Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #87

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00:02:12.680 the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hi my name

00:02:19.140 is ilena i'm 24 and i'm a bartender all right welcome thank you i'm audi aka audi drip i'm a fashion

00:02:28.520 designer musician and i'm trying to make a living living age i'm 22 22 okay audi drip is that your rap

00:02:38.300 name or it's my clothes name drip is a clothes so good yeah people call me audi's drip with the

00:02:43.880 clothes with the music whatever it is audi audi's drip sorry i'm like really white so i don't know

00:02:49.980 what what is drip can anybody tell me okay and by the way she she very graciously made some art for

00:02:59.260 us so i'm gonna hold it up to the camera here this is good let me check it out guys she's a talented

00:03:04.120 artist let me see if i can look at that that's cool right wait what's what the did you put a heart

00:03:10.920 here hello is that what's that signify are you is this like a is it a love now it's a little

00:03:17.580 a love doodle a love doodle instead of a love poem okay well i expect a poem later tonight um

00:03:24.300 uh okay what about you hi my name is andrea i'm 31 32 in a couple of days and i do youtube only fans

00:03:33.660 streaming pretty much anything content creation okay um and i actually detect a bit of an accent

00:03:40.260 from the both of you are you where are you from i'm from the midwest born in st paul minnesota

00:03:45.040 born and raised do they have accents in minnesota yes does she have a minnesota accent no no

00:03:54.180 what is your accent i'm trying to detect what it is people tell me i have all different types of

00:03:59.760 accents so i don't know you could you could you could be the judge okay well we'll get some more

00:04:05.500 samples later on in the show well i'm actually from canada quebec canada so well that's kind of

00:04:11.200 french canada but i'm still english i didn't know you spoke french but minnesota is close to

00:04:18.900 the canadian border yeah they speak kind of similar in some degrees okay uh what about you

00:04:25.500 my name is andeza i'm a hair model and a social media manager hair model yeah i didn't know there

00:04:31.240 were hair oh i i've heard of hair models you got good hair so okay thank you uh age 23 23 okay

00:04:37.860 so like maybelline cream of nature head and shoulders knees and toes

00:04:42.900 cream of nature so like do you have you done any shampoo bottles or no more of like their poster

00:04:50.340 girl okay gotcha yeah okay very cool hi my name is rosanna pfeiffer um i'm from buffalo new york

00:04:58.560 um i'm a nurse practitioner and i also model and act age 34 34 you said nurse practitioner yes okay

00:05:10.860 okay and you do content too you make content content creator like what kind like i model and

00:05:19.620 act so okay i guess kind of okay gotcha what about you i am mal palpatine and i am 27 and i am a

00:05:26.000 content creator and i also do marketing strategy full-time is your last name really palpatine

00:05:32.260 no i'm about to say man i was like what i wish is that your stage name yeah do you have a should so

00:05:39.980 we should refer to mal is that you call me mal or mallory is your real name gertrude no it's just

00:05:45.880 rogers it's boring and i don't really like name is roger no my last name is rogers mallory is her

00:05:51.280 first name yes oh that's your legit first name yes oh okay mallory okay got it yeah what about you

00:05:56.640 hi my name is mia lynn i'm 26 years old and um in the interim of getting my phd in psychology i've

00:06:04.640 been an internet personality for about five years and um i'm starting a male dating advice platform

00:06:10.140 called men ask mia okay men men ask me yeah yeah and you you're going to provide dating advice you're

00:06:19.480 going to coach coaching yeah essentially i started off on tiktok and then it kind of became popular and

00:06:25.580 it's going to go into like patreon what was your like breakout piece of advice that you provided to

00:06:31.320 a guy when it comes to dating when you mean breakout what do you mean well i mean you said you post on

00:06:37.920 tiktok typically like someone will have like a video that gets in the algorithm or goes viral have you

00:06:42.580 had one of like a video that just got a lot of views where you were no giving advice okay usually i'll

00:06:47.020 just just be like hey if you're a guy that dates a girl ask me questions i got the insight like tell me

00:06:52.120 what's up and they'll just start asking and i'll start responding do you date women too or are you

00:06:57.360 are you i've been with women in the past but i'm strict like that's crazy that's i've never heard

00:07:02.900 of that with men i'm pretty much heterosexual but i experimented okay got it okay we'll come we'll

00:07:08.720 touch back on that later uh kelly what about you hi i'm kelly i'm 21 i'm a student and i'm a personal

00:07:14.640 stylist and shopper for nordstrom and i do social media and content creation for them as well

00:07:19.920 all right welcome back mike me yes you uh my name is michael sartain i'm a retired u.s air force

00:07:27.360 captain i flew kc-135 uh as a navigator and i did special ops and i did counter intel for a while

00:07:33.600 and now i'm the founder of the men of action mentoring program uh and i also host the michael

00:07:38.420 sartain podcast and i host a show called access vegas with my good buddy relo tomasi very cool uh did

00:07:44.320 you see your age by the way i'm 45 what really i am 45 i spent my 30s in uh with uncle sam good times

00:07:52.000 i thought i thought you were younger i think i said that last time yeah but uh you you're you're uh

00:07:58.420 moisturizer that must be what it is that's what it's doing good uh priya what about you hi my name

00:08:03.840 is priya i'm 22 years old i'm a full-time student at asu uh i'm an athlete and i co-run a family

00:08:09.920 business what kind of athlete i'm an equestrian so i ride horses are you a horse girl brian am i a

00:08:20.000 horse girl yes you are you are definitely a horse girl how many horses do you own i own three currently

00:08:27.820 three horses okay i'm writing that down because that's going to be useful for later okay um very

00:08:33.720 cool what's that oh sorry i didn't okay i got it wrong all right okay guys we're going to go around

00:08:39.160 the table once more so please tell us your current relationship status are you single are you talking

00:08:44.780 stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule um how long have you been single

00:08:52.500 if you're single and what's your longest relationship you've ever had go ahead yeah so i am currently

00:08:58.840 single um men are welcome to come um around me okay okay i was like yeah anyways but yeah i've been

00:09:14.940 single i've always been single like i've never been in a relationship i've only been in situationship

00:09:20.540 like one situation that doesn't count okay you so never been in a relationship no one situationship

00:09:27.580 yeah how long have you been single properly single or maybe you're not properly single i don't know

00:09:33.200 i'm single i'm out of since i've been out of the relationship it's been two years

00:09:40.160 you sounded a little distressed there when you were do all the guys that you're dating know that

00:09:45.760 you're single i don't talk to people i am a solo dolo person i feel like it's really hard to connect

00:09:51.720 with someone i can't just connect with anybody on the streets you know on the streets yeah like outside

00:09:57.400 the means are you you live in la i live in la yeah okay gotcha okay uh one so you had one

00:10:04.500 situationship what's the longest period of time that you were seeing a guy what even if it was an

00:10:10.260 official boyfriend girlfriend what was the longest whatever it was uh four years a four year

00:10:16.100 situations oh yeah i think you provided that for us before the yeah okay four year situ and was it

00:10:23.500 pretty con like because some people are on again off again even with situationships or was it like

00:10:28.080 pretty consistent situationship it was an on again off again thing like maybe two to three times a year

00:10:34.880 i'm being on and off i'm just doing the same thing over and over how do you four years explain that how

00:10:39.620 does i just feel like when you're young and you're like a girl and you date someone that's a man and

00:10:45.620 they're older than you you just kind of like um connect at a different level especially if it's

00:10:50.980 like a first love situation so it's a first love situation those things are really tough to navigate

00:10:56.120 especially if you didn't have the tools growing up on a healthy relationship on how to deal with that

00:11:01.460 so you're just kind of like two kids playing this game with each other but haven't had the tools to

00:11:08.800 really know how to be a functional healthy relationship so yeah okay um and you said

00:11:14.900 it was an age gap relationship um it was five years i was 18 they were 22 when we met okay

00:11:22.540 so you but you haven't talked to this guy in a while it's been over for a minute yeah okay

00:11:28.400 so 18 to 22 is when you're okay you're 24 now got it okay um rock and roll what so you when you

00:11:37.100 were saying it was on again off again were there like periods of where you guys would fight and

00:11:41.600 then there'd be like a pseudo breakup even though you guys weren't technically together i suppose

00:11:45.880 yeah who who more often than not was initiating the i don't want to see you was it him or was it you

00:11:52.520 it was it would be me leaving and me coming back almost every time but he was he asking you to come

00:12:00.000 back or no oh so you would leave him pissed off yeah and then you missed him yeah because he was

00:12:08.300 talking to other girls i mean yeah it was that's why it was a situation ship because he was with

00:12:12.720 other people the whole time he never told you he wanted monogamy um he would just say that he

00:12:18.420 couldn't do commitment that was always the thing for this band of four years like oh i can't be

00:12:22.680 committed but he just meant to like one punani what one i'm trying to like give a pg-13 version of

00:12:32.420 punani okay gotcha okay all right well what about you i put in the singing single

00:12:38.700 shout out lisa shout minnesota yes um i'd be really focused on wait can you i'm sorry single single

00:12:48.340 shout out minnesota people that sing and single single wait the sing the sing and single oh people

00:12:56.060 who sing are single okay um you know i'm not saying you can't focus on a career of creating an art

00:13:03.980 and also see people but i have chosen as a young when i was young to really focus on creating at first

00:13:10.180 and i really didn't feel like at a young age i had the tools to be in a proper relationship so

00:13:15.540 i have seen quite a few people but never even escalate to the point where i'll say like we

00:13:20.580 could date we could be exclusive so have you ever you're 22 have you ever had a boyfriend or

00:13:27.960 relationship or i'll say more relationships i had boyfriends when i was in high school and middle

00:13:34.240 school so i said about over 18 after 18 i would not say um dating i would say relationships

00:13:43.260 you could spend time with somebody and be more than just friends but never never intentions to be

00:13:56.280 more at least i had never had intentions with so no romantic relationships correct got it friends

00:14:02.620 with benefits okay so no commitment correct so were you seeing several people was the guy seeing several

00:14:12.160 people what was i've been in a couple relationships um one was a more poly relationship where the man had

00:14:20.240 lots of females around the house and um i really enjoyed that relationship because that was the one

00:14:27.680 where um i felt most um that i could be myself because i really do feel like not i can't really cover

00:14:36.560 one person's all their needs where in utah was this minnesota oh my bad my bad wait so were you living in

00:14:46.640 this in the house with the guy with the multiple girlfriends or whatever correct was it multiple dudes

00:14:54.000 too no just one dude how many how many women depends how many women want to be around like at the peak

00:15:00.080 what was the most like five women real talk he was selling dope what was he doing no no um how old

00:15:07.520 was this man yeah he was living off ssi and just basically had his stuff paid for yeah is he disabled

00:15:15.440 or right correct he had um mental problems oh so he wouldn't he wouldn't they weren't even y'all

00:15:21.280 weren't even having sex with him y'all were just living with him but i mean i mean it's to say it's

00:15:26.160 cold in minnesota so i get it you know what i'm saying i understand winters get long yeah was this

00:15:31.520 this was an older man i'm assuming correct was it a cult like no no no he was an old dude who just

00:15:38.240 paid for a house and a bunch of girls just stayed at the house but he was getting you said he was on

00:15:42.560 disability correct but what i will say is that i don't go places that i can provide pretty good for

00:15:48.720 myself except financially except financially i want a documentary about this motherfucker with

00:15:57.760 a fucking wheelchair who's yeah special right there who's got five girls living with him

00:16:02.400 living on social security i would pay to see every episode of that wait how old were you when you did

00:16:07.120 that starting at like 19 okay oh okay so this is a person i would um really care for the people in

00:16:15.440 in the house that i'll say i never had a man cook for me this man cooked for every woman in the house

00:16:20.080 three meals a day when he had six five five women in the house and he was paying for the house

00:16:26.800 maybe he was a good cook did you guys have to bomb cook bomb i never i have i have never been vegan my

00:16:32.160 whole life i've never been vegan he was vegan yes he's vegan i my favorite food used to be chicken

00:16:38.080 wings chicken wings i would eat chicken wings every single day but i said when i moved in there

00:16:42.640 they cooked vegan but you were eating chicken wings every single day that was my favorite food yes

00:16:48.000 from kfc or were you making it yourself oh i can't cook chicken i can't fry very good

00:16:52.560 chick-fil-a no no not chick-fil-a like b-dubs wing stuff those are like you know what you gotta try

00:16:58.960 some places those are like the average like anybody can go to wing stop b-dubs like the chain

00:17:03.920 restaurants yeah you want like the mom like spicy wings like i like to try out the hottest wings so

00:17:09.040 yes wing stop only like atomic you know what i'm saying like i like more like a little more like

00:17:14.720 hot ones got it um i'm just now i don't even want to talk about dating i want to eat i want to talk

00:17:21.360 about your eating habits so every day every day you would eat chicken wings i used to yeah you're

00:17:29.200 not exactly like every every day some days you'd have it for two meals for real for breakfast you'd

00:17:34.240 have chicken wings but my body started feeling depleted yes i got addicted to hot sauce because

00:17:39.440 one of the one of the people that invented some of the hottest peppers they used to be addicted um to

00:17:43.680 heroin so they started manufacturing manufacturing the hottest peppers they would go out and you know that

00:17:49.760 it was a the kicker it would be because the hottest foods throw you off your senses so that feeling

00:17:56.240 i um i really hold on hold on hold on just one thing hold on one thing one thing okay so so you're

00:18:03.680 saying that in order to detox from heroin people got on peppers correct okay can we this actually might

00:18:11.920 be true check it go for it okay so the chicken wing was more the way to get the hot sauce uh you know

00:18:18.720 what i'm saying it was just like a delivery method for the hot sauce but what was the transition like

00:18:23.360 from eating chicken wings multiple meals a day to becoming vegan it was good if the vegan food wasn't

00:18:29.760 good the vegan vegan food was busting so i did not mind at all welcome to the whatever food network

00:18:35.280 where we okay um let's get back to the relationship stuff okay so you're living in a house with a dude there

00:18:40.240 there were the five five other women um were you all were you all no she said no nobody's nobody was

00:18:49.680 fucking them some people were but some not you but you but you see the thing is um it's people people

00:18:55.760 were looking for different things so if you came into the house everyone is very respectful like if you

00:19:00.720 was looking for an intimate relationship sexually you know there'd be people in the house that would fancy

00:19:05.920 you whatever but so were you paying to live here no no not at all did the girls i was making my my

00:19:12.800 album there and i was um doing all my music my art and doing i was learning how to um mix and master

00:19:20.560 sure record i did that i learned all that to do myself so what so what was in it for this man that

00:19:26.080 was housing all of you women if there was no having a bunch of females around like that care it's like

00:19:32.400 minnesota playboy it's not like you have it i've been to the playboy mansion several times it's not

00:19:39.840 like that there's no social security check you haven't i'm making no chicken wings it's not like

00:19:45.200 that it's not anything like that it's movie night with 17 playmates that's what you happen is like

00:19:51.360 is somebody shaking their leg the whole table is there an earthquake going on the whole tables

00:19:55.600 i just asked whoever's like vibrating oh i feel that too man yeah well how crazy would that be

00:20:00.800 we've had an earthquake that that's just crazy okay whatever all right um what about you uh my date

00:20:06.560 my dating life um so okay current relationship status currently i'm single and i've always been

00:20:13.920 in relationships and if i wasn't in a relationship i was dating but i i really enjoy dating um just like

00:20:20.560 going out and meeting people and getting to know them and usually you can do really fun stuff with

00:20:26.240 a guy that you can't do with like a woman like romantic stuff you know um that you can't just do

00:20:30.720 with your girlfriend so even if i'm single i'm always dating and hanging out with guys that sounds

00:20:36.000 bad but in the most innocent way i'm sure the audience will understand completely what you're

00:20:41.280 saying no they won't they probably won't how long have you been single uh six months six months okay

00:20:47.680 what was your longest relationship um probably i was on and off with a guy for about six seven years

00:20:54.000 and then we broke up and then i was actually recently married for the last two years and

00:20:59.600 divorced and now i'm single single for the last six months okay divorcee yeah my divorcee did you

00:21:06.240 divorce him or did he divorce you i think it was me that called it off but it was he oh my god you

00:21:13.360 know how men i asked like the smallest things like he would never check the mail like i know it sounds

00:21:19.120 kind of ridiculous but like one day i just lost it like we had been living together for two years and

00:21:23.120 please just go grab the mail wait so hold on hold on just a point of clarification so i mean i i

00:21:29.040 asked perhaps the reasons why you divorced him and the first thing that came to mind was he

00:21:33.200 failed at getting the mail yeah it's those little things right like um he would never change the

00:21:38.800 bed sheets like i would have never get married i would have to be the one you know it's that typical

00:21:44.080 like he would i guess just assume because i'm like i think that was an abusive relationship yeah it sort of

00:21:49.600 is even though it's that was really abusive can i ask would you say that was just the wrong person

00:21:55.600 because if to me if it was the right person the little things is not hard at all like even even

00:22:01.600 if you forgot or didn't do it day and day again was just the wrong person i have a different question

00:22:07.280 did you entertain the thought of seeing another man before you got divorced uh no you weren't with

00:22:13.920 anybody even if i was like upset about the mail or what i never thought like oh i wanted to

00:22:19.360 so what was it someone at the same time what was it other than just the mail because nobody gets

00:22:25.120 the worst uh simply for that reason so i think we're trying to get at the underlying um i guess

00:22:31.440 it was just everything no ambition i guess that was that was it and that leads to smaller things right

00:22:37.200 like not doing the laundry as much or not doing chores or little things around the house it bothered me so

00:22:42.720 much when we would go to his like mother's house and we'd have to bring like a gift like it was it

00:22:46.720 fell on my shoulders like i didn't like those roles where it was like the woman that you know makes

00:22:51.600 the gift all pretty and i'd have to go buy it and make you know put the effort and he would just show

00:22:55.440 up and can i ask why you would marry him then um these were kind of minor things that don't seem big

00:23:02.720 at first and then slowly as you get to know the person more was he employed yes well you said he

00:23:08.960 wasn't you said he wasn't ambitious um yeah what if you don't mind me asking what was his career

00:23:16.240 uh like worked retail or like in warehouses he didn't really have so much a career it was kind of

00:23:21.600 was he about your age yeah he was like 34 at the time but i keep in mind we were together most of

00:23:27.840 the time during covid so that also you're not able to see the full person right like he wasn't working

00:23:33.760 when we first met because of covid and right okay so yeah but now i'm single and happy okay so you

00:23:40.640 were the breadwinner yeah in the relationship okay did you uh yeah did you have to end up pay him paying

00:23:47.840 him alimony no no you weren't together long enough for that uh no i don't really know if it applies

00:23:54.960 because we just we're very that's the thing we never fought at the end so we we just split each

00:23:59.760 okay it was like went our own way so i don't even know what he was um illegally it was amicable yeah

00:24:06.720 okay all right fair enough okay uh what about you i am newly single um my longest relationship was

00:24:14.000 four years four years uh when you say newly single what was it earlier today two months oh two months

00:24:20.400 ago okay yeah who broke up with who um he cheated on me so good times yeah love that for me um yeah that

00:24:26.960 was the end of that so how'd you find out oh you'd love to know um i kind of like send me his

00:24:32.640 idea i bet you i know him oh my god you don't he's from jersey um walked in on it because i had like

00:24:38.160 there we go walked in on it what walked in on it yeah um yeah called shorty on the corner so like he

00:24:44.800 he thought you're gonna be gone for a little while oh yeah okay so what happened exactly there um yeah so

00:24:49.680 i was babysitting at the time and i had work later that night but he texted me he missed me i'm like

00:24:54.800 hmm you just saw me an hour ago you never text me you missed me let me see how much you really

00:24:58.400 that's what that's what they like we like to text right when we cheat my crazy i'm always right yeah

00:25:02.640 exactly so i pulled up walked in his room shorty on the corner of his bed and his sweatpants that i

00:25:07.600 bought him yeah but maybe she had a flat tire or something no i took her for a ride i was like tell

00:25:13.920 me what's going on she gives me the spiel and that was the end of that what did he tell her oh so i

00:25:19.840 was he was like oh he said you guys aren't together because you're moving to la next month you know

00:25:23.760 it took me a minute to get this all together because i'm like wait the next day i whooped her

00:25:27.920 ass because it was like wait he said i was moving next month it's this month i'm all on his instagram

00:25:32.880 page my clothes are in his room and you just twirling your hair on his bed so yeah i ended up whooping

00:25:37.680 her ass and then i moved to la so so it worked out for everyone yeah except her yeah basically did you

00:25:44.080 were you living together at the time or no no no we lived like five minutes down the street from each

00:25:48.240 other i don't know why i thought my soulmate lived in my hometown but they don't ask a question

00:25:52.720 yeah um why would you beat the girl's ass oh okay boom i'm so glad you asked that because i

00:25:58.960 whooped his ass first right you so then so the next day like i said i realized she played in my face

00:26:04.640 she lied to me about them having sex said she didn't know we were together she liked the post

00:26:08.640 of us that he just posted what does she owe to you oh oh nothing but you lied to me even when i

00:26:14.160 asked you straight up what was going on resort to physical violence oh absolutely oh get touched

00:26:18.560 like half holy half hood i mean don't play with me no if she if she was out here lying to you if you

00:26:24.080 were a woman enough to go take her for a car ride and everything and she straight up lied to you to

00:26:27.920 your face sound like that literally spells ass whooping to me i don't know like right in the

00:26:32.800 dictionary okay what would you do um be civil and take it up with the man that i'm in a relationship

00:26:37.760 with but then what if you went to the other woman and you were like she doesn't owe me anything

00:26:41.680 oh so you just let people disrespect you no i think you're tripping over um somebody i don't want you

00:26:48.000 you're tripping over a dude that doesn't give it i wasn't tripping over him i don't do well with

00:26:51.520 disrespect baby girl so it's like you're not about to disrespect me and not get beat up but she doesn't

00:26:55.280 know you enough to respect you and does she know these she knows like looking right now wait did she

00:27:01.120 know did she know you no i didn't know we didn't know each other at all did she know that you the uh

00:27:05.680 your boyfriend was in a relationship yes oh she knew oh yeah absolutely but she didn't know you

00:27:10.720 yeah okay so i guess i made it okay right some women get off on being the other woman like they enjoy

00:27:16.800 bringing ballad yeah a lot of women literally reach off of like men who have girlfriends just

00:27:24.080 so they can feel the the void of like oh i stole your man yeah which women do you guys hang around

00:27:29.440 because a lot of women that's not the type of women i hang around no i'm from new york that's why

00:27:36.880 i'm from new york city yeah i'm from new york city baby are you bronx brooklyn brooklyn okay

00:27:42.480 you're from brooklyn you don't think about throwing hands absolutely no absolutely not wait

00:27:46.800 show of hands here yeah it's new brooklyn it's not old brook she's like like like she's never had her

00:27:51.760 hands on her so that's why she doesn't have her hands did you ask me oh are you you got something

00:27:56.880 to say you didn't ask me so you're just making assumptions but yeah but you first of all we came

00:28:02.000 on here and they said that we don't need to be like coming at each other and you're getting very

00:28:05.520 personal oh i said you made an assumption that's all about her putting hands on people like i would

00:28:09.520 never do that all right let's chill new york let's chill i have an opinion okay you guys can

00:28:15.920 you guys can talk about it later okay just show of hands here show of hands guys

00:28:23.360 if you were in that situation that she was in you walk in on your boyfriend getting everyone's getting

00:28:29.440 beat up everybody everybody everybody your mom better not be in the room that's all i'm saying

00:28:36.080 i want to show of hands do you okay show of hands first do you just walk away show of hands if you

00:28:43.360 just you you walk away you move on oh okay y'all never been in this situation now hold on some more

00:28:48.400 options here or here's here's option two do you start whooping on the dude that's that's option b

00:28:58.000 i option c do you stop start whooping on the chick and then option d you start whooping on

00:29:05.920 everybody can i can i give a can i give another option you pretend like you don't know and then

00:29:10.160 cheat on his friend no cheat with his friends you'll number one to be a boss yeah okay but you don't

00:29:16.960 know until you're in that situation i would just walk away and be like right the first day i did walk

00:29:22.880 away i didn't be her ass till the next day when i sat with my thoughts and really thought about what i was

00:29:26.640 about to do i'm small so i can't really fight people so but yeah i fight real good violence is

00:29:32.160 not good either like oh absolutely i felt horrible i'm not gonna lie i'm not a fighter so it just like

00:29:37.120 something came over me i would go with more like the psychological it was the next day when she was

00:29:41.600 like yeah i'm done with him and i pulled up to the bar that he goes to and she hopped out his car

00:29:47.680 so is that not worthy you lied to my face told me you was done with him and then you hopped out the car

00:29:51.600 with him so it's not i don't know that's oh no so you her up oh yeah did wait did you i forgot if

00:30:00.160 you mentioned this did you also go for the guy too oh yeah of course okay double whammy did you just

00:30:07.120 take it yeah he had to like what are you gonna do i'm like oh my god okay good night oh okay yeah

00:30:14.400 kinky sprinkler donated 100 oh that's my sprinkler goes like this

00:30:25.200 kind of satisfying i'm not gonna lie asmr it's like asmr thank thank you start rapping over it

00:30:31.680 yeah that's a beat um oh here we go comes back like what what wait there's no foul it's supposed

00:30:44.240 to be there's no there's no vowel so it didn't work uh okay that's too bad okay well what about

00:30:48.560 you uh relationship situations um i'm in a relationship currently okay how long have you

00:30:54.320 been in that relationship um two years two years okay rock and roll uh what about you

00:31:01.520 i am taken and for six years all right six years rock and roll what about you um i'm currently

00:31:09.280 dating um platonically and um i my longest relationship was you are dating platonically

00:31:16.880 like physically there's no intimacy yeah so you're ace no no not at all but

00:31:25.600 but like we're in the beginning stages it's just one dude no two okay do they know do they know

00:31:31.360 it's too okay well because they know now yes okay so you you're not intimate with either of

00:31:36.880 these two gentlemen yes but you're dating both of them we're like yeah beginning to like know each

00:31:42.320 other and you're a dating coach courting more so

00:31:45.840 well what's the problem i don't understand can you do that again oh oh yeah

00:32:00.400 i don't even know the press for that one you could you could save that and use it for future

00:32:04.560 good shit um wait so okay you're not committed to either of them but they know yeah well it was

00:32:10.800 not my like it was not my idea i'm very okay with like dating men that want to be with other women

00:32:16.800 and like sure i'm okay with like taking it slow before we make any sort of commitment to each other and

00:32:22.640 waiting to see if we have a bond before we're intimate sure so it could be funny to some people

00:32:26.960 but i consider it as self-respect wait so are you a dating coach or relationship coach or

00:32:32.720 because isn't that ironic that no that's just the way i date there's different types of dating

00:32:38.000 styles for everybody why do you think you're qualified to give dating advice and relationship

00:32:42.960 advice if you're not really in a traditional relationship well i've been in three monogamous

00:32:49.520 relationships in my life and i know well can i not get cut off before i talk and finish my sentence

00:32:56.480 thank you um what was your question again my question was why do you feel like you are qualified

00:33:01.040 to give relationship and dating advice but you're not in a relationship yourself um because i've been

00:33:05.840 in relationships before i grew up around uh concentric circles that involved men um i grew up with men in

00:33:12.880 my family um i surrounded myself basically with men i was like the girly girl in the group of men

00:33:19.280 that would have to partake in male activities and um i feel like i have an insight to men and an

00:33:25.280 insight to women that i can sort of bring together and to make sort of a full picture for men so so

00:33:30.640 what would you be like your best dating advice right now there's no singular piece of advice

00:33:34.800 everyone's life and journey is different it depends on where they're at and what's going

00:33:38.960 on with them and what their values and moral systems are and their belief systems and it's

00:33:43.440 about taking it as upon an individual basis and what they need wait so okay hold on just

00:33:48.560 sure uh you so you're seeing two guys how how long have you been seeing both of them a couple

00:33:53.200 weeks couple months or um couple like a couple weeks for one well let's see it's july um i'm dating

00:34:01.520 like one guy who's catholic that i met at church um and then one guy that i met um around my area

00:34:07.760 in williamsburg where you're okay who lives in arizona used to be ghetto it's not ghetto anymore it's so

00:34:12.960 gentrified not ghetto anymore yeah no it's yeah 20 years ago i wouldn't be around it i know are they

00:34:19.600 they're aware of each other they just know that you're dating other people yeah we there's an

00:34:23.360 agreement that like since there's no commitment right now that like it's just the dating do these

00:34:27.440 guys know each other's ig no one of them doesn't really even use ig red flag right there that's a

00:34:34.640 deal me personally if i knew a girl was seeing another dude well even if there's not been a

00:34:41.840 conversation about commitment at least for me that's a i've lost interest yeah for sure well

00:34:48.240 yeah i understand but they see other girls they see other girls though right while they're waiting

00:34:53.040 to see if it works out with you well to to be fair yeah yeah that it we're it's like consensual on all

00:34:59.120 sides so now now if you got into a relationship with one of them could they still see other girls

00:35:03.360 yeah i would let that happen okay so you actually that happened recently polygyny is that what you're

00:35:07.280 looking for you would be exclusive to them yes absolutely so she's saying a polygynous relationship

00:35:11.600 yeah as a matter of fact when i wrote about my relationship status when i came into the pod i said

00:35:15.520 i was dating but only sleeping with one person at the time that's changed um yeah that has changed so

00:35:20.560 now you're back to zero wait so you're at three well you had three there was the dude you're sleeping

00:35:27.280 with and then the two dudes who you had not been sleeping with yes basically okay all right

00:35:38.480 why were you not satisfied with the one dude who you were i was i was um he was actually um he

00:35:45.920 wanted you to see other dudes or no okay but you were no but like not at the same time there was

00:35:52.320 like a cutoff and then i started okay so you were close together enough you were just with him

00:35:57.280 but then that ended then you started seeing two dudes got it correct kelly it sounded like you had

00:36:01.120 something you wanted to uh add there it's i i just thought it was ironic that like it's just so

00:36:08.400 kind i was just confused i was i was it was a little yeah you kind of came at me there i don't know why

00:36:13.600 yeah you guys are sitting right next to each other i know i don't know why i don't know why it just

00:36:17.360 sounded a little complicated that's why it is complicated there's a little complexity to it that

00:36:21.440 happens in relationships that's quite normal all right kelly what about you your uh situation um i've been in a

00:36:26.720 relationship for a year and six or seven seven months now okay got it uh still going strong

00:36:33.280 mike what about you uh i've been in a relationship since last october uh it's uh and my girlfriend is

00:36:39.680 significantly younger than me uh but it's worked out pretty well she helps out with the business

00:36:44.320 and uh she understands my lifestyle and yeah it's worked out pretty well wait how is she business and

00:36:48.960 pleasure what is significantly younger do you mind yeah so i didn't know when i met her she's like yeah i

00:36:54.320 graduated college or graduated high school blah blah blah and we met i was hosting a bikini pageant

00:36:58.640 in uh mexico and she was one of the finalists and she uh she did not uh i could just tell she wasn't

00:37:05.680 like i could i thought she was the hottest girl there but i knew she wasn't gonna win because she

00:37:08.960 had she had a boob job and because they those girls just don't do well in pageants and also because uh

00:37:14.000 she did not like deal with bullshit from the fucking uh from the judges so i was like i know that this is

00:37:18.880 gonna work out she's from arkansas i'm from texas so it just kind of worked out there and

00:37:22.160 and she's uh yeah she's been great since then i will say this i want to talk because i was talking

00:37:25.680 about this before she had uh the uh birth control thing taken out totally different bro totally

00:37:33.280 there was something i want to talk about different part yeah totally different she had the birth

00:37:37.040 control thing taken out like uh maybe uh in june man that all that shit before it was theoretical i'm

00:37:43.200 telling you right now the shit is for real the birth control thing makes bro i mean it's just so it's

00:37:47.600 night and day so yeah the one you keep going like this the one right here inside you want to feel

00:37:52.480 it was it next next plan i don't know what it was i saw them pull it out i was holding her hand when

00:37:58.000 they pull that fucking thing out of her like an alien it was all bleeding all over wait so

00:38:01.680 when she was on birth control she was one way after they got it got taken out her personality changed

00:38:07.280 yeah in what so in what ways how was she before how was she so so before remember she's 24 years younger

00:38:12.000 than me and so there's a there's a thing where like i'm i'm a u.s military there's also the part

00:38:16.880 where i'm a u.s military officer and i run my own company and so the way i communicate with my

00:38:20.960 employees and the guys who were in my squadron was very different i'm very direct when i communicate

00:38:25.600 i look at you i speak very loudly there's pauses in between the words and for her she's from arkansas

00:38:30.080 and they just you know they've talked some shit you know and when when when she got the thing out

00:38:34.960 like the highs and lows just weren't there as much which i've had with every relationship i've ever

00:38:38.480 been in but with her afterwards he was just she's just fun now i just can't even explain it

00:38:43.360 ladies i'm before i was maybe 30 30 on this boat i'm 100 on this boat get that fucking thing taken

00:38:48.800 out of your arm that thing is crazy bro i can't believe how different like it is totally and it

00:38:53.200 wasn't just her it was just i had a panel with eight girls on my show uh access vegas and i said how

00:38:58.000 many of you guys have had birth control all of them raise their hand how many you had it taken out

00:39:00.960 all of them raised their hand and they're like what's the difference it's like i took it out i'm

00:39:04.480 healthier i'm hornier like all this stuff happened when they took the birth control thing out

00:39:08.400 so that's the thing i'd recommend that uh that ring you don't talk about nuva ring no it's not

00:39:12.720 it's a ring it's not natural cycles is it yeah it's essentially like a natural way to track your

00:39:19.120 yes yeah it could track our hormone cycle i got friends that have been doing it for years it's

00:39:23.760 it's fucking great copper iud uh so the problem is uh inflammation yeah it basically just causes

00:39:30.080 inflammation there's a lot of hormonal though yeah it's not but it could actually grow into the cervix

00:39:35.040 and then you have to have it surgically removed and then you have problems having kids afterwards

00:39:38.320 yeah yeah i've had many friends and family members that have um not been able to have children

00:39:42.960 after um did not know that okay isn't there a new one that got well i think there's two things that

00:39:48.720 recently got approved when it comes to birth control there's one that's actually over the

00:39:51.760 counter now that got approved which is just a hormonal one and then there's one called

00:39:57.440 smexy or something has anyone heard that the smexy one is that the like the it's like yeah the gel

00:40:03.760 i think that's smexy where do you put the gels i don't know well there are there are certain things

00:40:08.800 that you can do like pre-sex to like act as birth control they're not as um as effective as hormonal

00:40:17.600 birth control but okay yeah okay um what about you relationship stuff i am single i've been so for

00:40:24.000 almost a year now my longest relationship is was five months long longest was five months okay and i mean

00:40:31.120 you were on you were on the show about three weeks four weeks ago yep any new developments on the uh

00:40:37.600 any guys sliding into the dms any no nothing zero zero do you want guys not in the dms uh not particularly

00:40:46.640 okay okay rock and roll okay so uh a lot of you actually you know what i think the first thing we're

00:40:53.600 gonna do nick we have a video that we must react to what wait what what was that oh hold on um two

00:41:02.320 flannels donated 100 brian i am back i see nothing has changed so i will repeat what i said last you

00:41:11.440 wear the same two flannels every day if you were a rapper they'd call you two flannels you look like

00:41:17.840 you're stuck in the 90s pearl jam music video wish eddie vedder uh thank you man yeah thank you

00:41:24.960 yeah should we talk i actually i have like three flannels and you roasted me last time

00:41:28.720 should we talk about your your your dress code my my uh i dress for comfort i like the flannel

00:41:35.040 what's wrong with flannel there we go i don't mind the flannel there we go like i quality over quantity

00:41:41.040 i said this last time i don't mind it for like lounging around and when you're wanting to be

00:41:44.720 comfortable he told me that this is what he would wear on a date though and i have a little bit of

00:41:48.720 an issue with what's what's wrong with that come as you are come as you are off and wear the black

00:41:53.600 shirt wait what's wrong with flannel on a date well like if you're going on a more formal date then

00:42:01.600 you know do you button it up or do you keep it open i keep it open i mean if that's how you dress

00:42:09.360 button it up put some like nicer pants on instead of the sweatpants bring out the miss me jeans

00:42:14.480 puma sweatpants he's actually overdressed for a los angeles nightclub you guys realize that

00:42:20.480 i'm actually too formal for a club i don't i've never been to an la nightclub i'll take you you

00:42:25.200 tell me you tell me when i'll take you wherever you want to go anywhere you want yeah okay well hey

00:42:31.600 what about all the men in the chat would you guys like if i was wearing this on a date with any one of

00:42:37.280 you like would you guys be cool with it or what tell me in the chat okay cool cool um can you pull up the

00:42:42.960 video please okay so we're going to react to this uh this was on it came up in my tick tock feed uh

00:42:52.400 go ahead and play it let's see if the bars oh hold on pause pause pause pause pause pause

00:42:57.040 okay scroll back you got put in the video tab

00:43:02.160 uh you gotta oh we're okay then you gotta click one of the

00:43:06.080 it's probably the top one top one top one top one top one the very top very top very top yep hide that

00:43:14.640 one okay go ahead and start start it from the beginning screwed yep let's see if the bars on the

00:43:20.320 floor this is the bare minimum for dating me number one ask me to be his girlfriend literally bare minimum

00:43:25.760 we can go on dates we can hang out if you do not ask me to be your girlfriend or do some kind of a

00:43:29.840 gesture big or small i'm not your girlfriend i am not your girlfriend and i can be seeing other people

00:43:34.880 more number two buys me flowers often often for me bare minimum meaning once a month or at least once

00:43:41.200 every like two months i'm like a self-care romanticize my life kind of girl so if you do

00:43:45.440 not buy me flowers i will be buying myself flowers it doesn't have to be like a huge bouquet of like 10

00:43:50.480 000 roses or whatever it doesn't matter how big the bouquet is every single time i just care to know that

00:43:55.360 you're not only gonna buy me flowers once just because i'm a girlfriend and like you secured the

00:43:58.880 deal like i'm gonna need flowers like every so often you're not getting away with like one flower

00:44:04.000 per year the notes picks me up and drops me off home unless otherwise stated if we're going somewhere

00:44:10.640 i do not care if your house is like inconvenient you're gonna pick me up and you're gonna drop me

00:44:14.560 off like a proper gentleman unless i am already right next to the area that we're gonna meet in

00:44:20.480 you are gonna have to pick me up and drop me off you should be caring about my safety okay

00:44:24.560 and just so you know if your boyfriend's only coming to pick you up and drop you off if it's

00:44:27.840 convenient to him that is not love the people who love you don't only do things because it is

00:44:33.200 convenient to do so number four offers to pay for every activity and doesn't expect me to do 50 50.

00:44:38.960 not to say that i'm never gonna buy you anything or that i'm never gonna offer to pay for a meal

00:44:43.280 but if you are expecting me to pay if you are literally expecting me to like pay then you got the

00:44:50.960 wrong girl like i'm sorry i can't do it there are girls who like 50 50 just not me follow for part

00:44:56.480 two tell me if my standards are too high are her standards too high let's start with you we'll go

00:45:04.000 around the table go ahead uh no i don't think they're too high she's honestly not asking for

00:45:10.000 much and everyone has their own list of what their bare minimum is and i think it's cool that she has a

00:45:16.560 list and it's good to have standards for dating because if you take dating seriously then you have

00:45:23.040 standards so nothing she was asking for was that crazy every person has different standards and

00:45:32.400 expectations but most of the time in dating what people do is they choose a few qualities that we

00:45:37.680 like in each other and then throw away the rest and we want that person to be those qualities all the

00:45:41.760 time but we'd be dating the whole person with all the qualities so if you have those standards that's

00:45:47.600 okay but you can't be picking somebody and then trying to choose their qualities

00:45:54.800 i agreed with some things she said and some not i i personally can't stand flowers so like

00:46:01.600 and i know that's like really traditional um i do agree with the he should not expect the 50 50 but

00:46:07.440 you know life is not black and white each person's an individual they have their own thoughts but

00:46:12.480 um yeah and the driving thing a lot of women now they don't like being picked up for a first date

00:46:18.320 because in case they have to leave so i kind of get the sense she wants more traditional men but

00:46:23.200 sometimes i don't agree they gotta get back to their man you know i'm saying during the day

00:46:26.880 oh my man just texted me i gotta go back so they drove themselves that's you know yeah well it's

00:46:30.800 interesting that she you did mention the getting picked up and dropped off thing but she also mentioned

00:46:35.760 safety but i mean well if she knows the guy i suppose it's fine but certainly for a first date

00:46:40.960 you know a lot of women would not be comfortable for example going over to the guy's house immediately

00:46:46.800 without having well some some have no problem with it but um a lot of women would not just first

00:46:52.960 time ever meeting go to the guy's house so in that same vein i don't think shouldn't you also

00:46:58.320 feel a bit concerned about getting into a total stranger's car so i i actually think the for

00:47:03.280 safety reasons the best thing is to meet the guy there even if that's not traditional safety

00:47:08.320 wise it's actually probably the best move to just meet the guy there uh but i suppose she's talking

00:47:12.720 about the boyfriend yeah she's definitely talking about being in a relationship not well she's talking

00:47:17.120 about the transition into a relationship remember because she said you're not my boyfriend until you

00:47:21.760 say this yeah but she's talking about like someone that she wants to keep seeing you know this wasn't

00:47:26.640 like anything to do with like just first date status yeah that's well that's a great point but you know the

00:47:30.880 the other thing is though if she wasn't attracted to the dude none of that shit matters none of that

00:47:34.560 shit matters right she if a guy she goes on a date with the guy and he's not attracted to her he goes

00:47:38.720 i want you to be my girlfriend she'd be like get the fuck away from me like all all the things she

00:47:42.640 just said they they don't matter but because that's the thing when women say i want to uh uh

00:47:47.120 want a man to buy me flowers no you want a guy who's you're attracted to to buy you flowers if

00:47:51.120 a motherfucker who is you're not attracted to buys you flowers you'll be it's you have to have

00:47:55.760 status before you give status and that's why whenever i hear women say this stuff like it like

00:48:00.160 every if guys if you open some guy's gonna watch that and open up by like just sending her flowers

00:48:04.960 when she's not attracted that is a horrible mistake showing vulnerability before you have attraction it's

00:48:09.520 like putting an effort before you even know for sure exactly yeah and what's wrong with putting

00:48:13.760 an effort before knowing like i feel like sometimes it's cool to put that for it because you never

00:48:17.360 know that's asking a lot got it but have you have you ever seen a guy and just been attracted to him

00:48:21.040 and then going on a date with him and it gone really well that night has that ever happened like yeah

00:48:25.120 okay so but you understand that now the guy who's sitting there putting in effort he you have you

00:48:31.360 hooked up with the dude who just because you were attracted off the bat and now this guy's got to

00:48:35.120 put in effort do you understand how he might not want to put in effort totally but like we're talking

00:48:40.240 about this is like a relationship thing so this is all pertaining to not hypotheticals pertaining to

00:48:45.600 someone she wants to pursue she's talking about someone that she wants to pursue and what she expects

00:48:50.240 of someone that she also wants to pursue we're not talking about not someone you don't want

00:48:55.760 you to like be giving you flowers she's literally talking about already being in that step of like

00:48:59.680 we like each other this is what i expect from us being in a mutual relationship what if she decides

00:49:04.400 later on that she's like oh never mind i don't that's fine but that's not what that's not fine

00:49:08.000 for him i was bringing up i was bringing up a hypothetical i saw this video as a transition into a

00:49:12.880 relationship that's what i saw the video as would she throw out all of those if she was attracted to the

00:49:16.800 person yeah she wouldn't say that you know so i'm saying like i will put my money on yes

00:49:23.360 whenever whenever i hear a woman emphatically state over and over again how she will not sleep

00:49:26.880 with a guy on the first date that tells me emphatically she has slept with a guy on the

00:49:30.080 first date why else are you saying this like i see this all the time it's like again like if you are

00:49:35.040 someone who just knows i'm going to sleep with somebody when i'm ready to sleep with them you aren't

00:49:38.480 even going to bring that up right as men we don't bring it up but why do women bring it up because

00:49:42.320 you did sleep with brock the bartender on your first date because you did go out with a male stripper and

00:49:46.240 slept with them on the first date and then the next guy you date he's got to wait but it's

00:49:50.160 different for him because he's not as attractive and the thing is from those guys standpoint they

00:49:53.520 don't want to be the one to wait when you let some other dude smash on the first date that's the

00:49:57.040 problem you see what i'm saying that's the issue that's just that's a different point of view i'm

00:50:00.480 not saying that that's what she's saying here obviously we're assuming that both people are

00:50:03.840 attracted the thing is when men watch this they get confused and they start thinking when she describes

00:50:09.040 these things that are comfort builders she's described what she's doing is describing comfort

00:50:12.880 she's not describing attraction she's saying i'm already attracted to you these are the things

00:50:16.720 that i need you to do so that i can gain garner some control in the relationship what i found is

00:50:21.200 this is just it's a very generalistic way to say this but things that build attraction that when

00:50:26.160 women find men more attractive the woman is sort of losing power like just again he makes more money

00:50:30.640 he's very good looking he gets a six-pack all of a sudden and other women are staring at him

00:50:34.000 she's sort of losing power and things that where he's building comfort the dad bod you know the dad bod

00:50:39.120 myth those are things where a woman is gaining power so when women she when she states every

00:50:42.960 single one of those things she's gaining power she's not paying 50 50 anymore he's going to pick

00:50:46.880 her up and all the things she describes she's gaining power those are not attraction qualities

00:50:50.880 attraction qualities or women are generally losing power and in a comfort qualities are things are

00:50:55.440 generally where men are gaining power and where women are gaining power and so when you ask women

00:50:59.440 what they find attractive they describe what they find comfortable which is why you hear girls say i like

00:51:04.720 the dad bod which is a fucking lie over and over again no you don't you do not choose short-term

00:51:09.760 sexual partners with a fucking dad bod what you do though is you see really rich successful actors

00:51:16.640 or people like elon musk with the dad bod you're like oh that's sexy no it's sexy because he's already

00:51:20.800 famous it's just like if a regular dude goes around wearing a pink dress like machine gun kelly he looks

00:51:25.120 like a fool he's a he's a moron wearing a pink dress but machine gun kelly is famous he can wear a pink

00:51:29.680 dress because he's famous the rest of you just look like a clown wearing a pink dress so that's the

00:51:33.760 difference you cannot give value unless you have value and a lot of times women open up by saying

00:51:38.720 send me flowers tell me you're my girlfriend all this kind of stuff and that's the problem

00:51:42.480 you can't you can't open that way thank you man thanks john when brian asked who would resort to

00:51:48.080 physical violence if they caught their man cheating and who would just walk away all the masculine girls

00:51:54.240 raised their hand for violence fighting and the feminine girls raised their hands for walk away

00:52:00.000 preach and some girls didn't raise their hand at all facts i'm mask and femme yeah i'm both so

00:52:07.680 i can switch it real quick yo john god thank you very much for that hundred i mean my personal view

00:52:12.720 on on that situation is i think the biggest thing you can do is just just turn around walk out it's

00:52:18.960 over it's done yeah if a woman cheats on you she did you a favor pimp i'm sorry for real in if you if

00:52:24.480 you're like in that situation you don't understand that i would disappear yeah like that anger that's

00:52:29.680 like built up and you're literally like seeing it right in front of your face that's like it's it's

00:52:34.880 hard to just you know just be like bye but you're gonna see it you're gonna see it in front of your

00:52:39.680 face and you're gonna react like that you're not gonna have a let me let me well some girls react

00:52:46.000 some girls react by fighting some cry exactly try to get revenge yeah everyone reacts differently

00:52:51.600 yeah and it's an initial reaction of anger that is just going to trigger you and if like

00:52:56.960 i wouldn't say that applies to everybody though yeah no but i will i will tell you this in the

00:53:00.480 state of texas before i think 1983 if you killed your wife and and her lover if you caught them in

00:53:06.880 the throes of passion i think you were convicted of third degree murder and had to serve zero time

00:53:10.960 in jail i do believe that i'm kidding okay i said based yeah i believe that is okay i think

00:53:16.480 they've changed that law but at one point if you had caught your wife sleeping with some other dude

00:53:20.160 and you kill them before that i mean if you go back even further in the state of texas they didn't

00:53:23.520 that wasn't that wasn't even that wasn't even second yeah well i mean if you were if you were to walk

00:53:28.160 in on your girlfriend smashing another dude and it was your house yeah no there'd be a problem

00:53:33.360 there's that's a problem and i'm sure you would not just walk out that's why that's why don't

00:53:42.800 cohabitate with women um but go ahead i was gonna say like i mean i totally understand what you're

00:53:48.320 saying like that blind rage you walk in like like who's anyone to tell you how to respond to that

00:53:53.920 situation when you're being so disrespected in a visceral way in front of your face it's still

00:53:58.960 domestic violence like that's just that and it's not okay either way and like getting your

00:54:05.920 anger out with violence means that you need to sort yourself through and have some respect for

00:54:11.360 yourself not to beat up a grown-ass man i mean a lot of people like you know do things to sort

00:54:15.840 their violence i don't i feel like that's not like some people yell and scream some people cry some

00:54:20.080 people shoot guns some people go swimming some people do a lot of people do a lot of bunch of

00:54:24.400 stuff to like control their anger right but we don't we we don't like like a doesn't make them

00:54:29.520 as a society we don't like accept that as okay we accept that as like human reactions and responses

00:54:35.680 but as humans we also have the power of self-control so you apply that logic to men right yes absolutely

00:54:41.600 absolutely i mean i wouldn't expect a man to go beating on his girl if he walked in on her and i'm

00:54:47.120 sure you guys wouldn't either so not yeah i'm seeing some like i was like laughed at earlier for

00:54:53.840 talking about you know how i'm a dating and i give dating advice but also i'm like experiencing

00:54:59.440 myself but like this is domestic violence we're talking about and you're like oh but it's anger

00:55:03.360 and rage it's like we're not talking about domestic violence we're talking about so domestic violence

00:55:08.080 not putting your hands on first of all domestic violence is in the house this was not like this

00:55:12.160 girl oh oh sorry sorry sorry all right okay okay all right like i got it like you know it's not

00:55:18.480 like it's a no one's dictated by one thing that happened in their life it's not gonna be like okay

00:55:21.920 this person beats someone up every single time so like we're broke up she's not my partner

00:55:25.360 we're gonna deny someone from one situation and it's just like for you to be a coach and for you

00:55:30.960 to project i'm not a coach i never said i was whatever the you are whatever you're being really

00:55:35.280 rude right now i just don't understand why i'm down let's keep let's i'm talking right like keep it

00:55:39.360 cordial how about you do that i'm being mad disrespectful i'm chilling right what did i say

00:55:44.560 to you that was my disrespectful how about you repeat what i said right now i think she's just

00:55:47.920 saying that she doesn't agree with okay i just don't agree with violence that's it like that's

00:55:52.000 totally fine and you said it's not in that you just keep bringing it up but you said it's not

00:55:55.920 domestic violence you just keep saying the same thing like it up so i'm i'm contributing why are

00:56:00.160 you coming down somebody give me some popcorn bro i'm coming down your throat because you're a

00:56:03.600 freaking relationship guru over here no one said i was a relationship people are putting me at guru

00:56:09.440 coach all that i just said i give dating advice for men that come to me and want it and see what

00:56:13.440 i provide and they come to me and they all right can we go to somebody else help what's your deal

00:56:18.000 to somebody else what's your deal or do you just give it out without anyone asking you haven't even

00:56:22.560 been in a relationship my girl so what are you talking about okay genuinely what are you talking

00:56:27.680 about see how she said i'm coming at her look at you you're projecting very hard you're really

00:56:31.840 attacking me for no reason i'm just talking about violence attacking well i don't have time for your

00:56:36.720 attacks cool so i'll talk to anyone else i don't agree with violence hitting your partner regardless

00:56:41.920 of the gender sex whatever it's not okay to hate your partner whether it's in the streets or in the

00:56:46.080 home look you have to have some self-respect and walk away and understand that that guy didn't

00:56:50.400 respect you or that girl didn't respect you in the first place and this is all coming from 26 year

00:56:53.760 old relationship tick-tock guru giving men advice of two men in her bed let's go next one two men in my

00:57:00.080 bed did you not listen to me say that i'm platonic i did not listen to me say i don't care hey

00:57:05.200 do y'all ever think about death that's black that's black like where do we go like i'm just

00:57:11.760 saying like what happens would you die wait i will say i raised my hand when i said that

00:57:18.000 i would have walked away if i caught my dude hooking up with a girl but this like brought back like a deep

00:57:22.960 memory when i was about 17 years old i had my first relationship i went out to the club and who do i see

00:57:28.720 making out on the wall my boyfriend was some girl and i lost my things happen you live in love

00:57:35.040 that's almost you know it's not domestic violence i was inebriated and i was immature and i don't

00:57:40.000 think i would do that these days yeah so would you consider that domestic violence her seeing her

00:57:46.000 her man at the club kissing another girl and her doing something about it yes absolutely if you're

00:57:50.240 putting your hands on another person that you're dating it's domestic violence i don't know what

00:57:53.360 more clear like definition you guys okay hold on wait wait hold on hold on is there let me let me

00:57:58.320 just play yeah actually maybe we should hold on let me play devil's advocate a little bit here though

00:58:05.760 like is there no such thing as provocation because someone could plausibly do something so vile that

00:58:14.320 yeah even if they don't put hands on you but they like they they say something like is there there must be

00:58:19.360 some scenario this is a great point so we talked about this so i would i would never hit a woman

00:58:23.520 and then somebody said to me okay somebody has your nephew uh with a knife to their to their throat i'm

00:58:30.880 gonna beat the shit out of whoever i don't care if you're a man or a woman and they're like oh so you

00:58:34.240 would do it and i just thought there's a limit for everything okay what she's talking about though

00:58:38.720 is domestic violence for sure i will say this uh because you guys are talking about women and women

00:58:43.440 as men it doesn't make i'm not from a moralistic standpoint i wouldn't hit a woman but from a legal

00:58:47.680 standpoint it we don't get the benefit of the doubt so no matter what happens no matter who i hit i'm

00:58:52.880 gonna end up getting sued even if i'm completely in the right because that's the way the legal code

00:58:56.560 is written so i i wouldn't do any of that let's let's do it and rule always hold on let's do this

00:59:01.520 okay we've we've already talked about the whole cheating beating the out of your spouse whatever uh

00:59:07.600 let's bring it back to the video so i think we left off with i forgot who who did you get to give

00:59:12.400 your take no i did not um take on the video i'm gonna assume she has this list um because it's

00:59:19.200 from experience from her past relationships and it's like what she wanted and didn't get or what

00:59:22.960 she got and like like so i wouldn't say her standards are too high a lot i think she just

00:59:27.200 know what she wants so it's like if you you're not asking the wrong you're not asking for too much

00:59:30.880 you're just asking the wrong person type thing i would guess that she had probably did dated a guy

00:59:36.240 who did none of those things and stayed in it for a while and probably tried to manipulate not

00:59:41.840 manipulate but try to i'm trying to think of the word i'm looking for try to change the situation

00:59:46.160 to where he was he was monogamous and waited for him to become monogamous and those things never

00:59:50.880 happened and her list comes from being super attracted to some guy who she kept going over

00:59:55.600 and having sex with him in the middle of the night and he wouldn't commit i think that's probably

00:59:59.200 just a guess that's probably where that list came yeah yeah he made it to the notes some lot of things in

01:00:04.080 the notes i mean well no i mean the notes for me that's gonna go viral but she's also i mean she's

01:00:08.080 gonna go viral on tiktok she knows because she's gonna piss a lot of dudes off and there's gonna be

01:00:10.960 some girls who are like why would you do this you know that kind of stuff what about you um you know

01:00:17.120 like some other girls said i think she's allowed to have her standards i i personally think it's a

01:00:22.080 weird list and i think i didn't like the presentation she wants some views on tiktok i guess or it's

01:00:29.200 satire or something it's gotta be it could be you never know i think we should be able to know what

01:00:37.280 we want our views our morals we should be able to say it we don't need to know and we and we

01:00:41.440 and we should have we should have boundaries for what our partner does too except except for when

01:00:45.760 jonah hill and his abuse right except for that abuse god not the jonah hill well you guys remember

01:00:50.480 all the abuse it was not him drawing his boundaries when he said when he says when he says no matter

01:00:57.440 what you do i respect it you're beautiful person and i respect oh you forgot that part at the same

01:01:02.480 time send me take down these pictures this is appropriate this isn't right he gets he gets to

01:01:08.640 break up with it yeah that's true he gets to break up or she gets to walk away she gets to walk away

01:01:12.080 and she did well but here's the thing what about his boundaries when she doesn't release the uh the

01:01:17.680 the messages until after he has a baby with someone else and then has the audacity to say i hope you

01:01:25.920 have a girl you're gonna talk about my fucking children now you think you talk about boundaries

01:01:32.000 i know who the wrong person in this relationship was and it wasn't jonah hill agreed okay this idea

01:01:36.560 the other thing is surfers don't surf in bikinis this whole thing was well she's in a swimsuit and it's

01:01:41.440 the same scene no no no wait sorry wait what's the thing about what the is going on the jonah hill

01:01:48.480 competition surfers do not surf in bikinis i don't know if you guys are aware of that that's what

01:01:51.600 the only point i was making and by the way it the thing is if it doesn't make here's the oh i just got

01:01:56.800 one thing on that it depends where you're surfing yeah i for her i don't think that's what what she was

01:02:03.520 doing so if it's wearing a wetsuit that's just about the water temperature so you're not like

01:02:12.080 if it's a colder ocean temperature then you're gonna be in like wetsuit but like if you're in

01:02:17.360 indonesia or you're in hawaii i think it actually at least for women it's fairly common uh in warmer

01:02:25.120 ocean temperature to surf in a bikini yeah or one piece even in the bikini okay

01:02:30.400 would that be like uncomfortable surfing like wouldn't the girls come out or something like

01:02:34.800 surfing's like a sport there's no way the bikini women do serve the girls that i know where they

01:02:39.280 could serve it there's no way women do surf in bikinis but um in southern california and she's

01:02:44.960 from so we accept typically not but oh i i don't she can do whatever she wants my point is he has the

01:02:49.680 right to it to establish it was not manipulating her that is ridiculous isn't it like it wasn't about

01:02:54.880 whether or not like professional surfers wear swimsuits or wetsuits it was what his preferences and

01:02:59.680 boundaries were so well let's do this let's get back let's get into the jonathan thing first but

01:03:05.200 i do want to give everybody a chance to react to the clip so you went correct did you get to go no

01:03:10.880 um i guess what she's bringing the tape to the table matters a lot so if she's asking for a lot

01:03:16.800 what is she giving in return um also i don't feel like there's going to be a big dating pool for rules

01:03:22.000 like that um especially can you pull the microphone closer towards you please especially if uh

01:03:27.840 she has high standards for men and they don't feel like she's meeting their standards i feel like

01:03:32.800 higher standard men like that are going to have higher standards for their women you know what

01:03:36.880 it's interesting that you brought up what she's bringing to the table she actually made a follow-up

01:03:41.520 video of what because a lot of people in the in her in response to her tick tock were like

01:03:46.640 well what are you bringing this is her response go ahead

01:03:52.880 nothing i'm kidding being communicative being open to receiving listening to his needs and wants

01:04:00.160 giving him little surprises because i also like getting him gifts and stuff being a peaceful place

01:04:05.920 for him to relax outside of work and stressful social interactions just like being his peace

01:04:12.240 being a supportive girlfriend and just being there with my energy i hope that answers you

01:04:18.480 not so i mean okay most of the things that she just listed should already there were a couple

01:04:25.600 things that were perhaps more so like the gifts was the only thing it was like no the only thing was

01:04:30.880 peace that was the only thing she said right she didn't say anything right and you want to know the

01:04:34.880 one thing of that group i guarantee you she can't provide him is fucking peace that is the only one she

01:04:40.480 can't do well she doesn't strike me as a people how the are you going to be peaceful when you're

01:04:45.440 nagging at him telling me you have to do all this stuff or like i think she got that at least from

01:04:49.760 someone else's tick tock oh for sure she wanted to show her face she couldn't say what a straight

01:04:54.560 face sure face in that video um your reaction to the i actually had like the same exact reaction that

01:05:04.400 you did i wanted to know what she was bringing to the table and like after seeing that video like i i see

01:05:09.280 that like like what she's saying that she's bringing to the table is somewhat similar to

01:05:14.400 what she's requesting but the whole like my presence my energy is enough like yeah that's

01:05:20.320 that's not it that's not it why is his presence and energy not enough right but he has to do the

01:05:24.880 extra work and then because we don't have presence and energy we work we accomplish things we build

01:05:30.320 things and we protect and we protect people that's what we do we don't really have presence or energy

01:05:34.720 protect people from what protect people from the world protect anything protect people

01:05:39.040 financially protect people well like i have family members that i protect them from getting scammed

01:05:43.200 all the time i have older family women can do that and they're like hey i just got a call from this

01:05:47.040 guy from jamaica who wants my bank card number but protect people when they walk to their car with

01:05:51.440 that's our job that's the only one that matters with men is that you can be like a security guard for

01:05:55.440 sure that to me people say masculinity is muscles and money and sleeping with all these girls

01:06:00.080 masculinity is willing to protect and die for your tribe that is what that's important those men

01:06:04.640 who stormed that beach in 1944 in france those men were masculine that's what masculinity is let me

01:06:09.600 ask you a question mike though do you think that both sides are holding up their end of the bargain

01:06:14.560 because if if it's man's duty to to die for their woman in some sort of self-defense situation do you

01:06:22.160 think that the other side is holding up their end of the bargain so i've said this before there are

01:06:26.480 three genders there's high high high status men low status men and women high status men and low

01:06:31.040 status men have nothing in common nothing they don't have the same brain chemistry they don't

01:06:34.480 have the same sexual partners they don't make the same amount of money they don't have the same physique

01:06:38.240 nothing they have nothing in common literally there's a book called winner effect that goes over

01:06:42.240 the neurology of men who are successful and winning and and men who aren't and there's nothing they

01:06:47.360 have nothing in common and so if you're asking me do high status men do they fall short i'll tell you no

01:06:51.440 they don't but for the most part they have something going for them or they're providing something

01:06:54.480 Do low-status men fall short?

