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00:07:06.420 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

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00:07:12.920 Hi, I'm Portia, 29, and I'm from LA.

00:07:16.100 and I do social media and I trade options in the mornings. Okay. Social media and education?

00:07:25.880 Education. Like, did you go to college or in college? I went to beauty school. Beauty school.

00:07:30.440 What kind of beauty, I guess? To do hair, makeup, and nails, but I didn't finish. Okay. Yeah.

00:07:36.280 Obviously I don't do that, but I do it on myself. So, yeah. So you're, you're a beauty school dropout.

00:07:41.340 yeah there you go uh and uh let's see you said you do social media uh what kind so I monetize

00:07:50.400 on all platforms um I also do OF um obviously right um I do really well on there though um

00:07:59.120 why would that be obvious I don't know I just thought it would be obvious I don't know people

00:08:04.020 online say that it's obvious right they're like oh and also I actually just started music I

00:08:08.580 released my first single a week ago and it's doing really well on spotify everywhere so i guess i'm

00:08:14.740 marketing it pretty well what what kind of uh it's r&b and you're a singer i'm a singer yeah you guys

00:08:20.920 can find it on youtube or spotify do you produce the beat no um it's with my company creators inc

00:08:26.680 okay spit a bar i'm not a rapper though so how about acapella singing yeah probably not right

00:08:34.080 out maybe a little later are you uh a soprano um i sing pretty low like as you can tell my voice

00:08:39.840 kind of raspy so i sing kind of lower but so would that be like baritone you're i don't know

00:08:45.360 i don't know the specifics of it i just think there's soprano there's baritones there's uh

00:08:50.100 what's any singers here alto yeah that's what i was right i don't know i'm just porsche sing

00:08:54.780 like i guess deep i believe all right uh yeah baritone is a deep one uh okay and uh how long

00:09:00.340 you've been doing OF for um so I started in like 2020 I wasn't really capitalizing on it though I

00:09:05.920 kind of just like left it there for my Instagram people to like subscribe and stuff I wasn't really

00:09:10.620 doing much with it but I did start taking it seriously like the middle of last year I would

00:09:16.340 say and it does really well now so have you done any other uh like any other forms of adult content

00:09:25.360 like stripping or I was a stripper for a long time um I think I started stripping at about 20

00:09:31.620 and I did that for a long time alongside like other jobs though like I was a personal trainer

00:09:36.280 um I did stuff like that and I always just try to do my social media but because I had crazy 0.71

00:09:41.820 ex-boyfriends they would delete my stuff and that shit always just set me back obviously like I would

00:09:47.480 hit 100k I would hit 200k and boom delete it and then they would act like they don't know what's 0.96

00:09:51.040 going on so that but then yeah so I was stripping for a while and I stopped and now I don't know

00:09:56.640 like if somebody will hit me up and be like oh I'm gonna give you five bands to be in the club

00:10:00.440 like I might just show up you know something like that but it's not really my thing anymore though

00:10:04.500 and wait you're you're 29 yeah I'm a little older huh yeah I'm 29 why you said you're a bit older

00:10:11.040 yeah it's a secret how old I am oh no because in your notes you said you were older like I said

00:10:17.400 that? Yeah, in the notes you sent us.

00:10:19.540 Oh. Did I really respond

00:10:21.340 with that in my notes? I don't think I

00:10:23.360 said anything. Well, yeah, usually

00:10:25.300 when people message us, it's, we're asking

00:10:27.660 age,

00:10:29.780 location. Yeah, I kind of like to keep

00:10:31.360 my age a mystery for

00:10:33.140 obvious reasons, which

00:10:35.180 obviously, I don't like people knowing too much

00:10:37.280 about me. Why are the reasons

00:10:39.440 obvious? Because I just said I don't want

00:10:41.260 people knowing too much about me. No, I,

00:10:43.200 well, sure, that might be fair, but why would that be

00:10:45.360 obvious? I just said that's

00:10:47.300 the obvious reason. Oh, that's the obvious, the obvious reason you don't want. I don't like people

00:10:52.740 knowing too much. It's like me saying what city I live in and stuff like that. I just don't,

00:10:56.660 I just like to be vague. So a lot has happened in my life. Like a lot that I just like to keep my

00:11:02.680 life as vague as possible. Even though I'm on social media, I try to still try to keep it as

00:11:07.240 vague as possible. Yeah. I do recall. I think, uh, you get blackout drunk and shoot people or

00:11:14.480 you get definitely did not say shoot people or guns get drawn or yeah you wrote that in your

00:11:20.540 notes i'm pretty sure really i don't think i sent you any notes wait read it yeah i'll read it

00:11:25.000 april 6th april 6th oh my god imagine i was drunk when i wrote that imagine that makes sense

00:11:30.580 yeah april 6th 2026 uh you black out a lot so crazy things happen fights before straps the old

00:11:38.780 me straps being pulled right peeing on the freeway that happened yes you peed on the freeway

00:11:44.860 i definitely peed on the freeway all right sometimes you got to go you got to go yeah

00:11:48.380 but the straps being pulled by you you pulled the strap i'm not gonna say that but i have been shot

00:11:54.100 right four times um yeah it was on the news four times it was on the news and everything you can

00:11:59.120 like pull it up i was actually on the no jumper podcast talking about it right where can i look

00:12:03.160 this up um you can go on no jumper i'm on there um i was on ktla news how do i google this like

00:12:08.440 So, Google, like, Portia, because my old Instagram name was Portia Fitness.

00:12:12.380 So, you can put Portia Fitness got shot.

00:12:14.380 You can Google that. 1.00

00:12:15.060 Asian suicide girl.

00:12:16.340 Definitely not suicide girl. 0.82

00:12:18.340 No, you can search it, though. 0.96

00:12:19.220 You know what a suicide girl is, though. 0.63

00:12:20.340 Yeah. 0.96

00:12:20.700 Not really.

00:12:21.940 It's not like somebody who does that.

00:12:23.940 It's, like, an aesthetic.

00:12:25.700 Yeah.

00:12:26.180 Oh.

00:12:26.980 Oh, so then that's why I was called that before.

00:12:29.020 I never really understood that.

00:12:29.820 Yeah, it's, like, heavily tattooed aesthetic.

00:12:31.520 It doesn't mean you're, like, trying to un-life yourself.

00:12:34.560 Right, right, right.

00:12:34.940 Okay. 0.61

00:12:35.260 Asian suicide got shot wearing, like, Compton?

00:12:38.440 in alhambra where's that in sgb like san gabriel valley yeah was it who shot you um somebody

00:12:46.140 ran did you shoot them back or what no but i don't think they're alive anymore which is crazy right

00:12:50.860 did you send peep your no i did not do anything they're just not alive anymore

00:12:55.080 okay was it a man or woman who shot it was a man wait have you been shot on more than one occasion

00:13:00.300 i've been shot at at more than one occasion but actually physically hit no just once only one 0.99

00:13:04.960 four times you're just dodging bullets just a fucking neo and the matrix yeah i was about to 0.99

00:13:09.380 say that yeah but not saying the one time you did get hit you got hit four times i did he shot he 0.99

00:13:14.300 let off nine rounds and then i was neo for a little bit and then i got hit four times were

00:13:19.580 you the intended target definitely yes they knocked on my door and asked for my name oh they

00:13:25.040 came to your house correct yes who so there were multiple assailants it was one guy but i feel like

00:13:30.460 oh it was trans person yeah you said they you didn't know their pronouns so it was like oh no

00:13:36.440 you know how like there's oh no sorry i don't even say all that like right no but you said 0.97

00:13:41.360 it was i feel like somebody sent him so when i say they oh they oh shit you know what i mean 0.88

