Whatever Podcast - Feminist WANTS Traditional Man？! SHAMES ＂Cheap＂ Men Who DO NOT Pay For Dates？! ｜ Dating Talk #190

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00:02:20.280 We're starting a little late here. We had two no-shows, so it kind of delayed us a little

00:02:25.100 bit. Disclaimer, the views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views

00:02:30.220 of the whatever channel. With that said, without further ado, we're going to have the guests

00:02:36.020 introduce themselves, so please tell us your name, age, location, and occupation. Go ahead.

00:02:41.700 My name's Pearl Botts. I'm from Los Angeles. I'm 32, and I'm a singer and content creator.

00:02:48.080 Are we going to get a little demo of the singing? Sure, if you want it. Let's do it. Go ahead.

00:02:53.680 Right now? Right now. You just want me to sing anything. What should she sing, panel? What 0.92

00:02:59.520 do you guys think? What's that song? At Last? At Last? Do you know what I'm talking about?

00:03:06.260 Oh, wow. Etta James. That's because you had another girl sing that here, huh? That's 1.00

00:03:09.340 the only song I know, actually. I don't listen to music. Actually, we were just talking about

00:03:13.500 A Star is Born. We were. We were. Can you sing At Last? Do you have your own music?

00:03:19.160 Busted out. I do, yes. Sing your own song. Okay. At Last. Wait, I'm kind of nervous right

00:03:27.180 You got this. At Last. My love has come along. My lonely days are over. And life is like

00:03:39.480 a song. That's like it. That's good. Yeah. That's good. Thank you. Thank you. Now we

00:03:45.960 need you to do the, did you do any opera? I studied opera, but I don't really do it anymore.

00:03:51.860 Okay. So there's, what is it? The Magic Flute? Do you know what I'm talking about? The Magic

00:03:55.860 Flute? The Night, the Queen of the Night, Aria. Oh, the Queen of the Night. Oh. Yeah,

00:04:01.360 wait. Is it called the Queen of the Night? Yeah, it is. Aria. Is that what it's called?

00:04:07.380 Wait, hold on. Queen of the Night. Aria sung by Queen of the Night. Okay, go ahead. Magic

00:04:14.720 flute notes are. I was a coloratura soprano, but that's a little bit more effort, so. Oh,

00:04:19.520 come on. This is easy. We'll skip on it. That's easy work. Oh, is it? Is it? The Queen of the Night?

00:04:23.840 Easy. Like, we just opened the show. We just opened the show. Can you try? How about

00:04:27.820 the, like, give it, give it the old college try. Nah, I'm good for Queen of the Night. Give

00:04:33.240 it, give it the, give it the shot. Are you going to pay me another, some more for that? I'll

00:04:36.700 pay you, I'll give you a $2 bill. A $2? Nah, nah, nah. That's a good deal. I spent a lot of

00:04:42.220 money on, on training for opera, so. That's like for special subscribers. You can subscribe

00:04:47.160 to my YouTube channel if you want to hear that. Bummer. Okay. What about you? Okay. Jordan,

00:04:54.520 26, from Riverside, California, and I'm a co-owner to a gym in Riverside and a personal trainer.

00:05:02.480 All right. Welcome. I'm Pay IRL, or Payton. I am 27 from Massachusetts. I work full-time with

00:05:12.580 farmers, and I'm also a streamer. Full, you work full-time with, with farmers? Like, I help them

00:05:20.000 decide which kind of feed they need, which kind of, like, chicken coop, how many chickens they're

00:05:25.840 going to be getting, things like that. Do you ever milk cows or goats or anything? No, I take care of

00:05:33.320 baby chicks, though. I see. Okay. Cool. What about you? Hi. I'm Stacey. I'm from Riverside County.

00:05:40.740 I'm 47, and I work in the aerospace industry. What's your job title? That's a good question.

00:05:51.220 Well, I'm Quality Assurance. I'm in training and development. Okay. All right. What about you?

00:05:57.640 I'm Liz. I am 25, and I own a car wrapping business. All right. You want to shout it out

00:06:05.920 in case somebody wants their car wrapped? Look at me, a horrible business owner. It's called

00:06:10.780 Cosmotive, and we're located in Ventura County. However, we extend all the way to L.A. County

00:06:15.580 as well. All right. If you guys need your car wrapped, go to her. I'm Sarah. I'm 28, and I'm a

00:06:26.160 digital creator for beauty brands. So, like, skincare and some other beauty brands, and then some

00:06:32.360 other, like, freelance stuff. All right. Cool. I'm Madison. I'm 19 years old. I'm a full-time

00:06:39.740 student, and I work for the Whatever Podcast. I'm Ava. I'm 24. I'm from Santa Barbara. I bartend,

00:06:50.220 and I also work for the Whatever Podcast. All right. Welcome, everybody. Welcome, everybody.

00:06:56.440 So, we're going to go around the table once more. What is everybody's current relationship status?

00:07:01.160 So, are you single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married,

00:07:05.680 polycule, sex, cult, harem, whatever it may be? If you're single, how long have you been single?

00:07:10.340 What's the longest relationship you've ever been in, starting with you? Go ahead.

00:07:15.060 I'm dating right now, dating somebody, and longest relationship, year and a half.

00:07:20.300 How long have you been dating this new guy?

00:07:23.900 A little over two months.

00:07:25.600 Two months. Are you guys boyfriend, girlfriend, or?

00:07:27.680 Not yet, no.

00:07:28.620 So, talking stage?

00:07:29.740 Yeah, talking.

00:07:30.800 Are you guys exclusive?

00:07:32.180 Mm-hmm.

00:07:32.900 You guys have had that conversation?

00:07:34.840 Yeah.

00:07:35.500 Okay. All right.

00:07:38.060 And I'm married, and this is my longest relationship.

00:07:41.260 How long?

00:07:43.100 Six years.

00:07:44.880 All right. Cool.

00:07:47.580 I told you guys last time, I am running a sex cult currently. No, I'm just kidding. I'm single. 0.80

00:07:53.920 I've been single.

00:07:54.760 My longest relationship was seven years, and it was seven years ago.

00:08:01.160 Wait. Your longest relationship was seven years, and it was seven years ago?

00:08:06.060 Yes.

00:08:06.520 Okay.

00:08:06.720 And you're 27, right?

00:08:10.380 Yeah.

00:08:10.560 So, it ended when you were 20.

00:08:11.940 Yeah.

00:08:12.280 Okay.

00:08:13.620 So, you dated from 13 to 17?

00:08:16.180 Yeah.

00:08:16.440 No, 13 to 20.

00:08:17.620 Yeah, yeah.

00:08:18.620 13 to 20, I meant to say.

00:08:20.840 And you've had no long-term relationships since you were 20?

00:08:23.940 Correct.

00:08:24.620 What's the longest period of time you've dated somebody since then?

00:08:27.900 Just like a date here or there.

00:08:29.980 Nothing.

00:08:30.220 Nothing.

00:08:30.660 That turned into anything more.

00:08:32.180 A month, even?

00:08:33.000 No.

00:08:33.660 Two weeks?

00:08:34.500 No.

00:08:34.660 A fortnight?

00:08:35.580 No.

00:08:36.680 Two weeks?

00:08:37.680 No.

00:08:38.020 Just first dates?

00:08:38.780 Just first dates.

00:08:39.960 Hookups?

00:08:40.680 No.

00:08:40.820 One-night stands?

00:08:41.540 No.

00:08:41.800 You've been celibate for seven years?

00:08:43.280 No.

00:08:44.380 We talked about this before, but I've been celibate for four years.

00:08:48.260 Okay.

00:08:49.100 Just for the remainder of the show, though, I don't think it's worth, for any returning guests

00:08:55.040 on the panel, I don't think it's worth mentioning.

00:08:58.100 I talked about it on the last show.

00:08:59.580 So, just say, if you repeat it, there's new viewers, new panelists, they haven't heard

00:09:04.680 it.

00:09:07.120 So, you've been celibate for four years?

00:09:09.480 Yes.

00:09:09.900 Okay.

00:09:13.140 For religious reasons, or just, are you religious?

00:09:16.260 I'm Catholic.

00:09:17.340 Okay. 0.72

00:09:17.760 But it's more because I want to find a long-term relationship before I have sex with anyone.

00:09:23.140 But you go on dates then, right?

00:09:25.020 Yeah.

00:09:25.480 How often do you go on dates?

00:09:27.340 I've been going on dates more often now.

00:09:30.180 You know, if I go out and I meet someone, I've also been turned down a lot, though.

00:09:35.020 So, I try to go on a date with someone.

00:09:36.800 I'll ask someone out, and they say no.

00:09:38.920 But I'm trying.

00:09:40.080 Mm-hmm.

00:09:40.900 Oh, so you've asked somebody out, and you've been rejected?

00:09:43.620 Yes.

00:09:44.980 More than once.

00:09:45.800 More than once.

00:09:47.480 What's your pick-up line?

00:09:49.180 What's your go-to?

00:09:49.820 I just walk up to them and tell them that I think they're attractive, and that if they

00:09:54.620 would like to have a drink together or go out sometime.

00:09:57.980 I see.

00:09:58.480 I see.

00:09:58.940 Okay.

00:09:59.900 All right.

00:10:01.320 And do you think a component of this, do you think you're too picky?

00:10:07.320 No.

00:10:09.180 Like, I ask men out often.

00:10:13.220 Okay.

00:10:13.740 All right.

00:10:14.300 We'll get into that.

00:10:15.060 What about you?

00:10:15.480 Um, I am married for 21 and a half years, and this is my longest relationship.

00:10:21.940 All right.

00:10:23.280 And so, you guys met, like, 21, 22?

00:10:27.320 I was 24 years old.

00:10:30.100 24.

00:10:30.740 Okay.

00:10:30.960 Yeah.

00:10:31.420 Got it.

00:10:32.660 Together, 21, correct?

00:10:34.300 Yes.

00:10:34.680 Okay.

00:10:35.020 Married?

00:10:35.220 Well, no.

00:10:35.980 Married 21 and a half, so we've been, we were together for 22.

00:10:40.000 I see.

00:10:40.460 Okay.

00:10:41.180 So, you got married, like, one to two years into the relationship, or?

00:10:44.400 We met February, got married, or I'm sorry, we got engaged in July and married that next

00:10:52.640 February.

00:10:53.520 Mm-hmm.

00:10:54.340 So, pretty quick.

00:10:57.860 Newly single.

00:10:59.560 Oh, really?

00:11:00.620 Okay.

00:11:01.100 All right.

00:11:03.660 You were just on the show, I think, two or three weeks ago, right?

00:11:06.180 I know.

00:11:06.600 Isn't that crazy?

00:11:08.000 So, okay.

00:11:09.460 Jumpstart the memory here.

00:11:11.760 Newly single.

00:11:12.540 How long have you been single?

00:11:14.400 Yesterday?

00:11:16.360 No.

00:11:16.720 Today?

00:11:17.180 We broke up, like, so, I said on the last one that I went to Japan to go see him.

00:11:25.700 Military guy, right?

00:11:26.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:11:27.480 And then I broke up with him the day I came back.

00:11:32.320 Did it not go well in?

00:11:33.920 No, no.

00:11:34.520 It was great.

00:11:34.940 Wait, wait, wait.

00:11:35.880 You were on the show, like, three weeks ago, and then you went to Japan?

00:11:39.040 And then I went to Japan.

00:11:39.980 And I came back.

00:11:41.000 Came back.

00:11:42.000 A week and a half later.

00:11:43.000 Dumped him.

00:11:44.500 That's a little harsh.

00:11:45.940 That's what you did.

00:11:46.760 It was a mutual understanding.

00:11:47.400 It was okay.

00:11:47.680 It was a mutual understanding.

00:11:48.920 So, things did not go well in Japan?

00:11:50.380 No, they were great.

00:11:51.680 Like, there was nothing wrong with the relationship at all.

00:11:53.600 It was just the fact that he's in Japan, and I'm out here, and the distance just wasn't

00:11:59.400 working for us.

00:12:00.260 So, we were like, you know what?

00:12:01.440 Maybe, you know, wherever God leads our paths in the future, it is what it is.

00:12:06.120 But right now, it's like, your work needs to come first.

00:12:09.720 His work?

00:12:10.400 Yeah.

00:12:12.100 He's in the military, right?

00:12:13.540 Yeah.

00:12:13.740 What branch?

00:12:14.720 Navy.

00:12:15.660 Navy, okay. 0.87

00:12:17.280 And so, when was this?

00:12:18.800 A week ago?

00:12:19.820 No, this was, like, almost three weeks ago.

00:12:23.160 That you broke up with him?

00:12:26.020 Yeah.

00:12:26.580 Okay.

00:12:27.280 How long is he stationed out there?

00:12:28.960 Till December, but then he gets restationed in Florida.

00:12:33.880 So, it's going to be long distance no matter what.

00:12:35.940 Because my business is out here, so.

00:12:37.400 Wait, you said it was kind of mutual, but who initiated this conversation?

00:12:42.780 Sounded like it was you.

00:12:43.780 I initiated the conversation because I felt like something was going on on his end.

00:12:47.920 I was fine with the distance.

00:12:49.740 It was a little rough on him, though.

00:12:51.080 So, for his sake, I was like, I think that for you, it would be best if we just, like, stayed platonic.

00:12:58.900 And he agreed.

00:13:00.300 Did he not trust you?

00:13:01.540 Oh, no, no, no.

00:13:01.980 We did.

00:13:02.540 There was no, like, trust issue or anything like that.

00:13:04.720 It was just not in God's timing.

00:13:07.240 So.

00:13:07.540 Did you meet him online or you knew him from over here?

00:13:09.640 Well, I was friends with him for a while beforehand.

00:13:12.340 And then he left on deployment a few months ago.

00:13:15.120 And we were never in a relationship while he was out here.

00:13:18.560 So, I think because we started dating while he was gone, kind of, like, put the wedge in already.

00:13:23.140 Because we didn't, we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend ever in person.

00:13:26.480 So, it was just like.

00:13:27.900 That's really hard.

00:13:28.600 Because 11 months, a whole year of my marriage, my husband was deployed in Cuba for an entire year of my marriage.

00:13:35.100 So, that's, puts a lot of things into perspective.

00:13:38.240 Guantanamo.

00:13:38.800 Yeah, for sure.

00:13:39.240 Guantanamo.

00:13:40.040 Yeah.

00:13:40.320 That's wild.

00:13:41.200 Good times.

00:13:42.140 He couldn't go off, he couldn't go off base or anything, but yeah.

00:13:45.820 Wait, so, and how long were you guys dating for?

00:13:48.020 Not long.

00:13:48.820 Like, barely two months.

00:13:50.900 Two months.

00:13:51.400 So, it was easy peasy.

00:13:53.040 Longest relationship?

00:13:54.340 Four years.

00:13:55.220 Four years.

00:13:56.240 Yeah.

00:13:57.420 So, you were fine with the distance.

00:14:00.300 When you went to go and visit him, was there conversations about this is difficult or?

00:14:10.640 It was just really hard for him to focus on work and the relationship.

00:14:16.240 Yeah.

00:14:16.400 Since we could barely talk anyways, since like it's, it's, it's like day over there and then night over here, night over here, day over there.

00:14:25.120 So, it's just completely opposite time zones.

00:14:28.000 And you said you guys were together for two months.

00:14:30.600 Yeah.

00:14:31.000 How long of the two months was he?

00:14:33.140 The whole two months.

00:14:33.900 We were never like physically dating when we were here together.

00:14:38.400 We started dating while he was already deployed.

00:14:40.580 Oh, so you guys were like kind of, you were friends.

00:14:43.300 Mm-hmm.

00:14:43.680 And then you guys were communicating.

00:14:45.980 Yeah.

00:14:46.400 While he was there and then.

00:14:47.760 And then we were like, well, should we just date?

00:14:49.780 And then I think we just were like, yeah, let's do it and kind of rushed into it without thinking long term.

00:14:55.480 And then when I came out, when I went out there, it's kind of like all hit us.

00:14:59.760 Wait.

00:15:00.240 Okay.

00:15:00.540 Hold on.

00:15:01.160 More details are being revealed here.

00:15:03.240 So, and you guys had never had anything romantic previously.

00:15:09.620 No, we did.

00:15:10.740 Oh, you guys had dated before.

00:15:12.520 Yo, Robert Tanner, thank you for the gift of 20 memberships, man.

00:15:15.340 Good to see you in the chat.

00:15:16.120 Thank you so much, man.

00:15:18.580 You guys had dated before.

00:15:20.520 Wait, is this the guy you were previously in a relationship with?

00:15:23.000 No.

00:15:23.600 You know, the guy who like the first time you were on the show, you were dating a guy.

00:15:26.660 No, yeah, no.

00:15:27.060 Different guy.

00:15:27.640 That was a different guy.

00:15:28.360 Okay, so you had dated this guy before.

00:15:30.080 This guy, we weren't dating.

00:15:31.840 We just liked each other, never pursued it.

00:15:34.020 And then when he left, it was like, wait, I actually have feelings for you.

00:15:36.700 Let's try to pursue it.

00:15:37.640 And then it just didn't work out.

00:15:38.600 Wait, so you did date before?

00:15:44.080 No.

00:15:44.520 We just...

00:15:45.020 Like, was it casual?

00:15:45.980 Like a fling?

00:15:46.320 We were only friends.

00:15:47.760 Fling?

00:15:47.860 We never expressed anything.

00:15:49.240 Fling?

00:15:49.800 No.

00:15:50.340 No fling?

00:15:50.920 No.

00:15:51.320 We were just so...

00:15:52.160 Hook up?

00:15:53.020 A little hook up.

00:15:53.620 No hook up.

00:15:54.260 I don't do that.

00:15:56.000 No hook up in Japan?

00:15:56.840 I don't do...

00:15:57.320 Well, when...

00:15:58.680 Yeah, no.

00:15:59.580 It happens.

00:16:00.080 It happens to the best.

00:16:03.080 But yeah, so it just didn't work out.

00:16:04.740 That's okay.

00:16:05.520 Okay.

00:16:07.040 Do you want to be with him in the future?

00:16:09.100 Like, do you think that's possible?

00:16:11.500 If it's in God's timing, I guess.

00:16:13.500 I mean, I haven't really given it a thought.

00:16:15.320 What if it's in Satan's timing?

00:16:16.940 Well, then I would say that it's not meant to be.

00:16:19.300 Would you move to Japan if he was, like, fully stationed out there?

00:16:22.700 And you wanted to be with him?

00:16:23.420 Her business is here.

00:16:24.720 She's got her business.

00:16:26.540 I do.

00:16:26.940 I do have my business here, and I love working and everything like that.

00:16:30.020 She loves working.

00:16:30.640 She could have a Japanese car-wrapping business. 0.94

00:16:33.740 True.

00:16:35.380 Every time.

00:16:36.340 You're Vietnamese, right?

00:16:37.240 Half.

00:16:37.320 Vietnamese.

00:16:37.880 Half Vietnamese, yeah.

00:16:38.820 Have you been to Vietnam?

00:16:40.040 No.

00:16:40.560 It was, like, a two-hour flight, and I was this close to, like, booking from Japan. 0.94

00:16:44.900 Whatever Fando dated $69, let me translate it, smashed once, but the sex was lame. 0.80

00:16:52.660 Was it? 0.85

00:16:53.740 No, it wasn't.

00:16:54.300 It's okay.

00:16:55.240 It wasn't, but...

00:16:56.160 Hee-hee. 1.00

00:16:58.740 All right.

00:16:59.280 Thank you, whatever fan.

00:17:04.460 I had a phone.

00:17:05.360 I had a question on this.

00:17:07.100 Okay.

00:17:07.500 He's...

00:17:08.100 Oh, who...

00:17:09.020 Did you pay to go out there, or did he pay?

00:17:11.160 No, he paid for everything.

00:17:12.420 He paid for everything?

00:17:13.000 Yeah.

00:17:13.160 The two months that we were together, like, it was great.

00:17:15.300 He did everything right.

00:17:16.380 Yeah.

00:17:16.480 We both were very invested.

00:17:18.560 Again, it was just, like, the distance.

00:17:20.280 We were like, you know what?

00:17:20.900 It'd probably be best to just kind of stay as friends.

00:17:23.160 How often would you guys talk?

00:17:25.060 We would talk every day, but it would be for, like...

00:17:27.860 It's brutal.

00:17:28.680 It would be for, like, a five, ten-minute conversational time.

00:17:31.240 Oh, five, ten minutes?

00:17:32.000 Yeah, we wouldn't get that much time.

00:17:32.680 Like on the phone?

00:17:33.420 Yeah.

00:17:34.180 On the phone.

00:17:36.380 Phone.

00:17:36.980 Yeah.

00:17:37.400 Okay.

00:17:38.640 We didn't invest, like, that much time being in a serious relationship for there to be

00:17:42.860 a lot of damage.

00:17:43.900 Yeah.

00:17:44.200 It would be different if we were together for, like, a long period of time.

00:17:47.060 Like, two years.

00:17:48.020 Two months.

00:17:48.680 Like, it was like, eh, like, all right.

00:17:49.940 It just didn't work out.

00:17:50.600 What's up?

00:17:50.800 Yeah.

00:17:54.920 TTS is echoing.

00:17:58.920 TTS is echoing.

00:18:01.200 Huh.

00:18:01.720 I'll have to look at that.

00:18:03.660 So, he flew you out.

00:18:04.800 You guys talked almost every day on the phone?

00:18:08.800 Yeah.

00:18:10.140 I don't know.

00:18:11.360 Who here has done long distance?

00:18:13.400 Show of hands, any long distance people?

00:18:15.180 Mm-hmm.

00:18:16.580 See, I can't.

00:18:17.440 I can't talk every day.

00:18:19.140 For sure.

00:18:19.580 Even if she lives in my...

00:18:21.180 Even if she lives five minutes away, I need, like, 72 hours.

00:18:25.080 Just go.

00:18:25.640 Leave me alone.

00:18:26.620 72 hours?

00:18:27.420 Leave me alone for 72 hours.

00:18:28.840 No, I'm kidding.

00:18:29.660 Well, how much can happen?

00:18:31.060 Divorce, grave, survivor, and waiting for $69.

00:18:33.800 Audio mixer muted.

00:18:35.180 You can see if it's fixed on the panel.

00:18:37.120 No, no, no, no, right there.

00:18:38.480 You had it.

00:18:38.800 You had it.

00:18:39.100 Quick, quick, quick.

00:18:39.520 When the A&M says, till death do us part, what does that actually mean?

00:18:43.780 Please enlighten your future customers.

00:18:45.840 Chat, did that fix it?

00:18:47.200 Chat, did that fix it?

00:18:49.340 And then, Nick, could you...

00:18:50.500 Let me just check if it's muted in the other...

00:18:53.100 Fixed.

00:18:54.120 Fixed?

00:18:54.520 Is the chat saying it was fixed?

00:18:55.840 Yeah.

00:18:56.220 That's not sure why that was happening, but...

00:18:59.140 Okay.

00:18:59.600 So, chat, was there...

00:19:03.520 There was an echo before, but now it's good.

00:19:05.200 Okay.

00:19:06.160 All right.

00:19:07.940 Were you...

00:19:08.420 Was that played with...

00:19:09.480 I might have played with it, or were you guys playing with that?

00:19:11.740 We didn't play with that.

00:19:12.940 Hmm.

00:19:13.160 That's strange.

00:19:13.800 Maybe it just...

00:19:14.660 Sorry, guys.

00:19:15.380 Our OBS must have just...

00:19:17.720 OBS, you know.

00:19:18.620 Anyways.

00:19:20.220 Okay.

00:19:20.700 So, are you back on the dating apps?

00:19:22.260 Christian Mingle? 0.76

00:19:22.980 What's up?

00:19:23.420 No, no, no, no.

00:19:24.260 No Christian Mingle? 0.99

00:19:25.240 Nothing.

00:19:25.980 Nothing?

00:19:26.340 I'm not into the whole, like, dating app thing.

00:19:28.360 It's just...

00:19:29.100 I live my life respectfully.

00:19:31.900 Mm-hmm.

00:19:32.420 Ryan Eric donated $69.

00:19:35.620 Had a GF of 2.5 years.

00:19:37.800 Was living in my house.

00:19:39.380 Tried going to a friend's in bikini without me.

00:19:42.000 Got in fight.

00:19:42.980 Your debates helped me stop her BS.

00:19:46.240 Kicked her out.

00:19:46.920 She tried taking my stuff.

00:19:48.940 Ty Andrew Brixen.

00:19:51.140 Yo, Ryan...

00:19:52.420 Ryan Eric.

00:19:54.000 Glad the podcast was of assistance.

00:19:57.340 Uh, wow.

00:19:58.200 Okay.

00:19:58.500 The bikini.

00:19:59.540 Uh, I'm sure we don't know all the details there, but, um...

00:20:04.900 Was she gonna go in a pool?

00:20:07.880 Yeah.

00:20:08.320 Because it makes sense if she was gonna go swimming or something.

00:20:12.100 Yeah, I'm not sure why going in a bikini is such a big...

00:20:15.100 We need to respond to the other TTS.

00:20:17.480 Sorry, guys.

00:20:18.600 We're fixing the audio.

00:20:20.360 I think that's valid.

00:20:21.500 If you don't...

00:20:23.540 If you're dating a guy, and if you're not going to pool parties in a burkini, you get dumped. 1.00

00:20:31.000 Wait, what?

00:20:32.680 Sorry.

00:20:33.160 Any ladies here have a burkini? 1.00

00:20:38.380 What's a burkini? 1.00

00:20:39.280 I was gonna ask...

00:20:39.900 Nick, can you Google burkini for me?

00:20:42.380 I was gonna ask...

00:20:43.680 It's a burka burkini.

00:20:44.980 It's a very modest type of bathing suit.

00:20:46.940 It's a very modest.

00:20:47.520 Maybe you saw that the Olympics, some of the women will wear burkinis. 0.92

00:20:53.500 I think...

00:20:54.540 Oh, wow.

00:20:54.920 Like a one-piece?

00:20:55.900 Me personally...

00:20:56.740 No, it's like fully covered.

00:20:57.460 I think it's a bit too revealing.

00:21:00.360 I think we need to go full hazmat suit.

00:21:05.040 That's...

00:21:05.560 Really alright, even.

00:21:06.920 Was that a joke?

00:21:08.940 No, like...

00:21:09.640 None of us fall.

00:21:10.340 This is actually one of the first gifts I get, because we...

00:21:13.060 You know, I'm a nice guy.

00:21:14.280 We live in Southern California.

00:21:16.420 You know, the girl's gonna want to go to the pool or to the beach. 1.00

00:21:20.280 I will buy a girl. 0.97

00:21:23.420 Sometimes I'll try to go 50-50 on it.

00:21:25.380 I will buy her a burkini, excuse me, and insist that she wear it. 1.00

00:21:31.080 Even when I'm not around.

00:21:32.540 And when I'm around.

00:21:35.160 And when you're around.

00:21:36.480 Yeah.

00:21:36.640 That's not real.

00:21:38.660 Do you actually do that?

00:21:40.560 Yeah, you want to see my Amazon order history?

00:21:43.940 No, I've bought...

00:21:44.580 The amount of burkinis I've bought.

00:21:47.180 So if you...

00:21:47.800 I am single-handedly actually funding the burkini industry.

00:21:49.680 If you don't go in on it, then she doesn't have to wear it.

00:21:51.820 What's that?

00:21:52.260 If you don't go in on it.

00:21:53.580 I mean, if you don't buy in it, she doesn't... 1.00

00:21:55.300 Huh?

00:21:55.800 What are you talking about?

00:21:56.860 Go in on it.

00:21:58.920 What does...

00:21:59.540 Go in on...

00:22:00.920 I don't do that.

00:22:01.860 First off, I don't do that.

00:22:03.680 Pay half.

00:22:04.380 I don't do that.

00:22:05.340 If you don't pay half...

00:22:06.740 I don't do that.

00:22:07.220 Then she doesn't have to... 0.98

00:22:08.960 Oh.

00:22:10.100 Then she doesn't have to wear that.

00:22:11.400 She can wear whatever she wants.

00:22:12.320 If she's a feminist, I pay half. 1.00

00:22:13.900 But if she's trad, then I'll pay the whole thing.

00:22:17.680 It's a very nice gesture.

00:22:19.340 Yes.

00:22:20.440 The feminist liberal women tend to love the burkini.

00:22:24.760 That's more modest than like regular clothes.

00:22:27.900 The burkini? 1.00

00:22:29.480 Yeah.

00:22:29.980 Yeah, definitely.

00:22:31.200 Covers more than what she'd probably wear out in the sun.

00:22:34.820 Yeah, but it like accentuates the shape of her body. 1.00

00:22:39.140 Yeah, it does.

00:22:40.360 Kind of.

00:22:40.680 Does it?

00:22:41.520 Kind of attractive.

00:22:42.980 It's tight.

00:22:44.340 Oh.

00:22:45.540 I thought I saw one with like a skirt over and I'm like, I feel like that's more modest than...

00:22:50.860 Yeah.

00:22:51.500 You know?

00:22:52.460 Yeah.

00:22:53.500 Yeah.

00:22:55.180 By the way, there's some...

00:22:56.220 Anywhere in her burkini. 0.99

00:22:57.520 Check the stream yard.

00:22:59.200 Protected from the sun.

00:23:00.480 Yeah.

00:23:00.860 Yeah, no sun damage.

00:23:02.680 Me neither.

00:23:03.420 That's the first time I'm hearing of this.

00:23:04.720 Wait, let's get...

00:23:05.560 We'll go back to the TTS that came through.

00:23:08.460 Relationship status.

00:23:09.780 I'm single.

00:23:10.960 Single.

00:23:11.240 Okay.

00:23:12.660 Longest relationship, I'd say about 2.5 to 3 years.

00:23:17.820 Okay.

00:23:18.180 Over the course of 5 years.

00:23:20.280 Oh, so it's on and on?

00:23:21.580 Yeah.

00:23:21.820 On and on.

00:23:22.420 Yeah.

00:23:22.620 You mean a relationship?

00:23:25.240 On and off.

00:23:26.180 Excuse me.

00:23:27.660 I'm in an on and on relationship, a.k.a. a relationship.

00:23:32.460 On and on.

00:23:33.920 Grid 1 Motorsports donated $69.

00:23:37.160 On and on.

00:23:37.920 Evening, Brixham.

00:23:39.100 Been busy.

00:23:39.580 Cheers.

00:23:40.060 Can't always make the show, but you and Andrew have been doing excellent work.

00:23:43.700 Yo, thank you, man.

00:23:44.400 Thank you, bro.

00:23:44.920 Very cool you have an all brunette episode, but now the blondes will protest you. 1.00

00:23:49.640 Yeah, there's a lack of diversity on this.

00:23:54.080 You know, the hair color is not very diverse, but I think we've got.

00:23:57.460 She's a natural blonde. 1.00

00:23:58.440 We need to talk about.

00:23:59.880 Oh, are you?

00:24:00.360 Yeah, I'm blonde, but I die.

00:24:01.480 You are culturally appropriating.

00:24:04.700 I don't know if it's.

00:24:05.560 You're a pro.

00:24:06.100 Robert Tanner, thank you for the gift of 20.

00:24:07.800 You are appropriating.

00:24:09.760 I'm offended because I'm dark hair naturally.

00:24:12.320 Well, I'm very sorry.

00:24:13.740 Who of the natural.

00:24:15.160 Hold on.

00:24:15.460 We can't allow this.

00:24:17.020 Who here who has natural dark hair thinks that this is an abomination?

00:24:23.920 Who here is offended?

00:24:25.460 She is appropriating.

00:24:27.500 Your culture.

00:24:28.340 Our.

00:24:29.600 I'm not sure if it's culture or ethnicity.

00:24:32.560 I feel like.

00:24:33.220 You are laughing as a brunette. 1.00

00:24:35.000 I am.

00:24:35.880 I feel like.

00:24:36.320 How dare you?

00:24:37.340 Thank you.

00:24:38.200 Yeah.

00:24:38.580 Well, you should first find out who here has colored hair currently. 0.85

00:24:41.760 And then you can say that.

00:24:43.260 I mean, y'all probably seem like you're a natural.

00:24:47.140 I mean, you might have highlights or a little coloring.

00:24:49.380 I think yours is colored.

00:24:50.700 Mine's colored.

00:24:51.240 I'm naturally your color.

00:24:53.320 Yeah.

00:24:53.500 It's still dark.

00:24:54.740 Yeah.

00:24:55.320 It's still dark.

00:24:57.040 You know.

00:24:57.460 Yeah.

00:24:58.100 Like she's.

00:24:59.400 Are you sure you're not.

00:25:00.560 Hold on.

00:25:01.240 I'm really blonde.

00:25:02.400 It looks more ginger.

00:25:03.700 Looks a little red.

00:25:04.020 I just did my roots and it came out the wrong color.

00:25:06.160 But if you look like.

00:25:07.760 Oh, okay.

00:25:08.620 Ryan Eric donated $69.

00:25:11.660 No.

00:25:12.640 She insisted going to pool party at strangers house without me.

00:25:17.060 After dumping, hacked her Google and found messages of her cheating with another guy.

00:25:21.760 Okay.

00:25:22.180 She hated the show and yelled TV at Andrew lol.

00:25:27.240 Wait.

00:25:27.820 So she was living with you.

00:25:29.240 So was she technically, I mean, she technically might have had like a renter's rights or whatever. 0.97

00:25:36.860 But did she, you kicked her out. 0.95

00:25:38.220 You just, she just moved out willingly.

00:25:42.100 We'll get into that.

00:25:43.060 I'll ask the panel.

00:25:43.940 I won't get around the table from everybody, but so the bikini and then a divorce guy.

00:25:49.960 I will come back to your TTS.

00:25:52.500 The bikini dump thing.

00:25:56.280 What were we talking about?

00:25:57.780 I forgot.

00:25:58.320 Me being born.

00:25:59.000 My hair.

00:26:00.240 She's natural blonde. 1.00

00:26:01.000 Oh, oh, the diversity of the panel.

00:26:03.400 Let's go around the table.

00:26:05.140 What are your pronouns?

00:26:07.920 And then also what's your ethnicity?

00:26:14.280 I think we got pretty diverse panel here.

00:26:16.080 Starting with you.

00:26:16.700 Go ahead.

00:26:17.900 My pronouns are she, her, and I'm half Korean, half white.

00:26:22.340 Sons of Liberty donated $69.

00:26:25.600 If forced to choose, would you rather have democracy?

00:26:28.640 Oh, I saw this on Twitter.

00:26:29.640 Oh, I saw this on Twitter.

00:26:29.680 I saw that interview.

00:26:31.140 Trump 2024.

00:26:32.900 Okay, hold on.

00:26:34.320 I'll add it to the list.

00:26:35.560 I just want to get through relationship status really quick.

00:26:38.220 Just ethnicity.

00:26:40.060 Half Korean, half white.

00:26:40.920 Asian, Asian, Russian, Mexican, Swedish, and Irish, white, Vietnamese, and white.

00:26:51.240 I thought you were part Italian.

00:26:52.360 I'm part of everything, but if I started naming it, it would just...

00:26:55.940 What about you?

00:26:56.660 Cuban, Argentinian.

00:26:58.000 Okay.

00:26:58.540 Do you speak Spanish?

00:26:59.340 Let's see.

00:27:01.460 I'm 100% monk.

00:27:09.280 What about you?

00:27:10.660 I just took an ancestry test, so I already forgot most of it, but mostly Italian, German, Irish, French.

00:27:19.360 All right.

00:27:22.340 Killer of cereal donated $69.

00:27:25.480 Bruh.

00:27:25.880 What ethnicity have you dated that you would not date again, and why?

00:27:29.440 I might have to bump.

00:27:30.460 How long have we been gone?

00:27:31.340 Is it 30?

00:27:32.420 Yeah.

00:27:33.220 Okay, I'm going to bump.

00:27:35.440 Okay, I'll leave it at 69 for three more minutes.

00:27:39.220 So you're saying your longest relationship, 2.5 years.

00:27:42.460 You're currently single.

00:27:43.240 When was your last relationship?

00:27:45.120 I ended it about a month and a half ago.

00:27:47.380 Is that the 2.5 year one?

00:27:48.980 No.

00:27:49.740 How long was the last one?

00:27:52.280 Only four and a half months.

00:27:54.400 Okay.

00:27:55.120 But you said the 2.5 year one, it was on again, off again?

00:27:58.760 Yes.

00:27:59.260 How many times was it on and off?

00:28:00.540 So, I had children with this person, so I have two sons, but, so we kind of like just

00:28:07.620 tried to make things work, didn't work, we got engaged, it didn't work.

00:28:11.700 So, I would say in total we dated about two and a half years, but it was just not working.

00:28:18.980 How many times was it on again, off again?

00:28:21.280 I would say three.

00:28:30.080 Three times we tried.

00:28:32.780 Who brought it in?

00:28:34.460 Killer of cereal donated $69.

00:28:37.740 W for three minutes.

00:28:40.100 Also, while I have it, most embarrassing date or carnal knowledge stories, please. 0.94

00:28:45.940 Thank you, killer.

00:28:46.640 Appreciate it.

00:28:47.180 We'll get to all of those.

00:28:48.100 Who would end it?

00:28:54.320 It would just kind of dissolve, to be honest.

00:28:58.580 Like, there was no understanding that we were done so much as, like, I feel like he would

00:29:08.140 either, like, leave or I would just leave.

00:29:11.840 And then who would, like, try to reach back out to make it, to get back together?

00:29:19.960 I reached back out, well, one time that I specifically remember I reached back out, that was after

00:29:24.900 we had our first son to try to make it work.

00:29:28.060 But it was always mutual.

00:29:31.580 So, it was, like, yeah, it was pretty mutual.

00:29:37.200 Like, there was an understanding that we wanted to make it work, but it just continuously did

00:29:40.940 not work.

00:29:41.920 Sure.

00:29:42.460 Okay.

00:29:42.980 By the way, guys, TTS is now boosted to 200, read 100.

00:29:48.220 And, yeah.

00:29:49.880 You said you have two kids?

00:29:51.300 Yes.

00:29:51.800 Okay.

00:29:52.160 Got it.

00:29:53.500 Maddie, what about you?

00:29:55.400 I'm currently in a relationship.

00:29:57.420 My current one is the longest.

00:29:58.940 It's been almost two years.

00:30:01.880 All right.

00:30:06.180 I'm also currently in a relationship.

00:30:08.560 It's my longest.

00:30:09.520 And it's five years.

00:30:11.960 All right.

00:30:12.440 Cool.

00:30:13.700 Okay.

00:30:14.140 So, let's get back into some of the notes here.

00:30:18.380 And I'll read a couple of chats.

00:30:19.920 So, TTS, just a reminder, guys, TTS was 69, but we've boosted it to 200.

00:30:26.180 The read is 100.

00:30:28.300 You can hide that.

00:30:29.160 Brother.

00:30:29.780 Oh.

00:30:30.220 Okay.

00:30:31.000 Grid One Motorsports donated $69.

00:30:34.520 This panel is putting me to sleep.

00:30:37.180 Just to start some she-e-a-e-it, I have to ask, how important is a man's political ideals

00:30:42.940 to the ladies?

00:30:44.220 I hear it is difficult to find a real man on the left.

00:30:49.920 We'll get to it.

00:30:51.600 There's a backlog now.

00:30:54.620 So, we'll get to it.

00:30:55.660 Thank you, Grid One.

00:30:56.860 Reminder, guys, I just, that's the cutoff.

00:30:58.960 TTS is now 200 and up.

00:31:04.260 Excuse me.

00:31:05.260 All right.

00:31:05.660 So, let me read this one.

00:31:08.640 Bravo, Django.

00:31:09.400 Actually, Maddie, can you read it?

00:31:10.960 Please do a video reaction someday.

00:31:13.100 It's called Scariest Hell Testimony Ever, and it has a green background. 0.86

00:31:19.100 There's even studies on NDs, because there's so many.

00:31:22.920 Also, Touching the Afterlife is a YouTube channel full of hell testimonies.

00:31:27.280 I love your videos, brother. 1.00

00:31:28.540 Holy shit, this thing sucks. 1.00

00:31:30.040 Dude, this thing is fucking dog. 1.00

00:31:32.320 Okay. 1.00

00:31:33.680 I don't know why it's not working.

00:31:35.260 All right. 1.00

00:31:35.600 Fuck that thing. 1.00

00:31:36.600 I'll have to, I don't know why it's not working. 1.00

00:31:38.800 Sorry, guys.

00:31:39.320 I got this thing that's, I forgot the specific name of the type of camera.

00:31:45.000 It's like P-E-Z. 0.89

00:31:46.740 Anybody in the chat know what I'm talking about?

00:31:49.400 P-E-Z camera?

00:31:50.500 What are they called?

00:31:52.620 But obviously, I have not figured out how to, how to work it.

00:31:57.980 So, P-T-Z. 1.00

00:32:00.140 P-T-Z, excuse me. 1.00

00:32:01.440 P-T-Z camera.

00:32:02.820 But it's obviously, hold on.

00:32:05.240 What the?

00:32:06.100 And it's moving on its own.

00:32:08.280 It tracks movement.

00:32:10.960 What the?

00:32:11.780 Bruh.

00:32:12.580 Dark. 1.00

00:32:12.840 Hold on, let me, and the fucking, the exposure, it doesn't have, what the fuck, dude? 1.00

00:32:19.640 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

00:32:21.260 Okay. 1.00

00:32:22.320 Piece of shit. 1.00

00:32:24.660 Just my nose. 1.00

00:32:25.980 I'm going to swap, I'm going to swap back to the other one.

00:32:29.560 Yo, bravo, Django.

00:32:30.380 Thank you for the super chat, man.

00:32:31.300 I'll look into that.

00:32:33.540 Scariest to hell town has a green background. 1.00

00:32:36.620 Okay.

00:32:37.240 I'll take a look at it, man.

00:32:38.100 Thank you.

00:32:38.400 Appreciate the super chat.

00:32:39.600 All right, guys.

00:32:40.920 So, we'll, we have a backlog of the chat, so we'll just get through all of those in the

00:32:45.060 order they came, came through.

00:32:49.520 So, Divorce Survivor says, question for the ladies on the panel. 1.00

00:32:53.760 When a woman stands, here, I'll just pull it up. 1.00

00:32:55.980 You can hide that.

00:32:57.600 Hide that, please.

00:33:00.740 At the altar on her wedding day and says, till death do us part, what does that actually

00:33:04.040 mean?

00:33:04.660 Please inline your future husbands. 1.00

00:33:07.280 Can you scoot into the table a little bit?

00:33:08.680 What, what does that mean?

00:33:10.500 Anybody?

00:33:11.040 Any takers on this?

00:33:12.880 I'm, I'm a little confused as to why that is a question.

00:33:18.060 It's exactly what it means, till death do you part.

00:33:20.920 You, when you get into marriage, you're marrying to be with this person forever.

00:33:24.700 You're making a commitment.

00:33:26.280 Now, obviously, beliefs and religion come into play.

00:33:29.220 When I married my husband, it was before God.

00:33:31.620 There's only certain reasons that if our marriage is not going to last, that it was going to be

00:33:36.800 those reasons, but other than that, you, it's through thick and thin, or if one of us passes

00:33:41.380 first.

00:33:42.440 I think the point perhaps he's trying to make is, I think it's a, is it a hypothetical?

00:33:49.320 Wait, no.

00:33:49.720 What's a, what's a question that is not intended to be answered?

00:33:53.260 Rhetorical.

00:33:53.740 Rhetorical.

00:33:54.260 Thank you, Ava.

00:33:55.760 You're welcome.

00:33:56.360 Appreciate it.

00:33:58.220 I believe it's a rhetorical question.

00:34:00.320 And he's trying to point out that a lot of people, they get married, they'll say, till

00:34:05.920 death do us part, one year, two year, three years later, no fault divorce, later.

00:34:18.900 And I think he's directing it at the women because divorce is initiated typically, I think

00:34:23.980 the stats, 80% of the divorces.

00:34:26.240 Well, it's definitely a lack of commitment.

00:34:27.920 Yeah.

00:34:28.340 It's, it's, it's not working out.

00:34:32.120 We don't get along and I'm going to go find someone better who gets along better with me

00:34:36.760 or.

00:34:38.040 Yeah.

00:34:39.020 Sure.

00:34:40.060 And then while I go get the camera set up, I want you guys to discuss this one.

00:34:44.180 She insisted going to pool party at stranger's house without me, uh, after dumping, you know,

00:34:49.480 they, he dumped her.

00:34:52.140 So pool party, he didn't want her to go.

00:34:54.440 Uh, she insisted on going, wore a bikini, went to the pool party, boyfriend didn't want

00:35:00.940 it.

00:35:01.120 They were living together.

00:35:02.740 Uh, do you think one, is it wrong that he didn't want her to go, didn't want her to

00:35:09.260 dress this way?

00:35:10.020 And then two breakup justified unjustified discuss.

00:35:15.360 So I think it depends.

00:35:16.600 Like, did he, did he know who's going to be at this party?

00:35:21.160 Like if it was just going to be girlfriends, okay.

00:35:23.480 I don't think he'd have an issue with that, but if he knew there was going to be girls,

00:35:26.780 guys, there's going to be alcohol involved, there's going to be other things involved,

00:35:30.240 then maybe that's when he said, Hey, no, this is where I draw the boundary.

00:35:35.040 Well, but it comes down to trust.

00:35:36.540 Well, he also said he found out that she cheated on him. 1.00

00:35:39.280 So she sounds like a whore. 1.00

00:35:40.640 Oh, I wonder what the tip of the iceberg was. 1.00

00:35:45.640 Was it her not listening to you?

00:35:47.740 Her actually going to the party, wearing the bikini?

00:35:50.560 What was it?

00:35:51.920 Usually it was the cheating.

00:35:53.200 That's a good point.

00:35:53.700 When he found out she was cheating.

00:35:54.800 Probably the cheating.

00:35:55.280 Like afterwards.

00:35:55.800 But from his first message that he sent in, it was like, she wore a bikini.

00:36:01.960 Right.

00:36:02.220 The issue isn't the bikini.

00:36:03.860 It's the, it's whatever was going on underlying it.

00:36:06.660 That's like symptomatic.

00:36:07.560 Did he say how he found out?

00:36:09.360 He went through her stuff.

00:36:11.100 Yeah.

00:36:11.240 Her Google searches and stuff or whatever.

00:36:12.840 And I mean, honestly, she doesn't need his permission to go, especially if there's trust

00:36:17.640 there in a relationship.

00:36:18.440 She doesn't have to get his permission.

00:36:20.880 But also I, oh, sorry.

00:36:22.700 I think it was more that she was like insisting that he didn't go with her.

00:36:26.380 Yeah.

00:36:26.660 That's what I think is messed up.

00:36:28.480 I think.

00:36:28.700 Oh wait, she told him not to go with him.

00:36:30.120 Yeah.

00:36:30.260 She was like, oh no, I don't want you to come.

00:36:32.680 That's shady.

00:36:33.400 Okay.

00:36:33.600 I think if he was going to go with her and he was comfortable with her wearing the bikini

00:36:37.820 and everything, that would have been all fine.

00:36:40.300 But it seems like there was more behind why he was already suspicious of her going without

00:36:44.620 him wearing the bikini and then his worries came true when he found out that she was actually

00:36:50.600 cheating on him.

00:36:51.660 She had to have given him reasons to feel shaky about the trust and the relationship

00:36:56.960 before the whole party thing happened. 0.99

00:36:58.660 Quite honestly, that was just really stupid on her part to say, I don't want you to go 0.99

00:37:01.700 and then keep pushing it, pushing it and go. 0.99

00:37:03.580 It's like, how is that going to turn out good in any way?

00:37:06.440 I feel like if you're letting somebody live in your home for two and a half years and you

00:37:11.660 don't trust them to wear a bikini, then that's kind of on you.

00:37:14.900 Why are you allowing that woman to like basically mooch off you and all your money and like 1.00

00:37:20.900 your home, like as much as fucked up as it is that she did that, he also chose that woman. 0.99

00:37:26.880 Well, when she moved into the state, when she moved in, it was, they were in a relationship 0.99

00:37:30.080 or was it, yeah, see, there's so much we don't know.

00:37:32.920 Was there behavior that she was, you know, showing before she actually, before you found

00:37:40.620 out she was cheating? 1.00

00:37:41.860 Definitely.

00:37:42.120 Or was that like the first time?

00:37:43.600 I bet there was.

00:37:44.160 Because if there was trust there, but yet he just didn't want her to go to the party,

00:37:47.500 well, now he looks controlling.

00:37:49.040 Yeah.

00:37:49.460 Because she should be able to go to a party with her friends, no big deal.

00:37:52.220 Maybe in a one piece though.

00:37:53.900 Well, I feel like if she's going to wear a one piece, if she's going to cheat on him, 0.90

00:37:57.700 wearing a one piece isn't going to like.

00:37:59.380 It's not going to change.

00:38:00.060 The choice of the bikini is on the woman, on what kind of suit she wears.

00:38:06.620 That's her choice.

00:38:08.100 He probably means like, are you dressing to impress other guys?

00:38:15.820 Because that makes me feel uncomfortable.

00:38:17.920 You know, that's like a more mature way, I feel like of saying, oh, you're wearing a

00:38:21.020 bikini, dah, dah, dah.

00:38:21.740 It's not about that.

00:38:22.680 But that's a valid concern.

00:38:24.400 Like, are you dressing for the attention of other men when you're living in my home?

00:38:27.620 I feel like that's valid.

00:38:28.360 But how does he answer that?

00:38:32.860 Today I'm going to wear an outfit that is going to impress other men, so sorry.

00:38:36.880 I mean, how do you...

00:38:37.840 Of course.

00:38:37.980 She's not going to get into that.

00:38:38.880 A woman who dresses nice doesn't necessarily mean she's doing it for other men. 0.99

00:38:44.420 True.

00:38:45.580 Can't really get that answer.

00:38:47.040 But she kind of seems like she might have been, though.

00:38:48.700 Yeah.

00:38:49.300 I mean, a hot girl is going to look hot with her without a bikini. 1.00

00:38:52.120 That's true.

00:38:52.660 Period.

00:38:52.880 That's true.

00:38:53.260 Then she should wear a burkini. 1.00

00:38:54.440 She could wear a burkini and she'd be a doll. 1.00

00:38:55.740 Exactly.

00:38:55.840 All right.

00:38:59.000 Cool.

00:38:59.780 I'm sure you guys had a riveting conversation while it's gone.

00:39:04.300 All right.

00:39:04.860 We have Sons of Liberty.

00:39:08.060 If forced to choose, would you rather have democracy or access to abortions, starting with Pearl? 0.98

00:39:15.540 Go ahead.

00:39:16.000 I am pro-choice.

00:39:20.040 But if I had to choose between those two things, I mean, is the other option like, what, an oligarchy or like a queen or something?

00:39:30.120 Totalitarian, authoritarian.

00:39:31.460 Yeah.

00:39:31.780 But it could be left authoritarian.

00:39:33.100 So basically everything you want, you get.

00:39:35.500 No, I feel like democracy is good.

00:39:37.340 I feel like the push and pull between the left and the right is good.

00:39:40.740 Extremist left and extremist right, I think, are not.

00:39:44.400 I think they're both unhealthy and toxic.

00:39:45.960 So wait, question.

00:39:46.640 Let's say that all the political beliefs you hold, whether some are center, left, right, whatever, you could have all those things, but it wouldn't be a democracy.

00:40:00.200 Although technically, I guess we're not a democracy.

00:40:03.300 We're a republic.

00:40:04.580 What is it?

00:40:04.960 The republic?

00:40:07.180 Representative.

00:40:07.800 Wait.

00:40:08.200 What is it?

00:40:09.920 Something republic.

00:40:12.480 Chat, help me out.

00:40:15.840 What is it, chat?

00:40:16.940 Help me, bro.

00:40:18.220 What is it?

00:40:24.280 Constitutional republic.

00:40:25.640 Democrat.

00:40:27.740 Representative republic. 0.99

00:40:28.620 Damn, y'all, there's like three different answers in the chat. 0.99

00:40:32.580 Banana republic, that's Latin America. 0.99

00:40:37.240 Just kidding.

00:40:39.660 So would you take it?

00:40:43.740 I wouldn't because, I mean, as much as I think that I am, like, right or whatever, like, I'm allowed to have my own opinion, but I don't, my opinions change.

00:40:52.320 Like, I evolve as a human.

00:40:53.580 I learn more things from both sides or whatever, and I'm like, oh.

00:40:56.600 So I think having, like, I think having different voices allows us to see the truth, which is typically in the middle.

00:41:04.820 So, no, I wouldn't be like, I don't think that my opinion is better than all of the other opinions that exist.

00:41:10.840 So, definitely, I'm pro-choice, and I would still pick democracy.

00:41:16.040 Okay.

00:41:16.340 Cool.

00:41:19.660 Your answer to the question?

00:41:22.380 I'm pro-life, and I lean right.

00:41:25.960 So, what would I rather have?

00:41:27.640 I guess democracy, I suppose.

00:41:29.760 Democracy, please.

00:41:31.460 Democracy and pro-life. 0.64

00:41:33.880 Democracy and pro-life. 0.64

00:41:35.420 Democracy and pro-life. 0.64

00:41:36.760 Democracy, but isn't that just, like, a given for the abortion part? 0.99

00:41:42.020 Like, if we live in a democracy, we'd probably have access to abortion. 0.99

00:41:47.980 That's what I was going to say.

00:41:49.620 I didn't really understand the question, to be honest.

00:41:51.460 I think it's trying to say, you can, with certainty, you can secure the access to abortions,

00:41:58.660 but the government structure would be, like, authoritarian, totalitarian.

00:42:06.080 Democracy.

00:42:08.720 Democracy.

00:42:10.140 Okay.

00:42:11.420 Word.

00:42:12.560 All right, we have Killa of cereal.

00:42:14.200 What would you choose?

00:42:15.260 What would I choose?

00:42:16.120 Democracy.

00:42:18.440 What ethnicity have you dated that you're not... 0.63

00:42:21.100 This one's a little...

00:42:22.500 A little spicy.

00:42:24.600 It's getting dangerous.

00:42:25.520 A little spicy.

00:42:26.000 Let me think if that's...

00:42:27.000 If anybody wants to answer it, you can.

00:42:38.600 Otherwise...

00:42:39.160 There's no kind way, or, like, safe way to answer this, to be honest,

00:42:43.520 because then people are going to want to know, why?

00:42:46.580 And then those people are being outed.

00:42:49.340 I just, yeah. 0.99

00:42:50.280 Would you kill a cereal?

00:42:51.660 I'm going to take an audible here and change your question. 0.99

00:42:54.480 Would you date an alien?

00:42:57.000 You're legit asking that question?

00:42:59.320 That could be an ethnicity.

00:43:02.260 Would you date an alien?

00:43:03.520 Like, a hot alien?

00:43:06.720 Yeah.

00:43:09.840 Okay, what about you?

00:43:11.420 Hell yeah.

00:43:12.120 No shame.

00:43:12.800 What about you?

00:43:13.820 No.

00:43:14.400 No?

00:43:15.120 Are they an illegal alien? 0.52

00:43:17.960 Ooh.

00:43:19.320 Normal alien.

00:43:20.280 Technically.

00:43:20.680 From space.

00:43:23.840 Extraterrestrial alien, not illegal immigrant.

00:43:26.020 C&T phone home alien.

00:43:28.380 I would have to get to know them.

00:43:31.700 That's fair.

00:43:32.180 What are your hobbies?

00:43:32.640 That's valid.

00:43:33.580 What about you?

00:43:34.140 No.

00:43:34.720 No?

00:43:35.120 No.

00:43:35.940 No?

00:43:36.240 No.

00:43:36.920 Even the hot alien.

00:43:38.200 No.

00:43:38.660 No.

00:43:39.360 How are you supposed to, like, mate with them?

00:43:41.480 And if they could, mate, what would that child come out to look like?

00:43:46.220 But you already got two kids, right?

00:43:47.240 It's like a little mangle.

00:43:48.260 What if it's just like six legs?

00:43:49.980 What if it's just a stepdad alien? 0.59

00:43:53.200 I mean, I want to adopt, but I want more children of my own.

00:43:56.100 You want more kids? 0.99

00:43:56.340 There's no way.

00:43:57.000 There's no way.

00:43:57.620 I'm not dating an alien. 0.90

00:43:58.380 Maybe the aliens could, we could potentially reproduce with them. 0.98

00:44:05.600 Hell yeah.

00:44:06.980 I mean, you might end up dating one and not know it.

00:44:09.020 They're one.

00:44:09.920 True.

00:44:10.420 Wait, do you think aliens are real?

00:44:13.200 Probably.

00:44:14.940 Do any of you?

00:44:16.260 Yeah, definitely.

00:44:17.160 I don't think we've had contact, but I think they're out there somewhere.

00:44:22.160 Really?

00:44:22.440 I agree.

00:44:23.300 Yeah.

00:44:23.600 There's like billions and billions of star systems and galaxies and planets.

00:44:30.940 Ryan, we agree on something.

00:44:32.440 That's crazy.

00:44:32.920 That's crazy.

00:44:33.460 That's insane.

00:44:34.480 What's that?

00:44:34.980 You said you don't think that we've had contact, though?

00:44:37.040 I don't think we've had contact, but I think they're out there.

00:44:42.040 I don't know if we'll ever.

00:44:43.380 There's so much space that we haven't seen and ocean that we haven't seen.

00:44:48.400 Wait, is it the Fermi Paradox?

00:44:50.540 Is that what it's called?

00:44:51.260 Some people think that they're, like, in the ocean.

00:44:55.960 Nick, can you Google Fermi Paradox?

00:44:58.160 You think it's aliens or just, like, like, it's these?

00:44:59.700 This is a dating podcast.

00:45:00.960 Never mind.

00:45:02.760 Extraterrestrial life.

00:45:05.320 How many galaxies chat?

00:45:07.080 Chat.

00:45:08.160 Killer of serial donated $200.

00:45:11.460 America. 1.00

00:45:12.400 Fuck yeah. 1.00

00:45:13.580 Democracy is the motherfucking way, yeah. 1.00

00:45:16.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:45:16.280 Would you date an alien if it had a Phase 5 Planet Buster plasma rifle next to its bed when it'd been due home from Gorlock 9?

00:45:23.900 Gorlock 9.

00:45:24.720 I like that.

00:45:25.560 Well done.

00:45:26.540 Oh, Killer of Serial.

00:45:27.260 I need to get you set up with, like, a custom DTS thing, like Grid and our boy Paladins.

00:45:33.800 Thank you, man.

00:45:34.420 And I'll just ask, so I'm going to also do an Audible, and I'll just bring it back to Earth on that one, and we'll do the firearm question.

00:45:44.420 But going around the table, Madsen did an alien?

00:45:47.900 No.

00:45:48.680 Okay, hold on.

00:45:49.260 Actually, I think I maybe would.

00:45:50.740 If it could do everything a human could do, and it looked like a human, I probably wouldn't notice.

00:45:58.280 You've had feelings.

00:45:59.540 An avatar.

00:46:00.920 No.

00:46:01.660 No?

00:46:02.400 Like, does that change? 1.00

00:46:03.280 If it was an avatar, would y'all fuck an avatar? 0.99

00:46:06.520 If he's, like, not blue, maybe. 1.00

00:46:08.600 He's blue.

00:46:09.140 There's people that are actually, like, romantically interested in. 1.00

00:46:10.860 And you use, like, your hair or whatever to fuck. 1.00

00:46:13.780 Like, not penises and vaginas. 1.00

00:46:16.260 That can be. 1.00

00:46:16.760 Do they not?

00:46:17.380 I don't think they have genitals, the avatars.

00:46:19.860 They may, but they're, like, they collect their little hairs on their tails.

00:46:23.840 Yeah, they collect the hair. 0.97

00:46:25.380 Or, no, it's the tails.

00:46:26.160 Sorry, not the hair.

00:46:27.260 The tails.

00:46:27.920 No, no, no.

00:46:28.260 The tail does have, like, little fibers that they can join.

00:46:31.020 Genital fibers.

00:46:32.200 You know so much.

00:46:34.040 That's great.

00:46:34.600 It's avatar.

00:46:35.560 You've researched this a bit too much.

00:46:37.020 No, I watched the movie.

00:46:37.540 That's what she does in her free time.

00:46:39.760 Wait, so, Madison, you're dating Frankie.

00:46:42.200 If you found out Frankie was an alien, would you dump him?

00:46:45.080 No.

00:46:47.020 That's why I said yes to an alien.

00:46:49.420 If your boyfriend, you found out your boyfriend was an alien, would you dump him? 0.95

00:46:52.900 No.

00:46:53.460 Would you date an alien?

00:46:54.960 If he was an alien.

00:46:56.660 If you were single?

00:46:58.520 Theoretically, yes.

00:47:00.220 Theoretically?

00:47:01.340 In theory?

00:47:02.160 In theory.

00:47:02.720 What about in practice?

00:47:04.980 Sure.

00:47:06.160 Okay.

00:47:06.820 What if it's, like, a lizard person?

00:47:08.600 No.

00:47:09.080 Okay.

00:47:10.120 Mark Zuckerberg?

00:47:10.800 Shape shifter.

00:47:11.820 Okay.

00:47:12.500 Yeah, but lizard's got long time.

00:47:13.540 Robert Tanner, government, Brian, government clarification for the panel.

00:47:16.520 Pure democracy existed in Athens, Greece.

00:47:18.760 The United States is a federal constitution republic.

00:47:22.360 The idea that we exist as democracy fails to understand our electoral college system.

00:47:28.040 Also, great talks tonight.

00:47:29.340 Yo, Tanner, thank you very much for the super chat, man.

00:47:32.760 Really appreciate it.

00:47:33.440 Good to see you in the chat.

00:47:34.820 Thank you for the clarification there.

00:47:36.620 Appreciate it.

00:47:38.060 So, we were talking about aliens.

00:47:42.560 Would you?

00:47:42.820 Was there something else on the aliens thing?

00:47:44.980 Would I what?

00:47:45.700 Would you?

00:47:46.800 Date an alien?

00:47:47.600 I think you would, actually.

00:47:48.700 Or an avatar?

00:47:49.720 I think men would be more likely to do that than men. 0.56

00:47:52.160 I'd have carnal knowledge.

00:47:53.580 Honestly. 0.62

00:47:53.680 Because there'd be a lot more hot alien women than men. 1.00

00:47:57.120 That's so weird.

00:47:58.100 I can see that.

00:48:00.560 I can see men doing that for sure.

00:48:01.520 Once, honestly, I think women are going to, if aliens come and they start dating us and 1.00

00:48:09.080 shit, who do you think is going to fare worse, men or women? 1.00

00:48:13.500 I feel like men are going to be more adaptable to, like, fucking alien bitches. 1.00

00:48:19.220 Yeah, they're desperate. 1.00

00:48:19.780 Yeah.

00:48:20.420 For sure.

00:48:21.240 Yeah.

00:48:22.340 I think, yeah.

00:48:22.860 Men aren't as picky.

00:48:23.540 They're like, you know what?

00:48:24.500 I tried with humans.

00:48:25.520 Didn't work.

00:48:26.380 Yeah.

00:48:26.720 Let's try aliens. 0.63

00:48:28.360 Although, I feel like the alien women might be, like, kind of dong. 1.00

00:48:31.520 Like, domi mommies. 1.00

00:48:33.600 Because they're, like, we're superior to you and shit. 1.00

00:48:36.840 So, like, they're going to be, like, a little dominant. 0.99

00:48:39.140 Not at the beginning, though, when they're trying to learn our ways.

00:48:41.200 Maybe they can be, like, molded and programmed to, like, what that guy likes. 0.97

00:48:43.200 With all the plastics and shit in the water, like, I feel like a bunch of men are going 0.98

00:48:46.460 to be, by, like, in a hundred years, all the men are going to be, like, soy. 0.99

00:48:50.260 Yeah.

00:48:50.460 Super soy.

00:48:51.360 But we're seeing it happen with AI.

00:48:52.940 So, I'm pretty sure, like, all the guys are going to welcome, like, the domi mommy alien 1.00

00:48:56.280 pussy. 1.00

00:48:57.360 They would love it. 1.00

00:48:59.520 I think it's coming.

00:49:00.860 There's already a lot of movies about that.

00:49:02.140 Some men would just take it. 0.95

00:49:04.580 Take?

00:49:06.000 I mean, like.

00:49:06.900 They're going to essay?

00:49:08.840 They're going to essay the aliens?

00:49:10.260 The aliens aren't going to come and they're going to take it.

00:49:12.580 They'll be, like, well, you know, like, well, they'll accept it.

00:49:15.000 Like, yeah, I'll date an alien.

00:49:16.800 Like, you know, a little bit easier than a woman would. 1.00

00:49:19.900 Yeah, it's crazy out there.

00:49:22.120 They should do an alien dating app. 1.00

00:49:23.840 I don't know what they're going to call that shit, though. 1.00

00:49:30.800 Alien dating app. 1.00

00:49:31.980 ADA.

00:49:34.400 Alien dating AD.

00:49:36.060 I don't know.

00:49:36.540 Anyways, let's see the other chats here.

00:49:39.240 Oh, really quick.

00:49:42.920 Let's see.

00:49:43.520 We had Kilo Cereal.

00:49:45.860 Most embarrassing date or carnal knowledge story.

00:49:52.580 Going around the table, starting with Pearl.

00:49:54.780 I don't have anything exciting for this answer, to be honest.

00:50:02.160 I've had mostly regular dates.

00:50:05.360 Okay.

00:50:06.060 Sure.

00:50:06.720 What you got?

00:50:07.520 I think I told this story on one of the podcasts.

00:50:11.860 It's really not too extensive or that interesting.

00:50:14.260 But I dated a guy that I knew from, like, middle school.

00:50:20.320 And he took me out on a date.

00:50:21.320 And his car, like, broke down.

00:50:22.900 And he was, like, super stoned.

00:50:25.440 And he was, like, really smelly.

00:50:29.140 Like, he had BO.

00:50:30.080 I don't know if I told this story or not.

00:50:32.020 But it was horrible.

00:50:33.520 And I was just really trying to, like, rush the date and, like, get home.

00:50:36.920 And it was bad.

00:50:38.800 Okay.

00:50:40.320 I was on a date with a guy.

00:50:41.920 And he pooped in his pants.

00:50:45.360 I don't know what you're talking about.

00:50:46.820 What?

00:50:47.540 He was...

00:50:48.300 I'm going to tell you.

00:50:50.420 That's what I'm talking about!

00:50:51.620 That's why he's doing everything!

00:50:53.820 That's why he's the GOAT!

00:50:55.760 The GOAT! 0.82

00:50:57.960 What a legend.

00:50:59.120 He said that he went to a sushi restaurant that was, like, on the cheaper side.

00:51:03.880 And he told me that it ended up being food poisoning.

00:51:06.900 And he just couldn't hold it.

00:51:08.120 So he had to excuse himself and go home and had to tell me that he pooped his pants.

00:51:12.600 Where were you guys?

00:51:13.580 We were at a restaurant.

00:51:14.820 For dinner.

00:51:15.900 He pooped his pants, like, on the way?

00:51:17.560 No, we were sitting there.

00:51:19.620 And it all of a sudden hit him.

00:51:21.640 And he just pooped his pants.

00:51:23.020 Nice.

00:51:23.200 Did you hear it?

00:51:24.600 No, I had no idea.

00:51:25.700 He had to tell me that's why he had to leave.

00:51:27.220 You didn't smell it?

00:51:27.960 I would have just not told the chick.

00:51:30.420 I mean, if she didn't know, just not tell her.

00:51:33.120 I don't know.

00:51:33.640 Was there a second date?

00:51:34.880 Did you sit through the date?

00:51:36.240 No, I would have left.

00:51:37.200 Sit through the date.

00:51:38.460 I would have left.

00:51:39.300 But, like, he could have just...

00:51:41.060 He could have just...

00:51:42.220 Oh, my stomach hurts.

00:51:43.960 You can't, like, tell a girl... 0.97

00:51:45.680 Well, he did. 0.99

00:51:46.380 You shat your pants.

00:51:47.980 Was there a second date? 0.97

00:51:49.300 No.

00:51:50.120 Because of the poop?

00:51:51.520 He could have just gone to the restroom and threw his underwear away.

00:51:53.940 That's true.

00:51:54.680 No, but...

00:51:55.240 He actually also had a really bad personality, so that's why.

00:51:57.680 Sorry.

00:51:58.100 That's okay. 0.92

00:51:59.800 He's like, I've shat. 0.79

00:52:00.420 I was going to forgive the pooping his pants, but the personality wasn't good. 0.57

00:52:06.900 That, yeah.

00:52:08.120 Okay.

00:52:08.780 All right.

00:52:09.160 What about you?

00:52:10.360 I was kind of catfished.

00:52:11.800 I met a guy on a dating app, and what he was in person was not what his picture looked

00:52:17.440 like on the profile.

00:52:18.000 Was he an alien?

00:52:18.960 No.

00:52:19.640 Well, you know, he could have been, but I didn't give him the time of day.

00:52:22.000 So, how did his picture look, and how did he look?

00:52:26.040 So, I mean, nationality-wise, it was, but in person, his shirt was, like, stained.

00:52:32.780 He was heavy.

00:52:34.020 He didn't look like he had bathed.

00:52:36.780 He had, like, crumbs on his shirt. 0.96

00:52:38.880 Just disgusting.

00:52:40.720 And we met, we drove separately to the mall, and then he wanted me to pull out cash, like,

00:52:47.480 we were going to pay separate, even though he asked me out.

00:52:49.900 And I found every excuse to just quit.

00:52:53.480 I didn't even have it.

00:52:54.280 I'm like, I gotta go.

00:52:55.920 Okay.

00:52:56.400 So.

00:52:57.400 Liz?

00:52:57.700 I don't have one.

00:53:00.400 All my experiences have been pretty good.

00:53:01.720 What about you?

00:53:01.980 To be honest, I don't, I can't, I've been thinking, I can't remember.

00:53:05.020 I don't either.

00:53:06.480 Ava?

00:53:08.360 I've already, I've already given a few to this question.

00:53:11.000 I'll just, I, nothing new is coming to mind.

00:53:13.180 I'll just repeat that.

00:53:13.920 I was hooking up with this chick, and she had, but I stopped the hookup, because she had a tattoo. 1.00

00:53:24.880 And this tattoo, the location of the tattoo and the tattoo itself were objectionable. 0.99

00:53:29.420 Tattoo was located above her pussy, and it said YOLO. 1.00

00:53:39.740 There's few things that will deter a man from having sexual intercourse with a woman. 1.00

00:53:44.320 A YOLO tattoo above the pussy is one of them. 1.00

00:53:49.520 So did not have sex with her. 1.00

00:53:51.640 Could have. 0.93

00:53:52.440 Didn't.

00:53:54.700 You know what I mean.

00:53:57.240 Why, why, why the face? 1.00

00:53:58.820 Do you have a YOLO tattoo above the pussy? 1.00

00:54:01.200 Is that what's going on? 1.00

00:54:02.980 No, but I wouldn't tell you if I did.

00:54:06.080 But you're shaking your head, you're shaking your head in disapproval.

00:54:09.440 No, actually, I'm with you. 0.50

00:54:11.220 I'm feeling the emotion with you, like, oh, that's gross.

00:54:15.480 Yeah.

00:54:16.780 But I guess it could be worse.

00:54:19.240 Is there any tattoo a guy could have that you see, and then you're like, ah, second thoughts.

00:54:26.600 Maybe a swastika. 0.90

00:54:27.480 Maybe, like, something like that would be one. 0.98

00:54:29.180 Maybe, like, something above his butt, and it's a, like, aim here or something. 0.96

00:54:32.580 Yeah. 1.00

00:54:33.400 Or, like, the picture of, like, a penis somewhere on their body. 1.00

00:54:36.840 Like, a tattoo of a penis, like, near their butt or something. 1.00

00:54:42.200 Okay. 1.00

00:54:42.860 Yeah.

00:54:44.100 Aim here.

00:54:44.740 All right.

00:54:45.200 Yeah.

00:54:45.380 Anything?

00:54:49.840 Anything?

00:54:50.600 Or the teardrop.

00:54:52.280 Teardrop?

00:54:52.840 Oh, my gosh.

00:54:53.960 The cholo? 0.99

00:54:54.740 Uh-uh.

00:54:55.160 For me, it would probably be anything that's, like, demonic.

00:54:57.780 So, like, if they had, like, 666 on them or something.

00:55:00.020 What about a snake tattoo?

00:55:01.040 That's a no-no.

00:55:03.760 It depends on what it looks like.

00:55:04.920 That's kind of a little demonic.

00:55:05.580 It depends on what the snake looks like.

00:55:07.480 It just depends on what it looks like.

00:55:08.300 Do you have a snake tattoo?

00:55:09.420 No.

00:55:09.900 Okay.

00:55:10.220 I have tattoos, just nothing demonic.

00:55:11.720 Oh, let's do a tattoo check.

00:55:13.580 Who's got tats that they want to show?

00:55:15.560 What do we got?

00:55:16.840 Pearl?

00:55:17.660 Definitely not a snake eating an apple.

00:55:20.380 What you got?

00:55:20.920 You got the sternum?

00:55:22.120 No.

00:55:22.840 I have a yin-yang.

00:55:24.500 Oh, that's so cute.

00:55:25.020 I have mushrooms.

00:55:26.020 Uh-oh.

00:55:26.940 I have a me.

00:55:28.480 I have a heart with a me.

00:55:30.080 Wait, you have a heart with a me?

00:55:31.340 I have a heart, and it says me inside of it.

00:55:34.000 So, the mushroom one and the heart with a me.

00:55:36.300 Uh-huh.

00:55:36.840 And a yin-yang. 0.93

00:55:37.560 And I have some Latin text.

00:55:39.380 Latin? 0.85

00:55:40.060 Latin, yeah.

00:55:41.040 From Augustine's Confessions.

00:55:44.460 What's that?

00:55:45.220 He's a theologian.

00:55:48.580 Word?

00:55:49.280 Yeah.

00:55:49.640 That's beautiful.

00:55:49.960 Those are my tats.

00:55:50.800 Okay.

00:55:51.760 The mushroom one's a little red flaggy, eh?

00:55:54.460 Is it?

