Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #86

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00:02:17.840 Without further ado,

00:02:18.620 we're going to have the guests

00:02:19.800 introduce themselves.

00:02:20.520 So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:02:22.900 Go ahead.

00:02:23.620 I'm SCM24,

00:02:25.080 and I'm a social media manager,

00:02:26.560 and I also do OnlyFans.

00:02:28.760 Okay, welcome.

00:02:30.140 NIE21, student, and OnlyFans.

00:02:34.100 Welcome back.

00:02:35.220 Hi, I'm Karen. 0.86

00:02:36.200 I'm 31, and I'm a porn star. 0.72

00:02:38.880 All right, what about you? 0.96

00:02:40.060 I'm Brooke.

00:02:40.720 I'm 24, and I do content online,

00:02:43.420 such as OnlyFans.

00:02:44.760 Okay.

00:02:45.640 I'm Azalea.

00:02:46.620 I'm 31.

00:02:47.440 I'm an aviation worker

00:02:48.460 and an OnlyFans girl.

00:02:49.680 When you say aviation worker,

00:02:52.480 what do you mean by that?

00:02:53.420 I work on planes.

00:02:54.760 Are you the baggage loader?

00:02:56.500 No, I'm a flight attendant.

00:02:57.860 Oh, you're a flight attendant.

00:02:59.060 Yes.

00:02:59.460 Okay.

00:03:00.840 Domestic or international, or both?

00:03:02.800 Both.

00:03:03.880 Is there one that's more primary?

00:03:06.980 Honestly, wherever in the world

00:03:08.160 they want to send me.

00:03:09.520 Okay.

00:03:10.020 Are you, like, major airliner?

00:03:13.120 Yes.

00:03:13.580 Can you disclose which airliner?

00:03:15.100 No.

00:03:15.660 That's fine.

00:03:16.300 That's fine.

00:03:16.640 What about you?

00:03:17.340 Hi.

00:03:17.640 My name is Allie Hardesty,

00:03:19.020 a.k.a.

00:03:19.440 Allie Gators.

00:03:20.360 I'm a YouTuber, OnlyFans model,

00:03:22.500 and I also have my own podcast.

00:03:24.620 Okay.

00:03:25.280 My name's Nev.

00:03:26.160 I'm 20, and I make and sell soap.

00:03:29.180 Bro, that's not what you're a student

00:03:30.400 at UCSB.

00:03:31.700 You don't sell soap.

00:03:32.940 Yes, I do.

00:03:33.840 I do.

00:03:34.380 I do.

00:03:34.660 I do sell soap on the side.

00:03:36.040 Where?

00:03:36.240 On Etsy?

00:03:37.320 No, no.

00:03:37.960 I just sell soap.

00:03:38.940 Just, like, on the street corner?

00:03:40.500 I sell soap.

00:03:41.940 All right.

00:03:42.420 Okay, cool.

00:03:43.240 Wait, sorry.

00:03:43.800 What was your age again?

00:03:45.320 26.

00:03:45.940 26.

00:03:46.440 Thank you.

00:03:46.800 Thank you.

00:03:47.960 Okay.

00:03:48.880 What about you?

00:03:49.580 My name's Amy Dangerfield.

00:03:50.960 I'm 27, and I do high-ticket sales.

00:03:53.660 High-ticket sales.

00:03:54.440 What's that?

00:03:55.680 High-ticket sales is just selling a product

00:03:57.520 or service that's high in value,

00:03:59.360 so usually over $10,000.

00:04:01.660 But I've worked in industries such as BDAS,

00:04:03.960 big data as a service, automation,

00:04:05.900 and recently education and courses.

00:04:09.000 Okay.

00:04:10.940 What about you?

00:04:12.160 My name is Naomi.

00:04:13.180 I'm 31.

00:04:14.080 I'm a respiratory therapist,

00:04:15.220 and I also do worship leading at church.

00:04:18.000 Worship lead?

00:04:18.600 Are you a pastor?

00:04:20.220 Oh, you're a musician.

00:04:20.880 Yeah, me and my twin sister.

00:04:22.380 Me and my twin sister both.

00:04:23.620 Okay, rock and roll.

00:04:25.680 Okay.

00:04:26.800 Just going back to you,

00:04:28.440 you say you do big-ticket sales.

00:04:30.680 High-ticket sales.

00:04:31.220 High-ticket sales.

00:04:31.980 Yes, sir.

00:04:32.460 Do you sell art?

00:04:33.860 No.

00:04:34.060 So high-ticket sales just means a product

00:04:35.700 or service over $10,000,

00:04:37.600 and so you make a percentage commission

00:04:40.220 of whatever product or service you sell,

00:04:43.480 depending on, you know,

00:04:44.880 obviously the company or industry.

00:04:46.040 Yeah, what's an example of, like,

00:04:47.200 something you might sell?

00:04:48.580 Yeah, for sure.

00:04:49.500 So currently I am working an offer

00:04:51.580 in the real estate industry.

00:04:53.160 They offer a mentorship.

00:04:54.900 The guy in question has flipped,

00:04:57.060 like, over 1,200 properties

00:04:58.620 over a period of, like, a decade,

00:05:00.420 and so he sells a mentorship service

00:05:02.920 that is, like, $10,000 to $15,000.

00:05:05.360 So when I help facilitate that sale,

00:05:08.940 I get a percentage of the overall commission.

00:05:11.780 Okay.

00:05:12.300 Of the overall, you know, price,

00:05:14.240 which is my commission.

00:05:15.820 Rock and roll.

00:05:16.400 Very cool.

00:05:16.880 Okay, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:05:18.780 So current relationship status.

00:05:21.880 So are you single, talking stage,

00:05:23.800 situationship, friends with benefits,

00:05:25.860 relationship, married?

00:05:27.960 If you're single, how long have you been single

00:05:29.900 and your longest relationship?

00:05:33.500 Go ahead.

00:05:34.420 Oh, I really don't want to answer this.

00:05:36.080 I'm single, and I've been single for six years.

00:05:38.840 Okay, single for six years.

00:05:41.500 What was your longest relationship?

00:05:44.100 I think it was, like, six months.

00:05:45.800 It was when I was, like...

00:05:47.420 In high school?

00:05:48.100 ...17, yeah.

00:05:49.080 Yeah, because you're 24, right?

00:05:50.400 So six years ago, you were then...

00:05:52.540 Six years ago, that was your six-month relationship.

00:05:55.940 Right.

00:05:56.660 Okay, it ended six years ago.

00:05:58.540 Oh, hello.

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00:06:26.640 Okay, so six years, been single.

00:06:30.860 Longest relationship, six months.

00:06:32.220 It was, like, a high school romance.

00:06:35.440 Why have you been single for six years?

00:06:37.040 What's going on?

00:06:39.360 I've dated off and on.

00:06:41.820 I don't know.

00:06:43.620 I don't know why.

00:06:44.420 I know why I've been single.

00:06:45.640 I'm working on my character defects right now,

00:06:47.380 which is probably, feeds into why I've been single for so long.

00:06:50.340 Character defects.

00:06:51.620 Yeah, yeah.

00:06:52.420 I have, like, a bad habit of, like, ignoring red flags

00:06:54.820 and dating people that are bad for me

00:06:57.100 because I'm used to, like, the toxic behavior.

00:06:59.220 So I'm trying to, like, take contrary action

00:07:01.180 to not do that in the hopes of getting into a healthy relationship.

00:07:05.000 How's that working out?

00:07:07.360 It's working really good, actually.

00:07:08.580 Yeah.

00:07:08.700 It's getting better, yeah.

00:07:09.920 I think with practice and, like, dating over time,

00:07:12.040 I'll probably find somebody.

00:07:13.200 When's the last time you dated a guy

00:07:14.660 who you ignored the red flags for?

00:07:17.720 I'd say, like, a year ago.

00:07:19.080 A year ago.

00:07:19.600 Yeah.

00:07:19.860 Okay.

00:07:20.240 Yeah.

00:07:20.800 And that was, like, a short-term situationship type thing?

00:07:22.940 It was, like, six months of dating.

00:07:24.940 Yeah.

00:07:25.640 Okay.

00:07:26.040 So, I mean, that's fairly recent.

00:07:27.720 But you still considered yourself single in that?

00:07:31.800 Yeah.

00:07:32.160 There was, like, no conversation about exclusivity

00:07:35.220 until that six months when I brought it up.

00:07:37.960 And then he was like,

00:07:38.840 I just don't think I'm comfortable with being exclusive.

00:07:41.760 And I was like,

00:07:42.180 well, what was this whole six months of getting to know each other for?

00:07:45.700 Good times.

00:07:47.540 You mentioned character defects.

00:07:49.960 What are we talking about here?

00:07:51.760 Yeah.

00:07:52.000 My character defects are just things that are, like,

00:07:53.840 my fault and what I do wrong to, like, 0.98

00:07:56.400 have, like, these toxic, shitty relationships. 0.98

00:08:00.240 So, yeah, like I said, 0.98

00:08:01.200 like, I just have a bad habit of, like, wanting to be loved.

00:08:03.760 So, I, like, take on people that, like, are serial daters

00:08:08.100 or, like, me, like, ignoring those red flags and other people.

00:08:13.520 Yeah.

00:08:14.140 I, like, yeah, basically would just date people that were bad for me,

00:08:19.340 if that makes sense.

00:08:20.600 Okay.

00:08:21.380 Got it.

00:08:22.660 But for that, for a six-year period,

00:08:24.380 you haven't had, for example, a boyfriend?

00:08:27.140 No.

00:08:27.740 Okay.

00:08:28.020 No, unfortunately.

00:08:28.720 And is that because you just haven't found the right guy or?

00:08:32.760 Yeah.

00:08:33.100 I think it's just a process of, like,

00:08:35.520 fixing myself so I'm ready for the right partner.

00:08:38.120 But also, like,

00:08:38.880 there's certain things that I feel like you can't fix being single.

00:08:41.640 There's, like, things that you have to work on

00:08:43.180 while being in a relationship with somebody or dating somebody.

00:08:46.360 So, I think, yeah, it just takes time.

00:08:48.840 Have you ever slashed somebody's tires?

00:08:50.940 I have not.

00:08:51.700 Okay.

00:08:51.900 I have not.

00:08:52.160 I'm not making, I was just curious.

00:08:54.200 I was, I'm not making assumptions.

00:08:55.780 I don't know.

00:08:56.060 What about you?

00:08:57.160 I'm single.

00:08:58.180 I've been single for two years.

00:09:00.080 My longest relationship was a little over a year.

00:09:05.320 Okay.

00:09:06.000 You've been single for two years, you said?

00:09:07.640 Yeah.

00:09:08.240 Any, so you were last on the podcast a couple months ago.

00:09:12.020 Any little situations popping up since your appearance?

00:09:15.300 Any dudes sliding into the DMs? 0.99

00:09:17.580 Yeah, a lot of them.

00:09:18.860 Okay.

00:09:19.020 But not that I'm interested.

00:09:20.120 None that you're interested in.

00:09:21.020 Yeah.

00:09:21.400 Okay.

00:09:22.060 All right.

00:09:22.180 But I have talked to, like, a few guys.

00:09:24.560 Okay.

00:09:25.520 Or maybe just one guy, I think.

00:09:27.820 No, no, no romances in recent history?

00:09:31.320 I fall in love very fast.

00:09:32.940 Really fast.

00:09:33.720 Yeah.

00:09:34.160 You fall out of love very fast, too.

00:09:36.180 Yeah, I do.

00:09:37.020 Okay, good times.

00:09:38.000 Good times.

00:09:38.260 But then I end up missing them.

00:09:39.420 Like, I'll leave first, and then I'll be like, no, come back.

00:09:41.500 Sure.

00:09:42.460 What about you?

00:09:43.420 And just one note, just, if you can,

00:09:45.800 scoot a little bit into the table,

00:09:47.100 because you are getting a little bit blocked.

00:09:48.620 But go ahead.

00:09:49.480 Go ahead.

00:09:50.040 Okay, so I'm single,

00:09:52.000 and I've been single for about two months.

00:09:55.280 Two months, okay.

00:09:56.220 Yeah.

00:09:57.240 Longest relationship?

00:09:58.620 About two years.

00:10:00.060 And was that your last relationship?

00:10:02.020 No.

00:10:02.940 Okay.

00:10:03.820 So single for two months.

00:10:05.400 All right.

00:10:06.080 What about you?

00:10:07.300 Okay, so I'm in a relationship that's over a year now.

00:10:10.920 Okay.

00:10:11.240 And my longest relationship was a year and a half.

00:10:14.000 Got it.

00:10:14.720 What about you?

00:10:17.660 I'm in a relationship.

00:10:18.920 I have been for about a year and a half,

00:10:20.840 and my longest relationship is two years.

00:10:24.260 Okay.

00:10:25.740 And question.

00:10:27.440 So you're a flight attendant, right?

00:10:28.940 Yes.

00:10:29.820 How often do you have flights?

00:10:31.960 Once a week, twice a week, three times a week?

00:10:33.520 It depends on the month.

00:10:34.740 This month, I'm on call for work,

00:10:36.460 so it could be four flights a week.

00:10:39.080 It could be six days a week that I'm gone.

00:10:42.340 It just really depends.

00:10:43.160 Do you take your partner boyfriend with you?

00:10:48.160 He's on my flight benefits,

00:10:49.680 so if he's free and wants to come with me,

00:10:52.100 he's more than welcome to.

00:10:53.800 Okay.

00:10:54.680 But maybe he has a job,

00:10:56.200 so he can't always be going on flights with you.

00:10:56.840 Yeah, he owns a production company,

00:10:58.980 so he has a pretty busy freelance schedule,

00:11:02.360 so it kind of works out.

00:11:03.980 Okay.

00:11:04.540 Was that ever an issue,

00:11:06.040 either in previous relationships

00:11:07.360 or perhaps at the start of your current relationship,

00:11:10.060 like how frequently you were traveling?

00:11:13.420 Current relationship, not really an issue.

00:11:15.380 Previous relationships, definitely an issue.

00:11:18.220 It was kind of like I would date people

00:11:20.500 that it was very out of sight, out of mind,

00:11:22.360 so if I was gone, they didn't really care.

00:11:25.000 Okay.

00:11:25.400 Or, you know, yeah, that kind of thing.

00:11:27.640 Got it.

00:11:28.240 Okay.

00:11:29.280 What about you?

00:11:30.340 I feel like I would classify

00:11:31.900 a lot of my dating life as complicated,

00:11:34.200 but I'm single.

00:11:36.800 Complicated.

00:11:37.300 Okay.

00:11:38.220 Why is it complicated?

00:11:39.580 I was in a relationship.

00:11:41.380 I had met him near where I live.

00:11:43.520 I live in LA, well, Orange County,

00:11:45.600 but then they moved back

00:11:46.800 to where they're from across the country,

00:11:48.940 so it became long distance,

00:11:49.960 and then we ended up breaking up.

00:11:52.740 I was sort of in like a friends with benefits situation ship.

00:11:56.080 There's been a couple guys

00:11:57.700 I've romantically tried to pursue,

00:12:00.260 but nothing where it's been like committal again.

00:12:04.200 Okay.

00:12:05.060 What was your longest relationship?

00:12:07.580 Three years.

00:12:08.320 Three years.

00:12:08.980 How long has it been complicated?

00:12:12.160 Ever since we broke up.

00:12:13.680 Which was, sorry, remind me, when was that?

00:12:15.720 Like the end of 2021.

00:12:18.380 Okay.

00:12:19.220 So it's complicated,

00:12:20.660 so there's kind of a guy in the picture currently.

00:12:23.140 Mm, sometimes.

00:12:24.640 A girl in the picture?

00:12:25.620 Um, I feel like I'm really all over the place.

00:12:28.300 For a while I was seeing a girl.

00:12:29.960 Hold on, just a sec.

00:12:31.940 Hey, thanks, Cheeks. 0.92

00:12:33.140 Being on OF alone is a toxic trait,

00:12:35.400 and the only guy you of girls will get 1.00

00:12:37.420 are the Simpai boys without any self-respect 1.00

00:12:40.060 for their own family and friends.

00:12:42.640 Are there any decent women left 1.00

00:12:44.220 that aren't in the industry or scam artists?

00:12:47.220 Chat, don't sub slash simp to them.

00:12:50.360 Do you guys have a response to beaten cheeks?

00:12:52.700 Um, I would say that dating can be complicated

00:12:56.220 while having an OnlyFans,

00:12:57.400 but it's not impossible.

00:12:58.800 A lot of guys can deal with it

00:13:00.920 and are supportive, in my experience.

00:13:04.120 Anybody else want to respond to Mr. Cheeks?

00:13:07.900 I would say that all the women I know 1.00

00:13:09.280 that do have OnlyFans and participate in OnlyFans,

00:13:12.400 their boyfriends are usually the most supportive

00:13:14.540 and caring partners because they're not insecure.

00:13:17.040 What do you mean insecure?

00:13:21.120 Like, is it insecure for a guy

00:13:23.060 to not want to date someone who does sex work?

00:13:25.940 I mean, not necessarily,

00:13:27.400 but I mean, when you come with an opinion like that,

00:13:29.720 being all negative about it

00:13:30.960 and acting like women that do OnlyFans 1.00

00:13:32.660 have no sort of stake or, you know,

00:13:35.460 value in a relationship,

00:13:36.860 then I would call you insecure, yes.

00:13:38.560 Got it.

00:13:39.160 So you're saying Mr. Cheeks, beaten cheeks,

00:13:42.620 he's insecure.

00:13:45.120 Absolutely.

00:13:45.900 Okay.

00:13:46.840 Cheeks, all right, there you go. 0.65

00:13:49.400 Anybody else have a little clap back at Cheeks or?

00:13:54.340 I would like to say something.

00:13:56.280 Mr. Cheeks, if you are looking for a girlfriend,

00:13:58.400 I'm willing to quit OnlyFans

00:13:59.780 if you will support me full time.

00:14:01.540 I will cook for you, clean for you.

00:14:03.160 I will do anything that you need me to

00:14:04.940 as a supportive girlfriend.

00:14:06.520 Just hit me up after the podcast.

00:14:08.000 Thank you.

00:14:11.900 Okay, all right, there you go.

00:14:13.240 Well, Cheeks, so DMs are open for Cheeks?

00:14:16.280 Yes, yes.

00:14:17.600 Does it bother you at all

00:14:18.840 that his username is beaten cheeks?

00:14:20.880 Honestly, no, that intrigues me.

00:14:22.300 You're intrigued?

00:14:23.180 Yes.

00:14:23.780 Okay, all right.

00:14:25.100 I think this is perhaps one of your character flaws

00:14:27.140 is being intrigued by people

00:14:29.560 with strangely strange usernames on the internet.

00:14:33.880 So, okay, well, beaten cheeks for DMs are open.

00:14:37.260 Okay, well, thank you, man.

00:14:38.120 Appreciate it for your,

00:14:39.200 good to see you back in the chat.

00:14:40.260 Nev, what is the relationship?

00:14:43.560 Oh, I'm taken.

00:14:45.500 Oh, here we go.

00:14:46.800 Seven deadly sins donated $100.

00:14:49.560 Yeah, thank you.

00:14:50.100 777,000,000,000,000,000.

00:14:58.500 777,000,000,000,000, management,

00:15:00.420 seven 곱d, everyone.

00:15:02.560 Six, 6,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000.

00:15:06.220 777 quadrillion, 777 trillion, 777 billion, 777 million, 777 thousand, 777 name, 7 books.

00:15:21.100 Wow, 7 Deadly Sins, that was poetic.

00:15:25.380 Here, I almost want to do a coin flip because I won't have everybody name 7 books.

00:15:29.280 Okay, I'm going to try to get it right.

00:15:38.440 Name 7 books?

00:15:39.520 I don't read.

00:15:40.940 You read?

00:15:42.180 Not really.

00:15:43.520 You read?

00:15:44.200 You read in the comments.

00:15:45.620 Yeah, I read the comments.

00:15:47.060 I read my TikTok comments.

00:15:49.740 That's about it.

00:15:51.000 You read at an above college level.

00:15:55.900 No, I don't.

00:15:56.900 I read at like a 5th grade level.

00:16:00.140 I really don't.

00:16:01.300 I don't read.

00:16:03.080 It hurts me.

00:16:03.960 How about name 7 books?

00:16:04.920 It stresses me.

00:16:05.500 Yeah, okay.

00:16:06.220 So, non-fiction would be like Harry Potter, The Alchemist.

00:16:12.680 Fiction would be like Think and Grow Rich, Outwitting the Devil, How to Win Friends and

00:16:16.740 Influence People, 12 Rules of Life by Jordan Peterson.

00:16:20.500 And then, ooh, that's another good one that I really like.

00:16:22.840 No, no, no.

00:16:22.860 You said non-fiction for Harry Potter.

00:16:25.100 Oh, did I flip them around?

00:16:26.040 I meant fiction versus non-fiction.

00:16:27.760 Sorry about that.

00:16:28.900 And then the last one, ooh, Atomic Habits.

00:16:32.440 That's actually probably one of my favorite ones.

00:16:35.020 Oh, okay.

00:16:36.240 Did you have, you wanted to come in on this?

00:16:37.920 I was just going to point out that there's a bookshelf right behind you.

00:16:41.220 Oh, yeah.

00:16:42.280 I cheated.

00:16:43.220 I can't even read that far or see that far.

00:16:45.840 Clever.

00:16:46.460 Clever.

00:16:46.860 Okay.

00:16:48.060 All right.

00:16:48.940 Okay.

00:16:49.920 Nev, go ahead.

00:16:50.660 Genesis, in order.

00:16:52.940 Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy, Joshua, Judges, Ruth, Samuel, Kings, Chronicles.

00:16:58.200 That's like more than seven. 0.71

00:17:00.940 Also, die of a wimpy kid.

00:17:02.440 Dog days. 0.95

00:17:04.200 Word.

00:17:05.120 Relationship status stuff.

00:17:07.260 Oh, okay.

00:17:07.960 I am taken.

00:17:09.940 My longest relationship was two years.

00:17:12.720 What was the other question?

00:17:13.900 How long have you been in this relationship?

00:17:17.860 Well, I've been seeing him for a bit, but we've been officially dating him for two months.

00:17:22.440 So, question.

00:17:23.340 When you were last on, you were also in this kind of situation.

00:17:27.520 Is this the same guy or a different guy?

00:17:29.180 Same guy.

00:17:30.420 Okay.

00:17:30.860 Was he upset at all?

00:17:31.780 Because on the last show, you were kind of like simping for chase.

00:17:35.280 I wouldn't say I was simping.

00:17:36.220 I'd say I admired him.

00:17:37.260 You were enthralled by, just for the rest of the panel, for context, one of the other

00:17:43.180 male panelists on the show.

00:17:45.500 You were kind of into him, and you were kind of simping on him.

00:17:49.000 Mm-mm.

00:17:49.420 I was just like...

00:17:49.680 You were simping.

00:17:50.340 No, no, no, no.

00:17:50.900 Chat, was she simping? 0.94

00:17:51.800 No, I wasn't simping.

00:17:52.520 She was simping. 0.55

00:17:53.140 Mm-mm.

00:17:53.480 Did that have an impact on your relationship at all?

00:17:56.340 Yeah, it kind of did.

00:17:57.260 Was he upset?

00:17:58.060 He was upset, yeah.

00:17:59.040 But, again, I wasn't really simping.

00:18:01.020 I was just like, well, this guy's kind of cool.

00:18:04.280 Cool in a, I want to dump my boyfriend kind of thing.

00:18:07.120 No, no, no.

00:18:07.600 He's too old for me.

00:18:09.060 What?

00:18:09.400 He's 26, 20?

00:18:09.800 You're trying to start problems now.

00:18:11.120 No, I'm not trying to start problems.

00:18:12.020 No, no, no.

00:18:12.820 I just thought it was cool with his, like, Bible stuff.

00:18:15.180 Like, I, like, really...

00:18:16.060 Because, like, I grew up in a really, really cool household.

00:18:18.340 Oh, my...

00:18:18.900 Oh, my...

00:18:19.060 One sec.

00:18:21.320 Yeah, thank you, Cheeks.

00:18:21.960 I don't have lame TikTok.

00:18:23.740 Igol, Facebook, only Twitter.

00:18:25.700 Amy can back me on me being a real person from SauceCast, Live VIP event.

00:18:30.560 Bowtie Guy.

00:18:31.460 Oh, yeah.

00:18:31.700 Any girl that think I'm insecure because I don't want my women nude for my future kids 1.00

00:18:36.620 to see is delusional.

00:18:38.040 Shout out to you, Bowtie Guy.

00:18:39.800 Yeah.

00:18:40.340 Shout out, Bowtie Guy. 0.96

00:18:41.520 Shout out to you.

00:18:41.800 Okay.

00:18:43.640 Do you guys...

00:18:45.160 Go ahead.

00:18:47.240 It's not that you're insecure because you don't want to date a woman that has an OnlyFans. 0.99

00:18:51.500 You're insecure for speaking negatively on women that choose to do it.

00:18:54.540 You don't have to date an OnlyFans, girl.

00:18:56.320 You don't.

00:18:56.820 But speaking negatively on them does make you insecure.

00:18:59.780 Well, women oftentimes, like, belittle and make jokes about guys who are short, and oftentimes 1.00

00:19:03.500 things that guys, like, don't oftentimes have control over.

00:19:06.820 Mm-hmm.

00:19:07.200 So two wrongs make a right now?

00:19:09.120 No, I agree with what you're saying, and eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind,

00:19:12.380 but, you know, it's very common and prevalent in our culture, so we can't act like it's

00:19:15.740 shocking or is a terrible person when it's something that's so normalized in our society.

00:19:19.360 I didn't say he was terrible.

00:19:20.420 I just said he was insecure.

00:19:21.560 Yeah, whatever.

00:19:23.860 Cheeks.

00:19:24.360 I mean, apparently you're still...

00:19:25.860 You're insecure, you know?

00:19:26.820 So I don't know if you have any thoughts on that.

00:19:28.140 You didn't address Essie over here, inviting the DMs.

00:19:37.060 I don't know.

00:19:39.440 Cheeks.

00:19:39.820 I'll put in a good word.

00:19:40.500 Okay.

00:19:42.980 Who was...

00:19:43.660 I think you were telling us about how you nearly lost a relationship because you were

00:19:47.260 enamored by Chase on the show.

00:19:48.720 No, I wasn't enamored by Chase.

00:19:50.220 I was just like, oh, this guy, I like his politics.

00:19:52.840 I like what he's saying.

00:19:53.760 You know, I'm going to listen to him.

00:19:54.760 But the guy was upset post-show, your boyfriend or whatever.

00:19:58.800 I mean, I could totally understand why.

00:20:00.660 Like, I could totally see that.

00:20:01.340 Why was he upset?

00:20:02.260 Because I rated Chase, like, higher than he rated himself.

00:20:06.420 Like, I think Chase said he was like an eight, and I said, I think you're selling yourself

00:20:09.920 shorts.

00:20:10.800 But, like, I didn't mean it like that.

00:20:13.340 Yeah, I think there's also some other things, too.

00:20:15.320 In any case, we'll move on.

00:20:16.980 What about you, relationships, situations?

00:20:19.720 No, I'm single for about two months.

00:20:22.060 My longest relationship was nearly four years, which was my most recent one.

00:20:27.240 Okay, so that's pretty fresh for your relationship.

00:20:29.460 Why did he dump you?

00:20:33.260 I think that we realized that we were going on very different paths.

00:20:36.500 I wanted something that was a little bit more traditional.

00:20:38.440 I've realized that, you know, I don't necessarily want to do what I do forever.

00:20:44.360 Eventually, I want the more traditional lifestyle of just, like, a family, kids, that kind of

00:20:47.920 thing.

00:20:48.160 And it didn't really resonate at the time, although I think maybe he's reconsidering, possibly.

00:20:54.540 So you wanted family, kids, and he didn't?

00:20:57.080 Well, it's funny because he always said that that's the thing that he wanted.

00:21:00.160 And I'm not trying to say that that's not what he wants as an absolute, but I think he just

00:21:05.220 really wants to focus on his career and himself over the period of the next several years.

00:21:11.180 Which I understand, you know, he's going into his prime.

00:21:13.180 He's turning 30 at the end of this year.

00:21:15.700 You know, it's time for a man to do that kind of thing, you know?

00:21:20.140 Have you had a rebound yet?

00:21:22.220 No.

00:21:23.100 Not quite yet.

00:21:24.100 No rebound?

00:21:25.420 Not quite yet.

00:21:26.260 Not quite yet.

00:21:27.460 Okay.

00:21:27.860 Was he also Australian?

00:21:31.340 No, he's American.

00:21:32.380 We met in Hawaii.

00:21:33.440 I moved to Maui, Hawaii originally when I moved from Australia.

00:21:36.940 He was there for about three years.

00:21:39.140 We met pretty soon after I moved there, but started dating maybe, like, I don't know,

00:21:45.160 a year and a half after knowing each other.

00:21:47.720 Okay.

00:21:48.500 Yeah.

00:21:48.840 So we were friends beforehand.

00:21:51.440 And so you currently live in Hawaii?

00:21:53.360 No, no, no.

00:21:53.760 I moved, we both moved to Miami from Hawaii a couple years ago.

00:21:58.840 Yeah.

00:21:59.020 Got it.

00:21:59.420 Okay.

00:22:00.080 All right.

00:22:00.840 What about you?

00:22:01.800 Me?

00:22:02.240 I am single and celibate for three years and four months since March 2020.

00:22:07.420 Pandemic.

00:22:08.500 Okay.

00:22:08.960 Pandemic kind of broke everybody in a way.

00:22:10.760 Three years, four months.

00:22:12.680 Celibate?

00:22:13.300 Celibate.

00:22:14.980 Okay.

00:22:15.580 I get lots of attention, granted.

00:22:17.400 I won't say that I get a lot of attention, a lot of DMs, but they're all the wrong dudes.

00:22:21.140 No godly men these days.

00:22:23.020 Okay.

00:22:24.380 And what was your longest relationship?

00:22:26.700 Probably 2018.

00:22:27.880 It was a year and a half.

00:22:29.240 Yeah.

00:22:29.540 1.5 years.

00:22:30.680 Okay.

00:22:32.100 So you're, as of 3.4 months ago, or three, four, wait, sorry.

00:22:37.200 Three years, four months ago.

00:22:38.980 Yes.

00:22:39.540 You've been celibate.

00:22:41.640 Yeah.

00:22:41.900 But you were not celibate prior to that, correct?

00:22:44.300 Correct.

00:22:44.540 Correct.

00:22:45.040 Okay.

00:22:45.740 And now, so are you waiting until marriage?

00:22:47.580 Yes.

00:22:48.100 Waiting until marriage.

00:22:49.220 Trying to do it the right way.

00:22:51.040 The moral way.

00:22:52.040 Biblical way. 0.79

00:22:53.440 Were you not religious prior to?

00:22:56.160 I was, but I wasn't perfect.

00:22:58.500 Still not perfect.

00:22:59.280 Did you have like a party phase or like a?

00:23:01.660 Not a huge party or no.

00:23:03.200 Okay.

00:23:04.060 Nope.

00:23:05.300 Okay.

00:23:06.100 So would you also want to, I assume you want to date a guy who's also celibate?

00:23:10.560 Yes.

00:23:10.940 Hopefully so.

00:23:11.540 That would be, that would be great.

00:23:12.700 Would it bother you?

00:23:14.080 Like, let's say you meet a guy and he's, he's godly.

00:23:18.340 Well, I don't know if he's, if what I'm about to say would disqualify him as being godly,

00:23:22.700 but he, he loves you, whatever, but he wants to sleep with other women until, because.

00:23:32.480 What?

00:23:32.640 Then he wouldn't be a godly man.

00:23:35.060 You know what I mean?

00:23:35.860 If he's fornicating, he's not, you know what I mean?

00:23:38.240 Fair enough.

00:23:38.780 He's not at least trying.

00:23:40.380 Oh.

00:23:41.140 Oh.

00:23:41.500 Hello.

00:23:42.400 Hey, thank you, man.

00:23:44.120 To the of girl, it's not a matter of insecurity.

00:23:47.940 If you stepped out of your box, the average man and woman would find OnlyFans unacceptable.

00:23:53.860 Men have standards because they worked hard for their freedom.

00:23:57.500 Get over it.

00:23:58.460 Oh.

00:23:58.800 I mean, you're kind of just still negating my point.

00:24:05.040 If you don't want to date a girl that doesn't have OnlyFans, that's totally fine. 0.76

00:24:08.200 Everybody has preferences.

00:24:09.960 Preferences aren't an issue, but when you're being rude to other people, I think that you're

00:24:14.580 insecure for that, and my opinion's not going to change on that.

00:24:17.900 I have a question for him.

00:24:19.740 Would an OnlyFans girl date you? 1.00

00:24:22.600 I was just wondering.

00:24:24.680 Turn it around.

00:24:25.360 Can I say something also?

00:24:27.780 I feel like it's definitely a personal preference on if you want to date an OnlyFans girl or 0.96

00:24:31.840 not, but my question to him is, are there levels to that?

00:24:35.600 Like, if it's an OnlyFans girl who does swimsuit stuff or does lingerie or is nudity his boundary,

00:24:42.200 I'm just curious to know if it's just strictly if she has an OnlyFans, it's a no-go, or if

00:24:46.900 there's levels to it.

00:24:48.280 That's a good question.

00:24:49.520 Fair. 0.99

00:24:49.860 Because there are, you know, degrees to this shit, you know, like, so I have a question 0.98

00:24:56.400 for Cheeks and Alvin. 0.98

00:24:59.100 What about, like, you know, what if there's, like, no BG content, you know?

00:25:04.160 Yeah.

00:25:04.820 No BG.

00:25:06.200 Because, like, you have, like, a girl who's posting lingerie photos who could do OnlyFans 0.99

00:25:11.320 all the way to a girl who's, like, doing gang bangs and shit. 0.97

00:25:16.720 Like, you know, like, there's a difference, you know? 0.98

00:25:19.480 You know?

00:25:20.280 I mean, the women that do OnlyFans that are in lingerie or swimsuits, it's basically the 1.00

00:25:24.920 same thing as a Sports Illustrated model or a Victoria's Secret model. 0.91

00:25:27.640 So if you would date a Victoria's Secret model, it's pretty much one and the same. 0.56

00:25:31.780 Same type of content.

00:25:33.020 I think that someone not wanting their girlfriend to have an OnlyFans is perfectly reasonable.

00:25:37.140 I don't think it's a matter of insecurity.

00:25:38.760 I think it's respecting their boundaries because everybody has boundaries coming into a relationship. 0.98

00:25:43.460 And to say that that's solely based on insecurity is kind of stupid because, you know, there's 0.98

00:25:49.160 other factors that play into it.

00:25:51.100 I think what the comment says is he's saying, like, oh, the average man won't want an OnlyFans.

00:25:56.840 That is.

00:25:57.720 An OnlyFans girl. 0.99

00:25:58.800 But I've met a lot of average men that have really great jobs that think it's cool that

00:26:04.340 I have an OnlyFans.

00:26:05.400 And they even support it and they're like, oh, like, let me subscribe, like, send me the

00:26:09.580 link.

00:26:10.140 Hold up.

00:26:10.340 Okay.

00:26:10.660 And I'll get you in here in just a sec.

00:26:13.100 Okay.

00:26:13.540 So question for you on that, though.

00:26:16.380 Can we all agree that men will say anything to get laid?

00:26:21.660 Like, yes.

00:26:22.600 So couldn't they just be like, they might not genuinely believe that, but they're just gassing

00:26:26.920 you up to try to get some?

00:26:29.300 That could be a possibility.

00:26:30.940 But some of them haven't slept with me.

00:26:33.480 I don't think that most men would like it, though, personally.

00:26:36.240 Like, most of the men would like it.

00:26:36.740 Yeah, some.

00:26:37.400 Maybe some.

00:26:38.000 Some.

00:26:38.540 There are.

00:26:38.980 There are a minority of men who will like it.

00:26:40.920 It just reflects on their values and, like, boundaries.

00:26:43.860 Like I said, I don't think that it has anything to do with insecurity or anything like that.

00:26:48.060 And, like, it's really hard to find a man who will respect the OnlyFans and endorse that 0.59

00:26:53.440 stuff, who will stay.

00:26:56.180 Like, it's very, like, I don't know.

00:26:58.340 It's sort of just.

00:27:00.500 Oh.

00:27:01.640 I'll get you, then I'll get you.

00:27:04.540 Thank you.

00:27:05.100 OnlyFans, period.

00:27:07.140 Plenty of beautiful, feminine women throughout the world. 1.00

00:27:10.980 You're not that special.

00:27:12.680 You're competing against women who offer more to the table. 1.00

00:27:15.640 We aren't waitresses. 0.98

00:27:18.220 Yeah.

00:27:20.160 Why we're pretty, that's about it.

00:27:23.140 We're not waitresses. 0.94

00:27:23.600 Don't you work at Red Lobster?

00:27:25.380 I'm kidding.

00:27:25.920 I'm kidding.

00:27:26.740 I have not worked.

00:27:28.080 I have not.

00:27:29.600 What is it?

00:27:30.400 Clocked into a job since I was 18.

00:27:32.840 So.

00:27:33.500 Oh, wow.

00:27:34.400 All right.

00:27:35.000 Beaten cheeks donated $99.

00:27:38.120 Tatted up of girl in blue.

00:27:39.540 You are cool.

00:27:40.860 Ask Brian for my Twitter.

00:27:42.360 He's got it.

00:27:43.620 To the triggered OF girl.

00:27:45.000 I date girls with real value that have a body count under 3 and less than 16% body fat. 1.00

00:27:51.880 No OF girls at all don't compare OF to SI but I'll smash. 1.00

00:27:56.800 He'll smash.

00:27:58.020 He will smash.

00:27:59.020 I mean, I'm not interested.

00:28:00.800 Yeah.

00:28:01.120 He took it into consideration.

00:28:02.940 Thanks.

00:28:03.480 I'm not interested.

00:28:05.320 Yeah.

00:28:06.120 But going back to the point previously, again, I said it's not an issue of having a personal preference.

00:28:11.820 It's totally fine to not want to date somebody that has an OnlyFans. 1.00

00:28:14.960 But when you're judging somebody, that doesn't make you a good person or a decent person.

00:28:19.920 And I believe that it makes you insecure if you're going to talk down on someone, even if it's not within your boundaries and your personal preferences.

00:28:26.280 Because you're still talking and judging somebody else.

00:28:29.700 That doesn't fit in your box.

00:28:31.120 Well, I don't think he'd come up to you and say it on the street, but it's an inflammatory podcast where that's literally the point.

00:28:37.180 Like, that's why it came in.

00:28:38.560 It's not that surprising.

00:28:39.700 I don't think he'd say it to you on the street in person.

00:28:41.440 Like, that would be really disrespectful.

00:28:42.920 Okay.

00:28:43.120 But this type of environment kind of promotes that type of thing to occur.

00:28:46.600 And I'm fine with that, but I'm still allowed to make the point.

00:28:49.780 Okay.

00:28:50.340 I don't think that necessarily makes him insecure, though.

00:28:52.480 Hold on.

00:28:53.060 You and then you.

00:28:54.060 Go ahead.

00:28:54.340 I was just going to say, I feel like in my experience, a lot of the time, men will say it's hot at first and they're, like, into it.

00:29:01.720 And then if you actually start to get serious with them, they can have some drawbacks and they kind of have to work through it.

00:29:07.840 And also, in my experience, it's sometimes easier to date men with, like, non-traditional jobs.

00:29:13.180 Like, maybe they work in music or real estate, stuff like that.

00:29:17.700 Okay.

00:29:18.440 Go ahead.

00:29:19.300 I was going to ask a question that would change the subject a bit.

00:29:22.400 So, if there's anything else that needs to be said.

00:29:24.820 Before we do that, we do need to have everybody.

00:29:27.360 Oh, I think everyone shared.

00:29:28.800 Oh, we were talking about celibacy.

00:29:30.020 So, we'll come back to that.

00:29:31.780 Hold on to that thought really quick.

00:29:33.700 But, Cheeks, thank you for your TTS.

00:29:35.820 Appreciate it.

00:29:37.320 Okay.

00:29:37.700 So, you're celibate.

00:29:38.980 Yeah.

00:29:39.240 You're waiting until marriage.

00:29:40.300 Yes.

00:29:40.360 Close to the mic.

00:29:43.160 So, how, because on our last show, we had a girl who, she said the same thing.

00:29:49.700 She's waiting until marriage. 0.96

00:29:50.620 But, she said that she sinned two months ago.

00:29:55.660 Oh.

00:29:56.640 So, she, like, hooked up with some dude, even though her standard is, okay, well.

00:30:00.540 So, are you pretty confident that you're going to hold to your celibacy?

00:30:03.300 Yes.

00:30:03.960 Okay.

00:30:04.300 Yes.

00:30:04.460 Like, there's not, you're not going to falter.

00:30:06.120 Trust me, I've learned the hard way.

00:30:07.540 I'm not a perfect person.

00:30:08.540 I've made mistakes.

00:30:09.480 You've made mistakes.

00:30:10.220 Yeah, it's kind of pushed me to where I am.

00:30:11.220 One question on that.

00:30:12.000 Have you declared your celibacy at any point and then made a mistake?

00:30:18.160 No.

00:30:18.480 And then, okay, so the celibacy thing is new.

00:30:20.340 I've been walking in purity for three years and four months.

00:30:22.380 Three years, four months.

00:30:23.740 Yeah.

00:30:24.280 Would you, you'd be okay, like, to date, what if, a virgin?

00:30:30.780 Would you date a virgin?

00:30:32.120 A 31-year-old virgin? 0.86

00:30:33.980 Yeah.

00:30:34.340 I mean, he's celibate.

00:30:35.960 He's celibate, right?

00:30:36.960 Yeah, sure.

00:30:37.280 I don't care about that.

00:30:38.000 Yeah.

00:30:38.220 Okay.

00:30:39.140 With that discrepancy in the experience.

00:30:40.540 But hopefully he's not, like, 22.

00:30:42.260 I mean, what, 31 older guy is a virgin?

00:30:44.580 He's a godly man.

00:30:46.120 Okay.

00:30:46.460 He's just been laden.

00:30:47.880 Okay.

00:30:50.460 Yeah?

00:30:51.020 Yeah.

00:30:51.200 Okay.

00:30:51.380 All right.

00:30:51.680 Okay.

00:30:52.140 I know a guy.

00:30:53.120 Okay.

00:30:54.380 What was your question?

00:30:55.700 Oh, I, I'm so sorry.

00:30:57.160 I forget your name.

00:30:58.020 Amy.

00:30:58.340 Amy.

00:30:58.800 I was going to ask you about your relationship, the one that was four and a half years.

00:31:02.200 You said it ended because he wanted kids and you weren't quite ready.

00:31:05.800 It wasn't necessarily, he does want kids long term, but the time period when I want kids,

00:31:10.560 because I'll be, I'm, like, turning 28 next month, so there's a very limited period of

00:31:14.640 time where I'm able to really actualize that versus his timeline.

00:31:17.960 So it was mostly a timeline thing versus absolute values.

00:31:21.000 I was going to say, I was just going to ask, because four and a half years is a long time,

00:31:25.040 and I would be very upset if my partner couldn't come to a compromise with me at that point

00:31:28.920 about that.

00:31:29.420 So I was just wondering, like, if he was just kind of stubborn on that topic and wasn't

00:31:33.380 willing to make a compromise.

00:31:34.720 Well, honestly, the, the breakup was really sudden and shocking to me.

00:31:38.320 So it's, so it's really, it's really hard to go super, like, in depth on that because

00:31:44.380 we didn't really have much time to reconcile it.

00:31:47.300 And it has been a couple of months since we may possibly be revisiting, not 100% sure.

00:31:53.020 So it may be changing, but yeah.

00:31:57.140 Was that, that was the question?

00:31:58.100 Yeah, that was pretty much it.

00:31:59.500 I was just curious to know.

00:32:01.180 Okay, cool.

00:32:02.340 Let me get a couple, uh, super chats here.

00:32:04.420 We have Ghost.

00:32:07.420 Hello, Australian girl from FNF live event.

00:32:10.540 Hello, Ghost.

00:32:11.900 Hey, Ghost.

00:32:12.620 Thank you for your patronage.

00:32:13.500 Much appreciated, man.

00:32:14.240 Thank you.

00:32:14.580 We have Bender the Offender.

00:32:15.600 Ladies, what is the farthest you've gone to hide your past actions from a man you were romantically

00:32:21.460 interested in?

00:32:27.020 Farthest you've gone to hide your past actions from a man.

00:32:29.960 What do you mean past actions?

00:32:31.760 I'm assuming he's talking like if you had a past of either promiscuity or wild partying,

00:32:37.000 drug use, possibly anything like that.

00:32:38.960 Have any of you hidden your wicked and wild past from a partner?

00:32:45.900 Anybody?

00:32:47.320 No.

00:32:47.820 I feel like if I'm entering a relationship with someone, I try to be 100% honest.

00:32:53.420 And if I'm not willing to do that, then we're just not going to get to that point of like

00:32:57.600 vulnerability.

00:32:59.480 But I have nothing to hide personally.

00:33:01.760 Me too.

00:33:02.120 I feel like I'm a pretty open book.

00:33:04.460 When I like somebody a lot, I'll like tell them everything, spill everything.

00:33:09.620 There's no holding me back.

00:33:11.040 A lot of trauma dumping.

00:33:12.820 A lot of trauma dumping.

00:33:14.240 Yeah.

00:33:14.520 Well, I think you sent us some notes for the pre-show, so maybe we can get into that.

00:33:18.880 Okay.

00:33:19.880 Let me see here.

00:33:21.040 I think what he's kind of getting at is, let's say, for example, you're meeting a new

00:33:25.620 guy, and he's kind of inquisitive as to your previous relationship situations and perhaps

00:33:33.120 your previous sexual encounters.

00:33:36.760 So, for example, body count, right?

00:33:38.780 Would any of you have an issue disclosing your body count to a new partner?

00:33:43.960 Would you be like, that's none of your business?

00:33:46.520 Anybody here?

00:33:47.420 Let's start with you.

00:33:48.800 I don't think that's like too crazy of a question to ask.

00:33:52.480 And if it's somebody that I'm seeing and I'm interested in, I'm more than willing to be

00:33:55.820 like rigorously honest and tell them my body count.

00:33:58.600 I don't feel like it's that big of an issue or that big of a question.

00:34:02.220 Okay.

00:34:04.240 I think no guy has really asked me for my body count, but for the most recent guy that I've

00:34:11.900 been seeing, or not really seeing, I'm just like deeply in love with him, he did ask me

00:34:15.740 about my body count, and I was honest because I think you do have to be kind of honest about

00:34:21.540 your body count when it comes to like being safe, when it comes to like the person that

00:34:26.520 you're going to be like potentially sleeping with.

00:34:28.200 I think that's something that really needs to be talked about and getting tested as well

00:34:33.240 if you're sexually active.

00:34:35.620 I think that's an important conversation to have with your partner.

00:34:38.640 So, yeah, I don't, that's about it.

00:34:42.200 Oh, uh, hold on.

00:34:47.180 Two flannels donated $100.

00:34:50.180 Brian, you lumberjack, here is $100 so you can buy yourself some new clothes. 0.99

00:34:56.220 You wear the same two flannels every damn show. 0.99

00:34:59.200 If you were a rapper, they'd call you two flannels. 0.99

00:35:01.920 You look like you're stuck in a 90s Pearl Jam music video.

00:35:06.860 Wish Eddie Vedder.

00:35:07.780 Two flannels, thank you for the TTS, appreciate it.

00:35:14.280 Hey, you know, it's, I like flannels.

00:35:17.940 You know, the grunge, 90s grunge look.

00:35:20.220 Okay, thank you, man, appreciate it.

00:35:24.320 Yeah, thank you, I'm going to go out and I'm going to buy maybe like an orange flannel

00:35:28.540 or something, so thank you.

00:35:30.340 I think you were about to come in on the previous one.

00:35:33.620 But my body count, right? 0.59

00:35:34.820 Okay, so I do porn and I sleep with a lot of people during the week and sometimes more

00:35:41.320 than one, like today I slept with two people, then I came here. 0.52

00:35:45.040 Wait, today?

00:35:46.440 Yeah, today I had a threesome. 1.00

00:35:48.660 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:35:49.620 Like, was it two dudes? 1.00

00:35:51.720 A girl and a guy.

00:35:52.460 Girl and a guy, okay. 0.94

00:35:53.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:35:54.080 Okay, two people today, all right.

00:35:55.900 Yeah, yeah.

00:35:57.000 I was just in Miami and I think I slept with 15 people there.

00:36:01.320 When, how long were you in Miami?

00:36:02.700 Nine days.

00:36:03.640 Nine days.

00:36:04.240 Yeah.

00:36:04.700 Well, you were shooting, right?

00:36:05.880 I was shooting, yeah.

00:36:06.780 Okay, so.

00:36:08.160 I'm going to be honest, though.

00:36:09.040 I don't sleep with people in my personal life, only for work.

00:36:12.020 For work.

00:36:12.520 Yeah, it's unsafe.

00:36:13.760 We're all getting tested and it's not safe to sleep with anyone else if they're not tested.

00:36:18.460 Got it.

00:36:19.100 Okay, do you date other people in the industry?

00:36:22.460 I'm not interested in dating anyone right now.

00:36:24.420 No, no.

00:36:25.140 I came into the industry with a boyfriend and it didn't work out.

00:36:30.780 And honestly, I don't care to date while I'm in it.

00:36:34.600 It's hard.

00:36:35.960 What, was it related to you being in the industry that it didn't work out or for unrelated reasons?

00:36:40.960 It was a lot to do with the industry at the same time with how he felt.

00:36:44.460 There's a lot of red flags that I missed and there's a lot of things like I also need to work on.

00:36:48.940 And while I'm doing this, I can't be considerate of someone else's feelings.

00:36:52.900 I have to be selfish to be successful.

00:36:55.480 Okay.

00:36:57.140 And he's not in the industry?

00:36:59.320 No.

00:37:00.080 Okay.

00:37:00.960 I have a question.

00:37:02.100 So while you were seeing him, and I assume you guys were intimate with each other, you were shooting scenes with other people, correct?

00:37:08.920 I was.

00:37:09.520 Would you have, how long were you dating him again?

00:37:11.720 About nine months.

00:37:12.720 Nine months.

00:37:13.240 Yeah. 0.98

00:37:13.340 Would you have had an issue if he was like, I don't know if you guys had an open relationship, but if he was like fucking other chicks, would you have an issue with that? 0.98

00:37:19.700 I would laugh. 0.98

00:37:20.480 He had a small thing, so.

00:37:22.780 Well, you can't throw him under the bus like that.

00:37:24.500 I can.

00:37:25.220 I can.

00:37:25.660 What?

00:37:26.560 What?

00:37:28.220 If he could get it, then sure.

00:37:29.860 But he wanted to be monogamous and he understood that it was my job.

00:37:33.540 I mean, he got you, so.

00:37:35.000 Yeah.

00:37:35.480 Despite the alleged.

00:37:37.260 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:37:37.900 To be fair, you probably work with guys who are hung like fucking horses. 1.00

00:37:42.280 14 inches. 0.99

00:37:43.500 So, like, what if his was just average, but you're just so used to the.

00:37:48.420 Four is an average.

00:37:49.700 It's below.

00:37:51.200 Four?

00:37:52.300 Come on.

00:37:52.960 Oh, my gosh. 0.99

00:37:54.520 Damn, you're really throwing your nine-month relationship under the bus here. 0.99

00:37:59.800 That's okay. 1.00

00:38:00.440 He would, too.

00:38:01.260 He would throw you.

00:38:02.460 Yeah, but he's not on a podcast.

00:38:04.580 That's okay.

00:38:04.840 Yo, boyfriend, we cordially invite you to come be on the show, our next podcast, and, you

00:38:10.380 know, you can, if you want, you can contest some of the things she's saying.

00:38:13.240 If it was actually five, you can let us know, but you're welcome to come on the podcast,

00:38:18.500 because we like to hear both sides of the story.

00:38:21.720 Okay, so, do you think he's watching right now?

00:38:24.920 I don't think so.

00:38:26.040 I don't think he cares anymore.

00:38:27.160 You don't think he cares?

00:38:27.400 No, no.

00:38:27.780 He's doing his own thing.

00:38:28.600 Did he dump you, or did you dump him?

00:38:30.580 We broke up with one another.

00:38:32.100 I made it official, but there was a lot of issues towards the end of the relationship.

00:38:36.340 Okay.

00:38:40.260 So, he doesn't have Riz?

00:38:41.700 Is that the problem?

00:38:44.120 He doesn't have game, or?

00:38:46.340 No, he's nice.

00:38:47.560 I wish him nothing but the best.

00:38:49.020 It just didn't work out.

00:38:50.060 I know, I know.

00:38:50.860 You wish him nothing but the best? 0.99

00:38:51.160 You just told him, told the fucking world that he's got a small D. 0.99

00:38:54.940 And? 1.00

00:38:56.240 Still wishing the best.

00:38:57.340 You're airing your dirty laundry.

00:39:00.000 That's what we're here for.

00:39:01.340 Okay.

00:39:03.140 I don't know how we, okay, so, he,

00:39:05.460 but would you have had an issue if he was sleeping with other girls during your relationship?

00:39:12.020 I wouldn't have if we talked about it, but going into it, we decided to only be monogamous

00:39:18.260 with one another, but he did have an issue with what I was doing, you know, when my job

00:39:23.960 would be too much for him, he would throw it in my face that I was not monogamous.

00:39:28.820 When you say it was too much for him, what are we talking about here?

00:39:34.800 Are we talking like the frequency with which you are getting, doing scenes with dudes

00:39:39.980 or?

00:39:40.800 Um, I think with certain scenes, he didn't like certain things.

00:39:44.800 Sorry, hold on just a sec.

00:39:46.480 Yo, Prometheus, thank you. 0.94

00:39:47.600 This is sad and ridiculous. 0.54

00:39:50.120 I never shamed my exes like this. 0.79

00:39:52.780 I only ever spoke the truth about their actions and personalities, but never about their flaws

00:39:57.900 from their bodies.

00:39:59.440 Have some self-respect and maturity. 1.00

00:40:02.060 What the fuck are you doing? 0.99

00:40:04.060 If you guys come on here and you guys judge the hell out of us, like, please, like, okay. 0.99

00:40:10.340 Well, Prometheus is new to the TTS, so maybe he hasn't, uh, but would you be upset if he

00:40:19.700 was like, you know, you know what, what if he came out, okay, we're going to have him

00:40:27.880 on the show.

00:40:28.600 Hold on.

00:40:29.060 Okay, hold on.

00:40:29.740 Okay, I'll give me a sec.

00:40:31.120 Give me a sec.

00:40:31.360 Give me a sec. 0.62

00:40:32.360 No real man wants to date a girl's they want to F you. 1.00

00:40:36.360 Stop the insecurity shit when you're not saying your body count female dignity is going down 1.00

00:40:41.860 the drain thanks feminism back in school. 1.00

00:40:44.440 It's caused a conference today.

00:40:46.500 It's 10 bucks a month, dafook. 0.98

00:40:49.240 Dafook. 0.97

00:40:49.680 Um, yo, Gredneck, thanks for that.

00:40:52.280 Um, wow, you guys have really, you guys have really, uh, gotten the, uh, chat up in arms.

00:40:59.280 Um, okay, would you be upset, and we are having him on the show, if he came on the podcast and

00:41:04.680 was like, he was like, you know, Karen, that's your name, right, Karen?

00:41:08.840 Yeah, yeah, that's my name.

00:41:09.980 Like, your actual name or P star name?

00:41:12.800 Yeah.

00:41:13.260 Okay.

00:41:13.860 It's unfortunate, but yeah, I know.

00:41:16.440 Our apologies.

00:41:17.400 I know.

00:41:17.800 Yeah, they kind of did you dirty with the whole Karen. 1.00

00:41:20.420 That's what I said, yeah.

00:41:21.740 You were around before the meme.

00:41:23.200 Okay, whatever.

00:41:23.500 Way before.

00:41:24.420 He come, your ex-boyfriend comes on the podcast, and he's like, holy, okay.

00:41:28.900 Thank you, Prometheus.

00:41:30.060 Thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:41:31.780 Bangs, I challenged that as I never judged you like that.

00:41:36.020 Prometheus was always polite and diplomatic with you.

00:41:40.640 I don't remember.

00:41:42.020 He doesn't remember.

00:41:42.760 All right.

00:41:42.940 Thank you.

00:41:43.600 I'm sorry, Prometheus.

00:41:44.840 I'm trying to put in a good word.

00:41:46.360 Okay, your boyfriend comes on the podcast, and he was like, listen, Karen just, she had 1.00

00:41:54.720 a loose pussy. 1.00

00:41:55.340 What if he said that, huh? 1.00

00:41:58.360 He could say whatever he wants.

00:41:59.800 That's fine.

00:42:00.460 I don't know, but what if he came on and he was like.

00:42:03.320 Okay, that's his opinion.

00:42:05.200 Yeah.

00:42:05.400 I don't know.

00:42:06.460 We're all entitled to our own opinions.

00:42:07.700 It's okay.

00:42:09.980 What do you want me to say?

00:42:10.860 I'm not mad about that, because I know it's not.

00:42:12.560 I don't know if that's true.

00:42:13.700 I'm just saying.

00:42:14.040 Yeah, yeah.

00:42:14.500 That would be like the mere opposite.

00:42:16.540 The equivalent.

00:42:17.160 I know I understand.

00:42:18.040 He's like, ah, Karen.

00:42:19.540 She's so loose.

00:42:20.400 I can't.

00:42:21.280 Yeah, you know?

00:42:21.920 It's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway, right?

00:42:24.480 No.

00:42:25.200 Well, forgive me if I'm wrong, but was it you?

00:42:27.220 It might have been her who said that judgments come from a place of insecurity.

00:42:31.340 Someone was saying that. 1.00

00:42:32.760 Gotcha, bitch. 1.00

00:42:33.060 That was me. 1.00

00:42:34.120 Oh.

00:42:34.520 That was me.

00:42:35.020 That was me.

00:42:36.140 That judgment.

00:42:36.760 I mean.

00:42:37.400 Oh, yeah.

00:42:38.100 I guess.

00:42:39.660 Judgment comes from a place of insecurity?

00:42:43.040 Yes and no.

00:42:45.900 You know, we can all judge based on our own opinions, but it doesn't mean that it's right.

00:42:50.860 It doesn't have.

00:42:51.800 Not everything has to do with an insecurity.

00:42:54.000 We can just think what we think.

00:42:55.000 Like, not everything's based around insecurity.

00:43:00.860 Okay.

00:43:01.400 I see.

00:43:02.220 Okay.

00:43:03.860 Wait.

00:43:04.340 So, okay.

00:43:04.700 Let's go back to you.

00:43:05.840 You were saying, you know, we're talking about your ex a little bit.

00:43:08.860 And you said that at one point you were in Miami and you did.

00:43:14.020 You were in Miami for nine days?

00:43:15.760 Yeah, yeah.

00:43:16.080 And you did 15 scenes?

00:43:18.320 Yeah.

00:43:19.100 Okay.

00:43:19.740 15 people.

00:43:20.980 Okay.

00:43:21.640 Is that like the most in the nine-day period or have you done?

00:43:25.580 That's the most as of now.

00:43:27.780 Okay.

00:43:28.080 It goes down in Miami.

00:43:29.880 It does go down.

00:43:30.740 It was fun.

00:43:31.360 It was fun.

00:43:32.240 But, no, just whenever I have heavy workflows, I'll sleep with a lot of people.

00:43:36.620 But before that, I didn't sleep with anyone for a month.

00:43:38.900 Like I said, in my regular life, it doesn't really matter.

00:43:42.740 Okay.

00:43:43.580 Gotcha.

00:43:44.280 Okay. 0.99

00:43:44.960 And are you the only one that does porn? 0.97

00:43:49.080 I know some of you guys do OnlyFans. 0.96

00:43:50.680 I do OnlyFans, too.

00:43:51.640 I do everything on my OnlyFans as well.

00:43:53.100 Gotcha.

00:43:53.520 Yeah. 0.97

00:43:53.800 Any of you guys also do porn? 0.97

00:43:56.120 I don't do full porn.

00:43:57.620 I have an OnlyFans, but I don't do, like, scenes or, like, Boy Girl, things like that.

00:44:02.580 Okay.

00:44:03.440 Good times.

00:44:04.480 Oh, oh, here we go again.

00:44:05.860 Oh, my God.

00:44:06.620 The two weeks donated $99.

00:44:08.840 I was supposed to be on the show this week, but Brian ran out of money to fund my trip,

00:44:14.140 so he has to save another year for my appearance.

00:44:17.460 I'll gladly let you OF304s try and judge me on my appearance.

00:44:22.820 Guess I'll gain some body fat to be on your level.

00:44:25.440 Okay, he's out for blood tonight.

00:44:30.140 Cheeks.

00:44:30.640 What?

00:44:30.900 Oh, my God.

00:44:32.520 By the way, just a reminder, the views expressed by the chat in TTS does not necessarily reflect

00:44:39.000 the views of whatever.

00:44:40.860 Hey, Prometheus, thank you, man.

00:44:42.260 Judgments are based on actions and decisions.

00:44:43.120 You guys are out of control tonight.

00:44:45.060 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:44:46.380 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:44:47.740 Thank you, man. 0.99

00:44:48.660 Oh, wait.

00:44:49.040 Hold on.

00:44:49.420 Let me get caught up on a couple.

00:44:50.940 Wow, you guys are...

00:44:52.200 Okay.

00:44:52.560 The chat's funny.

00:44:53.560 The chat is on fire.

00:44:54.300 They're roasting me for what I say.

00:44:56.060 Wait, what did you say? 0.56

00:44:57.220 I said I don't do full porn, and they're like... 0.98

00:44:59.560 Full porn. 0.97

00:45:00.220 Ew. 0.98

00:45:00.620 They said, like, what's half porn or something like that?

00:45:02.760 What is half... 0.90

00:45:05.000 Like, I don't get penetrated on my OnlyFans.

00:45:07.760 Huh?

00:45:09.640 Word?

00:45:10.380 Okay.

00:45:11.000 Good time.

00:45:11.680 Have you...

00:45:12.200 Just a show of hands, those of you who do OF or traditional adult content, who does BG content?

00:45:19.260 No BG?

00:45:20.260 I've done some BG, but just not.

00:45:22.280 It's like teasing.

00:45:22.840 What is that?

00:45:23.940 BG, like, boy, girl.

00:45:26.380 My ex, he had an OnlyFans for a couple months because he's a musician, so we made, like,

00:45:30.820 sexy music videos together, and I would, like, twerk on him and stuff like that.

00:45:35.560 Huh?

00:45:36.840 Okay.

00:45:38.060 Good times.

00:45:39.920 Okay, hold on, guys.

00:45:40.840 I'm just pulling up the next one.

00:45:42.940 One sec here.

00:45:45.260 I'm trying to remember.

00:45:46.120 Someone said just the tip.

00:45:53.500 Sorry, guys.

00:45:54.180 One sec.

00:45:55.100 Okay.

00:45:56.300 While I get that figured out, sorry, guys, my computer's bugged out.

00:45:59.240 So, we have some pre-show notes from a couple of you.

00:46:02.440 Oh, we had a missed super chat from last show.

00:46:04.540 Mr. Meatball, sorry that we missed your super chat.

00:46:06.700 Nick, if you're able to hide that.

00:46:08.460 Mr. Meatball asked, so, ladies, do looks even matter for a guy if he's successful, confident,

00:46:17.880 and smart.

00:46:20.560 No.

00:46:21.260 Not at all.

00:46:22.160 Mm-mm.

00:46:23.420 That's more attractive to me, honestly.

00:46:26.000 I personally think people become more attractive as you get to know them and their personality

00:46:29.840 as well, so, you know, I don't think you have to be a 10 out of 10 in the looks department

00:46:34.580 because you can become a 10 out of 10 based on your confidence, career, you know, what

00:46:39.080 you've got going on in your life and your personality, to be honest.

00:46:42.380 Okay.

00:46:42.900 Got it.

00:46:43.940 Anybody else?

00:46:45.640 Anybody?

00:46:46.280 Hold on.

00:46:46.600 Mr. Meatball.

00:46:48.500 Oh, and Mr. Meatball, he also asked, dude on the panel, there's a guy on the panel, so 0.98

00:46:53.760 I guess it's directed me, would you date an ugly chick for any reason? 1.00

00:46:57.820 Jeez, bro. 1.00

00:46:58.640 Fuck. 1.00

00:46:59.500 Y'all are going crazy. 1.00

00:47:00.320 Okay.

00:47:00.960 Would I?

00:47:03.500 Yeah, sure.

00:47:04.280 Why not?

00:47:04.820 Okay.

00:47:05.780 Ugly?

00:47:06.240 I don't know.

00:47:06.660 Ugly?

00:47:08.340 I don't know.

00:47:09.840 But it's ugly to me.

00:47:11.160 Yeah.

00:47:11.860 Like a one out of 10?

00:47:12.800 Are we talking like?

00:47:13.940 I mean, I definitely think a girl can make up for, like her personality can definitely 0.96

00:47:20.860 make up for a lack of appearance, but ugly, obviously I think for both men and women, you 0.87

00:47:25.780 need to be physically attracted to your partner.

00:47:27.620 So, you know, probably, probably not, you know?

00:47:35.160 Probably not.

00:47:36.500 But, yeah.

00:47:37.720 Okay.

00:47:38.540 All right.

00:47:38.880 Mr. Meatball, thank you very much.

00:47:40.140 Hold on.

00:47:40.520 I got to, I'm, something's busted here on my thing.

00:47:43.180 Does anyone have a question they'd like to ask while I'm attempting to poorly get this

00:47:47.940 fixed?

00:47:48.220 Go ahead.

00:47:48.440 I'd like to know more about your dating life with trying to find someone who's also

00:47:52.800 celibate and what, does it define like you want a godly man?

00:47:58.120 Is that specifically Christianity or would it be like his definition of whatever his God

00:48:02.660 type would be?

00:48:04.040 I'm a Christian, so I would hope he would reciprocate, be a Christian as well.

00:48:08.940 What am I looking for?

00:48:10.220 Or just, I guess, traditional, like a guy who submits himself under God and then I can

00:48:17.740 come under him because he's, you know, not a perfect man, but a perfectly submitted man

00:48:22.380 to me.

00:48:22.760 Because I feel like nowadays men are submitted to their porn addiction, men are submitted

00:48:26.840 to their alcoholism, their lust, you know?

00:48:29.160 But if I find someone, I feel like somebody who's submitted to God, I can work with that.

00:48:31.880 That's like a really good start for me.

00:48:33.660 Where do you normally like find those types of men, like out in daily life?

00:48:38.900 So, out in the wild, no.

00:48:40.480 But at church, maybe, right?

00:48:43.080 But, you know, I'm in a smaller church, so it's kind of hard.

00:48:46.640 It's like there's an age gap.

00:48:48.080 It's like a bunch of old people and then, you know, teenagers. 0.87

00:48:51.600 So, but dating apps, dating apps, they don't work for me.

00:48:55.380 You get a lot, like I said, you get a lot of attention, a lot of toxic tens, trying to

00:48:59.260 get in your pants like on the second date.

00:49:01.080 Like, kind of like what you were saying, like what you were saying, Brian, how would you

00:49:05.120 guys date a successful man who's like maybe five out of ten, whatever?

00:49:07.660 I totally would because I felt like we've, maybe we can all kind of relate, but hot guys

00:49:12.300 are usually like super toxic.

00:49:14.000 Yes.

00:49:14.320 Right?

00:49:14.880 Yeah.

00:49:15.120 Yeah.

00:49:15.380 It's like super, super hot.

00:49:16.540 Like 10 out of 10, 12 out of 10, toxic.

00:49:19.520 Yeah.

00:49:19.860 So, are you looking to be like a traditional partner, like a traditional wife?

00:49:25.200 I would hope he would find me as opposed to me soughting him out.

00:49:28.120 Yeah.

00:49:28.580 Okay.

00:49:28.960 But I mean.

00:49:29.500 He who finds a wife finds a good thing. 1.00

00:49:30.580 Yeah.

00:49:30.900 I mean, like when you find your partner, do you want to be like a traditional wife?

00:49:34.580 Do you want him to be the breadwinner and do all those things?

00:49:37.960 Then you kind of take care of the home?

00:49:39.140 I mean, right now I have my own job and my own house, my own car, but I would definitely

00:49:44.280 want to pull back if, if you want to grow with me, if you want to decide to have children.

00:49:48.720 I would like to pull back and hopefully you would be the breadwinner and you can, you know,

00:49:52.060 take care of me and my, you know, your child, your legacy.

00:49:54.640 Hopefully you would have money to do that, you know?

00:49:56.940 But yeah.

00:49:57.320 So you want to be a stay-at-home mom?

00:49:59.760 Not necessarily, no, because I feel like I have like a lot of hobbies and things that

00:50:04.220 I'm interested in that I wouldn't just give up, but I feel like as being a woman, I would,

00:50:08.960 that's a huge part, like having a child, I feel like it's a huge part of being a woman.

00:50:12.400 What kind of hobbies are you talking about?

00:50:14.100 Well, I do music.

00:50:14.940 So I do, I do play music at the church a lot, like twice a week.

00:50:19.860 And then respiratory therapist, healthcare is, it's hard out here.

00:50:25.120 Okay.

00:50:25.960 Hold on.

00:50:26.400 Okay.

00:50:26.620 I finally got this work and we have Prometheus here.

00:50:28.980 Instagram I'm cool with, but as a reasonable idea, only fans is a major red flag.

00:50:34.420 Also opinions is your rights, but facts tend to be more validating and valuable.

00:50:39.080 You have to accept word.

00:50:42.240 Thank you, Prometheus for that.

00:50:45.460 And then we have Cheeks here.

00:50:47.800 Talking to triggered OF female is worst, worst than talking with a vegetable brained patient. 1.00

00:50:53.860 Don't be mad because you won't ever get a guy of my caliber.

00:50:58.440 You'd be lucky to just be in the same room as me by accident in any event.

00:51:04.240 Continue coping with your simp.

00:51:06.920 Wow.

00:51:07.200 Beat in Cheeks is on the war path tonight. 0.97

00:51:09.480 He's a hater.

00:51:12.860 He is, he is hating on, on you guys.

00:51:16.280 That's okay.

00:51:17.340 Okay, cool.

00:51:18.000 All right.

00:51:18.340 You guys are kind of blase about it.

00:51:20.320 I prefer to be unlucky at that point.

00:51:22.900 Okay.

00:51:23.760 I know.

00:51:24.980 All right.

00:51:25.920 Let's see here.

00:51:26.940 I had a couple notes here if I can finally pull them back up, guys.

00:51:30.080 So starting with, we have Azalea, is that, that's you?

00:51:35.500 That's me.

00:51:36.020 Okay. 0.92

00:51:36.480 So you said in your pre-show notes to us, men are hypocritical in what they want in a partner

00:51:42.600 and what they go after.

00:51:43.820 For example, the Jonah Hill situation, men claim to want traditional partners and then

00:51:49.320 go after independent women with strong careers and expect, and expect to tame them. 1.00

00:51:57.740 Okay.

00:51:58.040 And then there's a bit more, which I'll get into later, but we can start with the Jonah

00:52:00.740 Hill thing.

00:52:01.260 So if you guys, who here is familiar with the whole Jonah Hill situation?

00:52:05.940 Okay.

00:52:07.360 So basically Jonah Hill was, I guess, in a relationship with this chick.

00:52:13.820 And I guess they had had some conflict, some issues or something.

00:52:18.720 And he texted her, which he later kind of released, exposed him, whatever, saying that,

00:52:26.100 well, the text message was basically like, hey, here are my boundaries.

00:52:30.740 I don't want you associating with certain types of people.

00:52:33.520 I don't want you posting these kinds of photos on the internet, et cetera, et cetera.

00:52:37.240 And then he said something along the lines of, hey, if these things, like posting photos

00:52:43.040 on the internet or associating with these people brings you happiness, then no hard feelings.

00:52:49.200 I think what he's implying there is if it's an issue, like we can just break up, no hard

00:52:53.400 feelings, wish you the best.

00:52:54.780 But this is just what I need for me to be happy in this relationship.

00:52:59.560 But you have an issue with that.

00:53:01.660 I mean, yeah.

00:53:02.220 Because when he started dating that woman and started pursuing her, he was the one commenting

00:53:07.100 on those photos and liking those photos.

00:53:09.340 And he knew she was a surfer. 1.00

00:53:12.160 He knew what her career was.

00:53:14.080 He knew that that was what she loved to do.

00:53:16.380 And then when he finally got the woman that he wanted and was in a relationship with this

00:53:20.700 strong, independent woman with a successful career, he decided to implement his insecurities

00:53:26.340 and be like, you can't surf anymore.

00:53:28.160 You can't surf with men.

00:53:29.160 And you can't post any sort of photo.

00:53:31.360 And I don't know if you saw the photos that he was showing her he thought were inappropriate.

00:53:35.220 She was fully dressed in like a romper and just standing outside like at a brunch spot.

00:53:41.240 It wasn't anything that was over the top.

00:53:43.220 It's not like she's doing sex where her OnlyFans, he pursued a surfer and then told her she can't

00:53:50.260 surf.

00:53:50.900 I don't think he said that.

