unless it's like creepy like if you give me creep vibes sure um what about you
03:13:51.460 yeah the oldest uh the biggest age gap i've had is 21 years he was 21 years my senior
03:13:59.320 okay good times so uh what what was the age breakdown like you were what 35 he was 50 i was
03:14:06.960 37 37 37 okay wait he was 59 so how old so yeah i was like yeah i was 32 30 no he was like 59
03:14:19.400 22 29 49 no what is my math wrong here 37 to 59 is 22. no like 59 to 49 49 to 39. 22 22.
03:14:32.400 39 yeah that's 20. yeah i'm trying to questioning my math over here okay no if he's 60 that and he was
03:14:42.440 20 years older than me that would make me 40. so he was 59 so i was only like 37 or 38. so 22
03:14:52.700 year age gap 22 year age gap 21 or 22 that wasn't in my 20s this was like two years ago
03:14:57.720 yep and he was gonna turn 60. word what about you age gap yes or no would do it how much i i actually
03:15:06.280 prefer age gap i like the 10 year age gap but you just gotta be careful because the older you get
03:15:11.680 the more baggage you got okay agreed um yeah i would date older um i typically stay within my age range but
03:15:21.220 or my age group but you know i'm open to different things i would date older as far as kind of the age
03:15:28.480 gap goes i do prefer someone probably minimum of three years older than i am just because i'm young
03:15:33.120 and honestly i'd be looking to settle down sooner than a lot of um people i guess are in my age range
03:15:39.380 um i would maybe go up to like like seven or eight years older i don't know if i'd hit 10 it kind of just
03:15:46.100 depends on kind of what grace is saying chemistry and the person specifically because you do have to 0.60
03:15:50.140 watch out for a lot of creepers when it comes to older guys sometimes so would you would you date
03:15:54.960 henry cavill no you wouldn't date henry do you know who that is i don't i mean i don't like it's
03:16:02.260 just celebrities in general i don't know we pull them up yeah we get uh nick can you do a little google 0.97
03:16:06.840 search for our boy henry cavill cavill how do you say that shit i don't know uh while he does that 0.95
03:16:14.280 it's probably gonna be a no but okay what about you um sorry um yeah i would date guys older than me 0.95
03:16:21.560 i wouldn't date someone younger than me okay got it um my biggest age gap is probably like i was 21
03:16:31.880 and he was 42 okay and then youngest was like well i don't know like more recently i've oh you've gone
03:16:40.760 the opposite direction i have i'm like what youngest was like 25 oh i thought you're about to say some
03:16:46.960 weird shit no no i've kept 25 26 okay okay okay it's like youngest i'm 29 yeah yeah so okay that's like 0.85
03:16:56.880 the youngest that can be acceptable for me because like sure sure do you have the photo nick boom uh 0.98
03:17:04.680 this is henry cavill yes superman superman yeah uh geralt fuck what's the little witcher how do you 0.96
03:17:12.740 say girl is it girl girl girl gerald gerald gerald gerald i don't know i don't watch that french one
03:17:20.620 i'm so i'm so bad with the faces to names but a couple weeks ago i was talking to some friends about
03:17:24.860 celebrities and he came up and would you date him no no come on yeah stop the cap he plays world of
03:17:32.740 warcraft does that change anything he's like probably less likely for me to date him okay
03:17:38.000 berk what about you age here um yeah i would definitely date kind of what uh grace was saying
03:17:44.040 um if we vibe we vibe uh i would go like maybe a year younger than me but not really much younger than
03:17:51.140 that um and then just because maturity but yeah definitely would date someone older than me and if
03:17:56.300 we vibe we vibe if we get along you make me happy you can please me
03:18:01.020 yeah then i'm done yeah okay definitely been like people that like are older and you expect a certain
03:18:09.600 like behavior from them and it doesn't matter like how much older they get so i would compare
03:18:15.500 the part where it's like dating older people is like oh sure proof of like it's gonna be good like
03:18:21.900 no like a lot of people like still at like a even 60s like are not well i also think something to take
03:18:28.660 into consideration at least for myself is is for men and women when each of them hit their prime like
03:18:34.100 what ages what age that looks at i know for women it's like mid mid-20s and for men it's more so in
03:18:39.280 their 30s i think so even from like like again i brought this up like the biological standpoint kind
03:18:45.140 of just makes sense to go for a little bit of an age gap there i mean and that age gaps actually
03:18:52.200 naturally manifest um i mean i think it's typically uh a two like i think the average is two to three
03:19:00.500 years i don't know if you know what the yeah like typically i think the age of well also the age of
03:19:05.740 first marriage it's younger for women than it is for men so i think that's another kind of
03:19:11.760 manifestation i think it makes sense particularly in the modern day because with like the way that
03:19:18.140 the market's going it's a little bit harder for men to create resources so if a man waits until he's
03:19:22.160 35 and then he checks up with a woman who's say 25 or so because girls are obviously waiting a little
03:19:28.200 bit more these days as well i think that 35 and 25 is like a perfect sort of age range i think there's
03:19:34.360 also a biological component to it as well well yeah i mean so there's the are you talking about
03:19:39.680 like fertility uh yeah fertility but also i mean just in a general sense i think that uh the majority
03:19:46.820 of women uh in terms of wanting to settle down and kind of understanding what they want out of a 1.00
03:19:51.640 relationship tend to figure that out a little bit earlier in life than men do um and yeah i think if
03:19:58.800 women are looking for commitment and looking to settle down and start a family i think they're 1.00
03:20:02.140 going to be looking for um men that are typically a little bit older than them any boss babes here 1.00
03:20:07.180 who have their eggs frozen no got any boss babes just freezing their eggs or anything um okay let's
03:20:15.300 see here we have miss aubrey roe she said a lot of people also act one way but expect unrealistic
03:20:21.880 results to their actions i think hookup culture is toxic and whether women want to admit it or not 1.00
03:20:29.140 word for word brian what's that you don't have to read a word for not verbatim i mean i mean you can
03:20:33.880 i just put it out there like pretty boldly on there i mean you can read it okay all right i just
03:20:38.280 kind of threw out uh she's saying we're uh women are the gatekeepers of sex or hookup culture so 1.00
03:20:46.120 basically what you're saying is is women are to blame for hookup culture okay well you're such a 1.00
03:20:50.660 misogynist aubrey yeah honestly i just hate women you're like a raging misogynist how dare you 0.99
03:20:56.880 no honestly what the reason i can i put it like that because i was like i'm just gonna 0.98
03:21:01.320 throw it out there but um can you do that again what the little is that is that your throwing
03:21:07.020 motion okay i'm a girl i throw like a girl that's why fair enough checks out because i'm a misogynist 0.62
03:21:12.180 so of course i've just clearly um okay no i would as far as like the expectations go what i find a
03:21:19.380 lot is like there are a lot of women who do want to settle down they do want to eventually have a 1.00
03:21:23.360 family but they wait so so late and then and then and then it's kind of too late or it's kind of
03:21:29.640 just biologically but also it's like what you put out is what you attract so if you're wondering why
03:21:34.980 you're not attracting these men that are that you're wanting to settle down with it's maybe because
03:21:39.260 you're not being the type of woman that the type of men you would want are attracted to and so 0.91
03:21:44.700 and then like playing that into hookup cultures like a lot of women like they want to you know 1.00
03:21:50.400 early in their 20s like they want to go clubbing and they want to go sleep around and they want to
03:21:53.920 just have that party lifestyle and then settle down later later on but at that point like you know
03:21:59.420 plays into the body count like at that point in a sense like in different ways their value to
03:22:04.100 has gone down as far as i guess market value when it comes to dating and what the type of like high
03:22:11.080 value men i don't know what you consider high value men even depends on the person i guess but
03:22:16.540 it just kind of henry cavill's pretty i mean he was superman so i guess superman but um but no i
03:22:24.540 just think as far as like hookup culture i mean ultimately like the woman i mean obviously other
03:22:31.420 than certain circumstances but the woman does get to determine like if they're gonna let a man into 1.00
03:22:35.380 their space in that sense so and that's why i think going back to earlier with how many people
03:22:41.400 each of us have slept with right that it can be a lot more important for women versus men because
03:22:47.260 ultimately that decision lays on the woman of whether she's gonna actually allow a man to even 1.00
03:22:52.960 have a chance with her i have a note here from nicole and nicole says i prefer dating man a man with a
03:23:00.360 high body count and certainly much higher than mine a low body count is subjective but i suspect mine is
03:23:06.660 lower than many women my age there are a few reasons it's attractive to me when a man has a high body 0.92
03:23:11.840 count and as a woman i do not aspire to have a count anywhere close to what the man i date have
03:23:17.320 nicole confirm or deny so you like say that i did say that i wouldn't say that i own it i prefer that he
03:23:26.580 has a really high body count but it doesn't bother me and to me there is something attractive about a man
03:23:32.780 who has a high body count who's just ran through like he's just a hundred ran through i hate the 0.91
03:23:38.120 term no he's not ran through he's he did the running through oh it doesn't bother me i've i have met men
03:23:45.160 who have dated i mean dated who have slept with what i'm like oh wow that's a lot of people you know
03:23:51.380 um but it doesn't in my eyes it doesn't take away from his value i don't know it just doesn't
03:23:57.680 i am 39 and people generally assume that i've slept with a lot more people than i have
03:24:04.880 um fun fact i was celibate from my late 20s until like 38 and i didn't even date so i had no sexual
03:24:13.660 contact with men for almost a decade um that's like a whole tangent but yeah wait hold on wait
03:24:19.020 wait what were the what was the age range 28 29 to like 38 were you in like thinking about being a
03:24:26.200 nun i was yeah actually thinking about being a nun yeah i was you look good in the nun outfit thank
03:24:32.260 you but i was only looking at communities that had like really like really pretty habits like no ugly
03:24:37.580 ones habits that's what they're called yeah so i um that was pretty radical so i that's why i
03:24:44.120 originally made that choice because i needed to know if i could live the life um and what did he do 0.79
03:24:49.740 to you at 29 that's what everyone says what happened but actually that's like a very ignorant
03:24:55.080 question um but my 20s might like i don't i've never really been drunk like i don't i haven't
03:25:04.680 done crazy drugs like i didn't have some i mean i think my 20s were pretty like like i had a few
03:25:11.000 long-term boyfriends 29 to 38 yeah who's the fucking absolute giga chad who came in at 38 0.99
03:25:19.660 and he had a high body he had a high body count who knocked you off your fucking nearly decade 0.99
03:25:27.940 long that was a good experience i could say it i want to meet a girl who hasn't had sex in nine years 0.99
03:25:35.540 yeah she's like the the pent-up sexual yeah it would have been bells ringing honestly so yeah i
03:25:44.320 don't know but all i'm saying is that for me if a man has a high body count it's not unattractive to
03:25:50.060 me um and maybe hot take i don't know but i feel that the reason it's attractive for a reason why
03:25:59.100 it's attractive for a woman to have a low body count and the reason it's seen as attractive or 1.00
03:26:04.040 something to aspire to as a man to have a higher body count is because both of those things are
03:26:07.980 difficult it's difficult for a man to rack up a really high body count with a lot of beautiful
03:26:13.100 women it's hard for a woman to constantly say no when she has men coming after her so to me it's more 0.98
03:26:20.500 that we are as a society glorifying what is the more difficult choice for each sex so and i'm not
03:26:27.760 saying like morally or anything if that's right or wrong or it should be that way or not but to me
03:26:32.820 that's what it feels like to me is we are saying that's the harder choice for that sex and so
03:26:38.020 that's why we think like kudos so you're 39 you were almost 10 years of celibacy between 29 to 38
03:26:48.580 the guy that you broke your celibacy for did you guys date for a while or was it
03:26:55.260 we did a little ting we did you did okay months you guys broke up recently or um it's pretty no
03:27:03.480 that this would have been when i was so i i just went over 39 so it was like beginning of when i was
03:27:08.780 like 30 and you said your longest relationship was two years yes or did you say you've been
03:27:13.540 single for two years no my longest relationship was two years and i've been single for um a year
03:27:18.580 okay huh you've been wait you've been single for a year okay so the thing with the guy who broke
03:27:24.780 your celibacy were you were you like when you met him did you were you kind of looking to for this to
03:27:31.700 be the end of your celibacy no we formed a really deep friendship deep friendship yeah we formed a really
03:27:38.480 like deep friendship was he also trying to was he part of the nun school or what was going on
03:27:42.860 no no he wasn't i just got to know him and and it just formed and i was i just did it wasn't like
03:27:51.980 some big thing yeah it was it just happened one thing led to another i made a choice it's not like
03:28:00.480 it just happened i made a choice to do it of course but it wasn't it's not as like dramatic maybe as
03:28:06.540 you're trying to make it sound i just found someone and i connected with them and i felt
03:28:11.240 that that really strict season of celibacy for me had served its purpose and i just wasn't there
03:28:16.640 anymore and that was okay i'm still very selective but why did you not do the nun thing you didn't
03:28:22.320 want to go ahead with that no um well they rejected me stop it they rejected me wait so hold on
03:28:32.920 were you like not trying to be celibate or this was like a very intentional thing i was intentionally
03:28:40.380 celibate intentionally yeah okay i made a choice okay so just to bring it back i mean you were saying
03:28:46.640 how you you prefer dating a man with high body count certainly much higher than yours um
03:28:52.440 maybe we can go around i mean it doesn't mean i don't mean that it needs to be high like they
03:28:58.640 need to have a hundred plus i think um i think you got you like a guy who's sexually experienced
03:29:04.000 i who knows his way around a woman's body i like who can locate the clitoris i like it and if he's a 0.64
03:29:11.040 good man then those women to me like they don't matter and i i if i'm with a man hold on just a second 1.00
03:29:18.060 thank you man don't you guys think a huge problematic outgrowth of social media hookup
03:29:24.580 culture is the destruction of female intellectualism the destruction of it the destruction of it um 1.00
03:29:32.160 was it ever there to begin with i'm kidding i'm kidding it's a joke guys um not not that much
03:29:37.760 i kid i kid i definitely don't think it's benefited it i don't know it just it doesn't bother me i
03:29:44.940 don't ask men how many women they've slept with just because it it it's kind it's irrelevant to me
03:29:51.240 um and if i'm with a man i'm with him because i i trust him and so i don't have insecurity with him
03:29:58.300 i don't like i just don't it's just not a thing i don't know word word yo thank you for the
03:30:06.460 super chat appreciate or the tts appreciate it okay um that's news to me the whole nun thing
03:30:14.680 did you did you have like a party phase or anything when you were younger like college did you
03:30:21.680 no go some frat parties i would go to college parties but i didn't drink so like but i love
03:30:26.940 dressing up so i would have like three or four costumes per halloween and go to all the parties
03:30:32.600 but i i don't i didn't get drunk or do drugs okay all right let's see here uh i had something
03:30:40.380 i think that's it for most of my notes um okay so let's get a couple soup chats in uh we have
03:30:47.660 our good friend
03:30:49.540 woods thank you brother um
03:30:54.780 burke can you read this one of course uh brian loving your content that you've been pushing
03:31:02.500 out thank you man representing the z y z z community this is yeah wait can you do this
03:31:08.040 australia represent this no it's like this here wait like the highest okay wait kind of like the
03:31:14.560 highest you know do you like this is this is this oh wait am i doing it look are these gang signs
03:31:21.100 i know what are you asking like this i've been having no like this out and look up look up higher
03:31:27.500 higher lift your lift your arm and now say rest in peace what is that what is congratulations you're
03:31:33.280 now gang affiliated just kidding just kidding go ahead go ahead um okay the ziz community get 0.98
03:31:40.720 aesthetic as fuck brah always take your drugs and doses that you've been prescribed legally the 0.99
03:31:47.380 simp in me want girl in pink with a dog in me refuses to to such what to such well there's two 1.00
03:31:55.060 girls wearing pink so you're gonna have to clarify mr woods which one all right can you read uh can
03:32:02.200 you read this one por favor um yes okay thoughts on men wanting to get married in a church um moss
03:32:09.280 synagogue um and with modern women being less religious it is harder to find normal women who 0.98
03:32:15.520 want that uh dating within limits dating pool uh plus i found a lot of those women are nuts so convert 1.00
03:32:22.540 women that aren't um women that aren't religious isn't that typically where marriage occurs in a 1.00
03:32:29.560 church even if you're like not religious isn't that no well i guess there's not if you're not 0.99
03:32:35.100 religious not in california not in california they do that shit at the beach i guess yeah beaches caves 0.98
03:32:40.420 disneyland i have never been to a wedding i just realized is that a red flag that's a red flag 0.96
03:32:47.520 people are like bro you don't have friends invite brian to your wedding i have never been to a
03:32:53.060 wedding do you know that you can hire professional bridesmaids like if you don't have friends or you 0.98
03:32:58.040 don't have a maid it's like only fans but for bridesmaids that shit is depressing son there was 0.97
03:33:03.500 like a movie about that with kevin hart or something there was i love there was like the best man like 0.97
03:33:09.960 that is yeah there was a movie about it yeah like that's cute uh gorton's fisherman uh i think
03:33:18.220 everyone's in fine with it i think what about he's asking he's asking if like we would if we would
03:33:24.760 quote unquote convert or get married in the church i don't know like i look i'm i'm rainian and like
03:33:30.560 technically like i was i'm supposed to be muslim technically speaking like clearly i'm not like
03:33:37.120 abiding by it but i thought you were devoutly what was the giveaway
03:33:40.740 a few things yes but like i would if you if i was like marrying like a someone christian or a catholic
03:33:48.600 you know like i would probably say like we'll do that whole spiel in the church and then like let's
03:33:56.460 do like whatever like my people would do too and then let's call it even that's it that's a good
03:34:03.760 point priya so we'll go really quickly around the table would you convert let's say your dream man
03:34:09.600 is
03:34:10.320 because some of you might already be religious so i'm thinking what if he was like a
03:34:17.800 a different religion or if those of you who are atheists let's just say he's christian
03:34:22.040 so would you convert to for your dream guy i would i would definitely not i'm very very strong in my
03:34:35.580 catholic faith i would not convert for a guy so i'm christian i would convert to be catholic but
03:34:43.460 that would be the only thing that i would be willing to convert to buddhism no jainism no
03:34:50.920 scientology
03:34:51.960 absolutely not hard no
03:34:54.780 well so i actually dated my longest relationship the one who went to jail and i got out of a few
03:35:03.480 months ago um he was atheist and i based legitimately everything off of like god and spirituality so
03:35:12.780 like going through that was like the worst thing and going into it too like all the reasons that
03:35:18.060 our relationship ended i knew that was like going into it why it wouldn't work out and still
03:35:22.400 i don't i felt like i needed to gain experience on more some of the surface level things dating
03:35:27.240 yeah but it it taught me a lot but i realized like i would never like sure first and foremost like
03:35:33.100 you can get along like it doesn't matter how many hobbies you have in common like you'll learn to love
03:35:37.720 their hobbies but just like find somebody who has the same values as you do like that's the start
03:35:42.860 that is the most important thing yeah by the way gorton's fisherman here uh just want to say 0.95
03:35:48.720 don't forget the buddhist temples bro you're leaving that shit out come on man be please be 0.99
03:35:55.320 considerate of other religions you discriminatory fishermen okay uh the real mr meatball thank you man 0.99
03:36:03.400 uh why not go more into atheist libertarian a la and rand definitely much more thoughtful than
03:36:09.720 flipping from one empty calorie philosophy liberalism to another conservatism
03:36:14.520 and rand are we talking about the fountainhead are we talking about the uh what's her other book
03:36:20.800 atlas shrugged atlas shrugged virtue of selfishness virtue of selfishness that's a good one yeah is she
03:36:25.920 is she uh libertarian and rand is she libertarian she's like she's like her own sort of philosophy
03:36:32.420 yeah okay super capitalist like the the omni capitalist the real mr meatball uh actually uh
03:36:43.920 burke can i have you read this yes uh would y'all date someone who doesn't do social media and actively
03:36:49.620 dresses down to not be flashy yes totally red or green flag yeah yeah absolutely dresses down yeah but
03:37:00.400 defining dresses down i mean if you're not wearing designer labels all that that's perfectly
03:37:05.460 perfectly fine but i want you to look clean but i think not being too flashy yeah i like a man who
03:37:12.400 dresses well i want him to have nice pants nice grooming smell good have a nice watch have shoes
03:37:17.500 that go with it it doesn't need to be the most expensive but i appreciate when a man puts like
03:37:23.280 take care of his appearance i mean you can like i don't want him to intentionally make himself
03:37:27.900 smaller or intentionally make himself be hidden that's weird to me i'd be like why don't you want
03:37:33.680 to take up space you know dress down and still smell good and dress nice like yeah dressing down
03:37:39.420 like what do you mean yeah that's where i'm kind of flashy that's what i'm saying is like
03:37:43.820 what about let me let me throw something out there what about a guy who wears puma sweatpants no
03:38:01.560 and bro hold on let me finish a guy who wears puma sweatpants and like a black t-shirt and
03:38:11.220 a flannel if you're at home you'd wear no to the flannel is that why you're wearing a flannel
03:38:17.740 huh are you wearing puma sweatpants right now are they like slimmer oh uh i guess i i happen to be
03:38:23.540 wearing that so what do the bottom of your sweats look like like are they the long thick ending are
03:38:29.760 they like the scrunchie looking ones are we still talking about sweatpants what are we talking about
03:38:33.240 i'm giving those red flags i think i don't think that it's bro they're just they're just puma
03:38:38.980 yeah you don't have to wear like not wearing flannel is brian giving you guys red flags with the puma
03:38:45.140 i don't necessarily think it's a red flag it's just not a personal preference i like somebody that
03:38:51.360 knows how to put themselves together well but that being said you don't have to spend thousands of
03:38:55.620 dollars on an outfit i mean just like dress like occasion timing where are you doing where are you
03:39:01.340 not yeah right you know what i mean like like the time and place for everything but i also think with
03:39:06.440 the man with the watch you have to flash because a man when he shows up on a date if he's wearing an
03:39:12.680 eye watch i get major ick i get me because the watch is like the most purse is the most personal
03:39:20.140 accessory a man can have his watch and i feel like the eye watch is like the complete opposite of that
03:39:27.020 so like i look for men's watches on their um their dating profiles so is it a red flag if they're not
