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00:03:31.900 uh, because tab back, uh, all labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter. So as someone who only dates

00:03:39.080 women with large labia, it's a really, it's a close issue to me. Um, yeah, so it's the pressing issue

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00:04:50.720 you will join the discord. I mean, you could also feel like that sounds bad. You know, Nick,

00:04:59.160 what do you think? You know what I mean? Like, because obviously other people besides

00:05:04.740 like when I say my Caucasian, you could be Asian, you could be black, you could be Latino,

00:05:11.980 Latino, Native American, Polynesian, whatever. You can still join the discord. I'm just saying

00:05:19.760 like, if you're a black man, you are my Caucasian. If you join the discord anyways, good talk. Uh,

00:05:25.980 okay. Without further ado, we're going to have the guests, wonderful guests today introduce

00:05:31.260 themselves. So please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from and education.

00:05:37.800 Hi, my name is Maria Portia. I'm from Los Angeles. I'm 27. Um, I am an SMC student studying psychology.

00:05:48.080 All right. And, uh, how close are you to graduating? Um, two more years, two more years. Okay. What do

00:05:54.100 you want to do with your degree? You want to figuring it out? Maybe more in the therapy end, um, maybe even

00:06:00.960 like online therapy. So, so you're currently a sophomore. Yes. Okay. Have you taken any psychology

00:06:07.220 classes in high school? And then, um, earlier this year I took like psych one, psych one. Okay. So

00:06:12.880 you're just, yeah, I'm taking the second one in, um, January. Gotcha. What's like from, so you just

00:06:19.220 took that psych class though? Just, yeah. Okay. So it's still kind of fresh in your brain. Yes. Very. Uh,

00:06:23.980 give me like one thing you learned. One thing I learned? Like the biggest takeaway from the class.

00:06:29.140 Hmm. Biggest takeaway. Um, just, I guess like mind over matter. Really?

00:06:37.080 My wait, mind over matter. They taught that in the class. Yeah. In psych one. Is that what it's

00:06:43.860 called? Psych one. Psychology one, psych one, like breaking it down. Okay. It's not one Oh one.

00:06:48.880 No. 100. One Oh one. It's just one psych one. Okay. So it's mind over matter. Couldn't you learn

00:06:56.780 that from like an Instagram post or science? Like a 13 year old girl's Instagram post or

00:07:02.700 something? It's mind over matter, you know? No, because it is like, you know, it's your

00:07:06.380 brain over like the matter, you know, your brain. But so what does that mean though? Just

00:07:11.200 kind of like the effect of how each person, you know, is going to basically like interact

00:07:17.100 with a problem. Um, but so is that like, did you have to write an essay or anything for the class?

00:07:26.860 Uh, I did not over that, not on that. What was your essay final letter? Was it a final essay? I don't

00:07:32.120 know. The final final was just over. I'm trying to even remember on that right now. Well, you wrote,

00:07:37.860 what, how many essays did you have to write for the class? Like good three or four. Okay. The most

00:07:42.840 recent one you wrote, what was the topic? Can't tell you. You chat GPT, you just pump that out for

00:07:47.620 you? No, I didn't pump it out. I'm just forgetful. But what it was, wait, like over the summer you

00:07:54.280 took psych one or? Over January, winter. Oh, so a few months back. Yeah. About going on a year ago.

00:08:01.320 Okay. You don't remember the essay? Nope. The topic? I would have to bring it up on my phone. That's

00:08:06.860 how quick I forget things. Anything else? Like second number one thing, number two thing,

00:08:12.840 that you learned from your psych class. I really can't tell you. Relay, relay to us what you

00:08:19.780 learned in psych one. You're a psych, you want to study psychology. Tell me what you learned. One

00:08:26.700 thing. Do I want to study psychology at this point? Well, you're a psych major, right? I know. Yes.

00:08:30.780 Give me, give me just, okay. So mind over matter. God, love it. Love it. Sigmund, real Sigmund Freud,

00:08:37.860 Freud over here. What, what's the number two thing that you learned in psych? Number two? Yeah.

00:08:44.300 I mean, it's science based. So just. Is it? Is psychology science based? Isn't it like a soft

00:08:54.960 science though? Very soft. Yeah. So is it really science based? Um, what, but what did you learn

00:09:00.400 though? Can't tell you. All right. I'm not, I'm not, this actually, look, I don't really think that

00:09:07.980 this is an indictment of you. I think it's actually an indictment of the educational system to some

00:09:12.820 degree. Um, potentially, but, uh, I didn't mean to grow you there, but okay. You're, you're from LA.

00:09:19.380 Do you do, you work or you, you do some modeling, right? Yes. Modeling. Uh, runway model. Both. Um,

00:09:25.160 like runaway commercial print, um, music videos. What, what's, Oh, music. What, who, who have you,

00:09:31.160 uh, um, I was in, uh, Chris Brown, Jeremiah one. Um, it was last summer. Chris Brown. Okay. Did you,

00:09:38.500 uh, did you meet? Yeah. What's his name? Wait, what's his crazy? What's his name? Is it breezy?

00:09:48.880 Breezy nickname? Breezy. Did you meet Breezy? Yes. Yeah. I know him pretty well. Oh, you know him pretty

00:09:53.660 well. Yeah. Like hung out, hung out with them. It's LA. Did you have like a, you know, it's a

00:09:59.000 dating podcast. Do you guys have a date or, um, not a date. Flirtation for sure. For sure. Cause

00:10:04.940 he, he's a bit of a ladies man. Definitely. He is. Yeah. Yes. So did you have a date with

00:10:11.960 him or not a date? Not a date. More like hangouts, hangouts and like group settings, you know,

00:10:16.620 many women around. Doesn't he charge, like he does these meet and greets where he'll take a photo

00:10:21.800 with you? Yeah. Doesn't he charge like an obscene amount for the thousand, like a thousand dollars.

00:10:26.940 Yeah. And then the girls can like bring their cuck boyfriend or whatever. Basically. And

00:10:32.240 they're doing all kinds of poses and like the craziest, like him proposing to the girl or

00:10:37.220 like, I'm going to write a note to ask the panel, like the Chris Brown boyfriend, girlfriend. Okay.

00:10:45.300 Yeah. We'll come back to that. Um, okay. Uh, modeling you, you've done some print stuff.

00:10:50.640 Any companies we might've heard of? Um, build a bear build a bear. Uh, Sephora, um, Amika.

00:10:57.640 That was another like hair campaign. Nice. Rock and roll. Good stuff. Good stuff. What about you?

00:11:05.140 Uh, I'm Liana. I'm 36. Ah, what else? Uh, where I'm from? Yeah. I currently live in

00:11:13.100 Hämeenkirä. And now if anyone wants to ask where it is or guess where it is. Can I have

00:11:19.140 you tilt your mic down a little bit? Like this? Yeah. Um, so yeah, I currently live in Hämeenkirä.

00:11:25.200 Anyone knows where it is? Oh my God. Just tell us, please. Well, you know already. Finland.

00:11:30.480 So. Yay. Uh, okay. You're from Finland. So you speak Finnish. Yeah, I do.

00:11:34.900 Any other languages? Uh, a little bit of French. Well, a little bit of English.

00:11:39.080 Do you speak French? Oui, un peu. Maman, elle est française. Oh, c'est bien ça. C'est bien.

00:11:43.180 Je comprends mieux que je parle. Moi aussi. Moi aussi. Je comprends plus bien que je parle.

00:11:50.360 Anyways, should we talk shit about the rest of the panel in French? Yeah, I'll be.

00:11:55.520 Poutin, alors? Oh, yeah. I don't know all the curse words. Just kidding. I'm kidding.

00:12:00.240 For the French. Every time in school, I hit my throat somewhere. I always cursed in French because

00:12:05.420 you didn't get in trouble with that. Rock and roll. Um, so you're from Finland, uh, born there?

00:12:12.520 Uh, no, born in Jerusalem. So I'm like Jewish, French, and Finnish. Gotcha. When did you move

00:12:17.540 to Finland? When I was four? Four. Oh, three or four around that time. Okay, cool. Uh. But

00:12:23.500 my grandma is Finnish, so I'm like totally. That's mine. Occupation? What do you do for

00:12:28.580 work? I'm a mechanic. Oh, nice. Uh, what kind? Uh, like automotive. Automotive. I actually

00:12:35.720 have a degree in heavy vehicle mechanics, so trucks and bigger vehicles. Oh, trucks. Okay.

00:12:42.100 Um, so you don't work like for, I don't know, like a BMW dealership. I hate European cars. We're

00:12:50.180 actually the only garage that does only American cars in Finland. Oh, wow. Okay. And you said

00:12:55.560 heavy machinery. Yeah, that's where I got my degree in. Okay. Wow. A degree? Yeah. At a

00:13:02.920 university in Finland for that? Well, it's like, uh, I'm not the goal in Finnish, but what

00:13:08.320 is it? Great school. Great school. That makes sense. Probably. Okay. Uh, I noticed your

00:13:12.040 teeth is bejeweled. Yeah. You have a little jewel there? Yeah. Okay. Anybody here have

00:13:16.680 a grill by chance? They could pop in? No? Maybe Chris Brown can get you hooked up. I actually

00:13:23.080 went to get my first one when I was 16 with my mom, so when my daughter turned 13, we went

00:13:29.700 together and got one. Okay. Awesome. I noticed you have a tongue piercing, too? I used to

00:13:33.140 have five. Five tongue piercings? I'm really scared of needles, so yeah, I had five tongue

00:13:37.420 piercings. You're scared of needles, but... Yeah. Okay. Um, where can you even put all

00:13:43.660 five? Where do they, like, underneath? It went across, so... Oh. Like this. Okay. Did you

00:13:50.500 ever have, like, the ones in the lips or whatever, or...? That's the two holes in here. Oh, you had

00:13:55.560 those. And a hole there. Oh, you had the septum? Yeah. Okay. All right. And I had it in my

00:14:00.680 neck, and... Oh my goodness. Here, and yeah. Nice. Okay. Um... So scared of needles. I

00:14:07.560 literally almost pass out every time. And then in terms of your education, it was just, like,

00:14:11.080 the mechanic school that you went to? You got your degree in? Yeah, I bought myself a 72 Valiant,

00:14:18.520 and fell in love with it, and it had electricity problems, so... I built those, and my daughter turned

00:14:25.480 tree, so I had to decide what to do, so I decided to went to school and became a mechanic. Gotcha.

00:14:31.880 All right. What about you? My name is Victoria Bumajdi. I'm 19 years old. I live in Los Angeles,

00:14:38.520 California, and I run a quite controversial page on Instagram where I give harsh advice,

00:14:46.600 but with love. Harsh advice. Controversial. A couple questions. Well, I'll come back to that.

00:14:53.320 Uh, any college or anything like that? Not at the moment, no. Okay. It may be a possibility next

00:14:59.160 year. Okay. Um, but we are seeing how life goes, yes. Gotcha. And, uh, grew up in L.A., you said,

00:15:06.680 or did you say, where did you say, Orange County, or...? Yes, I grew up in L.A. Grew up in L.A.,

00:15:11.400 gotcha. Yes. Okay. Uh, really caught, you said controversial. You know, I, I took a quick peek at your,

00:15:17.480 uh, you also have a TikTok, too. I took a quick peek. Nick, do you have the, uh, the clip? We're just

00:15:22.680 going to play a portion of it. She does. She, she is, in fact, a bit controversial.

00:15:27.160 Um, I happen to find the most controversial one, just to perhaps make you... Well, okay. Go ahead.

00:15:34.600 Play the clip.

00:15:39.080 My interest, okay? From the beginning. Don't take me out of the clip.

00:15:41.560 Always piqued my interest, okay? Wait, scroll it back. Scroll it back.

00:15:45.560 Always piqued my interest. No, no, no, the, the, the bar. It's not scrolling all the way to the...

00:15:51.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like that, like that. All the way to the beginning. Wait, wait, wait,

00:15:54.600 let's stop, stop, stop. Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop. Let me, let me stop talking,

00:15:58.440 and then play it. Go ahead. Hitler always piqued my interest, okay? Wow. Okay, that's crazy. I mean,

00:16:04.920 it's a very controversial. Um, so, I mean, I won't let the, what... Do you want to explain that?

00:16:12.600 Yeah, I mean, I could explain the video as much as I remember. Um, I actually have a different take. Um,

00:16:20.280 rather than hating on people who have done horrible things, I'm not, not here to say that,

00:16:25.400 or defend Hitler. Um, I try to figure out how they became, who they became, um, why they are in our

00:16:33.000 history books, while many other, um, you know, dictators in history were not as prominent. Um,

00:16:41.320 in that video, I didn't necessarily touch on that, but as I grow, I try to learn as much as I can from

00:16:49.160 every subject, not just history, but yeah. Um, I think also the reason why I, uh, am so controversial

00:16:56.600 is because I'm not afraid to say what others may hesitate to do, so this could be really anything. Um,

00:17:03.560 it could be about gender roles, it could be about my views on, um, the LGBTQ community, it could be about

00:17:09.400 my views on many other communities, like minority communities. Um, but yeah, I really try to venture

00:17:15.880 across every single, um, subject that people are afraid to touch, and yeah, and I love it.

00:17:23.160 Okay. Gotcha. Uh, oh, quick reminder guys, if you do buy merch, it comes up like this on the screen,

00:17:32.120 and we will give you guys shout outs. Uh, so if you do purchase merch, like I said, it goes through

00:17:37.000 streamlabs.com slash whatever, and, uh, we'll be able to do a little read. Looks like two people

00:17:43.080 bought t-shirts and somebody bought a, one of the premium, uh, hoodies. So thank you, man. Appreciate it.

00:17:48.120 Uh, and usually you can put in your name and include even a little message along with it.

00:17:53.160 And going to you, what about you? My name is Laura. I'm 31 years old. I am from the San Fernando

00:18:01.880 Valley and I currently am unemployed, previously a personal assistant. And I went to school,

00:18:10.440 I went to a trade school as well, um, for accounting and for landscaping, two very different things that

00:18:16.440 I was really interested in. Um, not working in those fields, but they're always applicable to life.

00:18:23.320 So. Okay. Got it. Got it. And you said 31, right? Yes. Okay. Gotcha. Just turned 31.

00:18:29.320 Gotcha. All right. And you currently said you're unemployed. Is that correct? Okay. Homeless?

00:18:35.960 No. Not homeless. Okay. I live in Calvary. We had a homeless person recently, I guess.

00:18:40.360 Period. Um, oh, speaking of which the homeless person was that from, was that two shows ago or was

00:18:47.240 it last show? The, the urban climber chick, uh, in the BTS tab, Nick, can you pull up the discord BTS tab?

00:18:57.480 Uh, there was a, we, we posted a behind the scenes thing in our behind the scenes tab on there.

00:19:04.040 We're not going to play it, but you can just windows tab. You can just show it. Yeah. So, um, yeah, uh,

00:19:11.480 it's there if you guys want to see it. Um, a bit of a crash out meltdown. I mostly blame Felicity for it.

00:19:18.760 Felicity really got under, Felicity got under that girl's skin. Um, definitely wasn't me. So if you want

00:19:25.480 to see it, discord.gg slash whatever, uh, pull it up in the stream yard. Uh, okay. What about you?

00:19:32.360 My name is Paige Hamilton. I'm from New York. Um, I'm a mommy. Hi kids. I told them I'd say hi. Um,

00:19:39.080 I'm also a wife. Um, I worked for 13 years, um, helping people with disabilities in the community,

00:19:44.760 but I am recently disabled myself. So I had to switch gears because I couldn't go from income

00:19:49.320 to no income. And I started cozy cute co.com and I make apparel that's cozy and cute. And this is one

00:19:55.960 of my shirts. So thank you. All right. Um, my name is Sabrina. I'm 35 and I grew up in Orange County

00:20:07.560 and I live in the Inland Empire right now. And where I worked, I was a, I'm a data analyst

00:20:14.280 for business. Any college? Yes. I'm going to college for administration of criminal justice.

00:20:19.720 Uh, but you haven't had like a degree from something else previously? No, I went to school

00:20:26.680 a really long time ago and then I came back.

00:20:33.640 Okay. And you're in your first year, second year, third year, fourth year? Um,

00:20:38.360 second year I should graduate next year, but, um, I have been doing data analysis for like eight years

00:20:44.680 through my business. Okay. And then college for you? Oh, I, I did go to college. Um,

00:20:49.880 on and off for a long time. I'm so close to finishing, but, um, right now I'm focusing on

00:20:54.120 being a wife and a mommy. Okay. Where were you studying? I studied art history,

00:20:59.000 art history. So you and you and her can connect on. I actually think it was, oh, I mean,

00:21:05.880 at least she's honest. I think a lot of people are interested in the past. That's how I'll word that.

00:21:11.000 Oh, we, you know what? We should have played the Erica song, but whatever. Um, all right. What about

00:21:16.840 you? Um, my name is Sophia. I'm 18. Um, I live in Orange County. Um, I'm currently a freshman studying

00:21:24.200 history actually. Um, and I also work as at a bakery. Gotcha. Um, and sorry, your age again.

00:21:32.200 Sorry. I missed that. 35. And then your age again. 32. Gotcha. Sorry. Uh, okay. 32, 35, 18. You work

00:21:39.240 at a bakery. Are you in college at all? Uh, yeah. I'm a freshman studying history, history. Got it.

00:21:44.840 Okay. Felicity. What about you? I'm Felicity. I'm 19 from Santa Barbara and I'm a student.

00:21:51.080 All right. Rock and roll. Welcome everybody. We're going to go around the table once more. What is

00:21:55.240 everybody's current relationship status? If you're single, how long have you been single and longest

00:22:02.520 relationship? Hold on. There's actually a TTS coming through. So I guess we'll just do this at

00:22:11.640 now first. One moment. Um, Felicity was actually nevermind. Hold on. Uh,

00:22:21.480 Leroy Jenkins donated $200. Ladies, can we get a fit check? Stand.

00:22:28.040 Sure. Sure. Sure. We'll do it. Would you rather get a massage from a gay man or surgery from a female

00:22:33.880 doctor? Serious surgery. So basically, would you rather get a massage or die? Wow. Uh, that's

00:22:42.360 interesting. Uh, that, that's an interesting question for the chat. So we'll do a fit check. So if

00:22:47.720 everybody just wants to stand up, you can show your outfit off. Uh, we'll, we'll show off the outfits.

00:22:54.040 Uh, oh, uh, I guess maybe just scoot the chair back and scoot in. Okay. So we've got the outfits.

00:23:03.960 There's the outfits, outfits, outfits, outfits, outfits, outfits. And then I guess he asked for a

00:23:12.280 spin. If you guys want to spin, do a little spin. Do the hokey pokey, right? Okay. This, oh, no.

00:23:19.800 Nope. Felicity's not a fan of it, I guess. All right. Leroy, Leroy Jenkins. Wait, is this like,

00:23:25.880 I actually think I have a sound for this. Hold on. Oh no, that's the shit.

00:23:31.720 No. Wait, it's, there it is. There it is. All right. Thank you guy. Um, all right. So going around

00:23:42.520 the table, relationship status, if you're single, how long single and longest relationship you've ever

00:23:47.800 been in, go ahead. Um, single, um, for about two years, technically, um, uh, in a relationship for

00:23:56.520 five years, longest. Yeah. Is that the one that ended two years ago? The five year? No. Okay.

00:24:02.760 Different one. Uh, so the five year one was from one to one, um, from like, uh, 14, 15 year old to like,

00:24:10.600 what, 20, 21. Okay. Gotcha. And then, uh, wait, you said 15 to 21 or 15 to yeah, 21. Okay. So it's

00:24:21.800 like high school. Yeah. High school thing. Who broke up with who? Uh, we were on and off a lot of

00:24:26.480 different times, but me finally ending it because the guy just kept shooting and like doing dirty

00:24:32.040 stuff. Like how, how old, how old was he? Oh, um, literally same age. Same age. Okay. And then

00:24:39.400 the most recent relationship you said you've been single for two years and did two years ago. How

00:24:44.320 long was that one? Um, how long was it? It was like two years. Yeah. To your relationship. Who broke

00:24:50.940 up with who? Me. Uh, any, any reason? Um, cheater again. What's that? Cheater. Cheater. Yeah. You

00:24:57.960 cheated? No. Well, actually maybe when we were off, I did and that was considered cheating, but not to

00:25:03.700 me because we were off on a break. Off. Was it off again, on again, multiple times? Not multiple

00:25:12.420 times. There's really only one off time and yeah. Okay. All right. Um, by the way, I just realized

00:25:23.980 not related to anything you've just said, I just put the, uh, woman from Israel next to the, I swear

00:25:33.880 this was not intentional next to the woman who said she, what did you say about Hitler's? I said,

00:25:40.340 I found him intriguing. I never said anything positive about it. I don't. Yeah. I've heard people say

00:25:44.560 that. I'm just, I swear that was not intentional. Do you have thoughts since you're, do you have any

00:25:53.400 thoughts on what she said? Well, no, because she didn't say anything bad. Of course I can put myself

00:26:01.340 into people's shoes also and think why somebody did something and either agree or disagree, but I

00:26:10.600 didn't see that as anything offensive. Gotcha. Okay. I appreciate that. Thank you so much.

00:26:16.160 Just to create a little more. Well played. Uh, I swear that was, I didn't even know you're from

00:26:23.400 Israel. Um, that was a new revelation when you said that, uh, during your, I thought you were

00:26:28.360 Finnish. Um, I have both actually here. Oh, you have a blue and white tattoo. So it's my name.

00:26:34.600 Say at the bottom. Oh, Israel. It's Finland and Israel and the flags are together.

00:26:38.440 Cause Finland is blue and white. Yeah. Right. Okay. Well, there you go. Um, okay. So you've

00:26:45.500 been single for two years. Yes. Uh, any, anything in the two year period, anything like, you know,

00:26:52.320 a couple months situation or whatever. Oh yeah. Recently there was one. So bad. So bad. What

00:26:59.560 did you do? I didn't do anything. I don't think I did anything. He would have to say what happened

00:27:04.220 because he literally just started posting a new relationship on his finsta, like on a finsta

00:27:10.960 where I wouldn't have seen it. Can you explain to the viewers what a finsta is? A finsta is

00:27:16.700 literally like, I don't know if it's a fake Instagram or what they call it, but like when

00:27:20.920 you just post random moments in your life on a different account and it could be the most random

00:27:26.620 things, like just whatever, like whatever you find intriguing. Gotcha. Okay. But, uh, so

00:27:33.780 you guys were seeing each other for how long? Um, for like two, three months from June to

00:27:40.420 yeah, June to like September. Okay. So you recently broke up. Yeah. That's recent. Okay. Have you had

00:27:49.620 a rebound since him? No, no, no actual rebound. Any guys in the picture currently? Um, not in person.

00:27:58.940 Breezy? No, he's on tour, whatever done. If Chris Brown, like slid in your DM right now and he's like,

00:28:06.460 Hey, you want to come on tour with me? Would you go? I would go. Yeah. I would definitely go. Okay.

00:28:12.500 All right. I'm kind of old. So like Chris Brown's cool again, like for like a while now, right? I mean,

00:28:18.360 I feel like he's always, he's maintained relevancy for kind of a long time. I think. Okay.

00:28:23.340 But after the Rihanna thing, he was not. Oh, I mean, he's definitely continued to have,

00:28:31.080 I mean, it's that had a pretty massive negative impact on his career, but he's remained pretty

00:28:36.200 relevant. I know my sister, maybe not as much as like, I don't know when his peak was. 2005.

00:28:43.080 Yeah, exactly. But I'd say, I know my sister just went to his concert, but we don't see eye to eye on

00:28:48.240 anything. So I'm not surprised. Okay. Um, so there's currently sort of a guy in the picture

00:28:55.880 that I'm interested in kind of seeing what would happen. Um, another celebrity person, but I don't

00:29:05.560 know. Okay. Gotcha. Uh, all right. What about you? In a committed relationship? I think it's been now

00:29:14.860 seven years. So living together, working together. Are you guys married? No. Ever married? Nope.

00:29:22.820 Kids? One. From current relationship? Uh, a relationship before. How old's your kid?

00:29:29.040 11. No, 12. 12. Yeah. Okay. Hi, Ariella. Mama loves you. How long was that relationship?

00:29:37.220 Uh, six years. The father of your kid? Yeah. Okay. Uh, were you guys engaged or anything?

00:29:45.280 Yeah, but not married. But not married? Nope. Uh, who ended that relationship? Who called

00:29:50.400 off the engagement? Me. Why is that? Because I was cheated on a lot. You, wait, he was cheating

00:29:56.380 on you? Yeah. Okay. When you say a lot, how many women and or men did he have cheat on you

00:30:05.000 with? Well, the first time I found it out, my daughter has just been born and he took a

00:30:13.320 Tinder girlfriend out because I was too tired and no, I just got home and yeah, he was thinking

00:30:23.000 he didn't want it to be alone if I leave him. And because I was so tired, of course, I wonder

00:30:29.400 why he took another girl out. And that kind of went on for six years on and off.

00:30:37.680 Damn. Okay. Um, and, uh, does, and you both live in Finland, right? Yep. Is there a child

00:30:46.100 support system in Finland? Yep. Okay. And so does, how much he pays you money, I guess?

00:30:51.680 I've never asked for anything. Okay. Um, I hate the idea that if you, of course, if you really

00:30:57.440 need the money, it's okay. But if you really don't need it to have an argument with the

00:31:03.480 other parent of your child is just something, I don't like the idea that it's always, you

00:31:09.280 have a relationship with somebody and you're kind of in an argument all the time because

00:31:15.000 the other one is mad about giving you money or something like that. So. Yeah. Yeah. Um,

00:31:20.360 so do you guys have shared custody? Yeah. Is it like 50, 50 custody? Yeah. We used to have.

00:31:26.900 Okay. So he gets the daughter on the weekends or how does it work? Not anymore. You get, uh,

00:31:32.780 what's the. For like, um, before COVID, every time he called, he wanted my daughter there. It was okay.

00:31:40.280 But after COVID, he, not sure if he got married, but he had a girlfriend and they had a child and

00:31:49.660 haven't heard from him after that. Oh, he's been out of the picture. Yeah. Totally. Yeah. Your

00:31:57.180 daughter's, you said 12 or 13. So he hasn't talked to his daughter in a couple of years? Yeah.

00:32:03.780 At all. Nope. Okay. So he started a new family and he's, I guess. Okay. Um,

00:32:12.260 and I'm assuming you're current, you've been in a relationship for seven years. He, he has acted as

00:32:19.260 a stepfather of sorts to your child. Okay. All right. Um, I think that's it there. Uh, what about you?

00:32:28.480 Um, I am talking to someone and fun fact, he was actually somebody who introduced me to your

00:32:35.500 guys's podcast. Oh, there you go. There you go. I don't know which camera to look at, but I know

00:32:39.660 if you're watching this and, um, yeah, we've been talking for about three months. He's a very humble

00:32:46.200 guy, very hardworking. That is what I value most in a man. And, um, I'm waiting to see how it goes.

00:32:52.900 Okay. Very, very hopeful. Gotcha. Uh, so talking stage, how is that?

00:32:58.480 How, how you would? Yes. I would say that. Three months. Yes. And, uh, longest relationship.

00:33:05.660 My longest relationship was eight months. Yeah. Eight months. Okay. Who broke up with who?

00:33:12.260 Uh, till this day, it is still unclear. Uh, what really just happened was that I stopped

00:33:17.460 reading or responding to messages. So I think we kind of both mutually were like, all right,

00:33:23.020 I think it's over, but, um, yeah. Okay. Um, so it was like a mutual ghost. You just ghosted

00:33:33.260 each other or what happened initially was, um, you know, there was a lot of buildup to

00:33:39.060 it, but I eventually found out that he was on hinge and, um, I actually, he still to this

00:33:45.840 day. He doesn't know that I knew, but I was so heartbroken. Um, my friend, a friend, she

00:33:52.100 sent that, uh, a picture from her friend that, uh, she screenshotted and sent it, uh, to me

00:33:58.640 while we were on call. And the funny thing was at that exact moment, he responded to the

00:34:03.580 apology text that I wrote because I thought I was in the wrong, but, um, yeah, I found that

00:34:08.580 out was so heartbroken that I just didn't bother to respond. I liked the message and

00:34:13.700 left it at that. But yeah, I don't wish any harm on him. I never wish any harm on anyone

00:34:19.280 who has, um, unfortunately chose to do things like that in the past, but it was a, it was

00:34:25.460 a, yeah. Even Hitler. I'm sorry. Uh, good one. So eight months in is you discovered he was

00:34:37.800 on hinge? Yes. Okay. Were you guys official boyfriend, girlfriend? Yes. Okay. Oh, not

00:34:44.740 just you thought, but there was a overt conversation, boyfriend, girlfriend, and then you've been

00:34:50.700 talking to a guy for three months. Have you known him for longer than that? Or you met,

00:34:55.160 how did you meet him? Um, we met by, I, okay, the story how we met is really funny. I had this,

00:35:01.240 um, crash out on my Instagram story and, uh, I, I don't know why, what the crash out was about,

00:35:07.500 but I was just like, I want a lawyer in my life. I want someone who's in the military and I want

00:35:11.540 someone to manage my social media. It was like a total joke thing. Um, and then he actually ended

00:35:16.500 up reaching out and was just like, Hey, I'm in the military. And, um, I ended up talking back and

00:35:22.360 forth. We met the first time. And, um, the funniest thing was we were under a different impression of

00:35:27.540 what that meetup was. Uh, I genuinely thought it was just a friend's thing and he was under the full

00:35:32.240 impression that I was trying to pursue him. But, um, yeah, he ended up inviting me to, um,

00:35:40.320 a, another dinner date. And I think from there on, we both kind of knew that this was,

00:35:45.760 we're going to pursue each other. And it's been in the conversation, um, us being girlfriend and

00:35:50.300 boyfriend. I think we are both, um, in mutual agreement that it's gonna, okay. I'll just say the

00:35:58.240 whole thing. Okay. Um, I was refraining from saying it because it just sounds so random out

00:36:04.120 of the blue. Yesterday was the first, um, day that we decided we were going to start dating. So

00:36:08.460 if you were to ask, I was afraid that if I were to say one day we were dating, it sounded like

00:36:13.200 very bad. But, but yeah, we, we are dating for one day and that's the full story.

00:36:19.380 So your boyfriend, girlfriend or cause you said talking stage, right?

00:36:24.180 Because yesterday we agreed, um, that we were going to start dating, but I didn't know how

00:36:28.580 that would sound on podcasts. And he actually knows that. Um, I was like, maybe we shouldn't

00:36:33.180 say, uh, we've been dating for one day. So, but that's the truth. We've been dating for a single

00:36:37.540 day, but you met him three months ago. Yes. Okay. I see. Is he, so he's a viewer, he's a fan

00:36:45.440 of the show or? Yes. He's a huge fan of the show. He's in the chat right now. I bet. Is he

00:36:50.840 fucking, yo, Noah, fucking reveal yourself, reveal yourself, Noah. What's your fucking

00:36:58.220 username? Type in the YouTube chat, um, or don't or don't. But, um, I mean, honestly,

00:37:06.340 uh, he, he should probably wait. So, okay. He introduced you to the show.

00:37:14.200 Well, I knew about the show cause of some clips of, uh, I think Gorlock the Destroyer is what

00:37:21.000 she, uh, she, yeah. Yeah. Uh, I saw those. Sure. Yeah. So he watches the show. Yeah. He,

00:37:27.020 he watches the show religiously. He loves you guys. Um, he's a big fan, fan of, uh, Arthur,

00:37:33.440 I believe his name is. Oh, Andrew. Sorry. Andrew. Okay. And, um, so I, I, I was double also

00:37:41.860 thinking, should I say he's a fan of the show? Cause I don't know the connotations that is

00:37:46.440 going to give, but, um, from what I know, and I'm not someone who tries to dig deep before

00:37:51.380 it comes to me or I find out myself, but from what I know, he's a very ambitious man, very

00:37:57.200 hardworking, uh, follows the rules. And how old is he? He is, uh, 26, 26. Okay. 26. A little

00:38:07.180 bit, a little bit of a age gap relationship there. Um, and you, so, okay. The origination

00:38:13.760 story though, was you were, you were crashing out in an Instagram story saying you want a

00:38:20.160 lawyer, a guy in the military and something. What, what was the, what was the whole thing?

00:38:26.820 And I, yeah, I was like, I want a lawyer. I need someone who's in the military and I need

00:38:30.920 someone to manage my social, social media. Um, so does he do all that? No, he's in the military.

00:38:36.180 He's in the military. Yes. But he doesn't manage your social media. No. And not a lawyer. Okay.

00:38:41.240 It would be hard to find someone who would do all that, but he's in the military. Yes. Is

00:38:44.920 he enlisted or is he an officer? He's enlisted. He's enlisted. Okay. Which branch of the military?

00:38:50.380 Marines. Marines. Semper Fi, Noah. Um, okay. So question though, you said that you were in

00:38:58.180 a, uh, you, you'd been talking for three months or whatever. You just decided yesterday to make

00:39:03.580 an official, uh, who, who brought that convo up? Was it you? Was it him?

00:39:11.220 So it was something he brought it. It was kind of a mutual conversation that we both brought up.

00:39:17.700 He had asked me a couple of days ago and I told him that it wasn't the right time. Um, because

00:39:23.360 I am someone who's also trying, I'm very ambitious in what I do as well. And I realized that if he was

00:39:31.400 going to come into my life, it has to be a decision I really think about, especially with

00:39:34.660 what I do and the controversy that I do touch on. Um, but yeah, it was a couple of days ago

00:39:39.560 when I told him the conversation needed to wait. And then yesterday, um, we got on topic

00:39:45.080 again during a phone call and, uh, yeah, he asked me to be his girlfriend. Well, I asked

00:39:53.300 him to ask me and then I said, yes. So yeah. Wait, he asked you? Yes. But I asked him. It was,

00:40:00.420 uh, it was something that I was holding back on because I was really scared and I'm still a little

00:40:05.220 bit afraid of making a mistake or is this the right thing? Is this the right time? But I think,

00:40:11.240 um, yeah, I asked him to ask me and he asked me again and I said, yes, sorry if that's a little

00:40:16.780 bit confusing, but. Okay. Wait, so this wasn't the first time he asked you? No. When did, when was

00:40:24.620 the first time he asked you? First time he asked me was a couple of days ago. Oh, and then you were

00:40:31.000 like, I'm not sure? Yes. I was like, the conversation needs to wait. The conversation, you said that? Yes.

00:40:37.300 Do we, do we help our, okay. Uh, you weren't sure what changed, what changed in like three

00:40:48.940 days, four days? The conversation needs to wait. Um, there was a lot of things that we didn't talk

00:40:53.340 about. A lot of, uh, things that, uh, we were both doing that slightly bothered each other that we didn't

00:40:59.780 go over, which was, um, part of what was making me hesitate. So we were on that call for, uh, quite the

00:41:06.680 while, I think about two hours before we headed into that conversation about girlfriend and boyfriend.

00:41:11.560 So I think it was realizing that the effort he was putting forward, you know, I am also someone who

00:41:18.380 knows that, um, some men, uh, I would say boys, because I don't, I don't believe that men do this,

00:41:24.720 but I know that some boys like to chase for a little bit and then they'll pull back. So, um,

00:41:30.680 but he has been showing up pretty well every single time I needed him for the past three months.

00:41:36.680 Uh, on top of that, um, gentleman at all. I really think he's a very good gentleman,

00:41:43.040 but you don't know someone, but I'm really just seeing how it goes and going based off of what I

00:41:49.120 have seen from him. And I just made that decision with him because, um, I, I'm gonna let God handle it,

00:41:58.420 you know. Uh, okay. All right. Uh, relationship status. Uh, single in January, it'll be four years.

00:42:08.700 Um, I've never been in a situationship. I've never been on an online date. My longest relationship

00:42:12.880 is three and a half years. And my last relationship wanted to get married. It was not my three and a

00:42:20.900 half year. And that is why we broke up. Okay. So the last one that ended four years ago,

00:42:28.620 he wanted to get married. How long was that relationship? Five months, four and a half

00:42:33.680 months. Yeah. So he proposed to you like had a ring, got down on one knee. Um, he wanted to look at

00:42:42.980 rings and asked me if I, if I would marry him, uh, if he proposed to me like any day. So

00:42:51.800 and, and no, I was too young in my eyes. You were 28, 27, 27, too young to, in my, in my opinion.

00:43:07.160 Yeah. There's 27, too young to get married. There's more things that I wanted to do. Yeah,

00:43:11.160 honestly. More things like be unemployed at 31. Okay. You could, well, more thing. What do you want

00:43:17.580 to do? Um, he wasn't the right person. I mean, that that's better than I wanted to do more things,

00:43:24.540 but, uh, don't take it personally. Um, so, okay. Uh, so you ended the relationship then.

00:43:32.160 Okay. Do you regret doing that? No, not at all. Why was he the wrong guy? Why were you with him

00:43:38.780 to begin with? It was really fun and it was really different from my three and a half year

00:43:43.460 relationship. So that's kind of why I jumped into it. Um, he lived in Malibu and we had a really fun

00:43:51.500 relationship and I just knew that he wasn't the person that I wanted to have children with. So

00:43:56.100 I'm not dating anybody that I don't think that I'm going to want children with.

00:44:00.220 But you were dating him. Well, I'm saying I've been single for four years. What was wrong with

00:44:08.260 him? Uh, I mean, honestly, he's a great person. He called me when the fires were happening. He's

00:44:15.000 we still are in touch. We're just not, I mean, I talked to him once a year. You know what I mean?

00:44:20.660 We're not like, but there was a clean break. You know how some people like continue to hook up.

00:44:25.640 No, no, no, no. Okay. Uh, I'll come back to that in a second. 3.5 year relationship. Uh, what age?

00:44:31.460 Uh, I was 23 to 27. 23 to 27. Who ended the relationship? We actually had a dream breakup.

00:44:41.440 Uh, we both mutually broke up. We wanted different things and like, we had just different views of

00:44:46.320 the future. Um, okay. Yeah. He, okay. And going back to the most recent one, this four or five

00:44:55.260 month one where he proposed to you, you said he was great, right? Good looking guy. Yeah. Good

00:45:02.940 looking. You were physically attracted to him anyways. Uh, he treat, did he treat you well?

00:45:07.440 Yeah. Very well. Uh, good, good personality relationship. Um, good personality. Yes. Yeah.

00:45:12.460 He had a good personality. Okay. He was hot tempered and I've never, I've never been around that type of,

00:45:20.340 uh, person. Sure. And in my family, like everybody's always very calm. My dad is very calm, man. So

00:45:26.920 being around somebody who kind of like flips over things, that was definitely a red flag to me. And I

00:45:33.520 didn't really find out until like three months in and I, and then I started to realize like he's kind

00:45:39.700 of crazy. But, uh, when you say he was hot tempered, like would he punch holes in walls? Would he,

00:45:45.520 what would he do? No. Um, like rate, would he raise his voice? What are we talking about?

00:45:51.060 Okay. I can give you a little example. I have a couple of them. I don't know. Was he playing,

00:45:55.180 he's playing video games and he's got tilted and he'd break his computer. What, what are we talking?

00:45:59.780 No. Um, there was one time when we were going into a restaurant and we didn't have face masks and this

00:46:08.680 was like, you know, a year and a half after COVID outbreak and we didn't have masks. And obviously

00:46:15.800 when you sit down at a restaurant, you take it off. And so just to walk in and be seated,

00:46:21.500 they were like, you have to put one on. And then he starts like fighting and arguing with the host.

00:46:26.540 I'm like, dude, this is policy. Like, I don't care. Let's go somewhere else. Like I'm the type

00:46:30.180 of person that's just like, whatever. He did not brush it off and he got really angry. And I was

00:46:35.380 just like, I can't deal with this. Wait, something about the restaurant? The face. Yeah. So he started

00:46:40.320 fighting with the host about having to wear a mask just to walk into the restaurant to sit down and

00:46:44.160 take it off. You know what I mean? It's, it's that type of stuff, like getting easily angered.

00:46:49.700 When was this? Like 2020? This is four years ago. In January, it'll be four years. So three and a

00:46:56.940 half. I mean, he was probably right though. He was probably right about face masks. Are you really

00:47:02.000 going to start a fight with a host? Are you really going to do that? That just means you're crazy.

00:47:06.700 Just go to the next place. You guys were in California, right? We were in Malibu. COVID was

00:47:11.220 pretty stupid. Yeah, it was very stupid. I mean, no, I wouldn't start a fight. Exactly. I can see why he's

00:47:18.440 frustrated or whatever. But was there any other examples though? Hot tempered? Yeah. A really good

00:47:27.160 one. This is, this is, was a definitive moment. I made a piece of toast and he had just like had

00:47:34.280 his place clean. And I really hope that he doesn't watch this. I'm going to cry. I was eating a piece

00:47:40.340 of toast and I dropped a few crumbs on the ground because I wasn't using a plate. And he grabs the

00:47:47.460 toast out of my hand and throws it on the ground. And I was like, whoa, it was crazy. Like he crunched,

00:47:55.040 crunched it and threw it on the ground. And I was like, all right, you're insane. Like I got the

00:48:00.740 memo I'd need. He was a plate. There's some crumbs. And then I proceeded to like sweep it up. And then I

00:48:06.620 was just like, you have a good day. And then like, obviously we stayed together. I didn't want to start

00:48:11.460 if I, I just knew that like he was upset over something else, stock market or whatever.

00:48:15.400 And so I just left and I was like, talk to you tomorrow. Um, hot tempered, you know, and I'm just

00:48:23.080 not used to that. I'm, I'm a person that was it like tile floor. It was. Yeah. That's pretty easy to

00:48:28.740 clean. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Probably enough for reaction. That's what I'm saying. It's like,

00:48:35.460 chill out, chill. Um, so were you gonna, um, I was never gonna marry him. I, we were in a good

00:48:48.480 relationship. So you were gonna clean it up after that. I just, I literally just like tuck the broom

00:48:52.900 out, swept it up, put it in the trash and left. Cause I was like, yeah, that was an overreaction.

00:48:57.140 That's yeah. He's got a bit of a temper there. Um, I I'm not used to that either. That's weird.

00:49:01.940 That's valid. That's a valid complaint. Like, well, what's next? You know, he's going to

00:49:07.800 fucking, I don't know. You, you spill a bit of water and he stabs you or something. I don't

00:49:13.600 know. I don't know. Uh, that, that, yeah, that's probably a little much, you know, but

00:49:17.920 he's still a great, great person. If he was just curious though, if he was here, would

00:49:22.760 he describe what happened differently? Like he apologized up and down the next day. He

00:49:27.060 was like, that was, Oh, so he admitted he made a mistake. He was wrong. But some people

00:49:31.080 have like this flip in them. Some people have this flip where they're all of a sudden

00:49:34.980 they're, they're crazy. Yeah. I don't have that. And I've never had people in my family

00:49:39.620 that were crazy. So it's hard to adjust to that. Okay. All right. Uh, we have a super

00:49:45.560 chat here. Um, uh, Felicity, you're going to read, do reads. Hi, Victoria. You're doing

00:49:51.840 amazing. Just figured out how to send a super chat. I'm so happy to be dating you. You look

00:49:56.500 amazing, Brian. I love the show. Y'all do a great job. Wish Andrew was there. He's awesome.

00:50:00.160 He's an awesome one too. Yo, no, I thank you for the super chat, man. Really appreciate

00:50:03.540 it. Uh, Andrew will be here next week. Actually two debates guys, two debates, uh, a debate

00:50:10.840 Saturday, dating talk Sunday, debate Monday. So, uh, tune in for that. Uh, no, I thank

00:50:17.160 you for your super chat. Uh, you're, you're welcome for me setting you up with Victoria.

00:50:21.900 Obviously I had a, I had a big hand in, in that probably everything you learned from the

00:50:26.660 show was, you know, all, all the like knowledge that I imparted upon you, Noah enabled you

00:50:32.280 to like properly riz up. Uh, do you prefer Victoria? Tori? What do you prefer? Victoria

00:50:38.660 is good. Victoria. Vicky? V-Dog? Victoria is good. V-Dog, V-Dog. Okay. V-Dog. She'll

00:50:44.640 accept V-Dog. Uh, but, uh, Noah, I, you know, you, you spelled my name wrong. It's with an I,

00:50:51.860 the superior spelling. So, um, although, although, you know, Noah, I was a little concerned there

00:51:00.980 because you were like trying to do the boyfriend. Oh, are we boyfriend, girlfriend? And I don't

00:51:09.420 know, man. She, uh, it didn't sound like it was an instant. Yes, Noah, I love you. Well,

00:51:19.700 have you guys said I love you? No. Oh, that's awkward. Hey, Noah, the first time you say I

00:51:26.900 love you to Victoria, it should be a super chat. You can tell your children. It'll be

00:51:32.880 so romantic. Okay. Noah, this is what you're going to do. Yeah. That's what you tell your

00:51:44.920 children. Oh, so mom and dad, like little Victoria Jr. and Noah Jr. Oh, uh, when was

00:51:53.140 the first time you guys knew you were in love? Well, uh, well, uh, well, sport. My, she,

00:51:59.880 she was on the whatever podcast, this very controversial show. And anyway, don't you mean

00:52:05.520 Andrew Jr.? Or Brian Jr.? Actually, yes. Uh, if you guys end up having kids, I insist you name

00:52:15.280 your son Brian. Fair, fair. I insist, uh, because I will facilitate. I'm also going to be the best

00:52:21.400 man at the wedding. Noah, you don't get a say in this. I'm just, I'm the best man. Felicity

00:52:27.540 is going to be the bridesmaid. Okay. Yeah. Have you ever been that bridesmaid? Felicity? No.

00:52:36.260 Hmm. Good talk. Okay. All right. Uh, where were we? Uh, relationship status. I think we've

00:52:42.660 mostly finished up, right? The single for four years. Any guys in between four year period?

00:52:48.440 I have dated two people in four years. Two people. Okay. Um, but neither of them were

00:52:55.680 for how long? Uh, serious. Um, one of them I dated for like a month and another one about two months,

00:53:05.520 maybe a month and a half. It was just short, not serious. And yeah. Okay. Uh, all right. So have

00:53:14.340 you, uh, no, I think that's about it. What about you? Um, I've been married for 10 years. We've been

00:53:20.100 together for 13. Hi, babe. He's at the hotel resting. Well-deserved rest. Um, we have two kids

00:53:25.340 together and we're here actually celebrating our 10th anniversary. Congratulations. Good. You picked

00:53:30.780 a good location, Santa Barbara. And, uh, you had two kids, right? Yes. Yes. Okay. And, um, my

00:53:36.660 understanding from the pre-show notes you sent, uh, you guys were college sweethearts and you guys are

00:53:43.560 the only people that you have, I don't know if it was dated or just been with or? Um, I had a high

00:53:49.660 school boyfriend, but that doesn't really count. Right. Um, I went on dates before I met him, but I didn't

00:53:53.440 like anybody like that well, unfortunately. So I didn't, I wasn't going to lead anybody

00:53:56.700 along. Um, I actually met him at a park bench and he let me do all the talking and I was

00:54:01.900 like, I like this guy. And, um, yeah, but we met in college. We actually went to the same

00:54:07.140 high school. I dated one of his best friends, but I hadn't met him cause he was really shy.

00:54:11.980 So he thought I was crazy cause we had a crazy breakup cause it was high school. But thankfully

00:54:16.460 he put that aside and, uh, look at 13 years later. So, oh, but yeah, also, um, yes, that's

00:54:23.420 what you were getting at. Yes. Um, I was his first girlfriend and yes, we were virgins

00:54:26.980 when we got married and we were together for three years before we got married.

00:54:30.460 Okay. Very cool. Very cool. We were virgins until marriage. Yes. Why do you make the face?

00:54:37.740 Cause they were together for three years before they got married and they were virgins at wedding

00:54:42.620 day. Yeah. That's very admirable. He was a really good guy. He knew from the beginning

00:54:49.280 it wasn't going to happen. And he's very black and white. And he was like, if you think that's

00:54:53.120 right, I think it's right. He's mixed race. No, no. He, um, I don't know. What did I

00:54:57.440 say? You said he's black and white. No, like he's very like, like black and white. Like

00:55:01.500 yes or no. No gray area. Oh yeah. But like in a good way. Like he was like, he really

00:55:05.960 respected it and he believed it too a little bit cause he was more old school. So he's

00:55:10.080 a white guy. He is very white. Sorry, babe. Love you. You're not, you're not black and

00:55:15.060 white. He's not black and white. No, my first crush ever was a black guy. So I wasn't

00:55:18.900 against that, but he's just white. Yeah. We met good times. All right. Uh, what about

00:55:23.460 you? Very single, very single. What does that mean? Um, I've been in and out of relationships,

00:55:29.500 so I don't even know what the longest one is. Um, but I think the last two kind of mattered

00:55:36.600 the most. So I'm going to say maybe how long you've been single for. Um, so I was dating

00:55:43.720 someone about like last year and that only lasted like three months. And then I actually

00:55:49.260 dated someone just this September and it lasted just a month. Uh, sorry. The, the first one

00:55:57.540 you mentioned, how long was it? That was last year. How long? Like three months. Were your

00:56:02.320 boyfriend, girlfriend? Yes. Okay. Who broke up with who? He broke up with me. So would you

00:56:08.760 say you've been single for a year about, and then I was dating someone in September? So

00:56:15.440 for just a month though, you said just a month who, who broke up with him? He broke up with

00:56:19.420 me. Okay. Uh, longest relationship. I can't really say like none of them really mattered

00:56:25.720 that much to have it be like an actual relationship. Uh, longest consecutive period of time you saw

00:56:34.280 a guy. So I do have a friend. Um, we've known each other for about like five years, I would

00:56:42.440 say, but it's not like intimate or anything. Have you had sex with him? Um, maybe at the

00:56:50.940 very beginning. Wait, what do you mean maybe? Yeah. How do you not know if you fuck somebody?

00:56:55.820 Well, it's just, um, because we just don't see each other that way, I guess. Well, regardless

00:57:03.320 of how you see each other, past, present, future, you objectively had his penis inside

00:57:09.680 of you. Yes. Right. I mean, so you did in fact have sex with him. Once. One time. When

00:57:15.160 we thought that it was going to work out. And at the very beginning. Very beginning. Like

00:57:19.960 when you just met him. We just met him. Yeah. And that was the only time you had sex. Yes.

00:57:25.700 Uh. It's very complicated. But then you went on to know him for five years. Yes. Asexually?

00:57:35.980 No. A rom, like you were just strictly friends. Not romantic. It's strictly friends. It's a

00:57:41.060 bit complicated. He has feelings kind of, but. He has a crush. Yeah. Yeah. What? Uh, just

00:57:49.760 curious though. So how soon after you said early on when you just met him, you guys hooked up

00:57:54.800 and then after that, nothing. Uh, how soon, uh, how long did you know him before you guys

00:58:00.880 hooked up? Um, about a month. Like we really tried to start something cause we had a lot

00:58:09.360 of chemistry. Okay. But, um, it would just never work out.

00:58:17.440 But he likes you. He likes me. Still. Still. But you don't like him. You're friends. Yeah.

00:58:24.720 Okay. Like it's just, it's just, it will never work out. Why? Um, I have a lot of standards

00:58:32.500 that I expect from a man. Sure. What are those? Um, someone with goals. Goals. Consistency.

00:58:41.700 Uh, when you say consistency, what do you mean? Um, when they say something, they mean it.

00:58:48.220 What, what was an instance in which he has not been consistent with you? Almost everything

00:58:53.640 in his life. It's, it's a bit chaotic. And I mean that in a nice way. He, um, he does drink

00:59:00.500 a lot. Not that. Is he an alcoholic or he just drinks a lot? I would say he, sorry.

00:59:06.260 Has he been to AA? Has he been to rehab? No. No. No. Okay. But he drinks a lot every

00:59:12.020 day? Yes. Every day. How much? I can't say. Every, every, like the only. Is he plastered

00:59:19.560 every day? Shit-faced, canned shit-faced. Definitely on the weekends. And it's sometimes. Does

00:59:25.380 he have a job? He does have a job. A really good job. What's his job? He's a sanitation

00:59:29.520 worker. Okay. For the city. Mm-hmm. That, that pays well, I think, right? Or can't, it

00:59:35.320 can? Yes. I don't know. Yeah. He does really well. Okay. Yeah. So, um, why only the sex

00:59:43.340 one time? Was it bad? I think because our, the chemistry that we had, like, it was really

00:59:49.680 good as friends. And when we tried to make it more, that's why it was bad, I guess. I don't

00:59:55.960 know if that makes any sense. But it's just. So the sex wasn't, it wasn't good? Yeah. Wasn't

01:00:00.980 the best. Wasn't good? It wasn't the best. Okay. Well, I think it's because, like, we,

01:00:04.420 we couldn't, like, work out together. You know, it's like the. Like, do Pilates or what

01:00:10.400 do you mean? No. You can go to the gym? Um, he, him? No. No. But when you say work

01:00:18.840 out, you don't mean, like, exercise? I mean, like, the feeling, like, the feelings that we

01:00:23.160 had for each other. It just, it just wasn't there. It's more of a friend thing. But I

01:00:27.760 think we're continuously, well, he's trying to continuously try to figure it out. I know

01:00:32.260 that it, it'll never work out. But, yeah. So you've not, what, not really had a

01:00:40.020 relationship? Not really. No. I mean, the, the last two, um, I only mentioned them

01:00:46.240 because I feel like what I was looking in for a man, they had. So those meant more to

01:00:52.360 me than anything else. Um, they, they had, you said you had high standards,

01:00:58.140 right? Not high standards. What was the. High expectations, I guess. High expectations.

01:01:03.760 Yeah. Like, I. Did the previous two men you were dating have those things? Yes. And

01:01:08.460 did you end it with those men? They both broke up with me. They broke up with you. Yeah.

01:01:12.180 Okay. Um. So weird. Did you hook up with, with them? One of them. One of them. Yeah. The

01:01:19.760 most recent one? Three months. Three months. Okay. Um, but besides the five-year

01:01:24.600 friendship, alcoholic guy or whatever, um, or heavy drinker or whatever it is, what's

01:01:30.520 the longest period of time you've actually been in something? Cause that, you, you

01:01:37.980 guys hooked up, but you, you weren't dating for five years. You said you know them for

01:01:43.000 five years. Longest period of time. See, it's really hard to say because I, I just

01:01:48.560 feel like if you're in a relationship with someone, you know, and at last, then

01:01:53.520 that's what matters. Like I've been in and out of relationships with people that

01:01:57.900 just didn't matter. So I don't know. So I guess like maybe a few months, like it's

01:02:03.080 been really terrible for me. But okay. So even of the ones that it didn't matter, what

01:02:09.620 is the longest period of time that you were seeing one of them? Maybe just a few

01:02:17.000 months, three months, four months, five months, no more than six months. It's

01:02:21.820 always been months. Yeah. Okay. I see. And you're, uh, 35, you said? Yeah. Okay. Do you

01:02:28.800 want to have kids? I do. Do you want to get married? Really bad. Okay. Yeah. Uh, let's

01:02:34.240 explore your high expectations. Uh, what are your, you said they need to have goals

01:02:39.440 and they need to be consistent. What else? Yeah. Um, just responsible. Responsible. What

01:02:44.580 does that mean? Um, I don't know. Sorry. I'm nervous. Okay. Um, let's start with this

01:02:54.180 looks wise. Do you have any expectations on looks? Not really. Just as long as they take

01:02:59.120 care of themselves. Okay. Um, height, any height requirement? Just taller than me. How tall

01:03:05.340 are you? Five, five. Okay. So you'll date a guy who's five, six. Yes. Ends up. Yeah. Okay.

01:03:10.620 Um, will you date a guy who's obese? Uh, no. Uh, okay. Why not? Um, I just prefer, I feel

01:03:21.800 like, I mean, I know obviously I'm a little bit overweight, but, um, I definitely want my partner

01:03:26.240 to take care of themselves in that way, especially if we're getting a little bit older. When you

01:03:31.340 say take care. So, I mean, yeah. Um, you want the guy to be fit. Is that correct? Yes.

01:03:41.960 Um, I mean, I'm not saying like, you know, being obese is necessarily a terrible thing, but.

01:03:53.120 Um, okay. But you wouldn't date a guy who's obese? No, probably not. No. Okay. Um, please

01:04:03.100 don't take this the wrong way. Do you, or like you're, you're probably obese yourself. Yeah.

01:04:11.840 Yeah. I know. But so why would you not, I'm not saying that in an insulting way. Why would

01:04:15.720 you not date a guy who's obese? No, no, that's okay. I mean, I have gained weight. I know that. Um,

01:04:19.740 I do take care of myself, you know, I'm active. So, I mean, as long as the person is active,

01:04:26.220 then I'm okay with that. Here, I'm going to pull up a photo next, uh, private chat. Get

01:04:32.260 it pulled up as quick as you can, please. So if he was like healthy, but had a few extra

01:04:35.820 pounds, like would you be okay with that? Oh yeah. I mean that, that's what I'm saying.

01:04:39.300 I'm not saying that, you know, as long as he was healthy, uh, make a smaller. So can you tell us

01:04:47.240 what your cutoff is here? What's your cutoff? I mean the 40% I wouldn't, you wouldn't do 40%.

01:04:55.480 No. What about 35%? Yeah. That that's like a dad bod 40% you wouldn't though. 40% or bigger.

01:05:01.780 No. Why not? What's wrong with the 40%? It just kind of looks unhealthy. I mean, but,

01:05:09.720 but that's just a picture. If they look like that and they were active, then that, that's

01:05:15.000 a different scenario. I'm not trying to be rude. I know. I was ready for it. Your body type

01:05:23.780 equivalent is probably the 40%. Probably. I'm not denying that. I know what I look like.

01:05:33.600 So what, what's wrong with expecting something a little bit better from a partner? Why, why

01:05:39.720 should I be okay with you? Want family and kids? I do. Of course. The question then becomes,

01:05:46.460 you mentioned you have high expectations. We only just started talking about looks, which

01:05:50.240 is important. You, it's good. You know, people want to be physically attracted to their partner,

01:05:54.780 but you're 35. You want to be married. You want to have kids. Women do have a fertility

01:06:03.060 window. Yes. Um, look, you still have time. Um, this idea that, okay, once someone's 35,

01:06:09.220 she's going to be, it's impossible. No, women can get pregnant into their forties. It does over

01:06:14.160 time though. Once you get into your, you know, early mid thirties, it does become a bit more

01:06:17.780 difficult. This isn't to say that I don't, you, you, you know, you find a guy in the next year

01:06:22.340 or two, you could probably still have two, two, three kids. Maybe, but I know men do care about

01:06:30.500 looks. They do. Women care about looks. Yes. Is it more about the look or you just want somebody

01:06:39.280 who's going to go out and do stuff with you? Or are you just scared of losing the person because

01:06:44.140 of the weight? No, see that that's kind of where the conversation went. It's not just because of

01:06:48.560 the looks. Like obviously if they are a certain weight type, but they take care of themselves,

01:06:54.300 then that's a different scenario. But if they're not taking care of themselves.

01:07:00.480 But you won't probably give a chance to a guy. Oh no, absolutely. I would like if, if they're like,

01:07:06.640 Hey, you know, like me, like I obviously have a lot to do to kind of get my body back.

01:07:11.900 And if they were in the same category, then yes, absolutely. But if someone is not willing to

01:07:19.100 take that length of bettering themselves, then no. Um, okay.

01:07:26.820 What are your, uh, looks wise, uh, can they be bald or balding? That's fine.

01:07:34.380 Okay. No, don't really care about hair. No. Um, height. You're pretty reasonable on height.

01:07:40.780 Um, penis size. Does that matter?

01:07:47.240 Um, I suppose so. I mean, they can't really control that though. Right. They have to be

01:07:53.420 good at other things. Like what? Other things. Oral, oral sex. Is that what? Yeah. What if a

01:07:59.980 guy won't do that deal breaker? Yeah, pretty much at this point. Yeah. I would like to date

01:08:06.780 to do, you know, to go further rather than just kind of fuck around. So. Okay. Um, uh,

01:08:15.740 what are some of the other, there's height. We do. Okay. Height, hair. You don't care about

01:08:19.520 hair so much. They can be balding. Uh, so the 30, pull up the photo again. So it's 35,

01:08:28.140 the 35% body fat and below. So 30% you're good with. Yeah. 35, but 40. Nope. Nope. Nope. Okay.

01:08:38.520 All right. Um, but if they're like going to the gym and try to better themselves, like, okay. Okay.

01:08:44.000 Yeah. I think she just wants them to have goals. I just want them to have goals. I want someone who's

01:08:48.140 goal oriented, who wants to better themselves rather than just not doing anything. Okay. Uh,

01:08:54.420 what are your other high expectations? We talked about looks, but won't you, uh, in terms of job,

01:09:00.040 uh, do you have a income requirement? Not really. I mean, um, I don't make that much,

01:09:09.680 so I would hope that they would make the same or a little bit more. Make the same or more. Okay.

01:09:17.360 Um, personality wise, is there anything there that you like? They have to be really funny and I have to

01:09:22.580 be funny. Yes. I have a very dark sense of humor. So if they can't be sarcastic, then we just

01:09:30.440 won't communicate. When you say you have a dark sense of humor, what do you mean? Like you're

01:09:35.500 sarcastic? I'm very sarcastic. Are you sarcastic to the guy you're dating? I mean, like, will you give

01:09:43.420 them attitude? Possibly. Sometimes it comes out. Do you think men like that? Um, no, I mean, I'm,

01:09:52.280 I'm also a really polite girl. Sure. Yeah. You know, but I'm not going to go and be a bitch to

01:09:57.600 someone. Right. Some people think funny and then it just translates to being like kind of catty or

01:10:02.700 bitchy or sarcastic. No, no, no. Um, yeah. Have, has that ever been an issue in the past with the

01:10:08.740 past guys you've dated? Um, you know, the sarcasm or whatever? No. Not an issue? No. Um, the, you said

01:10:16.560 a few of the guys have broke up with you when they break up with you. What do they tip? Do they cite

01:10:20.940 to anything as, uh, here's why I broke up with you? Is there anything there? Yeah, this, this is going

01:10:27.680 to sound really, really weird and I'm not trying to be cocky, but the last two guys did break up with

01:10:32.520 me for the same reason. Um, they basically said that, um, they couldn't give me the time that I

01:10:39.060 deserved. Okay. Yeah. Okay. Um, so the guy has to be really, really funny. So when I think about

01:10:49.940 funny and humor, I, I view it in sort of different ways. I'll view it like this. So there's sense of

01:10:59.160 humor, which is the ability to detect when somebody else is being funny, but you might yourself not

01:11:06.100 actually have the capacity to make, to be funny yourself since that's, I mean, some people use

01:11:11.900 that interchangeably sense of humor. Um, I think men appreciate a sense of humor in women, the capacity

01:11:21.100 or ability to sense when they're being funny, but I don't know if men actually value women who are

01:11:29.140 funny, like women who are, make them laugh. I think they do. I think they do. Really? Yeah.

