FINAL SHOW?! Goth Alt Catholic E-GIRL Came To DEBATE⧸DESTROY Brian? WOKE GIRLS! | Dating Talk 275
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In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we introduce ourselves and talk about our experiences with college and what we've learned from it. We also talk about what it's like being a millennial in the 21st century and how it's impacted our dating life.
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Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating
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hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. Before we get into a few quick announcements, I'm going to
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have the guests introduce themselves. So go ahead. Hi, my name is Amelia. I'm from Los Angeles.
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I'm 21. I'm a caretaker and a phlebotomist. All right. Caretaker, phlebotomist. And you also
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are a techno. What is in your thing? How do you describe yourself? It's just like an aesthetic.
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Like I like the cyber aesthetic. I do a lot of raves and festivals, things like that.
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Techno cyber doll, as you call it. Okay. So any college? I did some college. I did some nursing.
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I didn't complete it because I decided to go to trade instead, which was phlebotomy.
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I might return to nursing school in January or continue with medical assistant. I'm not quite
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sure yet. And you're from LA? I am German, but I live in LA, yes. But you were, were you born in
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Germany? No, my family was though. And my dad moved here when he was a baby. Because I detect a bit of
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an accent, although I can't quite place it. Do you speak German? A bisschen. Was German your first
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language? Yes. No, it was at the same time. I went to German school when I was a child. My family spoke
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German to me, but what's not practiced is lost as most things go. So. Oh, you, you went
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to a German school here in the United States? Yes. I see. Okay. So German was your first
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language? It was that, it was equal to English when I was growing up. Okay. Well, you used
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both. Yes. And then do you speak any other languages? A little bit of Spanish. A little
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bit of Spanish. Okay. And sorry, you grew up where? In California? I grew up in Los
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Angeles. Oh, in California. Gotcha. What about you? I'm Kaylee Jay. I'm 28. I'm a personal
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assistant and massage therapist. And I live in LA. I grew up in Southern Oregon though.
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All right. Any college education? No, no. I make music. Yeah. You make music? Yeah. You
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sing? You rap? I write and sing. Write and sing. Okay. I have some songs that I maybe rap a little
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bit on, but it's more of like a hip hop R&B flow. Gotcha. All right. And what about
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you? Hi, my name's Lynn. I'm 30 years old. I'm from the San Francisco Bay area, but I've
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been living in LA for the past two to three months. I'm a business owner. I own the Hourglass
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where I sell waist trainers and post-surgical fajas. And as far as education, I have a degree
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in sociology. From what university? Sacramento State. Sacramento State. Okay. And that's,
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you have a bachelor's degree. Okay. In sociology, you said? Yes. And you're 30 now. When did
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you graduate? Four years ago. Four years ago. Okay. And so it's, it was four years ago. Can
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you tell us maybe, I mean, you do have your degree in it. Have you been using your degree
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at all for what you do currently as your profession? Absolutely not. Do you feel like it was a waste
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of time? I wouldn't say a waste of time because, you know, it gives you the basis for understanding
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society and having people skills. However, I don't use it. Can you tell us, seeing as it
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was your major, I assume there's must be something still there. Can you tell us maybe the three
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biggest takeaways from having studied and major, majored in and gotten a degree in, uh, sociology?
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I couldn't. It was just four years ago. That's true, but I don't use it. So how about, okay,
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maybe three is a big ask. How about one biggest takeaway? Um, the biggest takeaway is that everyone's
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influenced by something. You think your opinion or your thoughts are original. However, it's all based
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on, you know, how you grew up and your environment. But I, I, aren't there technical terms in sociology?
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Nature versus nurture. Well, I'm a city college dropout and I think I heard about nature versus
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nurture in elementary school. Um, can you, is there like something you could point to that perhaps
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the common person might not know from your education in sociology? No. It's not, nothing, nothing.
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The end question for you, did you, um, Sacramento state, that's a public school. Uh, and you're from
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California. Yeah. Okay. And did you like, do you have student loans or no? Was it, did you get a
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scholarship or how does your parents, you paid for it? How much was the total tuition? Um,
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I think probably like 15,000. 15. It wasn't much. Yeah. And then, I mean, of course, taxpayers
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subsidize some of that. You know, I kind of wonder if we should do away with some of these
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soft sciences. Um, I, I don't know if, does sociology contribute anything to, I guess, question for you,
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does sociology actually contribute anything to society? Um, it can, if you plan on being a social
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worker or something of that nature, however. Do you need to take sociology to be a social worker?
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Isn't that a, its own discipline, uh, social work? Yeah. Can't you major in social work? Yeah,
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it can be. Okay. So sociology, it's just, did you have to take like feminist studies classes for that?
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Women's studies. Yes. How many women's studies classes did you have to? Um, just one, one,
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one class. Okay. Yeah. I mean, it's my, my, uh, my crosshairs aren't, uh, uniquely only on
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sociology, but so a lot of these soft sciences, soft sciences, uh, I don't know. I think they
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got to go, uh, at least the taxpayer, you look, you want to go to private school where they teach
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that shit and the taxpayer isn't subsidizing at all. But, uh, dance, why are we test subsidizing
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dance, dance majors for university dance? What are the other bullshit majors? No offense
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to you. There's dance. I'm not saying like dance has an artistic value, but you can go
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to ballet school. You can, that should be a more private, uh, endeavor. I don't think
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taxpayers should be funding women to learn jazz at fucking Berkeley or whatever, you know,
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these universities. Um, but, uh, what are, what are some of the other soft sciences? All
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the, all the, all the grievance, all the grievance studies, the gender studies, all the grievance
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studies. I think we just got to do away with it, to be honest. No offense. None taken. But
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I mean, you yourself even admit in your current, uh, field of work, you don't utilize really
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anything from sociology or that you learned in college. Probably less than like 10%. Yeah.
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And I mean, look, you could probably say that about even, uh, disciplines that are
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worthwhile, you know, the STEM fields, the science, the, you know, the math physics, you could go study
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physics and go into a field that has nothing to do with physics. Although I do wonder, uh,
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if the taxpayer should be STEM, I'm fine. I'm actually, my prescription would be, uh, we fully
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pay for, you want to study physics. You want to study some sort of engineering. We pay for that
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fully, but we have to completely defund soft science, bullshit, uh, sociology. What are some,
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what are the stupid soft sciences? Calm, calm, calm can go. Psychology probably can go. I think
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I'm okay with, is that what you studied? No, you didn't. Well, no, but I took psychology classes.
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Cause I think psychology is very helpful for even just moving through life every day.
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Yes. I think I think it is. I think I've applied more in my psychology class that I learned and I
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took for one half of a year than any other class in my entire, have you ever been to therapy?
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No, no. Uh, so psychology, typically people who study psychology, uh, I think there is some,
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I'm not saying psychology is completely useless, the study of it. Um, but like, as it's in terms
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of its application for counseling therapy, all these therapists are seeing a therapist,
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your therapist, who's giving you advice, they're all fucked up too. And they're seeing a therapist.
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I'm like, hold on. You're telling me how I got to think, but you're all fucked up.
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Uh, really? I don't know. I think therapy is kind of bullshit, but that's another conversation.
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Okay. Good talk. Um, nothing. One thing from sociology. I couldn't tell you nothing. You
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don't even remember. Yeah. I don't know. You wrote an essay. You remember your essay you wrote?
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Um, I couldn't tell you honestly. Okay. That's fair. That's fair. Uh, all right. What about you?
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Yeah. I'm Tavey. I'm 22. I'm a barista and a life insurance agent, and I'm a college dropout.
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College. Okay. You were in college though. Yeah. Okay. And, uh, sorry, you said you're from where?
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I might have missed it. Uh, Stockton. Stockton. Like grew up there, born there? Yeah. Okay.
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College dropout. So were you in, uh, city college, four year? Uh, city college, the...
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What were you studying? Uh, I was doing psychology. Ooh. And then I was gonna stop. Yeah. I was gonna
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stop that and then, uh, do radiology. So that way, um, my only goal was to be in pink scrubs with my
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bestie. But then, uh, we both decided we hate chemistry and dropped out. Okay. All right. Good
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times. Good times. What about you? Um, I'm Samantha. I'm 25. I was born and raised in Los Angeles. Um, I
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went to community college for like two years, dropped out. Um, I'm in marketing. Okay. I'm
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just kind of like a team member who helps out. All right. And, uh, you, uh, you went to college
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you said, or? I went to community college for like two years. I went to community college
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for like two years. What, what were you studying? Business. Business. Okay. All right. What
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about you? My name's Natalia Jaime Hughes, which is a long, um, last name I could spell,
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but I'm not going to talk about my age and location respectfully. Um, well, I mean, you're,
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are you from California or can you say your state? California. Okay. And can you, you won't talk
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about your age? Why is that? Um, there's, there's like supernatural things that I don't understand.
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So just to protect myself, I would like to be a little restrictive about the information
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I send, share it with publicly. There's, what do you mean? Supernatural things? Um, so, uh,
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God spoke to me and there's also other forces that are dangerous. And what are the other forces?
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Uh, like demonic forces. So just to be, just casual conversation. So when you say God, God spoke to
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you, he spoke to you through my thoughts just now. This was in 2023, March, March 3rd, 2023.
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And there's a preclusion from you sharing your age. God spoke to you directly and said,
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if you go on any podcasts, be sure not to share your age. Do I have that correctly?
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He didn't say that, but I just want to be careful about the information I share.
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Just to protect myself because I'm going against very big forces and I would like to protect myself
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and my family as much as possible. How would, how would sharing your age?
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It's not about the age, but my point is I just, um, I also don't want to deal with bias
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because I'm a young person and people in their seventies tend to run the government and I would
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Well, even if you didn't reveal your age, uh, I don't think people are going to assume that you're
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in your forties, fifties, sixties, or seventies. So just on the basis of your physical appearance,
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people are going to come to a, a range, a determination on the, your estimated age range,
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which based on your appearance, probably most people would put between 25 and 35.
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Uh, yeah, it's, it's between the twenties and thirties.
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Well, you're, you're fine saying that. So the bias that you're concerned of
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is still exists. How would the, okay. So the people in the government, I think the people in
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the government, because of your unwillingness to share your age would actually have another bias
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and think you're fucking loony because you're like not willing to share your age. That seems a bit
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peculiar. They could certainly look me up and figure out all the information about me, like
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all the agencies that know a lot about me, but I just don't want to like, so share everything.
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You're trying to hide from the agencies. Um, I'm trying to hide from evil forces that are in the
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world, basically like in the government, uh, in the whole world. But some of those are these
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government agencies. Would you like this? What the CIA, the, uh, what's the, what's the other,
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like Intel ones, CIA, NSA, NSA. Is that one? There's tons of them. You do just to be clear
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though. You think if the CIA was so inclined to give a fuck about you, which I doubt they do.
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You don't think the CIA would have a way to figure out your age absent you disclosing it on the
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whatever podcast. They like, it's easy to figure out my information, but I just on a online platform,
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I just want to be restrictive is what I'm not asking for your date of birth. Um, I don't need
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the day. I don't need the month. I don't even need the year. I just need your age. And that could
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be, I could, I, we can move on for this 29. Sorry about that. Well, shit. Now you're fucked.
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And now the demons are coming for you. Well, I just want to like, I just wanted to let you know
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that things happen and I want to be careful is my point. I mean, you just, you just disclosed it
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though with a little bit. You think, you think little chubby Brian over here is going to put,
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put the, the fucking boot on your neck. Imagine that CIA interrogator. You completely folded
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to the most minimal amount of verbal pressure. I got the answer from you in three minutes.
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You just completely folded and there's demons and there's demons after you. For the sake of,
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for the sake of time, I will fold, but I, I don't want to have, I don't want to, uh,
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the very, I just wanted to let you know if I know where I stand. You're not afraid enough of the
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demons. Um, well anyway, I'm like, I'm just trusting in God to protect me, but there's a lot
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of stuff that happens and I feel like it's intimidation. So it's just how it is. Can I
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ask a question? Yeah. Yeah, sure. Why? Like, what do you feel like your mission is on the planet?
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Like, why do you feel like there's evil forces specifically? We're not going to get into that
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right now. I thought your question was related to her age denial. Um, but, uh, perhaps we can get
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into some of that stuff a bit later. Uh, anyways, all right. Well, five minutes later, um, okay. Off
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to a good start. Um, um, can I mention my, uh, degrees in my job real quick? Oh, right. We didn't
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get to that part because I was so busy being, being ruffled by the fact you would not disclose
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basic biographical information about yourself. Go ahead. Sorry about that. Um, I really don't
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want to be rude and I want to thank you so much, Brian, for this opportunity to be on your podcast
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because there's really like not much out there to give random women who are like not famous this
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opportunity to talk to potentially millions of people. So like, this is why I was like,
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this is where I have to go and other places, but I'm not a famous person. So, and I didn't want to
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be for a long time. So yeah, I just wanted to thank you. Um, my, and I'll try not to take too
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much time, but, um, I got a degree in, uh, a bachelor's degree in neurobiology physiology and
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behavior. I went to medical school for one year. Uh, really quick clarifying questions. Uh, were you
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triple majoring in those three? No, that's one degree. Oh, wait, can you list the three, the three
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different ones again, or just list it again? Um, my first bachelor's is neurobiology physiology and
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behavior. Oh, that's all one. Okay. Which, can you say which university you don't have to? Uh, UC Davis.
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UC Davis. Okay. Um, and you have a bachelor's or master's? I'm sorry. You said bachelor's. Um,
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continue. I have one year of experience in medical school from, uh, USF, Morsani College of Medicine.
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Okay. You wanted to be a doctor? Yes. And then why did you drop out? I was poisoned by pesticides.
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And I also, because of the residential spring and I, the residential spring, sorry. Um, the
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residential spring. So spring, they were spraying the pesticides from trucks, um, from like people
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were spraying it on the volleyball sand. It was going into the pool and I was doused with glyphosate,
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um, which is the same issue that our, uh, Robert F. Kennedy Jr. sued Mons, Monsanto against.
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And it's also in our food. It's in organic food. It's in, um, pretty much all food. And that's a big
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reason why we're super sick is because of the pesticides in our food. Okay. So you had health
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issues and you dropped out of medical school. Uh, is that it for the education or is there more?
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Uh, then I got a bachelor's degree in computer science from Western Governors University.
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And then I got a master's in smart educational technology from Université Côte d'Azur, uh,
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which is in France. Is that Canadian or French? French. Okay. Uh, you, sorry, you, you got a what
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from there? Uh, master's. In computer science? In smart educational technology. Smart educational
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tech. What's that? Um, what I was trying to do is I was trying, I was trying to create health
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education apps and I had an issue with what they were teaching in medical school, um, in
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America. And so I was trying to prevent health issues. I see. Um, you've done a substantial
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amount of schooling. Uh, you have a bachelor's degree. You did, you did, uh, one year of medical
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school. You, you got a bachelor's degree in computer science from a different university and you have
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a master's from a different university. Um, how much student debt do you have? I paid
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it off. You paid, how much, uh, how much was your, I guess then the price of your education
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total? How much was that? Uh, so my family supported me. I also worked. Um, I also went
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to community college. I went to the cheapest nonprofit online school I could go to. I was
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really trying to minimize my student debt. I ended up with, um, about 20,000 and then I
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paid it off. All right. Not bad. Um, okay. So that's the school. Uh, is there anything
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else? Occupation? Um, I have tons of jobs, so I'm going to try to be brief, but I have,
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um, so I, I'm a business owner and I, um, created a website, created a basic app, created a basic
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game. And, um, um, I'm like on LinkedIn most of the time. Um, and I'm trying to share health
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education information and potentially prevent violence and wars if possible. Um, so yeah,
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that's why I work so hard. I work like pretty much every day of the week. I like my sleep's
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all crazy and whatever, but yeah. You're trying to prevent wars. It's a big dream. Yes. Which
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war are you currently trying to prevent? Uh, so many future wars, potentially so many current
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wars, but, um, I'm concerned about Venezuela. I'm concerned about Greenland, um, because,
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uh, well, so, um, there, there was some activity, I was barely watching the news recently, but there
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were, um, some activity like in Venezuela and there's so many, so much oil in Venezuela. So
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they're going after it. And then I saw a thing from BBC that said that Trump's envoy is, um,
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trying to make Greenland part of the United States. So I'm worried that we're just going
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to like create more crazy wars and colonialism. And that's why I'm trying to get to Donald Trump
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as respectful as possible and his family as much as possible to help him because he's eating banned
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McDonald's ingredients and all sorts of things that's going to mess with his head. And he could
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potentially be dealing with evil forces and all sorts of things. So it's really complicated.
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Okay. Um, I'm sure we can get into some of that stuff, uh, a bit later. Um, I noticed you're wearing
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a cross. Are you a Christian? Yes. What's the nomination? I don't really, um, I don't,
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I try not to group myself with certain groups as much as possible. So I, I learned from Buddhism
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and all sorts of religions. You, you learned from Buddhism? Yes. But are you, you're a Christian?
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Yes. I learned from as many religions as possible. Look, I'm not a theologian. Isn't,
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if you're a Christian, isn't it, I don't know if it's heretical or you're, you're orthodox, right?
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I'm working towards it. Working towards it. It's a process. You don't just become orthodox in one day.
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You have to get guidance from a pastor and you have to attend church. You're a Christian. Right. Yes. And
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you're becoming orthodox. Yes. I guess. Maybe you can speak on this. Isn't it heretical? I don't know
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if that's the right word. I don't know if it's a sin, whatever. For a Christian to be exploring
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other religions? I could be wrong. I don't know. No, you're right. Uh, it says in the Bible that
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you're not supposed to have other like religions because it's technically like idols and, um, you
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know, God is a jealous God. So he wants your attention on him. And plus, if it's not in the
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Bible, it's not true. So when these other things are said and people add to it, then no.
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So, um, okay. So you're, do you go to church? Yeah. No, you. Oh, yes. Okay. What is the
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denomination of the church you go to? Presbyterian. Presbyterian. Okay. Uh, huh. Okay.
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So you are a Christian, but also study Buddhism, I guess. I don't know. Maybe it's not contradictory.
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Um, oh, a blasphemy. I don't know. Um, one of those. Okay. Uh, so, okay. You're Christian.
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Um, you, at the beginning of the show, you said you have autism or before the show,
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I haven't been diagnosed, but I struggle with emotional tone. Emotional tone. What does that
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mean? Like I have trouble understanding people's emotions based on their tone. I also have trouble
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looking at people's eyes because I'm thinking so much. And I also perhaps have special interests,
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things like that. Um, I was looking at the traits and I was just like, man, I really like nailed it
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on autism. Have you been diagnosed with anything? Um, I don't want to say, um, why is that? Because,
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um, there's such a pressure towards taking medication for things and the, sorry to interrupt,
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sorry to take so much time guys, but like, um, the medical system is so focused on taking God out of
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the picture. And it's like, well, what about all this evidence? Um, what about healing? What about
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the body healing itself? What about the natural medicine? What about like physical therapy? What
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about Eastern medicine? Like there's so many things to help people help, uh, their body. And there's also
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more, there's so many side effects with medications. The studies are so biased. I'm not asking what
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treatments you've under, you plan to undertake or could undertake. Uh, I'm simply asking you if
00:26:06.440
you've had a, another, cause you said you, you think you have autism. Uh, you may very well, you may,
00:26:14.960
may not, but you have a diagnosis, another diagnosis of, of some other thing. Um, definitely
00:26:22.820
depressions most likely on there. I haven't looked at my medical records, so I don't know exactly what
00:26:28.380
they've diagnosed me with. Okay. Is there anything else? I mean, like things like I had kidney
00:26:38.700
infections, like there's certain random things. I'm, I'm looking more so at related to like autism
00:26:45.220
or your depression. These are, uh, more like mental health diagnoses. Have you had anything
00:26:52.020
else besides, uh, while you're suspected autism, which it's not, that's not diagnosed, but you
00:26:59.880
strongly suspect, uh, and depression was diagnosed. Is there any other mental health diagnoses that you
00:27:07.540
have? Um, schizophrenia, um, which is what people would be like? Yeah. Like you're hearing voices,
00:27:16.360
you're seeing things, blah, blah, blah. But like, there's a whole other side of the picture where
00:27:21.840
it's like, what about all these people that speak, say they speak to God? And what about all these
00:27:26.940
people that say they're psychics? What about all these people that, um, are reincarnations of Buddha?
00:27:32.360
They say like, there's so much evidence to say, maybe there's like a third eye. Maybe there's like,
00:27:40.040
um, if you look at the chakras too, it's like, are you at the ultimate truth, enlightened nirvana
00:27:46.260
stage? Or are you at the root chakra stage where you're just focused on the ego? Is that, are you at
00:27:51.740
the super id or are you at the id and the ego? It's like, that's where you learn psychology. It's like,
00:27:57.740
whoa, there's so much to understand about, um, the brain. One question. Does Christianity,
00:28:03.680
maybe I'm going to read the chat here, uh, to any Christians in the chat, do Christians, does,
00:28:09.880
uh, you know, the Christian theology, does it reject the chakra stuff? Does Christianity reject
00:28:18.480
the chakra new? I don't know if that's new age or if it's like Eastern. I don't know what the
00:28:27.220
categorization is, but Christianity does resent, reject the chakra stuff. Yes, absolutely. My dear,
00:28:34.500
you're a, I think you're a Presbyterian. Well, you go to Presbyterian church, which I think the
00:28:40.260
Presbyterians are pretty based, like more based than like non-doms or whatever. And like the, I don't
00:28:48.100
know, some of the other mainline, uh, denominations and you gotta, you gotta, you're wearing a cross.
00:28:53.400
You can't be doing chakra shit. Balance like with it's look, I don't have a dog in the fight,
00:29:02.840
but I believe it's contradictory. I look, I don't really care. I'm just pointing it out.
00:29:09.360
I haven't. So I, um, I read the new Testament like about twice, but I haven't read the entire
00:29:16.280
Old Testament. So like I used to be agnostic, atheist, a believer, like swirling around. So I
00:29:24.300
kind of come a lot more from a atheist scientific perspective. And then I wasn't believing in God
00:29:30.400
until 2023 about, and then, um, and then God spoke to me. Okay. Um, question for you. We don't need to
00:29:40.600
go too deep down the rabbit hole. You mentioned schizophrenia. Is there anything else? Any
00:29:45.500
other personality disorders or borderline personality disorders, NPD, uh, ASD, anything like
00:29:53.760
that? Um, you said ASD, which is autism spectrum disorder, ASPD, antisocial personality disorder,
00:30:03.220
anything like that. Um, I'm not, I'm not implying you do. I'm just asking. I, um, I only think it's
00:30:10.460
like depression, schizophrenia, and then just like, that's what I know as far as the mental health
00:30:16.320
issues and the rest. Have you ever taken medication for the schizophrenia? Um, yes, I was forced to. Um,
00:30:25.720
what, uh, what age were you diagnosed? Let's see. Um, this year. Oh, you were this year you were
00:30:34.880
diagnosed. Um, what was the context in which you received the diagnosis? I've like, you've never
00:30:45.140
been, I'm perhaps I'm jumping the gun here. You've never been committed to, uh, like, have you ever
00:30:51.860
been 51 50 or placed like had a mental hold or anything like that? Um, so I, um, I went to the
00:31:02.560
psychiatric, I'm a, first of all, I'm like a super curious person. Like I try to learn everything.
00:31:08.220
So like I go to places where it's like, Oh, what's what's happening over here? Like, I'm not like
00:31:13.660
someone who usually abstains and protects myself and like hangs out with a certain crowd and whatever.
00:31:19.340
So I, um, was taking Accutane, which is for acne and the doctor was warning me, this has suicidal
00:31:27.820
ideation. And I was like, all right, like, I'm just going to tough it out. And I was literally crying,
00:31:33.940
like within a thought, like, just like crying, crying, crying from the medication. Yes. Yeah. I mean,
00:31:39.840
I I've heard, uh, that Accutane can have very strong and severe, uh, side effects, but, um,
00:31:55.940
have you been, uh, like, have you been involuntarily committed?
00:32:05.880
Not, I have voluntarily been committed to a hospital to, uh, to a mental hospital or,
00:32:14.120
okay. And they, and that was the point just once twice, twice. Okay. And this was the past year.
00:32:24.100
Um, so in 2022, I was taking Accutane. I was dealing with suicidal ideation again and again and
00:32:33.300
again. And then I was, and then I was talking to a therapist and they were like, you need to go to
00:32:38.400
the hospital. So I go to the hospital. Um, I have a lot I could say about that. Um, as far as
00:32:44.980
improvements notes, but like, um, then I go to the second time, sorry, second time I go to the
00:32:52.740
hospital, I felt like I was chased by a bunch of ghosts and, um, dangerous things. And if you look at,
00:33:02.320
um, if you look at like the conjuring series, for example, then you could look at evidence of like
00:33:08.820
what people might experience with evil spirits, for example. And then, so I, to protect myself,
00:33:16.080
I went into the psychiatric hospital because I wanted cameras. I wanted staff. I wanted 24 seven
00:33:21.720
protection, but then, um, I was not allowed to leave until I take the medication. So the doctor
00:33:28.660
went to the court required that I take medication and they injected me with medication because, um,
00:33:35.540
you can't like leave. So, yeah. So I'm just trying to not be in the hospital because you have to be
00:33:43.500
forced to take medication. Okay. Sometimes. Um, so you did take, and I, I'm, I'm on the same page with
00:33:52.040
you in the sense that the, the accutane has really bad side effects and the ideation you referenced,
00:33:59.600
it's actually, they warn you specifically about it. Um, just curious, no homicidal ideation.
00:34:08.540
Um, so like I would never harm people as much as possible. I eat meat. Um, I eat animal meat. That
00:34:15.280
is not human, nothing weird. Okay. But, um, I also like weirdly empathize with like whatever forces
00:34:22.960
I could possibly can. Um, cause I'm just like, why are they violent? Why are they abusing these
00:34:28.840
people? No, but you, you yourself have not had homicidal ideation. Um, well, I'd say I would
00:34:35.660
never ever hurt someone. So in a, like in a way I've never had homicidal ideation, but another way it's
00:34:42.500
like, well, but like my thoughts could maybe be like, why is that person killing someone?
00:34:48.340
And the, do you think that the accutane like, okay, you were diagnosed a year ago about, or the,
00:34:57.060
in the past year with schizophrenia, do you think, and you're 29 now, do you think you had schizophrenia
00:35:06.220
like going further back or is the schizophrenia? Cause some people can develop that at a later,
00:35:14.000
uh, later age. Uh, is it a new development? It's a new development, but I questioned the
00:35:23.020
diagnosis of schizophrenia because I wonder, um, is it, is it possibly being psychic without God,
00:35:32.180
without spirituality, without the supernatural? Um, because like, it's true. I do see and hear
00:35:38.800
things that are not what other people see in here, but I don't think it's a hundred percent
00:35:45.360
just my own brain activity. Okay. And, um, what is, you said you were on the medication briefly
00:35:53.780
for this schizophrenia. Is that correct? Yes. But you went off it. Is that correct? Yes. And so
00:36:00.660
you're not currently on any medications, um, or schizophrenia. Yes. You, maybe you take something
00:36:06.760
else or I have an IUD. That's all. Oh, okay. Not, but I should take that on and say, cause it
00:36:12.040
one of the hormonal ones. Uh, I have the hormonal one and I, I'm just like, I should probably stop
00:36:19.080
messing with my hormones too. Okay. Um, how many different, what was it just one medication that
00:36:26.160
you did take for the schizophrenia? It was at least two, at least two. Okay. Um, and you were on them
00:36:35.460
for a couple of months for about a month, one month and you didn't like them or, um, I just am really
00:36:45.120
careful about the medical system because in some ways, if you're not treating the root causes,
00:36:53.200
then it's like, okay, like it's lifesaving, but in other ways it's like, well, but do you
00:36:59.520
need to be taking this for like 50 years or can you fix it? Gotcha. Um, so I know that
00:37:06.340
when it comes to schizophrenia, there's, it can manifest itself in different ways in different
00:37:12.820
people. The severity can be stronger. It can be weaker. It's, it's a bit on a spectrum in terms
00:37:19.020
of the, the severity, the impact and how it manifests itself. Um, for you specifically,
00:37:24.960
how does, I guess, what are your, uh, symptoms, symptoms, how does it manifest itself in you?