00:53:52.900 He said she can't surf with men. 0.99

00:53:54.640 But I mean, we don't, we don't know all the details, but it's, look, we don't know what

00:54:01.240 happened, but it seemed to me like she was associating with certain people that maybe

00:54:06.600 had an unbecoming reputation.

00:54:08.920 Like he doesn't?

00:54:10.320 I think.

00:54:10.880 Jonah Hill, Jonah Hill's a darling of Hollywood.

00:54:13.320 He was so weird with Emma Stone and Superbad.

00:54:15.880 Well, here's the movie.

00:54:17.380 What?

00:54:17.940 No, he was so weird.

00:54:18.740 But so that's his job.

00:54:19.500 What do you mean he was weird?

00:54:20.980 Didn't he like write it into it or like, didn't he like also help produce it or something?

00:54:25.120 Wait, what do you mean?

00:54:25.780 Superbad was an awesome movie.

00:54:27.180 But he was so weird.

00:54:28.220 No, no.

00:54:28.740 Okay, no.

00:54:29.080 But you mean he was like in the movie, the actual movie, he was weird?

00:54:34.000 Yeah.

00:54:34.400 Like as an actor, he was portraying like an awkward 17 year old, 18 year old high school

00:54:39.220 like acting?

00:54:40.800 Like his job?

00:54:41.580 Yeah.

00:54:41.840 That he's assigned to do?

00:54:42.900 He's been weird.

00:54:44.880 What do you mean he's been weird?

00:54:46.240 I just said how he was weird.

00:54:48.060 I said he was weird in the movie Superbad with Emma Stone.

00:54:50.820 What?

00:54:51.380 Wait.

00:54:51.940 What?

00:54:52.420 I don't get it.

00:54:52.940 Am I stuttering?

00:54:54.040 No, I understand because if the roles were reversed, should she be okay with his behavior

00:54:59.260 as an actor, his job?

00:55:00.440 She's a surfer by profession.

00:55:02.400 So if the roles are reversed, should she go, well, I don't want you to act then.

00:55:06.420 I don't want you to act in scenes with women. 1.00

00:55:08.180 I don't want you to kiss women in scenes at your job. 0.99

00:55:11.060 It's the same thing.

00:55:12.320 Well, number one, she's not on that level, right?

00:55:14.340 She's an amateur surfer.

00:55:15.240 But then number two, do you guys really think that that was the first conversation they had

00:55:18.740 about it, those text messages?

00:55:20.140 I know for me, if that type of thing were to come up in that type of situation, that

00:55:24.160 text message, the way it was structured, that was not the first time.

00:55:26.940 They have clearly talked about that.

00:55:28.800 And I can't say this for sure, right?

00:55:30.160 Nobody knows the full extent aside from the two of them.

00:55:32.800 I would bet, though, that they had this conversation in person and that was a text reinforcing

00:55:38.380 what was already discussed.

00:55:39.500 Who brings something like that, that serious, up for the first time via text?

00:55:44.140 I would personally find that very unlikely.

00:55:46.040 Sorry, go ahead.

00:55:46.560 No, no, it's okay.

00:55:47.300 I think that what she said was, oh, she was a surfer before.

00:55:50.160 I think that once you get into a serious relationship, you're completely entitled to set boundaries.

00:55:54.380 The more serious a relationship becomes, the more likely it is and the more reasonable

00:55:58.760 it is for them to set those kind of boundaries.

00:56:00.820 But a boundary isn't something that you impose on somebody else.

00:56:03.900 I think that partnerships, I think it goes both ways.

00:56:07.040 I don't think he was necessarily imposing.

00:56:08.780 I don't really like Jonah Hill's personality.

00:56:11.340 I love his movies.

00:56:11.880 I think Superbad was goaded, by the way.

00:56:13.820 But I think it's normal.

00:56:16.060 I think it's completely normal to ask that when a relationship becomes more serious.

00:56:20.140 Just like something like, oh, like the post.

00:56:22.580 And like she said, I don't think this was the first time they talked about it.

00:56:25.880 I don't think that whatsoever.

00:56:28.380 But so do you think that if a man told you that you had to give up your career because

00:56:31.560 you were dating him, that that's acceptable?

00:56:32.880 He said if you wanted to continue to surf with men, which let's be serious, the predominant

00:56:38.880 group that surfs is men.

00:56:41.340 And if you're on a beach, there's going to be men there.

00:56:44.900 Like, okay.

00:56:45.860 So I, I surfed.

00:56:47.420 I mean, you can paddle out alone, you know, like.

00:56:50.780 Oh, for sure.

00:56:51.400 But I mean, like if you have girlfriends and stuff.

00:56:53.800 Right.

00:56:53.940 But if you have a good opportunity, I mean, something like this or whatever the case may

00:56:57.960 be obviously not a podcast, but if you have an opportunity that includes men, are you supposed

00:57:02.380 to deny that if it's going to help your career just because your boyfriend's uncomfortable

00:57:05.460 with you being around men?

00:57:06.860 Well, they claimed, and maybe you can weigh in on this.

00:57:09.240 I mean, she claimed to have been, I don't think she would like had really a major career

00:57:16.100 as like a model or like, I don't think she's a pro surfer.

00:57:21.440 But even if you're not pro, doesn't your career still matter?

00:57:24.080 I think it's within his right to try to assert these boundaries.

00:57:27.020 He's not necessarily, not necessarily tell her to follow them, but I think it's his right

00:57:30.680 to bring them to the table and whether or not she decides to agree with them or not.

00:57:35.400 I think that he was sort of setting up an ultimatum.

00:57:38.120 So he did it under the pretense that, hey, maybe this won't work out.

00:57:41.620 I don't think he was necessarily like trying to dictate what she did or what she didn't.

00:57:45.240 He was just setting what he wanted, what he expected out of the relationship.

00:57:48.440 I mean, he was just weaponizing therapy speak in order to assert.

00:57:51.880 Weaponizing therapy speak.

00:57:52.600 Yeah, he was in order to give her an ultimatum and basically say, well, if you do X, Y,

00:57:56.780 and Z, the things she was already doing pre-relationship, I don't think that he should

00:58:00.600 have pursued her in the first place if that was things that he was uncomfortable with.

00:58:04.080 Exactly what I was going to say. 0.99

00:58:05.520 Men always want like the bad bitch, but then once they get the bad bitch, it's like they 1.00

00:58:09.720 can't handle her. 1.00

00:58:10.600 And that's exactly what I texted Brian and like the things that I wanted to talk about.

00:58:14.620 So I'm so glad you brought that up because, oh my gosh, it's always like with Ariana Grande, 0.99

00:58:19.760 like the reason why she's getting divorced is because he couldn't handle having a bad bitch. 1.00

00:58:23.160 He couldn't handle having all that fame. 0.99

00:58:25.080 But how do we know that?

00:58:26.340 Because they've already talked about it.

00:58:28.600 It's been like, it's been publicized.

00:58:30.840 Isn't she a homewrecker? 1.00

00:58:32.140 Yeah.

00:58:32.620 That too.

00:58:33.340 Yes.

00:58:33.980 That's a completely different issue.

00:58:35.460 Yeah, that's another issue.

00:58:36.420 And I was going to bring that up too, that she's kind of like a pick me. 0.69

00:58:39.400 I'm so sorry, Ariana Grande.

00:58:41.040 I'm so sorry.

00:58:42.040 Wow.

00:58:42.320 Shots fired.

00:58:43.340 I am so sorry.

00:58:44.560 I'm not sorry.

00:58:44.960 She does tend to go, oh my God. 1.00

00:58:47.380 I don't even want to talk about it.

00:58:48.200 I'm so sorry, Ariana Grande.

00:58:49.320 She's going to see this and come for you. 1.00

00:58:52.620 No, no, Ariana, no.

00:58:54.640 But okay, so you guys are saying that, you know, maybe he should have just not dated or

00:59:00.340 like he was liking on her photos.

00:59:03.080 He should have known what he was getting into.

00:59:05.740 But isn't it fair to say that like prior to dating, he had no problem with her engaging

00:59:10.860 in what he considered single behavior.

00:59:13.600 But once they started dating, he wanted her to act in a way that was commensurate with

00:59:19.940 being in a relationship.

00:59:21.580 So not posting certain revealing photos.

00:59:23.800 That's what I was saying.

00:59:24.900 But her on a surfboard isn't a revealing photo and her in a romper in front of a brunch spot

00:59:28.700 is not a revealing photo.

00:59:29.500 Well, that's all.

00:59:30.080 But to be fair.

00:59:30.740 I guess it's subjective, but I don't think that if she's posting photos for her career

00:59:34.400 amateur or not, that it's okay for him to be like, you in a bikini is too revealing.

00:59:39.720 I mean, look at his movies.

00:59:41.620 Look what he's done.

00:59:42.280 Yeah, didn't he like whip it out and like, yeah.

00:59:44.980 And like comedians.

00:59:45.780 But just one thing, like.

00:59:46.740 And she's a surfer.

00:59:47.960 Also, the way men is sexualized is so different to women too.

00:59:50.600 The only thing we have though is what she chose to release.

00:59:56.200 And I mean, I don't know if you guys have ever been on the opposite side or maybe you've

01:00:00.120 had someone speak poorly about you.

01:00:02.440 But if someone ever speaks poorly about you, are they likely to reveal perhaps the ways

01:00:07.820 in which that maybe they contributed to the issue?

01:00:12.440 I mean, it's, you know, one, I think she's making herself to be a victim and people are

01:00:17.420 very good at not at taking themselves out of the situation and not telling the whole

01:00:23.000 truth and only the part that makes the other party look bad.

01:00:26.820 I mean, that's definitely true.

01:00:28.220 But we can only go off of what we've seen, right?

01:00:30.160 So, I mean, if we're basing it just off this conversation without any prior knowledge,

01:00:33.880 that's what it looks like.

01:00:35.000 It looks like he started dating somebody that he knew did not fall in line with his morals

01:00:40.460 and his values.

01:00:41.080 And I think that that was a waste of her time if we're going strictly off of that.

01:00:44.840 But that was single behavior.

01:00:46.300 How is it single behavior if she's a surfer? 0.90

01:00:48.440 That's not single behavior.

01:00:49.880 Wearing a bikini on the beach is not single behavior.

01:00:52.120 Are you saying it was a fatal attraction, basically?

01:00:53.420 I feel like we've all dated that guy where we probably shouldn't have, you know?

01:00:56.660 Oh, I mean, yeah, for sure.

01:00:57.900 Definitely.

01:00:58.500 I'm not saying Jonah, but I'm just saying, like, he was attracted to her and maybe he

01:01:02.240 was trying to change her.

01:01:03.900 But that's what I'm saying is wrong.

01:01:05.200 Like I said, I think it's fine to, like, impose boundaries once you're in a serious

01:01:08.260 relationship.

01:01:08.980 On the same side, she could have said, oh, I'm not comfortable with what you do in the

01:01:11.900 movies.

01:01:12.140 And that would have been completely reasonable on her side.

01:01:14.680 Which I'm sure was, again, a private conversation that they had.

01:01:18.180 Because nobody brings that up for the first time over text.

01:01:20.840 Have you guys ever brought up something really that serious for the first time where it's

01:01:24.920 like an ultimatum via text?

01:01:26.480 I mean, maybe.

01:01:27.760 Yes, I have.

01:01:28.720 Okay, well, I'd say that that's objectively a pretty emotionally immature thing to do.

01:01:33.240 Maybe he's immature.

01:01:34.660 But how old are you again?

01:01:35.620 Sorry.

01:01:35.960 I'm 21.

01:01:36.560 Exactly.

01:01:37.180 Maybe he is immature.

01:01:37.500 That's a 21-year-old thing.

01:01:38.960 Yeah, but what if he is immature?

01:01:40.380 Maybe you're just, you're thinking, you're jumping straight ahead.

01:01:43.400 Well, she just said that he was using therapy speak.

01:01:45.380 Generally, someone who's been in therapy for that long to the point where they're able

01:01:47.860 to elicit therapy speak are a little bit more emotionally mature.

01:01:51.400 And I think they were both seeing the same therapist privately, so it's not necessarily

01:01:54.720 I don't know much about the situation.

01:01:57.340 But I'm just saying.

01:01:58.400 Didn't Jonah go on to have the child, right?

01:02:00.600 Oh, I don't know.

01:02:01.160 I don't know anything about this.

01:02:02.500 I don't know much about Jonah.

01:02:03.500 And that's the other thing.

01:02:04.360 Exactly.

01:02:04.860 She released it, like, just after he had the baby with this new girl, right?

01:02:08.660 And this was years after the fact.

01:02:10.520 So what was the point?

01:02:12.500 I mean, yeah.

01:02:12.960 But that's not what we're talking about.

01:02:13.740 She was trying to get her lick back. 0.99

01:02:15.200 That's what she was trying to do.

01:02:16.720 Haven't you guys ever tried getting a lick back?

01:02:18.500 What was that?

01:02:19.520 Like, after the fact?

01:02:20.260 Revenge.

01:02:20.620 Yeah.

01:02:21.460 No.

01:02:21.840 If you're a victim of, like, emotional abuse, sometimes it takes a while to have the confidence

01:02:26.380 and the strength to come forward.

01:02:27.260 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:02:27.780 Hold on.

01:02:28.120 Are you saying that this was emotional abuse?

01:02:30.340 No.

01:02:30.380 I'm just giving an example of her saying it took a... 0.96

01:02:32.740 Hold on, just a sec.

01:02:33.560 Doc Bellaby has donated $100.

01:02:35.340 Nick, can you adjust the exposure?

01:02:36.540 Flight girl.

01:02:37.300 Thank you, Doc.

01:02:37.840 A private conversation public is a major violation of boundaries.

01:02:41.920 If anyone was weaponizing therapy, it's the surfer but trying to damage his reputation.

01:02:47.140 Nothing wrong with using therapy language.

01:02:51.780 I definitely...

01:02:52.840 Doc, I 100% agree.

01:02:54.660 I'll get you in here in just a sec.

01:02:55.940 Doc, I 100% agree with you.

01:02:58.320 Let's say Jonah misstepped in a couple of ways.

01:03:01.300 I think what she did, even though the relationship is over, absolutely, whatever Jonah could have

01:03:07.780 possibly done is, I don't know if I'm saying this right, is dwarfed by her exposing this

01:03:14.420 publicly because ultimately, I think it's such a non-story.

01:03:17.500 Like, okay, you guys had disagreements, whatever.

01:03:21.400 Break up, move on.

01:03:23.380 It's obviously malicious.

01:03:24.800 Like, this is not...

01:03:25.860 I don't think she was abused.

01:03:27.280 Even...

01:03:28.280 Let's say Jonah was being controlling.

01:03:31.220 I don't think, like, he said, hey, if you don't want to...

01:03:34.800 If this is too much, I wish you the best.

01:03:38.900 Maybe we're not right for each other.

01:03:40.640 These are my boundaries.

01:03:41.620 Whether you disagree with his boundaries or not, that's another thing.

01:03:44.360 But he gave her an out.

01:03:46.180 And I don't know.

01:03:47.000 It's unclear the timeline of this, if they continue dating after that text message.

01:03:50.620 But I think to expose an ex like that, that's a greater grievance than him supposedly being

01:04:01.360 controlling, I think.

01:04:02.540 I mean, I can definitely agree with leaking the conversation being a move that I wouldn't

01:04:08.280 do years after a relationship because, again, it just seems vengeful more than anything else.

01:04:12.520 But I'm just strictly talking about the content and the text message.

01:04:15.020 I do agree that that action isn't correct either.

01:04:17.400 Again, I agree.

01:04:18.180 I've said earlier, two wrongs don't make a right.

01:04:20.020 I don't think she was right, necessarily, for doing that after the fact.

01:04:22.900 But I do think that he should have never pursued her if those were his boundaries.

01:04:26.740 And that is the person that he was going after.

01:04:29.700 Yeah.

01:04:29.880 And were you saying something?

01:04:32.440 Or I'm trying to...

01:04:33.620 Someone was going on something before the TTS came in.

01:04:36.480 No, I think they were good.

01:04:37.600 Oh, was it?

01:04:39.320 Oh, okay.

01:04:40.200 Here, let me read this one really quick.

01:04:41.520 Yo, TX Texas twin dad.

01:04:45.040 Yo, thank you, man, for the $69 Streamlabs donation.

01:04:48.260 Appreciate it.

01:04:48.600 Love the show, Brian.

01:04:49.520 Naomi, would you dad a Christian man?

01:04:53.200 Who can't...

01:04:53.760 Twin dads.

01:04:54.480 Are we talking about single dads?

01:04:57.140 Why are single dads attracted to me?

01:04:58.820 Like, in the DMs?

01:04:59.680 Like, that's all I get is the single dads.

01:05:01.520 Oh, my gosh.

01:05:02.380 Really?

01:05:02.980 I don't think I'm ready for a kid like that, though.

01:05:04.720 Don't place that, mommy.

01:05:06.100 Yeah.

01:05:06.760 Like, if the kid came out of me, that's one thing.

01:05:08.560 But I don't know if I'm there yet.

01:05:09.900 I have a question.

01:05:10.480 What if they were celibate?

01:05:11.380 What if they were everything you're looking for?

01:05:13.480 And he had a kid?

01:05:14.320 And he had a kid.

01:05:14.800 Does that matter, though?

01:05:17.520 I guess not.

01:05:18.480 I guess it doesn't.

01:05:19.340 It's a person, right?

01:05:19.760 When you put it that way.

01:05:21.120 Yeah.

01:05:21.480 If he's submitted to self-undering.

01:05:23.020 But the thing is, I feel like, though, like, as a woman, if I don't have a child yet, you

01:05:27.100 know what I mean?

01:05:27.400 If I could...

01:05:28.320 But granted, everyone has their, you know, reasons why they're, you know, a single dad

01:05:33.020 or a single mom. 0.98

01:05:33.800 Well, he says he can't have any more kids.

01:05:36.540 So he's snipped, I'm assuming.

01:05:37.780 Oh, he's snipped.

01:05:38.460 Do you want kids?

01:05:39.540 I want kids.

01:05:40.660 Oh, okay.

01:05:41.160 Sorry.

01:05:42.200 That's probably a no for you, but for Texas twin dad.

01:05:46.380 But hey, thank you, man, for the, you know.

01:05:49.620 Maybe we should ask him, are you okay with, like, a sperm donor?

01:05:54.120 Are you okay with a sperm donor?

01:05:55.700 I don't think so, no.

01:05:56.140 Okay, okay.

01:05:56.580 It's got to be biblically sound, I guess.

01:05:58.820 Adoption?

01:05:59.900 Adoption, yeah.

01:06:01.020 Yeah.

01:06:02.480 Okay.

01:06:02.800 Yo, Sage, thank you, man.

01:06:04.620 Oh, okay.

01:06:05.200 It's not reading.

01:06:05.960 Let me, hold on.

01:06:06.600 Let me skip.

01:06:07.380 Let me re-trigger.

01:06:08.700 Sorry, it's going to come back in here in just a sec.

01:06:11.980 And then we have, hold on, just one sec, guys.

01:06:17.720 While we wait for that, can you pull up the Twitch really quick?

01:06:20.180 Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:06:21.780 Drop us a follow.

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01:06:23.800 Drop us a prime sub.

01:06:25.760 Drop us a follow and a prime sub.

01:06:27.340 Yo, Ice Monkey, thank for the tier one.

01:06:28.880 Get off my lawn.

01:06:29.620 Thank for the prime.

01:06:30.520 Chillin' Pete, thank for the bits.

01:06:31.480 Pay, thank for the follow.

01:06:33.240 Lip, thank for the follow.

01:06:34.220 Carbon, thank for the follow.

01:06:35.180 Appreciate it.

01:06:36.060 Yo, Sage, thank you, man.

01:06:36.800 Sage's coffee donated $101.

01:06:39.940 Just got to start by saying striped shirt is beyond beautiful.

01:06:44.200 Does your spirit ever feel drained from slash-only vans?

01:06:47.940 If not, how long do you think you'll be active?

01:06:50.900 You guys should try Bison Burgers.

01:06:53.340 Yo, that's crazy.

01:06:54.140 I actually had a Bison Burger yesterday for the first time ever.

01:06:57.240 From where?

01:06:58.120 From where?

01:06:58.760 Eureka Burger.

01:07:01.420 I was just there the other day, too. 0.98

01:07:03.240 It was so fucking good. 0.95

01:07:04.860 Did you, the Eureka or the Bison Burger? 0.99

01:07:07.200 Eureka and the Bison Burger.

01:07:08.180 I had both.

01:07:08.580 Okay.

01:07:09.280 All right.

01:07:10.600 Wait, so this was directed at you, I guess?

01:07:12.900 Because you're the striped shirt, so.

01:07:14.180 Thank you.

01:07:14.660 I appreciate that.

01:07:15.380 I don't have an OnlyFans, though.

01:07:17.480 He's asking your opinion.

01:07:18.940 Allegedly.

01:07:19.260 Wait, wait, wait.

01:07:19.780 What was the question again?

01:07:20.680 He said, does your spirit feel drained, though?

01:07:22.680 From, I think that's maybe directed at the other girls.

01:07:25.980 From having OnlyFans?

01:07:27.080 He was complimenting you, and then he was asking a question.

01:07:31.560 Oh, that's a good question.

01:07:32.120 So, to the girls who do OF or who do adult content, does your spirit ever feel drained from doing it?

01:07:38.640 If not, how long do you think you'll be active doing adult content?

01:07:42.840 Oh, so he's asking all of us.

01:07:44.460 Yeah.

01:07:44.660 I don't feel drained by doing it, mostly because I don't really take it too seriously.

01:07:52.260 I just did it because I came on whatever, and all these guys wanted to send me money,

01:07:57.140 so I was kind of like, okay, well, I guess I'll make an OnlyFans.

01:07:59.440 Whoa, whoa, whoa, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

01:08:04.880 What?

01:08:05.760 That took me too long.

01:08:08.340 You had an OnlyFans your first time on the show.

01:08:11.660 Yeah, I had it, but I wasn't active.

01:08:13.100 I made the account, but I had never posted anything.

01:08:16.840 Okay, but you having an OnlyFans predates your first appearance on whatever.

01:08:21.780 Yeah, but I've never posted anything on there.

01:08:24.920 I just had it, and then I was like, okay, well, maybe I should post it.

01:08:28.320 Okay, so you're blaming us for your stuff.

01:08:30.320 Why am I blaming you?

01:08:31.120 I said, thank God for you.

01:08:33.100 Oh, okay, all right.

01:08:33.920 See, I've made some good amount of money.

01:08:36.400 Oh, do you want to share?

01:08:38.560 No, I'm not, but I want to share that.

01:08:40.000 Just tell anyone something.

01:08:41.060 No, I'm not, I don't, the people that subscribe to my OnlyFans are definitely whatever viewers.

01:08:49.000 Haram.

01:08:50.200 I'm disappointed.

01:08:51.880 Haram! 0.99

01:08:52.400 See, they're shit talkers, but low key, they're just, they go and subscribe to their OnlyFans. 0.99

01:08:57.620 Good times, good times. 0.99

01:08:58.900 And no, I don't think I will be doing it forever.

01:09:01.600 I'm mostly just doing it because I am going to school.

01:09:04.960 I need to pay for school fees.

01:09:06.420 I've had a lot, I ran into a lot of issues recently that have involved needing a lot of money, and I thank God that I've had OnlyFans to be there for me and to help me out.

01:09:19.620 And I definitely, I don't know, I guess I appreciate being, coming on here and getting OnlyFans subscribers.

01:09:28.000 So.

01:09:28.980 Okay.

01:09:29.760 Oh, go ahead.

01:09:30.840 I would say more the negativity, negativity, is draining, like just in general.

01:09:36.780 Oh, sorry.

01:09:37.720 Davon Jackson donated $100. 1.00

01:09:40.560 You fucking simps disgust me. 1.00

01:09:42.560 Wow, okay, Davon Jackson, shooting shots at the simps, okay. 1.00

01:09:52.120 I love simps.

01:09:53.940 Do you guys like simps?

01:09:55.460 You guys like simps?

01:09:56.500 Yeah.

01:09:57.020 Yeah, why not?

01:09:58.640 Would you date a simp? 0.92

01:09:59.660 Yeah, of course I would.

01:10:02.840 Why wouldn't I?

01:10:04.540 Yes.

01:10:04.840 Would you date a simp? 0.92

01:10:06.120 Yes.

01:10:06.380 I feel like you actually, you want to be the simp for the guy.

01:10:09.920 Yeah, I can do it.

01:10:10.640 Like, you want a guy who you can simp for, right?

01:10:12.840 Yeah.

01:10:13.580 Do you want it to be a mutual simp?

01:10:14.960 Yeah.

01:10:15.620 You want a mutual simping situation?

01:10:16.780 Yeah, I hate nonchalant guys.

01:10:18.380 Normal relationships.

01:10:18.800 Is that possible, though?

01:10:19.800 No, by definition, it's literally impossible.

01:10:22.100 What is a simp?

01:10:22.860 Well, by definition, I don't think I know. 0.98

01:10:24.840 Technically, the acronym is Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy, but the way it is actually utilized 0.99

01:10:29.760 in society just means guys who are pedestalizing women. 0.99

01:10:32.500 Any man who is pedestalizing a woman is a simp, essentially.

01:10:36.880 I, for some reason, I'm really attracted to guys that, like, don't want me and want nothing

01:10:41.840 to do with me.

01:10:42.620 Whoa.

01:10:43.220 Yeah.

01:10:44.020 Okay.

01:10:44.700 For some reason.

01:10:45.740 You're really attracted to guys who want nothing to do with you.

01:10:48.820 Yeah.

01:10:49.320 Like, the first guy that I have, like, that I was, like, really seriously, like, obsessed

01:10:54.420 with in high school, he didn't even want to hang out with me.

01:10:58.800 Like, we would hang out, like, once a week, maybe.

01:11:01.140 So you'd badger him? 0.98

01:11:02.040 And I would, like, yeah, I would, like, bug the shit out of him. 0.97

01:11:04.460 And I'd be like, let's hang out, let's hang out, let's hang out. 0.65

01:11:06.960 And I ended up leaving that situation.

01:11:09.900 Thank God I never thought I would be able to do it.

01:11:12.400 But I really, really liked him.

01:11:15.200 And I mostly think it was because he just didn't want anything to do with me.

01:11:19.000 Good times.

01:11:20.160 Good times.

01:11:20.780 I still like him.

01:11:21.600 You were about to go.

01:11:22.500 Go ahead.

01:11:23.440 No, I was just saying that being on the internet in general is kind of draining.

01:11:27.900 That's true.

01:11:28.520 That's fair.

01:11:30.040 Just a question.

01:11:30.840 A lot of you guys are tatted up here.

01:11:32.080 Can we get, like, a tattoo check on everybody?

01:11:35.160 Okay.

01:11:35.600 We got, what do we got here?

01:11:36.880 What you got for us?

01:11:37.840 I've got a lot of things.

01:11:38.800 I've got a lot of things.

01:11:40.480 I've got a sleeve.

01:11:41.860 I've got this.

01:11:42.420 I'm removing all the ones on this arm.

01:11:44.420 You're removing them?

01:11:45.120 Yeah.

01:11:45.820 What does it say?

01:11:46.820 I'll keep you well?

01:11:48.040 I'll keep you wild.

01:11:50.120 Wild.

01:11:50.420 Yeah, that was a matching tattoo with a family member.

01:11:52.160 Okay.

01:11:52.680 All right.

01:11:53.080 What you got?

01:11:53.920 What's that one?

01:11:55.660 Mahanya.

01:11:56.840 Who's that?

01:11:57.740 It's a Hanya mask. 0.95

01:11:58.900 Who's that? 0.90

01:11:59.620 It's a female demon. 1.00

01:12:01.600 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

01:12:02.780 That's a female? 1.00

01:12:03.840 Yeah, that became. 1.00

01:12:04.940 Damn. 1.00

01:12:05.360 Well, it was a female. 1.00

01:12:06.280 It was a woman. 0.60

01:12:06.920 Is that like, what kind of culture is that from?

01:12:09.000 I believe it's Japanese.

01:12:12.240 Japanese.

01:12:12.920 What's the word?

01:12:13.460 Like theater.

01:12:14.040 Japanese theater.

01:12:14.700 Okay.

01:12:15.100 All right.

01:12:15.980 Okay.

01:12:17.040 What's that lightning bolt on your arm?

01:12:19.120 What's that?

01:12:19.660 What's going on there?

01:12:20.400 I had a dog that died and his name was Zeus.

01:12:24.060 Oh, my uncle has one of those same tattoos, but it's two lightning bolts.

01:12:28.240 And then I think on your photo, it's not visible now.

01:12:30.540 You had good luck.

01:12:31.640 I have good luck on both sides.

01:12:34.240 And then I also have hidden tattoos.

01:12:36.940 Sorry.

01:12:37.540 Hidden tattoos. 1.00

01:12:38.000 I have a shrimp with a trucker hat that says cunt on it. 1.00

01:12:42.040 Oh, my God. 1.00

01:12:43.380 That is so cunty.

01:12:45.900 Explain that one.

01:12:47.220 Okay.

01:12:47.500 So it's a tribute to my best friend, Sarah. 1.00

01:12:50.340 She like reminds me of a shrimp and she has this hat that says I put the cunt in country. 1.00

01:12:53.960 So I just got a shrimp, but they couldn't fit the whole thing. 1.00

01:12:56.220 So we just put cunt on the hat. 1.00

01:12:59.620 Word. 1.00

01:13:00.460 Okay.

01:13:00.880 Very cool.

01:13:01.560 Very cool.

01:13:02.100 And then you got the neck?

01:13:03.740 I'm fully covered.

01:13:04.600 My whole body is heaven and hell.

01:13:06.500 Heaven and hell.

01:13:07.300 Okay.

01:13:07.600 Yeah.

01:13:07.720 Yeah.

01:13:07.800 My whole right leg is just dedicated to hell.

01:13:10.860 That is beautiful.

01:13:11.300 Azalea, you got tattoos or no? 0.99

01:13:13.520 I just have a heart on my ass cheek. 1.00

01:13:15.560 That's it? 0.98

01:13:15.960 Because you guys are all kind of friends, sort of.

01:13:18.420 Like you guys know each other.

01:13:19.340 So I was curious because you all have like you're all blasted with tats.

01:13:22.020 I was curious, like, did you guys meet at like a death metal concert?

01:13:27.360 Where do you all meet?

01:13:28.760 Like how do you all get connected with people who are just, you know, at the tattoo shop or what?

01:13:35.480 Brooke is from Ohio originally.

01:13:37.880 You're from Ohio?

01:13:38.500 I'm from Indiana.

01:13:39.400 So we knew each other from our hometowns.

01:13:41.300 Oh, wow.

01:13:41.680 Like living in the Midwest.

01:13:43.020 Just like there's a large community.

01:13:45.960 Tattoo industry?

01:13:47.060 Oh.

01:13:47.600 Hold on.

01:13:48.320 Yo, Derek.

01:13:49.220 Good to see you in chat, man.

01:13:50.140 $101.

01:13:51.100 Thank you.

01:13:51.540 How in the world do you think the Omni Vans life is okay with a good man?

01:13:56.040 It makes absolutely zero sense. 0.90

01:13:58.660 Your mentality is broken.

01:14:00.820 If you want that life and don't value yours, then fair enough.

01:14:04.960 You can't have both, though.

01:14:07.380 Yes, you can.

01:14:08.160 Derek, thank you for the TTS.

01:14:10.200 Do you guys have a response to Derek?

01:14:11.620 Yeah, yes, you can.

01:14:12.500 There is a lot of good men out there that respect OnlyFans girls, and to say that there is no good men out there and to say that none of us are going to find good men is such a mean thing to say because it's almost saying that none of us are worthy of love or worthy of finding a good man, which is so mean.

01:14:31.520 But do you guys think, those of you that do OnlyFans, do you think that there's certainly men that are going to date you, but do you think you have to some degree eliminated or minimized, we don't know the exact percentage, your dating pool?

01:14:48.540 Because there are men out there that it's just they don't want to date someone who does sex work.

01:14:55.660 So have, because of what you guys do, have any of you encountered any struggles when it comes to dating?

01:15:02.680 Have you met a guy who's just like, hey, this is too much for me, or has it impacted your romantic pursuits?

01:15:09.260 I would say that it already kind of eliminates people who aren't for me in general, because even if I didn't personally have an OnlyFans, I would be supportive of other people who were doing it.

01:15:19.620 And I just feel like my personality, like I'm very open and fluid, and I'm more aligned with people like that.

01:15:26.580 I would also agree.

01:15:28.080 I think there are always going to be, no matter what you do, people that are just automatically eliminated from your dating pool.

01:15:33.080 I am kind of like you, I'm super open, and I, you know, I support sex workers, I support all types of sex workers, and I wouldn't want to be with somebody that didn't align with that as well.

01:15:43.960 So, yeah, I guess they eliminate themselves, because I wouldn't want to be with them either.

01:15:48.800 Can I ask you ladies a question? 0.68

01:15:50.100 How would you feel about your daughter doing sex work? 1.00

01:15:53.300 I don't have a daughter, so.

01:15:54.300 But if you did, like, no, like, just try to put yourself in the hypothetical a little bit.

01:15:57.840 I would be supportive, because in my situation, I would like my mom to be supportive with it.

01:16:02.880 So, I would be supportive if my daughter chose to do anything with her life, as long, we're not hurting anyone.

01:16:08.640 We're not, we're not bad people.

01:16:11.540 And it's kind of sad that you guys are, keep, like, kind of pushing, making us feel like we're bad people.

01:16:16.260 I just asked the question.

01:16:16.960 Kind of, like, almost, sorry, kind of almost, like, discourage us and, like, shame us, which, like, we're not hurting anyone.

01:16:25.300 We're not killing anyone.

01:16:26.180 We're not doing anything.

01:16:27.040 There's people, like, that are hurting the planet, hurting children.

01:16:29.840 So, I feel like to worry really about OnlyFans girls is just so unfair.

01:16:34.460 Hold on, just a sec.

01:16:35.220 Of course, Spannies loves simps. 1.00

01:16:36.960 Simps are making these talentless, no life experience. 1.00

01:16:40.980 I have lots of talent, lots of.

01:16:43.620 No life experience.

01:16:44.260 They count their acts and pay sweaty fat dudes to chat with you while they laugh. 0.98

01:16:48.220 Stop contributing to the downfall of society, LLLL. 0.93

01:16:51.840 Wow.

01:16:54.340 Okay, they're out for blood tonight.

01:16:58.520 I was going to respond to that.

01:17:00.020 Thank you, Frankie.

01:17:00.660 Go ahead.

01:17:02.060 So, I'm kind of working hard so that I, you know, I'm financially stable in the future.

01:17:08.160 I'm taking all my OnlyFans money and trying to save and invest it because everyone's experience is different.

01:17:12.480 I went to OnlyFans because it was, I grew up very, very poor and OnlyFans, I realized you can make money quickly.

01:17:20.240 I was working, like, 60-hour work weeks before OnlyFans and this was just, like, a lot more freedom for me and a new experience.

01:17:26.940 But, basically, I'm trying to work really, really hard so that my daughter wouldn't have to do OnlyFans unless she wanted to.

01:17:33.080 That was, like, her preference.

01:17:33.940 Like I said, I got into it mainly for the money to support myself.

01:17:38.880 But, so, if my daughter wants to do it, then she can and I'll support her.

01:17:42.660 But, at the end of the day.

01:17:43.340 Which brings up a good question.

01:17:44.100 Would any of you do it if it weren't for the money?

01:17:46.640 No.

01:17:47.120 If you could make the equal amount of money with, like, you know, reasonable amount of effort, you know, because I'm sure you still need to put in some effort, right?

01:17:52.600 I'm sure you need to exercise real business skills, promotion, networking, all those things.

01:17:56.960 So, say you could do that but to another industry and make equal amount of money.

01:17:59.980 Would you do that?

01:18:00.560 Well, it depends because I really like the time freedom that I get from it because sometimes I'll work.

01:18:06.100 Yeah.

01:18:06.520 Okay.

01:18:07.020 Well, yeah, I guess if I could still make my own schedule, if there was something else I was passionate about, I would be open to it.

01:18:12.280 But, I actually really enjoy a lot of aspects of doing OnlyFans.

01:18:15.440 And, for the question about if I had a daughter, I would just want her to be honest with me and safe.

01:18:20.600 And, I would prefer if she was maybe a little older, not, like, freshly 18 doing it. 0.77

01:18:25.420 Just so she doesn't, like, regret some of her choices.

01:18:28.140 But, I think, you know, if I had a daughter, she would be her own person and I can't really, like, dictate her decisions.

01:18:35.520 But, I do think it's going to be a lot more accepted going forward.

01:18:38.820 I kind of feel like we were the guinea pigs during COVID when everyone started doing it and, like, not knowing the consequences and how it would play out.

01:18:46.300 I want to add on to her question.

01:18:48.600 Would you guys be okay with your mom doing OnlyFans?

01:18:52.780 Yeah.

01:18:53.120 My mom would never do that. 1.00

01:18:56.100 My mom wouldn't either.

01:18:57.060 But, if she wanted to, I mean, I have no problem with that.

01:19:00.080 Yeah.

01:19:00.280 Can I add something, by the way?

01:19:01.440 You said that OnlyFans doesn't.

01:19:03.740 You said that OnlyFans.

01:19:04.800 Okay.

01:19:05.200 Hold on.

01:19:05.680 Hold on.

01:19:06.000 We'll get you.

01:19:06.940 Yeah, thank you, Greg.

01:19:08.500 Derek Manx, one buddy.

01:19:10.180 I totally agree with you.

01:19:11.560 But, these girls definitely value their life. 1.00

01:19:14.240 It's somewhat around 15 to 30 bucks a month from total pathetic idiots who will never have a shot getting anything else of them. 1.00

01:19:21.520 Brian, keep up the podcast. 1.00

01:19:23.880 Love the show.

01:19:25.440 Well, thank you, Greg Neck, for that.

01:19:26.980 Appreciate it.

01:19:28.840 15 to 30.

01:19:29.880 Everyone just want to blurt out really quick your monthly OF fee?

01:19:33.600 30.

01:19:34.300 20.

01:19:36.140 15.

01:19:36.800 What a discount.

01:19:37.880 10.

01:19:38.620 20.

01:19:39.880 I think mine's at 10 right now.

01:19:42.420 Is there a whatever coupon code?

01:19:44.540 It is on sale right now.

01:19:45.900 On sale.

01:19:46.260 Okay.

01:19:46.380 Okay.

01:19:47.200 All right.

01:19:47.900 Okay.

01:19:48.060 So, I think you were making a point.

01:19:51.780 No, she was making a point, yeah.

01:19:52.900 Go ahead, Neff. 1.00

01:19:53.400 Go ahead, Neff. 1.00

01:19:53.820 So, you were saying that OnlyFans doesn't hurt anybody, but I would disagree personally.

01:19:57.840 I would say that having, well, not having, well, yeah.

01:20:00.420 I'd say that distributing that kind of content is just hurting, like, men and other people who decide to buy it.

01:20:06.060 It's just perpetuating, I don't want to say degeneracy, but it's perpetuating behaviors that set people back rather than forward.

01:20:11.760 So, for example, you're contributing to porn addiction, you're contributing to a lot of things, you're normalizing OnlyFans, and it's basically, I wouldn't say you personally are endorsing it and, like, telling younger girls, oh, do this, it's getting me money, but as a whole, I think that the promotion of OnlyFans is doing that.

01:20:27.800 I think that, unfortunately, 18-year-old girls are fresh out of high school, and they're doing this because other girls are saying, oh, it's getting me money, and it's like, I feel like you haven't really explored your other options.

01:20:39.640 I feel like if, you did say you were talented, I don't know what your talents are personally, but I feel like if you were to utilize those talents and use them to the best of your ability, you could do better things than be a part of an industry that's hurting people, like, the consumers and the people who are creating.

01:20:55.700 That promotional aspect you make is very true.

01:20:57.640 You hear about, like, girls who are, like, 17, who literally, when they're about to turn 18, are promoting, no, they're promoting it, being like, hey, my 18th birthday, this is about to drop, like, that's crazy and kind of disturbing.

01:21:08.020 Like, I'm sure we can all at least admit that that's kind of disturbing, that culture that is being developed.

01:21:13.600 I see what you're saying, and I definitely do have my limits, and I do have boundaries when it comes to OnlyFans.

01:21:20.240 I think it's really important.

01:21:21.960 I think OnlyFans is actually much more ethical than porn, because these girls, we're basically our own managers or whatever. 1.00

01:21:30.820 We choose what's going to go out there.

01:21:32.500 We choose what we're comfortable with.

01:21:34.220 The girls that work with other people, they choose who they want to do scenes with. 1.00

01:21:38.780 They choose who they want to work for.

01:21:41.340 And, yeah, like, you're your own manager. 0.58

01:21:44.160 I feel like that's honestly more ethical than going to, like, you know, like, watching regular porn, you know?

01:21:50.680 I can definitely agree with you.

01:21:52.440 When I see women that do have OnlyFans and that are older and that are promoting it to younger women and stating that this is so great, you're making so much money so fast, the majority of women that are on OnlyFans are not making massive amounts of cash.

01:22:05.240 Like, the industry standard, what is this, like, $600 a month or something?

01:22:07.640 Yeah, it's not a lot unless you already have a platform and, you know, have grown your, you know, whatever.

01:22:13.840 I don't think that any of us should be promoting or saying, hey, you're freshly 18, you should hop on this.

01:22:19.680 And there are women that do that and try to sign women up just to get a referral from them. 1.00

01:22:23.980 And I can definitely agree that that's wrong.

01:22:26.080 I was 27.

01:22:27.100 Wait, there's a referral program through it?

01:22:28.700 To sign women.

01:22:29.580 No.

01:22:30.620 No.

01:22:31.200 I didn't know that.

01:22:31.800 And I think that that's wrong. 0.99

01:22:32.720 Are you fucking serious? 0.99

01:22:34.100 Yes. 1.00

01:22:34.580 No.

01:22:35.260 And I'm saying that that's definitely wrong.

01:22:37.080 I would literally never do that.

01:22:38.300 I will always be honest about the negatives of doing it because there are pros and cons to literally everything.

01:22:43.840 But when you're freshly 18, you don't know what the consequences are.

01:22:47.240 You don't know what it's going to do to affect your mental health.

01:22:50.020 And I started mine when I was 27 years old.

01:22:52.480 So, you know, I had started nude modeling when I was younger.

01:22:55.160 I was very confident with myself.

01:22:56.500 I was confident with my body.

01:22:57.700 I took a lot of time to decide, okay, these are the things that I would be okay with doing, you know, on my account and the things that I would be okay with having leaked, et cetera, before I came to that decision.

01:23:08.700 And I don't think that freshly 18-year-old women have the mental capacity to really understand what they're doing. 1.00

01:23:14.760 So, I can definitely agree that that's wrong.

01:23:16.660 A hundred percent.

01:23:17.160 And that's crazy because I never knew there was any kind of incentive for referrals.

01:23:20.520 So, that makes sense why it is.

01:23:22.300 I mean, it would have had some type of impact on culture regardless. 0.98

01:23:26.600 But the fact that there is a financial incentivization for that is really fucked up, yo. 0.98

01:23:32.400 And they're just perpetuating. 0.94

01:23:33.340 That's, like, disturbing, honestly.

01:23:35.540 I'm sorry.

01:23:36.280 No, no.

01:23:36.760 They're just perpetuating this idea of, oh, you're going to be freshly 18.

01:23:40.660 You're going to make millions of dollars.

01:23:42.180 And that's just not the case.

01:23:43.760 I mean, the reason that I make any sort of money was because I already had a very large following.

01:23:49.740 And I signed up and could immediately start making money.

01:23:52.260 But I would never, you know.

01:23:55.060 Continue your point if you'd like.

01:23:56.520 I need to re-trigger this one.

01:23:58.980 I would never perpetuate that to an 18-year-old woman.

01:24:02.040 Or I would always say, you know, here are the pros.

01:24:04.400 Here are the cons.

01:24:05.020 This is what you need to think about before you do it.

01:24:06.860 Because, you know, obviously I understand that there's a stigma with it.

01:24:10.360 And there's things that will follow you for the rest of your life.

01:24:12.500 That you have to really set that boundary.

01:24:14.760 And I think these 18-year-old women as well might push themselves too far into doing a type of content that maybe later on they'll regret. 1.00

01:24:23.440 And they don't have the capacity to say.

01:24:25.740 Derek Mikes won donated $100.

01:24:28.520 I agree, my redneck friend.

01:24:30.120 If they only knew what a real man that would take care of them would actually do for them.

01:24:35.260 It would be life-changing for them.

01:24:37.740 A real man would provide for and take care of them. 0.99

01:24:41.080 Instead, they out.

01:24:42.540 Good men get no time.

01:24:44.060 Yo, Derek, appreciate the TTS.

01:24:47.860 How many of you, just on his thing really quick, and if you guys want to pick back up on your convo thread.

01:24:54.220 Guy comes along.

01:24:55.760 He's prepared to, he wants to marry you, have kids, blah, maybe you don't want to have kids.

01:25:01.160 Let's just say whatever.

01:25:01.900 Be your long-term partner.

01:25:03.360 And he wants to provide for you.

01:25:05.580 But he wants you to stop OnlyFans.

01:25:07.100 Do you do it?

01:25:07.520 Here, why don't we start with you and we'll go this way.

01:25:15.040 I mean, the whole purpose of doing OnlyFans is to provide for myself.

01:25:18.260 So if he's also giving me that same outcome, then yes, I would quit.

01:25:22.620 Would he need to provide on a level that is commensurate with your level of income on your own? 0.99

01:25:29.940 So let's say, holy shit, hide that. 0.98

01:25:33.220 Bender the Offender donated $99. 0.99

01:25:35.640 Thank you, Bender the Offender.

01:25:36.520 Shaming is a necessary part of society, because without shame we have no way to learn consequences from our life choices.

01:25:44.300 I agree.

01:25:45.180 Thank you, Bender the Offender.

01:25:46.040 Our consequences have nothing to do with you, though.

01:25:50.060 Yeah, they are when people trauma dump and stuff.

01:25:53.360 Who's trauma dumping?

01:25:54.660 You said you love to trauma dump.

01:25:56.080 Oh my god.

01:25:56.840 Okay, I'm not with you.

01:25:58.740 I'm not trauma dumping with you right now.

01:26:00.380 I'm just interested in general.

01:26:00.880 With your romantic.

01:26:01.620 Yeah.

01:26:02.060 The consequences that you face, like, ultimately, like, they're reflected in your character.

01:26:07.820 Like, the way that you approach relationships, I'd say, like, I'm not saying you specifically,

01:26:11.860 but I'd say, like, when you go into new relationships, all the, like, consequences in the past that you've faced because of your past behaviors,

01:26:18.060 they really do reflect on you.

01:26:19.600 They really do influence the way that a relationship might go.

01:26:22.460 So say, like, you had a hoe phase or something, that'll definitely influence someone. 1.00

01:26:26.600 Like, the consequences that you've paid for having a hoe phase. 0.99

01:26:28.980 Damn. 0.99

01:26:29.380 So should I keep it, like, private then? 0.99

01:26:31.180 No, no, no.

01:26:31.320 Like, is that your advice to me?

01:26:32.920 I'm not saying to keep it private.

01:26:33.980 Oh, because, see, you're damned if you do something, you're damned if you don't.

01:26:37.040 Yo, can we get Neb?

01:26:37.700 No, there's no winning, you guys.

01:26:38.860 Can we get Neb an energy drink?

01:26:39.860 I feel like Neb's a little lower energy tonight.

01:26:42.020 Wait, how many energy drinks do we have?

01:26:44.240 Yes.

01:26:44.740 I already drank, yeah.

01:26:45.880 Anybody else want a little?

01:26:47.300 Okay, anyways.

01:26:48.000 So the question was, because, you know, some people who do OF make a lot of money,

01:26:52.960 so, you know, maybe expecting a guy to be making $50,000 a month might not.

01:26:59.680 That's a very small percentage of men.

01:27:01.700 But let's say he's making enough to, like, provide for both of you.

01:27:06.400 Would you take it or what do you do?

01:27:08.960 I would only be worried about divorce, what happens in that instance.

01:27:13.180 If you're not set up and you're just left alone, like, in the dark, no money, nothing.

01:27:18.600 That's true.

01:27:19.240 A lot of men are, like, I recently saw a TikTok where it was, like, this wife,

01:27:24.040 and she was, like, this husband was, like, yelling at her for whatever reason.

01:27:28.040 And because she supposedly doesn't do anything, but she stays home and takes care of the kids, 1.00

01:27:33.200 cleans, cooks, and does everything.

01:27:35.080 And then her husband is just, like, all of a sudden saying that he wants a divorce

01:27:38.440 because, oh, he, like, met a younger lady who's, like, you know, younger,

01:27:44.140 and that's all they want, or more beautiful, whatever.

01:27:46.700 And then the woman is left with the kids. 0.80

01:27:49.380 Usually the man tends to, like, start their own life with their new family,

01:27:52.620 and then they leave the kid.

01:27:54.040 I mean, leave the kids and then, like, let the woman, like, fend for herself, basically. 1.00

01:27:58.260 You know?

01:27:58.640 And I feel like that happens a lot more often than you really think,

01:28:02.240 where women are just left to, like, suffer. 1.00

01:28:05.080 So.

01:28:05.720 It's also worth pointing out and mentioning that women that are doing all of the household chores 1.00

01:28:10.660 and labor, that's actually $10 trillion worth of unpaid labor.

01:28:14.300 Absolutely.

01:28:15.180 I am, I used to.

01:28:16.200 Wait, what?

01:28:16.760 Yeah.

01:28:17.020 I used to babysit.

01:28:18.100 Wait, hold on.

01:28:19.380 That is a real statistic.

01:28:22.420 Absolutely.

01:28:23.320 $10 trillion of unpaid labor.

01:28:25.520 For all women or one woman? 0.85

01:28:27.140 All women. 0.74

01:28:27.700 All women. 0.74

01:28:28.980 The household labor that they don't get compensated for,

01:28:31.560 that they're doing while their men are off at work,

01:28:33.200 is worth $10 trillion.

01:28:34.740 But, I mean, do you think they should be compensated?

01:28:37.200 What do you mean?

01:28:37.820 You think they should be compensated?

01:28:38.960 Well, no.

01:28:39.140 That's not what I'm saying at all.

01:28:40.180 It's just comparing how hard, like, how hard their labor is compared to, like,

01:28:44.420 if it were to be.

01:28:45.660 Because a lot of men that end up calling themselves the breadwinner,

01:28:49.500 and they come home and they say, well, you're not doing anything.

01:28:51.780 Like, I go out and I work all day while she's taking care of the home.

01:28:54.980 Like, that's still labor.

01:28:56.180 Taking care of children is super difficult.

01:28:59.420 I've worked with children.

01:29:00.560 Anna, have you ever been in a coal mine?

01:29:03.420 In a coal mine?

01:29:04.360 Okay, most guys aren't really in coal mines.

01:29:06.580 There's still dudes in coal mines.

01:29:08.580 Okay.

01:29:09.060 I mean, like, but, okay, let's, so in your example.

01:29:12.240 You're raising children, though.

01:29:13.680 Hold on just a sec.

01:29:14.360 So in your example, you're saying the guy who's the sole breadwinner,

01:29:18.120 he's working 9 to 5, he's working 40, 50 hours a week,

01:29:21.500 and then the woman, she's a stay-at-home mom. 1.00

01:29:24.420 Is that kind of the framework that you're, because wouldn't it make sense

01:29:29.280 that if he's out working and she's the homemaker that she would be homemaking?

01:29:34.180 Well, no, I'm not saying that that shouldn't be some sort of dynamic,

01:29:38.480 but what I'm saying is that when the. . .

01:29:40.620 Cut off again, sorry.

01:29:41.620 It's okay.

01:29:42.720 Yo, Justin, think of that.

01:29:43.660 The gate is wide and the path to damnation is well-traveled.

01:29:47.420 Oh.

01:29:47.940 Definitely proving that to be correct.

01:29:50.540 Why would you put something idolizing a place of eternal torment on your body?

01:29:55.220 Naomi, keep carrying your cross.

01:29:57.860 God bless.

01:29:58.480 Oh, he's talking about your tat.

01:29:59.300 He's talking about your tat.

01:29:59.760 Wait, I'm confused.

01:30:00.520 He's talking about her tat.

01:30:01.360 I thought he was talking about Karen, 0.69

01:30:02.200 but she has a hell sleeve on her leg. 1.00

01:30:05.000 Wait.

01:30:05.780 What?

01:30:06.360 I don't know what he said.

01:30:07.580 They're mad that you.

01:30:08.620 Why would you put something idolizing a place of eternal torment

01:30:11.580 on your body? 0.90

01:30:12.360 Hell. 0.94

01:30:12.720 Is that this one?

01:30:14.040 No.

01:30:14.720 They're talking about her because she has a hell tattoo.

01:30:17.560 Where?

01:30:17.940 In a heaven.

01:30:18.840 Hidden?

01:30:19.360 No, yeah, my whole body is.

01:30:20.800 My whole right leg is hell, based on hell.

01:30:23.380 It's a depiction, an artistic depiction of. . . .

01:30:26.020 Different things, yeah.

01:30:27.380 Okay.

01:30:28.100 All right.

01:30:28.360 Yeah, yeah.

01:30:29.720 What did you say?

01:30:29.860 I guess you are condemned to eternal damnation.

01:30:32.480 All right, sounds good. 0.93

01:30:33.660 I used to be a Christian.

01:30:34.760 I was raised a Christian, so I get it.

01:30:37.180 So to each their own.

01:30:38.260 Go back to your point about the division of labor or housework.

01:30:42.380 Right.

01:30:42.680 Well, I'm not saying that a traditional relationship where a man is doing the gender role of going

01:30:47.420 out and being a breadwinner and the woman staying home and homemaking and taking care 0.99

01:30:51.140 of children, I'm not saying that shouldn't be a dynamic, but I'm saying that it's wrong

01:30:54.500 when the husband comes home and says, well, you're not doing X, Y, and Z.

01:30:57.740 What your wife is doing when she's homemaking is still labor, whether or not she's being compensated. 0.90

01:31:02.600 So to hold money over her head and act like she's not doing anything while she's sitting 1.00

01:31:06.120 at home, raising your family, cooking your meals, cleaning your house, organizing everything,

01:31:10.000 keeping your schedule on track, that's still labor.

01:31:13.260 Absolutely.

01:31:13.820 And they've, I believe it was the Bureau of Labor Statistics that said that women's unpaid

01:31:19.920 work in a household is worth $10 trillion.

01:31:24.480 Internationally.

01:31:25.000 Hold on, I got a thing.

01:31:25.900 Oh, internationally?

01:31:26.640 Internationally.

01:31:27.640 Like all of the women in the world that are homemaking and are doing household chores 1.00

01:31:32.720 and keeping schedules together and raising families and cooking and cleaning and doing

01:31:37.100 all of that, that's labor that's unpaid.

01:31:39.560 And they said the unpaid amount of money is $10 trillion.

01:31:42.380 So what I'm saying is that it's not right for a man to come home and be like, you're not 0.99

01:31:46.020 doing X, Y, and Z.

01:31:47.260 And that's what we're saying.

01:31:48.080 We're saying, give up your OnlyFans, be a homemaker, and you could potentially end up

01:31:52.240 in a divorce situation where he goes, oh, well, you're not doing anything, leaves and

01:31:56.060 takes all the money with you while you've created a home and had done what he wanted

01:32:00.840 you to do and basically deems the work that you've done worthless.

01:32:03.680 Yeah, but if your husband is going, I'll get to you in a sec, Allie.

01:32:06.760 If your husband is working a nine to five job and you are, he's providing, he's providing

01:32:12.980 financially for the both of you, then you are pulling your half of the bargain or pulling

01:32:17.820 your weight by taking care of the home.

01:32:19.860 Right.

01:32:20.220 That's what I'm saying.

01:32:21.480 But I don't, why are you viewing it from a lens of it being unpaid?

01:32:25.280 Of course, it's unpaid.

01:32:27.960 I think you're really missing the point.

01:32:29.020 I mean, that's self-evident.

01:32:30.040 Yeah, thank you.

01:32:31.000 Yeah, you're really missing the point, Brian.

01:32:32.980 Well, explain, what am I missing?

01:32:35.100 First, I wanted to say that, well, okay, never mind.

01:32:40.540 I don't want to say this right now because I backtracked myself a little bit.

01:32:44.640 But you are missing the point.

01:32:46.820 What?

01:32:47.440 It's because you're really focused on saying like, oh, well, if you're going to stay

01:32:51.220 home, then you need, you, you need to get paid.

01:32:53.620 I feel like that's what you're kind of trying to, you know, like, that's not what I'm saying.

01:32:56.900 That's not what we're saying at all.

01:32:57.900 But are you trying to argue that men don't value the work that women do?

01:33:03.060 Yeah, absolutely.

01:33:04.300 That's, that's exactly my point.

01:33:05.800 I mean, what, what evidence do you have for that?

01:33:08.740 So, I mean, here's why, because you cited to this, well, the, the Department of Labor,

01:33:15.260 they, they tabulated that it's trillions of dollars that women are doing in unpaid labor 1.00

01:33:21.520 as if all those women, they, it is unappreciated by their husbands, the work that they do. 0.96

01:33:27.520 But I don't think that's the case.

01:33:29.040 Perhaps it's the case that there are some men who are unappreciative or, or not cognizant

01:33:35.740 of the work that their spouses do at the home.

01:33:38.060 Although I don't think that's really, I don't, what evidence is there for that?

01:33:42.040 I mean, I think there's expectations that come in matrimonial relationships in general

01:33:45.820 and whether or not they want to conform to that traditional, oh, the woman does the house 1.00

01:33:49.620 cleaning, the men does that, is up to them entirely.

01:33:51.920 I mean, me personally, I love my boyfriend.

01:33:54.020 I'd do anything for him.

01:33:54.760 Like, I clean up his dishes and I do whatever and I don't, like, and just the way that he

01:34:00.360 treats me, like, that's enough for me.

01:34:02.560 Like, I don't expect any reparations.

01:34:04.160 He said that's enough for you?

01:34:05.640 I think everything he does for me is enough for me.

01:34:08.220 I think it's more than enough for me.

01:34:09.460 I'm a steel worker.

01:34:11.240 I work around 15 ton steel rolls that are suspended above my head.

01:34:15.940 I provide the roof over your head.

01:34:18.100 I fix any issues with the house.

01:34:20.400 I provide the lifestyle you need.

01:34:22.440 Yo, Bender, and I'll let you come in just after this really quick. 0.92

01:34:25.260 Bender, the offender, thank you very much for your TTS. 1.00

01:34:27.880 Yeah, I mean, that's a good point.

01:34:28.960 And also, I mean, what about all the household labor that men do, which is uncompensated for 0.70

01:34:34.660 and unpaid?

01:34:35.220 For example, men are typically expected to take care of some of the more physically laborious

01:34:40.480 tasks like mowing the lawn, fixing appliances around the house, potentially car-related things.

01:34:47.460 So, I mean, there's certainly tasks that men undertake, for example, that might, you know,

01:34:52.340 something that's heavy that might need to be moved around.

01:34:54.720 And so, I don't think it's just women that are contributing to the upkeep of the household. 0.99

01:35:01.520 I think what you're kind of missing on is that we were talking about that when men, what you

01:35:09.480 brought up the question, saying that, would you give up your OnlyFans if a man was going

01:35:15.020 to provide everything for you?

01:35:16.220 And then that's why we said, well, like if we give up our OnlyFans, like whatever, give

01:35:22.160 up whatever job because the man, your husband, is like, I want you to stay home.

01:35:27.060 I want you to raise my kids.

01:35:28.940 I want you to do this, and then all of a sudden he finds a younger lady, whatever, finds somebody 0.82

01:35:35.440 better, and then he's like, see you later, and then like leaves the whole family.

01:35:40.000 And then now you're the man, because of the man, because of the man, because he said, because

01:35:44.640 of the husband, he said, sorry, he said, no, I don't want you to work.

01:35:49.780 I want you to stay here and watch my kids, raise my children, clean my house, do all of

01:35:54.540 this.

01:35:54.820 Our kids.

01:35:55.540 Yeah.

01:35:55.740 Okay. 0.99

01:35:55.940 And then you're screwed, you know? 0.98

01:35:57.520 I think you're just choosing the wrong people then. 0.95

01:35:59.320 What do you mean you were choosing the wrong people?

01:36:01.520 This is a hypothetical.

01:36:02.400 We don't, no, no, no, no.

01:36:03.360 We can find a man, he can be the most amazing person ever, a few years along the line, he

01:36:09.640 can turn into the worst person ever.

01:36:11.420 What do you mean we're choosing the wrong people?

01:36:13.060 So it's your choice to leave then?

01:36:13.580 No.

01:36:14.140 If you're not willing to, um. 0.98

01:36:15.560 Yes, that is your choice to leave, but you can also be so screwed. 0.87

01:36:19.080 This man could be the perfect man and be like, oh my goodness, have you not, like, seen, like, 0.95

01:36:24.140 what's been going on, have you not seen what's been going on recently with all the men that

01:36:28.180 have, like, their families because their wife has wanted a divorce?

01:36:32.320 It's not that easy to get a divorce.

01:36:34.080 Women are out here dying. 1.00

01:36:35.280 What is happening?

01:36:35.580 And their children are dying.

01:36:37.000 Wait, well, just one thing.

01:36:38.220 Women are more likely to initiate divorces than men are. 0.93

01:36:40.580 And then when they initiate it, the men get scared and they want to inflict the most pain

01:36:44.140 upon their woman, upon that woman, and then they end up, have you not heard about what's

01:36:48.680 been going on?

01:36:49.260 Have you not heard about Chris Watts?

01:36:50.540 Have you not heard about the man from.

01:36:51.800 Have you heard about Jodi Arias?

01:36:53.860 Yes, I've heard about Jodi Arias.

01:36:55.340 That has nothing to do.

01:36:56.500 That has nothing to do.

01:36:57.340 Trevor.

01:36:57.860 No, no, no.

01:36:58.180 Welcome to the whatever crime channel.

01:36:59.840 This is about, like, disdain and relationships.

01:37:03.380 And you are using true crime examples as these moments of disdain.

01:37:05.900 Well, I think, like, the point she's trying to make, sorry to cut you off, is, like, financial

01:37:09.680 abuse, like, if you are stuck in a relationship where you pretty much gave up your source of

01:37:14.800 income, where you could comfortably support your own lifestyle independently, and to answer

01:37:19.980 the question if I would do that or not, if I trusted someone, if I was in love with them,

01:37:23.800 and they could really, like, afford to do that.

01:37:25.680 But people get, like, played with that all the time.

01:37:28.040 Absolutely.

01:37:28.580 Yeah.

01:37:28.820 But this idea that men in droves are leaving their wives for, like, the younger, you know,

01:37:35.640 like, a younger girl, it does happen.

01:37:39.200 It does happen.

01:37:39.680 But I actually don't think it's as common as actually women leaving their husbands.

01:37:44.280 Well, I don't know the reasons why, but women are more likely to initiate divorces. 1.00

01:37:48.400 Okay.

01:37:49.120 So men should be more concerned about negative divorce or negative outcomes. 0.53

01:37:53.280 If you're not satisfied with your relationship, you're entirely entitled to leave.

01:37:57.180 But how are you supposed to leave when you're being financially abused and have no source of income?

01:38:00.580 Wait.

01:38:00.640 That's exactly what we've been trying to make this.

01:38:02.140 None of this is for you guys.

01:38:03.320 I was like, whoa, that's what I was thinking this whole time.

01:38:06.900 I'm like, how does it relate to the question, though?

01:38:08.760 Divorce was not included in that question originally.

01:38:11.020 We went.

01:38:11.740 Yeah, I don't know where we're going.

01:38:13.000 But hold on.

01:38:13.720 You mentioned financial abuse.

01:38:16.260 What do you mean?

01:38:17.200 Well, financial abuse is basically what we were describing,

01:38:19.860 where you give up your entire career for a man in a relationship, a partnership,

01:38:24.160 and then they hold the money over your head.

01:38:26.600 You get X amount of money to do X, Y, Z, and it's, oh, well, I go out and I make all of the money.

01:38:31.140 You only have access to X, Y, and Z, and that's what I choose that you have access to after you give up your career.

01:38:36.520 And then if you choose to leave that man, you are left with, depending on how long you've been with them,

01:38:40.700 no experience in the job field.

01:38:42.360 You've given up your only source of income.

01:38:44.640 If you had signed a prenup, there's no alimony.

01:38:47.340 There's no child support.

01:38:48.520 There's no nothing.

01:38:49.640 And then how are you supposed to leave that relationship?

01:38:51.860 Well, it was your choice to agree to those terms.

01:38:54.000 Oh, my goodness.

01:38:54.900 No, girl. 0.96

01:38:55.940 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:38:57.140 Well, prenups, you can define the terms, right?

01:38:59.040 Yeah, can you guys stop yelling at me?

01:39:01.000 I was going to say, it was your choice to give up those freedoms in the first place

01:39:04.580 because you were dependent on that man in the first place.

01:39:06.300 You said, okay, you could be the breadwinner of this household.

01:39:08.860 I'm fine with that.

01:39:09.460 I'm fine with homemaking.

01:39:10.280 I'm fine with all that.

01:39:11.180 But there's always that risk that comes with that.

01:39:13.300 And if you want to avoid that risk, then you're entitled to do your own thing.

01:39:17.560 You're entitled to do that.

01:39:17.720 We're just saying it happens.

01:39:18.920 We're not saying that we're going to do that.

01:39:20.600 I know what happens.

01:39:21.100 Like, you understand it.

01:39:22.840 Like, you've gone so far left that you've, like, made a 180.

01:39:26.560 Have I gone so far left that I made a 180?

01:39:28.600 Yeah, like, or whatever, whichever direction you're going, girl. 0.81

01:39:31.900 Whichever direction you're going, like, you just exactly, you literally, like, explained

01:39:36.880 exactly what we were trying to get at.

01:39:38.900 I mean, you're basically blaming it all on us.

01:39:40.940 It's your decision to give up.

01:39:42.240 Well, here's the thing.

01:39:43.060 I just thought recently that prenups, you can actually set your own condition.

01:39:46.040 So I think it should come down to the terms of a relationship, right?

01:39:48.580 So if someone, if a man says, hey, I want to have a tradcom relationship, I want you

01:39:52.280 to stay at home and raise the children, then it is your, the onus of responsibility is on

01:39:57.300 you as that wife and as the future mother to be able to say, put these terms in the

01:40:01.840 prenup to where if I leave you, for sure, that's on me.

01:40:05.540 But hey, if you're, if, if you decide to leave me and I have no accolades, no resume,

01:40:10.340 nothing, and I'm forced to go out in the workforce, then I'm protected.

01:40:13.720 You can actually set prenups to be in alignment with whatever conditions the couple decides.

01:40:18.260 So it should be up to the individual couple at the end of the day.

01:40:21.560 And people should go into these things with their eyes wide open and educate themselves.

01:40:25.520 If they don't, that is on them.

01:40:27.560 Okay.

01:40:27.780 But the thing is with, um, that most women are getting told like, okay, like we will be

01:40:35.040 the provider.

01:40:35.860 You stay home.

01:40:36.720 You do this.

01:40:37.440 You do X, Y, and Z. 0.94

01:40:38.820 And then they're getting screwed over. 0.58

01:40:40.800 Like most women won't leave the relationship because they know they are being financially 1.00

01:40:45.320 provided for.

01:40:46.180 So in that case, most women won't leave. 1.00

01:40:49.240 They won't leave because they know that they are screwed. 0.97

01:40:51.720 You're the one who agreed to the trad con lifestyle in the first place. 0.92

01:40:55.380 And again, define those terms.

01:40:56.620 When did I just say that?

01:40:57.440 If you're going into a marriage and the, and the husband wants a prenup, which would then

01:41:01.300 dispose you to that position in the first place, then be a contributor to set the terms.

01:41:06.100 Where if he is saying, I want you to stay at home and only serve me, then there should 0.62

01:41:10.840 be some allowance.

01:41:11.920 I'll do that when I get married.

01:41:12.640 Well, then there should be some allowance where he says, okay, then legally there will

01:41:15.740 be a contract to where if I leave you for, you know, whatever reason, then you will be

01:41:19.580 taken care of.

01:41:20.500 What if it's not a marriage?

01:41:21.300 I'll do that when I get married.

01:41:22.420 What if it's just a relationship and there's no prenup involved?

01:41:25.640 Well, if you're just, I mean, well, there's common law, right?

01:41:30.700 There is common law, actually, that I don't know how it is actually in America.

01:41:33.480 So maybe someone could clarify for me if you guys know.

01:41:35.280 It depends on the state.

01:41:35.960 But in Australia, when you've been living with someone for two years, we're in a de facto

01:41:38.680 relationship and most of the same things pertain as what is an actual legal marriage.

01:41:44.560 Word.

01:41:45.120 Here, I do have to do a couple of chats.

01:41:47.000 There are some common law marriage states, but most states are not common law marriage.

01:41:51.360 Okay.

01:41:51.680 So we have that guy, Pyros.

01:41:53.660 Hey, thank you, man.

01:41:54.200 Why do you women think sex work is a job work? 1.00

01:41:57.980 Man, you guys are going hard. 0.61

01:41:59.040 Okay.

01:41:59.780 Worth praising.

01:42:01.120 Men don't respect.

01:42:03.340 You will never get the perfect man you want because you don't deserve him.

01:42:07.160 Nothing is more attractive to a man than the hardworking woman like an ER nurse.

01:42:12.220 Actually, I recently read a study that nurses, especially like those who work in emergency

01:42:16.500 setting or overnight setting, are like the most likely to cheat, apparently.

01:42:22.280 Yeah, they're the most stressed.

01:42:23.600 Yeah.

01:42:24.040 Right.

01:42:24.620 But do you guys have a response to that?

01:42:28.120 Well, I never said that I should be praised for having an OnlyFans.

01:42:33.160 I don't think any of us said that, actually.

01:42:34.060 Yeah, no one is saying that.

01:42:35.160 And also, like, I hate to use the word privilege, but not everybody has the privilege to afford

01:42:41.420 an education to go into things like health care.

01:42:44.100 Like, I'm just now, because of OnlyFans, able to afford to go back to school to get a

01:42:48.500 degree.

01:42:49.140 So I hate using the word privilege.

01:42:50.900 But that's, yeah.

01:42:52.060 Yeah, so the scenario is different with each and every individual.

01:42:55.280 Okay.

01:42:55.860 It also doesn't have to be one or the other.

01:42:57.780 I have a full-time job, and I also do content creation.

01:43:00.240 So you can have a regular job, be an ER nurse, and also do content creation in OnlyFans.

01:43:05.700 It doesn't have to be either or.

01:43:08.040 Okay.

01:43:08.860 By the way, you're a flight attendant.

01:43:10.140 Have you ever created something up in the air?

01:43:13.040 No, I have not.

01:43:15.200 My high club, baby.

01:43:17.120 It does happen, though.

01:43:18.480 All right.

01:43:20.020 We have Doc Vanadlis.

01:43:21.280 Hey, thank you, man.

01:43:21.960 Good to see you in the chat.

01:43:22.720 Blue Top Girl, there's hope for you yet.

01:43:25.120 Save your dough.

01:43:26.380 Get good therapy for one year.

01:43:28.600 Then you will find a good man.

01:43:30.760 The seat next to you is a lost cause.

01:43:33.320 I'm already in therapy.

01:43:34.380 I've been in therapy for two years, so it's like, let's go.

01:43:38.040 Do you have a response to Doc?

01:43:40.380 Nah.

01:43:41.340 He says you're a lost cause.

01:43:42.760 I am not a lost cause.

01:43:44.380 Just because you don't agree with everything that I say or do, I'm not a lost cause.

01:43:48.540 What's the opposite of a lost cause?

01:43:50.300 A found cause?

01:43:51.480 A just cause.

01:43:52.460 A just cause.

01:43:53.220 A just cause, okay.

01:43:54.380 A worthy crusade.

01:43:55.460 A worthy crusade.

01:43:56.360 Just the tip.

01:44:00.640 Donated 86.

01:44:02.740 Hold on.

01:44:03.140 Where is it?

01:44:03.560 Hold on.

01:44:04.540 I'm trying to find something here.

01:44:05.560 Wait.

01:44:06.180 Oh, dear.

01:44:07.440 Just the tip.

01:44:08.260 Just for a second.

01:44:09.220 Just as you have things.

01:44:10.100 A man who is willing to let his woman sell herself isn't your man. 0.97

01:44:13.860 He is your P-I-M-P or just a simp. 0.99

01:44:18.560 Hmm.

01:44:18.940 Word.

01:44:20.380 Allow.

01:44:21.560 What?

01:44:21.960 I know.

01:44:23.220 Girl, I'm doing that on my own.

01:44:24.620 He ain't allowing me to do anything.

01:44:26.660 Also, pimp, he would have to be taking a cut of my money for that to be the dynamic in

01:44:32.500 the relationship and it's simply not.

01:44:34.440 That's what he's saying.

01:44:35.020 Either a pimp would accept that cause he is making money or a simp would accept it because

01:44:38.920 a simp's gonna idolize you no matter what.

01:44:40.720 That's the point he's making.

01:44:42.620 I mean.

01:44:43.100 I would.

01:44:43.480 It would be a pimp in my category cause I do love to spoil my man that I'm seeing so

01:44:47.720 he will definitely get a cut.

