00:39:33.220But I mean, I would imagine speaking to somebody who holds a Ph.D. degree that they would have like, you know, perhaps they're not like top in their field in the subject, but they have like a depth of knowledge that could be perhaps articulated or shared.
00:39:50.780So I guess I'm looking for power is very important.
00:40:20.080One thing I think that was interesting that I learned is that when you look at world leaders across the board,
00:40:25.120more of them have something called one of these dark triad traits which is uh machiavellianism
00:40:32.440which is like manipulation what are what are the other components of dark triad uh narcissism and
00:40:39.060psychopathy okay and so these traits are more prevalent in people who rise to the top through
00:40:45.220a process of competition into and elimination until they're at the top of their field well dear
00:40:50.680I must tell you, as somebody who dropped out of community college, I've been aware of what the dark triad for many years without the need to get a Ph.D. degree.
00:41:03.320So that's is that what the universities you get a you spend nearly a decade in university and you get a Ph.D.
00:41:13.240and power is important dark triad and how to do a research study it seems like college might be a
00:41:22.900bit of a scam if you ask me but perhaps I'm wrong research is a process and when I'm just throwing
00:41:33.320things out there it's really just me throwing things out there so please don't take that as
00:41:36.940a reflection of university well i guess it's like okay uh in this case you went to a private
00:41:43.300university although i assume they still take on some tax subsidies but i am always to some degree
00:41:51.000tickled by uh and of course it depends on the discipline she does electrical engineering that's
00:41:59.140a very you know that's a hard science to a degree it's uh or you look at math and you look at physics
00:42:06.240or biology. These are hard sciences, but when you get into international relationships,
00:42:11.380I mean, I don't even know if that's categorized as a soft science. That might be more of a liberal
00:42:17.140art. But what was the title of your PhD? Of my PhD? The title, excuse me, my mistake.
00:42:27.360Research. The title of your dissertation. I'm not going to say, because I don't want it to be
00:42:31.380searched i don't want it i don't want the record to live here okay i mean that's fine for privacy
00:42:36.520reasons you do know the title of it though i do you haven't like forgotten it okay all right well
00:47:03.360let tell me one thing from your sociology of aging class that you could uh communicate to us
00:47:12.040all right I'm glad you asked so in one reading we read um in the past few weeks um it was about
00:47:21.260oh my god I feel like I'm gonna bore you guys are you got give me the 10 seconds okay okay well
00:47:27.700you'll love this because it's about france all right i'm gonna love this okay um so a group of
00:47:34.780researchers in france found this boy who was just living in the woods by himself this was in the
00:47:42.0201800s and they he had been like abandoned by his family and he um just was rather feral and he
00:47:51.860was like he couldn't hear people calling for him because his ears were accustomed to hearing sounds
00:48:01.060that mattered to him like he could hear a walnut crack like like 100 feet away but he couldn't
00:48:05.980hear people like yelling at him so the point of that is to say that our brains adapt to what we
00:48:15.400it's like in our brains are environmentally adaptable and that's also why
00:48:24.460we are not in gestation as long as other animals meaning like we're born and we don't know how to
00:48:34.620walk already that's because our brains as humans need time to develop to our
00:48:38.680our environment rather than like a horse that gets born and walks immediately if that makes
00:48:44.820sense. I can expand on that. I don't want to like bore you guys though. I could like talk about that
00:48:49.240for like 30 minutes. I mean, I'm familiar with the case and there's actually probably a few
00:48:54.380examples of these sort of feral, I think they're referred to as like feral children where they're
00:49:01.300like essentially almost abandoned basically. And sometimes even like animals will take care of them
00:49:07.260in some odd sort of way but um i as like a as a sociological concept or principle yeah you
00:49:17.120providing an example of something that relates to sociology i guess i'm more so looking like
00:49:22.320from a principle perspective oh a principle is that art so we adapt to our environment okay
00:49:28.940well i dropped out of college i could tell you that oh well good for you yeah i couldn't
00:49:33.280okay maybe i mean that story was basically just about like what selective hearing because like
00:49:38.860my kids do that right all right kids do that i'll be like take the trash out i didn't hear you
00:49:43.680hey there's food you know i mean and then they'll hear that right are you arguing is that what you
00:49:47.900meant though oh no no i was just saying is that what you meant about that kid like adapting to
00:49:51.820his environment he just basically has selective hearing okay well okay well yeah okay so sociology
00:49:57.280of aging um the feral boy or whatever uh anthropology of identity and ethnicities
00:50:05.520what's just like one quick takeaway from that that you could relate to us um well i just wrote a
00:50:11.100paper on my own identities and how they've shifted over the last like 10 years definitely super
00:50:17.540personal don't want to get into it but it was really powerful i got an a plus well so good job
00:50:23.980I'm looking for, like, I don't know, if you were taking a physics class, you might, for example, be able to, I mean, this is very elementary, but you might be able to relate to me some, like, a principle of Newton, for example.