01:11:39.400 I have a lot of guy friends who appreciate my comedy. Oh, guy friends. Oh, have any of them

01:11:48.120 demonstrated a romantic interest in you? Yes. And, and my ex loved that I was really funny.

01:11:55.120 So, well, pride myself on that. I would say this though. Um, the traits that you value in yourself,

01:12:03.500 it does not, men to some degree, even honest men do to some degree pander to women. Um, and I think

01:12:14.660 this is just a polite thing to do oftentimes. Um, you know, if I'm on a date with a girl and she

01:12:19.700 cares about her, I don't know, her education and her career from me internally, I frankly don't give

01:12:29.020 a fuck your education and your career mean nothing to me in terms of my attraction to you. It means

01:12:35.520 nothing zero, but it would never occur to me if I'm on a date with a woman to say, to actually say

01:12:42.360 that to her. I would, I would demonstrate a degree of, um, I mean, I'd be polite. I'd demonstrate a

01:12:50.160 degree of, I guess, feigned interest. Um, and, uh, you don't want her to make you laugh. You don't

01:12:58.640 think that that, yeah. So I guess relating that off of education and career relating it to humor. Um,

01:13:04.980 no, I don't really care about that. I mean, if she, if she's actually funny, uh, sometimes a woman

01:13:12.980 can do a goof or a gaffe and I might laugh at it, I guess. Um, sure. I guess I would, sure. That's

01:13:20.440 cool. I guess it's like a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of what I care about. I'm not going to

01:13:28.900 be like, ah, man, I'm on the fence about this girl, which is already a bad sign for the woman.

01:13:34.980 I'm on the fence about her, but she's funny. I guess I'll fuck her. I guess I'll date her. I

01:13:40.420 guess I'll marry her. Men don't care about you being funny. That's you guys. So one thing that

01:13:46.060 women do is you will think women will think about the things they like, the things they find

01:13:53.380 attractive in men. I find ambition attractive in men. I find humor attractive in men. I find

01:13:59.760 dominance or masculinity or leadership attractive in men. And you want to project

01:14:04.840 that out and map that out onto what you think men want. Men and women don't want the same

01:14:12.680 things. Men and women are not perfectly symmetrical in what we find attractive. There's asymmetry

01:14:19.620 in what women find attractive and what men find attractive. Women like humor, women like

01:14:25.460 masculinity, women like ambition, success, status, all those things I just listed. If men are being

01:14:33.000 honest, don't give a fuck about any of those things in women. They don't care.

01:14:38.700 I don't value status or ambition.

01:14:42.180 You don't value ambition? Are you sure?

01:14:46.260 Not really.

01:14:50.180 So a guy who works at McDonald's, you're totally fine with that?

01:14:52.920 Obviously, I mean, why? Why obviously? But okay, explain it.

01:14:58.140 I'm not looking for somebody who works at McDonald's.

01:15:01.380 But I'm not I'm not chasing ambitious dudes. My my ex of three and a half years, he's well

01:15:08.660 on his way to being a CFO. And he's a year younger than me. And that was a huge, like, thing

01:15:15.860 in our relationship where I didn't value his ambition. I didn't like how he chased money like

01:15:24.840 it was the most important thing in the world. And who I am looking for in this world, it

01:15:30.740 has nothing to do with their ambition or their how much their income is. It has to do with

01:15:35.280 how much I enjoy being around them, how, like, chill they are, and how how our connection

01:15:42.680 is. Do you want to get married? If I connect with somebody who works at McDonald's, and I fall

01:15:46.180 in love with them? Sure. So be it. Do you want to get married and have kids? I do. Where do you

01:15:52.420 live again? In Calabasas. Okay, that's a pretty nice area, right? California? Do you want to remain

01:16:01.380 in Calabasas and Southern California? No, I don't intend to. Do you want to be a stay-at-home mom?

01:16:08.120 Um, maybe at some point, like once I've had two, maybe three kids. So you want two to

01:16:17.600 three kids? With one kid, I'm sure I could go back to work. But yes, I do want two or

01:16:22.820 three kids. But do you want to take some time off of work, perhaps a year, two years, three

01:16:27.100 years to raise your kids? Like I said, if I had one kid, I could go back to work. I think

01:16:35.360 that I could, um, you know, juggle that. But with two to three kids, I don't really want

01:16:41.280 to work. But I also... At all. When you say you, if you have two to three kids... When

01:16:46.280 my three children are young, no, I do not want to work. So how long would you not be working

01:16:50.460 then? I don't know. I haven't thought the whole thing through. Well, typically, kids will

01:16:56.680 be dependent on you until at least 18. So if you have three kids back to back, that's 20

01:17:03.140 years. Would you like to stay at home for 20 years? Potentially. Well, if you want to

01:17:09.240 live in Southern California, you better find an ambitious... No, I don't. I don't. You

01:17:12.400 better find an ambitious... Well, wherever you live, you're going to need, like, some degree

01:17:16.640 of a man who has some ambition so that he can provide... So he can enable you to be... To

01:17:24.000 not have to work. Unless, I mean, the economic realities of having children.

01:17:29.380 Oh, yeah. I understand. I understand. I just... Again, there's no, like, income range that

01:17:36.560 I'm looking for. I think that that's all just ridiculous. Love is more important, and it

01:17:41.340 is all you need. I will say my kids have never been in daycare. I just have a very flexible

01:17:47.660 work schedule, or I don't work that much anymore. And it's beyond amazing. It's so much fun. I

01:17:52.940 always thought my husband would be like a stay-at-home dad. No, he works, he supports us, and we

01:17:57.520 have so much fun. So I guess to circle things back here. So you say you don't care about

01:18:06.300 ambition. I'll go ahead and grant it. Even if it was the case for you, what I'm talking

01:18:13.320 about here is general principle. I would say in general, I would say the majority of women,

01:18:18.260 so majority would be 51% or more, or women, do actually have a pretty vested interest in

01:18:25.840 a man's economic or financial attractiveness. Maybe it's not the case for you. Maybe you'll

01:18:33.160 date the McDonald's worker, the most recent guy. No, my long relationship, when I met him,

01:18:40.920 he worked at a car wash. He made less money than me. He was making like $12 an hour, and I

01:18:46.440 fell in love with him. He slept on a mattress on the floor. Like it was a mattress on the floor.

01:18:51.660 At his home? No, at his apartment where he shared a room with his brother. Okay. Fell in love with

01:18:57.320 this guy. After being single for my entire life, I was 23 years old. He was 22. Yeah. Okay. Now he

01:19:07.280 is very successful years later, but we broke up when he was successful. Like making six figures.

01:19:15.520 Now, would you have preferred if he had his own apartment in a nice part of town? No.

01:19:22.740 So just to be clear, you, if there's two options, living with his brother, sharing the same room. So

01:19:29.100 like, if you guys want to hook up, he's got to like get his brother out there or whatever. Hey,

01:19:34.240 put a sock on the door. You prefer that over him having his own, own apartment? I just don't like

01:19:40.960 what money does to people. And I've grown up just kind of despising. What does, what does money do

01:19:47.400 to people? It changes them. It changes their entire attitude. Well, it enables them to provide for

01:19:53.760 their family. And wow, that's a really terrible thing. But I, I mean, I like, I've seen it. I've

01:19:58.880 grown up around people. I've grown up around people who didn't have a lot and then all of a sudden had a

01:20:04.280 lot, you know, and you're, you're just, you, you change your, your whole, um, demeanor and

01:20:11.520 mentality and you just change as a person and I don't like it. So. I don't think money necessarily

01:20:17.180 makes you evil. I think it. I'm not saying it makes you evil. It just changes you. I disagree.

01:20:22.620 I, I mean, it, you become more entitled and yeah, I, it, it can happen, but I also,

01:20:29.980 I don't think that's a rule. Like all people who make money. Okay. Not all of them. I'm not

01:20:37.600 talking to everyone. I don't say always and every time, but, um, a lot of the time it, that happens

01:20:44.700 and it, and money takes good people and corrupts them. Wait. So by this, if this is actually the case,

01:20:50.560 I'm talking about very wealthy people. I'm not talking about people that are just like making

01:20:54.380 a living, like 65 K a year or, you know, I'm not, I'm not talking about like general

01:20:59.240 population. Okay. Do you disagree? Okay. That's fine for you, but do you disagree in general,

01:21:04.760 in principle that women do value ambition? Absolutely. And wealth. Yeah. Cause they have no

01:21:11.560 idea. Um, so just for the sake of the rest of this convo, I understand each of you are unique

01:21:17.180 individuals, but, um, when I'm making a general state, like if I'm making a statement, I'm speaking

01:21:24.460 generalities. Okay. So it would be helpful for the sake of conversation. If you don't defer to,

01:21:30.960 well, uh, but I, uh, you know, got it, got it. Can I say my husband, I'm sorry, babe. When I met him

01:21:40.120 had no ambition whatsoever. He didn't even have a job. We were much younger, of course, and it took time,

01:21:44.960 but now he is very ambitious and takes care of us. So, I mean, sometimes you got to, you know,

01:21:50.000 let people grow up or work on themselves too, a little bit. Yeah. Uh, sure. Here we're going

01:21:54.280 to let some chats come through. Sorry for the delay on these guys. Azil's donated $200. I was in the

01:21:59.460 middle of Brian, your favorite British buck as always. Brian is laughing at the toast throwing

01:22:05.400 because he does the same when crumbs fall, but that's Brian, our favorite queen. Hashtag free

01:22:12.020 Felicity. Hashtag Michael is king. Uh, yeah. I'm, I'm known to sometimes be a little sassy,

01:22:16.880 I guess, but, but, uh, yeah, the, the crump that, that I can acknowledge that snapping over some

01:22:23.640 crumbs is a little, a little ridiculous, I guess you should have had a fucking plate. Yeah.

01:22:30.060 That's what he said. Good.

01:22:33.980 Azil's donated $200. Brian almost forgot. Hope you had a great Halloween bro. And as you

01:22:41.580 probably saw Michael breaking records from the clouds, even trending on Twitter, the best

01:22:47.860 hashtag free Felicity. Hashtag Michael is king. Yeah. Um, Felicity, if you don't, if you do a

01:22:57.680 champagne pop, uh, Felicity will moonwalk. Do you know how to moonwalk? No. Well, she's

01:23:04.280 about to learn. Uh, so if you do champagne pop, Felicity will do a moonwalk. Is she old enough

01:23:08.940 to know what a moonwalk is? She, she's actually a vampire. Oh, okay. She's 107. I see it. She's

01:23:15.400 got the looks for it. She's got, yeah, the radiant, really nice skin. Yeah. Yeah. Don't eat garlic

01:23:20.960 around her though. Cause she'll fuck you up and slash die. Um, pasty George donated $200. Yeah.

01:23:29.580 Thank you, man. Sorry for the delay. Get yourself a simp black guy. They like big white women with

01:23:34.800 big chubby booties at this point in your life. What other options do you have?

01:23:41.860 Oops. Um, do you want to respond to, I mean, I can't really argue with that, but no, have

01:23:47.980 you ever like dated a black guy? No. Oh no. Okay. Yeah. Cause I, yeah. Um, thank you,

01:23:56.180 pasty George for that. That was, thank you. We have a super chat here. Papa penguin. This show

01:24:01.180 mirrors why Felicity, this show mirrors why Western society feels adrift. It rewards noise over

01:24:08.300 thought and imitation over intellect. We're unhappy because we gorge on context like this

01:24:13.280 instead of substance humanity thrived when men and women faced hardship together. Stop feeding the

01:24:18.820 beast. This show. Okay. That's so true. Like when things are hard, you get so much closer.

01:24:24.840 Uh, so he says we're unhappy because, okay. So he's a hater. Uh, we're unhappy because we

01:24:31.000 gorge on content like this instead of substance. Humanity thrives when men and women faced hardship

01:24:37.280 together. Stop feeding the beast. Um, look, Papa penguin. I'm, I'm open to taking this criticism.

01:24:45.880 Have you ever done any like anti-feminist advocacy at all? Because my position would be, I have this

01:24:54.320 podcast in terms of the noise that's out there in terms of content. Uh, I have, you know, I have a

01:25:00.900 decent audience, decent viewership, but in terms of the scale and scope of my influence as compared to

01:25:09.020 the feminist propaganda that's out there, that's been propagandizing women for generations since the

01:25:15.660 mid to eight, mid to late 1800s, but especially in the past 30, 40, 50, 60 years. Uh, I don't think

01:25:23.040 there's any sort of comparison that could be made. Uh, if, if we're making some sort of accusation that

01:25:27.980 my whatever podcast with 5,000 live concurrent viewers, which is okay, but it's not really

01:25:38.000 anything that's going to move the needle. Uh, I would simply just ask you why, if, if this is really

01:25:44.620 your primary ambition, why don't you just go and protest all the, I don't know how you would do it.

01:25:52.560 You could protest every single feminist class, feminist program that's at every single university

01:25:58.000 in this country. Uh, you could, that would be much more productive, I think, because actually feminism,

01:26:05.420 I think is the primary divider between men and women, not a, uh, in terms of our audience, mid-tier

01:26:19.300 online audience viewership. This is, this is a drop in the bucket compared to the, like, the whatever podcast

01:26:29.080 is a single drop of water and feminism is an ocean. It is all the oceans in the world combined.

01:26:37.200 That's where your focus should be, to be honest, Papa Penguin. If you're in the chat though,

01:26:42.320 why don't you give me your response and I'll just respond to you. Uh, Papa Penguin, go ahead,

01:26:47.800 type in the chat. I'm looking at the chat right now. Oh, by the way, somebody, he just called us

01:26:53.520 mid-tier. No, no, no. I don't, you guys are not mid-tier. The, the view, when I say mid-tier,

01:26:59.580 I'm talking about our audience, our viewership numbers. The, uh, you guys are all great. You

01:27:07.620 got every, my audience is all giga chad, giga chad. You all have, you know, you guys are all great.

01:27:13.880 I'm saying 5,000 viewers. That's not influence. That's not really influence. Uh, is he in the chat?

01:27:22.440 Uh, he wrote, uh, who takes modern feminists, who takes modern feminists, feminist, you misspelled

01:27:31.560 that by the way. Uh, they're an intellectual joke. What, hold on. Feminism is deeply seated

01:27:39.660 in academia. Every single year, by the way, the collective endowment of all the universities and

01:27:46.280 colleges in this country is something like $1 trillion. That's massive institutional

01:27:52.200 and systemic influence. Every single college, almost every single college and university in

01:27:58.240 this country has a women's studies, gender studies, feminist studies, uh, gender, I think it's a gender

01:28:03.860 studies program. Every single corporation, major corporations steeped in feminist ideology, the

01:28:10.160 news, the media, the government, uh, journalism, media, it's all feminist. This, who takes modern

01:28:17.340 feminism seriously? Uh, the mainstream, the mainstream does. So I don't understand that that doesn't

01:28:26.260 even make sense. Um, so I don't know. But, uh, yeah, $1 trillion collective endowment for

01:28:36.140 all these universities. Um, it's massively, it has its claws, its tentacles wrapped in pretty much

01:28:44.860 everything. Um, feminism is absolutely taken seriously. It's the, it's the mainstream narrative.

01:28:51.020 Um, even in the conservative movement. Um, anyways, we'll get off of that though. If you want to send

01:28:58.160 another one, I'll engage you. But, um, I, are we caught up on all the chats? I think so. Yeah. Uh,

01:29:04.480 where were we, we were talking about high expectations and then Lauren there, Lauren,

01:29:12.520 what's that? I don't know. I don't know. What, what were your other high expectations you said

01:29:21.040 you had? Oh, funny. You, you need, oh, you need a guy who's, who's very, very funny. Very funny.

01:29:31.240 Would you, would you settle for average funny? Yes. But that's not very funny. Well, any sense

01:29:38.080 of humor. But what if he, you know, maybe he makes you chuckle just one time per week.

01:29:43.180 Is that not satisfactory for you? No. Would you? For a woman? Yeah. What if she just was

01:29:51.380 boring? She can be fucking mute. Really? I don't give a fuck. No. Really? I don't care. Why? I don't

01:29:58.380 care. I don't care. So what are you looking for then? Humor, humor is not a priority for

01:30:02.380 men. We don't care. Well, I mean, any kind of, I'll tell you in a sec. What's that? Any

01:30:06.820 kind of engagement, like. Oh, sure. I think, I mean, look, I think high IQ women are attractive,

01:30:11.300 but, um, I don't like, I don't, well, I don't need to have deep convos. Don't care. Don't

01:30:16.600 need funny. Don't care. Um, it's just not, it's not important. I understand the deep convos

01:30:23.840 thing. That's not important. Yeah. Life is comedy. You just, yeah. That's what, what

01:30:30.080 Netflix is for. I don't, I don't understand this, this, this, whether it's men. I think

01:30:36.220 women do this more, but I don't understand this. Uh, men are not here to be your dancing

01:30:42.940 monkeys. We're not here to be your entertainment. We're not here to be your Netflix, to be your

01:30:48.560 HBO Max, to be your fucking Hulu, to be your Amazon. If you want to, your entertainment

01:30:55.380 need to be met. There's a lot of media out there. I don't think it's men's job to be your

01:31:03.400 entertainment. Media is for zombies. Yeah. I mean, it's not. Well, okay, but we're not

01:31:10.780 here to be your dancing monkeys. We're here to be your boyfriends. We're here to be your

01:31:14.700 husbands. I don't, this idea that, uh, not to say that there's something wrong. Like

01:31:19.600 if your boyfriend's funny, there's nothing wrong with that. That's good. That's great.

01:31:22.820 Wonderful. You have a positive quality, but this idea that when you say you have high

01:31:27.420 expectations and the guy has to be very, very funny, bare minimum, I think. I feel like

01:31:35.460 you're making a big conversation about something kind of small. I just, just like personality,

01:31:40.840 personality, you know, like not boring. Okay. Tell me what, when, do you think you have

01:31:49.940 a good personality? Like, uh. So, so. I say, you know. Like, are you charismatic? I can

01:31:56.800 be. Can be. Yeah. Okay. Um, do you, do you value charisma? Like, does your boyfriend need

01:32:05.800 to have charisma? I mean, a good personality? I suppose so. How about that? Let me ask.

01:32:13.240 I don't want someone like monotone, you know. My dear, you are monotone. You're monotone.

01:32:19.880 You're a little monotone. I'm not trying to be me. Well, I'm nervous. I'm just nervous.

01:32:22.400 You're a little monotone. Yeah. Yeah. But it's kind of this thing where it's like, you don't,

01:32:26.900 you don't, you, these traits that even you possess, you don't want them in a man. We

01:32:34.280 talked about the, you know, you wouldn't take the guy with a 40% body fat. Um, okay. Are

01:32:43.940 you willing to settle? I shouldn't, I don't even, will you date a guy who's average? Yes.

01:32:51.100 But average personality, average humor. See, I wasn't saying that that was like a number

01:32:59.660 one quality. He has to be funny, but, but it's, well, I was asking you what your high

01:33:05.160 expectations are. My high expectations. Didn't you say he has to be really funny? So when

01:33:10.980 you say he has to be, I'd rather not waste like 10 minutes on the convo if you don't actually

01:33:17.380 hold the standard. That I understand. Okay. So you, all right. So you, he doesn't have

01:33:21.740 on one hand you said on one hand. If he's boring, it would never work out. He has to

01:33:26.800 have a boring guy though. What's wrong with that? There's, I wouldn't be able to have a

01:33:31.400 conversation with them. It's just, if it's just like straight edge, like business all

01:33:37.960 the time. What if he's a good guy? He's a good, nice guy, but you know, he's not very

01:33:43.520 funny. He's, he's kind of just a normal guy. I feel like they get funny as you get to know

01:33:48.960 them though. Sure. I mean, sure. I think that I'm, I always give chances. Well, yeah. I

01:33:55.960 mean, I think the first impression, some people are flowers. They blossom as you get to know

01:34:01.040 them, but some people are just, doesn't matter. You've known somebody for two years. They're

01:34:05.060 kind of dull. Um, I would say even if like somebody is not stereotypically funny, like

01:34:12.060 my husband, like as I've gotten to know him, he's like, so everything he does is so funny

01:34:16.280 and so cute, you know, where at first I'd be like, Oh my gosh, you're so lame. You know,

01:34:20.360 it's kind of after you've fallen in love, the guy doesn't have to meet all the criterias you

01:34:26.440 have because they will feel themselves. Yeah. Uh, like a person you fell in love is going

01:34:34.220 to be more handsome or I don't know if it goes like that with guys. If you've met a pretty

01:34:38.820 girl, is she going to be the most gorgeous girl in the world? If you fall in love? I

01:34:44.120 think so. Um, in a way at least. Um, so he doesn't have to be very funny. He can just

01:34:52.640 be average funny. Okay. Yes. But then when you say you have high expectations, what are

01:34:59.880 those? I guess just someone who has goals and ambitions like we talked about before being

01:35:06.620 responsible. When you say goals, what do you mean? Um, well I have some goals that I want

01:35:12.240 to accomplish. So, um, well I'm a data analyst, so I'd like to take my career a little bit further

01:35:20.020 than it is now. Um, so I'd want someone, you know, with that same goal set. Do you think

01:35:29.960 we've like infantized men? Cause we just assume they like, like we're like high standards all

01:35:34.620 the time and we just assume like men can't be responsible or they can't do this or have

01:35:38.700 goals. Like, what do you think? No, no, I'm not, I'm not saying that. I'm, you know, it's,

01:35:43.380 I guess it's difficult to explain. I feel like you just want to be swept out of your feet

01:35:48.200 and just magically fall in love. And when you wake out of it, you're not just going to be

01:35:54.900 go ahead. No, continue. Continue. What's the word? Uh, you don't want to be disappointed in the guy

01:36:00.700 you fell in love, but first you need to get the guy and he has to make you feel like a princess or

01:36:06.640 you will have to sweep your feet. It's not exactly like that. Maybe the disappointment part,

01:36:12.720 I would like to not be disappointed. And I, I kind of feel like through my whole dating

01:36:19.380 part of me is always just kind of been disappointment, but I don't think it's because

01:36:25.640 like my standards were too high. I've dated a lot of men, but, but you said you have high

01:36:31.120 expectations. Well, I do. I think being 35 now, um, I, like I said, I don't want to just mess around

01:36:40.460 with these guys anymore. So I would assume that they would have like some future goals.

01:36:47.660 So when you say goals, what are we talking like minimum yearly income? Um, you wrote here,

01:36:53.720 you want the guy to make $80,000, but so are the goals just financial? No, no, not financial. Just

01:37:00.100 being a responsible person. And I think that has to deal with the men that I have dated. Maybe

01:37:05.320 haven't been that responsible. Um, so just hold yourself to a standard. She's like, just looking

01:37:11.300 for somebody that wants to better themselves. Yeah. Just someone that wants to, cause I want to

01:37:15.460 better myself. If I could give you some advice. Yeah. Yeah. Be okay. All of the things that you're

01:37:19.420 looking for in somebody else, embody them. Like if you're, if, if you are ambitious, you might attract

01:37:27.880 somebody who's also ambitious. If you're really fit, if you're going to the gym, whatever, you might

01:37:31.880 attract somebody who's really fit. Like all the things that you're looking for in people, they're

01:37:36.000 probably also looking for similar things. I know that Brian likes to disagree that a guy who's funny

01:37:41.000 is not looking for a girl who's funny, but he might be. No, I'm saying in general, there's asymmetry

01:37:48.720 between what men and women find attractive. So are there, again, this is talking in generalities.

01:37:56.600 Are there, you can point me to a man or some men who do find humor attractive in women.

01:38:05.860 Majority of men don't give a fuck. I'm not exactly saying that two people need to be the funniest

01:38:11.000 people in the room to be attracted to each other, but having a similar sense of humor. For example, I

01:38:16.680 love South Park. I want my partner to love South Park. We will watch South Park together. So wait,

01:38:21.500 wait, wait, it's a deal breaker. If the guy doesn't like South Park, well, we, he can like family guy.

01:38:26.240 No, no, no. But like what you're, what you're listing there is like a pretty base, base,

01:38:31.820 like very, I'm giving just an example. Okay. If the guy didn't like South Park, but he's

01:38:37.120 otherwise great, you're, you're not dating him. Um, maybe not. Oh my God. These girls are not

01:38:44.760 dating great guys because they don't like their same fucking people. I don't think that's why.

01:38:50.020 That's crazy, bro. These, Oh my God, he, whatever. He doesn't like this thing, whatever.

01:38:56.240 Um, that's not my criteria. Oh, you don't like this show. We can't date. That's not it. But

01:39:02.040 I'm just saying like, we might have the same sense of humor. So I fall in love with him. That's all

01:39:06.420 I'm saying. Or you fall in love with him because you have a baseline physical attraction to him

01:39:11.900 and he meets like your, like primary needs in terms of other things. Are, are you disagreeing

01:39:18.700 with that? 1920. I don't, my primary needs, you have to meet my primary needs. Yeah. Like

01:39:24.700 And like being, being a well put. Yeah. How would, what would that have to do with the 1920s? In fact,

01:39:29.500 it would be the opposite. Hold on. When I say primary needs, I'm just talking about like the

01:39:33.980 important stuff. Like he's a good person. He's virtuous. He treats you well. He's kind. He's,

01:39:41.400 and if you prefer, if you prefer the traits, like he's a, he's a masculine guy and he's a leader and

01:39:46.980 he's these sorts of things, that's way more important than like you guys liking the same

01:39:52.020 music or TV shows. Again, that's, that was not my point is having a common interest. That's not,

01:39:59.240 that wasn't my point. It's having like this same, a similar sense of humor and like having the same

01:40:05.020 level, being on, being on the same page about things, being able to like read each other's mind,

01:40:08.540 like you give them a look and you know what they're thinking because you, you're thinking a

01:40:13.340 similar thing. You know, it's, it's that type of relationship and in the things that you're

01:40:17.840 listing, I know a dozen dudes that, that meet that criteria. Good guy, you know, treats me nice.

01:40:24.500 Like, yep. Wait, keep going with that. So good looking. Yeah. Face attraction. Good looking. Makes a decent

01:40:31.360 income. Like whatever. Why are you listing these things like they're nothing? These are, hold on. I don't

01:40:37.120 understand this. Uh, I don't know what exactly you women are looking for. I don't know. I don't know.

01:40:42.300 When you present to me, when women present to me, he's, he's on paper, right? He's

01:40:49.260 everything. He's good looking. He treats me well, comes from a good family. Uh, he's

01:40:53.980 kind, he's generous. He, he, he has a good job. He treats me. Uh, I think I already said

01:40:59.220 that he treats me well. What the fuck is missing? Pick the fucking guy. You guys are

01:41:06.200 crazy. You, what do you want? You want him to abuse you? You want him to treat you like shit?

01:41:11.080 I've never been in a toxic relationship. There's something about women. You guys want

01:41:13.760 a guy who's kind of got a rough edge to him. You guys want a guy who kind of treats you

01:41:18.520 like a dick. I think there's something there when women can say on paper, he's everything.

01:41:23.580 He's good looking. He's a good person. Pick the fucking guy. Then what is missing? Tell

01:41:30.260 me. Compatibility. Compatibility. Imagine if I sat here and said, she's beautiful. She's

01:41:38.280 amazing. She treats me kindly. Uh, she's, uh, whatever her looks are everything that

01:41:43.700 I want. She's a virgin, whatever, all the, all the things that men care about. Yeah.

01:41:48.220 Men, men prefer, men prefer, uh, that in women. She's all the great things, you know, but I

01:41:53.860 just didn't feel the vibe. You know, I didn't feel the vibe. That's never gone through my

01:41:58.360 mind. The, trust me, the vibe will be there if everything on paper is there, but there's

01:42:04.760 something about women y'all want. There's something like, I don't know if it's dysfunction,

01:42:09.580 no offense, where it's like, I just didn't feel the click. What, what click you want him

01:42:14.180 to trigger? You're like anxious attachment style. Is that what it is? You, you, you want

01:42:20.080 him to kind of be a little, you know, a little bit of a dick. Is that it? What did it, what's

01:42:23.840 missing? Nothing. He's too nice. He's too, he's great. He's good looking. Great job. He's

01:42:29.440 so nice. Treats me well, but I just didn't feel the, I didn't feel the click. You want

01:42:34.560 the jerk. You want the bad boy. You want the guy with a bit of edge. That's

01:42:38.560 dysfunction. Just saying. I don't actually. Oh, okay. And I've never had that. I've never

01:42:44.500 had like, you know, a responsible man that wants goals that way. And I think that's my

01:42:50.960 problem. Can I say, oh sorry, go ahead. No, go ahead. I think you don't actually have to

01:42:54.420 have anything in common. Kind of like what you're saying, Brian, because like the longer

01:42:57.440 you're together, like their hobbies become your hobbies. Like I knew nothing about cars.

01:43:00.940 Now I think I know quite a bit. I used to be, used to be very fit and sporty and he's

01:43:06.120 not, you know, like, but yeah, we, we just, you know, we gave each other the time. Yeah.

01:43:11.000 Like we gave each other a chance and it worked out really great.

01:43:13.880 Yeah. And on that note about, um, a lot of women now wanting that sort of bad boy side

01:43:18.880 to men. I do think that, um, a lot of women who have been in and out of toxic relationships,

01:43:24.000 you know, it's not an excuse. Everybody needs to take accountability for their

01:43:27.200 actions. They are attracted to those sorts of things. So a lot of women will confuse,

01:43:32.780 um, pressure and what they will confuse the anxious attachment for what is good for them.

01:43:39.240 Um, I also think part of why we are having all of this problem with women and men, really

01:43:44.400 everyone kind of having all these, you know, oh, I have to have this, this, this, but one

01:43:49.180 not being that themselves and embodying that themselves. Um, and I just think it's a problem

01:43:55.620 with social media a lot. Um, I think we are kind of all up in our heads thinking, oh,

01:44:01.580 like I can get this, I can get this, that the reality of that is so small. It's really

01:44:06.320 small. And, um, also if they were to exist, everything that you have on your paper,

01:44:12.960 very likely they wouldn't. Um, we see so many things that we think we want because it looks

01:44:18.460 perfect and something that we want, even though usually it's not that. Sure. Uh, Papa Penguin is

01:44:24.360 being a massive cuck. So I'll respond to him in just a moment, but first, uh, pasty gets priority.

01:44:32.580 Pasty George donated $200. I do not agree with Papa Penguin's comment that whatever podcast is

01:44:39.880 content without substance. I believe this podcast is essential for men, especially nowadays with

01:44:46.240 today's feministic women, neat arts. Yo, Pasty George, I do appreciate that. Yeah. This idea,

01:44:53.360 I don't understand like in terms of the other media that's available out there too. Okay. So pretty

01:44:59.220 much everything on Netflix, everything on cable TV, this, this, this idea that the conversations that are

01:45:08.360 being had on this podcast are lacking in substance comparatively to the, like 99% of the other media

01:45:17.260 that's available. Like you look at the consumption, by the way, I like sports. I don't really watch much

01:45:23.140 sports. I maybe watch the super bowl, maybe watch some NFL highlights. That's about it. Uh, and I

01:45:30.060 don't, I'm not making a criticism of sports, but like there it's very entertaining. It's fun to watch.

01:45:35.340 It's exciting. That's not like in terms of intellectual depth, like football there. It's not,

01:45:42.400 that's, it's just fun. It's fun entertainment, but like that's mass consumed media. This idea that

01:45:48.300 media necessarily has to have some depth. I don't, I reject the premise penguin, but then I would also

01:45:57.440 reject that the show doesn't have depth. The show has massive depth. We get into like the most

01:46:02.820 pressing issues, big labia matter, uh, of our time. We get into the most pressing issues. We talk,

01:46:09.720 you know, mostly it's about dating, but we get into politics and this other stuff. Since you're

01:46:13.600 being a little whiny brat though, Papa penguin, uh, Felicity, read these for me. We're seeing a

01:46:19.800 complete generation of young men and women walking away from each other. Birth rates are crashing.

01:46:24.040 You're feeding that hate. That isn't good for anything that resembles rational thought.

01:46:29.060 Hold on, dude. You, uh, no offense, penguin. You're mods. You don't have to ban him,

01:46:34.760 but he's just retarded. Penguin, penguin. You think birth, birth rates were a straight line.

01:46:42.100 And then whatever podcast comes out in 2022 and then the birth rates were crashing. No fucking

01:46:48.100 retard. Birth rates have been crashing. Uh, I don't know how old you are probably before you were,

01:46:53.800 I don't know. Wait, before you might've even been born. Birth rates have been on the decline

01:46:59.180 for a very, very long time. Trust me. It has nothing to, if anything, this podcast, uh, the,

01:47:05.600 the sort of narratives I'm propagating have the opposite effect. I'm in favor of the nuclear family.

01:47:12.500 I'm in favor of people having kids. I'm a bit, I'm a bit anti-marriage, but I don't believe in

01:47:19.000 promiscuity in men or women. Uh, I think that you should find somebody, you should have kids with

01:47:24.160 them. Uh, I have some criticisms of, uh, you know, marriage under the state, which it is in the West.

01:47:29.920 It's not really under religion. Marriage is typically a function of the state. Uh, but

01:47:35.080 I'm in favor of that. Have kids get married or excuse me. Sorry. Sorry. Well, if you want to get

01:47:41.200 married, but, uh, or don't get married actually. Well, whatever. I don't know. I need to figure out

01:47:45.400 my position on that, but, uh, at least find somebody and have that person be your person

01:47:50.960 and have kids with them. And, uh, Brian, I agree with all of that, but in his defense,

01:47:58.440 what he's saying is you're, you're exposing woman, like you're, you're, and I like this show. I do

01:48:05.220 watch it. It is entertaining, but you are exposing woman for like, I've watched so many girls on here

01:48:12.060 that I just sat at home and was like, wow, what a dumb, you know, and like, what a three Oh four

01:48:18.740 or whatever. Um, and I, it breeds like almost hatred of woman. Whoa. That's on you. Hold on.

01:48:28.480 Are you fucking misogynist? Holy shit. I slightly am. I've been anti-feminist for the last decade

01:48:35.200 and I am slightly misogynistic to other women. They, they seem to think that only because

01:48:41.900 I, no, no, I'll explain to you. Hold on. I'll explain to you why. Land the plane, land the

01:48:46.320 plane. I'll explain to you why. Land the plane, land the plane. I, um, well, I've, I've just grown

01:48:52.500 up with not the best females in my life. So I've like been kind of raised by my father and I've

01:49:00.120 realized that men in general are, I don't want to say like dominant, but they're, they're the stronger,

01:49:07.360 smarter, faster. They've invented most inventions in this world. It, we're not equal. We're not

01:49:12.300 the same. And I'm not saying that women shouldn't have rights. I'm not, I'm not like going, you

01:49:17.140 know, but I am slightly, I mean, women think I'm misogynistic. They do. Well, okay. Hold

01:49:23.700 on. Holy shit. There's a lot there. God damn. Let me, I didn't mean to like throw out a bomb labeling

01:49:29.000 me, but you're more radical than I am because I don't, I refuse to take on the moniker or label

01:49:34.280 of misogynist. If somebody calls me a misogynist, I wholeheartedly reject the categorization.

01:49:40.960 You embrace the cat. Hold on. You just admitted you're a fucking misogynist. You're more radical

01:49:45.300 than I am. I'm not a misogynist. I don't, I can sit here and say, I categorically do not

01:49:50.380 hate women. I think women are great. There are specific women I might disagree with on,

01:49:54.640 but that's more radical of a position than I take. Furthermore, being anti-feminist doesn't

01:49:59.580 mean you're anti-woman. Oh no, I know. So I don't know where the conflation is there. Hold on. Hold on.

01:50:03.980 Let me finish my response. And then, and then hold on this idea that, um, that I am propagating

01:50:11.340 that, that I'm exposing these women who come on the show and are given a microphone. That's

01:50:17.620 if somebody, I, I'm not responsible for the words that come out of somebody else's mouth. I'm a man.

01:50:24.140 I'm responsible for what I say. I'm an adult. What, whatever I say, I'm responsible for. If a woman

01:50:31.500 comes on the show and, uh, is happy that Charlie Kirk was unalived or says some retarded shit,

01:50:37.400 or I don't know, whatever the stupid shit that people say on the show, by the way,

01:50:41.400 I've said stupid shit on the show. Andrew Wilson, who's a frequent guest. He's probably said,

01:50:46.220 we've all said, everybody says stupid shit. I've been clipped. I've said dumb shit, whatever.

01:50:51.460 I'm not responsible for what other people say on the show. And if other people come on the show,

01:50:56.280 be them men, myself, men, women, whatever, and they say stupid things and they expose themselves,

01:51:01.880 I'm not exposing them. They're exposing themselves. So I'm not going to do this thing where he makes

01:51:07.380 them look stupid. No. If you come on the show, there's a microphone here. I'm not forcing the

01:51:12.160 words to come out of your mouth, but it's a platform for it. That's what I'm saying.

01:51:16.400 Well, then the world is a platform for people to say stupid things. The internet's a platform for the,

01:51:20.980 should we blame the internet though? Maybe we should. Again, I'm not, I was not blaming you. I was just

01:51:25.740 saying that this podcast does propagate a sort of hatred. Oh, no, no, no. I don't want to say

01:51:32.120 I reject the premise. In order for that to be the case, I myself would have to, I would have to

01:51:42.100 distribute commentary and words that would, would incentivize or influence people to hate women.

01:51:53.840 And I, I, again, very, I'll disavow that very quickly. I don't hate women.

01:52:01.200 I don't think you do. Women are great. Misogyny is wrong. But yeah, so I don't really understand the

01:52:08.260 criticism. I don't think you hate women, but you have talked down to them. You have barked at them

01:52:13.800 or, or treated them a certain way because they're, you know, talking a little slow or you've called them

01:52:19.580 out on things when they were caught off guard and, you know, and let me respond. Hold on one

01:52:26.440 thing at a time and then you can gish gallop the rat, I guess. Um, so, so hold on, repeat the first

01:52:34.020 part of your criticism there. I talked down to women. Was that the first part? You've done it.

01:52:39.900 Okay. I also have talked down to men, I guess, but, uh, I, I don't understand. So talking down

01:52:48.260 to, I don't know if I even want to, yeah, sometimes I'm, I'm can disagree with somebody,

01:52:58.340 but disagreeing with women is not misogyny. And if I do so in a rhetorically flourishing sort of

01:53:05.520 flourishing, flourished, rhetorical flourish sort of way. And, um, I have a tone to it that wouldn't

01:53:13.900 be misogynistic. Disagreeing with women is not misogyny. No, I understand that. Believe me.

01:53:19.540 But sure. I'll go ahead and grant. But your tone and your demeanor towards some certain woman on the

01:53:24.980 show or I've seen it. I've seen it. Yes. Yes. But I just want to say. I'm not even going to argue.

01:53:29.840 I won't hold on. I won't even argue with you. I've absolutely done it. I've absolutely had a bad

01:53:35.280 tone with people. I've absolutely probably, you know, had an attitude with somebody, had a tone

01:53:40.480 with somebody. Um, so what does that have to do with misogyny? I'm saying I've been called a

01:53:48.020 misogynist because I am anti-feminist because I've been an anti-feminist for the longest time. I have

01:53:56.360 not, you know, been so favored by the female population. Yeah. But I don't think that they've

01:54:06.000 called me misogynistic. If you have 300 episodes of a five, six, seven, eight, nine hour podcast,

01:54:14.860 you're, there are bound to be moments, especially with people who have ideological disagreements with

01:54:19.740 you. There are bound to be moments that can be found where people have a harsh tone or say words

01:54:26.800 that are rude or aggressive or whatever. This wouldn't point towards, you could, you can make

01:54:34.780 a compilation that could last an hour, probably if you wanted to, uh, that wouldn't point towards

01:54:42.100 evidence of misogyny that would point towards, there are specific disagreements with specific

01:54:48.160 people. I'm not going to dispute your claim that I've had bad tones in the past, or I've said mean

01:54:53.220 things won't even dispute it, but that wouldn't just because you disagree with a woman that doesn't

01:55:00.200 point to sexism or misogyny. Okay. Is that your, is that your argument though? I'm trying to

01:55:06.380 understand your argument. I didn't call you a misogynist. But so you just wanted to point out

01:55:09.840 that there have been times where, well, no. Okay. I pointed that out because my statement was that

01:55:15.540 this show exposes females at their, like some of the worst things that they have to say. And it

01:55:24.140 makes men think, wow, girls are, you know, bad or whatever. And if you're inviting on like not

01:55:31.060 just, just average people, whoever, if you're not inviting on like the best and brightest, like

01:55:35.420 when Candace Owens was on here, that makes women look really, really good. She makes women

01:55:39.980 seen. No, she made the, you, you think I'm mean. Candace Owens eviscerated the girls on that panel.

01:55:46.720 If I bring on a bad-ass woman, like Rachel Wilson, for example, they'll make the woman look worse than

01:55:53.240 I do. I know, I know. So this, I don't understand. But that's the population, what I'm saying is like

01:55:57.320 if there was a population of people who were more like her. We have a good panel here. No, no, no,

01:56:01.940 I'm not. Hey, the girls here should be, the women here should be protesting. The women here should

01:56:08.260 be protesting what you're saying. You're calling these women stupid. You're calling the women stupid.

01:56:12.180 I get your point. I totally get that point. But I see the other way around because when I see

01:56:18.200 a dumb girl opening her mouth here and bunch of them, I, the feeling I get is not like I hate women

01:56:26.080 or that there's, goddamn, there's a lot of stupid people. Yeah. But mostly I get the feeling like,

01:56:31.760 goddamn, I'm a freaking catch compared to that. So it's more like a, I don't see it as spreading

01:56:37.940 hatred because if you see a person, a girl that is like really dumb the next time you meet somebody

01:56:44.500 who is not that dumb, you, you're kind of grateful for it. But imagine being a man watching this and

01:56:50.500 you're, you're not, you don't know these girls, but you keep seeing different ones on every week and

01:56:55.280 there's always, you know, but then you go on a date and you have a girl that is not that crazy

01:57:01.800 or not that dumb. You should be like, okay, well, women come on the show super unprepared. Like

01:57:06.540 they'll say, I've never even heard of this or I've never watched anything. No, I'm saying they come

01:57:09.880 unprepared and that is stupid. That is not smart. Well, that's hold on. Hold on. The vast majority of

01:57:16.760 women who come on this show, we do some outreach, but also a lot of people reach out to us. The majority

01:57:23.880 of the guests who do come on the majority, they've, they've reached out to us. Many of these women

01:57:30.520 have had weeks, months, sometimes longer. Like they, they reach out. Uh, I don't know if anybody

01:57:39.200 here, I'm saying it's on them. Some people have maybe at this table reached out a couple of weeks

01:57:44.680 ago, maybe a couple of months ago, people have time to do the preparation. You're right though.

01:57:50.140 If they come unprepared, that's on them. That's how the full live streams are available. There's

01:57:56.720 clips everywhere. You can see, you can see, get a feel for the show. Um, I don't know. Um,

01:58:04.780 you said that you don't care about the sense of humor and stuff, but how does it make you feel

01:58:09.800 to watch the show and see a lot of dumb girls like over and over again? Is it more? Hold on.

01:58:16.100 I reject that the women who come, we do get some dumb women on the show, but this idea that we're

01:58:22.300 specifically selecting. No, I didn't mean that, but I mean, we, I would even argue like, for example,

01:58:29.460 I'm a college dropout. So this idea that, Oh, Brian, you're some intellectual Titan who's punching

01:58:35.200 down on these retarded fucking elementary school dropouts. No, most of the women who come on the

01:58:41.940 show are more college educated than I am. Uh, you know, I'm not like, again, I'm not an intellectual

01:58:47.660 Titan. I used to do like prank videos on YouTube. I, I walked around in a penis costume. This isn't

01:58:54.400 like peak, peak, like highbrow intellectual, intellectual, like I'm not, yeah, I'm not like

01:59:04.380 a fucking intellectual Titan. So these women who come on, it's fair, fair game. I think.

01:59:08.800 But which feeling do you get the feeling I had that when you meet a great girl and you've seen

01:59:15.120 a lot of dumb girls, you're like, this one is a good one. And you're thankful for it. Or is it

01:59:20.100 the more dumb girls you see, does it make you think like, Oh, there's not going to be a good

01:59:24.940 girl there? Or are you, is it going to spread hatred or hold on? Um, because I think both

01:59:32.540 what, if a girl is dumb or if a girl is smart, both of them have the capacity to make for interesting

01:59:39.220 conversation, albeit perhaps in different ways. So this idea that, Oh man, it's a panel of smart

01:59:47.300 women shoot this panel. No, that's never the case. Oftentimes I think the smart women are

01:59:52.100 the ones who are best capable of having like a, uh, like a well put together thought in

01:59:58.560 conversation. So this idea that I'm like kind of bummed out if it's a panel of smart women.

02:00:03.280 But putting it into dating, but putting it into dating, like, uh, does it make you feel

02:00:10.160 hatred towards women when you're looking for a date to think that there's no good women in

02:00:16.300 there? Or is it more like you're going to be grateful that you found, found a good one

02:00:19.760 after seeing what's out there? Okay. I understand your question. You're asking like, how has it

02:00:24.160 influenced my perspective on dating? My, yeah, sure. So, I mean, obviously our experiences in life,

02:00:32.680 our experiences in life are going to color our interpretations and perspectives. So has my

02:00:39.860 perspective been colored, been colored by the guests I've had on? Sure. Absolutely. I've learned

02:00:47.280 a lot. And I, you know, some of the conversations surrounding, you know, some, the, the way that

02:00:53.600 women move, although I, you know, I'm, I'm 36. I started the podcast when I was 33, 34. Uh, I've had,

02:01:01.500 I've had robust dating experience even before I started the show. And trust me, just from my own

02:01:07.480 dating experiences before talking to women on the show, I had very strong opinions before the show

02:01:14.480 as it relates to dating. I've been through, I've done dealt with a BPD girl. I done dealt with a

02:01:21.420 bipolar girl. I done dealt with girls who are, uh, not moving properly when it comes to dating,

02:01:30.060 even before I had the show. So trust me, this idea that the show has like warped me in. No, I've been,

02:01:36.620 I've been red pilled as you can say before the podcast. Trust me. Now, of course there's been

02:01:42.360 conversations on the show. Like, I don't know, some of the, like some of the, the sugar daddy shit.

02:01:47.940 I wasn't as tuned into like some of the stuff that women do when it comes to like sugar daddies and

02:01:53.600 fucking feet pics and being D gens, all that shit. I wasn't as privy to some of that stuff,

02:01:58.640 but, uh, yeah, I mean, I, I, so it hasn't pushed you into any direction in somehow, uh, honestly,

02:02:08.060 I would say that, um, part, maybe the biggest red pill for me is not the conversations on the show,

02:02:17.640 but women's conduct after the show. So I, one of the things, one of the examples is, uh, women's

02:02:25.880 propensity to like flake or no show. For example, we had, uh, you know, it's great to have Felicity

02:02:32.700 here, but this chair today shouldn't have gone to Felicity. We had a girl, no show today. Like

02:02:37.840 didn't even, Hey, I'm not coming in blah, blah, blah. Nope. Just no showed nothing at all. Uh,

02:02:44.880 we get a lot of flakes and like people who just cancel last minute, but they, every single show we

02:02:50.800 have to plan for, we overbook intentionally. Um, that kind of has frustrated me a little bit, just

02:03:00.020 kind of the lack of accountability on, on that front. But, um, and then just some likes, it's not

02:03:07.460 the majority of women, but some women have done some like really despicable things, uh, like after

02:03:14.060 the show, like to try to, I don't know, just bullshit, stupid shit. I'm trying to think of

02:03:20.080 some examples here. Uh, like, you know, we've had some women who've come on the show and they

02:03:24.980 basically want to like, they, they have like a blood vendetta and want to like ruin my reputation,

02:03:32.960 ruin my frequent guest, Andrew Wilson's reputation. They want to like go and just try to fuck us over

02:03:38.880 in various ways that I'm not going to, uh, get into here. But yeah, we've had like tons

02:03:43.400 of women just be like conniving, vicious, vengeful, vindictive. Uh, I won't say it, but yeah, we've

02:03:52.640 had some like really terrible, like malevolent women not on the show. Well, I mean, well,

02:03:58.400 they came on the show, but then afterwards they're like fucking ops opposition. So

02:04:05.560 I'm a spy. I'm actually on only fans. Uh, Papa penguin. Uh, Oh, hold on. There's this one

02:04:18.100 reduc reductio at what? I don't even know what it was, but okay. Um, there's that. And then

02:04:24.480 Felicity read this one, I guess. Okay. I'm bored and have bourbon. I thought I was going to get a

02:04:29.480 response. The women on this show have the intellectual depth of a puddle, but refusing to respond when you

02:04:34.880 said you would, I paid. Oh my God. Shut up, dude. Oh my God. You're such a fucking way. You've gotten

02:04:40.860 more attention than almost any super chatter has ever fucking gotten. Yeah. Yeah. You, uh, you're,

02:04:49.620 Oh my God. This guy is ridiculous. Uh, yeah. You got to be patient there. Papa penguin. In any case,

02:04:56.380 I think I thoroughly responded to you. You got, you got actually very lucky here. You should do a

02:05:01.260 champagne. I don't know if he's still in the chat. You should honestly do a champagne pop for all the

02:05:05.120 attention you fucking got. Um, that, and by the way, this idea, hold on. I, I, it's interesting on

02:05:14.280 one hand, uh, Papa penguin, you say there's this divide between men and women and the show is

02:05:19.640 contributing to it. You, but then in the same breath, you say the women on this show have the

02:05:25.820 intellectual depth of a puddle. I actually think that this is very insulting to perhaps the women

02:05:32.060 on this panel, or I don't know if you're talking in general, like the other women we've found on the

02:05:35.660 show, we've had plenty of very capable, smart women we've had. There's many times where sometimes I'm

02:05:42.860 on the back foot conversationally or in the debates with the women. So this idea of we don't bring on

02:05:48.180 smart women, ridiculous. I, here's a open invitation. We have an open invitation for any women.

02:05:54.700 In fact, we have a lot of instances where we had a recent thing. I wonder if we can pull it up in the

02:06:00.980 discord. Uh, we'll, we'll get, I'll have women. Yeah. Yeah. We're going to pull this up. So, um,

02:06:10.020 it's going to be, you're going to have to scroll up. It's in the hate mail folder, but women will be

02:06:17.300 like, Oh, you only bring on stupid women. You should bring on a smart woman like me and blah.

02:06:23.860 And then they'll usually include like save inflammatory shit. Like your podcast sucks,

02:06:28.000 whatever. And I never insult back. I just always say, when can you make it on? Can you, when can

02:06:37.120 you come on the show? I'm never, I'll never, even if they, they, they say insulting things, I never

02:06:41.980 insults back. Hold on. I'm trying to find it. Nick, are you on the hate mail tab?

02:06:45.660 Yep. Okay. So it is, um, okay. So Nick, it is 10. You're going to scroll to October 24.

02:06:58.160 Okay. So it is, you're going to see the first one under 10. Oh shit. There's a Spider-Man

02:07:07.400 Jose. It's not that one, but it's the one below it. I'll show you guys what I'm talking

02:07:12.120 about. Are you at 1024 hate mail? Well, it's, it's the, it's below the one with the Spider-Man

02:07:30.760 Jose. 1024, 428. It's the one below it. All right, guys, if you're enjoying this, do you

02:07:40.400 have it? Okay. Pull it up from Jewel. No, no, no, no. The next one, the next one. All right,

02:07:50.300 Felicity, you read the girl part. It's, it's really small. Pop it out, Nick.

02:07:54.800 Yeah. Okay. Here. While you do that, um, do, huh? You, you can open it in a new tab so

02:08:08.220 that it is bigger. Uh, do you have it? Ah, fuck. Hide StreamYard. Hide StreamYard.

02:08:22.980 Okay, here. In OBS. Huh? No, hold on. Here. Hide StreamYard in OBS. Hide. Minimize this.

02:08:45.720 F11. F11. F11. Out of it. Out of it. Scoot it over. Over. Just put it, put it. Wait, is

02:09:00.640 it, is it over? Yeah. Like, put it on the, um, do you have it? Yeah. What, um, what's

02:09:23.840 going on? Uh, wait, you got it. StreamYard needs to be F11. Okay. Go ahead, read it. This

02:09:39.440 is the same size that it was before. Okay. I just want you to know that, I just want you

02:09:45.760 to know I think you're a small-minded cuck of a man and I would absolutely demolish you

02:09:49.720 in any debate. The way you view women is hilariously outdated. The way you talk to women is disrespectful

02:09:54.900 as fuck and the entire idea that your platform is predicated on the, on, on is baseless woman

02:10:03.000 hating red-pilled nonsense. Okay, and then I respond, great, let's do it. Can you come

02:10:08.220 Sunday, November 9th? You view women who embrace their sexuality as trash pieces and you openly

02:10:15.400 disrespect them and honestly my intellect is much more vast, expansive, and well-informed than yours.

02:10:21.960 This would not be a fair debate for you. Scroll down. Uh, I'm fine with it not being fair for me. When

02:10:29.640 you, when can you do the debate you issued the challenge for? So you agree that your negative and

02:10:34.340 degrading opinions and ways of viewing and treating women is baseless and absurd then I'll think about

02:10:39.260 it. I disagree. You issued a debate challenge. I'm accepting. Are you backing out? If it's worth

02:10:44.700 my time, didn't expect you to be so eager to be wrong. Uh, and then again, I'm just ignoring her

02:10:51.560 sort of, uh, her, some of the attacks or whatever. It was worth your time, blah, blah, blah. Shall we get

02:10:58.020 this on schedule? And then she didn't respond. And I just, are you running from your own debate

02:11:01.720 challenge? So look, ultimately relating this back to, uh, you know, me not having intellectual

02:11:07.340 women on, I have, I get DMS like that every single day where women say, Oh, if you had

02:11:11.580 me on the show, I would school you. I, I don't insult them back. I'm just say, cool, let's do

02:11:16.940 it. Let's schedule it. Every single time. I'm not exaggerating. They run, they won't do

02:11:24.860 it. They're fucking cowards. Every single, so this idea like, Oh, bring on intelligent women.

02:11:29.460 I'll bring on anybody. I will bring on any woman you can. I don't care if you're fucking

02:11:34.120 from Harvard. I don't care if you dropped out of elementary school. You want to be on

02:11:37.700 the show? Come on the show. I don't care. I love it. I don't fucking care. All these

02:11:41.020 people are, are not, you know, their, their main source of income is not only fans. And

02:11:46.700 yeah, there's not one single only fans girl here. I love it. I love it. I thought it was

02:11:51.740 strictly only fans for, for a while. When I first started seeing clips of this on YouTube,

02:11:56.280 I thought it was like, Oh, this guy just interviews only fans chicks. I mean, it's a,

02:12:01.320 it's a unfortunate, uh, I guess, stereotype that won't go away because admittedly we have

02:12:09.320 had only fans girls on the show. Perhaps some of our viral clips have featured only fans

02:12:15.700 girls. Although many of our viral clips, it's just a regular girl. Uh, but if you do a breakdown

02:12:21.920 of all our guests, it's something like 15% of our guests total are OF one, five, 15, one, five,

02:12:31.280 only 15. So that means look, some panels, there's more, some there's less, some there's none,

02:12:37.060 but one five, if the would work out to on average, a panel like this, one or two of the girls do OF,

02:12:45.540 the rest dome on average. Okay. Yeah. But it's an unfortunate trope that continues to be, uh,

02:12:53.660 excuse me, repeated. Yo, Mads, thank you for the gifted 10. Appreciate it. Uh, yeah, it's just kind

02:12:59.800 of like this thing. I guess I can't escape. Oh, you just bring on young, stupid girls. But like,

02:13:05.980 if you, I mean, we have three, three women above the age of 30, 36, 31, 35, 35. We do have like a

02:13:14.740 19 year old, 18 year old, uh, 27 year old. I am 32. Thank you. Don't age me. Oh, what did I say?

02:13:21.820 35. Oh, sorry. A couple of times. Yeah. I miss, I guess I wrote that down wrong. We have four girls

02:13:26.540 over the age of 30. Yeah. 36, 31, 32, 35. So I don't know. They're like, Oh, you only bring on young

02:13:33.020 girls. No, I mean, actually the average age is closer to 25, 26. We only bring on the only fans

02:13:37.980 girls. Well, no, actually the majority of our guests don't do only fans. So I don't know. A lot

02:13:41.760 of fake news circulating, I guess, about the show, but, um, I'm trying to remember where we were on

02:13:49.160 this. Um, what were you, I don't know. You brought it up, I guess, or sort of, I don't know. Uh,

02:13:57.800 I don't remember, but Felicity, would you agree that 15% of the females on this podcast have been

02:14:04.700 only fans or would you think that it would be higher? I would say, yeah, like less than a

02:14:11.540 hoarder. Okay. All right. I guess it's just the clips I've seen. Why would. I'm just curious.

02:14:17.320 We keep stats. Oh, you keep data. Wow. Yes, we keep stats. Okay. Okay. Do you think I'm lying to

02:14:22.420 you? Why would you need to defer to Felicity? I was just curious. Who's only been here since

02:14:26.360 episode, like, uh, what, 200 something up? Okay. She's missed. I was just curious. Yeah,

02:14:34.260 but why? I don't know. Because she's here all the time. I mean, on the, in the clips that I've seen.

02:14:37.440 I don't, yeah, but I don't know. So you think I'm lying? Well, I just wasn't sure that you had

02:14:43.700 the actual exact number of 15%. The host, the owner of the podcast. Okay. Has less accurate data than

02:14:51.940 Felicity. That's really okay. Just understanding. Just making sure we're on the same page there.

02:14:59.180 By the way, that's not an attack on Felicity, but it's, um, I think she's just asking for another

02:15:04.780 opinion. Yeah, I was just, it's not an opinion. Well, it's not just an opinion. I didn't know you

02:15:11.440 had the data in your head from the exact numbers. It's observable. Okay. The, the girls who are on

02:15:21.840 the show say whether or not they do OnlyFans. And you keep track of every single thing. Okay. Well,

02:15:27.940 so good to know as of episode, I believe it was, we, we sort of stopped tracking after episode 200

02:15:35.780 formally, but we did, we did tracking up to episode 200. And if anything, there was a period

02:15:42.360 there from, I'd say episode 40 to episode 200 where that in that area was probably when we had a bit

02:15:48.860 leaning a bit more towards OnlyFans creators. I would argue in the past year or so, we've had less

02:15:56.740 frequent appearances from OnlyFans girls. Okay. So if anything, the data that I have from,

02:16:03.240 uh, episode one to episode 200 where episode two, six, seven, I think, uh, or is it two, six,

02:16:09.500 six? I don't know what are, it's probably lower. Okay. Good to know. I thought OF maybe was giving

02:16:15.940 you kickbacks. Like, Hey, take on a few girls. No, no, we've never received a kickback from only that'd be

02:16:26.000 ridiculous. Uh, you never know. Okay. I don't know. Are you, are you getting fucking kickbacks

02:16:32.500 from, I don't know, uh, fucking George Soros for saying stupid shit on the podcast? I don't fucking

02:16:43.860 know, but, um, we've never received a kickback from any individual OnlyFans girls. We've never

02:16:51.520 received a kickback from a management company. None of that shit. Okay. You think there's a fucking

02:16:57.560 whatever conspiracy to what the fuck? Well, what other conspiracy, uh, was 9-11, was that an inside

02:17:05.480 job? What else do you want to fucking talk about? She actually does think 9-11 wasn't, I guess she

02:17:13.020 wants to talk about that. I mean, I don't want to talk about it. Does jet fuel melt, doesn't melt steel

02:17:19.020 beams? Well, I don't know. Plan demolition. What are you? There might've been an explosion while one of

02:17:24.240 them was burning. I don't know. Um, one of the towers. Are you a flat earther too? Do you want

02:17:28.640 to talk about that? Not a flat earther? Okay. Well, all right. Um, I know, I know. We'll get to it.

02:17:38.320 Your XD donated $200. Sorry for the delay, man. I'm sorry. Brian getting heated made me heated.

02:17:43.800 I make a really solid six figure income. I'm pretty good looking. I come from a great family.

02:17:49.120 I don't want to fucking have to prove some ambiguous ambition to you.

02:17:55.060 I believe that's for you, Sabrina. Maybe. I don't. Cha? Was that directed to her? I'm not sure.

02:18:01.680 Um, sorry for the delays on these guys. I was engaged in responding to, um, Pussy Penguin.

02:18:08.100 Tasty George donated $200.

02:18:11.200 Share for, in my honest opinion, the whatever podcast exposes the misandry and sexism that

02:18:17.080 many women have towards men due to feminism. It also reveals their promiscuity because of

02:18:22.900 feminism. What was that guy? Thank you, Pacey George. What was he saying about the declining

02:18:28.720 birth rates? What the fuck would that have to do? You said you were putting men and women against

02:18:36.800 each other and birth rates were feeding hate. Yeah. You're feeding that hatred. You yourself have

02:18:44.040 to stop the babies from coming. I, Nick, I'm going to send you something in the private chat here.

02:18:48.020 I actually posted about the, uh, you know, I brought up feminism. Feminism is very anti-natalist,

02:18:54.400 anti-family, anti-children. Um, one sec. I'm going to try to, so there was this famous feminist,

02:19:01.780 hold on. I'm going to send her right now. Famous feminist, uh, who, hold on. She wrote a very,

02:19:10.040 like a, uh, well, I'll just read the tweet, but she wrote like a major piece of, I guess,

02:19:16.820 classical feminist literature, you could say. Uh, her name is Kate Millett. Go ahead, pull it up.

02:19:24.520 Uh, she was an American feminist who's, you could probably make us bigger, uh, whose 1970 book,

02:19:30.600 sexual politics is regarded as a classic feminism. She was involved in early days of the, uh, this is

02:19:36.560 the biggest women's organization, even currently in the United States, uh, national organization for

02:19:42.480 women. She has quoted the complete destruction of traditional marriage and the nuclear family

02:19:46.940 is the revolutionary or utopian goal of feminism. And she participated in feminist groups where the

02:19:53.380 destruction of the American family was explicitly discussed. It's not French, fringe feminism. It's

02:19:58.760 mainstream feminism. And Nick, if you scroll down a bit, the first photo, uh, don't do it on stream,

02:20:03.600 but the first photo after that is, uh, some of the remarks that I, that are attributed towards

02:20:09.840 her. You're going to click on the photo. I think just in, just click. It should be fine. Okay. So

02:20:17.360 this is what she's quoted as saying, uh, why are, Oh wait, I need somebody. I'm just going to have one

02:20:22.680 of the women read this. Any takers? I'll do it. Okay. Go ahead. Pink hair makes sense.