03:39:32.680 wearing a watch it's not a red flag but when a man's wearing a real watch and not an eye watch it
03:39:37.460 gets me going some kind of way i think it has to do with people making tasteful choices and i think
03:39:42.780 it's quality over quantity in that sense i do get it yeah yeah it's like he has some taste like or i
03:39:49.000 don't know like he there's something specific that he i don't know i don't know man with like a real
03:39:54.360 watches yeah i think it's about the occasion but also like just balancing it out like you don't have
03:39:59.100 to have everything super high quality but like don't walk around looking like a bum but i also
03:40:03.200 would want to be able to like you know go to the supermarket and like pull up in the sweatpants
03:40:06.780 with you know my significant other yeah can i can i ask you a question what's that so if you were to go 0.99
03:40:11.240 on a date with one of us what would you wear i'm not gonna lie i would wear this shit oh 0.97
03:40:17.060 would you expect us to dress up really nice are we going honestly like so okay here's here's my 0.99
03:40:24.960 thing okay come on i look if a girl dresses nice that's that's fine i actually kind of there's this
03:40:30.100 song it was his first hit by drake okay the best best i ever had is that it yeah hair tied
03:40:39.380 fuck how's that sweatpants hair hold on sweatpants hair tied chilling with no makeup on that's when 0.97
03:40:48.620 they're your prettiest hey no i don't i don't like like on the first date i will i'll tell a girl 0.99
03:40:56.980 yo you don't need to like hold on hold on
03:40:59.200 their almed meatball donated one hundred dollars i'll chime and i watch guy oh my god maybe spend
03:41:07.360 that one hundred dollars on a new watch he's a he's a chad uh no but i actually prefer like i'll
03:41:14.380 i'll even tell a girl like well so okay i don't like i'm not a huge fan of makeup i don't really like
03:41:20.360 makeup so honestly anything more than a bit of like um maybe mascara eyeliner whatever like when you
03:41:27.320 start putting shit on your face or lipstick not a big fan not a big fan of it so uh i kind of like 0.89
03:41:33.260 the more uh low maintenance type of thing she can still dress well and not wear a lot of makeup and 1.00
03:41:40.200 a man can dress casually and still be well groomed and smell good and be put together and his sweat
03:41:45.400 pants fit nicely and he doesn't wear open plaid over a t-shirt you know to dinner well and a lot of it
03:41:52.180 has to do flannels are in son i don't know what you you guys missed the if you went to australia 0.97
03:41:57.620 you would be brought in flannel flannels are the shit y'all this is california black button up on 0.99
03:42:03.620 black button you know what hold on i'm i'm gonna change into something i'm gonna be right back 0.99
03:42:09.220 you guys tell me okay hold on you guys tell me if you would you know date me when i'm okay so
03:42:15.380 rattlesnake you take over you take over for a sec i'll be right back well i was i was gonna add to
03:42:20.980 you okay to the appearances i'm gonna say a lot of it has to do with how you carry yourself as well
03:42:26.340 having to do with like makeup because i even this past year for probably like a good six months
03:42:31.360 i just increasingly like went with less and less makeup just to like try to embrace more and more yeah
03:42:36.600 but i noticed over time like and my mom like told me this too she knows like i started carrying
03:42:40.940 myself a little bit differently in some ways it was like really good in other ways like when i
03:42:45.120 finally did start wearing like a little bit more makeup and i don't like i wear like maybe three
03:42:49.000 things like i don't go crazy anyway i don't really know how to do makeup that well but um like you just
03:42:54.520 kind of it like ups your confidence sometimes like you just feel like a little bit more but do you
03:42:59.920 think that has to do with the fact that people are now comparing themselves to people online
03:43:03.880 constantly and setting unrealistic standards i think that that's a huge thing yeah but it has
03:43:08.560 to do with the comparison for myself personally it was i was able to develop more confidence with my
03:43:12.560 natural beauty because like i got so used to wearing makeup every day like and it was just like mascara
03:43:17.180 right but even just going without mascara like i started to love like just like my facial features
03:43:21.740 the way they were without any of it and like totally i think it's just about like enhancing your
03:43:26.360 natural beauty rather than creating beauty of course it can be done tastefully and then it can be
03:43:30.800 it can be uh done not tastefully as well it can be damaging yeah absolutely the same thing happened
03:43:36.500 with me i think like a month ago i was one day i forgot like bringing my makeup when i was out
03:43:42.180 somewhere and i had like i didn't have any makeup on and i looked in the mirror and i thought i looked
03:43:47.460 hideous and i i was thinking about it and i shouldn't look at myself in the mirror and think i'm ugly
03:43:54.640 without makeup and so i'm sorry i'm really bad at talking right now because i'm kind of kind of nervous
03:44:00.340 i'm tired um but i i feel like it's wrong to look at yourself in the mirror without makeup and think
03:44:06.120 you're hideous and so i went on a trip to europe for two weeks and i was like i'm not gonna pack
03:44:10.300 makeup and it was terrible the first few days i felt like terrible in all my pictures but then 0.92
03:44:15.600 over time i felt more and more confident and now i can wear it for like special events but i'm trying
03:44:20.300 to go makeup free as well that's how it was for me too yeah i'm interested to know girls in your dms 0.97
03:44:27.420 what is the craziest thing you've ever been offered in terms of being flown out anything like that have
03:44:32.440 you ever accepted have you ever been tempted to accept no because of safety number one what have
03:44:38.880 you been offered is it true that you girls are getting offered to be flown out yeah i would say so
03:44:44.640 for like but for like sexual things and at the end of the day like are they pretty explicit
03:44:48.920 you have to do this sometimes like i'll get like messages in my dms like oh i'll i'll like pay you
03:44:54.360 to come fly out to me and like do whatever um and like safety is number one obviously um and i
03:45:01.340 wouldn't necessarily accept money for that like i want to talk to someone or like get to know them
03:45:06.420 and not just for sex like that's not like a thing i don't want to do that yeah yeah because you want
03:45:11.140 you to be careful as well yeah exactly how about yourself you've been flown out to somewhere 0.66
03:45:16.040 like you're unfamiliar with like yeah just anywhere have you been has someone slid into your dms and
03:45:21.920 said i'll pay you to do this and then you've either rejected or accepted it yeah and i agree with her on
03:45:29.040 the safety part like you can't you can't just decide that just no matter what amount of money you're
03:45:35.160 gonna give me like or or offering i don't know you so if you don't but if you did know them you
03:45:40.320 might do it who knows okay um like maybe the craziest thing would probably be like a car
03:45:50.320 but they've offered to buy you a car yeah but obviously like same thing with like safety reasons
03:45:56.000 like do you reckon that was serious a lot of stalkers huh do you reckon that was serious about
03:46:00.080 it what do you mean like do i think he was serious yeah he was like a stalker of mine
03:46:05.520 yeah right okay um i haven't had anyone slide into my dms but because you will after this
03:46:11.620 because i'm sure but because i go door to door and i talk to people every day a few weeks back i did
03:46:17.520 have this guy like he straight up offered to go take me and get a new car full up in cash i was like
03:46:23.740 sitting on the couch like trying to sell him like a smart home system and he's like yeah i'll buy you
03:46:27.880 a car and then i was like maybe i should be selling the fact that i'm broke instead of
03:46:31.260 this system but no then i was just kind of like well i'm gonna go talk to your neighbors but other
03:46:37.000 than that i haven't had any any crazy offers no it comes back to safety i am a really small person so
03:46:44.380 4 11 i'm 4 10 4 10 yeah you were giving me a little bit of grace with that extra inch
03:46:49.120 that's all right hey i got these booster seats over here i've been sliding around
03:46:52.760 what's it like being 4 10 um man i definitely get to experience the world at a lower level i guess
03:47:02.820 no i used so my first car had a 1999 tahoe and i put pedal extensions in there and i drove around
03:47:14.120 with that so like this small little girl hopped out of this jacked up truck you know what's your
03:47:19.980 cultural background so i was actually adopted from china when i was nine months old um and then i grew
03:47:25.860 up in texas and i'm still there currently trying to move to la never met your parents your adopted
03:47:31.020 parents no i have not it was a closed adoption oh yeah so in 1996 it was pretty adoption i'm pretty
03:47:37.600 sure in china you could only have one child oh i feel like i'm fancy over here stalingrad
03:47:46.940 stop it if you wore this on the first date women love a man in uniform but um i don't think this
03:47:53.340 is what we had in mind do you do you have a hat you have a hat to go with the rest of it or what
03:48:00.600 do you have a sword there i just think you're missing like yeah touch fine did you get a watch
03:48:05.960 also yeah do you have a watch do you have a sword do the medals match like maybe an eye watch
03:48:10.860 do you have a pocket watch yeah which is our investment piece okay yeah there you go perfect
03:48:23.680 stylin you know i'm hopping on it now he's one step above the occasion
03:48:28.080 so i show up to a first date like this
03:48:32.300 we run away it's done it's you guys are panties are dropping instantly 0.61
03:48:38.980 instantly running and screaming the other direction
03:48:43.020 is it a soviet no it's a world war one oh oh united states it's quite a collector's item
03:48:51.900 i'm gonna be honest i would if a guy showed up in that uniform minus the hat on a first man 0.98
03:48:57.780 minus the hat on a first date you'd be into that shit i would do it yeah i'm kind of nerdy i have 0.99
03:49:04.380 like a weird world war fetish world war fetish yeah not like sexual but oh i mean when you say 0.99
03:49:11.400 fetish sexual it suggests that when you say fetish it's a romantic fetish yeah like romance novel
03:49:18.320 yeah pearl harbor love story that sort of thing he dies and then comes back you thought he was 0.92
03:49:25.580 comes back to life yeah you thought he was from the dead
03:49:28.280 oh my god ab check thank you for the uh 20 gifted memberships much appreciated wait okay so i think 0.99
03:49:36.620 before i got up and took a while to get fucking changed into this shit it's not an easy 0.97
03:49:41.340 it's not an easy thing to get into yeah it was tough this shit was hard uh 0.99
03:49:47.460 y'all were being very rude to me about my fashion choices i was deeply hurt and offended 0.96
03:49:55.920 that all of you were hating on my flannel and you need to lose the flannel i think yeah
03:50:02.000 whoa whoa whoa the flannels i know that's i know that's like your thing you know that's my thing
03:50:07.680 i know it's your thing but if maybe if you paired the flannel with like a nicer shirt underneath and
03:50:12.960 then like some jeans like it's jeans i dress for speed baby i dress for speed i ain't trying to 0.97
03:50:22.500 dress bro have you ever tried to throw a fucking high kick in jeans son how often you would think 0.99
03:50:29.100 son i'd be throwing kicks all day i'd be like you never know when you gotta be fucking kicking some 1.00
03:50:35.520 motherfucker see i i dress for a zombie apocalypse i'm fucking ready some some shit goes down bro 1.00
03:50:41.380 shit hits the fan see you guys overlook this shit because you'd be wearing heels and shit but 1.00
03:50:46.160 us men we gotta be thinking okay i don't ever wear sandals when i go out in public because in case 1.00
03:50:50.940 some shit goes down i want to be in some proper shoes so i can run yeah me and brian wolf back to 0.79
03:50:55.500 back that's what's up you guys you guys don't have the privilege hold on you guys don't have the 0.98
03:51:02.440 privilege of being conscious of these shit hits the fan scenarios that's why y'all be wearing heels and 0.98
03:51:09.440 you think you're gonna run away from a tsunami and heel son no we're we're on the coast why are you 0.99
03:51:13.960 looking at me we're here the fucking coast we are here this is the coast i'm the tallest here i do not 0.99
03:51:18.900 wear heels california son there could be a tsunami i won't even let you i have pumice sweats too i wear 0.95
03:51:24.480 flannels i'm not trying to get to high grounds and some heels son brian what is there ever is there
03:51:31.180 ever an occasion that you do dress up huh i said is there ever an occasion that you do dress up
03:51:35.560 funerals bar mitzvahs yeah no weddings no weddings just funerals and bar mitzvahs and weddings i guess
03:51:46.240 just go to utah everybody gets married in utah everyone's getting married so brian sweatpants
03:51:50.820 are comfortable there's weddings like every day yeah bill gates wore wait bill gates uh steve jobs
03:51:56.960 wore new balance new balance and he's a bill he was a billionaire before he tragically died of
03:52:03.360 cancer new balance is actually kind of nice it's pretty yeah but did he wear those kind of trending
03:52:08.820 what did you say he didn't wear the same fit i mean should the brand matter that much like i just
03:52:17.060 definitely quality but sometimes here's the thing here's what you guys don't understand it's not
03:52:22.460 our job as men to be the pretty ones that's y'all job no in america in europe because then that's 0.58
03:52:29.180 so nice they're not ready and they could not ready still be ready oh yeah it's not even it's not yeah
03:52:36.480 it's just it's just looking clean cut and knowing how to present yourself you know i look i was gonna
03:52:42.800 have a get a haircut is not even aerodynamic so me and brian pre-planned this i said i dressed nice
03:52:48.520 and i was like ryan are you gonna wear the flannel just so someone's ready you know repurpose it a
03:52:52.700 little bit yeah it's not even like a crazy amount of effort that needs to be put into it honestly
03:52:57.940 it's just kind of knowing how to style yourself and having a few really good kind of timeless pieces
03:53:02.940 you know what guys you've changed my mind it's the reverse of brian can i take you shopping
03:53:08.120 should we have a ceremony no and bury your flannels oh let me take the reverse of the the drake
03:53:14.620 let me take you shopping but not pay for it excuse me i'll help you i'll fix your wardrobe for you
03:53:20.940 i'm high maintenance you gotta wine and dine you're not gonna if you're gonna take me shopping you're
03:53:24.480 paying for that you know your worth yeah that's right yes queen
03:53:29.200 can you take that last part back the yes queen can we not go can we not use that one it's it's
03:53:37.440 done accept it okay uh let's see what are we did we it doesn't do social we did this one actively
03:53:44.320 dresses down to not be flashy the social media thing is a turn on not having social media no i like when
03:53:49.960 a man has social media donated 100 get a gold chain and he'll be golden no listen no listen do
03:53:59.800 you guys are you guys familiar with the band pearl jam do you guys know eddie vedder yes yes that's
03:54:04.240 what i'm going for okay okay put some respect now or or are you going for like it was a great look in
03:54:12.400 the early 90s it's a great look today so are you going for like the grunge like kurt cobain i'm
03:54:16.640 i'm looking for i'm yeah but okay but like the eddie vedder look which is okay yeah the kirk
03:54:22.280 kirkobain like they all all the most of the grunge band singers they all died but eddie vedder still
03:54:28.420 kicking so i'm going for the eddie vedder look i mean i'm sure he's gotten like plus sweatpants
03:54:33.800 you know you'll you'll get you'll get some some babes anybody want to try to sing a pearl jam song 1.00
03:54:40.560 really quick i grew up on rock band i it's always one like i'm spacing the pearl jam ones but i know
03:54:51.980 for a fact i have some on my playlist huh dude that was like that was one of the mates that you have to
03:54:57.520 know about which one 1970 1970 wait is a live is a live by pearl jam i think you're talking about
03:55:03.340 smashing pumpkins better man is a good song by pearl jam is a live by pearl jam i'm still that's the one
03:55:09.680 i'm just saying yeah oh i thought we were gonna get copyrighted yeah i know but you kind of just like
03:55:15.240 you didn't sing it you're just like i mean eddie vedder kind of sings like he has marbles in his
03:55:19.660 mouth but okay let's move on here we have uh the real mr meatball could you date someone
03:55:25.960 substantially smarter than you i hope to date somebody smarter than me because i need to learn
03:55:31.240 some things if they have high eq too like they have to be smart but also very understand how to
03:55:38.800 talk to people and socially yeah i dated a couple of men who are in the genius iq range and i found that
03:55:49.260 it actually turned out to be quite difficult for me so i like i like when a man is intelligent
03:55:54.300 and smarter than me in areas that i'm not so capable but i think i've learned from me there
03:55:59.780 is actually like a threshold where it's like it doesn't work for me i guess it's just about like
03:56:06.780 complimenting like like the areas where you each are i said like i i'd obviously rather date a man
03:56:12.440 that's smarter than not i've like dated guys for like even just talking about like like different
03:56:18.680 iq levels or like i don't know like study habits things like that like it's it's one of those
03:56:24.800 things again where um what's the word hi whatever it's like hypergamy yeah like i feel like it it's
03:56:30.560 the same thing with intelligence like i want somebody that like i can actually learn from and grow but i
03:56:35.380 also want them to be able to like grow for me and grow and learn from me in the same ways as well
03:56:39.480 instead of me feeling like i'm dragging them along because they're like you know they don't want to
03:56:45.380 try or they just right it doesn't click like that's their peak yeah yeah yeah because i've
03:56:51.380 dated guys where it's like i i'm like looking to get a little bit more out of them and i'm like oh
03:56:55.700 like that's it like that's kind of where it stops 1.00
03:56:59.080 jake from rattlesnake tv would you would you date a woman who's stupider than you 0.99
03:57:07.300 well of course i would of course yeah they're they're all i'd be much more hesitant to date a woman 1.00
03:57:13.300 that's smarter than me yeah i'd rather date a woman who's more stupider than me no way 1.00
03:57:17.640 absolutely wait you'd rather date a woman who's smart is that what you think no no i'd rather date 0.99
03:57:22.760 a woman who's less smart oh okay why do you think you deserve that that doesn't mean what do you 1.00
03:57:27.220 mean deserve like i don't know like what do you mean by that though like can you elaborate on that
03:57:31.720 like what what specifically do you want to know i just like i think that like how do you know
03:57:35.900 well you can tell i mean you have you have exchanges with them and you can see who gets the upper
03:57:40.980 hand and then you have to sort of go easy on them but like is it like wanting to like
03:57:44.740 be like the i don't know how to what's the word for it like are you asking if i were like the
03:57:51.380 power trip type of vibe like all right i'm gonna always know well you don't want you don't want
03:57:56.620 somebody who's always going to be constantly like challenging you on absolutely everything
03:58:01.060 because it's pretentious or like is that the right word i don't know so so like we like
03:58:06.720 somebody like me like i've got a business that i run and i'm constantly challenged by everything
03:58:12.200 around me all the time so when i get home i want tenderness and love and if someone if someone who
03:58:18.720 wants to help me with whatever endeavors i'm doing then that's fine but i don't want to get home and
03:58:22.480 have somebody who just wants to argue with me challenge me and all these sorts of things i don't
03:58:26.400 know when somebody yeah so i think it's important to be able to have intellectual conversations but
03:58:31.580 definitely definitely i said before i like smart girls yeah yeah no one no one needs a brand 1.00
03:58:37.220 anymore honestly you know i think one day you're going to be old and like you're going to be gray
03:58:41.760 and old and you're going to want to talk about something with someone and like some of the common
03:58:45.220 misconceptions that like a lot of guys say that they want a girl who's just going to sit there and
03:58:48.820 shut up and be quiet and i i personally don't think that i think that like you want somebody who can 0.99
03:58:52.940 have a conversation with you and dumber than you doesn't mean dumb or stupid in general yeah i feel 0.99
03:58:57.320 like you maybe worded it differently but i get i get what you're saying more now that you explain 1.00
03:59:02.380 it over so someone who's less less smart a little bit of an intelligence gap yes a small intelligence 1.00
03:59:08.760 gap i don't even know if it's like an intelligence gap stupid women are really hot like a girl who's 1.00
03:59:15.460 just dumb it's bimbo feminism it's just kind of fucking hot just somebody that's like a 1.00
03:59:20.720 you're going to be the victim to the bimbo feminism they're enough for guys like you what do you mean 1.00
03:59:25.080 the bimbo feminism what do you mean were you here for that part like i'll date i'll end up dating a 1.00
03:59:29.660 bimbo no like there's like that you're falling right into the trap are like the that i don't know 0.99
03:59:34.760 they're like the paris hilton personality i i love women like that i think they're great i think 1.00
03:59:40.860 they're funny they're funny i think i mean you know what i mean i think brian i think you're
03:59:45.220 afraid if they're too smart they're gonna start critiquing your outfit too much if they're too
03:59:49.540 smart they're too smart they're gonna critique my yeah no i feel like uh high iq people probably 0.93
03:59:54.640 don't give a shit about how you dress it's you could actually make the opposite argument that like 0.97
03:59:58.920 super high high iq women are like not super concerned with material history you can absolutely 1.00
04:00:04.020 like you could argue like really like low iq women are like really obsessed with vanity so 1.00
04:00:09.160 but uh because there's not much more depth to them after that when i when i say like a dumb like a 0.99
04:00:16.260 stupid by the way i'm kind of being facetious but not like a dumb woman that's gonna like 0.99
04:00:23.080 fuck up your life but like a simple woman you know sure it's just like simple because like 1.00
04:00:30.420 sometimes being hyper intelligent comes with neuroticism so it's like you know they're just 1.00
04:00:37.420 because like if you're kind of ignorance is bliss type of shit like if you're super smart and you're 0.95
04:00:42.940 just thinking about like man poverty i'm just like bro okay oh my god the world we all basically want a 0.97
04:00:53.520 balance i really was want i really was going to the airport looking at people thinking if there was an
04:00:59.580 apocalypse right now who would die first so i i mean wait what i was i'm thinking about how
04:01:04.760 you're like you want someone who doesn't you know they're just sitting there thinking about
04:01:07.480 like oh poverty like i was sitting there in the airport thinking like i wonder like i'm like oh that
04:01:12.300 lady would definitely die first if like zombies took over right now is that what you mean like 1.00
04:01:15.780 just thinking about like well like there's like stupid where they make mistakes and they fuck up you 1.00
04:01:22.560 know you don't want that what kind of mistakes what's the other and like you're you mean the 1.00
04:01:27.640 sweet spot of stupidity is all we're looking for yeah there's like a sweet spot sweet spot for sure 0.97
04:01:32.780 it depends on the personality as well like i'm somebody who's a big communicator like i'm traveling 0.99
04:01:36.940 with my brother we work together he's a terrible communicator internalizes everything so i find that
04:01:41.900 very frustrating so if i ever had a wife then i would need her to be a good communicator and i find that's 0.94
04:01:47.860 a form of intelligence that i would personally need whereas other people like my brother for
04:01:52.200 example he wouldn't care at all about that like you know he's a very creative smart but like wouldn't
04:01:56.800 not not necessarily like somebody who needs to communicate so we have we have here don don a
04:02:02.420 thank you for the uh donation man appreciate it i run 100 mile foot races in sandals lol 39 single
04:02:08.200 marine vet yeah there we go that's an exception you can do it in sandals around what did i miss was i
04:02:14.960 away from this part yeah you said that you don't wear you know you don't leave the house and he