00:13:46.480 yeah so are you uh are you filipina no i'm japanese japanese okay why did you think i was 0.94

00:13:51.440 filipino because i'm like tan i feel like i'm tan am i tan well i feel like this might be gang

00:13:55.620 related and i've heard of like there's i suppose there's japanese gangs in in la but i've heard

00:14:00.080 not really no it's more filipino gang i was actually raised with a filipino gang so so it

00:14:05.880 was a filipino but it had nothing to do with that though you're not filipino it had nothing to do

00:14:09.340 with that though okay it was well so what was the i guess the reasoning or it could be like a 0.97

00:14:15.800 possible stalker situation because again i used to be a stripper right oh shit okay it could have 0.71

00:14:20.380 been the people i hang around it could have been yeah the career i was choosing at the time okay 0.90

00:14:27.000 right stuff like that did you owe a trifling hoe some money definitely not they owed me 0.93

00:14:33.720 they owed you yeah oh so they wanted to yeah get rid of the debt yeah i don't know i probably said 0.97

00:14:39.260 too much on here we're probably gonna move on to something else dang that's crazy uh so you went

00:14:44.940 to the hospital i went to the yeah so the cops pulled up i crawled to my door because at the

00:14:50.180 time my door had like a lock right you know the automatic ones where you put the code yeah so he

00:14:54.600 came out and at the time my son was home, right? He was really young at the time. Um, they asked

00:14:59.960 for me, my masseuse came up and she was like, dude, there's somebody at the door looking for

00:15:02.920 you. And I was like, what the hell? So I came out and at the time I went outside and I thought to

00:15:08.460 myself like, okay, I don't know what's going on, but I'm gonna go out like an idiot. Right? So I 1.00

00:15:12.340 went out. It's either he comes in my house, which my son's in my house. So obviously I'm not going

00:15:16.080 to do that. So I opened the door and I close it behind me. It locks right away. Um, he was like,

00:15:21.460 oh so and so has something for you and I said who and he just started letting off but I saw his hand 0.95

00:15:26.840 it was like shaking right like this like going into his jacket and I was like oh fuck right so

00:15:32.200 I kind of like turn around and I just I was like okay there's nowhere where I can go though because

00:15:36.600 I wouldn't have been able to get to my door in time right I couldn't hop my thing because it

00:15:40.040 was super high I'm hella short I'm 411 and yeah he just let off and then he dipped I crawled into

00:15:46.920 my house I like put the code crawled and I just yelled upstairs because my house was a three-story

00:15:50.700 house and I was like yo call 911 I just got hit and so crawled in the cops came my homegirl came

00:15:56.740 down was like putting pressure up wherever she thought I got hit on which honestly I didn't even

00:16:01.080 know at the time because I don't know if any of you guys been shot but it burns and you don't know

00:16:04.840 where it's at right the cops came they searched the whole crib and then from there they're like

00:16:10.700 okay clear and then they let the ambulance in and I just feel like that was insane because I could

00:16:15.000 have probably died in the time that they're searching my house and then yeah I got put in

00:16:19.440 the ambulance, the EMT fell on top of me. I passed out cause we cut a corner and then

00:16:24.640 I didn't wake up for, I think like almost more than 24, 24 hours, a little bit more

00:16:29.520 than that. Yeah. It's pretty crazy. And you were shot in the stomach or in the back, the

00:16:35.060 stomach, and then twice in my thigh. Damn. Do you carry, do you own firearms? I do. 1.00

00:16:40.960 Yes. Okay. Why were you able to, were you armed at the time? At the time? No, because

00:16:46.300 they were not yeah yeah all right uh what about you all right so hi my name is china i'm 29 years

00:16:53.760 old i'm from montreal canada um school why i act and model and uh yeah i have a bachelor degree in

00:17:03.620 education and a master's in translation uh from what university university of sherbrooke

00:17:12.280 In Canada?

00:17:12.980 In Canada, yeah.

00:17:14.500 And you said, so you have a bachelor's in comm?

00:17:17.940 No, education.

00:17:19.180 Oh, and then the master's is in? 0.67

00:17:21.520 Translation.

00:17:22.380 Translation.

00:17:23.000 Yeah.

00:17:23.280 You translate what?

00:17:24.380 French and English.

00:17:25.620 Because you're Canadian. 0.92

00:17:26.740 Exactly.

00:17:27.520 French and English.

00:17:28.300 Yeah.

00:17:28.520 Okay, so I assume you're fluent.

00:17:30.440 We did, yeah.

00:17:31.260 What was your first language?

00:17:33.540 So, English.

00:17:35.600 But then, so I was born in BC.

00:17:37.720 so from zero to four I spoke English and then we moved here

00:17:41.940 and my mom started dating a French guy

00:17:46.340 so then I was kind of speaking more French 0.99

00:17:50.500 but I went to English school, then French school, vice versa

00:17:54.380 and your bio father is a famous hockey player in Canada

00:18:01.960 or a hockey player, I'm not too familiar with hockey

00:18:05.860 butt and uh okay do you play hockey I do not my brothers do though brothers do okay uh when did

00:18:13.220 you graduate from with your master's degree uh 2023 okay so pretty recently yeah and that was

00:18:19.420 in translation yeah just French English yeah okay interesting what are some of the like aside from

00:18:27.340 being like for example um say you were just studying English or well I guess if you're

00:18:34.440 studying English or the French language, you're typically, it's not so much speaking it, but

00:18:41.060 if you're studying English, you're, you're like studying famous works of, uh, of English, for

00:18:53.060 example, famous books, et cetera, writing. Uh, but so translation to get a specific degree in that,

00:19:00.800 what are some of the components of the educate like being educated in translation

00:19:05.560 i mean well it was mostly like professional translation so either like business related

00:19:13.600 or we would kind of like specify in some kind of uh like whatever we liked and wanted to do so

00:19:22.480 um for instance i translated a book that was in french into english but i'm just wondering what

00:19:30.540 is the knowledge that they're imparting on you as part of an education specifically in translation

00:19:36.300 because i assume if you're say you're already fluent in both languages uh aside from actually

00:19:42.800 learning the language which it doesn't sound like they don't they don't teach you the language

00:19:47.380 so what specifically would they like what are they teaching you about translation that warrants

00:19:55.200 a master's degree um so mostly what we're learning is like uh there are some literal

00:20:04.380 translations but then each language has their like own slangs or right yeah stuff like that so i'd

00:20:11.240 say yeah okay all right so is there like a translation 212 class or something like that

00:20:21.360 like there are some translation classes but there's some english lit there's um like it's

00:20:27.880 a bit of like history about the certain philosophies and stuff like that

00:20:32.360 okay nothing crazy got it all right what about you hello uh my name is tatum love

00:20:40.660 i am a full service sex worker at sherry's ranch which is a legal brothel one hour outside of 0.76

00:20:48.400 Vegas. In two weeks, I am graduating from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas with a bachelor's

00:20:55.260 degree. And, oh, I'm 30 years old, and I do have an OnlyFans. All right. All right. And what are

00:21:05.940 you studying again? Sorry, I might have missed that. I'm getting my degree in interdisciplinary

00:21:10.180 studies. So I have three areas of study in anthropology and sociology and women's studies.

00:21:16.280 But within those categories, I'm taking mostly classes on sex works, history of sexuality and marriage and family.

00:21:28.360 All right. And you used to be a stripper. Is that correct? 0.73

00:21:32.060 Yes.

00:21:33.020 Or dancer. Do you guys do strippers dislike stripper?

00:21:37.580 No, I say dancer.

00:21:38.980 Oh, is it is it rude?

00:21:40.600 No, it's not rude. It's just now you say dancer.

00:21:43.080 You say dancer.

00:21:43.820 But like a dancer could be a dancer.