02:20:29.340 Why are we here today? The chairman chairwoman asked to make revolution. They answered what

02:20:36.220 kind of revolution she replied, the cultural revolution they chanted. And how do we make

02:20:42.000 cultural revolution? She demanded, sorry, it's a little hard to see by destroying the American

02:20:46.680 family. They answered, how do we destroy the American family? She came back by destroying the

02:20:51.720 American patriarch. They cried exuberantly. I can't say that. I'm sorry. And how do we destroy

02:20:57.560 the American patriarch? She's probed by taking away his power. How do we do that? By destroying

02:21:03.540 monogamy? They shouted. How can we destroy monogamy? By pretending, by promoting, sorry,

02:21:10.000 promiscuity, eroticism, prostitution, abortion, and homosexuality, right? Hypersexuality. Is that

02:21:17.560 homosexuality? Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. So this idea, by the way, that's from 1969.

02:21:23.100 It's kind of crazy. That's decades before I was born, anybody else at this table was born.

02:21:29.940 This idea that a few podcasts, like male podcasts that get comparable viewership to myself, a couple

02:21:44.160 thousand concurrent viewers, is having the impact on the birth rates and the dissolution of the family

02:21:52.040 structure in the United States. This has been the, that was the genesis of feminism since very early

02:21:58.180 on. 1969. This is the, this is the feminism that's taught in university. Um, she's written books,

02:22:07.900 her book, sexual politics, uh, is a classic of feminist thought. So I don't know how you can look at my

02:22:18.820 podcast where I'm in favor of having children and having a family and then say that this is like

02:22:25.400 time to blame for the divide. The divide pre-exists my life. And that's, it's been created by feminists

02:22:33.840 like Kate Millett. I don't know if I'm saying her name right. Kate Millett, uh, the feminist movement,

02:22:39.100 very detrimental. And, uh, I don't know. It's an interesting thing to try to blame on,

02:22:46.840 on me when there's bigger powers, primarily feminism in society that you should really be pointing the

02:22:55.760 finger to. Um, I don't know. I've decided since I've met you here tonight, I will never have another

02:23:02.000 child. She's joking. I don't think that he was blaming you. I think he was just, you know,

02:23:12.100 making statements and it, it sounded like he was blaming you in that. He clearly was. No,

02:23:17.780 no, no, no. He definitely was blaming you. He wasn't blaming you. He was just saying,

02:23:20.140 I don't have it. All of this is happening. And like, I'm sitting here watching this podcast.

02:23:25.520 It wasn't like, he's like, Brian, this is your fault. You're like, he was just saying that like,

02:23:30.240 this does perpetuate, but it's not your fault that these other things are happening.

02:23:35.520 Yep. Feeding hate. Oh, okay. Yeah. Well, he didn't blame you for the. I mean, he, he did,

02:23:41.760 but I'm not going to have a meta conversation about that when we have chats coming through.

02:23:46.780 Dark Omen 42 donated $200. We all deal with women in real life. We see most are massive flakes.

02:23:55.300 We know how crappy most single women are. If anything, Brian gives hope because he has

02:24:00.220 decent ones on them. We run into in person. Yo, Dark Omen. Thank you for the TTS, man. I do

02:24:06.100 appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. And then we have, uh, let's see. Pasty George here. Dark

02:24:13.040 Omen. I do appreciate that. Thank you, man. Thank you, George. Pasty George. Wait, you're not

02:24:21.740 doing the thing. You're not doing the thing. Therefore, so basically you are tone policing

02:24:26.900 Brian for simply questioning women's entitlement and egotistical mentality, as well as feminist

02:24:32.400 ideologies.

02:24:38.120 Can you try moving that thing? What the f- bro? No, don't worry about it. It's fine. I don't know.

02:24:45.220 It's weird. Um, do you want to respond?

02:24:47.180 He was saying that I was criticizing your, your, tone policing, I guess. Okay. Yeah. Do you

02:24:55.160 want to respond? No. Okay. All right. She says, George, she doesn't want to respond, I guess.

02:25:01.860 Um, all right. I don't know where we were. Um, talk about something fun like sex.

02:25:07.240 Well, we didn't get to her. Let's hear about her relationship. Hold on, hold on. Hold on. Hold

02:25:14.500 on. We were just trying to finish off this conversation about high expectations. Yeah.

02:25:21.820 Still on me. Oh my. Well, I think, uh, look, I think it warrants. It's an interesting convo

02:25:27.220 to have because you, you say you're very single. You want to get married. You want to have kids.

02:25:32.240 You say you have high expectations. Yeah. Is it ever the case that sometimes somebody can have

02:25:37.840 expectations that are too high and should they be adjusted to be more commensurate with what they

02:25:45.140 could reasonably hope to achieve in terms of the quality of partner that they, their prospects

02:25:51.480 would be indicative of? What do you mean exactly? Like, well, okay. Yeah. You say I have high

02:26:00.520 expectations and then I guess do the guys that you want, want you? Oh, um, for the most part,

02:26:11.560 but then it just kind of ends like the last two relationships. They both said the same reason

02:26:17.740 that I was deserving of more time than they could give me. So obviously, yeah, I'm going to blame

02:26:24.200 myself. Well, you know, I, I didn't believe them. Were you needy? No, no, I don't think I'm needy.

02:26:30.700 I think, um, I do try quite hard to find like a balance of whoever I'm with and you know, like I'll

02:26:40.280 obviously I'm open to adjusting whatever bad habits I have or, you know, whatever. So obviously I think

02:26:49.040 like, what could I do better? So yeah. I mean, it's kind of like when somebody's breaking up with

02:26:59.020 you and they're a lot of times when somebody's breaking up with you, if they're trying to be

02:27:02.760 polite or to protect your feelings, they're going to say something like, Hey, I'm just, uh, you know,

02:27:07.980 I'm trying to focus on my career. It's not you, it's me. They're usually not always being perfectly

02:27:15.180 upfront or forthcoming about, you know, I definitely didn't believe them. I knew it had

02:27:21.200 to have been something else. Right. So, um, I guess ultimately though, I don't know. And then,

02:27:29.520 you know, the thing about, uh, you know, body type or whatever, you don't want a guy who's,

02:27:36.240 who's bigger, whatever. Um, just trying to get a feel for the high expectations here, because my,

02:27:43.440 my perspective is this, I think everybody wants to get the best that they can get.

02:27:47.620 That's human nature. Yeah. If we can get the best, you know, the best possible option,

02:27:52.580 we want the best, but whether you can get that is another question. And so it's like, I, my,

02:28:00.960 I guess my perspective is average people should want average people.

02:28:05.640 Or I mean, being realistic, like, yeah. Okay. You, you're a 35 year old. I'm not talking

02:28:14.540 you're a 35 year old male who lives in Idaho and you live in your mom's basement and you're

02:28:21.180 overweight. You do drugs. You play video games all day. You don't have a job. I don't think

02:28:26.840 you're going to be dating Sydney Sweeney anytime soon. I don't think you're going to be dating a

02:28:31.400 Victoria's secret model anytime soon. Why is that? Well, maybe you could date the ex

02:28:39.700 meth addict who works at Walmart and who's got a couple of tattoos and maybe he's a single mom.

02:28:46.220 If that's your position, like you should probably date in your league. And so it's like,

02:28:50.700 right. So like, I'm, I'm an independent woman. I go to work every day. I go to school every day.

02:28:55.880 I have a dog. I, you know, have my apartment. Yeah. I make my way. So why wouldn't I want

02:29:02.140 someone with those same expectations? Well, I think that's all fine. And it's also funny,

02:29:06.240 you know? Well, I, yeah. I mean, and she wants kids and marriage and like, that's nice too.

02:29:13.620 Yeah. Maybe marriage down the line, but definitely I know my age. I know my body type, obviously.

02:29:20.720 So I'm not, you know, I'm a realist. All right. Okay. Uh, what about you?

02:29:29.540 I've been single for 18 years straight. All right. Any boyfriend or anything like that?

02:29:35.680 Nope. Never. Longest period of time you dated a guy? Never dated a guy. Never dated a guy. Okay.

02:29:42.080 Uh, all right. Um, and you're Christian, correct? Yes. What denomination? Baptist.

02:29:49.680 Baptist. Baptist. Okay. Are you waiting until marriage? Absolutely. Okay. So you're, you are a

02:29:55.580 virgin? Yes. Okay. Uh, all right. That's very good. It can be done. Thank you. Yeah. Great. Very,

02:30:03.460 very encouraging. And let me see here. Um, okay. We're going to get into, uh, some of the disagreements

02:30:13.280 some people had, uh, but I'm, I'm actually, I have to wait until she's back here before I,

02:30:20.560 I need to step away momentarily. But why don't I just do this? We have, hold on, hold on,

02:30:30.900 look at my notes here. Um, uh, I guess going to you, Laura. Uh, so the origination of you coming

02:30:41.560 on the show, you had DM'd my personal and you said that you were disappointed that my comments

02:30:49.000 on my Instagram were turned off and you, I don't know if you're being catty or just whatever.

02:30:54.940 You were like, I thought you welcomed open discourse. Yeah. Uh, people that turn off their

02:31:00.040 comments are pussies. Exactly. See, you thought it, half of us might've thought that. Yeah. I just want

02:31:07.460 to get the context for your angle there. Like, so what was the, you went to my personal Instagram

02:31:13.960 page. You, I am assuming like, did you have an intention of wanting to leave like a comment on

02:31:19.480 one of my posts that you disagreed on? I'm, I might've. Yeah. I'm, I don't, I don't, I don't recall

02:31:25.940 that exact thing. It was slightly insignificant, but then when you told me to come on the podcast,

02:31:30.600 I was like, yeah, I'll go, I'll go. I enjoy the clips. So sure. So yeah, I mean, I guess I could

02:31:36.760 just, uh, uh, address this briefly context for viewers, my YouTube comments, wide open YouTube

02:31:44.220 live chat, fully open. You have to be a subscriber, but that's free for anybody. And there's like a 10

02:31:50.700 minute waiting period. That's not, that's mostly just to prevent spam. We don't want like people

02:31:56.020 coming in and spamming links and bots and this sort of shit. YouTube live chat, fully open YouTube

02:32:01.660 comments, wide open Twitch chat, fully open X replies, fully open. TikTok comments, fully open

02:32:07.620 Facebook comments, fully open, uh, Instagram reels, fully open Instagram posts though. Instagram posts

02:32:15.800 uniquely. I don't allow comments on my Instagram posts, but all the reels, if you go, you look over

02:32:22.500 on the reels totally open. You can leave comments on those. And I, I do it because I don't want to

02:32:27.640 bought cause Instagram posts are like, I don't really post much. Well, I post a lot of reels on

02:32:33.260 Instagram, but I don't do posts. Maybe some of you understand the distinction between a post versus a

02:32:40.280 reel. Uh, I don't want to bother moderating on Instagram because I just don't give a, Instagram's

02:32:47.140 like a deprioritized platform for me mostly. Although I've started posting reels on there. I don't

02:32:52.420 want to, I was getting doxxed and shit on there. So yeah, I turn off the Instagram post comments

02:32:57.140 cause I don't want to bother moderating it. All those other platforms completely open. Okay. Good

02:33:02.900 to know. Twitter, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube open. I'm not on any of those other platforms except

02:33:08.180 YouTube. And I actually, I think I was introduced to you via Instagram. I feel like somebody might

02:33:15.780 have sent me one of your clips. I saw your Instagram before I saw the whatever Instagram, and I thought

02:33:19.940 that was your only one. So that's why I, I sent you that message all those months ago.

02:33:24.700 But you, you thought it was like you, you had an issue because my comments were turned off,

02:33:31.020 I guess. I don't know. I, uh, yeah, I don't know. I just sent you a DM.

02:33:37.300 Yeah. I sometimes get this, this criticism for, especially, um, oftentimes it's from people who

02:33:44.140 are, have a non anonymous or private accounts, um, which I can't find somewhat ironic. Like,

02:33:50.700 Oh, why, why are your, uh, comments on Instagram, uh, turned off you pussy, but it's like a private

02:33:57.100 anonymous, like it's not their name. So I'm like, hold on.

02:34:01.420 Um, my full name is out there and I'm saying the shit I'm saying your Instagram profile is

02:34:07.620 private. I think that's having a private, I don't, by the way, I don't have an issue with

02:34:12.180 people have private Instagrams, but if you're going to criticize me and be like, Oh, why is

02:34:17.640 your Instagram comments off pussy? But your Instagram is private. I'm like, you fucking

02:34:22.380 hypocrite. Like, okay. Um, but I don't know if your, your Instagram is private or not. I don't

02:34:28.660 know. Uh, but you had a criticism there. So do you have criticisms of the show beyond

02:34:33.900 just what, what we've already talked about? Oh, okay. Um, but I mean, you left or you sent

02:34:42.600 me a message. You're disappointed that my Instagram comments are turned off. You say you, you thought

02:34:49.220 that I welcomed open discourse. Uh, do you think I don't welcome open discourse?

02:34:54.460 I think you do. Uh, into the microphone, please. I'm sorry. You do. Oh, okay. All right.

02:35:06.980 You do, but then there's a, then there's a certain tone. If your question, there's a certain like

02:35:12.140 bark back that you sometimes have. What, what does that have to do with your original statement

02:35:17.380 though? No, I, you, okay. You welcome open discourse. I don't know what time I sent you that

02:35:22.240 or the context. Exactly. Yeah. It was, it was definitely sometime over summer. Yeah. Um,

02:35:28.020 but yeah, we're good. I don't, I don't have any disagreements. Um, I mean, I would actually

02:35:36.860 argue, I think I, I do welcome open discourse perhaps more than like I'm in this show by virtue

02:35:46.060 of having the show and inviting on just all the people we've had on over. I think we're

02:35:52.940 almost at 2000 guests, probably more than just about anyone else in the world. I'll invite

02:35:58.880 people on who disagree with me. Oh, you just, I, in fact, I want them on more than the people

02:36:04.880 who agree with me. If you disagree, you get priority. You definitely get to come on the

02:36:09.460 show. If you disagree with me and you don't even have to be a somebody you can have a hundred

02:36:14.600 followers on Instagram. Don't care. I'm not like some clout demon. No, only, Oh, I only want to

02:36:19.620 invite people with a hundred thousand followers. Don't care. You can be, have a hundred followers

02:36:25.780 on Instagram from fucking Nebraska. Don't give a shit. Anybody. I think that's open discourse.

02:36:32.520 I just don't want people to dox me in my fucking Instagram comments. Okay. That's extremely

02:36:37.960 understandable. Yeah. And also it's like, um,

02:36:40.960 I think that people confuse justifiable moderation decisions. Oh, you're anti-free speech. No,

02:36:50.880 it's like you can moderate things and still be in favor of free speech. And these things are not,

02:36:57.400 uh, in contradiction of each other. Like, I don't want people like in my chat, like dropping the end,

02:37:04.660 the end bomb. I don't want people to don't fucking do it. Chat like right now they're,

02:37:09.240 I just, they're probably tempted to, I don't, I think it's within my purview of like curating a

02:37:17.820 channel that one isn't going to get like fucking canceled because it's TOS for me to say, tell my

02:37:24.800 moderators in chat, Hey, if people are like dropping severe racial slurs, you should ban them. Yeah.

02:37:32.140 Like we should have, I'm okay with some edgy stuff, whatever. But if you're just dropping racial slurs

02:37:38.680 in the chat, ban them, please. Like, I don't think that that's in contravention of freedom of speech.

02:37:45.080 Like that's one just about in order for me to actually be able to have some controversial

02:37:50.680 views that I espouse, I need to play by the platform's rules. And part of that means

02:37:57.620 curating and moderating the community so that I don't get a bullseye on me from YouTube or,

02:38:05.540 you know, the fucking media matters. Look at this chat. It's just a bunch of people fucking

02:38:10.040 dropping racial slurs. What's he cultivating here? No, I don't want, I don't want that.

02:38:15.840 And it doesn't benefit me. So I, I, I think moderation is not in contravention of freedom of

02:38:22.580 speech. I agree. Just like we shouldn't be on here saying any of those things either. I get it.

02:38:28.680 I get it. Why? Do you feel tempted to drop the hard R? That's so you, I knew you were a fucking

02:38:32.980 racist. Just kidding. I never got this vibe from you. I promise. I'm kidding. I'm just messing with

02:38:38.100 you. Um, let's see here. You also disagree about the laundry thing, but we're going to get to that

02:38:45.640 in a moment. Uh, I need to step away for a few minutes. Felicity here has some great, great

02:38:51.780 questions, um, that she's going to ask you. Um, if you can start with this one, do you know what I'm

02:39:01.780 this one? And then, uh, yeah, I'll be actually wait, hold on. Let me let the chat come through

02:39:07.620 while I'm here. And then Felicity has some questions to ask you. Fine gentlemen and ladies.

02:39:17.320 A message from the government of Canada. Pasty George donated $200 and four cents. Thank you,

02:39:24.100 man. Chair four, due to feminism and me too, many women often speak to men how they want,

02:39:29.980 even when it is in a rude, catty and disrespectful manner and behavior. Why can't men do the same?

02:39:37.620 Anybody want to respond to Pasty George? Anybody? Do they not? Do men not talk the way they want to,

02:39:50.380 to their girlfriends? Is that? I think they do get reprimanded more for it. I will say that,

02:39:57.940 but I genuinely think everyone should be able to talk about anyone that they want and that's freedom

02:40:03.000 of speech, you know? So, but I can see where he's coming from. I do know, um, and I'm not trying to

02:40:09.600 100% side with the men or women here, but I do know a lot of men, uh, feel, especially if they were

02:40:16.100 to come up on social media and try to say something. And in my defense, when I have said something

02:40:21.400 against women, even though I'm not with men or women necessarily, you get a lot of more backlash for

02:40:27.940 it than if you were to come up on social media and just talk bad about a man. So, but yeah,

02:40:33.280 I can see where he's coming from. I think everyone should be able to talk bad about, well, to some

02:40:38.380 degree, but you should have freedom of speech and expression. Really quick before I step away,

02:40:46.000 I need to thank a couple of people. I missed these from last show. Yo, John, thank for the 30 on Venmo.

02:40:51.340 Anna, thank for the 10. Troy, thank for the 10. And then Troy tonight, thank for the 10, man. Uh,

02:40:56.920 Leslie, who, uh, she, she decided to, uh, help with some very generous patronage. I don't know if

02:41:06.840 she's watching, but she sent $700. So Leslie, I don't know if you're watching. Uh, thank you so much.

02:41:13.520 You're a fucking legend. And, um, I think we'll, uh, I think she's maybe going to visit soon. So we'll

02:41:21.300 see. Thank you so much, Leslie. Appreciate it very much. And I think we're good. Take it away. Felicity.

02:41:28.760 Okay. I'm going to ask questions. I'm going to start with you. Okay. Okay. Name three countries,

02:41:34.820 three countries. Yeah. Um, Europe, America, um, Asia. Countries. Countries? Countries. Not continents.

02:41:47.060 I'm sorry. Um, Serbia, um, Japan, Tokyo. Tokyo? Is Tokyo not a country? Tokyo is in Japan. Oh my gosh.

02:42:03.100 Not a city in Japan. Um, uh, sorry. I'm just blanking right now. Um, Paris, city.

02:42:14.540 That's not a country. Okay. France. Yeah. Okay. What about you? Three countries. Countries. Yes.

02:42:21.780 Finland, Germany, Sweden. Okay. Also, you guys, you can't, you can't repeat. Name three countries.

02:42:27.840 Morocco, Switzerland, Zimbabwe. Next. France, Italy, Japan. Oh, wait, I can't repeat. China.

02:42:36.440 No, she didn't say. Uh, France was said and Japan was said. Oh, no, I said Italy. Uh, oh, you said

02:42:45.180 Switzerland. Um, sorry. Uh, Mexico, Canada, and Costa Rica. Are you Canadian? No. Uh, I heard a story.

02:42:57.460 Okay. Um, just, okay. Next. Kyrgyzstan, Egypt, and Ecuador. Next.

02:43:06.000 Brazil. And Spain. And Kazakhstan. You don't seem very sure about those answers. I was nervous.

02:43:18.100 Are you sure? Yes. Okay. Next. Bulgaria, Greece, and, um, Chile. Okay.

02:43:27.440 Okay. Name one continent. Name a continent. Asia. Okay. Next. Uh, continent. Uh, Africa.

02:43:36.280 Okay. Europe. Next. Australia. Antarctica. Next. All of them. Yeah, I think, I think there's,

02:43:46.980 we're going through all of them. There's seven. There's enough. Oh, there's enough. No, I'm

02:43:49.700 saying we're going through. Yeah, so name, name a continent. I can say something. You

02:43:52.960 can't repeat. No, it's okay. You already said Antarctica. What was that already? That's

02:43:59.040 fine. Oh, I'm not telling you. That's what happened to me. I was like, wait, they just,

02:44:02.380 I wasn't listening to them, but. Okay. Um, name a continent. One. You, you got this. There's

02:44:09.260 two left. I can name all seven. You're on one of them. Shh. Sorry. That's cheating. No, I can't

02:44:15.880 say that. Well, America. Which one? Well, yes, but. Oh my gosh, it's so embarrassing. Yeah.

02:44:26.200 Yeah. Um, there's so, I guess, yeah, technically there's two Americas. Which one? Yeah. You got

02:44:32.840 this. It's really embarrassing. Into the mic. I really can't think. As soon as she says it,

02:44:42.940 you're going to be like. I know. As soon as you say it, it's going to be so stupid. What

02:44:46.260 continent you live on. Shh. What continent are you on right now? You guys don't help

02:44:54.880 her. I know. I can't. I don't know. You don't know what continent you're in right

02:44:59.960 now? No. No. Yes. Yes, you have to guess. I'm not going to skip you. I know. I'm sorry.

02:45:08.760 All right. I'm not sorry. We need the crickets. I know. We need the crickets. It's not coming

02:45:22.800 to me. It's not even. It's so painful. And you have high standards, right? I know. Yeah.

02:45:32.080 No shade. No shame. No, some shame. Come on. I know. You kind of. Analyze the data. You

02:45:41.200 have. Analyze the data. You had one of the words. You halfway got it. I kind of helped

02:45:47.040 you a little bit. There's no. How old are you? Can I name all seven? You. Come on. You're

02:45:53.340 going to. Okay. I think it's making it worse because it's just blank. Um. All except ours.

02:46:01.960 Okay. Don't. Don't. Yeah. No, no, no. No, because then that'll get the answer. It's

02:46:11.480 just blank. It's just blank. She's under pressure. She's under pressure. I'm under pressure and

02:46:16.320 it's just blank and it's embarrassing. Wait. She already gave me a hint. She already got

02:46:21.520 a hint. Yeah. What was the hint? Well, I said America. There's two Americas. Two Americas.

02:46:27.460 Yes. It was a huge hint. Wait. There's two Americas. Yeah. There's two Americas. I'm not going

02:46:33.440 to say it. I know, but. Okay. Yeah. So. Okay. That's a good enough hint. Hold on. Yeah. Yeah.

02:46:41.320 Okay. So she did guess that it's America. Yes. But. America. There's. Right. There's

02:46:51.720 two continents. Right. And. Okay. And there's four directions. Okay. Okay. Okay. You guys?

02:46:58.760 North America. Yes. Okay. Stop helping each other. We like each other. We're girly. Yeah.

02:47:07.880 West America. That's what we do. Okay. North America. Please. You know the answer, right?

02:47:12.200 What is the answer to the last one? South America. Good. Good job. Good job, ladies. Okay.

02:47:20.500 Not me. Next question. Next question. What years, and if you know the answer for sure, don't

02:47:29.420 answer. Who's the history major? Don't answer if you know. What years were World War I?

02:47:33.880 Oh, I would love to know that answer. I wonder if we should do. Have a range? Gosh.

02:47:39.780 Like, what's the decade? No. This is easy. That's too easy. Well, it's moderately easy.

02:47:46.000 That's way too easy. What years were World War I? Was it in the 1930s? Before that? Don't

02:47:52.460 ask me. I mean, you have to guess. I honestly don't know the answer to that. Honestly, I don't

02:47:56.480 know. Okay. Okay. Okay. We're letting. Hey, Sophia. You guys keep talking. Sophia. Can you

02:48:01.320 like, put yourself more on the corner? Okay. So. Yeah. So your guess is the 1930s? Clearly

02:48:17.500 not 1920s. Well, why? I didn't, nobody even hinted. Someone did. Okay. Guys, stop. Okay.

02:48:25.580 I'm just trying to piss me off. Wait. Put the camera that way. Okay. So your guess is 1920s?

02:48:32.360 Yeah. In that time. Okay. Next.

02:48:35.180 Next. Not sure, but from 1914 to 1918. Okay. Next. 1914 to 1918. Next. Those are your guesses?

02:48:47.420 I think it was 1916 to 1919. Okay. Next. But I do know World War II. I'm going to say the

02:48:54.980 1910s. Next. Next. It's 1914 to 1918. Next. Yeah. It's 1914. Okay. So I did say if you know it

02:49:02.200 for sure, don't answer. Oh. Wow. So rude. But I wasn't sure. Well, yeah, you didn't seem

02:49:08.040 sure, but are you, you're the history. I was a high school dropout. Oh. So. But you

02:49:12.680 knew. Yes, I did. That's my bad. I'm sorry. It's okay. Next one. I'm going to get up again.

02:49:19.240 What years were World War II? Oh, my God. Same thing applies if you know it. Don't answer.

02:49:24.460 Oh. 1921. To. 1925. Okay. Next. Yes, you're next. You're next.

02:49:36.720 If I know. Huh? If I know. You said that if you know. Oh, okay. Yeah, you're saying don't

02:49:42.960 answer. Okay. And you know. Okay. So next. I know the month and the year. So no. Sorry.

02:49:48.280 Yeah, you guys go speak to them. I'm sorry. Okay. Next. I plead the fifth. Because I.

02:49:52.580 I can't plead the fifth. Well, I know it. I don't want to say it. Okay. Next.

02:49:55.900 1930. To.

02:50:00.420 38. Okay. Next. I know it. Okay. The answer is 1939 to 1945. Yep. September 1st to September

02:50:10.700 2nd, I think it ended or something like that. I think it was September to September. I don't

02:50:16.460 know the exact date. Should I ask the questions at the bottom, Brian?

02:50:22.580 Uh, yeah. We could do, what is it? The income? Yeah. What would you want the minimum yearly

02:50:29.160 income to be for your future husband, starting with you? I wrote 300K. Okay. Should I just

02:50:36.120 keep going? Yeah. Okay. Next. Kind of doesn't matter. I hope that the guy can take care of himself

02:50:44.420 and then we'll figure out the rest afterwards. But. So just like, like average, like bare minimum.

02:50:53.760 To be able to live and take care of themselves. Yeah. Okay. Next. Um, and the, I would, you want to

02:51:00.480 make clear that when we do start dating, it doesn't matter to me what your income is. Um, I think the

02:51:06.420 ambition is going to show what's possible. Um, but at the end, the end goal for me or the end goal or

02:51:14.000 the expectation I would have for him is he does make more than me. Um, obviously at this moment,

02:51:19.040 I'm not making much as a 19 year old, but if I want to have two to three kids, I think that

02:51:25.060 at least a hundred K to 150 K thousand, sorry, a hundred, a hundred thousand to 150,000 would be,

02:51:33.960 um, safe for the family. So that's what I believe. Next. I don't have a minimum income requirement to

02:51:42.040 date me. I'm. So they can make like $10,000 a year. It's not possible if you're working full time,

02:51:48.380 but, um, I, yeah, I don't have minimum requirements. They can work at McDonald's.

02:51:58.800 I'm not looking for someone that works at McDonald's, but they can work where, wherever

02:52:05.780 they're going to work. I don't, I don't have like criteria of, of those things at all. But you said

02:52:13.800 you like 10,000 a year is not acceptable. So there has to be a full time job anywhere. Okay. So you

02:52:20.280 live in California? Except China. Yes, I do right now. Southern California. I think the median income

02:52:25.380 is like 68. Yeah. 60. So 68. Would that be the answer? I mean, that's perfectly fine. They can make

02:52:35.840 however, their income does not make them more or less attractive. Let me just put it that way.

02:52:41.760 But would you like, so you said. There's no, there's no minimum. I've never dated somebody

02:52:48.940 and wondered how much they made ever. So they have to work full time, right? Is what you're

02:52:53.260 saying? Cause I was like, Oh, what about 10,000? Well, right now I'm not working full time. So I,

02:52:57.200 what am I, I'm not going to be like, Oh, you, I mean, as, as long as they're not a homeless person

02:53:02.780 or, um, so they can make $10,000 a year, say don't work full time or whatever. They only

02:53:09.960 Well then they can't like eat or have a house or have an apartment. So I guess 20,000 as long as

02:53:18.080 they're not homeless. So, so, but you're like, they can't, if it's 10,000, I just don't discriminate

02:53:25.920 based on income. So I'm not going to like throw out some random arbitrary number. But you wouldn't

02:53:29.240 date a homeless person. I'm just, I'm just fucking with you. Um, but really like what,

02:53:34.120 like seriously think of like a range. Some homeless people have really nice tents. So

02:53:39.980 they also have incomes sometimes. Would you like to sleep in their tent? If it was my husband,

02:53:46.700 sure. Exactly. What I'm saying? It doesn't. Okay. Next. Sorry. Okay. So, um, where I am in life,

02:53:53.080 I guess 85,000. Okay. Next. I would say about 80, but also it depends.

02:53:59.900 Depends on what? Um, um, just what the other girls were saying, like, you know, average,

02:54:09.460 nothing too crazy. Okay. Yeah. Next. Enough to sustain a family so I can be a stay at home mom. So

02:54:17.160 like around a hundred K for California where we live. Okay. So the highest answer we got was 300,000.

02:54:23.460 Mm-hmm. You live here? In California, in LA. Why, why 300? Um, I mean, that's just like,

02:54:30.540 I feel like a base for just common, like lifestyle, a little bit of luxury, like gives a little bit of

02:54:37.680 room, but. I agree. Southern California is really expensive, but 300 is a lot. That's like top 1%,

02:54:45.920 I think. Is it top 1? Getting in there. I'm not positive, but it's pretty high. Um,

02:54:53.340 do you, you want kids? Definitely. Okay. So you just want to live like super luxuriously or

02:54:58.500 whatever? Comfortably and able to travel some throughout the year, able to afford, you know,

02:55:03.160 certain luxuries, like a nanny sometimes. Okay. Things like that. I'm not really one to argue

02:55:09.740 with you guys on that. I had to like question you because I'm looking for answers, but I'm not

02:55:15.000 going to argue with you. Um, how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

02:55:19.660 Um, I'm five, seven minimum. I'm going to say six foot. Okay. What about you?

02:55:25.260 I only know it in centimeters. So, but I'm a hobbit. So a guy who's a little bit taller than me goes.

02:55:33.840 What would be the centimeters? 162 probably. That's about five foot four, five foot five.

02:55:40.620 Sounds about right. 162? 162. Yeah. I thought 140 was, I don't know. I'm next. Yeah. Um,

02:55:50.620 I mean, I'm five two, almost five three. Um, for me, what matters is somebody who could protect me

02:55:59.620 at the moment. The man that I'm girlfriend and boyfriend with, he is six foot. So that is the

02:56:06.460 standard for me. So at least six foot. Yes. For any guy that you date ever? No, I'm more worried

02:56:13.800 because you can meet a six foot four guy who will run away like the first sight of danger. So it really

02:56:18.520 doesn't matter. Um, so it is a protector. Yes. Someone that's a little, a little taller and can

02:56:23.740 protect you. Absolutely. Okay. What about you? Taller than me and I'm five foot six. So five, seven.

02:56:30.060 It's fine. Okay. I'm five two. So it's pretty easy to be taller than me. But when I was dating

02:56:34.600 somebody like at my height, at least, but my husband's six foot, which is really nice. Not gonna

02:56:39.940 lie. Okay. Next. I'm five, five. Um, anyone just a little bit taller? Five, six. Yeah. Okay. Next.

02:56:47.200 I'm five, three and anyone taller who can protect me. So five, four, if he's like, if he's sturdy. Yes,

02:56:54.700 absolutely. Okay. Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?

02:57:03.420 Oh, I know that's like the question, the bear or the man question. Yeah.

02:57:09.300 I mean, a random man. It happens. You wrote random woman. Oh, is this you? Are you Maria? Yeah. Yeah.

02:57:21.500 You wrote a random woman. I thought I circled it. Maybe I read it. I was like quick, like,

02:57:27.840 no, you wrote it. Like it's in writing random woman. Okay. I thought it was, um, I think I read

02:57:35.460 woman or man on a hike. That's what I like read. Oh, okay. Next. Definitely a man. I love animals.

02:57:42.060 I will freaking feed the bear and die. Okay. Next. I'm not fighting off a bear. Definitely a man.

02:57:49.540 Okay. Next. A man. Probably. You know, probably. Yeah. What do you mean? Probably. I've seen bears.

02:57:58.440 You're scary. I've seen both on, on trails. So either, either one is fine. Not afraid of either of

02:58:07.340 them. Why are you afraid of a bear? I've seen them on trails. Yeah. Angeles National Forest. I've seen

02:58:14.360 them. So you're just like nonchalant. Don't care that there's a bear walking past.

02:58:19.540 You don't get scared. Also, I've seen them at Mammoth. Um, I mean, like I'm not running up to it and

02:58:26.180 feeding it. I do. I mean, they're cute. I guess. Yeah. Like I've seen bears from a distance. I don't

02:58:33.120 care, but I, I'm thinking of it more like if I crossed paths. Okay. Like, you know, when you're

02:58:39.180 walking on a hike and like a random person passes you and like, Oh, Hey, whatever. Like imagine if that

02:58:44.400 was a bear running towards you. So I think I would see it before I was right next to

02:58:49.120 it, but would it, would the answer still depend in that scenario? I mean, again, I was just

02:58:57.140 saying, I'm, I'm not afraid of either of them and I would probably choose a man that

02:59:01.960 I'd, yeah. Are you afraid of, uh, polar bears? No, I've never, uh, seen one. They're very aggressive.

02:59:12.360 I think, um, like naturally your fight or flight should kick in. If you see like a big,

02:59:17.300 scary. Well, if you see a polar bear, you're going to die. Or a brown bear. I could show you a picture

02:59:21.920 of a bear that was like 15 feet away from me. Honestly, if it was like a black bear and it was

02:59:26.160 like in the distance, I get it. But, um, I don't know if it depends. A message from the government

02:59:31.060 of Canada. Pastey George donated $200 and four cents. Can the female panelists who are helping

02:59:39.540 and giving hints on questions to the others, please stop. You're just proving that the others

02:59:45.140 can't use their own brains. No more sisterhood, ball poop. Yo, George, uh,

02:59:54.800 welcome George. You've been here for like two hours already, but, uh, thank you, man. Thank you

03:00:02.080 for the, uh, the mess. Were they, were they helping out? Yeah. They were helping out. Oh my goodness.

03:00:06.960 Not with me. I don't like to see the struggle. I want to see them struggle. I want to see the struggle.

03:00:12.980 I don't care if you don't know it. Let's sit here for the entire night and wait until one of them

03:00:17.780 answers. That makes me sad. I'm, I'm not being serious. I mean, I mean, I eventually came to you.

03:00:23.440 For a while. Well, it came to, but like, you're not kind of just derailing the show. If you guys

03:00:29.840 like give her the answer, cause I'm not looking for your answer. We were trying to like just hint.

03:00:33.580 Looking for her answer. She's nudging her. She doesn't need hint.

03:00:35.780 Can I answer the bear question? I need to, oh, you want to do the bear? I do want to answer the bear question.

03:00:40.420 Yeah, we'll, we'll do that. Um, we were doing. I have, I've just, oh, my bad. Where, were we going across?

03:00:46.300 Well, she was, I was talking to her cause she was like, it depends. No, I said, I said either

03:00:52.320 one is fine. I've run into bears on trails. I've run into men on trails. I'm afraid of

03:00:58.200 neither unless, I mean, obviously I don't want to get too close to a bear, but I'm not going

03:01:03.220 to, it's not going to spring on me and all of a sudden be right in front of my face.

03:01:06.640 Okay. Um, I did have one thing I wanted to just super quick while I was, we'll, we'll

03:01:15.160 come right back to the bear thing. I just overheard something while I'd stepped, stepped away.

03:01:20.420 You said like a guy's money doesn't matter at all to you. Like it wouldn't make him more

03:01:27.040 attractive. I don't have a minimum requirement standard. That is like, it doesn't make him

03:01:32.440 more or less attractive. Whether he makes $50,000 or $500,000. It's not like 50 million.

03:01:39.180 That's disgusting. It's disgusting. Well, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You know what?

03:01:45.480 If it hasn't changed him as a person. No, no. It's, I mean, I'm open to hearing you out.

03:01:49.540 What, why is it disgusting? $50 million annually? Close. Sorry. $50 million annually is just.

03:01:55.320 Or net worth, I guess. 35 year old, 50, 50 M net worth. I just can't, I can't

03:02:02.180 imagine that much money being like with one person. I, okay. I give back even with like

03:02:12.940 my income, which is not philanthropy. Well, what I'm saying is $50 million is almost like

03:02:19.140 sickening to think that you haven't given away. And I'm not, I'm not even a liberal. I'm not

03:02:26.100 like, you know, over here trying to say like, Oh, I hate rich people. It's not like that at

03:02:29.800 all, but I am not attracted to that. That's not something that I'm.

03:02:33.740 Why, but why would you assume that? I mean, many people who are wealthy, who have that level

03:02:38.560 of income, many of them do engage in philanthropy and do give money and donate. Why is the assumption

03:02:44.840 that they don't?

03:02:47.820 Because to have $50 million. Okay. Yeah. They might donate a little bit here and there, but

03:02:52.700 to have that much money. But okay. Well, um, I am coming from like, it would, it would just

03:03:00.840 to be clear, it would give you an ick if to, to date a guy who made 50 million versus a guy

03:03:07.420 who made 50,000. It's I'm, that's fine. If it's your position, is that your position?

03:03:13.800 Yeah. Kind of. Unless he was willing to help out a lot of causes that I currently help out.

03:03:20.440 So you said that you, you said that you donate or you, you give back.

03:03:26.540 So I shouldn't, especially right now because I am unemployed, but I'm currently fostering

03:03:33.340 three cats. I donate to rescues regularly. Um, what, one of them being my aunt's rescue.

03:03:39.900 I don't know if I'm allowed to name it, but she has like 50 cats in a barn setting and she

03:03:45.920 has a lot of land and she puts her entire income into this rescue. So that, and, and like obviously

03:03:52.760 living and her, her land costs, but, but I'm just saying like, so if I, 50 million is unimaginable

03:03:59.740 to me because I would have given it to something else. So having that much money just to be

03:04:04.460 gluttonous and like what, buy a Gucci bag, like it's, it's pathetic to me. So that's just my stance.

03:04:10.080 Really quick. Let's just come back to, you said you do philanthropy. So you, do you donate

03:04:14.700 to a charity or?

03:04:17.220 Uh, yes, I donate to different rescues and people that I know that do TNR, which is trap

03:04:22.220 neuter return, um, all over Los Angeles. Uh, I don't know if I'm allowed to shout out.

03:04:27.860 How much in the past three years, how much would you say you've donated?

03:04:30.760 Um, that's a good question. Well, are you saying monetary donations or cause I, I typically donate

03:04:40.900 through food. So I buy from my local place. I'll buy like $300 worth of food and tell her

03:04:46.920 to come pick it up because I want to support my local businesses, my local pet shops.

03:04:52.900 Okay. So you will buy food for the rescue and also donate money. I'll, I'll Venmo different

03:04:59.420 people. Uh, okay. Um, and I, and I don't make a ton of money, but I'm just saying if I had

03:05:07.160 $50 million, it would be going towards better. What, what was the language you used though?

03:05:13.320 You said it was, it was disgusting or was it gross or what? I'm trying to remember exactly

03:05:17.580 what you said. I might've said gross, gross. It's gross to have 50 million. What, why is

03:05:23.420 that? It's, I don't know. It's just, it's just, are you anti, are you anti? No, I'm not

03:05:29.580 at all. Not at all. Then how do you, how do you reconcile? I just couldn't live with myself

03:05:34.820 with $50 million. I couldn't live with your, no, you do realize though, if you did have

03:05:39.940 50 million, there's so many things that causes that need money. And I'm a huge cat lover, huge

03:05:45.200 animal lover. So like different, um, uh, causes that I, yeah. Well, I mean, wouldn't it logically

03:05:56.360 rehabilitation and rescues and can you allow me to just, it sounded like there was a period

03:06:02.700 there. I started my sentence. I'd appreciate if you let me finish my sentence. So if you

03:06:10.380 had $50 million, you could, hell, if you were so inclined, you could give 40 million of that

03:06:18.000 to the charities of your choice. But what is the grossness or objection to the 50 million?

03:06:26.360 I don't understand. Meeting somebody with that much money who hasn't like, you would judge

03:06:32.300 them. If they hold onto their money, they're, are they evil? What are they? I don't know.

03:06:40.740 How's it, why is it greed? I don't think it's greed because, um, and I do understand where

03:06:44.820 you're coming from. I don't know if you've ever grown up. I don't know if you've ever grown

03:06:49.240 up around wealthy people. I was blessed. My father was a very, very hardworking man. He came

03:06:53.900 from nothing. At some point he was making a couple million a month. He was, I'm not even

03:06:58.860 trying to glaze my dad, but he was extremely generous to not only his children and his wife,

03:07:04.680 but to the people around him, to his employees, you know, and I'm not trying to, um, say that

03:07:10.580 your opinion is wrong, but I think that you unfortunately just weren't able to experience

03:07:15.080 the good side or the good people who are wealthy. I also know a lawyer who tips every time he comes in

03:07:21.040 to a restaurant, he tips the server a hundred dollars, tips the hostess at least 2050. You know, I,

03:07:27.480 I don't know, and I'm sorry that you've never experienced that, but in just my experience,

03:07:33.160 wealthy people can be extremely generous, even more so than people who are not at that level,

03:07:38.520 you know, but I just encourage you to maybe like open up that a little bit because you can also be

03:07:43.540 wealthy too. You can help out people. There's nothing stopping you, but I think just having that

03:07:48.540 mindset that, oh, wealthy people are greedy and they're gluttonous, and I think that's not only gonna

03:07:53.760 kind of make this, it's gonna give you this animosity towards them, it's gonna stop you

03:08:00.320 from ever growing as well, but that's just what I think, and I, I love it when you said in the

03:08:05.220 beginning of the show that if you already have something in you to be able to be the bad person

03:08:12.460 you can be with a lot of money, that will bring it out when you get a lot of money, and I think

03:08:17.920 if you have experience with, with that, it's probably been with people like that. Oh my god,

03:08:24.780 you guys are being way too fucking nice with her. So just to be clear, you would date, you would date,

03:08:29.800 boy, if presented with two options of men you could date, and they're both the same, they're both

03:08:36.500 the same, but one makes $50,000 a year, the other makes $5 million a year, you pick the guy who makes

03:08:42.940 $50,000. Um, again, it's, it's, it's not like these random scenarios are... Do you want to answer

03:08:56.100 the question and then give your explanation? Um, I don't know which one I would choose. I've never

03:09:02.540 thought about it, okay? But you just said money gross, money bad. No, but I, what I'm saying is

03:09:07.460 somebody who's amassed $50 million and is just like sitting on this pile of wealth for... Well,

03:09:12.640 most, hold on, most people who have like a 50M net worth, it's not liquid, it's like in, it's in

03:09:18.420 stocks, and it's in their business, and it's in real estate, and all this stuff. I mean, maybe it

03:09:24.120 could, there's probably, there's certainly people who have 50M liquid, but I don't, okay. I just think

03:09:30.100 that the personality of the guy making $50,000 would align more with my personality. Assume the

03:09:35.620 personality is the same. Or, that's a really difficult... Or, the, the rich guy has a better

03:09:42.300 personality than the guy who makes less. Then that's all that matters. So you go the rich guy...

03:09:47.500 I go with the person that I fall in love with, Brian. That's what you're not understanding. I

03:09:51.040 don't care how much somebody makes. If I fall in love with you, that's... And I don't fall in love

03:09:56.380 with you because of money. That's it. Like, it doesn't, it doesn't come into my mind, like, how much

03:10:02.720 money do you make? Like, I've never asked that to anybody. I think it's a bit of a virtue signal.

03:10:09.460 I mean, I understand that it's maybe low, like, you don't, you'll date a guy, and you can have a

03:10:17.860 great relationship with a guy who doesn't have a lot of money. That's absolutely plausible. But this

03:10:22.940 idea that once a guy starts earning a lot of money, that then, then he goes into a territory of,

03:10:30.560 like, less desirable as he starts making more money. That's kind of odd to me. And this, I,

03:10:36.780 like, I think about a guy... He could. He could. I'm not saying that it happens every time.

03:10:42.100 But a guy who makes, who's wealthy or well-off, and that might not be $5 million a year. Maybe it's

03:10:48.820 $200,000, $300,000 a year. That's really, that's a really great income. And you can live a really good

03:10:56.080 life off of that. Uh, I don't know. It just seems... Why would it be a negative, though? I don't,

03:11:05.000 I don't know. That seems odd to me.

03:11:06.520 $200,000, $300,000 is not the same as having $50 million. Well, I could go higher, then. Okay,

03:11:15.120 he's a billionaire. You wouldn't date a billionaire? I haven't thought about it. I haven't given it any

03:11:23.080 thought. You can think about it right now. But if he, if he wants to, uh, help out cat rescues...

03:11:30.520 How about, here's an interesting question for you. Uh, you love him. He loves you. But there's

03:11:37.840 one sticking point. He's got a lot of wealth. But he's like, you know, I've got all this money.

03:11:45.040 I'm not going to donate any of it, though. He's just, you know, I want to provide for you,

03:11:49.960 for the family, and I don't want to donate any of it.

03:11:52.040 So what, what is it for? What is it all for? No, that's what I, that's what I ask people,

03:11:55.700 like, okay. Hopefully your, your children and the future children and the generations and

03:12:00.860 generations and generational wealth. I don't, that's not what I, that's not, that's not something

03:12:05.300 that I aim for. You don't, hold on. Not aiming for generational wealth. No, I don't. Great,

03:12:10.560 great, great grandkids. Wow. That seems a bit dysfunctional. I want them to, I want them to,

03:12:14.900 no, I want them to, um, grow up in a similar way that I have. I want them to, um. Wait,

03:12:23.980 wait, didn't you say you were like a, like had, I don't, I don't want to say the word abused,

03:12:28.100 but you said you had really bad experiences with like your female. Oh, no, I don't have great

03:12:34.060 female. Yeah. But you want them to, you want your kids to grow up how you grow up? No, yeah. Well,

03:12:39.020 but being abused by the females in the family? I was not abused whatsoever. Okay. You were mistreated.

03:12:43.260 You were maltreated. I was, I was not abused whatsoever. Um, I like my dad has money, but he didn't,

03:12:48.700 he never gave me money and it was never, no. So what I'm saying is, well, was that bad or was

03:12:55.660 that good? It was great. It was great. I was taught so many lessons. I, I, yeah. But I think

03:13:02.060 even if you're obscenely wealthy, you can still like, I mean, if, if I fell into like vast amounts

03:13:07.620 of wealth, uh, or, you know, I, I'm currently doing fairly well, but I mean, not, not super crazy,

03:13:14.080 not five M or not fucking 10 M 50 M a year. Uh, I don't want to give my children the impression

03:13:21.140 that like, we're insanely rich. Yeah. I want to raise my kids very modestly. Yeah. I want

03:13:26.620 them to struggle a little bit. I want them to work at 16. Like I did. I want them, I want

03:13:30.440 the, I want them to have a comfortable life and think, well, hold on. Comfortable life is

03:13:34.660 not 300,000 or two, 5 million. I want their needs to be taken care of. And if there's something

03:13:39.940 that they need, then it can be taken care of. And I want, you know, a good home and

03:13:44.880 you know, we, we can have a certain leisure activities and stuff, but like, I don't ever,

03:13:50.820 they're not going to be wearing like fucking bling to school and shit. No, like I want them

03:13:55.820 to, I want, I would want my children to have like some degree of modesty to them. So I don't

03:14:01.820 want them to think I'm not going to like instill in them really anything about money in terms

03:14:07.460 of them having like a big head about the family money. Yeah. Well, I want to have money so

03:14:13.760 that I can provide security for my children. When I say security, I just, I don't mean

03:14:18.800 like a security guard, bodyguard. Um, I mean, just having a safe place. Yeah. Have a nice

03:14:24.240 home and take care of necessities and this sort of thing. But you can teach your kids values

03:14:31.220 with money, even though your parents have it. Thank you. Thank you. You can, you can

03:14:35.820 still give the, your, your children that sort of upbringing, even if you're obscenely wealthy,

03:14:42.120 maybe you can hide that shit a little bit. You don't let on to them. I'm a billionaire,

03:14:47.200 blah, blah, blah. You can be like, look, we're doing good. You want a bike. I'll get you a

03:14:51.440 bike. You know, let me give you an example of a billionaire. You can still raise them in a

03:14:55.760 modest way. If that makes sense. Go ahead. Elon Musk. You think he's a good dad? You think

03:15:00.740 he's spending time with his children? Because no, he's right. He's, he's in the companies

03:15:05.120 way more. He's building his companies and not his children or their values or anything. And

03:15:10.140 most of them despise him. And that is what wealth. You might think, oh, it's everything. No. Spending

03:15:16.900 time with your family is spending time with your wife and having love between the two of you. And

03:15:22.800 like, that's, what's important. And I don't know. I will tell you this. I don't know if you have

03:15:28.700 experienced the lowest of the low. I have also experienced that. And I, I, I think when you do,

03:15:34.920 you will realize how important wealth is. Wealth is everything, especially in America. You cannot

03:15:40.940 get, there's wealth is security. Wealth is respect. You know, again, I don't know if you've ever

03:15:46.900 experienced the complete opposite side to wealth, but I, I am telling you, you know, it is very

03:15:52.980 important. And I would never, um, my, in my opinion, I would want my kids to be comfortable,

03:15:57.860 not spoiled, but comfortable. I don't want them to have to worry about, you know, I want them to

03:16:03.180 have the best schooling. I want them to have all that stuff. It's luxury to have the time to give

03:16:07.840 it to your kids. And if you don't have the wealth, you don't have the time to give them.

03:16:11.440 So to answer your question, you brought up Elon Musk. I don't look, this guy is a very unique,

03:16:17.320 he has a very unique dynamic. I don't think it's really fair to use him as like the go-to example

03:16:23.400 of a billionaire. He has like four or five, six baby mamas. He's like doing like a, uh,

03:16:31.520 like he's trying to, I don't know if it's like clan building where, I mean, he, he wants to impregnate

03:16:35.960 multiple women. That's kind of out of the norm. Do you, does he, he had, look, I think there,

03:16:44.280 there probably reaches a point when you have so many different children with a different

03:16:47.980 mothers and you have, you're operating as like the CEO of like three, four different,

03:16:55.040 like multi-billion dollar companies probably doesn't have a lot of time to be involved.

03:17:01.820 Um, do you know any billionaire children?

03:17:05.960 And how well they were raised by their, I don't know if I've met a billionaire. I don't know what,

03:17:09.820 so I'm, but I'm saying like children of billionaires, like have their parents aren't

03:17:16.040 the best. Well then we, hold on. I don't know if that's even true, but, and by the way,

03:17:22.900 there's very few billionaires, uh, to begin with, but you, you say, I feel like probably

03:17:29.360 Elon Musk's children. Look, I don't know the dynamics in terms of like the degree to which he's

03:17:35.240 financially contributing to their lives or whatever. I don't, I don't know if that's

03:17:39.100 ever been investigated. Who knows what the dynamics are. Um, the, his children are probably

03:17:45.920 well off. Uh, so I, I think one of his children is a bit of a interesting one, but, um, wealthy

03:17:54.160 people are just like normal people. I know, I know people that come from so much money and

03:18:00.740 you would have no idea. Their family life is just like everyone else's. There's not, it's not like

03:18:05.660 once you hit a certain amount, you're like a horrible person, a bad parent and like absent,

03:18:11.060 obviously like every parent has their work life and their home life, but it's not like

03:18:16.900 people that are children's of like multimillionaires are like more neglected or whatever,

03:18:23.200 just because their parent makes a lot of money.

03:18:26.680 I mean, is there an experience you've gone through? I grew up in Calabasas and you found

03:18:33.280 that your parents weren't there? No, no, no, no, no. I'm not talking about me. Like I, I had a,

03:18:38.680 I had a great upbringing. I'm just talking about like, who said that wealthy people don't donate?

03:18:45.000 No. Where did that idea come from? I'm, what I'm saying is that when you raise your children

03:18:50.480 with a certain amount of money, they come out toxic, delusional, and, uh, not all, not every

03:18:58.900 time. If you raise them with money, if you draw money at them instead of being their parent. Yes.

03:19:04.700 And drug addictions. How do you know this? Can you tilt your mic down? I've, I have, I'm close with a lot

03:19:10.220 of people that come from families that make a lot of money. And none of them have drug addictions or

03:19:15.020 alcohol addictions. Why would they have drug addictions? Um, because they can afford cocaine.

03:19:20.360 What? No, they, they don't, he's not like taking his parents' money and buying coke.

03:19:24.780 Some of the wealthiest people I met again were the most well-behaved and I'm talking people who

03:19:28.760 came from old money. And they go, they like have, they go to schools like Montessori and stuff where

03:19:32.240 they have to learn etiquette and manners in class. Some of them are better behaved again than people

03:19:36.760 who bash on them. It's super simple. Uh, yes. Uh, people from, uh, an affluent background can turn out bad.

03:19:45.020 People who grew up poor can turn out really good, but they can also turn out bad. And then, uh,

03:19:52.380 people who grew up rich also can turn out just fine and be, so I don't think it's like the ultimate

03:19:58.740 determining factor, but I mean, I do think wealth confers a lot of privileges and benefits that would

03:20:04.860 maybe make it more likely, I think, to actually turn out good. Um, not, not necessarily, it's not like

03:20:11.480 a guarantee, but I think, you know, if you go to like private school or you have certain benefits

03:20:18.660 like that, or the mom can stay home and she, you know, if the guy, the man's just super wealthy,

03:20:25.800 the, the mother can just stay at home, stay at home. Mom doesn't have to work. I think being a

03:20:33.040 stay at home mom is the, not to say that, you know, if both parents work, not to say that the kid's

03:20:38.640 going to turn out to be some fucking murder or criminal, I think the best result that you can

03:20:43.640 have for children is a mother at home. If you have, so do you agree with that? I completely agree

03:20:48.960 with that. My sister is one of those. And you know what? Her husband doesn't make millions of

03:20:52.640 dollars and they're perfectly there. Some of the happiest couples I know are the ones that are not

03:20:59.280 rich. Okay. That's fine. But like the economic and financial reality is in order to enable one

03:21:06.380 person, look, whether it's the man or the woman in order and tip though, typically the typical

03:21:11.440 dynamic is the woman stays home in order to enable that the man has to make a certain amount of income

03:21:16.500 for that to be possible. Now there's another component. You can, you know, reduce your lifestyle,

03:21:23.440 reduce those sorts of things. Okay. Well, we're going to have just one car and we're going to live

03:21:27.740 in this neighborhood and we're going to live in this state and we're not going to go on vacation.

03:21:31.220 You can, you know, you can do some flexibility there if the guy is in a massively high earner,

03:21:35.880 but if the guy is a high earner, then you can have pretty much all of that. And the wife can stay at

03:21:41.220 home. I guess my confusion here is if you acknowledge that the best thing for the children

03:21:45.580 is to have one of the parents stay at home, why wouldn't you date the guy who makes 50 M when you

03:21:52.200 definitely don't have to work then? I, that's just, it's just not something that I am interested in.

03:22:02.200 I don't know. I don't know what else to say. I don't want to raise my kids with $50 million,

03:22:05.420 even though it's security for both of you. So just, yeah, yeah, exactly. Then my husband also

03:22:09.380 wouldn't work. If we had $50 million, then we just, you know, probably wouldn't. Yeah. I mean,

03:22:13.040 if he's, let's say, I mean, maybe he wants to work though. And he, you know, um, let's just say he's

03:22:19.500 the, the wealth is at a level where he, he's like, well, I don't want to retire. Uh, but he makes a lot

03:22:26.260 of money. I don't know. I'm just confused. Like, so you would rather like hustle and struggle and have

03:22:34.120 a husband and perhaps even yourself that are going to have to work until retirement age or post

03:22:40.280 retirement age versus assuming some in this hypothetical, a guy who makes $10 million a

03:22:48.920 year, you wouldn't take that. Um, I just don't see that those people being the same kind of person.

03:22:59.080 That's all I'm saying. Okay. So here I'll, I'll ask it super simply two options. Yes. You could date a

03:23:05.240 guy and he's a good guy, treats you well, whatever you're attracted to him. Uh, he makes 10,

03:23:10.260 million dollars a year guy. Number one. And an entailment of that is you don't have to work.

03:23:17.080 He's like, look, I'm making good money. I just, you don't have to work. I'll retire you. Just take

03:23:23.860 care of the kids, take care of the household, take care of the family, whatever. And that 10 million a

03:23:27.840 year, look, you guys can, but is he absent all the time? Let's just say this. Um, I don't know. Uh,

03:23:34.320 he, he, um, he works, what's the average 40 hours a week is the average. All right. I'll put it at 50

03:23:42.500 hours just because, um, you know, he's a 10 million a year. Yeah. He's working, he's working above

03:23:49.120 average. He's working 50 hours a week. Uh, option number two, he makes $50,000 a year. And in order,

03:24:02.640 or the financial reality of living in California or wherever you want to live, whatever, that's

03:24:07.080 kind of secondary, you're going to have to work too. You're both going to have to work for the

03:24:10.560 rest of your lives. Which, which man do you pick? And he's good and he, he treats you well and blah,

03:24:15.260 blah, blah. Oh my God. I would probably pick the guy that makes, you said 5 million or 10,

03:24:22.040 $10 million a year? I think 10 million, 10 million. I would probably pick that because I don't want

03:24:27.900 to work when I have young children. Then what the fuck are we arguing about? Hello? I just,

03:24:34.320 I'm just saying that I don't discriminate. I don't discriminate based on how much money you make. I

03:24:42.460 don't ask questions of how much money do you make or Google what their job is or, you know, I don't

03:24:47.720 care. That's what I'm, that's my only point. I don't know why we're stuck on this. Well, no, but it,

03:24:52.720 it got to a point where there, it wasn't just, look, if he makes 50, I understand that you'll date

03:24:59.400 a guy who doesn't make a lot of money. That's totally fine. I have no qualms there, but then

03:25:04.100 it got into this conversation about I, it's icky. Like somebody sitting on 50, if somebody has a lot of

03:25:13.000 money, that's kind of icky. I would perhaps, I understand you don't care about it, but it's

03:25:19.320 kind of like, I don't understand why you wouldn't just take it. Like, okay, two guys, they're

03:25:27.700 equivalent. One makes $50,000 a year. One makes $10 million. Like they're never the same person.

03:25:32.680 The benefit though, the benefit that it would extend to you for a guy to be that wealthy.

03:25:38.700 It's just, you could have a maid, you could have a private chef, all your expenses are,

03:25:46.020 you'll never have to worry about money in your life again. People's number one stressors in life

03:25:51.860 is like job and money. And I got to pay the rent and my fucking healthcare, everything you date a

03:25:57.360 guy, you marry a guy who makes 10 M you're good for life. All that stress is gone. You can stop

03:26:04.620 working and go. And she won't take it. I don't under, whatever. Take care of the cats you wanted

03:26:08.240 to take care of. No, but when you're, but when, when you're working, it builds character and it

03:26:14.080 also. No, it doesn't. You're a slave for some bullshit corporation. Working sucks. It kind of

03:26:18.520 reminds me of, you know, like the little princess that wants to go out to see like. Dude, I've had,

03:26:22.520 I've had so much. I've traveled a ton and I've had a lot of different jobs and I've seen a lot of

03:26:28.000 things. I've done a lot of things. You're acting like I'm some immature. You want to struggle.

03:26:32.000 Basically. I mean, it's sadism or no, sorry. Masochism. My bad. No, but also it's not that

03:26:38.820 I want to struggle. I don't think work is a struggle. You just said it's a job and it's

03:26:42.760 discriminate. And then you're saying that people that make that are high earners are like bad

03:26:47.540 people. I'm not saying that they're all bad. That's not what I'm implied. I said the chances

03:26:54.440 of your children being for lack of a better term effed up is if you're a billionaire, it's,

03:27:04.880 it's higher than you would think. Well, what about just like, uh, instead of going extreme

03:27:09.700 with billionaire, what about just like a guy who makes like five, five M a year? Are your,

03:27:16.260 are your chances of being fucked up higher? If your father makes that much money?

03:27:23.580 I, I, I don't know, but wouldn't that be an extension of

03:27:27.460 is there more money, more problems? Oh my God. I it's, it's completely backwards. Your chances.

03:27:36.160 I are. I think you think that, but what I've witnessed and what I've seen through my lifetime

03:27:42.140 leads me to believe that when you raise your children to be entitled and rich and whatever,

03:27:50.340 they end up. These virtues can hold on. These virtues can be instilled in children regardless

03:27:57.380 of your wealth. Yeah. It's not the money. It's the parents. Yep. For sure. If you're, yeah. If you

03:28:02.420 spoil your kids, then yeah, sure. I guess, but that's just not what I want. Yeah. You got kids running

03:28:07.120 around shooting each other in the hood. It doesn't make a difference. Like that's a good point. Like

03:28:11.420 it seems like there's maybe a bit more crime and in like neighborhoods where the socioeconomics

03:28:17.680 are not that great. My ideal situation, let me just like put it into perspective a little

03:28:22.480 bit. Like are there gang bangers in Montecito? Ideally. Like, no, there's fucking gang bangers

03:28:27.440 in Compton though, or wherever the fuck there's a bunch of gang. And these are typically like

03:28:31.260 the, you look at the socioeconomics of the neighborhoods where there's gang banging. It's not a bunch of

03:28:36.580 affluent, you know, blah, blah, like it's not an affluent neighborhood. I understand. Ideally,

03:28:42.840 I want to like live on a ranch, have some kids. You're going to live on a, where? Yes.

