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DEBATE! Brian vs. Feminists! ICK List？! DELUSIONAL？! ＂Old Fashioned＂ ØF E-GIRLS？! ｜ Dating Talk 293

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On this episode of Whatever Happiful, we have a special guest on the show, and he's not here for the right reasons. He's here because he doesn't want to go out in public with us, but he's here to talk about it. We talk about a lot of things, but this is probably the most important one.

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00:07:06.420 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
00:07:11.840 Go ahead.
00:07:12.920 Hi, I'm Portia, 29, and I'm from LA.
00:07:16.100 and I do social media and I trade options in the mornings. Okay. Social media and education?
00:07:25.880 Education. Like, did you go to college or in college? I went to beauty school. Beauty school.
00:07:30.440 What kind of beauty, I guess? To do hair, makeup, and nails, but I didn't finish. Okay. Yeah.
00:07:36.280 Obviously I don't do that, but I do it on myself. So, yeah. So you're, you're a beauty school dropout.
00:07:41.340 yeah there you go uh and uh let's see you said you do social media uh what kind so I monetize
00:07:50.400 on all platforms um I also do OF um obviously right um I do really well on there though um
00:07:59.120 why would that be obvious I don't know I just thought it would be obvious I don't know people
00:08:04.020 online say that it's obvious right they're like oh and also I actually just started music I
00:08:08.580 released my first single a week ago and it's doing really well on spotify everywhere so i guess i'm
00:08:14.740 marketing it pretty well what what kind of uh it's r&b and you're a singer i'm a singer yeah you guys
00:08:20.920 can find it on youtube or spotify do you produce the beat no um it's with my company creators inc
00:08:26.680 okay spit a bar i'm not a rapper though so how about acapella singing yeah probably not right
00:08:34.080 out maybe a little later are you uh a soprano um i sing pretty low like as you can tell my voice
00:08:39.840 kind of raspy so i sing kind of lower but so would that be like baritone you're i don't know
00:08:45.360 i don't know the specifics of it i just think there's soprano there's baritones there's uh
00:08:50.100 what's any singers here alto yeah that's what i was right i don't know i'm just porsche sing
00:08:54.780 like i guess deep i believe all right uh yeah baritone is a deep one uh okay and uh how long
00:09:00.340 you've been doing OF for um so I started in like 2020 I wasn't really capitalizing on it though I
00:09:05.920 kind of just like left it there for my Instagram people to like subscribe and stuff I wasn't really
00:09:10.620 doing much with it but I did start taking it seriously like the middle of last year I would
00:09:16.340 say and it does really well now so have you done any other uh like any other forms of adult content
00:09:25.360 like stripping or I was a stripper for a long time um I think I started stripping at about 20
00:09:31.620 and I did that for a long time alongside like other jobs though like I was a personal trainer
00:09:36.280 um I did stuff like that and I always just try to do my social media but because I had crazy 0.71
00:09:41.820 ex-boyfriends they would delete my stuff and that shit always just set me back obviously like I would
00:09:47.480 hit 100k I would hit 200k and boom delete it and then they would act like they don't know what's 0.96
00:09:51.040 going on so that but then yeah so I was stripping for a while and I stopped and now I don't know
00:09:56.640 like if somebody will hit me up and be like oh I'm gonna give you five bands to be in the club
00:10:00.440 like I might just show up you know something like that but it's not really my thing anymore though
00:10:04.500 and wait you're you're 29 yeah I'm a little older huh yeah I'm 29 why you said you're a bit older
00:10:11.040 yeah it's a secret how old I am oh no because in your notes you said you were older like I said
00:10:17.400 that? Yeah, in the notes you sent us.
00:10:19.540 Oh. Did I really respond
00:10:21.340 with that in my notes? I don't think I
00:10:23.360 said anything. Well, yeah, usually
00:10:25.300 when people message us, it's, we're asking
00:10:27.660 age,
00:10:29.780 location. Yeah, I kind of like to keep
00:10:31.360 my age a mystery for
00:10:33.140 obvious reasons, which
00:10:35.180 obviously, I don't like people knowing too much
00:10:37.280 about me. Why are the reasons
00:10:39.440 obvious? Because I just said I don't want
00:10:41.260 people knowing too much about me. No, I,
00:10:43.200 well, sure, that might be fair, but why would that be
00:10:45.360 obvious? I just said that's
00:10:47.300 the obvious reason. Oh, that's the obvious, the obvious reason you don't want. I don't like people
00:10:52.740 knowing too much. It's like me saying what city I live in and stuff like that. I just don't,
00:10:56.660 I just like to be vague. So a lot has happened in my life. Like a lot that I just like to keep my
00:11:02.680 life as vague as possible. Even though I'm on social media, I try to still try to keep it as
00:11:07.240 vague as possible. Yeah. I do recall. I think, uh, you get blackout drunk and shoot people or
00:11:14.480 you get definitely did not say shoot people or guns get drawn or yeah you wrote that in your
00:11:20.540 notes i'm pretty sure really i don't think i sent you any notes wait read it yeah i'll read it
00:11:25.000 april 6th april 6th oh my god imagine i was drunk when i wrote that imagine that makes sense
00:11:30.580 yeah april 6th 2026 uh you black out a lot so crazy things happen fights before straps the old
00:11:38.780 me straps being pulled right peeing on the freeway that happened yes you peed on the freeway
00:11:44.860 i definitely peed on the freeway all right sometimes you got to go you got to go yeah
00:11:48.380 but the straps being pulled by you you pulled the strap i'm not gonna say that but i have been shot
00:11:54.100 right four times um yeah it was on the news four times it was on the news and everything you can
00:11:59.120 like pull it up i was actually on the no jumper podcast talking about it right where can i look
00:12:03.180 this up um you can go on no jumper i'm on there um i was on ktla news how do i google this like
00:12:08.440 So, Google, like, Portia, because my old Instagram name was Portia Fitness.
00:12:12.380 So, you can put Portia Fitness got shot.
00:12:14.380 You can Google that. 1.00
00:12:15.060 Asian suicide girl.
00:12:16.340 Definitely not suicide girl. 0.82
00:12:18.340 No, you can search it, though. 0.96
00:12:19.220 You know what a suicide girl is, though. 0.63
00:12:20.340 Yeah. 0.96
00:12:20.700 Not really.
00:12:21.940 It's not like somebody who does that.
00:12:23.940 It's, like, an aesthetic.
00:12:25.700 Yeah.
00:12:26.180 Oh.
00:12:26.980 Oh, so then that's why I was called that before.
00:12:29.020 I never really understood that.
00:12:29.820 Yeah, it's, like, heavily tattooed aesthetic.
00:12:31.520 It doesn't mean you're, like, trying to un-life yourself.
00:12:34.560 Right, right, right.
00:12:34.940 Okay. 0.61
00:12:35.260 Asian suicide got shot wearing, like, Compton?
00:12:38.440 in alhambra where's that in sgb like san gabriel valley yeah was it who shot you um somebody
00:12:46.120 ran did you shoot them back or what no but i don't think they're alive anymore which is crazy
00:12:50.680 right did you send peep your no i did not do anything they're just not alive anymore
00:12:55.080 okay was it a man or woman who shot it was a man wait have you been shot on more than one occasion
00:13:00.300 i've been shot at at more than one occasion but actually physically hit no just once only one 0.98
00:13:04.960 four times you've been hit so you're just dodging bullets i was just a fucking neo and the matrix 0.96
00:13:08.780 yeah i was about to say that yeah but not saying the one time you did get hit you got hit four 0.98
00:13:12.820 times i did he shot he let off nine rounds and then i was neo for a little bit and then i got
00:13:18.060 hit four times were you the intended target definitely yes they knocked on my door and
00:13:23.800 asked for my name oh they came to your house correct yes who so there were multiple assailants
00:13:28.560 it was one guy but i feel like oh it was trans person yeah you said they you didn't know their
00:13:34.640 pronouns so it's like oh no you know how like there's oh no sorry i don't even say all that
00:13:40.040 like right no but you said it was i feel like somebody sent him so when i say they oh hey oh 0.68
00:13:45.620 shit you know what i mean yeah so are you uh are you filipina no i'm japanese japanese okay why did 0.69
00:13:51.060 you think i was filipino because i'm like 10 i feel like i'm tan am i tan well i feel like this 0.96
00:13:55.100 might be gang related and i've heard of like there's i suppose there's japanese gangs in in
00:13:59.340 la but i've heard there's not really no pino it's more filipino gang i was actually raised with a
00:14:03.960 filipino gang so so it was a filipino but it had nothing to do with that though you're not filipino
00:14:08.660 it had nothing to do with that though okay it was well so what was the i guess the reasoning or it 0.98
00:14:14.520 could be like a possible stalker situation because again i used to be a stripper right oh shit okay 0.93
00:14:19.860 it could have been the people i hang around it could have been yeah the career i was choosing 0.87
00:14:25.860 at the time okay right stuff like that did you owe a trifling hoe some money definitely not they 0.88
00:14:32.900 owed me they owed you yeah oh so they wanted to yeah get rid of the debt yeah i don't know i 0.92
00:14:38.940 probably said too much on here we're probably gonna move on to something else yeah dang that's
00:14:42.360 crazy uh so you went to the hospital i went to the yeah so the cops pulled up i crawled to my
00:14:49.540 door because at the time my door had like a lock right you know the automatic ones where you put
00:14:53.520 the code yeah so he came out and at the time my son was home right he was really young at the time
00:14:58.520 um they asked for me my masseuse came up and she was like dude there's somebody at the door looking
00:15:02.740 for you and i was like what the hell so i came out and at the time i went outside and i thought 0.85
00:15:08.340 to myself like okay i don't know what's going on but i'm gonna go out like an idiot right so i went 0.51
00:15:12.500 out it's either he comes in my house which my son's in my house so obviously i'm not gonna do
00:15:16.260 that so i open the door and i close it behind me it locks right away um he was like oh so and so
00:15:22.280 has something for you and i said who and he just started letting off but i saw his hand it was 0.63
00:15:27.020 like shaking right like this like going into his jacket and I was like oh fuck right so I kind of
00:15:33.220 like turn around and I just I was like okay there's nowhere where I can go though because I wouldn't
00:15:37.180 have been able to get to my door in time right I couldn't hop my thing because it was super high
00:15:40.580 I'm hella short I'm 411 and yeah he just let off and then he dipped I crawled into my house I like
00:15:47.780 put the code crawled and I just yelled upstairs because my house was a three-story house and I
00:15:51.120 was like yo call 9-1-1 I just got hit and so crawled in the cops came my homegirl came down
00:15:56.980 was like putting pressure up wherever she thought I got hit on which honestly I didn't even know at
00:16:01.480 the time because I don't know if any of you guys been shot but it burns and you don't know where
00:16:05.000 it's at right the cops came they searched the whole crib and then from there um they're like
00:16:10.700 okay clear and then they let the ambulance in and I just feel like that was insane because I could
00:16:15.000 have probably died in the time that they're searching my house um and then yeah I got put
00:16:19.340 in the ambulance. The EMT fell on top of me. I passed out cause we cut a corner and then
00:16:24.640 I didn't wake up for, I think like almost more than 24, 24 hours, a little bit more
00:16:29.520 than that. Yeah. It's pretty crazy. And you were shot in the stomach or in the back, the
00:16:35.060 stomach, and then twice in my thigh. Damn. Do you carry, do you own firearms? I do. Yes. 1.00
00:16:41.140 Okay. Why were you able to, were you armed at the time? At the time? No, because they
00:16:46.460 we're not yeah yeah all right uh what about you all right so hi my name is china i'm 29 years old
00:16:54.040 i'm from montreal canada um school why i act and model and uh yeah i have a bachelor degree in
00:17:03.620 education and a master's in translation uh from what university university of sherbrooke
00:17:12.280 In Canada?
00:17:12.980 In Canada, yeah.
00:17:14.500 And you said, so you have a bachelor's in comm?
00:17:17.940 No, education.
00:17:19.180 Oh, and then the master's is in? 0.67
00:17:21.520 Translation.
00:17:22.380 Translation.
00:17:23.000 Yeah.
00:17:23.280 You translate what?
00:17:24.380 French and English.
00:17:25.620 Because you're Canadian. 0.92
00:17:26.740 Exactly.
00:17:27.520 French and English.
00:17:28.300 Yeah.
00:17:28.520 Okay, so I assume you're fluent.
00:17:30.440 We did, yeah.
00:17:31.260 What was your first language?
00:17:33.540 So, English.
00:17:35.600 But then, so I was born in BC.
00:17:37.720 so from zero to four I spoke English and then we moved here
00:17:41.940 and my mom started dating a French guy
00:17:46.340 so then I was kind of speaking more French 0.99
00:17:50.500 but I went to English school, then French school, vice versa
00:17:54.380 and your bio father is a famous hockey player in Canada
00:18:01.960 or a hockey player, I'm not too familiar with hockey
00:18:05.860 butt and uh okay do you play hockey I do not my brothers do though brothers do okay uh when did
00:18:13.220 you graduate from with your master's degree uh 2023 okay so pretty recently yeah and that was
00:18:19.420 in translation yeah just French English yeah okay interesting what are some of the like aside from
00:18:27.340 being like for example um say you were just studying English or well I guess if you're
00:18:34.440 studying English or the French language, you're typically, it's not so much speaking it, but
00:18:41.060 if you're studying English, you're, you're like studying famous works of, uh, of English, for
00:18:53.060 example, famous books, et cetera, writing. Uh, but so translation to get a specific degree in that,
00:19:00.800 what are some of the components of the educate like being educated in translation
00:19:05.560 i mean well it was mostly like professional translation so either like business related
00:19:13.600 or we would kind of like specify in some kind of uh like whatever we liked and wanted to do so
00:19:22.480 um for instance i translated a book that was in french into english but i'm just wondering what
00:19:30.540 is the knowledge that they're imparting on you as part of an education specifically in translation
00:19:36.300 because i assume if you're say you're already fluent in both languages uh aside from actually
00:19:42.800 learning the language which it doesn't sound like they don't they don't teach you the language
00:19:47.380 so what specifically would they like what are they teaching you about translation that warrants
00:19:55.200 a master's degree um so mostly what we're learning is like uh there are some literal
00:20:04.380 translations but then each language has their like own slangs or right yeah stuff like that so i'd
00:20:11.240 say yeah okay all right so is there like a translation 212 class or something like that
00:20:21.360 like there are some translation classes but there's some english lit there's um like it's
00:20:27.880 a bit of like history about the certain philosophies and stuff like that
00:20:32.360 okay nothing crazy got it all right what about you hello uh my name is tatum love
00:20:40.660 i am a full service sex worker at sherry's ranch which is a legal brothel one hour outside of 0.76
00:20:48.400 Vegas. In two weeks, I am graduating from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas with a bachelor's
00:20:55.260 degree. And, oh, I'm 30 years old, and I do have an OnlyFans. All right. All right. And what are
00:21:05.940 you studying again? Sorry, I might have missed that. I'm getting my degree in interdisciplinary
00:21:10.180 studies. So I have three areas of study in anthropology and sociology and women's studies.
00:21:16.280 But within those categories, I'm taking mostly classes on sex works, history of sexuality and marriage and family.
00:21:28.360 All right. And you used to be a stripper. Is that correct? 0.73
00:21:32.060 Yes.
00:21:33.020 Or dancer. Do you guys do strippers dislike stripper?
00:21:37.580 No, I say dancer.
00:21:38.980 Oh, is it is it rude?
00:21:40.600 No, it's not rude. It's just now you say dancer.
00:21:43.080 You say dancer.
00:21:43.820 But like a dancer could be a dancer.
00:21:47.420 I guess it's just what kind of person you're talking to.
00:21:49.620 Like for example, if you're a background dancer.
00:21:51.840 Then you would say background dancer then.
00:21:54.160 Or backup dancer. 1.00
00:21:54.840 So strippers get just the dancer?
00:21:57.160 That's what you're saying. 1.00
00:21:57.800 They just get dancer?
00:21:58.780 Yeah. 1.00
00:21:59.060 Dancers don't get dancer? 1.00
00:22:00.040 Strippers get dancer?
00:22:00.620 I guess, yeah, you just have to specify, you know what I mean? 0.98
00:22:02.520 It seems a little unfair to the dancer.
00:22:03.960 It is what it is.
00:22:05.300 And then ballet.
00:22:06.440 Well, I guess ballet, you would say ballet dancer.
00:22:09.260 But I think the dancers should get dancer.
00:22:12.640 That's too bad. 1.00
00:22:13.260 And then strippers get stripper. 1.00
00:22:14.560 Right. 1.00
00:22:14.980 Maybe exotic dancer. 1.00
00:22:16.400 I'll give you that.
00:22:17.380 But that's too charitable, I feel like.
00:22:20.200 Exotic.
00:22:20.680 Interesting.
00:22:21.820 Dancer.
00:22:22.560 You're really showing your opinion on strippers right now.
00:22:25.460 Well, I mean, I don't know.
00:22:27.260 Like, exotic dancer, I don't even understand why exotic.
00:22:32.160 Why is it?
00:22:32.740 You don't understand why it's exotic?
00:22:34.680 Like, exotically dancing?
00:22:36.520 Like, sexy dancing?
00:22:37.500 Well, that would be erotic.
00:22:38.460 Erotic.
00:22:38.980 That would be erotic.
00:22:39.580 Right, right.
00:22:40.100 Exotic is not.
00:22:41.240 I don't know.
00:22:41.580 I didn't come up with that.
00:22:42.400 Let me Google the strict definition of exotic.
00:22:44.880 Yeah, Google it. 1.00
00:22:45.400 Be an exotic dancer because you have that exotic look. 1.00
00:22:49.420 Oh, because she's Asian. 1.00
00:22:50.080 Well, now that's racist dancing. 1.00
00:22:51.160 Yeah, that was a little...
00:22:52.240 No, I'm just kidding.
00:22:52.700 It's a little racist. 0.67
00:22:53.180 Girl!
00:22:53.880 No, I don't care.
00:22:55.020 Well, so exotic refers...
00:22:57.400 Okay.
00:22:59.240 Exotic refers to something strikingly unusual, foreign, or from a faraway place, often characterized
00:23:05.760 by fascinating or intriguing appearance.
00:23:08.820 It typically describes things not native to a particular environment.
00:23:12.400 uh such well okay so i guess that would make sense if it's exotic dancer because you don't
00:23:17.920 really see them in the wild so it's something that you go to see almost like a show you know
00:23:23.120 what i mean does that make sense i suppose i wonder like yeah well okay so you used to dance
00:23:30.440 you are a courtesan uh have you done any other forms of sex work like escorting or prostitution 0.97
00:23:37.540 I am a legal prostitute. 0.99
00:23:40.720 I guess perhaps I should rephrase any street prostitution. 0.93
00:23:46.440 No.
00:23:46.920 Okay.
00:23:47.780 And escorting outside of the ranch, it's called?
00:23:53.060 No.
00:23:54.620 Not the ranch?
00:23:56.220 It's not the ranch?
00:23:57.020 Meaning I only work at the ranch.
00:23:59.900 Oh, it's called the ranch.
00:24:01.260 Sherry's Ranch.
00:24:02.160 Yeah.
00:24:02.960 Right.
00:24:04.480 And that's located in Pahrump?
00:24:06.600 Pahrump, Nevada. 0.99
00:24:07.540 one of the regions of nevada where it is legal to have brothels uh and you said you've been 0.92
00:24:14.720 doing that for how long for almost three years three years okay how many uh clients do you think
00:24:20.680 you've seen um a few hundred probably do you think over a thousand or no but a few hundred i'm more
00:24:30.780 low volume more repeat you have repeat customers okay yeah per week how many sessions would you
00:24:42.120 say you do um it's a lot different from when i first started i when i first started i i had
00:24:48.400 a lot more um but now i maybe have like two to three really long sessions a week when you say
00:24:57.400 really long what do you mean like anywhere from like five to nine hours yeah oh wow or multiple
00:25:04.380 days sometimes you'll do like day-long hangouts and so how does it work what's the calculation
00:25:10.600 is it like a flat rate hourly rate everything is negotiated like by the client it's every
00:25:18.280 situation is really unique so I don't have like flat rates for anything sure I well I suppose
00:25:23.340 what, for you, what would be a typical rate?
00:25:27.200 Oh my gosh, it's totally not legal to discuss that.
00:25:30.720 It's not?
00:25:31.280 No, it's considered solicitation to advertise my prices.
00:25:39.280 Unless I'm in the room with my client.
00:25:43.640 I don't think it would be, I think discussing it on a podcast where you discuss these things,
00:25:48.840 I don't, how about this?
00:25:50.440 not you but a friend of yours okay who works wait hold on a friend of yours who works at a 1.00
00:25:57.440 competing brothel that offers the same level of service that your brothel offers with the same
00:26:04.660 sort of clientele with the same you know offerings etc and it's your identical twin who works there 0.96
00:26:11.320 speaking of how much does she your identical twin how much does she typically charge okay
00:26:18.340 A simple Reddit search will have lots of people talking about the prices there, but I personally don't talk about what I charge.
00:26:26.340 No, no, no, not what you charge, but in a hypothetical scenario.
00:26:30.420 I don't want to get into it, but it is something people save up for.
00:26:34.240 I will say that.
00:26:35.740 Well, then, like for other people that you're aware of, would you say that the hourly rate is in the hundreds or thousands?
00:26:43.780 Can you say that?
00:26:45.120 It is the latter. 1.00
00:26:48.340 in the in the thousands damn fucking inflation man fucking this war in iran's fucking us up 1.00
00:26:55.780 prostitution prices through the roof need some iranian pussy in here okay just kidding uh relax 1.00
00:27:02.760 all right why would that be how would that be racist what the fuck 1.00
00:27:06.920 okay all right so uh and uh okay you can't talk about money how about this though um are the rates 0.98
00:27:16.640 the same across women can you answer that or do we all set our own prices okay yeah uh and then 0.99
00:27:22.860 do you guys offer coupons obviously not no coupons no no some i think some women do have certain 0.60
00:27:33.440 uh communities that they support i know some women offer military military yeah police fire
00:27:40.780 yeah ems yeah okay is there a senior discount
00:27:45.340 no no like if 65 plus no like retirees because do you guys go to retirement homes ever that'd be a
00:27:56.580 good you know no they people they have to come there i see okay you don't do alcohol that's
00:28:03.020 illegal yeah oh okay what so as far as like the coupons or discounts is there ever a buy one bang
00:28:09.680 one free no not for me personally buy two bang one free you'll have to ask the individual lady
00:28:17.140 you guys should start i think offering that maybe you guys need to hire me as your marketing okay
00:28:23.140 advertising you seem good at it so yeah we get some coupons out there buy two bang one free i
00:28:29.240 guess i don't know okay that's cool um and i'm sure we'll get into some of the more like s work
00:28:34.800 related stuff as it relates to dating a little later on what about you um hi my name is milana
00:28:40.540 i'm 24 and i live in charlotte near montreal but i come from france you're born in france
00:28:47.660 yeah from france yeah i was born in france when did you move to canada like two three years ago
00:28:53.200 okay uh and uh i came here to study first i did a master in chemistry okay and then i i'm right now
00:29:03.160 a phd student in electrical engineering okay phd student yeah uh electrical engineering so what
00:29:11.040 what's the next step after you graduate um i still have two years to run and then i would
00:29:18.380 love to work in um in a firm like a private firm and do chips for the telephone things like that
00:29:27.400 okay research gotcha uh and uh okay you're from france do you have a job currently or just
00:29:34.560 student it's my job oh that is i'm paid to study oh you're paid to study okay
00:29:39.340 and then uh are you just temporarily in canada or uh i think i don't want to go back in france
00:29:48.140 after but i'm not necessarily have to stay here in canada so i will see any idea of where you
00:29:55.920 might end up? No, we'll see the opportunities. Okay. So you don't want to go back to France?
00:30:02.740 Not necessarily. Why is that? Because I've lived there. Now I want to explore and do other things.
00:30:09.980 Yeah. Where in France are you from? Where? Wait, let me see if I can do it in French. Hold on.
00:30:15.560 Oh, yeah. Thanks. Oh, man. I, okay. Hold on. Let me.
00:30:21.380 you said you weren't fluent in French
00:30:26.460 I speak it at a five year old's level
00:30:29.420 I was born in France
00:30:33.120 but I moved to the United States
00:30:34.940 when I was five
00:30:35.780 de quelle
00:30:38.620 partie
00:30:40.520 de
00:30:42.960 okay
00:30:45.720 what part of France are you from
00:30:47.760 I live near Luxembourg
00:30:50.920 Luxembourg.
00:30:51.420 So it's the east of the France, near Germany.
00:30:53.280 Luxembourg, yeah.
00:30:53.940 Okay.
00:30:54.880 All right.
00:30:55.700 Cool.
00:30:58.140 All right.
00:30:58.680 I'm trying to think. 1.00
00:30:59.660 She also dances, but she's not a stripper dancer. 0.97
00:31:03.220 Not an exotic dancer.
00:31:04.340 No, just commercial, hip-hop, street jazz.
00:31:07.360 I did ballet a little bit.
00:31:09.160 Ballet, yeah.
00:31:09.720 Ballet.
00:31:10.500 Yeah.
00:31:11.200 Okay.
00:31:11.500 And I love to dance everywhere, every time.
00:31:13.620 And you're a professional dancer or just for fun?
00:31:16.620 No, just for fun.
00:31:17.280 Okay.
00:31:17.520 I took classes, and now it's just on myself, and I will enjoy the rest of my life.
00:31:23.700 So you do ballet?
00:31:24.700 Yeah.
00:31:25.480 Okay.
00:31:26.380 Can we see a plie?
00:31:28.300 Yeah.
00:31:28.940 Okay, go ahead.
00:31:29.860 I have to stand up?
00:31:30.580 Yep, go ahead.
00:31:31.700 Scoot your chair back.
00:31:32.860 All right, plie, first ever on the Whatever Podcast. 0.89
00:31:36.200 Watch out, I'll make you do a pirouette next.
00:31:39.280 Yeah, that's good.
00:31:40.300 All right, perfect, right there.
00:31:41.520 Go ahead.
00:31:41.780 Thank you.
00:31:47.520 all right i give it as a professional ballet connoisseur it was like a b minus i think
00:31:59.780 you know the depth yeah i noticed you have a bandage on your arm did you what's that
00:32:08.240 oh nothing i get uh piquet the jab you got a vaccine no an insect oh insect yeah and i don't
00:32:16.940 want to scratch it so i put something on gotcha okay all right uh what about you uh i'm brooke
00:32:24.100 lebedew i'm 28 and i'm from middleborough massachusetts um and i am a cna i do senior
00:32:31.760 home care okay and i used to do only fans but i don't anymore all right so i just do cna uh
00:32:39.900 education um i went to i didn't go to college but i went to a technical technical school that's how
00:32:45.720 I got my CNA license. Got it. Okay. All right. What about you? My name is Taylor. I'm 31. I live
00:32:52.420 in Los Angeles. I work as an administrative director remotely. I do comedy content creation
00:32:58.400 and I have a PhD in international relations. When did you get your PhD? In 2025. 2025. So
00:33:06.480 pretty recently in international relations. So when, I guess what, a year ago you graduated or
00:33:12.900 typically in june people graduate or yeah i graduated it was probably a year ago like april
00:33:17.860 about a year ago okay is it still fresh in your mind what you learned i guess hardly the thing
00:33:24.100 about phds is you learn the first two years and then the rest is research very specific research
00:33:29.460 so you wrote a dissertation yes okay uh how long was your dissertation like pages pages yeah i don't
00:33:38.180 remember it was double spaced times new roman yeah okay and uh let's see uh international
00:33:49.200 relations yes well it must be given that it's a you didn't just get a bachelor's degree you got
00:33:56.180 a master's degree and a wait do you skip you go master's then you get your phd or do you just
00:34:01.600 skip the master's and go straight to the phd it depends on the student some people do a bachelor's
00:34:07.840 and then go straight to a PhD, when the first two years is technically a master's, you can graduate
00:34:12.440 out with a master's. I did a bachelor's, a master's in something different, and then I got a PhD
00:34:18.000 separately. Oh, what did you get your bachelor's and master's in? Russian studies. A little closer
00:34:21.900 to the mic? In Russian studies. Russian studies. Are you Russian? No. Why Russian studies? I just
00:34:28.780 really liked foreign languages, and I studied a few, and by the time I went to college, I decided
00:34:34.840 Russian sounded interesting, and when else would I study Russian? Okay, so when you say Russian
00:34:39.640 studies, this is language, not like the study of Russia. It was the study of Russia, and language
00:34:46.200 was the component of it. Okay, so are you fluent in Russian? Not fluent, but you can speak it? To
00:34:51.620 an extent. Conversationally, or? Not a great conversation, but sure. Okay, all right, and I
00:34:59.120 I mean, I guess what spurred on your interest in Russia?
00:35:02.860 Are you a Marxist?
00:35:04.640 Are you communist?
00:35:06.660 So I studied Spanish and French a little bit, and then also Chinese.
00:35:13.320 And I was thinking for college, I'll either do Arabic or Russian.
00:35:17.740 And I decided Russian because I thought I could get a better grasp of it.
00:35:21.420 And I didn't think I'd be very comfortable in the Middle East because I don't like hot weather.
00:35:26.860 But then I moved to L.A., so I was wrong.
00:35:29.120 Have you been to Russia?
00:35:31.200 Yes, four times.
00:35:32.280 Four times.
00:35:33.540 Can people travel to Russia at the moment or no?
00:35:36.520 I mean, it's not good to travel there when it's at war right now, but I went before the war.
00:35:42.820 I see.
00:35:43.260 Okay.
00:35:43.820 Well, okay, so you just graduated in 2025 with your Ph.D. in international relations.
00:35:50.140 Were you hoping to do something with that?
00:35:53.080 Or I guess what's your job?
00:35:55.240 I don't know if you do content.
00:35:56.480 I do. So I do administration remotely. So at some point during my PhD, I realized I don't have
00:36:03.000 strong career goals. So I'm just kind of going with whatever. Since it is pretty recent that
00:36:10.340 you got your PhD, can you relate to us maybe one or two things, big takeaways that you learned
00:36:17.940 in international relations? Yeah. So power is really important. Who has it? Most things
00:36:25.820 are a power struggle that's not my opinion it's the realist school of thought which is just one
00:36:31.920 theory of basically essentially how the world works okay anything else like like some sort of
00:36:37.840 academic takeaway from what you learned in international relations an academic takeaway
00:36:43.900 and what's well i suppose like something infer like something material that you learned in the
00:36:51.020 class? Like, I'm unsure, like, like a fact? Well, I mean, you have a PhD in international
00:37:02.040 relations. Just, I, if you were to teach somebody perhaps an advanced concept of international
00:37:10.440 relationship, or international relations, excuse me, I'm assuming you would, given you have a PhD
00:37:16.940 in the field in the discipline you'd be able to con uh elucidate something that you like i don't
00:37:25.360 have a phd in international relationships so i'm curious to know can you articulate something that
00:37:30.660 you learned uh how to set up a research study like getting a unit of analysis and how to set up
00:37:36.820 uh research in a way where you are actually getting to the root of the question i guess
00:37:42.580 well is it wouldn't that be something sort of basic to any sort of discipline that would be
00:37:48.920 reliant on statistics or any anything related to research um i mean the first thing you mentioned
00:37:55.720 was power being very important i mean a five-year-old could tell you that uh five-year-olds
00:38:02.100 infants children engage in power dynamics even with their own parents and they're often very
00:38:07.920 manipulative uh children have a manipulative sense of how to you know if they cry or they
00:38:13.100 whine they maybe often get what they want so i guess what i'm asking you though is to have a
00:38:19.360 can i ask uh did you have um scholarships or did you pay for the uh it was paid for by
00:38:28.000 the university oh so you had scholarships no i'm like she said um a lot of phd programs are
00:38:34.820 fully funded and you get paid a salary okay um well i mean you must have some expenses that you
00:38:41.460 put towards college perhaps your undergrad uh i mostly had scholarships yes where did you go to
00:38:47.060 school my undergrad at miami university in ohio okay and uh post grad or grad school i guess
00:38:54.200 grad so i got my phd at northeastern that's a pretty good school right yeah northeastern i
00:39:00.420 Or Northwestern?
00:39:01.440 It's Northeastern, I think it's fine.
00:39:03.020 That's a good school, I think.
00:39:04.460 Okay.
00:39:06.480 So you had scholarships.
00:39:09.240 Is Northeastern a public or private school?
00:39:11.180 It's a public school.
00:39:12.460 No, it's a private school.
00:39:13.480 Private school?
00:39:14.020 I don't know.
00:39:14.600 I think it's private.
00:39:16.420 Does anybody in the chat know Northeastern?
00:39:18.220 I think it's a private school.
00:39:20.560 It's not really something that comes up, I think.
00:39:23.400 It is a private nonprofit research university, Boston, Massachusetts.
00:39:27.340 Okay.
00:39:28.400 It is private.
00:39:29.380 I wonder if it's taxpayer subsidized.
00:39:33.220 But I mean, I would imagine speaking to somebody who holds a Ph.D. degree that they would have like, you know, perhaps they're not like top in their field in the subject, but they have like a depth of knowledge that could be perhaps articulated or shared.
00:39:50.780 So I guess I'm looking for power is very important.
00:39:56.120 It's how to set up a research study.
00:39:59.380 I'm looking for the juice.
00:40:01.880 I'm looking for the meat.
00:40:03.480 Okay.
00:40:04.100 So this is a funny question because I feel like when you're in this level of schooling,
00:40:12.240 you really aren't going to get a one-sentence thing that's compelling.
00:40:16.700 Closer to the mic.
00:40:17.360 That's compelling.
00:40:17.940 What was the title?
00:40:19.720 Oh, go ahead.
00:40:20.080 One thing I think that was interesting that I learned is that when you look at world leaders across the board,
00:40:25.120 more of them have something called one of these dark triad traits which is uh machiavellianism
00:40:32.440 which is like manipulation what are what are the other components of dark triad uh narcissism and
00:40:39.060 psychopathy okay and so these traits are more prevalent in people who rise to the top through
00:40:45.220 a process of competition into and elimination until they're at the top of their field well dear
00:40:50.680 I must tell you, as somebody who dropped out of community college, I've been aware of what the dark triad for many years without the need to get a Ph.D. degree.
00:41:03.320 So that's is that what the universities you get a you spend nearly a decade in university and you get a Ph.D.
00:41:13.240 and power is important dark triad and how to do a research study it seems like college might be a
00:41:22.900 bit of a scam if you ask me but perhaps I'm wrong research is a process and when I'm just throwing
00:41:33.320 things out there it's really just me throwing things out there so please don't take that as
00:41:36.940 a reflection of university well i guess it's like okay uh in this case you went to a private
00:41:43.300 university although i assume they still take on some tax subsidies but i am always to some degree
00:41:51.000 tickled by uh and of course it depends on the discipline she does electrical engineering that's
00:41:59.140 a very you know that's a hard science to a degree it's uh or you look at math and you look at physics 0.90
00:42:06.240 or biology. These are hard sciences, but when you get into international relationships,
00:42:11.380 I mean, I don't even know if that's categorized as a soft science. That might be more of a liberal
00:42:17.140 art. But what was the title of your PhD? Of my PhD? The title, excuse me, my mistake.
00:42:27.360 Research. The title of your dissertation. I'm not going to say, because I don't want it to be
00:42:31.380 searched i don't want it i don't want the record to live here okay i mean that's fine for privacy
00:42:36.520 reasons you do know the title of it though i do you haven't like forgotten it okay all right well
00:42:42.800 um okay
00:42:44.700 anybody want to weigh in on the college thing i don't think scam is trade school all the way
00:42:54.940 that's why i never went that's why i went to tech school i think that's awesome i genuinely think
00:43:00.820 any sort of post-secondary education is good yeah well you're in college right college rocks
00:43:08.060 what you said you're about to graduate yeah what are may 16th okay very soon so you're fresh in
00:43:14.920 classes yeah yeah i've been how many classes do you take right now four online or in person
00:43:19.460 they're all online because i do work what are the four classes you take i am taking my
00:43:23.760 interdisciplinary capstone class where i'm writing my okay just what are the titles yes um
00:43:29.820 math oh oh oh oh uh ethnicity and identity class it's like an upper level that's that's the name
00:43:38.220 of it it's no there's a long it's a it's an anthropology okay anthro it's identity and what
00:43:44.060 uh ethnicities and identities so it's okay what's the other two okay okay these are just like this
00:43:51.820 class i saved for last because they're like a little easier the anthropology of cats and dogs
00:43:57.080 and human dynamics and their relationships to cats and dogs and other uh animals and um
00:44:04.940 oh my god oh my god oh my god this is putting me on the spot i'm a little anxious um but i do have
00:44:11.540 two other classes oh my god you have two other classes yeah well four in total sociology of aging
00:44:16.980 so sociology of aging okay what's the other and then um oh my gosh sociology of wait the
00:44:24.980 sociology of aging yeah sociology of aging right okay what's the other one wait wait what's the
00:44:29.940 other one what's the other one uh i'm trying to do it for my um oh my god you'll have to get back
00:44:37.080 to me my brain's going blank you have four classes and you don't remember the title of your classes
00:44:44.020 you're catching me wait can i just ask something about that okay so all the classes that you just 0.94
00:44:50.060 named like obviously i know nothing about that because i don't know what the fuck that was but 0.57
00:44:53.640 i'm just confused like okay so all those classes that you're taking um like what is that gonna be 0.72
00:44:59.880 like what is that for like what are you aiming to be like studying those things like i guess i'm
00:45:04.180 just confused like because you're taking those classes like what's your ultimate goal because
00:45:08.180 like obviously like she's training to be that so i know what she's about to be but then like you
00:45:12.060 train you're studying that i just i'm kind of confused are you going to school to be a sex
00:45:16.880 worker i'm not yeah well i'm writing my senior capstone on the importance of sex workers telling
00:45:21.780 our own stories i am an anthropologist um and what's an anthropologist someone who observes
00:45:29.160 cultures am i an anthropologist yes you are
00:45:32.460 okay uh so so then that's what you're studying to be then an anthropologist and a sex worker
00:45:41.400 well yeah like ultimately that's your goal are awesome yeah oh no no definitely girl i'm not
00:45:46.940 putting them down at all like good for you like i'm actually so proud of you coming on here and
00:45:50.920 telling the world that you do that like good for you but no I was just kind of confused because
00:45:54.440 like you're studying like dogs and cats and stuff like that and so I'm just like why waste all this
00:45:58.100 time doing all that when if it's not gonna get anywhere do you know what I mean not a waste of
00:46:02.620 time I think a big reason I was even able to come on this podcast and like answer all the essay
00:46:07.360 questions was because college gave me the ability to problem solve and realize that I'm quite a good
00:46:13.580 writer um so thank you very much college so wait what was the last class oh i'm trying
00:46:22.600 okay there's anthro identity uh ethnicities cats dogs and then sociology of aging what's the last
00:46:31.200 one uh sociology of sexuality sociology of sexuality okay uh from your sociology when
00:46:38.320 When was the last time you had your Soch of Aging class?
00:46:41.880 When was the last time?
00:46:43.720 Like, it's not like a class where I Zoom in.
00:46:46.840 There's not like a lecture or something?
00:46:49.540 No, there's lots of papers and discussions due every week.
00:46:53.020 Okay, have you recently written an essay or anything?
00:46:58.840 I've written many essays.
00:47:01.000 For all of the classes?
00:47:01.840 For all of the classes, yes.
00:47:03.360 let tell me one thing from your sociology of aging class that you could uh communicate to us
00:47:12.040 all right I'm glad you asked so in one reading we read um in the past few weeks um it was about
00:47:21.260 oh my god I feel like I'm gonna bore you guys are you got give me the 10 seconds okay okay well
00:47:27.700 you'll love this because it's about france all right i'm gonna love this okay um so a group of
00:47:34.780 researchers in france found this boy who was just living in the woods by himself this was in the
00:47:42.020 1800s and they he had been like abandoned by his family and he um just was rather feral and he
00:47:51.860 was like he couldn't hear people calling for him because his ears were accustomed to hearing sounds
00:48:01.060 that mattered to him like he could hear a walnut crack like like 100 feet away but he couldn't
00:48:05.980 hear people like yelling at him so the point of that is to say that our brains adapt to what we
00:48:15.400 it's like in our brains are environmentally adaptable and that's also why
00:48:24.460 we are not in gestation as long as other animals meaning like we're born and we don't know how to
00:48:34.620 walk already that's because our brains as humans need time to develop to our
00:48:38.680 our environment rather than like a horse that gets born and walks immediately if that makes
00:48:44.820 sense. I can expand on that. I don't want to like bore you guys though. I could like talk about that
00:48:49.240 for like 30 minutes. I mean, I'm familiar with the case and there's actually probably a few
00:48:54.380 examples of these sort of feral, I think they're referred to as like feral children where they're
00:49:01.300 like essentially almost abandoned basically. And sometimes even like animals will take care of them
00:49:07.260 in some odd sort of way but um i as like a as a sociological concept or principle yeah you
00:49:17.120 providing an example of something that relates to sociology i guess i'm more so looking like
00:49:22.320 from a principle perspective oh a principle is that art so we adapt to our environment okay
00:49:28.940 well i dropped out of college i could tell you that oh well good for you yeah i couldn't
00:49:33.280 okay maybe i mean that story was basically just about like what selective hearing because like
00:49:38.860 my kids do that right all right kids do that i'll be like take the trash out i didn't hear you
00:49:43.680 hey there's food you know i mean and then they'll hear that right are you arguing is that what you
00:49:47.900 meant though oh no no i was just saying is that what you meant about that kid like adapting to
00:49:51.820 his environment he just basically has selective hearing okay well okay well yeah okay so sociology
00:49:57.280 of aging um the feral boy or whatever uh anthropology of identity and ethnicities
00:50:05.520 what's just like one quick takeaway from that that you could relate to us um well i just wrote a
00:50:11.100 paper on my own identities and how they've shifted over the last like 10 years definitely super
00:50:17.540 personal don't want to get into it but it was really powerful i got an a plus well so good job
00:50:23.980 I'm looking for, like, I don't know, if you were taking a physics class, you might, for example, be able to, I mean, this is very elementary, but you might be able to relate to me some, like, a principle of Newton, for example.
00:50:40.740 Totally, yeah.
00:50:41.060 So, but when you say, I wrote a paper about my identity, and I got an A on it, I'm looking for a principle of the anthropology of identity and ethnicities, a principle that you can relate to me.
00:50:52.240 So, maybe it would be helpful to understand that I chose this major because creative writing was not an option for online students.
00:51:02.540 I don't need the reason why you chose the thing.
00:51:04.840 I'm just looking for a principle of the anthropology of identity and ethnicities.
00:51:09.820 No, but partially why anthropology is, why I'm doing it is to be a better writer.
00:51:17.420 So, I don't need the reasons for why you're taking the class.
00:51:21.560 I'm simply you've been taking the class you've been studying it you've been going to college
00:51:26.240 you're about to graduate in two weeks with a bachelor's degree from a university I would hope
00:51:32.240 the university is doing its due diligence in properly educating you so as to confer you with
00:51:38.620 a diploma that would indicate to a employer that you have a degree of understanding over the subject
00:51:43.800 in which you are studying thus I'm asking once again what is the principle or concept that you
00:51:50.580 learned about from the class anthropology of identity and ethnicities that we I mean from
00:52:02.360 that particular class just one thing our our identities are a combination of how we were raised
00:52:14.660 and the
00:52:17.080 you're stressing me out
00:52:19.620 a combination of how we were raised
00:52:21.880 so nature and nurture
00:52:24.380 congratulations
00:52:25.320 I'm very far from getting a bachelor's degree
00:52:28.380 in what do you say
00:52:29.580 interdisciplinary studies
00:52:31.800 I've never taken an anthropology class
00:52:33.500 I think I once took a sociology class
00:52:35.980 and then I decided to drop out 1.00
00:52:37.780 because it was total fucking bullshit 1.00
00:52:39.220 I can tell you 1.00
00:52:41.440 I'm pretty sure when I was like
00:52:43.400 10 years old
00:52:44.520 I Heard the Concept, Nurture and Nature, and how that, so you're saying it shapes the identity,
00:52:51.520 nurture and nature. That's, I, I really enjoy creative writing, that is why I'm doing it,
00:52:57.940 and. What does creative writing have to do with identity and ethnicities? Because I write about
00:53:03.300 my identity as a sex worker. But I mean, if the title of the class includes identity and ethnicities,
00:53:10.020 perhaps you well i wrote about my background in being white you wrote about your background
00:53:19.240 congratulations white supremacists do that all the time congratulations no no oh my god i'm still 0.99
00:53:28.020 confused why you're getting a college degree if you want to be a sex worker oh okay well i mean 0.96
00:53:36.600 to defend her i don't think that they're uh i assume you want to do some sort of career beyond 0.80
00:53:44.680 yes sex work or maybe open your own brothel no oh no i think the point is that she's
00:53:50.840 she has a way of expressing herself without feeling thank you um all right uh she has a 0.95
00:54:00.440 wait sorry repeat that she has a way of i think like i think the point of her going to college
00:54:03.680 as a way to express herself in a more creative
00:54:05.800 way, and that's why she was saying that she wanted to take creative
00:54:07.780 writing. Now, I'm not
00:54:09.420 defending it, but I'm just saying I think
00:54:11.700 that's her reasoning, and because
00:54:13.860 she keeps getting into too much detail, we're
00:54:15.660 missing that part. She wants to
00:54:17.180 go to college to what 1.00
00:54:19.860 again? To find a way
00:54:21.720 to express herself in the proper way.
00:54:24.520 Yeah, she wants to write about
00:54:25.800 it so that she can be honest and open to people,
00:54:28.080 but she wants to do it in the way that
00:54:29.700 I guess they're teaching her how to do it.
00:54:31.500 do you go to public school or private school the university of nevada las vegas is a public
00:54:37.240 university taxpayer funded i mean i'm assuming i got do you have scholarships or are you paying
00:54:43.240 for it both okay um so look you said that she's going to school to learn how to express herself 0.98
00:54:51.900 right like in a writing fuck the taxpayer should not be paying for that that taxpayers i don't 0.99
00:54:58.020 think are paying for it's you go to a public school it's taxpayer subsidized adult learner 0.99
00:55:02.560 scholarship no i understand you might have some scholarships well i mean that would be
00:55:06.420 depending on the source of the scholarship it would to be it would be to a degree uh taxpayer
00:55:12.260 subsidized taxpayers should not be subsidizing i want to learn how to express myself
00:55:17.400 okay agree to disagree that's not the purpose okay college college ought to be now look uh i
00:55:27.580 I think college perhaps has gone through transformation in the past 10, 20, 30, 40 years where instead of it being an institution for like genuine academic achievement in education, it and not all disciplines.
00:55:41.620 Some of the disciplines, the hard sciences, those are still valid.
00:55:45.460 However, the liberal arts, the soft sciences, these are very much adult daycare centers.
00:55:53.400 They're diploma mills.
00:55:55.220 They're like, OK, here's a diploma.
00:55:57.580 It's why you find so many people are unhirable after they get a diploma from a four-year university, after they've taken on a substantial amount of college debt.
00:56:09.660 They've cost the taxpayer a pretty penny. 0.99
00:56:11.760 They have bloated administrations where there's all these, okay, they're putting on concerts at fucking university. 0.99
00:56:18.600 they're they're doing all these there's like different centers and all this bullshit in 0.99
00:56:23.880 universities massively bloated just a waste of taxpayer money and I think we see the fruits of
00:56:31.180 that I agree that there are excess costs at universities but I don't know how it could be
00:56:37.600 an adult daycare when I am a fully online student and I'm working from the brothel
00:56:41.760 well I mean obviously there's in-person classes so yeah there's online class offerings
00:56:47.640 but there are in-person classes and I would say even if even if you reject the categorization of
00:56:56.800 it as being adult daycare I would perhaps frame it better like this university is for is so that
00:57:03.740 you can have somebody else read to you that's university how are they reading to me that's
00:57:09.600 literally university I'm doing especially now with like you have AI and all this these sorts
00:57:16.260 of things but for the past 20 years you've had all the knowledge possible at your fingertips
00:57:20.180 on the computer via the internet now there might be some applications again if you're taking certain
00:57:26.300 classes where there's like actually lab work and you're dealing with like i don't know if you're
00:57:31.420 in chemistry and you have to do actual lab work that's different right but like soft sciences
00:57:37.240 liberal arts it's it's all on the internet well also yeah okay uh also i'm i find now that with
00:57:46.040 ai uh i have someone in my family who who teaches every single student is using ai to write the
00:57:55.940 papers so there's a lack of from the students themselves look obviously the students want the
00:58:01.360 good grade they want to just breeze through it they want the diploma they want the grade whatever
00:58:06.460 But I think there ought to be, if you are going to spend this time and money on university, especially if it's taxpayer subsidized, I think there should be a genuine educational and academic internal motivation and like a curiosity within the student to want to actually learn the material at a deeper level than just, I'm just trying to get the grade.
00:58:30.920 I'm just going to put this through AI, but I do have someone very close to me who's a professor
00:58:35.980 at a major university on the East Coast, and yeah, they told me every single one of my students
00:58:41.940 uses AI for the assignments, so it's just like we may, of course, might have to reassess the value
00:58:50.020 of education if everything's just being done by AI. Brian, can I comment? Sure. Okay, so I also work
00:58:56.480 as a course assistant for a university class.
00:58:59.840 And I will say that university is more than just reciting facts.
00:59:03.740 It's also a process of understanding how to do research.
00:59:07.580 It's a process of how to make an argument.
00:59:10.880 And I have edited essays from students freshman year
00:59:14.420 and senior year, and the writing is so different
00:59:17.680 because students do learn these soft skills
00:59:20.620 that maybe you undervalue.
00:59:22.080 But if it were just picking out facts,
00:59:24.820 then I don't think that's a strong understanding of what university is.
00:59:28.420 I agree that university has a lot of problems and inefficiencies.
00:59:35.300 However, I think it has a lot of value as well.
00:59:37.700 And I don't think it's for everyone, and I don't think it's necessary for everyone,
00:59:41.540 but I do think it has value for those who want to pursue it.
00:59:44.760 Yeah, I mean, I think that's a misrepresentation of my position.
00:59:47.540 I never said that university is just about rote fact memorization.
00:59:53.280 Then why did you ask that question?
00:59:54.820 which question can you say one thing about whatever well i don't think it would be pure
01:00:00.020 well hold on i think it's actually i'm i'm looking for something actually beyond memorization
01:00:06.420 when i ask that question so i think uh you know you might you might be able to just like you know
01:00:14.580 memorize a fact which i think she was alluding to by you know this case of the child who was
01:00:21.560 abandoned or something and taken care of by animals. But I'm looking for like a deeper level
01:00:27.140 understanding, a conceptual understanding, which transcends fact memorization. So when I ask,
01:00:35.500 if I'm asking, convey to me conceptually, what is the depth of what you've learned?
01:00:43.820 That's not a fact finding. I'm not searching for fact. I'm searching for your, your depth,
01:00:51.600 your level of depth and understanding of the subject matter in question. So, I mean, I don't
01:00:58.320 understand. So is university just for like bumping up and developing some base, like sort of a base
01:01:06.280 level of uh of what exactly yeah so i think university is many things as you know in our
01:01:14.460 society we do put a value on the degree itself so that is of course one inescapable element of it
01:01:20.360 it also it is also going deeper and also broader into your area of interest which is another
01:01:28.320 component it's also a process of understanding how to communicate better and research better
01:01:34.220 and understand if you see a fact
01:01:36.100 written down to interrogate it
01:01:38.220 to the level where it's like, how can I believe
01:01:40.300 what I'm reading is true?
01:01:41.920 Trying to understand arguments, research
01:01:44.120 methods, etc.
01:01:46.300 I feel like I learned that without college.
01:01:48.020 You can learn that without college.
01:01:49.740 No, I'm just saying I did.
01:01:51.440 I think you absolutely can.
01:01:53.800 That's baseline. Wait, wait, what you're
01:01:56.120 explaining is baseline. Like, for example,
01:01:58.860 I know it's a dating podcast, but
01:02:00.200 like, for example, I think
01:02:01.740 loyalty in a relationship is
01:02:04.140 baseline and then there can be like additional things beyond that so when you're saying well
01:02:09.120 you should be able to think critically and examine statements and be able to decipher
01:02:14.120 whether the truth of a statement to me that seems like it would be a baseline a very baseline thing
01:02:20.760 but when there's specific disciplines like international relations or anthropology or
01:02:27.140 sociology you shouldn't just tell me well I took anthropology and sociology and international
01:02:32.900 relations so i can i can think critically i mean i that should be a correspondent i guess a
01:02:40.180 concurrent part of it but there should you should be able to conceptually tell me about the specific
01:02:47.080 discipline anthropology sociology international relationships not just the fact and it may very
01:02:53.880 well be the case that through university you have cultivated the ability to think critically that
01:02:59.240 might be the case but i'm asking conceptually the subject matter in question what did you learn
01:03:06.860 okay well i'm not going to linger on this too long but i will tell you this if i was dictator
01:03:15.020 i'm getting rid of 80 percent of uh educational disciplines uh math the stem fields can stay
01:03:24.440 STEM fields can stay
01:03:26.320 dance
01:03:27.420 dance has to go
01:03:30.500 she's not studying
01:03:32.340 I know she's not studying dance
01:03:34.120 but I'm saying there's stuff in the universe
01:03:36.020 look if you want to pursue dance
01:03:37.980 in a private capacity
01:03:39.940 I think that's fine
01:03:40.780 I don't think taxpayers should be teaching students
01:03:44.040 and there shouldn't be facilities
01:03:45.420 that are taxpayer funded
01:03:47.480 taxpayers should not be funding
01:03:49.900 dance they shouldn't be funding
01:03:52.220 perhaps certain other
01:03:53.740 I don't know what are some of the other bogus
01:03:56.120 things that you can do in college
01:03:58.460 I don't know no offense
01:04:02.040 art
01:04:02.620 nah get rid of that 1.00
01:04:06.220 shit art can go 1.00
01:04:07.940 I'm not no no tag look 0.98
01:04:10.100 if you want to study privately we're not going to
01:04:12.260 if I'm dictator I'm not going to make it
01:04:14.200 illegal but not even
01:04:16.120 a taxpayer penny will ever
01:04:18.300 go to dance or art
01:04:20.180 or I don't 1.00
01:04:22.220 know some other bullshit sociology kind of bullshit anthropology kind of bullshit yeah gone you can 0.99
01:04:27.700 study privately if a private university wants to offer it fine taxpayer nope you can go into stem 0.99
01:04:34.960 that's pretty much it can i add something on that like baseline sure um i've dated guys that went to
01:04:43.800 college university or whatnot and others who have not and i feel like there's more guys that have
01:04:51.840 that baseline when they went to college or university versus when they did not from experience
01:04:57.260 yeah i do recall in your notes you said that it gives you the ick yeah if a guy doesn't have
01:05:04.040 a college education not always but i yeah okay just because of that baseline that is lacking
01:05:13.420 yeah yeah well i mean i think uh there may be there may be a distinction here between like
01:05:21.640 correlation and causality, but my philosophy on this is that you should never let
01:05:31.980 you should never let academia get in the way of your education, and so this idea that
01:05:38.780 you wouldn't date a guy because he didn't get a university degree.
01:05:45.220 It's more so if you just stopped after high school kind of thing.
01:05:49.220 I'm like sure yeah yeah stops after high school yeah well your dad what's his level of education
01:05:54.900 as a hockey player he went to high school and then he did some college in communication
01:06:01.380 some college in communication yeah uh okay would you be upset is your dad's dating or is he single
01:06:10.420 he passed away oh yeah sorry to hear that well didn't know yeah no worries uh okay but uh he
01:06:17.100 He probably, and I think he'd admit it too, to some degree, sometimes will act on that baseline.
01:06:24.060 Yeah, but he's in Canada and a hockey player, so probably didn't stop him.
01:06:28.780 I'm sure he got a lot of...
01:06:29.720 We'll continue on, but okay.
01:06:35.760 Intro, if you can introduce yourself.
01:06:37.800 Sure. I'm also Taylor. I'm 25. I'm from New Jersey.
01:06:41.800 um i graduated from ruckers criminal justice and history and i'm a bartender when did you graduate
01:06:49.220 2023 okay you know what i'm gonna ask yeah uh one one thing that you learned
01:06:54.360 um and what subject well you said criminal justice in history yeah let's do criminal
01:07:01.100 justice one concept um concept i did most of my studies in um like uh juvenile gangs
01:07:08.780 so i would say one concept is that uh the law is i shouldn't say the law but i guess um
01:07:16.840 specific environments are really not in favor of
01:07:21.060 how people are raised if that makes sense so if you like low socioeconomic
01:07:30.060 you're a product of your environment basically and the every everything is not there to help you
01:07:36.420 so product of your environment yeah so is this like a justification for criminality absolutely
01:07:43.160 not i was not there to condone i was there to understand okay yeah but is there like
01:07:49.480 a greater understanding or more leeway given to those who commit crimes no come from a lower
01:07:57.260 socioeconomic no i wouldn't say um a pass i would say that there's more understanding of course but
01:08:04.600 I still don't think it's right but I understand that it happens because I'm not you know an 0.63
01:08:10.540 imbecile to what happens around us even if that's not what you currently are going through
01:08:15.480 you know and it's not fair to me to judge someone if I don't understand or know what 0.99
01:08:21.980 that environment is like because that's not how I live that's not how I grew up
01:08:26.320 wait it's not fair to judge someone if you don't understand
01:08:32.060 where they're coming from yeah i can you know i think if somebody commits a crime especially 0.97
01:08:39.620 one that is the more objectionable it is frankly i don't give a fuck what their background is 0.96
01:08:44.740 uh if they've committed a crime that is abhorrent 0.93
01:08:47.780 they did so willfully i don't care what their background is truth be told
01:08:55.200 humans have agency
01:08:57.120 humans have
01:08:57.980 control of themselves
01:09:00.020 so I mean if you've murdered somebody
01:09:03.000 and you grew up
01:09:05.780 in poverty 1.00
01:09:07.260 I honestly don't give a fuck 0.98
01:09:10.180 like you've committed a terrible crime 0.98
01:09:12.360 that's why I said it was more about
01:09:13.940 juveniles in gangs
01:09:16.040 it's something that like
01:09:17.600 like I said I'm 25
01:09:20.140 there's people as young
01:09:22.360 as 10, 11, 12
01:09:24.320 13 that are joining gangs what I don't I've never been in gang I've never grew up around gang so
01:09:30.240 to me my interest is what would make someone as young as 10 join a gang what would be the
01:09:36.100 reasoning of that like I said while I don't condone it I think my main reasoning was because I'm you
01:09:42.740 know one to go into the police force so it gives you a sense of why and how I don't want to be a
01:09:50.120 cop to judge people I want to be a cop to help people but how can I help someone if I don't
01:09:54.000 understand where they're coming from well of course i think our mission should be to help
01:09:58.600 people but uh and i think like there's nothing wrong with as a course of study trying to gain
01:10:08.040 an understanding of why it is people get involved in gangs or why they commit crimes or whatever it
01:10:13.260 may be but i don't think from a moral perspective we owe people who do commit crimes some greater
01:10:19.980 form of understanding because of their background. I think, look, that's not to say that, hey,
01:10:28.720 there are people who have difficult upbringings. There are people who live in poverty. There are
01:10:33.960 people who are surrounded with bad influences, and that's worth addressing. But I don't know
01:10:42.800 if I would frame it like, okay, I wouldn't judge somebody who's committed a crime because I'm not
01:10:48.000 familiar with their their specific circumstances i would just say uh i don't know i don't think
01:10:56.460 being in a gang is necessarily considered a crime though there's people in gangs that don't commit
01:11:01.180 crimes um sometimes that's just how it is well yeah i i suppose you could be i don't actually
01:11:11.260 know legally if there might actually be a some sort of if you're gang affiliated even that could
01:11:17.180 get you in trouble but not if you don't have any priors you could be in a gang but you they're not
01:11:22.440 gonna arrest you for just being in a gang but i'm not sure if that's really my central argument here
01:11:26.800 i would say though typically like uh the purpose of a gang is not to work in soup kitchens and do
01:11:33.580 charity service uh being in the gang usually involves criminal activity i mean not necessarily
01:11:40.380 i can give you an example if that makes you feel better yeah right ms 13 is okay well you're gonna
01:11:45.940 to go to the extreme right yeah tell me so other reasons gangs gangs are known for their charitable
01:11:53.600 work and not their criminal activity oh i never said charitable work no that's not what i said
01:11:58.560 hold on that's the association if you're in a gang you're committing crimes not but not everybody
01:12:04.840 some are just a brotherhood some are just a family some are just for protection from other people
01:12:10.440 you know what i mean it's not always like hey guys now that we're a gang we're gonna go shoot
01:12:14.220 people like that's not right i know what you just brought up ms 13 like yeah duh you know i mean but
01:12:19.440 but they're not always a crazy thing and also i mean i don't know do you know anybody from a gang
01:12:24.280 yeah and then those people what commit crimes oh i i know uh i i don't like personally like on a
01:12:31.440 personal level not know of so okay hold on okay currently i'm not friends with anyone who is
01:12:37.600 actively in a game however i knew somebody who did 10 years in prison uh i've actually had them
01:12:43.080 on the show a long, long time ago, and yes, he was in a gang.
01:12:48.300 He did 10 years in prison.
01:12:50.260 He's out of that life now, but this idea that – I don't understand this.
01:12:57.000 Like, are they – they're Boy Scouts, the gang members.
01:13:02.080 I never said that.
01:13:03.660 Look, I mean, people join gangs for various reasons.
01:13:06.240 Maybe it is the case that they join –
01:13:09.500 Well, I think –
01:13:10.360 Look, I'm going to go ahead and grant that people join.
01:13:13.840 Sometimes people are looking for belonging, and maybe they don't have strong male figures.
01:13:20.800 They don't have strong masculine figures.
01:13:22.340 They don't have a father figure.
01:13:24.020 Maybe they've been bullied or whatever it is.
01:13:27.420 And maybe it's just they're living in a geographical region.
01:13:31.220 Maybe their neighborhood is just predominantly filled with gang members, and that's who they're around and who they're exposed to.
01:13:37.900 I'm going to go ahead and grant all those things.
01:13:39.860 However, you're not going to be able to make a very convincing argument that when we're referring to gangs, that this is typically not a criminal organization.
01:13:53.220 Right.
01:13:53.820 And I'm also pretty sure that in order to get initiated into a gang, you have to do something illegal.
01:13:58.620 Not always, no.
01:13:59.860 Not always.
01:14:00.520 Yeah, when you get jumped into a gang, you have to help the elderly lady cross the street.
01:14:05.180 that's what gangs are known for is is you know just doing acts of charity and this is this is
01:14:11.040 you're just saying like completely random things like obviously that's not true whether it involves
01:14:15.340 like stealing like robbing people no i mean i just got jumped in are this shooting i didn't
01:14:20.320 shoot anybody i just got jumped in not all gangs are the same okay this wasn't a debate about me
01:14:26.320 defending gangs at all it was just saying i don't even know how it came up but because i said that
01:14:31.500 I went to college for criminal justice and history.
01:14:33.920 He asked me to explain.
01:14:35.980 I said that I focused a lot on juveniles in gangs.
01:14:40.420 And it's sad.
01:14:41.100 It's a sad state of affairs.
01:14:41.940 It is sad, and I don't condone it.
01:14:43.560 But I do.
01:14:45.300 And there was, I mean, I was in university for five years.
01:14:48.240 Obviously, I didn't study juvenile gangs for five years.
01:14:50.160 But that is a class that was repeat for me because I was constantly piqued in the interest of gangs.
01:14:57.000 However, you know, there were more aspects to criminal justice that I learned.
01:15:00.940 But I think that my main interest was that while I was in university, there is a lot
01:15:05.840 that people don't know and don't understand.
01:15:07.740 And when you, when you start to understand, it's just one, one thing that's like, it's
01:15:14.820 just, I get it.
01:15:16.060 I don't know.
01:15:16.780 This isn't like, I don't know.
01:15:18.040 What's that movie?
01:15:18.900 I've actually never seen it. 1.00
01:15:19.900 West side story where they're fucking dancing and shit. 0.99
01:15:22.700 Like, that's not, that's not what a gang is. 0.99
01:15:25.200 Like, look, I understand if you want to do this thing where we're going to be like, well,
01:15:30.040 some members are like affiliates or associates of the gang, but they haven't actually participated
01:15:36.280 in any criminal behavior, I'm actually going to agree with you. Of course, there's probably
01:15:40.220 associates or affiliates of gangs who haven't actively participated in any criminal activity.
01:15:47.980 However, I would argue like the leadership or the central membership of the gang or purpose
01:15:53.520 of the gang has some degree of criminality uh there's a criminality component to it i mean
01:16:00.380 that's that is a gang i agree with you i agree that's a gang anyways let me move it on um okay
01:16:06.220 what about you a uh introduction please hello i'm brooke i'm 41 i'm from the inland empire
01:16:12.900 and i'm a server and i have two kids all right any college education no okay all right great
01:16:21.820 So we're going to get everybody's relationship status.
01:16:25.540 The dude, thank you for the gifted subs.
01:16:27.400 Appreciate it, man.
01:16:28.220 So going around the table, tell us your relationship status.
01:16:32.200 If you're single, how long you've been single?
01:16:33.820 And if you're in a relationship, how long you've been in the relationship?
01:16:39.260 I'm single.
01:16:40.360 Okay.
01:16:41.160 I love being single.
01:16:43.340 Do you?
01:16:43.800 I really do, honestly.
01:16:45.320 It's the best way for me.
01:16:47.420 I have two, yeah.
01:16:49.740 You love being single?
01:16:50.700 I love it.
01:16:51.820 Because I'm able to focus completely on what I want to do without an insecure man in my ear 24-7.
01:16:57.680 Like, what are you doing?
01:16:58.340 We're canceling the phone.
01:16:59.220 I don't want you to talk to that guy.
01:17:00.520 Oh, but this is for my career.
01:17:02.260 And men are typically insecure.
01:17:05.060 They are.
01:17:05.500 Typically insecure?
01:17:06.260 Yeah. 1.00
01:17:06.520 Are women typically insecure? 1.00
01:17:08.020 Yeah, most likely.
01:17:08.800 Not me, though. 1.00
01:17:09.340 But yeah, a lot of females are. 1.00
01:17:11.320 No, not at all. 1.00
01:17:12.000 I don't feel like I need to be.
01:17:13.180 I feel like if I obsess over you cheating, it's probably going to happen.
01:17:15.540 So why am I going to do all that?
01:17:16.500 I just don't do that.
01:17:17.520 So yes, I'm single.
01:17:18.420 I've been single for, since February, or no, March of 2023.
01:17:24.660 So about two years.
01:17:26.100 Or wait, no, three years.
01:17:26.840 Is that like three now?
01:17:27.640 Three years.
01:17:28.980 What's your longest relationship?
01:17:30.740 I would say five years.
01:17:33.360 Five years.
01:17:33.940 And you said you had two kids?
01:17:35.200 Mm-hmm.
01:17:35.420 Same father?
01:17:36.380 No, different.
01:17:37.280 Two different dads.
01:17:38.560 Mm-hmm.
01:17:38.600 Okay.
01:17:39.240 Because they're very far apart in age.
01:17:41.280 How old are your kids?
01:17:42.260 17 and 11.
01:17:43.860 17 and 11.
01:17:45.340 The five-year one, is that one of the fathers?
01:17:47.580 No.
01:17:48.420 Okay.
01:17:48.920 It was after my son.
01:17:51.220 Okay.
01:17:52.800 Your first or your oldest child, how long was the relationship with the man there?
01:18:00.980 Three years, about.
01:18:02.500 And we got married, actually.
01:18:04.260 Oh, married.
01:18:04.680 Okay.
01:18:04.960 Your youngest child.
01:18:06.260 Forced to be married, though.
01:18:07.380 Forced?
01:18:07.800 My parents. 1.00
01:18:08.420 Yeah, they're very Japanese.
01:18:09.480 So they were like, if you're having this baby, you're getting married. 1.00
01:18:11.640 And I was like, damn. 1.00
01:18:13.120 Both your parents are Japanese? 1.00
01:18:14.320 Yeah.
01:18:14.680 Do you speak Japanese?
01:18:15.560 I do.
01:18:15.700 Are your parents from Japan or were they like from the United States or born in the U.S.?
01:18:21.860 My real mother, she passed away when I was younger, but she was born, I think in like Monterey Park.
01:18:27.060 And then my dad was born in like Chicago.
01:18:28.900 My stepmom right now, though, she's actually the one who taught me how to speak Japanese because she didn't speak any English.
01:18:34.140 Gotcha.
01:18:34.580 Okay.
01:18:35.240 And the length, sorry, I might have missed this, the length of the relationship with the second father?
01:18:40.980 Was pretty short, maybe like a year and a half, two years.
01:18:43.740 Yeah.
01:18:44.260 Okay.
01:18:44.660 Okay. And then how soon into the relationship did you get pregnant? 1.00
01:18:47.300 Very soon.
01:18:48.280 How soon?
01:18:48.720 On both.
01:18:49.640 Yeah.
01:18:50.100 Yeah. How soon?