00:37:34.360
So I'll see like, um, what I believe is God's eye, uh, which is in the Muslim mosques. You'll
00:37:42.960
see like a huge eye and that's the all seeing eye. And then you have visual hallucinations.
00:37:49.800
Yes. Wow. Okay. Uh, do you have auditory hallucinations? Yes. But then the question is,
00:37:57.760
are those tactile sensory hallucinations? Yes. What are the other, do you smell, uh,
00:38:05.940
olfactory hallucinations? Um, I don't have a great sense of smell, so I don't think so. Okay.
00:38:12.960
Uh, what are the, so, okay. Hearing, you, you have visual and auditory hallucinations. You have
00:38:19.580
tactile, uh, uh, what was the other word I used? Sensory hallucinations. Um,
00:38:28.460
I also don't taste. Taste? Uh, no, not that I noticed. Okay. Um, are you, do you have
00:38:36.840
visual, are you having visual hallucinations right now? Yes.
00:38:42.960
Am I, do I look normal? Yes. Okay. You don't see like, I'm not like a demon or some shit. No.
00:38:49.660
Okay. What about this girl next to me? She, I get some weird vibes from her. Um, so what's going on?
00:38:55.660
Like sometimes I see auras. Sometimes I see visual signals. Um, sometimes I see auras,
00:39:02.360
uh, auras like the color auras. Wait. Oh, so you don't see, but mostly just with myself. I'm,
00:39:10.400
I'm not an expert. You don't see like, like, you know, uh, an aura around me. Um, it's really hard.
00:39:17.640
I've never really like tried to look at other people's auras that much, but like with myself,
00:39:22.100
if I'm thinking like loving thoughts, I, I see the color pink. Have you seen Dragon Ball Z?
00:39:26.360
Um, my cousins have, but they go like Super Saiyan and they have the, wait, do I have a sound for
00:39:34.900
this? Hold on. Um, I don't know. Wait, hold on. Do I have a sound? I might've taken it off.
00:39:43.640
I don't think I have it. Rip. Um, sorry, but does anybody at the table have an aura?
00:40:01.540
Like I, I'm not an expert at all with the supernatural. So I was kind of thinking like
00:40:06.680
I shouldn't talk about the supernatural stuff, but I was, um, like just with my personal experiences,
00:40:13.240
that sometimes I see auras because of people, because of my thoughts, I mean, um, but it's
00:40:17.960
hard to like look at other people's auras for me. Do you, um, we used to have this, um, he didn't
00:40:25.680
speak English. His name was Gustavo. And unfortunately he, um, he like passed away. Sometimes I think
00:40:36.060
his spirit haunts the whatever, uh, podcast studio. Did, have you seen a guy in a Chilean
00:40:46.080
military uniform, like a, like a visage visage, uh, like a phantom? Have you seen?
00:40:55.080
I, um, so like I'll ask God for certain things. My thoughts are kind of out of control a lot of
00:41:02.200
the times. Did you see him? Um, but no, no, I generally do. Do we have any spirits in the
00:41:08.920
studio? I generally don't see ghosts, but I see, I see like, like a light. Um, what's a,
00:41:17.480
it's basically a vertical light. I'll see like moving around really quick. So I saw like a
00:41:22.780
white flash right there. So it's like, hypothetically it could be him or it could be an angel. I have
00:41:27.100
no idea. Okay. Um, so what you said you do experience visual hallucinations. Are they 24
00:41:32.740
seven? I mean, when you're awake, I suppose. Um, they, they like reduced for part of this
00:41:41.300
year. And then when I was asking like, how can I serve you, um, Jesus Christ more than
00:41:49.720
it came back. Um, more. Okay. And they're, they're kind of lights. Are they ever like
00:41:57.520
very detailed objects or people or? I'll see, um, like cartoonish reactions. So like if I'm
00:42:07.140
thinking of something that angers an evil spirit potentially, then I'll see an angry face. If I
00:42:15.260
think of eating, I'll see a, like the big fangs. If I make a random joke, it'll laugh. Like
00:42:22.600
it's weird. Okay. It just responds. Yeah. Uh, okay. Well, uh, huh? Well, uh, I don't know. I'm
00:42:38.860
kind of at a loss for words, honestly. I think we can go around the table again. I'm sure does
00:42:43.520
anybody else here have, I guess, since we're getting into mental health diagnoses, does
00:42:47.380
anybody, you got, maybe we could all, this could be like a bonding moment. What do you,
00:42:52.260
do you have anything? Any, any issues? Nothing. Come on. I mean, I did, I was, when I was younger,
00:42:59.400
I had really bad depression, but yeah. Thank Jesus. That's not present anymore as the way it
00:43:05.760
was before. You're, you're Catholic, right? I'm Catholic Christian. Catholic. Yeah. Um, yeah. I
00:43:11.960
used to, but I think Jesus said I was saved for the most part from that. What did you
00:43:15.320
used to have? Depression. Just depression? Major depression disorder. Yes. Okay. Uh,
00:43:22.080
what about you? Any, into the mic? I've never been diagnosed with anything, but I'm definitely
00:43:27.320
autistic. Definitely autistic. Definitely. I can, I can tell. Uh, what about you? I don't
00:43:32.660
have anything, unfortunately. Unfortunate? Maybe fortunately. I used to be crazy, but. What does
00:43:39.240
that mean? Like, um. Drugs? Oh, that too. But, um, like I used to like carve into people type
00:43:47.460
spirit. Carve? Yeah. Like, yeah. Like you stabbed people? Yeah. Like. Wait, what does that mean?
00:43:53.660
What was that? Wait, what does that mean? Can you, I'm sorry, I'm confused. Like, um, like,
00:43:57.380
like carved into people. Like when I had a boyfriend, I'd be like, hey, like my initials,
00:44:03.040
your skin, blood. Um. Like consensually? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Or you would force them? Oh,
00:44:08.380
no, no, no, no. Consensually. Do you still do that? No. He saved me. Jesus. Yeah. Saved
00:44:15.580
you from carving? Yeah. Yes. Is that, so it was, was it a, was it a kink thing or was it
00:44:22.080
not sexual at all? I think it, I think it was a kink thing. I think I just like, liked
00:44:27.240
blood for some reason. Okay. And then I did also used to be depressed. I would, yeah,
00:44:33.540
yeah. Okay. What about, what about you? I actually have episodic depression. Episodic
00:44:38.720
depression? Yeah. I'm not always depressed, but sometimes I fall into episodes. Um, so
00:44:44.060
I'm not like sad all the time. Can I do, uh, tilt your mic down a little bit? So grab
00:44:46.580
it from, yeah. Tilt it from, yeah, there you go. Episodic depression. Okay. All right.
00:44:53.660
Huh. Okay. Uh, well, I guess we need your intro, so let's just get into
00:44:57.240
that. Uh, give us your intro. Yeah. I'm Alina. I'm 21 years old. I'm from
00:45:02.860
Penza, Russia, but I currently live in Philadelphia and I'm a student studying
00:45:07.840
for a bachelor of business administration. Okay. All right. Welcome back. I think
00:45:13.060
this is your third, fourth, fourth. I believe it's the fourth. All right. Welcome
00:45:18.140
back. And, uh, any mental health diagnoses? No. When I was a child, I was
00:45:25.020
evaluated for autism because everybody thought I was autistic, but it turned out
00:45:30.760
negative. So, okay. Um, really quick going back to you when I was asking about
00:45:35.140
your medication, you said you had an IUD, the, the non-hormonal or was it the
00:45:40.040
hormonal one? It's the hormonal because I didn't want to have periods. Um, but I
00:45:47.380
don't recommend, are you active? No. In a biblical way? Are you biblically carnal
00:45:57.520
knowledge? Can you elaborate? Are you having carnal knowledge? Um, could you
00:46:04.840
elaborate please? Like a relationship? Have you been with a man biblically recently? Um,
00:46:12.700
I, in, um, in February I broke up with my last boyfriend. Okay. And you, that was the
00:46:22.080
last time you had carnal knowledge? Sex? Yes. Intercourse? Okay. Sorry. Okay. Okay. But
00:46:28.780
you kept the IUD though, just in case. Is your boyfriend, is he, is he good? Or was
00:46:38.700
he, um, is he alive? Yes. Okay. So like, I want to be careful about what I say because
00:46:47.740
I want my family to watch this. I don't know. Just, I was curious because I feel
00:46:53.020
like, you know, I have the saying, I'm going to make a joke. You know, the saying
00:47:00.640
like, don't stick your dick in crazy. I, I feel like, like schizophrenia pussy gotta be
00:47:14.580
the bomb. You know what I mean? You know what I mean? Like they say crazy girls, the sex is
00:47:24.960
the best. Like you don't really, you can't really get much better than schizophrenia. So
00:47:30.560
I mean, you have that going for you. Sorry. It was a crude joke. Crude joke. Anyways. Wow.
00:47:49.780
Okay. That's a compliment. I don't, I don't want to, um, I don't want to make people feel
00:47:58.120
embarrassed about their mental health diagnoses, but I have a joke I could tell you after the
00:48:02.360
podcast. Is it, what is it? Okay. You, it's about, is it about autistic? Uh, let's just
00:48:10.480
say hypothetically people who are manic perhaps are better at the bedroom department. Oh, like
00:48:16.600
border BP, uh, bipolar, bipolar disorder. Maybe. Yeah. They're crazy. Like in a, I mean,
00:48:24.320
it doesn't, it's not worth the trade-off, but like I, my philosophy is if you're going to
00:48:29.160
be a crazy bitch, not you, but you seem kind of tame, I think, but like, if you're going
00:48:36.600
to be a crazy bitch, the least you can do for the guy you're going to be dating, the sex
00:48:41.300
has to be the bomb. Like it's got you, like you can't be a crazy bitch and the sex is trash.
00:48:47.980
You know what I mean? You know what I mean? She knows what I mean. Like you can't be, you
00:48:52.700
can't, you got to make up for the craziness is what I'm saying. Now, some guys bite the
00:48:59.540
bullet and they're like, this bitch is crazy. Not you. You're a very nice lady. I would never
00:49:05.440
refer to you as a bitch, but I'm saying like, you know, I'm using it in that way. You know
00:49:11.740
what I'm talking about? Cause I'm part of the movement and the culture. But anyways, um,
00:49:19.720
you know, if you're dealing with the crazy, a crazy B and like, she won't suck your dick
00:49:28.200
and like, it's like, what as a guy, what are you really even doing there? You know, like
00:49:35.900
I, to be clear, if, if a girl's got bipolar, I'm avoiding a hundred percent, you know, the
00:49:46.860
other mental illnesses, it's in the void. Even if the, even if she's really hot and the
00:49:51.760
pussy would be bummed, but I'm just saying, you know what I mean? Okay. Good talk. Um,
00:50:02.320
all right. Well here, uh, wow. That, that was a good convo. Uh, we're going to have, we're
00:50:08.240
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00:50:12.540
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00:51:37.440
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six X. Uh, so yeah, shop.whatever.com premium comfortable. Like, yeah, the prices are a little
00:53:54.960
higher, but that's because we, we print on comfortable blanks that you'd actually want to
00:54:00.260
wear. Super comfortable, super saying, not like these shitty band t-shirts that feel like
00:54:05.540
cardboard. Follow us on Instagram at whatever. Any women who want to be on the show, you can DM us
00:54:11.880
there, twitter.com slash whatever. And then go to, uh, yeah, no, no, yeah. Next stay here for a sec.
00:54:20.880
Look, guys, it's almost the end of the year. I'm 9,000 followers away from 400,000 followers
00:54:28.080
on my personal Instagram. Guys, go follow my personal IG right now, right this second.
00:54:37.720
Nick, show them the, let's help them out. We got a fucking QR code to help you out too.
00:54:42.360
There it is. You might have to make it smaller a little bit. Guys, get me to 400,000 before the
00:54:48.700
end of the year. A little milestone, a little, little, you know, Christmas come late, if you
00:54:52.740
will. Uh, follow me on Twitter, my personal Twitter, I guess. Uh, can you zoom in, make
00:54:59.000
it one bigger? Yeah. For the Twitter one, one more. Okay. That's good. Tab over. I'll follow
00:55:09.180
my cat. And then I'm the, uh, public service announcement. I'm the founder of the nonprofit
00:55:16.100
and grassroots movement. Big labia matter or BLM for short. She's on the board of directors.
00:55:27.840
Um, also, hold on, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. It's okay. Because all labia
00:55:34.600
can't matter until big labia matter. So fuck Kanye. Fuck Matt Reif. Fuck plastic surgeons,
00:55:50.100
the surgery staff, and as a motherfucking crew. And if you want to be down with labia shaming,
00:55:57.400
then fuck you too. Howard Stern. Fuck you too. Dane Cook. Fuck you too. All of y'all motherfuckers.
00:56:05.780
Fuck you. Die slow, motherfucker. My phone phone makes sure all y'all kids don't grow. You
00:56:10.460
motherfuckers can't beat us or see us. We motherfucking thug life ride us west side till we die. Out
00:56:16.220
here in California, nigga, we warn you, we'll bomb on you motherfuckers. We do our job. You
00:56:20.980
think you mom, nigga, we the motherfucking mob. Yeah, that's right. Um, so, but yeah, none of
00:56:30.440
this like wizard sleeve beef curtains, roast beef, roasty Arby's talk. Get that shit out
00:56:35.220
of here. I only date women with large labia. So this is really like, it hurts me. Sometimes
00:56:41.680
I cry thinking about it. Like all these women chopping their pussy lips off or just feeling
00:56:52.960
insecure. I don't like it one bit. 10,000, 10,000 labiaplasties a year in the USA alone.
00:57:03.060
Economy, immigration. No, fuck that shit. The most important, most pressing issue of our time.
00:57:10.280
There's 10,000 women a year chopping their lady bits off and it pisses me off.
00:57:17.160
If you can't catch the full shows, we have a clips channel. Link is in the description. We
00:57:20.840
have a discord discord.gg slash whatever post our stream schedule behind the scenes, hate
00:57:27.440
mail research studies, a bunch of other stuff. I'm in there. I'm chatting with the people from,
00:57:33.360
you know, I'm not like in there fucking three hours a day, but you know, I was, I was chatting
00:57:37.500
a couple of days ago. So, uh, asking for feedback from the, from the peeps. So join the discord.
00:57:44.340
Uh, let's see. Oh, I'm hiring for two positions. You need to either live or be able to make it to
00:57:49.940
Santa Barbara every Sunday. Position one, a new helmet girl or side, uh, helmet girl sidekick.
00:57:55.580
Uh, you don't really need any, uh, you just need to be good looking. That's pretty much it.
00:58:03.860
Position two, a new soldier sidekick. So think Gustavo. His aberration does, is still in the
00:58:10.620
studio though. So, uh, but you will wear the Chilean soldier uniform. You can DM at whatever
00:58:17.400
on Instagram, if interested in either of those two positions. And then we have a TTS and then
00:58:23.580
I'll finish up the stuff. Azils donated $200. Thank you, man. Yo, Brian, your favorite Brit is
00:58:31.640
back. Hope you had a great Christmas, bro. Been a few weeks, but sure you ain't forgotten the name
00:58:38.080
onto the next year, brother. Hashtag big labia matter. Hashtag Michael Jackson is king.
00:58:44.640
Yo, good to see you, man. Of course I remember your name. You're the, you're the Michael Jackson
00:58:48.840
guy. Thank you, man. I really appreciate your patronage. Thank you. Azils. I hope you have a great
00:58:52.660
2026. And, uh, yo, Daryl Hamsta. Thank you for the gifted 20, uh, subs on Twitch. And then we had
00:59:04.260
another, we had this guy, W41N and then Juicy Eric also gifted. I think I pulled that up earlier.
00:59:12.040
So, uh, I think, thank you, man. I see your chat too. We're going to get to that in a second. Here,
00:59:17.040
why don't I just do it now? Alina, can you read this?
00:59:18.760
Chair one, how's your relationship with your father? Brian, is Andrew coming back to the show?
00:59:25.180
Chair six, you watch too many rabbit hole conspiracies.
00:59:30.820
Wait, where is she, bro? Oh, she's back there. Can I answer? Uh, really quick, I'll answer the Andrew
00:59:38.000
Wilson. Look, here's what, how many people are watching right now? I think like four or 5,000 people.
00:59:43.300
All right, here's what I need you guys to do. I need you guys to fucking bombard the shit out of
00:59:51.120
Andrew. Be like, listen up, Mr. Wilson. Get back on the whatever. You guys got to harass this guy.
00:59:58.240
Like, don't, not like in a terrible way. You just send him a, send him a chat message when he's live.
01:00:03.640
You got to be like, Hey, the invitation there is there, but, uh, you know, Andrew's a busy guy.
01:00:08.580
He's got, he's a lot of big moves for Andrew. It's got a lot going on. So, uh, you got, you guys
01:00:14.600
got to, you got to lean on him a little bit. You guys got to lean on Andrew. Be like, get on,
01:00:18.900
get back on the whatever podcast, but Hey, anytime, anytime. He's always welcome. Always welcome.
01:00:25.000
Um, W Andrew, by the way, he did, if you guys want, he recently was on the PPD, PBB,
01:00:30.680
PPD, PPD, Patrick bet David podcast. He said he was, uh, said some very nice things about myself
01:00:37.460
and the show. So thank you, Andrew. Really appreciate it. Thank you for the shout out,
01:00:40.700
by the way, Andrew, uh, W guys, W Andrew Wilson in the chat, W Brian, are you pregnant?
01:00:48.100
Says somebody in the chat. Yes, I am pregnant. Actually. Thank you for asking. Um, I, I am pregnant.
01:00:54.040
I'm actually a trans man. That's why I can do the gay voice so well because I'm a trans man. Um,
01:01:01.980
Alina is actually the one who got me pregnant, believe it or not. She's happens to have a penis.
01:01:07.800
That's a crazy accusation. It, well, it is crazy, but it happens to be true. So yeah. So anyways,
01:01:14.620
a big end of year reveal. So, uh, yeah, you want to answer the, yeah, you said, how's your
01:01:20.920
relationship with your father? That's one of my two best friends. One being my brother. Second
01:01:27.160
being my dad. He taught me everything I need to know of how to live by myself. I've been living
01:01:31.680
by myself up until recently. I moved in with my partner. Um, he taught me things that my mom
01:01:38.340
couldn't teach me. He was a Sergeant Sheriff in LA County for 35 years. He taught me things about
01:01:44.060
politics and social concepts and things that just wasn't taught in school. He had me invest in
01:01:50.000
stocks at the age of eight, which has grossed. I don't even, I don't even want to say the number
01:01:55.040
here, but he set me up for success. And the way that I look is not a reflection of his views because
01:02:00.200
he doesn't like the way that I look, but because it's an adult to adult relationship, not a parent
01:02:05.100
child relationship anymore. We're able to have mutual respect and have good conversations and love
01:02:10.500
each other the way that Jesus loves us. Word. Good, good times. I love you, dad. All right. And then we
01:02:17.500
have, uh, also, I'm just going to pull these up because people are, they, they made some merch
01:02:24.480
purchases. So guys, if you do do a merch purchase, it comes through our stream labs thing. You can
01:02:29.940
include the message. You can include your name. Some people just leave it blank. And then it comes
01:02:34.000
through as, uh, someone dah. Thank you for the big. It looks like you bought like two hoodies or
01:02:37.800
something. Thank you, man. Uh, hold on. Let's see. We have one other chat coming through. We have
01:02:45.080
juicy Eric. Oh, you also wait. Oh, I already pulled it up. Okay. Hold on. Wait. Am I getting
01:02:55.380
confused? Uh, here, let me do this. Can you read this one? Chair six is getting ghosted between
01:03:03.980
the sheets. Brian needed protection spell cast over you on this episode. Yeah. I have a lot
01:03:10.420
of stories that I could mention about hauntings and things. Let's not get into it. Uh, Sven,
01:03:17.600
thank you for the gifted five. Appreciate it. Uh, thank you for that super chat, by the way.
01:03:21.760
Appreciate it. We read this one, right? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. I accidentally pulled it up
01:03:26.400
again. We have our good friend Adzils here coming in with the chat. Will Gustavo ever return?
01:03:34.080
You'd be surprised with the comments and other, Hey, I've actually spoke with him recently. We might,
01:03:39.480
we might get a cameo. We might get a little reunion. Actually we're in 2026. So guys,
01:03:44.960
we started the podcast in 2022. Uh, we're going to, that's like almost, we've been doing this for
01:03:50.740
like three and a half years now, I guess we're going to be bringing back some old characters
01:03:56.320
for like a, not a dedicated reunion episode, but we will have people come on as like a reunion,
01:04:03.240
get a life update. Uh, so there's going to be some people coming back. So that'll be fun.
01:04:08.880
But Gustavo, I'm pretty sure we'll, we'll have them come back. Uh, but I am hiring a new one,
01:04:14.360
a new Gustavo. Uh, final thing, Nick here, let me ask the chat. I'll ask the chat if we do this.
01:04:21.620
Uh, so chat, we have one girl running obnoxiously late, but she, she's flying in and there was a
01:04:28.800
flight delay. So I'm not going to harsh on her too much, but we had two no shows, but ultimately with
01:04:35.840
that girl who's coming late, we're going to have a full panel for us, a full panel is nine.
01:04:41.480
So look, we had two no shows that I kind of put on blast. So the, the question for chat is
01:04:48.320
do I pull up the Instagram messages of the two no shows? Do we put them on blast chat or do I just,
01:05:00.960
you know, be the bigger man and just don't put them on blast? Yes. Blast or no, no blast or blast.
01:05:13.720
Do we blast? Are we fucking blasting boys? Okay. It fucking lets you really quick. All right. Fuck
01:05:21.060
these people. Hey, it's a fuck. You know what? Hey, hold on. Let me play this shit one more time
01:05:25.980
for the two fucking no shows. These people are, by the way, one of them is 33. One of them is 27.
01:05:34.500
It takes 10 minutes, 10 minutes, sorry, 10, 10 seconds to just be like, Hey, fuck your podcast.
01:05:42.160
I'm not coming. I prefer that anyways. Whatever. Fucking fuck you too. All of y'all motherfuckers.
01:05:47.540
Fuck you. Die slow. Motherfucker. My phone, phone. Make sure all of y'all kids don't go to the
01:05:51.780
no shows. You motherfuckers can't be us or see us. We motherfucking thug life ride us
01:05:55.980
west side till we die. Out here in California, nigga, we want you. We'll bomb on you motherfuckers.
01:06:01.420
We do our job. You think you mom, nigga, we the motherfucking mob. Pull up the first one.
01:06:08.360
All right. All right. Fuck you, Susie. So she DM'd us. Hi, I'm in Santa Barbara. Would like
01:06:13.760
to be on your podcast. That's on next. Bro. This is just her bullshit. Whatever. Fucking
01:06:20.000
three kids. Okay. Whatever. Next. So we send her the confirmation. This is our message. And
01:06:28.840
she says, yes, I confirm. By the way, all the women here, I'm sure you can. Did we send
01:06:34.920
you two reminders? Yes. We sent you one on Friday. We sent you one on Saturday. So we're
01:06:42.140
not like, you know, we do send reminders, just, you know, whatever. We send one 48 hours
01:06:47.940
typically and 24 hours before. Pull it back up. So she confirms. Now, by the way, we tend
01:06:55.840
to book people like way in advance, but for, you know, this show, this was on Friday, but
01:07:00.240
she says she confirms and she acknowledged the reminders. Next today, this is today for
01:07:06.520
11 PM because all these other lovely women were here on time. Thank you. By the way. Uh,
01:07:11.300
I'm like, Hey, are you coming? And she says, no, sorry. And I'm like, this woman is 33, 33 and
01:07:23.980
is 4, 11 PM. It takes, Oh, wait, wait, there's more. There's more. It takes 10 seconds. I'm not
01:07:37.060
coming. You would have known that not at 4, 11 PM, not prompted by me asking you if you're
01:07:44.560
coming. Like, I don't know about what you guys think. I feel like, and this applies to
01:07:48.760
dating too. If you have a date scheduled with somebody and say the date is for 4 PM, you
01:07:55.480
don't wait until 4, 11 PM to be like, and for them to text you to be like, Hey, I'm not
01:08:01.560
coming. You don't do that. No, you tell the person you give them as much advance notice as
01:08:07.440
possible. I'm not coming. Pull it back up. Uh, no, sorry. Uh, next.
01:08:18.760
Okay. That's her. Fuck you. Susie next. It's like a, it's the dog. Do you have or wait? Oh,
01:08:29.400
that's somebody else. Oh, the other no show. Yeah. Fuck you. Susie. Uh, what's that? Yeah.
01:08:34.280
Yeah. Next one. Okay. DMs us interested in being on the podcast. They're DMing us. And then, uh, next
01:08:42.480
uh, four 11. I, so you can't see it. Maybe just hide it temporarily. I'm just like, what's
01:08:48.940
your ETA estimated time of arrival. Cause all these other really polite people showed up
01:08:53.760
on time. I'm like, Hey, are you, are you coming? You agreed? Whatever. Uh, and just, I won't
01:09:01.200
make it this week, bitch. You're supposed to tell us this shit two hours ago, not four 11 PM.
01:09:07.300
You fucking scumbag. Now pull it, pull it up. Yeah. Pull up, uh, the next tab. Now this
01:09:16.640
fight. And then she's trying to say that she's, Oh, you don't know what's going on in her life.
01:09:20.780
This is her dog's Instagram page. Click on the stories, click on the stories. No, the stories,
01:09:28.980
the, the, the profile picture. Click on that. Oh, she blocked us. Okay. Well we can't see
01:09:34.980
that. She blocked us. We can't see the stories, but she had the, she had time to post. That's
01:09:41.300
not her Instagram. That's her dog's Instagram. How are you going to have time to post multiple
01:09:46.440
stories on your dog's fucking Instagram? Oh, but you don't have time. You don't have
01:09:52.700
to fucking time to be like, take 10 seconds. Hey, Brian, I fucking hate your podcast. I'm
01:09:59.260
not coming at least. I don't even care if you tell me you hate my shit. I don't care,
01:10:03.780
but at least tell me. So fuck, what was that bitch? What's that bitch's name? Rachel? Yeah.
01:10:10.320
Yeah. Fuck Rachel. Fuck Rachel. If you guys want to send a little, uh, happy new year message
01:10:16.760
to them, you, you shouldn't do that. Um, and then that other chick Susie, wait, wait, go
01:10:24.280
to Susie's Instagram profile and then click on the stories. This chick posted seven fuck click
01:10:30.360
that shit. She put and tab through them. Just click the arrow. Fucking seven stories. What
01:10:38.940
the fuck? Tap through. Yeah. Next. Just keep going. You got time to post these dumb fucking
01:10:45.580
retarded fucking stories, but you can't be like, Oh, Hey, we're not coming to the podcast.