03:28:47.640 Yes. In California. No, not in California. I told you, I don't intend on staying here. You're going to live in a fucking ranch? Do you know how expensive?

03:28:53.900 Ranchers are fucking expensive. Do you want some horses? Oh my gosh. Do you know how much animals cost? Horses are so expensive. Wait, it's just, I think it's so.

03:29:06.980 They're expensive everywhere. Yeah. The best thing you can get to your kids is like race car or a horse because they will never have enough time or money to do anything else that is stupid.

03:29:16.100 I think you really need to check your privilege. Check your privilege. I think that's what it is. I, I'm not trying to bash you for being well, again, like I, I've been there. I've done that. I've lived many lives, but you, I think you seriously need to experience what it is like to be the average man or woman working for $20 an hour. I think you really need to experience that before you go around saying that, oh, like, you know, all people who are rich.

03:29:45.640 You think I haven't done that? I've been a server. You haven't been low enough to be thankful of getting the millions. Okay. Anyway, I'm moving on.

03:29:54.760 Just, I guess, final thing on this. You say that you think it's more likely that these kids are going to be dysfunctional if they grow up in a household where the parents are affluent. I think that's completely backwards. I think when you have money that provides certain privileges and benefits for children.

03:30:11.400 And look, it's, it's certainly possible that, yes, maybe the kids could be spoiled. Maybe they have some sort of entitlement. I think that that can be combated against by not spoiling them, by teaching them virtue, by teaching them modesty. Yes, you know, we're, uh, father does well, but there's, there's other things besides wealth that are important.

03:30:31.080 Again, cultivate virtue and a wealthy father can teach their kids that also it confers a ton of benefits. Your wife can stay home and take care of the kids. You can send them to the best schools. They can have, uh, you know, great doctors.

03:30:47.080 Doctors that they can have their healthcare needs taken care of. They can have all these things that set them up to become the best person. Maybe you get them involved in sports and they can have like a personal trainer or they can have like a private, uh, it's not a private what in sports, like a private trainer. I don't know what it would be. Um, you can really set up your kids, uh, in life with money in a way that's not going to make them like these spoiled brats, basically.

03:31:17.080 And, and, and you can, not only that your own life can be extremely comfortable. So I don't know this, this defaulting to, oh, well, if you're wealthy, your kids are going to grow up and be worse off. What? That just doesn't know. I, aside from health privilege, like having good health, I think that's the best privilege you can have.

03:31:40.920 Like if, if, if you are born and you have a bunch of health problems and you're born into a wealthy family, I mean, better than to be, have health problems and be born poor. But, uh, if you are otherwise healthy and you're born into a wealthy family, that's the biggest privilege you can have.

03:31:58.540 That's going to set you up the best in life to, you know, have a good trajectory in your own life. It's one, it's the number one privilege, but you don't seem to think so. You seem to think it's a negative. That's interesting.

03:32:14.340 My point is that I don't want to raise my kids with $50 million. I'm not looking to be uber wealthy or, and I'm not trying to date a millionaire. I don't know why this whole conversation is so controversial for you guys. I, it's not, it was not meant to be. It's just not what I'm looking for. I prefer like a more modest life.

03:32:37.100 So you think that money makes people who they are?

03:32:41.280 No, not necessarily, but it can absolutely corrupt you. I just, can we move on?

03:32:47.480 Yeah. I want to move on again. We, we are acknowledging that you'll date a guy who makes 50 K. We, we understand that. But if the option presents itself to date a guy who makes 50 M.

03:33:01.700 Okay. I guess we'll leave it at that. We have a message from Pacey George here.

03:33:07.100 A message from the government of Canada.

03:33:11.780 Pacey George donated $200 and four cents. I'm a millionaire and I'm having a hard time understanding how having so much money can be gross as you just put it. Please enlighten me.

03:33:23.920 I think we just talked about this, but if you want to answer, you can. Laura.

03:33:32.240 Yeah, I know. I heard you. Um, I think, I think I already touched on it. Yeah.

03:33:37.420 Um, we already talked about that. Um, let's go back to, I didn't finish the bear question. So to you.

03:33:45.680 Okay. Um, so, um, I live in New York and where I live, like the black bears are pussies. So if it was one of those bears, yes.

03:33:54.100 But you don't get to pick.

03:33:55.040 Okay. So it would, I want to say man and I'm working on saying man, but I have to admit just because of some prejudices I have from stuff I've been through, I, I would, I guess I would say man, even though it's hard for me, but man.

03:34:08.240 Why is it hard for you?

03:34:09.540 Um, I didn't meet my father until he was nine and he was a real prick. So like every, like I was dreaming of meeting him and then he was awful for 10 years.

03:34:17.360 And I, I realized that this year for the first time that I don't trust men, but it's not them. It's me not letting them in. So, so you think that, like, what do you, I guess, how does that relate to the bear question?

03:34:30.400 I'm very intimidated by men, men. That's why.

03:34:34.740 Why? Because you think they're going to hurt you?

03:34:36.360 Yeah. Because for a long time they, that's all they did. But like I said, uh, I'm working on it cause I realized that, oh wait, this is me. Cause that was a long time ago.

03:34:45.100 So, yeah, I understand. But also like, I feel like if we replaced every man, they'd walk by on the sidewalk with a random bear, black, brown, polar bear.

03:34:56.700 That's it. And like, we don't have grizzly bears. So I've never even seen how crazy those guys get. So.

03:35:01.220 Yeah. Okay. Next.

03:35:04.060 A man.

03:35:06.040 Oh, really?

03:35:07.800 Next.

03:35:08.920 A man.

03:35:10.220 Okay.

03:35:10.520 Well, I guess, um, you two were the only ones that were like, uh, maybe like on the fence, but you did both say man.

03:35:19.540 Yeah.

03:35:20.960 Okay.

03:35:21.960 Let me, should I ask the questionnaire questions, Brian?

03:35:30.800 No, I don't have any more. I already asked all my silly questions.

03:35:34.320 Okay. Um, men should pay on first dates. You agree?

03:35:44.000 I agree. I'm traditional.

03:35:45.800 Okay. And you agree.

03:35:48.960 Who agrees? Who agrees? Who agrees?

03:35:50.920 Yes.

03:35:51.400 You agree? You agree? You agree? No? Okay. You agree?

03:35:55.000 Mm-hmm.

03:35:55.600 Okay. You agree?

03:35:58.060 I'm just going to keep going.

03:35:59.180 Um, okay. Men should provide and protect.

03:36:02.820 Yes.

03:36:03.420 Yes.

03:36:03.640 I agree.

03:36:03.980 Yes.

03:36:06.340 Uh, men should be chivalrous.

03:36:08.040 Yes.

03:36:08.320 Yes.

03:36:08.500 I agree.

03:36:09.080 Everyone agrees.

03:36:11.140 Um, I will keep my last name or hyphenate in marriage.

03:36:17.220 No.

03:36:18.040 Not sure.

03:36:19.960 Why? Why are you not sure?

03:36:21.420 Um, I mean, it depends who this guy is going to be, like what their last name is. Um, if

03:36:28.340 I'd rather keep mine or not involved. So I like my last name and I have a problem with

03:36:34.400 it. Yeah. Well, you, you said you think men should pay on first dates. Basically like

03:36:39.760 you, you believe that men should be more traditional, right? But I think, uh, taking

03:36:44.880 your husband's last name is traditional. Yeah. So it's kind of like hypocritical.

03:36:51.420 I think it's kind of ridiculous to not, um, take his last name. If you're expecting him

03:36:56.620 to be more traditional, like if you're not willing to be traditional, why should he be

03:37:00.500 traditional?

03:37:01.200 No, I mean, I definitely more than likely would, but I like my last name because I've

03:37:05.500 also built my own, you know, reputation brand around it. So that's my reason.

03:37:11.760 Okay. But do you think he would get offended? Like, I feel like most men, they would be,

03:37:15.820 or not most, but some men would be offended if they were like, my wife doesn't want my

03:37:19.700 last name. I guess it's, uh, in Hispanic cultures, it's pretty common. Like they'll

03:37:23.940 keep. Oh, that's true. Okay. Yeah. And then you also agreed that you would keep your last

03:37:28.880 name. I will take you. You'll take it. Anyone else want to keep their name? No. You were the

03:37:35.300 only one. Uh, past should not matter. It absolutely should matter. Yeah. I think it depends. Like

03:37:43.340 if you have been like, you like believe you've been redeemed and you're doing better in life,

03:37:47.560 then it's like, yeah, like every saint has a past, every sinner has a future type stuff. But if you're

03:37:51.980 still actively being detrimental to yourself, then yeah, it definitely matters. And I think if you're

03:37:58.100 with somebody, your partner should know because they should be able to decide, you know?

03:38:02.060 Oh, I think you shouldn't ask questions you don't want answers to because it's going to matter.

03:38:06.800 So don't ask if you don't want to know it. Like with body counts. What do you, so you guys didn't

03:38:11.900 answer. Do you think past should matter? Yeah. No, I did. I answered on the question. And you too?

03:38:16.740 Yeah. Yeah. So you were the only one that said like, it depends. Yeah. Like if you're still actively

03:38:21.840 harming yourself and harming others around you, then your past is really important because that's

03:38:27.800 like, you're still actively living it. But if you've trying to be a better person, then like, I do still

03:38:32.720 think you should share it with your partner because if it comes out later about all of

03:38:36.820 this and you're already committed or been around for a long time or been married, like

03:38:40.820 it's just going to cause more problems. I agree. I think people can change, but I have another

03:38:46.400 question. Would you ever, well, you're married, but let's say in this hypothetical you're not,

03:38:52.060 would you ever date someone that, or a man that used to have sex with men?

03:38:55.700 I think it would depend on if he, um, so like I am a Christian and if he thought that like,

03:39:05.520 okay, I'm born again and I'm no longer this way and then yes. But if he didn't have like

03:39:11.220 the right motivations, like I, well, you're not, I don't want to say the right motivations,

03:39:14.180 but like I just, in that situation, I'd be a little bit more trusting that he's not going

03:39:18.580 to go back to men on me, you know? But I think, I think if I just met him and he was like, oh,

03:39:23.940 by the way, like a month ago I dated men, I'd be like, no, because men always pick men if they

03:39:29.380 can, I think so. Men always pick men? Like, it was just something like my friends would say growing

03:39:34.820 up. Yeah, I'm interested, like what does that mean? Like we would just joke around growing up,

03:39:37.840 like, um, anybody I knew, like all my friends who were gay, they'd be like, they'd say I'm bi,

03:39:41.720 but not really. Like if I could pick a man, I'd pick a man. Oh. Yeah. I've never heard of that.

03:39:47.160 Interesting. So I guess your answer's kind of following like the it depends. Okay. Um,

03:39:52.820 women put in more effort when it comes to dating. Do you agree? No, I don't agree. Do you agree?

03:40:00.160 Yep. I think I said not necessarily. I think it's very even. What do you guys think? I don't agree

03:40:08.180 that women put in more effort. I don't think so. I've been dated in a long time, so I don't really

03:40:13.320 know, but yeah, I don't think so. I think I said yes. And you? I don't really know. So for those who

03:40:19.720 said yes, why do you think that? It depends, but with the beginning of dating, the woman usually

03:40:29.380 does everything before the date. It's like you're shaving your legs, you're doing your makeup,

03:40:34.380 you're doing your hair, you're picking clothes, and men have the easy road to just get their clothes

03:40:41.280 off. To wake up. To wake up. Hopefully pick you up and pay. Yeah, but I think paying requires effort,

03:40:48.400 right? Like they have to work for that money, and I don't know how much they make if they work just

03:40:54.100 like a regular job. However, like say you're going on like a hundred dollar date, and the guy makes

03:41:00.240 like twenty dollars an hour, he's gonna have to work four hours or more, whatever, to pay for that.

03:41:06.360 But I think I don't necessarily need a date like that. You can plan something that I agree, go and

03:41:12.980 walk out in a park or something, and I'm still gonna give my all to like look perfect. And this is

03:41:18.340 just like a personal question of mine. It's not on the questionnaire. What do you guys think like when

03:41:22.260 a guy wants to take you somewhere super fancy for the first date, like really expensive? I used to

03:41:29.540 like if my... Do you like it? Oh yeah, of course. Who doesn't like to be treated that way? But I would

03:41:35.240 always, if I went on a date and the guy like insisted on paying, I always paid the tip at least. But like

03:41:40.000 let's say it's a place where it's like $800. Oh, and it's like a first date? Yeah, first date. I'd be like no,

03:41:46.160 can we not? Too much pressure. What do you guys think? I think that they're trying to impress, or that's

03:41:50.540 just what they're used to. Like that's the lifestyle they're used to. I'd be like can we go to a diner

03:41:54.620 instead? You really have to hear and see how this person is. Because I do know that a lot of men will

03:42:00.260 do this to try and get you in their bed quicker. So I'm not saying that all men who do that, no

03:42:05.580 absolutely not. But I think you have to be very attentive of people who do this, who just throw

03:42:11.420 money. Some people are generous, but also an equal amount can expect something. So yeah, you always

03:42:19.360 got to be a little bit careful because nothing is necessarily free. That happened to me one time,

03:42:23.740 this guy that was just my friend, he was like, do you want to go to Nobu? And I felt really

03:42:29.180 uncomfortable. I was like, I don't want to go to Nobu. That's why I wanted to ask because I've heard

03:42:33.240 girls say that they would like that and they want to be wined and dined and all that. But I would

03:42:38.160 prefer like a regular place. I don't think you should ever. If somebody offers you and you know,

03:42:43.220 oh wait, were you dating this person? No, no. So he was like a friend and he was like, oh,

03:42:46.880 I'm interested in you. Do you want to go to Nobu? And I was like, no, I don't want to go to Nobu.

03:42:50.880 Well, I mean, I think if anything, if this helps, that means he definitely sees you in a very high

03:42:55.460 light, you know? So if he's been friends with you for a while and he's like, let me take you to Nobu,

03:42:59.740 but you still need to be careful, you know? I think it's easier. Like, like I knew I was not

03:43:03.960 going to sleep with any man, you know, like, cause I was waiting. So like that made it easier. Cause

03:43:07.420 like, yeah, you can take me there, but you're not taking me home, you know? Yeah. Okay. Next

03:43:13.480 question. Dating is our statement. Dating is harder for women who agrees or disagrees. You think

03:43:19.820 dating is harder for women? No. I'm sure. I mean, from my perspective, yes. But why? Why

03:43:28.580 do you say yes? Just especially men in LA, they're just very, they are different than what

03:43:34.940 I'm used to. I'm not even from LA. I'm from St. Louis, like a smaller town. So they're definitely

03:43:41.360 more so into like open relationships, not monogamy. Like they're not poly. It's just

03:43:49.560 crazy. Yeah. No. So many poly situationships. I have friends and I'm like, oh, we're poly

03:43:54.500 now. And I'm like, yeah. Oh, great. Like I'm not. And then like a year later, their marriage

03:43:58.960 falls apart. Like breaking up soon. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. We're cheating on each other. It's

03:44:04.360 fine. It's great. Exactly. What do you guys think dating is? Do you think dating is harder

03:44:08.640 for women? I think dating is hard if you make it hard, man or woman. I think the step that

03:44:14.240 people always skip is making sure that you are what you want from another person. And

03:44:19.840 that's why people are running around because they don't even show or they can't even be

03:44:24.740 disciplined towards themselves. Yet they expect other people to be disciplined and respectful

03:44:29.740 towards them. It doesn't, you can't have the two. You cannot go out and expect others

03:44:34.820 to respect you if you're not showing that you respect yourself. So I think the number

03:44:39.420 one trick to dating is really just taking care of yourself first before ever going out and

03:44:44.700 pointing your fingers at other people. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, but that's

03:44:48.460 just what I believe. So yeah, I don't think it's really harder for anyone. I think it's hard

03:44:52.640 if you're like dating someone that's like a psycho, crazy stalker, like, yeah, dating is

03:44:58.200 going to be harder for you, whatever gender you are. But I don't think it's like harder

03:45:02.600 for one specific gender. What do you guys think? I think getting the date might be a little

03:45:07.660 easier for the woman. Oh yeah. Yeah, definitely. What do you guys think? I agree with that.

03:45:14.740 Yeah. Okay. Um, getting laid is harder for women. Does anyone agree or disagree with that?

03:45:23.240 You could literally be the biggest butter face and hey, you want to do it? The next guy on the

03:45:27.960 street is going to say yes. So yeah. Yeah. It's too easy. Oh, sorry. So who, who disagrees?

03:45:34.360 Who disagrees that getting laid is, or yeah, getting laid is harder for women? Does anyone

03:45:39.660 disagree? I don't think anyone. None of them disagree. Um, men are more superficial than

03:45:47.400 women. No, no. Well, you, you agreed that they are more circled. That's on the LA. Yeah.

03:45:55.520 LA side. Anyone else think men are more superficial than women? It depends, but yeah.

03:46:00.940 So what do you, what, why do you think that? Um, just as only for California, like LA specifically,

03:46:08.640 um, the men, you know, they expect the women to drive, you know, like top of line cars. Like

03:46:14.960 they expect the women to have like all of these things and I don't know all of this money.

03:46:20.640 So they do. Yeah. I don't date in LA. Yeah. They definitely like have high expectations

03:46:26.460 or maybe they just already assume like, Oh, they're dating all these other men. So they

03:46:30.620 should have, I don't know. Just like, I was just like, the minute we got off the plane here,

03:46:34.300 we're like, Oh, this place is different. Like you could just see like the way everybody was

03:46:38.180 like dressed, even the men, like you said, they were like, there was a guy on the tram to

03:46:41.800 go get our luggage. Like who was like definitely showing off. Like he was just randomly going,

03:46:45.460 very all about like image, you know? Yeah. Yeah. So superficial, you know, showing off his

03:46:51.060 clothes and does anyone think, um, women are more superficial? We're much more materialistic.

03:46:57.820 I think that's a fact and it's, there's no shame in saying that, saying that we are, I

03:47:02.580 truly don't think we should try and, um, say, no, we're not materialistic. No, we don't like

03:47:08.500 nice things. Cause I just don't think that's true. Um, we are gatherers. So we like to go

03:47:13.720 around and get the stuff and everything like that. Um, I think men, you know, just

03:47:18.440 like Brian was explaining, they're very, very, very simple creatures. Um, I think

03:47:23.180 when they're looking for someone to be a wife, they're just looking for someone who

03:47:26.260 can take care of their kids and bear them healthfully. So, um, I think men are

03:47:30.880 extremely simple in comparison to women. There's no shame at all of having like

03:47:36.340 these standards as a woman, but also to say that we're not superficial or men are

03:47:42.180 more superficial than us. It's just not true. I think on the first date base, men

03:47:46.480 are more superficial because it's like, you see a pretty girl, you want to take

03:47:50.200 her out. You see a not so pretty girl, you probably don't want to take her out, but

03:47:54.500 women have like, they give more chances to a guy who doesn't look a certain way, but

03:48:01.760 then we have the other things we want and need, like being funny and stuff. That is

03:48:05.820 true. I think if anything, we can say in different ways, in different ways. But yeah, I

03:48:11.320 agree with that. Men care more about looks than women do. Does anyone agree with

03:48:18.200 that or disagree? If it was like 10 years ago, I would disagree, but not anymore. So

03:48:23.520 you don't think men care more about looks than women? I think they used to, but I

03:48:29.000 think women care more now. Okay. What do you guys think? Might be possible, but the

03:48:35.380 same thing. I think it's the first date basis because women will date men lower than

03:48:42.260 they level, like on the outside. It will give them a chance. I've seen men do that

03:48:47.700 too. Yeah. I think when you have something, you don't look for it in others. So if you're

03:48:54.000 like, I mean, I've seen very handsome guys be with not, you know, so pretty girls and I've

03:48:58.940 seen very gorgeous girl be with like not so handsome guys. So I think it's a very

03:49:04.020 strange, like a paradox, I would call it. That's just something I do. If you're naturally

03:49:08.520 pretty, you're usually not that superficial. Yes. When you have to put a lot of work to

03:49:14.700 look that pretty, then you usually want a guy who is also a handsome. Does anyone else

03:49:20.100 think men care more about looks than women? No? Okay. A woman should not be rejected because

03:49:26.400 of her weight. You agreed with that? That she shouldn't? Yeah, I agree. Why? Um, I mean.

03:49:32.540 Oh, into the mic, please. Oh, sorry. Sorry, sorry. I'm far back. Um, I just don't think

03:49:37.400 that weight should matter if, if the guy likes a woman for being big, then that's what he

03:49:43.240 likes. So. No, it's like if a guy, like say a bigger girl was interested in the guy and

03:49:49.260 he was like, I don't want to date you because you're bigger. Do you think that's wrong?

03:49:53.000 Um, that's his preference. He's allowed to feel that way. You can't force attraction. Yeah. Yeah.

03:49:58.900 That's, yeah. It is wrong like on a paper, but you can't. Like, I think, you know, if the girl

03:50:05.060 showed up and she's a little thicker than you thought, maybe give her a chance, but be honest,

03:50:08.600 be like, hey, this isn't going to work out. If it isn't, but you know, you never know. She could

03:50:12.180 be really great. So. I mean, if you're not attracted to them, what's the point? Yeah. It's not

03:50:16.840 going to work out. Um, it's wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns

03:50:22.200 him down for sex. Does anyone agree? I think, you know, I know a lot. Oh, sorry. If it

03:50:27.040 continues. Yeah. I think it's reasonable. I mean, I don't want to make it seem like, oh,

03:50:32.480 this is our duty as woman is the only thing we're good for. No, but men need, like they

03:50:37.780 have a lot of testosterone and they need to be able to, you know, have someone to, um, have

03:50:43.060 that act with. I do not think it should be something that you feel forced to do, but he

03:50:48.200 at the same time should have every right to say, hey, I need to find someone who can meet

03:50:52.520 my needs, you know? But yeah, I think it's absolutely okay for a man to separate with

03:50:57.540 his girlfriend. And a lot of women use it as something to, what's the word? Like when

03:51:02.820 you want something. They play a game. Yeah. Yeah. And if your sex drives aren't the same,

03:51:07.620 your relationship is just doomed to fail. It's just this. Yeah. You guys agree or disagree?

03:51:13.060 What do you think? No, I agree with what you said, especially in, um, a marriage. I think

03:51:18.760 it's a little bit different than like a girlfriend. Um, yeah. Absolutely. Like do my best to never

03:51:25.500 say no. Yeah. I feel like when you become a wife, it is more of your duty, especially from

03:51:30.060 like a Christian point of view, but a girlfriend, absolutely. Yeah. Okay. Brian's coming back.

03:51:36.900 Okay. Uh, I would not date a man who owned a firearm. Does anyone agree? They wouldn't

03:51:44.320 date a man that I would date a man if he owned a firearm. Yeah.

03:51:51.180 It's like a big thing to own a gun. I hate it. All right, guys. I stepped away there for

03:51:56.980 a moment, but, uh, I didn't, I was listening to the conversation. Nevertheless, I did have

03:52:02.320 a few thoughts on a couple of things, a couple of things I heard. Um, sorry, I'm not good

03:52:07.800 at debating. No, you're fine. You're fine. It was still good to just get through all

03:52:11.060 that. We were just agreeing way too much. You have very good secondary questions.

03:52:15.840 Thanks. Uh, so there was, there's a few things that we were going to get into. There was one

03:52:20.120 of her disagreements, but I'll say that for later. There was something about somebody wanting

03:52:24.460 income, the bear thing, but first I want to come to a few of the questions that Felicity

03:52:30.180 just asked. So it's just the first four first five, actually, uh, men should pay on first

03:52:35.360 dates. Uh, just, I know some of you guys circled these just go ahead and, uh, we'll just do

03:52:41.680 hand raises. If you agree with the statement, men should pay on first dates, raise them high,

03:52:47.520 please raise them high. You're the only one. Okay. Uh, men should provide and protect

03:52:53.360 okay. Men should be chivalrous. Okay. Husband should be willing to die protecting me. Take

03:53:06.120 the bullet. Uh, okay. Um, Sabrina, you, did you raise your hand for that? Yes. Did you? Oh,

03:53:17.520 I didn't see it. I just saw these. Maybe I missed it, but you, the husband should be willing to

03:53:22.040 die protecting all of you. Yes. However, those are the first four. Uh, hold on. Oh, wait, am I

03:53:30.000 fucking this up? I think, uh, I will keep my last name or hyphenate in marriage. Let me see if

03:53:37.040 anybody circled that actually wait, hold on. None of you want to hyphenate all of you will take your

03:53:46.840 husband's last name. Yeah. Why not? I said possibly like keep mine hyphenated. Um, because I like my

03:53:53.540 last name. I like my last name and also, um, just, I don't know. It's just like your culture.

03:54:01.380 So you guys do that too, right? Yeah. In Hispanic culture, they usually, Oh, do they do that? Yeah.

03:54:06.720 They usually have like double last name. Um, you're, are you Afro-Cuban or what? No, I'm

03:54:14.140 mixed. So I have a lot going on. So on my mom's side, it's Italian, Irish, German. Then my dad's

03:54:21.080 side is like Creole. So it's black, but then like Mexican. Gotcha. Yeah. Um, see a lot. What

03:54:29.000 about your kids? Will, will they have your husband's last name? More than likely. Okay. Yeah. But

03:54:34.420 nobody else wants to like hyphenate or no. Okay. All right. Actually, there's nothing really

03:54:39.820 there then. Um, I would say at least to you though, I, I kind of muddies the water a little

03:54:45.140 bit just because you said, I understand culturally with like more like Latino, Latina, Hispanic

03:54:51.480 culture. I guess it's kind of common. I'm really not. Oh no. Um, who do we, it's more common.

03:54:58.420 Do we have any Latinos in the chat who can help me figure this out? Is it, I guess it's a thing.

03:55:04.420 If, if it is culturally more common, I guess, whatever, although you do live in the United

03:55:09.240 States. So, uh, I think at least in the United States, I don't know if like among like, for

03:55:15.660 example, Mexican immigrants, legal immigrants to the United States, if they're doing the

03:55:21.560 shared last name thing, I, I don't know. Um, and I, I imagine it differs, you know, there's

03:55:28.780 so many like Latin American countries, there's Puerto Rico, there's the Caribbean. Um, so

03:55:35.820 yeah, anyways, whatever. I don't know. Uh, somebody said it's only, is it only a Mexican

03:55:43.300 thing? Like what about in like Costa Rica or Panama or Peru or Argentina? I don't know.

03:55:53.480 Do they do the multiple last names thing or I don't know. Um, okay. Did you, uh, you

03:56:00.260 did the, this one here? Yeah. Okay. But I didn't ask the second part. Okay. I'll get

03:56:05.860 to that then. Um, Oh, did you just do this one? The rejected because of her weight? A

03:56:11.140 woman should not. Oh wow. Wait, you got to 15? Yeah. You did the, no. Oh wait, I thought

03:56:17.320 you just did the firearm one. Yeah. So 15 would be my next one. Oh, gotcha. Okay. Uh, so a

03:56:23.040 woman should not be rejected because of her weight. You agree. Uh, anybody else on that?

03:56:31.180 Uh, we just kind of talked about how you can't force attraction. Yeah. We can get, we went

03:56:34.580 over it. Okay. Didn't you say you would only date a guy who's six feet, six foot one? I

03:56:42.620 would prefer a guy who's over six feet. Like I've dated shorter, but it's just, I want to

03:56:47.080 be able to wear heels around my man. Yeah. And your body type, you're very thin, but like

03:56:51.160 long, so that makes sense. Yeah. Like lengthy. Like I just want someone I can wear heels

03:56:55.300 around and. Okay. Yeah. But so. My ex is six foot nine. Is it wrong to reject a woman

03:57:02.720 because of her weight? Like if she's overweight? No. Is it wrong to reject her? I don't think

03:57:08.180 it's wrong. Oh. To reject her. But you said the woman should not be rejected because of

03:57:12.360 her weight. I said she should not, but that would be his preference. We talked about it.

03:57:17.620 She misunderstood. She was like. Oh, okay. Yeah. Okay. Did anybody go in on this one?

03:57:25.480 13? No, I don't think so. Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend. If she regularly turns

03:57:31.700 him down for. Yeah. They're all fine with it. Okay. Well, I don't know if you answered

03:57:35.540 that. We were agreeing too much. I was in the restroom, but yeah, yeah, definitely. If you're

03:57:40.780 in a long, dry spell, there's something wrong. Yeah. I agree. Rock and roll. Um, really quick

03:57:46.880 on the minimum yearly income. You said $300,000. It seems like nobody, was there any higher?

03:57:52.360 Like, why was that the highest? Um, I mean, it's not, it's not crazy. It's not even a million.

03:57:58.320 Would you date a guy who like 200 K even? Even two. Okay. That's fine. It's not like a hundred

03:58:04.400 K and up really. I mean, nobody's going to say 300. I almost, let's do the calculator really

03:58:09.320 quick. We don't do the calculator very often. We'll do the calculator super quick. We're going

03:58:12.280 to see how many men there are out there that meet your criteria. Uh, I've done this. All

03:58:18.400 right. Uh, scroll down. I've done this and I'm at like 6%. Scroll down, scroll down, scroll

03:58:21.400 down, scroll down. Uh, okay. Age of men you're rolling today. It's great. Oh my God. Oh,

03:58:26.000 the unwilling. Yeah. Cut off at 40. Yeah. Cause that's even kind of, uh, minimum minimum

03:58:32.120 20, 23, 21, you'll date 21. You'll date. How old are you again? Oh, cougar over here.

03:58:41.120 Eh, not that bad. Uh, so, okay. 21 to 40. And do you want to exclude men who are married?

03:58:49.720 Of course. Okay. I don't know why that's such a, you should just get rid of that. There are a lot

03:58:55.480 of people out there that think that's hot and that's just disgusting. Okay. Race? Um, doesn't

03:59:00.360 matter. Any color or shade? Yeah. Okay. Minimum height. Let's, I think, was it six one or six

03:59:05.480 foot? Six foot. Okay. Six foot. Exclude obese? Yeah. Yes. Okay. Minimum income 300k. All right.

03:59:14.140 All right. Find out. Probability. Your ideal man. 0.048. No. Uh, shit. I'm going to pull

03:59:25.860 it back up. Um, damn. Uh, okay. How do you feel about that? I mean, I feel like, am I being

03:59:34.340 that unrealistic? Like I live in LA. The men I've dated have had money. They've been well

03:59:40.640 off. They have like great homes, um, lifestyles. So if they're not making that much, that's

03:59:47.260 what I'm thinking they're making or what they're saying they're making over 200. It's factoring

03:59:51.880 in the entire U S. So the, the proportion of men who are six feet and fall into this age

04:00:00.200 range and that make $300,000. I mean, the height in the $300,000 is going to be the primary

04:00:08.220 limiting thing here in terms of probability. Uh, what's that? I want to do it. Uh, maybe

04:00:20.020 next time. Uh, remind me though, we'll do it. We'll do it. Um, okay. So there's that. Uh,

04:00:25.700 and then there's a couple of people on the bear, right? Um, it was just, any crazy height requirements?

04:00:32.160 It was just six and up. That was the highest we got. Uh, bear who picked bear? We both

04:00:38.640 said bear or man. Into the mic please. I'm sorry. We both said man or bear. We weren't.

04:00:44.460 I said it depends. Yeah. I said like bear only because, but that's on me because of past experiences.

04:00:50.260 I want it to be man and I'm working on that. I'm healing myself. So you think that like the

04:00:55.480 man would harm you? I just, a lot of times, like even just meeting a guy, like I need to,

04:01:00.920 I keep my distance naturally. And like I said, I didn't even notice I did any of this

04:01:04.700 until this year. Okay. So I'm trying to not be like that and to give everyone a chance.

04:01:10.860 And then she picked bear too? No, I picked man, but I said, I'm afraid of neither. I've run into

04:01:17.080 bear and man. Um, I'll just skip push back on the bear for tonight. Um, and then there was a

04:01:24.460 disagreement from, uh, page. You said, do you think anyone can be redeemed? Even if they have

04:01:31.620 a high body count, women and men should be equal always, but that doesn't mean things should be

04:01:38.400 made easier. Yeah. Like I just, I don't think that like, like if something's hard, even for a man to

04:01:43.720 do, it should, it's going to be extra hard for a woman. You don't make it less hard just cause she's

04:01:47.720 a woman. Okay. Um, I, I think I see what you're saying there. Uh, but then you think anyone can

04:01:55.000 be redeemed even if they have a high body count? I do. I think if they have a high body count and

04:02:00.060 then they're actively trying and they're actively actively living a life where they're not sleeping

04:02:04.580 around and they're in a committed relationship and their track record is good, then yeah, that

04:02:09.420 sounds like they are redeemed. Okay. I have a thought on that, but I need to, I mean, I actually

04:02:17.800 I have to wait and make my argument on this. Uh, I need the full panel. I need the full table here.

04:02:23.060 Uh, okay. Hold on. Let me check if we have, no, we're good. Uh, I'll get into some show notes then.

04:02:31.200 So going to, actually I want to do a fun segment, I guess, cause it was kind of heated at the beginning.

04:02:37.560 Would it, um, is it a deal breaker if a guy has softer hands than you?

04:02:45.320 I have to say yes as a mechanic. Like if a guy has soft hands, is it softer than yours even?

04:02:54.620 Is it a, is it kind of a turnoff? Is it, you know? A little bit. Okay. Not a deal breaker though.

04:03:01.860 My husband's a construction worker, so like his hands haven't been soft in eight years.

04:03:05.480 I like it when a guy comes back with like dirty hands from like working. I don't know why.

04:03:11.000 But mine are dirty too. Because I don't know if I, genetically, if there's something wrong

04:03:15.620 with me or whatever, but I have, by the way, I'm 36. I'm 36. I have really like almost freakishly

04:03:25.420 soft hands. Now I want to touch it. This isn't like, this isn't some like, uh, you get clammy

04:03:34.480 hands. That could be it. Uh, maybe sometimes, but what you're talking like natural moisturization.

04:03:40.660 You just use a lot of lotion. No, I don't, I don't even use lotion. I don't use lotion.

04:03:45.120 None of that shit. But, uh, what was that shit? What was I saying? And the air's dry

04:03:50.160 out here. So that's weird. No, it's not. Oh, it's not. Oh, it's not. Oh, okay. Sorry.

04:03:54.760 Oh yeah. Oh, this isn't some, this is not a ploy to like get you guys to touch my hand.

04:03:59.680 I'm like, I'll do it. Just as a fun segment, this is like, you're going to come around and

04:04:07.260 let us touch them. Okay. Oh, they're very soft. His hands are so soft. He has like little

04:04:13.880 baby girl hands. Are they smaller than mine? I have a two-year-old. Let me feel it. Oh

04:04:17.960 gosh. Here. Does anybody, I have a two-year-old. Let me feel it. Wow. Very impressive. Can I

04:04:23.420 get some, uh, hand sanitizer? Can I get some hand sanitizer? She wants to feel. If they

04:04:29.260 were warm, they would feel like a baby's. Yeah. They're soft. No, but the top too. They're

04:04:35.580 pretty soft. His hands are like a soft. It's not like very soft. Very smooth. Okay. I need

04:04:41.040 to wash my hands. I gotta wash my hands now. Oh my gosh. So is it a deal breaker though? If

04:04:47.160 a guy has soft hands like that, like podcaster Brian hands? Well, has he ever mowed a

04:04:53.400 lawn? No. It wasn't that creepy. Can you fix things, Brian? No. Yeah. It's, it's about

04:04:59.020 the grip. Just tech things. He's not out there like changing an oil. I don't, yeah, I don't

04:05:06.820 think I could see that for Brian. Yeah, no. But like, so say it was a guy that you were

04:05:11.080 interested in, interested in. Is that like a deal breaker? His hands are soft. I've never

04:05:15.760 dated a guy with really soft hands, but I would. I mean, it's not a deal breaker. Unless

04:05:20.480 he shakes your hand like a dead fish, then it's not a problem. Oh yeah. That's like

04:05:24.580 the worst thing ever. Do you guys prefer it when a guy gives you like a strong, grippy

04:05:29.440 handshake or like when he like shakes your hand like a little princess? I think firm, but

04:05:32.100 not. I like it when they're like soft. Like, like lose your hand. Like, like that. I don't

04:05:40.100 know. I've always seen more of a firm handshake as a sign of respect. Like that's always what

04:05:44.120 my grandpa taught me. And like, I shook a pastor's hand. It was my grandpa's pastor

04:05:49.480 and it was literally like a dead fish. And I was like, yeah, that's the worst. I felt

04:05:53.720 like disrespected. Wait, question for the women here who are wearing glasses. Are they

04:06:00.580 all prescription? Yes. Prescription? Yes. So you guys would be blind without them? No,

04:06:05.220 I should get mine. There's a whole row. No, it's okay. Very. I'm wearing contacts. Blurry

04:06:09.240 for sure. Yeah. I don't know. You know, uh, what was I saying? You're soft. I've had

04:06:14.600 like a girl be like, Whoa, your hands are really soft. And I'm like, I don't know if that's

04:06:19.200 a good thing or a bad thing. I think like a lot of no-gos, like if you found out after

04:06:23.340 you started dating them, like you would just let it go, you know? Well, she asked, can

04:06:27.540 you mow a lawn? Yeah. Has Brian ever mowed a lawn? Like, you know, it's a fair question.

04:06:34.260 I mow the lawn. I mow the lawn. Could you change your car's oil?

04:06:39.240 Could I change my car's? I would bet on this. No, no. Honestly, I don't know. It's not that

04:06:43.600 hard. I'm sure I can figure it out, but I just, I can figure it out. I just go. Probably

04:06:49.100 be bad. I can help you. I can show you. I can help him. Well, depending on what kind

04:06:52.620 of car. Look, this, I always get flack for some of this stuff. And some people are like,

04:06:57.740 look, obviously, you know, life skills, whatever. It's like, look, humans have become like specialized

04:07:02.900 and like, we have our special specialties, you know? Uh, I, I, you know, okay. I'm just

04:07:09.440 coping, I guess. Have you seen the latest South Park episode? It's literally about this. It's

04:07:13.520 hilarious. So instead of like, there being, um, people like, um, like Latino and Hispanic

04:07:18.840 people wanting jobs at Home Depot, it's actually all these white men who went to college looking

04:07:23.040 for people to help fix their house because all the handyman are so rich now because nobody

04:07:28.040 can do it. Nice. Yep. Good times. Good times. Um, I'm trying to remember what, anyways, I don't

04:07:36.860 know. I don't know if it's a good thing. I don't know if it's, I don't know if it's a bad

04:07:40.200 thing, but it's not a deal breaker. You were talking about a girl who something because of

04:07:43.660 your self-task. Oh yeah. Girls have like mentioned it. I mean, it hasn't been an issue. Like, they're

04:07:47.540 not like, ugh. They're not like, ugh. They probably like it if you touched them with those soft

04:07:54.180 hands. Yep. If I saw, if I met a guy with soft hands like that, I'd be like, I'm going

04:08:00.520 to change that. I'm going to put you to work. Yes, exactly. Rough hands tell character. That's

04:08:06.120 what she said. But I used to, I don't know. So I like, I used to, I used to have. Oh, we

04:08:11.460 took a while. Uh, where were we? Uh, there's like, I think there's glue that you can get to

04:08:18.000 make your hands rough. Nah, I'm not going to like fake it. You can't fake that shit. You got

04:08:23.000 just, you know, whatever. Pick up a shovel. Yeah, something like that. It'll lift weights.

04:08:28.620 Yeah. Uh, so, uh, yes, the, uh, passion not matter related to your disagreement. Women

04:08:35.340 can be redeemed. Um, it seems past should not matter. A quote I really like is like every

04:08:41.840 saint has a past. Every sinner has a future. As long as you're growing and trying to be

04:08:45.580 better. I do like that. I do. Especially. I wish it was mine. So I guess, um, going around

04:08:50.700 the table on that, um, body count should matter, shouldn't matter, whatever it is. Uh, what's

04:08:56.200 your body count? Uh, I'm not saying that. Give us a range. Throw us a range. Who's going

04:09:01.120 to be a good sport? Really quick. Who's going to be a good sport? Good sport? Mine's probably

04:09:04.560 higher than yours. Good sport? Less than five. Twelve. Twelve? Uh, one of them was not consensual.

04:09:13.760 That doesn't count. Doesn't count. Okay. So one. Okay. Not saying. Range? I just said mine.

04:09:19.700 So you can do, uh, have, did you, have you lost track? Is that it? No, I've never lost

04:09:24.880 track. Have you forgotten? Not forgotten. Didn't keep track? No, just not saying. He's

04:09:31.160 never going to let it go. I've seen this before. I mean, I literally move on within like 20

04:09:38.060 seconds, but, um, do you want to do a range? Like it's between this and this instead of like

04:09:44.880 an exact number. I'd rather not. 50? Definitely never. Go ahead. One. One. Okay. To the husband.

04:09:55.440 I also choose not to say. Sorry, Brian. Yeah, what? I just said mine. Can you do a range? Can

04:10:01.460 you give us a range? No, I'm sorry. Oh my. Range? No range? No range. Did you lose track? No.

04:10:07.220 35. Never had a boyfriend. Hold on. Let me do something. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Oh my gosh.

04:10:18.260 Never had 35. Analyzing. Never had a relationship longer than a couple months. Have you, wait,

04:10:24.600 have you even had a boyfriend? I mean, yeah, but I was saying that I, I wouldn't like say

04:10:30.420 that those are successful relationships. Well, you said they were like a couple months. I mean,

04:10:33.820 it's like, we're not only counting successful. You haven't had a long-term relationship. I

04:10:38.820 haven't had like a long lasting good relationship. You haven't had a relationship last longer

04:10:43.400 than six months. I don't like, yeah, I would say. Judgy at all, but do you think maybe if

04:10:47.900 you held out a little longer, that maybe? Well, she's not revealing the body. No. Okay.

04:10:52.720 Well, if all the math was still on. Yeah. No, I mean, there's been different scenarios where

04:10:59.920 like maybe if I did stick around, but then it, it just didn't turn out so well. So. Okay. Okay.

04:11:07.800 Um, is it less than 20? I'm not going to say Brian. Okay. So it's more than 20. Got it.

04:11:13.740 What about you? Zero. What about you? One. Okay. Felicity. It's two. All right. Uh, that's cool.

04:11:23.060 You get the back question. Like how old were you? That's the real number. Oh, lost virginity.

04:11:27.300 Okay. That's not true though. That multiply by three. Like that's not true. Well, thank

04:11:33.920 you for sharing that. Actually, that was the quickest answer she gave. So we should believe

04:11:37.420 it. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We can do that. It was the highest one. Thank you. Appreciate

04:11:42.640 your input. So 17. 15, 16. Not applicable. 15, 16, 22. What are we? Age, you lost your

04:11:57.080 virginity. Oh, 16. Um, I was 18. I think I was almost 21 because I thought I would be

04:12:05.480 waiting till marriage. Okay. 15. There it is. Good, good shit. Good shit. I'm scared.

04:12:14.260 I have a teenage daughter. Where can I lock her up? You can't. You just gotta let her live

04:12:18.800 her life. No, you can definitely, you know, make your house like a prison. Yeah. Sounds

04:12:26.180 good. How old's your daughter? 12 or something? Yeah. Oh shit. Yeah. Be careful. Public

04:12:30.360 schools. Yikes. The bus. I learned everything on the bus. For sure. Send her to an all girl

04:12:36.480 school. Oh, I would love one. I need that. I think actually girls would be smarter and even

04:12:42.120 boys would be smarter if we still had. They still find their ways though. They still

04:12:45.840 find their way. Yep. Especially with social media too. Oh yeah. That's why my daughter

04:12:51.340 doesn't have a smartphone. Oh, that's good. And I'm the crazy parent because I'm the only

04:12:55.100 one. Good for you. Trying to protect her. You're the good parent. I don't Snapchat for

04:12:59.900 the first time ever. And I was like, my children will never have this. No. Yeah. I think

04:13:04.360 if you're just open with her and you're not like too restrictive, you let her know the reasons

04:13:07.680 why. Like you lay it down like because of like STDs, because of this, because of pregnancy,

04:13:12.180 like let her know those things. Make her scared. That you're trying to protect her from.

04:13:17.460 I hate that people are like, don't make them scared. Like tell him like adults, they're not

04:13:22.120 freaking adults. Scared the hell out of them. Yeah. All right. Let's see. We have a couple

04:13:27.760 more things from the questionnaire, although most of you actually haven't, didn't really circle

04:13:32.520 much on the questionnaire there. So we are going to deal. What's that? We are like,

04:13:37.400 agreeing to Masvidu. Like we're too. Well, we'll get, we'll get to that, but, uh, I'm sure

04:13:44.360 we'll have more disagreements. Uh, so let's do this. Uh, women are the primary victims of

04:13:50.480 war, not men. Victoria, you circled that one. Just want to confirm you do agree with that.

04:13:56.320 Uh, yeah, I, I think that, you know, women do suffer the aftermath of war. More so than

04:14:02.500 women. Um, yes, it's worse. Just be left here. If you die, you will just die there,

04:14:10.680 but you will leave everybody to take care of your family and to miss you. But still,

04:14:15.700 I think primarily the guy is the one who sacrifices his life. Yeah. What about all the men who come

04:14:22.100 back with PTSD? It's very admirable though for men to go out and no, actually no, that is a very

04:14:27.120 good point. The veterans, I have the most respect for them, especially because my father himself,

04:14:31.540 he was in the military, uh, Marines. So, um, I would actually like to change my answer on that.

04:14:37.340 I do, I do think that men suffer a lot from war. Do they suffer more than women? Yes.

04:14:43.840 Oh, okay. Well, I mean, you've already changed your opinion there. So, I mean,

04:14:48.240 not much pushback I can give. Um, we have some chats coming through.

04:14:53.860 Adzils donated $200. Would you rather listen to Michael Jackson in the woods with a man or bear?

04:15:00.720 Brian can do the moonwalk so he would take his chances. Hashtag free Felicity. Hashtag free Nick.

04:15:07.420 Hashtag Michael is king. Yo, Adzils. Thank you for the TTS man. Appreciate it.

04:15:11.860 Um, um, I would rather listen to, yeah, I'd rather listen to MJ with a man for sure. Um,

04:15:27.560 it's like, uh, like what, what is, is Michael Jackson, you know, like the snake charmers with

04:15:33.560 the flutes, like you put on some MJ and the bears, just like Yogi bear, just fucking dancing,

04:15:39.060 like fucking crip walking with you while you're, you know, fucking listening to MJ or some shit.

04:15:45.920 Oh my God. You know, it lulls them to sleep. Well, like the, yeah, yeah. What's snake charmers or

04:15:52.820 what's the term for? Like the flute players? Or the little piper. The, the, the, what,

04:16:00.760 there's like a term for a beast and you, you, uh, pacify them through music, but there's a term for

04:16:12.400 it. Does anybody know what the term is chat? I don't think the girls are going to help me. So

04:16:17.760 chat, I totally zoned out. Passive, a term for pacifying a beast with music. What is the term?

04:16:26.540 What whisper? No, that's not it. It's not whisper to tame. Sue the savage beast. I don't know.

04:16:37.340 Whatever. I don't know. Thank you for that. Adzils. Appreciate it. Is Adzils the Michael Jackson

04:16:44.120 guy or is that somebody else? It's Adzils. He's the MJ guy. What MJ guy? Every episode he invokes

04:16:53.640 Michael Jackson multiple for some reason. He wants to see the moonwalk and you haven't

04:16:57.900 done it for him. I should do that. I guess send another TTS for that one. Um, I, I pre-charged

04:17:11.120 you, I guess. Techno, techno trooper. If the economy can furlough, wait, who's that guy from

04:17:16.900 way back who always brought up herpes? What was that guy's name? Do you remember that guy's

04:17:21.420 name, Nick? Jay Butler, right? He always, every TTS was about herpes. You're new. You're

04:17:28.340 a, so Adzils, you're the new Jay Butler. If the economy can furlough a million people overnight,

04:17:36.200 I'll pull it back up. What makes you believe any partner will just provide without you contributing

04:17:42.420 equal strength? Okay. We'll just provide. It's like not even a question. What does that

04:17:56.840 mean? When you say equal strength though, what are the equal strength? So like women

04:18:01.660 relationship, equal strength. What are you talking about? Yeah. Like, are we supposed to be buff?

04:18:06.260 Like what? I think he means like he wants the woman to do the cooking, cleaning, taking

04:18:13.160 care of children while the man is working, making the money. I don't know. I think that's

04:18:18.220 what that's, I think that's what that meant. It's my interpretation. Yeah. I don't know.

04:18:22.640 I'm not sure. Honestly, I wish I could read all of these. Clarify techno trooper. I need my glasses.

04:18:28.900 Clarify techno trooper. Well, I'm saying it verbally. So I guess you can just listen with your

04:18:33.340 ear balls. You? I'm just kidding. That was so funny. Good one. Okay. Good job. Proud of

04:18:42.080 you. I don't know. Maybe I want to go. Well, what were we talking about earlier about the

04:18:49.020 humor or whatever? Anyways. Yeah. Why would you bring that up again? Cause he doesn't, he's

04:18:55.300 not funny. He doesn't want us to like funny guys. Sorry. Oh, see, that was funny. It actually

04:19:06.160 like just wasn't, it wasn't, it wasn't funny. Also not to toot my own horn, but I think I'm

04:19:16.000 pretty funny. You think you're funny? Yeah. I'm definitely funny. I'm definitely funny. I see.

04:19:19.280 Oh, okay. Miss monotone over here who hasn't cracked. Oh, I've, I, I'm, you haven't cracked

04:19:25.100 one joke the entire fucking night. I'm nervous. Oh my God. Okay. Great. You're nervous.

04:19:29.540 You're nervous in a relationship and you're not going to fucking ever crack a joke until

04:19:33.220 after you've been dating a guy. Oh, he's got to wait for your humor for six months. Okay.

04:19:38.280 What? No. Okay. Good talk.

04:19:42.020 Abzil's donated $200. Butler is a legend. He will be back. Hopefully Nick, can we get

04:19:51.940 a tee hee? Oh, a tee hee now? That was like half. That was like, I gave him fucking half

04:20:06.340 right there. Oh my goodness. Yeah. True. All right. Uh, let's see if there's anything else

04:20:13.120 in the questionnaire here. That's intriguing to me. Yes, they can. Yes, they can. Uh, men

04:20:23.540 are more privileged in society than when, uh, than women says page. Why is that? Um, I guess

04:20:31.120 I don't know from what I've been through, like men sometimes don't listen to women, I

04:20:36.140 think until the women like make their point really clear or like have to speak up and be

04:20:40.860 like, Hey, listen to me. You know, I think men just overall, you know, people see a man

04:20:45.680 talking and they, they listen compared to a woman. Is that like a overarching privilege in

04:20:54.380 totality? No. Well also too, I just, you know, men are respected more. Men are treated better

04:21:01.360 overall. Are they? Well, I think they were. I think more is expected out of them. And now they

04:21:07.080 are seen to like for a man, it is expected that he has all of these things. He is expected. He has

04:21:13.260 a good job. He's patient. He's hardworking. He's fit. So yeah. So it's changed. Yeah. I've been out

04:21:19.000 of the dating scene. Like we met before Tinder even existed. So, you know, okay. So I, I'm

04:21:24.820 open to that. Yeah. But I can, I can definitely see where you're coming from with that. It's

04:21:31.480 very apparent. Yeah. And like, I'm already short, so they're already looking down on me

04:21:35.180 and I'm like, hello, listen to me, you know? I mean, if I had pink hair too, though, I feel

04:21:40.940 like I would be less respected. What? This is my superhero hair. That's what my kids call

04:21:45.260 it. Look, and you seem more conservative and kind of reasonable.

04:21:49.540 But I think people will make, they do. And I've got tattoos. Absolutely. People read

04:21:54.000 a, judge a book by its cover. They do. Absolutely do. No offense. I mean, I, I saw your pre-show

04:21:59.960 notes. Um, you know, you have a very successful relationship. Well, you're married and you have

04:22:07.060 kids. I mean, you married, you were virgins. I mean, we absolutely love, are in love. I did

04:22:12.080 have a, you wrote a couple of things in your pre-show notes where I did want to, I did want

04:22:16.500 to nitpick a little bit, but, um, I guess you're kind of conservative, right? Like politically

04:22:22.980 not so much. Oh, are you more liberal? Uh, I used to be a registered Democrat until recently.

04:22:27.880 Oh, okay. Now what are you? I am an independent. Okay. Gotcha. Okay. But overall, you don't

04:22:36.600 seem like you're a crazy woke SJW feminist lady. No, I just used to be very like, I am

04:22:44.040 woman, hear me roar. And then I, I learned over time that that kind of sucks.

04:22:47.860 And Donnie is running for governor. Good for you.

04:22:51.460 He's a liberal. Um, he's a lot of liberals like him.

04:22:54.720 Yeah, just, I guess they did. Um, they were, she was explaining who Mom Donnie was. He's

04:22:59.520 a socialist in New York who's running. I don't currently live in the city. Um, but I am

04:23:03.740 originally from the city. But, uh, besides like you, you assert that men are more respected

04:23:09.120 than women, men have more privilege than women. Is it, uh, aside from like your perception

04:23:15.480 that men receive more respect, is there anything else when it comes to privilege?

04:23:20.980 I think men are just taken more seriously, like in my circle, because a lot of the men

04:23:24.560 are married and, you know, in the church circle too, like a lot of times women want to speak

04:23:28.660 up and they don't always get to.

04:23:31.580 Whoa. What church are you going to?

04:23:33.800 I am non-denominational. Like I said, like, like right now, that's, this is actually a theological

04:23:39.100 coherent because women can't be priests.

04:23:43.220 I'm not saying to be pastors or priests, but like even just like in the circle, like

04:23:47.120 after service or like even just out in the community, like where I live now, it's pretty

04:23:51.220 rural. So like, it's like men just don't take women seriously. It could be the pink

04:23:55.400 hair, but.

04:23:56.840 Well, I mean, look, from a religious perspective and look, I, I'm not a expert in theology, but

04:24:02.820 my understanding is there's biblical scripture. Women are to be quiet in church.

04:24:08.000 So from a, if you're in a biblical marriage and a biblical relationship, yeah, you're not

04:24:15.340 supposed to be telling the men what to do.

04:24:17.160 I will say I am.

04:24:18.100 You need to defer to the men.

04:24:19.080 I used to be, like I said, a she woman hear me roar. And I have, I recently was disabled

04:24:23.420 and I was diagnosed with anglosingspondylitis. It's been really devastating. And it actually

04:24:27.720 put me into this female role for the first time in my life. And I actually am like, wow,

04:24:32.280 kind of almost thankful for getting sick. I know that sounds awful, but like, I'm like, wow,

04:24:36.920 like I'm actually getting to be a girl for once, you know, and I am learning how it is

04:24:41.340 to be in that role.

04:24:42.460 That's the best.

04:24:43.280 Where before I used to always, I used to always, you know, it's probably like, I would fight.

04:24:47.160 I was angsty and I'd be like, why aren't you talking to me? You know?

04:24:51.040 Okay.

04:24:53.320 A good man makes you soft.

04:24:54.900 I don't know if it's actually the case that women are less respected in society.

04:25:01.100 Actually, maybe it's when women are not like, I don't want to say in their place, but like

04:25:04.900 not doing womanly roles, then maybe they're less respected, you know? So that might be why

04:25:09.100 I felt less respected.

04:25:10.580 I mean, what I see out there, I believe that society is set up in a gynocentric way. So society

04:25:18.880 is not, if we're talking about patriarchy, we're getting into these sort of feminist

04:25:23.220 descriptors or whatever. I don't think society is set up in a patriarchy, and I guess how this

04:25:32.120 would be described as society was built by men for the benefit and comfort and privilege

04:25:37.960 of men. I think society, I agree with the first part. Society was built by men for the benefit

04:25:44.960 of women. All the modern comforts, like I say this frequently on the show, if men could

04:25:51.820 fuck women in a cardboard box, we would. But, you know, that's not the case, really.

04:26:00.340 Women want the existence of a certain comfortable material reality. And so everything that men

04:26:10.620 do, I honestly think, on a micro and macro level, is for women. Society has been set up

04:26:19.200 to make things comfortable for women. And men have always been, like if you look at even

04:26:25.940 going back to, you know, ancient history, that this idea would be, like men would be sort

04:26:34.540 of this defensive barrier to the external threats of like nature or other tribes. And men, women were

04:26:42.500 kept in the interior and kept safe. And so men would go out and fight against nature, fight against

04:26:50.960 other tribes, fight against other men, keep the women in the interior, keep them safe. And if we're

04:26:56.680 looking at, and you know, this could be a tribe of 300 people. When I'm talking interior, it could be

04:27:00.980 a small area of, you know, a couple square miles, even less. It could be a small little area.

04:27:09.200 And I don't know. It's just like...

04:27:11.600 I will admit, I definitely have a bias, and you're probably going to come at me for saying

04:27:14.340 this, but like I was raised by a single mother for nine years. And, you know, she had to be strong,

04:27:18.320 and she was so strong. And I admired that in her. So I felt like I had to be like that,

04:27:22.940 you know, when I don't need to be like that. Because thankfully, I did meet the right person,

04:27:28.180 and things are going really well. So yeah. But you know, this idea that women are taken less

04:27:33.440 seriously, or they're less respected, there's a couple things there. I think, I actually think

04:27:39.520 so women, so you know, we'll look at both halves of the population, men and women. I think women

04:27:46.380 have a really strong in-group bias for women. So like, there's the sisterhood, there's like women

04:27:53.460 have, they have an in-group bias for themselves, for other women. Men don't have that related to

04:28:03.760 men. So men don't have an in-group bias. Like if you're analyzing the biases in general, men have

04:28:12.300 a slight out-group bias for women. And the statistics and studies play this out. But yeah, so men will have

04:28:22.140 slight out-group bias, women have slight or strong in-group bias. So this is why actually, in some

04:28:29.940 ways, women are much, seem to be actually better when it comes to organizing amongst themselves for

04:28:37.120 female causes. Whereas men don't have like nearly as strong of any sort of foundational base for like

04:28:44.120 male advocacy. Like obviously, female advocacy feminism is dominant culturally, whereas like

04:28:51.480 men's advocacy is completely on the fringe and completely just completely oppressed by

04:28:57.780 feminism. And too, if men try to stand up for themselves, then it's like, oh no, you're

04:29:01.480 misogynistic. But is it here? They like to say that. At least in Finland, the men will get the race in

04:29:08.780 their workplaces because the guys, when you go to a man and you ask him like, who's going to get the

04:29:15.340 race? There's always a guy saying like, oh, Ben is a good guy. Give it to him. But if you go and talk

04:29:21.820 to a woman, it's always they're putting each other down. It's not like, oh, there is a good girl.

04:29:29.620 They don't build the woman up in the workplace.

04:29:30.360 Yeah. It's always going to be like, oh, not her.

04:29:34.920 True.

04:29:35.360 True. I mean, I think it can go both ways in the workplace. Google actually just I'm trying to

04:29:42.660 recall the name of the lawsuit. A man filed a lawsuit against Google because he had an

04:29:51.780 anti-discrimination lawsuit because apparently he ended up having a female boss and his the

04:30:00.960 origination of his team was I think it's Meyer versus Google or something. She started like

04:30:08.300 firing or getting rid of all the male team leads and just started hiring women. And he the lawsuit's

04:30:14.760 super robust. There's plenty. There's actually plenty of evidence that there's anti-male

04:30:19.560 discrimination, at least in his team at Google. Google did this. That's more recent lawsuit.

04:30:25.960 There was one from a couple of years ago where Google did like some self analysis of they

04:30:32.080 were trying to investigate, oh, well, are we is there a wage gap here? They actually found

04:30:36.660 that they were overpaying the women at Google, major corporation. So I don't know this, this

04:30:43.940 idea that men get promoted, they're more likely to be promoted. I don't know if it's even true.

04:30:49.460 Other men will always put other men up, but women will put each other down.

04:30:57.820 Uh, I don't know if that's true. Do you think the Google thing is like a one time,

04:31:03.060 like a one instance thing? Or do you think it's going to be more prevalent or it's going to come

04:31:06.180 out more? I think, I think a lot of major corporations, feminism has infiltrated. They have,

04:31:13.580 some of them have walked some of this back, but all the DEI bullshit, like all these companies,

04:31:19.360 all the major corporations had DEI diversity, equity, inclusion, or whatever. There are massive,

04:31:25.820 massive hiring incentives. Let's, let's bring in women. Let's, let's put, let's do affirmative

04:31:32.500 action to put in more, get diversity hires, put in women. And actually it's funny, all this DEI

04:31:38.500 shit. It was mostly for white women. It was, it wasn't like brown men. It wasn't brown women. It

04:31:44.820 was for fucking white women. I think that is a great example of why men should mostly lead because

04:31:51.920 women are, is it, what's the word when you're, you plan things to get the worst outcome. You're

04:31:59.100 like sneaky. You mean vindictive? Yeah. Oh, there we go. That's what's the word. But men are really

04:32:06.360 straightforward, straightforward with everything. They say mostly what they think. Yeah. I'll say

04:32:12.080 my best friend in the whole wide world is a male and I plan on keeping it that way. So, and it's not

04:32:17.340 my husband, my husband, he's my best friend too, but. I mean, I look, there's, I'll do the, I'll do

04:32:23.000 the sort of charitable thing here and say that like men definitely play office politics too. But I, you

04:32:31.640 know, I think there are obviously some differences between how men and women communicate. I think

04:32:36.140 women, not all women, women can definitely do this sort of like, uh, vendetta shit. Like

04:32:44.960 I think men oftentimes tend to be less likely to hold grudges. Whereas like, if you slide

04:32:51.300 a woman, that shit's for life, son, that's some beef. It's forever.

04:32:57.020 What? I thought always that it's the other way around. I thought that men will like, they

04:33:00.920 won't tell it to you, but if somebody does something bad to you, you will freaking remember

04:33:05.780 it to your grave. I mean, it, obviously there's a lot of variants, but I think women will

04:33:10.740 resort. They will use more energy to put you down and do shit to you. If you do something

04:33:17.100 bad. Why? I think, and this is, I think there's actually studies to back this up. Women are more

04:33:22.540 likely to engage in reputation destruction. So women will do gossip. Women will do slander.