01:44:49.720 Me too.

01:44:50.100 I am a giver.

01:44:50.620 Is that the cap?

01:44:51.660 Actually though.

01:44:52.560 It's true.

01:44:53.300 Are you just saying that?

01:44:54.640 Are you just pandering?

01:44:55.880 My friends tell me I need to stop spending money on the men that I see so quickly.

01:44:59.560 Oh, right.

01:45:00.120 Yeah.

01:45:00.240 I think you did include something in your pre- we'll get to that in a sec here.

01:45:03.480 Okay.

01:45:04.780 So you simp for your- actually a question for you guys.

01:45:08.900 So let's say you- and maybe you've had this experience with a past guy for those of you

01:45:13.120 who do adult content.

01:45:15.640 A new guy comes in and maybe he's down to help you film or something.

01:45:19.800 Does he get a cut or in the past, have you ever given a cut to a guy that you were seeing?

01:45:26.140 Let's start with you.

01:45:26.800 Go ahead.

01:45:27.460 So the only time I ever did like BG content that I actually like put on my OnlyFans was

01:45:33.020 with my ex who also had an account.

01:45:34.880 So how we did it was he also sold things.

01:45:37.480 A lot of my fans coming from my YouTube channel would subscribe to his page as well and basically

01:45:42.080 pay to see content of me.

01:45:43.700 So it never became a situation where I was like selling sex tapes and giving him a cut or

01:45:47.580 anything like that.

01:45:48.420 And that's actually a huge reason- one of like the many reasons why I don't cross that

01:45:52.580 boundary because I feel like it can get messy when like your romantic partners, you're like

01:45:56.640 paying them out and then, you know, you're the face of the content.

01:45:59.340 It's out there forever.

01:46:00.040 You're paying taxes on it.

01:46:01.080 I just feel like it is kind of hard to find an ideal arrangement with that and some people

01:46:05.740 do and I think that's great for them but it can get messy.

01:46:08.700 I have never given a man a cut of my money.

01:46:13.920 They've never helped me film.

01:46:14.960 I've never done BG content or anything like that.

01:46:17.980 So I've never really had- it was never a necessity for somebody to help me in that regard.

01:46:23.600 I do what SC does and I just spoil my boyfriend with my earnings.

01:46:28.340 Spoil- you spoil your boyfriend.

01:46:30.060 Yeah.

01:46:30.340 I took him to Japan in April.

01:46:32.240 Brooke and I went.

01:46:33.080 Oh, girl.

01:46:33.700 That's crazy.

01:46:34.400 My boyfriend, we're just in Japan.

01:46:36.020 Oh, yeah?

01:46:36.360 Where'd you go?

01:46:37.140 Oh, commonality.

01:46:38.880 We stayed in Tokyo for a bit in Shimao Akitazawa.

01:46:41.420 I was there for a month living through study abroad but then he came and joined me and it

01:46:44.540 was honestly great.

01:46:45.580 Like, I don't know.

01:46:46.300 I just feel like-

01:46:47.040 Did you pay for it from your-

01:46:49.420 No, no.

01:46:49.840 Well, I paid for like some of like gifts and stuff.

01:46:52.160 Like, I bought him a ton of things.

01:46:53.380 Like, we sort of like to buy each other stuff.

01:46:55.060 Like, I went to Hawaii for a bit and like I spent the last of my money on him but I don't

01:46:59.660 know.

01:46:59.820 It was just great.

01:47:00.400 Like, I think traveling with a significant other really just-

01:47:05.040 I don't know.

01:47:06.560 I don't know.

01:47:07.240 That was lovely.

01:47:09.060 Well, you-

01:47:09.860 Let's be honest though.

01:47:10.780 You were compensating for the fact that you were like trying to make it up to him because

01:47:16.040 you were simping on Chase last show.

01:47:17.780 No, no.

01:47:17.960 No, no.

01:47:18.080 No, no.

01:47:18.660 Just admit it, Nev.

01:47:20.260 No, no.

01:47:20.920 Okay.

01:47:21.320 We're past that.

01:47:22.040 Like, that's done.

01:47:22.400 You're past it.

01:47:22.740 I personally wasn't simping but I love this man to death.

01:47:26.560 Like, I would literally-

01:47:27.560 I don't even know.

01:47:28.500 I have a question.

01:47:29.060 Okay.

01:47:29.340 Burned down an orphanage.

01:47:30.580 Huh?

01:47:30.880 Just to keep him warm.

01:47:31.920 Whoa.

01:47:32.540 Like, I don't know.

01:47:33.440 I don't know.

01:47:33.800 What?

01:47:34.440 But like, I don't know.

01:47:35.860 It was just great.

01:47:36.440 Like, because we both liked One Piece and then we went to like the One Piece like thing

01:47:40.380 and it was just awesome.

01:47:42.140 Like, it was great.

01:47:43.360 And then we went to the forest.

01:47:45.760 The Logan Paul forest.

01:47:47.280 And it was just-

01:47:47.920 The Logan Paul forest?

01:47:48.480 It was magical.

01:47:49.160 It was magical.

01:47:49.700 It was magical. 1.00

01:47:50.360 Shut your fucking mouth. 1.00

01:47:52.160 Okay. 1.00

01:47:52.420 What about you?

01:47:54.540 I mean, I pretty much do the same thing.

01:47:57.740 We went to Japan together with our boyfriends.

01:47:59.820 Oh, you both brought your boyfriends.

01:48:01.060 Yeah.

01:48:01.340 Business class.

01:48:01.520 What about you? 1.00

01:48:01.980 Um, I've paid my friends to suck their dick for my OnlyFans. 1.00

01:48:08.100 Oh? 1.00

01:48:09.860 What?

01:48:11.440 Hmm?

01:48:11.980 Um, I really don't have any partners.

01:48:14.520 I didn't really like my boyfriends being on.

01:48:16.860 The last two exes that I had on my OnlyFans, I paid for everything, pretty much. 1.00

01:48:22.480 Wait, you paid someone to suck their dick? 1.00

01:48:24.720 Yeah. 1.00

01:48:25.700 What?

01:48:26.200 So I could own it.

01:48:27.000 So I could own it.

01:48:28.520 It's about content.

01:48:29.560 It's about owning the content.

01:48:30.340 Okay.

01:48:30.640 I got you.

01:48:31.080 I got you.

01:48:31.900 Yeah.

01:48:32.140 That's just ironic.

01:48:33.220 Yeah.

01:48:33.480 No, I know.

01:48:34.020 I know.

01:48:34.620 People would do it for free.

01:48:35.640 I get it.

01:48:36.020 Sorry.

01:48:36.340 It's okay.

01:48:36.980 It's okay.

01:48:37.560 I know.

01:48:38.220 It's okay.

01:48:39.560 Wow.

01:48:40.280 Good times.

01:48:41.200 Yeah.

01:48:41.480 Good.

01:48:42.080 Good times.

01:48:43.080 Uh, what about you?

01:48:44.200 Um.

01:48:44.720 Did you spoil your man?

01:48:45.640 Oh, yeah.

01:48:46.100 I love spoiling whoever I like.

01:48:48.920 I fall in love very fast.

01:48:50.440 I fall in love hard.

01:48:51.920 Oh, hold on.

01:48:53.000 Okay.

01:48:53.240 So underscore privileged underscore underscore underscore toxin.

01:48:56.080 Thank you, man.

01:48:58.520 Only in America are women's lives so privileged that they feel zero shame in claiming that 0.90

01:49:04.100 a man who is sacrificing everything to commit to plus support a wife financially is abusing

01:49:09.240 her.

01:49:10.000 Cannot stop laughing.

01:49:11.580 We've really ruined women. 1.00

01:49:13.340 How genuinely pathetic. 0.99

01:49:14.940 You did use the term abusing, which I thought was interesting. 0.98

01:49:17.960 Yeah, financial abuse is a thing.

01:49:18.740 What's that?

01:49:19.320 Financial abuse is a thing.

01:49:21.140 But like.

01:49:21.820 I would be willing to say that those women in other countries are also being financially 0.56

01:49:25.140 abused as well.

01:49:26.900 I mean, but the way you described it, it wasn't clear.

01:49:29.140 That didn't.

01:49:30.120 You said if a guy is the primary breadwinner and he has a allowance for his wife that doesn't

01:49:38.000 meet her needs.

01:49:39.300 That's not what I said.

01:49:40.520 Well, you said.

01:49:41.020 You said here's how much you can spend or something like that.

01:49:43.980 Well, I'm saying that if he's holding money over his partner's head or not giving her

01:49:47.520 anything or even just holding it over her head in general.

01:49:50.880 Oh, well, I'm the breadwinner.

01:49:52.260 You get what I give you.

01:49:53.440 That's financial abuse.

01:49:55.680 I've seen stories of women that have been told, oh, well, you get $500 for the week and 1.00

01:50:00.160 she has four kids and she's running out of grocery money and her husband's refusing

01:50:03.440 to give her more grocery money.

01:50:04.640 Are they split up?

01:50:05.840 No, no.

01:50:06.160 No, this is in an actual marriage and this happens all the time.

01:50:10.380 His kid?

01:50:11.640 It's like a power thing.

01:50:12.960 That happens all the time?

01:50:13.720 Yeah, absolutely.

01:50:15.340 I'm not saying that it's like 100% of marriages, but there are plenty of partnerships that end

01:50:19.760 up that way.

01:50:20.340 My twin sister, she is a stay-at-home wife and they waited to marry to have sex and it 1.00

01:50:25.440 was like three months.

01:50:26.080 They fast-forwarded that really quick, that process, but she's happy and she...

01:50:31.460 Good for her.

01:50:32.100 Yeah, but she... 1.00

01:50:32.760 That doesn't happen all the time, unfortunately.

01:50:33.800 I know, but I'm just saying like I've seen the good sides.

01:50:36.280 Yeah.

01:50:36.600 Well, no, it's good to shed light on the good sides.

01:50:38.480 Yeah, that's exactly true.

01:50:40.780 He owns his own business.

01:50:41.880 He stays at home and they see each other all the time and she does whatever she needs

01:50:45.080 to do to keep the house, whatever.

01:50:46.620 And that's amazing.

01:50:47.300 That sounds like a very healthy traditional relationship and those definitely exist, but

01:50:51.160 we were talking about earlier just if we had to be in that situation, like what would be

01:50:55.140 the negatives of why we might not give up our OnlyFans or our jobs in order to be with

01:50:59.080 them?

01:50:59.580 Traditional marriages are totally fine.

01:51:01.520 If that's what both people want and it's healthy and it's happy, I fully support that.

01:51:05.440 I think that people should do what's best for them, but if a woman is in a situation 0.89

01:51:08.800 where a man is holding money overhead, she can't keep the household afloat based on what 1.00

01:51:12.260 he's giving her and he's consistently saying, well, I'm the breadwinner.

01:51:16.540 I'm doing X, Y, Z.

01:51:17.600 You don't deserve my money.

01:51:18.640 Then I think that that's a problem.

01:51:21.920 Not only it's like financially abusive, it's also emotionally abusive and manipulative.

01:51:27.200 So it falls under the same category.

01:51:28.460 How common is that though?

01:51:29.500 It feels like you're just pretty common.

01:51:31.100 Pretty common.

01:51:31.880 I actually had a girlfriend recently where she met a guy and he told her, quit your job,

01:51:37.660 move in with me like within 24 or 48 hours.

01:51:41.220 And she didn't have an OnlyFans.

01:51:43.120 She worked in nightlife, but she was like a hostess, perfectly respectable, like normal 1.00

01:51:47.280 job in my opinion.

01:51:48.360 She's my age and she did it.

01:51:50.280 And then some stuff happened to him personally and he wasn't in as great of a situation anymore

01:51:54.600 within like a month.

01:51:55.900 And now she's pretty much screwed and it's been like a huge stress in her life.

01:52:00.360 So I'm just saying you can't like assume everything's going to be like peaches and daisies going

01:52:04.900 into that.

01:52:05.600 Wait, hold on.

01:52:06.480 She moved in with him.

01:52:07.680 Yeah.

01:52:07.920 So he was paying all the rent.

01:52:09.300 Yeah.

01:52:09.620 Yeah.

01:52:09.740 I think it, I think like it's wise to like. 0.76

01:52:12.060 And then how is she screwed? 0.79

01:52:13.200 I'm just. 0.95

01:52:13.540 It's a long story.

01:52:14.460 He went to jail, got slash got kidnapped.

01:52:17.700 It's like a really insane story.

01:52:19.900 Like.

01:52:20.200 What?

01:52:20.900 Yeah.

01:52:22.840 Basically he lost all his money kind of thing.

01:52:25.600 Did she bail him out of jail?

01:52:27.540 She flew to a foreign country to help bail him out of jail.

01:52:31.140 Yes.

01:52:31.880 She was riding for him.

01:52:33.140 Gosh.

01:52:34.700 But.

01:52:36.160 So he screwed up her life.

01:52:38.080 I'm confused.

01:52:38.820 Yeah.

01:52:39.020 Cause she basically took a leap of faith and was like, okay, I'll quit my job.

01:52:43.660 I'll move in with you.

01:52:44.860 You're rich.

01:52:45.380 You can take care of me.

01:52:46.140 And she's, how long did this relationship last?

01:52:49.440 They're still, you know, in a really big pickle because of her decisions to be with him.

01:52:54.320 Yeah.

01:52:54.440 But she, he was taking care.

01:52:56.100 He was paying the entire rent on their apartment.

01:53:00.900 She ended up moving in with her.

01:53:02.460 He lost his place.

01:53:03.760 She ended up kind of taking care of him.

01:53:06.880 Okay.

01:53:07.420 So there was.

01:53:07.800 It got messy very quickly.

01:53:09.360 Wait, after he got kidnapped?

01:53:10.760 Yeah.

01:53:11.580 Okay.

01:53:12.380 Okay.

01:53:13.140 All right.

01:53:13.540 Okay.

01:53:13.880 Well, I think it's wise to like wait out.

01:53:15.740 The risks that come with making such a commitment to like completely discard your financial like.

01:53:21.160 Alvin Sam donated $100.

01:53:24.020 What's abusive is these 304s of using the word abuse. 0.99

01:53:28.760 Damned if you do. 0.99

01:53:30.200 Damned if you don't. 1.00

01:53:31.700 That's my line. 1.00

01:53:32.440 Okay.

01:53:34.940 Okay.

01:53:35.340 Anyways, I think it's wise to like weigh out the risks that cut.

01:53:38.040 What?

01:53:38.740 I was thinking Alvin.

01:53:39.580 Go ahead.

01:53:39.780 Oh, thank you, Alvin.

01:53:40.820 Yeah.

01:53:41.220 Please thank Alvin every time.

01:53:42.420 Thank you, Alvin.

01:53:43.100 Everybody, please thank Alvin for the, please, you know, give it a little thing.

01:53:47.060 Okay.

01:53:47.320 Go ahead.

01:53:47.660 Okay.

01:53:47.920 Yeah.

01:53:48.160 I think it's wise to weigh out the risks when it comes to committing to something that sort

01:53:51.700 of gets rid of your financial freedoms and, you know, survivability outside of the relationship.

01:53:57.560 I think that to avoid situations like that, you should really, really, really, yeah, not

01:54:03.800 keep working.

01:54:04.540 It's your choice whether or not to keep working.

01:54:06.340 I personally would keep working, but, and, and I don't know.

01:54:09.960 I just think that considering the risks when like entering any sort of situation that's

01:54:14.380 life altering is probably the best thing you can do for yourself so you can avoid like

01:54:18.960 getting into these crazy situations where like, you know.

01:54:23.680 But not 30 minutes ago, you said that you would give up your job for your boyfriend.

01:54:26.860 I would.

01:54:27.440 Personally, I would.

01:54:28.300 So you're just contradicting yourself.

01:54:29.660 No, no, I'm not contradicting myself.

01:54:30.980 I'm saying personally, I would, I wouldn't give away my job, but I would dedicate most

01:54:35.500 of my time into supporting him.

01:54:36.760 You underscore are underscore abusing underscore are underscore rears donated $99.

01:54:42.740 The rabbit's sense of entitlement foaming from Redhead's mouth as she decries these imaginary 1.00

01:54:48.060 husks holding money over their wives' heads, called budgeting by adult human beings to avoid

01:54:54.120 debt, poverty, et cetera, is soul numbing.

01:54:57.260 These stories are all fake.

01:54:59.920 Yeah.

01:55:00.360 I mean, couldn't you make the argument like the husband is looking out for the finances

01:55:04.020 and budgeting like, okay, don't, don't go buy this thing because we don't have the money

01:55:09.720 for it.

01:55:10.220 Is that abuse?

01:55:11.180 I don't think it is.

01:55:12.500 That's not abuse, but that's different.

01:55:14.160 That's completely different.

01:55:14.860 Like to play devil's advocate, like I've been debating against them the whole night, but

01:55:17.560 it's very, financial abuse versus that.

01:55:19.840 That's what occurs most of the time, but financial abuse also does exist.

01:55:22.780 Sure.

01:55:23.220 You have a conversation about that.

01:55:24.460 You can't conflate the two in my personal opinion.

01:55:27.040 Fair enough.

01:55:27.360 If you're budgeting, I think both parties know and are aware of that.

01:55:30.620 And the other side isn't just like, oh, abuse, you know, like I think they're very

01:55:34.420 much aware that's budgeting.

01:55:36.180 Word.

01:55:36.540 Okay.

01:55:36.720 Well, let's move on to our next thing.

01:55:38.320 We were talking a bit about the Jonah Hill situation.

01:55:40.380 There was also something recently that's kind of related to that.

01:55:43.160 This singer called, I don't know if baby Rexha, is that how you, Bebi?

01:55:48.080 Oh yeah.

01:55:48.900 Bebi Rexha.

01:55:50.220 Nick, can you pull up the screenshot?

01:55:52.060 So she also leaked text messages from her boyfriend.

01:55:57.620 Her boyfriend.

01:55:58.500 I guess they broke up.

01:56:00.720 So let's read that.

01:56:03.580 Okay.

01:56:04.100 Can you control zoom in?

01:56:06.180 Yeah.

01:56:06.580 And you know what?

01:56:07.340 I'm actually going to have Essie.

01:56:09.120 No, no, no.

01:56:09.580 Scroll to the top so we can actually read it out.

01:56:11.520 All the way to the top.

01:56:12.660 All the way to the top.

01:56:13.920 Essie, can you read the text message?

01:56:16.000 It says, hey, I never said you weren't beautiful.

01:56:18.120 Hold on.

01:56:18.420 Let me just clarify.

01:56:19.460 This is her boyfriend.

01:56:20.800 So baby Rexha, whatever.

01:56:22.700 Her singer, I guess, famous, never heard of her.

01:56:28.060 This is a text message, not that she sent, but that her boyfriend sent.

01:56:31.080 Go ahead, Nick.

01:56:31.800 And if you can scroll it out just a bit so we can actually read the.

01:56:36.000 Hey.

01:56:36.600 Sorry.

01:56:37.820 Okay.

01:56:38.240 That's fine.

01:56:38.640 That's fine.

01:56:38.920 I never said you weren't beautiful and I never said I didn't love you.

01:56:41.380 In fact, I said how beautiful you are and how much I loved you.

01:56:44.440 But I always said I would be honest with you and your face was changing.

01:56:47.300 So I told you it was.

01:56:48.600 That was the conversation we were having and you asked because I care.

01:56:52.060 Would you rather I lied to you?

01:56:53.400 You gained 35 pounds.

01:56:54.680 Obviously, you gained weight and your face changes.

01:56:56.940 Should I just pretend it didn't happen and that it's okay?

01:56:59.380 Come on. 0.79

01:56:59.760 I gained three pounds and you call me chubs and fat.

01:57:01.780 Doesn't mean you don't love me.

01:57:02.900 If you're trying to find reasons to break up, this makes sense.

01:57:05.500 Dot, dot, dot.

01:57:06.140 But it's not the real reason.

01:57:07.680 If you're unhappy with me slash yourself slash with life and don't see a future with us,

01:57:11.740 then that's okay and that's the reason.

01:57:13.280 Don't use something like that to weaponize your anger or anxiety or any insecurity you may have.

01:57:17.060 You know I always found you to be beautiful and loved you no matter something.

01:57:21.780 I think it's important for you to think about things and write things down.

01:57:28.700 Speak to a therapist and do this retreat thing to get to the root of the problem.

01:57:33.340 Let me know if you'd like to speak or if you need more clarity.

01:57:35.380 Love you.

01:57:36.340 Okay.

01:57:36.800 So text message from her, I suppose, now ex-boyfriend.

01:57:39.940 And she posted this to her Instagram, so somewhat related to the Jonah Hill situation

01:57:46.340 because she is releasing what is otherwise private communications.

01:57:52.040 So has anybody seen this story?

01:57:54.540 Yes.

01:57:55.160 Yeah, I was on Valuetainment recently.

01:57:57.520 Okay.

01:57:57.720 So I'm trying to understand a little bit because she only released that text message.

01:58:04.060 From what he's saying, it sounds like she asked him at some previous points,

01:58:09.940 some prior point, to give her feedback on her appearance.

01:58:14.040 We don't know if she literally just texted him like, hey, does this outfit make me look?

01:58:18.420 I don't know what the scenario is.

01:58:20.700 But does anyone know kind of the details of this?

01:58:23.640 We never really heard what prefaced that.

01:58:25.540 She just kind of released that and went with that. 0.57

01:58:28.360 Yeah.

01:58:29.240 So, but given what we've seen, he's saying, hey, you've gained some weight.

01:58:37.220 35 pounds, I guess, is what it was. 0.99

01:58:40.820 Is he a dick for this? 1.00

01:58:41.980 Is he a jerk? 1.00

01:58:43.620 No. 1.00

01:58:44.060 Or was that a pretty reasonable text message?

01:58:46.440 To me, it seems like she asked.

01:58:48.260 I think if it was an unwarranted opinion, then maybe it wouldn't exactly have been an appropriate thing to say.

01:58:53.660 But to me personally, reading that text message, it seemed like he was coming from a place of kindness

01:58:58.100 after her kind of prefacing the conversation and asking him.

01:59:01.980 I don't think it's right to be upset with him if you were asking for honesty.

01:59:05.240 Because to me, he didn't seem like he was attacking her.

01:59:08.200 He wasn't trying to break up with her.

01:59:09.560 He wasn't saying that she wasn't beautiful anymore or anything like that.

01:59:13.060 He just seemed like he was responding to something that she had asked him.

01:59:16.820 Agreed.

01:59:17.200 He also gave a lot of reassurance.

01:59:18.780 Yeah.

01:59:19.700 And didn't he say that, like, you made fun of me when I gained, like, a couple of pounds or something?

01:59:24.940 Yeah.

01:59:25.160 This instance is like, didn't he say 30 pounds or something?

01:59:27.920 Or that's what they were implying?

01:59:29.340 Like, that's a very large amount compared to a couple of pounds.

01:59:33.000 And again, going back to the difference between men and female, we break fun at guys all the time.

01:59:37.140 We make fun of them for being shorter or maybe not being as masculine or this, that, or the other.

01:59:41.100 But when it comes back to females, the direction, the reaction is totally different sometimes.

01:59:47.280 And the way we expect them to react is totally different sometimes.

01:59:50.620 I mean, I don't think it's appropriate for her to call him chubs or fat if he's gained a couple pounds either.

01:59:55.420 I mean, it just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me.

01:59:58.140 Yeah, I agree.

01:59:58.840 I'm just saying that happens.

01:59:59.980 No, no.

02:00:00.460 I completely agree with you.

02:00:01.980 I do agree with you.

02:00:03.500 I think that I just, it seems like he was coming from a place of love and he wasn't aggressive or completely.

02:00:09.760 Yeah.

02:00:10.180 I completely agree.

02:00:10.940 Coming at her with malice or anything like that.

02:00:13.380 Yeah.

02:00:14.000 Yeah.

02:00:14.180 I don't think this is as controversial of a post as maybe you would have liked it to be.

02:00:19.040 Which is crazy.

02:00:19.580 Why did she post it?

02:00:20.440 What did she expect people?

02:00:21.760 Like, what reaction did she expect?

02:00:23.220 It's so funny.

02:00:24.660 That's an indication of how women just expect sympathy automatically for nothing. 0.99

02:00:29.360 Like, there was a bunch of other examples of this in recent media, actually.

02:00:33.220 Yeah. 0.96

02:00:33.740 It's really silly.

02:00:36.040 Yeah. 0.83

02:00:36.560 I mean, yeah.

02:00:37.400 I think women tend to be criticized harder personally.

02:00:41.160 But I just don't think that he was criticizing her, in my opinion.

02:00:45.220 I think he really just seemed, he seemed like a good partner to me in what he was saying.

02:00:49.760 Very much so.

02:00:50.580 I'm also wondering if maybe the weight gain was contributed to, like, the relationship not being the best.

02:00:57.180 Maybe she wasn't happy.

02:00:58.440 Like, there's probably some deeper things to unpack there, I would say.

02:01:01.280 Yeah.

02:01:01.300 It could be anything.

02:01:02.000 We have absolutely no idea.

02:01:03.040 But, yeah, I think this is less controversial.

02:01:06.160 I know people online were kind of making a lot of controversy about it.

02:01:09.740 But when I read it, and, I mean, I tend to be pretty, you know, attack mode with stuff like that.

02:01:17.240 But, no, I think he seemed like a good partner and somebody that was just addressing the situation that she had asked for.

02:01:22.100 Mm-hmm.

02:01:22.900 Yeah.

02:01:23.300 I mean, it's pretty shocking, though, that she took a screenshot of that and thought, oh, this is going to be such a W.

02:01:29.280 Like, well, I mean, there's definitely people that sided with her.

02:01:32.180 But, I mean, like, just if you take yourself out of the situation, you look at the actual text message.

02:01:37.660 He's being very diplomatic and polite.

02:01:40.900 And he does say, hey, you gained some weight.

02:01:43.260 But it sounds like she, there was some, we don't know what it was, but either she asked him to be upfront or honest with her about her or any changes in physical appearance.

02:01:54.180 So, who knows?

02:01:55.740 But...

02:01:55.980 I think even if she didn't ask before, I think it's reasonable to bring something like that up because that might, like, affect certain things in the relationship.

02:02:04.360 Like, for example, as shallow as it seems, like attraction, attraction plays a huge part within relationships.

02:02:09.160 And if he feels no longer attracted to her, then that could be a thing.

02:02:12.300 And also, like, gaining a lot of weight might indicate problems with mental health.

02:02:15.860 So, that could have come from a place of that, too, being concerned about that, which is why he mentioned, like, the retreatment or whatever, like, in therapy or whatever.

02:02:23.800 So, I think it's perfectly fine.

02:02:25.240 Like, if I gained a few pounds, I'd definitely want my boyfriend to help me.

02:02:28.960 And if my boyfriend gained a few pounds, I'd definitely say something because, like, you're supposed to move forward as a couple, not move back.

02:02:34.420 I would say anything to do with looks, though, is kind of a touchy subject.

02:02:37.540 So, you'd have to definitely approach it with, like, as much kindness and empathy as possible.

02:02:40.920 Yeah, and I think that he approached it perfectly fine if that were to be the case.

02:02:45.260 Absolutely.

02:02:46.380 Well, and I kind of agree with Essie.

02:02:48.000 I think it's just something that's really sensitive.

02:02:49.780 And it could be, like, a health issue.

02:02:51.200 It could be a mental health issue.

02:02:52.420 There's so many different reasons for that.

02:02:53.720 But I think that as long as you're coming from, like, a place of kindness, because I see so often in marriages and relationships where a woman has, like, a baby, for example, and then the male is, like, well, I'm not attracted to my wife anymore.

02:03:06.680 Like, her body isn't the same.

02:03:08.180 And I think that that kind of comes back to it.

02:03:11.180 Like, if you're not going to be attracted to the person that you're with no matter what weight they're at or whatever, then you, like, shouldn't be with them.

02:03:18.420 Wait, hold on.

02:03:19.300 Can you just repeat that?

02:03:20.200 Sure.

02:03:20.520 Last part.

02:03:21.320 Go ahead.

02:03:21.560 I think that if you think that you're going to lose attraction if somebody gains a couple pounds, then you shouldn't be with that person.

02:03:26.460 Because women, our bodies go through changes throughout our entire life, especially when we're having kids that, you know, men also want. 1.00

02:03:33.640 I mean, I see instances all the time where these men are going online or on Reddit, and they're like, I'm not attracted to my wife anymore.

02:03:39.460 Her body isn't the same.

02:03:40.780 I, like, I don't love her anymore because her body isn't pre-baby body, and, I mean, like, that's, you're never going to have pre-baby body again.

02:03:48.820 That's not what it is.

02:03:49.920 When a man chooses to have a baby with a woman, I feel like women always feel really bad after, and they're like, oh, like, they have, like, this expectation, like, oh, like, their husband isn't going to view them the same, you know, because your body changes so much when you have a child. 0.93

02:04:06.760 Like, when a man has, like, a kid, it's like, you know, like, they're ordering a baby on Amazon Prime.

02:04:12.200 Like, a woman, like, she's carrying the baby for nine months. 0.98

02:04:15.280 Like, your body is going through so many changes.

02:04:18.540 So I think that's really important.

02:04:20.200 Like, I feel like a lot of men do go on Reddit and, or even go online or anywhere, and they're just like, oh, I don't like my wife anymore.

02:04:27.500 She's not attractive. 1.00

02:04:28.900 Even though she just, like, gave birth to their child.

02:04:31.340 Like, it's so sad.

02:04:33.080 Well, but, I mean, okay, so there's obviously a couple components.

02:04:35.960 There's weight gain, and then, which you do have control over.

02:04:39.460 Perhaps it might take you a bit of time, but there's also, like, stretch marks from pregnancy.

02:04:44.380 Okay, so stretch marks, that's pretty much out of your control if you get that from, you know, carrying a kid.

02:04:49.700 I don't think that men should, you know, be hounding on their wives for stretch marks.

02:04:55.900 But when it comes to weight gain, you know, she gained 35 pounds, apparently. 1.00

02:05:02.440 What's that?

02:05:02.740 I said some weight gain.

02:05:03.940 In some cases, it's good weight gain, you know?

02:05:06.160 But when a man is like, oh, no, I would, like, get better when you were thinner.

02:05:09.300 Like, in my case, like, I was very, very thin about two years ago.

02:05:13.820 And then what happened?

02:05:15.280 And I gained 30 pounds, and some guy was like, you're, like, you're getting fat.

02:05:19.660 And, like, that's really hurtful, you know?

02:05:21.620 Like, you don't just say that, you know?

02:05:24.020 And, like, some weight is good weight.

02:05:25.460 And, again, it can be attributed to health issues.

02:05:27.680 I mean, for example, like, I've always been a thicker person.

02:05:30.460 But, I mean, I have a personal trainer.

02:05:32.180 I work out five days a week.

02:05:33.420 I lift weights.

02:05:34.380 I go to spin classes.

02:05:35.420 I eat healthy.

02:05:36.000 I don't eat meat.

02:05:37.140 I have a dietician.

02:05:38.960 I go to doctors.

02:05:40.300 And I am insulin resistant.

02:05:42.360 I'm not a diabetic or anything like that.

02:05:43.960 But it's very, very, very difficult for me to lose weight no matter what I do.

02:05:47.580 So am I supposed to be in a relationship with somebody that's going to judge me for that when it's something that's completely out of my control?

02:05:53.300 Wait, what's out of your control?

02:05:55.660 Being insulin resistant and working out and eating healthy and not losing weight.

02:05:59.200 Wait, insulin resistant?

02:06:00.780 Yes.

02:06:01.580 What is that?

02:06:02.320 It's very difficult for my body to lose weight.

02:06:04.920 I'm not diabetic or anything like that.

02:06:07.000 But, like, insulin is extremely necessary in order to lose weight.

02:06:10.300 And my body doesn't accept.

02:06:11.320 Is that a medical diagnosis?

02:06:12.200 Yes.

02:06:13.040 To be insulin resistant.

02:06:14.760 Yes.

02:06:14.900 And so that makes it difficult for you to lose weight.

02:06:16.800 Yes.

02:06:17.480 So even if you eat at a caloric deficit, you still can't lose weight?

02:06:21.960 I permanently eat at a caloric deficit.

02:06:24.800 Really?

02:06:25.120 Okay.

02:06:25.320 Yeah.

02:06:26.180 Okay.

02:06:26.800 Some people do have that.

02:06:28.500 And so that's what I'm saying is, like, is that fair for me to, you know, at any point in time have my man be like, oh, well, you've gained weight.

02:06:37.700 Like, you're unhealthy.

02:06:38.600 I'm not attracted to you anymore when it's literally something that's out of my control.

02:06:41.860 I mean, I literally have a trainer.

02:06:43.400 I do everything I can.

02:06:44.620 I think in that case it's appropriate to disclose that to your partner because if you disclose that to your partner right away,

02:06:50.660 then it might be less.

02:06:52.520 That's not something to really talk about.

02:06:54.000 Like, oh, by the way, I can't lose weight.

02:06:55.940 Well, no.

02:06:56.440 That's not something.

02:06:56.620 But what if she was, what if your girlfriend or wife was one way and then gained 40 pounds and you're not attracted to her at her new weight? 0.99

02:07:07.860 I think that, let's say, let's say it's, okay, with the baby, whatever the fuck her name is. 0.99

02:07:15.680 I would love my man if he was a little thing. 0.99

02:07:17.180 They don't have kids.

02:07:18.300 So there was no pregnancy involved.

02:07:21.540 Let's, if we stick to the story, she wasn't pregnant.

02:07:24.140 She didn't go through a pregnancy.

02:07:25.240 As far as I know, she doesn't have kids.

02:07:27.320 She just gained 40 pounds, 35 pounds, whatever it was. 1.00

02:07:32.920 And it wasn't even clear.

02:07:34.120 He said he loved her.

02:07:35.120 So he wasn't, like, trying to end the relationship, but she was just butthurt about this text message, I guess.

02:07:39.880 I don't know.

02:07:40.260 He even still said she's beautiful.

02:07:41.640 He said, I love you at any weight.

02:07:42.860 So that's why I'm saying, like, I don't even think that it was malice or that he wasn't attracted to her.

02:07:46.560 To me, it seemed like a conversation they were having, and she just, for some reason, felt vengeful and decided to screenshot that and post it online.

02:07:52.120 Do you guys think it would be wrong for a guy to break up with his girlfriend, again, no child in the picture, break up with his girlfriend if she gained, like, 40 pounds?

02:08:01.000 I think that's perfectly reasonable, honestly.

02:08:02.880 Like I said, attraction plays a huge role in relationships, and if you no longer feel attracted to that person, that's going to set your relationship back quite far.

02:08:10.760 Like, that's like if a guy were to go bald, say, like, male pattern and baldness, and if you no longer feel, well, if someone, like, I feel like, okay, if a guy were to go bald, like, let's just compare the two.

02:08:21.820 Like, a guy goes bald if a woman doesn't feel attracted to it.

02:08:23.920 Get the scroll of an energy drink.

02:08:25.740 If a guy were to go bald and a woman were to complain about it, it wouldn't really be as big of a thing because, like, oh, he went bald.

02:08:32.160 Like, I don't like him anymore.

02:08:33.060 But if a woman gains weight, for some reason, that's a sensitive, touchy topic. 1.00

02:08:36.860 Go ahead.

02:08:37.460 As opposed to.

02:08:38.960 Well, relationships are for, like, the better and for the worse.

02:08:43.060 Like, if my partner's struggling with, like, things that affect their, like, if he was, had a receding hairline or something, like, I still care about him on the inside.

02:08:53.180 Like, my attractiveness to him may differ, but, like, these are all things that can be fixed over time.

02:08:58.860 Like, if he's bald, he can get a hair transplant.

02:09:01.540 What if he doesn't want that?

02:09:03.540 If he doesn't want to get a hair transplant, then that's on him.

02:09:05.520 But, like, I'm not going to break up with him because he's balding.

02:09:07.980 Like, I don't, I'm not dating him for his hair.

02:09:10.840 Like, if a guy is going to break up with me for gaining 40 pounds for, like, whatever reason, like, at least be willing to have a conversation with your partner about your, like, communication.

02:09:19.520 Like, talk to them about it.

02:09:20.860 Work through it if you can.

02:09:22.760 Don't just give up.

02:09:23.620 I feel like a lot of people just give up way too easily in relationships nowadays.

02:09:26.580 40 pounds would also usually denote some type of physical or mental health, like, thing that's, like, really occurring.

02:09:31.960 So, typically, the conversation would happen before you got to that typically.

02:09:35.740 I feel like I wouldn't be, like, oh, my God, like, my boyfriend gained, like, 40 pounds.

02:09:40.260 I don't like him anymore.

02:09:41.180 I don't know.

02:09:41.600 I feel like that's, like, really shallow.

02:09:43.260 You're not a shabby chaser?

02:09:44.640 What's going on?

02:09:45.320 Yes, I just said I love it when my men are thicker.

02:09:47.820 You love, you like thick dudes?

02:09:49.320 Yeah.

02:09:49.440 Well, I think it's, I don't know if it's a apt.

02:09:50.840 Like, I really like this one guy when he, can I, can I say this real quick?

02:09:54.220 I'm sorry, I, like, interrupted you.

02:09:55.360 Go ahead.

02:09:55.880 Okay, I really like this one guy.

02:09:57.840 Sorry, I, like, tend to play with the cup.

02:09:59.320 But I really like this one guy, and he was a little bit, like, chubbier.

02:10:02.540 And then all of a sudden, he started losing all this weight and, like, started going to

02:10:05.700 the gym and, like, started getting, like, a really nice body.

02:10:08.100 I kind of lost attraction.

02:10:09.440 I'm not going to lie.

02:10:10.320 Like, I was, like, oh, like, I miss my chubby man.

02:10:12.440 Like, there is so much more to hug.

02:10:13.940 What?

02:10:14.900 So he got fit.

02:10:16.680 Yeah.

02:10:17.140 And you started losing attraction for him.

02:10:19.640 Yeah.

02:10:20.520 I don't know.

02:10:21.080 You should see a doctor about that.

02:10:24.240 But I don't know if it's a, I don't.

02:10:25.460 They're squishy.

02:10:25.660 They're fun to hug, fun to cuddle with.

02:10:27.280 They're not all hard and, like.

02:10:28.620 Yeah, I think it's perfectly within your right to, like, lose attraction to someone.

02:10:31.460 If you were attracted to him for being chubbier in the first place and he lost weight, that's

02:10:34.520 perfectly reasonable.

02:10:35.220 But at the same time, like, if someone started out as thin and got fat, which, like, and they

02:10:39.760 could control it.

02:10:40.520 Like, say, male pattern baldness, you can't control that.

02:10:42.840 Shaving your head, you can control that.

02:10:44.200 But if they were to get fat, I think it's perfectly within the man's right to be, like,

02:10:47.740 like, step back from the relationship.

02:10:49.040 I mean, sure, he should bring it up first or stop it before it's too late, stop it, whatever.

02:10:53.480 But I think it's perfectly within anyone's right to, like, express that they don't feel

02:10:58.500 attracted to their partner.

02:11:00.040 Yeah, also, I mean, I don't know if the, like, a guy losing his hair is an apt comparison

02:11:04.840 to gaining 40 pounds.

02:11:06.100 It's not a comparison, but I just meant, like, medically.

02:11:07.400 No, no, no, not you.

02:11:07.740 I mean, I don't think.

02:11:08.560 Oh, yeah, I just meant, like, medically gaining weight.

02:11:10.760 Like, if there's, like, a medical reason going on, I'd say that it's, like, sort of on

02:11:14.700 the same kind of spectrum as the hair loss thing, like male pattern baldness.

02:11:20.320 But when it's something that you do have control over, like, liberty over, like, if you choose

02:11:24.520 not to lose the weight that you've gained and if you went to the gym and you just easily

02:11:28.060 lose it like that, I'd say that it's, like, perfectly, like, reasonable to be, like, hey,

02:11:33.440 I don't really feel attracted to you.

02:11:35.340 I don't think this is going to work out because that also reflects the person's lifestyle.

02:11:40.100 And if this person has a lifestyle that might set the other partner back, you know, you

02:11:43.280 don't really want to be a part of that.

02:11:44.820 And, like, I feel like not wanting to go to the gym, not wanting to improve, that reflects

02:11:48.760 on the person as, like, oh, they're lazy, they just don't want to change, they just

02:11:53.760 want to, like, sit stagnant in this situation.

02:11:56.820 No, yeah, I see where you're getting at, but I think you can, you know, if, like, your

02:12:00.260 couple, your partner is getting some weight, you don't really find them attractive, I

02:12:04.600 think there's a nice way to say it, like, oh, like, gym date, you know?

02:12:08.520 You have to be, like, you're getting fat.

02:12:10.260 Or how BB's boyfriend did it.

02:12:11.600 Honestly, he did it great.

02:12:12.760 Honestly, if any guy was going to do it that way, then, honey, that's fine.

02:12:15.840 You can go ahead.

02:12:16.680 That's fine.

02:12:17.000 He was a little...

02:12:17.640 Very respectful.

02:12:18.580 There was no reason to post that, BB.

02:12:20.260 No reason.

02:12:22.840 I don't know.

02:12:23.480 Also, if she really loved him, I feel like she wouldn't really out him like that, you

02:12:26.340 know?

02:12:26.600 Facts.

02:12:26.840 Very true.

02:12:27.540 I feel like if I love somebody, I'm going to protect them no matter what.

02:12:30.720 Exactly.

02:12:30.880 Like, I don't want anyone, I don't want anyone...

02:12:32.200 I'd say she was already... 0.86

02:12:32.940 Wait, hold on, hold on.

02:12:33.140 Even if I was mad.

02:12:34.480 Didn't you just say earlier on in the show something about getting revenge on an ex?

02:12:39.080 I said, yeah, like, you know, like, sometimes you do want to get revenge, but, like, to 0.99

02:12:42.300 put it out there in public and be, like, I wouldn't come out here and be, like, fuck my 0.96

02:12:46.100 ex, like, he was, you know, like, say all these, like, terrible things about them because, 0.99

02:12:50.340 like, you know, I feel like I've always...

02:12:51.880 When I love somebody, I feel like I will always love them a little bit, you know?

02:12:55.060 That love will never, like, die for them.

02:12:57.520 And I also have massive respect for these people that have once been a part of my life.

02:13:01.400 Like, they came into my life for a reason, you know?

02:13:03.340 And I wouldn't go out of my way to, like, post something, especially if I have, like,

02:13:08.340 such a huge fan base and anyone and everyone can go and, like, attack them for no reason

02:13:12.900 just because, you know, you needed that little hit of, like, feeling, like, validation.

02:13:18.760 Validation, yeah.

02:13:19.420 You know, validation.

02:13:20.480 And I don't know, I feel like...

02:13:21.840 I'm so sorry, Bebe, but I feel like it was a little immature.

02:13:24.540 Especially because she's such a huge celebrity and, like, all her fans are probably going to

02:13:28.960 go attack that poor dude and he wasn't even, you know, he didn't do that, he didn't do

02:13:33.200 anything wrong.

02:13:33.620 Yeah, by the way, her boyfriend is not, like, super well...

02:13:38.260 Like, I think I looked him up.

02:13:40.300 He's got, like, 10,000 followers on Instagram.

02:13:41.960 Oh, that's even worse.

02:13:43.000 So he doesn't have, like, the same level of...

02:13:46.100 Oh, yeah, that's way worse than...

02:13:47.940 Yeah.

02:13:48.480 She didn't really love him.

02:13:49.780 I'm so sorry.

02:13:50.320 She just sent the dogs after him, basically.

02:13:52.320 Yeah.

02:13:52.800 Like, so... 0.66

02:13:53.440 Do you want to get her lick? 1.00

02:13:54.620 All right, let's get a couple soup chats in.

02:13:56.560 We have...

02:13:57.200 We already did that one.

02:13:58.220 Leon, if you ladies met a potential partner that was of the wealth and status of Jonah

02:14:03.540 Hill, but with the looks of what you find a person, find a personally, a 10, 10, and they

02:14:10.200 said, hey, babe, can...

02:14:11.620 You can quit your job.

02:14:12.560 I'll take care of us.

02:14:13.640 Would you...

02:14:14.240 I feel like we kind of...

02:14:15.120 We already answered that.

02:14:15.620 We kind of answered it, but...

02:14:16.860 Went on a whole thing about that.

02:14:18.900 Would you quit your job?

02:14:19.900 But this is directed at everybody here, not just the girls who do OnlyFans, so that was

02:14:27.160 of the wealth and status of Jonah Hill.

02:14:29.280 Well, okay, so Jonah Hill is...

02:14:31.480 Is he an A-list celebrity?

02:14:33.280 I think he is.

02:14:34.620 Yeah.

02:14:35.200 He's not, like, a leading man, but he's in major...

02:14:39.360 No, I'd say he pioneered most of comedy as it is, so, like, he pioneered it.

02:14:43.100 I feel like Jonah Hill is, like, a really huge name.

02:14:45.140 Like, he, like, in other aspects, too.

02:14:47.080 Okay, so he's a millionaire.

02:14:47.840 He's a millionaire.

02:14:49.260 And just really quick, going back to the whole the surfer chick situation, I think because

02:14:54.400 he's a celebrity and because he's of his status, he's probably a little bit more concerned

02:14:59.580 with what his partner is, like, putting out there on the internet because he has a very

02:15:03.920 public-facing reputation to be considerate of.

02:15:08.460 But for this super chat, Leon here, looks of what you find, a 10 out of 10.

02:15:14.240 Okay, so the question is, would you quit your job for a guy who has...

02:15:19.220 Who's an A-list celebrity or has that level status, is a millionaire many times over, and

02:15:25.880 is a 10 out of 10 looks?

02:15:28.880 I think this is an obvious, like...

02:15:31.340 Well, I think you kind of need to consider, like, what if you hate their personality?

02:15:35.520 Yeah, if we're commercially compatible as well, then yeah, for sure.

02:15:38.600 Just because they're rich and famous and hot doesn't...

02:15:41.160 That's not everything.

02:15:42.100 Here, show of hands, would you quit your job?

02:15:44.300 Most likely, but, like, there's still a chance it wouldn't be the right...

02:15:46.700 You have to like them, too.

02:15:47.080 If it's commercially compatible, then absolutely.

02:15:49.440 All right.

02:15:49.820 We have BadZXE here. 1.00

02:15:51.000 Hey, thank you, man.

02:15:51.560 Good to see you in the chat.

02:15:53.140 Victor, ladies in 304... 0.99

02:15:55.540 Oh, God.

02:15:56.100 Okay.

02:15:56.660 If you're upset with men setting boundaries, that is mad childish, yo.

02:16:00.280 A boundary is based on a level of comfortability with certain things.

02:16:06.180 You can't accept boundaries, then don't be mad when men don't treat you like a lady and

02:16:11.980 more of a piece of meat.

02:16:15.020 We don't give those type of men our time of day, so...

02:16:17.940 Oh.

02:16:18.840 Men that set boundaries?

02:16:21.180 No, men that...

02:16:22.140 Gotcha. 0.98

02:16:22.440 Treat you like a piece of meat. 0.64

02:16:23.200 Yeah, that treat you like a piece of meat. 1.00

02:16:24.960 Oh, fuck. 1.00

02:16:25.920 What? 1.00

02:16:26.220 I just don't agree with you saying that if you can't accept somebody's boundaries, because

02:16:30.740 boundaries go both ways.

02:16:31.780 Yeah.

02:16:32.040 So, if I'm Sarah, his surfer girlfriend, and I am having the conversation, and I go, well,

02:16:38.120 I'm going to keep my career and continue posting what I want, so I guess we're just not going

02:16:41.460 to be in a relationship, that doesn't mean that she is devoid of humanity.

02:16:46.000 Wait, what?

02:16:46.120 Well, I'd say that certain behaviors might lead to men mistreating you, like the way that

02:16:50.620 you portray yourself, for example, not to blame anyone, but if you have a...

02:16:56.200 A history of promiscuity, it might lead men to be more...

02:17:00.420 But do you think that that's okay?

02:17:01.920 I don't think it's okay, but I think that it's, like...

02:17:05.560 Then why justify it?

02:17:06.600 I'm not justifying it.

02:17:07.520 I think it's within their reason to maybe react that way to you, like if you present yourself

02:17:11.360 as a certain kind of person, if they...

02:17:13.320 We avoid those men's. 0.99

02:17:15.020 I mean, that is a broad generalization with men and women, like women can make assumptions

02:17:18.840 of men and how they put themselves out there as well, so I mean, obviously, people are

02:17:23.120 going to judge you based off of what you post and how you put yourself out there.

02:17:25.680 Yeah, but that, like, again, like your actions and what you do, what you wear, like sadly

02:17:30.740 it does play a big part on how people might treat you.

02:17:34.020 Like if I showed up here just in a bra or something, people would be like, oh, she's 0.99

02:17:37.700 a whore. 1.00

02:17:38.420 And that's perfectly within their right to assume that or think that. 1.00

02:17:41.340 But why...

02:17:41.900 You said you're not justifying it, but that is justifying it, saying that it's within

02:17:44.900 their right.

02:17:45.200 It's not necessarily, like, justifying it, but it's sort of like I could see where they're

02:17:50.420 coming from. 0.84

02:17:50.940 Like, if I saw this, like, fuckboy, like some guy getting drunk at a party, like a 0.99

02:17:55.120 frat guy, I might be like, oh, no, I don't really want to have relations with him, you 1.00

02:17:59.160 know?

02:17:59.280 And I'm perfectly justified within my right, you know?

02:18:01.140 People make judgments based on your character, based on what you're wearing, based on everything.

02:18:06.520 I think that judgments, while they may not be, like, substantiated, while they may not,

02:18:11.120 like, be true of you, I think that everyone has judgments.

02:18:15.700 And...

02:18:16.060 Mm-hmm.

02:18:16.820 It's really hard.

02:18:17.740 Yeah.

02:18:18.020 I do make a lot of judgments, and I try really hard not to, because I personally don't want

02:18:23.300 people making judgments about me.

02:18:25.260 So I think that goes both ways.

02:18:27.380 Yeah.

02:18:29.400 Word?

02:18:30.120 Okay.

02:18:30.480 Okay.

02:18:31.560 Mr. Fire and Ice.

02:18:33.600 Love the show.

02:18:34.120 Brian, currently living in Japan, and love my current girlfriend over here, and makes it

02:18:38.280 easy to see the red flags, the majority of women in the U.S. 1.00

02:18:41.120 What's y'all thoughts on Passport Bros?

02:18:43.000 Red flag.

02:18:43.660 Big red flag.

02:18:44.760 Big red flag.

02:18:45.960 Why is that?

02:18:47.140 Why is it a red flag?

02:18:48.160 You just can't get a woman over here. 1.00

02:18:50.180 That's it.

02:18:50.980 I mean, could it be that...

02:18:51.980 So you're like, bye, I'm going to go find somebody else that doesn't know anything about

02:18:54.940 me, and I'm just going to flaunt that I am from a Western state and say that, oh, I'm

02:18:59.080 going to provide for this girl who probably doesn't have an education or is looking for 0.98

02:19:03.000 a way out.

02:19:04.560 So, red flag.

02:19:06.080 Red flag, sir.

02:19:06.760 I think that maybe, this is me making an assumption, but that Passport Bros just have

02:19:11.980 a fetish for exotic foreign women that have traditional values, but that's okay. 1.00

02:19:16.860 Everybody's allowed to have their fetishes.

02:19:17.580 Is it a fetish to one woman with traditional values? 0.99

02:19:20.380 I mean, if they're outsourcing it specifically from anywhere else to have a foreign woman,

02:19:25.040 I would say so.

02:19:25.920 But if it's devoid in the States, then wouldn't they go elsewhere?

02:19:29.000 It's not devoid in the States.

02:19:30.300 I'm sure...

02:19:30.400 We have one right here.

02:19:31.040 It's pretty bad.

02:19:31.520 It's a little more difficult to find.

02:19:32.760 It's pretty bad.

02:19:32.840 We have one right here.

02:19:33.800 In Western countries.

02:19:34.580 You're saying so, like, of one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight.

02:19:38.900 So, she's one in ten.

02:19:40.180 So, apply that to the general population.

02:19:42.280 It's really not that easy for the average guy.

02:19:44.900 I'm sure that if he wanted to, he could find one.

02:19:46.740 Yeah, I go all the way.

02:19:48.460 Like, I make this huge treacherous journey to, like, go find a girl.

02:19:54.120 Treacherous.

02:19:54.900 Treacherous.

02:19:56.020 I mean, it's pretty simple. 0.99

02:19:57.440 They're doing spells and shit, like. 0.92

02:19:58.660 No, because he's literally, like, pioneering, like, when you think of it. 0.96

02:20:01.740 He's, like... 0.98

02:20:02.300 Is he on the open seas in, like, the fucking Mayflower? 0.99

02:20:05.200 No, that's what they act like. 0.99

02:20:06.260 I'm sure it's not easy talking to foreign women. 1.00

02:20:09.520 They all got scurvy.

02:20:10.540 No, I'm sure it's not that easy, like, going, you know, like, going out and, like, talking

02:20:15.420 to, like, foreign women, you know?

02:20:17.780 I mean, I just think it's really bizarre to say that it's not available in the United States.

02:20:23.580 There's 150,000 women that exist in the United States, and if you go to especially more conservative 1.00

02:20:29.660 areas of the country, I am 1,000% sure that it wouldn't be a 1 in 10 situation if 10 women 1.00

02:20:34.940 sat down.

02:20:35.420 It would probably be way more trad wife in Texas and in Louisiana, Mississippi, et cetera, 1.00

02:20:43.160 than it is here.

02:20:44.680 We live in Los Angeles.

02:20:47.140 Also, it's probably 1 in 10 because I'm sure many traditional women are outsourcing to go 1.00

02:20:51.940 on a controversial podcast to, like, put themselves out there in the public eye, so of course it's

02:20:57.780 going to be 1 in 10.

02:20:58.620 I feel like that's a weird statistic.

02:20:59.460 Oh, we got, we got exhibit A over here, and she's waiting until marriage. 0.99

02:21:04.240 She's been celibate for three years and four months.

02:21:07.660 How many days has it been?

02:21:08.940 I don't know.

02:21:09.400 I don't do math.

02:21:11.080 How many days?

02:21:12.140 Yeah, I'm like, what?

02:21:13.100 What do you mean, days?

02:21:13.800 Like, I need it to the hour.

02:21:15.380 Oh, God.

02:21:16.640 This hour.

02:21:17.660 Three, three years, four months, 22 days, 12 hours.

02:21:23.220 Yeah, 925 p.m.

02:21:24.180 Okay, that's exactly what it is, rock and roll.

02:21:26.240 So, yeah, he's currently in Japan, Mr. Fire and Ice.

02:21:30.240 Can I ask you a question?

02:21:31.480 What's up?

02:21:31.940 What you got?

02:21:32.460 What is, like, maybe I've even asked you this before.

02:21:36.060 What is, like, your dream girl?

02:21:38.220 My dream girl.

02:21:39.180 Yeah, like, perfect, maybe not even your dream girl, but, like, what are, what is the criteria

02:21:43.420 to date you?

02:21:44.540 Like, what are you looking for?

02:21:45.520 That's two separate questions.

02:21:47.000 That's two separate questions.

02:21:48.360 Okay.

02:21:48.680 So, my dream girl, I'm going to give kind of an obnoxious answer because I feel like,

02:21:53.760 you know, dream, it's like, okay, she's a trillionaire, virgin, like, 10 out of 10 looks, 0.79

02:22:02.080 is a simp.

02:22:04.380 I'm not going to find that.

02:22:05.760 Yeah, that's like, that's the dream, right?

02:22:08.300 But that's, like, the, uh, that's my obnoxious answer to that question.

02:22:11.720 I feel like women are much more realistic with their dream.

02:22:13.860 No, well, I'm being, I'm being a little facetious there.

02:22:16.240 Literally, like, some girls would just be like, oh, like, he's tall. 0.97

02:22:19.800 That's it.

02:22:20.380 That's it.

02:22:20.820 And then we're like, oh, my God, he has to be tall.

02:22:22.800 You hate short men.

02:22:24.780 Literally.

02:22:25.000 So, okay, wait, what's your question?

02:22:25.800 Gotta be careful.

02:22:26.520 So, your question is, oh, hold on, we'll let this come in and then I'll answer.

02:22:29.540 Thank you, Bender the Offender.

02:22:30.720 You know what I mean?

02:22:42.120 You know what I mean?

02:22:43.060 You know, kind of, you know, you know.

02:22:45.720 You can find it.

02:22:47.620 You just gotta look a little harder, you know.

02:22:49.200 No, but can I continue what I was saying?

02:22:51.180 Go ahead.

02:22:51.700 I was gonna say that we'll be like, oh, like, we want a tall guy, and that's literally it.

02:22:56.660 That's it.

02:22:57.120 Like, oh, I just want a tall guy.

02:22:58.180 Stop the cap. 0.94

02:22:58.800 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:23:00.900 Women have much more requirements than do men. 0.84

02:23:03.960 Girl, you haven't met me.

02:23:06.160 Literally.

02:23:06.780 So, your only requirement is what?

02:23:09.200 Tall, attractive.

02:23:12.060 Okay.

02:23:12.860 That's it.

02:23:14.140 Define attractive.

02:23:15.140 What does he need to be?

02:23:16.080 Oh, my gosh, dude. 0.97

02:23:17.060 Literally, like, I can like the ugliest guys.

02:23:18.940 Like, what I find attractive will not be attractive to, like, any of these girls. 0.57

02:23:22.940 Okay, fine.

02:23:23.500 I'm not gonna call cap on that because I remember last time you said there was a certain rapper who you love.

02:23:27.740 Yes, and guess what?

02:23:29.020 He's not a handsome guy.

02:23:30.420 Okay, yeah.

02:23:31.100 He actually FaceTimed me.

02:23:32.600 No offense to him.

02:23:32.900 What?

02:23:33.340 He FaceTimed me and invited me to.

02:23:36.420 Dude, low-key, I got humbled.

02:23:38.300 Wait, okay, whoa, okay.

02:23:39.360 Tell us this.

02:23:39.920 What's his name again?

02:23:40.700 I'm not gonna say it because I don't know if I can say it.

02:23:41.960 You already said it.

02:23:42.940 I don't want to say it again.

02:23:44.060 Who's it?

02:23:44.360 DJ Wizzleworth?

02:23:45.520 What?

02:23:45.800 No, because I still want a chance with him.

02:23:49.980 You're still simping?

02:23:51.140 Yeah.

02:23:52.140 Yo, anybody in the chat, remember, does anybody remember who the rapper?

02:23:55.600 He's not attractive.

02:23:56.860 You're gonna put me on the spot.

02:23:58.080 Okay, but so, wait, he saw the video and DM'd you?

02:24:01.340 No.

02:24:01.980 What happened is, I've been DMing this man.

02:24:05.660 What happened was that I was going to one of his concerts.

02:24:08.460 I've been to, like, so many of his concerts, but I was going to one of his concerts, and

02:24:11.620 he said that he was, he said the city he was gonna be in and was, like, posted a picture,

02:24:16.620 and I, all I commented was, see you tonight, baby, and then he DM'd me, he FaceTimed me,

02:24:22.260 and then he invited me to hang out with him after the show.

02:24:24.540 Can you give us hints as to what it is?

02:24:25.980 How did you get humbled, too?

02:24:26.940 What do you mean?

02:24:27.360 Because when he FaceTimed me, he's like, you look really young, and then he, I didn't hear

02:24:32.220 a single word from him after that until after the show.

02:24:35.220 But by the time the show had ended, it was, like, far away from where I live, and I was,

02:24:39.220 like, already heading back home, and I was, like, drenched in sweat, like, my mascara was

02:24:42.100 running, I did not look cute, so I, like, I didn't do anything with him, but his lyrics

02:24:48.180 scare me.

02:24:50.120 His lyrics scare me, so I was, like, I'm gonna get-

02:24:53.140 So you got humbled?

02:24:54.180 What are his lyrics?

02:24:55.040 Yeah, because he told me I looked young.

02:24:57.600 He's, like, you look too young, and then I, that was it.

02:25:02.040 I thought I was, like, gonna get to go back-

02:25:03.540 Aren't you 22?

02:25:03.740 I'm 21.

02:25:04.420 21?

02:25:04.980 You are young.

02:25:05.340 He said I look young.

02:25:06.320 He's, like, you look young.

02:25:07.900 You, I mean, you, 21, that's, that's young.

02:25:10.840 Do you mean, you look like a child? 1.00

02:25:12.420 Like, what the fuck? 1.00

02:25:13.240 Yeah, I don't know. 1.00

02:25:14.000 He was just, like, you look really young.

02:25:15.880 Oh, he didn't want to catch a case.

02:25:17.280 Yeah.

02:25:17.740 He thought you were, like, under 18 or something.

02:25:19.140 Yeah, maybe.

02:25:19.860 He was, like, I think it's the pigtails.

02:25:22.140 I didn't have pigtails on that day.

02:25:24.740 I mean, I, I, when I was, like, a kid, I used to be obsessed, like, I could understand the

02:25:30.580 obsession.

02:25:30.960 I used to be obsessed with Texas Congressman Dan Crenshaw.

02:25:34.420 I don't know if you look like a guy with the iPad.

02:25:36.080 Texas Congressman?

02:25:37.540 Why?

02:25:38.080 Why him?

02:25:38.660 I don't know.

02:25:39.160 That was just my childhood celebrity press.

02:25:41.980 So, I, I totally get the, like, stalker thing, but, I don't know.

02:25:45.540 And to say the song lyrics, um, this ain't a Millie Rock, this ain't money dance, and 0.99

02:25:50.140 my dick ain't hard. 1.00

02:25:50.940 That's a 30 in my pants. 1.00

02:25:51.940 I've never.

02:25:53.060 I know exactly who you're talking about now.

02:25:56.220 I don't know.

02:25:56.780 I was listening to that in the chorus.

02:25:58.040 Really?

02:25:58.600 Yeah.

02:25:59.100 I listen to metal.

02:26:00.160 I don't know.

02:26:00.760 I'm like, I don't know what it is.

02:26:02.320 It doesn't matter what you think.

02:26:05.640 Okay.

02:26:06.720 Um, how did we get onto that?

02:26:08.840 I don't know.

02:26:09.320 You're asking me what my type is, I think.

02:26:11.220 Oh, yeah.

02:26:11.300 And then I said that I like men that are usually seen as unattractive.

02:26:16.100 If I heard that as a guy, and someone asked me, like, wait, wait, did you tell him that?

02:26:20.260 Like, that, that's what your type was?

02:26:21.760 No.

02:26:22.100 Why would I tell him that?

02:26:22.940 Oh, I just heard.

02:26:24.180 I thought you straight up.

02:26:24.720 I'm just saying that, usually, my type tends to be guys that people don't really find attractive.

02:26:30.480 And honestly, good for me, because then nobody wants him.

02:26:34.060 Yeah.

02:26:34.900 Okay.

02:26:35.540 But, okay, you got into that because I was saying, well, women, I think women demand a lot more 1.00

02:26:40.380 from men than do men demand from women.

02:26:43.180 Yeah, and I'm saying.

02:26:43.880 But you disagree.

02:26:44.480 Yeah.

02:26:45.020 Who should pay on the first date, men or women? 0.95

02:26:46.680 Oh, my gosh.

02:26:47.480 And I know we do have to talk about that one, but.

02:26:50.720 Whoever invites you.

02:26:51.940 And I'm not inviting anyone out to dinner.

02:26:53.920 I am the chooser.

02:26:54.680 I am the decider.

02:26:55.440 I choose who do I want to go out on a date with.

02:26:57.820 And if he's asking me and inviting me out on a date, then he's got to pay.

02:27:04.820 What?

02:27:05.600 You don't like my answer?

02:27:07.260 Well, I mean, like, whoever, it's just like, okay, whoever asks should pay, but I never ask.

02:27:12.380 Well, okay.

02:27:12.980 Then how do you go on dates?

02:27:14.380 Just say men should pay, huh? 1.00

02:27:15.880 Okay, then men should pay. 0.99

02:27:17.320 Word.

02:27:18.060 Okay, so to answer your question, you want to know what I'm looking for?

02:27:21.000 Yeah, I want to know what your.

02:27:22.280 I got a list.

02:27:23.080 I pulled up a list here.

02:27:24.080 I got it.

02:27:24.400 I got it on the notepad.

02:27:25.740 Do you, like, read, like, when you find a girl that you like, like, do you, like, check

02:27:28.620 all this stuff off and you're, like, okay, meets this, meets that?

02:27:32.520 Well, okay, some of these are a bit more, like, flippant, but let's see.

02:27:37.260 So is it dream girl or is it just what I'm looking for?

02:27:40.180 Just what you're looking for. 0.99

02:27:41.500 Large labia.

02:27:42.380 Very important. 0.86

02:27:43.220 Large labia. 0.96

02:27:44.120 Got to have large labia. 1.00

02:27:45.880 Otherwise, you know. 0.96

02:27:46.960 Do you need it?

02:27:47.520 Short, short, huh? 1.00

02:27:48.480 I have, wait, do I, like, you're talking about oral sex? 1.00

02:27:52.600 Yeah. 0.97

02:27:53.060 I haven't gone down on a girl since the Bush administration.

02:27:55.780 Oh, my goodness.

02:27:57.600 There is, there is something going on that men do not like to go down on girls anymore.

02:28:04.820 Based.

02:28:05.760 That's okay, I will.

02:28:06.820 Based.

02:28:07.600 Yep.

02:28:08.820 Yes, that's fair.

02:28:09.900 Like, no, really, I, one time I was, like, gonna, I was, like, gonna hook up with this

02:28:14.940 guy and I, like, I was, like, okay, like, you know, and then he's, like, oh, no, I don't

02:28:18.760 do that.

02:28:19.340 Based.

02:28:19.840 And then he's, like, I'm, he's, like, I'm only gonna do that for my wife when I love her. 0.99

02:28:24.460 I'm a fucking legend. 0.98

02:28:26.640 That's right, you see that clutchness? 1.00

02:28:28.500 I am fucking clutch. 0.98

02:28:30.660 That's what's up. 0.96

02:28:32.480 Would you, if you had a, well, I know you don't want to get married, but if you, like,

02:28:35.820 really loved somebody.

02:28:37.320 Really loved somebody.

02:28:38.120 That's sad.

02:28:38.700 You've never pleasured a woman, Brian. 1.00

02:28:40.020 Whoa, what the fuck? 1.00

02:28:41.460 You really think women. 1.00

02:28:42.140 I pleasure women. 0.99

02:28:43.020 Do you think women are. 1.00

02:28:44.220 I pleasure women. 0.99

02:28:44.960 Do you think most women don't finish off of penetration? 1.00

02:28:49.740 It's very rare.

02:28:50.560 That's why you gotta bring some toys into the picture, you know what I'm saying?

02:28:52.360 Hitachi.

02:28:53.260 Just throw some toys.

02:28:53.680 The toys are, the toys are the one that's doing the pleasuring, not you.

02:28:56.260 No, hey, hands, hands get the job done.

02:28:59.080 Hands get the job done.

02:28:59.700 No, they don't.

02:29:00.940 They don't.

02:29:01.660 And whoever's saying that they, that's, that's doing it for them is lying.

02:29:05.580 They're just saying that to make you feel better, Brian.

02:29:08.220 What, are you in the bedroom?

02:29:10.000 Like, what, what's going on? 0.99

02:29:11.100 Are you fucking just. 0.99

02:29:11.820 No, I'm just. 1.00

02:29:12.360 Are you, like, in the corner crying?

02:29:14.640 Like, what, what, how do you know about my, my escapades and rendezvous?

02:29:18.260 Because most women lie about that stuff. 1.00

02:29:19.940 That's not true.

02:29:20.420 Women, have you lied? 1.00

02:29:21.500 Trashers.

02:29:21.900 Have you lied about a man making you finish? 0.98

02:29:23.960 I have faked an orgasm. 0.96

02:29:25.280 Yeah.

02:29:25.660 Really?

02:29:25.940 Yes.

02:29:26.520 You've never liked.

02:29:27.220 I'm very adamant about communicating if I have or haven't finished with my partner.

02:29:31.280 Because I like, I like to, you know, reciprocate pleasure.

02:29:34.980 So I'm very honest.

02:29:36.480 If I don't come, I'll tell him.

02:29:37.860 And usually he's like sad.

02:29:38.900 He's like, oh, I want to be able to do that for you. 0.96

02:29:40.420 Yeah, that's a pretty bad thing to, like, fake an orgasm. 0.99

02:29:43.240 That's, you're shooting yourself in the foot if you're doing that as a chick. 1.00

02:29:46.820 Well, that was when I was younger.

02:29:47.860 Now I would try to teach them, coach them, you know?

02:29:50.580 But I think it would definitely involve oral.

02:29:52.600 Yeah.

02:29:52.980 Also, like, there's, there's, there's this huge shame about, like, if a guy can't get

02:29:57.860 a girl off.

02:29:58.440 Like, let's also, like, let's be fair.

02:30:00.500 It's much harder.

02:30:02.740 Hold on.

02:30:03.740 There's no shame.

02:30:04.520 Some, some women, some women are, like, can come, like, it's, some women just come, like, 0.94

02:30:09.800 10 seconds.

02:30:10.700 It's insane.

02:30:11.260 And then multiple orgasms, whatever.

02:30:13.380 But then there's other women who, they can't even get themselves off alone. 1.00

02:30:18.480 There's some women like that, too. 1.00

02:30:20.220 So the orgasm response is much more varied in women. 0.99

02:30:23.440 And it's also, for example, I would say that most guys, obviously, you know, there's different

02:30:31.180 anatomical features, but, like, if a girl was just honestly, like, put her in doggy

02:30:36.540 position, doggy style, or she could just be a, what's it, what's the term, like, a dead 0.78

02:30:42.940 horse?

02:30:43.320 Pillow princess.

02:30:44.000 Pillow princess.

02:30:44.360 Thank you.

02:30:45.240 Dead horse. 1.00

02:30:45.780 What the fuck? 1.00

02:30:46.920 That's some weird shit. 1.00

02:30:48.060 I don't know. 1.00

02:30:48.660 Stallfish?

02:30:49.020 She's just, let's say a girl's a pillow princess. 1.00

02:30:50.980 You put 99% of men in that scenario, they can make themselves come.

02:30:55.420 But if a guy's just laying there, do you think most women could make themselves come if he's 0.99

02:31:00.980 not doing anything?

02:31:02.140 No.

02:31:02.340 I would say no.

02:31:03.320 So the orgasm response is very different between men and women.

02:31:06.420 So I think, like, you know, it's harder.

02:31:09.940 It's a little harder.

02:31:10.780 I have another question.

02:31:11.800 Okay.

02:31:12.160 It's a little off topic, but not really off topic.

02:31:14.180 What you got?

02:31:14.840 Do you get post-nag clarity? 0.98

02:31:17.460 Like, do you believe in that?

02:31:18.320 Like, do you think the girl is ugly after and you're like, oh, what am I doing?

02:31:24.220 I don't, I have had that experience, but it's more so, like, it's more so I just, like, 0.85

02:31:31.340 I have no more interest in sex, like, after, after climax.

02:31:35.580 It's just like, all right, go over there.

02:31:38.520 No aftercare?

02:31:39.860 I'm kidding.

02:31:40.500 No snuggling?

02:31:41.340 No cuddling after?

02:31:43.220 You know.

02:31:43.880 Beware.

02:31:44.400 Obligatory two minutes of cuddling.

02:31:46.520 Literally.

02:31:47.620 Beware.

02:31:47.860 But what, what, what's, okay, so.

02:31:49.940 I get the worst post-nut clarity. 1.00

02:31:52.000 What the fuck? 0.99

02:31:53.000 Like, I'm, I'm in a constant state of, like, if I was in a constant state of clarity, maybe. 1.00

02:31:58.500 Like, I don't know.

02:31:58.940 So you nut, you nut, and you're like, all right, I'm done. 0.76

02:32:02.100 Yeah.

02:32:02.520 That's actually, with my ex-boyfriend, like, that would happen multiple times where I'd

02:32:05.600 be like, I am so sorry, I can't continue. 0.99

02:32:07.420 Oh, shit. 0.98

02:32:08.160 Yeah. 1.00

02:32:09.400 Oh, wow.

02:32:09.900 Okay.

02:32:10.300 Yeah.

02:32:10.520 Like, it was, like, a really weird thing.

02:32:12.220 Maybe I just wasn't, like, maybe I wasn't, like, as emotionally connected with him as

02:32:16.120 I thought I was.

02:32:17.860 But that's actually happened a few amount of times where I've just been, like.

02:32:20.640 I think if it's happened a few amount of times, like, you should just step back and

02:32:23.400 maybe evaluate why it's happening.

02:32:25.540 Like, maybe you're just, like, entering unfulfilling relationships, or if they're just hookups,

02:32:29.440 maybe that's why you feel that way.

02:32:30.620 Yeah, that could be true.

02:32:31.580 But even when I was in a happy relationship, I was, like, that would still happen.

02:32:36.700 And then I was, like, maybe I don't really like him as much as I do.

02:32:39.660 Yeah, that could be true.

02:32:40.240 But I think you're destroying your, like, perception of, like, intimacy and relationships.

02:32:44.320 If you do do hookups, I don't know your personal story.

02:32:46.500 I don't really do hookups.

02:32:47.440 Well, if you do.