00:55:55.020 What does it mean?

00:55:55.620 Mushrooms are incredible.

00:55:56.780 Have you guys seen Fantastic Fungi?

00:55:58.440 They're like an incredible web of neurons, and basically the reason we can exist is because

00:56:05.840 of mushrooms.

00:56:06.940 You should watch Fantastic Fungi.

00:56:08.600 Wait, hold on.

00:56:09.360 Really beautiful.

00:56:10.120 What?

00:56:10.900 You're saying we exist because of mushrooms?

00:56:12.960 Well, our world continues.

00:56:15.380 It's a really integral part of our ecosystem.

00:56:18.060 Because fungi are what eat what's decaying. 0.99

00:56:21.040 So, if we didn't have fungi, our world would just be full of decaying shit. 0.99

00:56:24.160 Is that a, but isn't that like a psilocybin mushroom? 0.99

00:56:30.280 Is this a psilocybin mushroom?

00:56:31.640 Yeah, isn't that?

00:56:32.560 No.

00:56:32.840 Like, what is it? 0.99

00:56:33.220 A fucking portobello? 1.00

00:56:34.180 What you got? 1.00

00:56:34.920 It's just a, it's cute.

00:56:36.660 It's a mushroom.

00:56:36.840 But it's like a psychedelic mushroom.

00:56:38.820 No.

00:56:39.660 Oh, you just have a, you have like just an edible non-psychedelic mushroom on you?

00:56:44.600 Yeah.

00:56:45.120 It has nothing to do with psychedelics?

00:56:46.460 I mean, I like psychedelic mushrooms as well.

00:56:48.460 Okay, there you go.

00:56:49.340 But it's not, that's not just what it represents.

00:56:52.060 It's everything.

00:56:52.940 I love all mushrooms, including the psychedelic ones.

00:56:58.580 Word.

00:57:00.640 Word.

00:57:03.600 When's the last time you did?

00:57:05.560 Psychedelic mushrooms?

00:57:06.420 Yeah.

00:57:08.260 I don't know, a couple months ago?

00:57:09.780 She's like last night.

00:57:11.020 She's like, I'm on it right now.

00:57:12.560 She's like, I'm on it right now.

00:57:14.300 I wish I was right now.

00:57:15.500 You're all aliens. 0.97

00:57:16.260 What you got, Jordan?

00:57:19.700 What you got for us?

00:57:20.380 I've got some Russian lettering.

00:57:22.340 Bible scripture.

00:57:23.420 Walk by faith, not by sight.

00:57:24.940 Okay.

00:57:25.360 I've got some roses.

00:57:26.820 Cool.

00:57:27.140 I've got a cute little dainty dove behind my ear.

00:57:29.440 Word.

00:57:30.020 And I've got.

00:57:31.120 Your back.

00:57:31.820 Oh yeah, I've got my back.

00:57:33.680 Can you, can you turn?

00:57:35.500 Yeah.

00:57:36.060 Yeah.

00:57:36.220 Thank you.

00:57:40.200 Oh, all right.

00:57:41.720 There you go.

00:57:42.360 That was down my spine.

00:57:43.700 And then, that's it.

00:57:44.740 A couple little dainty finger stuff.

00:57:47.380 Hand ones?

00:57:47.860 That little angel, my index.

00:57:49.080 Sternum?

00:57:50.460 Nope.

00:57:50.780 No sternum?

00:57:51.360 Okay.

00:57:51.700 Nope.

00:57:51.860 All right.

00:57:52.360 What about you, tats?

00:57:53.260 I have no tattoos and I'm never going to have any.

00:57:56.220 What about you?

00:57:56.720 What you got?

00:57:57.280 The story has changed.

00:57:58.680 I have a lot.

00:57:59.500 Okay.

00:58:02.180 I don't know where to begin.

00:58:03.360 I have a little sis. 0.90

00:58:04.120 My sister has one that says big sis. 0.81

00:58:06.120 I got this July 6th.

00:58:07.840 That is, I can only imagine it's the actual lyrics to the song.

00:58:12.380 I have the roses.

00:58:13.880 I have, for a memorial to all the animals that I've lost.

00:58:20.960 And this is scripture stating that for all the people that I've lost in my life, that

00:58:25.120 one day when we go be with Jesus, we won't have any more suffering.

00:58:28.260 Okay.

00:58:29.120 My calf, my full left calf is a day of the dead girl.

00:58:32.260 My right ankle, I have hearts around it.

00:58:36.560 And my back, I have a gothic heart and then the notorious tramp stamp.

00:58:40.980 So you have a, you have a tramp stamp.

00:58:42.680 I do, but I got it when I was 30 years old and married.

00:58:45.580 It doesn't say YOLO though, right?

00:58:47.280 No, it does not.

00:58:48.920 I feel maybe the panel in the chat, those of you watching, is it the case that the sternum

00:58:57.480 tattoo, this one, I think this is the new tramp stamp.

00:59:02.280 Mm-hmm.

00:59:03.000 It's the tramp stamp of, anybody here have a, I feel attacked.

00:59:06.900 You, you got it.

00:59:07.740 I feel attacked.

00:59:08.740 I do think it is the tramp stamp of the, of the mid 2010s until now.

00:59:17.060 Tattoos?

00:59:18.040 Yeah, I have my whole spine.

00:59:19.860 Can we see?

00:59:20.620 Well, you can't really see because my shirt's covering on it.

00:59:23.580 Oh, okay.

00:59:24.060 That's fine.

00:59:24.320 Um, it's just like a half a Bible verse and then I have my hip, it's a rose and then just

00:59:30.800 like a dainty one behind my ear and then one on my ankle.

00:59:33.740 Hmm.

00:59:34.100 Okay.

00:59:34.520 What about you?

00:59:35.560 Um, I have, I think I have like six, seven or eight.

00:59:39.020 Um, I have, I don't like any of them, but this says euphoria.

00:59:43.420 Okay.

00:59:43.780 I have van, the word vanity, which I highly regret.

00:59:46.720 I have flowers on my back.

00:59:48.000 I have this, which I matched with the father of my children.

00:59:51.820 I have a sternum.

00:59:52.920 It's a cross.

00:59:53.900 It's like, like kind of looks like a star, but it's a cross.

00:59:57.560 Um, I can't remember if I have any more.

01:00:01.780 Okay.

01:00:03.140 Uh, the sternum tattoos across.

01:00:06.220 It is.

01:00:07.240 Okay.

01:00:07.680 And to be fair and to defend myself, I feel like because I don't have anything up here,

01:00:13.100 it's not like as provocative, but I still regret it.

01:00:16.860 I just don't want tattoos.

01:00:18.340 I just want them all gone.

01:00:20.360 I mean, to, to, uh, to be fair, to be charitable, the sternum tattoo I take the most issue with

01:00:28.980 is the like chandelier one that like every, it's like the basic chandelier.

01:00:34.900 I do agree.

01:00:35.680 You have your sternum tattoos a little different, still a sternum tattoo, but it's not like the 0.99

01:00:41.480 basic, here's a fucking chandelier rose. 1.00

01:00:44.080 I don't know what the fuck they're doing. 1.00

01:00:45.060 I don't know that that's like the red flag for me. 0.99

01:00:48.960 No offense.

01:00:50.360 Maddie, you got tattoos, Ava tattoos, any tattoos?

01:00:53.620 No.

01:00:54.080 All right.

01:00:54.920 Uh, let's get through the rest of the chats and then we'll get into the pre-show notes.

01:00:58.060 Guys, we've got some good questions.

01:00:59.860 We've got some good questions coming up here.

01:01:02.300 Let's see.

01:01:04.340 Uh, grid one motor sports.

01:01:05.860 This panel is putting me to sleep.

01:01:07.180 Uh, how important is a man's political ideals to the ladies? 1.00

01:01:10.860 Starting with Jordan, how important are the political ideas to you for your man?

01:01:19.720 Pretty important.

01:01:21.120 Do you guys agree on everything?

01:01:22.860 Pardon?

01:01:23.560 Your husband.

01:01:25.120 What about him?

01:01:25.920 You guys agree on everything?

01:01:27.340 Politically.

01:01:27.540 Pretty much, yeah.

01:01:29.680 We do.

01:01:30.640 But he's not very like, he's not really as much into politics as I am.

01:01:34.680 A lot of the politics he knows is because I've talked to him about it or told him about it.

01:01:39.260 Okay.

01:01:40.780 Um, it would only be important if he leans the same way, if he doesn't lean the same way I do.

01:01:49.540 If he doesn't care about politics at all, then I don't think it would become an issue.

01:01:53.920 So, religious is more important than political to me.

01:02:02.100 And, uh, my husband and I both are the same religion.

01:02:05.780 And because of that, our political views are the same.

01:02:08.620 So, it is extremely important.

01:02:11.200 Yeah, I'm going to have to second with her on that one.

01:02:13.640 Yeah.

01:02:14.040 I echo the last two.

01:02:16.760 It used to not be important to me, but now it is, I think, because the person I'm with,

01:02:21.940 I actually want to start a family with, so it's really important now.

01:02:25.140 Okay.

01:02:26.440 Oh.

01:02:27.460 Killer of cereal donated $200.

01:02:29.960 Would you date an alien?

01:02:30.940 America.

01:02:31.620 I'll just change it to, uh, would you date an alien?

01:02:38.540 I'll just, would you date a guy who owned a firearm?

01:02:41.420 Like, okay, first, hold on, let me change it.

01:02:43.220 Uh, you go to his house, first time at his house, and he has an AR-15 by his bedside.

01:02:50.220 Red flag, green flag.

01:02:52.680 Green.

01:02:53.400 Green.

01:02:54.080 Green.

01:02:54.780 Green.

01:02:55.420 I'm fine with that.

01:02:56.960 Green.

01:02:57.720 Green.

01:02:59.620 I like this panel.

01:03:03.420 All right.

01:03:04.320 New date.

01:03:05.060 You both hit it off.

01:03:05.840 Chemistry of the works.

01:03:06.720 He, she invites you back to their place.

01:03:08.780 You walk through the door and see a bookcase.

01:03:10.640 What book do you see that makes you turn and leave immediately?

01:03:14.320 Starting with you, go ahead.

01:03:17.500 I don't know.

01:03:19.880 Communist Manifesto?

01:03:21.640 Um, yeah, maybe.

01:03:24.540 Something along those lines.

01:03:26.840 Okay.

01:03:28.560 Is he saying that their pronouns are he, she?

01:03:31.200 What?

01:03:31.560 That was a joke.

01:03:34.060 Sorry.

01:03:34.800 Um, if he had Joe Biden's book, that's when I would leave.

01:03:38.400 Okay, yeah.

01:03:40.020 I agree what she said.

01:03:42.560 Okay.

01:03:43.880 Yeah, it would have to be if they were going in a certain direction that I don't go in,

01:03:50.580 so.

01:03:52.220 There's, like, this book.

01:03:53.480 I don't remember exactly what it's called, but it's basically, like, how to manipulate.

01:03:56.940 And I had a friend whose ex had that book, and it was, like, the worst relationship she

01:04:04.540 was, like, ever in, so I was like, oh.

01:04:08.360 I'm going to go ahead and say I don't have a book that would be a red flag, but if they

01:04:11.620 didn't have a Bible, I would leave, for sure.

01:04:15.820 I feel like any girly book, like, any book that every girl's read. 0.64

01:04:22.700 Yeah, I don't really know.

01:04:23.960 Maybe, like, a book on how to get away with murder.

01:04:27.140 Yeah, that's a pretty big red flag.

01:04:29.520 Yeah.

01:04:32.260 If she had, like, any.

01:04:34.000 It's a very good Netflix series, though.

01:04:35.640 If she had White Fragility by Rock. 1.00

01:04:41.540 What's her fucking D'Angelo, whatever the fuck. 1.00

01:04:44.280 Any, like, D.I.E. bullshit or S.J.W. nonsense. 1.00

01:04:48.480 But if they were smart, like, why would they have a hard copy of any of these insane books?

01:04:51.860 Like, wouldn't they just have the.

01:04:54.960 It's a good question.

01:04:56.200 Copy on the phone.

01:04:57.400 Good question.

01:04:58.480 Let's see.

01:04:59.260 So, okay, getting into some of the pre-show notes for the show.

01:05:02.960 Before we get to Pearl.

01:05:04.380 Actually, I'll get Jordan even on before, so I'll come back to some of your notes.

01:05:08.760 Let's see.

01:05:12.500 We have.

01:05:13.580 Hold on, guys.

01:05:14.300 Getting to my notes.

01:05:16.760 What's something juicy to jump into?

01:05:18.740 Sarah, going back to you, you said that you were dating a guy.

01:05:29.320 You have two kids with him.

01:05:30.960 Two sons, right?

01:05:32.360 Mm-hmm.

01:05:33.640 Is he in the picture?

01:05:35.320 Like, do you guys co-parent?

01:05:36.660 Yeah.

01:05:37.900 They're actually with him right now.

01:05:40.120 Oh, okay.

01:05:40.740 Yeah.

01:05:41.220 And is it split custody, 50-50?

01:05:43.200 It's split custody.

01:05:44.120 And did you guys handle this informally, or was it through the court?

01:05:49.600 It was through the court.

01:05:50.860 Who brought it to court, him or you?

01:05:52.580 I did, twice.

01:05:53.900 Why?

01:05:56.840 Reasons I'm not necessarily allowed to state publicly until the boys are older.

01:06:02.100 Okay.

01:06:02.660 Do you receive child support from him?

01:06:07.580 Yes, but I'm not necessarily paid it, if that makes sense.

01:06:11.360 There's a court order for child support, but he doesn't pay it, or?

01:06:17.380 Right.

01:06:19.520 I definitely, like, I'm actually, like, trying to create, like, amicability between us, because

01:06:27.780 I know what it does for, like, children, or what it's done, what it does.

01:06:31.700 Like, I have friends.

01:06:32.600 Even, I grew up, like, not even in a difficult home, but, like, I have so many split home,

01:06:38.360 like, friends, so I'm trying to have, like, meetings with dad or dad's parents to try to

01:06:47.320 become amicable, because we've, like, we were functioning pretty healthily up until I went

01:06:52.400 to court, so, like, that was the issue, was, like, they didn't want any, like, parameters

01:06:55.840 in place.

01:06:58.580 Okay.

01:06:58.980 Other than that, it has always been, like, amicable, just under the circumstances of me

01:07:04.960 making it a legal thing, they didn't like that, but there were points where I almost

01:07:10.140 felt, well, I definitely felt the need to.

01:07:13.060 Wait, who is they?

01:07:15.320 Because you said they.

01:07:17.340 So, I personally feel that what I'm going through in custody is not necessarily with dad, it's

01:07:23.220 with family of dad, if that makes sense, like, I don't feel like the, I don't want to call

01:07:30.560 it, like, a fight, I feel like the sharing of custody is more so with other people, not

01:07:37.480 specifically dad, which.

01:07:39.540 So, he has, like, parents, grandparents maybe helping out, that sort of thing?

01:07:42.860 Yeah, he lives with his entire family.

01:07:46.120 Okay.

01:07:47.600 Which is good, our children, like, have access to so much love and resources.

01:07:53.220 Mm-hmm.

01:07:54.240 I see.

01:07:54.960 Okay.

01:07:55.940 And was he, um, was he paying, is the custody arrangement, you said, is it 50-50?

01:08:02.820 Yes.

01:08:03.680 Okay.

01:08:04.500 Physical custody and legal custody?

01:08:08.560 Yes.

01:08:09.320 He has schooling.

01:08:11.120 I don't think I'm allowed to share it, honestly.

01:08:13.280 He has some rights, I have other rights.

01:08:15.260 And it was split because, um, it was felt that there was a lot of animosity.

01:08:22.740 So, there needed to be, which I think is healthy and I appreciate.

01:08:30.720 Wait, where, did you, did you want more custody than you currently have?

01:08:37.480 Like, did you want full custody?

01:08:42.560 Selfishly, I would love it.

01:08:45.060 But I don't know what's going on behind closed doors and I know that God sees everything that happens.

01:08:51.320 So, like, whatever, the path that we've been brought down, like, I definitely see how God has, like, orchestrated all of it.

01:08:58.420 And I just, like, have faith that if this is what it is right now, it's only because there is a healthy component to it.

01:09:07.500 But, like, prayerfully, I am always, like, consulting with God and I'm saying, like, if this is not what's best for my children, for our children, like, I would love to raise them 100% of the time.

01:09:19.700 But if dad is, like, if dad is, like, on the right path and God sees that and sees him fit, then, like, I appreciate what the circumstances are right now.

01:09:28.420 Which, according to our situation, it seems it would be so.

01:09:32.580 So, you wanted 100% custody?

01:09:38.220 Only if their dad is, like, not doing what he should.

01:09:44.960 Like, I don't want to be, like, selfish and rid my children of the experience to not have a dad.

01:09:50.680 Like, I grew up with a single mom and I didn't have access to that. 0.95

01:09:55.920 Not her fault.

01:09:57.360 But, like, if they have the opportunity to have a dad who loves and cares for them, and then if I was, like, say to remarry, then they'd have two dads.

01:10:06.980 Like, I want them to be surrounded by as much love as they can.

01:10:10.860 Are there lawyers involved?

01:10:12.880 Yeah, I have a lawyer.

01:10:15.060 Okay.

01:10:15.460 And was he not spending enough time with them before you, or, like, him and his family, not spending enough time before you went to court?

01:10:24.280 Or was he wanting more time?

01:10:27.700 There was a lot of, because his life has fluctuated so much, and his, it's just periodic.

01:10:40.340 It's just periodic, the times where, like, he would be absent and where he would be present.

01:10:45.180 So, are you at liberty to speak on what precipitated you wanting to make it a legal matter and going to court?

01:10:59.400 Because you, were you seeking specifically child support, was it?

01:11:04.000 No.

01:11:04.120 Were you seeking, so you were seeking, so what was he, before it went to court, what was the arrangement he was trying to get?

01:11:15.140 50-50 custody?

01:11:16.500 I'm not, I'm not necessarily going to share details, because I don't know what I'm allowed to share.

01:11:21.900 Mm-hmm.

01:11:22.480 Um.

01:11:23.040 There were definitely reasons why I went.

01:11:30.340 I was very hesitant to take it to court.

01:11:34.280 I prayed about it for a very, very long time.

01:11:37.200 For $200 donated, $200.

01:11:40.340 Panel, if your exes formed a club to discuss you, what would they call it, and what would be the club's main activity?

01:11:47.200 We'll come, uh, okay, we can do that really quick.

01:11:51.700 We'll come back to this, though.

01:11:53.360 Um, go ahead, Pearl.

01:11:55.920 Into the mic.

01:11:57.400 Man.

01:11:58.020 Into the mic.

01:11:58.520 Into the mic.

01:11:59.040 If my exes formed a club to discuss me, what would they call it, um, I miss Pearl, and the main thing that they would discuss is probably how I changed their life for the better.

01:12:18.920 Is that true?

01:12:22.380 Probably, yeah.

01:12:23.620 All my exes have great things to say about me.

01:12:25.540 Okay, cool.

01:12:27.860 My ex would love to have me back.

01:12:31.080 He'd probably say, he'd probably name his club Best I Ever Had.

01:12:39.040 Okay.

01:12:39.700 You were probably up to hear it.

01:12:41.220 Go ahead.

01:12:41.980 I, I've been married so long that, honestly, I really didn't have a whole lot of boyfriends.

01:12:46.480 Go ahead.

01:12:46.700 Um, probably, yeah, they don't have anything bad to say about me either, so it'd probably be, like, the one that got away.

01:12:55.260 Okay, go ahead. 0.87

01:12:57.520 Um, I'd say killed with kindness. 0.99

01:13:02.840 I don't know.

01:13:03.800 I've only had one ex.

01:13:05.320 Wow.

01:13:06.560 All right, negative 200.

01:13:07.780 Appreciate it.

01:13:08.360 Okay, so you're currently, um, is there a, it's not really, like, in court anymore, though, right?

01:13:16.700 Like, it's already kind of been, the whole custody arrangement's been determined.

01:13:20.600 Is that correct?

01:13:21.520 Or is it still, like, ongoing in court?

01:13:25.160 No, we're not, like, we're not going to court.

01:13:29.520 We haven't gone.

01:13:30.440 Yeah, no, no.

01:13:31.560 I mean, it's still under the purview of the court, but it's not, you're not, like, currently figuring out the arrangement.

01:13:39.460 The arrangement's been determined.

01:13:41.120 Right.

01:13:41.760 Okay.

01:13:42.640 Um, well, I guess my question was, uh, it sounded like going in, so when you went to the court, were you like, I want full custody?

01:13:54.700 The first time, yes.

01:14:05.980 The second time, it was more so I wanted things to be evaluated to see what somebody saw fit.

01:14:13.520 Okay.

01:14:17.160 And the evaluation came back with?

01:14:20.660 Half.

01:14:21.360 50-50?

01:14:22.020 The first time, I was, like, getting the majority, um, and he had visitation.

01:14:29.220 The second time, it was half.

01:14:32.080 Oh, so the first time that there was a court order, you got more custody.

01:14:36.840 Right.

01:14:37.880 And then he was, was he dissatisfied with this, and then he went to the court and requested more custody?

01:14:46.240 No.

01:14:46.760 So, I, when we had our first custody agreement is when we tried to get back together, and then when we tried to get back together, um, there was a little more unhealth than there had been before.

01:15:00.500 Okay.

01:15:00.900 So, I just decided to go back.

01:15:03.880 I see.

01:15:04.760 Okay.

01:15:06.460 Interesting.

01:15:07.220 Okay.

01:15:08.380 Um, but you said there is a child support order, but he does not pay it.

01:15:14.000 Like, is that creating conflict in the, when it comes to the legal proceedings?

01:15:19.820 No.

01:15:20.380 Um, I actually, like...

01:15:23.060 Or do you pay him child support?

01:15:25.160 No.

01:15:25.720 I, um, I think everybody around me, like, thinks that I should be receiving money, like, exceedingly more.

01:15:34.460 Mm-hmm.

01:15:35.260 But I'm personally, like, fine without, like, it's a very low amount, so I could live without it.

01:15:42.920 And so, I'm just, yeah.

01:15:46.380 If, uh, if the court were to award you 100% custody, but he desired to be, uh, you had sole custody,

01:16:01.200 but he desired to still want to see the child, do visitation, and perhaps even have, uh, informal custody,

01:16:10.000 like, say, 50% of the time, but the, the court technically gave you 100% custody,

01:16:15.340 would you, uh, withhold from him his, uh, ability to see the child?

01:16:23.400 No.

01:16:24.700 Okay.

01:16:25.280 Well, then why did you bring it to court in the first place?

01:16:28.040 I'm not allowed to speak on that.

01:16:29.600 Okay.

01:16:29.920 That's fair.

01:16:30.640 Yeah.

01:16:30.880 All right.

01:16:32.000 Um, and it sounded like the relationship was, to some degree, a bit amicable.

01:16:38.460 Perhaps there was some conflict, but have, when you brought it to court, that made things

01:16:43.980 adversarial.

01:16:44.900 Right.

01:16:45.860 Okay.

01:16:46.580 Do you, um, regret bringing it to court retrospectively?

01:16:50.580 No.

01:16:51.660 Okay.

01:16:52.040 So, you think, now that all is said and done, it was, despite, perhaps, the money spent and

01:16:59.120 the stress involved with the process, you think it was, uh, for the better of both of you and

01:17:03.800 for the better of the child?

01:17:05.660 Um, I don't, I serve God, so I don't really care about money so long as my kids are okay.

01:17:14.480 Mm-hmm.

01:17:15.080 And, and, like, my children have been given to me by God, so, um, I, going to court brought

01:17:23.540 me huge comfort because now there are parameters in place that, like, if somebody does something,

01:17:32.940 we, it will be known.

01:17:34.600 Um, and I have, I'm just freed from a lot of worry because a lot of things were resolved,

01:17:43.680 a lot of things were realized, and a lot of things were put in place to keep the children

01:17:47.920 safe, like, our children safe.

01:17:50.720 And I can't specify what those things are, but, yeah.

01:17:55.680 But when it comes, I suppose, to the actual custody arrangement, you went in wanting 100%.

01:18:04.020 It sounded like he didn't want, at least from what you've told us, it sounded like he did

01:18:10.020 want to be in the kids' lives.

01:18:12.360 He wanted to be involved.

01:18:13.880 The family wanted to be involved.

01:18:15.940 So.

01:18:16.720 You wanted 100%, but now you've just, the current custody arrangement is 50-50 custody.

01:18:23.080 And I know there's some things you can't speak on, but I guess there's a point of confusion

01:18:29.400 on my end where you went to court seeking one thing, hoping to get one thing, but you

01:18:35.080 ultimately, he still has 50-50, there's 50-50 custody.

01:18:39.800 I understand that now that there's structure, you now have a bit more structure to it, but

01:18:45.660 at what cost?

01:18:48.020 So, I just want to make it clear.

01:18:49.580 I did not go in seeking 100% custody.

01:18:53.560 It wasn't like this, I want the kids all to myself type of thing.

01:18:57.680 I just want, I just felt at the time that, like, they would have been more protected.

01:19:02.820 And just to be clear, when, when I had the majority of custody, I was very, like, even

01:19:10.780 when I was, when we had our first custody arrangement and I had majority of custody, when we tried

01:19:15.680 to work things out, like, I mean, I, I, we were pregnant with our second son and I was

01:19:21.920 driving, like, for dad to see our child, even when he was in a place where he wasn't necessarily,

01:19:27.400 like, like, he was eager to see him, but I was just more so trying to, like, help dad

01:19:33.320 and encourage him to have relationship.

01:19:35.460 So, like, by no means was it, like, I want 100% custody and to, like, withhold our children

01:19:39.500 from their dad.

01:19:40.520 It was more so, like, I want him in their lives, but I really want to keep them safe.

01:19:46.380 And since family was not helping me to do that most of the time, I needed to have legal help.

01:19:57.920 Does that make sense?

01:20:03.400 Was there a particular family member that is now barred from seeing the child?

01:20:09.500 No.

01:20:10.940 Well, I'm a little confused on the safety component.

01:20:14.300 I just can't share.

01:20:15.720 I just can't share.

01:20:17.260 But what I do, what I can tell you is that at the time that I opened in court the second

01:20:25.940 time and even the first time, there were huge, there were huge issues going on that have

01:20:31.860 thankfully since then been dissolved.

01:20:33.900 Like, or for the, for the, like, right now, they are not an issue.

01:20:42.600 Okay.

01:20:43.160 That's fine.

01:20:44.380 And just curious, did you say the legal proceedings started while you were pregnant with your second

01:20:50.400 child?

01:20:51.760 No, just shortly after he was born.

01:20:54.300 Okay.

01:20:54.740 So there weren't legal proceedings prior to the birth of the second child.

01:21:00.820 No, no.

01:21:02.080 I mean, of course, after our first child, but that dissolved within the time that, like,

01:21:08.500 we tried to work out our relationship, which is why I had to, like, reopen.

01:21:12.500 Sure.

01:21:13.040 Okay.

01:21:14.940 Let's see.

01:21:15.720 I'll read a couple chats, then we'll move it on.

01:21:18.120 We have, oh.

01:21:20.260 Hillary Epstein donated $200, one legal health person to another.

01:21:26.060 What did your parents tell you that you could say on the show?

01:21:29.620 I am sure of it.

01:21:31.980 Wait, is this directed at her?

01:21:34.860 Excuse me.

01:21:38.020 I'm sorry, Hillary.

01:21:39.000 I'm a little confused by the question.

01:21:41.580 What did your parents tell you that you could say on the show?

01:21:45.560 Do you understand what he said?

01:21:48.120 My parents?

01:21:48.620 I don't really understand.

01:21:50.240 Well, I just can't, like, I just can't come out here and say because, like, anybody who

01:21:55.200 goes to court, like, you're supposed to kind of keep everything confidential, so.

01:21:58.940 That's fair.

01:21:59.680 Yeah.

01:21:59.840 Thank you, Hillary.

01:22:00.640 Appreciate it.

01:22:01.160 We have two chats here.

01:22:02.760 Maddie, can you read?

01:22:04.180 Sounds more like you are upset he wants to be involved.

01:22:07.100 Had to fight for 50-50 myself.

01:22:09.920 Stop capping you left him.

01:22:13.340 No.

01:22:13.640 Like, I truly, truly, if he is in good standing, I want him, I would never, like, want our kids

01:22:20.760 to have, to not have the opportunity to be with both parents, so long as they're both,

01:22:27.720 like, doing well for them, you know?

01:22:30.380 Like, I come from a single-family home, didn't know my dad, like, actually never met my dad,

01:22:36.460 and then somebody came into my life who also, like, abandoned me, so I know what it is to

01:22:42.460 feel rejected by another parent, and I would never want our children to even feel, like,

01:22:48.780 the slightest separation from one parent, because I know what it can do.

01:22:52.540 All right.

01:22:52.980 Yeah.

01:22:53.720 Go ahead, Maddie.

01:22:54.580 I have Myron Gaines from the Crash and Four podcast book called Why Women Deserve Less. 1.00

01:23:01.660 This is, is this an immediate red flag?

01:23:04.520 Just move your mic.

01:23:07.340 No, like, can you not see, or?

01:23:10.420 No, your computer is blocking.

01:23:11.460 Oh, okay.

01:23:11.980 Like, half of it.

01:23:12.600 All right.

01:23:15.140 Was that a red flag?

01:23:17.640 Just show of hands, is it a red flag?

01:23:19.580 The whole bookshelf thing, you go to the guy's house, you see the bookshelf, there's a book

01:23:23.500 that says Why Women Deserve Less. 1.00

01:23:26.500 Red flag?

01:23:27.400 Show of hands?

01:23:28.720 Show of hands is yes?

01:23:30.860 All right.

01:23:31.420 There it is.

01:23:32.000 Show, I guess that's a red flag.

01:23:33.640 Okay.

01:23:34.680 Thank you, man.

01:23:35.260 Appreciate it.

01:23:35.660 We have Robert Tanner.

01:23:36.620 Can you read this one?

01:23:37.980 This is a great panel.

01:23:39.380 My question to each of them, what are the specific slash qualifications of a first date

01:23:44.160 you are looking for?

01:23:45.440 Or if, Mary, to explain your idea of one, also, how important is the first date for you?

01:23:51.000 Thank you, Robert Tanner.

01:23:52.020 So, the question is, what are the specifics, qualifications of a first date you are looking

01:23:58.120 for?

01:24:01.940 So, what do you expect on a first date?

01:24:06.420 I mean, me personally, I, well, what do I expect?

01:24:10.660 I mean, I, what I like at a first date, on a first date is, if a man is asking me to go

01:24:16.740 out, like, he's planned where we're going, he takes care of the bill, like, he thinks

01:24:23.760 of it as, you know, an honor to have me in his presence, and he's asking me to spend time

01:24:28.240 with him.

01:24:28.580 So, I think that, and then while I'm there, I don't know, I like a man who's curious, who's

01:24:34.920 interested, who's asking me questions, who's sharing openly, balanced masculine and feminine

01:24:40.880 energy, shared values, being attracted to them, things like that.

01:24:46.020 So, what did you say about honor?

01:24:48.580 Honor your, yeah, like, he's like, oh, like, it's, it's, it's an honor to have this woman

01:24:53.340 in my presence.

01:24:54.120 Like, I would like him to think like that.

01:24:55.860 Not like, she's so lucky to be with me.

01:24:58.220 I feel like that's odd energy.

01:24:59.980 Well, isn't that precisely what you're expecting?

01:25:04.700 For him to think she, I'm so lucky that she's, that she agreed to say yes.

01:25:09.600 Well, I mean, you said that it should be an honor.

01:25:14.100 The guy should view it as an honor that he's in your presence.

01:25:17.420 Is it an honor when you're in their presence?

01:25:20.360 I think.

01:25:20.740 Like, for you, like, for you, oh, it's an honor to be in your presence, guy.

01:25:25.540 Well, I mean, the guy that I'm seeing now, when I went out with him for the first time,

01:25:28.860 I was like, wow, like, I'm, like, this is, he's a great guy.

01:25:31.760 Like, I'm lucky to be able to spend time with him.

01:25:34.200 I think, ideally, both people think that.

01:25:36.560 But if the guy comes in thinking that himself, I feel like that's a little odd.

01:25:41.860 But how do you even get into that as a conversation piece?

01:25:44.780 Like, can't you just.

01:25:45.300 It's not a conversation.

01:25:45.500 She doesn't talk about it.

01:25:46.420 It's just, I mean, it's just, going out with someone, it's just enjoying each other's

01:25:50.860 company.

01:25:51.320 I guess I don't quite understand the whole, they should be happy and lucky that I'm with

01:25:55.920 them type thing.

01:25:56.840 I think that almost puts ourselves too much on a pedestal.

01:26:01.060 Wait, hold on.

01:26:02.240 So, but going back to what you were saying, you said, this is what the guy should be feeling

01:26:07.420 towards me.

01:26:08.640 But it would be odd if he had the same sort of expectation.

01:26:15.260 Expectation?

01:26:16.060 Didn't you say, I heard the words odd.

01:26:20.120 Yo, thank you, Grid One.

01:26:21.020 Grid One Motorsports donated $200.01.

01:26:23.840 Thank you, man.

01:26:25.340 Good to see you in the chat.

01:26:25.720 How many of the panel have perfected the Hawk Tour technique?

01:26:29.000 How is your spit on it game?

01:26:30.460 Bro, how are you asking that?

01:26:31.300 Surveys show that a good Hawk Tour can solve many relationship issues.

01:26:36.060 I disagree.

01:26:37.120 I disagree, Grid One.

01:26:38.380 Have you never heard of it?

01:26:39.300 Have you never heard of it?

01:26:39.920 A good, no such thing as a good enough BJ to deal with a quarrelsome and nagging wife 1.00

01:26:48.620 or girlfriend, but also like just to, it's not that any girl can spit. 1.00

01:26:56.560 It, it ain't that hard.

01:26:59.940 Like that's what the Hawk Tour is.

01:27:02.920 It's literally just spinning.

01:27:04.520 You gotta say it how she said it.

01:27:05.760 The way he said it was just like, Hawk Tour.

01:27:07.840 Hawk Tour.

01:27:09.420 I don't know.

01:27:10.000 I'm like Brian.

01:27:10.700 You gotta put a little book in your hand.

01:27:11.240 Get it together, man.

01:27:13.320 Any chick can do that. 1.00

01:27:15.400 Like, I don't know.

01:27:17.320 Anyways, thank you, Grid One.

01:27:18.980 They'll appreciate it.

01:27:20.120 What was his question?

01:27:21.060 It was, uh.

01:27:22.100 What are the expectations?

01:27:23.300 I don't think any of the girls are gonna, no, we still need to go around on it.

01:27:29.000 Yo, Duren, thank you for the gifted 10.

01:27:31.420 Um, thank you, Grid One.

01:27:33.420 Appreciate it.

01:27:35.300 Are you liquored up, Grid One?

01:27:36.580 What's going on?

01:27:37.300 I don't know.

01:27:37.640 Okay.

01:27:38.620 That was an uncharacteristic.

01:27:40.200 That's a new one from Grid One.

01:27:42.160 Uh, so, uh, going back to this, you, uh, you said that it should be an honor for the

01:27:51.880 man to be in your presence, but it would be odd if he wanted you to feel honored to be

01:27:57.740 in his presence.

01:28:00.260 Yeah.

01:28:00.460 I think that there's something about being a woman that, like, men desire, like, to have

01:28:07.800 women around them.

01:28:08.540 That's why clubs let out, let, have, want a lot of women, because men like to be in spaces 0.99

01:28:13.760 with a lot of women. 0.83

01:28:14.840 Do women want to be in spaces with a ton of men? 1.00

01:28:18.140 Not really.

01:28:19.260 Like, that's just how it is.

01:28:22.160 Women are a desirable presence for men. 0.99

01:28:25.380 Well, I'm not sure I even agree with the premise here.

01:28:27.640 So, if, uh, we disagree on something?

01:28:30.920 Well, hold on.

01:28:31.440 So, I would argue, though, like, if this was actually the case, then all women nightclubs 1.00

01:28:37.040 would be extremely popular.

01:28:38.840 They would exist, but the reality is, like, the most popular, the most prestigious, the

01:28:45.460 most, uh, desirable nightclubs, bars, women are going to these environments where there 1.00

01:28:52.580 are men.

01:28:53.540 I don't think that, yeah, of course, men also, it's not that women don't want to be around

01:28:58.600 any men at all, but I'm just saying, in general, like, men, if men are like, oh, a ton of girls

01:29:04.720 are going to be there, they're going to be like, ooh, I want to be there.

01:29:07.060 But I don't think it's the same in the opposite direction of, like, oh, my God, there's going

01:29:11.100 to be so many guys there, like, let's go.

01:29:14.020 You know what I mean?

01:29:14.560 Like, it's different energetically.

01:29:17.560 I think it's kind of the same.

01:29:19.740 Maybe men, like, vocalize it more, but I think women are kind of thinking it in their heads. 0.76

01:29:24.860 That could be a generation thing, too, because, like, when I was in my 20s, I would have definitely

01:29:30.180 gone to some reason there was going to be tons of guys.

01:29:32.680 Well, I think there's, there's, like, I mean, women just refuse to acknowledge that they 1.00

01:29:39.960 have any interest in men, like, or any, women refuse to acknowledge, let me clarify, women 0.94

01:29:47.820 will, hold on, women will refuse to acknowledge that they do anything for the purpose of men. 1.00

01:29:54.360 For example, when you wear makeup, it's not for men, it's for you, blah, blah, blah.

01:29:58.260 If you wear certain clothing, it's not for men, it's for whatever reason.

01:30:01.600 If you go to a certain event, it's not to meet, if you go out to bars and clubs and

01:30:06.000 all this, it's not for the possibility of meeting men, it's to go have fun with your

01:30:09.600 girlfriends.

01:30:10.460 And while I don't disagree that that can be a component of it, to totally disregard the

01:30:14.820 social component of going to these environments in the hope that you will potentially meet

01:30:19.600 a guy, I think is cope.

01:30:21.940 Yeah, I never said that.

01:30:23.940 Right, but you're like, well, the girls, we just want to get together and we don't give 1.00

01:30:27.720 a fuck if the guys are there or not. 0.94

01:30:29.200 I think that the point of this podcast is to be controversial, which means that things 0.99

01:30:34.800 are going to be, you're going to obviously frame them for profitability as either black 1.00

01:30:39.440 or white when really it's a combination of both.

01:30:42.440 Of course, like women dress for themselves and for men. 0.99

01:30:47.040 That's why we have a conversation about the male gaze and the female gaze. 0.99

01:30:50.240 And as women, we're like, okay, I think it's good to be reflective.

01:30:52.880 Am I dressing for men exclusively and how can I do that less and just dress for myself

01:31:01.020 and try to de-center men? 0.85

01:31:02.720 But of course, we want and need each other.

01:31:06.980 And of course, women are doing things to attract men. 1.00

01:31:09.980 And of course, men are doing things to attract women.

01:31:12.000 But I feel like how we frame it and how we talk about it and what we emphasize really

01:31:17.060 contributes to our behavior.

01:31:18.820 So wait, women should de-center men? 0.86

01:31:22.280 I think so, yeah.

01:31:23.020 Should men de-center women? 0.98

01:31:25.060 I think that men are socialized to want to be powerful, whereas women are socialized to 0.62

01:31:30.240 be good.

01:31:30.920 It's very different in how we're socialized.

01:31:33.380 Women are always socialized. 1.00

01:31:34.600 Oh, how can I serve men?

01:31:38.200 How can I put up everybody?

01:31:40.080 Women are praised for putting every single person in front. 1.00

01:31:43.060 I reject your premise.

01:31:44.560 I reject the premise.

01:31:45.920 For example, men, when they're growing up, are taught, this is how you treat women.

01:31:51.560 Men are told this.

01:31:52.720 Women are never told when growing up, this is how you treat men. 1.00

01:31:56.840 I actually think women are far more self-interested and self-centered. 1.00

01:32:00.820 So to say that women are raised to, what did you say?

01:32:04.540 They're good?

01:32:05.260 To be good.

01:32:05.920 And men are raised, I don't know if you use the word raised.

01:32:09.160 Socialized.

01:32:09.620 Are socialized, women are socialized to be good.

01:32:12.040 Men are socialized to be powerful.

01:32:15.260 I actually think men are socialized to be good, and women are socialized to be self-interested. 1.00

01:32:23.600 Well, I guess we disagree.

01:32:24.900 We're definitely raised to be ladylike, but not for the purpose of satisfying a man, just

01:32:31.400 being ladylike.

01:32:33.260 But then I would also ask, if that's the case, because I'll often, and maybe you actually

01:32:39.280 might have even brought this up on the last show, although I forget.

01:32:41.460 If I say something like, well, men are negatively affected in this way, the rebuttal I'll often

01:32:47.980 receive is, well, whose fault is that?

01:32:50.720 It's other men's fault. 1.00

01:32:52.780 But then I can actually just use this argument towards women. 1.00

01:32:56.180 So can we agree that, I don't know what the exact number is, but there's a lot of single

01:33:03.600 parent households.

01:33:04.440 Mm-hmm.

01:33:05.260 Agreed?

01:33:05.820 Mm-hmm.

01:33:06.540 And are these single parent households more often than not single mother households?

01:33:12.080 Okay.

01:33:12.640 And then when it comes to, let's say, kindergarten through sixth grade, we can even do, what's

01:33:18.740 the proportion of female teachers to male teachers?

01:33:22.520 Probably more women. 1.00

01:33:23.740 More women. 0.98

01:33:24.140 So all the influence that these young men have growing up is female influence in the 0.73

01:33:32.860 household, where they spend most of their time, and then they're going to spend, what,

01:33:37.140 eight, nine hours a day in school, where the influence is female, not male, typically.

01:33:44.080 There's very few, fewer and fewer as the years go, male teachers in this age demographic.

01:33:50.040 $2,000, show up to a party naked, what other way could you easily attract men?

01:33:55.680 Why even wear clothes that barely cover your private parts if that's how you're dressing

01:34:00.620 for yourself?

01:34:01.960 Where is the distinction?

01:34:04.820 Wait, show up to a party naked?

01:34:06.280 He's going back to the bikini thing.

01:34:07.680 Back to this?

01:34:08.600 Okay.

01:34:09.560 What other way could you easily attract men?

01:34:11.340 Why even wear clothes that barely cover your private parts if that's how you're dressing?

01:34:14.520 Where's the distinction?

01:34:16.140 Show up to a party naked.

01:34:20.040 Thank you, Kill of Serial.

01:34:22.660 I appreciate the message.

01:34:24.880 I do think, I do think...

01:34:26.760 Adam and Eve walked around naked.

01:34:28.440 And didn't even know it.

01:34:29.680 Yeah.

01:34:30.480 There was no weird...

01:34:31.540 We'll come back to this, but really quick on the Kill of Serial one.

01:34:34.880 Do you guys think totally...

01:34:36.780 Would it be fair game for a guy to break up with his girlfriend if he did not want her

01:34:41.800 to go to a party and she did?

01:34:45.040 Fair game?

01:34:45.940 Or is he being too controlling?

01:34:48.360 He can definitely break up with her, whether or not it's the right decision.

01:34:52.080 He's going to later find out.

01:34:54.080 So...

01:34:54.400 Sure.

01:34:54.640 Well, okay.

01:34:55.000 He's in...

01:34:55.720 Of course, it's his right.

01:34:56.700 Is it fair, though?

01:34:57.420 But, like, is he being too controlling?

01:35:00.080 Yes.

01:35:00.280 Well, I think we also discussed that we really don't know a lot of the story here.

01:35:06.300 So we don't know if he knew ahead of time that...

01:35:09.200 Well, but I think it does.

01:35:10.780 Here's the story.

01:35:11.460 I'm dating a girl.

01:35:12.800 She wants to go to a pool party where she's going to wear a bikini and there's going to 1.00

01:35:17.620 be alcohol.

01:35:18.440 And she's going with her single girlfriends.

01:35:21.540 And I don't want her to go.

01:35:23.260 I think that you guys are just not fit for each other and you should find somebody who

01:35:29.060 is or isn't willing based off of what you want in a partner.

01:35:33.080 I don't think that one situation should be enough for them to break up or him to break

01:35:37.100 up with her. 0.94

01:35:37.660 I think that would be stupid if it's just that scenario that you just presented. 0.99

01:35:41.740 That's the scenario. 0.92

01:35:43.240 Then I don't think...

01:35:44.400 He's not too controlling.

01:35:45.680 Okay.

01:35:46.680 Pearl?

01:35:47.500 That scenario is indicative of a much bigger issue, which is there's no trust.

01:35:52.100 I think it is indicative of a much bigger issue.

01:35:56.480 And the bigger issue is, is she's inclined to go to the party.

01:36:01.580 Well, it depends on so much.

01:36:04.380 It could either be he's controlling or it could be that he's picking up that she's not

01:36:08.360 trustworthy.

01:36:09.100 We don't know enough information, like you were saying.

01:36:11.560 So it could totally be extremely unfair and like, relax, I'm wearing a bikini.

01:36:16.720 It's fine.

01:36:17.260 Or he could be like, yeah, you're wearing a bikini because you're trying to get other

01:36:21.800 the attention of other men, which I've seen as a pattern in your life.

01:36:26.620 And that's fair.

01:36:28.620 Okay.

01:36:29.220 Well, I mean, just by virtue of, as a woman, if you go to these sorts of environments, whether

01:36:35.240 it be a bar, club, house party, pool party, whatever, it doesn't even have to be a conscious

01:36:43.480 thing where I'm like, even if your intention is, I don't have any intention of going to

01:36:48.520 this thing to get male attention, you know, by virtue of going to it, that you will get

01:36:53.880 male attention.

01:36:54.800 And there, therein lies the problem.

01:36:57.680 Oh, so if the man is, if my boyfriend was going to get mad at me, because if I wear a

01:37:04.160 bathing suit, I'm going to get male attention. 0.58

01:37:06.340 He has an insecurity issue.

01:37:07.900 And yeah, no, I think that that's controlling.

01:37:09.880 Well, okay.

01:37:10.460 I, it's not just about the bikini.

01:37:12.440 For example, if you were to go to the beach with him, men, look, men have different boundaries

01:37:18.680 and when it comes to this specific thing, but going to a party, I'm assuming in this scenario

01:37:24.420 it's without him present, going to a party with your girlfriends or whatever, basically

01:37:34.080 it's a singles event.

01:37:39.300 Okay.

01:37:41.760 So what is this?

01:37:42.840 I would, I would, I would ask him, what's your issue?

01:37:45.200 Like, what is your issue with the fact that I'm wearing a bikini?

01:37:48.620 It's not so much the bikini, it's the going to the party, wearing the bikini. 0.99

01:37:52.840 And if you're wearing a bikini at home, you probably wouldn't give a shit. 0.99

01:37:55.640 Okay. 0.99

01:37:55.940 Why is that?

01:37:56.800 Why does that bother you?

01:37:58.100 Because men and women flirt differently.

01:38:00.660 Okay.

01:38:01.040 And I would say, I'm not there to flirt with anyone.

01:38:03.520 And I'm there to enjoy myself.

01:38:05.240 Okay.

01:38:05.560 But let me ask you a question.

01:38:07.540 So do you ever approach guys?

01:38:10.820 No.

01:38:11.320 The guy you're currently dating, did he approach you or did you approach him?

01:38:15.740 I guess we just started talking to each other because we were near one another.

01:38:19.380 I guess.

01:38:20.040 You guys work together?

01:38:21.640 Yeah.

01:38:22.180 I mean, no, we don't work together, but we met at his place of work.

01:38:27.000 I was doing a gig there and he was like in charge of setting up the gig.

01:38:32.620 Can I ask?

01:38:33.260 Hold on.

01:38:33.980 Hold on.

01:38:34.980 So who asked for whose number?

01:38:37.240 He asked for mine.

01:38:38.260 Who set up the date?

01:38:39.780 He did.

01:38:41.200 I'm assuming I won't get into too much detail.

01:38:43.620 Did he go for the first kiss?

01:38:44.840 Yes.

01:38:45.500 Okay.

01:38:47.140 So yeah, he hit on you.

01:38:48.620 Yeah.

01:38:48.760 Right?

01:38:49.080 It wasn't mutual.

01:38:50.340 Yeah.

01:38:51.260 Yeah.

01:38:51.500 So there's a differential here in the way that men and women flirt.

01:38:57.420 Like women won't slide into a dude's DMs. 1.00

01:39:00.060 They will sometimes.

01:39:01.200 Yeah.

01:39:01.380 Yeah.

01:39:01.520 For the most part.

01:39:02.220 But they'll post like a revealing photo in an effort to get, in an effort to solicit men

01:39:09.520 to then contact them.

01:39:10.840 Grid One Motorsports donated $200 and one cent.

01:39:17.700 Thank you, Matt. 0.99

01:39:17.960 It is always interesting when women try to make the case for dressing like a whore. 1.00

01:39:22.940 If you dress for the job you want and you dress like a whore, then you are proclaiming yourself 1.00

01:39:28.280 a whore. 1.00

01:39:29.240 Do better. 1.00

01:39:30.220 A. 1.00

01:39:30.840 She was a whore. 1.00

01:39:32.260 B. 1.00

01:39:33.000 She was a whore. 1.00

01:39:34.360 Thank you, Grid One. 1.00

01:39:35.140 I think he spelled it like that guy said it.

01:39:36.580 Ho-a. 0.94

01:39:37.120 Ho-a. 0.94

01:39:39.060 So what were you saying?

01:39:41.680 Thank you, Grid One.

01:39:42.920 You were saying that women post pictures for male attention.

01:39:46.560 Yeah.

01:39:46.860 So like you'll go to a bar.

01:39:48.880 You won't like actively approach a guy.

01:39:51.560 But you'll go to the bar with the understanding that there's a good chance that men will approach

01:39:55.480 you.

01:39:55.760 Yeah.

01:39:56.340 I think that some women, for sure, wear clothing to elicit male attention. 1.00

01:40:01.920 I don't think that that's something that doesn't happen.

01:40:04.000 But so here's the thing, though.

01:40:05.140 In a relationship, there's an expectation that as a guy, well, it would be cheating for

01:40:12.060 me to go and approach a girl and try to flirt with her while I'm in a relationship, correct?

01:40:18.760 But we have nothing in place in society that frowns upon or shames women by the way women 1.00

01:40:25.600 run game.

01:40:26.780 We don't stop women from running the type of game that y'all run, which is indirect. 1.00

01:40:32.620 Does that make sense?

01:40:33.800 I understand what you're saying.

01:40:34.980 Yeah.

01:40:35.340 Because like you guys will be, you'll put yourselves out there to give space for men to come and

01:40:41.840 talk to you.

01:40:42.900 But it's frowned upon for men to put down boundaries and be controlling and say, you need to cut

01:40:49.140 off your options the same way I'm not going out there and approaching girls and giving 0.91

01:40:53.900 them or asking for their number and doing all this.

01:40:56.740 Simply you, I'm trying to think of like a good scenario here.

01:41:02.220 I had a pretty good example, I think.

01:41:04.540 It's how like female birds, they will do mating calls and they will puff their feathers and 1.00

01:41:09.640 everything.

01:41:10.400 And the male has to come to the female bird. 0.99

01:41:12.600 That's kind of what us women do by going out and dressing, you know, certain ways, getting 1.00

01:41:18.040 all dolled up.

01:41:19.460 And then the men will approach us because we're kind of putting off that energy.

01:41:23.520 Like we're trying to get that attention.

01:41:24.980 That's a good example.

01:41:27.080 That's a really good example.

01:41:28.080 It's a good example.

01:41:28.880 But like, but there's nothing like, I mean, at least look, there are traditional relationships

01:41:33.800 where there's an expectation where if you're in this relationship as a woman, you're not

01:41:37.940 going to put yourself out there, but it's certainly much more common.

01:41:41.960 Like it's almost clear cut.

01:41:45.300 Hey, the guy has to stop like approaching girls while in a relationship.

01:41:48.720 But the means with which women will solicit male attention don't cease once they're in 1.00

01:41:56.400 a relationship posting provocative photos on Instagram, going to these, in my view, are

01:42:04.120 very specific social settings which enable either casual sexual encounters or a means by

01:42:14.080 which people can meet romantic partners, right?

01:42:16.960 And I mean, you can say, well, the club, the bar, it's just, just for fun.

01:42:21.820 But like, you don't go to Trader Joe's and you don't see people getting finger blasted

01:42:26.220 randomly after 10 minutes of meeting somebody at Trader Joe's. 1.00

01:42:30.080 I see that shit all the time. 1.00

01:42:33.380 At least when I was in college. 1.00

01:42:34.500 I said, bro, people be fucking in the middle of the parties. 0.98

01:42:37.420 It wasn't like college was crazy. 0.99

01:42:39.880 Let me just tell you.

01:42:40.560 Okay.

01:42:41.200 Can I add something?

01:42:42.240 I've never seen somebody get finger blasted at Whole Foods. 0.72

01:42:46.960 You walk into a college party, finger blasted.

01:42:51.040 My Whole Foods, my Whole Foods is lit.

01:42:53.260 Okay.

01:42:54.280 Speak for yourself.

01:42:55.620 I'm just kidding.

01:42:56.660 So I have a question.

01:42:57.860 So...

01:42:58.180 Grid One Motorsports donated $200.01.

01:43:04.260 That is a horrible example.

01:43:06.400 In nature, the males are the ones that are brightly colored and show off.

01:43:10.140 The females are plain and dram. 1.00

01:43:11.880 Get an education for fuck's sake. 1.00

01:43:16.320 Somebody said I'm going to the wrong Whole Foods. 0.99

01:43:18.580 The bird thing?

01:43:20.100 Okay.

01:43:20.620 Sorry.

01:43:21.260 Go ahead.

01:43:21.780 Go ahead.

01:43:22.100 So, okay.

01:43:22.960 Thank you, Grid One.

01:43:24.140 So say, whatever, I wear a skin-tight bodycon dress that's short and has a V cut.

01:43:33.460 And... 0.99

01:43:33.740 What the fuck is that? 0.99

01:43:34.300 I'm sorry. 0.99

01:43:34.700 I'm a dude.

01:43:35.240 A V cut? 1.00

01:43:35.960 Who the fuck is that guy? 0.99

01:43:37.880 It's literally a V. 1.00

01:43:38.880 The V. 0.59

01:43:39.180 The contour?

01:43:40.080 I don't know what that is.

01:43:41.180 What?

01:43:41.780 Okay, go ahead.

01:43:42.340 A tight dress that shows off your curves, okay?

01:43:46.240 Go ahead.

01:43:46.680 So if I want to wear that...

01:43:49.060 I'm in a relationship, and I'm just like, oh, it just makes me feel good, and I wear it

01:43:52.860 to Whole Foods.

01:43:53.700 Is that okay?

01:43:55.420 Because, like you said, it's not an environment where people are getting, you know, getting

01:43:59.380 sexual attention.

01:44:00.460 It's just, what if I just want to wear that dress?

01:44:02.360 Is that fine then?

01:44:03.140 Well, I mean, so I'm not familiar exactly with what that outfit would look like.

01:44:10.680 If you go to Trader Joe's and Whole Foods, and you happen to be approached, I don't think...

01:44:16.720 I'm not suggesting, like, hey, as a guy, your girl can't go grocery shopping. 0.83

01:44:21.560 What I am saying is, when it comes to parties, bars, nightclubs, whatever, these are very,

01:44:26.460 very specific social settings.

01:44:27.940 So you would agree that wearing an outfit that is, like, maybe tight or whatever, but

01:44:32.480 I'm not doing it to get male attention, because I'm not going to these specific places that

01:44:36.700 are for, like, romantic and sexual and casual connections.

01:44:40.660 I'm going to go get carne asada and chips.

01:44:44.840 Like, is that okay?

01:44:46.720 Is that okay?

01:44:47.820 I mean, every man has different standards on this.

01:44:50.560 I do generally prefer women who dress a bit more modestly. 0.98

01:44:54.320 Yeah, so we're not talking about preferences.

01:44:55.720 We're just talking about, like, the sort of generic understanding of, like, is it the

01:45:00.720 actual dress, or is it the intent behind the dress?

01:45:05.420 Well, I think we're getting away a little bit here, because the segment wasn't specifically,

01:45:10.760 exclusively just about the bikini.

01:45:12.660 It was wearing the bikini to this party, right?

01:45:17.320 So you're not going to answer my question?

01:45:20.040 You're saying...

01:45:21.200 Is it okay to wear that dress to, like, a place like Whole Foods or Trader Joe's?

01:45:24.780 I don't know specifically what it looks like, but...

01:45:28.680 A dress that would make you mad or someone mad that they're wearing it to a club because 1.00

01:45:32.760 it seems like they're doing it to elicit male attention.

01:45:34.920 I would say a lot of men prefer their girlfriends to dress modestly.

01:45:39.120 Okay, so it's not okay to wear it to Whole Foods.

01:45:41.800 What do you mean?

01:45:43.140 That's exactly what I mean.

01:45:44.380 Would it be okay if I'm wearing it in an environment that's not to attract men?

01:45:48.420 Again, I don't know what the specific outfit that you're referring to looks like.

01:45:54.180 Okay, so imagine an outfit that you'd be upset about, or that someone might be...

01:45:57.680 You would say, that's okay to be upset about it.

01:45:59.260 Let's use, like, a more obvious example. 0.99

01:46:01.420 She's wearing, like, short, short jeans with her ass sticking out, and, like, a crop top. 0.98

01:46:06.840 I, to some degree, would find this a little objectionable, at least from a girlfriend. 0.98

01:46:11.400 Okay, yeah, but that would be appropriate if you're, like, trying to get male attention

01:46:16.400 or something.

01:46:17.960 Well, I prefer modest dress in general.

01:46:21.900 Okay.

01:46:24.060 That's what she wanted to add.

01:46:24.980 I don't know, like, that's what she wanted to say.

01:46:27.360 She's like, I shut.

01:46:29.800 No, no, don't.

01:46:30.960 If I was dating a girl, I would hope, in general, that she did dress a bit more modestly. 0.98

01:46:36.700 I'm not saying it's got to be a turtleneck and sweatpants all the time.

01:46:40.120 And men have varying degrees of what they think would be appropriate or not.

01:46:45.000 But, yeah, like, ass out, short shorts, I would probably feel a little, like, I'd feel 0.66

01:46:52.040 a type of way about it. 0.90

01:46:53.160 So, we need to change.

01:46:54.880 When you get into a relationship and you're committed to someone or eventually get married,

01:46:59.020 what you do should change, okay?

01:47:01.760 You can't just continue to do everything the same.

01:47:04.800 So, it comes down to, if your boyfriend or even your husband at that time didn't want

01:47:08.860 you to go to a party in a bikini, really isn't that important?

01:47:12.540 Killer of Serial donated $200.

01:47:15.180 Yo, thank you, Killer.

01:47:15.820 Women who say it's just skin are too open to hurting the one they are by being too open 1.00

01:47:22.220 with their bodies.

01:47:23.680 Sex is sacred to be shared by two people behind closed doors. 0.80

01:47:28.340 Stick around for part two.

01:47:30.500 Oh, he's going to, I suppose, send another one.

01:47:32.800 Oh, okay.

01:47:33.340 Thank you, Killer of Serial.

01:47:34.340 Appreciate it, man.

01:47:36.140 I'm just kind of waiting to see if it's going to come through.

01:47:40.040 And, look, I think a lot of guys, a lot of guys, when it comes to, look, there's the

01:47:45.880 whole dressing thing.

01:47:46.700 That's one component.

01:47:49.100 I'm actually, I would say, a little more flexible, specifically when it comes to your

01:47:56.300 dress.

01:47:56.760 And I do think there's a geographic component to it.

01:47:59.020 But, like, if you live in a really warm climate, like, I think it's going to be a bit more

01:48:03.820 socially acceptable to dress up, show a bit more skin for, like, temperature reasons.

01:48:09.840 Like, that's fair, right? 0.98

01:48:12.360 Summertime, you know, you don't expect a girl to be wearing a fucking turtleneck in midsummer 0.99

01:48:19.560 in Florida or something. 0.99

01:48:20.540 I have a question after this.

01:48:25.740 Grid One Motorsports donated $200 and one cent.

01:48:30.480 B, these girls are used to dating loser coomers, not real men with values, morals, and standards. 1.00

01:48:38.040 They would rather dress like a whore than to be honorable and worthy of being in a man's 1.00

01:48:41.920 life. 1.00

01:48:42.720 A, she was a whore. 1.00

01:48:44.880 B, she was a whore. 1.00

01:48:46.460 Dating loser coomers. 1.00

01:48:50.860 Is he referencing us? 1.00

01:48:53.860 Show of hands, who's dating a loser coomer? 1.00

01:48:56.460 What is that? 0.95

01:48:58.540 Show of hands.

01:48:59.820 Killer of Syria donated $200.

01:49:02.760 If you show up to a party with your man and dress scantily clad, what message do you think

01:49:08.360 you're sending to him?

01:49:10.160 Advertising yourself to all others.

01:49:12.500 Why would he want to be with you?

01:49:14.240 Yeah, that's disrespectful and embarrassing for your man, for you to be out here acting

01:49:19.040 single when you have a man at home.

01:49:22.720 And also, it depends, like, who's going to be there at the party?

01:49:25.640 Is it a bunch of single people?

01:49:26.940 Because if you surround yourself with a bunch of single people, not that it's bad to have

01:49:31.260 single friends, but you start to act single.

01:49:34.140 Like, you are who you hang out with.

01:49:35.860 Like, as soon as I got married, I wanted to have friends and women that were married, not 0.99

01:49:40.960 only married, but Christian married women who have values.

01:49:45.560 Like, you have to surround yourself with people who have those same values.

01:49:49.080 Like, I'm not going to go out to a club and be giving all of this attention to all of these

01:49:53.500 men when my man's at home.

01:49:55.020 Like, that's disrespectful.

01:49:56.000 And if it was like, hey, I don't want you to go to this party, regardless of who's there,

01:50:00.580 end of story.

01:50:02.320 Honor your man.

01:50:03.000 I'm not going.

01:50:03.980 It doesn't matter what the reason is, I'm not going.

01:50:06.940 You've got to pick your battles.

01:50:07.780 I'm not going to question him.

01:50:08.860 You had something, Pearl, go ahead.

01:50:17.960 I was just going to say, like, with the bikini thing, for me, like, I really struggled with

01:50:22.240 body image for a really long time.

01:50:24.080 And I would wear big t-shirts over my bathing suit.

01:50:27.360 I, like, had a really not good relationship with food.

01:50:30.780 It was a huge struggle in my life that took a long, long time.

01:50:33.880 So for me, when I wear a bikini to the beach or, like, to the whatever, whatever I might

01:50:41.160 be when I'm in water or not, like, I'm really truly not thinking, how can I get men's attention?

01:50:47.380 It's, it's for me, like, it feels good.

01:50:50.120 I'm like, wow, I'm confident enough and comfortable enough in my skin to wear this bikini.

01:50:55.480 You know, I would, but I will say, though. 0.99

01:50:59.220 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:51:00.720 Oh, a thousand dollars. 1.00

01:51:02.260 Whoa, that's crazy.

01:51:04.040 Donated $1,000.

01:51:06.180 Pop champagne.

01:51:07.300 Yo, thank you, bro.

01:51:07.940 Great show, Brian.

01:51:09.040 Yo, thank you, brother.

01:51:09.980 Thank you.

01:51:10.780 All right.

01:51:13.300 Thank you, man.

01:51:14.040 Really appreciate it.

01:51:14.820 Dude, you're a, you're a, hold on. 0.99

01:51:16.500 Let me, uh.

01:51:17.060 He's a brave and a decent man.

01:51:18.740 He's a pioneer.

01:51:19.600 He's a pioneer.

01:51:20.680 If you guys want, check out his YouTube channel, by the way, Back to the Roots.

01:51:23.940 Appreciate it.

01:51:24.400 Oh, actually, actually.

01:51:25.020 Thank you.

01:51:25.400 We got champagne.

01:51:26.540 Do we all drink?

01:51:27.020 Is everybody over, everybody's over 21, except for Madison here.

01:51:30.780 Sorry, Maddie.

01:51:31.220 Double baby.

01:51:32.760 I don't want it.

01:51:34.460 Uh, I think you're going ahead with your point.

01:51:37.000 Go ahead.

01:51:37.440 Oh, I mean, yeah.

01:51:38.380 I would, I was just saying that, like, for me, wearing a bikini is, like, an act of self-love

01:51:45.000 and self-confidence.

01:51:46.180 And at the same time, yeah, if I was going, which I just wouldn't go to, but if I was

01:51:50.780 going to some party with a bunch of, like, single guys looking to connect with girls,

01:51:55.520 like, I probably would dress a little bit differently if I was with a man.

01:52:00.280 Like, I probably would.

01:52:01.500 I wouldn't wear, like, I wouldn't wear, like, my sexiest bikini.

01:52:03.680 I'd probably be a little bit more, a little bit more modest.

01:52:06.460 I probably would.

01:52:07.560 Um, but I think it would be ineffective for my man to say, don't go to that party.

01:52:14.020 So.

01:52:15.420 Can we get cups?

01:52:17.740 I got the champagne bottle, but no cups.

01:52:19.220 As he opens.

01:52:20.440 Now, you know, there's not to say the times that your man don't want you to dress a certain

01:52:23.700 type of way, too, when you go out.

01:52:25.560 So, but at that point, you're with him.

01:52:27.540 Right, because I'm dressing for him.

01:52:28.460 Right.

01:52:28.940 Yeah.

01:52:29.360 And that's totally fine.

01:52:30.540 I think it's fair for a man to say, like, don't, don't dress for the same things and

01:52:38.520 in the same way when you're with me.

01:52:40.400 You have my attention.

01:52:41.280 Why do you need the attention of other people?

01:52:42.420 And it's not even to say that if he leaves to go to the restroom, that a man may not even

01:52:46.080 come approach and even see that you were with another man. 0.69

01:52:48.240 Yeah, no, that happens all the time.

01:52:50.060 But I think that if a man is insecure, he will try to be controlling and say, don't wear

01:52:55.100 this, don't wear this, don't wear this.

01:52:56.120 Like, it's a balance.

01:52:57.640 It's a balance.

01:52:58.180 It's a give and take.

01:52:59.380 And I get what you're saying.

01:53:00.460 But also, I think if you ask, like, a bunch of men what they thought when they saw a woman

01:53:05.980 in a bikini, like, what their thoughts on it, I think they would all agree that they

01:53:10.800 think that they're doing it for other people other than themselves.

01:53:14.260 Well, that is their, that's them. 0.75

01:53:16.080 Why am I living for the opinions and thoughts of a bunch of men?

01:53:19.440 Like, I'm going to live for my own opinion and my own self-confidence and my own self-worth.

01:53:24.340 And of course, take into consideration the person that I'm dating.

01:53:27.760 But doesn't that go against what you just said earlier?

01:53:30.880 What does?

01:53:31.880 About how you were saying that when you're raised, you're raised to be good.

01:53:37.540 And then Brian said, well, doesn't it seem more like women are raised to think about themselves? 0.62

01:53:43.340 And then you just said that you're living for yourself.

01:53:45.800 You don't, you're not thinking about other people's opinion.

01:53:47.800 For me, I was not raised to put myself in the center.

01:53:50.500 I was raised to put everybody else, my dad's opinion, everybody's opinion above my own.

01:53:56.800 And for me, growth is learning how to actually think, oh, you know, what do I want to wear

01:54:02.960 in this moment?

01:54:03.760 You know, how can I live in such a way that actually honors my own opinion and that I'm

01:54:09.560 actually thinking about myself for the first time?

01:54:11.860 Really quick, just show of hands who wants champagne.

01:54:14.180 I do.

01:54:14.400 We all have free will as a woman, even if you're married, you have free will of what 0.97

01:54:19.720 you're going to wear.

01:54:20.700 At the end of the day, like my man shouldn't even be in a position to have to tell me don't

01:54:28.580 wear that because I have the free will to not wear that because I have the free will to

01:54:33.100 honor him, if that makes any sense.

01:54:35.440 So at the end of the day, it's okay to be confident.

01:54:40.560 Like, listen, I'm a personal trainer.

01:54:43.160 I want my body to look good clearly, but it's not for the attention of other people.

01:54:49.520 And I shouldn't make it known that it's for the attention of other people.

01:54:52.760 And I think when you're, especially when you're married, like, and I think now that I'm married,

01:54:58.240 I do understand, like, you have to, your body has to be, it's for your man.

01:55:05.720 And so you have to honor that and you have to be respectful of that at the end of the

01:55:10.900 day.

01:55:11.260 So if your man was like, if your man was like, don't wear leggings, I want you to only wear

01:55:16.120 sweatpants because it makes me feel uncomfortable.

01:55:18.120 Would you be like, sure, no question.

01:55:20.280 I mean, no, I think we'd have to have like a conversation about that, why he feels that

01:55:24.960 way. 1.00

01:55:25.200 And he'd be like, I don't like how men are always looking at your fat, juicy ass. 1.00

01:55:29.340 Well, I'd be like, well, they're going to look at it no matter what. 0.99

01:55:31.300 I mean, they're going to look at it.

01:55:32.300 Even in sweats, they're going to look at it.

01:55:33.020 And he's like, yeah, but it's, it's, it's more prominent and it looks like you're dressing

01:55:36.920 more for male attention. 0.98

01:55:37.560 Quick interruption here.

01:55:39.980 Salud.

01:55:41.360 Salud.

01:55:42.820 Cheers to Back to the Roots.

01:55:45.100 Thank you, man.

01:55:45.800 Thank you for the champagne pop.

01:55:46.780 You're a legend, sir.

01:55:47.420 I guess I just feel like this podcast, honestly, Brian, this is an incredible podcast.

01:55:52.640 How many subscribers do you have?

01:55:54.120 Oh, thank you.

01:55:54.620 How many subscribers do you have? 0.98

01:55:55.900 Like 4 million or some shit? 0.99

01:55:57.480 Four, oh, 4.4? 0.95

01:56:01.260 Like that is, as someone who's in the online space, like that's obviously a huge feat.

01:56:06.960 Obviously you're raking in the money.

01:56:08.960 Someone just sent in a grand.

01:56:10.160 I'm a starving college student.

01:56:11.900 Like that is so amazing.

01:56:14.540 And at the same time, I feel like it's equally difficult to know how to be a good woman and

01:56:20.960 how to be a good man.

01:56:22.080 And I know that there are a lot of people tuning in to watch these shows.

01:56:25.580 And I just, I guess I fear that all of these people who are watching are just getting like riled up to hate on each other and hate on the sexes.

01:56:36.960 When really like we need one another to see it from a different perspective and how we communicate our intentions and our desires.

01:56:46.740 Like saying, don't wear that.

01:56:49.160 Like that's just not going to be an effective conversation.

01:56:51.840 That's effective.

01:56:52.960 Wait, that's super effective.

01:56:54.260 If I've got a girlfriend and I say, don't do something, she says, yes, sir.

01:57:01.700 I mean, that's super effective.

01:57:04.160 Don't do this.

01:57:05.620 Okay.

01:57:06.980 Perfect communication, right?

01:57:08.820 I guess if that's the.

01:57:11.420 Right?

01:57:11.640 Take into consideration the person I'm dating.

01:57:15.320 That statement says that you wouldn't have respect for a man in your life.

01:57:19.520 A man in your life seems like a superficial add-on to what outfit you want.

01:57:25.260 You'll kill of cereal.

01:57:26.420 Appreciate it, bro. 0.92

01:57:27.100 Yes.

01:57:27.800 Statement says that you wouldn't have respect for a man in your life.

01:57:30.360 A man in your life seems like a superficial add-on to what outfit you want.

01:57:34.580 We have another one coming through, so I'm going to just allow it right now.

01:57:38.280 Hillary Epstein donated $200.

01:57:40.900 Thank you, bro.

01:57:41.580 Not at all.

01:57:42.600 We don't argue.

01:57:43.560 We debate.

01:57:44.120 We don't argue.

01:57:45.320 We debate.

01:57:46.160 What's this in reference to?

01:57:48.100 I totally forgot.

01:57:49.860 Can I redress her question?

01:57:51.260 Wait, I think she needs to finish her statement, though.

01:57:54.980 Sorry, Jordan.

01:57:56.220 Love you.

01:57:57.040 I guess.

01:57:59.220 Not in that way.

01:58:00.760 No, I didn't.

01:58:01.780 Listen.

01:58:02.320 I was like, whoa.

01:58:04.200 I guess if you want a woman, it depends what kind of woman you want. 1.00

01:58:07.740 Like, if you want a woman who's self-assured, who has self-worth, who has high self-confidence,

01:58:13.020 and who wants, like, a relationship or a partnership where there's, like, equal give and take, I feel like a woman like that is going to have a hard time being in a relationship with someone who says, don't do that.

01:58:24.720 And immediately, without any discussion, she says yes or no.

01:58:28.240 Wait, but hold on.

01:58:29.400 Hold on.

01:58:29.820 And we're going to get to your viral TikTok that we'll bring it back up.

01:58:34.880 There's a TikTok.

01:58:35.580 But, I mean, like, you said partnership.

01:58:38.700 Did the words equal?

01:58:39.900 Did she say equal?

01:58:41.520 Give and take.

01:58:42.220 Give and take.

01:58:42.860 Equal give and take.

01:58:43.500 Give and take.

01:58:44.820 Do you really want a partnership?

01:58:46.960 Do you really want equal?

01:58:49.140 I don't.

01:58:50.660 I think that a relationship is two people with different sets of strengths helping each other grow.

01:58:58.840 But so do you want a guy to lead?

01:59:01.740 I think that, yes, I would like a man who has vision for his life and he has ambition for his life.

01:59:11.480 And that that ambition and that vision is something that I am also, that we're going in the same direction so that we can partner together in that way.

01:59:20.560 Are you talking like career?

01:59:22.340 No, just like life overall.

01:59:23.640 It includes career for sure.

01:59:25.560 But I'm asking, do you want a guy to lead?

01:59:27.940 Do you want a leader in your relationship?

01:59:30.500 I think that I'm attracted to leadership qualities, yeah.

01:59:33.700 But do I want him to direct everything that I say and think?