01:10:51.360
Fucking scumbags. Anyways, it's all good because we have a lovely panel. Thank you everybody
01:10:57.260
for being on time. Thank you. You guys are wonderful. Thank you. Thank you. Oh, she was
01:11:12.140
watching. She was watching. Somebody in the chat was like, she's watching. And then blocked us during
01:11:17.420
it. She knew it. Yeah, man. I know. But she, she was like, she was at the beach. I, she was
01:11:26.740
at the beach with her dog or some shit. Oh, I have something. You don't know what's going
01:11:31.000
on. She literally said, she, she, you don't know what's going on in my life. Bitch, you're
01:11:35.940
at the beach with your dog. What the fuck? It's not like you got a fucking car crash. You
01:11:39.800
fucking, Oh my God. These people are retarded. Oh, so the, the, the dog chick is 27 and the
01:11:46.220
other one is 33. I don't know about y'all. Maybe when you're fucking 17, 18, you're such
01:11:54.960
a, you're such a scumbag, teenage dirtbag, dipshit that it's like you, you, you have an appointment
01:12:00.980
and you don't let the other person know you're not going to show when you're 33. I, I like
01:12:07.180
to think you've had enough life experience to be like, you know, the, the courteous,
01:12:15.020
uh, etiquette thing would be if you've agreed to an appointment,
01:12:22.480
you let the person know, Hey, I'm not coming. That's like bare minimum manners, etiquette,
01:12:33.620
courtesy. We got 33 year old women, 27 year old strumpets, not even showing human.
01:12:43.400
It's because I don't care. This is subhuman behavior. These people are subhuman. It's
01:12:49.220
subhuman behavior. It's bare minimum basic human decency. Hey, look, I changed my mind. Let's
01:12:55.860
fine. Tell, give me, tell me two hours before to a, I'm not going to, it's going to inconvenience
01:13:02.060
us, whatever. At least tell us, but don't leave us holding our fucking dicks. Our metaphorical
01:13:08.720
production dicks fucking for, I shouldn't be messaging these chicks at four 11, prompting
01:13:15.220
them to tell us, you know, this is my therapy session, by the way. Um, but yeah, that's
01:13:20.840
subhuman shit. Fuck them. And, but by the way, I just want to say this is relating it to dating.
01:13:26.400
And I know you want to come in, you know, there's a lot of criticisms of age gap relationships,
01:13:31.540
a lot of criticisms. Oh, these older men dating went 20 year old, 35 year old men dating 20
01:13:39.480
year old women. That's a 33 year old woman and a 27 year old woman. If I'm going to deal
01:13:48.780
with the same immature bullshit from a 33 year old and a 27 year old, I might as well deal
01:13:55.920
with a 20, 21 year old. You know, these girls have no idea what I'm talking about. I'm just
01:14:04.480
saying, I feel like if you're going to deal with the same bullshit, like you're going to
01:14:08.120
deal with, you're going to deal with a flaky 30 year old. I might as well deal with a hotter
01:14:13.600
chick who's younger. I might as well. If I'm just going to, if she's going to, if she's a,
01:14:20.640
Oh, well the 33 year old women, they're more mature. No, they're not. I'm, I might as well
01:14:27.440
just get a hotter chick, less bodies, less bodies, less trauma, less dick, less run through.
01:14:38.160
I'm just saying fair, I might as well deal. Like if, if a girl's, I'd rather a 20 year old
01:14:44.620
flake on me than a 30, 33 year old, that's embarrassing. Like a 33, like I'm dating and
01:14:51.640
I'm getting, I'm getting fucking a 33 year old is 30 minutes late to the date. That's
01:14:57.600
actually, it's actually worse. If she's older, if she's older, because if you're a young, you
01:15:03.080
inexperience, if you're young, you know, it can be excused by an bitch that chicks 33 with
01:15:09.180
three kids and maybe it's just one guy, right? It could be just one guy, but it's like, you've
01:15:14.880
had, how do you not know? That's actually why I started like being okay with dating younger
01:15:22.260
people because I have always dated just naturally like older men than me. That's good. I'm so
01:15:28.900
happy for you. And I felt like I was putting up with these people who were like, exactly
01:15:33.060
like you should be a grown ass man. Like you should, you should have the foresight. Like
01:15:38.580
you should have the communication skills. You should have all of these things and you
01:15:41.820
don't. And that's pathetic. And then I feel like also you're jaded. You've been through,
01:15:46.220
you're like scared to be in love and be hurt again. And you can't pay for something because
01:15:50.880
of the high school relationship, like someone has used you before. So every girl's going to
01:15:54.900
use you and you're just like jaded by life when you're fricking past your 35. Like these
01:15:58.960
men are fucking heartbroken, like on the ground crawling, just begging for love.
01:16:03.200
And they don't know how to fucking still treat you or be a person. So I'm like, okay, I guess
01:16:07.320
I'll be okay dating like some guy who's my age or like, like hopefully there'll be less jaded.
01:16:12.760
And maybe we can teach communication, you know, like we can teach a younger guy, like, Hey,
01:16:18.400
communicate with me like this. They're more open to it. Like they're like, Oh yeah. Okay. That's
01:16:22.020
what I'm supposed to do. Okay. Just teach me. Hey, if, if, uh, you know, you're a woman and you're a
01:16:26.760
bit older and you want to date a younger guy, I don't have any issues with it. I tend to think
01:16:32.760
women generally though, uh, women generally are more inclined to dating men their, their
01:16:38.480
age or a bit older. Uh, but Hey, I don't, I don't have a, you want to date a younger guy
01:16:43.340
by all means. I'm just saying, cause I get this argument. Look, and by the way, on the
01:16:49.160
age gap topic, uh, I date women, my own age, I'll date women younger than me. I've dated
01:16:54.580
women older than me. In fact, when I was in my early thirties, I dated a woman in like in
01:16:58.040
her forties. Uh, so I'm not like hanging out at college parties trying to pick up
01:17:01.980
fucking college girls. But if a 20 year old girl slides into my DMS, who am I to
01:17:08.540
object? Uh, 36. Yeah. I wanted to quickly respond when you were mentioning the, wait,
01:17:16.840
hold on. I'm not done with my model. So anyways, uh, I'll let you respond here in a
01:17:21.380
sec. But, um, I do think this, there's this, there's this argument when we're having
01:17:26.600
conversations about age gap relationships. What do you have in common with a, what does
01:17:32.100
a 30 year old have in common with a 20 year old? Or, oh my God, the 20, they're so immature.
01:17:38.920
Bruh. Anybody who, by the way, women can, I feel like women who deal with men in their
01:17:44.980
late twenties, early thirties, this idea that this demographic of men is, they're so profoundly
01:17:52.720
wise and mature. No, this idea that when you get older, you're, you, you become some paragon
01:17:59.220
of wisdom and you're so mature. No, these people are honestly, a lot of times they're fucking
01:18:03.800
worse. These older people. So once, and it's like, so if I'm going to be dealing with the
01:18:14.020
same bullshit, I'd rather D like, I'd rather deal with the head and it's more excusable to
01:18:20.740
deal with that bullshit from somebody younger. Cause at least it's like, look, okay, they're
01:18:25.200
naive or they're inexperienced and, but you should really have your shit. Like you shouldn't be
01:18:31.240
fucking 30 minutes late to a date in your thirties. You shouldn't be, you know, canceling on
01:18:37.820
fucking no showing. And anyways, whatever. I wanted to quickly respond. Wait, I'm not done.
01:18:45.240
Sorry. Sorry. I got to get this rant out. I got to get this rant fully out here. I'm just saying,
01:18:50.060
I don't know this idea that these, uh, I don't know this idea that like the 30 year olds are
01:18:55.420
all mature, the younger, you know, 20 year olds that they're immature. It's fucking bullshit.
01:19:00.740
It's total bullshit. Um, in fact, I have this theory, I have a theory it's called the, I'm
01:19:08.960
just making up the name right now. Theory. Uh, are they a keeper? And the reality is there's
01:19:16.020
a greater proportion of keepers at a younger age because you got to really, not to say
01:19:24.400
that everybody in their thirties or late twenties is, is fucked up, but most people by the time
01:19:34.060
Okay. Well, better, whatever. Um, sorry, I lost my train of thought. Um, I have a comment
01:19:48.220
real quick when I was a lot younger. I'm going to get it. Don't worry. Don't worry. I got
01:19:50.920
this. Yeah. The keeper theory. It's like, there's a, not to say that there can't be a
01:19:56.020
keeper and you know, older age or whatever. Uh, but the proportion of them are fewer as,
01:20:03.240
as you get into older age groups, whereas like you're dating younger, there's more keepers.
01:20:08.760
There's just more people, single period, but there's more, uh, keepers in that age group.
01:20:14.360
So, uh, I think actually as you start getting older and if you're dating people your age or
01:20:19.780
older, you're going to encounter actually more bullshit than you would otherwise encounter.
01:20:25.140
Like, you know, when you were younger dating people, your age, or if you're an older person,
01:20:30.140
whether you're a man or woman dating somebody younger. So ultimately look, if I'm going to
01:20:35.580
be dealing with this bullshit, you know, flakiness, I bro. And it's not even just the age. Like they
01:20:41.360
can appear on paper to have their shit together. I remember I was some like chemistry, like, uh,
01:20:48.940
this was a couple of years ago. I was, I met this was from a dating app matched with this,
01:20:55.140
uh, woman on a dating app. She was like early thirties, 32, 33. I think she was either a professor
01:21:03.640
of chemistry at the university or she was a PhD student. I'm like, how are you? And then like,
01:21:13.600
she fucking, I don't know, we're scheduling a date. And then she's like, you know, I'm not sure if I'm
01:21:17.920
actually ready to like be out there. I'm like, why the fuck are you on a dating app? Why you shouldn't
01:21:25.140
you have figured that shit out before you were on the dating app? And I'm like, why are you on the
01:21:30.360
date? And look, whatever. We didn't go on a date. It wasn't big waste of my time. But I'm thinking
01:21:33.800
like, if I'm dealing, I guess, ultimate final point, if I'm going to deal with that bullshit
01:21:38.920
from like highly educated career women who are in their thirties, I should just date the hot 20 year
01:21:46.600
olds, low, low body count, less trauma, less ran through. That's pretty much it. Hotter.
01:21:55.140
Okay. That's anybody want to respond? I would say very interesting points. I think that, um, a few
01:22:02.100
points. So, um, with trauma, you could overcome trauma. Um, so the whole age trauma measurement
01:22:09.140
is a little, um, I disagree with that. Okay. Really? I guess a quick response to that. Well,
01:22:14.260
point by point, I'll respond. Uh, people, yes, people can overcome trauma. Uh, would you care to
01:22:21.780
present a percentage of people who overcome their trauma? I don't have that specific statistic,
01:22:29.180
but I don't need a, I don't need a statistics. What does your gut tell you? I can't, I don't want
01:22:34.160
to. Okay. Here's my philosophy. Most people don't overcome their trauma. So I don't care if they can
01:22:40.580
don't care. You're coming to me with all your bullshit. Don't care. I'm not here to be your
01:22:47.300
therapist. I'm here. So if a long-term relationship partner, like that you were dating for a long time
01:22:55.320
came to me and was like, Hey, I'm really struggling with like my depression or something like a family
01:23:00.120
member just passed. How would you respond to that? I'm just curious. Like, are you saying like
01:23:03.520
exempt or like, like, hold on that? I think when you're okay, if you're like trauma, you've been
01:23:10.160
dating a girl for two years and her mom or dad passes away, like there's exceptions, right? Yeah.
01:23:15.300
But did you just, that's just being a good person and a good partner. If you're, if they're going
01:23:21.620
through something, then you can be there for them. But I think it's fair at the, at the onset
01:23:26.480
of a relationship to be incredibly discerning. Like if, even if it's something to some degree
01:23:32.760
out of their control, if a girl, like both her parents just died in a tragic train accident,
01:23:39.360
of course, that's fucking terrible. I, I feel terrible for that's awful. However, I might make
01:23:47.020
a determination based off that and be like, you're going through some shit. I just met
01:23:52.640
you. Maybe you got to figure that shit out. I'm not the person you should be dating.
01:23:57.500
Yeah. That's fair. People, I don't know if I want to be at the onset onset, like I'm talking
01:24:03.260
for a second, third, fourth date. I don't know if I want to be dealing with somebody. And look,
01:24:09.600
some people deal with, uh, with grief in different ways. Uh, but yeah, it could, it could be an issue,
01:24:16.260
but I'm talking about like, I feel like we're, we're using a kind of a, it would be obviously
01:24:22.880
traumatic to lose your parents, but I'm talking about other kinds of trauma, like either mental
01:24:27.660
illness or some other thing that's like going to have potentially like your parents died for a lot
01:24:34.120
of people. It's awful. You don't fully, I don't think a lot of people ever fully, obviously it's
01:24:39.920
going to be something you carry with you, but almost everybody's parents die. Eventually everybody
01:24:45.920
goes through it. People do, you know, recover from that. I'm talking about like other kinds of trauma,
01:24:54.440
I guess. I wanted to briefly mention that, um, I got a bachelor's in neurobiology physiology and
01:25:00.000
behavior and the brain changes. So there's the prefrontal cortex that, um, reduces the activity
01:25:07.900
of the amygdala, which is the emotional center of the brain. So by growing your brain, um, in various
01:25:15.860
ways, by reducing your neurotoxic load, then you could potentially, um, and also taking probiotics,
01:25:23.980
eating organic food, tons of things, meditation, a therapist really does help, um, understanding
01:25:29.460
psychology helps. Like what I do is I've avoided potentially violent, um, relationships because
01:25:36.640
I recognize here are the patterns of domestic violence and I'm distancing myself from that
01:25:42.380
because I, um, don't learn how to like fight and I don't want head trauma and things like
01:25:47.480
that. Um, but I wanted to briefly mention, you mentioned, um, sorry, you mentioned, um, uh,
01:25:53.840
that people are just out of control of their lives and we have an issue, especially in the
01:25:58.220
United States with, uh, our chronic disease epidemic. Yeah. Can I add something? Okay. Yeah.
01:26:05.520
Um, on the topic we were on, I feel like, like this is an issue in the dating world. And I think
01:26:11.160
that we should all know ourselves, like we should all evaluate ourselves. And if you're going through
01:26:16.040
some serious trauma, if you just lost your parent, if you just lost your friend, if you just feel like
01:26:20.860
you're not quite emotionally ready, like that girl who you tried to plan a date with, you know,
01:26:24.860
like, Oh, I don't know if I'm ready. Okay. Then delete a dating app, you know, like go do whatever
01:26:29.380
you need to do to figure out yourself and your life. Like there's an issue in the world where
01:26:34.040
people are like, Oh, I'm just going to go and, you know, try to be in a relationship or try to
01:26:37.920
find love. But like, you're not in a place for it. You're not emotionally even able to take care of
01:26:41.680
yourself. You're not emotionally able to like communicate the issues you're going through.
01:26:45.760
And you shouldn't carry all of that weight onto somebody else and be like, Hey, want to carry
01:26:50.940
everything for me and like be with me together and to, you know, be somebody that I just throw
01:26:55.320
everything on and like, Oh, that's what makes me happy. Like, I think we all need to evaluate if
01:26:59.960
we're even ready for something to be with somebody. And that is a big issue with even these people.
01:27:05.380
Oh, I want to be on the podcast. Okay. But clearly you're not ready to be in the public eye to make
01:27:09.320
the trip out. That girl's like, Oh, well, nothing, nothing is there that I need. Well, this is here.
01:27:14.720
Like the entire thing, you know, like we need to evaluate and focus on like what we are ready
01:27:19.620
for and what we need from people. And if that's actually something that's reciprocal and it's not
01:27:25.380
just something that we're going to go into and we need somebody to take care of us. We need them to
01:27:28.960
carry our loads. Like if that is you delete your dating apps, like stop going out and trying to
01:27:33.020
meet people. You're ruining people's lives and you're taking energy from people who actually maybe
01:27:39.420
do want a relationship, who do have time, who do have emotional availability. And like the dating app
01:27:44.100
should be cleared of all of those people who don't have that, because that is what they're for. You
01:27:48.300
download it and you delete it to show up and say, Hey, I'm here. I'm ready. Or I'm not.
01:27:53.040
I think it's just like a lack of thinking overall. And on the topic of like the dating apps earlier,
01:27:58.780
like way earlier this year, beginning, I went on like one date with somebody that I met on hinge.
01:28:04.380
And then I went on a second one and the second one ended with him crying, like sobbing,
01:28:11.240
saying how he misses his mother who lives in Florida and how he doesn't want to go out anymore
01:28:17.660
because he's just so emotional. I was like, I'm dealing with a man child. I'm dealing with a
01:28:21.900
mama's boy. I'm dealing with a little boy, like take yourself off the app. It's my mistake for even
01:28:26.020
going on the apps in the first place. Cause like, I want to meet you in person. I don't know who you
01:28:29.760
are, what you're about. That was the last date. That was the last time I used the apps. I met my
01:28:34.380
current partner in person, but that was like, just like an accurate representation of really who's on
01:28:38.780
these apps, which I believe they're there more for the instant gratification and like, oh, I can get
01:28:43.760
the like from this person. Like, oh, like I am worthy of that. But it's like, no one ever really
01:28:47.960
takes it. Like every once in a while, no one ever takes it to like the next level. Every once in a
01:28:52.000
while you hear like, oh, I met my spouse on Tinder or something like that. That's great. I know some
01:28:55.840
people like that, but overall, I don't think if you're on the dating apps base take, you're looking
01:29:01.080
for anything serious. That's what it seems like recently. It's just this for gratification and to like show
01:29:05.780
off, you know, your best pictures and then not follow through. That's what I've seen. That's
01:29:08.940
what I've heard and experienced. Maybe if someone else has different opinion, I'm open to listening.
01:29:12.880
I agree very much with what you said about people's lack of thinking. There's about half of the people
01:29:17.700
in the world don't think and half the people do think. And when I was poisoned by glyphosate,
01:29:25.460
the weed killer that is in our organic food in 81% of Americans' urine, according to the CDC
01:29:32.220
and RFK. Damn, bro. I step away for 30 seconds and y'all let her hijack the shit. She's talking
01:29:39.180
about glyphosate. Was that unprompted? How did y'all get to fucking glyphosate? It always leads
01:29:45.100
back somehow. Try to keep it on topic if you can, please. Did you hear my story? It was about
01:29:49.940
what I said. No. Okay. Was it related to what we were on? I'll do like a 10 second recap when
01:29:56.240
she's done. No, no. I don't need you to repeat it, but did it lead into glyphosate?
01:30:04.440
Respectfully, no. Okay. So, um, I guess just the final thought here, I do think related to the age
01:30:12.020
gap conversation, I know it was kind of a segue from like, those are obviously not women I'm dating
01:30:17.780
or have an interest in dating, but it is kind of like, it is behavior that I see, uh, even from
01:30:23.840
people, uh, adults, I guess you could say that I think, and look, men do this too. Uh, men will
01:30:29.440
flake on women. Although I do think it is the case that I, I think in a dating context, women
01:30:34.680
flake more than men do. Um, I mean my own experience and this, by the way, all these experiences I
01:30:40.280
would say, I would cite to are before the podcast. So there's not some cope about, oh, well, Brian,
01:30:46.120
they didn't know about your toxic podcast. So they, you know, they agreed to a date and then they
01:30:50.760
looked you up and then they discovered your toxic podcast. No, it was well before I started being
01:30:56.720
toxic online or whatever. So I can't tell you the number of experiences. I think from like 2021 till
01:31:05.360
I started the podcast, there was like, uh, 2019 to 2022, I was doing a lot of online dating and I was
01:31:16.140
dating women older than me. I was dating women my age. So at the time this would be between the age of
01:31:20.580
like 30, 32, 33. Uh, I was dating women my age, uh, really not dating younger, like 25 to 35 was
01:31:30.180
probably the average range or whatever. And I can't like the amount of professional, like women
01:31:38.580
who had good careers, who seemed to have their life together, who were, you know, in their mid to late
01:31:44.500
twenties, uh, early thirties, some even older who would, uh, who would like be inconsiderate in terms
01:31:53.460
of just kind of flaking last minute. Uh, I had luckily, I mean, I've heard some horror, uh, not
01:31:59.680
horror stories, but I've heard from guy like other guys, they'll just get, uh, stood up that only,
01:32:06.440
I think that happened to me once luckily, but like the women would be obscenely late all the time.
01:32:12.220
And, uh, you know, I try to be, give a bit of a grace. I think sometimes things can happen or
01:32:17.460
whatever, but it did make me think that this, there's this related to the age gap convo.
01:32:24.560
There's this huge idea that is being, uh, this idea that younger women, so women perhaps say in their
01:32:32.160
early twenties or even in 19, 20, 21, 22 are these completely chaotic, immature, uh, unreliable,
01:32:43.420
immature, whatever. And then, you know, you have late twenties, early 30 year old women who are the,
01:32:52.640
the paragon of maturity. And it's just not the case. I had my time wasted so much by women
01:33:01.520
in their late twenties, early thirties. And I was like, finally, I just came to this conclusion.
01:33:08.020
Uh, not to say that I would like, I wouldn't date a woman in her 30. Like, no, that's not the case at
01:33:14.260
all. Like I, but I did come to the conclusion that I, I at least reject this idea that like young women
01:33:22.480
are immature and older women are mature. It's total bullshit, total bullshit. And it's actually a really,
01:33:29.060
I think a good justification for might as well just date younger because you're going to encounter
01:33:33.880
the same kind of bullshit, uh, with younger women as you will with older women. So you might as well
01:33:39.320
date hotter, less trauma, less body count. Okay. Anyways, moving on. Uh, we need to get everybody's
01:33:47.040
relationship status, uh, a little bit delayed on that. What's your relationship status?
01:33:51.200
I'm in a relationship. All right. For how long? Um, we've been dating for, I think, 11 months and then
01:33:59.440
we've been official for, uh, going on seven months. Longest relationship? This one, this one. Okay.
01:34:08.700
Which is only like one of two. All right. Uh, what about you? Relationship status?
01:34:15.380
I've been single for like two and a half, maybe three years.
01:34:28.760
One year. Okay. Uh, the most recent one, the one year who broke up with who?
01:34:34.240
I broke up with him on Christmas actually of the year. Yeah.
01:34:40.100
He was just, well, there was a lot of reasons. Yeah. He was a drug addict and it slowly
01:34:44.420
showed throughout our relationship. Like, you know, he was a functioning drug addict and it slowly
01:34:49.080
started to show itself. And he went from being like a very calm, level-headed person to being
01:34:56.940
Sure. Um, and then the two year relationship who broke up with who?
01:35:06.100
Um, no. He was just, like, that was my first, um, and only like open relationship. He was a lot
01:35:13.380
older than me. Like when we met, I was 20. He was like 37. And we dated for a couple of years and
01:35:19.380
he was just, when we first met, he was like, oh, I, you know, I want to be open and still see other
01:35:23.540
people. And I was like, yeah, of course I'm super young. I want that too, you know?
01:35:26.500
And then after like a year and a half or so, he would have these convos like, oh, I want to just
01:35:31.840
be with you. I want to just be with you. Like, it's going to just be us, you know? And then,
01:35:36.020
yeah, we would have like a really fun night or we would go on vacation somewhere or have some nice
01:35:40.640
trip. And then suddenly he would be telling me like about other girls.
01:35:58.980
Mutual breakup. Okay. Uh, so for the past three years,
01:36:04.880
Um, I've been dating here and there, but nothing has been official.
01:36:07.680
In the past three years, longest period of time you've seen a guy?
01:36:10.940
Um, like have you had a situation ship? Two, three, four, five months?
01:36:15.700
Maybe a situation ship, but it wasn't that long. Maybe three months.
01:36:19.860
Okay. And then for you, uh, single for three years, anything?
01:36:26.740
Um, one was like three months. One was like six months, probably like four months. Yeah.
01:36:40.340
Oh, for, sorry. For about three years now. And then longest relationship a year. Is that the one that
01:36:51.420
Single for three years. Uh, anything in that three year period?
01:36:54.940
Uh, yeah. The rebound and then the one you try again that doesn't work out.
01:37:16.740
No, that one was like maybe like over three years.
01:37:22.600
The most recent relationship was about like, uh...
01:37:25.400
Three years. Okay. The three year one who broke up with who?
01:37:43.680
Um, the first one turned out to be like a monster.
01:37:52.420
Well, we moved into with like one another like after a while.
01:38:03.520
He only revealed himself as a monster in the fifth year?
01:38:12.220
And then the last year he became extremely like aggressive.
01:38:15.700
Um, I think we spent a lot of time with each other.
01:38:18.420
And he just didn't really know how to process his emotions.
01:38:21.620
Um, so he just became extremely like aggressive.
01:38:24.800
And like he just didn't really know how to like handle his emotions and stuff.
01:38:30.500
Like a, like a major event or a traumatic event?
01:38:33.220
Um, I think he like experienced like domestic violence in like his household.
01:38:38.460
And I think that's what made him like super like crazy.
01:38:47.560
But then there was one day that he like punched me in the face so that I broke up with him.
01:39:02.160
Like he probably got like the left side of my face, the right side of my face.
01:39:20.400
But you said he was also aggressive too, so he would like...
01:39:22.840
He was like slowly becoming aggressive and like yelling and like...
01:39:26.360
He was like slowly becoming aggressive and like...
01:39:31.920
And then eventually one day, I guess he just like snapped.
01:39:51.020
And then I broke up when we were like, I was like 20.
01:39:54.840
Because I feel like a lot of red flags, you know, maybe there's like three months, six
01:40:05.200
I'm like, you never really know what happens behind closed doors.
01:40:11.820
Like you think, you know, somebody and then to be in a five-year relationship.
01:40:18.160
And I mean, I'm, I'm assuming maybe prior to that, there might've been, you know, people
01:40:23.300
have arguments or disagreements or whatever, but then like, imagine just spending essentially
01:40:29.540
I mean, maybe you don't view it that way, but like only in the fourth or fifth year of
01:40:35.160
a relationship for that level, that to materialize.
01:40:46.320
Um, I've been single since February and I, um, observe domestic violence and kind of noticed
01:40:56.800
And so I noticed the patterns in my last relationship, um, where he started becoming more controlling.
01:41:04.160
And, um, so God also spoke to him as my understanding and, um, exactly the prayer I was asking for.
01:41:15.040
And, um, my boyfriend at the time grabbed my arm and was really frustrated that I was saying
01:41:20.800
like, Hey, uh, so-and-so's friends, God also spoke to him.
01:41:32.660
Is that the, you said you were in a DV, you observed, I'm a bit confused with the phrasing,
01:41:42.260
The domestic violence you're referring to is he grabbed your arm.
01:41:49.040
There's domestic violence that I've observed in my childhood.
01:41:52.620
No, but you said your most recent, how long were you dating the guy most recently?
01:42:08.800
Um, but the, the most recent one was he, uh, he was violent domestically, I guess.
01:42:19.040
Well, it, he was showing the early signs of domestic violence.
01:42:22.640
So I was like, and then also he was drinking a lot.
01:42:25.680
And the things I would hear, he said, I was like, and then also I was.
01:42:30.220
He said he, he like, he grabbed your arm, right?
01:42:35.220
He wanted me to stop, um, talking about God speaking to me.
01:42:44.420
But I'm asking specifically about domestic violence.
01:42:51.900
While you might object to them wouldn't fall under the purview of domestic violence.
01:42:58.960
I don't think your boyfriend saying, while, while you might find it objectionable, your
01:43:04.260
boyfriend saying, don't talk about these things.
01:43:08.760
Him grabbing you could, uh, could be categorized as domestic violence though.
01:43:17.640
It was just a, like, I'm seeing the trickle down of like, okay, this can become domestic
01:43:27.680
And the reason why I knew that is because I was, uh, listening to a woman that went to
01:43:32.980
Harvard and she was talking about how she dated another Harvard student and she experienced
01:43:38.600
domestic violence that was so extreme that the guy was like pointing it, like beating her
01:43:43.480
up, pointing a gun to her head, like the last step of domestic violence is death.
