Whatever Podcast - Evil Girl KICKED OUT Who Wants Brian KlLLED Like Charlie Kirk？! WTF! Feminism DEBATE! ｜ Dating Talk #264

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00:04:56.480 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests.

00:05:02.080 Introduce themselves.

00:05:03.460 So please, tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from in education.

00:05:08.640 Go ahead.

00:05:09.300 I'm Avril, but my friends call me V or Vian.

00:05:14.100 And I'm originally from Pennsylvania, but I moved to LA four years ago to study audio engineering.

00:05:22.100 And I'm a stripper right now, but I also do music and audio engineer.

00:05:31.220 Age?

00:05:32.220 Oh, I think it's 22.

00:05:34.360 Okay. 0.93

00:05:35.960 Any other kind of sex work besides stripping?

00:05:38.320 I mean, I have an OnlyFans, but like, I don't really like, I don't like promo.

00:05:44.460 Wait, what was that?

00:05:45.140 What was that?

00:05:51.520 What was that?

00:05:54.300 Oh, wow.

00:05:57.400 Okay.

00:05:58.940 It's okay.

00:05:59.680 You know, whatever.

00:06:01.120 All right.

00:06:01.760 And so you said you're from Pennsylvania?

00:06:03.520 Yeah.

00:06:05.360 Philadelphia?

00:06:06.360 No, no.

00:06:07.060 State College, where Penn State is.

00:06:09.680 Okay.

00:06:10.160 Gotcha.

00:06:10.760 What about you?

00:06:11.720 My name is Claire.

00:06:13.060 I'm 18.

00:06:14.060 I'm currently a student at UC Santa Barbara.

00:06:16.760 So I'm a student and I also am a barista, I guess.

00:06:20.980 I'm from Orange County.

00:06:22.380 From OC.

00:06:22.960 All right.

00:06:23.840 What are you studying at UCSB?

00:06:26.400 Pre-poly-sci right now, but I'm thinking of switching.

00:06:30.000 I don't know yet.

00:06:31.880 Why are you thinking of switching?

00:06:34.020 Any reason?

00:06:35.060 I just don't know what I want to do yet.

00:06:37.200 Okay.

00:06:38.020 What makes you, I guess, what made you choose poli-sci or pre-poly-sci, I guess?

00:06:44.240 Well, because I'm hoping to do like pre-law and go to law school after this.

00:06:47.680 So, yeah.

00:06:48.180 So you want to become a lawyer?

00:06:49.440 Yeah.

00:06:49.780 Okay.

00:06:50.320 Do you have a sense of what kind of area of law you'd like to practice or?

00:06:54.800 Not really, no.

00:06:57.600 Just anything.

00:06:58.960 What would you, if you were to change your major, what do you think you would change

00:07:02.160 it to?

00:07:02.400 Um, I was thinking like communications.

00:07:06.420 Yeah.

00:07:07.620 Okay.

00:07:08.640 Um, but still do law.

00:07:10.980 Okay.

00:07:11.580 Gotcha.

00:07:12.320 All right.

00:07:13.860 What about you?

00:07:15.400 Um, my name is Rachel.

00:07:17.440 I'm 37.

00:07:19.380 I am from Utah.

00:07:21.520 So drove out.

00:07:23.180 Um, I own a yoga studio and I'm also yoga instructor on a campus.

00:07:28.180 Uh, I went to college for a year, then dropped out, then went to beauty school, then quit

00:07:33.620 that, then went to yoga.

00:07:37.080 So.

00:07:37.920 Did you get a degree at all from college or?

00:07:40.100 No.

00:07:40.360 And so are you, you're from where again?

00:07:41.980 Utah.

00:07:42.520 Utah.

00:07:43.060 Like born and raised or?

00:07:44.460 No, I was born in England.

00:07:46.240 Oh, in England.

00:07:46.880 When did you move to the U.S.?

00:07:48.080 When I was two.

00:07:49.240 When you were two.

00:07:50.000 Yeah.

00:07:50.140 Okay.

00:07:50.940 Uh, do you have dual citizenship?

00:07:52.820 I did, but I did not.

00:07:55.420 Until I was 18.

00:07:57.020 What's that?

00:07:57.380 Until I was 18.

00:07:58.800 Okay.

00:07:59.780 They, it was revoked or?

00:08:01.880 I, if I'm honest, I don't know how it works.

00:08:05.020 My parents said I had dual citizenship.

00:08:07.220 Oh, okay.

00:08:08.320 But I don't know how dual citizenship works.

00:08:10.980 Is one of your parents their British?

00:08:13.020 My dad was in the military, but we were not on a military base.

00:08:16.940 We were just like out.

00:08:17.980 Okay.

00:08:18.400 Yeah.

00:08:19.060 Uh, and you're from Utah.

00:08:21.180 How long have you been in Utah?

00:08:23.460 26 years.

00:08:27.380 Are you LDS?

00:08:29.960 I grew up LDS.

00:08:31.900 So your family's Mormon?

00:08:33.880 Some.

00:08:34.720 Some.

00:08:35.300 Okay.

00:08:36.080 But are you?

00:08:37.080 There's seven of us, so some are and some are not.

00:08:39.520 Were they, uh, cause there's like two sects, I guess, of LDS church.

00:08:45.440 There's the fundamentalist Mormons and then like the mainstream.

00:08:49.720 Yeah, they are mainstream.

00:08:52.080 Yeah.

00:08:52.300 Okay.

00:08:52.860 Um, are you Mormon or no?

00:08:54.500 Are you Christian?

00:08:56.740 No.

00:08:57.840 Okay.

00:08:58.440 Atheist, agnostic?

00:08:59.720 I don't know.

00:09:00.640 I just live yoga lifestyle.

00:09:02.400 Just love everyone.

00:09:03.200 You're spiritual.

00:09:03.800 Yeah.

00:09:04.020 I don't know if I'm spiritual either.

00:09:05.880 Okay.

00:09:06.220 Well, you're, you're flowing through life.

00:09:07.400 I just like to love people, so.

00:09:10.020 Okay.

00:09:10.860 All right.

00:09:11.260 What about you?

00:09:12.180 Hi, I'm Ophelia Purr. 1.00

00:09:14.080 I'm a professional porn star and an online slut. 0.99

00:09:17.880 I am 20 years old and I moved to LA about four years ago to be a greater slut. 1.00

00:09:24.060 So. 0.99

00:09:24.400 Wait, you're how old again?

00:09:25.620 20.

00:09:26.500 You're 20?

00:09:27.160 Yeah. 1.00

00:09:27.460 You moved to LA at 16 to be a slut? 1.00

00:09:29.700 I, well, fake ID. 1.00

00:09:32.320 Yeah.

00:09:32.680 Wait, hold on.

00:09:35.660 What?

00:09:36.380 Yeah.

00:09:37.040 Hold on.

00:09:38.020 I got a fake ID at 16.

00:09:40.040 Why did you use the fake ID for it?

00:09:41.400 Because you can't do porn until you're 18.

00:09:43.940 So I had a friend and we both got fake IDs and then we got into porn and it kind of just

00:09:49.340 went from there. 0.99

00:09:50.460 So like there's definitely an underage footprint of me somewhere that the daddies are jerking 0.98

00:09:56.720 off to. 0.97

00:09:58.000 That's actually not funny at all.

00:09:59.760 It's disgusting.

00:10:00.200 But I kind of love it. 0.82

00:10:02.540 Hold on.

00:10:03.700 You're 20?

00:10:05.100 Mm-hmm.

00:10:07.240 Oh, I'm from Albuquerque, New Mexico.

00:10:09.900 Okay.

00:10:10.280 Maybe that makes sense.

00:10:12.400 All right.

00:10:12.740 Some of the drug use there. 1.00

00:10:16.280 And you said you moved to LA to become a slut? 1.00

00:10:20.060 Yeah. 1.00

00:10:23.520 Life goals.

00:10:24.720 Do they run ads for that on Craigslist or?

00:10:27.640 Yeah.

00:10:28.500 It was, they were recruiting and I was.

00:10:30.260 I mean, were you also.

00:10:31.300 I needed a job. 0.75

00:10:32.580 So you were shooting porn at 16? 0.75

00:10:35.000 Well, it was more like 17.

00:10:37.760 Um, okay.

00:10:39.140 I'm not like the only girl that's ever done that.

00:10:41.380 Like a few of my friends just like teamed up and we were like, we're down.

00:10:46.380 The guys were hot.

00:10:47.840 That's a, I think that's a first that I've heard.

00:10:50.740 Oh dear.

00:10:52.020 Well, I'm definitely not going to happen.

00:10:55.020 Uh, were you doing like any escorting underage?

00:11:00.020 No.

00:11:01.180 Were you using it to like, were you on dating apps at this time?

00:11:05.180 Well, I was on Tinder creating like fake profiles and then they all got banned.

00:11:10.100 So I needed to like actually get some real money.

00:11:13.320 And then like this porn guy was like, Hey, like he actually found us at a mall and he

00:11:18.420 was like, he was like, Hey, like I do porn.

00:11:20.740 You guys are cute. 0.90

00:11:21.500 We were like making Tik TOks. 0.81

00:11:22.760 And then he kind of just like recruited us into the porn military.

00:11:28.360 The porn military. 0.51

00:11:30.320 Yeah. 0.62

00:11:30.640 I've never heard of that.

00:11:31.940 Um, yeah.

00:11:32.960 Were you like hooking up with men?

00:11:36.300 Yeah.

00:11:37.820 And you were lying about your age to them?

00:11:40.340 Yeah.

00:11:40.900 But I don't think they really cared if I was underage or not.

00:11:43.580 Then why would you lie?

00:11:45.300 I didn't.

00:11:45.780 I just was like, whatever you want, daddy, I'm down.

00:11:48.380 But that was, yeah.

00:11:49.920 Well, I mean, I don't think in terms of any sort of civil or criminal liability, that would

00:11:57.140 mostly fall on the men in that situation.

00:11:59.640 However, willingly and knowingly producing child porn and you, you were willingly engaged

00:12:11.140 in it. 0.92

00:12:12.560 I mean, you've, you've just admitted to distributing child porn.

00:12:16.060 Well, technically, I wasn't really willingly.

00:12:20.040 You weren't doing it.

00:12:21.620 That's not a technically, you were doing it.

00:12:23.380 Well, there is a technically.

00:12:23.800 Pretty disturbing.

00:12:24.700 Because like technically like.

00:12:26.120 And you're proud of it.

00:12:27.780 Well. 1.00

00:12:27.940 Or she's lying about her age and this is all bullshit. 1.00

00:12:31.060 No. 1.00

00:12:32.120 How could you lie about that?

00:12:34.080 You lied about it.

00:12:34.780 Like that happens all the time though.

00:12:36.640 But that happens all the time.

00:12:37.740 Like there's a lot of people that fall victim to being.

00:12:39.240 That doesn't mean you should be prompted.

00:12:40.200 You're, but you're not a victim if you're bragging about it.

00:12:43.000 I wasn't bragging about it.

00:12:43.980 But he asked me what I knew about it.

00:12:45.160 No, you just bragged about it actually.

00:12:47.360 You just did.

00:12:48.640 And being a mother myself. 1.00

00:12:50.060 You said you moved to LA to be a slut. 1.00

00:12:52.320 Which just makes LA look bad, period. 1.00

00:12:54.840 Because it just makes it seem like.

00:12:56.280 Well, I mean. 0.86

00:12:56.660 Well, you're just bad.

00:12:57.580 I mean, it is. 0.94

00:12:58.460 But that just like, that's crazy.

00:13:02.220 Good.

00:13:02.980 Best to you.

00:13:04.380 I really do.

00:13:04.880 I hope the best for you.

00:13:07.280 It's like, I mean, people even have qualms about people starting at 18, you know.

00:13:12.380 Yeah.

00:13:12.660 But it's like, we have these laws in place for a reason.

00:13:16.580 Like, couldn't you have just waited like a year or something?

00:13:18.580 Well, I was like three months away from being 18.

00:13:21.540 But like, rent was due.

00:13:22.640 So like, I had to do what I had to do.

00:13:24.620 Like, God forgives.

00:13:25.720 But you said you were 16.

00:13:27.500 You did start with you were 16.

00:13:29.960 But I think it was your.

00:13:30.800 16, 17.

00:13:31.740 Like, same thing.

00:13:33.160 That's so different. 0.80

00:13:33.960 Trying to troll.

00:13:34.900 That is so different.

00:13:36.140 You just have to do what you have to do.

00:13:37.300 So if a man checks her ID and believes the ID to be true, is he legally liable?

00:13:44.460 Yeah.

00:13:44.980 There's, I think it's called strict liability.

00:13:49.160 So even if you've been, as the man, you genuinely thought she was like 21.

00:13:53.640 She showed you an ID.

00:13:55.420 She showed you a birth certificate.

00:13:57.220 But she, what's the term when people like fake something?

00:14:00.820 There's a term for it.

00:14:04.720 Nobody?

00:14:05.320 We have nine brains here.

00:14:06.840 Nobody knows the term.

00:14:08.140 I'm just like.

00:14:08.820 When you like forgery.

00:14:10.440 Oh, forgery.

00:14:11.160 You forge a document.

00:14:15.120 Technically, yeah, you would, you know, you would be found.

00:14:18.940 You would be, it would be statutory rape. 1.00

00:14:20.880 Akon got in trouble for that because he, like, he made it.

00:14:23.400 I think he made a song about it too.

00:14:24.460 But, like, there was somebody that came into the club that was under the age.

00:14:29.000 And it's a 21 and over club.

00:14:31.260 But she was, like, 16.

00:14:32.080 So he assumed because she was in the building.

00:14:33.620 Okay.

00:14:33.900 So he got in trouble because she was under the age of 18.

00:14:38.120 Just like businesses that serve liquor, if somebody comes in under the age and they get caught,

00:14:44.720 they still potentially can lose their liquor license.

00:14:47.280 Now, I personally think if you've genuinely been duped and you, like, this is just a predatory woman or whatever,

00:14:56.880 that should, I think that should be some sort of defense if, like, she's presented you a fake ID.

00:15:02.920 I agree.

00:15:03.820 I mean, Bonnie Blue does it all the time and nobody seems to have a problem.

00:15:07.320 She's like a hero.

00:15:08.760 She does what? 1.00

00:15:09.760 Is she 16 or 17?

00:15:12.160 No, but, like, she sleeps with barely legals and they're 16, 17. 1.00

00:15:15.160 Like, is that okay that she does that?

00:15:17.600 No.

00:15:18.120 No, not at all.

00:15:19.780 I thought we were supposed to, like, all introduce ourselves.

00:15:23.060 I don't think we've finished introducing ourselves.

00:15:24.740 I think this is too juicy to skip over.

00:15:26.520 Well, when you lead off.

00:15:27.000 Yeah.

00:15:27.520 When you lead off that you were 16 years old.

00:15:31.240 Producing. 0.98

00:15:32.080 Porn. 0.99

00:15:32.920 Corn. 0.77

00:15:33.360 That happens all the time, though.

00:15:35.060 Like, that's why I feel like.

00:15:35.920 But that doesn't make it right.

00:15:38.000 It doesn't make it right at all.

00:15:40.460 That's, like, so disturbing. 0.75

00:15:42.660 And to use the word slut in the same sentence of talking about being 16 and. 0.83

00:15:50.600 You're young and beautiful and I don't want you to feel like we're all attacking you because 0.70

00:15:54.800 it might seem like that. 0.99

00:15:57.220 But you should just want better for yourself than to just say, I'm a slut. 0.99

00:16:01.880 I came in at 16. 1.00

00:16:03.340 I'm a slut and I can do it. 1.00

00:16:05.200 Want better for yourself. 1.00

00:16:06.300 Because I guarantee you, when you're 30, you're not going to be feeling the same way that

00:16:10.040 you are when you're 20.

00:16:11.080 That's why I did it.

00:16:11.500 But you don't.

00:16:12.320 Because right now you said that.

00:16:13.360 It's something to not romanticize.

00:16:15.960 Like, we don't want to romanticize that. 0.99

00:16:18.160 But I was just, like, addicted to dick. 1.00

00:16:20.620 You're very proud of the fact that you are a 20-year-old porn star. 1.00

00:16:24.680 Which is great. 0.97

00:16:25.520 Like, more power to you.

00:16:26.880 Do what you want to do with your body, your life.

00:16:29.340 But you really should just want better for yourself and shouldn't be so proud to just

00:16:33.520 be going out and saying, oh, I started at 16 and I was tricking these people into thinking

00:16:39.140 that I'm 18 and doing porn.

00:16:41.040 That's not okay.

00:16:42.220 And just because other people do it, I don't even know who Bonnie Blue is. 1.00

00:16:44.840 Because I don't pay into that shit. 0.99

00:16:46.780 So don't compare one thing to another and say, well, so-and-so is going out and stealing. 1.00

00:16:52.760 So how come I can't do it?

00:16:54.140 That doesn't mean that it's not right.

00:16:56.300 That's all we're trying to get a point across.

00:16:59.900 Okay, I'll take that into consideration. 1.00

00:17:02.020 Yeah, you're a fucking liar. 1.00

00:17:03.220 In your pre-show notes, you wrote when we asked your age. 1.00

00:17:08.560 I knew you were fucking lying. 0.99

00:17:10.680 We asked your age. 1.00

00:17:11.380 You said you're 23.

00:17:13.180 And now you're sitting on the podcast saying you're 20.

00:17:17.240 Ew, are you going to be annoying the whole show and make up who you are?

00:17:21.360 All right.

00:17:21.540 Because I don't have time for it, girlfriend.

00:17:25.400 That's a yellow card.

00:17:26.600 That's pretty early.

00:17:27.320 That's a yellow card.

00:17:28.240 Wait, admitting to child porn isn't a red card right away.

00:17:31.680 Yeah, admitting to child porn should definitely be.

00:17:35.200 It is 100% rage bait.

00:17:37.380 No, I actually, I don't consent of child porn. 1.00

00:17:40.220 That's honestly fucked. 0.99

00:17:41.580 So did you tell the truth or you didn't? 0.99

00:17:43.140 Can I get the last 10 minutes back, please?

00:17:44.360 Let's explore this, though.

00:17:45.900 Let's actually get an admission from you that you just lied about your age.

00:17:50.440 Yeah.

00:17:50.840 Is she even 21?

00:17:54.320 Do we want to double check her ID to make sure she's legal to be on the podcast at this point?

00:17:58.520 Does it matter what you see in person?

00:18:00.440 Wait, what does that yellow card mean?

00:18:02.600 You're in trouble.

00:18:03.360 Have you seen like sports, like soccer?

00:18:05.880 Probably not.

00:18:06.360 There's a yellow card.

00:18:07.640 No.

00:18:08.680 You get the red card.

00:18:09.840 You're off the field permanently. 1.00

00:18:11.240 It's a slut demotion. 1.00

00:18:12.500 Oh, wow. 1.00

00:18:12.920 What's the punishment?

00:18:13.620 Chat, there's a punishment.

00:18:14.920 Make sure to check her ID.

00:18:16.580 That sounds like a good punishment.

00:18:17.840 All right, you get to wear the dunce hat for 10 minutes.

00:18:22.820 I cannot.

00:18:23.660 And then let me have you spin the helicopter on top. 0.96

00:18:28.720 All right, spin it.

00:18:30.260 Spin it.

00:18:31.040 Keep going.

00:18:31.740 Yep, there you go.

00:18:32.500 Nice, good, good skills.

00:18:34.180 Look at that.

00:18:34.540 Look at those skills.

00:18:34.880 Wow.

00:18:35.560 Great spin.

00:18:36.080 Nice, well done.

00:18:37.780 All right.

00:18:39.140 Okay.

00:18:41.420 There you go.

00:18:42.560 Good job.

00:18:44.420 Investigated. 1.00

00:18:45.600 What the fuck? 1.00

00:18:47.840 Ridiculous, bro. 1.00

00:18:48.940 Crime busters here. 0.99

00:18:49.700 Well, it's nice to meet everyone.

00:18:51.180 Oh, my God.

00:18:52.060 I don't think we met you. 0.99

00:18:53.020 And we're probably, the video's probably demonetized now because she fucking, all right, 1.00

00:18:57.840 I'll probably red card her. 1.00

00:19:00.000 I'm going to make a note to just fucking red card her later. 1.00

00:19:04.620 But once you talk about that shit on stream, it's just, yeah, it's probably demonetized. 0.99

00:19:09.040 Okay. 0.99

00:19:10.140 Hold on.

00:19:10.700 Let me just let this come through.

00:19:13.340 Actually, we'll do intros.

00:19:14.700 No, no, no.

00:19:15.580 Here, I'll do it.

00:19:16.180 Thank you, Adzils.

00:19:18.440 Adzils donated $200.

00:19:21.280 Hey, Brian, your favorite Brit is back.

00:19:24.240 Love from the UK as always.

00:19:26.800 If chair four is 20, then I'm Michael Jackson reincarnated.

00:19:31.040 A big possibility of being old but having no brain power.

00:19:34.600 Chair seven.

00:19:35.460 Based.

00:19:37.360 Who's chair seven?

00:19:38.740 You.

00:19:39.240 Oh.

00:19:39.780 Hi.

00:19:41.700 Thanks.

00:19:42.260 What?

00:19:44.520 So does he think she's older or younger than Tony?

00:19:47.200 She looks younger to me.

00:19:49.700 I think he was implying older.

00:19:52.180 I think we need to do an idea.

00:19:53.520 All right, Ben.

00:19:55.380 What?

00:19:56.180 Okay.

00:19:56.640 We're, we're, are there mods in chat?

00:19:59.140 Hello?

00:19:59.520 Uh, okay.

00:20:05.220 No mods in chat, I guess.

00:20:06.940 Um, uh, okay.

00:20:11.740 What about you?

00:20:13.080 My name is Jeanette.

00:20:14.340 I am 43.

00:20:15.560 Born and raised in Coronado, California, and I now reside in Orange County.

00:20:19.500 I am a former adult content creator, and I have been a housewife for the last five years.

00:20:24.160 And you used to do OF, is that it?

00:20:28.000 I was a chem model, and I was in the early stages of OnlyFans.

00:20:31.680 I got out right before COVID started, right before the big boom.

00:20:36.340 Okay.

00:20:37.400 Got it.

00:20:38.560 What about you?

00:20:39.580 Um, I'm Olivia.

00:20:41.000 Um, I'm 23.

00:20:42.880 Um, I came from Virginia, so I came, um, kind of cross country.

00:20:48.140 Um, and then I went to the University of Arizona.

00:20:51.780 Um, I graduated with a bachelor's in veterinary science, and then I am now, I do fitness coaching,

00:20:59.000 and then also I bull attend, I'm a boy student, and then I also serve, so.

00:21:05.420 Okay.

00:21:06.100 Um, and hold on.

00:21:09.220 Um, you said you're from Virginia?

00:21:11.960 Virginia.

00:21:12.340 Like you grew up there?

00:21:13.160 Yep.

00:21:13.680 Okay.

00:21:14.840 And I had a question for you, but I'll have to remember it later.

00:21:19.700 What about you?

00:21:20.460 My name is Lindsay.

00:21:21.540 I am 37.

00:21:23.300 I live in Orange County, California, and I moved here from Illinois about 14 years ago,

00:21:29.220 and I'm a national director for a cosmetic medical device company.

00:21:34.560 All right.

00:21:35.360 Uh, any college, university?

00:21:37.140 Yeah, um, I did do cosmetology school and then business at CLC in, uh...

00:21:43.760 Bachelors?

00:21:44.460 College of Lake County.

00:21:46.080 No, just business courses.

00:21:47.320 I don't have my bachelor's.

00:21:48.860 Uh, college for you?

00:21:49.980 Uh, University of Arizona.

00:21:51.760 Well, what did you, uh, get your...

00:21:54.160 Bachelor's of veterinary science.

00:21:56.000 Gotcha.

00:21:56.540 Okay.

00:21:56.800 What about you?

00:21:57.900 Um, I'm Tina.

00:21:58.660 I'm 30 from originally Arizona.

00:22:02.140 I moved out here like 12 years ago, and I live in Oxnard.

00:22:05.340 It's about 45 minutes to an hour outside of this area, and I am currently a medical assistant.

00:22:13.420 I work for one of the best bariatric surgeons in the entire country and actually world.

00:22:18.900 He goes worldwide and teaches people, um, other doctors how to do the surgeries he does,

00:22:23.700 and I'm currently working on my bachelor's in nursing.

00:22:27.760 All right.

00:22:28.380 And sorry, could you just repeat age?

00:22:30.100 I missed that.

00:22:30.780 30.

00:22:31.200 30.

00:22:31.620 Okay.

00:22:32.300 All right.

00:22:32.680 Welcome, everybody.

00:22:33.480 We're going to go around the table once more.

00:22:35.300 What is everybody's relationship status?

00:22:39.540 If you're single, how long have you been single and longest relationship?

00:22:42.200 Go ahead.

00:22:43.600 Sing.

00:22:43.960 I'm single, I think I've been single for like six or seven months.

00:22:50.660 I don't really know, but I just got out of like a three-year relationship, and that's

00:22:55.020 my longest relationship.

00:22:59.400 All right.

00:23:00.800 And sorry, when did you get out of it?

00:23:02.680 Like six or seven months ago, I want to say.

00:23:05.880 Any rebounds?

00:23:07.780 Um, honestly, not really.

00:23:10.800 Like, maybe like a couple.

00:23:11.980 So, okay.

00:23:14.620 But not serious.

00:23:16.240 Like, nothing serious.

00:23:17.660 What about you?

00:23:18.500 Um, I'm currently single, too.

00:23:20.960 I haven't really dated that much.

00:23:22.980 Um, my longest relationship was maybe like six months.

00:23:27.200 That's it.

00:23:28.540 Yeah.

00:23:29.220 So, you have had a relationship?

00:23:30.820 Yeah.

00:23:31.600 You guys called each other boyfriend, girlfriend.

00:23:33.920 Okay.

00:23:34.260 Six months.

00:23:35.220 Who broke up with who?

00:23:36.820 Um, I think it was mutual.

00:23:38.740 All right.

00:23:39.520 How long have you been single?

00:23:41.980 Um, probably like less than a year.

00:23:46.660 Maybe like since like December last year.

00:23:50.780 And was that the six-month one?

00:23:53.040 Yeah.

00:23:53.480 Okay.

00:23:54.840 All right.

00:23:55.600 But in the one year you've been single, you have been dating, having situationships.

00:24:00.980 Yeah.

00:24:01.440 Okay.

00:24:02.280 What's the long, in the past year, what's the longest period of time you've been seeing

00:24:06.180 a guy?

00:24:07.400 A couple weeks?

00:24:08.440 A couple months?

00:24:09.000 Like six months also?

00:24:10.720 I think that's maybe my like, my breaking point.

00:24:12.080 There's been another six-month one?

00:24:13.800 Yeah.

00:24:14.140 Just like, not official.

00:24:14.800 But it was a situation, it was a situationship.

00:24:16.980 Okay.

00:24:18.120 Um, are there any guys currently in the picture?

00:24:21.000 No.

00:24:21.840 Nothing.

00:24:22.700 Are you on dating apps?

00:24:24.280 No.

00:24:25.260 No guys?

00:24:26.980 Zero?

00:24:27.960 Not even texting?

00:24:29.020 You're not texting a guy?

00:24:30.320 No.

00:24:30.560 Not messaging a guy?

00:24:31.760 Not occasionally checking in with an ex-boyfriend, ex-guy, ex-fling?

00:24:38.320 No, girl. 0.96

00:24:39.280 So, have you been celibate or what's going on?

00:24:42.000 Well, yeah.

00:24:42.640 I mean, I don't, I'm kind of like busy.

00:24:44.700 I have like my own life and like school and work.

00:24:48.420 So, yeah.

00:24:49.440 And is there a guy in the picture for you currently?

00:24:52.220 No.

00:24:53.060 No.

00:24:53.800 Nothing?

00:24:54.540 Nah.

00:24:55.020 I've been like sober and celibate, you know?

00:24:58.900 You've been, you've been sober and celibate?

00:25:02.040 Yeah.

00:25:02.640 Are you currently sober?

00:25:04.060 Yeah, yeah.

00:25:04.640 I'm four months.

00:25:06.540 This is just how you are?

00:25:08.640 Yeah.

00:25:09.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:25:09.820 I know.

00:25:10.680 Oh.

00:25:11.900 Is it California sober?

00:25:13.620 No, no.

00:25:14.320 Sober, sober.

00:25:15.140 Okay.

00:25:15.300 California sober isn't real sober.

00:25:17.520 Right.

00:25:17.820 Wait, where are you from again?

00:25:18.700 You're from?

00:25:19.500 Pennsylvania.

00:25:20.360 Oh.

00:25:21.380 What's that supposed to be?

00:25:21.880 You sound like Minnesota.

00:25:23.440 Oh, my God.

00:25:24.140 A little bit.

00:25:25.020 It's, I live by like the Canadian border kind of.

00:25:28.520 So, I think we like pick up a bit of a Canadian accent, you know?

00:25:32.060 I think the piercing, too.

00:25:33.200 I can hear it, you know.

00:25:34.320 It's good.

00:25:35.000 Hey, Pasty.

00:25:35.820 Yo, Pasty George, where are you at, man?

00:25:37.660 Pasty George, I think is here.

00:25:39.260 He's one of our viewers.

00:25:40.700 He's Canadian.

00:25:41.820 Okay.

00:25:42.980 So, no guys in the picture?

00:25:44.660 No.

00:25:45.140 Okay.

00:25:46.380 Relationship status?

00:25:47.560 I am married.

00:25:48.980 I've been married for eight years.

00:25:50.760 We've been together for 10 years.

00:25:53.820 It's tied for longest relationship.

00:25:55.580 I've had two 10-year relationships.

00:25:57.420 Were you married to the previous one?

00:25:59.060 I was.

00:25:59.760 So, two marriages?

00:26:00.980 Yes.

00:26:01.500 Two marriages.

00:26:02.160 Okay.

00:26:02.380 Any kids?

00:26:03.280 Two.

00:26:03.880 Two kids.

00:26:04.380 From current?

00:26:05.800 Yes.

00:26:06.380 Okay.

00:26:06.800 So, just one father?

00:26:08.600 Yes.

00:26:08.940 Okay.

00:26:09.180 All right.

00:26:11.060 Two kids.

00:26:12.220 All right.

00:26:14.660 Okay.

00:26:15.780 And it's like a normal, it's not like poly marriage or something?

00:26:19.380 Nope.

00:26:20.020 No.

00:26:20.520 Not like an open?

00:26:21.560 I would not be, nope.

00:26:22.860 Not open?

00:26:23.380 Okay.

00:26:23.500 No.

00:26:23.880 He's, nope.

00:26:24.640 Got it.

00:26:25.060 Mine.

00:26:25.700 All right.

00:26:25.940 What about you?

00:26:26.860 I'm single.

00:26:27.920 Okay.

00:26:28.740 Yeah.

00:26:32.640 Longest relationship?

00:26:33.920 Me?

00:26:36.260 Probably like a week.

00:26:38.940 I don't really date.

00:26:40.140 I think it's going to overrate it.

00:26:41.960 So.

00:26:43.200 All right.

00:26:43.900 Yeah.

00:26:44.500 Sorry, guys.

00:26:45.020 How long have you been single?

00:26:47.360 Probably like five years.

00:26:50.680 Yeah.

00:26:51.840 Are you, is there currently a guy in the picture?

00:26:54.160 No.

00:26:55.000 Just all my hoes. 1.00

00:26:56.820 What does that mean?

00:26:57.480 Like all my hoes are my guys. 1.00

00:26:59.660 Yeah.

00:26:59.920 So, you have a roster?

00:27:01.560 Yeah.

00:27:01.820 How big is the roster?

00:27:03.460 How many hoes do you have? 1.00

00:27:04.760 Maybe like over a hundred hoes. 1.00

00:27:07.780 So, I just like rotate them out.

00:27:09.420 I just like rotate them out.

00:27:10.500 So, like technically those are my boyfriends because I like, I want all the boyfriends,

00:27:13.840 not just one boyfriend.

00:27:15.540 So, like, could you count that as a relationship?

00:27:17.880 Because I have one like individually with each sperm donor.

00:27:20.920 So, how about this?

00:27:21.560 In the past three months, of the hundred hoes that you have, how many of them have you seen? 1.00

00:27:27.720 All of them?

00:27:28.280 Everyone.

00:27:29.100 And you've slept with all of them?

00:27:30.300 Yeah.

00:27:30.620 Well, like, it would be boring if we didn't.

00:27:36.100 See, now the problem is with, uh...

00:27:38.880 What are the stats on that per day?

00:27:41.560 Well, see, you're giving her a bit too much credit here.

00:27:45.920 She's obviously trolling, right?

00:27:47.600 A hundred percent.

00:27:48.360 She's trolling. 0.92

00:27:49.560 Well, when we do porn, we have a lot of bodies.

00:27:52.220 So, I definitely like do have the hoes, you know, that I see outside of porn. 1.00

00:27:57.300 Yeah, but he has relationship.

00:27:58.640 But those aren't relationships.

00:28:00.260 No, they're not.

00:28:01.260 Yes, they are.

00:28:02.120 In this, yes, they are.

00:28:03.140 They're not.

00:28:03.600 See, if you're going to troll, you have to do it like in a semi-convincing way where like somebody can kind of question it.

00:28:09.820 But you've gone so exaggerated with it.

00:28:12.900 It's just so obvious.

00:28:13.960 I'm so monotone.

00:28:15.120 I'm not.

00:28:15.560 I'm like, come on.

00:28:17.960 But I'm actually not trolling about the hundred boyfriends.

00:28:21.000 Like, I'm really not.

00:28:22.000 All right, that's fine.

00:28:22.980 Okay.

00:28:23.440 So, in the past, like, week, how many of them have you slept with?

00:28:27.360 Well, as of now, they're on timeout.

00:28:30.440 So, probably like, just like me.

00:28:33.100 I'm on my best behavior.

00:28:34.520 Do you want me to spin the thing again?

00:28:36.000 I was going to ask you.

00:28:36.980 What does this even mean?

00:28:38.700 I mean, this feels like a humiliation ritual.

00:28:40.700 Yes, dear.

00:28:41.200 It is.

00:28:41.280 It's well deserved.

00:28:42.440 Can you take it off for that?

00:28:43.660 Take it off.

00:28:44.480 Just pass it back here.

00:28:45.780 You should play some music.

00:28:46.540 All right.

00:28:46.940 Thank you.

00:28:47.740 Here.

00:28:48.020 Oh, you want music?

00:28:48.860 I got you.

00:28:49.480 Hold on.

00:28:53.860 It's fitting.

00:28:56.460 Is the audio all the way up?

00:28:58.320 Is this the theme music for my dating life?

00:29:00.680 I think it is.

00:29:03.000 So, okay.

00:29:03.920 I can give you some of my hoes. 1.00

00:29:05.260 I don't want your hoes. 1.00

00:29:06.880 So, do you have a main hoe? 1.00

00:29:10.120 Yeah.

00:29:11.220 Do you have multiple main hoes or just one? 1.00

00:29:13.080 No, just one right now.

00:29:14.400 He's kind of growing on me.

00:29:15.580 I'm not going to lie.

00:29:16.420 How many side hoes do you have? 1.00

00:29:18.740 Since there's one, like, 99 is the rest of the side hoes. 1.00

00:29:22.400 You have exactly 100?

00:29:24.860 Exactly.

00:29:25.480 Good.

00:29:25.700 Name them all.

00:29:26.840 Okay.

00:29:27.520 There's, well, they're just like basic, like, daddy white names, like John Garcia.

00:29:33.280 There's Terry Brad.

00:29:34.540 I think it would be not appropriate to say their last names.

00:29:38.740 Well, you said to name them, but you're right.

00:29:41.500 I actually respect that.

00:29:42.420 I think they'd rather say confidential, so.

00:29:45.320 But, yeah.

00:29:46.340 No kids either.

00:29:47.680 Maybe one day.

00:29:48.520 Oh, God.

00:29:48.900 Like, I do have a breeding kink, so I might be down for that, but as of now, I don't think. 0.78

00:29:55.640 Okay.

00:29:56.360 Okay.

00:29:56.760 And in the past, you said they're on timeout.

00:30:00.640 They're on timeout.

00:30:01.620 What does that mean?

00:30:02.460 Because I just want to see my one hoe. 1.00

00:30:04.860 Okay.

00:30:05.560 When, how long have they been on timeout?

00:30:07.820 Like, two weeks.

00:30:09.920 Okay.

00:30:10.400 So, two weeks ago in the past week, so I guess two weeks to three weeks ago, that time period,

00:30:16.340 how many of the hundred men you're currently dating have you, did you sleep with in that 1.00

00:30:22.980 week period?

00:30:23.580 Just the one, because I'm trying to be, like, a conservative woman now and just, like, respect

00:30:28.460 the one guy.

00:30:29.560 That's cool.

00:30:30.020 Get to know him and really bond with him.

00:30:32.500 And, like, and I'm trying to think, have you, in a 24-hour period, what is the most

00:30:41.540 amount of men that you've slept with in a 24-hour period?

00:30:45.500 Well, I just said one.

00:30:46.920 I've not slept with a hundred men, although that would be fun, because I have seen girls 0.94

00:30:50.620 doing that, and I'm not going to lie.

00:30:51.620 They're kind of inspiring.

00:30:52.820 You just said that your roster consisted of a hundred men.

00:30:55.300 It did consist of a hundred men, but right now I'm focusing on the one guy, because he's

00:30:58.980 worth my...

00:30:59.100 But you said you had slept with all of them.

00:31:00.440 Well, I did sleep with all of them throughout the course of a year.

00:31:03.040 So that's a hundred, dear.

00:31:04.600 So did, in a 24-hour period, did you ever, like, hook up with two guys in a 24-hour period?

00:31:10.240 No, just the one guy.

00:31:12.640 I feel like you really can't love yourself if you just give yourself to everybody like

00:31:16.180 that.

00:31:16.840 Okay, what about a...

00:31:17.640 But that's what I was born for.

00:31:18.940 I was born to be a son. 1.00

00:31:19.700 I feel like she's just full of shit on everything she's saying. 1.00

00:31:23.120 Stop. 1.00

00:31:23.580 Don't engage her on that.

00:31:25.680 How about in a week?

00:31:26.760 What's the most amount of men that you've slept with in a week? 0.99

00:31:29.260 The one.

00:31:31.360 If you've slept with a hundred men...

00:31:33.600 That was, like, in the past, that was a hundred men.

00:31:36.200 But now, like I said, I'm trying to be...

00:31:38.240 I'm not saying the past week.

00:31:39.840 I'm saying in a given week, what is the most amount of men that you've slept with?

00:31:45.200 Oh, maybe, like, 20.

00:31:47.580 Okay, in a day, what is the most amount of men you've slept with?

00:31:52.000 Two.

00:31:53.080 Okay.

00:31:53.400 In a month, what is the most amount of men you've slept with?

00:31:56.660 A hundred.

00:31:58.020 In a month?

00:31:58.660 In a month.

00:31:59.360 Okay.

00:32:00.660 All right.

00:32:02.140 I'll come back to you in a moment.

00:32:04.420 I don't think I'm...

00:32:04.800 What about you?

00:32:05.360 Math works.

00:32:05.800 How do I go after that?

00:32:08.560 I am in the middle of a very contentious divorce.

00:32:12.380 So, newly...

00:32:13.520 New into the single world.

00:32:15.300 I am not on dating apps.

00:32:17.440 I don't like to be part of the hookup culture.

00:32:21.100 I like monogamy.

00:32:22.260 So, it's a new, fun future.

00:32:25.800 Okay.

00:32:29.340 Wait, so you're married?

00:32:31.080 I'm still currently married in the process of divorce.

00:32:34.080 Oh, okay.

00:32:34.860 Gotcha.

00:32:35.260 So, how long were you guys together for?

00:32:37.260 Five years.

00:32:38.560 Oh, my longest relationship was six.

00:32:40.920 Gotcha.

00:32:41.520 Is this your only marriage?

00:32:42.500 I have been married before.

00:32:44.680 How many times?

00:32:45.620 Twice.

00:32:46.160 Twice.

00:32:46.760 Okay.

00:32:47.720 Engaged four times.

00:32:49.000 All right.

00:32:49.380 Who initiated the divorce? 0.97

00:32:51.780 I did.

00:32:52.980 Both times?

00:32:53.920 Yes.

00:32:54.460 Okay.

00:32:56.660 Can you guys tell me, those of you who've been divorced, do you have to, when you file

00:33:00.880 for divorce, you have to put a reason or something, right?

00:33:03.600 In California, it's a no-fault state.

00:33:05.860 So, you can just say, you know, you're reconciled.

00:33:07.800 You're reconciled.

00:33:08.000 Yes.

00:33:08.420 But is that what you sided to?

00:33:09.700 Yes.

00:33:10.200 Okay.

00:33:11.120 And then you've been divorced once, right?

00:33:13.280 Yes.

00:33:13.580 Okay.

00:33:14.140 We were split up for over a year.

00:33:17.820 So, we printed papers, went to the courthouse, and then went out to lunch afterwards.

00:33:22.360 So, we didn't have to write a reason or anything.

00:33:24.680 We just weren't together anymore.

00:33:28.000 And you initiated the divorce?

00:33:29.980 It was mutual.

00:33:31.560 Who filed the paperwork?

00:33:34.040 He printed it.

00:33:35.780 We went together.

00:33:37.000 Okay.

00:33:37.720 Was there a reason for why you guys got divorced?

00:33:40.620 Um, he was my high school sweetheart, and we were Mormon and young, and so we got married.

00:33:50.800 And I think, like, we just grew apart as we got older, but I have only good things to say

00:33:55.080 about him, so.

00:33:56.640 I wish I was Mormon. 0.58

00:33:58.540 I wish you were, too.

00:33:59.680 Me, too.

00:34:00.420 Low key.

00:34:00.900 That would be fun.

00:34:01.600 I'm like a Mormon daddy.

00:34:02.780 I love, I love, oh.

00:34:03.920 Yeah.

00:34:04.620 You walked right into that, sweetie.

00:34:06.160 Uh, and then for you, you initiated both divorces.

00:34:10.940 Yes.

00:34:11.300 The first one, I was the breadwinner, and, um, I didn't want to be that.

00:34:15.380 I realized that I couldn't maintain that forever, and I didn't want to have to support him.

00:34:19.420 The second one, he was the breadwinner.

00:34:21.900 It was my first time, uh, not having my own income, and I would have preferred I had chosen

00:34:26.280 someone a little bit more responsible and ready to be a husband.

00:34:31.220 Gotcha.

00:34:31.880 Okay.

00:34:32.200 Um, going back to you here, uh, did your husband pay you alimony?

00:34:38.120 No.

00:34:38.960 No alimony?

00:34:39.760 No.

00:34:40.200 And then, was there, like, a distribution of, there's, I don't know exactly how it works,

00:34:45.860 but, uh, did he have to pay you anything in the divorce?

00:34:49.480 No, I didn't ask for anything.

00:34:49.660 You guys pretty much went separate?

00:34:51.000 Okay.

00:34:51.140 Yeah, we just split our stuff.

00:34:52.200 And then for you, um, sorry, kids?

00:34:54.580 I have a son.

00:34:55.580 He is 12.

00:34:56.260 Is that from your...

00:34:57.740 No.

00:34:58.760 No.

00:34:59.420 Any of your marriages?

00:35:00.080 One of my engagements.

00:35:01.120 One of your engagements.

00:35:02.440 Yes.

00:35:02.620 Okay, because, uh, engaged four times.

00:35:05.620 Yes.

00:35:05.840 Um, okay.

00:35:07.620 Does he pay, really quick on the kid, does he pay you child support?

00:35:11.840 I pay him child support.

00:35:13.460 Okay.

00:35:14.020 Uh, custody, is it 50-50?

00:35:15.520 It is 50-50.

00:35:16.920 Um, when we separated, I was not doing well financially, and I, I became quite successful

00:35:22.600 after the fact, and so then he came to take his piece of that.

00:35:26.700 Okay.

00:35:27.420 Yeah.

00:35:27.640 But you pay him, uh, child support.

00:35:30.220 May I ask how, how much?

00:35:32.860 Um, it's fluctuated over the years, you know, as a housewife, the last five...

00:35:36.880 At its peak.

00:35:37.680 At its peak, probably like $1,500 or $1,700 a month.

00:35:41.820 Okay.

00:35:42.660 How do you feel about that?

00:35:43.520 Does it, you feel a bit upset, or...?

00:35:46.500 I just found it, it was crazy because I hadn't asked for child support when I was not doing

00:35:50.940 well financially.

00:35:51.540 I was willing to take care of my side of things, and it's 50-50.

00:35:54.880 You take care of your side, I'll take care of mine.

00:35:56.580 So I thought it was pretty equal there.

00:35:58.360 So when he found out I was making so much money, he came after a cut, that was pretty

00:36:02.300 disheartening.

00:36:03.680 Gotcha.

00:36:04.300 Okay.

00:36:05.400 Um...

00:36:05.880 This is why we need abortions. 1.00

00:36:08.840 Do you have sole custody?

00:36:10.560 Or...

00:36:10.880 No, it's 50-50 share.

00:36:13.580 But in California, whoever's making more money has to pay.

00:36:16.460 Yeah, I know.

00:36:18.240 Uh, huh.

00:36:19.500 Okay, and, um...

00:36:20.860 And you think I should have had an abortion so I don't have to pay my ex-child support?

00:36:24.720 I just think in general, like, the world's overpopulated, so I think, like, we need abortions 0.62

00:36:29.980 to, like, decrease population of unwanted pregnancies, because, yeah, like, why would you

00:36:35.940 ever pay a man your money?

00:36:38.260 It's actually a lot lower now than it was in the past.

00:36:40.820 I'm just wondering.

00:36:41.280 There are a lot less people having babies nowadays, and the population is actually much

00:36:46.520 lower than what it used to be.

00:36:48.120 Yeah.

00:36:48.720 Thank God.

00:36:49.300 Shout out hookup culture.

00:36:52.560 What?

00:36:55.160 So funny.

00:36:56.320 Ha ha.

00:36:57.280 Um...

00:36:57.920 So, okay.

00:36:59.660 Uh...

00:37:00.420 I'm trying to think.

00:37:02.560 Oh, uh, alimony from either of your divorces.

00:37:05.800 Uh, no, from the first, and, um, I am in the process of figuring out what the alimony will

00:37:12.200 be for this second one.

00:37:14.140 Um...

00:37:15.220 It's been a battle.

00:37:16.880 Okay.

00:37:17.320 I was a housewife, so I had no income.

00:37:19.320 So leaving the marriage with no income, you're entitled to a certain amount, and, uh, that's

00:37:24.140 what we're going to find out.

00:37:25.520 Gotcha.

00:37:26.020 Okay.

00:37:26.800 What about you?

00:37:28.120 Um, I'm single.

00:37:29.720 Okay.

00:37:30.180 Um, my longest relationship was, like, six, seven months, and then...

00:37:35.440 All right.

00:37:35.880 How long have you been single for?

00:37:38.380 Let's see.

00:37:39.600 Um...

00:37:40.080 Probably a year and a half.

00:37:43.720 All right.

00:37:45.560 And are there any guys in the picture currently?

00:37:48.020 Even just texting?

00:37:50.500 Yeah, there's...

00:37:51.380 Yeah, I mean texting.

00:37:53.700 Any, like, a guy you're, like, been on dates with, or...?

00:37:57.100 Yeah, I've been on dates.

00:37:58.380 And this is...

00:37:59.240 You're in...

00:37:59.960 Wait, hold on.

00:38:01.120 Virginia, right?

00:38:01.880 I'm in Virginia, yes.

00:38:03.120 Are you by D.C.?

00:38:05.160 Um, no.

00:38:07.600 I grew up near D.C., but I'm more in central, central Virginia.

00:38:12.360 Okay.

00:38:12.800 So, yeah.

00:38:13.700 How long have you been seeing this guy?

00:38:18.720 I would say...

00:38:20.720 Didn't go on a date until...

00:38:24.420 March, maybe March, April, but I met him February.

00:38:29.120 So you've known him for...

00:38:30.940 Yeah, I knew him for...

00:38:31.980 Six, seven, eight months.

00:38:33.540 No, I...

00:38:34.440 So February, I met him.

00:38:36.740 And then May...

00:38:38.800 No, March, March or April, I went on a date with him for the first time.

00:38:42.880 How many dates have you guys been on?

00:38:47.960 I don't know.

00:38:49.280 How often do you see each other?

00:38:50.740 Not often.

00:38:51.880 When's the last time you saw him?

00:38:57.280 Probably...

00:38:57.840 Let's see.

00:39:00.440 July.

00:39:00.880 July, so...

00:39:02.620 July.

00:39:03.680 We just...

00:39:04.300 It's kind of like...

00:39:06.520 Because he...

00:39:08.380 So I'm in central Virginia.

00:39:09.500 He's in, like, D.C. area.

00:39:11.900 How far is that?

00:39:13.100 That's like two and a half hours.

00:39:15.080 And then it's just like...

00:39:16.340 Medium distance.

00:39:17.500 Yeah, it's a medium distance kind of thing.

00:39:19.420 Yeah.

00:39:19.920 Okay.

00:39:21.780 Um...

00:39:22.300 Have you guys tried to meet up?

00:39:23.880 Yes.

00:39:24.360 When's the last time you guys spoke?

00:39:25.760 Um, the last time we spoke was probably like...

00:39:28.680 Have you texted today?

00:39:30.120 No, not today.

00:39:31.260 Yesterday?

00:39:32.760 Probably like two days ago.

00:39:35.960 Two days ago?

00:39:36.660 Yeah.

00:39:36.840 Okay.

00:39:37.320 Have you said I love you?

00:39:39.380 No.

00:39:39.880 This is a...

00:39:40.940 Also just a...

00:39:41.700 It's a casual thing. 0.63

00:39:43.620 So just sex?

00:39:45.400 Not even just sex. 0.60

00:39:46.500 It's just like sometimes dating.

00:39:48.520 And just going on dates.

00:39:49.380 Wait, so no sex?

00:39:54.440 There is.

00:39:55.420 But it's not every single time we meet up.

00:39:57.240 Right.

00:39:57.460 If that makes sense.

00:39:58.780 Yeah, yeah.

00:39:59.300 Okay.

00:40:00.560 All right.

00:40:01.660 Uh, okay.

00:40:03.000 Are there any other guys in the picture?

00:40:05.860 Um, not really, no.

00:40:08.920 What do you mean not really?

00:40:10.760 I feel like...

00:40:11.920 I mean, I...

00:40:13.380 There's no one, I guess.

00:40:16.880 Are you on dating apps?

00:40:17.960 Yes.

00:40:18.660 Yes, you are?

00:40:19.480 Yes.

00:40:20.300 Okay.

00:40:20.920 Um, when's the last time you went on a date with somebody from a dating app?

00:40:24.840 Oh, that's been...

00:40:25.620 It's probably been a year.

00:40:27.520 Okay.

00:40:27.860 A year or more.

00:40:28.460 I mean...

00:40:29.060 You'll message the guys.

00:40:29.940 I'll message them.

00:40:30.860 On dating apps and stuff.

00:40:32.460 Okay.

00:40:32.760 It's not like...

00:40:33.380 There's nothing really that comes out.

00:40:35.440 Honestly, there's nothing that really comes out of it.

00:40:38.340 This guy you're currently seeing, um...

00:40:41.780 How did you guys meet?

00:40:42.840 Dating app?

00:40:43.620 No.

00:40:43.880 I was at a gym and then we just started talking.

00:40:53.560 Okay.

00:40:54.040 You guys went to a gym.

00:40:54.980 Yeah.

00:40:55.160 All right.

00:40:56.380 Okay.

00:40:57.340 Um...

00:40:58.140 If you started seeing somebody else, would you cut things off with him?

00:41:05.400 Yes.

00:41:06.800 Okay.

00:41:07.320 Okay.

00:41:07.860 Hmm.

00:41:08.080 Um, are you, like, emotionally available?

00:41:16.360 Like, what do you mean by that?

00:41:19.280 Well, I don't know if you have feelings for this guy.

00:41:22.220 Uh, are you, like, emotionally available?

00:41:27.020 Or are you attached to Mr. Washington, D.C.?

00:41:31.260 I'm not.

00:41:31.840 I'm not.

00:41:34.040 Yes, I'm emotionally available.

00:41:35.260 I'm not attached to him.

00:41:36.700 Okay.

00:41:37.320 That makes sense.

00:41:37.920 You guys just occasionally go on dates?

00:41:40.360 Yes.

00:41:40.880 All right.

00:41:42.020 Okay.

00:41:42.420 Um, all right.

00:41:44.880 What about you?

00:41:46.340 I am single.

00:41:47.780 My longest relationship was three years.

00:41:50.480 I've been single for just shy of two years and I am not currently dating, seeing, or hooking

00:41:59.600 up with anyone.

00:42:01.080 Okay.

00:42:01.760 Uh, you were married, correct?

00:42:03.460 No.

00:42:04.040 Or, okay.

00:42:05.120 You have a kid, though.

00:42:06.780 I, uh, yes, I have.

00:42:07.900 I have a two and a half year old son.

00:42:09.400 Okay.

00:42:09.660 And that, is that from your three years?

00:42:11.540 My ex of three years, yeah.

00:42:12.980 Okay.

00:42:13.720 Does he pay you child support?

00:42:15.280 Well, we weren't, we, he helps out.

00:42:20.160 Is it?

00:42:20.420 We don't have anything through, um, the legal system.

00:42:24.180 Yeah.

00:42:24.300 Okay.

00:42:24.620 Okay.

00:42:24.740 It's just, you guys have an understanding.

00:42:27.080 Sure.

00:42:27.560 Uh, does he, so he doesn't have, there's not formal child support, but does he send you

00:42:33.520 money?

00:42:34.420 Um, he pays half of my son's little school.

00:42:37.820 And then when I do ask and need help with other things, he will help and support.

00:42:43.620 Yeah.

00:42:44.160 Okay.

00:42:44.420 My son lives with me full time.

00:42:46.220 Gotcha.

00:42:46.780 Okay.

00:42:47.320 What about you?

00:42:48.820 Um, I'm currently in a relationship with a wonderful man.

00:42:52.320 Shout out to you, baby.

00:42:53.140 I think you're watching.

00:42:54.480 Um, we've been together for a little over a year.

00:42:57.240 My longest relationship was a situationship.

00:43:01.800 Um, and that was like five or six years of my life.

00:43:09.020 Situationship for five to six years.

00:43:10.620 Yes.

00:43:11.160 Ever married?

00:43:11.720 Any kids?

00:43:12.500 Um, I have one kid.

00:43:13.900 It happened after my situationship.

00:43:16.160 With a different guy.

00:43:17.480 Yeah.

00:43:17.900 Just not your current.

00:43:19.100 No, no, no.

00:43:19.920 Just hookup era or hookup, whatever it's called.

00:43:23.200 Um, wait, question the five to six year.

00:43:25.880 You said it happened after the five to six year situationship.

00:43:29.320 Yeah.

00:43:29.900 So, and when you say it was a situationship, are you talking, it was on again, off again

00:43:34.840 a lot?

00:43:35.740 No, it was like, I wanted to be in the relationship and I wanted to be monogamous and I made that

00:43:42.240 very clear to him and he kind of gaslighted me a lot of the relationship.

00:43:47.660 And when you say gaslighted you, how so?

00:43:50.860 Um, like he would lie to me about certain things that he did or like he would portray

00:43:57.060 things to me and like make it seem like we were in a relationship, but would also like

00:44:03.780 under his breath be like, well, we're not together.

00:44:06.160 So it doesn't matter what I do.

00:44:08.900 My confusion here though, is you yourself have characterized it as a situationship.

00:44:15.860 No, it was.

00:44:16.560 I knew that after the fact.

00:44:18.740 And question though, well, yeah.

00:44:19.720 So during the course of the five to six years you were with him, while you were with him,

00:44:25.940 would you have characterized it as a situationship?

00:44:29.620 I think I didn't really know what a situationship was.

00:44:33.720 So I, like I knew that we didn't have a label on it, but I very much wanted to be committed

00:44:40.320 to him and be with him.

00:44:41.560 Um, but he didn't obviously want the same in return.

00:44:44.940 And did he make this known to you during the course of the relationship?

00:44:48.860 Yeah, he did.

00:44:49.700 I would say he did.

00:44:50.760 Okay.

00:44:51.320 And then at any point during the relationship, did he refer to you as his girlfriend?

00:44:58.940 Between me and him, he would, but like on the outside, no, he definitely, it was just,

00:45:05.380 oh, this is my friend.

00:45:08.000 So he would, at, at some points he did overtly refer to you, explicitly refer to you as girlfriend.

00:45:14.860 Yes.

00:45:15.880 Okay.

00:45:17.100 And however, you guys also had explicit overt conversations about, like, it doesn't sound

00:45:26.380 like he actually verbalized that he would be monogamous.

00:45:30.540 Is that correct?

00:45:31.440 Yeah.

00:45:32.020 At no point.

00:45:33.020 Yeah, pretty much.

00:45:34.500 Not pretty much, yes.

00:45:35.100 Okay.

00:45:35.120 So he was, he was overt in saying he basically wanted it to be an open relationship.

00:45:42.740 Yes.

00:45:43.480 Okay.

00:45:43.840 We're, during this course of time, were you dating other men during the five to six years?

00:45:49.300 No.

00:45:49.700 At any point?

00:45:50.560 No.

00:45:51.020 Even short term?

00:45:52.020 No, I was not.

00:45:53.120 So you were, you were loyal to him?

00:45:55.080 Yes.

00:45:55.300 However, he was not loyal to you.

00:45:57.900 Is that correct?

00:45:58.620 Yes.

00:45:59.560 Okay.

00:46:00.440 My confusion, though, is exactly how he gaslit you, because I understand that you wanted commitment,

00:46:11.920 and perhaps it's a sucky thing that he didn't want the same.

00:46:14.880 However, frustrating as it may be, it seems like he did tell you what the deal was.

00:46:25.600 He did say, and you might say, well, that's wrong, objectionable, but he doesn't sound like

00:46:31.120 he lied.

00:46:32.340 He did say, I'm not going to commit to you.

00:46:35.300 On the outside, looking at, like, after the fact, and I'm older now, so I understand it

00:46:41.720 more, and yes, that is true, but when I was actually actively in the situation and going

00:46:47.920 through the relationship, I was young and dumb, and I thought that I could change a man and

00:46:52.500 make him be faithful and who I wanted him to be.

00:46:55.360 And now I understand that you can't do that.

00:46:58.820 Like, a man brings to the table what he wants to bring to the table.

00:47:02.400 You can't force him to be any type of way.

00:47:05.760 Okay.

00:47:06.040 And just curious, from what age to what age did you date him?

00:47:09.600 Oh, 21, 22 to 27.

00:47:14.160 Had you had relationships prior?

00:47:16.520 Yeah, I did.

00:47:17.040 And were you boyfriend-girlfriend in those relationships?

00:47:20.440 Yeah, we were.

00:47:22.440 Well, you said, sorry, 21 to 26, 27.

00:47:25.560 I would say, like, 22 to 27, because I had my son at 28.

00:47:29.560 Okay.

00:47:30.860 Well, I mean, 22, you're still on the younger side, but it's not exactly, I don't know if

00:47:37.540 we can defer to naivete entirely here, but I don't know if I agree with your

00:47:46.820 gaslighting characterization, at least the way you've described it.

00:47:52.740 Perhaps it's the case, but as you've explained it thus far, I don't know if I...

00:47:57.180 It's just because we would go out and we would do things that you do in a normal relationship.

00:48:01.680 Like, we would take vacations together.

00:48:03.520 We would go to dinner together.

00:48:05.420 Like, I've met his son.

00:48:06.860 I've met his mom.

00:48:09.600 And maybe not gaslighting, but that's what it felt like to me during.

00:48:14.660 I don't think we can always assume, though, that just because you engage in certain activities

00:48:20.220 with somebody you're, you know, spending time with, that it would necessarily infer that

00:48:25.800 you're in a relationship.

00:48:27.640 I understand how it could potentially be confusing.

00:48:31.140 You know, I've heard this complaint from many women. 1.00

00:48:33.640 They say, well, he introduced me to his parents.

00:48:36.780 Okay, maybe the introduction to the parents thing.

00:48:38.840 I can probably get on board with that.

00:48:40.260 That's, like, I don't know, that's probably, like, can probably lead somebody on a little

00:48:46.340 bit, you know?

00:48:47.440 But, I don't know, like, going out to dinner, going on vacations, you could do that with

00:48:52.620 somebody who's, like...

00:48:54.000 Friends with...

00:48:54.640 It's, like, more casual.

00:48:57.300 But, okay.

00:48:59.980 Question, though.

00:49:01.880 The guy you ended up having a kid with...

00:49:04.460 Yes.

00:49:04.880 Uh, how long were you seeing him?

00:49:07.340 Uh, we weren't seeing each other.

00:49:09.420 We would just, like, hook up off and on.

00:49:11.480 Okay.

00:49:11.760 Like, before the situationship, and then the situationship kind of really fucked me up mentally, 0.71

00:49:17.640 or messed me up mentally, sorry.

00:49:19.160 Yeah.

00:49:19.620 And I was just on a drinking bender, drinking a lot of Hennessy, and one day...

00:49:26.120 The Hennessy.

00:49:27.020 Yes, it gets you.

00:49:28.600 Good ways or bad ways.

00:49:30.020 And one day we just ended up happening.

00:49:33.060 I took a plan B, too, because I was not trying to be like that.

00:49:36.320 Like, I didn't want a kid with him, but God had much different plans.

00:49:41.180 Life finds a way.

00:49:43.280 Yes.

00:49:43.940 So, wait. 1.00

00:49:45.860 Young, dumb, and full of cum. 1.00

00:49:48.480 That was so good. 1.00

00:49:51.320 Good job.

00:49:52.660 You made a funny, Ophelia.

00:49:54.360 Thank you.

00:49:55.260 All right.

00:49:55.560 Um, so, but how soon into, like, knowing, uh, a baby daddy, I guess, how soon into knowing

00:50:05.320 him did you get pregnant?

00:50:07.060 Oh, I knew him for, like, seven years, eight years.

00:50:09.660 Well, but you guys hadn't been...

00:50:12.500 Wait, hold on.

00:50:13.500 Because we hooked up before...

00:50:13.960 Was he friends with your ex?

00:50:16.400 Okay.

00:50:16.880 No.

00:50:17.020 But you were...

00:50:18.620 Okay.

00:50:19.140 Um...

00:50:19.260 We were just hooking up off and on, like, just randomly, literally, before the situationship

00:50:23.840 and then after the situationship.

00:50:26.560 Oh, okay.

00:50:27.060 So you...

00:50:27.140 Oh, okay.

00:50:27.160 This was a backup guy.

00:50:29.160 Um, wait, wait, wait.

00:50:30.200 Like a recycler.

00:50:31.280 Yeah.

00:50:31.640 Wait, question.

00:50:32.160 You can say that.

00:50:33.020 So, before the five to six year situationship, you had already hooked up with baby daddy.

00:50:41.240 Yes.

00:50:41.560 And then, but then, during the course of situationship, he was completely out of the picture.

00:50:46.640 Yes.

00:50:46.980 Would you guys talk, though?

00:50:48.940 Uh, no.

00:50:50.160 Okay.

00:50:50.460 No, because he had a, he had, like, a girlfriend or whatever other time.

00:50:52.880 I see.

00:50:53.800 Gotcha.

00:50:54.380 Um, but so, then you got back with him, sort of, or were hanging out with him.

00:50:59.080 How soon into the second time hanging out with him, reconnecting, did you get pregnant?

00:51:04.520 Like, two months.

00:51:05.660 Two months in.

00:51:06.320 Yeah.

00:51:06.540 Okay.

00:51:06.720 Like, that's when you knew you were pregnant or when you think you got pregnant?

00:51:12.420 No.

00:51:12.580 Because, like, doesn't it take a couple weeks, like, six to eight before you start doing this?

00:51:16.660 No, like, I could count to the, to the time that it happened when I got pregnant.

00:51:21.120 Like, a month into it, or after it happened, I already knew I was pregnant.

00:51:27.040 Because my, I was just so regular and I have an app and stuff like that.

00:51:31.120 So, I knew exactly the day that it happened.

00:51:33.620 So, and that day that you, that you got, uh, pregnant was two months in?

00:51:41.360 Yeah, about two months, yeah.

00:51:42.500 And how soon after the end of the situationship did you reconnect with baby daddy?

00:51:49.100 Um.

00:51:49.540 Like, right away, or?

00:51:51.700 Like a month.

00:51:52.700 So, yeah, kind of right away.

00:51:54.220 Okay, so, about two to three months after the end of five to six year situationship,

00:51:59.500 pregnant with, uh, friends with benefits, Kai?

00:52:04.480 Yes.

00:52:05.040 Okay.

00:52:06.100 Now, did he want to have the kid?

00:52:08.720 He didn't, and I actually gave him the option to not, to, like, sign his rights away.

00:52:14.120 Because I, while I do believe in abortion, I knew that God gave the baby to me for a reason.

00:52:20.160 You know, I needed love that I didn't have and I never got as a child.

00:52:23.460 So, I wanted to keep it for myself and the whole nine, ten months of pregnancy,

00:52:31.260 even up to actually right after I had birth, I gave him the option,

00:52:34.860 you can sign your rights away, you don't need to do this, I don't want anything from you.

00:52:39.760 If you want to be a part of it, be a part of it.

00:52:43.000 Okay.

00:52:44.280 Um, so, did he sign his rights away or is he in the picture or?

00:52:48.140 No, he's in the picture.

00:52:49.540 He's an active father and he does what he can.

00:52:53.000 Does he pay you child support?

00:52:55.060 Um, he doesn't pay me, he pays the babysitter.

00:52:58.220 Oh, he just pays the babysitter.

00:53:00.180 Yeah.

00:53:00.720 Okay.

00:53:01.300 I'm full-time mom.

00:53:02.400 Okay, does he, there's no court mandated?

00:53:05.140 He pays for child care.

00:53:06.620 No, no court mandated.

00:53:08.280 No, I don't, I don't, I don't want to go through the court system.

00:53:11.080 I don't want, especially because I, I know I make more money than him and after school,

00:53:15.380 I'm going to make more money than him.

00:53:16.980 Okay, so he would just get child support from you then.

00:53:19.220 And the process is just so expensive to begin with, what you end up getting in the end doesn't

00:53:22.980 even make it worth it.

00:53:23.840 I don't want the government to tell me when I can and can't have my kid.

00:53:26.660 Like, I want to make that decision myself.

00:53:28.640 Sure.

00:53:29.200 Okay.

00:53:29.780 Um, uh, and, uh, you, but now you're in a relationship, you've been in a relationship

00:53:36.640 for one year.

00:53:37.400 It's not the baby daddy.

00:53:38.980 No.

00:53:39.160 Uh, is he like acting as a stepfather or?

00:53:42.600 Yes, actually he is a great, a great stepdad and acts as honestly very present.

00:53:49.560 And my son loves him, loves him.

00:53:52.780 Okay.

00:53:53.300 Did you find it difficult dating, having a kid and being a single mom?

00:53:59.620 Um, yes, because I was worried about bringing people into the situation or around my son,

00:54:06.660 especially, and you don't know people, you don't know how they are.

00:54:10.240 Um, but he, it just, it honestly, it worked out.

00:54:14.120 Everything worked out the way that it was supposed to.

00:54:15.740 So I'm very lucky because I know it doesn't happen like that.

00:54:19.720 And, um, the, the kid, I don't know.

00:54:26.040 I'm just curious the, has it presented?

00:54:30.520 Cause I looked at your Instagram, uh, mixed race baby. 1.00

00:54:34.720 Yes, he is.

00:54:35.660 Has that ever been an issue for any people?

00:54:39.320 Any people?

00:54:40.300 Honestly, no.

00:54:41.040 Any, you know, okay.

00:54:43.360 Uh, okay.

00:54:44.440 All right.

00:54:45.000 That's everybody's relationship status.

00:54:46.660 We have a chat here from Epirus.

00:54:51.000 Kick her off, please. 1.00

00:54:52.820 Your podcast is way above this. 1.00

00:54:55.520 She is pathetic. 0.98

00:54:57.340 Thank you, Epirus. 1.00

00:54:59.640 Appreciate it.

00:55:00.520 Thank you for that.

00:55:01.580 We'll see what the rest of the show holds, but it's probably coming.

00:55:07.180 All right.

00:55:08.200 She already got the, she already got the yellow card.

00:55:11.180 So, all right.

00:55:13.580 Uh, we're going to just get right into, actually, I need to get up here in just a moment.

00:55:18.240 Uh, Pasty, are you in the chat?

00:55:20.360 Are you in the chat, Pasty?

00:55:21.440 I need to shout Pasty out here.

00:55:24.780 Um, let me see if he's in the chat.

00:55:28.760 Hey, yo, Pasty, are you in the chat? 0.85

00:55:32.540 Hey, Pasty George.

00:55:34.440 Is this the Canadian?

00:55:35.420 I want to see if, I'm not, yeah, I want to make sure.

00:55:37.440 Oh, he's here.

00:55:38.260 Yo, Pasty, you want me to do the unbox now?

00:55:40.120 Or should we save it?

00:55:42.200 Just write in the chat, Pasty. 0.94

00:55:43.760 Um, you want me to unbox now or later?

00:55:47.600 Just write in the chat.

00:55:49.740 It's fine.

00:55:50.160 I'm looking at it.

00:55:53.980 Um, oh.

00:55:56.700 I want to see that comment.

00:55:57.820 Pasty, Pasty George.

00:55:59.260 Oh, we can't see.

00:56:00.440 It's up to you, yo.

00:56:01.340 I'll do it in a little bit.

00:56:02.420 I'll do it in a little bit.

00:56:03.300 But, Pasty George, I'll just say this, guys.

00:56:05.900 So, I don't know, those of you might not know this.

00:56:07.980 Uh, I, it's episode three.

00:56:10.460 I just started something called Whatever Wednesday.

00:56:12.920 And then I just, it's not as long typically as the dating talks, but I just sit down.

00:56:17.880 It's not a panel.

00:56:19.760 And last week I had Felicity.

00:56:21.320 The week before I had Sina.

00:56:23.520 Sina? 0.78

00:56:24.040 Sina? 0.78

00:56:24.440 Sina? 0.98

00:56:26.120 And it's just kind of like reacting to shit on stream, chatting with you guys. 0.98

00:56:30.480 It's a little more chill. 0.99

00:56:31.560 Whatever Wednesday is, afternoons.

00:56:33.960 Uh, Pasty George, though, showed a lot of support on Wednesday.

00:56:38.060 So, I, he, I got a little present for myself.

00:56:41.920 Hold on.

00:56:42.260 It was kind of like, all right.

00:56:43.800 Where is it?

00:56:44.440 One sec.

00:56:45.940 Uh.

00:56:47.000 Woo-hoo! 1.00

00:56:48.080 Congrats to me, boy!

00:56:50.480 Yeah!

00:56:51.400 Congrats to me.

00:56:52.520 Congrats to me.

00:56:53.240 Thank you, Pasty George, man.

00:56:54.200 You're a legend.

00:56:55.080 All right.

00:56:55.900 Let's see here.

00:56:57.740 We're going to get into the, some of the pre-show notes here in just a sec.

00:57:02.700 You know what, though?

00:57:03.440 I do need to get up momentarily.

00:57:05.040 So, Felicity, what, what I'm going to have you do is, um, ask this one, and then this

00:57:11.020 one, and I should be back.

00:57:12.320 One sec, guys, I'll be right back.

00:57:21.420 Hi.

00:57:21.900 Hi.

00:57:23.760 Where is it?

00:57:24.540 It's right there.

00:57:25.500 Oh, sorry.

00:57:26.420 Bright green.

00:57:26.980 I'm used to it being under.

00:57:28.840 Okay.

00:57:29.500 Guys, I have a question.

00:57:31.660 What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband starting with

00:57:35.440 you?

00:57:36.440 I said 96,000.

00:57:38.840 Okay.

00:57:39.180 What about you?

00:57:39.820 I said, like, six figures, like 100,000.

00:57:43.400 Okay.

00:57:43.980 What about you?

00:57:44.800 I put 75,000.

00:57:47.220 What about you?

00:57:48.260 I put 10 million.

00:57:49.440 Oh, my God.

00:57:51.860 Why?

00:57:52.900 Well, because, like, rich daddy things.

00:57:55.140 Like, I don't want no brokey absorbing my energy. 1.00

00:57:57.920 So, I said 10 million.

00:57:59.140 That sounds like a, in this generation, 18-year-olds are making 10 million.

00:58:02.400 So, I don't see why this dude can't make 10 million.

00:58:04.640 How many 18-year-olds do you live?

00:58:05.600 Yeah, can you name at least two that are 18 years old?

00:58:09.720 That you actually know?

00:58:10.740 Where do you live?

00:58:11.560 Crypto boys.

00:58:12.900 Okay.

00:58:13.320 Where do I live?

00:58:14.040 I live in Los Angeles.

00:58:15.800 Okay.

00:58:16.460 In West Hollywood.

00:58:18.520 You said crypto men?

00:58:19.620 Yeah, the crypto boys.

00:58:20.900 They've been making hella big.

00:58:21.780 How old are they?

00:58:22.660 Yeah.

00:58:23.020 Probably, like, 18, like, 24.

00:58:24.320 You're saying probably.

00:58:25.400 Do you know two 18-year-old crypto boys that make 10 million dollars a year?

00:58:29.700 Yeah, that one kid, Malum, he made, like, what, like, 300 million off of crypto?

00:58:33.200 Like, in a year.

00:58:35.860 He did.

00:58:36.280 He made that in, like, in a year.

00:58:38.620 Well, that's, like, a talk with facts.

00:58:39.900 Well, he did scam.

00:58:40.940 Well, he did scam.

00:58:42.160 That's why he did scam.

00:58:43.240 That's, like, really rare.

00:58:46.700 Really, really rare.

00:58:47.860 Anything.

00:58:48.340 Sky's the limit.

00:58:50.100 That's, like, top 1%.

00:58:53.200 You interact with them?

00:58:55.840 Yeah.

00:58:56.300 I've seen some of their, like, little crypto schemes.

00:58:58.940 I don't know.

00:58:59.280 Have you, like, dated any of them?

00:59:01.400 Like, one of them, yeah.

00:59:02.520 They were, like, did you date date, or did you just, like?

00:59:06.220 We just, like, casually date it.

00:59:08.320 Like, culturally date it.

00:59:09.220 So, you, like, culturally?

00:59:10.640 Culturally?

00:59:11.260 What does that mean?

00:59:11.800 Like, hookup culturally date it. 0.95

00:59:13.160 Okay, so you just, like, had sex with them? 0.96

00:59:15.840 Yeah, we just, like, brazed each other. 0.99

00:59:17.320 Oh, my God.

00:59:17.660 You guys are already married.

00:59:18.900 But he didn't.

00:59:20.740 Me?

00:59:21.280 No.

00:59:21.680 No.

00:59:23.420 You don't make 10 million.

00:59:25.260 No, I do not.

00:59:27.140 Maybe you do.

00:59:27.960 You're just not telling us.

00:59:29.120 I mean, the Bophouse girls, what, Sophie Rain made, like, 56 million dollars in, like, 0.99

00:59:35.600 the span of a year?

00:59:36.860 Like, it's totally doable.

00:59:39.180 She's, what, like, 18, 20?

00:59:41.560 She, mind you, like, these people are super rare. 0.99

00:59:44.920 Super, super, super rare.

00:59:46.380 There's Sophie Rain.

00:59:47.720 There's only one Sophie Rain.

00:59:49.420 Like, you don't see, it's not very common to see, like, OnlyFans girls making, like, 0.99

00:59:54.260 millions and millions and millions, like, Sophie Rain level.

00:59:56.640 I mean, there are pretty successful OnlyFans women. 0.99

00:59:58.720 But you said for a man.

01:00:01.080 Aw.

01:00:01.640 Which is a lot.

01:00:02.900 They don't really do OnlyFans.

01:00:05.180 Do you do OnlyFans?

01:00:06.420 Yeah.

01:00:06.700 No, I don't do OnlyFans.

01:00:08.040 Oh.

01:00:08.660 What do you do?

01:00:09.760 This.

01:00:10.140 I'm just, like, Brian's bodyguard.

01:00:12.020 Oh, cool.

01:00:13.800 That's cute.

01:00:14.560 I love that.

01:00:15.540 Kidding.

01:00:15.880 Um, it's 10 million.

01:00:18.380 But you understand, do you understand that, like, net worth is not equal to, like, yearly

01:00:23.620 salary?

01:00:24.200 But what about, like, okay, actors make, like, 10, 20 million.

01:00:28.540 So, it's, like, what if I fumble into an actor? 0.98

01:00:31.240 I don't think many actors want to date a super slut. 1.00

01:00:33.700 I can promise you. 0.98

01:00:34.260 I mean, let's take Mia Khalifa, for example. 1.00

01:00:35.820 They're not going to date a prostitute. 1.00

01:00:37.100 Mia Khalifa is probably making around that. 1.00

01:00:39.880 And she's, like, dating A-list actors.

01:00:42.760 So, it is possible.

01:00:43.440 And she's also slightly canceled.

01:00:44.840 Well, Mia Khalifa's really famous.

01:00:47.540 Yeah. 0.55

01:00:48.040 I mean, she did do porn, you're right.

01:00:49.880 But, like...

01:00:50.900 I just think it's possible.

01:00:51.900 If it's been done, why can't another person fall in that if they really want that drive

01:00:55.220 and ambition?

01:00:56.160 You know?

01:00:56.500 Is Mia Khalifa married?

01:00:58.000 No, I don't think so.

01:00:59.100 No.

01:00:59.260 She's also, like, lost, like, so much money in brand deals after... 0.98

01:01:02.900 She also stopped doing porn.

01:01:04.880 Her... 1.00

01:01:05.320 Yeah.

01:01:05.900 Her, uh...

01:01:06.660 But, like, you understand that, like, net worth is not equal to yearly income?

01:01:11.740 Do you know what that is?

01:01:12.720 Like, yearly income, like...

01:01:14.140 So, like, yearly income is, like, how much you make in a year?

01:01:16.540 Well, let's say you invest a bunch of properties and you're bringing in that from multiple sources

01:01:19.520 of income and you bring in that number yearly.

01:01:21.660 Like, it's doable.

01:01:22.440 Like, I don't know why...

01:01:23.200 Well, no, I'm saying, like...

01:01:24.380 It's doable, but it's not practical.

01:01:25.900 She's trying to make a point that it's a lot harder than you think.

01:01:27.320 You can make...

01:01:28.400 You asked a question.

01:01:29.260 I just answered what I thought would be my number, personally.

01:01:32.200 10 million's quite absurd.

01:01:33.860 Well, I can say it's 10 million. 1.00

01:01:35.260 This shit's fake anyways. 0.99

01:01:36.340 You can just say 10 million, like... 1.00

01:01:38.780 Fake?

01:01:39.040 Do you think you're a $10 million woman? 1.00

01:01:41.000 I do.

01:01:41.400 Do you think you are?

01:01:42.820 She didn't say she was.

01:01:43.760 I didn't say that I was.

01:01:44.680 But I don't think that a man that makes 10 million would want a woman that has busted 1.00

01:01:48.920 it wide open on the internet and comes and talking.

01:01:51.920 I mean, there is somebody for everyone, considering you, like, got manipulated and, like, cheated

01:01:56.280 on.

01:01:56.580 I think there's somebody for everyone.

01:01:58.640 At least...

01:01:59.400 And getting manipulated and cheated on is besides the fact that you came in here bragging about 0.97

01:02:05.200 being 16 and lying about it and saying you did porn. 0.94

01:02:09.660 I also...

01:02:10.260 Do you see the problem?

01:02:11.120 I might have got manipulated and cheated on, but I also have a man that is way above your

01:02:16.600 caliber and would never date somebody like you.

01:02:18.940 And I am the happiest I've ever been in my life.

01:02:21.360 And I'm comfortable in my own skin that I don't have to bust it wide open on the internet

01:02:25.620 for thousands or millions of people to see and possibly your future children, which let's

01:02:31.140 hope you don't procreate.

01:02:32.240 I hope my future children see me busting it open on the internet.

01:02:35.340 I think that's empowering.

01:02:36.440 I think that's empowering.

01:02:37.140 Are you okay?

01:02:37.860 No.

01:02:38.140 I genuinely think that's empowering.

01:02:40.260 Busting it.

01:02:40.600 How will that empower your children?