04:33:28.280 Women will like try to, you know, verbally ruin you. They'll try to verbally throw you

04:33:33.520 under the bus. Again, I'm not saying all women do this, but it's, it's a more common tactic

04:33:38.320 that women will resort to. They'll try to ruin it. Not just, they'll try to ruin another woman's

04:33:44.100 reputation. They'll try to ruin a man's reputation. They'll gossip more common among women. Men

04:33:50.440 can do it too, I guess. But, but just to finish off this point, you're saying that women aren't

04:33:55.880 respected, right? They're not taking it seriously. I don't know. Like, I really not sure if that's

04:34:00.700 the case. I think that at least in terms of the treatment that women direct towards men,

04:34:06.860 I think at no other point in human history, um, have women enjoyed so much freedom, so much rights,

04:34:14.300 so much privilege, so much comfort. Uh, we technologically, we really do live at, uh,

04:34:22.660 the best time, you know, best healthcare, best, I was going to say best food, but some people might,

04:34:28.780 uh, the best food option. Anyways, you have, you can have, if you want, you can go on DoorDash

04:34:37.720 and every order, every single kind of different culinary genre and have it all delivered to you

04:34:44.560 in 10 minutes. I mean, we live in, uh, quite the time, but all of those things I listed, you know,

04:34:52.100 women having the most rights, the most comfort, most free, more freedom than any other point of

04:34:56.700 human history, uh, much of which, or almost all of which I would say is a direct result of male

04:35:04.800 benevolence, ingenuity, labor, and genius. Um, but it, and simultaneously though, at no other point

04:35:15.200 in human history have women had so much hate, spite, contempt, and disrespect and ungratefulness

04:35:24.840 towards men as today. So it's this, it's, it's, it's odd to me though, but it's like, again,

04:35:33.380 women have more freedoms, more rights, more privileges, more comfort than at any other time

04:35:38.400 in human history. But at no other time in human history have women, women hate men more than they've

04:35:44.540 ever hated men. Women are ungrateful. They're disrespectful. Uh, and it's kind of this interesting

04:35:51.700 dichotomy. It's because of the rise of feminism and the lack of God in people. And I was so pleasantly

04:35:58.700 surprised that all of you are Christians. I don't know if every single one of you, but

04:36:02.140 I'm absolutely shocked. I mean, she is, I'm not exactly religious. She is, you are a Christian,

04:36:08.560 you're a Christian. I mean, amazing, amazing. Oh my gosh. A lot of faith in this room and

04:36:13.380 I love it, but I did want to argue with somebody. So I'm a little disappointed. I'll argue then

04:36:19.920 I guess, but I guess moving on to the boyfriend. So that's probably the next one. Uh, I guess,

04:36:26.640 uh, I guess, uh, let's talk about politics. Yeah. I think there was one more here from the

04:36:34.120 questionnaire. Then I'll get into it. I know you guys had some disagreements. We'll dive

04:36:37.120 into those. Uh, the final thing from the questionnaire here was wrong for high body count men to prefer

04:36:44.220 to date low body count virgin women. That was from you. Um, Oh, uh, it is from Victoria. Actually,

04:36:51.660 I did want to finish off. You said women can be redeemed, right? Even if they've been men can too.

04:36:56.640 Yeah. So, I mean, I'll know, I'll know where we disagree or agree on this. My position is,

04:37:02.680 yeah. I mean, are you looking at it from a religious perspective? Um, no, I don't think you have to be

04:37:07.380 born again or saved, but I think like, let's say you really got around when you were younger,

04:37:12.440 but it's been 10 years and you haven't dated, you haven't slept around. Like that's a really

04:37:16.960 big change. You don't just go backwards. Yeah. So, I mean, you, you've obviously, I assume put in

04:37:23.720 some work there. Uh, you've changed your behavior. However, even if it's been 10 years, I don't think

04:37:30.600 a man is then obligated. Oh, absolutely not. No. I think a man could, could still be within his right

04:37:38.500 to say, Ooh, okay. Between the age of 18 and 20, you done fucked 50 guys, but you've been shit.

04:37:45.300 You've been celibate for 10 years. I think a guy is still within his right. I don't think anybody has

04:37:50.400 to date anybody for any reason, but, but I think it's a, it would, I think certain preferences can

04:37:56.080 be realistic, unrealistic. My position would be, you might say, well, look, she's been celibate for 10

04:38:01.720 years. She, I think it's still realistic as a guy. If a woman fucked 50 dudes in her freshman,

04:38:10.640 first freshman year of college, he can still be like, nah, no. Yeah. Not. Why do you want to know?

04:38:18.200 What do you mean? I think it's important to know. Like, like if it comes out later in the

04:38:22.480 relationship, like I think I said earlier, it's going to be bad. And you have a right to know that

04:38:26.320 the person was, I mean, you're like, yeah, there were promiscuous and a lot comes with that.

04:38:31.460 Especially when you're waiting till marriage, I understand it. But on the other hand,

04:38:35.320 Wait, are you, you're Christian?

04:38:36.640 Yeah.

04:38:37.720 What?

04:38:38.380 Messianic Christian. Yeah.

04:38:39.460 What denominate? What's, do you go to church or?

04:38:44.260 Yeah. Not regularly. I should, but yeah.

04:38:46.780 You're wearing a playboy.

04:38:47.980 I actually, I was a real child because everybody else wanted to be princesses and pop stars.

04:38:54.580 I wanted to be a playmate and I wanted to be Xenon.

04:38:57.980 But let me just put, you know, playboy. I don't know.

04:39:00.740 You don't know what's in her heart.

04:39:01.780 I don't see nudity as, as like, but porn is a different thing. Playboy wasn't that before.

04:39:08.500 Hold on. Playboy has been a nude, nude. Hold on.

04:39:11.680 What?

04:39:12.020 It's, it's been a nude magazine for a long time. It's still like a nude pornographic entity.

04:39:18.540 I don't like the pornographic facts about it, but when you go.

04:39:21.880 You read that shit for the articles? Okay.

04:39:24.020 Yeah, you did before, like earlier.

04:39:27.200 Have you watched all the documentaries that have come out since he died?

04:39:30.980 Christians cannot be in, like, in line with a pornographic commercial entity.

04:39:38.520 They, they're completely conflicting.

04:39:40.040 I think you are giving your money to it.

04:39:42.600 You've had OnlyFans girls on here that said they were Christians.

04:39:47.080 Yeah, that's retarded.

04:39:49.520 But I think it's more.

04:39:50.960 She's just wearing a Playboy sweatshirt.

04:39:53.320 No, but you can't, you can't be.

04:39:54.560 That was actually gifted to me.

04:39:55.940 But still, I think it's more of the idea because when I used to look at Playboy girls and think they were cool, it was, I was so young.

04:40:04.540 It wasn't, like, because of the fact they were doing adult things.

04:40:09.760 It was more of, like, I wanted to be Pamela Anderson.

04:40:13.740 I loved her.

04:40:15.220 Okay.

04:40:15.740 You wanted to fuck a guy with hepatitis?

04:40:18.460 Totally a different thing.

04:40:19.800 I haven't seen Pamela Anderson.

04:40:20.480 You said you wanted to be fucking Pamela Anderson.

04:40:22.140 She fucked Tommy.

04:40:23.060 Does he have hepatitis?

04:40:24.780 I don't know.

04:40:25.260 But you've heard her story.

04:40:26.940 And it's actually, when you think about it as an adult, it's really sad.

04:40:30.720 She was played, for sure.

04:40:31.940 It's literally really sad.

04:40:33.500 I don't know the story.

04:40:33.820 She just wanted to find love.

04:40:35.180 And she was just a blue-eyed girl who was really young, got the fame and everything.

04:40:41.180 So she goes and dates a man who is, by the way, well-known, notorious for being a Playboy.

04:40:48.860 They fell in love.

04:40:49.620 Oh, she fell in love with a guy who was blasted in tattoos and was in a heavy metal.

04:40:53.940 He was in Motley Crue.

04:40:56.100 These guys were definitely, they were definitely known for getting around.

04:41:00.160 That's also the reason why I think men should lead.

04:41:02.520 Because women, we have emotions and we go by them.

04:41:05.940 Pamela Anderson was not naive to the fact that Tommy, oh my, come on.

04:41:10.260 But they were in like committed relationships.

04:41:11.260 But it was a sad story.

04:41:12.400 Let's say I can put myself into her shoes and feel empathy towards her and what she was going through.

04:41:19.540 Okay.

04:41:19.860 What about it?

04:41:21.260 What about it?

04:41:22.140 I don't know.

04:41:22.940 What's your point?

04:41:24.640 About the empathy or about Pamela Anderson or about Playboy?

04:41:27.980 What do you mean?

04:41:30.120 No, I'm just, I look, I guess my confusion here is Christian, but like repping Playboy.

04:41:36.520 Like it'd be like, I'm a Christian, but check out my Koran.

04:41:41.380 Like it doesn't make sense.

04:41:42.800 No, not the same thing.

04:41:43.740 I have vintage Playboy magazines and I'm a Christian.

04:41:47.200 Does that make me not a Christian?

04:41:48.700 Just because I'm holding on to something that isn't...

04:41:51.940 Do you, do you like look at the pornographic content?

04:41:56.100 No, actually, I look at some of the articles.

04:41:59.460 Some of, it's just, it's fun because it's vintage and I love reading and looking at the comics.

04:42:03.560 What denomination, what denomination Christian are you?

04:42:06.360 I...

04:42:06.840 Do you go to church?

04:42:08.080 Sometimes.

04:42:08.900 What, you don't even know your denomination?

04:42:10.580 What's your denomination?

04:42:12.240 I don't know my denomination.

04:42:13.880 I'm not identified.

04:42:15.700 Well, it does say like biblically that it'll be obvious that you're a Christian.

04:42:19.360 So sometimes wearing that kind of stuff, it's not so obvious, you know?

04:42:23.940 I don't judge people.

04:42:25.200 The only one that can judge is God.

04:42:27.380 Exactly.

04:42:27.940 That's not true.

04:42:29.000 Wait, hold on.

04:42:29.760 Doesn't that matter?

04:42:30.640 It should be true.

04:42:31.920 Okay, we're humans.

04:42:33.580 Wait, wait, wait.

04:42:34.400 Look, I'm not, I'm not like a religious theological guy, but I don't know if it's Jesus or like

04:42:40.080 a scripture, doesn't it command you to have righteous judgment?

04:42:45.520 Yes.

04:42:45.920 I don't know the exact...

04:42:46.500 On other Christians, on other Christians.

04:42:48.180 We're supposed to talk the truth.

04:42:49.600 On anybody?

04:42:50.300 No, like, so if somebody is like an outsider, they're not Christian, you're supposed to have

04:42:53.900 a lot more love and patience with them because they don't know what they're doing.

04:42:57.100 They haven't read the Bible.

04:42:58.080 They don't claim to be Christian.

04:42:59.220 They're not claiming to be something they're not.

04:43:02.060 But when you are a Christian and you see your brother or sister in Christ doing something

04:43:05.720 that they shouldn't be, you are supposed to come with them, come to them lovingly,

04:43:09.280 kindly, and just share what you believe is the truth.

04:43:12.800 Wait, hold on.

04:43:13.720 Didn't Jesus fucking throw over the table and didn't he have a whip or something?

04:43:19.140 I don't know the exact details.

04:43:20.260 If they won't...

04:43:20.280 He's actually a whip.

04:43:21.680 Like, the money lenders or something?

04:43:24.320 I don't know the...

04:43:25.000 Look, I'm not...

04:43:26.120 I don't know all the details or whatever.

04:43:27.500 If they refuse to turn away from the sin, then, yeah, you're supposed to come at them.

04:43:31.960 I love Bonnie Exos.

04:43:33.260 He's done other stuff and he isn't a Christian.

04:43:35.640 Look, I honestly, if a girl wears a Playboy sweater, hoodie, I don't really care.

04:43:41.640 But if you tell me you're a Christian, then I'm kind of like, wait, that's kind of confusing.

04:43:46.500 Does that make sense?

04:43:48.800 I get it.

04:43:49.740 But on the other hand, no, it doesn't make sense.

04:43:52.160 No, but Playboy is a pornographic commercial entity.

04:43:57.420 Yeah, on that hand, it makes sense.

04:43:59.060 But there's a reason why, I'm sorry, but there's a reason why, you know, all Christians, they

04:44:05.960 always say this one thing.

04:44:07.000 They say, forgive them, Father, for they don't know.

04:44:08.940 I don't blame you for wearing that.

04:44:10.440 I know that I, myself, I'm a sinner.

04:44:11.920 I do a lot of things I shouldn't be doing.

04:44:13.940 You know, I think we as Christians also need to be striving to be better and closer to God

04:44:18.040 and love God more than our sin.

04:44:20.180 Is wearing this necessarily a sin?

04:44:22.700 No.

04:44:23.100 There are far...

04:44:23.920 I mean, there's people shooting and killing each other out there.

04:44:26.020 But I think what everyone is just trying to tell you is that it is, the first step is

04:44:30.760 awareness.

04:44:31.540 Because if we let ourselves get by with small little things, eventually it's going to grow

04:44:36.340 and grow and grow.

04:44:37.080 Am I going to say that, am I saying that you're going to go out and do something really, really

04:44:40.160 dumb?

04:44:40.540 No.

04:44:41.040 But I think it's just more of the accountability in a sense.

04:44:44.560 But look, that's a cool sweatshirt.

04:44:46.680 It's super minor.

04:44:48.040 Look, it's super minor.

04:44:49.840 To be honest.

04:44:50.240 It is super minor, but it did catch my attention.

04:44:53.040 It's a little bit.

04:44:54.720 But I kind of like to think about things in a way, like Jesus said that children come

04:45:00.180 to me because the kingdom of heaven is like them.

04:45:02.400 You show this to a child and they will just see a cute bunny.

04:45:08.160 I would get it if I would go around with a pussy on my shirt, but that's like a different

04:45:12.540 thing.

04:45:13.080 I think I'd have a bigger problem if you bought it, because then you're giving money to that.

04:45:16.760 Adults know what you're signaling.

04:45:20.240 And so it wouldn't be strictly restricted to the interpretation of what, yeah, I agree.

04:45:27.560 A child probably isn't familiar with the logo of Playboy, but there's other people in the

04:45:34.300 world that aren't children that are going to make an assessment of what you're wearing.

04:45:38.860 Honestly, it's really minor.

04:45:39.920 But then I have like many other things of it.

04:45:43.080 I used to love the logo, even as a kid.

04:45:45.640 I don't blame.

04:45:48.360 It's a cute freaking bunny.

04:45:49.880 How about this?

04:45:50.380 But afterwards.

04:45:51.140 A Christian girl who has a Playboy bunny tattoo.

04:45:53.640 Yeah.

04:45:54.320 That's confusing.

04:45:55.400 Actually, no one.

04:45:56.540 But yeah.

04:45:57.080 But that's confusing.

04:45:57.940 Yeah, it's true.

04:45:58.840 It's true.

04:45:59.360 A girl who has like a, she has a necklace, but she's a Christian, but she's got a Playboy

04:46:03.600 bunny necklace.

04:46:05.360 I have tattoos.

04:46:06.120 Even that is a problem, to be honest, like as a Christian.

04:46:08.880 Perhaps, but I'm just focused on the Playboy bunny thing, you know?

04:46:12.020 So you took the one that I can take it off and like get rid of, but the tattoo is not

04:46:16.820 that bad.

04:46:17.640 I did a lot of like reading before I got my tattoos because I took it so seriously and

04:46:20.940 I don't really think tattoos are that bad.

04:46:22.840 Just saying, but.

04:46:24.180 Uh, well.

04:46:25.040 I've always thought that.

04:46:25.720 Message from the government of Canada.

04:46:27.480 Pasty George donated $200 and four cents.

04:46:30.960 Thank you, man.

04:46:31.340 To add to what Brian just said, that is why many Western men are seeking traditional,

04:46:36.860 non-feministic women from other countries who are respectful, feminine, and don't have

04:46:41.620 a high body count.

04:46:43.780 Hmm.

04:46:44.940 I think we were talking about like finishing up the body count thing.

04:46:47.900 Oh yeah, I think we, no, we already did.

04:46:49.480 I mean, basically my position is, uh, yeah, they, the women can definitely redeem themselves,

04:46:54.480 but I don't think men, even if they have redeemed themselves, a man can still look at a

04:46:59.540 woman's past, even if she's completely changed from that past and be like, I don't want anything

04:47:06.380 to do with that.

04:47:07.280 I think he should be able to have that choice.

04:47:08.660 Wait, you're giving me a look like you disagree.

04:47:11.280 No?

04:47:11.840 Jesus.

04:47:12.600 Now I can't even have a look.

04:47:14.680 I can't, I can't look.

04:47:15.940 I don't know if you, do you agree?

04:47:17.500 You disagree?

04:47:18.120 Like.

04:47:18.340 My face is just too expressive.

04:47:19.980 Just continue, please.

04:47:21.880 So you, you're fine with my position then?

04:47:23.880 Yes, totally.

04:47:25.200 I don't, I personally.

04:47:25.900 I think she can wear, I can think people can wear whatever the hell they want.

04:47:28.560 Um, she doesn't look like a hooker, so I'm fine with it.

04:47:32.480 Um, if she was, I would make a different judgment.

04:47:35.720 The, the bunny sweatshirt, you know, I know it's playboy.

04:47:38.540 I know what it is, but.

04:47:40.120 I mean, again, I, like, I'm, it's just something I noticed.

04:47:43.640 I agree with you.

04:47:44.380 It's pretty minor, but it is a little.

04:47:47.400 It is a little bit.

04:47:48.380 The tattoo is another thing.

04:47:49.720 It is a little bit like, is it in line with Christianity?

04:47:56.460 Probably not, but whatever.

04:47:58.620 I, it's super minor.

04:48:00.360 Like, it's a, it's a nitpick.

04:48:02.460 Yeah.

04:48:03.360 Okay.

04:48:04.000 All right.

04:48:04.420 We're going to get into, uh, let's see if they're, no, I think, uh.

04:48:08.840 You got to nitpick this crew because we're all pretty cool.

04:48:12.600 So, so super cool.

04:48:14.180 It's because we waited a little too long for Nick to let us in, so we got to know each other

04:48:17.800 downstairs.

04:48:18.300 Oh, lovely.

04:48:18.600 Yeah, we all agreed we were going to be really agreeable with each other and you.

04:48:22.460 Love it.

04:48:22.800 But, okay, um, here, we're going to get into some of the pre-show notes here.

04:48:26.720 So, we are going to do, um, actually here, let's just do this.

04:48:33.120 Asmund Gold TV.

04:48:34.780 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten.

04:48:38.200 You can't pick seven.

04:48:39.100 Thank you, Zach.

04:48:39.860 Appreciate that.

04:48:41.040 Uh, rate your own looks.

04:48:43.360 Scale of one to ten.

04:48:44.120 Can't pick seven.

04:48:45.820 Ten.

04:48:46.460 Ten?

04:48:46.880 Okay.

04:48:47.500 Tilt your mic down a little bit.

04:48:48.480 What about you?

04:48:51.700 Six.

04:48:52.100 Okay.

04:48:52.680 What?

04:48:53.500 I think six, there's always room for improvement.

04:48:56.240 All right.

04:48:57.700 Here are six.

04:48:58.400 Go ahead.

04:48:58.820 Seven and a half.

04:48:59.920 You can't, uh, six or eight.

04:49:02.600 If you have to pick one.

04:49:03.980 Six.

04:49:04.580 Six.

04:49:04.940 Okay.

04:49:05.460 My husband said on the way here to say solid eight, but I'm going to say five.

04:49:09.700 Okay.

04:49:10.640 I say five.

04:49:12.600 Five.

04:49:14.180 Three.

04:49:15.640 Oh, my God.

04:49:16.240 I would say the same answer.

04:49:17.980 Just give the same answer.

04:49:18.860 Six.

04:49:19.140 Okay.

04:49:19.620 I give myself a five.

04:49:20.640 All right.

04:49:21.300 Um, okay.

04:49:22.400 Pretty.

04:49:22.760 Wow.

04:49:23.000 Pretty reasonable.

04:49:24.660 Except for you.

04:49:26.260 You gotta have confidence.

04:49:27.580 So, Maria, since we have the most, uh.

04:49:29.880 She's literally a model with, like, campaigns and stuff, though.

04:49:32.860 Yep.

04:49:33.620 You just gotta have confidence.

04:49:35.020 You gotta be confident.

04:49:35.540 Do you think these.

04:49:36.100 I've seen models that are not tens.

04:49:37.720 Should these women be more confident, Maria?

04:49:40.000 Yes.

04:49:40.800 They're gorgeous.

04:49:41.540 They all have their own attributes, like.

04:49:44.180 Maria.

04:49:44.760 Yes.

04:49:45.820 What?

04:49:46.860 What are you asking me?

04:49:47.320 We're gonna go around the table and rate us.

04:49:48.960 We're not all tens.

04:49:49.540 What are you asking me?

04:49:50.280 No, Maria.

04:49:50.680 Come on.

04:49:51.460 Did I say they're all tens?

04:49:52.840 Sidebar.

04:49:53.440 Sidebar this shit.

04:49:54.320 I mean.

04:49:54.640 Here, do this.

04:49:55.580 Just you and me.

04:49:56.360 Do this.

04:49:56.460 They can go higher than the numbers they said.

04:49:58.200 Do this.

04:49:59.300 Maria, do this.

04:50:00.240 They can go higher.

04:50:01.100 Maria.

04:50:01.540 Than what they said.

04:50:02.320 Maria Gertrude.

04:50:04.060 I'm not gonna say your last name.

04:50:07.020 Gertrude?

04:50:07.440 Okay.

04:50:07.560 That's your middle name, is Gertrude.

04:50:08.660 Gertrude.

04:50:09.240 Maria Gertrude Smith.

04:50:12.480 Do this.

04:50:13.480 Okay.

04:50:13.820 What do I.

04:50:14.100 Put the blinders up.

04:50:15.980 Okay.

04:50:16.940 You can tell me the truth.

04:50:18.720 On who?

04:50:19.980 The fucking whole panel.

04:50:21.580 The whole panel?

04:50:22.440 Yeah, tell me the.

04:50:23.460 Felicity?

04:50:24.040 Fucking whisper.

04:50:25.260 Three?

04:50:25.860 She said a three?

04:50:27.100 I said six.

04:50:28.500 Six?

04:50:29.000 That's still low.

04:50:31.840 Okay.

04:50:32.860 Well.

04:50:34.820 Do you think everybody should just say I'm a ten?

04:50:38.260 If they're confident within themselves, why not?

04:50:41.320 I'm pretty confident I'm a.

04:50:45.060 Wait, question.

04:50:45.860 Because.

04:50:46.420 I'm sorry.

04:50:47.120 Question for you then, just Maria.

04:50:49.160 Yeah, sorry.

04:50:50.120 No, no, no, you're good.

04:50:51.000 That was like one.

04:50:53.520 Do you think it.

04:50:54.720 So that's your own rating.

04:50:56.060 Do you think it changes like you're in a room with a thousand men?

04:50:59.580 What do you think the average would be if they were rating you?

04:51:02.300 Um, typically I attract from my history, all races, like they, they're going to be trying

04:51:11.660 to say the best of the best to get with me.

04:51:13.960 So.

04:51:15.020 No, but they're not trying to hit.

04:51:19.660 Even if they're not, they're still going to probably say eight and up, I would assume.

04:51:23.980 But what do you think the average rating would be?

04:51:26.440 Eight.

04:51:27.460 Okay.

04:51:28.000 Eight.

04:51:28.560 So less than 10.

04:51:29.520 Why is that?

04:51:30.040 Why do you say that?

04:51:30.640 Uh, I mean, if you're playing me in a room full of like many different people with different,

04:51:34.500 different cross section of.

04:51:37.460 Yeah.

04:51:38.220 Yeah.

04:51:38.920 Like there's some black people, some white people, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

04:51:42.100 Blondes that they like different looks, you know?

04:51:45.280 Sure.

04:51:46.940 Okay.

04:51:48.000 Uh, does it change?

04:51:49.360 Like, uh, let's just say it's, I mean, you brought it about, made about race, uh, white

04:51:55.120 guys.

04:51:56.460 What did, what's the average rating then?

04:51:58.940 Um, versus black guys.

04:52:00.200 I guess I'm curious.

04:52:01.360 Uh, do the white guys, whatever.

04:52:05.780 I'll just, I would say it's about, yeah, still the same, like eight.

04:52:09.240 Both the white and the Asian, whatever.

04:52:11.680 Asian guys.

04:52:12.420 Yeah.

04:52:13.260 How do you do with the Indians though?

04:52:17.640 Um, they would probably say two similar rating because I'm Brown.

04:52:22.420 Um, so gotcha.

04:52:23.320 Yeah.

04:52:23.480 All right.

04:52:23.760 There you go.

04:52:24.560 Um, let's see.

04:52:27.420 Uh, tell me, can you tell me a girl that you think is a 10, like a famous girl out there?

04:52:32.480 Famous girl right now.

04:52:33.680 If you can think of two or three, feel free.

04:52:36.660 Um.

04:52:36.900 Like a white girl, a black girl, and a Asian girl, I guess.

04:52:41.420 I guess Beyonce.

04:52:43.000 We all know that.

04:52:44.060 Um, Sabrina Carpenter.

04:52:45.860 Sabrina Carpenter.

04:52:46.520 Um, eh, she had 10.

04:52:50.140 Ah!

04:52:50.900 Or disagree.

04:52:52.800 Disagree.

04:52:53.320 Disagree.

04:52:53.960 Um, Ariana Grande was somewhat before, I don't know what's going on now.

04:52:59.800 Before the eyebrow thing, yeah.

04:53:01.900 Very skinny.

04:53:03.620 Skinny.

04:53:04.000 Yeah, the 70 pound body.

04:53:06.780 Yeah.

04:53:07.380 Before all that.

04:53:09.140 I think she went through a lot.

04:53:10.040 I mean, she's always been pretty trim, I think.

04:53:12.040 Oh yeah, she was a tiny girl.

04:53:14.340 Petite woman.

04:53:15.180 When she was a teenager, she was a little curvier.

04:53:17.200 Oh yeah, she did lose some of the weight, yeah.

04:53:19.940 Okay, uh, tell me a guy who's a 10.

04:53:22.100 A guy, um, what's his name?

04:53:25.020 Denzel.

04:53:25.940 No, not Denzel.

04:53:27.100 Not Denzel, what the fuck?

04:53:28.400 Taylor Lautner, but who's that other one right now?

04:53:29.620 Taylor Lautner.

04:53:30.240 The one off Euphoria, uh, what's his name?

04:53:31.980 The werewolf?

04:53:32.520 The guy who plays names?

04:53:33.220 Jacob Elordi.

04:53:34.100 Yeah, Jacob.

04:53:35.120 Can you Google these?

04:53:36.080 Jacob Elordi.

04:53:37.940 Um, Taylor Lautner?

04:53:39.700 This girl was a Twilight fan.

04:53:42.080 This girl had.

04:53:42.760 That's the first that came to mind.

04:53:43.800 Had this poster on the.

04:53:44.980 That's the first that came to mind.

04:53:47.640 Um, weren't you like 10 when that movie came out?

04:53:50.480 Definitely.

04:53:51.200 In our range.

04:53:52.380 Right.

04:53:53.200 Something like that.

04:53:53.480 But we all watched it.

04:53:54.400 You had a little crush on Taylor?

04:53:55.820 Okay.

04:53:56.380 It's cute.

04:53:57.260 Uh, do you have any of those, Nick?

04:54:02.080 Uh, yeah.

04:54:03.460 Well, I mean.

04:54:04.160 Tall, dark, and handsome.

04:54:04.640 These are not, honestly, those are not the most flattering photos, to be honest.

04:54:08.040 So not a dim.

04:54:08.140 Never was.

04:54:09.280 Never?

04:54:09.880 He never was my guy.

04:54:11.120 Of course, Nick wants to look at those shirtless photos.

04:54:16.660 Goes straight to it.

04:54:18.180 A little sus there, Nick.

04:54:19.920 Um, all right.

04:54:20.500 We get the idea.

04:54:21.500 Um, okay.

04:54:23.640 And, uh, do you think Megan Fox is a 10?

04:54:27.620 When she was younger?

04:54:28.360 Yeah.

04:54:28.880 Yeah, she's gorgeous.

04:54:29.460 Okay, so just to be, just so I understand correctly, uh, you, Megan Fox, on par.

04:54:38.420 Okay.

04:54:39.580 All right.

04:54:40.160 Um, do you think you're, do you think he, when you say you're a 10, are you, are there

04:54:47.420 any women who are more beautiful than you?

04:54:49.780 Or are you, like, you're at the peak, they're at the peak, you're just as good looking as

04:54:54.480 I would say, yeah, I can, I can stand next to the best looking woman and change my parents

04:55:00.100 makeup, you know, change hair, like alter things.

04:55:05.040 Okay.

04:55:05.820 So there's no women in the world that are more beautiful than you.

04:55:08.820 No, no.

04:55:09.740 Oh, no, I wouldn't say that.

04:55:11.080 But who's a, who's a woman who's more beautiful than you?

04:55:13.960 I don't know.

04:55:14.520 Beyonce.

04:55:15.560 I mean, she's older now.

04:55:16.720 So like, yeah, as far as in youth right now, I don't know, 20 year old Beyonce, destiny's

04:55:22.660 child, whatever, was she better looking?

04:55:26.840 I think I could stand next to her.

04:55:28.560 Like, stand next to her.

04:55:30.700 I'm not really a Beyonce fan, to be honest.

04:55:33.260 So I don't know.

04:55:34.380 No.

04:55:34.980 Um, but this, you said there, there are some women who are more beautiful than you, from

04:55:40.820 your perspective.

04:55:41.900 It's just perspective based, really.

04:55:44.040 Who's more beautiful than you?

04:55:44.720 I don't even know.

04:55:45.380 It would just be girls from other countries.

04:55:46.600 Like maybe like some Brazilian girls.

04:55:49.120 Like Adriana Lima.

04:55:50.080 Yeah.

04:55:50.640 Exactly.

04:55:51.260 Yeah.

04:55:51.380 Was she?

04:55:51.700 She would, yes.

04:55:52.880 She's gorgeous.

04:55:53.280 But you're a 10.

04:55:53.900 Gorgeous.

04:55:54.300 She's a 10.

04:55:54.960 How could you guys be?

04:55:55.940 I mean, we look different though.

04:55:57.420 So it's like, we can't.

04:55:58.440 Yeah, but you say she's better looking than you.

04:56:00.100 I mean, in her prime, yeah.

04:56:03.400 Yeah.

04:56:04.660 So, but she was a 10 in her prime?

04:56:07.220 Yeah.

04:56:07.680 But you're not as good looking as.

04:56:09.240 Um, I would say, I mean, in a different way.

04:56:10.960 So you're like a 9.9, 9.8?

04:56:12.740 No, I don't know.

04:56:14.060 I don't know.

04:56:14.520 That's just like up to debate, but.

04:56:18.100 And I'm trying to think if there's any other questions on, on that.

04:56:24.780 Hmm.

04:56:27.320 Um.

04:56:29.920 Okay.

04:56:30.460 That's pretty much it.

04:56:31.340 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time?

04:56:33.820 Starting with you?

04:56:34.900 Oh.

04:56:35.440 At 37?

04:56:36.540 I think I'll still look young.

04:56:38.700 Will you be better looking than you currently look now?

04:56:42.220 Probably not.

04:56:42.720 Okay, and then, uh, you're 27, were you better looking at 18 or better looking now?

04:56:48.100 I think better looking now.

04:56:49.400 Okay.

04:56:49.920 36, better at 46, better looking, 46?

04:56:54.100 Probably not.

04:56:55.220 And then you're 36, better looking at 26, or better now?

04:57:00.680 Better at 26.

04:57:02.020 Okay.

04:57:02.760 19, better looking at 29?

04:57:05.840 Uh, I honestly feel like I'm going to look the same.

04:57:08.340 My mom, she looks the exact same from when she was 18 years old.

04:57:12.340 So, it's in the Asian genes.

04:57:13.920 Okay.

04:57:14.300 Uh, what about 39?

04:57:17.360 39, I'll probably be getting a little bit old, some wrinkles, maybe.

04:57:21.700 So, better looking, the same, worse?

04:57:24.540 I honestly think I'm going to be the same.

04:57:25.920 My mom is like 50, 50.

04:57:28.580 She still looks the same.

04:57:29.540 I'm not even joking.

04:57:30.420 Is she, uh, married or?

04:57:32.000 Yeah, she's married to my father.

04:57:32.900 She's married?

04:57:33.440 Okay.

04:57:33.600 Yes.

04:57:33.980 Mm-hmm.

04:57:34.220 I was just asking for Nick, because he kind of likes, he likes the older women, you know?

04:57:39.880 Oh, God.

04:57:40.340 And you said she's, like, still a babe, so.

04:57:42.680 Yeah, she's gorgeous.

04:57:43.760 Major babe status.

04:57:44.600 Absolutely stunning.

04:57:44.960 I can show you guys afterwards.

04:57:46.420 Yeah.

04:57:47.240 Sorry, Nick.

04:57:48.000 I love that you want to show off your mom.

04:57:49.160 I'm sorry.

04:57:50.180 Next time.

04:57:51.660 Okay.

04:57:52.040 Uh, when do you, is there, like, a point, like, 49, 59, 69?

04:57:56.060 Mm-hmm.

04:57:56.600 I will say probably 60.

04:57:59.080 Uh, I, I don't know about me personally.

04:58:01.300 I do have some of my father's genes.

04:58:02.720 He's Moroccan.

04:58:03.500 So, I don't know how it's going to go.

04:58:05.760 But, um, I would say I would start probably looking different.

04:58:10.180 40, to be safe.

04:58:11.280 50.

04:58:12.240 So, mm-hmm.

04:58:12.960 Sure.

04:58:13.760 40, 50.

04:58:15.480 When, do you have a peak?

04:58:17.040 Do you know when the peak will be?

04:58:18.480 I hope I didn't reach my peak yet.

04:58:20.260 I hope I'm going to keep going.

04:58:20.700 No, but do you, do you think it'll be 30, 40?

04:58:23.320 I want to say, I want to say 27, 27.

04:58:28.060 Oh, okay.

04:58:28.840 All right.

04:58:29.340 What about you?

04:58:29.860 Better looking, you're 31, better looking 41?

04:58:32.500 I was better looking at 21, and I won't be better looking in 10 years.

04:58:38.820 Okay.

04:58:39.520 All right.

04:58:40.520 Uh, you're 32, better looking at 42?

04:58:43.600 No.

04:58:44.200 And then were you better looking 22?

04:58:45.740 Absolutely.

04:58:46.360 I was a babe.

04:58:47.880 Babe.

04:58:48.400 Yeah.

04:58:48.760 Babe status.

04:58:49.960 Yeah.

04:58:50.360 I was so modest, though.

04:58:51.300 I never showed it off, unfortunately.

04:58:52.740 Which is unfortunate, but you know what I mean.

04:58:55.140 Right.

04:58:55.500 Uh, 35?

04:58:56.860 Mm-hmm.

04:58:57.140 Better looking, 10 years time, 45?

04:58:59.580 I think I'm going to be better looking.

04:59:01.340 At 45?

04:59:02.400 Maybe.

04:59:03.160 Yeah.

04:59:03.300 Yeah, yeah.

04:59:03.500 That's fine.

04:59:04.000 Uh, 55, better looking?

04:59:06.240 55?

04:59:07.200 Yeah.

04:59:07.520 20 years?

04:59:08.640 Oh.

04:59:10.220 Mm-hmm.

04:59:11.060 Probably.

04:59:11.440 I mean, my mom's really pretty, too, so maybe.

04:59:14.320 But, maybe not.

04:59:15.840 Um, but you, you, you will be better looking at 45?

04:59:21.100 I think so.

04:59:21.860 Versus what any?

04:59:22.780 I say that just because of, um, my awareness now and taking care of myself.

04:59:28.060 So, I feel like in 10 years, I'll be better.

04:59:31.260 What will be different in 10 years?

04:59:33.360 My weight.

04:59:35.280 I see.

04:59:36.080 Yeah.

04:59:36.620 A question, though.

04:59:37.680 Assuming you don't change your weight at all, will you be better looking at 45?

04:59:42.340 No.

04:59:42.980 Okay.

04:59:43.780 Uh, and then were you better looking at 25?

04:59:46.280 No, I think I'm better now.

04:59:48.020 Okay.

04:59:48.480 Did you lose weight from 25?

04:59:50.460 I did.

04:59:51.060 Okay.

04:59:51.960 18?

04:59:52.560 Better looking in 10 years?

04:59:54.860 I think so, yeah.

04:59:55.920 20 years?

04:59:56.780 38?

04:59:57.760 Okay.

04:59:57.960 I think it'll decline after 27.

04:59:59.600 All right.

05:00:00.040 We are doing our, our much appreciated segment.

05:00:04.240 We've put all of you through AI to assess.

05:00:07.360 Oh, man.

05:00:07.780 Oh, great.

05:00:08.500 Oh, no.

05:00:08.840 Yeah.

05:00:09.200 I love it.

05:00:09.900 I can show you my mom.

05:00:10.380 Do you have all these, Nick?

05:00:11.680 Yep.

05:00:12.260 Does mine still have pink hair?

05:00:13.360 Do we have gender, too?

05:00:14.040 Through AI.

05:00:14.480 Okay.

05:00:15.160 All right.

05:00:15.840 Go ahead.

05:00:16.620 Pull it up.

05:00:19.340 Oh, no.

05:00:21.540 No.

05:00:22.840 Oh, no.

05:00:23.880 Oh, God.

05:00:24.800 It will not be that.

05:00:26.420 I will have Botox.

05:00:28.780 All right.

05:00:30.180 It will not be that.

05:00:31.440 Oh, Jesus.

05:00:34.040 Okay.

05:00:34.940 Oh, God.

05:00:35.440 I don't want to see this.

05:00:36.600 Oh.

05:00:36.840 It looks good.

05:00:39.260 Oh, gosh.

05:00:41.480 It still looks good.

05:00:42.600 AI.

05:00:43.220 Okay.

05:00:43.700 I'm having a midlife crisis already.

05:00:46.240 Next.

05:00:48.540 Oh.

05:00:49.660 Okay.

05:00:50.340 Yes.

05:00:51.440 Um.

05:00:51.760 You don't want to do dirty.

05:00:52.980 Don't do that.

05:00:53.960 Don't do that.

05:00:54.540 What is that?

05:00:54.560 Like, 60 and 80.

05:00:56.300 60 and 80.

05:00:57.000 Yeah.

05:00:57.300 It still looks good.

05:00:59.140 Okay.

05:01:00.740 Not a fan, it seems.

05:01:02.420 I don't know.

05:01:03.640 All right.

05:01:04.320 Next.

05:01:06.420 What?

05:01:07.460 No.

05:01:10.100 Oh, no.

05:01:10.740 No, you should see it.

05:01:13.340 Actually.

05:01:14.560 That is so bad.

05:01:15.820 That's pretty.

05:01:16.620 I think that's pretty accurate, to be honest.

05:01:18.720 What?

05:01:19.400 That's what he says to be mean when it's really bad.

05:01:21.440 I'm not trying to.

05:01:22.060 No.

05:01:22.620 That is so.

05:01:23.300 I think that's actually kind of reasonable.

05:01:25.340 Oh, God.

05:01:26.200 Maybe her eyes turn, like, 60 and 70.

05:01:28.440 They're, like, sunken in.

05:01:29.920 Her eyes turn black.

05:01:31.000 That's not bad.

05:01:31.240 I think that's.

05:01:32.940 I don't know.

05:01:34.480 AI isn't real.

05:01:35.560 Like, you're 31 now.

05:01:37.120 The middle one is bad.

05:01:37.200 The middle one is, like, 50.

05:01:39.380 51?

05:01:40.740 Maybe.

05:01:41.100 Oh, God.

05:01:42.160 Maybe 60.

05:01:43.000 The far one is a little scary.

05:01:43.860 The far one is that.

05:01:45.000 That's, like, 80.

05:01:46.080 Like, 85?

05:01:47.300 Yeah.

05:01:48.240 Eh, maybe 70.

05:01:48.960 If you see my mom, she's 62.

05:01:50.240 She looks nothing like that at all.

05:01:51.860 All right.

05:01:52.560 Well, there you go.

05:01:54.140 Next.

05:01:55.720 No, no, no.

05:01:56.760 Oh, my God.

05:01:57.720 My mom is great skin.

05:01:59.180 I'll say that.

05:01:59.560 And I love her.

05:02:00.480 But, no, that's not going to be me.

05:02:02.520 That's not that bad.

05:02:03.400 You look like you would work at a prison.

05:02:05.200 Yeah.

05:02:05.800 And smoke, like, three packs a day.

05:02:09.100 Next.

05:02:10.740 Oh, no.

05:02:11.380 No, no, no.

05:02:12.960 No.

05:02:16.040 That's bad.

05:02:17.560 No, you look cute.

05:02:18.500 You look like a cute teacher.

05:02:20.420 This is what the future holds.

05:02:22.420 Next.

05:02:24.960 He's cute.

05:02:25.500 Aw.

05:02:28.080 Sweet little lady.

05:02:29.280 Cute granny.

05:02:30.480 All right.

05:02:31.560 Next.

05:02:31.980 Girl, you're so much prettier than that.

05:02:33.260 Wow.

05:02:34.380 No.

05:02:34.940 They did you dirty, Felicity.

05:02:36.000 They did you dirty.

05:02:36.560 No way.

05:02:38.100 Aw.

05:02:38.600 She's so upset.

05:02:39.900 Just not.

05:02:40.880 Okay.

05:02:41.340 There you go.

05:02:42.060 Oh, my gosh.

05:02:42.520 Santa.

05:02:42.860 What are you doing to your nose?

05:02:44.040 Yeah, it was like the same thing.

05:02:45.200 It looks like a nut.

05:02:45.980 Your nose never stops growing.

05:02:47.160 I mean, I already got a big nose.

05:02:48.680 Not that big.

05:02:50.120 Okay, Felicity.

05:02:51.360 So, I like the other old one that they usually do.

05:02:55.500 I don't know.

05:02:55.880 The Santa Claus one.

05:02:58.180 And then we've changed all of your genders.

05:03:01.420 Oh.

05:03:02.060 So, the question is, would you date the male version of you?

05:03:07.160 Oh.

05:03:08.060 Let me see.

05:03:09.320 That was a little weird gesture there.

05:03:11.060 Okay.

05:03:12.980 Boom.

05:03:13.660 Ah!

05:03:14.440 Wow.

05:03:16.800 Okay.

05:03:17.360 He looks kind of fine.

05:03:19.220 Yeah, I would.

05:03:20.720 You date him?

05:03:21.600 Yeah.

05:03:22.020 Okay.

05:03:22.480 All right.

05:03:22.980 Is he a 10?

05:03:24.680 I would say he like a 9.

05:03:26.780 A 9?

05:03:27.340 Okay.

05:03:28.600 Do you like the hair?

05:03:29.040 I don't know how tall he is.

05:03:29.860 I love the hair.

05:03:30.940 I'm loving the hair.

05:03:31.480 The hair is not bad.

05:03:32.700 The hair is good.

05:03:33.260 Suave.

05:03:33.880 Like full, thick-headed hair.

05:03:35.740 Yeah.

05:03:36.000 You know?

05:03:38.680 That's hilarious.

05:03:39.580 Rico Suave?

05:03:40.420 Is that what you said?

05:03:40.740 Literally, yes.

05:03:42.320 So, you would date him?

05:03:43.200 Rico.

05:03:44.100 You would date him?

05:03:44.880 I would date him.

05:03:45.320 That's a good song, by the way.

05:03:45.800 For sure.

05:03:46.460 Okay, next.

05:03:49.120 Okay.

05:03:50.560 Wait, put it back up.

05:03:51.600 Yeah, I'll put it back.

05:03:52.440 Okay.

05:03:53.640 You were good.

05:03:53.900 Yeah, probably better as a dude.

05:03:55.440 Would you, if you were single, would you date that guy?

05:04:01.540 I'm more into blondes and blue eyes and green eyes, but yeah, not bad.

05:04:06.040 I wouldn't say no.

05:04:07.940 Okay.

05:04:09.000 Next.

05:04:10.460 Oh, no.

05:04:12.520 Wow.

05:04:13.280 Stop.

05:04:13.780 That's brutal.

05:04:15.380 Oh, no, no, no, no, no.

05:04:17.160 Hold on.

05:04:18.360 Whoa.

05:04:19.260 So, look.

05:04:20.500 I'm going to do a trigger warning.

05:04:22.820 I'm about to pull it back up.

05:04:25.720 That's fair.

05:04:26.580 That's fair.

05:04:27.160 Just warning you.

05:04:28.940 Oh, God.

05:04:30.300 Why did it do it like that?

05:04:32.740 Holy shit.

05:04:34.520 Oh, my goodness.

05:04:35.300 Um, so the question is.

05:04:38.280 They shrunk his head.

05:04:40.960 Like.

05:04:42.160 Would you date the male version of you?

05:04:45.020 No, I wouldn't.

05:04:48.220 Can we see again?

05:04:48.920 Is that Noah?

05:04:50.940 No.

05:04:51.840 He has, like, a lazy eye.

05:04:53.900 Wait, is your boyfriend, is he white guy?

05:04:55.740 He's white.

05:04:56.360 White guy.

05:04:57.340 Question for you.

05:04:58.580 Um, have you dated an Asian guy?

05:05:01.800 Actually, no.

05:05:02.940 No, I haven't.

05:05:03.480 Only white guys, or?

05:05:05.340 Uh, white, and the other one, he was mixed, so he was white and black.

05:05:11.960 Okay.

05:05:12.420 Mixed race.

05:05:13.480 Yes.

05:05:13.620 Gotcha.

05:05:14.620 Like 50-50 or something.

05:05:16.100 Well, I don't know what everyone does.

05:05:17.180 Light skin.

05:05:18.020 Light skin.

05:05:18.640 Okay.

05:05:19.040 Light skin.

05:05:20.360 No Asian guys?

05:05:22.000 No, actually.

05:05:25.340 Um, are you Vietnamese?

05:05:27.300 No.

05:05:27.780 Sorry.

05:05:28.080 My mom is.

05:05:28.900 I know you're half.

05:05:29.580 You're half Moroccan, and then half.

05:05:32.060 Taiwanese.

05:05:32.380 Taiwanese.

05:05:32.700 Taiwanese.

05:05:33.360 Okay.

05:05:34.300 Uh, no Filipinos in there?

05:05:37.240 No.

05:05:38.320 Vietnamese?

05:05:39.460 No.

05:05:39.940 Cambodian?

05:05:41.060 Mm-mm.

05:05:41.500 Laos?

05:05:43.120 Mm-mm.

05:05:43.600 Mongolian?

05:05:44.780 I don't think so.

05:05:45.940 Korean?

05:05:46.140 I do know my, uh, my grandfather, he, um, migrated from China to Taiwan, so I don't

05:05:53.000 know if that may be, there might be some mixing.

05:05:55.220 Oh, no, I mean, uh, have you dated a guy who's any of those?

05:05:58.720 Mm-mm.

05:05:59.620 No Asian guys?

05:06:00.500 Nope.

05:06:00.700 Would you?

05:06:02.880 Or are you, I know some, uh, I've heard from some Asian women, and they say, you know,

05:06:06.940 I'm not, I'm not attracted to Asian guys.

05:06:10.140 They say that.

05:06:10.700 Mm-mm.

05:06:11.080 Mm-mm.

05:06:11.300 Are you, are you, are you into Asian guys?

05:06:16.800 I mean, I know myself better.

05:06:19.480 There's been many times I said I wouldn't date a certain race, and then, actually, both

05:06:24.260 races I said that I wouldn't date, I found myself in, so, um, now I'm like, no, I don't

05:06:30.720 think, uh, and I don't mean that in a racist way.

05:06:33.260 Sure.

05:06:33.540 You know, that's kind of, yeah, um, but, um, yeah, no, if, yeah, I don't see myself

05:06:40.040 not dating an Asian guy, so.

05:06:41.520 But so far, you haven't, you haven't.

05:06:43.080 Mm-mm.

05:06:43.940 Uh, okay.

05:06:44.800 Have you ever, like, rejected an Asian guy?

05:06:47.040 Yes.

05:06:48.280 Okay.

05:06:49.220 Uh, next one, por favor, or wait, show us, sorry, one last time.

05:06:53.900 That's so brutal.

05:06:55.040 You know what, maybe that means I'm meant to be a woman, guys.

05:06:59.260 Oh, yeah?

05:07:00.140 Yeah.

05:07:03.380 Yeah.

05:07:04.060 Yeah, yeah, um, next.

05:07:07.620 Mm-mm.

05:07:08.380 Oh.

05:07:09.500 Oh.

05:07:10.700 Yikes.

05:07:12.240 Oh.

05:07:12.660 Wait, he's not.

05:07:13.420 He looks Finnish.

05:07:14.240 Wait, low-key?

05:07:15.680 Does he look Finnish to you?

05:07:17.220 Yeah.

05:07:17.820 Or, like, German or something?

05:07:18.840 No, he looks, um, what, what's the, um, they're no longer.

05:07:25.040 A species or whatever.

05:07:27.020 What is it?

05:07:27.220 Neanderthal?

05:07:27.420 Neanderthal, yeah.

05:07:28.160 Neanderthals?

05:07:28.340 A little Neanderthal, to be honest.

05:07:30.940 What?

05:07:31.760 A little Neanderthal.

05:07:33.020 Those eyes are so soft, though.

05:07:33.980 The male version.

05:07:35.760 You're stunning.

05:07:38.140 Thanks, Brian.

05:07:38.900 But the male version.

05:07:39.780 What?

05:07:40.080 It's the male version.

05:07:40.940 Okay.

05:07:42.280 Kind of looks like PewDiePie.

05:07:44.040 By the way, aren't, like, Neanderthals, like, the more Neanderthal DNA you have, aren't

05:07:49.060 you higher IQ or something?

05:07:50.340 I don't know.

05:07:50.760 I think you're, no, I think you're higher IQ if you have more Neanderthal.

05:07:56.580 Right?

05:07:57.140 I think it's the opposite.

05:07:58.220 The opposite.

05:07:59.020 Is it?

05:08:00.420 Are you stronger?

05:08:01.760 I'm a little less civilized than us.

05:08:02.580 Are you, like, stronger?

05:08:04.700 They were, like, more caveman and, like, bigger.

05:08:08.780 Okay.

05:08:09.520 Well, I stand corrected.

05:08:12.780 I stand corrected.

05:08:14.480 I don't think you look into it.

05:08:17.240 Some people are saying I'm correct.

05:08:19.260 Thank you.

05:08:19.780 I don't know.

05:08:20.480 Whatever.

05:08:22.180 Apparently, Genghis Khan, that motherfucker's got a lot of DNA all over the place.

05:08:28.160 Would you date the male version of you?

05:08:30.560 No.

05:08:32.020 Why not?

05:08:34.520 Not into it.

05:08:36.240 You don't like white men?

05:08:38.520 I.

05:08:39.660 You don't have a track record of dating white men?

05:08:41.860 He's not into him.

05:08:42.340 But you date white men?

05:08:44.280 Yeah.

05:08:44.980 Yeah.

05:08:45.360 Sure.

05:08:46.840 I don't date anybody at the moment, so.

05:08:49.340 Well, your last boyfriend, was he a white guy?

05:08:52.860 No.

05:08:54.780 Boyfriend before that, was he a white guy?

05:08:56.600 Mm-hmm.

05:08:57.200 Last boyfriend was what?

05:08:59.000 Mexican.

05:08:59.920 Okay.

05:09:00.800 Wait, question for you.

05:09:03.460 Last guy you dated, what did you do for work?

05:09:07.900 My last boyfriend or the last guy I went on a date with?

05:09:12.440 Dated.

05:09:13.600 Not date.

05:09:15.380 Dated.

05:09:17.640 Okay, so.

05:09:18.320 Because, like, you could go on one date with a guy and you're not feeling well.

05:09:21.140 The last person I was dating was a restaurant manager.

05:09:30.720 Chick-fil-A?

05:09:32.700 No.

05:09:33.660 Oh, sorry.

05:09:34.480 Is that insulting?

05:09:35.540 No.

05:09:35.980 It's just funny that you're guessing a random fast food restaurant.

05:09:39.660 I don't eat fast food, actually.

05:09:40.820 I haven't eaten it since I was 17.

05:09:42.280 You're too classy to do.

05:09:43.080 Hey, those Chick-fil-A managers do well for themselves.

05:09:46.660 Okay.

05:09:47.000 They can.

05:09:47.540 Yeah, sure.

05:09:48.200 Wow.

05:09:48.680 Wait.

05:09:49.040 Was it Mastro's?

05:09:50.420 No.

05:09:50.980 Oh, Mastro's?

05:09:51.920 Oh, no, no, no, no.

05:09:52.840 So, you had, like, two longer-term boyfriends, right?

05:09:56.720 Well, no.

05:09:57.400 I mean, not long, but, yeah, so three-and-a-half-year and a five-month, four-and-a-half, five.

05:10:03.900 The three-and-a-half-year boyfriend, just what did he do for work?

05:10:07.320 When I met him, I told you he worked at a car wash.

05:10:09.940 And then the other long-term?

05:10:10.620 When I left him, he was in finance.

05:10:12.200 He's doing well.

05:10:13.180 The other long-term one that you had, what did he do for work?

05:10:16.760 He actually didn't really have a job.

05:10:22.520 He was...

05:10:23.000 Okay.

05:10:23.860 I get to check all that stuff we talked about.

05:10:26.120 He, like, stock traded.

05:10:27.880 Oh.

05:10:28.360 He was?

05:10:28.920 Oh, okay.

05:10:29.340 That's cool.

05:10:29.620 He was a stock trader.

05:10:30.420 Oh.

05:10:30.540 He day-traded, actually.

05:10:32.720 Did he do well?

05:10:34.120 He did, yeah.

05:10:34.720 How dare you date somebody who does well?

05:10:39.440 Oh, my gosh.

05:10:40.040 That's not it.

05:10:41.420 Not having a requirement on income is not abnormal.

05:10:44.840 Like, I don't have any friends that have, oh, they need to make this much.

05:10:48.280 I mean, maybe in their head they do, but I've never heard of people with a requirement for that.

05:10:55.700 And I think it's absolutely ridiculous.

05:10:57.500 Well, I don't think it has to be a precise requirement for a precise number.

05:11:00.800 But I think there's a general tendency for women to have a generalized preference for men who are successful.

05:11:09.360 Define successful.

05:11:11.240 Thank you.

05:11:12.260 Financially successful.

05:11:13.360 Career success.

05:11:14.120 No, but, like, there's so much other success in life.

05:11:17.380 Yeah, I agree.

05:11:17.940 And I think not being addicted to drugs, not being on prescription pills.

05:11:24.160 Sure.

05:11:24.380 Not, you know...

05:11:25.580 Yeah, that's important, too.

05:11:26.740 There's a few other things I would say.

05:11:28.140 Um, not voting for Joe Biden.

05:11:31.140 I think those things are success.

05:11:32.720 All right.

05:11:34.120 There's a lot of...

05:11:34.900 That's valid.

05:11:35.320 The question is not asked so much, but I think it's thought about, like, I think if you were to ask your friends the question, they would have a number.

05:11:43.620 I genuinely don't agree with that.

05:11:46.640 The few girlfriends I do have don't have a number.

05:11:49.720 It doesn't have to be high.

05:11:50.780 Remember, your 30-year-old girlfriends are fine dating a guy who flips burgers at McDonald's.

05:11:58.740 I don't think that's the dream for most 30-year-olds.

05:12:01.180 Why do you go down to fast food every time?

05:12:02.400 I don't think...

05:12:03.140 Because, look, the reality is I'm not trying to knock guys who work fast food.

05:12:08.140 It's working retail or working a restaurant job.

05:12:12.120 It's stressful.

05:12:13.500 It's hard work.

05:12:14.520 You know, you're on your feet.

05:12:16.200 And it's not...

05:12:17.280 I'm not frowning upon them, but it is the reality, I think.

05:12:21.000 And they would probably be honest about it, too.

05:12:23.140 Most women are not going to be, like, super stoked to date a cashier at McDonald's.

05:12:30.140 That's not a knock on men who are cashiers at McDonald's.

05:12:34.620 That's just a reality.

05:12:35.960 That might be true.

05:12:36.580 And that might be due to a lower IQ.

05:12:39.020 Maybe the people that...

05:12:40.920 I mean, if you're working as a cashier at McDonald's when you're 30, it's, you know.

05:12:45.840 But I have a really good friend who just got married to a man who didn't have a job for nine months.

05:12:51.580 She, like, was fine with it.

05:12:54.400 And they just got married.

05:12:55.600 And he got a job, like, a month before they got married.

05:12:59.240 So he didn't have an income.

05:13:00.740 They're 30, you know.

05:13:02.060 The company I keep is not holding income standards for their partners.

05:13:07.080 So not everybody out there is...

05:13:10.340 Look, I don't think it's wrong for a woman who's in her 30s to, like, have some expectation that...

05:13:18.540 I'm not saying that the guy has to be, like, a millionaire or a billionaire, but that the guy is taking care of himself and has a job.

05:13:28.020 And I don't think it's wrong for a woman to want that.

05:13:30.580 But anyways, we already talked about that a bunch.

05:13:32.320 I want to know what your income standard is for your partner.

05:13:35.900 Don't care.

05:13:36.920 Zero.

05:13:37.580 Okay.

05:13:38.080 Well, but he's a guy.

05:13:39.740 Men and women are different.

05:13:41.360 We are.

05:13:41.840 We are.

05:13:42.420 We are very different.

05:13:43.080 Men don't care.

05:13:44.280 If you were a woman, what would it be?

05:13:46.900 If I was a woman?

05:13:48.040 Do we have the gender swap?

05:13:50.140 Just show them the gender swap.

05:13:52.220 Just skip ahead.

05:13:53.220 Then we'll go back to...

05:13:54.300 We need to finish that off.

05:13:55.440 But if I was her...

05:13:57.760 You're so cute.

05:13:59.320 Look, here's my read on that chick, on Brianna.

05:14:02.740 She didn't look pretty.

05:14:04.440 She's a kind of...

05:14:06.380 She's a little bratty.

05:14:07.700 She lives in New York City.

05:14:09.160 And she wants a guy who makes $400,000 a year.

05:14:12.560 That's fucking Brianna.

05:14:13.820 We love that for her.

05:14:14.980 She wants a guy who makes $400,000.

05:14:18.580 Her eyes are so blue.

05:14:20.260 I like the ocean.

05:14:20.980 Has anyone ever noticed how blue Brian's eyes are?

05:14:24.160 No.

05:14:24.580 Look at him.

05:14:25.760 The hair brought it up.

05:14:26.640 I love how that girl didn't change in age.

05:14:29.520 She just stayed young.

05:14:30.840 But did you see that?

05:14:32.000 I thought you were going to age him.

05:14:33.340 We did show you...

05:14:35.000 Oh, my...

05:14:35.500 Your age?

05:14:36.840 No, we...

05:14:37.340 Are you okay?

05:14:38.500 We didn't age the opposite gender.

05:14:41.980 We did show my age one.

05:14:44.380 No, of the girl.

05:14:46.080 And now it's a gender swap.

05:14:47.420 Oh, that's true.

05:14:47.960 Okay.

05:14:48.540 You're right.

05:14:49.100 Never mind.

05:14:50.200 We're not aging.

05:14:51.320 It's a gender swap.

05:14:52.040 How old are you?

05:14:52.380 I get it.

05:14:52.960 They're showing it with hair without it.

05:14:55.620 Never mind.

05:14:57.180 Yeah, women typically don't grow beards.

05:14:59.080 I know.

05:14:59.680 I know.

05:15:00.340 I was just...

05:15:00.820 Brianna did not look 36.

05:15:03.140 She looked younger.

05:15:07.660 Anyways, whatever.

05:15:08.380 Let's go back to it.

05:15:09.480 Pull up the rest.

05:15:10.600 Are you ready?

05:15:11.100 Oh, man.

05:15:11.300 No, you're going to see.

05:15:13.180 One sec.

05:15:15.300 Pink-haired guy.

05:15:16.400 Oh, okay.

05:15:16.780 I don't hate it.

05:15:18.000 Wait.

05:15:18.700 Everyone's eating it up.

05:15:20.140 He's cute, Brian.

05:15:21.220 Oh, wow.

05:15:21.760 Okay.

05:15:22.040 He holds his weight well.

05:15:23.140 Hey, the girls are gooning.

05:15:24.360 Yeah.

05:15:24.820 The girls are gooning here.

05:15:26.960 Yeah, look at that.

05:15:27.840 He's the hair.

05:15:28.720 He's intellectual.

05:15:29.880 He's definitely wearing lipstick or something.

05:15:31.000 This looks like a mugshot for an Antifa guy.

05:15:33.960 Oh, my gosh.

05:15:34.840 Not Antifa.

05:15:36.320 I think he looks cool.

05:15:37.840 Thank you.

05:15:38.260 Next.

05:15:40.020 Aw.

05:15:40.820 With the facial hair.

05:15:41.800 He's cute.

05:15:42.160 So, would you date the male version of you?

05:15:48.240 He kind of looks like you a little bit.

05:15:50.600 What?

05:15:53.100 The hair?

05:15:54.080 No.

05:15:57.040 Okay.

05:15:57.680 Regardless of who he looks like, would you date him?

05:15:59.700 Probably, yes.

05:16:00.920 Yeah, I would.

05:16:01.600 Yeah, I would.

05:16:02.700 All right.

05:16:02.940 Next.

05:16:04.900 Oh, my gosh.

05:16:06.560 That's so cute.

05:16:06.840 Would you date the male version of you?

05:16:10.000 I love.

05:16:10.980 I mean, he's cute.

05:16:11.820 He kind of looks gay, though.

05:16:13.060 Yeah.

05:16:13.440 That's what I thought.

05:16:14.560 He looks gay?

05:16:15.020 That's what I thought.

05:16:15.720 Yeah, he looks a little feminine.

05:16:16.880 Definitely, yeah.

05:16:17.700 A little feminine.

05:16:18.300 It's the head tilt.

05:16:19.240 Yeah, it's the head tilt.

05:16:20.280 Yeah, yeah.

05:16:20.940 It's the head tilt?

05:16:21.740 Yeah.

05:16:21.940 It could be the head tilt, the glasses.

05:16:23.180 He's not ugly.

05:16:24.320 Okay, whoever's doing these, can you guys, like, exorcism this guy to not have a head tilt,

05:16:28.920 I guess?

05:16:31.060 A message from the government of Canada.

05:16:32.820 We'll do the next.

05:16:33.800 Pastey George donated $200.04.

05:16:37.980 Chair 4, hold on.

05:16:39.680 Some people, especially young adults, work low-wage jobs despite having college and university degrees.