01:43:55.220
There's tons of things for veterans and all sorts of things.
01:43:58.280
So I, I acknowledge that, you know, uh, domestic violence can be a, an escalation over time.
01:44:10.040
Uh, have, has there been any guys in the picture in the past 10 months?
01:44:14.360
No, because I'm focused on reading the Bible and no rebounds.
01:44:26.460
I'm in a relationship for five years and it's my longest.
01:44:38.620
You said it's not smart for guys to get married.
01:44:51.240
So have you told him you don't want to get married?
01:44:57.760
So I, I, my, myself, I don't want to get married.
01:45:01.180
I think that there are certain risks as it relates to marriage.
01:45:05.020
Um, however, you're a Christian and he's a Christian, right?
01:45:09.900
So I, I don't have objections for those who are religious.
01:45:20.280
I don't reject to the religious motivations for marriage.
01:45:24.400
Now, even if you are religious, I'm regardless of whether you're religious or not, there are
01:45:30.920
still risks, whether you're agnostic, whether you're Muslim, whether you're a Christian,
01:45:39.340
But it makes sense to me, at least if you're a Christian, the motivation for wanting to get
01:45:47.380
So, uh, I don't think I'm going to, you know, this idea that, uh, because I say I dislike
01:45:54.600
marriage, I don't know what that has to do with your relationship.
01:45:59.340
Unless he's a big fan of the show or something.
01:46:03.140
I would never want to push a man into something that he's not fully ready for.
01:46:15.180
So when you're 16, 17, you're not often thinking about the bigger picture and what you want
01:46:21.580
your life to look like and all of your life goals and what you want to do.
01:46:25.660
You're kind of just more focused on, I like this person, let's date.
01:46:32.700
But when you start to get older, like into your twenties, you start to thinking, you start
01:46:37.280
to think about what you want your life to look like.
01:46:39.620
So that's what we're, that's a stage that we're at right now.
01:46:45.520
And I do acknowledge that the age is obviously a factor here.
01:46:50.520
Although in terms of the length of your relationship, I would, it is a bit of a question mark, typically
01:46:59.120
a five-year relationship, especially one where you're both practicing Christians.
01:47:06.600
It does raise a bit of an eyebrow that they're, I'm not, at least, you know, a proposal, an
01:47:16.060
I could be off base, but I feel like a lot of women, if they've been dating and look,
01:47:21.260
I'm going to, because you're young, there's obviously a lot of leeway here, but I think
01:47:28.420
for example, a woman who was say 30 and now she's 35 and she's been dating a guy for five
01:47:35.080
Wouldn't you be like, whoa, where's the, where's the ring?
01:47:39.780
I know I have a plan for my life and I have an age and a time by which I would like to
01:47:49.860
The age that I would like to settle down and have children by.
01:47:55.400
I would not be 30 meeting a guy and then waiting five years for a proposal.
01:48:29.400
Following ideologies go against the Bible itself.
01:48:43.440
I do want to say that I am ignorant about the Old Testament.
01:48:48.760
And I also want to say that I've been an atheist and agnostic.
01:48:53.300
So I don't, I'm not an expert in the Bible by any means.
01:48:59.700
I just want to talk about what I know basically based on the evidence that I know.
01:49:08.160
I did my senior thesis when I was 18 on the spiritual realm and demons and angels and things
01:49:15.880
And it's always been a topic that's fascinated me.
01:49:18.460
And I really wanted to see like what constitutes blasphemy?
01:49:22.040
What constitutes somebody being a false prophet?
01:49:24.840
What constitutes a false leader in Christianity?
01:49:29.960
And what I came across was that Hollywood, A, because I know you mentioned The Conjuring,
01:49:34.900
I heavily criticized The Conjuring in my senior thesis, actually incorrectly portrays a lot
01:49:41.500
of the instances, obviously because it's Hollywood, more or less almost to mock what real prophets
01:49:51.540
and what you like to say exorcists do when they're taking like a spirit out of a person
01:49:59.360
There is no addition to Christianity other than what is in the Bible.
01:50:04.900
And in Leviticus, it actually, I'm pretty sure it's Leviticus, which is Old Testament,
01:50:11.820
There's a spot that says, don't quote me on this, I don't remember it fully.
01:50:16.160
It says that we should not engage with necromancers or the spirits of the, like, people who claim
01:50:25.480
And in The Conjuring series, Ed and Lorraine Warren were actually, historically, the first
01:50:37.200
To be combined, they were the first ones to be acknowledged by the Catholic Church.
01:50:45.160
That's direct contradiction to the Old Testament?
01:50:48.120
I believe that the Bible has all we need to know about Christianity.
01:50:53.040
I have, so again, like, I'm not an expert in the Bible or religion.
01:50:59.020
But I have heard that, like, people say that you're not supposed to try to contact the dead,
01:51:07.820
I just, I just feel like there is something trying to contact me, potentially.
01:51:16.480
Couldn't it be the manifestation of your schizophrenia?
01:51:21.760
Well, I want to challenge the whole healthcare system.
01:51:27.780
What does that have to do with what I just said?
01:51:31.300
You have a definition of schizophrenia from medical doctors.
01:51:35.720
And I challenge the healthcare system on their definitions of things.
01:51:43.200
Some things are just not taught in medical school.
01:51:46.400
Okay, I'm just saying, I think part of the reason you could, and, like, from, like, a loving point of view,
01:51:50.700
that you could be having, like, all these stuff you're dealing with is because you are channeling with the chakra stuff.
01:51:58.380
So it's, like, it's so easy for them to get to, you know, a hold of you.
01:52:06.540
If it is the case, though, that the chakra shit, the Buddha shit, whatever, is incompatible with Christianity,
01:52:18.300
Are you willing to make a commitment right here, right now, on the whatever podcast,
01:52:26.260
I reject things that Jesus Christ would reject.
01:52:30.300
So if it is the case that Jesus Christ would reject chakra, blah, blah, blah, whatever, all that stuff,
01:52:39.580
Hypothetically, I would reject what Jesus Christ rejects, if that includes those things.
01:52:43.940
I just am curious as to why certain religions and beliefs and evidence are ignored.
01:52:55.420
But you're basing your beliefs off Jesus Christ, which is Jesus Christ is only existent in one religion.
01:53:07.060
I work and provide, and she's loyal, cooks, cleans, and supports.
01:53:43.760
All right, has anybody here, anybody here have a roster, starting with you, since you're single?
01:53:53.120
Is that, like, people I'm sleeping with right now?
01:53:57.940
It could include, yes, it could include people you're sleeping with, but it could also just be people who you're dating, I guess.
01:54:08.460
I've gone on two dates with one guy and three dates with another guy in the last two weeks.
01:54:17.900
I would say that I'm weighing my options, but I am dating right now.
01:54:24.320
And then at any point in your entire life, you've had rosters at previous points, maybe?
01:54:37.660
I'm a very big, if my heart is with someone, I'm all in.
01:54:47.820
Like, going on dates with more than one person at a time?
01:54:51.640
Yeah, like, basically dating multiple people, whether or not you're having sex with them.
01:54:59.940
And to A, I was, there was, like, a time when I had, like, one date with one person at the beginning of the month.
01:55:06.780
It didn't work, and I tried with somebody else later, but never, like...
01:55:38.100
I mean, I've, like, dated, like, people, you know, like, at the same time, but...
01:55:50.380
I've, like, dated people at the same time, but, like...
01:55:53.060
Your friend was squinting at you, which would indicate a disbelief in what you're saying.
01:56:00.600
You've dated multiple people at the same time, though.
01:56:02.880
Yeah, like, going on dates and, like, getting to know, like, other people.
01:56:09.780
Um, hooking up at the same time as other people.
01:56:11.940
I mean, I feel like it was, like, one month, this person, next month, that person.
01:56:29.620
I'm gonna have to, uh, pass for my family's sake.
01:56:34.640
There's not an implication that you were sleeping with them, necessarily.
01:56:37.520
Just, a roster could just be, hey, I'm dating, uh, you know,
01:56:49.840
No, I think, I think almost every single woman has a roster,
01:56:53.020
because isn't it just people who you could be in a relationship with?
01:57:02.700
You don't even have to necessarily give it back.
01:57:09.300
I feel like on your roster is, like, the people you are interested in.
01:57:13.780
You know, like, that you would wake up and text,
01:57:17.240
Or, like, that you would want to go on a date with right now.
01:57:19.540
Not every guy in your DMs, because if that's my roster,
01:57:28.740
I wouldn't ever want to make plans with any of those people.
01:57:48.840
but God told you to go over to him and get his Instagram.
01:58:02.540
but a combination is somewhere between the two,
01:58:04.120
because I was raised between the Catholic Church, Mass,
01:58:09.500
because my father was, you know, Catholic-German.
01:58:12.540
My mom was a little bit more interested in the Protestant faith.
01:58:30.320
or engage in most politics due to, uh, reasons.
01:58:40.800
but you did write that you were a Christian-Catholic.
01:58:43.560
So you're somewhere between Christian and Catholic?
01:59:20.560
Chat, are you guys hearing the jingling from your ears?
02:00:03.340
you believe in freedom for a woman to dress however she wants,
02:14:10.960
I feel like it's an interesting hill to die on.
02:21:16.240
but it's like this is what I feel comfortable with
02:21:33.920
but I understand there's different denominations.
05:28:27.960
she looks like one of the three blind mice i love
05:30:32.200
the men you would date uh do you want to do this
05:30:38.060
because yeah it is a bit awkward if you're in a relationship
05:30:41.140
but those of you who are single we are going to have you guys participate
05:30:44.260
so why don't you tell nick the age range uh if you were on a dating app that you
05:30:54.440
and nick is going to uh walk you guys through that
05:31:03.820
is this real profiles or is this like photoshopped
05:31:39.460
okay okay um yes even though he's a mama's boy no
05:31:53.860
no no no no no no no why is it showing just a bunch of hicks no
05:32:25.460
okay next person you know what give her 10 more
05:32:29.060
okay 10 10 extra bonus right okay i'll say yeah to him
05:32:44.160
no no no no no no no no okay next person so what's your age range 27 to
05:39:52.080
No, the one on the right, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, and another
05:40:19.500
no, inhale no, like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, where is the, okay, no, no, yeah,
05:40:49.500
yeah, sure, yeah, fuck, no, no, no, no, all right, yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no,
05:41:12.280
captain, no, I can't, I like, no, captain, take me on heli's after ride, I know, but the black
05:41:21.300
or the red, we do the two, no, okay, you yeah, that's the type of white boy,
05:41:29.700
lobster, you know, I was like, how many noises you do I need, no,
05:41:33.280
all right okay i'm sorry no cousin no no i don't know i hate when they post with their shirt off
05:42:03.280
all right craig i'm gonna give it to you fuck oh no yeah chris that's what i'm talking about okay no
05:42:46.260
who is that why would you girl hell no hell no chris get off the dating app somebody
05:43:22.480
no i'm so sorry y'all you yeah you could really just yeah you could really just keep doing that
05:43:30.560
no okay no no no no yes oh dan ah no yes no no no no no no
05:44:18.240
Not I, not this one, can't be, could not, would not, shouldn't ever.
05:44:29.700
By the way, by the way, I was looking at some of those and you passed on some decent looking guys.
05:44:43.500
Actually kind of reasonable a little bit for some of the panelists, although you're very picky, very picky.
05:44:54.260
I don't know if that was like maybe two or three out of a hundred or something.
05:45:06.740
I mean, I have spoken to like and dated like one or two white guys, but like I'm just, the attraction's just not really there for me.
05:45:15.220
Does anybody else have like a preference on that?
05:45:30.220
Like the less, the less super white looking, the better to me.
05:45:41.100
I don't think Asian people have like dark enough features to me.
05:45:46.740
Well, I mean, if you get into like Southeast Asia.
05:46:07.020
No, I do like some white guys, but I'm, but more commonly you will see me attracted to a darker man.
05:46:20.600
I don't have a preference, but I do gravitate towards like Middle Eastern men.
05:46:49.760
I have to keep my eyes closed, but I don't mean to, um, uh, gosh, I don't really want to answer that honestly.
05:46:58.240
Um, but like, let's just say there's a racial bias in my family, so I don't want to bring someone into that racial bias.
05:47:12.720
I guess a slight preference towards my own race.
05:47:17.480
For just question for you, would you object to a white person who said they only want to date a white person?
05:47:33.400
Like, if you're not sexually attracted to, but I think, but I do object.
05:47:37.760
I knew this girl who would only date people who had red hair in their genetic line because she had red hair and, and it's a recessive gene that's supposed to go extinct one day.
05:47:48.380
So she believed that she needed to carry that line on.
05:47:52.300
So she will not ever be with anyone who does not have a red hair person in their genetic line.
05:48:05.040
I just think that's not really cool, but like, you know, to each their own.
05:48:08.380
Wait, but when you say not really cool, what do you mean?
05:48:14.720
It's, it's, it's, to me, it stems from a certain form of racism.
05:48:18.640
If you want to only, if you are only willing to be with somebody because they have the same hair color as you, like that's a little bit.
05:48:29.220
I mean, I don't know if hair color is necessarily, uh, I don't know if it, there's necessarily an implication of, uh, racism.
05:48:37.320
Well, that's true, but she would also say that she would prefer them to be white.
05:48:44.140
Because there can be black people with red hair in their genetic line.
05:48:48.440
There can be, but she would say specifically that she would want them to be white.
05:48:52.400
I think you can have two preferences at the same time.
05:48:55.100
I think you can also want to be with a white person and also, uh, well, you, your primary thing is you want somebody with red hair and they should be white.
05:49:11.740
What about you specifically want to have white children?
05:49:17.640
So would you say it's wrong for two black people to, or one black person to want to have black children?
05:49:24.560
I think it's racist for anyone to not be willing to date outside of their race.
05:49:31.560
Um, I'm a little, but earlier you said it was preference.
05:49:37.360
You can have a preference, but if you were unwilling, there's a difference, I think.
05:49:44.060
I find darker people attractive, but there are still white people I find attractive and I would be open to dating them because I don't have a bias against a certain color of skin.
05:49:52.680
But if I did, then I would only want to date certain color of skin people.
05:50:00.720
I don't think that it necessarily means that if you have a preference for one race, it doesn't mean you have like negative sentiment towards another.
05:50:11.600
No, no, but if you're against ever being with, if you're, if you're black and you will never be with a white person because you think you have to be with black people, I think that's a little bit racist.
05:50:26.180
The weird thing is we humans came from Africa, so we migrated from Africa.
05:50:34.600
This is, this is a fact that people don't talk about.
05:50:38.980
Well, it's interesting that the human, like if you look at the human ancestors, like Lucy and everything, they come from Africa and then they migrated to Europe and Asia.
05:50:52.180
You're going to give us an anthropology lesson now?
05:50:55.920
It's weird that we are like deal with racism because it's like, wait, we're all from Africa.
05:51:11.260
You acknowledge that people possess different skin color, right?
05:51:18.380
Yeah, but even if a white person acknowledges, well, my origination, I came from Africa.
05:51:24.060
Well, their current state of affairs is they're white.
05:51:29.660
And somebody who's black wants to date a black person.
05:51:33.380
It's totally fine to, like, we have free will and it's good to just choose what is the...
05:51:50.540
Like, let's say a white person's like, I don't want to have mixed race kids.
05:52:00.140
Because of the color of their skin, that's the only reason you don't want that.
05:52:02.900
Would it be racist if a black person wanted to get with a black woman so that he could have black kids?
05:52:13.760
But if he was opposed to ever getting with a white woman, if he fell in love with a white woman and was like, I'm sorry, I only can be with black people because I need black babies.
05:52:23.060
Well, I mean, I don't think you can really fall in love with somebody.
05:52:28.480
Well, it's racist if you're opposed to being in a relationship with someone or co-creating with them because of their skin color.
05:52:35.100
If you're against doing something with somebody because of their skin color.
05:52:40.080
I don't think it's just only their skin color, though.
05:52:44.880
If by this logic, I didn't want to be with, like, an obese woman, does that make me fat phobic?
05:52:55.820
I think it's good to just try to avoid labels because you can change so quickly.
05:53:06.480
I mean, you could change your skin tone and stuff.
05:53:11.060
For example, if you call something racist, it's like, well, but can they move out of that racism?
05:53:26.160
I think that people can change if they really want to.
05:53:29.980
OK, so I got to be careful what I say here because of health care, my career.
05:53:38.320
I personally am just not attracted to those types of men.
05:53:46.500
Does that make me, like, a bad person because my biological components, like, I'm just not.
05:53:54.540
Like, does that constitute something in the gray area?
05:53:57.440
I'm, like, wondering what your guys' opinions are.
05:54:11.760
So it's, like, if you want white children, I wouldn't think that you're racist because of that.
05:54:32.120
It's, like, I said, if she wants to have white children, I don't think that's racist.
05:54:38.440
I think it's normal to have, like, preferences to maintain your culture.
05:54:42.300
If you have, like, certain languages or certain traditions that go down your family, then, like, it makes sense to have that interest in, like, maintaining those norms.
05:54:52.060
Yeah, so there's, like, this other component of, like, what I share in common with my boyfriend now is so much greater because he is Russian.
05:55:04.240
And I have a lot more in common just, like, on paper with him versus an African-American individual with cultures, tradition, religion, food, family, et cetera.
05:55:16.060
So it feels like the best fit for myself, but, you know.
05:55:21.620
But if you were to, like, if you didn't have your boyfriend now and if you were to meet some guy who was, like, half black and you thought he was hot somehow, like, you know, he didn't have super black features or something.
05:55:36.680
And you thought he was attractive and he spoke Russian and he had, like, roots similar to you.
05:55:43.400
Would you be open to connecting with that person?
05:55:50.700
Yeah, so I think there's no form of racism there.
05:56:12.560
Because your kids are going to look like you no matter who you appropriate with.
05:56:14.720
So, okay, then is it racist for a black person to want to have black kids?
05:56:23.860
I'm speaking from a raw place where I was just dating a half black man.
05:56:30.300
And slowly found out that his type is everyone who looks anything except for white, which was really offensive to me.
05:56:42.100
And the way that he would talk about, like, his struggles with blackness and his being half white, half black, being raised with all white people.
05:56:51.980
Now he's introduced to his black family and, like, wants to have this, like, connection to his roots that he didn't have before.
05:56:59.640
There's, like, this bias that comes out while he talks about it that he, like, wants to be able to have this thing that he didn't get to have when he was raised, which is being around black people.
05:57:15.580
But at the same time, like, sometimes he would just say things that I thought were kind of racist about...
05:57:21.240
He just was too thinking about the color of people's skin.
05:57:27.260
And at the end of the day, if that's all you're thinking about and it's stopping you from connecting with somebody deeply,
05:57:32.560
if it's stopping you from being willing to have a relationship, to being willing to communicate with someone,
05:57:37.020
to being willing to pursue something simply because of the color of their skin, that is what racism is.
05:57:42.940
Like, there is a bias and a hatred towards something that was obvious to me when he would speak.
05:57:48.780
I mean, there's no negative sentiment towards black people.
05:57:59.640
I just think it's okay for any race to who you date.
05:58:08.760
If somebody else wants to have an interracial marriage, interracial relationship, interracial...
05:58:17.160
But I think people are allowed on my own level.
05:58:23.320
If you're black, if you're Asian, if you're Indian, if you're whatever.
05:58:26.500
If you want to date your own race, that's totally fine, too.
05:58:36.340
But if you're opposed to connecting to people because they're not your race...
05:58:44.400
So what makes a preference and what makes racism?
05:58:48.540
Well, that's what I was saying earlier, was if you're...
05:59:01.120
But the racist in chair two is giving me Max Karen vibes.
05:59:05.920
She's going to report you to the HOA and asking for the manager.
05:59:25.040
I do have to move it on to the next topic, though.
05:59:36.100
Just to show you guys, some of you said you'll be better looking in 10, 20, 30, 40 years.
05:59:53.560
I just know that's not accurate because I'm taking, like, so many steps to prevent looking
05:59:58.400
And you still look pretty good, not gonna lie, you know?
06:00:00.400
But I mean, I look exactly like my German grandmother there.
06:00:06.680
And she has the best skin and the best hair in the world.
06:00:09.020
So if I look as good as her, that's a blessing.
06:00:13.660
Okay, picking a horrible first photo is unfair.
06:01:14.640
I look like the evil, like, decrepit witch from Snow White.
06:01:29.080
I don't identify as, like, Catholic or Christian.
06:01:49.660
It makes everyone kind of look the same around the eyes.
06:02:21.400
The next segment, AI segment, we gender swapped all of you.
06:02:25.020
So, the question is, would you date the male version of you?
06:02:34.200
He looks like a zesty version of my brother, so no.
06:03:01.340
If the facial expression was anything not moving, honestly, it's kind of cutey.
06:04:42.760
Okay, when we met the reload of ours, it's like coming up with a...
06:04:53.840
If they were going to do it for that for someone, it would have been mine.
06:05:50.760
But that's why I'm going to tip my man Brian, y'all.
06:05:53.440
I've flown from that airport so many times, there's always something wrong.
06:06:56.260
The one with the beard is kind of a Chad, so...
06:07:07.960
At the very top on the left, it's direct messages.
06:07:24.980
The age and the gender for all of those, please.
06:07:31.860
And then, once you're done, take it off of DMs, okay?
06:07:44.120
Oh, I just thought I heard something about evil eye.
06:07:55.320
And then, Alina, remember, we have to have you do, at some point later, the...
06:08:27.260
You believe your tattoos make you more attractive, not less attractive, although you never get face tattoos.
06:08:34.640
So, if any other panelists want to weigh on this...
06:08:38.760
I think, at least in terms of men's general assessment of women's attractiveness, I believe that tattoos, generally speaking, there are obviously men who have fetishes, there are men who have a type or whatever.
06:08:54.860
However, I'd say, in general, for most men, majority of men, tattoos are either neutral or negative.
06:09:11.200
No, that's the general stigma, and I accept that.
06:09:13.560
You're just saying you believe it makes you more attractive.
06:09:19.240
It sets up, like, a perfect storm for a stereotype.
06:09:32.620
I don't think tattoos are a deal breaker, necessarily, but I would say most men, it's not like, I don't think you're going to be more attractive to a man because of your tattoos.
06:09:49.960
For most, I think a lot of men, they're going to view tattoos on a woman.
06:09:52.560
For most men, it's going to lower your attractiveness.
06:09:56.260
I think for certain people, it's, like, an extra attractiveness.
06:10:01.560
I prefer to date men who have tattoos, so it's just going to...
06:10:05.000
It's on the same playing field, you know, but...
06:10:07.620
I think it's different between men and women, though.
06:10:10.580
I think, I don't know if it's a majority of women, but I think women will deem tattoos to be attractive.
06:10:20.700
The latter, where most men deem it kind of like a red flag, or, like, ooh, like, what's she been into, or what is she substituting for in her life, where she likes to sit for eight hours in pain and get this ink scratch into her permanently.
06:10:36.500
Like, I graduated late because I have a late birthday.
06:10:43.500
I ended up dating, for a short amount of time, a very, very, very traditional conservative Christian boy who was in my grade.
06:10:57.440
And I actually started that process, and it cost a lot of money.
06:11:01.620
And then I woke up with him eventually because he started to go into, like, a spiritual psychosis, which was really bizarre.
06:11:07.980
And I realized these are representations of myself, you know, Bible versus things.
06:11:13.320
But if somebody's getting, like, demonic stuff tattooed, that's on you permanently.
06:11:17.160
But men are allowed to have preferences, and I accept that.
06:11:24.240
For you, do you think that tattoos make a guy more attractive, more appealing?
06:11:33.840
Do you think that whether you're attracted to the guy or not...
06:11:38.740
Do you think that there are men who you would characterize as masculine, but you're not attracted to them?
06:11:45.060
Like, whoa, that guy's really masculine, but I'm not attracted to him?
06:11:50.940
Do you think that tattoos make a man more masculine or can, I guess?
06:12:00.020
I think if a man has really nicely done tattoos, then they could make him appear more masculine.
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And are you more attracted to men with tattoos, or...?
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Well, I understand that, you know, if they don't have tattoos, it's not a deal-breaker.
06:12:26.680
If they do have tattoos, it's not a deal-breaker.
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But you don't have any preference one way or the other?
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Okay, and do you think tattoos make a man look more masculine?
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And do you think it makes men look more masculine?
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Like, if it looks like it suits them, then yeah.
06:12:50.140
No, I feel like people with shitty tattoos look really ugly.
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But, like, if they're bad tattoos, then it just looks like shit.
06:13:03.220
Um, I've dated more people without tattoos than I have with...
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Like, it's, like, Smosh Pass, and then there's, like, raw, like, over the covers.
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Like, if you were a dude, you would be the biggest fuckboy ever.
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But, yeah, that guy kind of mogs, not gonna lie.
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I think I'd have, like, over seven inches, yeah.
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Wait, Alina, you were all shaking your head, like, yeah.
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Wait, going around the table, just, if you were a dude, would, this is the most retarded
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Oh, this is a, I don't know if I've ever asked this.
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So, look, this isn't exactly choir session here.
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Of the men you've been with, I'll keep it general at first, maybe then I'll get more.
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What percent, if those of you who answered, who had a good sense of it, could you do like
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a one in four, like one in four guys that you've been with have, what's the breakdown?
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One in six, one in ten guys have a big, like what do you mean?
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So of the guys you've hooked up with, like is it one in four, one in five, one in ten?
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I mean, I haven't hooked up with like a ton of people, but I would say a large percentage
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Like at least every other guy, every one, I mean at least three out of four guys has
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Um, I mean like not a lot of people have big dicks, I would say like one in four, like
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Once you've had a big dick, it's like, ah, you know what I mean?
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I wouldn't say it spoils you because sometimes if it's too big, it hurts.
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You know, I think you can get pussy spoiled too.
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If she's got like ginormous labia, at least for me anyways, some guys don't like that there.
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I think that's weird, but, uh, it could be the wetness.
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The, the, the more, the merrier, the more, the merrier for sure.
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Like, I feel that's the problem with, if you start getting, getting around a little bit,
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you start comparing and it's not even sex, right?
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It's not even the, the dick or the pussy or whatever.
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It's like, once you've dated enough people, you start creating an amalgamation.
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And then it's like, oh, this guy, I don't know, whatever, X, Y, Z, other characteristics.
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And then it's like, ah, you like kind of want all of it.
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Then that's the, I think that's the big problem.
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You're like, oh, I can't settle for this because I've seen that it's better elsewhere.
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Like, how's a girl gonna like fuck a professional athlete?
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And then you gotta, you gotta date Jimbo from Target or from fucking CVS?
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It's the conversation I was just having with my brothers yesterday.
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Like, they don't understand, like, okay, you can go, in their head, they really, I want
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I think they really underestimate the romanticization and emotional feeling that women actually carry.
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Because it's like, if a girl has messed with a guy with a lot of money, right?
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The guy in the back of his head is always thinking that, yeah, she thinks, like, you know, in the back of her head that, you know, oh, shit, this isn't the lifestyle.
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This guy's way better, when really, that's half the time, that's never going on with her head.
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I feel like men, that's a very masculine thing to do.
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And if something better comes along, they string them along and go like that.
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Women don't necessarily tend to do that as much as men, I feel like.
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I feel like, like, overall, that's something that, on average, there's way more women that, unlike social media, like Superman,
06:22:22.820
there's way more women that are with average men.
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Like, if you're a girl and you date a rich guy, and then you date, like, an average guy or whatever.
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You know, I don't know if that's, I think that can be a case where, like, the lifestyle difference could be a factor.