00:21:47.420 I guess it's just what kind of person you're talking to.

00:21:49.620 Like for example, if you're a background dancer.

00:21:51.840 Then you would say background dancer then.

00:21:54.160 Or backup dancer. 1.00

00:21:54.840 So strippers get just the dancer?

00:21:57.160 That's what you're saying. 1.00

00:21:57.800 They just get dancer?

00:21:58.780 Yeah. 1.00

00:21:59.060 Dancers don't get dancer? 1.00

00:22:00.040 Strippers get dancer?

00:22:00.620 I guess, yeah, you just have to specify, you know what I mean? 1.00

00:22:02.520 Seems a little unfair to the dancer.

00:22:03.960 It is what it is.

00:22:05.300 And then ballet.

00:22:06.440 Well, I guess ballet, you would say ballet dancer.

00:22:09.260 But I think the dancers should get dancer.

00:22:12.640 That's too bad. 1.00

00:22:13.260 And then strippers get stripper. 1.00

00:22:14.560 Right. 1.00

00:22:14.980 Maybe exotic dancer. 1.00

00:22:16.400 I'll give you that.

00:22:17.380 But that's too charitable, I feel like.

00:22:20.200 Exotic.

00:22:20.680 Interesting.

00:22:21.820 Dancer.

00:22:22.560 You're really showing your opinion on strippers right now.

00:22:25.460 Well, I mean, I don't know.

00:22:27.260 Like, exotic dancer, I don't even understand why exotic.

00:22:32.160 Why is it?

00:22:32.740 You don't understand why it's exotic?

00:22:34.680 Like, exotically dancing?

00:22:36.500 Like, sexy dancing?

00:22:37.500 Well, that would be erotic.

00:22:38.460 Erotic.

00:22:38.980 That would be erotic.

00:22:39.580 Right, right, right.

00:22:40.120 Exotic is not.

00:22:41.240 I don't know.

00:22:41.560 I didn't come up with that word.

00:22:42.440 Let me Google the strict definition of exotic.

00:22:44.860 Yeah, Google it. 1.00

00:22:45.400 Be an exotic dancer because you have that exotic look. 1.00

00:22:49.420 Oh, because she's Asian. 1.00

00:22:50.080 Well, now that's racist dancing. 1.00

00:22:51.160 Yeah, that was a little...

00:22:52.240 No, I'm just kidding.

00:22:52.700 It's a little racist. 0.67

00:22:53.160 Girl!

00:22:53.860 No, I don't care.

00:22:55.040 Well, so exotic refers...

00:22:56.700 Okay.

00:22:59.240 Exotic refers to something strikingly unusual, foreign, or from a faraway place, often characterized

00:23:05.760 by fascinating or intriguing appearance.

00:23:07.900 it typically describes things not native to a particular environment uh such well okay so i

00:23:14.460 guess that would make sense if it's exotic dancer because you don't really see them in the wild so

00:23:19.860 it's something that you go to see almost like a show you know what i mean does that make sense

00:23:25.120 i suppose i wonder like yeah well okay so you used to dance you are a courtesan uh have you 0.91

00:23:33.620 done any other forms of sex work like escorting or prostitution well i mean i am a legal prostitute 0.90

00:23:39.940 i guess i perhaps i should rephrase like any street no prostitution no okay and uh

00:23:48.360 escorting outside of the no ranch it's called no in uh-huh not the ranch it's not a ranch

00:23:56.920 meaning i i only work at the ranch oh it's called the ranch sherry's ranch yeah

00:24:02.360 Right. And that's located in Pahrump, Nevada, one of the regions of Nevada where it is legal

00:24:11.940 to have brothels. And you said you've been doing that for how long? For almost three years. Three

00:24:18.340 years. Okay. How many clients do you think you've seen? A few hundred, probably. Do you think over

00:24:28.440 a thousand no but a few hundred i'm more um low volume more repeat you have repeat customers okay

00:24:38.320 yeah uh per week how many sessions would you say you do um it's a lot different from when i first

00:24:45.700 started i when i first started i i had a lot more um but now i maybe have like two to three

00:24:53.980 really long sessions a week when you say really long what do you mean like anywhere from like

00:25:00.780 five to nine hours yeah oh wow or multiple days sometimes you'll do like day-long hangouts

00:25:07.980 and so how does it work what's the calculation is it like a flat rate hourly rate everything is

00:25:14.280 negotiated like by the client it's every situation is really unique so I don't have like flat rates

00:25:21.760 for anything sure i well i suppose what um for you what would be a typical rate oh my gosh it's

00:25:28.040 totally not legal to discuss that it's not no it's it's considered solicitation to like advertise

00:25:36.660 my prices unless unless i'm in the room with my client i don't think it would be i think discussing

00:25:46.460 it on a podcast where you discuss these things. How about this? Not you, but a friend of yours

00:25:53.100 who works at a competing brothel that offers the same level of service that your brothel offers

00:26:03.740 with the same sort of clientele, with the same offerings, et cetera. And it's your identical

00:26:10.400 twin who works there, speaking of. How much does she, your identical twin, how much does she

00:26:16.700 typically charge? Okay, a simple Reddit search will have lots of people talking about the prices

00:26:23.700 there, but I personally don't talk about what I charge. No, no, no, not what you charge, but in a

00:26:28.780 hypothetical scenario. I don't want to get into it, but it is something people save up for. I will say

00:26:34.720 that uh well then like for other people that you're aware of would you say that the hourly

00:26:41.880 rate is in the hundreds or thousands can you say that it is the latter in the in the thousands 1.00

00:26:49.740 damn fucking inflation man fucking this war in iran's fucking us up 1.00

00:26:55.780 prostitution prices through the roof need some iranian pussy in here okay just kidding uh relax 1.00

00:27:02.760 why would that be how would that be racist what the fuck okay all right so uh and uh okay you 1.00

00:27:12.400 can't talk about money how about this though um are the rates the same across women can you answer 0.97

00:27:18.540 that or do we all set our own prices okay yeah uh and then do you guys offer coupons 1.00

00:27:24.640 obviously not no coupons no no some i think some women do have certain uh communities that they

00:27:35.940 support i know some women offer military military yeah police fire yeah ems yeah 0.99

00:27:42.060 okay is there a senior discount

00:27:45.320 no no like if 65 plus no like retirees because do you guys go to retirement homes ever that'd be

00:27:56.460 a good you know no they people they have to come there i see okay you don't do alcohol that's

00:28:03.020 illegal yeah oh okay what so as far as like the coupons or discounts is there ever a buy one

00:28:09.360 bang one free no not for me personally buy two bang one free you'll have to ask the individual

00:28:16.720 lady you guys should start i think offering that maybe you guys need to hire me as your marketing

00:28:22.580 okay advertising you seem good at it so yeah we get some coupons out there buy two bang one free

00:28:29.060 i guess i don't know okay that's cool um and i'm sure we'll get into some of the more like s work

00:28:34.800 related stuff as it relates to dating a little later on what about you um hi my name is milana

00:28:40.540 i'm 24 and i live in charlotte in near montreal but i come from france you're born in france

00:28:47.660 yeah from france yeah i was born in france when did you move to canada like two three years ago

00:28:53.200 okay uh and uh i came here to study first i did a master in chemistry okay and then i i'm right now

00:29:03.160 a phd student in electrical engineering okay phd student yeah uh electrical engineering so what

00:29:11.040 what's the next step after you graduate um i still have two years to run and then i would

00:29:18.380 love to work in um in a firm like a private firm and do chips for the telephone things like that

00:29:27.400 okay research gotcha uh and uh okay you're from france do you have a job currently or just

00:29:34.560 student it's my job oh that is i'm paid to study oh you're paid to study okay

00:29:39.340 and then uh are you just temporarily in canada or uh i think i don't want to go back in france

00:29:48.140 after but i'm not necessarily have to stay here in canada so i will see any idea of where you

00:29:55.920 might end up? No. We'll see the opportunities. Okay. So you don't want to go back to France.