02:32:47.940 I only really hook up with, like, if I really, really like the guy.

02:32:50.780 I think in general, hookups, not that I've done it with anyone, but I think in general,

02:32:55.940 like, hookups.

02:32:56.200 Stop the cap. 0.94

02:32:57.680 No, I sincerely haven't.

02:32:59.780 But, like, I think that it does, like, destroy intimacy, and I think just, like, having a

02:33:03.720 culture full of that, just, like.

02:33:06.160 That's, like, a whole other conversation.

02:33:07.660 I know, it's a whole other conversation.

02:33:08.660 A whole other conversation.

02:33:09.540 Okay, so let me touch on a couple things here, then we'll get back to the super chats.

02:33:13.520 So, okay.

02:33:14.460 And I will open this up to the rest of the panel. 0.99

02:33:16.380 So, we were talking about oral sex. 1.00

02:33:19.300 And you were kind of like, what the fuck, Brian? 1.00

02:33:21.480 You don't go down on the ladies. 1.00

02:33:23.760 Yeah.

02:33:24.300 You're not pleasuring.

02:33:25.440 I'm not allowed.

02:33:26.140 Listen, it's a boundary of mine.

02:33:28.300 I don't.

02:33:28.800 What?

02:33:29.160 It's a boundary.

02:33:30.180 It's a boundary.

02:33:31.460 Are you scared?

02:33:32.700 It's a boundary.

02:33:33.060 Are you scared?

02:33:33.480 It's my boundary, babe.

02:33:34.060 Are you scared?

02:33:34.780 I'm not scared.

02:33:36.240 What if the girl was like, oh, okay, I'm not going down on you if you're not going down

02:33:39.220 on me?

02:33:39.820 I mean, I suppose that's if, you know, you want to make it an equality argument.

02:33:44.160 I suppose, you know, I suppose it's reasonable, although I think that would be more, that's

02:33:51.180 more like, if her standard before I revealed this was, she doesn't like giving head, that's

02:33:57.920 one thing.

02:33:58.320 But then it just, to me, it seems almost vindictive.

02:34:01.000 You won't do this.

02:34:01.800 It's like tit for tat.

02:34:02.800 You won't do this.

02:34:03.660 Therefore, I won't do that.

02:34:04.840 Yeah.

02:34:04.980 Some girls are petty like that. 1.00

02:34:06.260 I wouldn't say it's tit for tat.

02:34:07.600 I would just say it's like reciprocating pleasure.

02:34:09.800 If a man isn't willing to do that certain thing for me, then I'm maybe not as willing 0.99

02:34:14.460 to give a blow job to him. 1.00

02:34:16.760 You know what I mean? 0.99

02:34:18.460 And I understand the argument about reciprocity, but I don't necessarily think just because

02:34:23.700 your partner isn't comfortable with doing something doesn't mean that you necessarily

02:34:28.700 have to be like, well, you won't do it, so I won't do it.

02:34:31.920 Maybe girls aren't used to doing it when it is reciprocated. 1.00

02:34:34.740 So, for example, if they're not getting that pleasure in return, they may not actually

02:34:37.820 enjoy it, but if they're getting equal amount of pleasure back from the man going down,

02:34:41.900 then they're going to be like, okay, it's justifiable to do that.

02:34:44.900 So, that new information may change the situation.

02:34:48.200 Yeah.

02:34:48.380 I mean, but not everyone likes every sex act.

02:34:51.900 I mean, I'm trying to think of a...

02:34:52.960 Did you have a bad experience?

02:34:54.360 Yeah.

02:34:54.660 Yeah.

02:34:55.460 Yeah.

02:34:55.820 Did you?

02:34:56.760 No, no.

02:34:57.200 You're scared.

02:34:57.640 Not really. 1.00

02:34:58.360 What was wrong with that pussy, Brian? 1.00

02:34:59.940 Tell us. 1.00

02:35:00.380 What was wrong with that pussy? 1.00

02:35:01.460 This is a safe face. 1.00

02:35:02.180 Tell us the truth.

02:35:04.640 It's more so...

02:35:05.960 Okay.

02:35:06.300 I mean...

02:35:07.080 Your face is getting red.

02:35:08.700 Is there a story?

02:35:08.880 It is.

02:35:09.900 I know.

02:35:10.200 Okay.

02:35:10.520 You need to tell us, please.

02:35:11.620 Yes.

02:35:12.380 You're blushing.

02:35:13.060 You're blushing.

02:35:13.880 I'm not blushing.

02:35:14.560 Yeah, you are.

02:35:15.120 I got naturally red cheeks.

02:35:16.340 No, you're literally blushing.

02:35:17.480 Chat is blushing.

02:35:18.400 I got naturally red cheeks.

02:35:19.520 Let's do a close-up.

02:35:20.880 Look.

02:35:22.140 Okay.

02:35:22.600 So, there's a couple things, right?

02:35:23.720 So, first off, certainly you shouldn't do it in like a one-night stand or like a Friends

02:35:30.580 with Benefits where there's no exclusivity that's been established.

02:35:35.900 I would find that...

02:35:38.500 And I don't do it even within the confines of a relationship. 0.98

02:35:41.440 However, the idea of like going down on a girl and she just like fucked a dude yesterday, 0.98

02:35:47.240 to me, I would be very uncomfortable with that. 0.97

02:35:51.240 But if it's your partner... 0.96

02:35:52.780 Because you'd feel low-key gay, huh? 0.98

02:35:55.740 Like, low-key does kind of gay, huh? 1.00

02:35:56.680 It's not. 0.91

02:35:57.000 It's just...

02:35:57.580 No, it's not about...

02:35:58.460 It's not like that.

02:35:59.920 It's more just like...

02:36:02.060 It's just...

02:36:03.180 But you said that could be applied to a relationship, too.

02:36:06.460 So, if she's in a relationship, she's not getting dicked down the day prior.

02:36:10.200 Well, you know, some people move in interesting ways in relationships.

02:36:12.600 Well, we pray in her that she would not be, right?

02:36:14.480 So, let's assume...

02:36:15.480 Fine.

02:36:15.640 Let's be charitable.

02:36:16.560 Let's assume that she's... 0.98

02:36:17.720 Faithful.

02:36:19.140 Faithful and loyal.

02:36:20.880 Well, okay.

02:36:21.480 I mean, then it's just like...

02:36:22.740 Okay, here's another...

02:36:23.960 I guess we can call it...

02:36:25.380 I call it a boundary.

02:36:26.280 Some people consider it a hang-up.

02:36:27.740 I don't like to kiss after a girl's giving me head. 1.00

02:36:30.360 How about that?

02:36:30.940 Oh, my gosh, Brian.

02:36:32.300 Get out of here.

02:36:33.360 Get out of here.

02:36:34.040 That's reasonable.

02:36:34.840 No, you're canceled now.

02:36:36.040 No, it's like... 0.97

02:36:36.480 I mean, yeah, because that's low-key kind of gay. 1.00

02:36:37.480 Maybe like... 0.90

02:36:38.200 That is the most... 0.96

02:36:38.980 That's low-key kind of gay, huh? 1.00

02:36:40.220 What the fuck? 1.00

02:36:41.280 No, it's not... 1.00

02:36:41.680 It's not that.

02:36:42.240 It's just like...

02:36:43.040 No, no, no, because you said...

02:36:45.080 It's not gay. 0.67

02:36:46.780 All right, then.

02:36:47.800 What if the girl was like, 1.00

02:36:49.120 I'm not going to suck your dick after you... 1.00

02:36:51.360 Like, went inside... 1.00

02:36:52.800 Penetrated me because that's... 0.90

02:36:54.420 That's gross. 0.98

02:36:54.800 Yeah.

02:36:55.240 What if...

02:36:55.940 Brian, like, you're just not...

02:36:57.240 You're just not secure.

02:36:59.460 No, I'm secure.

02:37:00.260 I'm secure.

02:37:00.600 No, you're not.

02:37:01.340 No, it's just boundaries.

02:37:02.360 How do you really appreciate large labor here

02:37:04.400 without getting your face paid?

02:37:06.620 Exactly.

02:37:07.920 Why is that your preference?

02:37:09.120 Right.

02:37:09.400 Yeah.

02:37:09.640 I...

02:37:10.080 Huh?

02:37:10.640 You actually want me to articulate

02:37:13.080 why I like large labor?

02:37:14.680 Okay.

02:37:14.880 He just likes to go with this one.

02:37:15.500 I will tell you.

02:37:16.300 I will tell you.

02:37:17.860 I'll tell you, but show of hands,

02:37:19.280 who here has a large labia? 1.00

02:37:20.800 I don't know. 0.70

02:37:22.240 What?

02:37:23.120 This is a reasonable question

02:37:24.420 to ask somebody.

02:37:25.300 It's not like we look every day.

02:37:26.340 I don't even know

02:37:26.880 what do we consider large?

02:37:27.920 I know.

02:37:28.320 I really know.

02:37:28.820 Like, what are we comparing it to?

02:37:29.940 The inner, the outer?

02:37:31.020 What are you talking about?

02:37:32.080 I would pull up a photo,

02:37:33.420 but it might be... 1.00

02:37:34.340 You want a fat pussy? 1.00

02:37:35.660 Is that what you want? 1.00

02:37:36.280 Doesn't it change size

02:37:37.140 if you're, like, turned on? 0.93

02:37:38.140 A labia. 0.92

02:37:38.500 Yeah, like, inner or outer labia.

02:37:39.860 I don't know what you mean.

02:37:40.420 Yeah, it's like...

02:37:40.760 There's inner or outer...

02:37:41.640 Lips.

02:37:42.420 I feel like it gets big

02:37:43.320 if you're, like... 0.99

02:37:44.040 No, that's only your clit. 1.00

02:37:45.420 No, that's not bad. 1.00

02:37:45.780 No, your clit gets engorged. 1.00

02:37:47.360 I mean, there's blood flow. 0.80

02:37:48.400 There's blood flow,

02:37:49.540 but it's more like an anatomy thing

02:37:51.620 that's there all the time,

02:37:52.880 and then, you know...

02:37:54.300 I'm a fan.

02:37:54.740 Do you like camel toes, then?

02:37:56.000 No, no.

02:37:56.500 Sure, camel toes. 0.96

02:37:57.680 Tell us why.

02:37:58.140 Big fat camel toes. 0.96

02:37:58.920 No, no, no.

02:37:59.240 So there's a labia minora,

02:38:00.560 which is the structure

02:38:02.380 that's outside of it,

02:38:03.240 and then there's a labia majora, 0.99

02:38:04.460 which is, like, the lips of the vagina, 1.00

02:38:06.420 and then the vagina itself, 1.00

02:38:07.780 and then there's, like... 0.99

02:38:08.780 Yeah.

02:38:09.180 I think what he's referring to...

02:38:09.880 Anatomy within that? 0.51

02:38:10.800 Science class, yeah.

02:38:12.280 Biology class.

02:38:12.880 Yeah, I really love biology.

02:38:13.840 Anatomy class.

02:38:14.480 Look, okay, here's the thing, right?

02:38:15.740 So first off,

02:38:16.740 and I know we were talking about,

02:38:18.420 you know,

02:38:19.400 within the confines of a relationship,

02:38:21.120 look, 1.00

02:38:22.460 definitely you can't be doing that shit 1.00

02:38:24.280 if it's, like, a one-night stand 1.00

02:38:26.180 or you just met the chick.

02:38:27.600 Like, you don't know. 1.00

02:38:28.720 She could have fucked a dude last night. 1.00

02:38:30.120 So, of course, 1.00

02:38:31.340 under those circumstances,

02:38:33.260 absolutely not.

02:38:34.700 The other thing,

02:38:35.460 like, if you're...

02:38:37.040 You know, like, if you're...

02:38:38.320 You know, I don't know.

02:38:39.460 I got neck problems, okay?

02:38:41.120 He just doesn't like it.

02:38:42.040 I don't like it.

02:38:42.800 Why can't I just...

02:38:43.720 He just doesn't like it.

02:38:43.920 See, why is that...

02:38:45.120 What I don't get is

02:38:46.000 there's such a pushback

02:38:47.560 for guys

02:38:48.520 if they won't go down on a girl. 0.99

02:38:50.340 Because women are always expected... 1.00

02:38:52.100 Because women are always expected 1.00

02:38:53.980 to go down on the guy. 0.90

02:38:55.320 He just doesn't like it.

02:38:55.880 That's not true.

02:38:56.520 Like, why can't...

02:38:57.020 That is true.

02:38:57.820 That's not true.

02:38:58.340 It is true.

02:38:58.900 That's not true.

02:38:59.200 There's always, like,

02:38:59.800 the guy pushing your head down.

02:39:01.360 I would...

02:39:01.720 First off, I would...

02:39:02.440 What if I start grabbing the guy

02:39:03.820 and I'm, like, pushing his head down?

02:39:05.740 I'm going to start doing that.

02:39:06.500 He just doesn't like it.

02:39:07.500 I'm going to start doing that.

02:39:08.000 He just doesn't like it.

02:39:09.120 Okay, based off of my own

02:39:10.420 personal experience,

02:39:11.340 that is true.

02:39:12.180 Because I had been seeing this guy

02:39:14.460 and after a few dates,

02:39:16.140 he asked me the question of,

02:39:17.780 I was wondering why

02:39:18.540 you didn't go down on me

02:39:19.480 the first time we had sex.

02:39:20.580 Like, I was really expecting that.

02:39:22.400 You were expecting...

02:39:23.060 That's my personal example.

02:39:24.400 The man was expecting me

02:39:25.560 to go down on him 0.89

02:39:26.340 the first time we had sex 0.96

02:39:27.300 and I didn't.

02:39:28.280 And he was curious

02:39:28.920 as to why I never did that

02:39:30.080 because he said

02:39:30.640 that's expected to him 0.56

02:39:31.580 every time you have sex 1.00

02:39:32.460 with a woman. 0.99

02:39:32.840 I have a question for...

02:39:33.720 I mean, I don't think

02:39:34.680 anything is expected, but...

02:39:37.260 The first time you ever did,

02:39:38.840 like, something with a guy,

02:39:40.540 did you get eaten out first 1.00

02:39:42.500 or did you suck dick first? 1.00

02:39:44.360 Suck dick first. 1.00

02:39:45.400 Suck in. 1.00

02:39:46.240 Actually, I'm 69. 1.00

02:39:47.880 Okay.

02:39:49.120 She's even.

02:39:50.140 It's fair for her.

02:39:51.060 But there have been guys

02:39:52.840 where they wanted

02:39:53.320 to go down on me

02:39:54.120 and I wasn't comfortable,

02:39:55.480 but I just did it to them.

02:39:57.020 Yeah.

02:39:57.480 Because sometimes, like,

02:39:58.100 it's a comfort thing,

02:39:58.820 I feel like, you know?

02:40:01.460 Sorry.

02:40:03.460 I mean, that's...

02:40:04.260 I wouldn't have a guy

02:40:05.920 go down on me

02:40:06.460 the first time either.

02:40:07.420 Yeah.

02:40:07.760 Sometimes it's, like,

02:40:08.300 a comfort thing.

02:40:09.220 Yeah.

02:40:09.840 For sure.

02:40:10.460 But I, like,

02:40:11.420 I do think that most men

02:40:13.040 expect it.

02:40:14.400 Yeah.

02:40:14.600 I also like getting

02:40:15.400 other people off.

02:40:16.500 Like, that gets me off,

02:40:17.520 like, pleasuring other people.

02:40:18.680 So, I don't necessarily

02:40:20.560 always need it in return.

02:40:22.000 I don't think you hear,

02:40:23.300 like, if a girl doesn't 0.99

02:40:24.400 want to go down on a guy, 0.99

02:40:25.740 I don't think there's, like,

02:40:26.680 the same degree of shaming

02:40:28.100 as when a guy doesn't

02:40:29.440 want to go down on a girl. 1.00

02:40:30.960 Like, oh, you're not a munch? 1.00

02:40:32.460 Like, what's wrong with you?

02:40:33.520 Really?

02:40:33.680 I feel like munch.

02:40:34.420 Every single girl

02:40:35.320 at this table,

02:40:36.100 when I was like,

02:40:36.720 yeah, I don't really

02:40:37.200 like to do it.

02:40:37.820 You're like, oh,

02:40:38.480 who hurt you, Brian? 1.00

02:40:39.420 What's wrong with the pussy? 1.00

02:40:40.920 Like, all this shit. 1.00

02:40:42.080 I'm like, yo. 1.00

02:40:42.800 He just doesn't like it.

02:40:43.720 Why can't I just,

02:40:45.340 it's a boundary.

02:40:45.860 Because I won't eat McDonald's.

02:40:47.740 I just don't, 1.00

02:40:48.280 I fucking hate McDonald's. 1.00

02:40:49.540 It's gross. 1.00

02:40:50.140 Like, it makes me feel nasty.

02:40:51.980 Like, if someone waved

02:40:52.820 McDonald's in front of me,

02:40:53.860 I just, no,

02:40:54.380 I don't really want McDonald's.

02:40:55.340 I'll go get Taco Bell,

02:40:56.200 but I just don't want McDonald's.

02:40:58.080 But you would put your 0.98

02:40:59.080 private parts in the McDonald's? 0.96

02:41:00.680 I don't want McDonald's.

02:41:03.360 But I bet most of you

02:41:05.140 would find it, like,

02:41:06.520 pretty tacky or trashy

02:41:07.520 if guys were like, 1.00

02:41:09.020 er, she doesn't suck dick. 1.00

02:41:11.000 She's not a dick sucker. 1.00

02:41:12.260 What's wrong with her? 1.00

02:41:13.600 Most guys would never even.

02:41:14.700 In some way, like.

02:41:17.000 And I think there are

02:41:17.520 a lot of women that 1.00

02:41:18.300 don't prefer to give blowjobs 1.00

02:41:19.880 that still do 0.99

02:41:20.660 because the man expects it.

02:41:21.860 And if they don't,

02:41:22.600 they're afraid of, like,

02:41:23.600 what they might say

02:41:24.380 or what the repercussions

02:41:25.120 would be.

02:41:26.000 Yeah. 1.00

02:41:26.600 If you don't suck 1.00

02:41:27.340 that guy's dick, 1.00

02:41:28.680 you're not getting called 1.00

02:41:29.360 for a second date.

02:41:30.220 And they talk about it

02:41:31.120 to their friends, too.

02:41:32.800 Yes, they do. 1.00

02:41:33.480 She doesn't suck dick. 1.00

02:41:35.460 Exactly. 1.00

02:41:36.620 What?

02:41:37.060 Yeah, they're going to

02:41:37.460 tell their friends,

02:41:37.980 like, don't get with her. 1.00

02:41:38.720 She doesn't suck dick. 1.00

02:41:39.620 But anyway. 1.00

02:41:40.180 I don't want to get

02:41:40.620 with his friends anyway.

02:41:41.200 You guys, hold on.

02:41:42.300 Hold on, hold on.

02:41:42.840 I wish I had another dude

02:41:44.580 here for a little backup.

02:41:46.220 But, okay, you guys are,

02:41:47.860 guys are not sharing

02:41:49.980 the details of their sex lives.

02:41:52.340 Yes, they are.

02:41:53.040 Hold, hold, hold.

02:41:53.560 Let me finish.

02:41:54.260 Ryan, you're just shy.

02:41:55.240 No, hold on.

02:41:56.000 You're a shy little man.

02:41:57.100 I'm not.

02:41:57.740 Little?

02:41:58.480 No.

02:41:59.080 Sorry, I love calling people

02:42:00.320 little man.

02:42:02.080 Okay.

02:42:04.080 Men are not sharing 1.00

02:42:05.300 the details of their sex lives

02:42:07.340 to the same degree

02:42:08.220 that women are sharing

02:42:09.380 their sex lives 0.55

02:42:10.460 with their female friends.

02:42:11.580 I do not talk about

02:42:12.460 my sex life

02:42:13.020 with my female names. 0.91

02:42:13.680 Well, good for you.

02:42:14.160 I'm not saying all women do it.

02:42:15.440 However, it's like,

02:42:16.520 it's kind of a known thing

02:42:18.100 that, like,

02:42:18.880 a girl is going to share, 1.00

02:42:20.100 like, literally hours

02:42:21.740 or the next day

02:42:22.560 after she hooks up 0.98

02:42:23.340 with a new guy,

02:42:24.220 she gets with her girlfriend 0.89

02:42:25.560 or gets with her group

02:42:26.920 and that entire group

02:42:29.380 or her singular girlfriend

02:42:30.980 is going to know 1.00

02:42:31.840 the size of the guy's dick, 1.00

02:42:32.960 how long he lasted, 1.00

02:42:33.760 all these fucking details. 0.99

02:42:35.280 Guys aren't talking about 1.00

02:42:36.620 this shit 1.00

02:42:37.440 with their guy friends. 1.00

02:42:38.600 Men will show 0.98

02:42:39.180 their girlfriends nudes

02:42:40.980 to their guy friends.

02:42:42.200 That's even worse.

02:42:42.880 I've had that happening

02:42:43.240 multiple times.

02:42:44.740 Or their sex takes. 0.53

02:42:45.540 I have heard of that,

02:42:46.320 but I would,

02:42:47.100 me personally,

02:42:47.720 I would never,

02:42:48.380 like, I'm a very discreet person

02:42:50.080 when it comes to my relationships.

02:42:51.140 Good for you, Brian.

02:42:51.720 I would never disclose.

02:42:53.020 Are you seeing anybody right now?

02:42:53.740 Huh?

02:42:54.000 Are you seeing anybody right now?

02:42:55.480 What?

02:42:55.880 Are you seeing anybody right now?

02:42:57.360 Who knows?

02:42:57.760 You never know.

02:42:58.400 Oh.

02:42:58.780 He's a private man.

02:43:00.100 You never know.

02:43:00.680 It could be,

02:43:01.380 you know,

02:43:01.620 I think it's something.

02:43:02.840 Can I ask you another question?

02:43:03.840 Hold on,

02:43:04.140 let me finish my thing.

02:43:04.880 Let me finish my thing here.

02:43:07.280 A very discreet individual.

02:43:08.540 I would never share

02:43:09.840 a girl's nudes with anybody. 1.00

02:43:12.060 I would never share them.

02:43:13.140 I would never,

02:43:13.940 bro,

02:43:14.280 if a guy,

02:43:14.840 for example,

02:43:15.280 let's say I had,

02:43:16.240 like, 0.99

02:43:16.580 crazy monkey sex 1.00

02:43:17.460 with a girl 1.00

02:43:17.900 the first time

02:43:18.880 and I'm hanging out

02:43:19.600 with,

02:43:19.840 like,

02:43:19.940 a male friend of mine

02:43:20.980 the next day,

02:43:22.500 he might be like,

02:43:23.220 yo,

02:43:23.360 Brian,

02:43:23.640 so how was it 0.99

02:43:24.180 with fucking Becky? 1.00

02:43:25.800 And I'd be like, 1.00

02:43:27.020 it was good.

02:43:27.940 That's it.

02:43:28.580 I'm not disclosing,

02:43:30.220 like,

02:43:30.480 I'm not saying,

02:43:31.700 that's it.

02:43:32.320 I'm just,

02:43:32.660 oh,

02:43:32.840 it was good.

02:43:33.200 We had a good time.

02:43:34.440 Do you think

02:43:35.280 that's the industry

02:43:35.980 standard for males?

02:43:37.700 I don't know.

02:43:38.140 I think you're an outlier.

02:43:39.000 Maybe I'm an outlier,

02:43:39.920 but,

02:43:40.160 like,

02:43:40.360 I'm very,

02:43:40.820 I think that's a little bit

02:43:41.340 of an outlier.

02:43:41.980 I'm very discreet 1.00

02:43:43.060 about that shit, 1.00

02:43:43.800 like, 1.00

02:43:43.900 just out of respect

02:43:44.860 for the potential partner,

02:43:46.840 whatever,

02:43:47.160 maybe.

02:43:47.860 Also,

02:43:48.180 chat,

02:43:48.520 chat,

02:43:48.880 do you guys do that?

02:43:50.480 They're not going to tell the truth.

02:43:51.080 I feel like that also

02:43:51.720 has something to do with age,

02:43:53.340 you know?

02:43:53.820 Like,

02:43:54.020 Brian,

02:43:54.340 you're an older guy.

02:43:55.460 You're an older guy,

02:43:56.320 right?

02:43:56.840 I mean,

02:43:57.120 even when I was younger,

02:43:58.400 I never was like,

02:43:59.480 oh, 0.99

02:43:59.720 I fucked some chick yesterday. 1.00

02:44:01.860 Like, 1.00

02:44:02.040 I was never,

02:44:02.880 I don't know,

02:44:03.280 I just thought that's

02:44:04.220 kind of disrespectful.

02:44:04.800 Well,

02:44:05.000 good.

02:44:05.280 Good for you,

02:44:05.900 Brian. 0.88

02:44:07.220 Disrespectful.

02:44:07.800 So,

02:44:08.060 yeah,

02:44:08.160 we could ask the chat.

02:44:09.020 I don't know if the chat's

02:44:09.800 doing that,

02:44:10.940 but,

02:44:11.540 yeah,

02:44:12.180 as far as me not wanting

02:44:13.020 to go down,

02:44:13.380 look,

02:44:13.560 I got some neck issues,

02:44:14.460 you know?

02:44:14.680 It hurts my neck.

02:44:15.180 Oh,

02:44:15.520 my gosh.

02:44:16.280 You see,

02:44:16.700 you've seen the ice packs.

02:44:17.820 I'm icing my neck.

02:44:18.540 My throat has been sore

02:44:19.480 for days after getting head.

02:44:21.360 You don't hear me complaining.

02:44:24.840 Oh,

02:44:25.260 or like jaw pain.

02:44:26.200 Yeah.

02:44:26.720 Literally.

02:44:27.640 By the way,

02:44:28.220 this is her wrong,

02:44:29.200 so let's move on

02:44:30.180 off of this topic,

02:44:31.840 but,

02:44:32.120 it's fun though.

02:44:33.240 Oh,

02:44:33.540 and I guess just some other things.

02:44:35.540 Oh, 1.00

02:44:35.900 shit. 1.00

02:44:36.400 Hold on. 1.00

02:44:37.200 You asked me what my type was.

02:44:40.000 Yeah,

02:44:40.380 I was going to say,

02:44:41.180 um,

02:44:41.920 uh,

02:44:42.460 what age,

02:44:43.100 like what age are you looking for?

02:44:44.680 Age?

02:44:45.320 Yeah.

02:44:45.600 Are you looking for a younger woman,

02:44:47.280 an older woman? 0.99

02:44:48.500 I'm just curious.

02:44:49.920 Do you like him or something?

02:44:51.360 No.

02:44:52.000 No. 1.00

02:44:52.620 What the fuck? 1.00

02:44:52.860 I'm just really curious. 1.00

02:44:53.720 I like,

02:44:54.060 he's always asking us questions.

02:44:55.300 Why can't we ask him questions?

02:44:56.400 You know what we should do?

02:44:57.980 I'm not.

02:44:58.980 Anayi.

02:45:00.040 Okay.

02:45:00.940 Say it,

02:45:01.320 say it.

02:45:01.860 We should,

02:45:02.340 we should like.

02:45:03.220 Wait,

02:45:03.400 say it.

02:45:03.960 Record,

02:45:04.560 like for content,

02:45:05.840 like go on a date

02:45:06.860 and like record the date.

02:45:08.580 Did I not,

02:45:09.540 did I not ask you on a date?

02:45:11.260 I literally asked you on a date.

02:45:12.600 So I mean she's paying.

02:45:13.340 You mean like in our messages?

02:45:13.980 Yes,

02:45:14.380 that's what I said.

02:45:15.140 I asked you.

02:45:16.240 I literally DM'd you.

02:45:17.120 I was like,

02:45:17.400 Brian,

02:45:17.620 let's go on a date.

02:45:18.180 I'll pay.

02:45:18.640 Cause I know you'll appreciate that.

02:45:20.020 What?

02:45:20.560 I didn't know.

02:45:21.160 I thought you wanted to talk about the show.

02:45:23.240 You're like,

02:45:23.820 you're like Brian,

02:45:24.760 I want to make sure that you're not going to embarrass me.

02:45:27.220 So I was like,

02:45:27.820 I thought that's what you were doing.

02:45:28.520 So far you're doing a good job.

02:45:30.140 Well,

02:45:30.480 thank you very much.

02:45:31.080 But,

02:45:31.400 um,

02:45:32.260 no,

02:45:32.480 we can talk about more things.

02:45:34.040 Well,

02:45:34.460 huh?

02:45:35.500 Yeah.

02:45:35.760 We can talk like we can have decent conversation.

02:45:38.640 What'd you do today?

02:45:39.980 What are you going to do tomorrow?

02:45:41.740 Yo,

02:45:41.920 did you see that Luffy?

02:45:43.180 Uh,

02:45:43.340 they're going to animate his gear five,

02:45:45.080 like joy boy,

02:45:46.120 like one piece,

02:45:47.100 like they're animated.

02:45:47.980 I don't know.

02:45:48.440 I don't know.

02:45:48.780 You just brought a conversation,

02:45:50.200 but you know,

02:45:51.500 Lucy, 1.00

02:45:52.340 fuck you talking about? 1.00

02:45:53.220 Okay. 1.00

02:45:53.720 Monkey D Luffy.

02:45:54.480 They're going to animate gear five,

02:45:56.020 like in August.

02:45:57.160 I'm like so excited.

02:45:58.840 Wow.

02:45:59.240 I will not know how to proceed in life without that.

02:46:02.120 Yeah.

02:46:02.520 No,

02:46:02.800 no,

02:46:03.080 no.

02:46:03.380 It's like,

02:46:03.660 it's like,

02:46:03.960 it's like the event of the summer.

02:46:05.700 Um,

02:46:06.520 I don't know.

02:46:07.100 Sorry.

02:46:07.520 But we should record like,

02:46:09.820 like a,

02:46:10.280 we should live stream a date.

02:46:11.980 Yeah.

02:46:12.760 We'll put like a cloth on the table.

02:46:14.780 We'll dim the lights.

02:46:16.900 And,

02:46:17.420 uh,

02:46:18.900 I'm down for that.

02:46:20.420 Do you think that'd be,

02:46:22.360 what will we talk about though?

02:46:24.900 That's a good question.

02:46:26.360 Uh,

02:46:26.720 Madison will be our server.

02:46:28.180 She'll like,

02:46:28.560 bring through wine.

02:46:30.500 Right?

02:46:30.700 Madison.

02:46:31.720 Yep.

02:46:32.520 Okay.

02:46:33.120 Um,

02:46:35.000 my type,

02:46:35.720 I like short women. 1.00

02:46:36.800 I,

02:46:37.160 okay.

02:46:37.300 It's not like a deal breaker though.

02:46:38.800 Like if a girl, 0.66

02:46:39.440 like I'll date a chick who's six, 1.00

02:46:40.720 five,

02:46:41.140 I don't care,

02:46:41.920 but I have a slight preference for like short women. 1.00

02:46:45.280 I'd say,

02:46:45.820 but what about their age?

02:46:47.340 Yeah.

02:46:47.580 You just said height.

02:46:49.260 I'll date.

02:46:50.140 I mean,

02:46:50.900 actually most,

02:46:51.640 I feel like,

02:46:54.280 what's too young for you?

02:46:56.380 So I've been like,

02:46:56.980 I actually recently,

02:46:57.820 like a lot of women I've been like dating older and recent,

02:47:02.500 like,

02:47:02.700 I feel like a little bit.

02:47:04.040 Okay.

02:47:05.020 How,

02:47:05.300 what's young?

02:47:05.800 Like for example,

02:47:06.400 like a year ago,

02:47:06.980 I dated like a girl who's like 44,

02:47:09.760 you know,

02:47:10.420 that was like a year ago.

02:47:11.760 Oh,

02:47:12.340 all right.

02:47:12.980 What's young though?

02:47:14.660 What's young?

02:47:15.420 What would you?

02:47:15.980 Yeah.

02:47:16.120 Okay.

02:47:16.360 So,

02:47:16.660 okay.

02:47:17.200 I would date,

02:47:18.680 I wouldn't,

02:47:19.080 I wouldn't date a single mother. 0.99

02:47:20.320 So like,

02:47:21.020 but I'll date 18 to 40,

02:47:24.640 18,

02:47:25.700 what's wrong?

02:47:26.180 40.

02:47:26.660 But what do you still consider young?

02:47:29.000 What do you mean?

02:47:29.580 Like under 30?

02:47:30.580 Like,

02:47:30.880 what do you still consider to be 18 to 25?

02:47:33.580 25.

02:47:33.860 I think that's your time.

02:47:35.240 Mr. Leonardo DiCaprio over here.

02:47:38.360 But they don't age out with him.

02:47:40.160 Cause you know,

02:47:41.000 he dated a 44 year old.

02:47:42.220 So true.

02:47:43.000 Yeah.

02:47:44.080 To her credit.

02:47:45.000 I mean,

02:47:45.380 no kids,

02:47:46.600 you know,

02:47:46.820 mostly younger guys.

02:47:48.700 I could never date a younger guy.

02:47:50.720 She's Asian.

02:47:51.280 I'm really into older men.

02:47:52.040 Cause I don't know if as like,

02:47:53.280 I have a really good relationship with my father.

02:47:55.220 And like,

02:47:55.600 I know,

02:47:55.840 like,

02:47:56.260 I guess like apparently like an older man has something to do with that.

02:47:59.100 Well,

02:47:59.340 apparently I'm not saying it does,

02:48:01.000 but like I had a pretty good relationship.

02:48:02.280 And I don't know,

02:48:03.040 most of my boyfriends like have been like younger than me,

02:48:06.660 like growing up like a high school,

02:48:07.760 they were younger than me.

02:48:08.560 And I don't know.

02:48:10.180 I've dated older and younger and I have a great relationship with my dad.

02:48:13.380 Me too.

02:48:13.760 If that matters.

02:48:14.120 I don't know.

02:48:14.660 That's just my relationship with my father.

02:48:16.420 That's just what I heard.

02:48:17.320 Let's see.

02:48:17.780 What else?

02:48:18.280 Okay.

02:48:19.460 Here's another thing I like.

02:48:20.520 Her parents made her do at least three years of violin or cello.

02:48:25.200 Why?

02:48:25.960 Very specific.

02:48:27.840 I will also accept piano,

02:48:29.920 but preferably violin or cello.

02:48:32.920 So it has to be a musical instrument.

02:48:34.000 Because the hand dexterity.

02:48:35.440 That's exactly what I was going to say.

02:48:36.800 Hand dexterity.

02:48:37.640 Very important.

02:48:41.220 That's typically going to preclude,

02:48:43.680 you know,

02:48:44.000 that's,

02:48:44.320 that pretty much limits me to mostly Asian women. 1.00

02:48:47.820 So are you a passport bro?

02:48:49.160 No.

02:48:52.560 Although maybe I should move.

02:48:54.040 Maybe I'm moving to who knows.

02:48:55.280 Peace is good.

02:48:59.740 Peace,

02:49:00.220 you know,

02:49:01.120 don't like argument,

02:49:02.380 quarrelsome,

02:49:03.100 quarrelsome women, 1.00

02:49:04.400 you know.

02:49:05.560 Don't you?

02:49:06.280 I like,

02:49:06.640 okay,

02:49:06.960 okay,

02:49:07.180 I like more intro,

02:49:08.460 I typically prefer more introverted women, 1.00

02:49:10.580 because I feel like I'm more introverted.

02:49:12.580 I like kind of nerdy,

02:49:14.300 shyish, 0.53

02:49:15.080 women who may be a little shy, 0.99

02:49:16.380 a little nerdy,

02:49:16.920 is good,

02:49:17.500 I guess.

02:49:18.100 Where are you meeting these women? 1.00

02:49:19.160 You're like nerdy women, 1.00

02:49:19.280 but you don't have a lot of places.

02:49:19.820 How do you meet these girls? 0.82

02:49:21.380 Have you ever been on a date with a girl,

02:49:23.080 like,

02:49:23.240 that you've invited onto the panel?

02:49:25.180 What's that smell?

02:49:26.380 It smells so good. 1.00

02:49:27.440 What the fuck? 1.00

02:49:28.680 I don't know, 1.00

02:49:29.560 it smells so...

02:49:31.180 No comment,

02:49:31.860 no comment on that,

02:49:33.040 but,

02:49:33.380 let's see.

02:49:36.440 And no offense to any of the ladies here,

02:49:38.580 I don't like women with plastic surgery. 1.00

02:49:42.040 Why?

02:49:42.800 It's not,

02:49:43.360 what do you mean?

02:49:43.860 I don't think anyone here as,

02:49:45.400 can really say that to.

02:49:46.460 Can you say that to me?

02:49:50.200 No offense,

02:49:50.960 like,

02:49:51.180 it's not my,

02:49:52.220 you know,

02:49:52.460 no hate,

02:49:53.740 no hate,

02:49:54.100 just I prefer women who are 1.00

02:49:55.740 sans plastic surgery,

02:49:59.060 if you know what I mean.

02:49:59.180 What if she got like a little nose job or something? 1.00

02:50:01.180 That's still plastic surgery.

02:50:02.880 There's degree,

02:50:03.620 okay,

02:50:03.920 there's degrees to it,

02:50:05.100 right?

02:50:05.500 What about Botox?

02:50:06.640 Filler.

02:50:07.400 Like lip fillers?

02:50:09.540 Okay,

02:50:10.020 let's say like,

02:50:11.340 not,

02:50:13.180 me personally,

02:50:13.880 like,

02:50:14.080 I'm not attracted to like,

02:50:16.520 lipobelly,

02:50:17.200 or like BBL, 0.99

02:50:19.320 or fake tits, 1.00

02:50:21.660 you know, 0.99

02:50:21.920 it's not,

02:50:22.680 here,

02:50:22.920 okay,

02:50:23.100 here's my thing,

02:50:23.640 right?

02:50:24.240 With plastic surgery. 1.00

02:50:25.460 Damn. 1.00

02:50:27.060 She's like, 1.00

02:50:27.620 I'm out.

02:50:27.820 Because I,

02:50:28.200 yeah,

02:50:28.360 I was,

02:50:28.720 I was in line,

02:50:29.540 right?

02:50:30.900 Here's my thing,

02:50:31.740 like,

02:50:32.460 I would prefer,

02:50:34.540 let's say a girl was totally flat, 1.00

02:50:36.100 right?

02:50:36.820 She was totally flat, 0.99

02:50:38.080 but then she got fake tits. 1.00

02:50:39.860 I would, 1.00

02:50:40.600 even now she's got big fucking fake double D's, 1.00

02:50:43.180 right? 1.00

02:50:43.580 Big fake tits, 1.00

02:50:44.680 whatever. 1.00

02:50:45.100 I would prefer a girl who's got small breasts that are natural over fake. 1.00

02:50:51.400 Me,

02:50:51.920 me personally.

02:50:53.220 Then that's okay.

02:50:54.680 That's fine.

02:50:55.280 That's very fair.

02:50:55.860 That's fine.

02:50:56.280 Same with the lips.

02:50:56.960 I'd prefer if she just, 0.81

02:50:58.640 however she was naturally,

02:50:59.800 if she had a small upper lip, 0.99

02:51:02.220 whatever the fuck, 0.99

02:51:03.260 I'd prefer that over the fake lips. 0.99

02:51:06.140 So is like Botox and filler a deal breaker for you?

02:51:08.760 Or is that,

02:51:09.460 would you be okay with that,

02:51:10.800 especially because it does go away over time?

02:51:13.380 It's not a,

02:51:14.200 it's not a total deal breaker.

02:51:18.220 Again,

02:51:18.780 it's scales,

02:51:19.480 right?

02:51:19.680 Like a lip filler.

02:51:21.700 It's like,

02:51:22.340 my only concern is it's a little bit of a red flag.

02:51:26.660 Why would you consider that a red flag?

02:51:28.980 It's,

02:51:29.420 you've,

02:51:30.460 you've acted upon.

02:51:33.420 Your vanity.

02:51:34.560 Like it's acted upon.

02:51:36.480 I don't know if this is the right term.

02:51:37.840 Body dysmorphia,

02:51:39.260 body dysphoria.

02:51:40.140 I don't know if that's the right term.

02:51:41.840 Body dysmorphia is when you like look in the mirror and don't register what you actually look like.

02:51:45.520 Then maybe it's dysphoria.

02:51:46.780 No,

02:51:47.020 dysphoria is trans, 0.93

02:51:48.720 trans.

02:51:48.980 No,

02:51:49.260 dysphoria can apply to things outside of transgenderism.

02:51:52.820 Well,

02:51:53.000 it can,

02:51:53.440 but I mean,

02:51:53.760 dysphoric feelings.

02:51:54.400 I hope I didn't strike a chord.

02:51:56.560 No,

02:51:57.220 no,

02:51:57.500 no.

02:51:57.660 I think that's dysmorphia,

02:51:58.780 no?

02:51:59.680 Dysmorphia is yes.

02:52:01.120 Dysmorphia is like what anorexic people would feel,

02:52:03.720 for example,

02:52:04.240 on some level.

02:52:05.920 And yes,

02:52:06.420 exactly.

02:52:07.200 Dysmorphia.

02:52:07.800 But so,

02:52:08.200 I mean like,

02:52:09.120 well,

02:52:09.260 I guess like you said,

02:52:09.900 there's levels to it.

02:52:10.980 But I don't think that everybody that gets lip filler or plastic surgery has and definitely

02:52:16.020 has body dysmorphia.

02:52:17.160 I think that that's like an extreme end of the spectrum.

02:52:19.820 But like,

02:52:20.120 aren't you so,

02:52:21.520 and look,

02:52:21.880 I could be wrong,

02:52:22.620 but aren't you so dissatisfied with how your body is presenting itself that you've opted

02:52:27.080 to undergo a dangerous and otherwise unnecessary and not medically indicated surgery to enhance

02:52:34.720 yourself cosmetically?

02:52:35.680 Yeah,

02:52:35.820 and it could reflect the mental state of the person.

02:52:38.000 Like Brian was saying with the dysmorphia,

02:52:39.660 dysphoria,

02:52:40.240 it could show like,

02:52:41.040 oh,

02:52:41.180 they might be insecure,

02:52:42.080 they might have a bit of problems or something.

02:52:43.880 Right,

02:52:44.000 but I'm saying that's an extreme end.

02:52:45.520 That doesn't mean everybody that gets plastic surgery qualifies and is under that category.

02:52:50.100 I mean,

02:52:51.900 I guess like,

02:52:52.780 you don't,

02:52:54.080 okay,

02:52:54.260 so if you get plastic surgery,

02:52:55.520 it doesn't necessarily mean that you have body dysmorphia,

02:52:59.840 but,

02:53:00.040 uh,

02:53:01.420 because I mean like Botox,

02:53:02.460 for example,

02:53:02.860 is just like a maintenance of your face.

02:53:04.940 Like all it does is paralyze certain muscles in your face so that you don't get wrinkles.

02:53:09.000 So,

02:53:09.500 I mean,

02:53:10.240 that's kind of just like,

02:53:11.680 well,

02:53:11.820 I'm talking,

02:53:12.320 that's Botox is different to fillers though.

02:53:14.600 So it feels like girls get fillers in their cheeks where their cheeks are literally like, 1.00

02:53:17.980 and right.

02:53:19.320 And I used to like,

02:53:20.600 it's crazy that some of these girls, 1.00

02:53:22.180 when they get the lip fillers,

02:53:22.960 it's like,

02:53:23.200 do you not see how you look in the mirror girl? 1.00

02:53:25.160 Like literally they're like big dappy duck lips and shit. 1.00

02:53:28.600 Yeah, 0.99

02:53:28.900 there's definitely,

02:53:29.560 there's definitely extremes to it.

02:53:31.440 I actually used to work at a med spa.

02:53:32.940 I was a GM.

02:53:33.640 Oh,

02:53:33.960 really?

02:53:34.540 Yeah.

02:53:34.680 I don't have anything done really,

02:53:36.580 but,

02:53:36.820 um,

02:53:37.260 I worked at one.

02:53:38.700 And so I would see both ends of the spectrum of people that are coming in and just doing like

02:53:42.240 maintain maintenance Botox and maybe a little lip filler.

02:53:45.440 And then I would see the other end.

02:53:46.760 Ben to the offender donated $99.

02:53:49.740 No man wants to kiss hot dog lips.

02:53:52.820 Fair enough.

02:53:53.520 Yeah.

02:53:53.880 I mean,

02:53:54.760 you know,

02:53:55.180 and there's people that definitely like are super insecure with themselves and come in and get the big cheeks and get the big lips.

02:54:01.320 And they don't,

02:54:02.280 they,

02:54:02.580 I would say they're more on like a dysmorphic end of things where they're not,

02:54:06.260 it's not registering properly in the mirror,

02:54:07.960 what they're saying,

02:54:08.620 what they're seeing.

02:54:09.280 And that is sad.

02:54:10.780 It is.

02:54:11.100 Yeah.

02:54:11.280 Um,

02:54:11.720 but again,

02:54:12.340 I don't think that that's across the board with people that get cosmetic work done.

02:54:15.940 I don't know.

02:54:16.180 I just saw a chat.

02:54:16.840 They said something about paralyzed,

02:54:18.180 paralyzed muscles.

02:54:19.060 I don't mean to be a nerd emoji here,

02:54:20.500 but she's actually kind of right because,

02:54:21.820 uh,

02:54:22.000 it's really interesting.

02:54:23.220 Uh,

02:54:23.760 there's this disease or there's something you can track called botulism.

02:54:26.700 It's found in like canned foods,

02:54:28.080 expired canned foods and in dirt,

02:54:29.360 like the virus itself.

02:54:30.620 And they found a way to utilize that virus for medical reasons.

02:54:33.480 And yeah,

02:54:34.800 Botox does create like temporary,

02:54:36.840 not temporary.

02:54:37.360 It does create paralysis and,

02:54:38.920 uh,

02:54:39.280 botulism itself.

02:54:40.160 It's really interesting because once it's in your body,

02:54:42.140 you do get paralyzed within seven hours and it kills you.

02:54:45.640 I don't know.

02:54:46.280 I just,

02:54:46.600 I just wanted to mention it because it's like my favorite disease.

02:54:48.820 I don't like,

02:54:49.480 I'm really into medical.

02:54:50.280 But you're saying that's in the Botox.

02:54:51.480 That's what Botox is.

02:54:52.900 Yeah.

02:54:53.100 Oh,

02:54:53.820 Botox is a neurotoxin.

02:54:55.160 Yes.

02:54:55.360 And there's lots of cases where,

02:54:56.700 they paralyze so much that the,

02:54:59.020 everything starts drooping.

02:55:00.040 Oh,

02:55:00.140 it depends on how you inject it.

02:55:01.680 Yeah.

02:55:02.200 The muscles literally stop working.

02:55:03.900 Yeah.

02:55:04.180 And there,

02:55:05.140 there are actual medical things that Botox actually helps.

02:55:08.760 And there's like,

02:55:09.760 headache.

02:55:10.100 Yeah.

02:55:10.500 It helps migraines.

02:55:11.840 It can help lock jaw.

02:55:13.120 There's a bunch of,

02:55:13.740 and it can actually help.

02:55:14.780 So it depends on what you're doing it for,

02:55:17.620 for sure.

02:55:18.180 And I mean,

02:55:18.540 there's like my favorite disease.

02:55:19.780 I just think that like plastic surgery is kind of predatory and that like

02:55:23.140 women are like, 1.00

02:55:26.680 there's this culture in the media that is like,

02:55:30.140 here's this beauty standard. 0.97

02:55:31.560 And you had it with Kim Kardashian where it's like this really ridiculous. 0.90

02:55:35.400 I mean, 0.83

02:55:35.640 she's had,

02:55:36.200 she's had probably,

02:55:37.800 I don't know how many plastic surgeries.

02:55:39.400 Yeah.

02:55:39.660 BBL,

02:55:40.380 lipo, 0.99

02:55:41.680 fake tits, 1.00

02:55:42.220 all this shit. 1.00

02:55:42.800 Right. 1.00

02:55:43.600 And I mean,

02:55:44.460 one,

02:55:44.780 I think it's,

02:55:45.640 there's a financial component to it.

02:55:47.160 If you're spending all this money.

02:55:48.780 So it's like,

02:55:49.620 okay,

02:55:49.860 well there,

02:55:50.540 there,

02:55:50.820 so there's a financial component.

02:55:52.140 There's a van vanity component.

02:55:54.020 And,

02:55:54.540 um,

02:55:55.360 I mean,

02:55:56.520 I,

02:55:56.880 I just,

02:55:58.340 maybe this is almost,

02:55:59.500 I,

02:55:59.660 it's almost,

02:56:00.400 it's weird.

02:56:00.880 There's like two feminist positions on this. 1.00

02:56:02.660 It's either one feminist position is women should not feel compelled to undergo these dangerous and unnecessary surgeries to adhere to this beauty. 1.00

02:56:11.720 And then the other one is,

02:56:14.540 well,

02:56:14.860 if,

02:56:15.160 you know,

02:56:15.360 if it makes them happy,

02:56:16.340 then you go girl.

02:56:17.700 Like you shouldn't be shamed for wearing makeup or getting plastic surgery.

02:56:21.700 Like feel empowered,

02:56:23.140 like whatever.

02:56:23.760 So there's actually two divergent feminist positions on it. 1.00

02:56:27.480 But,

02:56:28.120 um,

02:56:29.240 I do think it's unfortunate that,

02:56:31.140 uh,

02:56:31.740 we,

02:56:32.180 we ha,

02:56:33.180 we put these burdensome beauty standards on women that they feel compelled to go into the knife. 1.00

02:56:40.840 And anytime you go undergo anesthesia,

02:56:43.940 there's certain risks involved.

02:56:45.800 Uh,

02:56:46.280 look,

02:56:46.540 most people get plastic surgery without any sort of consequence,

02:56:50.040 but there's,

02:56:50.600 you know,

02:56:50.880 risk of infection.

02:56:52.040 I,

02:56:52.520 I,

02:56:52.680 I mean,

02:56:53.600 I think you have to get them redone every 10 years for,

02:56:57.340 for implants.

02:56:58.580 The breast implants.

02:56:59.760 I think you need to get them.

02:57:00.700 And it depends on the implants.

02:57:01.260 Cause now they're making it.

02:57:02.480 There's different ones,

02:57:03.580 but you have to redo them.

02:57:05.320 And then I think they're pretty safe now,

02:57:07.700 but I've heard in the past that there was leaking.

02:57:10.020 They could leak.

02:57:11.280 And the mold. 0.71

02:57:12.100 And they're,

02:57:12.500 they're so,

02:57:13.060 they made people sick and stuff.

02:57:14.420 Yeah.

02:57:14.900 So the implants are literally prepped with like arsenic and like lead.

02:57:18.520 And I don't think like,

02:57:19.660 honestly,

02:57:19.980 what you were saying about the culture,

02:57:21.340 there is a lot of pressure for like women to look a certain way. 1.00

02:57:23.820 And I definitely have like an A cup or a B cup,

02:57:26.000 like for sure.

02:57:26.980 And so you definitely feel like,

02:57:28.300 okay,

02:57:28.420 well I'm not the beauty standard.

02:57:29.400 Sometimes you feel that way.

02:57:30.160 Then you realize,

02:57:30.640 you know,

02:57:30.780 that's false.

02:57:31.340 But over time I learned,

02:57:32.780 I did a lot of research too.

02:57:33.840 And I didn't realize like how crazy,

02:57:35.640 like how crazy though,

02:57:37.380 what they do to like,

02:57:38.140 just prep the, 0.87

02:57:38.800 like the boobs and everything. 1.00

02:57:39.760 It's wild. 0.95

02:57:40.540 A friend of mine literally had to get hers taken out because they 1.00

02:57:43.260 consistently gave her like a sharp stabbing pain,

02:57:45.680 like in the middle of her chest and then other health issues that came up.

02:57:48.700 And apparently that's not an uncommon thing.

02:57:50.880 When she started doing her research,

02:57:52.420 there were many people that confirmed the exact same thing.

02:57:55.500 And so women need to go into that being aware of the ramifications. 1.00

02:57:59.440 And oftentimes they're not because it's so normalized that like,

02:58:03.480 if you're uncomfortable with this,

02:58:04.620 well,

02:58:04.740 Hey,

02:58:05.180 go ahead and fix it.

02:58:06.380 So it's a symptom of this microwave mentality that we have as a

02:58:10.320 generation right now.

02:58:11.280 And then,

02:58:12.280 I mean,

02:58:12.560 also as a fan of large labia,

02:58:14.420 there are 10,000,

02:58:16.060 10,000 unnecessary labia place.

02:58:20.420 These a year performed in the United States.

02:58:23.760 And I think,

02:58:24.520 I think this is,

02:58:25.780 it's a tragedy that women are getting their, 1.00

02:58:29.140 they're mutilating their,

02:58:30.980 you know,

02:58:31.520 I mean,

02:58:31.780 they kind of are.

02:58:32.640 And it's,

02:58:33.320 they're mutilating their, 0.56

02:58:33.820 their inner labia.

02:58:37.480 Not the, 0.96

02:58:38.120 not the part that you like.

02:58:39.640 No,

02:58:40.120 it's there.

02:58:40.580 They're getting their,

02:58:41.400 they're chopping off the lips,

02:58:42.640 son.

02:58:43.260 The lips are getting chopped off and it's a tragedy.

02:58:46.540 Like if it's like,

02:58:47.540 ladies, 1.00

02:58:48.000 any ladies watching who are considering a labiaplasty, 1.00

02:58:50.600 my DMS are open.

02:58:51.460 I will talk you out of it.

02:58:53.120 I will convince you not to do it.

02:58:55.280 But,

02:58:55.700 um,

02:58:56.280 I mean,

02:58:56.600 also I just look,

02:58:57.580 I,

02:58:57.800 I,

02:58:57.980 it's,

02:58:58.980 I,

02:59:00.780 there,

02:59:01.040 look,

02:59:01.780 do generally speaking,

02:59:02.860 do men like large breasts? 1.00

02:59:04.920 Yes. 0.70

02:59:05.720 But I,

02:59:06.760 I,

02:59:07.040 you know,

02:59:07.360 I think like if you think about,

02:59:09.340 the guy who's really going to care about you and you're going to really care about him,

02:59:13.460 do you think it's going to be like the deal breaker that like, 0.98

02:59:17.680 if you had your breasts, 0.99

02:59:19.820 however they were before you got fake tits, 1.00

02:59:21.900 is that going to be the like, 0.98

02:59:24.360 I don't know.

02:59:26.400 I don't think so.

02:59:27.820 You have something.

02:59:28.760 I was just going to say, 0.81

02:59:29.520 I recently got my boobs done. 0.90

02:59:31.480 Okay.

02:59:31.900 And my boyfriend likes them both ways.

02:59:34.500 So he loves me.

02:59:35.640 Well,

02:59:35.800 yeah,

02:59:36.060 you,

02:59:36.220 but you were with him before.

02:59:37.540 Were you like,

02:59:38.560 what was the size of the floor?

02:59:40.780 I mean,

02:59:40.880 I'd say I had like a,

02:59:42.120 a B probably.

02:59:44.640 Okay.

02:59:45.580 And he was dating you before,

02:59:47.240 you know,

02:59:47.900 but I mean,

02:59:48.740 it's not clear to me.

02:59:49.600 I,

02:59:49.760 I'm not sure if women are necessarily getting plastic surgery for men.

02:59:56.220 Maybe there's a component of that,

02:59:57.840 but maybe it's not.

02:59:58.680 I think that both men and women play a part in perpetuating the plastic surgery industry.

03:00:02.580 They very much keep it alive.

03:00:03.740 Like women, 0.97

03:00:04.380 for example,

03:00:04.820 like Kim Kardashian,

03:00:06.080 ton of people,

03:00:06.960 like just having those people as like role models.

03:00:09.880 Well,

03:00:10.040 I wouldn't say Kim K specifically as role model,

03:00:11.900 but let's look at Kylie.

03:00:12.740 She's like a billionaire.

03:00:13.540 A lot of little girls might look up to her because she has like a blossoming,

03:00:16.460 blooming,

03:00:16.900 blooming makeup industry.

03:00:18.040 And she also like has like this huge show.

03:00:19.860 I think that having people like that,

03:00:21.580 like as like,

03:00:23.380 Oh,

03:00:23.840 Forbes top 100 young,

03:00:25.420 whatever. 0.99

03:00:25.840 Having people like that just really does terrible shit to the industry as a whole. 1.00

03:00:30.680 Like you'll see new shit pop up every day. 1.00

03:00:32.980 Like you'll see buccal fat removal. 1.00

03:00:34.860 Like that was a huge thing.

03:00:36.360 Like a ton of like female celebrities started getting that. 1.00

03:00:38.560 And like,

03:00:39.820 it just like that,

03:00:40.960 like you'll find that they're putting out things that you didn't even know you should have been insecure about.

03:00:45.740 Like buccal fat removal.

03:00:46.720 I mean,

03:00:47.060 I myself have big jaw,

03:00:48.420 big cheeks.

03:00:48.900 That's like removing it.

03:00:50.480 Getting rid of the. 0.99

03:00:51.060 Oh,

03:00:51.280 I've heard that.

03:00:51.800 Then give them that.

03:00:52.280 Yeah.

03:00:52.560 They look like the chiseled cheeks.

03:00:54.960 It's literally removing a muscle.

03:00:56.220 Yeah.

03:00:56.600 Your face.

03:00:56.980 Yeah.

03:00:57.200 Which happens naturally over time anyway,

03:00:58.760 right?

03:00:58.980 Like as you get older,

03:00:59.900 that's a lot.

03:01:00.800 So imagine what they're going to look like.

03:01:02.540 And that's what the doctors are saying that when they're going to get older,

03:01:04.860 they're going to look like an actual skeleton.

03:01:06.220 Right.

03:01:06.620 So anyways,

03:01:07.200 I think that women do play a part in contributing to the harmful industry. 1.00

03:01:11.500 I,

03:01:11.640 well,

03:01:12.700 I think it's both.

03:01:13.780 I mean,

03:01:13.960 there's an unrealistic.

03:01:15.020 Yeah.

03:01:15.600 It's an unrealistic beauty standard from men and from women, 1.00

03:01:18.560 you know,

03:01:18.980 and I mean,

03:01:19.820 there's also the reverse of it too.

03:01:21.140 Like women that want to reduce their breasts or whatever. 1.00

03:01:23.880 And you see men up in arms all the time.

03:01:26.040 You're taking away God's gift.

03:01:27.340 You're doing X,

03:01:27.980 Y,

03:01:28.220 and Z.

03:01:28.740 And it's like,

03:01:29.780 you know,

03:01:30.560 again,

03:01:30.820 health reasons are on this.

03:01:32.300 Yeah.

03:01:32.480 But you get the people that are saying the same thing.

03:01:35.040 Like that's a deal breaker.

03:01:36.280 Surely they're just trolling though.

03:01:37.640 They're not actually being serious.

03:01:39.120 I had a friend who had hers reduced.

03:01:42.280 She was,

03:01:42.600 I believe like a G like myself and she went and had them reduced and she's a Twitch streamer

03:01:48.860 and her for like months,

03:01:51.500 you ruined yourself. 0.87

03:01:52.700 You ruined your body, 0.89

03:01:53.760 like emails,

03:01:55.020 messages,

03:01:55.680 Twitch chat,

03:01:56.380 everything.

03:01:57.580 And it's like,

03:01:58.260 but I mean,

03:01:58.720 I think it's an unrealistic beauty standard,

03:02:00.280 whether it's a reduction or you're getting implants or whatever,

03:02:02.940 you know?

03:02:03.360 Right.

03:02:03.580 And that's different.

03:02:04.180 Your stream channel versus like a partner,

03:02:06.080 like your partner,

03:02:06.940 like if you get reduced to a day,

03:02:08.380 your partner is still like, 1.00

03:02:09.540 I got a big titty bitch. 1.00

03:02:10.920 And you're not, 1.00

03:02:11.320 you don't have back pain anymore.

03:02:12.900 Great.

03:02:13.360 Even better.

03:02:14.080 Like,

03:02:14.300 I don't think he would have a problem.

03:02:18.040 Word.

03:02:18.560 Okay.

03:02:18.800 But I think this is similar because like in one piece,

03:02:21.560 you know,

03:02:22.100 the women, 0.96

03:02:22.760 they had such small breasts, 1.00

03:02:23.840 but then as time waned on,

03:02:25.460 they gradually got bigger and bigger.

03:02:27.580 Well,

03:02:27.660 they also engorged during pregnancy.

03:02:29.660 Pregnancy.

03:02:30.400 Sex too. 0.51

03:02:31.120 Yeah.

03:02:31.480 Well,

03:02:31.880 just,

03:02:32.180 just to put a little wrap up on the,

03:02:33.740 on this topic.

03:02:35.360 Yeah.

03:02:35.820 I mean,

03:02:36.380 so,

03:02:37.180 okay.

03:02:37.360 I'd say the two that are,

03:02:38.540 are deal breakers for me would be BBL and lipo.

03:02:42.960 Yeah.

03:02:43.660 Not the labiaplasty.

03:02:45.960 Are you sure,

03:02:46.940 Brian?

03:02:47.300 That seems like that would be your number one deal breakup.

03:02:50.280 Sure.

03:02:50.560 Add it to the list.

03:02:51.720 No,

03:02:51.940 no,

03:02:52.040 no,

03:02:52.160 because it was like, 0.97

03:02:52.980 fake breasts. 1.00

03:02:54.100 It's like, 0.98

03:02:54.780 it's kind of a little,

03:02:57.580 I'd prefer you without,

03:02:59.080 but,

03:03:00.420 and then like,

03:03:01.820 what if they looked real and you just didn't know?

03:03:04.140 I mean, 0.99

03:03:04.380 I've got a good eye for fake tits. 1.00

03:03:06.620 I've got a great eye. 1.00

03:03:07.480 How many people do you think have fake boobs at this table? 1.00

03:03:10.220 How many are you, 1.00

03:03:11.300 are you really inviting me to just stare at your tits right now? 1.00

03:03:14.020 Okay. 1.00

03:03:14.240 Let me take a look.

03:03:14.980 You're the expert.

03:03:15.760 Okay.

03:03:16.280 Fake,

03:03:16.860 fake.

03:03:17.460 You're wearing a shirt.

03:03:18.280 You admitted to it.

03:03:19.200 I admitted to it.

03:03:20.560 Real?

03:03:22.640 Real,

03:03:23.220 real.

03:03:23.760 Wait.

03:03:24.700 What?

03:03:25.360 I'm not even.

03:03:27.500 Real,

03:03:27.940 real,

03:03:28.160 real.

03:03:29.140 Is that?

03:03:30.320 Yeah.

03:03:30.680 I think you nailed it.

03:03:31.340 Yep.

03:03:31.580 Yeah.

03:03:31.880 Yeah.

03:03:32.080 Do you mind or fake?

03:03:32.840 I'm okay with that.

03:03:33.480 Um,

03:03:34.320 but I don't know.

03:03:35.400 It's the same with like,

03:03:36.320 okay,

03:03:36.580 take the lipo thing,

03:03:37.700 right?

03:03:38.000 I would prefer,

03:03:39.500 cause I've seen the lipo belly,

03:03:40.740 right?

03:03:41.160 I would prefer a girl with like a little teeny belly, 1.00

03:03:43.580 like a little pudge versus the flat lipo belly,

03:03:47.740 you know?

03:03:49.040 You know what I'm saying?

03:03:49.880 Yeah.

03:03:50.320 You know what I'm saying?

03:03:52.120 You know what I'm saying?

03:03:52.700 You're allowed to have your own preferences.

03:03:54.160 That's okay.

03:03:54.920 Yeah.

03:03:55.220 Yeah.

03:03:55.360 That's fine.

03:03:55.760 Also,

03:03:56.020 I feel like, 0.99

03:03:56.480 I feel like girls with fake tits don't really go for me. 1.00

03:03:59.360 I don't feel like I'm the type of guy. 0.98

03:04:01.760 Don't say that. 0.99

03:04:02.400 Chicks with fake titties go for. 1.00

03:04:03.560 Maybe you're just like, 0.99

03:04:04.500 oh, 1.00

03:04:04.680 you don't want fake tits around you. 1.00

03:04:08.480 I don't know. 0.99

03:04:09.240 I feel like,

03:04:09.940 uh,

03:04:10.260 I'm just not the type of guy that those types of girls go for. 1.00

03:04:15.500 Women with small breasts. 1.00

03:04:17.660 Love you. 0.98

03:04:18.320 Love me. 0.98

03:04:19.180 And huge labias. 0.94

03:04:19.940 I'm irresistible to small breasted women. 1.00

03:04:24.260 All right.

03:04:25.300 Okay.

03:04:25.760 All right.

03:04:26.040 Moving on.

03:04:26.660 All right.

03:04:27.060 Okay.

03:04:27.400 All right.

03:04:27.900 Let's move on.

03:04:28.540 Let's move on.

03:04:29.200 Okay.

03:04:29.980 Uh,

03:04:30.260 I think we,

03:04:31.100 I don't know how we even got there.

03:04:32.340 Okay.

03:04:32.600 Women. 0.81

03:04:33.140 We wait with this one.

03:04:34.740 Do we even address this one?

03:04:36.220 Yeah.

03:04:36.420 We're talking about passport.

03:04:37.240 That was the Japan one. 0.95

03:04:38.120 Yeah.

03:04:38.220 Let's try to bang through a bunch of these.

03:04:39.640 Okay.

03:04:39.780 The cast man,

03:04:40.400 seven,

03:04:40.620 seven,

03:04:40.780 seven.

03:04:41.340 Thank you,

03:04:41.580 man.

03:04:41.760 Women who are homemakers aren't, 1.00

03:04:43.860 by the way,

03:04:44.340 sorry that we're just getting to these guys.

03:04:45.680 I know these came in like a while ago.

03:04:46.920 Can I read it?

03:04:47.260 Go ahead.

03:04:47.760 Okay.

03:04:47.880 Women who are homemakers are not performing unpaid labor. 0.99

03:04:50.920 That is complete nonsense.

03:04:52.420 They are paid through the husband's job.

03:04:54.120 The men and women are partners in the house and the woman is paid for her work through 0.99

03:04:57.480 the husband provides.

03:04:58.940 Wow.

03:04:59.240 You should be a voiceover actor.

03:05:00.760 I needed to promote myself.

03:05:02.320 That was beautiful.

03:05:03.060 I'm sorry.

03:05:03.580 Thank you.

03:05:05.480 Yo,

03:05:05.920 cast man,

03:05:06.460 thank you for the super chat.

03:05:07.880 Appreciate it.

03:05:08.360 Yo,

03:05:08.840 John Ryan,

03:05:09.400 thank you for the.

03:05:11.280 Ooh,

03:05:11.820 whatever that is.

03:05:13.500 Thank you.

03:05:14.340 Bunch of simps.

03:05:15.760 Oh,

03:05:16.060 Filipino peso.

03:05:17.800 Merci beaucoup.

03:05:19.340 I think they,

03:05:20.060 what are they speaking?

03:05:21.020 They'd speak Tagalog,

03:05:22.180 right?

03:05:22.860 Tagalog.

03:05:23.420 Tagalog.

03:05:24.620 Tagalog.

03:05:25.540 Is that what you speak,

03:05:26.680 man?

03:05:27.520 Tagalog.

03:05:27.920 Tagalog.

03:05:29.040 Okay.

03:05:29.320 Yo,

03:05:29.580 Azul 69.

03:05:30.500 Hey Azul,

03:05:31.040 dude,

03:05:31.280 good to see you back in the chat,

03:05:32.400 man.

03:05:32.520 It's been a minute.

03:05:33.800 High ticket sale.

03:05:35.060 Lovely.

03:05:35.500 Big fan of your country and its contributions to the world like the EPL and Brexit.

03:05:40.100 Wait,

03:05:40.340 what?

03:05:41.820 No.

03:05:43.460 I'm pretty sure you're Australian.

03:05:44.880 Yeah.

03:05:45.260 Yeah.

03:05:45.760 Okay.

03:05:46.480 Brexit is, 0.57

03:05:47.280 I think that's like a.

03:05:48.820 It's English.

03:05:49.820 Yeah.

03:05:50.120 It's a British thing because we're,

03:05:51.280 we're the monarchy.

03:05:52.360 We fall under,

03:05:53.020 we were actually colonized by the English.

03:05:54.720 So I've heard of that one,

03:05:55.480 but EPL,

03:05:56.140 I have no clue what that is.

03:05:57.920 Word?

03:05:58.960 Yeah.

03:05:59.420 Okay.

03:05:59.900 Uh,

03:06:00.220 and then Brian,

03:06:02.820 who would you say is the biggest cuckoo bird?

03:06:04.880 Steph Curry,

03:06:05.520 Adam 22,

03:06:06.300 or Bill de Blasio?

03:06:07.560 What did Steph Curry do recently?

03:06:09.080 Yeah.

03:06:09.300 And isn't Bill de Blasio,

03:06:10.780 it wasn't the mayor of New York? 1.00

03:06:12.560 I heard about that Adam 22 shit. 0.99

03:06:14.300 That, 1.00

03:06:14.420 that shit's wild, 1.00

03:06:15.540 bro. 1.00

03:06:15.740 Like that shit's like. 1.00

03:06:16.240 He's just making his back. 1.00

03:06:17.300 Cuckoo bird?

03:06:18.160 Oh.

03:06:18.540 I respect it.

03:06:19.720 Hella money. 0.84

03:06:20.600 Wait,

03:06:20.940 Steph Curry got cucked? 1.00

03:06:22.120 I don't fucking know. 0.99

03:06:23.020 They're just getting more and more views on that video. 0.98

03:06:25.640 Yeah.

03:06:25.960 Hell yeah.

03:06:26.640 He's like the way that he went about it. 1.00

03:06:29.740 Like I've jacked off to my wife getting fucked by a, 1.00

03:06:32.400 you know, 1.00

03:06:32.680 like.

03:06:33.100 It's obviously a publicity stunt,

03:06:34.780 but like there's no, 0.95

03:06:35.720 there's no fucking way I'm, 0.99

03:06:37.060 I'm down with my wife. 1.00

03:06:38.760 Fucking another dude. 1.00

03:06:39.520 I feel like it's not just a jerk. 1.00

03:06:40.820 I feel like they were high one night and were like, 0.98

03:06:42.420 babe, 0.51

03:06:42.760 what do you think would happen if you did this?

03:06:45.480 And then the more they talked about it,

03:06:46.840 they're like,

03:06:47.220 wait,

03:06:47.840 could we actually do it?

03:06:49.560 Like,

03:06:49.760 I bet that's exactly how it went down.

03:06:51.860 No,

03:06:52.060 I think,

03:06:52.340 I think they knew what they were getting into.

03:06:54.320 I think they're both pretty smart people.

03:06:56.080 I think they've been in the,

03:06:57.000 in the industry for a really long time.

03:06:59.500 And I think they,

03:07:00.720 they know they,

03:07:01.780 they like Adam 22,

03:07:03.180 he has his podcast.

03:07:04.160 He interviews like a bunch of like guys.

03:07:06.220 And I think he,

03:07:07.120 he knew what their reaction was going to be.

03:07:09.160 And I think he also knows that it's such a big topic right now.

03:07:12.820 And I think he knows that it's going to get even more and more and more

03:07:16.040 views and they're just going to get even more money.

03:07:17.540 So in the long run,

03:07:18.220 they're winning.

03:07:19.000 They're winning.

03:07:19.720 Their relationship seems pretty strong.

03:07:21.960 It's very calculated.

03:07:23.140 It was very calculated.

03:07:24.580 And then you guys can have your own opinion.

03:07:25.860 Bangs is just talking right now.

03:07:27.100 Sorry.

03:07:27.420 No,

03:07:27.620 but it,

03:07:28.520 it's very calculated.

03:07:30.780 I mean,

03:07:30.940 you can tell because he's obviously,

03:07:32.400 it's not just like they did it.

03:07:34.120 And then he's like embarrassed.

03:07:35.240 Like he's obviously kind of,

03:07:37.120 you know,

03:07:38.540 doubling down.

03:07:39.880 He's like copain.

03:07:41.340 He's like copain.

03:07:42.220 All right.

03:07:42.420 We have John,

03:07:43.340 John,

03:07:43.860 John Ryan here.

03:07:45.200 You looking classy and sharp,

03:07:46.480 Amy,

03:07:46.900 your fan from the Philippines.

03:07:49.720 Okay.

03:07:51.280 You,

03:07:51.780 you just did bro.

03:07:52.840 You just revealed yourself.

03:07:54.500 All right.

03:07:55.760 Ninja smokehouse.

03:07:57.760 Let's see.

03:07:58.460 Let's have,

03:07:59.340 who can we have read this?

03:08:01.600 Let's have you read.

03:08:02.660 Can you see it?

03:08:03.220 Yeah.

03:08:04.260 The problem is women who assume the worst in men thinking is reality, 0.99

03:08:08.060 not understanding that if married you win.

03:08:11.100 Did I read that right?

03:08:11.820 Not understanding that if married you win.

03:08:14.080 And if he leaves you get what was his, 0.99

03:08:16.840 but instead women choose trash men who may leave to have kids with. 1.00

03:08:20.360 Stop choosing trash men. 1.00

03:08:22.020 When we're, 0.99

03:08:23.020 we're used grommily,

03:08:25.320 sir.

03:08:26.240 I just hate how everyone keeps saying,

03:08:28.600 Oh,

03:08:28.680 well,

03:08:28.780 that's your fault for making a bad decision and choosing the wrong guy.