06:22:45.080
But I think the biggest thing would be, once you've dealt with a guy,
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I would say the two big things would be a guy with, like, just, you're drawn to the personality.
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Or, like, the really, really, the really, really good looking guy.
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And you're fucking in love with him, blah, blah, blah.
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Oh, my, he's, you know, you're just in love, whatever.
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Because you're, you know, unless the guy's really fucking simping for you to the point where it's, like, everything's taken care of.
06:23:39.380
Because a lot of times, I think women will deal with, like, a guy who's wealthy.
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And, you know, maybe he takes you on dates or whatever.
06:23:57.000
And then, honestly, I feel like, for me, after I dated a really, really rich guy, I was more willing to date a less rich person.
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Because I realized that having money doesn't mean anything on how they're going to treat you.
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And, like, how you're going to be happy at the end of the day and how much love you're going to feel.
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Like, at the end of the day, that's what it should be about.
06:24:15.980
And then we can work on the money together if we need, you know?
06:24:18.640
But a man having money, it's not going to make your relationship better for the most part.
06:24:25.240
Like, it's not going to make him love you deeper.
06:24:26.360
Yeah, it's, like, it's not the only thing I'm prioritizing for sure.
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There are other redeeming qualities that I would want in a man that I'm taking serious.
06:24:41.520
He needs to cut that hair, and then it'd be perfect.
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You feel it's very old school and strange and degrading.
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A woman should respect her man as the man respects her.
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Let's, for the context, let's do the bow video.
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So this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend that I showed to new girls to train them.
06:25:40.200
Yeah, but I mean, the bow, like kings and shit, I'm on some king shit.
06:25:45.720
But that's not really necessarily something that they do with, I feel like.
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Oh, I'll have the whitest girl ever bowing, trust me.
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And then get ready to, one more time, just the bow portion.
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All right, do you see the submissive hand posture?
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And I feel like it's kind of like a kink, almost.
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I'm just saying, me and my partner don't possess that kink.
06:26:40.820
Because that feels awkwardly like making yourself less than.
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I would feel like less than if I was to bow when he got home.
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It's just not Asian culture is not existing in my house.
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And in fact, they couldn't really look at you, I think.
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If my partner ever said that to me or viewed me like that or said what you said, I would
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As long as she's consenting and she's cool with that, all power to you.
06:27:41.360
Um, but, uh, I, I don't think it's degrading is the thing.
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So in a consensual kink setting, then of course not.
06:28:03.640
I mean, it's, it, it's good if she does it, but, oh, it's just, it's basically just a temperature
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test to see if she's willing to do something essentially completely harmless, completely
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If she's willing to acquiesce to, uh, a simple ask, let's say.
06:28:28.260
If she's going to fight me on it, she wants to negotiate.
06:28:34.040
I mean, look, it's nice if she does it, but I don't actually need it.
06:28:37.260
It's simply a temperature test to see where she's at in terms of her submissiveness.
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I probably don't date how most men date for the past three, four years or whatever.
06:29:01.780
The majority of women I've dated, not all of them, but the majority of women I've dated,
06:29:08.320
So this is a dynamic that most men probably aren't going to enjoy.
06:29:11.620
Uh, if you're reaching out to me, things are going to be on my terms in the same way
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that you women have had the shit on lock for a long time.
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When men come to you, you have all the leverage.
06:29:24.760
If a woman comes to me, yeah, I'm leading that relationship and she can, she, it can be
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They should know this shit if they're messaging me.
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They should already know it's about, I don't even need to ask them, but, but if you do,
06:29:49.520
Well, to be clear, uh, some girl off of a dating app, I don't think the bow is going
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Uh, at least initially only the ones who follow you.
06:29:58.420
Well, no, even if she doesn't know you, I'm just talking for a normal guy.
06:30:01.780
Now I think a normal guy, you can screen for general, her being submissive, if that's
06:30:08.260
And then, yeah, she actually probably would be down for the bow, but like a feminist liberal
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I'm very submissive, but you wouldn't do a bow.
06:30:18.220
If I was like in a relationship with someone and they asked me to as like, just a cute,
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Or if they were like, you know, saying it all sexual.
06:30:27.160
Like if it was like a hot thing that they were like, you know, being my dom, then I think
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But yeah, it's, it's not some guy who I'm on a first date with.
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Just show of hands who here kind of agrees with her and disagrees with me going around
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Um, like if he asked or like, let's just go around the table though.
06:31:00.260
Just if it was like addressed to me in the way that Brian is describing it, like my partner
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was like, you like on first date, like you have to bow on the first date.
06:31:09.300
I think that's weird vibes, but I think it's hot.
06:31:12.180
It could be hot if you guys are closer and you're into being a dom and I'm being into being
06:31:19.840
Dating scenarios, not Brian's dating scenarios.
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It's probably going to be an unrealistic ask at least on the first, like at least initially.
06:31:31.880
Perhaps, perhaps, but if the girl comes to you, yeah, that shit's on the table.
06:31:43.240
Um, I think it's simply about, however, on the first date, I probably would not.
06:32:01.720
Um, if it were like something that was like fun and like cute and like a joke, then I would
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do it, but it wouldn't do it in a literal sense where it's like, uh, what do you think?
06:32:11.920
Um, like, like I said, if like, if it was a joke or a cute little thing, yeah, like I'm
06:32:16.640
going to do my little man, but like on a real life thing, probably not.
06:32:37.040
Um, you're Catholic, you're pres, what is your, uh, non-dom Christian, non-dom Christian.
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Can you tell me what the Bible says about submission?
06:32:45.400
So in the Bible, it says to submit to your husband, to respect your husband, uh, for he
06:32:53.120
Husbands should love their wives the same way that Christ loved the church.
06:32:58.520
Yeah, that, that doesn't conflict with him requesting you to bow.
06:33:13.260
So in Ephesians, in the Bible, it says wives submit to your husbands.
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Like you are the authority on when you get to submit to your husband?
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I think I'm allowed to do what I'm comfortable and not comfortable doing.
06:33:34.640
Um, and also respectfully, my boyfriend is not my husband yet.
06:33:39.660
But I'm saying if you were married, would you, okay.
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How about if you're married, would you do the bow?
06:33:53.140
But if I'm not comfortable with that, if that feels like.
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Is it morally, is, is doing the bow in contravention of Christian ethics?
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I feel like it is because it says like a man and a woman come together in a partnership,
06:34:06.120
like together to build each other up, not to make each other feel like caca.
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I would feel like caca if that was like requested in the sense, like maybe if it was like a cute
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little thing, like we were saying, okay, whatever.
06:34:17.220
But like, if I was being like shut down for what I'm saying, my feelings, I don't feel
06:34:23.180
I would feel that would be the same thing as like, you know, Jesus would never disrespect
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The same way I wouldn't want my partner to disrespect me.
06:34:30.840
Let's assume in a, have you ever had an argument with a boyfriend?
06:34:38.620
Could it be logically possible that you could down the road with your future husband, whether
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it's your current boyfriend or somebody else, could you have a disagreement with your husband?
06:35:01.800
You want to stay in North Dakota, wherever the fuck you're living.
06:35:13.360
But you want to stay where you're, where you're living.
06:35:16.760
Um, that's just like, so situational depends on like, why are we moving?
06:35:27.800
I would like to think that we'd find a middle ground and talk like adults to see like, Hey,
06:35:31.420
I could stay here, take care of my elderly family.
06:35:37.180
Cause there's certain things that are on equal level of importance.
06:35:40.460
Let's assume in the hypothetical, there's no sick family members.
06:35:53.440
I wouldn't give up my career, but my career is transferable.
06:36:02.260
Um, well, I would trust that God speaks to him cause I wouldn't just marry anyone.
06:36:07.040
So if he wants to go to a different city, I would trust him.
06:36:12.500
So under that circumstance, you would be submissive, but you wouldn't be submissive.
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Uh, the only person that I should ever bow to is Jesus.
06:36:24.440
So I know that God wouldn't even want me dating someone who wants me to bow.
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Wives, Ephesians, wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
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Submit to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
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Like he's the Lord he's cause the, then you would be idolizing your man and you're not
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And I know like, I would be so convicted if I, um, like bowed down to my man, my husband.
06:37:00.080
Do you think, do you want to get married one day?
06:37:12.560
Um, isn't that kind of like the normal thing that Christians do?
06:37:19.260
Technically not supposed to be having sex outside of the marriage, but.
06:37:22.940
I, I want to, I want to probably eventually, I don't know a timeline though.
06:37:41.920
Get down one, on one knee and spend a month's worth of salary on some bullshit diamond ring
06:37:48.360
that, by the way, they, they do some weird shady shit with the supply.
06:37:53.320
What, what's that called with the diamond supply?
06:38:01.940
Uh, a couple thousand G's on a fucking diamond.
06:38:11.460
I think getting down on one knee is more bitch made than bowing.
06:38:18.760
I think it's important to, for people to learn how to respect each other.
06:38:23.660
Um, so like everyone should try to respect each other.
06:38:33.140
Um, I don't, I don't see, I don't see how that, I don't see how that is the same.
06:38:37.720
Like how do you, how do you see like, yeah, I think it's worse to get down on one knee
06:38:42.620
and to enter into a bullshit contract that is going to financially fuck you in the event
06:39:01.540
And, uh, you have to spend all this money on a fucking diamond ring.
06:39:04.780
And then whoever pays for the wedding, you're going to waste a bunch of money on the fucking
06:39:14.100
You agree with that with the wedding part and the wedding cost.
06:39:17.840
But I think the specific act of proposing, which is almost only men do it.
06:39:23.740
That's like degrading, but y'all expect that shit to express your love to the girl that
06:39:38.620
And that's what he's doing is he's getting on his knee to show you there is.
06:39:45.220
No, it's showing I'm willing to get down and kneel to you, to this relationship, to
06:39:51.400
ask you to create something new together and to move forward as one.
06:40:01.900
I would love to bow to some dude who wants to marry me.
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And I'm not going to bow to some dude who I've been on some dates with.
06:40:13.220
I would bow to some guy who I take very seriously, who takes me very seriously, who has respect
06:40:17.260
for me, and I want to do something that makes him, exactly, that makes him feel good, that
06:40:22.880
makes him feel hot, whatever it is, like a kink for him, if that's what it is.
06:40:29.440
Yeah, just, can you put it on the grounds clean, if you can just put it on the side there?
06:40:43.800
Yeah, so if he's like, yo, go make me a sandwich.
06:40:53.620
Oh, yeah, more effort, but it comes from a different place, I feel like, because that
06:40:57.320
would come from, like, genuine love, like, oh, like, I want you to eat.
06:41:00.780
But if he's like, oh, my ego's feeling low, I need you to make sure you love me, even
06:41:16.380
Oh, because, you know, sometimes I see Catholic, like, they go up and they, like, bow.
06:41:25.460
I just think it's interesting if, if we start to break down what women expect of men.
06:41:33.280
I think you guys might change your tune a little bit on the bow, because I think the bow
06:41:49.060
From my understanding of the Bible, marriage is recommended.
06:41:52.400
But the issue is people get divorced due to money is, like, the top reason.
06:41:57.520
So, it would be nice if we had financial education in schools more often for people to avoid debt
06:42:05.840
But it's not easy to avoid debt when you're in the United States.
06:42:12.300
A lot of divorces are due to financial reasons.
06:42:15.300
But, I guess, while we're doing kind of empty platitudes, war is bad, peace is good, and it
06:42:22.760
would be great if there were no homeless people and no starving children in Africa.
06:42:27.260
I have 30 pages of notes, but it's just too much for this podcast.
06:42:35.900
So, how, I want to ask, how do you feel like it's comparable, that analogy you just did
06:42:45.140
Well, the actual physical motion is, it's of the same nature.
06:42:49.900
So, it's like, the bow is, like, in the same way you would kneel for a king, you would bow to a king.
06:42:58.020
A kneel is actually more effort, more physically demanding, puts you in the lower position,
06:43:03.780
and it is, I think, more submissive to a degree.
06:43:13.840
They're comparable in the sense that the actual action itself is...
06:43:27.360
But what about just, like, what the meaning is?
06:43:32.860
I don't even see how it's comparable, other than the physicality of it.
06:43:36.760
Well, it's comparable in the sense that this is something that women expect or want.
06:43:43.300
That's not something that women expect and want.
06:43:51.860
I don't think most women are going to be cool if I'm, like, just...
06:44:04.000
I don't think women are really going to be all that cool with that.
06:44:09.920
I don't think a lot of women are going to be okay with the proposal being...
06:44:23.600
You are asking me to let you conquer me and to be above me for the rest of my life.
06:44:33.440
Like, I'm already in a lower place between me and marriage.
06:44:37.640
No, that doesn't make you lower because you have children.
06:44:44.000
Says the guy talking about how a woman with a lower body count is more preferable.
06:44:50.600
A woman having your children ought to elevate her in your esteem.
06:45:09.260
Like, in your sense, it devalues her for a future partner.
06:45:17.900
You are the woman I'm going to put on a pedestal for my whole life.
06:45:25.060
Oh, get on your knee for me just for some random moment.
06:45:32.900
It's so much deeper than just, hey, can you marry me?
06:45:37.800
The reason why we even ask each other questions is because we're supposed to do it politely.
06:45:41.660
We're not supposed to just throw the ring and be like, hey, no, can you pass me that water, please?
06:45:48.100
I don't know specifically in history why, you know, that custom was made.
06:45:52.300
But I'm pretty sure the reason why men made that was because they felt like they needed to.
06:46:06.860
I mean, then we can just get into, like, well, what are the ways in which men or women or both are failing to adhere to traditional standards?
06:46:19.080
Just a reminder, who was against, like, who wouldn't bow?
06:46:40.220
But, like, if it was an everyday thing, like...
06:46:51.020
Some people don't fully understand what I mean by perfect.
06:46:55.120
Wait for a little bit, Nick, but you can show it later.
06:47:01.500
When I say perfect man, I'm talking about perfect looks, perfect personality,
06:47:07.180
perfect personality, and whatever your determination is of what perfect looks is.
06:47:12.960
Perfect personality, perfect loyalty, never will leave you.
06:47:19.360
I guess you could technically want to leave them, although if they're perfect, why?
06:47:29.840
So I guess technically, like, could be the richest person in the world, or maybe whatever.
06:47:37.500
Perfect, perfect father for your future children, if you want children.
06:47:54.440
There's a magic genie, and so the perfect man, it's not something he's asking you to
06:48:00.140
do, but the genie says, in order for you to have this perfect man, you need to bow for
06:48:05.520
So it's a third party who says, you need to bow to get the perfect man.
06:48:14.860
I don't really have an answer for that, because I am with my perfect partner, and now he would
06:48:22.520
And I want to say, like, well, none of us are perfect, but...
06:48:32.900
I don't have an answer for that, because, I mean, I don't want to bow to nobody but God.
06:48:39.820
Actually, so your current guy is perfect for you.
06:49:14.520
His name is Jesus, and I be bowing every night.
06:49:18.420
Realistically, though, if Jesus comes back to Earth, no offense, you're not the first pick.
06:49:24.680
So, like in human form, if he comes back in human form or whatever, he's probably not
06:49:32.880
He wouldn't fuck anybody because he's a virgin.
06:49:38.980
Well, you're the one fucking trolling with your answer, so...
06:49:49.140
In the real world, like of the men that exist, right?
06:49:55.280
The perfect man, hypothetical, would you bow for him?
06:50:03.480
Wives, submit unto your husbands as you do unto the Lord.
06:50:22.800
There is Christianity in various Asian countries.
06:50:25.520
Do you think Asian cultures that observe this bowing behavior, do you think they're idolizing
06:50:45.600
Okay, but people are also on different levels with Jesus, so people have different
06:50:52.960
It's not like idolizing somebody to bow to them.
06:50:58.340
Okay, so these, are you saying that these people in Asian countries who happen to be
06:51:03.440
Christian, when they do a cultural bow to one another, that is in contravention of Christian
06:51:15.900
No, but they do the bow out of respect, so if I want to.
06:51:18.760
But they, and no, when they get married, they have a show-off where the woman is supposed
06:51:22.380
to bow, and the man is supposed to bow, and whoever goes wrong with it.
06:51:28.480
And I'm not commenting on anything that, you know, like I'm not a part of.
06:51:32.280
Like, if someone's Catholic, I wouldn't hold my standards to them.
06:51:36.400
So I especially don't know what's going on in Asia.
06:51:39.340
But you acknowledge that there are Christian people in Asia.
06:51:45.360
And they still bow to each other, and it's not in contradiction to the Christian faith.
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This girl's the most Christian girl I've ever seen.
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Okay, if he takes care of, like, everything, like, all the bills, everything, then sure.
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I just feel like, as a personal thing, I would just be like, well, I'm in Japan.
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Maybe I'll bow to people out of respect, because even at sushi restaurants.
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It's not about the perfect man, like, in Japan.
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It is about the perfect man, because that's my hypothetical.
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Well, then I'll put Jesus Christ as the perfect man.
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For the perfect man, you give up your career entirely.
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If you can keep it as, like, an interest, I don't know what we concluded.
06:53:18.100
Like, if it's able to not make money off of it.
06:53:29.980
You can't go to raves anymore for the perfect man.
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I feel like I would still like to, like, study that on the side if I gave that away.
06:53:50.200
Do you give up your career for the perfect man?
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My career where I make money, if I don't have a passion surrounding it, then I would love
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And then do you give up your, is singing the passion that you're referencing?
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And honestly, he would never want that because I would go insane.
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So you're perfect man, billionaire, good looking, your type, uh, perfect personality,
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perfectly loyal, perfectly everything, everything, everything.
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Like he would be like, you're not allowed to write songs anymore and sing.
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You can still sing in the shower, but that's it.
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I would never be able to be with someone who was like, oh, you can't write songs and
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What if you can write songs for him and he pays you?
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As long as he, if he would let me write songs and sing and he would let me have unlimited
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studio time and I could make the songs to fruition.
06:55:17.900
Well, so my life goals have to do with being successful in the world, which comes from
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But if he was already a billionaire and he had all of the money and resources in the universe
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and I did not need to use my voice to be able to gain that level of resources, which I need
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And he wants to give those to me to be able to freely do what I want.
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So he's like cutting out this whole middleman thing and letting me actually get to like the
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life that I want, which is, you know, building orphanages, providing clean water for people
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Like if I was able to do that without having to release music, I would not care about releasing
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But I would still have to write it for my mental health.
06:56:15.400
So I wouldn't classify being a business owner as a career.
06:56:18.640
However, if my man wanted me to stay at home and be a real housewife, I would definitely
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Anybody else a singer here or creative or something?
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So perfect man, billionaire, perfect good looks, perfect everything, everything, everything.
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Perfect in bed, perfect personality, perfect loyalty, never cheats on you, never leaves
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I mean, the only way I can take the trade, the only way I could give that up is if I've
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I could be like, I will introduce you to this perfect man right now, but you got to give
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If I were to just give you a hundred billion dollars right now, no, really no strings attached,
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except you have to give up your career and it's your money.
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I'm just saying I have, no, I was, I'm saying I was raised to be an artist, not just a rich
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I feel like, well, actually, I know a lot about it.
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Do you sacrifice your singing and songwriting for the life of your child?
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I would never have a kid before, before I was successful.
06:58:49.840
Although I believe you can have, can you have the same love for an adopted child as a. . .
06:58:58.540
I'm deeply in love with the kid I used to nanny.
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If I had a kid, and I had chosen to have that kid.
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And for them to be, if it was saving their life.
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So for your kid, would you give up your singing and songwriting?
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They would be better off if I was singing and songwriting.
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I wouldn't be able to be a mentally fit person.
06:59:45.980
Maybe you could just go to therapy for that, though.
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As soon as I write a song and sing it, my therapy's out.
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People can survive in life without singing and songwriting.
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Some people who are not born artists will never know.
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The less you create, the less happy you're going to be in life.
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Humans have an amazing capacity for adaptation.
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I think you could find other coping mechanisms.
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I think through your own force of will and constitution, if singing and songwriting was off the table, I think you could be a functioning adult human.
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I just don't think there's a world where that is, though.
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If somebody, like, somehow prevented you from doing that, would you rather be dead?
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If I'm not going to get where I'm going to get with music.
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There's a starting point and where that takes off.
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But when you share your voice, for one, people connect to you, and then you build a community, and then you build a like-minded community, and then there's more and more support, and then you can take over the world.
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You can help the children have food, help the children have homes.
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The more people are connected to each other, the more people are sharing their voice with each other, and connecting through that community, the more possibilities there are.
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And that's, in my mind, getting there is through my music.
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I've already connected to so many people I would have never connected with.
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But my purpose in life is to get there with music.
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Like, God has shown me my path, given me my gift, and my gift is writing and telling a story that connects with people through music.
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Let's say your musical dreams could all be achieved, but you can't do all those things you listed that were secondary to your achievement in music.
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So, like, paying for the orphanages or whatever.
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Clean water for everybody, building orphanages, all the other things.
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I was telling you, if, yeah, if he had everything and I could do all of that stuff, I would love to skip the step of trying to get out in the world and whatever, spread my whole voice.
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But in the scenario, I said, you can't do music.
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I mean, I can do whatever I want at home in bed.
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You say you would pick the cleaning the water over.
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So, if you had the perfect man, not only do you have the perfect man, he's got the perfect money.
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He can, through money, that problem can be solved.
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Building or, so why don't, but when I asked you, you have to completely abandon music and singing and blah, blah, blah for the perfect man.
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Well, I said, if he would pay for all of that stuff and let me have free will, I would choose that over it.
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But you can't even do the songwriting, singing privately.
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It's a magic genie, so it's not even him asking it.
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Okay, so the magic genie says, oh, you can have the perfect man with all of the money in the world.
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You can do everything you really want to do at the end of your goal.
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I don't know, because I'm just depressed if I don't sing or songwriting.
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Okay, I'm just not even going to repeat it at this point.
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Is it possible you could have children one day?
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To save your sibling, would you give up your singing?
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But although they would kill themselves, because they're the ones who invested so much in my
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I mean, there's a lot, there's a lot, there's a lot more to, there's a lot of sacrifice in
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Do you know how much sacrifice I've put into this?
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There's a lot of sacrifice, a lot of things that I wanted to do, a lot of discipline I
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How are you going to help people with singing, though?
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I think music can have a positive effect on somebody, but.
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Or you may be one of those people, like, you know, they say there's, like, a thing, there's
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people who, like, when they hear music, it literally is, it's a body thing, it's healing
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Like, that's why there's so many people who have huge fan bases.
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And expressing, like, it's, like, you help express something that people don't know how
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And you can express that for somebody across the world that you don't even know.
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Like, the amount of messages I've gotten from people in random parts of the world.
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Oh, this song, these lyrics, this, like, changed my life.
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Like, you, music is such a beautifully powerful connective tool.
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I listen to, like, Bo Burnham and Flight of the Conchords and, like, so many different
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Perfect career, but lame man, or perfect man and lame career?
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Perfect man and lame career, or lame career and perfect man.
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Is he set on his career as a non, as a perfect man?
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You get the perfect career, but your man is lame.
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Or you get the perfect man, but your career is lame.
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So, whichever man I end up with that's an icon.
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I would, uh, unfortunately pick lame man, perfect career, because I would love to be hired by the Trump administration.
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Because, like I said, I wouldn't have chose a man at all.
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If you're going to have a man in your life, he might as well be as close to perfect as he can be.
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Here, we're going to do, uh, we're going to do, I need to do, like, the Twitch and pull up my Instagram and all that shit.
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TTS is 200, read 100, Venmo, cash app, whatever pod, twitch.tv slash whatever.
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Get some merch, get some merch, discord.gg slash whatever.
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Guys, guys, I'm trying to hit 400,000 followers, uh, before the end of the year.
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So we have like basically three days at this point.
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Maybe by the end of the stream, you guys can help me get to, uh, to 394.
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Like I post three or four every single day on my personal Instagram.
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So, uh, get me to 400,000 before we, uh, hit 2026.
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And then let me think if there's anything else.
07:10:39.220
Uh, oh, we already did this hashtag big labia matter.
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Um, and then, uh, let's see what we had to, okay.
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Uh, and I think you, oh, you don't want children.
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Uh, you're pro-life, but you believe abortion should be accessible, uh, due to under the
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Even if abortion is illegal, women will go get like illegal abortions and there are, uh,
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probably health risks there because it's being done illegally.
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Uh, but as a Catholic and as somebody who considers themselves pro-life, uh, it seems
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How do I justify in the 0.1% chance that an autistic girl ends up in that?
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I work full time as a caregiver for fully disabled adults.
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Listen, if that poor girl was to be assaulted and she had a medical condition on top of,
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If there's a chance she's going to die, how can I justify?
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Uh, if you're, I don't know what the right word is, mental incapacity or your mental, uh,
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It's special abilities, but I say special needs.
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If you're that mentally, yes, there is a degree of mental deficiency that, yeah, you,
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they can't consent to sex, but you said autism, like autistic, autistic women.
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No, you could have been more precise in your statement there.
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So the individuals that I work with are fully dependent on external humans to take care of
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So it's like, in that case, who am I to say, if you're both going to be at risk, why not
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have it accessible for the individual, you know, mother and child, like who has a better
07:13:19.500
Well, this is actually a, I've never actually heard this argument.
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If you're intellectually disabled and you're essayed, that's a, that's a new angle for the
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But is it only if they're intellectually disabled?
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Let's go ahead and grant in instances of rape, hold on.
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In instances of life of the mother, rape and incest, abortions are allowed.
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But how about like the 99% of abortions that are completely elective?
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Are you, are you fine with banning abortion in those circumstances?
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I would never, I could never, but I can't speak for other people.
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Except for those circumstances because it just doesn't sit well in my soul with my religion.
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All right, well, I'm not going to have a deep dive on an abortion debate.
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As soon as she's back at the table, I'll get into it, I guess.
07:15:13.580
Samantha, uh, you say people of color can't be racist towards white people.
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I think they can be racist towards white people.
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I think if you are discriminating somebody against their, like, the color of their skin,
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So a black person can be racist towards a white person.
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I think a black person can be racist towards a white person.
07:15:45.700
Uh, you say that men are more privileged in society than women.
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Um, I think they're a bit more privileged because, um, of like, their mentality towards one another.
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I feel like women are typically pinned against each other, um, when it comes to anything.
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Like, women are always pinned against each other.
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Like, when it comes to, like, reality TV or when it comes to, like, when it comes to, like, a corporate job and stuff like that.
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Like, like, women tend to, like, hate on one another, which really sucks.
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Um, when it comes to men, I feel like men are very, like, buddy-buddy and they get along with each other really well.
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Um, so that gives them an advantage in my opinion.
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I mean, I, I think that there's more collectivism among women than men.
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I've had a personal, like, different experience.
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I think women tend to, like, back each other more.
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Uh, I, I see more, I don't know if cohesion is the right word, but I don't know.
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There's more, like, female solidarity, I think.
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I would say I see more solidarity in men than I do with women.
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Tavey, you say, uh, you agree women are oppressed in the USA?
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Like, even just the other day, um, I was having a casual chat with my co-worker and she told me that she almost got kidnapped five times.
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I don't hear a lot of, um, guys getting as, um, targeted or kidnapped.
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I know it happens, but I just feel like when it comes to that, and I feel like safety is such a big thing.
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So, I mean, maybe it is the case that women are more likely to be kidnapped.
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However, I don't know what this has to do with oppression.
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Oh, that's, that, when, when I thought of oppression, I thought, ah, kidnap, ah.
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So, if the government was kidnapping women more so than men, perhaps this would be oppression.
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But, like, individual criminal actors, I don't know if that has to do with oppression.
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Like, typically, I think there needs to be some degree of, like, authority or, like, society.