00:30:02.740 Not necessarily. Why is that? Because I've lived there. Now I want to explore and do other things.

00:30:09.980 Yeah. Where in France are you from? Where? Wait, let me see if I can do it in French. Hold on.

00:30:15.560 Oh, yeah. Thanks. Oh, man. Okay. Hold on. Let me.

00:30:21.380 you said you weren't fluent in French

00:30:26.460 I speak it at a five year old's level

00:30:29.420 I was born in France

00:30:33.120 but I moved to the United States

00:30:34.940 when I was five

00:30:35.780 de quelle

00:30:38.620 partie

00:30:40.520 de

00:30:42.960 okay

00:30:45.720 what part of France are you from

00:30:47.760 I live near Luxembourg

00:30:50.920 Luxembourg.

00:30:51.420 So it's the east of the France, near Germany.

00:30:53.280 Luxembourg, yeah.

00:30:53.940 Okay.

00:30:54.880 All right.

00:30:55.700 Cool.

00:30:58.140 All right.

00:30:58.680 I'm trying to think. 1.00

00:30:59.660 She also dances, but she's not a stripper dancer. 0.97

00:31:03.220 Not an exotic dancer.

00:31:04.340 No, just commercial, hip-hop, street jazz.

00:31:07.360 I did ballet a little bit.

00:31:09.160 Ballet, yeah.

00:31:09.720 Ballet.

00:31:10.500 Yeah.

00:31:11.200 Okay.

00:31:11.500 And I love to dance everywhere, every time.

00:31:13.620 And you're a professional dancer or just for fun?

00:31:16.620 No, just for fun.

00:31:17.280 Okay.

00:31:17.520 I took classes, and now it's just on myself, and I will enjoy the rest of my life.

00:31:23.700 So you do ballet?

00:31:24.700 Yeah.

00:31:25.480 Okay.

00:31:26.380 Can we see a plie?

00:31:28.300 Yeah.

00:31:28.940 Okay, go ahead.

00:31:29.860 I have to stand up?

00:31:30.580 Yep, go ahead.

00:31:31.700 Scoot your chair back.

00:31:32.860 All right, plie, first ever on the Whatever Podcast. 0.89

00:31:36.200 Watch out, I'll make you do a pirouette next.

00:31:39.280 Yeah, that's good.

00:31:40.300 All right, perfect, right there.

00:31:41.520 Go ahead.

00:31:41.780 Thank you.

00:31:47.520 all right i give it as a professional ballet connoisseur it was like a b minus i think

00:31:59.780 you know the depth yeah i noticed you have a bandage on your arm did you what's that

00:32:08.240 oh nothing i get uh piqué the jab you got a vaccine no an insect oh insect yeah and i don't

00:32:16.940 want to scratch it so i put something on gotcha okay all right uh what about you uh i'm brooke

00:32:24.100 lebedew i'm 28 and i'm from middleborough massachusetts um and i am a cna i do senior

00:32:31.760 home care okay and i used to do only fans but i don't anymore all right so i just do cna uh

00:32:39.900 education um i went to i didn't go to college but i went to a technical technical school that's how

00:32:45.720 I got my CNA license. Got it. Okay. All right. What about you? My name is Taylor. I'm 31. I live

00:32:52.420 in Los Angeles. I work as an administrative director remotely. I do comedy content creation

00:32:58.400 and I have a PhD in international relations. When did you get your PhD? In 2025. 2025. So

00:33:06.480 pretty recently in international relations. So when, I guess what, a year ago you graduated or

00:33:12.900 typically in june people graduate or yeah i graduated it was probably a year ago like april

00:33:17.860 about a year ago okay is it still fresh in your mind what you learned i guess hardly the thing

00:33:24.100 about phds is you learn the first two years and then the rest is research very specific research

00:33:29.460 so you wrote a dissertation yes okay uh how long was your dissertation like pages pages yeah i don't

00:33:38.180 remember it was double spaced times new roman yeah okay and uh let's see uh international

00:33:49.200 relations yes well it must be given that it's a you didn't just get a bachelor's degree you got

00:33:56.180 a master's degree and a wait do you skip you go master's then you get your phd or do you just

00:34:01.600 skip the master's and go straight to the phd it depends on the student some people do a bachelor's

00:34:07.840 and then go straight to a PhD, when the first two years is technically a master's, you can graduate

00:34:12.440 out with a master's. I did a bachelor's, a master's in something different, and then I got a PhD

00:34:18.000 separately. Oh, what did you get your bachelor's and master's in? Russian studies. A little closer

00:34:21.900 to the mic? In Russian studies. Russian studies. Are you Russian? No. Why Russian studies? I just

00:34:28.780 really liked foreign languages, and I studied a few, and by the time I went to college, I decided

00:34:34.840 Russian sounded interesting, and when else would I study Russian? Okay, so when you say Russian

00:34:39.640 studies, this is language, not like the study of Russia. It was the study of Russia, and language

00:34:46.200 was the component of it. Okay, so are you fluent in Russian? Not fluent, but you can speak it? To

00:34:51.620 an extent. Conversationally, or? Not a great conversation, but sure. Okay, all right, and I

00:34:59.120 I mean, I guess what spurred on your interest in Russia?

00:35:02.860 Are you a Marxist?

00:35:04.620 Are you communist?

00:35:06.680 So I studied Spanish and French a little bit, and then also Chinese.

00:35:13.320 And I was thinking for college, I'll either do Arabic or Russian.

00:35:17.740 And I decided Russian because I thought I could get a better grasp of it.

00:35:21.420 And I didn't think I'd be very comfortable in the Middle East because I don't like hot weather.

00:35:26.860 But then I moved to L.A., so I was wrong.

00:35:29.120 Have you been to Russia?

00:35:31.200 Yes, four times.

00:35:32.280 Four times.

00:35:33.540 Can people travel to Russia at the moment or no?

00:35:36.520 I mean, it's not good to travel there when it's at war right now, but I went before the war.

00:35:42.820 I see.

00:35:43.260 Okay.

00:35:43.820 Well, okay, so you just graduated in 2025 with your Ph.D. in international relations.

00:35:50.140 Were you hoping to do something with that?

00:35:53.080 Or I guess what's your job?

00:35:55.240 I don't know if you do content.

00:35:56.480 I do. So I do administration remotely. So at some point during my PhD, I realized I don't have

00:36:03.000 strong career goals. So I'm just kind of going with whatever. Since it is pretty recent that

00:36:10.340 you got your PhD, can you relate to us maybe one or two things, big takeaways that you learned

00:36:17.940 in international relations? Yeah. So power is really important. Who has it? Most things

00:36:25.820 are a power struggle that's not my opinion it's the realist school of thought which is just one

00:36:31.920 theory of basically essentially how the world works okay anything else like like some sort of

00:36:37.840 academic takeaway from what you learned in international relations an academic takeaway

00:36:43.900 and what's well i suppose like something infer like something material that you learned in the

00:36:51.020 class? Like, I'm unsure, like, like a fact? Well, I mean, you have a PhD in international

00:37:02.040 relations. Just, I, if you were to teach somebody perhaps an advanced concept of international

00:37:10.440 relationship, or international relations, excuse me, I'm assuming you would, given you have a PhD

00:37:16.940 in the field in the discipline you'd be able to con uh elucidate something that you like i don't

00:37:25.360 have a phd in international relationships so i'm curious to know can you articulate something that

00:37:30.660 you learned uh how to set up a research study like getting a unit of analysis and how to set up