01:18:50.740 Like, uh, like less than, less than six months, I would say.
01:18:55.040 Okay. Under six months.
01:18:56.160 I was young and just wilding, you know what I mean? Like, and I don't, I don't know.
01:19:00.880 Wait, hold on. You said your kid is how old again?
01:19:03.440 17.
01:19:03.900 17. So how old were you when you got pregnant?
01:19:06.500 Okay. Well now we're going to go into the age, right? I mean, honestly, I don't care. I'm 35, 0.83
01:19:09.700 right? So yeah. So I'm 35. I was 17 when I got pregnant.
01:19:14.140 okay 17 when you're pregnant and but i had her at 18 had her at 18 okay and she's wait sorry 17
01:19:21.400 or 19 17 17 okay not 18 have you told her like don't get pregnant well you know she's actually 0.77
01:19:28.060 gay so she's yeah wait bye or no she she's like a boy she's a full-on boy now yeah not trans or 0.72
01:19:34.720 okay see that's where like i get all mixed up because you know before back in the day would 0.99
01:19:39.380 be like oh she's a dyke which is like a girl who dresses like a man right in i don't know i don't 0.96
01:19:44.420 know the politically correct terms now she tries to teach me and i'm trying to be as politically 0.98
01:19:48.500 correct as i can but um i guess she's considered a mask uh or something what's her pronouns he
01:19:54.840 now okay now yeah she just non wait is she so is she trans or non-binary i don't know you don't
01:20:02.020 know your own daughter i don't know the terminology what i do know is she would like to be addressed
01:20:07.860 as a male now does she have a different name like did she change her name yes to a male name
01:20:12.900 okay so what is that considered what uh well i'm not sure because you said she's mask so you could 0.98
01:20:19.220 be like i guess feminine mask or whatever but she's lesbian but she goes wait so hold on but 0.99
01:20:26.060 she goes by he now so originally she had went by still her birth name right and we would call her
01:20:32.520 her and everything and now she goes by oh no like mom i want to be addressed as a different name and
01:20:39.200 i was like oh okay cool when did she transition um so that's what you call that transition see
01:20:43.940 before a transition to me was getting like your body parts change but now teenagers are saying
01:20:49.620 like oh i transitioned oh how just by saying that and i'm like oh okay so well did she change her
01:20:56.400 appearance at all or yeah yeah so when she first came back to me from living at her dad's she was
01:21:00.820 like i want to chop my hair off i'm like okay go ahead she's like yeah i'm gay i'm like fire
01:21:04.840 that's cool do what you want to do i will fully support you so we cut her hair off she still was
01:21:09.620 going by her birth name though you know she was saying i'm gay i like girls you know this and
01:21:13.720 that i'm like okay cool but now that she's a boy they're saying that it's technically not
01:21:17.300 gay because she's a boy who likes girls now does that make sense i mean in a very peculiar sort of
01:21:26.660 way yes yeah i don't get too much into it i love her so you have split custody no i have full 0.85
01:21:33.360 custody of both my kids oh okay because you said she was at her dad's before yeah and then some
01:21:38.580 stuff happened yeah okay um what does the dad think of the transition is he on board with it
01:21:44.680 no he doesn't like it so she doesn't live go to see him anymore they're cool but they're cool yeah
01:21:50.720 they're cool okay uh and you said you were married once to him yeah have you been married other times
01:21:56.220 i've been proposed to but no how long were you married very short did he pay you alimony
01:22:02.400 no no uh does he pay you i think we annulled it i think if yeah it's so long ago though does he
01:22:08.420 pay you child support he never has up until recently um where i asked it's not on paper
01:22:14.680 but i was like hey you want to shoot a couple hundred you know i mean sure yeah i'm obviously
01:22:18.520 doing financially better than both of them but i just feel like it's just not fair you know what
01:22:24.000 mean like you should be contributing I mean okay so it's not like through the court system no I
01:22:28.280 don't do all that you help out with yeah like hey here and there and it actually was very recent
01:22:32.240 like almost three months ago that I really started asking both of them for anything oh okay so and
01:22:36.880 you said one is 17 and one is 11 yeah okay okay got it uh and then you're I'm your younger daughter
01:22:43.960 I'm assuming she's like my son oh sorry your son excuse me he's not trans or anything no he's he's
01:22:51.040 just the boy and the so okay your daughter well i guess now your son right to be correct yeah right
01:22:59.720 yeah to be is he she taking puberty blockers or oh i'm not about to talk about my kids stuff i
01:23:08.640 actually he watches all this so we're not about you don't want to talk about that yeah um okay
01:23:14.320 but is there plans for changing the appearance and all that definitely and i'm all for it but
01:23:19.480 Are you saying, like, you want them to wait until they're 18?
01:23:23.220 I think, honestly, I feel, like, a little bit older than 18, you know what I mean?
01:23:26.500 Because you're still young at 18, you know?
01:23:28.220 Okay.
01:23:28.600 But, I mean, I was on board for, like, the hair. 1.00
01:23:31.680 You know, she's tatted. 0.99
01:23:33.340 Like, you know, whatever.
01:23:34.500 I feel like that's cool. 1.00
01:23:34.840 But it's a he.
01:23:35.840 He's tatted, yeah.
01:23:36.980 You're misgendering your own.
01:23:38.040 Yeah, okay.
01:23:38.780 I'm so used to it.
01:23:39.780 You know, this was literally last week.
01:23:41.280 Does.
01:23:41.720 Oh.
01:23:42.860 She said it.
01:23:44.120 That she was like, oh, by the way, I want to go by that.
01:23:46.940 And I'm like, fire.
01:23:47.540 All right.
01:23:48.120 Let me, it's going to take me some time.
01:23:49.880 So short hair been short hair though for like four years.
01:23:52.280 Yeah.
01:23:52.640 Oh, wow.
01:23:53.200 Okay.
01:23:55.140 So, um, he looks hella cool.
01:23:58.780 Tatted.
01:23:59.280 Does he, does he say he, yeah, he, yeah. 0.67
01:24:03.720 Does he like get mad at you if you fuck up the pronouns or no, no.
01:24:10.060 Yeah.
01:24:10.340 I think he's very understanding because this is also new to me, you know?
01:24:13.620 So.
01:24:15.020 Okay.
01:24:16.400 Somebody looks like somebody bought some merch.
01:24:18.800 Thank you, Based Thor.
01:24:20.320 Appreciate it, man.
01:24:21.340 Guys, shop.whatever.com if you want to get yourself your own merch.
01:24:24.480 Appreciate it, guys.
01:24:25.320 All right.
01:24:26.180 Okay, that's super interesting.
01:24:27.680 So you've been single for three years, though.
01:24:29.100 Yes.
01:24:30.160 Can you crack a door open?
01:24:31.720 So are there currently any guys in the picture?
01:24:38.240 No.
01:24:39.120 Yeah, no.
01:24:40.040 Yes.
01:24:40.380 I don't know.
01:24:41.100 When's the last time you hung out with a guy?
01:24:43.360 Oh, I don't know who's watching.
01:24:45.460 this. No, I'm playing. So you have a roster? I wouldn't say I have a roster. No, I would say
01:24:52.660 that I hang out with people and they know what it is. They know that I am not interested in
01:24:57.880 pursuing a relationship. So whatever happens that night happens, we're just hanging out,
01:25:02.960 we're chilling, you know, and I make that very clear from the beginning. Because when I love,
01:25:06.440 I love very hard and I've lost myself once in a relationship. And I think we can all kind of
01:25:10.540 relate to that, you know, as a woman, like, you know, you fall for that fairy tale shit and it's 0.99
01:25:14.500 just not real you know so this happened a long time ago in that five-year relationship that i 0.98
01:25:18.140 spoke of earlier oh fairy tales oh yeah sure yeah so that's what i'm saying so now can you just push
01:25:24.680 your cup a little bit uh just like push it yeah perfect thank you so now i'm more so of just like
01:25:30.280 um i'm very focused on what i need to do and i'm getting very far in what i'm doing um i've you
01:25:36.000 know i came from being homeless with my daughter to now having so much things right and just i
01:25:41.440 built myself so I find it that when I'm single it's just best for me for you for me yeah not
01:25:48.000 everybody obviously but good for you yeah for me oh yeah good for you gotcha uh what about you
01:25:51.880 uh I've been keeping it on the DL but I'm in a relationship oh you're in a relationship
01:25:58.360 why were you keeping it on the DL um well because you're dating multiple guys or no no just um
01:26:05.840 because of like casting sometimes there's some casting yeah because i act and stuff so sometimes
01:26:12.880 it's just better oh that sounds really sketch well just because at the beginning we were kind
01:26:18.640 of seeing each other so there was no title but then since recently we're wait why would you hide
01:26:24.300 your relationship status for casting i don't know sometimes it's just like oh uh like we want
01:26:31.600 a single person for this ad even though there's nothing actually going on with other people but
01:26:40.300 they just want us like single person so you're like yeah single i i guess for like a dating show
01:26:48.880 maybe you might want them to be potentially but like actual acting gigs i don't think they would
01:26:55.200 like for a proper acting gig i don't see why your relationship status should matter i'm a
01:27:01.220 defend you yeah it is it's very true as a woman yeah they're more prone to hiring you if you're
01:27:06.700 single available already and all that but if you're no trust me it is you can shake your head
01:27:11.680 but you haven't obviously been in that situation right well no i mean so i understand like if
01:27:16.000 these must be really like sketchy low quality production so i understand that there's a casting
01:27:21.400 couch and these these photographers or what whatever like they want a casting couch they 0.72
01:27:26.640 want to fucking harvey weinstein you or whatever like i fucking get that but like for most 0.98
01:27:31.860 professional productions whether you're single you're married you're in a relationship i don't 0.99
01:27:37.320 see how that that shouldn't matter i'm like it shouldn't matter but i don't even know why they
01:27:42.760 would like why would they ask you like that's not that's not relevant to that okay i can give an
01:27:51.100 example. So one of them, it was for a certain drink that they were gonna do ads for, and then
01:27:58.220 in the ad, they want me to say something of the sort, like, if... So I'm single, if I'm up for
01:28:07.780 this brand, then maybe you are kind of thing. So I have to, like, in the ad, say I'm single,
01:28:12.800 so they prefer to say that I am. But if I am in a relationship, I can't do the casting.
01:28:19.880 You can't do the casting?
01:28:22.520 They don't want someone who's in a relationship
01:28:24.340 So wait, they up front ask if you're in a relationship?
01:28:27.560 Yeah, they're only going to cast people that are in a relationship
01:28:31.960 Acting is make-believe
01:28:34.420 So this idea that in an advertising campaign
01:28:37.740 An actor does not actually need to be single
01:28:44.280 To say that
01:28:47.280 No, what you're saying is right
01:28:49.060 But it's not how it is
01:28:50.460 This is the real world though
01:28:52.100 I've done a lot of commercial castings
01:28:54.260 Where it's like
01:28:54.920 For example if there's a dating app thing
01:28:57.820 They want you to be single
01:28:59.000 Because they don't want any chance of someone
01:29:01.000 Wait I need you speaking close to my
01:29:02.720 So for like dating app commercials
01:29:05.520 For example they will make you
01:29:07.360 They will only cast people who are single
01:29:08.940 Because they don't want anyone who's in a relationship
01:29:11.240 Promoting it because that undermines the dating app 0.84
01:29:13.820 How the fuck would it undermine the dating app 0.94
01:29:16.000 What that makes like no sense
01:29:18.000 i mean i'm gonna take your word for it i'm gonna just say i believe you that's still not what you 0.98
01:29:26.540 not you guys but that's just retarded yeah like if this is actually true it's just retarded it's 0.90
01:29:32.100 it's true but there's it was a moment in time like we were seeing each other and i felt like 0.91
01:29:35.960 it could go somewhere but we weren't um like sure like in a relationship relationship so i was still
01:29:43.020 open for that kind of castings for a bit so i wasn't like openly saying that title but
01:29:48.920 now like it's locked in so i won't be taking those kinds how long have you been seeing him
01:29:54.460 uh since november okay so about six months yeah uh what's the longest relationship you've ever
01:30:01.840 been in uh three years three years who broke up with who um it's a little too touchy but uh he
01:30:11.680 died oh yeah okay there you go uh okay and let's see so you've been seeing this guy for six months
01:30:22.060 yeah like in a relationship or you met him six months i met him six months okay during that
01:30:26.680 period of time were you dating other men before making it official i was open to it but i wasn't
01:30:32.040 dating any okay is he canadian yeah okay did he go to college uh yeah yeah did he get a degree
01:30:40.540 did you graduate yes okay all right uh okay ever married no okay what about you
01:30:48.460 uh single how long you've been single since um june of last year so 11 months
01:30:56.860 11 months okay longest relationship three years ever married that was my husband only once
01:31:06.480 just one marriage yeah okay uh kids no no kids no kids
01:31:12.960 wait 0.95
01:31:15.960 he passed away oh i don't shit okay sorry i didn't put i didn't write it about it but so i don't know 0.96
01:31:25.880 i think i saw something online oh it's in a documentary i saw something in the documentary 0.92
01:31:30.220 okay yeah she passed away okay so i i don't was that referenced in the documentary it was well
01:31:34.880 I'm very sorry to hear that.
01:31:35.820 I didn't know that.
01:31:40.920 Single for 11 months.
01:31:42.420 How long was the relationship that ended 11 months ago?
01:31:45.680 Three years.
01:31:46.720 Three years.
01:31:47.400 Okay.
01:31:48.220 Wait, is that the same one that you said your longest relationship, three years?
01:31:52.360 That was the same guy.
01:31:54.380 Okay.
01:31:54.660 Yeah.
01:31:54.960 And you said you're married?
01:31:57.080 Oh, not right now.
01:31:58.220 No, it used to be.
01:31:58.960 Yeah, sorry.
01:32:00.220 Is that the three-year?
01:32:01.140 Yeah.
01:32:02.140 I see.
01:32:02.840 Okay.
01:32:03.120 Who initiated the divorce?
01:32:04.880 um me but we stayed together for six months after the divorce it's complicated
01:32:12.100 wait you got divorced but kept dating yes it's okay it is complicated
01:32:22.320 all right okay um all right what about you uh single how long you've been single uh since i
01:32:30.860 was born okay your whole life yeah that's right okay so let's explore that we're gonna explore
01:32:36.660 that so uh you've been single your whole life what's the longest period of time so you've never
01:32:43.440 had a boyfriend is what you're saying no mike what's the longest period of time you have seen a
01:32:50.160 guy not very long at all a week two weeks maybe a month it's like a number of times maybe four or
01:33:01.480 five and then four or five times yeah uh okay um so what but four or five times over the you can
01:33:11.020 see somebody four or five times in a week it could take a month it could take two months yeah
01:33:14.400 i'm not seeing anyone right now and that was for a really long time because i'm focusing on my
01:33:21.920 studies sure my life everything like this and yeah that's it and so but uh the guy that you
01:33:31.620 saw four or five times.
01:33:33.080 Un, deux, trois, quatre, cinq.
01:33:36.080 Quatre, cinq.
01:33:38.880 Combien
01:33:39.360 de temps
01:33:40.440 est-ce que tu as
01:33:44.960 fait le
01:33:47.400 boom-boom avec
01:33:48.900 cet
01:33:51.260 jeune homme?
01:33:52.780 Did I say that right? I think she got it in English, too.
01:33:55.420 Oh, yeah. I'm translating.
01:33:57.580 I'm not translating, but I can understand.
01:33:59.380 Yes. I'm okay.
01:34:00.060 I'm just this is more for me I'm practicing my French no can I add something some sorry I'm
01:34:08.260 going but um she when she was in France she was like a different person than she is now so she
01:34:14.740 was like really studying not very social and maybe a little bit from us like strict uh more
01:34:22.660 um yeah strict family I'd say so and then like religious family no just strict strict yeah
01:34:30.040 I've never seen a boy in France
01:34:32.040 So you've never what?
01:34:33.620 Seen a boy in France
01:34:34.740 I wasn't dating at all
01:34:38.000 I had my first kiss when I arrived here
01:34:39.960 You had your first kiss
01:34:41.060 And you're 24?
01:34:42.840 How old were you when you had your first kiss?
01:34:45.500 Around 22
01:34:46.440 When she moved to Montreal
01:34:50.040 Is when she started
01:34:51.160 So she's freshly new to the dating
01:34:53.780 How long have you been friends with her?
01:34:56.480 Over like a year
01:34:57.660 Last summer
01:34:58.800 So she's your wingman, wingwoman. 0.89
01:35:00.940 For sure.
01:35:02.540 Okay, is she a bad influence on you?
01:35:04.520 No, very good influence.
01:35:05.700 My best influence there.
01:35:07.040 What's that?
01:35:07.600 My best influence there in Montreal.
01:35:10.520 But we have some bad influences in our friend group. 1.00
01:35:15.600 Those Canadians, what can I say? 1.00
01:35:18.560 They get up to no good. 1.00
01:35:20.080 All right, so a month?
01:35:26.740 Are you a virgin?
01:35:28.180 No. 0.54
01:35:28.800 Not anymore, no.
01:35:29.800 When did you lose your virginity?
01:35:31.540 At 23.
01:35:33.280 Okay, so like a year ago.
01:35:34.820 Yeah.
01:35:35.180 And is that the guy, you said you saw a guy four or five times.
01:35:39.080 Yeah.
01:35:40.140 But it's not, I don't want to speak about that that much.
01:35:44.140 She's seen a few people since.
01:35:46.580 She didn't just see one guy, she saw a few people.
01:35:49.640 At the same time?
01:35:51.460 I don't think so.
01:35:52.440 I don't think so.
01:35:53.060 Yeah, I'm just like one after the other kind of thing, yeah.
01:35:58.800 A few people at the same time?
01:36:01.960 No, one after the other, but she hasn't just seen one guy for that four or five times.
01:36:06.460 She's seen a few guys four or five times.
01:36:09.400 No, but I asked her what's the longest, so she hasn't had a boyfriend,
01:36:13.180 but what's the longest period of time she was talking to or hanging out with a guy?
01:36:19.300 Around a month?
01:36:20.520 Yeah, maybe one month.
01:36:21.560 A month, okay.
01:36:23.140 All right.
01:36:23.660 and uh okay uh and how many different guys have you had that with oh not a lot how did you meet
01:36:35.640 them dating app uh i tried but i really didn't like it okay yeah sure mutual friends yeah
01:36:46.640 mutual friends okay what are you looking for right now someone who understand me who support me
01:36:54.500 who is able to teach me a lot of things that i don't know um patient like i want to find a
01:37:03.340 partner in life not just a guy that uh is there for me we will be a team and i'm still i know that
01:37:11.760 I will meet someone later
01:37:13.700 I'm sure about that so I'm not
01:37:15.620 stressing me out oh I need to find someone right
01:37:17.740 now sure yeah
01:37:19.400 it will happen when it will happen
01:37:20.960 okay but are you just
01:37:23.620 having fun right now or
01:37:25.220 no no
01:37:26.540 a little closer to the mic
01:37:28.640 okay so you are
01:37:31.020 you're not in a rush but you
01:37:33.640 would like something more serious
01:37:35.160 yeah for sure got it
01:37:36.940 alright what about you
01:37:39.420 I'm single I've been single for
01:37:41.700 a little over a year. I'm in the same as her. I'm looking for something serious, but I'm not
01:37:47.440 in a rush. And then longest relationship? Seven months. Seven months. Yeah. Any kids? No. Ever
01:37:55.160 married? No. Okay. You've been single for one year. Did the seven month one, is that the one
01:38:00.100 that ended a year ago? No, that was a different relationship. Are there any guys in the picture
01:38:05.060 currently? No. For you, are there any men in the picture currently? No. No guy? No guy. You're not
01:38:11.240 on the dating app no dating you're not talking to a guy not talking you didn't kiss a guy recently
01:38:15.420 it was maybe three weeks ago three once three weeks ago uh you know oh okay uh wait wait i
01:38:23.180 have something on this um okay uh no guy in the picture no i am on dating apps but i'm not
01:38:31.420 um so my last really i'm single and my last relationship ended about nine ish months ago
01:38:38.440 okay my longest relationship wasn't my last one it was around three years no kids never married
01:38:45.060 perfect thank you what about you uh i'm single i've been single since last june my longest
01:38:52.340 relationship was four years and i don't have kids ever married i have not been married what about
01:38:57.440 you um longest relationship is seven years um and i've been single for about four years
01:39:07.160 ever married no any kids two same father no two different one two different fathers okay age of
01:39:15.240 kids 11 and 15 all right and then the two two different fathers how long were you dating them
01:39:22.380 respectively um before i got pregnant uh well how long were you with them total um i was with
01:39:28.200 my oldest son's father for about i want to say three and a half and then my youngest
01:39:34.280 he was seven years it was kind of off and on but pretty much together the whole time yeah he passed
01:39:41.060 away how soon into each relationship did you get pregnant very quick how quick about want to say 0.98
01:39:47.500 three months in for both of them yes damn y'all be y'all be moving fast yeah 0.89
01:39:53.460 now question oh i guess question for both of you um were these were you guys like trying to get 0.98
01:40:02.240 pregnant no was it were you on birth control were you on birth control birth control uh the first
01:40:09.760 one no the second one yeah so like it didn't work what were you what were you taking um the shot
01:40:15.200 the depo shot the depo shot really okay and so you were on the depth yeah because that's a bit
01:40:25.100 more effective because it's not like oh i forgot my pill um interesting very strong okay so but
01:40:31.000 the first one so question were you like were were you the first pregnancy you said no birth control
01:40:37.060 were you uh using protection no was he just blasting yes up inside everywhere and you
01:40:46.360 weren't on birth control no i was 17 17 wait do you have a type do i have a type like white guys 0.88
01:40:55.440 Asian guys Latino like tatted Asian gangsters I mean yeah okay so it's an Asian guy yeah they're 0.99
01:41:01.080 both Asian both you're both okay same gang same gang oh shit so they know each other right no 1.00
01:41:06.840 they're not friends they bang together that sounded weird that's what they do they bang 0.99
01:41:12.740 yeah they're um I think highly more of one than the other obviously um sure but yeah okay so
01:41:20.340 Could that be the reason why you got shot?
01:41:23.260 No, I was 17.
01:41:25.500 I got shot a couple years ago.
01:41:27.540 Because she dated two guys in the same gang, no?
01:41:29.540 No, but earlier I had said that it had nothing to do with them.
01:41:32.380 And then for you, you were not on birth control?
01:41:35.240 No.
01:41:36.200 Not on birth control?
01:41:37.960 Were they just, not to be a little, were they just blasting inside?
01:41:44.640 Sometimes, and then sometimes pull out.
01:41:48.020 But yeah, just going full force.
01:41:49.840 doesn't work blasting no yeah it's yeah i mean pull out pull out it has like an 81 percent
01:41:56.560 rating or something but i mean you gotta if the girl's not on birth control and you're not pulling 0.98
01:42:04.380 out not wearing a rubber and you're just blasting inside raw she's gonna get fucking pregnant like 1.00
01:42:10.120 that she's gonna get pregnant like so i mean shit okay they're rolling the dice with their dick uh 1.00
01:42:17.600 Or, well, with their child support payments, I guess. 1.00
01:42:19.980 Or, well, not in your...
01:42:21.000 Nope, not in my situation. 1.00
01:42:22.460 Oh, shit. 1.00
01:42:23.300 All right. 1.00
01:42:23.940 Okay, independent.
01:42:24.720 Well, there it is.
01:42:25.800 Okay, so that's everyone's relationship status. 1.00
01:42:27.740 So what we're going to do, we have two lovely Canadian women here. 1.00
01:42:30.980 Can you pull up Twitch?
01:42:32.200 I hope he's still live.
01:42:33.620 I'm going to...
01:42:34.840 Well, you're in a relationship, but I'm going to do her a favor.
01:42:38.260 I'm going to... 1.00
01:42:38.940 Fuck, he's now in line. 1.00
01:42:40.240 Never mind. 1.00
01:42:40.820 Actually, wait, there's another guy.
01:42:42.500 Okay, here's who you're going to...
01:42:43.720 Twitch.tv slash Bobka.
01:42:45.840 uh b-o-b-k-a and you're gonna put it in video tab uh and then you can put the video so these are 0.98
01:42:54.300 they're canadian is payo this fucker payo is offline damn it i was gonna get you set up with 0.94
01:42:59.020 payo i'm also we're gonna do xvc all right come on guys come on pull it up please uh 0.99
01:43:05.680 b-o-b-k-a twitch.tv slash b-o-b-k-a this guy is a world of warcraft player you're gonna go
01:43:13.420 full screen full screen full screen full screen full screen video tab video tab
01:43:21.980 full screen full screen
01:43:26.300 all right so he plays
01:43:35.820 he's he's in the middle of a match but i'm gonna set you up with him he lives he lives in canada
01:43:41.420 lower the volume a bit lower the volume a little bit i broke his van i have sheep gonna step to
01:43:46.500 him big big ghosty too all right so he played this is a world of warcraft the burning crusade
01:43:53.000 and um he plays uh he's a rogue they're in arena right now this looks like a 3v3
01:43:58.720 oh boy here we go um it looks like they're up against was that a mage there no that's on his 0.98
01:44:03.780 team no no that's the opponent wait fuck i can't see who's yes that is a mate wait 0.98
01:44:09.340 oh he just got feared he just got feared uh who's on his team they lost they lost a tell 0.99
01:44:18.380 bobka guys if i'm gonna open up another tab tell bobka we're watching him right now i'm trying to
01:44:22.480 set him up with uh i'm trying to set him up with a girl uh so do you like do you want to date video
01:44:26.960 game players or i'm not really i'm not really into video games doesn't matter if it and he's 0.98
01:44:32.380 a giga chad he has almost 2 000 subs so he's a fucking giga chad and um somebody tell babka 0.85
01:44:40.320 that we're reacting to him right now um so let's see so he's like one of the top tier rogue players 0.98
01:44:48.600 in world of warcraft and he's in canada i don't know if you can detect the accent a little bit
01:44:55.060 So, are you down to date him?
01:44:59.140 I don't see him.
01:45:00.660 He doesn't...
01:45:01.320 What does he look like?
01:45:04.240 I hear him.
01:45:05.940 Here, boost the volume really quick.
01:45:08.840 All the way, I guess.
01:45:10.060 If we go together.
01:45:11.380 She goes sometimes.
01:45:13.740 Oh, wait.
01:45:14.620 You know what?
01:45:16.260 Okay, well, here.
01:45:17.700 Pause that.
01:45:19.000 Pause that.
01:45:20.600 Yeah, and then go to XQC.
01:45:23.180 So, twitch.tv slash XQC.
01:45:24.800 Pause the audio, please.
01:45:28.000 Do you know XQC?
01:45:29.200 He's also Canadian.
01:45:30.460 Okay, I'm going to set you up with him.
01:45:33.960 XQC.
01:45:35.580 XQC.
01:45:36.200 Based on the accent, he's not from Montreal.
01:45:39.740 Pull it up, please.
01:45:40.940 All right, so I'm going to get you set up with...
01:45:42.840 This is your option, too.
01:45:45.140 Unfortunately, Payo went offline.
01:45:46.920 Otherwise, I would have done it.
01:45:48.500 Hello? Can we get it pulled up, please?
01:45:49.600 Last minute update here.
01:45:50.580 I completely finished this video, but there was something...
01:45:52.560 Oh, my God. He's just watching a fucking video. 1.00
01:45:54.120 All right, fuck it. Never mind. 1.00
01:45:56.820 All right.
01:45:57.960 Maybe pull up XQC's Instagram.
01:46:00.340 Pull up XQC's Instagram.
01:46:03.960 Pause the audio, please.
01:46:08.300 All right, pull up his Instagram.
01:46:09.940 It's probably just, I don't know, Google XQC Instagram.
01:46:16.140 And, because look, she's never had a boyfriend.
01:46:19.120 I'm trying to help her out.
01:46:20.240 I'm trying to be, all right, scroll.
01:46:21.960 okay window tab please
01:46:24.580 scroll down
01:46:25.940 okay so this is xqc
01:46:28.300 scroll down
01:46:29.280 all the way to the bottom
01:46:31.540 he's Canadian he's a nice guy
01:46:34.200 and he speaks French
01:46:35.540 so he's a friend of mine
01:46:38.900 he's a friend of mine
01:46:40.160 creepy
01:46:42.800 scroll back up
01:46:43.940 scroll back up
01:46:45.320 yeah
01:46:47.900 and
01:46:48.520 so those are some photos
01:46:52.200 so is
01:46:53.880 is he your type
01:46:54.980 I need to see the people
01:46:58.260 in real life to know if it's
01:47:00.360 my type or not because
01:47:01.820 it's all about
01:47:03.360 his
01:47:04.960 being
01:47:06.060 I don't know it's a whole thing it's not just
01:47:10.420 a picture
01:47:11.060 so I understand that there's more than just his appearance
01:47:14.440 and other things but based off
01:47:16.380 what you've seen would you go on
01:47:18.280 a date with him maybe the multi multi multi-millionaire super famous i won't say no
01:47:30.500 because it's everything i tried my best i tried i tried xqc the poor guy xqc he's had some marital
01:47:37.680 issues long time ago you know he's he's out of that mess now but you are canadian you're also
01:47:43.940 like from the French part. I'm French. Well, you're French, but you live in Canada. Sorry,
01:47:47.900 you're French, but you live in Canada. You live in Canada. He is Canadian. He speaks French. You 1.00
01:47:53.260 don't need your translator there. So it'll be, it'll be all good. All right. Okay. Well,
01:47:57.780 that's everyone's relationship status. We're going to get into, where do we go first? I actually
01:48:01.900 need to get up momentarily. What was there? Okay. No payo. Rip, rip, rip, rip, rip, rip. Okay.
01:48:10.200 let's see the first topic one sec here guys actually let's start with the disagreements i
01:48:17.620 feel like i'm like kind of lollygagging here with the beginning
01:48:21.440 phase of the show does anyone have any disagreements oh bro what 0.84
01:48:27.120 damn i told her the instructions and she just all right don't worry any disagreements anybody has 0.97
01:48:35.260 with what not yet don't make me dig through college is a scam like like with you i agree 0.99
01:48:43.120 with right like are we disagreements with you you mean uh maybe you said that oh okay she's
01:48:50.260 getting up then all right i'm pretty sure some of you guys had disagreements in your notes do
01:48:55.460 i have to really prompt you guys or okay all right we'll get to that yeah
01:49:00.460 okay um here while we do that go ahead what's your disagreement oh me yeah just a little baby
01:49:08.520 disagreement um i i i think a lot of times you say women cry just to manipulate people
01:49:16.560 and that's like a some a podium you stand on uh well don't misrepresent the position sorry
01:49:23.480 so the position is not in all instances when women cry they're doing so to be manipulative 0.81
01:49:29.640 That's not it.
01:49:30.420 Okay. 0.99
01:49:31.340 However, would you agree with me that women do cry to manipulate in some instances? 1.00
01:49:39.920 Yes. 0.90
01:49:41.680 A small percentage.
01:49:43.320 A small percentage.
01:49:44.520 Okay.
01:49:45.000 Probably.
01:49:47.300 Okay. 0.95
01:49:48.160 I don't know if it's a small percentage, and this is going to vary by women to women.
01:49:53.680 But, okay, continue on with your disagreement, though.
01:49:55.920 Oh, just, I mean, because I think you also say that the Socrates quote,
01:50:04.100 and then I researched the Socrates quote, heavily misattributed.
01:50:07.640 A lot of people don't think actually Socrates said it.
01:50:10.560 But I think your laser focus on that does not allow for women to,
01:50:23.000 like a lot of times I cry out of joy almost every day.
01:50:25.920 so it's just yeah well okay i guess a couple things so first off there's a mischaracterization
01:50:33.100 here as to the laser focus okay this topic has come up perhaps three four times out of nearly
01:50:41.140 300 episodes that we've done so i think laser focus this is not a topic that comes up a lot
01:50:48.060 uh hold on i have a tts coming through
01:50:51.140 thank you man appreciate it brian your favorite brit is back question will you be bringing back
01:51:00.660 the likes of maddie gustavo and joe for a special episode need the ogs back for sure
01:51:06.900 hashtag michael is king yo uh adzils thank you the big tts man i really appreciate it
01:51:12.980 guys show show some respect give uh put a w in the chat for adzils for the big tts thank you man
01:51:18.940 uh i don't know who joe is i'm trying to get i i would like to get maddie and gustavo for
01:51:26.160 episode 300 episode 300 i want that to be kind of a reunion episode but the availability for
01:51:34.840 some big returning guests for like a super super 300 episode may not pan out but i'm i'm trying
01:51:42.220 It's hard scheduling people, and I especially like to align it all on one date.
01:51:49.180 But I'm trying.
01:51:50.020 Thank you for the TTS. 1.00
01:51:51.600 Okay, so your disagreement that women cry to manipulate. 0.90
01:51:55.880 So, again, not all instances where women cry, they are doing so to be manipulative.
01:52:01.480 I don't even think I would say it's the majority of the time. 1.00
01:52:04.940 I couldn't give you a percentage off the top of my head.
01:52:07.960 I don't know.
01:52:08.640 I would say this, though. 1.00
01:52:09.840 women are more likely to cry in a way to manipulate as compared to men when women cry 0.93
01:52:17.560 as compared to men it's often over something uh when men cry typically 0.99
01:52:25.680 they're fucked up a woman a woman will cry because she had a rough day 0.97
01:52:32.460 i've seen men cry because they've had a rough day yeah okay so i'm speaking hold on i'm speaking 1.00
01:52:38.820 here as a sort of general principle. So yes, there are men who will stub their toe or will
01:52:45.080 be minorly inconvenienced and will cry. However, here's my position. I'm trying to think the
01:52:55.600 best way to frame it. Women, well, I guess the easiest way, women cry more. Women cry 1.00
01:53:02.720 more than men. Can we start there? Do we agree? I don't agree. Definitely. You disagree. 1.00
01:53:07.620 I would agree.
01:53:09.900 I think it just varies per person.
01:53:11.440 Hold on, hold on.
01:53:12.680 Because you won't catch me crying more than these men.
01:53:14.580 So there are women who are stoic, and you'll never see them cry.
01:53:19.960 And then there are men who are highly emotional who will cry.
01:53:24.340 But these are sort of, I would say, leaning towards, especially for the man, very outlier.
01:53:31.620 As a general principle, on average, I'm asking you, do women cry more than men? 0.93
01:53:36.620 i guess we'll never know well i it's true though we won't know we can know do you think i i don't
01:53:45.240 know if i could point to a study but i don't think you need a study to point to like to refer to like
01:53:51.380 anecdotal universal experiences i really just feel like that's an opinion common sense it's an
01:53:56.820 opinion okay well here before i respond to you let me open it up what do you think you were hold on
01:54:02.540 I think women cry more than men because it's more socially acceptable to do so, but I don't think it's in a way to manipulate anyone.
01:54:12.620 I just, like, it's hard to fake cry.
01:54:15.380 I don't think it's hard to fake cry. 1.00
01:54:16.880 But again, my position is not in all instances where women cry, they do so to manipulate. 1.00
01:54:24.780 Although, I do think there are probably some times where women may cry unconsciously in an effort to confer some sort of sympathy or benefit, where they might not be consciously attempting to do so. 0.95
01:54:42.200 Not in all instances.
01:54:44.260 I haven't done that, but I've been accused of it.
01:54:48.000 Okay. What do you think?
01:54:50.340 About which part?
01:54:53.060 Well, let's start with if we can agree to some baseline things. 0.93
01:54:56.640 So my position is, as a baseline, women cry more than men. 0.86
01:55:02.580 For me personally, I don't know.
01:55:04.440 I'm not asking you personally.
01:55:06.040 So when I say women cry more than men, did I say Tatum cries more than men?
01:55:11.460 No, I meant my observations might be a bit, because of the line of work that I do,
01:55:16.480 I see men in vulnerable positions.
01:55:18.480 So I see a lot of men crying a lot.
01:55:20.820 So I don't know.
01:55:22.460 But so, for example, if you're a police officer and you saw a disproportionate amount of dead bodies, as police officers frequently do, I don't think you could then map that on to a sort of average.
01:55:36.880 I understand.
01:55:37.600 Like, for example, let's say you're very specialized.
01:55:40.600 You're a homicide detective.
01:55:42.600 Right.
01:55:42.860 Your sole job relates to investigating murders and homicides, right?
01:55:47.980 Yeah.
01:55:48.180 But you would not map that on and say, like, the majority of people commit homicides and murders because on a daily basis I'm dealing with the investigation of homicides and murders.
01:55:57.460 So in your case, your claim, you're going to say, well, I'm a sex worker and these men are very vulnerable and they sometimes cry when receiving my services or whatever.
01:56:09.360 well besides my line of work i will say that um the most masculine men i've dated
01:56:19.320 are the ones who've cried the most and the more feminine men i've dated i never saw them cry once
01:56:27.140 which is fascinating right the most masculine men you've dated cried the most yes because
01:56:35.860 Because they're in touch with themselves, and they're so confident in their masculinity that they're okay crying, and I think that's awesome.
01:56:43.140 Can I ask you a question?
01:56:44.200 The most masculine man you've ever dated, when you say he was comfortable crying in front of you, what was the – could you maybe list a few of the things that he cried about?
01:56:56.720 So, for example, I would have no quarrel with a man crying if his mom died, his father died, a sibling died, perhaps even a pet, a beloved pet died.
01:57:11.680 Were those the circumstances under which the man was crying?
01:57:14.780 I mean, there's a handful of circumstances, but I mean, with my husband, when I told him I wanted to work at a brothel, he definitely cried. 0.99
01:57:23.060 huh i'm gonna allow that as a reason for a man to cry your fucking wife wants to become a 0.98
01:57:30.340 prostitute i'll give him a pass on that um yeah i'm gonna okay that from as representative of 1.00
01:57:39.520 the male delegation your fucking wife wants to become a prostitute and the relationship is 1.00
01:57:46.700 basically over i guess yeah you can cry i guess sure no we stayed married for two yikes okay well 1.00
01:57:51.980 I don't know what's going on there.
01:57:53.640 But okay, most masculine men.
01:57:54.980 What were the things he was crying over?
01:57:57.760 Other things?
01:57:58.720 Sure.
01:58:02.280 I think he did a lot of crying around that topic.
01:58:06.060 But in the other relationship, it was just like processing his own relationship with his father and crying through that.
01:58:18.740 that's like really honorable to do well so i i mean i'm not gonna dig too much no i know i know
01:58:25.580 but if there was like abuse this can obviously no no no no this can obviously uh and if you're
01:58:31.740 like talking through that uh then that could probably prompt uh tears i'm actually gonna 0.88
01:58:37.680 walk back the granting that he cried when you told him you want to be a prostitute honestly i 1.00
01:58:42.860 I think if your wife tells you she wants to fuck other men for money, 1.00
01:58:48.100 I think you have to be a stone-cold killer. 1.00
01:58:51.040 You can be upset by that. 1.00
01:58:52.900 You've got to be a stone-cold killer and just instantly divorce. 0.99
01:58:57.080 And I don't think you should cry. 1.00
01:58:59.760 Fuck that. 1.00
01:59:00.220 No. 1.00
01:59:00.340 If my girlfriend came to me, or my wife even, my wife comes to me,
01:59:05.500 hypothetical wife, comes to me,
01:59:07.940 excuse me, Brian, 1.00
01:59:08.680 I want other men's penises in and around 1.00
01:59:12.280 my mouth and vagina for money 1.00
01:59:14.000 hell yeah 1.00
01:59:16.100 fuck no 0.99
01:59:17.080 I'm like 1.00
01:59:19.380 I'm gonna be like oh do you now
01:59:22.080 okay
01:59:23.240 I'm gonna
01:59:26.220 pull up my phone 0.99
01:59:27.260 alright Mr. fucking 0.98
01:59:29.860 gonna call 0.99
01:59:31.860 call 1.00
01:59:32.920 I'm gonna call a Jewish lawyer 1.00
01:59:35.260 excuse me 1.00
01:59:36.040 i need the best divorce attorney no uh are you jewish huh are you jewish no but i mean they're
01:59:43.820 known for being good lawyers oh i see solid lawyers i'm gonna call it all right right mr
01:59:49.400 goldstein i need a divorce uh and uh i'm gonna yeah and it's an instant divorce i'm i'm i'm 0.75
02:00:00.240 either like get the fuck out the house out the house you go or i'm leaving if we got kids 0.82
02:00:06.980 all right custody dispute i'm trying to get the kids 100 custody 0.98
02:00:13.240 but i ain't crying i am not crying when's the last time you cried yeah yeah yeah brian
02:00:22.040 yeah brian let me think about this you know what i was watching a sentimental movie let me think
02:00:28.240 No, I'm kidding.
02:00:29.580 Wait, what was the movie that I was watching? 1.00
02:00:32.440 Shit, I'm trying. 1.00
02:00:33.100 Was it a documentary? 1.00
02:00:34.920 I cried.
02:00:35.500 Was it Babe?
02:00:36.900 You know at the end? 0.98
02:00:38.060 You know at the end?
02:00:39.020 Have you seen Babe?
02:00:39.880 Probably not.
02:00:40.400 It's an old movie.
02:00:40.940 The pig movie?
02:00:41.680 The pig movie.
02:00:42.240 Yeah. 0.99
02:00:43.040 And the old man is like, this cute little pig is like, that'll do, pig. 0.98
02:00:48.760 That'll do. 0.99
02:00:49.300 Oh, my God.
02:00:51.400 Heartbreaking.
02:00:52.240 Instant tear.
02:00:53.140 No, I'm kidding.
02:00:53.780 Oh.
02:00:54.380 Oh, so you did cry.
02:00:56.140 So you cry at movies.
02:00:57.340 Are you trolling us?
02:00:58.240 I'm trolling, obviously.
02:01:00.360 I did.
02:01:01.300 He did great. 0.98
02:01:01.860 In my heart, I cried internally when he was like, that'll do, pig. 0.97
02:01:06.900 That'll do. 1.00
02:01:07.800 Holy shit. 0.99
02:01:08.620 Does that stem from maybe like, you know, because that's like a thing. 0.99
02:01:13.540 Do you have a good relationship with your dad?
02:01:15.400 You got parents issues.
02:01:17.060 No, no, no, no.
02:01:18.040 But I get that, though.
02:01:19.000 You know what I mean?
02:01:19.460 Because coming from an Asian household, you'll never hear your parents be like, I'm so proud
02:01:23.280 of you.
02:01:23.680 Let me hug you. 1.00
02:01:24.480 That shit don't exist, right? 1.00
02:01:25.480 so it's like you know nowadays like when i do something you know somebody close to me or 0.99
02:01:30.160 somebody i actually respect is like oh i'm proud of you for doing this and you know it's like oh
02:01:33.900 you feel differently you know so i think maybe like you referencing that part from the movie
02:01:37.760 you weren't growing up with people being like i'm proud of you no my parents were both very loving
02:01:43.020 they're still they're still married maybe just touch something very very pretty normal i'm just
02:01:48.040 curious uh good household parents still together still married um loving caring parents so
02:01:55.340 no it was i wasn't like thinking i was i mean i'm a pig now that's another conversation to be
02:02:02.620 hold on we have a tts here really quick from adzils thank you man appreciate it adzils donated
02:02:07.580 two hundred dollars joe as in joe who worked as security for whatever during 2024 and made
02:02:14.580 appearances in a few episodes black tall and about six feet three inches i could send an image on
02:02:21.840 discord i have you added yeah no i i thought that's who you're talking about but he was on
02:02:27.800 like he was on the panel for i think one episode long time ago uh and then did security on like
02:02:35.520 two episodes so i don't feel like he was super central that would warrant him coming on but uh
02:02:43.720 thank you adzils for the tts appreciate it okay back to crying uh did anyone else want to weigh
02:02:49.340 on this topic who cries more men or women me you i cry a lot you cry a lot okay what about
02:02:56.420 you i cry a lot but i definitely agree that women cry more than men in general women cry more what
02:03:01.260 what do you think in general women cry more okay i agree women cry more what do you think women
02:03:05.540 cry more and i was gonna say i cry a lot hormonal changes hormonal crying okay yeah yeah um and then
02:03:14.660 you said you cry a lot yeah i'm a sensitive person sensitive yeah sensitive did you cry today
02:03:22.820 no yesterday yesterday but just a little bit one minute but so question for you how often would
02:03:29.600 you say you cry i don't have an average well but it happens when it happens sometimes a week
02:03:38.400 Sometimes it may be like two times a day.
02:03:42.380 I don't know.
02:03:42.860 But after that, I don't cry for one month.
02:03:45.980 It's like very short periods.
02:03:47.880 And then I'm good.
02:03:49.820 Okay.
02:03:51.540 So how many times have you cried?
02:03:54.260 You cried yesterday.
02:03:55.660 Just one minute, a little bit.
02:03:57.220 Why didn't anyone see that?
02:03:58.080 Why did you cry?
02:03:58.580 One, two, because I was stressed to come here.
02:04:01.880 But right now I'm okay.
02:04:03.260 Stressed to come on the podcast?
02:04:04.420 A little bit, yeah.
02:04:06.140 Stressed to come on the podcast.
02:04:07.060 it can be stressful right
02:04:09.880 but what about something else
02:04:11.420 what's another reason you've recently cried
02:04:13.300 I miss my family
02:04:15.980 miss your family
02:04:17.000 missing family homesick
02:04:19.600 what's something else
02:04:23.620 can you scoot into the table
02:04:27.980 scoot scoot scoot
02:04:29.560 even when watching films
02:04:32.180 with animals
02:04:33.400 especially
02:04:34.420 the little pig 1.00
02:04:36.500 I don't know the pig. 1.00
02:04:37.420 I know Balto. 1.00
02:04:38.680 I know the husky one. 1.00
02:04:41.160 I don't remember the name.
02:04:41.980 The husky one.
02:04:42.720 It was a very good film.
02:04:45.640 Avatar?
02:04:47.100 I haven't seen Avatar.
02:04:48.580 I haven't seen Avatar?
02:04:49.460 Yeah.
02:04:49.960 Do you know Denver?
02:04:51.240 No.
02:04:51.560 Do you know Denver, the last dinosaur?
02:04:54.880 Do you know?
02:04:55.380 No.
02:04:56.020 Do you know that?
02:04:56.740 No.
02:04:57.260 Ah, well, what's that?
02:05:00.500 Okay, so.
02:05:01.320 This is a craziest crossover.
02:05:03.660 What about Marlene?
02:05:04.620 What about Marley and me?
02:05:07.000 Oh, Marley.
02:05:08.260 That one always gets me.
02:05:09.540 Oh, it's so good.
02:05:10.300 Is that the Golden Retriever one?
02:05:11.740 No, it's a Huss.
02:05:12.800 No, it's a lab.
02:05:13.660 No, it was like a lab. 0.96
02:05:15.180 It was like a yellow lab. 0.79
02:05:16.900 Yeah.
02:05:17.460 That one always gets me.
02:05:18.760 Archie.
02:05:19.360 Yeah, Archie.
02:05:20.500 All right, sometimes a film will move you. 0.99
02:05:23.860 Damn, I'm trying to think. 0.98
02:05:24.880 There's something that got me misty recently. 0.99
02:05:27.820 It wasn't the Hulk Hogan documentary.
02:05:31.660 Poor Hulk.
02:05:33.340 Michael biopic.
02:05:34.620 Poor Hulk Hogan, man.
02:05:37.680 Let's see. 1.00
02:05:38.600 Shit. 1.00
02:05:38.900 What was the... 1.00
02:05:39.480 Man. 1.00
02:05:40.900 Damn. 1.00
02:05:41.300 I'm trying to remember what it was. 1.00
02:05:43.220 Some fucking documentary. 0.99
02:05:44.700 Anyways. 1.00
02:05:45.240 Okay. 1.00
02:05:45.880 So you cry for women. 0.99
02:05:49.280 All right. 1.00
02:05:49.940 I'm doing better.
02:05:51.600 Look.
02:05:52.380 So, okay.
02:05:52.740 Here's my first position. 1.00
02:05:54.280 Women cry more than men. 1.00
02:05:55.880 So, I don't know. 1.00
02:05:56.860 Agreed?
02:05:57.800 Yeah, I agree.
02:05:58.640 You disagree, though.
02:06:00.260 And then you... 1.00
02:06:01.880 I think women have more access to their emotions.
02:06:04.620 at this point in time and men are catching up men are catching up well there could be like a
02:06:11.840 hormonal as she said predisposition to this um but uh could it be that emotions may manifest
02:06:20.200 in different ways so uh i think men tend to go to anger before that's how i say so for me like
02:06:29.380 If they get mad, it's like the female version of crying. 0.94
02:06:32.640 I agree. 0.99
02:06:33.840 But once again, I think it's because it's more socially acceptable for us to cry and I guess more socially acceptable for them to get angry.
02:06:43.500 But often I'm like, I don't know.
02:06:47.140 When they get angry, I'm like, you're crying.
02:06:51.440 Well, that's true.
02:06:52.080 Every time a man yells at me, I cry.
02:06:54.180 I'm sensitive.
02:06:55.740 If you yell at me, I'm going to cry.
02:06:56.880 It's just instinctive.
02:06:59.380 disappear for, like, any strong emotion. 0.99
02:07:01.580 We're going to hit him. 0.86
02:07:02.100 It's too strong.
02:07:05.360 Now, the quote that I'm referencing, and you are correct that there is,
02:07:11.560 whether it's attributed to Socrates or not, there's obviously some,
02:07:16.460 and it's more likely than not he didn't actually say this.
02:07:20.320 Regardless of who actually is the originator of the quote, though,
02:07:24.360 I think it does speak to some truth.
02:07:26.980 And again, not all instances, and I would say even the majority of times when women are crying, certainly they're not doing so as a means of manipulation.
02:07:38.640 However, I do think that they're, depending on the context, in a crying that occurs in a social interaction, and specific social interactions,
02:07:59.660 the rates of when crying occurs in these specific social interactions,
02:08:05.140 that can actually be quite a high amount of manipulation.
02:08:10.440 What specific social interactions?
02:08:12.560 Well, one specific situation where you might be holding a woman accountable.
02:08:18.940 In that specific situation, if you do see tears,
02:08:22.880 I think there's actually quite a high probability
02:08:25.360 that tears are used as a method to attempt to elicit sympathy and tears have a tendency to
02:08:36.380 shut down dialogue. Now, I'll give you examples. Now, it's never my goal. The reason I cited on
02:08:43.820 the podcast is not to say when women are crying in other contexts that they're doing so to
02:08:51.060 manipulate. But we have had women cry on the podcast. And this often has occurred. And again,
02:08:57.940 it's never my goal. But it has happened. When women cry on the podcast, this typically has been
02:09:05.500 happens when I'm pushing back on something. And what happens when a woman cries, it's actually, 0.98
02:09:14.420 The manipulation is actually not even necessarily an action from the woman.
02:09:23.520 Notice we have eight women here. 0.55
02:09:25.320 The moment a woman cries, 0.99
02:09:28.060 ah, well, we have to put aside the logical conversation we're having,
02:09:32.620 and we need to placate, and we need to coddle her.
02:09:38.460 Oh, my God, are you okay?
02:09:40.420 Is everything okay?
02:09:41.620 Do you need an applesauce?
02:09:43.000 You need a little blanket?
02:09:47.020 It shuts down conversation.
02:09:49.520 And if I continue with my line of questioning, and by the way, this has happened very few times.
02:09:55.080 A handful of times this has happened.
02:09:57.100 We've had 300 episodes. 1.00
02:09:58.640 We've had 2,000 women plus on the show.
02:10:01.920 This is not a common occurrence.
02:10:03.680 But I have noticed a pattern where if you start continuing on with the questions or whatever,
02:10:08.380 and the woman's crying it is somehow uh other women will do a sisterhood thing 0.83
02:10:16.080 despite a logical presentation of the actual conversation it shuts down conversation and 0.97
02:10:23.840 i believe that is manipulative oh so it's like you're saying it's a collective manipulation
02:10:29.180 rather than well there's it's a sympathy thing in the sense that like we've had women
02:10:36.380 cry uh oftentimes over very it's not like i oh i hit like a sense of thing like for example i mean
02:10:45.360 obviously you know uh if you've had like a loss or whatever it's not like i hit something sensitive
02:10:51.540 there it's just they start crying because for i don't know for whatever reason okay i'll give
02:10:57.500 you an example oh here's a perfect example i was talking to a girl and famous clip she said
02:11:05.360 she invoked misogyny she said not me directly but she said that i think it maybe was a chatter
02:11:13.680 or there was an idea that was being presented and she said that's a very misogynistic idea
02:11:18.580 that's the essence of it it was a long time ago i might be misremembering the context
02:11:23.060 but she did invoke misogyny and i asked her to define misogyny
02:11:27.200 and she couldn't define it and i was like well what and she started crying
02:11:32.900 because she maybe she felt embarrassed she didn't know the definition of it and then she asked to 1.00
02:11:40.360 leave and the other women when by the way i wasn't like you stupid fucking bitch how do you 1.00
02:11:46.000 i was very calm i was very calm i was just like so what's the definition 1.00
02:11:51.040 and then the women were like brian brian stop stop she she's crying i'm like okay well it's
02:11:59.820 a discussion podcast i mean like as if i was i was uh like i was treading on her by talking to her
02:12:10.820 like i don't know so i don't know that's the manipulation i guess where where it will be
02:12:15.800 used to attempt to cultivate sympathy from surround or nearby people or whatever and
02:12:23.040 once the tears come out you can no longer i don't know right so the goal is to continue
02:12:29.240 dialogue through tears
02:12:30.980 like potentially and that's
02:12:33.340 not a bad thing I think that would be a strength
02:12:35.180 to like be able to keep talking through
02:12:37.280 tears
02:12:38.820 I suppose but I mean it's not like
02:12:41.260 I'm just gonna super dig in
02:12:43.220 but
02:12:43.520 well I guess here's the other component
02:12:46.900 I will be blamed
02:12:49.000 for her crying
02:12:51.240 so that's the other manipulation that occurs
02:12:53.440 she cried
02:12:54.900 and I'm to blame
02:12:56.780 and again I'm not usually
02:12:59.080 I make a very good effort to avoid insults. I might disagree with people, but I try to avoid
02:13:05.200 just straight up insulting people. Uh, but even disagreements or inquiry, inquiry into somebody's
02:13:12.340 perspective has resulted in this. And, uh, I'll get blamed. You made her cry. I'm sorry. Uh,
02:13:21.660 I don't I don't I reject that as an idea that I made them cry they cried they are in fact crying
02:13:32.640 but I made them cry now I'm the villain I'm the monster I'm the bad guy for her perhaps
02:13:39.600 disproportionate emotional reaction or even if it's a valid emotional reaction
02:13:47.020 why am i to be blamed as the cause of this reaction yeah i don't think you should be blamed
02:13:56.160 but i think that crying over embarrassment is a very you know common reaction people get embarrassed
02:14:03.400 and they cry because they don't know you know we're embarrassed that's the whole reason so i
02:14:07.980 don't think you should be blamed but i think maybe a little bit of understanding about why she's
02:14:11.720 crying because she's embarrassed that's like you know just basic human decency i think we should
02:14:18.040 just be nice to each other and not i'm not saying you weren't nice to her i'm saying like just be
02:14:21.760 like okay i shouldn't be blamed but she's crying because she's embarrassed could be i'll be right
02:14:26.400 back but you guys can either continue on on the crying thing or discuss i think it's the fault of
02:14:39.900 the english language it's like when you say i hurt my hand it doesn't mean that you took a hammer and
02:14:44.880 hit your hand like your hand hurts yeah i don't know maybe she was just nervous and yeah yeah
02:14:50.740 and it's hard to talk when you're crying so well a lot of people use words that they really don't
02:14:57.580 know the meaning to just because they hurt somebody else use them i would probably sell
02:15:02.620 true yeah but don't you think a lot like i think a lot of crying and it's involuntary so i think
02:15:08.480 it's it's it's interesting to say like like i think okay sure maybe sometimes it's manipulative
02:15:13.920 but a lot of it is so involuntary like yeah can't we just accept like a lot of human behavior is
02:15:18.860 involuntary like i raise my eyebrows too much it's not like i'm trying to like if it's manipulative
02:15:23.620 i don't think it's in like fully consciously intentional personally right at the same time
02:15:29.540 if someone's crying it can be but like from experience like maybe like after i started
02:15:34.920 crying like something went on to my advantage but it's never i'm just like nervous stressed sad so
02:15:41.960 i'm crying and then right i feel like anytime i've cried manipulatively it was because i knew
02:15:47.260 that was like what i was going to gain out of it okay does that make sense like if i'm if something
02:15:53.300 happens and i'm crying and i'm like by myself obviously like who am i gonna have to manipulate
02:15:58.840 but if i know that like i can gain something out of it to make myself feel better you know
02:16:04.480 i feel like everyone is guilty of that at some point even if it's your parents you know i'm sure
02:16:09.340 when we were younger we were like oh i really want ice cream if i cry for it they'll eventually give
02:16:14.320 in so to say that like no one or you know personally you haven't done it you've got to
02:16:20.080 think even of the small things i know it's like we're talking about dating as a kid i wasn't i
02:16:24.280 was just i wanted ice cream and i wasn't getting it so i was right but in a sense it is manipulative
02:16:29.560 it's a manipulative tactic and even if we're not consciously thinking about it at the time because
02:16:34.000 we're children that is what what you know but i think as adults we should have some type of
02:16:40.120 like regulation to that i don't think it's fair to use that tactic and be like okay let me cry
02:16:46.880 to get what i want out of it i think i'll do whatever i want to get what i want not that i
02:16:52.060 do that but i'm just saying no i'm not talking about what exactly you know i mean if you're like
02:16:56.240 crying because if i'm in front of a man and i need to act a certain way i'll read him right
02:17:00.020 and i say okay this is my end goal this is what i need to do sure not talking about crying just 0.52
02:17:05.040 by itself i'm talking about like other shit right like if i need to do what i need to do and i could
02:17:08.500 read this man and if that's what's stopping me from getting what i want i'm gonna do it yeah 0.59
02:17:12.100 right i'm not talking about just crying so i don't know everything my brother is like you know
02:17:17.260 we shouldn't do that i don't know no that's not what i mean like i'm not i'm not talking about
02:17:21.320 men specifically i'm just talking about like i mean like okay you're let's just say like you're
02:17:26.880 you're homeless you have no money you know i mean sometimes you gotta cry like look i'm starving
02:17:31.640 you know i mean you might shed a tear or two but i'm saying like if you're gonna work at the ranch
02:17:35.960 you know fire but i'm saying if you're just like chilling not getting your way like what is the
02:17:42.060 point of that because at that point i feel like that's creating other roadblocks in whatever
02:17:47.580 relationship if we're referring to relationships you know what i mean i think crying is just a
02:17:52.980 wasted time sometimes i don't know that's what i tell my kids right i'm i'm not saying all that
02:17:57.800 like obviously we're human we have emotions right obviously but i just feel like some people they'll 0.91
02:18:03.600 sit there and they'll wallow in their emotions and oh woe is me and i'm fucking crying and
02:18:08.120 there's no solution there so for me i'm a very practical thinker i feel like you know i try to 0.99
02:18:13.820 teach my kids this too like you can sit there and you can cry about something but what the fuck is 0.65
02:18:16.780 i gonna do nothing so for me i'm like okay cry about it cool not now what are we gonna do about 0.98
02:18:21.100 this that's just how i think about it so it might come off as like insensitive to me but i think
02:18:25.060 that's just how i was taught throughout life like i'm not gonna sit here and cry about it what the
02:18:29.320 fuck i gotta figure it out you know so that's why like when girls are like oh my god i just cried 0.98
02:18:33.060 about it for five hours why you know i'd be like bitch what crying is healthy it's healthy to you 0.99
02:18:39.420 maybe it's not healthy to me you know what i mean every to each his own you know what i mean so 0.95
02:18:43.080 but that's just how i feel about it because those five hours could have been spent figuring something
02:18:47.540 also biochemically crying does have a calming effect so if there is one purpose it does calm
02:18:52.580 the individual down some people cry more than others i'm not saying no of course but you know
02:18:56.820 i mean i'm just saying i think it is medically proven that crying is a form of comfort it's you
02:19:01.360 know so if someone cries about something for five hours it just might be their form of comfort at
02:19:05.100 the time i don't think it's about like i cry more she cries less it could be about the same situation
02:19:09.840 you're releasing that bad energy right well here let me ask a couple clarifying questions on the
02:19:14.480 crying thing here uh you're a stripper or used to be used to be though used to be
02:19:19.940 used to be a stripper or you still dance sometimes I do pop into clubs okay can I ask
02:19:25.460 uh when you guys were there how frequently would you and there's a locker room right
02:19:32.180 there's a locker room yeah would you see women crying
02:19:34.780 no not really not really what about you didn't see women crying no and what about your work at
02:19:42.720 the ranch do you hear or see women crying i'm on a individual on an individual basis usually it's me
02:19:53.580 data was a crier we've already established that uh all right and then i mean the other example
02:20:02.320 that i would cite to is that for example if on tiktok um i think women are far more performative 0.80
02:20:10.180 with their crying so like here's an example i would give women just this is what women will do 0.83
02:20:16.600 like have you seen the crying i hate those i hate those do that cry by yourself okay let me put the 1.00
02:20:23.300 camera on let me put it in a good angle let me get my tripod yeah record they fucking cry like 0.99
02:20:30.380 they record crying tiktoks like there was this one uh i mean it's not just one there's like dozens if 0.98
02:20:36.320 not hundreds of examples of these we're like women post tiktoks of them crying they're in
02:20:41.960 their car crying they're in the shower crying and it's like look sometimes you're crying over 0.96
02:20:48.060 some real shit right but i feel like look from the male perspective you can't just be dishing out 0.99
02:20:54.360 cries just for for the fuck of it as a man there are as the representative of the male delegation 0.99
02:21:02.760 there are some there's a code there's a code that men need to live by an honor code 0.99
02:21:07.980 the only times in which a man is allowed to cry are as follows he has cancer diagnosed with cancer
02:21:16.060 okay you can cry upon receiving the news that you've been diagnosed and then we will grant
02:21:23.520 every 14 days the the continuing sorrow you can cry once every 14 days if you cry before
02:21:31.880 depending on successive if it's stage stage one stage two you know it reduces by days a family
02:21:41.300 member dies you can shed one tear if it's a like a cousin i'm talking you know brother sister
02:21:50.140 mom dad you can bawl your eyes out you can cry totally fine
02:21:56.620 uh child yep definitely can cry if your child dies uh what else you were involved with something 1.00
02:22:07.520 severely traumatic like i don't know you saw the fucking towers in nyc fucking fall down 1.00
02:22:14.380 in that moment you're a first responder you saw some shit you can cry your police officer 1.00
02:22:19.240 involved in a shooting, you can cry. You're a firefighter, and it's the worst fire that 1.00
02:22:33.060 you've seen in 10 years, and you've been up for 36 hours, and you're pulling bodies out
02:22:39.180 The buildings.
02:22:42.380 You can cry.
02:22:44.900 What else?
02:22:47.140 Your dog dies.
02:22:48.180 Your cat dies.
02:22:49.420 If you have a reptile and it dies, can't cry.
02:22:52.380 Nope.
02:22:53.000 Sorry.
02:22:53.260 Reptiles don't count.
02:22:54.520 What?
02:22:55.960 No.
02:22:56.540 Yes.
02:22:57.060 Okay.
02:22:57.540 Cat.
02:22:58.260 Dog.
02:22:59.120 Okay.
02:22:59.440 Got it.
02:22:59.720 Okay.
02:22:59.960 Maybe there's other.
02:23:01.640 Should we allow birds?
02:23:02.700 Birds.
02:23:03.000 Yes.
02:23:03.860 Birds.
02:23:04.020 Birds.
02:23:04.200 I don't know.
02:23:04.660 Should we allow a man to cry over a bird?
02:23:07.480 Please don't cry over a bird.
02:23:08.900 I don't know
02:23:10.080 I'm going to wait
02:23:12.720 I'm going to wait for judgment on the bird thing
02:23:14.980 Besides that
02:23:16.960 I'm probably forgetting something
02:23:18.400 I don't think men should cry
02:23:21.840 And why can't they cry in other circumstances?
02:23:24.700 Men shouldn't have emotions
02:23:25.560 Maybe I forgot one 0.64
02:23:27.100 I'm sure I forgot one or two other circumstances
02:23:29.420 But just in general, why can't they cry for other things?
02:23:32.740 In your opinion?
02:23:33.620 Because I think, well there's a couple reasons
02:23:35.760 There's a couple reasons
02:23:36.740 So the first reason
02:23:38.280 is men ought to be as in control of their emotions as possible.
02:23:47.400 And so this also would relate to, I don't know, well, that's one, that's one, gender roles.
02:23:57.200 Now, you might say, we should reject gender roles. 1.00
02:23:59.000 Okay, all of you think men should pay on first dates, get fucked. 1.00
02:24:02.220 I didn't say that. 1.00
02:24:03.300 Okay, well, I don't know.
02:24:04.280 I'm assuming.
02:24:05.320 Almost all of you probably think that.
02:24:06.860 I didn't.
02:24:07.220 Most of you probably would prefer a man who's masculine. 0.76
02:24:10.540 So it's socially reinforced.
02:24:13.300 It's socially stigmatized and shamed for men to cry.
02:24:19.080 Now, again, there are certain circumstances where, like, you know, if a police officer is not the one who did the shooting, but he is responding to the call, and he gets there, and the police officer who, you know, killed somebody, and he sees that guy crying,
02:24:36.580 the police officers should go rub his back give him some support and be understanding that he's
02:24:42.340 crying in that context you should in genuine uh situations of crying if it's non-private and it
02:24:48.500 isn't public uh no there shouldn't be like some sort of mocking that should go on for these people
02:24:53.740 or perhaps even i don't think you should mock a man in any circumstances in which he's crying
02:25:00.040 However, realistically speaking, there will be a social judgment that occurs when men do cry.
02:25:09.060 And then in addition to that, this is also not just propped up by other men, but women themselves will, let's say it's your girlfriend,
02:25:21.800 a lot of women are not prepared to deal with male emotions in that way, and you will lose attraction for that man.
02:25:29.160 You, it might even be on a subconscious, unconscious level. 0.99
02:25:33.580 If a dude fucking cries, it's not gonna, it's not gonna go over well with women. 0.98
02:25:40.120 And you might say, no, of God, be supportive. 1.00
02:25:42.980 Nah, you're all full of shit. 1.00
02:25:45.020 You want a virtue signal because you want to be perceived. 1.00
02:25:48.840 Women want to protect their social standing.
02:25:52.440 And it would come off as harsh or perhaps unnurturing to say, 0.94
02:25:56.220 it gives me the ick if I saw a guy cry.
02:25:58.320 But deep down somewhere, whether unconscious or conscious, a lot of women have an issue with their man crying.
02:26:05.520 Nope.
02:26:06.080 I feel like it depends on what they're crying about.
02:26:08.320 It's literally true.
02:26:09.220 It depends on what they're crying about. 0.99
02:26:11.580 And you can say this, and you say, men, proceed at your own peril this advice that you should fucking cry in front of a woman or be vulnerable in front of a woman. 0.98
02:26:22.180 It's the politically correct thing. 0.99
02:26:25.240 It's bullshit, and women might not even understand their own psychology when they witness a male who is weak, or a man who is vulnerable, or a man who cries, because women do not respond well to weak men. 1.00
02:26:40.660 Absolutely. 1.00
02:26:41.720 So, men, as a general rule and principle, should not cry, in front of women especially.
02:26:48.840 If a man cries in front of him, I'm out.
02:26:51.420 There you go, you heard about it.
02:26:52.640 Brian, I feel like you're wrong.
02:26:53.760 You feel like I'm wrong
02:26:56.920 Because I feel like it's situational
02:26:59.140 Obviously it's situational
02:27:00.440 In our society where
02:27:02.920 Participation trophies are handed out
02:27:05.060 And everybody matters and blah blah blah 0.98
02:27:07.100 All this shit right 0.99
02:27:08.300 Everyone's equal blah blah blah 1.00
02:27:10.580 And yes oh compassion and empathy blah blah blah
02:27:13.220 Can I get an example of when I got
02:27:15.120 I got icked out of when a man cried
02:27:16.240 Go for it 0.99
02:27:16.940 I was dating this guy super loser right 0.94
02:27:19.520 Well I didn't think so at the time but whatever 0.97
02:27:22.080 He cried hella right
02:27:23.640 like one time he found out something we're all chilling one of my homeboys told him something
02:27:28.240 like hey you know porsche gets really bored of guys something something he left right he sends
02:27:32.900 me a picture of him in bed sideways crying and i was like i know i know damn well bro you ain't 0.99
02:27:38.900 never gonna see me again after this because what the fuck is that that like that's pathetic 0.99
02:27:43.680 what you just said like yeah when when you asked me like oh do men cry more than women in my my 0.99
02:27:49.600 situation i don't know if maybe i make men cry more or what was he what was he crying over because
02:27:55.240 because he thought that i was going to get bored of him over a joke basically oh my home wait you
02:28:00.520 noticed how like half the women laughed yeah that's why you don't cry in situations like that
02:28:07.580 picture yeah why are you it's like the tiktok thing why are you sending me a picture of you
02:28:12.860 crying bro you're a baby oh great you're a princess sure but you agree with me if we
02:28:21.140 elevate this idea that men ought to be i never said that i don't agree with that i know you
02:28:25.360 didn't say that but other women here are saying oh you should be vulnerable in front of a woman
02:28:28.940 it's fine to cry in front of a woman a woman's not going to change a woman's not going to change
02:28:32.800 her perspective let me tell you why why okay obviously me her her we're all different right 0.76
02:28:37.460 I feel like she's a very soft, sensitive, little, I'm just a girl, right?