00:50:41.060So, but when you say, I wrote a paper about my identity, and I got an A on it, I'm looking for a principle of the anthropology of identity and ethnicities, a principle that you can relate to me.
00:50:52.240So, maybe it would be helpful to understand that I chose this major because creative writing was not an option for online students.
00:51:02.540I don't need the reason why you chose the thing.
00:51:04.840I'm just looking for a principle of the anthropology of identity and ethnicities.
00:51:09.820No, but partially why anthropology is, why I'm doing it is to be a better writer.
00:51:17.420So, I don't need the reasons for why you're taking the class.
00:51:21.560I'm simply you've been taking the class you've been studying it you've been going to college
00:51:26.240you're about to graduate in two weeks with a bachelor's degree from a university I would hope
00:51:32.240the university is doing its due diligence in properly educating you so as to confer you with
00:51:38.620a diploma that would indicate to a employer that you have a degree of understanding over the subject
00:51:43.800in which you are studying thus I'm asking once again what is the principle or concept that you
00:51:50.580learned about from the class anthropology of identity and ethnicities that we I mean from
00:52:02.360that particular class just one thing our our identities are a combination of how we were raised
00:54:25.800it so that she can be honest and open to people,
00:54:28.080but she wants to do it in the way that
00:54:29.700I guess they're teaching her how to do it.
00:54:31.500do you go to public school or private school the university of nevada las vegas is a public
00:54:37.240university taxpayer funded i mean i'm assuming i got do you have scholarships or are you paying
00:54:43.240for it both okay um so look you said that she's going to school to learn how to express herself
00:54:51.900right like in a writing fuck the taxpayer should not be paying for that that taxpayers i don't
00:54:58.020think are paying for it's you go to a public school it's taxpayer subsidized adult learner
00:55:02.560scholarship no i understand you might have some scholarships well i mean that would be
00:55:06.420depending on the source of the scholarship it would to be it would be to a degree uh taxpayer
00:55:12.260subsidized taxpayers should not be subsidizing i want to learn how to express myself
00:55:17.400okay agree to disagree that's not the purpose okay college college ought to be now look uh i
00:55:27.580I think college perhaps has gone through transformation in the past 10, 20, 30, 40 years where instead of it being an institution for like genuine academic achievement in education, it and not all disciplines.
00:55:41.620Some of the disciplines, the hard sciences, those are still valid.
00:55:45.460However, the liberal arts, the soft sciences, these are very much adult daycare centers.
00:55:57.580It's why you find so many people are unhirable after they get a diploma from a four-year university, after they've taken on a substantial amount of college debt.
00:56:09.660They've cost the taxpayer a pretty penny.
00:56:11.760They have bloated administrations where there's all these, okay, they're putting on concerts at fucking university.