00:37:36.820 uh research in a way where you are actually getting to the root of the question i guess

00:37:42.580 well is it wouldn't that be something sort of basic to any sort of discipline that would be

00:37:48.920 reliant on statistics or any anything related to research um i mean the first thing you mentioned

00:37:55.720 was power being very important i mean a five-year-old could tell you that uh five-year-olds

00:38:02.100 infants children engage in power dynamics even with their own parents and they're often very

00:38:07.920 manipulative uh children have a manipulative sense of how to you know if they cry or they

00:38:13.100 whine they maybe often get what they want so I guess what I'm asking you though is to have a

00:38:19.360 can I ask uh did you have um scholarships or did you pay for the it was paid for by

00:38:28.020 the university oh so you had scholarships no I'm like she said a lot of PhD programs are fully

00:38:35.100 funded and you get paid a salary okay um well i mean you must have some expenses that you put

00:38:41.620 towards college perhaps your undergrad uh i mostly had scholarships yes where did you go to school

00:38:47.260 my undergrad at miami university in ohio okay and uh post grad or grad school i guess grad so i got

00:38:55.380 my phd at northeastern that's a pretty good school right yeah northeastern i think or northwest it's

00:39:01.620 northeastern i think it's a good school i think uh okay so so you had scholarships is northeastern

00:39:09.920 a public or private school it's a public school no it's a private private school no private i

00:39:15.040 think it's private uh does anybody in the chat know i think it's a private northeastern it's

00:39:20.960 not really something that comes up i think it is a private non-profit research university boston

00:39:26.340 massachusetts okay uh it is private i wonder if it's taxpayer subsidized um but i i mean i would

00:39:34.580 imagine speaking to somebody who holds a phd degree that they would have like you know perhaps

00:39:40.900 they're not like top in their field in the subject but they have like a a depth of knowledge that

00:39:46.560 could be perhaps articulated or shared so i guess i'm looking for power is very important

00:39:54.780 how to set up a research study i'm looking for the juice i'm looking for the meat

00:40:02.840 okay so uh it's this is a this is a funny question because i feel like when you're in

00:40:09.820 this level of schooling you really aren't going to get a one sentence thing that's like compelling

00:40:16.540 closer to the mic that's compelling but uh what was the title one thing i think that was interesting

00:40:21.440 that i learned is that when you look at world leaders across the board more of them have

00:40:26.480 something called one of these dark triad traits which is uh machiavellianism which is like

00:40:33.000 manipulation what are what are the other components of dark triad uh narcissism and

00:40:39.060 psychopathy okay and so these traits are more prevalent in people who rise to the top through

00:40:45.220 a process of competition into and elimination until they're at the top of their field well

00:40:50.440 dear i must tell you as somebody who uh dropped out of community college i've been aware of what

00:40:56.460 the dark triad for for many years without the need to get a phd degree um so that's is that

00:41:06.280 what the universities you you get a you spend nearly a decade in university and you get a phd

00:41:13.240 and power is important dark triad and how to do a research study it seems like college might be a

00:41:22.900 bit of a scam if you ask me but perhaps i'm wrong research is a process and when i'm just throwing

00:41:33.320 things out there it's really just me throwing things out there so please don't take that as

00:41:36.940 a reflection of university well i guess it's like okay uh in this case you went to a private

00:41:43.300 university although i assume they still take on some tax subsidies but i am always to some degree

00:41:51.000 tickled by uh and of course it depends on the discipline she does electrical engineering that's

00:41:59.140 a very you know that's a hard science to a degree it's uh or you look at math and you look at physics 0.90

00:42:06.240 or biology. These are hard sciences, but when you get into international relationships,

00:42:11.380 I mean, I don't even know if that's categorized as a soft science. That might be more of a liberal

00:42:17.140 art. But what was the title of your PhD? Of my PhD? The title, excuse me, my mistake.

00:42:27.360 Research. The title of your dissertation. I'm not going to say, because I don't want it to be

00:42:31.380 searched i don't want it i don't want the record to live here okay i mean that's fine for privacy

00:42:36.520 reasons you do know the title of it though i do you haven't like forgotten it okay all right well

00:42:42.800 um okay

00:42:44.700 anybody want to weigh in on the college thing i don't think scam is trade school all the way

00:42:54.940 That's why I never went.

00:42:55.740 That's why I went to tech school.

00:42:58.500 College rules.

00:42:58.700 I think that's awesome.

00:42:59.800 I genuinely think any sort of post-secondary education is good.

00:43:05.820 Well, you're in college, right?

00:43:07.160 College rocks.

00:43:08.320 You said you're about to graduate?

00:43:10.700 Yeah, on May 16th.

00:43:13.080 Okay, very soon.

00:43:14.040 So you're fresh in classes.

00:43:15.700 Yeah, I've been taking them.

00:43:16.720 How many classes do you take right now?

00:43:18.220 Four.

00:43:18.540 Online or in person?

00:43:19.720 They're all online because I do work at the Bronx Hall.

00:43:21.020 What are the four classes you take?

00:43:22.180 I am taking my interdisciplinary capstone class where I'm writing my

00:43:27.240 okay just what are the titles yes um oh oh oh uh ethnicity and identity

00:43:34.980 class it's like an upper level that's the name of it it's no there's a long

00:43:39.840 it's a it's an anthropology okay anthro it's identity and what uh ethnicities and identities

00:43:47.300 so it's okay what's the other two okay okay these are just like this class i saved for last because

00:43:53.420 they're like a little easier the anthropology of cats and dogs and human dynamics and their

00:44:00.640 relationships to cats and dogs and other uh animals and um oh my god oh my god oh my god

00:44:07.300 this is putting me on the spot i'm a little anxious um but i do have two other classes

00:44:12.420 oh my god you have two other classes yeah well four in total sociology of aging

00:44:16.980 so sociology of aging okay what's the other and then um oh my gosh sociology of wait the

00:44:24.980 sociology of aging yeah sociology of aging right okay what's the other one wait wait what's the

00:44:29.940 other one what's the other one i'm trying to do it for my um oh my god you'll have to get back to

00:44:37.220 my brain's going blank you have four classes and you don't remember the title of your classes

00:44:44.020 you're catching me wait can i just ask something about that okay so all the classes that you just 0.95

00:44:50.060 named like obviously i know nothing about that because i don't know what the fuck that was but 0.57

00:44:53.640 i'm just confused like okay so all those classes that you're taking um like what is that gonna be 0.72

00:44:59.880 like what is that for like what are you aiming to be like studying those things like i guess i'm

00:45:04.180 just confused like because you're taking those classes like what's your ultimate goal because

00:45:08.180 like obviously like she's training to be that so i know what she's about to be but then like you

00:45:12.060 train you're studying that i just i'm kind of confused are you going to school to be a sex

00:45:16.880 worker i'm not yeah well i'm writing my senior capstone on the importance of sex workers telling

00:45:21.780 our own stories i am an anthropologist um and what's an anthropologist someone who observes

00:45:29.200 cultures am i an anthropologist yes you are

00:45:32.480 okay uh so so then that's what you're studying to be then an anthropologist and a sex worker

00:45:41.400 well yeah like ultimately that's your goal are awesome yeah oh no no girl i'm not putting them

00:45:47.260 down at all like good for you like i'm actually so proud of you coming on here and telling the

00:45:51.300 world that you do that like good for you but no i was just kind of confused because like you're

00:45:54.700 studying like dogs and cats and stuff like that and so i'm just like why waste all this time doing

00:45:58.580 all that when if it's not gonna get anywhere do you know what I mean not a waste of time I think

00:46:03.420 a big reason I was even able to come on this podcast and like answer all the essay questions

00:46:07.900 was because college gave me the ability to problem solve and realize that I'm quite a good writer