03:08:31.900 But when we're,

03:08:33.260 when these people are,

03:08:34.360 when these women are meeting these men,

03:08:35.700 they're not the bad guy.

03:08:37.420 Like they're falling in love with a completely different person.

03:08:40.080 You know,

03:08:40.660 it's over time that they choose that that person chooses to change,

03:08:44.520 you know?

03:08:45.520 So it's not the woman's fault.

03:08:46.880 And a lot of time they put on a facade in order to get the woman that they want.

03:08:50.840 And then once the woman is deep enough into the relationship and he feels like she won't leave,

03:08:54.980 they start unveiling these things little by little.

03:08:57.660 And then it makes it very complicated to leave.

03:08:59.900 Kind of like makeup.

03:09:01.660 What?

03:09:02.200 Why do you make up?

03:09:03.360 Oh my God.

03:09:04.440 Why do you act like makeup changes your whole facial structure?

03:09:07.240 It can.

03:09:07.680 I mean,

03:09:08.300 unless it's like,

03:09:09.840 unless it's like affects makeup,

03:09:11.860 like talented,

03:09:13.020 talented artists that's like transforming their face into something else.

03:09:17.140 A regular girl isn't doing that on the day to day. 1.00

03:09:19.800 We're enhancing our beauty.

03:09:21.000 What's that trans girl? 1.00

03:09:21.760 Nikki something though.

03:09:23.220 Have you heard of her?

03:09:24.180 Nikki tutorials.

03:09:25.400 That is a whole man previously.

03:09:28.340 And I mean,

03:09:28.720 still looks,

03:09:29.320 I mean,

03:09:29.560 years into the transition still looks pretty like feminine,

03:09:32.500 like passes.

03:09:33.340 But when that makeup is on,

03:09:35.620 whole different human.

03:09:37.460 Like,

03:09:37.560 I think she looks the same.

03:09:39.040 Yeah.

03:09:39.440 I think she looks,

03:09:39.960 her facial structure doesn't change.

03:09:41.400 She's just really good at makeup. 0.55

03:09:42.340 I think they do kind of look different.

03:09:43.840 I think she looks completely different.

03:09:45.440 Like no makeup to makeup.

03:09:46.540 I would not think that's the same person.

03:09:48.200 Like if I met her with makeup and then randomly ran into that person at Starbucks,

03:09:51.580 I would not immediately think that that is the same person.

03:09:54.120 And some people might feel deceived.

03:09:54.820 That's how you know your cake is good.

03:09:56.540 Yeah.

03:09:57.200 I also think,

03:09:58.120 I think makeup is an entirely different thing from a personality.

03:10:00.760 I'd say like,

03:10:02.840 and that's her job.

03:10:04.040 I'd say that some people might feel deceived by it.

03:10:06.060 Similar to like how you might feel if a man shapes his beard and it's like,

03:10:09.360 he doesn't really have a chin.

03:10:10.380 Maybe he has a recessive chin.

03:10:11.680 I'd say that it could have something.

03:10:13.360 It's very similar.

03:10:14.580 I think that it's like, 0.93

03:10:15.180 it's kind of hypocritical. 0.97

03:10:16.220 Like if you say like white woman's. 1.00

03:10:17.820 Here,

03:10:17.980 I think of a more fair comparison as a guy who's wearing a hat.

03:10:21.220 Hat fishing.

03:10:21.840 And he's bald under the hat.

03:10:23.520 Yeah,

03:10:23.720 sure.

03:10:24.040 That too.

03:10:24.780 That too.

03:10:25.500 I think that's perhaps a more.

03:10:26.660 But I'd say that like,

03:10:27.300 overall,

03:10:27.740 it's just like,

03:10:28.600 in a way it is deception.

03:10:30.520 I think your example is good.

03:10:31.560 Cause honestly,

03:10:32.020 there is girls who can contour so good that they could like contour out like a double chin. 1.00

03:10:36.180 Or they could like contour like.

03:10:37.820 That only looks good.

03:10:39.240 Chisel cheeks where there aren't any.

03:10:40.720 And that kind of thing.

03:10:41.260 That only really only looks good on camera.

03:10:43.560 When you really see it in person.

03:10:44.820 In real life it doesn't work.

03:10:45.720 It doesn't look that good.

03:10:46.600 It's mostly just.

03:10:47.800 It's mostly just for like the view.

03:10:49.420 Catfish.

03:10:50.360 But can we talk about all the girls here that have their hair dyed? 1.00

03:10:53.500 You know,

03:10:53.700 she's wearing contacts.

03:10:55.000 We're all wearing makeup.

03:10:56.220 We can't just attack it.

03:10:57.680 It's,

03:10:57.960 it is what it is.

03:10:58.720 No,

03:10:58.900 it makes us girls.

03:10:59.920 And it's a beautiful thing.

03:11:01.260 Wearing makeup.

03:11:01.880 I love.

03:11:02.720 We bought into the culture.

03:11:04.000 Yeah,

03:11:04.040 exactly.

03:11:04.880 And it's not attacking.

03:11:05.960 It's just simply stating that you can recognize that.

03:11:08.460 Yes,

03:11:08.600 you can completely change your facial structure.

03:11:10.520 Is that demonizing makeup? 0.98

03:11:11.840 No,

03:11:11.980 it's just admitting that of its capabilities.

03:11:14.400 I'm very aware of makeup.

03:11:15.560 Jordan Peterson literally stated that makeup should be banned in the workplace.

03:11:19.320 Because did you know that when you put on makeup,

03:11:21.600 it actually mimics the way you look when you're aroused.

03:11:23.740 When you're aroused,

03:11:24.600 your pupils dilate.

03:11:25.720 The blood capillaries in your lips and cheeks go off,

03:11:29.900 which causes your cheeks to blush and your lips to blush.

03:11:33.120 And your pupils dilate when you're aroused.

03:11:34.900 When you wet makeup,

03:11:36.060 you put rouge on your cheeks,

03:11:37.960 darken your lips,

03:11:38.940 and put darker makeup.

03:11:40.560 I thought we were wearing eyeliner right now,

03:11:41.980 at least mascara around your eyes,

03:11:43.500 which replicates the way you look when your pupils are dilated.

03:11:46.100 It's the exact same thing.

03:11:47.040 I mean,

03:11:47.240 I'm not going to listen to anything Jordan Peterson says as fact.

03:11:49.560 Jordan Peterson says as fact,

03:11:51.920 but also there are many different types of makeup looks that I would not say

03:11:56.620 what I look like when I'm aroused.

03:11:58.340 I think that's a very bizarre comparison. 0.99

03:12:01.000 as someone who studied like medical shit, 0.99

03:12:02.940 I think she is right. 0.99

03:12:03.860 It's a pretty good book.

03:12:04.600 I'm just saying.

03:12:05.420 It's pretty accurate.

03:12:06.940 I mean,

03:12:07.120 you can dismiss it,

03:12:08.160 but it's pretty accurate actually.

03:12:10.020 I'll keep living my life without it.

03:12:11.620 that it could mimic arousal.

03:12:13.520 Cause like I did study medicine,

03:12:15.140 like a bit of it.

03:12:16.100 And yeah,

03:12:16.740 that is right.

03:12:17.660 And a lot of looks were made after that,

03:12:20.360 with that intention,

03:12:21.220 like blush,

03:12:22.240 that sort of thing.

03:12:23.140 Like they were manufactured with that intent.

03:12:25.420 I mean, 0.99

03:12:25.820 obviously like ancient Egyptian makeup and shit, 0.99

03:12:27.700 we're not talking about that. 0.99

03:12:28.860 But that's where it all stems from.

03:12:30.500 Yeah.

03:12:30.520 But we're talking about modern times and the correlation.

03:12:33.780 And when you come to modern times,

03:12:36.000 you know,

03:12:36.460 this is.

03:12:36.760 But you're stating that makeup is basically in order to mimic your,

03:12:40.020 arousal face.

03:12:40.880 I'm saying it's coincidentally does not necessarily that,

03:12:43.400 that it was made with the intention to do so,

03:12:45.300 but a comparison can be drawn in a very clear comparison.

03:12:48.640 I know.

03:12:48.920 Well,

03:12:49.280 let's not,

03:12:49.880 let's not.

03:12:51.520 Yeah.

03:12:52.140 It's really not.

03:12:53.100 Yeah.

03:12:53.380 Back in the thirties,

03:12:54.320 uh,

03:12:54.620 they,

03:12:54.960 uh,

03:12:55.180 took advantage of like,

03:12:56.160 I think it was uranium.

03:12:57.060 I forgot if you've heard of the uranium girls,

03:12:58.600 they took advantage of it.

03:12:59.480 Like they used it to paint like clocks and stuff,

03:13:01.340 but they also used it because it would dilate eyes. 0.78

03:13:04.760 And it would also like make things pop.

03:13:07.840 Like they,

03:13:08.220 they went as far as they use uranium and it ended up getting the girls really

03:13:11.260 sick.

03:13:11.840 Based. 0.98

03:13:12.480 Just kidding.

03:13:12.960 I think makeup is a beautiful thing.

03:13:14.960 I love putting on my music and looking at myself in the mirror and like

03:13:19.540 playing with makeup.

03:13:21.240 Like it's so much fun.

03:13:22.040 And that's what makes us girls. 1.00

03:13:23.400 And I think I,

03:13:24.740 there's a lot of like,

03:13:25.900 do you like having a high maintenance girl? 1.00

03:13:28.060 Like,

03:13:28.400 would you like to have a high maintenance girl? 1.00

03:13:30.080 No.

03:13:30.840 Why not?

03:13:31.480 Like a woman that takes care of herself. 1.00

03:13:33.180 That's what I mean.

03:13:34.500 Do I high?

03:13:36.520 Really?

03:13:37.000 Because I would consider myself high maintenance because I take real,

03:13:39.880 like I try to take really good care of myself.

03:13:42.280 I go get my nails done.

03:13:43.300 I go get my eyelashes done.

03:13:45.020 I think you could have one without the other.

03:13:46.480 So I wouldn't classify like somebody who takes care of themselves as also

03:13:49.920 being high maintenance.

03:13:50.840 You're probably just both of those things.

03:13:52.660 Cause you can take care of yourself without like getting nails.

03:13:55.040 The no makeup.

03:13:57.700 Minimal thing.

03:13:59.300 But I think a lot of men think that they like that.

03:14:02.020 I'm not saying you in particular.

03:14:03.320 I believe what you're saying,

03:14:04.520 but I think a lot of men say that they like that,

03:14:06.980 but then they'll look at a picture of Kim Kardashian and be like,

03:14:09.180 look at her.

03:14:09.880 She's natural beauty. 0.97

03:14:10.980 She's not wearing any makeup.

03:14:12.380 And I'm like,

03:14:12.900 eyebrows,

03:14:13.560 eyeliner,

03:14:14.140 mascara,

03:14:15.040 foundation.

03:14:16.100 A lot of comprehension skills when it comes to that.

03:14:19.440 Because I've had some guys be like,

03:14:21.020 are those your real eyelashes?

03:14:22.880 I'm like,

03:14:23.020 I think that's a dismoderation.

03:14:24.060 But you could say like,

03:14:25.860 you could,

03:14:26.280 you could look at a girl and you could be like,

03:14:28.740 well,

03:14:29.020 she does look better with makeup on.

03:14:32.620 Despite this,

03:14:33.520 I still prefer her without makeup because that's how she actually looks. 1.00

03:14:38.480 I think it has to do with moderation.

03:14:39.900 Like I personally,

03:14:40.740 I used to be like goth,

03:14:42.360 so I would wear heavy makeup and I loved it.

03:14:44.360 And I've seen a lot of like alternative looks that I absolutely adore.

03:14:47.640 But I think when it comes to certain people,

03:14:49.540 like what they're into,

03:14:50.520 it just boils down to moderation.

03:14:52.100 Like for example,

03:14:52.760 like your eyelashes are fairly big.

03:14:54.280 If a man like wants a girl who wears eyelashes, 0.97

03:14:56.400 like,

03:14:56.880 oh,

03:14:57.000 I'm fine with her wearing lashes.

03:14:58.060 You might mean like something that hardly looks like you're wearing eyelashes.

03:15:01.340 Also,

03:15:01.720 we're not like wearing full face every single day.

03:15:03.360 Like at work,

03:15:04.080 zero makeup.

03:15:04.660 At work healthcare,

03:15:05.220 you cannot wear makeup.

03:15:05.980 Your face will break out.

03:15:06.860 Yeah.

03:15:07.020 I think that like,

03:15:08.060 it's just,

03:15:08.700 it boils down to moderation.

03:15:10.120 Like a guy,

03:15:10.820 like if he wants a girl with dyed hair,

03:15:11.980 he might not want like some crazy color.

03:15:13.960 You might just want like.

03:15:15.240 Let's move on.

03:15:16.400 We have Barry here.

03:15:19.120 Hold on.

03:15:19.380 We got to move on just to get caught up.

03:15:21.180 Yo,

03:15:21.420 FNF would destroy all these OF girls wrong, 1.00

03:15:23.440 but just know this,

03:15:24.000 how they talk over and yell to force their point.

03:15:26.440 Except exceptions don't make it a fact.

03:15:28.440 It's disappointing that the Mexican queen has a boyfriend. 1.00

03:15:31.760 Keep your head up.

03:15:33.160 I believe that's for you.

03:15:35.680 Facts over feelings,

03:15:36.660 WWW Brian.

03:15:37.860 Thank you,

03:15:38.380 Barry for your donation,

03:15:39.680 man.

03:15:39.740 Appreciate it.

03:15:40.540 We have,

03:15:41.780 did we do,

03:15:42.560 wait,

03:15:43.420 wait,

03:15:45.360 did we do?

03:15:45.720 Yeah.

03:15:46.400 No.

03:15:47.340 Uh,

03:15:47.540 Brian,

03:15:47.980 you have said that the genie of feminism is not going back in the ball, 1.00

03:15:51.140 but history proves otherwise.

03:15:52.680 Look at Iran, 1.00

03:15:53.760 1970 verse today.

03:15:55.260 The West is in for a backslide of epic proportions back to truly oppressive patriarchy.

03:16:01.460 Very scary for women from testing tolerance. 1.00

03:16:05.320 Um,

03:16:06.240 well,

03:16:07.580 I mean,

03:16:07.800 there's a lot of immigration in Europe,

03:16:09.440 which,

03:16:10.260 uh,

03:16:10.660 I mean,

03:16:11.180 that's,

03:16:12.000 that's another,

03:16:13.780 you know,

03:16:14.020 so you could,

03:16:15.640 Iran is a little different though than,

03:16:17.920 uh,

03:16:19.780 a lot of Western countries in the U S,

03:16:22.960 but I mean,

03:16:23.340 that's getting into some politics stuff.

03:16:25.000 So the slide back in Iran was due to a political coup in Iran.

03:16:31.380 And that's why they had that.

03:16:32.980 And it was an American and British coup in Iran.

03:16:35.560 So,

03:16:36.000 um,

03:16:36.420 we kind of are the people that enforced that,

03:16:39.000 but,

03:16:39.940 um,

03:16:40.240 I think he's more so talking about like the rollback of Roe versus Wade and things like that in America.

03:16:45.000 I don't think that's what he's talking about.

03:16:46.600 Really?

03:16:46.900 You don't?

03:16:47.620 No,

03:16:48.160 I don't think that's what he's getting at.

03:16:51.000 I mean,

03:16:51.300 he's saying that cause Iran in 1970 was very progressive and it was like very feminist.

03:16:56.320 It was.

03:16:57.100 And then he's saying the West,

03:16:58.960 which would be America and like Europe is in for a backslide of epic proportions to truly oppressive patriarchy,

03:17:04.640 which would kind of fall under like Roe being rolled back and things like that.

03:17:09.360 Well,

03:17:09.480 it's not clear to me.

03:17:10.620 It's not clear to me if,

03:17:11.700 uh,

03:17:13.060 if Roe v.

03:17:14.000 Wade getting rolled back is due to patriarchy because I think there's actually more women who are pro-life than there are men who are pro-life.

03:17:19.700 Roe versus Wade wasn't overturned with the intention of,

03:17:22.060 uh,

03:17:23.040 absolving abortion rights.

03:17:24.880 Let's not talk.

03:17:25.460 I don't really feel like talking.

03:17:26.400 Well,

03:17:26.480 no,

03:17:26.760 I'm just saying.

03:17:27.520 It's a very heavy.

03:17:28.040 All right.

03:17:28.320 We have,

03:17:28.540 we have Austin.

03:17:32.060 Zip it.

03:17:32.900 Zip it good.

03:17:34.140 Okay.

03:17:34.820 Austin Smith,

03:17:35.600 thank you very much for your blank,

03:17:38.080 uh,

03:17:38.540 a hundred dollars.

03:17:39.540 Super chat,

03:17:39.800 man.

03:17:39.940 Thank you.

03:17:40.520 We have eyes wide shut.

03:17:42.340 1989.

03:17:43.540 Merci beaucoup for the Canadian 50. 0.97

03:17:45.920 Uh,

03:17:46.380 I don't know if you're from the Canadian,

03:17:48.180 uh,

03:17:48.460 speaking apart.

03:17:49.680 Uh,

03:17:50.280 uh,

03:17:50.580 we have the smartest people are the ones who are quietly listening and absorbing everything that is being said around them.

03:17:56.340 The chatterboxes are too busy listening to themselves to really understand what they're even talking about.

03:18:00.600 Take note bangs.

03:18:02.200 Do you have anything to say to your,

03:18:03.660 our Canadian brother?

03:18:04.440 I feel like I've been actually listening a lot.

03:18:07.460 So.

03:18:08.140 Oh.

03:18:09.820 Oh.

03:18:10.660 Oh.

03:18:11.020 Okay.

03:18:11.500 All right.

03:18:11.820 We have Austin Smith here.

03:18:14.380 This is the message I meant to send for the girl to hate on the man for having a foreign wife. 1.00

03:18:18.160 My wife is Thai.

03:18:19.660 She's college educated,

03:18:21.040 has her own business and beautiful.

03:18:22.820 I was in the military.

03:18:24.020 I've never had an issue with getting a woman.

03:18:26.380 Yeah.

03:18:26.600 We did kind of briefly touch on the passport bro things,

03:18:29.400 but it kind of derailed a little bit.

03:18:31.780 Um,

03:18:31.880 so.

03:18:33.760 Who here,

03:18:34.360 does anyone here object to the,

03:18:35.900 or think it's kind of like funny that dudes are going overseas?

03:18:39.160 What,

03:18:39.480 one thing that is interesting to me,

03:18:40.680 and I know I just asked a question without letting you guys respond.

03:18:43.340 One thing that is interesting to me is,

03:18:45.620 um,

03:18:46.300 you know,

03:18:46.640 you have a lot of guys going overseas to find women, 0.50

03:18:50.380 but you don't really hear about guys coming to the U S to find women.

03:18:56.020 You know what I'm saying?

03:18:57.120 In Mexico?

03:18:57.860 Yes.

03:18:59.140 What?

03:18:59.540 In Mexico?

03:19:00.280 Yes.

03:19:00.680 Like,

03:19:00.980 all you gotta be like,

03:19:02.040 I got papers and they want you.

03:19:04.200 Yeah.

03:19:04.560 But that like for room actual genuine romantic,

03:19:07.320 I mean,

03:19:08.900 well,

03:19:09.300 I don't necessarily think that passport rows are finding genuine romantic connections either.

03:19:14.160 The women want papers or some sort of escape from their life. 1.00

03:19:18.440 And then the men are just,

03:19:20.460 yeah,

03:19:21.100 the man just wants to provide and have a trad wife that he can bring to the United States. 0.87

03:19:24.940 So they're both,

03:19:25.620 it's kind of a transactional deal.

03:19:27.080 Yeah.

03:19:27.620 Either way that you're slicing it.

03:19:29.320 And his situation is different.

03:19:30.660 I mean,

03:19:30.920 you were in the military and you met a woman,

03:19:32.660 I'm assuming while you were on base in another country,

03:19:35.240 that's like completely different than being a passport bro.

03:19:37.520 Right.

03:19:39.040 So good for him.

03:19:40.040 Yeah.

03:19:40.580 Good for you.

03:19:43.520 But look,

03:19:44.280 I think what's happening is a lot of men are not finding success with dating in the West,

03:19:51.160 in the United States.

03:19:52.780 And so they're going to where they are appreciated,

03:19:55.780 which is overseas.

03:19:57.280 If you can't find women who appreciate you,

03:20:00.500 then they're going elsewhere.

03:20:02.820 Yeah.

03:20:03.040 But I think in a lot of cases that they're expecting something that they're never going to get.

03:20:06.420 I mean,

03:20:06.660 there was a clip that went viral,

03:20:07.940 what,

03:20:08.220 like a week and a half,

03:20:09.340 two weeks ago of a guy that was a passport bro,

03:20:11.500 went to Morocco to find a traditional wife.

03:20:13.420 And he was being set up by a matchmaker.

03:20:15.700 And the woman was like, 1.00

03:20:17.020 okay,

03:20:17.460 yeah,

03:20:17.760 I'll be the traditional wife, 0.53

03:20:19.000 but you have to pay for everything.

03:20:20.260 And he was like,

03:20:20.900 wait,

03:20:21.120 wait,

03:20:21.480 you're not 50,

03:20:22.340 50.

03:20:23.140 And she's like,

03:20:23.880 was this like a set up Tik TOK?

03:20:26.360 Like,

03:20:26.520 no,

03:20:26.780 no,

03:20:26.980 this was on 90 day fiance.

03:20:28.880 So it was a legitimate,

03:20:29.700 it was,

03:20:30.360 yeah,

03:20:31.080 it was 90 day fiance.

03:20:32.480 90 day fiance.

03:20:33.020 I mean,

03:20:33.340 I've never heard of it.

03:20:34.620 It's a good show.

03:20:35.400 I would recommend watching Anfisa.

03:20:38.100 Oh,

03:20:38.620 Anfisa was the best.

03:20:39.880 She was a queen.

03:20:41.220 Is Morocco the premier destination for passport bro?

03:20:45.700 Well,

03:20:46.020 it's one of them because it's where traditional women are. 1.00

03:20:49.600 I mean,

03:20:49.960 Moroccan women are heavily traditional. 0.79

03:20:52.360 They want to be the homemaker, 1.00

03:20:53.580 the bread,

03:20:54.060 they want him to be a breadwinner.

03:20:55.500 Is Morocco an Islamic country?

03:20:57.520 More Muslim. 0.99

03:20:58.460 Yeah.

03:20:58.620 Yeah.

03:21:00.740 But typically when you hear of passport bros,

03:21:02.700 you either hear Latin America or you hear.

03:21:06.120 Yeah.

03:21:06.540 Asia.

03:21:07.080 So,

03:21:07.880 I mean,

03:21:08.160 I suppose if you're,

03:21:08.860 if you're Muslim,

03:21:09.640 then I.

03:21:10.860 It's the same traditional standards and values.

03:21:13.280 But so a lot of these men go over there,

03:21:15.160 thinking they're going to find the American set of values of a woman 1.00

03:21:18.200 that'll pay 50,

03:21:19.020 50 with a man and,

03:21:20.620 and also have a traditional wife when that's not going to happen.

03:21:25.160 And like that clip went viral.

03:21:27.100 And that is not the only case of that happening.

03:21:29.300 They think they're going to find a 50,

03:21:30.860 50 woman.

03:21:31.320 Who's also going to do all of the household chores and take care of the 0.99

03:21:34.740 family and do everything else and wait on him hand and foot while he

03:21:37.840 doesn't want to pay for everything and provide.

03:21:40.840 I mean,

03:21:41.320 I,

03:21:41.540 I can't speak for all the men that are passport bros, 0.99

03:21:44.720 but,

03:21:44.920 it's maybe a bit of a straw man to say that these guys who are passport bros are

03:21:51.760 expecting like tradition.

03:21:53.140 They want to do 50,

03:21:54.520 50 with traditional women. 0.94

03:21:56.240 Well,

03:21:56.760 I'm saying this off of something that actually like was already perpetuated

03:22:00.760 online.

03:22:01.800 I mean,

03:22:02.000 obviously TV show where producers are intentionally.

03:22:05.400 No,

03:22:05.860 they're like,

03:22:06.480 controversial.

03:22:07.440 They're like real situations.

03:22:08.760 It's not really interference.

03:22:10.340 I mean like the real relationships and marriages.

03:22:12.860 I mean,

03:22:13.080 reality shows are like notorious for being scripted.

03:22:15.840 And no one's going to be married.

03:22:17.240 Yeah.

03:22:17.780 No one is moving to another country for a reality show that they're not

03:22:20.900 getting paid for.

03:22:23.640 Well,

03:22:24.100 I mean,

03:22:24.320 I haven't seen the show,

03:22:25.360 so I can't speak to the specifics of this.

03:22:27.940 You should watch it.

03:22:28.620 I feel like you'll have a lot of,

03:22:29.780 you would have a lot of content from that for sure.

03:22:32.460 I'm sure.

03:22:32.580 But I'm not saying that it's every single passport bro.

03:22:35.240 That's,

03:22:35.920 you know,

03:22:36.580 looking for that and thinks that that's going to happen.

03:22:39.280 But I mean,

03:22:39.720 they're definitely out there.

03:22:40.740 I'd say that some moments in that show,

03:22:42.200 cause I've seen that show.

03:22:43.080 My parents forced me to watch it.

03:22:43.940 I'd say that some moments are scripted and other moments aren't like the

03:22:46.660 situations that they get in like might not be,

03:22:49.880 I mean,

03:22:50.200 are kind of set up to go a certain way,

03:22:52.840 but some parts aren't scripted,

03:22:54.280 but I wouldn't really like base an entire argument on that show

03:22:57.300 specifically because of its history.

03:22:59.240 Like,

03:22:59.760 especially like there's been so many channels exposing it as fake.

03:23:02.220 Like I'm sure you've seen it.

03:23:03.620 So you remember that Stephanie plot line.

03:23:05.980 Is there any statistics?

03:23:07.100 Oh,

03:23:07.260 that's my friend.

03:23:07.800 Because I feel like we kind of have to go off what we see on,

03:23:12.620 in the media to like make assumptions and not make us.

03:23:15.320 Yeah.

03:23:15.500 Okay.

03:23:15.760 Who cares about the reality show?

03:23:18.020 Okay.

03:23:18.180 We have a chat from Patty Lebow man from Australia.

03:23:23.000 Thank you for the 50.

03:23:23.820 Did you taste another man spoof in the girl you're seeing?

03:23:26.280 Is this your trauma?

03:23:27.520 What is spoof?

03:23:29.600 Hopefully not,

03:23:30.460 but I,

03:23:33.100 I don't think so,

03:23:34.540 but like,

03:23:35.280 that's just,

03:23:36.200 it's one of the reasons why.

03:23:40.120 I don't know.

03:23:40.780 You don't,

03:23:41.320 I don't do.

03:23:41.760 Okay.

03:23:42.100 Placebo effect.

03:23:43.600 Yo,

03:23:43.900 puffy Vegas.

03:23:44.540 Good to see you in the chat,

03:23:45.360 man.

03:23:45.600 Hope things are good in Vegas for you.

03:23:46.940 Brian is a hundred percent.

03:23:48.220 Correct.

03:23:49.380 Men do not talk about sex in great detail in the same way girls do. 0.99

03:23:54.040 There we go.

03:23:55.920 And puffy Vegas is a scholar and a gentleman.

03:23:59.360 I need a profile photo.

03:24:00.480 Him with women. 0.81

03:24:01.280 I definitely trust you.

03:24:02.380 I know.

03:24:03.260 Just a reminder guys,

03:24:04.100 if you're speaking,

03:24:04.760 please speak into the microphones.

03:24:06.200 Sorry.

03:24:06.680 Oops.

03:24:07.100 He is a scholar.

03:24:08.260 So,

03:24:09.140 you know,

03:24:09.720 this is probably factually very correct.

03:24:11.920 Okay.

03:24:12.080 We have Trey here with the 50.

03:24:14.300 Hey,

03:24:14.460 thank you,

03:24:14.740 man.

03:24:14.920 I'm down bad. 1.00

03:24:15.520 Karen is bad as fuck. 1.00

03:24:16.740 I need that. 1.00

03:24:17.120 I need the F of fan treatment.

03:24:19.460 What do I do?

03:24:22.700 I have nothing to say.

03:24:24.320 Thank you.

03:24:25.540 No,

03:24:25.760 thank you.

03:24:26.260 Do you do that?

03:24:27.040 Nope.

03:24:28.080 Okay.

03:24:28.620 Kobe PFP,

03:24:29.660 bro.

03:24:29.820 That is mad.

03:24:30.660 Yo,

03:24:30.940 no,

03:24:31.060 no,

03:24:31.340 no,

03:24:31.380 no,

03:24:31.420 no,

03:24:31.520 no,

03:24:31.780 no,

03:24:31.840 no,

03:24:31.900 no,

03:24:31.940 no,

03:24:31.960 no,

03:24:32.000 no,

03:24:32.020 no,

03:24:32.140 no,

03:24:32.620 no,

03:24:32.800 no,

03:24:33.160 no,

03:24:33.460 no,

03:24:33.520 no,

03:24:33.540 no,

03:24:34.140 no,

03:24:34.360 no,

03:24:34.380 no,

03:24:34.440 no,

03:24:34.460 no,

03:24:34.960 no,

03:24:34.980 no,

03:24:35.000 no,

03:24:35.060 no,

03:24:35.380 no,

03:24:35.880 no,

03:24:36.900 no,

03:24:37.000 no,

03:24:37.400 no,

03:24:37.420 no,

03:24:38.420 no,

03:24:38.940 no,

03:24:47.120 reciprocally.

03:24:50.100 Is that a word?

03:24:51.680 Reciprocally.

03:24:53.340 Recipe broccoli.

03:24:54.660 Thank you very much.

03:24:55.760 Not a big fan.

03:24:56.240 Okay.

03:24:58.280 It's different guys being on the outside and girls being on the inside. 0.79

03:25:02.180 I don't know what that means.

03:25:02.720 Yeah,

03:25:02.900 there's difference.

03:25:03.800 There's differences.

03:25:05.260 Like,

03:25:05.540 cause,

03:25:05.980 the anatomy is a little different,

03:25:11.060 you know,

03:25:11.460 the anatomy is a little different.

03:25:12.580 I have a question.

03:25:13.340 What if she was a virgin?

03:25:14.860 Would you then?

03:25:15.480 She's a virgin. 0.99

03:25:17.800 And the biggest labia you've ever seen. 0.99

03:25:20.080 Well, 0.88

03:25:20.380 the labia doesn't really,

03:25:22.080 it's not a factor.

03:25:23.820 Do you just pull it aside and then go in?

03:25:26.220 I'm just,

03:25:26.760 Jesus.

03:25:29.060 The labia is not related to the,

03:25:32.260 the,

03:25:32.380 the,

03:25:32.600 the head thing.

03:25:33.640 Well,

03:25:33.760 I'm just asking if they've never been with a man.

03:25:38.700 I got,

03:25:39.340 I got neck problems still.

03:25:41.200 He just doesn't want it in your neck problem.

03:25:43.400 There's other ways you can please a woman. 0.99

03:25:44.980 There are other ways.

03:25:45.900 I agree.

03:25:46.020 You use toys.

03:25:47.960 That's good.

03:25:48.260 But that's not,

03:25:48.760 he just doesn't want it.

03:25:49.600 He just doesn't want it.

03:25:50.400 He just doesn't want it.

03:25:51.000 He just doesn't want it.

03:25:51.020 He doesn't want to.

03:25:53.060 Like,

03:25:53.320 I was going to say like,

03:25:54.060 do you really think hands are doing the trick?

03:25:56.180 Yes,

03:25:56.640 bro.

03:25:56.980 Trust me.

03:25:57.540 They're doing the trick.

03:25:58.800 She's lying.

03:25:59.840 I just want to say,

03:26:00.720 I'm not going to shame you for using toys.

03:26:02.820 Cause the confidence to do that.

03:26:04.180 And I'm sure many women wish their men felt confident enough to bring that in the bedroom. 0.97

03:26:08.600 So I think that we need to give a round of applause for that.

03:26:11.240 I've heard that from women that some guys don't want to use some toys. 0.96

03:26:15.580 Wait,

03:26:15.840 I have a question for you.

03:26:16.780 I think it's their op instead of their,

03:26:17.760 it makes it easier.

03:26:18.900 Why not?

03:26:19.640 Yeah,

03:26:19.920 I have a question.

03:26:20.600 I have a question.

03:26:21.280 What's up?

03:26:21.780 Do you have these toys already?

03:26:24.460 Or do you have them?

03:26:26.040 Saved by the TTS.

03:26:27.060 Bender donated $99.

03:26:28.740 Thank you,

03:26:29.200 Bender. 1.00

03:26:29.860 Passport bros don't just move overseas for a more traditional relationship.

03:26:34.720 They also move because of the cost of living.

03:26:37.600 Yeah,

03:26:37.880 it's cheaper in some of these.

03:26:39.440 Yeah,

03:26:39.640 actually,

03:26:40.160 you can't run away from my question.

03:26:41.460 I'm not like disagreeing.

03:26:42.440 I'm not agreeing or disagreeing with that,

03:26:43.840 but I was in Japan for a month.

03:26:44.960 Everything is like significantly cheaper.

03:26:46.600 Like,

03:26:47.400 I don't know.

03:26:48.260 I don't know.

03:26:48.640 I'm explaining it.

03:26:49.040 Is it?

03:26:49.640 Yes.

03:26:49.920 I heard the cost of living in Tokyo is like really.

03:26:51.800 Japan is very expensive.

03:26:53.480 no,

03:26:53.740 no,

03:26:53.920 no,

03:26:54.140 maybe like the cost of living,

03:26:55.500 but like.

03:26:55.760 You were in Osaka?

03:26:57.620 Where were you at?

03:26:58.440 I was in Tokyo,

03:26:59.640 but like,

03:27:00.040 you know how sandwiches from 7-Eleven are $7?

03:27:02.060 You can get that for like 200,

03:27:03.780 300 yen,

03:27:04.480 which is basically.

03:27:04.820 What is that in the US?

03:27:05.700 That's like $2.

03:27:06.980 That's like $2.

03:27:07.920 Like,

03:27:08.220 I lived off of 7-Eleven foods and I ate good in Japan.

03:27:12.160 The food in Japan is cheaper.

03:27:13.700 It's typically cheaper.

03:27:14.880 Like,

03:27:15.060 okay,

03:27:15.360 listen,

03:27:15.820 listen,

03:27:16.040 listen.

03:27:16.460 No,

03:27:16.620 no.

03:27:16.780 Eating good and eating 7-Eleven food does not.

03:27:19.000 No,

03:27:19.120 no,

03:27:19.360 it was good food.

03:27:20.040 It's good food because the regulations,

03:27:21.660 the regulations there are so,

03:27:23.320 so tight.

03:27:23.880 Okay,

03:27:24.040 I've heard that.

03:27:24.580 I've heard a lot of people that live long and are healthy.

03:27:26.680 The 7-Eleven food there is really fire.

03:27:28.560 And in Hawaii too.

03:27:29.680 So I've never gone.

03:27:30.360 No,

03:27:30.580 Hawaii was nasty.

03:27:31.540 I saw a pad like,

03:27:32.720 you know,

03:27:33.000 floating in the water.

03:27:34.620 Like,

03:27:34.840 I don't think I'm going to go back.

03:27:35.820 I was talking about the 7-Eleven food in Hawaii.

03:27:37.100 Oh,

03:27:37.280 no,

03:27:37.460 no.

03:27:37.800 They have a lot more legalities for the GMers and stuff versus the rest of the United States.

03:27:41.860 No,

03:27:42.040 but anyways,

03:27:42.800 like,

03:27:42.960 everything in Japan is just so cheaper.

03:27:45.060 Like,

03:27:45.240 it's like,

03:27:45.740 there's no crime,

03:27:46.640 no homeless people.

03:27:49.240 Have you,

03:27:49.820 what?

03:27:50.100 You killed a homeless person?

03:27:51.060 No,

03:27:51.440 no,

03:27:52.160 no,

03:27:52.420 no.

03:27:54.580 I mean,

03:27:55.260 I may be used to like give them money and pay them to fight each other, 0.99

03:27:57.820 but like,

03:27:58.200 that's neither here nor here.

03:28:00.120 I'm kidding.

03:28:00.700 That was actually a joke.

03:28:01.660 Dude,

03:28:02.080 like,

03:28:02.560 you're acting like I have money to give out,

03:28:04.520 bro.

03:28:04.660 Look at me.

03:28:05.180 Look at what I'm wearing,

03:28:06.080 bro.

03:28:06.140 This is like my little brother's shirt.

03:28:08.620 But,

03:28:08.840 yeah,

03:28:10.220 but anyways,

03:28:10.880 yeah,

03:28:11.020 things are just so much cheaper.

03:28:12.500 It's crazy.

03:28:13.400 It's like crazy.

03:28:14.180 Like,

03:28:14.500 you can get like a $17 like bowl of ramen at like somewhere here.

03:28:18.920 But for that,

03:28:19.360 that would be like $7 in Japan,

03:28:20.940 like an actual dinner meal.

03:28:23.240 Like,

03:28:23.440 I don't know.

03:28:24.640 It's just,

03:28:24.980 I don't know. 0.97

03:28:25.340 I can't shut the fuck up about it. 0.98

03:28:27.200 Clearly. 0.98

03:28:28.040 I don't know.

03:28:29.020 Japan's cost of living is actually extremely high outside of the food.

03:28:32.400 Outside of food,

03:28:33.140 outside of utilities, 1.00

03:28:34.080 outside of like all that shit. 0.99

03:28:35.580 Yeah, 1.00

03:28:35.760 it's expensive.

03:28:36.440 Wait,

03:28:36.620 what did you,

03:28:37.040 what was your question?

03:28:37.900 All in gay? 1.00

03:28:38.440 Oh, 0.97

03:28:38.860 I was going to ask you that when you are using these toys on girls, 1.00

03:28:42.960 do you have a collection of toys?

03:28:45.180 I think communal.

03:28:46.200 Yeah.

03:28:46.520 Communal toys?

03:28:47.320 That's what I was about to ask.

03:28:48.080 Cause that's gross.

03:28:48.760 Yeah.

03:28:49.200 I was going to say that you're going to get a girl in affection.

03:28:51.420 Wash them.

03:28:52.220 Bro,

03:28:52.380 you can wash toys.

03:28:53.640 Hello.

03:28:54.100 If I found out a man was using the same exact toy that he used on another girl,

03:29:00.380 I would be livid. 0.66

03:29:02.020 It's gross.

03:29:02.140 What?

03:29:02.600 I would get a,

03:29:03.500 my,

03:29:04.020 you don't know that even.

03:29:05.300 Okay.

03:29:05.700 When a guy.

03:29:06.360 Yes,

03:29:06.540 I've heard that.

03:29:06.940 When a guy.

03:29:07.520 They like want to use a toy that's never been used before.

03:29:10.400 I've,

03:29:10.660 I've heard that.

03:29:11.220 Yeah. 0.84

03:29:11.360 But when a guy has sex with another girl and then he like takes a shower or whatever, 0.97

03:29:15.240 he cleans himself off. 0.62

03:29:16.320 He can still mess up the other girls. 0.95

03:29:19.400 Like the,

03:29:19.880 yeah.

03:29:20.320 pH balance.

03:29:21.200 Even if it is washed.

03:29:22.560 So just to let you know.

03:29:23.660 Even if the peen?

03:29:24.240 Huh?

03:29:24.540 Even if the peen is washed?

03:29:25.860 Yes.

03:29:26.120 Washed?

03:29:26.640 Yes.

03:29:27.080 The peen.

03:29:27.560 pH balances are no joke.

03:29:29.580 On the peen. 0.95

03:29:29.880 If the pH balance is fucked up on the peen. 0.93

03:29:32.480 No, 0.97

03:29:32.840 if just depending on like your.

03:29:34.540 You're very sensitive.

03:29:36.340 If you,

03:29:36.700 you're saying if you soap your peen,

03:29:39.040 the dude soaps his peen.

03:29:40.760 Yeah.

03:29:41.140 Rinses the,

03:29:42.080 with water.

03:29:42.760 So there's no more soap on said peen. 0.99

03:29:45.200 The dude's peen is going to fuck up the chick's. 1.00

03:29:48.060 Yeah. 0.99

03:29:48.460 It still can.

03:29:49.500 What?

03:29:50.140 Yes.

03:29:51.040 Maybe if he's blasting inside,

03:29:52.840 maybe.

03:29:53.160 I don't know.

03:29:53.720 No.

03:29:54.000 It can occur without.

03:29:55.540 Cause now they're pH balance.

03:29:56.960 Put the blame on the guy.

03:29:58.160 Of course.

03:29:59.060 Well,

03:29:59.320 it is a woman's pH. 1.00

03:30:00.680 I mean,

03:30:00.960 it can like anything can mess it up,

03:30:03.240 but like if you're having sex with somebody.

03:30:04.240 So you're saying a guy should not shower.

03:30:06.080 No,

03:30:06.540 absolutely not.

03:30:07.640 We're letting you know,

03:30:08.400 even if you do shower,

03:30:09.640 even if you,

03:30:10.220 you,

03:30:10.480 you are using those toys.

03:30:12.160 Which toys?

03:30:12.660 Why are you pointing up there?

03:30:13.840 Isn't your bed up there? 1.00

03:30:14.700 What the fuck? 1.00

03:30:15.880 If you're using those toys on multiple girls, 1.00

03:30:18.100 like you're going to give some girl an infection. 1.00

03:30:20.640 If you clean the toy,

03:30:21.960 you sterilize the toy.

03:30:23.320 Yes,

03:30:23.600 sir.

03:30:23.900 That's exactly what I just said.

03:30:25.740 That's exactly what I just said. 0.99

03:30:26.820 Even if you clean your pee pee after you have sex with, 0.98

03:30:30.180 this is why girls know when they're getting cheated on. 1.00

03:30:32.200 This is some fake news.

03:30:33.020 No,

03:30:33.540 this is why girls, 1.00

03:30:34.800 this is,

03:30:35.140 stop,

03:30:35.900 let me talk.

03:30:36.980 Sorry.

03:30:37.280 But this is why girls know that their bodies literally tell us, 1.00

03:30:41.660 our bodies will literally tell us when a man is cheating on us because our pH balance will get messed up.

03:30:48.140 It is such a sensitive thing.

03:30:49.760 Hold on.

03:30:49.860 You're saying, 0.98

03:30:50.400 you're saying if your pH balance gets fucked up and you're dating a guy, 0.99

03:30:53.260 that's evidence of him cheating on you? 0.98

03:30:54.940 It can be.

03:30:55.520 Yeah.

03:30:56.160 If you're hygienic.

03:30:57.660 Don't girls, 1.00

03:30:58.260 don't girls spontaneously have their pH change even when they're not in a relationship and having sex with men? 0.99

03:31:03.800 So how can you say that would be evidence of a guy cheating on you?

03:31:06.220 Well,

03:31:06.320 if she's having sex with men, 0.52

03:31:07.200 it could be one of the men that she's sleeping with that threw off her pH. 0.99

03:31:09.580 One of the men she's sleeping with.

03:31:10.380 Well,

03:31:10.620 you said,

03:31:11.280 I just said,

03:31:11.820 if you're in a relationship.

03:31:12.880 Who's cheating on? 0.67

03:31:13.440 Who?

03:31:13.600 I just said,

03:31:14.180 if you're in a relationship and you're having consistent sex with this guy and nothing has ever happened before.

03:31:18.840 All of a sudden,

03:31:20.340 yeast infection or something smells a little weird down there.

03:31:23.360 You're getting a UTI.

03:31:24.080 But that could spontaneously,

03:31:25.100 women have spontaneous. 1.00

03:31:26.560 No,

03:31:27.200 not really.

03:31:28.480 Women who are virgins will have pH imbalances. 1.00

03:31:32.140 Outside of the conversation,

03:31:33.380 pH levels are actually really sensitive.

03:31:34.820 Can we not talk about pH balances?

03:31:36.760 No,

03:31:37.220 no,

03:31:37.340 no.

03:31:37.520 I don't even talk about it.

03:31:38.320 You didn't answer my question.

03:31:39.240 You didn't answer my question.

03:31:40.200 No,

03:31:40.260 no,

03:31:40.280 listen,

03:31:40.480 outside of the conversation,

03:31:41.460 like it's like a fish tank.

03:31:42.520 Like if you were to like add a certain amount of ammonia,

03:31:45.060 the entire fish tank might be screwed up. 0.99

03:31:46.740 It might be fucked up. 1.00

03:31:47.360 Your pussy's like a fish tank. 1.00

03:31:48.440 What the fuck? 1.00

03:31:49.260 No, 1.00

03:31:49.380 no,

03:31:49.500 I'm saying in terms of,

03:31:50.580 I'm saying in terms of like pH balances,

03:31:53.620 like pH as,

03:31:54.700 as an entity.

03:31:55.380 Bro, 0.99

03:31:55.540 can we not talk about the pH of pussies right now? 0.99

03:31:57.780 No, 0.99

03:31:57.940 no,

03:31:58.100 I'm not talking about that.

03:31:58.820 Can you answer my question?

03:31:59.520 I'm putting on the nerd,

03:32:00.420 I'm the nerd emoji right now.

03:32:02.560 I'm saying.

03:32:02.700 I'm dying to know.

03:32:03.660 If you were to like.

03:32:04.420 Look,

03:32:04.680 you can, 1.00

03:32:05.120 you can clean a sex toy. 1.00

03:32:06.960 Oh my God, 0.99

03:32:07.480 you guys heard it now.

03:32:08.360 This is outside. 0.99

03:32:09.060 That shit just goes on the clip. 1.00

03:32:13.620 You're not like you should sex toy insertion. 1.00

03:32:16.760 No, 0.99

03:32:16.800 no,

03:32:16.900 no,

03:32:17.020 no,

03:32:17.100 no,

03:32:17.180 just on the clip.

03:32:18.300 It's fine.

03:32:19.160 What?

03:32:19.460 I think it kind of just goes back to your whole,

03:32:21.680 like,

03:32:21.860 Oh, 1.00

03:32:22.060 if she fucked a guy last night and then I like, 1.00

03:32:24.480 I'm not going to go down on her. 1.00

03:32:25.540 It's the same with the sex toy. 1.00

03:32:26.920 But the sex, 0.99

03:32:27.620 it's different though.

03:32:28.340 You're going to get a lot of messages from girls.

03:32:30.980 It's very different.

03:32:32.080 It's going on my,

03:32:35.660 on the woman's body.

03:32:36.960 So it's the same type of thing.

03:32:38.380 Like if another girl. 0.68

03:32:40.640 Anatomy is very different.

03:32:42.060 The anatomy.

03:32:44.480 Okay.

03:32:44.940 Let's say here's the difference.

03:32:46.400 Here's the difference,

03:32:47.000 right?

03:32:47.480 A guy, 1.00

03:32:48.200 if he has sex and he showers his penis, 1.00

03:32:52.020 cleans his penis, 1.00

03:32:53.500 assume, 1.00

03:32:53.980 like assuming there's no STDs involved, 0.99

03:32:56.520 that that's a clean penis. 0.99

03:32:58.160 No. 1.00

03:32:58.500 However,

03:32:59.340 however,

03:32:59.820 let's say a guy was and you weren't using a condom. 0.99

03:33:02.720 You fucked a guy and he wasn't using a condom. 0.99

03:33:05.840 And let's say, 1.00

03:33:06.780 let's add another level to it.

03:33:08.060 He,

03:33:08.480 he blasted inside,

03:33:11.680 came inside.

03:33:13.260 You, 1.00

03:33:13.760 that shit lingers for a little bit, 1.00

03:33:15.360 son. 1.00

03:33:16.540 Yeah. 1.00

03:33:17.380 That shit lingers a little bit. 1.00

03:33:18.560 That shit can drip down a little bit later on. 1.00

03:33:20.120 You could ask something with acidity to, 1.00

03:33:21.840 uh,

03:33:21.900 what?

03:33:22.440 Huh?

03:33:23.040 Hypothetically speaking, 0.98

03:33:24.000 like you're a virgin.

03:33:25.320 So what?

03:33:25.620 Okay.

03:33:25.840 I know.

03:33:26.240 No,

03:33:26.380 I'm speaking about chemistry.

03:33:28.320 It was this chemistry.

03:33:29.160 Hypothetically speaking,

03:33:30.280 you could like balance back the pH with a level of acidity.

03:33:34.360 Like if you add acidity,

03:33:35.780 are you saying douching?

03:33:36.700 Women should not douche. 1.00

03:33:37.580 No,

03:33:37.780 no,

03:33:37.880 no.

03:33:38.300 Acidity.

03:33:38.880 Like vinegar. 1.00

03:33:39.100 What the fuck are you talking about? 1.00

03:33:39.640 Boric acid. 1.00

03:33:40.780 Vinegar and pussy? 1.00

03:33:41.780 What the fuck? 1.00

03:33:42.360 Okay. 1.00

03:33:42.640 No,

03:33:42.820 I'm not.

03:33:43.380 I'm saying,

03:33:44.200 I'm just saying in terms of chemistry.

03:33:46.800 Girls, 0.91

03:33:47.400 do not,

03:33:47.720 do not listen to her.

03:33:49.100 Do not listen to her.

03:33:50.540 Do not,

03:33:51.460 don't put vinegar.

03:33:53.160 Well,

03:33:53.480 no,

03:33:53.680 I'm talking about chemistry.

03:33:54.480 I'm not talking about.

03:33:55.180 I'm just kidding.

03:33:55.840 I'm just kidding.

03:33:56.380 I'm just kidding.

03:33:56.900 I'm just kidding.

03:33:58.640 I wonder,

03:33:59.360 I want to hear it.

03:33:59.920 No,

03:34:00.060 sorry.

03:34:00.380 Please.

03:34:00.520 No,

03:34:00.640 no,

03:34:00.740 I'm done.

03:34:01.100 I'm done.

03:34:01.500 To your point though,

03:34:02.340 if,

03:34:02.560 if a toy is on another woman's body and then you're,

03:34:04.740 even if you're cleaning it, 1.00

03:34:05.540 cause like you're saying like you wash your dick, 1.00

03:34:07.200 whatever, 1.00

03:34:07.840 if you're cleaning it,

03:34:08.680 like it still was on somebody else's or in somebody like another female's body.

03:34:12.260 Like you don't think that that's similar.

03:34:14.020 Like that's gross.

03:34:15.100 Yeah.

03:34:15.920 Wait,

03:34:16.200 what?

03:34:16.960 The toys.

03:34:18.040 If,

03:34:18.560 if you're reusing the same toy from women to women,

03:34:21.160 woman to woman,

03:34:21.960 would you use the same fleshlight as another guy?

03:34:24.980 That's what we're trying to say.

03:34:26.380 Would you use the same fleshlight that another guy use? 1.00

03:34:28.940 Fuck no. 1.00

03:34:29.680 Exactly. 1.00

03:34:30.840 Get new toys.

03:34:32.080 Get new toys.

03:34:32.660 But you,

03:34:33.220 you could extend that logic to,

03:34:35.380 for example,

03:34:36.020 you could say,

03:34:36.860 well,

03:34:38.400 as a guy,

03:34:39.080 if you've been with more than one woman,

03:34:41.960 then you just don't want to admit you're wrong.

03:34:44.080 No,

03:34:44.420 it's not about admitting I'm wrong,

03:34:45.740 but like you can, 1.00

03:34:47.140 you can better sterilize and clean a sex toy than you could a penis. 0.99

03:34:53.140 So are you arguing that if you would never use a sex toy that was used on another woman, 1.00

03:34:59.500 that you would never fuck a dude who's fucked another chick? 1.00

03:35:02.960 That's not, 0.99

03:35:03.340 that's not what we're saying. 0.97

03:35:04.600 We're just saying that you should get new sex toys. 0.96

03:35:06.580 I get it. 0.97

03:35:06.860 But the point I'm saying is like, 0.99

03:35:08.320 you could clean a sex toy. 1.00

03:35:09.580 Brian, 1.00

03:35:09.820 we're trying to help you out.

03:35:10.620 Okay.

03:35:11.460 We're like,

03:35:11.840 you're not,

03:35:12.360 yes,

03:35:12.740 we are.

03:35:13.000 we're trying to help you out.

03:35:14.400 We're not trying to embarrass you.

03:35:15.540 We're not trying to shame you.

03:35:16.680 If your,

03:35:16.720 if your boundary is you,

03:35:18.160 you,

03:35:18.420 I don't have an issue with it.

03:35:19.340 If your boundary is, 0.94

03:35:20.340 I only want to use sex toys that are brand new. 0.98

03:35:24.500 Even, 0.67

03:35:25.020 even if they're perfectly capable of being washed,

03:35:27.400 they're non-porous sex toys that you can clean.

03:35:30.400 And there's no,

03:35:31.620 you know,

03:35:32.200 that's fine. 0.95

03:35:33.560 If that's your preference when it comes to the use of sex toys. 0.76

03:35:36.320 Some women don't care. 1.00

03:35:37.360 Some women, 1.00

03:35:38.400 you know,

03:35:38.740 whatever.

03:35:38.900 I don't know if some women don't care. 1.00

03:35:40.140 I think they might just not know.

03:35:41.160 Do you tell, 0.98

03:35:42.860 do you tell the girls that you're like going to use these sex toys on? 0.99

03:35:45.840 Do you like, 0.99

03:35:46.140 by the way,

03:35:46.540 I use this on another girl. 1.00

03:35:47.900 I can't really say that.

03:35:49.580 Or do you just lie and be like,

03:35:51.920 see,

03:35:52.100 you need to be more honest,

03:35:52.960 Brian.

03:35:53.680 Whoa.

03:35:54.080 first off,

03:35:55.580 first off,

03:35:56.360 I would always disclose,

03:35:57.980 you know,

03:35:58.760 I would disclose.

03:36:00.320 Have you?

03:36:00.780 This toy has a body camera.

03:36:02.260 Well,

03:36:02.420 I'm a,

03:36:02.600 I just want to let you know ahead of time. 0.99

03:36:06.660 Am I supposed to just throw away a perfectly good fucking vibrator? 0.99

03:36:10.180 Yeah, 1.00

03:36:10.380 but you could put a condom on it.

03:36:11.760 There's different things that you could do.

03:36:13.560 A Hitachi wand?

03:36:14.500 Yeah.

03:36:14.660 Yeah.

03:36:14.740 You put one on there.

03:36:15.700 That's what they do in porn. 1.00

03:36:17.240 They do.

03:36:18.060 I would,

03:36:18.380 I would listen to her.

03:36:19.500 Yeah.

03:36:20.700 Yeah.

03:36:21.100 This is just Haram. 0.88

03:36:24.060 Haram!

03:36:24.540 I can't,

03:36:24.940 okay.

03:36:25.580 All right,

03:36:26.180 okay,

03:36:26.540 we have Eyes Wide Shut here in 1989.

03:36:29.740 Thank you for the Canadian 50.

03:36:31.120 Can I have you read this one?

03:36:32.160 Because I don't know why.

03:36:33.340 Me?

03:36:33.640 Yeah,

03:36:33.860 sure.

03:36:34.180 Speaking as a 33-year-old,

03:36:35.740 6'4",

03:36:36.220 athletic man,

03:36:37.300 you 304s really ain't all that.

03:36:39.740 You should probably get over yourselves and quick,

03:36:42.340 because I currently see many cats in your future. 1.00

03:36:45.540 Disgusting. 1.00

03:36:46.340 Shout out to Bass Cute Latina. 1.00

03:36:47.980 Jesus Christ.

03:36:48.640 I guess that's you.

03:36:49.500 Man,

03:36:49.760 they've been-

03:36:50.040 Shout out to you,

03:36:50.660 baby girl.

03:36:51.300 Chat's been brutal tonight.

03:36:54.280 I love cats.

03:36:54.800 I definitely heard worse.

03:36:55.780 I had two cats,

03:36:56.700 and I want more.

03:36:57.620 It was way worse.

03:36:59.000 Okay,

03:36:59.300 we have Keen Speaks here.

03:37:00.920 Merci beaucoup.

03:37:01.520 What's wrong with cats,

03:37:02.080 though?

03:37:02.340 Yeah,

03:37:02.620 literally.

03:37:03.340 Why are you attacking cats?

03:37:04.820 That's like my dream.

03:37:06.140 Yeah.

03:37:06.760 Along with cats?

03:37:07.660 Sign me up.

03:37:07.800 We got some Canadian people in the chat tonight.

03:37:10.040 Can I have you read this one again?

03:37:12.480 So you are against the use of a sterilized toy from another woman, 0.99

03:37:16.140 even though it has been cleaned fully,

03:37:18.440 but you are advocating for the ability to be promiscuous and promote OnlyFans.

03:37:23.720 Sure.

03:37:24.040 Where is the correlation?

03:37:24.800 I know.

03:37:25.500 What is the correlation? 0.99

03:37:26.180 Totally reasonable if you're insane. 0.68

03:37:28.980 I don't see any.

03:37:31.340 X does not equal Y.

03:37:32.420 Yeah.

03:37:32.740 For real.

03:37:35.340 Yeah.

03:37:36.380 Also,

03:37:36.920 sex doesn't even equal OnlyFans or vice versa.

03:37:40.300 You know?

03:37:40.720 Wait,

03:37:40.940 question.

03:37:41.300 Would you object to your boyfriend using a toy on you that was used with another woman, 0.86

03:37:47.180 but it was cleaned?

03:37:48.220 Okay.

03:37:48.480 I'm going to be honest.

03:37:49.140 Like you were saying earlier,

03:37:49.940 it's a boundary thing.

03:37:50.880 I would not like it,

03:37:52.340 but I do have a question for you back.

03:37:54.340 What about the women that have the toys and we use it with different men?

03:37:58.100 It's not like we get a new Hitachi every single time.

03:38:00.420 That's a fair point.

03:38:01.320 Yeah.

03:38:01.680 I always think about it.

03:38:02.440 Wait,

03:38:02.900 but you're not like doing it.

03:38:04.760 No,

03:38:05.140 no.

03:38:05.240 You're not like penetrating the dudes.

03:38:06.380 No,

03:38:06.540 no,

03:38:06.780 no,

03:38:06.880 no.

03:38:07.200 But you and I are talking about,

03:38:08.460 we're talking about something on top of it,

03:38:10.060 right?

03:38:10.300 That's an interesting question.

03:38:11.560 But what about like when if I were to hook up with someone and I bring my toy with me,

03:38:16.720 it's kind of like.

03:38:17.640 I see what you're saying.

03:38:19.340 It's almost in a sense.

03:38:21.360 But I think there's like a,

03:38:22.500 like a perception of germ component to it where it's like,

03:38:28.180 oh,

03:38:28.300 it touched somebody else.

03:38:29.580 Whereas,

03:38:30.620 although to be fair, 0.99

03:38:32.480 it's plausible that the sex toy you're using, 0.96

03:38:35.140 if it was coinciding with intercourse, 0.51

03:38:38.280 it could have crossed swords.

03:38:39.860 Exactly.

03:38:40.200 Swords could have like fake sword with real sword could have crossed. 0.99

03:38:43.460 What about a cock ring? 1.00

03:38:44.700 Like a vibrating cock ring? 1.00

03:38:45.880 Oh, 1.00

03:38:46.020 that's weird.

03:38:46.780 Oh,

03:38:46.920 I guess that would be the real role.

03:38:48.380 That would be weird.

03:38:49.400 There you go.

03:38:50.300 There you go.

03:38:50.880 Now you're agreeing to.

03:38:52.380 Yeah.

03:38:54.020 Yeah,

03:38:54.480 you know,

03:38:54.840 but it's different.

03:38:55.640 But just to answer it.

03:38:57.480 Brian,

03:38:57.820 just to.

03:38:58.180 I don't want to talk about this.

03:38:59.500 But just real quick.

03:39:01.180 I think for me as a boundary,

03:39:02.660 I would not like it.

03:39:03.940 Okay.

03:39:04.200 But you know,

03:39:04.700 maybe for a hookup, 0.98

03:39:05.800 it might be different if you're in the moment,

03:39:07.660 but for a boundary,

03:39:08.600 like this is someone I generally like,

03:39:10.320 I wouldn't like it.

03:39:11.580 So then,

03:39:12.200 but here's the thing,

03:39:12.920 right? 0.95

03:39:13.120 As the procurer and provider of sex toys, 0.99

03:39:16.660 is I'm sure the woman just be buying sex toys every new year. 1.00

03:39:20.520 Because I, 0.98

03:39:21.840 like most of my experience with women, 0.98

03:39:23.400 they don't got, 0.82

03:39:24.340 they're not bringing the sex toy to the situation. 0.96

03:39:26.980 I just feel like. 0.89

03:39:27.560 So I got them on,

03:39:28.300 on lock.

03:39:29.200 You know,

03:39:29.380 I got it.

03:39:29.960 So I feel like.

03:39:30.660 I'm coming with my bag.

03:39:31.540 If it's an issue,

03:39:32.600 then you should provide.

03:39:34.040 If you have an issue with him having his own toys,

03:39:36.300 then bring the toys along.

03:39:37.620 Bring what you,

03:39:38.080 plus you got,

03:39:38.780 you got your favorite.

03:39:39.820 Yeah.

03:39:40.080 Bring what you like.

03:39:40.800 There's no,

03:39:41.260 there's nothing wrong with that either.

03:39:42.720 Some women like bad dragons. 1.00

03:39:44.900 Exactly.

03:39:45.560 I'm not going to lie.

03:39:46.280 I am.

03:39:46.660 I'm not going to lie.

03:39:47.640 If I was like going to hook up with a guy and then he's like, 0.98

03:39:50.500 just pulls out like a collection of like sex toys. 0.95

03:39:54.100 And I was like, 0.81

03:39:54.560 which one has been ran through.

03:39:56.260 Yeah.

03:39:57.260 I'm going to be concerned.

03:39:58.840 I'm going to be concerned.

03:40:00.180 You're not going to be like,

03:40:01.280 he's open-minded.

03:40:03.100 And like, 0.99

03:40:04.060 let's say he's got a whole drawer full of sex toys. 0.99

03:40:07.220 I'm going to, 0.99

03:40:07.640 I'm going to be asking.

03:40:09.920 I'm not going to,

03:40:10.720 I'm not going to,

03:40:11.320 I'm so sorry.

03:40:11.780 He's open-minded.

03:40:12.960 He's progressive.

03:40:14.280 He's a progressive.

03:40:15.580 Buy her a new one. 0.99

03:40:16.800 Yeah.

03:40:17.060 But I think it just like,

03:40:18.600 label it.

03:40:19.040 It depends on your guys' relationship and on the vibe.

03:40:22.000 If you guys talk about it ahead of time and he's like,

03:40:24.580 oh,

03:40:24.740 she's going to love it.

03:40:25.520 Then why are you going to go into it and then complain?

03:40:27.360 But if he knows that he really haven't talked about it and then he's like,

03:40:31.140 yo, 0.94

03:40:31.320 here's my 60 sex toys. 0.99

03:40:32.600 You're like, 0.98

03:40:32.820 whoa.

03:40:33.820 Okay.

03:40:34.220 What are you doing?

03:40:37.780 Haram.

03:40:38.540 Okay.

03:40:38.760 We have two more super chats related to the sex toy thing.

03:40:42.340 We got to move on.

03:40:44.220 Guys,

03:40:44.800 no more sex toy related super chats after this,

03:40:47.360 please.

03:40:47.840 Eyes Wide Shut 1989.

03:40:49.340 Merci beaucoup for the Canadian 50. 0.97

03:40:51.720 Can I have you read it,

03:40:52.560 please?

03:40:52.800 Bangs has absolutely no substance to anything she says until she finally speaks facts about 0.99

03:40:59.680 Vag PH,

03:41:01.260 except she still missed the target overall.

03:41:03.880 You literally know nothing,

03:41:05.320 Bangs,

03:41:05.740 but you know about Vag PH.

03:41:07.960 Huge 304 red flag. 0.96

03:41:10.200 Oh,

03:41:10.460 I'm so sorry that I know about my body.

03:41:13.740 God forbid.

03:41:14.760 Apology accepted.

03:41:15.940 Okay.

03:41:16.180 We have dark Shinobi here with the, 1.00

03:41:18.400 thank you for the super chats guys.

03:41:19.660 Can I read it?

03:41:20.320 All right.

03:41:21.000 All right.

03:41:21.800 Okay.

03:41:23.000 Go ahead.

03:41:23.480 There is a difference between PH change and PH being messed up.

03:41:27.280 PH balance change is normal after sex,

03:41:29.940 but unless the guy is dirty or she is, 0.93

03:41:31.780 it won't ruin anything or smell bad.

03:41:33.380 Well, 0.98

03:41:33.680 this was dumber than the financial abuse argument. 0.99

03:41:37.080 Tell me you've never touched a woman. 0.99

03:41:38.600 I thought I thought I thought.

03:41:40.200 Tell me you've never touched a woman. 0.97

03:41:41.840 These men know nothing.

03:41:44.060 Nothing about a woman's body. 1.00

03:41:46.120 You know nothing,

03:41:46.320 Johnson.

03:41:46.680 But it also,

03:41:47.380 it's also a little concerning when a man knows too much about a woman's body.

03:41:50.960 Because one time.

03:41:51.440 I would rather that.

03:41:52.200 Actually kind of right.

03:41:53.020 Because PH balance is different after like.

03:41:55.080 Whoa, 0.99

03:41:55.300 what the fuck? 1.00

03:41:56.200 Brian. 1.00

03:41:56.920 What?

03:41:57.140 Sorry.

03:41:57.660 No,

03:41:57.900 just say,

03:41:58.240 wait,

03:41:58.400 wait,

03:41:58.500 go back to the message.

03:41:59.440 Let me know.

03:41:59.940 I'm not going to,

03:42:00.380 I'm not going to,

03:42:00.740 I'm not going to read it.

03:42:01.260 I'm not going to read it.

03:42:01.840 I swear.

03:42:02.260 I'm sorry.

03:42:03.140 I don't care.

03:42:03.720 What?

03:42:04.240 No,

03:42:04.680 I was just going to say,

03:42:05.560 I can't really speak on the sex thing,

03:42:07.680 but PH balance could be easily disturbed by just about anything.

03:42:10.640 Like not to be too overly nerdy emoji,

03:42:12.820 but like anything really,

03:42:14.780 like if you go horseback riding,

03:42:15.880 that might change the PH balance in something.

03:42:18.680 Wait,

03:42:18.840 why are you,

03:42:19.140 why are you looking at me?

03:42:19.840 I don't know.

03:42:20.520 Oh,

03:42:20.700 bro, 1.00

03:42:20.860 you're fucking shooting daggers at me. 1.00

03:42:24.700 But, 1.00

03:42:25.180 you know.

03:42:26.800 Just waiting for your response to this.

03:42:28.340 To this.

03:42:28.900 I mean,

03:42:29.280 yeah,

03:42:29.540 it's kind of like,

03:42:30.740 if the guys,

03:42:31.380 I mean,

03:42:31.620 if you're having sex and the guys, 0.64

03:42:33.020 you're on,

03:42:33.520 the girl's on birth control and he's blasting.

03:42:35.100 But it also has to do with promiscuity because promiscuity can lead to a

03:42:38.260 disturbance in PH balance for some people,

03:42:40.360 which is what I'm assuming,

03:42:41.760 which,

03:42:42.100 which like,

03:42:43.780 I don't know.

03:42:44.440 I feel like both parties are accountable in some cases,

03:42:46.860 but in some cases,

03:42:47.500 like I don't think it would affect it at all.

03:42:49.020 Let's pull up the Twitch.

03:42:49.840 Twitch.

03:42:50.380 Guys,

03:42:50.740 go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:42:52.460 Drop us a follow.

03:42:53.300 Drop us a prime sub.

03:42:54.680 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:42:57.980 Drop us.

03:42:59.960 Sweet.

03:43:00.560 Yo,

03:43:00.860 thank you everybody for the support over on Twitch.

03:43:04.200 Bass boy, 0.99

03:43:04.600 thank you for the prime.

03:43:07.120 Alara's thing for the bits.

03:43:09.440 Again,

03:43:09.860 thank you for the 500 bits.

03:43:11.840 Let's see.

03:43:12.580 Thank you guys for all the follows.

03:43:13.840 Really appreciate it.

03:43:15.180 Okay,

03:43:15.440 guys,

03:43:15.740 twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:43:16.800 Drop us a follow.

03:43:17.360 Drop us a prime sub.

03:43:18.500 Okay,

03:43:18.640 we're fully caught up.

03:43:20.060 I want to get into you guys.

03:43:21.620 A lot of you sent me some pre-show notes.

03:43:23.200 I'd like to try to get through them.

03:43:25.420 We had a huge influx.

03:43:27.260 First off,

03:43:27.880 thank you everyone who's super chatted and sent in TTS.

03:43:31.780 I very much appreciate all your patronage tonight.

03:43:34.620 You guys have been very,

03:43:36.220 very generous.

03:43:36.840 So thank you guys so much for your support.

03:43:40.000 So,

03:43:40.480 okay,

03:43:40.680 let me try to get through everyone's notes here.

03:43:42.060 We do have a couple things to react to.

03:43:43.520 What was the,

03:43:44.120 we had,

03:43:44.480 oh,

03:43:44.620 we had two videos to react to.

03:43:46.660 So,

03:43:47.160 but let me get through everyone's notes here.

03:43:48.680 So we had,

03:43:49.900 we're on Azalia.

03:43:51.340 Did I say your name right?

03:43:52.520 No,

03:43:53.000 but it's okay.

03:43:53.880 Based.

03:43:54.060 Okay.

03:43:55.140 You enjoy your name being mispronounced,

03:43:57.380 I guess.

03:43:57.700 I also think men like younger women simply because they'll put up with more BS 0.88

03:44:01.600 than older women.

03:44:03.120 And that's why they make up things like the wall.

03:44:05.420 I think men fail to consider that women are the gatekeepers of sex because men made the gatekeeping thing.

03:44:12.820 Yeah.

03:44:12.960 Okay.

03:44:13.480 You think men like younger women simply because they'll put up with more BS than older women?

03:44:18.640 Yes.

03:44:20.900 It's an inexperienced thing.

03:44:22.760 Yeah.

03:44:22.820 So it's an inexperienced thing?

03:44:25.060 Yeah.

03:44:25.400 Like I'm talking about men that specifically are like,

03:44:28.140 oh,

03:44:28.240 I want an 18 to 20 year old when they're like 35 to 40 years old.

03:44:32.740 What do you have in common with an 18 year old?

03:44:34.600 And then they say,

03:44:35.520 yeah.

03:44:35.820 You don't think it's based in like biology or evolution?

03:44:38.420 No,

03:44:38.460 I don't at all.

03:44:39.040 Even just a little bit.

03:44:40.000 Why?

03:44:40.480 Wait,

03:44:40.860 hold on.

03:44:41.180 You don't,

03:44:41.520 you don't think,

03:44:42.120 you don't think that there's any attraction triggers in both sexes that are,

03:44:46.020 have an evolutionary or biological basis?

03:44:48.960 No.

03:44:49.860 None?

03:44:50.620 I mean,

03:44:51.000 sure.

03:44:51.320 A little,

03:44:51.600 but I don't think that a 35 year old man has anything in common with an 18 year old. 0.75

03:44:55.660 And I think it's sick.

03:44:57.140 You,

03:44:57.520 why is it?

03:44:58.100 Why would that be?

03:44:58.940 Well,

03:44:59.460 you're using,

03:45:00.140 like the most extreme that you could use without going into like,

03:45:05.160 well,

03:45:05.300 I'm not when,

03:45:06.020 in my point,

03:45:06.680 I'm not talking about 25 year old men dating like 20 year old women.

03:45:10.480 31 year old.

03:45:11.140 What about 31 year old with a 21 year old?

03:45:13.860 I mean,

03:45:14.100 I don't necessarily see,

03:45:15.300 like,

03:45:15.560 I mean,

03:45:15.880 I think if he's specifically saying,

03:45:17.320 I will only date women under 23 years old, 1.00

03:45:20.040 then yeah,

03:45:20.560 sure.

03:45:20.880 We can talk about that example.

03:45:21.980 But I mean,

03:45:22.540 if it's just like a relationship that happened naturally,

03:45:24.520 but I'm talking about the men that are specifically like,

03:45:26.640 I'll only date younger women because they like, 1.00

03:45:29.920 will let me do whatever I want.

03:45:31.240 And that's not the,

03:45:31.760 what they say.

03:45:32.660 I mean,

03:45:32.860 that's a straw man of the reasons why men prefer younger women. 0.73

03:45:36.840 No,

03:45:36.980 but I'm talking about a specific example.

03:45:39.100 I think that we hear all the time.

03:45:40.780 Yeah.

03:45:41.380 Um,

03:45:41.800 I'm reading this book.

03:45:42.680 It's called the naked ape.

03:45:43.600 And it basically just speaks on like Darwin,

03:45:45.340 Darwin's theory of evolution.

03:45:46.420 And if we're speaking about,

03:45:47.960 you know,

03:45:48.600 going back to our roots,

03:45:50.140 men do gravitate towards younger women because they have more so of an 0.97

03:45:54.240 ability to birth children for them.

03:45:55.720 So if we're talking about like evolutionary things,

03:45:57.760 exactly.

03:45:58.480 But there's their eggs aren't even swimming.