00:56:18.600they're they're doing all these there's like different centers and all this bullshit in
00:56:23.880universities massively bloated just a waste of taxpayer money and I think we see the fruits of
00:56:31.180that I agree that there are excess costs at universities but I don't know how it could be
00:56:37.600an adult daycare when I am a fully online student and I'm working from the brothel
00:56:41.760well I mean obviously there's in-person classes so yeah there's online class offerings
00:56:47.640but there are in-person classes and I would say even if even if you reject the categorization of
00:56:56.800it as being adult daycare I would perhaps frame it better like this university is for is so that
00:57:03.740you can have somebody else read to you that's university how are they reading to me that's
00:57:09.600literally university I'm doing especially now with like you have AI and all this these sorts
00:57:16.260of things but for the past 20 years you've had all the knowledge possible at your fingertips
00:57:20.180on the computer via the internet now there might be some applications again if you're taking certain
00:57:26.300classes where there's like actually lab work and you're dealing with like i don't know if you're
00:57:31.420in chemistry and you have to do actual lab work that's different right but like soft sciences
00:57:37.240liberal arts it's it's all on the internet well also yeah okay uh also i'm i find now that with
00:57:46.040ai uh i have someone in my family who who teaches every single student is using ai to write the
00:57:55.940papers so there's a lack of from the students themselves look obviously the students want the
00:58:01.360good grade they want to just breeze through it they want the diploma they want the grade whatever
00:58:06.460But I think there ought to be, if you are going to spend this time and money on university, especially if it's taxpayer subsidized, I think there should be a genuine educational and academic internal motivation and like a curiosity within the student to want to actually learn the material at a deeper level than just, I'm just trying to get the grade.
00:58:30.920I'm just going to put this through AI, but I do have someone very close to me who's a professor
00:58:35.980at a major university on the East Coast, and yeah, they told me every single one of my students
00:58:41.940uses AI for the assignments, so it's just like we may, of course, might have to reassess the value
00:58:50.020of education if everything's just being done by AI. Brian, can I comment? Sure. Okay, so I also work
00:58:56.480as a course assistant for a university class.
00:58:59.840And I will say that university is more than just reciting facts.
00:59:03.740It's also a process of understanding how to do research.
00:59:07.580It's a process of how to make an argument.
00:59:10.880And I have edited essays from students freshman year
00:59:14.420and senior year, and the writing is so different
00:59:17.680because students do learn these soft skills
01:13:24.020Maybe they've been bullied or whatever it is.
01:13:27.420And maybe it's just they're living in a geographical region.
01:13:31.220Maybe their neighborhood is just predominantly filled with gang members, and that's who they're around and who they're exposed to.
01:13:37.900I'm going to go ahead and grant all those things.
01:13:39.860However, you're not going to be able to make a very convincing argument that when we're referring to gangs, that this is typically not a criminal organization.
01:54:16.880But again, my position is not in all instances where women cry, they do so to manipulate.
01:54:24.780Although, I do think there are probably some times where women may cry unconsciously in an effort to confer some sort of sympathy or benefit, where they might not be consciously attempting to do so.
01:55:22.460But so, for example, if you're a police officer and you saw a disproportionate amount of dead bodies, as police officers frequently do, I don't think you could then map that on to a sort of average.
01:55:48.180But you would not map that on and say, like, the majority of people commit homicides and murders because on a daily basis I'm dealing with the investigation of homicides and murders.
01:55:57.460So in your case, your claim, you're going to say, well, I'm a sex worker and these men are very vulnerable and they sometimes cry when receiving my services or whatever.
01:56:09.360well besides my line of work i will say that um the most masculine men i've dated
01:56:19.320are the ones who've cried the most and the more feminine men i've dated i never saw them cry once
01:56:27.140which is fascinating right the most masculine men you've dated cried the most yes because
01:56:35.860Because they're in touch with themselves, and they're so confident in their masculinity that they're okay crying, and I think that's awesome.
01:56:44.200The most masculine man you've ever dated, when you say he was comfortable crying in front of you, what was the – could you maybe list a few of the things that he cried about?
01:56:56.720So, for example, I would have no quarrel with a man crying if his mom died, his father died, a sibling died, perhaps even a pet, a beloved pet died.
01:57:11.680Were those the circumstances under which the man was crying?
01:57:14.780I mean, there's a handful of circumstances, but I mean, with my husband, when I told him I wanted to work at a brothel, he definitely cried.