05:16:48.000 Oh, there's a lot of bachelor degrees working at restaurants.

05:16:55.120 Because it's not about, at the end of the day, what you learned.

05:16:58.240 It's about what you actually experienced.

05:17:00.220 That's something I found out.

05:17:02.760 Yeah, true.

05:17:02.960 You know, I've talked about it a little bit earlier, not to get too into the subject,

05:17:06.500 but I didn't finish high school because of some financial issues our family was having.

05:17:12.300 But, you know, I've gone through so much farther in life.

05:17:17.520 Not to say that I'm doing the best right now.

05:17:20.320 I definitely can do better.

05:17:21.600 But I know kids, not to bash on them either, but I know kids in college, they're just learning

05:17:26.340 absolutely nothing.

05:17:27.600 They're getting shit-faced every weekend.

05:17:29.100 And so it's really not about the degree at the end, so.

05:17:33.720 Sorry, I wasn't laughing at you.

05:17:35.040 I was laughing at Felicity.

05:17:36.860 Yeah.

05:17:38.340 It's being weird.

05:17:39.720 You were, like, picking at your...

05:17:41.260 No, like, it felt, like, itchy right there.

05:17:43.640 I thought there was a tag or something.

05:17:44.960 Oh.

05:17:49.200 Next.

05:17:49.960 Uh, next.

05:17:50.740 Okay, not the worst one we've seen.

05:17:57.220 Did you date him, Felicity?

05:17:58.900 No.

05:17:59.920 He looks like my dad.

05:18:01.440 Can you admit, though, this is a better one.

05:18:04.200 I agree.

05:18:04.900 It's a better one.

05:18:05.580 He kind of reminds me of Chandler from Mr. Beast.

05:18:08.420 I don't know if you remember, like, the tall guy.

05:18:10.700 I don't watch Mr. Beast, but I believe you.

05:18:13.400 Yeah.

05:18:14.480 Next.

05:18:15.620 I've already seen it.

05:18:16.280 Yeah, whatever.

05:18:17.100 That's fine.

05:18:18.980 It's funny.

05:18:19.300 Brianna.

05:18:20.080 So pretty.

05:18:20.740 Mm-hmm.

05:18:22.120 Yeah, and she has little eyes.

05:18:22.680 Okay, look, I mean...

05:18:24.140 Look at the eyes.

05:18:26.720 To be fair...

05:18:27.920 With the dark hair.

05:18:29.940 She's in her 30s.

05:18:31.260 Like, that's not that crazy.

05:18:32.260 She looks young.

05:18:33.040 She's in her 30s.

05:18:34.520 Can we see young Brian?

05:18:35.900 Oh, my goodness.

05:18:39.460 Sure, why not, Nick?

05:18:41.020 Felicity is over here being a little gooner.

05:18:43.300 Goonet.

05:18:43.880 She's being a little goonet.

05:18:44.960 You can just pull up young Brian.

05:18:46.640 For context, I guess.

05:18:48.320 For context, you know, whatever.

05:18:51.020 Whatever.

05:18:51.640 Whatever, bro.

05:18:52.360 Whatever.

05:18:52.600 No big deal.

05:18:53.320 Whatever.

05:18:53.800 How young are we going?

05:18:55.660 Oh, it's just like old photos of me.

05:18:57.280 For real, for realsies.

05:18:58.620 Do you have it?

05:18:59.880 All right.

05:19:00.220 You can scroll to the very bottom.

05:19:01.320 Whatever.

05:19:01.640 We'll do it.

05:19:01.980 Like, 10 seconds.

05:19:04.960 All right.

05:19:05.520 Surf, surf, surf.

05:19:06.360 Up, up, up.

05:19:07.700 Okay, young Brian.

05:19:08.800 Yep.

05:19:09.160 Cool.

05:19:09.780 There's me with a donkey.

05:19:10.660 There's me shirtless, not shirtless, fucking tank top.

05:19:15.300 Up.

05:19:16.500 The one with the puppy.

05:19:17.840 There's me dressed up as Robert Lewandowski.

05:19:21.620 Click the angel one, I guess.

05:19:23.380 Angel one.

05:19:23.980 Wait, you used to be so cool.

05:19:27.420 I know.

05:19:28.140 I used to.

05:19:29.000 Unfortunately.

05:19:29.400 Hey, why don't you dress like that anymore?

05:19:31.680 I like that outfit.

05:19:32.740 The white?

05:19:33.260 Do you not surf anymore?

05:19:34.440 No, I don't.

05:19:38.960 Used to, though.

05:19:39.900 One day I'll get back to it.

05:19:41.820 Anyways.

05:19:42.300 That's what they all say.

05:19:44.480 Okay, I'm not.

05:19:45.380 What are you trying to communicate, I guess?

05:19:46.780 I don't know.

05:19:48.080 Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, $100 TTS.

05:19:51.520 Sorry.

05:19:52.020 Excuse me.

05:19:52.560 I misspoke.

05:19:53.000 $200 TTS, $100 read, Venmo Cash App, whatever pod, twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:19:59.420 Yo, John, thank you for the 25.

05:20:02.280 I think I'm.

05:20:02.900 No, this is new.

05:20:03.680 So, John, thank you for the 25 on Venmo.

05:20:08.220 Appreciate it, man.

05:20:09.220 You are a gentleman and a scholar and a legend.

05:20:13.840 Appreciate it, man.

05:20:15.660 Wait.

05:20:16.680 Did it really say that?

05:20:18.640 I don't know.

05:20:19.100 Something like that.

05:20:19.780 Guys, shop.whatever.com.

05:20:21.660 Get yourself some merch.

05:20:22.880 We got some.

05:20:24.240 I did some new Big Labia Matter designs on there if you want.

05:20:27.420 Discord.gg slash whatever.

05:20:30.920 Like the video, guys, if you're enjoying the stream.

05:20:32.740 Also, Big Labia Matter.

05:20:34.280 Okay.

05:20:35.000 So, we did all the gender swap, right?

05:20:38.380 We just, now we just have some.

05:20:39.900 Guys, here's what we're going to do.

05:20:41.160 We're going to lower the TTS.

05:20:43.600 We're going to lower TTS to 69, actually.

05:20:46.780 We now have a $69 TTS if anybody wants to get a message in.

05:20:50.960 $69 TTS.

05:20:52.800 Let me just adjust all that.

05:20:54.220 Felicity, sorry.

05:20:56.160 Oh, my God.

05:20:56.640 Butchering.

05:20:57.400 You have a question for the panel while I just.

05:21:01.060 I already asked all my questions.

05:21:03.180 Ask some more.

05:21:04.140 Be creative.

05:21:06.500 Be a creative little princess.

05:21:08.300 Big labia story, if you want to hear it.

05:21:11.380 Oh, my God.

05:21:13.620 Okay.

05:21:14.280 You've piqued my interest.

05:21:15.880 Okay.

05:21:16.440 So, I was 15 years old, and I had all these weird phone calls.

05:21:21.260 And I finally listened to the voicemail, and there's this old lady on the line saying,

05:21:25.480 Hey, doctor, whoever, I just want you to know that my labia is really swollen and red.

05:21:30.840 And she left me all these voicemails saying that.

05:21:34.180 And I was like, Mom, because we were in the car, what's the labia?

05:21:37.320 And she's like, what the hell are you watching?

05:21:39.480 So, she actually had to call this, like, little old lady and be like, Hey, this is my daughter's phone.

05:21:44.000 Please stop calling and find out who your doctor is.

05:21:47.360 So, that's how I learned what a labia was.

05:21:49.980 I had no idea.

05:21:50.840 It is kind of weird.

05:21:51.760 It was very weird.

05:21:52.620 That is strange.

05:21:53.800 Very strange.

05:21:54.440 That is interesting.

05:21:55.780 Does anybody else have a big labia story they want to share?

05:21:59.520 I don't...

05:22:00.720 It's very rare that I get to share that.

05:22:02.420 So, thank you.

05:22:03.820 Your moment.

05:22:06.300 That's what's going to, you know...

05:22:07.780 I feel like statistically...

05:22:09.660 I mean, it would just...

05:22:11.160 There's...

05:22:12.660 Statistically, like, somebody has an Audi.

05:22:16.720 Are we talking...

05:22:17.180 It's actually, like, really common.

05:22:20.140 I don't know what the...

05:22:20.660 It's like 50-50.

05:22:21.260 It's probably 50-50.

05:22:22.760 Who here has an Audi?

05:22:24.900 Belly button?

05:22:26.040 Yeah.

05:22:26.440 Um...

05:22:29.000 No.

05:22:31.160 None of them.

05:22:32.800 Nobody?

05:22:34.700 I mean, maybe they're like...

05:22:36.160 You guys are not on the table for Brian.

05:22:37.760 They don't want to talk about their genitalia.

05:22:40.400 That's probably fair, but...

05:22:41.980 $69 TTS if you guys want to get it in.

05:22:44.500 $69 TTS.

05:22:46.520 But statistically...

05:22:48.560 There's probably been, like, hundreds of women on this show.

05:22:53.920 Unbeknownst to me.

05:22:54.840 Who have had Audis.

05:23:00.680 Just sitting there.

05:23:03.060 Well, you're a guy, like, what would you think the ratio is, like...

05:23:06.960 I don't know.

05:23:08.080 I definitely had a...

05:23:10.500 Wait, what's it called when you...

05:23:15.600 A phase?

05:23:16.420 I had a dry spell of labia.

05:23:22.980 Like, it wasn't a dry...

05:23:24.340 Is it a dry spell?

05:23:25.520 Is that the term?

05:23:26.300 Mm-hmm.

05:23:26.820 Mm-hmm.

05:23:28.520 Like, I was, you know, dating or whatever, but there was, like, a two-year, three-year period.

05:23:33.700 I was just like, damn, where are the big pussies at?

05:23:37.920 Where are the big pussies?

05:23:39.440 I don't know.

05:23:40.520 Why are you looking at me that way?

05:23:43.600 Look at her fucking eyes.

05:23:44.860 She's like, what the fuck?

05:23:47.000 Sorry.

05:23:47.540 I can't control...

05:23:48.520 Honestly, like, I think I need Botox because I have way too expressive of a face.

05:23:53.820 And I should just look the other way.

05:23:55.500 Is this going to sound...

05:23:56.040 No, but I had a...

05:23:56.920 I had...

05:23:57.320 There was, like, a period.

05:23:58.960 I was like, damn, bro.

05:24:00.180 This is going to sound so weird because I was a virgin when I got married, but I've seen

05:24:03.620 a lot of genitalia because I took care of people with, like, disabilities and things

05:24:08.760 like that and older people.

05:24:09.860 And I never saw anything crazy, so...

05:24:11.640 So you've seen a lot of disabled vagina?

05:24:14.360 More...

05:24:14.880 A lot more penis, honestly.

05:24:16.760 But, yeah.

05:24:17.580 Oh.

05:24:18.200 I don't know why.

05:24:19.380 There's just...

05:24:19.820 There was a lot more people...

05:24:21.520 Nice.

05:24:23.140 So, yeah, it was never, like, attractive, of course.

05:24:28.240 What?

05:24:28.600 You bring up the big labia topic, and everybody's like, what the fuck?

05:24:32.440 But, like, statistically speaking, there's probably been, like, 500 girls on the show

05:24:36.780 who've got Audis.

05:24:41.040 Anyways, good talk.

05:24:43.940 Awkward.

05:24:45.240 It's only awkward.

05:24:46.500 No, it's only awkward.

05:24:47.540 It's not awkward.

05:24:48.380 You're making it awkward.

05:24:49.560 Okay.

05:24:50.020 Anyways, we're getting into the show notes.

05:24:53.340 Laura.

05:24:53.740 You disagree with Brian when he says a girl should do his laundry the first time she comes

05:25:00.340 to his place.

05:25:01.480 Is that a joke, or did he actually state that?

05:25:07.100 When did that happen?

05:25:08.560 When did I disagree with you?

05:25:10.340 You wrote that.

05:25:10.520 You wrote that in the pre-show, like, in the DMs.

05:25:14.080 Oh.

05:25:14.800 Oh, yeah.

05:25:16.120 Filled that out a while ago, when I was 30.

05:25:18.440 Um, I don't think a girl should do your laundry on a first date.

05:25:26.700 Is that what it was?

05:25:27.180 Well, first time she comes to my place.

05:25:32.200 Laundry.

05:25:33.900 Fuck no.

05:25:35.720 Mm-mm.

05:25:36.980 I freaking did that, but then I called my hobby and was like, first time?

05:25:42.140 Yeah, but actually, after that, he came to Helsinki.

05:25:46.020 I used to live there.

05:25:47.260 It's like 250 kilometers, so what is it in miles?

05:25:50.380 Doesn't matter.

05:25:50.780 It's like a two and a half hour drive.

05:25:51.760 It's far.

05:25:51.940 We get it.

05:25:52.760 Sorry.

05:25:52.900 Yeah.

05:25:53.420 So, I was sick, and he came and took me and my daughter to Dombere to just be together

05:26:00.060 and look out for us.

05:26:01.640 So, he went to work the next morning, and I was like, hmm, what should I do?

05:26:05.500 And, yeah, I cleaned his closet and...

05:26:07.760 The first time you went to his house?

05:26:09.160 Yeah.

05:26:10.380 Wow.

05:26:10.660 But I called him, and I was like, this is a red flag, so are you scared of me now?

05:26:15.300 And he was like, oh, that's so cute.

05:26:17.400 I was like, oh, you're weird.

05:26:20.420 I've done a lot of my ex's laundry.

05:26:22.540 Never in the first two, three months of dating.

05:26:26.640 That's setting the precedent of, like, don't do it, I'll do it.

05:26:30.460 Like, I'm your mom.

05:26:31.560 Like, I'm your...

05:26:32.360 No.

05:26:32.860 I think it's a red flag that the girl is crazy.

05:26:35.920 If she doesn't?

05:26:37.000 Yeah, like in the first time you're there.

05:26:38.700 It's a green flag.

05:26:39.380 Like, going through your stuff?

05:26:41.500 Your underwear?

05:26:42.800 Like, walking in and being like, oh, your place is dirty.

05:26:46.180 It's not just your laundry.

05:26:47.700 It's in a hamper.

05:26:48.360 But still, she's going through your stuff.

05:26:50.120 Yeah.

05:26:51.400 Like, the other way around, a girl would be, like, freaked out.

05:26:54.480 Like, why are you tossing my stuff?

05:26:56.120 Well, I mean, if the expectation is there that she'd do it.

05:27:01.300 Why would it be there the first time she's at your house?

05:27:05.380 Has that ever happened?

05:27:06.500 How's that ever happened?

05:27:07.240 Someone comes over for the first time, and you look at, and she sees your pile of laundry?

05:27:12.360 Are you, like, in high school?

05:27:14.020 Well, first off, I've gotten a lot more than just the laundry done, okay?

05:27:20.440 First time?

05:27:21.820 First time?

05:27:24.620 It's not sexual, you fucking weirdo girls back there.

05:27:27.860 It's not a sexual thing.

05:27:29.560 It's like, I'm saying she cleaned.

05:27:32.740 Yeah.

05:27:33.000 I used to do that for my ex-boyfriend.

05:27:34.780 Every time I went over there, I would clean his bathroom and all that stuff.

05:27:37.540 First time.

05:27:38.320 But I'm not first time.

05:27:40.720 That's not.

05:27:41.660 No.

05:27:42.300 I would never.

05:27:43.440 Okay.

05:27:43.860 Well, so, that's interesting.

05:27:46.880 Does anybody, before I get into it with you, though, who here thinks, first time you go to a guy's house,

05:27:52.460 would it be unreasonable to do his laundry for him?

05:27:55.740 I wouldn't do it.

05:27:56.600 You wouldn't do it?

05:27:57.400 Unless, like, if that's something he asked me to do, and I really was into him.

05:28:00.580 Like, I mean, I guess I wouldn't be over there if I wasn't.

05:28:03.740 What do you think?

05:28:05.140 I think it's weirder to ask for it on a first time, but.

05:28:08.140 She should just know.

05:28:10.240 But anybody can do laundry.

05:28:11.960 Anybody, like, so hard.

05:28:12.880 She should offer, to be honest.

05:28:15.660 Oh, hey, Brian, can I do the.

05:28:18.020 Yeah, she should offer.

05:28:19.040 I don't know how to be still.

05:28:20.300 So, if I'm in somebody's apartment, I will.

05:28:23.860 Well, there's medication for that, but.

05:28:25.740 I will probably clean and do stuff and, like, cook and stuff.

05:28:28.740 Just to, like, show the.

05:28:30.920 What do you think?

05:28:31.420 Being grateful.

05:28:32.540 I feel like, I don't know, maybe it's just me, but if someone's coming over to my apartment,

05:28:37.960 I don't want anything dirty or anything.

05:28:40.560 My question is going to be, why is your laundry undone?

05:28:42.900 You know, it's, I would never not do a laundry.

05:28:46.420 Well, the clothes aren't, like, on the floor.

05:28:48.520 They're in the hamper.

05:28:49.320 They're in the hamper.

05:28:49.960 Okay.

05:28:50.460 And she just goes, she just walks into your closet and goes, oh, you've got laundry.

05:28:54.180 Let me do it.

05:28:54.800 I just got here for the first time.

05:28:56.020 It's so fucking hot.

05:28:57.040 No, it's different if she washes a few dishes and she makes you dessert.

05:29:00.240 Like, that's a whole nother thing.

05:29:01.560 Yeah, sure.

05:29:01.960 That's good, too.

05:29:02.760 But doing someone's laundry is, like, invasion.

05:29:05.940 It's like, let me look at your clothes.

05:29:07.360 Let me look at what, you know, I don't know.

05:29:08.940 That's weird.

05:29:09.740 That's weird.

05:29:10.260 If somebody's going into that.

05:29:11.440 What do you think?

05:29:11.800 It's weird.

05:29:13.860 That's weird.

05:29:14.640 Actually, my husband does, like, 95% of our laundry.

05:29:18.180 To be fair.

05:29:19.900 Oh.

05:29:20.400 Sounds like great.

05:29:21.120 I can't go down the stairs anymore.

05:29:22.480 Okay.

05:29:22.820 Well, that's different.

05:29:23.740 Okay.

05:29:24.740 I've folded laundry.

05:29:26.360 First date?

05:29:26.900 First and second date.

05:29:28.160 Yeah.

05:29:28.960 Valid.

05:29:29.720 Thoughts?

05:29:30.480 I don't want to touch a man's boxers who isn't my husband.

05:29:33.720 Yeah.

05:29:34.120 Like, the dirty ones.

05:29:35.400 That's gross.

05:29:35.980 Husband and wifey duties for husband and wife.

05:29:38.060 Yes, yes.

05:29:38.080 Exactly.

05:29:38.980 If I'm not his wife, I'm not doing the wife.

05:29:41.180 So, is that why I'm not on a wifey level?

05:29:43.560 I kind of, like, do it already.

05:29:44.040 Yeah, you can't give up the, you can't give the milk for free until they buy the cow.

05:29:48.840 My grandma taught me that.

05:29:50.060 Well, now they're calling it pick-me-taker.

05:29:51.320 Yeah, that goes out the window, though, as I'm about to point out.

05:29:54.980 So, you said, I don't know who it was.

05:29:56.940 I think it was you, like, or maybe it was you who said, oh, what?

05:30:00.380 What?

05:30:00.640 You want a mom?

05:30:01.660 Why is she being your mom?

05:30:02.980 It wasn't me.

05:30:03.740 Here.

05:30:03.840 Well, the issue with the mom thing, right, is as soon as I turn this around when it comes

05:30:14.000 to women's expectations of men, you want men to provide, you want men to protect, whether

05:30:19.760 that's before your boyfriend and girlfriend, while your boyfriend and girlfriend, when you're

05:30:24.040 even married, you want men to provide and protect.

05:30:26.460 Would you want your father?

05:30:29.100 Because your father provided and protected you.

05:30:33.840 So, do you see how dumb that sounds?

05:30:36.500 Oh, you want me to provide and protect you?

05:30:38.640 I'm not your father.

05:30:39.900 You can do that shit on your own.

05:30:41.260 No, I'm not against doing his laundry.

05:30:43.660 If he's not my boyfriend and I'm going there for the first time, I'm not doing his laundry.

05:30:47.780 That's what I'm trying to say.

05:30:49.140 Down the line, I'm fine.

05:30:50.820 I'll clean the whole house.

05:30:52.740 I've done that my whole life.

05:30:53.840 Why the mom comment?

05:30:55.580 Because that's a general criticism of the entire behavior, regardless of what point in the relationship

05:31:03.140 you're at.

05:31:04.060 Because when you come over and there's dirty laundry, what I was saying is if you're seeing

05:31:07.740 dirty laundry, like, obviously, like, your room is, what I was anticipating is that, you

05:31:13.200 know, it's kind of like there's dirty laundry in the bathroom or wherever just scattered around

05:31:17.500 and you want somebody to come over to clean up.

05:31:19.400 I've said for the third time, it's in the laundry hamper.

05:31:21.720 Before I made that comment, I thought, oh, I'm coming over to, like, some dirty, like, frat

05:31:25.680 house.

05:31:25.820 Even if that was the case and there was a couple pieces of clothing not in the hamper or not

05:31:31.000 in whatever.

05:31:31.360 Regardless, I am never doing laundry on a first time at someone's house.

05:31:35.980 Then great.

05:31:36.400 I can different, I can move off of the, to be clear, though, you're saying it's not an

05:31:42.160 issue maybe on.

05:31:44.460 When he's my boyfriend.

05:31:45.580 To do those things.

05:31:46.680 Yeah, not at all.

05:31:47.100 So even, okay, just so it's not, oh, you want a girl to do, to be your mom.

05:31:53.120 That's not your position then.

05:31:54.600 No, no, no, no.

05:31:55.720 Oh, why invoke these arguments?

05:31:57.200 Just waste so much time.

05:31:59.480 Okay, goddamn.

05:32:01.140 I have to forward arguments that you're not, oh, my God.

05:32:04.640 It's so fucking frustrating.

05:32:05.540 You're not going to do your laundry on the first time at your house.

05:32:08.500 Okay, but then don't forward the argument that what do you want?

05:32:10.980 You want a woman who, you want a girl to be your mom?

05:32:16.040 Come over and clean your room.

05:32:17.960 Yeah, but when women make the, I'm not your mom argument, that's, that is irrespective

05:32:25.720 of where, how far you are into the relationship.

05:32:29.180 Women will say that in a five-year marriage, you've been dating a guy for two years.

05:32:35.140 Women will say, I'm not going to do this.

05:32:36.580 I'm not your mom.

05:32:37.980 In this case, you're willing to do it.

05:32:39.660 So look, whatever.

05:32:40.400 You don't want to, oh, my God, dude.

05:32:45.980 So then that's off the table then.

05:32:48.380 You will do it just on a long enough timeline.

05:32:51.240 Yeah.

05:32:51.360 Okay, you want a man to pay on the first date, correct?

05:32:59.100 Yeah, especially if it's going well.

05:33:01.560 Men should provide and protect.

05:33:03.140 Should a man protect you on a second or third date?

05:33:05.900 Yes.

05:33:06.660 Okay.

05:33:07.380 Men should be chivalrous.

05:33:09.260 Yeah.

05:33:09.720 Men should observe the sidewalk rule.

05:33:11.740 Do you know what that is?

05:33:12.820 I know what it is.

05:33:13.920 I don't.

05:33:14.640 You don't care about it.

05:33:15.500 That's fine.

05:33:15.740 I don't think it's very important.

05:33:16.700 It's kind of stupid.

05:33:17.480 Yeah.

05:33:18.800 So men should pay on first dates.

05:33:20.340 Men should provide, protect.

05:33:21.620 Men should be chivalrous.

05:33:22.580 Why is it okay for you to have an expectation?

05:33:25.240 You said you don't care about how much money a man makes.

05:33:27.820 So it's reasonable for me to believe that you would date a guy who makes $20 an hour?

05:33:34.780 Sure.

05:33:35.260 Sure.

05:33:35.380 If I fell in love with him.

05:33:36.800 Right.

05:33:37.920 I'm not making a criticism of that, but you would date a guy who makes $20 an hour.

05:33:42.260 Great.

05:33:42.740 To take you out on a date, I think it'd be reasonable if he takes you to a nice, uh, no, no, no.

05:33:47.720 It doesn't have to be nice.

05:33:48.760 If he takes you out to a dinner, he's spending a hundred bucks and he's paying for it.

05:33:53.700 Assuming it's, uh, you know, we'll cut that down the middle.

05:33:59.400 Your portion of the meal is $50.

05:34:01.320 Your demand for a man on a first date is he has to work two and a half hours to take you on a date.

05:34:10.380 If I want a girl, the first time she comes over, that doesn't even mean it's the first date.

05:34:15.380 Although I'm open to that.

05:34:18.180 First time she comes over, it takes 10 minutes to do the laundry.

05:34:23.720 Okay.

05:34:23.940 You put it in the machine.

05:34:25.060 It's not the fucking 1700s, which with a washing board, we have in technology that by the way, is invented by men.

05:34:33.640 You're welcome.

05:34:34.940 I know you, you pick the up, the, the, the clothes, you put them in the machine.

05:34:42.200 Two minutes, put some soap in whatever you put, you turn it on, you check on it 30 minutes, an hour later.

05:34:50.840 It takes one, two minutes to transfer it to the dryer, press a button.

05:34:57.720 All right.

05:34:58.280 Well then you can do that when we're not on a date.

05:35:00.700 Maybe the, the law, the longest period of time, the folding takes the longest.

05:35:03.900 Maybe it's 10, 15 minutes.

05:35:05.900 Okay.

05:35:06.300 So let's say it's 30 minutes total, even being, uh, generous, I guess.

05:35:10.820 So I, it's an issue for me to want a woman to work 30, uh, sorry, not 30, 30 minutes, but for a guy to take you on a date that costs a hundred dollars, which I think you go to Chili's, you're spending a hundred bucks.

05:35:24.480 I've never been to Chili's.

05:35:27.200 Okay.

05:35:27.900 Look, I'll break it down.

05:35:28.960 Super simple.

05:35:29.460 You go to Chili's, you get an appetizer, you get, you each get a drink, you get a main course, you get a dessert, you get, you give a tip.

05:35:38.240 It's a hundred bucks.

05:35:39.140 You want a guy to work two and a half hours to take you on a first date.

05:35:42.960 And you said you wouldn't even do the laundry on the first, uh, the first time you go there.

05:35:48.720 So a guy might have to take you on two, three, four, five, six, seven dates before you'd even consider doing that.

05:35:56.540 Correct.

05:35:57.420 Right.

05:35:57.900 So why is my expectation weird that I'd want a woman to maybe spend 30 minutes doing the laundry, but you want a guy to work two and a half hours to take you on a date?

05:36:07.440 I never said the date would be a hundred dollars, but yeah, sure.

05:36:10.920 In this hypothetical situation.

05:36:12.700 Do you think, do you think a hundred dollars spent on the first date is like really unreasonable?

05:36:17.920 Uh, not really unreasonable, but it's pretty high.

05:36:20.680 I don't think it's that high for like a mid tier restaurant is Chili's mid tier.

05:36:27.040 I don't even know.

05:36:27.800 Maybe it's low tier.

05:36:29.280 I don't know.

05:36:29.500 I mean, I'll ever try the triple dipper.

05:36:31.200 What is it called?

05:36:31.880 But why is the guy bringing her over if he has a dirty house?

05:36:35.280 Like it doesn't have to be dirty.

05:36:36.800 Like it's dirty.

05:36:37.580 If you can see the laundry, like that's dirty.

05:36:39.080 I just went to a nice dinner the other night.

05:36:41.340 It was $50 for two people in LA.

05:36:44.680 Yeah.

05:36:45.200 Moody Rooster and Westlake.

05:36:46.600 Yeah.

05:36:46.880 To be exact.

05:36:48.680 Um, I mean, two last tip.

05:36:50.800 It was 60 bucks.

05:36:51.620 You each get, I mean, look here, here would be my breakdown of whether you drink or not.

05:36:55.620 You each get two drinks.

05:36:56.760 Maybe, uh, I'm not talking soda, two drinks, appetizer, main course, dessert tip that gets to, that gets you to a hundred bucks at like even lower ends.

05:37:09.260 Restaurants.

05:37:10.440 Okay.

05:37:12.840 And even using your example, the $50.

05:37:14.740 Maybe I'm not drinking on a first date.

05:37:16.360 Okay.

05:37:16.580 Whatever.

05:37:17.060 The $50 example, and he makes $20 an hour.

05:37:21.160 He has to work what?

05:37:22.300 An hour and a half?

05:37:24.300 Two and a half?

05:37:27.020 $20 an hour?

05:37:28.820 Well, to pay for your portion of the meal.

05:37:31.600 Oh, my point.

05:37:32.260 So it'd be $25.

05:37:33.500 So it's maybe less than an hour and a half, whatever.

05:37:35.440 Yeah.

05:37:35.660 An hour and 15, something like that.

05:37:37.180 Um.

05:37:37.620 Um, he has to work an hour to take you on the first date.

05:37:42.420 To cover, to cover your portion of it.

05:37:46.600 Sounds good.

05:37:47.320 That's, that's the way of the world.

05:37:49.420 Women have it good.

05:37:50.580 What can I say?

05:37:51.780 Okay.

05:37:52.120 But you have a, you disagree as it relates to me wanting.

05:37:56.920 He is putting his money into a piggy bank because it'll pay off later when I am doing his laundry and cleaning his house.

05:38:05.720 You're not married.

05:38:06.160 You haven't married any of the men you've been with.

05:38:08.020 Hang on.

05:38:08.320 It's the first step.

05:38:09.380 Jesus.

05:38:10.680 When you're, when you first start dating, you are investing in something.

05:38:16.180 You're investing in a relationship.

05:38:17.800 This is why I don't go on dates with most people.

05:38:20.240 This is why I'm not on dating apps because I don't want to invest in something unless I know that I like them and I know that I want to pursue something.

05:38:28.560 So I don't just like, if random Joe Schmo asked me on a date outside, I'm not going to go on a date with him because I don't know him at all.

05:38:38.120 So anyway.

05:38:40.760 Okay.

05:38:41.200 But you have a specific criticism of my expectation of wanting a woman to fold laundry the first time she comes over.

05:38:52.500 Yeah.

05:38:53.120 What's wrong with that?

05:38:54.480 Ridiculous.

05:38:55.100 Why is it?

05:38:55.500 But it's okay.

05:38:56.020 I mean, you can be ridiculous.

05:38:58.240 Huh?

05:38:58.560 But so is it ridiculous for women to demand men to pay for first dates then?

05:39:03.560 No.

05:39:04.140 Why not?

05:39:04.460 And they're not demanding it.

05:39:05.860 A gentleman.

05:39:06.500 They absolutely do demand it.

05:39:08.060 I've never demanded any dinners in my life, but if.

05:39:10.880 You answered.

05:39:12.180 I said he should.

05:39:12.800 Men should, should.

05:39:13.980 And they should make that decision.

05:39:15.460 That's a demand.

05:39:15.640 But I'm never going to expect or demand that.

05:39:18.540 Do you have a preference for it?

05:39:20.080 Yes, of course.

05:39:21.160 Okay.

05:39:21.700 Is it, does he get negative?

05:39:22.980 They're trying to impress.

05:39:24.100 Does he get negative brownie points if he doesn't do it?

05:39:27.420 No.

05:39:29.740 I mean.

05:39:30.140 Have you ever had the experience where you go on a date with a guy and the waiter comes

05:39:33.540 and he says two checks?

05:39:35.600 Have you had that experience?

05:39:36.980 With my boy?

05:39:37.860 Well, no.

05:39:38.420 Not, not like separate checks.

05:39:39.460 No, no, no.

05:39:39.880 First date.

05:39:40.560 Not your fucking boyfriend.

05:39:41.220 No, absolutely not.

05:39:42.360 Absolutely not.

05:39:43.240 No, I have not.

05:39:44.000 I'm actually getting tilted.

05:39:45.220 Okay.

05:39:45.760 On a first date, no, I have not ever had somebody split a check.

05:39:49.240 No.

05:39:49.280 They've always paid.

05:39:50.240 They're gentlemen.

05:39:50.820 Isn't that fucking convenient?

05:39:52.400 The woman who doesn't demand it or expect it, you get it anyways.

05:39:56.160 That's very convenient.

05:39:57.060 Yeah.

05:39:57.500 I just said being a woman's pretty fucking cool.

05:40:00.100 Right.

05:40:00.580 But so there is an expectation and whether you actually, whether you actually articulate

05:40:07.220 your demand, men feel a societal cultural pressure, whether, regardless of whether we

05:40:13.600 know your position on it or not, men, men aren't even going to go into a date.

05:40:18.680 They're not going to even negotiate it.

05:40:20.520 It's like a major L for a guy to want to have the convo.

05:40:24.380 I've offered to pay on first dates.

05:40:26.180 Yeah.

05:40:26.400 It's a token gesture that women do.

05:40:27.820 It doesn't mean shit.

05:40:28.800 I've done it and actually pulled out my card.

05:40:30.780 On first dates?

05:40:31.220 You just admitted.

05:40:32.040 Hold on.

05:40:32.500 You fucking just.

05:40:33.120 They always pay.

05:40:33.940 But.

05:40:34.120 You just admitted that you've never paid on a date.

05:40:36.640 What are you talking about?

05:40:37.060 Not on a first date.

05:40:38.060 I've offered, but I haven't paid because they didn't let me.

05:40:42.140 Okay.

05:40:42.440 Yes.

05:40:43.200 Because there's a societal and cultural expectation for men to do so.

05:40:47.300 And I would assume, look, I don't, I don't know what.

05:40:49.440 I didn't create it.

05:40:54.080 Question for you.

05:40:56.500 If a guy did say two checks, would you feel a type of way?

05:41:01.160 Like, I understand you might accept it, but would you feel a type of way about it?

05:41:05.000 I would think that the date isn't going very well.

05:41:09.880 If he was like two checks.

05:41:11.940 So there is.

05:41:12.720 Hold on.

05:41:13.120 I would think that, but that's just me.

05:41:15.000 Would there be a second date?

05:41:17.780 Yeah.

05:41:18.220 I would think that he didn't really, like, enjoy his time with me, but I would, I wouldn't discriminate and hate him for it.

05:41:26.500 So going, so he would be starting off with a deficit going into the second date of you feeling like something's off.

05:41:37.280 No.

05:41:38.720 Well, you would, because you, you said you would feel like he, he wasn't into it, which would create confusion for you.

05:41:44.260 Well, then if he asked me on a second date, I would be like, oh, okay, like things are cool.

05:41:47.880 He just didn't want to pay on a first date.

05:41:50.860 Gotcha.

05:41:51.420 Can I ask you a question?

05:41:52.380 So if men should pay on first dates, men should provide protect, men should be chivalrous.

05:41:57.080 What should women do?

05:42:01.320 Is that a question for just me?

05:42:03.280 For you, and then I'll open up to the rest of the panel.

05:42:07.080 Women should be good role models for their children.

05:42:10.260 They should raise their kids.

05:42:12.400 Do you have any children?

05:42:13.140 No, but I think so.

05:42:14.900 Tell me what women should do for their boyfriends.

05:42:19.100 Yeah.

05:42:19.640 What should women do?

05:42:21.420 They should cook for them and treat them with respect.

05:42:27.940 And, um, how soon when they're their boyfriend or girlfriend, none of this like little, I don't

05:42:35.960 know what we are situationship crap.

05:42:37.720 That's not a relationship that you for first dates until that's the girlfriend.

05:42:41.460 Yes.

05:42:45.340 I mean, first dates are different.

05:42:47.920 Second date for sure.

05:42:49.000 Let's split the check, whatever.

05:42:50.780 But, well, but do you split the check?

05:42:54.060 Yeah.

05:42:54.460 Why not?

05:42:55.020 You're telling me when you go on second dates, the guy still doesn't pay again.

05:42:58.340 I've, I've, I've, I have split the check on a second date, but you still probably frequently

05:43:02.940 encounter men paying for the second dates.

05:43:05.200 Yeah.

05:43:05.800 Well, um, yes.

05:43:09.780 So, so why can't I, as a guy say, no, you don't get to be paid for until you're my girlfriend.

05:43:17.960 Why can't guys do that?

05:43:19.560 They should.

05:43:20.960 What?

05:43:21.560 Girl.

05:43:22.880 Okay.

05:43:23.380 First dates are different.

05:43:24.760 First dates are different.

05:43:25.600 I was like, first dates are different.

05:43:26.980 First dates, even first dates.

05:43:28.600 No.

05:43:28.880 Okay.

05:43:29.220 Well, I think a man should always pay on a first date and they usually do because they

05:43:32.620 want to impress you.

05:43:33.320 They want to draw you in.

05:43:34.200 They want to show you that they, that they want you.

05:43:36.400 And so they're like, I'm going to pay for this meal to feed you because I like you.

05:43:40.520 I just say, look, we're going 50, 50, but trust me, I'm into you and I want to fuck

05:43:44.340 you.

05:43:44.960 Whoa.

05:43:45.320 It's more of a dominant thing.

05:43:46.940 Like, I feel like men should want me saying that.

05:43:51.320 Why can't I tell my guy friends not to pay for dates other than the first date?

05:43:55.260 Well, it's called courting.

05:43:56.640 I tell my, I tell my guy friends, unless you really, really like her and you think she

05:44:02.160 likes you, don't pay for dates because I know girls who go out multiple nights a week

05:44:07.060 on Tinder or whatever, just for free meals.

05:44:09.440 I feel like men, so.

05:44:11.420 You know, when it's not in situations like these and it's actually someone who they want

05:44:16.360 to pursue, I feel like they should take the first step in leadership.

05:44:20.620 I mean, men are natural born leaders and that's something that we can't deny.

05:44:24.440 That's why I believe that men should pay on the first date.

05:44:27.360 As for what women should provide and what a good girlfriend slash wife should be, they

05:44:33.600 should be nurturing, they should be patient, they should be respecting of their husband or

05:44:39.200 their boyfriend.

05:44:40.140 They should never speak ill about them in front of other people.

05:44:43.340 That's a very, very important thing that I learned from my parents.

05:44:46.840 They need to give them motivation.

05:44:51.800 They should be also, this is a very specific one, but they should be very perceptive.

05:44:56.980 I've heard that a very, very good wife or a woman is very, she has a good, I think there's

05:45:05.160 a word for it, discernment.

05:45:08.060 You know, there needs to be some level of discernment as, you know, not just a girlfriend, but if you're

05:45:12.600 going to be a mother as well, you need to be able to have that instinct within you.

05:45:16.580 And all of this comes from, you know, not just loving your husband or boyfriend, obviously,

05:45:22.120 but from respecting yourself as well.

05:45:24.320 When you respect yourself, you respect others.

05:45:26.360 So I think that's a, for me, that's what a good girlfriend or what a girl should bring

05:45:31.980 to the table.

05:45:32.500 So, okay.

05:45:35.540 Um, what about this?

05:45:36.880 Should women be submissive?

05:45:42.040 To a certain extent, to a certain extent, to the extent that the woman makes the determination

05:45:48.100 as to how submissive she'll be.

05:45:54.520 I mean, what do you, what do you want?

05:45:56.820 Like should, should a woman obey her husband?

05:45:59.260 Should wife obey her husband?

05:46:00.800 Yeah.

05:46:01.060 Okay.

05:46:03.960 Would you obey your husband?

05:46:06.660 Yeah.

05:46:07.340 I mean, to a certain extent, I don't know.

05:46:13.060 Do you get to decide?

05:46:16.400 I mean, yeah, I'm not going to say yes to every single thing.

05:46:23.620 Assuming it's reasonable.

05:46:26.640 Sure.

05:46:27.240 Like, obviously, if your husband says, jump off a building, you should not do that.

05:46:34.560 He probably shouldn't be your husband then.

05:46:37.020 Yeah.

05:46:37.500 Yeah.

05:46:37.780 At that point.

05:46:38.740 Um, but okay.

05:46:41.400 So, I mean, I'm just, look, there's very, it seems like there's these expectations on men.

05:46:47.220 The moment a man has an expectation on a woman and, oh my God, big deal, blah, blah, blah.

05:46:53.080 Uh, I don't, I don't.

05:46:56.160 You can have whatever expectation you want.

05:46:58.020 I'm just saying.

05:46:58.500 I think it's, it's really.

05:46:59.700 But he just disagreed with his laundry expectation.

05:47:01.600 No, I would just never do that.

05:47:02.280 But I don't like the idea of it being an expectation on a first time you're there.

05:47:06.120 Yeah, that's insane.

05:47:07.420 I love to do it.

05:47:08.320 Yeah, she, she thinks it's insane for, look.

05:47:11.600 To put an expectation.

05:47:12.860 Well, here's, here's how I would translate this.

05:47:15.140 So basically the first time a girl comes over to my place and maybe that's, we've already

05:47:21.480 been on a date, one, two, three dates, whatever, or, you know, or I'd say the first time we're

05:47:26.040 hanging out, whatever that's asking her to do about 30 minutes of work when women have

05:47:32.840 an expectation on men to pay for first dates.

05:47:35.840 In this case, many of you have probably dated guys who at some point or other have worked

05:47:41.620 minimum wage or, you know, $15 an hour, $20 an hour, especially when you're younger, when

05:47:48.320 they're younger.

05:47:49.360 I get your point, but he has to work one, two, three, four hours to pay for your date.

05:47:56.120 Well, your date, both of you.

05:47:59.000 But it would still be kind of creepy to be at a man's house for the first time and him

05:48:05.300 expecting me to do his laundry.

05:48:07.640 Well, then it's really creepy for women to expect men to pay for first dates.

05:48:13.680 But that's like a known thing.

05:48:15.640 I get it's like not as socially acceptable or whatever, but like what's wrong with wanting

05:48:21.520 to help out your partner?

05:48:23.260 That I love.

05:48:24.380 And that's the point.

05:48:25.300 He's a guy that you went on a couple dates with.

05:48:26.980 She's not my girlfriend.

05:48:28.080 I'm not going to pay for the first date.

05:48:29.140 You're going to his house, assuming you've obviously hung out a few times, you're going

05:48:33.380 to his house for the first time, and you see that he needs some help, like cleaning

05:48:37.380 up his laundry.

05:48:37.840 That I love.

05:48:38.500 I mean.

05:48:38.860 It definitely would help.

05:48:39.640 I would do.

05:48:40.380 I didn't even, I don't even think it's like a ego thing or anything.

05:48:43.160 It's just like you want to help them.

05:48:44.920 Well, now that it's explained that way, I feel like I know it.

05:48:47.880 That way, definitely.

05:48:48.360 Yeah.

05:48:48.580 If you know this man and you've been to him.

05:48:50.380 But it's a different thing.

05:48:51.020 No matter what way it's explained.

05:48:52.240 Laundry is kind of like something really personal.

05:48:54.620 Yeah.

05:48:54.900 It's like, don't you guys want?

05:48:56.540 Like I said, I would do a few dishes, potentially.

05:49:00.360 I might.

05:49:00.720 Dishes?

05:49:01.140 That's worse than laundry.

05:49:02.000 Not at all.

05:49:02.700 No, it's not.

05:49:03.600 What?

05:49:03.900 You're like putting it in a dishwasher?

05:49:05.760 Or like just washing them.

05:49:07.340 Like if I knew this man, and we've been dating for like, I don't know, a couple, like at

05:49:12.420 least two months ago.

05:49:13.160 Enough to go to his house.

05:49:14.320 Yeah, exactly.

05:49:15.160 Enough to.

05:49:15.520 And that takes a lot for me.

05:49:17.140 So I'll know that if he needs help cleaning up, that's not something I'm supposed to.

05:49:21.100 I mean, not you should, but like I would want to help him.

05:49:24.120 Absolutely, yes.

05:49:24.760 Like what if he has his other things to be doing?

05:49:26.740 He has to go to work to pay for the dates.

05:49:28.800 But the expectation is the one that is kind of like creeping me out.

05:49:32.260 That's like the same thing that if you go to the restaurant, I would like him to pay.

05:49:37.100 And if he does it, I'm grateful for it.

05:49:39.200 And the same thing with the laundry or the dishes.

05:49:42.400 Don't expect me to do it, but I will help and I will do it.

05:49:46.440 And I will be like really happy of you being appreciated about it.

05:49:52.060 Like if you know what I mean.

05:49:53.380 But the expecting is kind of like...

05:49:55.220 I think we should play the bow video because I have way more expectations than just laundry.

05:50:00.700 I have way more expectations.

05:50:02.440 Here, while he's getting that pulled up, I have some chats.

05:50:04.820 No, this is XCOM.

05:50:07.360 Barrier Wisdom donated $69.

05:50:10.380 Thank you for the...

05:50:11.160 Wait, is he enlisted or enlisting?

05:50:30.320 He's enlisted.

05:50:31.360 Enlisted.

05:50:31.780 He's active duty or...

05:50:35.460 I'm not quite...

05:50:37.520 That's actually surprising.

05:50:39.000 I'm not quite sure of that.

05:50:40.600 Pasty George donated $70.

05:50:43.120 Thank you, man.

05:50:43.680 Women expect so many things from men on the first date.

05:50:47.240 But why is it wrong for men to expect women to do their dishes or laundry on or after the first date?

05:50:53.400 Why so much entitlement?

05:50:54.940 I don't see it that way.

05:50:59.360 But it's interesting.

05:51:00.220 It's like...

05:51:00.780 Are you single?

05:51:01.680 It's like...

05:51:02.780 Pasty George has like multiple concubines.

05:51:05.820 Like giga 10 out of 10 Canadian models.

05:51:09.860 Don't even...

05:51:10.360 Bro, there's some fucking babes in Canada.

05:51:13.040 Yeah, they're hiding like Saskatchewan.

05:51:15.500 Yeah.

05:51:16.960 And they're wearing their winter furs or whatever.

05:51:20.820 So anyways, it's interesting though.

05:51:24.260 Whenever we say...

05:51:25.440 Like there's no issue when we say men should.

05:51:28.580 Men should pay on dates.

05:51:30.140 Men should provide.

05:51:31.220 Men should protect.

05:51:32.300 Men should be chivalrous.

05:51:34.620 Men should be willing to die protecting me.

05:51:37.720 I think most of you circled that one too.

05:51:39.720 You didn't, to be fair.

05:51:41.180 But I would do the same thing.

05:51:42.260 Yeah, but then the difference is if you're dating a guy and something scary happens and

05:51:51.480 you run away out of fear, okay, you say that, but, and you scream or you shriek, your husband

05:51:59.060 is not going to lower his, he's not, he's not going to lose, he's not going to lose attraction

05:52:04.040 for you.

05:52:04.680 He's, if you're a coward, men aren't going to be like, uh, if a man's a coward, if a man

05:52:11.060 runs away, if a man shrieks, but that's the reason why I do the laundry, it's the end

05:52:17.700 of the relationship.

05:52:18.700 It's over.

05:52:19.620 She's lost.

05:52:20.200 She's going to lose attraction for the guy.

05:52:21.760 So we can have a conversation while I would give my life for my husband, blah, blah, blah.

05:52:25.140 Well, if we're just at generalized courage, if the guy's lacking in courage, if he's a coward,

05:52:31.940 if he's scared, whatever, ah, that's going to be assessed really.

05:52:35.940 Women are going to assess that really, really badly.

05:52:39.020 Men, if you, oh my God, a mouse, a spider, but your boyfriend like jumps up on the chair

05:52:49.000 and goes like this and he sees a spider.

05:52:52.160 Oh my God.

05:52:53.800 No, it's over.

05:52:55.120 It's over for most women.

05:52:56.580 And I think, um, but I know you guys have, that's called being manly, but when I say women

05:53:03.360 should, women should do X, women should do Y.

05:53:08.100 Ooh, that's sexism.

05:53:09.740 That's misogyny.

05:53:11.280 I'm not saying you said that, but that's how it's viewed.

05:53:13.780 When men say, like, for example, do you think it's, uh, do you think it's okay to say men

05:53:20.180 should know how to change a tire?

05:53:21.360 Yes.

05:53:23.780 And I know how to change a tire.

05:53:25.560 So yeah, he should know how to, and I'll teach him.

05:53:28.220 Do you think it's fine for, for, for a woman to say men should know how to change a tire?

05:53:31.620 I think everyone should know how.

05:53:32.640 Yeah.

05:53:32.840 Sure.

05:53:33.100 That's fine.

05:53:33.960 But how about this?

05:53:35.080 Uh, women should cook.

05:53:37.020 Yeah.

05:53:37.480 Yeah.

05:53:37.700 I agree.

05:53:38.840 Women should clean.

05:53:40.060 Yes.

05:53:40.480 Women should make me a sandwich.

05:53:41.800 Yes, absolutely.

05:53:43.260 That's maybe we have a more of a reasonable table here, I guess, but I think a lot of people

05:53:48.180 would say, no, that's sexism.

05:53:49.660 Um, that's, that's sexism against women to say that they should do that.

05:53:54.720 I could tell you so many stories.

05:53:56.160 I used to make my ex breakfast burritos every morning before he went to work or every other

05:54:02.380 morning.

05:54:02.780 I would skip some mornings cause I didn't want to wake up super early.

05:54:06.120 Um, but yeah, they should do all of those things.

05:54:08.560 I agree.

05:54:09.480 I mean, he, they shouldn't do laundry on a first time over, but I guess what I'm trying

05:54:14.860 to get at is if men should do all these things, I'm not sure what, what should women do.

05:54:25.320 You said have children, take care of their children.

05:54:29.400 We're having a population collapse.

05:54:32.800 Women are clearly not having children.

05:54:34.840 That's because men don't want to marry women because they, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

05:54:44.020 I'm not saying it's the man's fault.

05:54:45.260 They don't want to marry women because they're all fucking everybody.

05:54:49.500 Excuse my language.

05:54:50.260 And they don't do the laundry.

05:54:51.380 And they don't do anything for them.

05:54:52.780 They don't offer anything to them.

05:54:54.120 I'm telling you this.

05:54:54.740 What are we arguing about?

05:54:55.600 We're not.

05:54:55.740 So the woman should start doing laundry.

05:54:57.440 Absolutely.

05:54:58.060 On the first time at the house.

05:55:00.160 No, not the first time at the house.

05:55:02.440 What's wrong?

05:55:02.840 But they need to do more.

05:55:03.980 They need to offer more and they need to be more.

05:55:06.500 On the first time.

05:55:09.080 Let me ask you a question.

05:55:10.260 If a woman did do it, like, let's just talk about practical reality.

05:55:15.140 Do you think it's going to hurt her to do it?

05:55:17.440 Um, not, it won't hurt her, but it's just going to be, I think that's awkward.

05:55:28.120 I think it's a little bit degrading.

05:55:29.740 Like, oh, I'm here for the first time and I'm cleaning up his house.

05:55:32.780 Like, I don't know.

05:55:33.600 I just don't think.

05:55:34.820 So I need to give my life for a girl I'm on a first date with.

05:55:38.300 No, you don't.

05:55:38.820 You don't need to give my life.

05:55:40.100 You said men should protect on a first date.

05:55:43.880 It doesn't say that anywhere.

05:55:45.380 I said men should protect.

05:55:46.420 Well, no, I asked you.

05:55:47.820 No, yeah.

05:55:48.460 On a first date.

05:55:50.740 I wouldn't.

05:55:51.640 If I was a man, I would run.

05:55:53.460 If there was a shoot, if I was at a restaurant and a shooter came in and he took a bullet for

05:55:58.140 me on a first date, I would think, whoa, whoa, that's wild.

05:56:03.480 I would never expect that in a million years.

05:56:06.280 Okay.

05:56:06.600 I do recall.

05:56:07.500 I don't know if it was you.

05:56:08.280 Maybe somebody else said something along the lines of, I asked, should a man be willing

05:56:11.880 to provide and protect on the first, second, third date?

05:56:15.360 And you did say, you did answer in the affirmative.

05:56:19.200 Whether that means taking the bullet for you, maybe not to that extent.

05:56:23.360 But there's this idea, at least with the sidewalk rule, that that's an extension of men should

05:56:28.180 sacrifice their life for a woman, basically.

05:56:32.400 Oh, if a car comes barreling down the road and goes onto the sidewalk, the man should be

05:56:39.300 closer to that so he gets hit instead of the woman.

05:56:42.260 If I got to fucking die for a chick, yeah, she should do my laundry.

05:56:49.340 Yeah, she should cook and clean.

05:56:52.020 I don't know if you guys have a saying like this, but we have a saying in Finnish.

05:56:55.680 Naiset ensin vaka heikoile jäile.

05:56:57.400 That means women's first, women first, even to thin ice.

05:57:04.720 To what?

05:57:05.640 Tin ice.

05:57:06.700 Thin ice?

05:57:07.660 Yeah.

05:57:07.900 What do you mean?

05:57:09.580 I don't get it.

05:57:10.480 Like, women should be first, but it's added even to go onto ice that is thin.

05:57:17.760 Oh, it's a joke.

05:57:19.520 So that they can fall through the ice.

05:57:20.940 I think I get it.

05:57:24.360 Okay.

05:57:27.640 Where were we?

05:57:28.960 I don't know.

05:57:30.580 Y'all crazy, man.

05:57:31.520 Y'all crazy.

05:57:32.300 Shit.

05:57:32.840 She says it's insane.

05:57:34.780 She says it's insane.

05:57:35.400 To expect somebody, I mean, chat, come in.

05:57:38.940 Do you expect somebody to do your laundry on a first?

05:57:43.740 They do.

05:57:45.200 I'm sorry, they do.

05:57:47.660 Oh, no, no, no.

05:57:48.380 The question I was asking was, would it hurt the woman?

05:57:51.420 And like, if we're talking about the most effective strategy for a woman to take when dating,

05:57:58.260 like, it's definitely not going to hurt.

05:57:59.920 In fact, the guy could be like, oh, wifey material.

05:58:03.340 Boom.

05:58:05.180 So if you're a woman struggling to get a guy, oh, no, take 20 minutes to just, and even the gesture would be appreciated.

05:58:14.360 Some guys might be like, nah, you don't have to do that.

05:58:16.240 Don't worry about it.

05:58:16.760 But if you just say, the first time you're at a guy's house, you're sitting there, you're talking, you just make the gesture.

05:58:24.480 And look, if he takes you up on it, you do it.

05:58:26.860 But you make the gesture and you just say, hey, is there anything I can help you out with around the house while I'm here?

05:58:36.360 Let's say the guy.

05:58:37.160 We're spending time together.

05:58:38.760 I'm getting to know him.

05:58:39.840 I'm not going to be like, oh.

05:58:41.160 Oh, no, you can take a 30-minute break.

05:58:43.360 Maybe he can keep you company in the laundry room.

05:58:45.100 I have a better way to say it, okay?

05:58:47.120 No, you can't.

05:58:47.940 What?

05:58:48.540 They understand when I talk about it more.

05:58:53.280 It's like context.

05:58:55.880 Like if you see some dishes in the sink, like, oh, do you need help?

05:58:58.340 That's what I said that I would do that.

05:59:00.360 If you see some laundry, be like, you want me to, you want some help with that?

05:59:04.500 You're the guy who's going to work.

05:59:06.520 He's starting.

05:59:07.180 He's thundering.

05:59:07.900 So I'm usually going anywhere.

05:59:09.620 I got to go.

05:59:10.380 Nice and dainty and feminine.

05:59:12.860 Like, oh, do you need some help?

05:59:13.560 Oh, yeah.

05:59:14.240 Do you want me to get on my hands and knees?

05:59:16.420 No.

05:59:16.700 No, girl.

05:59:17.440 It's just like you'll take his load, but you won't hold his load.

05:59:20.060 But that's the way.

05:59:20.380 No, fuck no.

05:59:21.560 Oh, my God.

05:59:22.240 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

05:59:24.000 That's what that sounded like, but it's not in a sexual way.

05:59:27.020 Have you ever had a one-night stint?

05:59:29.580 Yes.

05:59:30.100 In my, well, yeah, when I was 20, you know?

05:59:33.740 I'm just kidding.

05:59:34.000 I was just being dramatic.

05:59:34.720 But like, have you ever, and maybe even not a one-night stand, but even a guy who you went

05:59:40.780 on to date for a period of time, like, did you ever go back to his place the same first

05:59:45.440 date?

05:59:47.860 No, like, go on a date and then...

05:59:49.540 So one-night stand would be like, you sleep with them the first time and that's it.

05:59:53.860 You don't see them again.

05:59:54.680 And then the follow-up question there was, like, you could sleep with a guy the first

06:00:02.720 date, but then you continue dating him.

06:00:05.220 That can happen too.

06:00:07.320 I have never done that.

06:00:09.660 But you have had a one-night stand where you sleep with a guy.

06:00:12.660 And I never talk to him again.

06:00:14.140 You said you've done that a couple times?

06:00:15.940 I've done that one time.

06:00:18.820 One time.

06:00:19.580 Okay.

06:00:22.460 Well.

06:00:23.840 Okay.

06:00:24.240 I did my...

06:00:25.560 Maybe there's two.

06:00:26.060 Okay, there's two.

06:00:26.800 Maybe three.

06:00:27.540 Before 20.

06:00:28.320 No, no, no, no, no.

06:00:29.040 But my point is...

06:00:30.260 They're all very young.

06:00:31.200 And I'm getting the impression, to be fair to you, you don't do that anymore, right?

06:00:36.480 You don't...

06:00:36.880 You haven't had a one-night stand in a while, right?

06:00:39.000 I get you don't do that anymore.

06:00:40.960 But women will...

06:00:42.000 What's confusing to me, I feel like it's almost wholesome.

06:00:45.000 The first time a girl comes over to my house, I want her to fill my laundry.

06:00:49.640 The first time y'all go to a guy's house, he wants to blow his

06:00:53.400 blow his load in your face.

06:00:55.040 Wow.

06:00:55.620 He wants to come inside you.

06:00:58.220 He wants to...

06:00:59.720 So, like, I almost...

06:01:01.360 And many of you oblige them.

06:01:04.100 So, many women oblige men in this.

06:01:07.580 So, I'm like, you'll let a guy come in the back of your throat,

06:01:11.060 but I'm fucking Mr. Wholesome over here.

06:01:14.520 Let's do some laundry.

06:01:15.940 I'm the bad guy, but y'all be choking on dick?

06:01:20.980 Y'all be...

06:01:21.700 Jeez.

06:01:22.360 Y'all be lending some dude balls deep, sometimes without a condom?

06:01:25.740 No.

06:01:26.160 And I'm the fucking bad guy?

06:01:27.540 I'm the bad guy.

06:01:28.460 I want to...

06:01:29.160 I expect a woman to do laundry.

06:01:31.820 But y'all be dealing with dudes who expect to be balls deep in your pussy?

06:01:37.500 I think it is...

06:01:38.540 Y'all expect a guy to be...

06:01:41.820 You're gonna be fucking gagging on his cock?

06:01:45.600 Okay.

06:01:46.000 And I'm the bad guy here?

06:01:47.140 If that's what a guy wants, maybe...

06:01:47.740 I'm the fucking bad guy.

06:01:49.020 Maybe you shouldn't hold his laundry.

06:01:49.640 Not the first time that you go over to their house.

06:01:52.360 Again.

06:01:53.040 Hold on.

06:01:54.200 Maybe three months in?

06:01:54.740 Women be sucking dick the first time they go to a guy's house.

06:01:57.000 Let's be for real.

06:01:57.580 I'm thinking more like the first time I go to his house, I've met multiple guys.

06:02:00.880 If anything, it's the other way around.

06:02:02.080 No, if you're willing to sleep with a man, you should be okay with folding his laundry.

06:02:07.520 I'm sorry, but that's the truth of it.

06:02:09.460 I think we all have this warped.

06:02:10.980 I don't know if you're trying to argue otherwise.

06:02:13.160 But if you're ready to sleep with a man, you should have no problem folding his laundry.

06:02:17.220 Wait, that's actually a really good point you made.

06:02:19.440 I actually haven't exactly thought of it in that way.

06:02:23.240 But there will be women who are so down to suck a guy's dick, have sex with him, they'll fuck raw, fuck without a condom.

06:02:34.180 But they draw the line.

06:02:35.800 They won't do the laundry, but will...

06:02:39.660 That's almost weird to me.

06:02:41.300 Yeah, it's warped because they think it's empowerment.

06:02:43.380 Shouldn't it be like, no, no, no, I won't fuck you.

06:02:46.220 I'm not going to fuck you yet.

06:02:47.620 But sure, I'll help you out around the house.

06:02:50.420 Shouldn't that be the order of operations?

06:02:52.280 I'll do both when the time is right, not the first time going over there.

06:02:57.620 Question for you.

06:02:58.680 Which would come first?

06:03:00.800 BJ or...

06:03:02.280 Or doing their laundry.

06:03:04.180 Doing the laundry.

06:03:04.940 Which would come first?

06:03:08.100 No, it's probably laundry.

06:03:12.020 Really?

06:03:12.560 Or sex, potentially.

06:03:14.240 Sex first, laundry after.

06:03:16.740 But not raw.

06:03:18.260 Never been on birth control in my life.

06:03:20.560 Never been pregnant.

06:03:22.280 Good times.

06:03:24.160 Good times.

06:03:25.480 Where were we?

06:03:26.420 Did we do the bow?

06:03:27.280 Oh, wait, chats.

06:03:28.000 Hold on.

06:03:28.340 Sorry, chats.

06:03:29.500 Okay.

06:03:30.580 Sorry for the delay, boys.

06:03:32.800 Hey, what the hell?

06:03:33.860 Here.

06:03:34.320 Oh my god.

06:03:34.940 Why is it...

06:03:35.580 It always has to...

06:03:36.720 It reloads for some reason.

06:03:38.380 Kind of frustrating.

06:03:39.000 Pastey George donated $70.

06:03:44.500 Brian, these women who refuse to do the laundry or even the dishes are why many Western men

06:03:50.020 are done with them.

06:03:51.220 They expect so much from good men but offer little to nothing in return.

06:03:55.000 But how does...

06:03:57.160 I'm just curious.

06:03:58.100 Like, how does he know that majority of Western men are done with this?

06:04:01.900 And it's like...

06:04:03.880 Marriage rate, divorce rate.

06:04:05.680 If a woman from an Asian country was like, I want to marry an American man, they'd be like,

06:04:09.680 oh, you're such a gold digger.

06:04:10.700 But he's also, like, saying, oh, passport bros, you should go get an Asian lady in some

06:04:16.980 other country.

06:04:18.180 I don't know.

06:04:18.480 Kind of hypocritical.

06:04:19.460 Pastey George donated $70.

06:04:22.420 So, according to Chair 4's views, men are a disposable commodity.

06:04:27.500 If that is the case, then what made women so highly valued?