01:02:41.580 So, okay.

01:02:42.040 But, like, back to the question, like, do you understand the difference between net worth

01:02:45.860 and salary?

01:02:46.920 No.

01:02:47.540 Well, net worth is, like, how much you're worth, and then yearly is, like, what you're bringing

01:02:51.620 in.

01:02:52.420 Okay.

01:02:52.860 So, you do understand.

01:02:53.800 I do understand.

01:02:54.280 But you still pick...

01:02:55.420 10 million.

01:02:56.260 Period.

01:02:57.280 Next question.

01:02:58.560 Okay.

01:02:59.160 What about you?

01:02:59.480 She's ready, guys.

01:03:00.160 Um, I would like someone to have a yearly salary that exceeds what I've earned myself.

01:03:05.740 So, $350,000 to $500,000.

01:03:09.220 Dang.

01:03:09.860 Gross. 0.80

01:03:09.980 Slay. 0.99

01:03:10.540 That's how much you make?

01:03:11.740 Well, I used to, yeah.

01:03:12.880 Oh, okay.

01:03:13.960 Okay.

01:03:15.060 Um, like $70,000 to $80,000.

01:03:17.040 Okay.

01:03:17.980 You?

01:03:18.100 $100,000.

01:03:19.020 Okay.

01:03:19.280 Um, I said $80,000, but actually, I also wouldn't mind being the breadwinner.

01:03:25.940 Oh, I dropped something.

01:03:27.080 Um, I, I like going to work, but I like being a mom, too.

01:03:32.580 So, thank you.

01:03:34.200 Um, if I had somebody that wanted to be a stay-at-home dad and was willing to do that,

01:03:39.420 and he still provides for me and takes care of me in other ways and takes care of the household

01:03:43.880 in other ways, then that's fine with me, but realistically, in California, you have to be

01:03:49.140 a two-income household.

01:03:50.360 You can't be a one-income household, um, unless, you know, you're making millions, but, yeah.

01:03:56.500 Honestly, you're all pretty agreeable besides, sorry, $10,000.

01:04:00.440 No offense.

01:04:01.260 Um, maybe, maybe offense.

01:04:02.980 I don't know.

01:04:03.500 No hard feelings.

01:04:04.180 Um, and then $350,000, how, what do you do?

01:04:08.200 So, I used to be an online content creator.

01:04:11.040 Right.

01:04:11.580 Yeah.

01:04:11.700 Okay.

01:04:12.120 Yeah.

01:04:12.260 Okay.

01:04:12.540 But I spun that into other businesses, apparel sales and whatnot, so.

01:04:16.360 Oh, okay.

01:04:16.820 Yeah.

01:04:17.040 See, she's an example of self-success. 1.00

01:04:18.900 She's an entrepreneur and, like, well, honey, there's a long story after the fact, though.

01:04:24.260 I mean, I didn't do it for very long.

01:04:25.800 I didn't do it the same way you did, and it, I have many debts to pay because of it emotionally.

01:04:30.160 So, yeah, I did try to do the best I could with it.

01:04:32.980 I did run a legitimate business.

01:04:34.200 I spun it into, you know, going to D.C. to meet the president.

01:04:37.540 There was a lot that happened.

01:04:39.540 She's super successful. 0.98

01:04:40.300 I worked at Turning Point.

01:04:41.100 Yes.

01:04:41.540 Yes.

01:04:41.820 There's a long story there, but the way that you're presenting yourself publicly and bragging 0.99

01:04:46.680 about being a slut, like, your time is limited, and the clock is ticking, and it's not going 1.00

01:04:51.020 to age well. 0.99

01:04:52.460 And she can talk from firsthand experience, not secondary.

01:04:55.920 I think you're very admirable.

01:04:59.120 Aw.

01:04:59.700 Me?

01:05:00.260 Oh, thank you.

01:05:01.500 I just, you know, we all make choices, especially if you're going to go into that industry that

01:05:04.900 you think are empowering you.

01:05:06.480 And in some ways it does.

01:05:08.400 But the overall long-term consequences is that you're going to be viewed through a very specific

01:05:13.100 lens for the rest of your life.

01:05:14.740 And that is a debt that is very hard to pay.

01:05:16.880 So I just want to be a warning to all of you that the money is great, and when you're in

01:05:20.740 it, you think that that price is totally worth it.

01:05:23.160 But there's a lot that's going to come up in ways that you cannot even imagine that will

01:05:27.440 haunt you.

01:05:28.540 So I just, you know, taking the short, fun ride is not worth it long-term. 1.00

01:05:32.840 Maybe some of us just like sucking dick on camera. 1.00

01:05:35.220 Like, I don't see why that is. 1.00

01:05:35.920 So next question.

01:05:36.980 Click me.

01:05:37.700 How tall are you, and what is the minimum height of a man you would date, starting with

01:05:40.920 you?

01:05:41.460 I said 5'5".

01:05:42.620 I'm 5'5", and I also said 5'5", because it's like, I don't know, I wouldn't want

01:05:47.440 like a dude shorter than me, because it's weird cuddling a dude with like shorter legs

01:05:51.740 than you.

01:05:52.460 You know what I mean?

01:05:53.260 You're saying.

01:05:53.960 But like, you know, if they like, save nights, like, fine, you know.

01:05:59.920 Okay.

01:06:00.440 What about you?

01:06:01.040 Yeah, I said the same thing.

01:06:02.160 I'm 5'7", so somebody like 5'7", or above.

01:06:05.980 Okay.

01:06:06.520 What about you?

01:06:07.240 I'm 5'4".

01:06:08.300 I dated someone who was like 5'6", 5'7".

01:06:13.060 Well, this is a little short.

01:06:15.720 So maybe like 5'8".

01:06:17.300 Oh, 5'8".

01:06:18.480 Yeah, I think I put 5'7", but.

01:06:20.520 Okay.

01:06:21.040 What about you?

01:06:22.840 I'm 5'2".

01:06:23.980 I just had a guy that's taller than me.

01:06:26.380 I just like, maybe like 5'9", 6'0", like skinny, Timothee Chalamet boyfriend.

01:06:32.060 I'd be down for that.

01:06:33.420 But when you say, so when you say taller, you mean like.

01:06:35.820 Like, just like taller, because I'm short.

01:06:37.360 So it's like a guy that's just like a little bit taller.

01:06:39.300 Okay.

01:06:39.920 You're 5'2".

01:06:40.980 Yeah.

01:06:41.300 You want someone 5'9".

01:06:42.800 Yeah.

01:06:43.260 Okay.

01:06:43.480 I mean, I like short kings.

01:06:44.680 That'd be fun.

01:06:45.380 But I don't know.

01:06:46.920 How short?

01:06:47.800 How short?

01:06:48.440 Maybe like here.

01:06:49.300 That'd be cute.

01:06:50.060 You would date someone shorter than you?

01:06:51.340 Well, maybe.

01:06:51.800 Because I can like cradle him like a little baby.

01:06:54.020 I'd be like, come here.

01:06:54.720 I can cuck him easier. 0.84

01:06:56.260 I'd be like, come here. 0.96

01:06:57.120 A midget? 1.00

01:06:58.200 Yes!

01:06:58.640 That would be so cute.

01:06:59.600 I would love to date a midget. 1.00

01:07:01.320 I think that might be offensive. 0.98

01:07:02.800 I think it's.

01:07:03.320 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:07:04.460 I don't know.

01:07:05.760 I think it all depends on each one.

01:07:07.860 They all have different categories.

01:07:08.960 Yeah, some like it.

01:07:10.740 Some don't.

01:07:11.640 Yeah.

01:07:12.340 A small person.

01:07:13.700 I wouldn't mind dating a small person.

01:07:15.460 Okay.

01:07:15.920 Yes.

01:07:16.120 Better wording.

01:07:17.880 Okay.

01:07:18.340 What about you?

01:07:18.900 I'm 5'8", but in heels can be up to 6'1", so I do like someone taller than me, which

01:07:24.220 can be challenging.

01:07:25.060 So yeah, 6'1", at least.

01:07:27.480 Okay.

01:07:27.960 I get that.

01:07:28.460 I feel tall myself.

01:07:29.140 You're a very tall young lady.

01:07:29.920 I'm actually only like 5'5 1⁄2".

01:07:32.120 Oh, you don't seem that tall.

01:07:33.420 You present much taller than that.

01:07:35.300 You have a long torso.

01:07:36.940 Yes.

01:07:37.140 I'm slim and I have a long torso.

01:07:38.600 So anyway, it's not about me.

01:07:40.140 Next.

01:07:41.180 I'm 4'9", so honestly, it's kind of easier to be tall.

01:07:45.660 It doesn't take much to be tall.

01:07:47.180 She's like 5'2 is tall. 0.98

01:07:48.260 Yeah.

01:07:48.660 So I, yeah, I would just date someone.

01:07:52.680 I was, I am attracted to like taller guys, but I would date anyone.

01:07:57.320 Which is all guys.

01:07:57.860 Which is all guys.

01:07:58.520 Technically, technically all guys.

01:07:59.980 Yes.

01:08:00.320 Have you noticed the trend that super tall men love really short women?

01:08:03.540 Yes.

01:08:04.100 Yeah.

01:08:04.240 I have a friend that's 4'9 dated someone that's 6'4".

01:08:07.240 And they loved it.

01:08:08.180 Yeah.

01:08:08.360 I have so many questions.

01:08:10.680 Yeah.

01:08:11.460 Yeah.

01:08:12.040 6'5".

01:08:12.540 I think it's probably like a fetish.

01:08:14.620 Like they're into shorter people.

01:08:15.780 It actually, it wasn't a fetish.

01:08:17.260 They kind of just like met and hit it off.

01:08:21.300 I have logistics questions.

01:08:23.080 That's cute.

01:08:23.580 Yeah.

01:08:23.760 Yeah.

01:08:24.440 Okay.

01:08:25.360 So you would date someone like five feet?

01:08:28.720 Um, I guess.

01:08:31.320 Okay.

01:08:31.640 That's like four inches taller than you.

01:08:33.440 I mean, to be honest, my, my ex, he was like five, four, but he was still like half a foot

01:08:38.120 taller than me.

01:08:38.960 Yeah.

01:08:39.200 Yeah.

01:08:39.340 So it was, I don't know.

01:08:42.380 I have.

01:08:43.020 Short queens for short queens. 1.00

01:08:44.460 Yeah.

01:08:44.900 Okay.

01:08:45.720 Okay.

01:08:46.260 Next.

01:08:48.020 I am five, four or five, five.

01:08:50.860 We're kind of, it just depends on the day.

01:08:52.940 And I don't know, like five, 10 and up.

01:08:55.400 I, I know I'm going to be honest.

01:08:57.660 I'm not really a big fan of someone shorter than me or same height, but you know what?

01:09:03.740 Maybe you never know.

01:09:06.680 Yeah.

01:09:07.140 But.

01:09:07.580 Okay.

01:09:07.920 Yeah.

01:09:08.260 Okay.

01:09:08.780 Next.

01:09:09.680 Um, I'm five, four and I said five, eight, just cause if I don't wear heels anymore, but

01:09:14.640 if I did, I at least want to like have you a little bit taller than me.

01:09:19.260 Just a little bit.

01:09:20.200 Got it.

01:09:21.020 Okay.

01:09:21.400 Okay.

01:09:22.060 What years were, were, were World War I?

01:09:29.440 1910 to 1918 to 1940.

01:09:35.440 I don't know.

01:09:36.340 1918 to 1920.

01:09:37.140 Maybe 1920.

01:09:38.740 I don't know.

01:09:39.400 Okay.

01:09:39.700 You should have everyone go besides.

01:09:41.020 1914 to 1918.

01:09:41.980 I don't know.

01:09:42.500 Okay.

01:09:43.000 14 to 18.

01:09:45.020 Okay.

01:09:45.820 What do you think?

01:09:46.440 What was the question?

01:09:47.320 What years were World War I?

01:09:49.520 I don't know.

01:09:50.220 Probably like the 1600s.

01:09:52.620 Pearl.

01:09:53.160 Come on.

01:09:53.520 You were so close.

01:09:54.620 So close.

01:09:55.200 Oh, if it's like the 1700s.

01:09:57.860 No.

01:09:58.840 Did you drop out of school?

01:09:59.780 Let's see.

01:09:59.980 That's a serious question.

01:10:00.880 Well, see, I'm Native American.

01:10:02.360 So like, so like my people got colonized.

01:10:05.240 So I technically got colonized.

01:10:06.660 So I'm just trying to think like, wasn't World War II near like when Christopher Columbus

01:10:09.420 was colonizing?

01:10:10.640 No.

01:10:10.840 No.

01:10:11.140 World War I.

01:10:11.720 One.

01:10:12.420 Not two.

01:10:13.740 And I don't really care about the war.

01:10:15.340 I'm not going to lie.

01:10:15.840 It's kind of overrated.

01:10:18.040 Overrated?

01:10:18.360 So many lives were lost.

01:10:20.680 Oh, wait.

01:10:20.880 Yeah, but so many.

01:10:21.640 I forgot who we're talking to.

01:10:22.620 Honestly, I unfortunately didn't pay attention to history class.

01:10:26.540 Yeah.

01:10:26.840 I really didn't.

01:10:27.800 So final answer is 1600s.

01:10:32.980 How long?

01:10:33.800 Like how many years do you think it was?

01:10:35.740 Like it was like five years.

01:10:38.340 Okay.

01:10:38.760 Next.

01:10:39.600 It's been a long time since I learned that.

01:10:41.280 I'm going to say 1912.

01:10:42.700 Okay.

01:10:43.220 Next.

01:10:43.560 Um, 19, I think it started in 1912 to 1914.

01:10:50.260 Next.

01:10:51.140 1914 to 1918.

01:10:53.040 Next.

01:10:54.040 I think like 1918 to 1922.

01:10:58.540 So the answer is 1914 to 1918.

01:11:01.360 What about World War II?

01:11:08.240 Pass.

01:11:09.080 You have to guess.

01:11:11.320 In the 1940s.

01:11:13.340 Okay.

01:11:14.080 Next.

01:11:14.720 1930s to 40s.

01:11:17.160 Next.

01:11:17.980 39 to 45.

01:11:20.080 Next.

01:11:21.480 Come on.

01:11:22.940 You got this.

01:11:23.260 Well, it's never been saying the 1940s.

01:11:24.900 It's never been like 1960s.

01:11:27.800 Okay.

01:11:29.120 Next.

01:11:30.560 40 to 45.

01:11:32.400 Next.

01:11:33.460 Um, somewhere in the 1930s to 1940s.

01:11:36.580 Should I go?

01:11:39.580 Oh.

01:11:40.240 1939 to 1945.

01:11:43.640 42 to 46.

01:11:47.520 Wow.

01:11:49.240 Wow.

01:11:51.120 Good job, guys.

01:11:52.700 I was listening to all those answers.

01:11:54.620 That was.

01:11:55.000 He's back.

01:11:55.640 Really stunning work.

01:11:57.940 I'm scared.

01:11:58.680 We're going to get into some.

01:11:59.980 One of you had specific criticisms for me that we're going to get into here in just a moment.

01:12:03.960 But from what I was listening to you, I wanted to just touch on it very quickly.

01:12:08.700 Uh, okay.

01:12:11.900 Same as I.

01:12:12.780 Okay.

01:12:14.400 10 million for you.

01:12:17.580 Make it rain, baby.

01:12:19.280 Come on.

01:12:20.700 Okay.

01:12:22.420 Yeah, you'd probably be lucky to date a McDonald's worker, but, um, and then for you, 350 to 500,000.

01:12:30.920 Mm-hmm.

01:12:32.180 Okay.

01:12:33.080 Um.

01:12:36.340 How much do you make currently?

01:12:38.040 I've been a housewife, and he made well over a million dollars a year.

01:12:42.340 Okay.

01:12:43.880 Uh, so 350K, that's the bare minimum.

01:12:47.980 You know, it's circumstantial.

01:12:49.700 It's not the bare minimum.

01:12:50.720 I mean, if I meet the love of my life, I'll take a lot less.

01:12:54.240 Okay.

01:12:54.440 But, you know, in general, that would be a preference to have someone that has reached a certain financial status that I've already experienced on my own, and a certain standard of living that I've become accustomed to.

01:13:04.140 Yes.

01:13:06.840 And when you were making good money, how much were you making?

01:13:10.980 Um, at the height, probably 70 to 100,000 a month.

01:13:17.060 Okay.

01:13:17.940 Gotcha.

01:13:18.260 Okay.

01:13:18.360 Um, but, is that, do you have savings, or is that all gone?

01:13:24.020 Um, well, I had plenty of savings when I met my husband, so I do not have that anymore.

01:13:28.800 That went into our lifestyle, our businesses, and whatnot.

01:13:34.400 Okay.

01:13:35.040 Mm-hmm.

01:13:36.040 I mean, you don't have any stocks, or, like, any?

01:13:38.940 I have a, I have crypto and whatnot, XRP.

01:13:41.540 So, yes, but we're all battling this through the divorce right now.

01:13:43.900 Oh, okay, so he's going to get, he's going to get something in the divorce element.

01:13:48.600 Um, he was, no, well, he, again, he, I'm going to get something out of this.

01:13:52.820 We're splitting things.

01:13:54.180 Better not have signed a prenup.

01:13:56.260 We didn't sign a prenup, and when I met him, I didn't know, I didn't think he even had a job when I met him.

01:14:01.280 Um, but he was in cannabis, and it was very successful, and we lived a very comfortable lifestyle.

01:14:05.800 I had 22 carats of diamonds on my finger.

01:14:08.660 So, um, we'll see.

01:14:11.000 Cannabis is really lucrative out here.

01:14:12.660 I mean, everywhere nowadays.

01:14:13.900 When the laws, you know, certain things, they flooded the law, the, the whole system with a lot of different licenses,

01:14:18.980 and gave everyone a permit to grow, and it became very expensive to grow, more so to produce it than to sell it.

01:14:23.980 Yep.

01:14:24.640 She was also a part of Turning Point.

01:14:26.960 I didn't make money with Turning Point, but I did, I did sell my MAGA hats.

01:14:32.500 So.

01:14:33.880 You're a Trumpy.

01:14:34.940 Does it matter?

01:14:36.160 No, I didn't say it.

01:14:36.980 That's hot.

01:14:37.660 Oh.

01:14:39.980 We love a woman who stands in her politics.

01:14:42.940 I did.

01:14:43.960 I did.

01:14:44.660 My experience at Turning Point was interesting.

01:14:46.340 You're honestly really cool.

01:14:47.520 Like, aside from all the troll content, you're actually really cool.

01:14:50.200 Thank you.

01:14:51.340 Thank you.

01:14:52.880 Oh, my God.

01:14:53.920 All right.

01:14:54.700 Um, let me see who else.

01:14:57.280 So, 300 or 10 mil, 350 to 500, 80,000 for you, 100,000 for you, 80K for you.

01:15:04.800 All right.

01:15:05.340 Would any of you consider, well, I mean, you say bare minimum.

01:15:08.320 You guys all say minimum.

01:15:10.580 Sounds like you wouldn't settle for less.

01:15:12.940 Um, maybe we'll get into the salary stuff a little bit later.

01:15:16.660 Uh, let's see here.

01:15:19.520 We're going to just dive in to the criticisms.

01:15:23.220 I apologize, guys, that I step away for a moment.

01:15:26.820 So, let's see.

01:15:28.980 Where do we begin?

01:15:32.160 We're going to start.

01:15:33.600 One sec, guys.

01:15:34.780 Oh, really quick.

01:15:35.420 I just wanted to ask, um, we've had Charlie Kirk on the show.

01:15:39.720 Quick question.

01:15:40.700 How do you guys, I know it happened, like, it was about a month ago at this point.

01:15:45.120 Um, do you guys feel like, uh, how do you feel about his assassination, starting with you?

01:15:57.180 Um, it's terrible that I don't think gun violence should be fought with more gun violence.

01:16:06.180 Wait, like, you know, like, he was against, sorry, I'm, like, so tired.

01:16:12.060 It was four gun violence. 0.67

01:16:13.160 I got two hours of sleep, I'm not going to lie, before the show. 0.99

01:16:16.700 Bro, I don't know why these fucking, no offense, I'm going to call you. 0.98

01:16:20.000 Like, you've asked to be on the show. 0.99

01:16:26.980 Like, you willing, you could have tried to get some sleep before.

01:16:31.260 I tried.

01:16:32.620 I worked a shift.

01:16:33.240 Instead, you were out.

01:16:34.240 Okay.

01:16:35.060 I worked a shift till five in the morning.

01:16:37.400 Oh, you were good.

01:16:37.820 Right, well, your lack of preparation doesn't constitute some obligation for me to relinquish

01:16:45.320 any expectation that you show up to this engagement.

01:16:49.420 Mm-hmm.

01:16:50.940 Like, coherent.

01:16:52.360 Right.

01:16:53.180 Yeah.

01:16:54.360 Okay.

01:16:56.180 Sorry?

01:16:57.820 Well, I don't think, um...

01:17:02.060 Why don't you just answer the question, please?

01:17:03.540 I don't think... 1.00

01:17:05.860 Holy fuck, it's like a child. 1.00

01:17:06.920 It should be a political debate. 1.00

01:17:08.980 I do not think it should be a political debate.

01:17:11.800 I don't think a death should be a political debate.

01:17:14.280 I agree.

01:17:14.740 What do you think about his assassination?

01:17:16.460 Justified?

01:17:18.340 Well, again, I don't think it should be a political debate.

01:17:23.680 People make it a political debate online, so...

01:17:26.780 Okay.

01:17:27.460 Do you think it's justified that people were celebrating his death?

01:17:31.320 No, no.

01:17:35.120 Okay.

01:17:35.560 Were you celebrating his death?

01:17:38.080 I don't think anyone should celebrate any death.

01:17:41.600 Okay.

01:17:42.220 What do you think?

01:17:44.260 Obviously, I don't think that it should be celebrated, but for me, it's just kind of,

01:17:48.220 like, indifferent.

01:17:49.060 Like, yes, it is sad as any gun violence is.

01:17:54.660 Indifferent.

01:17:55.300 Okay.

01:17:55.580 Do you think justified, though, the assassination?

01:18:00.300 No.

01:18:00.960 What about people who are celebrating?

01:18:02.860 Do you think you can understand why?

01:18:05.160 Or do you abhor that?

01:18:07.160 I don't think it should be celebrated, but, I mean, people are just kind of saying, like,

01:18:13.300 from what I've heard, that, like, he was for, you know, he said that, like...

01:18:19.080 Sorry.

01:18:19.660 Or that, like, there should be deaths every year, like, you know...

01:18:25.380 That's not what he said.

01:18:26.180 That's not what he said.

01:18:26.900 That's not what he said.

01:18:28.220 He was not for gun violence.

01:18:30.020 He was for the Second Amendment right, which is to bear arms.

01:18:33.020 He was not for going out and senselessly killing people.

01:18:37.760 Well, yeah, obviously, but...

01:18:38.940 Well, and so, consequentially, that would entail that, conceivably, there could, by granting

01:18:46.680 people the Second Amendment right, a consequence of that, consequentially, there would be deaths.

01:18:53.540 In the same way that we let people drive, but a consequence of that is there's, what is

01:19:00.620 it, 50,000 car deaths per year?

01:19:03.880 I don't know if anybody have the exact numbers.

01:19:05.880 There's car deaths a year, injuries all the time, but people can still own cars, people

01:19:12.820 can buy cars, people can drive, right?

01:19:15.360 So, that's essentially his argument.

01:19:17.860 What do you think?

01:19:19.000 Quick answers on this, if you can.

01:19:20.560 Oh, man.

01:19:22.560 I think it was awful.

01:19:24.980 Okay.

01:19:25.520 Yeah.

01:19:25.980 What do you think?

01:19:27.220 I didn't know who Charlie Kirk was.

01:19:28.920 I thought he was an actor who played in the SpongeBob musical until I Googled him, and that's

01:19:33.520 kind of it. 0.99

01:19:34.180 I was like, damn. 0.99

01:19:34.880 But also, I don't think celebrating his death is like, that should be celebrated, but also 0.99

01:19:39.400 I don't agree with gun violence, but also that goes to show that we don't actually have

01:19:43.680 as much freedom of speech as we think we do, because if we did, then he would still be

01:19:48.260 here.

01:19:49.100 What do you think?

01:19:50.060 I think it's a huge loss for our entire generation.

01:19:53.400 He was one of the most brilliant minds to have existed.

01:19:55.160 I thought it was awful.

01:19:58.720 Horrifying.

01:20:00.480 I don't agree with it.

01:20:01.660 I think that it's terrible that you get gunned down for what you say.

01:20:04.480 All right.

01:20:06.520 Somebody got some merch. 0.71

01:20:09.740 Looks like you bought a hoodie and a t-shirt.

01:20:11.440 Thank you, whoever that was.

01:20:12.580 Thank you.

01:20:13.560 Shop.whatever.com if you want to get yourself something.

01:20:17.220 Okay.

01:20:17.460 I need somebody to be a reader.

01:20:20.080 Can you read for me?

01:20:21.080 Can you see the...

01:20:22.220 I'm not that old.

01:20:23.340 How much do you want your man to make?

01:20:24.920 As a garbage man, I take home just above $100,000 a year. 0.52

01:20:27.920 Is that enough for you, knowing I smell like garbage every day and you have to do my laundry? 0.71

01:20:35.680 So take home, that's what?

01:20:37.060 Like $60,000?

01:20:38.940 $50,000?

01:20:39.540 Taxes out here are insane, so... 0.99

01:20:46.540 You're really selling yourself with the garbage.

01:20:48.760 How about for everybody here who wants a guy who makes $100,000 or more, would you date a guy, you know what, I'll make it a little flowery, who's in the waste management business.

01:21:00.200 Like Tony Soprano?

01:21:01.400 Like Tony Soprano, yeah. 0.99

01:21:03.820 No, like actually a garbage man. 0.92

01:21:07.760 Okay, so that's me? 0.98

01:21:08.620 Would you, yeah, would you date a guy? 0.99

01:21:09.860 I mean, telling me that you're going to smell like garbage and I have to do your laundry, I'm going to say no. 0.96

01:21:16.300 Yeah, I'm not doing it. 0.59

01:21:18.060 What about you, Lindsay?

01:21:18.940 I'm...

01:21:19.580 No?

01:21:20.340 I'll take it situationally.

01:21:22.260 Situational?

01:21:22.700 Yeah.

01:21:23.200 All right.

01:21:24.980 Okay, and then we have...

01:21:26.980 I'm going to have Claire, you're going to read this one.

01:21:31.580 I like chair five, but requiring $350,000 at age 43 is pretty unreasonable.

01:21:36.640 You're not trying to get that guy.

01:21:38.260 I make that much and none of my peers are going to be enough for you at that age.

01:21:46.100 Your response?

01:21:47.320 I'm sorry.

01:21:49.980 She apologizes.

01:21:51.500 Yeah.

01:21:52.400 Maybe it's a little bit like this.

01:21:53.820 I'd like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody.

01:21:57.960 All right.

01:22:01.540 Okay, let's get into...

01:22:03.300 Hold on.

01:22:06.560 Rachel.

01:22:07.240 Uh-oh.

01:22:07.580 You said generally, overall, you like Brian, though there's no chance in all hell you would

01:22:17.500 ever bow for a man.

01:22:19.120 That's true.

01:22:19.640 You think it's degrading.

01:22:20.900 I do. 0.69

01:22:21.280 And it's disgusting and weird that anyone would want that. 0.90

01:22:25.420 So, disgusting and weird that I would want. 0.96

01:22:28.520 So, I'm disgusting and weird. 0.95

01:22:29.760 Let's dive into that, though. 0.95

01:22:31.380 Great.

01:22:31.600 Um, so, first, tell me, um, let me just see.

01:22:37.620 Well, you're currently married, right?

01:22:39.000 Yes.

01:22:39.560 If your husband, tomorrow, I hope he's watching because I'm going to tell him that he's now

01:22:44.400 going to demand that you bow for him.

01:22:46.740 He's also Japanese, so he might actually like...

01:22:48.740 Well, he definitely should... 1.00

01:22:50.260 He definitely got to get on that shit. 1.00

01:22:53.800 Part Japanese. 1.00

01:22:54.640 He watches the show.

01:22:55.740 He becomes a big fan, and he's like, you know what?

01:22:57.680 Brian's on...

01:22:58.240 He's on to something with the whole, the bow thing.

01:23:01.160 You go home after this podcast to your husband, and he's like, you know what?

01:23:06.760 I was watching the podcast.

01:23:09.200 Brian makes a lot of sense.

01:23:11.400 And he asks you from now on to bow.

01:23:13.960 Are you divorcing him?

01:23:15.760 No.

01:23:16.320 I just won't do it.

01:23:17.380 You won't do it?

01:23:18.240 No.

01:23:18.380 Are you Christian?

01:23:19.900 No.

01:23:20.460 Oh, right.

01:23:20.780 That's right.

01:23:21.320 You're not Christian. 1.00

01:23:22.140 Yeah, I don't know.

01:23:25.020 All right.

01:23:26.640 Okay.

01:23:27.220 There's no circumstance under which you would bow?

01:23:30.920 No.

01:23:33.160 What if your husband said, what if your husband said, if you don't do this, I'm divorcing you?

01:23:38.540 Not saying that you should do that, but would you do it then?

01:23:42.760 Like, it's that much of a deal breaker?

01:23:45.640 No, I would not.

01:23:46.500 So it's demeaning no matter what the circumstance?

01:23:49.100 I don't know that it's demeaning, especially because it's like part of the, maybe, well,

01:23:55.140 he did not grow up in Japan.

01:23:56.720 Right.

01:23:56.820 He's only part Japanese.

01:23:57.700 So it's like part of that culture.

01:23:59.620 It's not part of our culture.

01:24:02.140 So why?

01:24:04.140 I mean, if I'm married to a man, I want to please him.

01:24:06.380 I want to make him happy and I want him to do the same for me.

01:24:08.460 So if I asked him to bow because I enjoyed it and it made me happy and we could have a

01:24:11.980 laugh, I would hope that he would say yes to that.

01:24:13.920 Can I make him happy in a thousand other ways?

01:24:16.960 Sure.

01:24:17.580 But if that's what their particular request is, I just, I don't, I don't think it's hurting

01:24:21.560 anyone.

01:24:21.860 I'm not saying you're wrong for your answer.

01:24:25.020 Just question.

01:24:25.840 Just curious.

01:24:26.360 I did already ask him and he said, if I did it, he'd laugh in my face.

01:24:34.040 Well, yeah, I understand the, the bow thing seems at least in American culture seems a

01:24:41.180 little out of place, especially as a pale white man asking for it. 1.00

01:24:46.940 Although it's not like, to me, it's not like trying to appropriate like what I'm doing. 0.98

01:24:55.520 And I'm not like trying to be Japanese or some shit. 0.60

01:24:59.480 However, it is, it is an interesting tell on, I think it's like a great temperature check 0.97

01:25:06.060 for how that relationship is going to go.

01:25:07.760 But before I get into my position as to why I'm for it, um, I'd like to understand your

01:25:14.740 position a little bit better.

01:25:16.040 So you say it's degrading.

01:25:18.200 You say it is, hold on, I got to find the notes again. 0.88

01:25:20.880 And you say it's degrading, um, disgusting and weird.

01:25:27.100 Um, yeah, perhaps I would grant that it's weird insofar as it's uncommon in that way.

01:25:35.720 Um, how's it degrading though?

01:25:38.220 Because why do you want me to bow to you?

01:25:40.360 Like, am I your servant?

01:25:42.120 Do I serve you?

01:25:43.340 I do serve do a lot of stuff, but if he asked me to do anything else, he calls me, can you

01:25:50.720 make dinner?

01:25:51.440 Can you do laundry?

01:25:52.300 Can you make sure that my socks are ready for work?

01:25:54.880 Whatever.

01:25:55.280 I will do it while I don't understand the bow.

01:25:58.120 I won't do it.

01:25:58.700 Okay.

01:25:59.360 I, I'm definitely not the only person.

01:26:01.560 Sure.

01:26:01.880 A lot of people seem a little, uh, bamboozled.

01:26:05.640 I don't know why you would want it.

01:26:07.680 Yeah, I'll explain it in just a bit, but I, what about it, removing, removing the intention

01:26:16.120 or motivation behind the person who wants it, what in and of itself of actual, what

01:26:20.480 like doing the actual action itself, what is disgusting about it?

01:26:25.200 Disgusting might be a not good word to use.

01:26:29.180 I was just like, I was just going on, but okay.

01:26:32.520 Well, how's it degrading in and of itself?

01:26:37.680 Um, because I don't, there's no purpose at all other than that.

01:26:43.180 You want me to bow to you.

01:26:45.000 There's no other purpose.

01:26:47.100 Okay.

01:26:48.660 And, okay.

01:26:50.720 Let me ask you this.

01:26:51.680 Um, do you believe in chivalry?

01:26:54.100 Yeah.

01:26:54.820 What purpose does chivalry serve?

01:26:59.680 I don't know.

01:27:00.800 Just, but women quite frequently want men to act in a chivalrous way. 1.00

01:27:06.460 They want men to be chivalrous.

01:27:08.300 For example, would you want a man or would you at least acknowledge that it is under the

01:27:14.500 purview of chivalry for a man to open a woman's car door?

01:27:19.180 Sure.

01:27:21.740 I mean, I don't really expect that, but while women are not as physically strong as men,

01:27:28.220 women have the physical capacity to open a car door, they can do it. 1.00

01:27:34.680 It's, it requires more effort for the man to do it.

01:27:38.000 He has to walk out, you know, get out of the car.

01:27:41.260 I mean, it depends the circumstances.

01:27:42.920 Either he's already outside the car, has to open the car, go around the car.

01:27:47.200 Why should a man do that? 0.91

01:27:48.660 Well, I don't expect that, but I do think it's nice.

01:27:52.260 And I think it's nice for a woman to bow, but there's other forms of chivalry where there's 0.99

01:27:58.120 much higher expectation.

01:28:00.740 I almost think we should maybe watch the bow video just to show the guests here.

01:28:05.880 Maybe some aren't familiar.

01:28:06.940 Why don't we pull up the bow video just to give people context.

01:28:11.900 Oh, it's your ex-girlfriend?

01:28:13.300 Yeah, this is a video.

01:28:14.260 I, I, I do this because it's like a, a tutorial, an instruction manual for future girlfriends.

01:28:22.140 Instead of having to like explain it, it's just, I feel like it's helpful to give women

01:28:26.880 a visual aid, show them a video, you know, that way they know like a, you know, so I,

01:28:34.200 I took this video so I could show future girlfriends expectations.

01:28:39.120 I recorded this after a long day doing a podcast.

01:28:42.840 Go ahead and play it.

01:28:46.840 Oh, huge bow.

01:28:48.720 The great depth, submissive hand posture.

01:28:51.220 Love to see it.

01:28:52.860 And of course, you know, I getting my laundry.

01:28:57.360 Yep.

01:28:58.500 And then my dinner's ready.

01:29:00.660 Gotta love that.

01:29:01.480 Dinner's ready.

01:29:02.280 Unprompted.

01:29:02.880 Don't have to ask.

01:29:03.700 Ready to go.

01:29:05.560 Cracks open a beer for me.

01:29:07.640 I don't even drink beer, but I just have it there anyways.

01:29:12.840 I dumped her though for the, you see that in the corner, right corner, there's like those 0.78

01:29:16.300 tomatoes.

01:29:16.960 That's disgusting. 0.82

01:29:17.780 I had to dump her because of that. 1.00

01:29:19.480 Absolutely ridiculous. 0.99

01:29:20.780 Play the bow one more time. 0.97

01:29:24.400 Huge bow.

01:29:25.200 This is expectation.

01:29:27.080 I get home.

01:29:28.120 I'm handling everything by the way.

01:29:30.180 She's not working.

01:29:31.700 I'm handling all the finances.

01:29:34.560 I just want to bow when I get home. 1.00

01:29:36.760 What the fuck? 1.00

01:29:37.680 I'm at home fucking slaving. 1.00

01:29:38.760 I'm not the only one. 0.99

01:29:40.360 That's fine.

01:29:41.180 I don't know.

01:29:41.900 Nick, do you remember those memes of like, yes, I, oh, wait, where would it be?

01:29:46.380 Why would anyone bow to a man?

01:29:48.020 It's going to be in the Discord, Nick.

01:29:49.920 Why would a woman bow to a man? 1.00

01:29:51.620 Is it, where is it?

01:29:52.120 Hold on.

01:29:52.480 I'm trying to find it.

01:29:53.100 Well, I would bow for my man because he stepped up, first of all, to be a father to a child

01:29:56.940 that is not his.

01:29:58.260 He provides for me in ways that other men have never.

01:30:02.240 And if it makes them happy and that's something that he wants, then yeah, why not?

01:30:06.140 It's just like cooking dinner for him.

01:30:07.720 It's yes, you are all wrong.

01:30:09.020 Do you feel like you're lesser than him?

01:30:10.980 It's like four on the top.

01:30:12.000 Why are you attached to being lesser?

01:30:13.580 It's in so many cultures.

01:30:14.580 And he will even tell you that he is my equal.

01:30:16.840 Will he bow to you then?

01:30:17.880 You have it.

01:30:18.420 He would.

01:30:19.040 He probably would.

01:30:19.760 Well, then that's cool. 0.56

01:30:20.420 If a dude bowed to me, I would be gross.

01:30:22.720 I don't want him to.

01:30:24.020 I think that's so weird.

01:30:26.000 But just like if he were to open my door for me because that's chivalrous, I would bow

01:30:30.560 for him.

01:30:31.540 Tab over to the other one.

01:30:33.240 I don't know.

01:30:34.160 I think I'm too.

01:30:34.700 No, I'm not.

01:30:35.320 I really would.

01:30:36.200 We already had this conversation.

01:30:36.940 Yes, you are all wrong.

01:30:38.180 Tab over to the other one.

01:30:40.000 I think I'm...

01:30:40.840 No, just, yeah, that one.

01:30:42.040 Yes, you're all...

01:30:42.780 That's me. 0.88

01:30:43.680 I don't care if a million people think this is silly or whatever. 0.64

01:30:46.820 Don't care.

01:30:47.840 I'm willing to stand up for what I believe in.

01:30:50.140 So, yeah, my position is simply if I'm going to be hustling to the point that this woman 1.00

01:30:57.940 I'm with never has to work ever and I'm taking care of everything financially, everything

01:31:03.260 is taken care of for her, then my expectation is yes.

01:31:07.480 Yeah.

01:31:08.080 I'm honestly like too gooned out to say that.

01:31:10.760 I don't care what you have to say.

01:31:11.640 The thing that comes to my mind about the bowing is like that Asian girl is kind of hot 1.00

01:31:15.160 and I low-key just like would want to see her like squirt those cherry tomatoes out 1.00

01:31:18.420 her vagina into her man's mouth. 1.00

01:31:21.000 What does gooned out mean? 1.00

01:31:22.260 You're...

01:31:22.280 Okay.

01:31:22.660 So, that is what I...

01:31:23.980 I would expect that from like my other...

01:31:26.660 Bro.

01:31:27.100 Does that make sense? 1.00

01:31:27.460 You're fucking vulgar, lady. 1.00

01:31:29.520 Gooby, can we not cuss on this? 1.00

01:31:30.920 Is this not...

01:31:31.240 No, it's just like...

01:31:31.980 Is this a non-cussing thing?

01:31:33.060 No, you don't have to cuss to say the vulgar things that you're saying. 1.00

01:31:36.300 Is he talking about putting tomatoes in the vagina? 1.00

01:31:39.920 The fuck, dude? 1.00

01:31:40.860 Well... 1.00

01:31:41.260 All right, I'll get...

01:31:41.900 That's a real woman, though. 0.95

01:31:43.480 I'm going to figure...

01:31:44.360 I'm going to get to my point and then I'm going to address you.

01:31:47.540 So, back to this.

01:31:50.060 Go ahead.

01:31:52.640 Anything else.

01:31:53.820 Almost anything else.

01:31:55.500 I do not want to bow.

01:31:56.820 Fine.

01:31:57.180 Why not?

01:31:58.760 What's...

01:31:59.160 It may...

01:31:59.640 But you...

01:32:00.180 Can I ask you a question?

01:32:01.020 You acknowledge it takes...

01:32:02.340 It's completely benign.

01:32:03.880 Like the actual...

01:32:04.560 Yeah, it's silly.

01:32:05.040 It takes no effort. 0.65

01:32:05.800 Maybe that's why.

01:32:06.480 But it takes no effort, right?

01:32:09.040 No effort.

01:32:09.960 Sure.

01:32:10.160 Is there anything in terms of chivalry that men should do?

01:32:16.100 Should men pay for dates? 0.96

01:32:18.920 Sometimes.

01:32:19.720 Sometimes.

01:32:21.960 You're currently married?

01:32:25.440 Is your husband the breadwinner?

01:32:27.380 Nope.

01:32:28.180 Okay.

01:32:28.500 And does he pay for dates?

01:32:29.980 We pay for dates together.

01:32:32.880 We make about the same.

01:32:33.800 When you guys first met, would he pay for dates?

01:32:38.460 We didn't really go on dates, actually.

01:32:41.060 We just hung out.

01:32:42.620 Never ordered food?

01:32:44.360 Never got dinner?

01:32:45.340 We probably split it.

01:32:46.380 Like, probably sometimes him, sometimes me.

01:32:48.620 All right.

01:32:48.960 Have you ever...

01:32:50.320 With other men you've dated, have you ever had the experience that typically they tend to pay for dates?

01:32:57.020 Yes.

01:32:57.420 Okay.

01:32:57.900 And would you acknowledge that while your situation might be unique, I would argue overwhelmingly the majority of women, whether they're conservative or even liberal, even feminist, do typically have an expectation or at least strongly prefer men to pay for dates?

01:33:13.780 Yeah.

01:33:13.900 Can I make a comment about this?

01:33:15.480 Well, answer my question first.

01:33:16.720 Yes.

01:33:17.120 Then make your comment.

01:33:18.020 Definitely.

01:33:18.180 Yeah.

01:33:19.060 Yeah.

01:33:19.260 I think most women do.

01:33:20.780 Right.

01:33:21.060 Now, and I know lots of people say the person who initiated the date should be the person who pays.

01:33:28.920 But generally, who asks who on a date?

01:33:32.060 Generally, it's going to be the guy.

01:33:33.340 But if you say, will you go on a date with me to this really expensive restaurant?

01:33:38.820 And I say yes, that is not something I was planning to pay for until you ask me.

01:33:44.260 So what if I don't have $200 to go on the date?

01:33:47.360 You asked me on the date.

01:33:48.920 It's not something I'm like budgeting for.

01:33:51.780 You asked me.

01:33:52.600 Yeah.

01:33:52.780 I totally agree with you.

01:33:53.800 That's irrelevant, though.

01:33:55.820 How?

01:33:56.300 I'm just saying, if you make the plan, then you...

01:34:00.220 Yeah, so I would agree with you if you're like a 30-year-old going out with a 21-year-old

01:34:05.040 and you're going to go take her to Nobu or some really expensive restaurant, yeah, you

01:34:09.520 should pay for it.

01:34:11.060 If you're of comparable ages...

01:34:13.400 Well, look, actually, I think generally speaking, men should pay across the board.

01:34:16.880 It's just like the most...

01:34:19.080 Even though I can make like a bird's-eye view analysis of like, yeah, that's inequality,

01:34:24.280 men for the most optimum chess move on the dating board, you should just pay as a guy. 0.92

01:34:29.460 That's the most optimum move.

01:34:32.580 But my point would be to this idea that, okay, well, men are overwhelmingly the askers, right?

01:34:42.400 So this idea that whoever I should pay conveniently does ignore that women really don't take that 1.00

01:34:50.600 level of initiative, generally speaking.

01:34:53.440 Now, that's not to say some women shoot their shot. 1.00

01:34:56.160 Some women will ask the guy out. 1.00

01:34:58.220 But really rare.

01:35:00.540 So it's kind of like this whole whoever I should pay thing.

01:35:04.180 I would agree with that sentiment if it was the case that men and women asked each other

01:35:09.740 out at comparable rates.

01:35:11.080 If it was like 50-50 or 40-60, then I'd be like, yeah, you know what, whoever I should

01:35:16.180 pay.

01:35:16.380 But it just conveniently ignores this really obvious thing that women don't shoot their 1.00

01:35:24.100 shot.

01:35:25.100 Women don't ask... 1.00

01:35:26.380 Generally, don't ask men out for first dates.

01:35:31.020 And you might say, well, I was dating this guy for three months and I asked him, well,

01:35:34.560 okay.

01:35:35.240 Talking about like first, second, third dates.

01:35:37.000 Women overwhelmingly are not initiators. 1.00

01:35:39.320 I don't think that's true.

01:35:42.280 It's 100% true.

01:35:43.540 It's true.

01:35:43.940 100% true.

01:35:45.040 I think statistically it's true.

01:35:46.600 But yeah, there are women that will ask, you know, guys out. 1.00

01:35:50.400 But if we look at like...

01:35:51.500 What's not true?

01:35:53.140 What's not true?

01:35:53.840 Women. 0.81

01:35:54.640 Like...

01:35:55.080 Men are going to ask women out more. 0.89

01:35:56.300 Tell me what isn't true.

01:35:57.080 Has anyone here asked a man out for first?

01:35:59.600 Sure.

01:35:59.700 Oh my God.

01:36:00.960 I made it so clear that I'm talking.

01:36:02.720 But that doesn't...

01:36:03.140 So exactly.

01:36:03.940 He's talking about like...

01:36:04.780 Oh my God. 1.00

01:36:05.380 Holy shit. 1.00

01:36:06.040 Like generally, if we all have, then how is it rare statistically? 0.99

01:36:10.660 Like that's like...

01:36:12.220 Yeah.

01:36:12.560 No, no.

01:36:13.020 I love that.

01:36:13.840 Here's what we do.

01:36:14.680 Eight women in a room. 1.00

01:36:15.900 Yeah.

01:36:16.160 It doesn't matter.

01:36:16.680 And we all have.

01:36:17.120 It wouldn't matter if every single one of you have had an experience where one time

01:36:21.620 you asked the guy out and you paid for the date.

01:36:24.560 We would then have to say, of all the dates you've ever been on, if the breakdown

01:36:28.720 is, 90% of the time the guy pays and 10% of the time you pay, my point would still stand.

01:36:36.120 Does that make sense?

01:36:38.560 You're doing a...

01:36:39.760 How...

01:36:40.200 How...

01:36:40.600 What?

01:36:41.240 Oh my God, bro.

01:36:42.320 What?

01:36:42.520 Just because we've done it once doesn't mean that makes it the majority of time.

01:36:46.440 My point was not...

01:36:48.520 There's never in the history of the world has a woman ever asked a guy out. 0.99

01:36:53.620 That wasn't my position.

01:36:54.700 My position is, overwhelmingly, generally speaking, women don't initiate. 1.00

01:36:59.720 And I would put that number at probably, I'm almost being generous, 90%.

01:37:04.260 90% of the time is probably higher.

01:37:08.640 90% of the time, the guy's the one asking, the guy's doing the initiative, the guy's going

01:37:11.960 to pay.

01:37:14.680 Is this counter to your own experiences?

01:37:17.640 No, no.

01:37:18.600 I mean, not really.

01:37:19.760 Like, I guess...

01:37:20.700 You've been on how many first dates?

01:37:24.120 A lot.

01:37:24.920 How many?

01:37:27.980 Like, probably more than 50.

01:37:33.260 Okay.

01:37:33.760 And then, of the 50, first dates, by the way, not like you've been dating a guy for three

01:37:39.500 years and you guys went to dinner.

01:37:41.020 Yeah.

01:37:42.220 50 first dates.

01:37:43.620 How many of those did you initiate?

01:37:45.180 I don't know.

01:37:49.640 Maybe, like, 20%.

01:37:51.220 I guess.

01:37:53.060 Yeah, I guess you're right.

01:37:54.260 Then, like, 10 or 20%.

01:37:55.640 So, you're...

01:37:56.500 I mean, you're reinforcing my point.

01:37:58.700 Yeah.

01:37:59.220 Now I get it.

01:38:00.200 I guess I just understand the dates.

01:38:01.460 And then, of the dates.

01:38:01.960 Of the dates.

01:38:02.860 From a different perspective.

01:38:04.020 Okay.

01:38:04.780 Yeah.

01:38:05.280 Who paid for those dates? 0.91

01:38:06.180 Honestly, I'm a 50-50 girl.

01:38:10.860 Sometimes, like, I'll make the guy pay if I'm not that into him.

01:38:16.260 But, like...

01:38:16.900 Wait, you make the guy pay if you're not into him?

01:38:18.920 Yeah.

01:38:20.880 That's interesting.

01:38:21.920 Usually, I hear the reverse.

01:38:23.340 I hear if the girl's not feeling it, she'll want it to be 50-50.

01:38:26.860 But, okay.

01:38:27.820 Well, because then it's just a waste of my money if I wasn't into it.

01:38:31.080 Right.

01:38:31.480 You know?

01:38:32.560 But, again, I'm a bit confused.

01:38:35.000 So, even in...

01:38:36.440 Here's my confusion.

01:38:38.280 Even in your own experience, you would say 20% of the time, the guy initiates.

01:38:43.440 No, no.

01:38:44.100 Opposite.

01:38:44.780 Sorry.

01:38:45.200 Yeah.

01:38:45.460 I mixed up my words.

01:38:47.140 20% of the time, you initiate.

01:38:48.760 Yeah.

01:38:48.920 80% of the time, the guy initiates.

01:38:51.440 Yeah.

01:38:52.580 So, wouldn't that bolster my position that women don't initiate? 1.00

01:38:57.580 I mean, I guess.

01:38:59.000 But, I think, like, generally, women have initiated the first day.

01:39:03.480 But, I guess, overall, like...

01:39:05.420 Yeah.

01:39:05.720 I don't dispute that whatsoever.

01:39:07.380 It absolutely is the case that women do initiate. 1.00

01:39:11.020 Yeah, yeah.

01:39:11.440 I know what you're saying.

01:39:12.020 But, what I'm talking about is it's rare.

01:39:13.580 Yeah, I agree with you.

01:39:14.000 Yeah.

01:39:14.180 Like, I think it's probably 90-10.

01:39:15.940 I don't know if it's rare.

01:39:17.260 I feel like all women have at least one cell. 1.00

01:39:20.020 So...

01:39:20.420 Have one?

01:39:20.920 They just want free food.

01:39:22.500 Yeah.

01:39:23.080 Yeah.

01:39:23.760 Wait.

01:39:24.080 Have...

01:39:24.360 Sorry.

01:39:24.660 Women all have one what? 1.00

01:39:25.820 They all have at least once, like, initiated the first date.

01:39:29.680 Right.

01:39:29.920 But, if they've been on 100 dates and one time they initiated, that means 99% of the time.

01:39:37.020 And, in this case, I've had many women on the show who said, I've never initiated.

01:39:42.560 Never once.

01:39:43.220 Never once.

01:39:43.760 Never once.

01:39:43.880 Anybody else?

01:39:44.800 Never.

01:39:45.560 Anybody?

01:39:46.040 Okay.

01:39:46.880 Only when I want free food.

01:39:48.660 Let's get back to the bowel thing here.

01:39:50.640 Oh, hold on.

01:39:51.580 Pasty George.

01:39:52.240 I apologize.

01:39:53.400 My bad.

01:39:54.080 Pasty George donated $200.

01:39:57.780 Share one.

01:39:58.660 Why should a woman vote to a man, you say? 1.00

01:40:01.280 What?

01:40:01.700 Well, why should a man vote to a woman when proposing to her for marriage? 1.00

01:40:06.220 Is that standard practice?

01:40:07.520 Because I haven't heard of that.

01:40:09.540 Yeah, like, getting down on one knee.

01:40:11.280 Yeah, but that's not bowing.

01:40:12.880 I kind of think...

01:40:13.720 I think he meant the getting down on one knee thing.

01:40:15.580 That's a good point.

01:40:16.840 Yeah.

01:40:17.280 That is a good point.

01:40:18.340 That is a good point.

01:40:19.320 That's a really good philosophy.

01:40:19.880 Thank you, Pasty George.

01:40:20.720 But this happens one time.

01:40:23.080 Or twice.

01:40:25.000 About every single day you get home is different.

01:40:28.800 Yeah.

01:40:29.460 Yeah.

01:40:29.780 Well, I would actually...

01:40:30.720 Here's my argumentation here.

01:40:32.180 So, if the expectation is the guy should pay on the first date, right?

01:40:35.180 He pays for the whole bill.

01:40:36.260 And let's say it's not a super expensive place.

01:40:38.160 Let's say $100 total for the date.

01:40:41.820 And that could be...

01:40:43.120 I think that's pretty reasonable.

01:40:45.060 That might even be a little bit on the...

01:40:46.820 Slightly on the low end, even.

01:40:49.140 It's...

01:40:49.620 You know, that's like Chili's.

01:40:51.100 You'll pay $100 at Chili's for two people.

01:40:54.480 Not exactly like the most romantic.

01:40:57.680 Hey, but Chili's is good.

01:40:58.840 $100 at Chili's is a lot.

01:40:59.920 That means no cost.

01:41:00.680 No, I don't know.

01:41:01.600 Nowadays.

01:41:02.200 No, I don't know.

01:41:02.660 I have a cocktail.

01:41:03.540 It's like $40.

01:41:05.280 Appetizers, two drinks, main course, dessert, tip.

01:41:08.620 Yeah, you're getting to $100.

01:41:12.240 I mean, they got some deals.

01:41:13.460 I pay that much at yogurt land now.

01:41:14.140 They got some deals.

01:41:14.960 But like my thought process here for...

01:41:18.200 Let's say a guy makes $20 an hour.

01:41:20.280 $20 an hour.

01:41:21.880 In order for him to take you on that date, he has to work five hours.

01:41:26.540 Why?

01:41:27.120 That's before...

01:41:28.260 Whatever.

01:41:28.660 Let's say he just makes $20 an hour.

01:41:30.100 We're not going to complicate things with tax.

01:41:32.320 He has to work five hours to take you on the date.

01:41:34.900 Now, you might say, well, hold on, half of it is for him, so that would be two and a

01:41:40.540 half hours, right?

01:41:41.520 50 bucks for you, 50 bucks for him.

01:41:43.560 He has to work two and a half hours.

01:41:45.720 If a woman bows every single time, that takes three seconds. 1.00

01:41:49.260 That's like equal to one, like total time, if we're doing the math here, total time.

01:41:55.080 That's like one date, maybe, over a lifetime.

01:41:57.320 If she's bowing to me every single day for like 70 years or, well, 50, 40, 50, whatever.

01:42:03.660 So, however many...

01:42:04.700 I don't know.

01:42:05.280 I might die.

01:42:06.000 Who knows when I'm...

01:42:06.800 Whatever.

01:42:07.440 Who knows how long I'm going to live?

01:42:10.260 Kind of like, and I'm going to be taking her on all these dates and when we're together,

01:42:15.260 when she has kids, she's never going to have to work.

01:42:18.380 I'll take care of everything.

01:42:21.780 But what if I don't want you to take care of everything?

01:42:24.140 I like working.

01:42:25.260 Well, look, there is a financial and economic reality that there are men and women out there

01:42:32.500 who, while the man isn't going to earn a high enough income for that, and maybe you're going

01:42:41.140 to have more of a 50-50 relationship.

01:42:42.860 But there are a lot of men who are going to want to be sole breadwinners, who do want

01:42:53.500 to take on more of a leadership role in the relationship.

01:42:56.820 Also, even this idea that if you both are financially providing for the relationship, and perhaps

01:43:04.140 that is the financial and economic reality for the vast majority of people, you're still

01:43:09.140 going to look to your man, I assume, to adhere to certain traditional gender roles.

01:43:15.760 Like, you're going to want a man who's a leader, who's decisive, who's masculine.

01:43:20.820 Like, I hear this complaint even from liberal progressive women. 1.00

01:43:24.580 Oh, my God.

01:43:26.120 Oh.

01:43:27.680 You know, he just asks me, I ask him, what about dinner?

01:43:32.660 And he's like, oh, whatever you want, babe.

01:43:36.320 You pick.

01:43:37.960 And some women are okay with that, I guess. 1.00

01:43:39.940 But a lot of women are like, I'd prefer a guy who's like, no, we're going here. 1.00

01:43:44.040 Be ready at 7 p.m.

01:43:45.320 Wear this.

01:43:46.220 I'm picking up.

01:43:47.460 Some women want that, right? 1.00

01:43:49.640 So I would argue, even if you guys are both financially contributing equally, even in those

01:43:55.480 relationships, you're still going to look to your boyfriend or husband to act in a certain

01:44:00.780 way that is more within a masculine, traditional gender role.

01:44:05.080 But I still act in a pretty consistent gender role as well.

01:44:09.700 Like, I stay home with the kids every single day.

01:44:11.880 I take my daughter to school.

01:44:13.920 I make dinner.

01:44:14.700 Like, I do pretty much fall into, like, I'd say gender roles are a good fallback, but they 0.99

01:44:23.960 don't always have to be this exact thing.

01:44:26.300 Like, exact.

01:44:27.340 Like, maybe some things are different.

01:44:29.700 So, like what?

01:44:31.180 What's negotiable?

01:44:32.300 Like, my husband helps me with the laundry and the dishes and generally would probably

01:44:41.040 say, generally as a gender role, you would probably say the woman's doing the dishes 1.00

01:44:47.920 and laundry. 0.90

01:44:49.160 But he always helps me every day.

01:44:51.380 Yeah, my ex did that too when I lived with him. 0.92

01:44:54.680 He, like, did, like, the shit I didn't want to do, you know? 0.83

01:44:57.680 Okay, look, I think it's okay for you guys to want to be 50-50, but, like, I think you 0.98

01:45:04.260 should genuinely be 50-50 in all dimensions, at least attempt to, in all dimensions and

01:45:10.380 all realms.

01:45:11.220 I don't see women abandoning the benefits of more traditional or the benefits of gender

01:45:20.160 expectations and gender role dynamics.

01:45:23.380 So, for example, when it comes to initiative, even, like, hyper-progressive liberal women 1.00

01:45:28.780 who want to be, like, boss babe 50-50 career women, still probably going to look for the 1.00

01:45:34.080 man to take initiative.

01:45:35.500 Why aren't we having this push for women to take a more proactive approach to dating? 1.00

01:45:43.180 Why don't women shoot their shot at comparable levels to when... 1.00

01:45:48.520 Because of society. 0.60

01:45:49.860 There's nothing preventing...

01:45:51.180 There's not a law that prevents women from doing this. 1.00

01:45:53.900 Women are more free now than at any other point in human history. 1.00

01:45:57.940 Women have more rights, more freedoms, more everything, more opportunity, more privilege 1.00

01:46:01.980 than at any other point in human history. 0.96

01:46:04.780 Women absolutely can shoot their shot. 1.00

01:46:06.900 In fact, it's incredibly easy.

01:46:08.260 You can even do it online now.

01:46:10.780 So this...

01:46:11.140 And sort of having to skate around, like, a more upfront, in-person rejection.

01:46:17.620 How many women have shot their shot with you first, do you think, recently, I guess?

01:46:24.860 Like, do a lot?

01:46:25.420 I'm not a great example because I'm out there publicly.

01:46:27.840 I have this popular podcast.

01:46:29.720 But yes, I do get DM'd by women. 1.00

01:46:33.460 Yeah.

01:46:34.960 Would you like...

01:46:35.620 Well, you're saying they don't.

01:46:36.700 Why don't they?

01:46:37.300 Yeah, but I think, like, okay, you know...

01:46:39.180 The numbers for a public figure are way different.

01:46:42.460 You know, like, Brad Pitt when he was 30.

01:46:45.360 Oh, God.

01:46:46.540 You know, all these women coming up to him.

01:46:48.700 Let's map on Brad Pitt's experience to the experience of, like, average men.

01:46:53.580 Mm-hmm.

01:46:55.180 The reality is, I'm in this unique situation where I'm out there in the public.

01:46:59.880 But the average guy, women aren't, like, sliding into his DMs. 1.00

01:47:04.060 Women aren't doing that. 1.00

01:47:05.200 But, like...

01:47:05.900 I would say, though...

01:47:06.460 I feel like, if you're a good-looking guy, women will just, like, do that nowadays. 0.95

01:47:12.540 Some do.

01:47:12.980 That's true.

01:47:13.700 Well...

01:47:14.020 For sure.

01:47:14.700 But the majority is men.

01:47:16.400 Or, uh, men have to pursue women, for sure.

01:47:20.160 But, like, you're saying...

01:47:21.360 That might be the case.

01:47:22.040 Why don't they?

01:47:22.940 But they do.

01:47:24.260 Right, but okay, so what about, like, average men?

01:47:26.180 For example, average...

01:47:27.840 I would argue that in terms of the sexual optionality, if...

01:47:33.000 In order to get the same sexual optionality...

01:47:35.180 As an average, or even below-average looking woman... 1.00

01:47:38.740 Yeah.

01:47:39.080 You have to be a top 1% guy.

01:47:42.140 Well...

01:47:42.740 What do you mean?

01:47:44.280 Oh, yeah.

01:47:44.740 So the frequency with which a top 1% guy is going to get DMs, or, like, women approaching

01:47:50.020 him in public...

01:47:50.860 Yeah.

01:47:51.260 ...is probably, like, if he is equal to an average or below-average looking woman. 0.96

01:47:59.540 That makes sense, yeah.

01:48:00.880 So, like, the frequency with which even average-looking women get approached or hit up in the DMs... 1.00

01:48:05.580 So you're just calling men dogs, right?

01:48:10.280 Because, like...

01:48:11.140 Not necessarily, but...

01:48:13.380 Do you think men have standards when it comes to women? 0.96

01:48:17.400 Yes, men do have standards. 0.76

01:48:18.800 Although, there's a differentiation between men who are just trying to have sex with women, and then men who want relationships. 0.88

01:48:24.860 But, yes, women are pickier. 1.00

01:48:29.820 I don't disagree. 0.85

01:48:31.260 Women are pickier, yeah. 1.00

01:48:32.420 But, like, I still think it depends on the woman's, like, morals and values in a relationship. 1.00

01:48:38.420 Like, if they genuinely like a guy who's, like, super insecure, and they know that, then they'd probably be like...

01:48:44.800 Like, they'd at least drop the hint.

01:48:46.920 You know what I mean?

01:48:48.480 But you don't know if a guy is insecure or, like, that...

01:48:51.720 You can tell if a guy's insecure.

01:48:53.980 No, you...

01:48:54.380 Not every single man.

01:48:55.660 Some men carry themselves at a really high standard.

01:48:57.780 It's kind of a fake it until you make it.

01:49:00.420 Think of women, for instance, that do that. 1.00

01:49:02.020 I feel like it's super easy to tell if a guy's insecure.

01:49:05.160 I can speak from experience that some of the most, what I thought, were confident secure men... 0.98

01:49:09.740 Yeah, the cocky-ass men are hella insecure. 0.90

01:49:11.920 But I couldn't tell that at first. 0.98

01:49:13.060 Right.

01:49:13.580 That was a present I got much later.

01:49:15.520 Everybody can fake it until they make it.

01:49:18.580 Pasty George donated $200.

01:49:19.960 Yo, Pasty, thank you.

01:49:20.780 I don't know.

01:49:21.820 Chair three, based on your answers and replies, I can already tell that your marriage won't last long and that you will be...

01:49:28.560 Totally wrong.

01:49:29.640 My husband's the best person ever. 0.98

01:49:31.340 ...some ridiculous claim. 0.97

01:49:32.580 RIP, poor husband. 0.99

01:49:34.460 Aww.

01:49:35.480 Oh.

01:49:36.020 Just for the sake of this conversation, I think it would be helpful to point one thing out.

01:49:39.860 When I'm saying these terms, when I'm saying something like, women do X, this is a generalized statement. 0.62

01:49:48.900 Yeah.

01:49:49.320 So when I say, women don't initiate, and sometimes I'll even preface it, I'll say generally. 0.98

01:49:54.680 This isn't to say that women never do it. 1.00

01:49:58.320 So if I say, women don't initiate, that's a general statement. 0.88

01:50:02.220 Yeah.

01:50:02.380 For example, hide it, because they're going to be distracted.

01:50:06.660 If I were to say that humans have 10 fingers, it is the case that some people are born with an extra digit.

01:50:16.460 Yeah.

01:50:16.800 They have an extra finger.

01:50:18.200 It's not wrong of me to say that humans have 10 fingers.

01:50:22.000 Yeah.

01:50:22.280 Now, yes, it is true, but just for the sake of the conversation, I would implore you not to do the, but I know this exception to the rule.

01:50:32.720 I'm talking about the general idea here.

01:50:35.760 Yeah.

01:50:36.220 Okay?

01:50:36.820 Okay.

01:50:37.320 Okay.

01:50:39.940 Where was I?

01:50:42.920 What was I?

01:50:44.660 Thank you, Pacey George, for the TTS man.

01:50:46.820 I appreciate it.

01:50:48.680 We're finishing up with the, does anybody,

01:50:51.220 maybe I can ask this.

01:50:53.740 Thank you, Tosh.

01:50:57.500 That's my bestie.

01:50:59.620 I guess related to the whole date thing, though, that's kind of where the segue started.

01:51:07.060 I actually think women have higher expectations of men.

01:51:12.160 No.

01:51:13.200 Not in this day and age.

01:51:14.760 No, I think.

01:51:15.860 Definitely not.

01:51:16.480 Are you kidding me?

01:51:17.020 You want a $10 million man, but you don't have high expectations for men.

01:51:19.340 That's why I want a $10 million man, because nowadays, guys are just, like, willingly giving out their money,

01:51:23.300 because they're just so gooned out, like, with OnlyFans and Pornhub.

01:51:27.020 Like, men's standards have dropped.

01:51:29.700 Men's standards have dropped.

01:51:31.820 Like, there are, there's no such thing as, like, oh, I'm like, wow, you're such a high-value man.

01:51:36.680 And you look at his browser history, and oh, there I, oh, hi, now I see you.

01:51:40.940 That's not his value for marriage, though. 0.70

01:51:42.960 That's his value for sex.

01:51:43.920 The marriage is also overrated.

01:51:45.320 Nobody's getting married in this generation.

01:51:47.260 All right, let's stick to the topic, please.

01:51:49.680 So, the bow.

01:51:52.280 What were your remarks?

01:51:53.800 Will it ever end?

01:51:54.880 Okay.

01:51:55.640 Okay.

01:51:57.380 Can I respond to Pacey George from earlier?

01:52:01.480 Yeah.

01:52:02.040 Well, I disagree.

01:52:05.580 We've been friends since 18, like, so we've known each other the majority of our lives,

01:52:11.400 and very, very, very, very happy, both of us.

01:52:15.620 So, I disagree.

01:52:17.080 Yeah, that's fine.

01:52:17.640 Let me ask you.

01:52:19.380 If I say to my husband, bowing seems embarrassing to me,

01:52:24.860 why would he make me do something that's going to embarrass me every day?

01:52:27.640 If I'm like, I think it's embarrassing for you to come home and ask me to bow.

01:52:33.680 Yeah, sure.

01:52:34.120 I mean, well, obviously, there's a difference here,

01:52:36.180 because this sort of thing would, for lack of a better word,

01:52:40.800 would typically be negotiated, and it wouldn't be negotiated,

01:52:45.320 but it would be established early on in the relationship.

01:52:48.780 You guys have been together for eight years.

01:52:50.740 Ten.

01:52:51.400 Oh, ten.

01:52:52.300 Married eight.

01:52:52.800 You know, it's kind of like, for example,

01:52:58.120 if you date a woman who's a sex worker,

01:53:01.540 and you knowingly, you marry her,

01:53:06.160 you kind of signed up for that.

01:53:08.020 He's signed up for you.

01:53:10.980 This is obviously something that you would want to present early on.

01:53:16.880 Although there's probably arguments that could be made that...

01:53:20.020 Yeah, but why is that a big deal if a woman is a sex worker and a guy wants to date her? 1.00

01:53:24.740 Being in a marriage, you're already a sex worker. 0.98

01:53:27.220 So it's like, you're just a free sex worker. 0.99

01:53:29.400 No, it's true. 1.00

01:53:29.900 You're just a free sex worker. 1.00

01:53:30.880 So basically, all you who are in a relationship, you're all sex workers. 1.00

01:53:33.340 But you're just getting fucked for free. 1.00

01:53:35.260 So that's your only downfall. 1.00

01:53:36.220 How is a woman in a consensual relationship with a man a sex worker? 1.00

01:53:39.940 Because she's having sex and she's working. 1.00

01:53:41.500 She's a sex worker. 1.00

01:53:42.380 Isn't he a sex worker too then? 0.99

01:53:44.000 They're both sex workers. 0.98

01:53:44.720 Exactly. 0.99

01:53:45.160 So you're all sex workers. 1.00

01:53:46.100 So for you shitting on a sex worker, for a guy dating a sex worker, technically, marriage, 1.00

01:53:51.700 you're also being a sex worker. 1.00

01:53:52.740 How does I shit on a sex worker? 1.00

01:53:53.900 Being in a committed relationship and having intimacy does not make you a sex worker. 1.00

01:53:57.920 You are a sex worker. 1.00

01:53:58.800 You're just a free sex worker. 1.00

01:54:00.040 That's absolutely rich coming from you. 1.00

01:54:02.420 So under your perspective, nobody can have sex. 0.99

01:54:06.400 Anybody who has sex is immediately a sex worker. 0.96

01:54:09.860 Yes. 0.99

01:54:10.140 So the two virgins, they have sex, they instantly become sex workers by virtue of having sex. 0.99

01:54:17.360 Yes. 0.90

01:54:17.800 I think it's sad that you can't differentiate the two at this point.

01:54:21.660 Yeah.

01:54:21.900 Well, you're having sex and you're going to work and that's the definition. 0.91

01:54:24.740 I love that you're trying to, I know you'd like your attention. 0.77

01:54:27.220 Back to this.

01:54:29.280 We're finishing up the conversation about the bow.

01:54:31.700 Well, yeah, I mean, ultimately, I would say in terms of what women want men to do for 0.84

01:54:41.440 them, I think it's way more than the bow, but privilege is invisible to those who have

01:54:47.720 it.

01:54:48.140 And I would say that a lot of the things that men do, women just sort of expect it, really 0.99

01:54:54.520 haven't given it much thought.

01:54:55.780 But if we look at the marriage ritual, the man has to get down on one knee, buy a ring.

01:55:03.640 Like I think kneeling, kneeling, that's worse than a bow.

01:55:10.540 To kneel, like a bow, at least you stay on your feet.

01:55:14.680 A kneel is really subservient.

01:55:17.140 But same thing, you do that one time, you want to bow every day for the rest of your life.

01:55:21.980 Yeah, but the other component here is that he's got to buy the ring, his money, sometimes

01:55:29.900 the expectation.

01:55:30.780 But I bought his ring.

01:55:32.160 Okay, well, you're a moderate.

01:55:33.640 Congrats.

01:55:34.560 Isn't that, don't you buy the man's ring?

01:55:36.660 He bought mine, I bought him.

01:55:37.340 I feel like that's not that way.

01:55:38.360 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

01:55:41.500 What percentage, oh my God.

01:55:46.620 What percentage of the time when a ring is bought, is it bought by the man?

01:55:51.980 Can we not do this thing?

01:55:53.940 I already told her.

01:55:54.900 Can we not do this thing where like, well, I'm the exception to the rule, I'm speaking

01:55:59.280 in generalities.

01:56:00.360 I actually, is that weird that if he bought my engagement ring, I bought his wedding ring.

01:56:06.560 Is that different?

01:56:07.880 Like, do you actually not think, to her point, do you think it's uncommon that typically the

01:56:13.740 man pays for the ring and is the one who proposes?

01:56:16.320 He did, he did.

01:56:17.700 That wasn't what I was saying.

01:56:18.700 Wait, what were you saying?

01:56:19.560 But I bought his wedding ring, he has a wedding ring too, I bought his.

01:56:23.200 He's asking if it's common for the fiancé to then return the favor in there.

01:56:26.380 So he bought my ring, I bought his ring.

01:56:29.580 I was already financially supported by my fiancé at the time, so when we paid for his ring,

01:56:34.040 it was, you know.

01:56:34.740 He bought it.

01:56:35.240 I've never been engaged, so I've never done it.

01:56:36.280 Yeah, but that's a great question, I don't know the answer to that.

01:56:38.840 I think most men buy both of them.

01:56:41.040 I could be wrong, I've never been proposed to or married.

01:56:42.800 I'm not really surprised by that.

01:56:45.440 I think that the mass majority of men buy both of them.

01:56:47.260 Okay, here, I'll engage you.

01:56:48.420 A man's ring costs a lot less than a woman's ring, let's be clear. 0.99

01:56:51.360 Yeah, the question is, did he spend more on the ring that he gave you than what you spent for his?

01:57:00.080 Okay, we should try to avoid doing these, like, exception-to-the-rule arguments because it's not really productive.

01:57:12.720 But okay, so I'm just trying to get an understanding here.

01:57:19.800 A guy should kneel, a guy should spend thousands of dollars on a ring, but bowing bad.

01:57:30.960 We can't guarantee a guy's going to propose, so why bow to a man every day who might not even, like...

01:57:37.800 Well, why do anything for anybody, then?

01:57:40.280 Amen.

01:57:41.260 Yeah.

01:57:43.080 Well, but, like, I just don't see how that's, like...

01:57:45.800 I'm just, I guess my question is, so, in a relationship, there are things that you expect to go both ways.

01:57:54.420 Yeah.

01:57:54.880 You expect good communication.

01:57:57.140 I mean, these are sort of bare minimum things.

01:57:59.340 I understand that, frankly, I think both men and women are lacking in this regard.

01:58:04.460 But women certainly aren't shy about complaining about men's poor communication skills, 0.93

01:58:10.500 although perhaps it's the case that men and women communicate differently.

01:58:13.300 In any case, good communication, loyalty, treating each other well, being kind to one another,

01:58:22.520 putting, caring about the other person's needs, these sorts of things, right?

01:58:27.880 Being there for your boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, husband, whatever, wife.

01:58:32.060 However, on top of all that, there, it occurs to me that there are things specifically expected of men.

01:58:41.860 Provide and protect would be the primary ones.

01:58:45.020 And then...

01:58:47.060 Shouldn't we expect the same from a woman, though? 1.00

01:58:51.160 Like, shouldn't women... 1.00

01:58:51.660 For women to protect? 0.78

01:58:53.080 Provide and protect their men.

01:58:54.800 Like, emotionally, if in your eyes, you know.

01:58:58.100 So, like, wouldn't you want...

01:59:00.780 Women provide... 1.00

01:59:01.580 Protect emotionally.

01:59:02.880 Yeah, protect their, like, emotional state.

01:59:06.080 Like, I feel like that's, like...

01:59:07.820 Like, I'm not...

01:59:09.380 I don't agree with that.

01:59:10.480 Like, I think it would be more of service.

01:59:11.660 But that wouldn't really...

01:59:13.520 Women... 1.00

01:59:14.780 Yeah, like, you should have...

01:59:17.040 I think it goes both ways, but, like, you should have to emotionally rely on your partner both ways.

01:59:24.440 And, like, that's, in a way, protecting each other, because you're protecting each other's emotions, you know?

01:59:29.440 So, you don't think, when it comes to the ways in which men protect women, that's not uniquely male?

01:59:37.760 I mean, I think a woman could do the same for a man. 1.00

01:59:41.860 She could.

01:59:43.880 And should.

01:59:44.920 But...

01:59:45.160 Well, however, there are some circumstances, just due to the physiological differences between men and women.

01:59:52.760 Men are just physically stronger than women. 1.00

01:59:56.440 Oh, I know one woman. 1.00

01:59:58.060 She's stronger.

01:59:59.080 Okay.

01:59:59.460 I'm not gonna...

02:00:00.280 So, typically, also, there is an expectation.

02:00:04.540 And I understand that these scenarios are pretty rare.

02:00:07.140 Yeah.

02:00:07.540 Like, most people are not gonna encounter situations where there's, like, a physical violent threat.

02:00:14.300 But they do happen.

02:00:15.120 And the expectation, even if it never happens in your lifetime, there's an expectation that the man would intervene on behalf of the woman.

02:00:25.040 Even if it never happens, the expectation is there. 0.64

02:00:28.440 And women do not like cowardly men. 0.75

02:00:31.540 No. 0.94

02:00:32.280 Right.

02:00:32.620 But, like, I don't think...

02:00:34.120 Like, for example...

02:00:34.760 I think a woman should do the same for her man, too. 1.00

02:00:36.940 Well, the difference is, though, and maybe that might be true, men don't expect it of women.

02:00:43.940 And men wouldn't... 0.87

02:00:45.720 Men, that's not an attraction trigger in men.

02:00:48.480 Like, for example, if, like, some shit is going down, if my girlfriend, like, I don't know, there's, like, a situation or whatever, and my girlfriend were to run away, the girl I'm dating were to run away, like, scared,

02:01:00.800 I wouldn't lose attraction for her due to her cowardice. 0.91

02:01:06.100 Like, I wouldn't lose attraction for her due to her lack of, like, heroism or bravery in a situation.

02:01:13.920 I don't expect that.

02:01:15.340 However, I think most women, if they saw their boyfriend-husband act cowardly, to cower in some way, to run away, to not act in a heroic way, to not display bravery, would, either consciously or subconsciously, lose attraction for him.

02:01:34.880 And I hear this all the time. 0.99

02:01:36.360 Look, it's not the case for all women, but if you see your boyfriend, just get the shit kicked out of him, and this is really probably a rare occurrence. 0.99

02:01:48.320 Most women, you know, most people go through life, and they're not getting into fights all the time, right? 1.00

02:01:53.400 But if a girl... 1.00

02:01:55.340 I mean, we could ask you guys, maybe.

02:01:58.200 Before we do, though, let me let some chats go through.

02:02:01.740 Pasty George donated $200.

02:02:03.980 Chair three, does your husband not do things that are embarrassing and humiliating for him for your sake?

02:02:11.140 But he does them anyway and suffers silently through it because he loves and respects you?

02:02:15.820 Like what?

02:02:16.580 By tampons?

02:02:17.800 No.

02:02:19.300 He, I mean, if he did, he probably wouldn't be embarrassed.

02:02:21.960 He doesn't care about...

02:02:23.460 He doesn't get embarrassed very easily.

02:02:26.340 Thank you, Pasty George.

02:02:27.420 And we have another one coming from Pasty George, and then I'll ask you a question. 0.70

02:02:31.620 Pasty George donated $200.

02:02:34.940 Chair three, it sounds like you are taking your husband and what he does for you for granted.

02:02:40.340 That is one of the first steps that women take before climbing the rest of the ladder to divorce. 1.00

02:02:45.880 Pow. 1.00

02:02:46.620 Oh, fuck. 1.00

02:02:47.200 Who hurt you? 1.00

02:02:48.160 I just won't pow, and he thinks we're going to get divorced.

02:02:52.440 My husband is the best.

02:02:53.840 He does everything for me.

02:02:54.740 He's lovely.

02:02:55.380 He's wonderful.

02:02:55.920 Best friend in the world.

02:02:58.100 Best person I've probably ever met in my life.

02:03:00.360 But no bow.

02:03:01.420 No bow.

02:03:01.860 Okay.

02:03:03.700 Maybe.

02:03:04.240 Thank you, Pasty.

02:03:04.880 Can I say one thing?

02:03:06.300 Yeah.

02:03:06.860 You said, had it been established early on, if it had been something like in the beginning

02:03:15.840 when we were dating, he's like, just so you know, this is something I want, maybe it would

02:03:22.400 be different.

02:03:23.480 But if it was now, and he's like, I have this new expectation that I want you to start bowing

02:03:28.080 for me every day.

02:03:28.700 I would think that was weird, and I would not want to do it.

02:03:32.520 So you'd divorce him?

02:03:34.340 No.

02:03:35.480 I already said I would not divorce him.

02:03:37.600 Oh, he would.

02:03:38.560 Okay.

02:03:38.920 He might divorce me.

02:03:40.640 Yeah.

02:03:40.920 Let's say it was like a deal break for him.

02:03:42.720 Okay.

02:03:42.920 The question is, I guess going this way, if you saw your boyfriend just get beat up, just 0.99

02:03:54.020 the shit kicked out of him, and he's all knocked out, all fucked up, would you lose a bit of 0.99

02:03:59.940 attraction for him? 1.00

02:04:03.460 Knowing who he is at this point, no.

02:04:06.240 I think I would just be more upset at the situation.