01:06:56.060 Well, they are the ones subscribing on OnlyFans.

01:06:58.520 So, I mean, you tell me.

01:06:59.320 Like, that is the issue.

01:07:01.500 So we can't just say all men because men bifurcate way more than women do.

01:07:05.740 Because when I talk to older women, so on my show, one of the things we do is we always try to get at least one or two people with a master's degree, one or two girls that are married.

01:07:12.940 We try to get a different group, and we get the same answers.

01:07:15.540 It doesn't matter if they're 23 or 43.

01:07:17.340 We get the same answers.

01:07:18.460 Women generally have the same answers when it comes to their hypergamy, whereas men, they're very different answers when you're at the top.

01:07:24.640 What you were saying before about catching your girl cheating, a guy who's high status is already on the phone with another girl before he even leaves the house.

01:07:31.800 He's, like, literally calling the dude in Uber to get him the fuck out of there.

01:07:34.420 He doesn't care.

01:07:35.300 He's got the movers coming over to take her shit out.

01:07:37.520 That's what a high-status man would do.

01:07:39.360 A low-status man is going to cry and bicker and beg for her to come back.

01:07:44.100 Do you see?

01:07:44.640 Like, that's not even the same fucking species.

01:07:47.080 That's completely different.

01:07:48.160 Yeah.

01:07:48.620 You said that a high-status man really never falls short?

01:07:52.300 No, no.

01:07:52.760 It's not that he never falls short.

01:07:53.740 But in one case or another, he has the access to scarce resources, and he has the ability to garner status.

01:08:00.560 So a high-status man could be, like, the guy who ran Enron.

01:08:03.300 That's a very duplicitous, evil high-status man, okay?

01:08:06.900 Like Joseph Stalin or Pol Pot.

01:08:08.520 That's an example of a high-status man who is very evil.

01:08:10.900 It doesn't mean they're all...

01:08:11.640 That's extra, but okay.

01:08:14.580 No, I'm hearing you.

01:08:15.380 I'm using extreme examples.

01:08:16.460 Yeah, I'm hearing you.

01:08:17.400 I'm hearing you.

01:08:17.700 I could use one other example.

01:08:18.900 You want to get us kicked off of YouTube?

01:08:20.180 Oh, God, okay.

01:08:20.760 Yeah.

01:08:21.040 I think I know where you're going.

01:08:22.460 Yeah, yeah.

01:08:22.660 Yeah, okay.

01:08:23.500 But I've been doing a lot of studying this week.

01:08:25.620 I got a debate coming up.

01:08:27.540 But no, but...

01:08:28.200 Wait, was Genghis Khan?

01:08:29.820 Oh, of course.

01:08:30.360 Of course.

01:08:30.540 Well, so, I mean, you know, this is a great example.

01:08:32.380 Like, Genghis Khan, his Y chromosome.

01:08:34.300 So, for men, you can actually trace the variety in Y chromosome.

01:08:37.820 That's why we know throughout history about 80% of women and only 40% of men have reproduced.

01:08:43.360 Because we can measure the Y chromosome.

01:08:46.220 And so, when you look at Genghis Khan, at one point, I believe it was, like, 8% of all men

01:08:51.520 that lived in Asia had the same Y chromosome, which was from Genghis Khan and his son, Kulia Khan,

01:08:58.180 back in the 15th century.

01:08:59.180 So, like, when you realize that, that's what men were doing.

01:09:01.900 They were conquering and that kind of thing.

01:09:03.660 That doesn't mean they're always good.

01:09:05.040 That doesn't mean they're always good.

01:09:05.960 If you find a good man who's also high status, that's great.

01:09:08.140 A lot of times, men are high status.

01:09:09.920 They express the opportunity to cheat.

01:09:11.680 That doesn't mean that cheating is okay.

01:09:13.900 A lot of people, whenever I read the David Buss studies, they think, oh, you're saying cheating's okay.

01:09:18.620 No, we're not saying...

01:09:19.280 Nobody's saying that cheating is okay.

01:09:20.820 I get that.

01:09:21.120 But a lot of them do cheat, and women have a hard time understanding why it is that happened.

01:09:25.700 So, what they'll do is they'll say, I want a higher and higher and higher status man.

01:09:29.180 And then you explain to them, well, it's going to be a higher probability of them cheating,

01:09:32.780 and then they don't want to hear that.

01:09:33.820 They're like, no.

01:09:34.640 They don't believe that.

01:09:35.620 To add to that, I felt like I was really judged earlier for saying that I dated a guy

01:09:41.160 that slept with other women, and I was exclusive to him.

01:09:44.000 But at the end of the day...

01:09:45.340 No, no.

01:09:46.060 It was two guys at the same time, and you told them about each other.

01:09:48.460 That's what they were talking about.

01:09:49.040 Well, they actually requested that, like, we just court and, like, not, like, not, you

01:09:56.520 know, do anything too serious until we get to know each other further.

01:10:00.100 Like, that was pretty much it.

01:10:01.120 You met two men in Brooklyn who didn't want to have sex with you?

01:10:04.060 No, not in Brooklyn.

01:10:04.760 Oh.

01:10:05.180 Oh.

01:10:05.960 I'm not saying they don't want to have sex, but one of them is Catholic, so they're

01:10:09.300 virgin.

01:10:09.720 They don't...

01:10:10.500 They won't have sex until they're married, and the other, I'm just...

01:10:13.720 Does this guy have a channel on Rumble?

01:10:14.900 No?

01:10:15.480 No.

01:10:15.780 Okay, my bad.

01:10:16.120 No.

01:10:16.320 I'm sorry.

01:10:17.040 I'm sorry.

01:10:17.720 Well, so to your point about, like, the high-status men...

01:10:23.200 No, my point was low-status men don't have the ability to cheat.

01:10:26.340 High-status men are the ones who are cheating, so women...

01:10:27.980 I would agree with that.

01:10:28.700 Yeah, when we say women, men always cheat, no, it's you just keep dating the same VIP host,

01:10:33.760 male stripper, bartender, over and over again, and you think that's indicative of all men,

01:10:37.700 and then I take you to Jack in the Box, or I take you to Walmart, and you look at the

01:10:40.180 cashier, and you're like, who's he fucking?

01:10:41.880 And you didn't even see him.

01:10:43.160 You didn't even see that he was a man.

01:10:44.980 You can't even imagine that this man has sex with anyone.

01:10:47.960 So that's the thing.

01:10:48.640 A lot of times when women ask the question, who are they talking about?

01:10:51.160 They're talking about the dude who fucked them over, and they think that's men, and

01:10:53.920 that's just not the way it works, because there's just two very, very distinct classes of men.

01:10:57.200 Did you give your reaction to the video?

01:11:00.360 Oh, shit.

01:11:01.660 Yo, stay safe.

01:11:02.480 Thank you for the Twitch raid, man.

01:11:04.700 Guys, stay safe.

01:11:05.920 He's a GigaChad World of Warcraft player.

01:11:08.840 He's been on the show two times.

01:11:10.240 Yo, stay safe.

01:11:10.820 Thank you very much for the raid.

01:11:12.960 Maybe we'll talk about World of Warcraft.

01:11:15.440 Did you ever play World of Warcraft, Mike?

01:11:17.380 A little bit.

01:11:18.120 Not very much.

01:11:18.700 I was way, way more.

01:11:19.940 It's Age of the Empire.

01:11:21.380 Oh, Age of Empires.

01:11:22.380 Anybody here like a World of Warcraft?

01:11:24.500 I play Guild Wars.

01:11:25.320 I think it's better.

01:11:26.200 That's not World of Warcraft, but okay.

01:11:27.620 It's the same MMORPG topic.

01:11:29.180 I already did it.

01:11:30.000 I tried it one time.

01:11:32.480 But after a couple days, I wasn't into it.

01:11:34.720 But I like video games.

01:11:35.880 But I just don't like that style.

01:11:37.140 Yeah, it's funny.

01:11:37.600 It's only when I'm at Oblivion.

01:11:38.860 I did every other game except that one.

01:11:41.000 Yo, Matt, thank you for the raid, man.

01:11:42.800 I really appreciate it.

01:11:44.040 I did.

01:11:44.620 I gave my opinion.

01:11:45.400 Kelly, what about you?

01:11:46.080 Your thoughts on that video with that girl?

01:11:47.560 I think everyone's allowed to have standards.

01:11:51.340 I think hers were a little bit much.

01:11:53.480 They're a little kind of like delusional, you know?

01:11:57.020 I think the flowers every month is a little bit much because if he's doing a bunch of these

01:12:02.780 other things for you, if he forgets to buy you flowers this one month, why is that a big deal?

01:12:06.820 And a lot of it is just like how can you ask for these things when you're not bringing anything to the table that actually matters?

01:12:15.040 Okay.

01:12:16.480 Mike, did you want to give a further take on it?

01:12:18.960 She has the right to say whatever she wants to say and believe that those are her standards she can express.

01:12:25.400 However, the likelihood of her when a man acquiesces to those standards she states, she is going to find him to be wanting.

01:12:32.820 That's what I would say the probability is.

01:12:35.080 Meaning she's going to meet a guy who off the bat says, oh, I watched your TikTok video and I'm going to go ahead and buy you flowers every month.

01:12:41.460 And her vagina is going to go, it's going to dry up just like that when she does that.

01:12:45.240 Because essentially, can a woman like that get a man?

01:12:47.800 Of course, all these men are simps.

01:12:50.360 I don't know if you saw the recent study that came out.

01:12:52.500 It was men under the age of 35 never married.

01:12:55.880 It's like 33% of men and 33% of women have zero sex in the last year.

01:13:00.040 Of course, she's going to find a dude who's desperate.

01:13:02.520 100% she'll find him.

01:13:04.000 But when she gets in that relationship, she's going to realize, oh, I don't want him.

01:13:07.440 I don't want him.

01:13:08.120 And then she's going to leave.

01:13:08.880 The man that she does want, he probably already was with her and he didn't do any of those things that she stated.

01:13:15.720 And that's why she has those rules.

01:13:17.340 Because another guy didn't do those things and just got to have sex with her without being in a relationship.

01:13:23.280 Priya, what about you?

01:13:24.480 I think her quote unquote expectations are pretty delusional.

01:13:27.880 Those are all very kind gestures that if we were in a relationship with somebody that those are things that I would love for them to do occasionally.

01:13:35.320 But they are not the standard and they're not something that I would absolutely expect them to do 100% of the time.

01:13:41.180 Again, it's a kind gesture.

01:13:42.840 But that's not something that should be expected out of a relationship, especially with how little she's bringing to the table.

01:13:48.560 And like you guys said, how she claims that she brings peace into a relationship.

01:13:53.700 Somebody that holds standards like that is not a peaceful person.

01:13:57.460 Yeah, she comes off as super entitled and I don't think entitlement particularly coincides with bringing peace to a relationship.

01:14:08.660 So, I mean, anybody who's on TikTok whinging like that, there's no way you're bringing fucking peace to a relationship.

01:14:15.360 So, thank you everybody for your reactions to that.

01:14:17.860 I have a couple, some of you so graciously provided some pre-show notes for us.

01:14:22.600 So, we're going to go through a couple of those.

01:14:24.000 Because we have quite a bit, so I don't know if we'll be able to get through everything.

01:14:27.840 But, okay, so we have you here.

01:14:30.780 You said you slept with a scary rapper once.

01:14:33.700 Oh, my God.

01:14:34.160 Did I put that in there?

01:14:35.840 Sorry, did I put that in there?

01:14:37.860 Does he know that he was scary?

01:14:39.940 Because he's watching right now.

01:14:41.100 I can't believe it.

01:14:41.860 We have 79,000 people watching right now.

01:14:43.900 He's one of them.

01:14:44.480 No.

01:14:45.900 Yeah.

01:14:46.520 Oh, my God.

01:14:47.440 You're calling me out here.

01:14:48.480 I don't know why I put that.

01:14:49.460 Yeah.

01:14:49.700 One time I went, and I had such a crush on this guy.

01:14:55.100 And then we ended up hooking up, and it scared the bejesus out of me.

01:14:58.500 Because we were hooking up, and he took a gun out and put it on the...

01:15:02.760 He was having a gun on him.

01:15:04.960 Wait, guns are scary?

01:15:06.340 How long ago was this?

01:15:07.860 Never come to Texas.

01:15:08.980 How long ago was this?

01:15:10.740 I was younger in my wild, maybe like 25.

01:15:14.100 Okay.

01:15:14.400 Who was the rapper?

01:15:15.980 No, I have no way telling you, guys.

01:15:18.000 Okay, so like, you don't want young Dolph to know.

01:15:21.780 You don't want to know.

01:15:22.300 Never mind.

01:15:22.860 I'm not bad.

01:15:23.520 But as a rapper, would you expect anything less from him to not keep a gun on him?

01:15:27.700 Maybe I'm just too innocent.

01:15:28.880 Facts.

01:15:29.020 I've never seen a gun in my life, so it was just shocking.

01:15:32.040 Just out of curiosity.

01:15:32.920 The real?

01:15:34.640 Did you go on multiple dates with him?

01:15:37.100 No.

01:15:37.780 You just met him the one time, just backstage?

01:15:39.700 Yes.

01:15:39.860 It was whatever?

01:15:40.400 Okay.

01:15:40.980 Got it.

01:15:41.260 Oh, my God.

01:15:41.820 Was this before or after your husband?

01:15:43.300 Oh, before.

01:15:44.080 Before.

01:15:44.860 How far before?

01:15:45.680 It was in my YOLO days.

01:15:46.080 Oh, YOLO days?

01:15:46.660 Well, I just divorced him now, so this was like seven years ago.

01:15:49.680 Okay, got it.

01:15:50.440 You're from Canada?

01:15:51.620 Yes, sir.

01:15:51.980 Wrapper?

01:15:52.480 Drake?

01:15:53.360 Oh, my God.

01:15:54.060 I wish.

01:15:54.520 No.

01:15:55.380 Not I wish.

01:15:56.720 If it was Drake, she'd be saying Drake.

01:15:59.080 She would be sitting stunting on all these girls.

01:16:02.120 Wait, it's Drake.

01:16:02.920 Someone said Flava Fave.

01:16:04.420 Flava Fave.

01:16:07.200 Face tattoos.

01:16:08.280 Did he have face tattoos?

01:16:09.860 He had body tattoos.

01:16:11.180 Name some lyrics.

01:16:11.940 You guys.

01:16:13.260 Please.

01:16:13.780 Oh, no, you're growing her.

01:16:15.100 He was a white rapper.

01:16:16.920 Oh, man.

01:16:17.560 Oh, man.

01:16:18.380 And that's how he was.

01:16:18.860 He is no longer here with us.

01:16:20.120 Machine Gun, Canada.

01:16:20.840 No, I was in America.

01:16:22.320 I mean, did G-Eazy have good lyrics?

01:16:25.820 Hey, yo, yo, yo.

01:16:26.500 Yeah.

01:16:27.060 Hey, why are you talking right now?

01:16:28.240 Sorry.

01:16:29.100 Please, if other people are talking, let them talk, okay?

01:16:31.540 Yeah.

01:16:32.140 Go ahead.

01:16:33.120 But, yeah, that's all.

01:16:34.040 I'm not going to.

01:16:34.440 Oh, my God.

01:16:34.880 I feel like one of those people, like, I'm not going to tell you.

01:16:36.940 But, no, I cannot.

01:16:39.220 I'm embarrassed.

01:16:39.780 So, G-Eazy was good in bed?

01:16:40.920 Is that what you're saying?

01:16:42.340 I'll just say a white rapper dude, okay?

01:16:44.520 And it was years ago, and that is.

01:16:46.300 But we would all know him.

01:16:47.280 We would all know him.

01:16:48.200 Oh, I don't.

01:16:49.200 Maybe some of y'all.

01:16:50.500 He's not, like, A-list, I don't think.

01:16:52.200 Oh, he's not A-list.

01:16:53.280 So, Juice WRLD was okay in bed?

01:16:55.620 Is that what you're saying?

01:16:56.420 Juice WRLD.

01:16:57.200 Oh, he's not white.

01:16:57.780 My bad.

01:16:58.000 I'm sorry.

01:16:58.380 Yeah, I was like, what?

01:16:59.180 I'm just trying to get.

01:16:59.760 I'm trying to catch him.

01:17:00.480 I'm trying to catch him.

01:17:01.140 Juice WRLD.

01:17:02.020 Trying to catch a slip.

01:17:02.660 Call me out like that.

01:17:03.300 Did he want to, like, I've definitely heard that there's a kink where, like, women will

01:17:07.200 want, like, either a knife held up to them or, like, a gun held up to them.

01:17:10.360 Yeah, a knife.

01:17:10.640 Was it that kind of thing?

01:17:11.340 It was kind of, don't get me, it was kind of, like, it gets your adrenaline pumping,

01:17:14.820 right?

01:17:14.960 Whether you like it or not.

01:17:15.920 I was like, whoa.

01:17:17.320 Whoa.

01:17:17.460 She's a B.

01:17:19.240 Wait, so hold on.

01:17:20.140 You were at a concert.

01:17:21.080 He was performing in the concert.

01:17:22.500 No.

01:17:22.940 It was Paul Wall with Slim Thug.

01:17:25.120 Slid into the DMs.

01:17:25.160 Slid into the DMs.

01:17:26.000 He slid into your DMs.

01:17:27.260 I slid into his.

01:17:28.000 Oh, you slid into his.

01:17:28.700 Thinking anything, like, as a joke, kind of, and then he actually responded, and then

01:17:32.320 he's like, oh, come to the studio, okay.

01:17:34.940 Wait.

01:17:35.820 Okay, how many followers did you have when you slid into his DMs?

01:17:38.180 Zero.

01:17:39.320 Nobody.

01:17:40.020 You know what's interesting?

01:17:40.880 The reverse would never happen.

01:17:42.840 Like, a dude sliding into Ariana Grande's DMs who's got zero followers.

01:17:48.080 I don't know.

01:17:48.600 She's dating that Spongebob guy.

01:17:49.340 Do you see who she's dating right now?

01:17:50.440 Nice.

01:17:51.280 Who?

01:17:51.640 Look at who she's dating right now.

01:17:52.940 He's a Broadway actor.

01:17:54.120 No, no, no.

01:17:54.600 They got divorced.

01:17:55.360 They got divorced.

01:17:56.520 Look at who she's dating now.

01:17:57.760 That would be crazy.

01:17:58.700 Well, he's a Broadway star, so he's not a nobody.

01:18:01.360 But when you messaged Paul Wall, did he have a bunch of followers at the time?

01:18:04.660 Yeah.

01:18:05.400 Okay.

01:18:06.280 I don't, that's why I was shocked.

01:18:07.140 I'm going to get it.

01:18:07.440 I'm going to figure out who it is.

01:18:08.520 I sent it as a joke.

01:18:09.440 Is he still alive?

01:18:09.900 I sent it as a joke.

01:18:10.900 Is he still alive?

01:18:11.420 Yes, he's still alive.

01:18:12.480 I mean, you think of Mac Miller or something?

01:18:14.200 Yeah, there's also logic.

01:18:15.820 Playing Blue's Clues over here.

01:18:17.780 So, okay, in your other notes, you said that you were dealing with a husband who hated his

01:18:21.880 job, but I became his sugar mama.

01:18:23.740 Oh, yeah, that was my hex.

01:18:24.100 Yeah, we kind of already talked about that.

01:18:27.000 Let's see.

01:18:27.600 I didn't think you guys were actually going to, like, call me out on this stuff.

01:18:30.260 I just put, I sent it in, like, real quick.

01:18:32.560 So were you, but you chose to marry him, right?

01:18:34.860 But it's, I mean, you did say, hey, like, I, it was the pandemic.

01:18:38.360 I didn't know the scope of his unemployment.

01:18:40.480 But you characterized it as being his sugar mama.

01:18:45.140 But, so, I mean, isn't it the case that many women today, they're out earning men, female

01:18:49.240 doctors, lawyers, et cetera.

01:18:50.680 So, like, why is it that a male breadwinner is considered normal for a man, but when a

01:18:56.500 female is a breadwinner, it's considered to be dating down or being a sugar mama?

01:18:59.440 Well, I see where you're going with that.

01:19:01.140 But it, what, it, you remember I said he was not ambitious?

01:19:04.140 Like, that was the issue, right?

01:19:05.600 If you're, like, working hard and helping out and you just make less than me, like, go for

01:19:10.440 it.

01:19:10.500 But if you're going to sit there and be lazy and I have to provide for you, that's when

01:19:14.380 you feel like a sugar mama.

01:19:14.860 So kind of like men?

01:19:16.960 Men in general?

01:19:18.060 Well, kind of just like how men...

01:19:19.100 What does his lack of ambition look like?

01:19:20.560 I guess you have a good point, but I feel, I don't know, like a woman in a sugar baby

01:19:25.800 situation, usually what brings, like, you know, she dresses sexy for you, she'll do stuff

01:19:30.200 around the house.

01:19:31.200 Like, I feel like they bring more to the table.

01:19:33.240 They'll probably have, like, a little side hustle, you know, have a little boutique where

01:19:36.040 they don't make much money.

01:19:36.300 He was one of the Island Boys.

01:19:37.820 No.

01:19:38.840 Oh, my God.

01:19:40.860 If you were making, like, significantly more and you said, hey, I want to not work anymore

01:19:45.580 since you have the funds to support that.

01:19:47.580 You guys, I'm not, like, a bajillionaire here.

01:19:49.880 I'm still working hard for my money.

01:19:51.780 Most men aren't bajillionaires either.

01:19:53.020 Yeah, but, like, it wasn't enough that, oh, I make so much money where I can take care

01:19:57.020 of us both and live lavishly.

01:19:58.560 Like, you need to, you know, bring something too.

01:20:01.080 Like, it was just his demeanor about it and, like, like I said, just no ambition.

01:20:05.980 That's the turnoff.

01:20:06.580 So, I'm curious, who was better in bed, your husband or Tekashi69?

01:20:09.660 Which one was, which one was better?

01:20:11.680 Get over it.

01:20:12.440 Hey, okay, I'm checking, though.

01:20:13.900 I want to see a reaction.

01:20:14.520 Yeah, yeah.

01:20:14.880 No, no, no, no.

01:20:15.700 Exactly.

01:20:16.200 Yeah, yeah.

01:20:16.480 He is.

01:20:16.760 She can lie about the race of the rapper.

01:20:19.840 I know he's Hispanic.

01:20:21.000 She's like, Eminem.

01:20:22.700 Oh, my God, imagine.

01:20:24.060 And the last note from you here, and we were actually talking to some degree about this

01:20:28.740 a little earlier.

01:20:29.680 You said that, I think that people judge OnlyFans girls too much and that a guy can't handle

01:20:35.040 a girl showing off her body or that a guy who can't handle a girl showing off her body

01:20:39.860 is insecure like the recent Jonah Hill text message.

01:20:42.920 We'll get to that in just a sec.

01:20:44.200 Hold on.

01:20:45.000 Thank you, John.

01:20:45.440 Appreciate it.

01:20:45.980 Can you ask the girls what their political leanings are and if they would be willing

01:20:49.900 to date a guy with the opposite political leanings?

01:20:53.160 P.S.

01:20:53.460 Would be cool to get Destiny and Farrah back on the show.

01:20:57.280 Oh, yo, John.

01:20:57.940 Thank you very much.

01:20:58.500 Yeah, we can definitely ask that question.

01:20:59.720 Appreciate it.

01:21:00.280 And I think we actually have Destiny coming on Thursday for a debate.

01:21:04.540 We're not doing a dating talk.

01:21:05.620 We'll go around the table really quick.

01:21:07.800 So, political leanings.

01:21:09.460 Go ahead.

01:21:11.260 Go ahead.

01:21:11.540 Oh, sorry.

01:21:12.340 Yeah, you're good.

01:21:12.740 Yeah, you're good.

01:21:15.180 We're talking about politics?

01:21:17.000 Yeah, are you liberal?

01:21:18.440 Oh, I'm nothing.

01:21:19.740 Conservative?

01:21:20.740 Liberal?

01:21:21.740 Moderate?

01:21:22.800 Apolitical?

01:21:23.560 Zero.

01:21:24.240 Okay, what about you?

01:21:25.340 I'd be feeling like politics is bullshit, but social issues are important to know where

01:21:29.920 you stand.

01:21:32.620 Word?

01:21:33.440 Okay.

01:21:33.720 What about you?

01:21:34.720 I lean, I guess, more liberal, but independent.

01:21:38.060 Okay.

01:21:38.460 Green Party.

01:21:40.320 What's?

01:21:40.960 That's a lot liberal.

01:21:42.840 That's a lot liberal.

01:21:43.680 That's a little liberal.

01:21:44.180 I really like the environment.

01:21:45.900 So, the two times I voted in my life was for the Green Party, but.

01:21:48.620 Is that like eco-terrorism or something?

01:21:50.600 I mean, you said it, not me.

01:21:52.000 I'm not getting kicked off this platform.

01:21:56.660 I don't think I have political views.

01:21:58.200 It's kind of just like, you know right from wrong.

01:22:00.440 Like, you know better.

01:22:03.320 I don't know.

01:22:04.040 I feel like people just don't want to share their, but liberal, conservative, moderate,

01:22:12.220 moderate, not particularly.

01:22:13.980 Some people just don't really care about politics.

01:22:16.200 I just don't care.

01:22:17.180 That's fine.

01:22:17.560 What about you?

01:22:18.620 I'm moderate or conservative.

01:22:20.080 Okay.

01:22:21.200 Ideally, communist, but I believe in human flaw.

01:22:24.680 So, realistically, social capitalism.

01:22:27.700 So, like a blend of socialism and capitalist.

01:22:30.700 Wait, China.

01:22:31.220 Are you a communist?

01:22:31.940 Like China.

01:22:32.540 Ideally.

01:22:34.400 China's not a real communist country.

01:22:36.460 It's socialism.

01:22:37.600 Are you a tanky?

01:22:39.000 What?

01:22:39.360 What did you say?

01:22:39.800 You said social capitalism.

01:22:40.780 Yeah.

01:22:41.880 I personally like different forms.

01:22:44.040 So, like pick and choose.

01:22:45.280 Okay.

01:22:45.500 I wouldn't say China's exactly doing it right, but, like, I agree with their, like, limited

01:22:49.640 population rules, like, stuff like that, but I don't know.

01:22:52.440 They don't have that anymore, but yeah.

01:22:53.440 I know you have it.

01:22:53.920 So, like, that is a part of, like, some kind of.

01:22:55.800 Okay.

01:22:57.880 I used to be extremely leftist, raging SJW feminist.

01:23:02.980 I'm more of, like, centrist liberal now.

01:23:06.980 Okay.

01:23:07.340 I don't pay attention or care too much about politics, so.

01:23:12.520 If you were a moderate 20 years ago, you are a conservative now.

01:23:16.300 There is no way to, like, if I just.

01:23:18.200 Yeah.

01:23:18.340 I don't even have to say what I am.

01:23:19.400 If I am just had normal, moderate views in 2000, today, I am considered a conservative.

01:23:25.300 Agreed.

01:23:25.620 Yeah.

01:23:25.880 It's just like, and it's the basic common sense things I would be called a politically

01:23:30.460 conservative.

01:23:31.100 And I try to, like, say, no, I'm more moderate.

01:23:32.920 And then I have, like, I talk to people.

01:23:34.840 I'm like, no, this is not.

01:23:35.860 I guess I'm not moderate.

01:23:36.880 I guess I'm not.

01:23:37.480 You probably shouldn't be talking to a nine-year-old about switching genders.

01:23:40.020 Like, that doesn't sound right to me.

01:23:41.460 And it doesn't, like, I don't go off and be, man, I'm super fucking politically conservative.

01:23:45.240 That just makes sense to me.

01:23:47.120 You know what I'm saying?

01:23:48.000 And I just don't understand.

01:23:49.040 So, the things, whatever I believed, because the Overton window keeps shifting to the left, I'm left behind

01:23:54.700 because I'm 45 years old, I just look conservative.

01:23:57.200 Priya, what about you?

01:23:58.300 I completely agree with your point, actually.

01:24:00.480 A few years ago, I would have said I'm very moderate conservative.

01:24:03.960 Now, I'm being pushed much more right with how drastic things are becoming.

01:24:09.120 Rock and roll.

01:24:09.980 Okay, let's get a couple chats in.

01:24:11.240 We have Ronnie C here.

01:24:12.600 Hey, thank you, man.

01:24:13.140 Hey, Brian.

01:24:13.560 Great show.

01:24:14.180 Priya's accent, smile, kind of cute.

01:24:16.320 Shooting my shot, Priya.

01:24:17.180 Let's go skydiving in L.A.?

01:24:18.660 Get a drink first date, obviously.

01:24:21.240 I'm a pro athlete, too, from London.

01:24:22.960 I'll DM Brian and Michael.

01:24:24.780 God bless and bring Destiny back.

01:24:26.480 Yo, Ronnie C, thank you very much for your very generous chat there.

01:24:30.200 Appreciate it.

01:24:31.300 Priya, he's an athlete, wants to go skydiving.

01:24:34.960 Very nice offer.

01:24:35.680 It sounds like a sketchy first date, though.

01:24:37.720 Yeah, that's...

01:24:38.580 We're jumping right to skydiving?

01:24:41.080 I don't know about that.

01:24:42.280 It's kind of because of the implication, you know?

01:24:44.540 Sorry, can I ask, who's Destiny?

01:24:46.240 You guys keep matching?

01:24:47.800 Steve.

01:24:48.460 Yeah.

01:24:48.820 He's a really good debater.

01:24:52.260 He's a little bit left of center.

01:24:53.860 Is he the blue-haired guy?

01:24:54.700 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:24:55.140 And he's...

01:24:56.940 Because all the Red Pill guys sort of gang up on him, he's always there.

01:25:01.360 One of the things I appreciate about him, he's always willing to take on these really...

01:25:05.000 These cantankerous debates.

01:25:07.400 And he's...

01:25:07.840 I admit, he's a better debater than me.

01:25:09.540 And he does tons of fucking research.

01:25:11.360 He's awesome.

01:25:12.400 And so we did one debate.

01:25:13.920 He and I did one against each other on Fresh and Fit.

01:25:16.380 And I just learned to really respect it, dude.

01:25:18.040 I'm doing a pretty big debate in a couple weeks.

01:25:19.800 And I'm actually picking his brain, even though we don't agree on everything, about some things

01:25:23.620 that I'm going to be debating on.

01:25:24.680 So, yeah, he's...

01:25:25.700 In this space, I would say he's the best debater that there is.

01:25:28.520 He's really well pronounced.

01:25:29.340 All right.

01:25:29.800 River's View.

01:25:30.440 Hey, thank you, man.

01:25:30.940 Appreciate it.

01:25:31.540 Cheating or not, never start physical violence.

01:25:33.380 Male deletion stats due to results of DV are comparable to female homicide.

01:25:38.200 Violence never right.

01:25:39.200 And domestics hurt on both sides.

01:25:41.500 Stats not worth debate, girls.

01:25:43.680 Cheating is a civil case.

01:25:44.820 Hitting is criminal.

01:25:46.380 Agreed.

01:25:46.780 Okay, fair, fair point.

01:25:47.600 That's what I'm saying before.

01:25:49.200 Yeah.

01:25:50.140 Yeah, River's View.

01:25:51.120 Good.

01:25:51.500 Fair enough.

01:25:51.960 Yeah, I mean, look, despite, you know, the temperature that might be raised, if you catch

01:25:57.440 a girl cheating, obviously, it's not worth fucking catching a case over that shit.

01:26:01.420 Just move on.

01:26:02.660 Get out of there.

01:26:03.540 Like, you know.

01:26:04.780 But, yeah.

01:26:06.560 Although I do, like, what about the dude, you know?

01:26:08.280 What if it's your best friend?

01:26:10.760 Then you have to settle that with your best friend.

01:26:12.440 I don't know what y'all talking about.

01:26:13.420 That's such a betrayal.

01:26:14.320 That's what you're saying.

01:26:15.060 You're saying you should stick with violence.

01:26:16.260 What's all you said, people?

01:26:18.020 You're getting your ass.

01:26:19.120 I challenge you to a duel.

01:26:20.420 You knew what you were doing.

01:26:21.480 You knew what you were doing.

01:26:21.500 You knew what you were doing.

01:26:21.760 You knew what you were doing.

01:26:23.840 You knew what an asshole was on the table if you got caught.

01:26:26.460 Hold on.

01:26:26.840 Hide that.

01:26:27.160 Oh, thank you, man.

01:26:29.780 All right, here we go.

01:26:31.880 Okay.

01:26:33.940 Thank you, man.

01:26:34.620 No, nillion.

01:26:35.780 770.

01:26:37.380 Not tillion.

01:26:38.260 777.

01:26:39.940 Sextillion.

01:26:40.800 777.

01:26:42.500 Sextillion.

01:26:43.460 777.

01:26:44.780 Quintillion.

01:26:46.000 777.

01:26:47.600 Quadrillion.

01:26:48.320 777.

01:26:49.840 Trillion.

01:26:50.340 777.

01:26:51.540 777.

01:26:52.740 777.

01:26:53.740 777.

01:26:54.140 777.

01:26:54.780 777.

01:26:55.780 777.

01:26:56.780 777.

01:26:57.780 777.

01:26:58.280 777.

01:26:58.380 777.

01:26:58.680 777.

01:26:59.380 777.

01:26:59.880 777.

01:27:00.380 777.

01:27:00.820 Pride.

01:27:01.200 Greed.

01:27:02.080 Wrath.

01:27:02.600 Envy.

01:27:03.220 Lust.

01:27:03.820 Gluttony.

01:27:04.620 Sloth.

01:27:05.340 Sloth.

01:27:05.780 Name seven books.

01:27:08.500 Name seven.

01:27:09.380 Anybody here.

01:27:10.520 Name seven books.

01:27:11.340 Go.

01:27:13.020 Into the Wild.

01:27:14.160 The Great Gatsby.

01:27:15.400 It's kind of a funny story.

01:27:17.000 Don't name a school.

01:27:18.320 Required readings.

01:27:20.500 No, you read.

01:27:21.060 So, right.

01:27:21.420 Wherever you are.

01:27:21.880 That's cheating.

01:27:22.780 No, books are books.

01:27:23.900 Books are books.

01:27:24.200 Come on.

01:27:25.780 All right.

01:27:26.640 We have Bender the Offender here.

01:27:27.900 Hey, thank you, man.

01:27:28.420 Ladies, what do you think the median income for men is in society?

01:27:30.820 Oh, here we go.

01:27:32.380 This is my favorite.

01:27:33.240 Let's wait until we have her back from the bathroom.

01:27:35.300 Okay.

01:27:35.420 Bender, I'll pull this one back up.

01:27:36.860 What do you think the median income for a man in the United States is?

01:27:39.920 Median?

01:27:40.120 Yes.

01:27:41.000 Median.

01:27:41.580 Median or average?

01:27:43.100 Median.

01:27:43.760 Okay.

01:27:44.280 Median.

01:27:44.580 So, you would stack them all together and you would take a mean would be averaging them

01:27:47.920 all, which would be higher because there's some people who are trillionaires.

01:27:50.360 But median is going to be stacking them all and then taking the one that's at the 50th

01:27:54.540 percentile.

01:27:55.040 That's how median is done.

01:27:56.340 Yo, we have Canuck here.

01:27:57.220 Hey, thank you, man.

01:27:58.240 Can you please bring on Fuentes and Zerka?

01:28:00.560 They are great as a duo.

01:28:01.500 Very entertaining and insightful.

01:28:02.820 Can 5 to 10x your viewership?

01:28:05.160 Easily biggest women respect.

01:28:07.200 All right.

01:28:08.780 Yeah.

01:28:09.060 Okay.

01:28:09.240 I don't know, Nick, but I like John.

01:28:10.880 John is my boy.

01:28:11.820 So, that's a John.

01:28:13.740 No comment.

01:28:14.540 Okay.

01:28:14.760 No comment.

01:28:15.220 No comment.

01:28:16.560 Okay.

01:28:17.200 And then once she's back, we'll pull this one back up, Bender.

01:28:20.340 All right.

01:28:21.020 We have this one here.

01:28:24.020 Okay.

01:28:24.680 Ladies, what do you think the median income for men is in today's society?

01:28:30.120 We'll start with you.

01:28:31.840 Go ahead.

01:28:32.440 I have to get up for a second.

01:28:33.600 Cool.

01:28:33.980 The median income for men in the United States.

01:28:36.580 I actually have a bunch more stats, so we'll go.

01:28:38.020 50,000.

01:28:39.140 50,000.

01:28:39.980 What do you think it is?

01:28:41.100 25,000.

01:28:41.500 25,000.

01:28:42.340 What do you think it is?

01:28:43.060 40.

01:28:43.720 40?

01:28:44.720 Like 45,000.

01:28:45.700 45,000.

01:28:46.280 What do you think it is?

01:28:47.280 I think it's 30-something.

01:28:48.520 30?

01:28:49.200 60.

01:28:49.740 60?

01:28:50.260 Anywhere from like 30 to 50.

01:28:51.840 30, 50?

01:28:52.700 30.

01:28:53.260 Okay.

01:28:53.760 I'm going to say in the 40s, but I'll say 42.

01:28:55.580 That's crazy.

01:28:56.140 So, usually we do this, and the girls say, well, it's 170,000.

01:28:59.960 He probably makes 100,000.

01:29:01.420 He's got to at least make 70.

01:29:02.200 We'd be dating cheap men.

01:29:02.980 He's got to make 70.

01:29:04.320 It's about 39,000.

01:29:06.400 I think the newest number is like 42,000.

01:29:09.080 And then for a household, I want to say it's 70,000.

01:29:11.780 Yeah.

01:29:11.940 Right?

01:29:12.080 Okay, the top 10% of wage earners.

01:29:14.520 What do you think it is?

01:29:15.760 Top 10% of wage earners.

01:29:16.820 Top 10% of wage earners in the United States.

01:29:18.300 What do you think?

01:29:18.760 What number would you have to cross?

01:29:21.560 80.

01:29:22.160 80?

01:29:23.880 150,000.

01:29:24.520 150?

01:29:26.340 100.

01:29:27.340 Okay.

01:29:27.780 It was like 120.

01:29:28.760 120?

01:29:30.420 80.

01:29:31.020 Okay.

01:29:31.300 This is only top percent.

01:29:32.620 Top 10%.

01:29:33.260 I would say close to a million.

01:29:35.020 Close to a million.

01:29:35.780 I would agree with 80.

01:29:36.840 80?

01:29:37.400 Wait, is the question like how much?

01:29:38.880 Top 10%.

01:29:39.340 You put you in the top 10 percentile of income earners.

01:29:43.020 So, we're not talking about guys who own like a bunch of rental properties.

01:29:45.120 Right, right, right.

01:29:45.660 Yeah.

01:29:46.080 What do you think?

01:29:47.240 Like 130?

01:29:49.120 What do you think?

01:29:49.620 I would say 90.

01:29:50.760 90?

01:29:51.240 Yeah.

01:29:51.380 It's about 170.

01:29:52.500 It's about the top 10%.

01:29:53.760 The top 1%.

01:29:54.920 What do you think it is?

01:29:57.580 Top 1%?

01:29:58.380 I didn't know it went past 170.

01:30:03.020 I would say maybe like 250.

01:30:05.560 250 for 1%.

01:30:06.700 500,000.

01:30:07.620 500?

01:30:08.520 Yeah.

01:30:09.020 Oh, 500,000.

01:30:10.580 Like 475.

01:30:11.440 You guys are dry.

01:30:12.100 You are wet.

01:30:12.820 Like I've done this a bunch of times.

01:30:14.080 I don't know.

01:30:14.340 Maybe you guys have saw us, but I'm used to every girl saying 4 million, 10 million, 20 million.

01:30:18.760 Keep going.

01:30:19.460 I'm going to get in trouble for these wrong answers.

01:30:22.920 By my boyfriend.

01:30:24.720 Yeah.

01:30:26.220 Shit.

01:30:26.800 I don't know.

01:30:27.700 400,000.

01:30:28.220 400.

01:30:28.920 I'm so disappointed with the last answer, but I'm going to hope a million.

01:30:32.560 A million?

01:30:33.300 You said the top 1%.

01:30:34.260 The top 1%.

01:30:34.920 Yeah, I guess like I'm close to a million.

01:30:38.820 400.

01:30:39.480 400.

01:30:40.040 Top 1%, I'm going to say 400.

01:30:43.420 So it used to be about 450.

01:30:44.600 Now it's about 650.

01:30:45.920 Damn.

01:30:46.120 It's about 650, somewhere in that area.

01:30:48.060 We'll put you in the top 1%.

01:30:49.220 And the top 1% is about $3.2 million.

01:30:51.560 So the reason why I think it's a little different is because when we do the show in Miami or

01:30:57.660 the show we do in Las Vegas, a lot of those girls are around guys in bottle service.

01:31:01.820 Those guys are buying $10,000 tables, $100,000 tables.

01:31:05.160 And so people start to believe that that's what the normalcy is.

01:31:08.360 But no, it's $39,000.

01:31:09.560 How tall do you think the average guy is in the United States?

01:31:11.240 Anybody?

01:31:11.720 5'8".

01:31:12.280 5'8".

01:31:12.680 What do you think?

01:31:14.880 6'4".

01:31:15.580 6'4".

01:31:16.020 I think it's 5'9".

01:31:17.640 5'9"?

01:31:18.380 Yeah, I think it's 5'.

01:31:19.440 What do you think?

01:31:19.820 5'9".

01:31:20.780 I think it's like 5'8", 5'9".

01:31:22.520 What do you think?

01:31:22.940 5'7".

01:31:23.620 Go ahead.

01:31:23.980 5'6", to 5'8".

01:31:25.160 5'8".

01:31:25.980 5'8".

01:31:26.340 It is either 5'8 or 5'9".

01:31:27.800 It's crazy.

01:31:28.380 Again, you guys do a lot of reading.

01:31:30.260 Congratulations.

01:31:31.520 I want to hear you guys name three countries.

01:31:33.600 The answer is 5'9".

01:31:34.340 Yeah.

01:31:35.000 The number of men, just real quick, the percentage of men over 6 feet tall, what do you think it

01:31:39.420 is?

01:31:39.700 Everybody?

01:31:40.020 Over 6 feet tall.

01:31:41.680 6 feet or over taller?

01:31:42.900 We're talking about U.S. statistics, correct?

01:31:44.900 Yeah, U.S. statistics, yeah.

01:31:46.460 What do you think?

01:31:47.040 Percent of over 6?

01:31:48.340 Over 6 feet tall.

01:31:49.140 Out of like 100%?

01:31:50.140 Yes.

01:31:51.120 Sorry.

01:31:51.900 Only percent.

01:31:52.580 That's why it's called percent.

01:31:53.460 Okay, yes.

01:31:54.140 Correct.

01:31:55.660 25.

01:31:56.440 25.

01:31:57.040 20.

01:31:57.540 20.

01:31:59.080 25.

01:31:59.980 Okay.

01:32:00.640 15.

01:32:01.180 15.

01:32:01.820 I don't see a lot of times.

01:32:02.320 5?

01:32:02.880 5.

01:32:03.420 10.

01:32:03.880 10.

01:32:04.280 Can you repeat the question?

01:32:05.200 Of men over 6 feet tall, what percentage of men in the United States are 6 feet or taller?

01:32:10.020 No, like maybe 20%.

01:32:11.600 20.

01:32:12.060 18.

01:32:12.520 That's a lot.

01:32:13.160 I'm going to say 15.

01:32:13.600 It is 14%.

01:32:14.780 So ladies, I want you to think about this for a second, okay?

01:32:17.640 So when ladies come out there, and maybe, you know, maybe because we're in a college town

01:32:20.700 it's a little bit different, but often we'll get, makes $100,000 a year, that puts you in

01:32:24.100 the top, I think 26 or 28 percentile, over 6 feet tall, that puts you, or 6 feet or over,

01:32:28.840 that puts you in the top 14 percentile.

01:32:30.400 Remember, those don't stack.

01:32:31.740 They actually, it's 14% of 26%, right?

01:32:34.660 And then we go, not married, not obese.

01:32:36.740 I mean, if you ever use the delusional calculator, you end up finding out that when women say that,

01:32:40.400 I want 6 feet tall, 6 pack abs, you know, not married, makes over 6 figures.

01:32:44.620 We're talking about 0.5% of the population, 0.3% of the population.

01:32:49.220 And so, then you have a woman like this, woman on TikTok saying, these are all the things that

01:32:53.320 she wants in a relationship.

01:32:54.580 That's why I was saying before, from a statistical standpoint, the likelihood of her finding that

01:32:58.480 guy is like three, it's three-tenths of 1%, got it?

01:33:02.360 Now, we do the opposite, all the guys, we take the same test, but of course, we as men do not

01:33:07.440 care about height, and we do not care about money.

01:33:10.180 And so because of those, our dating pool is much greater.

01:33:13.360 So for a man who makes $200,000 a year, he's choosing between, say, 9 to 14% of the population,

01:33:18.600 whereas she's choosing between, like, 0.3% of the population.

01:33:22.400 Do you understand?

01:33:23.000 And this is why men cheat.

01:33:26.860 It's just a function of, it's a socioeconomic, it's a mathematics problem.

01:33:30.500 That's the reason why.

01:33:31.660 Because for men to meet the standards that you're saying, there's just so fewer of them.

01:33:35.720 I'm not excusing men cheating.

01:33:36.840 I already know there's going to be a TikTok made of me talking shit.

01:33:40.240 But that's the reason why, is because these men at the top, a higher tier, have options.

01:33:45.080 What social media did is it did not make it easier for men to meet women.

01:33:49.160 It made it easier for a small group of men at the top to meet all of the women.

01:33:53.060 Does that make sense?

01:33:53.700 So if you look at body counts with men, there's another study they do.

01:33:56.680 The top, I'm going to say, like, 26% of men under the age of 30, something like that, have had, like, still a virgin.

01:34:02.300 It's just some ridiculously high number, and it's getting higher.

01:34:04.380 And then you have the men over, the top 5% of men have 150 bodies.

01:34:08.640 So for men, it's flat, and then it goes like this.

01:34:11.580 And then the average man, I think it's like, they've had six sexual partners in their entire life.

01:34:15.580 So we're up to 33%, we're, like, at zero.

01:34:18.420 At the 50th percentile, we're, like, at six.

01:34:21.180 And then we shoot up to 150.

01:34:22.940 Do you see it like that?

01:34:23.720 Whereas men, for women, it's more linear.

01:34:25.520 For men, there is this group of men at the top that are getting all the attention from women.

01:34:29.920 So can I ask you a question?