02:28:43.920 Like, you'll never hear me say that.
02:28:45.380 Like, you know what I mean?
02:28:45.960 We're just different.
02:28:46.860 So that's our opinions.
02:28:48.320 Well, she does say that in her notes, I recall, that she prefers very masculine men.
02:28:55.520 Because masculine men brings out the feminine in you.
02:28:58.180 So I don't know if we have a different understanding of masculinity, but I think a component of masculinity is emotional stability.
02:29:07.460 you if you're you know there's i'm not crying i'm gonna butcher the saying but like this idea
02:29:14.140 of stoicism you're the what is it it's like some i don't even rocky upon the rocky promontory and
02:29:21.580 the waves are crashing you remain still and sturdy uh that is the idea of stoicism that is the idea
02:29:27.340 of masculinity love that and so a man who is crying in now look just to be clear of course
02:29:36.720 women like you're dating a guy for two years his mom dies he cries I don't think that the 0.88
02:29:43.700 circumstance in which he cries is important most women are going to be like this completely makes
02:29:48.800 sense his mom just died he's crying although I would say perhaps some women still feel a little
02:29:55.720 something but I think most women are like of course this makes sense a family member just died
02:30:00.180 i'm here for my boyfriend however if the man cries in circumstances where you think perhaps 1.00
02:30:07.660 this isn't warranted for a man to cry why is he being a baby why is he being a sissy being a bitch 0.99
02:30:12.320 yeah it's gonna be like you women are gonna have an issue with it but in her example 1.00
02:30:20.000 um earlier if a girl were to do the same thing to like she didn't doesn't like something one 1.00
02:30:26.980 of the friends said at the table she leaves doesn't communicate anything and then sends a
02:30:31.420 picture of her crying that's also weird too i don't think that example is really that good
02:30:41.240 oh i was just bringing up one for funny yeah just to tell you guys it's funny yeah like it's really
02:30:45.800 situational well yeah really quick on the vulnerable thing so like crying would be a
02:30:50.640 form of vulnerability would you guys agree yes yeah and i respect but so i'll give you another
02:30:55.680 example of being vulnerable in front of a woman a woman which should you be in this position it
02:31:01.260 will be at your peril as a man so uh if you ever are in a state of weakness as a man and this could
02:31:07.860 be if you're okay i'll make it super simple if your girlfriend sees you get beat up
02:31:13.240 not all women yeah but there's a 50 there's a 50 where's your gun there's a 50 chance
02:31:22.040 she's lost maybe not all but a high portion of her attraction for you uh she's going to view you
02:31:32.000 in a different way whether consciously or subconsciously she might not even she might 0.99
02:31:37.200 be there you might take care of the guy when he's all fucked up or whatever just got his ass whooped 0.99
02:31:42.260 there's a part of you inside that you might not even know you're like 0.99
02:31:46.400 ooh
02:31:48.060 yeah I'm like ooh to the guy who beat him up
02:31:50.420 you know like
02:31:51.380 now look
02:31:54.520 I'm not saying all women
02:31:56.160 I'm not saying all women but this is something
02:31:58.400 that men have to be conscious of
02:31:59.900 and I mean
02:32:01.380 I'm trying to think there was a woman who went
02:32:04.380 on the Joe Rogan podcast
02:32:05.680 she was an MMA fighter herself
02:32:08.300 so of course I would assume she'd be
02:32:09.880 understanding because unless you're
02:32:11.980 an excellent MMA fighter
02:32:13.880 you lose
02:32:14.880 you do lose fights you get knocked out in fights she was dating another mma fighter
02:32:20.600 and uh or maybe she was a kickboxer or something i'm not sure but uh no i think she was mma fighter
02:32:27.480 her she saw her boyfriend get knocked out during a not like a street fight like a an mma an official
02:32:36.540 match you know and she was like oh when i saw him get knocked out and he got in the fencing 0.61
02:32:42.160 position or whatever the fuck she was like i dumped him right after and so and i look i have
02:32:49.680 my own anecdotal experiences i've heard from other men i can tell you my own experience i'm not going 0.95
02:32:55.040 to go super fully into detail uh i got jumped by three people so it wasn't like a 1v1 and you know
02:33:02.920 i didn't really have a fair chance i got jumped by three people this was many years ago and luckily
02:33:08.480 it wasn't that bad, but I did get punched and I was like, I got, um, I ended up on the ground 0.94
02:33:14.660 and like my fucking knee or something got fucked up. So I was like kind of limping for a little, 0.95
02:33:20.500 for a week. And I had like massive, uh, uh, like road rash or whatever. So like bruise, like skin
02:33:28.520 ripped off, whatever. And, uh, and so I was like in pain, kind of limping around. And, uh, right
02:33:36.500 after it happened i was seeing this girl for six months i call her up and i'm like hey i just got 0.99
02:33:42.300 i just got jumped come over babe she comes over to her credit you know helps me out takes care of
02:33:47.460 me but like there was an instant like switch and by the way i didn't cry i wasn't like oh my god
02:33:53.860 i was just like i told her what happened i got jumped she saw me all week limping whatever 0.92
02:34:00.680 the whole relationship changed ick well she never she never she sucks i think the wrong person 0.67
02:34:09.380 no she was actually i mean there's nothing i don't know but we never argued we were together 0.99
02:34:14.660 for six months never argued immediately she started fucking arguing with me immediately 1.00
02:34:21.100 because everything bothered her after that right me and so when that shift happens in a relationship 1.00
02:34:26.000 when it was smooth sailing and then she starts nagging and bickering and kind of testing you a 1.00
02:34:33.620 little bit yeah well one it's over but two she lost respect for you yep she lost respect for me 1.00
02:34:40.240 she lost and look not all women are like that but you're rolling the dice with a woman because you 1.00
02:34:45.700 don't really know what kind of woman sometimes even the woman doesn't know she doesn't even know
02:34:50.580 so you're rolling the dice and uh ultimately and you might say well brian you shouldn't date a
02:34:56.080 woman like that well you know i think somewhere deep down in the in the lizard brain men have a
02:35:01.920 lizard brain too but in the lizard brain of woman you see your boyfriend get beat up or like you see 1.00
02:35:08.720 him in the week like to you see your boyfriend being a little bitch you see your boyfriend uh 0.99
02:35:16.180 Well, how about this? 1.00
02:35:18.600 This was a couple months ago.
02:35:20.220 There was this viral video.
02:35:21.360 I think it was in Colombia or Peru or something.
02:35:25.980 A guy was with a girl.
02:35:28.320 And this thug on the street had like a knife.
02:35:32.740 And he tries to rob.
02:35:34.920 And he successfully robs the woman.
02:35:36.600 I saw that.
02:35:37.500 He successfully robs the woman of her purse. 0.62
02:35:40.640 And she was with a man.
02:35:41.920 Now, it's not clear if this was just a male friend.
02:35:44.340 Maybe it was a gay friend.
02:35:45.400 Who knows?
02:35:46.180 if it was a male friend or boyfriend or whatever,
02:35:48.900 but she was with a male companion.
02:35:52.260 And he didn't do anything.
02:35:53.580 He just stood by and he kind of,
02:35:57.580 he didn't like protect her or anything.
02:36:00.560 Everyone was on his case.
02:36:02.120 How could you not protect the woman?
02:36:04.700 And so I would say that in instances of either male vulnerability,
02:36:08.760 male weakness, or male cowardice,
02:36:10.980 women definitely, whether consciously or subconsciously,
02:36:14.400 judge men that was just the coward i mean i saw another guy that would it cowardice be
02:36:21.520 vulnerability yes to be coward hold on what could be more vulnerable then scared i don't know
02:36:29.100 how to deal with the life or death situation that would be that would be vulnerable that
02:36:36.820 would be vulnerable oh one shade of vulnerability well yeah but the for example if a woman sees a
02:36:43.660 rat scurrying across the floor and she shrieks and jumps up on the chair in the kitchen oh my
02:36:48.440 god can you get it i don't i'm like perhaps i mean if i was having a logical thought process
02:36:57.220 of it it seems like to some degree logically a bit of a disproportionate response uh however
02:37:02.500 i wouldn't lose attraction for a woman if she did that if a man did that oh if a man okay spider
02:37:11.680 Oh, my God. 1.00
02:37:13.000 Ew. 0.99
02:37:13.500 Shrieks. 0.99
02:37:14.220 Babe, can you kill the spider? 0.99
02:37:15.520 I'm scared.
02:37:16.940 You're going to, as a woman, you're going to lose attraction for the guy.
02:37:23.680 Vulnerability, though, that would be vulnerable.
02:37:26.220 Maybe a little bit. 1.00
02:37:27.120 So you shouldn't be vulnerable in front of women. 0.99
02:37:28.760 Well, can I share an experience?
02:37:30.340 Yeah, Dale.
02:37:30.660 A personal experience of mine?
02:37:32.040 Okay, so this was my most recent ex-boyfriend.
02:37:34.880 um on our first date we uh went to boston and we were sitting in his car and he got bad news like
02:37:43.960 about his mom and he immediately started crying in front of me and i wiped his tears and was very
02:37:50.760 comforting just instinctually i'm very caring and comforting and even like months later before we
02:37:56.900 broke up he said i just i just wanted to say thank you for being you know so understanding that he
02:38:01.680 felt comfortable enough to let loose like that in front of me. So I definitely think it's very
02:38:07.000 personable. Like it depends on the situation. But so that was one of my, you said something
02:38:13.900 happened to the mom? Yes. Like she died? Not that day, but she did end up passing. Yes. Okay. So I
02:38:20.040 mean, it was obviously something very severe. Yeah. That's one of my, you know, uh, grantings
02:38:25.720 there. I might've, I think perhaps I didn't include like, okay, so not death, but like they're in a
02:38:31.220 fucking terrible car accident and they're in a hospital. Yeah, that's fine. They could die. 0.97
02:38:38.600 Yeah, that's fine if the man cries in that instance. 0.92
02:38:41.140 I do have respect for men that feel comfortable enough in a woman's presence
02:38:45.680 to let go of their emotions.
02:38:47.920 Wait, I have two really good examples, but then I want to move on to the topic.
02:38:51.480 One example, this was actually another example from the show. It happened two, three months ago.
02:38:56.460 We had a woman on who one of the questions in the thing here is wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight or a woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
02:39:07.960 And the woman was arguing that it is wrong. 0.94
02:39:10.560 You shouldn't judge a woman because of her weight. 1.00
02:39:12.540 And she had a height preference. 0.54
02:39:14.280 And so I was like, you know, poking at her on that.
02:39:17.560 OK, hold on.
02:39:18.560 But you have a height preference.
02:39:21.240 By the way, if a woman doesn't want to date a guy because he's overweight, that's totally fine, too.
02:39:25.460 so i don't have a double standard women can reject men who are chubby overweight trust me i get it
02:39:30.860 all the time as a chubby man happens all the time totally totally acceptable thing for a woman to
02:39:37.580 a female preference but it's also okay for the male to have that preference and she's like well 0.55
02:39:42.080 i wouldn't date a guy who's under five foot ten and i was like well god if it's then it it either
02:39:49.500 has to be okay then for the man to reject a woman because of her weight because you're fine with 0.99
02:39:53.140 people rejecting people based on how they look right uh their appearance but then she was like
02:39:59.140 well wait it's different blah blah blah and then she just couldn't she just couldn't she literally
02:40:04.680 started crying though and like got not just crying got up and left and wait was she fat
02:40:12.120 no she was well you know what it might have been an extensive topic she's on the thinner side 0.92
02:40:17.400 oh so maybe it was like a tooth yeah yeah maybe she had maybe just something she had bulimia or
02:40:24.140 anorexia perhaps who knows so it could have been a sensitive subject in any case i really don't
02:40:29.140 think it's that sensitive um i wasn't like well tell me about how long you've been suffering with
02:40:34.060 bulimia no it was just like she was like she couldn't wrap her head around the idea that men
02:40:40.880 are allowed to not want to date a woman because of her weight now typically this is framed from
02:40:46.560 the perspective of the woman's fat but technically yes that maybe the woman's too thin like she's a
02:40:54.620 skeleton maybe she couldn't gain weight maybe that was like whatever things you know what i mean
02:40:58.080 but like everyone has the right to their own she's not gonna say that everyone has the right
02:41:01.980 to their own preference yeah but so she got upset with that conversation and she walked up 0.99
02:41:07.440 off and left and then like i got blamed everyone's like brian you're kind of a dick 0.97
02:41:13.220 no i was like anyways whatever uh then the the other example final thing on the crying thing 0.82
02:41:20.040 world of warcraft who's familiar with the game well you just showed us but i've heard it but 0.83
02:41:27.600 i have no idea how to play it yeah okay so this is crazy so actually i was being a little bitch 0.77
02:41:33.860 not gonna lie but 0.93
02:41:34.580 she just didn't understand so okay this was
02:41:39.780 what was that
02:41:42.820 what
02:41:44.000 when I talk about this
02:41:48.060 well games can be everything
02:41:49.720 World of Warcraft it's very emotional
02:41:51.840 you didn't see when he put it on
02:41:54.060 he was nerding out for like 30 seconds
02:41:55.880 he was like 10 words I didn't even know
02:41:57.660 let me explain it I'll explain it like this
02:41:59.780 so I'll cut to the
02:42:00.880 bulk of it so okay I was in the hardcore 0.98
02:42:03.820 you guys are not going to understand what the fuck I'm talking about 0.96
02:42:05.940 I was in a hardcore raiding guild 0.98
02:42:07.920 like the number one guild on the server
02:42:09.840 and there's politics in the game
02:42:12.200 like World of Warcraft is not just
02:42:14.160 Tetris
02:42:15.420 some people I guess can play that like 10 hours a day
02:42:18.280 World of Warcraft can be a game
02:42:20.540 where you're literally playing it
02:42:21.880 12 hours a day 1.00
02:42:23.120 hardcore gamer type shit 1.00
02:42:25.020 and people take that shit seriously 1.00
02:42:27.460 and there's 1.00
02:42:28.820 you play on a server
02:42:31.020 and there's like a social component
02:42:33.560 to MMO
02:42:35.460 it's MMORPG
02:42:37.220 massively multiplayer online role-playing game and so like if you're on a server maybe there's
02:42:43.800 a few thousand people on the server well i guess now they merge servers so it's like tens of
02:42:47.540 thousands of people but like you have your reputation and like there's social connections
02:42:52.080 and like you can have a good reputation or bad reputation and there's favorite and there's 0.90
02:42:56.920 guilds oh my god this is so fucking cringe such a nerd yeah the point here is i was in the top 0.78
02:43:01.960 guild and uh this is a game you invest hours into so it's not just like right you get invested 0.97
02:43:09.460 right and so uh i was in this guild and they had loot council they have got no fucking idea
02:43:16.120 i'm almost at the uh the finish line here though all right i was on the receiving end 0.63
02:43:24.160 of a really unfair loot distribution i should look people are gonna be like brian you're 0.97
02:43:31.500 fucking loot goblin by the way i don't play video games anymore i haven't touched a video game since 0.97
02:43:36.820 like essentially like i stopped playing video games since like 2020 i played like one week 0.97
02:43:43.180 two years ago but that's it uh you know had a little relapse he's in recovery i had a relapse
02:43:50.100 for like a month or no sorry a week but i was like i'm too busy with the podcast i don't have time
02:43:55.940 one week relapse haven't played video games since 2020 i was on the bad end of a bad loot deal
02:44:03.920 and my girlfriend was like kicking it in my bed while i was playing and i got i was like pissed
02:44:10.140 i was pissed because look you pour hours of work into this hours of work like just it's like 0.92
02:44:19.080 hours you're playing fucking eight nine ten hours a day uh and this was a period in my life where i 0.96
02:44:26.240 basically had fuck all going on so this was my main thing right very bad blue thing and it wasn't 0.99
02:44:35.920 the first time i got screwed over another so i was like oh man like what's going on i'm getting 0.96
02:44:40.740 screwed over in the guild and i actually so i actually decided to quit uh not long after but
02:44:48.400 that's besides the point but my girlfriend i was telling her i was telling her about what happened
02:44:53.780 very vulnerable that relationship was over within a month that's right yep yeah within a month it
02:45:01.380 was over yeah yeah it's a game yeah but i get it she was not happy yeah i didn't oh my god they
02:45:06.600 gave they gave they gave you the wrong loot like no they didn't give you enough they gave 0.74
02:45:11.540 perdition's blade perdition's blade like the fucking best dagger from ragnaros molten core 0.97
02:45:18.580 for like right you don't you don't get you don't replace perdition's blade for fucking months 0.99
02:45:25.460 that's your best in slot no like sure i understand what she knows what i'm talking about she plays 0.87
02:45:31.300 i do not but um i forgot to put it in my list but gamers like hardcore gamers like that huge
02:45:39.060 ick wait say that again huge ick um but yeah my ex was like in a huge gaming phase at some point i
02:45:55.600 was so annoyed it's so unproductive nothing you're not it's a it's doing anything good for
02:46:02.840 your future you're just in your room getting mad at a computer oh if it's like to that point where 0.99
02:46:07.980 it takes over your entire fucking life. 0.99
02:46:10.100 I understand that. 0.99
02:46:11.020 But I've seen some videos of girlfriends 0.97
02:46:13.740 purposely shutting off 1.00
02:46:15.940 their game when they're
02:46:17.920 so close to finishing. 0.99
02:46:19.080 I think it's fucked up. 0.99
02:46:20.480 And then they break up with him. 0.99
02:46:22.460 But you earned that. 1.00
02:46:24.640 You fucked over his entire 0.99
02:46:26.320 earning of that game of where he was 0.99
02:46:28.460 at that point.
02:46:29.480 I do think that there are some pros
02:46:32.380 to gaming.
02:46:33.860 There's definitely pros.
02:46:35.120 like i do think it actually in some ways like there's certain games that you will become smarter
02:46:41.460 if you play that game it'll help with your hand-eye coordination it'll help with organization 0.99
02:46:46.480 it'll help with like doing tasks in an expedient way like in world of warcraft oh shit like you 0.98
02:46:53.660 gotta if you're like leveling there's a way to maximize your level leveling routes and shit
02:46:58.820 that has that's life skill application right but in any case overall i think video games are a
02:47:07.040 distraction that's why i quit i don't play them anymore um but uh especially it depends if you
02:47:13.600 can do it in moderation but for me it wasn't and i've never been addicted i've never been addicted 0.98
02:47:20.220 to drugs or alcohol or smoking anything but video games oh boy i might as well be a fucking meth 0.96
02:47:26.660 fiend because i can't be casual with it i can't just play two hours yeah right i need to play 0.98
02:47:34.640 10 hours that's your life i think most men just kind of like that yeah so i'm like look i understand
02:47:41.940 you have to learn but related to the ick though that's an interesting segue for sure related to
02:47:46.880 the ick i think it's fair for women to have an apprehension uh to it's a fair preference to not
02:47:53.420 want to date a guy who um yeah close the door uh to not want to date a guy who plays video games
02:47:59.800 i think that's fair women have this preference it's hot but i think i think men men are willing
02:48:07.500 to acknowledge this to a degree now some some men will go on the defensive yeah
02:48:11.720 but i think it's fair for men to also make criticism of women's behavior but when men
02:48:20.380 criticize things women do women do a lot of defensiveness and do a lot of cope so for example
02:48:27.940 i would say i don't know what the what is the corresponding thing to video games 0.99
02:48:32.380 like what's the thing women do maybe i'll give a list social media maybe like it could be social 0.98
02:48:39.980 media usage it could be uh going out to bars and clubs and partying yep it could be dressing
02:48:46.120 revealing it could be sex work or only fans and then also make absolutely not i disagree uh plastic
02:48:52.660 surgery and makeup these are the things so these are the behaviors that men want to stifle in women
02:48:59.300 oh okay but you're not comparing it to gaming right because it's totally different everything
02:49:04.000 you just named is totally different than spending 10 hours on a game doing nothing
02:49:09.200 you know what i mean like all the things you just named like different yeah me doing social media 0.95
02:49:13.300 like let's say I want to get my boobs done
02:49:15.380 or I want to get something done, this is to make more money 1.00
02:49:17.480 you guys are just sitting there on a fucking game 1.00
02:49:19.200 doing nothing, being stinky 1.00
02:49:20.880 well so I would actually 0.80
02:49:22.140 some of them make money
02:49:24.600 I would disagree, like a competition or whatever
02:49:27.200 so they are different
02:49:28.960 but I would disagree as follows
02:49:30.860 I think
02:49:34.300 different in different ways, so for example
02:49:36.940 if your man's playing video games 0.98
02:49:39.480 he's not fucking 1.00
02:49:41.220 another bitch, he's at home 1.00
02:49:42.680 being a loser 1.00
02:49:43.960 right but he's at home 0.99
02:49:46.300 he's not cheating on you
02:49:48.560 if he's at home playing video games 0.99
02:49:50.000 whereas if a woman's at the bar 0.64
02:49:52.240 a woman's at the club 1.00
02:49:53.600 a woman's doing a 1.00
02:49:56.580 bachelorette trip 1.00
02:49:58.280 nah like y'all women 1.00
02:50:00.740 going to the clubs 1.00
02:50:01.580 bars, parties, drinking
02:50:03.780 hanging out with your single friends
02:50:05.740 men do that too
02:50:08.160 girls trips it's different
02:50:09.700 but he's not at the gym working out either
02:50:12.280 Sure. Yes. So I agree. So, uh, look, I think video games in moderation, uh, women can still
02:50:19.060 prefer against that, but video games in moderation, not such a big deal. 10 hours a day. I think it
02:50:24.160 is going to have an impact. Um, but, uh, and look, I, but I'm fine with women having the 1.00
02:50:30.560 anti-video game preference, but women seem to really push back against the don't be going to 0.99
02:50:37.280 club. Don't be dressing in a certain way. Don't be partying. Don't be drinking. Don't be going 0.99
02:50:41.860 on girls trips don't be doing xyz women do not like that conversation yeah no that's fair that's
02:50:51.880 valid i don't know it depends on who it is can i give a example club and everything i understand
02:50:57.900 that um and then obviously like dressing too revealing i can also understand that
02:51:02.620 that this guy just said um only fans obviously don't worry about that only fans obviously
02:51:07.660 Thank you, Pasty George.
02:51:08.860 He has a crush on Brian.
02:51:11.420 He is Canadian. 1.00
02:51:12.460 But hey, Pasty George, I don't know if you caught Canadian. 0.98
02:51:14.960 Well, she's got a boyfriend.
02:51:15.860 Yeah, he mentioned earlier, he talked about them.
02:51:17.660 He said, be careful, Chair 4, your friend C2 is jealous of you.
02:51:21.940 Did you guys read that?
02:51:22.720 Yeah, I saw that.
02:51:23.860 I saw that.
02:51:24.600 I was like, ooh.
02:51:25.320 Oh, I didn't see that. 1.00
02:51:26.700 Just another example of men not knowing what the fuck is going on. 0.99
02:51:28.640 Hold on, we have a chat here real quick. 0.99
02:51:31.840 Here, let me have you read that.
02:51:33.880 Yeah, of her.
02:51:34.440 Hold on, I'll stop.
02:51:35.640 Go ahead, read it.
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02:51:59.440 of h hour podcast all right thank you man for the uh message thank you soli uh okay so there's that
02:52:05.840 Anyways, I don't know where I was going with that, but the video game thing.
02:52:08.480 Yeah, how about this? 1.00
02:52:09.540 I think when a woman's in a relationship, she should not be going out to the bar or club, period. 0.99
02:52:17.100 Can a man? 0.97
02:52:17.880 With her man or without her man?
02:52:19.200 Well, so here's where it differentiates.
02:52:21.620 Who with?
02:52:22.880 The men should not go to bars and clubs, period. 1.00
02:52:26.740 They're retarded venues. 1.00
02:52:28.960 Like, it's actually retarded. 1.00
02:52:30.640 Oh. 1.00
02:52:31.300 Yeah.
02:52:32.340 So you'd never go?
02:52:34.200 I went a few times when I was younger, but no, I haven't been to a bar or club in probably over a decade.
02:52:39.660 No?
02:52:40.260 Well, you also don't drink.
02:52:42.140 Not even, like, a chill bar?
02:52:44.420 So when I say bar or club, I'm typically, like, obviously there's, like, more lounge-type environments where you might meet up with a friend, and it's not a party environment.
02:52:55.720 Okay.
02:52:56.620 That's a bit different.
02:52:57.600 Like, I'm trying to think an example.
02:53:01.020 Like when I say bars and clubs, these are, I'm talking about party.
02:53:05.700 Like there's bars that are like party clubs.
02:53:08.120 Like nightlife.
02:53:09.280 Nightlife.
02:53:09.800 Okay.
02:53:10.040 Yeah.
02:53:10.640 Like dance floors.
02:53:11.800 So I don't think men should go out period.
02:53:15.440 But so I guess yes in the relationship also, but it's different.
02:53:21.660 What's different?
02:53:22.720 Okay.
02:53:23.100 So for example, men and women, would you agree with me that men and women have different strategies when it comes to dating?
02:53:31.020 Yes. So for example, men will like say before the advent of social media, it still is the case
02:53:39.480 for social media and dating apps before social media, uh, men would go up to women. Generally
02:53:46.560 speaking, men would make the first move. Agree. They're supposed to. Yeah. Right. And so typically, 1.00
02:53:52.580 so women might put themselves in a venue that gives men access to approach them. So women, 1.00
02:54:00.460 are not like uh they are i suppose passive they're not active in the sense that when you'll 1.00
02:54:08.800 never see a woman who's like a pickup artist go out to a bar and like approach like 10 dudes in
02:54:14.500 a row me okay i'm kidding i'm kidding so you don't really see that like but as a guy um if if you're
02:54:22.340 trying to mack on girls in a bar or a club he might go up to 10 different girls in a night right
02:54:28.320 um 10 20 30 whatever he's shooting his shot women don't do that women will put themselves 0.85
02:54:35.080 in a situation to be approached though when men and women get into relationships
02:54:40.020 we say you have to we say to men and i technically women too even though women don't do it to begin
02:54:48.980 with you can't go up to new people and hit on them you need to stop men have to stop their behavior 0.53
02:54:57.580 when they're in a relationship. We don't put it. We don't stifle what women do when they're in a 1.00
02:55:07.000 relationship. And so because we have different strategies, women, you're not going to like go 1.00
02:55:13.180 up and hit on a guy or slide in his DMS. Although sometimes you do, sometimes you can, but you might, 1.00
02:55:17.700 you might post photos on Instagram. You might thirst trap on Instagram and you wait for the
02:55:22.640 men to come to you. That's your strategy as women. That's fair. You might go to a bar or club. You 1.00
02:55:28.940 might not go up to a man, but you might be in the venue. And look, I get it. You don't just go to
02:55:36.780 the bar and club just to get a dick. I get it. But if a really handsome, cool, attractive guy 1.00
02:55:42.820 happens to be there and talks to you, you're not going to just instantly necessarily shut that down
02:55:47.460 if you're single. So if you're in a relationship, I believe the man should, of course, not be
02:55:54.140 approaching women. That's his strategy when he's single. Why aren't we having a conversation about
02:55:59.920 shutting down women's strategy when they're clearly in the relationship? You got to shut 1.00
02:56:05.200 down your methods of procuring men. So the entire time women are in fucking full-blown monogamous 1.00
02:56:12.440 relationships and married y'all are still advertising us men we're salesmen we are salesmen 0.99
02:56:18.600 we're going out there y'all are marketers you guys market and you continue marketing throughout
02:56:25.000 the relationship and throughout the marriage i don't really think so i think some women are very
02:56:31.720 happy with their men and they're not doing all that right well okay yes fine then if they're
02:56:36.180 not doing all that perfect they're doing what they should do if you're in a relationship you
02:56:40.920 You can't be posting thirst traps on Instagram. 0.99
02:56:43.140 You've got to put your shit private. 1.00
02:56:45.320 Oh, I know. 1.00
02:56:46.100 I 100% disagree, bro. 1.00
02:56:47.640 You've got to put your shit private, and you should not be going to bars and clubs. 1.00
02:56:51.540 Period. 1.00
02:56:52.200 That is fine, but if I'm in a relationship, if I'm on vacation, I can't post a picture in a bikini or something because I'm in a relationship.
02:56:58.200 Nope.
02:56:58.400 I just feel like, why?
02:57:00.340 Because I said so.
02:57:01.740 Oh, so you make all the rules, basically, is what you're saying.
02:57:04.360 I am the dictator.
02:57:09.860 Yeah.
02:57:10.920 uh tiffany can you get water for if oh yeah if any of you need water maybe just like hold it up
02:57:16.760 and my assistant will get it for you guys okay i personally i i want to be more like onto like
02:57:22.480 social media like a content creator like influencer type situation that's like the end
02:57:27.620 goal hopefully um so i don't know if i'd i'd get rid of like certain things but i wouldn't
02:57:33.800 i don't know about maybe deleting my whole instagram i go private but like
02:57:39.140 that kind of defeats the whole purpose of trying to be an influencer especially like on tiktok and
02:57:44.240 stuff like yeah well the other reason you shouldn't date influencers is because they'll literally use
02:57:49.980 your relationship as content and like um so i don't know that's another issue that's why i'm 1.00
02:57:58.920 like highly averse to dating any women who are involved in social media because they'll just
02:58:05.960 use the breakup for content then again well of course it depends on the creator yeah like not
02:58:12.060 everyone i suppose but like like i'm a private i'm a private individual when it comes to my
02:58:18.320 relationships and uh relationships should not relationship issues should never be litigated
02:58:28.700 in the public sphere ever no exactly but literally like look i guess men can do this too
02:58:35.200 but women will literally be making tiktoks about guys they're actively dating and i'm like bro
02:58:43.740 how can you date a woman who's literally airing out everything like no no that is absolutely yeah
02:58:51.500 i agree that it definitely depends on like the person obviously well i'm i personally am not
02:58:57.360 one to go do that so i have seen that so i know exactly what you mean but beyond that like i don't
02:59:02.840 even I mean putting social media aside if you're in a relationship with somebody I don't even think
02:59:10.040 unless it's like really something insane I think it's really toxic when and men can do this too
02:59:16.800 but girls y'all talk with each other and I think it's toxic when in a relationship now look there's 0.71
02:59:24.600 on one hand I think it's fair to attempt to get advice from your girlfriend 1.00
02:59:28.360 you will a woman will poison the well with her entire friend group because she's constantly 1.00
02:59:35.820 complaining about her boyfriend my perspective i don't know if i'm old school this can be family 0.99
02:59:42.580 too you do not talk shit or just like dump about potential conflict to your family or friends 1.00
02:59:52.300 about your partner because yeah are you going to dump him right okay fucking dump him and then 1.00
02:59:58.940 fine but if you're going to keep dating the guy and you're just oh my god my boyfriend's fucking 1.00
03:00:03.580 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah yeah yeah i agree and then it's just poisoning the well and 0.99
03:00:08.540 then you're going to stay with them and then i'm going to be meeting your friends and your friends 0.99
03:00:11.180 fucking hate me yeah now i'm of course i'm a perfect gentleman and my girlfriend would never 0.98
03:00:16.320 think to say anything hypothetical yeah no i totally i totally would never think to ever say 0.99
03:00:20.540 anything negative but guys do that too ever so it goes both ways like like men shouldn't be talking 0.97
03:00:26.620 shit about their girlfriends to their guys suffer in silence men suffer in silence we don't really 0.96
03:00:31.400 laugh yeah i say no a lot of men like for example a lot of guys hold on let me y'all friends right 1.00
03:00:38.060 yeah yeah c'est bien ça et bien don't she's had some new experiences right
03:00:45.940 has she told you about the experiences as her friend i've witnessed them you you were in the 0.99
03:00:53.260 bedroom seeing it wait hold on that was just a joke but she might was this a threesome threesome 0.55
03:01:00.880 next question whoa what you lost your virginity in the threesome no no no no no no that would be 0.99
03:01:07.680 have you had a threesome i want to return you want what i want to answer wait have you had 0.98
03:01:14.280 a threesome though i won't answer i think that's a yes i guess that i guess yeah i guess we're 1.00
03:01:20.120 different though damn bro losing virginities and threesomes and all this shit no that's a no 0.99
03:01:26.220 okay all right more than the threesome no who hears show of hands who's that threesome 1.00
03:01:30.800 foursome gangbang bukkake i know no okay no i don't know you could have a non-okay
03:01:37.580 okay uh nobody else threesome three threesome when i was real young yeah so yeah yeah look i
03:01:47.420 haven't i have not had a threesome um no i you know the thing is uh i would
03:01:53.600 but like i'm not gonna go out of my way okay like it has to fall into my lap like it has to my
03:02:00.400 girlfriend has to be like do all the lifting she has to here's a threesome silver platter 0.98
03:02:06.440 otherwise i ain't doing that shit so you're saying it has to be her idea 1.00
03:02:09.980 pretty much it would have to be her idea she would have to do the leg work 0.99
03:02:14.320 or it could just like spontaneously fall into my lap but i'm not going to be like hey babe
03:02:19.520 let's organize a three no she i mean she can come to me with it but i okay generally speaking though
03:02:26.840 look i don't know well i'm happy with one girl any it's like i don't want to disappoint two
03:02:31.940 women at the same time i'd rather rather rather just disappoint one woman at the time you know
03:02:37.760 so it's like you know right what what if she wants a dude in there not a chick whoa no hold on 1.00
03:02:44.620 no absolute no when i hold on first off blasphemy oh god that's fucking that guy that's fucking 1.00
03:02:54.160 haram two dudes two dudes and a woman fucking haram no the only acceptable threesome muslim 0.99
03:03:02.220 no oh then why would you say right i mean it's arabic right or whatever i don't know 0.99
03:03:08.020 the only acceptable threesome is two women and one man it's not that fun though i don't know
03:03:16.500 i'd be pissed for you i guess yeah brought another girl i don't know have you been eiffel towered
03:03:21.020 I agree.
03:03:21.580 What's Eiffel Tower?
03:03:22.560 Two dudes.
03:03:23.800 Oh, no.
03:03:24.540 I wish, though.
03:03:25.200 That'd be so fun.
03:03:26.360 Can I pick?
03:03:28.960 I don't know.
03:03:29.660 No, honestly, I might start laughing.
03:03:31.280 Those type of situations. 0.98
03:03:32.600 If I see their dick touchy or something, or one guy's thigh touch another guy's thigh, 0.99
03:03:37.080 bro, I'm laughing. 0.99
03:03:37.940 I'll be like, did you like that?
03:03:39.180 That was weird.
03:03:41.220 So anyways.
03:03:43.600 When I'm with someone, I love them too much. 1.00
03:03:45.500 And I'll get pissed if he wants to bring in another girl.
03:03:48.220 Yeah, that's too territorial.
03:03:49.460 I'm not even
03:03:50.440 want to be
03:03:51.280 with another guy. 0.57
03:03:52.220 Wait, are you wearing a cross?
03:03:53.960 Hmm?
03:03:54.380 Is that a cross?
03:03:55.100 No, it's a star.
03:03:56.280 Oh, okay.
03:03:57.160 It looked like a cross.
03:03:58.400 I was about to go in. 0.83
03:03:59.180 That was ammo
03:04:00.740 right there.
03:04:01.400 Yeah, I was about to go in.
03:04:03.060 Wait, what were we
03:04:03.780 talking about?
03:04:04.460 We were talking about
03:04:04.880 three-somethings.
03:04:05.240 No, but before that,
03:04:06.360 before the three-something.
03:04:08.380 What were we talking about?
03:04:09.740 I think you guys
03:04:10.120 were talking about
03:04:10.520 telling the family's favorite.
03:04:12.600 Oh, yeah, yeah.
03:04:14.260 Thank you.
03:04:15.240 Okay, so
03:04:16.400 have you
03:04:17.620 shared intimate details about
03:04:19.820 your intimate experiences with
03:04:21.820 your friend, Chyna?
03:04:23.360 No. Chyna. Chyna. 0.80
03:04:25.480 Like the country. No. Where'd you get that name from? 1.00
03:04:27.220 That was also my name. Oh, you guys want to know
03:04:29.480 why my parents called me Chyna?
03:04:31.120 Because of the wrestler? No.
03:04:33.400 Because they made me in Chyna. 0.99
03:04:36.460 Oh. 1.00
03:04:37.240 Made in Chyna. 0.99
03:04:38.840 Made in Chyna. 0.99
03:04:41.080 Do you have a tattoo? Oh, she has a tattoo. 1.00
03:04:43.980 Oh my god, I have 0.91
03:04:46.300 made in Japan.
03:04:47.620 wait you have a bit of a hair strand pull it back like there's a hair covering it oh yeah 0.91
03:04:53.580 yeah right wow yep made in china wow that is that's actually cool i love that damn now i wish
03:05:02.100 my name was china well it was almost china you know they say though the things that are made in 0.97
03:05:10.540 china are typically low quality oh that was a nice brain no it's true like they no not the humans 0.78
03:05:17.260 No, I'm just saying, like, the product quality, like, for example, certain plastics or, like, metal that's produced in China, typically not the highest quality. 1.00
03:05:30.040 My mom is also half Chinese, so she was just randomly on that trip.
03:05:35.320 Wait, your mom's half Chinese?
03:05:36.720 Yeah, I'm a quarter Chinese.
03:05:37.760 Wait, so what's your breakdown?
03:05:39.080 I'm mostly indigenous, but I'm a quarter Chinese.
03:05:43.500 Wait, so you're 70?
03:05:45.320 You don't know what, like, Indian.
03:05:46.380 You're 75% indigenous
03:05:50.440 And 25% Chinese 1.00
03:05:52.600 You got some European 1.00
03:05:54.360 Your dad's white as fuck 1.00
03:05:57.940 What are you talking about 1.00
03:05:59.000 His dad was 100% indigenous
03:06:02.420 And his mother was half 0.93
03:06:03.840 Are you part of a tribe 0.60
03:06:05.140 I'm Algonquin
03:06:07.320 Fire
03:06:09.260 I love that for you
03:06:10.800 That's dope
03:06:11.940 I just figured out who you look like
03:06:14.400 I was trying to figure out this whole time
03:06:15.640 have you seen bring it on yeah yeah you know the the the coach the girl before they brought in
03:06:22.080 torrance oh big red oh yeah i was trying to figure it out the whole time yes yeah i was looking at
03:06:30.980 the thing and i was like yeah you would be big red if your hair was if her hair was brown you
03:06:35.080 bring it on yeah no she's great yeah i get uh georgina uh rodriguez the soccer player's wife
03:06:45.000 and like dua lipa that's the ones i usually do uh what the were your parents doing in china
03:06:51.000 uh my dad was uh coaching um like a chinese hockey league no this was like a training camp
03:06:58.040 camp oh and my mom came with and okay things happened okay i want my children made in the 0.95
03:07:08.560 united states i was waiting for some shit like that bro made in the usa made in the usa 0.98
03:07:15.600 very patriotic of you uh that's cool china's fire were you born in china no i was born in 0.99
03:07:22.880 vancouver vancouver my dad was playing for the canucks the canucks yeah why have i heard of that
03:07:29.180 how i met your mother yeah yeah what are some canadian things i could say poutine poutine
03:07:36.780 um sorry i'm sorry a boot a boot hey what's that about a boot all right i guess south park does
03:07:49.800 a Canada a lot of
03:07:52.000 A's
03:07:52.780 and you guys are like eat donuts and like are happy
03:07:56.080 all the time right oh the talking
03:07:57.700 the talking yeah I think that 1.00
03:07:59.700 I don't know y'all women
03:08:01.740 y'all share more with each other 1.00
03:08:03.860 yeah when it comes to intimate detail
03:08:05.820 no not all women maybe not all
03:08:07.820 groups of friends or whatever
03:08:09.580 but like I do think there is this idea
03:08:11.900 like I don't know some I've
03:08:13.320 overheard some of y'all conversations
03:08:15.520 I've done research I
03:08:17.780 undercover like you know
03:08:19.700 i'm just i'm just in the bushes and i've heard y'all's con private conversations like i'm an 0.71
03:08:26.220 anthropologist sociologist in the field uh i got khakis on and all that shit and i hear over here 0.98
03:08:33.220 y'all talking man you guys share some details like sex details y'all talk about sex like crazy 0.99
03:08:39.520 like y'all be talking about dick sizes and where he nut and what it tastes like what you did and 0.99
03:08:47.000 it was like the viscosity and like the fucking the the the what no not this what's the word 1.00
03:08:53.340 girth the the the i forgot the fucking word for it but y'all be talking about crazy shit 0.99
03:09:01.540 if i sleep with a woman and my my buddy asked me oh man how'd it go last night you were you 1.00
03:09:07.660 were hanging out with uh becky i'll be like it was good bullshit that's that's it what if it wasn't 0.99
03:09:15.860 That's it. 0.94
03:09:16.560 No, it's, okay, fine.
03:09:17.600 It's boring, but it's showing respect for Becky because I'm not just airing out, oh, 1.00
03:09:23.300 yeah, she, her pussy lips were perfect. 1.00
03:09:25.480 They were so fucking big. 1.00
03:09:27.020 Pussy lips, huge. 1.00
03:09:28.060 Big labia matter. 1.00
03:09:29.100 Giant pussy lips, the biggest pussy lips ever. 1.00
03:09:31.260 No, I keep that shit a secret because you never know. 1.00
03:09:34.620 Look, I got good friends, right? 1.00
03:09:37.200 But maybe, who knows?
03:09:38.120 Maybe they got a thing too and they're trying to roll up and snatch. 0.97
03:09:41.480 Big labia matter. 1.00
03:09:42.500 Pull that shit up. 1.00
03:09:43.640 Big labia matter, son. 1.00
03:09:45.120 i'm just saying i gotta keep that shit under wraps i can't be telling my male friends 1.00
03:09:49.080 she's got a giant like a giant pussy lips you know i can't be saying that 1.00
03:09:53.500 i gotta keep that shit under wraps for me okay good talk yeah i feel like i've never like said 1.00
03:10:00.040 oh this guy like i thought this guy he has a really big dick and my friend was like you know 0.99
03:10:04.580 what let me like try to slide in there that's a shitty brand yeah yeah i don't think i've ever 0.99
03:10:08.620 had to do i know what happens but i don't think i've ever had to deal with that i think like my
03:10:12.400 friends are just like oh what happened like was it good we're just curious yeah he's talking about
03:10:16.080 it wait hold on i'm sure in the history of women sharing details about men a woman has been like 0.99
03:10:22.060 holy shit he was the most amazing sex ever blah blah blah uh somewhere in the female brain i feel 0.96
03:10:27.460 like that triggers a curiosity if you have like a best friend maybe you're sharing all the details 0.99
03:10:34.080 best friends do each other dirty sometimes i'm just saying they're not your friend right
03:10:38.820 Best friends. 0.75
03:10:39.620 Hey, males will do it, too.
03:10:40.580 Sometimes the men. 1.00
03:10:42.320 Men pillow talk more than bitches. 1.00
03:10:43.900 No, no, no. 1.00
03:10:44.480 I used to have a lot of male friends, and they talked very dirty all the time.
03:10:50.240 Yeah.
03:10:50.840 Well, this is perhaps a class thing as a sophisticated.
03:10:55.820 Oh, right.
03:10:56.940 Oh, I forgot.
03:10:58.580 Sophisticated ex-gamer.
03:10:59.940 Yeah, I would say.
03:11:00.780 The catch.
03:11:01.360 The loot.
03:11:02.180 As a sophisticated.
03:11:03.740 Sophisticated.
03:11:04.500 The sophisticated.
03:11:05.580 Sophisticated man, I never talk about my sexual conquests ever.
03:11:10.380 No, seriously, jokes aside, I actually don't.
03:11:13.880 I would never.
03:11:15.100 They don't even know if we hooked up.
03:11:16.700 They don't know if we've had sex.
03:11:18.740 I'd literally, hey, Brian, how'd it go?
03:11:21.920 It was good.
03:11:22.560 We had a good time.
03:11:23.380 That's it.
03:11:24.280 You don't be like, I smashed?
03:11:26.040 No.
03:11:26.960 So if you had the best sex of your life, you wouldn't want to tell someone? 0.99
03:11:29.620 You're not going to tell your homie? 1.00
03:11:30.060 Like, if that was the best performance you've ever had, you wouldn't want to be like, let me tell my friend. 1.00
03:11:35.080 Well, you could tell your girl that was the best sex.
03:11:37.180 No, well, here's the thing with that. 0.87
03:11:38.760 Even if it is the best sex, you should not tell the girl the sex was really good.
03:11:43.000 Now, here's why.
03:11:44.180 This is going to be toxic.
03:11:45.500 I'm going to put you on some game, though.
03:11:46.720 I don't get it. 1.00
03:11:48.180 If the girl is really fucking good in bed, you can't boost her ego like that. 1.00
03:11:52.980 Stop. 1.00
03:11:53.760 Now, look, look. 1.00
03:11:54.540 Two years down, when she's locked in, then you can boost her ego.
03:11:59.280 Then you can tell her.
03:12:00.800 But, like, right away, you've got to pump the brakes a little bit. 0.99
03:12:03.100 you got to like make her keep her on edge a little bit make her think the the oral sex game 1.00
03:12:10.260 you know you can't be letting on too soon that the sex is too bomb because then she thinks 0.99
03:12:16.680 there's this old eddie murphy joke very old this is some boomer shit he had this comedy special 0.98
03:12:23.820 called i think it was raw i think it was from raw yes it was no what's his other one there's raw 0.78
03:12:28.780 and then there's wait chat his like his specials from the 80s there's raw and then there's like 0.81
03:12:35.460 starts with an i infamous or wait fuck delirious wait delir is it delirious delirious it was from 0.93
03:12:44.640 raw so once a man makes a hold on let me start over okay i'm not gonna do the bit no but so 0.97
03:12:55.320 once and i'm gonna butcher his joke and we can't play it because copyright he says we know we've
03:13:02.820 got the woman once we've made her come real good like when she i don't even want to do it because 0.98
03:13:10.340 it's cringe as fuck it's like if you make a woman go if you make a woman if you make a woman go like 1.00
03:13:17.500 that you're in the pillow like i got this motherfucking that like that's you got that girl 1.00
03:13:23.680 but so as a man you can't let a girl know too soon that the otherwise that the pussy is bomb 1.00
03:13:31.140 you can't not too soon you can't let let it on too soon you can't let on that the sex is too good 0.99
03:13:37.840 she's gonna get too confident confident you know yeah because you can't fake like like i don't fake
03:13:43.180 an orgasm i'm just saying you can't you can't let if he's not doing it for me i'm not gonna let him
03:13:48.260 Because then she's like 0.99
03:13:52.780 She's going to start slacking 1.00
03:13:54.040 She's going to start slacking 1.00
03:13:56.020 If she's like I got this 1.00
03:13:58.180 Fucking that like if you're too 1.00
03:13:59.740 If you're pussy whipped 1.00
03:14:00.660 If she thinks you're pussy whipped 1.00
03:14:03.420 You can't let it on too soon 1.00
03:14:06.260 I so disagree with that
03:14:07.500 Just saying
03:14:08.980 You gotta get better
03:14:11.380 Yeah
03:14:12.800 No because look 1.00
03:14:14.260 You don't also like let's say she gives good head
03:14:17.680 let's say she gives you a plus head first time yeah you gotta tell her b minus now here's why 0.78
03:14:26.020 here's why always room for improvement if you just tell her out the gate maybe she was holding 1.00
03:14:31.920 back too maybe she's on some super saiyan shit where the head it's like she but she's gonna stop 0.98
03:14:37.780 there you gotta get to b minus and then she'll try harder next time interesting yeah that's so 0.99
03:14:43.980 My grand plie was an A+.
03:14:45.540 What's that?
03:14:46.380 My grand plie was an A+.
03:14:49.140 Her plie.
03:14:50.880 No, I was being honest. 1.00
03:14:52.700 That shit was a B-. 1.00
03:14:54.240 That shit was still a B-. 1.00
03:14:56.760 Still a B-. 1.00
03:14:58.000 I'm just saying.
03:14:59.440 I'm just saying.
03:15:01.260 Look, you can't let... 1.00
03:15:03.500 Now, I think the woman should simp, though, right away. 1.00
03:15:06.040 Oh, God. 1.00
03:15:06.700 The woman needs to be... 1.00
03:15:08.120 The woman needs to be confessing her love to you within two weeks. 1.00
03:15:12.520 that's what the woman should be doing 1.00
03:15:14.880 men run away at that 1.00
03:15:16.100 the woman needs to be 0.99
03:15:17.380 look I think there's a right 1.00
03:15:20.440 well if the man runs away he wasn't that
03:15:23.020 into you but
03:15:24.120 not in like a stalker 1.00
03:15:26.900 I'm going to murder you sort of way 0.97
03:15:28.600 like not in that way you shouldn't be like 1.00
03:15:31.080 not wide eyed
03:15:34.020 but you got to tell the guy
03:15:36.040 like but I mean look obviously it's better
03:15:39.000 it should be true okay
03:15:40.820 It's got to be true. 1.00
03:15:41.980 Don't fake the shit. 1.00
03:15:43.580 Yeah. 1.00
03:15:44.280 But don't hold.
03:15:44.880 What I'm saying is if you do really feel that strongly about the guy, don't hold back. 0.99
03:15:49.020 If you really feel strongly about the guy, even early on, you got to say that shit right away. 0.99
03:15:54.520 No. 1.00
03:15:54.880 We need a girl. 1.00
03:15:55.960 Men need a woman obsessed. 0.99
03:15:57.300 But should men? 1.00
03:15:58.260 Should men if they feel it?
03:15:59.640 Yeah.
03:16:00.280 Nope.
03:16:00.920 Not always.
03:16:02.260 That is the recipe to, nope, you cannot let a girl too early know how much, if you're too into a girl,
03:16:08.980 you gotta basically uh no why though just now can you explain to me why though like because
03:16:16.700 women do not okay hold on how do i want to frame this
03:16:22.760 women are inundated with sins women are inundated with male validation male attention inundated 0.91
03:16:35.740 And so I don't think women will respect that. 1.00
03:16:44.200 I agree, actually. 1.00
03:16:45.340 If the guy – look, because I think the best relationship dynamic, the girl has to be more into you than you're into the girl. 0.93
03:16:54.100 Oh, my God. 0.60
03:16:54.700 No.
03:16:55.620 I agree with what you first said, but the second part, no.
03:16:58.780 I think it should be even.
03:17:00.040 Yeah, even.
03:17:01.740 Well –
03:17:02.140 Like in love and, you know, any relationship.
03:17:04.480 Okay, sure.
03:17:04.860 I'm willing to grant that.
03:17:06.740 However, I think oftentimes there's an unequal interest level usually.
03:17:15.300 Most of the time there's one person who's more into the other.
03:17:19.160 Now, I'm not saying you can still really be into the person or be into the person.
03:17:24.980 Maybe not really.
03:17:26.280 But the other person is more into you than the reverse. 1.00
03:17:29.660 And it needs to be the woman. 0.99
03:17:31.820 It needs to be the woman. 1.00
03:17:32.700 because it's a bad 1.00
03:17:34.780 our mothers teach us the opposite
03:17:36.060 it's a bad recipe 1.00
03:17:38.400 I think it's a bad recipe for men 1.00
03:17:40.200 to be too much
03:17:42.540 onto the girl I think
03:17:44.440 I don't know
03:17:44.920 then it's like validating to us
03:17:47.060 if we express it
03:17:48.680 yeah but you guys already get validation
03:17:50.760 we don't want it from other
03:17:52.740 we don't want it from other men
03:17:56.780 come on Brian 0.96
03:17:57.540 or most girls who want to 0.97
03:18:00.060 be in an actual legit relationship 0.98
03:18:02.360 and not just, like, fucking attention-seeking, you know what I mean? 0.99
03:18:05.920 Right. 0.99
03:18:06.200 Like, if I'm going to be with a man, like, it's got to be reciprocated.
03:18:11.420 Look, sometimes there can be a genuine, like, equally, like, equal level of interest,
03:18:19.980 but I don't know.
03:18:23.920 I don't think it works out that well if the man is too into the girl.
03:18:27.860 Like, it's just...
03:18:28.700 Okay, when you said that, I agree a little bit because, like, look,
03:18:31.420 if a man comes off hella strong on me like oh my god I'm in love with you I'm like ew right right
03:18:36.280 so I do I do value like the the chase a little bit you know what I mean like oh okay like he's
03:18:42.080 not super into me because you are right like men do that all day right to me so I guess it is a
03:18:46.680 little bit different when the guy is like yeah like you know less that way then I'm like okay
03:18:51.340 cool you know I mean but yeah I agree with that but the other part you said no not really I thought
03:18:55.840 it's considered thirsty if a girl is like shows she's too into a guy and then so that's my
03:19:03.360 approach in dating i just don't show anything i look there's obviously different men out there
03:19:10.560 my personal perspective is i like a woman who's up front it doesn't mean she needs to be
03:19:18.080 uh i i still want to be in the lead but there's ways in a feminine way for a woman to be 0.77
03:19:24.540 demonstrate her interest in you and frankly I I do think it's feminine if a woman's just 1.00
03:19:30.040 fucking simping all over you like that's not masculine for a woman to be like oohing and 0.98
03:19:36.660 gushing all over you you see that dynamic though like if a woman's dealing with a guy who's just 0.99
03:19:42.640 like frankly way above her league like you might see that uh with a celebrity basically like these 0.98
03:19:49.340 women are fucking gushing over uh fucking who knows jesse brown or whatever like are they 1.00
03:19:55.240 lacking in femininity and they're like fucking gushing over him i don't think so i don't think 1.00
03:19:59.580 that that's like somehow masculine uh but there's something like if uh fuck what's if oh man there's 0.99
03:20:07.620 this great saying maybe somebody in the chat it's not coming to me somebody in the chat help me 0.96
03:20:11.880 uh if you it's something along the lines like this somebody can correct me if you put her on
03:20:18.360 a pedestal she'll treat you like a fan wait what what is it if you treat her like a what is what
03:20:25.360 is that saying somebody in the chat knows what i'm talking about like she'll treat blank blank
03:20:29.980 blank she'll treat you like a fan chat hello help me out chat help a brother out 1.00
03:20:38.700 I think that was the pussy on a pedestal 1.00
03:20:40.740 Wasn't that a song 1.00
03:20:42.160 That's Kendrick Lamar
03:20:43.480 I'm like what are you talking about
03:20:46.140 I can't even think I'm like hot
03:20:48.220 If you treat her like a star 0.99
03:20:51.380 She'll treat you like a fan
03:20:53.380 Well
03:20:55.720 Can I have water
03:20:56.980 Am I wrong to say 1.00
03:21:00.420 Like when a woman is single 0.99
03:21:03.060 And men are
03:21:04.720 You know actively swiping up
03:21:06.580 Or giving us compliments
03:21:07.580 it's like good to feel validated but when there's that one guy that you're really trying to take
03:21:12.860 interest in if he's not taking similar interests you're like okay well i have all these other
03:21:18.460 options why am i going to chase after this one person that's not giving me the same amount of
03:21:23.620 attention that i'm giving him like am i wrong to say that as to why i feel like the woman shouldn't
03:21:29.400 be simping more than the man like it should just be equal i think on the other way around if a guy
03:21:37.920 had like interest in five different girls four are like on their knees like oh my god like obsessed
03:21:47.020 with that with him and there's one that's like yeah you're cool but like that's usually the one
03:21:51.940 i think he's gonna be drawn to that like fifth girl that's that's usually what i want but what
03:21:56.920 I'm saying is like if if I know that like open the door please go ahead continue oh if I if I
03:22:04.880 know that someone out there is going to give me the attention that I'm looking for but this one
03:22:10.600 guy that is claiming they're interested in me and that wants to pursue me is not giving me the
03:22:15.800 attention or the interest that I feel like I deserve why would I keep letting him you know
03:22:21.180 what i mean like keep me dangling you know because to me if you're not giving me that interest you're
03:22:26.820 just keeping me down like that's not fair no now you shouldn't you shouldn't be you should as the
03:22:33.320 guy if she's interested in you that should be reciprocated um you shouldn't be playing some
03:22:40.020 like hot or cold game you shouldn't be playing around with her emotions you can still demonstrate 0.95
03:22:45.620 that you're interested in the woman without it devolving to you being a sucker simp i guess 1.00
03:22:51.660 that's what i'm trying to get at okay like i think women can do a thing where they're gushing over a 1.00
03:22:56.800 man but if a man is like gushing over you and he's like oh my god i really like you oh my god 1.00
03:23:02.840 like that's uh that's no like the man has to be like yeah you're hot
03:23:08.620 but it can't be this like the man can't have like this sort of a not obsessive but he can't like
03:23:17.400 yearn i don't think the man needs to be shouldn't yearn for you like he should find you attractive
03:23:23.480 he can even tell you that but it needs to be from this place where it's not like
03:23:29.160 if he loses you it shouldn't matter okay but why do so many women fall for the love bombing then 0.99
03:23:37.340 because it feels good well so the love bombing thing i think is women want not all the time but
03:23:45.840 women want relationships so if a woman and by the way this is a criticism i have of men
03:23:52.120 if the woman wants a relationship it the love bombing is essentially this guy is sort of
03:24:00.820 misrepresenting his long-term intentions for the woman and it might be like oh my god i'm so into
03:24:05.560 you i i love you i mean love bombing um and uh so i i would say that that's wrong is it though 0.86
03:24:20.280 to love bomb well so no no i mean i agree that it's wrong but women fall for it so i think 0.99
03:24:27.800 I don't think there's 1.00
03:24:30.360 as many women 1.00
03:24:31.920 well guys that fall for 1.00
03:24:33.760 can I go grab something for my car
03:24:36.140 what can I
03:24:38.040 just what is it or
03:24:39.080 do you need like a
03:24:43.180 no I need a change
03:24:44.880 change
03:24:46.060 change like are you cold
03:24:49.580 no I'm hot
03:24:51.020 you ain't wearing nothing 1.00
03:24:53.680 what the fuck are you talking about 0.99
03:24:54.860 Well, yeah, we're going to crack open the doors a bit more. 1.00
03:25:00.240 Crack open the doors a bit more.
03:25:02.860 What's that?
03:25:03.640 I think 10 minutes.
03:25:05.140 Whoa, you said 10.
03:25:06.160 What are you talking about?
03:25:07.280 10 minutes to run to my car.
03:25:09.460 Oh, I thought you said you're leaving.
03:25:11.120 No, I don't want to run my car away.
03:25:12.900 I mean, we really can't.
03:25:16.360 Is it?
03:25:16.980 What are you getting?
03:25:17.980 Clothes?
03:25:18.520 But it's.
03:25:19.940 What? 0.98
03:25:20.300 Girl stuff. 0.93
03:25:21.200 Yeah, like relax, bro.
03:25:22.600 Or online.
03:25:23.260 No, but you said you need to get clothes
03:25:26.160 Change
03:25:28.460 Change
03:25:29.180 Cause it's too
03:25:31.380 Cold
03:25:32.960 Oh
03:25:35.460 Oh
03:25:37.460 There you go, Brian
03:25:39.540 Come on, Brian
03:25:41.140 We talked about this earlier
03:25:42.440 Her brown turned a different color 0.98
03:25:45.780 What? 1.00
03:25:47.780 What?
03:25:48.900 What?
03:25:49.460 What does that even mean?
03:25:51.100 Aunt Rose is visiting 1.00
03:25:52.320 Motherfucker 1.00
03:25:53.200 Aunt Flo. Motherfucker. 1.00
03:25:54.620 Rose. She's visiting. 1.00
03:25:57.000 I like Rose.
03:25:58.700 Why would you need 10?
03:26:00.100 Okay, wait a minute.
03:26:02.960 So you're leaving then?
03:26:04.940 No, no. She's coming with me.
03:26:07.020 Okay, go ahead. Lock behind you.
03:26:10.360 Go ahead.
03:26:11.300 Okay.
03:26:12.740 I'm trying to remember where we were at.
03:26:14.600 I forgot.
03:26:16.540 I just said that I think 1.00
03:26:17.960 girls fall 1.00
03:26:19.620 for love bombing 0.99
03:26:22.020 more than guys do. 1.00
03:26:23.200 is women's fault well yeah okay so you wait your question was why like if a girl love bombs a guy 1.00
03:26:33.320 i think guys are a little bit more avoidance so they'll be like yeah whereas right a guy that
03:26:38.440 loves bombs a girl they'll be more into it well i think here's my idea here so if the guy really
03:26:43.600 likes the girl it can go one of both ways either yes it can work for him because he really likes
03:26:49.880 her he's already like determined that he'd she's attractive and he'd want a relationship with her
03:26:57.340 sometimes it can be like too intense where it's like whoa stalker vibes yeah but if he otherwise
03:27:03.960 it depends the degree of the love bombing right but like you gotta understand a lot of guys 0.98
03:27:09.700 deal with you for pussy and that's all they want so when you're love bombing 0.99
03:27:15.400 they don't want a relationship with you they just want pussy so that's why love bombing is going to 1.00
03:27:20.880 be off-putting uh to certain men you're dealing with because they don't want anything else besides 1.00
03:27:26.260 sex they just want a casual sexual relationship hey sometimes women want casual sexual relationships 1.00
03:27:31.680 but i would say there's a difference here so for a guy to fuck y'all for a guy to have sex with you 1.00
03:27:37.840 guys you could okay i here's my perspective in order for a man to have sex with a woman 1.00
03:27:47.220 well hold on let me flip that in order for a woman to have sex with a man he his baseline 0.98
03:27:56.540 in terms of looks he's at least attractive enough to be in a relationship with 0.99
03:28:02.740 like if you're gonna fuck a guy baseline he's at least good looking enough you would like boyfriend 0.98
03:28:11.300 you would be in a relationship with him oftentimes it's like for example let's say a girl only wants 0.99
03:28:17.800 a relationship but she's like either meets a guy who's really attractive or i don't know she's just 0.99
03:28:24.960 looking for a hookup she's not just gonna a girl who's just trying to get some dick like a girl 1.00
03:28:32.420 who's just trying to get laid she's not gonna go because dick is easy dick is abundant she's not 1.00
03:28:39.200 just gonna go to like the easiest option which can which would technically i suppose be the 1.00
03:28:45.180 a less attractive guy or the first guy when a girl's just trying to get some dick 0.99
03:28:51.480 she goes in the opposite direction she's like well if i'm just gonna fuck i'm gonna make sure 1.00
03:28:57.460 the guy's really attractive physically generally speaking yep so women work in like this sort of 1.00
03:29:03.360 opposite way that men work so like if say you're a woman who primarily wants a relationship 1.00
03:29:08.360 but it's a celebrity and he's really good looking i'll fuck him i'll fuck him 1.00
03:29:14.500 and maybe that's all you get right you'll break your rule if the guy's hot enough men if we're 1.00
03:29:22.040 just trying to get some pussy but we don't we don't want the relationship we'll fuck a girl 1.00
03:29:27.260 that just on her looks alone we would never be in a relationship with her like we will have sex 1.00
03:29:34.080 with women that she could be fucking amazing personality the other things we care about 1.00
03:29:41.600 but we would never date her because she's fat or because she her face is not attractive 1.00
03:29:47.360 but we'll fuck her women don't do that women typically don't do that like well so in other 1.00
03:29:56.420 words we will fuck women we're not even all that attracted to physically like just to get some 1.00
03:30:03.880 pussy and so but for y'all women just to repeat the point for you to have sex with a guy across 1.00
03:30:12.100 the line whether it's relationship or just a casual thing he has to be at well i guess it's 0.99
03:30:19.080 just for casual to have sex with a guy as a woman he has to be at least attractive enough you would
03:30:25.380 date the guy be in a relationship with him personally not me so just to be clear for you 1.00
03:30:30.880 when it comes to casual sex you fuck ugly dudes but then necessarily ugly but it just i like 0.99
03:30:39.660 it can work for that but like i would probably probably be a little ashamed to be like hey this 0.99
03:30:46.300 is my man you know like it can be attractive for whatever's going on but like sometimes it might be
03:30:52.440 a little bit of a height thing or just uh personality or something no but it's i don't
03:31:00.360 know it's just like they're fine but if he's my man i'm like nah i wouldn't see that see i feel
03:31:06.980 like i'm the opposite like if i'm gonna if i'm gonna have sex with you this is someone that i
03:31:11.380 would i see myself being with at least to some extent like i'm not going to just have sex with 0.82
03:31:17.200 someone to just have sex with someone because at that point what's the point i can just wait for
03:31:21.160 the person that i'm attracted to whether you think he's ugly like i don't i've dated plenty 0.98
03:31:26.300 of guys and my friends are like bro this guy is hideous i'm like okay to you it's not them you
03:31:30.540 know right so but i just feel like i'm not going to get into bed with someone that like i'm not
03:31:35.580 remotely at least attracted to in terms of bringing them around other people because then
03:31:40.500 it's like yeah i think it's maybe like right in the beginning i'm like sure and then i get to know
03:31:45.980 then i'm like yeah well that's different that's different like people's personalities are ugly
03:31:49.660 but like i mean i just feel like if you're gonna lay in bed with someone that you're not
03:31:53.780 you know like confident enough to even show someone a picture it's like are you really
03:31:59.380 doing it to that extent but it's just like sometimes you get to know them and you're like
03:32:03.800 yeah no right yeah person people's personality sucks all the time but like looks wise yeah 1.00
03:32:07.940 Now, look, sometimes women do charity, you know, every once in a while. 0.98
03:32:13.080 But as a general principle, like, again, men, they'll have sex with women that, like, they've already, I don't care, like, what else there is about you, they've already, men will put you in a category. 0.97
03:32:35.200 there's and it can be just off the basis of looks there's like i'll have sex with her 1.00
03:32:43.620 but i would never long-term date her because of her looks okay but pussy is a bit like pizza 1.00
03:32:53.180 it's hard to fuck up pizza you know like most pizza is good pizza like it's there's good there's 1.00
03:33:04.460 better pizza there's worse pizza but it's still fucking i mean it's really hard to fuck pizza up 1.00
03:33:09.680 so most pussy is good pussy not all dick is good dick let me tell you that much not all dick is 1.00
03:33:15.940 good so have you tried have i tried dick no how do you know that but he knows i mean i bro well 1.00
03:33:24.940 i mean for example women uh frequent complaint from women is that they don't orgasm during sex 1.00
03:33:31.460 And so when I say dick 1.00
03:33:32.940 I'm not necessarily 0.99
03:33:35.280 It's not necessarily literally the dick 0.99
03:33:37.780 It's like his skills in the bedroom 0.99
03:33:40.300 His ability
03:33:41.320 Like his abilities in the bedroom
03:33:43.060 So you just have to work it then
03:33:45.180 If you don't know how
03:33:46.600 But it's like 1.00
03:33:47.780 For women to be bad in bed 1.00
03:33:50.680 You have to go out of your way 1.00
03:33:52.580 To like be bad in bed
03:33:55.100 You have to try to be bad in bed 0.94
03:33:57.940 Like sex is
03:33:59.680 And this is a physiological thing.
03:34:03.540 Like, to be good in bed as a man, that takes a bit more skill.
03:34:08.480 That takes a bit more work.
03:34:09.780 That's a bit more rare.
03:34:11.120 But, like, for example, I could meet a virgin.
03:34:17.140 And I, at least from my perspective, I mean, I like to think I'm just to be humbled.
03:34:25.120 I'm not bad, you know.
03:34:26.160 I'm not bad.
03:34:26.780 I'm not bad. 0.99
03:34:27.240 And I like to think I could have great sex with a virgin 0.99
03:34:30.560 Like at least I would enjoy it 1.00
03:34:32.780 Again who knows
03:34:33.760 Hey look
03:34:34.760 Sometimes
03:34:36.760 It's like a puzzle piece
03:34:39.300 Sometimes you don't always fit together
03:34:40.740 You know what I'm saying
03:34:41.620 Like I don't know 1.00
03:34:45.000 These chicks that want to be choked and shit 1.00
03:34:46.640 Like too much rough sex 1.00
03:34:49.060 I don't know 0.99
03:34:49.540 Can we just take it slow a little bit
03:34:51.720 They're like deeper 1.00
03:34:53.180 I'm like there's no more dick 0.99
03:34:55.700 Sorry 1.00
03:34:56.000 i'm at the end of i've given all the dick i she's deeper brian i'm sorry there's no more dick 1.00
03:35:02.500 i don't have any more dick what do you want me to do i can't go there's no more dick together 1.00
03:35:07.800 i wonder if they're just saying that like because they hear it like on pornography or like i don't 1.00
03:35:13.360 like harder either if they tell me to go harder i'm like are you shaming women i got a bad sex 0.87
03:35:18.700 i got a bad back am i shaming no well i sort of yes i am i don't know some of y'all women 0.84
03:35:25.300 Like for example 0.93
03:35:27.220 Violent porn 1.00
03:35:29.120 That's actually women who be 1.00
03:35:32.600 It's women who are consuming 1.00
03:35:34.220 The violent porn and shit 1.00
03:35:36.220 So I do think there's an aspect of female sexuality 1.00
03:35:39.420 That I don't know
03:35:40.880 I don't know when it changed
03:35:43.100 Like something happened 20 years ago
03:35:45.780 All the women got together
03:35:46.840 And were like 1.00
03:35:48.460 Want to be choked 0.99
03:35:51.080 What the fuck happened 0.99
03:35:52.540 Something 20 years ago 1.00
03:35:54.160 They just all of a sudden wanted to be choked or something. 1.00
03:35:57.360 What the fuck? 1.00
03:35:58.860 I don't want to choke a bitch. 1.00
03:36:01.860 I don't want to. 1.00
03:36:04.000 If she asks nicely, I might, you know, I'll do a limp-wristed choke.