00:46:13.900 um so thank you very much college so wait what was the last class

00:46:19.560 okay there's anthro identity uh ethnicities cats dogs and then sociology of aging what's the last

00:46:31.200 one uh sociology of sexuality sociology of sexuality okay uh from your sociology when

00:46:38.320 was the last time you had your soc of aging class when was the last time like yeah it's it's not like

00:46:45.440 a class where i zoom in there's not like a it's a lecture or something no there's lots of papers

00:46:50.840 and discussions due every week okay one um have you recently written a essay or anything i've

00:46:59.160 written many essays for all of the classes for all the classes yes let tell me one thing

00:47:06.540 from your sociology of aging class that you could uh communicate to us all right i'm glad you asked

00:47:14.160 so in one reading we read um in the past few weeks um it was about oh my god i feel like i'm

00:47:23.360 gonna bore you guys are you got give me the 10 seconds okay okay well you'll love this because

00:47:28.440 it's about france all right i'm gonna love this okay um so a group of researchers in france

00:47:36.200 found this boy who was just living in the woods by himself this was in the 1800s

00:47:42.840 and they he had been like abandoned by his family and he um just was rather feral and he

00:47:51.860 was like uh he couldn't um hear people calling for him because his ears were accustomed to

00:47:59.960 hearing sounds that mattered to him like he could hear a walnut crack like like 100 feet away but

00:48:05.500 he couldn't hear people like yelling at him. So the point of that is to say that our brains

00:48:11.920 adapt to what we, it's like our brains are environmentally adaptable. And that's also why

00:48:24.460 we are not in gestation as long as other animals, meaning like we're born and we don't know how to

00:48:34.620 walk already that's because our brains as humans need time to develop to our uh our environment

00:48:41.140 rather than like a horse that gets born and walks immediately if that makes sense i can expand on

00:48:45.900 that i don't want to like bore you guys though i could like talk about that for like 30 minutes i

00:48:50.140 mean i'm familiar i'm familiar with the case and there's actually probably a few examples of these

00:48:55.220 sort of feral i think they're referred to as like feral uh children where they're like essentially

00:49:02.380 almost abandoned basically and sometimes even like animals will take care of them in some

00:49:07.640 odd sort of way but um i as like a as a sociological concept or principle

00:49:16.040 yeah you providing an example of something that relates to sociology i guess i'm more so looking

00:49:22.080 like from a principle perspective oh a principle is that art so we adapt to our environment okay

00:49:29.260 I dropped out of college.

00:49:30.360 I could tell you that.

00:49:31.560 Well, good for you.

00:49:32.740 I couldn't.

00:49:34.480 Okay.

00:49:34.920 Maybe.

00:49:35.800 I mean, that story was basically just about, like, what, selective hearing?

00:49:38.380 Because, like, my kids do that.

00:49:40.420 Right?

00:49:41.200 My kids do that. 0.99

00:49:42.040 I'll be like, take the trash out.

00:49:43.080 I'll be like, I didn't hear you.

00:49:43.740 I'll be like, hey, there's food.

00:49:44.820 You know what I mean?

00:49:45.240 And then they'll hear that.

00:49:46.940 Is that what you meant, though?

00:49:48.340 Oh, no, no.

00:49:48.720 I was just saying, is that what you meant about that kid, like, adapting to his environment?

00:49:52.340 He just basically has selective hearing.

00:49:54.360 Okay.

00:49:54.640 Well, yeah.

00:49:56.280 Okay.

00:49:56.640 so sociology of aging um the feral boy or whatever uh anthropology of identity and ethnicities

00:50:05.520 what's just like one quick takeaway from that that you could relate to us um well i just wrote a

00:50:11.100 paper on my own identities and how they've shifted over the last like 10 years definitely super

00:50:17.540 personal don't want to get into it but it was really powerful i got an a plus well so good job

00:50:23.980 I'm looking for, like, I don't know, if you were taking a physics class, you might, for example, be able to, I mean, this is very elementary, but you might be able to relate to me some, like, a principle of Newton, for example.

00:50:40.740 Totally, yeah.

00:50:41.060 So, but when you say, I wrote a paper about my identity, and I got an A on it, I'm looking for a principle of the anthropology of identity and ethnicities, a principle that you can relate to me.

00:50:52.240 So, maybe it would be helpful to understand that I chose this major because creative writing was not an option for online students.

00:51:02.540 I don't need the reason why you chose the thing.

00:51:04.840 I'm just looking for a principle of the anthropology of identity and ethnicities.

00:51:09.820 No, but partially why anthropology is, why I'm doing it is to be a better writer.

00:51:17.420 So, I don't need the reasons for why you're taking the class.

00:51:21.560 I'm simply you've been taking the class you've been studying it you've been going to college

00:51:26.240 you're about to graduate in two weeks with a bachelor's degree from a university I would hope

00:51:32.240 the university is doing its due diligence in properly educating you so as to confer you with

00:51:38.620 a diploma that would indicate to a employer that you have a degree of understanding over the subject

00:51:43.800 in which you are studying thus I'm asking once again what is the principle or concept that you

00:51:50.580 learned about from the class anthropology of identity and ethnicities that we I mean from

00:52:02.360 that particular class just one thing our our identities are a combination of how we were raised

00:52:14.660 and the

00:52:17.080 you're stressing me out

00:52:19.620 a combination of how we were raised

00:52:21.880 so nature and nurture

00:52:24.380 congratulations

00:52:25.320 I'm very far from getting a bachelor's degree

00:52:28.380 in what do you say

00:52:29.580 interdisciplinary studies

00:52:31.800 I've never taken an anthropology class

00:52:33.500 I think I once took a sociology class

00:52:35.980 and then I decided to drop out 1.00

00:52:37.780 because it was total fucking bullshit 1.00

00:52:39.220 I can tell you 1.00

00:52:41.440 I'm pretty sure when I was like

00:52:43.400 10 years old

00:52:44.520 I Heard the Concept, Nurture and Nature, and how that, so you're saying it shapes the identity,

00:52:51.520 nurture and nature. That's, I, I really enjoy creative writing, that is why I'm doing it,

00:52:57.940 and. What does creative writing have to do with identity and ethnicities? Because I write about

00:53:03.300 my identity as a sex worker. But I mean, if the title of the class includes identity and ethnicities,

00:53:10.020 perhaps you well i wrote about my background in being white you wrote about your background

00:53:19.240 congratulations white supremacists do that all the time congratulations no no oh my god i'm still 0.99

00:53:28.020 confused why you're getting a college degree if you want to be a sex worker oh okay well i mean 0.96

00:53:36.600 to defend her i don't think that they're uh i assume you want to do some sort of career beyond 0.80

00:53:44.680 yes sex work or maybe open your own brothel no oh no i think the point is that she's

00:53:50.840 she has a way of expressing herself without feeling thank you um all right uh she has a 0.95

00:54:00.440 wait sorry repeat that she has a way of i think like i think the point of her going to college

00:54:03.680 as a way to express herself in a more creative

00:54:05.800 way, and that's why she was saying that she wanted to take creative

00:54:07.780 writing. Now, I'm not

00:54:09.420 defending it, but I'm just saying I think

00:54:11.700 that's her reasoning, and because

00:54:13.860 she keeps getting into too much detail, we're

00:54:15.660 missing that part. She wants to

00:54:17.180 go to college to what 1.00

00:54:19.860 again? To find a way

00:54:21.720 to express herself in the proper way.

00:54:24.520 Yeah, she wants to write about

00:54:25.800 it so that she can be honest and open to people,

00:54:28.080 but she wants to do it in the way that

00:54:29.700 I guess they're teaching her how to do it.