01:34:30.900 So for high-value, high-status men that have all of the options, right, that only reaches, like, that's, like, our case, selective theory.

01:34:37.940 Like, it only reaches a critical point until, like, it falls off, and you actually can't maintain those options anymore.

01:34:43.500 What do you mean?

01:34:44.160 So, like, if you're talking about, like, let's just use an example of, like, the red pill community, right?

01:34:51.240 And you would consider a lot of those men, like, encouraging other men to become high-value, high-status men, right?

01:34:57.100 So, and along with that, rhetoric also comes with provision for the women that they're dating.

01:35:03.380 Yeah, it could be provisioning, or they could just show access to scarce resources.

01:35:08.960 And what I mean by that is the guy who has the yacht, and you come on the yacht, but he's not provisioning for you.

01:35:13.780 Sure.

01:35:13.940 Not necessarily.

01:35:14.520 Like, Drake doesn't provision for a lot of the women he sleeps with, but he still shows access to...

01:35:18.520 How do you know?

01:35:18.540 No, I'm saying all of them.

01:35:19.740 There are women who are attracted to Drake that he does not provision for, and there are women that Drake sleeps with that he does not need to pay.

01:35:24.860 That's my point.

01:35:25.500 Sure, back, right.

01:35:26.420 All right, hold on.

01:35:27.040 Let's try to move on from this.

01:35:28.720 Okay, so let's see here.

01:35:30.920 We had a...

01:35:32.300 I don't know if we want to do this other chat.

01:35:33.580 We did have another video to react to.

01:35:34.980 I want to try to loop in the rest of the table here.

01:35:37.840 If you can pull up the...

01:35:40.280 Oh, hold on.

01:35:40.840 Let's just...

01:35:41.600 Here, I'll read it while it's up.

01:35:42.820 Only in modern America would a girl in a street fighter clown costume believe...

01:35:46.180 Hold on, shit, let me re-trigger it.

01:35:49.000 Shots fired.

01:35:49.900 No.

01:35:50.600 Believe that the deadliest doctrine in history is ideal.

01:35:52.900 Well, as they say, it is easy to be a communist in a free country.

01:35:55.940 It is impossible to be free in a communist country.

01:36:00.520 Exactly.

01:36:02.080 I don't believe in ideal freedom.

01:36:03.840 I think humans are flawed, so if you give them access to all the freedom...

01:36:08.320 Like, for instance, we have the freedom to delete someone, but you will be punished for it.

01:36:14.220 So technically, you're not free to do that.

01:36:16.480 So then you're going to put other people who are, you're saying, flawed in charge of...

01:36:21.840 No, I said communism is not ideal in terms of human flaws.

01:36:25.920 So ideally, I would want a communist utopian society, but I believe that's not achievable

01:36:31.040 because of human flaw.

01:36:32.660 Yeah, if it's a utopian society, you also don't need communism.

01:36:35.060 Yeah, you wouldn't need communism.

01:36:36.860 Right, you wouldn't need communism.

01:36:37.740 I just like to use communism, because that's what people relate to more.

01:36:40.740 The idea of a utopian society was communist rhetoric.

01:36:43.460 In reality, if you had a utopian society, you wouldn't need people with guns to make you

01:36:47.280 do things for your brothers.

01:36:48.980 That's the difference.

01:36:49.540 That would be something different.

01:36:50.240 Yeah.

01:36:52.200 Let me see.

01:36:52.940 Did I...

01:36:53.240 I don't know if I...

01:36:54.240 By the way, Mike, I didn't mean to cut you off.

01:36:56.000 Oh, no, I don't know.

01:36:56.480 I thought...

01:36:57.480 I don't know if there was some more back and forth.

01:36:59.060 If you wanted to continue your point, feel free.

01:37:00.780 Oh, no, it's just going back to...

01:37:02.320 It's a socioeconomic thing where women...

01:37:04.400 Like, I...

01:37:05.300 Rollo and I are all about the description, not the prescription.

01:37:07.980 What we're trying to explain to people is that as we go forward, there's a small group

01:37:11.760 of men who have a ridiculous access to women because of social media and a large group

01:37:16.120 of men who have no access at all.

01:37:17.800 And because those men don't have access, you see angrier and angrier groups of men.

01:37:22.340 I had Richard Reeves.

01:37:23.140 He's a PhD on my show.

01:37:25.260 He was working for the deputy prime minister in the UK, and he's a senior fellow at the

01:37:31.420 Brookings Institute, a serious academician.

01:37:33.740 And he was saying, because academics did not want to have the conversation about men falling

01:37:37.420 behind, that's why Andrew Tate had that conversation, and that's why he became so popular so fast,

01:37:41.840 because academics didn't even want to acknowledge that there could possibly be a problem where

01:37:47.280 men were falling behind as far as relationships that were concerned, as far as jobs were concerned,

01:37:51.960 as far as education was concerned.

01:37:53.560 5% of psychologists under the age of 30 are men.

01:37:58.980 5%.

01:37:59.460 Do you understand what's going to happen to the entire field of psychology?

01:38:02.680 Well, yeah.

01:38:03.000 In 2050, women will essentially take over.

01:38:05.680 Yeah.

01:38:05.880 There are more female military pilots than there are male kindergarten teachers.

01:38:11.160 Like, we have gotten to the point where certain, there are certain institutions where men have

01:38:15.740 completely followed behind, while women have gotten into accounting, becoming doctors, and

01:38:20.180 some of them getting into engineering.

01:38:21.460 Men did not become nurses.

01:38:23.300 Men did not become kindergarten teachers.

01:38:25.040 And so we are having this large group of men that are unwanted and somewhat feel unnecessary.

01:38:30.640 And 68% of college graduates are female.

01:38:32.880 60% of people in college are female.

01:38:35.300 And so because of that, you have a bunch of women who are trying to become the men that

01:38:38.940 they wanted to marry.

01:38:39.840 And they look at the men that they left behind, and there's nothing there for them.

01:38:43.040 On Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, 83% of right swipes go to 20% of men.

01:38:49.840 20% of men are getting 83% of the right swipes.

01:38:53.160 That is incredibly unbalanced.

01:38:55.200 That means 80% of men are competing for 17% of women.

01:38:59.600 And then you wonder where all this anger and angst comes from.

01:39:02.580 So feminists can get out there.

01:39:04.040 The new Barbie movie can come out.

01:39:05.520 All this type of shit can happen.

01:39:06.620 But you have to remember these men exist.

01:39:08.620 And if you don't, that's when these massive problems happen.

01:39:11.120 I'm not trying to criticize any of you.

01:39:13.040 I'm just saying, in general, in society, we try to sweep these men under the rug and

01:39:16.780 act like they don't exist because they don't have luck with women.

01:39:19.240 And that's the reason why.

01:39:20.160 That's the problem.

01:39:21.080 And then when women complain about men, they're complaining about men who cheat.

01:39:24.420 And to a bunch of men who are like, cheat?

01:39:26.680 Cheat?

01:39:27.080 I've never had a girlfriend.

01:39:28.020 How the fuck am I going to cheat?

01:39:29.340 I think that there's a fundamental misunderstanding and chasm between men and women.

01:39:33.640 I think that, well, essentially, the red pill movement was a response to postmodern feminism,

01:39:40.940 like the fourth wave of feminism, in the same way that postmodern feminism was a response

01:39:47.700 to how women felt towards men.

01:39:53.640 And I think men weren't expecting it.

01:39:55.100 I think they were shocked.

01:39:55.900 I think they were uncomfortable.

01:39:56.920 I think that they couldn't really understand the level of vitriol that women really have

01:40:02.860 for men.

01:40:03.320 But I think right now, like, the pendulum is swinging to, like, now we're talking about

01:40:07.740 men, we're talking about, we're focusing on them.

01:40:10.100 But I also see that there's, like, seeds of, like, disdain and hatred.

01:40:13.760 Like, you say, like, women, you know, they, like, you're focusing on this point that, like,

01:40:18.160 women cheat, right?

01:40:19.340 Like, and, like, that's, like, their main thing.

01:40:21.880 Wait, women cheat or men cheat?

01:40:23.520 What are you talking about?

01:40:23.980 I'm confused.

01:40:24.560 Well, you were saying earlier that, like, that, like, what did you say about cheating just,

01:40:30.160 like, a few minutes ago?

01:40:30.920 I'm sure you're, you're talking about how...

01:40:32.660 Why men cheat?

01:40:33.760 Oh, was it why men cheat?

01:40:34.360 Yeah, yeah, it was about why men...

01:40:35.500 He was explaining why men cheat.

01:40:36.700 Like, from a socioeconomic standpoint, a man, because I have some friends of mine, even

01:40:40.580 before I was, you know, financially successful, I'd go hang out with them in their, you know,

01:40:45.220 their nice apartment in Miami.

01:40:47.180 Right.

01:40:47.420 And the number of women that were just hitting them up, I was like, Jesus fucking Christ,

01:40:50.800 like, how is this possible?

01:40:51.780 Like, they had, they had infinite options, and then my buddy who worked at CVS had no options.

01:40:56.780 And there was no middle...

01:40:58.020 Like, there was a...

01:40:58.780 Well, what is he doing?

01:40:59.460 Huh?

01:40:59.700 The man at CVS, is he going?

01:41:00.920 Now, is he going, is he making himself available?

01:41:03.660 Like, it's not all about online.

01:41:05.280 Like, it's kind of ridiculous to think that people only, like, date by going online.

01:41:09.740 Like, I don't even have online dating apps.

01:41:11.460 I meet people outside in real life.

01:41:12.940 You know what I'm saying?

01:41:13.020 A lot of the time, nowadays, a lot of, a lot of women would just be completely turned

01:41:17.040 off by a man that says that he works at CVS.

01:41:19.260 That's not true, though, bro.

01:41:20.540 I see people that are mentally challenged not to, like, go on a loop with anything.

01:41:25.700 Like, you know, I see people that have serious, like, things going on, and they find happiness,

01:41:32.060 and they find someone else.

01:41:33.160 You know what I mean?

01:41:33.560 Except she's not the rule, though.

01:41:34.480 I was going to say, let her talk.

01:41:35.640 Let her talk.

01:41:36.460 Wait, did you date someone who was special?

01:41:38.220 You know what I'm saying?

01:41:39.220 No, no, but I've seen it.

01:41:40.860 I physically, we've all been in school.

01:41:42.580 We've all went to public school, private school, high school, whatever.

01:41:45.040 You see a bunch of things.

01:41:46.180 You see people make it.

01:41:47.680 They make movies about certain people.

01:41:50.200 Like, anybody, there's 8 billion people.

01:41:53.980 There's so, there's someone out there for everybody.

01:41:56.880 Like, that's just point, period.

01:41:58.460 It's harder to find someone equal.

01:42:00.000 It's hard to find someone equal if you're just doing the same thing every day, and you

01:42:02.540 live the same repetitive life cycle, and you're not doing anything different.

01:42:05.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:42:05.540 Why are we to be equal?

01:42:06.700 Men and women is different.

01:42:07.780 Yeah, so the thing is, because there are so many ways to sedate men, and remember,

01:42:15.020 if you're an attractive woman, you don't have to accomplish as much in order to be

01:42:19.560 attractive to the opposite sex, whereas a man, you do.

01:42:22.760 And if we live in a society now through things online, pornography, et cetera, those things

01:42:28.840 will sedate men, and so that group of men that you said, is he doing the same thing

01:42:33.080 every day?

01:42:33.440 Yes, he's doing the same thing every day, because that's easier for him to do.

01:42:36.960 Let me tell you something.

01:42:38.100 Grand Theft Auto 6 is coming out next year.

01:42:39.760 Yes.

01:42:40.300 That motherfucker is a $2 billion with a B. $2 billion budget for that video game.

01:42:45.560 That thing is going to ruin my business and ruin my relationship.

01:42:48.440 Okay?

01:42:48.880 Like, there are so many ways as a man to sedate yourself.

01:42:51.900 But we, as men, have this burden of achievement, that we have to achieve certain things in

01:42:58.340 order to be attractive to the opposite sex.

01:43:00.400 And women, I'm not saying women don't achieve things, it's just that your ability to achieve

01:43:04.240 things is not directly correlated to how attractive you are.

01:43:07.620 Does that make sense?

01:43:08.060 I get what you're saying, for sure.

01:43:10.720 I get what you're saying, you can lay around.

01:43:12.020 Wait, you don't think women's attractiveness matters when it comes to men selecting?

01:43:15.780 No.

01:43:46.100 No, I understand that.

01:43:47.080 A lot of the times are born with that desirable trait.

01:43:50.400 Yeah, consider a situation where you have a male and female and they're twins, and one

01:43:54.960 of them is the male, and he just sits there and smokes marijuana, sits on a hacky sack

01:43:58.500 and plays video games all day, and becomes, like, he doesn't accomplish anything.

01:44:01.880 And then you have his twin sister, who's stunningly beautiful, also smokes marijuana, plays video

01:44:06.540 games.

01:44:06.980 She has a dating advantage over him.

01:44:09.260 He has the burden of achievement.

01:44:11.080 He must achieve, he must accomplish, he must become something in order for him to win.

01:44:16.440 And the problem is, this is something Rollo and I talk about all the time, is that the

01:44:19.440 world is so filled with sedation.

01:44:21.480 I find myself going down these YouTube holes and I have to, like, stop myself.

01:44:25.420 Like, you can sit there and watch endless hours of footage.

01:44:28.780 You can watch anything.

01:44:29.980 It's not even brainwashed.

01:44:31.040 It's just, there's things that, when I, I have to tell my girlfriend all the time, it's

01:44:34.500 like, it's work time now.

01:44:35.440 When I'm working, I am, I just think about how hard I have to work to accomplish what

01:44:40.140 I did.

01:44:40.420 We just, we're going to have our first $600,000 month this month, okay?

01:44:43.880 When I think about all the work I had to do to do that, and when I think about how hard

01:44:47.800 it must be, like, well, other guys are not doing this.

01:44:50.200 How the fuck are you, are they going to be able to accomplish things when there's so many

01:44:54.040 distractions?

01:44:54.740 I come from a time where if I was distracted, my dad would go get a paddle and make me undistracted

01:44:59.300 very quickly.

01:44:59.780 It was a very different time.

01:45:00.860 But it's the 1970s, 1980s, right?

01:45:03.160 And so, because of the way things are now, you have these men who are very easily distracted.

01:45:07.460 They're being told that they don't need to be masculine.

01:45:09.980 They're being told that they don't need to have the ability to focus.

01:45:12.140 And they're also being told that their ability to accomplish things is not that important.

01:45:16.220 And that's just not true.

01:45:17.900 If you're a man, you are not a special snowflake.

01:45:20.860 If you're a man and you want to go the rest of your life and never get laid, it's very easy

01:45:23.760 to do.

01:45:24.160 You can just sit around.

01:45:25.440 You will never get laid.

01:45:26.380 It's not very difficult at all.

01:45:27.480 If you're a man and you don't ever want to run a seven-figure business, it's very easy

01:45:30.420 to do that.

01:45:31.100 You can just sit around.

01:45:31.780 It'll never happen for you.

01:45:33.060 But that's the difference, right?

01:45:34.500 So what you're saying before, as men, because they have the burden of performance, they're always going

01:45:38.740 to be behind the eight ball, and things get more and more distracting as new video games

01:45:43.140 and new movies and new augmented reality and new pornography comes out, it becomes more

01:45:48.120 and more difficult, or rather, a larger and larger cohort of men get left behind.

01:45:52.420 Can I ask how you would say to fix that issue?

01:45:55.320 So lazy people are going to be lazy.

01:45:58.060 I'm a firm believer that a man can have all the paddle and stuff and still be lazy.

01:46:03.160 Do you think it's more so that men should just hold their expectations to, and this would

01:46:08.680 play into the women as well, is they are to date equal, so the twins-

01:46:13.660 Men date equal.

01:46:14.120 Men don't get to date equal, most of the time.

01:46:15.500 No, that's what I'm saying.

01:46:16.220 Wouldn't that fix that, though?

01:46:16.900 And women don't.

01:46:17.780 Women generally will date up.

01:46:19.060 If women started dating more equally, wouldn't that fix the issue?

01:46:22.720 Yeah, but you can't tell.

01:46:24.360 It's evolutionary psychology.

01:46:25.600 You can't make women date equally.

01:46:27.840 Women are going to-

01:46:28.460 Attraction's not a choice.

01:46:29.960 Women are going to-

01:46:30.780 I mean, some countries' attraction is a choice.

01:46:32.080 Well, yes.

01:46:32.760 Well, some countries' marriage isn't a choice, but yeah, attraction's generally not a choice.

01:46:36.340 But I actually, I'm very much like with Richard Cooper on this, I'm just going to enjoy the

01:46:39.940 decline.

01:46:40.320 I do think men in 50 years will be fucking robots.

01:46:43.160 And there will be a small group of us who are still fucking cowboys out there, going

01:46:47.220 out there, knowing how to speak to women, knowing how to-

01:46:49.880 Like, when there's a fire, we're the ones still pulling people out of the burning house.

01:46:55.560 We're still the ones who are willing to pull you out of the car after a car wreck.

01:46:58.600 We're still those guys who are willing to do that, but I think we're going to see fewer

01:47:01.860 and fewer of those men in the future.

01:47:03.000 Instead of using the word lazy to describe these group of men that are distracted or

01:47:10.080 not getting laid or can't really find their woman, wouldn't you have more compassion for

01:47:15.520 them?

01:47:16.440 There's a huge lack of self-capacity.

01:47:17.500 That is my compassion.

01:47:19.400 I'm telling you why they exist, right?

01:47:21.680 They exist-

01:47:22.260 Hold on just a sec.

01:47:23.700 Yeah, thank you, Prometheus.

01:47:24.620 Appreciate it.

01:47:25.040 I agree men have hobbies to keep us grounded.

01:47:28.460 Yeah, Prometheus, thank you, man.

01:47:30.040 Men have hobbies to keep us grounded.

01:47:32.000 Oh, Prometheus had a hobby.

01:47:33.080 They kept eating his liver every day and it grew back every single day.

01:47:35.700 There you go.

01:47:36.560 Go, continue.

01:47:37.720 I'm sorry, I forgot my thought.

01:47:39.440 Okay, let's react to the video then.

01:47:40.760 All right, go for it.

01:47:45.080 Thank you, Prometheus.

01:47:45.900 This is hot.

01:47:48.620 Oh, is that a dude?

01:47:49.700 Oh, fuck, my bad.

01:47:51.760 Whoever fought.

01:47:53.060 Can you miss the audio?

01:47:54.620 For women to get jobs.

01:47:55.940 All the way?

01:48:00.840 Why?

01:48:03.320 Why did we do that?

01:48:04.560 I am so tired.

01:48:08.980 You and me both, sister.

01:48:10.000 I want to just put my feet up.

01:48:12.560 Like, I am...

01:48:14.160 Oh, my God.

01:48:17.940 Play the beginning again really quick.

01:48:19.780 What's her primary...

01:48:21.420 Just play it again.

01:48:27.020 Whoever fought for women to get jobs.

01:48:32.380 Femmes.

01:48:34.560 What?

01:48:37.940 Okay, so she's upset that she has to work, I guess.

01:48:41.380 Oh, you can pause it.

01:48:43.780 That's what...

01:48:44.580 Yeah, that's a huge issue these days.

01:48:46.540 Yeah.

01:48:46.880 People don't want to work.

01:48:47.720 Yeah, I think...

01:48:48.780 I feel like as a woman, I need to have my own hustle.

01:48:52.340 Like, don't get me wrong.

01:48:53.480 Pris has treatment all the way.

01:48:54.780 But, like, I need to have my own hustle.

01:48:55.980 Do I think I deserve to work five days a week and only have two days off?

01:48:59.920 Absolutely not.

01:49:00.960 But I do believe as a female, you need your own, you know,

01:49:03.740 not depend on nobody type of hustle for yourself.

01:49:06.960 It depends if you're playing a traditional female role.

01:49:09.500 If you don't have kids be at the crib.

01:49:11.060 I think that applies different.

01:49:12.480 I'm talking about like a single woman.

01:49:13.760 Right, but if you're not going to plan to do none of that,

01:49:15.940 you could go have your career.

01:49:17.020 You could have to do whatever you want.

01:49:18.200 And why would anything stop you?

01:49:20.480 Really?

01:49:20.880 Exactly, yeah.

01:49:22.080 Bender the offender donated $99.

01:49:24.860 Thank you, Bender.

01:49:25.280 I would add that men are feeling less needed than before.

01:49:28.420 Thus, laziness, no social skills.

01:49:31.200 And most importantly, they will no longer be building society as a whole

01:49:35.100 in the generations to come.

01:49:37.160 Completely agree.

01:49:37.700 I think a lot of women, they don't just want to provide for themselves.

01:49:40.020 Good point, Bender.

01:49:40.320 They want to feel like girl boss mood, though.

01:49:42.300 It's like...

01:49:42.480 You can still be girl boss and want a man.

01:49:45.100 Oh, yeah.

01:49:45.560 So I grew up...

01:49:46.680 My mom was very independent.

01:49:48.080 My dad also gave her the world and showed what it was to be a husband.

01:49:51.960 My mom also raised me as an independent woman.

01:49:54.000 But also, don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.

01:49:56.820 So it's like I grew up being instilled that you need to have your own hustle.

01:50:00.020 Don't depend on a man for anything.

01:50:01.160 Even if he's trying to like, oh, you don't got to work.

01:50:03.320 No, go work.

01:50:03.880 If you're too busy being independent, though,

01:50:05.680 this is personally something I've gone through.

01:50:07.580 I've been trying to spend a lot of time being independent, being on my own.

01:50:10.380 Then I do that.

01:50:11.320 And then I sit at a place that's alone.

01:50:13.020 So if you're going to build to be an individual,

01:50:15.760 that's what you're going to end up to be.

01:50:17.460 So if I could just comment on that last message that came through.

01:50:22.560 I completely agree.

01:50:24.700 Feminism has told women that they do not need men,

01:50:28.420 and therefore men and women are completely interchangeable

01:50:33.920 and not distinct from each other, which is completely false.

01:50:37.740 Men and women absolutely need each other, and there are certain roles.

01:50:41.460 Duality.

01:50:41.900 Diva Rage Joe donated $99.

01:50:44.800 Can you ask the guests what they believe a man and a woman should bring into a relationship,

01:50:49.640 and ideally if the man or the woman should bring more to the table?

01:50:53.480 We will get into that.

01:50:54.940 We're getting quite a few that are coming in right now.

01:50:57.640 So Average Joe, thank you very much for your very generous TTS.

01:51:02.300 We will get into that once we kind of wrap up this conversational thread.

01:51:06.060 You were commenting on the previous one, Bender the Offender.

01:51:10.080 Bender, thank you very much.

01:51:11.320 I think just men aren't appreciated.

01:51:13.520 Oh, yeah.

01:51:14.600 Only I've donated $100.

01:51:16.200 Yo, thank you, Ronnie.

01:51:16.960 Appreciate it.

01:51:17.520 Hey, Brian, Fire Show.

01:51:19.300 Ronnie again.

01:51:20.460 Pre your first date, let's get drinks.

01:51:22.880 Women slash pasta.

01:51:24.140 Skydiving sketchy, cheeky, universal studious LA there.

01:51:28.920 This TTS accent better make me sound great.

01:51:32.120 Doubt lol.

01:51:33.440 Question if our panel, what's the one thing that makes you happy?

01:51:37.440 Okay.

01:51:37.860 Yo, Ronnie C, thank you very much for your TTS there.

01:51:40.040 Just make content.

01:51:40.420 Just go on a date and just film the whole thing, and if it's terrible, then just put it up on TikTok.

01:51:44.620 I don't even live down here, bro.

01:51:48.200 So, first off, Priya, and quite a few have come through, so we will try to address all the questions.

01:51:53.840 I'll be quick.

01:51:54.400 But do you, he's changed his date proposal from skydiving to wine and pasta.

01:52:01.240 Do you accept his date proposal?

01:52:02.780 I don't know how comfortable I feel about accepting a date proposal from somebody I've never met.

01:52:07.200 Send a picture.

01:52:08.560 Doesn't everybody start off as a stranger at one point?

01:52:13.820 Yeah.

01:52:14.620 Yeah, but normally I meet people in person, and then...

01:52:18.180 Okay.

01:52:18.780 What if he's really cute?

01:52:20.700 Would it change your mind?

01:52:22.820 I guess it depends.

01:52:24.160 I don't know.

01:52:24.460 I don't know.

01:52:24.680 I mean, this is his second TTS, so I mean, he's doing, he's probably doing well, unless

01:52:29.780 he's spending some money.

01:52:32.440 He's just trying to talk to you.

01:52:33.380 He's paying money to talk to you.

01:52:35.620 But is he over six foot?

01:52:38.860 Oh, there he is.

01:52:40.260 Ronnie.

01:52:42.440 Send more money in, Dave.

01:52:43.620 Ronnie, we need...

01:52:44.300 She fucks machine gun, Kelly.

01:52:46.060 How tall are you, Ronnie?

01:52:47.180 Ronnie, how tall are you?

01:52:48.060 I'll contemplate it.

01:52:49.180 By the way, just on the height thing, did we go on the median income?

01:52:53.460 Everybody answered?

01:52:54.220 Okay, cool, cool.

01:52:55.080 They got it way more right than any other audience.

01:52:57.740 Oh, nice.

01:52:58.660 That's a good panel.

01:52:59.500 Yeah.

01:52:59.600 That's a good panel.

01:53:00.180 Yeah.

01:53:00.280 All right, cool.

01:53:01.700 Okay, so there's quite a few that came in.

01:53:03.500 Priya, you were addressing the bend of the offender with the lazy, the feminism thing.

01:53:08.520 Go ahead.

01:53:08.760 Yeah.

01:53:09.200 Well, and with women seeking the less than top percent, 1% of men, the majority of men

01:53:15.920 feel undervalued, first of all.

01:53:17.460 And, therefore, I think they don't feel like they need to work to become better and become

01:53:24.160 like masculine men that can provide for their families.

01:53:29.740 And, yeah.

01:53:30.840 Men don't feel appreciated.

01:53:32.060 No, they don't feel appreciated.

01:53:33.160 And, I mean, it's hard to not blame, or it's hard to blame the victim, but, you know, men

01:53:39.360 do have to become accountable at some point and decide that they want to strive to be that

01:53:45.460 1% of men, so.

01:53:47.360 Wait, wait, wait, hold on.

01:53:48.520 Even if you become accountable and we can all put our standards a bit lower for men, there's

01:53:53.000 still the technology now that exists that gives women the ability to just have a roster

01:53:57.280 of men from all over the world that hasn't been there before.

01:54:00.200 Yeah, so women need to take accountability themselves as well.

01:54:03.680 I don't think that's a sustainable way to live or a good way to live.

01:54:06.700 Wait.

01:54:07.680 Okay, but one question for you.

01:54:09.200 So, you said that men should strive to become that 1%.

01:54:13.160 Not necessarily strive to become the 1%, but I think that everybody should strive to continuously

01:54:18.320 become better.

01:54:19.500 Yeah, but as he said earlier, there are different standards that women put onto men, so it's

01:54:24.340 harder to become that 1% because not only do you have to be good-looking fit.

01:54:26.900 Absolutely.

01:54:27.320 I'm not saying that everyone's trying to become that 1%.

01:54:28.160 Yeah, I don't think it's that hard.

01:54:29.640 I really don't.

01:54:30.200 I think no one's fucking trying.

01:54:32.880 No one.

01:54:33.100 Like, you know what I mean, kids?

01:54:34.100 What I mean, guys that are under the age of 25, they do nothing.

01:54:36.660 They do nothing.

01:54:37.600 It is, there is a small, let's say the top 16% of men, it has never been easier to get

01:54:42.180 into that top 16% of men.

01:54:43.840 Dude, take a fucking class on copywriting, on like, learn how to build a sales funnel.

01:54:48.260 Seriously, learn affiliate marketing.

01:54:49.960 There's so many ways to make like $400,000.

01:54:52.920 But by nature, but it's one of the things, and then go to the gym six days a week.

01:54:58.020 There's so many things.

01:54:59.380 Bro, there are books you can read.

01:55:00.580 It is so accessible for men to become that top.

01:55:03.900 Well, when are we going to talk about men's mental health and maybe their lack of ability

01:55:07.080 to really get to that spot?

01:55:08.640 Because I don't feel, I don't really see men talking about that, and I don't really see

01:55:12.420 women talking about that either.

01:55:13.900 Because we have to perform.

01:55:14.880 It's like our mental health when we get there, you know.

01:55:16.720 But that's the part that we need to break down, right?

01:55:18.500 Because if like, if we're talking, I'm considering.

01:55:20.660 Because you're walking the walk instead of talking the talk.

01:55:21.860 Well, I'm considering like what's happening now in like, you know, mainstream social media

01:55:25.900 and like, like the United States and Western society is like, there's a movement for men

01:55:30.800 that's happening right now.

01:55:31.920 Sure.

01:55:32.380 It's evolving.

01:55:32.920 I agree that mental health with men has been, has always been quite neglected, but I think

01:55:38.400 that there's a mental health epidemic going on that is completely obscure and out of,

01:55:43.340 blown out of proportion.

01:55:44.480 There is this idea now in society that if you are not continuously happy all the time,

01:55:50.740 that there's something wrong with you and there's something wrong with your lifestyle.

01:55:53.440 Our ancestors understood that life was trying and difficult and complex and the road to happiness

01:55:58.660 was long and trying.

01:56:00.960 And now we think that we can just walk down the street and be this happy butterfly all the

01:56:05.080 time.

01:56:05.380 And if we're not, we're doing something incredible.

01:56:06.920 Why do you think that is?

01:56:07.800 I think social media, I think feminism has told this, told everybody this because if

01:56:12.020 you are not making your own way as a woman and then men are neglecting their duties because

01:56:17.280 they're told that they are not going to ever be enough.

01:56:19.780 I think that there's a, like a multitude of reasons for this.

01:56:23.360 Which perpetuates the chasm between men and women understanding each other, being able

01:56:26.940 to like, really.

01:56:28.440 Being under, just being able to understanding it.

01:56:30.760 Yeah.

01:56:30.980 In what way?

01:56:31.480 Like, for example, like, like, how much effort do you think women, like the average woman

01:56:37.700 puts out there?

01:56:39.640 What?

01:56:40.080 Oh, hold on.

01:56:40.540 Just hold that thought.

01:56:41.800 Oh, it's, hold on.

01:56:43.180 I have to re-trigger it because there was a curse word, I guess.

01:56:46.160 Or no, I think it, give it one sec.

01:56:48.100 It'll re-trigger.

01:56:49.660 Do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do-do.

01:56:54.960 I don't, I don't necessarily know that men and women have to understand each other in

01:56:58.080 order to get along.

01:56:58.680 I don't think so either.

01:56:59.520 And here's the thing.

01:57:00.580 If you are a woman and you have short-term values, you, you were saying men, women have

01:57:04.960 to do something or men have to do, no, they don't.

01:57:06.960 No, they don't.

01:57:07.640 That's the point.

01:57:08.200 Go ahead.

01:57:09.320 Okay, here we go.

01:57:10.900 Oh, is it not going to?

01:57:11.620 Okay.

01:57:12.340 Yeah, it was probably, okay.

01:57:15.020 They are disgusting predators and online that needs to be nationwide banned.

01:57:20.040 I grew up in this digital age.

01:57:21.180 I know the majority of men are watching highly advanced and addictive prawn starting at

01:57:26.120 the age of 12 and are being groomed by social media.

01:57:29.860 By the way, yeah, if you, I think it probably, he's saying prawn, so.

01:57:33.900 OF and prawn stars.

01:57:35.720 The porn industry also has a lot to do with this and the decline of masculine men in society.

01:57:40.180 You can watch prawn and still have a job.

01:57:42.560 And traditional women.

01:57:43.940 To be a masculine man.

01:57:44.880 That's just an addictive personality.

01:57:47.800 Like, just like you can get addicted to drugs or dreams.

01:57:50.280 And the industry specifically breeds addiction, first of all.

01:57:53.080 Second of all, there are a lot of things that corn does to your mental health, to your hormones.

01:58:00.480 Wow, okay, that's coming in.

01:58:01.820 It's $99.

01:58:03.640 Speaking of distractions, shout out to Priya.

01:58:06.920 Damn.

01:58:07.880 Brian, tell her about the time I saved you from that bear slash tiger slash monkey hybrid.

01:58:13.760 Sure.

01:58:14.060 Rami's a chump.

01:58:15.260 Let's grab a drink next time I'm in NorCal.

01:58:18.100 Wow, you now have to hear about your beautiful horses.

01:58:21.300 You now have two suitors tonight.

01:58:23.700 There's a bachelor.

01:58:24.200 You have horses.

01:58:25.240 Oh, wait, come on.

01:58:26.140 Do you guys remember before when you guys are like, well, women have to change?

01:58:29.520 No, the fuck they don't.

01:58:30.740 No, they don't.

01:58:31.820 I think they should.

01:58:33.380 But don't point this out to me and tell me women have to change.

01:58:36.140 Because in the short term, what will happen is they can all – I have – we had a girl on the show the other day.

01:58:41.520 These girls did porn, had two kids with a dude, still films with other guys, comes home to her husband who, like, allows this whole thing to happen.

01:58:48.880 No, you can find a dude.

01:58:50.360 You just probably aren't going to like him very much.

01:58:52.340 There are so many – what are called – not superfluous.

01:58:56.280 What's the word?

01:58:57.520 Surplus men.

01:58:58.220 That's what Dr. Richard Reeves calls them.

01:58:59.860 There's so many surplus men out there because they aren't taking the time to garner the abundance in their life.

01:59:06.680 And once they have that abundance, then they can set the boundaries that they want.

01:59:10.260 And when they have those boundaries, then they will – if someone cheated on them, they would say, okay, you cheated, whatever.

01:59:15.200 I'm going to move on to someone else.

01:59:16.340 I'm not going to go back to this because I understand what my boundaries are, right?

01:59:19.740 They're not going to take a job that's going to abuse them.

01:59:21.560 They're not going to be with a woman who doesn't treat them the way that they want to be treated.

01:59:24.980 But that's what a high-status man would do.

01:59:26.520 A low-status man is not going to do that.

01:59:28.140 A low-status man is going to chase.

01:59:29.760 He's going to do everything he can.

01:59:30.840 He doesn't have the ability to cheat.

01:59:34.280 Priya, so you have Ronnie C. and Sticky Side Down now.

01:59:38.800 So there's like a – I think there's going to be a bidding war when it comes to your two suitors.

01:59:42.520 I have my credit card on Nala.

01:59:44.960 So he wanted me to tell you about that time that I saved him – oh, excuse me.

01:59:50.640 He saved me from various wild animals.

01:59:54.400 So, yes, Sticky Side Down did – there's various stories.

01:59:58.460 He saved me from a bear, a tiger, and a monkey.

02:00:01.460 No, it's a hybrid.

02:00:02.060 At the same time.

02:00:02.920 Oh, excuse me.

02:00:03.500 It was a hybrid somehow.

02:00:04.740 It's a chimera.

02:00:05.400 Where was this?

02:00:06.080 Oh, chimera.

02:00:06.480 Good word.

02:00:07.500 It was in Pasadena for some reason.

02:00:10.220 I don't know what was going on.

02:00:11.700 Some weird shit's going on in Pasadena.

02:00:13.080 They can all have a baby.

02:00:14.500 How do you not believe in natural selection?

02:00:16.080 Sticky Side Down, thank you very much.

02:00:17.260 Okay, so I'm trying to recall where we were.

02:00:21.780 I just want to make sure we address all of these chats that came through.

02:00:25.200 So the previous one was from Mr. Average Joe, and he says,

02:00:29.100 can you ask the guests what they believe a man and a woman should bring into a relationship,

02:00:33.400 and ideally if the man or the woman should bring more to the table?

02:00:39.300 Define bringing more to the table.

02:00:40.640 I believe a man and a woman should bring into a relationship.

02:00:44.500 We can do one of those, or the woman should.

02:00:48.380 Okay, so what do you think a man brings to the table?

02:00:51.760 What do you think a woman brings to the table?

02:00:55.560 Should bring it to the table, I should say.

02:00:57.620 I mean, I feel like in the basis of things, it should be the same thing,

02:01:02.540 like communication, loyalty, genuine love.

02:01:07.340 If those should be both between both people.

02:01:11.360 And then supportive partners, it should just be both in the same with the basis of it,

02:01:18.400 which is, I'm not sure if they're asking for the basis or anything,

02:01:21.880 but it should just be both ways.

02:01:23.120 For the sake of time, I think I need to limit the question a little bit,

02:01:25.760 because I'm going to average Joe if you don't object.

02:01:30.440 What do you bring to the table?

02:01:32.260 Go ahead.

02:01:33.380 I like to cook, and I like somebody to be at the house.

02:01:37.020 I'd be very traditional in that way.

02:01:39.080 Okay, and we'll come back to you, then we'll continue going around.

02:01:41.400 What do you bring to the table?

02:01:42.280 Oh, I think I'm not looking for a relationship right now.

02:01:50.760 I'm working on myself, and so I can be able to be like,

02:01:54.700 this is what I bring to the table.

02:01:55.900 I'm still doing my healing and inner work to know what that is exactly.

02:02:02.380 What I bring to, well, in a relationship, besides respect, communication, whatever,

02:02:06.660 just your personality, right?

02:02:08.300 Everyone's different.

02:02:09.680 I think I like my personality, and I'm fun, and that's going to click with someone.

02:02:13.560 That's what I bring to the table.

02:02:14.520 That's different from, in a relationship, obviously,

02:02:16.740 you're going to meet your basic needs.

02:02:18.560 Okay.

02:02:20.040 I'm a really good communicator, so once our problems will get solved,

02:02:23.680 so there will be no problems, and we will be okay.

02:02:26.020 Didn't you just beat the shit out of your lap?

02:02:27.600 Yes.

02:02:28.520 Don't start none.

02:02:29.160 There's no problem anymore.

02:02:30.420 Ain't got no problem.

02:02:30.920 And I solved the problem, right?

02:02:32.700 You got no problem.

02:02:33.220 What is that?

02:02:34.040 I am a problem solver.

02:02:34.660 It's not domestic abuse because they broke up.

02:02:36.240 I'm a problem solver, finally.

02:02:36.680 That's all I'm saying.

02:02:37.380 It's not domestic abuse.

02:02:38.460 They broke up.

02:02:39.080 That wasn't his man.

02:02:39.980 That wasn't her man anymore.

02:02:41.020 That is true.

02:02:41.900 You know what I'm saying?

02:02:42.620 That's all I'm saying.

02:02:43.640 It's not domestic.

02:02:44.820 It's abuse.

02:02:45.400 It's just not domestic because they're not together anymore.

02:02:47.400 Thank you.

02:02:49.000 Problem solved.

02:02:50.360 You know what I'm saying?

02:02:51.020 Yes.

02:02:51.140 Hey.

02:02:54.140 So I think the main thing is support.

02:02:57.240 I'm very encouraging, and I just always try to support the man that I'm with.

02:03:03.540 Support?

02:03:04.080 Okay.

02:03:04.360 What about you?

02:03:05.300 Absolute equality.

02:03:06.720 You bring absolute equality.

02:03:08.000 We'll touch on that later.

02:03:09.420 Okay.

02:03:09.580 What about you?

02:03:10.640 So the question is, what do I bring to the table?

02:03:13.700 To a man?

02:03:15.680 So like...

02:03:17.000 I'm sorry.

02:03:18.460 I'm a little spacey right now.

02:03:20.320 One eternity later.

02:03:22.320 Go ahead.

02:03:22.580 Emotional intelligence, nurturing, like, care.

02:03:27.400 I'm going towards my PhD in psych, so that could be helpful in this situation.

02:03:32.240 My ability to...

02:03:32.900 Wait, your PhD is what you would bring to the table in a relationship?

02:03:35.960 Or your pursuit of it?

02:03:36.440 Well, given that it's going to be in psychology, I feel like I have the capacity for conflict resolution

02:03:41.640 and to back down when I know that I'm wrong or to, like, admit fault and, like, what you said,

02:03:46.760 like, communication and the importance of...

02:03:49.040 So wait, do you want to be a therapist?

02:03:50.980 Yeah, I am going to be.

02:03:52.060 Yeah.

02:03:52.160 Okay.

02:03:52.660 Isn't it the case that a lot of therapists have their own, like, pretty severe issues...

02:03:58.160 Yeah, absolutely.

02:03:58.860 ...themselves?

02:03:59.480 Yeah.

02:04:00.380 Yeah.

02:04:00.560 And they usually are not particularly...

02:04:02.560 At least I don't know.

02:04:03.260 I've heard that therapists are not particularly great partners.

02:04:06.480 I wanted to be a therapist and I didn't because I was like, I don't feel like I should be...

02:04:10.180 Also, children raised by therapists, I've heard, is...

02:04:13.020 Oh, they're fucked.

02:04:14.440 Raised by two therapists?

02:04:15.640 Yikes.

02:04:16.260 Big yikes.

02:04:16.860 Imagine the problems there.

02:04:18.080 They're fucked.

02:04:18.940 I'm kidding.

02:04:19.420 That's totally not something I've heard of.

02:04:21.620 I was like, what...

02:04:22.300 That's actually true.

02:04:23.020 What are you...

02:04:23.420 Yeah.

02:04:24.300 Okay, so you're a PhD and you would be a good...

02:04:28.240 You would know how to maneuver...

02:04:29.060 I was saying I'm emotionally intelligent.

02:04:30.700 I'm a good conflict resolver.

02:04:32.980 I have the ability to back down.

02:04:34.940 I'm not that competitive.

02:04:35.260 I don't know.

02:04:35.600 You two almost got into a fight earlier, so...

02:04:37.460 Well, she's not someone I'm dating, so that's very different.

02:04:41.300 She's not a man that I'm respecting, so that's very different.

02:04:43.180 Have you, in your PhD studies, ever gone over...

02:04:46.260 I haven't...

02:04:47.040 Okay.

02:04:47.520 I haven't...

02:04:48.040 I'm getting a side D and I'm going to be applying for this ID.

02:04:51.300 Okay.

02:04:51.580 ...program soon, so in the interim, I'm doing social media.

02:04:54.300 Okay.

02:04:55.180 Thank you so much.

02:04:55.660 Kelly, what do you bring to the table?

02:04:57.380 I'm very caring and nurturing.

02:04:59.300 I'm going to be a good mother to whoever my husband will be.

02:05:02.560 I'm emotionally available.

02:05:04.240 I'm open to listening to his problems and helping him solve them.

02:05:09.020 And, yeah, just overall caring.

02:05:12.720 I just want to be, you know...

02:05:14.800 Okay.

02:05:15.120 You just got to be sweet and peaceful.

02:05:17.140 Mike, what do you bring to the table?

02:05:20.800 It's interesting, because we were talking about this before, about, like, what the boundaries

02:05:24.160 were for a relationship, and I have these very clearly defined when I get into one.

02:05:28.540 For me, the thing that you're going to get is, you know, obviously, I am there to solve

02:05:34.020 problems.

02:05:34.380 As a man, a lot of times, I get into a situation, especially with Kylie, where she wants to talk

02:05:39.640 about the feelings, and I'm like, we have to solve the problem now.

02:05:42.400 So, provisioning, providing, protecting, that's what I do as a man, and she has no question

02:05:46.820 about that or ever worried about that at all.

02:05:49.460 The other thing is that I'm going to bring to a relationship is that I need to...

02:05:53.240 I'm always very open with people asking questions, but this is a rule for two people in a relationship,

02:05:59.240 and I generally find that women break this rule more than men.

02:06:02.060 You can ask me how I feel.

02:06:03.840 You cannot fucking tell me how I feel.

02:06:05.780 That is a huge issue that I see where women are like, you don't like me because you looked

02:06:10.200 at this...

02:06:10.520 No, no, no, stop.

02:06:11.240 You can ask me how I feel.

02:06:12.840 You cannot fucking tell me how I feel.

02:06:15.600 If you do that, you understand the boundaries of the relationship, right, and you're both

02:06:18.960 pulling in the same direction.

02:06:20.260 That's what I need.

02:06:20.880 What I need from a partner, I need peace.

02:06:22.740 I need her to pull in the same direction, and I need her to understand what the boundaries

02:06:25.700 are.

02:06:26.020 For me, I'm in a polygynous relationship, meaning the two of us see women together.

02:06:29.240 So, in that regard, as long as we both understand the rules, then that's the most important

02:06:33.060 thing that happens there.

02:06:34.340 But as far as what I bring to the table, it's pretty much everything.

02:06:38.260 I am the table.

02:06:40.040 No, no, I'm not saying I am the table, but there is nothing that she ever has to worry

02:06:44.040 about, literally has to worry about, because she's my girlfriend.

02:06:47.500 And I tell her all the time, she's like, I want to go to this thing, and I'm worried

02:06:50.200 about getting in.

02:06:50.780 I'm like, no, you're my girlfriend.

02:06:51.880 You can get in anywhere you want.

02:06:52.940 There's no issue.

02:06:53.680 You're in Las Vegas.

02:06:54.420 There's nothing you can't get to or get with.

02:06:58.140 I'm going to answer the previous question, if you don't mind.

02:07:00.140 And what a man should bring to the relationship is being a protector, a leader, and a provider.

02:07:05.840 The woman should be a caregiver, comfort, and peace.

02:07:11.560 Yeah, exactly.

02:07:12.600 That's super solid.

02:07:13.320 Yeah.

02:07:13.600 The other thing is, do you allow him to lead in certain situations where he needs to lead?

02:07:17.520 Yes.

02:07:17.720 Again, are you holding his hand while you're walking through a venue, asking, where are

02:07:20.900 we going?

02:07:21.340 Where are we going?

02:07:21.960 Or do you trust him and know he knows where we're going?

02:07:24.900 Or at the very minimum, if he doesn't, I'm not going to embarrass him in front of other

02:07:28.440 people.

02:07:28.840 I'm going to let him lead.

02:07:30.000 Does that make sense?

02:07:30.520 That's the point of having a boyfriend.

02:07:31.760 That's the best part.

02:07:32.540 There you go.

02:07:33.340 Going anywhere and not having to worry about what you're doing.

02:07:36.360 Literally not even have to worry about where I'm walking, because he's going to keep me

02:07:39.840 in check.

02:07:40.440 My girlfriend and I last night were on stage with the chain smokers, and it was one of these

02:07:44.160 situations where she didn't have to ask any questions, because she knew we were going

02:07:47.460 to walk in.

02:07:48.160 There's going to be no questions asked whatsoever.

02:07:50.000 We're going to be on stage.

02:07:50.820 We're four feet away from them, and she doesn't have to ask.

02:07:53.120 She knows I have everything taken care of.

02:07:55.660 That's why she's my girlfriend.

02:07:57.040 That's why we're together.

02:07:59.120 Sweet.

02:07:59.860 Here, let's pull up the...

02:08:00.780 Can you pull up the Twitch really quick?

02:08:01.920 Let's shout out people on Twitch.

02:08:02.820 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:08:05.000 Drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.

02:08:08.320 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:08:10.920 Drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.

02:08:12.780 Yo, Roger, thank you for the Prime.

02:08:14.420 Kalp, thank you for the Prime.

02:08:15.600 Golden, thank you for the Prime.

02:08:16.560 Appreciate it.

02:08:17.000 Thank you for all the follows.

02:08:17.720 Guys, we'll check back in here in a little bit, and I'll give you guys some shout-outs.

02:08:20.740 Thank you guys for all the viewers on Twitch.

02:08:22.840 I don't know if any of you are still here from Stay Safe, but Matt, thank you again for the raid.

02:08:26.540 Okay, we have a chat here from That Guy Pyros.

02:08:30.900 I make 80K a year drain cleaning.

02:08:32.640 By the way, women flush feminine products down the drain and cost companies and communities millions a year.

02:08:38.200 Stop flushing your tampons.

02:08:40.080 Please, men do the jobs that make women comfortable, yet they don't appreciate the men doing those jobs.

02:08:46.780 Don't flush your tampons.

02:08:48.180 That's what we take from this.

02:08:49.220 Should be a given.

02:08:49.800 There we go.

02:08:50.420 I was not aware of that.

02:08:51.680 Now I'm aware.

02:08:52.180 I didn't know that when I was younger.

02:08:53.400 Thank you for that information.

02:08:54.260 And I did that with like 80 tampons.

02:08:56.380 No, I guess you're right, right?

02:08:57.260 Because they soak up moisture.

02:08:59.380 Okay, that makes sense.

02:09:00.240 I understand this.

02:09:01.060 Got it.

02:09:01.880 Yeah, don't do that.

02:09:02.680 But actually, you know, it's funny, our landlords at this building, recently, people have been flushing their wet wipes and tampons and shit.

02:09:10.440 And it clogged, there was a major in this building, an explosion.

02:09:13.980 Lovely.

02:09:14.900 Yeah, like some sort of explosion.

02:09:17.020 I don't know exactly what it's called.

02:09:19.100 Yeah, so like the water was off.

02:09:21.160 So ladies, you got to be, you know, just, you know.

02:09:23.660 Throw it in the trash.

02:09:24.420 Be considerate.

02:09:25.380 Throw that shit in the trash, son.

02:09:27.040 Okay, thank you, Pyros.

02:09:27.860 Appreciate it.

02:09:28.420 We had Ronnie C here.

02:09:30.420 He had a question for the panel.

02:09:32.520 He was also asking you for first aid, Priya.

02:09:35.860 Question for the panel.

02:09:36.880 What's one thing that makes you happy?

02:09:40.420 Okay.

02:09:43.300 Dancing.

02:09:43.920 What's the one thing that makes you happy?

02:09:46.000 What's the one thing?

02:09:47.300 Okay, we'll go.

02:09:48.300 Sure.

02:09:48.720 We'll ask that.

02:09:51.460 Real dancing and comedy.

02:09:54.200 Creating.

02:09:55.840 Traveling.

02:09:57.000 Music.

02:09:57.440 Creating.

02:09:59.140 Success.

02:09:59.980 Playing the piano.

02:10:01.020 Food.

02:10:01.700 Raising money for charity.

02:10:03.320 My family and personal relationships.

02:10:05.980 Okay, cool.

02:10:07.540 Good times.

02:10:08.160 Thank you, Ronnie C.

02:10:08.780 Appreciate it.

02:10:09.580 We had the Josh one here.

02:10:13.280 The, yeah.

02:10:14.900 Did we address it?

02:10:16.280 Something about the prawn?

02:10:17.940 Oh, he wants a nationwide ban.

02:10:19.660 Here, show of hands from Josh here for the very generous TTS.

02:10:24.360 Agree or disagree?

02:10:25.220 Should there be a nationwide ban?

02:10:27.640 So, yes.

02:10:28.320 Raise your hand if you think porn should be banned.

02:10:31.900 Are we talking about OnlyFans or talking about porn?

02:10:33.680 All of it.

02:10:34.180 All.

02:10:34.700 All the above.

02:10:35.260 OnlyFans can be categorized as some type of job.

02:10:37.400 All the above.

02:10:37.680 All the above, man.

02:10:38.200 I don't know.

02:10:38.640 Regulated.

02:10:39.500 I just don't know how that would work.

02:10:42.720 I'm not sure.

02:10:43.440 It's a nice idea.

02:10:44.120 The logistics.

02:10:44.600 But, like, you know.

02:10:46.500 Does anybody here create adult content?

02:10:49.940 I used to.

02:10:51.440 You do?

02:10:52.880 Anybody?

02:10:53.420 Anybody else?

02:10:54.080 Oh, okay.

02:10:55.240 Just you?

02:10:55.760 You're the only one here who does OF?

02:10:57.800 Yeah.

02:10:58.100 Oh, wow.

02:10:58.300 I don't do, like, full on, but.

02:11:00.620 Okay.

02:11:01.380 Wow.

02:11:01.660 That would be considered.

02:11:02.620 Normally, our panels are a little more stacked with.

02:11:06.400 Okay.

02:11:06.760 Who wants to out?

02:11:07.500 It should not be so accessible to children.

02:11:09.920 Of course.

02:11:10.620 Yeah.

02:11:10.800 Like, how can I see when an adult can do with their time?

02:11:13.960 What's healthy or not?

02:11:14.840 It's very accessible to children, any of them.

02:11:17.700 There's also a lot of, like, hundreds of thousands of people are sex trafficked a year through that specific industry as well.

02:11:25.920 It's not a safe industry regardless.

02:11:27.520 I know there's an argument for OnlyFans, but OnlyFans is less regulated than.

02:11:32.880 We're not allowed to say that word, are we?

02:11:34.900 Corn hub.

02:11:36.660 Okay.

02:11:36.820 Yep.

02:11:37.360 Well, then wouldn't, like, stricter rules around porn be better than just full wide ban?

02:11:42.280 Because then you're going to have people who argue that's taking away freedom.

02:11:44.460 No, I think it's a net bad for society.

02:11:46.040 I think it's a net wrong for society.

02:11:48.100 I do not think that there is any laws.

02:11:49.140 You want regulations and not freedom, correct?

02:11:52.320 Well, we, you're the one that wanted a communist society.

02:11:56.600 I don't necessarily.

02:11:57.100 I'm asking you the question because you're the one saying you want to ban porn.

02:12:00.180 Sure.

02:12:00.780 Sorry.

02:12:00.940 Yeah, but there are scientific studies, sorry, that show that it destroys relationships.

02:12:07.340 Uh-huh.

02:12:07.860 In your mental.

02:12:08.500 I mean, that's science.

02:12:09.320 It does a lot of damage to mental health.

02:12:12.680 It has a negative impact on your hormones.

02:12:16.320 No, I can fully agree with your opinions of why you'd want to, but then you're taking away people's freedom.

02:12:21.680 Yeah, I was saying, like, it's censorship.

02:12:23.260 You can't just, like, ban porn.

02:12:24.520 You can still make it.

02:12:25.220 We do have censorship.

02:12:26.100 It's not taking away your freedom.

02:12:27.860 It's censorship, yeah, you're making it not viewable for certain people, so you're taking away people's freedom to view something.

02:12:35.400 Well.

02:12:35.920 Yeah, I don't think it's plausible in the U.S. that there would be, like, just because of the First Amendment.

02:12:39.680 I'm not making it, I'm not making the argument how it would be regulated.

02:12:43.400 Right.

02:12:43.500 I'm saying that in an ideal world, I don't think that it should exist.

02:12:46.880 Would it be good?

02:12:47.220 I think it's a net bad for society.

02:12:49.080 I'm not saying that it's going to be banned or how to ban it.

02:12:52.740 Is social media a net negative?

02:12:55.000 Yes.