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Like, I don't know how, I just don't see how that is oppression.
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Bad thing, bad things definitely happen to women.
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I don't know if I would consider any or every bad thing that happens to somebody.
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I don't, I wouldn't categorize all bad things that can or do happen as oppression.
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Oppression seems to be something more specific.
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I'm just like, okay, I just, I guess I didn't understand the definition of oppression.
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Typically, it's, like, unjust treatment, typically at the hand of, so, prolonged, cruel, or unjust treatment or control.
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I guess, maybe under this definition, it might.
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I usually think of it more, like, in a structural or systemic sense, though.
07:19:25.120
Like, even if your girlfriend or boyfriend is being, like, physically violent towards you, that's definitely fucked up behavior.
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But I don't know if I would be, like, you're being oppressed.
07:19:40.780
Amelia, you say men are more privileged in society than women.
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There's only, like, one example, which is why I circled that, which comes to safety.
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Like, people have, like, recently somebody tried to get in my car when I parked in my back seat.
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That doesn't happen to my boyfriend or to men as much as it will happen to women.
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But overall, it's just unarguably a fact that women are at more of risk by themselves in society.
07:20:13.760
Men are actually more likely to be victims of violent crime.
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Like, whenever they see each other, like, oh, you're staring a little too hard.
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I mean, if, yeah, if a guy's, like, staring at another guy, there's a chance, like, depending
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on, like, the background, the socioeconomics, the culture, yeah, that's, like, that's, you
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If you're a chick and you're, like, staring at a dude, you want to fuck.
07:20:52.820
I'm concerned about Logan Paul's health because he's getting, he's getting, like, attacked
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at his head and that can, sorry, sorry, I mix him up.
07:21:07.540
So, one of them, one of them who's boxing is creating head trauma and that can cause serious
07:21:18.200
What does, what does a consensual boxing match have to do with, like, stranger danger violence
07:21:26.300
Because if your brain is more damaged, you're more likely to be more violent.
07:21:36.180
Hold on, but the proportion of the population that engages in professional boxing is really
07:21:43.760
Well, like, if you look at, like, Mike Tyson, for example.
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Brain damage happens when you punch at your head.
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Yo, matter of fact, y'all should follow me on Instagram so I can, like, be better at my
07:22:38.360
Yep, hit, follow me at Kaylee J Music, K-A-Y-L-E-E-J-A-Y Music, and go watch my YouTube video called
07:22:49.980
It's a song about just wanting to be, not think about surviving so much.
07:22:55.980
I thought it was interesting, though, about the conversation that he was having about
07:22:59.800
the violence thing, because it's like, he said that men are more likely to, like, be
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more victimized in a certain way, but it's just like, yeah, but, like, by other men.
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I feel like we kind of skimmed over this, but, like, in what universe, not the LA that
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I've lived in, is a man walking alone at night in less danger than me, a 115-pound blonde
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girl walking in LA at night, which I don't know in what context.
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Either one of us would be doing that, because that's just dangerous, period, for both sexes.
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Yes, obviously bad things happen to men and bad things happen to women, but it's like,
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don't you guys think, like, just physically you're at a bigger risk?
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Yeah, men are more capable of defending themselves.
07:23:47.160
What Brian was saying, arguably, it's confusing to me, I'd like you to elaborate if you want
07:23:53.580
The violent, we're talking about how violent crimes, we're all a little bit confused how
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they're more often against men, and how she's confused.
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Because I was saying, like, in, I don't know in what case, we'd be walking down LA at night,
07:24:08.580
like, my partner versus me, you know, who is statistically at a higher risk of being
07:24:25.000
If we're talking about statistics, yes, men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.
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Who do you think is more scared at the gas station at night?
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Speaking from experience, it feels like the females.
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Who's more likely to be victimized versus who feels more scared?
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Like, yeah, it is maybe true that women feel more scared, but your actual threat level
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might be not match up or coincide with the actual threat level that exists.
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It's better to use AI as not a good or accurate form of research.
07:25:19.100
Okay, I mean, Google will give us AI answer, too.
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Who's more likely to experience violent crime, men or women?
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But it's also, think of it, I have another question.
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Man on man versus, like, women are typically abducted my size by larger people, right?
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If it was forceful or it was violent, who stands a better chance?
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Your fear, well, we're not talking about fear justification.
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I'm just talking about who's more likely to be the victim of violent crime, and that's men.
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Is it because men, like, because they have more money, usually, and they walk around with, you know,
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like, with things on that make people attack them for their things?
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I mean, I just saw the title, and maybe it actually confirms my...
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I thought it was about to be some fucking bullshit fucking women...
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Women are less likely than men to be victims of crime.
07:27:04.520
The title of the thing is women in America, but...
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It says women are less likely than men to be victims of crime.
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Females made up 70% of victims killed by an intimate partner.
07:27:17.620
Women are less likely than men to be victims of crime.
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The probability being a victim of a violent crime, assault, robbery, homicide, has declined
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among both men and women in the last two decades.
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Yeah, you can, but AI can give you the correct answer.
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Men are more likely to be victims of violent crime overall and by strangers.
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The IPV thing's bullshit and then even the SA stuff is questionable, but...
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But women face disproportionate risks in specific areas like...
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And men face disproportionate risks in other areas.
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Here, just ask for the numbers from like chat GPT or something and then we'll have it.
07:28:28.680
But, I mean, in any case, we have a couple different sources there affirming that men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.
07:28:40.280
And actually, just, I guess, one perspective on this is you'd say if you're just walking around alone, let's say you're walking around in a crowded area.
07:28:52.860
I think if I get jumped by a random person, nobody's coming to help me.
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Uh, if you're in an area where there's other men present and some fucking whack job man starts beating on you versus beating on me, I'm getting my ass whooped and nobody's coming to intervene.
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If some guy starts, hold on, if some guy starts thrashing on you, you have free bodyguards.
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And, in fact, if stranger men see a stranger woman getting beat up by a stranger man, or any man for that matter, that guy's going to get fucking curb stomped by totally random other men.
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If men will intercede on behalf of completely random, non-familial, fucking random ass women.
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We would hope that, but my friend just got attacked in West Hollywood.
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Tons of witnesses by some random homeless man started beating her face in and not a single person tried to help her.
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I'm not saying that this is 100% always the case.
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And she's a beautiful, tiny little blonde girl.
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Like, she, if someone was going to help some cute little girl, it was going to be her.
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And no one helped her in the middle of West Hollywood.
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I'm not saying in every single instance where a woman is getting attacked by some random dude, there's going to be, like, a brave, by the way, you'd like to say, by who?
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The men are, you know, the men are committing all these crimes.
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If somebody's going to intercede on behalf of a woman, it's not going to be another woman.
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Also, when it comes to life-saving, when it's going to come to bravery, when it's going to come to courage, when it's coming to pull you out of a fire out of your burning house, when it's going to be saving you in some sort of emergency situation, overwhelmingly going to be a man.
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So, we need to put a little respect on men's name in that regard.
07:31:10.640
But I do feel like it's just a little odd to make that comparison because I feel like, okay, yes, a man would more than likely probably come to jump to help the woman, but it's because it's a disproportionate odds.
07:31:25.760
You stand a better chance at defending yourself against another man.
07:31:30.520
And I think the question would be, would a man come in if she was getting jumped by other women?
07:31:38.400
He wouldn't be pulling them apart because that's the equal to that.
07:31:41.800
You're equal to you getting jumped to a man is equal to that.
07:31:48.600
So, I would say in response to that, so a man attacking her versus a woman attacking her, I would tend to generally agree with you that men are less likely to intervene if it's two women fighting.
07:32:04.380
However, I mean, I don't really care comparatively in the sense that, you know, I think, would a man be more likely to break up two women than break up two men?
07:32:23.820
But there's no counter where, like, women don't intervene, period.
07:32:32.720
So, like, if a woman sees, like, will stranger women, like, let's say you see a guy getting his ass whooped by a chick or you see a chick getting her ass whooped by a guy.
07:32:49.220
Women aren't really going to intercede in either.
07:32:51.700
And if a woman sees two men fighting, they're not going to intercede either.
07:33:03.360
You feel like that's an exception, not the rule?
07:33:23.640
There's, like, going to be other things like violence.
07:33:26.180
So, yeah, men are almost, like, four times as likely to be murdered.
07:33:34.800
Men's violent victimization rates are usually higher.
07:33:39.680
Women experience higher rates of sexual violence.
07:33:44.620
There are some studies that seem to counter that, but I'm not going to get into that right
07:33:48.180
Um, so, I mean, this, you were talking about this.
07:33:55.460
Men are more privileged in society because of safety.
07:34:04.520
But that, that's what it just said right there.
07:34:16.340
Violence is way more frequent than trafficking.
07:34:28.960
But that poses a bigger threat to me statistically according to what you just showed me than violence
07:34:41.140
And I feel like boys are almost more sought out there.
07:34:43.140
Most of the time, that's women who are approaching younger women.
07:34:49.220
If you see three women fighting, you know, two women come up to me.
07:34:52.340
We're just not going to linger on that too long.
07:34:55.840
Kaylee, you say women do not have equal rights to men in the USA.
07:35:02.160
Men still make more than women in America and have the opportunity to do so.
07:35:07.000
Is there, okay, besides the wage gap, is there any rights, unequal rights, I guess?
07:35:11.780
Well, you know, they're trying to take women's bodily autonomy away.
07:35:18.660
Well, I mean, Roe v. Wade was overturned, but that pushed it back to the states.
07:35:22.960
Women still do have abortion rights in various states.
07:35:28.460
What would this have to do with equal rights, though?
07:35:32.040
If a man gets to pick what he does with his body, and then a woman should get to pick
07:35:44.480
Well, I mean, men and women have generalized bodily autonomy, but, like, it's not, bodily
07:35:52.720
autonomy is not, at least for men, completely free.
07:36:09.440
Also, but just relating it to abortion, I don't see what that has to do with equal
07:36:23.060
Well, they can get a vasectomy without having to ask their husband to get it.
07:36:31.820
Women have way more birth control options, and also, yes, women, you can sterilize yourself
07:36:37.440
Well, yeah, but most doctors won't unless you're over 25, and especially if you have
07:36:48.600
They wanted, if she didn't have medical issues that led to that.
07:36:54.220
It's a complete feminist myth in the modern day, in recent, maybe some doctor fucking
07:36:59.300
70 years ago was like, oh, you need your husband's permission.
07:37:03.700
A woman does not need her partner's consent to be sterilized.
07:37:08.020
No, you don't need it, but there are, but a lot of doctors ask, like, I've asked my doctor
07:37:11.900
about being sterilized, and they're like, oh, well, just wait till you're older.
07:37:16.260
Like, they want women to have, like, to have some, oh, I want to have a baby one day.
07:37:22.660
You know, like, they want you to get to a point where someday you'll think that, instead
07:37:26.780
of letting you choose that when you're at a younger age.
07:37:30.140
Well, I mean, I think it's kind of a prudent thing for doctors to do, to be like, hey,
07:37:39.820
Women have robust birth control options as compared to men.
07:37:46.340
Well, they didn't make birth control for men because there were too many side effects.
07:37:50.060
So, they just gave birth control to women because they wanted women to have to deal
07:37:55.020
It's actually just physiologically easier, hormonally, to create birth control for women.
07:38:05.040
Like, the manner in which you need to be able to stifle men's ability to, like, generate
07:38:11.340
sperm or whatever, that is, I don't know if the right word is, like, chemical.
07:38:16.160
Well, that's biologically, chemically more complicated.
07:38:22.400
But they tried it, and it's very easy and possible.
07:38:25.520
They just didn't want men to have to deal with the side effects.
07:38:28.060
But, I mean, also, the side effects reported were far more severe than side effects reported
07:38:36.720
There's severe side effects in all the birth controls right now.
07:38:43.780
The side effects in this male birth control study you're citing were far more severe than
07:38:49.580
the sort of generalized reported side effects that women experience from, like, your sort
07:38:58.940
The birth control mechanism for women is far easier to control for than, like, changing that
07:39:06.140
I mean, there's some pretty severe side effects for women.
07:39:13.180
But, like, so that's why I'm asking, like, what were the side effects for men?
07:39:18.460
I don't remember off the top of my head, but, I mean, here, I'll just Google it because
07:39:24.080
What were side effects for failed male birth control experiments or whatever?
07:39:31.280
I mean, a side effect of the birth control I used to be on for seven years was brain tumors
07:39:37.300
and cancer and death and suicidal ideation and every possible bad thing there could be.
07:39:50.580
The researchers decided the side effects were too frequent.
07:39:57.200
Mood-related effects were especially concerning.
07:39:59.800
The risk-benefit balance wasn't acceptable at the time.
07:40:04.780
They're saying major mood swings, irritability, depressive symptoms, emotional changes.
07:40:11.600
My understanding was it was very severe side effects for the men.
07:40:17.340
Not to say that that can't happen in women, but my understanding is a lot of women, while
07:40:22.560
they can have really bad side effects from the birth control, I think for most women,
07:40:32.140
Well, they've made so many different kinds that, you know, if one is causing those issues
07:40:44.800
I was mostly thinking about the wage gap and opportunity.
07:40:47.700
Yeah, but, I mean, just really quick, men don't have any choice.
07:40:51.840
Once a woman gets pregnant, women do have quite a few different choices.
07:40:55.820
I think if you actually wanted to have equality between men and women, you would actually have
07:41:00.280
to completely, like, to match women to the current status of—so I think women are up
07:41:06.900
here right now when it comes to reproductive rights, men down here.
07:41:09.920
In order—and you can't really bring men up here, I believe.
07:41:14.000
So in order to have equal rights between men and women on the reproductive rights abortion
07:41:21.580
To match men, to make it equal, that means completely getting rid of abortion rights.
07:41:31.880
If you think about it logically, would that be equal?
07:41:36.680
So if a woman gets pregnant, does the man have any say whatsoever?
07:41:42.480
To bring—to create equality between men and women, you would have to bring women
07:41:50.560
That's why feminism isn't actually about equality.
07:41:55.880
But even the pro-choicers are going to have a massive issue with a man having a say as
07:42:10.200
But that's what would have to happen for it to be—you know, it would have to come—they
07:42:17.660
Pro-choicers would probably fight that more than—I feel like they would object.
07:42:25.400
I think pro-choicers would—if they had to choose between men being able to force women
07:42:32.620
to get abortions versus not allowing to get abortions, I'm almost thinking they become
07:42:45.720
To prevent men from being able to dictate to women that women have to get an abortion,
07:43:00.260
He's basically saying that he doesn't think the real problem—when it comes to men having
07:43:06.460
a certain authority or say if a woman can have a baby or not, he doesn't think the actual
07:43:10.420
problem is if the woman wants to have the baby at that point.
07:43:13.980
It's the fact that the man has to say, oh, so if you have say if I can have this child
07:43:19.500
or not, or let's say you can tell me not to have a baby, oh, I'm pro-life then because
07:43:35.900
No, I'm saying that, okay, well, so if we're having a conversation of making things equal,
07:43:44.680
Well, but okay, if we're making it equal, then men need to be able to carry the child
07:43:49.280
Because it's not equal that one person has to carry and give life to this thing.
07:43:53.420
The decision obviously should be up to this person, and it is more equal that it is up
07:43:57.360
to them because they're the one who have to go through the experience of bringing this
07:44:00.680
life to be, versus this other person has literally no attachment to this in the physical at all.
07:44:13.060
It's never going to be equal because a woman still has to go through that.
07:44:15.380
So if you drop a woman's ability to choose down, that's still not equal because the man
07:44:21.960
I mean, the only—so there's equal and then there's equity.
07:44:25.700
So I think equity would be in any state where a woman can have an abortion, men should be
07:44:32.860
able to completely—let's say the woman wants to keep the kid and the man doesn't.
07:44:38.700
Obviously, you can't force the woman to have the abortion, but the man can completely relinquish
07:44:43.820
any parental responsibilities and not be subject to child support.
07:44:49.060
If women can murder their children, men should at least be able to abandon their children.
07:45:00.360
So if you're a man and you don't want to have a kid and the woman keeps the kid, that
07:45:04.980
woman can force you through the state, through the government, to pay child support.
07:45:12.320
So you can be like, look, I don't want to be in the kid's life.
07:45:17.580
You can't force a man to be a father, but you can definitely force the man to relinquish
07:45:25.040
large portions of his income to a financially support child that he didn't want.
07:45:32.600
Well, nobody would force him to come and ejaculate inside of a woman.
07:45:35.920
That's a great Bronze Age argument that we could use against abortion.
07:45:40.480
Nobody forced the woman to have consensual sex.
07:45:42.600
Nobody forced the woman to allow the man to come inside of her.
07:45:47.660
So these same arguments would have to be—you'd have to accept them for abortion.
07:45:58.960
Women, not—you can get—women, you get pregnant, you can get out of it.
07:46:13.300
You said—yeah, but you would not accept the argument—you wouldn't accept a pro-life
07:46:19.080
argument of, well, you just shouldn't have opened your legs.
07:46:34.300
I suspect that if a woman, assuming she—let's say she had consensual sex with her boyfriend
07:46:39.540
and she got pregnant, let's say it's an unwanted pregnancy, and let's say she's not
07:46:45.080
ready or she's not financially ready, she just doesn't want the kid, I'm assuming your position
07:46:53.160
Okay, so why don't you grant that same exemption to men?
07:47:08.800
Well, one person has to carry the baby and go through it, and one person doesn't.
07:47:12.700
But, so, in instances where the woman doesn't want the kid and the man does, he has no say.
07:47:23.800
In an instance where the woman wants to keep the kid and the man doesn't, he has no say.
07:47:28.040
She can keep the kid, and then she can take away his bodily autonomy by siphoning his financial
07:47:34.960
resources for 18, 19, 20, 21 years of his life.
07:47:54.260
I think there should be an option, which there probably is.
07:48:02.560
If you're a man, and you get somebody pregnant, and you don't want the baby, and this woman
07:48:07.800
Like, this is my, you know, this is my calling.
07:48:10.120
Then write up a contract that says, you're not ever going to be a part of this child's
07:48:20.720
So, that, so a woman could allow for that, but she is 100% the final determiner if she
07:48:38.940
Well, the woman, let's say the woman gets pregnant.
07:48:42.740
Now, yes, the woman could be like, you know what?
07:49:09.060
I don't care if it takes me 50 minutes to find it.
07:49:26.240
I think that's the first time I ever played that.
07:49:34.860
However, even if, let's say you even do the contract.
07:49:37.920
Let's say you do the contract and the guy's like, look.
07:49:40.100
Um, the woman's like, yeah, let's sign this contract and you don't have to pay child support
07:49:49.360
At any moment in the 18 years, even if there's a contract in place, the woman could go to court
07:49:58.800
In this case, this is technically, even if you willingly agree to it, if the woman at any
07:50:04.500
point in her sole determination changes her mind, maybe she needs money.
07:50:09.660
Maybe she's like, oh, fuck, this is really hard.
07:50:16.380
And he's like, nah, she can just be like, okay, well, I'm going to go to court and now
07:50:25.520
So the equitable thing I think in this situation is, yeah, the guy, uh, legally in a state where
07:50:31.320
women have abortion, men shouldn't have to pay child support and have no responsibility
07:50:38.840
If the, I think if there's a contractual agreement at that time, then yeah, there's, I mean, people
07:50:44.260
Well, well, they're just, if she's like, I know you don't want this kid, but I want this
07:50:51.160
It's mine, you know, like, can't you like relinquish like your parental rights too or
07:50:57.600
Uh, you, you can, but that doesn't change your child support liability.
07:51:02.660
So she can still get child support from that, from him.
07:51:05.480
So, so you could be like, give her full custody, but she could still get child support from
07:51:11.340
Even if you have a contract in place because the court would just ultimately be like, ah,
07:51:23.220
Uh, so you can voluntarily either informally or formally enter into an agreement, but the
07:51:31.760
woman reserves the right at any time to be like, eh, fuck you.
07:51:42.160
Anyways, um, I think equal rights are a myth anyway.
07:52:02.320
There's an earnings gap, but there's not like a sexist gender wage gap where women, you know,
07:52:19.460
Um, so the uncontrolled gender pay gap, uh, 82 cents for every $1 earned by men.
07:52:27.160
Uh, this measure measures median salary for men and women with the same job and qualifications.
07:52:32.800
Uh, women earn 99 cents for every $1 earned by men.
07:52:36.360
I believe, is this pay scale, this website or do you know?
07:52:40.880
So, basically the, can you explain to me what your sense of the gender wage gap is?
07:52:51.760
Well, men are just more, men have more opportunity.
07:53:11.800
So, okay, let's say you're a man and you have two daughters and no sons and you die.
07:53:18.880
To which man who is not your blood relative does your property go to?
07:53:31.920
That's where it all started at the beginning when men had more opportunity and it has slowly
07:53:36.280
still been a thing because that has still affected the way society is run.
07:53:40.180
You're telling me America, the bed, the founding, well, not the founding, America, the great
07:53:50.960
And you're telling me in the 1800s, 1700s, some wealthy widow or some wealthy woman, either
07:54:00.860
for however, however, the means in which he got this money goes to a property owner who's
07:54:07.480
He's not going to, he legally can't sell it to her because she's a woman.
07:54:16.720
It's, I mean, look, there, women have been disadvantaged in some ways historically.
07:54:21.380
When everyone was, when we, when, when everyone, when America started, people were given plots
07:54:25.840
of land and who were given those plots of land and who was given that sum of money to
07:54:29.560
They're men and their families by extension, their families, men, and their, but the men
07:54:34.480
are the ones in charge and who get to have that and make the choice of what they own, where
07:54:38.200
they go, what they do and where it goes, have debt.
07:54:41.980
Women couldn't have debt, which is kind of a privileged position to be in.
07:54:46.780
Like that's like saying somebody, they, that's like saying, yeah, like you didn't have life,
07:54:54.660
Like you don't owe, you don't get anything, but that's good because you don't owe anything.
07:54:59.900
I think women to some degree had a privileged position in society.
07:55:03.300
You might say it was like benevolent sexism or benevolent protection or whatever, but
07:55:08.240
yeah, overwhelmingly I would say women, I don't know.
07:55:13.420
You have to take it in the full context of the historical disadvantages and advantages that
07:55:18.140
the respective sexes had, but really quick, just getting, bring it back to the wage gap.
07:55:22.320
Um, what is the way, like, cause so the wage gap that you're citing to that number 82 cents
07:55:31.480
It's literally this like feminist retarded math.
07:55:36.340
Like it's literally retard math where it's like, or we're not going to consider the multi-varied,
07:55:45.500
uh, nuance and, uh, uh, for the complexity of the, the massive economic structure and comparisons
07:55:54.820
between men and women's, uh, income and wealth and blah, blah, blah, all this stuff.
07:56:01.260
It's literally just looking at, well, let me ask you this.
07:56:04.700
Do you think it would be a good way to analyze this specific topic by simply only looking
07:56:11.320
at all the money that men make and all the women, or excuse me, all the money that women
07:56:18.220
Like, wouldn't you, if you were doing a research, uh, study on the wage gap, you would want
07:56:22.580
to perhaps look at, do men work more hours than women?
07:56:26.860
I would research all of the highest financially holding positions that there are in America.
07:56:32.160
And then I would research how many of those jobs are held by men and how many are held
07:56:38.060
And then I would research how much the men are making and how much the women are making.
07:56:42.920
And determining by that women, there are less women in those places and the women make less.
07:56:49.300
So that's a different, that's a different thing.
07:56:51.040
So we can do an analysis of the gender breakdown of like a high paying jobs or CEOs.
07:57:00.780
However, you do acknowledge that most men, most women who are in the workforce don't
07:57:09.340
So you have to look, you would have to look at kind of everything, but do you think it would
07:57:15.480
be fair to do a determination, like try to determine if society is sexist by simply looking at all
07:57:23.900
the money that men make and all the money that women make and comparing it and drawing a conclusion
07:57:30.240
If it was an equal amount of men and women and their fields were balanced, I guess.
07:57:36.440
The fields are definitely not balanced between men and women.
07:57:38.820
Well, that's what I'm saying is the pay gap is more relevant, the higher up jobs that
07:57:44.720
you have, like, like the lower that your job is, the more commonly men and women will be
07:57:48.960
paid the same, but the higher up and more, more like the CEOs and like the people who are
07:57:53.660
making more and more money, that is where the pay gap is bigger between men and women.
07:57:58.780
Uh, that's perhaps a component of it, but would you agree?
07:58:03.200
And that's all I'm saying, but would men have more opportunity to make more money in these
07:58:08.400
But would you agree though, if the, the commonly parroted gender wage gap, that number here,
07:58:16.260
I mean, I'll just give you, I'll give you the cards.
07:58:20.280
Uh, that number, it doesn't factor in hours worked.
07:58:29.420
It doesn't factor in, uh, level of educational achievement.
07:58:39.220
It doesn't factor in, uh, I think I'm, I'm probably forgetting like maybe a dozen more
07:58:45.860
So do you think that it's statistically coherent to do an analysis without factoring in variables?
07:59:00.060
Men, all men, they're not, they're not looking at any of these variables.
07:59:09.080
I don't really support the use of the R word, like you're using it, but.
07:59:21.480
I mean, yeah, it doesn't show everything, you know, that's why earlier I wanted to see
07:59:25.400
the statistics of the, you know, of the violence against men, because you do need to see more
07:59:39.560
Do you acknowledge that there's a, there is a gender gap between men and women?
07:59:47.160
Cause men are expected to provide in America or in society, you know, in most societies,
07:59:53.440
Speaking of this gets me into my final point on the gender wage gap, but a lot of these variables
08:00:02.900
Okay, well, so if you start controlling for hours worked, the gender or wage gap that is
08:00:09.820
And then as you start adding in more variables, you control for the type of job, you control
08:00:14.580
for geography, you control for all these things.
08:00:20.820
Now that's just looking, doing an economic assessment.
08:00:59.000
Every single woman at this table says men should pay on first dates.
08:01:07.900
Even removing all the economic factors, like men work more hours, men work more overtime, men work more dangerous, dirty jobs.
08:01:16.680
Men are more likely to have injuries and death in the workplace.
08:01:20.060
Guys, women's own dating preferences are the sole, I don't, again, wage gaps bullshit.
08:01:32.020
Women themselves, with your own stated standards, men should provide, men should pay for dates.
08:01:39.840
Because, you create a social pressure on men to be more motivated.
08:01:51.580
Men used to trade your, somebody's father would trade with somebody else's father, their daughter, for their cows, or for their land, or for whatever.
08:02:04.040
Well, I'm saying, but everything leads into what it is now.
08:02:17.900
Y'all decided women were up for trade, and that women were worth a certain thing that you wanted to value.
08:02:35.420
I mean, I think men and women both have their own superpowers, and we're both beautiful, divine beings.
08:02:44.140
I mean, just, I would say yes, except for, as we were just talking, like, women have something that legally is theirs that they have to go through that men don't ever have to go through.
08:03:00.740
So there's different laws that I think should apply to different people.
08:03:14.020
So I guess finishing up on the wage gap conversation then.
08:03:17.280
I believe that because of women's preferences, no man, no patriarchy is forcing you to insist or want for men to pay on first dates.
08:03:27.860
It's no patriarchy is insisting that men should provide for you.
08:03:33.680
The reality is men, or excuse me, the reality is women have an inherent biological evolutionary urge for provider and protector.
08:03:43.120
And you find it repulsive, the idea, most women, I'm going to speak, yes, there's some women who are going to be fine with what I'm about to describe.
08:03:50.980
The idea of you being the breadwinner and the man stays home and takes care of the kid, somewhere deep down, that's disgusting to you, women.
08:03:58.320
Somewhere deep down, that's not acceptable to you.