02:04:10.240 Okay.

02:04:11.320 It happened to me.

02:04:13.120 What happened?

02:04:14.040 And I stayed with him.

02:04:14.400 He got beat up.

02:04:16.120 No, no, no, no.

02:04:16.620 I don't care.

02:04:17.480 Like.

02:04:18.400 And I stayed with him.

02:04:19.940 But, okay, you stayed with him, but did you.

02:04:22.820 And I like iced his face and everything.

02:04:24.380 Did you like lose some attraction for him?

02:04:27.920 No.

02:04:28.020 No, it was like he was jumped.

02:04:29.860 What about you?

02:04:30.420 Have you had that experience?

02:04:31.500 Have you had the experience and what would happen?

02:04:33.220 Um, I've had an experience of like being with a guy at a ball and like he was going to start

02:04:39.140 a fight, but didn't fight.

02:04:42.260 But no, I would, I would lose attraction.

02:04:44.900 You would lose attraction?

02:04:46.720 I, my only question is, is it a one-on-one or a group setting? 1.00

02:04:49.920 Because if he gets jumped by 10 men and he gets his ass whooped, I'm going to beat. 0.99

02:04:53.260 One-on-one. 1.00

02:04:54.060 One-on-one, yeah.

02:04:54.680 Loses one-on-one.

02:04:55.440 Yes, I'm losing respect for him as a man.

02:04:57.300 Yes.

02:04:57.420 Okay.

02:04:59.140 Um, no, that has not happened.

02:05:01.120 And I don't think I would lose respect.

02:05:04.060 But, or attraction.

02:05:05.500 Or attraction.

02:05:06.280 No, that's never happened.

02:05:07.720 I, I don't think so.

02:05:09.780 Okay.

02:05:10.100 But I don't know.

02:05:10.920 What about you, Claire?

02:05:11.620 I don't think so.

02:05:11.940 It's never happened to me, but I don't think I would lose like any attraction.

02:05:14.960 Okay.

02:05:15.300 What about you?

02:05:15.960 I don't think it's happened to me and I don't think I'd lose attraction to him.

02:05:22.480 And honestly, a feminine trait is like nurturing and, you know, you want to nurture your man. 1.00

02:05:30.580 So if they get their shit kicked, then you're like the nurturing instinct like comes out. 0.98

02:05:35.960 You don't lose attraction and still nurture them. 0.99

02:05:38.280 I, I still have a question.

02:05:39.400 How do you not know if he's, like how you don't know if that's ever happened to you?

02:05:47.620 Um, I can't really think of it.

02:05:51.520 Like did he get beat up and then kind of hide it maybe?

02:05:54.120 I feel like a few situationships maybe have maybe, but I don't know.

02:06:00.160 There are definitive things in life.

02:06:01.860 Like, yes, this happened.

02:06:03.140 No, it didn't.

02:06:04.620 But okay.

02:06:05.140 If he got beat up, he would have like it.

02:06:06.340 I guess I can't think of a specific example.

02:06:09.380 Okay.

02:06:10.000 Uh, well, how about this?

02:06:12.560 Maybe that's not the best question, but, um, let's say, hmm, trying to think.

02:06:23.680 Would, would there be an expectation on your part if you were out with your boyfriend

02:06:28.360 and, I don't know, you're in like kind of a restaurant, bar environment and some guy 0.97

02:06:36.480 walks by and like says like, hey babe, nice ass or like something inappropriate. 0.95

02:06:44.940 It's the bare minimum. 0.97

02:06:47.120 Do you want, do you want your guy, maybe he doesn't get in a fight, but you want him to

02:06:50.680 confront that guy?

02:06:51.960 That's the bare minimum.

02:06:53.820 Bare minimum is what?

02:06:55.020 To confront him?

02:06:55.860 Yeah, of course.

02:06:56.720 If he gets sexually, like that's sexually harassing your woman.

02:07:01.860 So what should he do?

02:07:03.580 And it'd be the same if like he got sexually harassed by, like I'd say, like I'd say something

02:07:09.100 if my man got sexually harassed by a woman.

02:07:13.420 Although women tend to, like female conflicts tend to not as frequently result in physical 1.00

02:07:20.140 conflict.

02:07:20.900 Yeah.

02:07:21.100 And then the stakes are way higher when men are fighting.

02:07:24.200 Yeah.

02:07:25.020 Just because of force.

02:07:27.860 Okay.

02:07:29.140 But like.

02:07:29.920 Like men walk away with like.

02:07:31.940 I've honestly never gotten in a physical fight with a woman.

02:07:35.240 Right.

02:07:35.820 So.

02:07:36.240 But.

02:07:36.900 Here's the thing though.

02:07:38.120 Like as a woman, you could tell a girl off. 1.00

02:07:40.120 And maybe.

02:07:40.680 Yeah.

02:07:42.440 Maybe it leads to a, it could lead to a physical confrontation, but it's less likely. 0.99

02:07:47.800 However, if I step to a guy, even if I'm in the right and I'm like, yo, what the fuck? 0.99

02:07:54.460 Knock it off. 0.97

02:07:55.060 That's my, like, you know, I'd tell him, hey man, that's not cool.

02:07:58.040 You know, whatever it is.

02:07:58.960 There's a risk anytime you're dealing with men that it could get to physical.

02:08:08.080 There's a risk that you're saying generally.

02:08:09.640 Way higher risk.

02:08:12.200 Well, you said generally.

02:08:12.980 I'm not.

02:08:13.500 I can't even engage with you.

02:08:15.060 I'm actually frustrated talking with you.

02:08:18.100 What's your point?

02:08:18.840 That there's a risk?

02:08:19.760 What was your point?

02:08:20.620 There's a risk, but in every verbal confrontation that you've ever had with a man, how, what

02:08:27.260 percentage of times has it been physical?

02:08:29.620 I attempt to avoid completely unnecessary verbal altercations with men.

02:08:36.420 And how many times when you have gotten in it, has it escalated to physical confrontations?

02:08:42.480 You know, like how many times has that escalated to a physical fight?

02:08:45.840 Well, because my goal is to avoid like street violence.

02:08:51.360 I have a, perhaps a bit of smarts to myself.

02:08:54.460 I don't go around picking verbal fights with, with men.

02:08:59.620 Good. 0.99

02:09:00.800 But I don't see how that has anything to fucking, you're in fucking la la land. 0.99

02:09:06.160 What do you mean? 0.98

02:09:06.600 You were saying, you literally said that like generally it'd lead to a physical confrontation.

02:09:14.500 So I'm asking you.

02:09:16.100 What?

02:09:16.580 I didn't say that.

02:09:17.740 You did.

02:09:18.300 No, I said, I said the risk, the risk is higher as compared.

02:09:25.020 Okay.

02:09:25.580 As compared, as compared to when two women are verbally arguing, sometimes that could escalate 1.00

02:09:34.700 to physical confrontation.

02:09:36.580 However, women typically are less likely to resort to physical violence. 0.98

02:09:42.040 Men, on the other hand, if you're in a verbal altercation with a man, two men, that risk

02:09:47.520 is higher in men, it ending up into a physical, a physical violence situation than it is in 0.62

02:09:54.000 women. 0.81

02:09:55.280 Unless it's like role play and you're like role playing like a CNC scene, you know, and

02:10:01.980 I think it could be kind of hot to get that.

02:10:04.080 Thank you.

02:10:04.420 That's really helpful.

02:10:05.080 I think it's just because men tend to be more aggressive.

02:10:09.580 Pasty George donated $200.

02:10:12.740 Shares five and six.

02:10:14.580 Thank you for being honest about losing attraction for your boyfriend or husband if they got beaten

02:10:19.940 up in a fight.

02:10:21.340 You two are based for that part.

02:10:25.700 Okay.

02:10:28.740 All right.

02:10:29.580 I don't know where we were here.

02:10:30.680 Um, uh, we were talking about like protection and you were saying, well, hold on protection

02:10:36.420 goes both ways.

02:10:38.240 Uh, okay.

02:10:39.720 The point is, is that typically there is going to be a larger gendered expectation on men to

02:10:46.480 fit the role of protector in a relationship.

02:10:48.960 Men don't look to women to be protectors.

02:10:53.360 Don't look to women to protect. 1.00

02:10:55.700 The security and protection of the household.

02:10:59.240 If I'm living with a girl, if we're married, that falls on me. 0.97

02:11:04.080 Now look at, I have no problem.

02:11:06.020 If she wants to own a firearm, all the better, good for her. 0.98

02:11:11.300 But most majority of women probably aren't on that page. 1.00

02:11:17.640 So the protect, the protection of the household, the protection of her, eventually the protection

02:11:22.560 of our children, like for example, if there's a noise in the night, the, the general gender

02:11:30.120 dynamic is not, I'm not going to look to my girlfriend and be like, Hey, go downstairs

02:11:35.000 and check that out. 1.00

02:11:37.320 Most women be like, what the fuck you're bitch made. 1.00

02:11:41.640 I'm going to see what's up. 1.00

02:11:44.420 And if there's a home invader, I will dispatch the home invader. 0.98

02:11:48.280 I'm not going to look to my girlfriend who's fucking 110 pounds to go deal with that. 1.00

02:11:56.460 Does that make sense? 0.99

02:11:58.080 Yeah.

02:11:58.400 In that context.

02:11:59.340 Yeah.

02:11:59.780 Okay.

02:12:00.260 So explain to me though, if it's the case that this is a one directional gender expectation 0.91

02:12:06.060 for men to be protectors, that's something exclusively that men do.

02:12:11.300 And then as it relates to providing, also, I believe protecting isn't just physical threats,

02:12:16.580 but you need to protect your girlfriend, wife, whatever from threats of mind.

02:12:25.940 So there's a massive amounts of propaganda in society, massive propaganda.

02:12:33.660 It could be political.

02:12:34.380 It could be socially.

02:12:35.540 It could be culturally.

02:12:37.260 Hmm.

02:12:37.800 Okay.

02:12:38.200 Like, for example, and look, I know there's some women at this table might be upset by 0.96

02:12:41.840 this, but for example, I think there is a motive in society to make women as insecure 1.00

02:12:52.340 as possible in their physical appearance.

02:12:54.900 And this is so that billion and trillion dollar corporations can leech, leech, there's a better

02:13:02.180 word than leech, can siphon money from the pockets of women as it relates to cousins, 1.00

02:13:08.200 the cosmetic industry.

02:13:10.080 This is multi, the trillion dollar industry.

02:13:13.560 They want you to be insecure so you can buy that blush.

02:13:16.800 They want you to be insecure so you can buy that foundation and that everything.

02:13:22.440 Totally.

02:13:22.980 For life.

02:13:23.640 They have you for life.

02:13:25.320 They've had you before you could even conceptualize, before you can even reason, before you can

02:13:30.640 even rationalize.

02:13:31.980 They've had, they have most of these women when they're like 13. 0.86

02:13:36.140 Women are wearing makeup very young and there, there's a very strong incentive to keep people 1.00

02:13:42.080 feeling insecure about how they look.

02:13:46.020 And it's again, trillion dollar industry.

02:13:48.860 This, this goes into the plastic surgery industry.

02:13:51.620 So from my purview, if I'm dating a woman and she doesn't have any plastic surgery and she comes 0.94

02:13:58.020 to me and she says, you know what, Brian, I'm on my, I have an A cup. 0.93

02:14:03.080 I want bigger boobs. 1.00

02:14:04.580 My job is to say, you're fine. 0.99

02:14:07.820 How you are.

02:14:08.460 I think you're beautiful.

02:14:09.500 Don't go and get a dangerous and unnecessary surgery that's, you know, there's all kinds

02:14:20.280 of issues with plastic surgery.

02:14:21.880 Look, most of the time it's fine, whatever.

02:14:23.840 It's expensive, potentially dangerous.

02:14:27.720 And you don't need it.

02:14:30.600 You don't need it.

02:14:31.580 There's no medical reason, you know, except for rare, you had a breast removed due to cancer. 0.76

02:14:39.780 There's really no medical reason for breast implants. 0.99

02:14:42.440 I think men have a duty to protect, not just physically, but of the mind.

02:14:48.880 So I need to guide her and protect her from the malevolent and evil influences of society

02:14:57.100 and culture.

02:15:00.500 Yeah, you're not even listening.

02:15:01.840 Good talk.

02:15:02.080 No, no, I was.

02:15:02.780 I was.

02:15:03.120 And I agree with you, actually, because like, but I also think you should be supportive no

02:15:08.280 matter what.

02:15:08.860 And that's protecting.

02:15:10.380 No, being supportive is not allowing my girlfriend or wife to be bamboozled.

02:15:18.880 By the, the, what's the best way to phrase this?

02:15:28.080 The psyop of society and culture.

02:15:36.040 Humans have got on just fine for thousands of years without painting your face or getting

02:15:42.660 plastic surgically cut into you and implanted.

02:15:47.540 Women have gone on just fine. 1.00

02:15:50.120 Now it's one thing if, look, I meet a girl, look, if she's already had it done.

02:15:55.680 Yeah.

02:15:55.880 Your ex looked like she had some.

02:15:57.740 That she's not my ex.

02:15:59.660 Oh, what?

02:16:03.680 It's going to be a hard sell. 1.00

02:16:05.420 It's going to be a hard sell to be like, Hey, get that shit taken out. 1.00

02:16:09.040 However, if she comes to me and I'm already dating her and I would hope that she would 0.99

02:16:13.620 look to me to give her guidance on decision making.

02:16:17.560 Yeah.

02:16:18.040 I would guide her away from doing that.

02:16:21.240 Would you not date a girl if she had implants? 0.76

02:16:23.840 It depends what.

02:16:26.040 It's not a deal breaker, but it's my preference.

02:16:28.760 To not.

02:16:29.200 But also just to be clear, like when I say it's not a deal breaker and preferences, like

02:16:35.700 it would be my preference to date a woman who's a trillionaire. 0.81

02:16:38.460 Right.

02:16:39.240 That would be really good for me.

02:16:40.780 Right.

02:16:41.120 Like I would love that.

02:16:42.220 Right.

02:16:42.580 That's not to say like I would have, I wouldn't be dissatisfied if I dated a girl who worked 0.99

02:16:47.500 at Chick-fil-A.

02:16:47.960 Is this now our turn to break down why a trillionaire would never date you?

02:16:51.340 Well, no, but the difference, the difference here would be my bare minimum is she has to

02:16:59.460 earn zero dollars.

02:17:02.340 So preference though would be no implants.

02:17:06.180 Well, when, when, yeah.

02:17:07.420 So I guess when I say it would be my preference, like we, when we're dating, obviously it would

02:17:13.900 be our preference to get like the most, like in every single thing that matters, looks,

02:17:20.140 money, personality, you know, all the characteristics that everybody cares about.

02:17:24.560 We would want to maximize all those traits.

02:17:27.100 Right.

02:17:27.560 So like you want a guy who's successful.

02:17:30.220 Well, the ultimate manifestation of that is like the richest person in the world.

02:17:35.660 Sorry.

02:17:36.140 Might have spit there a little bit. 0.66

02:17:39.480 No one saw.

02:17:41.880 It's okay.

02:17:42.500 I'll lick it off the table. 0.99

02:17:43.780 That's disgusting. 0.99

02:17:44.480 I knew it was a matter of time. 0.68

02:17:47.440 Okay.

02:17:47.840 But of course, all of you would, well, most of you would date a guy and have, there would

02:17:53.360 be no issues in the relationship whatsoever if he earned way less than billions and billions

02:17:59.400 of dollars a year.

02:18:00.540 So when I say preference, like, you know, we're, I'm using it more so not as a bare minimum,

02:18:08.460 but the ultimate manifestation of what somebody could potentially want.

02:18:14.140 My boyfriend actually doesn't like body piercings.

02:18:18.240 That's just something he's not a fan of.

02:18:20.180 And I had my belly button pierced since I was like 16 and he had mentioned it a lot.

02:18:25.740 Like, Hey, I don't like that.

02:18:26.800 I don't like it.

02:18:27.380 And so I took it out for him and I'm happy.

02:18:30.240 Like, I don't, if it makes him happy and he likes it, then I'm more power to me and to

02:18:36.660 him.

02:18:37.320 Sounds like people settle for what they can get versus what they really want.

02:18:40.920 Yeah.

02:18:41.680 Cause like, that's like your choice.

02:18:43.740 Why would you need your husband's validation?

02:18:45.900 Like, is it really that important?

02:18:47.560 If your husband said he didn't like your tattoo, would you get it removed?

02:18:50.660 Yeah. 1.00

02:18:50.940 Like, would you cut your nipples off? 1.00

02:18:52.660 If he was like, I don't like your nipples. 1.00

02:18:54.000 I think they're too large. 0.99

02:18:55.080 That's completely different.

02:18:56.060 And the relationship because of this small little thing.

02:18:59.240 I mean, if he checks all these other boxes and he just wants the piercing out.

02:19:02.580 Yeah.

02:19:03.120 Bye bye piercing. 1.00

02:19:04.240 No, he's bye bye boy.

02:19:06.400 Yeah.

02:19:06.820 That's probably why you're single.

02:19:07.780 I mean, the, the other component here, the other component, how do you know she's unhappy?

02:19:13.260 Okay.

02:19:13.980 Let's, can we stay on topic here guys? 0.99

02:19:16.780 Holy shit. 1.00

02:19:19.220 Ridiculous. 1.00

02:19:19.720 You guys are all over the place. 0.98

02:19:21.280 The other component of protecting is if eventually, and look, maybe some of you don't want kids,

02:19:27.900 you have to protect the family and there are threats from society, from society that will

02:19:35.380 impact your children and your family.

02:19:37.900 Yeah.

02:19:38.720 So, oh, you, I'm not going to get too political with it, but oh, okay.

02:19:43.640 Your kid goes to school and, you know, makes a passing comment.

02:19:47.420 Like, I think I'm a girl and it's a boy.

02:19:52.380 Okay.

02:19:53.460 Kids are easily confused.

02:19:55.360 Most of them grow out of that.

02:19:58.040 Maybe they were joking.

02:19:59.280 Oh, the teacher.

02:20:00.160 Oh, okay. 0.99

02:20:00.540 Go talk to the counselor and, or go talk to like, I don't know what they do in fucking 0.99

02:20:03.900 school. 0.99

02:20:04.180 I don't know what they do.

02:20:05.400 Oh, we should get you with the school psychologist.

02:20:09.200 And then they go, I need to protect my child from that.

02:20:15.580 There's other, there's other things too that you need to protect your children from.

02:20:19.420 So you're transphobic?

02:20:21.100 You don't have to be transphobic.

02:20:22.140 How would that be transphobic?

02:20:23.580 Because you're already shutting down your child's sexuality before they can discuss it.

02:20:27.520 Your child does not know sexuality.

02:20:28.800 Oh, yeah, your child's.

02:20:31.120 You're not going to put that, you're not going to put that label on him.

02:20:34.160 I have a two and a half year old and one of my biggest fears is something being put in

02:20:38.760 front of him that he doesn't, kids are meant to play. 0.99

02:20:42.380 They're meant to learn, keep all the other shit out. 0.99

02:20:45.280 Maybe the kids want to touch each other. 0.99

02:20:46.860 They're meant to explore themselves too.

02:20:47.520 Let them touch each other.

02:20:48.220 Can she go?

02:20:50.120 Like, seriously?

02:20:51.400 That's enough.

02:20:52.000 That's not enough to go down. 1.00

02:20:53.280 You're disgusting. 1.00

02:20:54.060 Hold on. 1.00

02:20:54.520 Can I?

02:20:55.020 Hold on.

02:20:55.760 We're not talking about the kids.

02:20:58.440 Okay, that's.

02:21:00.980 I have to wait one moment.

02:21:02.800 I have to, I am going to have to wait one moment.

02:21:04.800 What's your body count?

02:21:08.040 Probably like a hundred.

02:21:10.080 Okay, hold on.

02:21:10.980 Um, uh, you also said that, hold on, we're going to come back to this, but you said you

02:21:19.240 got involved with an older guy, you were together for two months and the first night you guys

02:21:23.940 hooked up, what happened?

02:21:25.720 Um, we may have did a little too many drugs and I got knocked up.

02:21:37.060 Okay.

02:21:39.220 That's all.

02:21:39.820 What else?

02:21:40.380 What else?

02:21:40.880 Um, I don't know.

02:21:44.200 I decided to have an abortion because I didn't want to have a kid.

02:21:50.780 That's all that happened.

02:21:51.560 And then what about the STD?

02:21:53.100 Oh yeah.

02:21:53.880 So that's a crazy story.

02:21:55.360 So imagine getting knocked up and then you also get chlamydia from the guy.

02:22:00.800 Like, that's just like crazy.

02:22:02.640 Like that baby could have had chlamydia.

02:22:04.540 So like, I was like, I'm going to abort this baby because I just feel like that's not in

02:22:09.280 my morality to like bring a child into the world considering the current day that we are

02:22:13.860 living.

02:22:14.300 Like this is not.

02:22:15.780 Cause then you have questions like this where it's like, if my child wants to be a boy or

02:22:19.860 girl, like it's better to just avoid that in all.

02:22:22.580 Okay.

02:22:23.280 Um.

02:22:23.680 That's all that happened.

02:22:24.360 That's just like normal.

02:22:25.440 I'm sure you've had chlamydia.

02:22:27.880 Okay.

02:22:28.680 Yeah.

02:22:29.040 Yeah.

02:22:29.200 I got it.

02:22:29.720 I got it.

02:22:30.240 Um, final thing here.

02:22:32.760 Uh, should a guy pay if he takes you on a date?

02:22:35.900 Yes.

02:22:36.360 Do you think you deserve chivalry?

02:22:38.300 Yes.

02:22:38.680 But also like, I wouldn't care if a guy didn't open the door for me.

02:22:41.800 Like, okay.

02:22:42.520 Would you agree that only women who are ladies deserve chivalry? 0.77

02:22:48.080 What?

02:22:49.960 Women who are ladies.

02:22:51.420 Yeah.

02:22:51.580 I think everyone deserves chivalry.

02:22:53.200 All women deserve chivalry. 1.00

02:22:54.120 Okay.

02:22:54.320 Yeah.

02:22:54.640 So men should be gentlemen and.

02:22:56.640 Yeah.

02:22:57.000 If you pick up a girl from Figueroa, open the door for her and give her a few extra hundred

02:23:00.540 dollars.

02:23:00.920 Uh, so I mean, my point would be you expect men to like pay for dates, do chivalrous stuff.

02:23:05.640 I would just point out, you're not a lady. 1.00

02:23:08.100 Uh, you might find men who are simps who are willing to treat you like one. 0.98

02:23:12.740 You don't deserve it. 1.00

02:23:13.800 You're an active sex worker. 1.00

02:23:15.180 You do only fans. 1.00

02:23:16.160 You do hardcore porn. 0.95

02:23:17.220 Uh, I think the fair trade-off is if a man should be chivalrous, the woman should be virtuous. 0.94

02:23:30.000 Um, I think the fair trade-off is if a man should be chivalrous, the woman should be virtuous. 0.62

02:23:34.120 You don't deserve it.

02:23:35.420 Um, Nick, just be careful on this one, okay?

02:23:40.180 Uh, here's your red card.

02:23:42.920 Red card for you.

02:23:44.020 Uh, so, kindly asking you to get up and leave.

02:23:50.360 This is Sparta!

02:23:52.720 Thank you for coming.

02:23:53.500 Appreciate it.

02:23:54.480 I just want to say that you make money off of...

02:23:57.240 Be really proud of your life choices.

02:23:59.100 Sorry, repeat it.

02:24:00.220 I said you make your money off of trolling women. 1.00

02:24:03.580 You must be really proud of your life choices.

02:24:07.160 How am I...

02:24:07.760 I'm engaging in conversation in good faith. 0.58

02:24:09.620 Well, because you're trolling me, but you make your money off of trolling women. 1.00

02:24:13.660 Over what they decide to do with their bodies, and you're transphobic, and you're racist. 0.99

02:24:19.060 You know, I wouldn't be surprised if you got shot like Charlie Kirk. 0.99

02:24:22.140 I'm gonna say... 0.94

02:24:22.900 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

02:24:27.820 Ciao.

02:24:32.380 Uh, video, video, Nick.

02:24:37.100 Can we spread out?

02:24:41.360 You're probably gonna put her in here. 1.00

02:24:43.660 Sorry, guys, we're gonna wait for Felicity, uh, here, we're gonna scoot everybody down the seat, and then Felicity, or everybody just scoot down the seat, and take your cups with you. 0.79

02:24:57.220 Oh.

02:24:57.620 Oh, and she's coming back, right?

02:25:00.060 I think, leave the mics.

02:25:01.060 Oh, yeah, leave the mics, just move down the seat. 0.95

02:25:03.060 Oh, yeah, leave the mics, just move down the seat. 0.95

02:25:04.060 Everybody else?

02:25:05.060 Oh, that's my...

02:25:06.060 Okay.

02:25:07.060 Make sure she doesn't take any...

02:25:09.060 Sorry, guys, we're...

02:25:10.060 That was hers.

02:25:11.060 Yeah, this cup's not gonna...

02:25:13.060 Yeah.

02:25:14.060 That's...

02:25:15.060 We'll take care of it.

02:25:16.060 We'll take care of it.

02:25:17.060 That's...

02:25:18.060 Her cup?

02:25:19.060 Yeah.

02:25:20.060 That's not here.

02:25:21.060 All right.

02:25:24.060 All right.

02:25:25.060 Holy sh...

02:25:26.060 Nikes.

02:25:27.060 Yikes.

02:25:28.060 Yikes.

02:25:29.060 So sorry.

02:25:30.060 Yeah.

02:25:31.060 Wow.

02:25:32.060 That...

02:25:33.060 I think that was the goal.

02:25:34.060 I...

02:25:35.060 Did you...

02:25:36.060 Did you...

02:25:37.060 I mean, you probably shouldn't have gone the intro.

02:25:39.060 Did we miss that, though?

02:25:41.060 Oh, okay.

02:25:42.060 Chat, did you guys hear the whole thing, or did it cut?

02:25:45.060 Because we...

02:25:46.060 He went intro.

02:25:47.060 Chat, were you able to hear what she said?

02:25:49.060 I'm sorry for going intro, but I got scared.

02:25:52.060 Oh.

02:25:53.060 Chat, did you hear what she said?

02:25:59.060 I think it cut.

02:26:02.060 Chat, what did she...

02:26:04.060 Did you...

02:26:05.060 When did you...

02:26:06.060 Did they hear the Charlie Kirk part?

02:26:07.060 Yeah.

02:26:08.060 That was just...

02:26:09.060 Oh, you cut it.

02:26:10.060 Yeah, yeah.

02:26:11.060 Isn't that like a death threat?

02:26:13.060 Yeah.

02:26:14.060 Um...

02:26:15.060 I mean...

02:26:16.060 I don't know if that would be criminal.

02:26:17.060 I don't think so.

02:26:18.060 Is that...

02:26:19.060 I don't think it's...

02:26:20.060 She wouldn't be surprised.

02:26:21.060 I don't think it was a threat.

02:26:22.060 I mean, she didn't...

02:26:23.060 She was... 0.97

02:26:24.060 It was really rude.

02:26:25.060 I don't know if that would be...

02:26:26.060 I don't know if there's a criminal liability there.

02:26:27.060 She's not saying she would.

02:26:28.060 Yeah.

02:26:31.060 Um...

02:26:32.060 The chat is saying yes, they heard it.

02:26:34.060 Yeah, that's...

02:26:35.060 I mean...

02:26:36.060 It's fine.

02:26:38.060 Um...

02:26:39.060 Yeah.

02:26:40.060 Well...

02:26:42.060 Is that the first time I've used the red card?

02:26:43.060 Yeah.

02:26:44.060 No.

02:26:45.060 Is it really?

02:26:46.060 No.

02:26:47.060 I mean, normally I just kick people off, but... 1.00

02:26:49.060 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:26:50.060 You know what? 1.00

02:26:51.060 I forgot to...

02:26:52.060 I need to say ta-ta. 0.90

02:26:53.060 I forgot to say ta-ta. 1.00

02:26:54.060 Fuck. 1.00

02:26:55.060 Ugh. 1.00

02:26:56.060 Can't you edit that in?

02:26:58.060 Bring her back. 0.91

02:26:59.060 Bring her back to kick her off. 1.00

02:27:00.060 Yeah. 0.93

02:27:01.060 Oh, yeah.

02:27:02.060 Let me change it.

02:27:03.060 I need to do something.

02:27:04.060 Guys, sorry for that.

02:27:05.060 I need to do one thing on my phone here super quick.

02:27:08.060 Um...

02:27:09.060 Hold on.

02:27:11.060 I'm gonna have to wash my hands.

02:27:12.060 I am like...

02:27:13.060 Did she miss everything?

02:27:14.060 Yeah, I did.

02:27:15.060 You missed everything?

02:27:17.060 What happened?

02:27:18.060 Oh, wow.

02:27:19.060 She was just hiding in the bathroom. 0.98

02:27:20.060 She was just hiding in the bathroom. 0.98

02:27:21.060 One sec, guys.

02:27:24.060 Uno memento.

02:27:25.060 Like, what was the point? 1.00

02:27:26.060 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:27:27.060 What was the point? 1.00

02:27:28.060 What was the point?

02:27:29.060 What was the point of coming on here?

02:27:30.060 To get more men to subscribe to her? 1.00

02:27:33.060 Like, literally nothing was cool about anything she said.

02:27:36.060 I mean, it's pretty obvious she just really wanted attention.

02:27:38.060 She's probably trying to, like, grow her...

02:27:40.060 She probably just doesn't like...

02:27:42.060 She probably doesn't like the show.

02:27:43.060 And she wanted to, you know, try to sabotage it in some way. 0.97

02:27:48.060 And, um...

02:27:49.060 Make people uncomfortable and talk about...

02:27:51.060 Yeah, just make everybody uncomfortable and try to throw a wrench in it. 0.54

02:27:54.060 It worked.

02:27:55.060 Um...

02:27:56.060 I kind of, from the very early get-go, with the yellow card, I knew that the kick was

02:28:00.060 coming.

02:28:01.060 But...

02:28:02.060 Um...

02:28:03.060 Yeah.

02:28:04.060 Uh...

02:28:05.060 Okay.

02:28:06.060 Here.

02:28:07.060 One sec, guys.

02:28:08.060 I'm just kind of getting some stream stuff going here.

02:28:10.060 But, uh...

02:28:11.060 Yeah, guys.

02:28:12.060 That's, uh...

02:28:13.060 By the way, didn't say anything transphobic whatsoever.

02:28:15.060 No.

02:28:16.060 Uh...

02:28:17.060 You can not...

02:28:18.060 You can wish the best for people who are trans and also not want children to take puberty blockers.

02:28:24.060 You can not want children getting, like, surgery.

02:28:28.060 So, that's not transphobic.

02:28:30.060 Um...

02:28:31.060 Not sure where she pulled the racist thing from.

02:28:34.060 I don't know where that's coming from.

02:28:35.060 Yeah, that was neat.

02:28:36.060 That's just the script that she has to go down.

02:28:38.060 But, yeah, they just...

02:28:39.060 These words really don't mean anything.

02:28:41.060 They're just buzzwords.

02:28:42.060 Don't mean anything.

02:28:44.060 Um...

02:28:45.060 So...

02:28:46.060 Sorry about that, guys.

02:28:47.060 But now...

02:28:48.060 But now...

02:28:49.060 Agreed.

02:28:50.060 Agreed.

02:28:51.060 Agreed.

02:28:52.060 Agreed.

02:28:53.060 Agreed.

02:28:54.060 Agreed.

02:28:55.060 Agreed.

02:28:56.060 Agreed.

02:28:57.060 Agreed.

02:28:58.060 That's...

02:28:59.060 Agreed.

02:29:00.060 That's... 0.62

02:29:01.060 I had to kick her there. 1.00

02:29:02.060 So, I was like... 0.63

02:29:03.060 All right.

02:29:04.060 She has some notes. 0.99

02:29:05.060 I'll just do the notes and kick her. 1.00

02:29:06.060 But, um... 0.75

02:29:07.060 Hopefully, the convo is a little more...

02:29:09.060 Is a little better.

02:29:11.060 Sorry that we didn't get this in...

02:29:13.060 The TTS in before she got kicked off.

02:29:15.060 But, I had to get the kick in once...

02:29:18.060 There was one other thing I had to do.

02:29:21.060 Hold on.

02:29:24.060 Pasty George donated $200.

02:29:27.060 Oh.

02:29:28.060 And Chair 4, who just left, is what the next generations of women are turning into because of being infected and influenced by feminism. 1.00

02:29:36.060 Definitely think feminism is part of the reason. 1.00

02:29:39.060 That's also really weird.

02:29:42.060 Well, sex work as well.

02:29:43.060 It's also a really weird take. 0.86

02:29:44.060 Like, she was trying to, like, make some virtue stand that I'm a racist and transphobic.

02:29:50.060 When, like, the preceding statement was she was advocating for allowing children to be active with each other.

02:30:01.060 And to watch her be active.

02:30:02.060 She also stated she would be fine with her kids watching her be active online.

02:30:06.060 She said way too many things and there's no way she thinks that way.

02:30:10.060 No.

02:30:11.060 There's no way.

02:30:12.060 Yeah.

02:30:13.060 Actually unhinged. 0.98

02:30:14.060 That's, like, pedophilic. 0.94

02:30:15.060 Yeah.

02:30:16.060 Well, exactly.

02:30:17.060 Yeah, that's what I'm trying to say.

02:30:18.060 Well, yeah, but I'm just...

02:30:19.060 Let's see.

02:30:21.060 Hold on one sec, guys.

02:30:23.060 I need to change a few things here.

02:30:26.060 Yeah, can you pull it up and I'm going to have Claire read it.

02:30:32.060 If a man asks you to go through gun safety classes to help protect the home, would you?

02:30:36.060 And why wouldn't you?

02:30:37.060 I would.

02:30:38.060 I would.

02:30:39.060 Yeah, of course.

02:30:41.060 I have.

02:30:42.060 I have.

02:30:43.060 Yes.

02:30:44.060 I would.

02:30:45.060 I would.

02:30:46.060 All right.

02:30:47.060 Camman, if I'm going to ask you to go through.

02:30:50.060 Camman.

02:30:51.060 Camman.

02:30:52.060 Thank you for the super chat, man.

02:30:53.060 Appreciate it.

02:30:54.060 I need to do something for my good friend, Pasty George. 1.00

02:30:57.060 Pasty George here on my new show, whatever Wednesdays.

02:31:00.060 We do it live on this channel.

02:31:02.060 Not a set time yet, but it's going to be Wednesdays afternoon, probably between...

02:31:07.060 Eventually, I'll probably set a precise time, but it's around, like, three to four is when I'll start doing it.

02:31:13.060 Uh, this guy, Pasty George, he is... 0.98

02:31:17.060 He's a brave and a decent man.

02:31:19.060 He's a pioneer.

02:31:20.060 This guy, very supportive, long time patron.

02:31:23.060 Maybe or I think he might even at this point have overtaken grid one motor.

02:31:27.060 Wait, Pasty George, you haven't been doing the special TTS thing.

02:31:31.060 Oh, my God.

02:31:32.060 Pasty George.

02:31:34.060 Two hundred.

02:31:35.060 You have to do exactly two hundred and four cents.

02:31:39.060 Two hundred point zero four for the special TTS thing.

02:31:42.060 Pasty...

02:31:43.060 Am I talking to an imposter?

02:31:44.060 Okay, so Pasty George...

02:31:46.060 Um, hold on.

02:31:47.060 I got the new iPhone 17, but I got the silver.

02:31:51.060 When I was a kid, orange was my favorite color.

02:31:54.060 I thought the silver...

02:31:55.060 I don't know if you guys can tell.

02:31:57.060 No.

02:31:58.060 iPhone 17 Pro.

02:31:59.060 I regret getting the silver.

02:32:02.060 I should have got the orange.

02:32:03.060 And so... 1.00

02:32:04.060 And so this fucking legend. 1.00

02:32:06.060 Pasty... 1.00

02:32:07.060 Pasty George.

02:32:08.060 Oh, my God.

02:32:09.060 Don't...

02:32:10.060 I'm like...

02:32:11.060 Donates.

02:32:12.060 Two thousand dollars.

02:32:14.060 And he's like, you know what, Brian?

02:32:16.060 Go get yourself. 0.95

02:32:18.060 Uh...

02:32:20.060 So...

02:32:21.060 So I...

02:32:23.060 He got the orange.

02:32:24.060 He basically...

02:32:25.060 I mean, I bought it, but he gave me the money to buy it.

02:32:28.060 Uh...

02:32:29.060 An iPhone 17 Pro.

02:32:30.060 One...

02:32:31.060 One terabyte.

02:32:32.060 Bigger than this one.

02:32:33.060 Dang it.

02:32:34.060 So this is gonna be my new primary phone, Pasty. 1.00

02:32:35.060 You're a fucking legend. 0.99

02:32:36.060 And then this one will just... 1.00

02:32:37.060 Be for the hoes. 1.00

02:32:39.060 No, this one will be...

02:32:40.060 Uh...

02:32:41.060 I'm gonna have...

02:32:42.060 What I was doing earlier is I'm just gonna have it up...

02:32:45.060 I've been having it here, and it's just gonna read the TTS.

02:32:48.060 So...

02:32:49.060 I'm gonna unbox that.

02:32:51.060 I'm gonna unbox...

02:32:52.060 Whatever.

02:32:53.060 This is the first ever whatever podcast unboxing.

02:32:56.060 Um...

02:32:57.060 I'm...

02:32:58.060 MKBD...

02:32:59.060 What's his name?

02:33:00.060 I don't know.

02:33:01.060 The guy who...

02:33:02.060 Can you do, like, ASMR?

02:33:03.060 I need, like, the overhead...

02:33:04.060 I need the overhead camera, you know, so I could, you know, show them.

02:33:08.060 Uh...

02:33:09.060 I'll do an unboxing, but I'll keep the conversation going.

02:33:12.060 Um...

02:33:13.060 So I don't know where we were.

02:33:14.060 That...

02:33:15.060 That kind of threw me for a loop.

02:33:16.060 The girl saying that she... 0.56

02:33:17.060 What...

02:33:18.060 I'm not gonna...

02:33:19.060 Don't repeat it, but...

02:33:20.060 You were discussing if your child was being told that they might possibly be trans.

02:33:24.060 Oh, yeah.

02:33:25.060 I mean, we don't...

02:33:26.060 Yeah, basically, I'm just saying men need to be protectors in, uh, in their families and

02:33:32.060 look out for their children, look out for their wife, look out for their girlfriend, and,

02:33:39.060 uh, you know, not, not necessarily listen to what society is saying, not listen and just

02:33:49.060 have a grounding in what is best for your family and children. 1.00

02:33:52.060 This is a fucking... 1.00

02:33:53.060 Hold it up. 1.00

02:33:54.060 Beautiful.

02:33:55.060 It's...

02:33:56.060 The exposure is a little...

02:33:57.060 Oh, my gosh.

02:33:58.060 Hold on.

02:33:59.060 I'm gonna take it out.

02:34:01.060 I can't...

02:34:02.060 I won't be able to use it now, because I gotta, like, set it up.

02:34:04.060 Oh, it's got this.

02:34:05.060 Oh, my goodness. 0.98

02:34:06.060 Fucking beautiful. 0.99

02:34:09.060 I should've... 0.99

02:34:10.060 I don't know why I didn't get...

02:34:11.060 I should've got orange.

02:34:12.060 Favorite color when I was a kid.

02:34:14.060 Aw.

02:34:15.060 Thank you, Pasty, Jordan.

02:34:16.060 Guys, W's in the chat for Pasty. 0.90

02:34:17.060 He got me...

02:34:19.060 You know what?

02:34:20.060 He got me...

02:34:21.060 He got me an iPhone. 1.00

02:34:22.060 He's a fucking legend. 1.00

02:34:24.060 Is this gonna be Oprah? 1.00

02:34:26.060 You get an iPhone 17 Pro.

02:34:28.060 You get...

02:34:29.060 Just kidding.

02:34:30.060 Come on, Pasty! 1.00

02:34:31.060 Let's do it! 1.00

02:34:32.060 No, don't do that shit, Pasty. 1.00

02:34:33.060 But you know what? 1.00

02:34:34.060 How dare you?

02:34:35.060 I did want...

02:34:36.060 Is Pasty in the chat?

02:34:37.060 Is Pasty even in the chat?

02:34:38.060 Pasty?

02:34:39.060 I want one.

02:34:40.060 Shh! 0.97

02:34:41.060 Be quiet, Felicity.

02:34:42.060 My phone...

02:34:43.060 Six.

02:34:44.060 Six, yeah.

02:34:45.060 Wait, hold on.

02:34:46.060 Are you in the chat, Pasty?

02:34:47.060 He does.

02:34:48.060 Pasty, type in the chat.

02:34:49.060 Let me see if you're in the chat.

02:34:51.060 Is he...

02:34:52.060 Oh, he's here.

02:34:53.060 Look, Pasty... 0.57

02:34:54.060 I... 1.00

02:34:55.060 Fuck, man. 1.00

02:34:56.060 You know what I was thinking, though? 1.00

02:34:58.060 Like, here's my problem, and maybe the ladies can confirm. 1.00

02:35:01.060 Like, you know, my old phone, it was an iPhone SE.

02:35:06.060 Like, I have really dainty man hands.

02:35:10.060 I don't have big, strong hands.

02:35:12.060 And like, when I'm just like, you know, in bed, my hands get kind of tired.

02:35:16.060 They get cramped carpal tunnel.

02:35:18.060 If I'm just like, holding it, or I'm in the pool or whatever, and I'm holding my phone,

02:35:22.060 like, I'll get...

02:35:23.060 My hand kind of hurts after a while.

02:35:25.060 You know, there's this iPhone 17 Air...

02:35:28.060 No, it's not even...

02:35:29.060 It's just the iPhone Air.

02:35:31.060 It's the slimmest, the thinnest iPhone.

02:35:35.060 This is not a sponsorship.

02:35:37.060 Are you pitching for another phone?

02:35:39.060 This is not an Apple sponsorship, by the way.

02:35:42.060 You know, I need like a really lightweight, thin phone, because I get cramps in my hand.

02:35:47.060 So maybe, like, I need...

02:35:48.060 You know, if you want to do an iPhone Air pop...

02:35:51.060 I'm kidding.

02:35:52.060 It's a joke.

02:35:53.060 It's a joke.

02:35:54.060 Is this heavy?

02:35:55.060 Hey, uh...

02:35:56.060 No, my phone's heavier.

02:35:58.060 Look, I'm just saying I have dainty gamer hands.

02:36:00.060 I don't...

02:36:01.060 I'm not supposed to, you know, be lifting up.

02:36:04.060 Oh, you poor thing. 0.98

02:36:06.060 It's so heavy.

02:36:07.060 I get, you know, carpal tunnel.

02:36:09.060 Get a pop socket.

02:36:11.060 Get a pop socket.

02:36:12.060 So, you know, Pasty... 0.52

02:36:13.060 No, it's just a joke.

02:36:14.060 It's a joke.

02:36:15.060 Is it?

02:36:16.060 Thank you, Pasty. 1.00

02:36:17.060 You are a fucking legend and a scholar. 0.99

02:36:19.060 I appreciate it. 1.00

02:36:20.060 Yes.

02:36:21.060 Imagine that.

02:36:22.060 An iPhone Air pop.

02:36:23.060 That would be crazy.

02:36:24.060 I would actually...

02:36:25.060 That would be my...

02:36:26.060 Oh, my God.

02:36:27.060 That would be my...

02:36:28.060 Like, I'm gonna look at my phone for 30 minutes.

02:36:31.060 Phone.

02:36:32.060 And then this would be like my...

02:36:33.060 You're gonna...

02:36:34.060 You're just like...

02:36:35.060 You're gonna make him send you more money for your iPhone.

02:36:37.060 I'm joking.

02:36:38.060 It's a joke.

02:36:39.060 He doesn't...

02:36:40.060 Yeah, okay.

02:36:41.060 I mean, if he wants to, I'm not gonna say no.

02:36:42.060 I'm not gonna say no.

02:36:43.060 I'm not gonna say no.

02:36:44.060 Okay, sorry, sorry.

02:36:45.060 Anyways, segue.

02:36:46.060 Guys, we're gonna get back into it.

02:36:48.060 Should we address what happened?

02:36:50.060 I mean...

02:36:51.060 I think they can watch.

02:36:53.060 Or, I don't know if the girls had any thoughts on that.

02:36:56.060 I don't know.

02:36:57.060 It was just...

02:36:58.060 I have thoughts.

02:36:59.060 Go ahead.

02:37:00.060 You can tell when you start.

02:37:01.060 I...

02:37:02.060 Like, from the beginning, when she said she started at 16, and then she was like, I had

02:37:07.060 to pay rent.

02:37:08.060 And I'll...

02:37:09.060 My mind was just like, what happened to you that made you, like... 0.98

02:37:14.060 She's a troll. 1.00

02:37:15.060 She's a liar. 1.00

02:37:16.060 Anyways. 0.99

02:37:17.060 But you don't think she's... 0.85

02:37:18.060 Do you think she's 20?

02:37:19.060 She had... 0.99

02:37:20.060 Hold on.

02:37:21.060 I don't know how...

02:37:22.060 I mean, have you seen her ID?

02:37:23.060 No, but did you miss...

02:37:24.060 But then she said 23 there.

02:37:25.060 Yeah, she admitted to lines. 1.00

02:37:26.060 Yeah, she's a liar. 1.00

02:37:27.060 But which one was the lie? 0.99

02:37:28.060 That's true.

02:37:29.060 Who knows how old she is, other... 0.97

02:37:31.060 But I think everything she said was bull.

02:37:33.060 Yeah, yeah.

02:37:34.060 Okay, but is she divorced that or not? 0.95

02:37:36.060 Once you said that someone...

02:37:37.060 One in time.

02:37:38.060 She changed it once you said that someone could get, like, arrested and in trouble for

02:37:43.060 it.

02:37:44.060 Yeah, but 17 is still under age.

02:37:45.060 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:37:46.060 What?

02:37:47.060 When she messaged us and we asked her her age, she said 23.

02:37:50.060 No, no, I know. 0.95

02:37:51.060 Is she really a porn star? 1.00

02:37:53.060 Yeah, is she a confirmed porn star? 1.00

02:37:54.060 She's a degen. 1.00

02:37:55.060 Yeah, she is.

02:37:56.060 Okay.

02:37:57.060 Yeah.

02:37:58.060 Okay, anyways.

02:37:59.060 A message from the Government of Canada.

02:38:03.060 Is it okay?

02:38:04.060 Is it okay?

02:38:05.060 What?

02:38:06.060 I totally forgot about that LMFAO.

02:38:09.060 Mm-hmm.

02:38:10.060 I gave him a special...

02:38:11.060 Our top TTSers...

02:38:13.060 Top TTSers get a little special ding, as it were.

02:38:18.060 Whatever happened to Low Paladins?

02:38:20.060 Oh, yeah.

02:38:21.060 Where is that guy?

02:38:22.060 That was, like, one of your big supporters.

02:38:24.060 Yeah, he was.

02:38:25.060 He went bankrupt.

02:38:26.060 He got a special one.

02:38:27.060 Low Paladins.

02:38:28.060 Yeah, Low Paladins.

02:38:29.060 Low Paladins.

02:38:30.060 Listen.

02:38:31.060 Pasty George donated $200.04.

02:38:36.060 Thank you, man.

02:38:37.060 That iPhone was a reward for Brian for hosting such an essential podcast for men,

02:38:42.060 especially nowadays in this crazy world.

02:38:45.060 Enjoy your reward, my friend and my niche.

02:38:48.060 Thank you, man.

02:38:49.060 What's a niche?

02:38:50.060 Yo, Pasty George.

02:38:51.060 I think I...

02:38:52.060 Thank you, man.

02:38:53.060 Appreciate it.

02:38:54.060 Oh, I was supposed to say in my podcast.

02:38:55.060 Your support for the show, like, because of you...

02:38:59.060 I mean, look, we appreciate, even if you just watch, we appreciate everything, but we

02:39:06.060 couldn't do this show without the patrons, the supporters.

02:39:11.060 We got girls like that who are... 1.00

02:39:13.060 He looks like he's pointing it.

02:39:16.060 No, the girl who was sitting there who are, like, intent... 0.99

02:39:19.060 Honestly, I think some of that shit she was saying, she... 0.98

02:39:22.060 Like, that kind of conversation, that's demonetization. 0.99

02:39:26.060 Like, that...

02:39:27.060 Oh, yeah.

02:39:28.060 The video is demonetized.

02:39:29.060 Mm-hmm.

02:39:30.060 In the first 10 minutes of the show, demonetized.

02:39:32.060 You can't talk, like, anything related to, like, children and, like, anything related

02:39:37.060 to corn or...

02:39:39.060 She did it multiple times. 0.78

02:39:40.060 Yeah.

02:39:41.060 There was a couple keywords.

02:39:43.060 She used some keywords maliciously. 0.97

02:39:46.060 So, um...

02:39:48.060 It was uncomfortable.

02:39:49.060 It was on a...

02:39:50.060 It was just gross.

02:39:51.060 Oh, yeah.

02:39:52.060 It's just...

02:39:53.060 Gross. 0.99

02:39:54.060 Disgusting. 1.00

02:39:55.060 But, uh, that shit happens. 0.99

02:39:57.060 And then also, um, yeah, we're not, you know, we're not exactly, uh, getting, like, mainstream 0.99

02:40:05.060 sponsorships here.

02:40:06.060 We host a controversial show. 0.99

02:40:09.060 So, uh, yeah, fucking... 1.00

02:40:12.060 Cheers to Pasty. 1.00

02:40:13.060 Thank you.

02:40:14.060 Athletic Greens isn't, isn't coming around.

02:40:17.060 And Audible's not coming.

02:40:19.060 NordVPN isn't...

02:40:20.060 Even the VPN companies aren't coming, boys.

02:40:23.060 Is honey still around?

02:40:24.060 It's hard out here, huh?

02:40:25.060 Honey?

02:40:26.060 Is honey still around?

02:40:27.060 No, not even honey.

02:40:28.060 They...

02:40:29.060 They'll sponsor anyone.

02:40:30.060 Nobody.

02:40:31.060 Nobody sponsors.

02:40:32.060 We've had, like, a few here and there.

02:40:33.060 Typically some smaller.

02:40:34.060 But we've had 200...

02:40:36.060 I mean, if you count the debates and some of the other stuff.

02:40:39.060 We've had 300 episodes.

02:40:40.060 We've had less than 10 sponsorships.

02:40:44.060 That's rare, boys.

02:40:46.060 So, I appreciate everybody who supports the show.

02:40:49.060 Whether you want to, you know, send something...

02:40:51.060 Maybe we'll just go through the thing really quick.

02:40:53.060 Guys, Reed is 100.

02:40:55.060 TTS, 200.

02:40:57.060 That's Streamlabs.com slash whatever.

02:40:59.060 Venmo Cash App.

02:41:01.060 Whatever.

02:41:02.060 Pod on both.

02:41:03.060 MC Rocker.

02:41:04.060 Thank you for the 25, man.

02:41:06.060 And then Rudy.

02:41:07.060 Thank you for the five on Cash App.

02:41:09.060 Twitch.tv.

02:41:10.060 Guys, this is a really simple way.

02:41:12.060 Guys, I just...

02:41:13.060 That woman just threatened my life. 1.00

02:41:15.060 Like, I mean, kind of.

02:41:17.060 The least you can do.

02:41:18.060 Sort of.

02:41:19.060 Kind of.

02:41:20.060 I mean, she...

02:41:21.060 She wouldn't be surprised.

02:41:22.060 She wished for my unaliving.

02:41:24.060 So, guys, here's what I need.

02:41:27.060 So, I can buy...

02:41:28.060 I should...

02:41:29.060 I need to get security, honestly, at this point.

02:41:31.060 Guys...

02:41:32.060 I thought she was here.

02:41:33.060 If you have...

02:41:34.060 Yeah, your security's next to you.

02:41:35.060 I'm not doing anything.

02:41:37.060 All right.

02:41:38.060 If you guys have a Twitch account,

02:41:41.060 just drop us a follow on Twitch.

02:41:43.060 And then check if you have a Prime sub available.

02:41:46.060 So, what a Prime sub is.

02:41:48.060 A lot of you have Amazon Prime.

02:41:52.060 Which is great.

02:41:53.060 Amazon Prime is great.

02:41:54.060 All you have to do is link it.

02:41:56.060 You can link it super easily to your Twitch account.

02:41:59.060 And you...

02:42:00.060 It's...

02:42:01.060 I mean, you obviously have to pay for the Amazon Prime.

02:42:04.060 But included in your subscription,

02:42:06.060 you get Twitch Prime.

02:42:08.060 So, every single month,

02:42:09.060 you can drop us a Prime sub.

02:42:11.060 And, you know,

02:42:13.060 it's just a small little helpful way

02:42:15.060 to support the show.

02:42:16.060 If you just have an Amazon Prime account,

02:42:19.060 you link it to your Twitch.

02:42:20.060 And, you know,

02:42:21.060 we get a couple bucks from it.

02:42:23.060 But if enough people do it,

02:42:24.060 it's helpful to us.

02:42:25.060 It takes about a minute to link up.

02:42:27.060 And every single month...

02:42:28.060 You can do it every month, by the way.

02:42:29.060 Every single month.

02:42:30.060 You don't even have to do it while we're live.

02:42:32.060 Oh, my goodness.

02:42:33.060 BluffFest.

02:42:34.060 Thank you for the 10 gifted subs.

02:42:35.060 Really appreciate it, man.

02:42:37.060 You're a legend.

02:42:38.060 Thank you, guys.

02:42:39.060 Appreciate the support over there.

02:42:40.060 Okay.

02:42:41.060 And then...

02:42:42.060 Oh, shop.

02:42:43.060 You can get some merch.

02:42:44.060 Shop.whatever.com.

02:42:46.060 Get yourself some merch, boys.

02:42:48.060 I personally love the Big Labia Matter t-shirt.

02:42:51.060 And the hoodie is a great one.

02:42:54.060 Because all labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter. 0.99

02:42:57.060 Discord.gg slash whatever.

02:43:02.060 Guys, we...

02:43:03.060 Oh.

02:43:04.060 I'm dying.

02:43:05.060 I'm dying.

02:43:06.060 Oh, no.

02:43:07.060 I'm dying.

02:43:08.060 Oh, no.

02:43:09.060 They saw it.

02:43:10.060 It's okay.

02:43:11.060 We've...

02:43:12.060 It's okay.

02:43:13.060 Like, guys.

02:43:14.060 Like the video.

02:43:15.060 But Discord.gg...

02:43:16.060 Guys, join the...

02:43:17.060 Wait, wait.

02:43:18.060 Actually...

02:43:19.060 Hold on.

02:43:20.060 Let me see if I can see it.

02:43:21.060 Guys.

02:43:22.060 We have...

02:43:24.060 Hold on.

02:43:25.060 Can I see?

02:43:26.060 I don't know if we can see.

02:43:29.060 Hmm.

02:43:30.060 Okay.

02:43:31.060 That's fine.

02:43:32.060 Uh...

02:43:33.060 Oh.

02:43:34.060 Uh...

02:43:35.060 Okay.

02:43:36.060 That's fine.

02:43:37.060 And just like the video.

02:43:38.060 Just like the video, guys.

02:43:39.060 Like it.

02:43:40.060 Like...

02:43:41.060 Hit the like button.

02:43:42.060 You see what I do for you guys? 1.00

02:43:43.060 I'm dealing with unhinged prostitutes and shit. 1.00

02:43:48.060 Not... 1.00

02:43:49.060 Well, just her. 0.99

02:43:50.060 Because there are hinged prostitutes, by the way. 1.00

02:43:52.060 That is true. 0.98

02:43:53.060 That is true.

02:43:54.060 Yo.

02:43:55.060 I'm going to turn her off sooner.

02:43:56.060 Because I do see a lot of dragged out times.

02:43:59.060 And this time, you weren't playing around.

02:44:01.060 Yeah.

02:44:02.060 You know, look.

02:44:03.060 She had to go.

02:44:04.060 Yeah.

02:44:05.060 She had to go.

02:44:06.060 She had to go.

02:44:07.060 And that's even before she threatened your life.

02:44:08.060 Good point.

02:44:09.060 Good job.

02:44:10.060 Good job.

02:44:11.060 Lindsay, good observation.

02:44:12.060 Yeah.

02:44:13.060 I like that you had to finish the questions, though.

02:44:14.060 Just to make sure you squeezed out all that right before.

02:44:15.060 I know.

02:44:16.060 And I hear him when he said on the side, like, I got it.

02:44:19.060 And I'm like, okay.

02:44:20.060 Rapid fire.

02:44:21.060 Because I'm like, oh my gosh.

02:44:22.060 Hey.

02:44:23.060 Look, I'm going to...

02:44:24.060 If she's going to...

02:44:25.060 I'm going to milk something.

02:44:26.060 That's what I was saying.

02:44:27.060 I'm going to be like, you know what? 1.00

02:44:28.060 I'm going to get you on camera saying some dumb shit. 1.00

02:44:30.060 Yeah. 1.00

02:44:31.060 And... 1.00

02:44:32.060 It's more stupid. 1.00

02:44:33.060 Actually, I could have probably... 1.00

02:44:34.060 It's really sad.

02:44:35.060 Because she's a pretty girl.

02:44:36.060 Well, hold on.

02:44:37.060 Let's not give her too much credit.

02:44:39.060 I...

02:44:40.060 I could have really...

02:44:41.060 I should have milked a bit more.

02:44:43.060 I should...

02:44:44.060 You know what?

02:44:45.060 I should have been like... 1.00

02:44:46.060 Just got her on camera saying some ridiculous shit. 1.00

02:44:48.060 You did. 1.00

02:44:49.060 I did.

02:44:50.060 How do you get worse than what...

02:44:51.060 I mean, I don't think that could be worse.

02:44:53.060 She's... 1.00

02:44:54.060 You didn't really have to milk it.

02:44:55.060 That's true.

02:44:56.060 I mean, she did it all on her own without any...

02:44:58.060 I mean, you didn't really even come at her.

02:45:00.060 Had it not gone down the child route, I mean, yeah.

02:45:03.060 Did you hurt her?

02:45:04.060 Like, what?

02:45:05.060 What?

02:45:06.060 Did you hurt her feelings?

02:45:07.060 Like, or something?

02:45:08.060 Sounds like a hundred men did.

02:45:09.060 She came here with an agenda.

02:45:10.060 Oh, yeah.

02:45:11.060 No, it was...

02:45:12.060 It was...

02:45:13.060 It was pretty...

02:45:14.060 It was pretty transparent.

02:45:15.060 The thing is, is like...

02:45:16.060 She wants pedos to follow her? 1.00

02:45:17.060 It's a...

02:45:18.060 Wait, wait, wait.

02:45:19.060 Let's avoid...

02:45:20.060 Let's just avoid going there.

02:45:21.060 PDF files.

02:45:22.060 But...

02:45:23.060 Hold on one sec.

02:45:25.060 Let me just check something.

02:45:30.060 One sec.

02:45:31.060 Okay, we're good.

02:45:32.060 If you're gonna troll, you can't make it so obvious.

02:45:38.060 You can't make it so obvious, you know?

02:45:41.060 Are you challenging people?

02:45:42.060 I don't think she was self-aware enough to realize that it was...

02:45:47.060 The things she was saying.

02:45:48.060 Yeah, anyways.

02:45:49.060 Like, you don't talk like that.

02:45:50.060 Anyways, we're gonna just...

02:45:51.060 You know what?

02:45:52.060 We're gonna get back.

02:45:53.060 We have you guys here.

02:45:54.060 I wanna give you guys, you know, some attention now.

02:45:58.060 Uh...

02:45:59.060 She's in the rear view mirror.

02:46:01.060 Command 500 donated $200.

02:46:04.060 Yo, thank you.

02:46:05.060 Casty, you kiss unicorn. 1.00

02:46:07.060 Lol, love you brother.

02:46:08.060 Love you too, Brian.

02:46:10.060 Woman like the don't deserve your attention. 1.00

02:46:13.060 You have a very reputable show and it's fantastic.

02:46:16.060 I look forward to it every week.

02:46:17.060 Aw.

02:46:18.060 Thank you, man.

02:46:19.060 For Charlie.

02:46:20.060 Yo, Kamen.

02:46:21.060 Aw.

02:46:22.060 Thank you, man.

02:46:23.060 Appreciate it.

02:46:24.060 Thank you.

02:46:25.060 Thank you, dude.

02:46:26.060 Uh...

02:46:27.060 I'm being a bit generous there with the reputable.

02:46:30.060 Hey, look.

02:46:31.060 You know, it's a controversial show.

02:46:33.060 I do appreciate that.

02:46:34.060 Thank you for that characterization.

02:46:36.060 Um...

02:46:37.060 But maybe I'm being a bit self-deprecating there.

02:46:39.060 But thank you, man.

02:46:40.060 I really appreciate it.

02:46:41.060 And thank you, everybody else.

02:46:43.060 What...

02:46:44.060 What does Andrew call it?

02:46:46.060 Um...

02:46:47.060 An obscene profit break?

02:46:50.060 No, we won't do that.

02:46:51.060 We're gonna get into the content.

02:46:52.060 Maybe later, though.

02:46:53.060 Maybe later we need to do it.

02:46:55.060 Uh...

02:46:56.060 That...

02:46:57.060 I think we could...

02:46:58.060 Me and Andrew...

02:46:59.060 When we get Andrew back on the show chat,

02:47:01.060 me and Andrew should try to do...

02:47:04.060 I don't know if it would be a 24-hour stream.

02:47:06.060 Okay.

02:47:07.060 We should try to do a super chat world record.

02:47:09.060 So that YouTube.

02:47:11.060 We won't do stream labs.

02:47:12.060 Me and Andrew are gonna get on whatever.

02:47:15.060 We're gonna do a super chat world record speed run.

02:47:19.060 We're gonna try it.

02:47:20.060 We're gonna try it, boys.

02:47:21.060 That could be fun.

02:47:22.060 I don't know.

02:47:23.060 Anyways, whatever. 1.00

02:47:24.060 Fuck. 1.00

02:47:25.060 Whatever. 1.00

02:47:26.060 Move...

02:47:27.060 Too much meta conversation.

02:47:28.060 We'll get back to the topics at hand.

02:47:31.060 Why don't we just jump right into this?

02:47:34.060 So...

02:47:35.060 Ah, yes.

02:47:36.060 I need to change a few things.

02:47:37.060 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten.

02:47:40.060 You can't pick seven.

02:47:41.060 You can't pick seven from iShowSpeed.

02:47:43.060 Obviously a fan of the show.

02:47:45.060 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten.

02:47:49.060 You can't pick seven.

02:47:50.060 Starting with you.

02:47:52.060 I hate that I have to go first every time, but...

02:47:55.060 Oh my gosh.

02:47:57.060 Um...

02:47:58.060 I don't know.

02:48:00.060 I guess in like, what standard just...

02:48:04.060 One to ten.

02:48:07.060 Uh...

02:48:08.060 Looks?

02:48:09.060 Looks on a scale of one to ten?

02:48:10.060 Well, I feel like everyone has a different like, preference.

02:48:15.060 You know?

02:48:16.060 Yeah, what do you think you are?

02:48:18.060 Or...

02:48:19.060 I guess a six or an eight.

02:48:21.060 A six or an eight?

02:48:23.060 Yeah.

02:48:24.060 Oh.

02:48:25.060 Yeah.

02:48:26.060 It depends on the guy, you know?

02:48:27.060 Pick one.

02:48:28.060 Um...

02:48:29.060 Eight.

02:48:30.060 Eight?

02:48:31.060 Okay.

02:48:32.060 What about you?

02:48:33.060 I'd say eight as well.

02:48:34.060 Eight?

02:48:35.060 Okay.

02:48:36.060 Six.

02:48:37.060 Alright.

02:48:38.060 I'm 43.

02:48:39.060 I know I'm depreciating, so I'm gonna say six.

02:48:40.060 Alright.

02:48:41.060 Um...

02:48:42.060 Five or six.

02:48:43.060 I'm gonna adjust your microphone a little bit.

02:48:45.060 Just tilt your mic down for me.

02:48:47.060 Yeah.

02:48:48.060 Okay.

02:48:49.060 A little more?

02:48:50.060 Yeah, and then scooting to the table a little bit.

02:48:52.060 Sorry, what was your...

02:48:53.060 What did you say?

02:48:54.060 Six?

02:48:55.060 Five or six.

02:48:56.060 Oh.

02:48:57.060 Pick.

02:48:58.060 Um...

02:48:59.060 Six.

02:49:00.060 Six.

02:49:01.060 Okay, what about you?

02:49:02.060 Six.

02:49:03.060 Alright.

02:49:04.060 Um...

02:49:05.060 With makeup, my hair done, looking good.

02:49:06.060 I'm an eight.

02:49:07.060 Six.

02:49:08.060 Um...

02:49:09.060 Wait, going back to the eight here.

02:49:10.060 What about without your makeup?

02:49:11.060 I would say a six.

02:49:12.060 Okay.

02:49:13.060 And then Felicity, you said...

02:49:14.060 Six.

02:49:15.060 Alright.

02:49:16.060 Nothing too unreasonable.

02:49:18.060 Sometimes we get some...

02:49:19.060 Nobody's a ten.

02:49:20.060 Well, the ten left.

02:49:21.060 Nobody's a ten. 0.99

02:49:22.060 Yeah, she would have said fucking ten. 1.00

02:49:24.060 She would have definitely said ten. 1.00

02:49:25.060 She did.

02:49:26.060 She would have.

02:49:27.060 She would have said ten.

02:49:28.060 Okay.

02:49:29.060 Um...

02:49:30.060 Well, you know, nothing too crazy here, so...

02:49:34.060 Um...

02:49:35.060 What do you rate yourself?

02:49:36.060 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:49:37.060 Thank you for reminding me.

02:49:38.060 I give myself a five.

02:49:39.060 Why?

02:49:40.060 I am the least attractive person here.

02:49:43.060 Uh...

02:49:44.060 Well, at least...

02:49:45.060 I don't know if...

02:49:47.060 Well, that... 1.00

02:49:48.060 With a penis or... 1.00

02:49:50.060 Uh... 1.00

02:49:51.060 Just at the table, I guess.

02:49:52.060 Okay.

02:49:53.060 That's kind of you to say.

02:49:54.060 That's very humble.

02:49:55.060 Oh.

02:49:56.060 Well, I don't know if I agree with that.

02:49:59.060 I think it's humble.

02:50:00.060 But according to the ratings, I would have to be...

02:50:04.060 I mean, if I give myself a five, the only question would then be, do I disagree with your ratings?

02:50:09.060 Uh...

02:50:10.060 But because you guys are somewhat reasonable, I don't really feel the need to give you guys too much pushback.

02:50:20.060 Aw.

02:50:21.060 Um...

02:50:22.060 Just curious, what do you rate me?

02:50:24.060 I won't be upset.

02:50:25.060 Um...

02:50:26.060 You can be honest.

02:50:28.060 Looks-wise?

02:50:29.060 Yeah.

02:50:30.060 Um...

02:50:31.060 You can't include, like... 1.00

02:50:33.060 Obviously, you probably think I'm, like, super toxic and a piece of shit, whatever. 0.99

02:50:36.060 No, no, no. 1.00

02:50:37.060 Just looks-wise.

02:50:38.060 Just looks.

02:50:39.060 Just looks.

02:50:40.060 Not intelligent.

02:50:41.060 What's your age?

02:50:42.060 36.

02:50:43.060 Okay, okay.

02:50:44.060 I'd give you, like, a...

02:50:45.060 Can I do, like, a six or a seven?

02:50:47.060 I guess a seven?

02:50:48.060 You can do whatever you want.

02:50:49.060 Whatever you want.

02:50:50.060 Six or seven?

02:50:51.060 Okay.

02:50:52.060 You don't look 36, so...

02:50:55.060 I could so pass for a 34-year-old.

02:50:59.060 I feel like you look like a 30-year-old, so...

02:51:01.060 I'm not.

02:51:02.060 You know?

02:51:03.060 Yeah, okay.

02:51:04.060 With these glasses on, though.

02:51:05.060 Yeah, the red.

02:51:06.060 The rose-colored glasses.

02:51:07.060 Yeah, just for a few minutes.

02:51:08.060 Let's see the eyes.

02:51:09.060 Here she is.

02:51:10.060 I kind of have yellow eyes.

02:51:11.060 I've got a Cher thing going on now.

02:51:12.060 Oh, why?

02:51:13.060 Genetics?

02:51:14.060 I don't know.

02:51:15.060 Those are real?

02:51:16.060 Yeah.

02:51:17.060 That's your real eye color?

02:51:18.060 Yeah.

02:51:19.060 Oh, that's super cool.

02:51:20.060 The lights are yellow?

02:51:21.060 The lights are yellow?

02:51:22.060 No, no.

02:51:23.060 My, like...

02:51:24.060 Her iris.

02:51:25.060 Her iris.

02:51:26.060 Is actually yellow.

02:51:27.060 Yeah.

02:51:28.060 Wow.

02:51:29.060 It looks golden.

02:51:30.060 Well, it looks like hazel.

02:51:31.060 Yeah, it's hazel.

02:51:32.060 Hazel?

02:51:33.060 Yeah.

02:51:34.060 Anyone ever noticed how blue Brian's eyes are?

02:51:36.060 Yeah.

02:51:37.060 They're, like, really piercing blue.

02:51:39.060 It's kind of, like, hard to look at him sometimes.

02:51:41.060 Oh, wow.

02:51:42.060 Like, you're in a kiss, or...?

02:51:45.060 You don't remember that?

02:51:46.060 Oh, I heard about the rumor, yeah.

02:51:47.060 Are you saying, like, I'm intimidating or something, or...?

02:51:50.060 Yeah, like, because your eyes are just so blue.

02:51:51.060 Oh, yeah.

02:51:52.060 Like, piercing?

02:51:53.060 Yeah.

02:51:54.060 Is it, like, the guy from Game of Thrones?

02:51:56.060 He's got ocean eyes.

02:51:57.060 Wait, can you do a favor?

02:51:59.060 Yeah.

02:52:00.060 Very carefully, without bumping this camera.

02:52:02.060 Okay.

02:52:03.060 Because the people want a close-up of your eyes.

02:52:05.060 Yeah.

02:52:06.060 I want you to stand right here.

02:52:07.060 Okay.

02:52:08.060 And then just...

02:52:09.060 Oh, go stare in the camera.

02:52:10.060 Stare into this camera.

02:52:11.060 Stare into this camera.

02:52:12.060 She has no pretty eyes. 1.00

02:52:13.060 I could have turned around in that.

02:52:14.060 Oh, focus.

02:52:15.060 Can we maybe focus this way?

02:52:16.060 It's...

02:52:17.060 Scoop back a little.

02:52:18.060 It's just the focus...

02:52:19.060 Here, I'll...

02:52:20.060 I'll do the focus.

02:52:21.060 Take your bangs out of your eyes.

02:52:22.060 I'll do the focus.

02:52:23.060 Maybe, like...

02:52:24.060 Oh, yeah.

02:52:25.060 You know what would be funny is, like, at some points during the show, somebody just,

02:52:28.060 like, popped up.

02:52:29.060 Like, is she on the stair?

02:52:31.060 There you go.

02:52:32.060 Oh, there you go.

02:52:33.060 Is that the focus?

02:52:34.060 Oh.

02:52:35.060 Okay, I'll have to focus it when she sits. 0.99

02:52:36.060 Okay.

02:52:37.060 We are here a little bit.

02:52:38.060 Yeah.

02:52:39.060 All right.

02:52:40.060 Let me...

02:52:41.060 Oh.

02:52:42.060 Just care.

02:52:43.060 Oh.

02:52:44.060 Everybody's now.

02:52:45.060 You're good.

02:52:46.060 You're good.

02:52:47.060 You're good.

02:52:48.060 You're good.

02:52:49.060 I'm going to do it.

02:52:50.060 I'm going up that close to a camera in my face.

02:52:52.060 I'm going to see if anything can get up for just a moment.

02:52:53.060 Can you...

02:52:54.060 That's my nightmare.

02:52:55.060 Name a country.

02:52:56.060 Or name three countries.

02:52:57.060 Good.

02:52:58.060 Germany...

02:52:59.060 You guys can't repeat answers.

02:53:00.060 Germany, Italy, and France.

02:53:03.060 Canada, United States, Mexico.

02:53:06.060 Peru, Brazil, Argentina.

02:53:09.060 Iraq, Japan, and Finland.

02:53:15.060 Okay.

02:53:16.060 Bosnia... 0.52

02:53:17.060 Wait, did we say England?

02:53:20.060 England and Nigeria.

02:53:23.060 Nigeria, yeah?

02:53:24.060 We're doing countries, right?

02:53:25.060 Oh, countries.

02:53:26.060 Three countries.

02:53:27.060 Yeah.

02:53:28.060 China, Thailand, and...

02:53:31.060 Did somebody say Afghanistan?

02:53:32.060 No.

02:53:33.060 Okay.

02:53:34.060 You did.

02:53:35.060 Okay.

02:53:36.060 Russia, Canada, and Australia.

02:53:39.060 I think Canada was already said.

02:53:40.060 Um...

02:53:41.060 Australia is a continent.

02:53:42.060 Oh, so a country.

02:53:43.060 Australia is a country, too.

02:53:44.060 It's a country.

02:53:45.060 Yeah, it is.

02:53:46.060 What's the continent called then?

02:53:48.060 Uh...

02:53:49.060 Oceana, or just Australia?

02:53:50.060 Yeah, it's Australia, right?

02:53:52.060 It's a continent and a country.

02:53:54.060 Okay.

02:53:55.060 Yeah.

02:53:56.060 Okay.

02:53:57.060 What was your last answer?

02:53:58.060 Um...

02:53:59.060 Russia, Australia, and...

02:54:03.060 Oh my gosh.

02:54:04.060 You got this.

02:54:06.060 Just think...

02:54:07.060 Don't overthink it.

02:54:08.060 Jamaica?

02:54:09.060 I could be wrong about that one, though.

02:54:11.060 Okay.

02:54:12.060 Oh, yeah.

02:54:13.060 There you go.

02:54:14.060 Okay.

02:54:15.060 Name a continent.

02:54:16.060 You already said Australia or whatever, so...

02:54:18.060 Oh, I'm out.

02:54:19.060 I'm out.

02:54:20.060 No, no, no.

02:54:21.060 Name a continent, starting with you.

02:54:22.060 A continent?

02:54:23.060 Yeah.

02:54:24.060 North America?

02:54:25.060 Okay.

02:54:26.060 Europe?

02:54:27.060 Asia.

02:54:28.060 Africa?

02:54:29.060 South America?

02:54:30.060 Antarctica.

02:54:31.060 You guys are all...

02:54:32.060 How boring are we?

02:54:33.060 I guess we need to have that girl back. 0.91

02:54:35.060 What was her name?

02:54:36.060 I don't even know her name.

02:54:38.060 Can we call her?

02:54:39.060 Have her come back?

02:54:40.060 I had a dog that name, and that's not a diss on her.

02:54:42.060 Her name was Ophelia.

02:54:43.060 Oh, it was a fake name.

02:54:44.060 No!

02:54:45.060 That was a real name.

02:54:46.060 There's no way that's her name.

02:54:47.060 Uh-uh.

02:54:48.060 Ophelia?

02:54:49.060 Off of her.

02:54:50.060 Oh.

02:54:51.060 Oh.

02:54:52.060 Oh.

02:54:53.060 Sorry.

02:54:54.060 Well, we were just talking about her dog.

02:54:55.060 Yeah.

02:54:56.060 Named the same.

02:54:57.060 Okay.

02:54:58.060 Do you want me to just go down the questionnaire?

02:55:00.060 Are we going to make this worse?

02:55:07.060 Yes.

02:55:08.060 Yep.

02:55:09.060 We all passed.

02:55:11.060 Yeah, they did actually.

02:55:12.060 I memorized in like four...

02:55:14.060 Oh.

02:55:15.060 Okay.

02:55:16.060 Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?

02:55:19.060 Okay.

02:55:20.060 I wrote on my answer.

02:55:21.060 It kind of depends on the species of bear and the...

02:55:25.060 That's random.

02:55:26.060 In the time of day.

02:55:28.060 Because if I ran into a man at like three in the morning...

02:55:31.060 No, when do you hike?

02:55:32.060 I'd be scared.

02:55:33.060 People typically hike like in the morning or afternoon.

02:55:35.060 Hey, Felicity, can you take my seat for a sec?

02:55:41.060 I feel like I'd be more scared to...

02:55:45.060 I don't know.

02:55:46.060 I mean, I guess it kind of, again, depends on the time of day.

02:55:50.060 Like if we're going hypothetically, like generally, I guess.

02:55:55.060 Like afternoon, when people usually hike?

02:55:58.060 Then like a...

02:56:00.060 Like I really wish I could be like bear, but like a man.

02:56:03.060 Because...

02:56:04.060 Why would you wish to say bear?

02:56:06.060 Because like...

02:56:07.060 I don't know.

02:56:08.060 Like, I feel like if it were a bear...

02:56:11.060 Again, it just depends on the context.

02:56:13.060 Like if I ran into a man at three in the morning...

02:56:16.060 No, not three in the morning.

02:56:18.060 But like, yeah, the man.

02:56:20.060 Okay.

02:56:21.060 But you said you wished you could pick bear.

02:56:24.060 Why?

02:56:25.060 Yeah.

02:56:26.060 Because I feel like the point of that is like, you know, like...

02:56:30.060 Rationality?

02:56:32.060 Do you think that bear will be less of a raper?

02:56:34.060 The point of that...

02:56:35.060 Yeah.

02:56:36.060 Like the point of that question is like...

02:56:38.060 Like, yeah.

02:56:39.060 That's the point of the question.

02:56:41.060 Why would the man sexually assault you?

02:56:45.060 It's very common.

02:56:47.060 How common?

02:56:49.060 Well, I've read it's one in four, but I think it's a lot higher.

02:56:53.060 Because every woman I know has been sexually assaulted.

02:56:56.060 And a lot of men I know have also been sexually assaulted by men.

02:57:00.060 So what do you think the percentage is?

02:57:03.060 Like, documented or undocumented.

02:57:06.060 Just what do you think?

02:57:08.060 I think it's gotta be like...

02:57:10.060 I don't think anyone in their life hasn't been sexually harassed or assaulted.

02:57:17.060 In some way.

02:57:18.060 No.

02:57:19.060 Women also do that. 1.00

02:57:20.060 So what do you think the percentage is?

02:57:21.060 Yeah.

02:57:22.060 My best friend was just sexually assaulted by a woman. 0.94

02:57:24.060 Yes. 0.95

02:57:25.060 Okay.

02:57:26.060 But what do you think the percentage is?

02:57:27.060 Did I ever say that?

02:57:28.060 That's not possible.

02:57:29.060 No, she didn't.

02:57:30.060 What do you think the percentage is?

02:57:32.060 No.

02:57:33.060 Um, probably like 99.9%.

02:57:37.060 Haha, what do you think the percentage is?

02:57:39.060 Wait, come on.

02:57:40.060 Undocumented, 99.9%.

02:57:42.060 Out of, wait.

02:57:43.060 Wait.

02:57:44.060 Like, out of everyone in this world.

02:57:45.060 No, no, I'm not asking like, who do you, how many people do you think have been assaulted?

02:57:49.060 I'm asking like, how many men do you think are likely to sexually, or have sexually assaulted someone?

02:57:55.060 That's like a very...

02:58:00.060 Probably all of them.

02:58:02.060 A hundred percent?

02:58:03.060 Yeah.

02:58:04.060 Oh my god.

02:58:05.060 Really?

02:58:06.060 Even if it were in, like, unintentionally, like, yeah.

02:58:10.060 Do you think every single man that you've passed on the street, do you think your dad has sexually assaulted someone?

02:58:17.060 Do you have brothers?

02:58:18.060 No.

02:58:19.060 Do you have nephews, uncles?

02:58:20.060 Yeah.

02:58:21.060 Do you think they've sexually assaulted someone?

02:58:23.060 I don't really trust that they haven't.

02:58:28.060 Why?

02:58:29.060 Why would you think that they, that they have?

02:58:32.060 Well, I wouldn't be like, oh, like, I wouldn't accuse them of that, but like, I just think it's very, very common and unlikely that it wouldn't happen, you know?

02:58:42.060 But you're saying you think 100% of men.

02:58:45.060 Yeah.