02:12:55.320 For society?

02:12:56.280 Yes, absolutely.

02:12:57.180 Absolutely.

02:12:58.180 Abso-fucking-worthy.

02:12:58.380 So, only because we don't understand the total ramifications of it and we're experiencing it in real time.

02:13:04.140 So, ban social media and ban porn, or porn, sorry, y'all should come over to my communist nation.

02:13:10.520 I'll do all that for y'all.

02:13:13.120 Seriously.

02:13:14.060 All right, let's do it.

02:13:16.020 The thing I don't get about communism is what is the incentive, like, if someone just wants to, let's say you don't want to work.

02:13:24.380 Like, I'm not super well-versed in this.

02:13:26.960 If you don't want to work, are you compelled to work in a communist society?

02:13:30.240 Yes.

02:13:30.400 Yes.

02:13:30.540 So, communism or nationalism both want people to work.

02:13:34.760 So, there's an incentive, whether through communism.

02:13:36.380 Do you get wages in communism?

02:13:38.340 It depends.

02:13:39.000 Do you get paid?

02:13:39.300 There's different, like, versions of communism.

02:13:40.540 Like, what would be the incentive of, like, spending all that time and hard work to become a doctor versus just, like, oh, I'm just going to...

02:13:46.400 A caste system.

02:13:46.700 This is why I don't fully agree with, like, pure communism, because humans are flawed.

02:13:50.680 Like, they're going to want more and want to succeed.

02:13:52.900 I'm privy to that.

02:13:54.040 I want to succeed and become more.

02:13:55.660 So, it's just kind of more regulation in reality.

02:13:58.200 But what's the incentive for someone who, like, to go and become a doctor if there's no financial reward?

02:14:03.280 Oh, well, there'd be, like, houses, better houses.

02:14:05.080 You'd be in a different part of society.

02:14:07.060 If you were a doctor.

02:14:07.840 Don't you think you'd also find more altruistic doctors rather than doctors that are looking for a wage?

02:14:12.700 Yeah, I don't think you need altruistic doctors.

02:14:14.340 I think you need more doctors.

02:14:15.600 You would.

02:14:16.420 You couldn't be a bad doctor.

02:14:17.900 I think you need more, better doctors.

02:14:19.080 But as someone who is disabled and, like, has been in the hospital since I was a kid, like, I've dealt with over 140 different doctors, including specialists and general practitioners.

02:14:28.220 And, like, the people that change my life the most are the people that actually actively want to be there, which I think is what you're referring to, right?

02:14:35.020 It's like if you give them the choice and you give them a livable wage, that they'll actively choose to do that because they want to do that.

02:14:42.280 They want to be present.

02:14:43.340 But that is also achievable under capitalism as well.

02:14:46.140 That's my point.

02:14:47.080 By your testimony, they still exist under capitalism.

02:14:49.960 I mean, the reality of the situation is we need more people who are skilled to do these jobs, and we incentivize those people to do it with money.

02:14:57.060 The idea of using altruism to get people to be a doctor would be 1% to 3% of doctors.

02:15:02.660 No, I'm not saying that.

02:15:03.480 The rest of us still need to have bones set and heart transplants, and we can't worry.

02:15:07.880 And a lot of the guys who do those jobs are fucking horrible, horrible people who happen to be really great heart surgeons.

02:15:13.860 And so it doesn't make any difference if they're altruistic or not.

02:15:16.660 The guy who builds the building that you live in, it doesn't make any difference if this guy's a Christian or a Muslim, a piece of shit, or beats his wife.

02:15:22.620 If he's a productive member of society, those are the houses we live in.

02:15:26.900 In the end, for us as men, we have the burden of performance all the time.

02:15:33.000 And so I understand what you're saying.

02:15:34.740 Wouldn't it be great if all doctors were altruistic?

02:15:36.780 I don't think it solves a problem with health care.

02:15:37.960 That's too idealistic.

02:15:38.900 That's not what I'm saying.

02:15:40.680 What I'm doing.

02:15:43.140 I mean, whatever.

02:15:44.160 Let's move on.

02:15:44.840 Let's move on.

02:15:46.240 Let's pull up the video.

02:15:47.380 Let's do the video.

02:15:48.120 Let's do it.

02:15:50.080 Oh, you know.

02:15:51.020 Let's not know.

02:15:51.660 Brent?

02:15:51.860 Brent?

02:15:52.420 All right.

02:15:52.840 So just some.

02:15:54.640 We're reacting to a TikTok video.

02:15:57.020 However, the girl took the TikTok video down.

02:15:59.720 It went viral.

02:16:01.860 So Brett reacted to it.

02:16:03.600 So we're going to watch a video from Brett where she plays the thing.

02:16:07.300 And then Nick, can I have you swap the camera angle?

02:16:11.420 So we talked about that.

02:16:16.100 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:16:18.000 Down, down.

02:16:18.940 Hide.

02:16:19.760 Yeah, that one.

02:16:20.700 And then hide the other one.

02:16:21.540 Yeah.

02:16:22.180 Cool.

02:16:23.000 You can play it.

02:16:24.240 Oh, wait, wait, wait.

02:16:25.120 Hold on, hold on.

02:16:25.880 Boost the audio, please.

02:16:26.720 It's not boosted.

02:16:27.600 No, on the YouTube player.

02:16:29.160 On the YouTube player.

02:16:29.880 Yeah.

02:16:30.140 Boosted all the way.

02:16:31.060 Nope.

02:16:31.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:16:32.240 There you go.

02:16:33.520 Yeah.

02:16:33.740 I'm actually starting to get so scared.

02:16:35.320 Like, it's not even funny anymore.

02:16:36.620 How am I 23 and I still have not had my first kiss?

02:16:38.980 Like, it's so horrifying.

02:16:41.260 When I was like 22, 21, I was like, haha, it's kind of cute, kind of quirky.

02:16:44.920 Like, not really, but kind of.

02:16:46.080 Like, I could play it off.

02:16:47.100 Now it's getting scary.

02:16:48.600 Like, I don't see it changing anytime soon.

02:16:51.040 And like, I just keep getting older.

02:16:52.940 Now it's gonna be so weird because I'm gonna be so old and I'm gonna have to tell somebody

02:16:56.820 like, yeah, I've never done this before.

02:16:58.620 Like, I'm so humiliated.

02:17:01.960 I didn't even have a first kiss in like, middle school when everybody has one.

02:17:05.620 And it's like, the awkward, weird relationship where you're dating them for like a day.

02:17:09.040 I never even did that.

02:17:10.040 Ryan Castillo donated $100.

02:17:13.280 Shout out the legendary Michael Sartain.

02:17:16.200 Thank you, Ryan.

02:17:16.700 In the house.

02:17:17.880 Question for all the ladies.

02:17:19.980 How important is astrology?

02:17:23.620 Thank you, Ryan.

02:17:25.220 Appreciate it.

02:17:26.080 I can do this real quick.

02:17:29.160 Hey, ladies, you guys know, have you ever, you know, said, hey, I'm a Gemini and the guy's

02:17:32.880 an Aries and you kind of have like a vibe about him.

02:17:35.100 Does that ever happen to you?

02:17:35.760 No.

02:17:35.960 You guys ever had that happen?

02:17:37.020 No.

02:17:37.300 No?

02:17:37.540 Anybody?

02:17:37.940 No?

02:17:38.440 Good.

02:17:38.640 Because all that shit is fake.

02:17:40.260 All of it is fucking fake.

02:17:42.500 All of it.

02:17:43.480 And you guys, I want to be taken seriously in the workplace, but you still believe in Gemini.

02:17:47.900 You ever just meet a guy who has like a good vibe, a good energy?

02:17:50.060 You guys ever had that happen before?

02:17:51.460 All of that is fake.

02:17:52.940 None of that shit is real.

02:17:54.560 None of it is real.

02:17:55.320 Humans do not emit energy.

02:17:58.780 They do not.

02:17:59.400 Humans emit facial expressions.

02:18:01.020 Scientifically, they emit energy.

02:18:02.440 Humans do not.

02:18:03.580 We can go down this road all day if you want.

02:18:06.100 Humans do not emit energy.

02:18:07.820 Humans have facial expressions.

02:18:10.880 If you want to say negative energy.

02:18:11.520 How do you define energy?

02:18:12.700 Oh, my God.

02:18:13.560 Energy is a form of.

02:18:16.640 I can feel your energy from right here.

02:18:18.320 That means a word.

02:18:20.320 You are reacting to my psychology.

02:18:22.960 You are not feeling my energy.

02:18:24.240 No, I'm reacting to your energy and your body language.

02:18:26.080 No, it's your vibes.

02:18:26.820 And your vibes.

02:18:28.560 You're probably an Aries.

02:18:29.780 Vibes aren't real.

02:18:32.180 None of that is real.

02:18:33.480 None of it is real.

02:18:34.660 What happens is you react to someone's psychology and then you backwards rationalize and say he

02:18:41.980 had a vibe or good energy.

02:18:43.860 None of that shit is real.

02:18:45.000 It is all a function of evolutionary psychology.

02:18:47.420 And that is all what it is.

02:18:48.620 I'm calling cap.

02:18:49.800 Okay, there you go.

02:18:51.480 Let's produce the evidence.

02:18:52.660 Astrology is all.

02:18:53.140 Okay, so you've never like walked into a room and was like, I don't really like the vibes.

02:18:58.240 And you don't even know what it is.

02:18:59.220 It has nothing to do.

02:18:59.620 So let me ask you something.

02:19:00.420 You have ancestors, right?

02:19:03.080 I hope so.

02:19:03.760 I'm sorry, guys.

02:19:04.360 So your ancestors, they probably lived in a pre-modern society where they were living

02:19:09.120 out as hunter-gatherers, right?

02:19:10.620 You do believe in natural selection.

02:19:11.960 Humans did come from, you know, deserts and forests and didn't live in society before like

02:19:16.400 11,700 years ago, correct?

02:19:18.160 Okay.

02:19:18.660 Do you think that those humans, it probably would have been beneficial to them to be like,

02:19:22.300 something's wrong here.

02:19:23.300 They don't have the scientific method.

02:19:24.940 They have no ability to detect anything.

02:19:26.900 They don't have night vision goggles.

02:19:28.280 They don't have firearms.

02:19:29.260 It's animal instinct.

02:19:30.200 It's instinct that they had that was developed through natural selection.

02:19:33.960 And the ones that were more cautious lived long and passed on that trait to their ancestors.

02:19:38.940 It is a function of evolution.

02:19:40.640 It is not a function.

02:19:41.440 There is no vibe.

02:19:42.480 There is no energy.

02:19:43.820 Energy is a metaphor.

02:19:45.060 It's all vibes.

02:19:45.760 Wait, humans do have energy.

02:19:47.820 What energy do they make?

02:19:49.280 Explain, explain.

02:19:50.620 Like energy isn't everything.

02:19:52.800 No, no, no.

02:19:53.580 You're talking about neurochemical responses.

02:19:55.500 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

02:19:56.640 There's no connection between you and me.

02:19:58.260 You are responding to the light that is reflecting off of these lights here.

02:20:01.700 And you are responding via your psychology.

02:20:04.280 There is no energy transfer between human beings.

02:20:06.980 None.

02:20:07.460 Unless you are cuddled.

02:20:08.280 Do you believe in spirits?

02:20:08.820 Do you believe in like communicating?

02:20:10.420 That's a completely different thing.

02:20:11.440 That's energy though.

02:20:12.340 No.

02:20:12.900 But no, no.

02:20:13.620 Again, the spirit thing is something you can believe in with faith but not with evidence.

02:20:17.740 And as far as evidence is concerned, there is no energy transfer between humans.

02:20:23.280 Period.

02:20:23.900 I don't care what Joe Dispenza told you.

02:20:26.160 None of that shit is true.

02:20:27.960 None of it.

02:20:28.780 If you guys want to debate me on this, we can.

02:20:30.720 But the science will bury you.

02:20:32.440 There is no energy.

02:20:33.340 There are no vibes.

02:20:34.460 None of this shit is real.

02:20:35.460 Now, if you want to say it like a metaphor, sure.

02:20:38.080 You can say he had bad energy.

02:20:39.700 That is a metaphor.

02:20:40.140 But that's a metaphor.

02:20:41.140 That's fine to say it as a metaphor.

02:20:42.560 Energy is the capability to do work.

02:20:44.640 The things that you get between me do not grant you or take decreased energy from me.

02:20:49.420 Thank you, Ronnie.

02:20:49.880 Appreciate it.

02:20:50.340 Ronnie here in 5 feet 11 inches.

02:20:52.840 Him a profballer slash entrepreneur.

02:20:54.840 She got this, bro.

02:20:55.960 She's not here.

02:20:57.060 I'll pull it back up.

02:20:59.100 Tell me on the date, if my distracting TTSI would like to apologize to absolutely nobody.

02:21:05.760 God bless all.

02:21:06.920 P.S.

02:21:07.320 Star side.

02:21:08.140 I like Ronnie.

02:21:10.480 Pria should take him up on this.

02:21:11.740 Ronnie, Pria, you have a date.

02:21:12.960 We've decided that you have a date coming up.

02:21:14.560 Wait, wait, wait.

02:21:15.400 Can we get back to this energy thing?

02:21:16.740 Yeah, one sec.

02:21:17.380 One sec.

02:21:17.760 Hold on.

02:21:18.280 I'd like to take this chance to apologize.

02:21:20.340 Did you second him up?

02:21:21.420 Absolutely nobody.

02:21:23.280 Okay, so hold on.

02:21:24.120 Just a couple things here.

02:21:24.940 So we had, let's see.

02:21:27.740 Okay, we had that come in.

02:21:29.120 Ronnie C., thank you very much.

02:21:30.280 Appreciate it.

02:21:31.040 What we should have done before Mike Sartain was cooking there, we should have asked the

02:21:35.940 girls if you, before, before, if you believe in astrology, because now you guys may have

02:21:42.920 just been backed the fuck off or whatever the term is, back the fuck down.

02:21:47.100 Show of hands, who here believes in astrology and Jupiter rising, whatever the fucking.

02:21:51.880 Not Jupiter rising.

02:21:52.720 I think the girls are going to be, they're going to be very timid.

02:21:54.860 I don't think it should like be determined in your relationship.

02:21:58.380 Like, oh, I can't believe you're an Aries.

02:22:00.500 But I do think like, yeah, the day you were born, the time you were born, there was an

02:22:04.920 energy.

02:22:05.440 Beautiful.

02:22:06.780 Such a great point.

02:22:09.640 So what they should do, what they should do is they should run a study.

02:22:12.880 And what they should do, and they have run a study, in a convenient, they took thousands

02:22:16.380 of couples in the United Kingdom and they put them on speed dates.

02:22:19.480 And one of the things they did is they tried to relate whether or not the date made it

02:22:23.060 to a second date based on their astrological side.

02:22:25.980 Bender, the offender donated $99.

02:22:28.480 Yeah, thank you, Bender.

02:22:29.140 Energy definition, the strength and vitality required for sustained physical or mental activity.

02:22:35.060 Cool, you don't transfer that between humans.

02:22:37.020 All right, going back to what they said.

02:22:38.300 So now what happened is they went and they looked at the correlation between whether or

02:22:41.980 not these people worked out.

02:22:43.340 And what you should see is Sagittarius and Gemini don't work and Libra and whatever the

02:22:47.920 fuck do work.

02:22:48.660 And the correlation was zero.

02:22:51.860 Absolutely, positively zero.

02:22:54.120 There was no correlation between whether or not your relationship worked and whether or

02:22:57.860 not there was a level of attraction and what your astrological sign was.

02:23:01.160 That's what I said.

02:23:02.380 Astrology used to be about the universal language of mapping.

02:23:05.420 That's how we got around, how we knew time, dates, all of that.

02:23:08.800 But now it's about dating for some reason.

02:23:10.960 I don't think it's also valid because like the calendar, they're saying, oh, you're born

02:23:15.920 this day, you were this.

02:23:16.840 But they're saying that doesn't even line up because, you know, July and August was added

02:23:20.680 to the calendar.

02:23:21.820 You know?

02:23:22.360 Yes.

02:23:22.800 After the 1500s, the Julian calendar became the Gregorian calendar.

02:23:28.900 So it's like, how are you going to say that?

02:23:30.080 Let's move on.

02:23:31.400 Okay, yeah.

02:23:32.100 Fucking astrology.

02:23:33.920 It's bullshit.

02:23:34.640 Okay.

02:23:35.040 All right.

02:23:35.760 Okay.

02:23:36.360 All right.

02:23:38.020 Priya, while you were gone.

02:23:41.480 Ronnie Ectonated $99.

02:23:44.360 Ronnie here in five feet, 11 inches.

02:23:46.780 I'm a prof baller slash entrepreneur.

02:23:49.420 Don't simp, but Priya is quality.

02:23:51.480 Priya, you a pro equestrian?

02:23:53.400 Tell me on the date, if far my distracting TTSI would like to apologize to absolutely

02:23:59.100 nobody.

02:24:00.040 God bless all.

02:24:01.200 PS star signs don't matter lol.

02:24:03.900 There you have it.

02:24:04.940 Okay, so he's 5'11".

02:24:06.340 Ronnie, is Ronnie sounding a little more appealing or what?

02:24:09.120 What's the situation?

02:24:10.240 In a pro football player.

02:24:11.200 Or on whatever.

02:24:12.660 He's a pro football player.

02:24:14.440 I don't know.

02:24:15.140 He's very persistent.

02:24:16.280 Fly him in.

02:24:17.020 Fly him in.

02:24:18.320 Fly him in.

02:24:19.400 All right.

02:24:19.720 Just make content.

02:24:20.540 I'll contemplate it.

02:24:21.420 Make content.

02:24:22.280 That's all that matters.

02:24:23.220 As long as you film it.

02:24:24.300 Going back to the video that we were reacting to, basically, I'll just recap it.

02:24:29.580 23-year-old woman claims to have never even had a first kiss.

02:24:34.200 I think she also claimed that she's never even been on a first date to.

02:24:38.540 So, thoughts on that?

02:24:42.160 I need a backstory.

02:24:43.200 Is she the problem?

02:24:44.460 Or is this not the cat?

02:24:45.560 Well, I imagine what she was saying before is they're going to say, hey, it's a good

02:24:48.880 thing that you made it to 23.

02:24:49.960 So, ladies, one more time.

02:24:51.400 The issue is, if she made it to 23 and never had sex with anyone, it doesn't count against

02:24:56.520 her.

02:24:57.020 It just doesn't.

02:24:58.260 If anything, I think it's a positive.

02:24:59.260 There's a 37-culture study done by Dr. David Buss, and they go over how each of these 37

02:25:04.480 different cultures view virginity.

02:25:06.300 And the one that viewed virginity the most strongest was men in China at the time, although

02:25:10.280 those restrictions have loosened up.

02:25:11.900 And the ones who cared about the least were the men in Norway.

02:25:14.420 In fact, women in Norway, if they saw a man who was a virgin past a certain age, they thought

02:25:18.440 it was extremely strange.

02:25:20.100 So, virginity was looked at very different in different countries.

02:25:22.480 The idea that this woman is 23 and has never been with a dude, in her mind, she's like,

02:25:26.160 I don't have experience, so I'm a weirdo.

02:25:28.300 And that's not how it works.

02:25:29.420 For men, we need experience to be better with women.

02:25:32.020 For women, you do not need experience with men to be more attractive to men.

02:25:36.980 I'll say it one more time.

02:25:37.580 You do not need more experience with men to be attractive to men.

02:25:43.200 But you need more experience to keep a man.

02:25:45.300 You need to understand how to keep a man.

02:25:48.580 At this grown age, I'm not teaching you how to buck.

02:25:53.660 I'll have to say something.

02:25:56.140 I have a friend, a personal friend, who also didn't have a first kiss until she was about 24.

02:26:03.020 Chef Rob donated $100.

02:26:06.020 Hey, all.

02:26:06.880 Good talk.

02:26:08.060 Mike, thank you for your service.

02:26:10.700 Fellow USAF retiree.

02:26:12.240 There you go, crossing to the blue.

02:26:13.620 Question for the group.

02:26:15.040 Back to the prom discussion.

02:26:16.660 What if free prom was banned?

02:26:18.880 You'd have to pay and be taxed.

02:26:20.800 Like tobacco slash alcohol.

02:26:23.160 Brian, keep up the great show.

02:26:25.180 I can see that.

02:26:25.700 If that's a compromise, then great.

02:26:27.280 That's OnlyFans.

02:26:28.000 He's going to have a big account.

02:26:29.020 That's better.

02:26:30.660 That's OnlyFans.

02:26:33.520 I don't know what's better.

02:26:34.880 Because when it's consensual.

02:26:35.620 I'm like paywalled 100% versus.

02:26:38.160 I'm not necessarily saying anything against the fact that there's two consenting adults

02:26:42.140 interacting in a sexual manner.

02:26:45.480 That's up to them.

02:26:46.420 They have the right to do that.

02:26:47.520 I'm saying that I think that it's a net bad for the reason that people are creating parasocial

02:26:52.240 relationships with somebody that does not exist.

02:26:54.560 And that is also harming their dating life.

02:26:56.440 It's harming their mental health, their ability to interact with individuals, especially in

02:27:01.900 a romantic sense.

02:27:03.260 And it affects their hormones.

02:27:04.840 You can argue that with celebrities, too.

02:27:06.740 People make social media.

02:27:07.480 Yeah.

02:27:07.800 There's people.

02:27:08.560 I'm not saying that there isn't an argument for that.

02:27:10.480 There absolutely is an argument.

02:27:11.320 We can't ban everything, right?

02:27:12.680 Parasocial relationships are something we're going to have to evolve to understand and progress.

02:27:16.200 There's studies behind parasocial relationships that it can lead to people becoming more social.

02:27:19.880 While, yes, I agree that unhealthy parasocial relationships exist, it can help people become

02:27:24.820 more social.

02:27:25.440 There's like entire.

02:27:26.140 Yeah, I think what you're talking about are people that deal with some sort of like disorder

02:27:29.480 maybe on the autistic spectrum and they get married to someone on World of Warcraft or

02:27:35.520 something like that.

02:27:36.280 I think you're dealing with two standard deviations outside the norm with something like that.

02:27:40.340 And I want to say I completely agree that there definitely is unhealthy versions of prawn.

02:27:45.320 I do not like prawn hub at all.

02:27:48.180 I think that there's a lot of problems behind that.

02:27:50.140 But I'm completely on board with stuff like OnlyFans and a prawn that requires more art.

02:27:55.460 Like hentai and stuff.

02:27:57.400 So because it's not affecting anybody personally like us trafficking and stuff.

02:28:01.680 And it's not as easily accessible to children to just like open up their phones and see

02:28:05.140 the most like vile, disgusting things for their brain.

02:28:07.940 Yeah.

02:28:08.220 So I mean, for the OnlyFans thing, yeah, I understand the argument in terms of creators

02:28:13.660 being their own managers and being able to benefit in that sense and be their own boss

02:28:18.080 in a way.

02:28:18.440 I can understand the argument for that in the sense of OnlyFans compared to other options.

02:28:25.460 But like I said earlier, there's less censorship around OnlyFans because it is not a chronography

02:28:32.540 website.

02:28:33.780 It should be.

02:28:34.860 At this point, it should be.

02:28:36.160 It was not created for that purpose, but there's no regulation around it.

02:28:38.820 Therefore, people can post whatever they want, basically.

02:28:41.260 But because there are no regulations, there's no like proper age verification.

02:28:46.660 There are lots of...

02:28:47.740 I think there's a lot of issues with OnlyFans.

02:28:49.800 On what?

02:28:51.400 OnlyFans.

02:28:52.120 There is improper age verification on OnlyFans?

02:28:54.760 Yes.

02:28:55.280 You're not required to submit your ID in a picture of yourself?

02:28:57.780 You can fake an ID.

02:28:58.660 I was going to say, there have been many stories.

02:29:00.620 But the average OnlyFans user is like 29 years old anyways.

02:29:04.060 But I do think that the popularity of OnlyFans, like I'm for OnlyFans, but I'm also...

02:29:08.880 It does need to be regulated because joining OnlyFans very early on, like at age 18, is

02:29:13.360 very unhealthy for a woman.

02:29:14.820 Absolutely.

02:29:15.100 Well, there are many people that have joined underage because they'll use somebody else's

02:29:18.740 ID.

02:29:19.400 There's a lot of...

02:29:21.360 But it's more unhealthy to watch it when you're young rather than to be a part of it when

02:29:23.820 you're older.

02:29:24.020 People are going to have urges that like...

02:29:26.180 But what's the solution?

02:29:27.200 You can't just ban it altogether, right?

02:29:28.880 Well, look at Utah.

02:29:28.920 So you do the best that you can.

02:29:30.480 And if there are people that get by through that, then there are people that get by through

02:29:33.880 that.

02:29:34.040 That's the nature of society and human flaw.

02:29:35.860 Like, I don't understand.

02:29:36.540 Did you guys see Utah now?

02:29:37.740 Like, you have to...

02:29:38.700 I think you have to upload...

02:29:39.760 Like, if you want any Plus18 site, you have to like upload your ID and like your full

02:29:44.640 name.

02:29:45.360 That's the same thing for like OnlyFans.

02:29:47.040 We're talking about two different things.

02:29:48.040 She is talking about a creator.

02:29:49.640 You're talking about using.

02:29:50.920 She's saying as a creator for...

02:29:52.260 No, no, no.

02:29:52.680 I'm saying like in Utah, if you're a random Joe Schmo and you go on cornhub.com before

02:29:57.980 you can enter, you need to give your information...

02:30:00.440 Oh, sorry.

02:30:01.260 You need to give your information.

02:30:02.460 I think that's a good idea.

02:30:03.260 Shout out to Utah.

02:30:04.080 I find it's a little intrusive.

02:30:06.200 Why?

02:30:06.440 Everyone...

02:30:07.800 That's a great idea.

02:30:08.420 If you want to engage in Plus18 websites, then you should have to verify it.

02:30:11.720 Yeah, if you want to buy alcohol, I can show you what's going on.

02:30:15.580 Josh donated $99.

02:30:18.140 Thank you, man.

02:30:18.540 America, look yourselves in the mirror and ask yourself, would I give up my right to view

02:30:22.860 pornography to destroy the extreme negatives from the industry and restore the dating marketplace

02:30:28.080 for all ages and the traditional family?

02:30:31.300 Politics have blinded you.

02:30:32.780 Honestly, though...

02:30:33.780 Thank you, Josh, for your TTS.

02:30:35.720 Honestly, like, prawn ain't the best.

02:30:39.600 But I think social media and dating apps have had a much more negative impact.

02:30:44.900 Because prawn's been around since fucking a long time.

02:30:50.680 Like, there was Playboy, there was magazines and shit.

02:30:52.720 Obviously, now it's much more accessible.

02:30:55.300 However, I think the rapid transformation of the dating marketplace, I think, is more due

02:31:01.740 to social media and dating apps.

02:31:04.900 I agree with that because sex work has been around since the beginning of time.

02:31:08.340 Just because something's been around for the beginning of time doesn't make it an excuse.

02:31:11.960 So then would you say the same about being traditional, right?

02:31:16.340 Because, like, if you're traditional and you want to withhold that, then you would agree

02:31:21.360 that keeping that from...

02:31:24.020 That logic doesn't apply to everything in life.

02:31:27.160 If that logic applied to everything, then everything would be a net bad.

02:31:31.060 That's not true.

02:31:32.760 Can you explain?

02:31:33.000 I would 100% ban porn.

02:31:35.540 I'm 100% because I started having a porn addiction at the age of 7 years old.

02:31:40.900 And I'm looking back...

02:31:41.860 But not everyone's going to have that problem.

02:31:43.120 Not everybody's going to, but I'm going to tell you right now how that affected my life,

02:31:46.160 my relationships.

02:31:47.060 I wanted to recreate them scenes instead of being a part of a normal relationship.

02:31:50.560 I definitely know.

02:31:51.900 So, like, none of the dating apps, social media made me want to do that.

02:31:54.840 Here's the thing.

02:31:55.760 So, what porn has done, Dr. Andrew Huberman does really great.

02:31:59.940 He has some very great speeches on this.

02:32:01.760 You guys can look it up.

02:32:02.420 He went on Joe Rogan and had a very eloquent description.

02:32:05.540 He talks about it sets your dopamine levels super high, and then they're sort of set

02:32:09.700 there, and you can't reset them.

02:32:11.520 So, meaning, like, everything has to compare to the threesome porn experience that you had

02:32:15.700 on Pornhub, whatever, right?

02:32:16.860 Okay.

02:32:17.360 Now, the thing is, where now we have men looking at unrealistic things, women at the same time

02:32:22.600 are now able to message their favorite rapper and have one-off sexual experiences with celebrities

02:32:30.260 and really good-looking men that they find that they would not have had access to before

02:32:35.260 social media.

02:32:36.440 So, as men have this unrealistic expectation from what they see from adult performers,

02:32:41.040 women now also have an unrealistic expectation because they can have sex with a high-status man

02:32:46.420 but cannot keep one.

02:32:47.760 And now, where it gets even worse is now they start comparing every sexual experience or

02:32:52.740 every relationship they had to that one time they fucked Blake Griffin.

02:32:56.280 That becomes the situation.

02:32:57.980 Just because Blake Griffin, who is that?

02:33:00.220 He was a...

02:33:01.580 Country singer?

02:33:02.320 No, Blake Griffin.

02:33:03.420 Blake Griffin was the power forward for the Clippers, and he was with Kylie Jenner.

02:33:08.400 Just because someone has high status, though, doesn't necessarily mean they're good in bed.

02:33:13.140 No, no, it doesn't matter.

02:33:13.860 My point is, my point is, she had access.

02:33:16.580 Like, again, when you think about, you know, your baseball player, one day you hit four home

02:33:20.780 runs, you start comparing your rest of the career to that one great day that you had.

02:33:24.520 It's the same situation, or you hit three ace pairs in a row and you just take everybody's

02:33:30.540 money playing poker.

02:33:31.560 You keep comparing yourself to that one great thing that you did.

02:33:34.780 In this situation, every woman who had a one-night stand with Drake or someone like that, she's

02:33:40.560 kind of, in her mind, ruined for a normal dude in a normal relationship from that point

02:33:45.620 forward, and I hear this all the time, all the time, especially from women who live in

02:33:50.020 Los Angeles.

02:33:50.880 They're like, I dated so-and-so, and I'm like, no, you didn't.

02:33:54.520 I know him and his wife.

02:33:56.560 He fucked you for sure, maybe twice.

02:34:00.060 You never dated him.

02:34:02.100 If I look up pictures of you and him on a red carpet somewhere, there are none.

02:34:06.180 There's pictures of him and his wife.

02:34:08.080 You never dated him.

02:34:09.680 And the fact that she even has the mental, the thought, the imagination that she dated

02:34:14.900 him.

02:34:15.440 Now, think about that.

02:34:16.180 In her mind, now that's what she compares every relationship to.

02:34:20.260 So, she ends up dating a fucking shortstop for the Dodgers, or ends up sleeping with him

02:34:24.720 like two or three times.

02:34:25.900 In her mind, she dated him, and now every single person she goes up, she dates from that point

02:34:31.180 forward, has to make the $20 million a year guaranteed contract, has to be this tall, and

02:34:36.460 in her mind, that's who she wants.

02:34:37.780 And when things are dissatisfying in the relationship, and the shortstop texts her in the middle of

02:34:42.400 the night, she is just far more likely to go back to him.

02:34:45.180 Does everybody understand?

02:34:46.200 That is how social media has fucked up dating.

02:34:48.700 That's how it is.

02:34:50.160 You make a good point, because it's not just about looking and watching.

02:34:54.160 It's about comparing, where I think people are unable to separate that part of their brain

02:34:57.300 to contrast, whether it's social media, porn, or whatever.

02:35:00.060 Well, sure, yeah, because your brain is not evolved.

02:35:02.880 The same thing can happen with, like, if you watch a TV show long enough.

02:35:05.660 The same thing happens with my podcast.

02:35:06.840 People come up to me all the time.

02:35:07.860 I'm sure it happens to Brian all the time.

02:35:08.940 People come up to us and start telling us their life story like we know them, but we

02:35:11.940 don't know them.

02:35:12.680 They watch us for hours every week.

02:35:14.500 They know our whole story, but then they're talking to us like we don't know them, because

02:35:18.200 their brain has not evolved to witness some other human every day, six days a week, and

02:35:23.420 then not think that they actually don't know them.

02:35:25.000 Because your brain cannot tell the difference between the two-dimensional objects on the

02:35:28.640 screen and then the other tribe members that you lived with 50,000 years ago, your ancestors

02:35:33.220 lived with.

02:35:33.700 You're not evolved to know the difference.

02:35:35.940 So, of course, yeah, I agree with that.

02:35:37.260 So, for women, it's like there is an unrealistic belief that because I slept with this country

02:35:43.060 singer, this famous country singer, that that is what I deserve every time.

02:35:46.640 And for men, because I witnessed the sexual act on this adult website that this is what sex

02:35:51.660 is supposed to be for me.

02:35:52.800 Now we have both genders seeing unrealistic expectations, which, and this is what's ruining

02:35:58.420 dating.

02:35:58.840 Wait, I have a question.

02:35:59.940 I know you don't know the fact, but what percentage of corn watchers do you think have a healthy

02:36:04.880 relationship with it?

02:36:06.340 Probably really small.

02:36:07.420 Do you think majority or minority?

02:36:08.960 Minority.

02:36:10.180 To be honest with you, here's what I think.

02:36:12.180 It depends on how much they watch.

02:36:13.820 And there's so many people that watch adult content that I'm sure some of them do have healthy

02:36:17.940 relationships.

02:36:18.260 But in general, there's a lot of people who don't watch adult content who don't have healthy

02:36:22.600 relationships.

02:36:23.160 We have a 53% divorce rate in this country, and 78% of divorces are initiated by women.

02:36:27.800 So, I don't think anyone's...

02:36:29.880 No one's winning right now, okay?

02:36:31.460 The only people who are winning are puritanical Christians who get married as virgins.

02:36:35.100 They're the only people...

02:36:36.260 Shut up to Ruslan.

02:36:37.000 I know he's going to clip this.

02:36:38.180 They're the only people who are actually doing well.

02:36:40.720 The rest of us are just slightly better than chance.

02:36:43.320 That's what's happening.

02:36:44.260 All right, we have a chat here from Doc.

02:36:47.300 Hey, thank you, man.

02:36:48.220 In Cuba, doctors are sent to other countries as slave labor and the communist Castro regime

02:36:51.900 gets the money from the likes of Venezuela and Mexico.

02:36:54.900 The people in Cuba have no medical care.

02:36:57.040 Only the government elite and medical tourists get proper care.

02:36:59.480 Hey, Doc, thank you, man.

02:37:00.140 Appreciate it.

02:37:02.120 Yeah, I'm not super familiar with the...

02:37:03.740 Oh, I have an anecdote for this.

02:37:05.980 I know a guy, my mom's ex-boyfriend.

02:37:08.480 He's like 50.

02:37:09.460 He went to Cuba all the time.

02:37:11.060 He's Canadian, so he can go.

02:37:12.080 So he met a woman there, Cuban woman.

02:37:14.560 She's a doctor from Cuba.

02:37:16.700 And you can imagine where this is going.

02:37:18.620 They got married.

02:37:19.860 She came over to Canada.

02:37:21.280 One day he woke up and there was a letter on his bed saying,

02:37:24.200 thank you so much, you know, for bringing me over to Canada, but I'm leaving you.

02:37:28.940 That's nice.

02:37:29.640 Well, then what he should have done is filed for divorce.

02:37:31.500 And then all of a sudden she doesn't have a citizenship anymore.

02:37:33.600 Then all of a sudden, hey, thanks so much for leaving me.

02:37:36.120 Now you're a refugee.

02:37:37.240 How about that?

02:37:37.760 But even doctors in Cuba, you know, we were talking about like doctors and communists

02:37:42.500 and stuff like that.

02:37:43.400 She wasn't happy there.

02:37:44.180 No one would prefer to be in Cuba.

02:37:45.400 No rational person would prefer to be in Cuba.

02:37:47.540 I'm sorry.

02:37:47.920 You can say whatever you want and watch.

02:37:49.300 Show me any documentary about how their health care is better.

02:37:52.700 It is not better there.

02:37:53.800 Sorry.

02:37:54.060 So just I'm going to try, we're time permitting, a lot of you submitted some pre-show notes

02:38:03.560 that I'm going to try to hit on and then we will get some super chats in.

02:38:07.540 So just finishing up with you, you said that a guy can't handle a girl showing off her body.

02:38:12.060 That's insecure.

02:38:13.040 Like the recent Jonah Hill text messages.

02:38:15.560 So did you think that Jonah Hill's boundaries that he attempted to set on his then girlfriend,

02:38:23.200 do you think that was controlling?

02:38:24.460 Do you think that was, what do you, what did you think that was?

02:38:27.600 Trust me, I get your point, right?

02:38:29.260 Everyone can be like, I'm not comfortable with my girlfriend posting bikini pics, whether

02:38:33.260 you're surfing or not.

02:38:34.600 But I think it should have been discussed beforehand to kind of retroactively make her take things

02:38:39.880 down and kind of put her in this situation where it's now we're in a relationship.

02:38:43.560 Yeah, so it was, if you read the text messages, I will not, I will not allow for this continued

02:38:49.180 disrespect.

02:38:50.360 It was, it was discussed before.

02:38:51.900 I don't understand why men bag a really bad bitch and then just expect her to stop being

02:39:00.300 this bad bitch that you bagged.

02:39:02.340 She can do whatever she wants, but then he also has the choice to not marry her because

02:39:05.560 we, like we said, but we said before that there are, how many are there, how many Jonah

02:39:10.920 Hills are there?

02:39:11.480 Jonah Hills probably going to die with half a billion dollars in his bank account at some

02:39:14.520 point there.

02:39:15.260 How many Jonah Hills are there versus how many of these Sarah Bradley surfers are there?

02:39:19.160 And that the thing is from her standpoint, not what proves that I'm correct or the, I

02:39:23.540 don't know if you guys saw the breakup text messages where he was like, uh, you know,

02:39:26.880 I just want to, you know, I'm seeing someone else.

02:39:28.200 And she's like, nice job.

02:39:29.340 It's only been six months and you're already with someone else.

02:39:31.440 And then he has a baby with someone else and she has the audacity to then release all these

02:39:36.600 text messages, making him apparently, uh, controlling, but they're, they're broken up.

02:39:41.800 Why, why wait, why wait, why wait until I have my baby with someone else?

02:39:46.860 She seems to be happy with me.

02:39:48.200 And the woman I had my baby with, you know what else?

02:39:50.080 She actually liked the boundaries that I had.

02:39:52.880 Some woman had the audacity to say to me the other day, it's like, I hope you have a daughter.

02:39:56.380 Oh, and, or like, I hope your, your daughter ends up with a man like this, a man like this

02:40:01.360 who makes hundreds of millions of dollars and asked my daughter to not go around dressing like a slut.

02:40:05.860 Oh my God.

02:40:06.380 I hope I never have a man like that in my life.

02:40:08.860 I would be so fucking happy if I had a dude like that.

02:40:11.040 Are you kidding?

02:40:11.520 Yeah, but Mike, can we agree that some women though are okay having those boundaries?

02:40:15.140 And like, it's not, I don't think it's a right or wrong.

02:40:17.780 It's with the wrong person.

02:40:19.900 That's why you're priorities.

02:40:21.440 So he gave her several chances to understand if you want to keep riding the Jonah Hill train,

02:40:26.320 you have to do this.

02:40:27.140 And he can't, and by the way, an ultimatum is like when you're, when you don't want to back it up.

02:40:31.020 Those weren't threats.

02:40:32.240 He broke up with her.

02:40:34.640 He did.

02:40:35.100 He said, these are the things he goes, if these are the things that make you happy, I support it.

02:40:39.360 What a piece of shit.

02:40:40.600 He goes, I support it.

02:40:42.060 And then he goes, but this is not something that will work for me.

02:40:45.080 He was so cool.

02:40:47.120 He was so cool about this.

02:40:49.060 Because at the end of the day also, I feel like he's definitely supporting her fucking life.

02:40:52.920 So at the end of the day, she should be able to.

02:40:56.480 She's her own professional though.

02:40:57.900 Just a quick, by those standards, every single traditional Muslim man is controlling.

02:41:03.400 Yes.

02:41:03.760 Yeah.

02:41:04.100 Yes.

02:41:05.360 So are you saying that that's wrong?

02:41:07.360 Every single traditional Muslim man who asked his, who asked those things of his wife,

02:41:13.040 every one of them is an abusive controller.

02:41:15.100 If that's what you're saying.

02:41:16.320 Every, without exception, every single Muslim man is like that.

02:41:20.280 And I'm a, I'm a Protestant saying this.

02:41:21.620 I think it depends if the woman is okay with it or not.

02:41:23.720 If she's okay with it, then I don't think it's.

02:41:25.300 Then we agree.

02:41:26.000 Then we agree.

02:41:26.980 And so she wasn't, she didn't change her behavior.

02:41:29.460 They broke up and she wasn't okay with it after he moved on.

02:41:32.140 So she posted private text messages between him and her.

02:41:36.680 She is 500% wrong.

02:41:38.880 There's two other problems.

02:41:40.000 There's two other problems.

02:41:40.720 Number one, calling that abuse is so belittling to women who actually suffer from abuse.

02:41:45.780 That's the second problem.

02:41:47.180 And here's the third problem.

02:41:48.500 These nonsensical fucking videos of therapists saying this, he's using controlling language.

02:41:54.200 And it's really, he's trying to say these are boundaries, but really this is abuse.

02:41:57.720 Now you fucking ruined therapy.

02:41:59.940 You've ruined therapy.

02:42:01.540 I don't agree.

02:42:01.920 I don't agree.

02:42:02.440 That's just because, that's because psychologists like can read between the lines.

02:42:07.700 And boundaries is something that you set for yourself, not for another person.

02:42:10.580 No, no.

02:42:10.900 If you, if I, if I asked you in my relationship to not sleep with other men, that is a boundary I set for you.

02:42:14.940 And it is a healthy boundary that I get to set.

02:42:16.580 You're setting a boundary for somebody else, not for yourself.

02:42:18.740 It's not what a boundary is.

02:42:19.940 Just donating.

02:42:20.900 Hey, Swordless.

02:42:21.640 Good to see you, man.

02:42:22.120 Sorry for the interruption.

02:42:23.900 Go back to your point.

02:42:25.600 Have fun.

02:42:27.000 Thank you, Swordless.

02:42:27.640 Hey, yo, Swordless.

02:42:28.680 Thank you, man.

02:42:29.160 And by the way, thank you for the, you gifted 10 memberships, though.

02:42:32.080 So thank you so much.

02:42:32.960 Good to see you in the chat, man.

02:42:33.860 Normally we see you on Twitch, but thank you for coming over to YouTube, man.

02:42:37.580 Appreciate it.

02:42:38.340 Okay, let's, let me see here where we were.

02:42:40.920 So we touched on the Joan Hale shit.

02:42:43.220 Got me heated.

02:42:43.880 Okay.

02:42:44.240 Do you mind if I make one quick point?

02:42:46.960 Go ahead, then I'll, then I'll go to my next.

02:42:48.660 So I think, I can't remember if it was, it was one of you two that mentioned it in terms

02:42:51.780 of, and I agree that this is a conversation that should, I don't, I'm not versed on their

02:42:56.600 relationship timeline.

02:42:57.900 I agree that it's a conversation that absolutely needs to happen in the beginning of a relationship,

02:43:01.360 but would you not agree that there are certain activities that you engage in when you are

02:43:06.180 single that you would not engage in when you are not single and you are in a relationship?

02:43:10.840 Absolutely.

02:43:11.240 But you, he still married this girl, right?

02:43:13.500 No, no, no, no.

02:43:14.040 They, they only dated.

02:43:15.040 Okay.

02:43:15.500 Okay.

02:43:15.660 Before we go on, I'm dating a world champion bikini model and I don't care if she posts

02:43:20.820 pictures of bikinis because that's her, my standard that I told her before we got into a relationship.

02:43:27.860 And if she didn't stay up to my standard, then I would say, Hey, if these are the things

02:43:32.860 that make you, I'm going to, I'm going to, if we have a rig up, I'm going to write exactly

02:43:35.900 what Jonah Hill did.

02:43:37.120 Exactly.

02:43:37.660 If these are the things that make you happy, I support it, but it's not right for me.

02:43:42.400 You said she does the extrapolation.

02:43:43.960 I mean, my girlfriend does.

02:43:45.100 Yeah.

02:43:45.280 I don't care.

02:43:45.660 I mean, I wouldn't pursue a bikini model and then tell her not to wear a bikini.

02:43:49.440 I don't know.

02:43:49.740 Two seconds.

02:43:50.400 She brought, she brought it up that she would take it down without me even asking.

02:43:53.920 Right.

02:43:54.280 I don't like the way he's, sorry.

02:43:56.340 Um, like, what are we extrapolating from this?

02:43:58.380 Like, what's the point?

02:43:59.320 Cause I feel like a lot of people that watch like the Jonah Hill situation unfold, like

02:44:03.640 genuinely, genuinely were like, saw like that he was in the right.

02:44:08.560 Like, I feel like a lot of people on his side.

02:44:10.080 I would really like to go to the next subject just so we can all talk about it.

02:44:13.300 Here's the point.

02:44:14.060 Well, hold on.

02:44:14.360 Here's the point.

02:44:15.000 If you look at.

02:44:15.480 I do want to say something.

02:44:16.760 I would, a lot of people have not had an opportunity to speak.

02:44:19.600 Yeah, to speak.

02:44:19.840 I would like to make an attempt to try to, you know, give a little space so that some

02:44:24.600 other people, you know, can.

02:44:25.980 See, he's the coming this time.

02:44:27.120 Can speak to this.

02:44:27.720 I'm just kidding.

02:44:28.840 Go ahead.

02:44:29.860 Yeah.

02:44:30.240 Did, did you have a question or.

02:44:32.260 I asked him a question.

02:44:34.440 Okay.

02:44:35.560 Yeah.

02:44:35.720 My only issue was, it was therapy.

02:44:37.900 That was the thing.

02:44:38.640 Is that therapists are now, therapists are now making TikToks bashing Jonah Hill and now

02:44:42.700 other therapists are watching this nonsense thinking that they have to act the same way.

02:44:45.920 That's weird.

02:44:46.320 It's a, it's, it's like a, a different understanding of what boundaries mean.

02:44:50.780 Like, it's like you can, like whether or not you can set the boundary for yourself.

02:44:54.440 Tell you what, I'll set you guys up to have like a podcast.

02:44:58.120 You've been, you've been asking him a lot of questions, which I think is great.

02:45:01.060 I like that you're contributing.

02:45:01.660 Come to Access Vegas.

02:45:02.320 But I do want to try to loop in a couple of, a couple of other people here.

02:45:06.720 Okay.

02:45:07.280 All right.

02:45:07.880 So, um, I had something here for Priya.

02:45:10.860 Uh, you mentioned something about, uh, let's see.

02:45:13.780 You can skip a lot of that.

02:45:14.980 Ha ha ha.

02:45:15.860 Ha ha ha.

02:45:16.400 Ha ha ha.

02:45:16.720 No, it's, it, they were, I just, I provided some random talking points.

02:45:20.120 I've covered a lot of them actually.

02:45:21.320 Oh, I thought it was like more people asked you on dates.

02:45:23.320 No, no, no, no.

02:45:24.600 Okay.

02:45:24.960 Actually, I'm going to skip to, uh, I'm going to skip over to you.

02:45:28.640 So you wanted to touch on, let's see, what was a good one?

02:45:33.140 What to bring to the table as a woman?

02:45:34.680 We talked about that.

02:45:35.660 You said don't do wifey things for your boyfriend.

02:45:37.880 What do you mean?

02:45:38.820 So I had this conversation, um, with my friend a couple of nights ago and he was like, how do

02:45:45.240 you feel about the whole, um, girls being like, I'm not going to do wifey things for

02:45:49.200 my boyfriend.

02:45:49.780 And I was like, um, I guess that's understandable.

02:45:53.880 Like, you know, I don't want to be, uh, a wife too soon.

02:45:57.480 Cause then it's like, what do you have to marry me for?

02:45:59.740 Right.

02:46:00.100 But then we touched on, um, they're like, okay, well I've never dated a girl and be

02:46:04.520 like, Hmm, she doesn't do these things.

02:46:06.840 Let me marry her to see if she does these things after I marry her.

02:46:10.860 So yeah, I just wanted to know, uh, everyone's opinion on that about like being a wife to a

02:46:14.920 boyfriend.

02:46:16.140 Why wouldn't you want to be a wife to your boyfriend?

02:46:18.180 Like how early in the relationship are we talking?

02:46:20.840 How early, how, okay, exactly.

02:46:23.400 Like how early in the relationship, like are you immediately?

02:46:26.040 Yes.

02:46:26.880 Immediately before you get the title, before you even, well, what, what are some wifey

02:46:31.040 things that you would, that you consider wifey?

02:46:33.740 Um, I guess it would depend.

02:46:35.500 I say it depends on the person you're dating because every man needs to be catered to differently.

02:46:39.080 Like, you know, um, you know, if they're an athlete, you know, you want to be there for

02:46:42.740 them, massage therapist, cook them a good protein, healthy meal, you know, like things

02:46:47.920 that they basically take stress out of their life.

02:46:50.560 Everybody got a different love language.

02:46:52.180 Exactly.

02:46:52.620 Exactly.

02:46:52.940 What kind of person are you or, you know, some people are, don't like touch that much.

02:46:56.480 That's why I said it depends on the man you date.

02:46:57.960 Disrespecting them coming around, like always try to put your hands on them.

02:47:00.920 But yeah, so don't date somebody like that.

02:47:03.080 Yeah.

02:47:03.400 Right.

02:47:03.720 Yeah.

02:47:03.940 Cause it's like, I would have to date somebody that knows that my love language is also

02:47:07.580 providing.

02:47:08.480 So, you know, so why would I date someone that doesn't accept my love language?

02:47:11.180 It's kind of counterproductive.

02:47:12.560 Yeah, that's true.

02:47:13.120 Well, when you're dating, I feel like dating should be for marriage.

02:47:16.320 Um, if you're boyfriend and girlfriend with somebody, you should be able to see a future

02:47:20.280 with that person.

02:47:20.980 So why wouldn't you want to treat them in the best way possible?

02:47:23.900 Why wouldn't you want to treat him like, oh, like your husband?

02:47:26.060 If you plan on marrying this person, if you plan on being with them for the rest of your

02:47:28.960 life, it makes no sense to not want to do things for this person just because it's

02:47:32.700 not your husband, it's your boyfriend.

02:47:33.840 You want to prove to them that you are capable of being a good wife and a good caretaker

02:47:37.940 to them and your future children.

02:47:39.580 If that's what you desire.

02:47:40.480 I will also say that social media probably ruined a lot of this because it's like the

02:47:44.140 top women in the world get cheated on.

02:47:45.900 You can do all this quote unquote wifey shit and still get cheated on, still get left.

02:47:50.340 So it like, it ruins your perspective on like, oh, maybe I'm doing too much.

02:47:54.420 And it's like, oh, she's going to stay here.

02:47:56.040 She's already done all this wifey stuff.

02:47:57.200 I got her locked in.

02:47:58.200 I could do whatever.

02:47:59.060 I feel like men take advantage sometimes.

02:48:02.680 They're not the right guy.

02:48:03.720 Like if it's the right person, then, you know, it will work out.

02:48:06.260 But a lot of men will lie and cheat and manipulate.

02:48:10.040 And she's so understanding.

02:48:11.440 She'll understand why I cheated.

02:48:12.720 Like, you know, like, so it's and you'll do all it makes you take a step back.

02:48:16.220 Like, well, maybe I should take this a little slower.

02:48:18.380 Maybe I shouldn't give all my qualities so soon in a relationship.

02:48:21.700 I feel like if it's someone I want to pursue and I want this man to be my man, then I would

02:48:27.180 I feel like it would almost be natural for me to start putting in a wife role, even in

02:48:31.820 the dating scene, because like, I want to do that for you.

02:48:34.420 Like, you're my man.

02:48:35.200 Like, you know, I'm going to give you a massage.

02:48:36.600 I want to touch you.

02:48:37.480 You know, I want to cook for you.

02:48:38.900 I want to do that stuff because my feminine energy, what I do for him makes him feel more

02:48:44.240 like a man and makes him act like that towards me back in the nurturing and caring aspects.

02:48:48.820 And it's just like that feeling, you know, it's so beautiful.

02:48:54.080 Like, I mean, I'm looking for that right now as well.

02:48:57.260 So.

02:48:57.320 You know, it's the same thing.

02:49:04.260 Like, you know, like, like what you're saying, I totally agree.

02:49:05.960 Like, I don't I'm not the reason why I'm not in a relationship is because it's so serious

02:49:09.260 to me.

02:49:10.020 It's so serious dating to me that I'm not going to date you unless I see you being my husband.

02:49:13.340 Yeah, you haven't found someone that I want.

02:49:15.200 Why would you want to do that for somebody who?

02:49:17.360 But if you were in a relationship with that person, you were going to care.

02:49:20.180 I'm going to do the most.

02:49:21.160 Exactly.

02:49:21.540 I'm going to do the most and I'm going to do above and beyond what I can do because I want

02:49:24.600 to prove to myself that I can be a wife.

02:49:27.320 You know what I mean?

02:49:28.180 Absolutely.

02:49:28.680 And dating nowadays seems like a competition of who cares less.

02:49:31.720 And that is completely bad.

02:49:32.840 I agree.

02:49:33.540 I agree.

02:49:34.060 It's like a whole game.

02:49:35.580 I have not.

02:49:36.400 And I probably will not.

02:49:37.200 I will not be seeing that movie.

02:49:40.200 Rolo and I are going to do a review on it.

02:49:41.700 He just saw it.

02:49:42.060 Can you guys please?

02:49:43.040 I really need to.

02:49:44.560 What movie are we talking about?

02:49:45.440 The Barbie movie.

02:49:47.480 She's like really mean to Ken.

02:49:49.540 And like, that's like one part about it where I was just like, how are you supposed to like

02:49:53.740 show women empowerment when you're just belittling?

02:49:56.500 That's how you show women empowerment.

02:49:57.800 That's what women empowerment means.

02:49:58.380 Yeah, that's what women empowerment means.

02:49:59.380 Today.

02:50:00.180 I have not seen the movie.

02:50:01.180 Escalating Ken and being mean to Ken is how you show women empowerment.