00:54:31.500 do you go to public school or private school the university of nevada las vegas is a public

00:54:37.240 university taxpayer funded i mean i'm assuming i got do you have scholarships or are you paying

00:54:43.240 for it both okay um so look you said that she's going to school to learn how to express herself 0.98

00:54:51.900 right like in a writing fuck the taxpayer should not be paying for that that taxpayers i don't 0.99

00:54:58.020 think are paying for it's you go to a public school it's taxpayer subsidized adult learner 0.99

00:55:02.580 scholarship no i understand you might have some scholarships well i mean that would be

00:55:06.420 depending on the source of the scholarship it would to be it would be to a degree uh taxpayer

00:55:12.260 subsidized taxpayers should not be subsidizing i want to learn how to express myself

00:55:17.400 okay agree to disagree that's not the purpose okay college college ought to be now look uh i

00:55:27.580 I think college perhaps has gone through transformation in the past 10, 20, 30, 40 years where instead of it being an institution for like genuine academic achievement in education, it and not all disciplines.

00:55:41.620 Some of the disciplines, the hard sciences, those are still valid.

00:55:45.460 However, the liberal arts, the soft sciences, these are very much adult daycare centers.

00:55:53.400 They're diploma mills.

00:55:55.220 They're like, OK, here's a diploma.

00:55:57.580 It's why you find so many people are unhirable after they get a diploma from a four-year university, after they've taken on a substantial amount of college debt.

00:56:09.660 They've cost the taxpayer a pretty penny. 0.99

00:56:11.760 They have bloated administrations where there's all these, okay, they're putting on concerts at fucking university. 0.99

00:56:18.600 they're they're doing all these there's like different centers and all this bullshit in 0.99

00:56:23.880 universities massively bloated just a waste of taxpayer money and I think we see the fruits of

00:56:31.180 that I agree that there are excess costs at universities but I don't know how it could be

00:56:37.600 an adult daycare when I am a fully online student and I'm working from the brothel

00:56:41.760 well I mean obviously there's in-person classes so yeah there's online class offerings

00:56:47.640 but there are in-person classes and I would say even if even if you reject the categorization of

00:56:56.800 it as being adult daycare I would perhaps frame it better like this university is for is so that

00:57:03.740 you can have somebody else read to you that's university how are they reading to me that's

00:57:09.600 literally university I'm doing especially now with like you have AI and all this these sorts

00:57:16.260 of things but for the past 20 years you've had all the knowledge possible at your fingertips

00:57:20.180 on the computer via the internet now there might be some applications again if you're taking certain

00:57:26.300 classes where there's like actually lab work and you're dealing with like i don't know if you're

00:57:31.420 in chemistry and you have to do actual lab work that's different right but like soft sciences

00:57:37.240 liberal arts it's it's all on the internet well also yeah okay uh also i'm i find now that with

00:57:46.040 ai uh i have someone in my family who who teaches every single student is using ai to write the

00:57:55.940 papers so there's a lack of from the students themselves look obviously the students want the

00:58:01.360 good grade they want to just breeze through it they want the diploma they want the grade whatever

00:58:06.440 But I think there ought to be, if you are going to spend this time and money on university, especially if it's taxpayer subsidized, I think there should be a genuine educational and academic internal motivation and like a curiosity within the student to want to actually learn the material at a deeper level than just, I'm just trying to get the grade.

00:58:30.920 I'm just going to put this through AI, but I do have someone very close to me who's a professor

00:58:35.980 at a major university on the East Coast, and yeah, they told me every single one of my students

00:58:41.940 uses AI for the assignments, so it's just like we may, of course, might have to reassess the value

00:58:50.020 of education if everything's just being done by AI. Brian, can I comment? Sure. Okay, so I also work

00:58:56.480 as a course assistant for a university class.

00:58:59.840 And I will say that university is more than just reciting facts.

00:59:03.740 It's also a process of understanding how to do research.

00:59:07.580 It's a process of how to make an argument.

00:59:10.880 And I have edited essays from students freshman year

00:59:14.420 and senior year, and the writing is so different

00:59:17.680 because students do learn these soft skills

00:59:20.620 that maybe you undervalue.

00:59:22.080 But if it were just picking out facts,

00:59:24.820 then I don't think that's a strong understanding of what university is.

00:59:28.420 I agree that university has a lot of problems and inefficiencies.

00:59:35.300 However, I think it has a lot of value as well.

00:59:37.700 And I don't think it's for everyone, and I don't think it's necessary for everyone,

00:59:41.540 but I do think it has value for those who want to pursue it.

00:59:44.760 Yeah, I mean, I think that's a misrepresentation of my position.

00:59:47.540 I never said that university is just about rote fact memorization.

00:59:53.280 Then why did you ask that question?

00:59:54.820 which question can you say one thing about whatever well i don't think it would be pure

01:00:00.020 well hold on i think it's actually i'm i'm looking for something actually beyond memorization

01:00:06.420 when i ask that question so i think uh you know you might you might be able to just like you know

01:00:14.580 memorize a fact which i think she was alluding to by you know this case of the child who was

01:00:21.560 abandoned or something and taken care of by animals. But I'm looking for like a deeper level

01:00:27.140 understanding, a conceptual understanding, which transcends fact memorization. So when I ask,

01:00:35.500 if I'm asking, convey to me conceptually, what is the depth of what you've learned?

01:00:43.820 That's not a fact finding. I'm not searching for fact. I'm searching for your, your depth,

01:00:51.600 your level of depth and understanding of the subject matter in question. So, I mean, I don't

01:00:58.320 understand. So is university just for like bumping up and developing some base, like sort of a base

01:01:06.280 level of uh of what exactly yeah so i think university is many things as you know in our

01:01:14.460 society we do put a value on the degree itself so that is of course one inescapable element of it

01:01:20.360 it also it is also going deeper and also broader into your area of interest which is another

01:01:28.320 component it's also a process of understanding how to communicate better and research better

01:01:34.220 and understand if you see a fact

01:01:36.100 written down to interrogate it

01:01:38.220 to the level where it's like, how can I believe

01:01:40.300 what I'm reading is true?

01:01:41.920 Trying to understand arguments, research

01:01:44.120 methods, etc.

01:01:46.300 I feel like I learned that without college.

01:01:48.020 You can learn that without college.

01:01:49.740 No, I'm just saying I did.

01:01:51.440 I think you absolutely can.

01:01:53.800 That's baseline. Wait, wait, what you're

01:01:56.120 explaining is baseline. Like, for example,

01:01:58.840 I know it's a dating podcast, but

01:02:00.200 like, for example, I think

01:02:01.740 loyalty in a relationship is

01:02:04.140 baseline and then there can be like additional things beyond that so when you're saying well

01:02:09.120 you should be able to think critically and examine statements and be able to decipher

01:02:14.120 whether the truth of a statement to me that seems like it would be a baseline a very baseline thing

01:02:20.760 but when there's specific disciplines like international relations or anthropology or

01:02:27.140 sociology you shouldn't just tell me well I took anthropology and sociology and international

01:02:32.900 relations so i can i can think critically i mean i that should be a correspondent i guess a

01:02:40.180 concurrent part of it but there should you should be able to conceptually tell me about the specific

01:02:47.080 discipline anthropology sociology international relationships not just the fact and it may very

01:02:53.880 well be the case that through university you have cultivated the ability to think critically that

01:02:59.240 might be the case but i'm asking conceptually the subject matter in question what did you learn

01:03:06.860 okay well i'm not going to linger on this too long but i will tell you this if i was dictator

01:03:15.020 i'm getting rid of 80 percent of uh educational disciplines uh math the stem fields can stay