01:59:36.760 No, I want, I think.

01:59:37.920 Well, yeah, you have autonomy.

01:59:39.040 You have autonomy, of course.

01:59:40.640 And I think that good leadership is one that is like, oh, like, what do you think?

01:59:47.080 Is there something that I might be missing?

01:59:48.900 Is there something that I don't understand, right?

01:59:50.820 That's taking everything that I think into consideration, also respects and honors me.

01:59:54.860 You can take into consideration.

01:59:57.120 You can even consult.

01:59:58.800 There can be thorough consultation.

02:00:01.300 But isn't it the case that the leader makes the final determination?

02:00:05.620 And if the final determination is, no.

02:00:10.000 No about something that I can and cannot do?

02:00:12.880 Sure.

02:00:13.460 Like wear something or not wear something?

02:00:15.220 You just said you want a leader, right?

02:00:16.860 So is a leader to you the only entailment of what a leader is, is only when you agree?

02:00:24.880 Or are there instances when a leader will make a determination that perhaps you personally disagree with, but you have to defer to their leadership?

02:00:33.860 I think it depends on what the subject is.

02:00:36.800 For instance, the guy...

02:00:37.680 You going to a pool party in a bikini.

02:00:41.080 Or a pool party, period.

02:00:42.760 Can I ask something?

02:00:44.260 Wait, let her finish and I'll let you... 1.00

02:00:45.580 I think that good leadership knows what its strengths are and knows what its weaknesses are.

02:00:50.140 My strength as the leader of the relationship is protecting the relationship.

02:01:00.380 Okay.

02:01:01.240 By precluding you from going to essentially a single event.

02:01:05.500 Well, we're not dating and I would never date someone who has that ideal.

02:01:09.480 So to me, for instance, I'm dating somebody who has more financial literacy than me.

02:01:14.460 Okay.

02:01:15.200 So if we're talking about something finance-based and he's like, don't do that.

02:01:19.340 I'm going to defer to him because he knows more.

02:01:22.160 But in a situation like a social situation where I might be wearing something that makes him feel uncomfortable, it's going to be a give and take.

02:01:30.180 And if he was like, no, don't do that because I'm uncomfortable with it, I would have...

02:01:34.420 It'd be a conversation.

02:01:35.680 What is there to...

02:01:36.860 What's the conversation?

02:01:38.340 I would say, why do you feel uncomfortable with that?

02:01:41.500 I think, you know, when it comes sometimes to conversations like this, I think no is a one-word sentence.

02:01:48.140 I don't need to justify my reason.

02:01:51.020 I can just say no and that should be it.

02:01:54.300 And that's why we're not dating.

02:01:56.380 That comes across as a dictatorship.

02:02:00.140 Yeah.

02:02:00.840 Honestly, that's what a relationship should be.

02:02:02.980 No.

02:02:03.480 It should be...

02:02:03.800 That's like what you want and that's fine.

02:02:05.640 Then find a woman who won't talk back to you. 1.00

02:02:07.280 No, I shouldn't have to for something like this.

02:02:10.880 I don't think it's necessary for me to have to justify my reasoning.

02:02:15.900 Then find a girl who wants that. 1.00

02:02:17.540 That's right.

02:02:19.520 You think that all male and women and female relationships should be exactly like that, where men say no and women say, okay, whatever you want, no questions asked.

02:02:29.780 So long as women continue to demand leadership qualities when said leadership qualities stand to benefit you. 0.95

02:02:37.480 For example, you said that in the guy you're dating right now, you enjoyed the leadership qualities, the initiative qualities when it came to he asked you out, he planned the date, he paid for the date, he moved things forward, he went for the first kiss.

02:02:52.460 You love it when men are leaders in that regard.

02:02:55.600 You only want leadership when it benefits you, right?

02:02:58.680 You don't want the other component of leadership when you have to defer to him in other situations.

02:03:05.300 So you only want a leader when it benefits you.

02:03:08.340 When it doesn't benefit you, all of a sudden it's 50-50, you want equality.

02:03:12.700 In order for you to be with a leader, you need to be a follower, point blank, period.

02:03:19.580 I think that that is a very black and white way of thinking about leadership.

02:03:23.820 I think that there are ways that you can lead that allows a little bit more give and take than what you're, than how you're thinking.

02:03:32.980 I feel like it's, I think, I think what you are, are you or wanting and what you think is one person is in complete and total leadership and one person is in complete and total submission.

02:03:46.280 If that's what you want and you want a girl who also wants that, then go for it.

02:03:50.660 I personally take-

02:03:51.600 Sounds like a good deal.

02:03:52.280 I take more of a yin-yang approach, meaning the man leads in most ways and then in some ways we have more discussion.

02:04:01.280 And then in some ways I take the leadership.

02:04:03.160 So equality, like the buffet of equality, you pick and choose what you want, the equality that benefits you, you disregard the equality that doesn't benefit you.

02:04:12.880 Well, the ways in which I lead-

02:04:13.720 It's like feminism, basically. 1.00

02:04:14.780 The ways in which I lead in the relationship, he benefits from those.

02:04:18.280 How do you lead in the relationship?

02:04:20.300 I mean, by having insights and discussions about things instead of just completely submitting to-

02:04:25.520 That's not leading.

02:04:27.160 Okay, well, I'm super-

02:04:30.080 What's the insight?

02:04:31.300 Huh?

02:04:31.480 What's the insight?

02:04:31.900 Well, for instance, if we had a discussion about if he was uncomfortable with something that I'd wear, I don't think it would be something where he says, I'm uncomfortable.

02:04:39.680 And I'm like, sure, no problem.

02:04:41.260 You know what I mean?

02:04:42.060 You'd have to receive justification.

02:04:44.340 We'd have a discussion about it, yeah.

02:04:46.000 And then you'd be like, well, you're a pansy and insecure for feeling this way.

02:04:52.300 No.

02:04:53.100 You're putting words in my mouth.

02:04:54.220 That's not what I would say.

02:04:54.640 Okay, fine.

02:04:55.120 I'm not being fair.

02:04:55.760 You would just continuously badger and badger and keep trying to seek the justification.

02:05:02.500 Why would I have to say more than, don't do it, this makes me uncomfortable?

02:05:08.640 I don't even think you need the, this makes me uncomfortable.

02:05:12.360 I think the, don't do it is sufficient.

02:05:14.840 Okay.

02:05:17.960 Then you do, then go ahead and do that.

02:05:19.740 So what would be, okay, we'll role play, we'll role play as your boyfriend.

02:05:23.300 Okay.

02:05:23.820 So I don't want you to wear that.

02:05:27.440 It makes me uncomfortable.

02:05:28.760 Oh, okay.

02:05:29.720 What, what about it makes you uncomfortable?

02:05:31.860 Too revealing.

02:05:32.780 Oh, it's too revealing.

02:05:33.540 Yeah.

02:05:33.700 And you don't want me to wear something too revealing because I just, I don't know.

02:05:39.340 Don't like it.

02:05:40.540 You don't know and you don't like it.

02:05:42.260 Is there a way in which we can get to you being able to articulate how you're feeling?

02:05:46.240 Because your feelings really matter to me and I want to make sure that you feel comfortable,

02:05:50.440 but what you're giving me isn't enough.

02:05:53.380 And I just want to make sure that I am, that we have good communication.

02:05:57.020 So can you go into a little bit more depth about why that makes you feel uncomfortable?

02:06:00.180 I just vaguely feel uncomfortable with it.

02:06:02.420 You vaguely feel uncomfortable?

02:06:04.580 I can't.

02:06:05.180 I mean, I don't know how else to precisely articulate this.

02:06:08.960 I know with certainty, I feel uncomfortable with it.

02:06:12.400 Okay.

02:06:12.680 Don't want you to go out to the party.

02:06:14.940 Okay.

02:06:15.260 So, so you don't want to communicate to me why, or you don't know?

02:06:20.280 I just did.

02:06:21.320 I don't know what else you want me to tell you.

02:06:23.160 I guess I want you to say why you feel uncomfortable with me going.

02:06:26.500 Is it because you think that I'm dressing for other men?

02:06:28.820 Uh, I just think it's, when it comes to this, it's a boundary that remains a reasonable dating

02:06:36.560 standard for commitment-minded men.

02:06:39.000 Okay.

02:06:39.500 So the way in which I'm dressing makes you feel like it's inappropriate for our relationship?

02:06:47.720 Correct.

02:06:48.580 Okay.

02:06:49.160 Yeah.

02:06:50.360 Okay.

02:06:51.040 So do you agree to not go to the party?

02:06:53.500 Uh, because I'm uncomfortable.

02:06:55.000 I think that this is a further discussion about our long-term compatibility.

02:07:01.780 Okay.

02:07:02.200 So you, you're essentially preempting the breakup then?

02:07:05.820 Well, I would say if I'm with someone who doesn't know how to communicate what he's feeling,

02:07:09.860 then we're not compatible.

02:07:10.640 How did I not communicate?

02:07:12.340 I'm literally communicating.

02:07:14.820 I know we're still role-playing a little bit, but.

02:07:16.960 I mean, yeah, if that's what you think communication is, I guess I'm looking for a deeper level of, uh,

02:07:21.980 self-awareness and self-understanding and communication, which means we're probably not compatible.

02:07:25.600 This is a standard that I want in the partner.

02:07:29.040 You're going out to this party.

02:07:31.100 Don't want you at the party.

02:07:32.680 Here, I'll add more.

02:07:34.580 So frequently, women will go to this party. 0.96

02:07:36.700 Even if you have no intention of talking to other men, men are going to come up to you.

02:07:40.420 There's potentially creepy men at this party.

02:07:42.660 They could try to, you know, put something in your drink.

02:07:45.080 I'm aware of this.

02:07:46.160 This is a complaint that a lot of women have. 1.00

02:07:47.740 I'm doing this to protect the relationship.

02:07:50.980 And as my role as protector in the relationship, I'm trying to protect you too.

02:07:54.840 I don't want something bad to happen at this party.

02:07:57.080 Yeah.

02:07:57.740 Okay.

02:07:58.240 I don't want you to go to it.

02:07:59.560 You don't want me to go to it because you, you care about me and you don't want to see

02:08:03.840 me get hurt.

02:08:05.640 I care about you.

02:08:06.560 I care about your safety and I care about the relationship.

02:08:08.980 Yeah.

02:08:09.520 Yeah.

02:08:10.060 Okay.

02:08:12.180 Yeah.

02:08:12.600 I'm going to the party.

02:08:13.440 I mean, if it makes you that, are you still going to the party?

02:08:15.860 If it makes you that uncomfortable because you really, you actually are scared for my

02:08:20.960 safety.

02:08:21.500 Like, are there reasons that make this party make you feel more uncomfortable than the

02:08:25.740 party I went to last week or whatever?

02:08:27.700 Oh, you went to a party last week?

02:08:28.980 Oh, you didn't tell me about that.

02:08:30.540 Later.

02:08:31.900 I'm out.

02:08:32.680 He's going in.

02:08:34.760 Uh, yeah.

02:08:36.060 I'm just saying like whoever I choose as a partner, if they're actually, if it's not

02:08:41.700 coming from insecurity, it's not becoming because it's not because of distrust, it's

02:08:45.980 not because of insecurity, it's genuinely for my protection, then I'm like, oh, I'm,

02:08:51.160 I'm open to hearing from you and I'm open to not going because this is a discussion that

02:08:55.700 we're having.

02:08:56.300 But if I sense that it's out of lack of self-awareness, lack of, and because of their

02:09:01.200 insecurity, then I'm like, let's tease that out a little bit because I don't think that

02:09:05.940 it's good to have a relationship where the other person feels insecure.

02:09:08.680 If it truly is like, if you wear that, if it's an insecurity, because I'm going to

02:09:14.760 get male attention and you don't like that, then that's an insecurity because I'm like,

02:09:18.700 like my man, trust me, like I'm all about you.

02:09:21.520 Like I'm not doing this for you at all.

02:09:23.020 Like I want you to have trust for me.

02:09:25.020 And if he's like, oh yeah, like, let me reflect on that.

02:09:27.440 That is because of my insecurity.

02:09:28.900 Then we could have that discussion.

02:09:30.320 But if it's truly about my protection and he's like, listen, I know the kinds of guys

02:09:35.340 who are there, like that outfit makes me so.

02:09:37.740 It's all about how you communicate it.

02:09:39.700 If he communicates into a way that's with sincere love and like protection for me, then I'm

02:09:44.680 like, listen, I don't understand, but you obviously are a man, you know how men think.

02:09:50.260 And like, we have a secure thing.

02:09:52.360 And like, you're really, if the guy I'm, if I'm the guy that I'm dating right now, he's

02:09:56.320 so self-aware.

02:09:56.960 He's so good at communication.

02:09:58.460 He's so trustworthy.

02:09:59.560 Like he's amazing.

02:10:00.440 So if he was like, if he was like, yeah, in a second, if he was like, please do not go to

02:10:05.080 that party dress like that, like it is not going to go well for you.

02:10:08.220 And I just feel so uncomfortable.

02:10:09.480 I would be like, I might not fully understand that, but it seems to me like this isn't coming

02:10:15.200 out of insecurity.

02:10:15.880 It's coming from protection for me.

02:10:17.720 Okay.

02:10:18.260 Like I'll, I'll, I get that.

02:10:20.680 Before I have her come in, I'll just say what you call insecurity. 0.72

02:10:23.660 I call having a standard.

02:10:25.200 I call having a boundary.

02:10:26.800 Go ahead.

02:10:27.380 Um, so earlier when we got the question about what is your ideal, you know, date or whatever,

02:10:33.980 and you said something along the lines of a man who is equally masculine and feminine.

02:10:40.120 I said balanced feminine and masculine energy.

02:10:42.980 Okay.

02:10:43.360 Would you describe your current boyfriend as feminine?

02:10:47.300 I would describe him as masculine, but he has feminine energy as well.

02:10:52.320 Okay.

02:10:52.740 That's all I wanted to ask.

02:10:53.580 Yeah.

02:10:53.760 He's very masculine.

02:10:54.560 Liz, did you have something from earlier?

02:10:57.380 Yeah.

02:10:57.940 I had, um, I guess like not every situation comes down to trust.

02:11:02.860 It's about a respect aspect.

02:11:04.500 What you, where you go is reflects your man.

02:11:08.000 And if you're going out there and everyone's like, you're like, bro, I saw your girl at

02:11:11.160 the club last week.

02:11:12.200 I saw your girl at a party.

02:11:13.320 Like, what the heck is she doing there? 1.00

02:11:15.000 Bob, like it makes her man look bad.

02:11:17.100 So in the Bible, it says avoid all appearances of evil.

02:11:21.160 Yeah.

02:11:21.540 So that's where she's going with that is that nobody, if somebody sees you

02:11:27.360 out doing that, they don't need to know anything about you.

02:11:30.000 They don't need to know why you went, who you went.

02:11:32.260 That was a second, third outfit you put on.

02:11:34.840 They're going to form their own opinions.

02:11:36.660 Well, yeah, I think honestly, and I think that it's, it's somewhere in between.

02:11:41.840 I don't think that it's a, this or that thing.

02:11:43.900 Like if my, my best friend is having her bachelorette and we're all going out, I'm not going to

02:11:49.100 not go because someone might think that I'm doing something with my man.

02:11:52.720 Me personally, I don't like environments like that.

02:11:55.580 I don't like, I don't like, like, I don't want a ton of male attention.

02:12:01.340 I like to dress in a more classy way.

02:12:03.000 Like that's just my opinion.

02:12:05.000 Like that's just how I am.

02:12:07.480 So I don't think I would ever have that issue, but I don't think that it's at the same time.

02:12:13.840 I just think the way in which you approach a conversation matters.

02:12:17.700 And by saying no and the person saying, okay, fine.

02:12:20.960 Wait, what's actually wrong with that?

02:12:22.960 What, what is actually wrong with a guy just saying no?

02:12:26.920 Well, I personally just don't like people who don't communicate.

02:12:31.880 That is communication.

02:12:33.100 In a way that.

02:12:34.400 That's literally communication.

02:12:35.660 Yeah, this is so serious to me.

02:12:37.840 I don't even need to justify it.

02:12:40.540 Okay.

02:12:40.980 Well, I feel like that would be like something that would kind of come up at the beginning.

02:12:44.700 And for me, a one word answer, a one word answer that doesn't have like, I guess, a deeper

02:12:53.060 understanding of why, like if that's already a thing that's like communicated between the

02:12:58.480 two of you and it's like, when you say no, I know exactly what that means.

02:13:01.620 Bye.

02:13:02.260 Right.

02:13:02.380 Wait, does this also just curious?

02:13:03.620 I know this is a little off top, maybe somewhat on, I mean, if, do we extend the same logic

02:13:08.340 to like consent?

02:13:10.200 What do you mean?

02:13:11.820 So like, does a girl need to justify her? 1.00

02:13:14.660 No.

02:13:17.720 Is that a reach?

02:13:19.060 I don't think that's a chat.

02:13:20.600 Is that a reach?

02:13:21.220 I don't think that's a reach.

02:13:22.160 Those are very, very different things.

02:13:24.240 If a woman is saying, no, you can't have access to me in this way, then a man should say no. 1.00

02:13:29.380 But you're saying, no, don't do, like you're telling the woman about her behavior.

02:13:34.040 Right.

02:13:34.540 I know.

02:13:34.700 You can say no.

02:13:35.620 If a woman's like, I want to come onto you and you're like, no, that's totally fine. 1.00

02:13:39.500 Yes.

02:13:39.740 It doesn't map on one to one, but I'm more so trying to probe the logic of you need

02:13:45.300 to be able to communicate.

02:13:47.860 Sometimes communicating no is completely appropriate.

02:13:51.760 Sometimes communicating no needs more.

02:13:54.920 It needs to be fleshed out.

02:13:56.060 It depends on the situation.

02:13:57.280 When it comes to sexual advances from a man or sexual advances from a woman, no is completely

02:14:03.420 fine.

02:14:04.100 I agree.

02:14:04.620 I think if a woman need only just say no, she need not justify her no in order for the 0.97

02:14:10.840 man to stop his pursuit.

02:14:13.380 Yeah.

02:14:13.900 A woman should just say no and that should be enough. 1.00

02:14:16.180 Yeah.

02:14:16.500 And vice versa.

02:14:17.260 If a woman's coming onto a man and the man says no, that's completely enough. 0.94

02:14:21.520 I mean, like kind of looking into the logic here.

02:14:23.540 Well, so you think that the same amount of communication, no matter what the discussion

02:14:28.740 is, should just be a one word sentence?

02:14:31.940 I don't, I don't think if, if a woman just says no, I think you'll leave it there. 1.00

02:14:37.800 I don't think you push it really.

02:14:40.040 When it comes to sexual advances.

02:14:41.400 Yes.

02:14:41.580 Sure.

02:14:42.060 But if you're having a conversation outside of that, like, uh, it's different.

02:14:48.660 Different topics require different amounts of explanation.

02:14:55.200 Like if you're talking about what to wear or whatever.

02:14:57.920 Well, that's possibly true.

02:14:59.520 I don't think in this specific situation we're talking about, I don't think as the

02:15:05.040 guy, if this is an expectation that you have in a relationship.

02:15:08.820 If this is the expectation that you have in a relationship is a very important prerequisite

02:15:12.700 for this conversation.

02:15:13.900 So.

02:15:14.360 That I would never agree to personally.

02:15:16.600 That is what you want.

02:15:17.480 Go ahead.

02:15:18.500 Yeah.

02:15:18.680 Find a woman who wants that. 0.99

02:15:19.640 To be clear.

02:15:20.020 I don't want that.

02:15:20.460 I can't imagine myself having this sort of conversation with a woman ever because one, 1.00

02:15:25.700 one, I don't go to bars.

02:15:27.180 I don't go to clubs.

02:15:28.080 I don't go to parties.

02:15:29.480 Don't, don't drink.

02:15:30.420 Don't do drugs.

02:15:31.140 Not my scene.

02:15:32.560 Similarly, I don't date to, I don't date women who go to par, uh, bars, clubs, and parties. 0.91

02:15:39.100 So I don't think it would even come up to begin with.

02:15:42.080 I don't think it would come up to, it hasn't, and it won't come up with, come up to begin

02:15:45.200 with in my relationship either because I don't go to clubs or parties either.

02:15:49.480 You don't?

02:15:50.720 No.

02:15:51.700 Okay.

02:15:51.920 I mean, I go to gatherings, like festive parties or whatever.

02:15:56.300 I might go to a pool party, but not like parties like that.

02:15:59.640 But I also like, if I do, if again, if my friend's having a bachelorette party, I, yeah,

02:16:04.860 I would go to that.

02:16:06.860 But that's not, that's not like my scene.

02:16:09.540 I do have to, I'm going to move it on just because we've spent a long time on this.

02:16:13.300 Um, I, I guess I will, and if anybody wants to add anything, we can, I guess I'll just

02:16:17.660 end it on some advice to the gentlemen here.

02:16:21.320 Gentlemen, don't be in a serious relationship with a woman who doesn't realize the importance 0.99

02:16:27.020 of limiting her own behavior to protect the relationship.

02:16:30.940 If you respect your partner, you don't engage in activities designed for single people.

02:16:35.960 That's my view.

02:16:37.400 You're welcome to disagree.

02:16:38.780 I don't disagree with that.

02:16:40.260 Oh, okay.

02:16:40.780 All right.

02:16:41.260 I don't disagree with that statement at all.

02:16:44.580 And I live it in my behavior. 1.00

02:16:49.480 Oh, fuck. 1.00

02:16:50.220 Didn't mean to press that off. 1.00

02:16:51.940 What?

02:16:52.480 Okay.

02:16:53.080 Um, I just, part of the confusion here is like you have this viral TikTok and you've said

02:17:01.240 other things on the show, which leads me to believe that you do want a more traditional

02:17:05.520 man, more masculine man.

02:17:08.560 You want a guy to pay for dates. 0.53

02:17:09.720 You want a guy to take initiative.

02:17:11.240 You want a guy to lead.

02:17:12.540 But this would be like a great example of a leadership moment where the guy is exercising

02:17:19.580 some degree of leadership and authority in the relationship.

02:17:23.080 But you're like, in this instance where it conceivably comes to your detriment in some way because

02:17:29.660 he is exerting some degree of control, you like, shut it down.

02:17:33.220 Killer of Serial donated $200. 0.96

02:17:35.960 You let me take the lead on everything else except for when it comes to you being promiscuous

02:17:40.980 and revealing with your body around random guys at a singles party.

02:17:45.460 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

02:17:47.580 Or Furrida.

02:17:48.200 Uh, okay.

02:17:50.500 Yo, Killer of Serial, appreciate it, man.

02:17:51.720 Do you have a, wait, uh, did you mean that?

02:17:56.020 Okay, Killer of Serial.

02:17:56.940 Do you have a response to Killer of Serial?

02:17:58.660 I mean, I think the assumption is that I am being promiscuous and revealing with my body

02:18:04.720 at parties, which in my opinion and in the opinion of the person I'm dating, I am not.

02:18:13.540 Okay.

02:18:14.780 Cool.

02:18:15.240 That's my response.

02:18:15.980 Cool.

02:18:16.640 Uh, really quick before we get into more of the chats, Nick, can you pull up Twitch?

02:18:19.700 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever, drop us a follow and a Prime sub, and then we'll

02:18:25.500 do Discord after this.

02:18:26.680 Um, guys, twitch.tv slash whatever, drop us a follow and a Prime sub.

02:18:30.760 So, guys, uh, Duren, thank you for the 10 gifted.

02:18:33.880 Lazy Toaster, thank you for the Prime.

02:18:35.080 Guys, it's been six minutes since we last got a Prime sub.

02:18:38.100 Uh, I think it's bugged.

02:18:39.300 Help?

02:18:39.980 By the way, guys, just to be clear, because I think some people, maybe my delivery's a

02:18:44.460 little, uh, uh, dry.

02:18:48.540 It's obviously a bit.

02:18:50.320 I don't, I'm not actually thinking it's bugged.

02:18:53.060 Like, people think I'm being, like, sus.

02:18:55.620 It's, I, is it, is it not clear, Nick and Maddie, like, is it not clear?

02:19:00.740 At first, I thought it was unclear, but now I get it.

02:19:05.120 Like, I thought people got that it was a bit, but then now I'm, like, people are thinking

02:19:09.360 that I'm, like, trying to abuse.

02:19:15.440 Like, I'm playing a, like, it's a ploy.

02:19:18.140 Yeah.

02:19:18.540 Like, I'm frauding.

02:19:19.500 Um, but I thought it was super obvious that it's a bit.

02:19:22.640 I don't know.

02:19:24.560 Yo, Hugh, thank you for the Prime.

02:19:26.060 I appreciate it.

02:19:26.660 I took it like that.

02:19:27.520 I thought, I thought my delivery made it seem like, especially since we do it every time.

02:19:32.760 Yeah.

02:19:33.080 I thought people would get that it's a bit, but I don't know.

02:19:35.240 Apparently, some people were, like, Brian is defrauding his, he's trying to bait people.

02:19:39.660 I'm, like, no, it's a bit.

02:19:40.660 Okay, whatever.

02:19:41.080 Um, uh, Discord, guys.

02:19:43.300 Discord.gg slash whatever.

02:19:44.840 Drops a follow in the Prime sub.

02:19:46.220 Guys, we post the BTS stuff.

02:19:48.180 Post the BTS stuff.

02:19:50.200 Uh, oh, they played.

02:19:53.560 That's weird.

02:19:54.860 On the Desiree one.

02:19:56.200 Guys, Discord.gg slash whatever.

02:19:58.320 Join the Discord, guys.

02:19:59.540 Join the, join the Discord, boys.

02:20:02.160 We got almost 10K members on the Discord.

02:20:05.740 We need you boys on there.

02:20:07.440 Discord.gg slash whatever.

02:20:09.260 Easy.

02:20:10.100 Easy.

02:20:10.780 Okay.

02:20:11.700 Uh, come back.

02:20:13.020 Boom.

02:20:14.040 Maddie, can you read this one?

02:20:16.020 Brian, this is your self-appointed health coach, per your request. 0.96

02:20:21.560 Time to lose some weight, fatty. 0.89

02:20:23.480 Yo, Brian is so fat that he goes to a restaurant, looks at the menu, and says, okay. 1.00

02:20:29.460 Damn, bro. 1.00

02:20:31.480 Roasted. 1.00

02:20:33.360 Damn. 1.00

02:20:34.620 That was, hold on. 1.00

02:20:36.920 Hold on, bro.

02:20:37.780 That was funny. 1.00

02:20:38.340 Damn. 1.00

02:20:38.500 You are already dead. 1.00

02:20:40.600 What? 1.00

02:20:41.420 Damn, bro. 1.00

02:20:42.340 That's me. 1.00

02:20:43.240 Damn. 0.99

02:20:43.640 You're right, dude. 1.00

02:20:44.920 I need to lose weight.

02:20:46.660 Don't forget how much influence TV and social media has on socializing men and women.

02:20:53.380 Yo, name taken.

02:20:54.260 Thank you for the message, man.

02:20:55.140 Really appreciate it.

02:20:56.180 We pirate.

02:20:56.700 Thanks for the message.

02:20:57.340 Appreciate it, even though you arrested me.

02:20:59.180 Thank you, bro.

02:20:59.720 Appreciate it, guys.

02:21:00.360 Thank you for the messages.

02:21:01.140 Maddie, next one.

02:21:02.040 Thank you.

02:21:02.100 Women can talk about custody unless you have an NDA slash also all men don't want their 0.90

02:21:10.980 woman in a bikini.

02:21:12.100 Real men won't let you go clubbing or have girls' nights out. 1.00

02:21:15.780 We know that they are our standards.

02:21:18.820 Yo, Craig, thanks for the message, man.

02:21:20.560 Really appreciate it.

02:21:22.480 And, yeah, I think, you know, maybe, I don't know what percentage of men would be cool with

02:21:28.440 it.

02:21:28.840 Maybe some guys just don't care.

02:21:30.000 Probably most guys don't care, actually.

02:21:32.380 What do you guys think?

02:21:33.180 Do you think most men don't care?

02:21:34.640 Yeah.

02:21:35.320 About this.

02:21:35.780 My husband wouldn't care. 0.99

02:21:36.560 Do you think it's like a small minority of men like me who give a shit about this? 0.99

02:21:41.800 My husband wouldn't care. 0.99

02:21:43.700 I mean, he would care if I went clubbing.

02:21:45.460 Yeah.

02:21:46.240 That's girls' night out. 0.78

02:21:48.040 He'd be like, when are you going?

02:21:49.440 Are you going again next week?

02:21:50.520 He'd be like, what are you waiting for?

02:21:51.960 Go have fun.

02:21:52.820 He'd be like, are you going with Jordan?

02:21:53.920 Yeah.

02:21:54.160 Okay.

02:21:55.580 All right.

02:21:56.200 We have Maddie, can you?

02:21:57.720 Oh, wait.

02:21:58.100 Oh, we still need to go around on this one.

02:21:59.840 Let me read the, uh, Maddie, can you read this?

02:22:01.920 The word of God talks about all sorts of extraterrestrials.

02:22:05.400 Also, we haven't discovered billions of galaxies.

02:22:08.180 There's just a physical dome over the earth.

02:22:11.380 Amos, nine, six.

02:22:13.300 Hail and well met.

02:22:14.400 NASA just wants you to go help.

02:22:15.260 Lol paladins donated $200 and two cents.

02:22:19.300 It's simple be anything that gives her power is good.

02:22:22.020 Anything that benefits a man is bad. 0.77

02:22:24.500 It is about trust and the fact that she can go out to shop around and you won't leave. 0.99

02:22:29.080 She trusts you're a cuck. 0.99

02:22:32.560 She's back there eating. 0.99

02:22:33.620 She heard it.

02:22:34.280 Lol paladins.

02:22:35.320 She'll address that.

02:22:36.600 She's coming back right now.

02:22:37.960 She's eating some.

02:22:39.180 What is she eating?

02:22:39.940 What are you eating?

02:22:40.720 Salad.

02:22:41.660 Salad?

02:22:42.100 That actually is.

02:22:44.180 Typical.

02:22:45.620 Are you vegan too?

02:22:47.820 Not a vegan?

02:22:48.880 Okay.

02:22:49.580 Just checking.

02:22:50.280 It's okay.

02:22:50.740 Any vegans here?

02:22:52.840 Liz?

02:22:53.700 No.

02:22:54.860 Jordan?

02:22:55.300 The assumption is crazy.

02:22:58.100 Ava?

02:22:58.840 No.

02:22:59.640 Morgan?

02:23:00.340 No.

02:23:01.540 Morgan's a protein shake enjoyer.

02:23:05.900 We love a good protein shake.

02:23:07.920 She's a protein shake enjoyer. 1.00

02:23:09.340 Protein anything.

02:23:10.060 Lol paladins.

02:23:10.580 Thank you, man.

02:23:10.980 Uh, where was it?

02:23:12.300 This one?

02:23:12.880 We were, did we, hold on.

02:23:15.020 How many galaxies?

02:23:17.440 Billions.

02:23:18.480 It is estimated that there are between 200 billion to 2 trillion galaxies.

02:23:24.920 Really?

02:23:25.560 That gives, does that ever, you ever think of something really, really big and it makes

02:23:31.780 you uncomfortable?

02:23:33.180 Yeah.

02:23:33.660 And I'm not talking about.

02:23:35.520 Yeah.

02:23:35.960 Like the ocean.

02:23:36.960 Oh my God.

02:23:36.980 Oh my God.

02:23:37.980 Talking about.

02:23:38.500 Like so big that you think, wow, I'm just a speck of dust.

02:23:43.720 It makes me uncomfortable.

02:23:45.660 Yeah.

02:23:46.760 Like something that big.

02:23:50.380 Okay.

02:23:51.160 All right.

02:23:51.900 Existential dread.

02:23:53.060 I know.

02:23:53.640 Take a break.

02:23:54.180 Shake it off.

02:23:55.080 Okay.

02:23:56.620 What's a parse?

02:23:57.700 Most galaxies are 1,000 to 100,000 parsecs.

02:24:01.880 I don't know.

02:24:02.420 Let's not bring sex into this universe. 1.00

02:24:04.700 Okay.

02:24:06.760 Two billion, 200 billion to 2 trillion galaxies.

02:24:10.100 How many planets?

02:24:11.900 Planets in the universe.

02:24:14.160 How many?

02:24:17.880 How do we all know that though?

02:24:20.100 What changes to science?

02:24:22.540 I don't know.

02:24:22.980 Whatever.

02:24:23.700 Maybe the chat can help.

02:24:24.800 Is that just an educated guess?

02:24:28.500 Okay.

02:24:29.260 We have pelagic.

02:24:31.100 Sorry.

02:24:32.160 Pelagic.

02:24:33.020 Never, ever explain yourself.

02:24:35.240 This came in about 20 minutes ago.

02:24:38.900 Not sure what it's related to.

02:24:41.000 Oh, probably when I was just like, just no.

02:24:44.300 Just no.

02:24:45.500 That's it, right?

02:24:46.680 Ladies, what do you guys, I don't know. 1.00

02:24:48.040 It was mostly me and her.

02:24:49.880 Is just no sufficient enough?

02:24:53.480 So, I don't know that no would be sufficient enough, but I'd be impressed if I even got that

02:24:58.120 kind of a conversation out of my husband.

02:25:01.060 What you two were doing back and forth.

02:25:03.340 That was good?

02:25:04.340 No, I'm saying that's unrealistic.

02:25:06.440 Oh, what do you mean?

02:25:08.020 What she was hoping to get from you.

02:25:10.180 I wasn't giving enough?

02:25:11.580 Or I was doing too much?

02:25:12.860 No.

02:25:13.060 I was giving?

02:25:13.920 No, I was saying.

02:25:14.880 What she was asking of you was like a lot.

02:25:17.180 Men don't do what you did. 1.00

02:25:19.020 Yeah.

02:25:19.380 Wow.

02:25:20.080 Yeah.

02:25:20.620 Which is engaged.

02:25:21.320 To the extent of what you gave her when she kept coming back.

02:25:24.760 Oh, I gave her.

02:25:25.880 I'm saying.

02:25:26.740 You gave enough.

02:25:27.580 I'm saying men don't normally do that.

02:25:30.320 They don't normally give enough.

02:25:31.060 I'm saying I'm impressed that you even did that and most men are not going to do this.

02:25:35.040 You're saying most men just like after the third, like, well, I still need to know a

02:25:39.160 little bit.

02:25:39.460 They just punch the wall. 1.00

02:25:41.180 They punch a fucking hole through the wall. 1.00

02:25:43.560 They'd just be like, I'm done. 1.00

02:25:45.620 And leave the room. 0.76

02:25:46.580 Yeah.

02:25:46.720 I think that's a second conversation.

02:25:51.480 I think the initial no, she's going to do what she's going to do.

02:25:54.840 If you're still there when she comes home, I think that's a second conversation to have

02:25:58.760 later.

02:25:59.080 Pearl was being abusive. 1.00

02:26:01.340 Pearl, did you hear that, Pearl?

02:26:02.680 No, that's not what I said.

02:26:03.880 No, it's like. 1.00

02:26:04.520 Pearl, you are an abuser. 0.98

02:26:06.080 Almost like he's overcompensating. 1.00

02:26:06.320 You abused me, Pearl.

02:26:07.780 Just men getting. 0.97

02:26:08.560 Don't.

02:26:08.640 Eat your macaroni or whatever you've met.

02:26:10.820 They're like, you know what?

02:26:11.540 Men do you talk about their feelings that much?

02:26:13.540 Especially not initially.

02:26:14.560 No, they don't.

02:26:14.880 You were so right.

02:26:16.000 I was emotionally abused by Pearl.

02:26:17.980 The moment you come back.

02:26:19.000 Oh, my goodness.

02:26:19.020 I think you must understand.

02:26:19.600 Wait a minute.

02:26:20.200 I did not say that.

02:26:21.520 You're getting misconstrued.

02:26:22.640 You're literally misunderstood.

02:26:23.500 Go press the line.

02:26:24.620 I need the cosine.

02:26:26.140 Watch the tape.

02:26:27.180 Roll the tape back.

02:26:29.080 Co-sign from all the table here.

02:26:31.460 I need an apology from Pearl.

02:26:33.860 No.

02:26:34.160 She was emotionally and mentally and spiritually abusive.

02:26:37.340 Well, but at the same time, you were role-playing.

02:26:39.860 So, you see, it wasn't really real.

02:26:40.800 She was working you. 1.00

02:26:41.700 It was real.

02:26:42.760 Me and Pearl, we had eye contact.

02:26:45.000 I felt it.

02:26:46.740 Yeah, I think we all felt it.

02:26:48.600 We had a moment.

02:26:49.420 I feel like.

02:26:50.380 An abusive moment on Pearl's behalf.

02:26:52.220 Oh, my goodness.

02:26:53.880 Look at this abuser coming back. 0.96

02:26:56.180 Chat, welcome back the abuser.

02:26:58.820 Oh, my goodness.

02:27:00.500 No, honestly, my husband would leave the room, and I would just put on Grey's Anatomy.

02:27:04.640 The husband would leave the room?

02:27:06.320 Like, he would be like, listen.

02:27:09.560 No, it was no.

02:27:10.380 And he'd leave.

02:27:11.060 And I'd watch Netflix.

02:27:12.020 So, I get a little.

02:27:13.000 Do I get credit?

02:27:14.460 I get a little credit, then?

02:27:15.720 Is that what you're saying?

02:27:16.040 I give you some credit for going.

02:27:18.040 For trying to satisfy what she was trying to get out of that.

02:27:20.400 Getting deep conversations from a man is work.

02:27:22.460 Yeah.

02:27:23.040 Because, like, they don't know how to go really deep.

02:27:24.420 And to even get that out of a guy you're dating, let alone expect to get that out of your husband.

02:27:28.680 Wait, what is that Patrice O'Neill bit when it comes to dating? 1.00

02:27:32.020 It's like, we don't want to be alone.

02:27:36.680 We just want you around.

02:27:39.800 Wait, hold on.

02:27:40.420 Yeah.

02:27:41.000 Patrice, alone, around.

02:27:42.960 It goes.

02:27:44.400 Yeah, I couldn't do that.

02:27:45.140 Men want to be alone, but we don't.

02:27:48.040 Wait.

02:27:50.240 Men want to be alone, but we don't want to be by ourselves.

02:27:54.980 Does that make sense?

02:27:56.780 I feel like the first thing you said.

02:27:58.440 A little bit.

02:27:58.900 It does, yeah.

02:27:59.900 Probably.

02:28:00.700 Yeah.

02:28:01.620 Building.

02:28:02.320 Yeah.

02:28:02.760 Men want to be alone, but we don't want to be by ourselves.

02:28:05.840 Like, we want you, like, around the corner, you know?

02:28:10.420 That's what he says in the bit.

02:28:10.700 I think that's what he says in the bit.

02:28:11.800 Yeah, I know.

02:28:12.240 I'm doing the bit.

02:28:13.340 You want us there when you want us there.

02:28:14.340 Like, around the corner.

02:28:16.300 Right.

02:28:16.940 Then you want us there.

02:28:18.900 But you don't always want us there.

02:28:20.660 In the house, but not necessarily in the same way.

02:28:21.780 You want us there, but not necessarily right there.

02:28:25.200 Yeah.

02:28:26.000 Yeah.

02:28:26.140 Yeah.

02:28:26.280 That's always nice.

02:28:27.260 I think that's a flaw, though, to be honest.

02:28:29.360 Probably.

02:28:31.200 Maybe not.

02:28:31.860 Just kidding.

02:28:32.120 Humans are flawed.

02:28:33.600 Where were, oh, we got to get through more of the chats.

02:28:35.500 Hold on, guys.

02:28:36.300 One second here.

02:28:38.480 So, wait.

02:28:40.320 Was there one that came through for you?

02:28:43.640 But you were back there.

02:28:45.160 You heard it.

02:28:46.020 You heard them.

02:28:50.260 I do feel a little bit abused, though.

02:28:52.200 I just want to let you know.

02:28:53.880 I'm so sorry.

02:28:54.980 And that's how I feel.

02:28:56.360 Girl, I didn't say that.

02:28:57.160 You have to explain why you feel that way, though.

02:29:00.740 She didn't.

02:29:01.580 He twisted it and did something weird.

02:29:03.860 When you do that, I feel this way.

02:29:07.560 Okay.

02:29:09.240 I just feel like.

02:29:10.560 I'm sorry you feel that way.

02:29:12.140 I know.

02:29:12.940 I just find it funny how. 0.97

02:29:14.880 This is the covert, narcissistic woman, Brian. 1.00

02:29:17.840 They look to devour you. 0.98

02:29:19.280 So, I mean, like a good devourer or a bad devourer?

02:29:25.660 Probably bad, as he's calling it.

02:29:27.560 Hail and well met.

02:29:29.200 Lol Paladin's donated $200.02.

02:29:32.920 She is allowed to go out by herself dressed however she wants.

02:29:37.120 And when she comes back, she can collect her stuff and go live with her new boyfriend.

02:29:41.760 Good luck.

02:29:42.800 Hopefully he treats you better.

02:29:44.700 Bye.

02:29:44.840 Listen, gentlemen, she can do what she wants.

02:29:50.720 And you can also not be in a relationship with her anymore.

02:29:54.820 I agree with that statement.

02:29:56.620 That's fair.

02:29:58.080 I think everyone should be with the kind of person they want to be with.

02:30:04.480 I do kind of low-key think I need a slave, though, in a relationship.

02:30:08.600 I mean, case in point.

02:30:09.820 You want to be with someone who wants a female slave? 1.00

02:30:11.940 Be with Brian, everybody. 0.96

02:30:13.160 I think it's a good arrangement.

02:30:16.180 Yeah, it is. 0.96

02:30:17.000 If you want to be a female slave, be with Brian, because that's what he wants. 1.00

02:30:19.800 I don't really ask. 0.96

02:30:21.060 I'm pretty low-maintenance.

02:30:23.200 You don't really offer that Fifty Shades is a great thing going on, though.

02:30:27.280 I think that that was a beautiful, beautiful thing that you just said.

02:30:30.820 That was so beautiful, because that's really what you want.

02:30:32.940 And that's, like, the essence of, like, this vibe and this show.

02:30:35.680 Wait, did you say it's beautiful?

02:30:38.120 It's beautiful.

02:30:38.840 That I want a slave?

02:30:39.360 Fifty Shades is a great package.

02:30:40.820 I think that that really demonstrates, like, this show, who you are, the people you attract.

02:30:45.640 Like, if you want that, that's this vibe.

02:30:49.960 Self-proclaimed.

02:30:50.920 She should be on the first date willing to deep clean your house, is all I'm saying.

02:30:54.920 Yeah, exactly.

02:30:56.140 If you want to be like that, be with someone like Brian.

02:30:59.280 That's exactly what it is.

02:31:00.580 Is that a date or an appointment, a cleaning appointment?

02:31:03.740 He hired a maid.

02:31:04.460 I'd be like, same time tomorrow?

02:31:06.820 You know what's so crazy is that, like, the way that my man treats me and how he honors

02:31:12.800 and respects me makes me want to deep clean his home.

02:31:15.960 Like, literally, it makes me want to do that.

02:31:18.340 But if he was like, I want a woman who wants to deep clean my home, I'd be like, oh, I don't 1.00

02:31:21.800 think that this is the vibe for us.

02:31:23.940 But how my man approaches me, I'm just like, wow, you just, like, you listen to me, you honor

02:31:30.220 me, you respect me, like, you have conversation with me.

02:31:33.020 Like, I'm just, it literally inspires me to want to deep clean his home, and I have.

02:31:37.780 What?

02:31:39.240 That makes sense.

02:31:39.820 So you'd be, you're willing to deep clean the home.

02:31:42.540 Oh, 100%.

02:31:43.780 I desire to.

02:31:44.960 You desire to.

02:31:45.760 I desire to cook for him, to clean for him, to haktua, honestly, all of it.

02:31:51.060 All right.

02:31:51.760 What is that?

02:31:53.140 It's basically give a blow down.

02:31:54.240 There's this guy doing an interview.

02:31:56.840 No.

02:31:57.400 Maybe he never heard.

02:31:58.600 Maybe he asked.

02:31:59.040 But the moment that a guy wants, the moment that a guy wants those things from you, or

02:32:05.620 expects them.

02:32:06.540 It's okay for him to want them.

02:32:08.660 But not express it to you directly?

02:32:10.320 I'm a little confused then.

02:32:11.260 No.

02:32:11.620 He can express that he likes it.

02:32:14.360 Guys are pretty direct.

02:32:15.980 But I think what's, I think what's better is, like, he just treats me, what I like, what

02:32:19.960 I personally want in my relationship, is to not have somebody who wants to, or expresses,

02:32:25.940 like, I want female slavery. 1.00

02:32:28.080 Like, I don't like that energy, and I don't like that vibe, which means we're incompatible,

02:32:31.560 which is totally fine.

02:32:32.520 What I like is when a man is so masculine, but also has some feminine qualities that's,

02:32:39.480 like, listens to me and understands me and, like, is kind and nurturing in his own way.

02:32:45.580 Of course, not, like, 90% of the way.

02:32:47.800 90% of the time, I want him to be out there, working, being his, like, masculine leader stuff, 0.67

02:32:53.840 like, planning dates, whatever, and then, but he also has a little bit of, like, listening

02:32:58.100 to me and caring for me, and then that just, it makes me want to clean his whole house.

02:33:02.480 It does.

02:33:04.000 It inspires me to do that.

02:33:05.560 That's how, like, most of those dynamics work out, though.

02:33:08.300 Yeah.

02:33:08.700 Yeah, I really enjoy it.

02:33:11.040 Like, the traditional dynamics.

02:33:12.220 He's never explained, he's never once said, I want a woman who cleans my house.

02:33:16.580 Never once said that.

02:33:18.720 But you know what I'm doing?

02:33:20.440 But he's thinking.

02:33:21.180 He could be thinking it, and what he does is he shows me through his actions that he

02:33:25.500 cares about me, that he respects me, that he honors me, and it inspires me to want to

02:33:30.820 do whatever I can to make his life easier and better.

02:33:33.940 Well, this would be almost like saying, well, a girl doesn't want a guy to be a provider, 0.74

02:33:43.620 doesn't want a guy to pay for first dates. 1.00

02:33:47.800 But in so doing, by her not really caring about that, she ends up receiving it.

02:33:55.520 So she doesn't care about that, doesn't want it, but the guy will still, because she doesn't 0.99

02:34:02.480 want it, the guy wants to give it to her more.

02:34:06.080 Which actually makes a little bit of sense.

02:34:08.700 Except in the case for you, you're very vocal about your desire for men to pay for dates.

02:34:19.000 I mean, it's not about, it's about the way in which you vocalize it, is what I think.

02:34:25.540 Like, for instance, saying female slave versus like, I really enjoy when like a woman likes 1.00

02:34:32.000 and thinks about how to make my life easier.

02:34:34.100 And then it'd be like, oh, how could I do that?

02:34:36.100 And it'd be like, oh, like, I'm really busy.

02:34:38.860 Like, I don't, you know, have time to clean my house.

02:34:41.340 So like, that would just make me feel really like good and happy.

02:34:43.520 It's about how you communicate it.

02:34:46.180 And yes, I will say that a lot of men actually aren't that good at that, which is not their

02:34:50.980 fault.

02:34:51.440 Because we socialize men to not really be able to communicate with like that much like

02:34:57.200 emotional dynamism.

02:34:58.400 Or are they just naturally like that?

02:35:01.100 I feel like they're just naturally like that.

02:35:02.780 No, they are.

02:35:03.820 I mean, they are naturally and also socialize.

02:35:06.300 It's both.

02:35:07.040 But at the end of the day, I feel like the socialize.

02:35:09.220 Men are better communicators than women, hot take. 1.00

02:35:11.840 They're more direct communicators.

02:35:13.420 That's good communication.

02:35:15.480 Yeah.

02:35:17.140 That's what you think.

02:35:17.820 Thank you for proving, thank you for making my argument for me.

02:35:20.620 Yeah.

02:35:20.820 Men are more direct communicators.

02:35:23.260 Yeah.

02:35:24.280 But they're not, they're not as like expansive.

02:35:28.060 They don't get into like as many details.

02:35:31.840 They're not as thorough.

02:35:34.180 Thorough.

02:35:34.760 Yeah.

02:35:35.200 No, I mean, I see what you're saying, but you got to understand also, like when I say,

02:35:40.260 when I use the term slave, like it's a bit tongue in cheek to degree.

02:35:45.040 I'm not like, although if a girl was like down to be a slave, I'm not going to say no.

02:35:52.060 I'm not going to say no.

02:35:53.260 I'm not going to turn her away.

02:35:54.980 Be like, Brian, I will do anything you ask.

02:35:58.260 I will everything.

02:36:01.400 I'm not going to say no to that.

02:36:02.860 I think men communicate and speak.

02:36:05.620 Desiree gets the no.

02:36:06.420 I think men communicate and speak very directly because they think very directly.

02:36:10.240 Like their brains are not orchestrated how ours are.

02:36:13.660 When they ask us how's our day, we're going to tell them what happened.

02:36:17.000 Went to the supermarket and I found this and this is on sale.

02:36:19.600 So, oh, yeah, I met this girl and I got her number and we're going to meet at Starbucks.

02:36:24.120 And, oh, yeah, I found this book.

02:36:25.660 He's going to tell me my day went fine.

02:36:27.980 He's like, it's good.

02:36:29.460 Yeah, we're not.

02:36:30.260 That's, I mean, men are very simple creatures and they think how they speak and they speak

02:36:36.100 how they think.

02:36:36.900 Yeah, we're not going to include all this flowery language and like exposition and a preamble.

02:36:42.700 But that doesn't make it better than women. 1.00

02:36:44.940 We're going to get right to the point.

02:36:45.000 Intro, outro.

02:36:46.260 But it's just different.

02:36:47.460 It's different than women. 1.00

02:36:48.440 I think men and women need to understand that we communicate differently and kind of meet

02:36:52.700 each other a little bit in the middle.

02:36:54.900 Salubrious.

02:36:55.740 Yeah.

02:36:57.200 Salubrious.

02:36:59.140 Sorry, I heard this new word salubrious and I'm trying to find a way to say it.

02:37:04.180 What does it mean?

02:37:05.020 It means pleasant, not of a place.

02:37:07.840 Pleasant, not run down.

02:37:10.000 Pleasant to great.

02:37:10.660 Maybe I got to start saying I need a salubrious woman. 1.00

02:37:13.160 We do wish for men to be more elaborate and men wish for women to be more direct and we're

02:37:17.320 always trying to find that center balance.

02:37:19.520 That's great.

02:37:19.740 That's beautiful, George.

02:37:22.720 All right.

02:37:23.720 Who cares?

02:37:24.540 Have Maddie.

02:37:25.160 Oh, go ahead, Maddie.

02:37:25.840 Read it.

02:37:27.020 That's written in Hmong, but I don't know how to pronounce it.

02:37:29.680 I can try.

02:37:31.500 Disappointing.

02:37:31.940 Go ahead.

02:37:32.420 Try.

02:37:32.600 I don't know how to do this, guys.

02:37:45.020 I also can't see the end of it.

02:37:48.200 Do you understand it?

02:37:49.180 Stop.

02:37:49.860 Lo si.

02:37:50.840 This is, okay, I've never seen these.

02:37:52.580 I think she read it how I would read it, too.

02:37:54.000 I think some of these aren't even, like, regular words.

02:37:57.940 I don't either.

02:37:58.940 I understand.

02:37:59.940 Hey, yeah.

02:38:00.840 I understand a little, but, yeah.

02:38:04.480 All right.

02:38:05.240 Thank you.

02:38:05.660 Who cares?

02:38:06.180 Appreciate it.

02:38:07.520 When it reveals itself.

02:38:09.360 Wait, did we read this one?

02:38:10.620 I feel like a failure.

02:38:13.320 Did we read this one?

02:38:14.780 I don't know.

02:38:15.660 I think so.

02:38:16.500 I think we need Pearl to read it.

02:38:18.240 Go ahead, Pearl.

02:38:19.640 Brian, understand manipulation when it reveals itself.

02:38:22.480 This type of woman is very dangerous. 1.00

02:38:24.400 I can see it.

02:38:25.080 Once they have you emotionally, they have you for the taking.

02:38:28.220 Facts.

02:38:30.840 You know what, Pearl?

02:38:32.900 You're going to have to redeem yourself from the abuse.

02:38:35.940 I need you to sing the Queen of the Night aria.

02:38:38.660 Do it.

02:38:40.500 Do it.

02:38:41.140 We're not even in a relationship, and you're saying, do it, and you expect me to just say,

02:38:45.020 sure.

02:38:47.160 Just do it.

02:38:48.580 No, you shouldn't have been crisis.

02:38:49.780 I'm not going to do it.

02:38:50.500 This plays until you...

02:38:52.900 Audio?

02:38:53.900 You said tomorrow.

02:38:55.020 So just do it.

02:38:57.060 Make your dreams come true.

02:38:59.380 We don't...

02:38:59.860 It doesn't stop until you start.

02:39:02.000 Go ahead.

02:39:03.720 I think men and women...

02:39:05.300 Wait, that's not...

02:39:06.100 Wait, is that it?

02:39:07.380 Yeah.

02:39:07.640 Got it.

02:39:08.520 Nothing is impossible.

02:39:09.420 Does he really keep going?

02:39:11.640 Wow, you're really not.

02:39:12.980 I feel like he's looking at me like...

02:39:14.440 Anyone else would quit, and you're not going to stop there.

02:39:17.080 Wow, and actually, he's going to keep going.

02:39:19.100 He's going to be the most personal.

02:39:20.660 Do it.

02:39:23.580 Just do it.

02:39:26.680 Yes, you can.

02:39:28.640 Just do it.

02:39:29.500 I'm a motivator right now.

02:39:30.820 Bruh.

02:39:33.280 Thank you, Shia.

02:39:34.240 Appreciate it, dude.

02:39:35.140 Thank you for helping us.

02:39:36.180 We tried.

02:39:37.060 We tried, Shia.

02:39:37.960 We tried.

02:39:38.800 Maddie, actually, Jordan's going to read these.

02:39:42.140 The premise of the...

02:39:43.960 For the forum, what is...

02:39:46.000 Number one thing men do in a relationship, that is the number one flag to end it. 0.72

02:39:51.480 And do you think that reason is the national is happening?

02:39:55.980 I think you need to work on your...

02:39:57.280 That reason is the...

02:39:58.260 Grammar and wording.

02:40:00.580 The national.

02:40:01.600 Do you think that reason is...

02:40:02.700 Pearl, can you scoot into the table?

02:40:03.420 That's my response.

02:40:05.600 I think you need to...

02:40:07.000 Grammar and spelling.

02:40:08.160 And spelling and how you phrase things.

02:40:11.000 Oh, God.

02:40:11.420 Number one thing men do.

02:40:12.640 What's the question?

02:40:12.700 Okay, so here, we'll just do, what is the number one thing men do in a relationship that

02:40:16.720 is a red flag?

02:40:19.880 That is a red flag?

02:40:22.720 I got it.

02:40:23.460 I'll be back.

02:40:24.300 Go ahead.

02:40:24.860 Go ahead, ladies. 1.00

02:40:25.860 Speak amongst yourselves.

02:40:26.580 Why don't we go this way?

02:40:27.580 I've been talking a lot.

02:40:29.340 Facts.

02:40:29.840 Okay.

02:40:30.680 You.

02:40:31.440 Me?

02:40:32.180 You first.

02:40:32.720 I don't think I really care about this that much, but just not listening, you know? 0.99

02:40:39.940 Just listening to you talk, even if it's, like, bullshit, you know? 0.96

02:40:46.420 I think every woman just wants to be heard, but... 1.00

02:40:50.600 Active listening, too.

02:40:51.940 Like, not just being heard, but actually listening, responding, nodding, showing that you're actually

02:40:57.280 present.

02:40:57.780 Yeah, but I also understand that's not the way men work, so I'm, like, okay with it. 0.57

02:41:02.960 I don't really care that much, but I think that's a big reason why a lot of people break

02:41:08.960 up these days.

02:41:11.280 Well, I think men can learn from women, and women can learn from men.

02:41:15.420 So men can learn to listen.

02:41:19.080 Agreed.

02:41:19.480 I think my biggest red flag is just lying.

02:41:25.740 Small gasoline.

02:41:27.260 Good.

02:41:31.360 Yeah, I would probably say the same thing as lying.

02:41:35.980 A lot of men lie these days.

02:41:39.020 From my experience.

02:41:42.020 Yeah.

02:41:43.060 Yeah.

02:41:44.500 Lying, definitely.

02:41:46.360 What's a different one?

02:41:47.340 Because then it creates a lack of trust.

02:41:48.100 So, once trust is broken, it's not easy to get back, and then the man will have to work

02:41:54.420 extra, extra hard to get that trust back.

02:41:57.220 Or a woman. 0.78

02:41:58.660 Yeah.

02:41:58.980 Yeah, or a woman. 0.98

02:41:59.160 I mean, it definitely goes both ways.

02:42:00.620 For sure.

02:42:01.980 Okay, you go.

02:42:03.060 I don't know what you guys are talking about.

02:42:05.140 Like, a big red flag from a man in a relationship.

02:42:09.580 Or just, like, why you think people are breaking up.

02:42:12.560 I think people are breaking up because they always think they can find someone better, but

02:42:15.900 it's not realistic.

02:42:17.140 True.

02:42:18.280 I agree with that.

02:42:19.580 I haven't heard that one.

02:42:23.980 Oh, look at that.

02:42:25.380 Look at that.

02:42:27.320 What?

02:42:30.040 Were you guys just not talking a lot?

02:42:31.480 No, we were.

02:42:32.660 We were all going around.

02:42:34.460 I'm more of a woman than all of you.

02:42:35.820 It was the poetry snap.

02:42:37.960 That's what I was laughing at.

02:42:39.000 The meme.

02:42:39.560 No, the eye.

02:42:40.260 Have you seen Ice Age?

02:42:41.220 Okay, Pearl.

02:42:41.720 Yeah.

02:42:42.000 You know, and Sid's like.

02:42:42.880 What is it going to take?

02:42:44.800 That's you.

02:42:45.380 Hum-naw, hum-naw, hum-naw.

02:42:45.540 For the magic flute.

02:42:47.440 What's it going to take, Pearl?

02:42:48.660 Maybe if you double how much you're paying me to be on here.

02:42:53.260 Wait, I didn't get my answer.

02:42:54.060 I'll definitely do that.

02:42:56.480 All right.

02:42:57.100 Go for it.

02:42:58.660 A big red flag is a guy with bad hygiene.

02:43:03.840 Ooh.

02:43:04.040 That was good.

02:43:04.600 Wait, did we not even finish going around on that?

02:43:07.340 Yeah.

02:43:09.360 Wait, but you didn't go.

02:43:10.900 I have a bit of a hot take that might be surprising with the lying one.

02:43:14.740 I think that lying is a huge red flag, definitely.

02:43:18.120 And sometimes I do feel like men lie because women don't know how to handle the truth. 1.00

02:43:25.760 Oof.

02:43:26.460 I do actually think that.

02:43:27.740 That's valid.

02:43:28.360 Would you rather hear a lie or the truth?

02:43:30.320 I would rather hear the truth, even if it's hard.

02:43:33.960 Like, I think that men are like, oh, you're the only girl for me. 1.00

02:43:36.680 But if they really said the truth, which is just, listen, I kind of just want to fuck. 0.99

02:43:40.420 Like, I don't think that girls would be cool with that. 0.99

02:43:43.920 You know what I mean?

02:43:44.600 But then I think everyone just needs to tell the truth, learn how to handle the truth,

02:43:48.600 and then go their separate ways if they don't want the same thing.

02:43:51.220 But nobody knows how to do that.

02:43:52.640 Brian, what's your red flag and a girl? 0.71

02:43:56.680 Hmm.

02:43:57.180 Hold on.

02:43:57.600 Let me pull up my list.

02:43:58.620 We must know.

02:44:01.100 Okay.

02:44:03.960 Wait, hold on.

02:44:05.100 Oh, I know what it is.

02:44:06.440 What is it?

02:44:08.220 Unwillingness to bow to you.

02:44:10.120 Yeah, that's pretty bad.

02:44:11.740 Right when he walks in the door.

02:44:13.500 Let me give, okay, I'll do a couple.

02:44:15.240 I'll approach this from a few angles.

02:44:16.600 Let's talk career.

02:44:17.900 I'll just throw a few out there.

02:44:19.720 Hairstylist, works in HR.

02:44:21.960 Those are two, I kind of strung that sentence together.

02:44:24.080 But flight attendant, travel nurse, nurse, any career where she travels frequently, sternum 1.00

02:44:41.180 tattoo.

02:44:42.540 Sorry.

02:44:45.620 Let's see.

02:44:46.880 All of her other qualities make up for it.

02:44:48.780 I'm going to lose some audience.

02:44:51.040 No, it wasn't personal.

02:44:52.140 If she owns a pit bull. 0.99

02:44:54.120 Oh, boy.

02:44:54.980 That's going to get the pit bull debate going. 1.00

02:44:56.600 If she owns a what?

02:44:56.620 Why?

02:44:56.900 That's so random.

02:44:58.020 The pit bull debate going.

02:44:59.180 Why is that?

02:45:01.020 I don't know.

02:45:01.980 I have opinions on pit bulls.

02:45:06.240 Like safety?

02:45:10.620 It's definitely a controversial opinion on the pit bull thing.

02:45:13.220 Well, also, just like a lot of women get these big dogs that they cannot physically restrain. 1.00

02:45:18.920 And women, no offense to women, men fuck up a lot, too, when it comes to training dogs. 0.98

02:45:25.200 But like women are a lot more lax when it comes to the training of their pets. 1.00

02:45:31.880 Yeah.

02:45:33.160 That's true.

02:45:34.120 Killing of cereal donated $200.

02:45:36.300 If all men had some form of mental illness and you had to choose to date from these three, PTSD, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, which one would you rather date?

02:45:51.000 People saying in the chat, it's not the breed, it's the owner.

02:45:54.640 Yeah, the difference is, though, when there's a poorly trained chihuahua, the amount of damage they can inflict on somebody, kind of minimal.

02:46:04.840 That's true.

02:46:05.880 They're annoying.

02:46:06.880 They yap a lot.

02:46:08.060 They do bite. 0.94

02:46:08.900 Chihuahuas are very aggressive.

02:46:11.360 But a chihuahua can't kill you. 1.00

02:46:14.180 It's true.

02:46:14.860 I've been bitten by one.

02:46:15.480 Although now somebody's going to turn this around and bring it to the gun argument, blah, blah, blah.

02:46:20.080 But, I mean, dog, it doesn't map on one-to-one.

02:46:24.280 Doesn't map on one-to-one.

02:46:25.700 Okay, whatever.

02:46:26.640 Where were we?

02:46:29.620 Oh, bell-bottoms. 0.92

02:46:31.720 She wears bell-bottoms, red flag. 0.96

02:46:33.340 Oh.

02:46:33.480 Looks at her phone on the first date.

02:46:36.140 She does acro yoga.

02:46:37.880 Oh, my God.

02:46:38.700 Big red flag.

02:46:39.980 Why?

02:46:40.500 Oh, my.

02:46:41.140 Have you seen those videos on TikTok?

02:46:42.420 Anything but lift weights, I swear.

02:46:44.440 Dude.

02:46:44.740 You want to talk about bikini at a pool party?

02:46:48.960 Nah.

02:46:49.460 Let's talk about acro yoga.

02:46:51.700 If your girl is going to acro yoga, she's done.

02:46:55.040 What's going on?

02:46:55.800 Done.

02:46:58.160 Doomed forever.

02:46:59.380 Okay.

02:46:59.540 Van lifer.

02:47:01.940 Red flag.

02:47:03.820 What?

02:47:05.000 Van lifer.

02:47:06.260 What is that?

02:47:06.800 If she's on a...

02:47:07.360 Oh, she lives in a van. 0.99

02:47:09.420 I thought that was, like...

02:47:10.200 Big red flag if she's a van lifer. 1.00

02:47:12.840 It means that she hooks up with men to use their shower facilities slash bed. 1.00

02:47:18.160 If you see a girl on a dating app and she's doing van life, I'm in town for the weekend. 1.00

02:47:28.140 She fucks. 1.00

02:47:29.980 She fucks. 1.00

02:47:32.420 She posts more than three Instagram stories a day. 1.00

02:47:35.940 What?

02:47:36.740 She posts more than three Instagram stories a day.

02:47:38.900 Why the number three on social media?

02:47:41.560 What's that?

02:47:42.100 Aren't you constantly on social media?

02:47:43.340 Not you personally, but, like...

02:47:46.060 Me?

02:47:46.600 Yeah.

02:47:47.040 On my personal Instagram, I don't post any stories.

02:47:50.980 Okay.

02:47:51.540 Let me ask you guys a question.

02:47:53.280 You've never seen that person that posts, like, 30 stories a day?

02:47:58.380 Is this person never not crazy?

02:48:03.340 The 30 stories a day? 1.00

02:48:05.400 They have mental health issues.

02:48:07.160 30 is different than four, though.

02:48:09.160 Unless you're trying to, like, run a personal business.

02:48:10.960 That's fair.

02:48:11.780 That's fair.

02:48:12.540 I get what you're saying, though.

02:48:13.980 Like, it's a lot.

02:48:14.960 See, my stories, though, are, like, business associated.

02:48:17.120 That's fine.

02:48:17.420 I give Liz the pass. 0.99

02:48:18.600 Liz gets the pass. 0.98

02:48:19.480 I was like, I have to.

02:48:20.080 I was going to say, yeah, do you post for my...

02:48:21.680 Yeah.

02:48:22.300 For the gym.

02:48:22.900 And if she has a lot of posts on Instagram, like, a thousand plus?

02:48:28.720 Yeah.

02:48:29.280 It's doing the most.

02:48:30.540 That applies to guys, too.

02:48:32.580 Yeah.

02:48:33.320 Get over yourself.

02:48:33.800 Like, anybody who has a thousand posts on Instagram...

02:48:37.860 Honestly, if a guy has a ton of selfies, red flag.

02:48:40.160 Mm-hmm.

02:48:41.160 Like, dude, that's femme. 1.00

02:48:42.220 I should look at my Instagram.

02:48:46.960 I got a couple.

02:48:48.120 I only have, like, 50...

02:48:48.740 Brian's doing peace signs.

02:48:49.940 I know.

02:48:50.540 He's all, like, a Facebook mom.

02:48:52.740 I think I only have, like, two.

02:48:54.900 Can I say one weird red flag that I thought of?

02:48:57.280 Yeah, go ahead.

02:48:57.760 Oh, yeah, go for it.

02:48:58.400 It's when a guy will post pictures or send you pictures of himself, and it's, like, the worst quality.

02:49:04.300 Like, they're using some random flip phone.

02:49:06.500 Like a potato.

02:49:07.360 Yeah.

02:49:08.660 I don't know why.

02:49:09.780 Where are they coming from?

02:49:10.780 Yeah.

02:49:11.600 What?

02:49:12.080 That is rare.

02:49:12.660 Raise your standards.

02:49:13.620 Yeah.

02:49:14.920 All right.

02:49:15.320 Let's read...

02:49:16.440 Maddie, can you read this one?

02:49:17.440 That was brutal.

02:49:18.420 Or Ava?

02:49:19.060 Let's do Ava.

02:49:19.780 Ava, go ahead.

02:49:20.720 I can't see it.

02:49:21.580 You can't see?

02:49:22.860 All right.

02:49:23.300 Get this girl a spectacle. 1.00

02:49:25.160 What is it?

02:49:25.680 Occulum?

02:49:27.440 Monocle.

02:49:28.040 Thank you, Desmond. 0.98

02:49:28.860 If you want to raise another man's kid, date a woman like this. 1.00

02:49:33.080 She'll go get pregnant off someone else while singing about how inspired she is by...

02:49:38.920 By your feminine energy, bro.

02:49:42.960 Run quick.

02:49:44.780 Run big front of your head!

02:49:47.900 Who's this?

02:49:48.640 Is it?

02:49:49.220 This is at...

02:49:50.160 Who's this directed to?

02:49:51.160 I think it's at you.

02:49:52.200 Because singing.

02:49:53.300 Yeah.

02:49:54.080 She also said the feminine energy thing. 1.00

02:49:56.740 Oh, yeah.

02:49:58.460 Can you read this one?

02:50:00.060 Look, honestly, women need to answer to their man. 1.00

02:50:03.520 Even says it in the Bible, the only thing a real man wants is low body count, peace, and sub. 0.98

02:50:09.600 Real men are not feminine. 0.90

02:50:11.400 Fem man equals not protecting. 0.99

02:50:14.160 People use the Bible for their advantage. 0.99

02:50:16.280 That's so not right.

02:50:17.060 They really seem to forget the more important part of that Bible verse.

02:50:20.320 Right.

02:50:20.740 That the husband needs to love his wife as Christ loved the church.

02:50:24.520 Absolutely.

02:50:25.620 Well, going back to the chat from Tank here, though.

02:50:28.600 He says feminine man equals not protecting.

02:50:31.960 Me and Jordan have tangoed on this one. 0.98

02:50:35.560 Look, I think the woman should take the bullet. 1.00

02:50:40.080 On that note, I have to use restroom. 0.99

02:50:43.200 For real.

02:50:46.100 Peace out.

02:50:47.620 She's good.

02:50:49.180 Can I hear her take off in her car? 0.54

02:50:50.860 Like out the window?

02:50:51.540 No.

02:50:53.240 So anyways, next super chat, next chat.

02:50:56.060 So, Philip Serial.

02:50:57.420 Oh, wait.

02:50:57.700 This already came through, right?

02:50:58.460 Wait, did this come through?

02:50:59.460 We didn't answer it, though.

02:51:01.020 Oh, which would you rather date?

02:51:01.880 If all men had some form of mental illness, and you have to choose to date from these three, 0.72

02:51:06.800 PTSD, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, which one would you rather date?

02:51:13.400 I feel like PTSD.

02:51:14.680 Yeah.

02:51:15.340 It depends how severe it is.

02:51:16.700 Schizophrenia, because it'd be so exciting. 0.99

02:51:18.380 PTSD is for like one thing.

02:51:20.380 Yeah, it's like one thing.

02:51:22.040 I feel like I'd be able to handle that.

02:51:23.620 I would do bipolar, because actually, I mean, I have family members who have that, and if

02:51:29.380 you're on the right medication, and you can live a pretty normal life, PTSD, you almost

02:51:35.440 can never fully get away from that.

02:51:37.620 I mean, you can go through therapy, but things can just set you off.

02:51:41.120 I think I would, I think I got, oh, do we, I'll let the, go ahead.

02:51:46.960 We all pretty much answer.

02:51:48.040 I'm good.

02:51:48.500 Oh, did everybody answer?

02:51:49.960 Schizophrenia.

02:51:50.940 I think I would take PTSD.

02:51:52.280 Because it would be so exciting.

02:51:53.800 He'd be seeing stuff.

02:51:55.100 He would be imagining things.

02:51:57.140 It would be crazy.

02:51:58.060 I think I'd chat.

02:52:00.200 Yo, chat, what do you pick?

02:52:01.380 Chat, what do you pick?

02:52:02.000 Ma'am, are you good?

02:52:02.720 PTSD, schizo, or bipolar?

02:52:04.580 She's like, it's because I have it.

02:52:07.400 I think I have to pick PTSD.

02:52:10.120 He's so concerning.

02:52:10.700 I think I'd take PTSD, schizo, bipolar.

02:52:18.040 I don't know.

02:52:18.340 We've had some, I've met bipolar girls, even if they're medicated.

02:52:23.040 Yeah.

02:52:23.340 Yeah, there's a little something still not all there.

02:52:26.980 You know?

02:52:27.560 Maybe they weren't on the right amount.

02:52:28.880 You know what I mean, chat?

02:52:29.500 His voice is a little something not there.

02:52:31.660 What's that?

02:52:32.480 I feel like it's really sad to, like, reduce people to their illnesses to say that they

02:52:36.100 don't deserve or, like, need a romantic partner.

02:52:38.740 Oh, I didn't say that.

02:52:40.560 Although I do believe in miracles.

02:52:41.980 I'm not saying that to you.

02:52:42.900 I'm saying it to them.

02:52:44.460 To them?

02:52:45.040 I don't know.

02:52:45.840 Wait, I actually, hold on.

02:52:47.120 I'll just argue with this.

02:52:48.400 I'll argue with you on this.

02:52:50.120 I actually think, well, I think it's totally fine if somebody, on the basis alone of somebody's

02:52:58.440 mental health diagnosis, if they don't want to date them because of that, that's totally

02:53:01.740 fine.

02:53:02.580 But I don't know if that's exactly what you're arguing, or...

02:53:06.560 I just personally would feel bad for somebody who's watching who has bipolar, and by one

02:53:14.880 of us saying that they wouldn't date a bipolar person for this reason, that reason, the other

02:53:19.420 reason, like, I feel like that would make that person feel like we're saying they don't

02:53:24.160 deserve, because I feel like the question was here kind of in a derogatory way.

02:53:28.420 I thought you were going to say it makes them feel bad, and I was about to say so.

02:53:32.140 So, let me, like, give an example.

02:53:33.480 I have diabetes, and I, like, am very, very aware that people, like, probably don't want

02:53:40.500 to pass it on to their children, and this reason and that reason.

02:53:44.280 They don't want to live with the lifestyle, so they wouldn't date me for that reason.

02:53:47.360 I personally wouldn't be hurt, but I'm sure there are, like, a million other diabetics

02:53:50.400 who'd be like, why are you not going to date me just because I can't eat sugar or carbs

02:53:53.440 or break it down?

02:53:54.620 You know what I mean?

02:53:55.060 Well, I don't know if, I mean, diabetes, I don't know if it compares to, like, more

02:54:02.260 mental health thing, but I don't even think, I mean, I mean, if somebody didn't want to

02:54:10.300 date you because you had diabetes, I don't think there's actually anything wrong with

02:54:13.780 that.

02:54:14.840 I don't, I don't.

02:54:16.320 Nothing wrong with it.

02:54:17.580 I don't either.