08:04:01.180
A guy whose only ambition is to be a stay-at-home father, that is an issue for most women.
08:04:09.180
And I think it's evidenced by the fact every single woman here says men should pay on first dates.
08:04:16.580
Every single woman here circled men should pay on first dates.
08:04:19.900
Well, they should, but I don't think it's bad if a man wants to be a stay-at-home dad.
08:04:27.380
It's not cool for you to go 50-50 on a first date, but you're fine with the man staying at home?
08:04:42.640
If somebody asks you on a date, which, like her, I would never ask a man on a date.
08:04:56.600
If a man asks me to take me out, duh, you're going to have to pay.
08:04:59.900
You're the one who just asked me to take me out.
08:05:02.620
You can't map on my experience as somebody who has like a very popular podcast to like
08:05:18.580
Like, just an average woman, she's going to be asked out like dozens of times in like
08:05:26.500
In a year, you look at an average guy, he might get asked out once, twice, maybe three times
08:05:36.800
And I think most average men maybe never get asked out ever their entire lives.
08:05:42.560
You can't map on my experience where women come to me because I have some clout and map
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that onto the average guy who doesn't have any clout.
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Because, you know, I kind of don't agree with that.
08:06:12.000
So I feel like certain dynamics happen and that's what it is.
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Or certain authorities probably should go to a man in this case.
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But I feel like, as I said, like, you are, like you said, you've got some clout.
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You've had that, this, this, that, and the third.
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At the end of the day, like, if a man is going to approach her, it's because that's just in a man's nature.
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I guess finishing off on the wage gap thing is, ultimately, I believe the wage gap could be explained away entirely by women's own dating preferences.
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You are creating a mating pressure in men's direction that doesn't exist in the reverse.
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Uh, I've never had the expectation for a woman to pay for an entire date.
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Most men can never go into a date ever expecting the woman's going to pay for everything.
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Maybe you can go, like, maybe you can do 50-50.
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But generally speaking, not all women, but a majority of women do prefer men to pay for first dates.
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So that creates a pressure on men that doesn't exist in the reverse.
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Uh, just like you said, uh, well, whoever I should pay, but you've never asked a guy out.
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Convenient, uh, women don't initiate like that.
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So even if the standard was, well, men shouldn't pay, but whoever I should pay, if you never approach men, I mean, we're talking about the same thing here.
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Uh, ultimately because of women's traditional sexist gender role expectations of men, you create the wage gap.
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Men are more motivated to make money because women expect to be provided for women.
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Like if, if the, if the bottleneck, if the barrier for me as a man to get laid is I have to be financially attractive or provide or even pay on the first date, that's a financial burden on me that doesn't exist on you.
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So, oh, am I more sexually, am I a more, am I more attractive if I'm wealthy?
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Do I have better options if I'm wealthy as a man, not as a woman that doesn't, men don't really care about that.
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Uh, generally I don't think money, money, if you're a fucking clown, uh, maybe it helps a little bit, but you're still going to struggle.
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I think other things are probably a bit more important than money.
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I think looks, uh, and personality are probably going to take you further than strictly just money.
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But if you're obscenely wealthy, obscenely rich, that's going to give you some degree of access.
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But women's own preferences, women's own, it creates a massive pressure on men to be more, men are just more motivated to make money.
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If you want dick, does your job or your money situation have anything to do with your ability to get some dick?
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Usually they got to be charming or good looking or something else, or just, I don't know, be in college, I guess.
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That, that helps, you know, because young women probably don't care that much about money.
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Like, if you're a college girl, you don't care that much about money.
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Most college girls, they know the college guys are broke or, you know, don't have money, right?
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Um, but, uh, if I'm not willing to pay for, if I go on a date with a girl and I don't, I'm not willing to pay, that's going to, that's going to maybe fuck my chances up of getting a date, getting a girlfriend, getting sex, whatever, whatever.
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Men are very romantically and sexually motivated.
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I think they're more romantically and sexually motivated than women are.
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Perhaps romantically, but I think there's no doubt that men are more sexually motivated.
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Maybe it's because they can get it so easily for free.
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Uh, but men are so desperate for sex, they'll pay for it.
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Women really, there's some women, really rare, that pay for sex.
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I don't think the wage gap is an example of equal rights, I guess.
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Um, let me see if there's anything else for that.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting me.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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But you're going to keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.
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Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with hyphenating the marriage.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting me.
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So I have to follow it all because I follow it.
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So yes, technically you, you are technically able to and allowed to pick and choose.
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What I'm saying here is that's a raw deal for the man.
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No, what I would say is, okay, we won't get married.
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Or if anything, I'll just ask Jesus what to do.
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I'm pretty sure Christian, uh, under, I don't know if there's a prescription in the Bible.
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Is there anything in the, I don't know if there is.
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I don't, I, I don't have the impression there is.
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Is there anything in the Bible about, uh, like a prescription as to the woman taking the husband's last name?
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Oh, actually, I mean, maybe it's under the purview of submission.
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This goes exactly what I was talking about earlier, though.
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About how, as a woman, you step down when a man asks you to, he expects all of these things.
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I'm the only sibling that has my dad's last name.
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My other two siblings, they have my mom's hyphenated.
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But let's say my husband was like, honestly, I don't really like that.
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Then I take it up with God, see what he has to say, and then listen.
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Yeah, so I'll definitely have my husband's opinion in it.
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Well, so is there anything immoral about taking your husband's last name?
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Is there anything that, in terms of Christian doctrine, contradicts with a Christian wife
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Maybe, like, a different doctrine, but I'm non-dominational, so in my book, no.
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Well, there's nothing in the Christian faith that would say it's, like, wrong to take your
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Do you believe that wives should be submissive to their husbands?
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So if you're, I suppose, soon-to-be husband, well, I mean, you could change your name after
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So now your husband's like, I want you to take my last name.
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Why were you arguing with me, then, for the past three minutes?
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But if my husband's like, oh, babe, like, I want you to, then yeah.
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The question is, or the statement is, I will keep my last name or hyphen in marriage.
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This would suggest to me, regardless of your husband's want for the name change or not,
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you saying you will keep your last name, regardless of his wants.
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I didn't know you were going to be a lawyer about it.
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Natalia, is Natalia still here, or is she, what's her deal?
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What, what is she, is she on the couch or, no, I mean, okay.
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I just had to ask a lot to make sure that I'm doing what I am doing as best I can with ignorant
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You said you would keep your last name in marriage?
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Um, so it's a, I had a name that was so popular that when I looked myself online, I was like,
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And so then I changed my name to something that is unique, just to literally work with the algorithm.
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I need to wait until everybody's back before I get into some more of these, but, uh, all
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We talked about this a little bit at the beginning, but you guys just let me steamroll that convo.
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Uh, I don't know if anybody else you circled adult age gap relationships are wrong.
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Um, I think to a certain extent, like I, my max is 10 years before I think it becomes a
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I'm just, uh, we are like talking about the age gap.
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Uh, let's see a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men.
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Yeah, I would say generally speaking, uh, Tavi, you also agree with that.
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Samantha, you think you also agree a woman's career money status makes her more attractive
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Your career, your status, your money, men don't care.
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It could be financially beneficial, but it's not, it doesn't make you more attractive.
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And one of the reasons I think men don't care about, you know, your money, your status, your
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career is because of number one, men should pay on first dates.
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Even when you guys do make money, you don't share your resources the same way men share
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Y'all not really like simping on men in that kind of way.
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Even your boyfriend, like you don't really be spending money on men like that.
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Some women buy, you buy them an Xbox one, one time a year.
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Men really be simping on, on women in terms of money.
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They're not even fucking, they're not even sleeping.
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Yeah, but that's because he wants to, he's not doing that for no reason.
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But when I have my money, when my money's super up, like I'm so happy to give it all
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Like I just spent all of my money to get this, take this guy to Mexico, get him there, have
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Like, because I could, and I wanted him to be there, you know?
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I don't, so I don't dispute that women do, do these things.
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Um, however, men typically don't see the benefits of a woman's wealth or a woman's money.
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Like even when a woman's like, I've, I remember when I was a young buck in my mid twenties,
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uh, I remember I matched with this girl on a dating app who was an attorney and back
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I matched with her and in her bio, she's like, yeah, I'm an attorney.
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You still expect, even though you're, you out earn me, even though you have more money
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than me, even though you, you make more money than me, I still got to pay.
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So it doesn't matter if you have money because I don't, I don't reap any benefits.
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I don't read, you could be super rich and successful.
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Most men aren't going to reap any sort of benefit by being in a relationship with a girl like
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But I really, I really want to say this because you even said something earlier about how we
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were talking about when, um, when there's a certain way that you've been spoiled in a
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certain way, it's always in the back of a mind, of a guy's mind.
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I just had this conversation last night with my baby cousin and my brother.
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I don't think it's because of the reasons on those, on those, on the, on those papers.
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I think it is innately wired in a man to not do that.
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Like even when you have to not take, not even take money from a woman, it does not feel
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Like literally every opportunity, Brian, I will keep giving you money, but like all
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Well, you got to, I do expect, I expect the Venmo and cash app payments once a week.
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But get yourself some like, get yourself some sunglasses or something first.
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I need a, like, I need a blindfold to be honest.
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Uh, nah, I was going to get the, I was going to get one of the fucking Spartan helmets,
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That's why I was thinking earlier, the Spartan thing, but that's too much, too big of eye
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We also have a, uh, a pre, like, what's it called?
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I mean, I was thinking, like, what are we going to use for it blindfolded?
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Um, I just don't think women share their resources with men to the same degree in the same way
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that men will share their resources with women.
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So even if she's like, also, I think that women, um, a successful woman, she's going
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Uh, I think women want to date same or up when it comes to like, you know, like a, a male
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A male doctor will date a female nurse, a female doctor ain't dating a male nurse, a male attorney.
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I'm not saying that that's wrong, but ultimately, uh, and yeah, maybe you do get into a relationship
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with like a girl who makes good money, but you probably make good money too.
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And even if she like, at that point it does, whatever.
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But, uh, so, but you said earlier that a woman that something like the career doesn't
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Her career, like for example, I'm doing decently well.
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So a girl who in theory would give up her career later on for you have kids meets all
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If she was doing her nursing or doctorate and she wanted to finish that too.
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And she has ambitions and goals and dreams that she don't want to let her inner child die
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You know, that was her dream since she was a kid.
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How is it more attractive to be work or the same for somebody to be working in a fast food
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I'm just curious what your opinions are because for me, like, I don't really understand.
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I want to understand what your thought process is there.
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Because doesn't that make it infinitely more attractive that she has goals and ambitions
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and she's not working a dead-end job, that she's working towards something maybe as you
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are, but she'll still give that up for you in the future because that's what you want.
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I don't think it would really change the attractiveness level.
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A woman's ambitions should be to serve her man and have a bounty of children and raise
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those children and take care of the man, take care of the family, take care of the household.
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Women can, a woman could be, uh, work at Chick-fil-A and have ambitions that transcend material and
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She could want a bounty of children and she's infinitely more ambitious than the woman who
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I think that that's more ambitious, the woman who wants to fucking create a dynasty with
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a fucking real motherfucking G, uh, than just, oh, I want to be a boss, babe, and make money
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and be a CEO and have like maybe one kid by the time I'm 40.
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Nah, the real gangster woman is the woman who wants to have 10 kids with a motherfucking G.
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The top G, the top G, so when you're, that's gangster.
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For me, it is, yeah, it's attractive when a man has ambition and is, has a drive, has a passion.
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So, for you, you're saying that attraction comes from a woman having that ambition drive
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Yes, ambition for family, ambition for children, ambition for me.
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I think, I don't, I don't agree, I don't like knock anything you're saying because at the
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end of the day, like, I just think you're using the wrong words.
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I think a wife's ambition is, not everybody's meant to be a wife.
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Not everybody's meant to be, this is how you create people who are unhappy and bitter
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and bad mothers because they feel like they've given up dreams or certain things that they
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And I think that we should trust women when they say that they don't want children or
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that they, they, they are more, they, they feel like they belong in artistry or, I don't
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Hey, look, I mean, I'm not, I'm not super hard line on this.
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There are some women who don't want to have children or maybe just want one kid or two
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kids or they're not, whatever you want to, you don't want to have kids.
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Some people are like, oh my God, you're so, that's, I don't care.
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Do, if you don't want to have kids, that's totally fine.
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I'm just saying the woman that I want from my perspective, from my worldview, the ambitious
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woman is not the woman who wants to work some fucking wage slave corporation job sitting
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The LED fluorescent lights looking at, honestly, most of these corporate jobs are fucking adult
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Your little email jobs where it's fucking adult daycare.
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And I will give you a bounty of children and I'm going to take care of everything.
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You're never going to have to work a day in your life.
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All the bills are going to be, I'm taking care of all the finances.
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I think if you, you know, you need to find a woman who wants to be married and you'll
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easily find that, you know, like that's, that's a, I think that is a consciousness
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I'm not going to get married, but Hey, uh, whoever I end up long-term with, everything's
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She's never going to have to work a day in her life.
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In fact, to religious, uh, to Christianity for me to not want to be married.
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Maybe one day I will become a Christian, but, uh, at the, at the moment.
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So I'm not coming at this conversation from a religious perspective.
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So nothing at all, no marriage, no marriage, no, but I can, I can be loyal to one woman
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and stay with her for the rest of my life and have kids with her.
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L marriage, L marriage, raw deal in the West, fix the, fix the laws.
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Would you like have a cute little wedding and stuff?
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If she's a billionaire, I'll be the stay at home husband.
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So where's the point where you tell this woman like, oh, I want to be with you forever
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Oh, we've been dating for a year and a half, two years.
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Cause I just feel, so what's more important to you, marriage or children?
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Because I just don't see one without the other.
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You would agree that you can have children outside of marriage, right?
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A lot of people do, but I don't, I personally don't think that you should.
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But I haven't had children out of marriage though.
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So you'd rather commit to children before marriage?
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You'd rather commit to children before marriage?
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So yeah, of course I would have children before marriage.
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Did you have a question on the money thing or whatever?
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I'm not disclosing, but you could cut some fingers off and still have one hand and it
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Like, like, like you had a little, like nine years ago I deleted it, but.
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No, I just had a, um, traumatic experience that made me not want to keep track anymore.
08:33:37.540
So, uh, you lost track though of the body count?
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Um, there was just a traumatic thing that happened that made me not want to keep track anymore.
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Well, just to be clear, body count, uh, I think it only factors in consensual.
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So, if it was non-consensual, I wouldn't consider that body count.
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Um, do you know, do you have a range that you want to estimate?
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Damn, who's going to be a trooper and answer this question?
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I feel like there'd be, I'd get clipped if I did it to a black baby.
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Your boyfriend is not going to appreciate that.
08:35:11.280
So, like, there's these things called rituals that you don't realize that you're actually
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potentially, like, creating bad things with sex.
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Do you know how the Constitution had a preamble?
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The preamble of the Constitution of the United States.
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Do you similarly have a preamble to every fucking thing you say?
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I, I, I would love to talk more, but I'm, um, I'm just not a great communicator and I
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am trying to just really be like, here's a thing, here's a thing, here's a thing, but
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I'm just like, I don't really have a lot of time to talk for hours, you know, so that's
08:35:59.420
So he asked you, your body count is just a number.
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It's like, perhaps in the hundred or something more.
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If you could see me right now, my face is completely judgment free.
08:36:23.560
Well, I, so I think I really messed things up though with that.
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Did you say it's, uh, in the, it's like a hundred to 199?
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Or when you say hundreds, do you mean it could be 200, 300, 400, 500?
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Um, gosh, I want to say like maybe below 200, but my point is, it's really like something
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that I regret because I think I did so much damage.
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And I like thought it was like, oh, you know, like free love.
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And then I was like, oh my gosh, like what did I do?
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So there's like, um, some real bad stuff that can come from, um, like all sorts of crazy
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Well, uh, I mean, I did get the, gosh, did I get the vaccine for herpes?
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Don't like mess around with sex too much because it can really damage things in ways that I don't
08:38:11.020
Well, I mean, if you don't get some of those things treated, it can lead to infertility.
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Besides the STD stuff, there's like spiritual stuff that I don't understand.
08:38:35.580
I think religion and Christianity is a force for good.
08:38:40.320
Uh, however, my own personal belief is not there at the moment.
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Maybe one day it will be there, but I, I wouldn't lie.
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And I think part of being a religious person, believing in God, believing in some higher power
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So at this point, no, I don't have a belief, but that belief may manifest at some point down
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And hopefully, maybe, I don't know if hopefully is the right word.
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But at this point, at this point, I am lacking in belief of a God.
08:39:28.060
So when she says that it has a lot of spiritual effects, that doesn't, that doesn't really like
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Maybe I was interpreting that more from like a psychological perspective.
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So yeah, you can get STDs, but I do think that there can be a psychological scar, a psychological
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Uh, there's also like, I didn't believe in the supernatural world for so many, so many
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Like I was just like tiny, tiny bits of data, like just challenging everything.
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And, um, then I like realized how much I like, um, hurt myself by being in a ritual that,
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um, maybe caused a lot of damage, unfortunately.
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I don't want to, I don't want to explain too much because I don't want people to do these
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I want, I just want to say that there's stuff out there that, um, is very dangerous.
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As a person who doesn't know that much about the supernatural world or psychics.
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For whoever's going to end up clipping this episode for my editor, yo, chat, I don't know
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if you're going to ever, Christian, send me an Instagram message if you see this.
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Also my homeboy, oh my God, Demetria, Demetria, is that?
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My, my Greek homeboy who helps me with the editing and Christian, uh, tell me if you see
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this part just for the, the clips, because people are gonna be like, why the fuck is
08:41:13.500
Can you say, can you just say something right now?
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Like I'm wearing the blindfold because I'm overstimulated or over sensory something or
08:41:24.360
Um, so I was seeing things on the screen during our podcast that made me feel bad and I was
08:41:34.160
praying and asking about, um, what I should do.
08:41:41.220
No, it's, um, like when we were talking about certain very, we were talking about very controversial
08:41:47.700
subjects and then it was like, oh my goodness, like, what do I do?
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So, so, um, yeah, that's when I just closed my eyes.
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Do you want to just say that you have like, just say, just lie, just say you're sensory
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Do you want to say there's bright in here or something?
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I feel like that's easier to, for people to grasp.
08:42:08.980
So body count in the hundreds and question, was this like, what, what was it like?
08:42:14.560
Uh, you said it was cause you referenced male loneliness, loneliness epidemic, which is a
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term that I've really only heard the past three years.
08:42:25.540
Are you saying that you accrued this body count in the past three years?
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Was there a period of time where you just were running through these little fuck boys?
08:42:46.320
Well, I was, um, Darren, I, you know, I was really hoping to work for the Trump administration,
08:42:55.640
So you're going to see if you end up working for Trump, trust me, you're going to see way
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Liberals and Democrats are not going to like you.
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I, I, uh, I really challenged the norms, uh, but okay.
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Um, so I was like, uh, I was in like a long-term relationship and then I switched around polyamory
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and then I switched around celibacy and then just like, like whatever, just not really looking
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Um, because I was focused on becoming a doctor and I was like, well, I'm going to move for
08:43:40.080
residency, I'm going to move for medical school.
08:43:44.040
So like, I can't really focus on, um, pulling a guy around the country to go on this medical
08:43:55.980
So how many years was it that this all happened?
08:44:00.020
It was since you lost virginity when you were 15, or it was since you and this one guy
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broke up, which is only the last two years, or it's the last six years, or how was the
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The majority of the bodies that you slept with, not murdered.
08:44:20.560
Gosh, I would say, I have to think about that for a second.
08:44:38.460
Sorry, I was like, it was age like 20 to 26 about, or something like that.
08:45:18.240
What if I, what if I, what if I, what if I, what if I, what if I do meet a man I like,
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I don't want him to see me talking about, like.
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I'm pretty sure we're mostly done with the questionnaire.
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A few more things, and hopefully I'm going to try to get this wrapped up here soon-ish.
08:45:51.560
Y'all said we would have, they said we would have snacks and there's cookies.
08:45:59.680
There's cookies and chips for eight and, for nine hours, y'all.
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Since 4 p.m., I'm supposed to eat cookies and plain tortilla chips.
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Use some of that money you just put in your pocket.
08:46:27.220
A woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
08:46:36.600
I said, yeah, she shouldn't be rejected because of her weight.
08:46:40.440
If somebody's not physically attracted to another person, then yeah, rejection is okay.
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Because that's, like, you know, their preference.
08:46:53.580
I don't think anybody should be, like, like, um, what is it called?
08:47:21.400
Um, I think I do, like, overanalyze everything.
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And I'm like, hmm, what's wrong with this person?
08:47:26.380
This is probably why, you know, they're acting that way.
08:47:49.720
But, but I guess why did, what's the thing with the, a woman should not be rejected?
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Like, if, if you're a guy and you're like, I don't want to date this woman, I don't
08:47:57.780
think you should be like, oh, I don't want to date you because you're a fatty.
08:48:03.680
Like, she shouldn't, she shouldn't be like rejected from like life.
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Like, I think that like people don't accept her for who she is.
08:48:32.080
Listen, you're trying to make her flex our whole entire insecurity.
08:48:38.620
He's like, and do the, and do the face like from the ring.
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And put your hair over your face and look over at me.
08:48:51.420
Some guys are, some guys are, some guys are into that.
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I'm like the little emo ones and I'm like, oh, great.
08:49:03.980
Brian isn't a misogynist, but he's definitely a masochist for willingly putting himself through
08:49:11.360
It's also convenient that women started to fight for high paying jobs when air conditioning
08:49:19.920
I actually think if we were to go back, I think there would have been less of like a
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feminist push, uh, when the majority of jobs were not in office, uh, environment.
08:49:37.560
Like when shit was like fucking physical and labor and working in a mine or some shit.
08:49:50.020
I actually think though, even though, yeah, you might say women had, you know, historically,
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you know, the men could go out and work and make money and the woman had to stay home and
08:50:08.160
And you might be able to point to other examples that are contrary to this.
08:50:17.560
So I believe in Pennsylvania a long time ago in parts of Pennsylvania, there was a
08:50:27.620
So men would go into the coal mines in Pennsylvania.
08:50:32.000
The women would stay home, cook, clean, watch the kids.
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The men would go into the coal mine, be covered in suit.
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And like most of them would fucking die of like black lung or some bullshit in their forties,
08:50:43.360
fifties, sixties, something like early, whatever.
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I think women had the better, at least in that specific context, in that example, I do
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Even if they, you could say, well, women couldn't work.
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I feel like not working kind of was the good deal.
08:51:13.180
Do you believe that the origination of feminism was a natural push or was it government funded?
08:51:23.780
Well, I mean, feminism started in the late 1800s.
08:51:34.540
I agree because the benefit was the extra taxpayer.
08:51:38.960
The separation of the American family, it all adds up to the benefit of the government,
08:51:49.280
Look, I haven't investigated the, I guess you would call it conspiracy theory.
08:51:58.640
I mean, I think there's actually some evidence that what's her.
08:52:01.920
There was a famous feminist that I believe was a CIA asset.
08:52:36.540
But originally in the 1880s or I don't remember exactly.
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But when like the huge revival came in the 70s.
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What I allegedly, allegedly believe is that like, I'm curious if you agree or not, that
08:52:51.520
this was a government backed operation to separate the American family to put both parents
08:52:56.560
in the working class, double taxes, voting, create more conflict among the population.
08:53:02.080
Your attention is away from the children who are now being raised by the public education
08:53:08.920
Now you've got the government control in two aspects when it should be a man and a wife
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And now where do we end up in this day and age?
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I think that what it's evolved into is exactly what the government wants.
08:53:24.580
Overpopulation of OnlyFans, destruction of the modern family, and to each their own, do
08:53:30.140
But this, we are playing exactly into their side of that they started so long ago and
08:53:33.680
it hurts my brain because it's like we're watching the destruction of like masculinity
08:53:38.120
and femininity and it's like we're falling for like liberal Republican and like feminist
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and it's just a, it's, it's a big distraction from the core values that we're really meant
08:53:52.580
And I think that a lot of the feminism is just so damaging because now you got, you know,
08:54:00.420
This is the opposite of what it originally was, but we've lost the fucking plot.
08:54:10.600
I think it's, uh, there, there is some evidence pointing to this being a possibility towards
08:54:19.340
Um, I don't think, I don't know if there's like any major smoking guns.
08:54:23.160
I believe there are famous feminists who were confirmed to be like CIA assets, but, and
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I think you already acknowledged this like early, early feminism.
08:54:36.220
I don't think any, there were intelligence agencies in the 18, was there intelligence
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I mean, there were, for sure there were conspiracies.
08:55:16.020
But like an intelligence agency, PSYOP, that's something else.
08:55:26.960
Weren't the Pinkertons like just, they were like hired, hired muscle to some degree?
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We're getting, we're going down the rabbit hole.
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By the way, I don't know if anybody's seen the show Deadwood.
08:56:00.880
At least by today's standards, I still think it's a really good show.
08:56:04.240
A bit slow, like probably, it's like 20 years old, but it's got like, I don't know,
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Yo, chat, who's seen, one in the chat, if you've seen Deadwood, the series that was
08:56:20.360
on HBO in like the early, mid-2000s, I think, fucking Swearingen, that guy, Cocksucker, all
08:56:28.040
they just say, they did a compilation of how many times the term Cocksucker was said, and
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it's hilarious because they said, like 300 times they said Cocksucker in this entire show.
08:57:04.260
What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?
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I don't even know what's like a legible answer.
08:57:25.960
But would you date a guy who works at McDonald's?
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I don't think I would match with a guy who works at McDonald's now.
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If I was seriously dating someone and they were wanting marriage, which is what I want,
08:57:45.320
and wanting to build a future together, then I would expect them to have a job that could
08:57:52.940
Oh, by the way, for the chat, I'm really disappointed that there were no champagne pops today.
08:58:00.920
But we will half the price of, just for funsies, because it's our final show of the year, final
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show, we're halving the champagne pop price if anybody wants.
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So champagne pops will be $499, $500, $499 if anybody wants to have a little celebration
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here at the end of the show, a little champagne pop.
08:59:26.980
You have those, you could, right now, you could date a guy?
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Be a married, married guy who makes two mil a year?
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I don't know about, I don't want to be married.
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I'm just saying, if I were to get a man, and I find a man, he's definitely going to be very rich.
08:59:42.200
Because I have those options, and I can do that.
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I'm just letting you know, it's going to be really, I think it's really, like, if I'm
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a betting man, I don't think you're going to get a guy who makes two mil.
09:00:03.520
I could see how you could say that, but, you know, in my culture.
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I ain't going to lie to any, you know, not a lot of people got it like that, but, you
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In my culture, I would be top tier, and I get top tier men.
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You're saying that you're betting that I wouldn't, and I'm saying that I definitely
09:00:47.260
Well, because if she's a songwriter, and she's writing songs for rappers, and I know
09:00:51.240
these people that she's around already, that's like, her community is millionaires, and it's
09:00:55.740
more likely for her to end up with a millionaire.
09:00:57.700
Did anybody see the fucking, the Diddy documentary?
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Yeah, they're taking these, these fucking record companies are fucking screwing, screwing
09:01:08.940
these, these young, talented black men over, screwing them over, the fucking music industry,
09:01:19.500
Yeah, but I, you know, I'm not really into artists anyway.
09:01:22.920
Like, I wouldn't want my men in the same industry as me.
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I put that shit on, and I fucking rock out to that, especially the part where it's like
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I'm actually, this is going to make me some fans.
09:01:56.920
You're going to be YBA, young, black, and rich.
09:02:02.340
No, but I actually am technically African American.
09:02:22.940
So if my dad was born in Africa and my mom was born in America, technically.