03:36:08.640 Like gently. 1.00
03:36:09.780 Might do a little hand on the neck for novelty.
03:36:14.400 But I don't know.
03:36:15.560 What happened?
03:36:16.180 What happened 20 years ago?
03:36:17.400 They just all want to be choked all of a sudden.
03:36:19.720 Choke me, daddy. 1.00
03:36:20.580 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
03:36:21.520 i am not catching a case i am not killing a woman i ain't trying to kill a woman for her 1.00
03:36:30.060 sexual gratification okay here how about this i'll spill some tea one thing i'll spill some 0.99
03:36:36.780 fucking tea maybe you guys are gonna laugh at me i actually i can't believe i'm fucking saying this 1.00
03:36:41.880 but why not i actually don't like rough sex all that much now look i can fucking you can pull her 1.00
03:36:48.200 hair spank her a little bit talking her ear whatever but when i say rough sex i don't like 1.00
03:36:53.380 i don't like i don't like that shit like what the jackhammer get the fuck get out of here with that 1.00
03:37:02.020 how about like gentle a little more gentle you know so cute sensual a little more gentle sex i 1.00
03:37:08.520 don't know i'm not trying like it doesn't even feel good like the jackhammer like i want 0.84
03:37:13.780 actually I'm not going to get too detailed but like
03:37:17.020 slow and steady wins the race
03:37:19.020 I feel like also I have a bad back
03:37:20.600 sometimes it is the case I will say
03:37:22.600 it doesn't feel like
03:37:24.380 it dulls the sensation 1.00
03:37:26.500 if she just be throwing it back all fucking crazy 0.99
03:37:29.000 or like you're just jack 0.99
03:37:30.260 it doesn't let me feel every fucking 0.99
03:37:32.960 centimeter 0.96
03:37:33.640 okay anyways
03:37:34.880 Brian how old are you 0.98
03:37:37.180 she's fucking good 1.00
03:37:38.000 she's gonna hire me as a prostitute 1.00
03:37:41.760 So he's going to be like, this is a new experience. 0.97
03:37:44.720 Do you have any cash on you, by the way?
03:37:47.200 Wow.
03:37:47.640 Do you carry cash?
03:37:48.960 No, I don't. 0.61
03:37:49.980 I'm not soliciting you for sex.
03:37:53.200 As the, I'm not soliciting.
03:37:55.900 Okay.
03:37:56.260 I am saying, though, if you do have any cash and if you just want to give it to me just because, I'll take it.
03:38:01.780 I'm so confused right now.
03:38:02.940 Do you have cash on you?
03:38:03.820 This is going above my head.
03:38:04.480 No, do you, okay, here, I'll make it super.
03:38:05.920 I have $40.
03:38:06.900 Can you go get it and give it to me?
03:38:08.340 Why?
03:38:08.720 Well, here's why.
03:38:09.440 I'm so confused. 1.00
03:38:10.340 Because I feel like women, not even just sex workers, women have the experience of men just give you guys shit, kind of. 1.00
03:38:19.220 Yep. 0.99
03:38:20.060 Men will just like, and it might not even be a guy who you're dating.
03:38:24.440 Like, I've heard, look, I'm sure it maybe doesn't happen all the time.
03:38:27.800 Maybe if you're really hot, it happens more often. 0.98
03:38:30.400 But, like, women will be like, oh, I was at the gas station the other day and this guy just filled up my tank for me. 1.00
03:38:37.580 It's an art, Brian. 1.00
03:38:38.840 Motherfucker. 1.00
03:38:39.340 He doesn't get it. 1.00
03:38:42.060 I want to do
03:38:44.280 a role reversal. So you're a sex worker. 1.00
03:38:46.380 You kind of do OnlyFans. Maybe y'all 0.99
03:38:48.300 women have had sugar daddies. 1.00
03:38:50.080 Sugar daddies? No. Sugar daddy? 1.00
03:38:52.080 Come on. Maybe went on a date
03:38:54.220 or two. Sugar daddy. And it's like men just
03:38:56.120 even guys you're dating 0.99
03:38:58.380 and shit, men will just give you 0.99
03:39:00.200 stuff. So I want 1.00
03:39:01.940 as a novelty thing
03:39:04.060 as a novelty thing, like just one
03:39:06.120 time to give you guys
03:39:08.040 an opportunity because i'm a nice guy oh i did this if if you guys want to like do a reverse
03:39:14.580 simp so you if you have any cash on you i'll take canadian dollars um well yeah if you guys have any
03:39:23.560 cash maybe just give it to me but we're not simping over you at all no but not i know you 0.99
03:39:30.040 guys aren't i know you guys don't want to have sex with me after the trip was here was too expensive
03:39:35.320 but it's right but i'm saying if you guys just as a novelty like tea tea i can't find some bucks 0.64
03:39:43.740 on the podcast you know if like a like a oh that was funny like i gave him money on the show like
03:39:50.840 how is that funny that to men in our life women are not simping to the same degree that men are
03:39:57.460 simping. I flew out
03:39:59.820 here for the show.
03:40:01.040 Why are you trying to fly? 1.00
03:40:03.440 See, she's not.
03:40:05.440 Yeah, you came to be on the show.
03:40:08.060 Would you say yes if she
03:40:09.640 was?
03:40:11.660 I don't know. Do you have a big labia? 0.99
03:40:14.620 I only 1.00
03:40:15.300 date women with large labias. 1.00
03:40:18.500 It's 100% serious. 1.00
03:40:20.360 Now look.
03:40:21.860 I've never measured.
03:40:23.140 I say it in a humorous
03:40:25.740 way, but
03:40:27.100 is it a preference is it a legitimate preference a hundred percent okay a hundred percent now look
03:40:34.620 it's not a deal breaker if she's gotten any but she's gonna you know like for example a short guy
03:40:39.440 right any like women will like if he's rich you know she he's short but he's rich and he's got
03:40:46.780 lethal face card like she'll date a short guy oh but for me if she's got in any labia like she's
03:40:54.340 gotta make up for it and i'll if the bigger the bigger the labia she gets passes wow if she's got 1.00
03:41:01.620 a giant labia like i'll let something slide oh damn oh like sexually or like relationship 1.00
03:41:07.440 Did you get contact info or no? 0.99
03:41:29.660 Okay, so I have to be looking at the fucking Instagram for, I mean, maybe you can pull up the messages. 0.94
03:41:34.400 Okay, that's fine. 0.95
03:41:36.260 Do you know how to pull up the messages, Nathan?
03:41:39.680 So it's just like the Instagram. 0.99
03:41:41.060 It's the fucking messages tab. 0.98
03:41:42.760 It's in the general tab. 0.99
03:41:44.500 Her name's Elisa.
03:41:45.960 You're just, I mean, just keep an eye on it.
03:41:47.540 Keep it the, hold on.
03:41:50.700 Keep it the, oh, I could have scooted over.
03:41:53.340 I didn't know you were trying to get out.
03:41:57.280 Do I like move the chair?
03:41:59.700 I guess I'll leave it for a bit, but if she's not, wait, wait.
03:42:03.720 Should we do a poll in chat?
03:42:07.000 A what?
03:42:08.200 I want to say it's a chat.
03:42:10.800 I think it's a 50-50 chance she comes back.
03:42:14.200 I give it a 50-50 chance.
03:42:16.120 Maybe a mod on Twitch can do a prediction thing or whatever.
03:42:20.580 I give it 50-50.
03:42:22.240 Was it close to 10?
03:42:23.540 Like what time is it?
03:42:24.320 8.45 or something.
03:42:26.120 Oh, okay.
03:42:27.020 So, yeah. 0.99
03:42:28.340 I know she said she wanted to leave like 10 or whatever.
03:42:31.380 Wait, was she bullshitting though, Tiffany?
03:42:33.620 No, no.
03:42:34.440 what did she what did sorry what does she need uh i don't think she loves it on the podcast
03:42:40.680 oh okay yeah i heard it okay that's fine disregard what were we talking about is it 0.72
03:42:48.740 locked labia size yeah we're measuring tiffany is locked yeah okay you said like labia like big 0.97
03:42:55.380 labia oh right big big labia and like you had to make up for it if you didn't yeah so oh you 0.99
03:43:02.440 were letting stuff like for example right like a guy let's say his dick is either small or he's 1.00
03:43:10.520 not good with like intercourse sex you might say oh he's got to make up for it with like oral sex 1.00
03:43:16.980 or some shit or he's got to be rich or he's got to be really funny or have a really good personality 1.00
03:43:23.480 so yeah a woman who she's got to make up for it you know if she doesn't she's got to like get me 0.99
03:43:29.160 gifts and she's gotta you know take me on nice dates and she's gotta yeah but isn't that preference
03:43:38.300 uncommon because i feel like most girls are doing like surgeries to get it like it's so sad yeah
03:43:44.560 it is true though he's gonna ask how you like like i didn't like okay so just like first of all i
03:43:50.260 never heard of this i'm just wondering like is this something that you see like in porn and like
03:43:56.300 figure it out or is it just experience but if it's not average then statistically maybe
03:44:01.180 like to figure this out without you know they're like secondhand like through firsthand experience
03:44:08.420 that's wait with okay what out so okay so yeah so if a big labia is statistically not common
03:44:18.260 you know what well so i'm actually not sure i don't know if they've done a study on this
03:44:22.380 but i think they estimate it's about 50 50 okay that's going to be my question yeah well even i
03:44:28.940 didn't know if you guys are down to do a little research we could okay show of hands who has who 0.97
03:44:36.020 has an audi there's a what audi labia oh labia i don't i don't know oh shit yes maybe you don't
03:44:47.460 know i don't know i don't know i don't can't france no i don't i haven't seen like other 0.88
03:44:57.400 people wait so you guys don't know what i'm talking no i don't know like i don't know if
03:45:02.340 it's no i haven't i haven't any i know average or not you haven't any yes okay three some off
03:45:07.060 the table okay good i don't want to three some anyways i get it whatever yeah whatever was after
03:45:11.680 of the show off the table.
03:45:13.420 I just don't know what the average is.
03:45:14.980 Unless you make up for it.
03:45:16.780 Does it poke out?
03:45:18.880 Okay, the lips. 1.00
03:45:19.880 The pussy lips. 1.00
03:45:20.660 Is it poking out? 1.00
03:45:21.180 Here, wait. 1.00
03:45:21.460 Does it poke out of the pussy lips? 1.00
03:45:22.880 Here, go. 1.00
03:45:24.040 Nathan, go to the Discord.
03:45:25.520 We can settle this right here, right now.
03:45:28.200 I'm trying to explain it like the most.
03:45:29.860 Nathan, go to the Discord.
03:45:30.860 I know one has talked about this.
03:45:31.960 Go to media.
03:45:33.180 Go to the, wait, is it the media tab
03:45:34.940 or is it the memes tab?
03:45:35.840 Hold on, let me, oh, it's the memes tab.
03:45:37.840 It's one up. 0.99
03:45:39.080 Okay, pull that shit up, Nathan. 1.00
03:45:40.920 Pull it up, Nathan. 1.00
03:45:41.680 okay so this is a sandwich that's a sandwich
03:45:44.720 Audi for life
03:45:47.140 okay so Audi is good
03:45:48.940 well hold on
03:45:50.420 I like Audis it's my preference
03:45:53.480 yeah it's a preference
03:45:54.200 the bigger the better
03:45:55.600 the bigger the better
03:45:57.560 that's a simple way to show it
03:46:01.040 I think this is great because I think
03:46:02.720 growing up I thought
03:46:04.820 I was like ashamed
03:46:06.520 I thought it was cooler to have a
03:46:08.900 well so okay so
03:46:10.840 So thank you for your answer. 0.99
03:46:13.500 I'm like the only guy talking about this shit. 0.99
03:46:15.460 No, that was a thing. 1.00
03:46:16.400 I'm a fucking maverick, okay? 1.00
03:46:18.040 I'm a fucking... 1.00
03:46:19.020 He's a martyr of Labias. 1.00
03:46:19.480 I'm a trailblazer.
03:46:20.940 I'm a trailblazer. 0.91
03:46:22.120 The martyr of Labias. 0.95
03:46:22.900 What's that?
03:46:23.660 You said the martyr of Labias.
03:46:26.340 Yes, I will die for this cause. 0.74
03:46:29.140 I'll die. 1.00
03:46:30.660 I will die for the pussy. 1.00
03:46:32.300 Just kidding. 1.00
03:46:33.780 What's it called? 1.00
03:46:34.680 Certain pussy. 1.00
03:46:34.980 No, but look. 1.00
03:46:35.940 Right.
03:46:36.120 it is um so the old thing here was well if you like this is the old like in the 70s 80s 90s 0.97
03:46:44.360 the language about this was like in the porn magazines and shit they would only show women
03:46:50.520 with innies right right but now like with the internet that that changed because there's 0.98
03:46:56.440 by the way if i'm in a relationship i don't watch porn just saying nice that's a good thing
03:47:01.400 i have that's a good thing i'm not gonna sit here and lie i have watched porn 0.99
03:47:05.560 But I'm not like some gooner where it's like I'm looking at that shit all day, you know. 0.99
03:47:10.860 You use it as a tool if you're single, you know, look, hey, whatever, people masturbate. 1.00
03:47:18.820 But, yeah, there's definitely women in porn who have outies. 1.00
03:47:24.880 Representation.
03:47:25.960 I don't know how we got to that point in time.
03:47:28.100 I blame her. 1.00
03:47:29.580 It's China's fault. 1.00
03:47:31.920 I don't know. 1.00
03:47:32.360 It's all your fault, China. 1.00
03:47:33.340 Everything's your fault. 1.00
03:47:34.140 Brian, how old are you?
03:47:35.560 Remind me of my ex.
03:47:36.560 I am 36, 7.
03:47:40.980 Are you sure?
03:47:42.540 It was my birthday recently.
03:47:45.020 Okay.
03:47:45.540 Oh, happy birthday.
03:47:47.120 Thank you.
03:47:47.520 Appreciate it. 0.98
03:47:47.860 Why didn't you guys get me any fucking gifts? 0.99
03:47:49.760 I didn't know how old you are, so I didn't know it was your birthday. 0.99
03:47:53.620 You're blessed with our presence.
03:47:55.320 Right.
03:47:56.020 That's about it.
03:47:57.840 Blessed with your presence?
03:47:59.100 You're a private person, besides being on here.
03:48:01.920 I don't know if you guys are familiar with my podcast.
03:48:03.900 Private personally.
03:48:05.560 I'm blessed with their presence, folks.
03:48:07.620 No, but, like, didn't you say, like, earlier that you were a virgin?
03:48:10.340 Oh.
03:48:10.920 Oh, no, that's a joke.
03:48:12.040 Oh, okay.
03:48:12.600 I say that as a joke.
03:48:13.080 I was going to ask.
03:48:13.820 I know you said that you were talking about sex earlier.
03:48:16.180 No, I am not a virgin.
03:48:17.480 Okay. 0.77
03:48:17.780 I have had sex with at least one woman one time. 0.80
03:48:20.660 Okay. 0.79
03:48:21.080 Okay.
03:48:22.000 Just once.
03:48:22.760 Cool.
03:48:23.760 Only once.
03:48:24.420 I'm happy for you.
03:48:25.200 Just the tip.
03:48:26.060 Okay, so then you're not good at it.
03:48:27.420 Just for a second.
03:48:28.300 Just to see how it feels.
03:48:29.080 It's really tough out here.
03:48:30.740 Sarcasm is...
03:48:32.420 Sarcasm.
03:48:35.980 How did we get on to the big labia thing, though? 1.00
03:48:38.400 We were talking about dick. 0.99
03:48:39.340 You brought it up. 1.00
03:48:39.800 Bad dick? 1.00
03:48:40.460 Yeah, bad dick. 1.00
03:48:41.580 Bad dick. 1.00
03:48:42.840 I don't know how we got on to that. 0.99
03:48:43.620 I think you brought it up.
03:48:44.800 You brought it up.
03:48:45.100 You brought up the labia.
03:48:46.220 Who wanted to talk about it?
03:48:47.480 I don't think anyone was talking about their labia.
03:48:49.460 So now that I showed you the photo, show of hands, who has an Audi?
03:48:51.780 I'm somewhere in the middle.
03:48:52.720 You're a midi. 0.99
03:48:53.320 She's a midi. 1.00
03:48:53.860 Yeah, I'm definitely not.
03:48:54.720 You have an Audi?
03:48:55.960 Okay.
03:48:56.920 I really don't want to respond.
03:48:57.860 I feel like my family's watching.
03:48:59.720 I didn't see the picture. 1.00
03:49:01.220 Damn, girl. 0.99
03:49:02.080 I was like, hurry. 1.00
03:49:03.640 Shit. 1.00
03:49:04.000 oh wait really quick 0.99
03:49:06.300 pull up the discord and then
03:49:08.620 show us this is in the media
03:49:10.860 tab there's a wikipedia link
03:49:12.800 for brain matures at 25 while I have it
03:49:15.140 guy
03:49:15.760 bro okay here
03:49:18.800 let me walk
03:49:19.320 okay well
03:49:22.460 let me know when you have it
03:49:24.500 so
03:49:27.020 who here show of hands
03:49:28.800 thinks that the prefrontal
03:49:30.900 cortex is not fully developed until
03:49:32.820 25.
03:49:34.480 For men, I know it's later.
03:49:37.220 I don't know. 0.83
03:49:38.220 That you are basically, until you're 0.53
03:49:40.760 25, whether you're a man or a woman, 1.00
03:49:42.800 you're a retard. 1.00
03:49:44.460 You are a bona fide retard. 1.00
03:49:46.640 For women, yes, but for men, 1.00
03:49:49.120 I think men... How do you say retard
03:49:50.820 in French? Translate for me. 0.98
03:49:52.780 Retardé.
03:49:53.680 Retardé?
03:49:55.160 With a rr.
03:49:57.860 Retardé.
03:49:59.820 Retardé.
03:50:00.340 Oh, that was pretty good, right? 0.99
03:50:08.880 It doesn't seem like retardé when you say that. 1.00
03:50:11.540 It's like a good thing. 1.00
03:50:14.420 So, you know, this often comes up in age gap conversations where, you know, it's, say, a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old.
03:50:26.900 Her prefrontal cortex is not fully developed.
03:50:30.340 Apparently, and I've been hearing this rebuttal of 25, prefrontal cortex.
03:50:36.060 Apparently, I just learned about this the other day.
03:50:39.680 It's a myth. 1.00
03:50:41.120 It's total bullshit. 1.00
03:50:42.040 Pull it up. 1.00
03:50:43.160 Pull it up.
03:50:43.820 Make it a little bigger, like control, mouse wheel, zoom in.
03:50:49.320 Yeah, that works.
03:50:50.920 The brain matures at 25. 1.00
03:50:52.520 It's on Wikipedia, so it must be true.
03:50:56.820 Is the claim that the human brain...
03:50:59.140 Here, wait.
03:51:00.340 Can you read this for us into the mic?
03:51:02.740 Sure.
03:51:03.760 The brain matures at 25.
03:51:05.760 Myth or 25-year-old brain myth is the claim that the human brain,
03:51:10.140 particularly the prefrontal cortex, reaches an adult-level maturity
03:51:15.720 approximately around age 25.
03:51:18.740 This, until when, do you want me to go?
03:51:21.520 The whole thing?
03:51:23.600 Yeah, continue.
03:51:24.540 Okay.
03:51:24.880 This myth occasionally has other numbers cited, but 25 is by far the most commonly occurring.
03:51:33.500 Teen brain theory is the pseudoscientific theory based on this myth.
03:51:40.580 The myth suggests that a person does not have a full adult capacity or maturity until this age threshold is achieved.
03:51:48.680 it has been attributed to various figures not notably j guided and then the next paragraph
03:51:56.160 it has been shown that the prefrontal cortex does prune gray matter with age but these changes are
03:52:04.920 not conclusively linked with better cognitive function or a higher level of socio-emotional
03:52:12.040 maturity it is widely quoted on social media outlets usually in debates regarding legal age 0.97
03:52:18.620 limits or youth behavior age gap arguments fucking defeated eternally defeated 25 prefrontal cortex 0.99
03:52:28.020 done myth debunked fake news misinformation fake science bullshit pseudoscience boom 0.84
03:52:35.800 but that's on wikipedia so okay well since i guess anyone could have just wrote that since
03:52:46.060 we're talking about age gap relationships now that it was recently my birthday you know i'm
03:52:51.240 getting older um you know but i'm look you know i'll look i've dated women older than me when i
03:52:56.960 was 33 i dated a 44 year old in my defense she was wasian i rest my case thank you but uh 0.65
03:53:07.840 you know because asian people age okay never mind like you know they look like she could have
03:53:15.060 totally been like 34 no wait hold on no that's too nice she could have passed for like a 36 37 0.51
03:53:23.780 year old she wasn't she was 44 wajian okay very beautiful woman that's great beautiful woman
03:53:30.980 i wonder what she's up to now you like wajians yeah i was gonna say i think you like well no
03:53:38.060 look hey i like i like white women i like wajian women i like asian women i like latino women i
03:53:43.160 like indigenous women i like women what are the wait did i say latina yes white yeah yep so more
03:53:52.180 dark where's the where's the black girl black uh excuse me oh she's in the bathroom i was just 0.98
03:53:57.840 gonna say i feel like black women i would black women just don't want to date me because i'm too 0.98
03:54:04.020 white like when i say white i don't mean my it well it is my skin color like i'm very pale but 0.90
03:54:10.260 it's also my behavior like i'm not i feel like i don't know like a a black woman needs like a 0.60
03:54:19.460 marvin gay type they have no idea i don't even know what i'm talking about i don't know it 0.99
03:54:24.200 depends a black woman needs like you know a black man i don't know what i'm fucking 1.00
03:54:31.900 hey look a black look black women you can date white guy date whoever you want date who you want 1.00
03:54:36.880 People, date whoever you want. 1.00
03:54:38.180 I don't give a fuck. 1.00
03:54:41.000 It would be my preference if my kids are white, though. 1.00
03:54:48.480 Okay. 0.88
03:54:49.960 Yeah, that's my preference.
03:54:51.220 Do you have a reason why?
03:54:53.600 Yeah.
03:54:54.980 Okay.
03:54:55.920 Do you want them to look more like you?
03:54:57.360 Oh, you want me to elaborate?
03:54:59.440 I just thought, yeah, it would have been good enough.
03:55:02.280 Well, I think there is a component of...
03:55:06.540 I guess there's two components.
03:55:08.220 One is you kind of want a kid who looks like you.
03:55:12.780 And I think that would, whether consciously or subconsciously, unconsciously, whatever,
03:55:18.640 it helps with the bonding.
03:55:21.160 Because you feel a bigger pull towards, like, I don't know.
03:55:28.620 I'm having difficulty actually articulating this.
03:55:30.940 but i do think like there is a stronger potential all right i gotta ask the chat chat help me out
03:55:38.140 with this one help me out with this one because i know the argument's there help me out with the
03:55:41.820 help me out chat what's the argument but they might resemble you more in like personality or
03:55:48.160 something you know that's true and they'll look like your partner which you love so i don't know
03:55:55.780 it's like i don't know so i think it's a thing in that like i don't know what research confirmed
03:56:03.580 this but that when babies are born a lot of times they look more like their father so like
03:56:07.700 you know evolutionary narrowly wise the father doesn't abandon their kid thinking that oh this
03:56:13.920 isn't my kid but that's not like a race thing that's well i think i mean this is like super
03:56:21.360 minor whoa wait like it's a very small thing but i think that from and this is a sad thing in
03:56:30.680 society but i've heard stories of men who are on airplanes with their biological children
03:56:36.600 and like people and the mom's not there people will see a father with a young daughter young son
03:56:43.860 and like have a questioning attitude towards it or be like is this a predator
03:56:50.500 yeah and so and so again this is a very like sort of maybe extreme example this isn't the central
03:56:58.520 reason but there is like a narrative in society like i've heard men who i've heard men who are 0.98
03:57:06.020 at the the park with their daughter or son alone it's their fucking kid like what's wrong with that 0.97
03:57:15.060 but but people will be more suspicious of it right like adult man with a toddler or with a 0.99
03:57:23.920 young kid they're like a man at the park people will like say the kid's running over there and
03:57:30.240 i'm sitting over here at the bench at the park people will look at that and be like 0.99
03:57:36.780 it's a fucking creep he's a predator and so this might be super small but i feel like 0.99
03:57:45.460 if your kid and it's a terrible state of affairs that this is the case 1.00
03:57:49.840 if the kid matches your race there's less of a suspicion but if i'm like the kid looks asian
03:57:59.060 people are more likely to jump to unfortunate conclusions now that's very minor though that's
03:58:06.760 super minor like i it wouldn't be like well that wouldn't be the like the main reason well 1.00
03:58:11.920 she's asian i can't impregnate her because down the road some dipshit at the park might think 0.99
03:58:21.460 right yeah i'm a predator or something no that's stupid but um i guess that's maybe a component of 0.99
03:58:27.820 it i think i don't know uh what's the other reason i forgot the other reason i don't know 0.97
03:58:34.040 are we talking about race a little bit okay what about exactly oh just like that it's okay to have
03:58:39.620 racial dating preferences or wanting your kid to like be your race or whatever i think that's fine
03:58:46.760 across all races
03:58:48.580 i get a lot of backlash for the men that i date because i date white men and i think my friends 0.74
03:58:58.500 hate it oh i mean look if people can have racial dating preferences i think it's fine i've heard
03:59:06.480 black men black men get flack when they're dating white women yeah like the black women get real 0.97
03:59:12.440 defensive because i think uh black women are the most likely to want to date within their race 1.00
03:59:20.960 right generally speaking yeah no it's true that's why i get so much backlash like they're like damn 0.97
03:59:25.580 you're taking our men like whereas like women uh like asian women for example uh they're they're 0.81
03:59:34.500 more open to dating like white men for example they're more open to dating outside their race 0.90
03:59:40.040 whereas like and this is studies you know it's not just assumptions whereas black women have a
03:59:46.200 stronger preference to dating black men.
03:59:50.240 So, yeah. 1.00
03:59:52.280 Fo-sho. Yeah. It depends 1.00
03:59:54.200 on the person. Word. Yeah.
03:59:56.000 I like black guys, so I got a little
03:59:58.200 bit of that with my ex. 1.00
04:00:00.000 Anybody else here like black 0.94
04:00:02.300 men? I like black men. I like all 0.83
04:00:04.220 races. You like all races. What about
04:00:06.300 you? I have a preference
04:00:08.200 for lighter features, I'd say.
04:00:10.560 I think that's...
04:00:12.120 Any update or no?
04:00:14.020 Okay. You said lighter features.
04:00:16.200 Blonde, light brown, blue eyes 1.00
04:00:21.180 I kind of want to wait to get into the questionnaire until she's back
04:00:27.140 So I guess I'm going to wait on the questionnaire for a bit
04:00:30.160 I'm going to get into some of the pre-show notes
04:00:31.680 I don't think she's going back
04:00:37.200 Probably not 1.00
04:00:39.060 Pretty fucking scummy 1.00
04:00:40.320 If she doesn't come back 0.99
04:00:43.680 yeah true true oh well it took me so long i just figured i'd leave any yeah i i'm wagering it's
04:00:51.060 probably hey but you know what never say never okay who do we start with brooke brooke which
04:00:58.320 one which one there's two oh shit okay two brooks two taylors yeah you so you don't do only fans 0.65
04:01:04.920 anymore correct did you used to do boy girl content just yeah just me and one of the guys 0.99
04:01:11.200 Like, there were or are videos of you on the internet, and you were fucking a man? 0.81
04:01:16.920 There were, but not anymore.
04:01:18.800 Okay, you took them down.
04:01:19.820 Yes.
04:01:19.960 But you did create that content.
04:01:21.200 Yes, but they were only with guys that I had dated.
04:01:23.860 Yeah, you were in a relationship with them.
04:01:25.640 Right.
04:01:26.080 You said your ex was the biggest gaslighter you've ever met in your life, and he cheated on you.
04:01:31.240 So, when you say gaslighter, how would he gaslight you?
04:01:34.280 well he would uh i would confront him about uh hanging out with an ex alone at night and he said
04:01:44.740 well my mom died and she just wanted to comfort me um and stuff like that but i was like that's
04:01:51.700 like that's the stuff that you wouldn't do like in a relationship and i was like how would you feel
04:01:55.440 if i went to see my ex you know because something happened he was like i'd break up with you and i
04:02:00.060 was like exactly so double standard yeah it's a double standard and he did that multiple times
04:02:06.460 and um being like late and stuff like i didn't want to be late all right but he would always
04:02:13.060 be late for everything and i was just trying to help him be on time but he would just yell at me
04:02:17.520 and yeah there's just a lot of things like that uh and then you let's see you dated a deadbeat
04:02:26.500 father that's the same guy oh same guy so he had a kid yes okay yes and with the six months that we
04:02:33.820 did get we were together he only saw him twice and he refused to go to court to fight for his son
04:02:40.600 because um of his heritage heritage nigerian he's like nigerians don't go to court and i was like 0.85
04:02:48.600 but that's your son he's like still oh they don't go to court 0.94
04:02:52.480 i was like they don't have a court system in nigeria they just dual or some shit i had no 0.95
04:03:00.900 clue i don't know uh oh question who here has plastic surgery 0.95
04:03:05.580 what do you have uh breast nose nose okay oh i guess super vulnerable uh i had a
04:03:17.260 a mini tummy tuck because i had a c-section oh okay yeah repaired it okay um i guess quick
04:03:23.960 question on the deadbeat father thing uh who just curious who here is pro-choice
04:03:30.600 japan's pro-choice
04:03:33.040 yeah do i want to i don't know if i want to do the abortion thing uh pro-life who's pro-life
04:03:42.740 Pro-life?
04:03:43.760 Yeah, to a degree.
04:03:45.000 I have limits, like rape or incest.
04:03:48.540 Okay. 1.00
04:03:49.200 I don't fuck with that. 0.98
04:03:50.300 Sure. 1.00
04:03:51.720 My only thoughts on the deadbeat father thing.
04:03:54.500 Mm-hmm.
04:03:55.460 I think, now look, maybe we should, should we categorize women who get abortions as deadbeat mothers?
04:04:08.440 No.
04:04:09.740 But, I mean, think about it this way.
04:04:12.020 let's say a man who was inclined to be a deadbeat what if he had an exit from preventing his dead
04:04:19.580 beatness which was murdering the kid well abortion isn't murder so well i mean then we can get into
04:04:29.520 when does life begin it is murder i would argue life begins at conception yeah well how about
04:04:37.080 this if abortion uh if a woman aborts her child a day before she otherwise gives birth okay let's
04:04:44.940 be realistic but i i understand that that's super rare but you can't no no i understand no but under
04:04:51.460 well there's some abortion advocates not all but there are some many abortion advocates might say
04:04:57.480 well uh you know i don't know what is it uh viability or 12 weeks 16 weeks 18 weeks whatever
04:05:04.500 it is right but my question is when does life begin is it when the child has exited the womb
04:05:12.100 when the heartbeat is detected oh when the heartbeat okay so when the heartbeat so after
04:05:16.740 the heartbeat the woman can't get an abortion i would say yes well in canada that's the law 0.98
04:05:22.480 i would say yes she's not coming back what a fucking okay what's the what's the reason that's 0.99
04:05:28.300 fucking scummy what's the reason what was her what was her deal tiffany 1.00
04:05:31.820 she has a medical thing coming on you saw what like you saw it 1.00
04:05:40.960 yeah so what's the proof what's the proof is there any proof or is she just her words 1.00
04:05:47.180 I guess there's enough proof, but she has infections. 1.00
04:05:53.760 Infections? 1.00
04:05:54.840 No girl. 1.00
04:05:55.500 UTA. 0.99
04:05:57.780 Okay.
04:05:58.860 All right, I'm going to do musical chairs here a little bit.
04:06:02.440 So here's what I'm going to do.
04:06:03.800 I'm going to move you there.
04:06:06.440 Sure.
04:06:09.920 And then I'm going to move you over.
04:06:14.300 and then
04:06:16.880 oh 0.99
04:06:18.980 shit do I just 0.99
04:06:20.840 how do I do this 0.99
04:06:23.120 take out a chair
04:06:25.540 just spread out a little bit
04:06:26.680 I suppose we could keep it as is
04:06:31.180 I think I'm maybe scoot that chair in a little bit 0.89
04:06:33.220 let me have both of you scoot into the table 1.00
04:06:34.920 scoot scoot scoot scoot in
04:06:36.780 scoot in now for you I want you to 0.86
04:06:39.080 try to scoot in on center frame
04:06:41.060 here this is our center zoom
04:06:42.600 side no so scoot this way scoot that way a little bit actually i don't have that much space uh she's
04:06:46.720 gonna scoot over just a tad uh yeah that's pretty scummy i guess whatever uh
04:06:52.780 medical i don't believe it i don't whatever okay anyways back to the show i'm not gonna let it
04:07:04.820 uh burn any time pasty george uh here let me see if it's in i need you to scoot in so you're in
04:07:12.240 frame on center zoom you look center zoom i need you in frame so you're on camera okay so like that
04:07:19.420 means scooting in and scooting it might mean scooting that way a little bit you need me to
04:07:25.900 scoot this way all right maybe just good posture let me have you move the microphone a little bit
04:07:33.580 all right i think that'll do that should be good uh all right i think that looks good okay
04:07:40.800 uh so actually wait should we have 0.95
04:07:46.100 hmm i might sorry guys it's just normally we don't have fucking walk-offs like 0.67
04:07:52.520 well quite like this i almost might want to shift the microphones um 0.94
04:07:58.480 no it's probably fine okay where were we we're talking oh abortion okay um so against
04:08:10.800 so life begins at heartbeat yes I think we agreed on that okay in any case um do you think
04:08:20.460 let's say a guy didn't want to pay child support do you think a man prior to the heartbeat or 0.73
04:08:26.140 whatever the man should be able to like uh force an abortion no but I do think that if a woman goes 0.97
04:08:35.120 through with having a baby after the man said he didn't want it I don't think she should put
04:08:40.240 the blame on him and i know that's very controversial but like it takes two to tango
04:08:45.440 i think they should also have some type of say not what i do with like my body but i shouldn't
04:08:52.260 have to expect him to pay if he said that he didn't want it i mean that's that's great but 0.99
04:08:58.920 most women are not as noble as you are and regardless of the man's desire or lack of 1.00
04:09:04.860 desire to have the children uh a lot of women are going to force a man to pay child support
04:09:11.720 uh look some men are actually like don't have the income to even pay for it uh you were dealing with
04:09:19.960 a guy who i i mean it is what it is but a woman reserves the right at any moment within the first
04:09:27.480 18 or even 21 years to basically force a man into being a pay pig, basically. So a woman can get an 1.00
04:09:36.240 abortion for no reason, any reason. One of the reasons a woman might want an abortion, again, 1.00
04:09:41.720 there's no even requirement to get an abortion. You don't have to provide a reason. But one of 1.00
04:09:47.080 the reasons would be, I'm not in a place in my life where I'm ready to have a child. I'm not
04:09:53.280 financially in a place in my life where I want to have a child. So a woman might be able to 1.00
04:09:59.840 murder her unborn baby because she's not financially ready. So why do we call men 1.00
04:10:08.360 deadbeats who don't, like women can escape responsibility. A woman could get an abortion 1.00
04:10:14.080 for financial reasons. We should call them deadbeats. They should be deadbeats. If we're 1.00
04:10:21.900 gonna call guys deadbeats we should call the women deadbeats i think no i think a woman would be more 1.00
04:10:30.360 of a deadbeat if she does have the kid and then doesn't take care of it right then like yeah so 0.98
04:10:36.620 you think just to be clear it's worse to have the kid then not take care of it and then put him in
04:10:44.220 the system and stuff yeah i think so i agree okay so it's well okay so you're saying worse to have
04:10:51.980 the kid well the kid's dead if she gets the abortion depending on when she gets the abortion
04:11:00.580 concept well i mean my position would be conception yeah but ours is hard yeah okay but 0.95
04:11:08.560 sometimes do women get abortions beyond heartbeat i don't know what the laws yeah but like they're
04:11:13.740 shitty people no but if it's afterwards from a legal point of view it has to there needs to be
04:11:23.620 some kind of problem with the child like um and then you can take that decision if it's past that
04:11:30.360 three months then you cannot yeah what about the mother because i know like i about like um
04:11:37.200 like if the birth or like the uh the pregnancy uh causes the mother loss of life yeah that's fine
04:11:46.380 yeah yeah even people who are against abortion if life of the mother is at risk then abortion
04:11:53.640 is acceptable that's not even uh right especially if she already has children obviously she needs
04:11:59.600 to be there for those children that are already alive right yeah that's one of the few you're
04:12:04.760 gonna you're gonna struggle to find anybody who's pro-life who says if it is a genuine case of life
04:12:11.440 of the mother that they're against uh the abortion in that instance bro really okay the mom they're
04:12:19.580 like okay well uh yeah the mom has to die no like most people majority of people who are pro-life
04:12:24.660 are fine with life of the mother although that's pretty it's pretty rare um well i guess my
04:12:31.320 question is then for those who here just show of hands again who here is pro-choice pro-choice
04:12:38.260 pro-choice pro-choice pro-choice do you think men should have to pay child support
04:12:42.540 i said my stance on that okay i'm i guess i'm asking the other panelists who raised their
04:12:50.000 hands i mean it's the law so just okay so what's stopping us from passing laws from outlawing
04:12:56.300 abortion it's the law well the well in canada the law is that abortion is legal so okay but
04:13:05.120 so i understand perhaps it's currently yes it is currently the law that there's no state that i'm
04:13:12.660 aware of at least in the united states i assume it's the case in canada men can't escape uh their
04:13:18.200 child support obligation legally speaking if they want to uh so question is though uh should that be
04:13:27.860 a law i i get that it is a law should men if they don't want to like if they don't okay here's an 0.95
04:13:34.420 example i'm dating a girl for i don't know fuck it it's a one-night stand sometimes it happens the 0.95
04:13:41.000 girl gets pregnant she wants to keep it i thought we were just having fun she told me she was on 1.00
04:13:45.500 birth control oops had no intention of getting her pregnant no intention of having a child
04:13:50.660 should i escape having to pay child support no wait no yeah no no i shouldn't be able to
04:14:00.160 didn't you say mention have to pay child support no if they said that they if i was with someone
04:14:05.420 and they and i said oh i'm pregnant and they're like look i don't want a baby and i say you know
04:14:10.160 what i do i'm keeping it and they leave i don't think it's his responsibility he did but now this
04:14:15.440 is a one night stand you you know what you're doing if you're having unprotected sex and you 0.75
04:14:21.120 know ejaculating in someone you can't escape that you're also part of this problem wait this is
04:14:28.340 completely contradictory he should be paying then that's but that but he never said he didn't want a 0.86
04:14:34.640 baby is what i'm saying like if what if he had a one either way it doesn't matter what if he verbally 0.99
04:14:40.080 says it he's still responsible that's completely incoherent so before i fuck a woman she has to 0.99
04:14:46.360 tell me ahead of time that she would get an abortion if she doesn't tell me that she's pro 0.98
04:14:51.020 like let's say we're most one night stands by the way you talk about the abortion topic before you 1.00
04:14:56.540 fuck her um if she doesn't disclose to me that she wants to abort an unwanted baby she has to 0.98
04:15:03.340 keep the baby i didn't say that but i'm confused this is contradictory to your previously stated 1.00
04:15:09.860 thing where you said if the man doesn't want to blah blah blah he shouldn't have to pay child
04:15:14.620 support do i have that correct right but i just asked a completely different example i in my
04:15:22.440 opinion i think it's two different scenarios so what were the two scenarios one you're in a
04:15:26.820 relationship right that's what i'm saying like if i'm in a relationship with someone we are doing
04:15:31.940 whatever we're doing i get pregnant i say i want to keep it he says he doesn't i shouldn't then
04:15:37.420 put the blame on him if i have a one night stand though that's like i don't know if he wants to
04:15:44.180 have this baby or not that's so incoherent i'm sorry that makes no sense i really don't think
04:15:50.400 that so you're saying in the one night stand example yes the man should pay for the child
04:15:55.880 support right but not in a relationship wait that makes no wouldn't it like shouldn't you
04:16:03.120 give the, it seems like you would be more inclined to give the escape to the, like if you're in a
04:16:10.300 relationship with a girl and you're like regularly engaging in sex, this seems like it's almost
04:16:17.360 more of a, I don't know if this is the right framing, more of a consent to the risk of her
04:16:23.900 getting pregnant than just a one night stand. Like if you're dating somebody, like maybe down
04:16:30.700 the road i'm assuming if it's a serious relationship there is the potential future prospect that you
04:16:36.020 would want to have children together if you're some frat boy at fucking toronto university or 0.97
04:16:41.020 some bullshit ottawa university i don't know if they've got sororities and fraternities up there 0.99
04:16:45.900 and you're just fucking it's a drunken hookup there's no intention there to get anybody pregnant 1.00
04:16:52.200 or have a kid i i mean look the the escape arguably if we're gonna live in a pro-choice 0.99
04:16:58.580 society men should have an escape and i don't you don't need to disclose it here's my standard
04:17:05.860 if if in any country or state where a woman can get an abortion at any moment the guy should not
04:17:15.700 have any responsibility to that child if he wants the man should always be able to escape he should
04:17:23.560 never have to pay child support in a country where women can get abortions. The escape is to not be
04:17:30.740 there physically or involved in the child's life, but the responsibility is to contribute
04:17:39.200 financially. Well, actually, this is completely backwards. I would argue that the greater benefit
04:17:45.420 for the child would not be, let's say you don't have the financial capability, the greater benefit
04:17:51.120 it to the child would actually to be in the child's life men are not just atm machines i'm saying this
04:17:55.860 is what happens and like this like guys who do a hookup or something and the girl decides to keep
04:18:04.040 it he has the choice to be involved or not but from a like so you you are correct in the sense
04:18:11.340 that men can escape a parental responsibility so but not a financial one the court can't like uh
04:18:19.760 You can't be forced, at least in the United States.
04:18:24.720 I'm not sure about that.
04:18:25.540 I'm pretty sure in most places the court can't be like, okay, you're going to be a present father.
04:18:32.020 No. 1.00
04:18:33.020 But financially, oh, they can fuck you financially for sure. 1.00
04:18:37.780 I don't know if fuck you financially. 1.00
04:18:39.420 No, but my argument, I understand that. 1.00
04:18:41.600 I understand that the court can't be like, okay, you're going to have custody of the kid.
04:18:47.020 Exactly, yeah.
04:18:47.740 I understand that.
04:18:48.420 i'm talking financially i'm when i say child support i'm talking about money yeah that's
04:18:52.960 what i'm saying so they have the choice to be involved or not uh like like they will never be
04:19:01.120 like obliged to have the kid two days a week or anything right i'm talking about money yeah but
04:19:07.420 men shouldn't have to pay money any money at all or just through the courts so a man hold on a man
04:19:14.720 can voluntarily under this idea the man could voluntarily be like well i'm willing to give you
04:19:21.740 this much money but say the man doesn't want to his body his choice because really what's happening
04:19:29.080 here is if the court well exactly his body his choice so he physically it doesn't have to be
04:19:34.900 there but no no no no so uh labor a man has a right to the fruits of his labor and when the
04:19:44.280 government says we're taking 20 percent of what you make you're essentially taking 20 percent
04:19:50.840 of his labor and in fact sometimes i believe doing it with tax in fact not only that there's a level
04:19:57.960 of coercion that occurs here because say the man doesn't have a job and he just chooses to
04:20:03.580 be a bum the court uh there's a specific term for this it's evading me the court can still um
04:20:12.640 there's a word for maybe somebody in the chat knows it's like let's say you used to work but
04:20:21.060 you're no longer working the court can be like well you used to do this job and you were making
04:20:25.760 this much money inferred wait inferred ability wait chat it's like inferred income maybe it's
04:20:34.240 Child support, inferred income, some shit like that.
04:20:39.600 Oh, imputed income. 0.81
04:20:42.960 More commonly known as imputed income.
04:20:45.620 It's an estimated amount of money a court assigns a parent based on what they could be earning rather than what they actually report.
04:20:56.780 So even if you don't have a job, even if you're not making money, the court can still be like, you owe this much money.
04:21:01.740 And if you don't pay that, you go to jail.
04:21:05.220 Not in Canada, but...
04:21:06.740 I don't know the laws in Canada, but in the United States at least, and maybe it is the
04:21:11.520 case in Canada, you just might not know.
04:21:13.360 In the United States, one of the remedies that the court system has, if you're either
04:21:18.340 not paying all of the child support or not paying it at all, look, and to be fair, they
04:21:24.440 don't do it right away.
04:21:25.460 It's like, okay, you missed one payment, you're going straight to jail.
04:21:28.540 But over time, I don't know what the, you know, it could be months, maybe longer.
04:21:32.880 they will put you in jail for failure to pay child support there's no other debt that you can owe
04:21:39.560 where you can ever go to jail for not paying the debt only in this way like for example in the in
04:21:45.800 the past if you owed a debt to a company there were things called debtors prisons where you
04:21:51.140 could literally if you owed somebody money and either you just couldn't pay it or you willfully
04:21:55.380 didn't want to pay it you could go to jail you could go to prison we did away with that because
04:21:59.620 we're like, that's wrong. That's immoral. However, not when it comes to men and child support.
04:22:06.900 So I guess what I'm trying to get here is, um, the, uh, the courts can definitely force men 0.97
04:22:13.900 through coercion. Okay. You don't pay child support. We're going to put you in jail.
04:22:18.080 Typically people are averse to going to jail. Um, and so there is like a coercive level there.
04:22:24.560 There is a forcing of it, but also it's like, what if I just don't want to pay?
04:22:29.620 I don't want to pay that money.
04:22:30.920 That's my money.
04:22:32.360 You lied to me.
04:22:33.040 You said you're on birth control.
04:22:34.340 You guys know Drake. 1.00
04:22:36.500 Fucking Canadian, right? 1.00
04:22:37.840 Yeah. 1.00
04:22:38.260 These motherfuckers, these women he's fucking. 1.00
04:22:41.300 They be digging through the trash for the condom. 1.00
04:22:43.760 Yeah. 1.00
04:22:44.000 And they be dumping the fucking condom jizz in their pussy. 1.00
04:22:47.480 Did he consent to that? 1.00
04:22:48.760 Did he consent to have a kid?
04:22:49.980 That's insane. 1.00
04:22:50.980 Women do that shit. 1.00
04:22:52.260 Women lie about being on birth control. 1.00
04:22:54.360 Now look, most unplanned pregnancies, I'm not saying that they're, the majority of unplanned 1.00
04:22:58.960 pregnancies it's all consensual i don't think there's deception going on they're just fucking 0.54
04:23:03.980 accidents happen and i would but i would say in those situations no the man shouldn't have to pay 0.94
04:23:09.500 in any situation i think it's a discussion to have between both parties but so okay the woman has a 1.00
04:23:16.500 kid and uh oh it's hard raising kids especially as a single mom she's gonna want that money more 1.00
04:23:22.120 likely than not so when it's a discussion and i say i'm not fucking paying you and she says oh 1.00
04:23:27.800 really okay boom go to the court the court forces you women use the government for violence against 0.72
04:23:34.720 men the government allows them to so the government what do you mean like i'm not saying it's right 0.59
04:23:41.420 but i'm just saying the government gives them that option so is it really the woman's fault or is it
04:23:45.080 the government's fault for allowing that to be an option so uh well hold on women are not forced to 0.99
04:23:52.880 go to the state they're not forced to go to the government to do this so yes like the woman could
04:23:59.680 have a kid and that kid could reach 18 and she never went to the court system so yes it is the
04:24:07.060 woman's fault so what about a situation where it's a marriage wife and husband they have a kid
04:24:16.380 yeah few years into that the dad leaves and now all of the bird the financial burden at least in 0.67
04:24:23.280 the situation like we're talking about is on the mom is it wrong if the mother goes to like let's
04:24:29.260 but also let's say like she reached out saying like hey you might not want to be here you might
04:24:32.740 not want to be in the life like but i still need you financially in this case and he says no now
04:24:37.020 is it wrong if she goes and says okay well i need help and he's not going to help me so i need you
04:24:41.720 to force it to help me is that wrong well you have to remember the framework of my anti-child 0.87
04:24:46.680 support stance the framework is in a world where women can uh get abortions right so look my true 0.51
04:24:55.240 underlying position is that if you do get a woman pregnant even if you didn't intend for it i do
04:25:01.800 think you have a duty to and it's your kid you do have a duty to that child to support it at minimum 0.99
04:25:08.160 financially that's my true position okay however in a world where women get an escape men should
04:25:15.500 get look if you guys believe in equality men should get an escape too but they do get an
04:25:22.440 escape they don't get an escape a physical one yeah no no men do not get an escape i'm talking 0.62
04:25:27.400 about child support i'm talking about the financial thing the financial component if women can get an
04:25:33.500 abortion, men should have an ability to escape the financial burden and duty. Simple as that. 0.51
04:25:42.860 Yeah, I personally, I wouldn't have a child with a man who does not want to be there, so it's hard 1.00
04:25:48.860 to have an actual stance, but I know some women will do it on their own. I mean, you've never 0.97
04:25:55.940 dated a guy who, in that moment while dating you, if you were to get pregnant, he wouldn't want to
04:26:02.620 have the kid it's just not i'm not at a place where i want kids right now so it's hard to
04:26:10.700 hard to say okay again though look if dave chapelle puts it like this
04:26:18.240 if when if women can murder their child a man should at least be able to abandon it
04:26:26.240 my wallet my choice
04:26:28.240 once again physically not being there okay but no i'm talking yes i'm talking about money 0.98
04:26:35.600 well i disagree it's finance but hold on so can women so okay let's say the woman has no health
04:26:41.220 issues the woman uh the reason the woman wants to get the abortion is i don't want to spend money 0.99
04:26:50.000 on the kid and that's it she would be okay going through the pregnancy and all that 1.00
04:26:55.600 The only thing, the only reason 1.00
04:26:58.000 She wants to get the abortion 1.00
04:26:59.300 Is because children cost money 1.00
04:27:02.080 And she wants to keep her money 1.00
04:27:04.040 Are you okay with her getting an abortion? 0.81
04:27:06.720 I think that's rather unlikely
04:27:08.460 I mean this is
04:27:10.120 Most women are not getting 1.00
04:27:11.440 Most abortions are 1.00
04:27:14.060 For completely benign reasons 0.52
04:27:17.080 The majority of
04:27:19.980 The majority of abortions are as follows 0.99
04:27:22.540 girl was fucking her boyfriend girl fucked a guy it was consensual 0.99
04:27:28.520 unintended pregnancy she's not ready to have the kid that's it that's 99 of abortions i think 1.00
04:27:37.840 that's fair if you're not ready in your life to support and take care of a child why i have no
04:27:43.000 but how about let me ask you this go ahead a woman is a billionaire okay a woman is a billionaire 1.00
04:27:50.000 and she has the means to have a kid in fact she's already had one kid and she plans to have other 0.99
04:27:55.920 kids in the future but she's decided that she doesn't want to have this kid quite now can she 0.96
04:28:03.960 get an abortion her body her choice are you fine with her getting an abortion but she has the 0.99
04:28:09.140 financial means to have the kid she's had the kid before she wants a kid in the future but she 1.00
04:28:14.060 doesn't want to do it right now well maybe she's in a toxic relationship and she doesn't want to 1.00
04:28:19.000 have to i didn't well i didn't grant that the relationship is fine she's being selfish that's 1.00
04:28:26.140 your opinion right so i'd rather a woman be selfish than put a child in the world and 1.00
04:28:36.840 right not my i guess my argument here is we can create a scenario where it's so unfair for the 0.95
04:28:44.860 man but in a world where there's abortions i would argue that a man who already has kid or a man
04:28:51.120 kids or one kid or a man who wants kids in the future and a man who's rich a man who makes
04:28:57.840 billions of dollars a year but he doesn't want to pay child support even though it won't it won't
04:29:03.540 impact his life it won't he's not going to be financially in a bad place i'm actually completely
04:29:10.360 okay with him refusing to want to pay child support really if he doesn't want to in the
04:29:17.140 same way that women if they don't want kids they can end the life of an unborn child
04:29:23.440 i'll stick to my stance of what i said that it's okay for them to not be there physically but 0.97
04:29:29.800 financially yeah you just have to wrap it up well say that to women then
04:29:35.980 yeah i feel like they if you don't want a kid you probably should have yeah like 1.00
04:29:45.780 been smart about it but even if a woman was being a retard uh you would still 0.98
04:29:51.560 you would still let her get an abortion regardless of how uh regardless of how 0.99
04:29:57.960 um irresponsible she was being yeah because i don't think it's fair for a child to come in
04:30:04.300 this world and not have like stable and loving parents but once a child has already been created
04:30:10.660 is it better to let them come into a but they're not difficult well they are created uh better to 0.99
04:30:17.720 come into a difficult world or should we just kill them like for example let's say your parents are 0.99
04:30:22.780 broke they're broke and maybe they got issues or whatever and they're divorced and they split up 1.00
04:30:29.860 before the child's even born should we abort the kid because they might have a difficult life
04:30:34.540 if they want the kid then they should have the kid okay how about a kid that was is already alive 0.67
04:30:40.140 but the parents are broke and they have no money and they're divorcing should we kill the kid no
04:30:47.260 it's already alive yeah that's already alive no okay so because life will be bad for the kid 0.87
04:30:54.400 i don't think that is justification we're talking before a heartbeat here still
04:31:01.240 okay well ultimately though i think it's interesting that when it comes to men's
04:31:09.180 reproductive rights you guys are very much taking on the abortion uh anti-abortionist
04:31:15.320 anti-abortion position it's interesting that that sort of duality where for women
04:31:22.160 pro-choice for men pro-responsibility so i think we should perhaps reconsider
04:31:29.780 if we view men as deadbeat dads well you know in a country where abortion is allowed
04:31:38.860 i don't know i think uh men should get an escape i think it does suck to some degree that the guy
04:31:47.960 doesn't get as much of a choice than the he has no choice men have zero choice but
04:31:54.420 in it would not be okay for if a guy says i want you to have a board an abortion and then choose
04:32:01.800 over her body what she does with it so right let me i guess the final question here is
04:32:07.000 who do you think is worse what is a greater moral wrong a man who is a deadbeat dad so who refuses
04:32:17.840 to pay child support or a woman who gets an abortion what is a greater moral wrong 0.94
04:32:24.000 uh i'd say the dead be dead yeah
04:32:28.640 so it's more morally wrong to well okay you don't think it's like killing a life or whatever so
04:32:37.780 yeah i mean look i just from a from a moral perspective i don't know how you can
04:32:44.540 let me ask you this though just as a hypothetical assume i'm correct and i know you disagree but
04:32:53.680 assume that it is a life at conception just for the sake of a hypothetical in that instance and
04:33:01.080 let's say it is in fact if it is in fact a life what is the greater moral wrong in that paradigm
04:33:07.760 the abortion or the guy just not paying child support and being a deadbeat well the this
04:33:16.400 alive like they're not feeling pain at this stage right so well so let's say that um somebody is 0.95
04:33:26.720 under anesthesia and i sneak into the operating room and with a hammer i bash their brains in
04:33:33.620 while they're under anesthesia well they can't feel pain right so
04:33:41.140 they're talking about this child but you're saying you're saying that the the fetus doesn't
04:33:47.780 have consciousness it can't feel pain although this might be disputed so if your argument is
04:33:53.280 it's okay to kill people when they're in a state of consciousness or lack of consciousness where
04:33:59.460 they can't feel pain then it's okay this is i feel like it's going way far off of the
04:34:05.620 it's the same thing talking about financial like the financial aspect of having the abortion when
04:34:14.340 the baby is supposedly being born like is that the only reason because if that's the only reason i
04:34:19.180 feel like we're going to debate about this forever there's so many other reasons why women get 0.74
04:34:23.740 abortions yeah like so many well the majority of the reasons why women get abortions is just
04:34:30.620 primarily because it's unwanted that's fine but like i can even put myself out there for example
04:34:37.980 i was 18 i got pregnant i had an abortion because i didn't even what i basically ended up finding
04:34:45.320 ready but no what i basically ended up finding out is that my ex-boyfriend's poking holes in
04:34:49.680 condoms so like in that sense I'm wrong because he manipulated me you know what I mean like
04:34:56.040 there's so many other reasons to say oh abortion is wrong so because I didn't even know that
04:35:03.020 someone was putting their own sperm in me like I shouldn't have that choice that that's what
04:35:08.700 I'm trying to get at well so these are two separate things here so that's what I'm asking
04:35:11.920 hold on so what your boyfriend did is wrong although anytime you're engaging in sex even
04:35:17.460 if you're using condoms, condoms are not a hundred percent effective. So look in a different
04:35:22.360 scenario, you could have been using condoms and still gotten pregnant. But the underlying reason,
04:35:27.200 again, what he did is wrong. Arguably this should be a crime. Um, but, but, uh, the reason you didn't
04:35:35.780 want to have, uh, it was just an unwanted pregnancy. So there wasn't, um, it might fall 0.67
04:35:43.920 under i mean it might fall i think this could be truth be told i think this would be a form of a
04:35:50.160 sex crime sure so i mean you might say under certain you know okay so under certain sex
04:35:56.480 crimes that uh there's a greater justification for uh abortion however uh the sex was otherwise
04:36:03.640 consensual right um the sex was consensual that specific thing he was doing that was non-consensual
04:36:11.820 though right uh and it's clearly wrong like they're not gonna clearly wrong um but ultimately
04:36:19.980 it wasn't like um it wasn't life of the mother it wasn't no it would have been as well it wasn't
04:36:28.320 like a this falls under some sort of sex crime in my perspective maybe it's not i don't know
04:36:34.840 you'd have to find the court case or whatever but it wasn't like a you know more strictly speaking
04:36:40.600 an essay or a rape or whatever
04:36:42.560 where people are more quick
04:36:44.900 to say under that circumstance it's more justified
04:36:47.160 anyways
04:36:49.320 I don't want to linger on the
04:36:50.760 abortion thing for too long but
04:36:52.480 I don't know man if y'all 1.00
04:36:54.880 can kill kids we should shit we should 1.00
04:36:56.740 not have to pay child support 1.00
04:36:58.120 I agree
04:37:00.980 with that that's a valid
04:37:02.080 final thoughts
04:37:03.580 I think we should really
04:37:06.880 educate
04:37:07.900 uh like focus on like educating people how to not get pregnant and how to like consciously
04:37:14.380 not do that there's like there's ways uh yeah and like i think people should be responsible
04:37:21.720 yeah yeah okay your thing have you ever seen the videos of the girls going to get abortions
04:37:27.200 be like yeah i'm gonna get that baby out of me drinking alcohol have you ever seen those before
04:37:31.180 yeah yeah i've seen some of those yeah yeah that's disgusting yeah all right um let's do
04:37:37.600 next topic uh let's see here we have we were talking to brooke about deadbeat fathers uh you
04:37:45.040 said you're old-fashioned you 100 believe relationships are transactional and it should 0.97
04:37:52.200 be 50 50 most of the time yes like i understand like obviously shit happens like both sides go 0.91
04:37:59.120 through like deaths in the family or they might be slacking at some point in life um but um
04:38:07.580 um well we'll we're like the other might be like put in 20 percent maybe that's all they can give
04:38:13.780 and the other has to put in like the other 80 to like make it work but all right um okay
04:38:21.560 and uh yeah you say let's see
04:38:26.180 um never you'll never complain but you do think it's a gentlemanly for a man to do that
04:38:34.960 um what are you talking about pay or communicate properly okay uh tay you said if a man flew you
04:38:41.860 out to his state and then ghosted you when you landed yeah that did happen so another guy flew
04:38:48.160 you out to where he was instead that did also happen yeah so wait how often do you get was 0.97
04:38:55.640 this the first time you got flown out yeah and you damn that's wait so you were ghosted that's 0.98
04:39:01.880 fucked up yeah but you had another hookup no what when i say hookup i mean like for the flight 0.99
04:39:08.060 like another guy flew you out from where you were at right but that was very situational 0.98
04:39:15.140 like very situational that was like nothing that wasn't like oh if this doesn't work out
04:39:20.560 i have somewhere else to go okay yeah it was as crazy as it sounds it was pure coincidence
04:39:27.520 hey you got rescued i guess you said you said you would genuinely defend the type of things
04:39:34.760 women post when in a relationship yeah so what do you mean like i know for a fact there's a lot
04:39:41.640 of men that i've spoken to in the past they don't like the things that i post um simply because like
04:39:48.780 i spend lots of times like at the beach in bikinis or um like modeling in bikinis whatever
04:39:56.200 the case may be um and they think like sometimes it's disrespectful which i can understand to a
04:40:01.160 certain extent but i'm very upfront and i'm also very giving like forthcoming so if the person i
04:40:09.080 was with wanted all my passwords or wanted the password to my phone like i'd be like yeah go
04:40:12.760 through my stuff i don't care i'm not doing anything me posting something is for my benefit
04:40:16.580 not everybody else's benefit i'm not someone that's like fishing for like i know earlier you
04:40:21.700 were saying like okay the women's tactic of men coming to them might be posting but like that's 1.00
04:40:28.020 not everybody's and it's not mine just that's what i like you know women women can walk on stage you
04:40:36.360 know victoria's secret and lingerie and that's okay because that's their job and they're getting 1.00
04:40:40.640 paid to do it but god forbid you know i mean just a little girl from new jersey i'm not but that's
04:40:46.280 what i'm saying like god forbid a little girl from new jersey just wanted to do it just because
04:40:49.380 it's wrong like because i'm not getting paid for it's not my job so i don't really see how
04:40:53.520 you know there's really much of a difference besides money well i suppose it depends what
04:40:59.060 kind of relationship dynamic you want if you want a more traditional dynamic i think within the
04:41:04.740 purview of a traditional dynamic uh men are going to prioritize a woman being modest like modesty
04:41:10.760 and dress i don't know if you're christian but uh if you're dating a christian guy you're a christian
04:41:15.640 whatever there's a component of christianity that relates to modesty are you christian i'm not
04:41:20.460 religious no well that's fine uh and look there's obviously all kinds of different dynamics out
04:41:26.440 there however i would say if you're a woman and you want more traditional treatment from a guy
04:41:32.140 i think it's fair uh that the woman holds up her end of the deal of the traditional bargain of the
04:41:39.540 traditional exchange and there seems to be this massive push in society where women want traditional
04:41:45.460 men, masculine men. They want them to be traditional, do chivalry, uh, you know, pay for 0.94
04:41:51.780 dates, do X, Y, Z, et cetera. But they don't want to hold up their end of the deal by being
04:41:57.800 traditional themselves. So look, you want to be a modern woman, go find yourself a 50, 50 guy. 0.99
04:42:04.060 You split the bills. Uh, you don't look to him to be taking steps of initiative. You reciprocate
04:42:10.840 the initiative uh but i don't know that that's my perspective um i feel like i'm not a or i shouldn't
04:42:19.360 say i'm not but i'm not someone that's like oh i need a traditional relationship um as far as like
04:42:26.640 modesty goes as you're saying the person the person that wants me for me that likes me and
04:42:33.300 that accepts me for me isn't going to care about the little things like posting a picture in bikini
04:42:38.340 now if i was like posting a picture in bikini and like engaging in people's comments or no offense
04:42:43.840 to those but like having an only fans and stuff like that i would understand why you know they
04:42:48.220 would be like oh okay like you don't mean you're you're seeking the male validation you're seeking
04:42:52.980 male attention that i would understand but if i'm doing something for me because it makes me happy
04:42:58.600 i don't really see the problem now if this is a relationship i really want something that is
04:43:04.480 really bothering my significant other and there is a conversation i am open-minded i would you
04:43:11.240 know mean change for that person but i don't want to be told what to do i don't want someone to say
04:43:16.080 you cannot do this because it's going to make me not want to stop doing that i mean i'm not
04:43:23.140 convinced that all things need to be a negotiation and have long-winded conversations i don't know
04:43:29.380 why uh maybe sometimes you can just defer to a man's better judgment on this particular issue
04:43:35.560 but uh let me ask you two questions is it your preference to date men who play video games are
04:43:40.940 you fine with the guy who plays video games i could be but it's not your preference though
04:43:46.480 i wouldn't say that i i would once again say it's situational i talked to a guy long distance who
04:43:52.080 would rather sit there and play video games all day but then claim that he liked me i feel like
04:43:56.020 how do you like me if you don't want to get to know me because you're playing video games all
04:43:59.600 day? How could a woman like me if I'm supposed to be, depending on how serious we are, should be 1.00
04:44:07.700 the most important person in her life, assuming it's quite serious at this point. I'm the one
04:44:14.240 she loves. I'm her boyfriend. But she insists on continuing to post bikini photos to Instagram for
04:44:23.380 validation of strangers the only validation a woman really ought to get or ought to even need 0.76
04:44:29.940 is the validation of her partner but if he's not validating me because he's stuck playing video 0.97
04:44:34.800 games today then then you well hold on what do we mean are you getting are you having sex with
04:44:40.480 the guy that there you go there's your validation but you should not be seeking external validation
04:44:45.180 look i know it's like maybe i'm a bit older i'm 37 now uh y'all grew up with cell phones y'all 0.54
04:44:52.160 we're 10 years old on the cell phone doom scrolling and shit whatever uh you know people
04:44:57.960 lived lives without needing to blast out to total strangers on the internet what you had for 0.89
04:45:03.780 breakfast needing to show people all the experiences you're having needing people to see what you look
04:45:10.100 like uh total strangers you're even uh friends or even perhaps male pursuers despite you being
04:45:19.160 in a relationship people got on people had you know people had uh relationships and it wasn't
04:45:26.420 really that a need but now uh people are so attention motivated so validation motivated that
04:45:34.500 the thought of uh hunkering down on women's attention drive is just oh my god that's very
04:45:43.080 controlling right uh what about porn would you prefer to date a guy who doesn't watch porn in a
04:45:48.600 relationship i don't really you don't care no really it doesn't necessarily bother me um
04:45:55.880 really okay i'll believe you i'll believe you women find it a form of cheating i do not okay
04:46:02.100 all right well hey i mean at least your own consistent i guess i think a lot of women have
04:46:07.900 an issue with their boyfriend watching porn in relationships maybe not again not all women but
04:46:12.460 i think a lot of women this is a perhaps a bit of a red flag for some of them uh same with the
04:46:17.380 video game thing but it seems like here here i am as a man i'm not going to make a defense of men
04:46:23.220 who watch porn who play a lot of video games to the point where perhaps it has an impact on the
04:46:28.740 relationship or even if it doesn't look even if it's like you could tell your girlfriend look 0.99
04:46:33.220 we don't fuck every single day i'm gonna watch porn once a week i'm gonna i'm gonna masturbate 1.00
04:46:40.960 i'm not addicted to it i still think you're beautiful i'm still gonna fuck you 1.00
04:46:44.540 women will still be upset like nah motherfucker you're not gonna watch porn even if we're having 1.00
04:46:52.060 sex as much as i want as much as the woman wants to and he's he's not having erectile dysfunction 1.00
04:46:57.640 he's still in love with her i think a woman a woman will still be like no zero porn i don't 0.96
04:47:05.320 want you watching porn or at least that's her preference and i think i i mean i don't know i
04:47:13.400 think uh that would be my comparison here is that uh i personally haven't had like this issue in a
04:47:22.000 relationship but i i know like from other people they say like if your man watches porn whatever 0.85
04:47:28.500 then he'll pretty much compare the sex to like a porn star and you know then it will go downhill 0.52
04:47:35.600 from there sure uh i'm trying to think if there was anything else on this topic uh let me do uh 0.97
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04:48:44.100 thank you guys okay uh i don't know i need to get up momentarily uh take it away
04:48:50.820 i was gonna say something about the porn um like with my with my younger boys well both of them
04:49:00.080 were young i don't want them watching it because i don't want them to have that warped perception
04:49:05.180 you know what sex is gonna be like
04:49:07.780 of what their girl should be able to do 1.00
04:49:10.080 that's acting
04:49:10.660 and I told my 15 year old
04:49:12.920 because he watches it I've walked in on it
04:49:15.320 I said that's acting
04:49:17.160 don't expect that
04:49:18.980 I try to be up front about it because
04:49:21.120 you know there's some crazy stuff out there
04:49:23.380 so yeah
04:49:24.320 I know that it's something that people
04:49:27.460 can get addicted to
04:49:28.760 it's just I guess
04:49:31.360 maybe something that I'm a little naive
04:49:33.300 against since I've never dealt with it
04:49:35.100 but i like i said if if like i was in a relationship and let's say like okay i've
04:49:41.400 been gone for the past three days you know i mean and my man was like oh you know i'm like what have
04:49:46.220 you been up to and he like told me like oh like i watched porn last night i'd be like okay you know
04:49:50.320 like to me i wouldn't think anything of it because like in my head it's like oh i'm not there
04:49:54.740 you know but now if we were together like i've had friends be like oh you know i mean i didn't 0.98
04:50:01.500 feel like having sex so my boyfriend yeah put on porn and jacked off next to me i'd be like that's 0.98
04:50:05.420 like so ick ish you know what i mean like you couldn't just contain yourself for one night 1.00
04:50:11.320 that that's what you did or like go relieve yourself in the bathroom like but you just
04:50:14.420 decided to do that that's where it feels disrespectful exactly because at that point
04:50:18.320 it feels like a sex addiction like oh yeah i can't go without it because you don't want to 1.00
04:50:22.660 have you won't give it to me okay i'm gonna get it in that case i would understand why women are
04:50:26.540 like oh i don't want my man to watch porn okay that's a whole other issue like right like having 1.00
04:50:30.320 a sex addiction like not being able to go without it for like one or like yeah you know like yeah 0.93
04:50:35.600 you need it every single night yeah like that or having to watch it before you have sex with
04:50:40.540 your girlfriend like oh i need to like yeah yeah some people do i mean if it's if it's like agreed 0.98
04:50:47.240 upon then whatever yeah yeah do your own thing whatever no judgment but yeah if it's like a
04:50:53.440 one-sided situation yeah no that's not gonna happen yeah that's that's fair you just seem
04:51:00.040 very like chill and i am a very chill i feel like there's just like so many things that like don't
04:51:05.560 really bother me until they happen that i'm like oh yeah now it's like oh wait but like i said
04:51:10.980 it's not everybody like i try not to put everyone in a bubble you know because just like portrait
04:51:15.880 saying before like i'm different you're different she's different we're not the same people so like
04:51:19.980 categorizing put everybody in a bubble is like so unfair you know and there's a lot of topics
04:51:26.160 where like I'll say and my friends would be like oh that's so wrong and I'm like okay yeah to you
04:51:30.500 but you and I are not the same person but it's like it is what it is like my ex had a really 0.94
04:51:36.180 bad sex addiction and I just like didn't care for it so it was like sorry sex a sex oh my god 0.85
04:51:42.280 sex addiction addiction thank you and it's just something that I'm not like oh my god I have to 0.90
04:51:48.600 have sex every day like this is like you know i mean the one thing i'm looking forward to every
04:51:52.960 day so it was something that we fought about a lot and it was like to me it was what ultimately
04:51:59.620 ended our relationship because it got to the point where like it got violent got physical and i was
04:52:04.320 just like i can't do this anymore because it became a problem but it was never about porn it
04:52:08.480 was simply just about sex so yeah i can see why it would get crazy but like something as small as
04:52:14.080 porn to me isn't like a big to do you know every like everyone's watched it before like
04:52:21.040 said it was an addiction fine but like we've all been curious or like wanted to get off one night
04:52:26.820 like let me just watch it this is just like a thought I had so like in my mind because I've
04:52:35.140 never had experience with this in my mind I'm like thinking like oh if he just wants to watch
04:52:38.720 porn sometimes it's fine but what if you find out the porn is very specific and it's not at all like
04:52:44.040 yeah like that excited yeah i think i'd be like am i your type or no yeah what are we doing here
04:52:52.960 am i wasting my freaking time they have all yeah yeah like you should probably be with someone
04:52:58.300 else because it looks like it's you don't want to be with me but no like i have like kind of
04:53:02.440 like a personal question which you don't have to answer but i get a lot of backlash because like
04:53:06.200 men like if i'm in a relationship they'll like be like oh you don't like you don't like self-pleasure
04:53:11.260 and i'll be like no that's not my thing per se you know and they think that's weird so like
04:53:16.460 what do you guys think about that like do you think a girl that doesn't self-pleasure
04:53:19.840 is weird no yeah like no some just don't aren't just aren't as interested you know and i don't
04:53:27.480 i don't even do it a lot like people like like yeah like yeah like you don't really do it i'm
04:53:32.540 like no i don't i don't need it all the time no you know i just like i have never like don't do
04:53:40.040 I feel like the thought of it makes me uncomfortable so I've never even explored that route but so many
04:53:46.160 people are like oh that's what you're missing that's why this happens to you or that's why
04:53:49.780 you're depressed I'm like yeah and I get it other women I love it I'm gonna encourage I'm gonna
04:53:55.740 support but like for me I feel like other women that backlash that I get from them I'm just like
04:54:00.300 you don't get it because you don't feel the same way that I do but that's why I wanted to ask
04:54:04.980 because like maybe you know from a different perspective for women that do you could be like
04:54:08.700 well it's life-changing you know it is like do you mind do you ever like orgasm during sex not
04:54:18.160 really no no see that's that's where i started self-pleasuring okay because i couldn't get
04:54:24.080 through sex you'll learn your get through it as in like you would stop or you would just be like
04:54:28.660 no i'd go through it but it's like okay this is yeah yeah that's pretty much my life yeah
04:54:32.700 but that's when i started self-pleasuring okay yeah that's that's fair i yeah okay but yeah i
04:54:39.660 don't i don't think i've ever like not been satisfied if that makes sense like even my
04:54:45.340 sister would be like i feel like half the reason why xyz happens is because you aren't satisfied
04:54:50.740 and you don't know it because it's never happened and then like the first time it happened she and
04:54:54.980 you know i was like oh my god that was like super wild she's like see what i told you and i was like
04:54:58.840 Yeah, but if that happened every time, like, I think I'd be a psychopath because, like, I'd be like, bro, you're not going anywhere, like, get in the closet, you know what I mean?