02:54:18.820 I just would hate for other people who are seeing it to feel, like, lesser than because

02:54:23.860 of something they can't control, if that makes sense.

02:54:26.640 I'm just vouching for those people.

02:54:28.640 There's a bunch of short guys that can't control their height.

02:54:31.640 Short kings.

02:54:32.100 But plenty of women don't want to date them. 1.00

02:54:34.160 Don't say that.

02:54:34.920 Because they're short.

02:54:36.260 Yeah, but it's literally an insult followed by a compliment.

02:54:40.020 Yeah.

02:54:40.860 I actually got a bit of flack because I, this must have been two or three months ago, I said

02:54:45.540 that I do think it's, I don't know exactly how I framed it, but I said something along

02:54:51.620 the lines of, my advice to men would be, you should not date women who are bipolar.

02:54:57.740 I got a lot of flack from the.

02:55:00.060 Oh, and that girl that was bipolar and stabbed, poked someone. 1.00

02:55:03.020 The attempted murder chick, yeah.

02:55:05.120 Yeah.

02:55:05.880 Got pushback from her, got pushback from the bipolar community.

02:55:09.440 Look, these people are certainly deserving of compassion and empathy.

02:55:15.020 And I wish them the best in dealing with their, their diagnosis, but I don't actually think

02:55:23.460 it's wrong to give prescriptive advice to say, for example, I do think it's suboptimal

02:55:29.660 to date somebody who has a certain diagnosis.

02:55:33.900 And I think it'd be a disservice to my viewers and audience to like choose to omit having the

02:55:38.820 conversation of guys, you probably shouldn't date women who have BPD. 0.63

02:55:42.960 The shouldn't date women who have XYZ diagnosis. 1.00

02:55:49.220 I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

02:55:50.820 I don't think you should insult these people.

02:55:52.600 I don't think you should be mean to them.

02:55:54.120 I don't think you should belittle them.

02:55:55.720 But I think it's a disservice to like ignore the impact that these things could have in a

02:56:02.480 relationship.

02:56:02.900 Yeah, I totally, I totally respect that.

02:56:07.380 I just don't want people to get hurt.

02:56:09.640 I just don't want to hurt people's feelings like point blank, which is, which is, I'm sorry.

02:56:14.660 Look, uh, and it's look, if somebody is fine with dating them, they're willing to, uh, they're

02:56:20.860 willing to date them.

02:56:21.560 I don't, I'm not saying that they aren't deserving of love or that they should just stay, be alone

02:56:27.680 for their whole life. 1.00

02:56:28.640 God damn. 0.99

02:56:29.240 Is that air force one? 1.00

02:56:30.160 What the fuck? 1.00

02:56:31.380 Joe Biden was in town last week. 1.00

02:56:33.260 So I don't know.

02:56:34.680 Maybe he's still kicking it in Santa Barbara.

02:56:37.460 So, um, I thought it was good.

02:56:43.280 Um, we're good.

02:56:43.940 We're good.

02:56:44.180 We're good.

02:56:44.420 Uh, so, uh, do you think it should be disclosed if you're dating somebody?

02:56:49.500 Yeah.

02:56:49.980 Yeah.

02:56:50.340 I think you should disclose.

02:56:51.140 Yeah.

02:56:51.420 I think you should disclose.

02:56:52.900 What should be disclosed?

02:56:55.120 I think even something as like minor as depression and anxiety should also be disclosed.

02:57:01.400 Everything.

02:57:02.100 Yeah.

02:57:03.560 They got to know what they're getting into.

02:57:05.180 Definitely.

02:57:06.560 Word.

02:57:07.560 Yeah.

02:57:08.000 You gotta, you gotta disclose.

02:57:09.560 And then if you're married and something comes up later, this comes back to the

02:57:14.400 whole till death do you part.

02:57:15.920 Yeah.

02:57:16.200 You deal with it.

02:57:16.900 You deal with it.

02:57:18.300 If somebody later gets schizophrenia as they get older or something, they go in the military,

02:57:23.580 they get deployed, they come back and they have that.

02:57:27.820 You don't just leave them.

02:57:28.960 I mean, you stick with them as far as you can.

02:57:32.140 Now there's never know how far that goes, but that, that, that's the whole point of till

02:57:36.480 death do you part.

02:57:38.540 Although I wonder, I mean, what if the mental illness starts manifesting itself in abusive

02:57:43.880 behavior?

02:57:45.160 Right.

02:57:45.520 Well, that's what I mean in that, if it goes in certain directions where your health and

02:57:50.180 your safety now is in jeopardy.

02:57:52.340 Okay.

02:57:53.640 Word.

02:57:54.500 Let's see.

02:57:55.080 What other chats do we have?

02:57:57.320 Oh, wait, we got here.

02:57:58.560 Maddie, can you read?

02:57:59.120 It says, these women here want a slave to use their money. 1.00

02:58:04.280 It's actually long, but no disrespect to Maddie.

02:58:07.200 I said it was, um, just thought it'd be fun for her to read her language.

02:58:11.500 I'm long too.

02:58:13.300 I'm sorry.

02:58:13.920 Okay.

02:58:14.840 I'm a failure. 1.00

02:58:15.960 You're a failure. 1.00

02:58:16.840 Yeah. 1.00

02:58:18.540 Okay.

02:58:19.200 Appreciate it.

02:58:19.820 Thank you.

02:58:20.220 Who cares?

02:58:20.860 Oh, this is a great time.

02:58:22.500 Stifler.

02:58:23.080 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10, starting with Pearl.

02:58:29.640 Take it away, Pearl.

02:58:30.980 So are you asking me how like symmetrical my body is?

02:58:36.040 And like, if I have the ideal hip to waist ratio, is that this question?

02:58:40.680 Or is it, how do I perceive my own self?

02:58:43.880 Or is it, how do I perceive men perceiving me?

02:58:46.360 Because there's three different questions.

02:58:46.900 I like this.

02:58:47.360 We're communicating.

02:58:48.240 This is good.

02:58:48.640 It's good.

02:58:52.000 Pretty straightforward.

02:58:52.660 We're communicating.

02:58:53.880 Okay.

02:58:54.800 Sure.

02:58:55.660 So I'll break it down into three ways.

02:58:58.220 Rate your face out of 10, rate your body out of 10, and rate total out of 10.

02:59:02.880 My face and my body in total, meaning how other people perceive me, how I perceive myself,

02:59:08.740 or how symmetrical I am.

02:59:12.300 Well, so my worldview is it's this, that's all the same.

02:59:16.620 Okay.

02:59:17.060 So you have an incorrect worldview.

02:59:18.100 So like, your perception.

02:59:19.360 I perceive myself as a 10.

02:59:22.500 Okay.

02:59:23.220 You want to do breakdown face, body, total?

02:59:25.120 It's all total 10.

02:59:26.540 Face 10, body 10.

02:59:27.680 I perceive myself as a 10 because that's the best way to move through this world.

02:59:31.620 How symmetrical I am, the golden ratio, all that stuff.

02:59:34.660 I don't know.

02:59:35.000 I'd have to get scanned by a machine and them to tell me.

02:59:37.240 Yeah.

02:59:37.260 And so to answer the one that you brought up, what about how you think, I guess, men perceive you?

02:59:43.200 I guess I would say that that's subjective and I also don't care.

02:59:46.640 And I think that it's not helpful to comment on it or even think about it for a second.

02:59:51.800 Why is it not helpful?

02:59:52.540 Because I think that women are valued for their looks, especially how men value their looks.

02:59:59.200 And I just don't think that that's a helpful conversation.

03:00:02.300 And I'm not going to comment on that.

03:00:04.780 And I'm sure men would probably, some men would rate me a four.

03:00:07.500 Some men would rate me a nine.

03:00:09.340 And if we're talking about perfect symmetry, no one is a 10 out of 10.

03:00:14.520 And I don't care about that.

03:00:16.340 I think that what makes someone beautiful is more holistic.

03:00:20.020 So their personality.

03:00:21.920 Yeah.

03:00:22.360 Everything about them.

03:00:23.360 Okay.

03:00:23.620 But so we're talking about looks though.

03:00:25.340 Yeah.

03:00:25.780 So personality, confidence, these things are relevant.

03:00:32.580 I would rate myself a 10.

03:00:33.860 If you're asking, do I think I'm at, I, men desire me and think I'm just as beautiful as

03:00:44.120 like Gigi Hadid or like all these supermodels. 1.00

03:00:46.400 Do you think you're as beautiful?

03:00:48.620 I think that how, how people perceive me and how people perceive them is irrelevant.

03:00:53.280 No, but do you think you're as beautiful as them?

03:00:55.840 I think that I see myself as a 10 and that if they see themselves as a 10, then we're the

03:01:00.560 same.

03:01:00.800 But so looking at like a really attractive supermodel, do you make the assessment?

03:01:10.040 I'm not assessing at all.

03:01:11.320 I don't, I don't care.

03:01:12.120 Let me ask the question.

03:01:13.280 Do you think you're just as good looking or perhaps even more as they are?

03:01:19.980 What's the point of this question?

03:01:22.100 Is it to see how self-aware I am about how symmetrical I am?

03:01:26.840 Because that's what it seems to be that this, that this should, because if I 1.00

03:01:30.700 rate myself at a 10, y'all are like, oh my God, you're so stupid. 1.00

03:01:33.480 You're not a 10. 1.00

03:01:34.300 You think that you're perfectly symmetrical.

03:01:36.180 You think you're so beautiful.

03:01:37.200 All this stuff.

03:01:37.700 I'm like, if that's the question, then I don't, then I don't know.

03:01:41.440 And I don't care.

03:01:43.640 If it's how do I perceive myself?

03:01:45.740 It's going to be that I move through the world.

03:01:48.720 Like I'm a 10.

03:01:49.940 But aren't you able to make determinations as to like the physical attractiveness of

03:01:55.360 other women? 1.00

03:01:55.980 Like, am I more conventionally attractive according to like Eurocentric beauty standards?

03:02:00.340 No, that's not even the question.

03:02:01.120 I'm just asking.

03:02:01.720 So going back to the question.

03:02:02.640 Because that's what the essence of it is.

03:02:04.460 Why does it have to be Eurocentric?

03:02:06.860 Because that's how conventional beauty standards. 1.00

03:02:09.120 Name taken donated $200.

03:02:11.680 Thank you, man.

03:02:12.220 Ladies first, we don't care what you rate yourself.

03:02:16.120 What would your average rating be on a picture rating website?

03:02:20.140 Second, going back to dating red flags.

03:02:22.900 Is it a red flag if a man is a Trump voter?

03:02:25.820 Here on that second one, just show of hands.

03:02:28.140 Red flag if the man's a Trump voter.

03:02:29.840 Show of hands.

03:02:30.460 What?

03:02:31.580 What'd you say?

03:02:33.080 Where is it?

03:02:34.000 Oh, if it's a red flag.

03:02:35.340 Sorry.

03:02:35.680 Show of hands.

03:02:36.340 Red flag if he's a Trump voter.

03:02:38.380 It's a flag.

03:02:40.440 What does that even mean?

03:02:42.640 Like, I don't think it's as black and white.

03:02:45.780 I'm not like, oh, you voted for Trump.

03:02:47.620 Like, oh, I'm never going to see you ever again.

03:02:49.500 But I would say, yeah, it kind of depends.

03:02:52.120 It kind of depends, I would say.

03:02:53.900 I'm more in the middle.

03:02:54.940 Would you prefer your current boyfriend to vote for Kamala or Trump?

03:03:00.500 Well, I think when it was Joe Biden and Trump, it was a different story, in my opinion.

03:03:04.560 Okay, which one?

03:03:05.360 But Kamala and Trump, I would probably, I'm like, I would prefer him to vote for Kamala.

03:03:09.920 Oh, we're doomed.

03:03:11.080 Oh, no.

03:03:12.040 Wait, say it one more time, Liz.

03:03:14.660 Say it, go ahead.

03:03:16.180 I said we're doomed.

03:03:17.560 Doomed.

03:03:18.120 Okay.

03:03:19.060 And then what was it?

03:03:20.600 We'll get back.

03:03:21.500 Hold on.

03:03:22.760 What would your average rating be on the picture rating website?

03:03:25.020 Do you want to go for that one?

03:03:26.860 I don't care.

03:03:28.300 Okay.

03:03:28.720 And I don't know.

03:03:29.600 All right, so going around the table, what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten

03:03:34.560 from Stifler?

03:03:36.260 Nine.

03:03:37.620 Okay.

03:03:38.960 Delusional, ten.

03:03:40.200 Realistic, five.

03:03:41.520 Okay.

03:03:42.580 So which are you?

03:03:44.960 I'm realistic.

03:03:46.060 Five.

03:03:46.440 Okay.

03:03:49.840 I would rate myself as a six.

03:03:52.800 By like seven.

03:03:56.640 Eight.

03:03:58.660 Wait, six, seven, five, nine, ten.

03:04:01.160 I was going to say we can't choose seven.

03:04:02.860 Is Stacey back?

03:04:04.540 Can she hear?

03:04:05.060 Is her name Stacey, right?

03:04:05.980 No.

03:04:06.340 What's her name?

03:04:07.020 Stacey?

03:04:07.680 That's her name, Stacey, right?

03:04:08.520 No, Sarah.

03:04:08.900 I'm Stacey.

03:04:09.600 Sarah?

03:04:09.840 Sarah.

03:04:10.120 Oh, sorry, sorry.

03:04:10.720 Got the two makers.

03:04:11.720 Sarah.

03:04:11.980 One to ten?

03:04:15.000 What do you rate yourself on a scale from one to ten?

03:04:16.400 Oh, she's coming back.

03:04:17.180 I'll wait until she's back.

03:04:17.720 Just rate yourself.

03:04:18.460 She's coming back.

03:04:18.920 Can I pee after?

03:04:21.280 Yeah.

03:04:21.940 You can throw out a number and I can say it for you.

03:04:23.980 Yeah.

03:04:25.100 I think we're all tens, to be honest.

03:04:27.740 Just say it into a mic.

03:04:29.100 I think we're all tens.

03:04:30.280 That's why she got up.

03:04:31.080 Yeah.

03:04:32.500 No one's not.

03:04:33.500 Okay.

03:04:35.340 So you're a ten.

03:04:37.620 Okay.

03:04:37.980 Okay, so ten, nine, ten, all ten.

03:04:40.620 Go ahead, Pearl.

03:04:42.220 What you got for me?

03:04:43.120 I said ten.

03:04:45.520 Oh, I thought you were, it sounded like you were about to say something, so.

03:04:48.200 Oh, no, no, no.

03:04:48.780 Oh, okay.

03:04:50.960 Huh.

03:04:52.600 Okay.

03:04:53.540 I don't think anyone is confused by that.

03:04:56.320 Of course.

03:04:57.160 Now, going around the table, do you think you'll be better looking in ten years' time?

03:05:01.620 Better looking.

03:05:03.200 Yeah.

03:05:03.400 I think I'll be aging, and I don't think that, I think I'll still have the confidence of a ten.

03:05:09.160 That's right.

03:05:09.580 Yeah, but so, I'm talking about works.

03:05:12.220 Society will value me less.

03:05:14.120 Society will value you less.

03:05:15.840 Yeah.

03:05:16.580 Okay.

03:05:18.420 For my beauty alone.

03:05:19.240 So, you're 32.

03:05:20.380 Mm-hmm.

03:05:20.600 Will you be better looking at 42 than you are now, at 32? 0.99

03:05:24.580 I think that this question is, like, just kind of dumb. 0.99

03:05:28.680 Why is it dumb? 0.99

03:05:30.160 Because it doesn't give, there's no range, there's no scope. 0.99

03:05:34.120 Like, I'm not even allowed to, like, ask, like, deeper questions about it.

03:05:38.740 It's just like, are you a ten?

03:05:39.500 Are you?

03:05:39.660 It's like, what does that even mean?

03:05:42.320 Ask your really deep question.

03:05:44.160 It's not.

03:05:45.520 I mean, it's just what I already said.

03:05:47.240 So, you are allowed to ask your really deep questions.

03:05:51.680 Okay.

03:05:51.900 I think that women shouldn't think about rating their beauty at all. 1.00

03:05:57.640 I think that women should think and walk into rooms and be like, I am a ten. 1.00

03:06:02.580 And when you think, like I said before, when you believe that you're a ten and you really

03:06:07.760 act like a ten, you're like, I'm a sexy baddie, then you actually start to become more beautiful.

03:06:13.860 You start to take care of your skin.

03:06:15.040 You start to take care of your hair.

03:06:16.340 When you have a self-image that's high, it actually helps you become more beautiful.

03:06:21.480 When you think of yourself as low, then you don't dress as well.

03:06:25.900 You tend to not take care of your body as much.

03:06:27.840 So, I just think that it's better for women to think of themselves as a sexy baddie who's a ten. 0.99

03:06:34.300 And so, you said when a woman walks into a room. 1.00

03:06:37.340 Let's assume this room is a party-type environment, like a socializing environment.

03:06:43.680 There's single men, single women, she's single, whatever. 0.97

03:06:46.720 Should a woman walk into that room thinking that I'm a ten, of all the single men in here, 0.55

03:06:55.140 I can get every single one of them, should she think that?

03:06:59.520 Should she think I'm just...

03:07:00.760 Is that what she wants? 0.96

03:07:02.060 Like, why does she want to get all the men? 1.00

03:07:04.120 No, no, no. 1.00

03:07:04.460 She doesn't want to fuck all the men, but she thinks she could get all the men. 1.00

03:07:09.080 I think getting all the men is a different question than do you have the confidence of a ten. 1.00

03:07:14.340 Yeah, sure.

03:07:15.500 It's a different question.

03:07:16.680 Answer the question, though.

03:07:17.780 Do I think that a woman should walk into a room and say, I could get all these men? 1.00

03:07:21.380 No, I just don't think that that's realistic.

03:07:23.100 Well, why is that unrealistic, but believing you are the most beautiful woman in the room

03:07:28.800 and you're a ten, why is that realistic?

03:07:31.640 I think that it's effective.

03:07:33.960 I think it actually, having an attitude of I'm a ten and just not comparing yourself to

03:07:38.220 other people or other women is really helpful for women. 0.58

03:07:42.480 Is it?

03:07:43.600 That's what I believe and that's what I've experienced.

03:07:46.120 When I was like, oh, I'm a six or I'm a five, I acted like a six and a five.

03:07:50.300 When I think that I'm a ten, it actually allows me, I work out, I take care of myself, I encourage

03:07:55.820 other women. 1.00

03:07:56.460 I'm not comparing myself to other women at all.

03:07:59.540 Well, I can think, I can make the counter argument here and say that women who are not 1.00

03:08:05.900 tens but think they're the tens see no need to improve.

03:08:09.000 What makes a woman a ten? 1.00

03:08:10.000 Sees no need to improve themselves. 1.00

03:08:12.240 So they won't go to the gym even though they're overweight.

03:08:14.600 Do you have any data on that?

03:08:16.780 Ten is considered perfection.

03:08:18.240 What do you mean data?

03:08:19.780 What data?

03:08:20.520 Like, do you have like any sorts of like, do you know that women do a thing? 1.00

03:08:23.180 Do you have data for your claim?

03:08:24.560 No, but I'm just saying both of these things are just opinions.

03:08:27.940 That's what we're discussing.

03:08:29.160 We're discussing opinions.

03:08:30.200 Okay.

03:08:31.200 That's what I think.

03:08:32.280 Well, I think the question should be framed a little bit different just so people understand.

03:08:36.360 Like, we're trying to differentiate, like, it's good to be confident, but we're talking

03:08:42.320 about a lot of times women have like overly inflated sense of self and they're not being 1.00

03:08:49.880 realistic.

03:08:50.760 That's ego though.

03:08:51.820 That's insecurity actually.

03:08:53.200 That's not true confidence.

03:08:54.540 Right.

03:08:54.680 Like, security says I'm better than all these women. 1.00

03:08:57.400 Confidence says.

03:08:57.700 That's what you're saying.

03:08:58.740 No, it isn't.

03:08:59.680 Yes.

03:08:59.780 What I'm, confidence is saying, I don't care who's in this room.

03:09:03.100 I don't care if Bella Hadid is in here.

03:09:04.800 I don't care if Kendall Jenner, all the Kardashians are in here. 0.74

03:09:07.800 I'm a 10 and I'm worthy of being in this room and I'm beautiful and people will love me

03:09:12.340 and be attracted to me and I'm attractive and I'm desirable, but you don't need to be a

03:09:16.180 10 to have that feeling.

03:09:17.800 It doesn't, I mean, if we're talking about being more, it's a good point.

03:09:21.160 Cause I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm sexy and I'm a bad-ass and I will take anybody on for anything and,

03:09:26.980 but I will still only rate myself as a six cause I'm realistic.

03:09:29.840 Well, that's good for you.

03:09:31.180 I mean, good for you.

03:09:34.040 I think we're trying to figure out like, okay, out of a hundred men, like what would be your

03:09:39.080 average rating?

03:09:40.760 Yeah. 0.99

03:09:40.980 If that's the question, then my answer is I don't give a fuck. 0.99

03:09:44.920 And I'm not going to answer. 0.99

03:09:48.160 You got your singing.

03:09:50.580 Okay.

03:09:51.660 So going back to the aging one though, better looking at 42 as compared to 32?

03:09:57.900 I already answered.

03:09:59.380 Yeah. 1.00

03:09:59.620 You said it was stupid, but answer the stupid question. 1.00

03:10:02.940 I think I'm still going to be a 10. 1.00

03:10:05.160 Okay.

03:10:05.540 What about 20 years time?

03:10:06.800 52 as compared to 32?

03:10:08.480 I think that physical beauty definitely decreases as you age.

03:10:13.640 Yeah.

03:10:14.340 We're talking about physical beauty looks.

03:10:16.840 Yeah.

03:10:17.120 It's probably, it's going to, it's going to decrease as I age.

03:10:20.000 Okay.

03:10:20.480 But so, but it won't decrease until 52 because you said, I don't think it's like a science

03:10:25.580 like that, to be honest.

03:10:27.340 Well, it's by biology, which is a science.

03:10:31.600 I took that in high school.

03:10:33.080 All right.

03:10:33.260 I think I'm talking too much.

03:10:34.460 No, you're doing great.

03:10:35.560 Hold on.

03:10:35.920 We lose elasticity in our face.

03:10:38.620 We lose hair.

03:10:39.660 It's true.

03:10:40.220 Skin sacks. 0.50

03:10:40.780 Skin sacks and wrinkles.

03:10:42.920 I got it.

03:10:44.600 Elasticity.

03:10:45.680 Yeah.

03:10:46.040 That's wrinkles.

03:10:46.700 The skin isn't as smooth and there's marks on the skin.

03:10:51.200 What's the point of this question?

03:10:52.680 Sun damage.

03:10:53.440 I'll get to it.

03:10:54.340 I'll get to it.

03:10:55.500 But last thing with you, you're 32.

03:10:58.880 Were you better looking, or excuse me, are you better looking now at 32 than you were

03:11:02.480 at 22?

03:11:03.740 Yes.

03:11:05.040 All right.

03:11:05.520 What about you?

03:11:06.440 You're 27.

03:11:08.220 26.

03:11:09.620 Oh, okay.

03:11:10.800 I thought, whatever.

03:11:11.560 Just turned 26 last week.

03:11:12.880 Okay.

03:11:13.240 26.

03:11:14.120 Will you be better looking at 36 than you are now at 26?

03:11:19.700 Can you either strain up or just scoot your mic this way a little bit?

03:11:25.740 Mm-hmm.

03:11:26.380 Yeah.

03:11:26.660 Go ahead.

03:11:27.280 Which one?

03:11:27.920 I'm going to say no.

03:11:29.640 No.

03:11:30.280 Okay.

03:11:31.160 And were you better looking at 18 as compared to now at 26?

03:11:37.060 Why not 16?

03:11:40.500 You're a minor.

03:11:41.760 Huh?

03:11:42.060 You probably shouldn't be commenting on your looks as a minor.

03:11:45.520 What's the difference between the two years?

03:11:47.320 I thought we were going based off 10 years.

03:11:49.380 It doesn't have to be 10 years.

03:11:50.500 Okay.

03:11:50.900 So, 18 versus now?

03:11:52.240 Yeah.

03:11:52.660 That's the question.

03:11:54.840 Just clarifying.

03:11:56.840 Okay.

03:11:57.240 I think I look better now than I did at 18.

03:12:00.720 All right.

03:12:01.080 What about you?

03:12:01.660 You're 27, right?

03:12:02.840 Yeah.

03:12:03.480 Will you be better looking at 37 as compared to how you are now at 27?

03:12:08.860 I think I'll be more mature looking.

03:12:11.820 I think I'm...

03:12:12.800 That's true.

03:12:13.620 I look a lot more younger than my age.

03:12:16.080 I hear that a lot.

03:12:17.000 And so, I won't have as much of a baby face.

03:12:19.580 But I don't think I'll be more attractive.

03:12:23.240 Okay.

03:12:23.480 And then, do you think you're better looking at 18 as compared to now at 27?

03:12:30.140 No, because I was bigger.

03:12:32.180 I had more weight on me.

03:12:33.840 Okay.

03:12:34.700 So, you're 47.

03:12:36.200 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

03:12:38.080 No.

03:12:38.240 At 57?

03:12:38.940 And then, were you better looking at 37 as compared to now at 47?

03:12:42.300 Oh, yeah.

03:12:42.980 Better looking at 27 as compared to 37?

03:12:46.780 No.

03:12:48.300 Better looking at 18 as compared to 27?

03:12:50.840 No.

03:12:51.440 Okay.

03:12:51.680 All right.

03:12:54.240 Liz, 25.

03:12:55.360 Will you be better looking at 35 as compared to now at 25?

03:12:57.720 I feel like I'll look pretty similar.

03:12:59.700 Pretty similar?

03:13:00.320 Okay.

03:13:01.440 Better looking at 45? 0.83

03:13:03.580 No.

03:13:04.320 Okay.

03:13:06.000 And then, Sarah, will you be better looking in 10 years' time as compared to now at 28?

03:13:10.980 You said no too fast.

03:13:11.700 I honestly think so.

03:13:12.760 No confidence at all.

03:13:14.140 Sorry.

03:13:14.520 Sorry.

03:13:14.800 Guys, guys, guys, guys.

03:13:15.660 Guys.

03:13:15.940 Let her talk. 0.98

03:13:16.400 It's okay.

03:13:17.000 Sorry.

03:13:18.900 Repeat your answer, please.

03:13:20.140 Yeah.

03:13:20.440 I think I will.

03:13:21.580 Better looking at 38 versus now at 28?

03:13:23.080 What about 48 as compared to 28?

03:13:25.880 Probably not.

03:13:27.020 Okay.

03:13:27.740 And then, were you better looking at 18 as compared to now at 28?

03:13:31.600 I've been told I look much better now.

03:13:34.260 Okay.

03:13:34.900 And I would agree so.

03:13:36.340 I see.

03:13:36.920 Okay.

03:13:37.140 And you said you're a 10.

03:13:44.560 I said everybody's a 10.

03:13:45.820 You said all women are 10s, I think you said, though, right?

03:13:50.360 Well, I thought, like, I'm saying all these women are a 10. 1.00

03:13:53.080 Like, you see the full value of, like, all of them and their beauty.

03:13:58.380 Yeah.

03:13:59.140 I don't.

03:14:00.060 So, like, you guys are all equivalent when it comes to looks.

03:14:02.920 Yeah.

03:14:03.360 I.

03:14:03.620 There's not one girl here who's maybe a little better looking than the others.

03:14:08.160 Well, we're all of, like, different shapes, sizes, ages.

03:14:13.140 That doesn't.

03:14:13.960 I don't know.

03:14:14.720 Can I use somebody as a guinea pig?

03:14:16.020 I also think that if you place, like, each individual's, like.

03:14:19.360 Can I use you as a.

03:14:20.020 Yes.

03:14:21.400 I don't.

03:14:22.560 Don't do it.

03:14:23.260 I won't be offended.

03:14:24.400 I promise.

03:14:24.600 Sorry.

03:14:24.820 Go ahead.

03:14:25.160 Continue with your point.

03:14:25.800 I think if you, like, placed each individual person in front of, like, say, like, my, like,

03:14:32.560 so my, for me personally, the people that I've used opinion of me is, like, my friends,

03:14:40.360 my significant other, and the Lord.

03:14:43.040 And I think all of them would say, given what they know about me, that I am, like, an extremely

03:14:48.780 beautiful person.

03:14:50.300 Otherwise, why would they want relationship with me?

03:14:52.880 Well, do you mean, like, your personality or your looks?

03:14:55.120 I think, well, the guy.

03:14:56.640 Because that's, we're talking about looks.

03:14:57.540 I was trying to respect the question, because the guy put looks in capitals, but I do, I

03:15:02.760 do know that beauty, primarily, for me, has to do with personality, values, characteristics.

03:15:14.600 Like, you could be with somebody who's, like, absolutely gorgeous, but they could be really,

03:15:21.860 like, inconsiderate, lacking a lot of, like, values that you lack, so you wouldn't see them

03:15:29.540 as beautiful.

03:15:30.960 And I think with wisdom comes confidence that makes a person, like, uphold themselves.

03:15:36.980 And I think, I know for a fact that, like, confident people, some, there are some people

03:15:41.840 that are not very attractive, who have so much confidence that it kind of, like, amps

03:15:47.740 up their number on the scale.

03:15:49.900 Does that make sense?

03:15:51.740 You're talking about women or men?

03:15:53.440 Both.

03:15:53.840 Well, while I will agree, well, at least for men, anyways, while I'll agree with you that 0.56

03:16:02.140 confidence in men will make a man more attractive in general, I don't think it makes him more

03:16:08.660 physically attractive, necessarily.

03:16:11.160 Although, certainly, like, you know, if you carry yourself, I will grant, look, I will grant,

03:16:15.880 for example, somebody who scowls all the time, who's got sourpuss on their face, who's frowning

03:16:21.520 a lot, RBF, whatever, this person is going to be appraised when it, when we're talking

03:16:26.840 about their looks, is going to be appraised as less physically attractive than somebody

03:16:31.960 who's a bit more bubbly and effervescent and who has a more positive disposition.

03:16:36.180 I will grant that, like, having a positive outlook, a positive mental attitude, being happy,

03:16:44.480 smiling, yeah, these things will assist in your, in the appraisal when it comes to looks.

03:16:49.960 But, uh, not to, like, a degree where you can take, like, a really, really unattractive

03:17:01.700 woman and, like, a, uh, who's happy or whatever, and, like, a 10 out of 10 model who's, like,

03:17:10.400 got RBF or whatever.

03:17:12.600 The people, like, generally speaking, people are still going to praise the woman who's a

03:17:16.600 model as more physically attractive, even if she's kind of got a scowl on her face. 0.99

03:17:22.240 Yeah.

03:17:23.420 Well, like, you can be attracted to somebody and it's not physical.

03:17:27.540 Like, you, I mean, you can feel attraction about somebody's mannerisms or how they speak,

03:17:34.400 their voice, anything.

03:17:36.280 Yeah.

03:17:36.440 And it might not even be physical and you can find something attractive about them.

03:17:41.380 Sure.

03:17:41.660 But if we're talking, like, purely physical attraction, I mean, across the board, people

03:17:47.340 are going to be pretty, um, we have universal standards of what's attractive and what's not.

03:17:55.680 Yeah.

03:17:55.840 For most cases, like, symmetry, like, women having a small jawline, you know, bigger eyes, 1.00

03:18:05.160 um, higher eyebrows, things like that.

03:18:08.140 Flushed cheeks.

03:18:09.380 Mm-hmm.

03:18:10.240 Sure.

03:18:10.640 Those are, like, universal standards.

03:18:11.780 Well, let me ask this question related to, like, the aging component.

03:18:14.840 Do you think that the average 35-year-old woman is hotter than the average 25-year-old woman?

03:18:22.960 Average?

03:18:23.580 No.

03:18:25.840 I don't know.

03:18:27.400 I don't know.

03:18:27.980 You don't know?

03:18:28.940 I actually don't know.

03:18:29.580 No?

03:18:30.120 No.

03:18:33.020 I want to say yes.

03:18:34.360 I do.

03:18:34.760 Yeah.

03:18:35.620 Mm-hmm.

03:18:36.860 No.

03:18:37.180 No.

03:18:37.940 No.

03:18:39.700 Yes.

03:18:40.800 No.

03:18:43.920 Yes?

03:18:44.960 Mm-hmm.

03:18:46.060 The average, uh, 35 or 45?

03:18:49.320 You said 35.

03:18:50.400 No, I know, but I'm switching it.

03:18:51.840 So, do you think the average 45-year-old woman is hotter than the average 25-year-old woman?

03:18:57.220 No.

03:18:58.500 Anybody?

03:18:59.060 Any takers on that one?

03:19:00.180 I hope that I beat the average, but I'm going to say.

03:19:04.760 Yeah, but it's comparing average to average, right?

03:19:07.120 Yeah, but I'm going to just say, like, average, especially nowadays.

03:19:11.380 People do, are not aging gracefully.

03:19:13.420 We should ask Chad.

03:19:14.420 Yo, Chad, do you think the average 35-year-old woman is hotter than the average 25-year-old 0.58

03:19:22.260 woman? 0.96

03:19:24.680 I think the, I don't even need to ask.

03:19:26.640 I mean, the answer is obvious.

03:19:29.380 The average 25-year-old woman is hotter than the average 35-year-old. 1.00

03:19:35.000 To men, for sure.

03:19:36.780 To women, too?

03:19:37.500 I think 25 is, like, prime.

03:19:38.540 Probably.

03:19:40.300 25 is prime?

03:19:41.800 Yeah.

03:19:42.200 Okay, yeah, sure.

03:19:43.460 What do you think is prime?

03:19:46.420 Between 18 and 25.

03:19:48.300 Like, that age range is prime.

03:19:50.820 18.

03:19:51.960 What's wrong with it?

03:19:53.260 You mean an adult woman?

03:19:54.880 You mean an adult woman?

03:19:56.920 I don't think that's prime.

03:19:59.420 Well, I said between 18 and 25.

03:20:02.200 That's your looks prime.

03:20:04.680 It fluctuates for different people.

03:20:06.240 Yeah, I guess.

03:20:07.600 I guess.

03:20:08.760 Like, maybe, like, now's generation, yeah.

03:20:12.200 As opposed to when?

03:20:13.800 As opposed, because I just feel like, like, people now are not aging as well as, like,

03:20:20.440 our ancestors.

03:20:22.360 Oh, I don't, I mean, I don't know.

03:20:24.200 Have you thought about that?

03:20:25.260 But you ever see these old videos of, like, people in high school in the 90s, and they

03:20:29.320 look.

03:20:30.260 Old.

03:20:31.300 They look old, you know?

03:20:33.500 Yeah, I feel like the younger generation.

03:20:34.560 There's a lot that people are doing today that, back then, to affect your looks.

03:20:38.820 Yeah.

03:20:39.300 That is altering it.

03:20:40.640 This is true.

03:20:40.900 So, I definitely looked a heck of a lot better in my 30s than I did in my 20s.

03:20:45.100 That was my prime.

03:20:47.580 Okay.

03:20:48.840 But that's for, like, health reasons, or?

03:20:51.980 How I looked.

03:20:53.300 Oh, okay.

03:20:54.000 My confidence.

03:20:55.020 How I took care of myself.

03:20:56.700 I blossomed in my 30s.

03:20:58.160 My 20s, I didn't care so much about myself.

03:21:00.680 Here, let me ask a different question.

03:21:01.940 As a woman gets older, do her dating options typically increase or decrease? 1.00

03:21:07.840 Decrease, for sure.

03:21:11.260 Decrease.

03:21:11.920 Decrease.

03:21:15.060 Okay, I'll say decrease.

03:21:17.180 Decrease.

03:21:18.000 Decrease.

03:21:19.240 Decrease.

03:21:20.220 Decrease.

03:21:20.880 Wait, so hold on, though.

03:21:22.740 If, as a woman gets older, her dating options decrease, doesn't this mean that they're less 0.73

03:21:31.620 attractive?

03:21:32.840 No, because men know that this older woman has way more standards. 1.00

03:21:36.580 Oh, boy.

03:21:37.380 She's way harder to get than the younger, naive. 1.00

03:21:41.620 This is actually not true at all.

03:21:44.140 I reject the premise.

03:21:46.380 Really?

03:21:47.020 Young men like older women who are confident. 0.94

03:21:49.440 They know what they want.

03:21:50.680 They don't play games.

03:21:52.600 Sorry.

03:21:52.900 I think older women are easier to get. 1.00

03:21:54.820 That's what I was just going to say.

03:21:55.860 I think as you grow older, the less, like, high standards you have because you're getting

03:22:00.080 older.

03:22:00.500 Here's, and here's my argument for it.

03:22:02.580 If you're not with anyone.

03:22:03.580 Like, here's my, here's my argument for it, right?

03:22:05.580 I think your standards raise, I mean, they should raise.

03:22:08.460 But you're saying, so as women get older, they become harder to get, right?

03:22:13.620 Is that, is that what you're saying?

03:22:17.860 Um, I don't know where my brain was going with that.

03:22:22.300 Sorry.

03:22:22.700 Um, I think they are, yes, they're harder to get because these women now have much more 1.00

03:22:30.580 standards and they're not willing to put up with games from these young dudes who want

03:22:35.620 to play games.

03:22:37.860 So they have much higher standards.

03:22:39.760 And even older dudes still play games.

03:22:41.580 Okay.

03:22:43.500 So I guess I disagree though, because, so if it was, if it was easier for, so like you're

03:22:51.260 talking, let's talk 35 year olds, right?

03:22:53.380 So you think, for example, a 35 year old is actually, no, let's do 30 and 20.

03:23:00.160 Do you think a 35, 30 year old man, like the average, average 35 year old man, and then

03:23:07.020 average 30 year old women, average 20 year old woman, who do you think he's going to,

03:23:13.040 he's going to have an easier time actually getting the 30 year old or the 20 year old?

03:23:21.460 Easier.

03:23:22.080 Easier time.

03:23:22.960 The 20 year old.

03:23:23.900 Yeah.

03:23:24.120 One hundred percent.

03:23:24.840 No.

03:23:25.360 One hundred percent.

03:23:25.760 Because men are not intellectually as, because men do not intellectually age and mature as fast 0.91

03:23:35.700 as women do. 0.98

03:23:36.240 So they're going to match with somebody who's kind of more on their level, which is going

03:23:42.360 to be the 20 year old.

03:23:43.780 Hold on.

03:23:44.420 Well, younger women are easier to manipulate as well. 1.00

03:23:46.940 Precisely.

03:23:47.660 And mold and shape and she'll put up with a lot more. 0.84

03:23:51.660 The 30 year old.

03:23:52.260 And they don't expect that as much.

03:23:53.880 Yeah.

03:23:54.300 Yes.

03:23:54.800 So, but you're, you're saying like, I would argue, I would argue that younger women, if

03:24:02.920 you're an older guy, younger women are harder to get than women, your own age. 0.99

03:24:09.000 What?

03:24:09.620 Wait, so the older men don't want women, their own age.

03:24:11.720 They want younger women. 0.93

03:24:12.920 Yeah.

03:24:13.580 What do you mean?

03:24:14.400 Older men want younger women. 0.96

03:24:16.280 Yeah.

03:24:16.460 But what I'm saying is, in order for a 30 year old guy to date a 20 year old, he can't

03:24:22.800 just be the average 30 year old guy.

03:24:25.960 For him to be able to attract a 20, like a 20 year old, he's going to have to bring, like

03:24:31.160 he's going to have to be attractive, exceedingly attractive in some metric.

03:24:36.340 Wow.

03:24:37.320 Yes.

03:24:38.400 Yeah.

03:24:38.860 He's got to bring something.

03:24:39.880 He's got to bring, he's got to bring, he's got to bring money.

03:24:42.300 He's got to bring something.

03:24:43.300 He's got a nice car.

03:24:44.080 He's got, it would be different if it was just like a one night stand.

03:24:46.620 It's like, okay, yeah, whatever.

03:24:47.960 But if they're looking to like date, then like, yeah, she's going to look for something.

03:24:51.500 Okay.

03:24:51.940 Like, but he could, but he could have, he could hook up pretty easily.

03:24:55.360 Yeah.

03:24:56.080 He could hook up pretty easily.

03:24:57.320 With a, no.

03:24:58.520 Any average 30 year old?

03:25:00.480 It's not true.

03:25:02.180 I think it's true.

03:25:03.500 I've seen it on numerous occasions. 0.99

03:25:04.260 You think a 30 year old has a better chance fucking a 20 year old than another 30 year 0.99

03:25:09.000 old? 1.00

03:25:11.900 Yeah.

03:25:12.640 Yeah.

03:25:14.820 Maybe a 25 year old would be halfway.

03:25:16.520 Maybe not for you.

03:25:17.320 What do you mean?

03:25:17.860 Is that your experience or something?

03:25:19.940 No, it's, I would argue most, most men aren't, most 30 year old men are not going to be attractive

03:25:26.700 enough to, because like, here's the thing.

03:25:29.500 I would argue that a 20 year old woman is going to need like a lot more for her to be 1.00

03:25:37.160 willing to date that 30 year old.

03:25:38.820 Like he can't just be, if she's an average 20 year old, he's going to have to like excel

03:25:42.940 in some sort of metric of attraction to be able to date her.

03:25:46.820 But he's 30, but like intellectually he's like 25.

03:25:49.560 So he's going to go for the 20 year old.

03:25:51.920 Okay.

03:25:52.260 She's five years younger than me intellectually.

03:25:54.760 Looks play a huge thing here though.

03:25:56.480 Cause your average 20 year old, if she's not very, I don't want to say not very attractive, 1.00

03:26:01.700 but if she definitely is not the girl who got the guys all the time, she is going to

03:26:05.480 easier be with that 30, their average 30 year old.

03:26:08.120 If you're someone who's always been able to get the guy because you're just hot, then

03:26:12.780 you're not going to go for that average 30 year old unless he's got something to bring.

03:26:17.000 Now, if he's a hot 30 year old, then yes.

03:26:20.760 Unfortunately, it looks play a huge part in this.

03:26:24.500 I want to ask her a personal question.

03:26:25.880 Are you like pretty younger than your husband?

03:26:30.740 Yeah.

03:26:31.000 Seven years younger.

03:26:31.980 Okay.

03:26:32.980 Cause I was just seeing where your head was at with the saying how they're a lot less mature.

03:26:38.660 And this is true though.

03:26:39.900 Men mature a lot slower than women do. 1.00

03:26:43.000 Also, you mentioned younger women are easier to manipulate. 1.00

03:26:47.000 But then you also said that women as they age have less options. 0.99

03:26:52.420 You remember saying that?

03:26:54.420 So aren't you harder to manipulate if you have more options?

03:26:58.880 And don't the people that have more options tend to be younger women? 1.00

03:27:03.480 And so.

03:27:04.740 Aren't you harder to manipulate when you have more options?

03:27:08.140 If you have more options, you're harder to manipulate.

03:27:10.760 A hundred percent.

03:27:11.440 That's correlated.

03:27:12.340 A hundred percent.

03:27:13.180 I don't think that that's correlated.

03:27:14.400 For example.

03:27:15.080 I don't agree with the premise.

03:27:16.360 Okay, cool.

03:27:17.320 So you're saying men like younger women because younger women are easier to manipulate.

03:27:22.740 I think that that's easier to get.

03:27:25.640 You said manipulate.

03:27:26.740 So I'll go with that.

03:27:27.140 No, yeah.

03:27:27.500 Manipulate.

03:27:28.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:27:28.960 Well, I disagree that older women are harder to get. 1.00

03:27:32.820 Or that younger women are easier to manipulate. 1.00

03:27:37.120 So first off, I don't think anybody should be manipulating anybody.

03:27:39.980 But I could, for example, provide, I could provide this.

03:27:43.320 A woman who's 35, who's like, I want to have children. 1.00

03:27:47.980 My options are dwindling.

03:27:49.600 Don't have kids yet.

03:27:50.840 Not even dating a guy.

03:27:51.960 She's much more likely, I think.

03:27:55.580 I think.

03:27:56.100 Because she realized time is ticking.

03:27:58.360 She has far less time to secure a man. 1.00

03:28:02.140 You could just make the argument she's easier to manipulate because she's like, shit, I got 1.00

03:28:09.200 to get a guy. 1.00

03:28:10.740 I got to find a guy.

03:28:13.280 Time's running out.

03:28:14.780 Can you just make the argument she's easier to manipulate?

03:28:17.280 You could make that argument, yeah.

03:28:18.500 I just did.

03:28:19.900 Are you asking if I agree with that?

03:28:21.460 Do you disagree?

03:28:22.160 No, I don't agree with that.

03:28:23.960 Interesting how that works.

03:28:27.660 That we might disagree on something.

03:28:31.540 So, okay.

03:28:32.620 As you get older, you're supposed to learn from your experiences.

03:28:35.940 So if you're 35 and getting manipulated by some dude.

03:28:40.180 Yeah, that's not going to happen.

03:28:41.300 Come on.

03:28:42.380 She might be a more desperate. 0.94

03:28:44.420 She might be in a more desperate situation.

03:28:46.480 But she's not easier to manipulate.

03:28:48.360 Younger women are easier to manipulate, but not more desperate. 1.00

03:28:53.160 Those two things are two separate things.

03:28:54.520 Desperate doesn't mean you'll take anything.

03:28:56.140 It means you want to take.

03:28:57.760 Fine.

03:28:58.280 I'll engage with that.

03:28:59.960 How would one manipulate a younger woman? 1.00

03:29:02.980 Just because she doesn't know as much.

03:29:04.420 You could promise her the world, but she might just believe words instead of actions.

03:29:08.060 Whereas an older woman would be like, I've been through that. 1.00

03:29:10.020 I've done that.

03:29:10.520 I'm going to see what you do, not what you just say.

03:29:12.460 She might be like, I really want to get married right now, and I want to start having kids, 0.95

03:29:16.660 but I'm not going to settle for someone who just talks.

03:29:19.260 Let me finish.

03:29:19.780 That would make her easier to manipulate. 0.92

03:29:20.980 That's not easier to manipulate.

03:29:22.420 That's just somebody who wants.

03:29:23.020 That would make her easier to manipulate. 0.92

03:29:24.180 I think.

03:29:24.720 No.

03:29:25.020 Let me just, I'll tell you why.

03:29:27.540 So, a younger woman might be more inclined to like, well, I don't want kids yet. 0.95

03:29:31.540 I don't want to really settle down.

03:29:32.860 I just want to have fun.

03:29:33.920 I'm in my 20s. 1.00

03:29:34.980 Fuck it. 1.00

03:29:35.420 Just trying to have fun. 1.00

03:29:36.560 Whatever.

03:29:37.240 Maybe she's casually dating. 0.99

03:29:39.880 Promising her the world doesn't mean shit. 0.98

03:29:42.300 But promising the world to a woman who's like, I need to settle down, she's easier to manipulate. 1.00

03:29:49.680 Right there.

03:29:51.740 Because she wants that.

03:29:53.160 Whereas the 20-year-old, oh, you want to be a provider? 1.00

03:29:56.440 Don't give a fuck. 1.00

03:29:57.680 These 20-year-old girls, oh, you want to be a provider? 1.00

03:29:59.980 Don't care.

03:30:00.580 I want the hot college, dude.

03:30:02.020 Don't care.

03:30:02.820 I think that all of these situations exist.

03:30:05.040 Wait, wait, wait.

03:30:05.280 One more question.

03:30:05.820 One more question.

03:30:06.280 I don't think it's hard.

03:30:06.660 Hold on.

03:30:06.920 One more question.

03:30:08.120 Do you think when women are younger, they care more about looks than the male who can provide?

03:30:16.800 Probably.

03:30:17.760 Do you think college girls care more about looks or a guy who can provide? 1.00

03:30:21.460 Probably about looks when you're younger.

03:30:23.160 I would imagine. 1.00

03:30:23.240 Okay, so you can't promise a 20-year-old girl the world because they don't give a fuck. 0.99

03:30:26.480 Right. 1.00

03:30:26.820 They don't care.

03:30:28.200 I mean, they still care.

03:30:29.400 I mean, it just depends. 0.97

03:30:30.760 Do you give a fuck about if a guy can provide for you when you're 18, right? 0.98

03:30:34.960 No. 1.00

03:30:35.520 You give a fuck if a guy can provide for you? 1.00

03:30:37.720 You probably care more if he's, like, fun and cool and good looking, right? 0.99

03:30:41.400 Okay, W.

03:30:42.920 Thank you, Morgan.

03:30:44.000 I mean, I don't disagree with that either.

03:30:45.780 But the 35-year-old woman who's also desperate. 1.00

03:30:47.980 She wants a cool, fun guy who she gets along with.

03:30:50.580 She doesn't care.

03:30:51.260 I don't disagree on that.

03:30:52.240 But the 35-year-old woman who's desperate is going through a screening process. 1.00

03:30:56.700 She's going on these dates.

03:30:58.000 She's like, do you have a house?

03:31:00.360 What's your credit score?

03:31:02.880 Da-da-da-da-da. 0.90

03:31:04.260 Do you have baby mama drama? 1.00

03:31:06.140 And if any of that, if you're not passing those tests, you're out.

03:31:10.220 You're out.

03:31:11.660 And if a woman is doing something right as she gets older, she already has everything she needs. 0.97

03:31:16.780 Right.

03:31:17.260 Right.

03:31:17.400 I have the house.

03:31:18.740 You have the good job.

03:31:19.480 You have the money coming in.

03:31:20.900 I'm not going to just take somebody.

03:31:22.940 Just anybody.

03:31:23.240 If she's waited that long, too, to find somebody, she's just not going to settle.

03:31:27.400 She's not easily manipulated.

03:31:28.900 Yeah.

03:31:29.280 So what does it even mean?

03:31:29.820 She wants it more.

03:31:30.420 What does it mean to manipulate somebody, though?

03:31:32.340 I don't even know.

03:31:34.240 What does that look like?

03:31:36.360 How would I manipulate a 20-year-old woman that, like, I can't manipulate a 30-year-old? 0.99

03:31:41.960 I'm just confused.

03:31:43.080 Because the 20-year-old doesn't have as much experience.

03:31:46.680 She hasn't.

03:31:48.440 So?

03:31:48.840 She might be getting manipulated without even realizing it.

03:31:51.680 Like, emotionally manipulated?

03:31:52.680 She believes the things that you say without knowing that it's a game.

03:31:56.380 Because she knows what she wants during that time.

03:31:58.800 It's not manipulation, though.

03:32:00.800 Sorry.

03:32:01.000 That's what she's choosing to do.

03:32:03.180 Wait.

03:32:03.560 What did you say?

03:32:05.000 It's not really manipulation if that's what she chooses to do, and that's what she wants

03:32:08.720 to get herself. 1.00

03:32:10.320 Right.

03:32:10.680 But manipulation is saying one thing and then doing another.

03:32:14.260 Like, he's saying, I'm going to promise you X, Y, and Z.

03:32:16.900 She realizes two years later, man, this guy really ain't worth...

03:32:20.600 Can I add something?

03:32:23.380 Yeah.

03:32:23.640 Please.

03:32:24.360 So, I think that the length of the relationship plays a huge part, too.

03:32:31.060 Because I think that two girls can meet a guy, and the guy can...

03:32:34.600 Okay, let's say that there's a guy, and he is dating the 30-year-old and the 20-year-old

03:32:39.480 at the same time.

03:32:40.320 He's playing a completely different game, but still manipulating both of them.

03:32:43.860 I think the relationship with the 20-year-old will last a lot longer, because the 30-year-old

03:32:48.380 is not going to be able to read into...

03:32:50.800 Or she will be able to read into things much more quickly, like see his...

03:32:55.840 See where things...

03:32:57.140 Because you just gain wisdom as you grow older and experience things, especially over the

03:33:00.440 course of 10 years.

03:33:02.320 Mm-hmm.

03:33:03.320 Facts.

03:33:05.320 While I would tend to agree with you that as you gain experience, you're perhaps more impervious

03:33:12.840 to manipulation, but her claim was men want to date younger women because they're easier 0.97

03:33:20.040 to manipulate.

03:33:21.300 I don't see any evidence.

03:33:22.540 I don't see any evidence of that.

03:33:24.060 I think that's why it happens.

03:33:25.420 It might not be conscious. 0.91

03:33:27.200 I think that men want to date younger women because they're like, oh, she has perky-ass 1.00

03:33:30.740 tits, and she's young-looking. 0.95

03:33:32.140 I think that that's why men want to date young women, because of pretty much their biological

03:33:36.560 drive, whether they're aware of it or not.

03:33:38.660 I think they get women because they're easier to manipulate. 1.00

03:33:42.520 They have lower standards.

03:33:43.560 They don't have as much experience.

03:33:44.760 They get the women because the women are more easily manipulated. 1.00

03:33:53.960 Is that what you're saying?

03:33:55.760 Yeah, they're easier to get when they're younger.

03:33:58.100 So, wait.

03:33:58.660 Easier to get equals manipulated.

03:34:03.520 No.

03:34:04.760 I'm kind of confused.

03:34:05.920 Look, you use the word manipulated.

03:34:07.180 I think younger women are easier to manipulate. 1.00

03:34:12.540 So?

03:34:14.060 What does that have to do with a guy who's men's attraction to younger women?

03:34:20.440 I mean, I think that it's easier for them to get younger women because they're easier 1.00

03:34:24.300 to manipulate.

03:34:25.140 Like, they're easier to impress.

03:34:26.880 You know what I'm saying?

03:34:27.640 Like, a younger woman might be like, oh, my God, he drives a Porsche, and he has money, 0.98

03:34:32.240 da-da-da-da-da-da-da.

03:34:33.240 It's like Aladdin.

03:34:34.000 Takes her on the carpet.

03:34:35.060 She's like, whoa. 1.00

03:34:35.740 Whereas an older woman might be like, I don't give a fuck what kind of car you drive. 1.00

03:34:39.060 Like, are you a good person? 0.99

03:34:39.840 Like, you know what I'm saying?

03:34:40.680 Like, it's just not going to be as impressive as her.

03:34:41.740 She wants to get down to the back.

03:34:42.860 No, I still care about the car he drives.

03:34:44.260 I don't agree with that.

03:34:45.520 Well, yeah.

03:34:46.480 Sure.

03:34:47.260 That makes two of us.

03:34:49.180 My husband drives a nice car.

03:34:50.440 I mean, going back to Morgan's example here.

03:34:53.880 Morgan's 18.

03:34:55.160 That's right.

03:34:55.800 She's probably not overly preoccupied with, like, wow, does he have, like, some penthouse apartment?

03:35:02.940 Like, most young women who are in college will date the dude who lives in a dorm room, 0.95

03:35:08.540 will date the dude who's got, like, three roommates, three housemates.

03:35:12.000 It's older women who are going to have higher expectations. 1.00

03:35:14.480 They want a guy who has his own house.

03:35:16.060 They want a guy who has his own car.

03:35:17.400 A 18, 19, 20-year-old girl will date a dude who takes the bus.

03:35:22.100 Would it be, perhaps they might have a preference.

03:35:23.640 It might be nicer if he has his own car.

03:35:25.600 Yeah.

03:35:26.560 But this idea that women who are older don't care about the material things. 1.00

03:35:30.540 I think if there's a young guy who's good looking, he doesn't really have a lot going on for him necessarily.

03:35:36.960 Yeah, a young girl's probably not going to be as, like, no, I'm not going to date you. 0.78

03:35:40.540 But that guy's pursuing her.

03:35:42.800 Another guy who's 30 is also pursuing her, but he has a car and a house and more money.

03:35:49.160 She's probably going to pick him if he's also good looking.

03:35:51.740 I actually disagree.

03:35:53.320 Grant.

03:35:53.720 If she was given the choice, yeah.

03:35:55.180 Given the choice between the two of them.

03:35:56.480 If she was given the choice.

03:35:57.160 Between the better looking young guy.

03:36:00.640 Like, if he's still a good looking older guy. 0.99

03:36:02.660 He's not, like, ugly as fuck, but he's rich. 0.99

03:36:04.460 It's like, he's still good looking, you know. 0.99

03:36:06.540 Well, the thing is, though, the thing is, though, is here's the thing.

03:36:10.480 So, I don't think that's the case because there's not, there is not a lack of men who are in their late 20s or 30s who are well off or have jobs, whatever, who would love to date an attractive 20-year-old baddie.

03:36:28.440 But it seems to me that most 20-year-old women, there are some 20-year-old women, no problem, we'll date an older guy. 1.00

03:36:36.100 Most 20-year-old women probably want to date men around their age.

03:36:40.360 Yeah.

03:36:40.500 21, 20.

03:36:41.180 And we know this because those are the men that they're dating in relationships with and sleeping with.

03:36:49.020 Yeah, women tend to like men their same age.

03:36:51.700 But you think, if we were to pull, if we were to pull all the 20-year-old women, what's the distribution of them who are dating men in their 30s?

03:37:10.280 Because it's probably like less than 5% of them are dating men in their 30s, and then 95% of them are dating men their age.

03:37:22.520 Probably.

03:37:23.460 But I think more of them are dating a guy at least a year older or somewhat older.

03:37:30.700 I mean, we don't know.

03:37:31.680 Yeah, but I don't really.

03:37:32.580 One year older, two years older.

03:37:34.140 I don't consider that an age gap.

03:37:37.480 A 20-year-old dating a 21-year-old.

03:37:39.880 There's an age gap.

03:37:40.840 It's not really.

03:37:41.480 Okay, yeah.

03:37:42.660 He was born a day before her.

03:37:45.640 This predator. 1.00

03:37:46.840 This fucking predator piece of shit. 1.00

03:37:49.660 There's a 24-hour gap between they were born. 1.00

03:37:53.060 Fucking, fucking. 1.00

03:37:55.040 So what would you consider a gap? 1.00

03:37:56.980 20 and 25?

03:37:57.140 He wants to manipulate this younger, this 24-hour younger.

03:38:03.060 Ugh.

03:38:03.800 Gives me the ick.

03:38:05.700 What's that?

03:38:06.260 Go ahead.

03:38:07.020 What would you consider an age gap?

03:38:08.500 Like five years or more?

03:38:09.880 Uh, sure.

03:38:12.980 Okay.

03:38:13.680 Sure.

03:38:14.500 I think, yeah, over five.

03:38:16.660 I'm curious what the numbers actually are.

03:38:21.280 But I mean, I do want to answer the question.

03:38:23.180 Of the women who are 20, who are in, who are like seeing somebody dating a guy, hooking

03:38:29.300 up with a guy, you think more often than not, it's like a guy around their age as compared

03:38:35.060 to like a guy in his late 20s, early 30s.

03:38:37.320 Around, yeah.

03:38:37.640 Or older.

03:38:38.780 So it's like 95.

03:38:39.680 Within five years.

03:38:40.640 95%.

03:38:41.600 They're probably dating.

03:38:43.020 Yeah.

03:38:43.560 Unless they're looking for someone to pay for their college.

03:38:45.100 Right.

03:38:45.500 Yeah.

03:38:45.980 Also, that's what I was going to say.

03:38:47.500 A lot of the time when it's a really big age gap and the woman is a lot younger, she's 0.85

03:38:51.480 usually there for other, like ulterior motives than just wanting to be with him.

03:38:57.740 Uh, maybe.

03:38:58.920 If it's really big, like if it, if it gets like 20 plus, like 20, 40, there's probably

03:39:04.880 a monetary thing.

03:39:05.740 Yeah.

03:39:06.320 But I think like 20 and like late, late 20s, early 30s.

03:39:10.440 No.

03:39:10.720 No, that's not necessarily money.

03:39:13.240 Right.

03:39:13.340 Like he could just be like really attractive guy in his.

03:39:16.300 Yeah.

03:39:17.180 So good talk.

03:39:19.620 Good talk.

03:39:21.520 But really 10, 10, all 10s.

03:39:24.180 I'm sorry.

03:39:24.520 I got that.

03:39:24.860 I can't, can't grant it.

03:39:27.160 Can't grant.

03:39:28.920 I'll just say this.

03:39:31.580 There's no 10s at the table.

03:39:34.140 That's okay.

03:39:36.880 Do you want to talk about it?

03:39:38.160 We can talk.

03:39:39.180 You want to talk about it?

03:39:40.400 You feeling okay?

03:39:41.140 See, she broke you. 0.87

03:39:42.260 I can give you a little therapy session.

03:39:43.900 Now you want to talk.

03:39:45.400 Who, Pearl broke me?

03:39:46.140 Yeah, she broke you.

03:39:47.320 She broke through the rough exterior.

03:39:49.500 Yeah.

03:39:49.980 And now you, you, you're just overflowing.

03:39:51.660 You're asking us about our feelings now.

03:39:54.340 I know.

03:39:54.840 Yeah, I'm going to grow up.

03:39:55.460 He's initiating it now.

03:39:56.220 Since when did you care?

03:39:57.400 Okay.

03:39:58.920 I'm going to get a man bun or something.

03:40:03.780 Let's see.

03:40:04.340 We got some chats.

03:40:05.700 Jordan, if you can read these.

03:40:09.480 Look, I never said a man shouldn't love his wife.

03:40:12.100 Just said a woman should be as God says. 1.00

03:40:14.520 When you all say he used the Bible.

03:40:16.620 That's a low blow.

03:40:17.520 You don't know me.

03:40:18.340 I am watching you.

03:40:20.320 Wait, what?

03:40:21.300 Well, obviously.

03:40:21.780 That's creepy.

03:40:22.780 I'm watching you.

03:40:23.140 Yeah.

03:40:23.340 That's.

03:40:23.940 You are. 0.93

03:40:24.580 What the heck is watching us? 0.84

03:40:25.820 And you're paying to watch us. 0.96

03:40:27.480 I'm dead.

03:40:28.340 But, yeah, but he's only choosing one part of it until we brought the other part.

03:40:33.440 Unfortunately, men tend to want to only bring up one part of it.

03:40:37.840 Yeah.

03:40:38.740 Facts.

03:40:39.000 To what it benefits.

03:40:39.640 That's facts.

03:40:40.200 Pearl, won't you read?

03:40:43.120 Yeah.

03:40:43.940 This one's about to disappear, so just read this next one.

03:40:46.180 Young impressionable women fall for this degenerate media and behavior that can be extracted 1.00

03:40:50.240 from it.

03:40:50.740 WAP.

03:40:51.500 16 and pregnant.

03:40:52.760 Oop.

03:40:53.460 Other vanity projects to warp our youth indoctrinated and ungood.

03:40:56.720 Go ahead and read this one.

03:40:57.720 All 10s at the table.

03:40:58.980 If you're truly a 10, there should be no need for makeup.

03:41:01.040 Would you be willing to get the wipes and show us what 10 could look like?

03:41:03.800 Oh, my God.

03:41:04.640 Please, no.

03:41:05.720 Do we have any makeup wipes?

03:41:07.680 I'm not.

03:41:08.220 I refuse to use makeup wipes.

03:41:10.200 I didn't call myself.

03:41:11.500 You refuse?

03:41:12.340 Yeah.

03:41:13.000 But.

03:41:15.600 I only refuse because, like, I already messed with my skin enough.

03:41:21.220 Okay.

03:41:22.100 They can.

03:41:22.900 You guys can.

03:41:23.580 I know you're beautiful.

03:41:24.440 Which tweet?

03:41:25.020 Oh, the makeup one?

03:41:26.560 I've already done it.

03:41:27.560 I did it on my first one.

03:41:28.760 It just accentuates your natural features.

03:41:34.900 Oh, man.

03:41:36.300 Wow.

03:41:36.700 This is obviously an exaggeration.

03:41:39.300 Yeah, there's no way.

03:41:40.020 That's, like, hecka.

03:41:41.100 She's, like, trying.

03:41:41.760 Well, she had no eyebrows. 0.55

03:41:42.920 She had eyebrows.

03:41:44.020 Whatever.

03:41:45.260 Okay.

03:41:45.780 There's a difference between natural glam.

03:41:47.580 Wait.

03:41:47.940 And full beaten glam.

03:41:50.440 Anybody willing to remove their makeup?

03:41:52.320 Yeah.

03:41:52.540 The 10s.

03:41:53.160 I already did it.

03:41:53.740 Oh, no.

03:41:54.020 Oh, yeah.

03:41:54.260 You did do that one.

03:41:55.160 I did.

03:41:55.840 We didn't write our 10s.

03:41:57.020 Pearl, can you read this one?

03:41:58.440 You did?

03:41:59.280 I did on the first one.

03:42:00.360 I'm a 30-year-old guy who owns his own business that had his wife leave him.

03:42:05.000 Women have so many options. 1.00

03:42:06.420 It's been two years, and I don't date because women don't hold the same standards as men. 0.85

03:42:10.180 Oh, man.

03:42:13.720 Okay.

03:42:15.260 Simple acorn.

03:42:16.220 Thank you, man.

03:42:16.660 Appreciate it.

03:42:18.040 Actually, going back to that one, you guys said that, like, as a woman gets older, like, her standards increase.

03:42:25.740 I...

03:42:25.980 Don't...

03:42:26.260 Shouldn't it be the reverse?

03:42:27.040 So, I completely actually disagree because, like, knowing that there are, like, women who love God at the table, like, there's something in the Bible that says if you're equally yoked, like, your values will be enough to allow you to work in a relationship regardless of age, regardless of circumstance, regardless of this, that.

03:42:49.440 I think that in order to support each other in, like, your work that you're doing under God's influence, like, to encourage each other, there are better matches.

03:43:00.720 But ultimately, if you guys, like, are obeying God to the same extent in, like, following all of his instructions, there should not be an issue, like, at all.

03:43:10.620 So, like, the standard thing is kind of wiped off.

03:43:13.260 Like, it's...

03:43:13.940 You know what I mean?

03:43:14.940 I don't know if you guys...

03:43:16.180 If you guys have anything to add to that.

03:43:18.280 Well, the unequally yoked is definitely part of it, but the thing is, is we also, as we get older, no matter if you're married for 5 years, 10 years, 15, 20, 30, 40, as a person, you should want to take care of yourself.

03:43:30.540 And if you take care of yourself, you will still be attractive to your spouse, and if your spouse does the same.

03:43:35.780 So, if you just allow yourself and you go, you know what, I got you, 5 years in, I've gained 40 pounds, I could care less, then you've now changed the dynamic of the relationship, and you shouldn't be taking away what helped.

03:43:47.420 But isn't it implied in the Bible, too, that, like, we need, that we do need to, in a way, like, take care of ourselves in order to serve our husband?

03:43:59.380 Honor our temple, yeah.

03:44:00.460 Yeah.

03:44:00.680 Definitely.

03:44:01.680 I mean, I feel like, for me, the way that I have, like, viewed it is, like, how my husband met me, and the values I held going into saying my vows the day of the marriage are the same values that I should carry out into my marriage.

03:44:17.020 I shouldn't just change who I am and my values just because I'm married, and, oh, yeah, I gotcha, you know, we're married now.

03:44:23.880 Like, I could just give up on myself, like, that's not fair to me, that's not fair to him, and he shouldn't do the, he shouldn't do the same thing.

03:44:31.320 Or he should do the same thing, take care of himself.

03:44:34.560 Were you guys just as confident before you were with the person you're with now?

03:44:41.420 No, I wasn't, and that's why I'm saying I met my husband when I was 24.

03:44:45.340 I got married when I was 25.

03:44:47.140 I was way heavier.

03:44:49.940 I didn't have much confidence.

03:44:52.040 My looks were way different.

03:44:54.160 And over the last 21 years, my weight's gone up, it's gone down, it's gone up.

03:44:58.100 But I'm much better now than I was back then.

03:45:02.040 But I had to find myself, and he was there to support me.

03:45:04.780 I want to ask the 10, the 9, and the 10.

03:45:07.700 That's beautiful.

03:45:08.500 I want you guys to rate me on a scale of 1 to 10.

03:45:13.060 The what?

03:45:13.440 My looks.

03:45:13.980 The 10 and the 9.

03:45:15.140 Can you tilt your mic down?

03:45:17.160 Yeah, I don't like that.

03:45:19.500 Go ahead.

03:45:20.080 No.

03:45:20.300 I won't be offended.

03:45:21.140 Oh, I don't think that you'll be offended.

03:45:22.620 I won't be offended.

03:45:23.380 I know that you won't be offended.

03:45:24.600 Okay.

03:45:25.600 Go ahead.

03:45:26.760 Pass.

03:45:27.980 Jordan, give me a rating.

03:45:35.180 He's fixing himself.

03:45:39.080 I'm going to give you a solid 6.

03:45:42.480 I don't want to rate you.

03:45:47.600 I don't want to rate you.

03:45:47.780 That's just mean.

03:45:49.000 It's not mean.

03:45:49.580 Go ahead.

03:45:50.140 He's asking for it.

03:45:51.480 He clearly doesn't care if we get offended.

03:45:53.340 I'm asking for it.

03:45:54.140 Lay it on him.

03:45:55.300 Are you trying to justify?

03:45:57.200 He's putting himself in a position to be judged.

03:46:01.120 He asked for it.

03:46:02.120 Think about it.

03:46:03.280 He said, he looked at us and was like, none of you are 10.

03:46:05.860 I'm going to say 5, but only because values differ.

03:46:10.700 No, looks.

03:46:11.360 Just looks.

03:46:11.960 Forget the values.

03:46:13.780 She's like still a 5. 0.99

03:46:16.360 5 and a half.

03:46:19.640 She's all 3.

03:46:21.440 No, no, no.

03:46:21.960 Because I'm the type.

03:46:22.860 I honestly.

03:46:27.000 The way he stared into the camera.

03:46:28.840 No.

03:46:29.780 I need to preface this.

03:46:31.620 You only date black eyes?

03:46:32.600 No, I need it.

03:46:33.560 Sorry, Desmond.

03:46:34.260 You could be literally the most like handsome man in the entire world.

03:46:38.140 And if like it's just not it, you would still be a 1 to me.

03:46:42.460 If that makes sense.

03:46:43.240 Does that make sense?

03:46:44.780 That's a lie because.

03:46:47.000 Wait.

03:46:47.580 What?

03:46:48.180 I just lied to myself and to all of y'all.

03:46:51.040 But it was fine.

03:46:53.260 That was a lie.

03:46:54.040 Can somebody translate?

03:46:55.520 Can somebody translate the woman's?

03:46:58.060 I'm just going to say it's a 6 for me.

03:47:01.000 It's a 6.

03:47:01.580 Oh, we agree.

03:47:03.100 See?

03:47:03.980 Go ahead, Pearl.

03:47:04.620 Yeah, you're a 6.

03:47:05.320 I already gave my answer.

03:47:06.700 All right, Pearl.

03:47:07.960 All right, Pearl.

03:47:10.060 Let's.

03:47:10.840 Are we done with.

03:47:11.600 We got chats.

03:47:12.280 Okay, let's do the pre-show notes then.

03:47:14.240 We got pre-show notes.

03:47:15.280 We got to get through the notes.

03:47:16.200 Guys, we're going to react to Pearl's viral video.

03:47:20.080 New York Post.

03:47:21.840 TikTok.

03:47:22.780 Millions of views.

03:47:25.680 Yep.

03:47:26.380 Uh-huh.

03:47:28.720 Wait.

03:47:29.520 Music career.

03:47:30.740 Okay.

03:47:30.960 Pull up the New York Post article from Pearl.

03:47:36.480 I use this hack to shame cheap men who want to split the bill.

03:47:42.680 Guys say it's manipulative.

03:47:44.260 Now who's manipulative?

03:47:45.580 Pearl.

03:47:46.800 Oh, I mean, guys definitely say it's manipulative.

03:47:50.840 I'll talk.

03:47:51.240 I'll give my thoughts after.

03:47:52.060 Scroll down a bit, Nick.

03:47:53.040 Scroll down.

03:47:54.260 Scroll down.

03:47:55.000 This 100% genius hack will get 50-50 cheapos in check.

03:47:59.700 Splitting the bill on a first date has become a topic of contention.

03:48:04.700 One shady dater has devised.

03:48:06.720 Oh, my God.

03:48:07.420 Alliteration. 1.00

03:48:08.020 All the fucking. 1.00

03:48:08.700 Okay. 1.00

03:48:09.160 One shady dater has devised a deliciously devious trick.

03:48:12.740 Oh, man.

03:48:13.160 I bet she was very exuberant over that.

03:48:18.760 Okay.

03:48:18.900 That's sure to leave tight-fisted fellas with egg on their face. 1.00

03:48:23.220 What?

03:48:24.080 When a man...

03:48:24.940 Actually, just go to the video, Nick.

03:48:26.340 Pull up the TikTok.

03:48:27.620 Next page.

03:48:30.120 Let's see it.

03:48:35.420 When a man wants to go 50-50 with you on a date, do this.

03:48:38.280 Oh, my God.

03:48:43.620 I'm so embarrassed right now.

03:48:47.460 Wait.

03:48:47.920 You wanted to just be friends?

03:48:50.440 I'm so confused.

03:48:51.720 This whole entire time, I thought this was a date.

03:48:54.260 Oh, my God.

03:48:55.040 Okay.

03:48:55.300 I'm so sorry.

03:48:55.920 Here's my card.

03:49:01.720 I see how that works.

03:49:03.660 I see how it works.

03:49:05.080 See how it works?

03:49:05.900 Yeah.

03:49:06.080 I can see that.

03:49:06.720 Now, so you want a traditional guy, right?

03:49:11.940 I wouldn't say that I want a traditional guy, no.

03:49:14.460 But you want a guy to pay for first dates.

03:49:16.160 I would like somebody to pay for the first date, yes.

03:49:18.440 Why?

03:49:21.080 Because the kind of man that I'm looking for...

03:49:24.320 I'm looking for, like, the father of my children, life partner, somebody who has ambition, leadership qualities,

03:49:33.060 like, someone who has, like, honestly, like, a job where he could, you know, where he's, like, looking for a wife, someone who wants to take care of a wife and his children. 0.99

03:49:42.180 And, like, if I get pregnant with his babies, that it's, we're not going to be fucked if we get married, you know? 0.79

03:49:46.440 Like, so I think, like, to me, I don't think of, like, it being modern versus traditional. 0.99

03:49:56.300 I just think, like, what kind of energy do I want?

03:49:59.340 What kind of man do I want?