04:02:19.640 ready to save people and he's saying he's a vet and he wears i run 100 look there's people who do
04:02:24.120 barefoot look i was gonna say i run barefoot when i run you finish that and you have blisters i'm just
04:02:29.280 i'm just saying the most comfortable way listen if you're trudging through the glass there's glass
04:02:35.080 strewn streets of the paris riots and then there's like um what what's uh what's like a uh disease you
04:02:43.740 can get on your uh hepatitis you know you want shoes when you're walking through the streets son 0.97
04:02:50.660 i'm not walking around new york city or san francisco in fucking barefoot just saying 0.99
04:02:56.640 shoes in a city look i go you go to the beach yeah you go in the sand fine you can you can go 0.97
04:03:01.000 barefoot but uh i'm just saying i'm just saying you know you can't do that brian do you think your
04:03:06.900 level of risk aversion is normal because even with like first dates and marriage and not wanting
04:03:12.560 to wear sandals huh are you genuinely asking what wait so what's the question what's your question
04:03:19.860 do you think your level of risk adversity is normal is my level of risk averseness normal yeah you're
04:03:29.840 like you're always worried about these weird situations i'm deeply worried about this you're
04:03:34.480 right yeah i'm super deep he's trolling you okay maybe maybe not the sandals but like the the
04:03:41.900 marriage and like not paying on a first date i do feel like really insecure when i'm wearing sandals 0.99
04:03:46.940 though not gonna lie like i do in the back of my head i'm like bro if shit goes down i'm fucked 0.99
04:03:52.300 you feel vulnerable right yeah like i'm going to chipotle bro who knows who's coming 1.00
04:03:58.020 some fucking gunman comes in chipotle i got my fucking sandals on i'm fucked i can't run and i 1.00
04:04:04.680 can't run in sandals son there's also the feet fetishers you don't want to be showing your toes 1.00
04:04:11.320 you know what's crazy you know what's fucking crazy if you there's a website called wiki feet 0.99
04:04:16.360 i'm on that shit not like someone someone uploaded my feet pics to that you're lying do you feel betrayed 0.99
04:04:23.500 i'll send it just like some weird dudes like a couple some weird dudes be screenshotting my feet 0.98
04:04:34.400 i know i didn't put it online i'm just saying there's like a photo and my feet happened to be 0.62
04:04:42.000 in the photo these motherfuckers like zoom in on the feet i literally have a wiki feet article about me 0.94
04:04:48.360 can we can we pull that article no it's they rate my shit though and i'm high rated 0.99
04:04:53.840 i'm super high rated on wiki feet watch out girls i'm coming for your bread 1.00
04:04:59.240 i'm coming for your only fans money hey class let's go let's fucking go wait so what was your 0.99
04:05:06.700 question seriously though i'll try to be serious what was your question does anyone remember my 0.95
04:05:11.900 do you think your level of risk aversity is realistic or is it normal you seem very highly
04:05:19.040 adverse my high is that what you're saying or like high anxiety i don't know you're like very
04:05:23.900 you're very nervous about certain situations i don't think he's nervous yeah man i'm just planning
04:05:28.260 for the worst yeah in terms of marriage in terms of marriage and he's beyond marriage you have to be
04:05:34.860 careful these days it's there's not it's not being risk averse it's being smart and calculated 0.98
04:05:38.600 not thinking with your dick yeah but even like not paying on the first date i feel like sometimes 0.97
04:05:43.120 you just got to risk the l i don't know there's been times when i have paid i've i feel like i've 0.98
04:05:50.220 paid on first dates like a lot of times and why do you do that fine just because i am i'm able to
04:05:58.280 and i want to and it doesn't matter i know it's gonna come back like it's just it's just one are these
04:06:04.320 are these dates where you're just going out to dinner or that is there an activity involved
04:06:07.920 in the day as well doesn't matter wait tasia has a question for me please restate your question i
04:06:15.400 will i will answer it do you think your level of risk aversion is normal what's what specifically
04:06:23.060 are we talking about here do you do you feel like it's normal for you to be so concerned about like
04:06:28.860 what could possibly go wrong in terms of marriage or well in terms of anxiety yeah i think it might be
04:06:35.640 more general but especially in dating and marriage so you're you're saying that like when it comes to
04:06:41.180 dating i am risk averse yeah more than the normal more than the norm well i think i think i'm i am
04:06:48.020 merely moving and operating the same way that like an average woman would move in terms of my screening 0.98
04:06:54.000 process because i think men are honestly terrible screeners and they'll honestly take anything that
04:07:00.040 comes whereas like i think i'm approaching like when it comes to the screening that i do like
04:07:05.840 it's commensurate with like the average woman so am i risk averse when it comes to dating probably
04:07:15.900 but that's smart to a degree it's smart i think you can miss out on a lot of great girls by refusing to 0.96
04:07:25.000 pay for a first date no that's some gangster shit they love that like your name is grace right 1.00
04:07:29.880 you can't tell me wait what's gangster not paying for it huh not paying for it 1.00
04:07:34.740 no it's cowardly how's it cow i take offense i take offense someone give me a glove i'm gonna 0.99
04:07:42.880 challenge you to a duel how dare you call me a coward you can't tell me that if a woman like grace 0.97
04:07:48.860 wanted to go on a date with you that you'd be like oh yeah she's sleeping with a bunch of men so i can't 1.00
04:07:52.860 buy this nice lady at a dinner oh no she's got the miley cyrus hair i don't know if i'm 1.00
04:07:57.740 wait so brian i don't know this about you you don't ever pay on first dates
04:08:02.180 there are some rare occasions in which i will pay for a first date like you don't even go half and
04:08:08.160 half like it's just a full you don't you don't like no no i'll pay i'll pay for my food of course
04:08:13.380 i'm a gentleman i'll pay for my food that's different wait what if how do you decide when you're
04:08:19.640 paying for her part of the like what does that look like how does that go down oh you want some
04:08:25.000 game i'll give you some game the check comes and you've decided at some point in the date like i'm
04:08:29.940 not paying for her portion what do you mean hold on at some point in the date i've just that's
04:08:34.320 predetermined there's not there's not the decision in the middle of the date where like i'm not paying 0.99
04:08:39.420 for this shit it's like going in i don't care how cool she is i ain't paying for that shit because 1.00
04:08:43.280 you said sometimes you'll pay sometimes you don't so i thought like what how do you oh that's fair 1.00
04:08:47.600 that's why i was like you're right how are you deciding yeah you've caught me so in the
04:08:52.980 one question at a time how do you form a line please i will answer all your questions when to
04:08:58.940 pay for a date and how do you decide when you're not going to and what does that look like on the
04:09:04.240 date for you so there's a uh one thing i'll look at is she's not right income okay income if she's 1.00
04:09:14.220 making good money if she's a professional she has a career under those circumstances
04:09:19.760 man i was about to cook bro yeah thank you victor i feel like brian is a bit too careful when it
04:09:27.720 comes to dating but it seems that's not enough looking at how the dating scene looks like in the
04:09:32.840 states in other places you don't have all these factors that make it harder for you cheers brie 0.83
04:09:38.840 brie brie huh is that cheese or some shit i'm assuming they meant brie like cheers brie yeah i
04:09:44.960 get it i get it um well i mean one well okay one thing he's talking about like for example guys have 0.93
04:09:50.320 to be cognizant when it comes to the not paying thing uh a lot of maybe not a lot of women but 1.00
04:09:55.780 enough women do what's called a foodie call where they're going on dates with the without a genuine 1.00
04:10:01.940 intention of pursuing anything whether it be sexually or romantically so they'll they'll go on a date
04:10:07.200 with a guy because they had nothing better to do and they just want a free meal no i'm not saying
04:10:11.300 all women do this but if you've dated long enough like you've ran into a girl who's a user just like 1.00
04:10:17.380 i'm sure women have you guys have maybe ran into dudes who are fucking either misrepresenting the 0.88
04:10:22.960 date like i can tell she's that kind of woman so i'm not gonna pay and then why are you taking well 0.94
04:10:27.680 that's that's like a that's like a uh if that's the determining factor you wouldn't go if you knew why
04:10:34.660 are you taking her yeah i wouldn't go right so how so when do you not pay for a date predetermined
04:10:40.180 well like i was as i was about to say if she's a career woman if she's making her own money 1.00
04:10:44.740 and also like living in california a lot of women you encounter tend to lean more liberal 1.00
04:10:50.360 progressive so you kind of like bro you're you can't be feminist until the check comes you can pay 1.00
04:10:57.660 like this is what you asked for maybe that's been vindictive but i'd say the main thing is for
04:11:02.860 example if she's younger and she's in college or something like she's 21 she's still in college
04:11:08.400 under those circumstances i'd be more inclined more inclined to pay but honestly i feel like you can 0.99
04:11:14.540 do some even extra gangster shit and just do something for free do some free shit go for a little 0.97
04:11:21.480 little so the best move and it's only a couple of men have ever done it it's when the the thing that i 0.99
04:11:27.960 love the most is when the man excuses himself to go to the restroom and he pays the bill so that when
04:11:34.480 it when so it's not even an issue at the table so he takes care of the bill and it's done and then
04:11:40.380 they come and they say thank you that happened to me and i swear it was like wow yeah that was a class
04:11:46.860 act because he was like i'm not even going to put her in a position he knows he knows who i am
04:11:51.700 he's like i'm not even going to go there it didn't matter like what i made what i did whatever
04:11:55.820 whatever he's like i don't mean of course i want to get it and so he just got it yeah listen this
04:12:00.640 isn't like what i'm what i am putting out there is not like the most effective thing you can do the
04:12:08.620 most effective thing you can do regardless of what the situation is whether it's a foodie call whether
04:12:13.380 it's not whether she's liberal whether she's conservative is to pay for the date however as a
04:12:18.200 matter of principle even though it comes at my detriment or my potential detriment by losing
04:12:27.100 women for me it's kind of like a principle thing because because if you're like dating liberal women 1.00
04:12:32.560 which i mean in my i i'm trying to avoid that in recent recency but like living in california living
04:12:41.640 in santa barbara a super liberal place a lot of the women you're going to counter are probably like 1.00
04:12:45.620 lean liberal you they'd probably say i believe in gender equality gender roles should be removed
04:12:52.940 blah blah blah like i'm not gonna i'm not genders can be equal and have different roles
04:12:57.440 men and women are equal in their dignity but you can't but they can have different roles
04:13:03.600 and they can have and they can be complimentary you don't have to say that a woman 1.00
04:13:08.840 is lesser than a man to justify paying for a woman's meal no that's that's not what i'm saying
04:13:17.360 but there are certain gender roles that benefit men and there are certain gender roles that benefit
04:13:22.180 women okay so you don't get to like gent equality is not a buffet where you pick and choose the 1.00
04:13:27.580 benefits with which you like you you take the the equality that benefits you and disregard the
04:13:34.920 equality that doesn't come to your benefit
04:13:37.300 that's my view so you're saying that if a woman i just for clarification so if the woman wants the 1.00
04:13:45.020 right to vote and the right to an education then she shouldn't anticipate a man paying for her meal 1.00
04:13:51.900 to to to give her a small social cue that he is of a provider mindset well being a provide being in
04:13:59.220 the provider mindset that's a that's a uh traditional gender role i i i'm not sure the the two examples
04:14:07.560 you gave are perfect examples but i'm trying to think of like you could think of one i'm trying to
04:14:12.540 think of a a better example um for example okay you want a man who's a leader and who's a protector
04:14:19.600 and who's going to take initiative right in what sense okay so well paying for the date that would
04:14:27.340 be like a man being in the leadership position so if you want a man to be in that leadership position
04:14:32.940 he ought to have like the man in a long-term relationship in a marriage should be the head
04:14:39.260 of the household in other words the final decision on any issue is mine for example if i don't if i want
04:14:46.320 my kids to not go to public school and i want them to go uh be homeschooled and you disagree with me
04:14:53.220 it's my call right so i would only marry a man whose judgment i trusted in the first place okay so
04:15:02.120 i'm only going to marry a man where i feel like he would make proper decisions for my life and my
04:15:08.600 children's life and for the betterment of the family sure and so that's a that's a non
04:15:14.320 issue to me that's so i want him to be a leader i if i don't respect him and i don't think he's a good
04:15:21.660 decision maker well you shouldn't be dating then i wouldn't be dating him so i that's like of course
04:15:28.240 i want that i'm trying to think of another example well here's go ahead priya i definitely agree with
04:15:33.560 that but to an extent i think that just because i do believe that the man of the home is essentially
04:15:38.880 the main decision maker there are probably going to be decisions that he's going to make that i don't
04:15:44.420 fully agree with at the at that point in time but i'm going to trust him and believe because i
04:15:48.960 trust his decision making capability and i trust that he has my um our well-being and the well-being
04:15:55.640 of our you know future kids at the forefront of his mind and i have to trust that he's making these
04:16:00.440 decisions for for that betterment i agree 100 and i actually think this i actually think that uh
04:16:08.600 oftentimes men make better decisions 100 uh than i would make and i think i've learned in dating that
04:16:17.040 sometimes men have a foresight that i don't have um and if i just defer to their decision and
04:16:24.040 and what they've chosen i often find that if i sit back and allow it to play out it actually is a great
04:16:29.780 decision um whereas when i was younger i think i might have been like well i don't i don't see that
04:16:34.660 and i'm not sure and i think we should do it this way or whatever but now i don't know i feel
04:16:40.000 differently now so i'm saying i agree with you no totally and oh go ahead go sorry just one more
04:16:44.300 quick point um just women tend to be more emotional decision makers and men tend to be more rational so
04:16:49.960 i think therefore that's why they it like historically make better and more uh trusted decisions so let me
04:16:56.980 ask you a question is it a man's job to pay on a first date
04:17:00.160 i think for me if a man doesn't pay he's not the man for me okay most likely now if i were to say
04:17:13.200 it's a woman's job to cook and clean do you object to that statement or is that okay for you um i think
04:17:20.060 that if someone's in a traditional gender world marriage and they've decided like the woman's going 1.00
04:17:25.140 to stay home and cook and clean and and raise the kids and the husband's going to be a provider like 0.77
04:17:30.500 that's fine now now i'm not just to clarify i'm not necessarily saying that that's what i believe
04:17:36.160 yeah but as a woman even if you're a liberal leaning woman you're not going to get a ton of pushback if 1.00
04:17:42.460 you say i want a guy who or i think men should pay for the first date however if a guy were to say 0.96
04:17:49.700 i think a woman should cook and clean you're gonna get a lot well people will be losing their 1.00
04:17:55.800 shit over that if a man wants a woman who wants to stay home and be a homemaker then he should find 1.00
04:18:00.100 that kind of woman there's lots of women who want to do that i think that's great i have nothing wrong 0.99
04:18:04.980 with that um i do know women who don't like when men pay on dates and that's fine too but you're asking
04:18:10.900 my opinion do i think a man should pay on the first date that's i people have free will i they can
04:18:19.580 do whatever they want all i'm saying is if i go on a date and i go to dinner if i'm asked out on a
04:18:24.800 date from a man and we go to this dinner and the bill came and he wanted to split it with me
04:18:28.920 i would split the bill i wouldn't say anything about it i would quietly pay my piece i would quietly like
04:18:35.760 pay my piece of the bill but i wouldn't go on a second date with him that's fine and look everyone
04:18:41.800 can have i mean i don't it's it's not like a big it's just my preference yeah okay but couldn't it
04:18:49.720 be my preference to not want to pay on the first date it can be your preference yes okay but you
04:18:54.020 object to it i don't object to it for you if that's your choice and that's attracting the kind
04:18:59.020 of woman that you want but for me if you and i went on a first date and you said hey nicole let's go 0.91
04:19:04.480 out to dinner we go to some seafood place i don't know you're wearing flannel and i'm looking great
04:19:10.620 and then the bill came in and you wanted to uh you said okay let's split the bill i'd be like okay great
04:19:17.840 like i wouldn't i wouldn't be negative in the moment i'd be polite and i'd split the bill with you but i
04:19:23.760 wouldn't go out again yeah that's fine i mean well you're bringing up the physical appearance thing
04:19:28.900 like in terms of a man's dress i mean i would simply just reiterate once again that's while it
04:19:36.920 does add bonus points for man to be physically attractive or well-dressed that is not our primary
04:19:42.620 method at least i believe of being attractive to a partner i agree um that's i think that's more
04:19:49.980 within the realm of of women i agree in that situation though at the same time like it also 0.99
04:19:59.140 does kind of depend on like who sure who invited who out well who invited who out yeah but generally
04:20:04.960 generally speaking men are initiating first dates if i split the bill with a man it's because i'm not
04:20:10.960 interested in him so i'll sometimes i will offer to split it sure or to pay it and yeah it's i'm not
04:20:17.020 interested no and look there's definitely there's definitely guys and there's definitely guys that
04:20:20.820 will be if you even offer to split they might be like turned off by that there are some guys who
04:20:26.760 are gonna be like right that's why i would only do that it might be turned off i wasn't interested in
04:20:30.800 him but then there there are definitely guys who will look at that and be like oh okay she wants to
04:20:36.000 equally contribute to the start of this relationship like and i don't think that makes a guy like a
04:20:40.940 super liberal soy boy cuck or anything i just i like when they reach for it i think when they pretend
04:20:45.860 that they're gonna like find their person they don't they they have no intention i don't reach
04:20:49.800 honestly though the hardest i i think the hardest thing a girl could do is she just pays for the 0.98
04:20:54.640 whole fucking thing like she's a straight up simp that's so fucking hard if a girl's just that's 1.00
04:20:59.220 actually that's actually a good girl like she's like i'll be true that's called simp that's called 0.99
04:21:03.880 i did that a couple dates ago i went inside to the restroom and i paid the whole bill that
04:21:08.120 shows that she's really trying but i wasn't interested in that that's just your nature i just got it
04:21:13.980 like yeah i can't acts of service let's go um wait should we talk about how um lots of people
04:21:23.060 are saying because i'm 39 i'm too picky and i shouldn't and i shouldn't have uh so many i
04:21:29.620 shouldn't be asking for so much i'm asking for too much because i'm 39 yeah just out of curiosity
04:21:34.940 so yeah do you want kids i'm open either way you're open yeah i'm open to having a child um and
04:21:42.620 if i don't have a child then i'm okay with that do you date people who do have kids i don't date
04:21:49.180 people with children no okay have you before i tried once because a friend of mine was like why
04:21:56.480 don't you try dating men with kids and i tried it and it wasn't for me the question comes back to that
04:22:02.400 like if you do want to have kids then obviously 39 you're getting on so it's going to be much much
04:22:08.600 harder for you to have kids from now on so then i think that that's what people would be alluding
04:22:12.420 to in terms of lowering the bar a little bit with your standards um yeah so for me so yeah i only have
04:22:18.660 probably a few years if i want to have a child if i meet someone and we get on quickly and it's the
04:22:23.940 right person and i get pregnant we have a child that's beautiful if i don't meet the man who is for me
04:22:30.960 until my 50s and that time has passed for me um i can show my maternity and my femininity and that
04:22:38.400 love in other ways um and it will probably be something that i do mourn to some extent
04:22:44.300 but that's okay um i just would want to find the right person for me and how how much are you willing
04:22:52.600 to wiggle in terms of this arrangement because if you did want to have kids like like we just said
04:22:57.600 the clock's ticking quite a bit are you do you have wiggle room there or is it are you pretty
04:23:02.180 set in your ways let's just let's just take the first date for example okay i think that you're
04:23:09.220 you expect too much in terms of the first date okay i can understand that you'd asking him or
04:23:14.100 having him i'll explain it so like i can understand why you'd want someone to be financially sort of
04:23:19.200 stable and then obviously that first date thing that's a generosity thing um and you know that's
04:23:24.780 that's an attractive thing but in terms of paying for the first dates maybe the guy is just seeing
04:23:30.660 if you're willing to go halves like maybe he's willing to maybe he's just maybe maybe he's just
04:23:37.040 doing that to just see if you have if you if you understand reciprocity maybe and i've gone halves
04:23:41.560 and i've reached for my wallet and i've reached for my wallet with the intention to offer i've also
04:23:45.820 not done the old fumble yeah i've properly but i've i've i'll if i'm going like i'll actually you know
04:23:50.780 i will so i've done all the different yeah i just i i'm not sure if i really necessarily believe
04:23:58.900 you when you say that you that's an automatic no-go because it has to be something else that
04:24:06.220 happened in the day because if he if it was a really good date and he was a good prospect and
04:24:10.520 if you do want to have kids in the future surely you wouldn't just not go on a second date because
04:24:15.400 he it's an interesting question because i think the men that i'm going on dates with
04:24:19.400 they they don't want me to pay for half so it's it's i i'm trying to imagine a scenario with them
04:24:25.900 a man i'm going on a date with who wants to go halves but i'm not like what about like i just said
04:24:31.660 reciprocity he wants to just he wants you to be showing that you're willing to reciprocate
04:24:37.700 from the jump okay so if i'm on a date and he wants me to go halves i'll go halves i've said that
04:24:44.960 but then you won't go on a second date probably not probably not but what if it was a what if it
04:24:51.280 was a good date otherwise and what if you were actually very surprised because he was generous
04:24:54.560 in other regards and he strikes he was a generous yeah then i would i would it's not an end-all be-all
04:25:00.920 it's just it's a it's a difficult question because the men that i go on dates with
04:25:04.400 are not asking me to go have it's just like not in their nature really maybe to ask me to go
04:25:10.280 halvesies so i'm not in that scenario yeah i see what you mean i don't so so they i mean getting
04:25:18.080 back to the whole wiggle room thing there is wiggle room you do have wiggle room in in in terms of
04:25:22.820 the dates because it is it depends on what we're wiggling on like i just said what like he does like
04:25:29.660 like he goes like he goes halvesies on a first date yeah just little things like that because
04:25:35.860 like if you do want to have children and that should be something that you're pursuing with
04:25:40.180 some vigor yeah rather than just saying oh well not him not him not him not him you know so yeah if
04:25:45.560 you're pursuing it then you'd want to maybe get to know somebody on a deeper level before you