04:55:05.480 You'd be like the boyfriend.
04:55:06.660 You'd be like the boyfriend.
04:55:08.000 Right.
04:55:09.600 So, I mean, I get it, but I feel like there's so many ups and downs to that topic that it's, like.
04:55:15.600 There are.
04:55:16.080 Yeah.
04:55:16.220 It's a sticky situation.
04:55:19.120 Right.
04:55:19.300 Either way.
04:55:19.920 Literally.
04:55:20.020 You know, both ways. 1.00
04:55:20.760 It's hard to find that happy medium where both parties are happy and then you've got to worry about fucking cheating and shit. 1.00
04:55:26.260 Yeah. 0.99
04:55:26.520 and being cheated on is the worst it is the worst feeling ever yeah yeah that'll send your ego
04:55:33.840 crashing yeah or just like even like your you know self-esteem or your self-worth i would probably
04:55:38.640 never be able to like even try to be with the guy again if i got i was gonna say would you take
04:55:43.540 someone back after i cheat on you no hell no no no i did that once that was trail no worst mistake
04:55:49.880 i'd never date a guy that that would cheat like just in general because if they'll cheat 0.81
04:55:55.180 With you they'll cheat on you
04:55:57.480 Yeah that's true
04:55:58.140 Yeah I made that mistake once
04:56:00.760 See how that ended
04:56:03.080 It's fair
04:56:04.320 It happens we live and we learn
04:56:06.600 Nothing's worse than when you actually catch them
04:56:09.540 It's one thing to see a message
04:56:13.400 But when you
04:56:14.180 That's what happened to me last year
04:56:15.600 I walked in on my ex
04:56:17.980 Someone else and I actually
04:56:19.820 Almost went to jail 0.98
04:56:20.780 You guys talking about orgasms 0.86
04:56:25.180 or something we're talking about cheating a little bit so wait you said you've never come 0.96
04:56:30.000 during sex or who was that i did me i never come during sex yeah we were show your hand raise the 0.90
04:56:35.700 hands who's never climaxed no during sex like just you two you i'm abstaining can you speak 0.98
04:56:42.520 into the mic i'm abstaining okay that's fine uh you know i want to talk about a different orgasm 0.97
04:56:48.220 gap though so there is a you know i've heard from a lot of women that they don't come during sex you
04:56:54.700 know from on the show not in my personal life uh okay hyper so far but uh you know i've encountered
04:57:05.780 a different issue and this is a this is the a different orgasm gap us men we can really only
04:57:15.040 come once now there's a refractory there's a refractory well hold on there's a refractory
04:57:21.780 period yeah and uh you know it changes as you age but the refractory period nathan why are you 0.98
04:57:28.780 smiling nathan's like i know what this motherfucker's talking about uh but uh 0.93
04:57:35.120 usually look you need like 30 minutes to recharge that's like i'd say that's a yeah 0.98
04:57:42.060 right uh sometimes longer yeah it depends on the person sometimes shorter depends how frequently
04:57:49.260 If it's been a long time
04:57:51.440 But if you're having sex every day
04:57:53.780 The refractory period is longer 1.00
04:57:55.280 But y'all women 1.00
04:57:57.880 In one individual 1.00
04:57:59.720 Instance of having sex 0.98
04:58:01.520 Y'all can have multiple orgasms 0.99
04:58:04.020 Not all of you but some of y'all 0.96
04:58:06.040 And I'm feeling jealous over here 0.82
04:58:08.120 Like I only get to cum once 0.98
04:58:09.340 And y'all are cumming like 10, 20, 30 times 1.00
04:58:12.420 And shit 1.00
04:58:12.760 And I'm just 1.00
04:58:13.640 You know what I mean? 0.99
04:58:16.060 By cumming does that include like squirting 0.98
04:58:19.240 it i mean it can i i have found i feel like a lot of women lie about climaxing okay squirting 0.75
04:58:26.640 i'm 41 it took until i was 39 one guy got me to do it it's yeah yeah it depends
04:58:37.800 yeah but like a lot of women can lie about climaxing well they shouldn't but i mean i
04:58:47.060 I think because I feel bad for the guy, honestly. 0.99
04:58:49.720 We do feel bad. 0.99
04:58:50.540 I mean, yeah, but I feel like it's, is a woman who's going to fake an orgasm, is she's going to fake having multiples? 0.96
04:58:59.100 Or is she just going to fake the one? 0.96
04:59:02.100 The one.
04:59:02.460 Like, I don't think she's going to fake having multiples.
04:59:05.520 Round two, I'm like, yeah.
04:59:07.600 I don't have enough acting.
04:59:08.780 You're not getting anything out of me.
04:59:10.860 If it's in round two, I'm not going to do anything.
04:59:12.080 Yeah. So, I mean, my advice to my advice to women is you should never fake an orgasm ever because it's just bad communication. 0.96
04:59:20.100 And then it's just it sets you up to be because if the man thinks he's pleasuring you, but he's not, you're not going to be pleasured.
04:59:28.940 And you can go about telling him what you like in a diplomatic way.
04:59:33.460 That's not going to, you know, offend his ego.
04:59:37.740 But yeah.
04:59:39.920 No, that's fair. 1.00
04:59:40.600 that's very there's some women who guilty of that but also you shouldn't fake it like look 1.00
04:59:46.440 there's some women who they can't even get themselves off or it's really hard to get 0.87
04:59:51.860 themselves off uh or maybe they can get themselves off easily but it's hard they've had difficulty 1.00
04:59:59.540 with men getting them off because i don't know they're fucking rubik's cube they're fucking 0.99
05:00:03.860 you gotta be hit like doing the exact same right thing for 20 minutes fucking straight and if you 0.99
05:00:09.200 yeah that is true lay off the right angle she's like 80 percent there and you lay off the pressure 0.99
05:00:17.040 for like three seconds you just fuck the entire thing up that's so true though there's some
05:00:21.160 that's so true it is well there's one thing one advice i would give to men is uh if you sense 0.86
05:00:28.280 that the woman's getting close you should not change anything don't change even if don't make 0.68
05:00:34.260 it faster i think it but i understand they get tired well that's true like i understand that
05:00:39.940 i'm getting carpal tunnel syndrome over here trying to get her to come but uh i think that
05:00:45.140 it is really unfair that i've dated multiple women i was like is this going to reveal the
05:00:51.360 body count i'll just say i've dated multiple women who are like multi-orgasmic and it's just it's
05:00:56.340 i'm not even exaggerating they'll come within like 10 seconds and then it's like 10 seconds 0.77
05:01:03.140 10 seconds like well damn i'm jealous it's like a medical disorder it's a medical disorder
05:01:08.360 maybe it's a good one it's like i guess it wouldn't be a disorder if it's actually to 0.76
05:01:14.440 their benefit in this case like i mean that's definitely a good thing like yeah yeah but i
05:01:19.600 would kill for that and i'm like i'm over here like getting my one and their legs are twitching 0.78
05:01:25.680 and shit and they're all like they're exacerbated and shit i don't know so there's ways to delay 0.99
05:01:32.600 your orgasm as a male that is creates sensations akin to ejaculating but without releasing it so 0.99
05:01:39.660 you can get there but it requires a lot of work i've heard of this it's like you have yeah no i've 0.84
05:01:45.540 i've heard of this but it's like you have to do like what is it the male kegels or whatever yeah 0.99
05:01:51.580 yeah you have to like there are certain it's like you gotta fucking meditate and shit you 0.98
05:01:57.360 gotta reach the third plane or i don't know what the fuck it's called yeah no so yes i guess some 0.99
05:02:02.320 men can do that yeah like bust a nut keep going yeah i don't know though because well it's not 1.00
05:02:11.860 she was she was shaking her head like yeah she'd be having dudes who fuck come and keep fucking 0.99
05:02:18.640 okay girl period i mean i'll off i feel like it's like it's actually painful to keep going 0.99
05:02:28.880 like because it's oh it's too sensitive yeah as a girl like for a guy yeah like no okay look i'll 0.98
05:02:36.220 give it i'll explain it like this like girls who keep like during oral sex you gotta stop 0.99
05:02:42.900 you can't keep doing that you can't keep sucking oh after after no like as soon as 1.00
05:02:50.600 pretty much as soon as you you know climax as the guy chill the fuck out bro stop like it's 0.99
05:02:58.300 no like don't keep going like it's too much yeah it's too much it's yeah yeah and i think 1.00
05:03:07.780 vagina after going too many rounds i guess yeah i guess yeah like a clit like a clit don't move 1.00
05:03:14.980 your mouth at all it's the same same for girls don't move your mouth at all just just get off 1.00
05:03:20.580 stay there for 30 seconds stay there wait for oral sex right yeah getting off of it 1.00
05:03:28.660 no you can't you can't just like let it hit the ceiling like no you gotta be a trooper and 1.00
05:03:33.780 you know wait what like hold it in there like holding it in your mouth for a couple seconds
05:03:41.540 no no like stop touching it completely oh yeah okay you mean like let it go limp right just let
05:03:47.580 it fall like stop touching it okay like for head i i figured this was self-explanatory but just 0.55
05:03:55.460 he's shaking his head he's confused too oh now he's ducking it's like this i don't give a lot
05:04:01.940 very simple okay when you're coming as a guy and she's giving you head like she can continue for
05:04:09.680 maybe one or two seconds but then it's gonna be it's basically like that cadence i me personally 1.00
05:04:18.760 it needs to just she can keep the mat oh my god she can keep the mouth on the dick 1.00
05:04:24.100 but she shouldn't continue the the sucking she should not continue the motion like it gotcha 1.00
05:04:30.940 it that shit hurts honestly it's painful i feel you i've heard that yeah you know what i mean 1.00
05:04:39.180 i don't know yep they don't know what i mean i've heard that yeah what the fuck all right 0.99
05:04:44.160 let's get back to the let's get back to the notes here um uh let's get to you know what let's do 0.97
05:04:51.780 cheyenne or maybe we should wait till her friend's back so the friend can laugh at these oh she's 1.00
05:04:56.500 She's coming. 0.92
05:04:56.980 China. 0.99
05:04:57.620 She's coming. 0.99
05:04:59.380 Oh, boy.
05:05:00.960 Oh, boy.
05:05:02.360 Oh, we have a TTS here.
05:05:04.320 Boom.
05:05:05.940 Desert Judge donated $200. 0.63
05:05:09.080 Ladies, on the panel and watching,
05:05:11.740 if you aren't climaxing with your man and you keep faking it to be nice, 1.00
05:05:15.540 you are the shitty partner because you'll never be satisfied, 1.00
05:05:18.960 and he's not a mind reader. 1.00
05:05:21.880 True.
05:05:22.920 Desert Jorge.
05:05:23.920 Well put.
05:05:25.080 Yeah, we're not mind readers.
05:05:26.180 and uh but also it's just like i don't know personally if you can't make me come you can't
05:05:35.100 be my man yeah that's where i was telling you sometimes i see guys and then i see that and
05:05:41.620 they're it's not they're not gonna be able to or whatever i'm like yeah no 0.89
05:05:45.580 you know though this does the female orgasm enjoyable though it may be
05:05:57.720 is not a requisite for procreation i will say that so technically although i it is a goal of
05:06:09.660 mind to achieve uh it isn't necessary for procreation but to be my man yes yeah fair enough
05:06:21.440 fair enough but i'm just saying yeah we should be more honest i mean that's a valid point i
05:06:30.900 understand i totally understand you should look coming from you should look my rule is she comes
05:06:37.300 first preferably multiple times if possible okay so be honest and just keep going until it happens
05:06:44.340 uh i keep working on it or is that like a deal breaker i'm not i'm not making when i say that
05:06:50.780 the female orgasm isn't necessary for procreation i'm not saying that uh from a relationship
05:06:56.100 perspective it's not important i think the man should have be uh wanting to please his partner
05:07:01.420 her, but it can even be a selfish thing too. Like I find it psychologically stimulating for me to
05:07:08.300 make her come and like she gets more wet and it's more. So even from a purely selfish perspective,
05:07:14.840 uh, it seems like it would be conducive to want to make your girlfriend come. Uh, but also just, 0.72
05:07:22.700 I mean, that's, I'm not saying that for me, it's a selfish thing, but I'm saying even if you were
05:07:29.900 selfish like the sex would be better she's going to be more into it i don't know so anyways uh what
05:07:36.400 what are we going to do china china cheyenne china right should we i think we should do you 0.99
05:07:44.400 think we should uh never mind i was going to say if we should annex canada like take it i'm kidding
05:07:51.280 you can try
05:07:52.520 come and take it 0.51
05:07:55.280 over our dead 1.00
05:07:58.340 Canadian bodies 0.65
05:07:59.360 just kidding we love you guys
05:08:01.620 we love you Canadians
05:08:04.520 not all Canadians
05:08:06.520 love you guys though 1.00
05:08:07.680 that is true 1.00
05:08:09.500 well I mean not all Americans like Canadians
05:08:12.520 either but anyways 0.99
05:08:13.340 so China
05:08:16.040 we actually have
05:08:18.520 a video from China can we pull that video 0.66
05:08:20.540 up and it's just the window tab got a video from china uh she's in a toronto this is her doing this
05:08:29.940 is this is her in mexico doing cocaine just kidding in the bathroom just kidding go ahead
05:08:34.900 play it all right so make it one bigger
05:08:38.880 okay yeah pause it there just pause it uh read these read the list into the microphone sure
05:08:51.260 so essentially i said the guy texted me the date went well and then in my mind i'm like
05:08:59.540 he was late for eight minutes his shoes weren't clean he didn't hold the door for me
05:09:05.920 not a single funny joke he has weird palms
05:09:10.800 said yikes three times yeah he uses the same perfume as my dad perfume yeah yeah yeah put his
05:09:22.800 phone face down didn't offer me his jacket when i said it was cold he didn't smile when talking
05:09:30.160 to the waitress his haircut was uneven flexed too much about how much money he makes no flowers
05:09:37.780 though i'm not mad now i think i've seen this before so this wasn't you who wrote this it was
05:09:44.400 not but it was inspired from but i did get the the date went great and i was like meh yeah you
05:09:52.400 didn't think so yeah word pull it up tiffany uh baby butthead spitters or quitters agreed wow
05:10:05.460 don't get me started
05:10:11.260 thank you baby butthead for okay you can uh baby thank you for that appreciate it uh let's see
05:10:20.940 where were we um okay so that's the list you got that whole list there pull it up one more time
05:10:26.360 let me see if there's anything there i wanted to weird palms i like i mentioned it but like i have
05:10:33.920 an ick if the guy's hands are too small or his feet are too small it just like yeah well let's
05:10:40.380 we'll get to your while we do that we'll get to your ick list okay so that one's also so do you
05:10:46.280 remember you sent me your ick list do you remember every single bullet point um maybe not in order
05:10:52.660 but okay let's go through it yeah wait well how before i have you do it who else has an ick list
05:11:00.660 things that give you the ick from a guy kind of i mean if i thought about it can you if you're
05:11:07.760 gonna speak yeah you speak very softly i need you up on the microphone when you're speaking i'll do
05:11:12.700 it yeah i was just saying like if i had like 20 seconds to think of an ick list i probably could
05:11:17.600 but well she's gonna give hers and while she's giving hers you guys can think of it go ahead
05:11:22.300 for the longest time i actually had one in my phone but then i switched phones
05:11:26.160 but yeah so the first one it might not apply for you guys but we speak french and the men out there
05:11:34.780 do not know how to spell right or like not all of them most of them though and we get like these
05:11:42.440 wild like sentence structures that are like so we actually like kind of make fun of certain
05:11:49.320 guys that i just show them the text i'm like yo this is wild like but uh so that's one wait but
05:11:57.280 so they're primarily english speakers no they're french speakers but they don't know how to write
05:12:02.540 oh okay so they're like illiterate yeah yeah but like i think honestly like
05:12:08.540 at least 80 percent if not more are illiterate and text wise yeah yeah but french is i'm actually
05:12:17.640 i'm okay with that i'm not no what i'm saying is i'm okay with you having that
05:12:25.260 like if the guy is not like he communicates i mean i sort of have that too with women if they 0.99
05:12:33.220 talk like they're not to be classist or whatever like they talk like they're fucking retarded 1.00
05:12:39.000 like or they talk ghetto i'm not like no like they talk like their hood rat shit nah not for me 0.99
05:12:46.360 i need a she doesn't have to i was gonna say proper so i get that like i don't i don't like 0.97
05:12:53.360 that so okay next um what was that there uh that yeah um i'm pretty tall i'm 5 8 so if a guy is like
05:13:05.080 near my height or even like i'm yeah so like even 5 10 it's not even their fault but it makes me feel
05:13:12.860 like less feminine or just like less comfortable more aware of my height i'd say so when i'm with
05:13:19.740 someone taller i just like prefer it okay so height so yeah uh i guess what's the minimum
05:13:27.280 um like it's a little controversial but even six foot sometimes i'm like yeah
05:13:33.200 i like preferably six one to six four
05:13:37.540 okay all right so if the guy's six foot it might give you the ick
05:13:46.560 yes if they have short hands like small hands like small hands or small feet and they're like
05:13:55.020 six or under what about my hands they're fine these are fine hands yeah i feel like they're
05:14:03.040 a little feminine to be honest they're very they're fine they're piano you know you ever
05:14:08.300 seen a guy like a guy who has thick like thick meaty hands i got kind of thin hands like for
05:14:13.900 playing the piano i wouldn't give them a 10 out of 10 but yeah okay i'll let you do you want to
05:14:18.980 show them again here i'll show the back and the side i'd give them a 6.5 do i have weird palms
05:14:27.440 are the palms weird i think they could be like your hands could be long like the fingers could 0.93
05:14:34.440 be longer could be longer a little bit yeah or thicker i don't know how far back is the fucking 0.96
05:14:38.540 g-spot what the fuck you know like the digit ratio thing like the court like the if your ring 0.99
05:14:44.440 finger is longer than your index finger it like correlates to the amount of testosterone that you 0.99
05:14:48.540 i think it was exposed to in the womb and if your index finger is longer than your ring finger it's
05:14:53.460 like more estrogen and so if your ring finger is longer it's like uh it's an indicator i think
05:14:59.540 i don't have more testosterone i mean i don't remember if it's more testosterone or exposed
05:15:03.860 to more testosterone but it's like for me like i have a longer ring finger and a but it's more 0.82
05:15:09.960 common for sorry i have a longer i have a longer ring finger but for females it's more common to
05:15:15.980 have a longer index finger it's like a correlation there's a wikipedia page if you look up digit
05:15:20.280 ratio thing on wikipedia it'll explain it okay that's cool anyways next did you rate my yeah
05:15:29.500 six six is 0.5 okay yeah valid next um if they still live at their parents i just can't oh girl
05:15:37.600 can't do that you're how old are you 29 yeah okay the economy's rough i would say do you know
05:15:44.120 living in america right now i'm 28 i'm still living i'm still living with my parents man i
05:15:48.500 live in new jersey we'll do like roommates that's like a con like roommates sure but if you're just
05:15:54.000 Like, I have to go to your parents' house.
05:15:56.460 Like, that's crazy.
05:15:58.460 Sort of.
05:15:59.300 I mean, 29.
05:16:00.640 So, okay, you're dating guys.
05:16:01.520 Mind you, I'm, like, a house owner.
05:16:03.860 So, like, for me to go to a guy's parents is only a house.
05:16:07.660 Yeah.
05:16:08.100 How much is a house in Canada?
05:16:09.180 I mean, it's not totally unreasonable.
05:16:11.500 But.
05:16:12.200 And even if you have to go through the fenster.
05:16:15.240 The what?
05:16:15.880 The window.
05:16:16.900 Window, window, window.
05:16:17.920 The fenster?
05:16:19.040 The fenster.
05:16:20.220 No, no, no.
05:16:20.700 Can you put that down?
05:16:21.800 Oh, okay, yeah.
05:16:21.820 I will mention this.
05:16:22.820 Yeah, like that.
05:16:24.000 This is a funny one, but I was, like, talking to a guy, like, here, known him for a while, shout out Max, and at some point he's like, we were at a festival or something, and he lived a little closer to the festival, and he was like, oh, do you guys want to come, like, sleep over or something, and I'm like, look at her, do you want to go?
05:16:46.860 she's like sure but mind you I don't know of like anything that's going on like where he lives or
05:16:52.320 whatnot and then he's like well my parents aren't here but there's cameras so you you're gonna have
05:16:58.040 to go through the window I'm like excuse me you think I'm gonna go through a window to come see
05:17:05.300 you hell no so I essentially told him I'm like sorry but that was a huge ick we're not at the
05:17:11.740 same place in life i can't that's that's fair with you anymore that's fair so we haven't talked
05:17:17.320 since okay so there's the there's that yeah um if like i feel like guys usually take care of their 0.99
05:17:26.580 cars so i don't know if you're i get into your car and it's like a fucking shit show there what 0.90
05:17:34.180 if there's like one no that's fine like one thing no no that's okay here i'm gonna i have your list 0.99
05:17:40.160 I have your list, I'm going to read it
05:17:42.100 When they say that everything's expensive
05:17:45.300 Example, a $7
05:17:47.160 Water bottle at a
05:17:49.140 Themed park
05:17:49.960 I'm not going to lie, $7 for a ball of 1.00
05:17:53.180 Water is bullshit 0.99
05:17:54.040 It is expensive, but refusing to buy 1.00
05:17:57.280 It if you need it
05:17:58.800 Hold on, if you need water
05:18:01.320 I mean
05:18:01.840 You gotta get the water
05:18:04.820 You don't want to be passing out
05:18:05.840 Complaining about it
05:18:07.000 yeah it's just like okay obviously if uh we're looking at a mansion you're saying like this is
05:18:13.220 a pricey house sure but if like your things under 20 and that you're comparing it to like
05:18:24.140 you're saying that this item for what it's worth is a lot and repeatedly it's kind of an ick
05:18:31.260 i think it's harder if a guy's just like who cares we need water like let's do it i think
05:18:39.540 well so okay but we need to differentiate between like okay you need the thing and 0.98
05:18:44.660 he buys it anyways or if he refuses to do it but like okay he buys the fucking thing 0.92
05:18:49.520 if it happens once and it's no but if it's i would be look 0.98
05:18:55.100 let's say i make millions of dollars let's just say
05:19:02.380 and somebody wanted to sell me a ball of water for seven dollars i can afford it it's not a problem 1.00
05:19:11.160 seven dollars for a fucking bottle of water that's fucking bullshit that's bullshit 1.00
05:19:18.080 fuck that like i don't know somebody uh i'm trying to think of something i'm trying to think 1.00
05:19:24.480 of an example another example i mean the bottle of water one's perfect but it's from past experiences 0.99
05:19:29.600 that sometimes i just keep oh this is expensive this is expensive well can i ask you this let's
05:19:35.080 say you let's say you were a billionaire yeah and so you could you could spend a thousand dollars
05:19:39.640 on a water bottle from costco uh and by the way it's like 40 for five dollars
05:19:45.020 you wouldn't even as a billionaire you wouldn't be like a two a thousand dollar water bottle 0.97
05:19:51.820 like that that's uh 10 cents in costco 20 cents at costco well that's bullshit i've heard billionaires 0.76
05:19:59.180 on like podcasts and this and that say that they don't really know the price of like small things
05:20:04.420 because they don't take care of that kind of thing well so that's different though so that's
05:20:07.980 just like so i think if i were a billionaire i wouldn't even know what the price would be
05:20:12.980 well i mean you would have some unless you've been a billionaire your entire life
05:20:17.480 and you don't even look at the price even then i mean come on uh knowing what you know about 0.99
05:20:24.020 water bottles and if you got a billion dollars tomorrow you'd be like what the fuck water a 0.98
05:20:28.680 thousand dollar water bottle that's okay but that's different no but that's difference okay 0.99
05:20:33.620 uh that would still be bullshit because you could go to costco and buy the water bottle 40 0.83
05:20:41.140 40 water bottles for five dollars i would look at it and probably in my mind be like
05:20:47.200 weird but okay but i wouldn't be like repeatedly let me ask you a question mentioning it let me
05:20:54.720 ask you a question if you didn't have breakfast this morning how would you feel i didn't you
05:21:01.920 didn't have sorry fast no but repeat that i didn't have breakfast this morning you did or didn't did
05:21:08.280 not you did not have breakfast this morning and i didn't complain about it yeah how would you feel
05:21:13.720 if you didn't have breakfast this wait let me ask did you have breakfast yesterday no when's the 1.00
05:21:19.160 last time you what get this girl some fucking pancakes when's the last time you had breakfast 1.00
05:21:24.700 girl uh i don't know two three weeks ago all right two or three weeks ago when you had breakfast 0.99
05:21:30.040 had you not had breakfast how would you feel it's fine i'm on adderall i'm not really hungry in the
05:21:36.160 morning i guess that's kind of an answer all right all right i eat from like two to ten
05:21:44.520 three yeah all right uh okay uh so if they don't have a car it's an ick you have a car
05:21:52.160 yeah uh if they have a dirty car we talked about that is your car clean no
05:21:56.160 double stand are you guys renting a car no wait how long you guys here for in california
05:22:06.160 um when y'all leave uh tuesday oh on tuesday okay all right we're gonna take a train tomorrow
05:22:12.180 got it okay uh let's see when they're when they're cheap and they don't want to spend a lot that
05:22:18.180 gives you the ick yeah but it's even it's most like obviously to some degree on me but it's when
05:22:24.400 they're not even like spending on themselves they're you know what i'm like depriving
05:22:32.220 a certain standard.
05:22:34.640 Can I ask you a question? Do you think I dress nicely?
05:22:37.700 Well, you have your
05:22:38.660 whatever shirt
05:22:40.900 right now. 1.00
05:22:43.720 The fuck? 1.00
05:22:44.300 She just looks right at my penis. 1.00
05:22:46.760 I didn't know it, but... 0.99
05:22:47.920 She just looks right down Main Street.
05:22:50.920 Well, right off the bat, I'd say
05:22:52.740 no, you're
05:22:53.720 prioritizing comfort at the moment.
05:22:56.400 That's true. That's how I like to dress.
05:22:58.480 And advertising your brand. Right, but I mean, it's not
05:23:00.340 very stylish i don't dress stylish right i don't care um but uh i have the money to dress stylishly 0.97
05:23:07.780 i could buy i don't know i don't frankly this is how much i don't give a fuck i don't even know 0.94
05:23:12.920 what the nice brands are what is it fucking gucci what is the nice well i'm like that too 0.95
05:23:18.360 like my uh i don't spend like on for clothing and person stuff like that right 0.70
05:23:25.960 But you said if the guy doesn't spend a lot on themselves, but also on dates.
05:23:31.520 Here, let me give you an example.
05:23:34.060 So I do fairly well.
05:23:35.640 I'm not going to say how much I make, but I do well. 1.00
05:23:38.620 Now, my girlfriend, future girlfriend, I'm not going to get married, fuck that. 0.99
05:23:43.460 But I will have kids with a woman, hopefully a lot. 1.00
05:23:49.180 And she's not going to have to work. 1.00
05:23:50.580 she doesn't if
05:23:52.100 I mean
05:23:53.740 she wouldn't have to work right 1.00
05:23:57.080 if she's I don't know
05:23:58.240 it's not necessarily a deal
05:24:01.220 breaker but like when we have kids
05:24:03.240 it would be my strong preference that
05:24:04.960 okay let's
05:24:07.040 focus on the kids right
05:24:08.360 up until that point
05:24:11.040 she wants to work don't really
05:24:13.080 care all that much 1.00
05:24:14.040 but anyways I can take care of everything
05:24:17.020 I'm in the financial position to do it
05:24:18.660 she's never getting a louis vuitton bag she's never getting you know uh i'm not going to ever
05:24:27.920 waste thousands of dollars on a designer thing no but that might my my financial expenditure
05:24:36.760 might manifest in other ways like the house will be nicer the vacations or it might be
05:24:43.960 for the benefit of our kids even though i might have the money to i could certainly afford to buy
05:24:50.020 her some very nice bag so does that uh what i just described is that icky to you no it's more
05:24:59.180 so let's say you can afford a somewhat decent car like doesn't have to be a bugatti but like a 0.94
05:25:06.540 good and functional honda civic but you keep your shitty car that barely works for
05:25:16.300 i don't know 15 years or something and right upgrade when you can okay it's kind of like
05:25:23.580 you said if they have short legs that gives you the
05:25:27.380 yeah like once i i had a guy sleep over
05:25:34.560 he was like tried to cuddle with me wait can i have you yeah yeah sorry to the mic um he like
05:25:43.080 tried to cuddle with me and then he put his legs near mine and then i just realized you know what 0.99
05:25:48.580 we're gonna do um can uh maybe tiffany you can help out we're gonna i want to give her the taller 1.00
05:25:55.580 mic because she's kind of tall so that mic is going to go under the table we're going to scoot
05:26:00.520 those two mics over yeah sorry better with that one it was just it was bothering me uh no no here
05:26:04.980 give it to tiffany give it to tiffany tiffany you put it somewhere where it won't get kicked
05:26:08.720 probably just right in front there all right scoot the mics down for me all right is that good
05:26:14.980 do you know how to turn the mic off yeah that should have been nine you muted it uh chat just
05:26:23.240 say testing testing testing testing can you guys hear chat i'm sure it's fine um do you see the
05:26:29.020 chat you guys team do they hear testing testing testing testing testing yep okay cool continue on
05:26:40.520 yeah so we were in bed he tried to like cuddle me a little bit and then i don't know i just felt
05:26:48.560 that his legs were much shorter than mine i was like oh why did i bring him over i was like hesitant
05:26:56.140 from the get-go but i kind of just like he asked can i sleep over let me think about it and then i
05:27:04.860 was like legs okay but yeah yeah and then that happened i was like hell no and then uh i kind
05:27:14.200 of scooched over and the crazy thing is this man proceeded to say that he had a threesome with
05:27:21.260 milana and i which is complete bull he never kissed me or did the closest thing was sleep over 0.64
05:27:30.820 and touch you with the short legs yeah short legs so yeah okay cool cool uh what else what 0.91
05:27:41.300 else is on your ick list uh if they have small hands and feet oh bald and balding ick yeah um i 0.76
05:27:49.220 my ex-boyfriend was well like bald slash balding but it did kind of low-key give me the ick yeah
05:27:58.340 low-key gave you the ick okay uh so question let's say you know as you get older you're going
05:28:04.780 to be dating a guy who you know say the guy you marry or whatever yeah he's going to get older
05:28:08.760 as men get older um some i mean look some men can go into their 50s 60s be totally fine
05:28:15.580 uh what about in that situation you're already dating him and he starts going bald
05:28:19.880 um or is he going to get a transplant maybe well what if he doesn't want like are you going to
05:28:25.740 pressure him to get a transplant no but if he talks about it about it and it's like should i
05:28:31.200 i'm like yeah let's go together to turkey do a little trip okay uh you said out of shape 0.99
05:28:37.360 slash belly fat yeah well i'm fucked uh if they uh okay sure that's fine uh if they often eat 0.99
05:28:47.160 fast food don't yeah okay yeah that's fine yeah i i'm personally when's the last time you had fast 0.99
05:28:53.440 food today we went to um how's it called in and out or something but i um took out the bread and
05:29:01.460 everything and i just took the meat and like a like cheese and ketchup yeah good for you uh if
05:29:08.120 they're if they're obsessed with camping it gives you the ick yeah i'm not a camper like i don't
05:29:13.700 understand why people go on vacation to downgrade their lifestyle personally if i'm going on
05:29:20.600 vacation i want to upgrade it so i just don't get it and also yeah i don't like mosquitoes and
05:29:26.840 feeling dirty i like to shower but you know what glamping it actually yeah i sort of agree with you
05:29:35.740 so but like if a girl's into camping or she's outdoorsy it doesn't give me the ick yeah like
05:29:41.120 i'm not turned off by it but i just don't like camping that that's it so if they want to go do
05:29:48.320 those things i feel like i'll probably kind of like end up doing it and i'm just not gonna enjoy
05:29:53.480 because i feel like you know look we built all of this to get away from that in the sense that
05:30:01.220 i don't know we have a lot of modern comforts yeah i don't mind doing like an excursion in
05:30:08.440 nature and everything but once we go back home like home i want to be comfy you know yeah i don't 0.73
05:30:13.700 want to right live in a being a fucking tent and there's ants and shit and i could maybe do it one 0.96
05:30:20.540 night but not two fair enough if they're too hairy yeah and the worst part is like i've the last 0.98
05:30:27.980 few guys i've been are on the hairier side of the spectrum but it's just like
05:30:34.060 if you like touch them and then it's their backs hairy and yeah okay that gives you the
05:30:41.020 look yeah back hair agree it's all you have a long ick list yeah i do but they're i think some
05:30:47.380 these are kind of yeah these are kind of preference-y so yeah yeah you know i there's
05:30:52.140 not too much pushback on some of these but um do you have an issue with men who don't want
05:30:57.460 hairy women uh no because i've done laser pretty much everywhere on my body so i yeah i prefer is
05:31:06.140 that self or you go to like a place yeah i went to a place but i'm lucky because with my like i'm
05:31:13.740 have dark hair and stuff but i'm not like particularly hairy but i just prefer it
05:31:19.820 do you think because i've heard some women say as an argument that men who prefer women
05:31:25.720 uh who have less hair or who groom that that it's like creepy that guys that groom wait no that
05:31:36.680 guys that prefer women who grew like who are uh through grooming who are hairless to have that
05:31:43.340 preference as a guy they say it's creepy down there i've heard that before yeah yeah why is
05:31:47.920 like a little like i don't think it's like yeah like a little girl but what they're trying to
05:31:52.360 allude to is these women maybe they have arm hair or whatever yeah and men who prefer women who
05:32:00.440 don't have like body hair arm hair etc um this is somehow indicative that to put it bluntly that 0.93
05:32:07.880 they're pedophiles i disagree which i think is ridiculous no yeah i think that's taking it way
05:32:12.240 too far yes they are can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table for me um that's not 0.99
05:32:17.020 yeah okay uh if they didn't go to college gives you the ick
05:32:22.220 so if they didn't go to college and like they believe in conspiracy theories and like they
05:32:31.380 i don't know if they have like or they're a little more on the like misogynist part of the spectrum
05:32:37.880 and stuff like that or they just have and they didn't go to college i'm like yeah that's that's
05:32:42.140 what's up am i a misogynist i like i watch clips of the show but i haven't got like
05:32:49.780 watched the full nine hours kind of thing so i i don't know you've seen
05:32:55.120 go ahead you can say it if you're massage um massage therapist
05:33:03.840 well some of your stances i don't fully agree with but sure are they misogynistic but some
05:33:12.120 we saw pretty much eye to eye on certain things so i don't know what are the stances you disagree
05:33:17.100 with the abortion thing well i mean that was something we got into tonight but putting that
05:33:22.860 aside uh what is uh other stances you disagree with um for me it's like double standards so if
05:33:31.900 for me if a girl hooks up with a lot of guys and you guys say oh she's a this or that i think
05:33:39.740 it's the same thing for guys if they sleep with any girl even if it's not their type or
05:33:45.880 like for me is that you don't really like value yeah value yourself that much or you don't put
05:33:52.860 yourself to a high standard so i think it's yeah um well so this is my position i don't
05:34:00.220 believe that promiscuity is good in men or women yeah well however however i am prepared to say
05:34:08.500 that i think it's different so there is a double standard there um one of the i guess one of the
05:34:15.060 components is it's really easy for women to get laid and it's relatively comparatively speaking
05:34:21.260 difficult for men to get laid uh so something that is easy to do is typically not going to be viewed
05:34:29.120 in a as charitable of a way well for me but you do you agree with that or you disagree well
05:34:37.060 for me it is difficult because i'm picky you know what i mean like for me to be down to do
05:34:45.560 something with someone i have so many criteria that he's got the ick list yeah so it is probably
05:34:52.200 like your palms are weird yeah well but so that's a bit different though so well you said it's
05:34:59.300 different no well no what i what i'm saying here is is that let me ask you this when the guy does 0.99
05:35:07.520 meet your list yeah how confident are you you can fuck him um pretty yeah pretty confident 0.99
05:35:16.320 men can't say that i think it depends so yeah so yeah yeah well hold on for men when it comes to 0.99
05:35:26.780 even getting laid with women we would never even be in relationships with like we'll get rejected
05:35:32.280 and curved by women who like i guess it wouldn't be objectively speaking but like men will get 0.98
05:35:39.940 rejected and curved by like let's be honest like women who are even below their league right and so 1.00
05:35:46.260 uh for men if you're out there trying to get pussy trying to get laid 0.99
05:35:52.920 that's that can be called getting lucky like if i'm on a date with a woman it's not a given that 0.99
05:36:00.080 we're gonna fuck it's not a given you know in most circumstances but my stance is that if you 0.94
05:36:06.480 hook up with someone you're not even attracted to them and you're doing that multiple times 0.99
05:36:11.860 i i i don't i think it's the same thing as your version of like well okay fine even if i take a
05:36:21.500 guy who only goes on dates with women whom he finds attractive enough to be in relationships
05:36:26.780 with it's not a given that he can get laid like you can shoot your shot as a guy and get rejected
05:36:34.280 10 out of 10 times i'll respect you a lot more if you just hook up with people that or potentially
05:36:39.720 attract like that you are attracted to and might maybe you'll miss maybe well yeah but that's a
05:36:44.640 separate thing that's not really what we're talking about what we're talking about here
05:36:47.640 you're talking about the double standard that exists between men and women where uh you know 0.99
05:36:52.680 they're a woman's a slut and the man's a stud you know the man it's impressive if he fucks a lot of 1.00
05:36:58.880 women whereas it's disgusting if a woman oh my god she's a sturdy slut oh my god that guy is just a 1.00
05:37:04.680 that guy just runs through all these hot beesies like that's a different that's the double standard 0.99
05:37:10.760 you're referencing but and again i don't think men should be promiscuous but uh it's it is 0.99
05:37:19.100 somewhat like if you're a guy and you can fuck a lot of women uh as objectionable as it may be 0.99
05:37:26.340 that communicates something about the man like any woman can be a slut any single one of you 1.00
05:37:33.160 tonight you go out to a fucking bar on a sunday night in fucking small ass santa barbara you can 1.00
05:37:37.920 get some dick within 30 minutes us men most men unless you're unless you're a guy and you're top 1.00
05:37:44.980 top top tier even then it's not a guarantee i can't i can't just at 10 p.m on a tuesday just 1.00
05:37:52.840 be like i need pussy i can't just men most men cannot just at any given moment need some pussy 0.99
05:38:00.540 get some pussy can't do it women at any hour of the night it could be it could be 4 a.m 1.00
05:38:07.200 you hop on tinder come over but i'll disagree there just because i wouldn't be able to 1.00
05:38:14.280 go through it because i'm not attracted to them it would so i just can't get like
05:38:21.160 no a quality guy i find attractive at 4am but that's a filtering that would be a filtering
05:38:28.600 issue but guys don't have that right but so for men to be able to get laid they have to actually
05:38:36.620 be bringing at least regularly right uh they have to be bringing something women okay i'll paint it 0.51
05:38:46.320 like that women don't have to bring anything to get sex it's not impressive like if a woman can 0.99
05:38:52.520 fuck a bunch of dudes like okay if a woman can fuck four men in a night it's like oh okay duh 1.00
05:39:02.200 like that's not really all that challenging for a woman like she could do it for a dude to fuck 1.00
05:39:10.660 four different women like brand new fresh women in the night bro this guy needs to write a 0.99
05:39:16.960 fucking book or something that's insane but regularly like you gotta be i don't know i 0.97
05:39:22.540 drake it's still hard though bro hold on we had i remember this one episode we had a 0.99
05:39:29.480 a below average looking fat woman who said that she was a sex addict and she would be on tinder 1.00
05:39:36.500 and she would literally i know this sounds gross schedule these dudes she would fuck six dudes in a 1.00
05:39:43.960 day 3 p.m 5 p.m 7 p.m 9 p.m like literally and she's below average looking at for a guy to fuck 1.00
05:39:53.520 six women off tinder in a day he has to be a fucking greek god and like the most aesthetic 0.98
05:40:01.200 fucking insane aesthetics and even then if i'm a betting man i don't think he's doing it i don't 1.00
05:40:09.300 think most men now look maybe goes on it he sets up some dates and maybe he gets pussy down the 0.99
05:40:14.680 road i don't think even the greek god dude can i don't know if i'm if it's my life savings 0.99
05:40:21.620 i'm not i'm not i'm not going all in on greek god guy being able to fuck six women and i don't know 0.98
05:40:31.320 i'm not going all in i'm just saying but a woman you give me i would rather place my money on a 1.00
05:40:38.460 chubby not obese but let's say she's a little chubby and she's average in the face i would 1.00
05:40:44.160 quicker put my money on her fucking six dudes than i would put all my money chips all in on 1.00
05:40:52.320 greek god giga chad 10 out of 10 then then him getting six women or at least like who can fuck 1.00
05:41:01.740 more quicker i guess but doesn't it take six dudes to fuck this one girl right how would that be 0.99
05:41:07.020 relevant though well you need some guys to do it so they're getting laid to some degree 0.97
05:41:14.520 i suppose but the idea here is it's super easy for women to get laid it's difficult for men to
05:41:21.300 get laid so it's more it's like more impressive uh the other component here is that there's a
05:41:28.520 well hold on there's a couple different reasons 0.99
05:41:30.120 promiscuity in women is grosser it's more disgusting i disagree right well i'll explain 1.00
05:41:39.060 why i'll explain why and i think you guys will agree with me by the end of it so if a woman 0.99
05:41:45.720 let's say let's say in both instances so the man version and the female version 0.71
05:41:52.020 they're fucking without a condom but let's remove stds from this hold on oh people are 0.91
05:41:58.120 fucking without condoms trust okay so let's remove stds from this but i mean we could even 0.99
05:42:03.620 incorporate std argument if i have sex with a woman and then i hop in the shower 0.99
05:42:09.780 say i came inside of her right i hop in the shower and there's no std or whatever 0.97
05:42:15.660 i might as well and i soap and whatever i might as well be a virgin 1.00
05:42:21.240 dick as good as new 1.00
05:42:23.720 dick as good as new 1.00
05:42:25.540 it's true literally you 0.72
05:42:27.740 hop in the shower because our parts
05:42:29.680 look it's physiologically true
05:42:31.280 our parts are external 1.00
05:42:33.660 we can wash that shit 1.00
05:42:35.400 if a guy nuts inside of you 1.00
05:42:38.100 who's netting
05:42:38.920 this is granted in the hypothetical 1.00
05:42:41.120 if I nutting a girl versus
05:42:42.920 okay fine 1.00
05:42:46.220 her pussy is overflowing with juice 1.00
05:42:48.360 and it's all over me 1.00
05:42:49.700 It's literally fucking like a waterfall. 1.00
05:42:52.660 And it's, I don't know, the bed is leaking with her pussy juice. 1.00
05:42:55.200 She squirts all over, whatever the fuck. 1.00
05:42:57.960 I take a shower, good as fucking new. 1.00
05:43:01.620 She can shower too. 1.00
05:43:02.700 Nope.
05:43:03.820 Hold on.
05:43:04.840 A guy comes in you. 1.00
05:43:08.420 Okay, it's not advised that women, you should not put soap in your pussy. 1.00
05:43:13.820 You can't soap that shit out. 1.00
05:43:15.480 I don't even think you're really supposed to fucking put water up in there to that degree. 0.99
05:43:19.220 No, it just comes out 1.00
05:43:20.280 So, if I could fuck a girl 1.00
05:43:22.580 I take a shower, one hour later 1.00
05:43:24.820 I'm with another girl 1.00
05:43:25.920 Dick is good as new 1.00
05:43:29.040 You fuck a guy 1.00
05:43:30.860 And then one hour later 1.00
05:43:32.440 You're fucking another guy 1.00
05:43:33.880 You have another man's cum still inside of you 1.00
05:43:36.680 Well, that's a wild thing to do 1.00
05:43:39.500 Right 1.00
05:43:39.860 For a woman, too 1.00
05:43:41.040 Wait, but hold on 1.00
05:43:42.680 So if the woman's a slut 1.00
05:43:45.000 And she fucked a guy the night before 1.00
05:43:46.680 uh yeah there's there's dna up inside of her but then the guy's a slut too right yeah well because 1.00
05:43:53.180 you can't just you can't just wash off a body oh wait wait hold on but i'm talking about 1.00
05:43:57.080 physiological like fucking bacteria here i'm willing to i'm i'm not gonna argue men can't 1.00
05:44:03.380 be sluts i totally agree with you men are sluts anyways back to this yes men can be sluts they 1.00
05:44:08.100 can fuck a lot of women uh promiscuity and males are bad however the reason it's worse in women 1.00
05:44:13.260 is for fucking literally bacterial motherfucking reasons literally dna uh it's gross it's gross 1.00
05:44:21.060 to think you could fuck a woman and she's got another dude's fucking seed in her that's 1.00
05:44:26.700 disgusting but if i wash my dick i'm good as new but you're only talking about people who are 1.00
05:44:32.880 having unprotected sex well uh yeah if you want to do carve outs um i i suppose you you could do 1.00
05:44:40.840 that but comparing like for like and look let's be real here uh a lot of people are fucking without 1.00
05:44:50.640 condoms okay personally a lot okay well you're a prostitute you have to use condoms uh yeah and 0.99
05:44:57.580 it's like that's but and we're not just like we're talking about promiscuous women so comparing a 0.99
05:45:03.740 promiscuous man to a promiscuous woman then yes she is fucking lots of dudes and yes say she's on 0.98
05:45:11.860 birth control whatever she's letting dudes blast inside her i think if you're responsible and 1.00
05:45:19.040 having multiple partners no but then you're also more likely to get a yeast infection even if you're 0.99
05:45:24.620 using condoms even if you're using condoms maybe the condom breaks even if you're still so from
05:45:33.380 that perspective right it's gross it's more gross and then here's the other component that's
05:45:39.320 evolutionary psychology if i have 10 wives and they're all loyal to me and i'm well loyal to
05:45:47.600 the 10 wives but well we get it and i get them all pregnant
05:45:54.200 and they're loyal to me we know who the father is and for each of the kids we know who the 0.99
05:46:03.240 mother is if a woman has 10 husbands and they're all loyal to her and she's well fucking all of 0.99
05:46:10.780 them who the fuck is the father you don't know you don't know well hold on okay paternity tests 0.99
05:46:18.760 are a modern invention of science back in the are we in 2026 or well hold on but so do you know what 0.99
05:46:25.560 flight or flight is yeah why is it that people have panic attacks and anxiety attacks when there's
05:46:31.260 not an actual uh mountain lion yeah why do i have a panic attack uh when there's not a uh a lion
05:46:40.280 why some do some don't but yeah but why do people have panic attacks but there's not an immediate
05:46:45.900 threat i'm looking for the correct way to say it but it's uh like uh to some i don't know it's a way
05:46:55.380 to like the anticipation of it well it's to protect yourself in certain situations but what is the
05:47:02.840 purpose of the flight or flight response if i'm just chilling in my cave if i'm just chilling in 0.96
05:47:11.540 my cave uh and i'm kicking it fred flintstone shit and there i'm good there's no there's no 0.93
05:47:21.840 saber-toothed tiger what is the purpose of me having a panic attack i don't think you 0.98
05:47:31.180 should have a panic attack if there's but what is that system so when you have a panic attack that's
05:47:36.980 your fight or flight response so that's like saber-toothed tiger danger danger danger i need
05:47:43.400 to run and i need adrenaline to help me run faster and longer and i also need maybe i'm
05:47:49.080 fighting something i need my strength fight or flight adrenaline more strength a way to survive
05:47:54.960 right okay but in the data in for most of you who here has ever had a panic attack
05:48:00.980 uh now did you have a panic attack when a saber-toothed tiger was about to kill you 0.99
05:48:07.040 or did you have a panic attack room ruminating over some fucking bullshit drama that doesn't 1.00
05:48:13.620 actually pose any threat to you i don't think it was a bullshit drama well the idea here is that 0.99
05:48:23.200 what i'm trying to get at is that we have systems in our body uh that
05:48:29.420 that transcend modern uh the sort of comforts of modernity so in this case you say that well
05:48:40.100 we have dna tests okay my feeling as a man if my girlfriend gets pregnant by another man
05:48:49.900 well don't that's bro it's you can't even intellectual it's not a thing you can even 0.99
05:48:56.400 think through and intellectualize so when you're dealing with a promiscuous woman 1.00
05:49:03.240 the reason men have a 1.00
05:49:05.580 a revulsion factor 0.80
05:49:08.040 to promiscuity in women 1.00
05:49:09.560 is promiscuous women 1.00
05:49:11.260 if they're women who are promiscuous 1.00
05:49:13.480 are more likely to cheat on you 1.00
05:49:14.740 so if she's going to cheat on me 1.00
05:49:16.940 the biggest L that you can take as a man 1.00
05:49:18.900 is she fucks around 1.00
05:49:20.820 and you think that kid is yours 1.00
05:49:22.640 she's from fucking France by the way 1.00
05:49:24.940 this is great 1.00
05:49:26.300 if you're dealing with a woman 1.00
05:49:29.540 and she's fucking other men 1.00
05:49:31.600 it's one of the worst because you women can't even empathize i don't even think you understand 1.00
05:49:37.780 because when you have a kid you know it's yours there's no world in which oh he was cheating on 0.98
05:49:44.480 me and the and i thought it was my kid no when you give birth you know that's your kid men can't
05:49:52.200 get pregnant well in all the situations that i'm aware of guys if they were unsure would just get
05:49:57.720 a fraternity test. Okay. So, but that doesn't take away tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands 0.78
05:50:04.320 of years of evolutionary psychology and biology. So the reason men have a greater aversion to
05:50:11.700 female promiscuity is okay. If I'm going to invest all this time and energy and resources in the 1.00
05:50:17.680 child, it better fucking be mine. And if it's not my kid, that is the biggest L for most men that 0.99
05:50:24.300 you can take to be duped by a woman into thinking that it's your kid but it's not that's a dead end 0.98
05:50:30.880 to your fucking bloodline if you just invested 5 10 20 30 years in raising a kid that's not your 0.96
05:50:38.620 blood and so in france actually she's from france they actually banned paternity tests in france 0.99
05:50:46.580 because apparently this is such an issue in france it's so rampant that if men were to i
05:50:53.500 think you can do it with consent or something i believe but the man uh cannot just like 0.93
05:51:00.320 he needs permission or some bullshit can we google this can we google uh france france 0.69
05:51:07.180 paternity test law can you google that um france paternity test law 0.96
05:51:18.400 show us what you got make it bigger please
05:51:26.240 uh one less yeah so private at home recreational paternity test but if you go see a doctor
05:51:36.900 but but so uh purpose the ban is intended to protect the stability of the family unit
05:51:44.080 uh and restrict dna testing to regulated medical so okay uh they're only legal oh wait
05:51:51.120 oh they have to be ordered by a judge oh wait wait it has to be hold on that's a bit conflicting it
05:52:00.800 has to be oh no no no so yeah the judge has to order the paternity test
05:52:08.260 so i wait would this even if the woman consents you can't get like a private at-home test 0.90
05:52:18.960 so wait what if the woman i've never heard of an at-home paternity you can order them like on
05:52:26.960 amazon yeah you can order anything at this point but but the idea here apparently france made a
05:52:33.140 determination let me ask can you ask why oh wait actually affiliation over purely
05:52:40.160 french bioethics law where pull it up
05:52:44.400 french bioethics law prioritizes legal recognized affiliation over purely biological
05:52:52.920 evidence to avoid disrupting family structures okay so what that's suggesting is 0.98
05:52:59.940 women in france just be fucking other dudes and he would be very disruptive if men knew that their 0.99
05:53:09.980 wife or girlfriend and that that kid isn't his but y'all women can't even understand how much of a 0.99
05:53:16.180 how much of a betrayal that would be y'all y'all can't even conceptualize it because it could never
05:53:22.460 happen to you no but that that does seem hard yeah yeah i can like we're realistic
05:53:27.440 i can i can see how that would be disturbing yeah but look that's why men are more invested in this
05:53:36.960 for i mean a variety of reasons i don't know if you disagree or it's just hard for me to relate
05:53:44.340 to this because one i'm not in the mindset of oh i want kids at the moment and wait you don't you
05:53:52.060 don't want kids period it's like 29 when's your birthday uh it was in january okay so you'll be
05:54:00.520 30 in january okay um i just yeah i am it's not on the priority list i guess why not what's your
05:54:08.900 priority right now um living life um living life investing investing okay i don't know it's just
05:54:18.640 not there so do you not want kids no i'm not at the moment no no in like right now i would say
05:54:27.620 no but i don't know sometimes people things change people change but right now it's just not on the
05:54:34.640 priority list so it's hard to put myself in that situation and i think pretty sure if i were to be
05:54:41.600 pregnant like i know who it i know who it would be so um okay who here uh who here wants kids
05:54:49.860 show of hands you don't want kids i want kids yeah sorry i want kids okay you are you christian
05:54:58.240 uh i've done my communion but i'm not going to the church every every week okay because you're
05:55:07.120 rowing across so everybody wants kids or did i miss i want kids kids no no kids for you no nope
05:55:13.620 kids okay uh okay so you're on the fence about kids yeah i think it's for some people have like
05:55:23.300 the qualities or the or in the right situation but like personally i'm so adhd that i have a hard
05:55:31.660 time taking care of myself sometimes so i just like so do you have brothers yeah okay i guess
05:55:39.940 they'll continue on the bloodline and you'll be the you'll be the wine aunt or whatever yeah cool
05:55:45.460 aunt is that really you don't want kids uh right now yeah yeah okay but my brothers have kids yeah
05:55:54.860 oh okay interesting i have a question for you let's say you could get the perfect guy
05:55:59.940 so he's rich meets all your criteria he's got the looks he's got the personality he's got the money
05:56:06.280 he's got all the things that you care about perfect guy but there's one condition you have
05:56:12.200 to have three kids with him do you take the deal do you take the trade um i would there would be
05:56:18.620 a lot of conditions what do you mean conditions um first of all i'm get like he's gonna have to 1.00
05:56:27.760 like put some money in there oh yeah in your pussy no no so um because for me the biggest 0.99
05:56:35.680 thing that i would be scared of is like the whole like pregnancy like i gained two pounds and i'm 1.00
05:56:41.320 like tripping so imagine like the whole not just that but this part of it so i'm gonna need a
05:56:47.040 personal trainer um if i have three kids i'm probably staying at home so you better perfect
05:56:53.600 guy yeah but yeah i'm i'm gonna need ozempic i'm gonna need a personal trainer and it's not
05:57:01.540 gonna come from me it's gonna come from him but three that's wild but can it be an adoption
05:57:08.220 nope and you uh can it be a surrogacy it's potentially negotiable but uh those are yeah
05:57:16.700 but if i have to you i think no part of the deal i think you have to you have to give birth to the
05:57:22.420 kids that's part of the deal no you don't want to lose your body mainly is that what it is it's
05:57:27.580 part of it yeah and i but you already have the man so who cares and he's perfect he'll never
05:57:33.340 he'll never cheat he'll never leave you postpartum and then oh my god anti-natalist crazy yeah
05:57:40.340 all right my body my choice huh well yeah it's obviously people can do whatever uh well not
05:57:46.520 whatever they want but people can choose to have kids or not have kids i just think like
05:57:50.900 when presented with this opportunity to have the perfect man it's you're thinking still me me me
05:57:57.900 no but if i someday in my life meet the perfect guy i will consider it way more than like i'll
05:58:07.220 never have a one-night stand get pregnant and be like oh absolutely like no yeah that will not
05:58:12.640 happen but if the circumstances are perfect and I'm in another headspace in my life long later on
05:58:22.160 perhaps but it's not like oh I absolutely need kids and I'm ready to raise them on my own and
05:58:29.780 not take any child support so what's I mean let's say you don't have kids what would be your purpose
05:58:35.700 in life there's so many things like i feel like i'm like for me every day or like as i'm growing
05:58:44.080 up i'm trying to be a better person and like work on things so that's my like my goal is that at a
05:58:53.300 certain age i'll have no issues and i'll just progress so you currently have issues don't we
05:59:00.780 all i i suppose but i mean those just go away as you age no but you try to improve okay so you
05:59:10.740 don't have kids because adhd and yeah just like already like just she helped me like pack here
05:59:19.180 because like just thinking about everything and stuff i was like all right maybe you shouldn't
05:59:23.820 have because then there you go you have you struggle packing yeah just like how old are you
05:59:29.260 29 yeah she's always losing your keys oh yeah i lose things yeah do you are you clumsy are you
05:59:37.260 clumsy yeah yeah yeah it's a liability to date a clumsy woman oh but she's improving since i mean 0.99
05:59:46.640 her life she's improving yeah you know it's not not talking about you but like clumsy women the 1.00
05:59:53.200 the way they're dangerous is they can't you can't have sex with them on top 1.00
05:59:59.280 because they'll break your shit they'll just they're they're so like just they flail around 1.00
06:00:06.840 and shit and uh like a girl who isn't aware of her environment like i don't know yo let me ask 0.99
06:00:13.880 the chat chat have you ever like maybe a girl a girl's going down on you and then she like climbs 1.00
06:00:22.680 to get on top of you and as she's climbing on top she like knees you in the dick or she like 0.99
06:00:28.760 knees you in the balls you've done that whoops not sober bro it's like bro and like you're you're 1.00
06:00:37.100 tall right like five foot eight yeah right you're you're not like a petite woman you know i don't 0.99
06:00:42.680 think i'm a non-petite woman no i'm not saying you're fat but like your your dad was an athlete
06:00:47.580 like he was a big guy right yeah yeah so i mean like i'm not saying you're just you're just a
06:00:52.960 larger that sounds so bad i don't mean it that way but you're like a you're bigger which is good
06:00:58.180 d1 if you do have kids like you'll give your your kids will be athletes or whatever i already 1.00
06:01:03.140 thought of this but if i have a girl and i usually am interested in taller guys this poor girl's 0.74
06:01:09.260 gonna be so tall yeah it's yeah but wait where the fuck oh no but i'm saying like look if like 1.00
06:01:15.500 a little petite thing yeah like accidentally yeah but i mean like do you work out too yeah so you 0.99
06:01:21.260 got like some leg strength yeah that's the problem like a clumsy girl with like big thought like 1.00
06:01:27.140 muscle she's gonna wreck your shit she's gonna just and then the sheets it hasn't been a problem 1.00
06:01:31.760 it's more like i'll like hit something here or like yeah my knees are bruised kind of thing 1.00
06:01:37.300 i'm just saying it's i i'm scared to date a clumsy woman because they're gonna like as they're you 1.00
06:01:43.380 know it could be different shit but they're like i don't know they'll just fucking knee you in the 1.00
06:01:49.700 balls and as they're coming up just fucking knee you in the dick fuck my dick's there move be 1.00
06:01:56.880 careful lady i only got one you break this shit it's over it's over for it shit hey you can break 1.00
06:02:04.680 your dick did you guys know that yeah oh yeah you guys broken dicks nope no shit you gotta be 1.00
06:02:10.880 careful especially if you gotta be careful guys okay anyways uh okay you don't want kids 1.00
06:02:17.020 i want kids oh you do want kids okay i forgot where i was going with the kids thing i guess i
06:02:22.340 was gonna say for the perfect guy because you're you're still in college uh university and you want
06:02:31.980 to do a job and you're you're in electrical engineering yeah okay say the perfect guy comes
06:02:38.800 around and he's like rich and when i say perfect so this means personality looks money and he's
06:02:46.820 perfectly loyal like you have a i don't know you can see the future he would never cheat on you
06:02:51.100 i guess you you don't see the future but you know he would never cheat he's perfectly loyal uh he
06:02:57.120 would never be abusive he would treat you perfectly so when i say perfect i mean everything he's not
06:03:02.840 just a hot dude with money everything perfect he would never leave you like everything so you never
06:03:08.360 have to worry about him leaving perfect guy you meet him tomorrow but a condition of you being
06:03:14.160 being with him is you have to drop out of college and start having kids do you do it i think yes
06:03:20.640 i want kids i want to be a mother later there you go all right w i'm studying because i love that
06:03:28.880 and i'm sure that i will love my job because i love uh studying i love research i love everything
06:03:36.000 yeah but i want to have kids later and if it and i want to take care of them to raise them
06:03:44.860 and to make them good people like uh with my values and everything like this i want them to
06:03:52.880 be intelligent uh polite good manier everything okay so yeah all right but if you did meet the
06:04:01.020 perfect guy you would oh preferably i will work here because i will maybe become the can in order
06:04:09.380 to get the perfect guy one of the conditions is you can't work you have to drop out of college
06:04:16.780 to be with him do you do it okay yeah just clarifying all right uh we're gonna move on
06:04:22.280 to some other note uh one uh wait oh question how long have you been celibate
06:04:28.220 since i've been on the trip oh right you have a boyfriend like in my job or personal life 0.56
06:04:37.060 total total i just went to work last week so that sucks okay okay i didn't understand the 0.52
06:04:44.140 question uh la dernière fois que tu as uh i don't want to talk about that
06:04:53.000 Faire le boum-boum, le dernier.
06:04:54.900 Le boum-boum.
06:04:55.740 Le boum-boum, le dernier.
06:04:58.140 Non?
06:04:58.620 Non.
06:05:00.600 Désolé, okay.
06:05:02.060 What about you?
06:05:02.820 About a year.
06:05:04.120 One year?
06:05:04.580 A little bit less than a year.
06:05:06.320 One year?
06:05:06.800 What about you?
06:05:07.420 Several months.
06:05:08.660 Several months, all right.
06:05:09.860 What about you?
06:05:10.980 Yesterday.
06:05:12.360 Good for you, guys.
06:05:13.320 Oh, did you come with like a guy?
06:05:14.720 Wait, what?
06:05:15.700 Wait, hold on.
06:05:16.940 Wait, you said you're single.
06:05:18.000 I am single.
06:05:18.940 You got a guy in the picture?
06:05:19.940 No.
06:05:21.300 I don't.
06:05:21.960 Who did you follow?
06:05:22.700 Was it here in San Barbara?
06:05:23.680 Yeah. 1.00
06:05:24.300 Oh, shit. 1.00
06:05:25.060 You went out to the clubs? 1.00
06:05:25.980 No.
06:05:26.420 Was it Nathan?
06:05:27.280 It could have been. 0.80
06:05:28.020 Nathan, you dog you.
06:05:29.500 Do you want to?
06:05:30.780 Oh.
06:05:32.660 Wait.
06:05:33.320 Is he watching?
06:05:34.700 Hold on.
06:05:35.180 Let me see if I can.
06:05:36.520 Let me broker this deal.
06:05:38.000 I'm going to broker this deal.
06:05:39.520 Wait, Nathan.
06:05:40.860 Do you like a little chocolate? 1.00
06:05:43.500 Hey, what the fuck, Nathan? 1.00
06:05:45.200 You fucking racist. 1.00
06:05:46.360 You're fired. 1.00
06:05:47.620 How dare you? 0.96
06:05:48.440 This is a diversity inclusion zone.