03:50:00.940 And I think the standard that I have is that if a man asks me out on a date, I would expect that, like, out of courtesy, he would take care of it.

03:50:07.760 That's just what I want.

03:50:09.740 Do I actually think that women should use this as a hack to get men to pay for them? 1.00

03:50:15.060 No.

03:50:15.580 I think that women should live in such a way and have the kind of energy where that if a man asked them out and they had a conversation, it would just, that's just what they would want to do. 1.00

03:50:25.040 And if they don't want to do it, that's totally fine, but I would just really probably see that person as a friend.

03:50:31.340 That's just a standard that I have for myself.

03:50:34.180 Oh, if you want to split the bill on the first date, like, we're probably just not a long-term match.

03:50:38.880 Do I think you should actually use this?

03:50:40.800 Like I said last time I was here, no.

03:50:42.820 I think this was a skit to illustrate a standard, and a standard is different than manipulation.

03:50:47.540 I see how people could take it as me giving them a hack, like the Shira 7 kind of stuff, 0.77

03:50:52.720 but I personally didn't intend it to be that.

03:50:56.020 I had no idea it was going to blow up the way that it did.

03:50:58.820 But, yeah, my standard is if a man asks me on a date, he's picking it.

03:51:04.020 It could be coffee.

03:51:05.140 It could be an expensive dinner.

03:51:06.440 It could be a walk.

03:51:07.420 And I get to say yes or no to the date, but if he planned it and he picked it,

03:51:11.800 the very first thing I feel like a good impression is to take care of the bill.

03:51:15.300 Well, regardless of whether you intend to employ this hack.

03:51:21.380 I never called it a hack.

03:51:22.740 That's what all the posts and all the people in the comments called it.

03:51:25.380 Regardless of whether you actually employ this, oh, you want to split the bill?

03:51:30.100 I didn't know you wanted to just be friends.

03:51:32.200 I mean, the sentiment is still there, right?

03:51:35.080 So if a guy did want to split the bill, there wouldn't be a second date, correct?

03:51:40.240 Yeah, probably not.

03:51:41.180 If he did split the bill, it wouldn't be a second date.

03:51:42.840 Yeah, if I went to coffee and he's like, hey, can you Venmo me six bucks?

03:51:45.400 I'd be like.

03:51:45.900 No, he doesn't say that, but he goes in, he orders his thing, he arrives before you,

03:51:49.820 and then you arrive, he doesn't go ahead and pay for yours.

03:51:52.980 I would just assume it's not a date.

03:51:54.280 I would assume that that's for friend.

03:51:55.580 That would be like a friend thing.

03:51:56.520 But what if he like overtly uses communication and says, no, this is a date.

03:52:02.320 Like, I am romantically and sexually interested in you.

03:52:05.140 Yeah, I would be very surprised, and yeah, I probably wouldn't want to date him.

03:52:08.560 Even though, because you're saying, well, I wouldn't date him again because he wants to be friends.

03:52:13.440 But he's saying, well, I don't want to be friends. 1.00

03:52:15.360 I actually want to date you, but I also don't want to pay for your shit. 0.99

03:52:19.880 Yeah, I wouldn't like that. 1.00

03:52:20.980 Fair enough.

03:52:21.660 Going around the table, who should pay on a first date?

03:52:25.080 Men.

03:52:26.700 I think either.

03:52:28.100 Sure.

03:52:29.120 If he asks him.

03:52:30.780 Okay.

03:52:31.100 Men.

03:52:32.860 Men.

03:52:33.920 Men.

03:52:35.000 Men.

03:52:36.160 Okay, so.

03:52:39.000 Could I also just ask her one question?

03:52:41.120 Sure.

03:52:41.680 Have you ever paid on a first date?

03:52:44.100 When I was younger and more easily manipulated, yes.

03:52:47.060 Oh, my.

03:52:48.420 Did you want to pay?

03:52:50.280 But now, no.

03:52:51.700 I haven't had to.

03:52:52.900 My friends, I mean, even my male friends, I never pay for myself.

03:52:57.440 Wait, I have a question.

03:52:58.780 Yeah.

03:52:58.900 You said when you were younger and you were dating guys, like, you would split.

03:53:04.440 Yeah, I might offer.

03:53:05.800 You would split.

03:53:06.340 I think the majority of the times men would say yes.

03:53:07.880 Wait, question.

03:53:08.400 Did you ever hook up with any of these guys that didn't pay?

03:53:13.900 I don't know.

03:53:16.020 I don't.

03:53:16.480 I don't know.

03:53:18.560 I don't remember.

03:53:20.120 You don't remember?

03:53:22.120 I don't think so, no.

03:53:24.100 I don't think I ever did, to be honest.

03:53:26.380 It wasn't a normal occurrence, but it did happen a few times before, but now it never happens, ever.

03:53:34.940 And I never talk about it.

03:53:35.900 I never say it.

03:53:36.640 It never happens.

03:53:36.860 This was the big point of contention on the previous show.

03:53:41.940 Would you take your husband's last name?

03:53:44.020 Oh, yeah.

03:53:44.460 We were talking about that.

03:53:45.700 I would.

03:53:46.820 I would take my husband's last name.

03:53:48.260 That wasn't your answer, though, the previous time.

03:53:50.060 My answer was, I don't know.

03:53:51.960 Like, I was just, like, saying I don't know.

03:53:53.500 And then I got a huge reaction from it.

03:53:55.200 I was like, oh, I didn't even know that it mattered that much to men.

03:53:58.520 And then we had this whole thing.

03:53:59.760 But I was like, oh, I truly didn't even know that it would matter that much.

03:54:03.580 But, yeah, if my husband wanted me to take his last name, like, I have no problem with that.

03:54:08.400 Would there be a conversation about it?

03:54:10.120 Would he have to justify it?

03:54:11.780 No, I don't think so.

03:54:13.180 No?

03:54:13.360 If we're getting married?

03:54:14.180 Oh, I thought there had to be a conversation.

03:54:16.940 Like, he just said, you're taking my last name.

03:54:19.960 I don't, you're taking it?

03:54:21.560 That's just, like, a weird vibe.

03:54:24.000 You said men should pay.

03:54:26.820 I'd say that's what I want.

03:54:28.060 You have to pay for first dates.

03:54:29.740 I wouldn't approach it like that.

03:54:30.760 I would say that that's what I want.

03:54:32.400 And if he was like, that's this, I would prefer, like, I really want you to take my last name.

03:54:36.140 It means this to me.

03:54:36.860 It means, I'd be like, okay.

03:54:37.840 Didn't you say that?

03:54:38.940 Well, I'd have to determine if his last name was cool enough.

03:54:42.500 Didn't you say that?

03:54:43.480 I did say that, yeah.

03:54:44.980 But I don't think, that's actually not true, though, now.

03:54:47.380 You said that, though.

03:54:48.440 I said that.

03:54:49.140 And I'm allowed to evolve and change my opinion.

03:54:51.580 Absolutely.

03:54:52.100 And I think that that would totally be great with me. 0.99

03:54:55.020 Even if he had an ugly ass last name, I would still take it. 0.99

03:54:57.740 If it really meant a lot to him. 0.99

03:54:59.400 Well, I'm glad we had that impact on you.

03:55:01.160 I'm glad we were able to.

03:55:01.380 Yeah, thank you so much to the Whatever Podcast.

03:55:02.820 You've changed my life.

03:55:03.780 You're very welcome.

03:55:05.620 But we did point out that when we brought this conversation up, and you're like, well, I don't know.

03:55:11.180 I don't think.

03:55:11.980 I mean, it depends on his last name.

03:55:13.480 I'd have to think about it.

03:55:14.320 And then we said, hold on.

03:55:18.260 You don't want to take my last name?

03:55:19.940 Oh, I didn't know that this was a friend date.

03:55:22.500 I didn't know you wanted to just be friends.

03:55:24.580 Yeah, that was funny.

03:55:25.340 I remember that.

03:55:25.600 That was a good one.

03:55:26.320 It was a good one.

03:55:27.100 Good one.

03:55:27.660 Yeah.

03:55:29.400 Just be friends.

03:55:30.320 I'm a changed woman.

03:55:31.640 Yeah, you should thank me for this.

03:55:34.040 I did.

03:55:34.580 I literally just did.

03:55:35.480 Yeah, it's good.

03:55:36.380 It's good.

03:55:36.820 So, okay.

03:55:41.480 Why should men pay? 0.98

03:55:45.080 Men can do whatever they want.

03:55:47.320 I would prefer personally if my man was the kind of man who would want to take care of

03:55:52.860 a first date.

03:55:53.520 They don't have to, and they can date someone else who wants to do that.

03:55:58.360 Like, why should it be that men should pay for first dates? 0.97

03:56:01.220 Why do I like that in a man? 0.82

03:56:04.180 And why do I prefer that?

03:56:05.580 Yeah, why should men pay for first dates?

03:56:07.920 I'm not saying that all men should do anything.

03:56:10.420 If there's a 50-50 man who doesn't want to pay on the first date for whatever reason...

03:56:15.460 Would you tell one of your girlfriends?

03:56:16.720 He should be paired with a woman who also wants to do that.

03:56:20.640 They can go ahead and do that.

03:56:22.000 In your female friend group, what would you prescriptively tell your female friends?

03:56:27.540 If you're giving her advice and a guy did this, you would be like, well, if that's the

03:56:32.840 arrangement you want, or would you prescriptively say, he's not the guy for you?

03:56:37.860 I would say, what do you want?

03:56:40.060 And if she was like, I'd prefer that if he paid for it, I would say, okay.

03:56:44.780 What if she didn't know?

03:56:45.900 If she didn't know?

03:56:46.620 And she was going to you for guidance, what would you tell her?

03:56:48.780 I mean, I think that men who want to take care of the first date are typically, I think

03:56:55.300 it's related and correlated to leadership abilities.

03:56:59.380 And men who don't want to pay for the first date, I feel like, probably have been burned

03:57:04.720 by women, have been maybe manipulated or taken advantage of financially, and are skeptical

03:57:10.980 of women, which is totally fair. 1.00

03:57:13.000 I think that there totally are women who use men for their money. 1.00

03:57:15.420 Um, so I think that, you know, that they should have that discussion, like, you know, and

03:57:22.540 decide what they want.

03:57:23.560 Sure.

03:57:24.020 Going around the table, why should men pay? 0.57

03:57:30.500 Well, just to, um, make my answer a little bit more clear, if a man asks you out, whoever

03:57:38.460 is asking the person out should be paying because you are essentially taking initiative.

03:57:43.880 And for me and a man, I like a man who takes initiative.

03:57:46.960 I like a man who can take, you know, charge of a situation, whether good or bad.

03:57:52.520 And if we're on a good date, you know, we're both trying to get to know each other and that's

03:57:56.640 great.

03:57:57.400 But at the end of the day, if you have set this date to happen, then you got to see it

03:58:02.800 through and pay for the bill.

03:58:04.800 You do understand though, that it's mostly men who do take the initiative.

03:58:09.560 Of course I do.

03:58:10.240 I'm just saying that because Brian.

03:58:11.340 Um, I take the advice from my father and he says that if you're on a first date, if

03:58:20.560 they did ask you, then they should pay.

03:58:22.920 But if they want to split it, then that's fine.

03:58:24.900 It doesn't, it shouldn't really matter whether you split it or, or, or they pay.

03:58:29.780 Like I've been on dates and I've, I've offered to pay and I've paid the whole bill, like just

03:58:34.160 out of, you know, courtesy, whoever offers.

03:58:37.200 Does it make you feel any way about that person?

03:58:39.220 No.

03:58:40.420 That's good.

03:58:41.140 I've done the same thing.

03:58:41.960 I've paid for bills and I, it's not something I get upset over.

03:58:45.140 It's a preference, but it's not something I would get, you know, offended over.

03:58:49.860 Okay.

03:58:50.220 And I stated, if he asks, then he should pay.

03:58:54.140 So I go along with the same thing.

03:58:58.440 Yeah.

03:58:58.840 Me too.

03:58:59.360 I think that whoever takes initiative should definitely pay the bill first.

03:59:02.560 Um, I think it would be weird if he like asked me out on a date and then he was like, all

03:59:06.960 right, here's the, here's the check.

03:59:08.460 Like I'd be like, Oh, he shouldn't even let you see it.

03:59:11.160 He shouldn't even let you see it.

03:59:12.340 He should just grab it and not even let you see what it says.

03:59:15.180 Not even split it.

03:59:15.720 You know what I think is fair?

03:59:16.780 You know what though?

03:59:17.840 I went on, I like initiated a date and he like, he paid for the bill without me even

03:59:24.260 looking and I was like, Oh my gosh, like this man is like amazing.

03:59:27.900 I mean, I still think he's amazing, but yeah.

03:59:29.700 Even when women initiate, they'll still get the treatment. 1.00

03:59:34.920 Uh, you know what I think, you know, it's fair.

03:59:38.520 What do you guys make this trade?

03:59:39.900 We men, we continue to be initiators, but you guys pay for the whole date.

03:59:44.080 That's fair, right?

03:59:44.860 Yeah.

03:59:47.140 Like we have to do the burden of asking you out.

03:59:51.200 Why is that a burden?

03:59:52.340 It's a burden.

03:59:53.260 It's not, it's not a burden.

03:59:54.700 Is it something that has to be done?

03:59:56.120 Well, if it's a burden, you probably don't want her enough.

03:59:58.440 I think it is.

03:59:59.020 It's a delight.

04:00:00.180 It's work.

04:00:01.000 It's a burden.

04:00:01.980 It's work to approach somebody to be rejected.

04:00:05.580 It takes guts, but it's not a burden.

04:00:08.520 Set a panel of women who have never been rejected.

04:00:10.860 She was like a different word.

04:00:12.280 Yeah.

04:00:12.780 Don't say burden.

04:00:13.500 That's the wrong word.

04:00:15.420 Wait, have none of you ever, like, have you ever been to a party?

04:00:20.000 Yeah.

04:00:20.560 Have you ever been to a party?

04:00:21.560 Have guys ever approached you?

04:00:23.160 Yeah.

04:00:23.640 Have you ever been to a party where you rejected every single guy who approached you?

04:00:27.040 Yeah.

04:00:27.560 Mm-hmm.

04:00:27.900 And do you think, like, there were other girls at the party that also rejected them?

04:00:33.160 Mm-hmm.

04:00:33.800 And then, like, boom, rejection, rejection, rejection.

04:00:36.800 Okay, but...

04:00:37.160 Have any of you ever been to a party and approached man after man after man and been rejected and

04:00:43.920 had the...

04:00:46.080 Yeah, but I'm also holding the burden of feeling bad for rejecting you.

04:00:49.960 Oh.

04:00:50.460 That's a burden.

04:00:50.840 Not a party, but, like, you know what?

04:00:53.220 It's so...

04:00:53.940 Oh, my sweet, so much.

04:00:55.400 Oh.

04:00:56.500 Oh, my God.

04:00:56.800 I hate it.

04:00:57.500 I hate it every time it hurts. 0.99

04:00:58.500 Women don't... 1.00

04:00:59.140 Actually, women love rejecting that. 1.00

04:01:01.120 No, I hate it.

04:01:01.800 They love it.

04:01:02.680 They love it.

04:01:02.800 But also, I don't know if women would necessarily do the same.

04:01:05.720 Validation.

04:01:06.420 It's validation.

04:01:07.240 No.

04:01:07.600 Sorry.

04:01:08.140 Yeah.

04:01:08.300 You're not attractive enough for me.

04:01:10.120 No, no, no, no, no.

04:01:10.440 Wait, why did you reject that?

04:01:11.280 It's actually horrible.

04:01:12.060 They weren't looking enough.

04:01:13.260 Do you not remember that, like, it was so hard for me to give you an actual number,

04:01:17.340 like, five minutes ago?

04:01:18.540 It is hard.

04:01:19.680 It's very hard.

04:01:20.920 It's hard when you, like...

04:01:22.360 And I don't reject, like, no.

04:01:24.560 I don't want to...

04:01:25.040 I'm like, I appreciate you coming over here.

04:01:27.440 I know it took a lot of guts.

04:01:28.940 But they're still getting rejected.

04:01:30.140 But I'm still...

04:01:31.580 Yes, but my delivery is very sweet.

04:01:35.720 Sweet and kind.

04:01:36.940 And it's hard for me to do that.

04:01:39.060 I actually have a hard time saying no.

04:01:41.740 Just as a general.

04:01:42.540 Bro, you're married.

04:01:43.120 But...

04:01:43.440 Chill out.

04:01:44.220 No.

04:01:44.880 No, no, no, no, no.

04:01:45.700 I mean, like...

04:01:46.360 It's hard for her, bro.

04:01:47.540 She's married? 1.00

04:01:48.160 What?

04:01:48.460 I understand what you mean.

04:01:49.800 No, no, no.

04:01:50.500 Not like that.

04:01:51.560 Not like that.

04:01:52.420 I mean, I just have a hard time saying no.

04:01:55.040 I mean, it still is harder for the man, though.

04:01:57.440 Yeah, I'm agreeable.

04:01:58.520 For sure.

04:01:59.240 I agree with that.

04:01:59.700 No, it actually is.

04:02:00.960 I am agreeable.

04:02:01.900 Especially as how it really is.

04:02:02.680 Which is not necessarily a negative trait.

04:02:04.820 Yeah, it's a burden.

04:02:05.720 Here, let's role play.

04:02:06.660 You and me.

04:02:07.140 Okay, pick me up.

04:02:07.940 Go ahead.

04:02:08.580 I'm the chick.

04:02:09.280 You're the dude.

04:02:09.820 Go ahead.

04:02:10.860 Give me a wig, somebody. 0.99

04:02:12.240 You got this, Sarah.

04:02:14.400 Oh, and hold on. 0.97

04:02:16.900 What the heck? 0.96

04:02:17.620 A baby? 0.98

04:02:18.260 Wait, hold on.

04:02:18.940 You're wondering where the baby came in.

04:02:20.820 Oh, wait.

04:02:21.240 I'm trying to think of a good baby.

04:02:22.600 I'm trying to think of a good pick-a-boy. 0.99

04:02:23.820 What? 0.94

04:02:24.340 What the heck? 0.99

04:02:25.040 So, you know, I've been getting a lot of criticism that, you know, we previously had a black baby and a white baby. 0.98

04:02:37.380 I've been getting a lot of flack online.

04:02:40.560 I sometimes give Madison a child.

04:02:43.220 So, we have, Nick, could you put it on this camera?

04:02:45.580 It's so weird.

04:02:46.320 I've purchased, to be considerate and be diverse, I purchased an Asian baby.

04:02:55.580 Wait, really?

04:02:56.320 A baby.

04:02:56.620 Yeah.

04:02:57.200 She got so excited.

04:02:58.940 That's an Asian baby. 0.79

04:03:00.380 Brian's got two different baby mamas. 0.96

04:03:02.040 Yeah.

04:03:02.500 So, okay.

04:03:03.240 So, hold on.

04:03:04.800 Let's role play.

04:03:05.660 You have two children.

04:03:07.140 So, I'm you.

04:03:07.900 These are your two sons.

04:03:08.820 These are your two sons.

04:03:13.040 What's the best way to hold a child?

04:03:14.560 Um, definitely not like that.

04:03:17.620 It's not a basketball.

04:03:19.000 Like you love their, uh.

04:03:20.620 Switch.

04:03:21.940 Is this?

04:03:22.660 No.

04:03:22.860 Perfect.

04:03:23.340 No.

04:03:23.840 What are you going to do when you become a dad?

04:03:27.300 Oh.

04:03:27.800 I understand why.

04:03:28.480 So, okay.

04:03:28.960 I'm you.

04:03:30.200 I'm you.

04:03:31.020 I said I understand why you went to court for that.

04:03:35.800 Hold. 0.96

04:03:36.360 Cradle.

04:03:36.520 Alright, I'm you.

04:03:37.420 Cradle.

04:03:37.980 Hold on.

04:03:38.380 Okay.

04:03:38.780 I'll just put them there.

04:03:39.820 What?

04:03:40.140 Yeah, because hold your hand.

04:03:41.020 At that young, they'll just sit up.

04:03:42.200 They can't support their own weight.

04:03:45.020 Alright.

04:03:45.880 Oh my gosh.

04:03:47.260 Pick me up.

04:03:47.760 Let's go.

04:03:48.560 Well, I'm not going to.

04:03:50.660 No respectable person will probably pick you up with your children right there. 1.00

04:03:55.120 It's.

04:03:55.800 Your two newborns.

04:03:56.700 They're in the universe.

04:03:57.500 At least not my respectable person.

04:03:59.340 Don't worry.

04:04:00.040 They're not actually here.

04:04:01.220 They're babies.

04:04:01.280 They're just.

04:04:01.900 They don't talk.

04:04:02.300 You have two kids.

04:04:03.320 I have two kids.

04:04:05.100 You're the man.

04:04:06.160 I'm the woman.

04:04:06.780 Go ahead.

04:04:07.220 Wait.

04:04:07.640 What?

04:04:08.340 I'm the man?

04:04:09.200 You're the man.

04:04:09.620 Pick me up.

04:04:10.240 Okay.

04:04:10.360 Um.

04:04:10.760 Hello, m'lady.

04:04:16.720 Would you like to.

04:04:18.240 M'lady?

04:04:18.640 M'lady from the renaissance ages. 0.77

04:04:20.800 This is renaissance.

04:04:21.760 Yes, m'lady.

04:04:22.080 Yes, m'lady.

04:04:22.300 No, you didn't say you needed one of the helmets.

04:04:24.580 You needed a helmet.

04:04:25.260 That was a renaissance term right there.

04:04:26.740 It's like two.

04:04:27.120 Say something again.

04:04:28.300 Okay.

04:04:28.680 It's terrible.

04:04:29.880 Tip the fedora.

04:04:31.900 No, like do a.

04:04:32.880 When you say m'lady.

04:04:33.920 Do a little tip.

04:04:34.460 Yes.

04:04:34.860 Tip it.

04:04:35.320 Okay, m'lady.

04:04:36.100 There you go.

04:04:36.760 Okay.

04:04:37.120 Go ahead.

04:04:37.800 You're doing good so far.

04:04:38.800 Go ahead.

04:04:40.200 Can I take you out to dinner sometime?

04:04:44.640 Wow, that's very direct.

04:04:48.700 I suppose.

04:04:53.920 Wow, that was easy.

04:04:54.840 Weren't you have a look at good?

04:04:55.800 Thanks, I'll call you Friday.

04:04:59.140 Aren't you going to get my number? 0.99

04:05:00.460 Like, you fucking telepath over here. 0.99

04:05:01.980 Oh, we're going to do the whole thing. 0.99

04:05:03.420 Okay.

04:05:03.660 You got to do the whole thing.

04:05:04.640 What are you thinking of this?

04:05:05.700 Can I get your number?

04:05:06.880 Can I give you my snap?

04:05:08.100 Can I get your number?

04:05:09.060 Can I give you my snap?

04:05:11.940 I'd rather give you my snap. 1.00

04:05:13.620 Will you still use Snapchat?

04:05:15.200 Respectfully, I don't use Snapchat.

04:05:17.080 Oh, I guess you can follow me on Instagram.

04:05:20.160 Here we go.

04:05:21.220 Is that your girl voice?

04:05:21.620 I would actually like to seriously pursue you.

04:05:24.540 So, if you want, I will take your number.

04:05:27.120 I will call you and we can set up a dinner.

04:05:30.000 No, none of that.

04:05:31.320 You just go straight to the point, don't you?

04:05:34.720 You're making me way more promiscuous than me.

04:05:38.320 I was hoping for a little conversation, but you just want to go straight to getting my digits.

04:05:43.580 That's what is happening.

04:05:47.120 That's not bad.

04:05:48.460 Tell you what.

04:05:49.000 I'll give you my Instagram.

04:05:50.580 Here it is.

04:05:51.780 At BigBootyBitch13. 0.99

04:05:55.040 All right.

04:05:55.580 You know what?

04:05:56.080 It's actually looking like you're not the type of woman that I'd actually want for myself, 1.00

04:06:00.040 but you have a great day.

04:06:00.780 You're lost.

04:06:02.240 Whatever.

04:06:02.600 Based on that username. 1.00

04:06:08.680 Damn. 0.99

04:06:09.020 I feel like... 0.99

04:06:09.920 That was terrible.

04:06:11.000 M'lady.

04:06:11.880 She's talking about M'lady.

04:06:13.280 That was awesome.

04:06:14.120 You open with M'lady.

04:06:16.120 You open with M'lady.

04:06:18.060 I'm making you look so good.

04:06:20.240 That was her opener.

04:06:21.260 Oh, my gosh.

04:06:22.500 You have to wear the fedora the rest of the show.

04:06:24.440 Are you serious?

04:06:25.220 I am dead serious.

04:06:25.980 Okay.

04:06:26.600 Give her the fedora.

04:06:27.300 You look like Michael Jackson with her.

04:06:28.520 Oh, my gosh.

04:06:29.180 No, she looks like she's about to do a jazz. 0.83

04:06:30.720 She's the only jazz.

04:06:32.380 I guess you have to wear that helmet, so...

04:06:35.500 You actually look cute.

04:06:36.920 This looks...

04:06:37.660 I look like Michael Buble, but, like...

04:06:40.660 It's a good look.

04:06:41.480 Michael.

04:06:42.120 It's a good look.

04:06:44.140 Michelle Buble.

04:06:44.780 Wow.

04:06:46.080 Anyways.

04:06:46.780 Michaela.

04:06:47.220 Let's see.

04:06:48.000 Michaela Buble.

04:06:51.480 So, uh...

04:06:52.640 Oh, yeah, yeah.

04:06:54.700 The TikToks.

04:06:55.320 We got more TikToks from Pearl over here.

04:06:57.620 Go ahead.

04:06:58.620 Let's play.

04:06:58.980 You want to be the best partner a man has ever had, absolutely obsessed with you.

04:07:05.580 You need to wake up every single day, and you need to be the first person who's on your

04:07:09.400 mind.

04:07:09.620 You're doing your own thing.

04:07:10.960 You're accomplishing your own goals.

04:07:12.640 You're living your life for yourself.

04:07:14.540 You've decentered him.

04:07:15.940 You've decentered men in general.

04:07:17.460 You know who you are.

04:07:18.480 You like who you are.

04:07:19.540 The ways in which you don't know how to love yourself are going to be projected onto

04:07:23.820 your partner.

04:07:24.280 So, taking inventory and auditing every part of your life and saying, where can I love

04:07:29.020 myself more, is going to help you be the best woman any man has ever had.

04:07:36.160 Erroneous.

04:07:37.460 Erroneous. 1.00

04:07:38.300 What the fuck? 1.00

04:07:38.660 You're wearing the same shirt. 1.00

04:07:39.800 I am wearing the same shirt.

04:07:40.500 Yeah, you are wearing the same shirt.

04:07:41.640 Wow.

04:07:42.140 That's embarrassing.

04:07:44.460 What?

04:07:44.900 Same jacket every show.

04:07:48.820 Hey, Maddie.

04:07:49.860 Shots fired.

04:07:50.720 Rude.

04:07:53.100 What does decentered men mean? 0.98

04:07:56.360 What does that mean?

04:07:57.340 I think that women grow up, like we saw, I mean, at least I did, growing up in media 0.99

04:08:04.420 where it's like the woman discovers her confidence when the man tells her she's beautiful.

04:08:08.920 And it's like we're always externalizing and seeking validation from outside sources instead

04:08:15.520 of finding it from within.

04:08:18.200 And I think when you learn to validate yourself and you learn to just like love yourself for

04:08:24.080 who you are, your mistakes, your flaws, where you're at in life, and to just like be

04:08:32.000 your own, be the person who, you are your safest place.

04:08:36.080 And the person that you're wanting to love you, if you can love yourself in that way,

04:08:42.380 I find that you tend to attract people who will love you in that way.

04:08:47.220 And if you think of yourself as like, I don't know, not worthy or like not beautiful, then

04:08:52.840 you tend to attract people who kind of are going to manipulate you or use you or not really

04:08:58.860 value you in the same way.

04:09:00.300 So I find that how you think of yourself is typically projected into like the people that

04:09:05.100 you track both friendships and relationships.

04:09:06.880 So if you want somebody to like be completely and utterly and totally obsessed with you,

04:09:10.780 which I feel like everybody does, then really completely and totally being obsessed with

04:09:17.280 yourself in the sense that not that you think that you're better than other people or that

04:09:22.340 in comparison to other people, you know, you're somehow superior, but saying I am who I am

04:09:28.280 as I am and I accept myself and I like that about me.

04:09:31.840 I like how I handle my mistakes.

04:09:33.160 I like how I handle my failures and I'm okay with me as I am.

04:09:37.200 You tend, you'll attract people who think in the same way.

04:09:43.000 And do you think...

04:09:44.060 Did anybody stop listening like 10 seconds in?

04:09:45.880 I'm just kidding.

04:09:47.060 Do you think that everyone should think that way or that's just your personal views for yourself?

04:09:51.320 I think that most women, I mean, it depends on who the woman is, like, but I think most 0.75

04:09:58.120 women, we all have to go on a journey of like self-confidence and self-growth and self-love 1.00

04:10:03.540 and understanding that our worth doesn't come from anything exterior or we don't have to

04:10:08.420 externalize it or get validation from other people.

04:10:11.020 And it's funny because when we do go on that journey, we tend to actually get more validation.

04:10:15.840 We tend to actually get more love from other people.

04:10:17.900 So whenever I see a woman who keeps attracting men in her life who are like kind of like

04:10:23.480 toxic or just like aren't treating her well, it's usually because she has low self-esteem.

04:10:28.480 Yes.

04:10:28.740 When her self-esteem grows, she typically attracts men who honor her and who cherish her and who

04:10:35.120 respect her.

04:10:36.000 What if you just don't have confidence?

04:10:38.000 You don't really, you're just like, okay, you're like fine with whoever you are.

04:10:42.340 That's confidence.

04:10:43.440 You think?

04:10:44.020 Yeah.

04:10:44.240 Yes.

04:10:44.900 That is what confidence is.

04:10:46.120 It's being fine with who you are as you are.

04:10:48.920 And also maybe seeing the things that maybe aren't so good about you. 0.97

04:10:52.680 Maybe you are toxic.

04:10:54.300 Maybe you are somebody who doesn't, who, you know, I don't know, is a bad friend or whatever 0.72

04:10:58.960 and being like, I'm kind of a bad friend.

04:11:00.960 I'm going to work on that, but it's okay.

04:11:02.900 I'm working on it.

04:11:03.880 I'm growing.

04:11:04.720 I'm going to, you know, become better in this area.

04:11:07.420 But, you know, I am, I am as I am, you know?

04:11:10.140 I mean, how many, how many women here, your first boyfriend or first couple of boyfriends

04:11:15.880 were pretty crappy or even ones after that, right?

04:11:19.540 They've gotten better for sure.

04:11:19.560 They've definitely gotten better.

04:11:20.260 And so that has a lot to do with the fact that you, you haven't figured anything out.

04:11:24.180 You don't know anything better.

04:11:25.580 You don't have, don't think much of yourself. 1.00

04:11:28.060 Hence, that's where the guys come in and they treat the woman like crap. 1.00

04:11:30.760 Now, if you, that doesn't grow, if you don't grow as a person, you continue to attract that 0.99

04:11:36.120 kind of person as you get older.

04:11:37.480 These are things that, yes, you're going to have that when you're younger, but you should

04:11:40.560 not continue to have that when you get older.

04:11:42.620 Because when you think well of yourself, you don't accept behavior from other people in

04:11:48.560 the same way.

04:11:49.240 So if you think, oh, I'm unworthy, then you're going to attract men who treat you like you're

04:11:53.440 unworthy.

04:11:54.080 But if you think, no, I'm, I'm an amazing person.

04:11:57.720 Like, I love this about me.

04:11:59.680 I love this about me.

04:12:00.600 Like, I've grown in this way.

04:12:01.700 I've been with myself through all these obstacles and mistakes.

04:12:04.280 You're going to attract people who treat you like that.

04:12:06.080 Wait, hold on.

04:12:07.040 You said, I'm an amazing person.

04:12:09.160 I view myself as an amazing person.

04:12:11.600 Isn't there some sort of, some degree of tangibility or objectivity when it comes to

04:12:18.560 you being an amazing person?

04:12:20.380 Yes.

04:12:20.600 Like, are you just an amazing person because you're a person?

04:12:23.000 Or do you actually have to be like, have redeeming qualities about you?

04:12:26.920 I think you do have to have redeeming qualities about you.

04:12:29.180 So I can't, I mean, but I'm confused about the whole, I need to be myself as amazing.

04:12:37.480 Well, I can.

04:12:39.020 To get the best guy.

04:12:40.640 Yeah, that's.

04:12:41.580 That's how you talk, by the way.

04:12:42.700 Just kidding.

04:12:44.400 It's a tough crowd tonight.

04:12:45.540 So yeah, I do believe that when you think of yourself and you respect yourself, you have

04:12:53.920 self-respect, you have self-worth, you're going to attract men, and you're going to reject

04:12:59.000 men who don't see you with self-worth and self-respect.

04:13:01.360 And that's why as you age, your standards become higher.

04:13:04.220 Typically, if you're self-aware and you're thinking about yourself, you don't have to

04:13:07.120 be delusional. 0.56

04:13:07.660 You can say, I'm amazing because I've healed this trauma, I've grown in discipline, I've

04:13:15.440 grown in character, I've read all these books, and I've learned from all these wise women,

04:13:20.280 I've grown this business for myself.

04:13:22.420 There are things that you can point out in your life that grow your confidence, and they're

04:13:26.660 usually, and I don't need other people to say, you're beautiful, you're this, in order

04:13:31.600 to feel worthy.

04:13:32.340 Because I could just tell myself, because I see myself, and I've been through all of my

04:13:36.240 difficulties with myself the entire time.

04:13:38.940 I was going to agree with Brian, though, because I just wasn't understanding.

04:13:42.600 You were saying something like, you accept who you are and everything, but then you also

04:13:47.400 were saying, oh, I'm such a good person, and I'm this and I'm that.

04:13:51.900 Do you really think that's also confidence?

04:13:56.180 Because I feel like some people just say, I am who I am, that's it.

04:14:00.220 It's not like, oh, I'm this great person.

04:14:02.040 They're not like, really, you know, thinking these good things about themselves.

04:14:06.500 They're just, they are who they are.

04:14:08.240 I think they've settled.

04:14:09.900 Yeah, I think it's good to think of yourself highly.

04:14:13.120 And I think it's not based off things that aren't based in reality.

04:14:16.920 But you should also want to think good things about yourself.

04:14:19.580 Yeah, it's good to think well about yourself.

04:14:21.180 You should value yourself.

04:14:22.700 Yeah, you absolutely should value yourself.

04:14:23.020 You should be like, hey, I got this promotion.

04:14:24.900 Hey, you know, if you work out, I hit a new personal record.

04:14:27.700 Hey, I lost 10 pounds.

04:14:29.360 You mentioned that you've lost weight.

04:14:32.360 That should be something that you're very much proud of.

04:14:35.040 So it's okay to be proud of yourself for your accomplishments.

04:14:39.800 It doesn't...

04:14:41.140 I think, yeah, I think confidence is definitely like...

04:14:46.660 I wasn't talking about me personally.

04:14:48.280 I'm just saying.

04:14:49.100 I was just...

04:14:49.540 No, I don't.

04:14:49.700 I think to what you're saying is like, should they're being happy with who you are and...

04:14:57.600 Stop! 1.00

04:14:58.000 I'm trying to get the thought out.

04:15:00.640 Let me get it out.

04:15:01.420 All right.

04:15:01.440 You guys, let me move it on.

04:15:03.000 Hold on.

04:15:03.420 All right.

04:15:05.140 Wait, I think...

04:15:06.680 You feel the love.

04:15:07.140 Let's wrap up the therapy session, please.

04:15:09.520 Go ahead.

04:15:10.200 Make your point.

04:15:11.060 Let me move it on to something interesting.

04:15:12.300 Hold on.

04:15:12.400 Let me talk.

04:15:13.080 Oh, my God.

04:15:14.460 So what I was saying is that you should be...

04:15:16.900 Yes, you should have confidence and value yourself.

04:15:19.440 Everybody should value themselves.

04:15:21.100 But not at the expense of settling and just saying, oh, yeah, I'm happy with where I'm at

04:15:28.760 and I'm good with who I am and this is me.

04:15:31.620 But, yeah, you have no goals, no ambitions.

04:15:34.280 You're not doing anything about changing, fixing, growing.

04:15:38.480 It shouldn't be at the absence of not trying to be better.

04:15:42.160 Like, there's a difference between being confident.

04:15:43.920 But confidence has to come with the action as well, the action of doing better for yourself,

04:15:50.020 having goals for yourself, accomplishing things.

04:15:52.900 Like, you can't just be delusional and be like, yeah, you know, I am happy with who I

04:15:57.060 am and I do value myself, but yet your actions don't reciprocate that.

04:16:02.340 Okay, Brian.

04:16:03.400 Your turn.

04:16:04.480 No, that makes sense.

04:16:05.120 That makes sense.

04:16:05.440 Is that what you were...

04:16:06.060 Okay.

04:16:06.420 He's literally playing cards now.

04:16:07.920 That's so rude.

04:16:09.160 Huh?

04:16:09.820 This is a podcast.

04:16:10.960 So rude.

04:16:11.520 This is a podcast.

04:16:12.580 You're supposed to be listening to me and responding.

04:16:15.780 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

04:16:16.380 No, that's just who you are.

04:16:17.180 I think you should be who you are if you're uninterested in these kinds of things.

04:16:19.880 Do it.

04:16:20.440 Sorry, sorry, sorry.

04:16:20.880 You are who you are.

04:16:21.580 Be confident.

04:16:22.680 That's so on brand for you.

04:16:23.800 I did not know that I was on camera.

04:16:25.600 I am sorry.

04:16:26.580 That is so rude, Jordan.

04:16:27.860 I am...

04:16:31.860 I'd like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody.

04:16:36.720 Okay.

04:16:39.680 So what was your next point?

04:16:40.780 I want to go to Jordan, actually.

04:16:43.960 Jordan...

04:16:44.400 What?

04:16:45.720 I need some recovery time.

04:16:46.900 We'll come back to them really quick.

04:16:48.040 Jordan, Brian mentioned that women should be drafted. 0.97

04:16:50.440 I highly disagree with that.

04:16:51.880 So raise your hand here at the table.

04:16:53.740 Who highly disagrees that women should be drafted? 1.00

04:16:56.480 Along with the men.

04:16:57.780 Equality?

04:16:58.880 Disagree?

04:16:59.480 Disagree?

04:17:01.120 Disagree that women should be... 1.00

04:17:03.320 Oh, Pearl, you're leaving for...

04:17:04.660 You're getting up for this one.

04:17:06.520 You don't want to have the draft conversation.

04:17:07.740 Everybody knows what I think.

04:17:09.060 Come on.

04:17:10.400 She wants women to be on the front line. 1.00

04:17:12.200 And let's say, like, absolutely...

04:17:13.620 Disagree.

04:17:14.580 Women should not be drafted. 1.00

04:17:15.600 Not be drafted. 0.59

04:17:16.720 You're in favor of the draft.

04:17:17.920 For women, W. 0.98

04:17:19.980 W, in favor of the draft.

04:17:21.700 Is this, like, if, like, you're a feminist? 1.00

04:17:24.940 It's just general.

04:17:25.880 Or, like, in general.

04:17:26.780 What do you think women and men should both be drafted if it came down to it? 1.00

04:17:30.500 Men and women should be drafted exactly like men. 0.99

04:17:33.400 Women should have the opportunity to get drafted if they want to be drafted. 1.00

04:17:38.060 Well, that's the point of a draft is that you don't have a choice.

04:17:40.440 You don't have a choice.

04:17:41.440 You're just forced.

04:17:42.740 No.

04:17:43.100 Then no.

04:17:44.800 Okay.

04:17:45.200 Mm-mm.

04:17:47.580 I want the choice to be forced to do something.

04:17:53.880 You know what I mean?

04:17:56.780 Yeah.

04:17:57.400 Like, I want to choose, you know, whether or not I want to be forced to do something.

04:18:03.480 That's fair.

04:18:04.280 But, yeah, but then, like, I feel like everyone would choose to not be drafted and then...

04:18:09.220 I feel like women, like... 1.00

04:18:10.680 I should be forced, but also not.

04:18:13.200 Yeah.

04:18:14.000 I totally agree.

04:18:15.620 Okay.

04:18:16.140 I feel like it would be highly ineffective.

04:18:18.500 Oh, for sure. 0.72

04:18:19.400 Because women are... 1.00

04:18:20.000 What do you mean? 1.00

04:18:20.020 You would fucking kill it on the front line. 1.00

04:18:21.800 Women are... 1.00

04:18:22.480 You would fuck some people up, bro. 1.00

04:18:24.540 I would not be able to look somebody in the eyes and shoot them. 1.00

04:18:27.380 Don't say that. 0.99

04:18:27.480 Be a 10.

04:18:28.200 Be self-confident.

04:18:29.920 Are you not self-confident in your ability to do hand-to-hand combat with an insurgency?

04:18:34.920 You could win the war.

04:18:37.000 But there are so many different jobs.

04:18:38.960 It's not everybody has to be in the front line.

04:18:41.080 Okay.

04:18:41.600 If you sent a bunch of women and a bunch of men against one another... 1.00

04:18:47.060 Scratch the fuck out of the enemy, bro. 0.99

04:18:49.000 Honestly, they're way too long. 1.00

04:18:51.380 You could fuck somebody up with that. 0.99

04:18:52.940 Go ahead. 1.00

04:18:53.460 Sorry. 0.78

04:18:54.580 Women are just more emotionally... 1.00

04:18:57.300 That is sexist. 0.98

04:18:57.960 They function more emotionally. 1.00

04:18:59.340 Well, then shoot them and cry after. 1.00

04:19:00.740 Yeah, shoot them and cry. 1.00

04:19:01.880 Sarah, how dare you? 1.00

04:19:04.040 Pray for them and then shoot them. 1.00

04:19:05.800 No, okay. 1.00

04:19:06.920 Yeah.

04:19:07.480 But am I right?

04:19:08.720 Would we...

04:19:09.560 No, you're right.

04:19:10.020 If it was us against a bunch of men... 0.94

04:19:13.020 And I'm not saying it's because men are more terrible.

04:19:16.640 It's just they are not going to sit there and...

04:19:20.460 Yeah, but if we were forced, we wouldn't have a choice.

04:19:22.580 We just have to do it.

04:19:24.280 Yeah, we wouldn't have a choice.

04:19:25.580 But still, we would just have to do what we have to do to win the war.

04:19:28.860 I honestly think we should draft women first. 1.00

04:19:32.840 Soften up the enemy.

04:19:34.240 Then the men go in. 1.00

04:19:36.900 We're supposed to seduce them and then the men come in and kill them. 1.00

04:19:39.820 Performs to get their minds off of war. 0.99

04:19:42.160 Is that where you're going with that?

04:19:43.820 Are you talking about free the titty movement?

04:19:45.520 Do you really want to fight? 0.99

04:19:46.160 I was just saying, they have the women seduce everyone and then they come and kill them. 1.00

04:19:50.780 Would that... 0.81

04:19:51.220 I wonder if that would, like, be an effective message.

04:19:54.360 Let's discuss this.

04:19:55.400 Well, I mean, if you can think about it, how long have men been out at war, right?

04:19:58.140 Like, okay, imagine...

04:19:59.440 So just even seeing a woman would be like... 1.00

04:20:01.540 So imagine you're...

04:20:02.840 All of us at once, we just flash them.

04:20:07.560 Imagine you're a soldier, chat.

04:20:09.580 Chat, imagine you're a soldier and you're a sniper.

04:20:14.120 And you see a woman in camo without a top. 1.00

04:20:18.600 Are you taking the shot or are you kind of waiting a little bit?

04:20:21.240 He's going to wait.

04:20:22.840 I don't know if he takes the shot.

04:20:24.000 He might be like...

04:20:24.320 No, he's going to wait.

04:20:25.220 Depends what his commands are.

04:20:26.300 He's going to look for a second and then that's when the other girl comes around. 1.00

04:20:29.660 Does he take the shot?

04:20:30.420 Killing of cereal donated $200.

04:20:33.720 Men have forced military conscription.

04:20:36.500 Cannot vote unless we sign selective service.

04:20:39.380 Women can vote for people who would send men to the front line. 1.00

04:20:43.380 This alone should say women should pay first. 1.00

04:20:48.900 But, like, I feel like as women, we have an important role to, like...

04:20:53.740 Especially if we have kids, to, like, stay hungry with the kids.

04:20:56.080 And I think, like, if women were drafted and the men had to stay home with the kids.

04:21:01.860 Like, I just...

04:21:02.660 I don't think that would be the most ideal situation.

04:21:05.900 That would be super ideal for men.

04:21:07.280 I think it would be better for a woman to be home with the kids. 1.00

04:21:08.960 That would be super ideal for the men.

04:21:11.580 Are you saying, like, for both?

04:21:13.440 Jordan, are you saying for both parents?

04:21:15.280 Are you just saying one or the other?

04:21:17.540 Because that's one of the things they used to do for the draft.

04:21:20.100 It was that they would never take, like, if they had three...

04:21:22.900 Both parents.

04:21:23.460 Both parents.

04:21:23.980 Or if they had three sons, they would not take all three.

04:21:27.560 Or if two passed, they would bring the third one home so that they didn't have to go back to the families and say,

04:21:32.300 you're now wiped out all your children.

04:21:34.660 Yeah.

04:21:35.540 Yeah.

04:21:35.960 They just took one.

04:21:36.880 I think we're going to start the draft.

04:21:39.320 And the higher you rate yourself on the look scale, then you're the first.

04:21:43.580 If you're a 10, you get to go...

04:21:45.980 You get drafted first.

04:21:47.900 That's what we're saying.

04:21:48.460 Because you're the most confident.

04:21:50.160 We need...

04:21:50.780 Listen.

04:21:52.060 We need confident soldiers.

04:21:54.700 I'm confident right here.

04:21:55.340 We need confident women and confident soldiers. 1.00

04:21:58.240 This is not...

04:21:58.520 You're a 10 out of 10.

04:21:59.600 Sleigh queen. 0.71

04:22:00.160 This is not confidence.

04:22:01.160 Sleigh queen. 1.00

04:22:01.820 Get that motherfucker in the crosshairs. 1.00

04:22:03.960 You got that shit, queen. 1.00

04:22:05.180 Go off. 1.00

04:22:06.060 Drizzle, drizzle. 0.93

04:22:06.900 Although, I'm going to say Jordan would be... 0.91

04:22:08.320 What is this?

04:22:08.860 She would be a badass, though. 0.97

04:22:10.480 I'm sorry.

04:22:11.000 Who?

04:22:11.600 Jordan.

04:22:12.060 She would.

04:22:12.540 She'd be a badass. 1.00

04:22:13.060 Jordan would fuck people up. 0.99

04:22:14.560 Oh, yeah. 1.00

04:22:15.320 She would fuck somebody up. 1.00

04:22:17.300 And then pray for them. 1.00

04:22:17.700 She'd be able to lift them with one hand.

04:22:19.460 Oh, yeah. 0.96

04:22:20.180 She would annihilate. 0.88

04:22:22.940 She would. 1.00

04:22:23.860 Annihilate them. 1.00

04:22:24.560 Yeah. 0.99

04:22:25.560 Yeah.

04:22:26.020 That's why we should draft Jordan.

04:22:27.860 Look at me with my dainty...

04:22:29.060 You don't want me.

04:22:30.620 You don't want me with my dainty man hands going to war.

04:22:33.380 We need Jordan over there.

04:22:34.800 I forgot that you said that about your hands.

04:22:36.660 If it was like...

04:22:37.300 Here, let's do a hand...

04:22:38.060 No, actually, let's not.

04:22:39.180 Let's not compare hands to us.

04:22:40.580 Yes, I would go first so that other woman can stay home. 1.00

04:22:45.080 That is so...

04:22:45.780 And then they'd be like, thank you so much, Jordan.

04:22:47.740 I'm a patriot.

04:22:47.960 You are a patriot.

04:22:49.380 You are.

04:22:50.100 You went for us.

04:22:51.380 I think we need to send Pearl to the front.

04:22:52.320 Pearl, you going on the front line?

04:22:53.720 No one wants me protecting the country in that way.

04:22:56.020 With all your confidence?

04:22:56.940 Yes.

04:22:57.700 That was funny, though.

04:22:58.740 That was really funny.

04:22:59.360 A lot of these male soldiers, they don't have half the confidence you have.

04:23:04.140 We need you on the front line.

04:23:06.520 Sorry.

04:23:07.640 Essentially.

04:23:08.940 So go join the...

04:23:11.420 Yeah.

04:23:11.800 Maybe I'll think about it.

04:23:12.900 You should join the military.

04:23:14.080 Can she join any military...

04:23:15.540 Is she too old? 1.00

04:23:16.840 No offense to her.

04:23:17.440 No, she's not.

04:23:18.340 She's too old for the military. 1.00

04:23:19.800 I'm a little too old for the military.

04:23:21.020 Can you go into the military at 30...

04:23:23.300 32?

04:23:24.360 They braised it.

04:23:25.040 Sorry, 32.

04:23:26.200 32.

04:23:26.500 My bad.

04:23:26.860 My bad.

04:23:27.180 I'm sorry.

04:23:27.440 I'm sorry.

04:23:27.940 32?

04:23:28.440 Can you go into the military?

04:23:29.460 Chat.

04:23:29.980 Any soldiers in the chat?

04:23:31.240 Military.

04:23:31.760 Can she go in at 32? 0.80

04:23:33.120 Or is she...

04:23:33.680 I don't think the military needs...

04:23:34.980 Can she volunteer?

04:23:36.080 I think...

04:23:36.880 Oh, it needs that.

04:23:38.280 It depends which branch.

04:23:39.340 Which branch, yeah.

04:23:40.440 Can...

04:23:41.360 Up to 41, huh?

04:23:42.440 Chat?

04:23:42.760 It depends what branch, Brian.

04:23:43.580 Military people?

04:23:45.300 I want her...

04:23:46.500 She's going to be a Marine.

04:23:48.200 First.

04:23:48.960 She's going to be first to the front line.

04:23:51.400 Not a Marine.

04:23:51.940 Maybe Air Force.

04:23:52.820 I'll do Air Force.

04:23:53.640 The Marines are the first... 0.94

04:23:55.560 You could sing...

04:23:56.180 Infantry.

04:23:57.400 I could be in the band.

04:23:59.520 Like the Army band or whatever.

04:24:00.960 The what?

04:24:01.420 The band?

04:24:01.940 They have like a music thing.

04:24:03.660 I'll be in the Army band.

04:24:05.340 Band?

04:24:05.900 Yeah, the military, they have like a...

04:24:07.780 They have like musicians.

04:24:09.920 I'll do that.

04:24:10.740 Actually, I won't even do that.

04:24:11.800 Listen, don't quit your day job.

04:24:13.980 I won't.

04:24:15.560 Trust me, I won't.

04:24:16.520 Very competitive.

04:24:17.520 Oh, my gosh.

04:24:18.680 Very competitive.

04:24:19.400 I think we all know I'm not meant for the military.

04:24:20.560 I think men are drafted for a reason.

04:24:22.520 This was all thought out.

04:24:24.560 Actually, I really don't think it was.

04:24:25.440 It's a terrible reason.

04:24:26.760 We need to start...

04:24:27.660 Honestly, I really don't think it was.

04:24:28.600 I just really think they thought about it.

04:24:29.480 I think they just did.

04:24:30.600 Because they didn't value women very much.

04:24:32.540 This is what I would like to see.

04:24:34.160 This is what I'd like to see.

04:24:36.220 But I think women are better off at home with the kids than men. 1.00

04:24:40.940 Thank you, Jordan.

04:24:41.860 Good.

04:24:43.200 I think...

04:24:44.280 You're so mean to me today.

04:24:46.200 I'm not mean.

04:24:46.660 He said I love you earlier.

04:24:48.000 I said I love you.

04:24:48.420 He did say I love you.

04:24:49.800 I'm getting bipolar.

04:24:52.100 He's like, you love me, you love me not.

04:24:53.820 You love me, you love me not.

04:24:55.080 We are going to send the women... 1.00

04:24:56.080 We're going to send the women to war, but they can't have any guns or anything. 1.00

04:25:02.220 So you just have to fight like this.

04:25:04.140 Oh, my God.

04:25:04.400 Yeah, I said I would sacrifice myself.

04:25:05.340 Are we fighting against other women? 1.00

04:25:06.860 Go to war for other women. 1.00

04:25:08.480 Then that'd be fair.

04:25:09.440 Yeah, it's just that's how we do wars.

04:25:11.300 That'd be fine.

04:25:12.280 Yeah.

04:25:12.620 Woman on woman violence.

04:25:13.320 I don't have kids, so I would go.

04:25:14.620 Yeah.

04:25:15.120 Okay.

04:25:15.600 All right.

04:25:16.000 That's fair.

04:25:17.340 Good talk.

04:25:18.680 We have Desert Joe.

04:25:21.580 So much prattle, so much cope.

04:25:24.280 He's sleepy.

04:25:26.560 Yo, Desert Joe.

04:25:27.540 Thank you for the message, man.

04:25:28.660 Appreciate it, dude.

04:25:29.900 Appreciate it, brother.

04:25:32.300 We have...

04:25:32.980 I'm waiting for it to come.

04:25:34.600 I'm going to have Jordan read this because I was mean to her. 0.99

04:25:41.140 I meant I am watching you talk trash. 0.93

04:25:43.580 You say I'm only using one part. 0.98

04:25:45.460 Then tell me the other part.

04:25:46.740 Does a church go out clubbing in a bikini?

04:25:49.140 What am I saying is out of context?

04:25:51.760 Can only type so much.

04:25:54.740 Who's this directed to?

04:25:55.860 I don't know.

04:25:56.240 I don't even know where the original question is.

04:25:58.300 I mean, it just came in a bikini.

04:25:59.980 Seems like that person is taking different bits and pieces about what we've discussed.

04:26:04.600 Again, with the grammar.

04:26:05.800 Again, with the words.

04:26:06.960 Again, with the not forming sentences correctly.

04:26:09.140 Okay.

04:26:09.620 Well, Inc, thank you for the 1776.

04:26:12.540 Appreciate the Streamlabs message, man.

04:26:14.980 Thank you.

04:26:15.340 We have Craig Edelman.

04:26:17.720 Go ahead, Jordan.

04:26:21.520 This is the same one.

04:26:23.100 Oh, it's the same one.

04:26:24.640 Craig.

04:26:25.740 All right.

04:26:27.120 All right.

04:26:27.640 Thanks, Craig.

04:26:29.160 We already read it, but thank you, Craig, for the super.

04:26:31.820 The girl in red is the only realistic woman there. 0.81

04:26:34.300 If they want to mix personality with looks, then she wins, hands down. 1.00

04:26:37.760 The other goofs have zero logic. 0.99

04:26:40.000 Oh, that's so... 0.99

04:26:40.720 Do any of you want to respond to the y'all are goofs insults? 1.00

04:26:44.000 Shoot your shot. 1.00

04:26:44.960 You can ask him out. 1.00

04:26:45.560 I just think so.

04:26:45.900 Brian.

04:26:46.580 Thank you.

04:26:47.300 Would you like to date me?

04:26:48.720 Oh.

04:26:49.540 Whoa. 1.00

04:26:51.140 Damn. 1.00

04:26:51.580 Okay. 1.00

04:26:52.180 All right.

04:26:52.460 Good on.

04:26:53.640 Hey, Brian.

04:26:54.620 Have you ever had a shot?

04:26:55.920 She's confident.

04:26:55.940 She went for it.

04:26:57.140 She went for it.

04:26:58.080 See, perfect example of confidence.

04:27:01.320 He's very patriotic.

04:27:02.960 That was awesome.

04:27:03.700 Thank you.

04:27:05.100 Brian.

04:27:05.680 Appreciate it.

04:27:06.760 Star's best.

04:27:07.920 Right, sure.

04:27:08.400 Okay.

04:27:08.720 We talked about the draft.

04:27:10.000 I think women should be drafted. 1.00

04:27:12.020 Only fair.

04:27:12.900 I am a feminist and believe in equality.

04:27:15.640 You said Brian doesn't think women should wear makeup.

04:27:20.240 Is that a fact, Brian?

04:27:23.080 Do you think?

04:27:23.980 The world would be a better place if there was no makeup.

04:27:28.380 Is that like the pressing issue of society in the world?

04:27:32.100 Do you care about the environment, Jordan?

04:27:35.340 Yeah.

04:27:35.920 Do you care about the environment?

04:27:37.820 I do.

04:27:38.440 Do you?

04:27:39.040 By the way, really quick.

04:27:40.240 This is totally unrelated.

04:27:42.580 Are there any pulmonologists watching the show?

04:27:47.260 Because I have a question.

04:27:48.460 If you're a pulmonologist, can you DM me?

04:27:53.340 What's that?

04:27:54.260 I think it's a doctor with the lungs who focuses on the lungs.

04:27:59.040 A pulmonary doctor?

04:28:00.480 Pulmonary.

04:28:01.640 Pulmonologist.

04:28:02.380 Why?

04:28:04.080 I slide into my DMs.

04:28:07.400 You need some help.

04:28:08.480 I know.

04:28:09.100 Do you have problems with your lungs?

04:28:10.360 What's going on?

04:28:10.820 I got a question.

04:28:11.680 I got a question.

04:28:12.360 I'm not going to talk about it on the show, but I got a question.

04:28:14.560 Oh, no.

04:28:15.520 That doesn't sound good, Brian.

04:28:17.840 Don't worry about it.

04:28:19.900 Makeup.

04:28:20.360 Yeah, I'm against makeup.

04:28:21.220 But just against it as a whole.

04:28:25.100 I don't think it should cease to exist.

04:28:28.640 It's kind of deceptive.

04:28:30.040 You know?

04:28:30.280 I agree that it can be used to a degree that can completely alter and change a woman's 0.99

04:28:38.780 looks.

04:28:40.560 But I think there's a range, and it's fluid.

04:28:43.240 Like I said, you can wear makeup, and it can be a soft glam.

04:28:46.780 Like, for example, when I came on the first podcast, and I took my makeup off, like, a

04:28:52.420 lot of the other girls on the panel were like, hey, there's not too much big of a difference 0.77

04:28:56.780 because I don't cake my face with, like, all of this pounds of makeup.

04:29:00.560 To be fair, the lighting in here does wonders for the women. 1.00

04:29:04.800 Not for me.

04:29:05.700 I'm so red.

04:29:06.580 To be fair, lighting can't cover everything.

04:29:10.400 The lighting in here does a lot of favors.

04:29:12.300 Lighting can't cover ugly.

04:29:13.820 Appreciate the lighting.

04:29:14.620 Our camera setup is doing a lot of favors for the women who come on this show. 1.00

04:29:20.520 To be fair, all the lighting in the world, you can't cover ugly.

04:29:24.260 So if you feel that strongly about makeup and women, when you see a woman walking down the 0.99

04:29:31.460 street, what attracts you to her?

04:29:35.420 Is it just her body?

04:29:38.200 Because makeup is...

04:29:39.400 Face, body, yeah.

04:29:40.220 Because her face, that's what attracts men to women, is their face. 1.00

04:29:46.420 They see their face first.

04:29:47.860 Sure.

04:29:48.420 So you men, you men are the reason why we've had to do this.

04:29:52.740 You don't seem to understand that.

04:29:54.620 And that's because as young girls, we see it on TV.

04:29:59.120 We hear it.

04:30:00.480 That is why we go to fashion magazines.

04:30:02.800 That's why we go to makeup. 0.98

04:30:04.360 That's why we want it.

04:30:05.540 We don't just wake up as a, you know, wake up as a baby.

04:30:07.620 We're not just born as a baby and go, make up.

04:30:10.980 It's what we learn.

04:30:12.820 And we learn it from what we hear.

04:30:14.380 But a lot of women say, I don't wear makeup for men.

04:30:18.540 So these are two kind of like...

04:30:20.900 I could actually argue that like, I think a lot of other women wear makeup because other 1.00

04:30:26.720 women wear makeup. 0.99

04:30:28.420 Does that make sense?

04:30:29.420 Like I feel like, so for example, like I actually don't wear makeup.

04:30:33.940 I'm wearing makeup today.

04:30:34.920 And when I wear makeup, like I wear makeup, but typically I don't wear makeup.

04:30:39.220 Like, I mean, Liz knows, she knows me personally.

04:30:41.960 I never wear makeup, you know, but to be completely transparent, I wear makeup because I was like,

04:30:50.800 other women are probably going to wear makeup. 1.00

04:30:53.000 But when you were a teenager, 11 years old, 12 years old, 13 years, 14.

04:30:57.680 Why did you start?

04:31:02.040 I think the norm would have actually been because like, I was being influenced by my friends

04:31:06.080 to do it.

04:31:06.820 Like, I...

04:31:07.780 And where did they learn it?

04:31:09.160 That's what I'm saying.

04:31:10.040 It's an influence.

04:31:11.380 Yeah.

04:31:11.880 And it doesn't...

04:31:13.140 It doesn't come from your parents.

04:31:15.000 It doesn't come from your siblings normally.

04:31:17.520 Wait, but you're...

04:31:18.180 Okay, going back to your original argument, you were saying that women do the makeup thing 0.99

04:31:23.520 because like, men care about a woman's face, right?

04:31:26.600 Yes.

04:31:27.020 I think it could come from the parents though.

04:31:29.060 But...

04:31:29.620 Well, you see your mother wearing...

04:31:31.320 Probably if you see your mother wearing makeup and things like that. 0.98

04:31:33.260 But so to get to the point of it, but would...

04:31:37.080 If women care about a man's career success, is he then justified in lying about his career? 0.85

04:31:44.520 So like, a guy works at McDonald's, knowing that women are attracted to successful men,

04:31:50.540 he lies on a dating app or in person and says, well, I'm a lawyer.

04:31:55.320 Well, it would be a lot easier...

04:31:56.600 That's what women are attracted to. 1.00

04:31:57.660 It would be a lot easier to keep up with your makeup every day than keeping up that you work

04:32:00.800 at McDonald's instead of being a lawyer.

04:32:02.820 I think a guy could pull it off.

04:32:05.280 It's...

04:32:05.560 You should test that out.

04:32:06.660 I don't think it's the same extent.

04:32:09.700 I don't think wearing makeup and lying about your career are the same things.

04:32:13.120 I actually think the impact of makeup...

04:32:14.680 Yeah, I don't think those are really comparing.

04:32:16.300 I don't think they're a good comparison.

04:32:18.020 So I actually think though that the impact that makeup will have in terms of the impact

04:32:25.320 it will have on the man being more attracted to you is more significant than a man lying

04:32:31.120 about his job.

04:32:32.180 No.

04:32:33.140 Yes.

04:32:33.820 Eventually he's going to see you without makeup.

04:32:35.560 I think it's equal.

04:32:36.280 Well, I have more of an issue.

04:32:37.920 Yeah, you trapped him.

04:32:39.000 You manipulated him.

04:32:40.240 You manipulator. 0.79

04:32:41.860 Have you ever...

04:32:42.860 You manipulated him into a relationship. 1.00

04:32:45.120 This conversation is honestly dumb. 1.00

04:32:46.400 Also, you're... 1.00

04:32:47.200 Why is it dumb? 1.00

04:32:47.800 Why is it dumb? 0.99

04:32:48.380 Because you want to defend the paint? 0.99

04:32:50.960 No, because...

04:32:51.480 You're a paint defender?

04:32:52.280 I just don't care. 1.00

04:32:53.280 Like, this is just a dumb conversation. 0.99

04:32:55.160 People who are... 0.99

04:32:56.180 You don't like the conversation.

04:32:57.600 That's a problem. 0.98

04:32:58.160 Men who are so fucking obsessed with like how much makeup women are wearing or not wearing, 0.99

04:33:03.580 it's like... 0.99

04:33:04.580 You're...

04:33:04.900 It's just...

04:33:05.580 I just find that... 0.99

04:33:06.460 I personally find that unattractive and dumb. 1.00

04:33:07.980 Women who are obsessed with men who deceive them by lying. 1.00

04:33:14.080 It's just dumb. 1.00

04:33:15.120 It's just dumb. 0.99

04:33:15.200 Donated $200. 0.98

04:33:16.080 Thank you, Killer of Cereal.

04:33:17.040 Appreciate it.

04:33:17.480 Get some.

04:33:18.440 Get some.

04:33:19.440 Stay hydrated.

04:33:20.660 Stay alive.

04:33:21.600 That's beautiful.

04:33:22.120 Keep life in perspective.

04:33:23.360 Thank you, Killer of Cereal.

04:33:23.660 Live within your means.

04:33:25.400 Trust in your purpose.

04:33:26.880 Trust.

04:33:27.140 Thrive in your drive.

04:33:28.340 Thrive in your drive.

04:33:28.840 Thrive in your drive.

04:33:29.140 Institute instinct.

04:33:30.480 Stay based.

04:33:31.920 Vet everyone.

04:33:32.960 Keep it real. 0.88

04:33:34.720 Yo, Killer of Cereal.

04:33:35.740 Thank you for tuning in tonight, man.

04:33:36.740 Really appreciate all your support.

04:33:37.860 Thank you for the TTS.

04:33:39.400 That was beautiful.

04:33:40.060 You are Shakespeare in the flesh.

04:33:42.100 Beautiful.

04:33:43.680 Men who are obsessed with the makeup thing is...

04:33:47.000 What?

04:33:47.240 But so...

04:33:47.760 Okay.

04:33:48.200 I just find it boring.

04:33:49.240 Yeah, we're having a...

04:33:49.960 Ryan, have you ever personally hooked up with a woman and not seen her without makeup?

04:33:54.380 Every time she puts on makeup somehow, like even after whatever, she goes and takes

04:33:59.880 a shower and she puts on makeup before you see her again? 1.00

04:34:01.800 Like, has someone done that into which you have not seen them without makeup and it's

04:34:07.760 altered your reality of seeing how they look?

04:34:12.260 Well, this is a difficult one because I tend to prefer women who wear minimal or no makeup. 0.94

04:34:17.040 Although I've dated women who wear makeup, but... 1.00

04:34:21.800 And that is totally within your control.

04:34:26.140 To answer your question, I don't think that there's a woman that I've been with where...

04:34:29.800 But again, this could come down to my general preference for women who wear minimal or no 0.80

04:34:34.480 makeup.

04:34:35.240 I've not been with a woman and then she removes the makeup. 0.99

04:34:38.720 I'm like, damn, she's busted. 0.99

04:34:41.480 And you're able to tell that she's wearing a certain amount of makeup? 0.99

04:34:46.040 Like when you see an attractive woman and you ask her out whatever, it'll depend on if 0.98

04:34:51.660 you can tell how much makeup that she's currently wearing. 1.00

04:34:56.800 What's the question?

04:34:57.560 I'm sorry.

04:34:58.100 I don't understand the question.

04:34:59.420 Like, do you base it off of when you see a woman and you can notice that she's wearing

04:35:04.120 too much makeup so you won't ask her out?

04:35:07.000 Like...

04:35:07.320 Sure.

04:35:07.620 Yeah.

04:35:07.800 Actually, I mean, if I see her on the dating app or in person, like a woman who's wearing 1.00

04:35:11.300 what in my view is too much makeup, I probably wouldn't pursue her.

04:35:14.720 Just not really my type.

04:35:15.780 But like, if she's wearing a bit of makeup, then it's okay.

04:35:22.460 It's not a deal breaker.

04:35:24.940 I just didn't know if guys were able to tell.

04:35:26.680 I do prefer minimal or no makeup.

04:35:28.740 But if she's attractive without it, what harm is it if she wears and is still attractive?

04:35:34.560 Well, I mean, there's a couple things.

04:35:35.940 One, this is anecdotal.

04:35:38.140 Most guys probably don't care from this angle.

04:35:39.960 Maybe they do.

04:35:40.780 Maybe the chat can weigh in. 1.00

04:35:41.900 Actually, one of the reasons I don't like it is if she wears a bunch of shit on her face, 1.00

04:35:45.540 and it rubs off on me, I'm prone to acne. 1.00

04:35:48.320 I don't want her shit getting on me and we're making out, and then I have acne break out 1.00

04:35:53.400 or some shit because of her paint. 1.00

04:35:56.060 And then also my pillowcases. 1.00

04:35:57.820 Fuck out of here. 1.00

04:35:58.700 Or your shirts. 1.00

04:35:59.600 I mean, you shouldn't sleep in makeup, but...

04:36:01.860 Well, if we're in bed laying down, she's not...

04:36:05.420 You know what I mean?

04:36:08.180 You take off your makeup.

04:36:09.540 I don't know.

04:36:09.560 Take off the pillow sheets.

04:36:10.860 I don't know.

04:36:11.240 But if you happen to, like, an acne thing, like, okay, you know, that's understandable.

04:36:16.420 And I'm sure she would be... 0.99

04:36:17.120 I just don't even like that shit on my skin, to be honest. 0.99

04:36:20.220 You don't put on makeup before you come into the studio? 1.00

04:36:23.440 They're legitimate reasons, honestly.

04:36:25.240 I mean, that's legitimate, and that's a preference.

04:36:27.020 But that doesn't mean, like, all women should just, like, stop wearing makeup.

04:36:31.160 If putting on makeup gives her that little boost of confidence, and it makes her feel

04:36:36.580 good, it makes her feel pretty, then, you know, when you feel pretty, you, you know, portray

04:36:42.340 that in your day-to-day.

04:36:44.020 I'll actually grant you, like, all the motivations for why...

04:36:48.340 A lot of the motivations for why women wear makeup... 1.00

04:36:52.300 Here, just ignore it.

04:36:55.140 Sorry.

04:36:55.440 All the things you listed, I actually don't have any problem with that.

04:37:00.140 Cool, you want to wear makeup because you like it?

04:37:02.480 That's not...

04:37:03.100 I'm more viewing it from, like, the male perspective, dating perspective.

04:37:06.140 Yeah.

04:37:06.520 You wear it for whatever reasons.

04:37:08.360 I'm just saying, like, in a dating perspective, I don't think you can make the argument it's

04:37:13.360 not deceptive.

04:37:14.920 And if you can, I'm prepared to hear it.

04:37:17.000 But then also, all the other things I just listed.

04:37:21.460 Take her swimming.

04:37:23.260 Swimming?

04:37:24.020 On the first date.

04:37:25.160 Oh, my God.

04:37:25.940 For real?

04:37:26.160 For state swimming.

04:37:26.720 You think that?

04:37:27.620 What?

04:37:28.040 You think a man should test a woman by taking her swimming? 1.00

04:37:30.280 No, I mean, he should.

04:37:31.700 I mean, like, he can also ask a woman, you know, can I see you without makeup?

04:37:36.580 Without it.

04:37:37.020 Can I see a picture of you without it?

04:37:38.260 That's not an absurd question.

04:37:39.960 Who wants to know?

04:37:40.580 If I needed someone and they wanted to see a picture of me without makeup...

04:37:43.340 I guess we'll leave the makeup one on this.

04:37:45.020 Is anybody here prepared to make the argument that makeup is not deceptive?

04:37:49.840 I don't think that makeup has to be deceptive.

04:37:54.380 I think it can be used as deception.

04:37:56.480 Yes.

04:37:56.560 I think there's three different levels.

04:37:58.240 One, as an art form, like, just, like, painting or whatever, blah, blah, blah.

04:38:03.860 One, you're insecure and you are putting on tons of makeup and contouring the fuck out

04:38:09.020 of your face because you don't like how you look and you don't accept how you look. 0.70

04:38:12.040 And then the other one is just using it, like you were saying, to enhance your beauty.

04:38:17.280 Like, it just makes you feel a little bit better.

04:38:19.220 I think there are those three different categories that I can think of.

04:38:22.820 I think the one where you are very insecure and you're trying to cover your face is a deeper

04:38:28.800 issue that's coming out in that way.

04:38:31.140 And I don't think that that's healthy or beautiful, honestly.

04:38:35.820 Well, I mean.

04:38:36.640 But the art form and the enhancing your beauty, I think, are totally great.

04:38:39.340 Well, yeah.

04:38:39.900 So, I do acknowledge that there are women who do makeup as, like, the art form or whatever.

04:38:43.640 Yeah.

04:38:44.020 But, I mean, all three are deceptive.

04:38:47.520 No.

04:38:48.060 I think deceptive would say, I'm not wearing any makeup when you are.

04:38:51.300 That's deceptive.

04:38:52.860 But if I'm saying, yeah, I'm wearing a tinted moisturizer and I'm wearing mascara and I'm wearing blush.

04:38:58.360 Makeup 20 years ago to makeup now is a whole lot different.

04:39:02.360 There was no contouring.

04:39:03.860 There was no, I have a bigger nose.

04:39:05.540 I don't know how to contour it in a way to make it look like I have a smaller nose.

04:39:09.740 Things like that.

04:39:10.720 That person is intentionally making their nose smaller for a reason, right?

04:39:14.360 They're trying to look different.

04:39:15.340 They're trying to look like someone else.

04:39:16.620 In that case, I think that is deceptive.

04:39:18.740 Yeah.

04:39:18.900 Because 20 years ago, if I get a big nose, I get a big nose.

04:39:21.800 If I'm covering it with makeup, that's just something different.

04:39:23.960 So, it's the intent.

04:39:27.460 It's true.

04:39:28.500 Like, you could really go crazy with the makeup.

04:39:30.860 Like, some of the transformations, like the videos that you were playing on, like, the other podcasts where a girl just literally went from, like, here to here and it's, like, night and day.

04:39:39.920 That's pretty deceptive.

04:39:41.260 And she's obviously trying to cover up her imperfections and her flaws. 1.00

04:39:45.020 Yeah.

04:39:45.200 If you're wearing makeup, literally, just to enhance and it makes you feel a little bit better, then sure.

04:39:52.280 Enhance.

04:39:52.800 So, deception.

04:39:53.840 No.

04:39:54.280 If you have pale skin and you want to bring a little bit of brightness to your skin with a little bit of blush or a little bit of color on your lips, that's not deceptive.

04:40:02.000 It is deceptive.

04:40:02.520 Is it deceptive?

04:40:02.660 I just don't want to look like a corpse.