03:46:01.300 If it's like a really old guy, 0.95

03:46:03.180 like,

03:46:03.380 um,

03:46:04.340 Leonardo DiCaprio,

03:46:05.360 for example,

03:46:06.160 like,

03:46:06.640 his eggs aren't really good.

03:46:08.220 But so most men go through their prime, 0.69

03:46:10.240 right?

03:46:10.340 Most men peak, 0.99

03:46:11.120 their sexual market value peaks in their thirties. 0.66

03:46:13.320 And for women,

03:46:13.940 it peaks ages like third,

03:46:15.580 like,

03:46:15.820 uh,

03:46:16.020 18 to 25.

03:46:17.980 Right.

03:46:18.660 So that's the disparity that we're talking about here.

03:46:21.620 It's got nothing to do with being predatory,

03:46:23.480 but exactly what you said and what you said,

03:46:26.360 it comes back to evolutionary psychology and biology.

03:46:29.320 For sure.

03:46:29.880 There's some outliers that are weirdos and creeps,

03:46:32.340 but the exception doesn't make the rule.

03:46:34.400 But I don't necessarily think that those are exceptions.

03:46:38.280 I mean,

03:46:38.660 we hear it all the time.

03:46:39.540 Like,

03:46:39.780 Oh,

03:46:39.880 the woman in the thirties are hitting their wall. 1.00

03:46:41.600 You should go after the young hot girls because it, 1.00

03:46:44.020 once they hit their thirties,

03:46:44.980 they're not going to be hot anymore.

03:46:46.360 And they have no value to society.

03:46:48.500 So you think it's because what other guys are saying?

03:46:50.380 Cause it's what they're naturally attracted to.

03:46:52.360 If a guy is naturally attracted to that and he's high caliber enough to be able to get it.

03:46:57.240 Why are we shaming him for that?

03:46:59.160 What do you think a four year old has in common with an 18 year old that isn't predatory and weird?

03:47:03.240 He just wants,

03:47:03.820 he wants that control.

03:47:04.920 He knows it's a younger girl.

03:47:06.240 I don't know if you've watched.

03:47:07.040 I understand your point.

03:47:08.200 Sorry.

03:47:08.480 I didn't mean to cut you off.

03:47:09.060 Keep going.

03:47:09.300 No,

03:47:09.540 I'm just saying like,

03:47:10.520 um,

03:47:11.300 that usually the younger guy,

03:47:13.500 like Zerka,

03:47:14.840 he said in one video,

03:47:16.020 he's like,

03:47:16.760 Oh,

03:47:17.180 I love like 18,

03:47:18.620 19 year old.

03:47:19.420 I love teenagers because they don't talk.

03:47:21.840 Okay. 0.94

03:47:22.380 Don't Zerka is a troll. 1.00

03:47:24.380 He's a comedian. 0.50

03:47:25.080 He,

03:47:25.480 he's like,

03:47:27.460 okay.

03:47:28.360 We're not bringing.

03:47:29.600 Some men are actually agreeing with him.

03:47:31.160 Zerka said his goal is to be one of the funniest comedians in the world. 0.97

03:47:34.020 You can't reach that level without saying shit that offends people. 0.96

03:47:37.180 He's literally said that on multiple occasions. 0.99

03:47:38.780 Okay.

03:47:39.160 Let's,

03:47:39.640 let's remove his claims from.

03:47:42.500 I'm saying a lot of men do think that way though.

03:47:44.900 I'm just using him as like an example.

03:47:47.060 And anyone perpetuating that when they have people that are watching them and they have a platform,

03:47:51.520 men are also going to start thinking like that when they're watching that, 0.91

03:47:54.360 whether or not it's a joke.

03:47:55.640 Yeah.

03:47:55.940 Yep.

03:47:56.980 I mean,

03:47:57.260 you hear other,

03:47:58.140 there are other,

03:47:58.940 you know,

03:47:59.220 you're saying men are going to be,

03:48:00.160 men are going to be proclivity to like younger women.

03:48:02.940 I just have to point something out.

03:48:04.280 Everybody look how rude Neve is being by texting on her phone. 1.00

03:48:07.740 Let me just like put you on blast there. 0.99

03:48:09.600 That's super rude.

03:48:10.900 I do want to weigh in on this,

03:48:12.360 but I need to step up for a second.

03:48:13.920 My mom asked me if I put the chicken in the sink.

03:48:15.400 Yeah,

03:48:15.600 of course.

03:48:15.980 That's totally it.

03:48:16.560 Go ahead.

03:48:17.100 She did.

03:48:17.480 She did.

03:48:17.900 She asked me if I put the chicken in the sink.

03:48:18.780 Okay.

03:48:19.160 Nobody cares.

03:48:19.860 Just continue with the,

03:48:20.760 but yeah,

03:48:21.860 I think when you have a platform and you're perpetuating that,

03:48:25.140 then younger men are going to look at that and emulate that.

03:48:28.660 And there,

03:48:29.240 he's not the only person that's perpetuated those ideas and been serious about it.

03:48:33.000 I feel like people who have a proclivity for something are going to follow that.

03:48:36.040 So if guys have never once thought before,

03:48:38.400 Oh,

03:48:38.520 I'm more interested in like younger women, 1.00

03:48:40.240 then they're not going to magically think that because Zerka makes a joke about it on

03:48:43.800 valutainment or something.

03:48:44.880 Okay.

03:48:45.080 But he's not the only one.

03:48:46.360 And there are these like red pill podcasters that perpetuate the idea.

03:48:49.980 Oh,

03:48:50.140 a woman's going to hit the wall in her thirties. 1.00

03:48:51.980 I mean,

03:48:52.120 look how many men were calling Margot Robbie mid on Twitter last week.

03:48:55.700 Like,

03:48:56.200 cause she's hit the wall X, 0.80

03:48:57.560 Y,

03:48:57.780 Z.

03:48:57.880 Like that's,

03:48:58.440 you think that that's like,

03:48:59.620 the ultimate like epitome of beauty standards.

03:49:04.320 She's meant to be the quintessential perfect woman.

03:49:06.560 And that's why they're making those remarks.

03:49:08.260 No,

03:49:08.460 it's not.

03:49:09.000 They did the same thing to Zendaya.

03:49:10.460 Like literally every woman.

03:49:13.280 I didn't like the Barbie movie.

03:49:14.780 If I can,

03:49:15.320 Oh,

03:49:15.440 you saw it.

03:49:16.220 Yeah.

03:49:16.480 I saw the Barbie movie.

03:49:17.540 I think like,

03:49:18.580 okay.

03:49:19.200 Okay.

03:49:19.460 No,

03:49:19.560 no,

03:49:19.620 no.

03:49:19.700 I'm not going to spoil it.

03:49:22.340 I'm going to say that.

03:49:23.060 I don't mean to use the word woke.

03:49:25.120 Okay.

03:49:25.640 I'm going to go ahead and use it.

03:49:26.740 I think that it was too woke.

03:49:28.220 I think that,

03:49:28.740 um,

03:49:29.640 basically the patriarchal society that they complained about,

03:49:32.600 that they bitched about,

03:49:34.380 it was very,

03:49:35.480 very similar to the matriarchal society that, 1.00

03:49:37.680 uh,

03:49:37.980 was Barbie land, 0.72

03:49:38.860 you know,

03:49:39.460 like what?

03:49:40.340 Can you explain to me what the word woke means?

03:49:42.240 Woke. 1.00

03:49:42.600 It's just fucking liberal shit. 1.00

03:49:44.780 Like, 1.00

03:49:45.340 but what does it mean?

03:49:46.080 Yeah.

03:49:46.240 What does that mean? 1.00

03:49:47.980 Besides liberal shit? 1.00

03:49:48.920 What does it mean? 1.00

03:49:49.480 Oh my God.

03:49:50.220 Why am I getting,

03:49:50.820 I'm talking about Barbie. 1.00

03:49:52.440 Can I talk about those goddamn liberals? 1.00

03:49:53.940 Yeah, 1.00

03:49:54.080 but you're trying to,

03:49:54.740 yeah,

03:49:55.180 you're trying to describe something without actually describing it.

03:49:57.780 Listen,

03:49:58.000 listen,

03:49:58.200 I said,

03:49:58.940 I don't really want to use the word woke because that's not the right word.

03:50:01.440 That's what I prefaced the statement.

03:50:02.760 I'm just saying that Barbie was just like,

03:50:04.660 like,

03:50:04.820 I feel like the issues that Barbie was bitching about. 0.98

03:50:08.800 How the fuck did we get onto Barbie? 0.98

03:50:09.680 I don't know. 0.99

03:50:10.080 I have no idea.

03:50:10.840 I was just talking about Ken land.

03:50:12.620 Okay.

03:50:12.760 I think Ken land. 0.99

03:50:13.620 Who gives a shit about that? 0.99

03:50:14.720 No, 1.00

03:50:14.740 no,

03:50:14.900 no,

03:50:15.140 no.

03:50:15.260 Listen,

03:50:15.680 listen. 1.00

03:50:15.960 Oh my fucking God, 1.00

03:50:16.940 dude. 1.00

03:50:17.240 Okay.

03:50:17.440 Let's,

03:50:18.040 I stepped,

03:50:18.800 I had to step away from a bit,

03:50:19.980 but we were talking about older men and younger women.

03:50:22.380 Yes. 0.99

03:50:22.520 How the fuck did you guys get to Barbie from that? 0.99

03:50:24.520 She just said she didn't like it. 0.98

03:50:25.820 Because we were mentioning Margot Robbie.

03:50:27.200 It's too woke.

03:50:28.140 Oh yeah.

03:50:28.300 It's too woke.

03:50:29.460 Society has really like messed up standards because now apparently Margot Robbie is considered 1.00

03:50:34.680 mid.

03:50:34.960 That's how this whole thing came up.

03:50:36.380 Okay.

03:50:36.560 Well,

03:50:36.740 let's stick to the age thing.

03:50:37.820 So,

03:50:38.120 um,

03:50:40.160 what's the oldest,

03:50:41.500 what's the largest age gap for you that you've ever had?

03:50:45.300 Six years.

03:50:46.220 Six years.

03:50:47.040 Uh,

03:50:47.280 let's go around the table on this.

03:50:50.740 Let's do it.

03:50:51.320 Let's do it.

03:50:51.660 Go ahead.

03:50:53.200 So what would it be?

03:50:54.480 I don't date men under the age of 31.

03:50:56.580 So that would be like a seven.

03:50:57.960 And you're 24,

03:50:58.820 correct?

03:50:59.380 Yeah.

03:50:59.700 Six year difference,

03:51:00.480 seven year.

03:51:01.020 But you said your last relationship was six years ago.

03:51:05.020 Yeah.

03:51:05.500 He was older.

03:51:06.320 I think I,

03:51:06.840 he was 24.

03:51:08.820 Okay.

03:51:09.320 18,

03:51:09.620 24.

03:51:10.220 Okay.

03:51:10.640 Um,

03:51:11.560 what's the,

03:51:12.040 what's the largest gap?

03:51:13.960 I think the largest gap was,

03:51:15.640 um,

03:51:16.260 I mean,

03:51:16.480 I went on a few dates with the guy who was 35.

03:51:19.760 When you were what?

03:51:20.800 This was like last year.

03:51:22.520 Okay.

03:51:23.140 23,

03:51:23.560 35.

03:51:24.040 Okay.

03:51:24.460 Would you,

03:51:24.900 do you object to that age gap?

03:51:26.580 23 and 35.

03:51:28.000 I mean,

03:51:28.380 I wouldn't call it ideal,

03:51:29.960 but I mean like 23 years old isn't exactly like a fresh adult.

03:51:33.380 So I think that's fine.

03:51:35.420 Okay.

03:51:36.120 What about you?

03:51:37.380 Um,

03:51:38.340 not too old to be honest.

03:51:41.360 I don't know.

03:51:41.960 I don't know how exactly how old they were.

03:51:43.720 Just not too old.

03:51:45.580 What's the largest gap that you,

03:51:46.940 Oh,

03:51:47.060 the largest gap.

03:51:48.000 Yeah.

03:51:48.160 Oh,

03:51:48.580 like three years.

03:51:50.800 That's it.

03:51:51.900 I tend to go.

03:51:52.640 You literally asked me out on a date,

03:51:54.100 but I'm 34.

03:51:56.340 I'm not trying to romantically pursue you.

03:51:59.280 Why do you want to take me out on a date then?

03:52:01.360 You're trying to be friends.

03:52:02.580 I take out my friends on dates all the time.

03:52:04.200 All right.

03:52:04.460 Yeah,

03:52:04.560 we can be friends.

03:52:05.620 Okay.

03:52:06.080 Just friend zones.

03:52:07.180 Okay.

03:52:07.600 That's cute.

03:52:08.080 I take out my friends on dates all the time.

03:52:10.820 Five years.

03:52:11.640 Five years.

03:52:12.200 What about you?

03:52:13.320 20 years.

03:52:14.620 20 years.

03:52:15.340 Yeah.

03:52:15.980 I'm hoping in that direction.

03:52:17.900 In that direction.

03:52:18.900 Yeah.

03:52:20.840 So you were 30.

03:52:23.220 He was 50 or,

03:52:24.760 or sorry,

03:52:25.140 you were,

03:52:25.440 sorry,

03:52:26.180 you're 31.

03:52:27.200 Excuse me.

03:52:28.020 You're 24.

03:52:28.760 So he was 40 in his 40s.

03:52:30.240 20,

03:52:30.580 40.

03:52:31.120 20,

03:52:31.520 40.

03:52:31.920 20,

03:52:32.160 40.

03:52:32.460 I'm 20.

03:52:33.180 He was 40.

03:52:33.980 Do you,

03:52:34.400 do you object to that age?

03:52:36.080 I mean,

03:52:36.280 I can't object to anything,

03:52:37.680 but I can say that it was definitely predatory.

03:52:39.800 Yeah,

03:52:39.980 absolutely.

03:52:40.520 Was it predatory?

03:52:41.460 I have to add,

03:52:42.040 it was a sugar daddy.

03:52:44.040 Then I guess it's transatlantic.

03:52:45.680 I think that's a completely different.

03:52:47.160 But couldn't you make the,

03:52:48.200 if we're using this term predatory,

03:52:50.100 couldn't you argue that women who are seeking sugar daddies is predatory? 1.00

03:52:55.020 Well,

03:52:55.200 yeah,

03:52:55.360 but I think that's a completely different facet of like an actual relationship.

03:52:57.980 Like I just said,

03:52:58.680 that's a transactional thing.

03:52:59.940 That's not like a man being like,

03:53:01.380 I'm only going to date younger women, 1.00

03:53:03.160 like blah,

03:53:03.580 blah,

03:53:03.760 blah,

03:53:04.080 trying to just.

03:53:05.120 Versus women saying, 0.99

03:53:05.880 I'm only going to date rich men.

03:53:07.280 And I'm going to do this if they pay me.

03:53:08.340 I just said that's transactional.

03:53:09.260 Yeah,

03:53:09.440 but what's the difference?

03:53:10.200 He wants a young woman. 0.99

03:53:11.180 Reverse it.

03:53:11.680 What's the difference?

03:53:12.560 What's the metric?

03:53:13.260 What's the standard that makes one disgusting and the other one acceptable?

03:53:17.340 Because she's asking.

03:53:18.720 It's a genuine thing.

03:53:19.460 Because she's seeking out the relationship. 0.99

03:53:21.560 It's a transactional relationship.

03:53:23.180 It's not a man going after a woman based on inexperience.

03:53:25.940 And he's seeking out a relationship too.

03:53:27.680 And maybe he wants a woman who's younger.

03:53:29.160 He's had number one,

03:53:29.780 less bodies because let's, 0.90

03:53:31.160 let's keep it real.

03:53:32.040 The older a woman gets, 1.00

03:53:33.000 the more bodies she's had. 0.99

03:53:34.220 And what problem is that?

03:53:36.300 Purity is valued in literally every single culture,

03:53:39.460 every single religion.

03:53:40.960 No,

03:53:41.220 because men and women are different. 0.64

03:53:42.820 And men have to work really hard to get sex. 0.86

03:53:45.820 Women are, 1.00

03:53:46.740 Oh my God. 0.97

03:53:47.700 Men do not have to work really hard to get sex.

03:53:48.900 For men to have a high body comp,

03:53:50.380 they need to work on themselves.

03:53:51.860 They need to work really hard on themselves in order to attract a high number of women. 0.96

03:53:55.640 For women,

03:53:56.420 an average looking woman, 1.00

03:53:57.700 an ugly woman, 1.00

03:53:58.560 in fact, 1.00

03:53:58.860 would walk out of here and go get fucked. 1.00

03:54:00.620 No, 1.00

03:54:00.940 that is not true.

03:54:01.920 Simmer down because I can barely even hear my thoughts.

03:54:07.660 You are simply wrong.

03:54:09.280 Would you say,

03:54:09.640 How are we wrong? 1.00

03:54:10.380 Let's fucking go. 0.99

03:54:11.160 You said that men, 1.00

03:54:12.480 you said that men,

03:54:13.420 men, 0.99

03:54:14.620 it's harder for men to get sex after you sex. 0.99

03:54:16.460 Yes, 0.99

03:54:16.480 correct.

03:54:16.740 That is absolutely not correct.

03:54:18.360 Why?

03:54:18.940 I explained.

03:54:19.400 100% true.

03:54:19.980 Because I've seen this,

03:54:21.220 I've seen this with my friends.

03:54:23.960 I've seen this with,

03:54:25.020 in real life.

03:54:26.340 Oh yeah?

03:54:26.600 I've seen this in real life.

03:54:28.460 Like,

03:54:28.760 there's,

03:54:29.780 I have a friend who hasn't had sex,

03:54:31.440 in the longest time since she,

03:54:33.320 her and her boyfriend broke up. 0.99

03:54:34.680 Her ex have been fucking girls left to right, 1.00

03:54:37.420 and left to right, 1.00

03:54:38.200 and left to right.

03:54:39.080 And she is a beautiful,

03:54:40.640 stunning girl.

03:54:41.300 For that reason,

03:54:41.400 women, 1.00

03:54:41.760 women have high standards. 1.00

03:54:43.040 Men will fuck anything. 1.00

03:54:44.060 Most women have very high prerequisites when it comes to men, 1.00

03:54:46.900 they're going to fuck. 1.00

03:54:47.880 I love, 1.00

03:54:48.260 men will fuck anybody. 1.00

03:54:49.640 Girl. 1.00

03:54:50.200 Yo,

03:54:50.480 thank you,

03:54:51.300 thank you.

03:54:51.620 Keep going,

03:54:52.380 keep going,

03:54:52.880 keep going.

03:54:53.420 I want to hear what you have to say.

03:54:54.560 Go,

03:54:54.680 go,

03:54:54.780 go.

03:54:54.980 Okay,

03:54:55.560 I would say that I agree with some of the things that you're saying.

03:54:58.200 There's like a saying,

03:54:59.340 what is it?

03:54:59.700 Like women have control over the sex, 1.00

03:55:01.600 men have control over something else.

03:55:02.860 I don't know what the other half of that is,

03:55:03.980 but it's because we hold the power because we're the ones.

03:55:06.700 We're the gatekeepers.

03:55:07.180 Yeah.

03:55:07.700 That's like the,

03:55:08.440 you know,

03:55:08.660 the age old saying.

03:55:09.380 I disagree with that.

03:55:10.440 Would you say that younger women seeking older men with money is financial abuse?

03:55:15.540 He's on a sugar daddy dating site.

03:55:17.700 How is that abusive?

03:55:18.660 He wants that.

03:55:19.540 Voluntarily.

03:55:20.360 Some men are into that.

03:55:21.460 Some men are into that.

03:55:22.520 No.

03:55:22.700 Oy.

03:55:23.020 Outside of the paper.

03:55:24.620 Wait, guys.

03:55:25.020 Younger women are desired for her fertility, 1.00

03:55:30.420 purity,

03:55:30.940 and pleasantness.

03:55:32.360 Predators are cougar milfs chasing younger men.

03:55:35.260 Oh,

03:55:35.560 my God. 0.97

03:55:35.840 What the heck? 0.83

03:55:36.560 The hop, 0.77

03:55:36.900 the hop is unreal.

03:55:38.760 Shaming older men for dating younger,

03:55:40.100 younger women.

03:55:40.800 When younger women choose older men, 0.98

03:55:42.220 younger women are desired for her fertility, 1.00

03:55:44.000 purity,

03:55:44.660 pleasantness,

03:55:45.180 and that.

03:55:45.500 We heard the rest.

03:55:46.460 At that age,

03:55:47.440 when an old,

03:55:48.160 old man is trying to pursue an 18-year-old,

03:55:50.740 his sperm is no longer swimming. 0.84

03:55:52.880 No, 0.98

03:55:53.120 no,

03:55:53.220 no,

03:55:53.520 no.

03:55:53.700 How old do you think your early fan subscribe is at,

03:55:56.260 honey?

03:55:57.380 I don't know.

03:55:57.980 What does that have to do with the personal relationship?

03:56:00.440 Sexualizing.

03:56:00.960 If you're okay with old men, 1.00

03:56:02.260 50-year-olds,

03:56:02.800 60-year-olds, 1.00

03:56:03.380 jacking off to your fucking pitches, 1.00

03:56:05.240 then what problem do you have? 1.00

03:56:06.720 Are they?

03:56:07.060 Are they?

03:56:07.080 Am I living in a town?

03:56:08.400 Am I?

03:56:08.660 Am I?

03:56:09.040 Am I?

03:56:09.120 Am I?

03:56:09.420 Am I?

03:56:10.480 Oh,

03:56:10.740 girl, 0.99

03:56:10.960 I can't even fucking talk because you're literally screaming and fucking being so rude right now. 1.00

03:56:14.980 Go on, 0.99

03:56:15.280 man.

03:56:16.060 I'm like getting pissed off because you can't,

03:56:17.640 like any time I try talking,

03:56:18.800 you just interrupt.

03:56:19.640 That was the early time.

03:56:20.620 That was the early time.

03:56:21.480 That was the early time.

03:56:22.340 But if you want to go ahead now,

03:56:23.700 I'll be quiet.

03:56:24.160 You're literally,

03:56:24.660 you're just screaming, 0.99

03:56:25.420 you're fucking throwing hands, 1.00

03:56:26.900 because you're going to hit somebody, 1.00

03:56:27.980 bitch. 1.00

03:56:28.760 I think we should, 1.00

03:56:29.640 don't need to call you bitch. 1.00

03:56:30.480 We should be able to have conversations without yelling. 1.00

03:56:33.360 Yeah,

03:56:33.720 like stop yelling.

03:56:34.560 Like it's making me want to yell,

03:56:35.740 and I've been super calm this entire time.

03:56:37.760 Luffy Gear 5 coming out soon.

03:56:39.420 Luffy Gear 5 coming out soon.

03:56:41.000 One Piece August.

03:56:41.340 Boxing match.

03:56:42.640 Honestly,

03:56:43.280 I mean,

03:56:43.740 when you're sitting there saying like,

03:56:45.260 men are women indifferent, 1.00

03:56:46.420 men like need a pure woman, 1.00

03:56:48.080 blah, blah, blah.

03:56:48.500 That's insane to perpetuate that idea.

03:56:51.060 That's insane.

03:56:52.260 That's insane.

03:56:52.820 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:56:54.980 You are a guest talking about.

03:56:56.480 I think it's,

03:56:57.260 oh,

03:56:57.500 you're acting like my mom, bro.

03:56:59.560 Wait,

03:56:59.840 hold on.

03:57:00.040 I think it's perfectly with the...

03:57:01.260 Hold on,

03:57:01.280 let me just clarify here.

03:57:02.460 Let me just,

03:57:02.900 hold on,

03:57:03.380 hold on.

03:57:04.260 Wait,

03:57:04.740 just to clarify.

03:57:06.160 You just stated,

03:57:06.880 you think it's insane

03:57:07.940 to perpetuate purity?

03:57:10.280 No,

03:57:10.580 I think it's insane

03:57:11.220 to perpetuate the idea

03:57:12.400 that men should expect a pure woman 1.00

03:57:13.920 while a woman can't expect a pure man 0.99

03:57:15.600 because they're apparently different.

03:57:16.300 That's not what you said.

03:57:17.220 No,

03:57:17.340 I think it's perfectly with the question.

03:57:18.640 And I actually want to answer her question

03:57:19.820 because I didn't get to finish it.

03:57:21.400 Hold on,

03:57:21.420 one thing,

03:57:21.720 one thing.

03:57:22.340 Do you,

03:57:23.020 let's remove the double standard,

03:57:25.820 right?

03:57:25.920 Let's remove, 0.98

03:57:26.820 do you object to men

03:57:28.140 demanding,

03:57:30.060 not demanding,

03:57:30.660 but wanting purity?

03:57:31.880 I do if they're not pure themselves.

03:57:33.820 Okay,

03:57:34.280 we'll get into that.

03:57:34.840 I think not wanting someone,

03:57:36.200 I think not wanting someone

03:57:37.440 with a high body count

03:57:38.200 is perfectly within reason.

03:57:38.720 Let me read this.

03:57:39.040 Bangs,

03:57:39.420 you're right. 1.00

03:57:40.240 Getting sex as a man is easy 0.98

03:57:41.780 so long as I have 300 for the hour. 0.99

03:57:45.460 Oh.

03:57:46.500 300 for the hour,

03:57:47.280 I feel like is very cheap.

03:57:48.340 Yeah,

03:57:48.480 that's very cheap.

03:57:49.600 If I was going to sell myself,

03:57:50.900 it would be way more.

03:57:52.200 Anyways,

03:57:52.460 I feel like wanting a woman 0.99

03:57:53.860 with a low body count

03:57:54.880 is perfectly within reason.

03:57:56.480 I feel like.

03:57:57.680 Why if the man doesn't?

03:57:58.880 I mean,

03:57:59.200 I personally would want a man

03:58:01.120 with a low body count as well.

03:58:02.340 I don't want somebody,

03:58:03.640 I don't think,

03:58:05.060 I think men value like.

03:58:07.120 What about gigalos?

03:58:07.920 Having the woman,

03:58:08.840 you know,

03:58:09.220 I think they want the woman 0.99

03:58:10.760 to be theirs

03:58:11.380 and if the woman's been like 1.00

03:58:12.560 with a Joe,

03:58:15.020 Sam,

03:58:15.800 et cetera,

03:58:17.100 et cetera,

03:58:17.420 I think he's perfectly

03:58:18.460 within his right

03:58:19.260 to set the boundary

03:58:20.260 of not wanting to be with her.

03:58:21.740 This comes down to like.

03:58:22.740 Having a high body count

03:58:23.660 might reflect some certain things

03:58:25.100 on the woman,

03:58:25.540 like her attitude, 0.82

03:58:27.560 possible mental illness.

03:58:28.780 And that doesn't reflect

03:58:29.480 it on a man.

03:58:30.240 No,

03:58:30.460 no,

03:58:30.600 I never said that.

03:58:31.360 I never said that.

03:58:31.980 It's not different at all.

03:58:34.240 It is not different at all.

03:58:36.540 It's literally not.

03:58:37.860 Are you able to speak

03:58:39.080 without yelling?

03:58:40.120 Are you able to speak

03:58:41.080 without yelling?

03:58:42.300 Are you able to speak

03:58:43.240 without yelling?

03:58:43.740 Are you able to speak

03:58:44.940 without yelling?

03:58:45.640 I got hated at one point

03:58:47.440 in this whole conversation.

03:58:48.400 You've been screaming

03:58:49.260 and I realized

03:58:50.120 that I've been speaking

03:58:51.040 every day the whole time.

03:58:52.260 That was one moment.

03:58:53.480 It was one moment.

03:58:54.600 Wait, guys,

03:58:55.060 one moment.

03:58:55.440 Hold on,

03:58:55.800 hold on.

03:58:56.080 One microphone at a time,

03:58:59.300 please.

03:59:00.060 You go ahead.

03:59:00.700 I would just like to say

03:59:02.340 if somebody is requesting

03:59:04.740 a certain standard

03:59:05.480 from their partner,

03:59:06.220 they have to at least

03:59:07.240 present that themselves.

03:59:09.160 Disagree.

03:59:10.480 Let me touch on that

03:59:12.480 and then,

03:59:13.160 okay.

03:59:13.640 But basically,

03:59:14.220 you're saying,

03:59:14.980 well,

03:59:15.220 if a guy wants a woman 0.95

03:59:16.880 who has a low body count,

03:59:18.220 for example,

03:59:18.940 he too should have

03:59:19.800 a low body count 0.98

03:59:20.560 and it's hypocritical 0.97

03:59:21.720 for a guy with,

03:59:22.660 say,

03:59:22.760 a high body count

03:59:23.560 to prefer

03:59:24.640 or be attracted to

03:59:26.000 or want to date

03:59:27.020 a woman with a low body count. 1.00

03:59:28.380 Is that fair to,

03:59:29.540 is that your position?

03:59:30.100 I wouldn't say attracted to,

03:59:31.460 but want,

03:59:32.140 yeah.

03:59:32.480 You should hold yourself

03:59:33.180 to the same standard.

03:59:34.300 But do you think that,

03:59:35.920 do you think that we,

03:59:39.320 in order for us

03:59:39.960 to desire a trait

03:59:41.460 or something in a partner,

03:59:43.060 we too must also possess

03:59:45.020 said trait?

03:59:46.000 I mean,

03:59:46.280 if you're thinking

03:59:46.700 about physicality,

03:59:47.600 absolutely not.

03:59:48.380 That's not a trait.

03:59:49.520 Well,

03:59:49.640 no,

03:59:49.800 but that's what I'm saying.

03:59:50.600 For example,

03:59:51.140 a lot of women 1.00

03:59:51.880 want men who are tall,

03:59:53.200 yet they are not tall themselves.

03:59:54.380 Again,

03:59:54.740 that's a physical thing

03:59:55.680 that has nothing to do

03:59:57.020 with some sort of

03:59:58.460 moral compass and standard.

03:59:59.940 If you think that women 1.00

04:00:01.500 mature faster than men,

04:00:03.580 then by that logic,

04:00:04.860 an 18-year-old female 0.69

04:00:06.420 would be an adult

04:00:07.360 as soon as she turned 18.

04:00:10.000 Thank you,

04:00:10.640 Bender the Offender. 1.00

04:00:11.820 If you think that women 1.00

04:00:12.620 mature faster than men,

04:00:14.220 an 18-year-old female 0.69

04:00:15.660 would be an adult

04:00:16.340 as soon,

04:00:16.840 wait,

04:00:17.360 aren't you an adult?

04:00:19.040 Wait,

04:00:19.360 I'm confused.

04:00:19.840 You are an adult

04:00:20.540 when you turn 18.

04:00:21.700 An 18-year-old

04:00:22.440 is like freshly

04:00:23.220 out of high school,

04:00:24.900 just graduated,

04:00:26.140 doesn't really have

04:00:26.940 many life experiences.

04:00:27.960 Wait,

04:00:28.140 wait,

04:00:28.240 so hold on.

04:00:28.700 An 18-year-old

04:00:29.640 can sign up

04:00:30.860 for the military.

04:00:31.800 In some cases,

04:00:32.520 you can sign up for the military.

04:00:33.360 Hold on,

04:00:33.660 hold on.

04:00:33.840 They can't even buy alcohol.

04:00:34.760 You can buy a firearm.

04:00:37.460 Okay,

04:00:37.980 you can vote.

04:00:39.540 What else can you do?

04:00:40.300 You can sign

04:00:40.960 binding contracts,

04:00:42.520 but you can't consent

04:00:43.440 to have sex 0.89

04:00:45.180 with someone 0.99

04:00:45.780 who's perhaps

04:00:46.760 a bit older than you?

04:00:47.500 I just think

04:00:48.420 it's a little...

04:00:49.280 So what you guys

04:00:50.000 are saying is,

04:00:50.900 and we will come back

04:00:51.600 to this double standards thing,

04:00:52.820 is that should we raise

04:00:54.920 the voting age

04:00:55.620 of women to 25?

04:00:56.880 Is that what you guys are?

04:00:58.320 You guys are really 0.99

04:00:59.300 misogynistic. 0.99

04:01:00.500 You, 0.99

04:01:01.260 madame, 1.00

04:01:01.860 are a misogynist, 0.99

04:01:03.420 as are you. 0.97

04:01:03.960 How dare you say

04:01:04.780 that women do not have 1.00

04:01:06.000 agency?

04:01:06.740 Speak to me nicely,

04:01:07.540 Brian.

04:01:07.680 How dare you?

04:01:08.360 I am offended

04:01:09.120 as a feminist.

04:01:10.120 Don't wave your finger

04:01:11.220 in my face.

04:01:11.900 Don't wave your finger

04:01:12.720 in my face.

04:01:12.740 That you would even suggest

04:01:14.140 that we should raise

04:01:15.080 the voting age

04:01:15.660 of women to 25. 0.98

04:01:16.660 No one is saying

04:01:17.340 that you're putting

04:01:17.900 words in our mouth

04:01:18.600 and you're pointing

04:01:19.280 your little finger at me. 1.00

04:01:20.300 That's how I talk

04:01:20.840 to the kids that I nanny.

04:01:22.180 Okay,

04:01:22.560 so look,

04:01:22.980 let's bring it back

04:01:23.600 to the double standards thing.

04:01:24.920 Okay,

04:01:25.220 so fine.

04:01:25.720 You're going to argue

04:01:26.500 that while height,

04:01:27.440 that's within the realms

04:01:28.540 of physicality,

04:01:29.340 that's different.

04:01:30.100 Can I say something?

04:01:30.580 What about women 0.99

04:01:31.220 who want men 0.98

04:01:32.160 who are funny,

04:01:33.260 but they are not funny

04:01:34.180 themselves?

04:01:34.560 I'm hilarious.

04:01:35.500 Again,

04:01:35.940 that's not a moral standard

04:01:37.520 or a moral value

04:01:39.440 that you would look for

04:01:40.880 in somebody else.

04:01:42.100 Well,

04:01:42.680 your promiscuity,

04:01:43.960 your degree of promiscuity

04:01:45.040 is behavioral traits

04:01:46.080 in the same way

04:01:46.580 that being funny

04:01:47.340 or humorous

04:01:47.960 is a behavioral

04:01:49.200 or personality trait.

04:01:49.600 So then you could say

04:01:50.340 that the promiscuity

04:01:51.320 from the man's side

04:01:52.040 is also the same.

04:01:52.920 And the promiscuity

04:01:53.640 reflects on the person's values. 0.96

04:01:54.500 Women are totally 1.00

04:01:55.340 within their right

04:01:55.980 to not want to partner

04:01:57.260 with a man 0.75

04:01:57.760 who is promiscuous

04:01:59.240 or who has

04:02:00.480 a promiscuous past.

04:02:01.780 Yeah,

04:02:02.020 and I think it does reflect

04:02:03.140 on values,

04:02:03.720 which play a big part

04:02:04.640 in relationships.

04:02:05.340 If you don't share

04:02:06.040 similar values

04:02:07.320 with the person

04:02:07.860 that you're trying

04:02:08.440 to be with,

04:02:09.020 it just doesn't really

04:02:10.080 work out in the end.

04:02:11.520 So if somebody disagrees

04:02:12.800 with promiscuity,

04:02:14.420 then they disagree

04:02:15.140 with promiscuity.

04:02:15.800 But the reason why

04:02:16.920 it's different

04:02:17.400 for a couple of reasons.

04:02:18.560 Number one,

04:02:18.940 when you look back

04:02:19.420 at biology

04:02:19.960 and evolutionary psychology,

04:02:21.300 the man's whole goal

04:02:21.880 is to spread his seed

04:02:22.860 as far and wide

04:02:23.760 as possible.

04:02:24.440 You look at a woman, 1.00

04:02:25.240 she can literally 1.00

04:02:25.960 only carry one baby

04:02:27.460 at a time,

04:02:28.140 from one man at least,

04:02:29.240 right,

04:02:29.360 unless it's twins,

04:02:30.500 triplets,

04:02:30.820 but from one man

04:02:31.720 for a period

04:02:32.560 of nine months.

04:02:33.860 It's literally

04:02:34.600 completely different

04:02:35.860 from a biological level.

04:02:38.880 Number one,

04:02:39.300 it's very different.

04:02:40.180 And then number two,

04:02:41.280 when you look

04:02:41.820 at the emotional impact,

04:02:43.740 men are very oftentimes

04:02:44.860 able to separate

04:02:46.600 emotions and sex.

04:02:48.600 Can we not all agree

04:02:49.680 that women are a little bit 1.00

04:02:51.020 more emotionally invested

04:02:52.020 in their sexual encounters

04:02:53.140 than men are?

04:02:54.740 Therefore,

04:02:55.160 a woman who has slept 0.98

04:02:56.260 with a hundred people

04:02:57.220 is going to affect her

04:02:58.300 mentally,

04:02:59.340 spiritually,

04:02:59.960 emotionally,

04:03:01.080 far more than it ever

04:03:02.140 would a man.

04:03:02.980 That's also just making

04:03:03.720 assumptions.

04:03:04.400 I feel like that's

04:03:05.840 a one of their conversations.

04:03:06.540 But on the balance

04:03:07.740 of probability,

04:03:08.740 meaning at least 51%

04:03:10.080 of the time it's true.

04:03:11.580 And when you need

04:03:12.180 to make good decisions

04:03:13.060 about your life,

04:03:13.800 you look at things

04:03:14.480 like the balance

04:03:15.540 of probabilities,

04:03:16.500 statistics, right?

04:03:17.960 This is an emotionally

04:03:19.120 mature thing to do.

04:03:20.660 So it's not unreasonable

04:03:21.800 for men to be able

04:03:22.520 to do that.

04:03:22.860 And also pair bonding

04:03:23.860 is another very important

04:03:25.300 topic that I saw

04:03:26.060 somebody bring up. 0.99

04:03:27.180 That for women, 1.00

04:03:28.020 after 10 bodies,

04:03:29.200 there are statistics

04:03:30.000 that show it is

04:03:31.160 actually very difficult

04:03:32.340 for her to devote

04:03:33.820 herself to one man

04:03:35.080 ongoingly.

04:03:36.200 For a long period of time.

04:03:37.620 I'd say that it permanently

04:03:38.700 That is not true.

04:03:40.860 I'd say that it permanently

04:03:41.940 alters the way

04:03:42.620 that you perceive

04:03:43.120 relationships

04:03:43.720 and going into relationships

04:03:45.020 it just permanently

04:03:45.760 alters things.

04:03:46.240 So you don't think

04:03:46.780 that it affects men

04:03:47.900 in the same way

04:03:48.560 and it doesn't alter

04:03:49.360 their perception

04:03:49.880 of a relationship?

04:03:50.760 It does apparently

04:03:51.280 but often many more bodies.

04:03:52.300 Men don't really have 1.00

04:03:52.720 emotional attachments

04:03:54.400 to the people.

04:03:55.040 But so you're literally

04:03:55.600 sitting here and acting

04:03:56.600 oh, men should spread 1.00

04:03:57.600 their seed,

04:03:57.980 men should spread

04:03:58.420 their seed.

04:03:58.920 Do men not have

04:04:00.000 self-control?

04:04:01.620 I don't think she said that.

04:04:02.180 But there's a biological

04:04:03.180 inclination.

04:04:04.680 Oh, biological this,

04:04:05.780 biological that.

04:04:06.300 I don't care.

04:04:07.700 So you're saying

04:04:08.560 that women can't 1.00

04:04:09.180 biologically also

04:04:10.160 want to have casual sex 0.99

04:04:11.240 with men? 0.99

04:04:11.640 Biologically,

04:04:11.980 back then women 1.00

04:04:13.320 were having babies

04:04:14.480 at like biologically

04:04:15.900 so we're way behind

04:04:18.360 that.

04:04:18.620 We're way behind that.

04:04:19.800 I think she's

04:04:21.420 communicating her points

04:04:22.620 in like the most

04:04:23.600 primitive sense.

04:04:25.020 Primitively speaking.

04:04:25.420 But we're not

04:04:25.720 primitive beings anymore.

04:04:26.840 That was one example.

04:04:27.740 I gave two other examples

04:04:28.680 as well.

04:04:29.280 One of them was based

04:04:30.100 in biology and evolutionary

04:04:31.220 psychology.

04:04:31.760 I gave two more

04:04:32.480 that are actually

04:04:33.000 very relevant

04:04:33.640 to current times.

04:04:34.540 I was trying to be

04:04:35.040 diverse.

04:04:35.100 I mean, I don't know.

04:04:35.700 I've got more than

04:04:36.320 ten bodies and I don't

04:04:37.240 have an issue being

04:04:37.940 monogamous or having

04:04:38.820 a partner at all.

04:04:39.700 And I don't know

04:04:40.040 any other woman

04:04:40.720 that has that many bodies

04:04:41.680 that has an issue

04:04:42.340 being with a partner

04:04:43.140 in a monogamous way.

04:04:44.180 Well, there are

04:04:44.580 studies about it.

04:04:45.240 You can read about them.

04:04:46.140 If it doesn't apply

04:04:46.700 to you, then that's

04:04:47.180 wonderful.

04:04:47.860 But there is empirical

04:04:49.140 data that suggests

04:04:50.360 that the opposite

04:04:51.000 is actually true.

04:04:52.460 If that doesn't

04:04:52.940 affect you,

04:04:53.320 then that's wonderful.

04:04:54.360 And I do believe

04:04:54.940 that there is

04:04:55.420 kind of like a

04:04:56.000 biological adaptation

04:04:57.100 that's occurring

04:05:01.760 adaptations,

04:05:02.700 biological adaptations

04:05:03.560 happen over time.

04:05:04.440 So it could be true

04:05:05.060 that that is starting

04:05:05.640 to happen.

04:05:06.780 But I would say

04:05:07.480 So if there is

04:05:08.000 a biological adaptation,

04:05:09.320 then shouldn't men 0.53

04:05:09.960 adjust what they're

04:05:10.780 looking for?

04:05:11.320 And shouldn't purity

04:05:11.900 not be as adamant?

04:05:13.480 Because now there is

04:05:14.380 a biological adaptation

04:05:15.460 from your audience.

04:05:16.060 I'm not saying,

04:05:16.740 I didn't say there

04:05:17.340 definitely is.

04:05:18.040 I say that there

04:05:18.500 likely will be

04:05:19.960 if we continue down

04:05:20.880 this road of being

04:05:21.500 very, very promiscuous.

04:05:22.920 Then likely that will

04:05:24.080 happen because that's

04:05:24.800 just what happens

04:05:25.340 with biology.

04:05:26.040 We make adaptations

04:05:26.860 to the world around us,

04:05:27.900 right?

04:05:28.280 Is that necessarily

04:05:28.940 a good or a bad thing?

04:05:30.700 I mean,

04:05:31.100 I mean,

04:05:31.760 I got it.

04:05:32.280 Men should change 1.00

04:05:33.000 what they're saying.

04:05:34.420 I mean,

04:05:34.660 what they think.

04:05:35.400 Men should not 1.00

04:05:36.100 want a purity culture

04:05:37.140 if women are allowed 1.00

04:05:38.040 to be more promiscuous

04:05:38.880 because of a biological

04:05:39.800 adaptation.

04:05:40.740 Thank you.

04:05:41.120 What about women 0.99

04:05:41.660 change what they're doing

04:05:42.780 rather than men

04:05:43.380 what they're saying?

04:05:43.700 Why do women 1.00

04:05:44.820 have to change

04:05:45.460 what they're doing?

04:05:46.140 I think women 1.00

04:05:48.140 can change what

04:05:49.360 they're doing

04:05:49.600 and also men

04:05:50.240 can change what

04:05:50.700 they're doing.

04:05:51.480 It's like,

04:05:51.940 it goes both ways.

04:05:53.760 Essie, go ahead. 1.00

04:05:54.460 What were you going to?

04:05:55.060 I was,

04:05:55.760 since we were speaking

04:05:56.400 off of personal experiences,

04:05:57.860 I was just going to say

04:05:58.620 that for my entire life,

04:06:00.080 I thought that

04:06:00.720 because I had

04:06:01.620 Oh,

04:06:02.600 cut off.

04:06:03.000 One second.

04:06:04.760 Yeah, thank you, Alvin.

04:06:05.700 According to the

04:06:06.620 Institute for Family Studies,

04:06:08.680 promiscuity before marriage

04:06:10.340 reduced marital quality

04:06:11.740 for women

04:06:12.280 but not for men.

04:06:13.880 Men and women

04:06:14.480 are different.

04:06:15.740 Women do not want 1.00

04:06:16.780 male virgins 0.94

04:06:17.620 because she values 0.53

04:06:18.740 his experience.

04:06:20.640 I was actually going to say that.

04:06:21.600 There's all kinds

04:06:23.960 of double standards.

04:06:25.160 Yeah.

04:06:25.780 Some benefit men,

04:06:26.760 some benefit women.

04:06:28.360 I would like a guy

04:06:29.120 who's experienced

04:06:29.800 in bed though,

04:06:30.600 personally.

04:06:31.340 So I can kind of

04:06:32.180 see that.

04:06:33.480 Go ahead with your point.

04:06:34.360 Oh, I was just going to say

04:06:35.060 for my entire life,

04:06:35.880 I thought my feeling

04:06:36.900 of the level of emotion

04:06:38.660 that I felt

04:06:39.540 with my sexual partners,

04:06:40.860 I always thought that

04:06:42.180 people had always told me

04:06:43.340 you should be more prone 0.55

04:06:44.160 to having casual sex 0.90

04:06:45.100 and hookups. 1.00

04:06:45.580 Like you shouldn't

04:06:46.300 be so emotionally

04:06:47.360 in depth

04:06:47.940 and connected

04:06:48.400 to your sexual partner

04:06:49.340 until I realized

04:06:50.300 that that's totally

04:06:50.900 a normal thing

04:06:51.660 and that actually

04:06:52.440 it's the opposite

04:06:53.000 that you probably,

04:06:54.260 if you're not really

04:06:55.740 feeling an emotional

04:06:56.440 connection with your partner

04:06:57.380 then there's probably

04:06:57.940 something wrong

04:06:58.700 at that point.

04:07:00.040 Sexually.

04:07:01.040 More?

04:07:02.540 I mean,

04:07:03.040 I don't think that,

04:07:03.740 I mean like,

04:07:04.380 I think it should be

04:07:05.100 up to women

04:07:05.520 whether or not

04:07:06.000 they choose

04:07:06.380 to have casual sex, 0.93

04:07:07.300 right? 0.98

04:07:07.540 I mean you can

04:07:08.000 definitely feel that way.

04:07:08.940 You can have emotional

04:07:09.600 connections to your partners

04:07:10.420 and choose not

04:07:10.940 to have casual sex. 0.56

04:07:11.880 That's absolutely fine. 0.97

04:07:13.120 Well, while it's up to women, 1.00

04:07:14.200 it is also up to the men

04:07:15.280 to judge them

04:07:15.800 or anyone else

04:07:16.500 for that fact

04:07:17.040 to judge them.

04:07:17.540 When you make a decision

04:07:18.680 expect to be judged.

04:07:20.160 And if that decision

04:07:20.820 is sleeping with 16 people

04:07:22.360 that's nobody's business

04:07:23.440 though.

04:07:23.820 Wait, wait, wait.

04:07:24.420 That's nobody's business.

04:07:25.340 That's between you

04:07:25.980 and your current partner.

04:07:27.560 And everyone else

04:07:28.140 you sleep with.

04:07:29.080 There is literally

04:07:29.560 one else you sleep with. 0.98

04:07:30.540 What?

04:07:30.740 That determines

04:07:31.020 whether casual sex

04:07:32.060 doesn't affect you

04:07:32.860 when it's being a male

04:07:33.780 and there are studies

04:07:34.800 to point this out.

04:07:35.760 You guys don't have

04:07:36.280 to believe me.

04:07:36.880 You can just look

04:07:37.460 up the studies after.

04:07:38.740 It's okay.

04:07:39.080 I just define casual sex.

04:07:40.600 Yeah.

04:07:41.060 I also just think

04:07:42.060 if you're expecting

04:07:42.780 something in your partner

04:07:43.640 that you should also

04:07:44.400 emulate that as well

04:07:45.300 and I think that it's 0.97

04:07:46.720 kind of ignorant 0.94

04:07:47.320 to assume otherwise. 0.98

04:07:48.400 But you don't think

04:07:49.380 that there's asymmetry

04:07:50.980 in what men and women

04:07:52.840 find attractive

04:07:53.920 in the opposite sex.

04:07:56.240 Like for example

04:07:56.760 you'll hear a lot

04:07:57.640 of women say 0.78

04:07:58.220 I really like funny guys

04:07:59.860 but like

04:08:00.540 they're not funny.

04:08:01.720 Oh my gosh.

04:08:03.100 You men always think

04:08:04.140 women aren't funny. 1.00

04:08:05.180 Like that is 0.97

04:08:05.780 that is like a

04:08:06.820 that is a problem.

04:08:07.600 That's not what I said.

04:08:08.380 I'm just saying

04:08:08.860 like a woman 0.99

04:08:09.580 who herself

04:08:10.660 let's just

04:08:11.560 look just

04:08:12.360 give me the benefit

04:08:13.620 of the doubt here.

04:08:14.360 Let's take a woman 1.00

04:08:15.060 who's just not funny

04:08:16.540 and would it be wrong

04:08:19.500 of her to want

04:08:20.200 a guy who's funny

04:08:20.940 just because she's not funny? 0.52

04:08:21.880 What about a woman 0.99

04:08:22.620 who's looking for a tall man

04:08:23.760 who's short herself? 1.00

04:08:24.720 Well she rejected that argument

04:08:26.120 because it's about physicality.

04:08:27.500 That's a physical thing.

04:08:27.780 That's a completely different.

04:08:29.680 It's funny that you bring that up

04:08:31.120 because actually like

04:08:32.640 evolutionary

04:08:33.220 like again

04:08:34.780 talking about this 1.00

04:08:35.360 stupid fucking book 1.00

04:08:36.120 women are 1.00

04:08:37.420 like the asymmetry 0.77

04:08:38.440 and looking for a partner.

04:08:39.480 We're actually

04:08:39.960 genetically supposed to look

04:08:41.320 for someone opposite

04:08:42.100 to our genetics

04:08:42.880 for like

04:08:43.560 to look for somebody tall

04:08:44.800 somebody strong

04:08:45.600 somebody funny

04:08:46.120 somebody that's opposite of us

04:08:47.220 for like the best

04:08:48.220 like outcome for offspring.

04:08:49.980 That's why like

04:08:50.800 women there's like 1.00

04:08:51.600 was a study of women

04:08:52.420 who are on birth control.

04:08:53.640 We actually find partners

04:08:54.920 that are like

04:08:55.780 too similar to us

04:08:56.620 and when we're off

04:08:57.200 of birth control

04:08:57.760 we're more attracted

04:08:58.500 to like partners

04:08:59.300 that are the opposite.

04:09:00.380 It's not usually

04:09:00.820 that they're similar

04:09:01.480 but usually women 0.99

04:09:02.580 are more agreeable

04:09:03.440 and when you're

04:09:04.160 on birth control

04:09:04.820 you're attracted

04:09:05.440 to people who are

04:09:06.100 more agreeable.

04:09:06.860 If you're a disagreeable

04:09:07.760 female on birth control 0.86

04:09:09.080 then maybe you wouldn't

04:09:10.000 find that likely.

04:09:10.680 But then again

04:09:11.420 on birth control

04:09:11.940 you'd probably be agreeable.

04:09:13.280 I just reject this idea

04:09:14.900 that in order for you

04:09:16.580 to rightfully

04:09:17.660 either be attracted

04:09:19.040 to somebody

04:09:19.640 or want to be

04:09:20.620 with somebody

04:09:21.180 you too must possess

04:09:22.840 all the characteristics

04:09:24.320 that they possess.

04:09:25.840 So like

04:09:26.220 okay

04:09:26.900 a woman 0.57

04:09:28.140 who finds

04:09:29.280 a rich man attractive

04:09:30.200 is it wrong

04:09:31.900 that she finds

04:09:32.520 a man attractive

04:09:33.720 because of his wealth

04:09:34.780 even if she herself

04:09:36.280 is not wealthy

04:09:36.920 or what about

04:09:37.600 a woman who finds

04:09:38.360 a professional athlete

04:09:39.280 or an actor

04:09:39.820 or a musician

04:09:40.320 attractive

04:09:41.260 because of his status

04:09:42.300 but she has

04:09:43.440 absolutely no status

04:09:44.280 she's not a pro athlete

04:09:45.200 she's not an actor

04:09:45.980 she's not a musician

04:09:47.100 so like this idea

04:09:48.420 that

04:09:48.760 well this idea

04:09:50.180 that there needs

04:09:50.780 to be perfect

04:09:51.520 reciprocity

04:09:52.560 a word that we used

04:09:53.360 previously in the conversation

04:09:54.560 or perfect

04:09:55.620 symmetry

04:09:56.780 in our

04:09:58.020 you know

04:09:59.100 where we fall

04:09:59.980 in the world

04:10:00.620 I think it

04:10:01.280 doesn't make sense.

04:10:02.880 I think people

04:10:03.400 usually tend to date

04:10:04.560 within their dating pool

04:10:05.900 like you're not

04:10:06.800 like a pro athlete

04:10:08.160 isn't really gonna

04:10:08.980 like go for me

04:10:10.160 you know

04:10:10.760 actually I would say

04:10:13.560 like pro athletes

04:10:14.800 be dating some 1.00

04:10:15.600 normal fucking 1.00

04:10:16.200 I mean I would 1.00

04:10:16.640 tend to disagree

04:10:17.340 I mean like

04:10:17.980 I'm autistic

04:10:18.840 I have like

04:10:19.620 literally

04:10:20.000 look look

04:10:20.940 really

04:10:21.440 yeah

04:10:22.040 yeah

04:10:22.420 I never would have guessed

04:10:23.700 no but I'm like 0.99

04:10:25.620 completely weird as fuck 0.90

04:10:26.720 not to be like 0.94

04:10:27.760 oh quirky or anything 1.00

04:10:28.980 but like I'm a fucking loser 0.99

04:10:30.600 like I like video games 1.00

04:10:31.540 I'm cooped up

04:10:32.060 like I just like to play video games

04:10:33.900 I'm cooped up in my room

04:10:34.800 all the time

04:10:35.180 and then I ended up

04:10:35.880 scoring some guy

04:10:36.620 who's an absolute Chad

04:10:37.880 like he's like

04:10:38.860 I don't know

04:10:39.940 he's like completely 0.98

04:10:40.720 fucking normal 0.98

04:10:41.520 and I think I'm 0.99

04:10:42.980 kind of like 0.92

04:10:43.760 retarded 1.00

04:10:45.560 like I could say it

04:10:47.220 you said we could say it

04:10:48.280 if we had the past

04:10:48.920 I mean I ended up

04:10:49.960 dating someone who like

04:10:50.940 essentially like

04:10:52.180 we have nothing to do

04:10:53.560 with each other

04:10:54.140 and it's working out

04:10:54.820 pretty fine

04:10:55.260 I mean like

04:10:55.700 I mean we have a lot

04:10:56.720 in common

04:10:57.200 what is your argument

04:10:59.060 no I'm just saying

04:11:00.280 I don't know

04:11:00.820 so you're saying like

04:11:01.780 because you're like

04:11:03.400 R slurred that you're

04:11:04.380 you should only date

04:11:06.080 other R slurred people 1.00

04:11:06.760 no no no no

04:11:07.660 it's not like that

04:11:08.860 I'm saying like

04:11:09.600 it's so nice of you

04:11:09.920 like people like

04:11:10.600 don't always date

04:11:11.440 within their pool

04:11:12.140 like this guy's like

04:11:13.080 awesome

04:11:13.560 like he's like

04:11:14.300 completely normal

04:11:15.120 go ahead

04:11:15.740 I was just gonna say that

04:11:17.420 I mean I

04:11:18.380 honestly like

04:11:19.720 it's totally fine

04:11:20.880 if your standards

04:11:21.580 are like

04:11:22.160 not similar

04:11:23.100 to what you provide

04:11:24.000 for me

04:11:25.060 it was

04:11:25.740 like I just can't

04:11:26.860 stand people

04:11:27.640 who are like

04:11:28.240 I want this

04:11:28.800 this and this

04:11:29.220 from a partner

04:11:29.640 but they bring

04:11:30.220 nothing to the table

04:11:31.360 I just don't think

04:11:32.380 that it makes any sense

04:11:33.340 I feel like

04:11:33.920 you want the relationship

04:11:35.640 to be fair

04:11:36.280 and what you can provide

04:11:37.100 for each other

04:11:37.860 so I think it makes sense

04:11:39.640 to like

04:11:39.940 if you're gonna require

04:11:40.920 all these things

04:11:41.440 from your partner

04:11:41.940 you should probably

04:11:42.560 have some other things

04:11:43.280 that you're yourself

04:11:44.240 offering

04:11:44.800 okay so this

04:11:46.180 look this whole thing

04:11:47.540 stemmed from

04:11:48.300 we were initially

04:11:49.880 talking about

04:11:50.800 age gap

04:11:51.720 that stems

04:11:53.380 from the age gap

04:11:54.260 thing

04:11:54.540 I don't know

04:11:55.640 how we

04:11:56.080 what's that

04:11:56.680 we didn't finish

04:11:57.220 going around the table

04:11:57.960 on

04:11:58.620 the biggest age gap

04:11:59.700 oh what was yours

04:12:00.800 did you go

04:12:02.440 I think you said

04:12:03.000 I did yeah

04:12:03.520 six years

04:12:04.000 six years

04:12:04.540 what about you

04:12:05.020 mine was seven

04:12:06.060 but the person

04:12:07.180 I was with before him

04:12:08.300 it was six

04:12:08.920 so it kind of was

04:12:09.620 like my gateway

04:12:10.260 into seven

04:12:10.860 and that person

04:12:12.340 lied about their age

04:12:13.620 so I found out

04:12:15.000 from a background check

04:12:16.060 they told me

04:12:16.900 they were only

04:12:17.380 two years older

04:12:18.200 my friend looked up

04:12:19.340 their hockey stats

04:12:20.020 found out they were

04:12:21.120 30 at the time

04:12:22.380 yeah so I kind of

04:12:24.220 got tricked into that

04:12:25.020 before that I'd only

04:12:25.900 dated someone like

04:12:26.520 one year older than me

04:12:27.340 maybe two

04:12:28.060 it was six years

04:12:29.640 I was 23

04:12:31.120 he was like 30

04:12:32.000 okay

04:12:32.840 I think mine was

04:12:35.160 either two or three years

04:12:36.240 what about you

04:12:37.420 four

04:12:37.900 what about you

04:12:39.180 two up two down

04:12:40.460 two up two down

04:12:41.160 okay

04:12:41.460 but okay

04:12:44.480 so I mean

04:12:45.120 you know

04:12:46.280 it's like

04:12:46.980 so okay

04:12:47.460 you think

04:12:48.300 it's predatory

04:12:50.540 depending on the situation

04:12:51.980 absolutely

04:12:52.360 depending on the situation

04:12:53.040 I think you need to

04:12:53.500 lie about it

04:12:54.060 yeah

04:12:54.300 let me ask you

04:12:54.820 I mean I think

04:12:58.380 some women 1.00

04:12:58.920 seek out older men 0.88

04:12:59.980 and it's like

04:13:00.740 why are they

04:13:02.080 you know

04:13:03.120 trying to make a

04:13:03.680 not Brian

04:13:04.300 he seeks out

04:13:04.940 older women

04:13:05.420 no no

04:13:05.620 a lot of women 1.00

04:13:07.260 I mean I'll date

04:13:08.160 I'll date young 0.91

04:13:08.900 I mean a lot of women 1.00

04:13:09.720 seek out older men 0.88

04:13:10.760 just purely

04:13:11.780 for financial gain

04:13:12.900 like a lot of women 1.00

04:13:13.520 oh I want a sugar daddy 0.78

04:13:14.380 I want someone this old

04:13:15.200 you know

04:13:15.900 like but then

04:13:16.940 they turn it around

04:13:18.040 and say like

04:13:18.900 oh woe is me 0.99

04:13:20.300 I'm being groomed

04:13:21.860 I mean

04:13:22.280 I think a transactional

04:13:23.800 relationship is very different

04:13:25.060 than what we're talking about

04:13:26.520 no girl is getting a sugar daddy 1.00

04:13:28.200 and it's like

04:13:28.620 oh he groomed me

04:13:29.760 no but what about

04:13:30.640 what about like

04:13:31.240 dilfs

04:13:31.760 like oh he's such a dilf 1.00

04:13:33.260 I want to date someone 0.94

04:13:34.020 like oh I have daddy issues

04:13:35.180 I'm going to date someone

04:13:36.080 who's 32

04:13:36.760 I'm like 19

04:13:37.800 but then all of a sudden

04:13:38.840 they just go back on it

04:13:39.960 and be like

04:13:40.360 oh that was absolutely predatory

04:13:41.780 but like

04:13:42.600 you're the kind of the one

04:13:43.980 who put yourself in that situation

04:13:45.380 seeking someone like that

04:13:46.600 well I think it really

04:13:47.600 I think it really has to do

04:13:48.900 with how the relationship goes

04:13:50.240 and the dynamic of the relationship

04:13:51.880 the environment of the relationship

04:13:53.280 because it's like

04:13:54.900 you know

04:13:55.460 no girl is just like 1.00

04:13:56.440 oh like getting with an older guy

04:13:57.760 and then is like

04:13:58.280 straight out of the relationship

04:13:59.080 pissed

04:13:59.600 and is like

04:14:00.240 oh like he groomed me

04:14:01.200 no

04:14:01.480 like obviously

04:14:02.380 no girl is like 0.97

04:14:03.360 saying they got groomed

04:14:04.220 just to say that

04:14:05.200 and for sympathy

04:14:06.100 like that doesn't just happen

04:14:07.560 also I think

04:14:08.400 I think a lot of people

04:14:09.400 have you heard that

04:14:10.140 I think a lot of women 1.00

04:14:11.640 and men too

04:14:12.640 but mostly women 0.82

04:14:13.520 refuse to take accountability

04:14:14.680 when it comes to stuff like that

04:14:16.100 and they often like

04:14:16.840 to victimize themselves

04:14:17.920 I'm not

04:14:18.320 I mean

04:14:18.860 I think you've said a lot of times

04:14:20.460 that it's pretty much

04:14:21.520 the fault of the woman

04:14:22.480 in every single situation

04:14:23.640 that we've talked about

04:14:24.560 you've put accountability

04:14:25.880 on the woman 0.85

04:14:26.400 every single time

04:14:27.340 I'm saying we as women 0.88

04:14:29.200 should take accountability

04:14:30.160 that's what I'm saying

04:14:31.520 we should take accountability

04:14:32.180 so you're saying

04:14:32.660 it's a 19 year old's fault 0.90

04:14:34.340 literally

04:14:34.840 like a 40 year old man

04:14:36.040 you're saying it's her fault

04:14:37.420 if she's supposedly a child

04:14:38.880 if she's supposedly a teenager

04:14:39.780 it's her fault

04:14:40.580 I'm not saying it's her fault

04:14:41.960 but I think

04:14:42.340 that's the way you're putting it though

04:14:43.620 I'm saying we should take accountability

04:14:44.960 for certain situations

04:14:46.200 so we should take accountability

04:14:47.380 if we're being financially abused

04:14:49.000 we should take accountability

04:14:49.820 if we give up our

04:14:50.820 that's not what I'm saying

04:14:51.560 I've grown a lot

04:14:52.180 I feel like

04:14:52.620 you're grabbing my words 1.00

04:14:54.240 by the dick 1.00

04:14:54.740 and twisting it hard right here 1.00

04:14:56.080 I'm saying

04:14:56.960 I've grown a lot

04:14:58.320 since I was 18

04:14:59.180 I'm definitely not the same person

04:15:00.520 I was when I was 18

04:15:01.720 if I were to get into

04:15:02.780 a relationship

04:15:03.500 when I was 18

04:15:04.400 I would definitely come out of it

04:15:06.100 and be like

04:15:06.460 what the heck was that

04:15:08.160 because

04:15:08.840 what

04:15:09.640 like she said

04:15:10.560 what

04:15:10.940 what

04:15:11.500 does that man have in common

04:15:13.080 with me

04:15:13.720 can we take accountability though

04:15:15.240 you're expecting an 18 year old

04:15:17.340 to take accountability

04:15:18.080 for a 40 year old man

04:15:19.440 that man knows better

04:15:20.620 that man has had more life experiences

04:15:22.540 I mean

04:15:22.920 there are certain situations

04:15:24.200 where hey

04:15:24.580 it might be the man's fault

04:15:25.600 it might be the man's fault

04:15:26.360 but there are also situations

04:15:27.740 that we personally

04:15:28.700 should take accountability for

04:15:30.140 like seeking out older men

04:15:31.340 purely for monetary gain

04:15:33.020 or because we're attracted to them

04:15:34.380 I personally am not attracted to them

04:15:35.800 but some women are attracted to older men

04:15:37.340 because they didn't have a father figure in their life

04:15:39.100 that could be one reason

04:15:40.220 or it could just be merely attraction

04:15:41.960 I think we should take more accountability

04:15:43.740 rather than coming out five years later

04:15:46.420 and victimizing ourselves

04:15:48.000 and obviously there are predatory men

04:15:49.740 there are a lot of predatory men

04:15:51.820 and there are a lot of predatory women 1.00

04:15:53.300 but I'm just saying

04:15:54.500 in the situations where we need to take accountability

04:15:56.640 we need to take accountability

04:15:58.400 yes but in that situation

04:16:00.480 the 18 year old is definitely not at fault

04:16:02.580 yeah like the power imbalance

04:16:04.440 because I feel like

04:16:05.660 who has the money

04:16:06.800 who is older

04:16:07.680 who has the power in the relationship

04:16:10.100 and I'm not saying girls don't go for that sometimes

04:16:11.920 because like that's the case

04:16:13.200 but their brain isn't fully developed

04:16:14.820 I mean power imbalance

04:16:16.380 like you often hear about this

04:16:18.460 in like workplace relationships

04:16:20.920 where the man actually has authority over you

04:16:25.580 but like I don't think dating a rich guy

04:16:28.960 is like that's

04:16:31.220 and you're younger

04:16:32.080 that's not the same type of power imbalance

04:16:35.380 as like when a man has authority over you

04:16:38.880 what about a 90 year old man

04:16:40.720 and a 40 year old woman

04:16:41.920 are you going to say the same thing?

04:16:43.680 yeah I am

04:16:44.440 I am

04:16:45.300 I absolutely am

04:16:46.920 it's not like I'm anti-women

04:16:48.540 anti-this

04:16:49.120 I'm just saying we should take accountability

04:16:51.020 there's a lot of situations

04:16:54.140 that we put ourselves in

04:16:55.440 but then we end up blaming the opposing party

04:16:57.540 and the opposing party could be a man

04:16:59.060 it could be a woman 0.99

04:16:59.700 but we have

04:17:01.380 I mean a lot of people I know

04:17:03.400 have this inclination

04:17:04.420 to just go back on it

04:17:05.720 and be like

04:17:06.080 oh I absolutely did nothing wrong

04:17:09.320 or maybe I did a little wrong

04:17:10.500 or it's their fault

04:17:11.420 or I'm a victim

04:17:12.460 I'm a victim

04:17:13.700 like sort of like

04:17:15.100 I consensually dated a man who was older than me

04:17:18.060 Bebe Rexha

04:17:18.720 or whatever her name was 0.72

04:17:19.820 like she just went back on all that

04:17:21.400 and then just put these screenshots out there

04:17:23.520 I think that like

04:17:24.460 I don't know

04:17:25.840 yeah I get what you're saying

04:17:26.840 thank you

04:17:28.040 let me ask this

04:17:29.260 okay so

04:17:29.760 I think the example I gave previously was

04:17:32.560 would you object to a 31 year old dating a 21 year old

04:17:37.800 and I said I think that

04:17:38.940 I mean like I think

04:17:39.820 I would think it's kind of weird

04:17:40.940 but I don't necessarily

04:17:41.660 would you think it's predatory?

04:17:43.020 no

04:17:43.320 I mean like 30 and 20

04:17:44.740 isn't like that massive of an age gap

04:17:46.960 okay

04:17:47.640 I mean like 10 years

04:17:48.640 but also it's different

04:17:49.520 like 18 years old

04:17:50.500 is very different than 21 years old

04:17:52.000 okay how about 19 and 29

04:17:53.480 how about that?

04:17:54.540 I would think that was weird

04:17:55.480 yeah

04:17:55.740 you would object to that?

04:17:57.380 I mean not

04:17:57.800 again I can't object to anybody's relationship

04:18:00.020 but I can consider something like

04:18:01.580 you would consider it weird

04:18:02.520 I would consider it weird

04:18:03.740 absolutely

04:18:04.140 would you consider it predatory?

04:18:05.620 I don't consider

04:18:06.280 I don't

04:18:06.660 I don't think that there's anything a 29 year old

04:18:09.040 will have in common with an 18 19 year old

04:18:11.580 sex?

04:18:13.000 if that's the basis of it 0.96

04:18:14.520 then again that's predatory and weird 0.96

04:18:16.320 women are so much more 1.00

04:18:17.560 commercially mature than men though

04:18:18.820 like don't y'all agree with that?