06:05:52.100 Okay. 0.94
06:05:52.540 last last time and a half years two and a half years good for you damn good for you i'm not 0.77
06:05:59.880 getting in bed with anybody until i know i really fair enough me too yeah i'm being 0.96
06:06:05.440 celibate until then okay yeah noise uh brooke read this for me okay white brooke
06:06:13.260 mate me or i don't know if you're like latino or something yeah wink paternity test issued by
06:06:18.780 the judicial branch also ensures consistency purity and accountability i have no doubt
06:06:23.480 this was driven by women falsifying the results shout out lizzie yo shout out lizzie thank you for
06:06:32.320 the uh the not the tts the read there lizzie thank you thank you thank you all right let's
06:06:36.800 finish up the notes here uh where were we we're talking about celibacy oh back to your ex let me
06:06:42.940 see if there's any okay if they have a dog ick girl okay hear me out it's because like i have a
06:06:49.560 nice home i have yeah i have a nice home and like even um wait can you straighten the mic a little
06:06:58.060 bit so it's like uh just that's good go ahead i will say i have no problems with dogs i like dogs 0.97
06:07:07.100 it's just to have one in my home would be overwhelming oh shit sorry continue go ahead
06:07:13.300 yeah tell us more of the x i need to get up um okay um so yeah i like is it just dogs or is it 0.92
06:07:22.740 like pets and no i have a cat but um my cat has no claws i had him like like that and he's sterilized
06:07:30.640 but be super sweet and i love him okay so cats are are fine but um let's say if i had roommates and
06:07:40.740 like they have a cat or something i know but i i just like if i can choose my roommates and stuff
06:07:48.760 i'd just rather um not to have another animal because it's like more work or whatever gotcha
06:07:57.060 or they might not get along yeah or something like that yeah yeah i get that yeah but i i like
06:08:02.480 dogs it's just like having a dog in my house there are more work than cats yeah and then i feel like
06:08:07.960 my floors would get all i just i love it up and my couch and like um well the adh is kicking and
06:08:15.380 you're like yeah they would wake me up and bark in the morning and stuff i just rather not yeah
06:08:21.340 okay yeah do you remember the x i had on my um i don't remember all the x i know i want to pull
06:08:31.520 mine up i don't remember one of mine's like a high body count but we already talked about that so
06:08:36.740 um you remember what i said is that height um the spelling of oh if they this is more of like 0.86
06:08:49.800 a red flag but like if um the guy i'm seeing keeps talking shit about his exes yeah for me
06:08:56.240 from personal experience if you keep mentioning your ex is that you're not over it so for me 0.81
06:09:02.660 that's a red flag i don't know if it's an ick but it's a red flag yeah yeah but um my ick is when
06:09:08.860 guys like will put on their dating profile like bonus points if you x
06:09:13.520 i'm like this isn't about points i'm not trying to impress you with my purpose like if you're
06:09:20.040 attracted to it that's fine but i'm not trying to like right be your person i don't know you yet
06:09:25.580 right yeah if they're sexual right away yeah yeah i don't like men that would it be in person or
06:09:33.700 like over text or something i just really feel like it's no one's business i don't i don't want
06:09:37.740 to know yours i don't think you need to know mine i don't even care if it was three i don't care if
06:09:41.980 a thousand i don't what you do in your personal life is really not my business i don't think the
06:09:46.340 amount of people that you sleep with makes you un wifeable or unhusbandable like people really
06:09:53.080 think that that matters but you would never really know i could lie to you you know i mean if my body
06:09:58.520 count was 500 i could easily be like oh it's five how would you ever know you know so i really don't
06:10:03.840 think it's anybody's business i just think it comes down to personality and to me it counts a
06:10:08.080 lot okay so here's my question because like I don't have a huge strong opinion but I think for
06:10:14.600 me I would perceive the question as it could be indicative of like the future like if someone had
06:10:21.360 a high body count does that mean you're thinking oh does that like do you have a high sex drive
06:10:26.040 are you more likely to cheat on me I think those are some of the things that run through people's
06:10:29.020 heads yeah no definitely yeah yeah there's this like I wouldn't say unconscious but it's kind of
06:10:35.540 there but if I'm dating someone who I know has a higher body count is that I don't know he's more
06:10:43.520 out there he's more like flirty or whatever and I'm like in my mind I'm like if we were to break
06:10:48.800 up I'm gonna have a hard time kind of thing but if he's just like someone calmer who doesn't is not
06:10:56.820 like trying to like flirt with girls and stuff if we were to break up I won't be as like stressed
06:11:04.260 about it it's weird but it's kind of comes from that i guess yeah what about like slow text like
06:11:08.740 slow texters i think it depends um yeah it sucks it for me it's like if when you want to you can
06:11:16.680 kind of thing so if you're uh into someone you're gonna want to respond quickly for me if you answer
06:11:24.200 me every 24 hours because i'm not high on the priority list right and it goes both ways no
06:11:30.940 exactly like if you have a like busy schedule or like i don't know you're um let's say i've had a
06:11:39.720 guy that was like a firefighter but like in helicopters for forests and stuff like obviously
06:11:45.580 you can't answer why yeah but like if they do care whenever they can they'll like give you a call or
06:11:53.400 a text or something right or they'll if they can't answer they'll be like hey sorry um i can't answer
06:11:59.360 right now but i'll call you the minute i can and they do so yeah yeah that's important i never
06:12:04.800 i was gonna say i never thought it was an ick for me if someone didn't respond quickly but then
06:12:10.200 like the first time somewhat recently this person didn't message like once every two to three days
06:12:15.560 it was just like almost like i knew it was coming every two to three days to the point where i'm
06:12:21.740 like okay you're doing this on purpose that's not random i don't know unless maybe it was becoming
06:12:26.200 like a schedule yeah anyone that takes two or three days is eventually gonna stop texting yeah
06:12:30.640 they're just you're from the get-go find someone who right cares more about you and but i think
06:12:37.440 the energy yeah i think i try to stay away from people that take an extensively long time you
06:12:44.980 know like i'll just reciprocate oh you're gonna not answer for 24 hours fine i'll do it for 48
06:12:51.780 straight up i'm so bad like once you respond i'm i'm like either like i'm gonna take a week to
06:12:58.600 respond or i'm gonna take 30 seconds to respond but if i'm interested in someone like i feel like
06:13:04.800 i put them at the top of my priority list you know um however like i work in a restaurant it's
06:13:11.840 really busy you know there are times there are days like you know valentine's day mother's day
06:13:16.480 where i'm not on my phone i'm you know i mean i clock in and i'm not done until i mean everybody
06:13:21.720 leaves so there might be a day where i'm not on my phone for 12 hours you know but like every day
06:13:27.960 it's like you know like you ever see that thing where someone was like like majority of people
06:13:34.500 check their phone every few hours you know what i mean so if someone's not responding to you like
06:13:38.220 at least every five to six hours like you're just really not that important because no matter what
06:13:43.060 like people go to the bathroom get water check their phone like oh you know i mean if you can't
06:13:47.400 even just say hey busy text me when i can like i just feel like you're not really it all comes
06:13:51.080 down to communication so yeah like if you just say hey i won't be able to respond for this amount
06:13:55.940 of time right yeah right yeah like i do home care and my client at the at the moment she has
06:14:01.740 dementia and she's been sundowning pretty much every single day which is bizarre um but like
06:14:07.040 every single hour of the day pretty much and i can't i can't reply unless i'm in the bathroom
06:14:12.960 being or something yeah but you know so it really depends time you're in the bathroom you're going
06:14:18.260 to respond to the people you exactly right yeah yeah exactly exactly it's all about prioritizing
06:14:25.680 the time that you make available yeah but i do i do think that modern you know times we've come
06:14:36.960 accustomed to that like you have to respond to me yeah very quickly or like i think you're not
06:14:42.340 interested um no that's toxic yeah and I was just say like I feel like the relationships for me that 0.84
06:14:49.400 didn't end up working out were always the ones where we were up each other's asses and it was
06:14:54.600 that whole like we talk from like the time we wake up to the time we go to sleep because you're just
06:14:59.380 so like heavily dependent on somebody but then again once I do talk to someone that's like
06:15:04.160 you know I mean like oh I can only respond like when I can I'm like oh this is so boring like I
06:15:09.020 want to get to know somebody you know so somewhere in the middle somewhere in the middle yeah it's
06:15:14.520 hard to find that happy medium yeah that perfect happy medium that's scheduled that's like works
06:15:19.200 for everybody but it but ultimately if you're taking two to three days
06:15:24.080 if you want to make it work you'll make it work yeah yeah i forgot about you by three days
06:15:31.200 what the heck girl right days ran a marathon i know went to california
06:15:38.180 come on i'm only here for three days like you you didn't talk to me for three days you probably 0.97
06:15:45.020 didn't even know i was here you know like come on travel out of the freaking state yeah they can't
06:15:51.200 even return a text for god's sake right like come on that's in yeah something i will do though is
06:15:58.180 sometimes i'll see a text and i'm like if it's like barely new or something i'm like i can't
06:16:03.200 answer right away it's just like too wild and then i'm like i'll answer later and then i completely
06:16:08.420 forget that's my adhd or you respond i respond in my head yeah yeah and then i don't hear for
06:16:16.200 them for hours i'm like what the heck and then i check and i'm like oh my god i didn't reply
06:16:20.540 or sometimes what i'll do is like i'll write the message forget to press send and then i'm like
06:16:27.160 why the hell is he ignoring me and then i check i'm like i did i was the one ignoring i did the
06:16:33.060 open the message got a different message so i was opening that message because that message was more 0.53
06:16:37.120 important yeah forgot about the other message never went back to it like but it's not just 0.96
06:16:41.700 like professionally or like plenty of other like parents family or whatever yeah shit happens 0.97
06:16:47.100 you know obviously it's not the end of the world we all do it yeah all right what kind of shit did 0.98
06:16:56.180 you guys talk about me while I was gone? Texting. We don't talk bad about you. No, no, I'm kidding. 0.99
06:17:03.620 Does anybody want a popsicle? No. Oh, that sounds really good. Okay. I guess one for her.
06:17:12.380 It's fruit. Okay. I guess that's two for over here. Uh, I overheard while I was gone,
06:17:19.660 you were saying that something about body count. Yeah, I did. Could you just repeat it just from,
06:17:24.820 I said that I don't think it's anybody's business.
06:17:27.320 Well, what I said was I don't like when a man asks me what my body count is.
06:17:32.240 Because I feel like it's not your business.
06:17:33.940 It's not my business.
06:17:34.660 It's not my – okay.
06:17:36.720 Really quick, I guess, before we get into that segment, body count.
06:17:42.560 Does anybody here think past should not matter, typically related to body count?
06:17:49.120 Chyna, you agree.
06:17:50.400 Past should not matter.
06:17:52.920 Oh, Tatum, you did not follow the instructions.
06:17:54.820 I know, I'm so sorry.
06:17:56.480 This is why it took you so long, even though I said how to do it.
06:17:59.640 I know, I know.
06:18:01.400 Okay, you say it does matter, all right.
06:18:04.420 You say past should not matter, body count.
06:18:08.500 Okay.
06:18:10.420 Taylor, no.
06:18:12.820 Other Taylor.
06:18:13.840 We got two Taylors next to each other?
06:18:15.320 Okay. 0.92
06:18:16.440 Past should not matter.
06:18:18.300 Body count, you agree? 0.99
06:18:21.240 Okay, so just really quick, why is that China?
06:18:24.820 uh just i base more of like who i'm facing and the person that he is rather than but do you do
06:18:36.280 you have an objection this is more so preference men have do you have an objection to men caring
06:18:42.280 about this maybe it just comes down to preferences so
06:18:48.440 like so is it wrong for men to care about it i think everyone can have their preferences i guess
06:18:58.060 because let's say i prefer a guy that's six foot a guy is allowed to have a preference on that i
06:19:04.260 guess but i under so we're we agree that people can have their preferences but in the analysis
06:19:11.580 of the preference do you think maybe it speaks to something about the man maybe he's insecure maybe
06:19:17.900 maybe a little bit yeah okay so you think it's perhaps even though he's allowed to have the
06:19:22.380 preference as he is yeah you might think it's wrong not necessarily wrong but i do think it
06:19:31.440 often stems from some kind of insecurity maybe insecurity yeah i see okay
06:19:36.240 uh and those who said body count should not matter what about you
06:19:41.040 yeah or passion not matter yeah um
06:19:44.760 i'm thinking about it right now because i forgot what i
06:19:50.540 said before okay what about you why it shouldn't matter yeah like what i just i i know that uh like
06:20:01.680 right now in society like we put a lot of emphasis on sex and like how many people you
06:20:08.420 have sex with how often you have sex i just never saw it as like this big to-do so to me it just
06:20:14.460 doesn't matter i just don't care it's not your business it's not my business if you wanted to go 0.99
06:20:18.920 you know fuck 100 people in like the last 10 years i don't you know that's what you decided to do 0.98
06:20:27.080 but to me i don't care but now if we're talking about like you're fucking 100 people and then 0.99
06:20:35.460 like you got like you know 100 stds that's like yeah all right yeah but like take care of yourself 0.83
06:20:39.660 obviously the question is uh body count some of you say body count shouldn't matter passion not
06:20:45.620 matter uh what's your body count starting with you um so like can i have you speak to the mic
06:20:52.000 including um my sex work career uh why don't you differentiate so sex work and then civilian
06:20:59.640 so i began uh my career as a sex worker full service when i was 27 before that my body count
06:21:08.480 was 33 uh and that was before the sex work yes and i've only since beginning sex work i've only
06:21:16.860 added one to my body count um two to your civilian personal civilian life okay yeah um one person
06:21:25.200 after my divorce um so in my sex work career I count all my clients but a lot of my clients I
06:21:33.880 don't have penetrative sex with so it's really hard to count but I would say it's in like 0.85
06:21:39.100 the the 300s probably okay total sure some of them maybe it's just oral sex some of them it's 0.99
06:21:48.420 not even that hand job uh cuddling talking talking everything yeah but uh 300 from the 0.99
06:21:56.680 sex work you said probably yeah body count i think it's a little tmi no it's not too much 1.00
06:22:05.580 i'll say we've been talking about pussy and dick and yeah i'll say uh with my body count i could 0.99
06:22:11.460 buy a trio book mac uh just one thing i i didn't say this this isn't your fault i didn't say this 0.99
06:22:17.300 at the beginning um i noticed you kind of turn your body when yeah if you can't yeah just in
06:22:22.380 that way just because this camera's here you start turning your face so go ahead uh yeah i just said
06:22:27.720 maybe tmi but i will say with my body count i can buy a trio big mac i mean mcdonald's is getting
06:22:36.580 expensive uh but uh okay i'll let you do do you want to do a range you want to tell us a range
06:22:45.580 i think it was kind of kind of well maybe like is it more than 10 yeah more than 20
06:22:53.440 in there yeah more than 30 no so between 20 to 30 okay body count i don't answer give us a range
06:23:01.900 ballpark no no i just don't want yeah is it more than how about this is it more than 10
06:23:06.720 i will not answer because i'm not comfortable with that and it's on the internet after that
06:23:12.820 and it's just my choice before getting on the show she told me that was like probably one of
06:23:18.540 the questions she wouldn't answer so okay uh body count um it's very important for me to keep it
06:23:23.800 under 10 so it's under 10 yes okay what about you body count under 10
06:23:28.660 okay body count same same yep
06:23:35.380 earlier you said if you lied about your body count who would know so so are you lying about
06:23:46.080 your body are you lying no you saw someone yesterday oh my god yes
06:23:53.920 i totally forgot about that no we can talk about i hope he's watching too because china with the
06:24:04.820 assist i'm gonna hire her as a co-host she's gonna keep tabs on the women please hire me i
06:24:09.440 want to leave canada to be fair i wasn't a random person i've known him i've known him for a few 1.00
06:24:15.000 years um i'm not gonna give all his info but you're a fucking liar you're a fucking liar 1.00
06:24:21.480 wait wait but this is the first time you guys cracked yeah yeah how wait where are you from 1.00
06:24:27.380 again new jersey jersey yeah and this motherfucker lives in santa barbara no no no no he's from no 0.98
06:24:34.500 No, he's from the East Coast. 0.99
06:24:36.360 Like I said, I'm not going to give all his information because it's a little personal.
06:24:39.240 But y'all cracked.
06:24:39.700 As to why he's here.
06:24:41.480 Okay.
06:24:42.140 Okay.
06:24:42.440 But he...
06:24:43.040 He flew you out?
06:24:43.560 No.
06:24:44.220 Oh, okay.
06:24:44.520 He drove four hours and picked me up from the airport. 1.00
06:24:47.080 Damn. 0.99
06:24:47.860 Yeah, so... 1.00
06:24:48.860 Damn. 1.00
06:24:49.420 And you got some... 1.00
06:24:50.020 And then...
06:24:50.600 Yep.
06:24:51.680 I'm just... 1.00
06:24:52.400 I wish I could just fly into a city and some girl drives four hours to pick me up, give 1.00
06:24:58.140 me some pussy. 1.00
06:24:59.220 Well, that's... 1.00
06:25:00.420 Where did the men go for that? 0.97
06:25:02.400 it wasn't like oh let me go to drive four hours and i'm gonna fuck i need to go definitely wasn't 1.00
06:25:06.760 like that girl why can't i just go to saskatchewan and get me some canadian pussy like and just she 1.00
06:25:12.420 drives from fucking toronto how far is toronto from saskatchewan oof i don't know oof yeah yikes 1.00
06:25:19.500 montreal to toronto is like six hours no just kidding um what yikes no all in like montreal 0.97
06:25:27.140 all to toronto is six nova scotia where's that where's like nova scotia yeah like that it's
06:25:34.620 further down vancouver yeah vancouver is like the far end of it i think it's like 20 it would take
06:25:41.240 like isn't it like four or five days to drive anyways yeah it's pretty far anyways uh body
06:25:47.200 count under 20 under under 20 say it again under 20 okay cool i'm a virgin yeah we're sure we know
06:26:01.520 multiply it by three and that's the real number just saying just saying uh okay so there's a
06:26:10.900 body count thing look well really quick to address your point that you made while i was gone
06:26:14.720 i think and when i say i think i mean i know uh i don't think you said okay well if the body
06:26:22.340 counts 500 but who's gonna really ever know i could just lie i could say it's five and that's
06:26:26.720 true like unless you have had close connection with somebody you can't really ever be all that
06:26:33.620 sure like you basically have to be stalking this person to know for realsies what's up you know how
06:26:39.580 how much uh they've done but i think it's like lying is bad i think you should be honest especially
06:26:45.520 if it's like this is going to be somebody you i mean you shouldn't lie even if it's casual but
06:26:50.220 if hey this is going to be your future boyfriend girlfriend started out on a lie i don't i don't 0.87
06:26:56.940 like that i don't think you should lie i think you should be honest and shit because maybe what 0.77
06:27:02.840 if it's a what if it is a deal breaker and they find out somehow i don't know maybe you got a list 0.99
06:27:08.000 on your phone and they look at your shit and they find your list or who knows there's all kinds of 0.92
06:27:13.760 scenarios and then you it's a day before the marriage and then he's like i'm done i'd be fuming 1.00
06:27:20.840 day before the marriage shit i think that's fine it's the day before you get married and your girl 1.00
06:27:29.020 comes to you babe before we're gonna get married i need to tell you something i told you i fucked 0.99
06:27:35.760 five dudes i really fucked 500 that's a i'm sorry well that's a crazy yeah that's a big 0.99
06:27:46.960 that's like calling it off okay fine come on calling it off saying you like 50 how about 0.98
06:27:51.600 that 50 that's 40 is like all right 50 what about 50 though she said five still alive okay
06:27:58.160 It's still alive
06:27:59.380 But it's still more reasonable than 500
06:28:01.280 5 to 15 0.99
06:28:02.420 I still divorce
06:28:03.340 Really?
06:28:04.500 Over
06:28:04.900 Yeah
06:28:06.200 It's still a huge lie
06:28:07.100 It's over
06:28:07.420 Like the Sopranos
06:28:08.400 Over
06:28:09.060 Good show
06:28:10.480 You guys probably don't know what that is
06:28:12.220 I've heard of it
06:28:13.380 Of course you don't
06:28:13.800 I know his Sopranos
06:28:14.860 Because he thinks he's old
06:28:15.940 I love Sopranos 1.00
06:28:17.020 Just like a boomer 1.00
06:28:17.960 That's a Jersey thing 0.99
06:28:19.580 Read this one please 0.70
06:28:21.960 Lizzie, thank you
06:28:23.460 Who?
06:28:25.260 You
06:28:25.440 Me 1.00
06:28:25.860 women with high body counts are satisfyingly more statistically oh sorry canada reads at 0.5 1.00
06:28:33.560 speed so i have to do it oh you want i thought you want no you got it go ahead go ahead go ahead 1.00
06:28:37.960 oh wait this is another one women with high body counts are statistically more likely to struggle 0.97
06:28:45.360 with depression substance abuse and impaired analytical thinking women are not neurologically 0.97
06:28:54.380 equipped to sleep around okay sure well what we do find so the more light i mean the more sexual 1.00
06:29:02.120 partners you've had the greater chance of having an std the greater likelihood of infidelity the
06:29:07.260 greater likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction the greater likelihood of
06:29:12.580 divorce so it is correlated with uh some bad outcomes both ways so
06:29:20.740 it to a degree but it's more this phenomenon is more observed in women than in men
06:29:28.080 yeah like i know i i personally take it a bit heavier yeah whenever i add have add have added
06:29:36.160 a body on and i just i know it's not me and i was like why did i do that like i've made mistakes 0.99
06:29:42.200 obviously we're all human but um i mean guys i take my body count very seriously like you fuck 0.96
06:29:47.400 a girl and then oh yeah i don't know how i feel about that yeah so body count very important to 0.97
06:29:56.160 me true true it's kind of like you know what it is well i'll tell you this much i think when i say
06:30:05.500 it's like it's different between men and women i think it's kind of like this the body count thing 0.83
06:30:10.060 well this is a totally separate subject but fuck it i'm gonna say it anyways i think i brought it 0.99
06:30:14.780 up last show and we're not going to linger on this but this is going to sound fucked up and 0.99
06:30:18.940 you should never cheat i would never cheat on a woman you should never cheat but you know how like 0.96
06:30:25.600 you know when i say but however it's kind of like you know if somebody says i'm not racist 0.99
06:30:32.760 but you know how they're about to say some racist shit i'm about to say some fucked up 0.99
06:30:38.960 shit but okay you should never cheat on somebody but i think as men you could love your girlfriend 1.00
06:30:47.580 and you could fuck another woman and still love your girlfriend oh my god if a woman 1.00
06:30:54.960 cheats on her man she does not love her man no both are fucked that's the wrong 1.00
06:31:02.180 you should know you can't love someone and then fucking sleep with someone else 1.00
06:31:06.260 look never cheat i'm not saying you should cheat don't cheat men shouldn't cheat women shouldn't 0.99
06:31:10.680 cheat no double standard i'm just saying i believe i don't think you respect your partner
06:31:19.360 in that might be sure that's not love i don't know if men require
06:31:24.920 okay see what you're about to say you know that misogyny thing no no i don't think i don't think
06:31:33.140 it's misogynist we're getting close to it no i don't think it's misogynist um maybe it's
06:31:37.100 misandrist even uh i don't think maybe it is misogynist i don't know look i i don't think
06:31:44.560 that men need to have wait how do i frame this that men necessarily need to receive 0.88
06:31:54.120 this sounds so retarded because you're wrong i don't think men in order to love a woman 0.95
06:32:00.100 I don't think a man needs to 1.00
06:32:02.360 Respect her
06:32:04.280 I disagree
06:32:04.460 What?
06:32:06.460 Because if you love her you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings
06:32:09.000 Listen to what I'm saying though
06:32:10.820 I'm not saying that men should disrespect
06:32:13.520 But I'm saying that love can exist
06:32:16.640 Absent
06:32:18.380 Respect
06:32:19.680 Wow 0.98
06:32:22.260 Saying another girl 1.00
06:32:24.500 Is disrespectful 0.97
06:32:25.280 It's like having a pet at that point
06:32:28.280 Yeah
06:32:29.660 But what's your reasoning?
06:32:31.500 Not a healthy kind of love.
06:32:34.100 Hot take.
06:32:35.860 No, look.
06:32:37.420 To be clear, I just need to make this clear.
06:32:40.860 You should not disrespect
06:32:42.320 your girlfriend or your girl
06:32:44.740 or whatever, but what I'm saying
06:32:46.740 is as an observation.
06:32:48.900 I think a man
06:32:50.240 could love a woman 0.55
06:32:51.660 but not respect her. 0.93
06:32:55.740 Well, then
06:32:56.580 the other way around works.
06:32:58.740 Wait, wait, I know it sounds crazy, but I think I'm on to something.
06:33:05.020 Remember earlier when you called me out about contradicting myself?
06:33:07.620 You're literally doing the same thing right now.
06:33:10.380 Well, because I, okay, here's, I guess here's what I'm kind of getting at here.
06:33:13.380 And this is bro signs.
06:33:14.900 I haven't fleshed this idea out.
06:33:17.980 I think it's very difficult for a woman to love a man who's less competent than her.
06:33:24.660 so like if the woman is smarter if the woman is more capable if the woman is uh well i mean
06:33:35.100 smarter more intelligent i already said that um if the woman is 0.93
06:33:39.780 um the i mean i guess this could be related to finances so like the higher earner 1.00
06:33:47.520 it's hard for women in those instances i think to love a man women typically so women are
06:34:00.240 hypergamous so women hi what's hypergamous so this can mean a couple different things
06:34:05.500 but in this case typically women want to date men who are better than them you want a guy who
06:34:12.520 has more confidence than you you want a guy who's more uh who's more intelligent than you you want a
06:34:18.420 guy who's more capable than you so a man could like look at like if you're more can y'all date
06:34:26.260 men who are less intelligent than you be honest no um but men can date women who are less
06:34:32.500 intelligent than them and still love them so we might not respect you intellectually
06:34:37.000 what what's wrong with that there's nothing wrong with that
06:34:41.600 personally but what does that have to do with sex
06:34:43.300 well we're not talking about multiple forms of intelligence
06:34:46.120 yeah well there are there's multiple but like for example i i do think it's the case
06:34:50.860 that like yo if you're smarter than the dude
06:34:55.860 i don't think you're going to respect him i don't think you're going to love him to be honest 0.96
06:35:02.280 maybe maybe this is bullshit though maybe i'm making this all up 0.90
06:35:05.500 it is well but do y'all really i feel like women have the bigger issue when it comes to like men 0.95
06:35:12.220 are more willing to we don't really prioritize that as much not to say that it can't be a
06:35:16.580 positive attribute we don't really prioritize intelligence in that way like i'm not looking
06:35:22.900 for a woman who uh i if she's not as intelligent as me i don't care yeah i guess uh
06:35:35.260 some men would disagree or some men are are looking for that so there's just lots efficiency
06:35:43.100 what i need is someone who in my they like their strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa
06:35:55.060 wait you literally complained earlier about men who have bad grammar yeah but like i'm good at
06:36:00.780 grammar sure but it's let's say i'm not manual so i like if he's not manual as well like how are
06:36:11.480 you like how are we helping each other if yeah you know what i mean so okay it doesn't make sense
06:36:19.060 so so i i could be smarter or better in certain things but if i'm better and smarter in all things
06:36:27.620 then what's the point but if i'm smarter in certain things barrio thank you for the hundred
06:36:33.760 thank you man can you read it okay western society feminized itself toward collapse 1.00
06:36:41.320 unchecked female nature like eve pandora and callie leads to destruction before rebirth
06:36:48.180 without masculine order civilizations falls something something oh my god okay wait so
06:36:55.740 you said you said that um you you reminded me of the misogyny thing uh and you might think that
06:37:04.760 that position is misogynistic but what are the other things that you feel like that i say maybe
06:37:10.240 you've seen clips that are misogynistic i don't know i i just feel in a lot of situations you're
06:37:18.780 like the man can do this but the woman it's not okay and there's like two a few have come up but
06:37:26.500 i wouldn't tag you as a misogynist not just yet sure uh but i don't understand this this so i
06:37:34.940 believe that uh this double standard thing it depends what the context is but there are there
06:37:43.360 are all kinds of things that women uniquely expect from men so this idea that
06:37:53.140 men need to be uh that men need to have the same standard for women that they have for themselves 0.95
06:38:02.400 that's bullshit otherwise how would you arrive at men should pay on first dates 0.95
06:38:06.220 i just think the person who invited the other person and let's let's test this out have you 0.99
06:38:13.860 ever asked a guy out maybe i don't that sounds like a no and you're 29 years old
06:38:21.480 you're 29 years old let me tell you this much uh a guy who never did that at 29 would still
06:38:29.380 be a virgin meanwhile you say your body count is what 20 to 30 so i mean you've had relationships
06:38:34.700 you've dated guys you've had experiences if you were a man if i put you in a man's body you would
06:38:41.140 be a virgin so this idea that whoever asked should pay sort of conveniently glances over the fact
06:38:49.280 that women are passive women generally speaking don't initiate exhibit a you've never asked a man
06:38:57.480 out but you've had but not the first time around no no but i'm talking first date yeah of course
06:39:03.160 you were in a three come on you're four four months into a relationship hey chad do you want 0.99
06:39:09.680 to go get fucking tim hortons congratulations you asked you asked your fucking boyfriend out on a 0.99
06:39:16.340 date i'm talking about first dates because the thing is whoever you're saying men should pay 0.99
06:39:21.200 for first dates women overwhelmingly don't ask men out for first dates so that it's very convenient
06:39:27.040 that y'all ignore that y'all don't ask me now if women ask men out at about equal rates maybe
06:39:34.940 it's not 50 50 but 40 of the time women ask men out i'd stand with you and agree you know what
06:39:40.900 whoever i should pay that's do you think the men shouldn't pay on the first date uh well it it
06:39:47.980 depends what we're talking about well there you go same here well hold on so from a effectiveness
06:39:55.680 perspective, the best move, if dating is a chessboard, the best move for the man to make
06:40:00.960 is to pay for the date. Now, if we're having a conversation here outside of a date, I think
06:40:09.140 it's bullshit that men pay for dates, complete bullshit, but it's the most effective tactics, 0.99
06:40:14.120 so they should do it. And part of the reasoning is one, women are not traditional anymore. You 1.00
06:40:20.580 frankly don't deserve it you women do not deserve chivalry and traditional treatment anymore you 1.00
06:40:27.880 aren't traditional women men should not be traditional let's go 50 50 but you wanted me 1.00
06:40:32.780 to give you 20 earlier well you didn't but i don't see how that'd be relevant to what that's a joke 0.86
06:40:40.900 the 20 thing okay that's your rebuttal the the give me money segment is you say we don't
06:40:50.440 deserve it but you're a man and you're asking all of us for money so you think you deserve it and we
06:40:54.920 shouldn't yeah this is completely a like a false equivalence it's it's okay it's uh a funny segment
06:41:04.540 i do on the show what does not pertain to my view of traditional treatment when it comes to dating
06:41:11.280 uh at all okay well i for that specific dating area i think if the guy does pay for the first
06:41:21.400 date it gives me an impression that like he's got it somewhat figured out and but i wouldn't want
06:41:29.140 necessarily to for him to pay for every date i don't think that's fair okay down the line i'll
06:41:35.460 pay for things too but the first one but so it's a double standard well what's good for one is good
06:41:42.280 for the other but yeah well no no but here's the double standard men should pay on first dates
06:41:46.360 ergo i mean just in and of itself women should not pay for first dates if men should pay for
06:41:53.620 first dates women should not pay for first dates double standard so are double standards okay
06:41:59.460 i just think that it if you want to show that like you got your things together and that you
06:42:09.580 can provide and whatnot then yeah a little bit like you mentioned that's so that's not a response
06:42:15.340 to what i just said that might be a justification for why men should pay for dates um however 0.98
06:42:21.120 as a man shouldn't i want a woman who's got her shit together so why can't i start demanding the 1.00
06:42:27.080 woman pay for dates so i know she's genuinely interested in me and she has her the second one 1.00
06:42:32.700 it can be her can be her at her discretion although there's plenty of women who are not
06:42:38.480 going to tolerate even that most a lot of women are not going to just be like well he paid for 1.00
06:42:43.600 the first date now it's okay to go 50 50 a lot of women i don't know if it's the majority but a lot
06:42:47.960 the women the man pays continuously like some of them want to free dates i understand that men
06:42:59.180 want to and they do it because it's the most effective thing because women have more leverage
06:43:03.780 in the dating marketplace however now that we're sitting on a podcast that discusses sociological
06:43:09.840 phenomenon like dating uh i think it's fair to look at the chessboard of dating and be like
06:43:14.420 do women deserve men to pay for first dates? No, they don't. What would a woman need to do 1.00
06:43:21.180 to deserve it in your opinion? Sure. She should be, if men paying for first dates is traditional 1.00
06:43:27.180 treatment and a display of chivalry, she should be the corresponding embodiment of a traditional 1.00
06:43:34.760 woman. She ought to be traditional. Which is what to you? Sure. It's a couple of different things. 1.00
06:43:39.040 I mean, it's her behavior. It's her demeanor. Is she more open to her traditional dynamic, 0.98
06:43:43.660 which typically puts the men as leader in relationship uh she defers to him um she's
06:43:51.680 modest she displays temperance in her behavior and temperance can also relate to like i mean 0.98
06:43:59.680 she's not a fucking degenerate party girl alcohol alcoholic uh and then uh not prompt not 0.95
06:44:07.420 promiscuous i feel like i'm forgetting one here not promiscuous modesty etc 0.98
06:44:13.660 question yeah so this is uh deserving having the other person pay on the first date how does a
06:44:20.640 woman demonstrate that to you before a first date that she's traditional are you like asking all
06:44:26.080 these questions or is it just you judge based on the profile uh well look i also want to make
06:44:30.700 something clear uh men who are meeting women through typical means whether that's in person
06:44:39.040 or dating apps men don't have a lot of leverage when it comes to dating because they're the
06:44:43.200 pursuers so women can kind of call the shots a bit more uh so uh wait so your question is
06:44:51.080 how are you determining if she's traditional yeah i guess
06:44:54.640 because it's before the first date so you maybe well okay i i mean i'll just tell you how i've
06:45:00.660 dated for the past like two three years uh look and i've i'm 37 so this has not been the case for
06:45:07.560 most of my life. Uh, but the past two or three years since I started the podcast, almost not to
06:45:13.360 say I've, I've shot my shot here and there and you know, whatever. But, um, the majority of the women 0.99
06:45:19.480 I've dated, they've all come to me for the past three years. Uh, they'll DM me on Instagram or
06:45:24.780 whatever. And so that gives me leverage to call the shots essentially. So yeah, they're going to
06:45:32.560 fill out my girlfriend application 100 questions i'm gonna fucking have what yep 100 question 0.75
06:45:37.900 100 question girlfriend application uh can we see this application maybe one day i'll reveal it 0.90
06:45:45.440 but there's too much it's too much sauce i don't give it away for free way too much sauce can we
06:45:50.560 hear one of the controversial questions on there though just one sure i could give you a couple 1.00
06:45:55.080 i mean i and look the thing is some of these women are they don't live even in california 1.00
06:46:00.020 some of them are out of the country some of them are across the country east coast 1.00
06:46:03.740 so if she's gonna fly out to see me like this isn't some just like oh let's go to a coffee
06:46:11.620 do a 10 minute vibe check this is like more intentional right i need to make sure like
06:46:16.960 there's like screening things i want that are like deal breakers and then there's other things
06:46:21.800 that are maybe not deal breakers but they're um just to see you know okay not the preferable
06:46:29.560 answer but it's not a deal breaker uh but some of them are just like just super blunt autistic 0.72
06:46:34.900 fucking questions so it's just like uh i'm trying to i should just pull it up honestly 0.97
06:46:42.060 not to show i won't show it i need to sell this shit yeah it's fucking good let me tell you i 0.99
06:46:49.540 still need it i'm adding over time you know but uh okay i mean i'm gonna ask her about her drug 0.96
06:46:54.720 use i'm gonna ask her if she's been to therapy are you in therapy i'm gonna ask if she takes
06:46:59.000 any sort of psychoactive medications
06:47:01.200 any recreational drugs
06:47:03.140 does she have a history of 0.91
06:47:05.020 violence has she ever been in
06:47:07.060 a DV situation with a man
06:47:08.680 was she the perpetrator was he the perpetrator was it
06:47:11.000 mutual
06:47:11.360 what else I mean there's so much
06:47:14.760 there's
06:47:17.140 like different
06:47:17.600 categories of the types of questions
06:47:21.180 I'm asking
06:47:21.760 it's involved it's literally 1.00
06:47:24.760 autistic as fuck 1.00
06:47:26.380 it's super fucking autistic 0.99
06:47:28.620 I feel like those questions were valid, but I also feel like there's a part of that questionnaire that would probably be like, why are you asking me this? 0.98
06:47:36.880 But those questions were valid.
06:47:38.140 I respect that.
06:47:38.920 Yeah, well, I mean, like, have you done drugs?
06:47:40.700 Do you currently do drugs?
06:47:42.800 Valid.
06:47:44.180 I feel like I should just pull it up.
06:47:46.220 I can't even remember all of them, but it's literally like 100 questions. 1.00
06:47:49.720 It's the most autistic shit ever. 1.00
06:47:51.100 Some girls see it, and they're like, nope. 1.00
06:47:53.260 I don't give a fuck, though. 1.00
06:47:54.320 Other women do fill it out. 1.00
06:47:55.380 So, yeah, it's just like, now look, you can't do that. 1.00
06:48:01.440 You match with a girl on Tinder, you really can't do that.
06:48:04.900 I mean, you could try, but they're probably not going to.
06:48:10.320 You can try. 1.00
06:48:11.160 They're going to be like, who the fuck do you think you are? 0.99
06:48:13.640 I think you shouldn't go on a date with someone you don't think deserve to. 1.00
06:48:22.200 Wait, I'll rephrase that.
06:48:24.260 i don't think you should go on a date with someone that you don't think they deserve
06:48:28.740 you to pay for the date and isn't that the point of your questionnaire too like if they
06:48:35.380 it doesn't fit with what you're aligned with why go on the date and if it does align then
06:48:41.640 why not pay well i'm speaking more so about more like my because of my unique experience
06:48:48.520 being on the internet, being on social media, I have this unique, very unique to men experience
06:48:55.200 of like just women coming to me. But so what I'm talking about here, that's not the experience for 0.98
06:49:02.220 99% of men. Now, a lot of women, y'all basically get that like men come to you. Um, but so what
06:49:08.720 I'm talking about is like the average experience of dating for people, which is not the girls are
06:49:16.900 hitting you up and they're groupies that's not the experience for the average guy but you're
06:49:24.480 saying that girls don't deserve so to get the first date paid for but if a guy feels that way
06:49:31.660 going on a date with me i'd rather him that we just don't go on the date yeah if he sure but 1.00
06:49:38.080 so i understand that women can be the most degenerate ever and they could be doing only 1.00
06:49:45.920 fans they can be prostitutes and men will take them on dates even knowing what they do and they'll 1.00
06:49:56.460 still pay for the date so if they want to pay for it there's a difference between women still 0.96
06:50:00.300 getting the treatment and women deserving the treatment and so i'm looking at the landscape of
06:50:05.900 dating and i as a bird like bird's eye view down i'm looking at the the landscape and i'm like 1.00
06:50:11.340 oh she fucked a guy last night that's bullshit she doesn't deserve she doesn't deserve traditional 1.00
06:50:18.380 treatment she doesn't deserve it she shouldn't even ask for that yeah but if you're going on 1.00
06:50:23.220 a date and you know that and you're uncomfortable with it why go on the date period i will so i 1.00
06:50:28.860 agree i would tell men don't deal with these trifling hoes don't deal with them i agree 0.99
06:50:35.320 But if they're voluntarily going on the date 0.99
06:50:38.260 Okay, but here's the different framing then 1.00
06:50:40.380 I would look at that woman 1.00
06:50:42.560 Who 1.00
06:50:43.840 You know what? 1.00
06:50:46.100 She's good looking, but she's a hoe 1.00
06:50:48.160 Guys will 1.00
06:50:50.020 Guys will trick, guys will simp
06:50:51.820 Guys will pay for the date
06:50:53.000 But I would tell her, even if you get it
06:50:56.000 You don't deserve it
06:50:57.940 I have a question
06:50:59.460 Do you think that 0.99
06:51:01.880 If a man pays for a first date
06:51:03.680 he should be obligated to have sex with her afterwards or like something of that nature 0.79
06:51:09.720 he should be obligated or she no he he wait what she should be obligated to have sex oh sorry yes 0.99
06:51:18.200 yeah yeah no i'm sorry we're picking up what you're getting at girl yeah like no yeah that's 0.85
06:51:23.880 no that's cringe and men who do that are it's creepy no so okay if a girl cool just because
06:51:31.520 a girl goes on a date with you she and you pay for it even as i don't care how expensive it is
06:51:36.900 you are not owed anything as the man all right see this is how i'm saying that like sometimes
06:51:44.420 your takes are like good and non right and then the other one before was just like yeah you know
06:51:51.100 what i mean so i'm full of contradictions i guess but however this cuts both ways 0.74
06:51:57.740 just because a woman fucks me doesn't mean i owe her a relationship i never said that 1.00
06:52:03.660 hold on this has to cut both ways in the same way that women are not vending machines that 0.99
06:52:11.480 you put niceness tokens into or dinner tokens into and you get sex out not the case men are not 0.93
06:52:19.000 relationship vending machines that you put sex into and then you get sex out or wait hold on i 0.99
06:52:26.040 fucked that up like sorry yeah men are not relationship vending machines where you put 0.99
06:52:31.420 sex in and they get they dispense with a relationship yeah so this cut this cuts both 1.00
06:52:37.420 ways but um no that is weird like look the the woman should want to fuck like that if she wants 1.00
06:52:46.220 to fuck great but no you're not owed as the man you're not owed sex right if you take a girl 1.00
06:52:52.340 that's stupid and it's kind of creepy but what on the topic since you brought it up 1.00
06:52:57.200 do you think that it's creepy or weird for men to lie about wanting to be in a relationship to 1.00
06:53:04.000 have sex so that after they have sex they're just like uh i'm you know i mean like it's wrong okay
06:53:09.260 see some of your some of your points are good it is so yes i do think it's morally wrong
06:53:15.760 for a man to in furtherance of trying to get sex from the woman uh to lie about his intentions
06:53:24.180 yeah that's there's no no one's gonna ever convince me that that's ethical or moral that's
06:53:29.760 clearly immoral right um now it's not a crime uh to be clear but and i don't think that you're
06:53:37.980 suggesting it's a crime but it is clearly wrong clearly immoral um now however 1.00
06:53:44.660 sometimes the pussy was bad just gonna just gonna throw that out there 0.99
06:53:49.380 well in some cases the pussy can be bad no but look i think i think in some situations 1.00
06:53:58.160 also y'all can fuck it up after sex so the guy could have had the intention of he wasn't playing 1.00
06:54:06.120 you but then you did some dumb shit and then you want to play like oh he played me he just wanted 1.00
06:54:12.860 the pussy and i was like nah you just did some stupid shit like sometimes women will fuck and 1.00
06:54:20.860 they'll ruin the whole thing not even during i'm not even talking during the sex yeah but like i 1.00
06:54:25.380 don't know she could just get on your nerves and you're just do some dumb shit and then you're like 1.00
06:54:30.560 uh you fuck shit up sorry get on your arms before you guys had sex but i was sometimes women you 1.00
06:54:37.320 know like how men well both men and women do this we hold back you know you're on your best behavior 1.00
06:54:42.780 for the first okay i don't know if it's three months six months whatever men and women will 0.95
06:54:47.140 be on their best behavior and then three months down the road there's some crazy shit happens
06:54:51.200 yeah yeah yeah that's so happens both sides yeah i was told by a few of my guy friends that
06:54:59.020 sometimes they go into it and they think they're really interested and they're like saying like i
06:55:04.320 want this this this and then they hook up with a girl and it kind of leaves and they're like oh
06:55:08.740 i just wanted to hook up like they've realized after hooking up with her like oh it's just like
06:55:14.220 i actually wanted to hook up with her and then it happens they're like that's a good that's actually 1.00
06:55:19.760 a fair point yeah i mean maybe this is the argument maybe women should be maybe women 0.98
06:55:26.180 should be more more okay with like porn and masturbation because i think like post-nut clarity 1.00
06:55:31.960 if the guy if if the guy is just on one hand maybe it's good for you women to deal with a guy that 0.99
06:55:40.080 doesn't masturbate and watch porn but then you gotta this is so fucked up you also gotta think 0.99
06:55:47.460 in the back of your mind if he's just horny and he's not busting nuts he might just be really 1.00
06:55:54.460 horny and trying to fuck and then like he fucks and he's like oh i was just trying to fuck i oh 0.99
06:56:00.320 my god i'm not even into her you know what i mean especially if he comes fast oh well there's always 1.00
06:56:07.000 round two that's when you know that's when you know what that's when you know that he's he's had 0.84
06:56:13.360 sex recently or if he or not or watched porn recently or something wait if he comes fast 0.83
06:56:19.220 yeah it would be the opposite no i feel like if you've been backed up oh yeah no weeks yeah i 0.96
06:56:25.320 got and you're saving it for for girly yeah my bad got it backwards yeah yeah it's all good um
06:56:30.300 okay uh where were we how do we how do we get to all these segues
06:56:36.880 yeah paying first date sure go ahead um oh paying for the first date yeah yeah no no you're in love
06:56:43.200 with me what no um but not that i'm disappointed but every time i've seen some like sequences and
06:56:52.200 stuff you've always done the ratings and you have not done it so you want me to rate you well just
06:56:59.280 like uh i don't know it's like the thing that i see the most yeah we'll have us write ourselves
06:57:03.900 yeah i thought it was in the beginning kind of yeah we'll do it soon we're a little behind on
06:57:07.740 a few things here can you read this one for me thank you clan me okay the minute you start
06:57:13.100 respecting a woman is the minute the the minute the stops effing you i have close to the same
06:57:20.120 number as plain face chair too and no i didn't pay for it get another burrito brian well thank
06:57:27.380 you clane i did i was eating a burrito back there as soon as your french friend comes back i'll get
06:57:32.860 into some of the segments uh let's do hold on let me see if there's anything on let me i feel like 1.00
06:57:38.420 i need to finish the questionnaire uh brooke lebedoo lebedoo lebedoo women can't be sexist
06:57:46.680 towards men you agree with that why is that women can't oh did i not circle that one you did circle
06:57:53.960 so you agree women can't be sexist towards men um i just feel like with a lot of the things it
06:58:01.140 should be equal oh maybe you misunderstood then i don't know yeah i'm it's the question is more so
06:58:08.760 do women have the capacity to be sexist like for example some people say uh black people can't be 1.00
06:58:14.240 racist towards white people no i think any race can be racist towards any can any gender be 0.75
06:58:21.040 sexist can women be sexist then yes okay so perhaps you mistakenly did that oh okay uh okay
06:58:28.180 Taylor Taylor I need a Taylor E Taylor E what I do you circle the following thing you agree
06:58:37.440 with the following statement women are just as physically strong as men why is that um I know
06:58:42.580 a lot of female bodybuilders and I feel like I feel like if you put in the work you can I don't
06:58:49.360 think naturally we are but I feel like there are plenty of women out there that put in the work to
06:58:55.520 to be equally as strong as men in general though in general in what aspect i said that
06:59:01.740 so in in general on average are men physically stronger than women yeah okay
06:59:09.660 now how about this though a male bodybuilder compared to a female bodybuilder sure uh who's
06:59:16.880 going to be stronger probably the male probably the male okay yeah um can any given woman ever
06:59:26.100 be stronger than the strongest man probably not probably not or just biologically impossible
06:59:31.960 uh well i guess logically it's possible like one of those things like statistically
06:59:39.380 no logically superman is possible okay like it's logically possible the fly
06:59:48.140 it's logically it's logically possible but um okay uh skipping off of that uh taylor e 0.84
06:59:56.460 youth you agree with the following statement okay women do not have equal rights to men
07:00:01.480 in the usa why is that so many so many things i mean we we talked about abortion already i feel
07:00:08.880 like it's i i feel like you know not to go crazy into it but like certain states have changed laws
07:00:14.660 i think that's wrong um but so sure putting abortion aside because you said so many things
07:00:20.900 so putting that aside what are the rights uh what are the um
07:00:26.660 so women do not have equal rights to men so what are the other ones i feel like financially
07:00:33.680 nine times out of ten men make more um i know for a fact that there are business in corporate
07:00:43.060 settings where men cannot even be qualified and women can be overqualified and women are still
07:00:47.800 going to get paid less and i know you're making a face because you think that's like not true but
07:00:52.580 nine times out of nine times out of ten it is true you know no nine times out of ten it's not
07:00:58.240 true but um okay anything else yeah i disagree with that wage gap um i think that's the biggest
07:01:07.660 okay well but so i'm looking for rights though so even if i were to grant that the wage gap exists
07:01:14.000 which it doesn't really um but even granting if it exists i don't know how that'd have to do with
07:01:18.740 the rights um maybe i just so what are the rights like what rights laws what rights do men have that
07:01:27.020 women don't okay so i thought differently reading the question like okay that's not what i thought
07:01:32.500 you meant that's what i was referring well then really quick i'll jump to abortion uh for 30
07:01:37.440 seconds huh again well she said that it's uh she said that women do not have equal rights to men
07:01:46.160 in the usa and she cited to abortion so the the argument here is that men don't have reproductive
07:01:54.500 rights. So I don't know. You might say that abortion is women's rights, like a right that
07:02:03.380 women uniquely can have. And men are actively taking it away from them. Well, the gender of
07:02:10.860 the person who's taking away your rights would be irrelevant to whether the respective gender has
07:02:15.780 the right or not. In this case, though, men don't have reproductive rights. So when we're saying
07:02:22.380 women do not have equal rights to men
07:02:24.500 if women can't have abortions 0.98
07:02:29.260 an inequality of rights 1.00
07:02:32.020 would have to dictate that men 0.93
07:02:34.240 could force women to get abortions 1.00
07:02:35.960 that would be unequal 1.00
07:02:39.220 the man has the right to tell the woman 1.00
07:02:41.900 bitch get a fucking abortion 1.00
07:02:43.100 in this case 1.00
07:02:48.160 men 0.53
07:02:49.480 the only way we can get equal rights
07:02:52.340 between men and women so what i'm saying is women have arguably more rights than men on this
07:02:57.460 particular topic in order to have equal rights which you wouldn't you would not want equality
07:03:03.820 between men and women on this topic trust me men cannot force women to get abortions men can also
07:03:10.820 not prevent women from getting abortions so in order to we we either have to okay if women are
07:03:17.980 here we need to bring men up here so that would mean i don't think the pathway to that would even
07:03:26.860 be men having a say on whether she gets an abortion or not although you could technically
07:03:31.740 argue that it would be um paternal surrender where they don't have to pay child support
07:03:38.360 or because that would be more equitable or if men are down here and men don't have abortion rights
07:03:44.360 which they don't you have to bring women down here for equality which means no abortions whatsoever
07:03:51.960 no abortion rights and that gets you equality that's equal so should we should we 0.99
07:04:00.780 pedestalized equality in this case and take away women's abortion rights 0.93
07:04:05.780 aren't they already being taken away uh so i mean roe v wade kicked it back to the states
07:04:13.020 many states you can still get abortions uh it's not per state vote it's it's per state
07:04:19.420 right so we're so currently we're in california women can get abortions in california and many
07:04:25.100 other states yep they can in new jersey too right but so my argument here is if we're talking about
07:04:31.660 equal rights right so like i said arguably you have to get rid of the question hold on arguably
07:04:38.160 you have to get rid of women's right to abortion entirely for it to be equal between men and women
07:04:45.020 but it's so different because the guy's not like having a child inside their body for nine months 0.94
07:04:50.880 but remember the framing of the question i didn't serve women i know but women do not have equal
07:04:56.720 rights to men so that suggests that men have a right that women don't so in order arguing that
07:05:05.080 but i just said to put that equal it's not equal i agree not the yes i agree but i agree it's
07:05:10.660 different but when she says if i if i ask an example of what are like women do not have equal
07:05:16.820 rights to men abortion is incoherent okay yeah do you do you see do you see the argument on this or
07:05:29.920 do I see the argument yeah I I the first thing I said when you explained was I misinterpreted
07:05:35.520 the question as far as what you were looking for I can understand where you're coming from
07:05:40.660 with your arguments even if I disagree but that was not how I interpreted the question I think
07:05:45.800 that's okay okay but yeah so the question is though women do not have equal rights to men
07:05:51.660 okay yes and then you said wage gap I mean
07:05:54.500 the wage gap is debunked it's been legislated if you can prove that the corporation is paying
07:06:04.740 you as a woman less for a man who's in your role and your location and all that stuff
07:06:10.040 all things being equal they're just being sexist you can bring a lawsuit it is there's a law
07:06:15.860 protecting against that thing in fact oftentimes google did a self-audit and they actually found
07:06:24.480 they're overpaying the women and actually god forbid you look at well i mean hold on oh is it
07:06:32.120 revenge is feminism about revenge um but anyways if you look at uh hold on if you look at 0.99
07:06:40.180 uh single if you look at women in cities who are single and don't have kids and compare them to 0.98
07:06:48.680 their male counterparts oftentimes it's completely equal you look at a 30 year old woman who's single
07:06:56.600 doesn't have kids 30 year old man single doesn't have kids live in the city they're making the
07:07:01.880 same amount of money making the same amount of money men work more hours men work more overtime
07:07:08.700 men are more likely to negotiate men are more likely to relocate men are more likely to live 0.99
07:07:16.000 in like bumfuck northern canada working on some fucking oil bullshit uh with the chance of him 1.00
07:07:22.000 losing fingers and dying whereas women want the comfortable air-conditioned office jobs 1.00
07:07:28.200 feminism didn't exist 200 years ago there wasn't air conditioning back then now you want it now 1.00
07:07:34.420 that civilization has become comfortable for you guys now you now you can have feminism 200 years 0.51
07:07:40.320 ago you guys want to work the jobs men worked 200 years ago nope men still work those jobs
07:07:46.600 y'all want to go into the coal mines nope may i cite something from one of my classes in my
07:07:54.240 marriage and family sociology class or i don't have to but i can just um is it quicker um just
07:08:02.940 that uh in a paper called the second shift by a researcher i don't it doesn't matter it doesn't 0.51
07:08:10.220 matter who the fuck okay okay just citing my sources just um women who uh were in marriages 0.96
07:08:17.360 who out earned their husbands usually did like all the housework as well and so they ended up 1.00
07:08:24.920 just being exhausted how would this even if even granting it even allowing for that how would that 1.00
07:08:33.320 be relevant to the discussion of oh well just because the women end up working double uh and 1.00
07:08:44.420 so the wage gap is complicated in that women assume a lot of responsibilities outside of typical jobs 1.00
07:08:53.720 um in marriages don't get compensated financially for it right but you know wait hold on if a woman 1.00
07:09:02.260 will in a situation where a woman is a stay-at-home wife no no not a stay-at-home she is being 1.00
07:09:08.440 compensated free everything she's working and then once she gets at home she does a lot more
07:09:14.360 okay well how does that even granting that how is that relevant to the conversation at hand it's
07:09:19.940 irrelevant just explaining what she was saying it's just like relevant to wage gap yeah and a
07:09:24.560 lot of the ways that men contribute to the household are completely ignored this unpaid
07:09:28.840 labor argument men are frequently uh the things that men do typically aren't going to be categorized
07:09:35.240 men don't do this grievance victimhood thing with their household duties so that could be
07:09:41.820 the home protection it could be you know mowing the lawn like there's not a really a consideration 0.98
07:09:46.940 for some of the more heavy lifting things that men do around the house men aren't fucking bitching 0.98
07:09:52.840 and moaning and becoming professional victims the same way women are about all the things that men 0.56
07:09:58.020 do so ideally it would be a team partnership team partnership maybe yeah maybe anyways um
07:10:07.680 what were we on before the oh the wage gap i mean i would also just cite to this that
07:10:14.140 uh you're talking about the wage gap women don't get paid as much men are more motivated
07:10:19.380 men are more motivated men work harder than you sorry like due to physical
07:10:27.320 like strength just no and i'll explain it in the way that makes you all guilty of the thing okay so 0.66
07:10:36.240 CHINA, YOU WRITE MEN SHOULD PAY ON FIRST DATES. MEN SHOULD PROVIDE. TATUM, I'M SKIPPING YOU BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T CIRCLE. 0.62
07:10:47.900 YOU SAID MEN SHOULD PAY ON FIRST DATES. MEN SHOULD PROVIDE. BROOK, YOU SAID MEN SHOULD PROVIDE. TAYLOR, NO.
07:10:55.540 I THINK WOMEN SHOULD PROVIDE, TOO, IN DIFFERENT WAYS. 0.88
07:10:58.240 provide so i don't know if it's the majority i know it is i think it's the majority of women who
07:11:04.200 want men to pay on first dates and i think the majority of women want men who are providers
07:11:09.520 i'm not going to say all women i would say most women do most men want women to pay for first
07:11:16.960 dates do most men want women to be financial providers if and do you think men are more 0.99
07:11:24.780 motivated to get sex than women are men yeah yeah sex to get sex and this is this you're you're you 1.00
07:11:31.080 do prostitution exactly i think the fact that men are willing to spend money to get pussy whereas 1.00
07:11:38.660 women do not spend some women some women very few and there's very few male prostitutes that 0.99
07:11:45.380 well treat a female clientele there's like gay prostitutes or whatever gay for pay i guess 0.99
07:11:51.540 men are highly motivated sexually romantically yes for you women to get a man we don't care 1.00
07:11:59.740 about your money doesn't fucking matter doesn't fucking matter now hold on nope doesn't fucking 0.99
07:12:07.120 matter doesn't fucking matter so as men if part of our access to sex to companionship to a 0.99
07:12:16.740 girlfriend to a wife to one day having kids to continuing our bloodline which is our biological 0.98
07:12:23.860 imperative to reproduce if that is dependent to some degree or perhaps to a strong degree
07:12:30.820 on being at a financial point that women deem acceptable
07:12:37.160 then the wage gap would simply be explained away by your own preferences and the pressure
07:12:45.600 not the patriarchy not men the pressure you as individual women singularly and collectively
07:12:52.920 place on men to pay for dates to be providers your own sexist standards create the wage gap
07:13:01.380 if it even existed but it doesn't but if it did exist it would simply be explained by the fact
07:13:06.840 that men are more motivated to get money we're more motivated than you i would say i'm highly
07:13:12.280 well hold on so women hold on here's me being charitable
07:13:16.560 both men and women need money to survive we need food we need housing we need shelter we need to
07:13:26.200 pay for uh health care we need to pay we need to yes however so that's equal let's just say that's
07:13:34.060 equal although technically you can even argue men have higher caloric require men need to eat more
07:13:41.160 food. So technically, I mean, it's like maybe 5% higher for men because we need to eat more food.
07:13:45.800 We have a higher calorie requirement. So technically our survival is more dependent
07:13:51.620 on making more money. But in any case, going beyond that though, to another massive motivator,
07:14:00.780 another massive pressure, if we don't make money,
07:14:05.600 that's going to have impact on our dating life
07:14:10.740 that's true that's true for so and would you guys agree that men are highly motivated romantically
07:14:19.600 romantically well so when i say romantically this would be sort of an umbrella term encompassing
07:14:25.920 like sex dating relationships marriage girlfriends kids yes like having kids yeah but women as well
07:14:33.440 okay so
07:14:34.560 yes women okay well hold on i would argue putting money aside i think men are more
07:14:43.080 romantically motivated than women are romantically yeah no i think that i think they are um perhaps
07:14:50.800 you can dispute it a little bit but uh i mean how about this men are more sexually motivated
07:14:57.520 yeah yeah but romantically i think so probably even women okay then even if it's equal though
07:15:03.660 even if it's equal men still don't assess you by the money that you make i would agree men assess
07:15:11.160 you by certain positive personality traits but primarily beauty but from my personal experiences
07:15:20.540 um most men don't want to have to completely provide for like their partners so they don't
07:15:30.320 necessarily mind if they do less but they still don't want to have to like take care fully of a
07:15:38.380 second person so they do want to like build it i mean so okay there's a well there's a difference
07:15:46.740 there's a difference here between attraction and economic and financial realism so i think someone
07:15:54.540 could be attracted like to a person but then as a partner if like she's not working not doing
07:16:00.580 anything and they'd have to fully take care of her they'd be like i'll choose someone who has
07:16:05.060 well i would frame it like this so maybe it's the case that men out of necessity realizing that it's
07:16:11.400 difficult to live and have kids raise a family on one income out of economic and financial reality
07:16:20.000 and necessity they that might be like a bonus or a priority when potentially dating somebody
07:16:27.260 however I would compare it more so to this when a man makes a million dollars a year he doesn't 1.00
07:16:32.400 give a fuck about how much money the woman makes when a woman makes a million dollars a year she
07:16:36.960 wants to date a man who makes a million dollars a year or more i don't know if you've watched the 1.00
07:16:42.040 how's it called the secret life of mormon wives like all those girls are like making good money 1.00
07:16:49.360 and they want their husbands not to work so that they can take care of their children
07:16:55.220 the men take care of the children well so i have not i'm not familiar with the show you're talking
07:17:00.980 about you're talking about like most likely a scripted reality tv show based in utah around a
07:17:07.740 minority religion uh mormonism lds i don't know if that maps on to what happens on a reality tv show
07:17:15.980 maps on to like the broader general cultural zeitgeist of all this my point simply being
07:17:24.440 that my position is men are more motivated and if there even was a wage gap it would be
07:17:30.740 explained away by not sexism from men, but actually sexism from you guys holding up this
07:17:38.260 patriarchal structure that men should pay on first dates. Okay. If part of my access to
07:17:45.340 getting a date, getting sex, getting a girlfriend, getting married, having kids,
07:17:50.080 the initial entry point is I need to pay for the first date. That places a financial pressure.
07:17:58.220 that places a financial burden on me that doesn't exist on you so it's like yeah i gotta make i'm 0.99
07:18:05.720 not to be clear women care about more than just money it's not just money however it's a component 0.92
07:18:11.740 of it you even admitted like oh if the guy is being a brokey blah blah blah it's it gives me 0.82
07:18:16.740 the ick a guy who's a successful lawyer he'll date a girl who works at a fast food restaurant 0.69
07:18:24.460 if she's beautiful okay not all of them but the reality is men and women prioritize different
07:18:30.540 things the things you guys care about we don't necessarily care about and the things we care
07:18:35.000 about you don't necessarily care about women like masculine men men like feminine women
07:18:40.220 there's not symmetry there's not perfect symmetry in this case women prioritize a man's income
07:18:46.680 more than women do it's not the only thing women care about but women care about it more than men
07:18:51.920 do. If women care about it more than men do, then if men realize this, Oh, women care about money 1.00
07:18:58.740 more than I care. Oh, okay. Well, here's my, if you're playing, like, say you're playing a 0.72
07:19:04.000 video game, how can I, what am I going to put my stats into? What am I? Oh, okay. Um, I'm going to
07:19:12.080 maximize my ability. One of the ways I can make myself more attractive is to become rich, to
07:19:17.400 become successful again it's not the only thing women care about but if you tell men they should 0.99
07:19:24.120 pay on first dates they need the money to do it the way i see it for dates is if you're 0.97
07:19:30.980 not willing to pay on the first date you don't really give a shit so it's just a more of a like
07:19:41.940 if you're somewhat it shows somewhat interest and investment yeah if you're not willing to do that 0.96
07:19:49.440 well it just proves i mean i would actually argue that in today's society a woman who's willing to
07:19:55.200 do that demonstrates way more interest than the reverse like a woman who's willing to pay for a
07:20:00.520 date but she otherwise doesn't that's her showing way more interest than the man paying for for the 0.99
07:20:06.140 date because that's like socially pressured whereas the woman doing it that's just like 0.99
07:20:10.280 she's massively simping not massively but that's going beyond gender roles and she's willing to do 0.96
07:20:17.800 this thing that women don't otherwise do and that would show more interest so it's like but it's
07:20:23.140 like okay it shows that the social women also demonstrate interest yeah i mean i when i go on
07:20:31.100 a first date with people i always offer to pay half i think i think it's partially from like
07:20:37.200 past relationships and like financial I don't want to say trauma I don't think it's like that
07:20:42.740 serious but just you don't mean like that thought in the back of your head like I've had people be
07:20:46.560 like oh you just are with me for my money and I'm like I could care less about your money
07:20:50.220 um and that is something that I definitely get backlash on like why would I ever offer to pay
07:20:55.820 for a date but I never want someone to be like like that again to me like oh you are just with
07:21:01.440 me for my money like that's all you care about because that's not true like I I work you know
07:21:05.540 i mean a lot of hours every week if i go on a date with you i can pay my half this isn't me
07:21:10.720 trying to get a free meal or go on some luxury vacation or whatever the case may be like i i
07:21:16.880 can put up what i need to put up but don't think it's not appreciated if you
07:21:21.000 oh she too much caffeine yeah okay she can just sit on the couch is she sitting on the couch 0.87
07:21:31.940 Yeah, that's fine if she needs to take a little break.