04:40:04.680 But even that's deceptive.

04:40:06.140 Is it deceptive to put oil in your hair and make it look shinier?

04:40:09.100 Like, if I put oil on the tips of my hair, is that, like, deceiving you or is that just putting oil in my hair because it's, like, it's going to make it healthy and shiny looking?

04:40:17.860 Well, we're not talking about hair.

04:40:19.220 We're talking about makeup.

04:40:20.720 Right.

04:40:21.080 But apply that same logic to hair or if I, like, put fake tan on my body, is that, are you saying that that's deceptive?

04:40:29.560 Well, I think, so, yes, actually, it would be.

04:40:34.060 Okay.

04:40:34.340 Well, then, if that's how you're, like, categorizing it, I guess, yeah.

04:40:39.200 That's not.

04:40:39.540 I actually have a bigger issue with push-up bras.

04:40:41.520 Well, actually.

04:40:42.280 Like, at whatever boat cost.

04:40:43.300 Yeah.

04:40:43.900 Or filler.

04:40:44.840 Or, like, at what point is, like, just taking care of yourself and.

04:40:49.280 Makeup's not taking care of yourself.

04:40:51.020 No, I mean, like, just getting yourself, well, put together, like, doing your hair and.

04:40:55.180 Oh, okay.

04:40:55.200 And feeling put together is a part of taking care of yourself.

04:40:56.280 Like, all of this kind of stuff.

04:40:57.200 Like, I'm not going to roll out of bed and, like, just go out and, you know, I'm going to, like, take a couple of steps and take a little bit of time to, like, get myself ready for the day.

04:41:09.100 And a little bit of makeup shouldn't take an hour, but it also could also just be a part of your getting ready routine in the morning.

04:41:20.160 Yeah, sure.

04:41:20.960 I mean, I'm not really talking about the length of time it takes to put on makeup.

04:41:24.360 I'm talking about is it deceptive or not.

04:41:26.060 Is it kind of deceptive that deceptiveness you're talking about takes a lot of time?

04:41:29.760 Sure, I'll grant that there are degrees to it.

04:41:32.440 Like, a woman who's wearing full face of makeup is being more deceptive than a woman who just wears, like, mascara and a bit of blush. 1.00

04:41:40.020 Deceptive implies ill intent, which I don't think is fair in this conversation.

04:41:44.460 There's no ill intent.

04:41:45.960 It's not.

04:41:46.520 Wait, but if you deceive somebody regardless of your intent, you're still deceiving them.

04:41:51.620 No, they're being deceived.

04:41:53.180 They're, like, I'm not deceiving you.

04:41:55.100 Deceiving is having ill intent by saying, like, I love just hearing all the men, like, goffing, like, guffawing over there.

04:42:04.180 Yeah, there's a lot of guffawing going on.

04:42:05.440 I know.

04:42:05.660 It's actually kind of crazy.

04:42:05.980 The action of deceiving someone.

04:42:08.060 A thing that deceives. 0.99

04:42:11.400 That's helpful, your fucking dictionary. 1.00

04:42:13.940 I hate that. 1.00

04:42:14.620 Cause, okay, here's deceive.

04:42:16.760 The definition was the word in the definition.

04:42:17.700 Of a person, cause someone to believe something that is not true, typically in order to gain some personal advantage.

04:42:24.540 I'm not saying.

04:42:25.600 Give a mistaken impression.

04:42:28.880 You can tell the women who are wearing makeup here are not. 1.00

04:42:31.900 Can you not?

04:42:32.280 Wait, but don't you, women also argue, guys don't even know what the minimal makeup, like, you'll argue the same thing. 1.00

04:42:37.960 Can you tell that I'm wearing makeup?

04:42:40.120 I can tell.

04:42:40.880 Okay, so I'm not deceiving you because you can tell.

04:42:43.280 You're still deceiving me.

04:42:44.180 How am I deceiving you when you can tell?

04:42:46.120 So I'll tell you exactly.

04:42:46.960 Okay, so even, okay, as a guy, even if the woman is wearing makeup and you fully know that she is wearing makeup, in fact, you know every single item of makeup that she's wearing and the places where it is, we are not able, so attraction is instantaneous.

04:43:03.900 So when we see a woman, it's not like some, some like complicated process that takes long periods of time.

04:43:13.100 It's instant.

04:43:14.220 She's attractive. 0.97

04:43:15.380 But if you're doing something using your own words to enhance your physical attractiveness, you have essentially done a deception.

04:43:23.900 So does your hair naturally lie like that?

04:43:26.460 Or did you put product in it?

04:43:28.160 I put a little maple syrup in it.

04:43:29.420 It's very deceptive.

04:43:29.860 I put a little, how's that?

04:43:31.520 We're not talking about hair.

04:43:32.340 We're talking about face.

04:43:33.140 Deceptive.

04:43:33.660 But men don't wear makeup. 0.57

04:43:35.120 Wait, so your beard is really, is that really what your face looks like?

04:43:38.780 Beards are natural.

04:43:39.000 Beards are natural.

04:43:41.140 If I, if I was on an island, if I was on an island, I could grow a beard.

04:43:46.060 If you were on an island without your makeup, you wouldn't be able to wear makeup.

04:43:51.220 Okay, but if you put like beard oil in your hair, it's like, it's not that shiny.

04:43:55.060 Can I add something?

04:43:55.800 Well, I don't think, I don't think.

04:43:57.180 Let's go with her.

04:43:57.880 Hold on.

04:43:58.300 One sec.

04:43:58.960 Well, I'll let you come in in just a sec here.

04:44:00.460 These comparisons to like beard and hair, uh, one, the beard, no, the, first off the beard,

04:44:08.180 that's naturally, that's natural.

04:44:10.840 No woman can naturally have makeup on their face. 1.00

04:44:14.360 Like it doesn't magically materialize, manifest.

04:44:18.620 Can you have solitaire?

04:44:19.400 Don't, it's okay.

04:44:21.760 I know I'm attacking, I know I'm attacking your, uh, what's it called?

04:44:28.580 You're, this is a very sensitive subject for you.

04:44:30.480 It's not sensitive.

04:44:31.280 You're very, you're very defensive about the makeup.

04:44:33.340 I'm not defensive, I'm bored.

04:44:35.080 You, you're, you are dependent on the paint.

04:44:37.960 I get it.

04:44:38.480 You're dependent on the paint to move through life.

04:44:41.120 I get it.

04:44:41.920 You feel like I'm attacking you personally.

04:44:43.420 I don't feel like you're attacking me personally at all.

04:44:45.220 You feel a little defensive about the paint.

04:44:47.220 No, I don't.

04:44:48.220 If makeup never existed, none of us would care.

04:44:51.380 We wouldn't know any different.

04:44:52.180 We wouldn't know any different.

04:44:53.960 That's true.

04:44:54.960 But okay, here's how to finish my point.

04:44:57.380 To finish my point on this.

04:44:59.100 You'd be like an Amish woman. 1.00

04:45:00.100 No beauty stat would be better.

04:45:01.720 Yeah, you should be with an Amish woman. 1.00

04:45:04.160 There's plenty of.

04:45:04.700 She'd probably obey you. 1.00

04:45:06.100 Ha ha.

04:45:06.900 That's fine.

04:45:07.620 Good one.

04:45:08.880 Just like your jokes.

04:45:10.280 That's cool.

04:45:10.820 So anyways, the reason why it's deceptive is because we look at somebody and we make

04:45:18.640 an instant determination as to their physical attractiveness.

04:45:22.640 So you've already hooked us.

04:45:24.480 You do music, right?

04:45:25.460 You're familiar with the term hook in music.

04:45:27.860 What's a hook?

04:45:29.080 The chorus.

04:45:29.860 Something a little catchy to get you invested in the song before you skip to a new next song

04:45:35.340 on Spotify or you switch to a different channel on the radio, right?

04:45:39.840 That's what the hook is.

04:45:41.320 It hooks you in, right?

04:45:43.300 That's what your makeup is achieving.

04:45:46.040 The man might be attracted to you even without the makeup, but you said it enhances.

04:45:51.560 So if makeup didn't make you look better, would you wear it?

04:45:55.640 Like if makeup made you look worse, would you wear makeup?

04:45:58.760 Of course not.

04:46:00.100 So you are admitting that makeup makes you look more attractive than you actually are, correct?

04:46:05.600 It makes, yeah, it enhances your features.

04:46:08.280 So how is that not definitionally deceptive?

04:46:12.680 Okay.

04:46:13.220 It is deceptive.

04:46:14.420 W, checkmate. 0.98

04:46:15.960 It's deceptive and it doesn't fucking matter at all. 0.99

04:46:19.320 This is so boring. 0.98

04:46:20.040 You're right.

04:46:20.120 This is why men should lie about being attorneys when they work at McDonald's. 0.51

04:46:23.880 It's completely different because if, if it's like deceptive in that way, eventually you're

04:46:28.140 going to see it, that's off and it doesn't matter. 1.00

04:46:30.160 And if she's like a crazy ass bitch who you don't like and who is like faking it, you're 1.00

04:46:34.980 eventually going to find out. 1.00

04:46:36.180 It's, if it's the hook, then that's just the hook.

04:46:38.580 Like if the rest of the content is bad, then throw it out.

04:46:41.540 And just to be clear, I'm not making the argument that like, I'm not making the argument that

04:46:46.820 all these dudes who are dating women who wear makeup, even if it's just a little bit, they

04:46:52.440 got duped into the relationship.

04:46:53.960 I would say to be charitable, probably most men who are dating a woman who wears makeup,

04:47:01.200 those men probably would have dated them even if they didn't have the makeup, right?

04:47:05.140 I'm not making this argument that it's like, it's making such an impact.

04:47:08.860 Although sometimes it can be, it's making such an impact that these men are dating women

04:47:12.940 that they otherwise wouldn't.

04:47:14.440 But if we're going to have like a conversation about the topic, if we're going to exchange

04:47:19.200 ideas, then like, and do an analysis, I don't think you can come away from it and not just

04:47:26.160 concede that, yeah, it's deceptive.

04:47:28.220 I would like to hear what Sarah says.

04:47:31.600 Is that, you want to concede the argument?

04:47:33.460 Huh?

04:47:33.740 I would like to hear what she has to say.

04:47:34.680 Okay, go ahead, Sarah.

04:47:35.320 At this point, I'm like over it.

04:47:37.560 I mean, I feel like.

04:47:38.640 See, see how defensive they get about the paint.

04:47:40.680 No, no, no.

04:47:41.140 I actually, I want to be like very honest because I actually, what you're saying goes

04:47:47.960 in alignment with what my values are, which is like, I want a man to actually appreciate

04:47:52.040 me completely.

04:47:53.720 Like, I would rather meet the man that I'm going to spend my life with, like completely

04:48:00.060 transparently, like on, like to be honest, if he sees me like crying with no makeup on,

04:48:05.140 I'm going to know that like that person's going to stick with me because they, there's,

04:48:09.180 they just saw me at my worst.

04:48:10.140 You know what I mean?

04:48:10.640 Or like at, like being as natural as possible.

04:48:13.760 Um, but I was actually going to bring up the topic of like, like another component of

04:48:23.080 deception would be like, you're seeking people who are natural, but what you are probably

04:48:29.600 also missing is that all the women that you think are natural are actually filled with 0.99

04:48:34.660 other things that, like I, like, no Botox and filler, like their face actually isn't 0.99

04:48:42.680 what I don't like that shit either. 0.99

04:48:44.700 And so you, I know, no, no, no, no. 1.00

04:48:47.220 Like women, I know when, I know when women have lip filler, trust me, I just got to look 1.00

04:48:52.060 at, I got to look at you from the side and I see your upper lips all fucked up. 0.99

04:48:56.380 Sorry. 0.99

04:48:56.800 There are women that like, that know how to make themselves look extremely natural, but they 1.00

04:49:03.660 are altering their face.

04:49:05.460 Yeah. 1.00

04:49:05.580 I don't like that shit either. 1.00

04:49:07.340 So I'm just saying what, when you're seeking and you're like judging the lady with makeup, 1.00

04:49:11.640 the lady with makeup is putting stuff on her face as opposed to the woman who you think 1.00

04:49:15.800 is actually doing a better job.

04:49:18.080 She's putting stuff in her face.

04:49:20.520 Yeah.

04:49:20.640 I don't like that either.

04:49:21.820 Wait, I don't like either.

04:49:23.140 And it's just both are deceptive actually.

04:49:25.360 But she's not trying to deceive you.

04:49:27.220 She's trying to give you her best.

04:49:28.500 She's trying to put an effort for you.

04:49:29.940 I'm just trying to put an effort when I lie about my, I'm just trying to help you not

04:49:35.400 be deceived because yours is ill intent.

04:49:38.260 Mine's not.

04:49:38.660 I have very strong, well, I have very strong positions on plastic surgery too.

04:49:43.040 I'm against plastic surgery.

04:49:46.080 Yeah.

04:49:46.920 Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on.

04:49:49.800 That's when you're the prettiest.

04:49:50.940 I hope that you don't take it long.

04:49:55.280 Drake.

04:49:57.280 Drake said it first.

04:49:58.280 Okay.

04:50:03.540 Cricket. 0.98

04:50:04.140 When it comes to the makeup, you're a slave.

04:50:08.880 You're born into a prison that you cannot taste or see or touch.

04:50:14.980 A prison for your mind.

04:50:18.020 A prison for your mind. 1.00

04:50:21.820 Society has told you you're not beautiful unless you're wearing this fucking mascara. 1.00

04:50:26.880 Society has told you you're not beautiful unless you get this amount of Botox injected into 1.00

04:50:33.460 your upper lip.

04:50:34.460 But many of you are so accustomed, so hopelessly dependent on makeup that you will fight to

04:50:49.220 protect it, which is why I was so viciously attacked by Pearl and by Sarah. 0.86

04:50:55.900 I did not attack.

04:50:57.220 So hopelessly dependent on the makeup.

04:51:01.580 Like I said, if makeup never existed, nobody would care.

04:51:05.940 Nick, do you have our TikTok?

04:51:08.200 Dude, go to the TikTok.

04:51:10.100 We did the TikTok of a girl who said she doesn't like makeup. 0.99

04:51:13.860 Oh, no.

04:51:14.360 And the 42 million views.

04:51:17.320 So, Nick, click on that first one.

04:51:19.100 We're not going to watch it.

04:51:21.020 Yeah, just click on it.

04:51:22.200 I've seen that.

04:51:22.700 Actually, just play it.

04:51:23.840 Hold on.

04:51:24.700 Start from the beginning.

04:51:26.100 Go audio.

04:51:27.700 Yeah, we'll watch it really quick.

04:51:30.080 I don't like makeup.

04:51:31.520 I'm against makeup.

04:51:32.900 I don't think it's good for women, and I don't think they really need to be using it, honestly. 1.00

04:51:39.240 I think it takes away.

04:51:42.680 Makeup is, it's capitalizing on women's insecurities when it's something that they can easily fix. 1.00

04:51:48.660 I think it takes away from a woman's natural beauty, and also, it is so bad for you. 0.99

04:51:55.040 Like, you think about how skin absorbs things.

04:51:58.020 When you read the ingredients on a foundation bottle, what is in it?

04:52:01.620 You can't even pronounce it. 1.00

04:52:02.560 It's a bunch of crap that you're putting on your face. 1.00

04:52:06.040 And that is, in turn, making your skin worse. 0.99

04:52:09.220 So, you have to keep buying more foundation to cover up what it's creating.

04:52:13.140 I don't like makeup.

04:52:13.760 Wait, pause it.

04:52:14.400 Go back, go back, go back.

04:52:15.680 I've also seen her other videos, though.

04:52:16.640 Yeah, I mean, that's another conversation.

04:52:18.800 Wait, Nick, so click on the right.

04:52:21.220 It says original sound.

04:52:22.900 She wears makeup.

04:52:23.980 It's crazy.

04:52:24.900 Wait, she wears makeup, bro.

04:52:27.660 Original sound.

04:52:28.380 Oh, my gosh.

04:52:30.140 Click it.

04:52:30.720 It is, like, minimal, but.

04:52:31.940 Okay, so this became used as, like, a sound on TikTok.

04:52:36.740 I've seen that.

04:52:37.400 18,500 women have made videos using this sound.

04:52:43.740 That's so funny.

04:52:44.040 And if you notice, they've gone on the offensive, oh, you don't like makeup, singular woman? 0.99

04:52:54.540 Here's me putting, like, pounds of this shit on my face as, like, a, I don't know. 0.99

04:53:03.620 A gotcha? 1.00

04:53:04.320 Well, that woman's a fraud. 1.00

04:53:06.040 As a clapback. 0.99

04:53:07.180 As a clapback.

04:53:08.280 There you go.

04:53:08.740 There you go.

04:53:08.760 Thank you.

04:53:09.080 Thank you, Madison.

04:53:10.080 You're welcome.

04:53:11.080 So fire.

04:53:12.440 As they should.

04:53:13.200 Period.

04:53:13.960 Period. 1.00

04:53:14.280 She's a fraud. 1.00

04:53:14.740 Period. 0.99

04:53:15.240 18,000 videos.

04:53:18.680 And that's not including the sentiment of, like, the women watching.

04:53:22.120 You guys are so dependent.

04:53:23.600 She could be sitting there. 0.73

04:53:24.520 Dependent.

04:53:25.320 You guys are so dependent on the makeup that you will fight to protect it.

04:53:30.120 But where do we draw the line?

04:53:31.040 I can tell her hair is highlighted, so she would not highlight her hair.

04:53:33.580 Oh, okay. 1.00

04:53:33.760 We can have a separate conversation over her being a hypocrite. 1.00

04:53:37.040 That's a separate conversation, though. 0.99

04:53:38.340 She could be sitting there with Botox and right there. 1.00

04:53:40.220 Her forehead didn't move at all.

04:53:41.260 Did you notice that?

04:53:44.860 Sure.

04:53:45.780 The point is.

04:53:46.620 Okay, that's not really the point I'm trying to make.

04:53:48.140 I'm just saying.

04:53:49.840 You guys got to unplug from the Matrix.

04:53:52.700 Can't.

04:53:53.060 Unplugged from the Matrix.

04:53:58.620 I do want to say, though, the people that are responding as a clapback are putting on, like, pounds of makeup.

04:54:04.920 That is deceptive.

04:54:07.500 It is.

04:54:09.940 It is.

04:54:11.240 Look, makeup is the functional equivalent of a man working at McDonald's saying he's a lawyer.

04:54:16.620 That's so much.

04:54:18.200 Totally not the equivalent.

04:54:19.780 I personally did not know that you were taking it that personally.

04:54:22.580 But when you lie to me about your job.

04:54:25.160 Yeah, come on. 0.77

04:54:26.060 That is a lie.

04:54:26.860 That is a straight up lie.

04:54:28.600 You think guys really care more about makeup than women care about money? 0.97

04:54:35.000 Yeah.

04:54:35.400 Good point.

04:54:36.200 Honestly.

04:54:36.600 What is that saying? 1.00

04:54:37.420 Men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love through their ears or some shit? 1.00

04:54:42.880 Men like what they see and women like what they hear. 1.00

04:54:46.820 That's why men lie and women wear makeup. 1.00

04:54:48.940 Ah, yes.

04:54:49.660 There you go.

04:54:50.360 Yep.

04:54:51.360 Yeah, well, stop wearing makeup when you stop lying.

04:54:54.200 Oh.

04:54:55.600 Period.

04:54:56.000 Period.

04:54:58.140 Boom.

04:54:58.780 W.

04:54:59.140 W.

04:55:03.680 That's so funny.

04:55:04.680 I do.

04:55:05.100 Look, I just think, I think it's a lie.

04:55:06.740 I think it's deceptive. 1.00

04:55:08.600 That's dumb. 0.98

04:55:09.400 I don't think. 1.00

04:55:10.120 That's dumb. 0.99

04:55:10.900 Why is it dumb? 0.99

04:55:12.020 I'm over this conversation. 0.98

04:55:13.200 She's over.

04:55:13.860 I agree with you, like I said before.

04:55:15.320 It's okay.

04:55:15.920 Totally on your page.

04:55:16.440 You're a little upset.

04:55:17.540 Your female voice impression is pretty good.

04:55:20.820 Not going to lie.

04:55:21.660 Thank you.

04:55:22.180 You should hear our men voice impersonation.

04:55:25.740 Let's hear it.

04:55:27.120 Go ahead.

04:55:28.240 Do it.

04:55:28.620 We do it all this time. 1.00

04:55:30.220 Let's hear that shit. 1.00

04:55:32.400 Do it. 1.00

04:55:33.140 Hey.

04:55:33.660 What are you doing?

04:55:34.740 Babe, what are you doing?

04:55:36.180 Oh, my gosh.

04:55:37.640 I don't really want to go over there today.

04:55:39.520 No.

04:55:40.100 Yeah.

04:55:40.300 It sounds exactly like Brian.

04:55:41.600 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

04:55:43.600 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

04:55:45.740 How much longer does this go?

04:55:50.280 Like, what time are you coming home?

04:55:52.040 Like a million years.

04:55:52.860 Brian LeCompte, Girl in Red, shoved some reality down these face-painted girls' faces.

04:55:56.920 You got this, lol, Brian. 1.00

04:55:58.040 I don't know how you tolerate this shit, lol. 1.00

04:56:00.600 Good name, by the way. 1.00

04:56:01.500 Good name, Brian.

04:56:02.220 Thanks.

04:56:02.720 No, she's unbothered.

04:56:03.640 I also say, hi.

04:56:04.680 All right.

04:56:05.000 He called back to go.

04:56:06.560 He doesn't want to be, though.

04:56:07.080 Can you pull up that tweet really quick again?

04:56:09.680 Can you pull up the tweet?

04:56:14.380 How is this not deceptive?

04:56:15.740 Tell me.

04:56:16.440 Tell me.

04:56:17.480 Nobody's disagreeing with you.

04:56:19.180 Girls do that, though. 1.00

04:56:21.280 Yes.

04:56:21.640 That is deceptive.

04:56:22.420 We're not saying they throw up no eyebrows to eyebrows, a bigger nose to a smaller nose.

04:56:26.820 She went from white to Asian. 0.90

04:56:28.820 But there are so many ways to be deceptive.

04:56:32.980 There are more ways to be deceptive than just makeup.

04:56:36.620 Like guys who wear toupees.

04:56:38.560 Yep.

04:56:39.680 Yeah, I agree.

04:56:40.580 That's not what they...

04:56:41.620 Even though it's natural, beards are kind of deceptive, too, because when they shave that

04:56:45.200 off, it's like, whoa, you have no jawline.

04:56:47.460 And they do give you acne.

04:56:50.040 You know what I mean?

04:56:50.960 You went from...

04:56:51.920 Like it's natural, so it's a good...

04:56:53.500 I'm not even arguing.

04:56:54.200 35, you're like 15.

04:56:55.260 Yeah, grow it.

04:56:55.280 Sure.

04:56:55.580 Do your thing.

04:56:56.420 I'll even grant you that men will grow a beard to hide a weak jaw or a weak chin.

04:57:02.180 Are you willing to shave your beard?

04:57:03.920 Who's the razor?

04:57:07.040 Brian, shave your... 0.78

04:57:07.900 I'll do it for...

04:57:08.540 It's...

04:57:09.540 I'll do it for Bitcoin.

04:57:10.840 It's one of our...

04:57:11.520 Wait.

04:57:11.880 If you shave your beard, we'll take a haul on makeup.

04:57:13.660 What if your girlfriend made like some sort of compromise and she's like, okay, if I 0.97

04:57:21.140 stop wearing makeup, then you have to shave your beard?

04:57:24.260 No.

04:57:25.900 There we go.

04:57:26.440 She can take her makeup off and I keep the beard.

04:57:28.860 That's how it's going to be in my household.

04:57:30.940 Your beard will grow back.

04:57:32.740 Your beard will grow back.

04:57:34.320 Yeah, it'll grow back.

04:57:36.360 So if you...

04:57:36.740 I mean, I'll eventually, maybe one of these days I will shave the beard, but I'm chilling

04:57:41.740 with the beard.

04:57:42.900 I'll do it for Bitcoin on stream though.

04:57:45.600 If anybody, any takers, any wealthy philanthropists want to help out a brother.

04:57:53.460 What's up?

04:57:54.220 Did you?

04:57:54.940 She said something.

04:57:55.980 Oh, did you have something?

04:57:56.800 So if you meet a girl and at the time that you meet, like you ask her, like you are open

04:58:07.380 enough to ask her, like that you want to see her without makeup, can she ask you to shave

04:58:14.340 your beard off so that neither of you is deceived?

04:58:17.600 Does that make sense?

04:58:18.820 Like, are you going to be offended?

04:58:20.080 Well, so one, I have photos of me available without the beard.

04:58:25.560 I'm sure she does too.

04:58:26.440 What if she shows you photos and you show her photos for an exchange?

04:58:29.580 I'll show you mine if you show me yours.

04:58:34.460 What is it?

04:58:35.160 How do you...

04:58:35.800 I'm seven years old again.

04:58:37.180 I know.

04:58:37.780 What is your like dating process?

04:58:39.300 Like, where do you find the women that you date? 0.93

04:58:42.600 Do you just find them wherever, but like they're not wearing makeup or like, do you, do you ever

04:58:46.700 meet women and they're wearing makeup and then you just kind of wait for the opportunity?

04:58:50.900 They all slide into my DMs.

04:58:51.540 Like, would you go on a first date if like you first encounter?

04:58:54.880 Wait, why would that be a problem?

04:58:56.200 I don't know.

04:58:56.720 I just, I don't, a social media date.

04:58:59.400 I don't, I meet people in person.

04:59:02.160 No offense to people who don't.

04:59:03.820 That's just my personal value.

04:59:05.020 Well, I'm not trying to really date the girls, like the girls that come on the show.

04:59:07.460 No offense.

04:59:09.160 I mean, one or two, you know, I've been like, okay, she's not crazy.

04:59:13.760 Maybe, most of them though.

04:59:16.980 I'm just kidding.

04:59:17.980 I'm kidding.

04:59:18.620 This was a good pant.

04:59:19.500 It was a good pant.

04:59:20.380 Anyways, let's move it on.

04:59:21.520 We do have to move it on from the, we've been on the makeup thing for a while.

04:59:27.600 But also, hold on.

04:59:31.160 Wait, wait, I'm sorry.

04:59:31.820 I got to argue this.

04:59:33.300 Makeup is way, even if I grant that men will grow beards because they have a weak chin or

04:59:38.720 a weak jaw, that's still like, but like way more makeup alters your appearance way more

04:59:44.140 than a beard.

04:59:44.900 Also, I've made this argument before when it comes to facial attractiveness, the top 50%

04:59:51.980 of your face is going to matter way more than the bottom 50% of your face.

04:59:59.440 Okay.

04:59:59.940 Because during COVID, when everyone would wear masks and they would cover the bottom of their

05:00:03.920 face.

05:00:03.940 And then they smile. 0.95

05:00:05.120 And then they would take it off and it's like, holy crap, like only your eyes were 0.91

05:00:08.640 attractive, but the rest of your face, like put the mask back on. 0.91

05:00:12.460 Sure.

05:00:12.800 I'm not saying it doesn't matter, but if you look at like, okay, I think majority of women 1.00

05:00:19.240 who do throw on makeup, it's going to be, is it going to be eye makeup?

05:00:27.000 Like, are women. 1.00

05:00:28.600 Depends on the girl. 1.00

05:00:29.600 She might be more emphasizing the eye makeup versus. 1.00

05:00:32.900 Are women going to wear mascara and nothing, are women going to throw on some mascara or 1.00

05:00:38.880 eyeliner and nothing else?

05:00:40.640 Yeah.

05:00:40.820 Or are they more likely to throw on like, what's the stuff you put on your face?

05:00:44.560 Foundation.

05:00:45.800 If they're putting on foundation, are they also going to put on eye makeup too?

05:00:49.980 Yeah.

05:00:50.420 I don't know.

05:00:50.900 It depends what they know how to do.

05:00:52.100 It depends on what we're doing.

05:00:53.980 Yeah.

05:00:54.380 Like what's the vibe?

05:00:55.040 I don't wear makeup to work.

05:00:56.720 Yeah.

05:00:56.980 Like at work.

05:00:57.640 I don't wear makeup.

05:00:58.460 Mascara.

05:00:58.780 99% of the time.

05:00:59.760 In any case, I do think the top 50% of the face is more important.

05:01:03.800 So where did we draw the line of deceptiveness?

05:01:06.960 Like where do we.

05:01:08.400 We're going to agree to disagree with him.

05:01:10.180 Yeah.

05:01:10.660 No, but like, okay.

05:01:11.660 So what about like dying hair or like.

05:01:15.440 I'm called out.

05:01:16.560 No, no, no, no.

05:01:17.120 Like what?

05:01:18.980 Okay.

05:01:19.160 If you dyed your hair, is that deceptive?

05:01:21.440 Is it deceptive?

05:01:26.360 If you dyed your hair.

05:01:27.780 Cause like, that's not your natural hair.

05:01:30.380 It could be.

05:01:31.300 Like.

05:01:32.120 But I think with dyed hair, for example, like a woman, if she has dark hair and then she 0.97

05:01:39.900 has blonde hair and she's a white girl, a girl could look like her with blonde hair, 1.00

05:01:49.240 but you put makeup on you.

05:01:52.100 Nobody looks like that naturally.

05:01:54.760 I'm sorry.

05:01:55.400 But when we girls get like, we have a breakup, we change our hair because hair makes like 0.99

05:02:01.020 such a big difference.

05:02:04.700 Huge difference.

05:02:05.860 Okay.

05:02:06.040 I guess the difference is a girl could naturally be blonde. 1.00

05:02:09.100 A girl could naturally be brown hair instead of black hair. 1.00

05:02:12.720 No woman can naturally have like raccoon eyes or I don't know. 1.00

05:02:20.300 That's probably not a popular makeup style, but like you can't naturally, like some women 1.00

05:02:25.900 might have like longer eyelashes.

05:02:28.220 But you're not going to have natural purple hair or like pink hair, like all these crazy 0.94

05:02:33.480 I don't think guys like that.

05:02:35.040 I don't think hair is as deceptive unless you're bald or something and you're hiding that you're

05:02:38.760 bald.

05:02:39.320 Oh yeah.

05:02:39.540 Like she said, the toupee.

05:02:40.440 I think the toupee is a more fair comparison because also I suppose, well, it's even less

05:02:47.520 common.

05:02:47.740 I was going to say men can dye their hair, but even that has a little social stigma.

05:02:58.160 Not really.

05:02:59.420 It does.

05:03:01.900 Very, very little.

05:03:04.160 It's not as socially acceptable as if a woman dyes her hair. 0.98

05:03:08.000 It's pretty much the same.

05:03:09.080 No, I think most women would be like, bro, you dyeing your hair? 1.00

05:03:15.500 Because he's going through his midlife crisis.

05:03:18.320 I wouldn't think that.

05:03:19.400 A lot of guys are like going M&M.

05:03:21.520 I think a lot of men would be like, a lot of men would clown on their male friends. 0.61

05:03:25.560 Bro, you dye your hair?

05:03:26.460 What's wrong?

05:03:27.000 Oh, okay.

05:03:27.920 Sure.

05:03:28.120 Most women, if their female friend dyed their hair, they'd be like... 1.00

05:03:32.180 Gorgeous.

05:03:32.740 Right, right, right.

05:03:33.360 Super cute.

05:03:34.140 Anyways, we'll move on from that.

05:03:35.580 Honest to God, my wife of five years has never seen my cheeks.

05:03:38.760 Would you date someone who was without criminal record in the U.S. but technically an international

05:03:43.520 terrorist?

05:03:45.400 Tourist?

05:03:45.900 Oh, wow.

05:03:47.060 Tourist.

05:03:48.000 What does that even mean?

05:03:49.660 Terrorist riz. 0.80

05:03:51.220 A terrorist in another country?

05:03:53.000 Show of hands, who here would date a terrorist?

05:03:56.300 No.

05:03:57.040 Okay.

05:03:57.480 Brian would?

05:03:58.100 He would?

05:03:58.640 Sure, I guess.

05:04:01.720 All right, let's get through...

05:04:02.780 Oh, wait, let's get through all the TikToks first.

05:04:05.720 Can you pull up the TikTok?

05:04:07.540 There's like two more, right?

05:04:09.180 Okay, we'll do this.

05:04:14.560 This is my vision for my long-term relationship.

05:04:16.780 I love this quote by A.J. McLean.

05:04:18.780 And he says, I pray that the woman that is for me feels like home and a vacation. 0.56

05:04:23.020 And as someone who wants the same, I've been thinking a lot about this.

05:04:26.480 Another creator I follow, Onami Mami, was describing how intimacy, I know, I can predict,

05:04:32.900 I understand, we have closeness, is the killer of eroticism, which is surprise and desire.

05:04:40.800 So how do we achieve a relationship that feels like home and a vacation?

05:04:45.380 When they're diametrically opposed and one is actually the killer of the other?

05:04:51.120 I certainly don't have all the answers, but my guess is that it's space.

05:04:55.360 If you never have space from your partner, you're always with them.

05:04:59.380 You never have the opportunity to evolve into something that may surprise them.

05:05:04.500 It also reminds me of this beautiful poem by Khalil Gibran.

05:05:07.220 He says, fill each other's cup, but drink not from one cup.

05:05:10.120 Give one another of your bread, but eat not of the same loaf.

05:05:13.860 And that's why.

05:05:18.000 Is that the end?

05:05:20.420 It like loops.

05:05:21.500 Oh, it's the beginning.

05:05:23.240 Oh.

05:05:25.420 Does the panel agree?

05:05:28.020 Why do you disagree?

05:05:28.980 I just think that if a relationship works, you can have both things.

05:05:34.120 You don't, you can, they can surprise you or they can be predictable in other ways.

05:05:40.780 And it doesn't necessarily mean one kills the other.

05:05:45.340 That's facts.

05:05:46.440 I agree.

05:05:48.720 Let's just do the next one.

05:05:50.120 Same topic.

05:05:52.800 Why is no one talking about how you're still settling if you meet your dream man and he doesn't want to pursue?

05:06:00.560 It could be every single thing on your list, but if he isn't intentionally taking steps to make you his, you're settling.

05:06:08.580 You're also confirming the belief to your own mind that you're not worth being pursued.

05:06:15.280 If you immediately or very quickly cut that person off in and out of your life and in and out of your mind, your thought life, your thought life is so important.

05:06:23.820 You have to take control of that thing.

05:06:25.660 If you no longer engage with thinking about what it could be like with that dream person, you're signaling to yourself that you are worthy of the love that you imagine and therefore will more easily call it in.

05:06:41.400 You said the thought?

05:06:43.540 Like, thought?

05:06:45.280 Do you mean, like, that hoe over there? 1.00

05:06:48.280 No.

05:06:49.160 Oh.

05:06:50.760 I thought you were talking about that.

05:06:51.820 She meant, like, the life inside your mind.

05:06:53.840 No, like, the thoughts in your mind.

05:06:54.400 Oh.

05:06:56.100 Okay.

05:06:57.200 I actually agree.

05:06:58.220 I got confused.

05:06:59.840 Like, I agree with the majority of that video.

05:07:01.800 But I think that definitely there needs to, like, it's not possible for just anybody to go, to go straight to, like, oh, I'm fine.

05:07:12.660 Like, this is who I am.

05:07:13.580 I'm good.

05:07:14.140 Like, there needs to be a grieve, like, a grieved thought process to, like, better yourself.

05:07:19.080 It's not, like, immediately.

05:07:20.940 And I also think that, like, when exiting a relationship, it's really important to self-analyze, like, what you could have done as well.

05:07:27.740 Not just, like, pointing at the person.

05:07:30.780 Because ultimately, for your next relationship, you want to work as a team.

05:07:33.580 Not, like, oh, what are they doing wrong?

05:07:35.080 What am I doing right?

05:07:36.020 Type of thing.

05:07:37.060 Like, so definitely addressing, like, just being more self-aware of, like, what you could have done.

05:07:43.540 I think what I meant in this TikTok was, like, I think that sometimes you might find somebody, like, a guy or something.

05:07:50.140 And you're, like, oh, my God, he's this, and he's this, and he's this.

05:07:52.880 And you can be so obsessed with them.

05:07:54.460 But that person, if they're not interested in you, and they're not pursuing you, and, like, there's no point in thinking about them.

05:08:01.840 There's no point in pursuing them. 1.00

05:08:02.960 It's, like, you just kind of have to cut that shit off. 1.00

05:08:05.420 Can you say the same thing for men, though? 1.00

05:08:07.400 Absolutely.

05:08:07.920 Like, can a guy be, like, well, she's my dream woman, but she isn't pursuing me.

05:08:12.700 Oh, oh.

05:08:13.520 And so.

05:08:15.420 I think it's more like she's not responding.

05:08:17.680 I would say to a man, it would be, like, oh, like, you're saying, hey, do you want to do this?

05:08:21.160 And she's just giving you short answers.

05:08:23.020 She's kind of ignoring you.

05:08:24.420 Then, like, just move on.

05:08:25.320 She's obviously not interested in you. 0.99

05:08:26.800 If you're pursuing a girl, and you want to take her out, she will respond, and she'll say, let's do it. 0.97

05:08:32.860 So you don't need to keep going.

05:08:34.100 Just, like, let it go.

05:08:35.180 But, I mean, if you said this is your dream guy, you wouldn't be willing to pursue your dream guy?

05:08:40.300 He's not your dream.

05:08:41.220 I would say that he's not your dream guy if he's not interested in you.

05:08:45.740 Your dream man will want to be with you.

05:08:48.320 And I think a lot of times, as women, it's hard to, like, we know that, but, like, it's hard in practice to be, like, oh, right.

05:08:57.420 If he doesn't like me, that's an automatic, like, that automatically means that I shouldn't be with him.

05:09:03.580 But I think also it's hard for men because women, a lot of the time, will string them along or make them believe, like, oh, I could possibly have a chance. 1.00

05:09:12.880 And then they keep playing that game, and then they won't be able to realize that they don't want them because they keep playing this, like, long game and make them confused about if they're interested in them or not.

05:09:22.720 I think we need to get away from the word dream.

05:09:26.900 Yeah.

05:09:27.860 Yeah.

05:09:28.220 Because no person is exactly what you think they're going to be.

05:09:35.340 Pearl would be my nightmare.

05:09:37.260 I'm just kidding.

05:09:38.620 Oh, I was going to say you would be my nightmare.

05:09:40.500 I mean, I don't know about a lot of...

05:09:42.960 Mutual nightmare.

05:09:43.420 I know Jordan's married, but I don't know, I don't think any other women.

05:09:46.420 But when I first got married, I thought I had certain thoughts of how my husband was going to be or I was going to be to him.

05:09:54.200 I quickly found out that was not the case because I'm thinking, well, I'm going to be different than these other marriages.

05:10:00.280 I'm going to be different.

05:10:00.960 Mine's going to be different.

05:10:02.220 That reality hit, smacked me in the face real fast.

05:10:04.500 Yeah.

05:10:05.200 Wait.

05:10:05.600 So before we get into everybody's dream man, dream man, you mentioned thought, and I want to actually, this question came up.

05:10:14.380 Would you prefer...

05:10:16.380 I'm already laughing.

05:10:18.240 Oh, God.

05:10:18.980 Here we go. 1.00

05:10:19.880 Here we fucking go. 0.99

05:10:20.480 What am I going to ask? 0.99

05:10:21.720 I don't know, but it's going to be wild.

05:10:24.100 Would you prefer to have a thought son or a thought daughter?

05:10:29.240 What? 0.98

05:10:29.820 A gay son or a thought daughter? 0.99

05:10:31.160 Yes. 0.97

05:10:31.740 I feel like that one's a little insensitive, Maddie.

05:10:34.240 Oh, what?

05:10:34.860 It's a little insensitive.

05:10:36.720 This whole podcast is...

05:10:38.420 Excuse me.

05:10:39.820 Facts.

05:10:40.660 Excuse me, Maddie.

05:10:42.280 So a thought son or a thought daughter?

05:10:43.560 Would you rather have a thought son or a thought daughter? 0.95

05:10:46.800 A promiscuous daughter. 0.99

05:10:48.480 Yeah. 1.00

05:10:49.120 A thought promiscuous slutty. 1.00

05:10:51.080 A promiscuous... 0.99

05:10:52.200 I mean, definitely neither, for sure.

05:10:54.180 But you have to pick one.

05:10:55.160 If I had to pick...

05:10:56.060 A thought son or a thought daughter? 0.67

05:10:57.480 I do think that women are in more danger when it comes to, like, sexual activity. 0.99

05:11:04.420 So if I had to pick one, I guess I would pick son.

05:11:07.220 Okay.

05:11:07.900 Son.

05:11:08.900 I wouldn't allow either of them to be...

05:11:10.440 If you have to pick.

05:11:11.820 I wouldn't allow it.

05:11:13.000 You gotta pick.

05:11:13.680 They would be sent to boarding school.

05:11:15.200 They would be in reform.

05:11:16.500 No.

05:11:16.640 But they're still a thought.

05:11:17.180 Say they're an adult.

05:11:18.280 They're, like, nine.

05:11:20.320 They had thought in boarding school.

05:11:22.780 Well, if they're...

05:11:23.640 No matter what, they're still a thought.

05:11:25.360 So you have to choose.

05:11:26.420 If they're an adult at that point, it really doesn't make a difference.

05:11:27.620 W, Maddie.

05:11:28.480 I think...

05:11:29.180 Okay, then a guy, because it'd be more socially acceptable.

05:11:32.680 Okay.

05:11:34.080 Yeah. 0.93

05:11:34.880 Less slut-shaming, for sure. 0.93

05:11:37.200 Yeah. 0.99

05:11:38.880 Guy.

05:11:40.760 Yeah, guy.

05:11:44.800 I'm gonna say, yeah.

05:11:47.420 Boys.

05:11:48.520 Yeah.

05:11:49.320 Thought son.

05:11:50.600 Thought son.

05:11:52.500 What about you?

05:11:53.480 Thought son.

05:11:54.540 Wait, let me up the ante a little bit.

05:11:56.480 Would you prefer a criminal son or a thought daughter? 0.89

05:12:00.480 So drug dealer. 0.94

05:12:01.120 But, like, not anything too crazy, like cocaine. 1.00

05:12:04.920 Your son deals cocaine or a daughter who's a slut. 1.00

05:12:09.980 Which do you pick? 1.00

05:12:11.700 Jordan loves this question.

05:12:14.560 Wait, what's so funny, actually?

05:12:16.800 The question is wild.

05:12:19.480 So wild.

05:12:20.480 Is it?

05:12:20.980 No.

05:12:21.440 These are not things you normally think of.

05:12:23.380 I was thinking about this yesterday.

05:12:25.120 No, I mean, like, the average.

05:12:26.320 I was in the pool, and I was just like, this would be a good question to ask.

05:12:29.720 What about this morning, any thoughts?

05:12:31.660 Yeah.

05:12:32.660 No, this morning I woke up, I was like, I need a pulmonologist.

05:12:36.180 Oh, no.

05:12:36.640 What's going on?

05:12:37.140 Yeah, if there's anybody in the chat that's a pulmonologist, hit me up.

05:12:39.540 You have something going on.

05:12:40.400 I need an emergency pulmonologist.

05:12:42.540 Oh, my God.

05:12:43.740 Guys, guys, back to, sorry, I didn't mean to derail. 1.00

05:12:47.300 Did I just do the, oh, fuck. 0.99

05:12:49.820 Oh, my God. 1.00

05:12:50.560 I just did this thing.

05:12:51.420 Give me the contact.

05:12:52.000 This is why I didn't have kids, because I didn't want to deal with this.

05:12:56.220 Criminal drug dealer's son who sells cocaine, but he's not, like, involved with, like, the

05:13:03.160 cartel.

05:13:03.900 Like, it's not that serious.

05:13:05.520 Oh, no.

05:13:05.940 He's, like, a low-key, you know, dealing to, like, third graders.

05:13:11.300 Just kidding.

05:13:11.940 Oh, my gosh.

05:13:12.420 Well, you said criminal, like, he's been caught, and, like, he's been convicted.

05:13:16.020 Let's just say he hasn't been caught yet.

05:13:17.000 Or are you just saying he's just a drug dealer?

05:13:18.560 He hasn't been caught yet, but he could get caught.

05:13:21.640 This is sad.

05:13:21.880 And he deals to high.

05:13:23.100 I hate this question.

05:13:23.980 I'll say deals to college kids.

05:13:25.380 I don't want to answer this.

05:13:25.760 Okay. 1.00

05:13:26.100 Would you prefer a drug, cocaine, drug-dealing son or a slut daughter? 1.00

05:13:33.020 Okay, so they're criminal and slutty to the same extent. 1.00

05:13:35.560 Chat can answer, chat, chat, wait, chat, answer two. 0.72

05:13:37.600 Go ahead.

05:13:37.900 Go ahead, Pearl.

05:13:38.400 Go ahead.

05:13:38.940 You got this, Pearl.

05:13:40.580 I guess.

05:13:44.620 Well.

05:13:47.000 When you're involved in crime, like, you could get caught and, like, go to jail and stuff.

05:13:52.720 I feel like that's more actually, like, dangerous because it's illegal.

05:13:56.160 So, I guess.

05:13:56.820 Oh, no, we're in California.

05:13:57.680 They're pretty, like, chill.

05:13:58.300 I guess thought daughter.

05:14:00.140 It's not illegal to be a thought.

05:14:01.760 Yeah, it's not illegal to be a thought.

05:14:03.040 You could thought around.

05:14:03.580 It should be.

05:14:04.000 No, I'm just kidding.

05:14:04.760 Jail free.

05:14:08.720 I think I would choose the thought daughter.

05:14:10.940 You'd pick the thought daughter.

05:14:12.780 Thought daughter?

05:14:13.240 If I had to choose, I would choose the daughter.

05:14:18.660 I would choose criminal daughter because they would be more lenient to her in the justice system. 1.00

05:14:25.080 That's not one of them.

05:14:26.320 You got to answer that.

05:14:27.100 I choose C, all of the above.

05:14:29.140 Yeah, I have dogs.

05:14:29.960 I have dogs.

05:14:32.340 That's where I'm going to go with that because I'm on.

05:14:34.240 What if you had a cocaine-dealing dog?

05:14:37.020 Well, dogs do smell. 0.92

05:14:38.720 No, they use them to find cocaine, so.

05:14:41.840 Drug dealer son or thought daughter?

05:14:45.780 I would say daughter simply because Coke isn't just affecting his life.

05:14:51.540 It's also affecting the lives he's selling to.

05:14:55.320 And, like, I'm going to choose their lives as well.

05:14:58.220 It's affecting the culture.

05:14:59.940 What about you, Sarah?

05:15:01.120 I'm changing my last answer, and I'm just saying girls for both because I'm not wishing that were my kids.

05:15:05.360 But they are your kids in this question.

05:15:08.980 Yeah, you have two kids, right?

05:15:09.860 Not right now.

05:15:10.540 Two sons?

05:15:12.160 Yes.

05:15:12.820 So if you had, like, a daughter.

05:15:14.780 But there's redemption for both.

05:15:16.400 Like, full transparently, like, I've been both, and I'm good, and I'm here.

05:15:22.320 Okay.

05:15:22.780 How, like, thought is the daughter?

05:15:26.380 Because we gave two babies.

05:15:29.320 I'm kidding. 0.96

05:15:30.280 Criminal son. 1.00

05:15:30.680 But, like, no, no, no, uh, she sleeps with, like, she's 20, and she's fucked, like, 50 dudes. 1.00

05:15:44.560 Raw? 0.99

05:15:45.280 She's probably going to end up. 0.98

05:15:46.240 Half raw.

05:15:47.100 I think I would choose.

05:15:47.800 And then, like, another, like, 30 BJs.

05:15:49.800 She's probably going to end up with someone's criminal son. 0.94

05:15:52.460 Honestly.

05:15:53.020 Yep.

05:15:53.440 And then, like, at least, like, 10, where it's, like, she doesn't know if to count them.

05:15:57.260 Just a tip.

05:15:57.740 She lost count, like, 50 ago.

05:16:00.960 If it counts.

05:16:01.300 Okay, you can't make the criminal son, like, fine and okay, and then, like, a super thotty 0.92

05:16:05.720 daughter.

05:16:06.200 They have to be, like, the same amount.

05:16:08.020 Yeah, it's got to be changed.

05:16:08.660 Well, it comes with the territory of being a criminal that it's bad.

05:16:12.600 So are we saying he doesn't get caught?

05:16:14.300 I think we're thinking about this way too much.

05:16:16.080 If he doesn't get caught, I would choose the son.

05:16:21.060 I think the scenario has to be he doesn't get caught, but he's selling drugs to third graders.

05:16:27.720 For sure.

05:16:27.840 To college kids.

05:16:29.200 It's getting worse.

05:16:30.500 Cocaine.

05:16:30.900 He's selling cocaine.

05:16:32.940 Anyways.

05:16:33.760 The son.

05:16:34.760 What do you pick?

05:16:35.280 I think I would choose that daughter, and only because what if my son sold, like, fentanyl

05:16:47.620 or something?

05:16:47.960 No, it's just.

05:16:48.760 Okay, it's clean.

05:16:49.600 It's clean.

05:16:50.160 Like, how did, like.

05:16:51.560 We have to give him to that.

05:16:52.760 If we're being realistic, a lot of that stuff's, like, not clean, and, like, what if it killed

05:16:56.800 somebody?

05:16:57.260 I think that would be good.

05:16:57.640 Listen, he has very high standards for the drugs he deals with.

05:17:00.420 Do you want us to, like, pick a certain way or something?

05:17:04.400 No, you can pick out whoever.

05:17:05.300 Because you're making one of the extreme.

05:17:06.800 I'm just.

05:17:07.380 So he doesn't kill anyone?

05:17:08.760 No.

05:17:09.280 No.

05:17:09.740 Drug dealers are also, like, in a dangerous position.

05:17:12.400 That's why they tend to stay anonymous.

05:17:13.460 Yeah, but he's not, like, involved with the cartel.

05:17:15.080 Somebody could be out for him.

05:17:15.920 But what, then, okay, what if he gets, like, locked up for a long time?

05:17:19.400 He's a good drug dealer.

05:17:20.920 He's a good dealer. 0.91

05:17:21.440 I'll just say, look, I'm just going to say.

05:17:23.380 I'm just going to say.

05:17:25.540 He's the top of the line.

05:17:26.980 If it was mine.

05:17:27.740 Super clean drugs.

05:17:28.820 Really great.

05:17:29.620 You'll have a great time.

05:17:32.120 Star student.

05:17:33.320 A plus drug dealer.

05:17:34.520 I'm just waiting for them to stop.

05:17:36.320 Sorry.

05:17:37.320 I'm not.

05:17:39.240 Yeah, I picked the son who's selling the drugs.

05:17:43.860 His show's entrepreneurship.

05:17:46.020 Oh, my gosh.

05:17:47.180 Bruh.

05:17:48.340 He's a businessman.

05:17:50.360 He's handling business.

05:17:52.420 Handling his business.

05:17:56.460 She handling business, too.

05:17:57.840 Oh, dream.

05:17:58.620 What's your dream man?

05:17:59.980 Moving on.

05:18:00.660 Okay.

05:18:01.700 Pearl, what's your dream man?

05:18:03.620 Go ahead, Pearl.

05:18:04.780 You got this.

05:18:07.280 He is spiritually aware.

05:18:10.220 He's intellectually a match.

05:18:14.120 He's emotionally mature.

05:18:16.120 He's respectful of women.

05:18:17.760 He wants to be a father.

05:18:20.000 He obviously appreciates and respects me.

05:18:23.620 I'm attracted to him.

05:18:24.900 He's ambitious.

05:18:25.580 He has leadership qualities.

05:18:30.220 Yeah.

05:18:33.740 Like Stacey says, no such thing as dream man, but there are definitely non-negotiables, like being a Christian.

05:18:42.900 I have a big family, so family-oriented.

05:18:44.680 Kind, respectful, shows leadership qualities, and I have to be physically attracted to you.

05:18:55.340 Valid.

05:19:01.560 She's like, ditto.

05:19:02.440 Yes, believer, and someone who brings 50% to the relationship, or just as much as I do, so we're on an equal level, so that we don't have to rely on each other too much.

05:19:17.180 Motivated, sense of humor, compatible.

05:19:21.580 You did say in your show notes here that you don't agree with the younger generation thinking men have to do, slash, pay for everything.

05:19:32.000 Right.

05:19:32.800 But was your answer, did you say men should pay for the first date, though, I think?

05:19:36.560 If they ask.

05:19:37.660 Oh, if they ask.

05:19:39.100 I don't know.

05:19:39.780 We always talk about this, but what the whole if they ask, but like women don't really ask guys out. 0.99

05:19:45.880 I did.

05:19:47.280 I have.

05:19:48.320 You did?

05:19:49.300 Yeah, I have.

05:19:49.800 But more often than not, you're asking guys out.

05:19:54.300 More often than not, obviously, men are asking them out, but I have.

05:19:57.280 I had where I did Dutch as well.

05:19:58.340 Yes, women do ask men out, but it's overwhelmingly men who ask women out.

05:20:03.700 So, I don't know.

05:20:05.360 The whole who asks thing ignores this fact.

05:20:08.380 I brought that up earlier.

05:20:09.660 Oh, you did?

05:20:10.120 On behalf of you.

05:20:11.620 W Madison.

05:20:12.120 Because you were gone.

05:20:13.420 W Madison in the chat.

05:20:15.400 Okay.

05:20:15.980 Yeah.

05:20:16.880 Anything further?

05:20:19.800 Just be on the same page with me and agree in a lot of ways.

05:20:27.940 Lizzie, does your dream man not live in Japan?

05:20:31.000 No.

05:20:31.600 Actually, he lives out here.

05:20:35.240 They have to be a man of God.

05:20:37.700 Wait, you have a dream man?

05:20:38.900 I, well, I wouldn't say dream, but yeah.

05:20:41.880 Wait, there's like.

05:20:42.580 Wait, there's a guy?

05:20:44.760 I think she's saying.

05:20:45.980 Liz?

05:20:46.500 No.

05:20:47.320 No.

05:20:47.960 Not like that.

05:20:48.920 Well, like, there is.

05:20:49.860 If there were a guy, he would be with us.

05:20:51.300 No, no, no.

05:20:51.660 He exists.

05:20:52.520 Like, we're very close, but.

05:20:53.880 You're very close?

05:20:54.840 Not like that.

05:20:55.540 With your dream guy?

05:20:56.500 Not like that.

05:20:57.040 Wait, why don't you just ask him out?

05:20:58.840 What?

05:20:59.520 Just ask him out.

05:21:00.420 That's a hefty question.

05:21:01.900 I'm good.

05:21:02.720 You should.

05:21:02.960 Wait, it's what?

05:21:03.900 So, that's like a hefty question.

05:21:05.260 I just got to have a relationship.

05:21:06.240 I'm not jumping in another one.

05:21:07.080 Yeah, but if he's your dream guy, you got to go for it.

05:21:08.800 Wait, how long have you known dream guy?

05:21:11.040 Is it me?

05:21:11.960 A country guy.

05:21:13.300 I'm so in love with you.

05:21:15.280 Okay, cool.

05:21:15.700 It's crazy, but I wear too much makeup, so.

05:21:20.780 Disqualified.

05:21:23.740 And I'm not Asian enough for you either. 0.99

05:21:26.040 You're not Asian enough. 1.00

05:21:27.860 There you go. 0.97

05:21:28.660 Love is sacrificial.

05:21:32.800 Yeah, so he has to be a man of God, for sure.

05:21:36.200 Ambition.

05:21:36.640 He doesn't, like, need to be, like, making X amount, but as long as he, like, goes to work and is a provider, a leader, has to have masculinity, and respectful, trustworthy, family man, for sure.

05:21:50.780 I have a really big family, too, so, yeah.

05:21:54.540 Were you friends when you were dating the other guy, the Japan guy?

05:21:59.260 No.

05:22:00.640 So, this is a new, you just met him, then?

05:22:03.540 No, I've known him, but when I'm in a relationship, I cut all guys out, so.

05:22:07.440 But how long have you known he's your dream guy?

05:22:08.780 You said you were really close to him.

05:22:10.200 Yeah, because I was before the relationship, and now I'm close to him again, because I'm not in the relationship.

05:22:15.140 How long have you known he was your dream guy, though?

05:22:18.840 Okay.

05:22:19.120 Is he your dream guy?

05:22:22.220 You kind of have to get to know somebody for real to know they're your dream guy.

05:22:24.920 I've known him for, like, a couple years.

05:22:27.660 Okay.

05:22:28.280 Yeah.

05:22:30.800 Hee hee. 1.00

05:22:31.680 Rock and roll.

05:22:33.300 Sarah, what you got for us?

05:22:36.880 Believer.

05:22:37.780 Yep.

05:22:38.240 Loves my boys.

05:22:39.760 Loves me.

05:22:40.800 Mm-hmm.

05:22:41.120 That's it.

05:22:41.680 You doing it?

05:22:44.620 You taking it off, or?

05:22:45.740 What?

05:22:46.400 Oh, I thought that was for later.

05:22:48.480 Did you snap?

05:22:49.320 I was going to take it off.

05:22:50.040 Did you swipe one?

05:22:51.580 What do you mean?

05:22:52.660 No, that's also.

05:22:53.660 Oh.

05:22:53.980 Can I?

05:22:54.520 No.

05:22:55.080 Why?

05:22:55.520 Those are for podcast makeup removers only.

05:22:59.220 If I gave you a buck fifty, would you let me have one?

05:23:02.520 You don't want that.

05:23:03.660 It's really bad for your skin.

05:23:05.120 Yeah, I know it really is.

05:23:08.300 Maddie, your dream guy.

05:23:12.580 Maddie, don't answer that.

05:23:13.740 Okay.

05:23:14.900 I was just going to describe my boyfriend anyway.

05:23:17.980 Ava, dream guy.

05:23:20.320 You want to know?

05:23:23.180 Well, I was going to describe my boyfriend, too.

05:23:25.520 Oh, okay.

05:23:26.360 Yeah, you can, if you want.

05:23:28.520 Okay.

05:23:30.600 Masculine.

05:23:31.120 Is he shredded?

05:23:32.420 Yeah, actually.

05:23:33.300 Is he ripped?

05:23:34.000 I don't, like, that's not a requirement for me, and believe it or not, I am more into personality

05:23:40.700 than anything else, but he is shredded.

05:23:44.920 Word.

05:23:45.920 Yeah.

05:23:47.140 That's not a requirement, though.

05:23:48.560 He's just hot.

05:23:50.440 Mm-hmm.

05:23:50.820 He just has it.

05:23:53.420 Yeah, baby, she's gone.

05:23:55.680 She's gone.

05:23:56.320 He's gone.

05:23:56.720 I'm your Venus.

05:23:58.200 Oh, you're done.

05:23:59.560 I'm your desire.

05:24:01.880 Nice.

05:24:02.640 Okay, so that was kind of sus.

05:24:04.340 That was super sus, my bad.

05:24:06.160 Nick put me up to it.

05:24:08.500 Nick sent me a private chat.

05:24:09.760 He's like, Brian, be sus for, like, yeah.

05:24:15.660 Is that it?

05:24:16.680 Oh, my type.

05:24:17.460 Yeah, what's your dream girl?

05:24:18.320 My dream girl.

05:24:18.760 Oh, my dream.

05:24:19.920 Servant.

05:24:20.760 Yes. 0.98

05:24:21.620 Slave. 0.93

05:24:21.980 Oh, my goodness.

05:24:23.040 She had to bow down to him.

05:24:24.420 Hold on, I'll pull it up.

05:24:25.340 Where do I, I got my notes here.

05:24:26.780 Scrub his floor.

05:24:28.300 Rub his feet.

05:24:28.920 Cleans my house the moment she looks at me.

05:24:31.240 Picture?

05:24:31.620 No makeup.

05:24:32.440 Wait, what?

05:24:32.920 He said, show us, you dream girl.

05:24:34.300 He instantly bows.

05:24:35.700 You should, like.

05:24:36.060 The bow?

05:24:36.560 Oh, we'll do that in just a second.

05:24:37.960 Can't help a bow when I'm in the room.

05:24:38.600 I should make it, like, some sort of, like, AI image describing.

05:24:43.140 You should.

05:24:43.520 I totally do.

05:24:43.780 Put in the description.

05:24:45.560 And then you can show it every time.

05:24:46.640 Didn't we do that?

05:24:47.400 Oh, my God.

05:24:47.880 It'll probably be a picture of you.

05:24:49.060 We did that.

05:24:50.700 Have you guys ever done the test thing where you can put in and find out the percentage

05:24:55.740 of, like, if you'll find your dream person, you go through all those questions,

05:25:00.000 and then it gives you a percentage?

05:25:02.120 We do that for the girls. 1.00

05:25:03.320 I think so.

05:25:04.840 Oh, the calculator?

05:25:05.960 Yeah.

05:25:07.000 Yeah, we can do that.

05:25:08.440 Or we've done it.

05:25:10.460 What am I?

05:25:11.040 My dream girl, let's see.

05:25:13.820 I'll date any height, but dream girl, I don't know.

05:25:19.180 Height, don't really care.

05:25:20.240 She can be short. 1.00

05:25:20.860 She can be tall. 0.67

05:25:22.020 Don't care.

05:25:23.000 Well, this is your dream, so you make her whatever you want. 0.97

05:25:25.900 Okay, so it's hard, though, because for kids, having kids, tall's better.

05:25:32.340 Like, if she's tall, that's better for, like, the kids.

05:25:35.500 Because you want to, like, have warrior children.

05:25:39.380 Desert Joe donated $69.69.

05:25:42.360 TTS is now $69, by the way.

05:25:44.120 Love that cleavage window below the cross. 0.57

05:25:47.200 Aw.

05:25:48.040 That what?

05:25:49.920 I think he's talking about you. 0.99

05:25:51.940 Oh, yeah, I got, I have boobs. 1.00

05:25:55.240 Like, they're just on my chest. 0.97

05:25:58.000 They're just there.

05:25:58.720 They're just there.

05:26:00.480 There's nothing she can do about it.

05:26:02.400 TTS is $69, Desert Joe.

05:26:04.240 Guys, get your TTSs in.

05:26:05.580 $69 TTS, appreciate it.

05:26:07.320 Wait, where were we?

05:26:09.180 Height?

05:26:09.800 Oh, height, yes.

05:26:11.880 Tall, better for the kids, but, like, personal preference in terms of what I think is most attractive.

05:26:19.480 Prefer, like, short.

05:26:22.280 Petite.

05:26:24.100 Old man marine donated $69.

05:26:27.980 Eyebrow rating from right to left, 5, 6.

05:26:31.520 Even though you're really hot, your brows are fake AF, 4, 5, 6, 6, 7, 8, 9 for Morgan.

05:26:40.800 Brian, you're 10.

05:26:42.260 Always a 10.

05:26:44.220 What's up, dude?

05:26:45.960 Thank you, bro.

05:26:47.460 Can I comment back on that?

05:26:50.220 About my brows?

05:26:51.100 Go ahead.

05:26:51.360 Not about your brows.

05:26:52.720 These brows are fake.

05:26:53.700 Because it was going in order, so I got the four.

05:26:57.080 And so I did today, I bought something for the first time.

05:27:00.420 I bought, like, the eyebrow stuff you put on, because mine are so blonde.

05:27:04.220 They, like, don't exist.

05:27:06.080 So I've tried a new thing.

05:27:07.900 Yeah.

05:27:09.320 Just saying.

05:27:09.920 You look good.

05:27:10.280 You look nice.

05:27:10.660 Thanks.

05:27:11.400 Dream girl.

05:27:12.440 Dream girl.

05:27:13.280 Any race is fine, but Asian or white. 0.87

05:27:16.600 Or Asian. 0.99

05:27:18.540 But I'll date a Latina. 1.00

05:27:20.140 Or a black girl. 1.00

05:27:21.500 Or a Native American. 0.98

05:27:22.640 Or an indigenous. 1.00

05:27:24.280 Or an alien.

05:27:25.140 Oh, aboriginal. 1.00

05:27:26.020 Excuse me.

05:27:26.460 Or an alien.

05:27:27.360 Did we ask him if you did?

05:27:29.080 About what?

05:27:30.840 If you would date an alien. 1.00

05:27:32.040 Fuck yeah. 1.00

05:27:32.860 Sign me up. 1.00

05:27:34.540 Sign me up.

05:27:34.840 Only if it had big.

05:27:36.840 Labia? 0.60

05:27:37.540 Mm-hmm. 0.68

05:27:38.280 Nick, hashtag big labia matter.

05:27:40.460 Yeah.

05:27:41.540 Dream girl. 0.99

05:27:42.680 My dream girl would have the biggest labia in the world. 1.00

05:27:48.240 Like, it's not that I just want a girl with an Audi. 0.89

05:27:51.520 Like, I want, like, a Guinness World Record holder. 1.00

05:27:55.640 Pussy. 1.00

05:27:56.320 Okay? 1.00

05:27:56.760 Can we know?

05:27:57.080 Is that so wrong?

05:27:58.160 Is that so wrong?

05:27:59.280 I, can we know, like, what you are, like.

05:28:00.580 She has to take steroids then, right? 1.00

05:28:01.880 What, what do you want to know?

05:28:02.660 She has to take steroids then, right? 1.00

05:28:03.840 What do you want to know?

05:28:04.440 What is your obsession?

05:28:05.320 To get an enlarged couturus.

05:28:06.280 About the large labia?

05:28:07.560 Yeah, like, what do you do with that?

05:28:08.920 Well, first I need to ask, are you, do you support my cause?

05:28:13.720 Of course.

05:28:14.240 Because I don't want to talk about this with somebody who isn't part of the BLM movement.

05:28:18.440 Support you through it all.

05:28:19.800 Okay, just checking.

05:28:20.920 Just checking.

05:28:21.440 Baby, labia matter. 1.00

05:28:22.220 You should make a song.

05:28:22.540 What is it?

05:28:24.380 I, I just want to, I don't know.

05:28:26.500 Like, I, I've been on the search for, I've been on the search. 0.96

05:28:30.980 Like, I will only date a girl with a big labia. 1.00

05:28:35.160 I, I did have a question that I thought of that I wanted to bring up. 0.73

05:28:38.500 She's, um, you know how women say BDE? 1.00

05:28:43.280 Big Dig Energy.

05:28:43.820 Yeah.

05:28:44.660 Do any of us have BLM?

05:28:47.160 I mean, BLE. 0.99

05:28:47.900 Big, big labia. 0.95

05:28:48.880 Big labia energy. 0.99

05:28:51.540 Yeah, like, would you know that her labia is big just by talking to her? 1.00

05:28:55.120 You were to, like, pick one of us out who gives big. 0.83

05:28:57.000 Like, oh yeah, you definitely.

05:28:58.740 Does any of us have BLE?

05:29:01.120 Wait, hold on. 0.93

05:29:01.820 Are you asking me, like, pick out who has a big labia? 0.98

05:29:04.900 Yeah. 0.76

05:29:05.200 Or who has, or who has big labia energy? 0.77

05:29:08.440 Oh, yeah.

05:29:08.980 Out of all of us, who has BLE? 0.98

05:29:10.960 No, no, please don't guess who actually has a big labia. 1.00

05:29:14.180 Okay, but he's, that's sick. 0.99

05:29:15.660 I think so.

05:29:16.300 Imagine he's wrong.

05:29:16.900 But women say BDE all the time. 1.00

05:29:18.960 I was just wondering, you know? 0.99

05:29:19.920 Or the SDE, small dick energy, too. 0.99

05:29:22.180 Yeah, exactly. 0.99

05:29:22.740 They shame, they shame the men.

05:29:24.100 It's not.

05:29:24.300 But usually BDE is bad to look small. 0.97

05:29:25.020 I don't think we should shame, we shouldn't shame women if they have a big labia. 1.00

05:29:29.180 Thank you, Brian. 0.85

05:29:30.260 Thank you.

05:29:30.620 Oh, I wasn't saying that.

05:29:33.000 No, but you shouldn't shame men.

05:29:34.560 I did look right at you.

05:29:35.780 Equally.

05:29:36.280 We shouldn't shame men.

05:29:37.060 Because you know I don't like when you shame women. 1.00

05:29:38.020 That's right.

05:29:38.300 We shouldn't shame men.

05:29:39.020 So honestly, when it comes to the big labia energy here at the table, and it doesn't mean 0.96

05:29:44.820 you have a big labia, you could be rocking like the outie, the inniest innie, and have 0.87

05:29:49.620 big labia energy. 0.98

05:29:50.900 So honestly, I think it's Lizzie and Jordan. 0.96

05:29:54.060 You two have big labia, like the most big labia energy.

05:29:57.040 I feel kind of proud. 0.91

05:29:58.620 Let's go.

05:29:59.580 I'm so proud.

05:30:00.160 Like, sorry to the rest of you.

05:30:05.000 Like, actually, I mean, it's a given Maddie has it, but like, she already knows.

05:30:09.800 Yeah.

05:30:10.400 Like, she knows.

05:30:11.840 As far as like, who has like a...

05:30:14.600 No, don't.

05:30:15.400 No, don't do that.

05:30:16.300 I have no idea.

05:30:17.620 There's no way to tell.

05:30:19.120 Oh my God.

05:30:20.180 I wish there was a way.

05:30:22.100 Unless she had the biggest camel toe. 1.00

05:30:26.380 I don't think camel toe is like... 1.00

05:30:28.640 You said that shit so straight, Ace. 0.99

05:30:31.980 Like, this is just a casual... 1.00

05:30:33.840 I am very serious.

05:30:36.500 Psychodonated $69. 0.99

05:30:38.780 Brian, you are a freak for supporting BLM. 0.98

05:30:42.020 Hashtag inies for the win. 0.99

05:30:43.540 Hashtag tiny ladies. 1.00

05:30:45.080 Matt, a PS Poe definitely has a wizard suit.

05:30:47.620 Ay! 1.00

05:30:48.040 Giving off mega big BLE.

05:30:49.860 Yo, yo, yo, yo. 0.97

05:30:50.540 First off, please don't be shaming ladies if they got a large labia, okay? 1.00

05:30:58.060 And if Pearl does have a wizard sleeve, there will be a guy who will love it.

05:31:03.280 And who will...

05:31:05.400 Whatever she has right now, her guy loves it.

05:31:07.920 That's all we need to know. 0.99

05:31:09.340 The fucking wizard sleeve has me rolling. 1.00

05:31:12.420 Erroneous! 1.00

05:31:13.160 Exactly.

05:31:14.920 Erroneous.

05:31:15.660 That's crazy.

05:31:16.440 Hashtag big lady matter. 1.00

05:31:18.360 Listen, wizard sleeve.

05:31:19.160 Wait, why do we give you BLE?

05:31:20.600 I need to...

05:31:21.280 Wait, yeah.

05:31:22.300 Can you like...

05:31:23.140 Elaborate?

05:31:23.640 Dig into that?

05:31:24.360 It's in the eyes.

05:31:26.200 It's in the eyes.

05:31:26.760 Dig into the...

05:31:27.760 It's in the eyes.

05:31:28.880 I don't get it.

05:31:30.980 Simple Acorn 5,513 donated $69.

05:31:36.460 Question for the panel.

05:31:38.160 If women don't need men, then would you, as women, support the infrastructure because 0.99

05:31:43.000 you're so valuable?

05:31:44.000 Well, we can get to that.

05:31:46.020 We can get to that, but I kind of need to talk a little more about big lady.

05:31:50.860 So, I am...

05:31:53.780 Look, I'm just saying, I'm looking for the Guinness World Record holder for largest lady.

05:32:01.320 He's like wanting to put her in like a competition.

05:32:03.140 Like it's not just having an Audi.

05:32:05.700 It's like having like world...

05:32:08.900 I'll accept like country level world record.

05:32:11.220 Like it doesn't have to be...

05:32:12.280 Some bloodhound ears?

05:32:15.220 Please don't be insensitive to women.

05:32:17.520 I don't think...

05:32:18.240 You're not.

05:32:18.600 That would probably be the Guinness World Record.

05:32:19.620 I don't think...

05:32:20.260 Please show some respect.

05:32:21.220 He really has to justify.

05:32:22.860 I think it's just like how women are like, I want a really big, you know what? 1.00

05:32:26.020 I want a guy with a huge pee-pee. 1.00

05:32:27.820 Yeah. 0.87

05:32:28.580 It's the same exact thing.

05:32:29.820 Please don't clip that.

05:32:30.560 It's not something I put much thought into.

05:32:31.800 Oh my God.

05:32:32.180 I'm going to on my own personal instrument.

05:32:34.120 They're just...

05:32:34.400 Brian says...

05:32:34.860 Look at the time stamp.

05:32:36.200 Literally. 0.90

05:32:36.440 Is Brian gay?

05:32:39.100 Question mark?

05:32:40.080 Exclamation mark?

05:32:40.580 Brian comes out as gay.

05:32:42.160 Question mark, question mark, question mark?

05:32:43.600 Oh my gosh.

05:32:44.500 Does anybody...

05:32:45.100 Okay, I'm just curious.

05:32:45.900 Does anybody here...

05:32:47.920 Low key, high key, whatever.

05:32:49.800 Act like have an outie.

05:32:52.000 I'm not...

05:32:52.460 You really want us to answer this?

05:32:54.300 On this show.

05:32:54.980 That's crazy.

05:32:55.140 No, and the reason I'm asking...

05:32:56.620 I don't respect for my...

05:32:57.520 No, the reason I'm asking...

05:32:58.580 I want to know if you've ever like been shamed for it by a guy.

05:33:02.920 I know a lot of people who were.

05:33:05.640 Wait, you know what?

05:33:06.840 I know people who are or were.

05:33:09.260 You mean they got it cut off?

05:33:11.580 No.

05:33:12.360 No.

05:33:12.840 I'm against that.

05:33:13.500 I'm like shamed for it.

05:33:13.940 Okay, if I'm being real...

05:33:14.720 I've been shamed for things, but I'm not going to specify what exactly, but I've been shamed

05:33:19.940 for, you know, the way parts of my body looks.

05:33:24.000 Do you have a tail?

05:33:25.160 Yeah, I do.

05:33:26.120 What?