02:50:06.820 Yes.

02:50:07.200 And then girls will literally be like, oh, good for you.

02:50:10.020 Oh, she should.

02:50:10.620 You don't need a man.

02:50:11.380 Yeah.

02:50:11.700 Yeah.

02:50:11.960 A woman will literally say, oh, good for Barbie.

02:50:14.680 She doesn't need him.

02:50:15.580 She is her own person.

02:50:16.860 And she will always be her own person.

02:50:18.420 And she will never need Ken.

02:50:19.800 And that's how they make it seem.

02:50:20.740 She actually at the end of the film asked him to go find himself.

02:50:22.820 Whoa.

02:50:23.360 Yes.

02:50:23.940 I know.

02:50:24.220 But I'm going to take this into consideration when I do go see it because I was curious.

02:50:31.860 I'm bootlegging it tonight.

02:50:32.900 And I'm very curious to see if it's promoting that because this is like number one movie.

02:50:37.840 This is like right next to Little Mermaid.

02:50:38.920 Well, I just want you to know if you are going to go see it, don't go into it thinking it's

02:50:42.620 going to be like, ah, fluffy Barbie, like princessy.

02:50:45.820 Like, oh.

02:50:45.940 Yeah, that's not allowed.

02:50:46.940 It's not.

02:50:47.120 It is not like that.

02:50:48.440 The movie?

02:50:49.020 It is not like that at all.

02:50:51.080 Hold on.

02:50:51.200 What you're describing is a 1985 Barbie where Barbie kind of looks like a Playboy model.

02:50:56.560 That wouldn't be allowed.

02:50:59.400 Those movies don't get funded.

02:51:01.680 That doesn't ever happen.

02:51:03.260 I knew what the Barbie movie was before they put it out.

02:51:06.460 Like, it's obvious that that's the only thing.

02:51:07.800 There is no alternative narrative.

02:51:11.340 There is no narrative where Barbie is like, I like having fun.

02:51:14.740 I don't want to work.

02:51:15.820 And Ken pays for my life.

02:51:17.240 There is no.

02:51:17.800 Isn't that the original Barbie, though?

02:51:19.060 Of course.

02:51:19.580 But there is no narrative where Barbie can do that.

02:51:22.320 I love Ken and will do anything for him.

02:51:24.360 Get the fuck away from my man.

02:51:25.840 There is no Barbie movie like that.

02:51:27.300 That cannot be made.

02:51:28.980 If you thought there was any possibility.

02:51:30.160 Wouldn't that be like every Barbie movie ever, though?

02:51:31.600 Correct.

02:51:32.060 But before, in 1985, yes.

02:51:33.860 But it can't happen now.

02:51:35.060 It doesn't get it.

02:51:35.700 But, um.

02:51:36.500 But, uh.

02:51:37.800 Yeah, I mean, all I know about the Barbie movie is they drop, apparently they say there's

02:51:42.160 the patriarchy fucking ten times in the movie.

02:51:43.700 It's so funny.

02:51:44.320 So it's obviously a dog shit fucking movie.

02:51:45.240 It was a good movie, but it was just like the way that everything was portrayed.

02:51:48.420 The dog shit movie.

02:51:49.060 Don't go see that shit.

02:51:50.320 Go see Oppenheimer instead.

02:51:51.600 Yes.

02:51:52.440 I wish I saw Oppenheimer.

02:51:53.220 Education's done.

02:51:54.000 The other thing that you wanted to touch on is hooking up on the first date, is it wrong

02:51:59.820 or is it right?

02:52:00.980 So we'll go around the table on this.

02:52:04.300 How quickly, you know, do you have a three date rule?

02:52:09.560 How long do you think you should wait before hooking up, having sex with a guy?

02:52:12.580 Let's start with you.

02:52:13.620 Go ahead.

02:52:13.760 I personally am a, I think it's demisexual person.

02:52:17.480 Is it?

02:52:17.860 Like, I have to have a connection with you.

02:52:20.240 Sorry.

02:52:20.980 There's like, there's so many like, you know, fucking.

02:52:23.840 Like an intellectual.

02:52:24.740 Yeah, yeah.

02:52:25.360 Connection.

02:52:25.520 Bro, like, I honestly, like, I could do the deed first night, but I will not give a fuck

02:52:29.520 about you.

02:52:30.020 You know what I mean?

02:52:30.580 Like, I would rather get to know you as a person like, and that sucks, you know, it'd

02:52:35.540 be like, you know, I would rather get to know someone.

02:52:40.300 I'm definitely someone's like, I'd rather get to know you and then commit into something

02:52:44.700 once it's like, we have a connection, you know, cause it makes that act so much more

02:52:49.080 like worth it when you know who, who this person is and you guys connect.

02:52:54.620 I'm not going to judge anyone if they do do hook up on the first night.

02:52:57.320 Like I'm not someone that's going to judge someone if they do.

02:52:59.420 All right.

02:52:59.880 If they don't, it's not my preference, you know, but you know, do you, the, the last

02:53:04.920 guy that you hooked up with, how long did you wait?

02:53:09.340 Uh, I think we know.

02:53:12.600 I think we have an answer.

02:53:13.960 Well, what's the answer?

02:53:15.000 Um, it just, the last person I knew them for like a, not too long, but yeah.

02:53:22.840 Right away.

02:53:23.580 Pretty much.

02:53:24.100 Or of course.

02:53:25.040 No, no.

02:53:25.840 Like there's times where it does happen, you know, it's not all the time, you know,

02:53:29.780 but, but the last time, but the last time it was, I thought you were demi, demi sexual

02:53:34.820 though.

02:53:34.980 I see a clip.

02:53:35.940 I see.

02:53:36.320 I mean, sometimes you just, it's, it's crazy because sometimes you just get bored and it's

02:53:40.280 like, Oh, well, there's something to do, but you know, I'm not going to say, Oh, like,

02:53:43.960 you know, what about you?

02:53:45.320 What do you think?

02:53:46.900 I think momentum is very attractive.

02:53:49.480 So it's like people that I will have that energy with, it will just be there from the

02:53:54.200 get go.

02:53:55.280 But the more you can build up momentum, that's really attractive.

02:54:00.700 Sweet.

02:54:01.020 Oh, um, wait.

02:54:02.300 So just, I want to add one, one point to this question, going back to you.

02:54:06.080 So what's in addition to how long do you think you ought to or should wait?

02:54:11.960 What's the fastest that you've ever hooked up with a guy?

02:54:15.860 So 10 seconds, 10 minutes.

02:54:18.800 10 seconds.

02:54:20.180 Did it take only 10 seconds?

02:54:22.100 You know, a minute, an hour, three hours.

02:54:25.940 So, I mean, I've definitely like, I've had one night stands before or whatever.

02:54:29.920 What, like, what is the quickest, so basically first meeting to pee in the V?

02:54:36.400 It's not like instant.

02:54:37.640 It's not like we're in the bar, let's go to the bathroom, do some bathroom shit.

02:54:41.020 No, it'd be like end of the day maybe has been for me like beginning of the day and

02:54:46.620 maybe at the end of the day, be like, all right, you know, all right, you know, that's

02:54:50.320 how you should do it, you know, like, but never like a couple hours that for me in

02:54:54.120 person, that's just, sure, sure.

02:54:57.840 Plead the fifth.

02:54:59.240 Plead the fifth.

02:55:02.780 Wait, so, but your previous answer was you got to go with momentum or something?

02:55:09.700 Momentum, yeah.

02:55:10.500 Can you scoot your chair into the...

02:55:12.560 Momentum is more attractive, but...

02:55:15.420 Can you define momentum for us?

02:55:17.200 A buildup.

02:55:18.080 A buildup.

02:55:18.560 The more that you have a connection with someone, the longer you go without, like,

02:55:22.900 wasting connection away by making a move, right?

02:55:25.880 Just having that connection, not being enough.

02:55:27.320 Maybe anticipation?

02:55:27.960 Right, correct.

02:55:30.100 Would you not argue, though, that anticipation and, like, that momentum builds the longer

02:55:35.560 that you wait and create that attraction?

02:55:38.420 It's not like the longest you go, like, it's not the longest you go, but it's to say...

02:55:42.360 I'm not saying it's like...

02:55:43.420 Just based off who I'm attracted to doesn't mean the quicker that we'll be in bed.

02:55:49.480 So, an hour?

02:55:53.020 I'll answer shit.

02:55:54.160 I was in my college days, you know?

02:55:56.520 Shit, that shit...

02:55:57.200 Two minutes for Brian.

02:55:59.220 30 minutes.

02:56:00.560 Yeah, you're at a college party.

02:56:01.920 We're, like, all in our 20s, bro.

02:56:03.880 Probably less.

02:56:04.520 Less, probably less.

02:56:05.700 Like, what the fuck are we actually talking about here?

02:56:07.460 Like, you know?

02:56:08.640 Like, shit...

02:56:09.480 Like...

02:56:10.000 No, sorry.

02:56:10.600 Not to interrupt you.

02:56:11.240 So, look.

02:56:11.520 I was like, how do you get into this?

02:56:12.840 My...

02:56:13.120 I like her.

02:56:17.600 She's funny.

02:56:18.160 Yeah, you are funny.

02:56:20.520 So, okay.

02:56:21.180 Look, I reveal...

02:56:21.980 I'm a fucking...

02:56:23.660 You're just smiling a little too much.

02:56:24.760 I don't know how I feel about that, man.

02:56:25.760 I'm a slut, whatever.

02:56:26.620 I fucking...

02:56:27.200 You know, in college, whatever.

02:56:28.360 30...

02:56:28.720 So, I did 30 minutes.

02:56:29.820 So, that's the bar for any of you guys, if you're feeling shy about revealing it.

02:56:33.480 Do you want to reveal or not?

02:56:34.280 Right on, Kappa Sig.

02:56:35.920 Same day.

02:56:36.340 I was not in the fraternity.

02:56:37.640 I was not in the fraternity.

02:56:40.220 Sorry, we didn't hear.

02:56:41.360 Same day.

02:56:42.560 Same day.

02:56:43.180 Fair enough.

02:56:43.720 What about...

02:56:44.720 So...

02:56:46.720 Biologically, men lose interest, right?

02:56:49.360 After...

02:56:50.240 There are exceptions to that, but, like, you know...

02:56:52.680 I disavow.

02:56:53.880 I disavow.

02:56:54.240 Really?

02:56:54.740 Okay.

02:56:54.980 Well, that's what I've heard.

02:56:56.440 But, yeah, if I'm interested in a guy, obviously, I'll wait, like, a couple of dates, but I

02:57:00.820 have in the past...

02:57:01.260 But if you're not interested in the guy right away...

02:57:03.300 I mean, for a serious relationship.

02:57:05.320 I mean, for a relationship worthy.

02:57:07.180 If you just find someone good-looking...

02:57:08.760 I've been on a date before.

02:57:09.720 I always slept with them at the end of the date.

02:57:11.480 But I knew...

02:57:12.440 I wouldn't have done that if I wanted a serious relationship with them.

02:57:15.260 Wait, you didn't want a serious relationship with them?

02:57:17.420 No.

02:57:17.760 Just wanted to hook up, so I'll hook up with them on the first day.

02:57:20.580 You were just looking for...

02:57:20.840 But if I wanted...

02:57:21.300 Oh, this guy's husband material, I'm gonna wait it out.

02:57:25.020 Isn't that interesting how that works?

02:57:26.720 So the guys that you were like...

02:57:29.240 Meh.

02:57:29.720 Nah.

02:57:30.640 You reward them.

02:57:32.800 I'm just curious.

02:57:33.640 Has this ever happened to any of you guys?

02:57:34.920 When you weren't in a relationship, you were willing to have a threesome?

02:57:38.020 And then when you got into a relationship, you weren't willing to have a threesome anymore?

02:57:41.360 Has this happened to any of you guys before?

02:57:42.860 Well, who's had a threesome?

02:57:44.220 Anybody?

02:57:45.400 You have five?

02:57:46.340 No, I'm not.

02:57:49.640 Interesting.

02:57:50.240 Okay.

02:57:51.200 So, okay.

02:57:51.780 You said same night, and then...

02:57:55.560 Yeah.

02:57:56.000 But if the guy is relationship material...

02:57:59.580 Yeah, but that's because I've been taught that.

02:58:01.640 Like, it's not that...

02:58:02.740 Taught.

02:58:02.860 Like, you're told all the time, you have to wait.

02:58:06.200 Three dates, na-na-na.

02:58:07.580 Like, you have to build it up.

02:58:09.480 This is what I hear, so I don't know.

02:58:10.800 But Mac Miller was very attractive, so you just had sex with him immediately.

02:58:13.620 We didn't even touch that one.

02:58:17.840 Rest in peace.

02:58:18.860 But am I crazy?

02:58:20.040 That's what we're always told, no?

02:58:21.660 No, 100%.

02:58:22.520 I definitely feel like men are easy.

02:58:26.340 They are sluts.

02:58:27.740 So, if I see a guy, you're willing to fuck me.

02:58:30.200 If I fuck you on the first date, you're no longer attractive to me.

02:58:32.780 Oh, you lose attraction for the guy?

02:58:34.100 Oh, absolutely.

02:58:35.180 You just let me fuck on the first date?

02:58:36.480 That's so crazy.

02:58:38.200 Wait, so even though you engaged in said behavior...

02:58:41.220 Yeah, but I already knew it wasn't going any further.

02:58:43.800 Because he was already willing for it.

02:58:45.200 I was like, alright, cool, let's do this then.

02:58:46.440 What if he was just super attracted to you,

02:58:48.840 he didn't have any qualms about sleeping with you immediately,

02:58:51.680 and then he actually did want a long-term relationship?

02:58:54.380 If the guy wanted a long-term relationship with you,

02:58:57.160 but you guys did hook up quickly,

02:59:00.500 on your end, despite his desire to stop himself...

02:59:03.680 You do know that, right?

02:59:04.520 What do you mean?

02:59:05.220 He's not going to...

02:59:05.880 If he wanted to marry you,

02:59:07.340 and you let him fuck on the first date,

02:59:09.440 he's going to fuck you.

02:59:11.100 You do know that, right?

02:59:12.280 Yeah.

02:59:12.580 So you just ruined an opportunity

02:59:15.000 for some dude who may want to be in a relationship with you.

02:59:17.080 But I didn't want to be in a relationship with him.

02:59:18.520 Why is it about him?

02:59:18.960 Okay, but let's say there was a chance that you did.

02:59:21.280 If I did, I wouldn't have fucked him.

02:59:23.380 Okay, right.

02:59:23.940 But the thing is,

02:59:25.260 it's not his fault

02:59:26.080 if he tries to have sex with you on the first date.

02:59:27.820 No, I don't like it.

02:59:29.620 I think about all the guys out there

02:59:31.420 that are like,

02:59:31.900 she made me wait,

02:59:33.000 but there were all these other dudes

02:59:34.200 that she didn't want to be in a relationship with.

02:59:35.320 No, 100%.

02:59:36.240 So he just let them hit?

02:59:37.160 Like, they just got to hit?

02:59:38.500 I don't think you should do it often.

02:59:41.400 Like, I definitely feel like...

02:59:42.700 I don't think you should do it often.

02:59:44.240 I don't think you should just go out and be like,

02:59:45.720 hmm, not away from material.

02:59:47.240 Let me just fuck you.

02:59:48.200 Like, that's kind of slutty.

02:59:49.880 But it's like,

02:59:50.360 I feel like if you catch a vibe,

02:59:52.320 and it's like,

02:59:52.800 damn,

02:59:53.960 it's not a giving relationship,

02:59:56.980 but it's giving,

02:59:58.300 we can have a cool night.

03:00:00.080 Like,

03:00:00.660 all about the vibes.

03:00:01.920 I'm curious,

03:00:02.520 has that ever happened

03:00:03.300 because the guy is either like,

03:00:04.680 really good looking

03:00:05.620 or really high status,

03:00:06.660 and you just don't think

03:00:07.280 you can get him to settle down,

03:00:08.340 and that's why...

03:00:08.980 Never.

03:00:09.740 I just like,

03:00:10.460 I get the ick really fast.

03:00:11.820 Like,

03:00:12.300 you wear the wrong jeans on the date,

03:00:14.160 and it's just like,

03:00:15.000 I don't know.

03:00:16.660 I just like,

03:00:17.220 I have,

03:00:17.720 I really get the,

03:00:18.400 I get the turn off so fast.

03:00:20.060 You tell me all water tastes the same,

03:00:21.540 I don't even want to think about

03:00:22.640 being in a relationship with you.

03:00:23.680 Tastes the same water.

03:00:24.780 Exactly.

03:00:25.240 Like,

03:00:25.440 one guy,

03:00:25.900 he was like,

03:00:26.360 what's the difference?

03:00:26.860 I was like,

03:00:26.940 can you give me a Fiji water?

03:00:27.980 He was like,

03:00:28.300 what's the difference?

03:00:28.740 They all taste the same.

03:00:29.560 Never saw that man again.

03:00:30.740 Wait.

03:00:31.300 Whoa,

03:00:31.500 whoa,

03:00:31.640 whoa,

03:00:32.200 whoa.

03:00:33.480 What are you thinking about?

03:00:36.020 I'm definitely not going

03:00:37.220 to buy your standard.

03:00:38.620 Salt water ass.

03:00:40.100 Hell,

03:00:40.480 you never saw him again,

03:00:41.420 but did you have sex with him?

03:00:42.340 No,

03:00:42.800 I did.

03:00:43.100 He wasn't even worth sex.

03:00:44.120 Like,

03:00:44.200 now I'm just completely turned off.

03:00:44.660 He wasn't even worth sex.

03:00:46.200 Yeah.

03:00:47.000 Wait,

03:00:47.380 hold on,

03:00:47.680 just to be clear.

03:00:48.920 He said

03:00:49.480 he drank Fiji water

03:00:51.840 and that was the deal breaker?

03:00:53.340 I asked him to get me a Fiji water.

03:00:54.720 He was like,

03:00:55.100 probably go get a Wawa.

03:00:56.040 He's like,

03:00:56.520 Fiji's,

03:00:57.160 wait,

03:00:57.480 you like Fiji water first of all?

03:00:59.280 I like Fiji water.

03:01:00.200 Fiji's dog shit.

03:01:01.680 You think so?

03:01:02.280 I mean,

03:01:02.520 I like essential.

03:01:03.140 Essential's my favorite,

03:01:04.020 but I do like Fiji water.

03:01:04.640 I was like,

03:01:05.900 I smell like Fiji water.

03:01:08.420 I got to interrupt really quick.

03:01:13.580 So my downstairs neighbor

03:01:15.280 has been like,

03:01:16.860 is,

03:01:17.340 is a fucking character.

03:01:18.300 Karen and I'm not,

03:01:20.280 I'm not upset at anybody.

03:01:21.400 I didn't disclose it.

03:01:22.180 She's like been fucking causing

03:01:23.700 a lot of issues with our landlords.

03:01:25.460 Apparently the fucking,

03:01:26.600 the insulation or whatever

03:01:28.720 between the floors

03:01:29.720 is like dog shit.

03:01:32.540 So she can like,

03:01:33.620 so one,

03:01:35.640 and I think it's only happened

03:01:36.560 once or twice during the show.

03:01:37.620 I just asked if nobody,

03:01:38.900 if just try to avoid stomping

03:01:40.260 because she's a fucking Karen

03:01:41.420 and like freaks the fuck out

03:01:42.880 and our last show,

03:01:44.300 she came and banged on the door

03:01:45.600 and shit.

03:01:45.900 I wanted $100.

03:01:47.800 Priya.

03:01:48.420 Yo,

03:01:48.780 Martin.

03:01:49.640 Seven figures.

03:01:50.600 Real estate,

03:01:51.700 construction in Southeast.

03:01:53.380 D1 college athlete,

03:01:55.260 mid thirties,

03:01:56.200 70 acre farm in TN.

03:01:58.480 I own a nonprofit

03:01:59.260 that helps dogs and horses.

03:02:01.420 Martin Foundation.

03:02:02.480 Brian has my personal details

03:02:05.140 minus 100% true.

03:02:07.660 G 600 fly out in two days.

03:02:10.120 Is that a plane?

03:02:11.420 Yes.

03:02:12.060 Uh oh.

03:02:13.540 I think that's one for you.

03:02:14.900 Can I,

03:02:15.300 if I,

03:02:15.640 I would like to,

03:02:16.600 I would like to add

03:02:18.580 a little something.

03:02:19.380 I'm,

03:02:19.560 I'm,

03:02:19.800 I'm friends with Marquavius.

03:02:22.300 He did save me from an animal,

03:02:23.380 but he's also part of Mensa.

03:02:25.040 So he's a high,

03:02:25.880 very high IQ individual,

03:02:27.660 top 1%.

03:02:28.480 And,

03:02:29.480 he's a good guy.

03:02:31.440 He's a good guy.

03:02:32.440 So,

03:02:32.960 you have three suitors so far,

03:02:35.240 Priya,

03:02:35.520 this show.

03:02:35.740 Which one's the most attractive.

03:02:37.720 Can you,

03:02:38.480 guys,

03:02:38.940 can you spread it around?

03:02:40.200 Look at all these,

03:02:41.040 you know,

03:02:41.580 there's,

03:02:41.860 I'm taking it,

03:02:42.320 so no thank you.

03:02:43.260 She wants him.

03:02:45.380 Oh no.

03:02:46.160 Wait,

03:02:46.440 Martin,

03:02:46.840 Martin.

03:02:47.960 How do you,

03:02:48.620 how do you pronounce it?

03:02:49.820 I'm happy for you,

03:02:51.060 honestly.

03:02:51.520 Look at you.

03:02:52.040 You're so cute.

03:02:53.040 Girl,

03:02:53.340 you're coming for you.

03:02:54.700 Wait.

03:02:54.840 Yeah,

03:02:55.000 but look at you.

03:02:56.140 Martin,

03:02:56.700 do you like women

03:02:57.480 with sternum tattoos?

03:02:59.380 Oh lord.

03:02:59.700 Because I mean,

03:03:00.260 what is the sternum?

03:03:01.160 She's got like a flower.

03:03:03.620 It's more of a xiphoid process tattoo.

03:03:05.780 That's not quite the sternum.

03:03:06.640 Is it?

03:03:08.020 That's fair.

03:03:08.700 No,

03:03:08.880 the sternum ends here.

03:03:09.880 It's the xiphoid process

03:03:10.720 with the two parts of the ribcage.

03:03:12.860 Is that unfortunate?

03:03:13.760 You're correct.

03:03:14.620 I was like,

03:03:14.940 oh,

03:03:15.160 I told him sternum.

03:03:17.100 Okay.

03:03:17.820 All right.

03:03:18.120 Thank you,

03:03:18.500 Martin.

03:03:18.640 I appreciate it.

03:03:19.740 Priya,

03:03:20.280 will you,

03:03:20.640 if he DMs you,

03:03:21.360 will you respond or?

03:03:24.320 Sure.

03:03:25.200 All right.

03:03:26.640 She sounds so scared.

03:03:27.980 Film it for TikTok.

03:03:29.500 Bring out the G600.

03:03:30.500 We kind of want to see it though.

03:03:31.860 Pull up here at whatever.

03:03:33.160 Were we talking about

03:03:33.900 fucking Fiji water?

03:03:35.080 Yeah,

03:03:35.360 we were.

03:03:36.140 Okay,

03:03:36.500 it might have been,

03:03:36.900 I was like 19.

03:03:37.520 I understand that Fiji,

03:03:38.580 after I've had other waters

03:03:39.660 so they don't taste the same,

03:03:41.120 essential is definitely top tier.

03:03:42.600 So you,

03:03:43.160 you ghosted him

03:03:44.480 because he thought

03:03:45.500 Fiji water was comparable

03:03:46.940 to other types of bottle water.

03:03:48.080 He was like,

03:03:48.320 does it matter?

03:03:48.980 Doesn't all water taste the same?

03:03:50.320 And that's when you knew

03:03:51.080 that was your deal breaker?

03:03:52.160 Oh,

03:03:52.500 absolutely.

03:03:53.580 I think girls can talk

03:03:54.560 about Ix all day long.

03:03:55.620 Yeah,

03:03:55.840 that's what I'm saying.

03:03:56.540 Like,

03:03:56.800 I'm really curious

03:03:58.300 to see the rest of the panel

03:03:59.660 and what they do,

03:04:00.720 honestly.

03:04:01.340 Yeah,

03:04:01.500 we'll talk about Ix here.

03:04:02.860 We'll continue moving around.

03:04:04.340 So,

03:04:04.780 moving over to you.

03:04:06.220 About that water.

03:04:07.180 How long,

03:04:07.920 how long should you wait?

03:04:09.360 This is the two-parter.

03:04:10.820 Like,

03:04:11.300 what I think.

03:04:12.700 How long,

03:04:13.000 how long do you think you,

03:04:15.180 like,

03:04:15.520 what's a good time,

03:04:16.360 amount of time to wait

03:04:17.140 and what's the quickest

03:04:17.860 that you've ever hooked up

03:04:18.820 with a guy?

03:04:20.100 I mean,

03:04:20.780 I think everyone's different

03:04:21.700 and I don't like to judge

03:04:22.740 but personally,

03:04:24.120 I think it's crazy

03:04:25.500 when people just,

03:04:26.480 like,

03:04:27.060 give themselves to,

03:04:28.000 like,

03:04:28.080 anybody.

03:04:29.160 But that's just my personal opinion.

03:04:30.620 Sure.

03:04:31.020 So,

03:04:31.220 what do you think?

03:04:31.920 Do you have a third date rule?

03:04:33.360 You've never had a one-night stand

03:04:34.380 is what you're saying

03:04:34.920 in your life?

03:04:36.000 No.

03:04:36.220 Never?

03:04:36.700 I haven't been with a lot of people.

03:04:38.220 Stop the count.

03:04:39.400 Okay.

03:04:40.060 I mean.

03:04:41.000 Oh,

03:04:41.360 great.

03:04:41.820 Keep going.

03:04:42.300 So,

03:04:42.400 yeah,

03:04:43.140 so I,

03:04:43.820 that's your story.

03:04:44.840 I,

03:04:45.360 I want,

03:04:47.040 so,

03:04:47.700 this is weird to say

03:04:48.800 but I'll say anyway.

03:04:50.540 So,

03:04:50.760 when I was younger,

03:04:51.420 I'd always,

03:04:52.460 like,

03:04:52.640 I've always,

03:04:53.020 I've been in monogamous relationships.

03:04:55.460 Sure.

03:04:56.240 Never when I,

03:04:57.100 sans and whatever

03:04:58.260 and I've always thought about,

03:05:01.420 like,

03:05:01.540 my magical,

03:05:02.600 like,

03:05:02.760 futuristic,

03:05:03.420 like,

03:05:03.580 husband or person or partner

03:05:04.880 and,

03:05:05.320 like,

03:05:05.360 my forever partner.

03:05:06.320 That's always been my goal

03:05:07.040 to find that

03:05:07.640 and that's a lot of people's goals,

03:05:08.680 right?

03:05:09.360 And I always thought,

03:05:10.460 what would they want?

03:05:11.480 Because I know what I would want

03:05:12.860 and,

03:05:13.420 yes,

03:05:13.560 men and women are different

03:05:14.520 but I would want my partner

03:05:16.100 to be conscientious

03:05:17.780 and selective

03:05:18.480 and,

03:05:20.920 I don't know.

03:05:23.400 That's just me,

03:05:24.080 I guess.

03:05:24.180 I know,

03:05:25.380 it's not exciting.

03:05:26.500 It's not exciting.

03:05:27.640 What was the,

03:05:28.120 what's the least amount of time

03:05:29.040 you have waited,

03:05:29.780 though,

03:05:29.880 in your few partners?

03:05:30.680 Yeah.

03:05:31.120 Three days.

03:05:31.480 Can I get a Celsius?

03:05:32.940 You sure about that?

03:05:33.720 A few.

03:05:34.160 You sure about that?

03:05:34.840 Six months.

03:05:35.420 What?

03:05:36.120 No,

03:05:36.740 three months.

03:05:38.380 Yeah.

03:05:38.740 I'm not going to bed.

03:05:39.480 You're on fire,

03:05:40.240 my guy.

03:05:40.580 I haven't been

03:05:42.920 with a lot of people.

03:05:44.200 I just have like

03:05:45.620 long-term relationships

03:05:46.680 and I haven't had

03:05:47.880 a lot of them

03:05:48.640 so I just naturally

03:05:50.180 haven't been

03:05:50.760 with a lot of people.

03:05:51.540 What's the shortest

03:05:51.940 amount of time

03:05:52.360 I got waited?

03:05:53.080 Three months.

03:05:54.120 Three months.

03:05:54.680 Three months?

03:05:55.680 Yeah.

03:05:56.480 That's a good answer.

03:05:57.560 Mike,

03:05:58.060 would you wait

03:05:58.600 three months?

03:05:59.420 So,

03:05:59.920 I would not realize

03:06:01.900 I was waiting

03:06:02.360 three months

03:06:02.740 because I would be

03:06:03.300 dating other women.

03:06:04.780 So,

03:06:05.180 you'd keep her

03:06:05.540 on the slow burner?

03:06:06.560 I mean,

03:06:06.780 it wouldn't even

03:06:07.060 be a slow burner.

03:06:07.940 For me,

03:06:08.340 it's like every date

03:06:09.700 is a fun interaction

03:06:10.780 and then we go

03:06:11.580 and say,

03:06:11.940 oh,

03:06:12.040 well,

03:06:12.140 she doesn't want

03:06:12.480 to sleep with me?

03:06:13.000 That's fine.

03:06:13.540 Then I'm going

03:06:13.920 to go out somewhere else.

03:06:14.620 What would probably happen

03:06:15.480 is after about a month

03:06:16.240 I'd be like,

03:06:16.800 hey,

03:06:16.940 we're all going

03:06:17.260 to go on stage

03:06:17.800 to see fucking

03:06:18.520 the Chainsmokers

03:06:19.700 or Marshmallow

03:06:20.980 on stage at XS.

03:06:21.740 Do you want to come?

03:06:22.440 And she'd just go along

03:06:23.300 with me and like

03:06:23.760 seven other girls.

03:06:24.680 That's happened to me before

03:06:25.580 and then after three months

03:06:26.500 a girl's been like,

03:06:27.000 okay,

03:06:27.240 now I want to sleep with you.

03:06:28.040 That's happened before.

03:06:28.940 I just,

03:06:29.320 but no,

03:06:29.680 waiting for one girl

03:06:30.620 for three months,

03:06:31.160 that's not possible.

03:06:32.020 No.

03:06:33.980 Word.

03:06:36.320 Everybody's different.

03:06:37.060 What about you?

03:06:38.000 So,

03:06:38.460 I'm talking about

03:06:38.840 the guy who waited

03:06:39.300 for three months.

03:06:40.140 The guys.

03:06:41.200 The guys who waited

03:06:42.000 for three months.

03:06:42.460 Do you think they saw

03:06:43.740 anyone else while they

03:06:44.540 were waiting

03:06:44.860 the three months?

03:06:46.760 No.

03:06:47.340 I mean,

03:06:47.700 my boyfriend now,

03:06:49.100 like,

03:06:49.940 he waited.

03:06:51.100 He waited,

03:06:51.580 but he didn't see

03:06:52.520 and you don't think

03:06:52.980 he saw anyone else?

03:06:53.900 No.

03:06:54.440 Okay,

03:06:54.720 the one before.

03:06:55.280 He's probably watching right now.

03:06:56.260 The one before,

03:06:57.400 do you think he saw

03:06:58.380 anyone else while he

03:06:59.120 was waiting three months?

03:07:00.200 I don't think it was

03:07:00.780 exactly three months.

03:07:02.020 It was probably,

03:07:02.740 you know.

03:07:03.780 Man,

03:07:03.980 I can hear that

03:07:04.440 northern New York accent.

03:07:07.080 Can you?

03:07:07.560 Yeah,

03:07:07.800 I can hear now.

03:07:08.340 I've always told that

03:07:08.800 like I don't have

03:07:09.580 a New York accent,

03:07:10.480 but sometimes it comes out

03:07:12.200 in weird ways

03:07:13.080 and I'm like,

03:07:13.500 ugh.

03:07:13.820 Is this alcohol

03:07:14.820 in this thing?

03:07:15.580 No,

03:07:15.760 it's energy.

03:07:17.340 All right,

03:07:17.500 here we go.

03:07:17.940 I'm one here

03:07:18.580 with the next girl.

03:07:19.620 What about you?

03:07:20.960 So,

03:07:21.540 I chase men,

03:07:22.460 so normally the first night.

03:07:23.740 There we go.

03:07:24.500 Oh,

03:07:24.820 period.

03:07:25.120 I'm boring.

03:07:25.600 You know what?

03:07:26.280 Can we just shout out

03:07:27.260 honesty?

03:07:28.080 That's awesome.

03:07:30.600 When I was in

03:07:31.640 the beginning of college,

03:07:33.000 I would sleep with men

03:07:33.660 on the first day

03:07:34.340 and it ruined me.

03:07:35.480 Yeah,

03:07:35.760 absolutely.

03:07:36.780 So I stopped.

03:07:37.900 Why did it ruin you?

03:07:39.100 No,

03:07:39.260 so I stopped.

03:07:40.080 Oh,

03:07:40.300 it's not.

03:07:40.680 It's not.

03:07:41.820 What was this?

03:07:43.440 Wait,

03:07:43.960 so what's the quickest?

03:07:45.020 Like 20 minutes

03:07:45.940 or what?

03:07:46.560 Oh,

03:07:46.840 no,

03:07:47.060 normally,

03:07:47.420 well,

03:07:47.560 I mean,

03:07:47.960 I've been rejected before,

03:07:49.400 but normally like,

03:07:51.240 normally the men I chase,

03:07:52.420 I like see them from afar

03:07:53.700 and then kind of watch them

03:07:55.100 and then like observe

03:07:56.100 what kind of man they are.

03:07:57.220 Sure.

03:07:57.580 And my current relationship,

03:07:59.080 I was talking to his friend before

03:08:00.640 and then once me and the friend

03:08:02.260 didn't work,

03:08:02.900 me and his friend didn't work out,

03:08:04.320 I pursued that guy.

03:08:05.980 Period.

03:08:06.400 And I wanted to sleep with him,

03:08:07.920 of course,

03:08:08.180 the first night

03:08:09.040 because I was interested in him.

03:08:10.560 Okay.

03:08:10.880 So when you were in college?

03:08:14.320 Yeah,

03:08:14.760 I came from a Christian fundamentalist household

03:08:18.420 and then when I went to college,

03:08:19.840 like that postmodern feminism

03:08:21.460 was like spread your legs,

03:08:23.280 act like a dude

03:08:24.060 and I was like,

03:08:24.900 yeah,

03:08:25.180 hell yeah,

03:08:25.680 I should just have sex

03:08:27.060 with whoever I go on a date on

03:08:28.520 and go back to their apartment

03:08:29.440 and it's totally fine

03:08:30.900 and had to learn the hard way

03:08:32.720 that that's not how you're supposed to act,

03:08:34.120 but.

03:08:34.540 So you switched up.

03:08:35.280 I was never taught

03:08:36.960 from a young age

03:08:38.620 like really anything about sex,

03:08:40.860 so I had to figure it out on my own

03:08:42.480 and I was left to it.

03:08:43.620 Word.

03:08:43.740 I have a question.

03:08:44.080 I was left to myself

03:08:44.820 and the devices of Twitter.

03:08:46.020 Go ahead.

03:08:46.340 I have a question,

03:08:47.020 and I mean this like

03:08:47.880 from my own experience as well,

03:08:49.480 do you feel like you were sleeping

03:08:50.520 with men in college

03:08:51.540 to give you like validation for yourself?

03:08:53.480 Yeah, absolutely.

03:08:54.160 Okay.

03:08:54.520 But it was valid,

03:08:55.900 it was in,

03:08:57.140 there was a facade of

03:08:58.200 this is what feminism is,

03:09:00.100 like to the point where

03:09:01.240 I would actually write

03:09:03.300 the dude's names on a list

03:09:04.940 because it made me feel like

03:09:06.260 Oh yeah,

03:09:06.620 don't open my notes app.

03:09:07.540 I'm like powerful.

03:09:08.860 It made me feel like

03:09:09.860 Locked.

03:09:10.800 Yeah.

03:09:11.200 The notes app.

03:09:12.100 Wait, okay.

03:09:12.620 The notes app, yeah.

03:09:13.660 She had a little notes app.

03:09:14.820 She had a notch count.

03:09:16.360 I did.

03:09:16.940 I did have a notch count.

03:09:18.080 So y'all don't have

03:09:18.500 y'all body count,

03:09:19.120 y'all notes app?

03:09:20.340 I know y'all all do.

03:09:21.500 When we were in college,

03:09:22.480 doesn't that seem like a great thing?

03:09:23.800 But then we get up,

03:09:24.880 we get out of college

03:09:25.700 and then we're like

03:09:26.320 looking for a wife

03:09:27.080 and you're like,

03:09:27.500 damn.

03:09:28.200 Yeah, yeah.

03:09:31.380 Kelly, what about you?

03:09:33.280 I don't see a problem

03:09:34.660 with hooking up

03:09:36.040 with someone on the first night.

03:09:37.440 Especially as a woman,

03:09:38.320 I feel like I make the decision

03:09:39.760 if I know I'm going to sleep

03:09:40.580 with you or not

03:09:41.260 before even meeting you.

03:09:43.880 So at that point,

03:09:45.740 it's like if I find you attractive,

03:09:49.500 on the first date,

03:09:50.780 there's no problem

03:09:51.240 with me sleeping on you

03:09:51.940 on the first date.

03:09:52.620 It's where after that,

03:09:53.660 it's like if we got along

03:09:54.960 and everything went well

03:09:56.340 and it wasn't weird,

03:09:58.000 then that's where it could

03:09:58.860 eventually maybe one day

03:10:01.160 it will go into something else.

03:10:03.540 Or if not,

03:10:04.380 it will just be,

03:10:05.080 oh well, who cares?

03:10:06.080 But I don't think

03:10:06.620 there's that much of an issue

03:10:07.740 with sleeping on the first date.

03:10:08.760 Priya, what about you?

03:10:09.700 What was the first part

03:10:10.340 of the question?

03:10:11.720 How long do you think

03:10:12.600 you should wait

03:10:13.240 and what's the quickest

03:10:14.760 that you've...

03:10:15.380 I don't necessarily know

03:10:16.160 if there's a timeline on it,

03:10:17.240 but I probably would say

03:10:18.860 when you're in a committed,

03:10:21.060 monogamous relationship

03:10:22.020 once you establish that.

03:10:24.060 And the shortest

03:10:24.520 you've made a guy wait

03:10:25.180 was two years?

03:10:25.780 No, the shortest

03:10:28.100 was a little over a month.

03:10:36.740 You sure about that?

03:10:38.920 Wait, so you're saying

03:10:39.840 you'd want to be exclusive

03:10:41.520 before sleeping with someone?

03:10:45.660 Yeah.

03:10:46.080 Ideally?

03:10:46.840 Yeah.

03:10:47.660 So you don't want to

03:10:48.540 try out the car

03:10:49.980 before you buy it?

03:10:51.240 No, I would have a conversation

03:10:52.200 with that person before.

03:10:53.160 I would say that definitely

03:10:55.160 I feel like everyone's

03:10:56.380 experience would be different.

03:10:57.440 I dated a guy for four months

03:10:59.540 before I slept with him

03:11:00.360 and it was the worst sex

03:11:01.560 of my life

03:11:02.000 when we finally had sex.

03:11:02.900 Isn't that unfortunate too?

03:11:04.200 The worst thing

03:11:05.380 because he was perfect.

03:11:06.880 Like, oh my God.

03:11:07.920 It is like frustrating

03:11:08.780 because like as a woman

03:11:09.580 I feel like it's hard

03:11:10.420 to say like, oh,

03:11:11.360 like I'm leaving him

03:11:12.560 because it wasn't

03:11:13.400 like the sex wasn't good.

03:11:14.620 Yeah.

03:11:14.940 Sorry.

03:11:15.740 It does kind of

03:11:16.480 slightly matter

03:11:17.300 because yes,

03:11:18.120 I would be upset too

03:11:19.100 if I waited four months

03:11:20.140 to have sex with this man

03:11:21.160 and the sex was horrible.

03:11:23.100 Literally the worst body

03:11:23.960 of my life.

03:11:25.080 Like, but he was,

03:11:25.840 he was the perfect man though.

03:11:27.840 Like that would definitely

03:11:28.820 be something.

03:11:29.240 And they say men are superficial.

03:11:29.820 Can I ask?

03:11:30.800 Men can learn though.

03:11:31.500 What defines?

03:11:32.380 Yeah, I was going to say

03:11:33.200 I'm not going to argue

03:11:33.980 that sexual compatibility

03:11:34.920 isn't, isn't important

03:11:38.640 but I think it can also

03:11:39.760 be developed

03:11:40.360 and I think that

03:11:41.280 there are many studies

03:11:42.220 that show that women

03:11:42.900 have better sex

03:11:43.580 when they are

03:11:44.060 in long-term relationships

03:11:45.340 and I think that's because

03:11:46.740 especially women

03:11:47.600 get more and more comfortable

03:11:48.840 in the bedroom

03:11:49.500 the longer you're

03:11:50.680 with a partner

03:11:51.160 and the more comfortable

03:11:51.880 you are with that person.

03:11:52.940 It was a size thing

03:11:57.000 not a compatibility thing.

03:11:58.260 Wait, you said it was one.

03:11:58.780 How do you,

03:11:59.280 it was a size thing

03:12:00.960 not a compatibility thing.

03:12:03.420 It was,

03:12:03.440 does size matter?

03:12:07.040 Does size matter?

03:12:08.460 It wasn't a compatibility thing

03:12:10.320 it's the size.

03:12:11.040 Raise your hand

03:12:11.560 if size matters.

03:12:12.320 Yeah, we'll do

03:12:12.820 a raise of hands.

03:12:14.120 Does size matter?

03:12:15.160 No, that's hard.

03:12:16.300 Depends on what we're doing.

03:12:17.360 It's like a half raise

03:12:18.180 because to an extent

03:12:18.940 it does slightly matter.

03:12:22.340 Thickness matters.

03:12:23.500 It's not everything

03:12:24.440 but it matters.

03:12:25.380 It matters.

03:12:25.980 It's like

03:12:26.260 you can't just have

03:12:27.300 like a small dick

03:12:28.340 and not know how to

03:12:29.160 like, you know.

03:12:30.380 If you have the motion

03:12:32.200 like, good for you

03:12:33.220 but like the size

03:12:34.020 of the wave

03:12:34.880 is the most

03:12:35.660 ocean of the ocean.

03:12:37.600 I think too big

03:12:39.340 is worse than

03:12:40.440 too big.

03:12:41.680 Yes.

03:12:42.040 Or the size is like

03:12:42.660 you don't need that much.

03:12:44.440 I feel like a lot of men

03:12:45.300 don't disagree.

03:12:46.480 They don't.

03:12:47.180 But it's real.

03:12:48.260 You don't need to be bigger.

03:12:49.080 I'm sorry.

03:12:49.240 To be fair though

03:12:49.920 like this,

03:12:50.620 I think your conversation

03:12:51.720 of okay,

03:12:52.280 well the sex

03:12:53.000 wasn't great, right?

03:12:53.900 Well you said

03:12:54.320 it was primarily

03:12:54.960 because he wasn't

03:12:55.900 Yeah.

03:12:56.680 Yeah.

03:12:57.140 But like also

03:12:57.660 a guy could be like

03:12:58.520 average or above average

03:12:59.720 in size

03:13:00.300 but also be bad in bed.

03:13:01.760 Absolutely.

03:13:02.080 So, but

03:13:02.920 let's be fair though.

03:13:04.220 Let's be fair.

03:13:05.220 It's fucking

03:13:05.980 easy to be good

03:13:08.260 in bed as a woman

03:13:09.720 whereas it's

03:13:10.820 like men actually

03:13:11.660 have to put in work

03:13:12.820 to be good in bed.

03:13:13.500 I mean if you like

03:13:14.180 a girl that lays

03:13:14.740 on her back, yeah.

03:13:15.760 Yeah.

03:13:17.360 No starfishes here.

03:13:18.980 No starfishes.

03:13:19.020 I'm going to say this

03:13:21.600 and maybe this is just me

03:13:22.800 but I've heard other guys

03:13:23.600 that agree with me.

03:13:25.320 The, the,

03:13:26.020 how good the sex is

03:13:27.280 is directly proportional

03:13:28.440 to how hot she is.

03:13:29.700 Yeah.

03:13:30.220 Sorry.

03:13:30.660 I know you guys think it's

03:13:31.620 oh it's because I do

03:13:32.420 the gluck gluck 9000.

03:13:34.040 Oh I'm sorry.

03:13:34.500 Oh no.

03:13:35.360 How good the sex is for me

03:13:37.600 is directly proportional

03:13:38.660 to how hot the girl is.

03:13:40.700 Wait that's what you believe

03:13:41.620 or you do?

03:13:41.840 Yes.

03:13:42.600 It is directly proportional

03:13:43.900 to how physically attractive

03:13:45.540 the girl is.

03:13:46.020 I feel like a couple

03:13:46.880 or multiple girls.

03:13:48.380 Very much.

03:13:48.820 That is what,

03:13:49.580 that matters more

03:13:50.160 than anything else.

03:13:51.000 I've seen a couple baby moms

03:13:51.880 that prove other worlds.

03:13:52.820 Hey guys ready

03:13:53.220 I'm doing an impression.

03:13:54.020 Who am I?

03:13:54.560 Who am I?

03:13:55.000 Anybody?

03:13:55.400 Who am I?

03:13:55.760 Oh no.

03:13:56.320 Lena the plug.

03:13:57.480 I'm Lena the plug.

03:13:58.660 Oh no.

03:13:59.200 I love her.

03:13:59.880 Don't do that.

03:14:01.100 She's awesome.

03:14:01.760 Lena's awesome.

03:14:02.680 She seems so sweet.

03:14:04.280 I know.

03:14:04.920 She seems awesome.

03:14:05.680 What's the,

03:14:06.000 what I didn't say

03:14:06.480 anything wrong with her.

03:14:07.120 I just said

03:14:07.880 that I was just

03:14:08.940 making an impression

03:14:09.900 of Lena the plug.

03:14:10.660 R.I.P.

03:14:11.240 Adam 22.

03:14:12.120 No Adam 22 is awesome too.

03:14:13.660 I love Adam.

03:14:14.320 There's nothing wrong

03:14:14.860 with this.

03:14:15.200 Technically you're doing

03:14:15.800 Kim K too.

03:14:15.960 I'm just doing an impression

03:14:16.820 of Lena the plug.

03:14:17.640 Where were we?

03:14:22.680 Priya does size matter?

03:14:24.420 No well yeah it's like

03:14:25.560 because like here's

03:14:27.480 the difference right

03:14:28.160 a girl like let's say

03:14:31.300 a girl was just a

03:14:32.140 pillow princess like

03:14:33.680 you put a guy in that

03:14:34.400 situation maybe it's

03:14:35.220 not like ideal for him

03:14:36.120 maybe he wants the girl

03:14:36.940 to be a bit more

03:14:37.540 involved but like you

03:14:38.740 put a guy into that

03:14:39.540 situation where a girl

03:14:40.380 is a pillow princess

03:14:41.300 he could still come

03:14:43.600 however if like most

03:14:45.760 and there's this talk

03:14:47.360 of like orgasm gaps

03:14:48.800 granted I think it's

03:14:50.120 a good thing with

03:14:50.600 if women orgasm

03:14:51.700 but I don't know

03:14:55.560 what I'm doing.

03:14:56.240 No no I did on that.

03:14:57.440 Hold on let me finish

03:14:58.020 my point.

03:14:58.960 So there's this talk

03:15:01.460 of orgasm gaps

03:15:02.540 and like feminists

03:15:03.200 are all up in arms

03:15:04.120 about oh women

03:15:04.880 aren't climaxing

03:15:06.300 and all this shit.

03:15:07.160 To be fair it's harder

03:15:08.640 to make a woman

03:15:09.240 climax than it is

03:15:10.520 to make a man

03:15:11.060 climax.

03:15:11.820 Not in all situations

03:15:12.760 there's some women

03:15:13.940 who are like insanely

03:15:15.100 orgasmic where they'll

03:15:16.100 come in 10 seconds

03:15:17.040 and they can have

03:15:18.480 multiple orgasms

03:15:19.760 however the orgasm

03:15:21.260 response in women

03:15:22.120 is so much more

03:15:23.260 varied than it is

03:15:24.500 men are fairly simple

03:15:25.860 on that front

03:15:26.460 whereas women

03:15:27.440 there can be totally

03:15:28.200 different major

03:15:29.240 differences between

03:15:30.020 the two.

03:15:30.440 The main thing I

03:15:33.360 would point out is

03:15:34.300 the main thing I

03:15:34.900 would point out is

03:15:35.640 a guy if a girl

03:15:37.180 was just literally

03:15:38.160 laying there doing

03:15:39.000 nothing 99% of men

03:15:41.220 couldn't like if

03:15:42.400 they were having

03:15:42.820 set intercourse with

03:15:43.740 you could make

03:15:44.620 themselves come.

03:15:45.460 If the guy was

03:15:46.720 just laying there

03:15:47.820 how many of you

03:15:48.860 could make

03:15:49.300 yourselves come

03:15:50.280 putting in work?

03:15:52.660 I think a lot of

03:15:53.500 women do right?

03:15:54.320 They get on top

03:15:55.040 and they do it

03:15:56.220 themselves.

03:15:56.760 And he's not

03:15:57.180 doing anything.

03:15:58.060 Well that's not

03:15:58.680 I'm not speaking

03:15:59.380 I'm not saying

03:15:59.760 that's what I'm

03:16:00.260 saying.

03:16:00.560 I would not be

03:16:01.800 happy with that.

03:16:02.320 If I could,

03:16:02.680 could I make it

03:16:03.360 happen?

03:16:03.820 Yeah I could.

03:16:04.620 There's just a

03:16:04.960 little engine that

03:16:05.640 could.

03:16:06.020 It's not ideal.

03:16:06.940 That's fine but I

03:16:08.100 I mean most I

03:16:10.120 think a lot of

03:16:10.660 women need a lot

03:16:12.840 of women.

03:16:13.200 Yes in general

03:16:13.820 you're right.

03:16:14.700 A lot of women

03:16:15.360 need either some

03:16:16.340 sort of clitoral

03:16:17.020 stimulation.

03:16:17.800 There's going to

03:16:18.340 need to be some

03:16:18.980 sort of stimulation

03:16:19.680 but like I would

03:16:21.240 say can some

03:16:22.200 women make

03:16:22.940 themselves come if

03:16:23.640 the guy's just

03:16:24.040 fucking laying on

03:16:25.120 his back?

03:16:26.380 Sure some women

03:16:26.980 can but I'd say

03:16:27.620 most like probably

03:16:29.140 most can't and

03:16:30.360 also there's a lot

03:16:31.280 there's a fair

03:16:32.180 subset of women who

03:16:33.400 can't even make

03:16:34.020 themselves come.

03:16:35.260 So this demands

03:16:36.480 that like oh

03:16:37.120 there's an orgasm

03:16:37.880 gap I think it's

03:16:38.420 kind of bogus but

03:16:39.120 so yeah.

03:16:40.940 Well I think there

03:16:41.400 is an orgasm gap

03:16:42.240 because you said

03:16:42.540 it's harder for

03:16:43.240 women to come right

03:16:44.400 so like that's the

03:16:45.200 gap in and of

03:16:45.720 itself.

03:16:45.820 There's a gap but

03:16:46.500 they blame men.

03:16:48.160 The blame is on

03:16:49.220 men.

03:16:49.520 Men don't care about

03:16:50.240 women's orgasms but

03:16:51.240 the fact of the

03:16:51.680 matter is there's a

03:16:53.120 decent subset of

03:16:54.180 women that can't

03:16:55.660 even make themselves

03:16:56.620 climax.

03:16:57.140 Yeah.

03:16:57.680 Through masturbation

03:16:58.400 even alone and

03:16:59.920 then like there's

03:17:00.840 there there there's

03:17:02.600 nothing to be said

03:17:03.320 for the greater

03:17:04.420 difficulty in terms

03:17:06.040 of being able to

03:17:07.460 make a woman come

03:17:08.360 versus a man come.

03:17:08.720 Or what that does

03:17:09.400 to a man's ego or

03:17:10.540 like his performance

03:17:11.760 anxiety or anything

03:17:13.080 like that.

03:17:14.280 Word.

03:17:14.700 There are times

03:17:15.140 where I'm just like

03:17:15.780 in my head or like

03:17:17.100 just really not able

03:17:18.660 to and just there's

03:17:20.260 like a whole complex

03:17:21.020 situation going on

03:17:22.000 that he's completely

03:17:22.620 unaware of.

03:17:23.220 I do want to bring

03:17:23.940 it back here really

03:17:25.180 quick to our

03:17:25.880 discussions of the

03:17:27.720 guy making the guy

03:17:28.860 who you like wait

03:17:30.760 for sex but the guy

03:17:31.700 who you don't see

03:17:32.300 any long-term

03:17:32.760 potential the Chad

03:17:33.760 the really good

03:17:34.240 looking guy the guy

03:17:35.500 when you're traveling

03:17:36.280 when he's traveling

03:17:37.580 he's in town for a

03:17:39.040 night you sleeping

03:17:40.380 with him really quick

03:17:41.220 so I have I have two

03:17:42.200 scenarios I'd like to

03:17:43.060 paint and I want your

03:17:43.720 guys's feedback on

03:17:44.620 this so thoughts on

03:17:46.420 the scenario you've

03:17:47.560 been in the situation

03:17:48.300 excuse me you've been

03:17:49.500 on in the situation

03:17:50.320 with the guy for six

03:17:51.260 months you really

03:17:52.220 like him you want

03:17:53.740 him to commit to you

03:17:54.540 but he says he likes

03:17:55.500 to take things slow

03:17:56.300 somehow you find out

03:17:57.920 that the last three

03:17:58.660 girls he had a

03:17:59.400 committed relationship

03:18:00.260 with he initiated

03:18:01.920 the commitment

03:18:02.480 conversation after only

03:18:03.680 three weeks of dating

03:18:04.640 how does that make you

03:18:06.080 feel?