02:58:48.060 Do you know the actual statistic?

02:58:50.060 I don't know the documented statistics, but also I know a lot of survivors are very scared to open up about that.

02:58:59.060 Yeah, there's, like, undocumented, but what do you think the statistic is?

02:59:04.060 Okay, again, 99.9.

02:59:06.060 No, like, like, real statistic.

02:59:08.060 Do you think it's 99.9?

02:59:09.060 No.

02:59:10.060 25%.

02:59:11.060 The other panelists first.

02:59:12.060 Okay.

02:59:13.060 Man or bear?

02:59:14.060 On a hike.

02:59:15.060 Random, or random man or random bear on a hike.

02:59:17.060 Well, I've, I've been on hikes and I've come across random men, but I haven't come across a bear yet, so I would say the man.

02:59:25.060 Okay.

02:59:26.060 Man.

02:59:27.060 Absolutely a man.

02:59:29.060 Man.

02:59:30.060 Man.

02:59:31.060 Man.

02:59:32.060 Okay.

02:59:33.060 So, you're the only one that picked bear.

02:59:35.060 I didn't pick bear, though.

02:59:37.060 Well, you said, I said, yeah, but I wish I could say bear. 0.93

02:59:41.060 But why would you wish that?

02:59:43.060 Because I get the point of that question is to, like, point of that question is to, like.

02:59:49.060 What's the point of the question?

02:59:51.060 The point of the question is to, like, show that, you know.

02:59:56.060 But what do you really feel if it is bear?

02:59:59.060 I mean, because her response was basically around bear.

03:00:02.060 What is the point of the question?

03:00:03.060 It's, like, death or, like. 0.95

03:00:04.060 Rape.

03:00:05.060 Trauma. 0.88

03:00:06.060 Yeah.

03:00:07.060 But that's a problem.

03:00:08.060 That's what you think.

03:00:09.060 So, you're saying that, like, every man that you pass on the street, you think they've sexually assaulted someone or would like to sexually assault you?

03:00:16.060 Not necessarily me, but women probably, yeah. 1.00

03:00:19.060 You said 99.9%.

03:00:20.060 Yeah.

03:00:21.060 Do you think that your career option that you have right now kind of, like, skews your brain?

03:00:28.060 That's a great point.

03:00:29.060 Yeah, I do.

03:00:30.060 You are constantly around men who are probably not, like, the nicest people on the planet?

03:00:35.060 Yeah, but also every woman outside of it that I've met has been sexually assaulted.

03:00:40.060 And, like, a lot of men I have met have been sexually assaulted by men as well.

03:00:46.060 But to say that every single man on the planet has sexually assaulted somebody, you don't think that's outrageous?

03:00:53.060 Well, she asked if they have or have thought about it.

03:00:57.060 No, I didn't say thought.

03:00:58.060 No.

03:00:59.060 I said, how many men do you think are sexually. 0.74

03:01:01.060 And you said 99.9%.

03:01:03.060 Yeah. 0.99

03:01:04.060 Sexual predators. 1.00

03:01:05.060 That's ridiculous. 1.00

03:01:06.060 Okay. 0.89

03:01:07.060 But, like, you're saying that, like, you think even, like, your father has done that and, like, your uncles and nephews and such.

03:01:14.060 I'm not going to accuse them again, but I'm just saying that it's probably, like, more likely than not, you know?

03:01:23.060 Everybody answered.

03:01:25.060 They all said man besides.

03:01:27.060 Except for her.

03:01:28.060 But I did say man.

03:01:29.060 No, she said man.

03:01:30.060 Oh, she said man?

03:01:31.060 Yeah.

03:01:32.060 She just said that 99.9%.

03:01:33.060 No, she said man.

03:01:35.060 At first she said man, then she said, I wish I could pick bear, and then she went on to say that she thinks, like, 99.9% of men are sexual predators. 0.80

03:01:42.060 I see. 0.82

03:01:44.060 Okay.

03:01:45.060 Even her family members.

03:01:46.060 Oh.

03:01:47.060 I'm not saying, like, they are.

03:01:49.060 I'm just saying it's very, like, I don't want to think they're not.

03:01:55.060 Do you think they would be offended if, like, they heard you saying that?

03:01:58.060 I'm not accusing them of anything.

03:02:00.060 I'm just saying I don't trust men.

03:02:02.060 You're not accusing them, though.

03:02:03.060 You are accusing them, though.

03:02:04.060 You're not accusing them.

03:02:05.060 No, I'm not.

03:02:06.060 But you're saying you wouldn't be surprised.

03:02:07.060 It's like.

03:02:08.060 Because they're men.

03:02:09.060 Like, what if I was like, I wouldn't be surprised if you were a neo-Nazi.

03:02:13.060 Isn't that kind of weird?

03:02:15.060 Right, so.

03:02:16.060 I mean, but, yeah.

03:02:18.060 You don't know, like.

03:02:19.060 Based on her experiences and where she works.

03:02:21.060 Yeah.

03:02:22.060 And the people she surrounds herself with.

03:02:23.060 Yes.

03:02:24.060 I don't understand where she comes to this conclusion.

03:02:25.060 Yes.

03:02:26.060 Unfortunately.

03:02:30.060 Pasty George donated $200.

03:02:32.060 Wow.

03:02:33.060 Yo, thank you, man.

03:02:34.060 So, that's just from my trouble.

03:02:36.060 Stop, stop, stop.

03:02:37.060 Up to $500 in super chats per day.

03:02:40.060 Yo, Pasty George.

03:02:41.060 Thank you, man.

03:02:42.060 Appreciate it.

03:02:43.060 Guys, if the TTS has come through, please don't, like, talk over it.

03:02:45.060 Also.

03:02:46.060 That is a good point.

03:02:47.060 I know that YouTube has limits, but we could still, I think we could still do it, I guess.

03:02:53.060 I guess.

03:02:54.060 Sorry, guys.

03:02:55.060 I had to step away there, so some of these are coming in a little bit late.

03:02:59.060 Abzil's donated $200.

03:03:02.060 Brian, you're a six.

03:03:04.060 Don't be so harsh.

03:03:06.060 Height is a factor.

03:03:07.060 6FT1 is beyond above average, so it evens out.

03:03:11.060 Thank you, man.

03:03:12.060 Quickfire question.

03:03:13.060 Everyone's favorite Michael Jackson song?

03:03:15.060 Billie Jean.

03:03:16.060 Go.

03:03:17.060 Thriller.

03:03:18.060 I like Billie Jean.

03:03:19.060 It's October.

03:03:20.060 Claire.

03:03:21.060 I guess Thriller.

03:03:22.060 Do you know who Michael Jackson is?

03:03:24.060 Yes, I do.

03:03:25.060 Okay.

03:03:26.060 Yeah, you're 18, right?

03:03:28.060 So, I don't know.

03:03:29.060 Do they...

03:03:30.060 I think everyone knows who Michael Jackson is.

03:03:32.060 But I feel like...

03:03:33.060 How is he not from the Beatles?

03:03:34.060 Do you know the Beatles?

03:03:35.060 Oh, God.

03:03:36.060 Yes.

03:03:37.060 Is this patronizing or is this sort of patronizing?

03:03:39.060 Yeah.

03:03:40.060 A little bit.

03:03:41.060 It's a little rude.

03:03:42.060 Wait, we're concerned about that now.

03:03:43.060 I've talked to younger people and they're like, Nirvana?

03:03:46.060 Who's that?

03:03:47.060 I just said a Michael Jackson song and we're like the same age.

03:03:50.060 Well, Felicity, you are weird.

03:03:54.060 I think I'm normal.

03:03:55.060 I have like four Ozzy Osbourne found two's.

03:03:59.060 Corey, thank you.

03:04:01.060 Corey, thank you.

03:04:02.060 Did that come through from Corey, Nick?

03:04:03.060 Yeah, it did.

03:04:04.060 Corey, thank you for the...

03:04:05.060 It looks like you bought on Mert a hoodie.

03:04:08.060 Thank you.

03:04:09.060 Oh, that was a good one.

03:04:11.060 My point is...

03:04:12.060 Did you see that question?

03:04:13.060 Hey, you need to send in $200 to actually have that question be read out loud and then

03:04:19.060 have it be said.

03:04:20.060 $200 and four cents to be exact.

03:04:22.060 That was true.

03:04:23.060 My point is because of my trauma, I don't trust any man no matter who.

03:04:27.060 You only gave $10, buddy.

03:04:29.060 You need to step up your game and then we'll talk about your question.

03:04:32.060 My issue with that though, here's my issue with that, is what if we extend this justification

03:04:41.060 to race?

03:04:42.060 Mm-hmm. 0.98

03:04:43.060 Say somebody's been traumatized by a black person. 0.94

03:04:47.060 Does your statement that you made about men all of a sudden transmute into a racist 0.67

03:04:54.060 one if you say, well, I've had trauma from black people. 0.98

03:04:59.060 Therefore, I think this about black people. 1.00

03:05:02.060 Is it racist? 0.77

03:05:03.060 Definitely.

03:05:04.060 So are you sexist against men?

03:05:07.060 I guess this specific view comes from trauma and it is misandry.

03:05:14.060 Oh, it is misandry.

03:05:16.060 Yeah, which is sexist.

03:05:18.060 Are you misandrist?

03:05:19.060 Not, like generally, no, but I think when it comes to trusting men, my trust for men

03:05:28.060 is at a zero, which could be viewed as sexist or misandrist.

03:05:32.060 You know?

03:05:33.060 Okay.

03:05:34.060 So you would consider yourself misandrist then?

03:05:37.060 That's not necessarily what I said.

03:05:39.060 Well, okay, and some, you're not, you don't take on the title in total?

03:05:44.060 No, no.

03:05:45.060 But you have misandrist positions?

03:05:48.060 Is that more?

03:05:50.060 One, which is my lack of trust for men.

03:05:53.060 Okay.

03:05:54.060 I think in any other regard, no, but I think I've had a lot of negative experiences with

03:06:01.060 men that makes me think that way.

03:06:03.060 And I think misogynistic men also have trauma with women that make them misogynistic.

03:06:10.060 I think also statistically though, like your, your point of view is supported because you

03:06:16.060 can fact check me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure 80, 82% of like minors who get

03:06:21.060 assaulted are women and 90% of like assault cases are women and like more than 95% of sexual

03:06:27.060 sexual structures are men.

03:06:29.060 So I feel like if you do have like a distrust for men, like it's, it is backed by statistics.

03:06:36.060 Yeah.

03:06:37.060 But this justification, even if it is the case and mind you, a lot of these, you know,

03:06:44.060 these stats are misrepresented there.

03:06:46.060 They can oftentimes be false, but just for the sake of argument, I'll go ahead and grant

03:06:51.060 that.

03:06:52.060 Yeah.

03:06:53.060 Men are overrepresented in certain crime statistics.

03:06:55.060 Sure.

03:06:56.060 Let's grant it.

03:06:57.060 I, yeah, we'll, we'll grant it.

03:07:00.060 It's probably true.

03:07:01.060 Although I do think a lot of these statistics are mischaracterized.

03:07:06.060 For example, women will say, well, the majority of people who commit the crime of rape are 0.79

03:07:11.060 men.

03:07:12.060 Well, if by the definition, the legal, the criminal legal definition of rape prevents women from 1.00

03:07:20.060 being deemed as committing that crime.

03:07:21.060 While we as a society might say, well, somebody who's, you know, like a woman who takes advantage 1.00

03:07:27.060 of somebody like we would call her a rapist criminally. 0.86

03:07:32.060 It doesn't always work out that way.

03:07:34.060 So if you actually look in these jurisdictions, women can't be convicted for the crime of 1.00

03:07:39.060 rape.

03:07:40.060 Are you joking? 0.65

03:07:41.060 No.

03:07:42.060 Are you joking? 0.99

03:07:43.060 That's fucked up. 0.99

03:07:44.060 I'm just saying that's really, you can look into it. 0.99

03:07:46.060 So if the crime of rape there, you as the perpetrator have to penetrate them, then women, I guess 0.95

03:07:57.060 technically, like if you were to stick, I don't want to get detailed.

03:08:00.060 If you want to like put your finger, you know, whatever.

03:08:04.060 Like if you penetrate somebody as a woman without their consent under, under that circumstance 0.51

03:08:10.060 that, but, but like, for example, made to penetrate wouldn't be, wouldn't constitute

03:08:17.060 rape. 1.00

03:08:18.060 The fuck? 1.00

03:08:19.060 That's just how it is. 1.00

03:08:20.060 But so when these statistics are presented and look.

03:08:23.060 Can I see the definition?

03:08:25.060 Um, the fact check you like, I'm sorry.

03:08:28.060 I just like, that's so mind blowing.

03:08:31.060 Do you think it's not the case? 1.00

03:08:32.060 I think it's so fucked up. 1.00

03:08:33.060 That's fucked up. 1.00

03:08:34.060 Yeah, it is fucked up. 1.00

03:08:35.060 But it is, it is, it is the case in a lot of jurisdictions where women can't be found 1.00

03:08:42.060 Lee, uh, criminally liable, criminally, criminally guilty for the crime of definitely

03:08:48.060 harder.

03:08:49.060 I think unless they, they can be, they can be, uh, found guilty of other sex crimes.

03:08:54.060 But the specific crime of rape in certain jurisdictions, it, you have to penetrate.

03:09:02.060 But there's a penetrative something of your own body parts.

03:09:05.060 I mean, you know, you can penetrate a man with something forcibly.

03:09:08.060 Forcibly.

03:09:09.060 You can.

03:09:10.060 Yeah.

03:09:11.060 But like, for example, um, like if a woman like holds a guy's arms down and he's clearly

03:09:16.060 policing and she, she for, or she has a gun and she forces him to penetrate her under 0.99

03:09:23.060 threat, like coercive or violence.

03:09:25.060 Yeah.

03:09:26.060 That's different.

03:09:27.060 It would be considered rape. 1.00

03:09:28.060 Yeah.

03:09:29.060 It would be considered some other sex crime. 0.93

03:09:30.060 But if she held him down and forcibly penetrated him with something, would that be rape? 0.93

03:09:34.060 Yeah. 0.97

03:09:35.060 Yes.

03:09:36.060 That would be rape. 1.00

03:09:37.060 Okay. 0.70

03:09:38.060 But most rapes that, well, I would view it as rape if a woman forces a man to penetrate 0.99

03:09:43.060 her.

03:09:44.060 But criminally speaking, um.

03:09:45.060 They're saying no reverse rape.

03:09:47.060 Reverse rape doesn't exist is what they're saying. 0.85

03:09:49.060 Well, they're, and by the way, it, the definitions vary by jurisdiction.

03:09:54.060 Mm hmm.

03:09:55.060 But in any case, to the central point, you were saying a little bit of a tangent there.

03:10:00.060 You were saying, well, it is the case that men commit these crimes more frequently.

03:10:05.060 Well, my first point would be, it's a really small proportion of men.

03:10:11.060 And so while it is in this, I'll grant it, while it might be true that men commit these

03:10:16.660 crimes more frequently, a really, really small percentage of men commit these crimes.

03:10:21.760 And I think it's, it is bigotry to attribute to the group, the behavior of a criminal minority 1.00

03:10:28.760 of that group in the same way.

03:10:31.760 Like for example, the, the other complexity here is it then creates the opening, I guess

03:10:40.760 you could say for racists to say, well, hold on.

03:10:45.760 This race commits more crimes than this race. 1.00

03:10:51.760 This minority group commits more crimes than Asian people. 1.00

03:10:56.760 And there are crime statistics that do account for race, right?

03:11:00.760 Well, they, they factor this in.

03:11:03.760 And so what is stopping an Asian person from justifying their racism towards black people 0.99

03:11:08.760 by saying, well, hold on. 0.98

03:11:11.760 And by the way, um, when it comes to almost all crimes across the board, Asian people commit 1.00

03:11:16.760 these crimes the least, right? 0.97

03:11:18.760 But they could look to white people. 0.98

03:11:19.760 They could look to black people.

03:11:20.760 They could look to Hispanic people and say, well, hold on. 0.99

03:11:23.760 I'm Asian. 0.99

03:11:25.760 Black people commit these violent crimes more frequently than Asian people do. 1.00

03:11:29.760 You would agree though, that to say, make some sort of blanket general statement about black 0.99

03:11:38.760 people would be racist, right?

03:11:42.760 Oh, do you?

03:11:43.760 I don't know.

03:11:44.760 Maybe you're like, I'm fine with it actually.

03:11:46.760 No, no, no.

03:11:48.760 I'm not racist.

03:11:49.760 No, no, but, but would you, you would agree that it wouldn't be fair to paint all black people

03:11:56.760 as, you know, to, to start having bigotry or contempt or racist sentiment towards black

03:12:04.760 people, despite the, the factual crime statistics that per capita, they do engage in certain crime

03:12:16.760 more than other races.

03:12:19.760 What's the, I just, I just, I kind of forgot the question, but we were talking about you.

03:12:25.760 You, it sounded like you were saying, well, she, she's kind of justified.

03:12:30.760 Even if, you know, she didn't have her own trauma.

03:12:33.760 I have stats.

03:12:34.760 I have crime statistics and it shows that men commit these crimes more often than women.

03:12:40.760 Ninety eight percent of, you know, perpetrators of this crime are men.

03:12:46.760 And you're essentially trying to get to, well, that's the justification for women's lack 1.00

03:12:55.760 of trust in men or, you know, whatever it is, bigotry.

03:12:58.760 The difference is, is I would say, while we can acknowledge that crime statistics are true

03:13:05.760 and that there are discrepancies between men and women, even between races, that I would 0.95

03:13:11.760 never go, even though, you know, for example, black people commit more violent crime than 1.00

03:13:16.760 whites or Asians. 0.93

03:13:17.760 I would never say, well, we should treat the entire group.

03:13:22.760 We should, we should treat this entire group and appraise them generally and appraise an

03:13:27.760 individual black person who we don't know anything about as potentially being more violent.

03:13:33.760 Does that make sense? 0.94

03:13:34.760 Yeah.

03:13:35.760 Okay.

03:13:36.760 Do you have a counter to this or, well, do you want to like revise your position or do you

03:13:41.760 think it's, what do you think?

03:13:46.760 I don't know.

03:13:47.760 I don't really have any more comments on it.

03:13:49.760 But I mean, so I guess what, what were you trying to get at by saying, well, men commit

03:13:55.760 these crimes more?

03:13:57.760 I just wanted to bring up the statistic that it is like a 90% plus statistic for like sexual

03:14:03.760 assault and that it's like committed by men.

03:14:06.760 So like if you do take that into account, not saying that all men do this or that woman

03:14:11.760 can't be like sexual predators, I'm just saying that like, I would understand why she has trust

03:14:16.760 issues just based on like statistical, maybe like, you know, her own experiences.

03:14:22.760 Can I ask you this though?

03:14:23.760 If a white person had their own individual traumatic experience with a, with a black person, 0.76

03:14:30.760 maybe one, maybe two, maybe three.

03:14:32.760 And then they also showed you, Hey, look at, look at these crime statistics right here.

03:14:38.760 Would you understand their racism?

03:14:42.760 Not really.

03:14:43.760 Like would you just, do you think their racism, racism is justified?

03:14:50.760 No.

03:14:51.760 So why is sexism towards men justified?

03:14:54.760 I don't think it's sexism.

03:14:56.760 I think it's just, well, do you tell me what it is?

03:15:02.760 I wouldn't call it sexism.

03:15:04.760 I'm not saying that all men are like, well, here was your framing.

03:15:08.760 You said you understand why she doesn't trust is, was that the right word?

03:15:14.760 She doesn't trust men.

03:15:15.760 Well, I'll just use the exact same language, but input race.

03:15:21.760 Would you say you understand a white person who doesn't trust black people because they've

03:15:26.760 been victimized by a black person and they would show you they, and they can show you, 0.97

03:15:31.760 trust me, crime statistics that show that black people per capita commit certain crimes 1.00

03:15:36.760 disproportionately and commit crimes more often than white people or Asian people. 0.99

03:15:41.760 Would you understand why somebody wouldn't trust a black person? 0.97

03:15:47.760 I guess logically, yes, I would.

03:15:50.760 But for me personally, like it would be different.

03:15:53.760 It's different.

03:15:54.760 Well, it just, it's just different.

03:15:56.760 That's where you and me differ where I would say, well, no, I don't think you should make

03:16:02.760 generalized statements about black people or any other minority group, just as you shouldn't

03:16:06.760 make these statements about men.

03:16:09.760 Look, I think your position is a bit untenable.

03:16:15.760 You're going to have to either revise your position and say that, you know what, Brian,

03:16:21.760 you're right.

03:16:22.760 We shouldn't make like these bigoted comments or whatever, or like, you know, these attitudes

03:16:27.760 towards men are not really justified.

03:16:30.760 Or you're going to have to open the floodgates to justified racism.

03:16:36.760 There's no way around it.

03:16:41.760 I mean, that's the logical extension of your position.

03:16:45.760 I had bad experience with this group of this person who belongs to this group.

03:16:50.760 I can.

03:16:51.760 I have crime statistics that show this group does this commits X crime more often.

03:16:58.760 That's the opening.

03:17:04.760 So will you stand with me against racism and sexism, or will you allow for exceptions to

03:17:14.760 sexism and racism so long as somebody has personally been victimized and they can show you crime

03:17:20.760 statistics?

03:17:21.760 I guess I'll stand with you and not allow any sexism.

03:17:27.760 Okay.

03:17:28.760 All right.

03:17:29.760 There we go.

03:17:30.760 All right.

03:17:31.760 Good.

03:17:32.760 Good times.

03:17:33.760 Okay.

03:17:34.760 Well, I have a question into the mic if you can.

03:17:37.760 Oh, sorry.

03:17:38.760 Would you like, are you a feminist? 1.00

03:17:41.760 No.

03:17:42.760 No.

03:17:43.760 So you're misogynistic?

03:17:44.760 Well, how does that?

03:17:46.760 It's not one or the other.

03:17:47.760 You don't have to know.

03:17:48.760 Explain that though.

03:17:49.760 What do you mean?

03:17:50.760 Do you know the definition of feminism? 1.00

03:17:54.760 Uh, I have two of my own definitions for it.

03:17:59.760 I mean, there's three different phases of it.

03:18:01.760 Okay.

03:18:02.760 Hold on.

03:18:03.760 Let me, wait, hold on.

03:18:05.760 Uh, let me play this.

03:18:08.760 Abzil's donated $200.

03:18:10.760 And then we'll get into that.

03:18:12.760 Brian, don't test me.

03:18:13.760 Michael is the most famous person to step foot on earth to this day.

03:18:18.760 Thriller is the goat album.

03:18:20.760 Still the highest selling.

03:18:22.760 Knew you were a Swifty, Brian.

03:18:24.760 Okay.

03:18:25.760 Hashtag free Felicity.

03:18:26.760 You're right.

03:18:27.760 I'm a Swifty.

03:18:28.760 Thank you.

03:18:29.760 That's not nice.

03:18:30.760 Um, joke.

03:18:31.760 So sorry.

03:18:32.760 What were you saying?

03:18:33.760 The definition of feminism?

03:18:35.760 Uh, you tell me your definition and I'll give you mine. 0.80

03:18:37.760 I'll give you mine.

03:18:38.760 The advocacy of women's rights and equal rights between genders.

03:18:42.760 Hmm.

03:18:43.760 Okay.

03:18:44.760 Uh, well, I disagree with your definition, but I'll give you two.

03:18:46.760 I'll give you the charitable definition, which I don't think is actually the case.

03:18:50.760 Uh, the first definition of feminism that I would give is women's advocacy period.

03:18:58.760 So that's the first half of your definition.

03:19:01.760 Um, so even my charitable definition, it at feminism absolutely is never about equality.

03:19:11.760 Feminism is about women's advocacy. 1.00

03:19:13.760 And to be clear, there's nothing wrong with women's advocacy.

03:19:18.760 However, let's not parade around feminism as if it were actually at all interested in equality. 1.00

03:19:27.760 Why is it not?

03:19:29.760 Well, for example, um, I don't typically hear feminists ever doing any advocacy for men.

03:19:39.760 Uh, the advocacy that they support, again, nothing wrong with this, but if we're using terms like equality, it should actually meet the criteria and definition for equality.

03:19:52.760 Uh, feminists never really advocate for men. 1.00

03:19:54.760 Feminists dismiss, downplay, omit ways in which men could conceivably have things worse. 0.97

03:20:02.760 Uh, there's plenty of statistics that actually can back this up that in many, many ways, men, things have it worse than women. 1.00

03:20:11.760 Uh, I think men and women each respectively have their own difficulties and struggles in life.

03:20:16.760 A hundred percent.

03:20:17.760 Right.

03:20:18.760 But feminists actually refuse to acknowledge them because it would completely dismantle and crumble the, uh, fantasy of, uh, you know, what they've attempted to construct as women victims, women oppressed, men perpetrators, men, oppressors. 1.00

03:20:36.760 Let me finish really quick though.

03:20:38.760 Uh, in any situation, and here, here's the, really the killer.

03:20:42.760 If there was a scenario where achieving equality came to the detriment of women, feminists wouldn't fight for it. 1.00

03:20:53.760 And there are ways in which equality, like we're not equal, that would equalize us, where feminists would actively, because it's women's advocacy, right? 1.00

03:21:05.760 Uh, where women would stand to, it would come to the detriment of women in some way. 1.00

03:21:13.760 So for example, often in the court system, there's massive bias against men.

03:21:19.760 Yeah.

03:21:20.760 There's a lot of bias against men.

03:21:22.760 Uh, if we saw, for example, while we wanted to try to equalize, you know, the, the, when we dispense punishments for crimes, well, there seems to be clear evidence that men receive harsher punishments for crimes, more fines, more jail time, longer probation, more likely to be convicted, all these sorts of things.

03:21:47.760 Right.

03:21:48.760 Uh, also in the, like the family court system, civil court system, when it comes to family law, there is quite a bit of bias in the law against men.

03:21:57.760 You see this in divorce.

03:21:58.760 Now I'm not saying some women here have been divorced. 0.99

03:22:00.760 I'm not, maybe you're divorced and go so great.

03:22:02.760 I'm not saying that it's always the case, but there's definitely, for example, when it comes to child custody, there's a lot of assumptions made about the, uh, shoot.

03:22:13.760 What's the word?

03:22:14.760 There's a lot of assumptions made about men's, uh, trying to think what the right word is here.

03:22:21.760 Uh, capacity.

03:22:24.760 No, not capacity.

03:22:25.760 Ability to care for their child.

03:22:27.760 Yeah.

03:22:28.760 I agree with you.

03:22:29.760 What's that?

03:22:30.760 I agree with you.

03:22:31.760 No, not that.

03:22:32.760 Uh, there's a lot of assumptions made about men's, I guess, lack of, no, that's not it. 1.00

03:22:39.760 Um, fuck. 0.99

03:22:40.760 Describe what it is. 1.00

03:22:41.760 Uh, like, uh, ability, capacity, but it's not quite that.

03:22:46.760 Capability? 1.00

03:22:47.760 Ah, shit. 1.00

03:22:50.760 It's on the tip of my tongue and it, I'm the type of person I can't move away from it until 1.00

03:22:54.760 I figure it out.

03:22:55.760 Um, men's aptitude. 0.99

03:23:00.760 Give me synonyms for aptitude.

03:23:05.760 Oh, you know what?

03:23:06.760 I mean, you're Googling it.

03:23:07.760 Maybe the, where's the chat?

03:23:09.760 I'm trying to see.

03:23:10.760 Dictionary hour.

03:23:11.760 Come on, Nick.

03:23:12.760 Come on, Nick.

03:23:13.760 You should be a walking dictionary.

03:23:15.760 Proficiency?

03:23:16.760 Maybe.

03:23:17.760 Whatever.

03:23:18.760 Anyways.

03:23:19.760 Um, yeah, there's massive bias.

03:23:21.760 And so, for example, in Florida, I recall the, the court system was trying to, uh, make

03:23:28.760 it so that when there's like a split, like, you know, there's, there's a child custody

03:23:34.760 dispute, there are court systems in the United States where the courts would defer to giving

03:23:40.760 the mom custody and they were less likely to give husbands custody. 1.00

03:23:47.760 I don't know the exact, obviously there's so many jurisdictions.

03:23:51.760 It's very bad in Pennsylvania too.

03:23:53.760 Right.

03:23:54.760 And so we saw women's organizations and really big ones.

03:24:00.760 I don't want to misquote.

03:24:01.760 I believe I could be wrong.

03:24:03.760 I think it was a national organization for women or maybe one of these other ones in

03:24:08.760 Florida fighting against equal custody.

03:24:12.760 What?

03:24:13.760 Sorry.

03:24:14.760 You don't have to.

03:24:15.760 Okay.

03:24:16.760 Equal custody.

03:24:20.760 Distribute.

03:24:21.760 That's not the right word.

03:24:22.760 Um, equal custody, uh, in Florida.

03:24:25.760 Yeah.

03:24:27.760 That wouldn't it be equal if men and women, when they're going through a dispute, it should 0.99

03:24:32.760 just, shouldn't it just default to 50, 50 custody?

03:24:35.760 I think so.

03:24:36.760 Well, okay.

03:24:37.760 It wasn't the case in Florida and feminists fought against it. 1.00

03:24:41.760 That's fucked up. 0.99

03:24:42.760 Yeah. 0.99

03:24:43.760 So this idea that feminism is about equality. 1.00

03:24:46.760 And then the, the, obviously the big one, military conscription, women have had the vote 1.00

03:24:52.760 for a hundred years for men to get the vote.

03:24:54.760 They had to fight and die for their country.

03:24:57.760 Men are subject to the selective service system in order to be able to vote. 0.76

03:25:02.760 You have to register for the selective service system.

03:25:05.760 This is something that only applies to men.

03:25:07.760 Women have, feminists have had a hundred years to equalize the draft. 1.00

03:25:12.760 Yeah.

03:25:13.760 We don't see any feminist organizations ever saying, Hey, you know what? 1.00

03:25:18.760 We really don't want to go to war, but for the name and for the sake of equality, we're

03:25:24.760 going to try to equalize the draft because that would be equal, equal, that would be equality.

03:25:32.760 Yeah.

03:25:33.760 So feminism is women's advocacy. 1.00

03:25:37.760 It's definitely doesn't give a fuck about equality unless that equality benefits women. 1.00

03:25:45.760 Then you'll fight for equality. 0.94

03:25:47.760 I think that's chauvinism.

03:25:48.760 Any equality that could conceivably detriment women, child custody stuff, draft, military, 1.00

03:25:57.760 all this shit. 1.00

03:25:59.760 They don't give a fuck. 1.00

03:26:01.760 Well, I think you're speaking for corrupt, like groups, to be honest, and those are chauvinists. 0.99

03:26:10.760 Well, hold on. 0.60

03:26:11.760 They think women are better than men. 0.99

03:26:15.760 Like, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

03:26:17.760 Feminism is equality between genders and a true feminist would like fight for equality, 1.00

03:26:23.760 you know?

03:26:24.760 Okay.

03:26:25.760 Well, we're doing like no true Scotsman.

03:26:26.760 I'm not interested in dictionary definitions.

03:26:29.760 Dictionary definitions can be wrong.

03:26:31.760 I'm pretty sure like, I don't know if one of these woke dictionaries tried to change the

03:26:35.760 definition of what a woman is. 0.95

03:26:37.760 But in any case, I'm interested in the fruits of feminism. 1.00

03:26:41.760 I don't care.

03:26:42.760 Like, for example, right?

03:26:43.760 Politicians lie.

03:26:44.760 Yeah.

03:26:45.760 Can feminists lie? 1.00

03:26:46.760 Oh, 100%.

03:26:47.760 Right.

03:26:48.760 Everyone can lie.

03:26:49.760 So it's very like a virtue signal to say, I believe in equality.

03:26:54.760 But if you look at their fruits, the fruits of feminism, the product of feminism, I never 0.99

03:27:01.760 actually see any advocation towards any sort of equality where women could be disadvantaged

03:27:12.760 or inconvenienced by equality.

03:27:15.760 They won't fight for it.

03:27:17.760 They won't fight for it.

03:27:20.760 I mean, I'm going to have to say that's chauvinism though.

03:27:26.760 Cause like-

03:27:27.760 Okay.

03:27:28.760 That's like a radical feminist, you know what I mean? 1.00

03:27:32.760 Because like, I don't know, like true, true feminists would fight for equality between 1.00

03:27:39.760 genders.

03:27:40.760 And I think that's like a misconception in the media.

03:27:43.760 Well, I mean, it's just a, it's a no true Scotsman fallacy.

03:27:46.760 This idea that, well, you know, those feminists, like the 99% of feminists that you're talking 1.00

03:27:51.760 about, Brian, there are those like few good feminists. 1.00

03:27:55.760 Eh, no.

03:27:57.760 I never, I've never seen feminists ever advocate for military conscription for women.

03:28:04.760 I've never seen feminists ever advocate for equality where women somehow are disadvantaged 0.99

03:28:11.760 or inconvenienced, or it, it strips them of some privilege that they've had in society.

03:28:16.760 Well, then that needs to change because that's not true feminism. 1.00

03:28:20.760 Well, feminists have had well over a hundred years to do this, but they don't. 1.00

03:28:25.760 None of the mainstream feminist organizations-

03:28:28.760 Mainstream.

03:28:29.760 Yeah.

03:28:30.760 Shouldn't the mainstream feminist organizations that like have the political capital and the 1.00

03:28:36.760 influence and the funding and the money, uh, shouldn't they be the ones who are advocating

03:28:42.760 for equality?

03:28:43.760 Yeah.

03:28:44.760 Cause that's true feminism. 1.00

03:28:46.760 Okay.

03:28:47.760 So 99% of feminists are not feminists then? 1.00

03:28:51.760 Yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying because true feminism is like fighting for equal rights 1.00

03:28:56.760 between the genders.

03:28:57.760 Yeah.

03:28:58.760 But that would just be egalitarianism.

03:29:00.760 Like it's, it's funny.

03:29:01.760 It's in the word itself, feminism, feminism, feminine. 1.00

03:29:06.760 It's in the word.

03:29:07.760 The word itself clearly would, would point towards, we don't care about equality.

03:29:13.760 We want, again, nothing wrong with it.

03:29:15.760 We want, uh, to secure benefits, privileges, rights for women. 1.00

03:29:20.760 We want to do women's advocacy. 0.52

03:29:22.760 That's it.

03:29:23.760 It doesn't, it's not about equality.

03:29:25.760 It's fighting for women's rights to be equal to men. 0.57

03:29:30.760 But we're already equal to them.

03:29:32.760 I have a question about the draft, I guess for Brian and everyone else.

03:29:38.760 Do you think like if say women were drafted, do you think they should be on the front lines?

03:29:44.760 No.

03:29:45.760 No.

03:29:46.760 Or like more in, uh, hospitality type or like the kitchen.

03:29:52.760 The administrative or something.

03:29:53.760 Something else.

03:29:54.760 Like, but do you, do you think they should be on the front lines?

03:29:56.760 I guess I don't have a stance on that, but like, why not?

03:30:01.760 If they're more qualified than others, then yeah.

03:30:04.760 Well, I think that's more about like physical strength.

03:30:06.760 Yeah.

03:30:07.760 Our bodies don't, we're different from men, so. 0.82

03:30:11.760 Oh, just one sec.

03:30:13.760 I've donated $200.

03:30:14.760 Sorry for the delay, man.

03:30:15.760 If you normalize for sexually coercive acts, forced to penetrate acts, et cetera, women 0.92

03:30:20.760 account for 30 to 50% of perpetrators of grape.

03:30:24.760 I'm sure this will shock many women, which is your privilege talking. 0.69

03:30:29.760 But Brian, what do you think about my question?

03:30:32.760 I'm genuinely curious.

03:30:34.760 Your question being that, should women be on the front line if they do get drafted? 1.00

03:30:40.760 Yeah.

03:30:41.760 Uh, well, by the way, curious guy, I think for the merch, the merch thing came up, Nick.

03:30:46.760 Oh, I didn't see that.

03:30:50.760 Yo, thank you for the, it looks like you bought a hoodie.

03:30:52.760 Thank you, man.

03:30:53.760 Uh, I mean, well, first off, I think it's really unlikely that we're going to ever equalize

03:30:58.760 the draft.

03:30:59.760 If like, but yeah, so yeah, yeah, sure.

03:31:02.760 Uh, if it would still be unequal because even if we did, I think, uh, what we would see

03:31:10.760 is, is that, uh, even if women did get drafted, they would overwhelmingly be put in support, 0.64

03:31:17.760 support roles by the military.

03:31:19.760 Unless there was like some, as part of the draft, women are also compelled to fight. 1.00

03:31:25.760 Uh, they would just, like, do you think they should be on the front lines?

03:31:29.760 Uh, in like other positions.

03:31:33.760 So practically speaking, no, they shouldn't be front line, but if you're the opposing party,

03:31:44.760 you're going to want them on the front line, but I wouldn't want for the sake of equality. 0.97

03:31:49.760 And if, if equality is important, put them on the fucking front line. 0.97

03:31:54.760 But we're not men and women are not equal physically. 0.99

03:31:58.760 Like men are typically generally stronger than women. 0.99

03:32:02.760 So could that possibly make the military weaker?

03:32:07.760 Yeah.

03:32:08.760 As an American man, do you want women fighting on the front line to protect us as American 0.99

03:32:12.760 citizens?

03:32:13.760 Yeah.

03:32:14.760 In terms of combat readiness.

03:32:16.760 Yeah.

03:32:17.760 You typically don't want women on the front lines. 1.00

03:32:19.760 They're just, they're not as physically strong as men.

03:32:22.760 They're more prone to injury.

03:32:24.760 You know, it's just, we see this in sports.

03:32:26.760 Even you look at like really fast, is it fast twitch?

03:32:30.760 I don't know.

03:32:31.760 Yeah.

03:32:32.760 Women are more prone to certain like knee injuries. 1.00

03:32:35.760 Um, these, these sorts of things just because men are a little sturdier in terms of, uh,

03:32:42.760 skeletal, uh, muscle, skeletal, musculo, hold on a second.

03:32:45.760 Muscular.

03:32:46.760 It's a, it's a word salad.

03:32:47.760 Musculoskeletal.

03:32:48.760 Musculoskeletal system. 0.97

03:32:49.760 Uh, so, and you know, you're in certain military situations, you're fucking sprinting 0.98

03:32:55.760 and running and carrying a backpack and all this shit. 0.99

03:32:57.760 Um, but in any case, uh, yeah, men are better suited. 0.99

03:33:01.760 But I mean, if, if we want to live in a feminist utopian society, then yeah, women should probably 1.00

03:33:08.760 die. 0.99

03:33:09.760 I don't want to live in that kind of society.

03:33:12.760 I mean, if we, if we uphold equality as this virtue in society and it's like, should

03:33:19.760 female soldiers even be paid as much as men, like in the volunteer force? 1.00

03:33:24.760 Like, I'm pretty sure, uh, look, I'm not a military guy.

03:33:28.760 Maybe any military people in the chat can weigh in.

03:33:30.760 My understanding is, is if you're in like active combat, right guys, you're getting paid

03:33:36.760 higher.

03:33:37.760 Correct.

03:33:38.760 You're getting paid more if you're actually in combat, right chat military guys.

03:33:43.760 But like, if you're a, I don't know, Sergeant first class and you guys are just kicking it,

03:33:50.760 whatever.

03:33:51.760 Um, and there's a woman who's, or is it Sergeant first class or prime?

03:33:56.760 This is the wrong way.

03:33:57.760 Hold on.

03:33:58.760 Bro.

03:33:59.760 Sorry. 0.98

03:34:00.760 I don't know if you're fucking, is it Sergeant first? 0.99

03:34:02.760 Not even a fucking rink. 1.00

03:34:03.760 No. 1.00

03:34:04.760 No.

03:34:05.760 Hazardous combat pay.

03:34:06.760 Hazardous duty pay.

03:34:07.760 I don't know.

03:34:08.760 If, if you got to, um,

03:34:13.760 Captain.

03:34:15.760 I'm trying to think of non-officer roles.

03:34:18.760 Oh.

03:34:19.760 Private first class.

03:34:21.760 Yeah.

03:34:22.760 Sergeant first class.

03:34:23.760 I know that.

03:34:24.760 I know that.

03:34:25.760 I know that the derogatory term boot when they call someone.

03:34:28.760 But like, if you're not an active combat military people in the chat, men and women

03:34:34.760 get paid the same, right?

03:34:35.760 In the military.

03:34:36.760 Like if you're just the same rank, you get paid the same, right?

03:34:40.760 Right.

03:34:42.760 Chat.

03:34:43.760 I wish I could see the chat.

03:34:44.760 I'd love to know that.

03:34:45.760 I would love to see the chat.

03:34:48.760 Uh, so anyways, uh, what was the question?

03:34:51.760 Okay.

03:34:52.760 You're a feminist, right? 1.00

03:34:55.760 I believe in equal rights for sure.

03:34:57.760 Into the mic.

03:34:58.760 Into the mic.

03:34:59.760 Oh, sorry.

03:35:00.760 I'm so sorry.

03:35:01.760 I'm so sorry.

03:35:02.760 But yeah, yeah.

03:35:03.760 And number two, please.

03:35:05.760 I believe men and women should definitely have equal rights.

03:35:10.760 Should men or should women be drafted? 0.99

03:35:13.760 Yeah.

03:35:14.760 Okay.

03:35:15.760 But they're not.

03:35:16.760 That's not equal.

03:35:17.760 Yeah.

03:35:18.760 It's not equal.

03:35:19.760 Okay.

03:35:20.760 Why wouldn't like, why would I say no to that?

03:35:24.760 I'm just saying, and I do think that it should be 50, 50. 0.99

03:35:27.760 Should women in the WNBA be paid the same as men in the NBA? 1.00

03:35:31.760 Yeah.

03:35:32.760 No, they shouldn't because the viewership is different.

03:35:35.760 Let's get everybody's answer really quick.

03:35:36.760 Yeah. 1.00

03:35:37.760 Fuck. 1.00

03:35:38.760 Yeah. 1.00

03:35:39.760 What do you think?

03:35:40.760 No, I don't think so.

03:35:43.760 No, because it loses money, right?

03:35:45.760 No one watches the WNBA.

03:35:47.760 No.

03:35:48.760 Yeah.

03:35:49.760 No one.

03:35:50.760 No.

03:35:51.760 If they have the same viewership.

03:35:52.760 Yes.

03:35:53.760 Yeah.

03:35:54.760 But they don't.

03:35:55.760 They don't.

03:35:56.760 And that's why it's lower.

03:35:57.760 No, they shouldn't.

03:35:58.760 Okay.

03:35:59.760 Um, so you think they should be paid the same?

03:36:01.760 Yeah.

03:36:02.760 Why?

03:36:03.760 It's the same sport.

03:36:05.760 But the way they get paid is on popularity and viewership.

03:36:09.760 Or different teams get paid different amounts.

03:36:12.760 Yeah.

03:36:13.760 Different players.

03:36:14.760 The NBA helps support the WNBA, don't they?

03:36:17.760 Yeah.

03:36:18.760 They take the money from the NBA.

03:36:19.760 What's the least paid team?

03:36:21.760 I have no idea.

03:36:22.760 On which and what?

03:36:23.760 In the NBA.

03:36:26.760 Like.

03:36:27.760 What's your point?

03:36:28.760 I don't know.

03:36:29.760 What's the least paid team?

03:36:30.760 I don't know.

03:36:31.760 The Golden State Warriors.

03:36:32.760 There it is.

03:36:33.760 I don't know.

03:36:34.760 So.

03:36:35.760 I don't know.

03:36:36.760 If they're the least viewed, then they should be getting.

03:36:37.760 I'm just throwing a random one.

03:36:38.760 Paid the least, right?

03:36:39.760 I mean, I think they all get paid based on their viewership in general with any sort

03:36:44.760 of professional support.

03:36:46.760 Yeah.

03:36:47.760 It depends on the budget of the team.

03:36:48.760 I mean, the Lakers.

03:36:49.760 Or actually, let me, we'll go to baseball.

03:36:51.760 The Chicago White Sox are not going to be paid the same way as like the Dodgers.

03:36:56.760 Unless, you know, there's.

03:36:58.760 Unless the White Sox win.

03:36:59.760 Right.

03:37:00.760 Exactly.

03:37:01.760 The base pay of a WNBA player versus the base pay of an NBA player.

03:37:04.760 It's.

03:37:05.760 I know it's substantial.

03:37:06.760 It's.

03:37:07.760 I think NBA's double and.

03:37:09.760 Or no.

03:37:10.760 Triple digits.

03:37:11.760 NBA's gotta be winning more than.

03:37:12.760 WNBA is double. 1.00

03:37:14.760 I think some of them get paid like, I don't know, 70, 80,000 in the WNBA.

03:37:20.760 Yeah.

03:37:21.760 Um.

03:37:22.760 Yeah.

03:37:23.760 But.

03:37:24.760 So, okay.

03:37:25.760 You were asking though about.

03:37:27.760 What's the least paid team in the NBA?

03:37:29.760 What does that have to do with.

03:37:30.760 Well, if they have the least amount of viewers, then.

03:37:33.760 Do you think every team deserves to be paid differently in the NBA?

03:37:37.760 Well.

03:37:38.760 They are.

03:37:39.760 Yeah.

03:37:40.760 Different.

03:37:41.760 Different teams and different players are compensated differently.

03:37:43.760 Like LeBron James gets paid way more than like some rookie.

03:37:47.760 Do you think that's fair?

03:37:48.760 Yeah.

03:37:49.760 Yeah.

03:37:50.760 Of course.

03:37:51.760 He's a better player.

03:37:52.760 He's.

03:37:53.760 He's bringing eyeballs.

03:37:54.760 He has.

03:37:55.760 It's like the same thing in any career.

03:37:57.760 You're gonna have, you know, work your way up.

03:37:58.760 Wait.

03:37:59.760 Question for you.

03:38:00.760 Should an extra on the set of a Quentin Tarantino movie be paid the same as Brad Pitt?

03:38:05.760 Well, no.

03:38:06.760 Why not?

03:38:07.760 You're doing less work.

03:38:08.760 But you're a dancer. 0.97

03:38:09.760 So when you go to work at night, do you think everyone should pull tips or do you think

03:38:12.760 that you should keep what you earned based on your performance?

03:38:15.760 Everyone should pull tips for sure.

03:38:16.760 Oh, hell no.

03:38:17.760 Do they?

03:38:18.760 Do they?

03:38:19.760 Wait.

03:38:20.760 What do you mean?

03:38:21.760 Pull tips like get my tips?

03:38:22.760 That means everyone puts their money together.

03:38:23.760 Oh, no.

03:38:24.760 Hell no.

03:38:25.760 Yeah.

03:38:26.760 Okay.

03:38:27.760 No.

03:38:28.760 That's the same concept.

03:38:29.760 But they're doing the same job.

03:38:30.760 Yeah. 1.00

03:38:31.760 They're also fucking taking their clothes off and showing their butt holes. 1.00

03:38:32.760 Yeah. 1.00

03:38:33.760 Yeah.

03:38:34.760 Well.

03:38:35.760 That's performance based.

03:38:36.760 Like what if you're just the best stripper at the strip club and you got some rookie 1.00

03:38:40.760 girl in there that doesn't know how to finesse these dudes into getting the private dances? 1.00

03:38:45.760 You know, she doesn't have that. 1.00

03:38:46.760 She doesn't have the fucking aura. 1.00

03:38:48.760 You have the aura. 1.00

03:38:49.760 All the men, when they come to the step club, you get the dances.

03:38:53.760 She's a rookie.

03:38:54.760 Mm-hmm.

03:38:55.760 She's like, you know what though?

03:38:56.760 I want to be paid the same as you.

03:38:57.760 But we get paid hourly in California.

03:39:00.760 Yeah.

03:39:01.760 But you also get tips.

03:39:02.760 But you get your tips.

03:39:03.760 Yeah.

03:39:04.760 So I worked at a nightclub in Miami.

03:39:05.760 It's called Live.

03:39:06.760 And we used to make a ton of money.

03:39:08.760 And each section depended on, I mean, you could make 30 grand in one night.

03:39:11.760 Were you a bottle girl? 0.68

03:39:12.760 Yeah.

03:39:13.760 I opened the nightclub.

03:39:14.760 I went there and I ran the bottle service program.

03:39:15.760 I trained all the girls myself.

03:39:16.760 So it was great.

03:39:17.760 I made 30 grand in one night. 1.00

03:39:18.760 Damn. 0.99

03:39:19.760 It was fantastic. 0.99

03:39:20.760 And the other girls in other sections started to get a little pissed off. 0.88

03:39:23.760 And they ran to the owner and I said, Gretman, I want to make more money.

03:39:25.760 So then they changed the rules after the Super Bowl.

03:39:27.760 And they're like, you know what?

03:39:28.760 No matter what section you're in, no matter how much service you're doing, everyone's

03:39:32.760 going to put their tips all together and everyone's going to go home with an equal

03:39:35.760 amount.

03:39:36.760 That's annoying.

03:39:37.760 No one wanted to work hard anymore.

03:39:38.760 No one wanted to work their clients anymore.

03:39:39.760 Because what's the point?

03:39:40.760 Right.

03:39:41.760 Literally.

03:39:42.760 That's the same thing with like the sports aspect.

03:39:44.760 But granted, maybe you didn't realize that because.

03:39:47.760 I kind of think it's like a little different.

03:39:50.760 I don't think.

03:39:51.760 It's a job.

03:39:52.760 It's a career.

03:39:53.760 You said you do OF kind of. 0.99

03:39:56.760 Fucking barely. 0.99

03:39:57.760 Yeah. 0.99

03:39:58.760 Like, you know, Sophie Rain, that girl who's allegedly made like tens of millions of dollars. 1.00

03:40:02.760 Yeah.

03:40:03.760 Yeah.

03:40:04.760 Kind of briefly.

03:40:05.760 There's this girl, OF.

03:40:06.760 She's made millions of dollars. 0.99

03:40:08.760 Millions of dollars.

03:40:09.760 Right.

03:40:10.760 Can I start an OnlyFans and go to Sophie Rain and say, you know what?

03:40:15.760 I want to be paid as much as you.

03:40:18.760 She'd probably be like, if you work for it, then you, you know. 0.97

03:40:23.760 No, but I want equal pay from OF.

03:40:26.760 Well.

03:40:28.760 Is it because I'm not as, I don't have as many followers as Sophie Rain?

03:40:31.760 Is it because she's offering a different product?

03:40:33.760 Maybe she's a better.

03:40:34.760 Worked her way.

03:40:35.760 It's because you're a man though.

03:40:36.760 Men probably do. 1.00

03:40:37.760 And some men probably do.

03:40:38.760 Men make far less money in sex work than women do. 0.97

03:40:41.760 It's true.

03:40:42.760 100%.

03:40:43.760 Well, yeah.

03:40:44.760 Like, men probably should get paid half of like. 0.99

03:40:45.760 So sexist.

03:40:46.760 So sexist.

03:40:47.760 And the women should subsidize the male sex workers. 1.00

03:40:49.760 There you go.

03:40:50.760 Yep.

03:40:51.760 Yeah.

03:40:52.760 I mean, I'm just.

03:40:53.760 Okay.

03:40:54.760 Wait, what's subsidy?

03:40:55.760 Sorry.

03:40:56.760 She's consistent.

03:40:57.760 I'm sorry.

03:40:58.760 I'm sorry.

03:40:59.760 Half of like, like if you make a porno with a woman, she should give you half of what 0.99

03:41:02.760 she makes off of that porno. 0.96

03:41:04.760 Why? 0.95

03:41:05.760 I mean, like, why though?

03:41:07.760 What do you mean?

03:41:08.760 Why your body's in it?

03:41:09.760 Like you're.

03:41:10.760 Yeah.

03:41:11.760 But if like, that's what the market, you know, if it costs more to.

03:41:14.760 She's getting you the exposure, you know, if that, no, that's Sophie. 0.90

03:41:18.760 What was her name?

03:41:19.760 Sophie rains.

03:41:20.760 So if let's say you're doing like a little thing with her and she's got a bunch of viewers

03:41:24.760 that she built up over time.

03:41:26.760 But it's still half of yours.

03:41:28.760 Like it's.

03:41:29.760 No.

03:41:30.760 The porno is still half the guys.

03:41:31.760 No.

03:41:32.760 I could be wrong, but I think.

03:41:33.760 It's a message from the government of Canada.

03:41:34.760 Oh, here we go.

03:41:38.760 I need to fix that delay.

03:41:40.760 Thank you, man.

03:41:41.760 Bettina Arndt, once a prominent feminist, but now an advocate for men's rights, states

03:41:46.760 that feminism is no longer about equality, but about advantaging women at the expense 1.00

03:41:51.760 of men and demonizing men.

03:41:53.760 That's misandry.

03:41:55.760 Well, can I ask you a question?

03:41:57.760 Yeah.

03:41:58.760 Let's, let's dive into this a little bit here.

03:42:00.760 I think we can fix her, by the way.

03:42:02.760 Fix her? 0.91

03:42:03.760 Yeah, we can.

03:42:04.760 Probably.

03:42:05.760 I know.

03:42:06.760 I like, I, I want to give you props because I see you actually like diving deeper beyond

03:42:13.760 what you feel in a conversation when you first initiate it or talking to it and I appreciate

03:42:19.760 it.

03:42:20.760 Yeah.

03:42:21.760 You're, you're, you're, you're being reasonable.

03:42:23.760 Um, she's not going to be a stripper after this. 1.00

03:42:25.760 Mark my words.

03:42:26.760 Yeah.

03:42:27.760 In your notes, you say, you'd love to talk about how Brian gets feminism confused with 1.00

03:42:30.760 misandry.

03:42:31.760 Yeah.

03:42:32.760 Feminism is equality of the sexes and the advocacy of women's rights. 0.98

03:42:35.760 And misandry is hatred of men.

03:42:37.760 And ultimately you can't be a feminist if you don't advocate for equality and put one below 1.00

03:42:42.760 or above the each other.

03:42:44.760 Well, this is kind of like communism.

03:42:46.760 So like in a perfect world, I guess, you know, with perfect actors, communism, I guess,

03:42:53.760 could work, but humans are imperfect.

03:42:55.760 Right.

03:42:56.760 So this utopian society or whatever, like how do you factor for greed?

03:43:01.760 How do you factor for crime?

03:43:03.760 How do you factor for people who are corrupt?

03:43:05.760 How do you factor for people who are going to abuse the system that, you know, requires

03:43:10.760 everybody to be acting like in a really perfect or close to perfect manner?

03:43:15.760 Um, so it's kind of like, eh, feminists really aren't that way. 1.00

03:43:20.760 I do disagree with your definition.

03:43:21.760 I gave you my first definition.

03:43:22.760 My second definition is feminism is women's advocacy. 1.00

03:43:27.760 And then bundled in with that is misandry.

03:43:32.760 And the two are basically inextricably linked.

03:43:39.760 They're intertwined.

03:43:41.760 You can't, you ever had like Chinese finger trap. 1.00

03:43:44.760 You can't pull your fingers out there.

03:43:46.760 They're connected and you can't remove it.

03:43:48.760 You can't remove it.

03:43:50.760 You can't remove the anti-male component of feminism. 1.00

03:43:54.760 I should.

03:43:55.760 Oh, yes.

03:43:56.760 You agree?

03:43:57.760 No, no.

03:43:58.760 I was just like, like actively listening.

03:43:59.760 Oh, you're listening.

03:44:00.760 Okay.

03:44:01.760 Sure, sure, sure.

03:44:02.760 Sorry.

03:44:03.760 Speaking.

03:44:04.760 Even if feminism isn't inherently male, which I would argue it is. 1.00

03:44:10.760 I said that the fruits of feminism are totally contrary to this. 1.00

03:44:16.760 Why is it the case that so many women who are exposed to feminism end up having sexist views towards men, who hold anti-male positions, who espouse anti-male rhetoric?

03:44:29.760 Ultimately, we can talk about definitions all day.

03:44:32.760 If in practice, what we see the fruits of feminism are, the product, the end result of feminism is, hey, this is a really good method to basically make women hate men.

03:44:44.760 That's what we see.

03:44:47.760 Well, I can see how, like I, I've been hearing you speak and I can hear why you feel that way.

03:44:56.760 Because you haven't witnessed it any other way.

03:44:59.760 I've had a lot of self-proclaimed feminists on. 1.00

03:45:01.760 I mean, look, we can just test it out though.

03:45:04.760 Let's test it out.

03:45:06.760 Do you believe in the patriarchy?

03:45:09.760 Like, do I believe it exists?

03:45:12.760 Yes.

03:45:13.760 Yes.

03:45:14.760 Is patriarchy and the patriarchy theory a core tenant of the feminine, of feminism? 1.00

03:45:21.760 Yeah.

03:45:22.760 Like if you take a feminism 101 class in college, you get an introductory feminism textbook. 1.00

03:45:28.760 Yeah.

03:45:29.760 It's going to talk about patriarchy.

03:45:31.760 Yeah, for sure.

03:45:32.760 Perfect.

03:45:33.760 Okay.

03:45:34.760 So that's the, patriarchy is the, the overarching framework that feminist, the feminist lens 1.00

03:45:40.760 views everything through, right?

03:45:42.760 What is patriarchy?

03:45:45.760 It's the hierarchy of men, right?

03:45:48.760 That's, yeah.

03:45:49.760 What, what about the hierarchy?

03:45:51.760 Like, I'd say we live in a very male-ran society. 1.00

03:45:58.760 Male-ran society. 0.99

03:45:59.760 Okay.

03:46:00.760 Under this patriarchy, under this male-ran society, are women as a group oppressed? 0.97

03:46:07.760 I'd say yes.

03:46:09.760 Mm-hmm.

03:46:10.760 Okay.

03:46:11.760 Like in history, yes.

03:46:12.760 Historically.

03:46:13.760 Historically, yeah.

03:46:14.760 Historically, yeah.

03:46:15.760 Right.

03:46:16.760 And even, even if it might not be the case now, although many feminists still claim that 1.00

03:46:19.760 women are oppressed, even in the United States. 1.00

03:46:21.760 I do think in some countries very much, yeah, for sure.

03:46:26.760 Sure.

03:46:27.760 You know?

03:46:28.760 What about the USA though?

03:46:29.760 Are women oppressed in the US? 1.00

03:46:30.760 Um, I think it depends on like the context, you know?

03:46:35.760 I think like.

03:46:36.760 In some way are women oppressed? 1.00

03:46:38.760 I'd say yeah.

03:46:39.760 Okay.

03:46:40.760 Um, and then historically, and then current day, even though you, you seem to acknowledge

03:46:43.760 that in the past women were more oppressed.

03:46:46.760 Yeah, yeah.

03:46:47.760 For sure.

03:46:48.760 Sure.

03:46:49.760 And now they're still oppressed, but not as much.

03:46:51.760 Is that fair?

03:46:52.760 Yeah, yeah.

03:46:53.760 That's fair.

03:46:54.760 Who's the oppressor?

03:46:55.760 I'd say it's society as a whole.

03:46:59.760 I think.

03:47:00.760 But it's a patriarchy.

03:47:01.760 So men?

03:47:03.760 Not necessarily.

03:47:04.760 I think it comes from men and women.

03:47:06.760 Well, but if, okay, sure.

03:47:09.760 If I'm just going to be honest.

03:47:10.760 Because like.

03:47:11.760 But you said male run society.

03:47:13.760 Yeah.

03:47:14.760 If the men run the patriarchy.

03:47:15.760 Mm-hmm.

03:47:16.760 If women as a group are the oppressor class, men as a group are what?

03:47:25.760 Are they the oppressor class? 0.59

03:47:27.760 Yeah.

03:47:28.760 Or sorry, did I say women are the oppressed? 1.00

03:47:30.760 Women are the oppressed class. 1.00

03:47:31.760 Yeah.

03:47:32.760 I might have misspoken there.

03:47:33.760 That's okay.

03:47:34.760 Are men the oppressor class?

03:47:36.760 I'd say yes, but also women oppress each other. 1.00

03:47:40.760 I see.

03:47:41.760 Okay.

03:47:42.760 What are you supposed to do and think about your oppressor group?

03:47:46.760 What do you?

03:47:47.760 I think.

03:47:48.760 Are you supposed to treat them well?

03:47:49.760 Why not?

03:47:50.760 Your oppressor.

03:47:51.760 Why not educate them?

03:47:53.760 Or like try and change their views.

03:47:55.760 Maybe that's your perspective.

03:47:56.760 But do you think if you tell somebody, hey, by the way, you are being oppressed by this group.

03:48:02.760 Mm-hmm.

03:48:03.760 They want you to be slaves.

03:48:05.760 They want you to have less rights.

03:48:07.760 They want you to be subservient.

03:48:10.760 And, you know, they want to hold you down while elevating themselves.

03:48:14.760 Maybe you're like this, you know, hippie, peace, love, blah, blah, blah.

03:48:19.760 But do you think if you tell some people that they're going to be like, maybe have bad feelings towards that group?

03:48:26.760 Oh, yeah.

03:48:27.760 I definitely think that's a thing for sure.

03:48:30.760 Yeah.

03:48:31.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:48:32.760 That's what I could think.

03:48:33.760 Okay, cool.

03:48:34.760 So if you wholesale tell women, and this isn't like some fringe thing, like women who go to college, learn this.

03:48:42.760 It's all over social media, feminism is the mainstream narrative. 1.00

03:48:47.760 If you tell women that, by the way, men throughout all of human history have been abusive, they've been predators, they've mistreated you, they've taken away your rights.

03:48:56.760 And even still today, today, they still think XYZ bad thing about you.

03:49:02.760 You're oppressed.

03:49:03.760 Men are oppressors.

03:49:04.760 As a group, you must strive to overcome.

03:49:08.760 You must strive to overthrow.

03:49:10.760 You don't think that, you know, maybe the women are going to not have a really positive attitude towards men?

03:49:18.760 Yeah, but I also think there's a different approach to it.

03:49:24.760 Like if I was genuinely oppressed, genuinely, genuinely oppressed, not through the framework of like feminism, oh my God, oppression, blah, blah, blah.

03:49:34.760 I would be like, yo, we're, we're slaves.

03:49:38.760 We're going to overthrow these people by any means necessary, even if it means violence.

03:49:45.760 Well, I don't, I mean, I'm a hippie, but I don't think violence is ever okay.

03:49:50.760 You know, like I think I'm talking genuine oppression here.

03:49:53.760 Not like, oh, like, not like these sort of vague, like, I really want to be a victim.

03:50:01.760 Like, oh no, I, a man wants to take care of me and I don't have to work.

03:50:08.760 Oh, that's, I mean, that's a, that's a big story.

03:50:15.760 That's a big component of feminism. 1.00

03:50:17.760 Uh, free, you, you've, uh, you've basically fought against this traditional dynamic that men and women used to have.

03:50:27.760 Women were central to the household, taking care of the children. 1.00

03:50:31.760 Men went out into the world and worked.

03:50:33.760 Hey, look, I'm fine with women working, but I don't consider like men, I don't consider it necessarily oppression that women didn't have to work and men had to work.

03:50:47.760 Like, in fact, I think that's actually perhaps even more oppressive.

03:50:51.760 But we didn't get the choice.

03:50:53.760 Okay. Men didn't have the choice either.

03:50:56.760 Like you think men back in the day when it was deemed oppressive could be like, you know what?

03:51:01.760 I just, I don't want to work.

03:51:03.760 I just want to rely on a woman. 1.00

03:51:05.760 I'll raise the children.

03:51:07.760 Men don't didn't have a choice either. 0.83

03:51:10.760 And women, like if back in the day, they wouldn't entertain that sort of gender dynamic. 1.00

03:51:16.760 So women upheld this, their own, I guess, from your purview, their own oppression by refusing to date men that didn't want to work. 0.98

03:51:28.760 We weren't allowed to work.

03:51:30.760 We weren't even allowed to work though.

03:51:32.760 Well, that's not actually.

03:51:34.760 Stop.

03:51:35.760 That's actually not true.

03:51:36.760 Women, women were never legally barred from working. 0.99

03:51:39.760 Women could work at any point in human history. 1.00

03:51:42.760 We weren't even allowed to get an education.

03:51:44.760 That's not true.

03:51:45.760 That is true.

03:51:46.760 Not true.

03:51:47.760 Women could go to college. 1.00

03:51:48.760 There was no legal like prevention from women going to college. 1.00

03:51:52.760 There are some institutions that I guess didn't allow women in. 1.00

03:51:56.760 But also if you look at how many people actually went to college, you know, college was reserved for like the mostly like pretty elite people.

03:52:06.760 It depends how far back in history we're going.

03:52:08.760 Depends how far back.

03:52:10.760 But like think about it this way.

03:52:11.760 If back in the day there was a gender expectation for women to get pregnant and hundreds of years, like a hundred years ago or whatever, if we look at the mortality rate of women who give birth, like just practically speaking, let's say you have one daughter, one son.

03:52:27.760 Mm hmm.

03:52:28.760 And back then the expectation for both your children is they're going to have they're going to get married and have children in their early to mid 20s, maybe even younger.

03:52:37.760 Even younger.

03:52:38.760 If knowing back historically that women did run a risk of death when giving birth to children, like should we then invest that money?

03:52:50.760 Like if you could only send one of your kids to college.

03:52:53.760 Mm hmm.

03:52:54.760 But we know for certain both of them are going to have children.

03:52:57.760 Does it make sense to send the person who's more likely to just die while giving childbirth? 0.74

03:53:02.760 Does that make sense?

03:53:03.760 Yeah.

03:53:04.760 That is so morbid.

03:53:06.760 I don't even know how to answer that.

03:53:08.760 But these are real.

03:53:09.760 But hold on.

03:53:10.760 Historically, these are just realistic considerations that people took in terms of how should we invest our money into our children?

03:53:18.760 How should somebody invest their money?

03:53:20.760 Again, just beyond that, if the expectation was societally back then, you might say you disagree.

03:53:25.760 But if the expectation was, well, hold on, this woman's going to have like four, five, six, seven children. 1.00

03:53:31.760 Let me as the man who doesn't have to carry the burden of carrying a pregnancy for months, giving, you know, recovering from childbirth.

03:53:42.760 Wouldn't it make sense to be like, you know what, let's send the men to do work and let's set the men up so that they can do that?

03:53:50.760 Wouldn't that make sense societally?

03:53:55.760 I kind of don't think so because like I think, I don't know, just women deserve to be like as educated as men, especially back in the day because we're very important to society.

03:54:11.760 So me personally, I'm fine with women having the choice.

03:54:14.760 Yeah.

03:54:15.760 But I don't care.

03:54:16.760 I don't categorize women. 1.00

03:54:18.760 Like I almost view it as a bit of a privilege that women didn't have to work. 1.00

03:54:23.760 Now you've basically found yourselves in situations.

03:54:26.760 And also, I don't really understand this.

03:54:28.760 Would you trust relying on a woman for your living? 1.00

03:54:33.760 What do you mean?

03:54:34.760 Like today, modern society?

03:54:36.760 Modern day, say you were jobless and you had no one to go to but your hypothetical girlfriend.

03:54:42.760 Yeah, but this is interesting because I would argue that your husband is, I mean, look, there's a lot of issues currently with dynamics between men and women with marriage.

03:54:52.760 Yeah.

03:54:53.760 But I think your husband.

03:54:54.760 What if you lost your job though?

03:54:56.760 What if you lost your, what if you, yeah, what if you lost your job?

03:54:59.760 You can lose.

03:55:00.760 And the girlfriend had a job and you were, you'd both have to rely on her.

03:55:04.760 Do you think that's right?

03:55:05.760 And would you trust that?

03:55:06.760 Like, would you trust financially relying on a woman entirely? 1.00

03:55:11.760 Wait, are you trying to be like, well, this is what women go through?

03:55:14.760 Not necessarily, I mean, I'm just playing the devil's advocate here, I guess.

03:55:20.760 Like, like, roles reversed.

03:55:22.760 Do you think anyone should have to financially and entirely rely on someone? 0.98

03:55:27.760 Because what if they're like a shitty person? 0.94

03:55:29.760 You don't love them. 1.00

03:55:30.760 They're abusive.

03:55:31.760 Like, there's so many, so don't be with them.

03:55:34.760 You shouldn't, yeah, you shouldn't stay.

03:55:35.760 You should not entirely, like, financially rely on someone.

03:55:39.760 They can hold it over your head.

03:55:41.760 Financial abuse is real, you know what I mean?

03:55:43.760 Of course it is.

03:55:44.760 There's so many things that could, like, go wrong.

03:55:46.760 Okay, sure.

03:55:47.760 But I don't understand this argument because all sorts of bad things can happen in corporations.

03:55:51.760 You can be sexually harassed in a corporation.

03:55:53.760 Yeah.

03:55:54.760 You can be, I suppose there's ways in which, like, you know, your corporation goes bankrupt

03:55:58.760 and they can't pay you your wages.

03:56:00.760 Like, bad things can also happen when you're working.

03:56:02.760 Yeah.

03:56:03.760 Ultimately, though, you guys have traded being submissive to your husband to being submissive to

03:56:08.760 an employer to being submissive to a cold, heartless corporation that will absolutely fire you.

03:56:15.760 Like, corporations will never show you.

03:56:17.760 Like, look, I know there's bad men out there, but there's also wonderful, good men out there.

03:56:22.760 And a corporation will never, ever, if you have a good man, will never approach the kind of goodness, I guess you could say, that you might receive from a man.

03:56:34.760 Corporations care about their bottom line. 0.87

03:56:36.760 They care about money.

03:56:37.760 The moment that you, you know, whatever, the circumstances change, corporation will get rid of you.

03:56:42.760 That's not always the case when you're married to somebody.

03:56:45.760 It could happen when you're married.

03:56:47.760 Not always, but it's not always the case in jobs either.

03:56:50.760 Yes, but you've traded this idea that I don't need no man. 0.98

03:56:53.760 Congrats, you've traded it. 1.00

03:56:54.760 You're dependent on some fucking megacorp. 1.00

03:56:57.760 You're dependent on a corporation. 1.00

03:57:00.760 Great trade.

03:57:01.760 And then the difference is most husbands are just glad you cook a little food for them.

03:57:06.760 You're pleasant. 0.95

03:57:07.760 You have sex, whatever. 0.98

03:57:09.760 Boom. 0.98

03:57:10.760 Keep your man happy.

03:57:12.760 Most men really don't ask for that much.

03:57:15.760 Instead, your job, your corporation is going to boss you, literally boss you around.

03:57:20.760 Say, and a lot of men, honestly, they're, they're kind of simpy.

03:57:23.760 A lot of men don't know how to put their foot down in a relationship.

03:57:26.760 Most men are not, are honestly, there's a lot of nice guys out there.

03:57:30.760 They're not going to boss you around the same way a corporation is going to boss you around.

03:57:34.760 You've traded the husband for the corporation.

03:57:37.760 You're married to your career.

03:57:39.760 You're married to your boss.

03:57:40.760 Well, not, not literally your boss.

03:57:42.760 Married to the corporation and your corporation is going to say, show up here. 1.00

03:57:47.760 9am, 6am, 7am, 8am.

03:57:50.760 You're going to stay here in this office and you're going to do this work.

03:57:55.760 You've traded it, but you've traded it.

03:58:00.760 That's a choice.

03:58:01.760 Sure.

03:58:02.760 It's a choice.

03:58:03.760 Can I speak to this?

03:58:04.760 Cause I'm not, I'm the only person here.

03:58:05.760 I think that's actually done both.

03:58:07.760 I made my own money.

03:58:08.760 I made a ton of money on my own and I, yeah, I chose to stop working and then I let a man

03:58:14.760 take care of, I chose to be subservient, submissive to a man.

03:58:18.760 Um, I will say it is much better to be taken care of than to have to take care of yourself.

03:58:25.760 Although my marriage wasn't perfect, just the stability of knowing that he's got it

03:58:30.760 and I'm safe and I can become feminine and not have to be in my masculine and always fend

03:58:36.760 for myself.

03:58:37.760 That is much preferred to having to figure out how to reach that, that net every, every

03:58:42.760 month, take care of those bills. 0.93

03:58:44.760 Again, you just have to choose the right person to support you because it is a miserable experience

03:58:49.760 if you choose the wrong one.

03:58:50.760 Yeah.

03:58:51.760 Having to ask for money if you've never had to do that before is not fun.

03:58:55.760 Yeah.

03:58:56.760 But it is much better in life to have someone that you know, who's got your back, who is

03:59:00.760 there to protect you, who absolutely by far.

03:59:04.760 I think the women's movement honestly kind of screwed us because now we like, yeah, we 1.00

03:59:10.760 get the choice to go to work, but in some sense, like we have to, to make our living.

03:59:15.760 But then when you have children, now I work 40 hours a week.

03:59:18.760 I go to school.

03:59:19.760 I have somebody that has to watch my kid all the time and I don't, while I do get to raise

03:59:25.760 him, I don't, I'm not always there for the most important moments of his life.

03:59:28.760 So we're just sending them off to other people to be raised when I want to just stay at home.

03:59:34.760 Like I would love to be a stay at home mom and watch my kid grow.

03:59:37.760 And you're working to pay for childcare.

03:59:39.760 Yeah.

03:59:40.760 Also, that's a good point.

03:59:42.760 Also, uh, I look, I think women should definitely have the choice, right?

03:59:47.760 I think, I think they should have the choice.

03:59:49.760 I would love to see, honestly, I'd love to see women more in, uh, like in STEM fields 1.00

03:59:55.760 where we can, uh, I use this term in the best way possible, exploit the intelligence

04:00:03.760 and labor of women so that they can be studying, you know, can, can we throw both men and women 0.92

04:00:12.760 at cancer research at studying illnesses?

04:00:16.760 I, you know what cancer affects everybody.

04:00:18.760 Let's throw all our manpower and that would include women. 1.00

04:00:23.760 Let's throw as much of our collective brain power towards solving some of these serious issues.

04:00:29.760 I would love women to get into that. 1.00

04:00:32.760 But I think one thing, when you talk about choice, when you double the label, when you

04:00:36.760 double the labor pool, you have taken choice away from a different subset of women. 1.00

04:00:42.760 What about the women who previously they wanted to be stay at home wives, but now do the economic 1.00

04:00:48.760 and financial reality where you really can't, you know, unless the guy's a really high earner,

04:00:55.760 you can't really raise, have kids, have a house on one income.

04:01:00.760 It's really hard.

04:01:01.760 Yeah.

04:01:02.760 And part of that, again, women should have the choice, but there was so much propaganda that

04:01:09.760 pushed women to like career boss, babe.

04:01:12.760 I think there should be also propaganda saying, Hey, also it's also really good and totally fine.

04:01:20.760 And you're not less of a woman because you want to just have a family and be a stay at 0.91

04:01:25.760 home mom.

04:01:26.760 There should be propaganda in that direction too.

04:01:28.760 But you've, the feminists have taken the choice away from the women who would love, 1.00

04:01:35.760 love to just be a stay at home mom. 0.98

04:01:38.760 And you know what?

04:01:39.760 Leave the work to the men. 0.94

04:01:41.760 I just, I want to, I want to raise kids.

04:01:43.760 I want to be a good wife.

04:01:44.760 I want to take care of the household.

04:01:46.760 Let my man work.

04:01:48.760 He can be the breadwinner.

04:01:51.760 That's, that's taken away from the majority of women now. 1.00

04:01:55.760 So you've taken a, you've granted women one choice, but taken away another.

04:01:59.760 Are you saying that women are the cause of the economic downfall? 0.99

04:02:04.760 Like the recession, I guess.

04:02:07.760 Like, well, so, you know, so I mean, when you would agree that there are cause and effect,

04:02:15.760 right?

04:02:16.760 Yeah.

04:02:17.760 Like certain actions, even if they're overall good, uh, like for example, you drive your

04:02:22.760 car, right?

04:02:23.760 Do you have a car?

04:02:24.760 Uh, not, not right now.

04:02:26.760 Okay.

04:02:27.760 I used to, but.

04:02:28.760 Okay.

04:02:29.760 People drive cars all the time, but we realize that this does create like, um, pollution.

04:02:35.760 Right.

04:02:36.760 Yeah.

04:02:37.760 It's a trade off.

04:02:38.760 Right.

04:02:39.760 In this case, there's definitely going to be an economic impact.

04:02:43.760 I'm not saying we shouldn't have, you know, necessary.

04:02:46.760 I'm not saying we shouldn't have given women more choice, but one of the cause and effect 1.00

04:02:53.760 scenarios, one of the, uh, consequences of doing this.

04:02:58.760 If you double the labor pool, you double the labor pool, uh, effectively, there are, there

04:03:04.760 are women who are working, but basically you double it up. 1.00

04:03:07.760 You, you make it like the, the social status quo, the cultural zeitgeist that it's like,

04:03:13.760 oh yeah, boss, babe it up. 0.99

04:03:15.760 Wait till you're 30 to have kids.

04:03:17.760 Uh, yeah, that's going to have an impact economically.

04:03:21.760 Uh, if you double the labor pool that drives wages down, like if we just had an influx,

04:03:32.760 like if every, I don't know how else to explain it, but yeah, that's going to make it so that

04:03:38.760 wages get driven down.

04:03:41.760 That puts more power into the hands of corporations.

04:03:44.760 Corporations love feminism. 1.00

04:03:47.760 They love it.

04:03:49.760 Love it.

04:03:50.760 They can pay their employees less because there's more competition.

04:03:54.760 That's not feminism though. 1.00

04:03:56.760 Like you shouldn't.

04:03:57.760 I mean, yeah, it is.

04:03:59.760 Equal pay is feminism. 1.00

04:04:01.760 Feminism. 1.00

04:04:02.760 Feminism is the sort of generalized push. 1.00

04:04:04.760 Again, I'm not saying that it's wrong for women to have labor force participation, but it 1.00

04:04:09.760 is this propaganda push.

04:04:11.760 No, don't have children.

04:04:13.760 Don't get married.

04:04:14.760 Don't read.

04:04:15.760 Guys, guys, focus.

04:04:16.760 That's ignore that.

04:04:18.760 Don't get married.

04:04:20.760 There's literally feminist propaganda. 1.00

04:04:22.760 Pursue career over marriage, over family, over children, family, bad children, bad.

04:04:28.760 Wait until you're 30.

04:04:29.760 Wait until you're 35.

04:04:30.760 Freeze your eggs.

04:04:32.760 No, no.

04:04:35.760 I think it's choice still.

04:04:38.760 And that's what matters.

04:04:39.760 Okay.

04:04:40.760 But it is the case that, yeah, you double the labor pool of people.

04:04:45.760 That's going to have an economic impact.

04:04:48.760 Whether you think it's like worth, like at what cost, like if it's worth it to you, that's

04:04:54.760 fine.

04:04:55.760 But that is a, it is quite a direct result.

04:04:57.760 Do you think some men are less capable of working than women?

04:05:01.760 Yeah, sure.

04:05:02.760 Like some.

04:05:03.760 Yeah. 0.66

04:05:04.760 There's, there's men who are lazy.

04:05:05.760 There's women who are like insanely motivated and hard workers. 1.00

04:05:10.760 Yeah.

04:05:11.760 And everyone has a different IQ.

04:05:13.760 So technically like.

04:05:14.760 What do you mean?

04:05:16.760 Well, like some people are just smarter than others, you know, and can be more productive

04:05:23.760 in society than others.

04:05:25.760 And it doesn't matter the gender. 0.94

04:05:26.760 That's just kind of.

04:05:27.760 Yeah.

04:05:28.760 I mean, I think on a balance of probabilities, I think men are typically more motivated to

04:05:35.760 make money than women are though. 1.00

04:05:39.760 And that might manifest itself.

04:05:42.760 Well, I mean, my argument against the wage gap, first off, there is a wage gap.

04:05:45.760 If you account for all variables, if you account for all these variables, men work longer

04:05:51.760 hours, men work more overtime, men get more hazard pay.

04:05:55.760 Men are more likely to relocate. 1.00

04:05:57.760 Men are more likely to be in a geography that fucking sucks. 1.00

04:06:00.760 Men are more likely to work dangerous jobs. 1.00

04:06:02.760 Men are more likely to be injured on the job.

04:06:04.760 Men are more likely to, I'm trying to think what else, did I say die on the job?

04:06:11.760 Injuries, deaths, men go into fields that happen to pay more, all kinds of variables.

04:06:20.760 If you control for all these variables, the wage gap shrinks.

04:06:25.760 However, I would argue that women's expectation that men pay for first dates and men be providers, 0.73

04:06:32.760 that actually is the, I would argue that the wage gap could be explained away by women's own dating preferences. 1.00

04:06:41.760 If it is the case as a guy that, and look, I agree.