04:25:49.720 reject them for not wanting to pay for the date every time sure i understand that yeah yeah jake from
04:25:55.620 rattlesnake tv are you saying that she has too high standards yes i am actually well you know i
04:26:04.160 actually appreciate the standards though i like i like the fact that you like know what you want but
04:26:08.800 in terms of your if i were you like and you know you were sort of heading towards your 40s
04:26:13.820 date a homeless person it's a just kidding i'm kidding it's it's it's not i don't my personal
04:26:18.780 opinion is that it's not a very nice existence to be north of 50 and not have a family
04:26:23.220 so that's fair yeah i was also thinking about never being married ever so we might have like
04:26:29.400 slightly different you know i think that's also so um yeah their own meatball donated 100
04:26:37.740 thank you man why not consider just doing it yourself or at least freeze your eggs to keep
04:26:43.700 your options open freeze the eggs option are they suggesting yourself isn't having a child
04:26:51.160 yeah they're saying have a child on your own like freeze your eggs we know what happens to
04:26:55.200 children who are raised without a father i don't what i don't prison i wouldn't do ivf
04:26:59.960 prison poverty prison wait children who are raised by only their father
04:27:03.840 children who are raised in single mother homes are 20 times more likely to end up in prison
04:27:10.080 far more likely to end up in poverty drop out of bad things
04:27:14.680 single fathers is much less much less single dads well i mean because obviously single dads
04:27:22.980 have more of the tough love and then single mothers are more nurturing so especially if you're a young
04:27:27.300 boy you're gonna walk all over your mother yeah and we're and we're also looking at the like the
04:27:31.180 majority of people that are going to prison are also men so boys that grow up without a strong and
04:27:36.840 good male figure in their lives that's that's the result of it yeah and also i was raised in a single
04:27:44.020 mother like home i was raised in a single parent home and i feel like it's not the greatest
04:27:51.760 environment to grow up in because you have so much of a burden put on you because i was the oldest so
04:27:57.120 i kind of was the second parent and i just i don't think it's fair like i don't think everyone
04:28:02.680 has the right to be a parent and like yeah i don't think freezing eggs is a ethical way to do
04:28:09.680 things yeah would you guys date a single father i would that's right i love that for you brad pit
04:28:18.780 would you pay for the first date huh would you pay for the first date he's a single father
04:28:22.680 so i did date a single father and it was not in the plans i never saw myself doing so it was just
04:28:32.120 we were good friends and it it progressed into more um he was a great guy but we didn't align on a lot
04:28:38.780 of values and the kids thing was a problem for me did you meet the kids i did yeah i actually i
04:28:44.080 scold i bet you're a great scolder i met the kids before we started dating because like i said we
04:28:49.740 were friends so i had met them prior to us starting to date um but yeah i did realize that in terms of
04:28:56.360 especially how he was a great parent but we had differences in how i would personally handle things
04:29:01.560 if they were my kids or if we had kids together there would be a lot of issues there word uh would
04:29:08.960 you date a single mom no i don't i don't think i would date a single mom nope i wouldn't wait so 0.51
04:29:16.000 okay just to finish off our little point there so you said i was too sorry i gotta spit these out
04:29:22.640 don't look at me while i do the shape of that that was really uncomfortable
04:29:27.280 you think i'm risk averse when it comes to dating
04:29:32.620 yeah well and i wonder too do you want a traditional woman 1.00
04:29:37.200 do i want a traditional woman how many women are traditional that was the thing 1.00
04:29:44.900 okay you know what you gotta try brian get on bumble get on bumble and set your location in
04:29:52.040 different cities and go find you these women who aren't in la um well like the thing is right 1.00
04:29:58.180 just one other point with the like not wanting to pay um a lot of
04:30:03.700 a lot a lot of people are dating multiple people and i've said this before countless times
04:30:09.860 um one of my one of the reasons i don't want to pay for a first date is i don't want to feel i don't
04:30:15.720 want to be a sucker so like a lot of girls when they're single and a lot of guys move this way too
04:30:20.860 they're like dating and sleeping with multiple people they're single they're hooking up with a 0.98
04:30:25.340 person here hooking up with somebody there have three three four five people that they're
04:30:30.660 or dating in rotation and it's like i reserve i'm gonna reserve that treatment to somebody who's
04:30:39.860 loyal to me so you don't get girlfriend treatment until you're my girlfriend so if you're and like
04:30:44.780 most i think going into a first date you kind of have to go in in 2023 like assuming this person's 0.98
04:30:52.300 like could be fucking multiple other people right now i would feel like a total sucker paying for a 0.98
04:30:58.560 girl that just fucked a guy the night before so i can understand that you know the same thing yeah 1.00
04:31:04.900 you know i can understand that i'm like the i could be going out with a guy and he just sure 0.99
04:31:10.060 fuck like two girls how do you get past that i wouldn't even know like that's the whole point 0.94
04:31:14.280 just starting to date somebody like it's not like privilege well i i would like to meet a girl 1.00
04:31:20.620 that's not moving like that or just don't date people who are you know dating and sleeping with
04:31:26.120 multiple but how do you know because people be lying you can still feel somebody out and like
04:31:32.120 even how quickly they try to advance things with you you can tell sometimes plenty to know
04:31:37.140 there's here's the thing though there are girls that the their previous 20 sexual partners they 1.00
04:31:44.980 fucked on the first date and then they meet you and then they're like you know what i want a 0.86
04:31:51.200 boyfriend i'm gonna try this out let's wait and then they make you wait so it's not it's not 0.98
04:31:56.460 necessarily an indicator that that they don't you guys all know this is true okay when i when i to be
04:32:02.720 fair with you brian hold on one sec she had something go ahead i said they see something special you
04:32:07.320 know you're you're worth the wait wait no it was something before i think you had the point oh like
04:32:13.160 how do you get past that yeah how do you get past that how do you get past the whole okay we're just
04:32:17.300 going on dates hey now you're now you're my girlfriend so now i'm gonna be paying for all 0.76
04:32:21.000 this i'm gonna be taking you here and there and you're gonna be my parents but how do you get
04:32:24.240 past that how do you how do you get there what what does the transition look like yeah from how do
04:32:29.020 you start exclusive being decide you having some trouble no well you said i'm not gonna treat you
04:32:36.220 like my girlfriend until you're my girlfriend so do you just like treat them like a side until you're
04:32:41.460 ready to be like hey you'll i need to i need to know that you're not talking to other guys and
04:32:46.480 you're just talking to me and that we're exclusive but how does how does she prove that to you like
04:32:51.620 well it takes time right yeah but like what are the steps to like proving that to you like do i
04:32:56.400 have to like give you my phone like the indicators well you gotta like what like i feel like i think
04:33:03.100 the girl has to be the one that broaches the exclusivity conversation okay so the girl has to be 1.00
04:33:09.060 like conversation yeah the girl has to be like will you be my boyfriend trust huh so you think
04:33:16.800 you think that the woman should be asking them that's a hundred percent the a conversation the
04:33:21.540 girl should should initiate you think the girl should initiate asking out the guy no no no not asking 0.98
04:33:27.520 out the guy but like you've been dating and then what are we wants most of the time it is the woman 0.97
04:33:35.140 i think a lot of i think a lot of men might perceive that to be a turnoff and i think a lot of women
04:33:40.180 well those men don't don't want to like give any commitment yeah but if you really like the girl
04:33:45.920 and like you've been like holding your like frame for a while and then she comes to you and she says
04:33:50.500 like oh what are we and you've held out i think it's obvious at some point yeah you know but if you're 0.94
04:33:56.080 just if you're just like fucking a girl and then she's like what are we it's like yeah yeah ryan 0.97
04:34:00.440 i don't know maybe i'm changing my mind here maybe i think maybe okay this is i might experiment 0.99
04:34:06.020 in just splitting the bill all the time because you know what if i split the bill then i feel like he
04:34:12.900 will feel that he has less he won't come on and try to turn things sexual so quickly like i feel like
04:34:21.360 if i just split split split all the time sorry hold on just a sec donated 99 dollars brian number 80
04:34:28.780 brought a refreshing group of gals would love to talk to these ladies about life in general seem 1.00
04:34:34.940 chill elizabeth bro when she's absolutely stunning if i had ins to i'd do her oh well love the show 1.00
04:34:42.160 made this account for you bro dude chris disney thank you very much for the uh tts much appreciated
04:34:48.760 man yeah 80 was a it was a good episode elizabeth she was cool um thank you very much man much
04:34:53.540 appreciated go ahead with your point i was just gonna say it might uh maybe it'll keep in the
04:34:57.540 guy's mind like we're friends only we're friends only and it will keep them from trying things so
04:35:02.540 quickly okay if i hold my if i don't allow him to be paying for me well there's okay there's two 0.99
04:35:08.260 points there so there's definitely like scumbag dudes who feel entitled to sex if if they pay for 0.98
04:35:14.520 you which i disagree with i think if you a lot of them there's guys like oh i bought you dinner like 0.99
04:35:20.000 right that's that's really scummy if a guy has an expectation of sex um but the other thing is
04:35:25.080 like they'll view it as a friendship i don't think like uh i mean like as long as it started off the
04:35:31.260 scummy guys like oh okay what kind of friendship really exists between a man and a woman no no i'm
04:35:37.580 not saying platonic i'm not saying platonic no i don't have close if you're on a date with a guy
04:35:44.420 isn't it necessarily like if you're if you've gone on if you've just gone on a date with a guy i don't
04:35:49.820 think whether you split or not like removes the romantic undertones of no but if the guy's scummy
04:35:56.740 because this is what i'm thinking is like guys that go out and then they pay and then they think
04:36:00.520 like oh i can try and come on to her or whatever you know and i i that makes me very uncomfortable
04:36:05.800 so i'm just saying i'm just saying maybe i'll experiment with splitting i don't know why
04:36:12.740 you're fighting me on this i'm telling you maybe i maybe i will try splitting your motives
04:36:17.940 i mean it would it would potentially counter the that cohort of men who feel entitled to sex because
04:36:28.820 they've uh just paid for your for your dinner i think though that's really scummy behavior it is to
04:36:34.440 feel like entitled because you've paid for a girl on a date but um so it could potentially fend those
04:36:42.140 types of dudes off but um romantic um but uh yeah so okay so wow i've changed your mind congrats
04:36:52.100 maybe but i mean i yeah i don't know wait yeah i'm still confused do you want a traditional woman 0.91
04:37:01.600 what do you mean by okay so so do i want a woman with like a low body count who's like feminine and 1.00
04:37:07.580 yeah yeah okay because i i feel like when you tell girls oh you're on only fans but you want a
04:37:14.560 traditional guy doesn't make sense that's how i feel about you like you want a traditional woman but 0.64
04:37:18.860 you won't take that role in the beginning yeah that's that's a fair point um because i think
04:37:24.320 you're going to push away a lot of really great traditional woman who you would totally be into 0.99
04:37:28.960 and vice versa sure however can we agree that the discrepancy between not wanting to pay on the first
04:37:35.080 date like like the let's say the social faux pas or the egregiousness of no offense to the girls
04:37:44.360 here who do only fans uh doing sex work is like way more non-traditional than the guy who just wants
04:37:51.660 to split the bill like can we agree that that's skewing further away from tradition i don't think
04:37:58.200 the tradition matters i think how much it can be a red flag in the same way a guy will shut down the
04:38:03.060 body count a girl could very well shut down you based off that decision and i also think 0.98
04:38:08.560 like there's just risks you have to take in dating and i think if you you know but i've already laid
04:38:15.860 out the scenarios where like if she's in college and she is for example traditional uh and you know
04:38:23.860 she's younger she's not making a ton of money then then i'm more obliged to pay for the first date 1.00
04:38:30.560 however if you're a professional career woman i mean that in and of itself is kind of non-traditional
04:38:37.540 okay i think i think it sounds like you've kind of just accepted like anybody that that's going to
04:38:42.440 weed out and turn off from from seeing you as a romantic partner you've kind of accepted that yeah
04:38:47.780 well and take it as a well i don't want to be with that person they're not right for me and i mean the
04:38:52.360 other point the other thing that i would um point out when it comes to this is that um women who require 0.99
04:38:59.100 romance they're just not really that into you like because a girl will 1.00
04:39:06.000 so are you like a guy who's attractive enough you're not gonna be you even if he doesn't pay
04:39:14.360 maybe if you're it's your preference that he pays if he's attractive enough to you if you want him 0.51
04:39:19.900 bad enough that's not gonna deter you but then like what do you expect a courtship to look like
04:39:28.180 what do you mean like in terms of getting to know somebody when you first start dating
04:39:33.380 what do you expect that to look like if there's not going to be any romance involved
04:39:36.700 well i think you're like exaggerating the term romance a little too much like we're not what
04:39:44.160 no one's looking to like have rose petals laid out on the floor constantly when i say romance
04:39:48.880 basically just i mean as the guy obviously paying for you know romantic overtures sure flowers
04:39:56.160 gifts well those are things that you like especially the flowers and the gifts of course
04:40:00.880 a lot of women appreciate that for myself i love flowers gifts i don't really care too much about
04:40:05.000 but i'm a sucker for flowers you go on the first date with a guy he shows up at the flowers that's
04:40:08.920 too much yeah who said that depends you said that i think if i'm going oh well hold on it's too much
04:40:14.980 see if i'm still on the first date with a guy and he's pulling up with flowers i think he's trying 0.83
04:40:18.780 too hard if exactly but that's why all this like romantic shit the like it's no longer appreciated 0.85
04:40:26.720 on mass because as a guy you're it's like 50 50 either the girl appreciates it or honestly more 0.57
04:40:34.300 likely than not she's gonna be like it's something if a guy can show up and be himself it shows like
04:40:38.420 if he shows up shows up with flowers i'm wondering like okay is he trying to make up for something that
04:40:42.760 he feels like he lacks but why do you think that why is that not just a kind gesture that somebody
04:40:47.840 does that's a very classical gesture i think more so like it's it's that's the norm these days too
04:40:52.220 much like that's that's the norm in terms of like romance but in other countries like like i travel a
04:40:57.460 lot and live in live in europe quite a bit and in those countries women love that stuff yeah i mean 0.99
04:41:03.040 i'm sure it'd be nice i guess it's just more so i mean it depends on the context of if you've met
04:41:07.620 them previously if i met them in person i guess i'm thinking first date of like let's say it's off
04:41:11.620 of a dating app let's say it's off of like a dating app if it's off a dating app and i'm meeting
04:41:16.220 them for the first person which i'm not even on dating are you on farmers only hypothetically
04:41:20.200 christian mingle what are you on i'm not on any dating apps i actually don't like dating apps
04:41:24.640 there is excuse me it depends on there is a dating app it's called mutual and it's literally
04:41:29.640 yep it is just depends what is soaking is that what do you know i'm talking about is that
04:41:36.220 are we really getting oh i'm sorry is this is what is it haram i'm sorry i heard it's a thing
04:41:41.640 that's done okay i don't know it is a thing that's it's basically i don't it sounds like it's okay it's
04:41:47.380 just like a loophole for virgins i'm vile it's not even i don't know it's just weird there's a lot of
04:41:53.320 like guidelines i guess or okay but so you're on christian mingle you match with a dude he brings
04:41:57.640 you flowers turn off i guess it's more so like i guess okay you're right it really just just comes
04:42:03.000 down to how attractive he is at the end and also how confident he is as well because if he's a
04:42:07.060 confident man and he and he does that and he's like dressed up nice and he gives you flowers it's
04:42:11.100 going to be like yeah that's just i think it depends on so many factors like they could sweep me off
04:42:15.380 their feet otherwise like i'd or i could just be like oh if he's giving you flowers like please please
04:42:19.600 love me yeah exactly maybe maybe i've just had some experiences like that but flowers is like i don't
04:42:26.080 think the flowers are the make you make or break factor yeah that's that's what i was about to say
04:42:29.800 like flowers is never going to be like it's never going to be a maker no and so what's the point
04:42:37.160 but it is just an app okay so when you're when you're when you're especially in the first terms of
04:42:43.340 dating you of course like have this slow build up and it either obviously like like takes off or
04:42:51.280 drastically declines and you stop dating that person but there are little things that somebody
04:42:56.620 can do that slowly speed that process along if it was a guy that i had known previously as well
04:43:03.480 if i'd met him even like i met him in public and he like i got my phone number that way and we've
04:43:09.080 been chatting like a little bit then i feel like that's a different situation from somebody that
04:43:12.980 it's your very first time meeting them like a blind date type situation situation almost or like
04:43:17.420 a dating app yeah i still don't agree i think that like okay obviously and in the sense that we were
04:43:22.600 just talking about if someone shows up super nervous and really unsure of themselves flowers
04:43:26.680 aren't going to make or break that situation that's them but if somebody shows up and is very confident
04:43:31.160 and shows up with flowers whether it's the first time i'm meeting them or not i would absolutely
04:43:36.140 appreciate that i agree with you on that but these days how they care these days guys have to have to
04:43:41.040 absolutely wait to do that sort of stuff i just want to ask why is it that you guys so fervently
04:43:48.020 support a patriarchal traditional belief that men should pay for the first date i never said
04:43:55.940 are you guys in favor of the patriarchy hello i absolutely is the patriarchy kind of awesome
04:44:01.480 i appreciate the you know what can i can i say to the flowers thing i think there's a real problem in
04:44:10.000 our society with apathy in general but especially when it comes to dating it feels like a contest of who
04:44:15.780 cares less about this relationship yeah absolutely that's true more like nonchalant
04:44:20.780 yeah it's an exclusively thing that's happening in the west though yeah guarantee you like we have
04:44:27.620 a very strange and sick dating culture absolutely over here and like like i said before we have to
04:44:32.360 really wait before you give those gestures over here especially and even if you're somebody who
04:44:36.360 appreciates romance you just can't take that chance anymore but if you do that in other countries
04:44:40.420 then women will really really appreciate it from the jump so i think i think because there's all a
04:44:45.660 lot of people have fear about like the love bombing thing i know like it's a strange concept about that
04:44:49.860 about just coming on super strong and like you said it's just the culture out here like coming
04:44:55.960 on super strong and like retracting like out of nowhere yeah bromance is dead we have to
04:45:00.680 we have to get a couple of chats out of the way we also um nick was so kind as to put pull up my wick of
04:45:07.180 feet great looking forward to it oh god i'll have this on any fans later but let's go
04:45:13.880 go for it oh my gosh this is a thing control mouse wheel up please i've never heard of this 0.87
04:45:22.600 control yeah okay so somebody made this shit look at my rating four point four out of five 0.88
04:45:28.340 scroll down so i don't even know how they found some of these photos but laying in bed 0.96
04:45:36.220 wait what is that who got that picture oh that's on my instagram okay okay you're just asking
04:45:43.180 so does anyone here have a foot fetish nope good thank god i'm happy with people touching my feet
04:45:54.140 right how would you feel if you got into a relationship and the girlfriend asked you
04:45:58.140 to take that picture down because your feet are out what like i didn't post it on my instagram do
04:46:05.160 you think that would be controlling because your feet are out what like they look too good
04:46:08.740 no because a foot fetish like the the term fetish it's like uh i think it isn't something like
04:46:14.080 abnormal that someone's attracted to yeah so like there's nothing inherently sexual about feet
04:46:19.740 so like for a girl to ask me to remove i can't believe i'm analyzing this ridiculous question
04:46:25.260 i completely asked that as a joke too yeah i'm glad you're going no but but it would be like
04:46:28.940 no that that's well first off i i think men and women operate differently so like i don't think
04:46:34.680 so like if even if i had thirst traps on my instagram i think men and women's experiences on
04:46:41.720 social media is very very madison what are you doing come over come over get up what uh what
04:46:50.300 are you eating popcorn hell of a minute you're eating tasty you know how many calories that has
04:46:56.260 that has there's no caloric you want some popcorn girl what's up here you go there you go here eat
04:47:05.540 it on camera so they can see someone's got a popcorn i got you i got you that's gonna be somebody's fetish
04:47:12.600 now the attention men and women receive online is so vastly different so like i think it's it's
04:47:21.240 probably pretty reasonable for a guy to to ask his girl to not post certain types of pictures but it
04:47:25.780 doesn't really make sense for a girl to ask the same because like guys really are not posting like
04:47:31.220 sexualized photos on themselves the majority of them are not the majority of them are
04:47:35.520 current and uh and just the sheer amount of attention that men that women get versus men
04:47:41.980 is like astoundingly different yeah so like you can take an average girl with like a thousand 0.99
04:47:46.280 followers on instagram and she's like she's getting dm's she's getting offers to be flown out like so
04:47:51.640 um so whereas most men even attractive men are not really getting dm'd by chicks like there's maybe 0.99
04:47:59.660 occasionally but men really don't get that degree of attention so absolutely there's a
04:48:04.900 differential there so and a lot of that just has to do with the fact that like men i mean men are
04:48:10.240 typically the ones who do initiate yeah women and if it's the other way around i think women should 0.94
04:48:14.880 be simps though so i'm like i have a very honestly not a lot of people know how to handle that oh it's 0.99
04:48:21.200 great like if the fucking chicks all over you like simping it's wonderful yeah it's great 0.94
04:48:25.540 i think i've been simping with some people i was like too forward depends i'm curious how everybody 0.99
04:48:33.480 feels about that because i don't know how how it differs now versus like throughout time a little
04:48:37.920 bit but the idea of like women um like women asking for a man's phone number like kind of
04:48:43.800 initiating more of that or kind of being like considered forward sometimes like how do you guys
04:48:47.900 i guess how do you guys feel about we don't want a girl to be aggressive about it but you can still
04:48:52.500 you can still show interest you can still take initiative but do so in like a kind of a feminine
04:48:56.900 what's aggressive i've heard i've just heard like it's more so like women like or they they set the 1.00