03:18:07.800 Well if he got through

03:18:09.060 three relationships

03:18:09.940 like if three of them

03:18:12.540 didn't work maybe he

03:18:13.600 does need to slow down

03:18:14.720 you know like why

03:18:15.840 three weeks in you're

03:18:17.220 talking about commitment

03:18:18.040 I don't think three

03:18:18.680 weeks is even enough

03:18:19.380 time to know if you

03:18:20.520 want to be committed

03:18:21.020 to a person I

03:18:21.840 actually I mean I

03:18:24.100 actually don't think

03:18:24.820 that three weeks

03:18:25.860 depending on how many

03:18:27.340 times how many times

03:18:28.320 you've hung out with

03:18:28.860 someone is is all that

03:18:30.580 long it's exactly so

03:18:32.220 it's like he she's

03:18:33.080 finding out oh he had

03:18:34.040 this conversation three

03:18:36.060 weeks after with these

03:18:37.000 girls you shouldn't

03:18:37.640 feel tired well you

03:18:38.240 should be lucky he's

03:18:38.880 not having that

03:18:39.280 conversation with you

03:18:39.840 I would be scared if

03:18:40.580 a guy was talking

03:18:41.040 about committing to

03:18:41.540 me after three weeks

03:18:42.360 like barely know me

03:18:44.340 so it's like maybe he

03:18:45.640 learned his lesson it

03:18:46.880 was all right good at

03:18:47.840 least you're not trying

03:18:48.560 to commit in the

03:18:49.340 first month let's

03:18:50.240 take it slow but six

03:18:51.120 months I think you

03:18:52.560 need to know what you

03:18:53.100 want by six months at

03:18:54.680 least I think most

03:18:56.100 women would feel like

03:18:56.800 shit yeah six months

03:18:58.160 have you no I mean

03:18:59.200 like most women feel

03:19:00.100 like shit if they found

03:19:01.200 out that like the guy

03:19:02.620 slept with the

03:19:03.260 let's not let's not

03:19:04.380 hyper focus on the

03:19:05.580 okay if you think

03:19:07.220 three weeks is too

03:19:08.180 too soon to have the

03:19:09.740 commitment talk fine

03:19:10.580 the point is is that

03:19:12.300 in all his past

03:19:13.200 relationships he

03:19:14.040 initiated the

03:19:14.780 commitment conversation

03:19:15.860 if you want to change

03:19:17.440 the timeline to two

03:19:18.400 months so it's more

03:19:19.540 plausible that's fine

03:19:20.600 but he hasn't done it

03:19:23.580 with you if a guy wants

03:19:26.320 to date you you'll know

03:19:27.980 that like isn't that

03:19:29.640 well that's what I've

03:19:30.480 been learning from the

03:19:31.080 boys they'll know they'll

03:19:32.200 know and so when a guy

03:19:33.340 usually says I want to

03:19:34.320 take it slow or whatever

03:19:35.340 usually that's like a red

03:19:36.440 flag sign like usually

03:19:37.680 six months or whatever

03:19:39.880 usually they know right

03:19:41.060 off the bat after first

03:19:42.140 or second date if you're

03:19:43.380 you know obviously

03:19:44.540 they'll get to know

03:19:45.220 you more but yeah

03:19:46.860 okay fine let me give

03:19:47.880 you let me give you

03:19:48.780 another analogy to try

03:19:50.500 to paint correct okay

03:19:51.500 all right um so don't

03:19:54.980 shoot the messenger here

03:19:55.820 so making a man wait

03:19:58.160 while you smashed the

03:20:00.320 hot dude that you knew

03:20:01.900 you weren't going to

03:20:02.420 commit to just hooking up

03:20:03.800 with a bunch of dudes

03:20:04.480 uh so making the man

03:20:06.120 wait while you smash

03:20:06.880 Chad after a few beers

03:20:08.180 on a slow Tuesday would

03:20:09.580 be like me going to

03:20:10.820 McDonald's and while

03:20:12.360 everyone else is eating

03:20:13.500 they're paid one dollar

03:20:14.520 for that cheeseburger the

03:20:16.420 clerks look at me and

03:20:17.540 says it's a thousand

03:20:18.640 dollars for you sir

03:20:19.660 means you're special by

03:20:21.840 the way this is an

03:20:22.440 analogy don't I'm not

03:20:23.900 trying you're calling

03:20:24.800 women no I tried to say

03:20:26.000 the same thing earlier

03:20:26.880 like that's exactly my

03:20:28.100 point it's like you guys

03:20:28.880 when you say this kind of

03:20:29.940 stuff it's like hey I

03:20:31.420 don't want to commit to

03:20:32.760 you you're just a hot guy

03:20:33.900 I'm on a date with so I'm

03:20:35.300 gonna have sex with you

03:20:36.280 immediately and then you

03:20:37.140 meet some other guy who's

03:20:38.220 a gentleman to you're like

03:20:39.120 wow I see long-term

03:20:40.340 potential I'm gonna make

03:20:41.800 him wait if those two

03:20:42.820 dudes ever meet if there

03:20:44.820 was a place where men

03:20:45.680 like that ever shared

03:20:46.540 stories like the

03:20:48.200 Manosphere then they

03:20:49.700 then then they're not

03:20:50.940 going to allow that

03:20:52.400 behavior and they're

03:20:53.120 gonna be like wait she

03:20:54.500 didn't make you wait she

03:20:55.580 let you fuck on the

03:20:56.340 first date but she's

03:20:57.500 making me wait for you

03:20:58.820 guys you think no no no

03:21:00.040 you're a relationship guy

03:21:01.720 you're special that's not

03:21:03.340 how he feels though he

03:21:04.640 doesn't feel special

03:21:05.720 because you had sex with

03:21:07.160 the other guy on the

03:21:07.740 first date that's why

03:21:08.580 so you can't tell people

03:21:09.500 how they feel wait what

03:21:11.500 you're saying you can't

03:21:13.560 tell me how to feel I'm

03:21:14.580 gonna tell you how to

03:21:15.020 feel I'm telling you how

03:21:15.620 the guy feels exactly how

03:21:16.640 you're gonna say he feels

03:21:18.020 that way how do you know

03:21:18.840 that a guy well guys have

03:21:20.280 to put in work serious

03:21:21.520 like that's all they sit

03:21:22.640 there and comment about

03:21:23.260 this all whole time you

03:21:24.020 really think guys don't

03:21:24.880 feel that way you really

03:21:25.780 think a guy who's trying

03:21:26.760 to be in a relationship

03:21:27.340 with you is not gonna be

03:21:28.360 bothered by the fact that

03:21:29.180 you let a bunch of other

03:21:29.980 dudes fuck on the first

03:21:31.100 date while you made him

03:21:32.060 that made what you made

03:21:33.200 him wait a month you

03:21:34.140 really I mean why are you

03:21:36.540 concerned about guys I'm

03:21:38.860 just saying like why

03:21:39.580 would the guy be

03:21:40.260 concerned about guys

03:21:41.380 because body count

03:21:42.080 matters because it does

03:21:42.900 it matters to them

03:21:43.600 rarely because I feel

03:21:45.020 like what matters is

03:21:46.040 those test results

03:21:47.140 because you can have a

03:21:47.960 body count of three

03:21:48.820 and have the most

03:21:49.740 baddest disease in the

03:21:50.660 world there's literally

03:21:52.780 studies from there's

03:21:54.220 there's literally studies

03:21:55.280 that show that as women

03:21:56.400 have more sexual

03:21:57.780 partners before marriage

03:21:58.760 the likelihood of them

03:21:59.580 being happy in a

03:22:00.380 marriage decreases but

03:22:01.520 it's not the same thing

03:22:02.800 that happens for men

03:22:03.500 it's not the same thing

03:22:04.580 for men absolutely

03:22:05.600 when you have when you

03:22:06.800 so it does matter it

03:22:07.740 would matter to me if

03:22:08.560 you've had if you let a

03:22:09.740 bunch of dudes smash on

03:22:10.760 the first day for sure

03:22:11.880 and you made me wait

03:22:13.220 a bunch if you have a

03:22:14.320 roster you better hold

03:22:15.460 on you better forget if

03:22:16.500 we ever bump into each

03:22:17.600 other and then I found

03:22:18.880 out that he you didn't

03:22:19.920 make him wait you make

03:22:21.060 me wait you're salty

03:22:22.320 that I let a guy smash

03:22:23.700 and like what like I

03:22:24.780 don't know if you have a

03:22:26.320 roster of guys you like

03:22:27.320 smash on the first day

03:22:28.100 yeah I'd be a little

03:22:28.980 salty that like I wasn't

03:22:30.000 on that roster you should

03:22:30.820 just let me smash too

03:22:31.720 but you know but it's

03:22:32.600 like if it's like okay I

03:22:33.820 found I ran to this one

03:22:35.080 guy that you let smash

03:22:36.280 on the first day and

03:22:37.820 I'm the one guy that

03:22:38.600 you didn't let smash on

03:22:39.320 the one day are you

03:22:39.840 really gonna be salty

03:22:40.620 about that I'm telling

03:22:41.860 you a lot of guys would

03:22:42.520 yes unequivocally most

03:22:44.120 men would yes absolutely

03:22:45.060 like I'm not this is not

03:22:48.480 meant to be inflammatory

03:22:49.500 at all but this is what I

03:22:50.560 was talking about when I

03:22:51.280 say like the chasm

03:22:52.060 between men and women

03:22:52.920 like he's trying to tell

03:22:54.380 you that like men feel a

03:22:55.800 certain type of way and

03:22:57.000 you're trying to say like

03:22:57.980 well why that doesn't

03:22:59.500 make sense it's like well

03:23:00.480 we when we talk to men we

03:23:02.060 want them to understand how

03:23:03.040 we feel in certain

03:23:03.780 situations like we need

03:23:05.040 to open our ears you know

03:23:06.100 what I mean and like

03:23:06.660 listen to what they're

03:23:07.320 saying I was just

03:23:07.920 speaking from my

03:23:08.440 experience like I've

03:23:09.820 yeah I wasn't trying to

03:23:10.440 like yeah yeah no I

03:23:11.180 absolutely understand I've

03:23:12.160 been in relationships one

03:23:13.800 one not gonna lie one of

03:23:14.780 my first long-term

03:23:15.520 relationships was one of

03:23:16.580 my first my last long

03:23:17.320 term relationship I did

03:23:18.500 sleep with him on the

03:23:18.900 first date but I didn't

03:23:20.180 see a relationship with

03:23:21.080 him we still were friends

03:23:22.320 and I was like you know

03:23:22.780 what maybe we could

03:23:23.460 pursue this after you know

03:23:25.000 but it just goes from

03:23:26.760 there I guess like it all

03:23:27.880 goes off of vibe like I

03:23:29.580 can date a guy like I

03:23:30.640 said for four months and

03:23:31.800 then sleep with him and

03:23:32.520 it's the worst decision

03:23:33.100 of my life or I can

03:23:33.780 sleep with him the first

03:23:34.300 date and it'd be a solid

03:23:35.560 decision or I can sleep

03:23:36.940 with him first date and

03:23:37.520 not want to pursue you

03:23:38.220 after like right I my

03:23:40.500 personal take on this

03:23:41.620 look if you previously

03:23:43.380 slept with for example

03:23:44.560 20 guys first night then

03:23:46.420 I come along and then

03:23:47.560 you're gonna make me

03:23:48.160 wait you want to make me

03:23:49.460 wait for dates maybe you

03:23:51.120 had a change of heart and

03:23:52.480 that's just your standard

03:23:54.100 moving forward again it's

03:23:56.560 your body it's a hundred

03:23:57.600 percent your choice I

03:23:58.420 wouldn't try to like

03:23:59.160 pressure a girl into it

03:24:00.920 however we we men are

03:24:03.180 within our right to also

03:24:04.320 view that and be like

03:24:05.400 what the fuck absolutely

03:24:06.580 like absolutely but how

03:24:08.160 many guys sleep on the

03:24:09.500 first night you know like

03:24:10.900 the roles reverse with

03:24:12.520 guys like guys are it's

03:24:13.760 so socially acceptable

03:24:14.640 for guys to do whatever

03:24:15.920 they want especially in a

03:24:17.080 sexual manner like and

03:24:18.600 it also goes back to

03:24:19.880 culture and especially

03:24:20.740 like most cultures are

03:24:22.700 okay with guys doing

03:24:24.000 whatever like literally

03:24:25.140 like I'm personally Latina

03:24:26.800 and in Latina culture guys

03:24:28.660 can do whatever they want

03:24:30.000 that's true and they are

03:24:30.600 not scrutinized by their

03:24:31.380 mothers grandmothers

03:24:32.300 nobody and it's a it's

03:24:34.100 like it goes it goes back

03:24:36.220 to fucking decades and

03:24:38.040 and centuries of just

03:24:39.520 breeding masculinity and

03:24:42.140 in some cases a lot of

03:24:43.180 cases toxic masculinity but

03:24:44.560 it's just like as soon as

03:24:45.360 a woman does something

03:24:46.760 that's like no such thing

03:24:47.540 as toxic masculinity

03:24:49.480 there are toxic people and

03:24:51.420 those toxic people can be

03:24:52.440 masculine or feminine but

03:24:53.880 when the man pulls you out

03:24:55.300 of your burning building

03:24:56.240 you don't give a fuck

03:24:57.460 how masculine he is he

03:24:58.900 there's no too masculine

03:25:00.220 then masculinity is

03:25:01.840 masculinity femininity is

03:25:03.460 femininity there is such

03:25:04.160 thing as toxic masculinity

03:25:05.040 there is no

03:25:05.540 so toxic masculinity was a

03:25:08.940 term created in the 1990s

03:25:10.620 when psychologists were

03:25:11.700 trying to study violent

03:25:12.820 offenders in prison when

03:25:14.060 guys would step on each

03:25:14.900 other's toes and then

03:25:15.620 they would start stabbing

03:25:16.440 each other it was just a

03:25:17.680 term that was used by

03:25:18.760 those psychiatrists to

03:25:20.040 determine a type of

03:25:21.360 behavior where men would

03:25:22.420 resort to extreme levels of

03:25:23.840 violence for no reason

03:25:25.000 and then somehow

03:25:25.840 mainstream psychology got

03:25:27.640 a hold of it and became

03:25:28.540 this pop term there is no

03:25:30.000 such thing as toxic

03:25:30.760 masculinity there is just

03:25:31.820 masculinity and then

03:25:32.980 there are some people who

03:25:33.800 are toxic that has nothing

03:25:35.100 to do with each other I

03:25:35.840 can show you tons of

03:25:36.580 people who are extremely

03:25:37.940 toxic online and some of

03:25:39.480 them are masculine and

03:25:40.240 some are feminine but the

03:25:41.120 two are mutually exclusive

03:25:42.280 the idea of toxic

03:25:43.780 masculinity is to shame

03:25:45.060 men for doing things that

03:25:46.540 other people don't agree

03:25:47.380 with there is no such

03:25:48.440 thing as toxic masculinity

03:25:49.300 already so that's fine maybe

03:25:54.040 the word might not be using

03:25:55.560 the right word but there is

03:25:57.140 it doesn't matter like it's a

03:25:58.380 man's world at the end of

03:25:59.680 the day it really is and men

03:26:01.380 are socially acceptable it's

03:26:02.940 acceptable for a man to like

03:26:04.300 have sex with so many women

03:26:05.840 but as soon as it's a woman

03:26:06.940 doing that it's like crazy it

03:26:10.020 does it does go back to

03:26:11.120 biology well because the reason

03:26:12.620 why that it's it's socially

03:26:14.700 acceptable and men get so much

03:26:16.480 praise for it is because it's

03:26:18.140 a lot harder for a man to get

03:26:19.620 laid than a woman so when a

03:26:21.160 woman a woman can 10 out of

03:26:23.080 10 most of the time a woman

03:26:24.900 will get laid 10 out of 10 a

03:26:27.280 man is not going to be 10 out

03:26:28.520 of 10 so a man has to work a

03:26:30.160 lot harder to have sex I don't

03:26:31.500 give a fuck yeah they say they

03:26:32.740 have to work a lot harder it is

03:26:33.940 what it is like it is yeah it's

03:26:35.280 okay for a man to have sex with

03:26:36.940 whoever have one nightstand do

03:26:38.180 whatever it's not okay I mean

03:26:39.200 the Catholic Church would say

03:26:40.280 that it's not okay okay but the

03:26:41.660 Catholic Church also rapes kids

03:26:42.780 so what are we talking about

03:26:43.720 I don't know I don't know that

03:26:47.560 actually that was not the word

03:26:49.620 but we're gonna delete that I

03:26:51.100 don't I don't the Protestant

03:26:52.600 church the Protestant church would

03:26:53.920 have a problem with it okay the

03:26:55.380 there's a bunch of places that

03:26:56.900 would have a problem with it I

03:26:58.160 was right it wasn't like to be

03:27:00.360 like you know like here let's

03:27:02.340 let's let's stay focused we were

03:27:04.060 talking about the we were talking

03:27:06.140 about like a girl who's slept with

03:27:08.220 30 dudes first date then you as

03:27:10.420 the relationship guy come along and

03:27:12.540 then she wants to make you wait

03:27:13.400 three months kind of ridiculous I

03:27:15.000 know I remember and I think this

03:27:17.060 was must must have been six months

03:27:18.240 ago I was on a date with a girl

03:27:19.800 she was in her 30s you know she's

03:27:21.500 probably I didn't ask her body

03:27:24.000 count but let's you know probably

03:27:25.420 10 20 30 plus whatever she had

03:27:27.860 told me you know we were talking

03:27:29.560 about past relationships she said

03:27:31.100 that the last guy she dated she'd

03:27:32.500 been dating him for one or two years

03:27:33.860 she was like oh yeah actually the way

03:27:35.520 we met is I was staying at his

03:27:37.100 Airbnb and then like I check in and

03:27:39.540 then like literally the night I move

03:27:40.940 in like we fucked I'm like okay cool

03:27:43.460 and then like you know I was you

03:27:46.840 know whatever we were on a date and

03:27:49.380 she was into me and then like we were

03:27:51.720 hanging out but she was like oh no I

03:27:55.200 think I think we're I kind of want to

03:27:57.160 like wait you know I think a lot of

03:28:00.740 women and like bro it's it's like it's

03:28:03.520 like look that's your call but like this

03:28:07.480 your last fucking relationship that was

03:28:09.900 a long-term relationship so it wasn't

03:28:11.460 evidence of like oh it's just a one-night

03:28:13.040 stand and it's like I'm gonna look at

03:28:14.860 that I'm gonna be like I actually no

03:28:16.820 longer want a relationship with a girl

03:28:18.340 like I I now because you're you're

03:28:20.700 you're playing a game because it's not

03:28:22.560 your genuine standard it's just like

03:28:24.500 either I either think one of two things

03:28:26.600 I think like you're playing you're

03:28:28.460 playing a game with me you're using

03:28:30.640 sex as leverage to secure a

03:28:32.860 relationship no right resources not

03:28:35.360 even relationship just attention and

03:28:37.340 resources you're using this leverage

03:28:39.780 or I just I honestly the thing that

03:28:41.540 strikes me is you're just not that

03:28:43.200 fucking into me because like I want

03:28:45.940 that you know this is Rolo's thing

03:28:47.280 genuine burning desire shout out Rolo

03:28:49.200 it's mossy by the rational mail like if

03:28:52.980 all your previous relationships like you

03:28:55.280 had this one standard if all your

03:28:57.440 previous relationships your standard

03:28:58.820 was hmm okay I'm gonna wait four

03:29:01.740 dates that's fair I I get that but you

03:29:04.820 just fucked a guy two weeks ago and

03:29:06.240 now you want me to wait two months

03:29:07.840 like get the fuck like again it's your

03:29:09.820 call but I'm like I've just I'm like

03:29:13.220 okay she's not she's either not into me

03:29:15.160 or she's like basically playing a game

03:29:17.340 so then at that point I've just lost

03:29:19.040 interest what game do you think she's

03:29:20.900 playing just she's using sex as

03:29:22.600 leverage a lot of and like I don't if

03:29:24.860 because it's not a genuine standard of

03:29:27.420 hers because if two months ago you

03:29:29.260 fucked a guy immediately then it's not a

03:29:31.380 genuine standard you have when it comes

03:29:32.900 to your sexuality you would you think

03:29:34.460 differently if like she had like lived

03:29:36.680 one way in her past but like had it

03:29:38.560 created a new standard for herself like

03:29:40.620 going forward it's not what's going on

03:29:42.180 in the situation though but that's yeah

03:29:43.380 that's not what's going on like if like

03:29:45.640 for the past five years like that's been

03:29:47.400 her new standard she had some fucking

03:29:49.160 wild times in college even then that's

03:29:51.660 not that's not ideal because as me and

03:29:55.440 Mike were saying and a couple other

03:29:56.440 people were saying like obviously body

03:29:57.840 count matters but um strictly from a

03:30:00.940 behavioral sense uh yeah not not great

03:30:05.360 but it's more understandable if like

03:30:07.280 she's changed but right right

03:30:09.520 hey guys by the way everything we're

03:30:11.560 saying it comes down to do you find

03:30:13.780 someone who accepts those things you're

03:30:15.140 right if you say the guy doesn't care

03:30:17.180 that I had multiple bodies that's fine

03:30:19.080 I'm just telling you most high status

03:30:20.360 men are not going to behave that way

03:30:21.440 they're not it's just a it's just a

03:30:23.200 function of uh statistics that's it

03:30:25.300 uh she was you were saying something

03:30:26.380 oh I think if I'm understanding

03:30:29.620 correctly it's less that you're saying

03:30:31.120 that it's you know you're just not

03:30:33.480 judging somebody for you know sleeping

03:30:35.820 with someone like on the first date or

03:30:37.480 fourth date or whatever it's just like

03:30:38.800 from man's standpoint it doesn't make

03:30:41.320 sense well it's the fact that you're

03:30:44.300 holding the standard to to just him and

03:30:47.500 not everybody else that you've had these

03:30:49.180 you've had an epiphany and now you've

03:30:51.160 gotten right with God and now you go to

03:30:53.300 your yoga class and your third chakra

03:30:55.620 is open and now you've decided you make

03:30:58.140 men wait when all the other men didn't

03:30:59.960 that's fine if you believe that I'm just

03:31:01.340 not going to sit around and wait for

03:31:02.360 that that sounds ridiculous it kind of

03:31:04.020 oh sorry yeah I mean it kind of makes

03:31:07.460 the guy who you're making weight feel a

03:31:10.320 little scammed like it's not like a

03:31:13.020 genuine thing that like a genuine

03:31:16.660 standard that you actually have it I

03:31:18.580 don't know it's like you read some

03:31:20.160 bullshit in the magazine oh you should

03:31:21.740 make guys wait oh let me try it and

03:31:23.480 then like I don't know it's just kind of

03:31:24.920 there's a lot of stuff out there that's

03:31:26.320 saying you should make guys wait yeah

03:31:27.520 that's easy for women to be messing

03:31:29.780 around with non-quality guys for so long

03:31:32.420 that when they do get a quality guys

03:31:33.760 like you say they try to find any which

03:31:35.740 way to hold on and they don't actually

03:31:37.360 have rational or real reason the way

03:31:39.200 real ways to actually do that they just

03:31:40.880 make up ways in there I slept with my

03:31:42.880 boyfriend the first night and he's a

03:31:44.220 quality man so same thing yeah well would

03:31:48.600 you believe would you believe that girl

03:31:50.060 that girl that like you know that you're

03:31:52.600 just mentioning if she said that like

03:31:54.120 like she screwed that guy but like she

03:31:56.460 wanted you to wait because like she

03:31:57.840 didn't want you to think like lesser of

03:31:59.440 her like she really like wanted to take

03:32:00.920 it slow with you have that conversation

03:32:02.480 I can explain to her that's nonsense

03:32:04.100 like I'm actually curious well my

03:32:07.100 personal view is and look there are

03:32:08.720 certainly men out there who if they

03:32:10.960 will judge a woman if that woman

03:32:12.760 sleeps with them too quickly my

03:32:14.400 personal view is while that could

03:32:16.540 potentially be an indicator for example

03:32:18.200 promiscuity I don't think it's

03:32:19.920 necessarily like if a woman sleeps with

03:32:22.140 you quickly it doesn't necessarily

03:32:23.780 mean that she's slept with a bunch of

03:32:25.860 men or she's promiscuous so so I have a

03:32:29.600 question for you guys then me personally

03:32:31.040 all of my long-term relationships that

03:32:32.940 many of them have been really wonderful

03:32:34.800 relationships with great girls almost

03:32:38.280 all of them within the first three

03:32:40.200 dates okay one girl on the second day

03:32:42.760 one girl on the first day what some

03:32:44.280 guys are like okay if she gives it up

03:32:46.080 too quick then she's for the streets

03:32:48.340 that's not my that's not my view but

03:32:51.660 some guys do have that view I get

03:32:53.000 confused as a woman sometimes like

03:32:54.620 really like grappling with this because

03:32:56.240 it's like you don't want to give it up

03:32:57.400 too quickly because you don't want the

03:32:58.320 guy to think that you're ho but then

03:32:59.840 if you really like the guy like it's

03:33:02.460 kind of like a what do I do like how

03:33:04.680 is he gonna view me sort of thing yeah

03:33:06.540 well which is what you're saying is

03:33:07.640 like you're not being genuine to your

03:33:08.800 standard sure you're kind of like

03:33:10.380 fixing it based off of like the dude

03:33:12.340 and at least for me personally like if

03:33:15.320 if I sleep with a girl I me personally

03:33:17.840 I have and maybe I'm an outlier in this

03:33:20.200 I have no interest in sleeping with a

03:33:21.600 girl once to me it's just a waste of

03:33:23.140 time like if I sleep with a girl I want

03:33:24.920 there to be a continuity maybe maybe we

03:33:27.180 only hang out three four times but like

03:33:30.640 I do genuinely want to at least try to

03:33:32.980 pursue something I'm not interested in

03:33:34.760 one-night stand it's not worth my time

03:33:36.360 I view it as a waste of time and also

03:33:40.100 just even if your motivation was purely

03:33:42.280 sexual or excuse me even if your

03:33:44.580 motivation was purely just to get sex I

03:33:46.700 actually think that first off having the

03:33:49.000 first time you have sex with someone

03:33:50.180 really I personally don't think it's

03:33:52.340 gonna be the best yeah I think sex is

03:33:53.840 better at like the more you've got sex

03:33:56.880 with them you know so one just on a

03:33:59.940 purely physical level you know what they

03:34:02.820 like they know what you like there you

03:34:04.580 build a comfort so I think that makes

03:34:06.860 the sex better but me personally yeah I'm

03:34:09.320 not interested in one-night stands I do

03:34:12.000 if I sleep with a girl I'd want to

03:34:14.320 continue sleeping with her and so would

03:34:17.060 you disavow like like you know like the

03:34:19.140 fresh and fit idea of like recreational

03:34:20.800 use versus like relationship use for a

03:34:24.100 woman you know what I mean well there's

03:34:25.600 signs that you would see that would tell

03:34:27.360 you this girl has red flags but one of

03:34:29.040 those signs would be sleeping with

03:34:30.420 somebody on the first date no they just

03:34:31.960 said that it's not considered I said

03:34:33.420 that I'm not sure I don't want to

03:34:35.760 speak on behalf of them because I don't

03:34:37.100 I I haven't I'm haven't been keeping

03:34:39.840 tabs specifically on what they're

03:34:41.180 talking points are but what so what was

03:34:45.420 the basically the idea is that it's a

03:34:48.720 red flag if she sleeps with you on the

03:34:49.980 first date I mean that's some guys

03:34:51.100 opinions so I don't that's a good way

03:34:53.840 to say to like if you'd be trying to

03:34:55.800 be a value woman if you want to look

03:34:58.080 out for what men are looking for right

03:35:00.000 right right so too many of my friends

03:35:01.740 that are married married couples and

03:35:03.620 they slept together on the first date

03:35:04.760 like I just know too many of them so

03:35:06.140 much traction and they just did it so

03:35:07.820 like I don't know I don't know what

03:35:09.480 like the right answer is there but I

03:35:11.200 think the thing we're saying is by the

03:35:13.500 way if you can find someone to to

03:35:15.120 believe in whatever your standard is

03:35:16.820 then you can get away with anything you

03:35:18.340 want right but in this case if you

03:35:20.620 consistently sleep with guys on the

03:35:22.040 first date and then you make what this

03:35:23.920 last guy wait the thing is I it's

03:35:26.620 dudes know everything now I'm sorry

03:35:29.060 ladies like there's this digital

03:35:30.160 footprint that you have you think

03:35:31.680 you're gonna get away with it just do

03:35:33.020 it's not that you can't keep a secret

03:35:34.480 is that dudes run their fucking mouth

03:35:36.480 about how many girls they've fucked and

03:35:38.400 they're gonna tell it just depends if

03:35:40.040 you're honest or not like I'm

03:35:41.180 personally honest like if someone was

03:35:42.500 to ask me like what's up like hey

03:35:44.340 what is your sexual history I'd be

03:35:45.900 like it's this you know and then we

03:35:48.020 all just we can decide together then

03:35:49.740 so it's like that would only happen

03:35:51.560 they're like sneaking around or

03:35:52.720 finding out if the person's not

03:35:54.080 honest and then it just goes back to

03:35:55.200 that person's character and who they

03:35:56.780 are I don't understand you guys are

03:35:58.240 talking when you meet someone and

03:35:59.960 you're saying okay how many people

03:36:01.480 people in your past have you slept

03:36:02.920 with on the first day conversation

03:36:04.600 yeah like I don't know I would never

03:36:06.420 talk to someone like that I don't

03:36:07.640 think you know but but someone might

03:36:08.960 find out about you yeah but maybe one

03:36:11.380 guy you maybe find out one guy that

03:36:13.360 you know like a mutual friend that oh

03:36:14.800 yeah you know she slept with me on the

03:36:16.080 first day but you don't know I just see

03:36:17.580 because the advent of social media I

03:36:19.520 found like I without even trying I

03:36:22.780 know what a bunch of girls have done

03:36:23.960 because dudes just run their fucking

03:36:25.160 mouth yeah the world is really small

03:36:26.480 dude dudes run their mouth man they

03:36:29.340 run their mouth so much yeah just just

03:36:31.620 one last thing on this point and then

03:36:32.760 we do need to get to a couple of the

03:36:34.160 chats here I so if she's had sex with

03:36:38.160 men more easily in the past and you

03:36:40.460 harder now so she makes you wait

03:36:41.960 there's this and I kind of already

03:36:43.800 touched on this there's a natural gut

03:36:45.480 reaction that the current guy or you is

03:36:48.920 less sexually desirable to her than her

03:36:51.420 previous partners so if she had sex

03:36:53.680 with them faster she must this may not

03:36:56.500 be the case but that's what a guy

03:36:58.020 might think that she's just not that

03:37:01.240 attracted to you yeah and she sees you

03:37:03.440 as like provider like safety safety net

03:37:05.620 and like that's not how a guy wants to

03:37:07.640 feel so I don't want to be desired in my

03:37:10.960 coaching program we use the opposite like

03:37:12.740 Brandon Carter I did an interview with

03:37:14.500 him and he was like he said he got stood

03:37:16.680 up by a girl one time and he asked

03:37:18.040 himself he goes would she's would she

03:37:19.980 have stood Drake up she wouldn't have

03:37:21.740 stood Drake up and then that made him

03:37:23.080 go to the gym more that made him make

03:37:25.260 more money now the dude is just wearing

03:37:27.000 like you know four hundred thousand

03:37:28.500 dollars worth of watches on with his you

03:37:30.360 know his g-wagon and it's like these

03:37:32.120 dudes don't get stood up no more he

03:37:33.780 doesn't get stood up no more exactly so

03:37:35.420 in his mind he was like would she have

03:37:36.960 stood Drake up that's what she said he

03:37:38.560 would say that in his head when he'd go

03:37:40.100 to the gym and so because of that that

03:37:41.900 motivated him and now you know the dude

03:37:43.880 is like he's a huge baller and because

03:37:45.660 of that so I think you guys understand

03:37:47.320 that's a that jealousy motivation that

03:37:49.940 it's a sexual motivation that Napoleon

03:37:52.100 Hill talks about at the end of think

03:37:53.420 and grow rich that thing or in

03:37:55.320 evolutionary psychology and access to

03:37:57.300 higher sexual selection and more

03:37:59.180 resources that are in higher sexual

03:38:01.540 status those things are what motivate a

03:38:04.120 man to become a billionaire that's what

03:38:05.800 motivates a man to work really hard

03:38:07.420 that that's essentially what happens

03:38:08.760 these great men you think about Steve

03:38:10.780 Jobs he the dude was running through

03:38:12.340 supermodels think about the Elon Musk

03:38:13.960 how many different women does he have

03:38:15.400 kids with you know you think about these

03:38:17.200 things like even Albert Einstein leaves

03:38:19.860 his wife to go start sleeping with his

03:38:21.580 cousin like all this stuff happens and

03:38:23.560 you just you just don't realize these

03:38:25.100 men are so motivated by this about

03:38:27.180 would she it goes back to what Brandon

03:38:29.700 said and I loved it it was just like

03:38:31.060 dude would she have said would she have

03:38:32.120 stood Drake up and the answer is no

03:38:33.760 then I need to be better all right we

03:38:35.780 have Ronnie here thank you man hey

03:38:37.380 Brian Ronnie again keep up the good work

03:38:38.880 that Priya's accent is cute even when

03:38:40.360 annoyed lol Brian we speak on DM I'm the

03:38:42.280 one with over 600k followers not that

03:38:44.380 matters would really like to see a pod

03:38:46.000 with Michael and destiny hey Ronnie

03:38:47.880 thank you very much can you bump your

03:38:49.840 just send an Instagram DM saying you're

03:38:51.760 Ronnie C just so I get like a hundred

03:38:54.000 DMs a couple hundred DMs a week so it's

03:38:57.840 pretty hard to keep on top of a pod with

03:39:00.280 Michael and destiny we were trying to

03:39:01.660 actually get destiny on tonight but I

03:39:04.000 guess some some things came up he's

03:39:05.600 gonna be here on Thursday we just we

03:39:07.680 just missed each other yeah me and

03:39:08.760 destiny were texting earlier today all

03:39:10.320 right let's get some other super chats

03:39:11.980 here okay guys get your super chats in

03:39:14.000 we are gonna try to once we get through

03:39:15.520 the super chats and get through a few

03:39:17.320 other things we are gonna try to wrap

03:39:18.520 up so get your super chats in stifler

03:39:20.600 really quick ask everyone to rate their

03:39:21.800 looks on a scale of 1 to 10 okay we'll

03:39:23.160 start with you go ahead yeah rate rate

03:39:27.440 your physical looks on the scale of 1 to

03:39:28.860 10 so you can't be like oh my my

03:39:30.960 personality I'm a 10 out of 10 they be

03:39:33.720 calling me Alicia Keys on there frankly

03:39:35.580 welfare Alicia Keys but that's okay do you

03:39:37.520 can you sing I'm a dancer the fallen song

03:39:42.840 here just try that no let's hear it come

03:39:44.780 on okay so 10 thank you 8 out of 10 okay

03:40:00.800 I'm gonna say what I said on the last

03:40:08.820 podcast I am a Buffalo 10 what what is a

03:40:15.700 Buffalo 10 from Buffalo New York

03:40:17.320 I gotta be honest I probably I would

03:40:22.100 agree what are you in yeah what are you

03:40:25.320 in Kazakhstan that's my answer

03:40:26.820 seven with makeup five without well I

03:40:38.820 was gonna ask you like which state are

03:40:40.160 we talking about just foreign to New

03:40:41.580 York just general state stuff just it's

03:40:45.000 relative though it's true like it's just

03:40:46.800 how do you yourself

03:40:49.620 global global okay I'm like a six okay

03:40:54.240 eight I'd say a six point five seven oh

03:40:57.600 Michael me yeah you ask everybody I can

03:41:00.940 read and shit so I guess I'm a six or

03:41:03.340 seven

03:41:03.780 hook horns I got a college degree from

03:41:06.600 University of Texas at Austin if you can't

03:41:08.120 use seven would you think you'd be on the

03:41:09.380 physical I pay a lot of taxes oh my

03:41:14.240 looks I don't know man I'm not I just I'm

03:41:16.440 six or five yeah okay I get my yeah I

03:41:19.340 give myself a six um so you two are 10

03:41:21.820 and 11 you're off the scale I guess oh

03:41:24.360 yeah no off the scale off the charts

03:41:26.460 what you know about it

03:41:28.240 I would say your face is definitely a 10

03:41:33.220 thank you it's not a cocky it's how you

03:41:35.500 feel about it bro it's like it's you're

03:41:37.380 you're saying how you feel about yourself

03:41:39.180 I know that's actually not the question

03:41:42.620 standards of beauty right yeah but it's

03:41:45.200 based on my judging based on my beauty

03:41:47.340 when I look at myself I see myself as a

03:41:49.800 10 out of 10 above a 10 out of a 10

03:41:51.700 correct that wasn't the question I

03:41:53.200 understand you're saying how people

03:41:54.200 view me yeah okay we're talking about

03:41:57.980 the whole world I'm not gonna be

03:41:58.960 everybody's type you know what I mean

03:42:00.320 that's the whole point though is that

03:42:01.600 even 10 out of 10s are not gonna be

03:42:03.880 everybody's type yeah but there is an

03:42:06.980 objective standard of beauty and of

03:42:08.380 course everyone is beautiful in their

03:42:09.620 own right but there is an objective

03:42:10.840 standard of beauty whether people want

03:42:12.300 to admit it or not 10 out of 10

03:42:14.140 standard is 10 out of 10 what is your

03:42:16.600 standard just like if we're speaking

03:42:18.020 about like actual beauty like that 10

03:42:19.780 out of we're talking about a scale so

03:42:21.120 who would you say is a 10 out of 10 10

03:42:22.700 out of 10 is perfect oh that's not

03:42:24.760 what that's not what it said I didn't

03:42:26.520 know 10 meant perfect the question was

03:42:28.220 to rate yourself on a scale one to 10 10

03:42:29.900 out of 10 is 100 perfect there's not

03:42:33.080 one person that's not what it said

03:42:34.400 though if we're going based on no one's

03:42:36.000 perfect we're all imperfect so that's

03:42:37.620 almost irrelevant yourself one out of

03:42:39.380 10 so it should be like a one out of

03:42:40.480 eight then

03:42:41.100 nobody's perfect

03:42:44.640 eight out of eight like they'll be

03:42:46.040 a hundred percent well no there are

03:42:47.280 there are studies about like the

03:42:49.480 objective standard of beauty has to do

03:42:51.000 with like symmetrical face like facial

03:42:52.800 features and stuff like that there

03:42:54.160 there's I'm not super well versed on

03:42:56.000 the study but they're there I am

03:42:57.500 cultural I am it knows it's so here's

03:43:00.420 thing in the again 37 culture study by

03:43:03.380 Dr. David Buss and all those cultures

03:43:05.240 men found that signs of symmetry signs

03:43:08.480 of youth and then a certain hip to waist

03:43:10.760 ratio which was like point seven to

03:43:12.260 those are the things that they found

03:43:13.800 more attractive in all culture cultures

03:43:16.100 women preferred men who were taller than

03:43:17.800 them and women preferred were more

03:43:19.800 interested in resource acquisition than

03:43:22.040 when than men were like a hot like 100%

03:43:25.160 more like two to one and then men were

03:43:27.680 more interested in short-term sexual

03:43:29.520 partners and had certain they found

03:43:32.360 certain signs of beauty to be pretty much

03:43:34.220 ubiquitous wait question for you two do

03:43:37.240 you guys think that all women should be

03:43:39.780 tens or should view themselves as

03:43:41.360 tens of course question women are ugly

03:43:43.800 are so yeah are all are all men tens no

03:43:48.940 no yo oh my god if they feel they are then

03:43:54.880 they should feel that way but do you

03:43:56.800 think all men are tens rate them

03:43:59.520 numbers based on feelings rate them so so

03:44:04.240 okay I completely understand where you guys

03:44:06.700 are coming from of course it comes from a

03:44:08.260 level of confidence that you see yourself

03:44:10.200 as a 10 and everyone should be confident

03:44:13.220 in how they look and how they present

03:44:14.580 themselves of course but confidence is

03:44:17.160 not they will like me confidence is I

03:44:19.660 will be okay even if they don't like yeah

03:44:21.300 oh absolutely of course you have to

03:44:22.760 accept the fact that you're not going to

03:44:24.040 be everybody's type but you also have to

03:44:25.780 that's great but it's it's not a bad or

03:44:30.960 negative thing to understand where you

03:44:32.800 realistically fall on set scale but

03:44:34.820 like right I guess they should ask like

03:44:38.080 from yourself or from other people like if I get

03:44:41.740 rejected from a guy I'm still saying what I said

03:44:44.780 like I'm still gonna consider myself at that

03:44:46.780 level like if you guys consider yourselves

03:44:48.960 five four six that's you like that's you

03:44:52.440 that's how you receive yourself because

03:44:54.180 that's how you're perceiving other people's

03:44:56.820 perspective

03:44:57.180 right like not from like yeah my physical

03:45:00.120 look I'm fine with it I look good without

03:45:02.100 makeup I'm decent can I ask a question so

03:45:04.680 as far as intelligence you could easily

03:45:06.900 say

03:45:07.380 so in terms of intelligence you wouldn't

03:45:15.840 rate yourself a 10 out of 10 intelligence

03:45:17.620 right out of 10 intelligence like well like

03:45:20.620 they okay I have great energy I'm a 10

03:45:22.860 not the energy

03:45:24.140 my chakras are open I'm a 10

03:45:28.600 if you're rating yourself a 10 out of 10

03:45:30.340 intelligence that doesn't necessarily mean

03:45:32.520 you are actually a 10 out of 10

03:45:34.320 this is all about looks we're talking about

03:45:36.220 comparatively it's looks can like you can

03:45:39.520 say wait is okay question for the panel

03:45:41.220 is Lizzo a 10

03:45:42.260 no

03:45:43.060 she feels like she's a 10

03:45:46.600 whoa don't back down now

03:45:48.500 yeah yeah I didn't say no okay so she

03:45:50.680 Lizzo's a 10

03:45:51.420 into the mic please

03:45:52.140 if she feels she's a 10

03:45:53.180 that's how she feels

03:45:53.920 if she feels she's a 10 nice

03:45:54.780 how do we feel about ourselves

03:45:56.100 awesome is Lizzo a 10

03:45:57.920 Lizzo's a 10 man

03:45:58.780 Lizzo's a 10

03:45:59.380 you know what's great you know what's so

03:46:00.680 crazy we can't do that

03:46:02.260 he I he can't just say

03:46:04.180 you guys are all 10

03:46:05.240 no we can't

03:46:05.680 he can't just say hey you know what I

03:46:08.440 have more subs than Mr. Beast you

03:46:10.160 should come on my fucking show he can't

03:46:11.960 do that I can't just say hey you know

03:46:13.740 what that Bugatti over there that's

03:46:15.780 mine hold on just a second hold on

03:46:17.560 too much confidence can breathe

03:46:19.860 truth

03:46:20.320 absolutely

03:46:20.740 truth

03:46:21.320 thank you Bender the Offender keep

03:46:22.580 going keep going yeah so sorry like I

03:46:24.460 can't just go go to the fucking

03:46:26.000 Staples Center and be like hey I'm

03:46:27.260 starting at small forward for the

03:46:28.380 Lakers today I can't just say that

03:46:30.280 because I feel like that as men we

03:46:32.600 are totally every single moment of

03:46:34.760 every day we are judging our

03:46:36.020 performance the world is constantly

03:46:37.680 telling us no who we can't date what

03:46:39.640 we can't lift what athletic ability we

03:46:41.720 don't have we're constantly be this

03:46:43.540 idea but this but this idea like

03:46:46.400 this idea that I could just make up my

03:46:48.260 own value is absurd I have X number

03:46:50.500 of dollars in my bank account X number

03:46:52.240 of fucking subs on my YouTube channel

03:46:54.300 these are defined my abilities are

03:46:56.800 defined how much I can bench press is

03:46:58.760 defined all the stuff we do there is

03:47:01.280 no way for us to just make up some

03:47:03.100 fucking number in our head and say I'm

03:47:05.540 a 10 because I feel I have great

03:47:07.200 energy it must be great to be able to

03:47:09.280 do that because we can't do that

03:47:10.820 none of us can do this

03:47:12.080 why not

03:47:12.760 why is it so hard for y'all

03:47:14.780 no I totally get what you're saying

03:47:19.360 because like there's an objective

03:47:21.080 standard of beauty and specifically in

03:47:22.900 Western culture that's like a

03:47:24.020 Eurocentric like standard of beauty

03:47:25.800 and like you either like

03:47:27.260 Eurocentric

03:47:28.860 I feel like we gotta go to the next

03:47:30.000 question because y'all

03:47:31.000 I just want to say

03:47:31.560 what if we actually trying to get you

03:47:33.420 we're gonna be never ending

03:47:34.260 we said what we said y'all said what

03:47:35.680 you said next question

03:47:36.480 the last thing I wanted to say was

03:47:37.640 communication because I think when

03:47:39.580 you guys said how do you rate

03:47:40.920 yourself

03:47:41.520 they took it like

03:47:42.700 how do I

03:47:43.580 and I was like how do you think

03:47:45.280 other people rate you

03:47:46.300 not from other people's

03:47:47.900 perspective

03:47:48.340 one thing I'll adjust that really

03:47:50.360 quick

03:47:50.700 sorry

03:47:51.400 would

03:47:51.700 would any of you like to

03:47:53.900 revise your answers I have some

03:47:55.400 makeup remover

03:47:56.600 I'll do it

03:47:57.280 anybody

03:47:58.660 I mean I'll take one

03:48:00.100 because I need some

03:48:01.040 I would do it

03:48:02.720 I'd kind of do it

03:48:03.300 see what happens if I do it

03:48:04.740 okay so

03:48:06.260 so

03:48:07.160 wait what were you saying

03:48:08.620 what was your question

03:48:09.740 what was your question

03:48:10.320 I think I just keep hearing

03:48:11.200 miscommunication

03:48:12.020 because I think when you said

03:48:13.720 how do you guys rate yourselves

03:48:15.260 certain people here like took it

03:48:17.280 as how do I rate myself

03:48:18.860 oh but maybe you should have said

03:48:20.320 from other people's perspective

03:48:21.720 I mean that's a fair point

03:48:23.040 because that's what I just keep hearing

03:48:24.260 that's a fair point however like

03:48:25.940 how much money do you make

03:48:27.140 if I say I make a

03:48:28.060 I make a billion dollars a day

03:48:29.380 no I don't disagree

03:48:29.980 it doesn't change the fact

03:48:31.320 how much I actually make

03:48:33.240 I'm just saying like

03:48:34.100 I'm trying to close the gap

03:48:35.820 so with the revised questions

03:48:37.140 should everyone re-answer the question

03:48:38.980 no we should go to the next question

03:48:40.620 for Shirley

03:48:41.340 let's go next

03:48:41.900 it's just a fundamental disagreement

03:48:44.180 of whether or not beauty is objective or not

03:48:46.160 I would never view myself

03:48:47.200 as less than a 10

03:48:48.040 exactly

03:48:48.560 like why would I do that

03:48:49.840 why

03:48:50.300 well

03:48:50.680 yeah but the whole thing

03:48:51.820 if I want to go box

03:48:53.440 I should not get into the ring

03:48:55.500 with Tyson Fury

03:48:56.300 I didn't say

03:48:56.540 because there's an objective difference

03:48:58.260 in his skill set and mine

03:48:59.700 that is like

03:49:00.340 it doesn't matter how I fucking feel

03:49:01.800 about myself

03:49:02.560 that's the point

03:49:03.360 it does matter

03:49:03.920 but it's like

03:49:04.320 but all we do as men

03:49:06.300 is perform

03:49:07.080 and then the world tells us

03:49:08.560 they grade us on our performance

03:49:09.960 that's it

03:49:10.560 you don't think women get graded

03:49:11.820 on their performance

03:49:12.420 absolutely

03:49:12.880 but they also get graded

03:49:14.080 hold on

03:49:14.460 but they also

03:49:14.860 the two of you

03:49:18.500 are going to say this

03:49:19.260 and the thing is

03:49:20.000 you want to know something else

03:49:20.920 the world is going to validate

03:49:22.260 your point of view

03:49:22.820 because there's going to be

03:49:23.480 endless

03:49:23.900 I want you to rate your girlfriend

03:49:24.980 for me

03:49:25.380 rate your girlfriend

03:49:26.900 my girlfriend is a 10

03:49:27.820 period

03:49:28.100 okay

03:49:28.400 there you go

03:49:29.800 next question

03:49:31.180 but she is a 10

03:49:32.980 okay let's

03:49:34.000 let's go to the next question

03:49:35.860 that answered everything

03:49:37.020 we needed to know

03:49:37.820 that's so funny

03:49:40.180 that's not subjective

03:49:41.020 show a picture right now

03:49:42.480 and I'll tell you

03:49:42.900 yeah I want to see it

03:49:44.080 alright hold on guys

03:49:45.240 show a picture right now

03:49:45.960 he's so excited

03:49:46.800 no that's good

03:49:49.000 but like that's what I'm saying

03:49:49.820 like if you have a man

03:49:50.680 they're going to say

03:49:51.300 you're a 10 out of 10

03:49:52.160 oh yeah no I agree with you

03:49:53.420 that's not this case though

03:49:54.360 that's not what's happening

03:49:55.020 no I saw her in person

03:49:57.360 alright guys

03:49:58.500 so we're going to

03:49:59.660 we do need to

03:50:00.720 just time wise

03:50:02.460 we need to get through

03:50:03.040 some super chats

03:50:03.740 so we have

03:50:05.020 and I apologize

03:50:05.660 that we're getting to

03:50:06.320 some of these

03:50:06.740 much much later on

03:50:07.700 the show

03:50:08.060 yo JJ

03:50:08.840 merci beaucoup

03:50:09.460 for the

03:50:09.960 why don't you guys

03:50:14.420 figure that out

03:50:15.020 after the show

03:50:15.560 okay

03:50:15.820 Brian and Michael

03:50:17.240 from both of your

03:50:17.980 perspectives

03:50:18.300 hey quiet

03:50:19.600 guys guys guys

03:50:20.600 quiet please

03:50:21.160 yo JJ

03:50:22.040 thank you man

03:50:22.640 thank you for the

03:50:23.620 Canadian 50

03:50:24.160 from both of your

03:50:25.040 perspectives I'd like to

03:50:26.000 know if this community

03:50:26.720 and other like-minded

03:50:27.680 podcasts commit a

03:50:28.780 naturalistic fallacy

03:50:29.840 in their thinking and

03:50:31.200 ideology namely

03:50:32.260 that that was

03:50:34.500 is

03:50:35.000 that was

03:50:36.420 is natural

03:50:37.360 is intrinsically

03:50:38.400 good

03:50:38.860 discuss

03:50:39.880 no I mean it

03:50:44.740 makes it makes

03:50:45.460 sense

03:50:45.780 I don't think

03:50:46.280 this is a type of

03:50:46.900 podcast for that

03:50:47.620 kind of question

03:50:48.260 well like my

03:50:50.600 commit a naturalistic

03:50:52.460 fallacy in their

03:50:53.020 thinking and

03:50:53.420 ideology namely

03:50:54.960 that what is

03:50:55.800 natural is

03:50:56.760 intrinsically

03:50:57.320 yeah I know so

03:50:57.800 this is a

03:50:58.240 fundamental question

03:50:59.800 on this

03:51:00.460 fundamental question

03:51:01.420 in evolutionary

03:51:01.940 psychology what is

03:51:02.900 intrinsic or what

03:51:03.800 is heritable is

03:51:04.920 what is what's

03:51:05.480 good

03:51:05.680 so you can make

03:51:06.880 that like argument

03:51:07.760 girls who sleep

03:51:08.460 around are maybe

03:51:09.260 naturally doing that

03:51:10.520 no

03:51:11.160 or men that are

03:51:12.900 sleeping around

03:51:13.360 are doing it

03:51:13.760 naturally but we're

03:51:14.300 not saying so again

03:51:15.020 this is it no this

03:51:15.940 what he's saying is

03:51:16.720 exactly like it's

03:51:17.940 the it's Dr. Buss

03:51:18.820 said this when he

03:51:19.360 went on Joe Rogan

03:51:19.900 just because men

03:51:21.600 are more likely

03:51:22.560 high status men who

03:51:23.580 have more options

03:51:24.160 are more likely to

03:51:24.780 cheat doesn't mean

03:51:25.820 cheating good so

03:51:26.480 therefore natural

03:51:27.640 is it natural for

03:51:29.680 high status men to

03:51:30.560 have more sexual

03:51:31.160 partners the answer

03:51:32.040 is yes does it

03:51:33.000 make it good no it

03:51:34.220 does not make it

03:51:34.700 intrinsically good

03:51:35.760 there are so many

03:51:37.180 if you guys go on

03:51:38.120 TikTok right now

03:51:39.060 there's so many

03:51:39.780 videos where these

03:51:40.780 these women on

03:51:41.480 TikTok are grilling

03:51:42.660 me because I bring

03:51:43.860 up this one stat

03:51:44.580 83% of women who

03:51:46.600 cheat in a marriage

03:51:47.800 fall in love with

03:51:48.680 their affair partner

03:51:49.300 oh absolutely

03:51:49.940 right it's like 29%

03:51:51.580 for men okay

03:51:52.480 women don't cheat

03:51:53.160 for sex

03:51:53.600 yeah but me saying

03:51:54.960 that they believe I

03:51:56.460 just justified men

03:51:57.740 cheating because I

03:51:58.660 say that it's worth

03:51:59.380 because it is what it

03:52:00.840 is objectively worse on

03:52:02.200 average when a woman

03:52:03.060 cheats in a relationship

03:52:03.840 than when a man

03:52:04.560 cheats in a relationship

03:52:05.260 for the relationship

03:52:07.200 a man can cheat in

03:52:08.260 a relationship and

03:52:08.860 you can repair it if

03:52:09.640 a woman cheats in a

03:52:10.380 relationship I'm sorry

03:52:11.380 it's extremely difficult

03:52:12.960 to repair now you

03:52:14.420 guys say that but me

03:52:15.440 saying that is a

03:52:16.260 double standard and

03:52:17.100 therefore I get

03:52:17.620 grilled on TikTok

03:52:18.480 because people hear

03:52:19.820 what I said I did

03:52:20.880 not say it was good I

03:52:22.340 just read statistics so

03:52:24.060 now you're arguing

03:52:25.440 with you're arguing

03:52:26.480 with math you're

03:52:27.700 morally neutral but

03:52:28.800 it depends on who you

03:52:29.420 are the point is when

03:52:30.320 I make that statement

03:52:31.320 then all of a sudden

03:52:32.160 people are like he's

03:52:33.080 just justifying cheating

03:52:34.100 no I'm not because you

03:52:35.420 don't understand the

03:52:36.200 difference between what

03:52:37.120 is and what ought

03:52:38.560 evolutionary psychology

03:52:39.780 which by the way all

03:52:40.680 of this manosphere

03:52:41.360 red pill stuff is based

03:52:42.220 off of evolutionary

03:52:43.180 psychology is about

03:52:44.140 what is not what

03:52:45.520 ought and so people

03:52:46.940 don't understand the

03:52:47.520 difference and that's

03:52:48.120 what that question is

03:52:48.860 basically asking well

03:52:49.680 and there's also a

03:52:50.280 difference between how

03:52:51.060 men value sex and how

03:52:52.660 women value or at

03:52:53.900 least ought to and

03:52:54.980 biologically should be

03:52:56.400 valuing sex

03:52:57.340 yeah I mean for us

03:53:01.820 it's like a function of

03:53:02.880 loyalty to like a woman

03:53:04.280 sure absolutely and men

03:53:06.060 can emotionally detach

03:53:07.440 themselves from sex

03:53:08.360 what in a way that

03:53:09.200 women are not able to

03:53:10.180 what what is she

03:53:13.980 there's nobody in the

03:53:14.680 bathroom hello wait

03:53:16.600 what okay I don't

03:53:17.600 okay here let's get

03:53:19.240 through these chats okay

03:53:20.080 hold on no we already

03:53:23.380 did this one okay at the

03:53:24.860 Baghdad one can you read

03:53:25.680 that one hold on

03:53:27.540 my turn to shoot my shot

03:53:37.560 Priya I'm 35 years old

03:53:39.000 living in Sacramento

03:53:39.640 financially stable he's

03:53:41.500 Asian Filipino if I

03:53:42.600 matters I'm five foot

03:53:43.440 eight physically fit and

03:53:44.340 traveling not interested

03:53:45.320 in commitment right now

03:53:46.920 though oh that sounds

03:53:47.660 incredible

03:53:48.120 that sounds incredible

03:53:51.860 get some of that

03:53:53.360 Filipino wiener and no

03:53:54.700 commitment necessary no

03:53:56.700 commitment necessary

03:53:57.920 what an incredible way

03:53:59.640 yes let's do that

03:54:00.900 Alvin Sam shots fired

03:54:02.900 okay yo Alvin thank you

03:54:04.360 for the super chat man

03:54:05.180 appreciate it are you

03:54:06.060 down for are you down

03:54:07.020 for him Priya here we

03:54:07.760 go wait no I think we

03:54:08.640 did this one committed

03:54:09.280 relationships for me okay

03:54:10.700 we had a picture yo

03:54:12.320 Conan 19 I'm 32 six foot

03:54:14.060 handsome 215 pounds great

03:54:15.660 beard and tattoos I shave

03:54:16.660 my head and make 40 50k a

03:54:18.040 year the dating pool of

03:54:19.340 women here is impossible

03:54:21.020 right now or in wait the

03:54:25.460 dating pool of women here

03:54:26.360 and in what bro can you

03:54:28.620 guys please spell check

03:54:29.340 hey guys real quick it's

03:54:30.340 called Grammarly put your

03:54:32.160 thing in grammar I know I

03:54:33.520 say this every podcast you're

03:54:35.080 paying us money make sure

03:54:36.840 like you don't have to write

03:54:38.040 it in YouTube write it on a

03:54:39.560 notepad put it in Grammarly

03:54:40.680 copy and paste into YouTube

03:54:42.120 okay Grammarly has a free

03:54:43.480 yeah I have I have enough of

03:54:44.820 an issue stuttering as it is

03:54:46.060 by the way he goes I'm from

03:54:47.620 libtard USA just you know

03:54:49.920 move to somewhere else move to

03:54:51.140 San Diego move to Scottsdale

03:54:52.360 single Arizona move to Tampa

03:54:54.660 move to a place where

03:54:55.460 there's lots of attractive

03:54:56.300 women single for like eight

03:54:57.420 years I'm an outspoken okay

03:54:58.560 got it um is he asking for

03:55:00.740 no he's shooting a shot oh

03:55:03.040 wait no he's not even he's

03:55:04.880 just saying I'm outspoken

03:55:05.780 conservative that might be

03:55:06.840 white no no dude dude dude

03:55:08.020 dude you're not being an

03:55:09.140 outspoken conservative move to

03:55:10.640 Orange County be an outspoken

03:55:11.880 conservative they will be

03:55:12.860 falling off you they'll be

03:55:14.180 falling off you bro trust me

03:55:15.640 they were doing those they

03:55:16.640 were doing the the the the

03:55:18.260 protests against the mask in

03:55:20.060 Orange County during the

03:55:20.900 middle of the pandemic go to

03:55:22.000 Orange County right now I

03:55:23.280 promise you have no trouble

03:55:24.320 meeting a beautiful there's

03:55:25.100 that app for right wingers

03:55:26.960 yeah for sure for sure well

03:55:28.180 there's a there's a there's a

03:55:29.020 new thing there's a new thing

03:55:29.900 however where liberal women

03:55:31.380 are having trouble meeting men

03:55:32.780 so the liberal women are

03:55:33.900 having to date conservative men

03:55:35.700 have you seen this no way

03:55:36.480 there's some new articles about

03:55:37.420 this because they they value

03:55:38.800 masculinity yes and they

03:55:40.100 want protection and a

03:55:41.040 provider yes they cannot find

03:55:42.240 that in liberal men so so now

03:55:43.800 they're they're choosing

03:55:44.520 conservative men yeah that is

03:55:45.620 the definition of why I had to

03:55:47.940 make serious changes in my life

03:55:49.720 of who I was dating and who I

03:55:50.920 was spending my time there

03:55:51.780 actually a lot of liberal men

03:55:53.180 weren't a great deal or what

03:55:56.500 well they were sweet

03:55:57.660 compassionate kind and

03:55:59.160 treated me beautifully but

03:56:01.220 masculinity wasn't there there

03:56:04.500 are a lot of recent so I

03:56:05.480 started dating conservative men

03:56:06.840 yeah there are a lot of recent

03:56:08.180 studies that are showing that

03:56:09.420 men that are like continuously

03:56:12.920 physically fit tend to be more

03:56:14.720 conservative as well as like on

03:56:16.760 the attraction scale in the in the

03:56:18.460 scale of like financial success

03:56:20.380 oh by the way the the hip to

03:56:22.080 waist ratio for women the

03:56:23.660 corollary was a 1.65 to 1

03:56:26.080 shoulder to waist ratio in men

03:56:28.820 and women report having more

03:56:31.020 orgasms with men who have

03:56:32.040 broader shoulders broader

03:56:32.920 shoulders in comparison to their

03:56:34.000 waist

03:56:34.180 I'll show you I'll show you all

03:56:36.160 these studies

03:56:36.420 hold on come on okay all right

03:56:38.120 we have Conan here hey man

03:56:39.980 thank you appreciate it I guess

03:56:41.580 he's a giga Chad all right

03:56:45.560 dual shot thank you man do you

03:56:47.420 think a man should secure

03:56:48.240 provide for a woman after he

03:56:49.540 has achieved his goals i.e.