04:18:20.200 I definitely

04:18:20.820 that like you're way faster than men

04:18:22.440 like I feel like I was intellectually superior

04:18:24.440 by at least 5-10 years

04:18:26.180 to most of the men in my grade

04:18:27.620 I definitely agree with that

04:18:29.100 like I've heard like some girls say 1.00

04:18:30.620 like oh like date older men

04:18:32.200 because naturally men are like 0.98

04:18:33.980 it makes you on the same level naturally

04:18:35.480 yeah like it

04:18:36.100 like they said like

04:18:37.140 men are naturally like 10 years more immature

04:18:39.860 than they really are

04:18:40.940 that's true

04:18:41.700 than when you're dating

04:18:42.000 it's actually true now

04:18:43.680 because that's why they say

04:18:44.500 men reach their peak at 30

04:18:45.740 it's because it's true

04:18:46.260 yeah but we also shouldn't be like

04:18:47.780 oh well like

04:18:48.640 like that's a man at that point

04:18:50.340 like he's you know

04:18:51.020 like that's a full grown man

04:18:53.000 like frontal lobe developed

04:18:54.860 that 18 year old frontal lobe

04:18:56.560 not developed

04:18:57.200 isn't developed yet

04:18:57.840 so I think we really have to take that

04:18:59.460 into consideration

04:19:00.140 because if I was making this

04:19:01.860 I've made some crazy decisions

04:19:03.880 when I was 18

04:19:04.740 and 19 years old

04:19:05.980 and maybe even now

04:19:07.020 but like when it comes to like

04:19:08.800 if I was dating like

04:19:09.960 a 40 year old

04:19:12.320 like that man

04:19:13.140 that is a man

04:19:14.180 I mean the frontal lobe

04:19:15.400 doesn't believe

04:19:15.880 okay hold on

04:19:16.740 so okay hold on

04:19:17.480 just to bring it back

04:19:18.200 really quick on to this point

04:19:19.220 so I think

04:19:20.140 just I want to make sure

04:19:21.000 I understand your argument

04:19:21.860 properly

04:19:22.640 so

04:19:23.420 29 year old

04:19:26.760 or sorry

04:19:27.500 31 year old

04:19:28.400 with 21 year old

04:19:29.520 the word you would use

04:19:31.960 is weird

04:19:32.760 or predatory

04:19:33.540 I mean

04:19:33.920 well not predatory

04:19:34.960 I think it would be strange

04:19:36.340 again like

04:19:37.040 strange weird

04:19:37.400 again I

04:19:38.460 my argument is mainly

04:19:40.100 against teenagers

04:19:40.940 I don't think that

04:19:41.940 14 year old men

04:19:42.700 should be going after

04:19:43.480 18 and 19 year olds

04:19:44.580 I think that that's predatory

04:19:45.800 the brain isn't fully developed

04:19:46.920 until the age of 25

04:19:47.860 so are you saying

04:19:48.360 that we should

04:19:48.700 up the age of consent

04:19:50.640 to 25

04:19:51.360 no I'm saying

04:19:52.300 that's not what anyone is saying

04:19:53.440 that's not what I said at all

04:19:54.340 if a 19 year old

04:19:55.680 wants to talk to an 18 year old 0.53

04:19:57.160 that's completely viable

04:19:58.240 and completely like normal

04:19:59.740 that's a normal age

04:20:00.860 so hold on

04:20:02.280 just a question

04:20:02.780 just a question

04:20:03.340 so okay

04:20:03.840 let's use teenager right

04:20:05.200 so 19 year old

04:20:06.040 we'll use a 19 year old

04:20:07.280 that's still a teenager

04:20:08.740 although I think it is a bit

04:20:09.780 it's like you're using

04:20:12.040 language to like

04:20:12.980 because a teenager

04:20:13.680 could also be someone

04:20:14.420 who's 13

04:20:15.020 but like it's a bit

04:20:16.240 like you're trying

04:20:17.160 to paint it in a certain way

04:20:18.200 but fine

04:20:18.700 let's say a 19 year old

04:20:19.820 you would object

04:20:22.420 to 19 and 29

04:20:24.500 yeah

04:20:25.920 okay

04:20:26.460 again not object

04:20:27.860 okay

04:20:28.260 and would you

04:20:29.460 would you object

04:20:30.060 to a 19 year old woman

04:20:31.200 starting an OnlyFans

04:20:32.140 I already said that

04:20:33.700 yes

04:20:33.920 oh you would

04:20:34.480 I did yes 0.99

04:20:35.420 okay darn 0.98

04:20:36.560 you've got me 0.98

04:20:37.120 okay well

04:20:37.780 I already said

04:20:39.420 what's the minimum age

04:20:40.700 then for

04:20:41.160 to start an OnlyFans

04:20:42.340 I would

04:20:43.500 to be honest

04:20:44.400 I would probably

04:20:45.000 wait till like 25

04:20:45.900 we were having this

04:20:46.700 conversation earlier

04:20:47.620 and I think that

04:20:48.740 there are a lot of

04:20:49.360 pros and cons

04:20:50.260 to doing it

04:20:50.820 and I think that

04:20:51.300 a lot of 18 year old

04:20:52.020 women are starting

04:20:52.720 OnlyFans

04:20:53.240 under the guise

04:20:54.000 of these women

04:20:54.920 that have these

04:20:55.700 massive platforms

04:20:56.360 telling them

04:20:56.820 you're gonna make

04:20:57.500 a ton of money

04:20:58.040 you're gonna get

04:20:58.620 all this money

04:20:59.200 you should sign up

04:21:00.100 when you're 18

04:21:00.800 blah blah blah

04:21:01.440 but I don't think

04:21:02.380 that they really realize

04:21:03.480 what they're actually

04:21:04.200 doing with their life

04:21:05.300 and the things that

04:21:06.140 will follow from that

04:21:07.260 because they're just

04:21:07.860 thinking they're gonna

04:21:08.360 make a ton of money

04:21:08.980 when in reality

04:21:09.640 they're not

04:21:10.140 so I

04:21:11.580 we are

04:21:12.260 yeah

04:21:12.540 I do not think

04:21:13.380 that 18 year olds

04:21:14.180 should

04:21:14.320 I do not think

04:21:16.000 that 18 year olds

04:21:16.680 should start OnlyFans

04:21:17.520 I don't think

04:21:18.100 that 19 year olds

04:21:18.780 should start OnlyFans

04:21:19.500 I think that women 1.00

04:21:20.160 should take a long

04:21:21.080 hard look

04:21:22.320 at what that means

04:21:23.180 and what the pros are

04:21:24.360 and what the cons are

04:21:25.240 and I think that

04:21:26.220 you should wait

04:21:26.600 till you're older

04:21:26.980 because I started mine

04:21:27.620 when I was 27

04:21:28.220 I absolutely agree

04:21:29.200 one sec

04:21:29.600 one sec

04:21:29.920 so just to bring it

04:21:31.060 back to you

04:21:31.420 I think you said

04:21:31.880 well what does

04:21:32.300 a 31 year old

04:21:33.320 have in common

04:21:33.900 with a 21 year old

04:21:35.940 right

04:21:36.540 18

04:21:36.860 yeah

04:21:37.980 21 is like okay

04:21:39.400 you could still say

04:21:40.500 what does a 31 year old

04:21:41.540 sure if you want

04:21:41.820 to argue 21

04:21:42.500 we can do that

04:21:43.160 okay fine

04:21:44.020 29 to 19

04:21:45.400 okay

04:21:45.820 it's not clear

04:21:49.200 to me

04:21:50.820 that having

04:21:51.460 commonality

04:21:52.400 with someone

04:21:53.020 is a primary

04:21:54.300 attraction trigger

04:21:56.740 I mean like you

04:21:58.180 don't find attraction

04:21:59.520 to people

04:21:59.960 that you have

04:22:00.440 things in common

04:22:00.980 with and that

04:22:01.400 you talk to

04:22:02.000 and can like

04:22:02.680 understand where

04:22:03.940 they're at in their

04:22:04.460 life and their

04:22:05.000 life experiences

04:22:05.760 and things like that

04:22:06.520 because a 29 year old

04:22:08.440 and a 19 year old

04:22:09.220 have very very

04:22:09.880 different life

04:22:10.440 experience

04:22:11.180 and a 29 year old

04:22:12.680 is going to be able

04:22:13.400 to manipulate

04:22:14.320 a 19 year old

04:22:15.100 very very easily

04:22:16.100 not necessarily

04:22:17.040 I mean in most cases

04:22:19.300 well I mean we

04:22:20.200 we were previously

04:22:20.960 talking about this

04:22:21.800 how women 1.00

04:22:22.260 mature a bit faster

04:22:24.620 and I would say

04:22:25.160 women actually get 1.00

04:22:26.060 a lot more

04:22:26.940 I think women 1.00

04:22:28.380 are much more

04:22:28.880 socially attuned

04:22:29.760 than men are 0.95

04:22:30.460 so I mean you can

04:22:31.280 make the argument

04:22:31.820 in a lot of cases

04:22:32.680 that women 0.97

04:22:33.240 socially can actually

04:22:34.620 run circles around men

04:22:35.940 I wouldn't say

04:22:37.160 for a 29 or 30 year old

04:22:38.840 man I think that's

04:22:39.560 like a massive difference

04:22:40.700 not necessarily

04:22:41.320 I mean he could be

04:22:42.460 he could be

04:22:43.800 say he's maybe

04:22:46.180 not the most

04:22:46.620 attractive guy

04:22:47.300 maybe he's

04:22:47.960 got a job

04:22:48.880 like a 19 year old

04:22:49.980 girl who's kind of 1.00

04:22:50.940 a fucking hustler 1.00

04:22:51.720 could go in there 1.00

04:22:52.460 and absolutely run

04:22:53.260 circles around a

04:22:54.180 dude who's in his

04:22:55.680 late 20s

04:22:56.060 early 30s

04:22:57.100 if she's a hustler 1.00

04:22:58.000 a 19 year old 0.87

04:22:59.220 chick that's a 1.00

04:22:59.680 hustler could 1.00

04:23:00.060 absolutely fucking 1.00

04:23:01.200 run circles around 0.99

04:23:02.680 like some like

04:23:03.980 naive 30 year old

04:23:05.200 who doesn't have

04:23:05.760 much of a

04:23:06.160 relationship experience

04:23:07.160 take for example

04:23:07.840 maybe a guy 0.76

04:23:08.480 who's not

04:23:10.040 particularly attractive

04:23:10.860 he's gonna get 0.99

04:23:12.000 fucking played 0.99

04:23:12.660 he's gonna get 0.99

04:23:13.360 got

04:23:13.680 so

04:23:15.160 that's true

04:23:15.880 I'm not saying

04:23:16.320 that's gonna be

04:23:16.800 the case for

04:23:17.320 like most women 0.99

04:23:18.860 I'm not saying

04:23:19.460 most women are 1.00

04:23:20.420 are hustlers 1.00

04:23:21.480 like that

04:23:22.020 but like

04:23:22.460 you know

04:23:23.980 they can get

04:23:24.860 got

04:23:25.160 you know

04:23:25.740 so

04:23:26.100 but I mean

04:23:26.700 this idea

04:23:27.100 that commonality

04:23:28.080 I mean

04:23:28.400 have you ever

04:23:29.400 had a ton

04:23:30.180 of things

04:23:30.560 in common

04:23:30.960 with someone

04:23:31.380 and there

04:23:33.620 was no

04:23:34.000 attraction

04:23:34.460 yeah

04:23:35.340 I mean

04:23:35.780 yeah sure

04:23:36.180 all the time

04:23:36.800 but like

04:23:37.200 every relationship

04:23:38.080 I've ever had

04:23:38.700 I've had things

04:23:39.260 to talk about

04:23:39.780 with them

04:23:40.100 in commonality

04:23:40.780 whether it's

04:23:41.380 life experience

04:23:42.720 or things

04:23:44.200 we've gone

04:23:44.680 through

04:23:45.020 or hobbies

04:23:45.880 or activities

04:23:46.640 or whatever

04:23:47.100 the case may be

04:23:47.720 I've never

04:23:48.280 I've also never

04:23:48.880 been attracted

04:23:49.360 to a man

04:23:49.740 that I have

04:23:50.080 nothing in common

04:23:50.800 with

04:23:51.140 but also

04:23:52.720 would you agree

04:23:53.180 that today's

04:23:53.840 generation

04:23:54.500 is growing up

04:23:55.080 much faster

04:23:55.840 as well

04:23:56.540 like I think

04:23:57.060 back to me

04:23:57.520 being an 18 year

04:23:58.200 old versus

04:23:58.600 the 18 year

04:23:59.260 olds nowadays

04:23:59.880 like they're

04:24:00.320 talking about 0.99

04:24:00.900 shit doing 1.00

04:24:01.340 shit and aware 1.00

04:24:02.080 of shit 1.00

04:24:02.480 that I had 1.00

04:24:03.200 no clue about

04:24:04.240 at their age

04:24:04.880 and so it's

04:24:05.600 also just a sign

04:24:06.360 of the times

04:24:07.140 to a degree

04:24:07.880 honestly

04:24:08.520 no I agree

04:24:10.540 yeah

04:24:11.380 thank you

04:24:13.240 I get it

04:24:14.700 I don't know

04:24:15.240 if look

04:24:15.700 if a girl's

04:24:17.140 5'3 and wants

04:24:18.040 to date a guy

04:24:18.560 who's 6'4

04:24:19.320 you wouldn't say

04:24:19.980 but you don't

04:24:20.760 have anything

04:24:21.260 in common

04:24:21.840 with him

04:24:22.360 that's again

04:24:23.000 that's a physical

04:24:23.580 thing

04:24:24.040 that's not

04:24:24.620 that has nothing

04:24:25.140 to do with

04:24:25.440 life experience

04:24:26.280 or like

04:24:27.100 commonality

04:24:27.980 okay

04:24:28.780 well I mean

04:24:29.880 okay

04:24:30.120 what

04:24:30.420 I mean

04:24:31.340 what is the

04:24:31.860 advantage

04:24:32.280 say you're

04:24:32.920 a 30

04:24:33.380 31 year old

04:24:34.620 guy

04:24:34.860 what advantages

04:24:35.720 are there

04:24:36.200 to dating

04:24:36.600 a 31 year old

04:24:37.600 woman versus 1.00

04:24:38.140 a 21 year old

04:24:39.060 woman 0.99

04:24:39.340 I mean

04:24:40.660 as far as

04:24:41.180 life experience

04:24:41.960 already having

04:24:42.740 partnerships

04:24:43.180 knowing what

04:24:43.720 you want

04:24:44.160 knowing what

04:24:44.680 you don't

04:24:45.100 want

04:24:45.360 being able

04:24:45.800 to talk

04:24:46.160 about those

04:24:46.620 things

04:24:46.860 having healthy

04:24:47.400 communication

04:24:48.020 and boundaries

04:24:48.540 because you've

04:24:49.100 put in the

04:24:49.460 work through

04:24:49.940 your 20s

04:24:50.540 in order to

04:24:50.960 have those

04:24:51.420 healthy

04:24:51.680 relationships

04:24:52.200 a 19 year old

04:24:53.220 probably hasn't

04:24:54.140 done that

04:24:54.620 so what I hear

04:24:56.060 is more sexual 0.86

04:24:57.180 partners

04:24:57.580 more relationship

04:24:58.980 baggage

04:24:59.460 more relationship

04:25:00.560 trauma

04:25:00.980 I don't think

04:25:02.260 that I don't

04:25:02.740 consider any of

04:25:03.460 that because

04:25:03.840 every relationship

04:25:04.540 that I've been

04:25:05.120 in I wouldn't

04:25:05.580 consider traumatic

04:25:06.600 I mean a lot

04:25:07.520 of those were

04:25:07.880 experiences that I

04:25:08.760 had positive

04:25:09.260 experiences with

04:25:10.020 people that I

04:25:10.500 dated where I

04:25:11.260 came out and I

04:25:11.800 said you want to

04:25:12.220 know what like

04:25:12.680 I really like this

04:25:13.660 about him and I

04:25:14.220 really didn't like

04:25:14.840 this and this is

04:25:15.460 something that I

04:25:16.000 realized in my life

04:25:17.080 that this is

04:25:17.500 something I don't

04:25:18.240 agree with or want

04:25:19.120 I mean go back

04:25:19.880 to Jonah Hill

04:25:20.480 I would if I was

04:25:22.320 him and I started

04:25:23.160 dating that surfer

04:25:23.960 girl after all of

04:25:25.220 my other experiences

04:25:26.100 and I go you know

04:25:27.580 what this doesn't

04:25:28.080 really align with

04:25:28.860 what I want in my

04:25:29.680 life so I would

04:25:30.320 just choose not to

04:25:31.240 date that person

04:25:31.920 I mean you just

04:25:33.180 know what you

04:25:33.720 want whereas a

04:25:35.540 19 year old has no

04:25:36.540 freaking clue what

04:25:37.240 they want

04:25:37.720 realistically

04:25:39.600 I've met a lot

04:25:41.140 of women of

04:25:42.600 varying ages and

04:25:44.440 I don't think

04:25:46.060 I mean maturity

04:25:48.400 is not a given

04:25:51.020 even if you are

04:25:52.220 older

04:25:52.700 there's a lot of

04:25:53.960 immature people

04:25:54.780 a lot of people

04:25:55.520 with trauma and

04:25:56.500 baggage and issues

04:25:57.540 that you can find

04:25:58.740 at pretty much any

04:25:59.520 age

04:25:59.940 right but I mean

04:26:01.860 a lot of the

04:26:02.540 reasoning that these

04:26:03.240 men say they want 0.71

04:26:03.920 an 18 19 year old

04:26:04.880 is because they

04:26:05.500 lack baggage and

04:26:06.700 lack trauma so by

04:26:07.660 you're also more

04:26:08.420 physically attractive

04:26:09.160 I mean I think

04:26:11.160 that's subjective

04:26:11.720 well I mean how

04:26:12.940 dare a man be

04:26:13.520 attracted to a

04:26:14.140 woman at the

04:26:14.600 height of her

04:26:15.300 physical attractiveness

04:26:16.400 and fertility

04:26:16.980 yeah I didn't say

04:26:18.320 that he can't be

04:26:19.000 attracted to somebody

04:26:19.800 that age but I

04:26:20.560 think when you get

04:26:21.160 to a certain point

04:26:22.020 it's more so like

04:26:22.960 oh she lacks

04:26:23.560 experience I'm able

04:26:24.480 to take advantage

04:26:25.120 of that she doesn't

04:26:26.240 have these hangups

04:26:27.100 that's kind of

04:26:27.620 projection but

04:26:28.320 you're implying

04:26:28.940 that that primordial

04:26:29.720 attractive is

04:26:30.400 attraction is

04:26:31.920 predatory I mean

04:26:32.840 it could be

04:26:33.220 predatory but that's

04:26:34.480 not always the case

04:26:35.240 I mean when you're

04:26:36.660 coming at it as oh

04:26:37.800 she doesn't have

04:26:38.260 any baggage she

04:26:38.860 doesn't have any

04:26:39.280 relationship experience

04:26:40.260 this is somebody that

04:26:41.080 I can easily take

04:26:42.000 advantage of

04:26:42.720 some people don't

04:26:43.320 want to deal with

04:26:43.960 that it's a lot of

04:26:44.700 people aren't

04:26:45.080 don't want to deal

04:26:45.740 with someone

04:26:46.580 yeah baggage

04:26:47.920 trauma some people

04:26:48.860 don't want to have

04:26:49.300 to deal with trauma

04:26:49.880 they don't want to

04:26:50.460 have to they just

04:26:51.440 want to become

04:26:51.880 somebody else's

04:26:52.700 trauma no no

04:26:53.880 that is a very

04:26:55.820 bleak way of looking

04:26:56.760 at relationships

04:26:57.120 women women 1.00

04:26:58.000 especially with the

04:26:58.780 incidence of mental

04:26:59.580 health that's going

04:27:00.160 up like I'm sure

04:27:00.800 y'all at least know

04:27:01.820 like most of your

04:27:02.660 friends at least have

04:27:03.220 anxiety or depression

04:27:04.120 or some form of

04:27:04.700 mental illness you

04:27:05.580 get a girl who's 0.99

04:27:06.260 younger closer to a

04:27:07.840 blank slate than

04:27:08.460 anything low body

04:27:10.020 count has not been

04:27:11.320 tainted by the world

04:27:12.300 like why doesn't that

04:27:13.160 make more sense

04:27:14.600 going to be less

04:27:15.400 combative fight with

04:27:16.680 you less more

04:27:17.400 respectful in the

04:27:18.240 relationship and

04:27:19.600 doesn't have any

04:27:20.340 baggage

04:27:20.680 experience I mean life

04:27:22.240 experience for sure

04:27:23.160 helps but I feel like

04:27:24.420 for trauma it can go

04:27:25.460 one of two ways with

04:27:26.340 women it could ruin 1.00

04:27:27.320 them or it could make

04:27:28.540 them stronger and the

04:27:29.500 percentile that it makes

04:27:30.500 stronger is very minimal

04:27:32.360 by comparison and I

04:27:33.240 think trauma affects the

04:27:34.140 way that relationships go

04:27:35.480 like it has a lot to do

04:27:37.240 with relationships like oh

04:27:38.420 I'm traumatized because

04:27:39.460 this happened to me so

04:27:40.660 these older men have

04:27:41.460 no trauma yeah like

04:27:42.620 these men don't have any

04:27:43.620 trauma

04:27:44.000 again men and women are

04:27:46.460 different trauma affects

04:27:47.740 men differently than

04:27:48.540 women I believe it does 0.96

04:27:50.060 and I don't think it's

04:27:51.400 the partner's

04:27:51.860 responsibility to have

04:27:53.200 someone with that

04:27:53.840 amount of emotional

04:27:54.420 baggage it's I think

04:27:55.340 it's absolutely okay to

04:27:56.720 be like I don't want

04:27:57.520 someone who is still

04:27:59.080 dealing with these

04:27:59.780 problems like maybe if

04:28:01.000 they've healed from it

04:28:01.800 you know it's fine but

04:28:02.540 like there's certain

04:28:03.180 people who aren't

04:28:03.860 equipped to deal with

04:28:04.620 that sort of thing and

04:28:05.560 some people don't want

04:28:06.320 a relation some people

04:28:07.080 are seeking casual

04:28:07.900 relationships you don't

04:28:08.800 want to and they don't

04:28:09.840 seek out relationships

04:28:11.000 with this amount of

04:28:11.820 debt to them and so you

04:28:12.760 don't really want someone

04:28:13.580 who might you know harm

04:28:15.300 them in some way not

04:28:16.120 harm physically or harm

04:28:17.320 emotionally but there are

04:28:18.420 certain behaviors that

04:28:19.380 traumatized people might

04:28:20.380 exhibit due to their

04:28:22.580 trauma that might hurt

04:28:24.000 the relationship and I

04:28:25.320 myself have trauma and

04:28:26.520 I'm not going to go

04:28:27.040 ahead and dump it but I'm

04:28:28.020 saying that has

04:28:28.760 absolutely affected the

04:28:29.720 way I've interacted with

04:28:30.620 people that's affected

04:28:31.380 the way that I've loved

04:28:32.600 people that's affected

04:28:33.520 the way that I've

04:28:34.260 received love and I

04:28:36.220 think it's just not I

04:28:38.300 don't blame the people

04:28:39.220 for not wanting that

04:28:40.180 what's your question then

04:28:41.900 we have a couple chats

04:28:43.020 go ahead I was just

04:28:43.760 going to ask I'm curious

04:28:44.780 if anyone knows how does

04:28:46.500 trauma affect men and

04:28:47.940 women differently or like 1.00

04:28:48.800 how does that come out

04:28:49.560 differently if anything

04:28:51.340 what I've heard is that 0.78

04:28:54.960 men with mental disorders 0.71

04:28:56.740 and usually show it way 0.98

04:28:58.900 more than women do like 1.00

04:29:01.020 borderline personality

04:29:02.120 disorder men tend to be way 1.00

04:29:03.940 more aggressive than women 1.00

04:29:05.420 do than women are so I 1.00

04:29:07.820 think you are a little bit

04:29:09.160 wrong with that because some

04:29:11.200 men simply cannot control

04:29:13.340 themselves well that's the

04:29:14.160 way it's exhibited it's going

04:29:15.060 back to the saying that like

04:29:16.080 men and women commit suicide 0.99

04:29:17.520 equally but most men

04:29:18.920 actually die of suicide

04:29:20.420 because when it gets them

04:29:21.980 it's going to actually

04:29:22.700 affect them most women 1.00

04:29:23.520 attempt more because let

04:29:24.800 me finish what most women 0.99

04:29:26.560 attempt more because men 0.89

04:29:28.040 don't care about how they

04:29:30.300 die they want to do it in

04:29:31.720 the most crazy way possible

04:29:34.120 let's move on from that

04:29:35.060 okay let me do some chats

04:29:36.120 here we have Al Rez here 0.99

04:29:37.420 uh I guess bits aren't

04:29:41.360 accepted but a few of these

04:29:42.620 girls know what they are 1.00

04:29:43.960 talking about I'm an older

04:29:44.860 man that used to date older

04:29:46.300 women in my 20s pH balance 0.98

04:29:48.400 oh god it's no joke I've

04:29:50.820 learned a lot over the years 0.97

04:29:52.420 and boiling a sex toy is the 0.87

04:29:54.440 only way to sanitize what the 0.99

04:29:55.980 you boil them you boil sex 0.99

04:29:59.080 with brother it's like you 0.98

04:30:00.160 melt it in the same pot that

04:30:01.800 you're making Kraft mac and

04:30:02.960 cheese that's right hell now 0.98

04:30:04.580 souffle I'm making a dildo 0.98

04:30:06.620 souffle um wait boiling a 1.00

04:30:09.800 sex toy the only way to 0.99

04:30:11.200 what's what's what are those 0.92

04:30:12.780 things called that heat

04:30:13.480 things an autoclave wait

04:30:15.700 autoclave is that a thing

04:30:16.760 that's correct yeah that's 0.97

04:30:18.620 that's where I put my sex 1.00

04:30:19.840 toys the autoclave thank you 0.96

04:30:21.600 man appreciate it testing

04:30:22.760 tolerance here thank you man

04:30:24.180 for the uh stream labs

04:30:25.400 donation what does a 40 year

04:30:27.060 old man have in common with

04:30:28.080 an 18 year old 18 year old 1.00

04:30:30.060 woman dumbest question ever 1.00

04:30:32.360 asked by wall approaching 1.00

04:30:34.040 women how about 15 million 1.00

04:30:36.240 years of primate evolution

04:30:38.040 amazing levels of ignorance

04:30:40.380 here not my words don't 0.63

04:30:42.520 shoot the messenger that is

04:30:43.560 if you guys want to talk 0.95

04:30:44.900 about evolution and then you

04:30:46.340 guys come on here and call 0.95

04:30:47.480 girls fat okay let's talk 0.95

04:30:49.480 about how back then in 0.97

04:30:50.860 evolution if you guys have

04:30:52.000 ever ever heard of I think

04:30:54.120 it's like um the body of

04:30:56.260 venus or something like that

04:30:57.320 I could be completely wrong on

04:30:58.960 the name of the it was like a

04:31:01.600 super super old uh ancient

04:31:03.800 artifact from like literally

04:31:05.860 like the caveman days and it

04:31:07.800 was literally this woman who

04:31:09.220 is like a little caveman days

04:31:11.340 from the caveman days I don't

04:31:12.940 think they were okay no

04:31:14.220 like Italian renaissance yeah

04:31:17.580 okay it was like something it

04:31:18.740 was like something like they

04:31:19.840 found it in like a cave or

04:31:20.940 something like back then when

04:31:21.880 people would like still do cave

04:31:23.300 stuff I'm not exactly sure on

04:31:24.760 what year but um there was this

04:31:27.200 woman who was literally like a 0.96

04:31:29.220 bigger woman and she you know 1.00

04:31:31.760 had wide hips big boobs like 1.00

04:31:33.820 they were a little bit saggy but 0.97

04:31:35.240 like it doesn't matter because

04:31:37.180 that that's what like beauty was

04:31:40.020 back then because biology let me

04:31:42.020 finish because because the

04:31:44.440 standard is different yeah the

04:31:45.560 standard is different when you

04:31:46.920 back then the caveman would look

04:31:48.760 at that and biology would be like

04:31:50.080 okay literally go for that woman 0.99

04:31:51.700 because she can she's fertile she 1.00

04:31:53.500 looks well that's true you guys

04:31:54.780 mentioned earlier that men should

04:31:57.260 evolve from certain behaviors so

04:32:01.100 why can't women evolve to not be 1.00

04:32:03.940 fat I'm literally just saying

04:32:06.540 how men like to talk about 0.71

04:32:08.200 biology all the time but then

04:32:09.500 like they like to come up on

04:32:10.720 here bringing up a statue has

04:32:12.040 nothing to do with biology I'm

04:32:13.720 saying that that's biologically

04:32:15.360 yeah biologically this was the

04:32:17.240 most beautiful woman figure ever it

04:32:19.240 was beautiful beauty but I think

04:32:21.420 with the right clothes the right

04:32:22.560 look you could be very striking

04:32:24.060 it was a I think that was Nick

04:32:29.040 who said that how dare you Nick

04:32:33.220 well being fat might have been

04:32:35.060 desirable back then I don't like

04:32:37.220 you okay let's do it's not that it

04:32:39.240 was it's not that being fat was

04:32:41.120 desirable is that I think it was

04:32:42.760 you look like you could with sand

04:32:45.360 childbirth wide hips well we have a 0.97

04:32:48.320 chat here from Jai Kai here thank

04:32:50.700 for the 50 for Naomi hands down you're

04:32:53.160 the most beautiful girl on this

04:32:54.280 podcast you have true class and love

04:32:58.300 God those two qualities make you a 10

04:33:00.320 oh actually you know what speaking of

04:33:02.380 that we have stifler here ask everyone

04:33:05.000 to rate their looks on the scale of one

04:33:06.220 to 10 starting with you go ahead I've

04:33:09.980 already thought about this I saw that

04:33:11.920 earlier and I was gonna say like I'd

04:33:14.200 say like probably a six or seven

04:33:16.060 probably close to the seven okay to be

04:33:17.600 generous a 10 all right seven

04:33:21.160 um I don't know just throw something

04:33:27.640 out there throw something out there

04:33:28.860 I don't really I don't want to okay

04:33:33.580 what about you 10 baby okay okay well

04:33:37.160 judging that they both said seven I'm

04:33:38.880 gonna say seven because I think yeah I'll

04:33:41.180 say five fresh out of the shower six and

04:33:47.240 a half to seven seven on average eight

04:33:50.300 on a good day okay I get my I give myself

04:33:52.560 a six myself six mate okay so 10 10 yeah

04:33:59.240 10 out of 10 yes so perfect you guys are

04:34:02.240 perfect in my own eyes absolutely perfect

04:34:04.880 but it's just just why am I gonna come on

04:34:07.300 to the internet and be like yeah five like

04:34:10.120 I'm just putting myself down I it took

04:34:11.860 me so long to love myself Brian I'm

04:34:14.420 gonna stay here and I'm gonna be like I

04:34:16.360 I love myself I'm a 10 um I don't care

04:34:19.180 what you think I don't care if you don't

04:34:20.680 think I'm a 10 but I'm beautiful wait

04:34:23.100 so question question should everybody be

04:34:25.760 a 10 yeah everybody should all women

04:34:28.420 should all are all women 10s I think we 1.00

04:34:30.340 should all feel like a 10 I just wasn't

04:34:31.620 gonna go in with that because I think

04:34:32.940 they're 10s and they're rating themselves

04:34:34.120 seven so I'm like okay all right I think

04:34:36.500 women are beautiful so all women should 1.00

04:34:38.800 be 10s I think all women should I agree 0.98

04:34:40.700 they shall feel like 10s absolutely they

04:34:42.560 all have should all are all men 10s all 0.94

04:34:45.200 men should feel like they're 10s absolutely

04:34:46.640 no but do you view all men as 10s I mean

04:34:50.240 of course not but I'm rating myself am I

04:34:53.240 not I'm not rating you yeah I think Brian

04:34:59.480 gets so hurt anytime somebody rates

04:35:01.500 themselves a 10 yeah I'm deeply hurt I'm

04:35:03.840 deeply hurt I'm so hurt I feel like a

04:35:06.120 healthy self-image is based on number

04:35:07.960 one your own self-love that should come

04:35:09.320 for us but it should also come from

04:35:10.580 outside influence as well not not that

04:35:12.720 shouldn't be the main thing but it is a

04:35:14.280 healthy perspective yeah why would I

04:35:17.200 allow what somebody else thinks because

04:35:18.980 otherwise you live in an echo chamber

04:35:20.320 otherwise you live in an echo chamber and

04:35:21.920 your own bias your confirmation bias in

04:35:24.620 your own life would lead you to be very

04:35:25.920 being very wrong not necessarily with your

04:35:27.780 looks but with personal flaws that you

04:35:29.740 may encounter I know my personal flaws I'm

04:35:33.220 just saying I'm not thinking I'm the

04:35:35.260 most perfect person in the world is

04:35:37.120 Lizzo a 10 Lizzo beautiful Lizzo is a

04:35:39.940 10 absolutely is beautiful and a great

04:35:43.180 role model I think that it's great and I

04:35:46.080 think everybody it's great if they feel

04:35:47.640 like they're a 10 and they should feel

04:35:48.800 like they're a 10 but being realistic

04:35:50.600 like I the reason I rated myself on that

04:35:53.040 too is just based off like like I said

04:35:54.720 character defects things that probably

04:35:56.600 wouldn't make me a 10 in other people's

04:35:58.120 eyes things that I could improve on and

04:36:00.040 that's just being like realistic yeah I

04:36:01.960 just keep that a little bit private

04:36:03.160 because it's not anyone's business to

04:36:05.280 know like my character flaws you know

04:36:07.100 like not something I really want to put

04:36:08.900 out into the internet I want those of

04:36:10.600 those of you who rated you get those

04:36:12.340 cheap makeup wipes away from me get

04:36:14.600 those cheap makeup wipes away from me

04:36:16.500 literally get them away that's gonna make

04:36:19.140 me break out that's anybody want to

04:36:20.760 break out take literally I don't even

04:36:22.540 want to see that anybody want to revise

04:36:24.460 their answer I think I look better

04:36:25.660 without makeup actually if you like

04:36:30.020 brought like mints like missler water

04:36:32.560 or something yeah okay neutrogena I'm

04:36:34.140 not gonna use those I have a whole

04:36:35.200 skincare routine and like you've had

04:36:36.940 you've had that bag of makeup wipes

04:36:38.700 has anybody actually like taken off

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04:38:23.080 dwight dwight root all right we have

04:38:26.760 the brunette wait did i read this one 0.99

04:38:29.840 the brunette with the accent i didn't 0.98

04:38:31.760 catch her name is beautiful plus smart 1.00

04:38:33.460 huge w if she's still single then she's 1.00

04:38:35.640 a walking trifecta either way she makes 1.00

04:38:38.440 you three or fours look like what you 1.00

04:38:40.000 truly are but i can't say because

04:38:42.460 society is woke

04:38:43.940 cat what's her he wants your name by

04:38:47.660 the way amy dangerfield her name is

04:38:50.160 amy dangerfield any relation to rodney

04:38:53.940 i wish no respect no respect okay tyler

04:38:58.480 thing for the 557 with six figures and

04:39:00.920 seven inches how did the ladies rate 1.00

04:39:02.380 that just curious okay how do you guys

04:39:05.000 rate a guy who has a cat avatar is it

04:39:08.520 five seven oh he's five seven height six

04:39:11.820 figures and his appendage is seven

04:39:15.300 inches if that's your cat it actually

04:39:16.860 helps you all i can do a good rating so

04:39:19.140 the cat already starting off strong

04:39:20.980 okay five seven that's perfect that's

04:39:23.640 like an inch and a half taller than me

04:39:25.240 um six figures whatever that's not really

04:39:28.160 important seven inches might be too much

04:39:30.360 not sure how i feel about that

04:39:32.340 that was really good so you're saying that

04:39:37.100 her ex has a chance oh i just want to

04:39:40.460 say i'm sorry for being mean i was

04:39:42.660 petty of me to say that i just want to

04:39:44.360 say it was petty of me redemption are

04:39:46.220 i've had a very long day redemption

04:39:47.880 arc i'm a backpedal i'm a backpedal

04:39:49.660 apologize you had a bad day because you

04:39:52.320 you said i didn't have a bad day i had a

04:39:54.660 long day long day long day but i do

04:39:58.980 want to apologize it was rude i'm gonna

04:40:00.740 say that it was rude apology

04:40:02.060 accepted thank you sort of on behalf of

04:40:04.760 your boyfriend who's coming on the

04:40:06.460 show and he's going to talk about

04:40:07.520 he's coming on the show he's going to

04:40:11.720 talk about okay all right uh do you guys

04:40:14.920 want to hear quick quick just rate him

04:40:16.980 just rate him quick just knee-jerk

04:40:19.020 five seven isn't tall enough for me okay

04:40:20.880 what about you no he's good he's fine

04:40:22.660 yeah

04:40:23.300 yeah i think the cat really helps

04:40:28.000 yeah i don't want to rate him i have a

04:40:30.400 boyfriend he's very beautiful five eight's

04:40:31.880 usually my minimum but we would see

04:40:33.760 i like the cat though cute cat naomi um i

04:40:38.260 don't know i don't know what he looks

04:40:39.280 like isn't naomi i moan backwards yes i

04:40:43.140 got that joke a lot in freaking in middle

04:40:45.620 school high school like do you know what

04:40:47.460 naomi is backwards cliche okay um let's 0.99

04:40:50.180 see oh alara's weird top is a 10 with

04:40:53.100 great late night talks bangs is a eight

04:40:55.160 with many late night fights far right and

04:40:57.220 far left just for the bed and camera alara's

04:40:59.560 thank you man uh who is the weird top who

04:41:02.720 has the weird top i'm assuming you is that

04:41:05.380 you with the weird top who has the weird

04:41:07.240 top i don't know who has the weird top

04:41:08.600 um okay we have npc rl literally the two

04:41:11.720 claiming they are 10 are the absolute

04:41:13.120 that thing uh looks and personality girl on 1.00

04:41:17.480 the far right is a nine plus i think that's

04:41:20.720 you these are the highest ratings i've ever

04:41:22.660 gotten in my life so i'm like soaking it all

04:41:24.660 in right now yeah you're okay you're

04:41:27.040 beautiful you're definitely you're like

04:41:29.920 you're the prettiest girl on the panel by

04:41:31.440 fall yeah that's you baby i'm gonna kiss

04:41:34.840 you guys all later

04:41:35.600 haram bang uh anahaya and as as is that

04:41:45.400 what you're saying did you go as i mean

04:41:46.860 whatever he's kind of insulting you guys

04:41:48.780 do you have a response to npc irl i mean

04:41:51.520 he's literally an npc so why do i

04:41:54.260 roasted boom you're done you would never

04:41:56.380 have a chance with either of us that's

04:41:58.100 right npc bangs would never go i'm sorry

04:42:01.120 sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i keep i'm

04:42:03.240 sorry okay say my name again say it

04:42:07.620 is that like this is getting a little

04:42:09.460 no say it just say i need to hear you

04:42:11.380 say my name no say it the correct way

04:42:13.980 gertrude okay we got it sweet i want to

04:42:18.120 try to get through all of your guys's

04:42:19.880 pre-show notes that you sent me because i

04:42:21.460 want to be considerate of everyone that

04:42:23.760 provided them so we have we're getting

04:42:26.280 there we're getting there so i think we

04:42:27.700 hit most of uh as's points sc you got

04:42:31.780 catfished on a date once i tried to

04:42:33.800 stick it out i should have left uh very

04:42:35.680 quickly what happened on your catfish

04:42:37.880 date oh my gosh so this was like around

04:42:40.580 covid so um i'll preface it with that i

04:42:44.120 met him on a dating app we got along

04:42:46.000 really really well but because of covid

04:42:47.700 happening a lot of the businesses were

04:42:48.920 closed so we were waiting a while to

04:42:50.760 plan the first date um we ended up

04:42:52.860 getting um like coffee to go somewhere

04:42:55.120 and like that was the date but um i

04:42:58.200 remember like pulling up to the place

04:42:59.980 where we were meeting and he i'm like

04:43:02.180 looking for him because he said he

04:43:03.400 would be waiting outside and he was

04:43:05.200 like i'm literally outside right now and

04:43:06.820 i'm like i don't see you anywhere he's

04:43:08.700 like i'm literally standing in front of

04:43:09.880 the door and i'm like oh no in this

04:43:12.040 moment i realized i was probably getting

04:43:14.140 catfished um and he looked vaguely like

04:43:18.180 the photos like it was almost like the

04:43:20.040 photos were taken maybe when he was like

04:43:21.880 very very young and from like partial

04:43:24.600 angles um but i wanted to stick it out

04:43:27.100 because we had such a good emotional

04:43:28.500 connection that i thought maybe like i

04:43:29.980 could obviously look past like that um

04:43:32.860 because he we really did get along really

04:43:34.700 well so i wanted to stick it out and i

04:43:37.160 definitely should not have done that i've

04:43:39.020 learned my lesson um he ended up being

04:43:41.320 like a little bit crazy um like needless to

04:43:45.060 say we like went back to his apartment to

04:43:47.140 drink the coffee like sit in the living

04:43:48.460 room and he like had to go to his

04:43:49.800 bedroom to take a light bulb out of the

04:43:51.500 lamp from the bedroom to bring it and put

04:43:53.300 the light bulb in the lamp in the living

04:43:55.140 room and then he like offered me chili

04:43:56.540 that he cooked it was like very weird

04:43:58.120 is it really good i didn't eat it

04:44:00.220 wow poisoned chili poison chili so there

04:44:04.860 is just a one and done date situation 0.64

04:44:07.340 okay so he's a little crazy are you a 0.93

04:44:09.720 little crazy though like a little crazy 0.93

04:44:11.340 i i mean i feel like everybody's a

04:44:13.340 little bit crazy i don't want to just 0.77

04:44:14.600 proclaim myself as being a crazy woman

04:44:16.620 okay and then your other thing is i'd 0.85

04:44:18.260 like to speak on women paying for first 0.99

04:44:19.960 dates this is a hot take with my

04:44:22.200 friends and they hate when i do this are

04:44:25.620 you guys her friends by the way do you

04:44:26.920 hate when she does this 0.93

04:44:27.820 do you disavow her paying for you

04:44:31.600 disavow i mean i wouldn't say disavow i

04:44:34.160 think it i think this i don't know if

04:44:36.160 this is necessary i mean like i know a

04:44:37.600 lot of people view it as a hot take i

04:44:39.180 don't necessarily think it matters if

04:44:41.300 the woman pays for the date first if 1.00

04:44:43.100 she's like okay with that i personally

04:44:45.760 will always offer you know when i was

04:44:48.520 single i would always offer um and even

04:44:51.140 now in my relationship like i don't

04:44:53.160 mind paying for dates and stuff first

04:44:54.800 date i think i can kind of go either

04:44:56.120 way but yeah i think that's a

04:44:57.220 conversation that just varies person to

04:44:59.500 person wait hold on so you question

04:45:01.260 for you you said you would offer but

04:45:03.060 was it a token courtesy offer or was it

04:45:05.800 like would you be upset if a guy took

04:45:07.840 you up on your offer to pay i mean not

04:45:10.400 necessarily no oh okay go ahead what's

04:45:12.580 your take oh um i'm just very adamant

04:45:15.720 about paying for the first date

04:45:17.120 especially if it's somebody that i

04:45:18.300 really like just a point of

04:45:19.800 clarification when you say paying for

04:45:21.020 the first date you mean paying for

04:45:22.380 your stuff or paying for both

04:45:24.280 everything yeah you'll pay for the dude

04:45:26.520 yeah oh that's interesting yeah yeah i

04:45:29.700 just want to show

04:45:30.840 she's a queen it's good it's good okay i

04:45:39.240 just really like showing like that i

04:45:41.640 that i care and i feel like guys

04:45:43.820 deserve to be treated too so that for me

04:45:46.620 but it can go 50 50 sometimes the guys

04:45:48.780 really don't like it um and sometimes

04:45:51.080 the guys really do like it and they they

04:45:52.860 like enjoy it but i always say like hey

04:45:54.620 i'll pay for this you pay for the second

04:45:56.280 date

04:45:56.700 what was that that was my rating okay sorry

04:45:59.060 um but yeah i'm always like i'll pay for

04:46:01.040 the first date you pay for the second and

04:46:02.740 that like also insinuates that we'll see

04:46:04.360 each other again

04:46:04.960 i feel like some men do get offended

04:46:08.040 though if i like were to even like take

04:46:11.260 out my wallet they'd be like no no no no

04:46:12.720 like i'll do it you know and like it's

04:46:15.260 almost like a stab to their masculinity

04:46:18.660 almost i feel like some men are really

04:46:21.360 like no i like the leader i guess and

04:46:24.220 they want to pay they want to do do it

04:46:26.240 all they want to plan out the date and

04:46:27.880 then even when like you like fake take

04:46:29.580 out your wallet and you're like and

04:46:31.520 they're like i feel like a lot of it

04:46:33.760 though too is i mean going from the

04:46:35.780 expectation of women because it is so 1.00

04:46:37.540 common for women to expect men to pay 0.94

04:46:39.200 for the first date and so if they really

04:46:40.720 like a girl they might just be like no 1.00

04:46:42.480 no no because they don't want to screw

04:46:43.600 up their chances with that woman because

04:46:45.520 i don't necessarily think it matters

04:46:46.860 but i think most men i mean some might

04:46:49.000 feel emasculated but i think a lot of

04:46:50.500 it is just the expectation of oh i have

04:46:52.220 to pay for this date or i'm never going

04:46:53.540 to see this girl again yeah

04:46:54.580 i guess at my age when i go into a date

04:46:59.980 i mean i have paid for a date before like

04:47:01.760 on second on third like when we're

04:47:02.960 actually trying to pursue something and

04:47:04.140 i realize okay i like him he likes me

04:47:05.580 oh let me pay for the date and they're

04:47:07.280 still like no no no no i'll do it but

04:47:09.180 like i was perfectly willing to pay for

04:47:10.900 that like 80 date or whatever but i guess

04:47:13.440 at my age now that i'm older when i'm

04:47:16.100 when i'm choosing people or saying yes

04:47:17.900 to people who are inviting me out i'm

04:47:19.400 really really picky and so i'm looking

04:47:21.580 for like husband material so for me if

04:47:23.060 you're gonna be my provider you're gonna

04:47:24.040 be my protector if i'm my hips are gonna

04:47:26.160 separate to bear your child i'm gonna 0.99

04:47:27.980 gain weight i would hope you'd pay for

04:47:29.800 me on the first date exactly do you see

04:47:31.220 what i mean but but prefer to cook it

04:47:32.880 granted i mean i can but i'm just

04:47:34.820 saying like if you were to invite me on

04:47:36.380 the date and like he's trying to show

04:47:38.220 me like hey you know i can be husband

04:47:39.720 material okay after that we can split so

04:47:42.060 we can i can pay for you because i love

04:47:43.560 you you love me whatever but i feel like

04:47:45.680 maybe the first day especially at my age

04:47:47.760 yeah it'd be nice i feel like i see kind

04:47:50.000 of just has the role reversal of how the

04:47:51.560 man feels like the man is usually is like 0.94

04:47:54.080 oh i want to treat her i want to make

04:47:55.460 sure she knows that she's being treated

04:47:56.660 whereas s he's kind of just flipping it

04:47:58.440 and being like no i want to show you that

04:47:59.860 like you deserve to be treated as well yeah

04:48:01.660 i think i think that's just kind of what

04:48:03.480 he takes the lead in that and then you

04:48:04.980 can like kind of follow as yeah as after

04:48:07.120 that would you if you want to pay for

04:48:08.440 him you know yeah i've paid for dates

04:48:11.100 just not the first one right you know

04:48:13.700 would you feel emasculated if a woman 1.00

04:48:15.700 paid for the first date entirely

04:48:17.320 he wants that

04:48:19.320 that's gangster it's gangster she she's so 1.00

04:48:23.000 into you

04:48:23.760 i think oblivion is plausibly that um

04:48:27.200 i got this chick all right um that 1.00

04:48:32.280 yeah she's just so into you yeah i don't

04:48:35.520 think there's anything wrong with it

04:48:36.780 necessarily

04:48:37.420 i don't know i think it just depends yeah

04:48:39.440 it's good i mean i'd prefer to cook it

04:48:41.160 cook just in general just like i i wouldn't

04:48:43.980 want to like for a first date you want

04:48:45.460 someone in your home okay maybe not

04:48:46.600 first date but just in general like i'd

04:48:48.300 prefer to

04:48:48.740 no no i ain't got a home bro but uh

04:48:51.960 i'm kidding joke joke um but i don't

04:48:55.140 know i'd prefer to cook but like i would

04:48:56.800 want to pay for the first date like i

04:48:58.140 don't know like i just treat on me i

04:49:00.540 don't know i think some men are like

04:49:02.300 super worried like oh now i have to pay

04:49:04.480 for the first

04:49:05.180 day i will say though i do go in like

04:49:08.660 expecting to pay for my half sometimes

04:49:10.260 yeah yeah no and then that's good but

04:49:13.200 then like yeah in reality like when i go

04:49:15.380 on a first date like i'm not worried

04:49:17.080 about like i'm not thinking about like

04:49:18.400 oh my gosh like i have to pay i'm like

04:49:21.280 oh my gosh i'm gonna send my friends my

04:49:23.040 location

04:49:23.520 yeah i'm like i'm gonna make sure i

04:49:25.800 don't get killed

04:49:26.540 you know modern problems call for

04:49:29.520 modern solutions

04:49:30.500 so i think you should split you should

04:49:33.440 split the bill or i mean look if the

04:49:34.960 girl wants to pay 1.00

04:49:35.700 sweet yeah there's nothing wrong with

04:49:38.080 that yeah that's just rare

04:49:39.300 one time a chick bought me a burrito 1.00

04:49:40.980 there's no rules that was nice there's

04:49:42.580 no rules

04:49:43.200 it's fully i mean i think like especially

04:49:45.800 if you're going on a first date with

04:49:46.840 somebody that might be

04:49:47.580 a conversation worth having i know it's

04:49:49.440 kind of awkward but then like

04:49:50.800 if you're actually really liking

04:49:52.180 someone and it's coming down to the

04:49:53.520 check being the final decider like i

04:49:55.680 think that's just bizarre

04:49:56.600 yeah like oh i don't want to go out

04:49:58.280 with him ever again or see him because

04:50:00.040 he didn't pay for me that one time

04:50:02.320 yeah that wouldn't be a rule breaker

04:50:03.780 for me

04:50:04.200 like if i went on a day and i really

04:50:05.540 liked the guy and he's like

04:50:07.140 okay like let's split i'd kind of be

04:50:10.040 like oh maybe he wasn't that into me

04:50:11.640 amy what do you think

04:50:14.100 what do you think amy clarify the

04:50:16.240 question for me again

04:50:17.600 oh just like who should pay on the

04:50:19.780 first date

04:50:20.180 um men

04:50:22.360 yeah cool i'm so excited i would that's

04:50:27.580 what i would expect i mean from

04:50:28.840 obviously with

04:50:30.260 this modern day and age it could be

04:50:32.300 whoever and nobody has to be offended

04:50:33.840 by it but for me personally if a guy

04:50:35.700 is

04:50:35.960 taking me out on a date you better be

04:50:37.860 paying

04:50:38.120 yeah whoever asks i think especially

04:50:40.780 as a girl you have to get ready you

04:50:42.280 know like makeup's expensive you maybe

04:50:44.140 get a new outfit like you spend hours

04:50:46.180 getting ready i like it it takes me

04:50:48.340 hours to get ready i don't i don't

04:50:49.980 think that like oh i put on makeup

04:50:51.560 thing is a good argument for why

04:50:53.320 men should get it 0.98

04:50:53.860 it depends on the type of woman you 1.00

04:50:55.980 are like

04:50:56.280 for a woman if you're like a woman

04:50:58.320 who wants a more like traditional

04:50:59.640 relationship then you would want it

04:51:01.060 to kind of start that way as well

04:51:02.520 you know so for me like i want a more

04:51:04.140 traditional relationship so for me

04:51:05.760 that's like a given it's not even

04:51:07.220 something i need to think about you

04:51:08.740 know

04:51:09.240 we're continually dating i have no

04:51:10.980 problem i just don't like feeling

04:51:12.400 like a bum like i just don't like 1.00

04:51:14.060 feeling like a bum i don't know 0.66

04:51:15.080 maybe that's just amazing but i just

04:51:16.680 don't like feeling like a bum

04:51:17.820 well ultimately too like if you guys

04:51:19.520 are pursuing marriage or whatever

04:51:20.700 he's going to provide for you and the

04:51:22.100 kid so that's a good example it's a

04:51:23.720 good start like you said

04:51:24.520 okay so you think it's a hot take

04:51:27.840 that you

04:51:28.360 it's on you it's not unusual is not

04:51:31.640 the right word it's uncommon i have a

04:51:33.840 question for women to pay for the 1.00

04:51:34.760 first date i don't think it's

04:51:35.720 uncommon have you ever had a guy like

04:51:36.860 try to take advantage of you because

04:51:38.180 that was your generosity in the

04:51:39.840 beginning

04:51:40.160 um i have to think about that one i

04:51:44.660 don't think i've ever had a guy try

04:51:46.440 to take advantage of me necessarily

04:51:48.440 um

04:51:49.580 trying to think was there ever like

04:51:52.420 not a second date where you're like

04:51:54.100 oh you get the next one

04:51:55.140 not really i don't think so

04:51:58.100 and then you okay you also said your

04:52:01.060 hot take would be that dating is 0.99

04:52:02.320 backwards backwards now it's sex first 0.98

04:52:04.880 emotional connection second 0.96

04:52:06.120 which you hate

04:52:07.360 yes yeah i just think that like like

04:52:10.360 everyone's talking about like

04:52:11.460 promiscuity and like social media

04:52:13.080 dating apps

04:52:13.760 all of these things combined really

04:52:15.520 affect like how modern dating has

04:52:17.920 become and now it's more so like

04:52:19.900 there's all these options all the

04:52:22.080 time constantly

04:52:23.000 so why would anybody want to commit

04:52:25.600 or feel the need to settle down

04:52:27.300 i mean me personally i'm saving it

04:52:28.920 till marriage but i've had a lot of

04:52:30.220 friends who um have gone into

04:52:33.420 relationships where it's sex first 0.83

04:52:34.760 and they just often feel so

04:52:35.880 dissatisfied because like what would

04:52:37.560 have been like a nice intimate

04:52:38.740 moment is just completely destroyed

04:52:40.220 by

04:52:40.500 yeah are these guys or girls

04:52:42.320 both

04:52:43.540 a mixture

04:52:44.100 absolutely yeah

04:52:45.940 yeah previous to my really my

04:52:48.000 current relationship i was celibate

04:52:49.560 for about two two and a half years

04:52:51.580 and um you know i just had made that

04:52:54.800 decision for myself because i felt

04:52:56.360 like

04:52:56.620 the expectation for sex was like the

04:52:58.840 first thing that the men wanted and

04:53:00.200 i was like

04:53:00.680 well you are only using me for the

04:53:03.500 sexual component of everything and i

04:53:05.380 don't really like that it does i

04:53:06.760 don't like the way that it makes me

04:53:07.940 feel so i was waiting and waiting

04:53:10.040 and just seeing and you know i would

04:53:11.700 go on dates and like people would be

04:53:13.160 putting so much pressure i'm like

04:53:14.140 well clearly

04:53:14.660 you're not somebody that i want to be

04:53:16.480 with if you're going to continue to

04:53:17.760 pressure me like that

04:53:18.580 and so i just i think it really

04:53:21.820 changed my view on dating and my view

04:53:23.560 on relationships and what i wanted in

04:53:25.180 somebody

04:53:25.560 again i think casual sex is fine if 0.51

04:53:28.000 that's what you want i'm not going to

04:53:29.260 shame anybody for that but

04:53:30.440 celibacy really changed my view on who i

04:53:32.880 was dating and why

04:53:33.740 respect so that's your hot take

04:53:38.860 that's it i think she's got a good 0.94

04:53:44.020 point though with as far as the

04:53:45.760 settling down because of dating apps

04:53:47.380 and everything like that in social

04:53:48.540 media because i see it in actual

04:53:50.780 long-term relationships too where men

04:53:52.380 are liking other instagram models

04:53:54.120 photos and whatever um where they're

04:53:57.240 just constantly looking for the next

04:53:58.580 thing so it's very easy for people to

04:54:00.580 move on and go oh well there's like

04:54:02.060 this catalog of women or this

04:54:03.440 catalog of men that i can log on and

04:54:05.120 i can just swipe through until i find

04:54:06.780 exactly what i'm looking for yeah so

04:54:09.440 it's just yeah it's there's just too

04:54:11.520 many options it's you have a harder

04:54:13.380 time making a final decision absolutely

04:54:15.200 basically never yeah well i think i

04:54:17.800 mean but i just to i kind of address

04:54:20.120 your thing here as far as uh you know

04:54:22.800 sex first emotional connection later i

04:54:26.300 mean the of those of you who have had

04:54:28.520 long-term relationships and perhaps

04:54:31.360 there's some variance here i can speak

04:54:34.140 for myself at least the long-term

04:54:36.580 relationships i've had i've had a five

04:54:38.140 year relationship two year one year i've

04:54:40.240 had you know a couple six months nine

04:54:42.040 months ones whatever um almost all of

04:54:45.540 them it wasn't like here let's let's go

04:54:48.160 on 10 dates and then have sex it was like 0.68

04:54:51.900 first second third date we time hanging

04:54:55.900 out we had sex so i i don't know if you

04:55:00.860 any of you can speak to this but i don't

04:55:02.400 necessarily think the quickness with

04:55:04.220 which you sleep with somebody is

04:55:06.700 necessarily going to be a detriment to

04:55:10.280 you having a long-term relationship with

04:55:12.080 them because perhaps some of you have

04:55:13.880 had a long-term pleasant relationship with

04:55:17.360 someone and you guys hooked up relatively

04:55:18.960 quickly you know first second third date

04:55:20.860 has that been the case for any of you

04:55:22.960 yeah sure

04:55:24.340 essie what's up i haven't been in a

04:55:27.500 relationship in six years i can't really

04:55:29.100 talk about what's going on essie how

04:55:31.000 what's wait but you haven't been in a

04:55:33.180 relationship for six years you said you

04:55:34.620 were in a six-month

04:55:35.520 well it's like it's not exclusivity it's

04:55:38.420 not like dating with a label it's like

04:55:40.380 like court the courting process going on

04:55:42.480 dates seeing each other getting to know

04:55:43.700 each other

04:55:44.180 no not like wait so okay so question you

04:55:47.700 haven't been in a relationship for six

04:55:49.240 years but you have had

04:55:50.500 like dating here and there yeah

04:55:52.260 situationships excuse me so then

04:55:55.220 but in these situationships are you like

04:55:59.880 what what's your how do you move are you 0.97

04:56:02.840 are you waiting to have sex yeah i go by 0.98

04:56:05.900 a lot of women are aware of the third 1.00

04:56:08.080 date rule yeah i usually go by that

04:56:10.260 um depending on like how often we're

04:56:12.960 still seeing each other i mean have you

04:56:14.420 established an emotional connection

04:56:15.960 typically by the third date i think

04:56:18.280 within the third day i'm aware and i

04:56:20.020 know if i like want to pursue this

04:56:23.300 person like in a like i would it's hard

04:56:27.240 to say not a relationship but like be

04:56:29.300 exclusive with them and want to get to

04:56:30.920 know them more sure has that always been

04:56:32.580 your standard the three third day rules

04:56:34.880 sometimes i'll wait longer but i've

04:56:36.940 never gone shorter never shorter no

04:56:38.680 come on no come on once there's one time

04:56:42.560 my friends say i'm asexual because i

04:56:44.380 just don't like yeah you're ace are you

04:56:47.520 i don't think so because you wait for

04:56:49.200 i'm just not like sexually driven so

04:56:51.440 it's like not an issue for me to wait

04:56:53.020 like i've been celibate for years at a

04:56:54.800 time yeah see so it's like and once i

04:56:57.480 get to know somebody more then my sex

04:56:59.220 drive comes into play and i'm like 0.99

04:57:00.800 wanting to like have sex with them yeah 0.99

04:57:03.220 yeah women are emotional when it comes 1.00

04:57:05.100 to sex even like climaxing like we were 0.97

04:57:07.400 talking about i feel like men like

04:57:09.480 their emotions don't take place with 0.98

04:57:11.580 their orgasm with women like that 0.97

04:57:13.740 definitely like the more comfortable i 0.99

04:57:15.840 am like if i'm in love with you like

04:57:17.200 it's just easier to climax sure well

04:57:19.800 okay so i mean i don't know this whole

04:57:23.580 like i guess one thing that occurs to me

04:57:26.640 is if if it's always been your standard

04:57:29.500 like to wait i think that's one thing

04:57:31.220 but i think a lot of guys don't want to

04:57:34.700 feel like a sucker because there's a

04:57:36.640 there's definitely been situations where

04:57:38.220 for example a girl says oh i used to

04:57:42.920 have i used to be wild i used to have

04:57:44.600 like i had the ho phase in my past blah 0.81

04:57:46.420 blah blah i've slept with 20 30 guys

04:57:48.220 and then she lands on you and now she 0.96

04:57:51.660 wants to wait but she didn't have that 0.86

04:57:54.220 attitude with all her previous partners

04:57:55.980 now listen if that's her that's totally 1.00

04:57:58.820 her call if she wants to wait until

04:58:01.300 marriage after having slept with a

04:58:02.740 hundred people that's her call however

04:58:05.860 guys are i think within their right to

04:58:08.180 look at that and be like well that

04:58:10.840 wasn't your standard in the past so i

04:58:14.100 don't want to see you like i'm not

04:58:16.040 gonna wait so goodbye you know if he

04:58:19.400 loves and respects you then he will

04:58:21.200 respect that well you can respect it but

04:58:24.320 he could be like he could have his own

04:58:25.740 standard too and be like well you want

04:58:27.340 to wait three months i don't so we

04:58:31.340 should i like those helmets so he's

04:58:35.060 entitled to saying goodbye yeah i mean i

04:58:37.220 don't i don't think that that's a

04:58:38.600 problem necessarily but i i agree with

04:58:41.080 you i mean like if he left because of

04:58:42.840 that then i would just kind of be like

04:58:43.940 okay sounds like he only wants you for 0.96

04:58:46.000 sex yeah yeah because you know because 0.97

04:58:48.400 you're allowed to if you especially like

04:58:50.100 if you're saying that women that men

04:58:51.800 want women that are like pure or 1.00

04:58:53.580 whatever the case may be lower bodies

04:58:55.160 like even if she had a ho phase in the 0.97

04:58:56.600 past if she's changing and adapting and

04:58:58.220 trying to become a more moral version of

04:59:01.500 herself that matches his morals like why

04:59:03.820 would that be something that you would

04:59:04.940 look down on people what i couldn't hear

04:59:08.120 you i was speaking it could be that you

04:59:09.300 might be attracting the wrong kind of

04:59:11.300 people again you're putting the

04:59:13.480 accountability only on the women instead

04:59:15.120 of saying that no no i'm just all i'm

04:59:17.320 just offering an alternate point of view

04:59:19.020 well look i suppose yes i suppose it's 0.98

04:59:20.920 better if a woman had a promiscuous past 1.00

04:59:22.820 if she's trying to get more in line with

04:59:24.360 non-promiscuity i suppose that's more

04:59:27.620 desirable than continuing in her

04:59:30.680 promiscuity but i think it's kind of

04:59:32.680 like a lot of guys are looking at that

04:59:34.600 where it's like okay she had a

04:59:36.600 promiscuous past she all the previous 0.62

04:59:38.940 men she slept with she slept with quick 1.00

04:59:40.840 but now i come along or this guy comes

04:59:43.220 along and it's like oh now you want to

04:59:46.360 wait and so a lot of guys are looking at

04:59:48.220 that and being like well hold on and you

04:59:50.960 also hear this from like i've heard

04:59:52.520 something like uh girls will like sleep 1.00

04:59:55.940 with guys who they like they consider 1.00

04:59:59.180 jerks or assholes and they'll sleep with 1.00

05:00:02.720 them really quick but here comes along 1.00

05:00:04.360 like a gentleman but now that guy who you

05:00:07.760 think is potentially husband material

05:00:09.320 you're going to make him wait and guys

05:00:11.260 kind of view that and it's like oh but

05:00:15.000 i think if you're looking at i mean sure

05:00:17.080 i understand where you're coming from and

05:00:18.640 the perspective that some might men might

05:00:20.160 have with that but if you're looking for a

05:00:21.580 more woman that's more pure aligned with 0.55

05:00:25.220 whatever that you align with i think that

05:00:26.900 you should look at that as a bonus of oh

05:00:28.520 she sees something in me that she didn't

05:00:29.840 see in these other men and she wants to

05:00:31.280 have a long-standing like relationship with

05:00:34.240 me and she's changing that level of

05:00:36.720 promiscuity and trying to actually build

05:00:39.020 a foundation for our relationship and if

05:00:40.780 a man really loves a woman or likes a

05:00:42.740 woman that he's dating he should be okay

05:00:45.600 with and respect that yeah if i wait to

05:00:48.080 sleep with someone and i like emotionally

05:00:49.760 get to know them first i actually respect

05:00:51.320 them more and i also feel like three

05:00:53.360 dates is not a too crazy it's not like

05:00:57.040 three it's yeah three dates isn't a lot

05:00:59.240 but like yeah so i don't know what i'm

05:01:02.060 not sure where this conversation is

05:01:03.740 steering i also don't know if any of us

05:01:05.100 can relate to like the example that you

05:01:06.980 gave of like being a hoe and then now 1.00

05:01:09.040 making a guy wait can anybody any count

05:01:10.800 of a hundred yeah can anybody here relate

05:01:12.560 to that absolutely no but okay i'm sure

05:01:14.800 i'm sure there have been there's

05:01:18.100 probably women here at the table who 1.00

05:01:19.460 have maybe in the past hooked up with

05:01:22.540 a guy first time meeting him and then

05:01:26.460 you'll make another guy wait three dates

05:01:30.760 six dates what you know however long it

05:01:32.780 is so it's kind of like you you give two

05:01:36.560 different men like different sorts of

05:01:38.260 treatment where you're coming it's and

05:01:39.780 here here's like an example i i'd like to

05:01:41.920 give is how would you feel if your current

05:01:46.060 boyfriend you've been dating him for for a

05:01:47.840 year he doesn't really do much in terms

05:01:51.120 of like he doesn't get you gifts doesn't

05:01:53.100 really take you out to dinner you you like

05:01:54.620 each other he likes you you like him but

05:01:57.320 you know he's not he's not really doing

05:02:00.660 anything in terms of you know like i said

05:02:02.940 taking you on dates maybe you know gifts

05:02:06.260 whatever maybe you find out that his last

05:02:08.840 girlfriend he was taking her on trips

05:02:11.180 he was buying her gifts he was providing

05:02:14.400 paying for the first date wouldn't that

05:02:16.500 make you feel a certain type of way like

05:02:19.380 oh why is he giving like why is he doing

05:02:22.000 all this for her you know yeah but then you

05:02:25.840 have a conversation with them about that and

05:02:27.780 like bring up why you're feeling a certain

05:02:29.540 way and get the answer that you either want

05:02:32.180 or don't want from them because i think

05:02:34.200 like gifts and traveling is a lot different

05:02:35.960 than like giving your body to somebody i mean

05:02:38.540 if we're saying that sex is different to

05:02:40.540 men and women then shouldn't the man expect 1.00

05:02:42.620 oh well maybe she's changed her mind on

05:02:44.420 her like promiscuous phases and maybe she 0.80

05:02:47.180 sees something else in me that she didn't

05:02:48.880 see in somebody else but i mean if a guy

05:02:50.300 was treating his last girlfriend really

05:02:52.120 really well and getting her gifts and

05:02:53.440 traveling and like wanting to go places

05:02:55.100 and do things and then he didn't do that

05:02:56.620 for me i would just assume he didn't like

05:02:57.860 me very much and this is also under the

05:02:59.400 assumption that he's going to know about

05:03:00.900 all the other people you've slept with in

05:03:02.480 the time frame that you yeah but i

05:03:06.920 understand where you're coming from i do

05:03:08.400 and i i could see how somebody might view

05:03:10.200 it that way but i mean again i'm not

05:03:12.280 going to go sit on a first date with

05:03:13.520 somebody and be like okay so i slept with

05:03:15.000 this guy on this date and i slept with him 0.82

05:03:16.840 after date one two three four five like i

05:03:18.640 would never do that we have a chat here

05:03:21.400 from npc irl literally the two claiming

05:03:24.220 they're oh wait we are

05:03:25.500 bender the offender ladies when was the 0.95

05:03:28.680 last time you complimented a man and why

05:03:30.640 i compliment the man that i like every

05:03:34.320 single day the rapper dude no you're still

05:03:39.960 in his dms every single day

05:03:41.920 no i said i'm currently in love with

05:03:45.720 somebody

05:03:46.120 and i always tell them that they who you're in love with somebody yeah but i've only hung out

05:03:53.800 with them like twice but i just i told you i fall in love really fast what okay um anybody else

05:04:01.080 compliment when's the last time you complimented a man i'll compliment men all the time yeah all the

05:04:05.480 time honestly yeah um besides my boyfriend i told my dad he had a really nice hat before i left oh that's not how i thought that sentence was gonna ravel itself um amy what about you yeah like uh so i was just on uh rollo and michael share i told them that they are some of the smartest dudes i know so far as evolutionary psychology goes

05:04:26.820 i think that men appreciate compliments a lot more than women do yeah so i think that giving a man a compliment is something that we should do more often yeah because they get them a lot less than we do exactly and they remember that like if you tell a man something good that good that they did or you know something that they wore or whatever like that's gonna stick in their head forever not to say that women don't appreciate compliments but i think that men get them less

05:04:50.780 yeah yeah i just remember that shit for life yeah and i think about the saying all the time that like men only get flowers on the day that they die and i think about that a lot you know like i love to give men flowers i like to buy gifts i like to show appreciation for the men in my life whether it's my dad or my boyfriend or my brothers or whoever the case may be because they don't they don't get as much attention and praise as women do and i mean i think that that's just fact very true very insightful thank you i told a guy in music city that he had a really good singing voice

05:05:20.300 and i told him you know a lot of country artists they have like the same sounding kind of voice and it can all blend into one but yours really stands out like you have something different he just looked at me with like big eyes he was like so touched and it was like just a genuine compliment so they understand yeah okay we have mpc irl uh bang's real name is rumple stiltskin essie though uh who rumple stilts stills rumple stiltskin what's his name rumple stiltskin what's his name rumple stiltskin it's like a

05:05:49.980 i know what it is it's just evading me okay we have eyes wide shut with the canadian 50 merci beaucoup did the neck

05:05:55.820 tatted of through a foe really insult her entire fan base while attempting to insult me lol i hope they're

05:06:03.560 watching i just want to say i didn't insult my fan base i love them i insulted you baby that's all personal

05:06:09.460 oh eyes wide shut 1989 from canada from vancouver thank you uh okay all right um let's see here

05:06:17.620 okay we had naomi here with some notes here uh we're gonna skip the helicopter thing um if men

05:06:25.640 approach and talk to women in the gym mall grocery as much as they stare at us at those places we might 1.00

05:06:29.900 actually get to a place in society where we could eliminate dating apps talk to us we talk back um

05:06:35.640 i mean my my response to you is why don't y'all start approaching men do you ever think about that oh i do

05:06:43.380 oh man i like a guy i'll give you hints but as a traditional woman i'm not trying to like sort

05:06:48.200 you out like a like a wildcat in the jungle but i will give i will drop like obvious hints like

05:06:53.080 especially in the gym like you know you get a lot of attention when you're working out or whatever even

05:06:56.000 anywhere but you're kind of like look back smile and like they're just still like looking at you

05:07:00.080 acting like they didn't see you and you're like yeah you make it obvious yeah well and this ties in and

05:07:07.240 we were kind of uh and amy was about to cook on this about is dating easier for men or women we'll 0.97

05:07:14.600 touch on that here in a sec but you do say most of the time we will agree to a date simply because 1.00

05:07:19.820 you made the effort simply because i know that's bullshit that's no that's fucking bullshit no it's 0.99

05:07:24.100 not you will agree to a date nobody does it made the effort somebody does it no one has literally 0.99

05:07:29.020 so you're doing pity dates no no we appreciate the effort like that's that's attractive to us like

05:07:34.160 that you're bold enough to do that i just think it's all in the approach because a lot of men

05:07:38.160 approach women in a very like weird way or predatorial way or they like think that they're 0.84

05:07:43.100 coming on to a woman when they're actually just being creepy yeah well you know it just depends on

05:07:48.260 situational too like if you're at a bar and you know you know what's going to come at you but i'm

05:07:51.360 talking about like you know gym like mall like you get a lot of stares and well and i mean it just

05:07:55.640 like i said it's all in the approach like if you're giving somebody also like the physical body

05:07:59.640 language of oh i'm looking at you you're also looking at me like this is an inviting

05:08:03.520 open invitation to come speak to me and it you know it's different like there are guys that say

05:08:09.100 really you might be in that situation they come up to you and give you like the worst pickup line of

05:08:12.900 all time or say something really gross to you and they think that that's like a compliment and it's

05:08:17.540 not very noble yeah like it's a different there's a difference in a guy coming over and being like

05:08:21.960 oh my gosh you know i see you here all the time like you know you're i'm i'm really impressed with

05:08:28.380 your dedication to working out you're really beautiful would you like to go out and a guy coming over 0.98

05:08:32.120 and been like damn girl your ass is so nice like you know what i mean yeah i mean i think it depends 1.00

05:08:39.180 on whether or not you're attracted to them women agree to go on like maybe it's the case it could 1.00

05:08:43.880 certainly be the case that in the past because men because there weren't dating apps more men would

05:08:52.740 like approach women but now because of dating apps like men don't really have to approach women as much

05:08:57.680 so like there are less men approaching women out in the wild let's say so maybe it's the case that

05:09:03.080 the men that are still actually approaching women might actually probably lean a bit more

05:09:09.500 attractive hold on jan non-class and donated 99 dollars yeah thank you man a woman whom wanted

05:09:16.920 her intentions to be known would drop a handkerchief the man would pick it up and return it this gave him 0.96

05:09:23.600 the opportunity to ask her put eyes across the room ain't it yeah i agree women need to start 1.00

05:09:29.120 carrying handkerchiefs but uh yeah so i think that the the cohort of men that are probably still

05:09:38.680 approaching women is actually starting to skew like maybe a little bit more attractive but in any case 0.82

05:09:42.840 i don't i don't know if i agree with most women are going to agree to a date when you approach them

05:09:50.460 also with like porn addiction nowadays it makes men way less likely to actually talk to girls in real

05:09:56.400 life and pursue them that's why you have a point because women gotta pick up the slack y'all make 1.00

05:10:01.800 that emotional connection digitally with you guys so they kind of in real life women they don't they

05:10:05.920 don't really care to do that because it's right at the tip of their the parasocial relationships that

05:10:09.580 actually that brings up my thing so there's there's less time spent with men chasing women 1.00

05:10:13.720 all that good stuff yes like 10 15 okay yeah i know it's getting late we are going to try to wrap

05:10:19.680 soon it's just like the the the a lot of us are from far away so many far away so many super chats

05:10:25.740 i am going to try to wrap up and play secure i'm going to try to wrap up here very soon guys so

05:10:30.920 thank you for your patience i'm so sorry you guys i had a guy oh in and out hello okay um i had

05:10:39.500 a guy wait this is ali now you had a guy lied to me about his name and age oh wait background check

05:10:45.780 you did the background check i think i just want to clarify i did do a background check someone said

05:10:49.140 i just did a google search but the background check came after that you started the business

05:10:52.420 together you invested 35 000 under his fake name then had to contact the wells fargo department and

05:10:58.880 took months to get the money back yeah i had to talk to the high dollar fraud department to get back 0.90

05:11:03.180 the 35 000 why does this shit always happen to you and your friends like this entire time you have 0.99

05:11:07.720 like i feel like my friends are similar to me and like we're very naive and gullible yes you guys 0.98

05:11:12.980 i'm very gullible ali could i have 10k for a business i mean i was in love okay we talked to

05:11:21.360 investors i was like flying across the country with him and like doing all these business meetings it

05:11:26.400 was a business for like basically an only fans competitor platform sure and i didn't really want to do it

05:11:31.420 and i realized that but i was just like in love so i was like kind of being a yes man at first

05:11:35.040 and then he'd put me in front of these like ceos for all these companies and like i had all like

05:11:39.520 the experience and the knowledge and like this and that um and yeah i ended up not wanting to do it

05:11:44.880 but it was invested underneath his fake name so the high dollar fraud department ended up giving me

05:11:49.820 the money back word good times and then we have our girl anna hi that's how you say your name

05:11:57.460 right no how do you pronounce it anna hi so in your pre-show notes to us you said you picked up

05:12:05.500 a loser man an hour away from me and got pulled pulled over and got a ticket you got a ticket yeah

05:12:11.300 did you smash oh god did you yeah she did she did i did i was but okay like i was not at a good time 0.91

05:12:21.680 in my life okay it was not a good time in my life that's all i have to say and i was like the first

05:12:27.420 like tinder guy that i had ever like met up with first yeah okay okay you also said men that want 0.98