06:04:31.540 Why are men viewed as less than women?

06:04:36.000 According to me?

06:04:37.600 Men viewed as less than women?

06:04:38.780 Apparently, I'm a misogynist, according to Brian.

06:04:41.140 I don't know what you're talking about.

06:04:42.560 I never said I wasn't...

06:04:43.360 You said you were a misogynist.

06:04:45.300 Well, I said I've been called that.

06:04:47.980 Okay, whatever.

06:04:50.320 I've been called misogynistic.

06:04:51.720 But I never said that women were valued higher than men at all, ever.

06:04:59.660 And maybe he needs to listen to the podcast a little again.

06:05:06.540 Okay.

06:05:07.100 Um, let's see here.

06:05:09.100 We have a few more.

06:05:10.780 One sec.

06:05:13.360 Thank you, Pastey George.

06:05:14.740 Appreciate it, brother.

06:05:16.720 Pastey George donated $70.

06:05:19.460 More and more Western men are now realizing that women expecting you to pay for the first

06:05:24.420 date, pick them up, and drop them off at home is entitled and quite sexist, especially

06:05:29.860 when they're not trans.

06:05:31.160 I don't even go on dates.

06:05:37.420 So, yeah.

06:05:39.000 I'm not expecting any of that.

06:05:41.260 Pastey George donated $70.

06:05:44.460 Chair 4, degrading.

06:05:46.420 What makes you think that many Western women are so high value that any little thing, such

06:05:51.400 as doing laundry or dishes would degrade them?

06:05:54.340 Are they holy and levitating?

06:05:57.660 On a first time over, I don't think they should be doing the laundry.

06:06:03.540 Let's play the bow video.

06:06:07.100 Let's play it.

06:06:07.620 So, you think the laundry is crazy?

06:06:10.360 Check this shit out.

06:06:11.840 This is a tutorial I recorded of my ex-girlfriend to show to future girlfriends.

06:06:18.820 Oh.

06:06:19.560 Yeah.

06:06:20.820 Okay.

06:06:21.320 Go ahead.

06:06:24.060 Boom.

06:06:24.640 Boom.

06:06:25.160 Huge bow.

06:06:25.640 Do you see the bow?

06:06:26.280 She has to bow.

06:06:27.440 She has to bow every single time I come home.

06:06:30.720 Greet me at the door with a bow.

06:06:33.020 Laundry.

06:06:34.160 Throw it on the bed.

06:06:35.780 Dinner ready.

06:06:36.640 Dinner has to be ready.

06:06:37.840 Get home from a long day at the podcast.

06:06:41.800 Cracks open a beer for me.

06:06:44.740 Yep.

06:06:45.600 She's beautiful.

06:06:47.020 Yeah, you know.

06:06:48.600 Why isn't she eating with you?

06:06:49.440 I dumped her, though.

06:06:50.520 I had to dump her.

06:06:51.800 Why?

06:06:53.320 The food wasn't hot enough?

06:06:54.620 The food was, yeah, it was a little, the temperature was bad on it.

06:06:57.480 Play the bow part.

06:07:00.780 Bow.

06:07:01.260 Oh.

06:07:01.740 Pause.

06:07:02.240 You see the depth.

06:07:03.300 You see the submissive hand posture.

06:07:06.320 This is my expectation.

06:07:07.540 I expect a girl to bow.

06:07:10.100 Going around the table, would you bow for a man?

06:07:12.780 Hire a maid.

06:07:13.740 Huh?

06:07:14.120 Hire a maid.

06:07:15.800 So, no.

06:07:16.940 No.

06:07:17.380 Hire a maid.

06:07:18.140 What about you?

06:07:19.160 Depends on the man, but the man I have, yes.

06:07:21.480 Your current boyfriend, yes.

06:07:22.980 Yes.

06:07:23.520 You would do it.

06:07:24.620 Okay.

06:07:25.120 Challenge for you.

06:07:26.880 Give him a bow next time you see him.

06:07:28.700 What about you?

06:07:31.040 It's hard, because I don't know how my dad will feel about me doing that, but also trying

06:07:36.040 to sit, like, if I really did respect this man, I don't know if I'll necessarily bow,

06:07:41.640 but I will.

06:07:43.520 I will certainly submit to him.

06:07:45.820 I just think, I think bowing is a little, it's, the situation seems strange.

06:07:50.540 But, yeah.

06:07:51.860 Well, I mean, culturally, it might seem a bit eccentric.

06:07:59.180 It might be a bit unorthodox.

06:08:02.040 But in terms of the actual, you know, the actual action itself, it's completely benign.

06:08:10.680 It's, anyone can do it.

06:08:12.280 It's effortless.

06:08:13.040 It's, takes three seconds.

06:08:15.060 But why do you want that?

06:08:17.740 I'll get into that, but would you bow for a man?

06:08:22.040 Probably not.

06:08:24.660 I thought, did you say?

06:08:25.900 I'd give him a hug, I'd give him a kiss, I'd make him dinner.

06:08:28.800 No, he says, I want this.

06:08:30.020 It would be something that would be pleasing to him.

06:08:32.180 Would you do it?

06:08:35.300 Um, I don't, I don't know.

06:08:38.520 I don't think so, but maybe.

06:08:40.880 I thought, but didn't you agree with me that women should be submissive and women should

06:08:44.600 obey their husbands?

06:08:45.140 Yeah, I mean, the whole rest of the video, totally fine, normal, but.

06:08:47.720 Not the bow, though.

06:08:48.700 The bow was a little weird.

06:08:51.240 Yeah, again, I don't know what my dad would think about that either.

06:08:53.860 I think he would think it's absolutely ludicrous, so I don't know.

06:08:57.680 What would your dad think about all the, whatever you've done?

06:09:00.000 Um, what do you think?

06:09:00.860 If my husband asked, I'd say yes.

06:09:02.740 Yes?

06:09:03.180 Yeah.

06:09:04.000 I mean, I, I agree that it is a bit strange, to be honest, um, but if it was, you know,

06:09:11.500 my man, my dream man, I wouldn't.

06:09:15.500 Well, no, let's not do that yet.

06:09:18.780 I will ask about the perfect man, if that changes anything.

06:09:22.440 No, no, no.

06:09:22.860 Yeah, okay.

06:09:23.300 But, uh, the.

06:09:26.360 It's strange.

06:09:27.320 You can envision yourself realistically being married someday, right?

06:09:32.840 Yeah.

06:09:33.120 And I assume this man isn't going to be perfect, right?

06:09:35.420 No.

06:09:35.800 The man you eventually end up with.

06:09:37.200 Mm-hmm.

06:09:37.600 If that man, your husband, asks you to do it, do you do it?

06:09:40.880 Not the perfect man, not the ideal man, the man you end up with.

06:09:44.520 I mean, just because of how strange it was, I'm not sure, but that doesn't mean that I

06:09:48.660 wouldn't be submissive to him to do other things, but bowing, I think it's just.

06:09:53.980 But he, he overtly asks you to do the bow.

06:09:56.620 He asked me to do it?

06:09:57.320 Yep.

06:09:58.800 And you said you would be submissive, so.

06:10:02.000 Bowing, though?

06:10:02.780 That's, I, it's just strange to me.

06:10:04.700 I understand it's strange, but it, it doesn't hurt, it doesn't hurt you.

06:10:08.620 It's not immoral, so do you do it?

06:10:15.060 Well, obviously it doesn't hurt me, but it, it puts me in a position where it's just strange.

06:10:20.860 Like even, you know, it's just strange.

06:10:23.900 Well, I mean, we can extend this out to like other areas of life where you might encounter

06:10:28.900 something strange.

06:10:29.800 Like me, me, for example, I think if you're with someone who you otherwise get along with

06:10:35.720 and they're, uh, you're attracted to them and you like them and there's good personality,

06:10:39.780 but they have like a harmless sexual kink, I think instead of like making fun of them

06:10:44.860 for it or thinking it's weird, I think if it's like, Hey, this is something that turns

06:10:48.420 them on and it's not like strange or harmful in any, any sort of way.

06:10:51.840 I think in furtherance of being a good partner, probably just so engage in their kink.

06:10:58.260 So that's what it is.

06:10:59.160 It's a kink that you're making her bow.

06:11:01.160 No, I'm just saying, no, I'm saying, I'm talking about something separate.

06:11:03.940 But I think there are certain things where you could, you could be like, well, this

06:11:07.720 is a bit unusual.

06:11:09.600 This is a bit strange, but it doesn't hurt me.

06:11:12.700 And it, it is pleasing to my partner.

06:11:15.840 Why wouldn't I do this thing?

06:11:20.020 Okay.

06:11:21.120 I mean, it doesn't seem like it's degrading.

06:11:23.940 For example, if I was, I'll give you an example.

06:11:26.400 Okay.

06:11:26.720 I might think it's a bit peculiar.

06:11:28.280 If you know, I was, um, dating a girl and she wanted to, a couple of times during sex,

06:11:35.920 she wanted to meow.

06:11:37.780 Like she, she's not full blown furry, but she's like, you know what?

06:11:42.380 I just, I wanted like purr and meow a few times.

06:11:46.560 I wouldn't.

06:11:47.620 And I cared about this girl and she was my girlfriend and I loved her.

06:11:51.780 I wouldn't be like, what the fuck is wrong with you, weirdo?

06:11:56.220 I'd be like, I care about this person.

06:11:58.180 They have like a little interesting kink or whatever.

06:12:00.600 It doesn't hurt me.

06:12:02.460 Who knows?

06:12:03.200 Maybe I might be into it.

06:12:04.680 Sure, babe.

06:12:05.880 Whatever.

06:12:06.400 Go ahead.

06:12:06.620 Yeah, but bowing is kind of like showing like honor.

06:12:10.220 Yeah.

06:12:10.740 Kind of.

06:12:11.380 So that's why it kind of.

06:12:12.760 Would you show that a lot?

06:12:14.420 Not in like a bad way.

06:12:15.960 Like obviously I would honor my husband, but not.

06:12:18.620 How can it be a bad way to honor your husband?

06:12:20.920 I don't, I don't mean it that way, but it's just, he's expecting me to bow to him.

06:12:25.880 It's just, I don't know.

06:12:26.840 It just, it just feels strange, but I'm trying to understand like, like if it's.

06:12:31.120 Maybe not expecting, maybe he just means as like a, can you bow?

06:12:34.800 Like if your husband was like, can you bow?

06:12:36.400 Like, I feel like we, most of us would just be like, okay.

06:12:39.340 And then you bow.

06:12:40.100 Yeah.

06:12:40.500 Yeah.

06:12:41.040 Maybe I'm just not understanding.

06:12:42.740 I don't think I would, I don't think I would fall in love with somebody who expects a

06:12:46.460 bow.

06:12:47.040 That's a.

06:12:47.660 Here and there.

06:12:48.500 Here and there.

06:12:49.500 That's a cop out.

06:12:50.380 That's a total cop out.

06:12:51.760 But here and there, if you were like, can you bow this week or like, you know.

06:12:57.800 Okay.

06:12:58.240 Let's finish up with you though.

06:12:59.540 So no, is it no, you wouldn't bow?

06:13:02.820 I mean, I, I want to say no, but I just don't want it to make it sound like I wouldn't.

06:13:08.040 If you love him, he means a lot to you and you really want it.

06:13:11.120 You'll do it.

06:13:12.060 Yeah.

06:13:12.460 Like if I really love him, if I wanted to.

06:13:14.600 If my husband asked me to.

06:13:16.560 Yeah.

06:13:16.880 Yeah.

06:13:17.360 Based W.

06:13:18.400 Okay.

06:13:19.000 Done.

06:13:19.280 There you go.

06:13:20.760 Uh, and by the way, is everybody here Christian?

06:13:22.800 Maybe she's the only fucking Christian one because, uh, submit onto your, wait, wait, how's it

06:13:28.140 going to go fucking, uh, submit onto your husbands as you would onto the Lord.

06:13:32.520 Um, like a biblical Christian marriage, like the husband's the head of the household.

06:13:37.160 You, you defer to him.

06:13:38.740 You're submissive to him again within the purview of like, uh, Christian ethics, Christian morality.

06:13:45.080 If he asks you to start, start being a, a prostitute, of course, you're not going to be submissive to

06:13:50.240 your Christian husband.

06:13:51.260 If he wants you to start an only fans, no, that's in contravention of Christian, uh, Christian

06:13:56.360 morality, Christian ethics.

06:13:58.120 But, uh, I don't know your husband.

06:14:01.440 I just, I guess it's somebody in my discord put it really well.

06:14:06.340 I think it's, uh, uh, her name, she always changes her username.

06:14:11.540 So I'm trying to, um, she wrote that, uh, if you will do one really easy, effortless,

06:14:19.840 completely benign thing just to make your man happy, regardless of how silly, silly it is.

06:14:27.120 And it's like, you won't do it.

06:14:28.420 You won't do it.

06:14:29.160 Um, question though, for the perfect man, perfect man, it's not just look in life.

06:14:36.180 We're not going to get perfect.

06:14:37.580 We're not going to get the perfect life.

06:14:39.900 We're not going to get the perfect career.

06:14:41.440 We're not going to get the perfect spouse, husband, wife, whatever.

06:14:46.580 They're going to annoy us in some way or another.

06:14:48.780 They're not going to be as tall.

06:14:50.180 They're not going to have as much hair as you'd like.

06:14:52.240 They're not going to, well, whatever.

06:14:54.060 They're not going to be every, every single thing that you want.

06:14:57.380 You might really love them and they might be fantastic.

06:14:59.860 You're not going to get the perfect person for the perfect man.

06:15:03.320 Do you bow?

06:15:04.980 Sure.

06:15:06.040 For the perfect man, you do it.

06:15:07.400 I mean, it would have to be like role-playing or whatever.

06:15:10.400 Like not like an everyday thing.

06:15:11.720 It's not an everyday thing.

06:15:12.720 Everyday thing.

06:15:13.620 No.

06:15:14.260 Still, okay.

06:15:14.920 Perfect man.

06:15:15.680 Still, yes.

06:15:16.660 Perfect man.

06:15:17.380 Do you bow?

06:15:18.980 After you said that whole thing about submitting to your husbands, I'm going to have to say,

06:15:22.060 Oh, I changed your mind.

06:15:23.100 Okay.

06:15:24.740 So perfect man.

06:15:25.860 Yes.

06:15:26.160 Perfect man.

06:15:26.780 Do you do it?

06:15:27.440 For the perfect man, I do anything.

06:15:29.220 The perfect man.

06:15:29.920 Do you do laundry the first time you go to his house?

06:15:32.300 Well, I don't know he's perfect yet.

06:15:33.940 First time I go to his house.

06:15:35.600 There's so much more to find out.

06:15:37.020 In the hypothetical, you know he's perfect.

06:15:40.600 Yes.

06:15:41.240 Yes, you do.

06:15:42.000 Okay.

06:15:42.400 But he's not around.

06:15:44.680 All right.

06:15:45.380 Perfect man.

06:15:45.820 He's my husband.

06:15:46.380 Yes.

06:15:46.980 Perfect man.

06:15:47.640 Would you do it?

06:15:48.260 Yes.

06:15:48.840 Yes.

06:15:49.180 Yes.

06:15:49.300 She does the bow.

06:15:49.860 Yes.

06:15:50.140 You do laundry also for the perfect man?

06:15:52.000 I have done that before.

06:15:53.180 Okay.

06:15:53.480 What about you?

06:15:53.940 Perfect man.

06:15:54.700 I think yes.

06:15:56.240 Okay.

06:15:57.520 Interesting.

06:15:57.920 Again, I've done so much laundry.

06:15:59.060 So who said it was just you now?

06:15:59.620 Okay.

06:15:59.800 So I'll focus on you for a little bit.

06:16:01.600 No.

06:16:02.120 Focus on me.

06:16:03.940 Hell yeah.

06:16:04.280 Uh, I'm trying to think.

06:16:06.260 Perfect man.

06:16:07.400 Um, how about this?

06:16:09.720 Do you give up your career for the perfect man?

06:16:14.080 Yes.

06:16:14.780 Oh, okay.

06:16:15.800 Give up your career for the perfect man?

06:16:17.540 Gosh, that's a hard one.

06:16:20.840 Oh, cause I, I really like shit talking and everything like that.

06:16:24.500 So, um, yeah, you have to get, you have to, uh, you do like social media to get the perfect

06:16:30.300 man.

06:16:31.500 By the way, the perfect man could be like a billionaire.

06:16:33.300 So it's like, you have to delete social media.

06:16:39.800 No social media, no social media, all gone.

06:16:43.020 Do you give it up for the perfect man?

06:16:51.760 Um, you would rather, wait, wait, let her answer, let her answer.

06:16:56.280 Right.

06:16:59.040 If he, yeah, if he took care of my family, cause a lot of what I do is because I want my family

06:17:03.620 to be safe and I want, well, that sounds bad.

06:17:05.880 I want to be big enough or I want to start something big enough where I can, um, have,

06:17:12.340 have my family safe and I can take care of them.

06:17:14.960 So if that man can do that, then I, I would be more than happy to give it all up.

06:17:19.680 So, yes.

06:17:20.600 You said you give up your career.

06:17:22.280 Yes.

06:17:22.660 Social media too.

06:17:24.080 I mean, if it can't be like, Oh, we can't do a couple of stuff on it and like family stuff.

06:17:28.160 You can't have any social media.

06:17:29.640 I guess like, bye.

06:17:30.940 Bye.

06:17:31.620 You give up easily, uh, give up perfect or give up career for perfect man.

06:17:36.600 Of course I give up career.

06:17:37.860 I'd give up social media.

06:17:39.200 Just say yes or no.

06:17:40.580 Yes.

06:17:42.120 Absolutely.

06:17:43.240 How about this?

06:17:44.960 Perfect career or perfect man.

06:17:48.860 So it's not just giving up your career, which for most people won't have the perfect career.

06:17:54.920 Whatever the perfect career is, you have two options, perfect career or perfect man.

06:18:00.640 Which do you pick?

06:18:02.740 I guess the, the perfect man because yeah, perfect man, perfect man, perfect man, perfect man.

06:18:10.040 I do it for my husband currently.

06:18:12.540 Perfect man.

06:18:13.740 Perfect man.

06:18:14.320 Okay.

06:18:14.880 All right.

06:18:15.220 Kind of reasonable here.

06:18:16.540 Um, I don't know if I have anything else on the laundry thing.

06:18:21.000 Uh, yeah.

06:18:23.200 Why laundry?

06:18:24.060 Why did you choose laundry over like sweeping or watering his plants?

06:18:29.260 Like those are things that I might actually do.

06:18:32.120 They can do that too.

06:18:32.820 Over laundry.

06:18:33.540 Don't even, don't get them started.

06:18:34.700 Hold on.

06:18:35.160 I feel like, like dragging around the hose and like holding, like holding the hose, which

06:18:41.320 I mean, it's, it's like a few, your hands get tired after a while.

06:18:45.660 Yeah.

06:18:46.700 Like holding up the hose.

06:18:47.960 That's it's five pounds, but you do it for 30 minutes.

06:18:50.260 Then how large is your lawn?

06:18:54.300 No, I was saying like, don't worry about it, but it's a, it's a process.

06:18:59.380 So anyways, don't, don't get too excited.

06:19:02.900 Um, I'm not good for you.

06:19:04.680 Thank you.

06:19:05.260 Appreciate it.

06:19:06.340 Uh, yeah, it's like, uh, what's it called?

06:19:11.780 I feel like cleaning.

06:19:14.360 I feel like that's a bigger ask than laundry, but that's something that I would do before

06:19:19.880 I would put gloves on.

06:19:21.440 Like you got to clean a toilet.

06:19:22.660 That's worse.

06:19:24.240 No one said anything about toilet cleaning over laundry, but I'm saying like tidying up

06:19:28.920 the kitchen or doing some dishes.

06:19:30.980 It's just, I'd rather do laundry.

06:19:32.900 Well, those are the things that I would do before.

06:19:35.620 If your, if your hands have to get wet.

06:19:37.740 Yeah.

06:19:38.100 Oh, I'm so into it.

06:19:40.380 Okay.

06:19:41.080 You like touching all the dirty food.

06:19:43.380 I just, I do dishes.

06:19:44.740 Like the chunks of food on the plate.

06:19:46.960 When you have to clean the drain as well.

06:19:49.760 It's the worst.

06:19:50.800 I'd rather do laundry.

06:19:51.660 Um, let's see here.

06:19:53.340 You want to touch his dirty boxers and his.

06:19:55.960 Well, you're not going to touch the direct.

06:19:57.600 Wipe his ass correctly.

06:20:00.960 What?

06:20:01.400 Somebody, I, um, you know what though?

06:20:07.780 I, I could have gone crazy with this shit.

06:20:09.800 I could have been like, she's got a churn butter.

06:20:12.500 Oh my God.

06:20:13.240 Churn butter.

06:20:13.580 I'm down with that.

06:20:15.400 She, if she won't find someone who will, if she wanted to, she would like, make me a quilt.

06:20:23.360 Make me some fucking moccasins.

06:20:26.100 I have done so much laundry for my ex.

06:20:28.340 I used to go down three flights of stairs.

06:20:30.380 I love no elevator to do his laundry.

06:20:32.880 Like I can call him.

06:20:34.060 Knit me a cardigan.

06:20:35.740 I like doing laundry.

06:20:36.300 Knit me a cardigan.

06:20:37.440 If she isn't Amish.

06:20:40.940 I don't know.

06:20:42.380 She's not the one.

06:20:43.380 Yeah.

06:20:43.580 I don't know.

06:20:44.340 It's some karate kid shit though.

06:20:45.860 It's like Mr. Miyagi.

06:20:46.920 I train her so that she's ready for the all valley karate tournament.

06:20:52.940 Um, yeah, that's what I think I deserve because nevermind.

06:20:58.340 Because you have a large backyard.

06:20:59.920 Uh, because I'm a King.

06:21:01.740 What I actually live in an apartment.

06:21:04.380 I'm just kidding.

06:21:04.960 Um, uh, what if, uh, let's see.

06:21:08.860 Hmm.

06:21:10.060 Felicity knows.

06:21:12.320 Okay.

06:21:12.940 Don't worry about it.

06:21:13.960 Um, let's see if there was anything else.

06:21:17.020 Oh no.

06:21:17.420 Women, women will poke the back of their throats with an F boys pecker.

06:21:22.940 Oh my God.

06:21:24.200 But won't cook for a billionaire.

06:21:26.280 Can't get over it.

06:21:26.820 That's a very creative.

06:21:27.720 Not any of us.

06:21:29.140 I don't know what you're talking about.

06:21:30.620 Let that sink in.

06:21:32.000 Not for, not us.

06:21:33.960 Uh, okay.

06:21:34.640 Here we have, do we have some more chats?

06:21:36.520 I feel like pasty George here.

06:21:38.220 It's going to murder me.

06:21:39.920 He's going to shank me next time he sees me, man.

06:21:43.180 Get to my fricking chats, Brian.

06:21:47.220 Pasty George donated $70.

06:21:49.900 Great point from chair three about the one night stand.

06:21:53.580 She is based on that.

06:21:55.920 Thank you.

06:21:56.760 Pasty George.

06:21:57.840 We love you.

06:21:59.360 She loves you.

06:22:00.260 Long time.

06:22:01.220 Pasty George.

06:22:03.720 Long time.

06:22:06.400 I don't really.

06:22:07.220 Do I have a button for that?

06:22:08.400 I swear I do.

06:22:09.500 Wait, hold on.

06:22:10.080 It's going to be delayed, but fuck.

06:22:12.140 Pasty George donated $70.

06:22:15.000 Western marriage is a humiliation ritual where a man has to bend a knee and offer his life

06:22:19.960 to a woman and is at her mercy because she can at any time divorce him and take all his

06:22:25.840 hard-earned money.

06:22:29.040 Oh, me so horny.

06:22:30.920 Me love you.

06:22:31.780 Long time.

06:22:32.860 Jeez.

06:22:34.020 Are you too young for this movie clip?

06:22:36.660 But you have the armed man, so you should know it.

06:22:40.020 Look up full metal jacket when you go home.

06:22:42.020 Full metal jacket.

06:22:42.500 Yeah.

06:22:42.780 Okay.

06:22:43.100 All right, guys.

06:22:44.340 I'm going to start a goal in the YouTube section for Super Chat.

06:22:50.320 50 Super Chats, yellow and up.

06:22:53.580 We have one hour.

06:22:55.140 I will wear a kilt next episode if we hit this goal.

06:23:00.900 I'm starting the goal now.

06:23:03.220 What is a kilt?

06:23:04.380 The Scottish.

06:23:05.540 It's like a skirt.

06:23:06.320 They won't see it, though.

06:23:06.980 You'd have to stand the whole time.

06:23:08.780 Are you going to wear underwear?

06:23:09.580 With Andrew here?

06:23:11.240 No, you can with a kilt.

06:23:12.300 Sorry.

06:23:12.640 Hold on.

06:23:13.300 Not...

06:23:13.660 Wait.

06:23:13.920 Fuck.

06:23:14.780 I got to revise that.

06:23:15.940 Yeah, that was a good idea.

06:23:17.240 I can change it.

06:23:17.720 You can't take it back.

06:23:18.220 Nobody sent a Super Chat yet.

06:23:19.360 Remove.

06:23:20.700 I rescind.

06:23:21.900 Rescinded.

06:23:22.320 I think Andrew would like that.

06:23:23.900 You know what?

06:23:25.380 Brian will wear a kilt...

06:23:27.380 To the debates next time.

06:23:28.680 ...will wear a kilt during...

06:23:31.380 Actually, it would kind of be funny to do it with Andrew here.

06:23:35.580 Yeah.

06:23:36.840 An episode in November.

06:23:39.980 I reserve the right to not have it be the Andrew episode, but I'm a nice guy.

06:23:44.620 Maybe I'll do it.

06:23:45.200 No.

06:23:45.400 I might do it during Andrew's episode.

06:23:46.720 Is Andrew here?

06:23:47.980 We need to see what he thinks.

06:23:49.200 Brian will wear a kilt during an episode in November.

06:23:53.500 50 Super Chats, 10 and up.

06:23:57.320 Send that shit, boys.

06:23:59.540 That was kind of...

06:24:00.880 I know.

06:24:01.360 I did that.

06:24:02.160 I did it intentionally.

06:24:03.680 Okay, Felicity.

06:24:04.680 That shit was intentional.

06:24:06.100 Letting your gay side slip out again.

06:24:09.780 Word.

06:24:10.500 True.

06:24:10.880 It's true.

06:24:11.440 He likes to do his gay impression.

06:24:12.920 I have a great gay voice.

06:24:14.980 He does.

06:24:15.740 But a kilt is not gay.

06:24:17.600 No.

06:24:17.980 Yeah, we're not saying the kilt is gay.

06:24:20.540 The kilt is actually, like, giga-masculine.

06:24:22.820 Are you Irish?

06:24:24.360 Are you Irish?

06:24:24.860 Are you Scottish, you mean?

06:24:26.120 Oh, Scottish.

06:24:26.720 Wow, that was really insensitive to the Scots.

06:24:29.080 I'm a little tired.

06:24:29.460 Can you please issue an apology?

06:24:31.740 The Scots.

06:24:32.360 Are you Scottish?

06:24:33.720 No, I don't think so.

06:24:35.100 Why do you have a kilt?

06:24:36.580 I don't yet, but I might fucking buy one so I can do the thing.

06:24:41.600 Nice.

06:24:42.220 I want you to look in the camera, though, and fucking apologize for being a racist.

06:24:46.020 Is that racist?

06:24:47.160 Yeah, she thought it was the Irish.

06:24:49.440 That shit's racist, bro.

06:24:50.980 How is that racist?

06:24:51.220 They kind of look the same, no?

06:24:53.080 Oh.

06:24:53.440 What?

06:24:54.760 Don't they?

06:24:55.660 They're in the same area.

06:24:55.840 There's a cultural difference between...

06:24:57.660 I think bojas drink too much.

06:24:59.020 Ireland is a...

06:25:00.140 Ireland is its own island, son.

06:25:03.760 I'm Irish.

06:25:05.240 Okay, Felicity.

06:25:06.460 I am.

06:25:07.400 All right.

06:25:08.200 All right.

06:25:09.640 Was there anything else on the bow thing?

06:25:11.560 I don't know.

06:25:12.240 No.

06:25:12.960 There is stuff...

06:25:14.020 There's more notes, though.

06:25:14.980 We have some notes from...

06:25:17.000 Hold on.

06:25:17.620 Where are we?

06:25:18.040 We did Laura.

06:25:23.440 You said you want to bring back celibacy, your final note.

06:25:27.680 You also...

06:25:28.720 I feel like you're partially based, though.

06:25:30.600 You want to bring back celibacy and shaming and not celebrating hoe behavior.

06:25:35.720 Are you celibate?

06:25:37.320 Yeah.

06:25:37.660 For how long?

06:25:38.880 A year and a half.

06:25:40.620 Damn.

06:25:41.260 Almost a year and a half.

06:25:42.000 Good for you.

06:25:43.180 16 months.

06:25:44.280 Are you waiting until marriage?

06:25:46.760 I haven't really decided that.

06:25:51.560 I don't think so.

06:25:52.220 But I intend that the next person that I sleep with is going to be my husband.

06:25:56.240 But you won't wait until marriage.

06:25:58.320 Is that correct?

06:25:59.100 I don't think so.

06:26:02.880 But I intend for the next person to...

06:26:05.640 No shame.

06:26:05.900 I'm not shaming you.

06:26:06.940 Right.

06:26:07.320 You want the last guy to be your last.

06:26:09.100 I see.

06:26:09.900 The next guy to be the last.

06:26:10.740 But you're not going to make him wait until marriage.

06:26:12.920 Fair to say?

06:26:14.960 Probably not.

06:26:15.900 Probably not.

06:26:16.160 It's really hard.

06:26:17.140 It's really hard.

06:26:18.320 Well, what if he doesn't want to?

06:26:19.980 Quite literally.

06:26:21.020 Whatever.

06:26:22.420 Going to Paige.

06:26:24.060 You write you have serious daddy issues in 10 seconds or less.

06:26:28.140 Tell me why.

06:26:29.140 Because I didn't know him until I was nine.

06:26:30.900 And I never even saw a picture of him.

06:26:32.080 And then he moved in with us.

06:26:32.960 And he was a total jerk face.

06:26:34.540 Hide this thing.

06:26:37.420 Okay.

06:26:37.580 And he was just a real asshole for 10 years of my life.

06:26:42.060 And then when he left, the last words he said to me were, go burn in hell.

06:26:44.960 I never loved you.

06:26:45.680 You fucking cunt.

06:26:48.020 Okay.

06:26:48.480 That's a lot.

06:26:49.000 That can definitely cause daddy issues.

06:26:52.760 That can do that.

06:26:53.920 I do have to say he's reached out recently.

06:26:56.040 And he does seem like a changed man.

06:26:58.300 And it's been put on my heart to forgive him, which is hard.

06:27:01.500 But I'm hoping someday I can.

06:27:04.260 So you, the big thing I wanted to talk to you about, I wish I got into it earlier because

06:27:09.080 it's the sort of tail end of the show.

06:27:12.100 You say you've been married to your husband for a while.

06:27:17.380 You say you are by no means perfect.

06:27:20.420 We bicker like a lot, but we get over it so fast.

06:27:25.020 Uh, how does your husband feel about that?

06:27:29.200 He, when he, he knows I have a big mouth.

06:27:32.140 He's always known I had a big mouth.

06:27:33.820 I think it's something he's just tolerated.

06:27:35.980 I'm by no means like a jerk.

06:27:37.660 Like I don't name, I try my best not to name call.

06:27:39.980 I try to be really respectful.

06:27:41.920 And, um, I tend to like storm off.

06:27:44.780 And then like two minutes later, okay, I'm sorry.

06:27:46.580 I was being kind of crazy.

06:27:47.880 And he always accepts my apologies, which is nice.

06:27:50.740 Okay.

06:27:50.960 Um, you wrote that, uh, you, you also write related to this.

06:27:57.940 You're pretty mouthy sometimes and your husband is more quiet.

06:28:02.620 Um, when you say you're pretty mouthy, uh, can you give us some examples of how you might

06:28:08.860 mouth off to him?

06:28:10.120 Like pretend I'm your husband right now.

06:28:13.240 Um, if he like role play, if you snapped at me, be like, can you not talk to me like that?

06:28:17.760 Like, who do you think you are?

06:28:18.740 Like he does that or you, I do that or I'll be like, so he's, you're saying he's mouthy

06:28:25.740 to you.

06:28:26.880 Like if he snaps or he's in a bad mood, you know, or I, um, I'm trying to think if we

06:28:33.060 like role play, uh, he forgets things a lot, which I should let it go more, but I don't.

06:28:38.180 So I'll be like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe you forgot this.

06:28:40.000 Like you don't even care if you cared, you wouldn't forget.

06:28:42.860 And then I have to step back and remind myself, like, he's a busy guy.

06:28:47.340 He does a lot for us.

06:28:48.920 So what are some things that he might forget?

06:28:50.560 Like he forgot to pick up something during an errand?

06:28:53.180 He like, Oh, he'll go out to like pick up dinner or something.

06:28:55.440 And he'll have to call me like three times.

06:28:56.880 Like, what do you want?

06:28:57.660 And I'm like, you know what I want.

06:28:59.180 I got the same thing every time for 10 years.

06:29:02.420 Say it how you would say it when you're being pretty mouthy.

06:29:04.760 I'd be like, Oh my goodness.

06:29:06.100 Like, don't you care about me?

06:29:07.920 Like if you cared about me, you would know my order.

06:29:10.660 Yeah.

06:29:11.240 As a person, I have to step back and I have to apologize and I have to be like, I'm sorry.

06:29:18.620 I have a terrible memory and I can tell you from the heart that it's never because I didn't

06:29:25.400 care.

06:29:25.860 I appreciate you saying that.

06:29:26.960 And I'm sorry, Skylar.

06:29:28.340 You also wrote, you also wrote related to this.

06:29:31.780 You are by no means meek.

06:29:33.640 You definitely talk back to your husband too much.

06:29:37.000 Yeah.

06:29:37.480 You even wrote, we aren't even getting along that well right now, but there, there's no

06:29:41.520 hint of a separation or breakup because you guys trust each other, remain close.

06:29:45.140 Um, you also never withhold sex and you often encourage sex.

06:29:49.640 Um, so hold on.

06:29:55.780 Uh, I want to give you a call to action that I hope your husband and maybe you'll have some

06:30:02.840 benefits with the kids too, might appreciate that could fundamentally change and improve

06:30:08.320 your relationship.

06:30:10.380 Stop being mouthy.

06:30:12.380 And I always say to him too, if I, uh, Skylar will never hit me cause he knows I'll hit back.

06:30:17.340 Like, Whoa, I wasn't talking about, I know I'm just saying, but like, I'm always very much

06:30:21.480 like, Oh, don't come at me cause I'll come at you.

06:30:23.240 But like, I, I, like I, I have worked on anger issues.

06:30:26.340 I have not, I don't yell.

06:30:27.520 I don't scream.

06:30:28.180 I don't get loud, but I, I'm a little mouthy.

06:30:31.060 Yeah.

06:30:31.420 Stop being mouthy.

06:30:32.380 Yeah.

06:30:32.720 I'm mouthy too, but I can't help it.

06:30:35.560 Oh boy.

06:30:36.160 You can help it.

06:30:37.440 You can help it.

06:30:38.080 Um, I can't help it, but, um, show, I don't know.

06:30:42.880 You got to show them deference and respect.

06:30:46.360 Yeah.

06:30:46.760 I've noticed recently, especially because since I became disabled, he does so much for us.

06:30:50.880 And I feel a lot of guilt about like the things I can't do anymore.

06:30:54.380 So a lot of times I'll start to get mouthy and I say, wait, he didn't mean it like that.

06:30:58.700 He's doing his best.

06:31:01.480 But, but I'm not, no, no, no sarcasm.

06:31:04.160 No cattiness, cut the rebelliousness, be pleasant entirely, drop it entirely.

06:31:12.900 Okay.

06:31:14.860 And I think, look, you, cause you said he was quiet.

06:31:17.520 So I mean, maybe I am misunderstood because you said he would sometimes snap at you.

06:31:21.500 No, I definitely like he is quiet and I definitely overpower the conversation sometimes.

06:31:25.720 Yeah.

06:31:25.920 Cause like, I think a lot of men, they'll be in the dog house if they try to call out their girlfriends or wives on this.

06:31:32.700 Like a lot of men just end up broken.

06:31:35.020 Like it's crushing to a man to date a woman who's like snappy with you.

06:31:42.380 And a lot of men, I gotta be, look, uh, they, they don't want to create friction.

06:31:48.140 A lot of men don't want to create conflict, especially in a, you guys been together for 13 years, married for 10, you got kids.

06:31:54.980 A lot of men just in that situation, like, it's one thing you've been dating some chick for six months and she mouths off to you, man, I'm she's fucking dumped, but he can't just, when you're married, when you got kids, uh, you can't, that's, that's not really an option.

06:32:10.000 I mean, it is technically an option, but you can't really bring it there.

06:32:14.120 Um, I mean, I would, I would correct my girl, but if it continues and she's mouthing off to me, goodbye.

06:32:19.320 Yeah, he definitely shuts down and that's when I'm like, I've gone too far.

06:32:22.660 I need to, well, yeah, that's what was going through my mind when you said he's a bit quiet.

06:32:26.780 Like a lot of guys, they don't, they don't, uh, call it out.

06:32:32.060 They don't call it out because it's just going to create more friction.

06:32:35.340 And I think a lot of men's approach, I don't think it's the right approach, but they'll do this happy wife, happy life thing.

06:32:43.120 But it's got to be happy spouse, happy house, because it's not just the wife that matters, both of y'all matter.

06:32:49.340 But I think a lot of men, they, they, uh, they'll, uh, they didn't call it out in the beginning and now it's just an established behavior.

06:33:00.780 Yeah, it definitely became established and now I have to do the work to just not do it so much.

06:33:05.760 And like I said, since I've been sick, I'm in this new role, which has actually been like really eye opening.

06:33:10.020 Like I said, I am far from perfect. I mess up every day, but I, I'm absolutely trying.

06:33:15.820 I always tell people like, try to act like it's your first year, even when it's your 10th year, because your first year you were on your best behavior.

06:33:23.240 You were your sweetest, you were your most patient and yeah, just everything.

06:33:29.240 But, but a lot of men will, will kind of be doormats a little bit with some of this shit.

06:33:33.780 They, they, they all, uh, and like, I'm not fully blaming them because there comes a point in a relationship when it's like you, you feel like your role as the man is just to like avoid friction and avoid, uh, tension and be the peacekeeper.

06:33:56.640 Sure. But I don't know if I'm trying to, from what I, from what you've told me, I could share something.

06:34:07.340 You got to stop, stop that shit.

06:34:08.600 I do. Um, I also too, I was, um, I'll share a little too much, but I was diagnosed bipolar a couple of years back and I am totally, yes, I, I, on medicine.

06:34:17.600 And so things are going in the right direction and it just, it explained a lot. It really did.

06:34:22.620 I had a crappy childhood. What can I say? And it's coming out, you know, with some issues, but you know, and I, but like I said, I'm, I'm really trying to do better.

06:34:29.700 And, um, I take a medication and things are going really well. So, and I'm sorry, Skylar. Um, I hope later we can kiss and make up and at least yourself aware.

06:34:40.920 Yeah. Big. That's huge. Yeah. You're aware. Yeah. Once I start doing it, I'm like, wait, don't do this. You know?

06:34:47.680 I mean, at least, at least it's good. I mean, it's not good that you're doing it, but you said that two minutes later you come back and you apologize.

06:34:56.620 That's, you shouldn't do it in the first place, but at least it's like, you know, you're not letting him sit in that shit for like three hours.

06:35:07.300 Oh, no, never. I don't ever shut up if that's not obvious. And I, I like, I, even when I'm mad at him, I'm like, Hey, how are you talking to him?

06:35:13.740 Like, and I'm like, just cause I'm talking to you doesn't mean I'm not mad at you, but I can't help it. I can't help but talk to him.

06:35:19.560 But it's, uh, Proverbs 21, 19 better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.

06:35:26.560 Oh man. So do you nag him? No, actually. Okay. I do a little bit.

06:35:31.920 Like the air, you said he forgets that stuff. Yeah. But like, yes, I will do that a little bit. Cause he's, he does forget a lot of things.

06:35:40.080 So the reminders put his name, Skylar, it is put some respect. Yeah. I'm a homie Skylar. Okay. Okay. That was cringe. Sorry.

06:35:50.240 He's probably laughing. He thought it was funny. You thought he was put some, you know what? Skylar, Skylar, Skylar, Skylar, Skylar, Skylar. You see it?

06:35:59.360 You think he's watching? He's probably, is he watching? Skylar.

06:36:01.600 Skylar. Skylar. Listen to me, bro. Check this shit out. You're going to put a sound clip on your phone and, um, it's going to be something like, Paige, put some respect on my boy Skylar. Clip that shit, Skylar. Every time she mouths off at you, Skylar, if she mouths off at you, just play the clip.

06:36:28.900 Be like, look, Brian. Hey, it's out of my hands, Paige. Brian said to cut the shit. Okay. So we got to listen to, you know, the podcast host. You got to listen to the podcast host.

06:36:41.840 I don't think I nag him. Cause I'm not like, oh, you could clean that better or you could do this. I'd never do that. I like, I try to like, I'm always like, I'm proud of you. You're doing so much for our family.

06:36:50.180 I'll give you another one, Skylar. I rebuke ye in the name of the, okay. Clip that shit too.

06:36:58.900 If she starts mouthing off, uh, and then you can also do, uh, oh, here's another one. Here's a good one.

06:37:05.860 The lady doth protest too much. Me thinks. That's my favorite shit. Whenever she's being fucking mouthy,

06:37:13.980 I'll do it one more time in case the lady does. Wait, hold on.

06:37:19.180 Now the pressure's on the lady doth protest too much. Me thinks he's really good at impressions.

06:37:30.940 He'll probably just start saying that and it's going to make us laugh so hard. So

06:37:34.460 actually thank you or something. Hamlet is in Hamlet. I don't know. Um, Skylar, just say that shit.

06:37:40.860 If she's being mouthy, just be like the lady doth protest too much. Something like that. Um,

06:37:49.500 is that Shakespeare? Can anybody, Nick, Google it? The lady doth protest too much. I don't know.

06:37:56.740 Whatever. Uh, anyways, yeah, just cut that shit out, you know, for, for the, for the, for Skylar.

06:38:04.400 It's Hamlet. It is Hamlet. Oh my God. Fucking slam dunk. Fucking nailed that shit. Hamlet. Oh my God.

06:38:16.620 Do you guys, what do you guys think? That's like a food or something? What? We had to read Hamlet back

06:38:21.420 in the day. Just kidding. I'm just joking. Okay. Anyways, where were we? Uh, let's see some of your

06:38:27.960 other notes though. Um, let's see. Uh, I'm remembering everything I wrote to you. I'm

06:38:35.800 like, what's coming next? You know, uh, you said you disagree with some of the roles in

06:38:42.040 the marriage that come up on the show. We kind of talked about that though. Like the, like

06:38:47.880 I just think you're more of a partnership. You partnership. Gross. Wait, didn't you say

06:38:52.860 that it's been the best it's ever been now that you've let him take? You're right. Yeah.

06:38:59.020 Fuck that shit. Um, partner. Oh my God. Partner. Come on. We really are like best friends. Cause

06:39:05.060 we grew up together. I don't think women really want partnership. No, it's not partnership.

06:39:12.440 The man has his roles. What's wrong with gender roles? I just didn't know. I was genuinely

06:39:17.100 asking. Partnership. Would it mean that? I mean, it depends. Like in reality, I could be like

06:39:22.200 the, you're one, if you're looking at it through scripture, you know, so it's not even a partnership.

06:39:26.260 Like you're just one. Yeah. You also wrote that, uh, if you're lonely, get it here. Tell

06:39:33.700 us the cat thing. The cat thing. Oh, if you're lonely, get a cat. Um, was it just don't ride

06:39:39.820 any random dick? You said just don't just hop on top of a random dick or better yet.

06:39:48.280 Open. Open. Oh, open a Bible. Yes. Sorry. Amen. Uh, you said there are so many ways to not

06:39:59.240 have sex, right? Get pregnant, get pregnant. Take some responsibility, be safe.

06:40:04.780 Okay. You say a two parent household is typically always better. Okay. Um, you say men should help

06:40:11.980 with chores. I'm not his mom. I, I don't, I think obviously like the things I do do, he

06:40:20.040 can expect me to do, but if he needs something else done, it's nice to be asked politely.

06:40:25.420 Don't command me to do it. Like, I mean, he, I do almost anything he asks me. I don't like

06:40:32.260 when women say this. I'm not his mom. I know. I take that back after hearing your argument

06:40:36.680 earlier. Yeah. Well, because it would just basically like, I never thought of it that

06:40:40.660 way about the father thing. If, if you're a woman who's going to say, I'm not his mom,

06:40:45.680 I'm not going to do these things. Then you should be prepared for men to say, I'm not your dad.

06:40:52.620 I won't do these things. Provide, protect, pay for dates, et cetera. I never thought of it

06:40:57.560 like, um, no, my dad never paid for dates. Okay. Please don't date your dad. What I'm

06:41:05.860 trying to get at, you know, what I'm trying to get at there is the providing component.

06:41:12.380 Men aren't your dads do that shit yourself. Um, uh, let's see. But I, cause if it makes you

06:41:19.840 his mom to cook and clean and do chores, then it makes him your dad to protect and provide. Um,

06:41:28.700 let's see. Uh, and then like, if the women say, well, I don't want to do the mom things. And the

06:41:34.300 dad says, I won't do the, the dad things. Then what does that leave companionship and fucking

06:41:40.900 there's no rules that we can, whatever. Uh, okay. We did the bear, you something about the bear.

06:41:48.000 Uh, final thing for you. Uh, you say women should have all the opportunities of men,

06:41:53.480 but the playing field should not be leveled. Oh, so you're talking like firefighters or police

06:41:59.860 or military, the physical requirement should be the same. Yeah. Is that absolutely. And if you

06:42:05.640 can't do it, you said you've kissed a lot of frogs, but you found a good one. You've been dating him for

06:42:12.320 seven years. Uh, your first relationship was the craziest lot of drama restraining order.

06:42:18.000 Yeah. But then you now friends. Yeah. He's more like a big brother, like a good friend.

06:42:25.540 I see. Okay. But no, we're not in contact like that much. Okay. And you said crazy attracts

06:42:30.980 crazy. So are you crazy? Probably. Okay. Uh, we have some chats here.

06:42:37.600 Vector donated $70. Chair three. I'm fascinated by Hitler too. Fascinated. Why a narcissistic putrid

06:42:48.660 dictatorial bunnies would seek to wipe out the flowers because reasons the flagrant drug ridden

06:42:54.980 psychopathic idiotic blowhard. Wow. Vector has a, so there's a couple, uh, stream labs changes words.

06:43:02.520 Uh, it was dictatorial ass would seek to wipe out Jewish people is, is what the TTS meant to say.

06:43:10.740 Oh, and he's, he's curious why they would do that. Or is that what he was saying? What was the end

06:43:17.500 where he was insulting somebody? He was talking about Hitler. Okay, good. Okay. Because he was a

06:43:23.460 flagrant drug ridden. Oh, okay, okay, good. Okay.

06:43:28.860 Chore XD donated $69. The reason men shut down, I know this because it's been me, is because not

06:43:36.680 even our home brings us peace anymore. Avoiding you shouldn't be the path of least resistance.

06:43:42.880 Keep that in mind. Good point. I think sometimes not all, uh, obviously not all women do this, but

06:43:48.580 with the nagging and the, the, the mouthing off or whatever, you start chipping away at a guy

06:43:53.800 and you chip away, chip away, chip away. And they're like a husk of their

06:43:57.700 empty husk. What's the shell shell thing, a hollow shell of their price. That's something like that.

06:44:07.400 Just saying, you know, uh, the lady doth protest too much. Oh gosh. I bet when he picks me up later,

06:44:13.580 that's going to be the first thing he says. That should be the first thing he says. I've just given

06:44:18.480 him rhetorical weapons to use in your marital disputes. Employ them. You must oblige me, Skylar.

06:44:29.800 Employ the, the, uh, employ these tactics in your marriage, I guess. Strategies, marital. Okay,

06:44:37.940 whatever. Uh, let's see here. More notes. We have a few more notes. Uno memento. Sabrina 35 and you've

06:44:51.860 had terrible luck at dating. Yes. Uh, let's see. You've had some bad relationships, a lot of ghosting.

06:44:58.440 Uh, you're still single at 35, almost 36. You say maybe you write, maybe I'm the problem.

06:45:03.840 Maybe you're the problem. Uh, why, why do you think that's the case? Well, my last relationships,

06:45:12.400 they broke up with me for the same reasons. So I think we kind of touched on it a little bit. I

06:45:17.920 didn't really believe them. Okay. Um, all right. Um,

06:45:28.560 you write, although you're an independent working woman, you would like to eventually have a man as

06:45:35.580 a partner to grow something, to grow with together, be able to provide our rules for the relationship.

06:45:41.400 He's the provider of the family. You're the provider of the household. Yeah.

06:45:47.040 Did you say you would do the laundry? I did the laundry. I think you said, I don't know.

06:45:51.880 Like the perfect man. No, I did the laundry. Okay. Soph. Yeah. No, I would bow to the perfect man. Oh, yeah.

06:45:58.060 Soph. Blake. Soph. No. Soph. You, right? Me? Yeah. That's your name, right? Sophia? Sorry, nobody.

06:46:08.100 I don't know. Isn't your, your Instagram has it? Oh, yeah. Sorry, no one calls me Soph. Okay.

06:46:13.180 Sophia, single as a Pringle. Yes. Uh, you said you were talking to a guy, only a talking stage for

06:46:18.160 less than a week before you ghosted him. Because why? His, um, uncle told my parents, it was, um,

06:46:26.400 so on the 4th of July, I met this guy and we were just kind of talking. He was like super respectful.

06:46:30.940 Like he met my dad, shook his hand. Uh, so then we walked down like to the beach afterwards and then

06:46:36.220 we were just kind of talking. He was my first kiss. Come to find out like five days later, his uncle

06:46:41.760 told my parents, he was like, oh yeah, no, she needs to stop talking to him because he's going through

06:46:45.660 court for being in a drive-by shooting. Wow. What? Wait, did this happen after? Like,

06:46:54.980 or he would, he had already been? He had already, like he's going through the court system. Okay. So

06:46:59.500 that had already happened before you met him? Yes. And I had absolutely no idea. Wait, he met

06:47:05.900 your parents within a week? Yeah. We met on the 4th of July and I was kind of at, it was like,

06:47:11.300 you're like with, like a party kind, not a party, but it was like, like the neighborhoods around and

06:47:16.840 he was just there cause where, where we used to live is just a neighborhood party kind of,

06:47:21.560 if that makes sense. Okay. But yeah, so we met my parents talking to him. White guy? I think he was

06:47:27.780 mixed. Mixed with what? Black, white. Okay. Pretty sure. That can be kind of romantic though. You tell

06:47:36.480 your kids, like, oh yeah, first kiss. Like, you know, he was just kind of like fighting a felony

06:47:41.340 charge or whatever. He was super respectful. He was very respectful though. Very respectful. But did

06:47:48.680 you talk to him about it or did you drop him immediately when you heard? Dropped him immediately.

06:47:53.840 Yeah. But I mean, is maybe he's like, I'm innocent. I don't really, yeah, no, I don't care.

06:47:59.840 What? Did you actually? His uncle is, he's very protective over my sister and I. He, we used to

06:48:08.160 live next to him. But did you verify any of this? Like, is there actually a court case? I have no idea.

06:48:12.960 I'm not risking it. I don't care. How old is he? 19. He's from Fresno, I think. Was he the shooter?

06:48:21.240 I don't know anything about it and I didn't want to risk it because I trust his uncle,

06:48:25.920 like, with, with my life. It was his uncle? Yes. Not your uncle? No, his uncle. Very close. Damn,

06:48:32.300 bro. Very close with my family. He was wasted on the fourth and he, he was very clear that had he

06:48:38.500 been not wasted. Wait, the uncle was wasted? Yeah, the uncle was wasted and he was clear that had he

06:48:42.060 not been wasted, he wouldn't have let me go down to the beach with his nephew. His, wait, why is his

06:48:48.860 uncle cock blocking him? Oh my God. Like, why is his uncle? He's looking out for her. Yeah.

06:48:57.300 But what, I mean. The guy's trying to date a girl. What, look, he's, he's in a bit of trouble.

06:49:02.640 If he's not an upstanding citizen, I mean, I don't think he had a job because the entire,

06:49:08.860 like, the three days we were talking, I was working the whole time and going to the gym and he was just

06:49:14.100 like, oh yeah, I just got done playing video games. Oh no. And I was like, oh, I got done at work and

06:49:19.340 at the gym. So. I mean, it's, it's good for you, I guess, that you became aware of some of this stuff.

06:49:25.900 I would have maybe verified it though. I mean. I just didn't want to risk it because I trust his

06:49:30.540 uncle. I don't think he would love him. Do you know the uncle? Yeah, yeah, yeah. He's, um, he's our

06:49:34.700 neighbor. Yeah. Neighbor when we first moved here for a very long time. I see. Very protective over my

06:49:40.120 family. Yeah. Is the, was he Christian, the guy who you were dating or whatever?

06:49:45.100 Um, no, I don't know. I don't think so. You're like, you're Christian waiting until, you're waiting

06:49:50.300 until marriage, right? Yes. So why go on a date with a guy who you don't even, isn't that important

06:49:57.260 that the guy be Christian? Is that not what a date is for to find out? Well, did you guys talk at the

06:50:03.780 party? A little bit. Like, Hey, just curious. Are you Christian? I don't know. To be honest, if he was

06:50:09.840 Christian, I don't think he would be involved. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I said something, I was like,

06:50:15.640 oh yeah, like leaving room for God. And he was like, well, obviously. And it was just,

06:50:19.560 yeah, it was fun for the three days I was talking to him. That's okay. Did not want to risk it.

06:50:26.440 Yeah. Well, um, honestly though, like for your sake, just to save yourself time. I know sometimes

06:50:37.940 people say, Oh, the day it's just to get to know the person. I think it's fair. You can ask a couple

06:50:42.740 vetting questions before you meet a person for a date. In your case, it's probably a deal breaker

06:50:48.280 if the guy's not Christian. Oh yeah, absolutely. Yeah. Just be like, Hey, just curious. Um, are you

06:50:52.480 religious? Are you Christian? Yeah. Just that for moving forward. Just ask if the guy,

06:50:57.180 Oh yes. Yeah. I don't think that's weird to just be like, I wouldn't say like, I regret it

06:51:02.300 necessarily, but I probably wouldn't go and do that. First kiss too. But he was very respectful.

06:51:09.400 He was very, very respectful. It came out of absolute left field. I was like, but yeah,

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06:52:18.720 25 Eric thing for the one. What the fuck? He also talks some shit too. Oh, thank you, man. Appreciate

06:52:24.520 it. Uh, let's see here. All right. Um, Sophia, you also write how ridiculous it all seems. You have

06:52:36.120 no experience, but strong feelings about dating, I'm assuming. Okay. What's ridiculous. Um, oh,

06:52:44.040 I just like talked to my friend because she's very much in the dating scene and we're just,

06:52:49.000 we're talking about something and she's like, Oh, love bombing this. Um, like the three month rule

06:52:54.480 dad and like all this stuff. And I don't know, call me old fashioned or whatever, but it all just

06:52:59.620 seems like retarded as hell. And it's just like, let's go back. Yes. I just like, yep. I want to

06:53:05.380 find my husband, but like, I want to like do it. I don't know. It just seems too much to all the

06:53:11.200 games. They're ridiculous. It's so stupid. There's all these rules. There's all these texting rules.

06:53:16.000 I don't do any of that. I'm just, there's all these rules. Like I won't do a guy's laundry.

06:53:22.060 These women are playing these games. I won't do his laundry. The first time I come over.

06:53:28.520 I won't do it the first time I come over. I didn't say I won't do it at all.

06:53:32.000 You're such a game player. It's not games. If anything, you're the game player. You're like

06:53:36.660 testing Jake's like, Oh, is she going to do my laundry when she comes over the first,

06:53:40.800 the first time? Gotta stress that. I don't think it's a test. Do you think he's normal?

06:53:48.500 Who? Me? Yeah. Normal? Like by what standard? I mean, out of, out of all the, of the people

06:53:55.060 that I know, Brian is not. He's normal. She says I'm abnormal. A little, a little. I said

06:54:02.060 a little. Cause I've never known a guy that wants bowing. Yeah, but what is normal? So

06:54:06.400 normal is like high standards. Like what is the normal thing happening in dating? It's

06:54:11.700 basically like, I think, yeah, you're in the wrong country, dude. Women just like, like

06:54:16.420 men and women just like being in situationships and fucking a bunch of people. Like that's

06:54:20.580 kind of normal. Fuck normal. No, it's, it's absolutely ridiculous. I agree. I've never

06:54:26.060 been in a situationship. I've never been in, in those things. I've also never played

06:54:30.600 dating games. You've had a few one night stands, but like if that's normal. When I was young,

06:54:34.720 okay, when I was young. Yeah, that's normal. It is normal. No, it is normal now, but okay,

06:54:40.940 but, but, but to, to expect a bow and to expect laundry on a first time over. Yeah. Wild. You

06:54:50.760 belong in Japan. You're degrading. You degrade these men. No, it's wild. You degrade. They're

06:54:57.180 a wallet to you. They're, these men are an ATM to you. Absolutely not. He should pay on a first

06:55:03.020 date. That doesn't mean he's an ATM. Brian, you want, um, like an old fashioned girlfriend,

06:55:08.520 but you don't want to get married. Well, yeah. Oh yeah. I kind of need to know that because I'm

06:55:13.660 still not married and I think the reason is the same you have. So tell me why. What do you

06:55:20.400 mean? Why? Uh, I don't believe in marriage. Why? Married. Why do you do that? And why do you

06:55:25.960 do it a little? You claim to be traditional, but then refuse to get married. Hold on. Hold on.

06:55:30.580 Actually, I don't really make that claim ever. I don't think I've ever said. You was just for

06:55:34.980 talking about traditional roles. So I believe. Husband and wife. So I believe that, that when

06:55:41.640 we're talking about traditional, that this is, I, this word gets used in other ways, but I believe

06:55:47.700 it's a spectrum that might sound stupid or whatever, but I think most people are not fully

06:55:52.480 going to, I don't think it's like you either are or you aren't. I think there's some degree

06:55:56.700 of a spectrum to being traditional. In this case, I think I lean more towards traditional

06:56:03.540 in some degrees, but as it relates to marriage, you're right. I'm not traditional on that.

06:56:10.040 So you're not religious. No, I'm agnostic. Although, although I'm pro Christianity.

06:56:17.120 Oh. But if you find the girl you really love and she wants to get married. And? You still

06:56:24.300 don't want to get married. No. Not even for the perfect girl. Right. Because I'm a girl

06:56:29.880 that really wants like the. People are imperfect though. But why? Why what? Why do you not

06:56:37.220 want to get married? Why do you not want to get married? Oh yeah, sure. So there's a whole

06:56:40.960 bunch of reasons. I think that. It used to be like that. I think so marriage in the breakdown,

06:56:48.380 the instance of a breakdown of a marriage when you're getting divorced, the state, the government

06:56:53.760 becomes involved. I'm not a big fan of, I'm not a big fan of the government meddling and trifling

06:57:05.960 in the private relationship affairs, uh, of people. So the government says, well, you know

06:57:14.820 what? You've been with this woman for this long and, uh, you make this much money. She

06:57:20.320 makes this much money. You need to pay her, uh, while she's fucking other men, you need

06:57:24.940 to pay her, uh, $10,000 a month for the next five years. Fuck that. No government is going

06:57:31.620 to tell me I owe a woman who's no longer fucking me money. Fuck that shit. You think I'm going

06:57:39.900 to give, I'm going to, but the government's going to tell me to pay spousal support, to

06:57:45.820 pay alimony to a woman who isn't fucking me and is fucking another guy. Fuck out of here

06:57:53.080 with that fucking bullshit. That's some fucking bullshit. Can you not do that if you have a

06:57:59.240 prenup? I just want to tell you. Prenups get challenged. Prenups, uh, look, I'm not a lawyer.

06:58:05.640 Prenups do get challenged. I think prenups can't always be protective. Uh, I, I'm not sure exactly

06:58:15.620 if it can completely, uh, I don't know if prenups can fully, uh, I don't know. They protect everything

06:58:25.140 prior to your union. Yeah. I don't know if you can just like in a prenup, can you actually, uh,

06:58:32.200 say no, even if we've been dating for 10 years, I don't have to pay you alimony. I don't know if

06:58:37.640 that's a thing you can do in a prenup. I think it's the assets you had prior to the marriage can be

06:58:43.880 protected. Anything generated during it, I don't think can really be addressed. I don't think a

06:58:51.420 prenup can supersede state law. I, I'm not a lawyer. I don't know. In any case, uh, divorce is fucking

06:58:58.240 terrible for the breadwinner, whether you're the woman or the man, uh, but probably a bit worse for

06:59:03.520 the men. So yeah, there, there, there's that. Um, I understand that because Dr. Phil said, well,

06:59:09.740 actually he said, you don't divorce the same person that you marry. And I thought that was

06:59:15.220 like really smart, but let's say, can you get married in a church without getting married

06:59:20.460 like for the government? And there wouldn't be any ramifications legally. Sure. I don't care.

06:59:25.980 So although I do think like blowing like tens of thousands of dollars on marriage is kind of

06:59:32.660 stupid. It doesn't have to be my one across four grand. So I mean, still for 4,000 for, for,

06:59:39.480 for a girl that you have, that 4,000 for you. That's a lot of money. What? That's a lot of

06:59:45.500 money. It was, it was, I spent a lot of money. That's a lot of money. That's nothing for a

06:59:49.620 celebration. It was at the time. I wouldn't say that's nothing for a marriage, for a wedding,

06:59:53.100 for a wedding. I get that, but some, are you guys paycheck to paycheck? Yes. The $4,000 is a

07:00:01.320 fuck ton of money for paycheck to paycheck. And back then I met, we made nothing, but where

07:00:06.840 do you live again? Um, upstate New York. How much do you pay in rent per month? I have

07:00:11.120 a mortgage. And how much you pay for the mortgage? Including escrowed in is a thousand. So that's

07:00:16.020 really great. That's four months of her mortgage payment down the drain. Here's my backyard.