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Do you take any traditions or identify with any part of that culture?
09:02:37.840
So my dad was born in Algeria, which is in North Africa, which at the time of his birth
09:02:45.780
anyways, he didn't stay there long because of the Civil War.
09:02:51.940
So technically, because of his birth in Africa and my mom's birth in America, we have a-
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They're like Arabic, I guess, or I think they're Arabic.
09:03:24.060
No, I'm just curious, like, what the circumstances was.
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So would you consider yourself an African American?
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It could be an endearing term to a woman if you're a rapper.
09:05:03.160
Like, you know how y'all will, um, you can call each other, like, my N-word.
09:05:56.360
Actually, a black girl, I think last show, called me the N-word.
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If a black person calls a white person the N-word.
09:06:29.700
Well, so anyways, um, happy, uh, anyways, um, but, uh, you're, okay.
09:06:41.040
Oh, how tall are you, and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
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I'm 5'3", and my minimum is probably like a little bit below six foot.
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I'm five, five and a half, and I would prefer to date a man my height or above.
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I'm 5'2", and I would like my man to be 5'6", and taller.
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I'm 5'1", but I'd like to date somebody who's like 5'10", or taller.
09:07:18.720
I would say it kind of depends on their martial arts skills, but...
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Uh, I would say, like, I used to think, like, my same height or higher, but...
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But if they're, like, really small and, like, able to defend me at a small height...
09:07:42.580
What about, like, are we talking, like, uh, what kind of martial arts?
09:07:49.460
Just, uh, like, as a woman, you get stalked and stuff, so it's good to have someone that
09:08:06.700
Because, brother, you can't be doing that to my...
09:08:40.100
Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on the hike?
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He went on a date with this freak who tried to scare you at the end of the...
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Oh, there was this kid who I went on a date with and the whole date was horrible, but the
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worst part was towards the end of our date when I was getting like...
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He decided to pick me up at home when I was getting like dropped off back, you know, at
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He decided to like miss the turn to my house and then speed up and just like stare at me.
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I'm a very like a monotone person and I don't really have like fast reactions.
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So, I just kind of like stood there and stood at him and like stared at him and I was just
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And then he was like, oh, I was trying to scare you, but you're not really giving me the
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I'm wondering what reaction he expected from that.
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I think he wanted like fear from me and because I was just like there, he was like, oh, this
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Yeah, she's like, oh, I want you to take me home.
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And then he just drives and pulls up to his own house.
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Yeah, and he's like, oh, I have to get something here.
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And then he starts speeding up, like driving all crazy looking at her.
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And then he was like, he wanted to like scare you.
09:12:04.240
You also says, why do men date the people they date?
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I'm like curious about like why men choose certain girls.
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Like do they choose to settle down just because they feel like they have to?
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Or I feel like there's a small percentage of men who are actually born like wanting to
09:12:35.220
So like what kind of like makes a man settle down?
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Like if something's like super like cute and like easy to get along with, they're like,
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Oh, something, I guess I'll just do women things to you.
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She said, if something's cute and easy to get along with.
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I feel like men are just like, Oh, this is fun.
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So I guess I'll just keep doing this, you know?
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I think good looks as a woman can bring you pretty far.
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Having both is kind of going to be the ultimate combination.
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Honestly, look, you just got to be a based, submissive housewife.
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Like they just like crave to have like a little companion.
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Are you lacking in your ability to be a companion?
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There's people who want to date me that I'm like, I don't really want to do that right
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Like I'm too, I feel like I'm too young to get married and I'm too young to like, to
09:13:54.640
Um, but yeah, I've always just been so curious about like the dating pool and like why men do
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If I don't look at the screen, I think I'm okay, but yeah, you're probably good.
09:14:23.260
So if you can try to stay on topic and try to just like answer the specific thing or like
09:14:30.960
But, um, you said you had drinks with a military contractor on accident who wanted to have a war
09:14:39.560
I was in Miami and, um, I was, um, with a girlfriend and she was interested in one of
09:14:58.860
Um, and his friend, um, ended up being the military contractor that wanted a war with
09:15:20.900
So he had something to do with, he was like Blackwater or whatever that company.
09:15:24.180
Uh, I just don't know exactly the specifics, but he told me he was a military contractor.
09:15:29.400
Milica, but military contractors aren't active military.
09:15:47.960
So they're not like, I'm a sergeant in the U S Marines.
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They're just, maybe they, I don't know if they wait, chat, do mercenaries have ranks
09:16:05.880
Do mercenaries do contractors, military contractors, do they have ranks?
09:16:15.520
Like, I don't think they have a say in whether they're going to war with Venezuela.
09:16:21.000
Um, no, I just, good for you was, um, no, I would never.
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And I was just, well, um, let's not, let's not get ahead of ourselves.
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Um, I was just, well, I don't like people that promote wars and your, your whole thing
09:16:38.440
now is we're about to go to war with Venezuela.
09:16:47.440
Um, so this guy who you military contractor who wanted to have a war with Venezuela, you
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I just realized if you did sleep with him, we would not find ourselves in our current predicament.
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And now because you didn't sleep with him, now we're about to go to war with the Venezuela.
09:17:11.820
I think you owe the Venezuelan people an apology.
09:17:18.120
Would you stop the wars if you had to have sex with Donald Trump?
09:17:28.640
I feel like I got to ask the liberal girls, uh, for you, would you have sex with Donald
09:17:42.340
Um, no, if there was a million percent chance it would, if it was for sure secured in the
09:17:48.420
future of humanity, that there would be no more wars and that they would stop the genocide
09:17:52.980
in Gaza and they would give Palestinians their land back.
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And we would all say fuck Israel, I would for sure fuck Donald Trump.
09:18:08.580
I just, like, I would only listen to Jesus Christ as much as possible.
09:18:15.620
I don't think Jesus Christ would want you to do that.
09:18:18.100
I just don't think that that's going to make sense at all.
09:18:21.260
Yo, chat, would, chat, to end world hunger, would you guys have sex with Donald Trump?
09:18:38.560
To end racism, chat, would you have sex with Donald Trump?
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They're going to be like, nah, let's keep that shit.
09:18:54.500
Yo, men, men in the chat, would you, if you had to be gay for 24 hours, for a billion dollars,
09:19:10.420
Would anybody have sex with Donald Trump at the table for a billion dollars?
09:19:29.900
Oh, they're like, yeah, I'd be gay for 24 hours for a bill.
09:19:41.660
So, would you have sex with Donald Trump for a billion dollars?
09:20:00.640
I just feel like I have to preface this by saying, fuck Donald Trump.
09:20:04.480
Like, hell no, that man is a pedophile and a rapist.
09:20:06.500
But, he is, but, for one bill, I would probably do it, yeah.
09:20:26.720
No, but it's the late afternoon in winter, and the lights are off.
09:20:40.280
There is a bit of light coming through the window, though.
09:20:52.980
But it's evening time, so it's, like, twilight.
09:20:55.880
So there's some light coming through the window.
09:21:10.960
You said you really want to stop the Venezuelan war before it starts, an all-out war.
09:21:16.820
You're concerned it'll get much worse after the holidays.
09:21:19.020
You believe you could potentially prevent wars with healthier food and detoxing.
09:21:25.740
Yeah, I think, you know, I think there's something to that.
09:21:28.140
If people are healthier, I think that would be good for geopolitics.
09:21:41.000
You believe Trump has toxic chemicals because of McDonald's and, like, other stuff, and it makes him angry and emotional?
09:21:47.760
Well, in 30 seconds, describe the toxic chemical hypothesis.
09:21:56.300
So the big thing is that when it's a synthetic chemical, our body doesn't recognize it very well.
09:22:07.980
Again, examples are pesticides, plastic, forever chemicals, heavy metals.
09:22:17.980
I don't think there's really been any mean comments for...
09:22:54.200
So if you look at how pesticides interact with the gut microbiome, it kills off the gut microbiome,
09:23:02.260
killing off lactobacillus, and that reduces the amount of GABA hormone that goes to the brain.
09:23:10.500
So you have more anxiety if you're not eating organic food, but if you're eating probiotics,
09:23:15.420
then you can reduce your anxiety and think more clearly and perhaps not think of protecting yourself with money
09:23:23.840
rather than protecting yourself with Jesus Christ and natural healing and dealing with your pain and everything.
09:23:31.600
Like, there's so many people that deal with pain, and they don't fix the root causes.
09:23:40.000
You know, like, red 40 is tied to, like, aggression in people and, like, ADHD and stuff.
09:23:45.920
Hey, look, I think eating healthy or eating poorly has a really bad impact on a lot of things.
09:23:52.180
You said that, hypothetically, Trump may be able to speak to God if he had amazing nutrition and avoided McDonald's.
09:24:03.020
I am not an expert because there's people that claim to be psychics who are not very healthy.
09:24:20.340
So the pineal glands calcified, and that's what people say is the antenna, basically,
09:24:27.100
for people to be able to communicate to different minds and everything and to communicate with God better.
09:24:32.640
So that's why I'm eating magnesium like crazy and trying to avoid fluoride and trying to avoid toxic chemicals as much as I can.
09:24:41.340
But then my exercise hasn't been very great lately or whatever.
09:24:46.700
Like, I'm not the healthiest I could be, but it's not 100% about health.
09:24:52.280
It's also, like, God can just, like, do so much amazing healing where it's like, wow, you just decalcified my pineal gland.
09:25:06.700
A lot of the effect of the chemicals in our food that are not in, that are in non-organic foods, they do calcify your pineal gland, which it, it, if you don't believe in spiritual powers and psychic and stuff, it also, like, physically makes you less motivated.
09:25:23.560
Less motivated to follow through with tasks and all sorts of things like that.
09:25:26.660
So the calcification of it is affecting people either way.
09:25:30.420
You also wrote, you think you could maybe help convince him to eat probiotics to improve his mental health.
09:25:37.820
By improving his mental health, it may prevent wars.
09:25:42.240
You think Venezuela is just the first war for now and that we may have more wars at this rate.
09:25:47.960
Yeah, not the first war, but, like, one of the next wars where it's like, okay, Venezuela, then what about Greenland?
09:26:07.780
There's so many better people that are great sources on the Bible and all sorts of things.
09:26:13.860
And I want the Trump administration to allow more excellent experts to come in and help the health care system from its crazy demise, help the American...
09:26:29.920
I'm so sorry to interrupt you, but I need to call out Alina here for being a fucking...
09:26:34.960
Alina, you said you were going to stand in front.
09:26:41.960
I will give you a $2 bill right here, right now.
09:26:48.120
Rule number 76, no excuses, play like a champion.
09:26:56.140
You just want her to serve you because you think that's so gangster.
09:27:04.060
I know your gang is gone and everything like that, but it's just a little too much because
09:27:16.520
I'm telling you, if I move to California, I'll be on Skid Row.
09:27:29.440
We got you hooked up and we're going to get you, we're going to get you, man, you're
09:27:35.000
going to, you're going to start doing content with us.
09:27:39.520
Like I was before a woman who shall not be named, uh, departed the podcast.
09:27:48.020
We were going to do some, some gangster shit, but it wasn't meant to be.
09:27:58.920
Can you please not be disrespectful to other people's culture?
09:28:07.120
So anyways, um, I'm just saying we were going to do some, we were about to go on a generational
09:28:13.800
run with some different formats on the whatever podcast, the whatever channel you're going
09:28:19.500
to be the replacement and you're going to fucking kill that shit harder than anybody
09:28:28.260
Look, I was born ready, but when that happens, that's when I'll stand in front of the camera.
09:28:36.620
Mom's spaghetti, knees, cold arms, weak, how's it fucking go?
09:29:01.300
No, but what's the part about, it's the moment.
09:29:22.800
You want me to stand in front of the camera or my life is over?
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It's the beginning of a beautiful, a beautiful partnership between Russia and the whatever podcast.
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Look, I have a Russia, United States friendship pin.
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So, I'm not going to jail because I'm all for friendship.
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Are we going to hire a new sidekick for the whatever podcast?
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By the way, you're not allowed to repeat from anybody previously.
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That's why I was, in my mind, I started thinking of all the continents.
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Africa's a continent, and Alaska's a part of the U.S.
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And then what was the second part of the question?
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All right, we're going to have to do the next one.
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Mary, you got to make sure that it's on her when she's asking the question.
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You're the one who jumped in and said you knew, girl.
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But that's like the riddle to answer the question, isn't it?
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Isn't it like Columbus sailed the ocean blue in 1492?
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I'm trying to think what band was popular in 1982.
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That's when Columbus was when the United States was founded.
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Anybody else want to take a crack when the U.S. was founded?
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When we talked about pilgrims, we brought this up.
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Mary, for the questions, just so it's easier for my editor, just try to keep it, like, just
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Because it's going to be complicated if he has to, like, go from here, here, here,
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So just left when she asks the question, and then to whoever's answering it.
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How many days of the week end with the letter Y?
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She's that girl in B-Girls who's good at acting dumb.
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How many years are in a decade and in a century?
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If a dozen eggs cost three dollars, how much is each egg?
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Okay, if a dozen eggs cost three dollars, how much is each egg?
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I'm just wondering if maybe, like, when you say two million, maybe you mean, like, 200,000 just because of numbers.
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Nah, it's like, you know, like, one million plus one million, that's, like, two million.
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I know it's four, but it can't be four dollars each.
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That's why I said 40 cents, because I just didn't feel like doing all that.
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Wait, actually, it wouldn't be 12 divided by three.
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If a dozen eggs costs three dollars, how much is four eggs?
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And then from there, if four eggs costs one dollar, how much is each egg?
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How many degrees is in the full rotation of a circle?
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If you are walking perfect north and you turn 90 degrees, which direction are you now going?
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Perfect north and you turn 90 degrees, which way?
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Can't you be going two different directions if you turn 90 degrees?
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So, you're going north and you turn right 90 degrees.
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But if you turn the other way, you're going west.
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Because you acted like it could only be one way.
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But either way, one would be west, one would be east.
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Well, you'd have to turn left for it to be west.
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Well, I know, but she didn't say that at first.
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Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
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I always get it mixed up with the Boston Tea Party.
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The attack of Pearl Harbor took place in Boston.
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What province of Canada did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
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I meant the north, like the northeast of America.
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Pearl Harbor attack took place in Rhode Island.
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The only reason I know is because I visited it.
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Like, do you think maybe it took place in like Japan or something?
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Like, the Boston Tea Party, I know that it happened because of the Japanese, but I don't
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The Boston Tea Party happened because of the Japanese?
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Like, I heard, like, with the Boston Tea Party, it was like a retaliation type thing.
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Like, the Japanese did that, and then, like, we did the Sharashama, some shit like that,
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The bombing of Nagasaki and Hiroshima is a result of the Japanese attack dubbed the Boston Tea
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The Boston Tea Party, when they poured all the tea into us?
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Was the Japanese attack on Boston the precipitating factor in the U.S. entry to World War II?
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Was the Japanese attack on Boston what resulted in the United States going to war, to World War I?
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Was the Japanese attack on Boston the... what led to the Vietnam War?
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It's likely because, I don't know, the Japanese probably didn't do the Boston Tea Party.
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If yes is spelled Y-E-S, then what does E-Y-E-S spell?
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If yes is spelled Y-E-S, then what does E-Y-E-S spell?
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If you were born ten years ago, how old would you be today?
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If you were born ten years ago, how old would you be today?
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Honestly, I was trying to get this done sooner, but you guys just wanted to talk about oral
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It's usually eight or nine, but I want to say that you guys took a long time.
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Let's blast through this, though, so we can get out of here.
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So it would be 1910s, 1920s, 1930s, 40s, 60s, 70s, 80s.
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Um, I don't know, maybe like 19, I don't know, maybe like 19, I don't know.
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Or you can just answer the question rapid fire so I can get to the next one.
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I thought it, yeah, I thought it was later because my grandfather was in it.
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The, well, I'm saying I don't think he was old enough in the 40s.
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Like either the people in the band or I guess you can name three different K-pop groups.
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What percentage of men do you think are over six feet?
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Like, what you think, it's a lot lower than that.
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What percentage of men make at least $1 million per year?
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That's a good question for you because you want to date a guy who makes $2 million per year.
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Do you keep a list of all the men you've slept with?
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Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
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You're just answering if you slept with someone on the same day you met them.
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Like how long did it take for you guys to like sleep together?
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Honestly I'm trying to think if I've actually ever done that.
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So you've had multiple of those kinds of threesomes?
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I think to be a hoe, you at least gotta, at least gotta give a guy handy or something.
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Has anyone in here hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
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Have you had sex with two men in a 24-hour period?
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Like I said, don't follow my footsteps on the back.
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Do you think it's, like, 70% like how they say?
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I would say, like, at least, like, 40 of them are absolute, like, dumpster fire garbage.
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And then, like, maybe, like, 50% are, like, just, like, bad people.
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We got some real misandrists here at the table.
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To my two women here who think men are trash and men suck, if you could snap your finger,
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and all men disappeared and women could reproduce without men so all men gone now
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maybe they don't disappear you could also opt to they just go to an island somewhere we could go
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visit them if no i guess if you wanted to but i mean i would want all men disappear uh would you
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do it i'm attracted to men so so i think that would suck i think that would suck a world
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yeah no how about if you were a lesbian if i was lesbian hell yeah easy i mean when you're gay
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you know but but you're straight right i'm straight yeah okay so would you snap your fingers all men
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disappeared no why because i like boys but you could reproduce without men i'm sexually attracted
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to boys i'm not gonna like the girls that are around um but if you were a lesbian you'd be
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you're like fuck it send them to the island i mean i guess so all right um not really though i feel
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like that's inhumane like if there were no moral obligation maybe just a little bit uh how about
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this um oh boy did we go here do you think white people are inherently racist
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me yeah do i think white people are inherently racist yeah like hateful towards people of other
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races no they're just inherently racist well what does that mean to you no do you think that well
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that's what i'm saying does not mean that they're inherently hateful towards people of the other race
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or prejudice or all white people do you think white people are inherently racist
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i don't think i don't think that's a natural thing that comes naturally to people i think that's
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a taught thing you think it's just nurture okay yeah what do you think samantha
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do the do any of the other girls want to weigh in what do you think no they're not i don't think
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so i was just going by who he was calling what do you think um i don't think racist is the word
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okay we'll move on uh what do you think about white people
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what what do you mean okay what about white people do you like what i don't really spend
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my time thinking about white people but you do you like white people do you dislike white people
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i like people based off if they have good spirits and good energy i don't really care what they look
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like i don't really care if they're black white brown that's sure that's purple i find that like
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i don't know some people have an issue with white people especially white women white liberal women
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for some reason don't seem to like white people it's weird oh i think white people to some some to
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some degree culturally just just looking at history there is an innate almost kind of genetic
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thing where they need to dominate a genetic wait for white people yeah they need to dominate yes
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i do i don't know about that like that's just a men thing is that just human nature man thing no
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because i don't think anybody to any other culture to any capacity has done what the european has done
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i mean to go to all four corners of the universe and almost murder to mass extinction that's kind of
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crazy you do realize that those are all men though that's true that's true women partake in a lot of
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atrocities but you do realize that almost all cultures throughout history have had slaves
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regardless not white not just white you you had black people who were slavers you had arabic
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middle eastern people yeah but those were that was a different type of slavery in south america
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different type of slavery the barbary slave trade they were abducting people white people uh
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so like i don't know how you get around that because i i think at the end of the day
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to commit mass murder the way that white people have done culturally in history there's no other
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culture that's even coming close to it and what are you talking about that's what i just said
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let's look at asians we can look at genghis khan if we look at uh like on on scale
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genghis do you know genghis khan on scale this around the world uh yeah genghis khan got into
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europe that was his goal he got into europe great europe got into south america europe got into
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australia did you see what they did to the indigenous people there did they did you see what they did to
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america hold on this is uh i'm talking about do you think do you think that the the white conquests
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into the americas was more or less barbaric than the uh the uh mongolian conquests okay i don't know
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about the mongolian conquest okay but i'm talking about these they were fucking brutal i'm not saying
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they weren't brutal i'm saying that white people have gone to i'm talking about on scale around the
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world where they've gone and they've mass murdered to literal extinction did that too muslims they went
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around the world and colonized oh yeah the muslims were like snatching up the muslims where they were
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though no the muslims were snatching up i think even as far women in fucking ireland and and all over
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the place all over europe it is not to the same capacity it's not snatching up white people it's
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not it's nowhere snatching up white people making them slaves it's not even close it's trust me the
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barbary slave trade lasted way longer oh come on i didn't say anything about google the barbary
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slave trade just you know why i didn't say anything about slavery it's safe that's a different type of
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slavery you know why it lasted so long what do you mean a different type of slave what there's there's a
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different type of slavery when when when the slavery that oh it was worse it was worse the type of
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slavery you were the type of slavery that the in the barbary slave trade was worse than the uh
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african slave trade in the united states okay yeah the wikipedia please show it look just to be clear
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the african slave trade was terrible but uh it involved the capture of europeans and selling them at
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slave markets in the ottoman barbary states of north africa europeans were captured by barbary
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corsairs and slave raids on ships on coastal towns from italy to ireland coast of spain portugal as far
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north as iceland and into the eastern mediterranean can we get dates for it scroll down uh it continued
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as late into as the 18th century uh it came to an end in the early years of the 19th century
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wait hold on when did it start let's look at the extent extent really quick scroll down
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held throughout the 17th century is probably more come on oh my god it's probably more but when the
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fact is in your face though uh what triply one million to 1.25 million enslaved europeans how are
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these numbers so different wait i'm confused how does it go from like 35 000 to 1 million
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because that's um i think that says through the 17th century was 35 000 that's just the place but in
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the 16th century 17th century okay so the beginning of it is more a million right to one point
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scroll down scroll down one million 1.25 right 250 year period yeah millions that's 1.25 million
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1.25 that's a fuck ton right that's that's no that's no comparison at all what what do you mean
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to add up that's the which one what do you mean to which one you got there's literally do you know
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how many slaves were killed just just when you just when they were taking them to america i don't
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know let's google it google it google it how many what was the for the american slave that's not
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even the holocaust that's not even the holocaust that's not even comparable it's pretty bad it's
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pretty bad let's see what what it was for the uh like the american african slave trade
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maybe it's more maybe it's less i don't know let's let's just see let's find out
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estimates suggest 1.2 to 2.4 million africans died during the middle wait no but how many were
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taking slaves just curious how many were taking slaves just on the sea journey yeah that's just
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on the sea journey can we get a wiki is there a wiki maybe i mean ai should be fun how many slaves
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12.5 mil hey you know what i can admit if i if i was incorrect a little bit but that's just the
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black people i can admit when i'm wrong that's just the black people i can admit when i'm wrong you
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know i was wrong with the numbers i'm just saying uh that's what i'm saying i don't think i'm not
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saying that they're the they're the evil of that kind i was wrong on that specific fact i was
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incorrect i'm not saying that white people are evil and they're innately evil i'm saying that they
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have i just feel like they have more of something in them where it drives them they had chips but they
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also i mean that's that's not comparable either i mean okay here fine i think we will will i'm sorry
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do you want to finish your point i don't know you can let it go i made mine i was gonna say final fun
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thing uh make a machine gun noise i don't know because apparently women can't make machine gun
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noises machine gun i definitely can't well done i can't do it you can't come on that was terrible
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part of me wants to do something really cringy do it do it the whole like no i'm not gonna do it
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do it sammy do it at the end that's good that's good that's good i'm just gonna do it
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it's okay it's like a laser gun you want to give it a shot i can't do that
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there you go that was the same as mine you cannot tell me that was not the same as yours was
10:17:05.460
yours were scuffed all right um we're gonna wrap any final thoughts from any panelists where's where's
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my home girl where's my where's my my favorite schizo come back here go listen to my music guys
10:17:17.140
kaylee j music k-a-y-l-e-e j-a-y go do it just be sometimes on youtube go look at it once we hang up
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i'm trying to wrap get her get her to the table get her to the table oh my god is this the longest show
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we've ever done god probably i blame you you talked way too much yeah okay rude also you talk
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too much that's fucked up and you talk too much too much expression coming from you
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too much facial expression yeah you're too emotional i'm too much yeah wait alina stand in front of us
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nice headband looks good it brings out the color of your
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beautiful just gotta okay um any final thoughts from anybody before i get this all wrapped up
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final thoughts free palestine okay i love you nessa this is 10 hours long
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yes that is correct okay uh all right well i'll do uh i'll get the intro going here guys
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uh am i forgetting something oh hmm i don't think so well it was a good way to end the year
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with a long final show i want to say gg well played to the panel you guys were fantastic thank you guys
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for coming last call hit the like button please on your way out also please leave a nice comment
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guys thank you thank you we're gonna be live again i don't know maybe i'll do whatever wednesday on uh
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is that the 31st wait 29 30 yeah maybe we'll do whatever wednesday on new year's eve maybe we'll
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see possibly i'll see how i'm feeling um otherwise we'll be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific with another
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dating talk any girls who want to be on the show you can dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it
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to santa barbara i feel like we're forgetting something shit
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are we forgetting what are we forgetting yeah we'll do final twitch call guys twitch.tv slash
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love show some support trying to get to 400 000 hit the milestone before the end of the year that'd be
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epic any final thoughts or no just let us go follow me on insta kkvna 99 yeah i by the way didn't you
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say you're gonna venmo me i am okay i didn't forget my phone's over there uh oh and let me just okay
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quick shout outs for people uh chris christopher thank for the 10 colin thank for the 10 on cash app
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uh troy thank for the 10 on them thank you guys really appreciate it thank you thank you and
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what are we mary i swear i swear we're forgetting something
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what are we forgetting what are we forgetting mary well i guess uh just some final thoughts here
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because it is the end of the year uh it was an interesting year for the whatever podcast
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very interesting year uh i want to i i don't i shouldn't just let it go out on like a typical
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intro so i want to do a bit more of a thorough thank you to the viewers uh thank you guys for watching um
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um 2025 was a wild ride it was a bit of a roller coaster thank you guys so much for uh tuning in i
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hope you guys stick with us for 2026 normally we take a break uh i don't know if you guys know this
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but we've been going just all gas no breaks there's not going to be any breaks we're we're going to be
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here next next sunday we've often taken you know one month six weeks off around this time we're just
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going to power through all gas no breaks so uh yeah just keep watching guys thank you guys so much
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for watching uh it's been a whirlwind year whirlwind entire podcast three years uh we couldn't do
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without you guys thank you guys so much whether you watch whether you're a patron thank you guys
10:22:09.460
and uh i think there's some big things coming in 2026 i'm gonna be stoked to have you guys here with
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me what's that is it the longest i don't know i think we've maybe i think we i don't know well
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we'll see but um yeah i'm trying to think if there's anything else i guess really quick i just
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want to thank everybody i want to thank everyone on my team uh nick mary everybody's on but been on the
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team previously this year uh i want to thank obviously the viewers thank you to the panel
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tonight of course thank you to all the people who come on the show and uh but big thanks to everybody
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who watches could not have could not do this without you guys and uh i am wishing all the
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people on the panel i hope you guys have a wonderful 2026 i wish you prosperity i wish you good health
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i wish you guys the best to the viewers i wish you all the same i wish you prosperity good health
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and uh a fantastic i think 2026 is going to be a good year i think you know 2025 was rough for some
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people but i think 2026 and then definitely 2027 is going to be a strong year for people so uh
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yeah i wish everybody a happy new year's i hope everybody who had a good christmas too anyways i'm
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going to stop stop rambling and prattling uh i hope you guys have a fantastic new year we will see you
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in unless i do the whatever wednesday we're going to see you in uh 2026 is the next time we'll see you
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so everybody have a safe new year have a good new year oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat
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good night guys and we'll see you in 2026 good night