01:57:23.060huh i'm gonna allow that as a reason for a man to cry your fucking wife wants to become a
01:57:30.340prostitute i'll give him a pass on that um yeah i'm gonna okay that from as representative of
01:57:39.520the male delegation your fucking wife wants to become a prostitute and the relationship is
01:57:46.700basically over i guess yeah you can cry i guess sure no we stayed married for two yikes okay well
02:06:33.840But once again, I think it's because it's more socially acceptable for us to cry and I guess more socially acceptable for them to get angry.
02:07:26.980And again, not all instances, and I would say even the majority of times when women are crying, certainly they're not doing so as a means of manipulation.
02:07:38.640However, I do think that they're, depending on the context, in a crying that occurs in a social interaction, and specific social interactions,
02:07:59.660the rates of when crying occurs in these specific social interactions,
02:08:05.140that can actually be quite a high amount of manipulation.
02:24:13.300It's socially stigmatized and shamed for men to cry.
02:24:19.080Now, again, there are certain circumstances where, like, you know, if a police officer is not the one who did the shooting, but he is responding to the call, and he gets there, and the police officer who, you know, killed somebody, and he sees that guy crying,
02:24:36.580the police officers should go rub his back give him some support and be understanding that he's
02:24:42.340crying in that context you should in genuine uh situations of crying if it's non-private and it
02:24:48.500isn't public uh no there shouldn't be like some sort of mocking that should go on for these people
02:24:53.740or perhaps even i don't think you should mock a man in any circumstances in which he's crying
02:25:00.040However, realistically speaking, there will be a social judgment that occurs when men do cry.
02:25:09.060And then in addition to that, this is also not just propped up by other men, but women themselves will, let's say it's your girlfriend,
02:25:21.800a lot of women are not prepared to deal with male emotions in that way, and you will lose attraction for that man.
02:25:29.160You, it might even be on a subconscious, unconscious level.
02:25:33.580If a dude fucking cries, it's not gonna, it's not gonna go over well with women.
02:25:40.120And you might say, no, of God, be supportive.
02:26:09.220It depends on what they're crying about.
02:26:11.580And you can say this, and you say, men, proceed at your own peril this advice that you should fucking cry in front of a woman or be vulnerable in front of a woman.
02:26:25.240It's bullshit, and women might not even understand their own psychology when they witness a male who is weak, or a man who is vulnerable, or a man who cries, because women do not respond well to weak men.
02:38:47.920Wait, I have two really good examples, but then I want to move on to the topic.
02:38:51.480One example, this was actually another example from the show. It happened two, three months ago.
02:38:56.460We had a woman on who one of the questions in the thing here is wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight or a woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
02:39:07.960And the woman was arguing that it is wrong.
02:39:10.560You shouldn't judge a woman because of her weight.
02:52:44.420So when I say bar or club, I'm typically, like, obviously there's, like, more lounge-type environments where you might meet up with a friend, and it's not a party environment.
02:56:52.200That is fine, but if I'm in a relationship, if I'm on vacation, I can't post a picture in a bikini or something because I'm in a relationship.
03:04:47.620wait you have a bit of a hair strand pull it back like there's a hair covering it oh yeah
03:04:53.580yeah right wow yep made in china wow that is that's actually cool i love that damn now i wish
03:05:02.100my name was china well it was almost china you know they say though the things that are made in
03:05:10.540china are typically low quality oh that was a nice brain no it's true like they no not the humans
03:05:17.260No, I'm just saying, like, the product quality, like, for example, certain plastics or, like, metal that's produced in China, typically not the highest quality.
03:05:30.040My mom is also half Chinese, so she was just randomly on that trip.