05:33:26.560 Really long one.

05:33:27.580 I hide it in my shorts.

05:33:28.500 Okay, if I'm being like totally honest, I don't really exactly know what a labia is.

05:33:36.220 Can I...

05:33:37.180 Well, welcome to Brian's anatomy class.

05:33:39.500 The inner lips.

05:33:41.380 You can say it on my...

05:33:42.320 I'm feeling bold tonight.

05:33:43.100 So the inner lips that hang down, not the outer lips, but the inner lips that hang down.

05:33:48.020 There's a menorah and majorah.

05:33:49.620 No, you're shaming.

05:33:50.480 No, amazing.

05:33:52.820 Oh, that's shaming.

05:33:54.700 She's shamed.

05:33:54.860 No, I told her what it was and she said, ew, ew.

05:33:56.880 I freaked out, okay?

05:33:57.700 I didn't know what it was.

05:33:58.500 She did.

05:33:58.640 It's anatomy.

05:33:59.200 I freaked out as much as feet. 1.00

05:34:00.980 Don't call me out like shit. 1.00

05:34:02.280 As much as feet. 1.00

05:34:03.280 It's beautiful.

05:34:03.540 You massaginists.

05:34:04.940 You're shaming. 0.99

05:34:05.640 Liz, I'm revoking your big labia energy. 0.99

05:34:09.720 No, give me...

05:34:10.860 I'm revoked.

05:34:11.920 Revoked.

05:34:12.300 Give it to me.

05:34:13.800 She was disgusted when I explained it to her.

05:34:16.520 She was disgusted.

05:34:17.360 She's like calling me out and it's like not okay.

05:34:19.600 You told me I could say it loud on the mic and then...

05:34:22.100 Okay, I asked you to define it, not expose me.

05:34:26.200 She is done.

05:34:27.980 Oh my gosh.

05:34:28.600 Ava is done.

05:34:30.280 I'm just...

05:34:30.960 She is done.

05:34:32.480 I say that like all the time.

05:34:33.940 What else is there?

05:34:35.000 I'm still holding strong.

05:34:35.980 Look, I'm just saying I only date women like that. 0.99

05:34:39.300 That's insane.

05:34:39.620 Okay, would you say it's deceptive for women to wear pants? 1.00

05:34:43.200 What?

05:34:45.000 Pants?

05:34:45.440 Because you can't.

05:34:46.740 You can't.

05:34:47.460 You can't see what they got in their pants.

05:34:50.440 It is. 1.00

05:34:50.640 These women in their fucking pants. 1.00

05:34:53.880 It's the yoga pants. 1.00

05:34:56.180 The yoga pants will tell you though.

05:34:58.020 The yoga pants can tell you.

05:34:59.360 He doesn't want the woman that's modest. 1.00

05:35:00.680 He doesn't want them wearing no pants everywhere they go.

05:35:03.980 Well, then how can you tell?

05:35:07.000 How do you choose your mate?

05:35:08.680 If you have this big requirement for the Guinness World Record, what is that?

05:35:13.800 Floppers.

05:35:14.820 Floppers.

05:35:15.580 Floppers.

05:35:16.700 Sorry.

05:35:17.480 I'm off the...

05:35:18.180 I'm off the...

05:35:18.520 Don't.

05:35:19.260 Burkini? 0.96

05:35:19.780 Yeah, you guys.

05:35:21.160 You gotta make her put on the tight Burkini and you'll figure it out. 1.00

05:35:25.520 Yes.

05:35:26.280 I will defend Audis to the death, okay? 0.97

05:35:31.020 Don't you disrespect my big labia queens. 1.00

05:35:34.280 What? 0.98

05:35:34.480 Don't disrespect the big labia queens. 1.00

05:35:35.700 Okay, but I have to know, like, how did this fetish start? 0.94

05:35:38.660 This is sensitive for me.

05:35:40.280 Okay, but how did this fetish start?

05:35:41.860 Like, I need to know.

05:35:43.020 Fetish?

05:35:43.520 What is that?

05:35:43.840 What?

05:35:44.140 Do women... 1.00

05:35:44.700 Do women who like big dicks, does that mean they have a fetish? 1.00

05:35:48.780 No, okay, sorry. 1.00

05:35:49.700 A preference.

05:35:50.200 How did this preference...

05:35:51.300 Is it a fetish?

05:35:51.780 It is.

05:35:51.940 How did this preference start?

05:35:52.680 Okay, fine.

05:35:53.180 I got a fetish.

05:35:53.820 Okay.

05:35:54.320 I wonder if the BDEs attract the BLEs.

05:35:57.560 How did it start?

05:35:58.740 Yeah. 1.00

05:35:59.580 Shit. 1.00

05:35:59.900 It started in the third grade. 1.00

05:36:01.680 What the fuck? 1.00

05:36:02.800 Oh, my God. 1.00

05:36:03.740 Wait, what did he say?

05:36:05.760 Wait, what did he say?

05:36:07.120 His school teacher.

05:36:08.400 I think the Celsius is, like, finally hitting hours later.

05:36:11.500 Get your mind out of the gutter.

05:36:13.680 Brian's like, get your mind out of the gutter.

05:36:15.660 Get your...

05:36:16.180 Whoa.

05:36:18.580 Get your mind out of the gutter.

05:36:21.140 Pearl's loving this conversation.

05:36:23.800 She... 1.00

05:36:24.400 We're just...

05:36:26.140 Are we wrapping up soon?

05:36:27.700 No, we're...

05:36:28.660 We're going to wrap soon.

05:36:32.560 What time are we ending?

05:36:33.760 Soon.

05:36:34.340 Like, in 20 minutes?

05:36:37.080 Probably not.

05:36:37.740 Um, so, anyways...

05:36:41.460 Uh, what were we talking about?

05:36:43.080 Where it came from.

05:36:44.380 Oh, how did I...

05:36:44.800 Oh, yeah.

05:36:45.260 How did this originate?

05:36:45.840 Oh, what was your...

05:36:46.120 It was Liz's question.

05:36:47.360 Did you just call me Lizard?

05:36:48.560 Liz... 0.99

05:36:48.920 Yes. 0.88

05:36:50.760 Brian, like big cocks, donated $69. 0.82

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05:37:03.740 We appreciate your business.

05:37:06.000 You're close. 0.98

05:37:06.500 Brian, like big cocks. 0.97

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05:37:26.600 That's it.

05:37:27.420 Anyways.

05:37:28.560 Anyway.

05:37:29.240 Yeah.

05:37:29.540 Can you answer the question of how this obsession originated for you?

05:37:34.260 I think he's just advocating for all women, honestly.

05:37:38.380 But he's attracted to it.

05:37:40.480 I am a...

05:37:40.500 You're...

05:37:40.820 You're...

05:37:41.180 You love it.

05:37:42.320 So...

05:37:42.920 You're very curious about this.

05:37:44.400 I mean, you all...

05:37:45.380 Either he saw it in a video or he saw it on someone.

05:37:47.500 You have a non-profit organization.

05:37:48.460 That's true.

05:37:49.620 That is true.

05:37:50.620 That is true.

05:37:50.640 Proof in the pudding, and you just...

05:37:51.640 Proof in the pudding.

05:37:52.100 You just want the Guinness...

05:37:53.100 Proof in the labia.

05:37:53.800 Guinness World Record.

05:37:55.780 I want the Guinness World Record.

05:37:57.180 Okay, but... 0.96

05:37:58.060 The biggest labia. 0.85

05:37:59.460 Why? 0.84

05:38:00.060 And how did this start?

05:38:02.640 Just...

05:38:03.000 Look, a man likes what he likes.

05:38:04.260 That's fine.

05:38:04.900 A man likes what he likes.

05:38:05.820 You know how I do?

05:38:06.360 I'm not even, like, saying that you shouldn't like it.

05:38:08.640 I just...

05:38:08.880 I just want to know, like, why?

05:38:11.320 Or at least, like, how did you know?

05:38:13.340 Or when did this start?

05:38:15.000 I feel like it's...

05:38:16.060 I mean, I can articulate it, but it's, like...

05:38:18.320 Psychopathic Gaming donated $69.

05:38:21.800 Don't be upset at my various terms used to describe the cooter bacon, you freak.

05:38:26.920 I said what I said, and it's true.

05:38:29.180 He said what he said.

05:38:31.400 Cooter bacon.

05:38:32.280 Cooter bacon.

05:38:32.560 Brian likes cooter bacon.

05:38:34.160 That's a new one.

05:38:34.840 Haven't heard that.

05:38:36.640 That is a new one.

05:38:37.560 Tell you what.

05:38:37.900 I'll tell you after the show if you're really that...

05:38:39.740 What?

05:38:40.200 You're not going to say it?

05:38:42.260 After all this?

05:38:44.760 I mean...

05:38:46.160 You can just say it.

05:38:48.900 Did you just see it on a girl, and you thought, like, oh, I like that.

05:38:52.600 Yeah.

05:38:53.260 Okay, here's kind of...

05:38:54.740 I don't know if this is going to make logical sense, but, like, so a woman... 1.00

05:38:58.860 And don't get me wrong, like, any pussy's still good pussy, right? 1.00

05:39:02.740 Not to be confused. 0.99

05:39:03.920 Got it.

05:39:04.220 That's not true.

05:39:05.520 Oh.

05:39:06.040 Desmond Shaw.

05:39:06.880 I hate this conversation.

05:39:07.720 I hate it, too. 1.00

05:39:09.440 You don't think any pussy's still good pussy? 1.00

05:39:11.180 No. 1.00

05:39:11.720 Oh, Desmond also, I guess, likes big lady.

05:39:13.280 Okay.

05:39:13.900 So, hold on.

05:39:15.600 Oh.

05:39:15.900 GMD Jim donated $69.

05:39:19.860 Brixen, every week I say you can't find one more Delulu than the last, and then you find 0.98

05:39:24.860 Pearl.

05:39:25.820 You never cease to amaze.

05:39:27.680 She's in the bathroom.

05:39:28.520 Good to see you on the podcast again.

05:39:30.640 I will re-trigger it.

05:39:35.000 I will re-trigger it.

05:39:36.160 Thank you.

05:39:36.940 Thank you, Jim.

05:39:37.340 Good to see you, Jim.

05:39:38.700 Appreciate it.

05:39:39.260 Duren, thanks for the gifted 10.

05:39:40.600 Wait, so where were we?

05:39:42.460 You were...

05:39:42.900 Tell us why.

05:39:44.840 So, okay.

05:39:45.560 This is...

05:39:46.100 I don't know if this is going to make sense, but, like, if a girl has, like, full-on super

05:39:51.300 any, it's like, this is...

05:39:56.800 Oh, my God.

05:39:57.240 I'm going to get...

05:39:57.720 Am I going to get canceled for this? 1.00

05:39:59.480 It's like, you're not fucking a pussy. 1.00

05:40:03.720 What? 1.00

05:40:05.340 That sounds so bad.

05:40:07.440 Let's move on.

05:40:08.360 Wait, hold on.

05:40:08.880 It's like...

05:40:09.880 Oh, my gosh.

05:40:10.740 It's just, like, a hole. 0.87

05:40:13.320 A butthole? 1.00

05:40:13.880 There's no pussy. 1.00

05:40:16.640 There's no pussy. 1.00

05:40:17.880 Yet men still do that. 1.00

05:40:22.520 Men just need a hole. 1.00

05:40:24.900 No, but, like, so it's kind of a visual, it's a visual thing, which leads me into my next

05:40:32.060 thing, so there's this, like, okay, lips that grip.

05:40:36.060 Whoa.

05:40:36.920 Stop it.

05:40:38.140 Desmond knows what I'm talking about.

05:40:42.080 Now I'm looking at the...

05:40:43.120 And for some, I just, that, that visually is, like, because if she's got an innie, I 0.98

05:40:54.300 can't believe I'm fucking disclosing this. 1.00

05:40:56.540 If she's got an innie, the penis just disappears. 1.00

05:41:01.860 But if she's got an outie, there's still the pussy, the pussy's still there. 1.00

05:41:07.900 Brian, like a gorilla gripper. 1.00

05:41:10.900 Do you know what I'm talking about, Desmond?

05:41:12.400 Oh my gosh.

05:41:13.380 It's kind of, this sounds ridiculous, but it makes sense to me. 0.98

05:41:18.880 Chat, do you know what I fucking mean? 0.96

05:41:21.020 Chat, help. 0.98

05:41:21.580 Oh my gosh.

05:41:22.860 All right.

05:41:23.300 SOS.

05:41:24.320 Chat, help.

05:41:24.520 I give you credit for explaining.

05:41:26.960 I'm trying my best.

05:41:29.480 I don't understand.

05:41:30.400 Again.

05:41:31.220 I've died.

05:41:31.820 Maddie does not understand.

05:41:33.300 I don't understand what you mean by it just disappears.

05:41:35.640 It's fine.

05:41:35.820 I think we can move on now.

05:41:39.440 I think we can go.

05:41:40.540 Yeah.

05:41:41.100 Yeah.

05:41:41.500 Am I like being immature?

05:41:43.600 You are.

05:41:45.160 I think you're just curious.

05:41:46.560 I can be immature.

05:41:48.100 It's fine.

05:41:48.320 Psychopathic gaming donated $69.

05:41:51.620 You heard it here, chat and world.

05:41:53.980 Brian views Vagin as Simply Lips.

05:41:56.660 Time to cancel this misogynist.

05:41:59.480 Hashtag TLM.

05:42:01.040 What is Simply Lips?

05:42:02.580 They're called Lips.

05:42:04.480 Wait, what? 0.99

05:42:05.260 Well, vagina. 1.00

05:42:06.420 Time to Lips matters? 0.99

05:42:07.880 Like it.

05:42:08.420 Oh.

05:42:09.580 All right.

05:42:09.960 Okay.

05:42:10.060 Wait, what?

05:42:10.720 All right, moving on.

05:42:11.340 You hear that?

05:42:12.140 Yeah.

05:42:13.600 Moving on.

05:42:13.780 Well, we can still talk about it a little bit.

05:42:15.240 It's okay.

05:42:17.780 It's out there.

05:42:18.640 It's all out there.

05:42:19.520 You explain.

05:42:20.020 Oh, I actually have a question.

05:42:21.520 You want the drippage.

05:42:22.000 No, you don't.

05:42:22.780 No, I do.

05:42:23.560 I have a more uncomfortable question for him.

05:42:25.600 Okay. 0.94

05:42:25.940 What about clit size? 1.00

05:42:28.420 Oh. 0.73

05:42:31.160 I love her love.

05:42:33.600 I mean.

05:42:35.140 That's crazy.

05:42:35.820 This is no. 1.00

05:42:37.580 Small clit, big clit. 1.00

05:42:38.400 Don't really care. 0.99

05:42:40.040 I don't care. 1.00

05:42:40.420 Giant clit. 1.00

05:42:41.200 Sure. 1.00

05:42:41.520 What if she has a giant clit? 1.00

05:42:43.320 It's probably easier to make her come. 1.00

05:42:44.700 Somebody take her mic away. 1.00

05:42:45.980 He's terrible.

05:42:49.860 I don't. 0.85

05:42:50.940 Giant. 0.93

05:42:51.920 It doesn't do anything for me in the same way that like big labia does. 0.96

05:42:55.280 Okay. 0.85

05:42:55.740 Don't care. 1.00

05:42:56.600 She could have a giant clit. 1.00

05:42:58.180 She could have a small clit. 1.00

05:42:59.660 Don't care. 1.00

05:43:00.480 It doesn't.

05:43:01.200 All right.

05:43:02.500 Anyway.

05:43:02.940 Is this too sensitive for your virgin ears, Jordan?

05:43:07.520 I feel like I'm singing.

05:43:09.060 I think half the panel here is just ready to move on.

05:43:14.040 This is where we draw the line as labia.

05:43:16.120 I think this is hilarious.

05:43:17.260 Is this where we draw the line as labia?

05:43:18.900 It's very BLE of me to want to move on.

05:43:22.100 You guys asked.

05:43:25.200 Liz, you're the one who was asking.

05:43:26.780 No, I know.

05:43:27.480 And I'm regretting every moment.

05:43:29.380 Big Liz with energy.

05:43:32.000 I literally, I miss, I truly miss the person I used to be before this conversation.

05:43:36.900 Aw.

05:43:37.480 You get it.

05:43:39.240 It's like lipstick rip.

05:43:41.180 It's like.

05:43:42.400 We already heard.

05:43:43.680 You did a very good, you did very good explaining, by the way.

05:43:46.280 Yeah, you explained it in a very minute.

05:43:48.040 We get it.

05:43:48.880 We get it.

05:43:49.360 I feel like I need to really hammer this.

05:43:50.960 You gave a really man, manly explanation.

05:43:54.480 I feel like you really don't.

05:43:55.260 You guys don't understand.

05:43:56.040 No, we get it.

05:43:56.860 You don't. 1.00

05:43:57.060 Let's talk more about pussy for 15 minutes. 1.00

05:43:58.880 No, we get it. 1.00

05:43:59.640 We're the ones that have pussy. 1.00

05:44:00.960 Even just saying that word, like, gives me like the heebie-jeebies. 1.00

05:44:05.820 Gives you the ick.

05:44:06.340 You're like.

05:44:07.060 All right.

05:44:08.680 Psychopathic gaming donated $1.

05:44:11.860 Brian just wants to spread the beef sea.

05:44:14.480 I wish I could.

05:44:17.280 I don't want to see that.

05:44:18.780 Oh, my God.

05:44:20.420 Can we leave now?

05:44:22.760 I feel like I've been laughing for so long.

05:44:24.580 Yeah, what's wrong with that?

05:44:25.980 All right.

05:44:26.300 All right.

05:44:27.000 Gosh.

05:44:28.100 Come on.

05:44:28.860 Okay, let's get into.

05:44:29.980 We got to finish all the show notes here.

05:44:31.940 So let me see where we're at here.

05:44:34.080 Oh, really quick.

05:44:35.060 We'll do the bow video.

05:44:36.340 And I'll just.

05:44:37.060 I'll wrap up on what I want.

05:44:38.280 That's not labeled it.

05:44:41.520 Let's see.

05:44:42.040 This is.

05:44:43.020 Pearl's going to love this.

05:44:44.480 Play for Pearl.

05:44:46.460 This is dedicated to Pearl.

05:44:48.300 Boom.

05:44:49.240 Huge bow.

05:44:49.920 Did you see that, Pearl?

05:44:50.900 Did you like that?

05:44:52.300 Into the mic.

05:44:53.880 Pearl, tell us what you think.

05:44:55.080 Pearl, tell us what you think.

05:44:56.440 Pearl.

05:44:57.100 Pearl.

05:44:58.160 Pearl.

05:44:58.380 About the bow?

05:44:59.380 Yeah, do you like it?

05:44:59.740 It seems more cultural.

05:45:01.820 I'm a white guy.

05:45:04.340 Oh, so you want to be with.

05:45:06.120 That's just how you say hello when you're Asian.

05:45:09.080 You're like you greet someone with a bow.

05:45:10.760 Yeah, but like I would expect this from a white girl. 1.00

05:45:14.780 You know what I mean?

05:45:15.720 Oh, okay.

05:45:16.340 Yeah.

05:45:17.680 Do whatever you want.

05:45:18.860 I mean, her eyes are a little crazy, but I can get.

05:45:20.600 I can.

05:45:20.920 I dig it.

05:45:23.140 Show this about one more time.

05:45:24.460 You should definitely be with an Asian woman then. 1.00

05:45:26.260 Boom. 0.76

05:45:27.820 No, white girl can bow too. 1.00

05:45:30.240 So this is what I want in a relationship.

05:45:32.760 Pearl, do you give me your blessing, Pearl?

05:45:36.840 You give me the bow blessing?

05:45:38.680 I mean, I'm not.

05:45:39.660 I wouldn't bow to someone if it wasn't cultural.

05:45:44.140 But I mean, I'm Asian.

05:45:45.220 So yeah, like when I greet my grandparents, I do that.

05:45:48.100 Would I do it to you?

05:45:49.360 No.

05:45:49.940 To your man.

05:45:50.760 If you were dating a white guy.

05:45:52.500 And he wanted me to bow like that. 0.99

05:45:53.420 Not just any white guy, a wasp. 1.00

05:45:56.520 No, I wouldn't do that shit. 1.00

05:45:57.680 White Anglo-Saxon Protestant. 1.00

05:45:59.920 That's really, really weird.

05:46:01.580 That's very specific.

05:46:03.300 From Martha's Vineyard.

05:46:05.640 No, I wouldn't do that.

05:46:06.400 A white guy who grew up in Martha's Vineyard.

05:46:08.920 Would you give him a bow?

05:46:09.860 Martha's Vineyard?

05:46:11.040 Martha's.

05:46:11.580 Excuse me.

05:46:12.860 No, I wouldn't.

05:46:14.840 You wouldn't?

05:46:15.740 No.

05:46:16.000 Even if he was your dream man?

05:46:17.460 He wouldn't be my dream man.

05:46:18.620 Even if he was your dream man?

05:46:19.920 He's not my dream man.

05:46:20.740 He's your dream man.

05:46:21.480 No, he's not.

05:46:22.080 I just said he is.

05:46:23.180 Deal with it, Pearl.

05:46:23.680 I just said he's not.

05:46:24.760 Deal with it, Pearl.

05:46:25.440 I just said he's your dream man.

05:46:26.920 Deal with it, Pearl.

05:46:28.380 He's not.

05:46:29.180 But he is.

05:46:30.300 But he wants you to bow.

05:46:32.500 Then no.

05:46:33.300 So he's not your dream man just because he wants you to bow?

05:46:35.860 And everything that it implies.

05:46:38.300 Yes.

05:46:38.940 What about your man now that you have, if he wanted you to bow?

05:46:41.780 Do you want a guy to propose?

05:46:42.720 He's not going to ask me to bow.

05:46:43.760 Do you want to get married?

05:46:44.720 Yes.

05:46:45.040 Do you want to have kids?

05:46:45.720 Yes.

05:46:46.240 Do you want a guy to propose to you? 0.92

05:46:47.720 Yeah.

05:46:48.080 Do you want a guy to buy you a ring?

05:46:50.080 Yes.

05:46:50.400 How much should he spend on the ring?

05:46:52.260 I don't know.

05:46:52.880 You'd be fine if he paid $10 on a wedding ring?

05:46:56.040 I wouldn't be fine with $10, but I don't know how much I would want him to spend.

05:46:59.900 $25.

05:47:00.560 More than $100?

05:47:01.900 More than $1,000?

05:47:03.000 What is the point of this?

05:47:04.260 Why does this matter?

05:47:05.240 Answer the question.

05:47:05.800 I think that he can spend the amount of money that he wants to spend on a wedding ring because

05:47:15.940 it also reflects him.

05:47:18.160 So whatever he thinks, I want to be with someone financially responsible.

05:47:23.300 I want to be someone who's also generous.

05:47:25.480 So the person who is both of those things can spend however much money they want to spend

05:47:29.760 on it.

05:47:30.000 And you would want a guy to get down on one knee to propose to you? 1.00

05:47:36.160 I mean, I think that's, yeah, probably.

05:47:39.700 Yeah, it's like tradition.

05:47:40.880 Traditional.

05:47:41.520 Yeah.

05:47:41.700 So you want a guy to kneel, look up at you, kneel, but you won't bow for that man?

05:47:47.340 Those two things are not related at all.

05:47:49.100 Totally related.

05:47:50.400 Totally related.

05:47:51.040 Just because you say something doesn't make it true.

05:47:52.600 No, but they are very similar to that.

05:47:54.220 Everything I say makes it true.

05:47:57.180 You know what?

05:47:57.760 That checks out with your whole psyche and the whole podcast and everything.

05:48:01.240 Wait, isn't that your position?

05:48:02.740 I think I'm a 10, therefore I am.

05:48:06.800 Um, no, that is not my position.

05:48:08.820 That is your position.

05:48:09.980 I'm a, I think I'm a 10.

05:48:11.200 I'm a 10.

05:48:11.400 Josh donated $69.

05:48:13.680 Hey, Pearl, you look bored.

05:48:14.940 I am bored.

05:48:15.320 Remember when you said you were a 10?

05:48:17.200 I do remember that.

05:48:17.880 Earlier I rated you a 5 and then down to a 2.

05:48:20.920 Wow.

05:48:21.200 All you see is dollar signs and your Delulu dissonance.

05:48:24.940 Take a bow, Pearl.

05:48:25.920 Thank you, Josh.

05:48:26.340 Womp womp boo hoo. 1.00

05:48:27.520 Womp womp. 0.99

05:48:27.980 You're the one who's spending money to talk to me.

05:48:30.760 Do you want to hit a bow, though?

05:48:33.740 Do you want to do a bow right now?

05:48:35.900 That would be a really good way.

05:48:38.300 We're not going to end the show, but to end the show.

05:48:40.580 Definitely never going to do that.

05:48:42.280 You wouldn't do a bow?

05:48:43.360 No.

05:48:43.680 Unless my grandparents were here, I would do a bow for them.

05:48:48.860 Could I ask a question to Pearl?

05:48:50.600 Can I adopt you?

05:48:52.600 So that I could be like a parent figure.

05:48:55.340 Are you going to financially support me with this adoption?

05:48:58.480 No, you're a grown adult.

05:48:58.900 Oh, then no.

05:48:59.660 I could still adopt you.

05:49:00.520 Then no.

05:49:01.440 Okay.

05:49:01.940 That was weird.

05:49:03.120 That was weird.

05:49:03.800 On my part, honestly, that was a bit weird.

05:49:05.520 Definitely.

05:49:06.100 I'm self-aware.

05:49:06.920 Go ahead.

05:49:07.280 I was just going to ask, you know how you keep saying about how people are donating to

05:49:11.240 him?

05:49:11.880 Uh-huh.

05:49:12.220 Like, do people pay for your music?

05:49:15.300 Yeah.

05:49:16.180 And they feel entertained and they pay for the music because they want to because they're

05:49:19.660 entertained by it, right?

05:49:20.960 I feel like that's the same thing as people donating to Brian.

05:49:24.880 No.

05:49:25.360 I mean, this is, I mean, I totally get the business model.

05:49:27.620 I totally get why it's profitable and I respect it, even though I don't think it's doing like

05:49:32.000 that much good in the world, like legacy wise, like you could do whatever you want.

05:49:35.520 Wait, what?

05:49:36.180 However.

05:49:36.740 Is that shots fired?

05:49:37.720 Yeah.

05:49:38.040 Yeah, definitely.

05:49:39.180 But I think that.

05:49:40.700 Wait, what are you doing?

05:49:41.740 Huh?

05:49:41.960 What are you doing?

05:49:43.300 What do you mean?

05:49:43.700 What am I doing?

05:49:44.860 You said this is not doing.

05:49:46.780 I personally just wouldn't do this kind of work, like the work that you're doing, like

05:49:50.740 creating more of a gender divide between men and women.

05:49:53.180 Well, I personally wouldn't be a 32 year old pursuing a music career, but I mean.

05:49:57.420 Okay.

05:49:57.820 Well.

05:49:58.060 That's the two.

05:49:58.900 Yeah.

05:49:59.260 That's why we're different.

05:50:01.160 Yeah.

05:50:01.500 So.

05:50:01.740 How's that going, by the way?

05:50:02.620 Oh, I think it's just like the insults, like that part of it that I'm like, you're literally

05:50:06.580 paying money to insult someone, not, not to contribute to the business.

05:50:10.140 That's totally, I get that.

05:50:12.100 Yeah.

05:50:12.920 But to tell someone I rated you as a five and now you're down to two, it's like that.

05:50:16.780 Whoa, wait, hold on.

05:50:17.860 You are contributing to the gender divide. 0.94

05:50:20.040 You make TikToks directed towards women.

05:50:22.680 And, oh, queen, you should, if a guy doesn't want to pay for the first date, then, oh,

05:50:29.160 didn't know that you just wanted to be friends.

05:50:31.700 That you're doing the same thing.

05:50:33.580 I didn't know that it was going to be this like crazy thing that created this gender divide. 1.00

05:50:38.080 I could have easily capitalized on that and created more and more TikToks into the same

05:50:42.340 vein.

05:50:42.680 But I was like, that's actually not within my value system to continue doing that.

05:50:46.600 I didn't know that it was going to be this big thing and I decided to not go down that

05:50:52.180 lane, actually, because I don't want to be a part of it.

05:50:54.500 You're still doing relationship TikToks.

05:50:56.400 Yeah, but it's not on purpose to be controversial for profit.

05:50:59.640 I don't know TikTok too well, but can you take a video down?

05:51:02.200 Huh?

05:51:02.760 Yeah, you can take a video down.

05:51:03.780 Well, if you disagree with it after the fact now, why don't you take it down?

05:51:06.640 I don't disagree with it, but people are getting in like conversations in it for sure.

05:51:12.040 Also, a little bit on your point, there's been news articles that have posted her video,

05:51:16.560 so even if she did delete it, there's still these articles out there that she can't delete.

05:51:21.120 Well, but they're only going to last so long.

05:51:22.520 And I've also created follow-up videos and stuff, and if people really want to get into

05:51:27.000 a deep dive of what I actually think, they'll know, but no one really does.

05:51:30.380 They just see the initial video, and that's not really my...

05:51:33.220 I'm not going to police what people do on my thing.

05:51:35.420 That's what TikTok is too anyways.

05:51:36.960 It's just people having that same mindset, and even if they watch a video, it's not going

05:51:40.840 to change their mindset, even if they agree or disagree with it.

05:51:43.180 Yeah, but I'm not going to capitalize on it just for profit, you know what I'm saying,

05:51:47.880 is my perspective.

05:51:48.960 But have you made money off TikTok, if you don't mind me asking?

05:51:51.440 Yes, I have.

05:51:52.240 Okay.

05:51:54.020 So, wait, what?

05:51:55.540 She said she doesn't profit off of the ideas or the things that she's posted, but she has

05:52:00.300 made money off of TikTok.

05:52:01.320 No, I'm not going to continue to create things that I don't actually believe in or that I

05:52:06.540 feel contribute to the gender divide.

05:52:08.580 Oh, okay.

05:52:09.080 Yeah.

05:52:09.300 Do you think that video contributed to the gender divide?

05:52:11.460 I am uniting the genders.

05:52:12.540 Oh?

05:52:13.140 Do you think that that video contributed to the gender divide?

05:52:15.680 I am the number one contributor to the genders coming together and liking each other more. 1.00

05:52:23.240 That's why he thinks we should all be drafted and...

05:52:25.640 Oh, my God.

05:52:25.940 Yeah.

05:52:26.220 I believe in equality.

05:52:28.440 You're fine.

05:52:28.780 I have testimonials from people who watch the show.

05:52:31.960 So, my relationship with my girlfriend has gotten way...

05:52:37.120 I dumped her. 0.92

05:52:39.020 GMD Jim donated $69.

05:52:42.120 Hey, Delulu, kneeling during a proposal is not an Asian tradition.

05:52:46.440 It is a medieval European tradition.

05:52:49.040 Don't appropriate European culture. 0.99

05:52:51.340 Hmm.

05:52:51.740 Thank you, Jim.

05:52:53.360 Appreciate it.

05:52:54.080 Oh, wait.

05:52:54.580 There's something from Jim we had to go back to.

05:52:58.480 Oh, I was going to replay this one.

05:53:00.320 Sorry.

05:53:01.340 Good.

05:53:01.580 Good.

05:53:02.240 Thank you, Jim.

05:53:03.120 This is...

05:53:03.540 GMD Jim donated $69.

05:53:06.900 Brickson, every week I say you can't find one more Delulu than the last and then you find 1.00

05:53:11.920 Pearl.

05:53:12.700 You never cease to amaze.

05:53:15.080 Hey, good to see you on the podcast again.

05:53:17.740 Cool.

05:53:19.600 Do you have a response?

05:53:21.720 Oh, no.

05:53:22.060 It just makes me happy that people on this show don't like me.

05:53:25.180 They like you.

05:53:26.180 Pearl, don't. 0.98

05:53:26.700 No, they don't.

05:53:28.060 Pearl.

05:53:28.360 No, I like that.

05:53:29.600 That they dislike you?

05:53:30.660 Yes.

05:53:31.100 I like when people who I misalign with dislike me.

05:53:33.740 Do you think I dislike you?

05:53:35.340 I don't know.

05:53:36.320 I think we disagree.

05:53:37.540 I don't know if you dislike me or not.

05:53:39.140 I don't tend to dislike...

05:53:41.280 Even if I disagree with people on panel, I very rarely dislike people.

05:53:45.020 Unless they're being rude or obnoxious.

05:53:46.660 Yeah, I think disagree is very different from dislike.

05:53:49.380 Yeah.

05:53:49.900 No matter what the comments that they say, you never know if they...

05:53:53.520 They don't know you, so they don't actually dislike you.

05:53:55.440 I think they just disagree and they want to comment about it.

05:53:58.420 I'm just saying.

05:53:59.440 Wait, speaking of rude and disliking, you had this crazy person on your podcast a week or

05:54:05.980 two ago.

05:54:06.940 Desiree?

05:54:07.720 Okay.

05:54:08.040 Oh, wow.

05:54:08.640 The Rosetta Stone donated $69.

05:54:14.180 Plane crashes in a swamp and everyone on plane dies except you.

05:54:18.280 Rather run across random man or alligator in the swamp.

05:54:21.860 BTW still have PTSD from seeing ex without makeup.

05:54:26.360 Red dress thumbs up.

05:54:28.040 You should see a therapist about the PTSD man.

05:54:30.280 I had to do about six months after my girlfriend took a makeup wipe to her face.

05:54:39.840 We don't talk about that.

05:54:43.480 Yikes.

05:54:45.360 Desmond gets my humor.

05:54:48.000 Wait, so...

05:54:49.320 Look, what I...

05:54:50.820 Wait, what?

05:54:51.620 Oh, no.

05:54:54.440 Oh, this is an alligator.

05:54:55.800 Nobody said anything.

05:54:57.080 Nobody said anything at all.

05:54:58.740 Would you rather come across a random man?

05:55:01.580 He heard my thought.

05:55:02.980 Yeah, yeah.

05:55:03.900 You heard my thought.

05:55:04.460 Or alligator in the swamp.

05:55:06.020 Random man?

05:55:06.620 A random man.

05:55:07.220 He heard my thought.

05:55:08.840 Random man or alligator in the swamp?

05:55:10.700 Huh?

05:55:11.220 Sorry?

05:55:12.160 What was...

05:55:12.560 I'm so sorry.

05:55:13.360 Random man or alligator in the swamp?

05:55:15.140 Oh, random man.

05:55:16.700 Man.

05:55:17.360 Man.

05:55:19.440 I want to say man.

05:55:21.620 But I also want to say alligator.

05:55:23.940 What, are you going to fight it?

05:55:25.040 What?

05:55:25.540 Okay, the only reason is because I saw a TikTok of, like, this guy asking, like, a bunch of

05:55:30.980 dads if they would rather their daughter run into an alligator or a bear or a man.

05:55:36.820 And they all said bear.

05:55:38.680 And I was like, okay, well, they're dads.

05:55:40.540 Mentally challenged.

05:55:41.260 And they're, like, thinking of, like, the safety of their daughter, right, first initially.

05:55:45.660 So I'm like, okay, there has to be a reason for that.

05:55:47.540 Because in my opinion, guys, like, think ahead for those kind of decisions.

05:55:50.320 Uh-huh.

05:55:51.220 But...

05:55:51.740 What would your dad say?

05:55:55.020 Probably...

05:55:55.700 Probably alligator, depending...

05:55:59.020 My dad would definitely say man.

05:56:00.380 I don't know.

05:56:01.460 But I don't know.

05:56:02.080 I'm only saying that because of that video.

05:56:04.000 Because it was, like, literally a handful of dads.

05:56:06.080 So, Sarah, alligator or man?

05:56:08.200 Hands down alligator.

05:56:09.540 Because food.

05:56:11.600 What? 1.00

05:56:12.200 Oh, are you going to kill it and eat it? 1.00

05:56:13.620 You're going to eat the alligator? 1.00

05:56:14.600 Well, you just crashed on a plane and everybody else passed away.

05:56:18.360 She is addressing...

05:56:19.580 That's true.

05:56:20.040 That is true.

05:56:20.480 You need food.

05:56:21.940 Couldn't you...

05:56:23.060 Cannibal?

05:56:24.540 No.

05:56:25.400 Oh, so...

05:56:26.780 I don't know.

05:56:27.320 I just don't...

05:56:27.620 But they all passed away.

05:56:29.460 That's what I'm saying.

05:56:30.320 That's a weird question.

05:56:31.400 That made no sense.

05:56:31.980 Okay, how about this?

05:56:32.780 Walking Roscoe underscore on underscore YouTube donated $77.77.

05:56:41.640 Lady in red, dancing with me, cheek to cheek.

05:56:45.080 You have an infectious laugh, fanning your face with your hand.

05:56:49.720 Makes you to a seven in my eyes.

05:56:52.400 Check the bowling clip on you to see if I make you smile.

05:56:56.580 Stop it.

05:56:58.100 Get some help.

05:57:01.040 Walking Roscoe.

05:57:03.060 This is a simp-free zone.

05:57:07.540 This is a simp-free zone here.

05:57:09.600 I was giving you laughs for Freddie right now.

05:57:10.760 This is so good.

05:57:12.200 She's getting like...

05:57:13.480 Just imagine you actually create a couple through this podcast.

05:57:17.520 Well, you know what's funny, Liz?

05:57:19.600 A lot...

05:57:20.180 I don't reveal it because some people...

05:57:21.920 I respect their privacy, but a lot of girls who've come on the show, and we've had some 1.00

05:57:26.640 guys come on the show, met people through the show.

05:57:31.260 Really?

05:57:31.900 Like, there's a guy who's been on the show who's now dating a girl who's been on the

05:57:37.080 show.

05:57:37.580 I think I know who you're talking about.

05:57:38.800 Because...

05:57:39.320 Don't say it.

05:57:41.480 Don't say it.

05:57:41.800 I'm not.

05:57:42.000 I'm not.

05:57:42.640 Do you?

05:57:43.240 I want to know.

05:57:43.820 We'll talk after.

05:57:44.360 Okay.

05:57:44.580 We can talk after.

05:57:45.220 But a lot of...

05:57:46.720 And a lot of girls will be like in relationships, and they'll be like, yeah, some guy DM'd me 1.00

05:57:51.480 who saw me on the show.

05:57:53.940 Now I'm dating them.

05:57:54.780 I know you said no simps, but I just wanted to say thank you for the sweet comment.

05:58:00.180 It's beautiful.

05:58:00.960 It was beautiful.

05:58:01.620 It was beautiful.

05:58:02.060 Thank you, Walking Roscoe.

05:58:03.400 I appreciate it.

05:58:04.080 Oh, you have a crush on me?

05:58:04.940 Yeah.

05:58:05.500 Thanks.

05:58:06.120 Oh.

05:58:07.440 Good times.

05:58:08.720 Oh, what I want really quick.

05:58:10.040 Also, look, I just want to bring...

05:58:13.600 I just want a girl who can be a slave that I can just bring to Hawaii. 1.00

05:58:20.740 I just want to pay for a trip to Hawaii.

05:58:22.140 Josh donated 69 dollars.

05:58:22.760 Can't a guy do that?

05:58:24.160 If that made you happy, you're going to be forking ecstatic then, girl.

05:58:28.960 Selling your demo tape alone in your 30s is only going to bring you sadness, so hopefully

05:58:33.700 this balanced the scales.

05:58:35.900 Happy to help.

05:58:37.220 Thank you, Josh K.

05:58:38.280 Thank you, Josh K.

05:58:39.040 Thank you, bro.

05:58:39.720 I appreciate it.

05:58:40.920 There you go.

05:58:41.640 Look, you're getting some love from Pearl there.

05:58:43.240 Whoa, she does the other kind of heart. 1.00

05:58:45.400 Only Gen X or whatever does that. 0.86

05:58:48.880 Yes.

05:58:49.360 She did the... 0.98

05:58:51.080 That one.

05:58:52.420 Do you know how to do it?

05:58:53.100 Oh, I don't know.

05:58:53.480 No.

05:58:54.280 Your fingers were mangled.

05:58:54.820 Different generations do the different things.

05:58:57.320 Yeah, we don't know how to do that.

05:59:00.140 Oh, my God.

05:59:01.040 Are you okay?

05:59:02.240 She said my fingers looked mangled.

05:59:04.300 Well, she tried to do it, but she was like...

05:59:06.220 Oh, okay.

05:59:06.580 And I was like, what?

05:59:08.420 No, she was close.

05:59:10.060 Come on.

05:59:11.920 I can't do it.

05:59:12.760 I'm just teasing.

05:59:13.440 So, all I'm trying to say is, all I'm trying to say as far as what I want, I just want

05:59:20.100 a girl who I can take on a trip with me the whole night.

05:59:24.700 That's it.

05:59:25.200 That's all I want.

05:59:26.360 It's not too much time.

05:59:27.440 That's all I want.

05:59:29.320 With no makeup.

05:59:30.400 Who knows how to churn butter.

05:59:31.720 Very important.

05:59:32.560 Okay.

05:59:33.020 Oh, my God.

05:59:33.720 I don't know.

05:59:34.100 Where did that come from?

05:59:36.380 She, Pearl, suggested it.

05:59:38.820 I'm looking for a woman who knows how to quilt and churn butter. 1.00

05:59:42.760 Okay.

05:59:43.480 And he's sliding my...

05:59:44.900 I guess my DMs are open if you know how to churn, but they wouldn't have a phone, 0.99

05:59:47.860 so I'm fucked. 0.99

05:59:49.100 How am I going to meet? 1.00

05:59:50.500 I'm going to have to roll up to the fucking farm. 1.00

05:59:52.160 You are. 1.00

05:59:53.160 The Amish farm.

05:59:54.360 Pearl, will you come with me to an Amish farm?

05:59:56.020 What are you doing out here?

05:59:57.520 Will you be my wing woman?

05:59:58.760 I'll be your wing woman, Brian, anytime.

06:00:00.940 All right.

06:00:01.360 Thanks, Pearl. 0.97

06:00:01.920 She's a killer wing woman. 1.00

06:00:04.080 All right. 0.99

06:00:04.780 Okay.

06:00:05.200 Let's get through all the notes here so we can hopefully wrap this up soon.

06:00:07.880 Let's see.

06:00:08.420 We have...

06:00:09.400 Who do we have?

06:00:11.560 We have...

06:00:14.440 Jordan's friend.

06:00:15.960 Oh, my God.

06:00:17.280 Stacy.

06:00:18.240 I just was...

06:00:19.280 It was a little banter.

06:00:20.160 Okay.

06:00:21.000 You said, don't agree with the current feminism. 1.00

06:00:22.680 Making females out to be weak, and men are the enemy. 0.76

06:00:25.060 I'm a strong woman myself.

06:00:26.880 Do you want to expand a bit on the feminism, making females out to be weak, and men are 1.00

06:00:31.140 the enemy?

06:00:32.580 Well, I've heard on a lot of the podcasts before that it's the idea going along with

06:00:39.260 how men need to pay for everything, or the men...

06:00:42.620 I don't mean to pick on you, Pearl.

06:00:44.200 I really don't.

06:00:46.020 It's okay.

06:00:46.700 You can pick on me.

06:00:47.360 Yeah, you can.

06:00:48.600 You're your own person.

06:00:49.580 You can feel any way that you want.

06:00:51.000 Yes, I can.

06:00:51.440 But the whole of men should be honored to be with me, and the whole thing, I don't

06:00:55.680 feel that that does any kind of a benefit for you, for women who think that way.

06:01:01.860 Oh, wow.

06:01:03.640 Okay.

06:01:04.800 I'm so sorry.

06:01:05.800 It's for women who are empowered. 0.72

06:01:08.120 If they can pay, they can hold everything on their own.

06:01:10.880 And I don't feel that I need a man to do any of that, and that's where I'm going with that.

06:01:16.500 So, I don't know if I answered your question, because he's more concerned with the baby.

06:01:22.080 Wow.

06:01:23.160 Wow.

06:01:24.200 Do you guys all agree with that?

06:01:27.140 Any disagreements?

06:01:29.860 Pearl?

06:01:30.160 I honestly don't disagree with all of it.

06:01:35.140 Like, I mean, I don't think I'll ever be in a situation where I'm not making money.

06:01:39.680 Like, I'm not adding value into the world and being compensated financially.

06:01:44.920 And it's, like, I think super important for women to build their own wealth, to understand, 1.00

06:01:49.520 like, to have financial literacy, to understand how to invest, to, like, have control over their

06:01:55.160 finances, and, yeah, to, like, feel the power of doing that.

06:02:00.080 I really think that that's important for women to do and also available for us to do. 0.99

06:02:04.480 And at the same time, I think that at least, you know, like, when I'm with men, I like a man

06:02:10.980 who's generous, and I like a man who's ambitious and wants to treat his woman as well.

06:02:15.280 It doesn't mean that I never do anything for him either.

06:02:17.440 I definitely want to spoil my man just like he spoils me.

06:02:20.840 Um, but, uh, yeah, and I think that we're in an age where we can, like, we went to the

06:02:29.820 moon before women had, were able to get credit cards in their own name. 1.00

06:02:33.300 So, like, I, I think that it's a really powerful experience for women to have their own money. 0.96

06:02:39.000 Do you want to have children?

06:02:40.520 Yes.

06:02:41.180 Would you be comfortable if, when you have children, that your man doesn't want you to

06:02:44.960 work anymore and you just solely depend on him?

06:02:47.040 Um, doesn't want me to work, like, is it for my own ease and comfort?

06:02:52.760 Yes.

06:02:53.300 I definitely, let's say yes.

06:02:54.960 Yeah, like, I, I think that one of the reasons why I do want a man, like, who's ambitious

06:02:59.880 and, like, kind of who has some amount of wealth is because I do want to be a mom and

06:03:05.080 I want to be able to not work if I'm impregnated and, like, birthing and, like, taking care

06:03:12.500 of the children, like, yeah, I think that that's, that's something that I would like.

06:03:17.280 Well, but I would think you would have that conversation before you got pregnant. 1.00

06:03:20.440 Oh, yeah, definitely.

06:03:21.400 I mean, that's something, that's, like, an early conversation.

06:03:23.500 Right, I would think in your discussion of dating the guy that this kind of thing would

06:03:27.420 come up, I mean, I would think anyway.

06:03:29.660 Oh, yeah.

06:03:30.820 It, it comes up very early.

06:03:32.300 For me, I mean, again, I'm 32, so I'm in, like, a, I'm finding my life partner, like,

06:03:37.500 like, vibe, so I definitely don't disagree with what you're saying, and I also don't

06:03:45.320 disagree with what I'm saying, too.

06:03:46.740 Yeah.

06:03:47.120 I think it's both.

06:03:49.480 Do you think that should apply to even, like, women in very traditional relationships that

06:03:55.000 want to stay at home?

06:03:55.940 Like, do you think they should have their own money also?

06:03:58.820 Um, I think that, no, people can do whatever they want.

06:04:01.880 If that works for them and they feel like they're completely free and their man has their

06:04:05.660 best interest in mind and what that best interest is for them to live a traditional life, then

06:04:09.540 go ahead.

06:04:10.700 You should do that, you know?

06:04:12.360 I would, like, you know, just, like, ask and, like, worry, I guess, if my friends were

06:04:17.620 in a situation where they felt, like, controlled or something like that, but that's not about

06:04:21.680 being traditional.

06:04:22.860 That's about, like, just the situation, you know?

06:04:26.560 So, I think the language of, like, controlling isn't helpful.

06:04:31.000 Like, you have to, you know?

06:04:32.960 That kind of stuff.

06:04:33.640 But, you know, people can do whatever they want.

06:04:37.120 Okay.

06:04:39.180 It's good when a woman doesn't need a man. 1.00

06:04:42.600 Yeah, I think if, for me, I'm, like, I always need to have my own money because if I'm ever

06:04:46.960 in a situation that's, like, abusive or anything, like, I'm leaving.

06:04:51.220 For sure I'm leaving.

06:04:53.000 So, yeah.

06:04:54.300 It's always good to have that power.

06:04:56.760 I think.

06:04:57.380 Back to my notes here.

06:05:04.240 Actually, really quick, guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

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06:05:15.280 Guys, drop us a follow and a Prime sub. 0.89

06:05:17.040 If you're watching on YouTube, drop us a follow and a Prime sub.

06:05:21.420 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

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06:05:23.640 Discord.gg slash whatever drops a join the server.

06:05:27.540 Join the server, boys.

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06:05:35.160 So, be sure to check that out.

06:05:36.980 Getting into kind of some of the, hopefully, the last notes here.

06:05:41.740 Let's see.

06:05:44.140 You had a disagreement.

06:05:45.380 We already kind of talked about this.

06:05:46.660 Yes.

06:05:48.800 Disagree with the topic of making women out to feel bad for wearing makeup.

06:05:52.340 Yeah, we already talked about that.

06:05:53.380 But we already, I don't know if you weighed in much on it, but.

06:05:57.140 I did.

06:05:57.840 I did.

06:05:59.040 Extensive.

06:05:59.640 Okay.

06:06:00.140 She did.

06:06:00.880 You also disagree with having women rate each other.

06:06:03.920 Yeah, I don't.

06:06:04.340 I don't really have the women rate each other. 1.00

06:06:06.560 You've had them do that.

06:06:08.480 Rate themselves?

06:06:09.240 No, you've had them rate each other.

06:06:11.820 That's typically Andrew, who does that.

06:06:14.740 I think the one time that has actually happened, she actually volunteered to do it.

06:06:20.440 True.

06:06:21.280 Well put, Maddie.

06:06:22.540 I remember watching one particular one, and you were on with, it was some, and I don't

06:06:26.880 know her name, but she was the girl who used to be in adult films, blonde, large busted. 1.00

06:06:32.920 And it was the one, and you were on with her, on her, for a good half an hour about trying

06:06:40.100 to get her to rate other women, and she just wouldn't do it, the other women in the 0.91

06:06:44.440 panel. 0.89

06:06:45.740 How big were the breasts? 1.00

06:06:49.120 Well, I, they were very large.

06:06:52.480 No, they were very large.

06:06:53.760 And she was sitting on the end.

06:06:55.240 Short blonde hair?

06:06:56.300 I think I know what you're talking about.

06:06:57.400 Short blonde hair, yes.

06:06:57.800 Like, she had bazongas.

06:06:58.920 Yes.

06:06:59.120 Was it the girl?

06:06:59.820 Yes.

06:07:00.100 Oh, I know, yes.

06:07:01.300 Exactly.

06:07:01.780 I know, I know what you're talking about.

06:07:03.060 Yeah.

06:07:03.160 Was it me?

06:07:03.740 Was it me on her case?

06:07:05.280 I don't know.

06:07:05.600 Yeah, it was probably on her case.

06:07:06.660 Yeah. 1.00

06:07:07.300 Yeah, she does have big tits. 1.00

06:07:10.480 Okay. 1.00

06:07:10.900 Well, that's, yeah.

06:07:11.540 Well, I mean, that's what you said.

06:07:12.600 Sorry.

06:07:12.740 And so, I, yeah, I just don't like that because I think that that, it puts women against each 0.99

06:07:20.120 other.

06:07:20.720 GMD Jim donated $69.

06:07:23.620 Women can now have credit cards, and it only took them 50 years to rack up 1.14 trillion 1.00

06:07:29.820 in debt.

06:07:30.900 Great job, ladies. 1.00

06:07:33.520 I like that one.

06:07:34.800 That's a good one, Jim.

06:07:35.760 Thank you.

06:07:37.520 Show of hands, who here's a feminist? 1.00

06:07:42.740 Just you?

06:07:46.280 Wait, but hold on.

06:07:47.700 Now, this really complicates the whole men should pay thing.

06:07:51.420 So, how do you reconcile being a feminist, but wanting men to pay for first dates? 1.00

06:07:58.780 Never mind.

06:07:59.400 I'm not a feminist anymore. 0.95

06:08:00.380 Just be a feminist. 1.00

06:08:01.180 You're a feminist. 1.00

06:08:02.020 No, I'm not.

06:08:02.720 Can you scoot the mic this way a little bit?

06:08:04.520 Yeah.

06:08:05.560 And then tilt it down a little bit.

06:08:07.000 It's a little too, uh.

06:08:09.440 Yeah, I'm not a feminist. 0.99

06:08:09.940 That didn't do anything, but okay.

06:08:12.740 But how do you reconcile it, seriously?

06:08:17.120 Um, I don't know how you define feminist. 0.91

06:08:21.660 Like, I mean.

06:08:22.920 Equality?

06:08:24.220 Voice correct?

06:08:25.980 I think maybe I'm not, like, right?

06:08:29.480 There's, like, hard feminist. 1.00

06:08:31.080 There's hard liberal.

06:08:32.500 Like, there's, like, hard of all these versions.

06:08:34.480 I'm, like, I don't think I'm all the way over here.

06:08:37.200 But, like, I wouldn't say, I, I, I'm a feminist in the sense that I don't think that the patriarchy was working and we needed, uh, something to correct that, which was to let women make money, give women, like, equal opportunity in the workforce, like, let them be able to, like, have mortgages on homes, like, let them be in whatever kind of, you know, uh, occupation that they personally want to do. 0.90

06:09:02.040 So, like, I think that in that sense, I'm a feminist.

06:09:06.400 Um, I'm not a feminist in the sense that I think that men and women are the same and they should do all of the exact same things.

06:09:13.000 I think that masculine and feminine energy exist in both people and I personally, um, it's, like, it's, like, the yin-yang thing.

06:09:21.720 I think women, like, just hormonally, like, our hormones are much different than male hormones and, like, we're built for different things. 0.80

06:09:29.080 Women are naturally a little bit typically more nurturing. 1.00

06:09:32.100 Like, we thrive in different kinds of work environments.

06:09:35.760 So, I don't think that that has to do with, like, what I would want on a first date because I think a first date is a first impression and that, man, I would like to be someone who's generous, who wants to take care of his woman.

06:09:49.080 And I think that those two things can coexist in one person.

06:09:51.500 You don't have to be all one thing and all one other thing.

06:09:54.900 You can be a multitude of things in one person.

06:09:57.020 Well, so you're talking about the feminist buffet where you pick and choose the equality which benefits you. 1.00

06:10:03.340 You disregard that which doesn't.

06:10:08.200 I mean, all these things are kind of intertwined.

06:10:12.800 Can you put the water bottle on the ground or pour it into a cup, por favor?

06:10:18.540 So, that was very submissive of you, by the way.

06:10:21.480 You didn't even, like, you see how she just did it?

06:10:26.140 And she didn't even question it.

06:10:27.300 That was very submissive, girl.

06:10:28.660 I'm proud of you.

06:10:31.060 So, these things are all kind of intertwined.

06:10:34.120 Like, do you think a world where, for example, you said women should be allowed to work, right?

06:10:40.760 Well, I mean, if you double the labor pool, are men less capable of providing for women because of this action?

06:10:47.900 Are men less capable of providing for women?

06:10:52.460 So, is it harder for men?

06:10:53.680 To the same extent to which they did before, yeah.

06:10:58.560 But you're still desirous of a man to provide for you.

06:11:02.680 To pay for a coffee on my first date, yeah.

06:11:04.180 Yeah, but you still want a guy to provide for you throughout the relationship and even into the relationship.

06:11:09.380 I think if I'm having his children, then I think the expectation is that housing and food would be provided for me and my children for sure.

06:11:18.400 So, the bulk of the expenses.

06:11:21.400 Yeah.

06:11:21.720 Right, so.

06:11:23.340 And I'm going to pick a man who is capable and able to do that.

06:11:26.580 But it's interesting to me.

06:11:27.480 On one hand, you want a man to provide for you in the same capacity that he would.

06:11:34.300 No, not in the same capacity that he would.

06:11:35.660 In the same capacity that he would provide for you if it was the 1950s.

06:11:39.960 No, I don't.

06:11:40.680 Yes, you do.

06:11:41.500 I don't expect that.

06:11:42.380 You just said pay for the rent and pay for the food.

06:11:44.880 What are you paying for?

06:11:45.940 When we're married, but like the entire time.

06:11:47.200 Yes, when you're married.

06:11:48.600 Yeah, but like.

06:11:49.280 Which would be the expectation in the 1950s.

06:11:52.160 Yeah, but in the 1950s, I'm still, like I was talking, you weren't even here.

06:11:56.180 Like wealth creation, wealth creation for me is still very important.

06:12:00.260 I'm always going to be making money and always going to have my own money and going to increase

06:12:04.400 my net worth from now until the day I die.

06:12:06.320 I for sure am going to be acting in those ways, which is very different.

06:12:10.680 But we're talking, we're not talking about you.

06:12:12.120 We're talking about the man.

06:12:13.740 I'm saying that I will still contribute financially to the marriage partnership.

06:12:19.480 It's just like during, but I do think that.

06:12:21.660 So what are you going to pay for them?

06:12:22.860 He pays rent and food.

06:12:24.540 What do you pay for?

06:12:25.560 Listen, I'm going to do all the details within my own relationship.

06:12:29.000 I don't think I, and I also don't know because I'm not married and I don't have his babies

06:12:33.260 right now, but I'm just saying I will make money and I don't expect for like my man to,

06:12:39.580 I guess, take care of like every single thing and for me to not have any money at all.

06:12:44.600 Okay.

06:12:45.100 So your expectation of men is for them to operate as if they were in the 1950s.

06:12:51.300 Men, I don't care what men do. 1.00

06:12:53.020 I have my own preference for what I want my man to do.

06:12:55.320 Men can do whatever they want.

06:12:56.160 They can go 50, 50.

06:12:57.080 I totally get it.

06:12:58.420 It's a rough world.

06:12:59.280 It's hard to be like financially in a place where you can provide completely with no help

06:13:05.920 for, for a woman.

06:13:07.580 That's a very difficult thing.

06:13:08.460 But is that what you want?

06:13:09.260 That's a very difficult thing to do.

06:13:10.700 Is that what you want?

06:13:11.720 I think when I'm in a marriage relationship, I think, yeah, I personally want when I have

06:13:18.520 children for him to be able to do it.

06:13:19.140 Josh donated $69.

06:13:21.800 So men pay for everything and you pay for yourself? 0.99

06:13:25.220 You're a misandrist. 1.00

06:13:27.060 She ain't, chill out, you not so pretty little liar. 1.00

06:13:30.300 We know what you're like behind the lies. 0.99

06:13:32.660 Is this a song?

06:13:33.060 We know you just want dollar.

06:13:35.060 Yo, Josh.

06:13:35.640 Thank you, man.

06:13:35.960 Appreciate it.

06:13:36.480 Wait, so you said you do want a guy to be that provider.

06:13:40.740 Is that correct?

06:13:43.220 I think when I'm in a relationship and I give birth to his children, it's totally fair for

06:13:51.340 him to provide us a place to stay and for food to eat.

06:13:54.940 I will also be making my own money and contributing in ways that I can for the rest of my life because

06:14:03.720 that's something that I want to do and something that I have the capabilities to do and that

06:14:07.720 I feel like is valuable.

06:14:08.640 Rex got $666 donated $69.

06:14:15.160 Can we have everybody but Pearl do a fit check? 0.93

06:14:18.240 I don't care to hear another thing from her tonight.

06:14:22.280 I think that we got to do a fit check.

06:14:24.340 That's got to be like a champagne pop.

06:14:26.920 Is that too much for a fit check?

06:14:31.480 Pearl needs a little liquor. 1.00

06:14:33.020 I think that's fair.

06:14:33.840 We'll do it for champagne pop.

06:14:37.660 Wait, so I'm confused.

06:14:41.500 Listen, you can be confused.

06:14:43.100 I don't need you to understand my perspective because we are not going to be in a couple.

06:14:46.840 We're not going to be a couple.

06:14:47.880 I've said what I think pretty much like four times in a row.

06:14:51.540 So.

06:14:54.160 All right.

06:14:54.640 I'm done.

06:14:56.900 No.

06:14:57.340 You can move on.

06:14:57.900 You broke my heart.

06:14:59.480 I really thought we were making progress.

06:15:00.940 Okay.

06:15:01.060 You guys argue like a couple.

06:15:03.400 I know.

06:15:03.740 It's crazy.

06:15:04.520 Okay.

06:15:06.400 So you want a guy to, you just said rent and food, but come on, you're going to want

06:15:11.300 him to provide more than that, right?

06:15:17.420 If he would like to, that would be nice.

06:15:19.860 So just to be clear, you're going to pay for health insurance.

06:15:22.540 You're going to pay for utilities.

06:15:23.460 You're going to pay for all the child.

06:15:25.580 I never said any of that.

06:15:26.720 Are you, so then do you want the man to pay for the utilities and the childcare and the

06:15:33.640 babysitter?

06:15:34.580 Do you want him to pay and the health insurance?

06:15:36.660 I think we'll work it out when we get there.

06:15:38.600 I'm just, then the yes.

06:15:39.920 Is that a yes?

06:15:40.660 You, I'm just.

06:15:41.160 It's not a yes.

06:15:41.760 I don't know.

06:15:42.440 I don't know how it's going to get split up.

06:15:45.200 Exactly.

06:15:45.320 But why can you make the determination when it comes to rent and food?

06:15:48.380 Just because I think that those are pretty basic qualities.

06:15:50.960 Yeah, but there's other expenses.

06:15:52.620 There are other expenses.

06:15:53.640 Yeah, but I think like rent and food is like a good one to be like, I do kind of, I'm being

06:15:57.380 honest and saying like, I do kind of expect my man to provide at least that while I am

06:16:01.740 literally raising his children.

06:16:03.180 Do I expect him to provide rent and food for me now?

06:16:05.480 No, because we're just, we're not there yet.

06:16:08.040 But if I'm literally giving birth to his children, yeah, those are like my basic expectations.

06:16:14.180 Everything else I think we'll have to work out.

06:16:15.980 Like, where is he in his career?

06:16:17.580 Where am I in my career?

06:16:18.780 Like, what are our financial responsibilities?

06:16:21.240 How are we going to split this all up?

06:16:22.640 Like, but I'm not, I'm not like, oh, you provide 100% of everything and I stay home

06:16:29.940 with the kids and do nothing.

06:16:30.920 That's not what I'm like.

06:16:34.520 But he provide 100% of everything and you continue to be a boss babe.

06:16:40.480 No, I didn't.

06:16:41.300 I said he doesn't have to provide.

06:16:42.300 Are you going to stay home and take care of the kids or are you going to want like a babysitter?

06:16:45.480 I don't know what I'm going to do.

06:16:47.060 I'm sorry, you're 32.

06:16:48.540 You should probably figure it out.

06:16:49.820 I will figure that out, Brian.

06:16:50.980 But like, you don't know?

06:16:54.360 I don't know exactly how everything is going to be split up when I'm in my relationship.

06:17:00.060 But okay, what about what you want?

06:17:01.600 Let's not talk about how it's going to be.

06:17:02.880 Let's talk about what you want.

06:17:04.840 When the kids are young, do you want to stay at home and take care of them?

06:17:09.080 Or do you want to be out working and have somebody paying for childcare?

06:17:12.600 Or I'll probably do a combination of both.

06:17:16.480 Like, I'll probably have some help, but also like work as well.

06:17:23.320 It's just kind of what I've imagined.

06:17:24.940 I don't know exactly what I'm going to do.

06:17:26.720 What do you want though?

06:17:27.980 Do you want a combo?

06:17:29.980 I do probably.

06:17:30.740 I want a combo, yeah.

06:17:31.940 Because I think that's a full-time job to take care of children.

06:17:34.540 That's a full-time job.

06:17:35.240 And I don't ever see myself like not working in some capacity.

06:17:39.260 I'll probably take a break at like for a while.

06:17:42.360 What, six months?

06:17:43.460 I don't know, Brian.

06:17:44.980 I don't know.

06:17:46.240 I don't know.

06:17:46.660 What about five years until they're in kindergarten?

06:17:49.080 I don't know.

06:17:49.800 I think it'll be whatever works best for a family.

06:17:53.100 How many kids do you want? 1.00

06:17:54.620 I'm imagining like two.

06:17:56.360 Okay, so like maybe six, seven years before both of them are in elementary school.

06:18:02.980 I don't imagine it being that long.

06:18:05.240 Well, isn't it start at five years old, kindergarten?

06:18:08.820 I probably won't wait that long to work.

06:18:13.400 Okay, so he'll need to pay for child care.

06:18:17.100 I don't know how it's going to be split up, like I've said already.

06:18:22.400 But, okay.

06:18:23.220 Are you trying to make me say some things, like some specific things?

06:18:27.160 I'm just trying to understand your perspective.

06:18:28.880 Okay.

06:18:29.120 So what you want is you don't want to stay at home with kids.

06:18:33.580 Not 100% of the time.

06:18:37.000 So even before they get into like kindergarten, you will want.

06:18:41.700 Desert Joe donated $69.

06:18:48.600 Please, for the love of God, someone tell Pearl to stop stroking her hair. 1.00

06:18:53.800 It came already and the tip is ultra sensitive.

06:18:57.320 Also, I hope she likes cats.

06:19:00.160 Her future will only have cats, no men or kids. 0.95

06:19:03.320 I literally do have a man, but it's fine.

06:19:09.780 Oh, really quick, going back to the Stifler.

06:19:14.440 The Stifler asks everyone to rate themselves on a scale of 1 to 10.

06:19:17.820 Sorry.

06:19:27.920 The scouter does not detect any 10s at the table.

06:19:34.860 And this isn't even me.

06:19:36.420 This is the scouter.

06:19:39.860 He really went into character.

06:19:41.440 Josh donated $69.

06:19:50.580 Okay.

06:19:51.120 Forking called it.

06:19:52.700 All right, Pearl, now that we've established you're a gold digger, I want to take this time

06:19:57.580 to say, Jordan, you're beautiful.

06:19:59.780 I'm so happy you didn't turn out like Pearl.

06:20:02.960 Cry later, Pearl.

06:20:04.940 Oh, man.

06:20:05.640 Definitely won't be crying at all.

06:20:06.980 Yeah, she has.

06:20:09.260 Pearl has BLE, so she's good.

06:20:12.000 She won't cry over this.

06:20:13.800 No, I think Pearl's amazing.

06:20:15.340 She's intelligent.

06:20:16.140 You're beautiful.

06:20:16.700 Thank you.

06:20:17.340 And thank you for the compliment.

06:20:19.420 Getting through the notes here, Pearl, you said you're a positive influence, parentheses

06:20:26.260 are your singer, your spiritual polyglot.

06:20:29.720 What is that?

06:20:31.180 It means someone who speaks multiple languages.

06:20:33.860 No, I know what polyglot is.

06:20:35.220 Yeah, spiritual polyglot.

06:20:35.800 Oh, wait, it's spiritual.

06:20:37.360 I thought it was a spiritual.

06:20:38.340 Okay.

06:20:38.880 Yeah.

06:20:39.500 All right.

06:20:40.020 I know what the, okay.

06:20:41.420 I thought it was like spiritual.

06:20:43.520 Okay. 0.99

06:20:44.680 Biracial baddie. 1.00

06:20:45.880 I think that's on your Instagram. 0.98

06:20:47.280 It is, yeah.

06:20:47.900 When you messaged us, you were like, I have some thoughts, lol.

06:20:51.620 Oh, yeah.

06:20:52.100 Did we talk about those already?

06:20:53.680 Yeah, we talked about them all.

06:20:54.120 Was there anything else in specific?

06:20:55.980 Okay.

06:20:56.120 Nah.

06:20:57.920 Let's see.

06:20:59.240 You said some men are emotionally attracted to other men, but sexually attracted to women

06:21:04.540 and tall.

06:21:04.800 That's what I said last time, yeah.

06:21:05.900 And tall men are overrated.

06:21:07.760 Yeah.

06:21:08.260 Those are my hot takes last time.

06:21:09.300 So you'll date a short king?

06:21:10.920 Yeah.

06:21:11.400 Okay.

06:21:11.760 That's cool.

06:21:12.480 I have date a short kings.

06:21:14.120 That's sweet.

06:21:15.040 You said equality is not sameness, it's fairness.

06:21:18.160 The sexy and fair thing to do is for the man to pick up the tab. 0.85

06:21:21.180 Ladies, do not settle for less. 1.00

06:21:23.120 We teach people how to treat us.

06:21:25.460 Yeah.

06:21:26.260 I did say that.

06:21:26.960 You did say that.

06:21:28.360 Do you want to elaborate a bit?

06:21:29.960 I think it's pretty much self-explanatory.

06:21:33.360 Okay.

06:21:36.580 Interesting.

06:21:38.100 I mean, that's literally what my whole video was about that went viral.

06:21:41.060 I think when people say they want equality, they really need to specify what they mean

06:21:44.420 by that.

06:21:44.840 Like, there's a quality of opportunity and a quality of outcome.

06:21:49.320 You can't have both.

06:21:51.240 It's true.

06:21:51.980 It's true.

06:21:52.640 We have Pei here.

06:21:53.540 We need to get through Pei's notes, then we'll try to, I think, wait, Drea?

06:21:58.280 We're Payton.

06:21:58.940 We're Payton.

06:21:59.480 Wait, do we have a Drea?

06:22:01.640 Oh, that was, wait.

06:22:04.200 Isabel?

06:22:05.740 Ashley?

06:22:06.320 Oh, okay.

06:22:06.760 Drea?

06:22:07.220 No Drea?

06:22:07.920 No.

06:22:08.240 Oh, yeah.

06:22:08.740 No show.

06:22:11.320 Pei, you're the last notes that we have.

06:22:14.840 You're an anti-feminist, but not traditional. 1.00

06:22:17.340 Do you want to explain that?

06:22:19.000 I'm anti-feminist, meaning I just don't believe in any of the today's age feminism or anything

06:22:25.760 that it stands with.

06:22:27.620 And also, I don't think really any woman can be completely traditional in today's age.

06:22:34.280 Just with the internet and everything, it's just not possible to be completely traditional.

06:22:39.740 Fair.

06:22:40.040 You also said, do you not want to talk about the relationship history stuff?

06:22:46.280 This is from your old, old notes.

06:22:48.360 Oh, it was just that one relationship that I said that I was in.

06:22:52.400 It was just, like, horrible.

06:22:54.400 You said there are a few things I disagree with the host on?

06:22:57.160 It gave me.

06:22:58.940 Well, I've gotten to hear you out more, and I don't know if there's many things that I disagree with.

06:23:03.100 There is one thing you said, you think it's just as hard for women to date as it is for men

06:23:08.920 when it pertains to average men and women.

06:23:12.000 His opinion on the difficulties of average men and women when it comes to dating or standards,

06:23:16.120 men and women of average salaries, looks, height, age, weight, occupation, et cetera.

06:23:21.640 I don't know if we, did we get a chance to talk about that last time or no?

06:23:24.520 No.

06:23:25.740 Okay, let's talk about it then.

06:23:26.880 Okay.

06:23:27.140 So going around the table, I want to open up to the whole panel.

06:23:29.160 I know you guys, we're in the, we're in the, what's that saying?

06:23:33.440 We're home stretch.

06:23:34.540 Who said that?

06:23:35.380 She did.

06:23:36.140 Home stretch.

06:23:36.560 Good.

06:23:36.900 Thank you.

06:23:37.720 That was perfect.

06:23:38.760 We're in the home stretch here, guys.

06:23:40.260 Home stretch.

06:23:41.820 Do some jumping jacks or something.

06:23:43.440 Wake yourselves up because we're about to get into some last minute nitty gritty.

06:23:48.500 Do you guys think, who has it easier when it comes to dating?

06:23:52.100 Men, women, or equal?

06:23:57.140 I think initially it's easier for women. 1.00

06:24:00.840 Women. 0.81

06:24:01.960 I think in the long shot, it's more equal.

06:24:06.660 That's my answer.

06:24:08.100 Pearl, what do you think?

06:24:09.180 Equal? 0.80

06:24:10.180 I actually have changed my mind about this.

06:24:12.660 I used to think it was harder for women, but I actually think it's equal.

06:24:16.320 It's equally hard.

06:24:17.620 I'm assuming your position is equal or harder.

06:24:20.160 Is it harder for women or equal? 1.00

06:24:21.840 Personally, I think it's harder for women, but generally I think equal. 0.76

06:24:27.140 Okay.

06:24:28.040 I think it's easier for women. 1.00

06:24:29.900 Okay.

06:24:30.620 Agreed.

06:24:31.260 I think it's easier for women. 1.00

06:24:33.120 W. Liz.

06:24:34.740 B-L-E-L-E-Z. 1.00

06:24:36.480 She got her title back.

06:24:39.280 Yeah.

06:24:40.400 Sarah?

06:24:41.840 Sarah, what do you think?

06:24:43.260 I would have to agree with Jordan.

06:24:45.180 I think initially it's easier for women, but equal later on in life. 0.95

06:24:49.320 Mm-hmm.

06:24:50.100 Yeah.

06:24:50.800 Easier for women. 1.00

06:24:52.380 Like, I get what you mean by it's obviously hard for average women, but I think if we're 0.70

06:24:57.820 comparing the average woman to the average man, the man still might have it a little bit 0.99

06:25:03.160 harder at least.

06:25:06.080 Hey, dog.

06:25:07.040 What you got?

06:25:07.760 I think it's easier for women. 1.00

06:25:10.080 Okay.

06:25:11.280 So why do you, wait, yours is its equal or is it harder for women? 1.00

06:25:16.080 Generally, it's equal.

06:25:17.700 But I think, did you say it can be harder for women? 0.98

06:25:20.580 Personally.

06:25:21.260 Oh, anecdotally for you?

06:25:22.600 Yes.

06:25:23.240 Okay.

06:25:23.620 Why is it harder for you, do you think?

06:25:25.340 I don't really know why.

06:25:27.680 I think I try.

06:25:28.340 I mean, like, so in what ways are you struggling?

06:25:31.040 How is it, how is it hard?

06:25:32.600 What have you found hard?

06:25:34.160 I've found it difficult because you either get rejected or you find someone that isn't

06:25:40.820 good for you and then it doesn't work out.

06:25:44.460 Sure.

06:25:46.620 Where do you usually look for dates?

06:25:49.540 Like, do you do online dating?

06:25:51.180 I did, but that was just, I was telling, actually, I was saying earlier about one experience that

06:25:58.980 I had on Tinder is where I was talking to a guy and it seemed like it was going well

06:26:06.160 and we were going to go on our first date.