04:06:47.760 Some women are fine going 50, 50. 1.00

04:06:49.760 Some women, you know, they don't mind. 1.00

04:06:52.760 I would say most majority of women. 0.99

04:06:54.760 So that'd be at least 51% or more, uh, majority strong preference that the guy pay for first dates.

04:07:03.760 The guy maybe pay for subsequent dates.

04:07:06.760 I don't know if it's a majority where it's a deal breaker.

04:07:09.760 Like if the guy's like, let's go 50, 50.

04:07:11.760 I don't know if it's a majority.

04:07:12.760 It's a deal breaker.

04:07:13.760 Let's say it's a 30% deal breaker, 30% of women. 1.00

04:07:17.760 If the guy doesn't pay for the first date and we've had these women on the show, that's it. 1.00

04:07:22.760 If he doesn't pay for the first date, it's over.

04:07:25.760 Won't date him again.

04:07:27.760 Um, deal breaker.

04:07:29.760 This puts a massive pressure on men that never exists towards women.

04:07:34.760 Like women, maybe you go 50, 50. 1.00

04:07:36.760 You almost never, women will almost never pay for everything on the first date. 1.00

04:07:41.760 Almost.

04:07:42.760 I agree with that.

04:07:44.760 Right.

04:07:45.760 Like, yeah, maybe sometimes women go 50, 50, don't pay for the first date. 1.00

04:07:49.760 So if it's the case that the barrier to men getting romantic attention, sexual access, girlfriend, wife is I have to have my, I financially, I need to be in a good spot as a man.

04:08:03.760 I need to pay for dates.

04:08:06.760 And women put this burden and pressure on men that never gets reciprocated. 1.00

04:08:13.760 Like most men are not like, well, if she doesn't pay for the date, it's a deal breaker.

04:08:19.760 No more dates after that. 1.00

04:08:20.760 Men don't say that shit. 0.99

04:08:21.760 That's never, I've never. 1.00

04:08:23.760 Oh my God.

04:08:24.760 Honestly, never.

04:08:25.760 She will, won't pay for the whole date.

04:08:27.760 Deal breaker. 1.00

04:08:28.760 No, never heard a guy say that shit. 1.00

04:08:30.760 Um, and you guys would probably laugh if a guy said that shit, you'd be like, what the fuck? 1.00

04:08:36.760 Yeah. 1.00

04:08:37.760 Um, that's like, that creates because of women's own traditional gender role expectation. 1.00

04:08:44.760 That would just explain away the gender pay gap. 1.00

04:08:49.760 Men are simply because of women's own expectations. 0.99

04:08:53.760 It's like, basically like this.

04:08:55.760 Do you think men are highly motivated to, uh, well, let's start it simple.

04:09:01.760 Are men really motivated to get laid?

04:09:04.760 To get laid?

04:09:06.760 To get laid. 1.00

04:09:07.760 That's like their number one fucking. 1.00

04:09:09.760 Right. 1.00

04:09:10.760 It's like self-evident.

04:09:11.760 Yeah. 0.65

04:09:12.760 These men are these horn dogs, right? 0.99

04:09:14.760 Yeah.

04:09:15.760 Right.

04:09:16.760 Do you think it, it's helpful in getting laid to pay for the first date?

04:09:19.760 Yeah.

04:09:20.760 Do you think it would be, do you think it would be harmful when it comes to getting laid?

04:09:25.760 If you're like, you made a fem, you made a stand, you know what? 1.00

04:09:29.760 Let's go 50, 50. 0.98

04:09:30.760 You think it would hurt, like hurt his chances?

04:09:32.760 Maybe a little bit, a teeny bit.

04:09:34.760 You think?

04:09:35.760 I think so.

04:09:36.760 Well, in any case, it helps his chances if he pays for the date, right?

04:09:40.760 Yeah.

04:09:41.760 Maybe also just helps his chances if he appears to be doing well financially.

04:09:47.760 Yeah.

04:09:48.760 Yeah.

04:09:49.760 Well, and then beyond that, like if a girl's looking for like long-term, like if she's trying 0.98

04:09:54.760 to figure out if this guy's good long-term potential, she probably wants a guy who's

04:09:59.760 like, you know, not some, you know, doing well, right?

04:10:04.760 Yeah.

04:10:05.760 Yeah.

04:10:06.760 He's not struggling.

04:10:07.760 You know, it might, it'd be more attractive if he's doing well.

04:10:10.760 Yeah.

04:10:11.760 Yeah.

04:10:13.760 Do you think it's the case in the reverse for women? 0.54

04:10:17.760 Men probably think more successful women are more attractive. 1.00

04:10:22.760 No, don't really care.

04:10:23.760 Not at all.

04:10:24.760 But like for, at least for the first date, like, do you think a woman's income when a 1.00

04:10:28.760 man's like, let's say it's just even keeping it to casual sex, not even relationship.

04:10:32.760 Yeah.

04:10:33.760 Do you think a man care, like cares if she pays for the date? 0.82

04:10:36.760 Oh no.

04:10:37.760 Not pays for a date.

04:10:38.760 Doesn't care.

04:10:39.760 But like.

04:10:40.760 Yeah.

04:10:41.760 It doesn't care.

04:10:42.760 But not on like the first, you know.

04:10:45.760 Yeah. 1.00

04:10:46.760 So women can, women can be, I mean, look, broke guys definitely get pussy. 1.00

04:10:55.760 Yeah. 1.00

04:10:56.760 But it's maybe a little harder.

04:10:58.760 Maybe he would do a bit better if he was doing a little better.

04:11:01.760 Yeah.

04:11:02.760 Is it really such a priority for men that they're like, I'm going to get laid.

04:11:06.760 Like I need to get laid.

04:11:07.760 Is that what they're thinking when they're going on first dates?

04:11:09.760 Have you met men?

04:11:10.760 I think so.

04:11:11.760 Yes.

04:11:12.760 I would say a lot of men.

04:11:14.760 Yeah.

04:11:15.760 Yeah.

04:11:16.760 A lot of men, their motivation.

04:11:18.760 They, not to say that they only want that, but they want the total package. 1.00

04:11:23.760 And yes, a lot of men definitely want to fuck. 1.00

04:11:26.760 Yeah. 1.00

04:11:27.760 They have testosterone.

04:11:28.760 Are they also thinking I want a partner or is it like more sexual?

04:11:32.760 If a man, if a man's looking for a partner and considers you to be an eligible partner,

04:11:36.760 it's less likely that they'll attempt to sleep with you on the first date if they actually

04:11:39.760 like you in that way.

04:11:40.760 In my opinion.

04:11:41.760 Even though they want to.

04:11:42.760 Yeah.

04:11:43.760 That doesn't mean they don't want to.

04:11:44.760 I mean like partners, obviously they have sex, but is that really like the main thing

04:11:47.760 for men?

04:11:48.760 Yeah.

04:11:49.760 But whether it's the main thing.

04:11:50.760 Yeah, definitely. 0.68

04:11:51.760 If you have bad sex with a man. 0.85

04:11:52.760 Like their goal. 0.98

04:11:53.760 I mean, sex is important. 0.52

04:11:54.760 Okay.

04:11:55.760 Regardless of the primary motivation, maybe sex is secondary or tertiary.

04:11:59.760 Would that be third?

04:12:01.760 Yeah.

04:12:02.760 Good word.

04:12:03.760 Um, ultimately there, if the calculus is men need to have something going when it comes

04:12:13.760 to money or they need to make an overt gesture that has a financial component, women are upholding 1.00

04:12:19.760 the gender wage gap because it's basically like, I mean, I don't think that I'm, I don't

04:12:25.760 know what the solution is. 0.98

04:12:26.760 Like, I'm not saying like have sex with homeless dudes. 0.95

04:12:29.760 Like don't do that. 1.00

04:12:31.760 Don't get pussy. 1.00

04:12:32.760 The homeless dudes, you know, but maybe, but maybe I'm just saying the reason men, it 1.00

04:12:39.760 conceivably hypothetically or theoretically could be the case.

04:12:43.760 The reason men earn more is because we are motivated to, because I think I look, women

04:12:54.760 are romantically motivated.

04:12:55.760 Obviously I'm not saying women don't want boyfriends.

04:12:59.760 Women don't want to have, you know, sex. 1.00

04:13:02.760 Women don't want a partner, but in order for a woman to get that her, her, the state of 1.00

04:13:10.760 affairs of her money and finances is completely negligible, completely negligible. 0.60

04:13:17.760 A woman's finances is never going to stop her from getting laid. 1.00

04:13:21.760 It's never going to really stop her from getting a boyfriend.

04:13:25.760 Whereas a man's state of affairs, as it relates to his finances, his money definitely will,

04:13:31.760 definitely will.

04:13:33.760 Ultimately the argument here is women create the gender wage gap because you motivate, because 1.00

04:13:42.760 men are really romantically motivated to make money.

04:13:46.760 I mean, doesn't Jordan Peterson talk about the, uh, also the fact that men were willing

04:13:52.760 to work longer hours.

04:13:54.760 They don't have to take breaks for childbirth. 1.00

04:13:56.760 I mean, there was a lot of things that could, there's a lot, there's a lot of reasons.

04:14:00.760 There's a lot of reasons, but since it's a dating podcast, I do think that this, this actually,

04:14:07.760 I think it's an, and I don't actually hear anyone else out there ever making this argument

04:14:13.760 that it's one of the variables could just be men are just like, I don't know.

04:14:22.760 I don't know if people don't know this.

04:14:24.760 Cause men are really motivated by sex and by women. 0.96

04:14:28.760 Yeah. 0.83

04:14:29.760 Super motivated.

04:14:30.760 That's what causes war. 1.00

04:14:31.760 Like if, like if, trust me, if we could fuck y'all in a cardboard box, we would, we would. 1.00

04:14:40.760 I know. 1.00

04:14:41.760 Have you seen like how a single guy lives? 0.99

04:14:43.760 He doesn't like, you know, we are very minimal, you know, we don't need much.

04:14:48.760 You're not seeking to feel protected or cared for in that sense.

04:14:52.760 You're not seeking any sort of financial dependence.

04:14:55.760 So it makes sense.

04:14:56.760 Yeah.

04:14:57.760 Okay.

04:14:58.760 We have some shots from the government of Canada.

04:14:59.760 Oh, pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

04:15:05.760 We know that you think and believe that the feminism out in the world right now is about 1.00

04:15:10.760 equality.

04:15:11.760 But what Brian is trying to explain is that it is not current feminism is not about 0.82

04:15:16.760 equality.

04:15:17.760 Yeah.

04:15:18.760 True.

04:15:19.760 Yeah.

04:15:20.760 Also like to your point, pasty, I'm not interested in these dictionary definitions.

04:15:24.760 I'm interested in outcomes.

04:15:26.760 Um, you can say it means equality all day long.

04:15:30.760 Um, but if you look at the behavior of feminists, the messaging in feminist spaces, um, how the 0.99

04:15:38.760 ideology is weaponized, media politics, culture, I think it overwhelmingly manifests as hostility

04:15:49.760 towards men point blank period.

04:15:53.760 Um, I've definitely seen that side.

04:15:56.760 I have, and I've also seen, um, but I just was trying to say that's not true feminism. 1.00

04:16:04.760 Well, I mean, that's just no true Scotsman, but I mean, do you, I can see what you're saying,

04:16:09.760 but have you heard the term toxic masculinity?

04:16:11.760 Oh yeah.

04:16:12.760 Yeah.

04:16:13.760 Kind of a feminist talking point. 1.00

04:16:15.760 Do you think it is?

04:16:16.760 I, yeah, it's probably within the purview of the fret, uh, feminist framework, but why, 1.00

04:16:22.760 I guess, why does feminism tolerate rhetoric that frames men as inherently toxic, predatory,

04:16:31.760 uh, um, dangerous, oppressive, just for being men?

04:16:37.760 I think it's trauma based again on both.

04:16:40.760 Like that's in my opinion, misandry and like putting even societal norms and expectations

04:16:48.760 on men that like, you can't like cry or you have to be the strongest man in the room or

04:16:53.760 like, you know, there's a lot of sexist things pushed on men that shouldn't be.

04:16:57.760 And like, I think that's like, you know, men should be allowed to like express their emotions

04:17:04.760 and stuff.

04:17:05.760 And that should be pushed more and feminine. 0.98

04:17:08.760 And like, I guess the toxic masculinity is coming from like society pushing on man, men,

04:17:15.760 this toxic expectation that they shouldn't feel.

04:17:18.760 And they have to be like the strongest and make the most money.

04:17:21.760 That's like toxic.

04:17:22.760 It's toxic, you know?

04:17:23.760 And it's not right.

04:17:25.760 And I guess, but they, feminists oftentimes want to paint masculinity inherently as toxic. 1.00

04:17:32.760 And I don't find that distinction particularly helpful.

04:17:35.760 I would much like if feminism was about true egalitarianism, I would frame it like this. 1.00

04:17:41.760 There are toxic women. 1.00

04:17:43.760 There are toxic men.

04:17:44.760 Let's combat specific toxicity.

04:17:47.760 I don't think we need a gender toxicity. 0.91

04:17:50.760 Like, and look to be charitable.

04:17:53.760 Perhaps it's the case that toxicity manifest itself differently between men and women.

04:17:59.760 Yes.

04:18:00.760 But I think attaching using the term toxic masculinity unnecessarily muddies the water and makes it confusing

04:18:08.760 and sort of points to or suggest that masculinity in and of itself has a toxic element and is toxic.

04:18:17.760 Like when you say toxic masculinity, there is some degree of suggestion there.

04:18:22.760 I mean, you could argue a bit over the semantics and the word choice here.

04:18:26.760 Yeah.

04:18:27.760 I think a lot of people will interpret that as a sort of condemnation of just masculinity as a whole, generally speaking.

04:18:35.760 But I do, I mean, my next point would simply be, you know, you want to say, well, that's not true feminism. 1.00

04:18:41.760 I would argue the main feminist framework and ideology is misandrist. 1.00

04:18:48.760 If you look at mainstream, you know, we talked about schooling, education, feminist thought leaders, writers, thinkers.

04:18:57.760 Yeah.

04:18:58.760 Ever since the start of feminism, there's a really clear track record of anti-male rhetoric.

04:19:03.760 I mean, I guess.

04:19:05.760 Like, do you know Valerie, what's her name?

04:19:08.760 Valerie Solanos?

04:19:09.760 No, I don't.

04:19:10.760 She was like a feminist. 1.00

04:19:12.760 I think she's still alive. 0.52

04:19:13.760 She tried to kill Andy Warhol. 1.00

04:19:15.760 What the fuck? 1.00

04:19:16.760 She wrote a book called The Scum Manifesto. 1.00

04:19:18.760 A lot of these feminists advocate for things. 1.00

04:19:20.760 I think one famous feminist said we should cull, is the cull the right word? 1.00

04:19:27.760 Cull the male population to 10% or something. 1.00

04:19:30.760 What the fuck? 1.00

04:19:31.760 That's horrible, but that's not feminism. 1.00

04:19:35.760 Question.

04:19:36.760 Should men work their way out of prison?

04:19:38.760 Work their way out of prison?

04:19:40.760 Like, should men start in prison? 0.79

04:19:41.760 Start in prison?

04:19:42.760 Yeah.

04:19:43.760 Like, they have to prove them.

04:19:44.760 Men have to prove them. 0.95

04:19:45.760 I've heard feminists say this. 1.00

04:19:46.760 Men should start off in prison and have to prove themselves and work their way out. 1.00

04:19:50.760 What the fuck? 1.00

04:19:51.760 No. 1.00

04:19:52.760 Those women should have to do that then. 1.00

04:19:53.760 I don't agree with that.

04:19:54.760 No.

04:19:55.760 Okay.

04:19:56.760 That's crazy.

04:19:57.760 That's literally crazy. 0.94

04:19:58.760 Well, you wrote, just because you wrote, feminist misandrist, which isn't possible. 0.99

04:20:04.760 Well, I think there's radical feminists that are not even feminine. 1.00

04:20:09.760 You know what I mean?

04:20:10.760 But can a feminist be misandrist? 1.00

04:20:12.760 I don't think so.

04:20:14.760 No.

04:20:15.760 How about this?

04:20:16.760 That's a chauvinist.

04:20:17.760 Let's test out the logic.

04:20:18.760 Can a men's rights activist be a misogynist?

04:20:21.760 Yeah.

04:20:22.760 Wait, I don't understand though.

04:20:23.760 Wait.

04:20:24.760 So, you could argue...

04:20:26.760 Actually, you know...

04:20:28.760 Wait, wait.

04:20:29.760 The men's rights activists, I think, are way more ideologically pure than feminists. 1.00

04:20:35.760 Well, there's radical ones though, you know.

04:20:38.760 Sure.

04:20:39.760 But I think men's rights advocacy is like, way less toxic or problematic than feminism. 0.99

04:20:48.760 Because I don't think in men's rights activism it, like, cakes in all this, like, class warfare shit. 0.98

04:20:55.640 But testing out the logic, can a men's rights activist be a misogynist? 0.98

04:21:03.120 Well, okay, men's rights.

04:21:06.160 Tell me what you, like, is that, like, is there men's rights activists, like, commonly?

04:21:14.900 I guess I haven't done enough research on men's rights activists.

04:21:19.960 Well, you're aware of the term, right?

04:21:22.320 Yeah, but I'd have to do more looking into that side, to be honest.

04:21:26.520 For simplicity's sake, for simplicity's sake, men's rights activist would be, like, sort of, again, I think the men's rights framework is way more, is more palette.

04:21:42.940 Well, some people, obviously, feminists would dispute this. 1.00

04:21:46.720 I think it's more palatable because it doesn't smuggle in as, like, really anti-female rhetoric, typically.

04:21:55.620 I'd have to look into it.

04:21:57.500 Okay, men's rights activists would be the mere opposite of feminists. 1.00

04:22:03.640 Yeah.

04:22:04.360 You've never heard the term?

04:22:05.580 I have, but I haven't, like, from the groups I have seen, they're all misogynistic.

04:22:12.880 So I guess it's, like, the opposite for you.

04:22:14.640 Answer the question, though.

04:22:16.200 Well, I mean, maybe that's the answer.

04:22:18.000 Can a men's rights activist be a misogynist?

04:22:20.360 I think if they don't push for women's rights, too, then yes. 0.95

04:22:28.500 And it's the same, like...

04:22:30.540 Why would that be...

04:22:31.480 Okay, hold on.

04:22:32.480 But the answer is yes.

04:22:33.880 Men's rights activists can be misogynist.

04:22:37.580 So why can't feminists be misandrist? 1.00

04:22:40.860 If they don't push for equal rights, then it's, like, they're a misandrist and a chauvinist. 0.98

04:22:48.060 Oh, my God.

04:22:48.980 That's my opinion. 0.95

04:22:50.820 But logically, if a men's rights activist could be a misogynist, then a feminist could be a misandrist. 1.00

04:22:58.240 I said if they don't push for equal rights, then it's chauvinism, you know?

04:23:03.600 Wait, hold on.

04:23:06.760 You could be a feminist and want equality, but also hate men. 0.99

04:23:14.380 Like, the two things aren't mutually exclusive.

04:23:17.900 How can you hate men while pushing for equal rights, though?

04:23:22.320 You know?

04:23:25.120 I don't think these are contrary.

04:23:29.640 Okay.

04:23:29.940 Well, I'm just saying...

04:23:32.160 I said my stance on it.

04:23:33.480 I think, like, it's...

04:23:36.360 Like, feminism is ultimately... 1.00

04:23:37.660 It's not about equality, though, is the thing.

04:23:40.120 You're saying modern-day feminism isn't, but... 1.00

04:23:43.480 But, okay, people who assume the title of feminist, you think it's impossible for... 1.00

04:23:49.540 Like, you're trying to stick to the dictionary definition.

04:23:52.380 Yeah, for both.

04:23:53.240 You don't think that there's ever been a stated feminist who is a misandrist? 0.52

04:23:59.900 Like, is that impossible?

04:24:01.000 Yeah, like, that's not feminism, but I'm sure they self-proclaim feminism. 1.00

04:24:06.840 Oh, it's just no true Scotsman.

04:24:08.460 They self-proclaim feminism that isn't feminism because it's misandry.

04:24:12.460 Uh, okay.

04:24:16.140 I mean, the logic isn't logicking, I guess.

04:24:18.380 Well, if you're a self-proclaimed feminist and push for women's rights over... 1.00

04:24:24.260 Like, don't push for equal rights.

04:24:27.340 And you're a misandrist and hate men, then you're not a feminist because you're not pushing for equal rights. 0.99

04:24:32.760 And, like, gender equality. 0.86

04:24:34.160 Feminism doesn't push for equal rights, though. 1.00

04:24:37.420 That's what he's saying.

04:24:38.440 I hear that.

04:24:39.160 I hear them.

04:24:39.660 And I'm just saying, I'm going by the definition in what I was taught.

04:24:43.340 I was like...

04:24:43.720 Yeah, even using your definition of feminism, I don't see how it would be impossible for somebody to... 1.00

04:24:53.160 To, like, you can claim to be a feminist and also be a misandrist. 1.00

04:25:01.380 Wow, I just don't... 0.98

04:25:02.600 You can also, basically, you can be a feminist and hate men. 1.00

04:25:06.660 Like, yes, you can. 0.96

04:25:08.740 They do it all the time.

04:25:11.440 It's chauvinism, though.

04:25:14.040 You can be a...

04:25:15.140 Go ahead.

04:25:15.920 This is unrelated.

04:25:17.020 Do we still get food?

04:25:18.520 Yeah, we're getting food later.

04:25:19.820 Okay.

04:25:20.160 It's coming a little bit later.

04:25:23.160 Um...

04:25:24.040 Do you think women can be a misogynist? 1.00

04:25:26.480 Yeah!

04:25:27.080 Okay. 1.00

04:25:27.500 Fuck yeah, of course. 1.00

04:25:28.800 So many women I know are misogynistic. 1.00

04:25:31.680 Like, it's...

04:25:33.060 Wait, question.

04:25:34.000 Let's say, like, a feminist scholar... 1.00

04:25:37.760 Doesn't hate men, but then one day she starts hating men.

04:25:42.820 Is she no longer a feminist? 1.00

04:25:46.340 But she's... 1.00

04:25:47.020 Is she still pushing for gender equality? 0.99

04:25:49.300 Yeah, but she really hates men. 1.00

04:25:50.760 Like, she's like, we should be equal. 0.99

04:25:53.160 But she hates men.

04:25:54.540 Does that translate in her actions?

04:26:00.240 Like, does she...

04:26:01.180 Like, you said...

04:26:02.340 One of the things you said is 50-50 custody...

04:26:06.880 In custody, like, battles.

04:26:08.720 You know what I mean?

04:26:10.660 You do realize that...

04:26:12.160 Okay, watch. 1.00

04:26:15.900 Check this shit out. 0.99

04:26:17.000 Let me make this super simple. 1.00

04:26:19.240 I don't know how else to do this.

04:26:21.260 You know criminal defense attorneys, right?

04:26:23.920 Mm-hmm.

04:26:25.280 Criminals should have rights. 1.00

04:26:26.620 But I think even criminal defense attorneys probably genuinely hate, like, genuine murderers.

04:26:38.340 But they still will probably have a position.

04:26:40.840 Like, even me.

04:26:41.840 I'm not a criminal defense attorney.

04:26:43.480 Yeah, I think even criminals, even criminals who commit murder should be afforded certain rights in the justice system.

04:26:53.100 But I hate criminals.

04:26:55.660 But they can also...

04:26:56.740 I can also advocate for the rights of criminals.

04:26:59.280 Does that make sense? 0.94

04:27:00.040 So, as it relates to feminism, I think a feminist could be like, you know, look, men and women should be equal, but I hate men.

04:27:14.560 Does that make sense?

04:27:15.660 No, because that's a job.

04:27:17.800 And he's getting paid to fight for criminal...

04:27:20.080 Like, you know, that's a criminal defense attorney.

04:27:22.560 Oh, my God.

04:27:23.040 You're totally missing.

04:27:24.320 That just went over your head.

04:27:25.540 No, but I get what you're saying.

04:27:27.480 I get what you're saying.

04:27:28.420 But what about the example I gave where I said, I'm not a criminal defense attorney.

04:27:32.560 I hate people who commit murder, but I acknowledge even people who...

04:27:37.100 Even people who it's clear they've...

04:27:39.540 Like, it's not just a whodunit.

04:27:41.480 It's like, they definitely killed somebody.

04:27:43.580 Even they should be afforded rights under the justice system.

04:27:48.080 Why do you believe that?

04:27:50.920 Well, I'd question that, honestly, over it.

04:27:53.160 But I get what you're saying.

04:27:54.280 Yeah, I guess I just have a different stance on it.

04:27:59.600 Yeah, but I don't think these two positions are contradictory.

04:28:01.980 As a woman, you could be like, you know what? 1.00

04:28:04.720 I think that men and women should have equal rights, but also, you hate men.

04:28:10.420 Like, those two things are...

04:28:12.720 I don't think women should hate men, but they're kind of compatible.

04:28:15.700 I already said my stance on it, though.

04:28:21.740 Okay, let me dumb it down even more.

04:28:23.640 But I'm not going to change my stance or opinion on this, though.

04:28:26.620 No, just listen, just listen.

04:28:27.520 Like, I'm not.

04:28:28.220 Just listen, listen.

04:28:29.500 I'm not going to change my mind.

04:28:30.840 Okay.

04:28:31.880 I think pineapple on pizza is disgusting. 0.99

04:28:35.160 I fucking hate it. 1.00

04:28:36.700 I fucking hate it. 1.00

04:28:37.840 But I think people should have the right to order pineapple on pizza. 0.99

04:28:44.220 I still have the same stance.

04:28:45.820 I get what you're saying again, but I still have the same stance.

04:28:48.980 You know what I mean?

04:28:50.220 I still have the same stance.

04:28:53.220 Yo.

04:28:53.540 Actually, 360L donated $200.

04:28:57.580 Fourth and final TTS tonight, late over here in the UK.

04:29:02.120 See you in the next show.

04:29:03.900 Yo, thank you, man.

04:29:04.840 Much love, Brian.

04:29:05.700 Can I get a salute?

04:29:06.780 Going keen.

04:29:08.460 Have a great night, brother.

04:29:10.080 Thank you, man.

04:29:10.760 Hashtag free Felicity.

04:29:11.660 Hashtag free Nick.

04:29:12.740 Hashtag big labia matters.

04:29:14.580 Who's Nick? 0.72

04:29:17.540 Ouch.

04:29:19.080 Rude.

04:29:20.600 Pull that up.

04:29:22.100 Yo, is Pasty George still in the chat?

04:29:24.740 Yo, Pasty, my dainty hands holding up this phone, man.

04:29:29.060 My dainty hands.

04:29:30.880 Pull it up.

04:29:32.140 F11.

04:29:33.840 Dude, I need my hands.

04:29:36.020 I'm going to get carpal tunnel syndrome.

04:29:38.580 Yo, I need an iPhone Air Pop.

04:29:40.440 I need an iPhone Air Pop.

04:29:41.500 Just kidding.

04:29:41.780 Is that real?

04:29:43.240 Yeah.

04:29:43.480 Oh, my God.

04:29:44.200 Really?

04:29:44.560 Oh, my God.

04:29:45.240 Felicity, read this.

04:29:46.180 Stop panhandling.

04:29:47.860 Why should a woman that initiated a divorce get child support or alimony? 1.00

04:29:52.320 These are the types of women who are destroying the Western society and making men like Brian 1.00

04:29:56.900 not want to get married.

04:29:58.920 Okay.

04:29:59.480 Can I?

04:29:59.940 I mean, as a...

04:30:00.540 Yeah, go ahead.

04:30:01.040 Okay.

04:30:01.340 So, just because my soon-to-be ex-husband has behaved in a way that was not suitable

04:30:07.940 to continue the marriage.

04:30:08.960 He, therefore, does not have to pay me anything because I'm choosing to leave the marriage.

04:30:15.000 Is that the reasoning there?

04:30:17.000 Am I getting this correct?

04:30:18.820 I don't think it was directed to you specifically.

04:30:20.560 No, no, no, no.

04:30:21.240 I'm just trying to use it as an example.

04:30:22.920 There's so many reasons why a marriage ends.

04:30:24.820 But if a man behaves completely perfectly and this woman out of nowhere decides to leave 0.59

04:30:29.140 him, I understand your point.

04:30:30.220 But that's not always the case.

04:30:32.320 I think alimony and child support should kind of be divided up, too, because if a man willingly 1.00

04:30:37.820 had a child with you and you are still the primary parent and you don't make as much as

04:30:46.420 the other person, like, why wouldn't there be child support?

04:30:49.960 That money would get spent either way, married or not married on the child. 0.69

04:30:52.860 What does child support have to do with that specifically?

04:30:59.920 By the way, I just want to explain the no true Scotsman thing.

04:31:02.860 So saying it's not real feminism, that's called a no true Scotsman fallacy. 1.00

04:31:08.220 So if you build an entire movement, that movement becomes mainstream.

04:31:13.900 If you watch what it produces, you can't then, like, constantly disown the effects of that

04:31:20.740 movement.

04:31:21.160 So if an ideology consistently breeds anti-male rhetoric and anti-male sentiment, it's just

04:31:30.440 you can't remove that from feminism. 1.00

04:31:33.960 So the problem is with the ideology, not just the followers.

04:31:40.680 I guess I got to do my research on your side, because I get what you're saying and what you're

04:31:55.040 trying to say, but I haven't personally seen that in feminism. 1.00

04:31:58.880 I'll break it down again.

04:32:00.600 Something different, a different approach.

04:32:02.120 So when we were talking about the patriarchy, right, you said you believe in the patriarchy,

04:32:06.580 women are oppressed, men are the oppressors. 0.94

04:32:08.980 So if you believe men as a group are oppressors, and oppressors, would you agree are inherently

04:32:16.780 unjust, powerful and dangerous?

04:32:20.460 Yeah.

04:32:20.940 Okay.

04:32:22.220 Then how are you not going to end up viewing men negatively as a group?

04:32:28.140 Because true feminists would be like, but some men fight for it. 0.95

04:32:31.660 There's male feminists as well. 1.00

04:32:33.260 No, but the framework and ideology of feminism, the lens is patriarchy. 1.00

04:32:40.560 It looks through life.

04:32:42.400 Put on those rose-colored glasses.

04:32:45.220 Oh, God.

04:32:45.480 Okay.

04:32:46.260 So the framework, you put those on, those are the feminist glasses, right? 1.00

04:32:49.620 Okay.

04:32:50.260 Now everything's read to you.

04:32:51.980 Yeah.

04:32:53.200 Feminists look at society. 1.00

04:32:55.120 They look at the dynamics between men and women.

04:32:57.540 They look at culture.

04:32:58.600 They look at everything through the feminist lens. 1.00

04:33:00.880 They look at, okay, patriarchy theory, right?

04:33:05.400 And patriarchy theory paints men as a group, as oppressors.

04:33:09.500 If, again, I think you would have to categorize true oppression, you would categorize oppressors

04:33:17.680 unjust, powerful, dangerous.

04:33:21.540 If this is what feminism is propagating, wouldn't anyone start resenting the oppressor, the so-called 1.00

04:33:29.420 oppressor?

04:33:30.880 I think they could.

04:33:34.520 And so that resentment breeds contempt, and that definitionally would be misandry. 0.98

04:33:42.140 Ergo, feminists, not always, feminists are misandrist. 1.00

04:33:50.520 Some, sorry, I should say, some feminists are misandrist. 1.00

04:33:52.820 But, yeah, okay, well, I'll compromise with you there, but I still don't think.

04:33:58.560 Okay.

04:33:59.580 Definitely, like, but, okay, sure.

04:34:03.480 What do you think of men?

04:34:05.340 Just curious, like, in general.

04:34:06.960 Generally, what do you mean?

04:34:09.680 How am I supposed to answer this question?

04:34:12.480 Oh, like, for example, ask me the question about women.

04:34:14.840 How do you feel about women?

04:34:17.280 I think women are great. 1.00

04:34:19.840 Love women.

04:34:20.700 They're great.

04:34:21.320 Don't always agree with certain women on certain things.

04:34:23.980 But overall, I think women are great. 1.00

04:34:26.160 I would say the same thing.

04:34:29.000 If you ask women that question about men, that's not quite as positive.

04:34:33.860 Not typically a very positive response you get from them.

04:34:37.220 Let me ask you this follow-up question.

04:34:39.280 Yeah.

04:34:40.060 Do we need men? 0.81

04:34:41.500 Yeah.

04:34:41.920 Do you need men?

04:34:42.640 Like, in what context?

04:34:46.480 I'm not talking romantically.

04:34:48.020 I'm just talking, like, societally.

04:34:50.040 Yeah, yeah, for sure.

04:34:51.320 What do you mean?

04:34:52.560 Not just for...

04:34:53.360 You need both.

04:34:53.680 You need both genders. 1.00

04:34:55.180 Yeah.

04:34:55.700 Well, not just for reproduction, but...

04:34:58.640 Here, why don't we just...

04:34:59.340 I want to open it up to the table.

04:35:00.480 I'm saying yes.

04:35:01.500 I know me and her have been talking quite a bit.

04:35:03.600 What do you think of men?

04:35:07.780 I mean, just the same how I feel about women.

04:35:10.120 Like, it's really no different.

04:35:11.820 You don't have a bit of an in-group bias?

04:35:15.400 Well, obviously.

04:35:15.980 Like, women are a little better. 1.00

04:35:17.640 I enjoy being a woman, and I love all my women friends.

04:35:20.820 Of course.

04:35:21.500 Yeah.

04:35:22.000 Okay.

04:35:22.820 I think they're great.

04:35:24.560 Awesome.

04:35:25.020 Okay.

04:35:25.340 I absolutely adore masculine men.

04:35:28.120 Yeah, I do like men.

04:35:31.120 Same.

04:35:32.140 I like men, obviously.

04:35:33.960 Do we need men? 0.81

04:35:35.560 Yes!

04:35:36.560 I think so, yeah.

04:35:37.280 Absolutely.

04:35:38.000 Yes.

04:35:38.960 For sure.

04:35:39.860 For sure.

04:35:40.700 For sure.

04:35:41.580 A hundred percent.

04:35:44.020 A message from the government of Canada.

04:35:45.780 Here he's back.

04:35:48.560 Pastey George donated $200.04.

04:35:52.980 Basically, Chair One is stuck on an outdated belief of feminism when the current feminism 1.00

04:35:58.300 in practice today is based on advantaging women at the expense of men and demonizing men as

04:36:03.940 well.

04:36:04.780 I hear that opinion.

04:36:06.340 Oh.

04:36:07.900 Yo, Pastey.

04:36:09.220 George, thank you, man.

04:36:10.780 Appreciate the TTS.

04:36:12.260 Appreciate it, man.

04:36:13.600 Appreciate it.

04:36:14.580 Thank you.

04:36:15.060 Thank you.

04:36:15.420 No.

04:36:16.020 Adzil's donated $200.

04:36:18.420 You just got baited.

04:36:20.260 This is my true final TTS.

04:36:22.800 No.

04:36:23.200 I just wanted to test something.

04:36:25.520 It's confirmed.

04:36:26.640 You're truly a Swifty, since they also believe everything here.

04:36:30.740 Muppet.

04:36:31.580 FR.

04:36:32.300 All love, Brian.

04:36:33.440 I'm not a Swifty.

04:36:34.760 This is not going to be your true final TTS, because watch this.

04:36:43.340 Michael Jackson, better in the Jackson 5.

04:36:48.180 Boom.

04:36:48.600 Okay.

04:36:49.280 Oh, wow.

04:36:50.880 Put that in your pipe and smoke it.

04:36:52.960 Okay.

04:36:54.020 All right.

04:36:54.860 Let's see here.

04:37:00.300 I'm almost done with this feminist back and forth here, I guess. 1.00

04:37:04.840 Please.

04:37:08.880 Yeah, I'll check it really quick.

04:37:10.560 Private?

04:37:11.520 I don't see anything in private.

04:37:14.440 Did you?

04:37:15.740 Oh, the looks stuff?

04:37:18.560 Okay, we'll get to that in just a sec.

04:37:21.940 Oh, no.

04:37:22.280 Look, if an ideology reliably produces resentment toward one group, I ultimately, I don't care

04:37:32.060 what a dictionary says.

04:37:34.200 I don't care.

04:37:34.900 I don't care what your dictionary definition is.

04:37:37.280 It's not about equality.

04:37:40.620 And I think that's what modern feminism has become. 1.00

04:37:44.000 It's a sort of resentment towards men.

04:37:49.120 Like, let me ask you this.

04:37:50.140 And the other women can answer, too. 0.97

04:37:53.120 Well, who here is a feminist going around the table? 1.00

04:37:55.200 Feminist? 1.00

04:37:56.420 I would consider myself a feminist by definition of, like, feminism is a movement to end sexism

04:38:02.360 and gender equality. 0.79

04:38:03.380 Sure.

04:38:03.740 Okay.

04:38:04.060 What about you, feminist? 1.00

04:38:05.060 No.

04:38:06.700 Just say yes or no, because audio.

04:38:08.960 No.

04:38:10.060 No.

04:38:10.680 No.

04:38:10.920 No.

04:38:11.540 No.

04:38:11.840 Do men have any rights in this country that women don't? 0.98

04:38:24.320 Yeah.

04:38:25.580 As the two feminists, we'll have to answer this one. 1.00

04:38:29.440 Rights that women don't. 1.00

04:38:30.900 Well, so your position, feminism's about equality. 1.00

04:38:33.800 Yeah.

04:38:34.020 Well, what is the lacking of equality as it relates to rights?

04:38:40.560 I mean, there's different forms of equality, but is it your position?

04:38:45.520 Well, like you said-

04:38:46.300 Do women not have equal rights? 1.00

04:38:47.720 Let's start there.

04:38:48.960 I don't believe so, no.

04:38:52.020 Not fully.

04:38:52.460 So women don't have equal rights? 1.00

04:38:57.200 No.

04:38:57.660 Okay.

04:38:58.360 What do you think?

04:38:59.200 Do women not have equal rights? 1.00

04:39:00.880 I think in the U.S., like, by law, yeah, we have equal rights, but it's like, for example,

04:39:06.860 we can all have, like, equal rights in terms of race, but racism can still exist, and, like,

04:39:11.680 so I feel like sexism can also exist, even though there are equal rights.

04:39:16.220 Yeah, definitely.

04:39:16.600 There's absolutely sexism.

04:39:18.800 Men can be sexist towards women.

04:39:20.780 Women can be- 1.00

04:39:21.500 Well, I don't know if you guys think women can be sexist towards men, but you seem to

04:39:28.040 think, though, that in the U.S., what is a right in the U.S. that, because you, in the

04:39:35.820 questionnaire, women do not have equal rights. 1.00

04:39:37.880 Reproductive rights. 0.98

04:39:40.320 I'll engage there, but is there anything else?

04:39:42.660 Any other rights?

04:39:44.720 That's the one off the top of my head, but I-

04:39:48.020 Yeah, but is there, even if you can't think of it, is there any other right?

04:39:52.260 Oh, I'm 100% sure, yeah.

04:39:54.120 I just have to, like, think more on it before I give you a full response, you know?

04:40:00.540 This is what I'm prepared to-

04:40:02.280 Well, just give me one.

04:40:03.760 I don't need a laundry list.

04:40:05.200 Give me one other thing besides reproductive rights. 0.92

04:40:07.060 Well, again, equal pay.

04:40:08.440 I guess it's not, like, a right, but-

04:40:12.680 But women have the right to work. 1.00

04:40:15.200 Under law, women have to be paid the same as men. 0.90

04:40:18.840 What is the right that is being infringed upon?

04:40:24.200 Okay, I guess I was like, but it's an unfair thing.

04:40:27.400 That's not right.

04:40:28.340 Yeah, you're right.

04:40:28.900 Well, my position, we already engaged on wage gap.

04:40:31.280 Wage gap doesn't exist, but it wouldn't be evidence of an inequality of rights.

04:40:39.360 Yeah, I agree with that.

04:40:41.040 That was my bad.

04:40:42.400 Okay.

04:40:43.340 Besides reproduction, one other way women don't have equal rights? 1.00

04:40:51.800 Fertility. 1.00

04:40:52.860 I guess that's, like, the same shit. 0.99

04:40:54.420 But, uh, reproductivity, and I want to say, like, still to this day, it's harder for women 1.00

04:41:05.540 to get medical care.

04:41:08.640 That's not true.

04:41:09.760 No, it's not.

04:41:10.940 Like, without, like-

04:41:12.760 How so?

04:41:13.900 Like, demonstrate it.

04:41:15.020 Like, women are taken a lot less seriously in, you know, medicine and stuff, and, like,

04:41:25.420 going-

04:41:25.640 That's not true.

04:41:26.900 All right.

04:41:27.500 Tell me how.

04:41:28.640 I work in the medical field.

04:41:30.480 There are plenty of women that have high-paying positions, are super smart doctors. 1.00

04:41:36.620 I think she's talking about, like, when a woman-

04:41:38.700 Getting care, receiving care.

04:41:39.600 When a woman goes to a doctor- 0.96

04:41:41.360 Receiving care.

04:41:42.100 Yeah, the doctor is going to take her complaints less seriously. 0.85

04:41:45.680 Yes, yes, yes.

04:41:46.260 Are you going off of a personal experience?

04:41:48.140 If so, can you give an example?

04:41:51.060 Because-

04:41:51.540 Yeah, how would you demonstrate-

04:41:51.880 I can give multiple personal experiences.

04:41:53.520 Like, how would you demonstrate that if it was a man-

04:41:55.380 And from what I've heard and seen with other women, they haven't been-

04:41:59.560 Isn't it the case that women actually get more health care? 1.00

04:42:02.220 Like, women are more likely to go to the doctor. 1.00

04:42:04.220 Yes, they do.

04:42:04.740 They're more likely, you know, there perhaps is a debate over the quality of the care as compared

04:42:10.040 to men.

04:42:10.380 But isn't it at least true that women are more likely to go to the doctor? 0.99

04:42:14.900 Yes.

04:42:16.120 I mean-

04:42:16.960 Well, statistically speaking, yes.

04:42:18.740 Could it actually be the case that because women are more likely to go to the doctor, 0.88

04:42:23.000 when men finally do choose to go to the doctor, it actually is the case, could be the case, 0.99

04:42:28.340 that men actually present with more clear-cut symptoms of, like, holy shit, I've got a bullet 0.97

04:42:34.820 wound, whereas, like, maybe women's, like, when women go to the doctor, and look, I don't dispute 0.98

04:42:41.640 that maybe a doctor thinks the woman's malingering or, you know, he's not taking it as seriously.

04:42:47.320 Maybe that happens.

04:42:47.660 I do have an example.

04:42:48.820 Maybe that happens.

04:42:50.060 But the fact that, I think it's actually, the argument could be made, women get better health care 0.99

04:42:55.580 than men, because men don't fucking go to the doctor. 0.99

04:42:59.740 I disagree. 0.99

04:43:01.040 What's your experience?

04:43:03.580 My lymph node was hardened and swollen for three years, and I've been getting a lot of

04:43:09.760 symptoms, and I didn't get the proper care I needed for three years of it escalating.

04:43:14.620 Doctor, you know, this idea that...

04:43:16.660 With, like, proof and, like...

04:43:18.700 But, hold on, hold on.

04:43:19.600 Don't you think that could happen to a guy, too?

04:43:21.620 One thing, though.

04:43:22.360 One thing, though.

04:43:22.720 How would you demonstrate that if it was a man in your position that he would, like,

04:43:27.140 the doctor would be like, you know what, we have to solve this.

04:43:29.920 It took me multiple doctors.

04:43:31.700 Yeah, but where...

04:43:32.580 But how is it a comparison between men and women?

04:43:35.500 It's less common for men to not be taken... 1.00

04:43:39.020 I mean, you're just pulling this completely out of your ass, but... 0.99

04:43:41.620 You're going off of a bad experience that maybe you have encountered, but I don't think 0.99

04:43:47.380 that that justifies the care for men versus women.

04:43:50.700 Two things here.

04:43:51.340 Two things here.

04:43:52.300 That has nothing to do with rights.

04:43:53.920 Women have access to health care, so it could be the case, maybe there's, like, rampant sexism 1.00

04:43:59.540 in the health care industry, which I think it's a bit dubious because typically on intake,

04:44:05.520 on intake, you have a female nurse, and so unless you're prepared to say that, like, these

04:44:09.920 female nurses are, like, have, are sexist towards women. 1.00

04:44:14.260 I've had terrible experiences with female nurses. 1.00

04:44:15.580 Are you at an urgent care?

04:44:17.140 I'm assuming you don't have a health insurance.

04:44:19.120 I hope that's not offensive, but are you...

04:44:20.940 No, no, I do.

04:44:21.560 You do?

04:44:21.920 Okay, so were you...

04:44:22.700 No, okay, not everyone does.

04:44:24.980 A lot of jobs don't provide anymore.

04:44:26.560 I have really good health insurance.

04:44:27.680 But what does this have to do with rights really quick, and then, like, women can't 1.00

04:44:35.440 get certain surgeries?

04:44:37.020 Women can't get certain drugs? 1.00

04:44:39.520 Yeah, like, some surgeries you can't get without a doctor's input, like, tubal ligating.

04:44:47.140 Totally fake news.

04:44:47.720 But that's a part of a protocol.

04:44:49.140 That's men or women.

04:44:50.180 Yeah.

04:44:50.500 Totally fake news.

04:44:51.660 I think you're going to say, well, you know, getting your tubes tied is, you know, it's

04:44:58.200 harder for a woman to get her tubes tied versus a vasectomy. 1.00

04:45:00.820 This, of course, ignores the fact that for that kind of much more invasive medical surgery

04:45:08.300 procedure...

04:45:09.180 Or an abortion. 0.91

04:45:09.660 Like, if you have an ectopic pregnancy, where...

04:45:13.040 An ectopic pregnancy is always taken very seriously.

04:45:17.220 It's a medical, but there have been so many cases where doctors are scared they will lose

04:45:22.500 their jobs for giving you medical abortion. 1.00

04:45:25.160 For an ectopic...

04:45:26.040 No.

04:45:26.740 A ectopic pregnancy will take somebody's... 0.83

04:45:29.060 Look it up.

04:45:29.700 ...life.

04:45:30.160 Yes.

04:45:30.540 No, that's what I'm saying.

04:45:31.520 I've had an ectopic pregnancy, which is why I'm, like, so educated on this, and that's

04:45:35.240 why I believe...

04:45:35.720 Okay, so where are your statistics coming from that that's not taken seriously?

04:45:38.920 I've seen cases online where it's, like, doctors are genuinely scared.

04:45:42.300 But you could look up anything, and there's always cases.

04:45:44.480 They're more scared to prescribe people drug, like, opiates, because they get a bigger repercussion

04:45:54.660 from prescribing pain medication than the fact that an ectopic pregnancy is a medical

04:46:01.720 procedure that you...

04:46:02.620 It is a medical procedure, and they could lose their jobs.

04:46:05.240 They cannot tell you no.

04:46:06.720 That is against the Hippocratic Oath.

04:46:08.700 But in certain, like, red states, women have been, like, put in extreme danger because 0.96

04:46:18.920 doctors will wait until it's too late to give the procedure or abortion that they need medically 0.86

04:46:24.740 because they're scared to lose their job.

04:46:26.860 Those are states where it's illegal, I'm pretty sure.

04:46:29.460 Yes.

04:46:30.080 Well, hold on.

04:46:30.460 First off...

04:46:30.960 And there is no in state that it's essentially illegal.

04:46:34.540 So the standard of care is going to be observed by doctors and healthcare professionals, regardless

04:46:41.760 of the gender of their patient.

04:46:43.360 Yes.

04:46:43.600 Also, this idea that women are receiving, like, worse care... 1.00

04:46:52.720 Oh, shit, I had something good on that, but it just slipped my mind. 0.99

04:46:59.680 I mean, I don't know how that really relates to rights. 0.99

04:47:03.780 How?

04:47:04.660 How would that relate to, like, a right?

04:47:09.420 That's, like, basically your rights to medical care.

04:47:12.780 Women do have a right to medical care. 1.00

04:47:15.460 But doctors have been too scared of losing...

04:47:17.540 So are you saying that when I...

04:47:19.860 We both go to the same doctor.

04:47:22.080 When I go in there, the doctor dabs me up.

04:47:24.780 He's like, yo, what's up, Brian?

04:47:26.020 You know what?

04:47:26.440 You get 50% off your treatment.

04:47:28.220 And hold on, let's do these blood tests and let's do this.

04:47:30.420 Let's do this.

04:47:31.180 You step in.

04:47:32.040 You walk into the doctor's office. 0.70

04:47:33.760 He slaps you across the face. 1.00

04:47:35.180 He's like, bitch! 1.00

04:47:37.300 Mm-hmm. 1.00

04:47:38.820 No. 1.00

04:47:39.840 You're a fucking... 1.00

04:47:40.780 That's not at all what I'm saying. 1.00

04:47:41.920 Lingering.

04:47:42.620 I'm saying women have died because of lack of care and lack of... 1.00

04:47:46.240 But I think what you're saying is it's not based off of being a man or a woman.

04:47:52.240 You're just going off of your own personal experiences and then saying, oh, men have better health care.

04:47:57.720 Because nothing you've said has actually given proof that men actually have better...

04:48:03.040 Men don't have ectopic pregnancies.

04:48:05.180 So then you can't compare it to one.

04:48:06.660 You can't compare it.

04:48:07.760 Also, one quick thing here.

04:48:09.640 Also, the medical field is not like...

04:48:12.580 I don't know what the right term is.

04:48:13.840 It's not like a silver bullet.

04:48:16.440 Is that the right term?

04:48:17.580 Like, you could go to the doctor and you could present with like...

04:48:22.160 You said you had something going on with your...

04:48:23.800 I've gone to the doctor and sometimes you do realize there are problems that you can be having.

04:48:30.260 Yeah.

04:48:30.720 There's not a solution to your problem.

04:48:32.600 So women can go to the doctor and say, I have like chronic pain issues. 1.00

04:48:38.480 As I have chronic pain issues, I don't know if you know, like I've got...

04:48:42.420 I ice my back.

04:48:44.720 I have...

04:48:45.640 Well, I have a back injury, neck injury.

04:48:47.540 I have severe chronic pain issues.

04:48:49.200 Been dealing with it for 10 years.

04:48:51.120 The medical institution does not have a good solution for chronic pain sufferers.

04:48:56.700 So when women go to the doctor, but right, but when women go to the doctor and they're 1.00

04:49:01.160 like, well, I have this pain issue, but it's not being resolved, the medical, the healthcare

04:49:06.860 industry, sometimes it's just like, there's not a fix.

04:49:12.100 There's not a drug.

04:49:13.100 There's not a thing.

04:49:13.960 Look, there's pain management stuff that they can do, but it's not...

04:49:19.860 The medical field is not like some silver bullet that will fix all, cure all.

04:49:25.000 Well, sometimes there's things that the doctor's going to be like, eh, you're just going to

04:49:30.680 have to deal with this.

04:49:31.740 It's just, that's your life now.

04:49:32.940 Yeah, but because abortion is illegal in some states, women aren't getting life-saving care. 1.00

04:49:40.720 But your claim is that you went to the doctor and they didn't have a solution to your...

04:49:45.820 Sometimes there's not a solution.

04:49:47.340 Well, I got the solution in three years, but like, just saying.

04:49:50.420 Well, cool.

04:49:51.100 I've been dealing with the healthcare industry for 10 years.

04:49:53.820 Whereas there's not a solution, really a good solution.

04:49:55.980 Women just don't get taken as seriously in the medical... 1.00

04:49:59.100 That is not true.

04:50:00.140 I work in the medical field.

04:50:01.580 I've been in the medical field for over 10 years.

04:50:03.620 There are more women that come to the doctor. 1.00

04:50:05.920 I have more women patients that come to my doctor than I do men. 0.97

04:50:10.640 That is not true.

04:50:12.040 I mean, statistically, men don't go to the doctors often.

04:50:14.140 They don't.

04:50:14.800 They don't because they're afraid that when they go to the doctor, they're going to get

04:50:17.800 told, oh, you have cancer.

04:50:19.900 You know, and usually that doesn't happen.

04:50:21.920 But it's not a rights thing.

04:50:24.880 Like, that has...

04:50:25.520 It is, though.

04:50:25.820 Going to the doctor has nothing to do with rights.

04:50:27.160 Because abortion is illegal.

04:50:29.060 Women are being denied life-saving care.

04:50:32.340 The state of California has legal abortion.

04:50:34.000 So that's women's rights, right? 1.00

04:50:35.960 Wait.

04:50:36.280 We don't get access to life-saving care in red states because abortion is illegal. 1.00

04:50:41.920 Wait.

04:50:42.040 Abortion is not life-saving care.

04:50:43.960 Why not?

04:50:44.640 If you have an ectopic pregnancy, it's literally called a medical abortion.

04:50:50.580 And I'm pretty sure even in, like, red states or whatever, life of the mother, it's allowed.

04:50:55.780 Yeah, it's allowed.

04:50:57.200 So...

04:50:57.680 But hold on.

04:50:58.600 Are you...

04:50:59.120 Is it your position that if we were to grant that abortion would be justified in the case 0.79

04:51:04.480 of ectopic pregnancy, that you would be against, like, the 99% of abortions, which

04:51:09.340 are just for, like, oopsie.

04:51:12.640 Like, are you fine banning those?

04:51:15.540 What do you mean?

04:51:16.920 Well, you're trying...

04:51:17.720 Okay.

04:51:18.760 So you realize when it comes to abortion, the majority of abortions are not for incest.

04:51:23.460 They're not for life of the mother.

04:51:25.080 They're not for SA.

04:51:26.680 Yeah.

04:51:27.240 They're for a form of birth control.

04:51:28.080 It's just...

04:51:28.840 It's just...

04:51:29.760 Oopsie. 0.97

04:51:30.320 Let some dude at the club come inside me. 0.97

04:51:31.660 So make birth control more accessible and tubal ligation more...

04:51:33.480 Birth control is free.

04:51:35.520 Accessible.

04:51:36.020 It's not free.

04:51:37.140 Yes, it is.

04:51:37.540 Abortion free.

04:51:38.020 If you don't have health insurance, it's not.

04:51:39.640 It is a thousand percent free.

04:51:40.820 At Planned Parenthood, it's around $15 to $300.

04:51:44.040 No, it's not.

04:51:45.040 You can literally get it for free.

04:51:46.300 You can get it for free.

04:51:47.580 But wait, hold on.

04:51:48.400 Really quick, though.

04:51:49.060 The overlying thing here is if we're talking about equal rights, so I don't...

04:51:56.540 I kind of fail to see how it relates to equal rights, because while you might say it's like

04:52:01.240 a woman's advocacy thing, men don't have any reproductive rights, so what's the... 0.99

04:52:07.540 Well, when we're talking about equal rights, equal to who?

04:52:10.680 Equal to men?

04:52:11.660 So the comparison you have to make is, well, hold on.

04:52:15.020 You would agree that men can't, under law, force women to get abortions, right?

04:52:19.680 Men can't force women to get abortions. 1.00

04:52:24.160 Men can't force women to... 1.00

04:52:25.140 You agree, right?

04:52:26.820 By law?

04:52:28.620 Yeah. 1.00

04:52:28.940 Yeah, technically it's possible the guy could be a fucking abuser, fucking drag her ass to 1.00

04:52:33.900 abortion clinic, and like threaten her. 1.00

04:52:35.560 Which wouldn't even at work, because they can't even come in the room.

04:52:38.600 Yeah, it's like, if you want to take that angle...

04:52:42.420 Legally, no one can do it.

04:52:43.080 By law, no.

04:52:44.180 I asked by law, that's all.

04:52:45.740 Yes or no.

04:52:46.460 So no.

04:52:47.100 I said that.

04:52:47.680 Okay.

04:52:47.860 Not by law.

04:52:48.300 Can a man in a state where women can't get abortions, can he force the woman to keep the child? 0.84

04:52:56.040 Can he force the woman to keep the child? 0.99

04:52:57.840 Yeah, so in California, let's say I knock up my girlfriend, and she wants to get an abortion, 1.00

04:53:02.880 can I force her to not get the abortion? 1.00

04:53:05.960 In California, no.

04:53:07.080 Yeah, in fact, probably in no state, really.

04:53:10.540 Men don't have a say. 0.99

04:53:11.940 So this has anything to do with equal rights, because the only way... 0.79

04:53:16.240 The only way you could have equal rights would be men would have to have some reproductive 1.00

04:53:23.980 say, and they don't.

04:53:26.200 Men definitely, like, have...

04:53:28.740 Well, they don't.

04:53:29.340 No, we don't have a say.

04:53:30.360 There's no legal say.

04:53:31.140 They get forced.

04:53:31.480 When we're talking about rights, we're talking about legal rights.

04:53:36.140 In reds, yeah.

04:53:37.480 So in states where abortion is illegal...

04:53:39.900 What states is abortion illegal?

04:53:43.160 Texas.

04:53:44.400 Idaho, I believe.

04:53:45.640 Okay.

04:53:45.980 That's fine.

04:53:46.660 Those states, whatever.

04:53:47.560 We'll grant that there are states women can't get abortions. 1.00

04:53:49.940 Yeah.

04:53:50.960 Men in those states, they can't force a woman to get abortion. 0.89

04:53:55.380 They can't force a woman to keep the child. 1.00

04:53:58.580 So what does that have to do with equal rights?

04:54:03.340 How about this?

04:54:04.540 It would...

04:54:05.220 I'm...

04:54:05.620 I made up...

04:54:06.440 I made the point.

04:54:07.720 No, no.

04:54:08.040 This would be unequal.

04:54:09.120 In a red state, if a man could tell his woman, you have to get an abortion... 0.97

04:54:14.460 You go get an abortion. 0.99

04:54:16.000 And he could force her to do it, and she couldn't choose to get an abortion, like, on her own. 0.85

04:54:21.580 The man had to give her permission.

04:54:24.140 That would be unequal rights.

04:54:25.820 With tubal ligation, if you have a partner.

04:54:29.940 You're all over the place.

04:54:30.880 Hello?

04:54:31.820 That's an example in reproductive rights. 1.00

04:54:35.500 That's like...

04:54:35.880 Can a man force a woman to get tubal ligation? 0.90

04:54:38.700 No, but they can be the reason she isn't allowed to.

04:54:42.220 That's false.

04:54:42.680 That's not true.

04:54:43.680 It's not.

04:54:44.000 It's not true.

04:54:45.080 That's false.

04:54:46.260 It's not true.

04:54:46.860 Doctors will refuse tubal ligation to some women because of... 1.00

04:54:51.560 That's false.

04:54:52.120 So here's what I think is true.

04:54:53.360 I think when a young woman wants to be sterilized, some doctors are hesitant to do the procedure.

04:55:01.580 And perhaps, like, I don't think a lot of...

04:55:04.320 I don't know the details.

04:55:05.340 Maybe some women here on the medical field. 1.00

04:55:07.700 I think a lot of doctors who would otherwise give a woman, like, sterilization procedures, 0.94

04:55:13.920 they might be hesitant to sterilize, like, an 18-year-old woman.

04:55:17.360 I think there's actually an age range with that.

04:55:20.620 There is, because...

04:55:20.980 I think it's 27.

04:55:22.980 We change our minds, unfortunately, especially as we start to go deeper into our biological clock.

04:55:28.100 The thought of, oh, I should have a baby.

04:55:31.140 I should...

04:55:31.720 This is what...

04:55:32.540 Really what I'm, like, made to do.

04:55:34.440 I'm made to have children.

04:55:36.260 And to get a tubal ligation at 18, it's much harder to reverse a tubal ligation than it is a vasectomy.

04:55:45.640 Yeah.

04:55:45.860 That's why men are more easily accessible to that. 1.00

04:55:49.480 But no, you do not need your husband, your partner, your dad, your brother to give you the consent for tubal ligation.

04:55:56.500 Yes, you will go to the doctor, and they might not do it right then and there, because they want you to really weigh the pros and cons of it.

04:56:04.320 But there's...

04:56:05.580 Related to equal rights, men don't have reproductive rights. 1.00

04:56:09.940 No, they don't.

04:56:10.640 Like, obviously, there's no scenario where a man should really have a say in either direction, right? 0.69

04:56:18.000 Like, a man shouldn't have a say, but, like, perhaps the man could... 0.61

04:56:22.740 Like, perhaps the equitable thing would be if a woman can get an abortion, a man should say, oh, well, if you want to keep the child and the man doesn't want the kid, he can relinquish his child support duties and parental rights.

04:56:37.460 It's called legal paternal surrender.

04:56:39.380 But that doesn't even exist.

04:56:40.600 So, for example, a situation where Brad knocks up Stacey at the club, and she wants to keep the kid, and he just wanted a casual sex, she can force him to pay child support for 18 years, and he didn't want to have the kid.

04:56:57.120 So, perhaps the equitable equality that could exist would be, well, in states where women do have abortion rights, men can relinquish parental responsibility, but even that doesn't exist.

04:57:13.860 So, there's not an equality that can be achieved, really.

04:57:16.920 Well, currently, there's no equality.

04:57:19.620 So, that women not having rights to... 1.00

04:57:23.220 Actually, for equality to...

04:57:26.640 This is actually a funny example.

04:57:27.940 You know how we were talking earlier about feminists won't fight for equality? 1.00

04:57:31.460 Yeah.

04:57:31.860 So, this would technically be a form of equality.

04:57:35.280 In order for women to be equal to men, since men have no reproductive rights, technically, the equality that you could achieve would be nationwide abortion ban. 0.89

04:57:48.400 Since men can't escape fatherhood, the only form of equality that you could really achieve would be to make women be incapable of escaping motherhood. 0.97

04:58:06.740 So, you'd have to have nationwide abortion ban, and that would technically be equal, that would create equality between men and women. 0.59

04:58:13.840 You're looking at me all confused, but logically, this is sound... 0.80

04:58:17.200 No, I think it's ridiculous. 0.81

04:58:18.860 Well, hold on.

04:58:19.420 I'm not...

04:58:19.800 Just to be clear, I'm not advocating right now, currently, on a position on abortion.

04:58:25.100 Yeah.

04:58:25.580 But your standard is, feminist fight for equality. 1.00

04:58:28.400 So, if men lack reproductive rights, you either need to give men reproductive rights, or for there to be equality, I know you might not like that form of equality, women... 0.96

04:58:42.400 No woman in the entire nation could get an abortion, and that's equal. 1.00

04:58:47.820 You gonna fight for that, then?

04:58:52.020 Don't...

04:58:52.340 Aren't you feminist? 1.00

04:58:53.220 Don't you want equality?

04:58:54.780 That's still literally...

04:58:56.400 But hold on, I thought, I thought feminists fight for equality. 1.00

04:59:01.480 That's not equality.

04:59:02.960 But remember when I said, feminists won't fight for equality if it comes to the detriment of women? 1.00

04:59:12.300 Women are dying because of the abortion ban.

04:59:16.740 What?

04:59:17.020 No, they're not.

04:59:17.860 What?

04:59:18.200 Look it up.

04:59:18.760 No, no, no, but what does that have to do with my point?

04:59:21.240 Yeah.

04:59:21.360 Answer my point.

04:59:22.680 Because, when you take away abortion, too, they're dying.

04:59:26.400 They're dying to do really dangerous methods to, like...

04:59:30.420 I'm not having an abortion debate with you.

04:59:32.620 I'm having an equality debate with you right now.

04:59:35.520 Stay on topic.

04:59:36.140 Why is this responding to them?

04:59:37.720 If there is a...

04:59:38.280 No, no, no, no.

04:59:38.780 Let's not get bogged down into the weeds of an abortion debate.

04:59:42.720 Okay.

04:59:42.960 We're having an equality debate.

04:59:45.580 Address my point.

04:59:46.920 You think we'd have to ban abortion nationwide for men and women to have reproductive...

04:59:55.360 Why don't you get a...

04:59:56.880 Do you know what equality means?

04:59:58.200 Equal. 0.80

04:59:59.140 Well, men can get a vasectomy because they're very easily reversible instead of women being on birth control. 0.97

05:00:07.040 So, that should be the equal.

05:00:08.360 Okay, but hold on.

05:00:09.360 Like, the equality in that.

05:00:10.520 Okay, well, women technically can sterilize themselves, but you do acknowledge that women have unplanned pregnancies.

05:00:16.520 Vasectomies are reversible, though.

05:00:17.940 Logic is evading you at this point.

05:00:20.640 Yeah, yeah.

05:00:22.060 I know that women have... 1.00

05:00:24.400 But your vasectomy...

05:00:26.160 Vasectomies are reversible, though.

05:00:27.920 What does that have to do with the point?

05:00:29.560 The equality because they can...

05:00:31.880 That's not...

05:00:32.460 No.

05:00:32.760 That's right over their body to get a vasectomy. 1.00

05:00:36.380 All men should get vasectomies so they don't get women pregnant, you know? 1.00

05:00:41.500 And all women should be on birth control. 1.00

05:00:43.360 Your point is...

05:00:44.360 Or not all, but like...

05:00:45.460 Okay, great.

05:00:46.620 Your point is completely incoherent.

05:00:48.900 No, because you said there should be a ban on abortions. 1.00

05:00:53.320 If men don't want to get women pregnant, then they should get vasectomies, and that's their right. 1.00

05:01:00.500 That's their right.

05:01:01.320 If you do acknowledge, though, if you like to use these extreme examples of ectopic pregnancy,

05:01:06.600 how about I use an extreme example? 0.99

05:01:08.700 Women rape men. 1.00

05:01:10.280 And you know, it's funny. 0.99

05:01:11.420 Some of these teachers will actually do this to their students, and then they conveniently...

05:01:16.680 Well, I shouldn't say conveniently.

05:01:18.480 The women get pregnant, and then the victim, the boy, has to pay her child support.

05:01:28.320 Are you kidding?

05:01:29.480 It happens.

05:01:29.980 It's true.

05:01:30.440 That's so true.

05:01:30.960 It happens.

05:01:32.020 You can try to contest it in the court.

05:01:35.400 The court will say, you know what?

05:01:36.920 Don't care. 0.99

05:01:38.740 Yes, she raped the boy, but she got pregnant. 1.00

05:01:43.780 She kept the kid. 0.99

05:01:44.900 He has to pay for child support.

05:01:46.320 The parents are responsible, correct?

05:01:47.840 Of course that's not right.

05:01:49.220 You said these were underage kids, no?

05:01:51.700 Well, I mean, if we're talking about a 16-year-old, by the time he turns 18, yes.

05:01:56.920 But he would be...

05:01:58.320 He would be...

05:01:59.240 So I'm using an extreme example here to paint...

05:02:01.560 Of course, that's not right.

05:02:02.540 But you do acknowledge, like, how about this?

05:02:06.020 Sometimes birth control fails.

05:02:08.320 Yes.

05:02:08.500 Sometimes vasectomies even fail.

05:02:10.300 Yeah.

05:02:10.500 I didn't know that.

05:02:11.500 Sometimes women, if I'm going to use an extreme example, can lie about their birth control status. 1.00

05:02:16.740 Yeah, yeah.

05:02:17.260 Can try to trap a guy.

05:02:18.620 Yes. 0.84

05:02:18.860 Can go into Drake's bathroom, get a condom, and try to inseminate themselves. 0.98

05:02:23.020 Yeah, right. 0.96

05:02:23.920 Ew, what?

05:02:24.340 So consent is not always...

05:02:27.020 It doesn't seem like it's always needed for fatherhood, right?

05:02:30.740 Same with motherhood. 1.00

05:02:32.420 Like, a guy can come into a woman without telling them. 0.74

05:02:35.440 Sure.

05:02:36.260 But your argument about, well, men can get vasectomies, that does nothing to...

05:02:41.640 Men can lie about getting vasectomies, too.

05:02:43.940 Just playing devil's advocate.

05:02:45.380 That does nothing to rebut or dispute my point.

05:02:51.260 You're off in the weeds here.

05:02:53.020 But I'm not.

05:02:54.480 It's the same thing with the opposite.

05:02:56.540 Like, you're telling me, like, men, you know, I don't think there's, like...

05:03:03.220 Women force men into child support every single day. 1.00

05:03:07.700 Men baby trap women every single day. 0.99

05:03:10.200 Baby trap. 0.99

05:03:11.680 Okay. 0.97

05:03:12.160 Well, I think women be a baby trapper. 1.00

05:03:14.540 This is getting away from the central point. 0.97

05:03:16.640 What if a man pokes holes in a condom without telling a girl? 0.61

05:03:19.360 Yeah, that's wrong. 0.96

05:03:20.140 That's wrong.

05:03:20.760 But she still has that right.

05:03:23.020 Literally, you're...

05:03:24.160 I can't...

05:03:24.480 What if their religious affiliations do not allow them to? 1.00

05:03:27.580 Holy fuck, bro. 1.00

05:03:28.500 Well, their religious affiliations probably are also saying they shouldn't have sex in 1.00

05:03:33.880 the first place. 1.00

05:03:34.420 This is a total fucking red herring. 0.99

05:03:36.460 This is a total red herring. 0.99

05:03:38.400 You can't actually stick to the point because you know you're wrong.

05:03:42.100 You know you're wrong.

05:03:43.160 So, you need to obfuscate and do red herrings that aren't central or material to the actual

05:03:49.400 conversation being had.

05:03:50.920 We're talking about equality.

05:03:52.560 Yeah, and I'm telling you the equal...

05:03:54.380 Yeah, the equal thing.

05:03:56.140 The equal thing.

05:03:56.300 The woman being on birth control is men getting a vasectomy. 0.99

05:03:59.220 That's not the equal thing.

05:04:00.620 No, it's not.

05:04:01.100 It's not the equal thing.

05:04:02.300 It's reversible.

05:04:02.720 First off, some women don't want to be on birth control. 1.00

05:04:05.440 They still engage in sex, and they can still get a woman regardless of her birth control 0.99

05:04:11.680 status.

05:04:12.640 You would acknowledge if a woman has had sex, and regardless of whether she's on birth 0.97

05:04:19.120 control, whether she's had her tubes tied, if she gets pregnant, you would acknowledge 0.99

05:04:23.400 that at least in the states where it's allowed, she can get an abortion? 1.00

05:04:26.980 Yeah.

05:04:27.900 Okay, so my point was men should have in a state where abortion is legal, men should

05:04:35.240 also have some sort of escape from fatherhood.

05:04:39.460 But you're saying, no, they should just get a vasectomy as a preventative measure.

05:04:43.720 Yeah. 0.99

05:04:44.280 But that's great, and you're a utopian, fucking fairy, woozy-doozy society here. 0.99

05:04:50.700 If that's your argument, that's mine back. 0.99

05:04:53.740 Just saying.

05:04:54.500 Yeah, yours is unrealistic, though.

05:04:56.620 Why?

05:04:57.960 Why is it realistic for a woman to get an IUD, but a man to not get a vasectomy? 0.86

05:05:04.820 The vasectomies are sometimes irreversible, oftentimes irreversible, especially over time.

05:05:11.080 They're also far more invasive than an IUD.

05:05:13.620 It actually requires cutting into the man.

05:05:15.740 You have to snip the vas deferens.

05:05:17.860 It's much more invasive, and there's a chance of permanent sterilization.

05:05:23.280 I suppose some of these female birth controls. 0.98

05:05:28.300 They can cause permanent damage as well.

05:05:30.960 Yes, but it's far less likely.

05:05:34.120 In any case.

05:05:35.280 That's false.

05:05:35.960 A vasectomy is a vasectomy. 0.76

05:05:37.040 Hold on, you're actually cooked.

05:05:38.860 No, birth control can cause permanent reproductive damage, especially if a woman starts it too young. 1.00

05:05:47.240 Oh, my God, dude.

05:05:49.340 Especially if a woman starts it too young. 0.99

05:05:51.580 I don't mean to be mean.

05:05:52.320 Not everybody can take birth control, but I don't think there's a zero comparison between a vasectomy and birth control.

05:05:59.960 That's crazy.

05:06:00.540 I don't know how to...

05:06:01.240 You know what?

05:06:02.700 This is what you're doing right now.

05:06:04.240 This is what you're doing.

05:06:04.960 Somebody who gets a cast, that's as invasive as brain surgery.

05:06:15.940 That's what you're doing.

05:06:18.460 But it's still like...

05:06:20.300 It's the degree of the invasiveness.

05:06:24.080 Like getting...

05:06:25.720 I'm just saying, I'm arguing back to your argument because you say that men don't have the same reproductive rights.

05:06:32.000 But if they want to prevent it, they don't.

05:06:34.340 Okay, look, look, look.

05:06:35.960 Circumcision.

05:06:36.700 Men...

05:06:37.380 That's also another...

05:06:37.720 First off, let's be realistic here.

05:06:41.860 Unwanted, unplanned pregnancies happen all the time.

05:06:45.620 This idea that we're going to get...

05:06:47.260 And also, by the way, people who are underage have sex. 0.95

05:06:50.160 Like 16, 17, 18-year-olds have sex. 0.65

05:06:53.140 I don't think it's medically indicated for a 16-year-old to get a vasectomy. 1.00

05:06:57.100 That's fucking insane. 0.99

05:06:59.840 Yeah. 1.00

05:07:00.240 In addition to that, but we do acknowledge that, like, teenagers do have sex, right? 0.97

05:07:06.500 Teenagers have sex. 0.94

05:07:07.780 Maybe we can have a separate conversation. 0.98

05:07:09.500 Maybe they shouldn't.

05:07:10.420 Whatever.

05:07:11.540 In any case, we have to acknowledge that that's the reality.

05:07:15.460 People don't practice perfect protection, whether that's condoms, whether that's women on birth control, whatever it is.

05:07:22.200 It's never 100%.

05:07:23.760 Women get pregnant. 1.00

05:07:25.780 Unwanted.

05:07:26.400 It can be unwanted on both sides.

05:07:28.100 Vasectomy is not really a prescriptive thing here.

05:07:34.680 The question is, though, in the event of an unwanted pregnancy, which is the current status quo, you're utopian.

05:07:42.220 It wouldn't even be utopian.

05:07:43.640 It would be dystopian to have every single man get a vasectomy. 0.99

05:07:47.360 That's ridiculous. 0.99

05:07:48.820 In any case, yeah, your solution is completely absurd. 0.97

05:07:52.020 Third, in the event that, let's go back down to earth.

05:07:57.380 Let's go to operate in reality. 1.00

05:07:59.160 Take your fucking rose-colored glasses off so we can talk reality here because that shit is melting your brain. 1.00

05:08:04.840 Oh, my God. 1.00

05:08:05.760 The reality.

05:08:06.380 She's like, hi, I'm back now.

05:08:07.460 Down-to-earth reality, unwanted pregnancies, unplanned pregnancies happen all the time.

05:08:14.480 Mm-hmm.

05:08:15.300 All the time.

05:08:16.200 Of course.

05:08:17.020 Right.

05:08:17.780 In this situation, men have no means of escaping fatherhood if the woman is intent on having the child. 0.98

05:08:28.040 But they don't have to be in the kid's life.

05:08:31.780 The woman can compel the state to—well, the woman can go to the state to compel the man to pay child support. 0.94

05:08:38.540 Yeah.

05:08:39.460 Okay, cool.

05:08:40.140 You've just taken away a man's bodily autonomy.

05:08:42.840 How?

05:08:43.760 It's paying money.

05:08:44.880 Because he didn't want the child.

05:08:46.260 Yeah, two ways.

05:08:46.960 So forcing—so financially crippling somebody for a period of 18 years, or, you know, maybe you won't categorize it as crippling, but you might—

05:08:55.640 It's based off of income.

05:08:57.640 Correct.

05:08:57.840 So cripple somebody. 1.00

05:08:58.860 Right, yeah.

05:08:59.800 So taking, like, 20% of somebody's income when people are already paying, like, rent is insane, cost of living is insane, that can absolutely financially cripple somebody.

05:09:10.360 But in addition to that, if you don't work or you make minimal money, the state does have a trump card where—and by the way, we've done away with debtors' prisons.

05:09:22.560 If you owe a debt to somebody, you can't be sent to prison.

05:09:26.660 There used to be, if you owed a person or company money, debtors' prisons, you could be sent to prison, right?

05:09:36.600 We've done away with it.

05:09:37.600 We've done away with it with one exception, child support.

05:09:40.840 Child support is the only debt that you can owe, financial debt that you can owe, that if you don't pay it, you can eventually, you know, get sent to prison, sent to jail.

05:09:51.740 So in sort of two ways, you would be taking—and by the way, child support, like, 97% of the time goes from men to women.

05:10:00.180 So while it is the case that some women can pay child support, we do have an example here. 0.93

05:10:04.020 I haven't worked in five years, and I still have to pay child support.

05:10:07.300 I don't have an income. 0.99

05:10:08.740 Yeah, the system's fucked. 1.00

05:10:09.520 The system's fucked. 1.00

05:10:10.240 That's fucking crazy. 1.00

05:10:11.800 But overwhelmingly, men are the ones who pay child support. 0.99

05:10:14.540 Literally.

05:10:14.860 So you can force a man to work, and if he doesn't work, you can do another attack on his bodily autonomy.

05:10:21.980 You can send him to prison.

05:10:23.540 You're depriving him of his freedom of movement that's related to bodily autonomy.

05:10:28.300 So, yeah.

05:10:31.280 It takes two to get pregnant, though, so you should take accountability to it.

05:10:35.060 Right, let's use those arguments for abortion. 1.00

05:10:36.940 You know?

05:10:37.480 Oh, don't yet, don't yet.

05:10:39.820 I mean, you're literally a Bronze Age pro.

05:10:42.760 But it takes two to get pregnant. 1.00

05:10:44.400 You realize those are-

05:10:44.680 Both have to take the accountability and the mistake.

05:10:47.680 Yeah, but why can women escape from their responsibility? 1.00

05:10:51.020 How?

05:10:52.040 They're the one having a kid.

05:10:53.380 Abortion.

05:10:54.260 Abortion.

05:10:55.080 The opposite.

05:10:55.940 The opposite side.

05:10:57.360 An abortion.

05:10:58.360 Yeah, women can escape from responsibility. 1.00

05:11:01.740 Women can escape from responsibility. 1.00

05:11:06.140 Yeah.

05:11:07.200 Men can't. 0.94

05:11:08.160 You're also allowed to go and drop your child off, like, after you have them, if you can't handle it.

05:11:14.480 Yeah, safe.

05:11:14.800 What is it, safe haven?

05:11:15.880 Yeah.

05:11:16.320 Safe order.

05:11:16.980 But men don't have that right. 0.99

05:11:19.100 If a woman wants to put him on child support and wants him to suffer and pay for the child that he didn't want but she wanted, that's not equality. 0.62

05:11:28.160 They're not the one carrying the kid.

05:11:31.000 That has nothing to do with it.

05:11:32.680 As somebody that carried a kid, and that's literally nothing to do with it.

05:11:38.440 Having sex is a risk, guys.

05:11:40.780 Yeah.

05:11:41.640 So, with that being said, you get pregnant, you know, everything comes with consequences.

05:11:47.220 It's kind of a guy's fault for coming in a woman. 1.00

05:11:50.120 You don't have to be.

05:11:51.080 Someone doesn't have to.

05:11:52.140 I don't understand this logic, though.

05:11:56.360 So, like, would you be fine if, like, the woman lied about birth control, that he can evade responsibility? 0.99

05:12:07.160 No, that's definitely fucked up. 1.00

05:12:08.860 Like, it's definitely fucked up. 0.99

05:12:10.280 Yeah, but can he evade child support? 0.99

05:12:11.640 Or should he be able to evade child support?

05:12:13.420 Yeah.

05:12:14.460 But they can't.

05:12:15.060 It's impossible.

05:12:15.820 That's the point. 0.99

05:12:16.460 No matter how malevolent and evil and scheming and whatever other term you want to use the woman is, the court doesn't give a fuck. 1.00

05:12:26.760 The woman can – the woman – you don't even have to fuck the woman. 1.00

05:12:30.580 She can be Drake's groupie who doesn't fuck him. 1.00

05:12:33.860 I don't know, whatever. 1.00

05:12:34.620 Go into the trash bin with his condom and inseminate herself. 1.00

05:12:39.940 He's on the hook for 18 years of child support. 0.99

05:12:41.700 But isn't it, once it, like, touches air, it's, like –

05:12:44.800 No, no, it doesn't lift, like, seven –

05:12:46.900 Well, the effectiveness of, like, trash can insemination, I don't know, but there's –

05:12:55.260 It's happened.