03:26:23.200is women's fault well yeah okay so you wait your question was why like if a girl love bombs a guy
03:26:33.320i think guys are a little bit more avoidance so they'll be like yeah whereas right a guy that
03:26:38.440loves bombs a girl they'll be more into it well i think here's my idea here so if the guy really
03:26:43.600likes the girl it can go one of both ways either yes it can work for him because he really likes
03:26:49.880her he's already like determined that he'd she's attractive and he'd want a relationship with her
03:26:57.340sometimes it can be like too intense where it's like whoa stalker vibes yeah but if he otherwise
03:27:03.960it depends the degree of the love bombing right but like you gotta understand a lot of guys
03:27:09.700deal with you for pussy and that's all they want so when you're love bombing
03:27:15.400they don't want a relationship with you they just want pussy so that's why love bombing is going to
03:27:20.880be off-putting uh to certain men you're dealing with because they don't want anything else besides
03:27:26.260sex they just want a casual sexual relationship hey sometimes women want casual sexual relationships
03:27:31.680but i would say there's a difference here so for a guy to fuck y'all for a guy to have sex with you
03:27:37.840guys you could okay i here's my perspective in order for a man to have sex with a woman
03:27:47.220well hold on let me flip that in order for a woman to have sex with a man he his baseline
03:27:56.540in terms of looks he's at least attractive enough to be in a relationship with
03:28:02.740like if you're gonna fuck a guy baseline he's at least good looking enough you would like boyfriend
03:28:11.300you would be in a relationship with him oftentimes it's like for example let's say a girl only wants
03:28:17.800a relationship but she's like either meets a guy who's really attractive or i don't know she's just
03:28:24.960looking for a hookup she's not just gonna a girl who's just trying to get some dick like a girl
03:28:32.420who's just trying to get laid she's not gonna go because dick is easy dick is abundant she's not
03:28:39.200just gonna go to like the easiest option which can which would technically i suppose be the
03:28:45.180a less attractive guy or the first guy when a girl's just trying to get some dick
03:28:51.480she goes in the opposite direction she's like well if i'm just gonna fuck i'm gonna make sure
03:28:57.460the guy's really attractive physically generally speaking yep so women work in like this sort of
03:29:03.360opposite way that men work so like if say you're a woman who primarily wants a relationship
03:29:08.360but it's a celebrity and he's really good looking i'll fuck him i'll fuck him
03:29:14.500and maybe that's all you get right you'll break your rule if the guy's hot enough men if we're
03:29:22.040just trying to get some pussy but we don't we don't want the relationship we'll fuck a girl
03:29:27.260that just on her looks alone we would never be in a relationship with her like we will have sex
03:29:34.080with women that she could be fucking amazing personality the other things we care about
03:29:41.600but we would never date her because she's fat or because she her face is not attractive
03:29:47.360but we'll fuck her women don't do that women typically don't do that like well so in other
03:29:56.420words we will fuck women we're not even all that attracted to physically like just to get some
03:30:03.880pussy and so but for y'all women just to repeat the point for you to have sex with a guy across
03:30:12.100the line whether it's relationship or just a casual thing he has to be at well i guess it's
03:30:19.080just for casual to have sex with a guy as a woman he has to be at least attractive enough you would
03:30:25.380date the guy be in a relationship with him personally not me so just to be clear for you
03:30:30.880when it comes to casual sex you fuck ugly dudes but then necessarily ugly but it just i like
03:30:39.660it can work for that but like i would probably probably be a little ashamed to be like hey this
03:30:46.300is my man you know like it can be attractive for whatever's going on but like sometimes it might be
03:30:52.440a little bit of a height thing or just uh personality or something no but it's i don't
03:31:00.360know it's just like they're fine but if he's my man i'm like nah i wouldn't see that see i feel
03:31:06.980like i'm the opposite like if i'm gonna if i'm gonna have sex with you this is someone that i
03:31:11.380would i see myself being with at least to some extent like i'm not going to just have sex with
03:31:17.200someone to just have sex with someone because at that point what's the point i can just wait for
03:31:21.160the person that i'm attracted to whether you think he's ugly like i don't i've dated plenty
03:31:26.300of guys and my friends are like bro this guy is hideous i'm like okay to you it's not them you
03:31:30.540know right so but i just feel like i'm not going to get into bed with someone that like i'm not
03:31:35.580remotely at least attracted to in terms of bringing them around other people because then
03:31:40.500it's like yeah i think it's maybe like right in the beginning i'm like sure and then i get to know
03:31:45.980then i'm like yeah well that's different that's different like people's personalities are ugly
03:31:49.660but like i mean i just feel like if you're gonna lay in bed with someone that you're not
03:31:53.780you know like confident enough to even show someone a picture it's like are you really
03:31:59.380doing it to that extent but it's just like sometimes you get to know them and you're like
03:32:03.800yeah no right yeah person people's personality sucks all the time but like looks wise yeah
03:32:07.940Now, look, sometimes women do charity, you know, every once in a while.