04:49:02.060 guy up to be in the position to move it forward versus like the woman yes yeah you'll glance in our 0.96
04:49:07.740 direction for two seconds and then that's your sign i know please say about their eyelashes or top 1.00
04:49:12.960 what's like the aggressive if they're like constantly messaging you like i've had a few
04:49:17.840 girls do that where they were they like will constantly be constantly like i think people 1.00
04:49:21.160 would like describe it as clingy but if like a woman were to slide into your dms no no that's fine 1.00
04:49:26.560 if she slides into your dms that's fine if she does it once every three days then that's different 0.99
04:49:31.060 you know it's annoying but if but if you've made the initial contact and if you've gone on a date and
04:49:37.040 then she simps on you after that it's glorious okay so how about if it's if it's them sliding
04:49:41.900 into your dms like a friendlier approach as in like it's like oh just like catching up to be
04:49:47.220 friends versus like hey like i think you're attractive let's go out like how does that
04:49:52.160 differ is that too much then for a woman to say like hey no because if she does if she does that 1.00
04:49:56.340 then i think that she's doing that to a lot of other guys too i think it's like it's a little too much
04:50:00.540 it's a process you know if she's that forward with me then i'm like okay well then she's obviously
04:50:04.480 forwarded everyone else but if she but if it feels exclusive and if it feels like a little
04:50:08.480 bit more rare then that'll be different also anything like overtly sexual like if she's like 1.00
04:50:14.320 yo let me suck that dick it's like okay relax lady on the first brian but you're like women simping 1.00
04:50:22.420 what do you mean is that not no no it's just like two it's like simping in a cute way 1.00
04:50:27.760 i was in like a weird situation like maybe like wishing you had a good day yeah stuff like that
04:50:35.660 and also like when when you're just around just the two of you at home and she always got her hands
04:50:39.660 on you like i know i keep bringing it back but european girls are great like that they're very 1.00
04:50:43.740 affectionate even like if you're lying at the beach they're always just like touching your back and
04:50:47.320 stroking it just just like intimacy but yeah nice feminine tender yeah well that sort of thing
04:50:52.800 that's like what simping is for a girl i think a lot of people can choose intimacy for like i this
04:50:57.200 is one thing that i think is like people they've started from what love is and they think like lust
04:51:02.040 is love and intimacy means sex when in reality a lot of it has to just do has to do with affection
04:51:07.620 and genuine love and i think and often with a guy who's like you know very busy and career driven
04:51:14.440 and always around other guys and doing deals and like living a very sort of fast-paced masculine
04:51:19.820 lifestyle that's the perfect balance to have that escape as well exactly right to have that soft 0.92
04:51:25.240 like feminine touch is absolutely perfect yeah if a girl brings you peace that's that's huge that's
04:51:29.940 the biggest thing like a girl that gives you a headache it's a bit like as you said like if you're a guy 0.98
04:51:34.200 and you're a businessman if you have a stressful life when it comes to work like you need like a
04:51:39.900 chick that brings you peace there's no feeling in the world like a like a woman's warmth in that
04:51:44.340 regard and that's something i think can be so important as far as like balancing a household is
04:51:48.180 um for for those who i guess do want to go with more of the traditional route it's like that woman 0.76
04:51:53.320 is able to take that load off exactly right there's not there's also one of the greatest things that you
04:51:58.560 can experience is somebody making a home for you 100 coming home and there's and there's food on the
04:52:02.620 table and like you know the house is clean and it's just it's such a wonderful feeling and if a woman
04:52:08.200 does that she can honestly take a guy who operates at 95 to 100 and that's a big difference when you
04:52:14.580 get to the upper echelons like that when a guy's operating at a high level to have a woman there 0.99
04:52:18.700 who like can can push him to that next level it's a big thing men want peace and love and like a
04:52:24.640 caring touch from their from their from their girl and men or sorry women want security and protection 1.00
04:52:30.800 yeah and also to use that social calibration that you guys are so good at very observant like there
04:52:35.860 was a study done where they put people into a waiting room they thought they were doing something
04:52:39.120 else like a different study and they brought them out of the waiting room after like half an hour
04:52:42.600 and they they said to the man and the woman like a bunch of different people what did you notice and
04:52:46.960 the girls were telling them all the details of the room and everything and the guys were like i don't
04:52:50.400 remember anything so women are much more observant socially so if you guys can use that superpower
04:52:55.500 to like observe exactly what your man needs and take him to that next level honestly it's it's a genuine
04:53:01.300 superpower well that's something i think is so important especially we're talking about feminism
04:53:04.580 earlier like it's become like who's what's the better gender like who who can do more and trying 0.74
04:53:09.140 to compare it's like comparing apples and oranges when in reality it's like we're designed to complement
04:53:14.420 each other and work together rather than compete in that notion is being destroyed though because
04:53:19.540 feminism tells you you don't need to do anything for a man you're independent boss babe all of this 0.98
04:53:24.660 sort of crap whereas really we both complement each other and we both do things for each other and
04:53:29.620 there's nothing wrong with that and there's nothing wrong with living a life where you want to secure a 0.98
04:53:33.940 mate and a partner in a long-term relationship with somebody you can build a legacy and a family
04:53:38.580 with as well as like if if both i mean and if both want to work i think that's great like i i definitely
04:53:43.700 like would love to like stay at home as well but i know i want to still be out and about and have my
04:53:47.860 own things going on with that um but just the idea of like parents being away from the kids so much both
04:53:53.220 working super stressful and then coming home and being stressed with the kids that doesn't like there's no
04:53:58.580 balance to that there's not really anything that's gonna like help take that load off
04:54:03.780 there was a study done in 2019 that um found that the average like american family parents spend i think
04:54:12.340 it's 36 minutes of quality time with their children a day when the rest is just the blue head teachers
04:54:17.540 right they go to school for six to eight hours a day and learn god knows what yeah yeah okay so um
04:54:24.580 one question really quick related to this then we'll do we'll finish up on our chats then we're
04:54:28.900 going to wrap up here because we've gone uh quite long tonight uh okay related to this to our point
04:54:35.220 about the attention that men and women get on instagram social media um starting with you grace how
04:54:41.060 many dms would you say i know you're in a relationship right now um have you gone like a lot of dms how
04:54:46.500 many dms do you get a week a month i get i'm not like getting all the guys but i get like one or
04:54:53.700 two dms a week but they're not from very interesting like any guys that i would give any chance to sure
04:55:00.740 priya what about you how's how are the dms looking um nothing blue check mark well you can buy blue
04:55:06.180 check mark now so uh nothing nothing too crazy how many like uh in terms of volume though how many dms do
04:55:15.940 you get uh probably a handful a week but in terms of them being like outrageous you know claims like sugar
04:55:23.140 daddy kind of stuff i think maybe i've had like a total of 10 ever at least that i've seen
04:55:29.620 okay 10 sugar daddy offers and then a bunch of normal dudes probably just ran those yeah 0.53
04:55:36.580 wait so you want the sugar daddy no i don't want any of them you don't want any of them okay
04:55:41.700 what about you how are the dms um probably a handful a week but also i have my handle on my
04:55:48.660 dating profile so that they can see who i am outside of the six photos so a lot of them come from there
04:55:57.300 sure i don't post on instagram so no dms you've never gotten dm'd
04:56:04.500 no i don't think so okay that's fine i probably get a good good amount of dms
04:56:12.580 weekly but i am not currently looking so situationship of course getting in the way
04:56:20.180 um honestly i'm not the most active on instagram i kind of just get like the random like every now
04:56:26.740 and then maybe like one or two every few weeks kind of thing sometimes like mutual
04:56:32.580 okay um well because i do only fans everything's mostly just like slide ups on the thirst traps
04:56:39.700 okay but um like things i would actually take seriously
04:56:44.980 maybe like two three fingers on my hand i can count them but okay
04:56:49.380 what about you how many dms you getting like weekly yeah it depends what it depends what i'm
04:56:59.220 doing that week i guess and how much it's like average like one every month or i would say 20 30 100
04:57:06.980 plus around like the 10 15 or so a month about yeah i i just prefer like more in person anyway so
04:57:17.220 um i would say like a nice amount but it honestly just really really depends on what i'm posting
04:57:25.220 like on my stories what pictures i'm posting bikini pic yeah we're gonna get a nice amount but if i don't
04:57:32.100 post anything not really too often i don't know it depends yeah it really it honestly just really depends
04:57:40.260 okay got it good to know good to know um let's get these chat let's get these chats out the way
04:57:46.500 then we're gonna we'll do a brief after show then we're gonna wrap nick can you pull up the twitch
04:57:50.740 really quick guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have
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04:58:02.020 sure it's f11 before you switch over um yo tism thank you for the uh 200 bits liddy likia thank you
04:58:08.580 for the oh six days ago oh it hasn't updated that's weird uh guys twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow
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04:58:20.260 dine and dash is a real thing when it comes to women on dates i've stopped dating because of it 1.00
04:58:25.380 it is bad all seems good then ghost note i'm six to 180 pounds and well enough off that i don't need to
04:58:31.940 worry um yeah i think uh jake from rattlesnake tv have you ever had an experience where you take a girl out
04:58:40.900 dinner everything seemed good then you never hear from her again yeah i've had plenty i mean i can't
04:58:47.540 really think of one off the top of my head but yeah it's definitely happened before but are you
04:58:51.860 talking about dates where i've paid for it and then they've ghosted it yeah yeah yeah i think funny
04:58:57.780 yeah i had one i've done some dine and dashes in myself i actually got arrested once for doing a dine and
04:59:02.100 dash when i was younger yeah a little a little asian man chased me with a spatula and then i sprained my
04:59:08.100 ankle and here and he sat on me for a while and then god damn okay we have uh we have nacho here 0.82
04:59:15.940 i love this podcast i like that you're all doing the normal as it should be i'm scared the child 0.70
04:59:20.340 has to grow up to different standards give me a follow and okay but it's a little self-promotion-y
04:59:27.140 but uh thank you thank you nacho for the uh nacho nunez follow him on instagram guys okay and then we have
04:59:33.700 the real mr meatball thank you man thank you for all your support tonight shoot me a dm on instagram
04:59:39.300 i like to uh connect with some of the uh you know top g patrons thank you man this man does a live
04:59:46.900 podcast he is way less risk averse than average thank you man uh the real mr meatball what kind of
04:59:55.140 family background does everyone on the panel come from and what kind of roles are you all looking for in
04:59:59.140 a relationship okay so family background let's just say uh are your parents throughout are your
05:00:05.700 parents still together did were they divorced young um kind of roles are you all looking for in a
05:00:13.860 relationship so uh what's the familial situation did your parents divorce when you were young single
05:00:20.420 mother household what was that situation and then currently present day what do you what kind of roles
05:00:26.420 are you looking for in a relationship 50 50 or more traditional go ahead um so i grew up with
05:00:32.420 my parents together uh very honestly i'm very blessed for this with a very healthy family life um and i'm
05:00:40.340 honestly looking for someone i was like a while ago i was like i don't want to get married at all but i've
05:00:46.500 kind of grown into this view that i actually do want to have a man um that can kind of take care of me
05:00:55.380 um i'm not sure if i really want kids right now but i think that like being able to travel with them
05:01:00.500 and like having them protect me take care of me spoil me in a sense like i would absolutely love
05:01:05.940 that honestly so i guess i'm more traditional but not because i don't know if i want kids yet if i meet
05:01:12.260 someone where i do want them and i'm like oh yes i want you to like to put a baby in me then you do want
05:01:17.300 kids it's just matter it just depends yeah 100 like i would love to have a kid yeah
05:01:25.620 and just since we're running a little bit low on time i just ask if you can try to keep your
05:01:29.460 answers brief to this one go ahead no you're fine you're fine um i guess my parents separated when i
05:01:37.380 was eight and then me and my mom were single together like after that and had a stepdad shortly
05:01:45.540 a little bit after for the for the rest of my adolescence or whatever and uh i would say like
05:01:52.740 closer to a 50 50 role is what i'm looking for like yes the other it's great but i don't like i don't
05:02:00.980 like expect everyone else to provide sure um my parents are divorced married when i was like one
05:02:08.100 or two divorced when i was four um i'm looking for a hundred hundred relationship nothing's perfect but
05:02:14.180 you know we'll work on it 100 relationship yeah so like when i say 50 50 i mean like i yeah i know
05:02:20.980 like oh 100 100 both people should be putting in maximum effort i get that but are you wanting to
05:02:27.220 like when it comes for example like down to split the bill um i mean if we're married yeah
05:02:33.620 what do you mean no no i mean like first date first date who if you ask me out then i would
05:02:40.260 expect you to pay if i asked you out i'm paying have you ever asked a guy out on a date um yeah i've
05:02:44.660 asked people out on dates more often more often than guys ask you out on dates um i guess but i don't
05:02:51.780 go out on dates often but i won't go out on a date if i you know i'm not making sure that like if
05:02:56.740 i'm able to pay the bill i'm going on a date but if i'm like a guy with like a blue check mark and
05:03:01.860 like that hundred thousand followers and like wants to take me to a boozy restaurant i'm probably not
05:03:05.460 going to go because you know it's intimidating i don't like instagram dating and it's also like
05:03:09.860 that's what you expect every single date i like you know picnics beach dates okay what about you um
05:03:18.580 i grew up in a two-parent household my parents divorced like a year before i like left the house i guess
05:03:25.300 and then they're both remarried now um i i think like traditional general rules can be 50 50 it
05:03:32.260 just depends on like what it is it's 50 50 like regardless it's going to be i don't i just see
05:03:37.460 traditional like more balanced it's just it's not necessarily going to be financially like you know
05:03:42.580 i'm okay bringing in less money i probably prefer that so that i can focus on the home life more
05:03:49.060 um okay so my parents were together until about a year after i graduated high school
05:03:58.580 and then my dad married his high school sweetheart and my mom actually passed away a few years ago so
05:04:05.620 that happened um i fall under the traditional side just because i like to take care of my man and i'm a
05:04:12.260 caregiver when you say take care of your man how did how did that sort of manifest itself when you
05:04:20.420 were barreling down the highway at 120 miles per hour so that was maybe like that was two years ago
05:04:25.940 okay you've changed yeah you've changed okay okay
05:04:31.460 um my parents were never together i spent most of my time at my great grandparents growing up
05:04:39.700 and ideally i'd love to be a housewife being a pilot just kind of my backup plan if i don't find a man
05:04:48.500 my parents were married for about 35 years before my father passed away unexpectedly from cancer
05:04:56.020 but they were together until he died what i'm looking for in a relationship i mean it will depend
05:05:02.500 a little bit on if there's kids involved or not so um i'm not sure what it would look like for me
05:05:09.700 sure uh my parents uh divorced when i was about 10 11 years old um never had a great relationship
05:05:19.620 with my father growing up um was very close with my mom and my mom's side of the family in terms of
05:05:25.300 what i'm looking for in a relationship um i would say that i'm pretty traditional not totally traditional
05:05:30.660 i am i love working so i would like to hustle in my early and mid 20s and then kind of slow down a
05:05:39.300 little bit when i have kids not fully retire but want to dedicate a lot of time for the kids
05:05:47.060 awesome um my parents are divorced my dad left on my birthday when i was 10 and um i was with my mom and
05:05:56.900 my three siblings um and then i want to have a really traditional family with a bajillion kids
05:06:03.060 and be a stay-at-home mom but i do want to work because i love working as well
05:06:09.700 um yeah my parents were together until my old man passed away but um in terms of relationships
05:06:17.300 i'd say i'm very traditional in my views so um i'd want to have a girl that's going to be
05:06:23.380 probably contributing to what i'm doing and the business and probably a stay-at-home mom maybe
05:06:28.100 even homeschool so probably pretty far down this down the traditional route we've been giving each
05:06:36.340 other a few little bests every now and then homeschooling yeah yeah 100 i'd want to yeah that's
05:06:43.940 that's that's what that's what the setup i'd want to go with yeah good times good
05:06:52.180 eddie vedder donated 100 at home drawing pictures of mountaintops with him on top lemon yellow sun arms
05:06:59.620 raised in a v in the dead laying pools of maroon below daddy didn't give attention to the fact that
05:07:04.980 mommy didn't care king jeremy the wicked oh ruled his world that's a pearl gems that's jeremy
05:07:12.020 i don't think that's the song jeremy from pearl jam okay um good times all right i think we're fully
05:07:20.660 caught up on super chats there were just two last things we had to do uh really quick uh since we
05:07:28.100 sort of touched on this the whole who should or the paying thing
05:07:31.220 i want you all to think of your celebrity crush
05:07:41.140 would you expect him to pay for the date or would you like let it slide because he's your celebrity
05:07:48.900 crush you know like you okay a girl looks at who's like i'm trying to uh andrew tate often likes to cite
05:07:56.980 to chris brown you see chris brown in the club you think he's going to be loyal to you you think
05:08:01.940 he's going to pay for your for you on a date no you're just going to like he's so high status you're 0.99
05:08:06.980 just going to fuck him and you don't care i would not go out with him again if i split a date 1.00
05:08:12.420 if a celebrity took me out or my my dream guy i have a couple dreams celebrity guys 1.00
05:08:19.220 but no you're that black and white with it i am there's also studies um that in the beginning
05:08:28.020 of relationships like men tend to invest more and later down the line women actually put in 0.99
05:08:33.460 more investment in the relationship so i don't think it's so black and white as traditional or
05:08:38.340 non-traditional um and i think it's a good sign i'm gonna have to see that study i don't know 0.99
05:08:42.900 go ahead you're gonna have to send that shit to me but yeah i'm pretty black i'm pretty black and 0.95
05:08:47.460 white with it chris brown is not a great example i don't know why tate sides to that 0.99
05:08:51.860 you lost me real quick on that one i don't know you see like who drake in the club is that i don't
05:08:56.900 know if that's a great example too but like a lot of these girls who'd be like oh i'd never the guy 0.99
05:09:01.940 has to pay but like if you if if a guy's attractive enough or high status enough all your rules go out
05:09:08.980 the window incorrect hunt no they all your rules go out the window you're gonna break rules for like
05:09:14.820 really high status attractive i think if they are high status that should show even more like that
05:09:19.620 they're in even more of a position to to lead and to come forth in that way yeah yeah but i don't
05:09:25.620 think that you would throw those rules out the window if he wasn't willing to do that no i don't
05:09:30.180 think so whereas like the guy who's making an average income like he better pay for the first date
05:09:34.500 but like a really high status guy who's more than capable of like paying it's like i'm definitely
05:09:40.340 gonna pay for miss rihanna's bill for sure rihanna yeah oh you you swing both ways i swing always i'm 0.87
05:09:48.660 pansexual oh you like pans you know what i hate that joke i can't stand you okay it doesn't need to 1.00
05:09:58.420 be expensive he can just bring you to coffee he can take you to like a taco truck like this isn't 0.91
05:10:03.780 we're not asking him to spend on like a five course dinner like go somewhere that you can afford to make a
05:10:10.020 nice gesture if it's coffee it's coffee if it's tacos it's tacos if he wants to take you to oysters
05:10:14.740 fine but like choose something i just think it's it's a better way it's also less confusing like you
05:10:22.180 just know what's going on third to last thing here i want to come back to this all of you said except
05:10:28.100 for i believe britney and grace that you're either uh britney you're in a situationship grace you're in a
05:10:33.620 relationship the rest of you are brutally single very single i'm just i'm not i don't think it's
05:10:40.420 brutal yeah okay fair enough fair enough just just single fair enough but what does that actually mean
05:10:45.620 so i want to get a better sense of what you mean by being single so you you say you're single but come
05:10:51.300 on when's the last time you were hung out with a guy romantically look at you smile cheek to cheek last
05:10:58.020 night last night
05:11:04.420 by the way how do you wipe i'm just curious um my business
05:11:09.220 oh no those are sharp one question at a time okay my bad no i'm curious okay so
05:11:15.860 what's uh what was going on last night you had a little ting last night didn't you tell us about
05:11:21.700 it i was actually going to sleep early so we can get ready for today okay fine 48 hours ago
05:11:26.180 um what was going down friday night la you guys live in you you guys live in degenerate los angeles
05:11:34.660 um what was going down you guys were at some posh nightclub right you two you two are girlfriends
05:11:42.420 right what you two are girlfriends right not like friends friends yeah yeah yeah so like
05:11:49.860 friday night what were you guys doing working together at the club at the strip club no we went
05:11:54.740 to bed we went to bed super early because we had a photo are you guys housemates no oh we were just
05:12:00.180 with each other a lot all the time yeah um you guys might as well is there something hold on is
05:12:05.460 there something here between you two that's my wife that's the love of my life we're gonna marry no 1.00
05:12:09.380 no no no no they're asking like if there's like something like going on oh between us like
05:12:18.900 romantically i don't know what i'm saying wait what what's the question because i think yes just
05:12:26.020 are we are we no we're not no we're not romantically dating okay well we're not andy donated one hundred
05:12:33.940 they was doing the same
05:12:38.900 we haven't we have not done that reading a book thank you andy thank you
05:12:45.060 so look you're saying you're very single or whatever i don't know who's i think i don't know
05:12:49.540 if you said you're very single very single okay but well no no i mean i'm very single meaning like
05:12:54.820 i haven't been taken out on a date um when's the last time you hooked up with somebody oh
05:13:03.780 i don't know if they want their business out like that
05:13:07.380 just say the day we don't have to know who it is
05:13:10.500 last night we knew
05:13:14.020 okay last night was the girl or a guy 0.99
05:13:16.740 damn why are you huh what it was a man that's fine it's okay 0.98