06:26:08.820 We were supposed to go out to dinner and I went in the car with him and he drove deep into

06:26:12.880 the woods at night and said that he wanted to take pictures of me in the woods.

06:26:17.340 I think I remember this, actually.

06:26:19.420 What?

06:26:20.160 Yeah.

06:26:20.400 And I was like, I was like, okay, this, this is, the state is over and we're never speaking

06:26:27.340 again.

06:26:27.920 And also I told, I had him, I was like, okay, this is getting weird.

06:26:31.680 You need to drive me home.

06:26:32.940 So he drove me back to my house and I forgot my like women's leather jacket in his car.

06:26:40.680 And I tried to message him to say that I forgot it in his car just to get my jacket back.

06:26:45.020 And I had already been blocked.

06:26:46.420 Oh my God.

06:26:47.260 Do you think it's easier for you to meet people online or organically?

06:26:53.040 I don't think either is easy.

06:26:54.520 I think it's both difficult.

06:26:56.300 Which, which is harder maybe online.

06:26:59.420 For you personally.

06:27:00.300 I think online because you don't know the person, it can, anything, they can be anything like

06:27:07.260 they can be totally different than their profile says or how they look or, or anything.

06:27:11.800 And so I feel like in person, when you meet someone and you ask them out, you can kind

06:27:15.880 of get a sense of who they are by seeing them in person.

06:27:21.000 But I feel like people don't know how to have organic conversations nowadays because we have

06:27:26.180 the internet.

06:27:27.040 So I think it goes actually in the other direction.

06:27:30.240 I think it's easier online because you bypass all of the initials.

06:27:34.800 Like you can pretty much figure out everything you want to know about them.

06:27:39.860 I mean, if they're telling you the truth before actually seeing them.

06:27:43.000 So you're not actually doing much of the scouting.

06:27:46.380 That's why I, why I think it is difficult though, because a lot of people will use their

06:27:50.760 online persona to make you think that they're a certain way.

06:27:56.500 And then they're actually completely different and they just use the internet to kind, kind

06:28:00.380 of mask who they really are.

06:28:02.040 Are you currently dating?

06:28:04.140 I'm trying to, but it just hasn't worked out.

06:28:08.600 Why do you think it hasn't worked out though?

06:28:11.140 Yeah.

06:28:12.640 I don't really know why it hasn't worked out.

06:28:14.800 That's the thing too, is I don't think I'm a very picky person.

06:28:17.540 I don't think I'm looking for too much.

06:28:19.740 I have a very realistic idea of what I would like.

06:28:23.720 And I don't know, I just, just hasn't worked out for me.

06:28:28.260 I think it's because you need to be more obsessed with yourself.

06:28:30.960 I could never though.

06:28:32.480 I'm like, erroneous, erroneous.

06:28:35.700 The right guy is, he's coming.

06:28:37.460 The right guy is coming.

06:28:38.060 You're so special.

06:28:39.200 He's totally coming.

06:28:40.440 You are so cute.

06:28:41.660 You're amazing.

06:28:42.240 I just feel like if you saw yourself like that, like, I don't know, I guess I can only

06:28:46.200 speak for myself.

06:28:47.020 Like that kind of energy where you're like, wow, like I'm, I'm really cool.

06:28:51.540 Like I would add a lot to somebody's life.

06:28:53.940 Like that energy.

06:28:54.600 I feel like, like you don't have to pursue a man.

06:28:57.320 Like when you really like think of yourself highly, like you really do magnetize the right

06:29:02.760 men into your life and you won't really even attract men who want to take you into the

06:29:06.720 woods and take pictures of you, which is fricking crazy. 0.64

06:29:09.220 And honestly, like, I know that people on this podcast are going to disagree, but if you rate

06:29:13.760 yourself, if you really see yourself as a five, like you're going to attract people in your

06:29:17.540 life who see you as a five. 0.99

06:29:18.580 Like, I feel like if you really focus on being that bitch, which you are, you're so special. 1.00

06:29:24.400 You're so beautiful. 0.99

06:29:25.100 You're so fun.

06:29:26.120 And like, you're really, you really have a unique personality that I think someone's

06:29:29.840 really, really going to love and who's looking for someone exactly like you.

06:29:33.880 Like you don't have to ask men out on dates.

06:29:36.020 Like you can just focus on yourself, be who, be who you are, love who you are.

06:29:40.800 And like the right men are going to come and find you.

06:29:43.040 I don't want to be offensive at all.

06:29:44.920 And that's very sweet, but I just feel like that's unrealistic.

06:29:48.820 Like I have a good sense of self in a way that I know who I am, but I don't think of

06:29:55.340 myself higher than I should be.

06:29:56.940 And like how you guys were saying earlier, oh, when you think of yourself in, you know,

06:30:02.560 a five or whatever, you, you won't try harder.

06:30:05.620 Like, but I work out, I take care of myself and everything, but I just feel like I'm just

06:30:10.000 more realistic about if I had like, you know, all the guys that I've asked out say what

06:30:16.560 they rated me.

06:30:17.440 That's what I go off of.

06:30:18.480 Not of like what I think of myself.

06:30:19.780 I'm like, I'm okay.

06:30:20.700 I'm a, you know, I'm, I'm me.

06:30:22.840 You are able to take an objective stance without getting into fairytale land.

06:30:26.700 Yeah.

06:30:27.020 Like, let's be real.

06:30:28.460 You come off to me.

06:30:30.200 And I think a lot of the other women would agree.

06:30:32.440 You come off pretty confident.

06:30:34.020 Yeah.

06:30:34.460 So I don't think you lack the confidence whatsoever.

06:30:37.900 You're extremely humble.

06:30:38.560 Thanks.

06:30:39.080 Yeah.

06:30:40.180 And that's a very beautiful quality.

06:30:42.240 Sorry.

06:30:42.820 Thanks.

06:30:43.420 It's beautiful.

06:30:44.400 So I wouldn't, I wouldn't pick up this, like, no offense, but like, I wouldn't pick up this

06:30:49.520 unauthentic pride because I personally like think that pride is one of the most like unattractive

06:30:58.520 qualities.

06:30:58.860 And that's just because I want to attract somebody who's extremely humble and doesn't

06:31:03.000 have to explain to people how special they are.

06:31:06.020 And I think that that quality in you, you speak volumes to so many, it already has like

06:31:11.340 literally you're getting so hyped on, like every man on here for just being you for literally

06:31:16.760 just being you.

06:31:18.400 Wait, you, you like humble.

06:31:20.380 I do.

06:31:21.300 And you're against pride.

06:31:23.160 Yeah.

06:31:24.000 Do you know what I'm about to walk you into?

06:31:27.780 No.

06:31:28.520 No.

06:31:28.980 Okay.

06:31:29.200 You said you were a 10.

06:31:32.520 Okay.

06:31:33.140 Isn't that pride?

06:31:34.340 Like you are misconstruing everything I said.

06:31:36.480 I literally walked out.

06:31:37.860 I had to go potty and then you guys asked me to come back.

06:31:40.560 So I was like, everybody here is a 10 because I had to be so bad.

06:31:43.800 And then you literally took it so literally.

06:31:46.700 So you don't, you don't view yourself as a 10?

06:31:49.720 I don't think that was her actual.

06:31:50.280 When, when people who truly know me and I don't want to take away from this.

06:31:54.200 I want to like actually, because she like, she deserves to like have her word.

06:31:58.960 But people who know me personally know that I hold myself to a very high standard, which

06:32:05.380 which is why I think very lowly of myself.

06:32:07.960 Practicing gentleman donated $69.

06:32:10.560 For the whole panel, how often do you receive honest opinions from men about anything that

06:32:16.700 are neither related to you nor want to have a romantic slash carnal relationship with you?

06:32:22.080 Do you listen to them?

06:32:23.140 Anybody, takers, any takers, quick answer on this?

06:32:29.660 Yeah, I listen to honest opinions of men and I do take them seriously and they have nothing

06:32:34.600 to do with me at all.

06:32:36.520 Hold on, but I got to go back to this pride thing.

06:32:40.780 So wait, you're, you're not, not a 10?

06:32:48.680 Like, are you shaking your head like you don't want to talk about it?

06:32:51.120 No, no, like I know I'm not.

06:32:53.700 I will not like.

06:32:54.820 You saved me so much time.

06:32:56.600 Okay.

06:32:56.800 Well, it actually wasted so much time because you kept bringing it up and I was like, I'm

06:32:59.840 just not even going to say anything.

06:33:01.420 See, this is, this is communication here.

06:33:04.960 I wouldn't have said anything had you not just said you were a 10.

06:33:11.980 Are you just walking it back now?

06:33:14.000 Because.

06:33:14.580 I swear, I, I, I'm not, I promise you I'm not like, I am one of the most like, um, I'm

06:33:20.740 not going to say I, like, I'm not.

06:33:23.140 I'm self-critical.

06:33:24.540 Like, very self-analytical.

06:33:27.700 So like, because I, I hold myself to a high standard, like I do really, but even when

06:33:34.680 you came back to the table, when I like double checked, I'm pretty sure you still said you

06:33:39.300 were a 10.

06:33:39.720 The Stoke Roman donated $69.

06:33:43.460 Pearl, having four older sisters, I at times cringe at many of the comments viewers send

06:33:49.140 in.

06:33:49.880 Brian tries to point out that women need to be more realistic, but sadly it brings out the 0.99

06:33:54.820 worst in men.

06:33:56.560 Wow.

06:33:57.040 Was that a nice comment?

06:33:58.200 Thank you.

06:33:58.600 That's actually very true.

06:33:59.600 Thank you.

06:33:59.940 There's a lot of weird people on the internet.

06:34:01.660 No, it's true.

06:34:02.200 It does bring out the worst in men.

06:34:03.340 Which is why I think it's sad because this, yeah.

06:34:07.500 I mean, we definitely don't want to slap the word confident over something that's clearly

06:34:10.880 prideful.

06:34:11.620 And I think nowadays people do that.

06:34:13.560 that, you know, you could value yourself without being like overly obsessed and think you

06:34:19.240 are like, isn't it, isn't it just like vanity and narcissism?

06:34:24.840 I feel like vanity and narcissism is a covert way of saying insecure.

06:34:30.080 I think it's overcompensating for insecurity.

06:34:33.980 Well, I think vanity is a way of saying vanity and narcissism is a way of saying narcissism.

06:34:38.240 You have a tattoo that says vanity, huh?

06:34:43.220 Or vein, or, yeah, vanity.

06:34:45.980 Am I, maybe, did she not say 10?

06:34:50.180 She said we're all a 10.

06:34:51.380 I remember her saying we're all a 10, but I don't remember what she said after that.

06:34:54.920 It came from a self-love. 1.00

06:34:56.560 It came from, it did not come from her thinking that she's hot shit. 1.00

06:35:00.160 That is not where it came from at all. 1.00

06:35:02.200 Yeah, no.

06:35:02.760 Because the way that she has portrayed herself through this entire panel this whole time,

06:35:07.420 none of it has been of her thinking that she's the hottest thing here.

06:35:12.180 Not at all.

06:35:13.900 Well, you can still be nice and DeLulu.

06:35:17.620 Well, she hasn't come across like that.

06:35:19.180 I don't think she's DeLulu.

06:35:20.040 She's nice and not DeLulu.

06:35:21.940 Well, no.

06:35:22.400 She seems humble.

06:35:23.620 She's come off pretty realistic, I'm not going to lie.

06:35:25.700 Yeah.

06:35:26.280 Is there something personal you don't like?

06:35:27.860 No, you said 10, and I could have sworn there was some back and forth where it wasn't

06:35:33.260 like, look, I just, you said 10.

06:35:35.900 No, I also, but I also did mention, I just did not want to, like, I was not comfortable

06:35:40.800 with basing it off of looks.

06:35:44.560 Like, I just wasn't.

06:35:45.700 So I was like, I'm just, you know.

06:35:49.300 Oh, yeah.

06:35:49.960 I remember.

06:35:50.640 She gave a very long answer, but I don't think she gave a number.

06:35:55.400 Yeah.

06:35:55.860 And then you, like, asked me to give a number.

06:35:58.020 And so I was like, okay, everybody here is a 10.

06:36:00.180 Yeah.

06:36:00.680 Yeah.

06:36:01.040 And so I still got, I still kind of, so including you, Nick, pull up really quick for going

06:36:08.540 back to her thing on dating easier for men or women.

06:36:11.280 Let's do the calculator.

06:36:13.680 Have you done it before?

06:36:14.820 No.

06:36:15.460 Okay.

06:36:15.680 We'll do the calculator.

06:36:16.420 And can I say one other, and we'll do it for Pearl too.

06:36:19.580 One other comment is, um, after I was on the podcast the last time I got a lot of comments

06:36:24.520 saying that I look like the girl version of you.

06:36:27.000 So I just wanted to let you know that I kind of see.

06:36:32.780 Oh, wait a minute.

06:36:34.260 She is red.

06:36:35.260 I'm a bit red.

06:36:37.220 Um, I feel like you look like Ricky Gervais.

06:36:40.160 Oh, I see it a little.

06:36:40.900 Oh, I see it too.

06:36:42.980 This girl just said, I look like Ricky Gervais.

06:36:45.800 Wait, what?

06:36:46.500 You look like what?

06:36:48.060 Ricky Gervais.

06:36:48.680 Can you guys get a photo after?

06:36:49.680 That's pretty insulting, but okay.

06:36:52.440 Really?

06:36:53.160 You look like Lizzo.

06:36:55.160 Oh, thank you.

06:36:56.500 Huh?

06:36:57.400 Lizzo's a 10 though, so that's a compliment.

06:37:00.560 I don't prefer her.

06:37:01.880 Plot twist.

06:37:02.520 Plot twist are actually siblings.

06:37:04.440 Uh, let's do the, let's do the calculator.

06:37:07.340 Go ahead.

06:37:08.180 Age?

06:37:09.220 Um, between 20 and 45.

06:37:13.440 20.

06:37:14.120 Exclude married?

06:37:15.720 That's a pretty big race.

06:37:16.540 That are already married?

06:37:17.700 Yes.

06:37:17.980 You'll, and you'll, so you're 27, right?

06:37:20.000 Yeah.

06:37:20.320 You'll date a 20 year old?

06:37:21.460 Yeah, I don't care.

06:37:22.520 If it works out, it works out.

06:37:23.820 It's a very, all right.

06:37:26.360 Race?

06:37:28.000 Uh, white.

06:37:29.580 Okay.

06:37:31.720 Minimum height?

06:37:32.980 Um.

06:37:33.300 I'll tell you.

06:37:33.860 I'm five feet, so five feet.

06:37:37.900 Really?

06:37:38.580 Yeah.

06:37:39.020 I love it. 1.00

06:37:42.580 Are you a fucking liar? 1.00

06:37:44.260 Exclude obese? 1.00

06:37:44.980 You're a fucking liar? 1.00

06:37:45.640 All right. 1.00

06:37:46.220 Exclude, exclude obese.

06:37:47.880 No.

06:37:48.720 Really?

06:37:49.400 Really.

06:37:50.180 Wait, what is obese?

06:37:51.260 Minimum income?

06:37:51.800 My doctor told me I was obese, so.

06:37:54.180 Unhealthy and overweight.

06:37:55.560 Exclude to BMI cochlear, which is not fully.

06:37:58.140 Yeah.

06:37:58.740 Don't go off BMI.

06:38:00.020 No, don't go off BMI.

06:38:00.880 Go off BMI.

06:38:01.440 Minimum income?

06:38:02.980 Um, 30,000.

06:38:05.100 Okay.

06:38:06.920 All right.

06:38:07.520 I'm just being real.

06:38:08.440 I feel like she's telling the truth.

06:38:09.680 Okay.

06:38:10.600 Probability.

06:38:11.180 I love it.

06:38:11.600 Scroll down.

06:38:12.140 Uh, that is 17% of all men, 32% of all white men in that age range.

06:38:25.680 I thought it would have been a bit higher.

06:38:28.080 I thought it would be two.

06:38:29.740 I'm like, we're all sides of it be like two percent then.

06:38:32.400 What's the delusion?

06:38:33.380 Wait, what?

06:38:35.820 32% of all white men.

06:38:38.380 Um, five feet.

06:38:42.820 That's crazy.

06:38:44.120 I literally.

06:38:44.840 Did we put.

06:38:45.580 That's impossible.

06:38:46.020 Wait, Nick.

06:38:46.480 Go back really quick.

06:38:47.500 This doesn't seem right.

06:38:48.160 Go back.

06:38:48.520 She didn't exclude O'Keefe.

06:38:49.660 Yeah, I don't trust this anymore, so.

06:38:52.300 Uh, unclick exclude married.

06:38:54.520 I just want to see how the stat changes.

06:38:57.280 Like has been married or is currently married?

06:38:59.400 Currently married.

06:39:00.180 Oh.

06:39:01.320 Well, that changes it quite a bit.

06:39:03.560 I guess that makes sense because if you exclude married, like, what percentage of men

06:39:07.980 are married?

06:39:09.480 I guess a lot.

06:39:09.960 So that's already going to knock out.

06:39:11.980 Because it jumped just from that, from like 30% of white men to 72.

06:39:17.280 Yeah.

06:39:18.360 But I wouldn't go after a married man. 0.99

06:39:20.280 I feel like they shouldn't even factor in married men. 0.80

06:39:23.760 Yeah.

06:39:24.240 Into the, this is, this is, makes it unreliable.

06:39:26.560 Also previously married?

06:39:27.760 No, just like currently married.

06:39:29.800 Oh.

06:39:30.200 I don't think like.

06:39:30.860 That makes a giant difference.

06:39:31.360 What women are going to be like, yeah, I want to date a married. 1.00

06:39:33.960 They should just not include that in the data.

06:39:37.260 But, okay. 0.69

06:39:37.920 Sex therapist. 0.99

06:39:38.120 Let's do it with Pearl. 0.98

06:39:39.560 Let's do Pearls. 0.94

06:39:40.360 Mine's going to literally be like, no, I don't want to do this.

06:39:42.660 You got this, Pearl.

06:39:43.340 I also already found my dream man.

06:39:44.740 It's like 0.08.

06:39:46.060 Mine's going to be like, not impossible.

06:39:48.360 Let's see.

06:39:48.760 Let's do it.

06:39:49.260 Just for funs.

06:39:49.940 No.

06:39:50.060 Just for funsies.

06:39:51.660 Okay.

06:39:52.200 Funsies.

06:39:53.080 Funsies.

06:39:53.680 Okay.

06:39:53.860 Do 28 to 51.

06:39:56.820 Nah.

06:39:57.540 47.

06:39:58.980 Yeah.

06:39:59.160 Let's do 47.

06:39:59.880 All right.

06:40:00.480 Pearl with the older gentleman.

06:40:02.200 I mean, listen, any color.

06:40:05.060 Let's do 5.8.

06:40:07.260 How tall are you?

06:40:08.420 5.6.

06:40:09.800 Exclude obese?

06:40:10.860 No, let's keep it in there. 0.67

06:40:11.800 She likes them chunky boys.

06:40:13.720 Let's do 80K.

06:40:15.960 All right.

06:40:16.820 This isn't terrible.

06:40:20.100 Okay.

06:40:21.240 Oh.

06:40:21.580 5.8% of men fall into this category.

06:40:27.880 Very rare, for sure.

06:40:29.380 But, I mean, my man is definitely makes a lot more than 80K.

06:40:32.740 That's surprising considering you chose like any race.

06:40:35.000 Yeah.

06:40:35.540 True.

06:40:36.080 It wasn't like it was just.

06:40:37.000 It was the any race. 0.89

06:40:37.800 I feel like this is not real.

06:40:38.180 How reliable?

06:40:38.720 It's not real.

06:40:39.460 Is this calculator?

06:40:40.780 Not reliable at all.

06:40:42.420 Like, I want to, if I'm going to, like, try to make a point, I want it to be reliable and accurate.

06:40:48.780 And I just, I don't know.

06:40:49.620 Anyways, I thought that would be interesting.

06:40:51.620 So, I mean, the whole thing about dating easier for men.

06:40:57.840 That was one of the disagreements you've had.

06:40:59.740 Or dating is about as difficult for each person.

06:41:04.200 But, I mean, if you look at the early stages of dating, I think, I don't think how you can even come to a conclusion that doesn't arrive at dating is way harder for men.

06:41:14.320 Right.

06:41:14.800 In so far as men are the pursuers.

06:41:17.500 Men are the initiators, generally speaking. 0.99

06:41:21.400 And so, on this basis alone, dating is harder for men.

06:41:25.880 And I was speaking more specifically on the current, the, like, actual conversations that you've had with women on the podcast about it that usually are, like, very wealthy, very, you know, high, like, very high beauty standard and things like that.

06:41:43.620 Sure.

06:41:45.140 So.

06:41:45.540 I figured it would be a lot easier for them and the women that you talked to and how they didn't understand that it is really difficult for men in that, in those specific cases.

06:41:54.620 What do you mean?

06:41:55.500 In what specific cases?

06:41:56.760 Like, when you were having conversations with these women who, you know, do OnlyFans or porn and they have very, like, their.

06:42:06.100 Well, the majority of women we have on the show don't do OnlyFans. 1.00

06:42:08.660 In fact.

06:42:09.100 That's why I'm saying.

06:42:09.940 I'm saying specific cases.

06:42:11.800 No girl here does OF?

06:42:14.740 Mm-mm.

06:42:15.920 Ever done OF?

06:42:17.420 Pearl?

06:42:17.780 Mm-mm.

06:42:18.000 Ever done OF?

06:42:18.640 I don't know.

06:42:19.260 Why did you single her out?

06:42:23.000 I don't know.

06:42:23.400 I'm just adding.

06:42:24.480 Because I'm the feminist. 1.00

06:42:26.160 She, yeah.

06:42:27.420 I could single you.

06:42:28.380 I just single you out, Jordan, sometimes, I guess.

06:42:30.340 I don't know.

06:42:32.080 Yeah, I mean, so I don't know.

06:42:33.240 Yeah, we do have OF girls on the show. 1.00

06:42:35.220 But.

06:42:35.380 Yeah, I was speaking very specifically.

06:42:36.100 I think it's harder for them.

06:42:37.040 I mean, dating is harder for them than, I think, the average woman.

06:42:40.360 True.

06:42:40.580 Yeah.

06:42:41.020 I mean, they have simps, but, like, actually dating, I think it's harder for them.

06:42:47.400 True.

06:42:47.980 And this was a while ago.

06:42:49.060 This was before my first appearance.

06:42:50.660 Yeah.

06:42:51.620 I've learned a lot more about how you think than before.

06:42:54.900 I think women have dating on easy mode as compared to men. 0.98

06:42:59.520 So, by comparison.

06:43:01.080 Like, as a woman, you can hop onto a dating app. 0.78

06:43:04.440 And are you speaking specifically hooking up or just, or actually dating?

06:43:08.460 Even, like, well, if going on dates is the initial phases of dating, and if it's easier for women to get a date, even if the guy's intentions are perhaps to hook up, that's usually where most modern dating kind of begins.

06:43:28.820 So, you do kind of have it easier.

06:43:32.760 Generally.

06:43:33.800 I would say generally.

06:43:34.320 More specific cases, like my personal case.

06:43:36.320 I think that's a different story.

06:43:37.500 What's, so, I mean, but, like, where, how big is the city you live in?

06:43:42.000 Um, it's very small.

06:43:43.640 It's a town, not a city.

06:43:44.460 Where do you live?

06:43:45.240 Massachusetts.

06:43:46.580 What's the podcast?

06:43:48.320 It's, like.

06:43:48.940 Morphin donated $200. 0.99

06:43:51.080 Oh, shit. 0.99

06:43:52.640 Yo, thank you for the $200, man. 0.99

06:43:54.480 Really appreciate your patronage.

06:43:55.880 Here, let me play this for you.

06:43:57.240 He's a brave and a decent man.

06:43:58.900 He's a pioneer.

06:44:00.100 Jay Morphin.

06:44:00.900 Morphin Power Rangers.

06:44:02.000 Thank you, bro.

06:44:02.420 I appreciate it.

06:44:04.540 I think there's probably, like.

06:44:05.780 How's that song?

06:44:06.040 How's the Power Rangers theme song?

06:44:07.560 Go, go, go.

06:44:08.580 Power Rangers.

06:44:09.340 Do, do, do, do, do.

06:44:11.680 Go, go, Power Rangers.

06:44:13.080 Go ahead, Pearl, sing it. 0.96

06:44:13.980 You're the singer here.

06:44:14.980 That's okay.

06:44:16.760 Do, do, do, do.

06:44:17.500 She's tired.

06:44:18.520 I'm tired.

06:44:19.480 Morphin's time.

06:44:20.520 I'm, like, yawning.

06:44:23.840 I wanted to be a Power Ranger when I was young.

06:44:26.920 Wait.

06:44:27.260 You still click?

06:44:28.400 How big is your town?

06:44:29.140 It's very small.

06:44:30.740 Very small.

06:44:31.380 Yeah.

06:44:31.700 I see.

06:44:32.080 the camera as I'm just like spreading

06:44:33.980 my mouth. Sweet. Okay.

06:44:36.120 Well, we're going to, we can

06:44:37.960 talk a little bit more as we do this. We're going to do a

06:44:40.180 brief roast

06:44:42.220 session, then we're going to wrap the show here.

06:44:44.460 So guys, TTS is now

06:44:46.160 set to

06:44:46.980 $29.99.

06:44:50.120 It's ready to go, but I need to make

06:44:52.080 a couple changes. Any final thoughts from any

06:44:54.060 of the panelists?

06:44:57.260 Woo! 0.99

06:44:57.940 Woo! 0.99

06:44:59.420 Good talk. Glad to be here. It was a good show. I thought it was a fun show.

06:45:02.080 You know? Yeah. Jordan's the

06:45:03.900 homie. Yeah.

06:45:06.120 Pay's the homie. You'll be back on Tuesday. 1.00

06:45:07.900 I think Pearl's the homie. We'll have Pearl back if you 0.98

06:45:09.920 want. I'm the homie. Pearl's the homie. 1.00

06:45:12.260 The feminist homie. Stacey's the 0.98

06:45:13.900 homie. Stacey's mom

06:45:15.960 has got to go.

06:45:17.020 Keep going. Liz.

06:45:19.640 You've ever heard Liz or Lizzie?

06:45:20.900 Max K donated $30. 0.97

06:45:23.180 Ava needs to shut the F up. 1.00

06:45:25.020 Oh. 0.98

06:45:26.300 Do you want to respond to that?

06:45:29.220 It's a joke because she's quiet.

06:45:30.540 Ava, do you have a response? 0.64

06:45:32.660 Except about the labia.

06:45:33.660 I like hardly spoke.

06:45:35.280 The labia triggered her. 1.00

06:45:36.420 Shut the fuck up! 1.00

06:45:37.360 Okay, no. 1.00

06:45:38.040 The wizard sleeve triggered me.

06:45:42.080 I'm sorry.

06:45:43.360 I just find that funny.

06:45:45.360 Triggered. Okay.

06:45:49.000 Damn. 1.00

06:45:50.700 Sarah's the homie. 1.00

06:45:51.920 Maddie's the homie. 1.00

06:45:53.460 Ava's the homie. 1.00

06:45:55.380 Morgan eating chips

06:45:56.500 is also the homie. 0.87

06:45:57.400 What kind of chips

06:45:59.640 are you eating, Morgan?

06:46:01.560 Jalapeno.

06:46:02.860 Jalapeno.

06:46:04.080 Jalapeno chips.

06:46:05.440 That's what's up.

06:46:08.040 Hold on, guys.

06:46:08.780 I'm getting a couple things

06:46:09.620 figured out here.

06:46:10.380 Before, Nick,

06:46:11.260 can you pull up?

06:46:12.520 Psycho donated $30.

06:46:13.380 Before you go,

06:46:13.420 we'll do the Twitch.

06:46:14.420 Brian, why you know

06:46:15.800 date Ava?

06:46:16.800 She seems first class

06:46:18.240 and voluptuous.

06:46:19.700 Voluptuous.

06:46:20.280 No, that was like,

06:46:21.640 she's taking it.

06:46:22.580 Ava's not single.

06:46:24.060 I am not single.

06:46:26.700 But thank you.

06:46:27.640 I only date men.

06:46:28.340 Just kidding.

06:46:29.680 True.

06:46:30.400 True.

06:46:30.980 Nice.

06:46:31.200 True.

06:46:33.040 Nick, could you pull up

06:46:33.940 Twitch, guys?

06:46:34.860 Go to twitch.tv

06:46:35.560 slash whatever.

06:46:37.680 Morphin donated $100.

06:46:39.580 No, you're a Power Ranger.

06:46:40.500 I'm a woman.

06:46:41.360 Ha ha.

06:46:42.400 Mighty Morphin Power Rangers.

06:46:44.780 J Morphin.

06:46:45.920 Wait, what was that meme?

06:46:47.380 It's Morphin Time.

06:46:48.700 Yeah.

06:46:49.700 What was that from?

06:46:51.260 Power Rangers.

06:46:51.840 It's Morphin Time.

06:46:52.500 Oh, no.

06:46:54.000 Ninja Turtles, right?

06:46:55.140 No, no, no.

06:46:55.500 It was like some other

06:46:56.040 thing recently.

06:46:56.740 Oh, I don't know that.

06:46:57.460 Who's that guy from

06:46:58.340 Fike?

06:47:01.520 Who's the 30 Seconds to Mars?

06:47:03.240 What's his name?

06:47:04.880 Now I don't know

06:47:05.460 where you're going.

06:47:05.840 Nobody?

06:47:06.600 The Rosetta Stone

06:47:07.820 donated $30.

06:47:08.380 We'll get in just a sec, Nick,

06:47:09.180 if you can.

06:47:09.820 $35 trillion in national debit.

06:47:12.760 More than $1 per known galaxies.

06:47:14.720 Wait, guys.

06:47:15.420 Sobering thought.

06:47:16.840 Redress, be patient 1.00

06:47:17.820 and you'll eventually meet him.

06:47:20.000 Self-assessed as a five.

06:47:21.260 personality ads points.

06:47:23.320 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:47:25.180 Drops a follow.

06:47:25.760 Drops a prime sub.

06:47:27.100 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:47:28.420 And then discord.

06:47:29.100 Discord.gg slash whatever.

06:47:30.520 Drops a follow.

06:47:31.720 Join the discord.

06:47:32.680 Excuse me.

06:47:33.260 Discord.gg slash whatever.

06:47:35.180 We post BTS stuff on there.

06:47:37.340 And thank you, guys.

06:47:38.260 Appreciate it.

06:47:38.800 Thank you for the comment.

06:47:39.660 Shaking video?

06:47:40.840 What's that?

06:47:41.380 Is that the literally shaking video?

06:47:42.280 That's the literally shaking video.

06:47:43.640 Josh donated $30.

06:47:45.060 Yo, thank you, Josh.

06:47:45.780 About time roasts.

06:47:47.380 Pearl, we got some things to talk about

06:47:49.440 before you rage quit

06:47:50.620 and have that nice quiet ride home

06:47:52.540 wondering why you ever even said yes to tonight.

06:47:55.560 To start, I'm happy you got exposed.

06:47:58.620 What?

06:48:01.620 Did Pearl get exposed?

06:48:03.200 I don't think so.

06:48:03.900 Maybe just my opinions or something.

06:48:07.320 Just like who I am.

06:48:08.300 I don't think you got exposed or anything.

06:48:10.040 I've been exposed.

06:48:11.640 Exposed?

06:48:12.320 Guys, TTS is 30.

06:48:13.560 Get them in.

06:48:14.100 Roast.

06:48:14.440 Last call.

06:48:15.300 Get your roasts in.

06:48:16.480 We'll do a short roast session.

06:48:17.640 Get them in.

06:48:19.000 Get them in.

06:48:21.060 If you want.

06:48:22.100 I'm still getting that all figured out here.

06:48:24.340 Hold on.

06:48:24.640 Let me see if I can link it up.

06:48:27.200 Maddie, what you got for us, M-Dog?

06:48:30.940 What's the question you really want to ask the panel, Maddie?

06:48:33.720 What's your body count?

06:48:35.200 I have no idea.

06:48:38.980 You want to ask it?

06:48:39.980 Go ahead, Maddie.

06:48:40.640 I just did.

06:48:41.700 I don't think they heard you.

06:48:43.580 It's everyone's body count.

06:48:44.920 Why you got to whisper it, Maddie?

06:48:46.120 Say it in your chest.

06:48:47.640 Jared Leto.

06:48:48.160 Thank you.

06:48:48.700 He donated $69.

06:48:50.900 It's Jared Leto Bottle Bop.

06:48:52.940 Wait, do you know how to sing their song,

06:48:54.880 the 30 Seconds to Mart?

06:48:56.000 30 Seconds.

06:48:57.120 30.

06:48:59.180 Is it seconds?

06:49:00.500 Plural or 30 seconds?

06:49:01.600 30 Seconds to Mart.

06:49:02.760 What's their song, the 30?

06:49:05.780 What's that song from 30 Seconds to Mars?

06:49:09.240 The Kill.

06:49:10.200 Do you know how to sing The Kill?

06:49:11.440 Here, I'll give you the lyrics.

06:49:13.020 You ready?

06:49:13.740 No.

06:49:14.920 Come on.

06:49:15.720 Don't be a party pooper.

06:49:17.380 I think that was my main purpose on this whole show, actually.

06:49:21.980 You got one freebie singing at the beginning.

06:49:24.280 I am finished with you.

06:49:27.040 Thank you.

06:49:27.600 Come on, Briggs.

06:49:30.640 Actually, because I don't know it for real.

06:49:31.860 Ron underscore Briggs donated $30.

06:49:34.820 To circle back to the start, it is absolutely a woman's choice to wear a bikini to a pool party 1.00

06:49:40.580 without her man, but she also has to accept the consequences of that choice.

06:49:45.540 Choose better ladies. 1.00

06:49:47.200 Well put.

06:49:48.100 Well put, Ron Briggs.

06:49:49.660 That was beautiful.

06:49:52.160 Madison, ask the question, Maddie.

06:49:54.920 What's your body count?

06:49:55.860 Ooga booga.

06:49:59.100 Mystery 980.

06:50:00.040 Thanks for the New Zealand 30.

06:50:01.660 Appreciate it.

06:50:03.600 Appreciate it, Maddie.

06:50:04.940 Wait, can I do it?

06:50:05.640 Can anybody do a Kiwi accent?

06:50:07.600 Appreciate it.

06:50:08.720 Okay.

06:50:09.020 That's good.

06:50:10.440 That's Australian.

06:50:11.800 Oh.

06:50:11.960 That's different than Kiwi. 0.88

06:50:15.360 Think you?

06:50:17.300 Think you, Min?

06:50:18.120 It's Kiwi.

06:50:19.220 What's Kiwi?

06:50:20.820 New Zealand.

06:50:22.000 New Zealand.

06:50:22.420 Oh.

06:50:22.840 Thank you?

06:50:23.860 Thank you, Mystery 980?

06:50:27.480 Oh my God. 0.97

06:50:28.080 What the fuck did that turn into? 1.00

06:50:30.660 Thank you? 0.99

06:50:32.000 Oh, it's funny.

06:50:33.120 Appreciate it, bro.

06:50:34.080 $30 TTS.

06:50:35.260 Last call.

06:50:36.140 Get them in, boys.

06:50:37.300 Get them in.

06:50:38.440 If you...

06:50:39.440 Came out of nowhere. 1.00

06:50:43.460 Fucking fly, bro. 1.00

06:50:48.660 Maddie asked body count. 1.00

06:50:50.460 Going around the table, does body count matter?

06:50:52.260 No comment.

06:50:54.220 Jordan?

06:50:54.620 Not answering.

06:50:55.900 Matters.

06:50:56.600 Matters.

06:50:58.220 What does that mean?

06:50:59.900 How many sexual partners?

06:51:01.760 I don't care.

06:51:03.860 Three.

06:51:05.420 Oh, okay.

06:51:05.940 Oh.

06:51:08.160 No comment.

06:51:09.820 Yeah, I'm not answering and it doesn't matter.

06:51:13.100 But if it doesn't matter, wouldn't you answer?

06:51:16.140 If it didn't matter?

06:51:17.240 No, it doesn't matter what the other person says.

06:51:19.220 Oh, okay.

06:51:20.800 Word.

06:51:23.700 Jordan?

06:51:24.660 Body count?

06:51:25.440 Pearl body count?

06:51:26.260 What?

06:51:27.120 I said...

06:51:27.700 Pay? Body count?

06:51:28.300 Seven.

06:51:28.980 Seven?

06:51:30.640 Oh yeah, still no comment.

06:51:32.120 Vector donated $30.

06:51:33.740 There you have it, folks.

06:51:34.360 Brian McDumpy.

06:51:35.660 You bring on the most interesting women, like this Jim Pearl. 0.99

06:51:39.880 It exemplifies what happens when Christianity meets secularism.

06:51:44.300 Andrew would have made her go home early on.

06:51:47.380 Brian McDumpy?

06:51:48.920 People say I have a dumpy.

06:51:50.260 I've been waiting to do one with Andrew on.

06:51:52.260 You haven't been on with Andrew?

06:51:55.320 No.

06:51:55.700 You've never been on... 1.00

06:51:56.600 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:51:57.140 No. 1.00

06:51:57.600 She's always on with Q.

06:51:58.780 She's the older guy?

06:51:59.540 That's funny.

06:52:00.120 Haven't you been on like four times?

06:52:01.260 Is this four?

06:52:02.560 This makes four.

06:52:05.000 And all four times.

06:52:06.420 No, Andrew.

06:52:07.280 We'll get you on with Andrew.

06:52:08.340 How about that?

06:52:08.720 But I did three with Q, Pill.

06:52:10.800 Q?

06:52:11.160 You've been on three with Q?

06:52:12.400 All three. 0.91

06:52:13.160 How am I fucking up to schedule? 0.73

06:52:13.880 I was wondering if he was going to be here today. 0.95

06:52:15.500 Because I was like, this is too much of a quink. 1.00

06:52:16.780 That would be funny.

06:52:17.340 I have a little quinkydink.

06:52:18.960 We'll get you on with Andrew one of these days.

06:52:21.360 Okay.

06:52:22.360 I'm surprised it hasn't happened just randomly.

06:52:24.600 I love watching him.

06:52:25.500 Not even virtually?

06:52:27.160 No.

06:52:27.540 She hasn't been on.

06:52:28.740 No.

06:52:29.740 Normally the ones I watch of him, he's virtually on.

06:52:32.540 Pearl, you want to come back and be on with Andrew?

06:52:34.980 I don't know who that is, but it sounds scary.

06:52:36.940 She's down.

06:52:38.180 She's interesting.

06:52:40.180 Guys, last call on the TTS.

06:52:41.840 If you want to do a little roast session.

06:52:43.880 Last call on the TTS here.

06:52:47.380 Who am I going to rate on Twitch?

06:52:49.480 Who are we going to rate on Twitch?

06:52:51.340 Let's see.

06:52:51.820 With that knock?

06:52:53.300 That's weird.

06:52:54.540 Final thoughts from anybody?

06:52:56.240 Bone once?

06:52:57.520 Bone twice?

06:52:58.880 Jordan, what you got for us, Jordan?

06:53:00.280 Pearl, what you got for us?

06:53:01.640 I have to pee.

06:53:02.740 Ew.

06:53:03.140 Oh, that's my thought.

06:53:04.900 She's got a tinkle. 0.92

06:53:06.600 We've been here for like eight hours, y'all.

06:53:09.680 This is true.

06:53:10.880 This is a short stream, though.

06:53:12.300 It's a full shift.

06:53:14.660 This is one of our short ones.

06:53:16.360 We did a shift.

06:53:17.280 We did a full shift.

06:53:18.080 We did a shift together.

06:53:19.040 It's hard.

06:53:19.360 Josh donated $30.

06:53:21.920 Pearl, honestly, did you learn anything tonight, or will you still be on your current path to

06:53:27.120 loneliness?

06:53:27.800 Not lonely at all.

06:53:28.340 The chat and I are pretty sure you learned nothing and will be unhappy for most of your

06:53:32.340 life.

06:53:32.660 I'm very happy in my life.

06:53:35.040 Yo, Brian's Dumpy.

06:53:37.280 Thank you for the gifted.

06:53:38.840 Oh, that's Natalia. 0.99

06:53:40.040 Hey, Natalia.

06:53:41.180 Thank you for the 20 gifted memberships.

06:53:44.820 Appreciate it.

06:53:45.480 But you changed your name to Brian's Dumpy.

06:53:47.300 Thank you.

06:53:48.440 All right.

06:53:48.980 Appreciate it, Natalia.

06:53:50.240 Natalia, the OG.

06:53:52.200 Appreciate it.

06:53:53.920 Let's see here.

06:53:54.760 What do we have?

06:53:55.420 What do we have?

06:53:56.120 Is there anything else?

06:53:57.000 Oh, we didn't do the bear.

06:53:57.800 We'll do the bear really quick.

06:53:59.200 Would you rather be in a forest alone?

06:54:02.180 Sorry, hold on.

06:54:03.000 Would you rather be spawned in a forest with a random man or a random bear that you will

06:54:08.380 cross paths with?

06:54:12.220 That's a tough one.

06:54:13.080 Can I go last?

06:54:13.760 Actually, um...

06:54:14.480 You gotta go first.

06:54:15.420 Okay, yeah.

06:54:16.740 Bear.

06:54:18.880 Man.

06:54:19.940 Man.

06:54:20.980 Bear.

06:54:22.460 Bear.

06:54:23.480 Man.

06:54:24.500 Man.

06:54:25.280 Man.

06:54:26.300 Wait, bear, bear?

06:54:27.700 Why?

06:54:28.040 Why bear?

06:54:29.740 Let's have Liz go first. 1.00

06:54:30.540 I'm literally just going based off of that video because, I don't know, I'm getting nervous

06:54:34.720 to say man.

06:54:36.480 I feel like I have, like, a fighting chance with a bear for some reason.

06:54:40.420 I know I don't.

06:54:41.680 I know I don't.

06:54:42.940 I know.

06:54:43.520 I know I don't.

06:54:44.300 It's literally that TikTok.

06:54:45.560 Like, it was.

06:54:46.520 It used to be man.

06:54:47.980 And then I saw that TikTok and it, like, screwed with my head.

06:54:51.240 So, like, guys gotta...

06:54:52.720 You guys gotta, like, help me un-brainwash me from that video. 0.62

06:54:56.080 What the hell? 0.89

06:54:59.180 Oh. 0.98

06:55:00.020 Instantly man.

06:55:01.220 Suddenly.

06:55:04.180 Okay.

06:55:04.940 Scuba Beast donated $29.99.

06:55:09.280 Kiwi, you're a legend.

06:55:11.060 Did not mean to clip that.

06:55:12.720 Wait, what?

06:55:13.460 Kiwi, you're a legend, Scuba Beast.

06:55:16.960 You're a legend?

06:55:18.100 Oh, my. 1.00

06:55:18.480 What the fuck was that? 0.99

06:55:24.880 So, anyways, back to the Salabia thing. 1.00

06:55:27.020 Oh, my gosh.

06:55:27.980 Hi, Lord.

06:55:29.300 How did we get here?

06:55:30.760 Nope.

06:55:31.680 Which one of my life decisions did this to me?

06:55:39.580 It was a joke.

06:55:41.060 Joke on y'all. 0.96

06:55:41.980 Y'all crazy. 0.90

06:55:42.480 I'll wrap the show once the two urinating people are back from the bathroom or whatever. 1.00

06:55:51.300 Once they're back, we wrap.

06:55:53.060 The urinating people. 0.67

06:55:54.040 I was getting a drink.

06:55:54.840 I was not urinating.

06:55:56.080 Yeah.

06:55:56.900 All right, guys.

06:55:57.660 Last call.

06:55:58.620 If you guys want to get a little roast session.

06:56:02.720 Last call.

06:56:03.540 Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.

06:56:05.700 Let's see.

06:56:06.700 What other questions do I have?

06:56:08.260 Wait, Pearl, come back so you can respond.

06:56:24.200 What did he say?

06:56:25.240 Here, I'll play it again.

06:56:25.960 Josh donated $30.

06:56:31.740 So, that's a nothing then, Pearl.

06:56:34.180 Hey, you should plug your music, you vapid 304. 1.00

06:56:38.000 What are you going to do to make money when that backfires?

06:56:41.700 What does you vapid 304 mean?

06:56:44.360 That's an area code.

06:56:45.880 It's an insult.

06:56:47.020 304 means like a...

06:56:48.320 It's an area code.

06:56:49.260 H-O-E. 0.97

06:56:49.940 It's in Virginia.

06:56:51.320 Oh, okay.

06:56:52.340 Thank you for the...

06:56:55.440 Yeah, follow me on Spotify, PearlBots.

06:57:03.440 Yeet.

06:57:04.440 That's crazy.

06:57:07.660 Okay.

06:57:09.400 No other final thoughts?

06:57:10.980 All right, we'll wrap.

06:57:11.880 We'll wrap there if you guys want.

06:57:13.880 Okay, who am I going to rate on Twitch?

06:57:15.580 Let me get that figured out really quick.

06:57:17.260 Ron underscore Briggs donated $30.

06:57:19.400 The women that won't answer body count know Thea's is too high to get a good man if they 1.00

06:57:24.960 revealed it.

06:57:26.260 Only those with low body count aren't afraid to say. 0.67

06:57:29.800 Most modern women are strumpets hashtag less than 10. 1.00

06:57:33.380 Definitely not true. 0.82

06:57:34.320 You're only saying that to get in a reaction.

06:57:36.440 And also married.

06:57:38.860 So, not looking for a man.

06:57:42.620 Cool.

06:57:43.660 Oh, we got another one.

06:57:44.200 Hey! 0.99

06:57:44.500 Hey, look who it is.

06:57:47.240 The difference between most men and women is guys will call out other guys if they are 0.81

06:57:51.640 growing dumpy, but women will lie and gas each other up. 1.00

06:57:55.000 You go, girl. 0.98

06:57:56.040 You're a 10. 1.00

06:57:57.300 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

06:57:59.180 L. 1.00

06:58:01.400 Also, I wonder, like, if a guy called me fat, I wouldn't be offended.

06:58:06.300 But I feel like if you call a girl fat, she'd be really upset by that.

06:58:09.920 You'd be like, okay.

06:58:10.960 I'd be like, you're right. 1.00

06:58:12.200 Hey, I'm a piece of shit. 1.00

06:58:14.380 I need to lose weight. 1.00

06:58:16.840 I mean, I feel like if you have, like, if you have a really good friend, you're honest

06:58:23.200 with each other.

06:58:23.900 Yeah.

06:58:24.980 They just don't put it on blast.

06:58:26.960 But you're not going to blast them or you're not going to make them feel bad.

06:58:30.220 Again, delivery is important.

06:58:31.880 I also think you should be able to look at yourself and be like, okay, do I need to lose

06:58:36.540 weight?

06:58:36.800 Like, I should, like, everyone should be working out, but especially if you're gaining a lot

06:58:42.020 of weight, like, you should be looking at yourself and realizing that you need to start

06:58:45.660 working out and eating better.

06:58:47.560 I think girls are very aware of that. 1.00

06:58:48.800 How do you tell a girlfriend that she's fat? 0.99

06:58:50.960 She knows.

06:58:51.580 She already knows.

06:58:52.420 Yeah, she would know.

06:58:53.540 But how do you, like, comfortingly say that?

06:58:59.180 It's more of an encouragement.

06:59:00.480 Hey, you've been eating a lot of fried foods.

06:59:03.580 You really have been just being really lazy.

06:59:06.120 No.

06:59:06.320 You need to start working on yourself or I'm not going to be with you anymore.

06:59:09.600 Or is it more just like, you should come in a gym.

06:59:11.580 Oh, it's a lot of encouragement for sure.

06:59:13.480 It's more like encouragement to, like, take them to eat better.

06:59:17.660 Did you mean friend or relationship?

06:59:19.500 Sure.

06:59:19.520 Be active.

06:59:20.140 Friend.

06:59:20.820 Oh, that's my bad.

06:59:22.100 It's harder for girls to say that's good. 1.00

06:59:24.480 If it's your friend, I would just, if my friend was getting really big, I would just straight

06:59:30.240 up tell her, like, I'm not good at being like, oh, blah, blah, blah.

06:59:33.280 I would be like, you're getting fat.

06:59:35.420 And I would want her to tell me the same way.

06:59:37.300 Like, girl, you're a family.

06:59:38.400 Mr. Blade donated $30 and one cent.

06:59:40.460 Well, another way to do it is to try to get them to go on a hike with you.

06:59:41.180 I would say, hey, you want to go on a hike?

06:59:43.740 I would say, hey, you want to go on a hike?

06:59:45.660 Try our new scent, Grid One Motorsports.

06:59:48.820 With aromas from sheet metal and motor oil, you're a man every time you wash.

06:59:53.240 I like it.

06:59:53.660 Try it today.

06:59:55.380 Last two questions.

06:59:56.640 Do you want to date an average man?

06:59:58.900 No.

06:59:59.740 No.

07:00:00.680 Yes.

07:00:01.700 Yes.

07:00:03.760 Yes.

07:00:04.600 Yeah.

07:00:05.340 No.

07:00:08.380 Okay.

07:00:11.020 Okay.

07:00:12.140 Wait, can you eat average?

07:00:13.800 Yeah.

07:00:14.940 Average personality, average looks, average job, average height, average pee-pee size.

07:00:23.660 If you're average, then you have to.

07:00:25.640 If you're good with like a few of those.

07:00:26.980 Which ones?

07:00:27.580 Like average height, average pee-pee.

07:00:31.680 Oh.

07:00:32.200 Like all that, like that's fine.

07:00:33.700 If his personality is above average for pee-pee.

07:00:35.600 Your man donated $30.

07:00:37.140 Yeah.

07:00:37.380 Yeah.

07:00:37.900 W's on Ava edition.

07:00:39.780 Muscle mommies are a huge dub. 1.00

07:00:42.180 Ava, would you say your man is jacked, tan, and juicy?

07:00:46.420 Are we going to get a tri's? 0.88

07:00:48.100 Can we see tri's? 0.88

07:00:48.800 I'm still working on my tri's.

07:00:50.800 Where is it?

07:00:51.760 I see.

07:00:52.080 There you go.

07:00:52.520 Okay.

07:00:53.140 I do have like, I do have biceps.

07:00:55.720 Hello. 0.99

07:00:56.640 Damn, Ava. 1.00

07:00:57.380 I'm kind of jacked. 1.00

07:00:58.740 You are jacked. 0.98

07:00:59.660 I'm low-key.

07:01:01.280 I'd be curling 30s, 35s.

07:01:02.760 Can you do a most muscular?

07:01:04.300 No.

07:01:04.920 Do most muscular.

07:01:05.580 I haven't mastered that pose.

07:01:07.460 Can we, do you want to show the quads?

07:01:09.940 Do you compete?

07:01:10.420 Do you want to do the quads?

07:01:13.660 Do you compete for information?

07:01:14.940 I can't even, I'm too short.

07:01:17.320 No, you just got to stand up.

07:01:18.240 Do you want to do the, what's it called?

07:01:19.840 You won't be able to see if she's wearing black. 1.00

07:01:21.740 That is true.

07:01:23.000 Yeah.

07:01:23.420 I can show my quads another time when they're out.

07:01:27.660 Wear some bright pants the next time.

07:01:30.000 I actually like only wear bright clothes.

07:01:34.180 Cool.

07:01:34.680 He asked me if my man was what? 0.99

07:01:37.460 Jacked, jacked, tan, and juicy. 0.99

07:01:41.900 She said he was ripped earlier. 0.94

07:01:43.280 He's got like an eight pack.

07:01:45.720 Ooh.

07:01:46.280 Yeah, he's, he's. 0.92

07:01:47.440 What the heck? 0.93

07:01:47.980 There you go. 0.98

07:01:48.640 I, okay, like it just.

07:01:50.420 All right.

07:01:50.960 We go way back, but I just got lucky.

07:01:53.780 She got lucky.

07:01:54.600 Yeah.

07:01:54.920 She got lucky.

07:01:55.940 Ron underscore Briggs donated $30.

07:01:58.800 I once told a girl she should shave her upper lip before it became more noticeable. 0.95

07:02:03.680 I thought I was looking out.

07:02:05.440 But she got upset.

07:02:07.540 Ladies, how would you take this? 0.75

07:02:09.600 How would you say it nicer?

07:02:11.260 That's the difficult thing that we were saying earlier is women want you, they say they want 1.00

07:02:16.580 you to tell them the truth.

07:02:17.660 And then when you do, they get offended by it.

07:02:19.940 If that's not what they want to hear.

07:02:21.420 It's true.

07:02:21.900 Period.

07:02:22.180 She just knows how to do it. 0.93

07:02:23.500 My husband told me.

07:02:24.820 Period.

07:02:25.480 No, that's the thing is if you know that you can trust the guy that you're with.

07:02:29.200 Okay, fine.

07:02:29.820 Wait, here's a really difficult one.

07:02:32.740 Here's a really difficult one.

07:02:38.020 Spider-Man.

07:02:40.560 Spider-Man.

07:02:42.760 How do you tell a girl that she smells down there?

07:02:49.560 Oh my gosh.

07:02:51.460 Like how do you...

07:02:53.200 She should know.

07:02:54.620 You should tell her.

07:02:55.880 No, but sometimes they don't.

07:02:58.500 Sometimes they don't know.

07:03:00.360 And you've been with women like that?

07:03:01.900 Because they should...

07:03:02.800 I think all of us at this table would agree you should know yourself.

07:03:05.700 Not unless she has COVID and she doesn't have that smell.

07:03:06.640 Guess what I did last night.

07:03:08.260 Oh my gosh.

07:03:10.520 I think all of us women at the table agree that you should know personally if you smell

07:03:15.980 down there.

07:03:16.440 Right.

07:03:17.020 It's easy to know.

07:03:18.360 And if you don't, she's just not hygienic. 1.00

07:03:21.540 Sometimes they don't.

07:03:22.060 Yeah, no, if she doesn't know, she's not hygienic.

07:03:23.760 Maybe she is correct. 0.95

07:03:24.600 Maddie's correct.

07:03:24.680 Probably don't want to.

07:03:25.420 And if that's the case, then don't go on a second date or don't...

07:03:30.040 What if she's a nice girl but she doesn't know the right thing? 0.95

07:03:31.740 There could be something wrong with her PhD.

07:03:33.580 You're going to have to have that conversation.

07:03:34.960 You're going to have to have that conversation with her at some point.

07:03:37.320 Have you already had to tell a woman that? 0.91

07:03:39.900 Yes.

07:03:41.080 We need to hear how you told her.

07:03:43.040 You need to tell us.

07:03:44.500 Wait, I have the text message.

07:03:46.040 Hold on.

07:03:46.160 Yes.

07:03:46.740 Please tell us.

07:03:47.680 Wait, what?

07:03:48.600 On text?

07:03:49.460 Hold on.

07:03:49.980 Let me try to find this.

07:03:50.920 Why would he not do it in person?

07:03:51.300 Hey, he just sends a fishing poochie.

07:03:53.820 Oh, my gosh.

07:03:55.900 It was actually...

07:03:56.620 I had to Google how to do it.

07:03:58.680 Oh, my gosh.

07:04:00.080 Chat GVT.

07:04:01.260 What do I tell my girlfriend?

07:04:03.300 Oh.

07:04:04.060 I think I used the...

07:04:04.860 I'm trying to search for this.

07:04:05.900 Why do you have the text saved?

07:04:07.380 I used the word sent.

07:04:09.560 If I was...

07:04:10.180 You just tell her.

07:04:11.020 Okay, here we go.

07:04:11.880 Okay.

07:04:12.220 Hold on.

07:04:12.520 I'm going to read the text.

07:04:13.420 Yes.

07:04:14.020 I'm going to read the text how I told this girl.

07:04:15.640 Wait, what text?

07:04:16.420 I sent her a text that...

07:04:17.500 She smelled down there.

07:04:18.740 Oh.

07:04:19.300 Yeah.

07:04:19.840 Okay.

07:04:20.240 Okay.

07:04:20.460 You guys are going to like this, though.

07:04:21.460 I think I was very good about it.

07:04:23.560 Okay?

07:04:23.760 I was very nice.

07:04:24.500 You did?

07:04:24.920 But why through text?

07:04:25.900 Okay.

07:04:26.220 I said...

07:04:26.840 It's so long.

07:04:27.620 Terrible.

07:04:27.960 Okay.

07:04:28.960 Hold on.

07:04:30.440 This is going to be sort of embarrassing for me, but I'm just going to do it.

07:04:33.840 Okay.

07:04:34.040 Do it.

07:04:34.780 I said, I know this is kind of an embarrassing topic, and I'm sorry for that, but last time

07:04:39.660 we hung out, I noticed a different scent down there than the last time, and I wanted

07:04:44.100 to make sure you were aware of it.

07:04:45.840 Just maybe something to bring up with your gyno, potentially.

07:04:50.340 I hope this is not embarrassing, but just thought you should know so you can address any

07:04:54.140 potential issues.

07:04:55.400 Maybe it's nothing, but figured I should say something.

07:04:57.840 You really did your big one.

07:04:58.920 You justified it.

07:05:00.420 No.

07:05:00.560 That was so good.

07:05:01.680 That was so good.

07:05:02.980 That was a really good way to say it, honestly.

07:05:05.160 However, not through text.

07:05:08.080 You should have just...

07:05:08.800 I thought it would be more embarrassing.

07:05:10.140 Text is better.

07:05:10.800 I feel like it would be more than text is better.

07:05:12.660 Also, I was kind of smiling.

07:05:14.760 Because it's indirect.

07:05:15.780 Yeah.

07:05:16.100 I was smiling when I was saying it, but I mean, I was being genuine.

07:05:19.100 No, but not even that, too.

07:05:20.180 If he's not, like, with her.

07:05:21.580 Was that good?

07:05:22.380 I thought that was good.

07:05:23.120 Oh, I know.

07:05:23.160 I thought that was, like, a casual thing.

07:05:25.600 That was very respectful.

07:05:26.560 But that was good.

07:05:27.360 Good communication.

07:05:28.080 It was good.

07:05:28.740 Good communication.

07:05:29.160 That was very good.

07:05:30.300 I'm not going to give her a whole round of a minute. 0.72

07:05:30.840 Respond.

07:05:32.000 Yeah, did she...

07:05:32.760 Well, here's the problem, right?

07:05:34.240 So, let me look at it.

07:05:35.280 Oh, no.

07:05:36.480 You guys broke up.

07:05:37.460 Blocked.

07:05:38.580 Blocked is crazy.

07:05:40.120 That was crazy.

07:05:40.880 So, this was kind of like a sort of long...

07:05:43.920 Like, she lived in L.A.

07:05:45.360 I lived here.

07:05:46.300 And then she was like, oh, it's okay.

07:05:49.140 It's kind of a long drive anyways.

07:05:51.800 That was her response?

07:05:53.060 Yeah.

07:05:53.680 So, we...

07:05:54.380 Yeah.

07:05:55.280 You never saw her again?

07:05:56.140 Never saw her again.

07:05:56.720 Would you hit again, though?

07:05:58.280 Yikes.

07:05:58.940 What do you mean?

07:05:59.640 That's good.

07:06:00.320 Would you?

07:06:00.780 Would you hit again?

07:06:02.060 Like, if it was, like...

07:06:02.940 I think just no matter...

07:06:04.220 Whatever you say or how you phrase it, some girl's gonna feel some type of way about it. 0.98

07:06:08.760 Yeah.

07:06:08.900 But honestly...

07:06:09.180 Even if you tell her, don't feel embarrassed, she's gonna feel embarrassed.

07:06:12.120 I hope she did...

07:06:12.980 Justin Martens donated $30.

07:06:15.100 Great show tonight, Brian.

07:06:17.100 Nine out of ten panel.

07:06:18.620 Ten out of ten if Pearl had a sense of humor. 0.87

07:06:21.540 Oh, she was mostly good.

07:06:24.440 The one thing I took out of that is I really do hope...

07:06:27.220 The GMD gym donated $30.

07:06:30.180 Brickson, you are not fat. 0.59

07:06:32.320 It is just that dumpy. 0.84

07:06:33.900 Hit the gym, bro.

07:06:34.800 Thank you, Jim.

07:06:35.580 Women never want to hear the truth. 1.00

07:06:37.920 I just let them live in their DeLulu. 0.71

07:06:40.840 DeLulu.

07:06:41.740 He's not fat.

07:06:41.940 He's just talked about lying.

07:06:43.440 But the one thing I did take from that is I do hope that she is going to her gyno.

07:06:49.300 Because it's not like a man would actually say that to a woman unless he truly meant it. 1.00

07:06:54.400 So I hope she didn't just take it as like, oh, he's being rude or whatever, and she actually is going like...

07:06:59.480 It's up to her.

07:07:00.260 Because you know what blows my mind, actually, that I've learned recently?

07:07:04.400 Like, from people that I went on dates with or whatever, when any of the conversation...

07:07:11.160 Like, a lot of men, if you ask them, like, if you've ever been checked for anything, or like, oh, like, I really don't want to do anything with you unless I know that you've been checked.

07:07:22.820 Like, and they've never been checked in their life for anything.

07:07:25.820 They've never had an STD test.

07:07:28.100 They've never...

07:07:29.420 Women, too. 0.99

07:07:30.440 Like, so many people just go and do a bunch of things with people and never even think to get themselves checked or anything.

07:07:37.220 And that, like, blows my mind.

07:07:38.780 It's valid.

07:07:39.260 It's super valid.

07:07:40.140 If you have, like, very few partners or just one, you should still get checked.

07:07:43.000 You should always get checked.

07:07:44.160 Exactly.

07:07:44.780 Always.

07:07:45.660 Always.

07:07:46.740 Good thing to end on.

07:07:48.660 Yeah, true.

07:07:49.540 Thank you.

07:07:49.820 Good thing to end on.

07:07:51.000 Also, I think somebody said earlier that I have fake eyebrows.

07:07:54.980 First of all, these are not fake.

07:07:57.160 These are all real.

07:07:58.040 They're tattooed.

07:07:59.440 They are not tattooed.

07:08:00.240 Can I see?

07:08:00.560 I'm kidding.

07:08:00.840 Really?

07:08:02.680 No, they're just very well...

07:08:04.920 A lot of hair.

07:08:05.340 What's it called?

07:08:06.160 Waxed.

07:08:07.200 Threaded.

07:08:07.600 I get them threaded.

07:08:08.940 That's good.

07:08:11.140 Final question.

07:08:13.000 Final question.

07:08:14.280 Promise.

07:08:16.940 What year was World War I?

07:08:21.360 What years were World War I?

07:08:24.060 Go ahead, Pearl.

07:08:25.120 Starting with you.

07:08:25.560 I actually don't know.

07:08:26.440 I actually don't know.

07:08:27.000 Give us a decade.

07:08:28.100 You want to...

07:08:28.420 No.

07:08:28.500 I'm not going to...

07:08:29.500 Decade?

07:08:29.540 Decade.

07:08:29.860 Pearl.

07:08:30.400 Pearl decade.

07:08:31.560 Decade, Pearl.

07:08:32.440 Pearl decade. 1.00

07:08:33.120 It's just to make us look stupid. 1.00

07:08:34.360 No. 0.99

07:08:34.840 It's to make you guys look smart because you're all historic historians.

07:08:38.380 This is going to...

07:08:39.100 This is...

07:08:39.420 Y'all watch the hit...

07:08:40.320 I think I might know.

07:08:40.960 Yo, shout out Mark Felton Productions.

07:08:44.440 I think I might know.

07:08:46.640 Shout out Mark Felton Productions.

07:08:48.960 Any Mark Felton Productions enjoyers in the chat?

07:08:52.040 My husband would be...

07:08:53.080 It started...

07:08:53.840 He's more of a World War II guy, though.

07:08:55.880 18.

07:08:56.940 Okay, Jordan, what years were World War I?

07:09:01.460 18th century something.

07:09:02.980 18th century, okay.

07:09:04.620 I think...

07:09:05.500 I could be mixing it up, but I think it is 1913.

07:09:09.200 To when?

07:09:10.380 1917.

07:09:11.840 Okay.

07:09:12.300 What about you?

07:09:13.400 1918.

07:09:15.720 Give me start and date.

07:09:17.000 Oh.

07:09:18.080 Start date.

07:09:18.540 End date?

07:09:22.660 Okay.

07:09:23.080 What about you?

07:09:23.800 I really couldn't tell.

07:09:24.760 You got this, Liz.

07:09:25.620 Come on.

07:09:26.360 They teach us in car wrapping school.

07:09:27.920 Early 1900s is all I'm going to throw out there.

07:09:30.580 That's where car wrapping came from, World War I.

07:09:34.080 18 something.

07:09:35.600 18, sorry, 1800s?

07:09:37.280 18 something.

07:09:38.580 Do you want to take a crack?

07:09:40.200 Like early 1800s or late 1800s?

07:09:42.780 Also that, yeah, that's what I was going to say.

07:09:44.060 Maddie?

07:09:44.260 I meant 1918.

07:09:46.620 To...

07:09:47.260 19 what?

07:09:48.200 1918 to 1924.

07:09:50.820 Okay, Ava, what about you?

07:09:52.500 19...

07:09:52.860 Go ahead, Ava.

07:09:54.680 Into the mic.

07:09:55.240 Say clear for the audience.

07:09:57.740 Ron underscore Briggs donated $30.

07:10:00.900 Actual modern dating question.

07:10:03.360 My last GF told me she didn't like giving head.

07:10:06.760 Later she said she didn't like the hair, so I shaved.

07:10:09.600 Then she said it was weird shaved.

07:10:11.980 Prefer pubes or not? 0.95

07:10:13.520 Prefer.

07:10:13.900 Why?

07:10:15.720 Preferé.

07:10:16.280 Preferé.

07:10:16.840 That was better than the Kiwi accent you did.

07:10:21.060 That was so good.

07:10:22.180 Oh, okay.

07:10:23.880 Preferé.

07:10:25.400 Okay, Frenchman over here.

07:10:27.040 Okay.

07:10:28.100 I do speak French, though.

07:10:29.800 You really do?

07:10:30.460 You do?

07:10:30.980 Oh my gosh, say something.

07:10:32.560 She donated $30.

07:10:34.820 No one defend Burl.

07:10:36.300 Her and her Sandy Oyster need to leave. 0.92

07:10:39.140 Everyone on the panel did phenomenally, but Burl is just radar dead.

07:10:42.840 What do you think it is?

07:10:43.820 Go get checked, Burl.

07:10:45.320 Checked into the psych ward one point.

07:10:46.960 You know what?

07:10:47.400 Don't like it till you try it.

07:10:48.680 What's that?

07:10:49.180 Come on.

07:10:50.220 It just sounds funny.

07:10:51.700 Checked into the...

07:10:53.300 I'm going to co-opt that one.

07:10:55.540 Sandy Oyster.

07:10:56.940 Thank you, Josh.

07:10:57.920 You introduced me to a new word.

07:10:59.980 Ava, World War I?

07:11:01.160 Start, end date?

07:11:02.060 I forget.

07:11:03.540 I literally knew this recently, too.

07:11:06.900 And I watched this.

07:11:07.780 Tech it?

07:11:07.960 Well, early 1900s, Maddie was probably, like, right or almost right.

07:11:15.040 Is it 18 to 24?

07:11:16.980 What is it?

07:11:18.320 Yes, will you tell us, please?

07:11:19.600 I want to see if I'm right.

07:11:20.840 1914 to 1918.

07:11:22.360 I was close.

07:11:23.800 Indeed.

07:11:24.560 Indeed.

07:11:25.220 When was World War II?

07:11:27.080 1939 to 1945.

07:11:28.360 The Stoic Roman donated $69.

07:11:30.200 Oh, Stoic Roman. 0.98

07:11:31.440 1914 to 1918.

07:11:34.020 I need a brush up on my history.

07:11:35.000 That's why we're one year off at the beginning.

07:11:37.060 Good job.

07:11:38.840 Thanks.

07:11:39.300 You were actually the closest.

07:11:41.680 Yeah.

07:11:42.040 Because me and my dad have talked about that.

07:11:43.360 Okay, really quick for Ron's thing.

07:11:44.560 He's like, do you guys prefer a guy who, like, manscapes?

07:11:49.000 Shaves or not.

07:11:49.660 Yeah.

07:11:50.560 Or don't care?

07:11:52.100 Show of hands.

07:11:52.820 I think everyone should shave.

07:11:54.560 Show of hands.

07:11:55.140 I don't care.

07:11:56.240 He can be wild.

07:11:57.660 He can do whatever.

07:11:59.520 Pubes carry odor.

07:12:01.240 Just groomed.

07:12:01.800 Just groomed.

07:12:01.820 It doesn't need to be fully any which way.

07:12:04.620 Wait, so does that mean, so he has to be shaved and you have to be shaved?

07:12:08.960 Mm-hmm.

07:12:10.480 Okay.

07:12:11.700 Okay.

07:12:12.280 All right.

07:12:12.580 We're going to wrap the show there.

07:12:13.940 We're going to wrap the show there.

07:12:15.060 Appreciate it, guys.

07:12:15.620 Thank you for ending it in the perfect note.

07:12:18.100 Oh, my God.

07:12:18.120 Oh, a full workday.

07:12:19.980 I mean, like, groomed on a one or a two setting, not, like, bald.

07:12:24.320 With running water.

07:12:25.600 Oh, a full workday with running water and snacks.

07:12:29.080 We went through two bottles of toilet paper.

07:12:30.160 Oh, my God.

07:12:31.480 And the bathroom nearby.

07:12:32.760 Oh, my goodness.

07:12:33.180 I just outed it.

07:12:34.180 I just outed it.

07:12:35.780 Mark Felton has the best World War II channel on YouTube.

07:12:39.600 Good call, Brixen.

07:12:41.320 Great channel.

07:12:42.600 Great channel.

07:12:43.580 I give him the endorsement.

07:12:45.120 Give him the endorsement.

07:12:46.420 Oh, we got another one coming in.

07:12:47.820 This is for you, Jordan.

07:12:48.640 All right.

07:12:50.820 Jordan, I need to see proof on those eyebrows.

07:12:54.360 They look too perfect to be natural.

07:12:57.680 Hmm.

07:12:58.720 That's good.

07:12:59.620 Look at that.

07:13:00.500 Wow.

07:13:00.800 She just got that thick eyebrow hair. 1.00

07:13:03.240 I've always had very thick eyebrows.

07:13:06.060 I'm very natural and dark.

07:13:08.040 But whoever you go to does them very well.

07:13:10.360 Yeah, I get them threaded, cleaned up, you know, because I don't want, like, craziness.

07:13:14.140 That's good.

07:13:14.580 Because if I don't get them threaded, then they're pretty crazy.

07:13:16.900 You know Vegeta?

07:13:18.480 Mm-hmm.

07:13:19.460 Anyways.

07:13:20.600 From Naruto?

07:13:21.860 Huh?

07:13:22.260 From Naruto?

07:13:24.040 Hold on.

07:13:24.620 What?

07:13:25.160 Oh, wait.

07:13:26.180 Vegeta?

07:13:27.400 Wait, no, that's Dragon Ball.

07:13:29.140 Wait, that's Dragon Ball Z?

07:13:30.960 This guy, right here.

07:13:32.560 How could you say this? 1.00

07:13:33.960 That's fucking blasphemy. 1.00

07:13:36.440 Wait, hold on. 1.00

07:13:37.640 You should probably.

07:13:38.420 Oh, come on. 0.87

07:13:39.160 I'm not, like, an anime expert.

07:13:41.980 Okay.

07:13:42.660 All right.

07:13:43.480 So, I do want to say.

07:13:45.500 Well played.

07:13:48.500 Oh, wait.

07:13:49.040 Hold on.

07:13:49.780 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:13:50.460 My cousin's going to be laughing, like, really?

07:13:51.940 So, GG.

07:13:53.020 Well played.

07:13:54.060 To the panel.

07:13:54.680 Last call.

07:13:55.180 Hit the like button, please.

07:13:56.320 On your way out.

07:13:57.040 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

07:13:57.860 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

07:13:59.700 I appreciate that.

07:14:00.480 Thank you to everyone who.

07:14:05.820 Super chats, donates, and supports the show.

07:14:08.560 Super chats, donates, and supports the show.

07:14:10.540 I was waiting for the yellow one to be pulled up.

07:14:13.140 So, okay, you can put it on like the video at the top, very top.

07:14:20.040 Yeah, guys, like the video, please, on your way out, like I said.

07:14:24.100 We will be live again Tuesday at 5 p.m. Pacific.

07:14:26.140 Got a pretty good panel for that, assuming there's not flakes and no shows.

07:14:31.440 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram. 0.61

07:14:33.400 You can make it to San Barbara.

07:14:34.580 07's in the chat.

07:14:35.340 I hope you guys have a good night.

07:14:37.460 Let me do a quick raid on Twitch.

07:14:38.940 We're going to raid Frostodomus.

07:14:40.100 I can't pull it up, but he's playing World of Warcraft Classic.

07:14:43.480 He's playing hardcore on Defias Pillager.

07:14:46.700 He lives in Romania.

07:14:47.980 Tell him to say what's up to Andrew Tate, I guess.

07:14:54.040 Frostodomus lives in Romania.

07:14:55.340 He's got 15 viewers right now.

07:14:57.380 We're going to help the guy out.

07:14:59.320 So, those of you who watch on Twitch, thank you very much.

07:15:01.920 That raid is going to go out in seven seconds.

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07:15:12.000 We're trying to get to 100K before the end of the year.

07:15:14.100 We're like at 85K followers on Twitch.

07:15:16.440 And then if you have a prime sub, drop it too.

07:15:18.620 Okay, we're going to send the raid.

07:15:19.680 Thank you guys again for watching on Twitch.

07:15:21.400 Hope you guys enjoy Frostodomus playing World of Warcraft.

07:15:26.000 That sent.

07:15:27.260 Okay, 07's in the chat.

07:15:30.060 07's in the chat.

07:15:31.780 I hope you guys have a good night.

07:15:34.200 Have a great night.

07:15:35.300 And we will see you on Tuesday.

07:15:36.680 Good night, guys.

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