03:32:13.080But as a general principle, like, again, men, they'll have sex with women that, like, they've already, I don't care, like, what else there is about you, they've already, men will put you in a category.
03:32:35.200there's and it can be just off the basis of looks there's like i'll have sex with her
03:32:43.620but i would never long-term date her because of her looks okay but pussy is a bit like pizza
03:32:53.180it's hard to fuck up pizza you know like most pizza is good pizza like it's there's good there's
03:33:04.460better pizza there's worse pizza but it's still fucking i mean it's really hard to fuck pizza up
03:33:09.680so most pussy is good pussy not all dick is good dick let me tell you that much not all dick is
03:33:15.940good so have you tried have i tried dick no how do you know that but he knows i mean i bro well
03:33:24.940i mean for example women uh frequent complaint from women is that they don't orgasm during sex
04:49:31.360maybe something that I'm a little naive
04:49:33.300against since I've never dealt with it
04:49:35.100but i like i said if if like i was in a relationship and let's say like okay i've
04:49:41.400been gone for the past three days you know i mean and my man was like oh you know i'm like what have
04:49:46.220you been up to and he like told me like oh like i watched porn last night i'd be like okay you know
04:49:50.320like to me i wouldn't think anything of it because like in my head it's like oh i'm not there
04:49:54.740you know but now if we were together like i've had friends be like oh you know i mean i didn't
04:50:01.500feel like having sex so my boyfriend yeah put on porn and jacked off next to me i'd be like that's
04:50:05.420like so ick ish you know what i mean like you couldn't just contain yourself for one night
04:50:11.320that that's what you did or like go relieve yourself in the bathroom like but you just
04:50:14.420decided to do that that's where it feels disrespectful exactly because at that point
04:50:18.320it feels like a sex addiction like oh yeah i can't go without it because you don't want to
04:50:22.660have you won't give it to me okay i'm gonna get it in that case i would understand why women are
04:50:26.540like oh i don't want my man to watch porn okay that's a whole other issue like right like having
04:50:30.320a sex addiction like not being able to go without it for like one or like yeah you know like yeah
04:50:35.600you need it every single night yeah like that or having to watch it before you have sex with
04:50:40.540your girlfriend like oh i need to like yeah yeah some people do i mean if it's if it's like agreed
04:50:47.240upon then whatever yeah yeah do your own thing whatever no judgment but yeah if it's like a
04:50:53.440one-sided situation yeah no that's not gonna happen yeah that's that's fair you just seem
04:51:00.040very like chill and i am a very chill i feel like there's just like so many things that like don't
04:51:05.560really bother me until they happen that i'm like oh yeah now it's like oh wait but like i said
04:51:10.980it's not everybody like i try not to put everyone in a bubble you know because just like portrait
04:51:15.880saying before like i'm different you're different she's different we're not the same people so like
04:51:19.980categorizing put everybody in a bubble is like so unfair you know and there's a lot of topics
04:51:26.160where like I'll say and my friends would be like oh that's so wrong and I'm like okay yeah to you
04:51:30.500but you and I are not the same person but it's like it is what it is like my ex had a really
04:51:36.180bad sex addiction and I just like didn't care for it so it was like sorry sex a sex oh my god
04:51:42.280sex addiction addiction thank you and it's just something that I'm not like oh my god I have to
04:51:48.600have sex every day like this is like you know i mean the one thing i'm looking forward to every
04:51:52.960day so it was something that we fought about a lot and it was like to me it was what ultimately
04:51:59.620ended our relationship because it got to the point where like it got violent got physical and i was
04:52:04.320just like i can't do this anymore because it became a problem but it was never about porn it
04:52:08.480was simply just about sex so yeah i can see why it would get crazy but like something as small as
04:52:14.080porn to me isn't like a big to do you know every like everyone's watched it before like
04:52:21.040said it was an addiction fine but like we've all been curious or like wanted to get off one night