05:12:56.480 It's happened, yes. 0.99

05:12:57.660 That's, like, so fucking – 0.96

05:12:59.040 No, it was a legit thing. 0.97

05:13:00.500 When I lived in Miami, I was – a lot of those athletes were really concerned about that.

05:13:04.000 Women were literally hunting them down. 1.00

05:13:05.700 Even in the 90s, in the 90s, the NBA advocated that the players, when – after you have sex with a woman, first off, be sure to use a condom. 0.93

05:13:19.740 Make sure that you get a hold of it. 0.75

05:13:22.220 Tie a knot in the condom and flush it down the toilet. 0.93

05:13:25.860 Yeah.

05:13:26.700 They're like, or turn it in at the end of the night.

05:13:28.720 Because so many women, they were literally – the NBA had to warn the players. 1.00

05:13:34.840 Yes.

05:13:35.320 Because so many women would – the guys were like, you know, I'm – would rifle through the trash can to try to – because NBA players make good money. 1.00

05:13:45.760 Raking it in.

05:13:46.640 That's insane.

05:13:47.600 They were teaching them not to accept the condoms from – I'm so sorry, I'm being on the table.

05:13:51.260 Not to accept the condoms from the women, not to let them dispose of it, not to make sure they kept their eyes on it. 0.98

05:13:56.780 It's absolutely true.

05:13:58.280 Yeah.

05:13:58.720 I – we have chats coming through.

05:14:01.200 I apologize for the delay on these.

05:14:03.220 I was just –

05:14:04.060 Hazel's donated $200.

05:14:05.500 I'm dead.

05:14:06.260 You got me, big dog. 0.97

05:14:08.060 Fair play.

05:14:09.080 Well done, just kidding. 1.00

05:14:10.360 Shut that mouth of yours. 1.00

05:14:11.960 No shit. 1.00

05:14:12.340 Proof you're a Swifid since she has fans that fake stats trying to dethrone Mike. 1.00

05:14:17.660 Love if our bro calling a truce.

05:14:19.780 You know what?

05:14:20.580 I don't know – I apologize.

05:14:21.900 You sent this in a while ago.

05:14:23.280 I was distracted.

05:14:24.420 Wait, what?

05:14:24.740 My phone wasn't showing – I accidentally clicked off.

05:14:28.460 I don't know if he's trolling – I don't know if you're still here watching because I know you said you had to go.

05:14:34.840 Janet Jackson, better than Michael Jackson.

05:14:38.940 Oh, God.

05:14:39.340 A message from the government of Canada.

05:14:42.040 That's horrible.

05:14:44.840 Pastey George donated $200.04.

05:14:48.860 In Canada, women are considered more than men in the courts and hospitals, including when prescribed certain medications by doctors.

05:14:57.660 Men have to jump through hoops just to get what women get easily. 1.00

05:15:01.120 I hear Canada is kind of – there's a lot of – there's a lot of issues.

05:15:07.500 You know what, Pastey?

05:15:08.300 One story I heard, it was called – sort of a different topic here.

05:15:14.980 Oh, my God.

05:15:16.860 Oh, man.

05:15:17.480 What was it?

05:15:18.000 Basically, this man was never married to this woman in Canada, but he was, like, dating her or something.

05:15:26.620 He had to pay her – oh, wait.

05:15:30.260 It was called – I think called palimony.

05:15:32.640 They were never married.

05:15:34.280 Yeah, I've heard of that.

05:15:34.680 They were just boyfriend-girlfriend.

05:15:36.840 He had to pay her alimony.

05:15:39.860 Never married in Canada.

05:15:42.580 Were they together for how long?

05:15:44.000 Oh, I don't know.

05:15:45.460 A couple years or something.

05:15:47.580 But, like, if you're not married, maybe – Nick, can you Google that story?

05:15:53.220 Yeah.

05:15:53.720 Like, that's missing something.

05:15:55.500 I mean, there are women that try to sue men here all the time for that same thing. 1.00

05:15:58.640 It's the standard of living they were used to, but no marriage.

05:16:04.320 Hold on.

05:16:05.680 Hold on.

05:16:08.700 Truth Bomb donated $200.

05:16:10.860 Eptopic pregnancy is not considered an abortion, so she flat-out wrong.

05:16:16.620 Men are the ones with less rights. 0.99

05:16:19.180 We get mutilated at birth with no choice at all.

05:16:22.060 Oh, that is true.

05:16:23.020 I want to get to that topic.

05:16:23.940 I mean, that's another bodily autonomy thing, circumcision.

05:16:26.620 Absolutely.

05:16:27.800 Thank you, Truth Bomb.

05:16:28.900 Appreciate it.

05:16:31.140 I'm just going to let these come through.

05:16:33.180 I think she's using the bathroom. 0.98

05:16:36.700 Thank you, Truth Bomb.

05:16:37.700 A message from the government of Canada.

05:16:38.780 It's, like, trying to –

05:16:41.460 Oh, wow.

05:16:42.760 Oh, my gosh.

05:16:45.520 Brian, debating with Chair One is not trying to debate with a KKK.

05:16:49.560 I don't think – I don't think that's right.

05:16:53.600 He's being funny.

05:16:55.260 I think it's more –

05:16:55.900 I don't know if it's a total one-to-one comparison, but –

05:16:59.640 She has an issue with understanding the concept.

05:17:02.460 It's not –

05:17:03.960 I don't know.

05:17:05.120 I have a soft spot for –

05:17:06.220 Felicity, can I have you –

05:17:07.240 Actually, let's have Claire. 0.69

05:17:08.480 Can I have you read this one?

05:17:10.540 Yeah.

05:17:10.860 It's insane that Chair Five only pays $1,700 a monthly in child support while she made over $50,000 a month at one point, 0.69

05:17:18.480 but is looking to milk her now husband through feminist family court. 1.00

05:17:22.320 Men take note.

05:17:23.120 Oh, wow.

05:17:24.240 Wow.

05:17:24.440 That's really –

05:17:25.080 This is really funny.

05:17:26.080 Well, they dictate what you pay based on what their salary is as well.

05:17:29.700 So they take the discrepancies between the two households, and then they come up with a price.

05:17:33.720 It's not like a flat one flat rate for how much I made a month.

05:17:37.080 Does that make sense?

05:17:38.240 And I'm not trying to milk my ex, soon-to-be ex-husband for anything.

05:17:41.560 We built businesses together, and there was a lot of money invested, and I was with him for a long time.

05:17:46.980 I think I really knew your stats, though.

05:17:48.660 Oh, right.

05:17:48.900 I wonder if it was –

05:17:50.020 Hi.

05:17:50.060 You know, who was that?

05:17:51.680 Maybe my ex.

05:17:52.620 Right.

05:17:54.340 Please check merch purchases.

05:17:58.960 Hold on.

05:18:00.700 Oh, wait.

05:18:01.660 Is it this?

05:18:03.120 That was personal.

05:18:04.280 There it is.

05:18:05.440 It was.

05:18:07.360 Yo, Diego, thank you for the purchase, man.

05:18:09.120 I don't know if this is you.

05:18:11.460 Is this you, Diego?

05:18:12.640 Maybe it is.

05:18:13.400 Sorry for a delay on this.

05:18:14.440 Thank you for the merch purchase, man.

05:18:16.340 Yeah, we should probably do that.

05:18:18.920 Hold on one sec.

05:18:20.080 And then Claire, can I have you read this one?

05:18:24.060 Chair six, do you think that chair one can still be saved?

05:18:27.360 Timu, Yoko Ono, your worldview is collapsing.

05:18:31.940 Every minute that passes, just concede and say you are wrong.

05:18:35.220 Can she be saved?

05:18:36.020 Just say from back there?

05:18:40.660 You said she can be saved.

05:18:41.680 I think she can be saved.

05:18:42.620 Can she be saved?

05:18:43.240 I do.

05:18:43.520 Yeah.

05:18:44.360 Oh, okay.

05:18:45.640 All right.

05:18:45.960 All right.

05:18:47.600 Timu, Yoko Ono.

05:18:51.580 I don't know if that's you, Diego.

05:18:53.100 Thank you, man.

05:18:54.020 Am I the Timu?

05:18:55.540 No, no.

05:18:56.420 I'm the Timu, Yoko Ono.

05:18:58.300 Guys, read 100, TTS 200.

05:19:01.980 Get them in if you'd like.

05:19:02.760 Sorry for the delay on some of those recent ones, guys.

05:19:05.660 My notifications were not popping properly.

05:19:10.720 I'm trying to think here.

05:19:15.980 I want to get into some of the dating stuff, actually.

05:19:19.180 That would be fun.

05:19:19.900 That would be nice.

05:19:20.920 Right.

05:19:25.040 I'm trying to think here.

05:19:29.980 I need to get up really quick.

05:19:32.920 Felicity, a what?

05:19:34.720 A story?

05:19:35.080 Oh, my God. 1.00

05:19:38.620 What the fuck? 1.00

05:19:42.600 Felicity, why don't we... 1.00

05:19:45.160 Hold on.

05:19:54.020 Why don't you run one through five?

05:20:05.080 Okay.

05:20:07.060 Do you guys think men should pay on first dates?

05:20:09.240 It says men should pay on first dates, and you agree. 1.00

05:20:12.920 You agree.

05:20:16.360 Just ask them the question.

05:20:17.620 Do you?

05:20:18.080 Just ask them the question.

05:20:19.100 One by one.

05:20:20.360 Yes.

05:20:20.680 Do you think...

05:20:21.180 Yes.

05:20:22.660 Yes.

05:20:23.220 Yes.

05:20:24.000 Yes.

05:20:25.340 Yeah.

05:20:27.220 Why?

05:20:27.820 Why should men pay on first dates? 0.97

05:20:31.040 I think it shows initiative.

05:20:32.760 I agree, especially if most men are, like, the ones initiating things, then I would say

05:20:38.940 yes.

05:20:40.960 Okay.

05:20:42.380 I don't know.

05:20:43.580 I got roasted on this earlier, so.

05:20:47.840 Chivalry.

05:20:49.280 In some small way, look at it as it's an investment.

05:20:52.180 They're showing that they're willing to invest in the time with you.

05:20:54.680 It's kind of like an engagement ring.

05:20:56.140 If he's not willing to pay for your dinner, he's not really that interested in you.

05:21:00.620 So, yes.

05:21:02.160 Okay.

05:21:03.760 And you?

05:21:05.160 I do agree with that, too.

05:21:06.980 If he is really not willing to pay for, like, dinner, at least on their first date, I think.

05:21:16.640 Yeah.

05:21:17.400 He's not really into you.

05:21:18.620 Okay.

05:21:19.380 I think the initiative thing is a good way to describe it.

05:21:23.820 So, like, if a guy, if you were out on a date with a guy and he was, like, two checks, would there be another date?

05:21:29.900 There wouldn't be two checks, either.

05:21:33.400 Well, if he's, like, let's split.

05:21:35.240 No, thank you.

05:21:36.500 Would there be another date?

05:21:37.700 You'd just say no.

05:21:39.400 It kind of depends on their financial, like, state.

05:21:44.120 So, you would go on another date, depending on the situation?

05:21:47.500 Yeah, yeah.

05:21:48.380 Like, I could have understanding if they were, like, super broke and tried their best, you know?

05:21:54.480 Yeah.

05:21:55.280 What do you think?

05:21:56.340 I'm not opposed to splitting.

05:21:58.120 It's just, like, it would just throw me off a little bit.

05:22:01.720 But you would go on another date?

05:22:03.480 If I really liked him, then yeah.

05:22:05.140 Okay.

05:22:05.520 Yeah, same.

05:22:06.020 Depends how the date goes.

05:22:07.480 If he was really cool, I'm sure.

05:22:08.980 I have snuck and paid for many a meals, but not on a first date.

05:22:12.640 So, no.

05:22:13.180 Absolutely no second date for that.

05:22:15.960 For me, that kind of signals, like, you want to be more just friends.

05:22:19.820 Like, that's a friends kind of vibe than wanting to date.

05:22:24.960 So, like, for me, that's why.

05:22:29.000 I wouldn't be opposed to, like, Spling 50-50, but that would not be considered a first date for me. 0.98

05:22:35.120 Okay.

05:22:36.500 No.

05:22:38.020 I mean, honestly, if I enjoyed the date and I enjoyed the conversation, even if he was like,

05:22:44.800 Oh, I'm sorry, I can't get it this time, I personally don't mind paying for it and going on a second date.

05:22:51.900 Okay.

05:22:52.480 The next statement is men should provide and protect.

05:22:57.300 I think, yeah.

05:22:58.980 I think so, too.

05:23:00.480 Yes.

05:23:01.200 Yes.

05:23:02.100 Yes.

05:23:03.200 Yes.

05:23:04.520 Yes.

05:23:05.840 Who wouldn't bow?

05:23:07.880 Who wouldn't bow? 0.99

05:23:10.620 That's not how I fucking would. 0.99

05:23:12.080 Men should be chivalrous. 0.99

05:23:16.460 Yeah.

05:23:18.080 Yeah.

05:23:19.140 Sure.

05:23:20.020 Yes.

05:23:20.740 Yes.

05:23:21.380 Yes.

05:23:22.220 Yes.

05:23:23.120 What do you guys think women do? 1.00

05:23:25.480 Like, if men are chivalrous and they have to provide and protect, like, what do we do?

05:23:31.260 Should be reciprocated.

05:23:33.180 You think we should be chivalrous, too?

05:23:34.540 Like, I mean, like, be polite and, like, respectful and kind and giving as well, you know?

05:23:45.200 Yeah, I agree.

05:23:46.040 I think that, like, chivalry can also just mean, like, respect and, like, showing that you care.

05:23:50.180 And so that can go the same way for women, but just, like, in other ways, other than, like, opening the door and, like, doing those kinds of things. 1.00

05:23:56.860 Bow.

05:23:57.500 No.

05:23:57.820 So I was like, you guys all think men should be chivalrous and they should provide and protect, but what should women do?

05:24:11.280 Well, I mean, I do all sorts of things for my husband.

05:24:14.240 Like, I clean the house, do the dishes, make dinner every single night.

05:24:19.160 Like, I also am home with the kids every single day, taking care of the kids, so.

05:24:25.220 I think you submit, you support, you provide a stable home life for them so they can go out and conquer the world.

05:24:35.580 Yeah, I think we should kind of just, I feel like, kind of agree with what everyone else kind of said.

05:24:43.100 Okay.

05:24:43.360 Everything that was said, but, you know, provide peace and not chaos.

05:24:49.880 Right.

05:24:50.240 Okay.

05:24:51.520 I think the respect thing is a really big thing.

05:24:53.880 Like, if, for instance, if my boyfriend told me, you know, I told him I was coming on the podcast and he was against it and he didn't want me to do it, I wouldn't have done it.

05:25:03.320 And that's something that I bring to the table with him is I understand that he is a provider and a protector and a great man.

05:25:11.280 And, honestly, at the end of the day, he would be the head of the household and what the head of the household says is what should go.

05:25:20.080 Okay.

05:25:22.180 Will you take your husband's last name when you get married?

05:25:27.440 Hell no.

05:25:28.320 Oh, wait. 1.00

05:25:28.880 Fuck yeah. 1.00

05:25:29.580 I don't like my last name, though. 1.00

05:25:31.300 Sorry.

05:25:32.480 I almost did the wrong.

05:25:33.780 I have a horrid last name.

05:25:36.480 Okay.

05:25:36.680 Well, now you have to tell us.

05:25:37.980 Come on.

05:25:38.500 She wants to do it on the internet.

05:25:39.480 Don't do it on the internet.

05:25:40.000 Maybe if you don't.

05:25:41.660 Is your last name on your socials?

05:25:44.000 I, no, no, no, I'm very anonymous.

05:25:48.200 But I will tell you guys after.

05:25:51.340 Okay.

05:25:52.680 You will all laugh.

05:25:54.560 I like my last name, so probably, yeah, if he has, like, a really bad last name, I'm not going to want to change it.

05:25:59.520 But I'm not opposed to, like, you know, either way.

05:26:02.820 It just depends if I like his name better.

05:26:05.420 But you think men should be chivalrous and provide and protect and basically be masculine?

05:26:10.460 Right?

05:26:10.960 Like traditional.

05:26:12.660 But you're not going to give your last name?

05:26:13.940 That's not traditional to not take his last name.

05:26:17.320 Oh, well, I don't know.

05:26:17.920 Would you hyphenate?

05:26:19.680 Maybe, yeah.

05:26:20.440 It just depends.

05:26:21.280 But you want him to be traditional, basically.

05:26:26.860 But you're not willing to be traditional to him.

05:26:31.140 Well, I think it's different.

05:26:32.680 I think just being, like, chivalrous and, like, showing respect is different than, like, you know, giving up your last name.

05:26:38.360 It just depends if his last name sounds better or not. 0.95

05:26:42.200 But that could be offensive to him if he's like, damn, my wife won't take my last name because she thinks it's ugly. 0.95

05:26:49.360 I mean, how can you respect a man to be traditional if you're not willing to be traditional? 0.98

05:26:58.400 I'm not saying that he has to be, like, traditional in that sense and that I will also, like, conform to my role as a traditional wife.

05:27:05.840 I just think that, like, for the last name thing, like, I kind of like my last name.

05:27:11.520 So, okay.

05:27:14.200 Wait, what was the, you love your last name?

05:27:17.100 I like my last name, yeah.

05:27:18.340 Wait, question.

05:27:19.160 I don't know how you responded to this, but should men pay for first dates?

05:27:22.680 She said yes.

05:27:23.660 Yes on all.

05:27:24.560 Well, I love my wallet.

05:27:26.100 I love my money.

05:27:27.540 Why should I give it to you?

05:27:28.880 Or, well, why should I spend it on you?

05:27:34.240 Why should, I don't know.

05:27:36.620 Oh, I don't know.

05:27:39.680 Okay.

05:27:41.720 But you say you like your last name.

05:27:44.440 Why should you give it up?

05:27:45.860 I like my money.

05:27:47.740 Why should I give it up?

05:27:50.700 You want guys to pay for first dates.

05:27:52.340 You want a guy to be a provider, right?

05:27:55.260 I didn't know that, like, not taking the name has that much, like, of a connotation.

05:27:59.900 Like, a.

05:28:00.500 It's just traditional.

05:28:01.660 What's traditional?

05:28:02.400 It's traditional to take the last name of your husband.

05:28:05.840 I didn't know that it was that, like, big of a deal.

05:28:10.160 Wait, what's your last, do you have a hyphenated last name?

05:28:12.400 No.

05:28:12.500 You don't have to tell us your last name, but.

05:28:13.800 No.

05:28:14.080 Do you have your father's last name or your mother's last name?

05:28:21.040 They both have the same last name.

05:28:23.540 Oh, how can you say that?

05:28:25.140 Okay.

05:28:25.820 All right.

05:28:26.180 Before marriage?

05:28:27.480 Loophole.

05:28:28.340 Loophole.

05:28:29.600 That's interesting.

05:28:31.080 Are you Korean?

05:28:32.160 Yeah.

05:28:32.420 Okay.

05:28:33.820 Yeah.

05:28:34.800 What is that?

05:28:35.580 Kim?

05:28:36.140 Is it?

05:28:36.620 Yeah.

05:28:36.960 Okay.

05:28:37.460 Oh.

05:28:38.120 You're kidding.

05:28:38.840 Really?

05:28:39.520 Oh, my God.

05:28:41.380 Yeah.

05:28:42.080 Okay.

05:28:42.960 Okay.

05:28:43.520 I guess that's all.

05:28:44.160 Hold on.

05:28:44.540 We have this.

05:28:45.380 A message from the government of Canada.

05:28:47.360 Thank goodness.

05:28:47.900 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

05:28:53.880 I don't know about palimony, but there are spousal support cases in Canada where women 1.00

05:28:58.940 take their spouses to court for financial assistance and or compensation.

05:29:03.580 However, it varies for common law cases.

05:29:08.060 Common law is what, 10 years or more, or is it more than?

05:29:11.180 I don't even think we have common law.

05:29:12.480 I'll try to find it.

05:29:14.020 Not everybody recognizes common law.

05:29:15.260 Do we have that in California?

05:29:16.380 I think that-

05:29:17.420 Not in California, but some states, there's common law marriage.

05:29:20.480 Pennsylvania does.

05:29:21.280 Yeah.

05:29:21.900 In Pennsylvania, it's like eight years, I believe.

05:29:24.920 Seven to eight.

05:29:25.880 Seven to eight.

05:29:28.580 Yeah.

05:29:29.440 Careful, guys.

05:29:30.200 In some states, if you live with her long enough or you hold yourself out as if you were,

05:29:36.460 I don't know, you live with her, cohabitate, she can come after- 0.97

05:29:39.700 Even if you're not married, she can come after you for child support.

05:29:44.460 Just saying.

05:29:45.320 Fousal support.

05:29:46.380 I'm just saying.

05:29:47.340 Or wait, what did I say?

05:29:48.120 It's like use of child support.

05:29:49.420 Oh, sorry.

05:29:49.720 Yeah.

05:29:50.840 Misspoke.

05:29:53.800 Nick, you had an article?

05:29:55.840 Yeah.

05:29:56.160 It was sort of a common law.

05:30:03.280 I'm also going to send you a link.

05:30:05.240 Felicity, can you read the title?

05:30:07.160 Yeah, but they're common law.

05:30:07.920 Unmarried. 0.52

05:30:08.800 They're common law.

05:30:10.740 Go ahead.

05:30:11.520 Go ahead.

05:30:11.880 Unmarried Ontario couple had no children and no house, but man must still pay support appeal court rules.

05:30:20.340 Okay.

05:30:21.340 Yeah.

05:30:21.940 But they're common law, so.

05:30:22.880 I sent another one, Nick.

05:30:30.560 Pull that up super quick, please.

05:30:31.700 Ten years.

05:30:33.740 Thank you, Pasty George.

05:30:35.260 Appreciate it.

05:30:36.500 Thank you, guys.

05:30:38.440 Guys, read is 100.

05:30:39.580 TTS is 200.

05:30:41.340 Court awards spousal support in case of unmarried partners who lived in separate homes.

05:30:46.040 Make it bigger, please.

05:30:48.800 Bigger.

05:30:49.700 Scroll down.

05:30:57.460 Lasting 14 years, they lived in separate residences in Toronto.

05:31:02.180 Stayed together when they traveled.

05:31:04.520 They did not merge their finances or jointly own property, but they presented as a couple in public.

05:31:11.280 The man was wealthy.

05:31:13.480 She stopped working.

05:31:14.820 That's why.

05:31:16.060 Eh.

05:31:16.820 From the beginning of, as soon as she entered in the relationship, she didn't work. 0.99

05:31:19.960 So she was dependent upon him for 14 years.

05:31:22.720 So I can see how this is a.

05:31:24.320 But I see that as a bit of a windfall.

05:31:28.320 She didn't have to work for 14 years.

05:31:32.120 You know?

05:31:33.160 Like.

05:31:33.660 But she has no skills now.

05:31:35.000 How is she going to, I mean, how is she going to then go forward after 14 years?

05:31:39.100 She already had a kid, though.

05:31:41.200 She already, like, with a different man, I think.

05:31:43.180 I don't know.

05:31:45.740 If a man, like, I don't think it's nothing that a man fully provides. 0.79

05:31:51.560 Like, you don't have to work.

05:31:53.340 Live rent free.

05:31:54.900 But you don't think you should help her?

05:31:56.080 If you, if the relationship ends and you've supported her for 14 years, you don't think she needs a little, like, little oomph to get back into the real world?

05:32:02.780 If I'm feeling nice, you know.

05:32:05.000 But if, I don't know, if I'm not married to her.

05:32:08.540 But, but selfish.

05:32:10.660 Like, if I still was working, making a huge earning, like they, like I did prior to marriage, I wouldn't be asking for support right now.

05:32:17.000 I would be better off.

05:32:19.200 Financially.

05:32:19.980 What was that?

05:32:20.640 Like, if I was not supporting a woman financially, I would be better off financially. 1.00

05:32:26.520 Maybe she should pay me.

05:32:28.020 Even if I'm the wealthy one.

05:32:29.480 Oh, my God. 1.00

05:32:30.000 You're crazy. 1.00

05:32:32.620 She has no skills. 1.00

05:32:33.680 Just throwing that out.

05:32:34.600 Can you put those?

05:32:35.240 Oh, please.

05:32:35.700 No skills.

05:32:36.980 Yeah, put the rose-colored glasses on.

05:32:39.280 That answer was, yes.

05:32:40.680 That answer deserves those glasses. 1.00

05:32:41.900 Put them on, Brian.

05:32:42.500 One at a time.

05:32:43.200 One at a time.

05:32:43.760 One at a time.

05:32:44.300 I think you look cool.

05:32:45.200 Okay, let me put it to you this way.

05:32:47.040 So.

05:32:47.180 She didn't work. 0.99

05:32:48.760 14 years of no income.

05:32:50.260 I feel like the scenario, sure.

05:32:52.880 Okay, she didn't go to college, and she got pregnant at 18, and she didn't gain life

05:32:59.640 skills.

05:33:00.100 I don't think any of that matters.

05:33:00.400 Not even that.

05:33:00.900 Okay, what about if I date a hairdresser, and she has zero ambitions of ever doing anything 0.96

05:33:09.100 more than cutting people's hair?

05:33:11.900 Ew.

05:33:12.400 And then, yeah, I know.

05:33:14.080 No, wait. 0.81

05:33:14.520 Gross.

05:33:15.220 Why are you using that example? 0.79

05:33:17.960 This woman didn't work for 14 years. 1.00

05:33:19.560 Because in my thought process here, is if you cut hair, you have the skill set, and then

05:33:30.740 when you get out of the relationship, you can just go back to what you were doing.

05:33:35.380 You have to build clientele.

05:33:36.180 It doesn't work that way.

05:33:37.200 You can't just get, it doesn't work that way.

05:33:39.600 And Ian wants her to be homeless.

05:33:41.180 I think.

05:33:41.940 Literally.

05:33:43.160 But you know him well.

05:33:44.180 No, I'm just saying, like.

05:33:46.860 It's kind of like, it's decent, human decency.

05:33:51.800 You take care of someone for so long.

05:33:53.500 Thank you.

05:33:53.960 And you don't have to pay them for the extent that you were together.

05:33:57.040 They have a smaller range of time that you need to assist them and maintain that lifestyle

05:34:01.620 so they can get back on their feet.

05:34:03.800 Yeah.

05:34:03.980 That's really what it is.

05:34:05.220 I think it's like when parents kick out their kids at 18, too.

05:34:07.240 It's kind of like.

05:34:07.800 Yeah.

05:34:08.060 I only get support for a year and a half.

05:34:12.160 Huh?

05:34:12.480 50K months.

05:34:13.320 I don't know.

05:34:13.700 That depends on how much he was making.

05:34:15.840 It really is.

05:34:16.460 There is a calculator.

05:34:17.520 She needs subsistence. 1.00

05:34:18.240 I'm not saying she deserves it.

05:34:19.740 She gets bare minimum. 1.00

05:34:22.520 Why am I going to.

05:34:23.580 I'm wealthy. 1.00

05:34:24.640 And I dated a fucking Chick-fil-A worker. 1.00

05:34:27.880 Now all of a sudden. 0.99

05:34:29.660 And she was never like just on her own.

05:34:31.960 She would have never amounted to ever earning $50,000 a month. 0.99

05:34:36.880 Now I got to pay this chick $50,000 because we used to fuck. 1.00

05:34:43.660 That's crazy. 1.00

05:34:45.240 That's crazy.

05:34:47.060 Like what about my needs? 1.00

05:34:48.700 I'm used to getting pussy. 1.00

05:34:50.660 Do I still get alimony pussy? 1.00

05:34:52.220 Do I still get pussy? 1.00

05:34:53.620 Do I get court ordered pussy? 1.00

05:34:55.660 Alimony pussy. 1.00

05:34:56.840 Do I get some court ordered pussy? 1.00

05:34:57.560 Can that be a shirt, please? 1.00

05:34:58.920 That needs to be a shirt.

05:35:01.660 Look, I'm just saying.

05:35:03.660 Like why.

05:35:04.580 After 14 years with someone, you're not going to feel bad sending them back to Chick-fil-A?

05:35:10.420 Well, it depends, right? 1.00

05:35:10.700 They probably still do fuck. 1.00

05:35:12.220 It depends. 1.00

05:35:13.180 If she cheated on me, she can get fucked. 1.00

05:35:15.480 Okay. 1.00

05:35:15.920 If she cheated on me, she can get fucked. 1.00

05:35:17.180 Yeah. 1.00

05:35:17.580 Okay.

05:35:17.860 That's fine.

05:35:19.260 Which should be online. 1.00

05:35:20.140 If she's being a fucking pain in the ass, probably can still get fucked. 1.00

05:35:23.320 But if it's like. 1.00

05:35:24.040 What if it's your. 1.00

05:35:25.100 What if it's you being the pain in the ass? 1.00

05:35:27.620 I'm perfect. 1.00

05:35:28.780 Oh, wow.

05:35:30.020 No, but look, if it's like mostly amicable, like if it's mostly amicable and she's genuinely

05:35:36.280 like financially, I think, sure, there's a fair argument that you can support her, right?

05:35:41.360 For a period.

05:35:42.440 Not like.

05:35:43.180 Yes.

05:35:43.600 For a period.

05:35:44.020 For a period.

05:35:44.680 For two 22 year olds.

05:35:45.500 But the current like status quo, like, look, I think people can, I don't know, a couple

05:35:54.340 months.

05:35:54.860 She gets a couple months, six months, six months, you can get a job. 1.00

05:35:58.900 You're good.

05:35:59.600 Okay.

05:35:59.840 You cheated.

05:36:01.400 I agree.

05:36:02.020 Six months.

05:36:02.480 If you'd 14 years of this woman, she loved you, relied on you.

05:36:06.180 She was all in.

05:36:07.180 And you're like, you know what?

05:36:08.380 I'm done. 1.00

05:36:09.320 I would like this young piece of ass over here. 1.00

05:36:12.480 Adios. 1.00

05:36:13.080 Farewell.

05:36:13.580 Ta-ta.

05:36:15.500 Are you going to give her some support?

05:36:18.380 Uh, I might like get her some Chili's coupons or something. 0.98

05:36:22.200 I'll, uh, get her some coupons.

05:36:24.320 These things are mysterious.

05:36:25.580 Starbucks coupon.

05:36:26.800 Okay.

05:36:27.300 Uh, here's, you know. 0.99

05:36:28.920 No alimony pussy. 1.00

05:36:32.740 Okay. 1.00

05:36:33.280 Got it.

05:36:33.580 Look, I mean, these are crazy hypotheticals we're throwing out here.

05:36:37.620 That's what you do here.

05:36:38.460 Yeah, you do it.

05:36:39.780 This whole episode, you've been doing it.

05:36:42.400 Uh, look, I mean, look, people break up all the time.

05:36:46.560 If I'm not, look, if I'm not married to her, if I'm not married to her, uh, if I was supporting 0.99

05:36:53.700 you for 14 years and I dropped your ass tomorrow and you were used to me making a million dollars 0.99

05:36:58.740 a year. 0.99

05:36:59.420 I would be like, he's like, I would start the whatever podcast.

05:37:02.180 Like my, my perspective, uh, maybe this is like just the male perspective. 0.99

05:37:09.120 I'm like, oh my God, that was so fucking dope. 0.95

05:37:12.060 I didn't have to work for 15 years. 0.99

05:37:14.040 Yeah.

05:37:14.420 Yes.

05:37:15.000 Yeah.

05:37:15.540 Good.

05:37:16.040 I got everything for free.

05:37:19.160 Now you're homeless. 1.00

05:37:19.840 And I just had to give her some dick. 1.00

05:37:21.200 Yeah. 1.00

05:37:21.400 But yes.

05:37:21.780 Okay.

05:37:22.060 But now you have no home.

05:37:23.480 When you have nothing now you get nothing.

05:37:25.720 People lose their jobs.

05:37:26.820 People lose their jobs.

05:37:27.680 Yeah, but they find a way she, I would, I would find a path.

05:37:31.820 I would find a path.

05:37:33.740 I am finding a path.

05:37:35.660 I'm just, again, from my own experience, I'm in the process of finding a path, but like

05:37:39.660 I also contributed to the path that we built.

05:37:42.400 So now like, wait, how old were you, uh, or how old were you guys when you got married?

05:37:46.460 We were only married for three years, but he made all his money after he met me.

05:37:51.140 I'm just trying to give you an example.

05:37:52.720 No, he did.

05:37:53.960 I can.

05:37:54.560 Let's not act though.

05:37:55.780 There's no acting.

05:37:56.400 You were like 18 and naive and like, I could have gone to college if it wasn't for you. 0.89

05:38:03.360 I could have been a corporate slave. 0.94

05:38:06.500 Come on.

05:38:07.460 Come on.

05:38:08.140 You'll get back on your feet.

05:38:09.380 Oh, I know.

05:38:09.740 I will.

05:38:10.420 Again, there's lots of different examples we can set.

05:38:13.000 But look, you were married and the laws will protect you.

05:38:17.720 Not necessarily.

05:38:18.940 Believe me.

05:38:19.680 Not necessarily.

05:38:20.740 You know how much it costs for me to even get proven that I get, believe me, it does not

05:38:25.080 protect you.

05:38:25.640 I could still walk away with nothing after spending $50,000 to $100,000 in court fees.

05:38:30.540 Believe me. 1.00

05:38:31.060 Fuck God. 1.00

05:38:31.220 Doesn't he have to pay for your lawyer? 1.00

05:38:33.280 Not always.

05:38:34.300 If he can hide them, believe me.

05:38:36.220 Okay.

05:38:36.580 Well, it is a fun story for another day.

05:38:38.780 Sure.

05:38:38.900 Sure.

05:38:39.680 I want to hear.

05:38:40.560 Well, what if you don't have that much, though?

05:38:58.460 Well, all right.

05:38:59.920 Felicity, I'm going to have you read this next one.

05:39:01.540 Pasty George, thank you very much.

05:39:02.940 Appreciate it, man.

05:39:06.640 Thank you, Pasty.

05:39:07.380 We have this next one coming up.

05:39:08.780 What was the other thing we had to do?

05:39:13.000 AI.

05:39:14.000 Yeah.

05:39:14.420 We'll do that super quick.

05:39:15.840 Does Pasty take out like a payday loan before every episode?

05:39:18.500 This is insane.

05:39:19.240 It was a friend at uni whose girlfriend often stayed at his student share house because it

05:39:25.340 was, sorry, I'm having a hard time reading the white font.

05:39:27.940 It was closer to uni after they both graduated, claimed.

05:39:32.360 Hold on.

05:39:33.040 I'll pull it back up.

05:39:35.280 One sec.

05:39:36.320 Rational.

05:39:36.880 Thank you, man.

05:39:38.980 A de facto settlement and got half of his inheritance. 1.00

05:39:43.420 That's fucked. 1.00

05:39:44.860 That's fucked up. 1.00

05:39:46.200 Really? 0.99

05:39:47.300 Inheritance?

05:39:47.740 I thought Inheritance wasn't something that you can actually get a dib on.

05:39:52.020 Wasn't that famous streamer, XQC, didn't his girlfriend try to get him for this?

05:39:57.700 They weren't married or something, and she tried to get some of his money.

05:40:03.020 Chat, are you guys more familiar with the case?

05:40:06.100 But basically, not married.

05:40:07.360 They were just dating, living together, and she tried to go after him for money. 0.66

05:40:13.700 I don't know the details on it, though.

05:40:15.480 In California, you can't go after Inheritance.

05:40:17.740 Apparently, she's suing him.

05:40:19.840 Jesus.

05:40:21.620 Yeah.

05:40:22.160 Are you claiming common law marriage?

05:40:24.120 Oh, she's claiming common law.

05:40:25.740 But it got dismissed.

05:40:26.500 Yeah, it got dismissed.

05:40:27.760 But apparently, she's reopened the case or something, or she's tried to sue him a couple times.

05:40:32.960 Yeah.

05:40:33.320 WXQC.

05:40:35.240 We should get this guy on the podcast, by the way.

05:40:37.240 Imagine that.

05:40:38.200 Imagine him on the podcast.

05:40:39.580 That'd be fun.

05:40:40.300 I'd love to actually, even not on the dating talk, just interview him.

05:40:43.640 Anybody in the chat know that guy?

05:40:45.280 XQC?

05:40:46.060 I just want to interview him about the whole lawsuit or whatever.

05:40:50.040 I don't know if he even would talk about it.

05:40:51.700 But okay, let's get into some of the notes here. 0.99

05:40:54.500 We've talked about some crazy shit. 1.00

05:40:57.200 Crazy shit. 1.00

05:41:01.840 Let's see here. 1.00

05:41:04.500 Going to you.

05:41:05.600 Oh, go ahead.

05:41:06.140 You said your first...

05:41:07.360 Actually, no, I'll come back to your notes, because I've already given you a lot of attention.

05:41:13.860 Let's do Claire. 0.98

05:41:15.340 Claire.

05:41:17.000 Let's see.

05:41:17.600 One sec.

05:41:19.340 You said you really...

05:41:20.860 Excuse me.

05:41:22.100 Haven't really officially dated that many guys.

05:41:25.360 You've just been caught up in a lot of situationships.

05:41:28.640 Not a lot.

05:41:29.320 Just like...

05:41:29.620 Well, you wrote a lot.

05:41:30.480 Yeah.

05:41:31.240 What's a lot?

05:41:32.020 How many situationships have you been caught up in?

05:41:34.120 Well, more than dating.

05:41:35.500 So maybe like three situationships and then two actual official relationships.

05:41:40.120 You said you're an avid, avid hinge user until you got permanently banned.

05:41:45.440 Yeah.

05:41:45.960 What? 1.00

05:41:47.320 It was like such a stupid reason. 0.99

05:41:49.900 It was because I like... 0.99

05:41:51.080 I had...

05:41:51.560 I deleted my account and then I made a new one and I just put my name as like...

05:41:55.180 I think it was like Gorlock the Destroyer, which is funny because she was on me.

05:41:58.440 That's us.

05:41:59.140 Yeah, that's us.

05:42:00.960 And then I just like put some random pictures and then like me and my friends are just like

05:42:05.080 trolling people and then...

05:42:06.980 Oh, that's not nice.

05:42:08.420 Yeah.

05:42:08.780 Yeah, that'll get you banned.

05:42:11.240 You said that you loved...

05:42:14.100 Wait one sec.

05:42:14.820 Let me let this come through from Pastey.

05:42:16.500 A message from the government of Canada.

05:42:20.760 Pastey George donated $200.04.

05:42:24.680 I also forgot to mention that there are more support programs and funding for women than 0.98

05:42:29.960 men in Canada.

05:42:31.200 There are hardly any support programs and funding for single fathers.

05:42:35.180 Yeah, I mean, you see that in a whole bunch of different ways, you know, like DV shelters,

05:42:40.560 just all kinds of different varying differentials when it comes to support.

05:42:45.700 Also, Pastey George, you now need to run for prime minister because of the little noise

05:42:50.180 ding thing.

05:42:52.280 Government.

05:42:52.880 You're going to...

05:42:53.320 You're the new PM, I guess.

05:42:54.420 You love to use Hinge as a tool.

05:42:59.200 What does that mean?

05:43:00.480 Yeah, well, just if I needed like a question, like about like maybe like, I don't know, something

05:43:06.000 that...

05:43:06.460 Like help with homework or something?

05:43:08.500 Yeah, like homework or like...

05:43:09.880 You'd match with a guy and be like, I'll go on a date with you if you do my homework.

05:43:14.040 No, no, just like, I wouldn't even say like, yeah, like we'll go on a date.

05:43:17.340 It's just like, oh, I need help with this.

05:43:19.260 Or like, do you know like about cars?

05:43:21.360 Because I'm not changing a light bulb or something.

05:43:23.200 Wait, wait, wait.

05:43:24.000 Yeah.

05:43:24.580 Wait, so question.

05:43:26.680 So what were some of the things that like you actually had them do though?

05:43:30.180 So did a guy actually come and help you with your car?

05:43:32.600 No, no.

05:43:33.020 Just like researching about like what kind of car I wanted or like if it was worth their

05:43:36.860 like what models were like the best because like, I don't know, I just figured guys know

05:43:41.160 more about...

05:43:41.540 Cars do like to talk about cars.

05:43:42.360 Yeah, exactly.

05:43:43.240 But why hinge specifically?

05:43:44.760 Like I feel like Instagram or any other social media.

05:43:47.960 Yeah.

05:43:48.060 Because they're more like available.

05:43:49.380 They're like, they want to talk to...

05:43:50.820 Because if I just DMed random guys, like I feel like they wouldn't get back to me in

05:43:54.440 time.

05:43:55.060 Okay.

05:43:55.960 Yeah.

05:43:56.540 Or like, I was in New York with my friends and then we were just kind of like, we were

05:44:01.840 like, oh, like who wants to come hang up with us?

05:44:04.120 And so we got this guy to like buy us like karaoke and like Ubers like to the hotel and

05:44:08.840 stuff.

05:44:09.320 So...

05:44:09.440 Oh, any other examples like that where like you did maybe meet up with a guy and you got

05:44:16.600 him to do things?

05:44:18.340 Other than that, no.

05:44:19.820 Just like help and like research.

05:44:21.640 Was the guy cool or weird?

05:44:23.680 He didn't really speak good English, so he kind of just sat in like the background.

05:44:27.280 You took advantage of an illegal immigrant? 0.74

05:44:28.840 No, he was Korean actually.

05:44:30.560 Why does he have to be illegal?

05:44:31.320 You took advantage of an illegal immigrant? 0.74

05:44:32.640 No, he wasn't illegal.

05:44:34.400 He went to...

05:44:35.080 He's just bad at speaking English.

05:44:38.040 Do you speak Korean?

05:44:39.540 Not that well.

05:44:40.980 Oh, okay.

05:44:42.320 So you spoke Korean and bad English? 1.00

05:44:46.960 Um, yeah.

05:44:49.920 What?

05:44:51.320 Not that that matters, but it's just like he wasn't like...

05:44:54.320 He wasn't the life of the party per se.

05:44:56.340 Like he just kind of hung out in the background.

05:44:57.200 Were either of you interested in him?

05:44:59.660 Either of me or my friends?

05:45:00.920 You said you were with a girlfriend?

05:45:02.460 I was with one of my girlfriends, but she's in a long-term relationship with her boyfriend

05:45:05.640 who was there too, and then their friend.

05:45:07.920 Wait, so this poor New York, Korea man, he Ubered around you, your girlfriend, and her 1.00

05:45:18.160 boyfriend?

05:45:18.500 Her boyfriend and their other guy friend, yeah.

05:45:20.520 So two girls and two guys?

05:45:22.020 Yeah.

05:45:22.180 So he shows up and there's two girls and two guys.

05:45:26.180 Yeah.

05:45:26.400 Did he know that there were going to be two guys?

05:45:29.060 Yeah.

05:45:29.420 I was just like, oh, like me and my friends.

05:45:31.680 Did you...

05:45:32.360 Like he didn't question it.

05:45:33.260 But did you explicitly say that?

05:45:35.060 No, I wasn't like me and my two male friends and then one female friend.

05:45:38.440 I was just like, oh, me and my kids are out right now.

05:45:40.220 Like, first off, I would never fall for this trap, but if I showed up and I'm like, oh,

05:45:47.020 no, I'm on a date with two girls and their boyfriend.

05:45:54.760 Well, I said, like, I didn't say it's like a date, like one-on-one with him.

05:45:59.460 Well, it's kind of implied if you meet on a dating app.

05:46:02.820 Well, I think he had a good time anyway.

05:46:04.580 Like, it's not called friend app.

05:46:06.860 It's called dating app, you know?

05:46:08.680 Did either of you...

05:46:10.540 Well, I guess you were the only single one.

05:46:13.000 Did you, like, hook up with him or...

05:46:15.080 No.

05:46:15.800 Were you even into him?

05:46:17.520 No.

05:46:18.560 Wait, before you made him come out, were you into him?

05:46:23.740 No.

05:46:24.180 He's just the first one to reply.

05:46:27.580 So, was he into you?

05:46:30.900 I would assume if he did all that, then yeah.

05:46:34.380 Did he try to make a move?

05:46:36.240 I think he was like, oh, like, you owe me something at, like, the end of the day, but I never ended up...

05:46:40.360 Okay, well, that's weird.

05:46:40.820 That's weird.

05:46:41.660 Yeah, so, but he said that before.

05:46:43.160 Don't do that, man.

05:46:44.220 I'm not, I'm not, I'm not like that, but I was just like, I think he got too...

05:46:47.040 No, not you, him.

05:46:48.240 Oh, he got too, like, nervous, and, like, it's because I'm with my, like, guy friends, too, I think,

05:46:53.220 and, like, the language barrier, I don't think he was, like, confident enough to be like,

05:46:56.860 oh, yeah, like, now you have to give me a kiss or something, like, I think he just...

05:46:59.700 He might have been saying it in Korean, you had no idea.

05:47:02.180 Maybe.

05:47:03.580 You, were you just not attracted to the guy?

05:47:11.880 I wasn't, no. 1.00

05:47:13.380 So why, and he paid for your shit? 1.00

05:47:16.720 He paid for Ubers, and did he pay for food? 1.00

05:47:19.320 Well, like, karaoke and stuff like that.

05:47:21.000 How much is karaoke?

05:47:22.480 I don't know, I left it up to him.

05:47:24.380 Romance scam.

05:47:28.300 Romance scam.

05:47:29.000 You romance scam this poor...

05:47:31.140 And you did it to your own kind, too.

05:47:33.740 Like, you know, it's like this poor Korean guy, you know? 1.00

05:47:36.720 But he's, like, he's, like, one of those, like, rich ones.

05:47:39.080 Like, he was, like, decked out in my jaw.

05:47:40.500 You have no guilt for fooling him into thinking that you liked him?

05:47:44.580 I don't, I never said I liked him.

05:47:46.760 I just was, like, well, I'm going to hang out with my brain.

05:47:49.960 Bro, you can't, how you going, come on, man.

05:47:51.800 You can't finesse your own race. 0.93

05:47:53.960 I guess you can, but...

05:47:55.040 I feel like that's fair game, then.

05:47:57.260 Wait, it's...

05:47:57.740 I don't think my wife came.

05:47:59.300 You feel like it's better to land?

05:48:01.580 I don't know.

05:48:03.240 Okay.

05:48:03.540 You met on a dating app where it is implied that you are going to meet up because you're

05:48:07.340 looking for a connection.

05:48:08.800 So, I do think that that's...

05:48:10.340 How about this?

05:48:11.920 Yeah, that's a good point.

05:48:14.020 Well, I don't know how the reverse...

05:48:16.020 I suppose the, like, the comparable...

05:48:21.900 But guys do this all the time, so I feel like it's not a good example.

05:48:25.100 I think it's wrong, but the example I would give...

05:48:27.400 How would you feel...

05:48:29.540 Well, I don't know if you're even opposed to this.

05:48:31.860 A guy leads you on that he's interested in a relationship to get in your pants. 0.98

05:48:37.900 But he just wanted sex, and then he goes to you. 0.99

05:48:40.840 Would you feel, like, used? 0.99

05:48:42.820 Well, yeah, but it depends.

05:48:44.440 Like, was he, like, upfront about it?

05:48:46.060 Like, this is...

05:48:46.800 Like, I don't want a relationship, whatever.

05:48:48.720 It's, like, casual.

05:48:49.560 But I don't know if you're...

05:48:50.500 Because I think in some of your notes, it sounds like you're kind of a bit more open

05:48:54.220 to, like, more casual dating.

05:48:56.600 So, I don't know if you'd actually even have a problem with just having, like, casual sex 0.64

05:49:00.480 with a guy.

05:49:02.440 I mean, I haven't, but I feel like...

05:49:06.500 I don't know.

05:49:07.340 I think that if it's clear on both sides, and they're not, like, telling you that they

05:49:11.600 want a relationship, and then just...

05:49:13.640 I'm trying to think what, like...

05:49:15.480 Because I feel...

05:49:16.180 It's hard for a guy to finesse a woman in this way early on, just because... 1.00

05:49:22.180 Oh, we got some pizza here coming out for you guys. 1.00

05:49:24.120 Damn, you gave her... 1.00

05:49:31.680 And she was asking about the food. 1.00

05:49:33.380 You gave her the poverty slice. 1.00

05:49:35.340 Those are some thin fucking slices. 1.00

05:49:37.500 Give... 1.00

05:49:37.820 It's two put together.

05:49:39.660 I don't know.

05:49:40.120 That's two pieces?

05:49:41.540 They gave...

05:49:41.720 Well, look at...

05:49:42.220 Hold that...

05:49:42.780 Wait, show that to the camera.

05:49:43.660 It's not like this.

05:49:44.100 Look at... 1.00

05:49:44.920 What the fuck? 1.00

05:49:46.120 That's crazy. 1.00

05:49:49.280 Just don't spill it if you can, but... 0.99

05:49:51.460 Damn, they... 1.00

05:49:52.720 What are these fucking pizza slices, bro? 1.00

05:49:54.660 That's a Zempic pizza. 1.00

05:49:56.160 Like, in, like, grade school, you know how... 1.00

05:49:58.300 Damn, bro. 1.00

05:49:58.780 For 30 kids, you want pizza? 1.00

05:50:00.560 Poor girl is gonna starve here. 1.00

05:50:02.680 Well, there's more.

05:50:03.460 Oh, there's more?

05:50:04.080 Okay.

05:50:04.280 I gave her the smallest slice as possible.

05:50:09.940 So, okay.

05:50:10.900 So, you kind of used...

05:50:12.280 But to be fair, I asked...

05:50:14.900 Mine is smaller.

05:50:17.960 Mine is smaller.

05:50:18.780 I don't have a big lady, I know. 1.00

05:50:21.140 But to be fair, I did ask, like, who wants to, like, go and, like, get, like, buy his stuff,

05:50:25.180 like karaoke and, like, whatever, so...

05:50:27.300 It's okay.

05:50:27.840 You finessed.

05:50:28.660 You used the guy.

05:50:29.660 Well, not okay, but...

05:50:31.420 Maybe she's making a slice.

05:50:32.820 Have you done that?

05:50:33.380 Yeah.

05:50:33.520 Have you ever done that other times, or was that the only time?

05:50:37.780 No, that was the only time.

05:50:38.920 Okay.

05:50:39.320 Poor Korean guy. 1.00

05:50:40.300 RIP in the chat for Korean NYC men.

05:50:46.660 You said that you don't think dating is a necessity.

05:50:51.580 Oh, I'm just passing it down.

05:50:53.400 Oh, okay.

05:50:54.020 Sorry, I was trying to explain.

05:50:55.280 Oh, no, you're fine.

05:50:55.980 It's okay.

05:50:56.600 You don't think dating is a necessity.

05:50:59.500 You said you've always seen love around you

05:51:02.280 and wanted to be in love and be loved so badly,

05:51:05.000 but you think focusing solely on romantic love

05:51:07.580 distracts you from feeling and appreciating other kinds of love,

05:51:11.160 especially love you receive from family and friends.

05:51:13.500 Yeah, I agree with that.

05:51:15.060 I stand by that.

05:51:16.620 I think that it's not, like...

05:51:17.580 You overshot.

05:51:18.980 Necessity.

05:51:19.480 What?

05:51:20.000 No, I'm talking to her.

05:51:20.900 Go ahead.

05:51:24.200 Keep going.

05:51:24.640 Oh, I don't know.

05:51:25.940 I agree with what I said.

05:51:27.320 By the way, I, like, did this all in the span of, like, five minutes,

05:51:29.660 so, like, I don't know how well it's written.

05:51:32.140 No, it's fine.

05:51:32.560 I know it was last minute.

05:51:35.040 So when you say you don't think dating is a necessity,

05:51:37.620 what do you mean?

05:51:38.700 Like, are you fine just having more, like, situationship, casual things?

05:51:42.020 Well, I just meant dating or, like, having any kind of relationship in general.

05:51:46.720 Oh, it's not a priority.

05:51:47.620 It's not a priority.

05:51:48.260 Yeah, yeah, exactly.

05:51:50.180 And it shouldn't be the number one thing that you think about.

05:51:52.780 What should be the number one thing?

05:51:54.420 I think just, like, your future, like, maybe your job or, like, you know,

05:51:58.080 what you want to do in your life.

05:52:00.060 Should it ever be a priority at, like, certain stages of life?

05:52:03.000 I think so, yeah.

05:52:03.920 Okay.

05:52:04.500 When do you think it'll be a priority for you?

05:52:07.220 I think when the time comes.

05:52:09.940 Like, I'm not actively looking for it, but, like, I would like to meet someone organically.

05:52:13.620 Like, not at 40, right?

05:52:14.880 No, not at 40.

05:52:16.000 Younger, right?

05:52:16.540 Maybe younger, yeah.

05:52:17.180 Maybe mid-20s.

05:52:19.200 Yeah, but I'm not opposed to waiting.

05:52:21.620 Like, it's not like I need a rush and get into something that I don't know.

05:52:24.240 You said your general thoughts on modern dating is that people take it way too seriously,

05:52:28.240 especially when you watch shows from the 90s and early 2000s, Sex and the City.

05:52:33.080 You said you see how differently people view dating as more casual.

05:52:37.220 So you're saying, like, if you look at certain media, like Sex and the City, dating was way more casual.

05:52:44.100 Yeah, it's like you date somebody, not to marry specifically, but just, like, you know, to see what you like, what your likes and dislikes are in a relationship.

05:52:52.760 And the girls would be dating multiple guys at a time. 0.95

05:52:55.740 And they would, the guys would be dating multiple girls until they established, hey, like, I really like this person and I want to make it exclusive with them.

05:53:01.860 Yeah, well, I mean, Sex and the City, I, it's obviously fictional Hollywood production.

05:53:13.600 Well, I mean, it's produced in New York, but, and it's probably somewhat close to, like, how dating was.

05:53:22.960 Oh, you know, the thing is, though.

05:53:25.900 It's like back then there weren't, like, situation shifts and, like, talking stages and, like, I can't call, like, I can't date this person.

05:53:32.120 I think we've moved, while there's always been people who were, like, you know, kind of dating around or whatever, I think we've moved more towards the direction of people not, like, I think it was more common in the 90s and early 2000s for people to not be dating multiple people.

05:53:54.880 I think that that's more common now than it was in the 90s and 2000s.

05:53:59.400 I think it was, not to say it didn't happen, but I think it's, it was more common to be, like, you meet somebody and you see where it goes and sometimes it goes nowhere.

05:54:09.460 Then you go date somebody else.

05:54:12.400 But I do think.

05:54:14.540 It's more accessible now.

05:54:15.660 Now, yeah, in the 90s, you couldn't just go, like, on your Instagram.

05:54:18.800 There was no Instagram.

05:54:19.660 You couldn't go, like, hit up 20 chicks and be like, what are you doing?

05:54:22.160 You had to meet organically.

05:54:23.320 Yes.

05:54:23.540 You had to meet organically.

05:54:24.500 Hit me up on the pager.

05:54:26.120 Yeah.

05:54:26.640 You had to meet it on MySpace.

05:54:28.960 Yeah.

05:54:29.560 MySpace, Facebook.

05:54:30.800 Well, that wasn't really in the 90s.

05:54:32.280 MySpace was in the 2000s.

05:54:33.560 Oh, yeah.

05:54:34.040 MySpace, like, late 2000s, mid-late 2000s.

05:54:36.960 Yeah.

05:54:37.080 I was maybe a senior in high school when MySpace was really cool.

05:54:41.740 I was a lot older than that.

05:54:44.200 Okay.

05:54:45.360 And, wait, question for you, Claire, because maybe I, or wait.

05:54:52.960 Hold on.

05:54:54.500 Actually, here, I'm going to do a panel question.

05:54:59.020 A woman's past should not matter. 1.00

05:55:01.660 To which you agree.

05:55:03.320 Claire, you agree.

05:55:04.640 This is related to body count. 1.00

05:55:07.780 Oh, let's get rid of her, the fucking girl who wants me on the lives. 1.00

05:55:11.000 Jeanette. 1.00

05:55:13.920 Me.

05:55:15.580 Agree.

05:55:19.580 Okay.

05:55:20.200 And then Christina, Tina.

05:55:22.560 You agree.

05:55:23.840 Why is that?

05:55:24.580 Why should a woman's past not matter? 1.00

05:55:26.260 Why is that?

05:55:28.000 You're eating.

05:55:28.600 That's fine.

05:55:29.000 Anybody want to weigh in here?

05:55:31.660 I'll speak for her.

05:55:33.080 I'm just kidding.

05:55:34.780 Get it, Lindsay.

05:55:35.520 Anybody?

05:55:36.040 Anybody?

05:55:36.340 A woman's. 0.91

05:55:37.820 I mean, I think it should matter in certain.

05:55:40.360 I don't even know. 0.82

05:55:41.040 I mean, are you a murderer? 0.75

05:55:41.900 I don't think you circled that, by the way.

05:55:43.340 I mean, I think it matters because I think it's a really good understanding of how someone

05:55:49.300 is.

05:55:50.020 But also it matters if, you know, you've got a certain moral compass and, you know.

05:55:56.340 I mean, I'm going to wash my hands.

05:56:00.320 I guess I just wouldn't hold against a guy.

05:56:04.040 His body count, so I'd expect him to not, if we've both grown and changed as people over

05:56:09.620 time.

05:56:10.340 You know, like, people grow and people change and, you know.

05:56:14.740 Okay.

05:56:15.520 By the way, is there more pizza?

05:56:17.380 Yeah, a little bit.

05:56:18.440 How much?

05:56:19.240 How many slices?

05:56:19.820 Anybody want more?

05:56:26.200 We might just want to feed the guests.

05:56:30.200 I don't think anybody.

05:56:31.400 It's fine.

05:56:33.300 Oh, okay.

05:56:33.980 All right.

05:56:34.680 Well, if anybody wants more later, we can give you food.

05:56:40.240 Okay.

05:56:40.800 Well, you know, if a woman's past should not matter, I'm going to wait until everybody's 1.00

05:56:45.520 back at the table for this.

05:56:48.500 Hmm.

05:56:49.320 Okay.

05:56:49.820 Unless she has STDs. 1.00

05:56:54.300 Shit. 1.00

05:56:54.880 That would fucking suck. 1.00

05:56:56.660 Oh, here, really quick. 0.99

05:56:58.140 I'm going to dive into this.

05:57:00.240 Women are just as physically strong as men.

05:57:02.740 Claire, you circled that you agree with that statement.

05:57:07.800 Olivia?

05:57:10.040 What?

05:57:10.640 That's you?

05:57:11.460 Yeah.

05:57:12.000 You said women are just as physically strong as men. 0.99

05:57:14.380 I think generally, no.

05:57:16.840 I do think, like I said, like, being in the fitness space, I definitely know there's like...

05:57:22.280 Have you seen her?

05:57:23.480 Yeah, she's fit. 0.84

05:57:24.580 Here, double by.

05:57:25.660 Let's see double by.

05:57:26.360 She's not on the camera.

05:57:27.300 Come on, come on. 0.99

05:57:27.860 You're sturdy.

05:57:30.100 See?

05:57:31.540 I wouldn't mind watching this, like, in arm wrestle right now.

05:57:34.600 You mostly train legs, right?

05:57:36.220 Um, I train...

05:57:37.600 I train a lot.

05:57:38.300 Can you stand on the chair and do, like, a quad flex?

05:57:41.260 Um, I do have...

05:57:42.620 No.

05:57:42.840 You know that Jay Cutler where he, like...

05:57:44.600 Yeah, the Olympia just happened, too.

05:57:46.220 Yeah.

05:57:46.720 But you know that Jay Cutler clip where he, like...

05:57:49.600 Yeah.

05:57:51.940 Like, shakes the leg and...

05:57:52.920 Yeah, and then...

05:57:53.400 No, he, like, stomps down.

05:57:55.240 He does a stomp, yeah.

05:57:56.040 Can you do that?

05:57:57.980 I mean, you can, but it's not going to have the same effect as his.

05:58:00.500 Yes.

05:58:01.160 Jay Cutler's quad is the size of your whole body.

05:58:03.700 I like C-Bombs. 0.91

05:58:05.660 Well, Chris Bombs did.

05:58:06.880 Okay.

05:58:07.200 Yeah, yeah.

05:58:08.000 I can go on for that, but, yeah.

05:58:10.080 I think, generally, overall, I think men are definitely stronger than women.

05:58:15.000 Mm-hmm.

05:58:15.900 There's always, like, I always say there's always exceptions to the rule.

05:58:19.420 There's always going to be, like, those who are not outliers, but, generally, I think men are stronger.

05:58:23.740 Yeah, I mean, I would agree.

05:58:25.120 There are women who are stronger than men.

05:58:28.260 Your take, though?

05:58:29.760 Yeah, I said they can be stronger than men, like, certain women, but overall, in general, yeah. 0.95

05:58:34.380 Men are stronger than women. 1.00

05:58:35.620 Yeah, like, physical, yeah.

05:58:36.960 Okay.

05:58:37.760 All right.

05:58:38.080 No debate there, then.

05:58:39.880 I'm waiting for everybody to return for my next thing here.

05:58:44.320 You know what?

05:58:44.920 I think what we'll do while I'm just waiting here, I'll do a little admin.

05:58:48.460 Oh, we needed to do...

05:58:50.220 Oh, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time, starting with you?

05:58:54.520 I hope so.

05:58:55.780 I get that you hope, but do you think?

05:59:02.360 I'll be 32, so maybe not, you know, unless I get a little Botox.

05:59:10.040 You're 18, better looking in 10 years' time at 28?

05:59:12.920 Yeah, I think so.

05:59:13.980 38?

05:59:14.340 Um, I don't know.

05:59:16.940 I'll have to see.

05:59:18.120 What do you think?

05:59:19.660 I think, yeah.

05:59:22.800 Why not?

05:59:24.740 Uh, 48?

05:59:27.000 Better looking than now?

05:59:28.860 I don't know.

05:59:29.580 I just know, like, I already have, like, good aging genetics, so I would hope so.

05:59:34.860 What is it?

05:59:35.580 Asian don't raisin or something like that?

05:59:37.340 Yeah, exactly.

05:59:37.780 I have never heard that before.

05:59:38.940 It is a thing.

05:59:39.860 It is a thing. 0.91

05:59:40.420 I've heard black don't cry, but not Asian don't raisin. 1.00

05:59:44.500 Okay, when do you think your peak physically will be, in terms of looks?

05:59:49.840 I would hope in my, like, 20s to 30s, but I just know that, like, after a certain age

05:59:56.260 for, like, Asian women, like, they kind of turn into, like, ajumma. 1.00

05:59:59.400 I don't know if you know what that is.

06:00:00.660 Like, they get the visors and, like, the...

06:00:03.300 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:00:03.860 So I think that's when I'll know.

06:00:05.800 Okay.

06:00:06.660 What about you?

06:00:08.020 No.

06:00:09.460 Oh, sorry, better looking in 10 years.

06:00:11.980 And then you're 37, better looking at 27?

06:00:18.880 Sure.

06:00:19.960 I think I peaked at, like, 29.

06:00:22.760 Okay.

06:00:23.300 And then 18, better looking at 18 versus 37?

06:00:27.820 No.

06:00:28.680 Better looking now?

06:00:29.620 Yeah.

06:00:30.440 At 37?

06:00:31.400 Yes.

06:00:31.600 Okay.

06:00:33.460 Oh, she's gone.

06:00:34.500 You're 43, better looking in 10 years' time, 53.

06:00:38.260 Definitely not.

06:00:39.340 And then you're 43, better looking at 33?

06:00:42.120 I peaked at 37 was my absolute peak.

06:00:45.140 That was the height of it all.

06:00:47.480 But...

06:00:48.280 Oh, I'm sorry.

06:00:48.820 Was I better looking at 33?

06:00:50.460 Versus 43, yeah.

06:00:53.440 I'm sure I would assume most people would think I looked better at 33.

06:00:56.420 And then 23 versus 43?

06:00:58.880 I don't...

06:00:59.620 No, I looked better at 33.

06:01:02.800 But 23 versus 43?

06:01:04.600 Oh, I'm sorry. 1.00

06:01:07.020 Fuck, I'll take 43 over 23. 1.00

06:01:10.320 Personally. 1.00

06:01:12.080 Sorry, you'll take 23...

06:01:13.600 I'll take what I look like at 43 over what I look like at 23.

06:01:16.840 Really?

06:01:17.280 Yeah.

06:01:18.400 And 23 versus 33?

06:01:24.160 Yeah, I looked better in my 30s and 40s, honestly.

06:01:26.720 All right.

06:01:27.440 What about you?

06:01:28.680 You're 23, better looking 33?

06:01:32.240 Yes.

06:01:33.160 43?

06:01:38.140 Possibly, yes.

06:01:39.900 53?

06:01:40.540 No.

06:01:41.080 Okay.

06:01:41.300 Uh, 37, better looking 47?

06:01:45.900 No.

06:01:47.040 37, better looking 27?

06:01:49.160 Yeah.

06:01:51.080 Okay.

06:01:51.700 Better looking 18 versus 37?

06:01:57.740 No.

06:01:58.300 Closer to the mic?

06:01:59.500 No.

06:02:00.080 Okay, so better looking at 37 versus at 18?

06:02:03.380 What about 18 to...

06:02:05.640 I would take my youth back, I guess.

06:02:07.880 Yeah, there you go.

06:02:08.600 Okay.

06:02:08.780 Yeah, to be honest.

06:02:09.480 What about you?

06:02:10.760 30, better looking 40?

06:02:12.500 No, probably not. 0.98

06:02:13.380 White people don't age very well. 1.00

06:02:14.600 Okay, better looking... 0.99

06:02:15.600 Better looking at 20?

06:02:18.960 No, I think I'm better looking now.

06:02:21.540 Better looking now at 30?

06:02:23.040 Okay.

06:02:23.340 Yeah.

06:02:24.140 Felicity, what about you?

06:02:25.740 No.

06:02:26.000 All right, guys, we've lowered the TTS to 69, $69 TTS if you want to get it in.

06:02:34.200 A message from the government of Canada.

06:02:36.120 Oh, my lord.

06:02:38.700 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

06:02:42.880 Is anyone up for coffee or tea?

06:02:45.100 I can do a pop for that.

06:02:46.960 What do you think, Brian?

06:02:48.940 Should I do a coffee?

06:02:50.040 Where is my iPhone Air pop?

06:02:53.000 I have dainty man hands.

06:02:55.000 I can't carry this heavy iPhone 17 Pro.

06:02:58.260 I need the iPhone Air so I don't get carpal tunnel syndrome.

06:03:02.140 This is incredibly rude, Pasty George.

06:03:04.560 But does anybody want coffee or tea or something?

06:03:07.080 He wants to do a pop.

06:03:08.040 Yeah, if Cristal is not an option.

06:03:11.140 Cristal is for an Ethereum.

06:03:13.580 I don't know if Pasty is a crypto guy, to be honest.

06:03:17.020 Otherwise, we could do an Ethereum.

06:03:18.600 I feel like the women, you guys would prefer champagne over... 1.00

06:03:21.440 Yeah.

06:03:22.300 Well, first off, who would actually drink champagne?

06:03:24.880 I think everyone at the table.

06:03:26.280 Well, she's unfortunately not.

06:03:27.840 Oh, I'm so sorry.

06:03:28.540 But everyone else.

06:03:29.240 We have sparkling cider, maybe.

06:03:31.960 I don't know.

06:03:33.120 Okay.

06:03:33.480 Well, if you want, Pasty George, you know, the Ethereum option is there for the Cristal.

06:03:43.080 Otherwise, you can pop a regular champagne bottle.

06:03:46.140 Can you make this an Ethereum just for once?

06:03:50.860 Like, let's do a record thing.

06:03:53.540 Because I don't think it's ever happened, has it?

06:03:55.420 No one's ever Cristal?

06:03:56.500 I think we've done...

06:03:58.300 What is that, 10K?

06:03:59.000 He joins a very...

06:04:00.320 No, Ethereum's at like 4,000.

06:04:02.560 It's fluctuated.

06:04:03.520 It's around 4,000.

06:04:04.840 4,000?

06:04:05.580 So, actually, but wait, I think...

06:04:10.120 Didn't he pop it the last time?

06:04:10.280 He got the club prices in here.

06:04:12.600 No, Ogil popped the Ethereum.

06:04:15.280 Or popped the Cristal.

06:04:16.960 Hold on.

06:04:18.240 Well, actually, the Cristal pop is half an Ethereum.

06:04:21.980 So, to pop Cristal, it's about $2,000.

06:04:24.920 It's literally what you'd pay in a nightclub.

06:04:28.520 Perfect.

06:04:28.960 Welcome to the whatever.

06:04:29.560 Yeah, whatever.

06:04:31.480 Welcome to the whatever.

06:04:32.120 Like, 20 years ago.

06:04:35.140 But, and they're pricey.

06:04:36.800 They're like 500 bucks or something for the Cristal bottle.

06:04:39.720 So, okay.

06:04:41.700 Where...

06:04:42.460 Oh, wait.

06:04:43.940 We were going around.

06:04:45.000 Oh, look better.

06:04:46.180 Oh, guys.

06:04:47.020 Fun segment.

06:04:47.900 Fun segment.

06:04:48.980 We've put all of you through AI.

06:04:51.980 Do we have gender, too?

06:04:52.900 Or just...

06:04:53.760 Oh, is this mean?

06:04:55.320 We've put all of you through AI.

06:04:57.400 $69 TTS, boys.

06:04:59.540 Get it in.

06:05:01.160 $69 TTS.

06:05:02.440 Time to go.

06:05:02.820 Is this like a character?

06:05:04.340 What do you mean, put me through AI?

06:05:06.320 Some of you guys say better looking.

06:05:09.060 We are...

06:05:10.500 Yeah, we'll blast through this segment quick.

06:05:13.300 Okay, go ahead.

06:05:17.220 Is this like an aging one?

06:05:19.260 We've aged all of you.

06:05:20.360 Because some of you, you know, better looking.

06:05:22.160 We've aged all of you.

06:05:22.820 Sure, you look gorgeous.

06:05:23.180 All right, next.

06:05:25.060 Oh, that's mean.

06:05:27.040 Chick's a milf. 1.00

06:05:28.540 No, she's good.

06:05:29.600 I look really sweet.

06:05:30.480 Yeah.

06:05:31.000 You look nice.

06:05:31.960 You look sweet to you.

06:05:33.360 Yeah.

06:05:34.100 All right.

06:05:35.280 Next.

06:05:35.880 I'm already worried.

06:05:36.660 Oh, wow.

06:05:38.360 They did you dirty. 0.98

06:05:40.020 I'm going to be the worst. 0.92

06:05:41.420 Hey, you know, look.

06:05:42.640 Aging, aging, you know.

06:05:44.560 All right.

06:05:46.240 Oh, wow.

06:05:47.380 That's what we saw.

06:05:47.920 The inside of her heart.

06:05:50.300 Oh, right.

06:05:51.260 You see?

06:05:51.760 I look like you.

06:05:52.020 Oh, I look like you.

06:05:57.000 Hey, you know.

06:05:57.820 I think you look cute.

06:05:59.040 Not bad.

06:05:59.200 Oh, don't lie.

06:06:01.400 Into the mics if you can, if you're going to speak.

06:06:03.740 Okay.

06:06:04.240 Oh.

06:06:04.540 Oh, you look like you. 0.99

06:06:06.640 You look like a little chicken nugget. 0.99

06:06:08.020 Look at you. 0.99

06:06:09.580 Oh.

06:06:10.500 Wow.

06:06:11.180 I don't know if that's a compliment or.

06:06:12.740 No.

06:06:13.140 How do you feel?

06:06:13.660 You're cute.

06:06:14.400 Watch out.

06:06:14.920 She's got guns. 1.00

06:06:15.440 Are you mad? 0.98

06:06:16.060 She might beat you up. 1.00

06:06:17.640 That's fine.

06:06:18.720 I think it's funny.

06:06:20.520 I don't take a compliment.

06:06:22.020 Hold on.

06:06:22.440 You're going to let her call you a little chicken nugget? 0.97

06:06:25.020 I mean, I don't think these are good in general.

06:06:28.760 You're like a chicken nugget. 0.87

06:06:30.340 Brian, you're a chicken nugget without the age advancement. 0.99

06:06:33.940 Okay. 0.98

06:06:34.680 Next.

06:06:35.560 Here we go.

06:06:37.640 Oh, cool.

06:06:38.320 That's not bad.

06:06:39.260 Cool.

06:06:40.080 And D, you look great.

06:06:41.380 Thanks.

06:06:41.740 Good.

06:06:42.280 We love it.

06:06:43.540 Okay.

06:06:43.800 Next.

06:06:44.160 I love it.

06:06:45.740 Oh, my gosh.

06:06:46.680 Oh, yeah.

06:06:48.660 Next.

06:06:51.280 Why is it?

06:06:52.060 Did you dirty on this one, Felicity?

06:06:53.680 Yeah.

06:06:54.000 Why did they do?

06:06:54.580 Oh, that's cute.

06:06:56.220 Oh, my God.

06:06:58.820 She kind of looks like a turtle. 0.99

06:07:00.640 All right.

06:07:00.920 When's Brian?

06:07:01.920 You know. 0.99

06:07:02.420 So fucking mean. 0.99

06:07:03.800 What? 1.00

06:07:05.780 She said, you look like a turtle.

06:07:07.480 Yeah.

06:07:08.020 No.

06:07:08.480 Turtles are my spirit animal.

06:07:10.040 All right.

06:07:10.200 Next.

06:07:10.660 Thank you.

06:07:11.860 Okay.

06:07:12.560 Oh, wow.

06:07:13.160 Oh, my God.

06:07:14.600 All right.

06:07:15.480 All right.

06:07:16.000 Okay, Santa.

06:07:17.420 He looks like Father Time.

06:07:21.340 He looks like Earl down at the looker store.

06:07:23.600 So much worse.

06:07:24.560 No.

06:07:25.420 That's accurate.

06:07:26.120 So much worse.

06:07:27.280 That's crazy.

06:07:28.200 That was so fun.

06:07:29.460 Thank you.

06:07:29.980 Yeah.

06:07:30.120 You're welcome.

06:07:30.880 Thank you for that.

06:07:31.760 But hold on.

06:07:32.880 Gender swap.

06:07:33.900 Great.

06:07:34.180 Oh, yeah.

06:07:35.040 Oh, Lord.

06:07:37.000 What do you date him?

06:07:37.960 Wait.

06:07:38.340 Why is your nose like?

06:07:40.680 What do you date him?

06:07:41.240 What's that going on with your nose?

06:07:42.880 I gotta get red.

06:07:44.160 I made it bigger. 1.00

06:07:45.020 What the fuck? 1.00

06:07:45.400 Would you date that guy? 1.00

06:07:46.660 I hope I'm a hot guy.

06:07:47.680 The question is, would you date the male version of you?

06:07:49.620 No.

06:07:50.420 I would not, actually. 1.00

06:07:55.300 Oh, damn. 0.99

06:07:57.100 Okay. 1.00

06:07:57.380 Would you date the male?

06:07:58.860 What did they do to your ear?

06:08:00.540 Maybe the one with the beard.

06:08:02.080 The other one.

06:08:02.340 With the beard?

06:08:03.380 Beard.

06:08:03.960 Okay.

06:08:04.220 Not bad.

06:08:05.340 All right.

06:08:06.680 Oh, question for you on this.

06:08:09.660 Do you have, like, a preference when it comes to dating?

06:08:12.240 Like, would you date an Asian guy, white guy, black guy?

06:08:15.820 Yeah, I would date anyone.

06:08:16.940 Anybody?

06:08:17.360 Okay.

06:08:17.560 I feel like if they're hot, they're hot.

06:08:19.060 They're hot, they're hot.

06:08:20.060 Because we've had, like, a couple Asian women who are, like, don't want to date Asian 0.99

06:08:25.900 guys.

06:08:26.620 I don't know.

06:08:27.200 So, it's kind of a phenomenon, I guess.

06:08:29.540 Not, obviously, not all Asian women.

06:08:30.880 That's right.

06:08:31.180 You're married to an Asian man.

06:08:31.920 My husband doesn't want to date an Asian girl. 1.00

06:08:34.720 Oh, really?

06:08:35.340 Reminds him of his mom.

06:08:36.820 Oh.

06:08:37.260 Oh.

06:08:37.960 Okay.

06:08:38.740 Wow.

06:08:39.420 All right.

06:08:39.980 Oh, wow.

06:08:40.880 Okay.

06:08:41.820 Oh, that was good.

06:08:42.480 Leave it there.

06:08:43.240 Leave it there.

06:08:43.880 Hold on.

06:08:43.940 They're being so mean to me.

06:08:45.520 That's a good one.

06:08:47.160 It's like his name is Felipe.

06:08:48.540 They look like they extended your original face. 0.98

06:08:51.800 Bro, what, are you guys doing fucking caricatures here? 1.00

06:08:54.100 What the fuck? 1.00

06:08:56.180 Would you date him? 1.00

06:08:57.220 No.

06:08:58.660 No?

06:08:59.220 No.

06:09:00.420 Okay.

06:09:00.760 You're making the ears look real interesting.

06:09:03.320 You have to make his ears look bigger.

06:09:04.840 Next.

06:09:06.340 Give me a redhead. 1.00

06:09:07.480 Oh, okay. 1.00

06:09:08.120 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:09:08.840 Yikes. 1.00

06:09:09.920 Oh, wait.

06:09:10.980 Wait, okay.

06:09:12.020 That looks like my brother.

06:09:14.640 Actually, yeah, not bad, right?

06:09:16.080 Yeah.

06:09:16.280 That's actually not bad.

06:09:18.480 Into the mic, into the mic.

06:09:19.480 Oh, yeah.

06:09:20.640 I mean, sure.

06:09:21.820 Wait, can I have you scoot your mic that way?

06:09:23.560 This way?

06:09:24.640 Yeah, like scoot it that way.

06:09:26.300 So, yes, you would. 0.95

06:09:27.660 Would I bang the male version of myself? 0.87

06:09:29.720 It looks like my brother, so no. 0.91

06:09:31.340 I guess it's fine.

06:09:33.860 You don't think he's attractive?

06:09:34.840 Oh, yeah, he's attractive.

06:09:35.560 My brother's attractive.

06:09:36.680 So, you'd, whoa.

06:09:38.000 Okay.

06:09:38.640 Pumped the brakes there.

06:09:39.660 Can I, I can acknowledge my child's attractive.

06:09:41.820 I can acknowledge my, it doesn't mean sexual.

06:09:44.080 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:09:44.320 I know.

06:09:44.740 I'm giving you a hard time.

06:09:45.760 Next.

06:09:46.000 Next.

06:09:47.780 Yes.

06:09:49.920 Would you date him?

06:09:51.740 You're cute.

06:09:53.000 You are a really cute boy.

06:09:55.340 Would you date him?

06:09:56.460 Into the mic.

06:09:57.120 Closer, please.

06:09:59.080 Yeah.

06:09:59.500 Um, maybe, maybe.

06:10:02.340 Like, I'd ask him for help on Hinge.

06:10:04.040 What's wrong with him?

06:10:04.880 Tell me what's wrong with him.

06:10:05.540 That's this one.

06:10:06.740 Oh, yeah.

06:10:10.640 Just.

06:10:11.280 That's, that's a no.

06:10:12.540 Yeah.

06:10:13.060 That's a no.

06:10:13.880 No, no.

06:10:14.700 Why not?

06:10:15.140 What's wrong with him?

06:10:15.760 Just.

06:10:16.940 Just what?

06:10:17.640 He looks so nice.

06:10:18.380 Does he look too nice?

06:10:19.440 Yeah.

06:10:19.740 Let her speak. 0.94

06:10:20.300 Let her speak. 0.94

06:10:21.020 He, he, he, okay, so this is kind of strange, but like, so I am adopted, but he kind of does

06:10:25.780 remind me of my dad.

06:10:27.220 Oh.

06:10:28.160 Wait.

06:10:29.160 It's.

06:10:30.640 This is, I don't know if it.

06:10:32.760 He doesn't, does not look like my dad, but just, it's like.

06:10:35.880 I.

06:10:37.620 Never mind.

06:10:38.240 Never mind.

06:10:38.960 Who is that?

06:10:43.440 What?

06:10:43.980 Nothing.

06:10:44.700 How many?

06:10:45.860 Don't need a repeat of last time.

06:10:47.840 Oh, come on. 0.87

06:10:48.740 Relax.

06:10:51.040 So no, you wouldn't date him?

06:10:52.340 No.