03:56:50.740 financial security home etc

03:56:52.020 women should would rather wait

03:56:54.260 at the finish line instead of

03:56:55.400 going on a journey with a man

03:56:56.660 than expecting a fulfilling life

03:56:58.460 at the end

03:56:59.100 wouldn't postmodern feminism

03:57:00.680 like be it like disprove his

03:57:02.440 statement right there like women

03:57:03.940 are saying that they like they

03:57:04.960 want to get out of like the man's

03:57:07.340 grasp right they want their own

03:57:08.680 lives they want to be

03:57:09.240 independent they want to right so

03:57:11.140 like well I think I think those

03:57:12.540 women for you're correct but I

03:57:13.820 will tell you as being 45 and

03:57:15.700 and then being pretty successful

03:57:17.340 my dating pool has expanded 50x so

03:57:20.900 I will tell you they are waiting

03:57:22.400 they definitely are waiting and

03:57:23.680 if you talk to other guys in my

03:57:24.540 position they're going to tell

03:57:25.240 you the same thing well they're

03:57:26.100 waiting like like like it's crazy

03:57:28.820 to me how many girls that I knew

03:57:30.060 10 years ago and then now that

03:57:32.220 that now that I like have a little

03:57:33.620 bit of clout they're like I've

03:57:34.620 always I've always had a crush on

03:57:35.980 you like no the fuck you didn't

03:57:37.480 you didn't have a crush on me you

03:57:38.960 fucked my friends I'm not stupid

03:57:40.820 you didn't give a you would have

03:57:41.960 pissed on me on when I was on fire

03:57:43.340 when I was 30 years when I was a

03:57:44.540 30 year old captain in the air

03:57:45.680 force you didn't care about me at

03:57:46.640 all now all sudden they do and I

03:57:48.760 that's just one thing that I've

03:57:49.800 noticed so no they are waiting

03:57:50.740 rich cooper is correct a lot of

03:57:52.060 women like they try to like they

03:57:53.800 just want to be there at the end of

03:57:55.160 the day and they want it they want

03:57:56.220 everything they expect everything

03:57:57.520 but you weren't even on the

03:57:58.620 journey with this man to get to

03:58:00.040 that rich cooper's quote is women

03:58:01.480 do not care about the struggle

03:58:02.600 they wait at the end finish line

03:58:03.700 and they fuck the winners and I

03:58:05.200 have I will tell you for my

03:58:06.500 it's just my personal anecdotal

03:58:07.780 experience that is exactly what I

03:58:09.420 see that is exactly what I see

03:58:10.500 girls do not care about how I made

03:58:12.020 the money they don't care how about

03:58:13.320 how I became successful and they

03:58:14.620 don't care about all the reps that

03:58:15.760 I did the reps and sets I did to be

03:58:17.300 able to bench press all this all

03:58:18.720 they care about is the results I

03:58:20.020 noticed that in younger women more

03:58:21.500 than anything else for sure and I

03:58:23.100 also noticed that and I also

03:58:24.860 noticed that the men that are in my

03:58:26.820 cohort are dating younger women

03:58:28.320 because of this because they want a

03:58:30.320 they want less drama it's not about

03:58:31.580 the entitlement it's just like like

03:58:33.320 they just want less drama from the

03:58:35.200 women that they're dating and these

03:58:36.360 women have fewer traumatic

03:58:38.740 experiences they're shown to not be

03:58:40.420 like good lifelong partner

03:58:41.720 statistically when they're younger

03:58:42.860 yeah when they're younger like I

03:58:44.440 would say that's not true no

03:58:45.800 statistically speaking like that is

03:58:47.660 true like it's like women that are

03:58:49.860 like 18 to yeah I mean I think 18

03:58:52.320 is too young it's like 18 to 21 or

03:58:54.400 something is like that's like one of

03:58:55.820 the highest like divorce rates in

03:58:58.720 terms like well can I ask you a

03:59:00.020 question can I can I ask why you

03:59:01.780 chose to date someone younger than you

03:59:03.060 I didn't choose so like when I was

03:59:05.120 there I just she was like when I

03:59:06.740 met her I was like I want to date

03:59:07.660 you I just knew that I had no idea

03:59:08.780 no clue how old she was and she had

03:59:11.380 she had a procedure because she had

03:59:13.960 a lump and she had to have a double

03:59:15.880 mastectomy and so she got breast

03:59:17.220 implants so if you saw her from the

03:59:18.800 outside it's very hard for you to

03:59:20.080 believe that this girl's 21 she's

03:59:21.520 because generally you don't see that

03:59:22.980 until later in life and so I thought

03:59:24.680 she was older and then we got to know

03:59:25.920 each other and then she's like yeah I

03:59:27.100 don't I can't even go with you to a

03:59:28.420 bar because I'm not 21 so would

03:59:29.640 your preference be like older my

03:59:32.260 purpose would be her to be honest

03:59:33.840 with you if I was in a relationship

03:59:34.880 with her I'd be single I was very very

03:59:36.900 happy being single so that that would

03:59:38.360 not be it and that's you know that's

03:59:39.900 the issue my life was complete before

03:59:41.700 I met her and it's really awesome now

03:59:43.500 and if things don't work out my life

03:59:45.220 will still be complete which is how it

03:59:46.380 should be she should be just be adding

03:59:47.600 to your life she does she needs to

03:59:49.160 benefit you she helps she helps with

03:59:50.840 the business which is very very

03:59:52.020 important and she understands my

03:59:53.460 boundaries so if women are born with

03:59:55.020 inherent value because of their looks

03:59:57.080 right so so when you're talking about

03:59:59.760 physical attraction from the opposite

04:00:00.940 sex yes because I don't want to I

04:00:02.280 don't want to misuse this if a woman is

04:00:04.520 a cardiologist and saves your child's

04:00:06.700 life through heart surgery she has

04:00:08.660 incredible intrinsic value that has

04:00:11.320 nothing to do with her physical

04:00:12.540 attractiveness I want to make sure that

04:00:13.740 we understand because because this this

04:00:15.620 this gets way misconstrued what a man

04:00:18.040 does that makes him attractive what man

04:00:20.080 does that makes him popular so like say

04:00:21.420 Aaron Rodgers and Rodgers makes a lot

04:00:22.840 of money and he's the quarterback for

04:00:23.760 the Jets and he's physically attractive

04:00:25.740 because he makes a lot of money he's

04:00:26.820 the quarterback for the Jets they're

04:00:27.840 the same thing Madame Curie may have

04:00:30.220 been very attractive to her husband

04:00:32.140 Martin donated $100 google these

04:00:35.940 simps Priya I don't chase women as I'm

04:00:39.140 not hurting for options but I am a one

04:00:41.400 I love his quality you won't be

04:00:44.140 receiving a DM from me but if you want

04:00:47.000 to get in touch with me email my

04:00:49.200 charity contact at martinfdn.org

04:00:52.760 I got a better idea hey do you want to

04:00:59.980 come to Babies in Toyland on Thursday

04:01:01.080 we're doing a charity no it's not with

04:01:04.360 me like my girlfriend's coming do you

04:01:05.360 want to come it's like 300 girls come

04:01:06.620 and we're raising money for charity on

04:01:07.720 Thursday where is it it's gonna be in

04:01:09.340 Avalon in Los Angeles sure sound good

04:01:14.080 okay cool there you go see how easy that

04:01:16.640 was guys see there you go all right okay

04:01:18.820 we got sask finest here stop simping you

04:01:21.400 guys are disappointing as men they have

04:01:23.220 Instagram shoot your shot there I'm here

04:01:25.220 to support the channel that's it okay

04:01:26.540 thank you for the Canadian where's the

04:01:28.700 Baghdad one I saw the Baghdad one I was

04:01:31.120 it a super chat I don't know yeah we have a

04:01:33.680 lot to get through let's see we have

04:01:37.360 what a simp Argentinian 500 thank you to

04:01:43.020 Brian and chat what do you think about

04:01:44.680 plastic surgery on a girl to Brian and

04:01:48.340 chat what do you think about plastic

04:01:49.880 surgery on a girl honestly I'm not I don't

04:01:54.300 like women with plastic surgery so fake

04:01:57.080 lips fake tits lipo BBL labiaplasty not a

04:02:03.540 fan not a fan

04:02:04.780 that's what I do for a living I do

04:02:10.340 medical aesthetics lips are not plastic

04:02:12.540 surgery I do Botox and like yeah

04:02:14.720 semantics to him it's the same thing I

04:02:17.540 will tell you because we because unfairly

04:02:20.240 or not because so much pressure is put on

04:02:22.160 a woman for her physical attractiveness

04:02:23.660 good plastic surgery is very like again

04:02:26.340 like shout out to Chris Corsandi in Las

04:02:28.240 Vegas like good excellent plastic surgery

04:02:31.180 we're talking like $25,000 boob jobs like

04:02:33.140 incredible that stuff I don't blame women

04:02:35.560 for getting that I absolutely don't you can't

04:02:36.980 even tell that it's plastic surgery I blame them I blame them I was going to say like what if you

04:02:41.400 can't tell Brian the thing is if a woman is being judged on her physical

04:02:45.780 attractiveness and she gets something done where you can't tell that it's

04:02:48.240 plastic surgery and she looks better I can tell would you not I can tell I can show you

04:02:52.960 some rhinoplasty you would not be able to tell oh rhinoplasty okay that's I thought

04:02:55.900 you're talking about what was your question what was your question oh no you had a question

04:03:03.580 for me oh yeah as far as plastic surgery goes I mean I'll touch on it really quick I mean

04:03:09.420 basically like guys guys please guys please okay um please if one person is talking I mean it's been

04:03:18.660 pretty much a shit show this entire night whoever's talking please just be quiet let them speak okay

04:03:23.260 so just let me address this plastic surgery thing really quick um I would prefer for example some

04:03:28.920 women have small breasts they want to get fake tits I even if a girl was flat before so she had

04:03:34.180 super small breasts I would prefer that over some big fake titties same with lipo I'd prefer a girl

04:03:40.640 who had a little bit of belly fat over the lipo belly uh what else uh bbl I'd prefer a girl with

04:03:46.880 like an average butt or like no butt versus a bbl uh what else lips I'd prefer a girl who had a

04:03:53.500 small upper lip than if she had bow top or what what the fuck do they I don't know whatever they

04:03:58.500 put college they put college in and I'd prefer that I'd prefer a girl with giant fucking labia over

04:04:04.700 a girl with labia placed it you know what I'm saying you know I don't think you've seen a giant labia

04:04:08.500 no brother brother I'm Paul you don't know this show man I'm a fan I'm a fan of large labia Michael

04:04:14.280 I have I'm with you on all that I'm with you on all that except the breast implants breast implants

04:04:23.560 are incredible other than that I don't care why isn't that your email Ryan it's my I have a

04:04:28.240 non-profit wasn't your non-profit big labias matter big labia matter blm yeah that's personal

04:04:33.780 you are a funny man super personal um what do you mean I'm just saying big labia matter I think

04:04:37.900 that's funny as hell that's my that's my non-profit I I am a I am a advocate for women small dick

04:04:45.500 matters what the fuck look I'll wrap up on this thing I mean you mentioned the small dick thing

04:04:53.300 I think listen women have can have preferences when it comes to like you know a man's size down

04:04:59.320 there I happen to have a preference too huh oh you didn't know you didn't know that men could have

04:05:05.500 preferences when it came to pussies that's right that's right my dms are open if you have a fucking

04:05:11.780 largely all right okay let's get these super chats out the way thank you there for the large

04:05:19.120 they get in the dms my dms are open if you have a large labia seriously bd underscore islands okay

04:05:23.600 conan 19 foxy cleopatra do you date white guys who's that is that you that would be me do you

04:05:30.040 date white guys I used to used to I haven't what what happened I was in a relationship so

04:05:35.420 she waited she waited she waited four months and it was horrible

04:05:38.460 I know he wasn't

04:05:40.120 I did date a white guy back in COVID-19 way back when well we did some crazy shit during COVID didn't we

04:05:48.360 I was so bored we're dating some fucking loonies back there COVID relationship doesn't matter right

04:05:55.020 COVID bodies don't count is that what we're doing COVID bodies don't count I'm down petition to start

04:06:00.000 that just a reminder though conan he's asking if you're single here or he's asking if you date white

04:06:05.200 guys he is the guy who said he's 32 six feet handsome 215 pounds great beard tattoos he shaves his

04:06:12.700 head and he makes 40 to 50k a year what do you thought what do you think you down you down for

04:06:18.880 him six six feet handsome 215 pounds I'll sleep on it all right sleep on it okay there we go

04:06:25.980 all right all right bend to the offender hey thank you man question for the whole panel do you think

04:06:30.040 that mothers in the U.S. society are more self-centered or less concerned with their child's future than

04:06:36.840 50 years ago 100 yes yes yeah disagree I mean you should have kids if you're um I'm I'm gonna say

04:06:45.040 no just because it's an evolutionary design I I I think what they're doing though may hurt their

04:06:51.800 children's future because they're seeing things short term as far as long term but as far as the

04:06:56.000 actual emotion I bet they're exactly because a woman willing to die for her child is an evolutionary

04:07:02.740 adaptation that doesn't just go away Martin donated $100 thank you Martin Mike you're frightening

04:07:08.540 Priya you're too hoped up on energy drinks my charity help dogs and horses not hoes Priya your new

04:07:17.620 nickname is Priya you're small quiet and seem economically sound I can beat you Mike from a

04:07:24.860 distance what the fuck I hate that this is not beating anything I have a girlfriend I asked her

04:07:29.400 to come to my charity event yeah he's not scaring me I I love cars Priuses are a garbage piece of

04:07:37.280 trash vehicle I'm super excited to make uh to have to interview Priya on the red carpet and then send

04:07:42.280 it right to you buddy I'm so excited hey you want to help us with this hose charity we're gonna

04:07:47.280 charity for the hose okay damn it Martin they're all saying Priya wait question really quick question on

04:07:52.760 the Prius thing who here would date a guy who has a Prius like is that is that like a is that an

04:07:57.260 issue if he has a Prius I didn't pay attention to the car I mean is that like kind of a some girls

04:08:02.140 have like this some people think it's a lot better Tesla would be better I love Larry David and Larry

04:08:10.560 David in his show he's always driving a Prius so I have a thing for that okay you like Larry David

04:08:15.260 yeah that's good that's good old white man just him just him all right Puffy Vegas I've changed my

04:08:23.460 IG can the girls rate it now uh wait Puffy the the trigger for Instagram rating let me just double

04:08:30.940 check it it is via stream labs only I guess you don't have let me see bro it's it's did you read

04:08:38.040 the description hello um I've changed my IG can the girls write it now from the black girl in the

04:08:43.840 bikini ending with the girls in the polka shirt the black girl with oh this is the rating he's

04:08:49.420 rating everybody can you like point when you read it 7.5 5 6 7 7 5 6 7 7 7 7.5 wait what was it

04:08:59.780 okay I'm confused all right that's the rating now judge me um Puffy you gotta do it bro do you sell

04:09:08.560 crack like what are you doing you're just like tricking off all this money like this I can't even see him

04:09:12.240 there's like five people in this wait he didn't he didn't need first off Puffy you didn't even link

04:09:15.680 your IG but Puffy yeah it's gonna be Puffy Vegas that's gonna be his IG I have a fact he didn't

04:09:21.680 he didn't hit the did he didn't hit the the threshold though for us to do a rating of his IG

04:09:29.820 so three $100 super chats it is what do you think did we know oh do you have it pulled up yeah

04:09:36.360 I'm the one who should be rating your IG by the way buddy well while we wait on that okay let me get

04:09:43.260 through the rest Azul 69 hey good to see you back in the chat man Michael by the way Azul did you send

04:09:49.080 me a DM on Instagram send me a DM on Instagram Michael I was in Baghdad when you was still in

04:09:53.080 hey pimp when you were in Baghdad during the first war I was 14 years old so got that one wrong keep

04:09:57.560 going oh shit okay would you accept a mission to destroy your uranium enrichment not in Iraq

04:10:02.620 because they didn't have any fucking uranium I don't know if you were aware of what happened

04:10:06.020 over the last 20 years you might want to catch up keep going oh this is this is the fucking this is

04:10:12.880 the uh the the uh the plot for uh Top Gun 2 okay look at I just realized yeah so first off fifth gen

04:10:21.740 fifth gen Sukhoi 57 aircraft they don't there are no flying Sukhoi 57s once you look it up they're not

04:10:26.820 they're supposed to leave stealth they don't fucking work and number two uh yeah that's the

04:10:30.380 that's basically the plot for uh for Top Gun 2 I just realized that that's what that's what he's

04:10:34.360 doing that that's pretty funny yeah there's no uranium enrichment plant in Iraq in 1990 wait

04:10:39.700 questions so I fought the second one in 03 why were you two arguing or was it you what why were you

04:10:47.700 guys arguing at the beginning of the show I'm trying to remember physical violence oh yeah the

04:10:51.760 domestic violence thing domestic is so extreme I wouldn't call it domestic you know we wouldn't

04:10:57.600 call it violence definitely domestic Kelly what were you does it matter you were upset we're bringing

04:11:03.340 it back up oh I was just saying that because I thought she said she was a relationship coach or

04:11:10.380 like um like a relationship I never called myself a coach or a guru I never said that I was like perfect

04:11:15.560 at this I think you just said like you give advice yeah so I was just saying that I was just like

04:11:20.360 me personally I wouldn't take advice from someone who wasn't in a relationship if I was trying to get

04:11:24.880 relationship advice but I've had successful relationships and I'm taking a break right

04:11:29.620 now that doesn't mean I'm incapable what do you mean you've had successful relationships because if

04:11:33.760 you've had successful relationships you've been one right now that's that's not that's not true at all

04:11:38.160 you can have successful relationships and where you learn about yourself and where you become

04:11:41.560 but I kind of feel like that's saying like every therapist has all their shit together every doctor

04:11:45.600 is 100 healthy too like just devil's advocate yeah for me for me like the reason why I'm not a

04:11:51.020 relationship coach but the reason why my clients keep coming to me I have 600 clients now the reason

04:11:55.300 why they keep coming to me is because other clients have success and they take pictures and

04:11:58.480 they show success and then they have more success and then they have more success that's the reason

04:12:01.680 why the only thing so if I was in a relationship or not in a relationship or that that doesn't

04:12:05.780 matter the only thing that matters is the results of my clients which my clients get

04:12:08.340 right so I agree with that yeah all right we have puffy vegas here access vegas I have 54 million

04:12:14.400 views on my youtube channel I would like to meet her I'll take you out to dinner we have a couple

04:12:18.520 drinks and you can teach me how to be better okay we're I'm super confused here okay access vegas

04:12:22.600 is me uh I have 54 million you know me youtube channel puffy I don't know if we can look that up

04:12:27.540 if he actually has 54 million I'll look it up right now like to meet her we don't know who her is

04:12:31.940 that's a pronoun that we can't figure out who that is take you out to dinner have a couple drinks so you

04:12:36.200 can teach me how to be better and we don't know what better means bro you're a little bro you're

04:12:40.360 dropping cheese man hit me up on fucking instagram and let me help you dog this is crazy what are

04:12:45.680 you doing I think he's so he's he's addressing you initially then he says I would like to meet

04:12:50.880 her which is maybe like in a platonic way he wants to take you and your girlfriend out to dinner

04:12:55.760 to socialize okay here we go next all right we have here I'm going to continue ransom g hey thank

04:13:06.860 you man gents when giga chad status is reached you get real shots at pria pria's tonight's proof

04:13:12.760 so build discipline and genuine burning desire will come 24 aspiring f football coach and physical

04:13:18.860 therapist here have discipline because she ain't choosing you yet all right we have what's yo brian

04:13:27.600 you should take you should take on a date the girl next to you you look nice together okay all right

04:13:36.400 um she doesn't like flannel so that's a that's a wrap you just can't wear it on a date brian

04:13:41.940 non-negotiable non-negotiable kellyann no it's all good hey thank you for coming kelly appreciate

04:13:51.420 it get home safe bye everybody say bye to kelly all of you are invited thursday if you guys want to

04:13:57.180 come to my charity okay you guys in los angeles it's a red carpet charity we got getty photographers

04:14:00.900 they're all welcome to come what is it for uh this one is for troops overseas the douglas j

04:14:05.140 green foundation uh he was lost in iraq and his family set up a foundation so we could we send

04:14:10.780 care packages to troops that are currently deployed we actually assembled the care packages

04:14:14.140 it's not we've already i think they sent like 1.4 million care packages already

04:14:17.560 oh wait i had something for i had something for kelly but fuck you just ask me i'll just pretend pretend

04:14:24.320 you're gonna pretend to be a petite vietnamese one that's right i'm good at that um brian i thought

04:14:28.720 horse girls were a no-go for you so what i'm out anyways that's that is true horse girls definitely

04:14:34.820 red flag major red flag um wait fuck sorry i lost my uh sorry

04:14:39.800 uh just leave it just leave it don't worry about it um okay hold on sorry my fucking notes thing

04:14:47.160 closed out here so sorry guys okay here it is so uh we were mal pal i was dating a guy and left him

04:15:01.340 for his best friend who had better qualities he's my current partner what happened there um so i had

04:15:06.020 met this guy through tinder i normally don't do dating apps but it was a low point and i just

04:15:11.060 wanted to meet somebody and i went out with him for about a month um it was going to end up a long

04:15:16.540 distance so i left the relationship because i was like it's not worth a long distance and then i

04:15:21.000 pursued his friend after because i had seen he had qualities that i liked okay and that's who you're

04:15:27.380 at least you broke up with a dude

04:15:29.100 okay qualities would be uh same paying salary uh good guy okay and then you said gender expectations

04:15:40.880 and paying for dates i believe in absolute equality so you think like 50 50 on the first date okay

04:15:45.320 unless i'm overly impressed or they're overly impressed i don't mind suggestions

04:15:49.740 word okay yeah all right uh we'll go around the table who should pay on the first date

04:15:55.660 i hate him whoever got the bread the man who asked me out who asked who out

04:16:04.440 if you have you ever have you ever asked a guy out on the date yeah for sure

04:16:09.160 did you pay for it in that situation i did you pay for the whole thing or you split i mean i was like

04:16:14.020 yeah like do you want to go grab something to eat my treat you want to grab something to eat like

04:16:17.600 my treat yeah i'll pay for it i have my own money yeah i've done that before why would i actually

04:16:22.040 make you pay for it did you make did you make this guy wait um did i it was so long ago oh it

04:16:28.800 wasn't the first date it wasn't the first date okay yeah uh what about you what about you um

04:16:34.620 wait sorry we should pay on the first date oh um i'm impartial it doesn't matter but every guy

04:16:40.480 that i've been on a date with has paid so okay i'm also quite impartial okay all right

04:16:47.140 i was offered you offered it's a fake offer yeah

04:16:49.800 that's not that's wrong that's all the time oh wait question so let's how much do we need to send

04:16:58.740 yo that's wrong so let's say you and me on a date right and the whatever the fucking check comes

04:17:07.100 you do how role play how do you do the fake reach oh okay i'm kind of excited i will take out an

04:17:14.420 offer like but i'm praying that he'll pay and i'll even do a second time are you sure

04:17:22.180 like no like i'm okay so yeah you're gonna get laid for sure doing that

04:17:26.460 you're manipulating these men into sleeping with you no i don't mind paying i just think the first

04:17:32.080 initial payment whether it's an ice cream anything the first initial thing i think it's just a polite

04:17:37.480 thing okay so so you do the token gesture let's say though that you because you said you hope i

04:17:44.260 guess you hope that they don't accept so let's say let's say a guy takes you actually takes you up

04:17:50.160 on your token gesture of paying what's your reaction oh of course i'll be nice to their face but if

04:17:56.820 i wouldn't be interested in them long term even if otherwise the date went well and um it's happened

04:18:03.340 to me before i dated a guy and he was really cute we hit it off and then when the bill came

04:18:07.700 i offered him some cash and he took it and he was like counting dimes and it just turned me off

04:18:12.480 because it just shows me okay disregard the dime counting but but let's just say it was a smooth

04:18:19.540 transition where you made the token offer he accepts said token offer there's no like weird

04:18:26.540 it wouldn't be a deal breaker it wouldn't be a deal breaker but i would hope in the long run i

04:18:31.780 wouldn't come to bite me in the ass because usually it shows me that they might be a little

04:18:35.140 bit cheap or you know have different value not cheap but different values i'm like a really

04:18:40.180 generous person so are you yeah even though your offers of i told you just the first payment the

04:18:46.720 first date the first time we hang out isn't that don't you think that's a bit arbitrary

04:18:50.680 i don't know i just think it's a sign of respect after that i don't mind it's traditional

04:18:56.920 can i ask you a question why would you expect the man to have like respect for you when he

04:19:01.180 doesn't really know you or anything like that oh it's just like if even with a friend if you're

04:19:05.300 inviting them out you know a family member anyone you expect actually well i mean it depends the

04:19:10.740 context but i mean if i if i go get food with a friend we pay for it no no no hold on what do you

04:19:18.300 mean i was like if i go out with my friend you want to go grab something we usually pay for our own

04:19:21.520 meal unless it's okay okay yes yes but if i'm inviting like a friend out like i just mean in

04:19:26.360 general i think it's just a nice thing to do for someone and especially in a dating scenario wouldn't

04:19:30.940 you be but that would be a nice thing for you to do then to pay for it as well yeah but i guess it's

04:19:36.140 a little bit traditional okay but so just to be clear so you make the offer so you verbalize

04:19:42.360 the offer you're like oh can i how would you say it you sure you don't or we can do half half or

04:19:49.820 i'll reach and be like okay you'll reach for the purse okay so let me ask you a question do you

04:19:56.280 think communication is important in a relationship yes okay where are you going with that well you're

04:20:03.200 quite i mean women often complain about men are not great communicators men you know they're you

04:20:08.620 know communication is so important but you doing this token thing is you quite literally not

04:20:14.540 donated one hundred dollars she is generous but her explanation of her thought process is the

04:20:20.680 definition of avarice i think you should really know yourself and accept your own opinions not lie

04:20:26.420 yourself that's the only way to move forward and improve smile much love brie yo apostle victor hey

04:20:33.320 thank you man very much appreciated thank you for the tts um so you know isn't it poor communication

04:20:40.420 skills to say one thing but mean the other in other words to make an offer to pay even though you would

04:20:48.320 that would be pretext for you to know if he took you up on said verbalization to take you up on the

04:20:55.140 literal words that came out of your mouth that would be cause to either be negative brownie points or

04:21:01.940 just a full-on deal breaker isn't that poor communication yes technically but i think also it's a

04:21:08.440 cultural thing it's the same way people if you go to a guest house oh can i help you with anything

04:21:12.600 oh can i help you know bring out some things i feel like sometimes it's just a polite way of

04:21:17.820 doing something but if they take you up on the offer are you looking down on them like are you do

04:21:24.260 you have the right to be upset that they took you on no i wouldn't never be like upset like angry i

04:21:30.000 just well you just said you wouldn't it's just not a match culturally right like i don't want to be

04:21:35.820 with someone that doesn't have the same thought process that's fair you're tricking him though

04:21:40.140 because you're giving him the idea that you are someone who is willing to go 50 50 you should be

04:21:44.840 up front and say hey i want a man to pay for me it's entrapment i don't know though is that even

04:21:49.740 i don't know is that isn't that kind of rude though to not reach for the wallet just assume i don't think

04:21:55.760 there's any problem with girls wanting men to pay yeah for the first day how should you go about it you

04:22:00.140 should just tell them hey when we go on a first date i expect a traditional man

04:22:04.960 listen if she was hot enough i'd be like okay traditional whatever whatever the fuck

04:22:12.880 i'd rather let it go downhill let the guy be like hey you're gonna pay half for this so i can be like

04:22:18.920 then he'd be like oh i'm gonna pay half and then i'd be fake about it so the uh the the the point of

04:22:26.440 the first date actually you know i actually like the way my boy zarka said it he said the point of

04:22:30.540 the first date is to bring anxiety to zero and so if you're on if you're having a date with a girl

04:22:35.520 and there's a question over who should pay you should just pay so anxiety goes to zero that's

04:22:40.180 always the way i've done it in fact one of the things i've done is if there's a group of us uh well

04:22:44.460 this is something i learned from justin waller he does this too we'll get up and we'll go find

04:22:48.840 the uh wait the waitress and we'll give her our credit card before the dinner's even halfway done

04:22:55.020 so we're we'll try to pay for it so when the check comes it's already been paid for and like

04:22:59.700 we'll try to beat each other to go pay for it because that's what we do that's that's i have

04:23:04.120 chosen traditional gender roles in my relationship if that's not what you want if you want a polyamorous

04:23:09.500 relationship or if you want a relationship where she's your sugar mama then you can choose that as

04:23:13.200 well in my relationship i've chosen traditional gender roles where i pay for my girlfriend stuff and

04:23:17.620 if my girlfriend has a girlfriend i'll probably pay for her stuff too sure for me for me personally i

04:23:23.120 always go on first dates with the expectation and willingness to pay i'm never going to do

04:23:27.280 something that theoretically would be out of my like price range or anything like that i always go

04:23:33.000 in with the mindset that i will probably pay but it's obviously like with other like romantic gestures

04:23:39.080 it's really nice if they do pay but it's not necessarily expected like in new york and we're like

04:23:44.060 where i live in new york like that it's like one of the most expensive like dates in the world so

04:23:48.420 like to expect a man to like just cover like a 250 date is like a lot on the first date when he

04:23:55.300 doesn't even know you and he's he's investing that into you like not knowing where things are going

04:23:59.180 to go who picked the spot that's why you gotta talk to heavy hitters i mean that's just new york i mean

04:24:03.300 you go to a nice dinner you go you go get street tacos that's true but like on your budget a lot of the

04:24:08.700 times like men will choose the place because they they want to do they want to have the nice gesture they

04:24:12.240 want to do something nice but i have a lot of men that talk to me and say like what how do i tell a girl

04:24:18.080 like when do i tell a girl that i want to go 50 50 because i can't do this anymore i'm breaking my

04:24:22.220 pocket like but like they want to put on that sort of facade let me explain this because i have this

04:24:27.780 for my clients so i one of the things i teach in my program is how to get comps like how to show up

04:24:32.160 with like 10 girls a big thing in los angeles miami and los angeles in las vegas is if you have 10 girls

04:24:37.220 or five girls with you they just give you a comp bottle they'll give you comp rooms they'll give you

04:24:40.440 comp dinner and the guys that i that i teach this a lot of times they're like they're trying to do it

04:24:44.420 every day so that they don't have to pay for dinner and i tell them to stop bro if the problem

04:24:48.120 is you're worried about taking a girl to dinner then let's stop worrying about girls and worry

04:24:52.920 about your fucking money for a while this is a problem so what because what that means is you

04:24:57.800 got money up to three but you're but you are you got girls up to a three but money's at one right now

04:25:02.980 girls are up at a seven but money's at two no money needs to catch up to girls or surpass girls

04:25:07.760 actually the better thing is for it to surpass so if money's at one and girl your skill with women are

04:25:12.380 like at a five money needs to catch up stop worrying about like oh what do i say to this girl

04:25:17.200 let's chill on that let's learn uh let's learn a skill let's become valuable let's make more money

04:25:22.780 first and not have to worry about that situation i'm not saying lead with money to get women but

04:25:26.860 if you take a woman on a date and you're tripping over the bill let's make more money that's that

04:25:31.220 that should be the answer yeah sure yeah but like what about the average man that's like that doesn't

04:25:35.400 that makes the average salary and like you know this is inevitably not going to be in the top one

04:25:39.980 percent no no one no one no one it's not no one has the privilege not everyone has to live in

04:25:46.120 manhattan right you understand living in manhattan like then just don't live in manhattan i don't

04:25:50.920 live in manhattan because i just think like i can afford it but i think about all the time and money

04:25:56.060 that is wasted on hoa fees and incredible like expensive uber rides that's why i don't live in

04:26:02.020 that city i live in las vegas with no state income tax it's still because it's my fucking money that's the

04:26:06.780 reason why i do it no one has to live no one made you live in manhattan leave manhattan move

04:26:11.340 to scottsdale the women are prettier and it's a lot less expensive move to orange county move to

04:26:15.660 dallas move to tampa bay move to san antonio move to austin move to a place where there's beautiful

04:26:20.420 women and it's not that expensive i would stay the fuck out of lower manhattan there's no way i would

04:26:24.240 live there i don't think men should pay for first dates really oh hot take hot take so have you have

04:26:29.500 you ever been on a date with someone and not paid for it the first date personally i pay for my own

04:26:34.840 certainly you've never you've been in a situation where you haven't paid for her yes i have been on

04:26:39.240 dates where i've paid but i've saved a lot of money let me just say that was so to you saving money is

04:26:46.840 more important than how the day goes well look listen i'm and i i would advise men that that this strategy

04:26:54.860 will like the best thing that you can do is despite the potential chance of you feeling like a sucker

04:27:02.700 uh if you want to min max your success when it comes to women you ought to pay for the first date

04:27:09.300 however for me it's more matter of principle like there's a whole bunch of things that you could

04:27:13.880 in theory min max to to elevate your chances of sleeping with a woman dating her having a success whatever

04:27:22.760 um but i think your integrity at some point you know you could fucking simp for a girl and get the

04:27:28.900 pussy through simping maybe like like that might work i don't recommend i certainly don't recommend

04:27:34.920 doing that either i certainly don't recommend doing it but there's certainly like certain things that a

04:27:39.300 guy could do in an effort to get pussy which would either contravene his his own value system or like

04:27:47.460 put him in like a weak position i and so my whole thing is yeah i'll just finish this up my whole my

04:27:55.340 whole thing is is that they're the way that a lot of people move nowadays first off you got foodie

04:28:00.560 calls so girls be going on dates with dudes just for fucking a dinner they're bored they don't have

04:28:04.500 a genuine interest in the guy the second thing is is people are dating multiple people at this point i

04:28:09.000 mean you are dating two guys or whatever the fuck granted it's it seems like you're being ethical

04:28:14.280 about it and you're up front so that's that's fair so however there are women who are not ethical

04:28:19.340 about the fact that they've got five seven dudes that they're dating they're fucking three dudes

04:28:23.880 they're fucking two dudes they're fucking one other dude the dating meta is so fucking it's it's uh

04:28:29.380 fucked up beyond all repair foobar and uh you know as a for both men and women you have to go into a

04:28:36.880 situation with a new person you don't know them it's plot it could very well be the case that

04:28:41.860 that guy you're going on a date with has three chicks he's he's fucking so you got to protect

04:28:46.920 yourself and likewise men if you're going on a date with a girl bro you guys might have some

04:28:52.660 girlfriends you know move in like some fucking shady ways that are fucking that got five dudes

04:28:57.920 they're fucking they've got three dudes who are for food a dude who's their uber in their phone

04:29:02.880 food in the phone so you don't pay for a first date all the time because of the possibility that

04:29:06.960 they're talking to other people and stuff pretty much because because you don't get boyfriend

04:29:10.760 treatment until you're until you're only talking to me if you're talking to other guys they can pay

04:29:16.700 for your shit i'm not going to pay so when someone's your girlfriend you then take on the role of

04:29:20.780 paying for if you're committed to me then then i will fall into people so they're two colors when

04:29:24.620 you don't give them what they want if you if you don't pay for everything if you don't give them

04:29:28.660 everything they want people with interests are still going to come around it might be an eyebrow

04:29:32.280 raiser but it would be like all right let me see where you're going with this big guy

04:29:35.920 because you know what i mean wait what

04:29:38.420 i don't like i don't mind like i like i said when you have your own money you're not like oh

04:29:46.160 i need a guy to pay for me so it's like you don't pay for the first date i'm definitely gonna be like

04:29:49.260 that was strange but i like you so let's see sure like we're gonna have a look trust me this shit

04:29:55.000 this shit loses me girls so like maybe most of you guys don't but like i honestly i'm the type of guy

04:30:00.960 like like for example i'll intentionally like if if there's something funny i could say on a date

04:30:05.560 i'm gonna say that shit like and take the date you know apostol donated 100 i have more to say

04:30:11.660 a relationship is usually trial and error you go to a date not with the expectation to find your life

04:30:18.040 partner just to test the waters saving money on the other hand is part of a final goal you should act

04:30:25.280 your best but respect your principles on a date yeah so yo victor so the answer is go to el dorado

04:30:33.000 go to fucking uh like arkansas go to a barbecue place like that's the thing what i'm saying like

04:30:37.480 don't go to catch don't go to fucking mastro's and newport that's the point like there's other

04:30:42.240 ways to do this but like no i like i i want traditional i want something traditional for my

04:30:47.140 girl so i act traditional as a man that's the thing do you think men should pay on the first date

04:30:50.620 then they don't have to no no let's make this very clear i i deal with what is and not what

04:30:55.300 ought i talk about descriptions not prescriptions he's right if you want to admit min max meaning the

04:31:00.480 highest percentage of women you end up hooking up with you should pay on the first date but i don't

04:31:04.260 have any problem with brian saying he doesn't want to because he has principles that says says

04:31:07.960 otherwise i have just my dating life has been so good like i really enjoy going on dates i really i

04:31:14.900 love it i i have a lot of success on dates that for me i don't ever see it as like me throwing away

04:31:20.860 money and i always go on dates to play like have you guys ever had the butter cake at mastro's has

04:31:25.260 anybody had the butter cake at mastro's holy fucking shit it is so good if you like mastro's go to

04:31:30.080 steak 48 or the or the apple crumble they have at sdk it is so good i go to places where i'm super

04:31:35.540 excited to go anyway yeah and so that's the thing or a lot of times my first date is to go axe throwing

04:31:40.080 i like axe throwing that's just something i really i'm really good at axe throwing so i'll go to

04:31:44.120 something like that to where i would go to this thing even if she wasn't there there's a place

04:31:47.760 called area 15 in vegas that i go to i go do things on my first date that i would have done anyway

04:31:52.060 my biggest one is i love dead mouse on stage at zook so i'm going to go on stage at dead mouse

04:31:56.120 zook or go to go to see steve aoki over at omnia to me though those dates cost zero because i get

04:32:00.520 on up on stage for free but that's something i was going to do anyway sometimes that's my first date

04:32:04.400 yeah so yeah and just to add to that like i don't i don't think anybody like if as a guy you want to

04:32:09.580 pay for the first date i don't think you're wrong like this is just this is my personal approach to

04:32:14.020 it um you know i've i've definitely luckily i've been i haven't been burned too bad and i've never

04:32:19.920 been the guy to like go fucking drop 200 bucks on the first date it's i've always even if i've paid i'll

04:32:25.800 keep it you know something a little more casual there's plenty of stuff that you can do on the

04:32:29.560 first date that's either free or like very low cost in any case though i think it's more so just

04:32:35.800 protecting myself because i don't i don't like to feel like i'm a sucker and it's actually it is a bit

04:32:40.380 of a screening tool because there are girls in the same way that there are guys who and and i feel for

04:32:46.400 women on this there are guys who will sleep with you who will have zero intention of ever committing

04:32:52.360 to you but they're going to keep you around for pussy so in the same way the date yep they'll pay

04:32:58.080 for the date in the same way that there are guys that do that there are women that will string you

04:33:04.980 along and keep keep securing attention keep securing like free you know you'll you'll take her to a

04:33:11.940 concert you'll take her you'll give her your attention you'll you'll pay for her maybe you even

04:33:16.480 before like i mean you said you wait three months right to me that's fuck look good for you good for

04:33:21.700 you if you can if you get guys that wait for three months that's great well he is whipped good job he

04:33:27.020 is whipped but like a lot of people so you know we say it hasn't been a lot of people right that's

04:33:33.020 totally fine but i guess the point i'm trying to make is like a girl can like if she's a hustler

04:33:38.880 she can she can get a lot out of you in the three month period of time and like i'm just cautious of

04:33:44.480 not being caught up in a chick being caught up with a chick that's a user that's using me who's a

04:33:50.000 hustler who just wants a fucking free meal and i think hold on i think i have i have a pretty good

04:33:54.820 eye for it but you never fucking know because there's definitely some some unassuming chicks

04:33:59.200 some shy women you'd never fucking think it but they got they got rosters they got dudes in their

04:34:04.040 phone uber food like and and they're never gonna give it up so my thing is also the other thing is

04:34:10.100 uh i wrote this down uh if a girl still is interested in me after i've done this which i

04:34:19.040 don't i mean this is i think society and a lot of people will view it as a social faux pas or a

04:34:23.800 non-traditional thing as the guy to not pay it's actually a really good screening tool for the girls

04:34:28.600 who are really fucking down for you and really like you and to be fair it could be like maybe she

04:34:33.380 leans a bit more progressive in the sense that she's okay with 50 50 it could be that but it could

04:34:38.540 also be even if she is a traditional girl it could be she's so fucking into you that hey she you're

04:34:44.640 she's so into you she's she's okay with it she's gonna perhaps bend on her rule of the guy should

04:34:51.000 pay for the first date um so it's kind of a screening thing for low interest women if if that's a deal

04:34:57.560 breaker for them they're not that fucking into you because if a woman's really fucking into you

04:35:01.740 she's not she doesn't need romance like and that's a lot of the men that women sleep with

04:35:08.820 they didn't have to fucking take you on three dates they didn't have to do all this shit for you

04:35:14.360 that kind of comes back to our conversation earlier about girls who slept with certain

04:35:19.000 dudes really quick and then this guy comes along oh you got to take me on four dates and buy me shit

04:35:22.860 and you know all this fucking stuff so so yeah um okay sorry we we stayed on that for uh pretty

04:35:29.700 long here let's let's let's try to get through these soup chats we had nathan here hey thank you

04:35:33.540 man 120 no question but uh let's get some fucking air horns for nathan okay whoops all right puffy

04:35:39.640 vegas one all right fine let's fucking all right let's let's do him a solid we'll react to his

04:35:43.460 instagram really quick puffy vegas thank you man youtube youtubers have a max of 500 a day have the

04:35:48.080 girls please write on a scale of one to ten bro i think you're only at 400 brother what's up

04:35:51.720 am i youtubers oh no he did he did 500 okay all right we'll be nice we'll be nice he's been

04:35:55.600 generous yeah pull up his his ig but dude through stream labs buddy dude through stream labs yeah

04:36:01.020 you just you just gave uh you gave 150 you gave 150 to youtube man yeah that's a math right there

04:36:06.640 okay uh puffy vegas okay what in the world is happening okay i'll let you ladies go first and then

04:36:13.440 and then i'm like i'm explaining what he's doing wrong wait uh pull up the photo where he's with the

04:36:19.080 two girls let's pull up these these photos no so right off the get i'm confused at why you feel

04:36:24.960 it necessary to have all these videos and photos with a bunch of random women on your oh no yeah

04:36:29.800 but see the thing is puffy do you see what they're saying like they can tell these are random women

04:36:34.140 they can tell by your body language and the girl's body language that you don't know them

04:36:37.880 wait wait up up this shit's gonna get haram up up up up up up up hold on okay click that one with

04:36:47.000 the kiss no no four days ago no comments either i think he's a fucking giga chat 10 out of 10

04:36:55.100 two he seems a bit he's a fucking giga chat puffy puffy man just like i'll give you access to my

04:37:02.020 school server i have a team of guys that will rate your ig and literally help you fix it i promise

04:37:06.800 you 100 100x better 100x you don't you aren't showing compliance on your instagram that's the

04:37:12.540 problem is that they don't you look like a tourist with hot girl with some girls that don't know you

04:37:17.740 that's what you look like and that's the reason why you're not getting any engagement

04:37:20.920 it's because i i saw puffy's uh youtube he's we're talking it's 54 million views why is this

04:37:25.760 not translating to instagram it's because you're not you're not speaking the right language on

04:37:29.660 instagram you're speaking the youtube language on youtube on instagram you're trying to speak the

04:37:33.340 youtube language and it's not or actually you're trying to speak like a dhv pickup language that

04:37:37.800 shit is that's 2005 bro that shit is over so like i try bro just hit me up for free i promise you

04:37:43.720 we'll score your whole ig we'll have you fixed up in like literally like a week i i have a question for

04:37:48.900 what's his name puffy date puffy vegas puffy vegas what's his you know i live in vegas bro i

04:37:54.400 promise oh yeah dude mike's in vegas yeah bro i will we'll do we're doing an immersion like an

04:37:59.040 immersion thing for probably the price you pay for all these super chats but we'll we'll give you

04:38:02.980 we'll we'll take 30 photos of you where you look fucking baller forget all this shit you need

04:38:07.300 professional photos no more of this blurry shit with bad lighting and girls where you got your arms

04:38:11.660 wrapped around them that is bad game bro i promise you we'll fix that shit in two seconds yeah and

04:38:15.420 women can spot like the disingenuity yeah disingenuine photos on your instagram yeah just

04:38:21.200 be normal be natural puffy do you like dudes just you know yeah puffy all girls girls should always

04:38:27.600 be showing if you if you want to do things like that they should show you compliance and you should

04:38:31.400 not be showing them so much compliance that's that's a big issue what am i the only one at the

04:38:35.020 table that thinks he's a 10 am i i think he's spent five hundred dollars he's a giga chad like looks

04:38:41.120 what looks yeah he's a fucking chad what do you guys he'd rate himself do you guys just not see

04:38:45.640 what i see okay all right i'm glad all right hold on okay john dubai thank you man correct logic of

04:38:52.380 healthy man one woman is 10 only if she wants you two if 10 doesn't want you she is zero you take her

04:38:58.540 seven for okay social proof gets you 10 later than when 10 is good girl three men is always better

04:39:07.220 than woman is this way in this way in this way i think that was a translation from a different

04:39:15.180 language because your conjugation was kind of weird there man grammarly one more time grammarly it's

04:39:19.640 for you can use it for free doesn't want you wait woman is 10 only she's a 10 only if she wants you

04:39:24.680 10 but yeah so if a woman doesn't want you she's like a riddle i don't know right you know what though

04:39:31.240 what i don't like about like what and john think first off dubai maybe he's from dubai uh thank you

04:39:37.660 for your uh donation here well it's in his name uh but i don't like when dudes are like hit hitting

04:39:44.640 up chicks and like interested in a chick but if the girl even if the girl like politely turns turns

04:39:49.900 them down yeah the dudes are like well you were fucking ugly anyways that's fucking lame that's so

04:39:54.300 fucking lame if like bro if the girl doesn't like it just fucking move on both men and women need to

04:39:58.380 learn how to oh i thought he was being like wholesome and saying like if she doesn't like

04:40:02.260 you then she's not a 10 anyway it's like yeah it's not wholesome yeah he's trying to say like

04:40:07.300 if a girl doesn't like it's not worth it yeah it's like a girl like you know yeah that's how i read

04:40:11.260 oh hello victor victor underscore apostle donated 100 dollars woman is 10 only 10 only she wants

04:40:19.440 three then seven this is worse seven then three this isn't the next level i know he's making fun

04:40:27.320 of it that was good i like that good job that was worth a hundred dollars that was a that was a that

04:40:31.800 was a good hundred dollars yo victor thank you yeah thank you for the translation there thank you victor

04:40:35.760 you've explained it all you've explained it all you have fun you have funnier super chatters than me

04:40:41.360 man you guys are funny word thank you man okay we have some more notes here for let's see we had uh

04:40:48.140 rosanna your ex-boyfriend started a car on fire your car on fire on the highway on your 21st birthday