05:13:20.340 it wasn't me it's okay it wasn't it wasn't burke it was not it was last night you went to say 1.00
05:13:26.020 pansexual last night this is a safe space 0.56
05:13:29.540 is it i think i'm a little nervous
05:13:33.780 andy donated one hundred dollars got you g thank you brother wow thank you brother what
05:13:40.820 whoa whoa okay so for you is last night burke what about you
05:13:49.780 oh my same guy
05:13:52.420 no no no no no
05:13:56.980 next question
05:13:57.780 no no burke come on what you got for us you said you're single i am yeah when's the last time 1.00
05:14:10.740 you hooked up with somebody miss single does does my dildo count what the fuck no no no that's that's an 1.00
05:14:22.580 inanimate object it's not a someone we need like a a person it could be a 0.99
05:14:28.980 someone who identifies as a drag i don't know what it would i don't know
05:14:32.980 i don't know um i don't know um a they them a she or her a zur whatever whatever you want to 0.97
05:14:40.100 can i say no comment like no yo just rat on your was it last night no comment that's my girl no
05:14:47.620 wait were you guys out together were you guys out together out anywhere closer to the mic we
05:14:53.460 didn't go out anywhere andy donated 100 she was like night to don't let her cap she was light
05:15:00.660 night to don't let her last night i think she was oh i mean she's not lying about working last
05:15:07.300 night she was definitely doing that thing were you shooting a scene for only fans no no no wait 1.00
05:15:13.540 question do you guys who who of you does bg content bg content so solo uh solo gg solo
05:15:22.260 what about you do you do bg content
05:15:29.300 yeah i do okay
05:15:32.820 when's the last time you
05:15:36.180 now you're getting like me
05:15:38.820 okay what about you what about you very single when's the last time you hooked up somebody
05:15:43.540 into the mic please last hook up yeah i'm gonna say it's been a little bit of a dry season so
05:15:51.860 like maybe like a week or so ago that's a dry season i know maybe a week ago less than the fortnight
05:15:59.620 okay it's a desert out here wait burke burke answer the question 0.75
05:16:06.260 otherwise shia labeouf is gonna pop through that screen 1.00
05:16:12.180 yesterday you said tomorrow so just do it make your dreams come true
05:16:18.420 okay um it was it was last night it was last night
05:16:31.620 but not this is not not the same man this looks bad okay this looks is this a threesome no no are you 0.97
05:16:38.820 guys swingers is this like orgy type it looks and sounds bad but no i definitely had no idea 0.92
05:16:46.180 okay but you're getting like a what what is it i was gonna sit just you know like uh the whole like 0.98
05:16:51.700 crazy uh what's it called swinger party no no sex cults no no no what is it nylam was that the one 0.88
05:17:01.860 the sex cult has anybody here been in a sex cult like a many at no of course not priya looking at 0.98
05:17:10.100 you just kidding a sex cult have any of you been branded anybody here have a brand has anybody like 0.90
05:17:21.060 a uh aubrey yeah did i get your name right yeah okay just don't check it um when's the last time 0.82
05:17:37.940 i don't do hookups i if that's a relationship like i don't do hookups um you don't never
05:17:44.900 i like i mean has there been some indiscretions in your past aubrey you want to share with us um
05:17:54.020 i mean i'm mormon whoa i'm sorry lds depends on who you ask no um i mean i've definitely like i've
05:18:03.780 never been somebody who's like oh that person's really hot i just want to go like make out or like
05:18:07.940 mess around with them like it's so much it's always been deeper than that but um yeah no
05:18:14.740 i guess like my last relationship was the last time i like was with somebody in that way when
05:18:19.860 did your relationship end um uh almost three months ago oh three months ago okay so it's been three
05:18:27.940 months oh i'm saved by the holy do it just do it a month my bad thanks for hosting these beautiful
05:18:38.340 women yo andy thank you very much for your uh insane patronage here at towards the end of the show much
05:18:43.940 appreciated man good to see you in the chat uh send us a dm on instagram at whatever uh yeah no
05:18:50.100 i haven't hooked up with anybody okay all right
05:18:56.020 britney's in the situation what about you well you're born again virgin so i'm assuming nothing 0.86
05:19:05.140 recently no nothing recently okay what about you last time i had sex with someone 0.98
05:19:13.940 okay um when you worded like that well i hook up does that i don't know yeah so sex um maybe
05:19:25.700 about it was about three months ago okay i thought the original question was the last time you went out
05:19:32.420 with somebody no i'm pretty sure it was about sex uh not since my last relationship okay cool
05:19:43.060 uh yeah you're what's that oh i said i'm a virgin oh did not know this did not know this are you
05:19:50.740 waiting until marriage yes i am congratulations that's awesome anybody else here waiting until
05:19:57.460 marriage do i count i am i think you count you count similar boat where i i'm still about where
05:20:04.180 like i don't know for marriage but i definitely waiting until it's like more i mean like i've only
05:20:11.220 in committed relationships anyway but like more heavily committed i guess like leading into marriage
05:20:17.060 wait is it and that's how like all your previous times you've been previously it's it's been in
05:20:25.060 relationship i don't yeah like i said i don't do hookups i don't do that stuff but um yeah also just
05:20:32.580 point of clarification what when someone says hook up to you guys do you think that that means one
05:20:37.940 night stand because for me when i think hook i just means think sex when i think hook up
05:20:43.060 like casual i was assuming you meant like if we were dating someone like that's not weird because
05:20:47.860 i don't because you could hook up with someone you're in a anyone i've reached those levels too
05:20:51.780 i've had like full intention of like having a relationship with right so yeah well i've had
05:21:00.260 some mistakes in the past not like some oh but what just tell us more say more anything like
05:21:06.660 what do you mean some mistakes well more so like what happens i've always held myself to that
05:21:10.740 standard so there's just like an incident where i like didn't and not anything like crazy don't
05:21:16.420 like everyone's gonna jump to like the craziest things but it was enough for me to learn like i
05:21:20.420 don't find value in putting myself in those situations or like want to lessons not learned
05:21:27.700 or lessons repeated and some things i just don't need to learn again do again cool okay i think that's
05:21:33.700 that okay we have one quick two more quick things um nick can you pull up the google search tab there's
05:21:41.060 a girl with pink hair that we need to pull up so this is a question for jake and for the chat would you date
05:21:52.180 this is the girl in the thumbnail would you date a girl who 1.00
05:21:56.100 had pink hair and that's such a is it a red is it a red flag if a girl has pink hair or like the 1.00
05:22:06.260 girl in this photo here or not blue hair not particularly i mean if she's a super traditional 1.00
05:22:13.060 feminine woman who's you know got her head switch scroll down it wouldn't bother me but i mean i'm more 0.95
05:22:19.380 into brunettes but you're more uh if she's a pink-haired feminist then absolutely not like okay 1.00
05:22:26.500 yeah if but if she's a pink-haired girl who just likes pink hair then yeah so i mean this is a 1.00
05:22:31.620 question for the chat chat is it a red flag if a girl has color hair so red blue pink do you think 1.00
05:22:41.380 it's a red flag could it be indicative of her politics maybe does she have daddy issues who knows 1.00
05:22:49.380 who knows i think i think the politics do tend to i'm not going to say all the time but they do tend
05:22:55.540 to kind of go when we when we're doing street videos my brother and i will always look for
05:23:00.660 colored hair if we want to get like a controversial or funny take from somebody if we're doing an
05:23:05.300 interview like when we were asking if america's racist we were desperately looking for someone with
05:23:08.740 blue or purple or green hair but it's definitely changed it's definitely changed because even because
05:23:14.340 obviously i'm in the industry with hair and all that like it used to be more of like an artistic
05:23:18.820 thing and it's definitely swayed way more to it it says a lot most times about your political
05:23:25.380 i think that it was like even though like the artistic thing has always been quite like a liberal
05:23:30.260 leaning people people who are more high in creativity and openness tend to lean a little
05:23:35.060 bit more liberal yeah and the last thing we're going to react to before we finally wrap up
05:23:40.100 is uh we have a andrew tate video this is a new one it's kind of out out there a little bit uh
05:23:50.740 it has to do well okay why don't we just play it and actually before we play it
05:23:57.060 what's your hydration like do you guys drink a lot of water i drink a lot of water would you guys say
05:24:03.060 you drink a lot of water 100 yeah priya yes absolutely you're a hydro yeah person i've got
05:24:08.980 a gallon i've got a gallon in my car right now sweet what about aubrey over there you drink a lot 0.88
05:24:14.580 of water i spend my days outside walking doors for like six to eight hours a day so you're a camel
05:24:22.260 because you know i've had experience you know a lot of i i noticed this and tate is about to you know
05:24:28.180 enforce what i'm about to say a lot of chicks don't be drinking water i don't know you guys i 0.99
05:24:34.340 hang out with you guys for seven hours straight you don't drink a drop of water what the 0.99
05:24:38.020 fuck or a ph level what are you just y'all just be drinking coffee and 0.99
05:24:42.900 shit i don't know from starbucks who's water is still fully i water is like the only thing 1.00
05:24:46.740 i'll drink in maybe like 0.91
05:24:50.100 i stay away from nick please kindly play uh can you put it full screen i don't know which one that is i think
05:24:58.580 i think it's the the furthest one of it i think it's yeah click that one uh go
05:25:07.860 hold on before you play it let's just let everyone gather their peace
05:25:13.940 okay go ahead oh no no no video tab please video tab
05:25:21.060 okay go for it
05:25:22.500 i was supposed to do another tape speech in fact i'm gonna have to film two today see how hard i
05:25:29.780 work for you people because when i opened this can of water it reminded me of a simple fact
05:25:36.180 a fact which has annoyed me for a very long time and i've yet to talk about so we're going to talk
05:25:40.820 about it women don't drink water ever now when i say this people what do you mean women don't 1.00
05:25:48.500 drink water because like with all my tape speeches at the beginning people think i'm talking shit by 0.95
05:25:52.100 the end of it they're like you know what he's right hang around with a group of guys long enough 0.50
05:25:56.900 right there's usually a bottle of water around a guy's usually carrying a bottle of water you'll see
05:26:02.500 a man grab a bottle of water and drink a liter and throw the bottle away me personally i drink these
05:26:08.500 these cans of sparkling water i tear through 5 000 cans a month all i do is drink these i must
05:26:13.460 drink 30 40 a day i'm never without them near me ice cold sparkling water all the time i'm always
05:26:19.860 drinking water it's all i do next to my bed i drink as soon as i wake up i drink before i go to sleep
05:26:25.300 when i'm working i have water next to me all i do is drink water and if you notice any group of
05:26:31.700 men you're going to say the same thing hang out with a bunch of guys you're going to see someone 0.99
05:26:34.740 with water then hang around with a group of girls now most of you pussies probably don't hang around 0.99
05:26:41.140 groups of girls very often but i'm that guy who's often been sitting there with 20 chicks nobody has 0.97
05:26:45.620 any water nobody hydrates when's the last time you've seen a woman say i'm dehydrated i want to hydrate 0.99
05:26:52.180 when's the last time you've seen a woman quickly grab a bottle of water just finish it off ever 1.00
05:26:57.220 now i say this people go hmm i guess but i want you to actually go out in the world and pay attention to
05:27:03.300 this and you'll realize how astutely true it is women do not hydrate and why that annoys me is 1.00
05:27:10.100 because women are also the ones who are constantly endlessly complaining about these phantom headaches 1.00
05:27:17.940 they're the only ones who do it i don't believe that heads just hurt for no reason if i got a
05:27:24.900 crippling headache i'd be genuinely concerned maybe i've been poisoned maybe i have brain tumor i don't
05:27:30.820 i don't just get headaches my hand doesn't just start to hurt i've hurt it somehow so if i was going
05:27:38.340 through life and i had a really bad headache i think wow something's happened to me but women 0.97
05:27:43.460 just go through life i have a headache i have a headache i'm a headache i need pills you don't
05:27:47.300 need pills you need you need two liters of water you don't drink anything
05:27:50.820 i've been in dubai with women who end up having heat stroke i've seen them do it i've seen them lay 1.00
05:27:58.020 in bed i don't feel well oh i feel sick i need to go home you're in the desert and you want what two 0.99
05:28:05.220 martinis that's what you've drunk today two martinis and a fucking cigarette they don't drink war ever 0.99
05:28:12.020 i don't know how they survive i don't know when they finally decide they want to hydrate it's usually 1.00
05:28:16.820 some garbage starbucks maca latte with cream just pure sugar crap i don't know how females are alive 1.00
05:28:28.100 i don't know how this arrived now i am advocating for the health of women before everyone calls me a 1.00
05:28:33.540 fucking misogynist and tries to put me in jail for saying that women don't drink enough water i'm saying 0.91
05:28:38.740 the world would be a better place if everybody male and female was hydrated this is not a gendered 1.00
05:28:43.860 argument i believe in hydration for all before the fucking msm have a breakdown i'm just making 0.96
05:28:50.020 an observation i don't see women drink water ever and anybody who disagrees with it start to pay a 1.00
05:28:55.620 little bit more attention be more perspicacious and you will see as you go through life you'll
05:28:58.820 start seeing groups of women you'll see none of them have any water ever or when they say they're 0.98
05:29:02.020 thirsty they order a drink which is not hydrating it's just some sugar crap garbage you never see 0.95
05:29:06.580 women hydrate ever and next time you see a woman who says i have a headache have you got any 1.00
05:29:10.180 honey painkillers when's the last time you drank two liters of water young ladies when is the last 0.96
05:29:15.620 time that's what i literally say when's the last time you drank two liters of water what do you mean
05:29:20.580 i have a headache you have a headache because you're dehydrated that's why you have a headache when's the
05:29:24.420 last time you drank water no i just need painkillers you don't need painkillers you need 0.98
05:29:28.980 fucking water to drink by extension we're going to quickly flip over this whole idea of random 0.97
05:29:35.140 headaches it's something that has to go okay it upsets me and annoys me i don't know why we're 0.99
05:29:40.020 reacting to this uh any any thoughts from anybody on the panel i've never thought about that i drink
05:29:46.500 properly this is very important when it comes to dating drink water folks very important get your
05:29:52.500 gallon in a day well obviously you gotta drink water you were made like mostly of water so like
05:29:59.380 you get a lot of headaches i know a lot of people that do not actually drink water they drink iced tea they
05:30:04.260 drink coffee they drink soda they but they do not drink water you know people are women literally 1.00
05:30:09.540 people are women actually both i know i know a few men that do the same my grandpa throws up if he
05:30:14.420 drinks water straight based he just only drinks monsters all day but these people that i know they are not
05:30:22.340 healthy word i mean i don't know the people that i do see that don't drink water either they don't have
05:30:30.660 headaches but i don't know but also these are the same people that are going to fast food restaurants
05:30:36.420 and like they're not they're not like getting like the proper macronutrients in their diet ordering a
05:30:40.980 triple quarter panda with the diet cook right and calling it food yeah not food
05:30:48.180 okay uh well what we're gonna do is we're gonna do a short after show uh so if any of you want to
05:30:54.340 stick around for the after show you're welcome to but i know we've gone late so if any of you want to
05:30:58.420 take off you're also welcome to uh madison will be hosting that brief after show uh so guys last
05:31:05.700 call hit that like button please on your way out big thank you for tuning in tonight you could have
05:31:11.220 been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who so
05:31:16.580 graciously super chats donates tips and supports the show really appreciate it thank you for all the uh
05:31:22.580 super chats and tts etc etc big thank you to the wonderful panel tonight this was probably one of the
05:31:28.340 more uh i don't know how i would describe it based panels we've had it was pretty you know i was
05:31:36.180 hoping you guys would argue with me a little bit with you i wanted some arguments about your outfit
05:31:41.300 choices what the what's wrong with you honestly brian like i think the look at you you're wearing like
05:31:47.780 a little i know is that a tank top i was gonna i was gonna bring a flannel flex for us i was gonna bring
05:31:53.060 come on aubrey let's see what you got i just started working on my arms okay let's see the
05:31:56.500 i don't know how to work on my arms come on you're wearing a look what no i'm scared what are those
05:32:00.740 high-waisted jeans yeah what's that necklace you've got what's that say it's a kendra scott brian
05:32:07.380 it's a nice one you have another woman's name thank you you have another woman's name very classy
05:32:12.500 yeah yeah what are you gonna do about it brian like bro pruma what huh joggers you still got
05:32:19.380 joggers oh joggers i don't know what these are these are some weird shoes they think i'm not a virgin
05:32:28.660 okay here lay up on the table no i'm just kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding yeah that's probably the
05:32:33.940 where's the stirrups um okay um what what you want the i like flannels listen brian i wear flannels
05:32:45.780 i get made fun of i had someone wait where do you live again well right now i live in colorado
05:32:50.500 but before that i was living in utah i usually live in utah i go to school in utah flannels are in
05:32:55.380 colorado you're from kansas i'm from kansas you don't really have an accent am i supposed to have an
05:33:00.420 accent you are a hundred if you're from kansas you must have an accent it's actually a law it's
05:33:05.220 actually a law do you want can you just what would a kansas what would that sound like go ahead
05:33:10.420 i'm from kansas um i like me a girl who don't wear tank tops and who uh lacks flannels you're giving
05:33:20.100 forrest gump right now forrest gump huh that sounds like that's a lot too southern for kansas
05:33:24.260 excuse me run forrest run that's what you're doing isn't that from kansas isn't kansas is like
05:33:31.140 a southern accent kansas is literally smacked up in the middle of the country they don't have
05:33:37.380 southern accents i mean i i have spent most of my life in kansas kansas kansas i don't know wait
05:33:44.100 what's i don't know isn't there a famous movie that took place in kansas superman the wizard of
05:33:49.220 oh the wizard of oz also but superman's from his um oh he's bro why are you talking on my flannels
05:33:55.860 i'm not i literally i was gonna bring a flannel and then you should have worn a flannel but it
05:33:59.540 could have been matching but it was dark green and you said we can't wear dark green i actually
05:34:03.140 probably was gonna wear a flannel but i'm glad i didn't now because i would have been made fun of
05:34:06.900 of you so you messed it up right it's good whatever see i'm more trying to avoid like the vomit
05:34:13.540 color you know like the green okay you know what number one anybody else i don't know
05:34:23.780 i don't even know i have a question for you brian what's should we should we say for the after you
05:34:28.020 want to stick around for the after show sure okay um by the way just show of hands who wants to stay
05:34:34.180 for the after show yeah that's fine no no that's fine you don't have to that's why it's the after show
05:34:41.300 it's like the after show so you priya madison grace you gotta i have to go that's totally fine
05:34:49.060 totally fine okay cool we're gonna wrap up here um so lastly uh big thank you to our chat mods any
05:34:55.300 women who want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram if you want to be on the show we will 1.00
05:35:00.660 be live again tuesday at 7 p.m pacific i got a very good show planned for you we have matt stay safe he
05:35:07.220 was previously on uh you guys really liked him he's going to be back on tuesday and uh yeah be sure
05:35:13.220 to tune in for that show anyways guys uh thank you for tuning in the after show is about to start can
05:35:20.660 we get some for those of you leaving can we get some o7s in the chat and please
05:35:27.060 say farewell to the guests who are now going to be departing madison i pass it over to you
05:35:37.220 that was such a weird
05:35:50.660 for the after show tt uh we're gonna do uh we'll do tts i think we'll lower tts and super chats
05:35:59.860 will be uh we'll we'll read 20 and up oh actually let's kind of let's leave this on it's a bit better
05:36:09.780 lighting but uh yeah okay all right so super chats we'll do 20 and up uh on youtube and then
05:36:17.700 and then i'll change this so guys the after show is now commencing i should have a theme song for the
05:36:30.020 after show um you're sticking around we're gonna have you move over to this side if you want to sit
05:36:35.940 there i guess kiki needs to get involved yeah we could we could do that um
05:36:47.700 which one do you want me to run yeah yeah yeah we we went late it's super late um uh you sit in that
05:36:56.180 chair priya you can stay in the one that you're in
05:37:04.500 49 hold on
05:37:12.900 yeah just stay wait no stay there stay there oh wait what were you
05:37:16.500 yeah we're still alive it's just the weird transition period while we're doing the uh after
05:37:25.220 show let me save that okay tts is now uh 49.99 and up super chats are uh what's it called um 20 or 1999
05:37:39.140 and up i'm gonna change that last thing i am the captain now bye nice meeting you so nice to meet you
05:37:58.660 guys drive safe this was like blocking my face the whole time
05:38:03.460 i kind of liked it though the base game is still here how was your guys's experience how was yours
05:38:12.420 it was good it was good i was i'm a bit jet lagged still from coming all the way from rome a few
05:38:17.060 days ago where are you from well i was coming from rome from rome oh so i came a few days ago
05:38:24.180 so still a bit the second half of this podcast i've been nearly dead but yeah had to get that red
05:38:28.900 bowl for you yeah exactly yeah i came from rome on monday so yeah and i'm going back to italy next week
05:38:44.420 are we still talking into the microphone yeah yeah talking them into the mic still yeah so i came
05:38:49.780 from rome and going back to italy next week so italy and then italy for august turkey for september
05:38:55.700 and are you making content in all these places yeah normally i just sit myself in one place for a
05:39:02.820 month and we'll just make a bunch of content and then go to the next place so what how does your
05:39:06.820 content vary from country to country it actually doesn't okay we just get airbnbs and we'll just
05:39:12.100 like break down debates and do all that sort of thing got it okay it's interesting so you go out
05:39:16.100 and you interview people or what i do do that as well i interview people do debates break down clips
05:39:21.540 is it centered around dating or what no no it's more about culture politics that's the thing yeah
05:39:27.220 so wait so what do you do for work i might have missed this youtube youtube oh oh okay okay yeah
05:39:36.580 so um yeah we like mainly we break down debates we also do like street interviews we've got like a
05:39:42.900 little travel channel where we go and interview like girls as well from different cities and ask them 0.90
05:39:47.540 what they're looking for in a guy and so a little bit of dating stuff but that's more more of a side
05:39:51.700 yeah i don't know if you heard but brian like throughout the idea that like we should make
05:39:55.940 whatever like worldwide and just like have other people stream in like different countries because
05:40:00.420 like the dating culture is so different if you ever want to do it let me know yeah yeah you could
05:40:05.940 there'd be a there'd be a really good ones to be done in europe because the values are quite