06:10:52.460 Like, do you not date Asian guys?

06:10:54.620 Or are you not attracted to Asian men?

06:10:57.020 There are, I would say, attractive Asian guys, but usually they aren't my type. 1.00

06:11:02.620 Have you ever dated an Asian guy?

06:11:05.560 I've went on a first date, first dates with Asian dudes, but.

06:11:09.760 But.

06:11:10.140 No.

06:11:10.700 Have you, you've never.

06:11:13.440 Like.

06:11:13.800 Just a first date, never more?

06:11:15.480 Just a first date.

06:11:16.280 Never a second date even?

06:11:17.540 No.

06:11:18.240 Hookup?

06:11:18.880 No.

06:11:19.880 Have you ever dated an Asian guy?

06:11:21.820 Um, like.

06:11:23.260 Come close.

06:11:24.340 Yeah.

06:11:24.600 Come close?

06:11:25.440 Yeah.

06:11:25.620 So you went on a first date?

06:11:28.220 No, just like, just like, that's.

06:11:30.700 Like your situation, you said you've had a few situationships, like two or three or something.

06:11:34.560 A lot, I think.

06:11:35.440 Or no, you said a lot.

06:11:36.160 Yeah, I said a lot, but I only didn't like.

06:11:38.800 Um, have any of your situationships been an Asian guy?

06:11:43.180 Yeah, one of them was like half Japanese.

06:11:46.160 I don't know if he's watching right now.

06:11:47.600 Like.

06:11:48.980 Asian?

06:11:49.660 Yeah.

06:11:50.300 Okay.

06:11:51.140 Uh, but no Asian guys. 1.00

06:11:52.720 What's your go-to?

06:11:54.280 White guys? 0.93

06:11:55.480 Black guys? 0.91

06:11:56.960 Um.

06:11:57.120 Like Italian?

06:11:58.140 Italian.

06:11:58.940 So.

06:11:59.040 Hey.

06:11:59.720 White, I guess? 0.71

06:12:00.800 Yes.

06:12:01.340 Yeah.

06:12:02.120 Yeah.

06:12:02.900 Italian guys.

06:12:03.980 So maybe I'll be your type.

06:12:05.660 Like, was she your type?

06:12:06.900 Was her?

06:12:07.220 We were both Italian guys.

06:12:08.080 Was she your type?

06:12:08.920 I think you were attractive.

06:12:09.760 Oh.

06:12:10.020 Oh.

06:12:11.020 Yeah.

06:12:11.620 Yeah.

06:12:12.300 How you doing?

06:12:13.400 I know.

06:12:14.000 All right.

06:12:14.720 Uh, next.

06:12:16.280 Okay.

06:12:17.640 Oh.

06:12:17.860 Yeah.

06:12:18.340 Oh, wow.

06:12:19.560 That was the best one.

06:12:21.300 So you would date me?

06:12:22.260 Yeah, I would.

06:12:22.880 I would.

06:12:23.440 Yeah.

06:12:23.700 So she is in two Italians. 0.94

06:12:25.520 All right.

06:12:26.420 Yeah.

06:12:27.420 I mean.

06:12:28.040 Kind of looks like Jim Carrey a little bit.

06:12:29.860 No, it doesn't.

06:12:30.700 No, I see that.

06:12:31.540 Yes, it does.

06:12:32.280 Yeah.

06:12:32.760 I do.

06:12:33.340 Like a little bit.

06:12:34.340 No, it doesn't.

06:12:35.260 Or a maroon five guy.

06:12:37.260 The eyes?

06:12:38.400 Wait, can we take a moment and look at the second picture that the lipstick is draining down 0.97

06:12:44.760 his face?

06:12:46.500 We're making out.

06:12:47.460 Next. 1.00

06:12:49.100 He's a whore. 1.00

06:12:50.700 Aw, you're cute. 1.00

06:12:51.700 You look very Republican.

06:12:52.840 Date male version of you?

06:12:53.440 Yeah, you do.

06:12:54.360 You look very Republican.

06:12:57.260 Totally.

06:12:57.660 Answers, please.

06:12:59.620 No, I would not.

06:13:00.860 That's not my type.

06:13:01.840 Okay.

06:13:03.080 That's cool.

06:13:03.760 I didn't even see that one. 0.93

06:13:05.540 Oh, that sucks. 0.97

06:13:06.360 You should have been paying attention. 0.99

06:13:07.720 I would.

06:13:08.260 It was only after, like, two seconds.

06:13:09.940 I would.

06:13:10.260 It was only after, like, two seconds.

06:13:10.300 All right.

06:13:13.700 It was, like, for a split second.

06:13:16.020 Wait, hold on.

06:13:17.200 Here.

06:13:17.880 This one's just going to be a read.

06:13:19.400 Felicity.

06:13:20.200 I need to change this.

06:13:21.140 Brian, it is a phenomenon with Asians in America that don't date their own for some 1.00

06:13:27.540 reason.

06:13:29.040 Isn't that mostly the case with the women, though? 1.00

06:13:33.240 Like, isn't it the case that Asian men, less so than Asian women, date outside their race?

06:13:41.600 So, this phenomenon seems to be a little bit gendered. 0.97

06:13:45.100 But, okay.

06:13:46.540 Hold on.

06:13:47.180 Let me.

06:13:47.460 I need to fix the TTS.

06:13:49.220 Technically, the read is a little better than the TTS.

06:13:53.280 You get to hear Felicity's deep voice.

06:13:59.200 Thank you.

06:14:00.060 You're welcome.

06:14:01.640 Good talk.

06:14:05.140 Tag donated $69.

06:14:07.700 Thank you, Tag.

06:14:08.180 Can you ask Felicity, as a former guest and now an employee, to say a few things about

06:14:13.080 what she's learned about women from being on the podcast? 0.90

06:14:16.340 Keep up the great work, Brian.

06:14:18.340 No pressure.

06:14:19.220 I've learned to get to the point. 0.99

06:14:22.820 No point in, like, adding extra bullshit details that nobody cares about. 0.98

06:14:27.100 It just makes the show go on longer. 0.98

06:14:30.000 Good one.

06:14:30.780 Pasty George donated $70.

06:14:32.260 Thank you, Tag.

06:14:33.000 Thank you, Pasty.

06:14:34.400 Unfortunately, I haven't dealt with crypto for the last five years.

06:14:38.340 I suggested coffee and tea for those who don't want or cannot drink champagne.

06:14:43.400 So, what will it be?

06:14:46.060 Well, everybody here wanted champagne.

06:14:48.040 No, no.

06:14:48.620 I'm sober.

06:14:49.160 How long have you been sober for?

06:14:52.160 Four months.

06:14:53.420 This is the time.

06:14:54.760 Bro, no.

06:14:56.480 No.

06:14:58.820 What the?

06:14:59.940 Oh, my God. 0.95

06:15:01.440 You're so bad.

06:15:02.440 What do you mean? 0.98

06:15:03.440 That's a horrible influence.

06:15:04.960 I'll give you this much champagne.

06:15:06.700 No.

06:15:07.380 No.

06:15:08.500 You can have some apple juice.

06:15:10.980 Well, Claire, if we do get a champagne pop, Claire will get some apple cider.

06:15:14.660 We can just give you apple cider.

06:15:16.120 Yeah.

06:15:16.580 I'm okay.

06:15:17.140 Yeah.

06:15:17.300 Okay.

06:15:17.500 But where's your AI?

06:15:19.820 Where's your AI?

06:15:20.880 Your picture?

06:15:21.960 Oh, yeah.

06:15:22.680 Thank you, Felicity.

06:15:24.560 You're welcome.

06:15:25.440 You have it?

06:15:26.140 Yeah.

06:15:26.540 I think it is a chick.

06:15:27.360 Oh.

06:15:28.300 Okay.

06:15:29.180 No.

06:15:29.940 Okay.

06:15:30.600 No, no.

06:15:31.280 All right.

06:15:31.620 Next.

06:15:32.200 Oh, there we go.

06:15:33.040 This is the good one.

06:15:33.740 Oh, she's cute. 1.00

06:15:34.780 Yep.

06:15:35.200 Wow.

06:15:35.320 Definitely would date.

06:15:36.300 Would date.

06:15:36.500 Has anyone noticed how blue Brian's eyes are?

06:15:39.240 I did the girl you, not the guy you.

06:15:44.220 Did you guys hear me?

06:15:45.660 No.

06:15:46.040 Has anyone noticed how blue Brian's eyes are?

06:15:51.500 Have you noticed?

06:15:52.140 Have you guys noticed that?

06:15:53.500 No.

06:15:53.800 Have you noticed?

06:15:54.040 Just like look him in the eyes for a little bit.

06:15:57.080 Or where's the, what about when you were younger?

06:15:58.900 Can we see that?

06:15:59.840 Oh, my gosh.

06:16:02.420 Maybe later.

06:16:03.940 Maybe later.

06:16:05.000 Maybe later, Felicity.

06:16:06.280 Thank you.

06:16:06.640 I'm trying to help him out.

06:16:08.000 Not appreciating it.

06:16:09.600 Thank you for that.

06:16:10.680 Thank you.

06:16:11.240 I appreciate it, Felicity.

06:16:11.880 We're so blue.

06:16:14.180 Okay.

06:16:14.620 Back to the show notes here.

06:16:16.520 Okay.

06:16:16.920 We got to blast through.

06:16:18.080 Hold on one sec, guys.

06:16:19.520 Blasting through.

06:16:22.140 Oh, we were doing the body count thing.

06:16:26.460 Okay.

06:16:26.660 Women's passion not matter. 1.00

06:16:28.800 Oh, yeah.

06:16:29.520 So, some of y'all said women's passion not matter.

06:16:33.700 If that's the case, what's your body count?

06:16:36.240 Like, I think it's like 40.

06:16:38.520 Okay.

06:16:39.000 I'm being like, I'm going over from what I actually think.

06:16:43.420 Okay.

06:16:43.440 Sure.

06:16:43.780 What?

06:16:43.920 Can I pass?

06:16:45.220 You got to answer.

06:16:46.240 You got to answer.

06:16:47.200 What?

06:16:47.300 I have no idea.

06:16:50.080 Do I have to?

06:16:51.060 Give us a range.

06:16:52.500 Range?

06:16:52.900 You want to do range?

06:16:53.660 Like, no.

06:16:54.220 It's just two.

06:16:55.220 Oh.

06:16:55.820 Wait, what?

06:16:56.520 Just curious.

06:16:57.380 Just curious.

06:16:59.200 What was the, like, hesitation?

06:17:01.440 Do you feel like two is high?

06:17:02.820 Do you think it's too low?

06:17:03.900 What do you think?

06:17:04.360 No, it just feels weird, like, saying that on, like, a live stream, but.

06:17:09.000 No, I think it's, I don't, I don't think that's crazy or anything.

06:17:14.640 And, okay, what about you?

06:17:17.720 Two.

06:17:18.560 Two?

06:17:19.180 Mm-hmm.

06:17:19.580 Okay.

06:17:20.200 Yep.

06:17:20.780 Two?

06:17:21.480 Two.

06:17:22.460 Two.

06:17:23.140 Yes.

06:17:24.520 Two?

06:17:25.020 Two.

06:17:25.420 37?

06:17:26.380 Two. 1.00

06:17:27.120 Damn, bro, you're, like, double range. 1.00

06:17:28.360 I've been married twice. 1.00

06:17:28.900 Same body count.

06:17:29.920 She it.

06:17:30.720 Two.

06:17:31.660 Sorry, Claire, I didn't mean to throw you under the bus there.

06:17:34.220 Body count?

06:17:34.920 I've been in monogamous relationships for, like, 15 years, so maybe.

06:17:38.520 20.

06:17:39.780 Did you, when you were doing, like, the content stuff, were you doing, like, mainstream corn?

06:17:45.760 No, not at all.

06:17:47.220 Like, I was by myself.

06:17:48.400 I was very, I was not promiscuous in any way outside of that.

06:17:52.140 My life didn't match the fact that I was doing that.

06:17:54.660 It was a whole conundrum, so, no.

06:17:56.640 Gotcha.

06:17:57.120 Yeah.

06:17:58.140 Body count?

06:17:59.580 Um, greater than one.

06:18:02.600 One.

06:18:03.760 Range?

06:18:04.280 Two.

06:18:04.340 Do you want to do range?

06:18:05.160 Come on.

06:18:05.840 Everyone's a good sport.

06:18:07.320 Range?

06:18:08.180 I'm not going to say.

06:18:11.440 Come on.

06:18:12.000 Come on.

06:18:12.440 Be a good sport.

06:18:13.100 Is it more than mine?

06:18:14.940 No.

06:18:16.020 Oh, you're good then.

06:18:18.400 No, no, no.

06:18:20.020 Sorry.

06:18:21.120 So it's 39?

06:18:22.300 No.

06:18:22.580 Do you want to ballpark it?

06:18:25.160 Like, if you, I don't know.

06:18:27.620 Here, a couple clarifying questions.

06:18:29.660 Have you forgotten what it is?

06:18:31.700 No.

06:18:31.880 So you do know what it is?

06:18:34.180 Yes.

06:18:34.340 Like, you haven't lost track or something?

06:18:36.500 No.

06:18:37.600 Okay.

06:18:39.260 Do you want to do a range?

06:18:41.700 This to this?

06:18:43.360 That's fair, right?

06:18:44.400 That's fair.

06:18:44.860 Um, it's like, 20, 21.

06:18:53.480 Okay.

06:18:53.840 20, 21.

06:18:54.720 Okay.

06:18:54.940 I'm going to give the same answer I gave before.

06:18:57.520 It's between me and my partner.

06:18:59.140 I'm not going to say it.

06:19:00.360 There's nothing you can say.

06:19:01.300 Ballpark range?

06:19:02.000 Nope.

06:19:02.640 Not going to happen.

06:19:03.500 Not even if you ask me a million times in five different ways.

06:19:07.240 Private.

06:19:08.080 Between me and my person.

06:19:09.980 How many women have you been with? 0.96

06:19:11.460 Can you answer that?

06:19:13.260 None.

06:19:13.960 Yeah, okay.

06:19:14.520 All right.

06:19:14.780 What?

06:19:15.000 No way.

06:19:15.900 Not after tonight, Lindsay. 1.00

06:19:17.640 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:19:18.440 Wow. 1.00

06:19:19.440 Okay.

06:19:20.240 Have you ever kissed a girl?

06:19:21.940 Um, eight.

06:19:24.060 Felicity.

06:19:25.160 One.

06:19:26.300 Okay, there it is.

06:19:28.380 Really?

06:19:28.780 No, it's two.

06:19:29.880 I just lied.

06:19:30.860 Brian?

06:19:31.480 It's two.

06:19:31.780 Your turn?

06:19:34.160 Barrier Wisdom donated $69.

06:19:36.520 I definitely date female Brickson. 1.00

06:19:40.600 Oh, wow.

06:19:41.460 But first ID expected both from her.

06:19:44.400 She would not do that.

06:19:47.220 She would be like a boss babe. 0.93

06:19:49.320 Nah, nah.

06:19:50.440 She does look a little feminist-y, though. 1.00

06:19:54.720 The male, the female version of Brian. 0.81

06:19:56.440 Nah, nah, I'd date her. 0.96

06:19:57.980 That's why.

06:19:59.260 Woo! 0.99

06:20:01.000 Wow!

06:20:03.400 Go, Pasty! 1.00

06:20:04.460 Here you go.

06:20:05.760 And joy.

06:20:07.460 Champagne.

06:20:08.300 Yes!

06:20:09.860 Thanks, Pasty.

06:20:11.560 Come on, you know you want to see drunk Brian.

06:20:14.620 Wait, does that happen?

06:20:16.180 Oh, it's happened.

06:20:17.600 Does it?

06:20:19.120 Thank you, Pasty, man.

06:20:20.460 Thank you.

06:20:20.920 Sorry, I was a little distracted there. 0.99

06:20:22.500 You're a fucking legend, sir. 0.99

06:20:24.080 He's a brave and a decent man. 1.00

06:20:25.700 He's a pioneer.

06:20:27.700 You're a legend.

06:20:28.660 Champagne pop here.

06:20:29.840 We should all do it.

06:20:30.500 Freaking legendary.

06:20:31.820 And then, can you guys get going one of the apple ciders for the other peeps?

06:20:37.960 And then, let's also get some cups, por favor.

06:20:41.720 Yeah.

06:20:42.680 Good times.

06:20:43.420 Thank you, guys.

06:20:44.460 This is going to take me about a minute to get opened.

06:20:47.120 I'm really good at it. 0.96

06:20:47.680 Oh, wait, is this one of the shitty ones? 0.96

06:20:51.980 Lovely. 0.97

06:20:53.800 Yeah, I guess we can tap those.

06:20:56.640 Boom.

06:20:57.200 Those are cool cups.

06:20:59.580 Can I say something?

06:21:00.780 Yeah, go ahead.

06:21:01.240 I mean, this very respectfully, but I had a time limit that was given to me, and I have

06:21:06.920 to go because he is my ride and my lover, so.

06:21:10.440 Aw.

06:21:10.640 Well, I mean, in the thing, it does say, like, we may have to go later, and we didn't even

06:21:16.360 get to your notes.

06:21:17.240 Like, should we just at least get to your notes here?

06:21:19.220 How about that?

06:21:19.900 We can do that.

06:21:21.280 Okay.

06:21:21.940 All right.

06:21:22.640 I don't mean to rush.

06:21:23.280 This is why the wage gap exists, by the way.

06:21:25.320 No, it does.

06:21:25.960 Like, women. 1.00

06:21:26.800 Don't do that.

06:21:27.640 Oh, I've been to bars and nightclubs and stayed out till 3 a.m., but oh, my God, it's.

06:21:31.380 Oh, she's been a good sport. 1.00

06:21:32.900 But it goes to, like, the respect thing of, like, what you bring to the table for your

06:21:37.020 man, and one of the things.

06:21:39.060 You live an hour away, right?

06:21:40.220 And he's a ride home?

06:21:41.000 Yeah, he's my ride, and he gets up at 5 a.m., so.

06:21:43.840 Well, yeah, but.

06:21:44.680 He came to support me, and I don't want to be in trouble later.

06:21:49.740 Wait, do you have, like, a local hotel or something?

06:21:53.140 I'm just confused.

06:21:53.640 No, I live in Oxnard.

06:21:56.200 Oh, you're local?

06:21:57.180 Yeah.

06:21:57.640 But he, it's just, he drove me, and.

06:22:00.680 You don't, you don't drive?

06:22:02.240 I do, but he wanted to be supportive of me, and bring me, and.

06:22:07.100 Protect and provide.

06:22:08.300 Yeah, he did.

06:22:09.720 He was worried about me coming out here by myself.

06:22:13.000 Oh.

06:22:13.560 Okay.

06:22:15.040 All right.

06:22:17.620 Okay, your notes here.

06:22:19.060 Hold on.

06:22:22.400 Sorry, I'm trying to find it.

06:22:24.020 Christina, right?

06:22:25.060 Yeah, that's me.

06:22:26.280 Okay.

06:22:26.660 You said you were in a situation ship for five years.

06:22:28.920 You broke into his house, caught him cheating.

06:22:31.740 Wait, what?

06:22:32.760 Wait, what?

06:22:33.380 Why did we start with this?

06:22:34.740 Yeah.

06:22:34.920 I was a retired crash out, or I am a retired crash out, I guess you could say.

06:22:38.960 We were supposed to hang out, it was late at night, he told me to come over, and then I got

06:22:45.180 to his house, and he's like, oh, I have to take my mom to chew mash, and basically something

06:22:51.380 just instinctively told me to go check the back door, and I went into the back door, it

06:22:57.360 was open, and I went upstairs, and I found a female's purse on the bed, and I just tore it 1.00

06:23:08.060 open, and tore, like, threw something at his TV that he loved very, very much, and I, like,

06:23:15.380 literally just saw red.

06:23:16.440 There was some chocolate cake, I spread it all over the bed, and then after I destroyed

06:23:22.060 everything, he came home, and he found me, or, like, I came downstairs, we intersected

06:23:30.880 each other, and then he's like, it was crazy, and at some point, I made it to the back where

06:23:37.280 he keeps his weed, and I took an ounce of weed for him, from him, as, like, my collateral

06:23:44.220 damage.

06:23:49.080 Wow.

06:23:49.760 Yeah, and he dragged, he had to drag you out of the house?

06:23:53.340 Yes, he did.

06:23:54.320 Because, okay, did you get, was there, like, did you get in trouble with the law or anything?

06:23:59.760 They called me when I was already home, and they asked me, oh, were you there, did you

06:24:05.520 go into the house, and I pretty much was like, no, I've been home.

06:24:11.260 Okay.

06:24:12.440 So bad.

06:24:13.620 Okay.

06:24:14.600 Also, you said that the episode you just watched, Brian said that pregnancy wasn't a disability,

06:24:19.740 but you disagree with that, and a couple other topics?

06:24:24.200 Yes, the pregnancy thing, just because you can't actually get state disability, if you,

06:24:30.460 like, if you're unable to work because of the pregnancy, like, nausea.

06:24:35.520 You're a severe nausea, you can't get out of bed, you're on, like, a high-risk pregnancy.

06:24:40.020 So in those terms, I consider it a disability.

06:24:44.980 Well, but typically, like, pregnancy, most, my understanding, most women recover from their

06:24:55.840 pregnancies.

06:24:56.580 There might be temporary, I mean, for example, when you have food poisoning, arguably, you're

06:25:07.280 disabled, right?

06:25:08.480 You can't work, you're vomiting, you're in a temporary state of disability. 1.00

06:25:13.940 What are you fucking making faces about? 1.00

06:25:17.220 Food poisoning versus pregnancy. 1.00

06:25:18.360 Speak into the microphone kindly.

06:25:21.080 Food poisoning versus pregnancy is so different.

06:25:24.260 You're, like, carrying a whole child.

06:25:27.340 It actually maps on pretty well.

06:25:30.260 So there's a period during pregnancies where, yeah, you're, to some degree, not able to operate

06:25:37.980 properly, whether that's morning sickness or you're, like, a day away, you're having contractions

06:25:43.620 and shit, but I wouldn't categorize pregnancy, broadly speaking, like, as a disability. 0.72

06:25:54.760 I mean, women do work up until they're, like, literally gonna pop. 1.00

06:25:58.620 Right, but wouldn't this bolster my position?

06:26:02.540 The state gives you disability, like, if it's just a normal pregnancy, routine pregnancy, and

06:26:07.200 you are working, they give you up to, I think, when you're eight months pregnant, you're at

06:26:12.740 eight months pregnant, you're allowed to go on to disability because it is a lot on the 0.97

06:26:16.780 body to carry, like, my baby.

06:26:19.480 He was a big baby, you know?

06:26:20.860 Okay.

06:26:21.040 So.

06:26:21.680 I wish I would have known that.

06:26:23.260 Yeah, I had a big baby, too.

06:26:25.160 When I think of a disability.

06:26:29.360 Debilitating.

06:26:30.000 Can't function.

06:26:30.580 Like, I think something that is typically long-term.

06:26:37.520 So I guess it would be a short-term disability in a sense.

06:26:40.580 And, like, there's an expectation and an anticipation that the, that it will, like, resolve on its

06:26:50.700 own once after you give birth or, like, some period after the birth.

06:26:57.760 Yes.

06:26:58.460 But, like, I wouldn't characterize pregnancy as a disability, like, in the same vein as a

06:27:04.600 paraplegic.

06:27:05.620 Like, I would agree with that.

06:27:07.880 Yeah.

06:27:08.320 Because it's not the same, obviously, like.

06:27:10.440 Yeah, it's different.

06:27:11.880 But so, like, under this purview, I guess you could also argue that somebody who has food

06:27:19.800 poisoning is disabled.

06:27:22.640 That's a short-term.

06:27:24.080 Right.

06:27:24.420 It'd be short.

06:27:24.780 But in the same way that a pregnancy, I mean, look, sometimes there's, like, long-term complications

06:27:29.880 of pregnancy or whatever.

06:27:32.720 Yeah?

06:27:33.840 Well, I'm just agreeing.

06:27:35.860 Silently. 1.00

06:27:36.460 Yeah, but you're giving me weird looks like this guy's fucking crazy. 1.00

06:27:40.620 No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 0.99

06:27:42.400 I'm just an expressive person.

06:27:44.580 Okay.

06:27:46.300 I just, I don't, I don't think it's, like, I acknowledge that there are periods during the

06:27:52.760 pregnancy, especially close to birth, where women can be incapacitated, either from pain

06:27:58.180 or, you know, whatever it is.

06:28:00.540 Bedridden, yeah.

06:28:01.300 But, like, I don't know if I, at least in my mind, I don't know how California or governments

06:28:05.980 will categorize what constitutes, like, technically legal disability.

06:28:10.840 But, like, most women recover from their pregnancy and they're not disabled after the

06:28:18.660 pregnancy.

06:28:19.120 California is pretty generous when it comes to, especially moms and their disability.

06:28:24.380 So, I guess it's just a semantics thing, I guess?

06:28:28.140 Yeah, it could be.

06:28:28.560 Okay.

06:28:28.980 You said there were other topics that you disagreed on?

06:28:31.920 I honestly don't even think that it was necessarily topics that you had brought up or that you had

06:28:37.760 an opinion on.

06:28:38.420 It was, I think, the other panelists more say.

06:28:41.940 Okay.

06:28:42.280 And then, okay.

06:28:45.220 That's pretty much it for your notes, then.

06:28:47.260 Okay.

06:28:47.720 Well, thank you.

06:28:48.160 Thank you, guys.

06:28:49.560 I appreciate all of you.

06:28:50.280 Pasty George, thank you for the champagne pop.

06:28:52.620 Let's do a cheers. 0.99

06:28:54.220 Did we get one for Claire?

06:28:57.880 Did you want?

06:28:58.940 I'll have one.

06:29:00.040 Why?

06:29:00.480 Hello?

06:29:01.460 We don't have apple cider.

06:29:03.380 Oh, we don't?

06:29:04.440 It's Tomochico.

06:29:06.040 Oh, I thought we had apple cider.

06:29:07.640 Okay.

06:29:08.000 Whatever.

06:29:08.840 Cheers to the people who can.

06:29:11.380 Salut.

06:29:12.300 Salut.

06:29:12.780 Thank you, Pasty George.

06:29:13.480 Thank you, Pasty.

06:29:14.340 Thank you, Pasty.

06:29:16.440 Cheers.

06:29:16.840 Cheers.

06:29:18.160 Claire, you want the water?

06:29:19.520 Sure.

06:29:20.120 Oh, we're out the bottle.

06:29:22.060 All right.

06:29:22.880 Is this some Andre?

06:29:23.700 Should we put one of, like, the mannequins here?

06:29:26.200 Boy.

06:29:29.820 Wait.

06:29:30.400 Oh, that's below the threshold. 1.00

06:29:31.460 Charlie, what the fuck? 1.00

06:29:34.040 Your username's ridiculous. 1.00

06:29:35.860 You're below the threshold. 0.99

06:29:37.060 It's 69.

06:29:38.240 We're not doing 30.

06:29:40.660 Barrier Wisdom donated $69.

06:29:44.100 Holy fook. 0.59

06:29:45.160 Big W's for Pasty George. 0.97

06:29:47.560 Great show today.

06:29:48.740 Thank you, man.

06:29:49.120 Now I got to sleep, for I have class tomorrow.

06:29:52.340 We'll be putting the fear of God to these woke professors and feminists. 1.00

06:29:56.580 Good night.

06:29:57.580 Enjoy the clinking glasses emoji.

06:30:01.700 Yo, Barrier. 0.81

06:30:03.080 Thank you, man.

06:30:03.620 Thank you, Wisdom.

06:30:04.280 Appreciate it, man.

06:30:05.980 Let's see here.

06:30:07.020 We've done a lot of these.

06:30:17.440 Do you guys think that men are bad communicators?

06:30:21.620 Well, that's a loaded question.

06:30:24.700 Generally, yes.

06:30:26.060 Are women better communicators? 1.00

06:30:28.180 Not necessarily.

06:30:29.440 Okay.

06:30:29.720 What do you think?

06:30:30.860 I think it just depends on the person more than gender.

06:30:34.360 But generally, do you see a trend at all in your own experiences?

06:30:39.280 I don't know.

06:30:40.100 I think I'm a bad communicator myself.

06:30:42.480 How so?

06:30:43.400 I just, like, bottle things up and, like, don't tell people what's bothering me until it's, like, too late.

06:30:50.460 And it explodes?

06:30:52.060 Yeah.

06:30:52.820 Nice.

06:30:53.440 Okay.

06:30:54.200 What about you?

06:30:55.140 I think we're equally poor communicators.

06:30:58.860 I think men communicate in black and white, and we communicate in all the colors of gray.

06:31:03.500 So there tends to be a lack of understanding.

06:31:08.240 I think we're equally as bad communicators.

06:31:12.260 What about you?

06:31:13.320 I think I'm kind of on the black and white and gray thing.

06:31:17.300 I think I'm right there.

06:31:20.040 Okay.

06:31:21.480 Show of hands, who here has faked an orgasm? 0.66

06:31:27.040 Come on. 0.78

06:31:28.080 Don't be shy. 0.99

06:31:29.360 I'm being dead ass. 0.99

06:31:30.480 I haven't. 0.99

06:31:30.880 I really haven't. 1.00

06:31:32.120 Dead ass. 1.00

06:31:32.720 I know. 1.00

06:31:33.360 I don't know, man.

06:31:34.460 I think it's a horrible practice.

06:31:36.560 It's a horrible practice. 1.00

06:31:37.920 Faking orgasm. 0.99

06:31:39.360 I feel like that's pretty bad communication. 0.99

06:31:40.540 You're encouraging bad behavior.

06:31:42.060 I'm a horrible communicator.

06:31:44.000 Oh, okay.

06:31:46.340 Let's see here.

06:31:47.360 We have, we're going to blast through these notes.

06:31:51.060 Oh, Olivia.

06:31:52.340 Olivia.

06:31:52.880 Oh, wait.

06:31:53.460 There were some.

06:31:53.860 Okay.

06:31:55.060 Okay.

06:31:57.860 Let's see.

06:31:59.840 You said you have multiple dating stories.

06:32:01.680 One specific one was you got flown out by an NFL player.

06:32:05.920 Yes.

06:32:06.380 And I'll try to keep it as anonymous as possible.

06:32:08.600 Okay.

06:32:08.860 You said he went to the same college.

06:32:11.000 You guys got each other snaps.

06:32:12.480 He kind of went to MIA on all social media platforms.

06:32:16.680 All of a sudden he hit you up last year.

06:32:19.500 Yeah.

06:32:20.040 Wanted you to come out.

06:32:21.180 So you did.

06:32:21.940 And it was less than a 24 hour trip.

06:32:23.720 Yeah. 1.00

06:32:24.180 You ended up finding he has a baby mama and gotten some shit with her. 1.00

06:32:28.300 Oh, yeah. 1.00

06:32:29.180 Oh, yeah.

06:32:29.500 That's a great story.

06:32:32.040 Question, though.

06:32:32.960 So you guys, you knew each other in college.

06:32:35.740 Briefly.

06:32:36.580 We did not really know, actually.

06:32:39.300 Like, we.

06:32:40.160 Had you hooked up?

06:32:41.120 No.

06:32:42.060 Okay.

06:32:42.480 But you guys went to college together.

06:32:45.300 He slides into your Snapchat, was it?

06:32:48.560 Okay.

06:32:49.240 And this also, like, kind of segues into another question I know you've had before.

06:32:53.020 But, yeah.

06:32:53.820 Go on.

06:32:55.140 Oh, what is that question?

06:32:56.300 So, like, I know previously, like, you've asked people, like, is having social media or no social media, like, a red flag or not?

06:33:04.520 And I think, just from my experience, having no social media is a red flag.

06:33:10.520 I'm so opposite.

06:33:11.940 Yeah.

06:33:12.800 I, at least from the male perspective, I'd probably green flag for women to not have social media. 1.00

06:33:20.860 So, how soon, he flew you out?

06:33:24.380 Like, he paid for it?

06:33:25.220 Yeah.

06:33:25.740 Okay.

06:33:27.120 Less than a 24-hour trip, did you guys hook up?

06:33:30.080 Ended up, no.

06:33:31.400 Hmm?

06:33:31.680 No.

06:33:32.400 But that was, I mean, if a guy's flying you out, I mean, what else does he want?

06:33:37.260 Yeah, yeah.

06:33:38.560 So, you show up and you weren't feeling it?

06:33:44.200 I honestly felt off about it.

06:33:46.280 Like, when I got there, like, when I got there and I met him, I just.

06:33:50.040 Like, he was being weird or?

06:33:51.820 A little bit, yeah.

06:33:53.580 What if you were being weird?

06:33:55.500 I mean, I'll be completely honest.

06:33:57.780 I am kind of strange and awkward.

06:33:59.400 So, like, I don't know.

06:34:00.720 Like, I would say, usually, when I do talk to guys, like, they.

06:34:05.160 Yeah.

06:34:05.500 They're just weirded out by.

06:34:06.800 No, no, no, no.

06:34:07.640 They're not weirded out.

06:34:08.540 They're not weirded out.

06:34:09.480 But, like, just.

06:34:10.480 I don't know.

06:34:11.120 What position did he play?

06:34:12.540 Just curious.

06:34:12.980 Um, he was also.

06:34:15.860 Uh, he.

06:34:18.360 What position?

06:34:19.960 I don't.

06:34:20.520 I honestly don't want to get, like.

06:34:23.900 Honestly, though.

06:34:24.720 He was not.

06:34:25.320 He was.

06:34:25.840 I feel like.

06:34:26.240 Not a starter.

06:34:26.900 He was not a starter.

06:34:27.840 I feel like you've already provided enough information that somebody could probably figure

06:34:32.120 out who the NFL player is.

06:34:33.720 Because you said he went to your same school. 1.00

06:34:36.620 Oh, shit. 0.99

06:34:39.180 So, it means he's probably your same age range. 1.00

06:34:42.700 So, it's like.

06:34:43.960 Okay.

06:34:44.180 He has a baby mama.

06:34:45.240 Wait.

06:34:45.280 Did she say where she went to school?

06:34:47.760 Yeah.

06:34:48.340 Arizona.

06:34:49.500 Arizona.

06:34:50.060 Well, you don't have to repeat it.

06:34:51.580 Felicity. 1.00

06:34:52.160 What the fuck? 0.99

06:34:53.460 Sorry. 0.99

06:34:54.220 It's already out there.

06:34:55.180 So.

06:34:55.980 Ooh.

06:34:56.320 Yeah.

06:34:56.580 That.

06:34:56.840 You can narrow that down to, like, five players.

06:34:59.480 Everybody in the chat is fast forward.

06:35:01.500 You're winding.

06:35:02.800 Chat is.

06:35:03.740 Chat is.

06:35:04.340 Chat.

06:35:04.600 Who is.

06:35:05.120 Who is the guy?

06:35:06.520 Well, no.

06:35:06.960 We don't.

06:35:07.180 She doesn't have to add him.

06:35:08.500 But.

06:35:08.760 Good job.

06:35:09.960 Have you been flown out other times?

06:35:12.460 No.

06:35:13.020 Okay.

06:35:13.280 Anybody here been flown out by a guy?

06:35:15.380 Claire?

06:35:16.620 Dubai?

06:35:17.260 Dubai?

06:35:18.020 Anybody?

06:35:19.260 You've been flown out?

06:35:20.220 Come on.

06:35:20.460 You've been flown out?

06:35:22.020 Um.

06:35:22.380 It's part.

06:35:22.940 Yeah.

06:35:23.100 I've been flown out before.

06:35:23.900 Flown out?

06:35:24.320 Not to Dubai.

06:35:24.840 Flewed out?

06:35:25.980 Flewed out.

06:35:26.980 Flewed out.

06:35:29.020 Um.

06:35:30.480 Um.

06:35:30.840 Okay.

06:35:31.360 Um.

06:35:32.700 Hmm.

06:35:34.200 Have you dated any other famous people?

06:35:36.160 Athletes?

06:35:36.640 Musicians?

06:35:37.320 Or is this the only, like, famous?

06:35:39.940 Well, I don't know if he's.

06:35:40.480 No.

06:35:41.620 Well.

06:35:42.140 Like, bro.

06:35:42.560 I would say yes, yes.

06:35:43.580 Well.

06:35:44.040 I wouldn't even say he's kind of famous.

06:35:46.080 But.

06:35:47.260 But I mean.

06:35:47.760 He plays in the NFL.

06:35:48.680 No.

06:35:48.980 No.

06:35:49.420 No other, like.

06:35:50.740 No.

06:35:51.180 No other names.

06:35:52.000 Kind of like.

06:35:52.580 No.

06:35:53.360 Okay.

06:35:54.300 Um.

06:35:54.740 And then you'd want to talk about age gaps.

06:35:58.280 Oh.

06:35:58.700 Did I?

06:35:59.340 I don't even remember what I said.

06:36:00.940 I don't remember what I said.

06:36:02.580 Bro.

06:36:02.960 Wait.

06:36:03.280 Wait.

06:36:03.820 Actually, no.

06:36:04.380 I don't.

06:36:04.700 I don't want to, like, help people figure out who it is.

06:36:07.920 But.

06:36:09.120 What you do.

06:36:10.260 No.

06:36:10.500 No.

06:36:10.680 No.

06:36:10.820 I won't do it.

06:36:11.520 I'm not going to do it.

06:36:12.300 Um.

06:36:13.740 But it's, like, literally, there's.

06:36:16.060 No.

06:36:16.480 No.

06:36:16.580 Okay.

06:36:16.800 So this is.

06:36:17.260 Age gap.

06:36:18.280 Uh.

06:36:18.640 Are you against for age gaps?

06:36:21.540 What's your.

06:36:22.300 Um.

06:36:23.740 I.

06:36:28.640 I.

06:36:29.640 Well.

06:36:30.500 I am for age gaps.

06:36:32.460 You're for?

06:36:33.280 I mean.

06:36:33.720 I don't necessarily, like, think it's a.

06:36:35.580 Like, a.

06:36:37.440 Like, it has to be.

06:36:38.900 But, like.

06:36:39.740 Okay.

06:36:40.300 But, like.

06:36:40.960 Mm-hmm.

06:36:41.240 I can see.

06:36:43.320 Well.

06:36:43.600 I understand.

06:36:45.260 Like, if.

06:36:46.260 The age gap.

06:36:48.160 Okay.

06:36:48.880 Yeah.

06:36:49.960 So you're fine with it.

06:36:50.880 I'm fine with it, yeah.

06:36:51.520 What's the oldest guy you've dated?

06:36:54.280 Like, oldest age gap?

06:36:56.040 Uh.

06:36:56.600 Yeah.

06:36:57.480 17.

06:36:58.560 17 years.

06:36:59.460 So you were, what?

06:37:00.320 21?

06:37:02.000 Um.

06:37:02.480 I was.

06:37:05.080 22.

06:37:06.960 22.

06:37:07.880 And he was.

06:37:10.100 39?

06:37:12.220 Okay.

06:37:12.920 All right.

06:37:13.540 Uh.

06:37:14.960 Age gaps.

06:37:15.780 For.

06:37:16.260 Against.

06:37:16.540 21.

06:37:19.920 I'm.

06:37:21.060 Not.

06:37:21.620 Usually.

06:37:21.940 Into it.

06:37:22.900 To be honest.

06:37:24.940 But are you.

06:37:25.440 Uh.

06:37:25.740 Maybe you.

06:37:26.580 Personal preference.

06:37:27.380 Don't like it.

06:37:28.000 But.

06:37:28.480 Do you think they're icky?

06:37:29.540 Are they weird?

06:37:30.440 Are men creepy?

06:37:31.480 Predators?

06:37:32.260 Blah blah blah.

06:37:32.940 It really.

06:37:33.680 Really depends.

06:37:34.620 Like.

06:37:34.860 If a.

06:37:36.120 18 year old.

06:37:36.960 Is getting with like.

06:37:37.960 A 60 year old man.

06:37:39.480 It's a little predatory.

06:37:41.160 Uh.

06:37:41.180 How about 20, 30?

06:37:42.600 20 and 30?

06:37:43.540 Yeah.

06:37:43.860 That's not bad.

06:37:45.260 Okay.

06:37:45.820 Uh.

06:37:46.240 18, 28.

06:37:47.940 18 and 28.

06:37:49.100 That's a little weird.

06:37:50.840 Uh.

06:37:51.260 20, 35.

06:37:52.540 20 and 35?

06:37:54.340 Yeah.

06:37:54.680 Well.

06:37:55.000 It's just different stages of life.

06:37:57.060 Like.

06:37:57.380 In my opinion.

06:37:58.140 That is true.

06:37:58.800 That's true.

06:37:59.200 Like.

06:37:59.380 You're freshly 18.

06:38:00.760 You just stop being a minor.

06:38:02.260 You can't even legally drink.

06:38:04.260 I think.

06:38:05.380 Anything past 21.

06:38:08.300 Like.

06:38:08.660 If you can legally drink.

06:38:10.120 In age gaps.

06:38:11.320 Okay.

06:38:13.000 Okay.

06:38:13.700 Claire.

06:38:14.280 What do you think?

06:38:15.060 For me.

06:38:15.640 I think it's such a red flag.

06:38:17.180 When like.

06:38:17.740 A guy is like.

06:38:18.880 Oh.

06:38:19.340 Like.

06:38:19.560 That doesn't matter.

06:38:20.560 Like.

06:38:20.760 Because I.

06:38:21.140 I did meet this one guy.

06:38:22.360 And I told him.

06:38:23.280 Like.

06:38:23.400 I just graduated high school.

06:38:25.140 And then he told me.

06:38:26.180 He's 28.

06:38:26.960 And then he still asked me.

06:38:28.200 To hang out after that.

06:38:29.820 And I told him.

06:38:30.960 Like.

06:38:31.220 I don't feel comfortable.

06:38:32.060 With the age gap.

06:38:33.060 Because like.

06:38:33.400 You're like.

06:38:33.840 What?

06:38:33.980 Almost 30.

06:38:34.880 And I told you.

06:38:35.500 I just graduated high school.

06:38:36.940 And then he sends me.

06:38:37.920 This whole paragraph.

06:38:38.640 Saying how like.

06:38:39.980 He's like.

06:38:40.600 A trusted godfather.

06:38:41.800 To his friends.

06:38:43.700 He like.

06:38:44.600 All of his like.

06:38:45.480 Lady friends.

06:38:46.240 Like trust him.

06:38:47.100 And stuff like that.

06:38:48.020 And he was like. 0.66

06:38:48.900 Mad that I like.

06:38:50.220 Said no.

06:38:51.340 And so.

06:38:51.920 I feel like.

06:38:52.400 That's like.

06:38:53.080 Well.

06:38:53.240 That's like kind of like.

06:38:54.380 Weird for me.

06:38:55.320 Because I didn't even say no.

06:38:56.420 In a mean way.

06:38:57.120 I just said.

06:38:57.520 Sure.

06:38:58.060 I don't think I would feel comfortable.

06:38:59.800 With that.

06:39:00.360 Yeah.

06:39:00.500 Well I think.

06:39:01.700 Regardless of his age.

06:39:02.780 That's weird.

06:39:03.580 Once you've like.

06:39:05.040 Dispensed with the rejection.

06:39:06.760 To be like.

06:39:07.840 Super pushy with it.

06:39:08.960 Like that.

06:39:09.360 And be like.

06:39:10.000 Well you're wrong.

06:39:11.120 And da da da da.

06:39:11.580 That's weird.

06:39:12.280 Like.

06:39:12.480 Like just take the L as a guy.

06:39:14.040 If you get rejected.

06:39:15.040 Take the L.

06:39:15.620 Move on.

06:39:16.060 Plenty of fish in the sea.

06:39:16.980 Plenty of other women. 1.00

06:39:18.320 Who would be interested.

06:39:19.500 But I don't know if that's.

06:39:20.460 Like him being weird like that.

06:39:21.700 Is really related to his age.

06:39:23.540 But in any case.

06:39:24.640 You.

06:39:24.940 It sounds like you.

06:39:25.960 Wouldn't date an older guy.

06:39:27.340 Is that correct?

06:39:28.200 Yeah.

06:39:28.540 I feel like.

06:39:29.120 Even.

06:39:29.640 Like.

06:39:29.940 I've talked to guys.

06:39:31.060 Who are like 20.

06:39:32.220 And like that.

06:39:32.720 Like the two year.

06:39:33.360 Even that.

06:39:34.040 Even then.

06:39:34.700 Like they're like.

06:39:35.600 Very hesitant about it.

06:39:37.160 The guys are hesitant?

06:39:38.420 Yeah.

06:39:38.860 Oh.

06:39:39.160 Okay.

06:39:39.620 And like.

06:39:40.700 You know.

06:39:41.080 It's just.

06:39:41.700 It's just like.

06:39:42.500 If you are 20.

06:39:43.880 And you're saying like.

06:39:44.680 I don't feel comfortable.

06:39:45.680 About two year age gap.

06:39:46.640 For me.

06:39:46.960 Like the 10 year age gap.

06:39:48.120 Is kind of crazy.

06:39:48.800 To be like pushing it.

06:39:50.300 I mean.

06:39:51.520 A 20 and an 18 year old.

06:39:53.140 I don't think it's that crazy.

06:39:54.440 But.

06:39:54.920 Don't.

06:39:55.180 I see no issue there.

06:39:56.740 But I mean.

06:39:57.640 I don't know if we can use that.

06:39:58.860 As an example.

06:40:01.960 Of.

06:40:04.680 Like.

06:40:05.160 Because these people over here.

06:40:07.260 Even these guys.

06:40:08.100 Who are young.

06:40:08.900 Wouldn't date somebody younger.

06:40:10.460 That we can like.

06:40:11.280 Draw from that.

06:40:12.320 Infer from that.

06:40:13.200 That.

06:40:13.940 Well.

06:40:14.480 Of course.

06:40:14.740 Well.

06:40:14.900 Then it's definitely doubly.

06:40:16.260 Triply.

06:40:16.940 Way weirder.

06:40:17.940 If it's an older guy.

06:40:19.220 But.

06:40:19.740 I do have a question for you.

06:40:21.260 So like.

06:40:22.360 Like in high school.

06:40:23.660 If you.

06:40:24.360 I know.

06:40:25.500 This happens often.

06:40:26.500 Like.

06:40:27.120 You're 16.

06:40:28.060 Let's say you're.

06:40:28.820 A woman.

06:40:29.520 And you're 16.

06:40:30.240 And then.

06:40:31.060 You get in a relationship.

06:40:31.820 With someone that's 18. 0.94

06:40:33.360 And then they go off to college.

06:40:34.620 And you're still in high school.

06:40:35.920 How do you feel about that?

06:40:37.360 I mean.

06:40:37.860 Me personally.

06:40:38.560 Since my friends are 18.

06:40:39.760 If they were dating a 16 year old.

06:40:41.260 In high school.

06:40:41.980 I would just be a little iffy.

06:40:43.680 Because I feel like.

06:40:44.580 It's just such a big transition.

06:40:46.500 Like from being in high school.

06:40:47.820 And like.

06:40:48.300 Living.

06:40:49.260 I'm sorry.

06:40:49.720 With your parents.

06:40:50.360 Like living alone.

06:40:51.300 And like.

06:40:52.000 You know.

06:40:52.280 Doing all those things.

06:40:53.260 It's like a.

06:40:53.960 It's a pretty big.

06:40:54.860 Gap.

06:40:55.580 In just like.

06:40:56.260 Terms of life.

06:40:57.960 Stages.

06:40:59.180 Well.

06:40:59.680 I guess sticking.

06:41:00.440 What's the oldest stage you would date?

06:41:02.420 Like 20.

06:41:03.720 You wouldn't go over 20.

06:41:05.780 Maybe 21.

06:41:06.920 Oldest.

06:41:07.200 Maybe 21.

06:41:07.900 Okay.

06:41:08.120 And it would be.

06:41:09.680 It would be icky.

06:41:11.340 If.

06:41:12.580 Like for example.

06:41:13.320 If you saw a 20 year old.

06:41:14.480 Dating a 30 year old.

06:41:15.200 Weird.

06:41:16.460 Not as much.

06:41:17.220 I think it's just because.

06:41:18.640 I'm 18.

06:41:19.180 Me personally.

06:41:19.900 I wouldn't want to date anyone that old. 0.78

06:41:21.720 Right.

06:41:23.320 Okay.

06:41:24.680 Yeah.

06:41:25.080 What about you?

06:41:25.820 Thoughts?

06:41:26.300 Age gaps?

06:41:27.000 Yeah.

06:41:27.340 I'm pretty cool with it.

06:41:28.420 Because I'm accustomed to it.

06:41:29.980 Because I'm from Utah.

06:41:31.120 Where.

06:41:31.620 Okay.

06:41:32.140 Everyone gets married.

06:41:33.180 Like.

06:41:33.920 Not everyone.

06:41:34.720 A lot of people get married right out of high school.

06:41:36.560 Mm-hmm.

06:41:36.960 To older people.

06:41:38.960 So.

06:41:39.420 All right.

06:41:39.740 Your thoughts?

06:41:40.060 I don't know.

06:41:40.320 It's fine.

06:41:42.000 Big fan.

06:41:43.220 Big fan.

06:41:43.880 Big fan.

06:41:44.540 Big.

06:41:45.440 Big fan.

06:41:46.260 Big.

06:41:46.960 Huge.

06:41:47.400 Huge.

06:41:47.860 Huge fan.

06:41:49.080 Huge.

06:41:49.240 The biggest fan maybe.

06:41:50.220 I've only been with one person younger than myself.

06:41:53.220 Ooh.

06:41:53.580 Cougar.

06:41:53.920 And not.

06:41:55.200 It was three years.

06:41:56.460 I was married to him.

06:41:57.480 Just kidding.

06:41:57.680 Just hated it.

06:41:58.540 Yeah.

06:41:58.940 No.

06:41:59.160 I actually have always.

06:42:00.120 Always preferred a large age gap.

06:42:01.880 I just feel more comfortable.

06:42:03.460 Sure.

06:42:04.620 Well.

06:42:05.060 It sounds like you're fine with it.

06:42:06.140 Lindsay.

06:42:06.660 Age gap.

06:42:07.840 Sure.

06:42:08.460 Mike.

06:42:08.600 Mike.

06:42:08.800 Mike.

06:42:08.940 Mike.

06:42:09.140 Mike.

06:42:09.600 Yeah.

06:42:10.420 Okay.

06:42:11.220 Because my husbands were younger than me.

06:42:13.860 Oh.

06:42:15.260 Okay.

06:42:16.480 Let's see here.

06:42:17.860 So that's Olivia's notes.

06:42:19.140 We finished those.

06:42:21.340 Let's see.

06:42:22.140 We have.

06:42:24.640 Claire.

06:42:25.360 I think we.

06:42:26.360 Yeah.

06:42:26.580 We did yours.

06:42:27.800 Rachel.

06:42:28.740 Oh no.

06:42:29.800 You're 23.

06:42:31.080 You were in a band.

06:42:31.840 You married to the guitarist a few years later stroking out your room.

06:42:38.960 You divorced him and married the lead singer.

06:42:42.100 Oh.

06:42:42.900 Of the same band?

06:42:44.180 Mic drop.

06:42:45.640 Literally.

06:42:46.120 This is Utah.

06:42:47.100 Welcome.

06:42:50.100 Why did we start with all this stuff? 0.98

06:42:53.800 Busy talking about other shit I guess. 0.99

06:42:56.000 Wait. 0.99

06:42:56.360 So.

06:42:58.840 He's.

06:42:59.720 Wait.

06:43:00.580 Was he paying you alimony?

06:43:02.420 No.

06:43:05.920 And your two kids are from your current.

06:43:08.120 Yes.

06:43:08.880 Okay.

06:43:09.260 Okay.

06:43:09.660 Yeah.

06:43:10.460 So wait.

06:43:11.360 You're in a band.

06:43:12.320 Yes.

06:43:12.740 Married to the guitarist.

06:43:13.740 Yes.

06:43:14.020 Famous band?

06:43:14.900 No.

06:43:15.980 Like.

06:43:17.140 In my town.

06:43:19.220 The music scene is pretty.

06:43:20.600 Sure.

06:43:20.960 It's fun.

06:43:21.800 It's good.

06:43:22.440 But a few years later you divorced him and you married the lead singer.

06:43:25.860 Yeah.

06:43:26.680 Is the band broken up?

06:43:28.720 It is now.

06:43:29.840 But we stayed together.

06:43:30.720 Wow. 1.00

06:43:31.180 You're fucking Yoko. 1.00

06:43:32.140 Yoko. 1.00

06:43:32.580 The band.

06:43:33.860 You Yoko.

06:43:34.580 We stayed together for a really long time as a band.

06:43:37.900 Oh.

06:43:38.140 You were in the band?

06:43:39.020 Yeah.

06:43:39.480 Yeah.

06:43:39.720 Oh my lord.

06:43:40.820 Oh.

06:43:41.240 Yeah.

06:43:41.600 You were in the band.

06:43:42.400 What did you do?

06:43:43.500 I was also a singer.

06:43:44.860 Sing.

06:43:45.200 Yeah.

06:43:45.700 Oh no.

06:43:46.320 I am not a good singer. 1.00

06:43:47.220 Damn it. 0.99

06:43:48.440 Was it like a scream band? 1.00

06:43:49.820 It was like a punky.

06:43:51.240 Yeah.

06:43:51.860 Good for you.

06:43:52.660 Yeah.

06:43:52.840 It was really fun.

06:43:53.280 I love this for you.

06:43:54.140 It was fun.

06:43:54.360 This is a good one.

06:43:55.100 You dated a musician when you were 20.

06:43:57.200 Yeah.

06:43:58.100 This is crazy.

06:43:58.760 And you said he was going to tour with Jack Johnson.

06:44:00.580 Yes.

06:44:00.940 Which was a lie.

06:44:02.480 And you thought it would impress you.

06:44:04.580 But you don't like Jack Johnson.

06:44:06.920 You think he's the worst.

06:44:07.340 No.

06:44:07.360 I hate Jack Johnson.

06:44:08.900 And he was trying to take me out.

06:44:10.220 I like Jack Johnson.

06:44:13.240 It's like feel good upbeat music.

06:44:15.460 I.

06:44:16.260 Banana pancakes.

06:44:18.360 My least favorite song ever.

06:44:21.480 Can't stand it.

06:44:22.360 I've got some Jack Johnson on my phone.

06:44:25.120 Play it.

06:44:25.920 I'd rather not.

06:44:27.420 Oh.

06:44:28.180 No.

06:44:28.660 I think he thought it would impress me.

06:44:30.620 He was like, I'm going on tour with Jack Johnson.

06:44:32.640 It'd be kind of impressed.

06:44:33.500 It did.

06:44:33.940 I did.

06:44:34.260 You end up dating him a little bit.

06:44:37.060 Disavow.

06:44:37.980 I like his music.

06:44:39.860 You know, it's a little.

06:44:40.980 It's.

06:44:41.480 It's like feel good.

06:44:42.920 I don't know.

06:44:43.280 It's feel good music.

06:44:44.320 But I was like a punk emo kid.

06:44:46.500 Oh, okay.

06:44:47.140 Yeah.

06:44:47.540 He's a little different.

06:44:48.480 Yeah.

06:44:48.660 He's a more short guy.

06:44:49.480 I was a punk emo kid too at one point.

06:44:52.240 He actually went to UCSB.

06:44:54.220 I'm.

06:44:55.820 I'm a screamer.

06:44:57.800 You're a screamer. 0.76

06:44:58.860 All right.

06:44:59.200 Great.

06:44:59.600 You guys are having sidebars about music.

06:45:01.480 Great. 1.00

06:45:01.660 Um, if I, you said, if you ever get divorced again, you would stay single AF as fuck. 1.00

06:45:06.820 Yeah, for sure. 0.99

06:45:07.720 You said dating's crazy.

06:45:08.760 You're scared. 0.93

06:45:09.280 You'd get serial murdered.

06:45:10.580 Uh-huh.

06:45:10.940 Wow.

06:45:12.160 That's like a me thing.

06:45:13.500 Cause I'm scared of everything.

06:45:15.180 Okay.

06:45:15.580 Uh, you said, lots of true crime.

06:45:17.640 You said everyone is banging everyone and everyone has an STD.

06:45:21.000 Yeah. 0.69

06:45:21.560 No shame.

06:45:22.120 You just don't want one.

06:45:23.120 Yeah.

06:45:23.680 Um, who here has had an STD?

06:45:26.960 Not me.

06:45:27.860 Olivia.

06:45:28.540 I thought you were pointing.

06:45:29.120 Olivia.

06:45:29.760 No.

06:45:30.480 Have you had an STD?

06:45:31.480 No.

06:45:31.860 Okay.

06:45:32.100 No.

06:45:32.640 Ophelia did.

06:45:33.800 Ophelia did.

06:45:34.700 That is so true.

06:45:35.600 Chamedia.

06:45:35.900 But she was banging everyone. 1.00

06:45:38.980 Yeah.

06:45:39.340 A hundred men.

06:45:41.180 Yeah.

06:45:41.760 A hundred men.

06:45:42.900 I still can't believe that happened.

06:45:45.300 I still. 1.00

06:45:45.800 Yo, clip that shit and ship it, boys. 1.00

06:45:48.120 That's crazy. 1.00

06:45:49.220 Fuck. 1.00

06:45:50.060 She literally wanted to unlive you without saying it in that exact form. 1.00

06:45:56.300 Yep.

06:45:56.720 Everybody watching, if you didn't watch the beginning, everyone needs to rewind once we are done and see.

06:46:03.080 The, the, Brian's a victim.

06:46:06.340 I'm.

06:46:07.400 Literally.

06:46:08.100 We're all victims.

06:46:09.220 We all, it'll be, it'll be on YouTube shorts by the morning.

06:46:12.040 I don't think I ever.

06:46:13.380 We should have disinfected that chair. 1.00

06:46:15.020 I know.

06:46:15.380 I was thinking about that.

06:46:16.440 You need to get, you need to get checked after this.

06:46:19.000 Hang on.

06:46:19.780 Is that what that itch is?

06:46:21.520 I almost like lost it.

06:46:23.700 It's the fast acting.

06:46:25.140 Oh, wow.

06:46:25.540 I couldn't keep it together because it was just so.

06:46:28.000 I thought she was going to start swinging. 1.00

06:46:29.420 She was being so sweet.

06:46:31.140 Oh, she liked me.

06:46:31.900 I don't know if that's a compliment job.

06:46:33.080 Yeah.

06:46:33.260 She goes, I really like you.

06:46:34.720 She's going to like the gals. 1.00

06:46:36.180 But no, but she was being really sweet.

06:46:37.680 And she said that.

06:46:38.640 She's like, you get a picture.

06:46:38.980 I was like, sure.

06:46:39.560 And then I said my thing and she said hers.

06:46:41.500 And I was like, say what?

06:46:43.740 What?

06:46:44.340 Insane.

06:46:45.300 Yeah.

06:46:46.280 You said generally overall, you like, oh, we talked about the bow already.

06:46:50.420 Yeah.

06:46:50.660 We already talked about that.

06:46:51.720 I think we mostly covered that.

06:46:53.620 Yeah.

06:46:53.900 I think I didn't finish my final point on that though.

06:46:56.660 It's just ultimately when it, look, when it comes to the bow, I think women expect certain 1.00

06:47:01.120 things from men.

06:47:02.300 I think the bow is pretty benign, takes no effort.

06:47:06.580 What if I'm like, I will do anything else.

06:47:10.460 I do not want to bow.

06:47:12.460 I mean, I would call into question.

06:47:14.120 So like my ideal dynamic, and I acknowledge that people want different dynamics in their

06:47:19.440 relationship would be, and by the way, it's not even like a sexual thing, but my ideal

06:47:27.820 dynamic would be one where my girlfriend, whatever, she is just, she is deferring to

06:47:35.420 me on various things.

06:47:38.500 And, uh, I think if she's unwilling to do this one small thing, I have to think what

06:47:46.920 other sort of feminist programming does she have in her mind where she won't do that. 1.00

06:47:52.540 So I'm, maybe I'm wrong.

06:47:54.380 I could be wrong, but you know what?

06:47:56.740 A lot of men, like for example, right?

06:47:59.920 Women do this all the time. 1.00

06:48:02.040 Oh, if the guy doesn't pay for the first date, then that means he's not going to be

06:48:05.360 a good provider.

06:48:06.540 Well, like logically that it could be the case, but logically, for example, could it

06:48:11.440 be possible that the man who's a billionaire would want to go 50, 50 on the first date?

06:48:17.040 Like it's maybe it's unlikely, but logically, right?

06:48:23.820 He could like, there's nothing stopping a billionaire from being like, you know what?

06:48:28.680 Let's go 50, 50 on the state.

06:48:30.260 Right.

06:48:30.800 Yeah.

06:48:31.360 But so some women would be like, well, you know what? 1.00

06:48:36.320 He wants to go 50, 50 on deal breaker.

06:48:39.900 Yeah.

06:48:40.160 If I know you're a billionaire and you made me split it and you're like, I've, I'm, I'm

06:48:43.960 probably going for the second date.

06:48:45.260 Yeah.

06:48:45.960 You're going for the second date.

06:48:46.940 If I know you're a billionaire and you're like, Hey, let's go 50, 50.

06:48:50.180 I'm just gonna be like, okay.

06:48:51.200 I mean, this is a test, right?

06:48:53.660 Right.

06:48:54.160 But a long game.

06:48:55.160 Yeah.

06:48:55.560 But so women have this like sort of threshold of, well, he won't pay for the date. 0.98

06:49:04.020 They're saying in their head, it's not so much about the 10, 20, 30, $40 that I would

06:49:08.720 have to spend on the date.

06:49:09.720 It's about what does it mean for the future?

06:49:13.080 In this case, if a woman's unwilling to do this thing that I think is complete, it's 1.00

06:49:18.040 effortless, right?

06:49:19.900 Um, you know, if it's something that would make me happy, I have to call into question,

06:49:27.000 what else is she going to fight me on? 1.00

06:49:30.040 I know it's stupid. 1.00

06:49:31.260 I know it's silly. 0.99

06:49:32.180 I know it's culturally like kind of odd and peculiar or whatever, but if she fights me

06:49:40.080 on this, I just, I'm going to assume, and maybe I'm assuming wrongly that she's going

06:49:44.080 to fight me on other things.

06:49:45.640 So it's a temperature check really for how submissive she is. 0.99

06:49:50.260 What does it mean to you to be bowed to?

06:49:52.660 Like, does it mean love?

06:49:53.780 Does it mean respect?

06:49:54.520 Like, I feel like if you were to define it to your spouse as this represents this to

06:49:59.260 me, it doesn't mean, you know, cause I feel like your definition is very harsh as opposed

06:50:04.080 to what his is.

06:50:05.080 But, but the thing with that is I don't want to have to even negotiate with her on it.

06:50:09.660 Like, like I want her to be like, yes, sir.

06:50:13.420 Yes, Brian.

06:50:14.380 Okay.

06:50:14.780 Like there's, because in the same way, like you don't want to help her understand your point

06:50:19.860 of view.

06:50:20.180 If for some reason there's a discomfort, just get it.

06:50:22.780 Okay.

06:50:23.100 I want her to just get it in the same way that women don't want to like have a, like 1.00

06:50:27.280 imagine, I don't know if we brought this up on the show.

06:50:30.980 If the guy wanted to have a conversation with you about paying for the first date, he's like,

06:50:36.500 Hey, um, can we talk about this?

06:50:40.140 Like, let's negotiate this.

06:50:42.160 Like, tell me why you want me to pay for the first date.

06:50:44.760 I feel like a lot of women, they wouldn't even entertain that. 1.00

06:50:48.200 They would be like, eh, nevermind about the date.

06:50:51.360 That's a great point.

06:50:52.180 They wouldn't, they wouldn't want to.

06:50:54.800 And maybe he's open to hearing your perspective and maybe he's open to hearing his mind changed.

06:51:00.300 But the moment he questions having to adhere to his role or sorry, uh, the moment, sorry, the woman, uh, here's this questioning of him having to adhere to his role.

06:51:11.960 Well, she, I think a lot of women, immediate ick. 1.00

06:51:16.080 Oh, you want to negotiate that you have to pay for the date?

06:51:19.240 Nope.

06:51:19.700 Nevermind.

06:51:20.340 Not interested in the date anymore.

06:51:21.460 Wait, where does the bowing thing come from though?

06:51:23.780 I'm kind of confused.

06:51:24.860 Like it, like, is it like borrowed from like Asian culture?

06:51:27.680 Cause like, no, no.

06:51:28.520 I mean, you know, look, the, the bow hasn't just coalesced out of the ether bowing has actually been used in, um, Western cultures, for example, to Kings, for example, uh, people do bow. 0.99

06:51:45.120 Hey, look, y'all women want to be treated like Queens shit. 1.00

06:51:49.440 Y'all princess treatment queen tree. 1.00

06:51:52.600 He's a tree.

06:51:53.260 I'm a queen.

06:51:55.480 I'm a king.

06:51:56.380 I will.

06:51:57.300 And by the way, my pronouns, rub his feet.

06:52:00.280 Yep.

06:52:00.580 Massage his head.

06:52:02.580 Sure.

06:52:03.940 Sure.

06:52:04.440 Don't get the bow.

06:52:05.880 You know, what's actually interesting though, is I say this, but like the reality is, um, I'm not going to be bent out of shape. 0.99

06:52:15.120 If she honestly like rarely bows, I'm not going to be like, what the fuck you missed your bow today. 0.98

06:52:21.080 Get with the program. 0.98

06:52:23.200 It's the willingness to do it upfront. 0.92

06:52:25.580 And if she does it, I don't know, a couple times, honestly could fucking care less if she actually does it could care fucking less, but it's just the temperature check in the same way that women have this temperature check when it comes to paying for the first date. 1.00

06:52:38.320 And it's like, if the guy wants to, well, explain to me why I should pay for the first date. 0.96

06:52:44.000 Oh my God, bro.

06:52:45.180 The girl, it's over.

06:52:47.580 She's going to, it's done with that guy.

06:52:49.880 So I'm like, women do this. 1.00

06:52:53.280 Men do this.

06:52:55.580 Yeah.

06:52:58.320 I don't know.

06:52:59.320 Um, also like, I guess my confusion is I think it's wholesome.

06:53:03.220 Like, for example, I don't know, maybe this is better.

06:53:07.080 Um, like, would you cook for a man?

06:53:12.660 Yeah.

06:53:13.400 Would you clean after him?

06:53:16.380 Would you do his laundry?

06:53:18.920 Maybe sometimes.

06:53:21.040 I think it's just like different.

06:53:22.620 Like, I mean, if we can ask Graham, would you bow to him?

06:53:26.320 Hell no.

06:53:27.080 I wouldn't.

06:53:28.060 You wouldn't do it?

06:53:28.940 Would you bow?

06:53:29.480 Oh, well, you said no.

06:53:34.340 That's fine.

06:53:34.840 Uh, would you bow for?

06:53:36.000 Yes.

06:53:36.280 You were thinking about it.

06:53:37.560 You might have changed her.

06:53:38.960 Um, depends.

06:53:40.400 On what?

06:53:40.940 I don't care.

06:53:41.780 Um.

06:53:42.720 You like the guy.

06:53:43.560 You like the guy.

06:53:44.260 Like you said, if, uh, if it's just like a courtesy thing, um, it's not to be like.

06:53:49.740 Well, I'm asking to him because he's the only one.

06:53:52.040 You're the only guy I've ever heard be like, oh, my girl needs to bow to me.

06:53:55.560 Like when I come home, same for real.

06:53:57.980 So I don't think it's like an issue with other guys where it's like, oh, like.

06:54:00.980 Lindsay?

06:54:01.760 Sure.

06:54:02.340 Sure.

06:54:02.740 Okay.

06:54:03.900 How about this?

06:54:04.840 For, for the perfect man, not just a guy you're attracted to, not just a good man.

06:54:11.240 The perfect man.

06:54:12.760 Would you bow?

06:54:14.140 No.

06:54:15.300 The perfect man would make me bow to him if I didn't want to.

06:54:18.760 But hold on.

06:54:19.420 But hold on.

06:54:19.860 So this would be, uh, you have a magic lamp, a genie.

06:54:25.060 And the genie says he'll grant you, you get only, well, the one, you don't get to choose

06:54:29.700 your wish.

06:54:31.280 He's willing to do a trade.

06:54:32.960 The genie says, I'll give you the perfect man.

06:54:35.040 Um, but in order to, for me to give you this wish, uh, you have to bow once per day or

06:54:42.160 every time you see him.

06:54:43.200 Well, is it like, is it like a white guy like you or is it like an insa, like where it's

06:54:46.980 like a cultural, like bow?

06:54:48.460 Like, cause, cause like in Korean culture, like you do it to respect your.

06:54:51.500 Wait, did you say insa?

06:54:51.980 No, insa.

06:54:52.820 It's like insa.

06:54:53.800 Insa is like the word in Korean for like a, like a respectful bow.

06:54:58.100 Oh, I don't know what you're.

06:54:59.080 Is it what, like, is it like a culture thing or is it just like a weird, like.

06:55:02.320 It's just a weird white guy thing, but it's the genie that wants it.

06:55:06.860 I don't know.

06:55:08.800 I don't think so.

06:55:09.540 So.

06:55:10.220 It's so easy.

06:55:11.340 It's so easy for the perfect man.

06:55:12.560 Perfect guy.

06:55:13.460 Just, I know you're young, but I mean, maybe you've already had some experience, right?

06:55:17.740 Have you found the perfect guy yet?

06:55:19.680 No.

06:55:20.340 I'm going to tell you this.

06:55:21.660 I'm not doubting that you'll find a good guy, but most of us are never going to find or

06:55:26.760 get.

06:55:27.600 We might find our person.

06:55:29.680 That person won't be perfect, right?

06:55:32.720 For the perfect man.

06:55:34.120 Think about, think about how rare that might be.

06:55:36.680 And also think about, well, the, the perfect man in my mind, would he want me also, right?

06:55:46.120 So the perfect man, that means everything you want when it comes to looks, when personality,

06:55:51.520 perfectly, perfectly loyal, every, every single characteristic that you could maximize, perfect.

06:55:59.620 That man, first off, that man doesn't exist.

06:56:02.140 It's a fantasy.

06:56:02.800 We, we will all make, well, actually, I shouldn't even, we'll find our person, but that person

06:56:10.660 won't be perfect, right?

06:56:11.920 So for the perfect man, will you do that trade?

06:56:15.500 Do I have to do every day?

06:56:18.220 Uh, yes.

06:56:19.100 Every day.

06:56:19.680 Every day?

06:56:20.220 Three seconds.

06:56:20.680 Oh my God.

06:56:21.160 Three seconds every day.

06:56:21.960 Does that really take anything away from you?

06:56:24.080 I just don't get it.

06:56:25.000 Perfect man.

06:56:25.720 Would you do it?

06:56:27.220 I don't know.

06:56:28.940 Maybe.

06:56:29.640 Maybe.

06:56:30.060 Perfect man.

06:56:30.520 Can I be, I'm going to be really cheesy.

06:56:32.700 I think I am already with the perfect man.

06:56:35.180 Does it fall?

06:56:37.140 Uh, not around me, but I'm sure he does.

06:56:39.320 He does around our daughter.

06:56:40.600 Perfect man.

06:56:41.420 Just no gastrointestinal issues.

06:56:44.260 Okay.

06:56:44.760 Perfect man.

06:56:45.540 What do you hit about?

06:56:46.480 Yes.

06:56:47.380 Perfect man.

06:56:48.480 Um, yes.

06:56:49.280 Perfect man.

06:56:50.720 Nice.

06:56:51.240 Okay.

06:56:51.420 I'd bark like a dog if I was really in love and it made him happy.

06:56:54.680 I would.

06:56:55.300 Like genuinely, it's not that hard.

06:56:56.920 If you're into this and I care about you, done.

06:56:58.940 But that, but that's like, uh, I, I'm kind of giving this like a bow thing.

06:57:04.720 Even if, you know, I was thinking like, even if the guy, like his intentions behind it are

06:57:11.140 like kind of weird.

06:57:12.380 I mean, like, I almost feel like, so do it anyways. 0.98

06:57:15.740 He's not acting for, he's not asking for like anal. 0.99

06:57:18.560 I mean, he's asking for, he's asking for this. 0.96

06:57:20.680 I mean, it's really, it's really nothing.

06:57:22.980 I'll go out right now.

06:57:23.860 Hey, good point, good point.

06:57:26.580 But, uh, but I mean, the interesting thing with the bow also is I almost feel like it's

06:57:32.720 kind of wholesome.

06:57:34.080 Like maybe a more relatable one is the first time a girl comes over to my house, I would 0.99

06:57:41.560 like for her to do my laundry. 1.00

06:57:43.460 Are you joking?

06:57:44.920 Interesting.

06:57:46.360 The first time.

06:57:47.220 First time she's in my house. 0.99

06:57:48.140 Are you being serious or joking?

06:57:50.420 I'm dead serious.

06:57:51.420 Would you go through her phone the first time?

06:57:53.380 Really?

06:57:53.620 Have you really tested that submissiveness?

06:57:55.500 What?

06:57:56.000 I would.

06:57:57.280 I would go through this.

06:57:57.460 But think about it, right?

06:57:58.460 Like, okay.

06:57:59.000 First time.

06:57:59.440 I know the feminist programming's like, whoa. 1.00

06:58:02.060 Like.

06:58:02.160 I'm not feminist at all, but I see this game. 0.62

06:58:05.140 I see this.

06:58:06.000 Hold on.

06:58:06.580 Well, hold on.

06:58:07.300 I actually, I mean, at least with the laundry, I, you, you could argue that like, I'm actually

06:58:13.220 tangibly getting something like with the bow.

06:58:15.960 You're like, wait, why, what does the bow do?

06:58:18.040 But folding my laundry?

06:58:19.340 Like.

06:58:20.640 Have you even bought her dinner yet?

06:58:22.940 It's at first time at his house.

06:58:24.840 So.

06:58:24.940 Okay.

06:58:25.220 So you were, you've already gone a couple of days and you're like, Hey, do you mind

06:58:27.560 throwing my laundry in for me?

06:58:28.860 Although sometimes when it comes to dating, people are just like going over to each other's

06:58:32.120 house right away.

06:58:33.440 You know, you guys know what I'm talking about.

06:58:35.340 I genuinely did.

06:58:36.460 You guys don't talk about, but like, what's worse?

06:58:39.640 Like, I don't know.

06:58:40.800 Like let's read the hook of culture.

06:58:42.500 People will, they won't even go on a date first.

06:58:44.940 They might just come over or hook up pretty quickly.

06:58:48.020 Like, I feel like I'm kind of wholesome over here.

06:58:50.660 Whereas like other people, it's like, okay, this guy's just going to like do all kinds 1.00

06:58:56.700 of, you know, you guys are going to fuck and he's going to blast in your face or whatever. 1.00

06:59:00.960 Yeah. 1.00

06:59:01.080 What's more offensive sex on the first date or laundry on the first date? 0.99

06:59:03.740 Right. 0.90

06:59:04.080 I think I'm wholesome.

06:59:05.300 I think I'm.

06:59:06.140 Wash his load, but you'll take his load.

06:59:07.600 Like I almost would rather the girl like do my laundry. 1.00

06:59:12.520 I would prefer that.

06:59:14.320 Like, I would be like, that's kind of dope.

06:59:17.900 Have you found a girl that's willing to do your laundry without you? 1.00

06:59:20.960 I bet you have.

06:59:21.420 Yep.

06:59:21.560 What?

06:59:22.360 Yes.

06:59:23.080 The thing is, if a guy, if a, if a girl really likes you.

06:59:28.600 On the first date.

06:59:29.660 She'll.

06:59:30.920 Yes.

06:59:31.680 Now, maybe the feminine's programming, you know, but. 1.00

06:59:34.520 If she sees a future, yeah.

06:59:35.540 No, I'm telling you, if the girl, if, if you're really into the guy, look, I know some

06:59:39.340 of you, whatever. 0.97

06:59:40.520 I'm telling you, if a girl really fucks with you, she really likes you. 1.00

06:59:45.420 She'll do a lot more than fold your laundry. 1.00

06:59:47.600 She'll do a lot more than that. 0.98

06:59:48.760 Why don't you want to fold his laundry? 0.83

06:59:50.060 I'll do a little, I'll do a laundry first time.

06:59:52.040 On the first date.

06:59:53.600 Absolutely.

06:59:53.920 No, first time at his house.

06:59:55.260 Well, but like.

06:59:56.140 Question, have you ever, the first day you met a guy, have you ever let him deposit his 0.99

07:00:02.800 semen into the back of your throat? 1.00

07:00:04.880 No, no, I don't do head in the first month.

07:00:07.660 Oh.

07:00:07.900 Oh, okay.

07:00:09.320 Classy, virtuous one ever.

07:00:11.180 Okay, has a man ever. 0.98

07:00:13.260 Okay, has you, have you ever let a man insert his phallus balls deep? 0.98

07:00:18.380 Have you ever had a hookup? 0.99

07:00:20.260 Yeah, yeah.

07:00:21.020 But like, that's so, that's like a hookup.

07:00:23.440 We need extra details.

07:00:24.580 That's like a hookup.

07:00:25.740 Right.

07:00:26.280 But I'm, I'm over here.

07:00:28.680 It's wrong for me to want a woman to cook, to clean, to do all these things. 1.00

07:00:32.700 I didn't say that.

07:00:33.600 But you will chug, chug.

07:00:36.320 Ew.

07:00:36.620 Oh my God. 1.00

07:00:37.160 Brad's cock. 1.00

07:00:37.780 Come on. 1.00

07:00:38.460 Wow.

07:00:39.140 These words.

07:00:40.120 I have to do his load, but you take his.

07:00:41.480 This is alcohol, Brian, huh?

07:00:42.740 Oh, wait, that's good.

07:00:43.520 That's good.

07:00:43.960 You won't do his load, but you'll take his load. 0.99

07:00:45.920 That's so fucking good. 0.99

07:00:46.800 That's another shirt. 0.99

07:00:47.740 That's so funny.

07:00:48.880 That's another shirt.

07:00:49.860 A girl will take his load, but she won't do his load. 1.00

07:00:52.860 That is a shirt.

07:00:53.840 That is a shirt.

07:00:54.800 That's a shirt.

07:00:55.320 That's a shirt.

07:00:56.180 Did you come up with that?

07:00:57.020 I said that like five minutes ago.

07:00:58.240 It was the hat.

07:00:59.180 It's the hat.

07:00:59.860 That's a good one.

07:01:01.560 You won't do his load, but you'll take his load.

07:01:03.520 As a woman, when you care about a guy or you really want to show him that he has a future

07:01:08.300 with you, I feel like it's natural for one.

07:01:10.260 You want to prove that you're a good caretaker.

07:01:13.040 Yeah.

07:01:13.220 I think that naturally comes out.

07:01:14.600 Why don't you want to take care of him? 1.00

07:01:16.580 I just don't get it.

07:01:17.720 I'm on the first date.

07:01:18.100 I barely know him.

07:01:18.140 No, not the first date.

07:01:19.540 The first time you're at his house or dating someone.

07:01:22.540 So if you were dating someone, would you do their laundry?

07:01:25.280 Yeah.

07:01:25.800 Yeah.

07:01:25.940 Yeah.

07:01:26.160 Yeah.

07:01:26.800 Not the first time.

07:01:28.220 Not the first time you're at their house.

07:01:29.180 Not the first time going to him.

07:01:30.000 But what if he's like, I just really need help?

07:01:33.160 Well, then.

07:01:33.960 Okay.

07:01:34.420 Yeah.

07:01:34.900 I guess I would if they like worded it a certain way.

07:01:37.440 He's like, I'm so busy working, providing for you.

07:01:41.540 I need help.

07:01:42.500 I don't have the time.

07:01:43.260 I don't.

07:01:43.800 Because if it's like, this is a requirement for you to agree.

07:01:46.560 But yeah.

07:01:47.060 He means well.

07:01:47.860 I will say something.

07:01:49.020 So maybe this is also kind of because my view is kind of skewed.

07:01:52.360 But like, I enjoy doing laundry.

07:01:54.840 W.

07:01:55.620 Well, it's also like, I know guys, they just kind of like ball things up and throw it.

07:02:00.620 Like, I have OCD.

07:02:01.280 So like, for me to like, see that, like, just bought a clothes on his bed.

07:02:05.780 It's so stressful.

07:02:06.640 For me, like, that's stressful.

07:02:08.000 Like, I don't mind doing a guy's house and it's dirty.