05:12:35.180 bad bitches but can't handle dating bad bitches we already talked about that that's what the jonah hill 1.00

05:12:38.900 yeah we talked about that jonah hill drama oh are you are you a bad bitch yeah show of hands who 1.00

05:12:46.680 here is also a bad bitch i think everyone yeah we all are bad bitches am i a bad bitch yes if you 1.00

05:12:51.880 want to be yes okay gosh don't exclude me over here okay sassy man apocalypse what what's that 1.00

05:12:59.660 what is this man apocalypse what is that men are so sassy nowadays men are sassy yes they are

05:13:05.420 so much men are sassy back talk so much back talk so much back talk what's the example of back

05:13:11.660 talk give me an example literally okay i remember not like necessarily back talk but like they're just

05:13:16.600 sassy i remember one time i was like talking to a guy and then he like said good night to me at

05:13:21.320 like five and five in the afternoon just because he was upset that is a sassy man that is a sassy

05:13:27.820 sassy little man one of the other reasons men don't approach women anymore is due to being falsely

05:13:34.760 accused literally men that have been like actually gone to trial and have been accused and there

05:13:43.000 there is like reports on them live a very happy life there is a man no listen to this there is a

05:13:50.580 man who and where i live he's like top chef top like literal news articles about this man

05:13:56.500 you google his name first thing that comes up is an entire police report but you realize these

05:14:01.620 allegations destroy people's lives right what men literally yeah i think this is very rarely

05:14:08.640 you think very rarely do allegations like this destroy people's lives and reputations 0.99

05:14:13.080 look here just john i'm sorry but that's really johnny depp you know had his fucking thing ruined 0.99

05:14:18.720 she took a shit on his bed like come on uh team member heard 1.00

05:14:21.500 what really yeah i've been wait oh whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa that's a hot take 0.99

05:14:28.760 hold on hold on hold on hold on show of hands team member who's team amber heard

05:14:33.800 come on fess up fess up makes sense these two

05:14:38.960 oh wow tmi tmi definitely makes sense did you watch the trial yeah i did but i also know the uk sun trial 0.94

05:14:49.420 as well which is basically the counter i never gave a fuck thank you for sharing that 0.88

05:14:54.060 i don't know i don't know i don't give a fuck about okay or amber heard i i mean i'm trying to bring 0.98

05:15:13.180 something to the table that i do give a fuck about i think that one piece i do fucking love one piece 0.97

05:15:18.400 so i'm like sorry they're making a life 1.00

05:15:21.440 shut your fucking mouth 1.00

05:15:23.160 it's okay 1.00

05:15:25.420 no but like for real like gear five coming soon

05:15:29.780 i haven't does anyone have any idea what are the words that are coming out of anybody

05:15:35.360 i can't talk about

05:15:36.160 i'm so angry

05:15:37.240 it's an anime

05:15:38.080 okay let's see i think we're fully caught up on everything

05:15:43.460 yeah

05:15:44.460 i had one more for me that way

05:15:51.220 what uh just hold on there's one more thing oh we had one more thing for anahe and then we're going to wrap

05:15:56.840 uh there was some videos but honestly it's already so late so unfortunately we're not going to react to any videos

05:16:01.560 uh we could wrap on the patrice thing we'll we'll wrap on we'll wait for anahe we'll do that then we'll wrap on patrice

05:16:08.700 uh we have a quick video we're going to wrap to find out

05:16:12.140 we haven't done the patrice video in a while so we're going to do that

05:16:16.100 uh before we wrap anyone speak now forever hold your peace any final thoughts before we

05:16:20.560 yes you want to get off your chest

05:16:22.320 real quick real quick sorry it's very coincidental that the two of us happen to be on the same podcast right now

05:16:27.940 because we were caught up in some recent twitter or rather i was caught up in some recent i stayed out of it

05:16:33.640 yeah there's just one thing that i want to clarify so there's this girl lauren de la greener

05:16:38.380 well hold on hold on i don't know if we i don't know if we talk about this on the pod

05:16:42.800 oh okay no worries maybe yeah let's just i don't want i don't want to get dragged into you don't want the smoke

05:16:47.880 i don't want to get i don't want to get dragged it's pretty viral right it's just funny that the whole girl they're talking about the whole time is here on the podcast and no one's heard a single word from her

05:16:57.380 yet it was all but we can we can keep it a secret it's fine we don't need to tell them i made no statement

05:17:01.920 we don't need to tell them it's fine wait are you wanting to make a statement or what everyone's been

05:17:06.900 waiting for her to make a statement for like the last month and she never has so i mean we can keep it a secret

05:17:12.300 it's fine

05:17:12.900 okay here one's in the chat chat are you able to pull up the regular chat um oh yeah maddie had to take off 0.98

05:17:21.560 guys um so uh chat do we yes does she talk about it are you talking shit about any i don't want to 0.97

05:17:31.420 like i'm not talking shit it's not no i'm near no no no no have you ever dated a bogan uh no i have 0.98

05:17:39.740 never dated a bogan absolutely not what's a bogan it's like the australian equivalent of a redneck 1.00

05:17:44.740 yeah what is it called again a bogan a bogan a bogan yeah okay have you ever dated someone from

05:17:50.880 perth no i was actually born in perth though funnily enough and i moved when i was like two

05:17:55.820 three my family moved me to queensland okay all right uh wait they want to hear the the stuff

05:18:03.040 okay really quick y'all want the smoke they want the tea okay so basically the whole thing is that

05:18:08.620 this girl lauren was saying that that wait so should we save this for the after show you guys

05:18:14.640 down to kick it yeah like for a few minutes just because some people might have to okay we'll save

05:18:18.060 it for the after show if you want to see the the juicy drama stay tuned for the after show anahi

05:18:22.640 okay last one here also dating as someone with borderline so you have bpd yeah is a lot more

05:18:32.220 difficult because every man wants to be nonchalant nowadays and that simply doesn't work for me

05:18:37.380 yeah because you're bpd no i feel like i need constant reassurance and every man is like

05:18:44.680 yeah i love you whatever you know like they don't show their love they're not really affectionate

05:18:51.000 they're kind of just like nonchalant like it's a thing to be nonchalant nowadays have you ever

05:18:54.180 slashed a tire no i think you should disclose your emotional needs to the man beforehand so that i do

05:18:59.140 i do i do trust me i do i have that conversation with them uh so how does the bpd manifest itself

05:19:09.480 you know in your life what do you mean how does it come out you you say you have a

05:19:16.060 what is it a diagnosis or yeah it's a diagnosis so you have bpd what what are the symptoms how does

05:19:22.020 it manifest itself can we talk about this another podcast please i'm so tired brian it's okay i'm

05:19:28.840 actually curious what you would say though i yeah i can tell i can go on and on and on about this

05:19:32.960 word okay so the last thing is you were saying that it's men have it easier to get who was saying

05:19:42.080 that easier it's easier for men to get laid yeah i think i did say that does anyone agree with that

05:19:46.980 easier for men to get laid as compared to women i think that i don't i mean i feel like if you say

05:19:51.740 that that's kind of saying that women are easy like that statement in itself is implying that women 1.00

05:19:55.940 are easy so i mean i know i know guys who have a roster that really have put girls on rotation

05:20:00.780 yeah i mean i mean i don't really like to put value or high or low on somebody just based on like

05:20:06.900 their sexual preferences and things like that but i think that it's kind of an equal playing field

05:20:12.320 um and also i think that equal well yeah i mean men set this so we're talking about like

05:20:18.700 men and women okay they're different if we're gonna go there right so if you guys are saying that

05:20:24.120 men are setting the standard of what women should adhere to so women shouldn't be having casual partners 1.00

05:20:30.540 because men don't want women with lots of lots of bodies so there are a lot of women that are like 1.00

05:20:34.800 well i'm not gonna have casual sex then so then these men are not having casual sex and blaming it on 0.99

05:20:39.420 the women saying that oh well women are gatekeeping sex well why do you think they're gatekeeping sex 1.00

05:20:43.080 because you're literally shaming them for having casual sex devon jackson donated 100 hey devon what's 0.99

05:20:49.800 up future single mother bangs you have a lot of your personality to work on do you have a response to 0.75

05:20:56.760 mr devon jackson girl i'm tired i'm not gonna respond to you girl devon yeah please um you really

05:21:05.160 wanted to come in i think on the it's the dating is easier for men or it's easier for men to get laid

05:21:10.540 or i said the opposite no no but you were arguing against for sure yeah totally go ahead sure argue

05:21:18.340 i mean from every single level it's way way easier for women to get laid than men an average looking 0.98

05:21:25.080 woman a five out of ten could walk into a club pick up a guy a five out of five guy a five out of ten guy 1.00

05:21:30.860 would have to try really really hard and here's the thing when something comes easy it is oftentimes

05:21:36.620 there's less respect assigned to it but whereas for guys if they need to really work on that hard work

05:21:43.340 is rewarded so just based on that simple premise alone a woman who sleeps with a lot of guys that 1.00

05:21:48.460 came easy therefore it's not respected a man who slept with a lot of women generally he needs to work

05:21:54.520 on his character he needs to work on his hygiene his appearance his status his accolades his career

05:22:00.200 everything in order to be at the same level as that five or six out of ten girl what do you consider 0.83

05:22:06.140 hard work buying women drinks and talking to them no raising their caliber as a man so a high value man

05:22:12.320 meaning like working on his physicality being fit and healthy working on his hygiene uh you know

05:22:17.440 making a good sum of money right um high value men do not call themselves high value men well i didn't

05:22:25.020 i didn't say that wasn't the prerequisite of what i just said i was i know i'm just saying i'm just

05:22:29.400 saying you're stating that men have to work on all these things in order to get laid and that is 0.87

05:22:32.800 completely false well as she was saying i mean unless there are points i'm with a huge dick right i'm 0.96

05:22:37.880 talking what was she saying go ahead go ahead so she was saying that she knows plenty of men that 1.00

05:22:42.540 also have rosters i know more men with very few men i know i know i know way more men that have

05:22:47.220 rosters than women okay but okay but okay i don't have a roster okay but the fact you could i know

05:22:51.520 three men if you know if you know a hundred men that have rosters a hundred men out of the entire

05:22:57.880 male population is a very very small proportion of men if you had to attribute a percentage to the

05:23:03.960 amount of men who could easily just have a roster of women what percentile would you give it would

05:23:09.500 you say 10 percent of men can do that 20 percent of men can do that would you say 50 percent of men

05:23:14.220 can do that would you say 100 percent of men can do that i mean obviously not 100 i think 100 is

05:23:18.680 kind of ridiculous but i mean how many women do you know that have rosters would you say it's it's 1.00

05:23:23.980 they could that's that's the thing it's capability capability sure but i mean i whether you i think

05:23:31.220 that probably as long as a man is actually putting in any sort of effort at all they can probably get

05:23:36.520 are you serious yeah you're delusional no no no no men need to work so hard on what planet

05:23:45.700 on what planet if you are decent looking if you are halfway decent looking no i no no no 0.99

05:23:52.440 decent looking not not i want to go i've met some ugly ugly dudes that have been pulling 1.00

05:23:56.800 i've met some ugly dudes that have been pulling yeah i mean like it's it's all based on personality

05:24:03.360 right like women women still have to have a semi-decent personality 99 percent of the time 1.00

05:24:08.200 i would say that attraction does contribute it contribute to it though and and it could be

05:24:13.380 true that men do have to work harder in some circumstances especially if they're it could be

05:24:17.700 it is true it is yeah that's what i meant it is true that they have to work harder i don't know

05:24:22.800 okay hold on a couple questions here a couple questions here has a guy ever made you wait for

05:24:28.640 sex yeah actually more okay all right here's yeah generally generally generally speaking who's 0.89

05:24:37.900 making who wait for sex men i think it depends on the situation it depends oh my god bro yeah that 1.00

05:24:44.900 goes back to what i said earlier about women hold like we what's like the stupid lock in the 1.00

05:24:50.000 gatekeeper oh my god yeah women were the gatekeeper that's what like the yeah okay also how do you 1.00

05:24:57.360 explain if if it if it is the case that men have just to just clarify your position you think it's

05:25:03.640 about equal between men and women when it comes to the ease or simplicity with which they can secure 0.78

05:25:09.440 uh sex you say it's about equal yeah equal absolutely okay so how do you explain the incel phenomenon

05:25:15.380 which is exclusive in men i mean there's fem cells it's like it is literally impossible for a woman 1.00

05:25:21.440 to be involuntarily celibate i mean it is impossible have you been on tiktok yeah that's not

05:25:27.000 involuntary what involuntarily celibate there are women okay so you she could argue she could go out 1.00

05:25:32.940 and actually speak to women i mean like they literally hate women they think they're like they deserve

05:25:38.320 sex that's what they think not all yes yes what's the true definition of an incel okay 0.98

05:25:43.060 for involuntarily celibate so despite desiring wanting to have sex you are incapable of having

05:25:50.960 sex now there are women who are voluntarily celibate for example like she's voluntarily celibate if she was 1.00

05:25:58.040 so inclined and for religious reasons if she was so inclined she could get sex tonight right i mean 1.00

05:26:04.920 but these men literally if you're going and actually speaking to these men they have like

05:26:08.780 no actual interest in going out and talking to a woman it's not necessarily true a lot of people

05:26:13.760 who are incels uh become bitter i'd say from their interactions with women because they did go out

05:26:19.900 and they experienced something really shitty yeah okay but i mean they're the the the villain

05:26:25.260 i never said that women are the villain i think you just love to misconstrue my words i'm saying that

05:26:33.420 women could be fem cells too you mentioned them too i think that experiences with the opposite 1.00

05:26:39.520 gender do affect the way that you perceive them obviously in like your interactions i wouldn't say

05:26:45.280 that incels and fem cells are entirely socially inept or entirely like devoid of social interaction 1.00

05:26:53.260 in general i'd say that okay let me let me ask everyone a question here all the women at the table here 1.00

05:26:57.860 a question let's say tomorrow you wake up let's assume some of you let's just say everyone's

05:27:03.640 single here if you were so inclined do you think with 100 certainty if your mission for that day was 0.88

05:27:10.860 i want to have sex i want to get laid do you think you'd be able to do it yeah with with 100 0.74

05:27:17.700 certainty yeah so that's the difference only a woman can wake up in the morning and say i'm going to get 1.00

05:27:22.780 laid today with all certainty and have it come true sometimes i say that and i that doesn't happen

05:27:27.640 to me yeah okay you if as a woman you download the dating app or you go out to a bar or you even

05:27:35.580 just approach a guy with certainty if you wanted it you could get laid 100 100 whereas like most dudes

05:27:44.940 even though good looking dude it's not a given he's going to get laid if he like goes out to a bar

05:27:51.160 or club or he's on a dating app i mean dating app i think dating app it's hard because it's harder

05:27:56.900 for men to get laid i think you absolutely could i mean i see women that are looking for help us on 0.90

05:28:00.880 dating apps all the time right but with perhaps with a certain tier of men and also i like another

05:28:05.500 thing i would add there has to be some degree of planning like any of you even though it's sunday 0.99

05:28:11.240 it's fucking late as fuck any of you could probably hop on tinder right now tonight and fuck a dude 0.99

05:28:19.240 tonight i don't care how attractive the dude is there's like no chick it's gonna be extremely 1.00

05:28:28.140 difficult for a dude to hop on tinder on a sunday at fucking midnight i don't care how hot he is and 0.99

05:28:34.120 fuck a chick that night there's gonna have to be some planning it's not gonna just go down like that 1.00

05:28:39.240 i mean like if i go on tinder i'm gonna have to plan that with the guy 0.99

05:28:42.820 yeah but but if you're if you were open to same night like if you were pushing for the same night

05:28:49.440 you could get it whereas it's not you like guarantee you could probably get it whereas it's

05:28:53.900 not a guarantee for men yeah can i say something real life experiences i have two really close friends

05:29:01.080 of mine who are guys and they have the hardest time finding a woman even just to have sex boom

05:29:06.720 one of them has been celibate beautiful four years huh and he's a decent he's a decent dude

05:29:11.080 he's on the spectrum but he's like a really decent guy and he struggles even my other friend he's six 0.57

05:29:15.920 foot four an attractive dude oh damn has an amazing job six and he hasn't gotten laid in a year

05:29:21.040 that's how you know okay can you show me photos after the show just so i can see but you did mention 0.75

05:29:28.220 he's not one of the guys is not neurotypical that's another point i would add if a guy is like

05:29:33.300 not neurotypical they're also just like a woman who's not neurotypical she's even not gonna have 0.97

05:29:40.080 an issue getting laid whereas a dude who's maybe a little you know whatever he's gonna strike he's

05:29:45.180 gonna severely stop back to chag bro sorry see take it from the horse's mouth like literally like i'm 0.99

05:29:51.300 rarted as fuck bro like you're not retarded no actually very smart yeah but it's honestly hilarious 1.00

05:29:57.680 it makes you really funny thank you i have yeah i'm i'm rarted but wait what about the bus tell us 0.99

05:30:04.040 about the bus but no i'm not saying tell us about the bus tell us about the bus no i'm not talking

05:30:07.800 about the bus the fucking short bus bro the fucking short bus they put me on that for like a hot minute 0.99

05:30:12.500 but then they realized i was like functioning so like they said no you can take the normal one 0.99

05:30:16.960 no but seriously like i've seen like like i made friends with this autistic guy like like over my

05:30:28.660 japan trip because it was study abroad and like i saw the way people like interact like like treated

05:30:32.720 him like they're like oh my god this guy's fucking weird bro like and other people like oh that's so 0.96

05:30:37.060 endearing her autism like oh she's so whatever like oh poor little thing poor little thing but they're 1.00

05:30:42.220 like oh my god bro that fucking jake bro he's fucking weird as shit bro like like hide your 0.99

05:30:47.720 kids bro like jake is fucking weird like there's like it just i don't know like i definitely see 1.00

05:30:54.640 the way the autistic men are treated i'm like oh shit that could have been it's rough out there for 0.99

05:30:58.160 for look men with any sort of physical disability or disfigurement or detectable detectable neurodivergence 0.99

05:31:05.660 are rarely treated with any measure of interest but that's not so for most women like a woman 0.99

05:31:12.200 a woman in a wheelchair could 1.00

05:31:14.980 could oh my god is that inappropriate is that inappropriate could she could she could what's

05:31:21.920 it called when the when you scoot in a wheelchair you could could runs not run circles around men 0.99

05:31:29.720 is that did i just cancel am i canceled they call that a crippy with a grippy what the fuck bro don't 1.00

05:31:35.560 say that shit don't say that shit um no but could wheel a woman in a wheelchair could wheel 1.00

05:31:41.920 around a guy who's not in a wheelchair in terms of getting laid wheelchair chick get some get a 1.00

05:31:49.940 new some new dick every night of the week i'm just saying i'm just saying listen i'm just saying 0.99

05:31:54.540 feel it though she's paralyzed from the waist down she's got like let's just say she's like 1.00

05:31:58.720 oh yeah okay canceled um okay good times good times look okay so you think it's easier for men

05:32:08.940 i didn't say easier okay you think it's equivalent it's equivalent i go home 100 percent yeah i mean

05:32:15.460 like hold on hold on we're almost my rides are getting my ride is patient hold on yeah they're

05:32:22.060 outside they're waiting hold on i want to play secure i know i want to go home and play secure

05:32:29.880 have a nice pizza wait okay so so what's up what's up i mean i would say fairly equivalent i you know

05:32:36.140 maybe after listening i could on but i think i think part of the issue is that if it is a little

05:32:42.280 bit more difficult for men to have sex with women is partially their own fault because of the

05:32:47.180 standards that they perpetuate onto women what yeah because women are going to be less likely to 1.00

05:32:51.820 want to have casual sex because they know they know they're going to be shamed for it later on so i 0.71

05:32:55.720 mean there are a lot of women that are very their standards are so high because they're like i have 1.00

05:32:59.500 to add every body i have to add has to count you think you think that's the only standard that women 1.00

05:33:04.480 has no not at all i didn't say that's the only standard that women have but when we have these 1.00

05:33:08.620 podcasts or there's these thousands of podcasts of men being like oh well that body counts disgusting 0.80

05:33:12.960 oh that's disgusting women are going to be less inclined to open up and want to have casual sex 1.00

05:33:17.420 unless the men man that they're talking to is like top tier like 100 their body's going to be worth 0.98

05:33:24.100 adding to their account because they know they're going to get shamed for it later wait so i think

05:33:27.980 women would be more inclined to have casual sex if men weren't so critical oh so you're arguing on our 0.99

05:33:32.920 side now you're now you're saying no i'm saying i still believe it i said if it's slightly more

05:33:36.820 difficult for them i would say that that would potentially be that's one well i mean couldn't

05:33:40.660 it be the case that in general women are more picky and more selective and have higher standards 1.00

05:33:44.660 i mean not necessarily i mean there's a again evolutionary and biological reasons for this

05:33:50.500 i do feel like a lot of guys will sleep with anything yeah men will sleep down but like

05:33:56.340 you you could say for example they've done studies on this or they've released the the data from dating

05:34:01.960 apps women swipe no on like the vast majority of men and women will frequently rank say women 0.97

05:34:09.000 find like 80 to 90 of men as unattractive here we i mean we could go around the table what percentage

05:34:16.600 of men do you find attractive so true i do not find it takes me forever to find an attractive guy

05:34:23.400 like literally every two and a half but you just said you like guys who are kind of frumpy or whatever

05:34:27.560 yeah but like to find one to find one where i'm just like oh my gosh like for me to really like

05:34:33.080 you want to find a frumpy hot ugly guy yeah i love that makes sense yes ugly hot dudes are a thing oh

05:34:40.280 hot ugly dudes are a thing well it's like the medium ugly standard that women talk about all the time 1.00

05:34:44.760 they're like oh i love medium ugly guys yeah that's pretty good like that's a thing that women are like 1.00

05:34:50.200 i love a medium ugly guy i also i don't physical looks have never been that big of a proponent to me

05:34:55.160 personally i'm did a guy shorter than you i have dated men shorter than me yeah is that your preference

05:35:00.680 is that ideal though um no it's definitely not my preference but i like i said earlier looks have

05:35:05.800 never been a really high proponent to me i find people a lot more attractive when i get to know them

05:35:10.840 most people that i find like physically attractive off rip um i generally end up not liking like

05:35:17.480 people become more attractive to me as i get to know them and like get to know that they're

05:35:21.000 get to know their good qualities okay all right well we have al res here alpha men

05:35:26.520 don't call themselves alpha men yet 50 of men call themselves alpha men and i guess 50 of men aren't

05:35:31.800 alpha men i don't know if have they done a study on the frequency with which men call themselves alphas

05:35:37.560 i've never i've never heard of that um i just i don't know if i'm going to be able to like this idea

05:35:46.520 that it's equivalent equivalent it's just boggles my mind that that i you know what will make you

05:35:55.640 feel better food yeah yeah that is that is deep i'm rather tired too i i wish i could argue about

05:36:02.200 this all night let's wrap it up let's wrap it up we'll do that as part two like i feel like yeah

05:36:06.680 we could do we can definitely we can definitely do oh yeah we shouldn't do a mukbang microsoft

05:36:13.560 came up we have the microphone phones for it yeah playstation here last last little train of

05:36:19.880 conversation here zip it zip it good okay um generally speaking like do you ever approach guys

05:36:29.480 yeah well i used to i used to all the time generally speaking though like who has to initiate

05:36:33.400 the first date men or women i mean on i mean like i think men expect themselves to have to but i would

05:36:39.560 initiate the first date a lot of times if you had to assign a percentage in terms of who's initiating

05:36:45.160 first dates what would you say would you say it's 50 50 like 50 of the time women initiate first dates 0.93

05:36:49.880 definitely not i would definitely say that men are initiating first dates a lot higher than women are

05:36:54.680 is having to initiate something does that add a level of difficulty to something i mean yeah but

05:37:00.360 if you're talking about dating and casual sex those are two very different things well don't i mean

05:37:04.920 isn't that sort of the same thing i mean not really like going on dates and actually pursuing someone is

05:37:10.920 a lot different than going to a bar going to a club and trying to just like hook up with the first hot

05:37:15.160 piece of so so okay let me ask you a question let me ask you a question if i go to a bar or a club

05:37:20.360 right um and i just stand there do you think i'm getting approached by any chicks probably not but 0.97

05:37:30.680 i don't okay so what do i have to do if i want to get laid talk to people i have to approach right

05:37:38.120 i mean a woman would approach you depending on the scenario but i mean if you're just standing there

05:37:42.280 awkwardly i mean i used to work at a nightclub and i would approach men okay that's great but

05:37:47.080 generally speaking women don't approach men in nightclubs i mean i i don't okay you do 0.96

05:37:51.960 congratulations but like i'm not saying just me i mean like i i was a bottle server and i watch it

05:37:56.120 happen all the time as a bottle server you not me i'm saying i would witness it in a club setting

05:38:02.440 of women going up to men probably just to drink from their bottle but like at the same time that

05:38:06.760 they're still approaching them okay but here's the difference right you put a guy in the club

05:38:12.040 there's a good chance that like he's just standing there he's not being awkward but he's just kind of

05:38:17.080 you know got a drink at the bar whatever he's just sipping whatever nobody's coming to talk to him

05:38:21.800 you put a girl in that same exact scenario some dude like she's getting approached you're just

05:38:28.040 mad that girls are prettier can i go home i'm not mad i'm not mad hold on hold on we're about to wrap

05:38:33.560 you sound jealous no i'm not i'm not jealous but i'm just arguing i'm not jealous

05:38:37.560 i don't know to be fair that is why they have strip clubs where like you know the dancers will 1.00

05:38:42.280 approach the man at the bar and that sort of thing so like i get what you're saying i still

05:38:46.200 think yeah i like franchise is like i don't know i get what you're saying and i get what you're saying 0.94

05:38:52.520 but i think that shut the fuck up not you not you her over here she's talking about anime and 1.00

05:39:00.920 shit no i'm talking about metal gear that's not anime bro i'm just saying like i don't know i'm just 0.99

05:39:05.160 i'm getting to yeah yeah i think that the last two metal gear games weren't as good as the other 0.85

05:39:09.960 ones i think wow that's beautiful that's a great that's a great thought okay so you get approaching

05:39:15.320 the bar who typically who goes for the first kiss men usually okay so then who like tries to maybe 1.00

05:39:23.560 move things forward in terms of oh you should come over to my place is that gonna be the guy or the

05:39:28.360 girl men men are typically okay what about like moving things forward sexually usually men

05:39:35.240 oh okay so if all these burdens fall on men it's not a burden if you're trying to get casual sex

05:39:40.840 that's you trying to get casual sex from a woman if that's a burden then don't do it 1.00

05:39:44.680 it is a burden it is a burden because all of these individual steps are potential points of rejection

05:39:51.240 so a woman could reject any one of these points okay so could a man okay so going up going up you know

05:39:59.080 doing the approach okay oh my god from me yeah metal gear solid three okay we're gonna get

05:40:07.080 approached by women at bars i mean that's just simply not true but okay some men who are exceptionally

05:40:13.640 attractive may get approached at a bar however i would argue that like an average woman is getting 1.00

05:40:20.840 as much attention in terms of the frequency with which she's getting approached as like a really

05:40:25.880 attractive guy because that's just the dynamic between men and women men are the initiators and 0.99

05:40:32.280 women really aren't initiating like that some women do but it's exceedingly rare can i initiate the 0.95

05:40:38.120 going home process shut the hold on we're almost done we're almost done we're almost done we're

05:40:45.560 almost done we're almost look 15 more minutes no he said 15 minutes bro this is cruel and unusual

05:40:54.360 punishment bro your mom is cruel and unusual for real bro she got creative with it bro like look 0.90

05:41:01.160 every step of the way there's multiple you know from the approach to asking for the number texting

05:41:06.760 planning planning the first date whether it's online or in person going for the first kiss moving

05:41:11.560 things forward sexually all these various steps these are each there's like dozens of potential points

05:41:17.400 of rejection that all that men almost exclusively face so just on that basis alone it's harder for

05:41:26.840 men to get laid than it is for women again i just i think that it's kind of like i i think i we're

05:41:33.240 never going to agree on this because i think that it's like fairly equal and i don't think fairly

05:41:37.720 equal i do and i don't think that men having to actually have conversations with women makes it 0.57

05:41:43.160 harder for men to get laid i mean if you're like a halfway decent dude and you just like aren't a dick

05:41:49.000 you could probably get laid okay so just be halfway decent dude yeah i mean at a bar like i've seen some

05:41:56.040 crazy scenarios i'm sure everybody else at the table has too let me ask you a question how many men have you

05:42:00.920 rejected me oh my god i have no idea hundreds thousands thousands let's go around the table

05:42:08.200 really quick here show of hands show of hands show of hands have you rejected more than a hundred men

05:42:16.280 perhaps i've never even talked yeah i mean are we talking like men that fall down the street

05:42:22.120 how many dudes have approached you how many dudes have slid into your dms if any of you have had dating

05:42:27.320 apps how many guys have you not like you not swiped on or how about you matched with but then just like

05:42:32.840 it didn't work out but ultimately ultimately let's say in person and you know women reject men more than

05:42:41.640 the reverse so on that basis alone it's harder for men to get laid if women reject if if okay let me put

05:42:50.120 it to you this way if you've rejected more men than have men rejected you simply by virtue of that

05:42:57.160 dynamic it's harder for men to get laid can i go hold on i think you have to agree with him bro if you

05:43:03.000 want just go just go if you want to go no no no no no don't be like that bro my mom gets mad when i 0.87

05:43:07.960 come late bro she she gets hell on that bro okay but you don't you're just being kind of obnoxious about 0.84

05:43:13.160 it so go if you have to go then go okay so okay uh um follow shut up dude okay so 0.84

05:43:18.600 you have the robot on instagram i'm sorry guys my mom nice to meet you my mom just gets mad bro

05:43:23.240 my mom's like the devil bro like you don't understand that's fun if you got to go excuse

05:43:27.160 yourself but we don't need you talking about anime and just interrupting and stuff okay

05:43:34.200 okay so i'm not going to keep everybody here i'll agree okay

05:43:38.840 she has a seat cushion why don't she have a seat cushion because she's short 1.00

05:43:47.960 okay last thing here okay

05:43:53.720 okay all right oh my god

05:43:57.480 show of hands here have you rejected more men

05:44:01.720 men then you have been rejected by men 100 yeah hell yeah so to me that would indicate that dating

05:44:11.880 is harder for men getting laid is harder for men if you reject more men than the reverse like if you 0.83

05:44:18.520 reject more men then you are getting rejected by men then that necessarily means that dating and

05:44:24.840 getting laid is harder for men i mean i said like a while ago that it might be slightly more difficult

05:44:32.120 but like i still don't just slightly though but i but i think that slightly i mean i i think that

05:44:37.960 though i don't think that it's that difficult to approach a woman and have a conversation with them

05:44:43.960 it's a very privileged position to say it's really not that difficult to approach women and get laid 0.72

05:44:49.480 it's really not that difficult when you don't need to approach you don't need to approach men

05:44:55.400 to get laid because you can just pick from all the men that are coming to you 0.99

05:44:59.400 some of the times they're kind of not that cute yeah but you at least have a pool of options that are

05:45:04.600 coming to you that i don't want low quality men that but that that only reinforces my point that it's

05:45:10.520 hard if there's all these men that you don't want that would otherwise happily sleep with you

05:45:14.680 it's harder for men to get laid okay but this idea that it's only slightly harder like i don't

05:45:22.280 think you underestimate like you underestimate like any single girl here at this table could walk

05:45:28.280 into a club walk up to a guy and just be like hey do you want to fuck honestly that's a guy could 0.99

05:45:33.560 not do that a guy could not go up to a chick profound straight up hey do you want to fuck it's not 1.00

05:45:40.680 it's not gonna happen but watch hold on hold on um uh let's see um amy do you want to 0.99

05:45:49.480 tonight are you down to hook up tonight oh saved by the fucking tts donated 100 0.97

05:45:57.000 reality says it is difficult for men to approach women at bars or clubs last chat i promise 0.98

05:46:02.440 thank you thank you prometheus uh i i said no essie would you like to hook up tonight 0.95

05:46:12.920 um no i'm sorry whoa it's hold on willing i'm willing here but i've just been rejected by two

05:46:21.560 women at the state oh the horror i'm deeply hurt i'm i am heartbroken it is tough

05:46:26.440 it must be hard out there should i keep asking all the other girls no no no who's in a relationship

05:46:34.200 celibate so that's a no-go see look it's just harder for dudes it's harder for dudes

05:46:39.160 oh you made your point okay we're gonna wrap it we are going to wrap okay guys thank you so much

05:46:45.560 for tuning in tonight oh wait let me just double check if we uh so what is the after hours thing

05:46:49.480 uh we just dimmed the lights and uh okay back later if you guys want to hear this story we're

05:46:55.160 going to do it in like two minutes because i'm tired as okay guys last call hit the like button

05:47:00.680 please on your way out uh nick can you pull up the twitch really quick let's get people uh twitch.tv

05:47:05.160 slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub what the oh the patrice do we do the patrice 1.00

05:47:11.400 if it's quick it's it's quick guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub

05:47:19.080 uh drop us a prime sub yep twitch.tv slash whatever thank you for tuning in tonight guys do we do the 0.98

05:47:24.600 patrice or what is that let's just what is that it's a video oh yeah let's fuck it let's do it okay 0.82

05:47:31.000 pull up the patrice clip that's it oh my god okay you got it all right i'll tell you a question here's 0.99

05:47:43.720 a question here's a serious question pay attention guys pay attention okay ladies if you didn't have a 1.00

05:47:49.160 vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor was like we have to remove 1.00

05:47:56.040 your pussy right away or you're gonna die how would you keep your man past you get a two month 1.00

05:48:07.880 guilty i can't leave the bitch right away because she just lost the pussy in the train accident 1.00

05:48:15.640 can't just walk right out on him 1.00

05:48:21.080 how would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina 1.00

05:48:26.360 pause it what about you about you anal yeah i was gonna say we got other holes 1.00

05:48:35.560 i don't know i'm tired my brain can't think right now you got this dude i don't know what would you 0.98

05:48:41.080 that's so weird i am a nurturer i am a caregiver i'm a not a provider oops that's it what about you bj's 0.99

05:48:48.600 i agree i also concur yeah the other holes they can invert a penis on a trans oh my god 0.99

05:48:58.920 why you gotta oh well i hey if they can do that for men then i'm sure they can fix me right up if 0.99

05:49:04.120 that were over the case i'm not too worried about that there's no reason why our vaginas wouldn't oh 1.00

05:49:09.240 just be gone science that's how we pee science is amazing nowadays brian it's really impressive

05:49:15.240 we would no longer be what she said and i'd be a really good wife wait what what did she say 0.99

05:49:19.240 i think you said bj's yeah bj's okay all right okay those are some answers there go ahead 1.00

05:49:24.680 wow nothing you can talk you can talk move the cursor nick suck his dick okay mouth 1.00

05:49:39.160 asshole okay great do you see what i'm saying now i've been getting the whole show right 1.00

05:49:50.040 but i give women the opportunity to say i want to make myself worth more but you just classified 0.98

05:49:55.640 yourself as a series of holes but but you know i'm 0.95

05:50:02.840 i'm supposed to teach you special but you're just a bunch of holes to yourself

05:50:06.120 no one said learn how to play xbox learn how to play pool tell better stories get another 1.00

05:50:14.520 bitch that got a pussy to come on in well look whatever do you guys have a response i was the 1.00

05:50:25.240 only one who didn't say wow first of all that's obviously a joke so it's meant to be taken as a 1.00

05:50:31.640 joke because let's be realistic a man is not going to stay with you he's not having

05:50:35.560 sex with you for real i wouldn't say disavow disavow essie if you lost in a terrible train 1.00

05:50:41.480 accident and we were married and we had kids if i lost all my holes you would still be with 1.00

05:50:46.040 well no no he's exactly he said the he said the pussy yeah so we offered other holes and then he said 0.99

05:50:54.040 oh yeah that wasn't good enough it had to be xbox but but you know what was the question 0.99

05:51:01.800 does anybody have any other further notes on that okay all right you guys did fall for the

05:51:07.080 you guys all fell for it though yeah yeah he got you he got you guys one in the morning all right

05:51:12.600 guys thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me

05:51:16.040 i appreciate that we will be doing a very brief after show with uh i think most of you have to

05:51:21.480 take off but you're stick you two are sticking around i think you guys have to take off though 0.97

05:51:25.880 is that correct oh you underscore have underscore no underscore idea donated 99 dollars i've had sex 0.97

05:51:34.280 with between 75 and 100 greater than average women grew up being called hot by both male friends and 0.97

05:51:41.400 females i date i make two hundred thousand dollars a year zero of the women i've had sex with were as fat 1.00

05:51:48.440 or unattractive as the two arguing it's still easier for them to get sex i mean if you're averaging 0.78

05:51:55.880 75 to 100 i don't really think that it's been that difficult for you my boy

05:52:00.840 also i don't really care about your opinion yeah nobody really cares yeah to be honest except brian

05:52:06.200 i know okay all right well thank you there uh i think uh i think we can all come to an agreement

05:52:17.720 here that it is in fact harder for men to get laid okay all right thank you to everyone who super

05:52:21.960 dads donates and supports the show thank you to the panel thank you thank you to the wonderful panel

05:52:26.200 for i know we went late here tonight so appreciate your guys's patience we will be doing an after show

05:52:31.240 thank you to all our chat mods thank you big thank you to brit who's helping with time stamps um uh

05:52:36.680 any women who want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram any women with large labia my dms are 1.00

05:52:41.400 open we will be live again sunday wait no excuse me tuesday at 7 p.m pacific guys we'll see you next

05:52:47.800 time good night guys and the after show begins oh sevens in the chat the after show begins

05:52:52.680 follow us boom okay if anybody needs to uh go bye

05:53:04.440 so is it like a new recording no it's still it's still on hi guys hello

05:53:09.640 okay all right guys so we're just gonna listen we're gonna put this out there uh which i

05:53:39.560 usually would not want to put any type of like private business public but this was something

05:53:44.600 that was brought all over twitter something that was made a spectacle of um and it's kind of old

05:53:50.440 news in the sense that like xena and sneaker broke up but there was a whole issue with a girl lauren de la

05:53:56.120 greener is her name right uh where she was essentially saying that due to this lady here and what she witnessed 0.67

05:54:03.160 with her eyeballs from this lady here she was able to definitely definitively say that number one xena

05:54:10.040 was unhappy and number two sneaker was an abuser so what i found very interesting after speaking to her

05:54:17.080 very briefly is that i mean sneaker may be flirted with you a little bit right i didn't even really

05:54:22.440 take it as that to be honest so basically i was on the fresh and fit podcast with zirka sneaker and

05:54:29.160 and zina had invited me on the show and i was on there with lauren that was my first time ever

05:54:33.960 meeting her super sweet girl she lives pretty close to me in orange county and basically during the show

05:54:40.040 i was over on like the little couch area so i couldn't even really see sneaker during it i saw zirka

05:54:45.720 he was talking the whole time whatever and it's hard to miss yeah pretty hard to miss and afterwards

05:54:50.680 a big group of us had gone to sushi and so when we were at sushi there was like an open spot next to

05:54:58.280 sneaker like right across from him and so he started speaking to me he ordered me some sushi

05:55:03.800 and basically he was asking me if i wanted to be on his stream and so zina when she told me to come

05:55:08.920 on the podcast had already mentioned that to me would you like to be on some like big streamers

05:55:13.560 streams like give you promo blah blah blah right right and i know streamers like they want like girls 0.99

05:55:18.280 to be on there you know for more views and stuff so i took it as like a business thing and i was like

05:55:23.160 yeah i might be down and so when he brought it up i was like oh you're the guy she was talking

05:55:27.240 about right two and two were clicking you were like okay let's go no idea that they had any sort

05:55:31.960 of relationship um you know i was just sitting there making conversation right and so lauren was

05:55:38.280 supposed to give me a ride home she had offered to drive me home and my friend home who i was 0.98

05:55:44.200 staying with but she just got kicked off the show so she felt awkward eating sushi with everyone so

05:55:49.880 lauren ended up driving her home and then coming back to take me home and basically sneaker was like 1.00

05:55:54.680 do you need a ride home and i was like well you know like she was gonna take me and lauren was 0.95

05:56:00.360 looking at me like go with him go with him and so i was like okay i don't really care it's three

05:56:04.200 minutes down the street like what does it matter you know like maybe this is like a good person to

05:56:08.440 know like i work in social media i do youtube we were talking about my channel all business stuff

05:56:13.240 like i really didn't think of it as more than that and i'm not even sure it was yeah and so then i was

05:56:18.280 like okay like we were ready to leave i was like i have to use the restroom he waited for me to use the 0.99

05:56:21.960 restroom and during this time and see i don't like know if i'm saying too much like i don't know

05:56:27.560 no you're not you're not you're not this is just the truth this is literally just exactly what happened

05:56:31.320 right and everyone's been waiting for you because we've heard everything from lauren we've heard

05:56:34.520 everything from other people sharing their stuff and wanting to have a say yet we've never heard it

05:56:39.320 from the horse's mouth which is why this is so important that you actually say this right now you

05:56:43.880 know i think it's very important to let the truth come to life yeah and so when i was sitting there

05:56:48.120 like right after he'd asked like do i need to ride home and then i went to the restroom i was

05:56:52.120 like checking my instagram and xena was messaging me and she was like you're my friend like she was

05:56:58.280 like mad at me or something and i was like what is she talking about like i don't understand and um

05:57:03.560 basically like right before this had happened like she had like left the restaurant and i think

05:57:07.720 she was crying she was upset i didn't really know what was going on i had no idea that had anything to

05:57:12.200 do with sneeko and so like two and two did not click when she had dm'd me whatever i was just

05:57:20.840 like okay you know what is she talking about and before the show started she had asked my friend

05:57:25.800 and i who got kicked off if we could mention that like she put us on the podcast but there was like

05:57:30.280 15 girls on the panel i honestly forgot when i was introducing myself so i was like oh is she upset

05:57:35.080 that like i didn't like shout her out or something like i didn't know no no it's just that they're all

05:57:39.000 promoted so that's kind of just like the standard yeah thing it wasn't anything so when she was like

05:57:43.960 oh i thought you were my friend or like you're my friend yeah i didn't know that was like her man

05:57:49.000 you know and i literally did not take it more as like a ride home and she she was the one who told

05:57:53.400 me about his stream and everything and so thanks for coming and so um yeah and then also i was thinking

05:58:03.160 like oh maybe when he invited me to be on the stream i wasn't like clarifying oh xena told me about

05:58:08.040 this like i didn't know like i was like that's the only reason i could think she would be like 0.61

05:58:10.760 upset in any way so i was confused and then i almost like wanted to ask nico when we were going

05:58:15.960 to get in his car for him to drive me home because i didn't really know her that well like this is my 0.53

05:58:20.040 first time meeting both of them but i just kind of like brushed it off for a sec and i was like okay i

05:58:24.360 guess i'll like write her back when i get home i have no idea like why she's upset or like what this

05:58:28.120 is about like it was unclear so then um sneak goes waiting for me outside the bathroom i get out and then

05:58:33.560 i walk out with him and xena's like she's sitting on the back of someone's truck and she's clearly 0.99

05:58:40.760 upset like i think she had been crying whatever and i go together a hug goodbye and i was like thank you

05:58:45.400 so much for having me on the show you know it was so great meeting you blah blah blah and she was like

05:58:50.040 that's my boyfriend and i was like oh my god okay i'm not gonna let him give me a ride home then like

05:58:55.720 clearly you're upset like i don't know what's going on and then basically lauren was there because you

05:59:00.680 know she was gonna give me a ride home first she was waiting yeah she was kind of like lingering 0.99

05:59:04.360 basically and so then lauren was like oh my god blah blah blah and then sneko had like walked ahead

05:59:09.560 of me and he was like waiting for me by his car and then so from like across the way i didn't get in

05:59:13.880 his car i wasn't even near his car i was like hey i'm sorry like i'm gonna let her give me a ride and i

05:59:19.000 think he could tell it was because xena was upset like she had clearly said something to me which she

05:59:23.400 didn't say much i was just like i'm a girl's girl like if there's any amount of like uncomfortability like

05:59:28.520 he doesn't need to get me a ride like it's not that big of a deal i could literally uber if i

05:59:31.960 needed to right and so i basically didn't get in the car he did not get me a ride that was that and

05:59:37.640 then lauren took me home as well as like another girl and then when we were leaving like she tried 0.99

05:59:44.600 to get xena to come in the car because she was upset and xena was just kind of like i need my space 0.95

05:59:48.520 like i'm fine like right having a moment i'm good yeah like you know i don't really think they knew each

05:59:52.680 other and um then i got dropped off and then from there whatever had happened with xena and lauren

05:59:59.720 if they had hung out talked whatever i have no idea xena did message me afterwards saying sorry

06:00:05.800 apologizing she was like you know i was just being emotional you did nothing wrong i think it's a

06:00:10.440 really good business opportunity you honestly should go on sneeko's stream blah blah blah and you know

06:00:15.560 i'm starting to realize like who's zirka and sneeko are in the whole space and everything

06:00:20.040 and i'm like okay yeah but like i didn't know if it was gonna be drama so i ended up just basically

06:00:24.360 not doing it regardless even though she gave me the okay right and then a couple weeks go by or

06:00:29.240 whatever and then all this stuff starts breaking out on twitter saying that and i mean i think

06:00:34.440 sounds like she would know more than me at this point because she was actually responding to the

06:00:37.880 tweets xena did message me and she was like will you say something but i didn't want to be put in

06:00:42.280 the middle because like lauren lives near me and like she was really nice to me and like i didn't know

06:00:46.840 what happened after i had left you know but allegedly she was saying that like she had to 0.87

06:00:51.000 pull me out of the car she said she girl she said she dragged you out of the car yeah i never got in

06:00:56.920 his car something along those lines and was literally saying that like that whole incident was a clear

06:01:03.560 reflection of the fact that it was an abusive relationship this that and the other and you know

06:01:10.040 ultimately like my perception of the whole thing and i could be entirely wrong in fact lauren and i

06:01:15.240 we're gonna debate on this we're gonna go on a public podcast and have a conversation yeah but

06:01:19.560 i i literally think number one inserting yourself in people's personal business is like what's your

06:01:25.160 incentive what's your motive number one but then number two at the end of the day all the stuff that

06:01:30.840 she was claiming is reaching like she was really fucking reaching with all that at the end of the 1.00

06:01:36.920 day because number one you said you aren't a hundred percent sure that sneaker was even hitting on 0.99

06:01:40.840 you i didn't take it like that it could have been construed like that number two you did

06:01:44.360 not get dragged out of the car and number three there wasn't anything about sneaker was in his

06:01:48.680 relationship you construed as abusive at the time right i didn't even know they were in a relationship

06:01:52.360 exactly so and i mean he bought me a sushi and he was nice to me and offered me a ride but like to me

06:01:57.480 you know i would be doing something to help him on his stream get beers like be a hot girl and also

06:02:01.480 they're in an open relationship so it's fine yeah and also being from la i feel like a lot of things

06:02:06.120 are like you know people have their benefits and like am i a party to this gossiping yeah am i am i going to

06:02:13.800 get in trouble for oh no i don't think so for platforming this conversation i don't know but

06:02:18.680 uh okay let's so did you guys kind of yeah we pretty much most of it out there okay all right

06:02:24.040 so a couple questions here for the after show and then we're going to we're going to try to wrap up

06:02:27.400 here um my down dude my down story actually i'm not going to talk about that um okay so what was i

06:02:36.920 going to say uh amy co-host for whatever sure bring me on yeah you down i thought i thought you

06:02:46.120 were i will move to california to be a co-host for whatever i hate this state it is the devil

06:02:53.240 but let's go california yeah i mean it's where the you're in florida right yeah okay opposite like

06:02:59.240 political ideology yo chat do you think do you think she uh she should be co-host y'all think i got what

06:03:06.040 it takes i don't know they i thought you were good they really hate my accent a lot of the time

06:03:10.600 i like australian they really they be roosting me about my accent like majority of the time not

06:03:15.560 gonna lie i think australian accents are cool but they make fun of me because i've been living here for

06:03:19.480 like uh close to six years now so it's kind of like a watered down australian accent yeah they don't

06:03:25.960 like i don't know there's a couple times when you were like arguing with the the as and then

06:03:35.160 i can't do that i cannot pronounce people's names yeah yeah and i was like and you were

06:03:40.040 fucking cooking oh yeah you were i like to debate and you got you got heated too which i was like 0.99

06:03:45.640 she called you a bitch it's okay it's okay people can say whatever they want it was it was 1.00

06:03:51.240 amusing but yeah that was the xena lauren sneeko drama i know and a lot of people like that was a 0.99

06:03:56.440 nothing burger i know but for those who know if you know you know if you know you know it was like

06:04:01.640 blown up on twitter like i dragged the of girl i didn't even have a name i was the of girl yeah

06:04:06.600 out of the car and he was abusive and i'm gonna do a poll i'm gonna do a poll to see if uh

06:04:11.640 uh yeah right if uh we should have amy okay this is going to be a youtube poll it should oops 1.00

06:04:19.560 someone said xena falsely accusing sneeko i don't know what she's accusing him of but be

06:04:24.280 co co-host should amy be co-host okay we'll say yes no

06:04:34.280 okay there's a pull up let's see what you guys have to say don't vote for yourself that's unfair

06:04:39.240 i'm not even on there i want to text i need a co-host guys i need a co-host for this what

06:04:44.520 happened to the um you had the christian guy right oh he doesn't want to do he doesn't want to

06:04:50.200 i've off i've got too too hot i mean there's a lot to it but the offer was put out multiple times

06:05:00.040 all right uh he didn't want to do it i feel like there are there isn't any with like a male uh female

06:05:09.000 co-host really in this space it would be pretty cool yeah you've got you've got some strictly males

06:05:14.360 and then you got one girl who's doing some stuff and then like a tag team guy and girl could be 0.93

06:05:20.600 a good dynamic and you were debating pretty pretty well with uh with them so yeah so i went to law

06:05:27.960 school originally i was gonna be a lawyer and then i've done high ticket sales for the last several

06:05:31.240 years so yeah debating okay so that's your is like my thing hell yeah that's awesome yes sir

06:05:36.680 that's what i do i'm honestly i'm trying to move out of sales and move into broad wait are you

06:05:40.200 liquored up are you liquored up i've had i just you're i i got some alcohol on your barely it's

06:05:46.680 like one of those like half a percentage closer to the mic it's like one of those half a percentage

06:05:52.200 uh pre-made vodka drinks it's nothing um let's see they're saying 84 84 yes and 500 about 500 votes

06:06:01.400 83 yes so there is that but uh yeah i think well one thing that could be beneficial if i did have a

06:06:09.720 female co-host is like they can't it's not so easy to dismiss like a woman making the arguments because 1.00

06:06:17.960 you could like you could just say to a guy oh you're a misogynist or you're like but it's

06:06:23.560 it's really hard to like i suppose people are still going to throw that label on you but it's

06:06:27.800 a little harder to make these sort of baseless accusations of either misogyny or sexism when

06:06:33.400 you yourself are a woman and uh so yeah i would agree especially when you can back it up i mean

06:06:38.520 there's certainly some women in this space who just kind of regurgitate stuff they hear from men and 1.00

06:06:42.440 they get clout for it but if you're able to back it up with a little bit of psychology and real life

06:06:47.480 experiences it's a little bit different i would say yeah so good times okay well i mean are you

06:06:54.120 sticking around california for a little bit or are you heading back i am heading back fairly soon but

06:06:58.040 hey if you need me to come back when you we have a show oh tomorrow okay i was gonna say we have a

06:07:02.760 show on uh tuesday and i was just on michael's show too i was like damn i could have come down with

06:07:07.560 you at the same time you could have you know whatever mike yeah mike's coming on oh yeah guys mike

06:07:11.640 sartain is coming on tuesday so that's gonna be a good show i've learned a lot from him him and

06:07:16.040 roller mike mike is very very sharp so very knowledgeable i just need to check a couple

06:07:22.120 things here amy's gonna be the new fresh someone just said i don't know a lot of people say that 0.73

06:07:28.520 shit about me so maybe you're gonna be myron and i'll be fresh i'll just be i'll be the i feel like 0.84

06:07:36.200 i would play better as a good cop right i think oh yeah i'm pretty good at bad cops so that would 0.98

06:07:41.160 work yeah i think it'd be easier for you to be bad cop but i feel i don't know i feel like i'm too

06:07:45.240 i'm kind of more on the agreeable side like i don't know you're good at asking questions to bring

06:07:50.680 people to the logical conclusion versus being like hey you're being a ho right now i'll just 0.88

06:07:55.560 tell them that they're being a ho it's fine okay yeah there you go yeah i mean i try to keep 1.00

06:08:01.400 everything you know polite with everybody no it's great like you you literally ask questions

06:08:05.800 until they say the point that you're trying to make anyway i try pretty good at that i'm okay

06:08:10.920 i'm okay i'm all right i you know sometimes i fumble hey the people asking the most questions when 0.95

06:08:16.920 there wait can what what's like some of the most australian shit that you could say uh honestly it's 0.68

06:08:23.160 all like faded but the biggest one is just no people absolutely love the way i say no in fact i think 0.89

06:08:28.120 i'm gonna make merch at this point because anytime i go on any show everyone's just like

06:08:33.000 no no no no no no it's like the only thing they really want to say so that's probably like the

06:08:37.560 number one thing i would say yeah i'm gonna make oh no merch oh no we first we need to get a formalized

06:08:44.520 like consensus of how to spell no in australian pretty sure it's n-a-u-r or n-u-r-r i don't know

06:08:51.640 you guys let me know not 100 no no is it true the toilets flush the opposite way they do wow that's

06:08:59.720 so cool yes i think that's why i want to go to australia just because of the toilet just to see

06:09:04.680 the toilets once in my life and it's on the other side of the road as well so that's why

06:09:09.400 i don't drive you don't know how to drive because when i first moved here i was 22 years old and it's

06:09:15.560 literally the other side of the road wow you don't drive no i don't know how i don't know how

06:09:20.600 to operate you're 27 i'm 28 next month too yeah it's all downhill from that 28 i know my sexual 0.98

06:09:27.800 market value is oh my god yeah by the minute guys buy me a husband ace out are you are you christian 1.00

06:09:37.720 are you religious i'm christian yeah i'm a cussing christian oh what cussing christian you're a 0.98

06:09:42.760 cussing christian so you like to curse i'm a little rough around the edges but i'm christian 0.99

06:09:47.400 you curse like a sailor i believe in christ uh resurrection okay yes sir interesting okay i read 0.98

06:09:53.640 the bible not every day but i try to read it frequently are you waiting until marriage like

06:09:59.320 naomi who was sitting in that chair i wouldn't say no i'm i wouldn't say that i'm a born again virgin

06:10:03.720 but i will say that the next guy i date i would very much so like him to be my husband that would be

06:10:08.600 nice doesn't everybody say that though yeah i know but like i'm taking that pretty seriously

06:10:15.320 yeah i don't uh have sex outside of relationships there's been like two instances where that's 0.99

06:10:20.600 happened yeah haram haram haram i'm too slow fuck it never too slow fuck yeah that was a long show 0.99

06:10:30.200 it was a good show how long was that brian well we're at six hours and ten minutes right now wow 0.99

06:10:34.440 is that a record i was like no it's not a record but it's pretty fucking late even thinking about 0.85

06:10:39.320 doing like five hours was a lot the longest i've ever done is three on ali can you just scoot that

06:10:44.600 microphone this that one just like scoot it that way so yeah i was kind of blocking oh so i can tell

06:10:50.600 that you're like kind of ocd is that like an actual thing or just with the show i'm a little ocd

06:10:56.360 what's your sign i'm actually a little like i like things to be kind of like as such yes are you a 0.93

06:11:02.440 virgo taurus okay but uh oh fuck that's what i wanted to talk about the girls before the show 1.00

06:11:10.040 were like really getting heavy into astrology shit like oh my jupiter rising and and i really 0.94

06:11:16.760 wanted to talk about that but sadly i forgot about what talking about and talking about that real or 0.78

06:11:24.920 not real yeah i don't buy that ali you were like staring at me super intensely during that has anyone

06:11:31.480 ever told you you have like very intense i do i'm a scorpio i have like an intense stare eyes also

06:11:38.520 like i was zoning out a couple times oh so you're just looking at me and zoned out one time you caught

06:11:42.760 me doing that i was totally like zoning out so i was just like seeing nothing but yeah looking at you

06:11:47.160 i zoned out once as well just i i can get used to the length of these podcasts but here's the thing

06:11:52.520 here's the thing i don't want to make a habit i don't want to make a habit of having these ridiculously long

06:11:59.080 shows but recently the shows have been fucking long and like if it's good right and it's and it's 0.93

06:12:09.320 flowing then there's no reason to cut it short but when five out of like ten girls on your show say

06:12:14.760 brian i know but like i'm she's being like she would be great she was giving you a lot to work with

06:12:22.040 i there's been very few girls who have come on the show like a lot of girls will be like i think

06:12:28.120 dating dating the difficulty with dating is about the same which i disagree with but but like to say

06:12:34.520 that it's harder for or it's about the same when it comes to getting laid to me is like

06:12:41.400 so ridiculous like you can i think you can make much stronger arguments about well it's about equal 0.66

06:12:46.280 in terms of difficulty or frustration when it comes to dating but when it comes strictly to the ability 0.97

06:12:52.520 to get laid to me that's like so obviously not true that

06:13:03.480 like really i'm gonna like i just want to argue with you at that point like just continually argue so

06:13:09.720 and we had a a lot of a lot of super chats tonight like yeah i was gonna say that like

06:13:16.840 people were giving you the love oh nice which which i don't want people to think i'm like not um what's

06:13:23.800 the word like not um grateful for the patronage i absolutely am but you know the shows when like

06:13:33.320 and a lot of the super chats and you know the tts's were asking questions um you know like

06:13:39.560 i i'm not the type of guy that wants to just like glance over the soup chats i do like to try to

06:13:45.560 provide like actually you know read the whole thing and not just read it but also hey they ask a

06:13:51.560 question let's ask the entire panel and then then conversational threads you know start and then so

06:14:00.200 20 minutes later we're like wait how do we end up yeah yeah so um so yeah i mean i'm i'm super grateful

06:14:08.040 for for all the patronage but you know i think the first like two or three hours it was like

06:14:14.280 tts tts tts tts like which is thank you guys so much for your patronage but it is gonna probably like

06:14:21.720 i mean i wasn't able to get into like a lot of my notes that i had pre-written there were there

06:14:26.920 were three other videos we were gonna react to i'd prepared a couple other things we didn't even get

06:14:32.040 into that we rushed through a lot of stuff so i think just the convo was naturally flowing so

06:14:36.440 yeah um it was a really great show yeah it was good it was good so okay i love reading the comments

06:14:42.040 i know i try not to read them while i'm like on the show because it's so destructing

06:14:47.320 i can't help it it's like my favorite part yeah i almost wonder if we should uh

06:14:53.640 okay ruby brian you have lost 70 of your live viewers you used to

06:14:57.320 uh you moved it away while i was reading it but um it's all good um i don't know whatever

06:15:05.000 she but she said i used to get 30k now i'm getting 3k the only first off we've never had 30k we had

06:15:11.880 24k with destiny right with the destiny stream which i that was like a specifically assembled

06:15:19.000 fucking super panel where we had destiny his wife there were the two feminist girls that weren't 1.00

06:15:25.480 like whatever we had um we had yeah we had him we had chase we had john doyle we had mary from tim cast 0.99

06:15:34.200 and we had nev and then we had and we were just coming off of like some really insane shows

06:15:43.000 so like bro i'm not i'm not like disappointed that i'm not getting 24k every show when you just

06:15:50.120 yeah maybe that was like an exceptional show right yeah when you like stack a panel with

06:15:55.800 really big guests like when we had michael knolls on the show like we like doubled or tripled our 0.87

06:16:00.920 previous view count um when we had rollo and mike and justin waller we had fucking 0.95

06:16:08.760 about double or triple our normal view count when you like bring on some high ticket

06:16:13.560 with a high whatever you know some high profile high profile people like you're gonna have more

06:16:18.200 people tuning in the conversation is going to be much more compelling so yeah because their whole

06:16:23.160 community comes over as well as much as their community it's their community yeah but we also

06:16:27.640 i mean to be fair like there's been a little decline in the average viewer count that's partially

06:16:34.280 because i took like a month off and then we've we had like uh i think another thing that kind of

06:16:41.240 fucked things up over is we had like a group of only fans girls that showed up and i'm not going to 0.92

06:16:47.000 get into it but basically they showed up they sabotaged they sort of sabotaged they flash themselves

06:16:52.760 no but like we basically ended up not having a show and then like just little things like that are

06:16:57.640 kind of gonna and then we've had like a couple technical issues like some issues with the stream and then

06:17:05.320 yeah well no even that in our recent startup episodes also the panels have been a bit more tame

06:17:10.680 so i think like it's been a little less engaging and i haven't really like the past

06:17:18.120 six seven shows i haven't really booked like anyone super notable in the same way like bro okay

06:17:27.080 gorlock the gorlock episode was huge and then like i mean it is what it is um i took a month off it's

06:17:36.040 going to take a bit of time to build back up and yeah you know you have ebb and flow when it comes

06:17:41.560 to viewership it's it's part of the you know it's part of the hustle okay let me just read these little

06:17:46.280 small ones and then we'll get out of here angry casper thank you man uh actually can you read it i'm

06:17:52.520 getting parched w rw guy failed test for amy who is aaron piszi who is terence pop not sure okay

06:18:00.120 angry casper thank you for the new zealand uh i know who aaron piszi is she's like a one of the

06:18:07.880 i think she's she was in the uk she's one of the first women or well she opened up the first male 0.97

06:18:13.960 domestic violence shelter from oh yeah okay and she got she used to be a feminist but then she got 1.00

06:18:21.240 like ostracized because she wanted to open up a shelter for men okay uh okay shout out to you

06:18:30.120 yo major pain australian 10 thank you man i nominate myself as tribute for what what do you

06:18:36.520 he said it again amy i'll nominate myself as tribute only problem is i am improved

06:18:41.960 oh for romantically i guess i don't know ooga booga amy is a smart girl don't judge on past

06:18:47.720 what's your past whoever wins her heart is a lucky man i don't know that was i've been on fresh and fit

06:18:53.320 a bunch um and like since i went on since i went on fresh and fit from like the very first time there

06:18:57.880 were people saying like oh i know amy she used a guy for a green card but i just debunked it

06:19:02.920 recently on my youtube i posted up receipts of me paying for my own green card like last year it's

06:19:09.000 still not even fully in i'm on an adjusted says my green card comes in in october uh but i left my

06:19:13.800 ex-husband before our green card was ever finalized because the marriage was not going to work i think

06:19:19.640 that's what they maybe you're a divorcee i am i think that's what they maybe are referring to but

06:19:24.840 i cannot say for sure i cannot say for sure all right we have major pain here amy i'll nominate

06:19:30.520 myself as tribute only problem is i'm in perth oh okay okay you're in florida though aren't you i am

06:19:35.720 miami florida for now good times you're moving here to become the co-host exactly whatever podcast

06:19:41.960 bender the offender may have to up the tts to 150 yeah maybe i mean previously when like our view our

06:19:48.760 view count was a little higher we had super chat read like 100 and tts 200 but i wanted to lower that

06:19:56.600 back down a little bit so i lowered it to 50 to read 100 for tts you could argue like when you bring

06:20:03.480 on someone like bangs who's gonna like you know make for like a really entertaining show maybe you

06:20:09.560 boost it up a bit but i think it was appropriate it was the tts was very frequent though so you could

06:20:17.880 actually make an argument tonight that it was too low um but in any case in any case i'm still great

06:20:23.320 very grateful for the people who so generously uh you know spend their money and you know are patrons of

06:20:31.640 the podcast and uh it's very it's uh means the world because like like i said demonetized ad revenue

06:20:38.600 is not great um and uh you know a lot you know we do have a controversial show so it's hard to get

06:20:45.160 sponsorships and uh yeah so really i really appreciate everybody that is super chatting and

06:20:53.160 supporting in whatever way you are whether that's just even watching the show you know so

06:20:58.360 terence pop saved 526 men from canceling out so oh from deleting themselves i don't know i've never

06:21:04.200 heard that name but uh i'll take a look at it thank you casper appreciate it man okay any final thoughts

06:21:09.320 from you guys before we wrap it up here um for the person asking what my youtube channel is just

06:21:15.160 search my name amy dangerfield and you'll be able to find me my youtube is ali hardesty there we go

06:21:22.600 um and yeah just thank you so much brian this was awesome my brain is melted but this was fun yes thank

06:21:27.880 you for coming i know we uh like i said i know what's up okay got it um i'll i'll read those yeah i'm

06:21:35.400 glad we were finally able to get you guys on the show uh yeah thank you for having us this was really

06:21:39.640 fun yeah thank you guys for coming really appreciate it and uh yeah and like i said i know we went late

06:21:45.080 but uh yeah uh bender the founder you could also do it on a per show basis what do you mean

06:21:53.640 just like bump it up sometimes type of thing yeah yeah we've done i mean we did that like when we had um

06:22:02.040 um i mean when we have some like big guests coming on we're like okay if the tts is too low it's just

06:22:07.880 gonna fucking interrupt way too frequently like and if i have like a guest who like when i had michael's 0.94

06:22:15.160 michael knolls on i was like okay um i forgot what we said it to for the knoll show but i was like look 0.91

06:22:22.920 this guy he's i don't want i want to try to limit how frequently tts interrupts michael knolls because i

06:22:30.760 want him to have like a good flow and if it's just too frequent you know i mean that's the case

06:22:35.640 for anybody but um for sure bangs was not entertaining she argues in bad faith alvin sam

06:22:43.320 the michael knolls episode was awesome that was one of my yeah that was a good one i should have

06:22:47.160 asked one of the things i i forgot to ask was uh would the girls date somebody who culturally

06:22:52.840 appropriated that would have been a good conversation culturally appropriated you know cultural

06:22:57.800 appropriation so is that like when people say that girls who get like braids is them being like 1.00

06:23:02.360 racist or a guy who has um dreadlocks that's culturally appropriating well i mean yeah that's

06:23:10.280 a little bit ridiculous but basically like this the kind of thought process i had with that is like well 0.83

06:23:17.800 michael knolls isn't really like doesn't really talk about dating much he's a conservative

06:23:21.480 is pundit the right word conservative pundit commentator pundit yes political he's a conservative

06:23:30.040 political commentator and i was like okay well how can i kind of um weave in these so i was like well

06:23:37.240 okay i asked the girls would you ever date a conservative would you do the guy who's pro-life

06:23:40.360 would you ever date a guy who uh owns a firearm these sorts of things so i was like would you ever date

06:23:45.000 a guy who culturally appropriated that would have been good unfortunately maybe next time maybe next

06:23:50.920 time maybe next time we're gonna try to get some of the daily wire people on the show it's in the

06:23:54.680 works uh they're not right creeper on she'd be funny yeah i need oh yeah i need to follow up because

06:23:59.960 there's been there's been some back and forth with uh i think they're producers so i'm gonna follow

06:24:03.640 up she loves your podcast she like she she does come like commentary on your podcast all the time i

06:24:09.240 almost wonder if i've fallen out of favor though with some of the uh conservative outlets yeah i

06:24:17.320 think just in general like red red pill quote-unquote red pill podcasts have kind of like a bad name

06:24:22.600 right now probably not your podcast per se but yeah maybe that like blanket like category yeah there's

06:24:28.360 been a lot of there's been like we there's a period in time where like everybody had everyone was

06:24:35.160 like yeah i fuck with the whatever podcast like people like really had our back but then we like 0.92

06:24:40.680 you know started getting a little bigger and then there's some more eyeballs on us and there's been 0.96

06:24:44.840 like hit pieces written and in magazine like new york posted the hippies there's been a lot of youtube

06:24:52.360 a lot of youtubers have done uh like essay type you know uh essayist type videos right um i'm trying

06:25:01.960 i can't remember there uh hey it's good though i feel like when you're doing that you know you're

06:25:06.440 getting a lot of you can't reach like a really high level without people criticizing you it just

06:25:11.720 really shows you're onto the right thing here in my opinion yeah there's been a lot of criticism lately

06:25:17.080 so i'm almost wondering the new york was it new york post new york times yeah there's a disturbing 0.99

06:25:22.120 new habit of disturbing new trends making women look stupid it's like no honey they they formulate their 1.00

06:25:28.920 own answers they make themselves look very stupid via the words that come out of their mouth if they 1.00

06:25:35.240 can fix their mouth to say what they say then they can claim responsibility for it but yeah i mean vice 0.99

06:25:41.640 new york post so well it's vice i mean what can one expect right uh mario g hey thank you man brian

06:25:48.040 i think you got to make the topics more interesting again i thought today was kind of weird topics still 0.89

06:25:51.800 love the show just i thought i don't know the ph shit was fucking yeah that dragged on a little bit 0.93

06:25:59.480 yeah uh michael gutierrez hey 28 keep it up yo michael thank you so much really appreciate your 0.97

06:26:04.680 patronage thank you man um but yeah just coming back to this one uh yeah i mean i i had some

06:26:12.120 shit i wanted to react to but like the the thing is is uh i i don't want to like wait until the last

06:26:20.360 hour of the show to read super chats and tts so i tried to like every 30 minutes like we got into 0.69

06:26:27.480 the tts and super chats pretty quick and like that tends to kind of direct to the conversation a little

06:26:33.640 bit so um sometimes you know i wasn't able like i had a couple things specific topics and we were

06:26:42.120 going to react to three videos we weren't able to get to it there's some other people had wrote me some

06:26:47.400 uh pre-show notes weren't able to get to that so next time next time next time yeah i almost want to

06:26:55.080 cancel my flight and stay till tuesday oh maybe you yeah maybe maybe actually are you down do it

06:27:03.320 i kind of i think we have space i think we have space on the tuesday show if you're down

06:27:07.000 is the panel full actually no i we have we have space actually i think we have we have a big room

06:27:14.120 no we we do have space for the tuesday show so okay let me see let me see let's touch base if i

06:27:19.080 booked a refundable flight i promise you i will refund it i will i started that if it's refundable

06:27:24.200 i will refund that pinky pinky swear it's a pinky swear uh yeah well let's touch base tomorrow and we

06:27:29.640 can either way um but uh actually i think tonight's panel was ever because i was on a

06:27:37.160 break for a month i think it was our best show that we've had since we came back from break so

06:27:42.680 that's like out of seven shows i think we've done cool yeah chat what do you think yo chat um was that

06:27:50.040 the best show since was it the best show was it the best show like not total the best the best show

06:28:03.880 since we've been back we were gonna have uh we were gonna have rollo but i guess he can't make it

06:28:14.360 unfortunately um you're gonna have him tonight no we were gonna have him on tuesday with mike

06:28:18.680 oh okay i don't know i guess something happened um he so he we he was on schedule but he's he

06:28:25.160 unfortunately wasn't able to make it um maybe next time we can have him on but um oh they like it

06:28:32.120 yeah i think they like you like it yo wait one in the chat wait did we're oh no we already we

06:28:36.200 already voted for you to be co-host so we got to do one in the chat for okay one in the chat should

06:28:42.920 amy come on tuesday's show do you guys want amy on tuesday's show

06:28:50.920 sophia i don't know i don't know about sophia why are you guys why why why okay she's been on two

06:29:01.320 shows i don't know they're in love with her i guess um okay i'm seeing a lot of ones there all

06:29:07.400 right i guess the the the viewers okay the people have spoken all right we have tyler here

06:29:14.760 love you australia you're beautiful even though you didn't put me over earlier you have awesome views

06:29:19.800 oh thank you put you over earlier what does that mean i'm so hungry oh okay all right okay guys uh

06:29:29.960 we're gonna wrap up there thank you guys for all the uh uh here i'll keep it here whoops uh guys

06:29:34.760 say goodbye to kiki over there she's been lonely she hasn't been at the table for a long time i never 0.99

06:29:38.920 noticed her knees she's been sucking a lot of dick 1.00

06:29:45.320 what okay no have they ever seen her knees because i never knew her knees one one day they will see 1.00

06:29:52.280 the knees yeah no it's just like it's shitty rubber so okay anyways her her chastity is intact kiki 1.00

06:30:01.080 has never been laid with okay okay okay i don't believe it but okay honestly like the idea unless 0.99

06:30:08.200 it's like an ai sex oh my god never mind that was my thing that i was going to bring up was like 0.84

06:30:12.920 ai relationships and like power social relationships yeah next year though my brain's melted yeah it's 0.54

06:30:19.640 been a long show okay all right guys oh it's over six hours oh coming up on seven okay okay guys we're

06:30:27.400 gonna wrap up oh my god okay the chat is on fire okay guys thank you for tuning in tonight very much

06:30:35.080 appreciated hey guys let me get some let me see some oh sevens in the chat oh sevens and the chat 0.97

06:30:41.640 guys you have to do a salute salute is that how you salute what the fuck okay hold on before you um 0.74

06:30:49.480 guys michael sartain tuesday 7 p.m pacific we have a very good panel for you going to be a very good 0.93

06:30:55.320 panel be sure to tune in gentlemen we have a good show anyways guys good night see you next time bye

06:31:02.840 bye thank you brother that was like a so that was like a heil hitler you did uh start stop

Whatever Podcast - July 24, 2023

Dating Talk #86

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