05:40:09.940 different although many many places in europe becoming very woke what what country would you say is your
05:40:15.380 favorite in terms of the values that would probably italy for myself because i'm also italian but
05:40:21.140 they're all getting very woke as well like they're going very lefty yeah um and then up north in the
05:40:26.100 scandinavian countries they're very woke and then as when the further east you get the better it gets
05:40:31.220 yeah like russia romania those sorts of places they're like very traditional quite conservative
05:40:37.220 hungary's really good as well like hungary's beautiful girls traditional girls that sort of thing
05:40:41.860 yeah um and then yeah i like i like italy the most but it's a it's a different it's a completely
05:40:48.660 different world over there it really is yeah i agree it's like the worst place that you've seen like
05:40:54.500 dating wise yeah probably like south korea really yeah how so like what's different so i actually find
05:41:02.020 japan's pretty bad as well but like they're very closed off like they've they'd never ever flirt with 1.00
05:41:07.620 you like i'm quite a flirtatious person so like i'll walk past girls and like you know make eye
05:41:12.820 contact or you know just be giving some sort of a a vibe and like they just don't do it whatsoever
05:41:19.300 and they're very culturally homogenous as well so if they if they're if they um like are dating
05:41:25.540 then they'll they won't want to date a guy who's like not korean or not japanese because they'll bring 0.99
05:41:30.020 shame to their family you know what's your what's your background like my ethnic background um my
05:41:36.580 dad was born in thailand my mom was born here but they're both thai yeah i did a video with thai
05:41:42.580 girls as well really how is that thai girls are very very open and very receptive yeah like they're
05:41:49.140 and then like they're pretty they're pretty cheeky as well actually i like thai girls but yeah i don't 1.00
05:41:54.500 know like there's there's a real culture of like if you're a western you're basically a walking
05:41:58.420 talking dollar sign over there um they expect you to come over there pay the bills so i don't
05:42:04.420 know i don't really get like we do the videos and stuff but like i don't really get time to like
05:42:09.060 really date girls or anything because i'm pretty honest about that sort of thing i'll go in there
05:42:12.980 and i'll say i'm only here for like a few weeks you mean you're not a passport bro no oh i mean
05:42:19.460 i guess you you might call me that because i do sort of explore my options over there but if i'm
05:42:23.220 only there for like a week or two i'll just tell the girls and then normally they'll be like oh no 0.97
05:42:26.580 it's not that's honestly good for you though you get to experience like the different like dating
05:42:30.660 cultures in like so many different places so you like really know what you like 100 and then you
05:42:34.900 come over here and it's like quite it's quite bad like it's really bad i would i wouldn't even
05:42:40.500 bother wouldn't even bother with doing anything over here like you get girls who are very average 1.00
05:42:45.060 with massive expectations yeah yeah yeah honestly tonight talking to some of you girls has been
05:42:51.300 breath of fresh air because i thought we were doomed in the west honestly low-key kind of is
05:42:57.460 that the third flannel i think it's i think it's the joggers i think if you yeah if you major if you
05:43:03.700 got some nicer pants brian i it's not it's not like it's nice lululemon you got some slacks
05:43:10.100 some slacks i'm talking about brian's outfit right now i have a pair of l's that fit it's great for
05:43:17.060 at home but if we were if we were to go out on a date that's not what i would prefer you to wear
05:43:22.580 what would you dress what do you wear on a date brian well i don't i don't eat mcdonald's i would never
05:43:28.180 go to mcdonald's i don't i don't eat mcdonald's so it's a hard no for me you didn't you didn't you
05:43:35.140 didn't get me like run in the other direction with the splitting the check it's the mcdonald's so
05:43:40.740 it gets me it has me running for the hills boost if she ordered off like the dollar meal would you 1.00
05:43:46.500 would you still would you pay for her are you gonna are you gonna pay for our mcdonald's date
05:43:52.820 do you just want to blow a thousand dollars at mcdonald's one day
05:44:04.500 no just in general what the hell would you spend
05:44:09.540 you could do it now you have thousands of dollars saved up for mcdonald's you'd be able
05:44:14.100 to cure hunger of all the money i've not spent on days oh i see i'm probably saying like i wonder
05:44:22.180 if they've done the math like how much does the average guy spend on culture i think that
05:44:29.300 well i feel like it varies a lot because you might be able to i think it depends how many dates you go
05:44:34.180 on yeah i was gonna say it definitely depends on the kind of guy you are do you want to give a fit
05:44:38.420 check to the viewers yeah well it's also a lot of men some men are selected with the amount of dates
05:44:44.740 that they take women on and then some aren't so i guess i'll always do something free first so right
05:44:48.980 yeah brian's got the blue and black yeah yeah go for a little walk get coffee
05:44:53.620 all the gym pins on the collar the left of the collar i don't know if i would do a gym
05:44:59.540 uh plain black t-shirt and i've never i've gone on i've gone on on gym dates that i had no idea were
05:45:06.260 dates yeah so they've just asked you to go for a workout yeah because they don't want to like
05:45:12.900 directly ask you to go on a date i just feel like it's kind of an odd setting though i agree but also
05:45:18.580 like especially we got this for you so according to google our survey found that women spend a lot 1.00
05:45:28.740 less on dates every year than men so about so about yeah so men spend almost not quite but almost double
05:45:39.220 that makes sense yeah it makes sense that's the expectation so
05:45:42.500 how's that i ever made you like pay on a day sorry you can go first okay no go mine's a little
05:45:49.860 off topic oh just go go for it um question for the men i don't know if brian's listening but i
05:45:56.820 heard a guy who said that every woman he's ever slept with he's fallen in love with a little bit 0.98
05:46:03.780 have you experienced that no not at all having sex can be like taking a piss for a guy 0.97
05:46:08.420 who said that for a guy yeah it's probably not like that for a girl not for a girl for a girl 0.85
05:46:14.180 it's very different but for a guy like we we can quite easily do it and then not care whatsoever
05:46:18.820 do you confirm brian who said that it was just a friend of a friend so your
05:46:28.420 your friend said that they felt like what about if it's like a drunken if you if you like just drunk
05:46:33.380 you have sex with someone then you leave them like this is a male friend yeah i don't think he
05:46:38.580 necessarily meant like one night stands drunk at parties but even just like situationships or sleeping
05:46:44.260 with a girl a few times maybe i'm not sure the context yeah i think i think honestly i think girls
05:46:50.580 yes but guys can be quite easily very emotionally detached from sex yeah it really it really isn't
05:46:55.860 isn't a big deal the only reason we want to have self-control with it is because of like you know just
05:47:02.100 it's just for that reason being able to exercise self-control but otherwise it doesn't do any
05:47:06.340 i think there's this whole like who hurt you thing with guys like oh you know you have sex with all 0.67
05:47:10.180 these girls you must be damaged not necessarily you know like i don't necessarily think i think also a
05:47:16.580 lot of men oh god i honestly have no idea what it is yeah no idea i think a lot of men also go through
05:47:26.820 um phase in their like late teen early 20s especially um where they do explore you know a
05:47:36.500 lot of sexual activities more than women tend to i think that the like i think that women doing so 1.00
05:47:44.260 is a growing oftentimes it's also a competition for guys as well especially when you're younger
05:47:49.700 like in your teenage years and early 20s and there's a lot of stigma attached if you don't if you don't have
05:47:54.180 sex for a while if you if i went to the boys tomorrow and i was like hey like i haven't had 0.59
05:47:58.580 sex in like six months they'd be like yeah and that you'd be like really self-conscious about it 0.93
05:48:03.780 so there definitely is an element of that as well where it's like you're kind of like having you
05:48:07.300 feel like you have to keep up keep up with it sometimes totally yeah i guess that's kind of
05:48:12.020 unhealthy when you think about it
05:48:15.140 uh yeah did we the 12 43 one or what is it this one did we show that one already
05:48:24.580 y'all should cater to east coast best coast folks i'm going to want to die tomorrow at work what
05:48:30.260 does guy on the panel do for work oh we just answered that yeah i'm a youtuber rattlesnake tv
05:48:35.780 mr meatball says south america has more traditional women western europe over eastern
05:48:46.020 europe south america definitely has more traditional women but they're very fiery as 1.00
05:48:51.540 well you got to watch the latinas they're very fiery but if you're saying western europe is better
05:48:56.340 than eastern europe then no way western europe is woke as like britain you can forget about britain
05:49:01.780 um germany extremely woke holland extremely woke switzerland austria all these places eastern europe
05:49:08.820 is where you want to look if you're a quote-unquote passport bro if you want to go to these places
05:49:12.740 like you go to russia right now all the guys are either conscripted or they left the country
05:49:16.100 it's an absolute free-for-all in russia were you there not yet but i did a podcast the other day
05:49:21.540 with a guy called wealthy well while the expert have you heard of him he like helps people like
05:49:25.700 offshore their businesses yeah and he's in russia at the moment he was telling me all about it and
05:49:30.500 yeah that's plenty to choose from i don't think there's any more
05:49:41.780 yeah what were we talking about like right before that guy's ability to detach
05:49:50.260 oh yeah i feel like everyone just goes through a phase for a little bit like men and women
05:49:55.380 so but it's a learning experience you know also i think there's a again a biological component to
05:50:02.100 that as well men are designed to repopulate the world where women are you know can only have one 1.00
05:50:09.620 child at the time and you know where our lives are essentially dedicated to raising that child you
05:50:15.460 think women get more emotionally attached to guys that they do sleep with though because have you 0.93
05:50:20.660 ever heard of pair bonding not that but brian might know this but there's like a thing called
05:50:26.660 alpha widow i think it was rollo tomasi in one in his book the um okay i can't remember what the book's
05:50:32.180 called famous book um but yeah he has this thing called being alpha widowed where like a girl will date
05:50:37.540 a guy and then like they'll have sex with this guy and then like they'll never be able to look at guys
05:50:44.180 the same again because they had this guy and he was like the ultimate the apex predator and then
05:50:48.900 every guy after that they can never so he's essentially alpha widowed her is what it's called 0.92
05:50:54.100 the rational male that's what it's called that's right interesting i i don't necessarily think so
05:50:59.460 i've never heard of that personally um yeah i feel like it might take longer for women to detach 1.00
05:51:06.100 themselves from like past sexual partners but i think it it does happen yeah i i tend to think that
05:51:12.660 like the more women the more guys that women sleep with the more damaged they become for that reason 0.89
05:51:19.540 because they've had so many experiences with so many different guys that they're going to then compare
05:51:23.620 their partner to all of those different guys i don't think it's all bonding yes exactly i was going to
05:51:28.500 say i don't think it's necessarily a comparison i think it's it has to do with pair bonding i think
05:51:32.180 that you engage especially with like especially for women sex is such a intimate um activity it's 0.95
05:51:38.580 the most intimate activity that you can possibly engage in and i think yeah the more people that
05:51:42.980 you do partake in that activity with the like the more desensitized you get to it so
05:51:50.900 absolutely you said you're right i got mixed up about the western and yes eastern europe thing yes
05:51:58.020 you know you want to avoid avoid western europe great britain is basically a lost cause they're
05:52:02.500 even worse than us british girls are yeah there's obviously some good ones everywhere but for the 1.00
05:52:07.300 most i lived in london for three years i lived in a like a little place called hackney wick and um
05:52:13.300 yeah it wasn't great i'm telling you that much have you how many people have you like dated in other
05:52:22.020 countries
05:52:24.980 well i'm not really dating while i'm moving around because i'm just too busy with work yeah but
05:52:29.860 i've i've we said like you lived in london yeah did you date in london yeah i was updated like dutch
05:52:35.700 girls and like various different european yeah a lot of a lot of different ones even because even 1.00
05:52:42.820 my preference when i was living in australia was foreign girls as well so i used to date brazilian
05:52:46.660 the colombians and stuff in australia but yeah
05:52:51.860 do you still have a preference do you want to say something yes yes exotic european
05:52:57.860 italian spanish do you need the the helmet too all right here i'm maddie
05:53:10.180 how's it like looking at the back of my head for five hours is it a good time you have a great head
05:53:15.300 head good head of hair a great head not inappropriate um i'm surprised you don't pull
05:53:25.460 out more of these props man well you told me not to pull out the baby anymore yes you're like
05:53:35.220 okay put the baby away so i stopped holding the baby abilities yes sure this is a big green
05:53:41.460 oh this is a big test yeah you know you know what i mean here you go priya and then what's that
05:53:47.300 supposed to mean yeah it's a it's okay see how you hold a child we're assessing it yeah that's a
05:53:53.220 pretty good hold angelina jolie over here the adopted african child am i supposed to just hold this 1.00
05:54:04.020 for the rest of this time yes oh yeah got it is is this rugby yes it is in in asian countries they
05:54:12.980 will be working and they'll be having their child on their back yeah and they'll just be working away
05:54:23.540 i am why didn't we bring these props out earlier i like this who's the other asian
05:54:29.540 um you can pick i don't care i think we give rattlesnake yeah man give me a prop
05:54:38.340 let's give you the leonite the helmet oh wait what are you doing 1.00
05:54:42.580 oh that's terrible stop that this is not right now
05:54:49.940 nice mate it's it's heavy it's a heavy one what's your name again
05:54:52.740 aubry brian uh aubry has lost the character madison versus sophia in a boxing fight winner
05:55:01.620 gets the baby please brian oh she broke the african child wow abuse no brian why does everyone
05:55:10.260 keep saying i should fight sophia i don't even know who she is oh yeah we're actually organizing a
05:55:15.620 boxing match really for me i'm honored who is sophia you guys gonna do a whatever boxing event 0.73
05:55:22.340 i'm so confused i'm pretty sure she was on when i was gone but i don't know she was who she was
05:55:28.820 where did you get these babies i'm gonna read this super chat
05:55:33.940 you're just like posted up portugal has beautiful people cool coach culture and great nightlife for
05:55:39.220 meeting people too plus portugal is super cheap for western europe yeah okay have you been to portugal
05:55:44.900 i don't i don't get a helmet or anything about it yeah apparently i don't get a hat or a helmet
05:55:50.340 it's absolutely true i was gonna go there in october but in september but we elected for turkey
05:55:55.460 oh my god my boyfriend's portuguese your boyfriend's portuguese loves portugal
05:56:04.020 is he portuguese portuguese or like american uh half portuguese half white you guys
05:56:09.460 don't have cute little exotic babies i know what you guys have cute exotic babies i know yes i'm so
05:56:15.220 excited i'm waiting to like like at least graduate college i'm feeling really stylish i'm reading it
05:56:19.860 right now or we were just addressing it people are beautiful cool culture oh we got everyone set up 0.99
05:56:26.980 with the props i'm trying to madison your lip syncs with brian are always a baby come with a dick 0.99
05:56:32.660 yes that's what we were just looking at don't worry maddie that's hilarious sophia 0.98
05:56:37.700 more likely yeah that's what i was saying like the props and everything no i like the
05:56:42.900 the eye burning okay i just want to say i don't even know who sophia is so
05:56:48.180 y'all gotta okay y'all gotta give me a little more information it does when you first turned it on
05:56:52.740 i went a little blind for a second i'll go back and watch it it was so bright because you didn't
05:56:57.860 have it on the whole time we were here on tuesday i'll be back thank you so much i wear helmets all
05:57:03.700 the time but not this kind safety first protect what kind of helmet i think it just damaged my
05:57:09.220 eyesight could i maybe have like a different have you worn this doesn't damage your eyes with okay with
05:57:15.540 this being red and then the rest of it being blue i'm like it's just seeing other dimensions if she
05:57:20.500 wears it for so long she's literally gonna only see red in one eye get her no prop come on come
05:57:27.860 on brian you can't be you can't be you can't be harming your yeah i know that's why i like you do
05:57:34.180 do you want us to pass you this baby we can just we can trade them down yeah it's good we can like
05:57:45.300 cast them down yeah versus madison versus erica whatever you want who's erica maybe we can like
05:57:51.060 sneak maybe i can sit there and sink madison maybe wait what maybe i can sit there do you want to sit 0.58
05:57:57.700 in my seat or your seat one in the chat if you can hear me kind of being ridiculous back there can 0.89
05:58:02.420 you guys hear me or is it scott one in the chat if you can hear me let's see what they say
05:58:07.780 i'm not aquarius i'm sagittarius can you guys hear brian i don't really believe in those one in
05:58:17.700 the chat if you can hear brian one two we've got some toes one kinda okay should we give brian a mic
05:58:26.660 oh it's your decision now that's theirs not mine okay i guess we'll scoot down i guess they can kind
05:58:34.740 of hear you okay wait what are we doing wait i'm just curious right so i was really uh where where
05:58:42.580 you guys from again where y'all live i live in a small town uh in the sacramento area in california
05:58:49.300 jose what is the sacramento area oh i'm sorry shingle springs have you been living there your whole life
05:58:56.660 uh i lived in another part of another small town in california growing up um until about 10 years
05:59:03.700 ago and then i moved where i live now wait how about we do this madison yes i'll sit i'll take this
05:59:09.620 i'll sit in the back okay but you have a mic now yeah that's fine i'm cool with that and then we're
05:59:15.140 going to have five minutes perfect it's been yeah girls got work it's been fun madison has work but we
05:59:23.540 are trying to get it so that she uh she's going to become a twitch streamer so um on the whatever 1.00
05:59:29.860 my shoulders be wild i'm kind of scared madison is going to start streaming on the uh whatever twitch
05:59:37.780 channel and that's actually going to be her new full-time job playing uh world of warcraft i think
05:59:42.740 we're just gonna have you do just chatting to start off yeah i'm cool with that yeah just chatting um
05:59:48.740 um you're gonna have to drop out of college though i'm kidding i could never you don't have to do
05:59:54.340 i just woke up how the fuck is this still alive what's up somebody in chat said i just woke up and 0.98
05:59:59.780 how is this still alive we've been going we've been streaming for six hours damn yeah put a helmet on 0.98
06:00:07.060 now has it been six is it comfortable yeah i think it's been six is this your longest podcast
06:00:14.180 we've had some pretty freaking long yeah we just hit six six hours just now are you gonna try and
06:00:19.860 do like a 24 hour stream at some point oh lord no didn't that used to be like a thing on people
06:00:25.700 people still do it people definitely yeah walmart toilet paper for
06:00:29.460 i can't no i wouldn't i need my sleep i'm too old for that but yeah you know you know never say
06:00:39.380 never is that a oh you guys you guys like rugby over here yeah i'm a rugby fan i like really yeah
06:00:45.780 have you ever been to australia uh yeah yeah yeah have you guys ever been to australia have not but
06:00:52.420 would love to go always wanted to go the uh the wallabies quade cooper yes do you know them well
06:01:01.220 are you more like rugby league or rugby union or australian rules i'm i'm more into australian
06:01:08.660 australian rules football that's what it's called right afl aussie rules have you guys ever heard of
06:01:13.220 australian rules football yes it's a pretty brutal game i've played that for a few years but in terms
06:01:18.340 of rugby i'd go more rugby union how does australian rules differ um so australian rules is basically
06:01:25.540 it's like the rugby ball but it's more of like a oval sort of shape it's more rounded and it's a
06:01:31.300 harder ball and you drop it on your foot and you like this you kick it and then you could kick it to
06:01:36.340 somebody if they catch it they get to stop and then the goal is to eventually kick it through the goals
06:01:42.180 it's it's a different sort of sport it's very rough wait can you move those out of frame
06:01:47.060 i'm ocd i don't like yeah sorry i refuse to advertise your oh yeah what about the in-and-out
06:01:56.340 listen in and out gets a pass okay does it yeah no in and out if you're watching sponsor
06:02:02.260 sponsor the whatever podcast that would be such an epic sponsor it would be i need sponsors
06:02:07.860 i need sponsors brian what are these um cameras inside huh there's a little indoor big brother
06:02:15.460 watching you at all times did you set those up what do you mean did you put them up what do you mean
06:02:20.820 security cameras there's like seventy thousand dollars of did you like go to the store and buy
06:02:24.980 them and put them up yourself what the what well it's with the specific uh i sell i sell smart home
06:02:31.380 and security system who's trying to sell you i'm just asking kitchen you're not you're not happy with
06:02:37.060 myself yes please she gets not on my door so here not on me no because this is like my break this is
06:02:45.620 a break from all of that you can do it hello what do you want so you're a hairdresser so i've been going
06:02:52.820 to school to do hair but i'm currently on a leave of absence so that i can go knock people's doors and
06:03:01.300 sell smart homes smell smart homes are you trying to sell me right now is that why you're i could
06:03:06.980 if you wanted me to you know what actually happened though i on my way here well like at the denver
06:03:12.340 airport the shuttle bus driver straight up asked me like i like told him that i what i do for work and
06:03:17.380 then he gave me his information to like get him a system so it's pretty simple i mean i can
06:03:24.580 get hook you up wait madison they can't see everybody in the chat that if they send her up 0.99
06:03:28.420 if they need a security system that i'm gonna grow with the deals people either love me or they hate
06:03:33.220 me they love me because they get them a deal or they hate me because i knocked on their door jake is
06:03:37.700 so fine take the helmet off okay thank you much appreciated oh no don't you don't know keep it on
06:03:43.940 someone else's good to speak so you don't think i'm fine no you are fine with the helmet though
06:03:49.380 speak deeper i can i can hear my voice like reverberating around my did we read this one
06:03:54.340 madison versus sophia in the boxing fight winner gets the baby i read that yeah sophia might be coming 0.99
06:03:59.860 on tuesday so maybe you guys can who is sophia yeah i don't know the chat i guess is maybe simping
06:04:08.020 for her i don't know can you fight madison was she cool um my my dad has taught me a few moves
06:04:17.940 is your dad on the asian side yes okay so he can fight well both my parents are on the asian side 0.98
06:04:25.620 um hospitalized a guy a bit of winchang your dad hospitalized a guy yeah damn i don't really want 0.96
06:04:32.500 actually i probably shouldn't even says is your dad in the mafia maybe okay good times we had while 0.85
06:04:42.660 you were gone madison we had a girl on who was a vietnamese and a lot of people were suspecting that
06:04:52.100 maybe she was affiliated with the snake the snake which i guess is like some organized crime thing 0.97
06:04:58.660 what would be surprised those vietnamese man they like control the heroin they're crazy 1.00