07:00:25.680 Here, check. Here's my backyard. Stand motherfuckers. But for a lot of girls, it's like, I agree.

07:00:31.620 Wait, wait, wait, wait. The girl who doesn't, whoa, whoa, whoa. Did you guys catch that? Hold

07:00:35.780 on. The girl that doesn't work. The girl who doesn't care about money just said $4,000 isn't

07:00:43.260 a lot of money. No, not for, not for a wedding. $4,000? We did have over. For somebody who's

07:00:50.200 paycheck to paycheck, 4,000, and that's a lot of people in the United States, is a lot

07:00:54.900 of money. We had over a hundred people too. Wow. So it was really, it was like probably

07:00:59.980 the food, but we, it was a lot of fun. It was so much fun. All I'm saying is I used to

07:01:05.200 work in a banquet. I used to work, I used to work at a hotel and the weddings were upwards

07:01:10.700 of a hundred thousand dollars. So when I think 4,000 and I just, and I've been to a lot of

07:01:17.340 weddings that are expensive. Congrats, you're at the Ritz Carlton or whatever. That's true.

07:01:19.900 Weddings are expensive, but it's a waste of money. It is. It is. It's a huge waste of money.

07:01:24.400 It's a little ghost dream. One of my best friends just got married and she. Grandma can sit on

07:01:30.480 the fucking grass. Grandma can sit on the grass. I am so frugal. No, no, no. When I, I am,

07:01:38.820 I am very, very frugal. So I agree. And I would never spend over 20 grand on a, on one day

07:01:44.860 of my life ever, but I will tell you, I mean, that's, it's not a lot. Okay. So back to your

07:01:53.080 question, you were saying, Oh Brian, you don't want to get married. Why? I don't think you

07:01:57.580 should sign a contract that sucks. I don't think you should sign a contract where somebody

07:02:03.080 is rewarded for breaking it. Women, when they do break the marriage contract, when they do

07:02:08.220 initiate divorces, by the way, 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women are rewarded

07:02:15.000 for this. So. You mean, if you're saying when, like, like it's inevitable. No, no, no. When

07:02:22.340 I say when, I mean, when it, when it happens, when it can happen, when it does happen. If

07:02:28.420 it happens. I think like over 50% of people get divorced. I know. It's sad. It's horrible.

07:02:32.620 No, I used to be like you when, yeah, when I was a little younger, I, I, I hated marriage

07:02:38.320 and I thought it was a scam. Um, and it is kind of a scam, but I was going to tell you

07:02:42.900 that alimony is still paid when you have children with somebody, regardless of marriage. So you

07:02:47.840 were, and I was going to ask you, you wouldn't want to pay your spouse alimony for the children

07:02:53.400 or child support. Child support's different. Child support. I think that, uh, I think there

07:02:58.840 are compelling arguments for, for child support. Although I think that in many jurisdictions,

07:03:04.000 like if you're a high earner as a guy, that child support, like the, the money you, the

07:03:12.440 money as it relates to child support is not being paid for child, uh, not, excuse me, not

07:03:17.280 being spent on child support. So I think, you know, in the same way with snap benefits, food

07:03:22.300 benefits, you can all like you take your snap card or whatever to, uh, to a grocery store.

07:03:29.660 You can't buy. Um, I don't know if you take it to a CVS, you can buy, I know you probably

07:03:36.460 shouldn't shop for food. That's CVS, but you can go to CVS and buy like cookies with your

07:03:41.280 snap thing. Sure. There's a debate over whether people should be whatever. Um, but you can't

07:03:46.880 like go and buy, I don't know what, um, crutches or some shit, or I don't know what you can't

07:03:54.560 buy. Like, I don't know. Maybe they sell, don't they sell, maybe they sell like a pullout

07:03:59.480 chair at CVS. You can't buy a pullout chair with your food benefits. There should be something

07:04:04.740 like that with child support. They can only spend the money on something that's child support

07:04:10.700 related, probably a little more complicated than food. But, um, I do think that there's

07:04:17.480 some abuses of the child support system. I think that there should be caps. So if you're

07:04:22.360 a high earner, you shouldn't be paying 10,000, $20,000 in child support. That's ridiculous.

07:04:26.880 Uh, alimony, get the fuck out of here. It's 2025. Women have full access to the workforce. Women

07:04:34.280 can work. Uh, no, maybe there's an argument that can be made if she, it should be proven

07:04:41.200 though, that like, if, if I'm, if you're a guy who makes $5 million a year and your wife

07:04:49.520 has a college degree, she can probably enter the workforce within a reasonable period of

07:04:54.960 time. Maybe there's some argument. Okay. She's, you've been married to her for 20 years

07:05:01.440 and she completely, she didn't work at all. And she dropped out of college to have kids

07:05:06.180 with you. Okay. You can support her for a period of time. I'm willing to make some compromise

07:05:11.500 three years, max. It should be circumstantial three years, but you've been married. I think

07:05:18.280 in most jurisdictions, you've been married for 20 years. That's lifetime alimony.

07:05:22.520 Yeah, I know my mom, my mom got it. My mom was married for 20 years and now for the last

07:05:26.520 20 years, my dad's been paying her. Yeah. And I have been telling him to, yeah. To do

07:05:33.440 what? What, what can he do? He's being forced. Yeah. I mean, that's bad. There are some things.

07:05:40.580 I don't think we have it, but yeah. Those, but you have to pay. Well, I, I, in some European,

07:05:44.980 European countries, they're way, they're not nearly as retarded as the U S is when it comes

07:05:50.900 to child support. Yeah. California is fucked. Child support, alimony, all this shit. But

07:05:55.280 I still think divorcing is too easy. I agree. In many ways. I agree. But I don't know. Look,

07:06:01.960 I think, um, I don't think you mentioned prenups. I don't think a prenup is going to save a man

07:06:06.700 if the woman is motivated enough. Women, um, women will, you know, the, even if the woman

07:06:13.740 has good intentions, you step into a lawyer's office. Lawyers see money. They just care

07:06:20.740 about money. They want to make, and I don't know how it works. Maybe the lawyers get some

07:06:25.260 sort of percentage of the settlement from the divorce, whatever. And they, they want

07:06:30.580 to keep it in court. They want to, they want the billable hours. So you could be a, a dutiful

07:06:36.860 Christian woman. You step foot in that lawyer's office. They will turn everything. The lawyer.

07:06:43.120 He's not, he's not, he's not approaching things. Yeah. He's, he's gonna, he's gonna get as much as

07:06:51.180 he possibly can for his client. In fact, I think he has some legal obligation to represent his client

07:06:57.400 to the best of his ability and get the best possible outcome money for his client. Yeah,

07:07:04.960 that's right. He has, I think he has a legal duty to do this yet. You need to put, do your best

07:07:11.340 effort or whatever as an attorney. You can't just be like, no, you know, we should do. I mean,

07:07:16.000 obviously your client has final say, but lawyers are very convincing lawyers. That's their whole job

07:07:22.240 to argue. So what would be your chess move? If you will find a girl you're together, like

07:07:28.300 never get married eight years. And you know, she wants to get married. What will you do? I mean,

07:07:33.560 sit down and have something else on the table. Don't get it. Don't get it twisted. I can stay with a

07:07:40.080 woman for my entire life and take care of her. And we can have kids, but marriage is out of the

07:07:48.540 picture. Because you're afraid of divorce. It's not that I'm afraid. For fear of divorce. That is

07:07:55.700 the only reason that you gave us. Hold on. Hold on. I don't understand. I get it, but

07:08:03.200 I'm afraid. But like, do you get engaged? Do you go to the church and have something? Do you have a

07:08:10.800 wedding? What are you bringing to the table on that point for her not to lose the dream of it?

07:08:17.760 So I don't really gamble. Um, does that, does that make me like, I'm afraid? Am I afraid to lose

07:08:25.380 money? Because I don't gamble? Yes. Because you're doing a smart move. Or, or is it not about fear?

07:08:31.840 Is it about looking, looking at the chessboard? Or I guess, I don't know, whatever your blackjack or

07:08:40.760 poker or whatever, looking at it and being like, this isn't a good bet to make. It's a warranted fear,

07:08:46.960 but it is, it is a fear of divorce. Okay, sure. I'll grant it. So, okay, cool. I'm scared of being

07:08:54.000 divorced. Oh, no. Well, that's, that's why you aren't going to join in the union. Men should

07:09:00.600 rightfully have some reservations and some concerns. Yeah, be more discerning of who they're getting

07:09:06.380 with. That's really the problem. Well, it's not just that. You divorce a different person that you

07:09:12.000 marry. It mostly, it's true. Do you think, do you think most people, when they, by the

07:09:16.980 way, divorce rate is what? 80% or some shit? I don't know. Or 50%, sorry, 50%. Do you

07:09:23.780 think most people on their wedding day think I'm going to divorce this person? I'm going

07:09:30.680 to be divorced? No. Okay. 50% of marriages end in divorce. So discernment. I mean, if a

07:09:43.520 girl is bowing for you and doing those things for you, maybe you shouldn't break up with

07:09:48.180 her. Well, break up with her if she's, if things are going well, sure. But if she wants the marriage,

07:09:55.680 she wants the wedding, are you going to like come to the middle of that and offer like to

07:10:02.840 have the wedding or getting engaged or going to the church, but not just getting married?

07:10:08.600 There could be some compromise. There could be a compromise where it's like, just like,

07:10:15.240 I don't know, she wants to do the ceremony so long as there's nothing legally binding there.

07:10:21.700 I guess I'm okay with the ceremony. I still think it's a bit of a waste of money, depending

07:10:27.300 on how much you spend. If it's a reasonable affair, I suppose I'd be open to it, but I'd

07:10:33.320 be curious if there's any legal liability to even doing the ceremony. I don't know.

07:10:40.400 I don't know if there's not, let's just, if we grant that there's no legal liability whatsoever,

07:10:46.200 just doing the ceremony. Sure. I suppose I'm okay with it. I'm not going to spend a hundred

07:10:50.020 thousand dollars on the wedding though. Fuck that. Yeah. I'll spend, you know, a reason,

07:10:56.420 what I'd think is a reasonable amount, but I'm not, no, that money can be better spent elsewhere.

07:11:03.080 Doesn't the government in the United States, uh, deem you like legally married after eight years or

07:11:10.300 seven years of, uh, there's common marriage, but it depends on the state. In New York, they don't have

07:11:15.480 it. In California. I don't believe there's common law marriage. Really? Yeah. So it's basically,

07:11:19.900 you've been living together. You guys have been maybe portraying yourself as married or I don't

07:11:25.860 know. Yeah. Then some weird, funky common law marriage shit. That's stupid too. Fuck that shit.

07:11:32.300 That should be abolished. Fuck, fuck common law marriage. It, that should only be a thing if,

07:11:38.260 Hey, we're agreeing to get married. You get a tax break for all that. I don't give a fuck.

07:11:43.280 Divorce. The risk reward is all fucked up. Only if you're dating somebody who's going to take you

07:11:50.020 at the very beginning of the show. Well, it took us a long time. Um, going around the table,

07:11:55.640 starting with you, Maria, uh, how many relationships have you been in? About four or five, uh, of the four

07:12:08.480 or five, how many of them did you initiate the breakup? I think all five, all five. How many

07:12:16.120 relationships have you been in three? How many of those did you end? Two, two of the three. How

07:12:23.020 many relationships have you been in two? How many of those did you end? None. They broke up with you.

07:12:28.420 Okay. Uh, how many relationships have you been in? Like the real, like a boyfriend. Sorry, a boyfriend.

07:12:34.780 Um, not just dating. Six months plus. Okay. Um, I guess one out of two. One out of two. Okay.

07:12:45.120 Well, two relationships. Did you end them? Well, one I'm still in and the first one, no.

07:12:50.180 Um, of the ones you ended. Okay. Uh, what about you? Um, five people and three of them broke up

07:12:58.360 with me. So I ended with two. And then, well, yeah. Women overwhelmingly end relationships. Women

07:13:05.880 overwhelmingly initiate divorces. But I think it's a bad deal for men. It's a bad deal for men. I agree.

07:13:15.500 I agree. Like, tell me if I'm wrong, but I feel like in a relationship, a guy doesn't kind of see

07:13:21.740 or realize when things are going to shit before the relationship has ended. Like before everything

07:13:30.800 around him will change in his head, even though you go home and you argue every day, you're still

07:13:37.240 in the relationship and nothing is kind of changed. But a girl goes through the breakup for months before

07:13:44.540 he decides to leave. Uh, well, I guess that's a failure of communication, perhaps on both their

07:13:49.600 parts, but so women, I mean, okay. Women initiate the majority of divorces. I think, um, men will

07:13:59.700 never, they very rarely, to be honest, they'll very rarely ever initiate a breakup or a divorce,

07:14:04.980 but when they are not interested in you anymore, they will also make that very, very clear through

07:14:10.740 their, so we're kind of pushed into the divorce. You get distant, you stop trying. Sure. I, I think

07:14:18.080 that's fair to say that there are times where like men will just, uh, it's easier. We'll kind of

07:14:23.980 create the opportunity for the woman to end the relationship. I, I think that that's a phenomenon,

07:14:30.880 but in any case, um, even if this lowers the breakdown to, uh, 60% of the time, the woman

07:14:39.300 is genuinely the initiator, not like the guys just being a kind of a dickhead or whatever.

07:14:46.040 It's still not a good deal. How long has the percentage been that high? Because in my head,

07:14:50.540 it's because we have the social media and we have this and that, and women seem to just look around

07:14:56.580 and want something else, even though we're not grateful about things anymore. Yeah. Like we think

07:15:02.120 that it was, it's too easy. It's too easy to go out and date, too easy to, yeah, find somebody who

07:15:08.800 you think will appreciate you more. It's, you ask a woman or a man nowadays, like what was the woman's

07:15:14.800 place 60 years ago? And they will be like, oh, it was terrible. It was between a fist and a oven.

07:15:22.360 But in reality, a fist, you don't have that saying. Okay. We have a saying like that.

07:15:29.860 A woman's place is between a fist and a oven. It's like badly said, but yeah, uh, we don't realize

07:15:39.140 that women didn't vote or do things like that then because we, we had so much more things to do.

07:15:47.100 It wasn't so important to us and we weren't still suppressed. We just had different value

07:15:54.720 and we kind of forget to be grateful for the guy that thinks guys did.

07:16:01.500 I have two friends going through really nasty divorces and both times it was very sudden and

07:16:06.500 it was very abrupt, very random. And the woman did initiate and it got nasty really fast.

07:16:12.360 Brian, if you didn't know these statistics, if you didn't know how many divorces were happening

07:16:17.700 and you didn't have that information, you might think differently about marriage.

07:16:24.780 If you had no idea that the numbers, I mean, regardless of the numbers, the financial risk

07:16:30.400 still exists. Even if it's lower, even if 40% of marriages end in divorce, 30% or 20%,

07:16:37.400 it still exists. The risk is still there. So if you could have a prenup that will save you from that

07:16:44.140 or protect you from that, you would do it from what's prior. You could have a prenup that will

07:16:49.560 protect you later on. Okay. Yes. And I, in a hypothetical world where a woman would never

07:16:54.880 divorce me, would I get married? Sure. Like she would just never divorce. I get sure, but that kind

07:17:03.160 of defeats that's kind of the goal. Yeah. So like in a hypothetical world where a prenup can fully

07:17:09.660 protect my finances in the same way as if we weren't married and we were just, she was just my

07:17:17.240 girlfriend. Sure. I'll get married. So yeah. So if you could trust that the breakup would be

07:17:25.400 perfect. That's like, but that's like asking me, Hey Brian, you see that ugly girl? If she was

07:17:31.740 really beautiful, would you fuck her? I mean, if they like abolished alimony rules, they could

07:17:37.080 abolish alimony rules. Yeah, that's true. We could vote on it. Potentially. I don't think I

07:17:42.600 practically never going to happen because of money, but that would be great. Um, guys, we're going to

07:17:48.020 lower the TTS here as we're trying to get this, uh, TTS, $30 TTS, $30 TTS roast session. If you

07:17:55.820 want, if you have a Q and a, you know, you have a question you want to ask $30 TTS, it should be

07:18:01.580 all changed. Uh, there it is guys. If you want to get it in $30 TTS also need to do that there.

07:18:07.800 I mean the, I think the big thing you also, even if you're like more conservative, you're a

07:18:13.200 Christian, um, you're more traditional, hold on, let me get this pulled up. All right. $30

07:18:20.420 TTS. I think one of the big things, even like Christian people or traditional people, trad

07:18:27.100 cons, whatever they feel failed to realize is that the state presides over the marriage,

07:18:34.720 not God, not the Bible, not your biblical values. When the woman is unhappy, even if she's a

07:18:42.600 Christian, even if she's a virgin, all the, you know, all the factors that could make the

07:18:47.520 likelihood of the marriage going the distance, when the woman is unhappy, she will go to the

07:18:54.120 state. She won't go to God. She won't go to her priest or pastor or church. She goes, she'll have

07:19:01.440 to, she has to go to the state eventually. If she, if she's dead set on the divorce, maybe she,

07:19:06.320 Hey, pastor, should I, uh, blah, blah, blah. Should I get a divorce?

07:19:11.140 They'll intervene.

07:19:12.580 Well, no, the, I mean, I mean, unless you're Catholic, I believe Catholics, you, uh, marriage

07:19:22.320 is indissoluble if you're Catholic. Although, I mean, I think there's some, like if the man's

07:19:29.020 abusive, like beating her or whatever, like on the infidelity, can you divorce if you're

07:19:35.920 Catholic?

07:19:38.760 I don't know about Catholic, but it says in the Bible that you can like, can what you

07:19:46.240 can leave your spouse if they have an affair. It's like one of the only, Oh, if you have

07:19:50.300 an affair, I thought you meant just in general, my understanding, at least for, I don't know

07:19:55.320 for the other Christian denominations. I don't know. I've heard some stuff about like defrauding,

07:19:59.180 like if you married somebody and they promised to give you a baby and all this stuff.

07:20:02.720 Well, here, let me ask this. Um, you marry a guy, you marry a guy and maybe, uh, let's say

07:20:11.260 you don't have kids yet. You marry, uh, it could go either. Let's do one at a time. You marry

07:20:16.940 a guy, he treats you well. Uh, there's no, no abuse. He he's kind. He treats you well.

07:20:25.320 Um, no, no abuse of any kind, but you're just, you fall out of love. You're vaguely unhappy.

07:20:38.520 Does that warrant divorce?

07:20:42.640 Um, there'd be a conversation about it first. I mean, there would be, I would try therapy,

07:20:48.740 try to work it out, but you do marriage counseling. You're still, he's not abusing you. He's still

07:20:54.700 treating you well. He goes to the marriage counseling. You've just fallen out of love.

07:21:00.040 You're, you're vaguely unhappy. Does it warrant divorce?

07:21:06.600 If that's something that we agree on.

07:21:09.440 No, he wants to stay with you. You don't.

07:21:12.740 I mean, if I don't want to stay with someone, I'm not going to.

07:21:15.080 Your answer.

07:21:16.100 If he wants to stay with me, he's still in love with me. So I need to do the work and fall

07:21:20.620 back in love with him. Okay. What about you? Um, absolutely no divorce. Um, my mom always

07:21:26.480 said that when you get into marriage, you have to close one eye for the sake of the children.

07:21:31.720 I completely agree. Absolutely. No divorce completely against that. Um, I come from a

07:21:37.540 divorced family and it tore us apart. So I would never do that to mine.

07:21:42.520 No, no, no, no. Okay. Pretty reasonable. Um, in any case though, uh, you know, it's funny. Uh,

07:21:53.100 you can do all the right things. You can do the trad thing. There's this, uh, there's this guy named

07:21:58.720 Steven Crowder. He's a big conservative commentator pundit. And he, my understanding is he married his

07:22:08.220 wife. They were both virgins, both Christian, waited until marriage. Um, this woman, you, you think all

07:22:18.240 the, all the, uh, the, the perfect, everything's perfect, right? She divorced him. She divorced him.

07:22:26.800 She tried to ruin his life. She tried to ruin his reputation. Um, she leaked, she leaked a,

07:22:35.980 from my perspective, a fair, uh, you know, some people might say the tone wasn't the best,

07:22:43.780 a fairly, a marital dispute. They were having an argument. He wasn't, he was sitting on a couch.

07:22:53.720 He wasn't hitting her. He wasn't, you know, verbally abusive or anything, but they were having an

07:23:01.140 argument as people do. We've all had arguments here. I'm sure none of us have been fully

07:23:05.740 perfect. Uh, when we've had a disagreement with a boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever.

07:23:12.100 Did they have children? Yes. They had what? Two, three kids or something.

07:23:17.360 Virgin, both of them virgins. She, she divorces him, not just divorces him, but makes it a very,

07:23:24.320 very public affair. She leaks her and her lawyers leak this again. He, he wasn't hitting her. It was

07:23:31.980 like a argument. Uh, they were having an argument and you try to do the trad thing. You, you virgin,

07:23:43.560 wait till marriage. And, uh, but that's, that's an outlier for that situation though. Perhaps the

07:23:50.640 vast, it's like less than 10% of people who wait till marriage together. They're Christian praying

07:23:57.380 every day. It's like less than 10% of them get divorced. Yeah, that's true. But I mean,

07:24:02.640 like for other situations, that's very common, but for their specific situation, that's just very

07:24:07.860 rare. Well, I don't know how rare divorce is, but, um, with Christians, with Christians, like genuine

07:24:14.620 Christians, it's very, very, very low. I don't know what the stats are, but, um, where were they

07:24:19.740 from? I don't know. Christina donated $29 and 99 cents. Items, one total $29 and 99 cents. MSG

07:24:30.380 waving hand emoji. Christina, thank you. Good morning from Sweden. Your podcast is the best.

07:24:37.020 Ooh, Sweden. Chaotic Mitch donated $30. Marriage ends in either divorce or death. Both are not good

07:24:43.660 outcomes for men. Yeah. A lot of times men will die after their like wives die, not to,

07:24:49.740 soon after, you know, um, if they're old. Yeah. I just don't see the benefit. Like final thing on

07:24:58.180 the marriage thing. I can tell you my reasons for not wanting to get married. Can you give me

07:25:04.180 like a compelling reason why I should get married or men should get married?

07:25:11.700 I think it holds you accountable. Yeah. You know, I know it's seen as a negative thing,

07:25:16.560 this whole prenup, but I, um, I was actually having a talk about this with, um, Noah, but,

07:25:21.980 um, it, cause he believes the same thing. He doesn't believe in marriage. W, Noah. We have

07:25:27.000 the same thing. W, Noah. Um, stick to your guns, Noah. Go ahead. Marry this girl. Um, it's more for

07:25:34.580 safety. Um, I know that we were talking about if someone were to, um, commit adultery,

07:25:40.960 how would you figure that out? How would you split everything and whatever you made during the

07:25:46.720 marriage, especially if you're a growing couple? Um, obviously, uh, when you, before you sign a

07:25:52.920 prenup, you have to read it, you have to agree with it. Um, and usually both lawyers, I believe,

07:25:58.220 are in contact to make sure that everyone's getting a fair share. But, um, I think if you

07:26:03.320 think about it more as safety rather than, oh, this is, uh, the other person. Safety for who?

07:26:11.620 Safety for each other. How, how is it safe for me if I'm the breadwinner? Endless love.

07:26:19.660 I actually think, I actually think that the relationship is at greater risk of ending

07:26:25.640 in a marriage. Why? I'll tell you why. Incentive. What's an incentive? Incentive. If, uh, vaguely

07:26:35.040 unhappy, oh, oh, let me just get a consult with an attorney. If I leave him, I get this much?

07:26:45.540 Ooh, that starts to sound, oh, but if she's just my girlfriend, I leave him and I'm back to the

07:26:53.560 streets. She belongs to the streets. Not that I would, I would date a street chick. I know how much

07:26:59.040 of a value money has, but still, I hate the idea of arguing for money. So in my opinion, to get

07:27:07.240 married, it's like with the child support. I never wanted it because I didn't want our

07:27:13.600 connection to be bad because of it. Your relationship would be straight.

07:27:17.520 But I think that that's, uh, I think that's wonderful of you to do. In fact, even if you,

07:27:24.580 you know, you asked him to help you financially, I don't think that that would be wrong. Um, I mean,

07:27:30.220 but I don't think a lot of women in your position do what you did.

07:27:34.680 Yeah, I know. And I hate it. It's terrible. People argue for a little bit of money, just

07:27:39.420 for, for every woman like you, there's a hundred women, a hundred thousand. There's a hundred women

07:27:45.460 who are going to go to the, the, the court. They're going to, and I honestly, I, I agree with

07:27:54.000 you. That creates a lot of like, we couldn't, we couldn't just talk about this. You want to go to

07:28:00.140 the law. You want to go to the court. We couldn't come to an arrangement. You want to bring it there.

07:28:05.420 I have no idea. That's going to create, at least from the guy's perspective, like how can you bring

07:28:10.800 life into this world with someone and afterwards argue about it just because of money that I don't

07:28:16.440 get? Well, you're a gem because I can tell you a lot of women who find themselves, whether they

07:28:22.160 become single mothers, they get pregnant and the guy doesn't, they, they don't just let the guy off

07:28:28.380 the hook. Oh, the scary part is a lot of women don't let men off the hook. They're very happy.

07:28:35.420 They're entitled. They're entitled. They're very happy to go to the court system and then force the

07:28:40.460 man to pay child support. There's actually even men like that. And that's actually a scary one.

07:28:46.020 It, it, it, it does happen to women, but it's very rare. It's very rare. And I do think it is the

07:28:53.000 case that, uh, even if it were to be like, you know, we started seeing women, you know, they were

07:29:00.580 earning more than, well, they are in some ways, but if, if women just were out earning the, the men,

07:29:05.620 I think men just intrinsically would be less inclined to like want to claw money from women.

07:29:14.400 I'm not saying, I'm not saying it doesn't happen. There's definitely men. It happened with Halle Berry.

07:29:18.880 She's paying fucking $10,000 a month to, to her, uh, baby daddy. I don't think they were ever,

07:29:25.700 ever married. Um, Brittany Spears paying $40,000 a month to Kevin Federline. Uh, they have two kids

07:29:33.660 or three kids or whatever. Um, there's definitely be a limit. I think men though, over overwhelmingly,

07:29:41.440 even if the man like, Oh, she makes a lot of money. You as the guy don't, I think men will be less

07:29:48.660 likely to seek that out. I think it's because of pride. So it's scary to know that women doesn't

07:29:56.500 have that. It could be pride. And I think, uh, there's some cultural social dynamics there too.

07:30:02.260 But, um, I guess trying to think if there's anything else, the marriage thing, um, well,

07:30:10.540 you think ending, um, marriage would hold both sides more accountable if there was no such thing

07:30:16.300 as marriage. Do you think there would be far less separation? Well, to your point, you, you mentioned

07:30:20.900 safety. Yes. Why is it safe? Cause my question was, look, I can tell you, here's, here's all the

07:30:27.340 reasons. I don't want to get married. Give me reasons why I should. I can still, but I can still

07:30:36.440 love a woman. I can still spend the rest of my life with a woman. I can have kids with a woman,

07:30:41.200 but she has to give up the dream of being married, but also like, yeah, it is accountability.

07:30:46.900 But, but what do I get again? The question is when you're in a relationship, selfish, the other one

07:30:53.120 being happy makes you happy. Yes, exactly. And what the way he's talking is like a divorced lady,

07:30:58.800 selfish or a lady that initiates. Cause I've been in a relationship, like every time you want to do

07:31:04.500 something, the other one wants to argue just so that if you go somewhere, you're going to be sad or

07:31:09.800 mad. But why, why would there be a burden for, for a man to appease the whims of the girl? Why can't

07:31:19.560 she appease my whims? But if she does that in every other way, she commits to you, she's

07:31:26.780 submissive, but her dream is to wear that white dress, have that engagement dream, be the princess

07:31:35.280 for a day. I feel like when you find the woman of your like genuine dreams, that might change a

07:31:40.380 little, especially if she wants marriage. Cause I know I've been very opposed to many ideas before,

07:31:45.540 you know, meeting certain people, friends, whatever. And when I genuinely appreciated them,

07:31:50.920 they changed. So, but that's just what I think. Maybe you just haven't met somebody where you're

07:31:57.960 really willing to do everything. I mean, I've, I've dated great women. I've, even if I met a great

07:32:03.960 woman, this, this marriage thing is really a non, I mean, the only scenario in which I actually would

07:32:09.400 consider getting married is, and I don't really care about a woman's career or success though,

07:32:15.540 and I think I'm in terms of a woman's income, she'd have to be top 1% for her to earn more than

07:32:22.100 me. Well, yeah, she would have to be the only instance where it would ever make sense is if

07:32:28.820 she earned just as much or more than, than I did. And even then, even if you guys do earn the same

07:32:35.500 amount, divorces can, it can be very messy. It can still be very messy financially. You have to

07:32:40.460 untangle everything. Lawyers get involved. Even if you guys both make the same amount of money.

07:32:46.780 Can you get divorced without lawyers? You can, I guess, but it's a complicated,

07:32:51.380 most people are not legally competent, I guess. So, um, typically you have lawyers handle that

07:32:59.120 and divorces are expensive. Lawyers are expensive. So if she's a billionaire,

07:33:05.960 oh, trust me, I want to marry her. Let's say you have kids together.

07:33:09.920 Definitely. It's all money. It's so sad.

07:33:13.080 Yes, because the risk has been eliminated. How about when you're older?

07:33:17.020 My concern, my concern with marriage, I don't mind, uh, is the financial component of it.

07:33:23.820 The risk to me, she's, she makes 10, 10 M. She makes 20 M. She's a billionaire.

07:33:30.160 Maybe you shouldn't be with somebody who cares so much about money.

07:33:32.480 I'm getting down on one knee and I'm proposing. I'm getting, oh, I'm proposing. I'm the most

07:33:37.360 romantic proposal you've ever fucking seen. If she's a billionaire, trust me.

07:33:42.080 Oh God. Let's say you're 50.

07:33:44.040 Well, I'm not going to divorce her. I'm like, I'm married to a billionaire.

07:33:48.440 I'm a, this podcast is open for no offense.

07:33:51.120 Wow. Wow.

07:33:52.780 Yes. If I'm married to a billionaire, sorry, I don't need a huckster.

07:33:56.160 I don't need a huckster for some TTS donos. I'm good.

07:34:01.200 Maybe I'll do this shit for fun every once in a while, but fuck, I actually not.

07:34:04.980 I was going to say, how would your, how would your life change if you went from today to

07:34:09.080 marrying this billionaire?

07:34:10.680 I would stop working tomorrow.

07:34:12.040 Okay. Wow.

07:34:13.340 Wow. Yeah.

07:34:14.380 Hear that guys? He doesn't really, he doesn't really love you.

07:34:17.060 Why are you shaking your fucking, why are you shaking your head?

07:34:19.100 Isn't this like your passion? What you like to do?

07:34:21.300 So why are you just going to end it?

07:34:22.500 Yeah, exactly.

07:34:23.340 You don't think a man has hobbies or things he would like to do?

07:34:26.100 What are your hobbies? How would your life change?

07:34:28.420 Are you going to take up surfing again?

07:34:30.200 I would, okay.

07:34:31.040 If he's free.

07:34:31.880 Yes. I would fully focus on getting back to that, uh, fully focus on fitness. I would

07:34:36.920 fully focus on, uh, recreation, travel. Uh, I'm pumping a couple of kids into her for

07:34:44.340 sure. Trust me. Actually, no, I want 10 kids. So I don't know if she's a 20 year old billionaire.

07:34:48.220 She's perma pregnant for the next 15 years. And you're going to be a stay at home dad.

07:34:53.360 Fuck it. I'll be a stay at home. If she's a billionaire, you're damn right. I'm going

07:34:56.860 to be a stay at home dad and I'm going to be the best stay at home dad ever.

07:35:00.060 Oh, okay.

07:35:00.820 At least I'm going to fucking kill it.

07:35:02.880 Oh, with 15 kids.

07:35:05.060 Give me the fucking minivan.

07:35:06.360 Why do you want that many kids?

07:35:07.400 Give me the fucking minivan. Dynasty, obviously.

07:35:10.340 Hold on. There's this, uh, so, so there's like a Bible verse, although I'm agnostic that,

07:35:17.840 that, that resonates with me. Uh, I'm going to fucking butcher it, but, uh, sons, I think

07:35:26.960 it's sons in a man's youth, but hold on. I'm a, okay. I'm pushing it a little bit here

07:35:30.620 with my age. Um, sons, Nick, can you find me the quote?

07:35:37.040 Wait. What is it? Uh, sons, uh, like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born

07:35:46.580 in one's youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. Wow. Blessed is the man whose

07:35:54.300 quiver is full, uh, the arrows sons. Yeah. Fuck it. Give me 10 kids, 10 kids. Yeah. Cause

07:36:05.120 look, you know, you gotta, I want at least two or three sons. Cause I want my son. Well,

07:36:11.940 I want my sons to have a brother, but maybe one of them's a fuck up. So I need a backup.

07:36:18.880 So I need three sons and then whatever, you know, the older to get, the more definitely

07:36:24.840 you will get girls. Well, there is something I heard, uh, men who are stressed out, it has

07:36:31.340 an impact on the sperm and it's more likely to be a girl if you're, that's why, that's

07:36:36.840 why like really like super, I think super masculine guys or, um, I'm not, I'm not saying

07:36:43.260 I'm like super masculine or whatever, but I'm saying, um, men who like have stressful jobs

07:36:48.240 or just stressed for whatever reason, they end up having a lot of daughters. And you see

07:36:55.420 that with like some of these like super high achieving men who are also probably stressed.

07:37:00.180 True. They end up having a lot of daughters. Also. They're cursed. Uh, guys who are players

07:37:06.020 always end up having daughters too. Cause they're cursed because they were fucking around.

07:37:11.940 I guess. Yeah. So you're going to be okay with a woman who gave you 10 kids. So you're also

07:37:18.440 okay with the fact that her looks will definitely change. You're still going to be grateful for that

07:37:25.120 and for the, she's my, uh, in this case, my billionaire wife. She's, she's the mother

07:37:31.420 of my children. How about if she's not a billionaire and you don't have to marry her?

07:37:35.640 Oh, they're going to love her. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She gave me children. It's okay. You're

07:37:40.800 got some loose skin around your belly. I don't care. Honestly, since having kids, like I've never

07:37:45.700 been, I'm the most comfortable I've ever been in my body. Like I like the way I look. I like

07:37:50.600 the way I feel. This belly gave me kids. I don't really care what anybody else thinks of

07:37:54.860 it. So, yeah, I mean, look, and if me personally, look, men and women have been having children

07:38:02.780 for thousands and thousands and thousands of years, longer than that. Wasn't an issue.

07:38:10.140 Yeah. But nowadays it seems to be, it's like, okay. Yes. Society's fucked. Culture's fucked. I get it.

07:38:15.560 Am I the only one who thinks that adults nowadays are just grown kids? Like we want Christmas

07:38:20.460 calendars. Probably a little bit. The advent calendars? Yeah. Like we're adults. There's

07:38:25.980 guys playing video games all the time. We don't want to take any responsibility about anything.

07:38:30.520 Yeah. We don't want to get a wife who's going to look different after having kids, but still

07:38:34.940 we want the kids if we want them. It feels like we live among grown kids. I just want to say

07:38:41.340 if there's any billionaire women watching this, call me, I guess. But, um, yeah, I'll let you

07:38:47.760 know if I ever see one. Yeah. Yeah. Shit. But it wouldn't be like, it wouldn't be some ploy

07:38:53.900 like, Oh, I'm going to marry her and then divorce her. You just want to enjoy them. I'll just

07:38:58.060 stay with her. Over money. Even if, even if she's horrible. No, of course she has to be a

07:39:03.340 good person. She has to be, she has to have the other traits I care about, but I'm actually

07:39:08.120 to be, to be honest, they can be overlooked. No, I'd be willing to, I would be willing for

07:39:13.100 a genuine billionaire woman. There's a couple of things I'm willing to, uh, settle on. Do

07:39:19.720 you know how many there are? Billionaire woman? First off, almost all of them are through divorce

07:39:25.460 or family. Exactly. Yeah, exactly. Would you do that one? Mackenzie Scott, Mackenzie Bezos,

07:39:30.880 whatever. Yeah. She's, she's still kind of a babe. I mean, she's like 50 or whatever.

07:39:34.740 Wait, would you do the one thing in the bedroom that you say you won't do? Oh, that's, uh,

07:39:39.300 sure. Why not? Billionaire. I don't think you understand how easy my life would be. I don't

07:39:46.860 think you guys understand how much a billion is. I do. Bill, like, I don't think you know,

07:39:52.040 I don't think you know, but, uh, what, what was, uh, what was I saying? No. I mean, look,

07:39:58.560 if I'd want some of the things that I care about to be in place, but am I willing to give a little

07:40:06.720 bit if she's a billionaire? Yeah. Oh yeah. If you don't, you lie. Yeah. Oh, okay. Um, I don't know

07:40:15.500 what's, uh, she has an any instead of an Audi labia. Like I only date women with Audis.

07:40:22.540 Well, if you like them like that, why are you so afraid of that? We don't have to talk

07:40:27.360 about it. Afraid of what? Going down on chicks. I know what you think. Okay. Nevermind. I'm

07:40:32.600 not, that's ridiculous. Derail the show anymore, please. Derail. About the Marys. Don't worry

07:40:37.600 about that. Wait, wait, wait, final thing. If she has like, uh, the, the smallest any ever,

07:40:43.340 but she's a billionaire. I'm taking the deal. I'm taking that deal. If she, uh, I don't know.

07:40:53.000 Uh, there's probably other things I can think of. I don't know. Tell you what, uh, do how about this?

07:41:01.200 Like looks wise. So, okay, here's my, here, I'll present the example. She's a 10, but she's broke

07:41:07.540 versus she's a seven, but she's a billionaire. I take the seven. I got to take the seven.

07:41:17.420 I feel like that's, that's a pretty reasonable. I take the seven. Yeah. Billionaire. Yeah. You

07:41:22.060 know? Yeah. What if she's like a five? Versus like a 10, but she's zero and I have to like

07:41:27.020 work for the rest of my life. Actually, you know, I'm doing pretty well. So shit. Do I take

07:41:34.260 the 10 a billion dollars? That's a lot. Yo chat. Let me ask the chat. Oh my God. Chat,

07:41:40.300 chat, chat. And you have to include how much you make in your response. Chat. Do you take

07:41:47.060 the broke dime piece or do you take the, the, the billionaire, but she's a seven? What's your

07:41:58.700 seven? I don't know. Uh, whatever it is for anybody. Uh, by the way, if you marry a billionaire,

07:42:06.360 you, you don't have to work as the man. Uh, here, Nick, put it on Twitch and then just pull

07:42:15.100 up the chat. It's probably might be actually whatever billionaire, uh, seven, seven, seven.

07:42:23.500 They take the seven billionaire, seven broke, seven, wait, broke seven. Somebody says broke.

07:42:31.460 So you take the broke seven. Okay. Uh, billionaire, billionaire. We found her a man.

07:42:38.320 Oh, uh, chat, just repeat. Not because you would be a seven, but because of logic. Go ahead. Pull

07:42:43.960 it up. Uh, uh, uh, repeat your answer. So you got, you take the seven billionaire over

07:42:52.340 the 10, uh, 10 broke key. Is it just a 10 in looks or they're perfect? Like to you, the

07:43:00.800 personality. Well, let's just say personality is the same for both. Oh, personality. Same

07:43:05.300 for both. Um, but the, the 10 looks, but broke seven bill. I I'm seeing a lot of sevens. Yeah.

07:43:15.320 Wow. I think the only time you make the trade is like, if you're already wealthy, if you're

07:43:19.940 already a wealthy guy, then you pick the 10. Look at that. Oh, these, uh, well, who's

07:43:26.540 more superficial? Someone's a billionaire than the rich woman or the hot woman. I don't

07:43:30.360 know. Um, seven is a really high number. Yeah. He says broke 10, boke 10. I got my

07:43:37.460 own loot. Yeah. If you're already rich, you probably, you take the 10. Yeah. Making 90

07:43:45.920 K. So yeah, the thing here, if you marry a woman who's a billionaire, you, you don't have

07:43:51.020 to work anymore. You're, you're, you're on the fucking yacht. You're on a yacht. You got

07:43:57.360 everything's taken care of anyways. Okay. Uh, final few things here. Um, hold on.

07:44:07.880 Sorry. I'm lending this, uh, the street, this thing takes forever to load.

07:44:13.060 Travis would two donated $30. Final call guys. Having been divorced, cheated on heart

07:44:18.560 ripped out, given up. I found new love. And we both agree. There's no need for marriage.

07:44:23.540 That's good. Congratulations. That's amazing news. Captain caveman 110 a donated $30. Thank

07:44:32.100 you, man. Ladies, if you're not going to give up to poon poon after you leave the marriage,

07:44:36.720 you're not entitled to half of anything I have. Oh, like imagine if there was like pussy

07:44:41.920 alimony, like once a month, my ex-wife has to fuck me. Do you want to, after she's ripped

07:44:50.600 your heart out and threw it on the ground? No, but I'm just saying, imagine, imagine like

07:44:57.100 once a month and every other Tuesday, a BJ. You'd be like, what the fuck? Why do I have

07:45:06.780 to give her money? We ain't fucking anymore. Yeah. You have a point. I don't agree about

07:45:12.500 the aluminum thing. Um, okay. Final notes for Sophia. You said, uh, uh, your thoughts on

07:45:18.440 feminism. Um, that has led to, well, the main cause of just like the degradation of society

07:45:25.720 and why everything is so bad right now with culture and dating and everything, which we,

07:45:30.700 you already kind of touched on that earlier, but even from like the Seneca Falls convention

07:45:35.880 in like what the 1800s, they were like denouncing Christianity and like the values and everything.

07:45:42.180 So to say it's just modern, uh, Maria, you had one thing here, open relationships. Have you been

07:45:48.480 in a open relationship or, um, I've been offered that, but declined it. Smart girl. Um, and then

07:45:59.520 Tori, Tori, Tori, Tori. Yeah. Uh, okay. You're what denomination Christian are you? Um, so I'm going

07:46:09.080 in between being a Catholic or an Orthodox. Okay. And you did have some disagreements,

07:46:14.020 whether or not women should be included in the draft. What was your position?

07:46:18.900 Well, I say, do we really want women in the draft? I mean, we have the sake of equality. Yes.

07:46:24.880 Yes. But at the same time you're going to be having, you know, they have women be allowed to vote

07:46:29.320 if they're voting for the right person. Um, I, I think that they, I think that they should be

07:46:38.320 allowed to vote, but they should be drafted, but only for local elections. Well, it's, it's like,

07:46:48.180 you're going to have all these, uh, healthy young women, um, who are drafted during the years. They

07:46:53.700 are most fertile and they can have the safest children or have children. Are they having,

07:46:59.380 are they having children? Are women having children? Maybe we could argue if somebody plans to have

07:47:04.740 children, then they don't. So we should force women? Should there be a draft? Should there be a,

07:47:10.600 a draft that women, they can pick their partner, but you have to have a child. Should there be a birth

07:47:18.600 draft? Hmm. Is it army that you talk about draft or? Yeah. The military, like forcing people.

07:47:25.120 There's a lot of facts that a woman in the army, like as in a war, it would just be a shit show.

07:47:31.980 Like that, that's the honest truth. It will change how the guys act. Women can volunteer for the

07:47:36.740 military, but, um, there's roles that women can fill in the military. There's plenty of pencil

07:47:42.620 pusher. Why not let them be drafted? Because if we're not, you know, lowering the, the requirements,

07:47:48.280 they're not going to make it anyway. You know, only the strongest of the strongest. Well, when you get

07:47:52.760 drafted, everybody gets drafted. Well, I mean, if you have health or different, at least I wanted to go to

07:47:56.980 the army, I was just pregnant before when I was trying to get, well, there you go. But, um,

07:48:02.800 look, I think if women are allowed to vote, they should be drafted the same way men are.

07:48:09.100 I kind of think that people that have been unemployed for a long time shouldn't vote, but

07:48:13.680 it doesn't depend. Yeah. Cause you're kind of being out of the world and everything that happens and

07:48:20.200 everything that has to be decided on. Okay. Well, that's a separate conversation. We're not going

07:48:26.020 to talk about that, but the drafts, you have to pay taxes to vote. Um, so women should not be

07:48:38.500 drafted as your position. I think it'd be a terrible idea. So yes, it's, it's true, but I think for this

07:48:45.360 sake of equality, we should draft women. Well, I feel like that's a little bit of a petty thing to

07:48:52.580 do. It's not petty. Well, I understand where you're coming from. The petty thing would say

07:48:56.720 for the next 300 years, only women fight. Oh, that would be equalities. We'd also, I mean,

07:49:05.160 I mean, I'm sorry. I'm not trying to put down women, but I feel like we would all be in a very

07:49:08.880 terrible place. Our country would be in a horrible position. Is drafting like you have to

07:49:15.340 go there. So why, why can women be allowed? Why do women get to vote on wars, but they never have

07:49:22.900 to fight them? Well, Israel has that. It's four years for guys and three for girls. That's like

07:49:28.100 one or there's only one or two countries in the entire world that like have mandatory conscription

07:49:33.640 for women. Maybe it's only Israel, every other nation, every other country in the world,

07:49:41.040 the United States. It's only men, only men can be drafted. Uh, in fact, in some countries there's

07:49:47.620 four, like, uh, it's not just the draft in some countries, regardless of if wartime or not,

07:49:53.180 you have to go to the military. Like you have to join the military as a man for two, three,

07:49:58.040 four years. So yeah, women should be drafted. Absolutely not. In a way. Absolutely. Yes. Like

07:50:04.860 you, in a situation of a war, women can help. Send them to the front line. Fuck it. Send

07:50:11.640 them to the front line. Absolutely not. You don't think that. We're not the same. We're

07:50:16.260 not the same. I do think it. I do think it. Well, hold on. Then, then why, why then that

07:50:21.960 makes women a privileged class? We are. Of course. I've said that from the get go. Right. But

07:50:28.000 if you want to have equality and feminism, I don't, you don't, but you do acknowledge

07:50:33.540 that like the, the sort of, I have been fighting. Stop, stop. The mainstream cultural

07:50:38.880 zeitgeist is my equality and my feminism. And I have been calling it bullshit the whole

07:50:48.040 time. Yep. Met women have had the vote for a hundred years. Feminists have failed to

07:50:53.760 equalize forced military conscription. Either revisit the vote, revisit the vote or get

07:51:03.560 drafted. I'd rather revisit the vote. I would way rather lose my right to vote. Yeah. One

07:51:10.280 hundred percent. Going around the table. I would love. If, if there was a choice and you could

07:51:14.540 vote on this. I would love for women. If you could vote. Women are on the verge of being

07:51:18.420 forced to go to war, military conscription for being subject to military draft.

07:51:23.760 You can evade it though. If women vote to rescind their ability to vote. Okay. No, women

07:51:31.660 don't have to. Do you trade? Do you make the trade to never be able to vote again? So you

07:51:37.360 give up your right to vote, but you can never be drafted. Yes. Yes. I see good and bad in

07:51:44.460 both. Just answer. Quick. Yes. I'm not voting then. Yeah. Not voting, giving it up? Oh yeah,

07:51:53.300 absolutely. Yeah, no war. Yes. Not voting. All right. That's interesting. Absolutely. I, I typically

07:52:01.920 vote the opposite of the females that I know. So I would rather them not be voting than go,

07:52:09.680 but then have to be drafted. Yes. The only thing is though, is that it is completely politically

07:52:15.620 untenable to ever even have a conversation about walking back women's rights to vote. Ergo, women

07:52:23.080 should be drafted. That's the only practical thing that would ever happen. Women are never,

07:52:28.820 women's right to vote will never be relinquished. That's true. If we keep pushing forward, it's just

07:52:33.820 going to, no, but it's whether you're conservative. No, well, I'm actually, look, I don't have a strong

07:52:40.640 position on walking back women's right to vote. I think there's obviously consequences. Yes. I want

07:52:46.880 women to go to war. They should be drafted. Look, just because I understand in terms of what is

07:52:53.080 politically tenable, you're not getting rid of the 19th amendment. It's never fucking happening.

07:53:00.320 It's not even worth having a conversation. Thus, what is, what is actually the reality? Women do

07:53:07.580 have the right to vote. Cool. Let's create equality between men and women. You guys want equality.

07:53:12.460 Let's give you equality. You're not getting drafted. Don't worry. I was subject to, uh, I was subject to

07:53:20.880 it. I had to register for the selective service to even be eligible to vote, to receive financial aid,

07:53:27.100 to get student loans. If I ever wanted to have a, uh, federal job or something, you have to be

07:53:33.240 registered with the selective service. But you didn't get drafted. Doesn't matter. I was subject

07:53:38.680 to it. Women weren't and never have been subject to it. If shit popped off North Korea when I was 18,

07:53:47.360 trust me, shit popped off with China, Russia, whatever. But that's one of the reasons that makes

07:53:54.200 me as a woman to appreciate men more. See Nick back there? That motherfucker is eligible.

07:53:59.480 That guy's fucking eligible. No, we're so lucky. We are. By the way, I didn't mean motherfucker in a

07:54:04.080 weird way. It's just like, I didn't mean it like enough. Yeah. Okay. Good talk. Women, women are

07:54:11.180 privileged. They are. All right. Again, I love it because like even if you donated $30, how about

07:54:17.400 rather than drafting women for combat? They can be drafted to have babies if we fall below

07:54:22.500 replacement rate. Would you take that trade for equality? Honestly, yeah. Like I plan to have

07:54:28.660 children anyways. I don't see the problem with that. Yeah, but forced like tomorrow. I think

07:54:33.660 most women and most feminists would have a way bigger issue with, with a birth draft versus a

07:54:41.720 military draft. Yes. Yeah. Like that seems probably in some ways. Yeah. Moving on. You

07:54:47.520 said body count doesn't matter. What? Or the disagree. Body count doesn't. Oh, you agree.

07:54:52.700 Oh yeah. Body count matters. Okay. You said, I don't know if this is a disagreement. All women,

07:54:56.840 men are beautiful. You agree or disagree with that? Yeah, I don't agree with that. Oh, okay. Nevermind

07:55:00.840 then. That's like related to the one to 10 thing where. Yeah. Okay. Let's see here.

07:55:06.340 Um, Oh, you once did this man that do you want to fill in the blanks? Uh, I think I mentioned

07:55:14.720 it in the beginning. God wanted you to have nothing to do with him. Yeah. So what happened

07:55:20.860 just very quickly, um, I met this man when I was, uh, doing school in New York and this

07:55:27.180 was during the time I was going through some financial struggles with my family. So I was

07:55:31.760 at boarding school and unfortunately I had to, um, leave and, uh, literally didn't have

07:55:38.380 a place to go because I, um, didn't have the, or I chose not to go back to Morocco just because

07:55:44.540 there were some issues with my family at the time. So I was dating this, uh, guy simultaneously.

07:55:49.840 And the funniest thing was I asked God if he wasn't for me, then to just take him away from

07:55:55.880 me. And the next thing I knew literally within, I think five days, I was in the opposite

07:56:01.660 side of America, you know, living with my aunt who was helping me at the time. And I kept

07:56:06.780 going back. I kept pushing. I kept trying to keep the long distance and all the signs

07:56:10.820 were there. And I kept just asking God or kept just ignoring him. And, uh, when I went

07:56:16.520 back to New York to do a modeling campaign, unfortunately I had gotten a call from my friend who was the

07:56:23.620 same friend who would later tell me a different thing about, um, my boyfriend or ex. Um, and

07:56:28.900 her, her boyfriend got on the call and told me that my ex had been talking bad about me

07:56:34.800 the entire time that he didn't want anything to do with me ever since I came that he was

07:56:39.720 saying, Oh, I'm just gonna, if I meet her this time, I'm just gonna sleep with her and

07:56:43.740 it's, I'm going to be done with it, which was kind of appalling because I never could

07:56:47.140 have saw it through him. But, um, funny enough, I still tried to mend things. I still tried to

07:56:53.200 give him the benefit of the doubt because there was no evidence. And it was just hearsay and I

07:56:57.260 was convincing myself that it wasn't true. And, um, when I was going back home on,

07:57:03.760 and I was in the airport, um, it was just a lot of bad stuff to happen. Uh, one after the other,

07:57:09.540 I lost my wallet, missed my flight. When I got home, you know, I had gotten a call from my friend

07:57:15.380 again. And this was right after I had sent an apology text and he replied to it saying that he

07:57:20.920 was sorry as well. And she had told me, she was just like, Hey, I need you to look at this photo

07:57:25.540 that my friend sent me and it was a screenshot of his hinge profile. So, um, yeah, what was the

07:57:30.800 thing about the accusations were the, when you say accusations, what do you mean?

07:57:35.320 Accusations in here? You say, uh, we argued, but due to lack of evidence, I decided to drop the

07:57:41.140 subject and apologize for your accusations. What are the accusations? So the people, the accusations

07:57:46.980 were that, um, he was telling his friends that he didn't want anything to do with me,

07:57:51.440 his best friend telling me that he didn't want anything to do with me. So. All right. Final

07:57:56.080 one or two things here from your notes. Um, uh, let's see. You say modern day feminism has ruined

07:58:05.300 dating. Yes. Did you want to kind of jump into some of that stuff? Yeah, I'll dabble a little bit. Um,

07:58:10.920 yeah, we have, uh, we have empowerment all warped now. It's almost like we're going backwards and it's

07:58:17.440 becoming almost animalistic to a certain degree. Um, there's nothing empowering about sleeping

07:58:22.240 and trying to get that body count higher. Uh, I literally had an argument with a man about this

07:58:27.880 the other day and it was shocking to me how he was trying to convince me that it was empowerment,

07:58:33.000 which I'm sure would be more beneficial for him. But, um, yeah, no, it's not empowerment. I think

07:58:39.220 that the best thing we can do is tell other woman that there are things that we can do and there are

07:58:44.280 things that we cannot ever measure up against a man. So, but that's okay. And we need to be fine

07:58:49.820 with what we are biologically made to do. So yeah, that's my view and take on, um, why modern day

07:58:56.000 feminism is bringing us backwards. Yeah. It's creates shame to sleep around and be free. Yeah.

07:59:02.440 It's like only fans girls going out in public looking like, yeah, like half naked. And then they're

07:59:09.620 like, Oh, why are you looking at my boobs? I don't, I don't, I don't think that we, I don't think that

07:59:13.780 we should be shaming because directly only fans girls, there's another thing you would never see

07:59:19.100 me throw dirt on another girl's name. Cause I truly believe to claim that you care about women

07:59:23.960 and still like point your fingers at certain people. You would need to understand that the

07:59:28.560 reason why we have, um, only fans is partially because of feminism, but also because there's a

07:59:34.440 demand where there's product in a crazy amount, but there's not enough judgment for it. Like it's

07:59:40.060 normalized now. Yeah. It shouldn't be. It shouldn't be normalized. I think it shouldn't be. I don't

07:59:44.340 think that we should be having these OF celebrities promoting makeup. I don't think so, but at the

07:59:50.260 same time to drag people's name, it would be like to point your finger at a prostitute and be like,

07:59:57.480 Oh, you're a whore. When in reality, you just don't know what she had, why she went there,

08:00:02.160 who told her that by definition she is. I'm not going around like, you know,

08:00:06.680 slut shaming people, but I absolutely think that to some degree we should slut shame people. I don't

08:00:13.520 think that's a problem. The problem becomes when you lose your empathy and it's not coming from a

08:00:19.860 place of love. It's just coming from a place of pride. So if you're going to criticize a prostitute,

08:00:25.440 it should be out of love. It should be, Hey, you're better than this. You need to turn to God.

08:00:29.280 It shouldn't be out of your soul. You know, that's why also, um, we've kind of lost the

08:00:35.240 reality of things. It's, we have this delusion that you can like eat your cake and save your

08:00:43.360 cake, like have it too. Like you can be there and you can be naked and then you can come out of

08:00:48.700 there and be like, Oh, I'm not an object. It's soul destroying and they don't realize it until

08:00:55.280 it's too late. And they're trading that for a dollar. All right. Rock and roll. Any final

08:01:02.480 thoughts from anybody before we wrap up the show? I love this panel. Me too. Hitler is very,

08:01:07.800 very, very interesting. There wasn't enough arguments. There was a lot of, I thought they

08:01:13.420 wanted to fight. Yeah. Like fight a little. I fought with her. Yeah, he did.

08:01:18.120 Yeah, but you can find anything we don't agree with. Like massively. There's really not a lot

08:01:22.360 that we disagree on. It's just the nitpicking. Yeah. It's just the nitpicking. A lot of rage

08:01:27.820 baiting going on. Yeah. There's no rage. I wasn't rage baiting. Really? I believe in everything

08:01:32.740 I say. I think you do believe it, but I also think you were kind of like picking, poking,

08:01:38.020 picking, poking a little bit. Right? Just a tiny bit. No, not really. Felicity, any final thoughts

08:01:43.660 from you? No. I'm not pleased right now. Why? I'm hungry. Oh my God. There's so many

08:01:53.040 snacks back there. I was so bored of the conversation. Did you try so many? Oh my God, Felicity, be a good

08:01:58.200 sport. What the fuck? I'm trying. I'm trying to have so much patience. I really am. But you asked

08:02:03.640 me what I thought. I told you. See, it was just honest. Sorry. Wow. Not a trooper. Felicity,

08:02:09.340 El Felicity, not a trooper. El Felicity in the chat. I don't care. You guys try sitting

08:02:13.620 here for eight hours. They do. Yeah, we do. No, them. The people in the chat. Oh my

08:02:18.820 God. She's got a ball and chain, you guys. Free Felicity. Especially in LA last night.

08:02:23.420 It was crazy keeping everybody awake, right? But it was great because, yay, Dodgers. Where

08:02:28.640 are you staying? Or like what vicinity? Well, I was in. Okay. All right. You guys can talk

08:02:33.120 about that after the show. Later on. All right. Well, GG. Well played. To the panel. Last

08:02:41.660 call. Hit the like button, please, on your way out. Also, please leave a nice comment

08:02:45.260 once the live ends. I read them. Positivity is nice. Helps the algorithm. You have to

08:02:50.980 wait like 30 seconds after we end the actual stream to do it. Thank you guys for tuning

08:02:54.620 in tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world, but you were here with me. I appreciate

08:03:00.300 that. Thank you to everyone who so generously supports the show. Super chats, donates, watches,

08:03:08.700 likes, however you support. I appreciate that. Couldn't do it without you guys, you know,

08:03:14.780 demonetized. A lot of the stuff gets demonetized and not doing sponsorships if you're supported.

08:03:21.500 So thank you guys. Quick thing on our upcoming schedule. So I'm not going to do a whatever

08:03:28.180 Wednesday this week. I have, we have Andrew coming, debate, dating talk, debate, at least

08:03:37.600 two debates. We might, depending on who we can get, we might try to squeeze, squeeze in

08:03:42.380 one more, but we do fingers crossed, you know, whatever things happen, but two debates, dating

08:03:51.000 talk, Andrew Wilson back in studio. It's been like six months. It's going to be good. We've

08:03:55.620 got some good shows lined up for you guys. Know whatever Wednesday, probably this week,

08:03:59.920 next week. Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM at whatever on Instagram if

08:04:04.120 you can make it to Santa Barbara. And just a reminder, guys, just stay until the stream

08:04:08.300 ends. Leave a nice little comment. And I'm trying to think. Oh, hold on.

08:04:13.560 How about the kilt? Are you wearing it?

08:04:15.480 No, we did not. I don't even think one super chat came in that met the threshold. But

08:04:22.200 um, we have this final message here. Uh, final message whole nine yards donated $30. The countries

08:04:32.000 of Chad, Denmark, Eritrea, Guinea, Bissau, Israel, Mali, Mozambique, North Korea, Norway, and Sweden

08:04:40.020 all have mandatory military service, which also includes the females. Okay. So the other

08:04:46.300 193 countries, I was off by, you know, I think I said one or two countries have it. Um, what

08:04:54.580 is that? 10 countries or so the other 180 countries don't, uh, have anything that can, anything that

08:05:02.440 can compel women into military service. All these other 180 other countries or whatever, uh, have

08:05:08.880 male only military conscription. And some of them, uh, whether there's a draft or not force men,

08:05:15.460 now all men to join the military for a period of time. Go ahead.

08:05:18.920 I think the big difference with the U S is that you guys are the ones who always go into conflict

08:05:24.320 to stop it after things go too crazy. None of those other countries like go somewhere to stop

08:05:30.060 the war, but it's always U S. That's why I like really appreciate you guys. U S is the hero.

08:05:36.140 Yeah.

08:05:36.340 We intervene in a lot of the world.

08:05:38.520 I guess we're the world police. I don't know if that's a good thing though. Um, for the rest of us,

08:05:42.900 it's costly. I don't think it's, I guess it's good for other Western countries, but it's not

08:05:50.600 good for America. I don't think it's good for America that we are spending all this money on

08:05:57.260 the military. Well, I think it's good. We have a strong military, but that we're meddling in all

08:06:02.260 these conflicts. That's not good for the American citizen. It's too much nowadays. Like thinking about

08:06:07.700 world wars and stuff, it, none of them would have stopped without the U S we have all this

08:06:12.200 money for like ICBMs and fucking, I don't know. I'm not all this shit. It's like a lot of money.

08:06:18.440 And like, we, we should be maybe focusing on the American citizen a little more than that.

08:06:25.400 Yeah. Like in the airplane, when you get the mask on, it's always, it should be always you first

08:06:30.760 and then you can help. Yes. Maybe we can revitalize our infrastructure. Maybe we can help out the

08:06:36.020 homeless. Maybe we can, you know, uh, anyways, whatever. Uh, okay. Uh, maybe we, maybe we

08:06:42.860 could be taxed a little less. That would be, maybe the IRS doesn't, uh, literally, uh, well

08:06:51.300 not, it wouldn't be literally figuratively. Fuck us. Okay. Uh, that's pretty much it guys.

08:06:56.760 Again, Andrew Wilson coming. I shouldn't have paused there. Uh, Andrew Wilson will be here in

08:07:03.600 the studio. Uh, I believe schedule Saturday, Sunday, Monday debate, dating, talk debate.

08:07:10.980 All right, guys. Uh, Oh sevens in the chat. Oh sevens in the chat. Good night guys. I hope

08:07:15.880 you guys enjoyed the stream. It was a fun one. I enjoyed it. Uh, and, uh, yeah, we'll see you

08:07:21.680 guys soon. Good night guys.

08:07:33.600 Good night.

08:07:39.840 Good night.

08:07:47.920 Good night.

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