07:22:01.940 to speak to an advisor free of charge bet mgm operates pursuant to an operating agreement
07:22:07.080 with i gaming ontario okay do you want to take a break and then come back
07:22:19.760 we'll see okay well we'll continue on the show uh all right a few final things here from the 0.94
07:22:29.320 questionnaire uh taylor a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that
07:22:35.020 me yeah um i just don't really think like people have preferences you know um i know men that like
07:22:45.440 bigger women i know men that like smaller women um and you know getting a little touchy i've been
07:22:53.820 i have a lot of medical problems so i've been sick most of my life and you know going into my
07:22:59.220 adult life I was 85 pounds when I was 22 years old you know so this is the heaviest I've ever
07:23:06.600 been this is the fullest I've ever been and I think that like I haven't really seen much of a
07:23:14.320 change like you know from when I was really thin to even now but I do see how people even like
07:23:21.560 compliment like oh you look so much better you know I mean or whatever the case may be so I just
07:23:27.400 think that you know judging a woman based off her weight is like it's not really something that's
07:23:33.460 very uh you know what's the word i'm looking for like it's it it doesn't give the woman much
07:23:40.520 confidence you know i mean in that perspective but yeah my job as a man is not who to a woman
07:23:46.320 who i'm not interested in dating my job is not to give her confidence that's not my responsibility
07:23:51.700 but rejecting her based off of her weight is like yeah it seems like you're you're looking for
07:23:59.440 specific kind of a woman who's not obese no i look i will be the first to tell you i probably
07:24:05.880 am gonna get so much hate for this i am very much like you know the whole like you should
07:24:12.600 take care of yourself like you shouldn't be fat you should put in the work you should do all of
07:24:17.200 the things um however you know some people do have hardships some things do happen i'm not saying
07:24:24.440 like oh if someone's 600 pounds like you know i mean be like oh yeah you know don't reject her
07:24:29.840 because she's 600 pounds yes someone is slightly like above average i don't think it's right to
07:24:35.100 call them fat and be like you're ugly or whoa hold on you're smuggling in a lot of things that 0.71
07:24:41.260 is not included in the this thing so uh a woman should not be rejected because of her weight no 0.98
07:24:47.120 one nowhere in there does it say a woman should not be rejected because of her weight and called
07:24:52.120 ugly and fat that's not granted well yeah but so that is part of weight is it not well no but
07:24:58.500 i'm not suggesting here that men should call women i don't even think the man has to say 0.98
07:25:03.240 why he's rejecting her i'm simply saying like okay you're on a dating app and the woman's fat
07:25:08.220 is it wrong and the only thing you see wrong with her is that she's fat is it wrong to reject her 0.99
07:25:14.240 so swipe no because she's fat no so she's the most beautiful woman on earth but she's just a
07:25:20.620 little bigger you're gonna be like ill i'm not talking about me that's not for everyone but
07:25:26.800 that's but that's why i said but i'm just yeah but why would you i mean you're in that case you're
07:25:31.780 you're shorting yourself because like i said if you think she's the most beautiful girl on earth 0.90
07:25:36.580 but she's just a little bigger you won't even like give her a chance what if what if she just 0.99
07:25:41.200 needed like someone to come along and be like oh yeah we'll hit the gym and get back on the dating 0.89
07:25:46.040 i guess but i mean this anyone has has any right to to decline who they want
07:25:51.120 i oh can i say something yeah yeah on the topic yeah yeah um i think it's okay to have preferences
07:25:59.860 in any shape or form but i don't think people should reject people based on their weight when
07:26:07.920 it comes to like jobs or friendships or anything like that we're talking about dating though
07:26:13.060 okay but more so in social dynamics but like if you're not attracted to people who are overweight
07:26:20.600 you're allowed to deny like not wanted to initiate that that's fair for both genders
07:26:27.500 yeah by the way i don't have a double standard on this if a woman doesn't want to date a guy
07:26:31.760 who's overweight yeah it goes both ways it's okay for her to reject him so
07:26:37.320 but so you think like let's just say she's fat but let's say she's like really nice or whatever
07:26:45.940 is it okay for me to reject her i'm not saying it's not okay but i'm saying like
07:26:51.820 if you that's why i said in this instance if you think she's so beautiful like this is no she's 0.99
07:26:59.000 i don't think she's beautiful in the face there are plenty of women who only use their face because 1.00
07:27:04.240 their face is a little bit less rounder but but i don't think you can force someone to be sexually
07:27:09.000 for you to be sexually attracted to them if you're not you're not
07:27:13.520 is it wrong for the man to reject a woman because of her weight no no well hold on she
07:27:21.640 i'm trying to get an answer from her i explained my answer how much more do you want okay is it
07:27:27.980 wrong for women to reject a man because of his penis size i mean i think that's situational 0.53
07:27:36.720 how what do you mean situational 0.99
07:27:38.880 let's say let's say it's it's not a micro penis but it's below average 0.99
07:27:45.320 i mean does he know how to use it like 1.00
07:27:49.640 um fuck around and find out you know but there's other there's other possible ways to 1.00
07:27:58.120 be pleasured by a man if their dick isn't big enough like yeah but so the question is though 1.00
07:28:03.700 is it wrong for a woman to not i don't i wouldn't think it was like wrong but like that's what i'm 0.99
07:28:09.740 saying i don't think it's necessarily like the end of the world for someone to reject them like i
07:28:14.760 said everyone has a preference but to only base that off of your rejection okay i just feel like
07:28:21.000 all right uh let's see i think we're on the questionnaire here uh men care more hold on
07:28:30.120 yeah i'm wondering i don't know if we've wrapped up the thread on paying for the
07:28:44.660 first date really men should not we talked about it for a period but uh i guess to quickly wrap it
07:28:54.500 up my final position here is that i think there's an expectation on men even here in 2026 that they
07:29:03.040 should be chivalrous that they should be these sort of gentlemen and then treating women
07:29:07.420 traditionally i think we tell women uh we we tell women whether when they're growing up when
07:29:14.280 they're young or at any time this is how you should expect to be treated and we tell men this
07:29:19.900 is how you treat women but we don't tell men here's how you should be treated and we don't 0.80
07:29:25.860 tell women here's how you should treat men here's how you should be we tell men how they should be
07:29:30.820 we don't tell women how they should be a little bit like on like a little bit like sorry i didn't 0.99
07:29:36.940 just like the hooking up part and stuff like that like it's not good you shouldn't hook up with
07:29:44.380 too many as a woman you shouldn't hook up with too many guys because it's perceived this way
07:29:50.560 but guys don't get that but then yeah but i from what i see what i see happening is that we still
07:29:57.820 hold men to some of these perhaps even archaic traditional gender roles but we don't really
07:30:05.420 hold women to any standard it's just like yeah like i just mentioned with the burden burden burden
07:30:11.140 on the man to adhere to like a traditional thing but there's nothing we can't place any 0.87
07:30:19.720 traditional burden on women which seems like a kind of bullshit deal for men that seems like a 0.86
07:30:25.320 raw deal like so why should i pay for a woman who acts who's a modern woman she should be traditional 0.93
07:30:31.440 why should i pay so i would say like for me and like thinking about chivalry the way that i was
07:30:39.900 kind of taught about it is kind of like it's men showing politeness and in a way this is something
07:30:46.040 that happened in my adult life that changed my view on chivalry and it wasn't about paying for
07:30:50.020 the first date it was like i was carrying this suitcase and it was like really heavy i could like
07:30:53.520 get it up the stairs but it was like a struggle and the guy's like oh i can take your suitcase
07:30:57.020 and i'm like no i got it because i could physically carry it but then he picks it up with one hand
07:31:01.120 and takes it up the stairs and it was like that moment then i'm like oh it's like the fact that
07:31:06.800 he was capable of doing it and it assisted me and it wasn't such like a burden for him to do it like
07:31:12.420 that's a sort of chivalry that i think everyone can have like opening a door for someone doesn't
07:31:17.880 cost you a lot but it can really help the person behind you okay um but there's a difference there
07:31:26.280 i think there's a bit of a difference between like a more like societal politeness and what
07:31:30.580 we're talking about here which is a dating uh from a dating lens and dating perspective so 0.99
07:31:36.020 um what is what are the like what are the ways we're expecting women to be chivalrous 0.86
07:31:42.700 they're not chivalry is a male oriented thing yeah but men definitely should be paying
07:31:50.300 more on dates like i always pay i always offer to pay and sometimes the guy like insists that
07:31:56.560 he pays and then I insist okay well you get dinner I get the activity or you know and because men
07:32:02.980 often obviously get forgotten dating wise and they deserve to be spoiled too it shouldn't just
07:32:10.620 be just just on women uh wait I don't know if we did these can somebody tell me did we read this 0.95
07:32:18.320 one did we read this one no uh can you read it I didn't use chat GPT I've done research 1.00
07:32:26.320 we are in the late stages of a societal decay and feminism is a byproduct of mouse utopia
07:32:32.680 the founding fathers were white protestant christians that dot dot dot created a society
07:32:40.160 of a shared culture this is clearly chachi bt come on uh culture upheld by traditions and 0.94
07:32:45.680 religion without law the death of god destroys families and morality ironically ending female 0.93
07:32:51.760 independence okay all right we have this message thank you barrio uh we have clane here coming in
07:32:58.140 oh wait did i do this one no go ahead read it can anyone define these two terms delusional and
07:33:04.620 accountability rate your looks from one to ten can't use seven we'll get to that in a sec
07:33:10.180 we got another one coming in if you could read this uh one sec it's coming in 0.78
07:33:15.100 there it is chair one what's up doesn't understand the conversation she is more lost than the french 1.00
07:33:24.400 girl that didn't understand the premise of the podcast her number is probably higher than her
07:33:28.900 iq okay buddy okay all right all right uh okay so um he did wait i think we're oh wait we still
07:33:39.260 have those but that's quick uh here let's do uh what the heck one sec i'm pulling it up can you
07:33:46.960 pull up the gorlok one mine stopped losing gorlok all right on a scale wait uh dear
07:33:53.760 do you want to come back for a few segments
07:34:01.240 oh okay sure
07:34:05.160 okay here i'm turning on this yes welcome welcome back welcome back yes so it's true
07:34:18.360 i've never seen the podcast i wasn't prepared at all i just can't don't worry about that 0.94
07:34:23.760 yeah stupid guy there yeah wait what guy i just wanted to challenge me challenge me to 0.97
07:34:29.800 challenge myself here to speak in front of people to expose my opinion but even to china or my 0.99
07:34:36.100 friend i'm not able to talk about my dating life or something like that i don't know what happened
07:34:40.540 in my head to think that i would be able to be you're fine you're fine the guy that's sending
07:34:46.500 that message is like you did great no you're doing great hey you're doing great guys w w is in the
07:34:54.060 chat for yeah the guy that sent that message here sing sing the national i'm not going to pass
07:34:59.360 sing the marseillaise with me i don't sing very well go ahead keep going i'm not a singer come
07:35:11.520 on keep going i prefer dance
07:35:13.320 well done okay all right uh so we have a question though since you've rejoined us
07:35:25.600 on a scale of zero to ten rate your own looks face body total can't pick seven
07:35:29.540 okay well what i wrote there is i think in canada i'd be like an overall eight personality perhaps
07:35:38.040 an 8.59 but um from like la u.s whatever like la santa barbara standards probably like a six
07:35:46.820 okay what about you well according to your scale your well you just your own thoughts
07:35:52.560 well i think that well the number gets compared to your number so it's like on your scale and i
07:36:02.620 I feel like because you say six is cute.
07:36:08.660 Okay, just use your scale, whatever.
07:36:10.580 Just give us an answer.
07:36:12.560 How do you feel, girl?
07:36:14.220 Well, because...
07:36:15.840 Okay, so my whole thing is that the guy, my soulmate, is going to see me as a 10.
07:36:28.120 And I'm going to see him as a 10, even though we're probably both not 10s to the rest of the world.
07:36:34.300 Okay, but so to the rest of the world?
07:36:36.660 I think that I would be lucky in your rating system to be a 6.
07:36:41.540 Okay, what about you?
07:36:43.960 It really depends on my mood, on how I feel at the moment, on how I'm dressed.
07:36:50.760 If I sleep well, the period of the month, so it's a lot of parameters.
07:36:56.180 yeah sometimes i can't even watch myself in the mirror or something like this or sometimes i'm
07:37:02.960 like oh yeah today is my day yeah yep okay yeah personality just throw out the nuts i guess 0.99
07:37:10.820 right now five okay five all right face five body five total five five wait can we do oh shit i 0.99
07:37:18.640 fucked this up uh face body total so for example i'll do me face 4.5 body 4.5 total 4.5 0.98
07:37:27.840 and you can do you can have different ratings into the mic face five bodies six total 5.5 0.88
07:37:36.440 okay cool what about you i'd probably say face six body eight total six okay what about you 0.96
07:37:44.740 face five body four total four by the way that girl who was who left unfortunately she did give
07:37:54.980 herself a 10 but she left yeah i saw she wrote it on her paper uh okay so let me just see six
07:38:03.520 five yeah okay wait taylor e you said eight i said eight oh did you say yeah i said six eight
07:38:10.980 doesn't wasn't listening i guess sometimes i do that when talking to women just kidding um
07:38:16.220 it's okay you guys zone out when you're listening to me too for sure yeah all right so uh okay you
07:38:26.120 asked me to do the ratings i'm gonna do them super quick uh you gave yourself a usa six like an la six
07:38:34.500 But a Canada 8.
07:38:35.960 Canada 8, yeah.
07:38:36.820 Canada 8.
07:38:38.220 I give you a Manitoba 6.5.
07:38:45.960 I'll take it, sure.
07:38:46.860 But I'm from Montreal.
07:38:48.340 I know.
07:38:48.940 Okay.
07:38:49.540 But I'm using the Manitoba scale.
07:38:51.680 A.
07:38:52.960 Yeah, that's what I thought.
07:38:53.980 Cool.
07:38:54.720 No, okay.
07:38:55.480 I give you, you had a nose job, right?
07:39:00.760 Any lip filler? 1.00
07:39:02.920 Lip flip.
07:39:03.520 oh you have a lip flip yeah yeah what did it was it what it looked like before um pretty like do
07:39:13.180 you know what a lip lip is yeah it's weird yeah it's it's not the same as lip filler it like i
07:39:20.020 don't know the procedure or whatever but it's different but i have like a big a bigger lower
07:39:24.280 lip and then i guess wait can you turn your head that way
07:39:27.920 i think they actually you know what normally i'm i'm really not a fan of lip filler but you
07:39:36.640 got a lip flip which is kind of different they actually did kind of a good job for you on the
07:39:42.040 lips yeah they look natural good for you um okay uh rating though should we have everyone take off
07:39:51.500 or makeup uh i don't know it's hard to sometimes do an assessment with makeup but uh and you have
07:39:59.460 the nose drop too any botox uh how many how many units of botox or whatever like 10
07:40:10.460 i think i'm comfortable putting you at 5.5 to 6.5 uh tatum you gave yourself a six
07:40:20.580 and your rating system i can't i think i'm gonna put you at a 4.5
07:40:29.020 4.5 tatum oh my god yeah uh you you gave yourself you gave yourself a six right not with five
07:40:39.060 oh five she downgraded i'm gonna be nice i'm not gonna what are you talking about
07:40:42.740 i'm a nice guy what are you talking about what are you talking about you mean with me don't
07:40:46.280 be mean to you okay she that's weird that you're into that but okay you should see a therapist
07:40:51.040 about that um i am don't worry about it checks out all right so uh my dear well of course i've 0.77
07:40:57.100 got to give the french girl a 10 of course as a friend uh as a friend you know solidarity french
07:41:02.360 solidarity i'm russian too my mom is russian okay so lower my rating uh okay so you you gave
07:41:10.080 yourself a six uh well you're not wearing much makeup are you maybe a little bit but not really
07:41:16.220 i think she has no words i think i give you like five i give you five uh okay you gave yourself a
07:41:24.280 five uh huh you're an interesting case why you're an interesting case why
07:41:35.360 um did you want the honest answer yeah well i think there were okay there are some aesthetic 0.87
07:41:42.580 components to you what the fuck that sounds so autistic like you have you have some traits that 0.82
07:41:51.020 are above average and then other traits that might be below average facially so there's like 0.98
07:41:55.320 a disharmony there that sounds so bad but um it's okay uh so like i think i just yeah i think
07:42:05.540 five i go with five uh you is that your natural hair color what are you are you mexican what
07:42:12.540 are you i'm african-american yeah you're part black i knew yeah i was like i feel like she's
07:42:17.460 black like you have a black phenotype like full i mean like wait can you scoot into the table 0.92
07:42:27.040 you're too far from the mic scoot the chair scoot the chair chair yeah no i mean i i got that 0.99
07:42:32.260 impression a little bit that you might be fine no it's not i'm not saying it's a bad thing but
07:42:37.360 so your dad's like one of your parents is black but i'm african-american both my parents are
07:42:42.960 african-american like both your parents are black i mean like uh skin color wise they don't have the
07:42:49.900 same skin tone but they're both african-american i'm not biracial if that's what you're asking
07:42:54.260 you're not part well i mean like if biracial is one parent is one race and the other parents
07:42:58.680 another race i'm not that they're both black full black well it's not like i mean like you know
07:43:04.200 being in america it's usually not full wait okay let me make it simple wait wait let me make it 0.97
07:43:08.900 simple do you see the woman sitting next to you our black queen of the night 0.51
07:43:13.820 do both your parents look like her their skin color no but can i be clear that like it's a
07:43:25.020 phenotype thing where like i have i'm african-american like no one would call me
07:43:30.760 white if they knew my heritage it's just a phenotype thing but what is the skin color that
07:43:37.900 one or do one of your parents have her skin color close to that skin color yes okay so you have like 1.00
07:43:45.600 basically biracial parents no so the thing they're straight black so how the fuck you 1.00
07:43:56.020 get red hair motherfucker so how you get that red hair so i i'm jamaican i'll say that so wait let 1.00
07:44:02.160 me ask the sister over here have you ever seen okay to be fair i'm really dark right now i just 1.00
07:44:07.520 i just got no no i'm just you are you are a black woman yes have you ever seen a black woman yes 1.00
07:44:14.200 with red hair yes this is a wig just weird but oh shit it's a wig yes yes take that shit up no 1.00
07:44:21.520 That's so rude 1.00
07:44:23.260 You can go on my social media
07:44:25.320 It's not a secret
07:44:26.480 I show what I look like
07:44:27.820 No you can look at my Instagram
07:44:30.500 No I'm not going to pull it down
07:44:32.320 No I'm not going to pull it down
07:44:34.000 I'm trying to help you dog
07:44:37.780 Thank you for helping
07:44:39.520 Because I feel like it's a bit too high
07:44:41.920 Oh okay that's fine 1.00
07:44:43.120 Just pull that shit down a little 0.99
07:44:44.280 Okay I'll pull it down 0.99
07:44:46.000 Please don't pull it down
07:44:49.640 I'm not like what do you expect
07:44:51.340 So, what color is your hair?
07:44:53.880 It's auburn.
07:44:56.280 So, a dark red.
07:44:56.860 Why are you wearing a wig?
07:44:58.380 Because my hair is very hard to maintain.
07:45:03.640 You shave it?
07:45:04.860 I don't shave it.
07:45:05.840 I cut it short.
07:45:07.180 Oh, okay.
07:45:11.040 Interesting.
07:45:12.480 I'm happy with my hair.
07:45:13.500 I'm actually technically African American, too.
07:45:15.720 Please.
07:45:17.360 Now, let me tell you why.
07:45:18.620 my dad was born excuse me uh my dad was born in algeria which at the time that's north africa
07:45:30.100 algeria used to belong to france so my dad was born in algeria africa my mom's american
07:45:40.020 dad born in africa mom born in america technically technically i'm african-american
07:45:47.980 that's really far-fetched thank you no i'm not black i'm not black but technically i'm african
07:45:54.640 american can you read this my canadian best friend body five three four six three five seven
07:46:04.060 face three four three five three four seven i'm glad you can count till seven okay claim 0.98
07:46:12.300 all right uh minimum yearly wait we were talking about wait oh the looks rating oh shit i didn't 0.99
07:46:21.540 even finish uh you could shit okay um you know what well i'll say it afterwards um 4.5 0.99
07:46:33.700 4.5 and you 0.99
07:46:38.540 why are you looking at me that way 0.99
07:46:41.680 what the fuck 1.00
07:46:42.060 she's all trying to seduce me 1.00
07:46:44.120 it's been three years since she got laid 1.00
07:46:48.840 she's ready to fuck anything 1.00
07:46:50.040 even a fat guy like me 1.00
07:46:51.420 anyways just kidding it's a joke
07:46:53.240 it's just kidding 1.00
07:46:55.420 I'm gay I don't date women 1.00
07:46:57.320 just kidding 1.00
07:46:57.700 trying to cool things off a little bit
07:47:02.280 I give you
07:47:04.160 a four
07:47:05.620 okay good talk uh what is the minimum yearly oh and they underrated us but maybe who knows 1.00
07:47:13.180 the one thing i was going to add a woman can make up for you know how i said like if a woman 1.00
07:47:18.100 hasn't any she has to make up for it a woman can compensate for her looks if she has a large labia 0.70
07:47:26.920 so here's this here's the here's the math here's the here's the brian math on it yeah
07:47:33.720 So the Brian math is as follows.
07:47:36.060 Let's say she's a four, like looks, body, whatever. 1.00
07:47:38.640 She's a four, but she's got an Audi.
07:47:42.840 Now there's different categories of Audis.
07:47:45.740 So you have slight Audi, that's plus one.
07:47:48.980 You have medium Audi, plus two points.
07:47:51.960 Large Audi, plus three.
07:47:55.160 XL Audi, plus four.
07:47:57.420 And then the big five, this would be like world record Guinness
07:48:02.000 to get plus five on my scale so she's a four but she becomes a nine this is like the biggest 1.00
07:48:08.360 pussy lips in the world she becomes four to a nine wow but just excel four to seven 1.00
07:48:15.740 she becomes a seven if she has a giant labia no sorry excel labia my bad great that's great for 1.00
07:48:23.220 you thank you it is great for me whatever pelotes your boat big labia matter what's up 1.00
07:48:31.540 what's up brian is a lying he's in fact a chubby what what the fuck chubby chaser all right thank 0.98
07:48:38.660 you for sharing that appreciate it uh what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband 0.99
07:48:43.140 quick answers if you can please um i said 100k but um i think in the u.s it's kind of like
07:48:50.640 the cost of living is higher and and stuff so it would probably be different but in canada to be
07:48:58.500 my husband not boyfriend husband 100k okay what about you quick answer um ideally more than me
07:49:07.880 okay what about you 60k what about you 100k 100k okay i said equal or more so what how much
07:49:16.360 as like whatever i'm making or more all right what about you
07:49:20.480 don't really think about it don't really care so you'll date a guy who works at mcdonald's
07:49:28.500 Yeah, sure.
07:49:29.720 Okay.
07:49:30.620 How tall are you, minimum height?
07:49:31.940 Are you a date?
07:49:32.380 Quick answer.
07:49:33.900 Six, six, one.
07:49:35.840 Well, how tall are you, minimum height?
07:49:38.540 Pardon?
07:49:39.260 How tall are you?
07:49:40.380 Five, eight.
07:49:40.880 And what's the minimum height?
07:49:42.100 Yeah, five, eight.
07:49:43.140 Minimum is six.
07:49:44.180 Six, okay.
07:49:45.100 I'm five, three, and I wrote five, five, but I think I should put five, eight.
07:49:49.520 Sure, what about you?
07:49:50.200 I'm five, one, and I said five, seven.
07:49:53.240 What about you?
07:49:53.820 I'm five, seven, and I put five, nine.
07:49:55.980 Next.
07:49:56.420 I'm five, two, I put five, two.
07:49:58.500 okay
07:50:00.340 all right
07:50:02.820 okay we're going to get into the rapid fire
07:50:05.260 segment of the show
07:50:05.960 let's do the AI swap 0.90
07:50:09.380 on the girls let's do that 1.00
07:50:10.800 we're going to do the rapid fire segment next 0.96
07:50:13.080 there's a few notes to wrap up and then hopefully we
07:50:15.240 are done
07:50:16.400 soon
07:50:17.700 Tiffany can you get me water dear
07:50:20.420 Tiffany water
07:50:22.160 what's the AI
07:50:25.540 swap I have no idea
07:50:26.620 You're about to find out
07:50:28.380 So the question is would you date the male version
07:50:30.580 Of you
07:50:31.920 No 0.85
07:50:32.660 That's the male version of me 1.00
07:50:36.240 Wait what the fuck 1.00
07:50:37.280 Oh wait did they not 1.00
07:50:40.000 Wait what 0.93
07:50:41.000 Oh do we not have gender swap 1.00
07:50:43.580 Oh they just did the beautify
07:50:46.180 Okay let's get that
07:50:47.380 Wait
07:50:49.160 Question was there something I asked you guys to remind me of
07:50:52.740 That we were supposed to do 1.00
07:50:54.560 oh nah fuck it 1.00
07:50:58.160 fuck it 1.00
07:50:59.600 let me see 1.00
07:51:00.340 okay
07:51:03.500 no we don't have that that's fine
07:51:05.160 it's not a big thing
07:51:06.200 okay I think we're done with the questionnaire then
07:51:09.240 we were going to do rapid fire questions
07:51:11.880 alright
07:51:12.860 hold on
07:51:15.200 let me pull that up
07:51:16.440 guys if you're enjoying the stream like the video please
07:51:18.880 also debateuniversity.com
07:51:20.540 if you want to learn how to become a master debater
07:51:22.820 debate university.com all right we have where is it where did my notes go all right uh oh man the 0.99
07:51:33.680 asian girl left fuck i had a question for her oh well snooze you lose i guess well you didn't rate 0.99
07:51:39.400 her so what do you rate her she's not a 10 i'll tell you that much damn well rater i don't know 1.00
07:51:45.360 she's got a fucking 10 pounds of makeup on plastic surgery out the wazoo lip filler out the wazoo 1.00
07:51:52.320 who knows what else fake lashes that could reach fucking taiwan 1.00
07:51:56.340 i honestly i mean you take all that shit off she's probably a five 1.00
07:52:03.900 maybe who knows who knows it's a mystery under all that makeup you don't even know 0.99
07:52:10.280 how can you even know i don't i don't know uh let's see here
07:52:14.160 is it
07:52:18.980 show of hands 1.00
07:52:19.620 who here is a feminist 1.00
07:52:20.440 feminist 1.00
07:52:22.580 feminist
07:52:23.500 I'm not an anti-feminist 0.85
07:52:26.280 is there a patriarchy
07:52:27.120 is there a patriarchy
07:52:28.900 it depends on who's defining it
07:52:31.380 wait what's that
07:52:32.160 it depends on your definition of patriarchy
07:52:34.860 are you going to read out a definition
07:52:37.400 or is it like what
07:52:38.540 everything okay
07:52:41.000 oh wait 0.93
07:52:45.800 you have the gender swaps 0.97
07:52:48.460 wait yeah they were there 0.99
07:52:54.240 pull them up
07:53:02.560 why would that matter when they post
07:53:07.000 they're there aren't they
07:53:09.360 wait it doesn't matter when you wait it doesn't okay they could have posted it 10 years ago they 0.99
07:53:19.760 all knew who's going to be on the panel you could still pull that shit up all right um 0.98
07:53:23.760 wait where were we oh patriarchy uh a movement towards egalitarianism with a rejection or 0.99
07:53:33.080 deconstruction of the patriarchy that's your definition of feminism well hold on uh there's
07:53:39.740 again there you are right there are varying definitions of feminism uh so the charitable
07:53:46.280 definition wait hold on well the definition they might say is that uh equality i i strive towards
07:53:57.300 equality on average for people but i don't like like strict i don't like the arguments where it's
07:54:05.240 putting someone in an inferior position to correct something i like the idea of getting like more
07:54:12.340 like toward equity is better than stagnation or trying to oppress someone yeah well i'll just 0.79
07:54:19.360 tell you my position on feminism and then you can tell me if it parses for you so the most
07:54:25.240 charitable definition i would give it is women's advocacy so not equal rights not equality women's
07:54:33.620 advocacy now there's nothing wrong with women's advocacy but don't parade your movement as caring
07:54:40.260 about equality i think that's fair so for example if there's a form of equality that would not
07:54:47.580 benefit women feminists won't fight for it even if it's equality i think that is something that
07:54:54.280 we've seen happen so we agree now my definition goes my true sense of feminism goes beyond that
07:55:02.500 so it does do women's advocacy so feminism is women's advocacy plus bundled together with it
07:55:11.460 sort of inextricably inextricably inextricably interconnectedly feminism is anti-male 1.00
07:55:17.820 far-fetched how's that far-fetched
07:55:22.280 but like you can advocate for women without putting men down yeah i totally agree with you 0.99
07:55:32.880 you absolutely can uh advocate for women without putting men down feminists have a lot of difficulty 0.86
07:55:38.960 doing that though i i agree with that to a certain extent i do like a lot of feminist women are very
07:55:47.800 anti-men camera please sorry repeat that I said I agree with that to a certain extent I said I
07:55:55.420 think that a lot of feminist women that are extreme feminists are very anti-men they're
07:56:00.040 they're pro-women and that's not to say that they're necessarily wrong and what they believe
07:56:06.040 you could believe what you want but I agree with what you said they are like very anti-men I will
07:56:11.940 argue then I'm not saying that I agree with this but some people would argue if you're not radical
07:56:17.140 you can't bring people to center i'm not saying that i support that but i see some people saying
07:56:24.140 if you don't do these radical things it will never get awareness it'll never be talked about
07:56:28.980 you can't even have the conversation because you're not it's not in like the zeitgeist i guess
07:56:34.680 i think anyone that's extremist in their beliefs is not the right way to go like left wing or
07:56:45.040 right wing i think the best place to be is in the middle and that both have their pros and cons and
07:56:51.780 we should just take the best out of both here really quick um nathan can you just pull up uh
07:56:58.120 it's in the resources tab not like the one you have to scroll down for it's in the media and
07:57:03.920 you're going to scroll up like three posts there's like black and white photos with captions uh we're
07:57:09.940 just going to show you some quotes from some famous feminists throughout history do you have 0.73
07:57:16.460 it yeah okay pull it up all right uh can i have you read these quickly if you can i want to see 1.00
07:57:22.300 a man beat into a bloody pulp with a high heel shoved in his mouth like an apple in the mouth 0.98
07:57:28.180 of a pig next andrew dorkin very famous feminist to call a man an animal is to flat is to flatter 0.99
07:57:35.720 him he's a machine a walking dildo that's the woman who tried to kill andy warhol next she wrote 1.00
07:57:43.500 she wrote the scum manifesto very famous uh feminist piece of literature go ahead i will 0.99
07:57:48.880 say that whatever i'm saying is not from me but from what i'm reading yeah from what you're reading
07:57:52.900 if life is to survive on this planet there must be a decontamination of the earth i think this
07:57:59.660 will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the
07:58:05.620 population of males next i feel that man hating is an honorable and viable political act next 0.88
07:58:14.100 no woman should be authorized to stay at home to raise her children women should not have that
07:58:21.480 choice because if there is such a choice too many women will make that one simone de beauvoir very 1.00
07:58:27.980 famous french feminist or wait is she canadian i'm pretty sure no she's french probably french 0.99
07:58:35.460 it's just you know the canadians are kind of french so next the proportion of men must be
07:58:42.560 reduced to to and maintained at approximately 10 percent of the human race yikes yikes big 1.00
07:58:49.580 feminist there next notice the armpit hair the more famous and powerful i get the more powerful 1.00
07:58:55.980 i have to hurt the more power i have to hurt men next the nuclear family must be destroyed 0.81
07:59:03.260 Whatever its ultimate meaning, the breakup of families now is an objectively revolutionary process. 0.87
07:59:11.880 Revolutionary process. Next.
07:59:14.700 The end goal of feminist revolution must be the abolition of the nuclear family. 1.00
07:59:22.560 Next. 1.00
07:59:24.620 The first condition for the liberation of the wife is to bring the whole female sex back into public industry. 1.00
07:59:31.960 and this in turn demands the abolition of the monogamous family 1.00
07:59:39.100 as the economic unit of society. 1.00
07:59:41.980 You know what gives me the ick when a woman can't read? 1.00
07:59:45.580 Sorry, I'm tired. 1.00
07:59:47.360 I know, I'm giving you a hard time.
07:59:48.980 Because you said guys who don't have good grammar give you the ick.
07:59:54.080 So, okay, finishing up, or let's do the questionnaire here,
07:59:57.940 or not the questionnaire, the rapid-fire questions.
08:00:01.960 Skip, skip, skip, skip, skip.
08:00:05.740 I guess we'll go center, and then we'll either do split,
08:00:09.680 or we'll do that angle for these questions.
08:00:17.160 Okay, what species are we?
08:00:20.040 Human species?
08:00:21.880 Sorry, louder? 0.99
08:00:22.700 Human species. 0.93
08:00:25.840 What species are we for you?
08:00:29.720 Human.
08:00:32.800 No, but what, I know we're human, yes, but what species are we?
08:00:39.300 Like, uh, trying to find the English word for it, but.
08:00:44.040 What's the French word?
08:00:46.780 We're part of the, yeah, I don't know, skip me.
08:00:51.720 Homo sapien.
08:00:53.080 Yeah, that's what I was looking for.
08:00:54.500 Homo sapien?
08:00:55.320 Homo sapien.
08:00:56.180 Yeah, Homo sapien.
08:00:57.620 It was the language barrier that caused problems.
08:01:02.820 Name three countries besides the USA.
08:01:06.040 Three countries?
08:01:07.400 Canada, France, Italy.
08:01:12.820 Norway, Sweden, and Finland.
08:01:15.860 How many continents are there?
08:01:18.080 Seven.
08:01:19.860 Name one continent.
08:01:23.560 North America.
08:01:25.980 Europe.
08:01:26.340 Europe, Africa, Asia, South America.
08:01:32.100 Can you scoot into the table?
08:01:34.600 Can you scoot into the table?
08:01:36.740 I don't know.
08:01:39.480 You don't know?
08:01:40.480 Mm-mm.
08:01:41.240 Okay.
08:01:42.480 What two countries border the USA?
08:01:46.420 Question for you here next to me.
08:01:49.060 What two what?
08:01:50.700 Countries border the USA.
08:01:53.280 Yeah.
08:01:53.700 Canada.
08:01:54.140 A little closer to the mic, please. 0.98
08:01:55.600 Canada, Mexico 1.00
08:01:57.380 Correct
08:01:58.320 How many states in the USA?
08:02:01.800 Is it like 49 or 51
08:02:03.920 Something like that
08:02:05.000 50
08:02:06.220 What is the capital of the USA?
08:02:11.960 Washington, D.C.
08:02:13.560 Name three U.S. states
08:02:14.980 Montana, Idaho, Iowa
08:02:18.100 Name for you next to me
08:02:20.100 Name two European countries
08:02:22.480 Or two countries in Europe
08:02:23.560 two countries in europe um tiffany if you can go center when i ask the question and then
08:02:30.580 swap to when they respond germany and sweden right you are correct how many planets in our
08:02:42.580 solar system to you 12 12 okay no um eight nine if you count pluto but now
08:02:53.500 it's a it's called like a dwarf planet uh question for you next to me what planet do we live on
08:03:00.380 earth earth anybody disagree no okay question the government building the pentagon is what shape
08:03:12.100 a pentagon final answer yeah you're correct congratulations
08:03:18.480 uh what what country is directly north of mexico directly north of mexico yeah
08:03:28.040 you'll no say you'll no say what's that i don't know you don't know what okay
08:03:35.680 uh directly yeah what country is north of mexico north the united states yeah wait on the map
08:03:44.560 yeah so not when i say when i say on the map i if i ask you what direction is something
08:03:50.760 if we if you're just thinking here it's like okay well where's north that's unfair but on the map
08:03:56.000 where is with your finger point to where north is where's south i have a trick never eat sour
08:04:03.740 watermelon oh that's good that's good why actually though why should you not eat sour watermelon
08:04:09.940 it's just a trick okay uh what you purposely ask these questions nine eight nine hours in do you 0.99
08:04:19.920 right that is not true that is so true it's just it's boring for the viewers to hear the shit 0.94
08:04:26.800 early on well so you're purposely doing it yeah but not for the reason you think okay 0.96
08:04:32.120 i mean hold on i could be drunk not that i drink i could be drunk out of my mind 0.99
08:04:38.320 stoned off of weed stoned out off of meth on heroin speedballing about to go get fucking 0.97
08:04:46.280 my third bbl i could be on my third bbl surgery they're literally putting the anesthesia into my 0.99
08:04:53.720 fucking arm i'm in the twilight i'm dazing and somebody asked me these questions i can answer 0.88
08:04:58.560 all of them bruv that's a lot of confidence i'm very confident in my ability to answer these very 0.99
08:05:03.740 simple questions okay what continent is brazil in uh south america what continent is egypt in next
08:05:13.080 to me i don't know egypt africa wait come on thank you guys okay what continent here if you
08:05:25.340 get one wrong you get a speed round i guess you get a redemption round what continent is japan in
08:05:30.640 for you? Asia. There you go. Got it right. How many dimes make a dollar? A 10. What is the capital
08:05:43.640 of France for you next to me? Capital of France is Paris. You are correct. Capital of Japan.
08:05:58.140 The capital of Japan?
08:05:59.840 I don't know.
08:06:02.640 Tokyo?
08:06:03.180 Tokyo, Tokyo.
08:06:04.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:06:05.000 See, eight hours ago?
08:06:08.240 What country is immediately south of the United States?
08:06:13.180 Mexico.
08:06:15.460 I think you got that right.
08:06:17.020 Thank you.
08:06:17.620 If today is Monday, what day is it in three days?
08:06:22.000 For Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.
08:06:27.300 thursday monday yeah oh yeah thursday okay uh what is the name of the famous car company founded
08:06:36.340 by henry ford ford well done congratulations uh let's see what is five times five 25 12 divided
08:06:45.640 by three um four 100 divide by four 25 15 plus 35 50 90 minus 45 90 minus 45 is
08:07:04.460 45 correct uh i'm skipping a bunch of these how many stars are on the u.s flag
08:07:14.080 50 yep what century are we in 21st century what galaxy do we live in the milky way
08:07:24.360 uh what country did the united states gain its independence from 0.96
08:07:31.720 to my black queen my black queen is crazy britain britain okay um who was the first 0.97
08:07:42.360 president of the usa i'll give that to the canadian yeah i actually i'm not the first 0.94
08:07:46.780 president of the usa i got you girl for you first president george washington george washington
08:07:53.700 well done what country is the great wall of china in china china of course of course i've
08:08:01.060 show us your tattoo again yeah let's do it face this camera here so like your face you're gonna 0.94
08:08:10.620 face tatum for this one no here put your hair yeah there you go all right made in china made
08:08:18.160 in china love it beautiful we're made in france um okay let's see uh how many days of the week
08:08:29.220 end with the letter y all of them well done what language do the people in idaho speak
08:08:35.120 well done uh if a dozen eggs costs three dollars how much is each egg
08:08:44.540 repeat the question if a dozen so 12 a dozen eggs cost three dollars how much is each egg
08:08:57.560 yeah that's correct what is the closest start to earth
08:09:01.900 the sun are you sure i think so final answer yes i'm not too what what country is the panama canal 0.97
08:09:12.780 in for you no fucking idea panama oh there you go i didn't graduate high school uh what language 0.85
08:09:23.180 do people in mexico speak spanish if you pass the person in second place what place are you in 0.99
08:09:32.080 if i pass the person in second place what place are you now in first place no okay what do you
08:09:38.240 think first okay pass the person in second place yeah what place are you now first first okay
08:09:45.840 first first okay second second okay second second okay it is second place
08:09:52.240 can you repeat the sentence well you didn't pass the person in first place there's two you passed
08:09:57.260 this person so you're not okay roll your eyes like it doesn't make sense all right uh what
08:10:05.160 country we need i should ask this to the french girl what country is the eiffel tower in paris
08:10:10.760 I mean France sorry
08:10:12.160 Paris the country is my favorite country
08:10:14.780 It's a great country Paris
08:10:16.160 What currency is you
08:10:19.080 What country did the Vietnam War
08:10:23.140 Happen in
08:10:23.800 Vietnam or the United States
08:10:28.940 I don't know
08:10:29.560 Or the United States
08:10:30.920 What is 34 plus 66
08:10:34.400 34 plus 66
08:10:38.440 Is that 100
08:10:39.960 i'm tired 100 100 minus 66 100 minus 66 is 34 who is the current u.s president
08:10:53.560 trump who was the u.s president before trump
08:10:57.600 what is 100 minus 34 for you i'm just minus 100 minus 34 is um 60
08:11:09.440 Well done.
08:11:14.340 77 plus 33.
08:11:16.760 100.
08:11:17.900 The same question?
08:11:21.100 Yeah.
08:11:29.420 23.
08:11:31.180 Yes.
08:11:32.640 I don't know.
08:11:33.360 I'm tired.
08:11:34.340 23, okay.
08:11:35.880 77 plus 33 is what?
08:11:39.320 Here, you?
08:11:41.080 110.
08:11:41.860 110?
08:11:43.520 Okay, if you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?
08:11:47.620 If I was born 10 years ago?
08:11:49.380 Yeah, so you're 29, so...
08:11:51.320 I'd be 10 years old.
08:11:53.520 If I was born 10 years ago.
08:11:54.840 Yeah, that's right.
08:11:58.740 Nice try, though.
08:11:59.680 Yeah, we're trying to get you.
08:12:00.580 Nice try.
08:12:02.460 66 plus 44 to Taylor.
08:12:08.380 110 yeah how many world wars were there uh two look in my sorry two uh potentially three
08:12:19.180 potentially three okay how many world wars were there some rumors two two going around uh world
08:12:26.300 war like world war one world war two yeah how many those are the only ones that count or are
08:12:30.540 we counting like weird words no just world world okay but then two okay two but in the media and
08:12:37.260 stuff they're talking about a potential 11 world war 11 no ilhan omar no i'm just hearing that
08:12:44.540 like things are happening right now okay uh what decade so when i am asking what decade
08:12:52.340 1820s 1970s decade what decade was world war one
08:12:57.700 20th century that's a century decade so i'm looking for decade
08:13:07.260 1910s, I don't know this.
08:13:18.100 It's probably like...
08:13:18.900 Guess, just guess.
08:13:20.160 20s.
08:13:21.920 1920s?
08:13:22.460 1920s.
08:13:23.000 Okay, what about you?
08:13:23.680 Like 1810s or something?
08:13:25.400 1810s, okay.
08:13:26.280 World War I, 1910s.
08:13:27.820 Okay, next.
08:13:28.800 1940s.
08:13:29.780 1940s, okay, what about you?
08:13:32.600 I'm not sure.
08:13:33.980 Guess, throw out a wild guess.
08:13:35.500 19 uh 1910 there you go okay uh let's see here can you name three kardashians of course i can
08:13:45.460 by the way we will accept jenner's so you can do kardashians or jenner's so first we have
08:13:52.820 kourtney kardashian followed by kim kardashian followed by chloe kardashian then there's rob
08:13:59.060 kardashian and afterwards there was kendall jenner and then kylie jenner if you want i can also name
08:14:06.180 all their kids yes wait wait wait quiet quiet quiet do it like 90 okay so first courtney had
08:14:14.940 um i gotta go uh so wait we gotta do your notes just wait courtney had almost there
08:14:21.820 Uh, Mason, Dizik, then Penelope Dizik.
08:14:26.560 Quick, quick, quick.
08:14:27.080 And then, um, Rain Dizik.
08:14:30.300 And then recently she had Rob, um, Rocky 13.
08:14:34.840 Kim Kardashian has four kids.
08:14:37.140 She had, uh, Northwest, then, um, St. West, Chicago West, uh, Chicago West is the last
08:14:46.820 one, and, uh, Psalm West.
08:14:49.300 and after that uh chloe has two kids she has truth thompson and um tatum thompson
08:15:00.660 then robert kardash who the hell you asked i'm answering but you could uh just to skip ahead
08:15:09.800 you could list all of them yeah and then just list the jenners really quick though uh well
08:15:15.280 it's kendall and kylie but they have stepbrothers don't worry about those yeah we don't we don't
08:15:20.760 worry about those uh okay so we're let's see here uh you're dating a guy do you have a celebrity
08:15:31.640 crush yeah uh robert rosh he won the traitors usa the i'm sorry the what robert rosh he was on um
08:15:41.860 love island is that guy your celebrity crush is a reality tv star not like an athlete not a hockey
08:15:48.480 player not william gretzky no um i try to avoid the hockey players tbd to be honest tbd yeah yeah
08:15:55.840 your dad told you stay away no i just saw i just saw how he rolls and how some of my siblings
08:16:02.560 okay um so you do have a celebrity crush though
08:16:08.720 if you could hook up with him would you like not with my current relationships yeah yeah like a
08:16:17.740 hall pass would you do it uh not in my current relationship status but if i were single for
08:16:22.640 sure if you were single for sure okay all right um cool anybody here would you okay say you're
08:16:33.780 married but it's like your celebrity crush and say your partner's okay with it i feel it wait
08:16:41.360 that kind of changes things would you do the hall pass no no okay all right skipping that one then
08:16:49.520 uh what percentage of men do you think are over six feet and i mean you only want to do it depends
08:16:54.780 on the country usa usa um 20 okay next i probably smaller than that i don't know maybe just throw
08:17:05.260 out the number uh 10 next you said strictly in the u.s yep 50 next six oh closer to mike's guys
08:17:15.780 12. 25. And you said 50%? It's actually 15% of men are six feet or over. What percentage of men
08:17:25.300 make at least $1 million a year? In the U.S., I think it's like one out of 10. There are like
08:17:33.900 one out of 20. 10%, 5%? Let's say 10. Okay, 10%. I would say 3%. 3%. 5%. 5%. 0.1%. 0.1. 1. 1.
08:17:45.200 one one percent well i'll say like net worth maybe not salary
08:17:49.080 yeah uh what percentage of men do you find attractive now this is when you're single of
08:17:56.800 course oh my god of the men in your age range to be clear obviously i'm not expecting you to
08:18:02.600 be attracted to 60 year old men 10 unless you are which is 10 right off the bat without talking to
08:18:08.580 them talking to them seeing in the street 10 yeah tatum i would say a lot higher uh just 1.00
08:18:14.800 50 40 30 80 60 higher 100 you want to fuck them all it's like pokemon she wants to fuck them all 1.00
08:18:24.880 all right what about you 10 10 10 5 5 50 50 i would say it's pretty 50 50 all right what about 1.00
08:18:33.220 you 30 30 what percentage of men do you think have yachts have what yachts like the boat
08:18:39.200 oh um one percent one percent yeah um point one person i'll say three point oh one percent
08:18:49.000 point one percent point two percent do any of you keep a list of all the men you've been with
08:18:55.560 on your phone no yes like sexually it's got a mental list like on your phone you know like
08:19:03.500 in the notes no you you no yes you yes yes yes you guys down to read it no you're down to read it 0.99
08:19:13.920 the list um no do you keep is it just like name date or like it's kind of detailed like a dick 0.93
08:19:21.820 rating or some shit no no no not even that but like other things yeah uh real quick sure how 0.98
08:19:28.380 the fuck am i supposed to remember that shit from 20 years ago that's why you write it down well i 0.99
08:19:32.940 mean so i'm 37 i lost my virginity at 17 weren't you a virgin huh right weren't you he was 10 1.00
08:19:42.040 minutes ago yeah uh so i remember people i've had sex with 20 years ago like i mean 0.98
08:19:50.760 say like all of them oh all of them you don't how many people were you fucking 10 10 20 years ago 0.98
08:20:00.280 whatever that's where i did my majority of my fucking actually well i mean that's typical when 0.89
08:20:06.940 you're younger people yeah it probably depends how much like how how many people okay how about 0.95
08:20:11.780 this um under 20 and i'm gonna answer this too have you ever slept with someone the same day 1.00
08:20:16.820 you met them i have i don't know close to it but not right you're a fucking liar 1.00
08:20:24.960 look think like some some like like mountie with like the rcmp or whatever you know he like 1.00
08:20:35.660 went to canada and like you know he uh i'm telling you maybe like 48 to 72 but not like
08:20:43.500 like 72 you know 72 yeah but like i mean he's like you know part of the he's got like that
08:20:49.280 red uniform and stuff and you thought that was like really attractive not my cup of tea but 0.94
08:20:53.440 not your cup of tea no okay sound like the guy from frozen the fuck no but it's like you've never 0.88
08:20:59.440 been to like a hot nightclub in like toronto and like maybe i brought them over but i didn't go 0.99
08:21:04.240 the oh but what about like a little blowy and like the back of the tim hortons or whatever you know
08:21:10.100 okay you don't like to go to tim hortons but like what i what about like i don't know like
08:21:16.740 you get some poutine and then he gets some i don't like poutine either i'm pretty picky when
08:21:20.940 it comes to food and men but like okay you've never like met a nice guy at like a nice like
08:21:26.260 manitoba like nightclub manitoba oh okay like maybe vancouver like you're in vancouver and
08:21:32.520 you found like a nice guy and you had sex with him not in vancouver huh not in vancouver so 0.54
08:21:40.060 you're telling me like a girl like you you've never been to like a nightclub and you've never 0.52
08:21:44.440 like had the sex with as a man like quickly i brought the man over but uh not necessarily 1.00
08:21:51.340 the whole shabang right you know this how when i start to do it she's doing it 0.99
08:21:55.880 but like why don't you do it like you know um because uh i want uh the man to run out 0.84
08:22:06.200 to like you know have to work for it a little bit so you like wait until like the second date you
08:22:11.460 know uh i say maybe a third you betcha yeah it's kind of like a rule i try to yeah 0.98
08:22:18.440 well i mean you're a prostitute so yes what about in your civilian life though you 0.99
08:22:25.860 fucked right away same day in my 20s when i was racking up all the numbers racking up 1.00
08:22:30.840 the numbers okay what about you same day yes not proud of it but not proud of it what about 0.99
08:22:35.220 you no never no okay you just haven't met a guy who can knock your wig off yet my wig no oh you
08:22:45.000 got a wig on no that's what i'm saying her like she just hasn't met the kind of guy that just
08:22:49.120 blew her wig off i mean i've only been wearing a wig for a year that was pretty good nobody
08:22:53.320 yeah all right nobody gives me it's a tough crowd tough crowd all right well uh same day
08:22:59.140 Yeah, I already exposed myself earlier 0.99
08:23:01.740 Oh yeah, you fucked a guy here in Santa Barbara 0.99
08:23:03.900 Yes, same day 0.99
08:23:05.280 Same day, all right, okay, we've all done it 0.99
08:23:07.640 That French girl who's sitting on the couch 1.00
08:23:10.340 Probably, right? 1.00
08:23:13.780 Oh, don't worry about it
08:23:14.740 I guess we'll never know
08:23:16.080 Eh bien, on va
08:23:18.380 Jamais connait
08:23:20.940 On va jamais connait
08:23:23.740 Quelle chose
08:23:25.640 Elle a fait
08:23:27.160 on va vraiment
08:23:29.940 connaît pas
08:23:32.300 je connais pas
08:23:33.280 serious and busy
08:23:36.040 show of hands
08:23:38.260 who's had a threesome
08:23:38.940 oh wait didn't we talk about this already
08:23:42.520 in the very beginning 0.93
08:23:44.600 show of hands who's had a ho phase
08:23:46.100 ho phase 0.90
08:23:47.700 ho for show
08:23:50.440 it's my ho phase
08:23:52.200 oh you know 0.97
08:23:54.400 if you're just in like
08:23:55.840 you know you're just like sleeping with all the guys in like quebec you know
08:23:59.680 but what i will say is like i keep myself to a pretty high standard but when i haven't done
08:24:07.200 anything for a while sometimes i go on discount you know just for a very short period what do
08:24:13.220 you mean by wait what do you mean by discount you know um well like usually i aim for like
08:24:17.960 this kind of guy and then like i don't know i just go on discount for like a short amount of
08:24:23.000 time and then you know lower the standard rate yeah okay yeah i like that yeah you have to be
08:24:30.040 lucky to fall on a discount but if you do good for you that's why it's called getting lucky for
08:24:36.920 men you gotta right place right time you gotta be in the you know in the the best uh montreal 0.99
08:24:44.100 nightclubs and just stumble upon her and she's just horny or some shit but for the most part
08:24:48.380 y'all can't afford me wait so you're saying you you've had wait question i guess question for all 0.78
08:24:56.400 the women like those of you who have like hooked up like quicker whether it's like the first date
08:25:01.880 second date third date but then you meet a guy you really like do you make him wait
08:25:05.540 i'd say the more like the more i like him the more i'll make him wait because i potentially
08:25:12.860 want something more serious out of it see that seems backwards like i feel like if the guy is 0.97
08:25:20.940 the one that you think is relationship worthy you should let him fuck right away and then the 1.00
08:25:26.600 scumbag dudes that don't deserve pussy well you just shouldn't give him pussy to be honest i guess 1.00
08:25:33.000 but like the guy who you're like oh this is the guy who's like a good man and i could see him 1.00
08:25:38.740 being the father of my children and i could marry him and be in a relationship with him that's the
08:25:43.220 guy who's got to wait three months six months a year marriage no that's too much the length of
08:25:47.720 time aside that's the guy that the like think about it from this perspective imagine this
08:25:53.320 imagine if i said you know these hood rats these rapscallions these strumpets i'm gonna take them 0.56
08:26:03.300 on trips i'm gonna take them on vacation i'm gonna buy them gifts i'm gonna pay for dates i'm gonna 0.74
08:26:07.520 to buy dinner. I'm going to, you know, give her all this attention. And I tell you, the girl who
08:26:13.740 I think could be the one who could be my girlfriend, who I'm serious about, well, they were just for
08:26:20.740 fun. They were just, they were just sex. For you, I think we should wait for all that stuff. Maybe 0.97
08:26:27.400 when we're more serious, maybe when we're married, then I'll give you the gifts. Then I'll take you
08:26:33.000 on vacation then i'll pay for dates then i'll do xyz you would be like that's backwards my take on
08:26:39.820 it is that maybe for him unconscious unconsciously to do it more like quicker will turn him off or
08:26:50.200 make him less interested so i don't want to take that risk if i am interested so i'll like make him
08:26:56.800 weight more and show him that i'm serious but if i right off the bat i'm like yeah
08:27:02.700 you won't be my man for xyz reason then 0.99
08:27:07.300 the thing is is i think look if the guy really likes you you fuck quick you fuck yeah but it's 0.99
08:27:17.940 always different for like for some people it won't be a problem or it won't change anything 0.98
08:27:24.400 for others it will so i'd rather just not take the risk if i uh yeah but i guess the framing
08:27:30.840 here i think it's fair to think okay well maybe the guy might judge me for it or whatever but 0.82
08:27:36.100 again bird's eye view looking down at the dating landscape i think it's kind of bullshit that 1.00
08:27:42.900 a girl who has no issue fucking quickly she's gonna tell me oh he was just a fuck boy he was 1.00
08:27:49.480 just for fun he was just he was nothing to me it it was just fun it was stupid it didn't matter 1.00
08:27:55.840 so you're telling me i'm the guy that's important 0.99
08:27:59.580 and i gotta wait for sex that seems like stupid like that's backwards no but how i am i just like 0.98
08:28:08.800 don't want to put in myself in a position where i can be mistreated or used or whatnot so i just 0.93
08:28:16.400 tend to make them wait a little bit because good things take time what's your body count again 20
08:28:24.920 to 30 yeah were they all boyfriends not all of them because you said sometimes you have your
08:28:31.080 moments your discount days coupons at the happy hour okay would you prefer to live in a world
08:28:42.140 without men no no nobody we need men yeah no okay um let's see here oh does any anybody here more 0.99
08:28:52.560 liberal okay oh well fuck okay i'm gonna ask it because it'll still be funny um do you believe 0.99
08:29:00.620 in reparations for black americans so i believe i believe reparations were good for people who 0.99
08:29:11.060 I mean in 20 let me put it this way in 2026 probably not but historically they did serve
08:29:18.100 a more direct cause and effect sort of thing okay um but like just giving say we just like give 0.80
08:29:27.580 black people just like ten thousand dollars as reparations if it's 1890 I think that's good
08:29:35.720 because it makes sense given the historical context but in 2026 it doesn't make sense 0.97
08:29:40.340 okay you should have said well i guess something i like to do on the show if there's like white
08:29:45.920 liberal women and there's like a black girl i try to get them to give her reparations 1.00
08:29:50.240 but you're black yeah but well you're african 0.98
08:29:56.820 this is hard for you a little bit i mean like you 0.99
08:30:03.080 you look i don't know how the fuck you know what i mean you know what i mean like i know 0.84
08:30:09.920 what you mean because i've lived with myself my whole life i know what i look like i don't know 0.99
08:30:14.020 what to tell you wait um okay wait oh oh okay hold on oh oh can you say the n-word i mean
08:30:27.320 i wouldn't but hold on you're so but is that a good reason to disrespect people based on their
08:30:36.140 race wait disrespect people oh it's a disrespectful word that's why we call it the n-word no but 0.63
08:30:45.060 black people are allowed to say it but it's a but i in my heart i know it's a disrespectful
08:30:50.280 world and i wouldn't say that but i feel i guess the question that i'm what i'm trying to get at
08:30:59.440 here is so you're you are i mean i would frame it as biracial but you said i'm not biracial
08:31:06.560 but you're not like black okay but i it's a i'm genotypically black phenotypically
08:31:15.500 like you can see me no but okay how about this your skin color is white that's correct
08:31:21.140 but you are part black i am african-american you're african-american but like i feel like
08:31:32.140 if a black person from the streets heard you dropping the n-word they would be upset but i
08:31:40.860 wouldn't do that right right nathan you know the streets you know i'm talking about yeah 0.98
08:31:45.900 He knows what I'm talking about
08:31:47.180 Yeah, I lived on him
08:31:48.160 You lived on the streets?
08:31:50.380 Yeah, on the streets, yeah 1.00
08:31:51.800 Oh shit, I would have never guessed 1.00
08:31:54.480 Smart ass 1.00
08:31:58.400 What do you mean? 0.99
08:32:00.400 You're just having a little fun
08:32:01.280 Alright, okay
08:32:02.860 Do you think Trump is a fascist? 0.69
08:32:08.700 Fascist is a very specific word
08:32:10.700 That I think people stretch 1.00
08:32:12.780 True, true
08:32:14.580 Okay let me finish the notes
08:32:17.460 And then
08:32:18.280 We're out of here
08:32:20.680 We have Mackenzie 0.98
08:32:21.760 Wait Mackenzie 1.00
08:32:24.600 Who the fuck is Mackenzie 1.00
08:32:26.320 Who the fuck is Mackenzie 1.00
08:32:28.300 Oh she flaked 1.00
08:32:31.820 My Lana she's over there 1.00
08:32:34.760 We have Brooke
08:32:35.860 It took me years to love myself
08:32:38.180 Years in respect myself 1.00
08:32:39.720 And nowadays women don't respect themselves at all 1.00
08:32:41.720 Ain't no respect we ain't getting no respect 1.00
08:32:44.560 Who's Brooke?
08:32:45.360 Is that you?
08:32:46.040 Brooke?
08:32:46.500 We're both.
08:32:47.080 No, this is your note, I think.
08:32:48.520 Oh.
08:32:50.040 Oh.
08:32:52.380 I've worked hard on myself in my life.
08:32:57.540 Okay, sure.
08:32:59.360 Very hard on myself. 0.97
08:33:01.400 So where I didn't really care for respect before, didn't give a shit about myself, I do now. 0.93
08:33:08.680 And I've worked really hard on that. 0.88
08:33:10.300 Okay.
08:33:10.820 Who here has done hard street drugs?
08:33:13.800 what's a hard what do you would define smack heroin black tar heroin crack cocaine no i had
08:33:22.520 an adderall addiction methamphetamine i am sober now crystal meth okay cool uh let's see here
08:33:29.520 hold on okay so i have shy in those notes i've got your notes boom boom boom wait we got brook
08:33:38.520 part one we did some of your stuff we did the debbie father thing old-fashioned i think we
08:33:46.320 did old-fashioned yep we did your notes so i just need to do
08:33:50.120 uh okay we did tay i need to do tatum i need to do cheyenne and then i need to do her friends
08:33:57.940 excuse me china and then we're done i think i can blast through it within 10-15 minutes
08:34:03.560 so um yeah i think we just have to do the notes and then we're done all right tatum mcdougalson
08:34:11.800 can your french i have her notes excusez-moi no uh excuse me
08:34:20.520 uh why why are you speaking on her behalf um i spoke to her and she's out i'm talking to her
08:34:29.660 right to know why do you say no what is it huh gets what what's there to get she said she was out
08:34:36.880 and she's out into the mic she said she's but remember earlier when we were talking about the
08:34:42.420 crying thing and then like did you see how she came to the defense no it's not about crying
08:34:49.940 she's just over it yeah we're just reading social cues oh sorry am i too autistic to read the social 0.77
08:34:55.860 queue since i'm too autistic here explain since i need to explain to me because i'm retarded 0.77
08:35:01.000 explain the lacking of social queue that i am experiencing it's not that it's just like um this
08:35:08.500 is like this is more my thing she came as a service to yeah you and the podcast to help out
08:35:15.960 and like her like her what she wanted to do here is she did it yeah she wanted to over like
08:35:26.760 overcome certain things and she's done it and yeah i don't think we should press more like respect
08:35:33.620 her boundaries and everyone's boundaries it's not a but what is the lat what is the social
08:35:38.900 cue that i'm missing she said no and she's not really responding enthusiastically she's not
08:35:44.380 coming back by herself, she's
08:35:46.440 indicating to you non-verbally
08:35:48.300 and she also indicated to you verbally
08:35:50.220 that she didn't want to be here, so that's the
08:35:52.300 situation. Whoa, hold on. You're smuggling
08:35:54.180 in a bunch of shit that wasn't said. 1.00
08:35:56.100 She said that she was going to take a break 0.99
08:35:58.040 and that she would come back. No, you said
08:36:00.140 that you would come back. She said possibly
08:36:02.380 she did. Whoa, whoa, whoa, that's fucking 1.00
08:36:04.120 ridiculous. Complete 1.00
08:36:05.560 mischaracterization here. 1.00
08:36:08.060 She did come back and then she
08:36:09.920 was... After you asked her.
08:36:12.240 You asked nicely and she agreed and then she
08:36:14.160 left again after what you asked her uh okay but like me asking her to return when she's a guest
08:36:21.200 on the podcast okay but it wasn't like i was pestering her i she's been back there for 20 0.83
08:36:27.040 minutes i fucking ignored her and i was like hey let's have her back to do her notes that she sent 0.85
08:36:32.220 in that's not like ignoring the no i literally just like as soon as i was like should we have 0.98
08:36:37.820 a return you guys were like no oh let me defend her blah blah no you interpreted how you wanted
08:36:44.040 her you yeah she repeated what i said and i just spoke to her and she said no okay but why do you
08:36:50.780 guys have to be so defensive about it as you keep pressing on it i literally keep pressing
08:36:56.340 is that really the characterization this is how men get falsely accused no but you're like this
08:37:02.000 is like you keep talking about it and i'm different well now i'm talking about it because i've been
08:37:06.900 i've now been accused of missing social cues and you guys are like no that i just she no she stepped
08:37:13.140 away i invite i was like do you want to come back like in the first moment she stepped away yeah and
08:37:18.580 then she was like no i need to take a break and i was like cool and then that was it and then i was
08:37:24.140 like hey do you want to come back for this segment like we're going around the table asking this
08:37:27.540 she said yeah she came back then she stepped away again and then just now i was like hey we should
08:37:32.800 have her back to do the notes so that i if you want to characterize that as like some degree of
08:37:37.820 pestering i personally don't think it's unfair when you're coming on the dating discussion
08:37:42.860 podcast i don't think it's unreasonable to like check in with the person who maybe is just taking
08:37:47.800 a break who's maybe just taking a breather but i just spoke to her and i'm telling well i was was
08:37:53.520 i part of that conversation i'm telling you right now am i aware of i know and i accept that okay
08:37:59.740 but you guys want to do some like pathologizing where whoa brian you're no means no brian no
08:38:05.800 means no i'm just saying i'm not freaking out you think this is freaking out trust me a little bit
08:38:11.900 no I'm not on my period it's just like it's frustrating when people like
08:38:15.160 want to try to frame you as doing something in a certain way
08:38:19.060 look again this is actually playing exactly into what I was talking to
08:38:22.820 before when it came to the crying she is upset
08:38:25.620 she's not upset she's upset no yeah she is
08:38:28.540 she's upset she's upset and you guys want to jump
08:38:33.420 to the defense because I'm I'm not like dragging her like 1.00
08:38:37.620 bitch get the fuck back on the fucking podcast I'm sitting here 1.00
08:38:41.600 asking her with my words not forcing her to do anything hey do you want to return i don't need 1.00
08:38:47.920 you guys to start barking at me like i've done i've committed some crime by asking the woman to
08:38:53.680 return to the podcast to discuss things on the dating discussion podcast i just left 30 seconds
08:38:59.900 ago spoke to her was i party to that conversation i'm telling you right now how would it be material
08:39:05.340 how would it be relevant well i feel like if i communicated with her and she just said i'm not
08:39:11.820 coming back and i'm telling you yeah i just spoke to her she's not coming back that's pretty like
08:39:18.540 relevant to your question of like did i did not push beyond like i'm not a mind reader i wasn't
08:39:25.800 listening to that conversation if i don't have that information available to me yes and i've
08:39:31.220 accepted that now we're having a meta conversation now i'm not i'm not arguing here with you for her
08:39:37.340 to come back i'm arguing with you guys about the characterization of how you're trying to frame
08:39:43.680 this that's that's on you brian i believe you're the one who framed it they said no i said this is 0.76
08:39:49.900 a social cue thing and then you right as if i'm lacking in some so like i'm socially retarded 0.69
08:39:55.040 and i don't have the capacity no no you're putting words into my mouth look brian can i just ask
08:40:01.420 really quickly you've been giving like charitable readings of everything could you give that to me
08:40:05.820 when i said the social cue thing i think if you're going to invoke the social cue it's suggesting
08:40:14.760 that there's a lack of being able to read the social cues which i kind of disagree with missed
08:40:21.460 because because you have a lot of things to deal with you have your chat and everything you have
08:40:25.420 a lot of things to deal with you might not have noticed everything that we have noticed
08:40:29.180 so that's a charitable reading of it that you have a lot going on she's clearly upset you think i've
08:40:34.120 missed that she's clearly upset no i'm trying to give an explanation for how this woman could say
08:40:40.380 no and they could say no for her and my charitable reading is maybe he didn't see something that's
08:40:46.920 what is the thing that i did not see i don't know that was the thing that's what i but see
08:40:52.600 he doesn't know how to read social cues maybe he's he's clearly missing something say we women are 0.64
08:40:58.560 these like social geniuses and we can see the fucking matrix of social cues but i can't even 0.95
08:41:04.940 articulate what the social cue is that he missed i i just explained it for you but to put it in brief 0.93
08:41:10.880 i propose the idea that a social cue was missed was did i say it was missed because of misreading
08:41:16.700 What is the social cue that was missed?
08:41:19.400 Well, it was because, well, the social cue is that she said no.
08:41:24.920 She said no.
08:41:25.740 She explained why she was gone.
08:41:28.440 Her friend explained why she was gone.
08:41:31.200 Everyone's kind of like, hey, you asked her again.
08:41:33.960 Everyone's kind of like, okay, no.
08:41:36.840 Is that a no for you or is it a yes for you or is it a maybe for you?
08:41:41.780 Why is that not a no for you?
08:41:42.440 Now the framing is just getting even worse.
08:41:44.680 Now it's like, essentially, they're trying to say, Brian, you don't respect consent.
08:41:48.160 No means no.
08:41:49.160 Yes means yes. 0.96
08:41:49.800 That's completely ridiculous. 0.99
08:41:51.540 Completely ridiculous. 0.97
08:41:52.680 First off, you can't use something disclosed to me after the fact as sort of inculpatory to the initial thing. 0.94
08:42:00.920 So, for example, you said she came back and told the state of affairs of her friend.
08:42:05.640 me asking her to come back occurred prior to her disclosing the details and context of the
08:42:15.400 conversation she had with her friend. It wasn't like, hey, Brian, by the way, I just talked to
08:42:19.420 my friend and she doesn't want to come back. I didn't give you time. So I need to be a fucking
08:42:24.760 mind reader to tell you. If you're not going to change the subjects, I'm going to go. I'm going 0.99
08:42:30.140 I'm going to go, too. Respectfully.
08:42:32.040 Respectfully. Well, I think respectfully.
08:42:33.840 I will apologize to you because this hit you a little harder than I intended, and I apologize. 1.00
08:42:38.300 Well, take your fucking wig off. How about that? 0.99
08:42:40.280 Take the fucking wig off. 1.00
08:42:41.940 Look, ultimately, though, look, I think it's unfair your characterization. 1.00
08:42:46.920 I think it's unfair how you're characterizing it.
08:42:48.840 Was it a characterization, or was it just a note?
08:42:51.760 Just a note?
08:42:53.280 Okay, you know what?
08:42:54.260 What?
08:42:55.140 I'm done. I'm going to leave.
08:42:58.040 Are you going to move on, or?
08:42:59.580 I am going to move on
08:43:00.820 I think it's fair to defend myself 1.00
08:43:04.340 When the women are accusing me 1.00
08:43:06.280 Of being like inconsiderate 1.00
08:43:08.160 Or whatever the fuck 1.00
08:43:09.040 Just like what the fuck 1.00
08:43:12.520 Also 0.99
08:43:13.580 Let's also consider 0.99
08:43:15.580 That this whole fucking thing 0.99
08:43:17.700 Could have just been avoided 1.00
08:43:18.740 Look she can do whatever the fuck she wants 1.00
08:43:21.980 But like just stay at the fucking table 1.00
08:43:24.440 Like it's not that deep 0.99
08:43:25.480 But anyways I'm moving it on
08:43:26.820 Alright we have just your note
08:43:29.540 it's in your notes and then that's it your french friend i had her notes that were quite interesting
08:43:34.920 but she's gone uh and perhaps that's even considerate of me that she came this way to
08:43:42.580 be on the show and i wanted to give her a moment to speak so please focus on me it's my podcast 0.82
08:43:49.260 it's fucking my podcast i yeah but i don't need to be i don't need i don't yeah of course you can 0.93
08:43:55.440 do that but please don't tell me how to run my show okay i don't come to your work and tell you 1.00
08:44:00.500 like i don't know stop sucking like i don't go to your fucking job and be like stop sucking dicks 1.00
08:44:04.680 or whatever you know what i you know whatever the fuck i ain't going to your job what's your 1.00
08:44:09.100 question about me all right so you said that you uh i think that's a rage quit there good job 0.99
08:44:14.660 Are you leaving
08:44:18.260 Are we
08:44:19.780 I said I had her notes to do
08:44:25.680 And I had
08:44:26.260 Oh okay then I misread it then my social queue 1.00
08:44:29.580 Reading is retarded I'm sorry 1.00
08:44:31.100 Oh Ryan stop 1.00
08:44:32.100 No I have difficulty reading social queues 0.86
08:44:35.000 According to the women at the table 0.96
08:44:36.980 So I'm sorry I thought she was leaving 0.99
08:44:38.900 But she's just getting water okay I fucked up 0.99
08:44:41.120 Hey I'll take ownership I can take 0.99
08:44:42.980 accountability i fucked up i don't know how to read social cues because of my autism you know 0.99
08:44:47.800 maybe it was just unfair she was you know she's just getting some water so do you actually have 0.97
08:44:52.820 autism i've heard you say i don't know i'll let you guys can diagnose me um so anyways okay
08:44:57.800 china yeah you dated two brothers yeah a couple years in between yeah they lived together in
08:45:05.580 apartment yeah the first one you dated was pissed yeah so they were like stepbrothers not blood
08:45:13.820 related but they did live like live together during their childhood and whatnot uh dated one
08:45:21.160 for a bit uh didn't work out but we always like stayed friends and then at some point later on
08:45:29.620 the line uh that friend i would come over hang out and met his brother and then started okay
08:45:40.420 you said that you tend to be attracted to younger guys i do so usually three uh what's the like
08:45:46.460 age or whatever uh i like the lowest would be probably like early 20s and yeah you said in
08:45:55.060 your notes and you're 29 yeah uh usually three to eight yeah three to eight years younger
08:46:00.420 approximately yeah so you have you dated a like a 20 year old at 29 i guess yeah how's your guy
08:46:06.620 uh he's 22 22 and you're 29 yeah i like him young how tall is he 6'1 almost 62 0.99
08:46:18.860 check some milf got a cougar over here a fucking cougar um wow all right you're on the prowl 0.96
08:46:30.100 thank you so are you not attracted to men your age or older uh not necessarily but um 0.99
08:46:36.440 like let's say balding and stuff like that less attractive and then the youngest guys
08:46:44.340 What do you think about Nathan?
08:46:46.380 Can Nathan...
08:46:47.740 He's six foot...
08:46:50.280 Is he?
08:46:50.820 Stand up.
08:46:51.500 Stand taller, Nathan.
08:46:53.660 On your toes, Nathan.
08:46:55.040 Maybe a couple years ago.
08:46:57.580 Wait.
08:46:58.240 He's eight.
08:46:58.700 How old are you, Nathan?