06:05:03.060 well i'm not oh you're not no i thought you were vietnamese no huh you've been misleading me this 0.97
06:05:09.860 entire time no you never asked me i thought you were vietnamese that's kind of that's kind of messed
06:05:14.180 up that you didn't know that you're like why is that messed up well you are vietnamese come on 0.91
06:05:19.060 man she's from thailand i'm thai no you're not okay i'm vietnamese guys you were vietnamese i'm vietnamese
06:05:26.180 guys no i'm not i've never told you that ever no i'm pretty sure you told me brian this is yet
06:05:31.780 another reason to cancel you this evening right because i asked if she was well this is i think
06:05:36.900 the second time you've racially profiled someone now yeah brian am i incorrectly i'm still deeply
06:05:45.300 offended what about what oh that i that you miss raced me i miss raced you oh you called her white
06:05:52.660 so are you not white she's you're half white yeah i'm i'm i'm half mixed european and then i'm half
06:05:59.140 indian asian like asian indian oh really yeah like as in india india yeah really you don't know
06:06:04.980 you need wait what's your can you share your last name patel oh yeah that's indian
06:06:11.300 trust me there's there's hundreds there's millions of priya patels in the world one of them's the uh 0.98
06:06:16.180 foreign foreign affairs secretary or something in the united kingdom have you been pretty 0.99
06:06:20.980 here yeah cool good times wait what were you saying aubrey you're talking shit yeah she was just 0.99
06:06:29.140 saying that you're racially profound oh wait so what about you're gonna get cancelled what was that 0.99
06:06:34.900 looking like michael jackson impersonator what i know i'm not gonna lie i used to love michael jackson when
06:06:41.220 i was a kid i did a school project on on like his music when i was probably like seven years old
06:06:46.420 because i do look like with the with the baby and i still love his music yeah yeah rest in peace
06:06:54.100 what we're gonna do is we're gonna have madison fight do a boxing match with sophia and then we're 1.00
06:07:00.420 gonna have kiko either go up against taytay or nikki the kind of uh the the girl with the spider 0.93
06:07:10.420 tattoo on her neck i casually saw kiko walking down the street today i was just like eating a 0.90
06:07:14.740 burger and i did you like fangirl no but i had a second i literally like did like a double take
06:07:19.540 like i watched her walk by and i was like wait were you on state street i was just i was at the habit
06:07:24.180 as in rage quick kika rage quickly here i was i was really i was low-key hoping that she'd be
06:07:29.460 i don't know honestly i've just been like walking around yeah no i see her like i see her like every
06:07:34.900 weekend i was trying to get her she works like downtown like a club brian i was really i was
06:07:39.380 actually kind of scared to come on here this was very tame compared to what i was
06:07:45.140 well first of all i think i talked to a couple of the girls we were all scared that we were going
06:07:49.060 to be like the only like kind of conservative girls on here i would have had your back if you 1.00
06:07:55.300 i know i thought about that too yeah well the panel was pretty stacked i think um i mean i thought
06:08:01.940 it was a good conversation but it was pretty tame like there wasn't a ton that we thought it was
06:08:06.660 boring i was fully ready to come like argue with people if there was a bit of purple hair on the
06:08:10.980 other side it would have been well there's the girl here in the middle who blasted tats like 1.00
06:08:16.980 yeah i was expecting a little pushback from her i was like a tiny bit but then i feel like there
06:08:23.700 were so many people with the same viewpoint in regards to certain things that like it kind of
06:08:30.100 just like i noticed like at one point or another there was just like three people against her not
06:08:35.060 like against but like just with opposing arguments yeah yeah it's tough like if it's not balanced like
06:08:41.700 if there's one girl who's like would otherwise challenge us if like she feels like she's gonna get
06:08:48.580 dogpiled then they're gonna be like a little more reserved with like vocalizing their they need a
06:08:54.420 big gail power around them yeah so that well you you hit them with the what'd you say earlier i think 0.98
06:09:01.060 you said slay queen or something stupid like that yeah i think you said yes queen yes queen 0.98
06:09:07.460 um not much better the soup chat we have steel surfer uh priya can you read this one for us brian's flannel 0.98
06:09:14.100 game is over 9 000. recommend buttercloth shirts for the style what's everyone's opinion on a man
06:09:20.020 dating multiple women but tells the girls that they have to be monogamous with him based
06:09:25.380 doesn't that come across as hypocritical come to dallas thank you thank you steel surfer for the uh
06:09:30.340 uh soup chairman um
06:09:36.580 i'm not a fan anybody oh yeah i think that wait madison if frankie
06:09:42.900 no just no okay no yeah in terms of that i think it just depends on the people's preference
06:09:48.180 you get stacks of girls out there who are fine with it if it's a guy who's gonna be paying the bills and 1.00
06:09:54.580 yeah guys who are cool with that too i mean i wouldn't do it because it's one girl is enough 1.00
06:09:59.300 like yeah for myself like i'm not as worried about like i'm not as worried about like the
06:10:05.300 physical things that i'm getting as far as like if they're gonna pay for like this and that it's
06:10:09.860 more so like like what i want is like that intimacy that genuine connection with one person and for them
06:10:15.140 to feel the same way yeah i like i said i wouldn't i wouldn't be down with it but like i think there are
06:10:20.580 a lot of people who genuinely just that's their lifestyle you know and there are girls who are looking
06:10:24.500 to get provided for and they're not looking for anything deeper and then there are guys who are just
06:10:28.420 looking to have multiple chicks and there's been guys like that throughout history but yeah that
06:10:33.540 sounds like a headache to me what about during back in like the spartan days yeah i don't know all my
06:10:40.020 boys back in the spartan thermopoly i don't know how they would deal with numerous women because i 0.93
06:10:44.980 feel like one woman would be enough of like chaos if you've got stamina like a spot is that what you are 1.00
06:10:50.340 in your relationships chaos i mean like no not necessarily chaos but like i definitely have my moments
06:10:55.140 where it's like like i'd get a little bit tired and then like a little grumpy that's why you have
06:11:00.900 to date wait nick can you pull up uh can you can you pull up aubrey's you have to do what you have to
06:11:06.740 date instagram oh my gosh no he was actually yeah it's in the description he was like the sweetest guy
06:11:12.500 ever too it was like the most unexpected thing it was a dui it was a dui yeah he wasn't pushing and the
06:11:18.660 assault was like oh because he was out of it because it because it was yuki needs a dating
06:11:23.940 coach but that was because of drugs which brings zirka and that was before are you gonna bring zucker 1.00
06:11:28.740 on brian i mean he was he was in la uh this past week and we were in contact and he was gonna maybe
06:11:41.220 come on the show do you have any any negative any bad feelings towards zirka or you guys have you guys
06:11:47.060 squashed the beef uh there's no there's no beef but and i don't know if he's gonna end up seeing this
06:11:54.340 uh i i'm like he says some wild on twitter and i don't know if he's trolling or if he's serious but 0.78
06:12:05.940 he says some pretty wild shit on twitter so i think he's like a he's a comedian he says in his
06:12:13.300 twitter bio that he's a comedian so i don't know if i take it so if you're able to put it back up 0.88
06:12:18.340 there thanks man i don't know if i like five five more minutes take it fully seriously but um these
06:12:24.100 days we have like in the attention economy you know you have to sort of there are people who like
06:12:28.900 you know have to say outrageous no you're right you're right um do you have aubrey's or actually before
06:12:34.980 you do that let me do uh we have sandeep penta here wait put it back for a sec
06:12:43.460 yo sandeep thank you for the uh super chat and i think this he meant to write this
06:12:48.340 is this really happening live like this yeah we're live right now it's 1 15 a.m here in california
06:12:54.900 it is i've got to drive to lax at 5 a.m oh you didn't get a hotel yeah i've got a hotel but oh but
06:13:02.100 you have to leave my flight's at 10 probably best to not sleep at that point sleep on the flight
06:13:08.100 yeah i'm gonna have to drive for three hours where where are you flying to um miami oh you're going to
06:13:13.060 my are you going on fnf or not no no no i didn't i didn't know those guys but yeah what are you doing
06:13:18.740 out in miami then um we're just gonna work for a week to be honest i've always wanted to check out
06:13:22.820 miami yo guys should rattlesnake be co-host are you down down to be the co-host of whatever i'm
06:13:31.140 looking for a co-host because everyone shit talks me in the chat and uh who said afl isn't a real 0.81
06:13:37.460 sport okay oh he's that's uh that's one of our mods nemesis i'll tell you what he's in australia 0.98
06:13:44.660 rattlesnake tv is going to be hitting the road in the next few months and we're going to be getting
06:13:49.060 buying a van a minivan or a truck or a bus of some sort and we're going to be i haven't actually
06:13:54.260 told anyone this yet putting some logos on the side creating a little studio so in america
06:14:00.420 probably in america yeah yeah that's going to happen in the future is this going to be your
06:14:04.260 first time in florida yeah okay it's only my second time in la it's actually nice up here i
06:14:08.820 wouldn't i wouldn't stay for very long in in la but i do like it i have a feeling you'll like you'll
06:14:13.780 like florida i spend the winters in florida and i absolutely adore it yeah i'm looking forward to it
06:14:18.900 bougie apparently you guys want to take out whatever international brian is this is this just
06:14:23.860 conjecture well i mean i have entertained like franchising whatever so basically giving someone
06:14:30.180 the framework to start their own thing like this and we bring it to a market like in
06:14:34.740 could be in south america it could be in asia it could be in europe it could be in australia
06:14:38.900 and basically and then we give them the framework here's how we do our setup we give them the technical
06:14:45.300 knowledge we'll we'll even i mean this is this is not anything i'm planning to do immediately but
06:14:51.620 we would fly out to their location turnkey give them basically set them up with a podcast studio
06:14:58.500 because i did all this shit on my own so i figured out all the fucking technical issues i was doing 0.97
06:15:03.220 youtube for 10 years but i used to watch videos yeah i've been doing youtube for 10 years but like 0.97
06:15:08.660 figuring out audio stuff like because i you know video stuff i was decent with but audio stuff like
06:15:14.340 that's a whole nother in some ways that's more complex than than video so i'm thinking like okay
06:15:19.860 franchise this shit like fight club every city like bunch of cities you could have a show you know and 0.86
06:15:26.260 it'd have to be san barbara is not not an ideal location to do this because it should be in la to be honest 0.97
06:15:32.180 but there this there's a serious market for this i reckon if you had a show in london where you could
06:15:36.980 get get because you know pearl yeah yeah she's in london but she might be moving to the states
06:15:42.820 that would be a good vibe though because like london also has such an like an eclectic group of 0.89
06:15:46.980 people as well so yeah but then you get stabbed and shit so i don't know about true no i wouldn't 0.69
06:15:51.220 be that happens in l i would have a franchise i could definitely do a franchise um i think that'd be a good 0.92
06:15:56.660 idea not and not only do we set them up with you know here's how to run the podcast here's all our
06:16:03.540 like knowledge that we've developed here's like what we send out like i have a i have like i could
06:16:10.100 write a book on this whole podcast setup um we also offer cross promotion so we say okay
06:16:17.220 franchise boom we'll uh we'll promote you every quarter you can come be on the show something
06:16:23.380 something like that this is just like big picture stuff that i was thinking about
06:16:27.140 um in order for for me to be interested in doing something like this we're talking like
06:16:31.700 you know like mid six figures you know for me to actually want to like spend my time like helping
06:16:37.620 someone set this up but um anyways let's move on from that uh wait so just curious you're on a flight
06:16:46.580 in three hours four hours or you have to leave i'm getting up at 4 30 i have to leave at
06:16:52.340 five and then i've got to be i'm going to be at lax at around eight flights at 10. i've got to i've
06:16:58.180 hired a car so i've got to go and drop that off and then okay into the airport but mate i'm fine
06:17:02.980 i've done a lot less sleep we've like sometimes like in asia and stuff we've had to do one hour
06:17:07.540 sleep and go film for the whole day so it's all good it's it's a good amount of sleep on the flight
06:17:11.940 what about you guys what are your plans um you guys kicking in the bus at noon tomorrow going back
06:17:17.860 to lax and then going home what about you priya i'm driving back to santa clarita tonight you're oh
06:17:24.900 you're in santa clarita that's like uh hour and a half los angeles ish like suburbs okay gotcha what
06:17:32.900 about you i'm heading to the airport after this hell yeah rock and roll uh very cool okay uh oh we
06:17:40.820 have to react to aubrey's instagram let's do it by the way guys super chats we'll do oh i should have
06:17:45.380 updated it in the description we're going to do super chats uh just 1999 and not before you do that
06:17:50.820 enjoy florida my state go to space club and versailles restaurant that's from mr meatball thank you man
06:17:57.380 how come my my instagram is the one of choice here i don't know i don't somehow it came up i think
06:18:02.660 i don't know uh jason witala brian's got to find a mini me and do the austin powers accent for a whole
06:18:08.900 show you know what's crazy guys is i have a friend who's a dwarf and i've invited him on but he's very 0.95
06:18:17.300 flaky and here's the problem though he's mexican oh holy shit that sounds so bad no no no like 0.98
06:18:27.540 i don't i don't mean it's bad i didn't mean it like that bro you're gonna barricade the 0.99
06:18:32.740 doors that's the most mexican place i've ever seen that's not what i mean i mean i'm white
06:18:39.940 mini me has to be like the same skin like oh my god jesus christ you're digging yourself a bigger hole 0.99
06:18:47.300 some dickhead is gonna clip that shit be like yo brian's but everyone's gonna be like everyone's 0.98
06:18:53.620 gonna be like big w for the impression somebody's gonna clip bro i didn't mean like that son i did 0.99
06:18:58.740 not mean that well i'm trying to say bro what listen and you're in libtown
06:19:08.180 this is this is what i meant austin powers if you're not familiar with the movie mini me looks
06:19:13.620 just like dr evil okay he looks just like him so my friend groovy baby paul okay his name's paul
06:19:23.540 okay he happens to have a much darker complexion than me he can't be my mini me okay unless i get
06:19:30.420 a 10. okay okay all right is it good this is aubrey's instagram are you still talking like this
06:19:42.020 okay we're going to scroll down oh put it on gh guys the top sources the whole instagram thing i'm
06:19:47.700 just starting to the very top one uh click the eyeball it's kind of symbolic but i was also just
06:19:54.420 why is there a man's head clean it up a little bit cool oh that's my brother's head because i do
06:19:58.500 hair let's scroll down let's go to the very bottom let's see the embarrassing photos that's right go
06:20:04.180 for it she's pretty i used to be blonde oh oh there we go you know what very different let's do the 0.98
06:20:09.380 one with the hat click on that first one oh shit you were kind of blocking it can you do you still go 0.87
06:20:16.660 to bring them university no that was just okay i don't know why oh yeah you can do that oh yeah 0.96
06:20:22.900 that's oh there's i don't wear any of that stuff anymore scoot the other one over there and scoot
06:20:27.220 it over yeah no no no i was like my one of my parents sweatshirts i think i think that was my
06:20:31.220 mom my mom went to that university so i think that was her here i want you to do control z 0.98
06:20:37.460 no no no now you're fucking shut up major control z control z again control z again 0.99
06:20:44.340 okay good well oh my god you know the honeycombs oh my god we're safe trying to clean up my account 0.99
06:20:48.660 a little bit so it's like adding the little space blockers in there because 0.95
06:20:52.420 my instagram's not your aesthetic you guys i'm just i'm so some dipshit's gonna 0.99
06:20:58.500 fucking clip that fuck brian you know how you can solve the problem of finding yourself a mini me 1.00
06:21:06.100 yeah have a kid have a child just do it that's the perfect mini me are you kidding 1.00
06:21:11.380 i'm ready slow down there you'll pay for the day i've been noticing your nurturing abilities with
06:21:21.460 that baby and i'm impressed yeah i'm like aubrey deforming her baby this baby looks seriously
06:21:29.540 uncomfortable look at his facial expression here's the thing is i was trying to like hold it in a
06:21:33.300 better way but you were doing some very inappropriate things okay don't say that
06:21:37.940 you're doing some inappropriate things okay all i'll say is that his legs were backwards at one
06:21:42.180 point in time that's yeah i don't know he's just an acrobat
06:21:45.060 launch the little african baby i just like wait i just want my kids to do what they want to do and if
06:21:49.220 he wants to you know dude is this audible hold on oh my god okay we're good and i'm the one who's
06:21:58.340 your neighbors were like stop dropping your african baby again well he said that's what he said he had 0.99
06:22:02.740 right and that was probably strike four you punch them what do you mean strike four do you know what 1.00
06:22:05.700 color that doll is what the bro you're the one making it weird now what the f**k 1.00
06:22:10.420 brian why did you have the babies again here i'll drop the white one too equality 1.00
06:22:13.860 quality yeah yeah drop kick that yeah that one's not as heavy somehow i don't know okay let me read
06:22:24.020 this we have uh super rc brian great pod down to co-host priya looks hella cute especially with hat 1.00
06:22:29.700 on what sport do you play i played pro sport two i'm an equestrian i ride horses okay good times
06:22:38.740 good times great classic thank you great times wait what were we what were we talking about before
06:22:45.460 that doctor the doctor evil awesome is it a good accent is it good accent w for the uh impression i'd
06:22:52.500 say is it okay like is it decent it was pretty decent i'm sorry i think we're gonna get copyrighted
06:22:58.100 because everyone's gonna think it's austin powers the actual movie i'm gonna think that you're
06:23:02.740 stitching the audio in someone just did a rating except grace isn't here so i don't know who he's
06:23:12.980 referring to uh blair blair says it's a hundred out of ten pretty good okay please keep going with
06:23:22.260 the dr evil brian drop kicked the baby mixture of trump and dr evil it's a great accent resembles a
06:23:30.500 spirit of trump oh it's trump okay it was more like a trump china china listen we have the great
06:23:40.500 wait i'm trying to think what what does he say i have the best words the best words oh wow
06:23:47.700 he does like uh he does like a no he's very audible with his hands
06:23:52.180 oh he does that doesn't he goes when he's making a joke he goes he does it's the it's the lion ted
06:24:00.980 lion ted trying to someone give me a prompt
06:24:05.860 fab what is what's his like main thing that you say with the great
06:24:09.140 maga i'm gonna make great i'm gonna make america great again no no no not that huge huge
06:24:14.180 huge billions and billions and billions i don't know if i can do trump i don't know if i can do trump
06:24:19.620 anybody anybody here can do trump anybody anybody here can do an accent i can do a french accent go
06:24:28.500 ahead let's hear it what do you want me to say say i would i don't know um just go
06:24:37.380 i am not very impressed by these americans and they're only fans i'm not impressed by your 0.99
06:24:50.820 performance nice i like to do the um hey what's going on in here do i look like a fucking asshole to 0.99
06:24:58.740 you that's pretty good that's pretty good 1960s new york like italian i used to be able to do a dora 0.92
06:25:04.020 voice but oh my god have you seen the sopranos maybe we could do like a jersey sopranos type thing like 0.70
06:25:11.220 i'm trying to think how i can get into the sopranos listen 1.00
06:25:15.300 a gabba ghoul don't don't don't ever fuck me okay don't ever fuck me 1.00
06:25:20.820 okay i'm cool with that like how about how about a vorat impression can either of you do they're 1.00
06:25:28.340 nice they're nice i like you i like a sex it's nice 0.99
06:25:33.140 this is my sister she's number three prostitute in all of kazakhstan 1.00
06:25:36.500 give me your tears gypsy that's a good don't shrink me gypsy 1.00
06:25:42.260 do not shrink me gypsum can you pull up the song the borat dance song we'll play like throw the
06:26:00.020 jew down the world 0.99
06:26:10.740 i'll get clipped not you it's fine 0.99
06:26:15.540 yeah it's the borat dancing song people are already saying you're clipped brian what aussie i can do
06:26:21.620 you do a london accent
06:26:22.820 f-11 f-11
06:26:33.220 i don't it's probably going to get copyright let's not do it because i don't want i want to avoid
06:26:39.460 copyright um
06:26:44.260 any anyone else any impressions
06:26:45.940 i'm trying to think you name it you can't jinx a um no maybe not if i'm losing maybe next time
06:26:58.660 maybe next time if i have a chance to catch the jinx someone said indian accents are their favorite for
06:27:03.620 some reason
06:27:07.540 you know what's interesting is there's some accents are okay to do
06:27:11.220 and other accents are not okay is borat okay to do is is an indian accent okay to do no no
06:27:19.940 no why not you cannot do it no all i know are the ones i'm indian so
06:27:23.780 those are the only ones i i give you the pass brian but they're not talking now
06:27:28.900 they're not talking the indians and omegle they're doing other things
06:27:31.620 like you can't okay oh my god
06:27:39.860 disavow i disavow 0.85
06:27:44.500 but yeah i mean yeah you can't like it would you you could not do as a white person you you could
06:27:49.860 definitely i don't think you're allowed to do an indian accent like an asian accent or like a black
06:27:56.100 accent so why is that though is the world just too sensitive now nobody can i'm not sure why that
06:28:02.340 is i don't know can you do an indian accent there you go that was really canceled okay you name it
06:28:11.140 i've got it but if but if he's able to nail the accent i don't know if you can cancel him they might
06:28:15.220 think i'm actually in comedians can do it yeah is it uh everyone wants you to do an indian accent
06:28:22.500 wait did we read this one who needs a duck a wiggy model aubrey can you read this awesome after show 0.66
06:28:30.980 great panel tonight great to see some beautiful based women still exist priya you willing to move 1.00
06:28:35.780 out to east coast for the right guy uh i
06:28:43.940 yeah i mean florida's it 0.97
06:28:46.660 and then we have claudia try south african accent oh fuck i feel like i can kind of do it 0.96
06:28:57.540 this is africa no no no south african like african i was doing leonardo di caprio 0.97
06:29:05.780 blood diamond oh oh wait let me hear more
06:29:07.700 what does he say uh tia this is africa we need to get some petroleum look at me
06:29:20.580 where is the diamond no that's not i feel like i am they took a
06:29:25.620 it's like i'm actually i've got to talk here they took a bit like a little bit 0.97
06:29:32.340 fuck i don't know is this right here this is kind of like no no no no don't be going 0.97
06:29:38.580 don't be going let's do australian oh the australian yeah the thing is with australian 0.99
06:29:44.980 you call that a knife this is a knife yeah okay that's all right it wasn't too bad it wasn't too
06:29:51.940 bad you don't want to do new zealand though because that's when things get very dark when you go to that
06:29:56.260 side of the pond yes yeah they all love sheeps a bit too much unfortunately my kiwi brethren to the east 0.98
06:30:06.820 i don't know i don't know south african it's a bit like certificate it's a bit up here
06:30:13.620 oh wait i don't know okay never mind okay um all right let's uh let's call it there let's wrap up
06:30:20.020 there guys thank you for tuning in to the after show uh this is probably our longest stream ever i can't
06:30:26.020 i need to stop doing this i need to wrap the shows at like three hours but uh yeah anyways um
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