04:40:54.160 the car ended up engulfed in flames so we'll just quickly what was the story there in a therapy session

04:40:58.900 i thought well it was just like how did it start on fire how did it happen um fire intentionally so

04:41:05.220 we went like an hour away to have like wine before my birthday dinner which was back in buffalo

04:41:10.260 and i said we need to be done by x time so we have to make sure and you know we're drinking and

04:41:16.720 then he didn't listen and then we were late and i was like late to my own birthday so we decided to

04:41:21.660 drive over 100 on the highway so don't let anyone else drive your car and it may have been a little

04:41:27.960 late for an oil change i don't remember it was like no it was like a 99 prism or some shit like you

04:41:34.000 know you remember those cars yeah yeah yeah it sounds like and it sounds like you lost coolant at some

04:41:38.940 point and we were on the highway and then these people on the highway were like sticking out of

04:41:42.700 their like windows like hey hey and i'm like maybe we should like you know see what they have to say

04:41:48.080 and they're like your car's on fire i'm like shit holy shit like all i could picture was like a movie

04:41:53.200 and it spontaneously like blowing up you know it's like extreme thinking but i was like pull over

04:41:58.300 pull over and it just went up in flames wow and the fire department came oh so he didn't like oh

04:42:06.220 okay we thought it was like well he did like indirectly yeah so somebody that didn't change

04:42:15.520 the oil or the coolant and you drove over a hunt you redlined it to the point where i think we

04:42:19.900 perceived it as something malicious no probably had some kind of crack in the displacement which

04:42:25.540 caused he wasn't the best but yeah that's just one of the things okay i have three more things here

04:42:29.620 and then we're going to wrap up uh really quick show of hands do any of you object to men caring

04:42:35.800 about body count or in other words if your body count i suppose show of hands if if you object

04:42:42.540 not do you care about body count but do you object because some women say well you your my past is

04:42:50.680 none of your business um what you do care that was in the past uh so do you object to men who care

04:42:56.440 about your body count or a woman's body count sure show of hands anyone object to men caring about

04:43:03.940 body count i used to you object you object i just like to share with people that i'll be seeing

04:43:08.300 um in a future with i don't like to share that type of personal information with with people i don't

04:43:13.940 see myself dating okay sure that's understandable but if if if a potential partner did have an issue

04:43:20.900 with your said body count that's fair okay absolutely yeah i think that was that was a question what about

04:43:26.160 you um i just don't think it's a big deal i guess i know some men clearly think otherwise and also

04:43:34.500 as i've gotten older i that doesn't even come up in topic when dating anymore seriously even

04:43:40.160 not for me do you think that do you think that having being with more people has changed you at

04:43:46.180 all i haven't been with that many i don't think and that's why i feel like whether you're with you

04:43:52.020 know one or a hundred like i don't know you don't think you don't think being with a hundred would

04:43:56.460 change you that's i mean even chemically you're gonna get super i mean when you intercourse with

04:44:02.780 somebody you're sorry i'm gonna see my pocket um that's the closest you can get energy and vibe

04:44:07.880 energy exactly you have intercourse but you are but you literally are you're engaging in quantum

04:44:13.840 fields that's literally the closest you can be to somebody you think that's not going to change

04:44:17.320 you a little bit of course i just think it changed i just think it changes women more change you have

04:44:21.080 give me some concrete like okay so so so we'll say it like this just imagine that there's some sort of

04:44:27.060 uh that there is but a neurochemical that allows you to uh bond with somebody with a partner does

04:44:32.260 make sense okay so it's called oxytocin so let's just say what happens is over time each new partner

04:44:38.580 you have your ability to have that oxytocin release which allows you to bond decreases every time every

04:44:44.080 time you use the core apostle donated one hundred dollars thank you the lady talking about the

04:44:49.720 driving was harder to follow than a squirrel through a forest during nut season it was harder to follow

04:44:55.340 than a turkish soap opera when you don't speak the language hashtag jokes for one hundred dollars that's

04:45:01.640 pretty funny yeah thank you man yeah everybody understood me but didn't understand your previous

04:45:05.800 thing so yeah you should get it i think he was just trying to throw jokes yeah anyway so so so

04:45:13.880 neurologically it just gets to the point like you take you take a uh you know you take a sticker i take

04:45:18.760 it off the wall then i put the sticker back on i take it off i take it by the the fourth or fifth time

04:45:23.160 the sticker's barely sticking on the wall that's the kind of thing and the thing is when i say that and i say

04:45:27.460 it's not the same for men god that's such a double standard but it is a double standard it is

04:45:32.180 there are studies that show that right yeah for sure there's studies that show the thing is like

04:45:35.540 what before i understood evolutionary psychology before i got started reading dr buss by the way

04:45:39.780 i recommend all of dr david buss's books if you guys want to learn all the stuff i was talking about

04:45:43.540 today um one of the things you'll find is that there is an evolutionary double standard like men i kept

04:45:49.580 meeting back when i used to i used to be a dj at a strip club and i used to work at sixth street in austin i used

04:45:55.540 to work in a bunch of bars down there and i would meet these girls who were like young super pretty

04:46:00.200 working on their master's degree everything about them 10 out of 10 and their boyfriends always had

04:46:05.000 a two three four hundred body count always and i just noticed that the the men that they would go

04:46:10.260 after it was so asymmetrical they were looking for masculinity in their boyfriends and their

04:46:14.920 boyfriends were looking for femininity in them and so those things were two different like well if i

04:46:18.920 have a body count then she should have a high body count if that's what you want to believe then

04:46:22.780 that's fine but the the math doesn't show that and the the very fact that i say that is so offensive

04:46:27.660 to so many people but unfortunately that is what the science state or that's what the statistics

04:46:31.540 states yeah i mean oxytocin is inhibited by testosterone and vasopressin essentially makes

04:46:38.120 men like kind of get up right oh sorry vasopressin essentially makes men like it's one of the reasons

04:46:43.200 why they like they get up right after sex like women uh bond and they want to stay like they're

04:46:48.880 they're looking to stay and men that's it's just not the same neurochemically um but there are many

04:46:55.120 women that just don't have like the oxytocin network like that works in that way so it really

04:47:01.840 it really does depend woman to woman but overall that is like the truth scientifically okay so really

04:47:07.560 quick i'm gonna try to blast through this here okay so a couple you had some comments on body count

04:47:12.440 i'm just curious like what's your body count i don't know i'm not keeping track plus or plus or

04:47:19.540 minus 10 under 10 more than 10 i don't know i literally don't know like i i don't keep track

04:47:26.280 we're not sure yeah i'm not sure either bueller plus 10 plus 10 okay plus 20

04:47:35.720 no no oh okay excuse me between 10 and 20 okay

04:47:40.260 four 29 okay um so because i go to church and uh i'm in mass i like um i view intimacy as like

04:47:52.400 kissing oral and you don't have to if you don't want to say you don't know i want you don't need to

04:47:56.020 he's asking about vaginal intercourse he's asking about vaginal intercourse yeah i'm like i'm like i

04:48:00.740 i include like people in my body count that have been kissed and so penetrative sex 11 people 11

04:48:06.500 people yes mike what about you man we ain't going here okay i'm a man of god i'm a man of god

04:48:12.420 priya come on i just said it out of respect for myself and my future partner that's not something

04:48:16.700 i'm going to disclose on the internet okay fair enough all right we've got the body count

04:48:19.680 wait brian how many do you have out of respect for a lot of people oh well like mike

04:48:23.720 like mike i'm also a man of god i do that so y'all are virgins

04:48:28.980 hey i'm curious what number is too high for your partner what number is too high for your partner

04:48:34.760 you find out you're having a conversation like god damn that's too high i don't i just don't like

04:48:41.780 care about like body count like if we're doing something and it's us now then the past is your

04:48:47.480 path usually women don't care as much but i'm just curious is there a number that's too high

04:48:51.720 like 300 like triple digits kind of gets icky but it's like if it's a quality person

04:48:57.100 he's really good and bad he has no diseases but he's in triple digits that's a problem

04:49:02.380 i mean it's not it's not a problem but i'm gonna look at it different then you wouldn't break up

04:49:06.300 with him though it's not a deal breaker no it's not okay what about you triple digits good and bad

04:49:09.720 you don't care what about you it's a deal so triple digits he's really good and bad but no diseases

04:49:14.980 but that's too many that's too many people you like him and then after like the third time you had

04:49:18.860 sex with him then he tells you he's at like 200 maybe i'm like dan you fucked over triple digits

04:49:23.720 girls like this yeah like i don't know i don't feel special anymore you don't feel special okay

04:49:28.580 got it okay what do you think sorry i guess it's not a deal breaker but i wouldn't prefer it okay

04:49:33.200 them to be more selective or conscientious for sure what do you think undermine huh undermine you want

04:49:40.560 it to be under yours you want it to be the number to be okay got it okay go ahead i've never heard

04:49:44.960 that before what do you think um yeah i don't have you said 100 i mean he's in manhattan you

04:49:49.860 know i'm saying i mean 100 100 is like your first year there yeah i know i really don't ask guys

04:49:54.040 their body count i just prefer not to know cool what do you think um i don't particularly think

04:49:58.680 that anybody that holds the values that i would seek out in a partner would have a triple digit

04:50:03.400 body count but it's not a question i would ask and really concern myself over interesting again that

04:50:08.600 goes back to the the dr bus 37 culture study women were always less concerned about a man's

04:50:14.620 body count than the other way around wait so what about you mike what's a like the limit for

04:50:19.080 uh well whatever my girlfriend is at oh so romantic there you go well that's that's just

04:50:25.620 men care about a woman's past and women care about a man's there you go that's what it is there you

04:50:32.820 she she is definitely pair-bodied let's just say that she's very excited every time i come home let me

04:50:37.400 ask a question mike would you um you know would you prefer a girl who's a virgin man i so here's

04:50:44.520 the here's the only the only thing i'm gonna say about that so i know a lot of guys supposedly would

04:50:49.440 say yes for me the the issue is if you're 21 and you haven't been with anyone i think that's such an

04:50:56.100 unusual thing i don't know man prefer i guess i guess in a vacuum the answer is yes but most likely no

04:51:02.380 because i've had sex with girls that were virgins and it is pretty traumatic so what about in

04:51:05.960 comparison to somebody that had a relatively like high body count yeah of course i would prefer it

04:51:10.020 to a high body count but like the thing is like when i'm in my 20 listen maybe maybe it wouldn't

04:51:14.380 like this for you maybe it wouldn't like this for the rest of y'all but when i was in my 20s and i

04:51:17.560 was going to ut austin and then i was working at a nightclub i didn't care about a woman's body

04:51:21.140 count because i didn't want to be in a relationship i just wanted to have sex with lots of attractive

04:51:25.080 women i had a viewpoint i had a point in my life remember i'm 45 years old so 20 years ago i was

04:51:30.720 looking to have sex with women and i did not care about their body count what their religious

04:51:34.180 preferences were whether or not they were democrat or republican if they were attractive they wanted

04:51:38.040 to have sex with me i want to have sex with them now some guys out there might may not admit that

04:51:42.240 you went through that phase too but that was the phase i went through and when i went through that

04:51:45.880 phase if a hundred women had said yes to me i would have said yes back because that was the phase i was

04:51:50.360 going through now it's different your whole phase there we go it was a whole phase but the thing is now

04:51:54.620 it's very different because i find less than one percent of women attractive because physical beauty

04:51:58.740 doesn't mean as much when you host every bikini competition and you used to go to the playboy

04:52:02.440 dimension it just doesn't mean that much to me anymore so for me it's a little bit different

04:52:06.140 like again sometimes with kylie and i we're looking for girls to like go talk to and none of them are

04:52:10.780 hot enough for us that's an issue that we have sometimes so i will tell you uh it's it's just like

04:52:15.380 i said it's a very different standard it's a very different standard describe what is hot for you guys

04:52:20.020 for us we just have to we we have to both be attracted um she has a slightly different look she's

04:52:26.500 into than me uh but you know i'm i'm trying to think of an example i like my girlfriend like girls who

04:52:31.960 look like my girlfriend i'm kind of into you know what i'm saying yeah i have a question for you and

04:52:35.980 you sort of mentioned this when it came to the jonah hill thing that a guy can't handle a girl

04:52:39.420 showing off her body that's that's insecure um do you think it's insecure if a man prefers a woman

04:52:46.240 with a low body count or for example what wants to date a girl who's a virgin i uh no no i don't think

04:52:53.200 it's that okay do you think it's something else um it was more i guess when i when i wrote that it was

04:52:59.460 more towards the jonah hill thing with not wanting his uh girl being shown in a bikini

04:53:04.560 okay um so it's more like that okay yeah we we don't have to touch too much back on the jonah hill

04:53:10.060 thing um oh hey yo victor thank you underscore apostle donated one hundred dollars my wife was a virgin

04:53:18.880 when i met her she was 20 we're together for 15 years now and have a beautiful family she was a smart

04:53:26.080 good-looking girl didn't have any red flags or weird things about herself didn't matter that she

04:53:31.880 was a virgin but wasn't weird yeah for sure there you go green flag not being weird no no problem

04:53:38.220 yeah and um and mike you were saying how like yeah if she's a bit older and she's still a virgin maybe

04:53:43.160 that's a bit i just think i'm not again i'm not saying it's weird but it's like you had i'm not

04:53:47.300 gonna i it's so mean for me to say this but you had a girl on here last time i was on here and she

04:53:51.080 was like yeah i'm a virgin and i'm like she was very clearly autistic and i was like okay that's why you're

04:53:55.180 virgin like it's you know i'm talking about shots fired yeah yeah i mean she's like very like she

04:53:59.000 just she was fine it was very clear clear that she was on the spectrum and i was like okay i can see

04:54:03.320 why that girl's a virgin and that's the only thing i think i don't know i mean she claims uh that girl

04:54:08.200 was absolutely on the spectrum there's no well well it's uh but i mean i think what was more

04:54:12.940 interesting i mean she does of yeah and i was like i mean i would be concerned that someone's taking

04:54:18.920 advantage of her like that's that's kind of crazy okay uh well wait oh should we pull that back up that

04:54:24.200 that thing um actually really quick pull up that um that thing we were because it's semi-related the

04:54:30.140 video of that chick the the brett cooper one i don't know if it's i think we watched most of it

04:54:40.160 just pull it back up yeah just just pull it up really quick okay so this girl she's 23 and she

04:54:49.860 said she hasn't even had a first kiss so obviously she hasn't had sex so she's a virgin 23 year old

04:54:54.220 virgin um but uh okay so and then go to the next one really quick though next one

04:55:01.400 you gotta click you gotta click over

04:55:06.100 you did what here f11 man you got the beat keep it in f11 uh oh this is her reacting to it because

04:55:20.860 there are a bunch of fucking news articles about it actually it's the next one over

04:55:23.540 one more over it's gonna humiliate you for that man that's crazy bro nobody's humiliating this girl

04:55:28.240 wait she just oh yes yeah so then bro she's not being humiliated for being a 23 year old

04:55:34.920 nobody's humiliating that that's not really the thing i wanted to talk about though so she she

04:55:38.920 like did another tiktok where tiktok where it's like me just waiting for a nice boy to come along

04:55:43.980 to date i have impossibly high unrealistic standards and i'm expecting an epic fairy tale world and in

04:55:49.820 two years so in two years she's gonna realize she's a lesbian that's what's happening here bro like

04:55:53.600 it's just kind of obvious like this is ridiculous you guys i was telling you i had a friend like

04:55:57.700 this she was gorgeous like 10 on 10 like not even exaggerating everyone objectively thought she was

04:56:03.040 beautiful and she just loved the attention also of not want like not letting any guy touch her

04:56:10.400 being undesirable yeah and we would ask her like why don't you just kiss you know whoever like you

04:56:15.440 like him he's like no no no i want my kiss to be like under the snow then you know it starts to

04:56:20.200 build up now it can't just be any kiss now you've waited till 23 now it has to be special with the

04:56:24.640 right guy blah blah and she would lead guys on all the time and then be like nope don't have me

04:56:30.280 nope so she kind of enjoyed it yeah it's it's uh she had a kiss now yeah it's years later yeah but

04:56:37.200 it's kind of ridiculous and then he cheated on her

04:56:39.420 oh i just i just guessed i just guessed of course he did because her expectations were unrealistic and

04:56:46.940 she instead of she either found a top tier man who was going to cheat or she found a guy who's

04:56:50.780 really good at fucking running game and then that's what she gets that's what ends up happening

04:56:54.520 yep but but it is interesting like i guess in the original tiktok that she put i i'm trying to

04:57:02.020 remember the exact clip we watched on the brett cooper channel she's like oh yeah i'm 23 i've never

04:57:06.420 had a kiss blah blah blah but like and look she's she's a cute girl whatever but she's whinging about

04:57:12.500 or it's not whinging but she's saying she's saying like yeah she wants this fairytale romance and she

04:57:17.540 has like ridiculous fucking standards and like she's kind of an average looking girl like so it's like

04:57:23.360 what do you fucking expect if she wanted to go out and get a date she absolutely could yeah

04:57:26.700 that's the thing she could totally get a guy that is um maybe not to her you know theoretically

04:57:34.840 unrealistic standards but that would be on the same playing field level appropriate for her to be going

04:57:41.520 out with and she could get kissed i think at that point it was more so like a choice by her i feel

04:57:48.020 like if she's really yeah and she's not terrible looking no not at all i mean she could absolutely get a

04:57:52.760 date no problem but yeah i mean it's totally fine if people are doing that of their own free will but

04:57:57.080 to sit here and be like oh boohoo i haven't gotten my first kiss i'm 23 kind of ridiculous

04:58:01.740 well she's posting it because she wants someone to kiss her you know what i mean but she wouldn't

04:58:07.840 be posting it if you didn't want someone to come i think she just well here's here's actually the

04:58:11.320 crazy thing here's actually the crazy thing is i don't time wise okay let's just play the video uh

04:58:18.120 pull up the one where she's like reacting to the news articles because there's a bunch of news

04:58:22.280 articles i don't know why this went viral but if it's a personal preference or religious reasons

04:58:26.500 that's totally like go ahead yeah that's totally reason but to sit here and just kind of be like

04:58:31.700 it's one of the videos it's already pulled up as if no one's good enough i guess for her

04:58:35.540 yeah but also you have to be realistic with your standards at some point i asked you to skip over

04:58:40.740 one so it's the one uh between the the youtube video and then the last one

04:58:45.380 also my first kiss was horrible like there was nothing no fireworks about yeah this one

04:58:52.540 saying that this is not what it was meant to be the video was supposed to be funny

04:59:00.240 yes it's entirely true i've never had first kiss i've never been on a date i did not lie about it but

04:59:05.060 i thought it was funny i was poking fun at myself can you skip to like the 55 seconds mark

04:59:09.520 i

04:59:14.520 wait

04:59:17.040 fucking tiktok is so fucking dunk dog shit

04:59:25.040 mine was actually good and i knew i was good okay i it's both had braces and my shit was fucked up

04:59:32.060 like oh shit is it not it's not loading just pause it i'll tell you what she says so okay she says

04:59:37.620 blah blah blah there's some stuff and then she starts complaining because she posted this thing

04:59:41.800 that there's some news articles she starts whinging that and and this is kind of a totally different

04:59:49.660 thread but she complains that there were guys she wanted men to stop dming her saying oh i'll be your

04:59:57.400 first kiss and she's calling them creepy and stuff because they were dming her being flirtatious

05:00:03.500 being like oh i'll be your first kiss and like that is such a privileged position like

05:00:07.880 like if a dude was online 23 year old man posting i've i've never kissed a girl i've never been on a date

05:00:14.460 you think any thousands of women will be like i will be your first kiss so it's such a privileged position

05:00:20.760 and this is actually like a lot of women will say why don't men approach anymore why don't men and i

05:00:26.660 mean there's a lot of reasons why social media dating apps etc men don't really have an incentive

05:00:31.360 to approach in person because they can get girls online or at least have the illusion of the possibility

05:00:36.580 of getting girls online but often women complain why don't men ever approach me in person anymore i

05:00:41.660 wish well it's precisely because a lot of women will if the guy is not like if he doesn't approach

05:00:48.280 you in precisely the perfect way that you would like to be approached he's going to get labeled

05:00:52.900 as a creep case in point this 23 year old girl who's had zero dating experience has never had the

05:00:57.700 first kiss is putting these men on blast publicly that they're creepy simply just by dming her saying

05:01:03.640 i will be your first kiss which based off of the video she released is flirtatious now is the first

05:01:10.680 opening line hey i'll fucking make out with you maybe that's not the best you know first opening line

05:01:15.880 but in any case like she is rebuffing rejecting these men publicly online and uh it's interesting

05:01:23.260 to me that uh a lot of women complain that men aren't approaching anymore yet here you have a

05:01:27.580 woman who's never even had a first kiss publicly humiliating these men who are she's not like naming

05:01:33.100 them but like still that's that's one of the big reasons why men are no longer approaching women is

05:01:38.040 because they don't want to be labeled as a creep or even worse have some sort of you know false

05:01:43.260 accusation whatever especially especially if like guys are in school like bro there's a lot of shit

05:01:48.300 going on in the uh with title nine and shit that's uh no good but um i don't never had a kiss i was

05:01:56.120 trying to segment that into something related but it slipped my mind really quick i want to come back

05:02:01.440 to your thing uh paying for the first date so just a point of clarification you want the guy to pay for

05:02:06.000 the first date correct the first transaction the first transaction first date would you consider

05:02:11.560 that to be a traditional gender role for for a guy to pay for the first date yes okay so you want a

05:02:18.360 traditional guy no oh wait so you want a you want a traditional gesture yes okay well you i want

05:02:31.900 a traditional you want a poly what do you mean you don't want a traditional you know well because then

05:02:38.520 it's like oh well then i you know i want to be able to do my job i want to be able to post bikini

05:02:43.600 pics oh that would be not traditional you know right so but so i guess i guess where i'm going

05:02:48.440 with that is do you do you consider yourself a traditional woman no do you okay that's fair

05:02:53.920 though you you did admit that you don't necessarily want a traditional guy but you do want at least in

05:02:59.400 this specific scenario a guy to adhere to his traditional gender role in the first instance of

05:03:04.900 paying for the first date yeah so are there any maybe you're not a traditional woman but are there any

05:03:09.680 initial ways in which you adhere to your traditional gender roles even if limited of course of course i

05:03:16.600 like even with my ex i would cook i would clean i would do the domestic stuff i think some stuff is

05:03:21.540 just natural right what even if you sure but but so you but you do want that up front traditional

05:03:28.320 treatment from men but i mean you you do i'm please clarify i it's not clear to me you do only fans

05:03:35.880 yes you post do you post full nude no you post what panty hose or something or what is it

05:03:43.960 tees tees lewds lewds yeah is that traditional no so why do you demand a guy adhere to his traditional

05:03:53.660 gender role but on the front on the front end but when he's first met you you have your i think it's

05:04:01.340 more like a i don't know if i call it traditional more like a cultural thing almost i don't know is

05:04:07.000 it but but isn't it isn't wouldn't couldn't you make the argument that culturally men are not thrilled

05:04:12.960 about dating women who are posting can you please specify precisely what you you have like lingerie you

05:04:21.020 post lingerie photos or i do panty hose content do you sell your panty hose i have that's pretty

05:04:27.280 non-traditional no i agree i'm not a tradition i'm not traditional i'm very like free-spirited and

05:04:33.240 i hope like whoever my partner is and they have been in the past they've been free-spirited too

05:04:37.500 just in this one instance and in some instances i think um it's the polite and respectful thing to

05:04:45.360 do you don't want you don't want to try a little poly no no okay i would say why i'm bugging with you

05:04:51.580 but wouldn't it wouldn't be the polite and respectful thing to do when getting into a new

05:04:55.940 relationship with a man to not have not have your semi-nude photographs online and have have sent

05:05:03.440 dudes who you don't even know your pantyhose yeah i guess no i i agree with you but it's not black and

05:05:09.860 white you know what i mean like we can't just put into a box either your traditional or non-traditional

05:05:14.140 you need to find someone with the same values as you and in this case those traditional like

05:05:19.000 restaurant things and cultural things like that that to me is important and then other you know

05:05:24.060 sexual things like you know showing a bit of skin on the line that's not as big of a deal as me

05:05:29.360 him having multiple partners that's not as big of a deal as it oh so you'd be polygynous you just

05:05:35.620 want to be polyamorous i don't know no i what is polygynous when you're multiple women yeah i'm not

05:05:41.940 but it's closed on your end yeah no i just a traditional monogamous for a relationship that's

05:05:47.720 a good question like do you guys prefer monogamous or polyamorous because in this times now

05:05:52.040 it's like okay totally fine if you have like do you guys prefer to be monogamous i was just in a

05:05:57.460 polygamous relationship is that how you say it closed on one end polygyny polygyny so yeah closed

05:06:02.740 on my end but open on his polygynous yeah and um i was really okay with it like 100 okay with it but

05:06:11.060 um at the end of it things ended because like of my past and he like just couldn't get over it

05:06:18.180 essentially so i had to take the l on that one and um you didn't take an l no i did i did take an l i

05:06:26.180 did i did um because yeah sweet by the way mike rollo texted me and this was when we were talking

05:06:33.140 about like the girls who will make one guy wait and then make um previous guys not wait so he so this

05:06:42.040 is from rollo tomasi the rational male women break rules for alpha males and make rules for beta males

05:06:48.440 so you'll make the the can you repeat that they make rules for alphas and break rules for betas

05:06:55.580 okay so we touched they make rules for betas and break rules for alphas they make rules for betas and

05:07:02.000 break rules for alphas so but i guess going back to what you were saying before you had said that you

05:07:08.640 were not like quite as bothered with him having other sexual partners or him seeing other women

05:07:14.680 sorry i i think i uh misspoke i meant like him having a lot of sexual partners in the past oh in

05:07:20.600 the past so i said i know yeah that's why i got a big sorry sorry my bad can you pull up the twitch

05:07:25.720 really quick and then we have two more things and then we're gonna wrap and then uh all right guys

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05:07:40.340 really appreciate it clue thank you for the prime man appreciate it okay cool uh so these are just

05:07:45.160 notes that came up as uh you guys had mentioned them earlier on so some of you keep notes of the

05:07:50.880 men that you've slept with i think i don't know if you said it i don't know if you have like a notepad

05:07:54.620 so it's on your phone like what yeah it's a locked note in my notes app oh just in the mic please

05:07:58.620 oh yeah is it a google spreadsheet with like different attributes no it's like in my notes app oh okay

05:08:04.220 yeah so just show who has a note notes app of all the dudes that you've fucked i guess so y'all

05:08:11.200 that's why y'all have met though boom boom boom what about you no no no no i've like journals about

05:08:16.480 like my past relationships to compare like what i like you know what red flags are words like learn

05:08:22.480 about myself but that was like a one-time journal can you just tilt the mic down towards you a little

05:08:26.880 bit so for your for your notes uh what like you don't have to get into details but like what what are

05:08:32.780 the the different columns so you have like no it's just a list of names name but what like dick

05:08:38.620 size age no it's it's not a spreadsheet it's literally just their name some people got

05:08:44.880 social security number it's got the little the sort feature at the top the top the sort of feature by

05:08:49.580 dick size it's got a cucumber emoji on google sheets it's just the modern version of a match in the bed

05:08:54.760 post right exactly my to-do list oh it's a grocery list but it's mine just names as well just names

05:09:00.800 i have like time

05:09:01.880 10 13 we came to intercourse at chili's no no no like the times like the amount of times

05:09:11.780 and then like what year i think it's really important to keep track of that kind of stuff in

05:09:16.080 case health stuff comes back later oh shoot all right last last thing here a couple of you mentioned

05:09:23.100 icks so that we're gonna talk last thing we're gonna talk about is icks so see and you see a couple

05:09:29.140 of you seemed rather um interested in that topic so do you have any icks what are some icks

05:09:35.600 um yeah what the first off what does it what is an ick what does that mean automatic turnoff

05:09:41.200 i feel like i need to think there's nothing else right now about it so sure just let me think about

05:09:47.180 it and you go next person oh okay come back to you any icks

05:09:51.020 can i say icks you don't know what they are if they hit you out of nowhere you're walking down

05:10:01.620 with your your boo and then you notice like i seen this one on tiktok his ear was flapping a little

05:10:07.000 bit weird or oh i know that's oh yeah or yeah it's like something that you didn't even know

05:10:14.020 you didn't like until you or he wouldn't pick up the mail also we get rid of that that motherfucker

05:10:18.320 i was slapping no nails fucked up done bad bad teeth you know like the bad breath with the bad

05:10:26.300 teeth usually if you have bad teeth in the brad beth i don't like that's kind of like that's

05:10:30.240 something i can't do yeah bad hygiene that's not an ick an ick is like oh that is an ick is like

05:10:36.740 you smell like freaking goat cheese like that's i feel like having bad hygiene that's almost a given

05:10:42.700 like i don't think anybody likes you know maybe i'm trying to think of a like an ick is like something

05:10:47.940 that like you in my opinion like you you're seeing your like one one girl said like i saw my man like

05:10:53.960 get out of the pool and like he tripped and like that was a big ick i think it's like seeing a man

05:10:58.700 like outside of his masculine or like do something like a little weird we know what's a ick let's

05:11:03.120 say we're at a restaurant and he's talking to the waitress like not in a respectful manner like just

05:11:08.060 yeah like hey bring my food that is that is an ick like because it's like why are you talking to

05:11:13.000 people disrespectfully you know like you know that's just weird i feel like icks are irrational

05:11:16.960 no the biggest i feel like my biggest ick is like uh their mindset like you really think like that

05:11:21.300 and it's just like uh okay there's nothing's gonna change that no i seen an ick where this girl

05:11:26.320 she was swimming with her boyfriend and then she put the gopro under the pool and his legs were

05:11:30.720 going like really dinky like get rid of them yeah there you go that's definitely a reason to end

05:11:36.020 a marriage that should work yeah i feel like what is everyone's type like we haven't we didn't say

05:11:43.400 like what their type was like do you guys have a type we'll we'll uh we'll do that'll be our last

05:11:48.560 okay uh why don't we start with you go ahead with the with the type your type what's your time

05:11:53.680 i i don't want to be like i have a type but if we're talking about physically i've noticed i'm

05:11:57.980 attracted to like latino men prefer like not preferably but i my track record is like mexican

05:12:03.960 dudes that are like kind of gangster vibe like i think i like the very masculine manly man

05:12:10.540 okay shout out and i kind of like ugly guys like like a rough ass face you know like they look rough

05:12:16.380 wait didn't you say your your your four-year situationship didn't you say he was like

05:12:20.820 loco he he was from stockton oh yeah so he sells meth no no he wasn't he wasn't a trapper

05:12:31.080 or anything like that he got bodies and not the sexual kind

05:12:33.900 no no no not that you know wait was he a gangbanger no he wasn't like i feel like every guy that grows

05:12:43.160 up his address in victorville no no no he was just like you know i feel like a lot of guys that grew

05:12:48.980 up in the hood when they were they're growing up and as kids they kind of deal with like gang things

05:12:53.320 because that's very prevalent in the hood but like out of high school he wasn't like involved in that

05:12:57.820 i mean he had a little like surenio tattoo but you know it's like whatever he had a what

05:13:01.900 surenio means it's southern mexican like yeah half of the yard in california prison system is

05:13:07.540 surenio yeah there's norteño surenio yeah i just i didn't hear what you said the biggest i don't think

05:13:11.480 i like cholo kind of guys anymore because that's why we're like you know you had a bad experience or

05:13:17.540 i just feel like sometimes with that like hyper like that very macho man it's like who they're

05:13:23.840 around like they're friends you know what i mean the guys will act like who their friend group is and

05:13:27.960 if they're always like going crazy and stuff there's just like so many things happening i don't know

05:13:32.240 speaking of prison gangs um isn't what there's also paisas yeah is that yeah so surenio just so

05:13:43.620 just so you're clear like it's mostly your skin color right well surenio that's southern california

05:13:50.780 typically people are of like uh latin american descent i believe norteños they're from northern

05:13:55.500 yeah and then paisas isn't that like they're they're not they weren't born here like they own like they're

05:14:01.440 they're ranchers like they're farmers i thought paisas that's like they're actually like from

05:14:05.660 mexico like they were born in mexico and they immigrated here most of the time yes paisa or

05:14:09.360 it could be someone that like they could be second generation but they their parents only speak

05:14:12.580 spanish and they're like they could still be considered paisa it's like rancho lifestyle like

05:14:15.840 being a farmer you know but but definitely coming from mexico and being here is paisa and regular

05:14:20.800 white people are just called woods and then there's also white people that no they're called crackers

05:14:24.660 i mean oh god canceled um okay so that's your type is you like latino men i noticed yeah latino

05:14:32.760 men have you ever do the white guy i'm not i'm just curious no no i'm not i'm not saying you are

05:14:37.500 like no i have it but my mom says to because they're just more chill you know there's not like

05:14:44.880 the lack of culture they're just like yeah whatever you know but

05:14:47.960 oh no i'm at this point i am open to all ethnicities i just noticed i did tend to like

05:14:55.980 latino mexican men or whatever like you know okay all right yep okay cool based what's your type

05:15:03.540 i really like brutal honesty almost sometimes harsh and but as far as physical appearance i've always

05:15:11.160 like puppy puppy dog brown eyes brown hair i feel like there's so much you want to say

05:15:19.180 like i feel like we got to get you back on the show because i know there's more like i know you

05:15:23.660 have a ton of shit to say but my number's open but aren't you you're in minnesota so it's hard to

05:15:29.300 get you out here yeah i'm an artist so are you sticking around california or are you heading back

05:15:34.240 what's what's there's a reason to oh so do you date white guys no just for the show i don't

05:15:42.020 discriminate let's make it fucking awkward in here let's make it awkward come on let's do it yeah

05:15:49.080 let's make it awkward wait is your preference like do you have a racial preference like your

05:15:54.280 last boyfriend was i really don't have a preference your last boyfriend was black period what about

05:15:59.980 before that i'm mexican here last last seven men you've dated what race breakdown go quick

05:16:07.980 in chronological order go i did a couple white guys couple white guys couple black guys couple

05:16:14.960 white guys two mexican guys okay all right viva mexico that's a solid roster uh what's your type

05:16:21.860 uh my type is blonde hair blue eyes pale tall and skinny mgk yeah he's a bit too tall and lanky but

05:16:36.720 isn't that literally what you just not like that he's i don't know how tall he is but he's very

05:16:41.000 okay word what about you um tall dreadheads with tattoos tall what with what sorry saw tall guys

05:16:50.440 with locks with dreads okay but like but like look hard but like soft personality i know it's

05:16:57.100 counterproductive but i don't know you're blushing right now just even thinking about it yeah he's

05:17:01.980 right here yeah okay uh what about you um is it just physical or just like anything yeah it could

05:17:14.400 be physical personality traits um so conscientiousness um you know nice eyes nice smile

05:17:20.900 they have to be like care about their health and their physical appearance um creatives like people

05:17:28.800 are creatives they tend to be attracted to and people who text me back right away or answer my call

05:17:36.620 or call me back right away like i like that i don't understand why some girls don't like that

05:17:41.760 ryan you would call her back every time right wait what you would call her back every time you

05:17:45.780 would never like made her make her wait for a text wait you just to clarify you you dislike it when a

05:17:50.860 guy doesn't or i like it when they're responsive when they just call me or they text me back i mean

05:17:58.420 it doesn't have to be like the 0.01 second but like i'm a terror you know i'm a fucking terrible

05:18:03.560 fucking whatever interest you know you're gonna i was flying in i'm like am i still on the goddamn show

05:18:08.160 what's about to happen here no i'm i i'm a terrible texter ask anybody um and like intelligent

05:18:16.900 like we have to have like really deep weird conversations that like it's not like small talk

05:18:22.540 word yeah wait why are you why are you trying to set this up she's got a boyfriend she has a

05:18:29.180 boyfriend whatever podcast we do whatever you know what i'm saying no i don't step on toes i don't

05:18:33.560 so ryan's down for whatever that's what it's called whatever whatever title drop uh i like

05:18:39.460 gamers that are kind of low-key so they're low-key powerful but they don't have to boast about it

05:18:44.680 um ambitious and i guess looks wise i normally lean towards guys that are six foot and taller but i

05:18:50.800 don't like necessarily need that to be a preference uh broad shoulders normally dark and handsome

05:18:57.300 dark and handsome yeah my boyfriend's black oh but i'll i don't have preference on race so

05:19:04.500 your boyfriend's your bottom wait wait hold on i think we missed it can you do that again

05:19:09.880 do it again do it again

05:19:11.880 that's me chomping on his leg

05:19:17.680 stop it

05:19:20.240 he has some nice thighs too so um i'm puerto rican i really just date white guys for the most part

05:19:27.580 word shout out to brooklyn

05:19:30.080 biggie small is rolling over in his grave right now looking at brooklyn he's like what happened

05:19:35.540 what happened to my borough

05:19:37.020 what happened to my borough

05:19:39.480 that's the truth

05:19:40.660 didn't you write something to us about something about your puerto rican body

05:19:46.500 what was that oh yeah the guy what i didn't say that the guy that i was on a date with that

05:19:54.160 used his dead dad as like a reason to have

05:19:56.440 jesus uh you know what with me okay so in your notes crazy story

05:20:00.680 always trying to get sympathy well his dad was a diplomat his dad was a diplomat who passed away

05:20:06.160 he asked me out on a date i went and he was not like okay and um like halfway into the date he

05:20:13.820 asked me how many kids i would be willing to have and whether or not i would be like if i would do

05:20:17.660 surrogacy or not um and then um uh yeah and then at the end of it he was like um

05:20:23.760 you want to go back to my place and i was like uh no i think i'm just gonna go home and he was like

05:20:27.520 but my dad died and i was like oh i was like you did not i literally just told him i was like

05:20:32.180 that is like the last thing you want to say to a girl if you want to get her back he was trying to

05:20:35.220 make that coochie wet with tears so like so you're saying the sex was bad i don't even do that

05:20:40.980 no i did his dad died can we get a one in the chat his dad i said how fucked up that one in the

05:20:45.680 chat if she should have just done this listen listen in all fairness in all fairness i wrote at

05:20:51.080 the end of that that i respected his efforts i respected the fact that he was ballsy enough

05:20:55.440 you know who else would have respected it his dad his dad all right go ahead all right from beyond

05:21:00.380 the grave um but yeah he used the dead parent card to try to get laid that's okay so you like white

05:21:07.500 dudes do you also like men who you like men in therapy i'm guessing uh well yes i like i like i like

05:21:16.520 them white and nerdy um and i like them a little bit older um yeah pretty much i don't have like a

05:21:23.420 certain body like them pretty older yeah i mean i like them i like them a little older yeah like

05:21:28.440 how you're maybe like five 10 15 years you're 26 right i'm 26 correct but um i'm also dating

05:21:38.040 someone who's 22 so oh cougar over here okay i know i feel like it i do for the first time i do

05:21:44.980 you guys you helping him with his essays on the weekend or

05:21:51.780 he's the reason why he's graduating at church brian that means he's wild i'm not talking about

05:21:58.460 his homies by the way wow wow

05:22:03.760 we got to put the camera on you if you hear her making noise just immediately put the camera on her

05:22:12.800 um well i mean it's five hours later but um okay cool uh mike what's your type uh i like really

05:22:23.120 physical physically i do like the vegas type i do like boob jobs the girls who have like uh really

05:22:29.160 tight bodies and um yeah that's pretty much it i like long hair green or blue eyes but none of that's

05:22:33.720 a deal breaker i don't care if they're blonde i don't care if they're brunette i just really like

05:22:37.060 you know i i've been in vegas for like the last uh 11 years and the the girls you see that

05:22:42.680 work at the clubs there the cocktail servers that have that 240 000 a year job those girls are my

05:22:47.160 type like just fucking incredible bodies that's what i'm into

05:22:49.800 okay um i'm like a man that's ambitious and devoted to his craft and his career

05:22:59.220 um christian preferably uh yeah definitely needs to take his health seriously and physical

05:23:09.660 what about taking super chat seriously whatever yeah because you got nine of them after you right

05:23:15.660 now oh my god apparently they have money too that's it yeah okay all right i'll get mine uh

05:23:23.660 definitely not a deal breaker but definitely prefer short women if her height doesn't start with

05:23:30.480 four she ain't the one literally shoddy but but i mean jokes aside uh i'll date a girl who's

05:23:36.100 taller than me like six five i don't give a fuck i'll date a tall girl but if if i'm leaning in one

05:23:42.560 direction preference for like four foot eleven four foot ten even shorter get me a dwarf what's up

05:23:47.940 that's i like do short girls go for sure like what would you do with the midget i just don't look for

05:23:52.820 a little cute i'm not a midget a little person do you know a midget do you know a midget i know i

05:23:58.280 see little oh shit hold on i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry oh my god cj i'm so tired cj miles is like

05:24:07.520 four foot eight cj miles should have i'm sorry we're gonna get because 411 is considered i think

05:24:13.980 little person is considered 410 or is it 490 i think 490 i don't think that makes you a dwarf

05:24:19.760 though i think that you can apply for like handicap status at 410 but i don't think that makes you

05:24:24.120 have you been with someone really important sorry okay yeah just coming off go ahead no

05:24:28.380 just go ahead go ahead go ahead go go ahead no go ahead go ahead go ahead you can't say that word

05:24:33.720 just go go go go go go no i just forgot like something that's like really high up for me it's like

05:24:38.440 funny like you have to be funny for example i was having a straight up panic attack getting here

05:24:43.380 because the car rental place that i reserved a car at i got there and they're like we don't have

05:24:48.700 any cars and i'm like what do you mean i don't have any cars like i need to get from here to santa

05:24:52.300 barbara so i called up my boyfriend he like just i was literally like having a panic attack and he

05:24:57.860 just made me laugh and it made it better and then i and then i ubered here so that sucked but i got here

05:25:03.820 ubered here from los angeles oh how much is that a lot because i was like i was thinking about it

05:25:09.700 tomorrow because i gotta fly to lax to two hour from lax to uh well uh just just to let you know

05:25:17.820 i don't know if some of these girls are might be driving i'm driving at home okay perfect we are

05:25:22.220 driving to la lovely lovely lovely okay so i'll continue with my type so let's see what else

05:25:26.740 uh slight preference for dark hair again not deal breaker slight preference dark hair slight

05:25:32.840 preference blue eyes getting on the deal breaker or light eyes i mean green whatever that's fine

05:25:37.140 um her parents made her do at least three years of violin or cello

05:25:41.620 yeah that's okay that's kind of me like it has strings it can't be like piano is kind of mid-tier

05:25:47.880 so why did you do piano i literally said that earlier you said like when we went around like

05:25:53.960 saying like what makes us happy i was like playing piano are you a virtuoso are you good yeah i've been

05:25:59.100 playing since i was eight can you do chopin yeah okay let's talk after the show

05:26:02.580 what's up but uh let's see oh large labia what my dm's open bro wait are you asking us if we have

05:26:11.400 large labias matter that's what he's saying oh i know yeah

05:26:13.320 are you serious large labia matter like how large the bigger the better we're looking like

05:26:19.700 what's the largest labia you have seen have you seen the number three on the arby's menu that's what

05:26:25.060 he's talking about right now for real i don't eat at arby's i eat healthy food is there a reason

05:26:31.220 or like it's just i believe that what is the largest labia i'm being serious have you seen the

05:26:36.540 movie have you ever seen the movie alien when it sticks right now finger size width like here

05:26:41.260 two inches three inches how low did it go this is real talk and i know you know i know you know

05:26:48.520 who i've been with yes how long how big was the lady the biggest labia you've seen i feel like it

05:26:55.700 would be your teeth just gnawing on how long hold on first off i know you know who she is first off

05:27:03.120 think about her right now as a gentleman i i feel like it would be unbecoming of me to you're not

05:27:09.340 saying who she is do like a hand we do the same thing for dick so why can't you do it for ladies

05:27:14.140 the inches say i don't i don't measure the shit but no give me give me you know you know

05:27:19.960 this girl's labia no dead ass like just a rough estimate like haram have y'all ever seen alien

05:27:30.200 you know the thing that sits on your face and it's got the little hole he knows i know he knows i know

05:27:34.060 you know who it is so just give us a little something now give us a little something you can't

05:27:38.380 see shit tell you what tell you what why don't you tell me where you fall and then i can

05:27:42.300 question sir that i asked the question in your audi in your audi in your audi for me no what you

05:27:51.960 got i can't i can't i can't you gotta go on the only fans there's also i said any i'll say i don't

05:28:00.140 care you're any yeah never mind not interested take your piano over there oh gosh um okay but you

05:28:09.140 how tall are you i can't out my vagina you're shocked wait how tall are you how tall are you

05:28:14.260 i'm five feet

05:28:14.800 okay question for you are you circumcised or uncircumcised

05:28:29.020 hold on you need to answer first then i'll answer yeah you didn't answer the question

05:28:33.560 because i asked you how big her labia was and you wouldn't give me that so i'm not going to give

05:28:39.000 you that until you give me how big the labia was no but you i did ask that question first so you're

05:28:45.040 you're telling me my question is not as valid as your question you know i asked you then your then

05:28:50.360 the circumcision thing was who started this brian it was a rebuttal to my fucking thing with the

05:28:55.140 listen my dms are open ladies dms are open if you have a large labia hit me up wait brian have you

05:29:01.200 ever gotten i was just a vaccine pics no no that's not what i was gonna ask i was gonna just ask if

05:29:08.080 you've gotten dms like yes i do yeah do you get picture i wasn't asking about pictures but

05:29:13.860 i i have had yeah i've gotten some

05:29:16.860 really oh jesus if i see one like that i'm gonna send one to you

05:29:21.040 yeah please send any my way man um it's it's hard out here you know it's hard at no

05:29:27.580 it's hard it's large out here i think the problem that he's having is that it's not

05:29:34.600 right wait what wait what is that i'm wait i'm confused she said it's large out here

05:29:40.840 like rabies uh circumcised or uncircumcised

05:29:43.900 circumcised okay yeah us protestants do that oh yes so that's why it's pro pro prostates protestant

05:29:51.800 well you know okay what else other preferences uh i like peace i don't like combative women i

05:30:05.780 prefer i i'm i consider myself a bit more introverted so i prefer women who are a bit

05:30:09.460 more on the introverted side who are a bit more calm relaxing i don't like there's some chicks who

05:30:14.100 have like that crackhead fucking energy and it's to me it's just fucking way too much i like calm

05:30:19.680 like mellow women if if you're like super energetic super intense super i don't like loud

05:30:26.540 women um like some women talk really fucking loud so i prefer more like almost like kind of shy

05:30:32.700 nerdy type chicks uh and i guess sure asmr is cool but uh women with soft voices is pleasant um

05:30:41.380 if a woman has like a really good voice that'll like bump her up like one or two points if she's

05:30:45.540 got like i'm sure so what's a good voice for you like merriman low like oh brian uh like if

05:30:51.320 shoddy can read audio my bad legs brian come look at my roast beef come look at my roast beef i find

05:30:57.340 women who are like kind of more nerdy or shy or introverted they tend to have typically very big

05:31:02.140 ladies oh no pleasant voices um i prefer no makeup little makeup uh no i don't like plastic surgery i don't

05:31:11.040 like anything fake um you have the longest description i know i know wow he was really

05:31:17.760 in that that's not picky though yeah just pleasant low body count that's pretty much it

05:31:26.140 that's a that's a tame list come on guys yeah it is i i'm not like i'm not saying she's got to be a

05:31:33.800 fucking 10 out of 10 she's got to be a smoke show model just fucking have a large labia what's up

05:31:38.820 i'll pay i'll pay i'll pay i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna find someone for you yeah mike if you

05:31:45.660 can be my like hey you're never gonna believe what i just saw what's her name okay i'm gonna

05:31:50.620 send her to brian shit you want to go on a big podcast just go meet brian let's set it up dude

05:31:55.500 blm how do you fucking you know it'd be great if like that would be a socially appropriate

05:31:59.940 question to ask a girl just point blank like yo what's your pussy like

05:32:03.240 it's healing are we talking about are we talking about chopped brisket we talk about you know roast

05:32:11.240 beef we're talking about bat wings what are we talking about here all of the above dude all of

05:32:16.600 the above all of the above i feel like you're so serious right now dude i'm so serious and i think

05:32:23.040 but here's the thing right i i like women who do have outies like i know you might think i'm kind

05:32:28.900 of being facetious or joking about this it is actually kind of like like a lot of women do

05:32:33.180 like in the united states uh 10 000 women per year literally mutilate their their own genitals they

05:32:41.560 it's called a labia place plasty where they like will literally if they have an outie they cut the

05:32:46.480 lips off and i think that's like fucked up so ladies number i'll talk you out of that shit but

05:32:51.280 but like women will get shamed for that one there's there's a myth that if they have like

05:32:56.800 large labia that they that means that they've been stretched out and they no that's that's

05:33:00.580 fucking bullshit that's not that's not how the anatomy works um but women do get shamed for it and

05:33:05.860 i'm against it because i'm also against men who get shamed if you know they are inadequate in that

05:33:13.320 department let's say men will get shamed if they have a small penis i don't think that's fair that's how

05:33:17.060 men were born that's how women were born i don't think we should be shaming people for

05:33:20.880 their natural anatomy how they were born men can't control the size of their dongs women can't

05:33:26.760 control the size of their hoo-ha let's not shame women you know and men let's not shape anybody for

05:33:31.220 their hallelujah so uh my tms are up word labia check anybody anybody want to labia check i got the

05:33:41.020 gripper oh my god she said i had the gripper the glitty gripper this one left it's gorilla glue up in

05:33:48.860 here never coming out i was like i don't my brain i don't know what like processing what does that

05:33:53.700 mean yeah if it's out it's oh you're so sweet wait wait what me no i was like wait wait i also

05:34:04.220 i also was confused i was really confused at what she said she didn't get the gripper she was like

05:34:09.740 big reaper okay big lips is the gripper oh i didn't know i thought it may it was just

05:34:15.400 you learn something that's what i thought too yeah gripper like i don't know i don't know if i can get

05:34:20.500 too into that i thought gripper meant the inside like when it goes in you can see it like i mean

05:34:26.040 you ever have someone not been able to come out they're like dude i can't even

05:34:28.340 pull out right now i mean anybody can be like that she said i can't even pull out right now

05:34:36.500 oh my god man you're talking about some child support vagina that's what that is i'm like don't

05:34:42.920 you fucking come in me though wasn't there some chick that went viral because she claimed she had

05:34:47.140 gorilla grip pussy or some shit what we gotta test that theory probably yeah probably we'll send brian

05:34:54.560 i don't know like you know what you know what though mike like like bro most most pussy's tight

05:35:00.600 like it's pretty rare to like have you guys been in loose pussy like is that i've experienced like

05:35:05.480 one or two girls but like it's pretty rare to have like most chicks have tight pussy well it's like

05:35:10.960 fluctuating it's like i feel like it's more of an age thing than like uh have you been wet now has

05:35:17.620 lubrication natural lubrication been a thing or have you noticed like dry pussy like some people be like

05:35:22.260 that bitch's pussy was dry i mean i'm talking about like a lot of cocaine and fucking alcohol

05:35:26.540 we're talking about like spongebob on the table maybe like maybe light out dry maybe like like coke

05:35:30.900 water i need it hydrate what the i don't need it i don't need it yo somebody hired this chick for

05:35:41.040 some some zombie noises did you do i produced the walking man of dead soundtrack the walking man of

05:35:48.580 oh shit all right cool let's let's wrap it up all right um on that note on that note

05:35:54.140 okay guys last last call hit the like button please on your way out thank you for tuning in

05:36:00.120 tonight you could in anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you

05:36:03.980 to everyone who so graciously super chats donates and supports the show your patronage is uh very much

05:36:09.460 appreciated thank you to the wonderful panel i know we went late guys thank you guys for sticking it

05:36:14.300 out um thank you to all our chat mods big thank you to brit who is helping with our time stamps

05:36:19.400 thank you any women who want to be on the show dm at whatever uh and uh we will be live again

05:36:25.340 thursday we're doing a special debate edition of the whatever podcast it's going to be earlier on and

05:36:30.220 i think we're aiming for 3 30 p.m pacific thursday destiny versus uh i'll keep it a mystery

05:36:36.400 destiny versus mystery guest on a topic uh that is also a mystery um let's see here and then

05:36:44.180 then we'll be back to the dating talk next sunday 7 p.m pacific um did you have anything it sounded

05:36:50.820 like you might have had yeah yeah so so this week if you guys are interested i'm hosting a charity

05:36:55.120 event in los angeles on thursday it's uh babes in toilet and we do one every year for animal rescue

05:36:59.940 we do one for troops overseas this one's going to be for troops overseas we do one uh for uh breast

05:37:04.340 cancer awareness on october 15th and then we also do one for homeless children at the midnight mission

05:37:08.500 so it's a bunch of uh influencers they come together and we raise several hundred thousand dollars for

05:37:12.260 charity so if any ladies are interested in coming to that or gentlemen interested to come to that

05:37:15.740 message me also uh for any of you guys what we talk about uh puffy vegas over there if you guys want

05:37:20.480 any we have a free school server if you guys are interested we fix people's instagrams uh we also

05:37:25.420 have a the first four steps of my course men of action are also on our free school server message me

05:37:30.260 on instagram at michael sartain and i will definitely i mean we are we are the originators of any kind of

05:37:34.780 social circle game nobody's ever done it better than us if you guys want to come check it

05:37:37.860 check us out just go message me on instagram sweet sweet sweet sweet okay cool um uh and this

05:37:45.660 isn't really for the viewers but i think i mentioned it earlier on in the stream my downstairs neighbor

05:37:51.000 is a fucking karen and has been been a fucking thorn in my side it's a long story maybe i'll get into

05:37:57.740 it in the future show in any case she's been complaining for the five seconds at the end of the

05:38:02.840 show when everybody gets out of the chairs she claims that we're moving a bunch of furniture

05:38:08.020 around she's a fucking karen she's causing major issues with my landlord because she

05:38:12.480 it i'll get into it at some future point so and so if i can ask everybody as we're getting out of

05:38:20.060 our chairs if we can do so slowly so the karen downstairs doesn't freak the fuck out and so just

05:38:26.140 uh quietly kind of scoot back and then quietly get out and i know some of you are on heels so if you can

05:38:30.780 if you can tread uh i know this is boring for the chat to hear if you can tread quietly and try not

05:38:36.840 to stomp as as you go all right guys that's it um we'll see you guys next time good night guys

05:38:44.020 and uh hope you guys have a good night see you guys

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Dating Talk #87

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