08:46:59.420 21. 1.00
08:47:00.800 Oh, shit. 0.99
08:47:01.660 You're 19? 1.00
08:47:02.980 Oh, shit. 1.00
08:47:03.720 Call the cops. 1.00
08:47:04.740 Oh, shit, bro. 1.00
08:47:05.540 Oh, man. 1.00
08:47:06.420 Epstein's Island's over here. 1.00
08:47:07.740 Fuck. 1.00
08:47:08.540 Oh, shit. 1.00
08:47:09.460 Earlier, I will say, I asked his age, and he said 21, and now he's saying 19. 0.99
08:47:14.340 wait nathan said he was 21 yeah you did no that was tiffany tiffany's 30 no he said 21
08:47:19.460 tiffany's 30 he said 21 i see asian women let me tell you she's 38 tiffany's 37
08:47:27.360 she looks 21 he's 37 yes tiffany's 37 you look no i know right doesn't she look great
08:47:34.180 flawless korean skin yes flawless flawless i know me too well yeah hey tiffany every podcast
08:47:43.860 i'm gonna add a year to your age and we'll see how far we can go oh she's 37 i'm serious bro
08:47:51.740 have you seen what the koreans are doing oh yeah their skincare is elite yeah by the way
08:47:56.300 tiffany tiffany told me that the money she's earning from the podcast she's gonna use it for
08:48:01.880 a nose job really girl tiffany you don't need a nose job girl i don't know bro no i think her
08:48:09.340 knows is fine yeah you don't need a she doesn't need one but you know whatever you look great
08:48:13.160 whatever um okay so uh younger guys wow anybody else here let me ask the panel who likes younger
08:48:21.380 men like from a physical perspective yeah your little uh 20 rendezvous to use a french word 0.95
08:48:29.600 21 21 wait and you're 25 oh shit i need a took some milk that's like average a cougar is generally 0.98
08:48:38.880 like an older woman a cougar is generally an older woman i mean she's 29 years old 0.82
08:48:48.080 i don't mind but i china brian china he's just oh china oh china oh brian you know i i wonder if
08:49:00.000 there's like uh i don't know if um were you like growing up were you kind of reserved you know like
08:49:09.380 kind of uh kind of like your friends like a bit more reserved no i think actually as i get older
08:49:17.320 i'm less i'm more reserved now than i used to yeah i've never been shy would you date an 18 year old
08:49:25.280 but he's hot maybe he's such a stud maybe 18 year old wait what's not 17 what's the age of
08:49:34.380 consent in 18 well um i think it's 16 technically but like to be considered an adult i i mean at
08:49:43.620 least i can find someone attractive that's 18 but maybe like the whole dating thing could be
08:49:50.160 yeah okay we're probably not at the same place in life but yeah okay but it's fun uh
08:49:57.380 so you would date an 18 year old though i don't know depends on the person but i think
08:50:03.880 ideally a little older but i will say like ideally someone's who's older because he's
08:50:12.440 mature and like whatever but looks younger that's like the but it rarely happens a vampire 1.00
08:50:19.340 Who here would fuck a vampire 1.00
08:50:22.500 Anybody 1.00
08:50:23.900 Edward Cullen 1.00
08:50:25.780 Who would fuck an alien 1.00
08:50:28.980 You'd fuck an alien 1.00
08:50:32.040 Alien fucker 1.00
08:50:33.940 Depends on what they look like 0.99
08:50:35.620 I'm sorry
08:50:36.760 E.T. is out of my worst nightmare
08:50:41.260 Oh E.T. fuck no 1.00
08:50:42.420 Avatar 1.00
08:50:43.420 I'd fuck an avatar 1.00
08:50:46.240 The avatars are so gorgeous 1.00
08:50:47.640 Oh my god 1.00
08:50:48.520 and she's so protective the giant fucking avatar bitch the blue just the fucking blue and shit 1.00
08:50:55.220 yeah she'd give you blue balls that's what i'm talking about i'd fucking avatar shit 1.00
08:51:00.220 come over even if she has small labia 1.00
08:51:03.580 i'd fucking have it who cares about the lady at that point 1.00
08:51:11.960 she's like everything she's just everything about her crazy yeah give me give me that little 1.00
08:51:18.340 fucking ponytail shit i'll put my dick in the pony i think you have to know what the avatar 1.00
08:51:25.960 sex procedure is i'd fuck shit um okay what about like um what's like a hot alien 1.00
08:51:36.160 no one no one can we wikipedia aliens actually no that shit's kind of creepy 1.00
08:51:42.600 it's gonna be some weird ass shit like the the the what is it the gray the gray aliens you know 1.00
08:51:48.680 with the fucking big ass heads and shit i'll pass wait wait this is gonna sound crazy as fuck 1.00
08:51:54.980 okay so it looks like an alien like kind of scary aliens but the labia is huge 1.00
08:52:01.880 i might be tempted like do they even have pussies like what if the pussy's on the foot 1.00
08:52:06.800 right and your sexual desires yeah i'm just jokes it's just jokes but i'm saying what if 1.00
08:52:12.580 like an alien's pussy is in like a weird place then i mean you never know like wait nathan nathan 1.00
08:52:19.260 what if the alien's pussy is like in the back of the head like your school like it's the back of 1.00
08:52:24.140 the head you're sort of fucking the head the back of the head tell me that feels like 1.00
08:52:28.040 Feels like a violation 1.00
08:52:30.200 Decapitation almost
08:52:31.840 It's giving head 0.99
08:52:32.940 Damn that's crazy 0.99
08:52:34.800 Yo chat one in the 1.00
08:52:36.740 Chat would you fuck a pussy 1.00
08:52:38.660 Wait what the 1.00
08:52:39.320 Chat would you fuck an alien 1.00
08:52:42.440 Chat would you fuck a hot alien 1.00
08:52:45.200 Hot alien pussy 1.00
08:52:46.860 Are they fertile 1.00
08:52:47.600 Girl 0.97
08:52:49.000 I feel like they'd be popping out like a hundred
08:52:52.760 You're gonna rule the planet
08:52:54.380 If you have children with an alien 1.00
08:52:56.280 that's gonna be some ruler of the earth how did we get here chat would you fuck an alien not in 1.00
08:53:03.760 the legal not not like an illegal immigrant i would fuck an illegal immigrant shame from mexico 1.00
08:53:10.080 um but like an avatar chick nathan would you an avatar no okay tatum would you they're gorgeous 1.00
08:53:23.420 They're gorgeous?
08:53:24.040 All right.
08:53:25.080 All right.
08:53:25.520 There it is, folks.
08:53:26.360 Aliens.
08:53:27.040 Okay, where were we? 0.98
08:53:28.500 You like younger men, though.
08:53:29.820 How do we go? 0.95
08:53:31.040 God.
08:53:32.220 Bro, what?
08:53:32.920 It's all your fault.
08:53:33.620 18-year-olds. 0.91
08:53:34.700 It's all, it's all Brookie.
08:53:36.700 This was all you.
08:53:37.440 Brookie's fault.
08:53:38.460 Brookie's fault. 1.00
08:53:39.440 Fucking, we're talking about her dating barely legal. 1.00
08:53:44.860 Oh. 1.00
08:53:45.080 She's got it. 0.99
08:53:45.800 She wants to, she's hanging out at fucking Degrassi. 1.00
08:53:48.720 You're hanging out at fucking Degrassi. 0.99
08:53:50.620 With Drake? 1.00
08:53:51.100 Drake is in a fucking wheelchair and shit. 1.00
08:53:52.700 You're in Degrassi and you're just macking on 1.00
08:53:55.060 these 18. I'll go
08:53:56.840 out somewhere. I'm like, oh, he's attractive
08:53:59.200 and it turns out he's like 22.
08:54:01.520 I'm like, ah, GG.
08:54:04.080 Yep.
08:54:06.220 But I'd say
08:54:07.240 18 probably
08:54:09.240 wouldn't happen, but
08:54:10.620 could. I don't know. She doesn't
08:54:13.120 want kids. She wants to 1.00
08:54:15.060 have to date 0.68
08:54:17.300 18-year-olds. 1.00
08:54:18.940 You want to fuck aliens 1.00
08:54:20.780 with big labia that's valid though that's that's valid you're on gigantic with the vaginas in the 1.00
08:54:27.860 back of their head well no i was just saying that'd be weird you know but i uh i don't know 1.00
08:54:34.520 i think you gotta talk to a therapist okay but i think so i we should go together couples therapy
08:54:42.460 yeah couples therapy oh my god oh my god but you're gonna pay for the well hit me up when
08:54:47.840 you dump your boy toy and i'll give you three sons i think i'll pass d1 d1 athletes mostly my
08:54:55.140 genes obviously oh yeah mostly my genes what sport would you hope hockey hockey or lacrosse
08:55:03.080 no football i love football lacrosse uh tennis actually i play pickleball that's disgusting
08:55:10.580 pickleball that's the most annoying oh stop it's the sport do you ever drive by a high school
08:55:16.060 no that's like no 18 year olds 18 year olds 18 because she dates 18 i didn't say 18 year olds
08:55:24.040 i said so if i didn't know their age come on do you still go to like college parties to no okay
08:55:31.360 yeah if you say so uh okay you know this do you have different types yeah more casual is what
08:55:39.640 um if it's less like if I find someone attractive right off the bat um I tend to be like less 0.80
08:55:51.000 focused on everything else so I don't know it just kind of ends up being blondes with blue eyes that
08:56:00.260 are maybe less on the serious spectrum and then um if i'm attracted to someone with darker features
08:56:09.800 it's probably because like more related to personality so well this is what you wrote
08:56:17.700 you noticed you have different types yeah so you write more casual relationships lighter features
08:56:24.300 more serious relationships darker features but so when you say lighter features darker features
08:56:30.120 are you talking about like hair and eye color so like blonde hair casual blue eyes yeah what about
08:56:36.640 blue eyes dark hair not me uh i'm fat i'm already rejecting myself don't um depends on the person
08:56:44.920 they could i could probably maybe find them attractive it's like in between you know it's
08:56:49.300 like in the middle uh okay but and when are you talking about skin color too 1.00
08:56:54.040 no like so white guys just fuck black guys i tend to be attracted to all races uh no uh 1.00
08:57:05.380 white guys not asian guys no no just like racist uh you said you don't believe in double standards 1.00
08:57:11.960 if a woman gets judged for sleeping around men should be judged the same way yeah 0.88
08:57:18.500 does anybody want a popsicle no no okay or do we just have empty here let me because i feel like 0.99
08:57:28.540 she left oh really yeah she left oh shit okay well here wait can you here you sit here and 0.71
08:57:35.640 because i feel like on the split i need i don't know i need it looks empty when we go split uh 0.99
08:57:41.540 okay uh don't believe in double standards if a woman gets judged for sleep we talked about that
08:57:48.140 we talked about uh you don't agree with double standards if a girl or guy has a high body count
08:57:52.100 it's as bad talked about that um you've dated both alpha and beta yeah personalities both have
08:58:01.860 pros and cons you prefer being the one who calls the shots yeah i do that's why you date younger
08:58:08.020 guys maybe because they're naive and you can manipulate them and have you ever pegged a dude
08:58:13.980 yeah wait china like for real yeah like i was kind of joking with that question okay
08:58:22.200 then i was joking too no no no no i was joking no for realsies uh did you ever have you wait
08:58:28.560 more than one guy come on be honest not not like every guy no not not every guy but more than one
08:58:37.280 yeah is that a hickey on your neck i don't think so probably not maybe you and your friend
08:58:44.620 never mind okay wait so you've pegged a dude with a strap on no no no no no well okay sorry
08:58:53.580 it was the no i have not pegged no no i don't know what that means thank you you put the strap
08:58:58.200 on no no i have not i have not i thought it was something else oh what did what did you think
08:59:04.780 with fingers that's oh you finger to do booty hole because wait because he asked for it or
08:59:12.380 because you wanted to do it uh both of uh okay yeah reese's knows a thing or two about great
08:59:19.260 combinations chocolate and peanut butter obviously but there's more than one way to reese's from
08:59:25.340 indulgent reese's big cups with caramel to crunchy reese's pieces and reese's miniatures there's a
08:59:31.260 to delicious Reese's for every mood.
08:59:33.420 It's the same combo you love,
08:59:35.040 just with more ways to enjoy it.
08:59:37.040 So whether you're snacking, sharing,
08:59:38.960 or just treating yourself,
08:59:40.620 nothing else is Reese's.
08:59:53.420 Why's everyone laughing?
08:59:57.420 I don't know whether to be like
09:00:00.080 I'm really proud of you or mortified at the same time.
09:00:03.600 Wait, have you fisted?
09:00:04.800 No.
09:00:05.620 Jesus Christ.
09:00:06.460 Two fingers?
09:00:08.540 I don't know, maybe.
09:00:09.880 Two fingers?
09:00:11.620 Oh, man.
09:00:13.560 Was it the thumb?
09:00:15.760 Like during oral?
09:00:18.660 When?
09:00:19.200 Wait, how can... 1.00
09:00:19.940 Wait, I'm just trying to think the position where a woman could slip a finger in. 0.99
09:00:23.400 Some men like to be bent over. 1.00
09:00:25.820 Huh? 0.83
09:00:26.140 Oral.
09:00:27.420 I see.
09:00:28.080 Yeah.
09:00:30.080 you asked for it uh you were like no but they've asked for it or wait do you do you like lube up
09:00:38.960 or no whoa what okay it's time for me to go wait wait watch 0.99
09:00:47.920 what the fuck huh huh you just stick it in okay next question she's like a dude she's like a guy 0.99
09:00:58.820 she's like a guy man she just goes for it that's wow that's insane okay so you're that you want to 1.00
09:01:06.720 be the one who calls the shots yeah it's more convenient so like you you want guys to call you
09:01:12.820 daddy no it's not calling the shots it's just like i want someone who's like open to like
09:01:19.440 do whatever kind of activity or do this is that but when it's the time to put me in my place 1.00
09:01:27.060 they're able to do it why is dating so complicated girls be trying to stick fingers and butts and 1.00
09:01:34.280 they want to call the shots and be put in their place i have options find a nice girl can i just
09:01:41.100 find a nice girl just kind of wants to hang out and we can have a good time oh i go he's got to
09:01:47.120 put me in my place man i didn't say put me in my place it's just you did say no able to put me in
09:01:56.800 my place really but if you do it i'd be annoyed but right yeah but able to do it can i ask if
09:02:05.880 something's racist sure so i would never say the n-word but sometimes i want to say really 0.98
09:02:13.960 okay so i won't say it but can you finish the sentence for me i guess okay say that shit again 1.00
09:02:21.540 say that shit again say it again say that shit again dog say that shit again say it with your 1.00
09:02:27.080 chest don't tell me what to do oh whoa okay calm down lady but say it again i'm calling the shots 1.00
09:02:33.260 really nigga okay really nigga okay thank you appreciate it see i can't say that shit but i 0.99
09:02:40.820 got my see she she's black but she's my caucasian that's my caucasian right there that's i don't 0.99
09:02:47.880 know what you are you're my caucasian i think are you what are you oh wait she's my caucasian you're
09:02:53.960 my indigenous my french girl back there she's my caucasian she's my yeah caucasian i'm your
09:03:00.380 can i ask you a question yeah can a black person because i'm learning about because you know growing
09:03:07.200 up in santa barbara there was like three black people in my high school yeah that was you know
09:03:12.200 my life that was my experience too and um can a black person call a white friend the n-word 0.51
09:03:20.140 in like a positive way i do like you know what i mean is that props to the white person
09:03:27.240 i think it just depends on the white person some people you know what i mean
09:03:31.080 what like you know she knows what i mean i didn't hear the question oh 1.00
09:03:35.580 oh like you know when you in the streets and oh my god what the fuck 0.99
09:03:41.900 and like your crew will give you mad props yo and call you the n-word i feel like you're placing 0.99
09:03:53.380 a very ghetto stigma on that i don't think that's how it works would you consider calling me 0.98
09:03:59.840 your um if you were i'm not asking you to do it i want that shit to be natural like i don't want 0.89
09:04:07.340 no no it's kind of like an apology i don't want to ask for the you just give me the like you 0.72
09:04:12.220 should give me the apology yeah i don't want to i don't want to force you yeah but if i just want
09:04:16.480 to tell you if you feel like we've had a good rapport if you want to you can yeah like my boss
09:04:27.040 is really cool he's a white man but like i i don't say that to him i say that he's down with the 0.71
09:04:30.920 browns like ma you you can say that to me i'm just saying not you don't have to do it well you're
09:04:36.000 definitely not mine but it's okay i'm not there yet why not just you're ever gonna be that really 0.97
09:04:41.920 oh shit okay anyways uh you're the alpha male female you pegged to do we we went through that 0.83
09:04:52.340 but but so how do you call the shots though it's just like i feel like guys know that 0.99
09:04:57.740 if they try to press on me or they try to be alpha i'll just knock them down so no physically
09:05:06.300 have you ever no just with my words i don't need to use violence yeah and i won't if i don't like
09:05:14.160 something or what someone said about me or someone i care about like i won't sure uh you don't like
09:05:22.300 how people disappear when they get into relationships and cut off their friends yeah
09:05:27.080 Well, what about male friends? 0.98
09:05:28.180 Do you think that's okay for the woman? 0.99
09:05:31.120 Can you just repeat that? 0.92
09:05:33.160 Sorry, the who for who?
09:05:35.040 Well, when people get into relationships, cut off their friends. 0.95
09:05:37.700 But so there's male friends, female friends, so the opposite-sex friends. 0.97
09:05:42.740 So should men cut off female friends? 0.99
09:05:45.700 Should women cut off male friends?
09:05:46.900 I don't think, well, here we go. 1.00
09:05:48.660 So women, like a lot of girls, will get into a relationship, 1.00
09:05:53.740 and then the minute they're in a relationship they will no longer see any of their friends 1.00
09:05:59.700 i think that's bizarre and annoying and then they break up with their man come back
09:06:06.480 and then um expect to go back yeah expect the things to go the same i'm like
09:06:13.460 um and then girl boy friendship like obviously you have to put some kind of boundaries
09:06:21.260 uh but if and if you guys already had history if you guys hooked up like obviously not but
09:06:29.380 if it's purely like friendship and like obviously you have to change certain settings or whatnot
09:06:38.020 but if you cut out if your partner makes you cut out your like um friends of opposite sex i think
09:06:47.800 it's not like not viable and kind of stupid I agree yeah yeah I think like you said it depends
09:06:57.160 on the situation yeah and the friendship and like the background of each friendship yeah I'm also 0.61
09:07:03.040 very strict with my male friends like I do not call any of my male friends friends if they've
09:07:08.980 expressed interest in me that is just like someone I know basically like they can even be someone I
09:07:13.560 you know i mean have a like i've had a close relationship with but as soon as they express
09:07:20.380 that interest like i have to like draw that boundary because i feel like any male that
09:07:25.680 express that interest would disrespect you if you were in a relationship i i would just throw
09:07:32.260 out there like with the friend thing i think sometimes it's like natural that oh you're more
09:07:36.820 with your person you just see people naturally less but like cutting someone out is kind of like
09:07:41.960 delivered intentional and you do have a choice and i guess like i'm not trying to be like aggressive
09:07:47.380 i'm just like asking like what is the friend worth to you if they're worth cutting out i guess
09:07:52.120 cutting off or cutting out yeah like to begin with they probably yeah it's like a friend like
09:07:59.000 there are people like if i'm in a relationship i'm just not going to see that person as much
09:08:03.620 but it's like oh if i could choose i wouldn't want to get rid of them i guess yeah right do we think
09:08:11.180 that your partner
09:08:13.180 telling you to get rid of friends of the opposite
09:08:15.260 sex is controlling? Yeah. 1.00
09:08:17.140 Okay. Yeah.
09:08:19.200 Does anyone disagree? To a degree.
09:08:21.080 I don't know. Again, it depends on
09:08:23.120 the situation. Yeah, it depends on the situation.
09:08:26.380 Like without
09:08:27.040 getting to know them and their
09:08:28.740 situation, then yes, I think it's controlling.
09:08:31.500 Okay. Fair.
09:08:32.760 Otherwise, no.
09:08:36.580 Okay.
09:08:37.220 And then we did all your icks.
09:08:39.140 Yep.
09:08:41.180 oh wait okay delusional calculator can you pull that up uh question what do you bring to the
09:08:52.500 table personality financial stability
09:08:58.020 good looks good advice banter
09:09:06.140 okay do we do the wait should we do the delulu actually yeah
09:09:14.540 um all right you also say oh final thing for you guys who can't handle their alcohol yeah 0.97
09:09:22.220 and then get stupid when they drink yeah but what uh what if they don't drink at all is that also
09:09:29.900 nick no i'm not much of a drinker so nathan can you open the door all the way um okay 0.98
09:09:37.360 tatum hello save the best for last what i know uh we had a lot of segues here in the convo
09:09:47.020 i'm gonna try to get through your notes i might have to skip a few things here and there but 0.90
09:09:51.360 so you're a courtesan at a legal brothel in nevada named sherry's berries no sherry's ranch 0.96
09:09:57.520 and uh okay you couldn't talk about money that was some of my notes i did ask about the coupons
09:10:03.060 the buy one bang one free that maybe you know maybe if you guys want to hire me as a
09:10:08.240 uh i would say keep the um does the split not show her the other split oh uh
09:10:19.440 i guess just when i ask just go here and then put it i think that should be fine unless you
09:10:31.900 actually maybe can you scoot that way you stay there but you scoot that way a little bit
09:10:35.780 there we go that's better the split will work now okay uh okay overlap sex work marriage you
09:10:43.040 have a handful of interesting dating experiences uh most of your dating has been unsuccessful
09:10:48.600 most men do not want to date someone who does what you do for work these are these are your notes
09:10:53.520 uh there have also been cases however of men who do want to be involved with you but only for sex
09:10:59.040 which does not appeal to you you're looking for a relationship
09:11:02.720 and you consider yourself having very traditional values
09:11:07.780 what sound are you gonna put on nothing okay all right very traditional yeah what are the
09:11:21.240 very traditional values i mean after i sent that in i'm like i'm gonna probably have to define that
09:11:27.780 i don't know because i feel like it's more of a vibe it's a vibe yeah so what is the vibe
09:11:35.920 the vibe is like my dream is to uh you know tend the land with my with my babies and my
09:11:45.400 husband tend the land make all my own clothes traditional though okay but that's like this
09:11:53.340 sort of homesteader vibe homestead thing oh well that's what i meant by traditional well i think
09:11:59.100 when people think of traditional i don't think their first thought is escort uh well not escort 0.66
09:12:08.220 i guess a courtesan prostitute yeah brothel i know but i'm just is there a is there a madame
09:12:14.420 there is she's amazing can there be a male and leader of a brothel or yeah there have been what 0.99
09:12:21.440 is that called a pimp oh my god i don't know i because the one i work at is run by a woman 1.00
09:12:28.020 owned by a woman yes yeah is she has she owned it forever or what's her steal uh she she was
09:12:36.100 the madam so she's not the owner oh okay there is the owner a man uh it's owned by an investment
09:12:43.620 group oh there's a group of people okay the madam so was the madam a former no you know
09:12:51.000 are you trying to become the man no no no she's don't want that because no because she there's
09:12:57.380 it's a it's a big responsibility and that's not that that's not the you gotta keep them you gotta
09:13:02.560 keep the pimp hands strong you know sorry joke 1.00
09:13:06.620 okay yeah uh so okay it's a big job i get that um and she's very good at it how many girls work
09:13:20.060 there um there are over 75 on the rotation um every month but only 25 are there at a time okay 0.88
09:13:30.880 uh you have uh
09:13:34.820 so okay i guess in quick response to the you saying you consider yourself to have very
09:13:44.400 traditional values i feel that that's like saying i have very vegan values but i get paid by the 0.99
09:13:52.640 meat industry to eat meat right you know what i mean yeah because you're like a prostitute 0.90
09:13:58.820 totally so it's like traditional you you were very pleasant you're nice thank you 0.94
09:14:06.340 but traditional i don't know maybe i just meant uh i interpreted it as
09:14:12.800 traditional in the ancient times
09:14:16.420 okay ancient times ancient times traditional ancient times
09:14:22.680 that's fair
09:14:25.820 thank you okay uh you've tried a lot of different strategies telling people what you do
09:14:35.000 yes not telling people yes until you a connection is formed that's what you wrote yeah but so
09:14:41.280 clarifying question um so that's you're dating a guy and you tell him hey by the way perhaps
09:14:47.460 up front i work in the brothel correct but then there's times where you haven't told and so when 0.57
09:14:53.260 you say waiting until a connection sex like after sex i haven't i've only had sex with one person
09:15:00.020 after i got divorced and that's where i've been dating in the past year and i don't but did you 0.83
09:15:04.700 tell him tell that guy that you had sex with up front that you were a brothel worker no I told
09:15:11.600 him I was a dancer a stripper so but he was very open-minded we've met on field I don't know if
09:15:17.820 you're familiar with that field it's the it's the open-minded people app for dating open-minded to
09:15:25.200 what like all sorts of things like relationship dynamics it's he did not mind I worked at a
09:15:31.840 brothel but he's the guy who was just like but did you tell him you worked at a brothel 0.52
09:15:35.560 and you were a prostitute no i told him i was a dancer but you were at the time a prostitute
09:15:43.620 he was not looking for a relationship oh answer the question what okay so okay at the time you 0.99
09:15:50.020 were a prostitute working at the brothel yeah but you did not disclose to him prior to having sex 0.98
09:15:58.140 we got fully we he no no no hold on but so got tested and everything okay yep yep yep but you 0.99
09:16:06.760 i just need an affirmative did you not tell him that you were a prostitute prior to 0.89
09:16:13.720 carnal knowledge it was not relevant he didn't ask 0.92
09:16:18.440 china oh my god please rejoin the table oh my god this is crazy he was like 60 years old
09:16:27.900 60 you done 60 it was a certain thing we were both looking for no what was the thing that you 0.98
09:16:36.160 were looking for dick oh my god this is so like personal it was like just a certain did he have 0.98
09:16:41.880 to use it's a kink app it's a kink app oh so you have a thing for grandpas 0.99
09:16:47.640 what's your thing but no but it's a it's a kink but hold on it's a kink app yeah what's the kink
09:16:56.780 that you were exploring stop oh my god you cannot answer if you listen i've been talking about big 1.00
09:17:04.300 pussy lips and labia and all this shit all night come on it was what is it can you can you infer 1.00
09:17:11.340 can you can you take a guess and then i can just was it was it uh what's it called dd oh well it 1.00
09:17:18.120 was just we can just say it was in the bdsm category and he had a whole dungeon and everything
09:17:23.200 was it ddlg and no that's a little extreme for my taste wait that's extreme no no like
09:17:30.760 wait wait hold on okay so my taste okay you don't like that so it wasn't ddlg 1.00
09:17:37.620 oh my god this is like okay okay i've been talking about pussy lips all night it was it was 1.00
09:17:45.240 you know bdsm sadism masochism bondage it was just degradation rope play i'm not are you a rope 0.99
09:17:53.360 bunny what is it no it it satisfied the kink and and i realized bonded wait tell me here blink
09:18:03.180 wait wait wait wait blink actually i do have this on my profile at the ranch so it's blink
09:18:08.260 twice if i'm in the right bdsm category bondage uh well i guess you could just say yes or no i
09:18:16.840 guess bondage sure yes wait yes it's in bondage there's it's an umbrella term of there's multiple
09:18:23.760 things that happened okay uh sadism yes or no sadism can you define that what you think that
09:18:31.320 does or sadism deriving pleasure from inflicting or giving pain uh sure yes that was 0.75
09:18:39.600 masochism so i think we covered it well why are you so bashful you work in a brothel 0.55
09:18:47.460 you work in a brothel and we can't talk we can't talk about this is my personal life though oh come 0.99
09:18:53.560 on okay come on you you just had a guy fucking two weeks ago dress you up in a japanese school 1.00
09:18:58.960 girl outfit and want you to say 1.00
09:19:00.960 komichiwa and shit. Who said that? I'm just making 1.00
09:19:03.080 it up. Oh, because that did not happen. You'd be doing crazy shit in the
09:19:04.980 brothel. Come on. No, I actually only do the 1.00
09:19:06.900 girlfriend experience. Hey, what do you do, Tiffany? Tiffany?
09:19:08.980 Just to let you know. Tiffany? Hey, Tiffany,
09:19:11.240 take a seat at the table. I'm gonna fucking 1.00
09:19:12.920 grill you. Sit your ass down, Tiffany. 1.00
09:19:15.520 Tiffany, sit your ass down. 1.00
09:19:17.320 Get over there, Tiffany. 1.00
09:19:19.000 Where? Right over there. 1.00
09:19:21.460 Isn't this the most beautiful 1.00
09:19:22.840 37-year-old woman you've ever 0.60
09:19:24.880 seen? I really don't think she is. 37.
09:19:26.760 No, she's 37. The Koreans... 1.00
09:19:29.320 Flawless. 1.00
09:19:30.500 Tiffany, your birthday was 1985, wasn't it?
09:19:36.840 Oh, wait.
09:19:37.380 Actually, that'd be 89.
09:19:41.580 Okay, so anyways.
09:19:42.960 Okay, what is it?
09:19:43.920 Just tell us.
09:19:44.460 Come on.
09:19:45.440 We said...
09:19:47.400 Bondage?
09:19:48.240 We said it.
09:19:48.940 Okay, so you, like, Shibari? 0.99
09:19:51.660 The rope shit where you get all fucking tied up in ropes? 0.99
09:19:53.980 No. 1.00
09:19:54.560 What the fuck? 1.00
09:19:56.440 Man, I'm trying to wrap the show. 1.00
09:19:57.760 You gotta just... 0.98
09:19:58.520 we did it we covered it we bondage can be anywhere from fucking handcuffs like all the way to some 0.95
09:20:05.900 crazy like shabari you saw in 50 shades of gray just you can just copy paste and yep check that 0.95
09:20:14.740 is not helpful bdsm has like multiple okay whatever all right i need to do some all right 0.98
09:20:23.040 but you didn't tell the dude that you were a prostitute i told him i told him on the second
09:20:31.000 time we hung out and then was it over after that uh no he actually okay here's the thing 0.99
09:20:37.940 as soon as i told him he was like oh that's super hot and then he turned on porn and then i as if 0.76
09:20:45.620 that meant i worked at a brothel that i would like porn and then i was like i have adhd can
09:20:50.720 you please turn that off wait was it it's distracting me was it cnc no it was just random
09:20:56.820 porn no no the thing with the guy oh no but i do that i that's cool i like that uh let's see here
09:21:05.080 uh you don't hold anything against them for not wanting to be involved with a woman who they 0.86
09:21:10.960 would need to share so a woman who's a prostitute if the roles were reversed you wouldn't be okay 0.89
09:21:16.260 with your man being with other people even as a prostitute oh no we just i just talked about that 1.00
09:21:21.140 with my husband he could he could uh make money like oh he could fuck for money yeah but not like 1.00
09:21:26.500 fuck not for money okay correct so you'd be fine with that hypothetically in the past that's what 1.00
09:21:32.140 i thought nowadays i'm like you know i've been yeah well because you said you're honestly quite 0.99
09:21:37.520 possessive of your partner which you think is healthy to an extent and you like for your
09:21:42.260 partner to be possessive of you i think it's i think it's spicy wait oh oh here's a good question
09:21:49.820 i feel like the girls are gonna like this one okay okay let's say you were dating a guy right
09:21:53.600 now you're single though right correct it's been a you're kind of yeah it's been a minute
09:21:57.340 because i'm we're working on it i'm a busy you're a nice gal i think you you know what i i think we
09:22:02.400 can get you a guy thank you yeah we'll get you a guy okay okay anybody have any brothers tiffany 0.94
09:22:09.020 oh my god would you like to set her up with oh my god she's like 1.00
09:22:13.440 the number one ranked prostitute i'm not number one oh sorry number three 0.98
09:22:17.940 okay so um 0.99
09:22:22.480 oh you're dating a guy like a civilian guy but then you're going to work
09:22:28.060 hypothetically you said well i mean let's say in reality if you were dating a guy okay
09:22:34.500 would it upset you like i would never do this arrangement but
09:22:40.140 like i could imagine if you were in that situation you'd be like okay
09:22:44.540 i'm not kissing you for 24 hours you know what i mean because of you know what i mean brooke
09:22:53.200 you know what i mean brooke like okay but but i wouldn't would you be upset if the guy was like 1.00
09:23:00.980 did you suck a dick today like you come home from work that's a normal question you ask your 0.99
09:23:07.040 girlfriend oh i think you misunderstand the way it works i'm gone for two weeks at a time 1.00
09:23:12.220 i don't come home at night when i'm well but like okay you worked fine you work two weeks 0.98
09:23:18.720 but then you go home right and some prostitute 0.91
09:23:23.800 but i'll be sad oh i'll be so you were awesome all right sounds good thank you appreciate it 0.97
09:23:39.000 thank you thank you all right we're almost wrapped though we are almost wrapped i promise you that
09:23:42.200 20 minutes i know but brooke you were just talking too much brooke i know oh yeah this brooke here
09:23:48.620 she was talking too much okay it's the end of your two-week shift you're a little you're a 1.00
09:23:55.260 little weaselly little fucking snake you're a little snake trying to dodge all my questions 1.00
09:23:59.480 and shit you're doing some fucking verbal fucking aikido and shit you know i'm like trying to ask 1.00
09:24:06.340 you a question it's like well it's i don't go home every night gotcha bitch it's like answer 1.00
09:24:12.640 god damn it tatum she's gonna be a fucking politician this one she's gonna be a politician 1.00
09:24:17.600 You tried to ask her a question. 1.00
09:24:18.920 What do you think of illegal immigration?
09:24:20.620 Well, let me tell you what.
09:24:22.120 The real problem in this country is we just got to try harder.
09:24:28.100 Okay, so anyways.
09:24:29.640 Wow.
09:24:30.100 Yeah, you're slippery.
09:24:31.080 You're a little slippery. 1.00
09:24:31.860 You're like trying to grab the soap and you can't grab the shit. 1.00
09:24:34.180 Thank you. 1.00
09:24:35.160 Well, anyways.
09:24:37.500 You called Alice Little a politician when she was on here, so I'm very flattered by that. 0.86
09:24:41.740 Does she work at your ranch or is that a different one?
09:24:44.600 Isn't there a different one? 1.00
09:24:45.680 Do you guys have gang wars and shit 1.00
09:24:48.980 Like the fucking prostitutes 1.00
09:24:50.520 Roll on the other fucking crew 1.00
09:24:52.740 Like you roll deep you see that motherfucker 1.00
09:24:54.900 What's the other 1.00
09:24:55.560 What's the other club called
09:24:57.860 Or ranch
09:24:58.780 What's the other big one
09:25:01.440 Are you the big one
09:25:02.300 What's the other big one
09:25:05.140 There's several like Mustang Ranch
09:25:08.760 Bunny Ranch 0.99
09:25:09.260 Wait is there fucking like inter brothel drama 1.00
09:25:12.160 I gotta investigate this shit 1.00
09:25:14.120 I'm coming to Pahrump bro 1.00
09:25:15.340 I'm coming to Pahrump not for prostitute 0.99
09:25:17.380 but I'm coming bro 1.00
09:25:19.120 I'm taking Tiffany
09:25:20.240 and I want to get in the weeds
09:25:23.960 I feel like y'all fighting with each other
09:25:26.160 y'all guys show up 1.00
09:25:28.060 in fucking SUVs you roll up 1.00
09:25:29.860 fucking drive by shootings and shit each other 1.00
09:25:31.800 all the fucking ranches and shit bro 1.00
09:25:33.340 that's crazy 1.00
09:25:35.580 that's wild
09:25:36.940 but is there drama
09:25:38.640 what's the name of the other ranch
09:25:41.140 there's like
09:25:42.240 bunny ranch
09:25:44.260 The Bunny Ranch. 0.99
09:25:45.460 Did y'all talk shit about the Bunny Ranch? 1.00
09:25:47.080 I don't. 1.00
09:25:47.840 I love. 1.00
09:25:49.140 But are you like, we got better pussy here at the Cherries Ranch? 1.00
09:25:52.500 People shift around. 1.00
09:25:54.080 The pussy offering better here. 1.00
09:25:55.280 Like, people move around to all the ranches all the time. 1.00
09:25:58.680 Y'all got to start talking shit about each other. 0.99
09:26:01.680 No. 0.99
09:26:01.980 You know how, like, Pepsi talks about Coca-Cola? 1.00
09:26:04.420 You guys, man, their pussy stank. 1.00
09:26:07.180 That's what you got to do. 1.00
09:26:08.220 Pussy stank over there at the Bunny Ranch. 1.00
09:26:09.820 That's not cool. 1.00
09:26:11.260 Oh, I'm sorry.
09:26:11.900 I apologize.
09:26:12.960 Yeah.
09:26:13.360 Don't do that. 1.00
09:26:14.160 y'all competing with each other though it's a business no we're not sharing y'all the women 1.00
09:26:19.960 it's like the mafia in new york but it's like pussy selling in the nevada desert okay never 0.98
09:26:27.320 i love how much you love it though what's that i love how much you you're passionate about 0.99
09:26:31.960 i'm so passionate uh okay we're uh the the the the the the end oh
09:26:42.060 the okay you're dating you're dating tiffany um you're dating a guy hypothetically you say
09:26:51.620 would you be and you just get home from work yeah from the two weeks and he's like look
09:26:57.660 i don't want to kiss you would that be a problem i mean for 24 hours oh i mean i would just be
09:27:06.260 surprised that my husband didn't do that when i would come home but oh he yeah no it was way
09:27:15.100 different he it was yeah for your next relationship are you going to continue sex work once you're
09:27:22.240 married no i i'm wanting to stop wait but there's only one guy who you got with who you didn't tell 0.92
09:27:32.140 it was a 60 year old on field that you're a prostitute you didn't tell him i did on the 0.86
09:27:37.680 second date can i ask you what about like for other women who are prostitutes do you think 0.78
09:27:42.260 it's up to them or do you think they should tell men uh it's up to the woman i'm not gonna 0.96
09:27:48.340 speak for all women on that well like for example i think men should not bitch slap
09:27:57.780 their girlfriends bare minimum you know what i mean right so i think it's okay for women to say
09:28:05.280 maybe women should conduct themselves and no but i i've told men as well and then they were like 0.74
09:28:13.560 no but should other women who are sex workers tell men i don't have an opinion on that women 1.00
09:28:22.420 can do whatever they want i think before sleeping with them they should i think they should tell
09:28:29.200 men i think they have the right to know i agree men have the right to know and they definitely
09:28:34.520 should tell
09:28:36.720 men
09:28:37.040 honestly for their safety
09:28:40.020 like I could see a situation
09:28:42.320 like some girl who 1.00
09:28:44.440 fucks men for a living tells a guy 1.00
09:28:46.560 hey by the way 1.00
09:28:48.560 you were hitting it raw the other day
09:28:50.780 I 1.00
09:28:52.780 fuck men for money 1.00
09:28:54.080 oh well we got intravenous testing 1.00
09:28:56.960 y'all
09:28:58.440 yeah man you could get
09:29:00.480 I could see a guy
09:29:02.160 shank him shank somebody you know what i mean what nathan did you lock nathan
09:29:09.340 okay because you know dip okay i'm just saying i think you should maybe disclose i do but that 0.51
09:29:18.120 was like a one-time thing but other women should disclose to you i'm just saying i think that's
09:29:21.700 okay i think it's fair um yes you have difficulty dating largely due to the fact that you're
09:29:26.820 the courtesan and the masculine men you're attracted to don't want this yes this okay
09:29:33.140 masculine men uh you dropped out of cornell wait really yeah oh my god tiffany
09:29:39.960 that's wait her dropping out of a college is the thing that got you excited my friend goes to
09:29:46.260 cornell nice oh my god tiffany oh my god who the hell cares your friend goes to cornell
09:29:54.060 oh my god what did you have for breakfast this morning yogurt bowl with strawberries and blue
09:30:00.500 anyways oh my god tiffany oh my you want to show us your kanye west tattoos we're all dying
09:30:08.380 i know it's torture i can't hour i can't take it off okay uh oh you've treated sorry not treated
09:30:16.620 Sorry, that just came.
09:30:18.120 You've seen men who are virgins.
09:30:21.340 Yeah, of course.
09:30:22.160 Lots of virgins.
09:30:23.360 How many virginities? 1.00
09:30:24.840 Probably like... 1.00
09:30:26.860 Dozens?
09:30:27.600 Yeah.
09:30:30.140 Nice. 1.00
09:30:30.940 They lose their virginity to you. 0.99
09:30:32.980 Yeah. 0.94
09:30:34.060 What an honor.
09:30:34.960 Thank you.
09:30:35.460 So romantic.
09:30:36.700 Oh, my gosh.
09:30:37.920 You know what?
09:30:38.360 Do you know Lauren, who we've had on the show? 0.96
09:30:40.720 No, but she's amazing.
09:30:42.380 She's the sweetest girl.
09:30:43.280 I love... 1.00
09:30:43.600 And she's a courtesan and a prostitute. 1.00
09:30:45.020 Yes, yes. 1.00
09:30:45.520 actually one of the nicest people i've met who've come on the show anyways sweetest girl i mean i 1.00
09:30:50.840 don't know her deeply or anything but um so i don't know maybe she's a fucking crazy what's up
09:30:57.600 lauren um i don't know maybe who knows behind the scenes but she's the sweetest person she's so 0.90
09:31:02.160 kind she's very nice and you seem almost in a similar vein you know what compliment to i'll
09:31:07.120 give you a compliment this way when it comes to sex workers for some reason you would almost it's 0.90
09:31:13.000 almost counterintuitive intuitive of the like prost like actual prostitutes we've had on the
09:31:19.860 show they tend to be the nicest versus like the strippers and the OF girls okay well I do all
09:31:31.020 what yeah but like the women who are specifically like either also or just prostitutes for some 0.86
09:31:37.580 reason they're they're kind of the nicest i think they're more old school oh my god what's that 0.79
09:31:44.160 they're more old school they're old school yeah i give them i almost you know what and it's not
09:31:49.320 just that they're nicer i kind of put more respect on their name they kind of give like
09:31:53.180 white lady next door vibes oh i mean okay
09:31:57.680 hey can i ask you a question would you um wait i don't know if this is legal but i'm just gonna
09:32:05.140 ask it okay are you gonna give me a referral a referral cut like if somebody is like a yo tatum 0.74
09:32:14.540 i saw you on the whatever podcast and i'm trying to do some shit are you gonna give me you're gonna 0.83
09:32:20.180 be give me a little kickback you're gonna be a kickback i think she already gave you something 0.74
09:32:26.360 by coming here thank you but i'm talking money you are gonna make money oh my god not in that 0.52
09:32:33.980 i'm talking to kick back from the the the the clientele little kickback i'm kidding but would
09:32:41.540 you give me a dollar per person a small you know fraction 50 bucks starbucks gift card
09:32:49.380 starbucks gift card you never know i mean who knows okay we'll see how that we'll see how that 1.00
09:32:57.060 good talk wait okay we're talking about the virgins oh should i i had a question fuck wait 1.00
09:33:03.580 virgins you've taken virginity oh i remember the thing i was gonna say um i kind of respect 1.00
09:33:10.940 the prostitutes more than the of girls okay why thank you tiffany i was waiting for that 0.99
09:33:18.040 i don't want to just speak out of turn you know i want to wait i'm very quiet
09:33:23.420 i don't speak much on this podcast yeah you know it's i wait my turn i think
09:33:31.680 because the of girls and the strippers i view them as like a bit predatory 1.00
09:33:38.660 okay like but the prostitutes as much as i object
09:33:45.500 i think it's honest work thank you yes in the sense that here's what i'm offering here's what 0.82
09:33:56.520 you get here's the terms exactly whereas like strippers strip of is the worst but the strippers
09:34:05.200 the strippers put on like a bit of a front to a degree like they put on the front a little bit 1.00
09:34:12.280 uh when it comes to like interacting with the men in the club right i guess maybe prostitutes do 1.00
09:34:18.520 that too i don't know but of girls that's a fugazi the only fans thing that's a hustle 1.00
09:34:29.100 then you're the of girls are hustling men whereas the prostitutes pussy cost $3.99 1.00
09:34:37.140 like that's that's at least respectable i don't know chat what do you think chat 1.00
09:34:42.180 i think it's more respectable does that make sense yes but i also don't want to pit sex 0.96
09:34:49.560 workers against each other well look ultimately the of girls are running a hustle a lot of them 0.99
09:34:55.480 they're fraud in they're lying they're they're doing all kinds of shit they're um they got 0.98
09:35:01.820 typers they got chatters they got management oh it's me who's talking no it's not her who's talking 0.99
09:35:06.280 uh they are doing the girlfriend experience they're doing romance scams you on the other 1.00
09:35:14.180 hand the prostitutes pussy is 500 you want some pussy 500 i'll give you pussy like i can at least 1.00
09:35:24.720 respect that from a business perspective but when you got women scamming dudes out here on only fans 1.00
09:35:30.680 like scamming them romance literally romance scamming dudes i can't respect that can't respect
09:35:37.120 it now i'm not saying it's good you know i'm not gonna say it's good but i was what people in the
09:35:45.260 chat are getting butt hurt that i'm saying that i'm saying it's more i'm not saying it's respectable
09:35:50.880 no offense but it's more respectable if that makes sense thank you like i put put more respect
09:36:00.540 on the name respect on the name thank you brian that means a lot chat i can understand that yeah
09:36:06.460 they're saying it's true but it's still bad that's my point is what i'm saying but at least i can
09:36:11.220 respect it more than these romance scammer of girls who are hustling cold-blooded hustling
09:36:18.420 these dudes girlfriend experience romance scam oh i'll meet up with you pay more send me money 1.00
09:36:24.380 for a ticket an airplane ticket oh my god i missed my flight oopsie oh no romance scam 0.59
09:36:29.840 romance scam anyways uh now that i'm not saying all girls of girls do that anyways blasting
09:36:36.500 through the rest um there's more nuance to the world of sex work than the host brian gives you
09:36:43.920 don't have to go into that because it was yeah brian doesn't realize that a lot of the men who
09:36:48.180 come to the brothel are doing this as a last resort do you want to elaborate super quickly
09:36:52.240 oh um did i did i write about just like people are grieving the loss of a spouse and and so
09:37:01.940 they'll go yeah yeah i mean i don't even think i disagree with you like definitely men can be
09:37:08.120 uh i don't think it's just like frat bros who just want to bust a nut i'm sure it's like 0.74
09:37:13.640 guys who go there and i've heard stories like guys will go there and they don't even want sex 0.92
09:37:19.120 they'll just like want to be held and shit you know yeah so i've heard that story i've heard 0.97
09:37:23.200 that story they even want to talk or whatever and it's not even yeah you know so they just 0.95
09:37:27.140 want companionship so i get that um you met a guy at a park on hinge oh who height who height
09:37:35.840 fished you we'll skip that yeah not too interesting oh
09:37:39.740 he said there's he was 5 8 he was actually 5 2 um let's see you're fine with first dates not
09:37:50.440 costing anything or like just being like low price yeah hike blah blah blah sorry not you
09:37:58.860 blah blah blah but um do you recall the client i'm gonna go through their whole thing like that
09:38:07.120 two oh it's hers or it's her notes are last that's it we already did no it's just her and
09:38:14.380 then it's done uh the bumble story um then we return to what the ding is all about seeing
09:38:21.420 if we really do like the other person okay skip
09:38:24.840 okay here's your hot take why is it more socially acceptable for you to be sleeping with many guys
09:38:32.580 frequently before you became a sex worker so you were like sleeping around uh but not getting paid
09:38:38.440 but once you start actually making money from this it becomes stigmatized frowned upon
09:38:42.320 well you're asking the wrong guy because in certain circles your circles you frown upon both
09:38:48.080 i'd frown upon both right but i'm just talking about larger society but it's too big of a topic
09:38:54.480 to get into at this hour yeah true true um it is an interesting thought which one do you think
09:39:00.360 should be sick stigmatized more neither sexual empowerment no not in like a it's it's it's hard
09:39:12.360 to you you said throughout your 20s you had so many one night stands uh how many when you say
09:39:18.920 how many or had well it was like all of the body count which is 33 33 okay ever two in the night
09:39:25.600 no three in the night no no because i i added that i fell in love with every i thought everyone
09:39:33.160 was going to turn into a relationship you said that yeah you gave the men full girlfriend
09:39:37.300 experience you gave yourself fully emotionally time efforts love imagined a future with nearly
09:39:44.180 each one though it was a bit demoralizing in these instances to learn i was nothing more than
09:39:48.440 the booty you were nothing more than the booty call it you're grateful for it because it led you 0.70
09:39:53.400 to sherry's ranch to becoming a prostitute where you can provide these experiences for people who 0.89
09:39:59.200 genuinely enjoy appreciate them and give you money you met your ex-husband when you were both in
09:40:06.160 rehab for what adderall addiction what about for him uh meth addiction so romantic yeah i hope to
09:40:18.480 one day meet my future wife it honestly was romantic maybe you should try that tiffany
09:40:26.160 tiffany's been struggling a bit try what what meth i don't know yes all of the above tiffany
09:40:34.780 pay attention tiffany pay attention yeah okay you said your point of married men out of pure love
09:40:42.600 wait you married the man out of pure love for his heart and spirit he can make you laugh harder than
09:40:48.260 anyone which goes against pretty much everything you brian say about women just going after
09:40:54.040 resources i don't say that women do care about that but it's i say it's not the only thing
09:41:00.540 i don't actually say that okay okay i don't i don't believe you but okay i'll say okay just
09:41:09.880 okay um women don't just women don't just go after money okay of course other things matter
09:41:17.920 uh and i think the gold digger phenomenon is actually like very small i i think that's like
09:41:25.080 cope or whatever um and also look hey you guys say i criticize women i'll i'll say this
09:41:31.880 a lot of men who are worried about gold diggers
09:41:34.760 they got nothing to worry about so what i mean by that is they don't got money they don't got
09:41:42.920 anything to be dug is what i'm saying uh so that's my criticism there um okay you're critical
09:41:49.280 of women who have unrealistic expectations about landing man with higher exceptionally high incomes
09:41:54.220 especially when they aren't bringing much to the table themselves are you reading my notes yes
09:42:00.100 no really oh my god that was my notes that was gonna be my response i did not say that
09:42:08.500 no yeah i was reading like a note i had in response to your thing that was funny
09:42:13.380 that's actually my brain i guess from me uh okay yeah so
09:42:20.300 that's funny okay um on the show you've observed brian talk about how all the burden falls on men
09:42:28.620 during dating. If it feels like a burden, it's not the right person. The entire process of falling
09:42:33.520 in love should feel exciting and electric. However, I'm also totally aware that men do
09:42:37.380 appreciate a woman demonstrating interest, especially in a post-Me Too era. That's a 0.71
09:42:42.740 fair point there at the end. I do think it's a bit of a privileged position, though, that I think
09:42:48.500 I'm somehow wrong about men carrying the burden when it comes to dating. I do think the reality
09:42:53.400 is as sort of discussed a little bit women tend to be passive when it comes to dating case in point 1.00
09:43:00.300 canadian exhibit a she's 29 she's had multiple boyfriends she's had multiple partners 1.00
09:43:07.660 none of which she paid the she didn't pay on the date she didn't ask them out
09:43:12.940 so if we put her into a male body she'd be a virgin yeah sorry yeah no that's how it is if
09:43:22.280 we put most women in a male body y'all be virgins no i'd be like six foot three muscular this is
09:43:29.720 another thing wait the women this oh my god this hold on women this you know what's so funny is
09:43:38.640 like a lot of women think man if i was a guy i would be a player i'd be oh i'd be so good looking 1.00
09:43:45.440 and i'd have a big dick and i would be fucking all these chicks i'm like no you put you put 1.00
09:43:51.640 most women into like their 1.00
09:43:53.560 male, even their male looks equivalent 1.00
09:43:55.580 body. 1.00
09:43:58.360 A lot of women would 1.00
09:43:59.600 be fucking incels. 1.00
09:44:01.580 I'm telling you, I'm telling 1.00
09:44:03.560 you this idea, all these women think, oh my 1.00
09:44:05.500 God, I know exactly what women want. 1.00
09:44:07.600 I would be such a player. Oh my God, 0.88
09:44:09.720 no.
09:44:11.000 I have a few brothers.
09:44:13.860 How do you know that though? 1.00
09:44:15.440 If it's an Asian woman, 1.00
09:44:17.300 ooh, 1.00
09:44:18.240 when Asian women say, 1.00
09:44:21.000 If I was a man, I'd be killing it. 1.00
09:44:24.220 No, you would not. 0.99
09:44:25.760 No, bro.
09:44:26.600 All these, bro, I don't know.
09:44:28.080 There's a lot.
09:44:29.120 My brothers are doing just fine, so I'm not worried.
09:44:32.300 Tiffany. 1.00
09:44:33.620 I would not want to be born an Asian man. 1.00
09:44:36.480 Bro, Asian men are dating because even Asian women be fucking curving them, yo. 1.00
09:44:44.500 I would date an Asian guy. 1.00
09:44:45.360 Asian women be like, I want to fuck a white guy. 1.00
09:44:47.640 Like, it's crazy. 1.00
09:44:49.000 It's crazy. 1.00
09:44:49.680 so like if you're an asian woman and you're like if i was a man i'd be getting tons of pussy 1.00
09:44:53.540 no you'd be fucking playing league of legends motherfucker what if a white woman says that 1.00
09:44:59.160 how do you know if a white woman no even white women even a white woman who's like if i was a 1.00
09:45:04.200 if i was a man i'd be running through pussy okay but how do you know well what's first off i would 1.00
09:45:08.780 look at her and if she's like a five no she is not running through pussy so she has to be tall 1.00
09:45:15.960 no no i'm when if i'm saying she's a five like her looks equivalent as a man 1.00
09:45:21.380 some of these girls like nah they'd not be you know what i mean so they have to be really 1.00
09:45:28.180 masculine looking oh no no no so not even that like i'm like more introverted just in general
09:45:37.100 so like if i was a man i would definitely be a virgin still i do just fine wait actually never
09:45:43.000 Okay. So men, oh my God, men have the initiative burden. Men have the rejection burden. Men have
09:45:56.320 the financial burden. So yes, I do think it is generally men carry a bit more of a burden than
09:46:05.500 women do. I think that's the word burden is kind of sad to me because the men who have been in
09:46:12.180 long-term relationship ships with have been really excited about the whole process I agree
09:46:17.100 and they're like can't get enough of it they're like oh I'm gonna drag this out as long as I can
09:46:25.780 I'm so excited oh I'm so excited that I've got to be a jester and do this song and dance for 0.98
09:46:33.640 a woman who's fucked 20 guys before me uh I'm so excited to do I'm so excited to do the courtship 0.98
09:46:41.200 process with like a string of like 10 women and then five like maybe the 10th one becomes my 0.98
09:46:47.900 girlfriend and then i'm gonna like she you're gonna deal with ghosting and flaking and they're
09:46:52.000 gonna be late to the day and you're gonna get flaked on 50 of the time oh it's such an exciting
09:46:56.120 process oh i haven't met my long-term people on apps though so wait but when the guy really likes
09:47:02.740 the girl he's happy to do all that yeah exactly he likes the girl oh my god he likes the girl 0.64
09:47:10.580 that's the gayest thing i've ever heard that's because you're cynical when it comes to us 0.99
09:47:14.380 nothing has worked out for you that's so gay no i'm kidding you know what's really gay 1.00
09:47:19.680 fucking women oh my oh my gosh it's a joke it's a joke like sliding your penis into a vagina is so 1.00
09:47:29.380 gay oh my god tough crowd what tough fucking crowd boys all right let's see let me see how 1.00
09:47:38.880 much oh we're almost there there's like two paragraphs oh my god please brian do you not 0.99
09:47:42.940 i swear i swear we're almost there boys we're almost there i'm sure i observed brian talk about
09:47:48.100 okay okay done with that last summer the two last things last summer you hung out with a guy from
09:47:53.560 hinge at his house on the first date because wait uh mutual interest of ours circus acrobatic
09:47:59.760 you had to leave after about two hours to go study for an exam you generally
09:48:04.880 really liked him but you received advice from your mom that the man would reach out if he was
09:48:10.680 interested you didn't hear back from him for two months until after you had reactivated hinge and
09:48:15.180 he saw you on the app prompting him to text you i said i thought you ghosted me and he said he
09:48:19.600 thought i ghosted sorry i can't even bother finishing reading that i'm sorry it was so boring 0.54
09:48:24.020 just kidding i love you tatum you're the best you're my second favorite prostitute okay
09:48:29.980 Lauren's my first 0.67
09:48:31.160 Lauren's my first 1.00
09:48:32.920 and by the way sometimes Lauren sends in like champagne
09:48:35.900 pops and TTS's
09:48:37.320 she sent in
09:48:38.460 Lauren has sent me like
09:48:40.340 one or two champagne pops and like some TTS's
09:48:43.760 where's she been though I don't know if she's watching 0.99
09:48:45.840 Lauren where the fuck you been 1.00
09:48:47.660 I need my motherfucking money 1.00
09:48:49.840 fucking brothel 1.00
09:48:52.660 that's my brothel now 1.00
09:48:55.540 okay good talk 0.90
09:48:57.480 okay final thing
09:48:59.740 You don't think it is up to the woman to constantly reach out.
09:49:02.560 You honestly thought that was considered thirsty behavior and would turn a man off.
09:49:07.820 There's also an entire movie, He's Just Not That Into You, 2009.
09:49:11.020 Thank you for including the date.
09:49:12.140 Appreciate it.
09:49:13.080 Which you saw in theaters with your grandma.
09:49:15.320 Okay.
09:49:15.920 When it came out, that helped sculpt your worldview.
09:49:19.740 You can only speak for yourself, but you like initiative on the man's part.
09:49:22.460 It's very hot and steamy.
09:49:24.980 It shows me the man is interested.
09:49:26.820 I know.
09:49:26.960 I smuggled that in
09:49:30.300 You're pretty shy
09:49:32.380 So you need to know that the other person is interested in you
09:49:34.460 Before you start making moves
09:49:35.600 But once you know that the man likes you too
09:49:37.740 You're extremely romantic
09:49:39.060 And will do the most for a guy 0.99
09:49:41.200 Besides stopping being a prostitute 0.99
09:49:43.760 Not sure if this is a good or bad thing 1.00
09:49:46.280 It just is what it is
09:49:48.000 I like it when 1.00
09:49:48.880 Look, I like when a girl makes the first move 1.00
09:49:52.220 First off, if she's like a girl's a groupie 0.81
09:49:54.120 And she watches my show 0.99
09:49:55.180 i don't know who the fuck you are you gotta dm me like how am i gonna find you i don't like look 1.00
09:50:00.700 at who comments on my shit i don't like i don't look at my likes i got too many likes you gotta 1.00
09:50:05.740 send a dm so i like oh my god natalia my my favorite groupie speaking of show that pull it 0.98
09:50:11.640 up pull it up nathaniel nathaniel pull up my favorite oh voice crack yikes natalia my favorite
09:50:24.560 groupie oh i love natalia love natalia she's my favorite uh 20 gifted subs thank you guys 0.83
09:50:31.680 thank natalia thank you oh you no i meant the chat you guys you guys should talk shit about 0.98
09:50:38.400 no i'm just kidding don't talk shit natalia okay uh i don't know i i think a woman can 0.96
09:50:43.940 take initiative in a feminine way oh say more can you give me an example 0.96
09:50:48.920 so guys guys i'm just curious no no i'll answer it quick then we're gonna wrap
09:50:57.000 so a girl like don't approach a guy whether it's text or even like in person whatever don't be 0.97
09:51:06.040 like aggressive with it in the sense of like want some pussy no don't say that i mean some guys 0.98
09:51:13.060 might still go for it but that's a bit much but you can be like excuse me sir 0.99
09:51:19.480 you know like go up to him in like a more feminine way like not
09:51:24.120 like you can still be soft and gentle and be like okay like a little bashful like 0.99
09:51:29.200 you know you can do that shit and nathan nathan no just be a little does he excuse me senpai 0.99
09:51:37.600 i thought you were cute you can do that shit okay and like that's you making the first move 1.00
09:51:43.560 that's feminine though maybe like walking up to them making small talk is feminine 0.99
09:51:48.340 yeah but saying saying directly you're cute is not feminine yeah well it doesn't have to be
09:51:55.460 exactly that wordage it can't be direct right it can't be direct no i think a girl can be direct
09:52:05.600 but in it can still be like you can still let it be known not no you can also play it more
09:52:10.580 indirect you could be just kind of make conversation with him you know i don't know
09:52:15.460 in like i don't know where you're not just like letting on that you like the guy and maybe he'll
09:52:21.060 get the hint but you can also let the guy know in still like a non-aggressive feminine way and
09:52:26.820 that's cool too me personally i don't really mind i don't like aggressive but like up front
09:52:34.400 forthcoming not blunt isn't the right word but like a girl could just dm you approach you
09:52:43.100 just thought you're cute i'm interested like it could just be as simple as that i don't think
09:52:49.600 that that comes across as like aggressive or anything i could maybe change the wording a
09:52:54.420 little bit there but i don't think it's feminine i can make it well i could change the wording there
09:52:58.800 to make it a bit more flowery in a way that uh flowery flowery that's right uh let's see here
09:53:06.260 okay let me see if there's any chats that's it for all the notes any final thoughts from any
09:53:09.700 y'all before i wrap up the show we need the front should she return for the closing the
09:53:16.180 oh no too much just like to wave goodbye no we should just go to bed she said no oh perfect
09:53:25.180 That's good to you. Okay makeup removal. Will you take off your makeup?
09:53:31.020 When I get home, yeah
09:53:33.640 To the sweet see to play to the sweet VT s
09:53:38.180 VT s
09:53:39.180 I don't like being told what to do. Allons-y VT s 1.00
09:53:44.860 VT s VT 0.99
09:53:49.300 Quacket what's VV to meet
09:53:55.180 Makeup?
09:53:57.060 How do you say let's go to sleep in French?
09:54:03.200 Well, let me get the outro going here.
09:54:06.980 Let me get the outro going.
09:54:10.580 Oh, she's coming back?
09:54:13.300 No, you can just wave. 0.58
09:54:18.020 I'm jealous.
09:54:20.500 You don't even have to talk?
09:54:21.660 Do you want to just be...
09:54:25.180 Okay, that's fine.
09:54:28.120 Okay, hold on one sec while I get this wrapped up.
09:54:30.860 Any final thoughts from...
09:54:34.900 Do you want to take your makeup off?
09:54:36.380 I'll bring it for home, thank you.
09:54:38.880 Well, you can't take it.
09:54:40.120 That's literally...
09:54:43.280 That'd be stealing.
09:54:44.780 Well, I just said I would.
09:54:46.820 It's not like that.
09:54:48.980 I'm going to need to disinfect that now. 0.99
09:54:51.260 Fuck. 1.00
09:54:52.260 Maybe I should just keep it. 1.00
09:54:53.600 You should take it then.
09:54:54.600 No. 0.99
09:54:55.180 We'll clone you.
09:54:56.960 You put your DNA on that.
09:54:59.400 Oh, my God. 1.00
09:55:00.900 Little China clones. 0.99
09:55:03.020 Okay, wait.
09:55:03.760 I'm going to say something from the movie The Matrix.
09:55:06.320 Nom de Dieu, de putain, de bordel, de merde, de saloper, de conner, de inculé de ta mère.
09:55:17.620 I'm rapping, Nathan.
09:55:19.260 You said that an hour ago.
09:55:20.840 I'm rapping, Nathaniel.
09:55:23.820 Patience.
09:55:24.300 okay, we're wrapping, we're wrapping
09:55:26.000 okay, okay, okay
09:55:27.920 are we forgetting anything?
09:55:30.240 no
09:55:30.380 guys, guys, if you enjoyed the stream
09:55:34.460 I need you to like the 0.98
09:55:36.180 motherfucking video 0.99
09:55:37.200 what do you 0.99
09:55:37.620 okay, like the video guys
09:55:42.200 like the video if you enjoyed the stream
09:55:43.760 we're not going to do the AI, we don't have 0.86
09:55:46.420 fucking time for that, let me make sure no chats 0.99
09:55:48.280 came through and I'm going to wrap this shit 0.99
09:55:50.420 up 0.99
09:55:50.880 we're going to wrap this up
09:55:53.460 Wrap it up like you should do 1.00
09:55:55.760 If you're seeing a prostitute at Sherry's Ranch 1.00
09:55:58.360 Oh my god 1.00
09:55:59.360 Because it's legally required 0.99
09:56:00.640 Not because they're prostitutes
09:56:03.200 But because you do have to wear condoms legally
09:56:05.900 Condoms are mandatory
09:56:06.960 Condoms are mandatory at Sherry's Ranch
09:56:10.180 Sherry's Ranch
09:56:11.700 Sherry's Ranch
09:56:14.140 We do have a chat that I missed
09:56:19.060 Can you read it?
09:56:21.340 My Canadian lover
09:56:22.500 can we please bring back chair number two lover i'll come on the podcast if she comes back i don't
09:56:29.680 know who lizzie is i'm sorry who's lizzie uh and then these came through that are not reads but are
09:56:36.900 shows all right i think that's it okay i feel like i'm forgetting something tiffany do you
09:56:43.120 well you know what while i got tiffany here one question are you attracted oh my god you're gonna
09:56:50.600 clip me. Are you, Tiffany, are you attracted
09:56:52.640 to Asian men? Yes.
09:57:12.800 Okay.
09:57:13.640 That's a long one. Okay.
09:57:15.500 Alright.
09:57:17.780 Have you ever dated an Asian man?
09:57:19.720 No. 1.00
09:57:20.600 Wait until you wrap things up.
09:57:22.880 Wait, wait, wait.
09:57:24.080 Wait, sit down.
09:57:25.120 I'm literally wrapping.
09:57:26.160 No, just sit.
09:57:27.480 Sit.
09:57:28.440 Can you sit?
09:57:29.060 I'm literally ending the show.
09:57:30.420 Don't tell me what to do.
09:57:33.200 You're not going to stay for the outro?
09:57:35.060 No.
09:57:37.320 Really?
09:57:38.440 I'm literally ending the show right now.
09:57:43.680 Okay. 0.99
09:57:45.100 I can see why you date younger men.
09:57:46.760 All right.
09:57:48.220 Yep. 0.99
09:57:48.620 I guess that Canadian threesome's 1.00
09:57:51.440 off the table. What's that? 1.00
09:57:55.840 The
09:57:56.360 18-year-old boy toys that you 1.00
09:57:59.440 fuck. 1.00
09:58:02.340 You realize I would 1.00
09:58:03.440 have ended the show already?
09:58:06.000 I'm literally...
09:58:07.480 Okay, well, she wouldn't know this.
09:58:09.200 I literally had my outro pulled up. 1.00
09:58:11.800 And you very rudely
09:58:13.620 very rudely 0.99
09:58:16.440 I'm literally trying to wrap the fucking show 0.99
09:58:21.380 It's polite to sit at the table 0.99
09:58:25.620 For the outro
09:58:27.300 Are you actually not going to do it?
09:58:32.800 Well tell you what
09:58:33.620 You can either return and be polite
09:58:35.500 For the outro
09:58:36.640 I'm literally going to read the outro
09:58:38.080 It takes 30 seconds 0.99
09:58:39.180 You can do that or you can get the fuck out 0.99
09:58:41.640 How about that? 1.00
09:58:46.440 Eh, maybe you should just get the fuck out then. 0.99
09:58:50.920 I would have, but we had a little arrangement before to show that I'm going to need, you know. 0.99
09:58:58.160 Oh, the deposit you paid because you flaked previously, so we charged you a deposit and you want it back?
09:59:03.640 Yeah, okay, whatever.
09:59:06.060 All right, sometimes we have to charge people deposits so they show up.
09:59:09.740 Okay.
09:59:12.460 It's a you thing.
09:59:13.940 All right.
09:59:14.240 let's see here
09:59:16.940 where is it hold on
09:59:19.620 G where is it 0.99
09:59:21.740 what the fuck do I not 0.99
09:59:23.000 oh there it is GG 0.99
09:59:24.860 well played
09:59:25.920 last call hit the like button please
09:59:30.140 on your way out
09:59:31.660 also please leave a nice comment
09:59:33.260 once the live ends
09:59:35.320 I read them positivity is nice
09:59:37.860 and it helps the algorithm
09:59:39.700 thank you for tuning in
09:59:41.820 tonight you could have been anywhere in the world
09:59:43.500 but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and
09:59:49.640 supports the show we could not do it without you we will be live again sunday actually no we have
09:59:54.700 a debate uh i think on the 7th i believe we have a debate on the 7th but dating talk will be back
10:00:01.220 sunday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show you can dm out whatever on instagram
10:00:05.160 if you can make it to santa barbara let me see oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat
10:00:09.640 oh sevens in the chat let me just double check make sure no chats came through
10:00:13.800 hello load nope okay oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat good night guys and we will
10:00:23.380 we will see you we will see you either i'm pretty sure for a debate on the 7th uh and then dating
10:00:31.540 talk on the 10th oh seven in the chat good night guys good night okay cool did anybody 0.99
10:00:40.440 lie about their body count now that we're wrapped does anybody want to oh fuck we're 0.95
10:00:48.000 still live nathan oh my goodness good night guys 1.00
10:01:01.540 You