04:52:26.820like let me just watch it this is just like a thought I had so like in my mind because I've
04:52:35.140never had experience with this in my mind I'm like thinking like oh if he just wants to watch
04:52:38.720porn sometimes it's fine but what if you find out the porn is very specific and it's not at all like
04:52:44.040yeah like that excited yeah i think i'd be like am i your type or no yeah what are we doing here
04:52:52.960am i wasting my freaking time they have all yeah yeah like you should probably be with someone
04:52:58.300else because it looks like it's you don't want to be with me but no like i have like kind of
04:53:02.440like a personal question which you don't have to answer but i get a lot of backlash because like
04:53:06.200men like if i'm in a relationship they'll like be like oh you don't like you don't like self-pleasure
04:53:11.260and i'll be like no that's not my thing per se you know and they think that's weird so like
04:53:16.460what do you guys think about that like do you think a girl that doesn't self-pleasure
04:53:19.840is weird no yeah like no some just don't aren't just aren't as interested you know and i don't
04:53:27.480i don't even do it a lot like people like like yeah like yeah like you don't really do it i'm
04:53:32.540like no i don't i don't need it all the time no you know i just like i have never like don't do
04:53:40.040I feel like the thought of it makes me uncomfortable so I've never even explored that route but so many
04:53:46.160people are like oh that's what you're missing that's why this happens to you or that's why
04:53:49.780you're depressed I'm like yeah and I get it other women I love it I'm gonna encourage I'm gonna
04:53:55.740support but like for me I feel like other women that backlash that I get from them I'm just like
04:54:00.300you don't get it because you don't feel the same way that I do but that's why I wanted to ask
04:54:04.980because like maybe you know from a different perspective for women that do you could be like
04:54:08.700well it's life-changing you know it is like do you mind do you ever like orgasm during sex not
04:54:18.160really no no see that's that's where i started self-pleasuring okay because i couldn't get
04:54:24.080through sex you'll learn your get through it as in like you would stop or you would just be like
04:54:28.660no i'd go through it but it's like okay this is yeah yeah that's pretty much my life yeah
04:54:32.700but that's when i started self-pleasuring okay yeah that's that's fair i yeah okay but yeah i
04:54:39.660don't i don't think i've ever like not been satisfied if that makes sense like even my
04:54:45.340sister would be like i feel like half the reason why xyz happens is because you aren't satisfied
04:54:50.740and you don't know it because it's never happened and then like the first time it happened she and
04:54:54.980you know i was like oh my god that was like super wild she's like see what i told you and i was like
04:54:58.840Yeah, but if that happened every time, like, I think I'd be a psychopath because, like, I'd be like, bro, you're not going anywhere, like, get in the closet, you know what I mean?
05:16:24.000This is a funny one, but I was, like, talking to a guy, like, here, known him for a while, shout out Max, and at some point he's like, we were at a festival or something, and he lived a little closer to the festival, and he was like, oh, do you guys want to come, like, sleep over or something, and I'm like, look at her, do you want to go?
05:16:46.860she's like sure but mind you I don't know of like anything that's going on like where he lives or
05:16:52.320whatnot and then he's like well my parents aren't here but there's cameras so you you're gonna have
05:16:58.040to go through the window I'm like excuse me you think I'm gonna go through a window to come see
05:17:05.300you hell no so I essentially told him I'm like sorry but that was a huge ick we're not at the
05:17:11.740same place in life i can't that's that's fair with you anymore that's fair so we haven't talked
05:17:17.320since okay so there's the there's that yeah um if like i feel like guys usually take care of their
05:17:26.580cars so i don't know if you're i get into your car and it's like a fucking shit show there what
05:17:34.180if there's like one no that's fine like one thing no no that's okay here i'm gonna i have your list
05:17:40.160I have your list, I'm going to read it
05:17:42.100When they say that everything's expensive
06:47:28.620I feel like those questions were valid, but I also feel like there's a part of that questionnaire that would probably be like, why are you asking me this?