07:02:11.480 Like, you gotta fold your laundry kind of thing.

07:02:13.340 Stress me out.

07:02:15.380 I don't know.

07:02:15.960 I'm just trying to be wholesome, Brian, over here.

07:02:18.040 It's like, you know.

07:02:19.140 You just were talking about loads and back throats. 1.00

07:02:22.700 Wholesome, my ass. 1.00

07:02:24.300 So wholesome. 1.00

07:02:25.480 Look, I just, I don't know.

07:02:27.540 What's your body health?

07:02:29.040 What does that have to do with that?

07:02:30.120 I'm not revealing that.

07:02:31.320 Well, you never.

07:02:32.360 But you asked all of ours.

07:02:34.080 I'm a virgin.

07:02:35.180 I'm a virgin.

07:02:36.020 Are you joking?

07:02:37.180 What do you think?

07:02:38.140 He's married.

07:02:39.340 Oh, you're married?

07:02:40.320 Oh my God.

07:02:41.000 I'm not married.

07:02:42.060 I'm trying to help you out here.

07:02:43.420 Will you accept one bow, one time?

07:02:49.060 It's gotta be a hundred.

07:02:50.340 Because you're not telling us.

07:02:51.540 One bow, one time.

07:02:53.780 Would I accept it?

07:02:54.660 No.

07:02:55.320 If I say I'll do it one time.

07:02:58.700 Can you take a bow?

07:02:59.480 I'll do that.

07:03:01.020 To your boyfriend?

07:03:03.880 Husband.

07:03:04.100 Sorry, husband.

07:03:05.200 Wow.

07:03:05.900 She went from absolutely not.

07:03:08.300 Yeah.

07:03:09.300 This is a huge win.

07:03:10.980 Yeah.

07:03:11.360 W for me, I guess.

07:03:13.420 W.

07:03:16.200 I do it as a joke.

07:03:18.080 Grats me, boy.

07:03:20.040 Grats me.

07:03:20.820 Grats me.

07:03:23.920 I don't know.

07:03:24.900 Look, I think that...

07:03:26.840 I know it's kind of like out there.

07:03:29.400 It's a little eccentric, whatever.

07:03:32.020 It's a weird cultural ask,

07:03:33.680 especially from a pale white guy.

07:03:36.080 But it's a temperature check.

07:03:39.100 Temperature check.

07:03:41.140 And I mean, I don't know.

07:03:44.280 I think...

07:03:46.500 Oh, here's a good one.

07:03:51.140 Also, I do think women should also... 0.98

07:03:54.880 Sometimes, you know, I'm nice, though.

07:03:57.620 Like, I have a really good laundry machine.

07:03:59.900 And, you know, I've contemplated buying, like, a...

07:04:07.120 What are those things called?

07:04:08.320 The clothes washboard.

07:04:11.320 Yes.

07:04:11.680 Like, a hundred years ago, I want the woman to come washboard. 1.00

07:04:16.360 You know the washboard where they were, like, dragging?

07:04:18.920 Okay.

07:04:19.000 I've done that.

07:04:19.500 Yeah.

07:04:19.620 Oh, who...

07:04:23.160 Question.

07:04:24.300 This is a good one.

07:04:25.840 Who here is, like, wants to pursue a career?

07:04:30.720 Like, you want to be a lawyer, I think you said?

07:04:33.320 Career.

07:04:33.940 Yeah.

07:04:34.480 Career.

07:04:35.140 Career?

07:04:35.520 I have a career.

07:04:36.200 Career?

07:04:36.820 What's that?

07:04:37.240 I have a career.

07:04:37.840 You have a career.

07:04:38.420 You have a career.

07:04:39.860 For the perfect man, instead of the bow, for the perfect man, I think this is more realistic.

07:04:46.900 Perfect man, and he's wealthy enough to fully cover.

07:04:52.460 But, in order to be with him, he says, I want you to stop working, and I want you to take care of the household, and take care of the kids.

07:05:02.040 For the perfect man, do you give up your career?

07:05:05.320 No, that's like giving up on myself, because I have, like...

07:05:08.540 Stripping?

07:05:10.380 No!

07:05:11.360 Music and audio engineering.

07:05:13.580 I like...

07:05:14.020 Yes, for the perfect man, do you give up your career?

07:05:17.040 No.

07:05:17.720 What if you can do it as a hobby, but you can never, like, do it career-wise?

07:05:22.220 No, that's giving up on myself, and that's not fair.

07:05:25.700 Perfect man, though?

07:05:28.080 No.

07:05:28.660 Never have to work another day in your life?

07:05:30.420 Won't give up your career?

07:05:33.000 Not...

07:05:33.600 I mean, obviously, I'd give up stripping any day, but, like, music, no.

07:05:37.380 No, but you can have it as a hobby.

07:05:40.300 But that's not, like...

07:05:41.940 I would love that.

07:05:42.520 That's not my dreams, you know?

07:05:44.440 All right, what about you?

07:05:45.640 Perfect man, do you give up your career?

07:05:47.600 It depends how far into my career I am.

07:05:49.620 If I'm, like, just beginning, and I finally, like, you know, get past law school, pass the

07:05:55.860 bar exam, and he's like, now you have to just quit it all right now, and then you can be

07:05:58.980 with me, I wouldn't want to do that.

07:06:00.360 Yeah, because, like, I already worked really hard, and, like, I would want, you know, I

07:06:03.820 wouldn't want to give up on myself either, if that makes sense.

07:06:07.460 Past school stuff, yeah.

07:06:10.620 So you're...

07:06:11.260 But if you were, I don't know, like, three years into your career?

07:06:16.540 No, I would want to get further in my career, just, like, just for...

07:06:20.700 Because I just would want that for myself, like, I wouldn't want to quit right away.

07:06:25.140 What kind of law did you say you wanted to practice?

07:06:27.780 I don't know yet.

07:06:30.240 I feel like lawyers are, like, super stressed out.

07:06:32.680 I know, I know, and, like, eventually, yeah, if I was, like, well into my...

07:06:37.180 Oh, sorry, into my career, and I was, like, done, then, yeah, I would want somebody to

07:06:41.680 do that for me, but if it's, like, I'm just beginning...

07:06:43.320 But when you're done with your career, so, like, at 60, then you can give up your career?

07:06:48.320 But, like, the idea here...

07:06:50.700 Maybe, like, a couple years into it, because then I could say I did it, you know, and then

07:06:54.200 do something else.

07:06:54.880 How about...

07:06:55.360 No, you don't get to pick and choose.

07:06:58.140 Oh.

07:06:58.660 It's at the most inconvenient time for you to end your career.

07:07:02.660 The most inconvenient.

07:07:04.000 So I don't know when that is, but...

07:07:07.040 Perfect man.

07:07:08.700 No.

07:07:09.400 And he...

07:07:10.120 Perfect man, loyal, best looking, everything.

07:07:14.380 Why is he, like...

07:07:15.340 Why does he, like, want me to stop working?

07:07:17.280 Because he wants...

07:07:18.680 Do you want kids?

07:07:19.980 Maybe.

07:07:21.100 Because he wants...

07:07:22.260 He wants...

07:07:23.940 He wants kids, and, I mean, this could even apply, even if you don't want kids, this

07:07:28.980 could even apply to, he doesn't want kids, you don't want kids.

07:07:32.040 He's like, you know what, don't work.

07:07:33.760 I just want you to...

07:07:34.900 Be around all the time.

07:07:36.460 Go everywhere with me.

07:07:37.740 Yes.

07:07:37.960 That's usually the main reason that wealthy men want you not to work, is so you're available

07:07:41.300 whenever they want you.

07:07:42.220 Yep.

07:07:42.900 Perfect.

07:07:43.260 Nailed it.

07:07:43.620 What does she do while he's working?

07:07:44.960 Go shopping, work out, go out with your girlfriends, enjoy life.

07:07:51.260 Let's say he doesn't work.

07:07:54.240 He's just rich.

07:07:55.500 Yeah.

07:07:56.200 Retired.

07:07:57.380 So that could be...

07:07:58.160 I mean, I think perhaps that would be a great argument for what a perfect man is.

07:08:02.340 He's so wealthy, he doesn't have to work.

07:08:04.860 He's not stressed with his work.

07:08:07.000 He can give you time.

07:08:08.400 He's there.

07:08:09.100 If you have kids, he's co-parenting with you, but he wants you there also to take care

07:08:16.520 of the kids, take care of him, take care of the household.

07:08:20.880 But you can't work.

07:08:23.340 I would want to work.

07:08:24.600 Even if you were married or dating or married to a billionaire, would you still want to

07:08:29.820 work?

07:08:31.760 I mean, I don't know.

07:08:35.580 It just depends.

07:08:36.720 Like, why...

07:08:37.200 When you're 18, though, your mindset's a little bit different.

07:08:41.260 It's easy to say that now.

07:08:44.020 Why?

07:08:44.340 Because she... 1.00

07:08:44.700 I mean, you're a barista.

07:08:46.100 You've worked, right?

07:08:47.160 No, but she doesn't have a kid yet.

07:08:48.580 She hasn't been in a long-term relationship.

07:08:50.420 She's not been with a man, I assume, super wealthy that's giving you the option.

07:08:54.080 I mean, it's easy.

07:08:54.300 If you're like that, please DM me.

07:08:56.520 If you're a billionaire.

07:08:57.180 I would love that.

07:08:57.760 If you want me to just stay home and...

07:08:59.420 Well, I mean, it's just the...

07:09:00.340 And your kids.

07:09:00.780 It's the feminist programming, this idea that career should be exalted above all else when... 1.00

07:09:10.340 I don't know. 1.00

07:09:11.840 The only fear, though, is if it ends and you're fucked. 0.99

07:09:15.940 But in this hypothetical scenario, if we're talking about a perfect man, 0.99

07:09:19.760 the entailment there is never cheats, never abuses, loyal, stays with you forever.

07:09:26.160 Yeah, but realistically...

07:09:27.800 Sure, I know it's the hypothetical...

07:09:29.880 Realistically, a billionaire is not going to want to marry any of us, so...

07:09:33.720 Would you do that for a woman? 0.94

07:09:36.140 Do what?

07:09:36.980 Like, would you give this podcast up for the perfect woman? 1.00

07:09:40.520 Absolutely.

07:09:41.340 Heartbeat.

07:09:42.660 Heartbeat.

07:09:43.320 And I'm a man.

07:09:44.280 I'm a man.

07:09:44.860 And that doesn't coincide typically with the traditional male gender role.

07:09:49.760 Well, was this...

07:09:50.880 Instantly.

07:09:51.860 Was this your dream?

07:09:53.080 Or what was your dream as a kid?

07:09:56.400 Yeah, that's a good question.

07:09:57.960 Yeah.

07:09:58.260 As a kid?

07:09:59.000 Well, hold on.

07:09:59.680 This is unfair because the reality of life, 99% of people are not going to have their dream job.

07:10:07.480 They're not going to have some, like, super illustrious career.

07:10:11.920 Most people are going to slave away for some corporation. 0.77

07:10:15.120 Most people are going to work some, like, kind of shitty job.

07:10:17.880 And they're going to do that because they realize they have bills to pay.

07:10:20.600 They have responsibilities to themselves, to their children, to their family.

07:10:24.560 It's really rare to get to do exactly what you want.

07:10:28.000 And even if you do get to do what you want, there's still stress and complications attached to almost any kind of work you do.

07:10:37.800 Of course.

07:10:38.440 But what was your dream?

07:10:39.600 Like, did you think you were going to get into entertainment?

07:10:41.940 Well, when I was, like, I don't know.

07:10:43.580 It's only two and a half hours of no job. 0.98

07:10:44.960 Seven, I was, like, saying, I don't know, I'm going to be a magician or some shit. 0.98

07:10:50.900 You're kind of a magician now. 0.95

07:10:53.680 How?

07:10:54.020 Well, you're, I don't know.

07:10:57.800 That's not.

07:10:58.340 But.

07:10:59.300 You're a podcast creator.

07:11:00.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:11:03.000 So what's your question?

07:11:05.800 For the perfect woman? 1.00

07:11:06.960 But, okay, so when somebody tells me perfect woman, I think, okay, looks-wise, exactly what I'd want. 0.77

07:11:15.380 Personality, exactly what I want.

07:11:17.140 And if we're bringing in a financial component here, like, billionaire.

07:11:22.600 So in my mind, and I just have to give up my dream.

07:11:28.360 Let's say I have to give up my dream job.

07:11:31.540 Say this isn't my dream job.

07:11:33.560 And truthfully, like, no.

07:11:34.800 You're a magician.

07:11:35.300 My dream job would maybe be, like, super famous, like, best ever musician, best ever athlete.

07:11:43.820 Can you sing?

07:11:45.120 Yeah.

07:11:46.060 No.

07:11:47.000 Actually, I think I got pipes a little bit, but.

07:11:49.760 Ooh.

07:11:50.860 You have to do that.

07:11:51.800 Yeah.

07:11:52.180 Yeah.

07:11:54.980 But, and, like, I could still, I don't know, pursue those things as hobbies or whatever.

07:12:00.260 Yeah.

07:12:02.440 Yeah, I give up the career.

07:12:03.840 100%.

07:12:04.260 Even the dream job.

07:12:05.280 Even if I'm a professional athlete.

07:12:07.480 Even if I'm a professional musician.

07:12:12.100 Top-tier musician. 1.00

07:12:13.080 For the perfect woman, give that shit up. 1.00

07:12:16.660 Because I think who you marry, who you spend the rest of your life with is probably one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. 1.00

07:12:22.140 You marry the wrong person. 1.00

07:12:23.680 Could perma-fuck you for entire, for your entire life. 1.00

07:12:26.700 Could be a massive mistake. 1.00

07:12:28.260 And I, again, my position is perfect doesn't exist.

07:12:32.100 We're never going to get, I know some of you want to do the virtue signal.

07:12:37.100 Oh, my God.

07:12:37.520 My person's perfect.

07:12:38.780 Eh. 1.00

07:12:39.120 You guys fucking argue. 1.00

07:12:40.840 And da-da-da. 1.00

07:12:41.420 And there's conflict.

07:12:42.820 And, you know, they're not as tall.

07:12:45.060 Or, you know, they start balding.

07:12:46.760 Or they gain weight.

07:12:48.140 Or, you know, whatever it is.

07:12:49.700 The perfect person doesn't exist.

07:12:51.340 In my case, perfect person.

07:12:54.760 Perfect looks.

07:12:55.780 Perfect personality.

07:12:57.240 And she's a billionaire.

07:12:58.340 Yeah.

07:12:58.820 Give me the trade.

07:13:01.100 Absolutely.

07:13:03.220 Give it up in an instant.

07:13:05.780 I get what you mean, though.

07:13:08.780 Pasty, we have this coming through.

07:13:10.020 I apologize for the delay.

07:13:12.580 Thank you, man.

07:13:13.240 Pasty George donated $70.

07:13:17.100 It's funny how many modern women freak out over the boat question when a lot of them expect men to remember their anniversary or similar and to do something special or nice for it every year.

07:13:27.700 Oh, Valentine's.

07:13:29.260 All the other gestures.

07:13:31.060 Me and my husband have forgot our anniversary multiple times.

07:13:34.640 I don't like that.

07:13:36.100 Did we finish on the, like, career?

07:13:39.460 Did you give up your career for the perfect man?

07:13:41.940 I think everyone's done.

07:13:43.240 Did we go around the table on that?

07:13:44.480 I would.

07:13:45.600 Yeah.

07:13:47.880 Last answers.

07:13:49.820 I don't think I could because I already have my dream job and I can still stay home with my kids while having my dream job.

07:13:57.680 What's your job?

07:13:58.780 I own a yoga studio.

07:14:00.780 Well, when you're teaching a Pilates class, is it at your house?

07:14:03.900 I teach yoga.

07:14:04.620 I don't teach Pilates.

07:14:05.820 Sorry.

07:14:06.500 Well, okay, whatever.

07:14:07.480 Yoga.

07:14:09.560 You're not with your kids, I assume, when you're teaching a class, right?

07:14:12.380 The morning I teach before they're awake and then I come home and take my daughter to school and then I teach on Sunday.

07:14:19.620 But then I own it and I do it from home.

07:14:22.000 Let's do it like this.

07:14:22.940 Your husband becomes a billionaire overnight, but in order for you to stay with him, he says,

07:14:29.220 I want you to stop teaching yoga classes.

07:14:32.180 But it's not.

07:14:33.580 I don't care.

07:14:34.220 But it's not just I'm teaching yoga.

07:14:37.600 I live like this whole yoga lifestyle and the number of people who have come to me and said,

07:14:43.000 my studio changed their life or they have all these things.

07:14:46.900 I know.

07:14:47.020 So now I can't help people with this practice either?

07:14:52.700 I guess.

07:14:54.080 How about this?

07:14:55.220 I don't know if it's great to use the husband as an example.

07:14:57.220 If you were to become single again and this next perfect guy comes along, would you give that up for the perfect man?

07:15:06.680 Yes or no?

07:15:07.540 Just.

07:15:08.500 Probably no.

07:15:09.540 What about you?

07:15:10.260 Into the mic.

07:15:10.920 Like, yes, if I can still do it as like a hobby.

07:15:17.040 Yeah.

07:15:17.260 What's your career?

07:15:20.400 So I kind of want to go and get my master's back in like exercise and physiology.

07:15:26.540 So it'd be like.

07:15:27.800 So you were like a personal trainer or.

07:15:30.080 I coach.

07:15:31.660 Yeah.

07:15:32.280 OK, so no, you can't do it.

07:15:34.180 No.

07:15:34.720 Yeah.

07:15:35.020 Perfect man.

07:15:35.780 Do you take the trade?

07:15:36.480 I guess.

07:15:42.120 Yeah, I would.

07:15:42.880 Do you take the trade, Lindsay?

07:15:45.220 I'm confused.

07:15:46.060 I'm so confused by this because even as a man where like there is a traditional gender role expectation that men like work, have careers, et cetera, et cetera.

07:15:53.340 Even in my position, I'm instantly taking like the billionaire.

07:15:58.320 Perfect man.

07:15:59.240 Hello.

07:15:59.660 Also, what I don't understand is question for you.

07:16:03.460 You're going to become a lawyer one day.

07:16:04.940 Let's, I don't know, do you think you'll make like $200,000 at some point in your career?

07:16:08.820 Yeah.

07:16:09.320 OK.

07:16:09.580 Hopefully.

07:16:09.920 Question for you, though.

07:16:11.360 Somebody comes to you and they say, you know, maybe you make $100,000, $200,000, $300,000 as an attorney throughout the course of your career.

07:16:20.420 Somebody comes to you and says, and this job offer will never go away.

07:16:24.760 I will pay you $1,000,000 to be a barista.

07:16:32.860 I know that sounds silly.

07:16:34.120 Why would anybody pay?

07:16:35.380 But for some reason in this hypothetical, they're going to pay you $1,000,000 to be a barista.

07:16:39.100 You know that this is more than you will ever earn as being a lawyer.

07:16:42.420 And you might say, well, I'm going to be mergers and acquisition lawyer.

07:16:45.320 I'm going to make that much.

07:16:46.400 OK, we can bump it to they pay you $10,000,000 to be a barista.

07:16:51.340 Maybe some like 0.001% of lawyers might make that much or something if they're partners and own their own law firm.

07:16:58.820 Do you trade?

07:17:00.160 So you have to, but you can't, you know, you can't be a lawyer.

07:17:02.880 You got to be a barista, $10,000,000 a year.

07:17:05.060 Or do you be a lawyer and get paid $100,000, $200,000, $300,000 a year?

07:17:09.160 I'd be a barista.

07:17:10.800 I think it's fine.

07:17:12.440 OK.

07:17:12.980 That's interesting, though.

07:17:14.200 So.

07:17:15.720 Well, if I'm already a lawyer, it's like.

07:17:18.120 Well, you give up like today.

07:17:21.460 Right here on this podcast, you have to give up your education.

07:17:25.000 You have to give up.

07:17:26.820 I mean, you can still go to frat parties or whatever.

07:17:29.380 You have to give up your education.

07:17:33.320 Can't go and work, you know, a lot.

07:17:35.400 I guess you can become a lawyer unless you got the education.

07:17:37.860 Give up your education.

07:17:38.880 Today, you start working as a barista.

07:17:40.320 You make $10,000,000 a year.

07:17:42.800 Because it's not like I've already like invested so much into my school.

07:17:46.180 Like, and I've invested like probably three weeks so far.

07:17:49.240 Well, OK.

07:17:51.580 Oh, and you're making it harder for me.

07:17:52.940 After you graduate then, $10,000,000 can be a barista.

07:17:56.140 Have I gone through law school?

07:17:57.420 Have I paid for law school and for everything and like, like, study for the LSAT?

07:18:01.100 Sure, sure.

07:18:03.100 But one-time offer.

07:18:05.240 It's just hypothetical just to make me say like, I don't want to work as a lawyer anymore.

07:18:09.400 No, I'm just trying to see if you do the trade-off of stopping your career to make $10,000,000 a year as a barista.

07:18:20.500 You know what?

07:18:20.860 I guess so.

07:18:21.700 So there's a price.

07:18:23.180 Well, my confusion here, though, is the entailment of being with the perfect man who happens to be a billionaire.

07:18:29.060 That's more than $10,000,000 per year.

07:18:31.220 So I'm confused by won't give up career.

07:18:34.900 Well, because it's my money, too.

07:18:36.220 Like, it's like, I wouldn't be like financially.

07:18:38.480 So the perfect guy, though, loyal, will never abuse you, treats you perfectly, never leaves you.

07:18:46.020 If he's a billionaire, that money, you go to your husband.

07:18:53.120 If he's the perfect guy, you go to your husband.

07:18:55.100 Hey, babe, I need $100,000,000.

07:18:57.160 Sure, babe, here you go. 1.00

07:18:58.840 Spend that shit on whatever you want. 1.00

07:19:00.560 How does he get his money? 1.00

07:19:01.100 You won't do that.

07:19:02.320 Huh?

07:19:02.620 How does he get his money?

07:19:03.820 I don't know.

07:19:04.140 I'm just asking.

07:19:04.700 It's hypothetical.

07:19:05.640 I don't know.

07:19:06.200 He's in this hypothetical world.

07:19:07.360 He, uh, crypto.

07:19:08.800 Cartel.

07:19:09.260 Okay.

07:19:10.660 Money isn't always happiness, though.

07:19:12.580 But that's my confusion with this unwillingness.

07:19:16.360 Like, if we frame it differently, like, you'll give up on your career, and you still have to work as a barista.

07:19:24.420 And let's say the rule is you can't just be like, oh, well, I made $10,000,000.

07:19:28.240 I'm good to live off $10,000.

07:19:29.200 You have to be a barista for the rest of your life.

07:19:32.700 But you get $10,000,000 a year.

07:19:34.000 You can offer the perfect spouse that's also a billionaire.

07:19:38.300 So I'm the billionaire barista with the billionaire husband?

07:19:42.620 No, it's one or the other.

07:19:44.060 Well, it's a different scenario.

07:19:45.980 I don't know.

07:19:46.280 I'm getting confused with these scenarios.

07:19:49.220 Well, you said you would not give up your career for the perfect man.

07:19:52.660 And that means you never have to work.

07:19:57.140 And he would just, his money is your money, basically.

07:20:02.060 I mean, you shouldn't bankrupt the guy, although it's really hard to bankrupt, like a billionaire or whatever.

07:20:07.340 But you would give it up and work until you're 60 as a barista.

07:20:14.680 I think I'm just too stubborn because I want it to know that it's like my own merit and money, not just like.

07:20:19.260 But, I mean, this is like a magic genie.

07:20:22.640 Baristas don't make $10,000,000. 1.00

07:20:23.840 I think I'm just too stubborn.

07:20:25.020 And I appreciate my independence.

07:20:27.760 All right.

07:20:28.560 You should ask her again in 20 years.

07:20:30.680 We'll check in.

07:20:31.320 We'll check in.

07:20:31.700 You know, the thing is, though, when it comes to career, I don't think, even for men, but especially for women, that career is going to be the ultimate fulfillment in life.

07:20:42.480 I don't think so either.

07:20:43.760 Lawyers, the alcoholism rate in lawyers is very high.

07:20:48.400 Burnout, super high.

07:20:49.440 A lot of lawyers end up not doing super glamorous stuff, overworked, super stressed, just like really mustardy.

07:20:59.640 What's that scene from Wolf of Wall Street? 0.94

07:21:01.140 Just like, just like paper addiction, just looking at reviewing fucking documents and discovery and just like mustardy. 0.96

07:21:13.820 I don't remember that from Wolf of Wall Street. 0.98

07:21:15.800 And I've seen that movie a hundred.

07:21:16.600 Matthew McConaughey, he's like. 0.99

07:21:18.400 I think it's called masturbation. 0.98

07:21:21.600 Matthew McConaughey? 0.99

07:21:22.640 Matthew McConaughey is talking about numbers, numbers, numbers. 1.00

07:21:25.700 It's, you know, really up in the brain, mustardy shit. 1.00

07:21:28.280 You need to come. 1.00

07:21:28.960 I'm, I'm butchering it, but you need to masturbate. 1.00

07:21:32.840 Yeah. 1.00

07:21:33.100 That's what he said.

07:21:33.800 You need to pump those numbers up seven times a day.

07:21:37.440 Yep.

07:21:38.920 Hasty George donated $70.

07:21:41.520 When I was a little boy, my dream was to become a policeman.

07:21:45.380 But that dream was destroyed when two cops gave me a starlight tour during winter. 0.99

07:21:50.780 Damn. 0.99

07:21:50.960 Luckily for me, there was no wind that night. 0.99

07:21:53.880 I don't know that night.

07:21:54.420 So my understanding is it's this Canadian law enforcement phenomenon where, and they target,

07:22:02.840 I guess they target like indigenous, Native Americans, tribal people, and they'll like 1.00

07:22:09.260 during the winter, they'll, they'll give them a ride to like the fucking butt fuck forest 1.00

07:22:16.100 and dump them. 1.00

07:22:17.720 Oh. 1.00

07:22:18.340 What the fuck? 1.00

07:22:19.280 Did that actually, did that happen to you, Pasty? 1.00

07:22:21.180 That's fucked up, dude. 0.99

07:22:22.200 So Pasty's not Pasty. 0.99

07:22:25.700 That was a good, I don't know.

07:22:27.420 Nice.

07:22:27.760 That was good.

07:22:28.640 He's, uh.

07:22:29.540 Hold on.

07:22:31.420 Oh.

07:22:32.140 Oh.

07:22:32.820 Hey, Pasty.

07:22:33.820 Do you want to, you're going through different.

07:22:36.220 Pasty got a bow.

07:22:36.460 Should I get you linked up with Pasty? 0.96

07:22:37.700 I'm good.

07:22:37.860 I'm good.

07:22:38.140 Thank you.

07:22:38.300 You're good?

07:22:38.680 What?

07:22:38.840 You don't like Pasty? 0.66

07:22:39.920 I don't know Pasty. 0.93

07:22:41.000 He's got like a million casinos.

07:22:42.580 Don't care.

07:22:43.440 You don't like, why don't you like Pasty? 1.00

07:22:44.840 Oh, I don't, I don't, I don't, don't put words in my mouth, sir.

07:22:48.800 I don't know Pasty. 0.93

07:22:49.700 That's all I said.

07:22:50.200 I'm a matchmaker.

07:22:50.960 Are you?

07:22:51.580 Yeah.

07:22:51.800 What's your type?

07:22:52.700 What's my type? 0.79

07:22:53.660 Do you like sexy Canadians? 0.95

07:22:56.740 I've never met a sexy Canadian. 1.00

07:22:58.420 You've never met a sexy Canadian? 0.99

07:22:59.160 Actually, you know what?

07:22:59.600 I take that back.

07:23:00.260 My first kiss was from Wausau, British Columbia. 1.00

07:23:03.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

07:23:03.760 Hey, Pasty, what's up? 0.99

07:23:04.600 Tell me if you want me to link it up.

07:23:06.440 I got you.

07:23:06.840 Do I'm Canadian?

07:23:07.220 I'm a mage.

07:23:07.760 What's that?

07:23:08.060 I was born in Toronto. 1.00

07:23:09.420 Oh, shit. 1.00

07:23:09.960 Really? 1.00

07:23:10.220 Yeah.

07:23:11.020 Toronto's cool.

07:23:11.860 Nice.

07:23:12.180 They have a huge gay pride parade, unfortunately.

07:23:15.520 Finishing up with your notes, we're going to get this wrapped up soon, guys.

07:23:18.740 I know it's getting a little late.

07:23:19.700 I have to go.

07:23:20.420 Wait, wait, wait.

07:23:21.000 Hold on.

07:23:21.440 We're wrapped.

07:23:22.160 Just wait, just wait.

07:23:22.980 I got a three-hour drive.

07:23:24.260 I got you.

07:23:24.860 I got you.

07:23:25.500 Okay.

07:23:26.800 So I'll try to move through these super quick.

07:23:28.600 Trust me, guys.

07:23:30.100 I got you.

07:23:31.820 You don't love the way, and I don't do this every show, but tonight I was a little feisty

07:23:37.800 tonight.

07:23:38.120 I'm going to admit. 0.99

07:23:38.720 But you don't love the way he yells at the girls to shut the fuck up. 1.00

07:23:44.800 Could be a little more respectful. 0.99

07:23:46.500 Now, look, I've been a little snappy tonight.

07:23:48.820 Maybe it was because someone wished death upon me.

07:23:52.220 I don't know.

07:23:53.620 I don't think you were that snappy.

07:23:55.000 There was a specific answer.

07:23:56.640 I actually think you were really nice.

07:23:59.340 I didn't sleep for three days before I came here.

07:24:01.440 I literally thought that you were going to be very gnarly to the girls.

07:24:04.240 I thought you were really nice.

07:24:04.580 I was horrified.

07:24:05.660 There was one moment when I was a little snappy with her, and you were like, you know?

07:24:10.320 That's not why I was doing it.

07:24:12.620 I thought there was a lack of comprehension.

07:24:14.540 No, there's a lack of comprehension.

07:24:15.940 Oh, yeah.

07:24:16.760 No, I mean, look, sometimes I can be a little snappy.

07:24:19.480 I used to be afraid of you.

07:24:21.000 Who's the other guy that calls in?

07:24:23.340 Yeah, he's brutal.

07:24:24.980 Yeah.

07:24:26.020 Yeah, that's an unforgiving human being.

07:24:27.760 He's brilliant, but my goodness.

07:24:29.300 He's, I don't think he's that.

07:24:33.460 He matches energy.

07:24:35.780 I won't, I won't.

07:24:36.980 Yeah, you're right.

07:24:38.160 The girls, yeah, yeah. 0.64

07:24:39.840 Look, look, nobody's perfect.

07:24:42.160 Sometimes we, you know, say things we regret or whatever.

07:24:45.080 I will say in defense of Andrew, nobody's perfect, but many, many times, he's matching energy.

07:24:53.680 I don't disagree with that.

07:24:55.200 His wife is scary, though. 1.00

07:24:56.540 I don't want to get on her backside. 0.98

07:24:57.840 By the way, Rachel?

07:24:59.620 Who's his wife? 0.99

07:25:00.520 I shouldn't say worse than Andrew, but she's brutal. 0.98

07:25:03.280 She's nice.

07:25:03.960 It's just you don't want to get on her backside.

07:25:04.700 By the way, I love Rachel.

07:25:05.980 I didn't mean that.

07:25:06.760 I didn't mean that in a bad way.

07:25:07.240 Well, she's married to Andrew.

07:25:08.080 She's been well-trained, right?

07:25:09.900 She's a feisty lady. 1.00

07:25:12.460 When you piss her off.

07:25:14.080 I'll say at least for me, there's definitely times where I'm just, I've not matched energy. 0.99

07:25:20.540 Like, I was just a dick, right? 0.97

07:25:21.900 And I can acknowledge that. 0.99

07:25:23.500 Is that for clickbait?

07:25:24.380 I would say majority of the time, majority of the time, acknowledging that sometimes, eh, I was kind of like a little rude when I shouldn't have been.

07:25:33.920 A lot of times, I'm going to match somebody's energy.

07:25:36.500 Like, if they're being reasonable, I'll try to be reasonable.

07:25:39.100 But also, sometimes I get frustrated.

07:25:41.020 But I think the time I said STFU was, and I've said it maybe a handful of times. 0.98

07:25:49.360 They were not shutting the fuck up. 0.97

07:25:53.160 I feel like I was warranted. 0.99

07:25:54.720 They didn't shut the fuck up. 0.99

07:25:56.560 They were interrupting. 0.99

07:25:58.280 Can I ask you a question? 0.99

07:25:59.200 Tell me to shut up. 0.99

07:25:59.480 Yeah, for sure. 0.91

07:26:01.940 A little, you know.

07:26:03.760 He's going to ask you to bow.

07:26:04.940 He's going to ask you to bow.

07:26:05.740 Can I ask you a question? 0.99

07:26:06.660 Have you ever told someone to shut the fuck up? 0.96

07:26:08.900 Ever? 0.98

07:26:12.440 Like, maybe me and my brother joking at each other, but not like a serious one.

07:26:16.960 Not serious.

07:26:17.400 Have you ever told someone to shut up, like seriously?

07:26:24.880 Not that I can remember.

07:26:26.380 Okay.

07:26:26.800 Maybe like when I was 15.

07:26:29.000 I don't know.

07:26:29.420 But have you ever, like, ever raised your voice?

07:26:32.560 Oh, yeah.

07:26:33.060 Yeah, for sure.

07:26:33.760 Yeah, for sure.

07:26:34.320 And sometimes people have moments of frustration.

07:26:36.600 Yeah.

07:26:36.940 And maybe they say something in a way they didn't like it or said a specific thing that, in my

07:26:43.240 case, I've done nearly 300 episodes, thousands of hours of conversation.

07:26:48.840 Look, I'm not a choir boy.

07:26:50.760 Like, sometimes I get frustrated.

07:26:54.360 Sometimes my words can be a bit harsh.

07:26:57.160 Which, I'm not, I definitely am not claiming that I'm perfect, but I think maybe three times, 0.98

07:27:05.420 maybe four, I've told someone to shut the fuck up. 0.96

07:27:09.140 I think there was one time I felt uncomfortable through my phone watching it happen. 0.98

07:27:14.920 Oh.

07:27:15.380 Because the girls got very uncomfortable. 0.99

07:27:17.680 I was like, oh, this is really...

07:27:21.480 Eh, you know, look, you're having conversations.

07:27:22.800 But it hasn't made me stop watching it.

07:27:24.640 Yeah, here you are.

07:27:25.340 This is a pressure cooker environment, though.

07:27:27.880 It's hot.

07:27:28.520 Sorry, I didn't mean to put you there.

07:27:30.600 I donate $96.

07:27:32.300 Generally speaking, of course, most men will sacrifice happiness for their family, while

07:27:37.600 women consistently sacrifice family for their pursuit of happiness. 0.99

07:27:41.900 Interesting.

07:27:43.140 Look, I'm just saying, I don't think even for men that the ultimate fulfillment in life

07:27:53.080 will come from a career, I think it's going to be family, I think it's going to be kids,

07:27:57.700 I think it's going to be having a bunch of grandkids all running around, I think that's

07:28:04.560 much more fulfillment than just being some nameless cog in the machine for some corporation.

07:28:11.680 Most people won't have their dream job. 1.00

07:28:14.160 They're going to be some fucking HR department person policing some bullshit. 1.00

07:28:21.440 They're going to be project managers doing fuck all. 1.00

07:28:24.840 They're going to be pushing paperwork for the partners of a law firm. 0.99

07:28:29.020 And look, you might be, you seem smart.

07:28:30.560 You might be super successful.

07:28:31.780 And who knows what life has in store. 0.99

07:28:33.380 But even if you do have like that super high octane, amazing lawyer career and you're fucking 0.99

07:28:41.760 doing some trial shit and you're like, lawyer fucked you up in the, in the lawsuit. 1.00

07:28:48.420 I deposed your ass bitch. 1.00

07:28:50.780 Like you're just, you know, you're fucking, do people dab still? 1.00

07:28:55.460 I don't know. 1.00

07:28:55.820 That shit's old. 1.00

07:28:56.720 I don't know. 1.00

07:28:57.020 You're just, you're just fucking, I don't know. 0.99

07:29:00.280 You're just killing it as a lawyer, you know, you're just lawsuit, win, dunking, dunking 1.00

07:29:07.320 on these scrubs, yo, dunking on these scrubs, win after win.

07:29:14.580 I don't know. 0.99

07:29:15.580 When you imitate anyone, you always go into this bitch mode. 1.00

07:29:19.100 Like that's right. 0.99

07:29:21.140 Um, I don't know.

07:29:22.060 I'm just saying you can't bring your money with you when you die.

07:29:27.220 All the success in the world, everything.

07:29:31.360 I don't know if it means anything like, I don't know.

07:29:34.620 I don't think work is the ultimate fulfillment.

07:29:38.540 Um, okay.

07:29:38.920 We have chats coming through.

07:29:39.900 We're going to finish up.

07:29:40.880 Pasty George.

07:29:42.020 Thank you.

07:29:42.560 Pasty George donated $70. 0.99

07:29:44.340 Shit, dude. 1.00

07:29:44.960 Jeez. 1.00

07:29:45.580 That's crazy.

07:29:46.040 What happened to me when I was 11 years old, I was picked up in the evening while heading

07:29:51.100 home from a friend's house.

07:29:53.300 The cops laughed as they dumped me miles from home on a dirt road in the woods.

07:29:58.640 That's awful.

07:30:00.360 I'm sorry.

07:30:00.940 Where in Canada is Pasty? 0.89

07:30:02.600 How far north is, is he?

07:30:04.800 Is he like up, up there?

07:30:08.140 I'm not sure.

07:30:09.140 I'm just curious.

07:30:09.880 Like, is it like in a super indigenous area or, um, I'm not sure.

07:30:16.060 Uh, okay.

07:30:16.960 You said you disagree with basically everything Andrew Wilson says.

07:30:20.100 He's not here. 0.99

07:30:21.040 You think he's, you call him a hypocrite. 0.99

07:30:23.840 You know what? 0.99

07:30:24.560 I'll save your disagreements for Andrew.

07:30:26.400 If, if we ever have you back, we might have him in soon.

07:30:30.020 Um, but, um, you, you have issues with him doing shots, smoking and cursing.

07:30:36.400 I only because smoky man bad.

07:30:38.640 Only because he's so Christian and so religious. 0.99

07:30:43.080 And then it just seems like a contradiction to itself.

07:30:46.240 Sure.

07:30:46.580 Well, I mean, I'm not within the way I grew up.

07:30:50.120 My religion was not like that.

07:30:52.920 Like, yeah, I mean, I'm not the best person to ask this, but my understanding is I don't

07:30:58.200 think that there's a contravention of like, I don't think like smoking is like, maybe

07:31:08.540 you shouldn't do it right.

07:31:09.580 But I don't know if it like puts you at odds with Christianity, but I'm not the per, I

07:31:16.260 don't know. 0.99

07:31:17.640 Uh, as far, as far as drinking goes, perhaps you shouldn't like do like get super shit 0.78

07:31:25.860 face drunk or whatever, but even then maybe it's okay. 0.96

07:31:27.940 But I, I mean, isn't the blood of Christ, isn't it wine or something?

07:31:31.900 Yeah.

07:31:32.320 Technically it's wine, but it's not, I mean, you're supposed to be drinking the blood of

07:31:35.180 Christ.

07:31:35.720 Wait, into the mic.

07:31:36.480 Blood of Christ.

07:31:37.440 I mean, at that point you're supposed to be treating it as if it's the blood of Christ,

07:31:40.100 but yes, it's watered down wine.

07:31:42.260 Yeah.

07:31:42.500 But I, I don't think like drinking, for example, means you're not Christian.

07:31:47.220 No, no, no.

07:31:48.060 That's more.

07:31:49.280 I, well, I grew up Mormon.

07:31:50.920 That's a Mormon thing.

07:31:52.080 But you, right.

07:31:53.160 Word of wisdom and we can debate whether or not Mormon's Christian.

07:31:57.000 I think they're Christian, but within our religion, it was like, I don't drink, I don't smoke.

07:32:04.180 I'm going to have all these things.

07:32:06.160 He's Orthodox, so I don't know if it differs there, but yeah, I, I'm not, I'm not an expert

07:32:11.180 on like what you can or can't do as it relates to like drinking, cursing, drinking as a Christian.

07:32:17.460 But, uh, final thing from you, you, you said you think Andrew's views on submission is gross.

07:32:23.920 Yes, I do.

07:32:24.820 Um, some of this stuff, uh, you know what?

07:32:29.740 Maybe we'll save it if you ever have a condo with, we already got into some of the submission

07:32:33.620 talk with the bow.

07:32:34.440 So I feel like we covered that Ophelia, Ophelia did her stuff.

07:32:38.960 Lady J.

07:32:39.820 Oh, my, finally, my favorite.

07:32:42.860 Oh, why am I your favorite now?

07:32:44.620 Oh, I don't know.

07:32:45.120 I'm just saying that disregard.

07:32:47.160 Cause I bowed.

07:32:48.400 See?

07:32:50.200 Uh, let's see.

07:32:51.320 You've got endless dating, excuse me, endless dating stories. 0.71

07:32:54.720 You've dated pro athletes.

07:32:56.540 I did.

07:32:57.860 Yeah.

07:32:58.760 NFL.

07:33:00.320 I, I, you don't have to say who just NFL.

07:33:02.520 Oh, no, NHL.

07:33:04.440 Hockey.

07:33:05.240 Mm-hmm.

07:33:06.100 Uh, baseball.

07:33:07.920 I mean, I dealt with a lot of them.

07:33:09.320 I never dated a baseball player.

07:33:10.800 Basketball?

07:33:11.680 NBA?

07:33:12.220 Nope.

07:33:12.940 So mostly hockey guys.

07:33:14.820 Um.

07:33:15.400 Hey, you would be a good match for, for, uh, pasty Canadian, you know? 0.99

07:33:19.860 I, I did briefly date an NFL player as well.

07:33:22.180 He plays.

07:33:22.500 A long time ago.

07:33:23.500 It was brief.

07:33:24.300 You know what?

07:33:24.860 Here's the crazy thing, right?

07:33:26.000 Pasty.

07:33:27.080 Um, you know, he never made it to the majors, but like, he was honestly, he was so close,

07:33:31.740 but he got like an injury.

07:33:33.680 So he was like a.

07:33:34.680 Was it from walking back from the woods when he was 11?

07:33:36.860 He played college, um, hockey.

07:33:38.860 Yeah. 1.00

07:33:39.060 Like, he was a fucking all-star. 0.99

07:33:40.760 Like, they scouted him, and, um. 0.99

07:33:43.280 My ex-husband was supposed to be first round, like, first draft pick, but your only draft

07:33:47.060 year is, yeah, is 18, and he missed it.

07:33:49.260 He was, yeah, so pasty.

07:33:50.800 He unfortunately had like a.

07:33:52.200 You're really selling pasty right now.

07:33:53.940 No, he had an injury, and like, but if you like hockey players, like, he's your guy.

07:33:58.060 I'm actually not a fan of any sort of professional athlete.

07:34:01.060 I just, I happen to have some stories.

07:34:02.480 I worked with them for years, so I have a lot of stories about them.

07:34:05.240 Celebs?

07:34:06.600 Have I dated any?

07:34:07.720 Like, famous actor?

07:34:10.040 Um, I'm, again, I worked with a ton of them.

07:34:12.320 I never chose to sleep with any of them.

07:34:13.940 No.

07:34:14.320 Oh, uh, musicians?

07:34:17.420 Um, flirting and talking, and then turned down the trip.

07:34:21.920 Oh, okay.

07:34:22.420 You said you dated criminals, too?

07:34:24.020 I, yeah.

07:34:25.020 Yeah, tell us about that really quick.

07:34:26.340 Um, that's the one I'm dealing with.

07:34:27.980 Currently?

07:34:28.680 Oh, your husband.

07:34:32.420 What?

07:34:33.180 Drugs?

07:34:34.300 Uh, what?

07:34:35.080 Drugs?

07:34:35.600 No, I mean, no.

07:34:36.540 Pablo Escobar?

07:34:37.320 No, no, no, no.

07:34:38.160 Cocaine?

07:34:38.680 Nope.

07:34:38.900 Okay.

07:34:39.200 Oh, no, hell no, no, no, no.

07:34:40.340 No.

07:34:40.740 Meth?

07:34:41.120 No.

07:34:41.540 What?

07:34:42.140 Walter White?

07:34:43.160 Breaking Bad?

07:34:44.400 He got cancer.

07:34:47.680 Anyways.

07:34:48.280 He had to support you, so he started a meth business.

07:34:52.480 Yeah, my cancer.

07:34:53.640 Yeah.

07:34:54.100 Yeah.

07:34:54.300 That's why.

07:34:55.160 Yeah.

07:34:55.520 There you go.

07:34:55.720 Um, okay.

07:34:56.780 You disagree with the girls appearing on the show.

07:34:59.680 Typically, yeah.

07:35:00.240 I mean, I'm a pretty conservative young lady.

07:35:02.340 You once dated a very well-known fitness influencer, looked nothing like his online persona.

07:35:07.260 Oh, this is a fun one.

07:35:08.420 This one got brutal.

07:35:11.020 You said he had a roommate, no money, but he presented himself as wealthy, successful

07:35:15.440 businessman.

07:35:15.820 Multi-millionaire, yeah.

07:35:16.800 Spent all day in your office?

07:35:19.400 Came to my home and stayed with me in my, I had a 5,000 square foot house, and he would

07:35:23.540 spend all day in my office, literally arguing with people on Instagram.

07:35:27.780 Okay.

07:35:28.480 Um, then he had a toothache, and he's like, I need to go to the dentist, and I'm like,

07:35:32.280 well, you're a multi-millionaire, but I'll pay for your dentist, and then I wake up in 0.85

07:35:36.100 the middle of the night, and he's jerking off furiously. 0.94

07:35:38.760 Furiously. 0.99

07:35:39.320 And I go, what the hell?

07:35:41.320 And he's like, it helps my toothache.

07:35:43.220 And, uh, I, no joke, literally.

07:35:47.500 And, uh, the next morning, I'm like, you need to get out of my house, it's time for

07:35:50.600 you to leave, because we were not having intercourse.

07:35:52.720 Oh.

07:35:53.280 Uh, because he had a toothache.

07:35:54.980 Um, so then he, he attempted to extort me for thousands and thousands of dollars.

07:36:00.680 Wow.

07:36:01.280 And, um, he's now, we're waiting for his, uh, final judgment.

07:36:05.800 Yeah, I had to. 1.00

07:36:07.120 Wow, shit, that's fucked up. 1.00

07:36:08.800 Yeah, it was fun. 1.00

07:36:10.400 So he got charged with, like, a.

07:36:11.940 I had, well, he, he came after, when I asked him to leave my house, he came after me with

07:36:15.560 all these fake phone numbers and harassments, and he was a very large, scary person, and

07:36:20.140 I have a recording of it all, but, um, I had to go file a restraining order, and then once

07:36:24.960 I submitted all the, the proof of what was happening, uh, the five district attorneys decided

07:36:30.460 to press charges with the state of California.

07:36:32.960 Yeah.

07:36:33.500 Yeah.

07:36:33.800 What, what were the crimes?

07:36:35.580 Like, was it extortion?

07:36:35.940 It was attempted extortion, revenge porn, harassment.

07:36:38.960 Oh, yikes.

07:36:39.860 Yeah, it was pretty, it was pretty.

07:36:40.800 That's like felonies, right?

07:36:42.080 Yeah, I think it's going to get reduced, unfortunately.

07:36:44.660 It's really, it's taken six years for them to build this whole case, so it's been a long

07:36:48.560 time.

07:36:49.340 All right, and then we have, uh, we have Lindsay, and then we have V, then we're done.

07:36:55.240 Okay, we'll be quick.

07:36:57.460 Lindsay, uh, hold on.

07:37:02.660 You want me to, you want me to, men who are passionate, obsessed with crystals, stones.

07:37:08.900 Oh, no.

07:37:09.960 Chakra, astrology, give you the ick.

07:37:12.040 Really?

07:37:12.360 I feel like most women are kind of, well, not, sorry, not most women, but I feel like it's 0.97

07:37:16.120 kind of the reverse.

07:37:16.820 Like, guys get the ick.

07:37:18.380 I'm, I'm not into, like, guys that are into that stuff.

07:37:20.820 Like, spiritual dudes.

07:37:22.040 Okay, that's kind of based, that's based in Red Pilled. 0.97

07:37:24.940 Gay. 0.98

07:37:25.520 You're a legend, Lindsay. 0.99

07:37:26.700 Why would you want your man to be into that?

07:37:27.900 I know.

07:37:28.340 I have crystals here.

07:37:29.620 I love it.

07:37:30.340 In a weird shape, too.

07:37:31.700 And I almost included cats in there, but then I realized you're a cat dad now, so.

07:37:35.880 See, it's all making sense.

07:37:36.640 I like guys that like cats, though.

07:37:39.060 But somebody did put something in there, or in, in perspective for me.

07:37:43.800 They're like, men who look at cats are actually more responsible because they know that cats

07:37:49.840 don't need the same attention as dogs.

07:37:52.400 And I was like, oh, okay, touche.

07:37:55.640 Interesting.

07:37:56.320 Okay.

07:37:57.700 Let's see here.

07:37:58.600 You said that there's a growing amount of femme men in today's society. 1.00

07:38:02.820 Huge issue, along with morally disgraceful women. 1.00

07:38:08.080 California men, you know, you've been living here.

07:38:11.980 You grew up, oh, wait, hold on.

07:38:14.360 You say, oh, sorry.

07:38:15.160 You say men who grew up outside of California tend to be more masculine versus California guys.

07:38:22.420 Okay.

07:38:23.400 And then, trying to see.

07:38:28.600 I didn't hear anything cool.

07:38:30.980 You hear, you don't, should I skip it?

07:38:33.000 You want me to skip it?

07:38:33.340 I don't care.

07:38:34.400 Okay.

07:38:35.180 It doesn't make a difference to me.

07:38:36.480 I guess the final thing for you then is, see, it was quick, guys.

07:38:42.000 My girlfriend hated that. 1.00

07:38:44.700 Sorry, that was a really bad joke.

07:38:46.360 Hold on.

07:38:46.740 Oh, wait, whoops.

07:38:48.260 Okay, never mind.

07:38:49.520 Girlfriend hated that. 1.00

07:38:51.560 Never mind.

07:38:52.700 You had to be there.

07:38:53.680 Okay.

07:38:54.820 Ex-girlfriend. 1.00

07:38:56.260 Hear several people constantly say they know they deserve the best and want to be treated like royalty, so like princess or queen shit. 0.99

07:39:04.440 Yet they are the same exact woman who brings chaos to a relationship. 1.00

07:39:07.320 You want to elaborate on that? 1.00

07:39:10.880 Yeah, I think it's, I just, I cannot stand when I hear a girl, I mean, I would say mostly females, and in the sense of, I know what I deserve, and I'm going to get it, and I'm a queen, or I deserve to be treated like this, and yet they are a fucking disaster. 1.00

07:39:34.540 I don't know what else to put it. 0.84

07:39:36.940 Final thing for you, should just be a few minutes here, then we'll do like a brief roast, I guess.

07:39:42.600 Oh, God.

07:39:43.480 Brief roast.

07:39:44.140 Brief roast.

07:39:44.900 Brief roast.

07:39:45.720 They send in roast messages, it'll be five, ten minutes.

07:39:49.920 Tell us the story, you got pregnant when you were 19, and you found out in rehab.

07:39:54.460 Tell us the story.

07:39:55.760 Oh, God.

07:39:56.680 Okay, so, I was, I had my first boyfriend when I was like 18.

07:40:03.220 And we did it for like half a year or so, I don't even know.

07:40:07.780 But I only did girls for, I'm not like only, I still love girls, but.

07:40:12.160 Let me just interrupt you very briefly just to get the roast session going.

07:40:15.880 We're going to do $30 TTS, $29.99, $29.99.

07:40:20.960 You guys can start getting them in, try to get them in quick if you can.

07:40:24.120 $30 roast, $30 roast, final portion of the show here.

07:40:28.660 Didn't mean to, sorry to interrupt you, please go ahead.

07:40:30.780 Yeah, I had like two girlfriends before that, but he was my first like serious relationship, I'd say.

07:40:37.200 And yeah, we broke up and I moved across the country a week later and went to rehab to get sober for the, well, it was like my first attempt at sobriety when I was like 19.

07:40:48.840 Wait, is the stream still going?

07:40:49.820 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, my computer was tripping out.

07:40:55.200 I didn't mean, go ahead, sorry.

07:40:56.920 It was my first attempt at sobriety and I found out I was pregnant in rehab and it was a whole argument.

07:41:06.700 He like really wanted me to abort the kid and I didn't want to because I had the finances and like support for it and I ended up having an ectopic pregnancy and he blocked me and never spoke to me again because I didn't willingly abort the kid.

07:41:22.720 Um, okay.

07:41:27.540 Yeah.

07:41:28.540 I was like, well, aren't you pro abortion or pro choice or whatever? 0.99

07:41:32.120 What the fuck is pro, I'm pro choice, yeah. 0.99

07:41:34.820 Okay, pro choice. 0.98

07:41:35.720 But it doesn't mean that like, you know, that doesn't mean all.

07:41:42.380 How old were you by the, you said you were 18?

07:41:44.560 Well, I was 18 when I first started dating him, but 19 when I got pregnant.

07:41:48.640 But so what, I guess what's the criticism that he broke up with you because you didn't want to have the abortion?

07:41:54.020 No, he just never, well, we were already broken up, but he never wanted to speak to me again.

07:41:58.760 Well, you guys were broken up, so what's the problem?

07:42:01.280 What do you mean?

07:42:02.040 Well, you're, you're like, what's the, did he, are you saying he did something wrong?

07:42:07.660 What?

07:42:08.060 Yeah.

07:42:08.580 Which was what?

07:42:09.220 So, never spit, like, he's not spoken to me in like three years because I didn't willing, like, I lost his kid instead of willingly, you know, getting an abortion.

07:42:22.600 Did he state that to you that he, because you chose to keep it and you lost it, that that's the reason he won't?

07:42:29.260 Yeah, yeah.

07:42:29.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:42:30.700 You stated, yeah.

07:42:31.740 Like, yeah, I have proof.

07:42:32.860 I literally have proof of this.

07:42:34.680 Well, he, hold on.

07:42:36.660 So, he wanted you to get an abortion. 0.99

07:42:39.480 Yeah.

07:42:39.820 But you didn't.

07:42:40.920 No.

07:42:42.200 And he threatened it, like, he threatened it before.

07:42:44.620 Wait, so, question.

07:42:45.460 Did, he broke, you guys broke up before the ectopic?

07:42:51.540 Yeah.

07:42:52.840 Like, among, like, I was across the country.

07:42:55.140 Well, you, hold on, I'm confused.

07:42:56.700 If he broke up with you prior to the ectopic pregnancy, how could that be a post hoc justification for why he broke up with you?

07:43:10.420 No, no, it's not.

07:43:11.920 Isn't that what she said?

07:43:12.760 No, she said they broke up and she was pregnant and he wanted her to get an abortion. 0.93

07:43:17.660 She didn't want to get an abortion. 1.00

07:43:18.880 And then she ended up having to get rid of the baby anyways. 1.00

07:43:23.600 And then he just blocked her.

07:43:25.140 He didn't want anything to do with her anyways.

07:43:26.620 But they already broke up.

07:43:27.320 Because she wanted to keep the baby.

07:43:29.260 So, because she wanted to keep it, he didn't want to be with her anyways.

07:43:32.400 Yeah, yeah.

07:43:32.980 That part I get.

07:43:33.200 But she had to get rid of it.

07:43:34.640 Because it was ectopic.

07:43:36.640 But they had already broken up.

07:43:38.220 Yeah.

07:43:38.360 So, I don't see how the ectopic pregnancy, like, that component of it.

07:43:43.260 Like, I'm, does nobody else understand?

07:43:45.360 I don't see it.

07:43:46.580 Because, like, yeah, I see it.

07:43:48.580 Just because you weren't, like, together anymore doesn't mean that he could, like, he could have supported you, like, at least emotionally or some sort of way instead of blocking you.

07:43:55.720 Yeah, I mean, she was pregnant. 0.85

07:43:56.400 Yeah, right?

07:43:57.740 He didn't want to, I mean, look, we can, not to get into an abortion debate, but.

07:44:01.560 Oh, Lord.

07:44:02.540 Well, no, we're not.

07:44:03.440 We're not going to debate abortion, but.

07:44:07.340 I, I don't see, what's the actual problem?

07:44:11.140 Well, she physically went through something kind of awful with the whole ectopic.

07:44:14.080 Like, that, that, that type of pregnancy is not comfortable.

07:44:16.740 It's a kind of a traumatic experience.

07:44:18.720 Yeah.

07:44:19.040 Probably didn't feel good to, like, go through something so traumatic, both, like, physically and emotionally, since she wanted to keep it.

07:44:23.960 And then he just, like, wants nothing to do with her blocks, or even though they were already split up.

07:44:28.320 They were split up.

07:44:29.380 You could still acknowledge her as a human being that went through something painful.

07:44:32.200 Yeah.

07:44:32.760 That's it.

07:44:33.520 You know, if you would have got hit by a car the next day after you guys broke up and she didn't reach out, are you okay?

07:44:37.940 I mean.

07:44:38.720 Yeah, sure.

07:44:39.260 But, I mean, like, how long were you guys dating for?

07:44:42.800 Yeah, like, half a year.

07:44:44.280 Six months.

07:44:45.160 Does it matter?

07:44:45.800 It was still my first time.

07:44:46.900 I was 18.

07:44:47.340 People, people, people break up all the time after knowing each other for only six months.

07:44:51.660 And, yeah, yeah, we'll get you out soon.

07:44:56.960 But it's, like, women want to go no contact all the time after breakups. 1.00

07:45:02.900 Men want to go no contact all the time after breakups.

07:45:05.200 No, no.

07:45:06.000 But the point is, he tried, like, manipulating the situation like he was going to stay my friend until I didn't get the abortion.

07:45:17.600 You know what I mean?

07:45:18.300 Um, I'm a little confused.

07:45:22.960 You guys get it?

07:45:23.800 I get it.

07:45:24.880 I don't, I'm pretty cut and dry.

07:45:27.420 But there was, okay, but here, here's, here's how I'm understanding it.

07:45:31.000 Mm-hmm.

07:45:31.540 He was like, okay, I'm in a shitty position. 0.94

07:45:34.040 She's pregnant. 1.00

07:45:35.340 I'm, she doesn't want to get rid of it.

07:45:38.520 He's thinking, okay, I'm going to have to be involved somehow.

07:45:41.800 No, no.

07:45:43.620 He's going to be on the hook for child support, whatever it is, right?

07:45:45.860 Um, okay, I'm going to keep things, like, I'm, okay.

07:45:50.980 If a woman, if a woman has your kid, you're kind of linked.

07:46:00.780 Yeah.

07:46:01.400 You're linked.

07:46:02.360 But, like.

07:46:03.260 You're linked.

07:46:04.040 It's in the best interest to, like, have some, look, some guys can just go and disappear.

07:46:10.400 But, you're kind of linked for life. 1.00

07:46:13.980 Unless you totally, you know what, don't pay me child support, don't give a fuck, go away, right? 0.99

07:46:20.320 Now that it was clear that that link was no more. 1.00

07:46:26.500 He had, he already broke up with you.

07:46:28.060 He didn't want anything to do with you.

07:46:29.620 He maybe only maintained contact because you were pregnant with his child.

07:46:33.960 No, no, we were talking before.

07:46:36.400 Like, I moved across the country.

07:46:38.280 We were still talking.

07:46:39.380 I didn't know I was pregnant until, like, a week into rehab.

07:46:42.480 But, we were still talking, like, daily.

07:46:45.580 What?

07:46:46.100 Like, we were still friends.

07:46:46.740 When you were dating?

07:46:48.420 No, we weren't, like.

07:46:50.140 Wait, what?

07:46:51.020 We weren't dating when I was in rehab.

07:46:55.600 But, we were still talking.

07:46:57.720 You know?

07:46:58.440 Like, we were still friends.

07:46:59.600 Like, it was, like, a good terms breakup.

07:47:01.400 I don't understand.

07:47:03.760 You said that he told you he wanted for you to get an abortion.

07:47:07.640 He said he would block you if you didn't.

07:47:09.500 You didn't.

07:47:11.620 What's the issue? 1.00

07:47:12.660 What the fuck? 1.00

07:47:13.520 That's horrible. 1.00

07:47:16.280 What?

07:47:18.480 You're the one who's pro-choice.

07:47:20.240 Why can't a man?

07:47:22.220 Is a man must, like, stay with you or whatever?

07:47:25.600 No!

07:47:26.240 I didn't want him to.

07:47:28.060 I was going to raise him with my bestie.

07:47:29.640 Then what do you care?

07:47:30.380 What do you care if he blocked you?

07:47:31.980 Because that's a horrible thing to do to a human being.

07:47:35.340 Why?

07:47:35.700 You guys broke up.

07:47:37.440 So?

07:47:38.340 Are you not on good terms with any of your exes?

07:47:40.940 Oh, I mean, if I have an amicable breakup, I don't block them.

07:47:44.800 Yeah.

07:47:45.640 We were on good terms.

07:47:47.240 You were on good terms?

07:47:48.060 Yeah, when we broke up.

07:47:48.860 When you got knocked up at 19 in the rehab facility, you were on good terms?

07:47:53.060 No!

07:47:53.840 I moved across the country after we broke up.

07:47:59.420 Women who take drugs and the drug addiction is so severe that they're in... 1.00

07:48:03.180 Was it drug rehab?

07:48:04.760 Yeah.

07:48:05.960 Women who are in drug rehab are never, you know, never mistreat their partners.

07:48:11.620 They're never erratic.

07:48:13.160 There's never any negative behaviors from drug addicts.

07:48:16.560 Um, so in any case, I don't think it's, you know, were you perfect?

07:48:21.780 You're a perfect woman in drug rehab? 1.00

07:48:23.560 Hell no, but neither was he.

07:48:26.160 I don't even think that's her point, though. 1.00

07:48:27.340 Maybe he's a piece of shit, too. 1.00

07:48:28.400 I think her point is just more like it was a traumatic thing, and then he blocked her, 1.00

07:48:33.560 and that's kind of hurtful.

07:48:34.780 It's not like...

07:48:35.260 Some dude she was hooking up with, she gets pregnant, he's like, yo, I don't want to have 1.00

07:48:38.700 the kid. 1.00

07:48:39.440 She's like, nope, I'm going to keep this shit. 1.00

07:48:41.240 She's a drug addict. 1.00

07:48:42.460 By the way, hold on. 1.00

07:48:44.080 Let's put a little accountability here.

07:48:45.700 You got pregnant.

07:48:46.600 Uh, it was like a meth baby?

07:48:50.460 A crack baby?

07:48:51.780 No.

07:48:53.180 Don't even say it's a baby.

07:48:54.460 And not both things exist at the same time.

07:48:56.320 Oh, no, no, no, no, hold on. 1.00

07:48:56.760 Yes, it sucks she didn't contact her, and maybe she was fucked up. 1.00

07:48:59.580 Question for you. 1.00

07:49:00.140 Were you doing drugs after you found out you were pregnant?

07:49:06.760 No.

07:49:07.840 When you got pregnant?

07:49:08.280 I found out, I told you, I found out I was pregnant in rehab.

07:49:10.940 And you stopped, did you stop smoking, stopped drinking, stopped doing drugs?

07:49:14.500 She wasn't able to do it.

07:49:17.220 Oh, people get out of rehab.

07:49:18.220 Let me rephrase it.

07:49:18.680 When you got pregnant, you were doing drugs. 0.99

07:49:21.700 Well, I guess I was like a couple weeks pregnant.

07:49:24.440 What kind of drugs were you doing when you got pregnant? 1.00

07:49:26.500 I'm sorry.

07:49:26.940 Like uppers. 0.98

07:49:28.200 What?

07:49:28.860 Uppers.

07:49:29.800 Okay.

07:49:30.420 Yeah.

07:49:32.080 Okay, well, I mean, the guy broke up with you, you were in rehab.

07:49:40.760 I don't see the problem.

07:49:42.560 That's crazy.

07:49:43.560 His link to you, the moment that you had the abortion or whatever, the link is severed.

07:49:50.460 Wait, there's a great point that's been missed here.

07:49:52.580 It was not.

07:49:53.440 Oh, hold on.

07:49:54.060 You became pregnant while on some heavy drugs.

07:49:58.420 And that baby had a very high chance of coming out in a really bad way.

07:50:04.300 Say it.

07:50:05.040 No, no.

07:50:05.560 Say it.

07:50:05.820 I was four weeks.

07:50:06.820 Say it.

07:50:07.340 Say it.

07:50:08.220 Lady J, say it. 1.00

07:50:08.960 I was four to six weeks.

07:50:10.700 Lady J, say it. 1.00

07:50:12.340 I was four to six weeks when I found out, but I was sober for like two weeks when I found

07:50:20.040 out.

07:50:20.360 Oh, bro.

07:50:21.520 I mean.

07:50:23.340 Either way, it happened the way it was supposed to happen.

07:50:25.860 Yeah.

07:50:26.440 Yeah.

07:50:26.840 I agree.

07:50:27.000 All right.

07:50:27.260 Well, moving off of that.

07:50:29.160 Oh, my God.

07:50:30.360 Hold on.

07:50:31.160 No sympathy for women. 1.00

07:50:32.860 Do you believe in 50-50?

07:50:34.680 Yeah.

07:50:34.880 Because you say.

07:50:35.240 Well, yeah.

07:50:35.920 We already talked about that.

07:50:36.700 Like first dates.

07:50:37.540 Yeah.

07:50:37.560 Okay.

07:50:38.360 Moving off from that.

07:50:41.120 Insult train now.

07:50:42.980 It's what?

07:50:43.660 Insult train.

07:50:44.560 Insult train? 0.98

07:50:45.180 Yeah.

07:50:46.720 Wait, the roasts?

07:50:47.620 Yeah.

07:50:47.780 You want the roasts?

07:50:48.380 We'll get there.

07:50:49.660 We're getting there.

07:50:50.400 We're getting there.

07:50:51.180 There's two more notes.

07:50:52.360 I'm going to leave.

07:50:53.640 Final two notes.

07:50:55.520 Let's see.

07:50:56.140 Hold on.

07:50:57.420 You say the typical view men typically view women as objects.

07:51:01.340 I think chat GPT maybe helped you with this.

07:51:03.600 I don't know.

07:51:03.980 What?

07:51:04.360 You said.

07:51:04.620 Just kidding.

07:51:05.540 Modern dating is so difficult.

07:51:08.620 Hookup culture ruins everything. 1.00

07:51:10.280 Men typically view women as objects and sex toys. 0.99

07:51:13.240 It also ruins everything. 0.99

07:51:16.140 I won't linger on this, but women objectify men. 1.00

07:51:22.820 Okay.

07:51:23.380 Men objectify women.

07:51:24.560 It is what it is. 0.98

07:51:25.940 If women are sex objects, men are success objects. 0.68

07:51:30.220 Women objectify men all the time for a variety of reasons. 1.00

07:51:33.460 Boom. 0.98

07:51:33.920 Roasted. 0.53

07:51:34.520 Lawyered.

07:51:35.020 Next point.

07:51:36.880 Dismantled.

07:51:37.840 Destroyed. 0.98

07:51:38.440 Annihilated. 0.99

07:51:38.980 Nuked.

07:51:39.460 Owned.

07:51:39.880 Just kidding.

07:51:40.760 You're lovely.

07:51:41.940 Cheating is overly normalized.

07:51:43.880 Agree.

07:51:44.460 Wrong.

07:51:44.980 Well, I don't know if it's normalized.

07:51:45.840 What do you mean wrong?

07:51:47.580 No, I say it's wrong to cheat.

07:51:49.000 Yeah, yeah.

07:51:50.320 Rare to find somebody who won't.

07:51:51.620 Have you ever cheated?

07:51:53.600 Everyone has.

07:51:54.980 Not me.

07:51:55.500 Nope.

07:51:55.940 Not true.

07:51:56.880 You said a guy got you flowers once and he took you stargazing.

07:52:00.280 Then he started growling in your ear and you never spoke to him again.

07:52:03.880 Yeah.

07:52:04.120 I don't know.

07:52:05.380 Okay. 1.00

07:52:07.640 What the fuck? 1.00

07:52:08.280 All right. 1.00

07:52:08.580 I mean, that's...

07:52:09.340 All right, guys.

07:52:12.200 We're going to do the roast session now.

07:52:14.140 Get them in.

07:52:14.800 Get them in.

07:52:15.520 I need to get...

07:52:16.500 Oh, hold on.

07:52:18.320 $29 TTS, $29 TTS, streamlines.com slash whatever.

07:52:24.140 Get them in, boys.

07:52:24.800 Get them in.

07:52:25.380 We won't linger on it for too long.

07:52:27.780 Is this how we end on a high note?

07:52:29.480 Yes.

07:52:30.080 It's great. 1.00

07:52:30.920 That's fucked. 1.00

07:52:31.960 It's great. 1.00

07:52:32.640 Oh, why didn't it trigger?

07:52:34.080 That's the best part of the show.

07:52:35.600 For you.

07:52:36.440 Okay, great.

07:52:36.980 Best part. 1.00

07:52:38.480 It's like, I had to listen to you stupid bitches for eight hours. 1.00

07:52:42.580 We're like eight. 1.00

07:52:43.580 Lady J is funny. 1.00

07:52:48.560 Oh, thanks.

07:52:49.520 She's got jokes.

07:52:51.320 She's got jokes.

07:52:52.900 Hold on.

07:52:53.280 Why isn't it playing?

07:52:54.660 One sec, guys.

07:52:55.320 Let me see what's going on here.

07:52:58.360 Hello?

07:52:58.800 Is it going to freaking play?

07:53:00.320 Oh, no.

07:53:01.160 Uno Memento, guys.

07:53:02.040 Guys, like the video if you enjoyed the stream.

07:53:03.820 Like the video.

07:53:04.420 Here we go.

07:53:04.820 Let's see.

07:53:06.080 There we go.

07:53:07.400 Pasty George donated $30.

07:53:10.000 Make up for an angel segment as well.

07:53:11.340 I'm not doing it.

07:53:12.800 Just so you know.

07:53:13.580 Will you make up?

07:53:14.560 Will you guys take your make up?

07:53:15.560 Claire, make up. 0.99

07:53:16.540 Do you want me to take my extensions out?

07:53:18.060 I have a stitch of the regimen.

07:53:19.760 Make up.

07:53:20.060 All right, we'll skip it because it's already.

07:53:21.840 We're a little late on this one.

07:53:22.360 I would, though.

07:53:23.180 I would.

07:53:24.540 Your XT donated $30.

07:53:27.300 Share one.

07:53:27.840 Can you please explain to use the motivation for the double eyebrow thing?

07:53:32.080 It's been driving me nuts.

07:53:34.560 Makeup removal, please.

07:53:36.640 Also, who is the maniac telling women that tattoos look good? 0.97

07:53:41.120 That's not double eyebrows.

07:53:42.380 That's a cut.

07:53:43.100 Oh, yeah.

07:53:44.140 It's like a, yeah, it's a little cut crease, but I get what you mean.

07:53:47.920 Is it a tattoo?

07:53:48.900 No.

07:53:49.580 No.

07:53:49.640 It's makeup.

07:53:50.920 Yeah, yeah.

07:53:51.300 It's just eyeliner.

07:53:52.240 It's very 70s share, babe.

07:53:54.300 I like it.

07:53:55.020 Yeah.

07:53:55.180 That's so funny.

07:53:55.720 I don't think it's such a guy thing to say.

07:53:57.040 Double eyebrows.

07:53:58.040 That's the one thing that never made sense to me. 0.99

07:54:01.040 A woman can block a man for whatever stupid reason during or after a relationship, but men 1.00

07:54:06.800 can't do that. 1.00

07:54:08.360 What the puppy?

07:54:08.840 Rage bait is funny.

07:54:10.420 I don't think it was that hard to understand.

07:54:12.200 I mean, I'm just like-

07:54:12.960 No.

07:54:13.980 Yeah. 0.99

07:54:14.420 Like, you have to have human sympathy to fucking get- 0.99

07:54:19.240 I'm not going to give too much charity to a woman who's, like, in drug rehab. 0.99

07:54:25.340 Like, I can't imagine you were, like, that was a healthy relationship.

07:54:29.800 It wasn't.

07:54:30.120 Like, and look, I'm not saying he was perfect, but, like, if you're in drug rehab, you were

07:54:34.820 probably toxic.

07:54:36.220 Maybe he was toxic, too.

07:54:37.640 I'm not going to totally let him escape from any sort of whatever, but-

07:54:43.120 I mean, I don't agree with the situation, but I can understand what she's trying to say.

07:54:48.220 Yeah.

07:54:48.420 I get the point.

07:54:49.400 Can you scoot into the table a little bit?

07:54:51.540 Oh, sorry.

07:54:52.140 Hold on.

07:54:52.540 But hold on.

07:54:53.080 Yeah.

07:54:53.720 Like, who knows?

07:54:55.680 Look, whatever.

07:54:56.600 We're not going to comment on it.

07:54:58.580 No, no.

07:54:59.220 I'm fine with it, but-

07:55:01.260 Uh, let's see here.

07:55:05.160 Let me see if there was anything else.

07:55:10.220 There's a few I'm going to allow if anybody wants to get some roasts in.

07:55:14.880 I want to get roasted.

07:55:16.220 Yes, roast her, please. 1.00

07:55:17.780 Please. 0.93

07:55:18.180 She needs to be roasted. 1.00

07:55:20.100 Roast her. 0.99

07:55:23.040 Roast. 0.99

07:55:23.880 Roast.

07:55:24.460 Roast.

07:55:24.960 Okay.

07:55:25.240 So, we can see the full chat at a later point when we rewatch this.

07:55:29.020 Yeah, on the way back.

07:55:30.980 That's when the real trauma starts.

07:55:32.520 Oh, yeah.

07:55:32.840 I know.

07:55:33.780 I know.

07:55:34.080 I'm coming back.

07:55:34.400 You guys are going to need-

07:55:35.560 I've been going crazy this entire time.

07:55:37.780 You guys are going to need therapy.

07:55:39.500 You guys definitely will need therapy after this.

07:55:41.360 Okay.

07:55:41.700 There's more.

07:55:42.520 Um, let's see here.

07:55:45.900 Um, okay.

07:55:47.520 Uh, I guess the only final thing from this questionnaire that I would say, Rachel, did

07:55:53.600 you have an input on the, like, women are oppressed in the USA thing?

07:55:57.600 Yeah, it's kind of long.

07:55:58.740 I think everyone-

07:55:59.960 Yeah, she's passing on that.

07:56:01.060 It's not-

07:56:01.560 I don't think, like, legally we're oppressed.

07:56:04.560 I think we go through situations.

07:56:05.660 Sure.

07:56:05.740 Okay.

07:56:06.420 Uh, any final thoughts from any panelists before I get this wrapped up here?

07:56:10.040 All right.

07:56:10.560 I mean, there's no other-

07:56:11.400 Thank you for the pizza.

07:56:12.040 Oh, yeah.

07:56:12.300 Of course.

07:56:12.840 Uh, there's no other roast coming through, so-

07:56:14.720 Wow.

07:56:15.100 Look at us.

07:56:15.680 Yeah, I know. 0.99

07:56:16.260 I guess if Ophelia or whatever the fuck her name is, maybe if she had stayed, there 0.99

07:56:20.220 would be more roasts. 0.99

07:56:20.880 But maybe you guys were pretty-

07:56:22.560 I almost called her Eurisa.

07:56:24.640 That's surprising.

07:56:26.440 The show was gone for-

07:56:27.220 I kind of looked like-

07:56:27.920 Someone called me Ozzy's stepdaughter.

07:56:30.300 I was like, yeah.

07:56:30.940 Yeah, someone called you the female Ozzy at the beginning of this, too.

07:56:34.020 I love that.

07:56:34.760 That's great.

07:56:37.020 All right.

07:56:38.000 Let me just check here.

07:56:39.580 Okay, well, if any trickle in, I'll be sure to get them, but I want to say-

07:56:43.640 Oh, he'll text us directly this evening.

07:56:46.740 Please.

07:56:48.100 Yeah.

07:56:48.200 Oh, he's doing his outro.

07:56:50.880 Yeah, I'm doing the outro.

07:56:52.300 GG.

07:56:53.280 Well played.

07:56:54.280 To the panel.

07:56:55.180 Last call.

07:56:56.380 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

07:57:00.560 Also, guys, wait until the stream fully ends.

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07:57:04.400 Leave a nice comment once the live ends.

07:57:06.920 You have to wait like 30 seconds after the live for you to be able to leave a comment.

07:57:12.680 I read them.

07:57:13.560 Helps the algorithm.

07:57:14.760 Positivity is nice.

07:57:16.120 You can say something nice about me or one of the guests.

07:57:18.080 Ryan deserves it.

07:57:19.120 His life was threatened tonight.

07:57:20.980 That's true. 1.00

07:57:21.980 That shit was crazy. 1.00

07:57:24.280 Yeah. 1.00

07:57:25.200 But I mean, he put you in the same-

07:57:26.560 She put you in the same category as Charlie, so I mean-

07:57:28.740 That is an honor.

07:57:29.220 You must be really cool, you know?

07:57:30.780 I'd rather just not be unalived.

07:57:32.340 Yeah, I know.

07:57:32.540 But thank you guys for tuning in tonight.

07:57:35.460 Thank you to the wonderful panel.

07:57:36.820 But to everybody, you could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

07:57:41.400 I appreciate that.

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07:57:46.200 Pasty George.

07:57:46.820 I don't know if you're still watching. 1.00

07:57:47.820 What the fuck? 0.99

07:57:48.780 iPhone Air. 1.00

07:57:49.540 My dainty man.

07:57:50.400 No, I'm just kidding.

07:57:51.420 I'm sorry.

07:57:51.920 It's just like, it's going to be a meme.

07:57:53.300 It's going to be a meme at this point.

07:57:55.100 Pasty George, can you go on eBay and find me a BlackBerry?

07:57:58.960 Like a 2004 BlackBerry.

07:58:01.600 Is he like your sugar?

07:58:02.400 I need a little-

07:58:03.280 Yeah, for real.

07:58:03.780 I need a physical keyboard.

07:58:05.300 I have one.

07:58:05.600 My hands are too-

07:58:06.360 I have one.

07:58:07.080 Me too.

07:58:07.320 I can't do the digital keyboard.

07:58:09.340 Get me a BlackBerry, Pasty George.

07:58:11.400 Yes.

07:58:11.800 Or a flip phone.

07:58:13.600 Nokia. 1.00

07:58:14.360 Get me a fucking Nokia $30 flip phone. 1.00

07:58:18.020 Okay. 1.00

07:58:19.040 Thank you.

07:58:19.840 And thank you for the champagne pop, by the way.

07:58:22.640 Thank you.

07:58:23.200 Thank you so much.

07:58:24.560 Okay.

07:58:25.640 We will be live again whatever Wednesday.

07:58:29.520 Between 3 to 4, around there, p.m.

07:58:32.240 Live again with another Dating Talk Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific.

07:58:34.680 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram. 0.61

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07:58:40.940 Guys, like the video, please.

07:58:43.280 If you enjoyed the stream, we have a final message here from Pasty George.

07:58:49.020 Pasty George donated $30.

07:58:50.940 Pasty George.

07:58:51.680 I want to thank the panelists for attending the podcast.

07:58:55.080 Very proper.

07:58:56.300 Thank you.

07:58:56.740 Thank you all, and good night.

07:58:59.820 Good night.

07:59:01.360 Bye.

07:59:02.360 Thanks, Pasty.

07:59:03.860 Appreciate it.

07:59:04.480 So, yeah.

07:59:05.140 07's in the chat, guys.

07:59:06.380 07.

07:59:06.780 Are we forgetting something, or are we good?

07:59:08.300 Nope.

07:59:09.400 Okay.

07:59:09.760 07's in the chat.

07:59:11.000 Good night, guys.

07:59:12.620 And we will see you next time.

07:59:14.120 Good night.

07:59:15.280 Good night.

07:59:15.640 Thank you.

Whatever Podcast - October 13, 2025

Evil Girl KICKED OUT Who Wants Brian KlLLED Like Charlie Kirk？! WTF! Feminism DEBATE! ｜ Dating Talk #264

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