01:03:24.440 STEM fields can stay

01:03:26.320 dance

01:03:27.420 dance has to go

01:03:30.500 she's not studying

01:03:32.340 I know she's not studying dance

01:03:34.120 but I'm saying there's stuff in the universe

01:03:36.020 look if you want to pursue dance

01:03:37.980 in a private capacity

01:03:39.940 I think that's fine

01:03:40.780 I don't think taxpayers should be teaching students

01:03:44.040 and there shouldn't be facilities

01:03:45.420 that are taxpayer funded

01:03:47.480 taxpayers should not be funding

01:03:49.900 dance they shouldn't be funding

01:03:52.220 perhaps certain other

01:03:53.740 I don't know what are some of the other bogus

01:03:56.120 things that you can do in college

01:03:58.460 I don't know no offense

01:04:02.040 art

01:04:02.620 nah get rid of that 1.00

01:04:06.220 shit art can go 1.00

01:04:07.940 I'm not no no tag look 0.98

01:04:10.100 if you want to study privately we're not going to

01:04:12.260 if I'm dictator I'm not going to make it

01:04:14.200 illegal but not even

01:04:16.120 a taxpayer penny will ever

01:04:18.300 go to dance or art

01:04:20.180 or I don't 1.00

01:04:22.220 know some other bullshit sociology kind of bullshit anthropology kind of bullshit yeah gone you can 0.99

01:04:27.700 study privately if a private university wants to offer it fine taxpayer nope you can go into stem 0.99

01:04:34.960 that's pretty much it can i add something on that like baseline sure um i've dated guys that went to

01:04:43.800 college university or whatnot and others who have not and i feel like there's more guys that have

01:04:51.840 that baseline when they went to college or university versus when they did not from experience

01:04:57.260 yeah i do recall in your notes you said that it gives you the ick yeah if a guy doesn't have

01:05:04.040 a college education not always but i yeah okay just because of that baseline that is lacking

01:05:13.420 yeah yeah well i mean i think uh there may be there may be a distinction here between like

01:05:21.640 correlation and causality, but my philosophy on this is that you should never let

01:05:31.980 you should never let academia get in the way of your education, and so this idea that

01:05:38.780 you wouldn't date a guy because he didn't get a university degree.

01:05:45.220 It's more so if you just stopped after high school kind of thing.

01:05:49.220 I'm like sure yeah yeah stops after high school yeah well your dad what's his level of education

01:05:54.900 as a hockey player he went to high school and then he did some college in communication

01:06:01.380 some college in communication yeah uh okay would you be upset is your dad's dating or is he single

01:06:10.420 he passed away oh yeah sorry to hear that well didn't know yeah no worries uh okay but uh he

01:06:17.100 He probably, and I think he'd admit it too, to some degree, sometimes will act on that baseline.

01:06:24.060 Yeah, but he's in Canada and a hockey player, so probably didn't stop him.

01:06:28.780 I'm sure he got a lot of...

01:06:29.720 We'll continue on, but okay.

01:06:35.760 Intro, if you can introduce yourself.

01:06:37.800 Sure. I'm also Taylor. I'm 25. I'm from New Jersey.

01:06:41.800 um i graduated from ruckers criminal justice and history and i'm a bartender when did you graduate

01:06:49.220 2023 okay you know what i'm gonna ask yeah uh one one thing that you learned

01:06:54.360 um and what subject well you said criminal justice in history yeah let's do criminal

01:07:01.100 justice one concept um concept i did most of my studies in um like uh juvenile gangs

01:07:08.780 so i would say one concept is that uh the law is i shouldn't say the law but i guess um

01:07:16.840 specific environments are really not in favor of

01:07:21.060 how people are raised if that makes sense so if you like low socioeconomic

01:07:30.060 you're a product of your environment basically and the every everything is not there to help you

01:07:36.420 so product of your environment yeah so is this like a justification for criminality absolutely

01:07:43.160 not i was not there to condone i was there to understand okay yeah but is there like

01:07:49.480 a greater understanding or more leeway given to those who commit crimes no come from a lower

01:07:57.260 socioeconomic no i wouldn't say um a pass i would say that there's more understanding of course but

01:08:04.600 I still don't think it's right but I understand that it happens because I'm not you know an 0.63

01:08:10.540 imbecile to what happens around us even if that's not what you currently are going through

01:08:15.480 you know and it's not fair to me to judge someone if I don't understand or know what 0.99

01:08:21.980 that environment is like because that's not how I live that's not how I grew up

01:08:26.320 wait it's not fair to judge someone if you don't understand

01:08:32.060 where they're coming from yeah i can you know i think if somebody commits a crime especially 0.97

01:08:39.620 one that is the more objectionable it is frankly i don't give a fuck what their background is 0.96

01:08:44.740 uh if they've committed a crime that is abhorrent 0.93

01:08:47.780 they did so willfully i don't care what their background is truth be told

01:08:55.200 humans have agency humans have uh control of themselves sure so i mean if you've murdered 0.93

01:09:02.520 somebody in for and you grew up in poverty i honestly don't give a fuck sure like you've

01:09:11.220 committed a terrible crime that's why i said it was more about um juveniles in gangs it's something 0.83

01:09:16.980 that like you know if you i'm like i said i'm 25 you know there's people as young as 10 11 12 13

01:09:24.740 that are joining gangs what I don't I've never been in gang I've never grew up around gangs so

01:09:30.240 to me my interest is what would make someone as young as 10 join a gang what would be the reasoning

01:09:36.540 of that like I said while I don't condone it I think my main reasoning was because I'm you know

01:09:42.880 one to go into the police force so it gives you a sense of why and how I don't want to be a cop to

01:09:50.540 judge people I want to be a cop to help people but how can I help someone if I don't understand

01:09:54.340 where they're coming from well of course i think our mission should be to help people but uh and i

01:10:01.540 think like there's nothing wrong with as a course of study trying to gain an understanding of why

01:10:09.060 it is people get involved in gangs or why they commit crimes or whatever it may be but i don't

01:10:15.300 think from a moral perspective we owe people who do commit crimes some greater form of understanding

01:10:22.580 because of their background.

01:10:26.340 I think, look, that's not to say that,

01:10:28.540 hey, there are people who have difficult upbringings.

01:10:31.540 There are people who live in poverty.

01:10:33.680 There are people who are surrounded with bad influences,

01:10:38.940 and that's worth addressing.

01:10:40.500 But I don't know if I would frame it like,

01:10:44.120 okay, I wouldn't judge somebody who's committed crime

01:10:47.340 because I'm not familiar with their specific circumstances.

01:10:51.060 i would just say uh i don't know i don't think being in a gang is necessarily considered a crime

01:10:59.100 though there's people in gangs that don't commit crimes um sometimes that's just how it is well

01:11:07.060 yeah i i suppose you could be i don't actually know legally if there might actually be a some

01:11:14.880 sort of if you're a gang affiliated even that could get you in trouble but not if you don't

01:11:19.880 have any priors you could be in a gang but you they're not going to arrest you for just being

01:11:23.700 in a gang but i'm not sure if that's really my central argument here i would say though typically

01:11:28.520 like uh the purpose of a gang is not to work in soup kitchens and do charity service uh being in

01:11:35.680 the gang usually involves criminal activity i mean not necessarily i can give you an example

01:11:42.160 that makes you feel better yeah right ms 13 is okay well you're gonna go about to the extreme

01:11:47.220 tell me so other reasons gangs gangs are known for their charitable work and not their criminal

01:11:55.400 activity oh i never said charitable work no that's not what i said hold on that's the association

01:12:00.500 if you're in a gang you're committing crimes not but not everybody some are just a brotherhood

01:12:06.040 some are just a family some are just for protection from other people you know what i mean it's not

01:12:11.820 always like hey guys now that we're a gang we're gonna go shoot people like that's not right i

01:12:16.020 know what you're you just brought up ms 13 like yeah duh you know i mean but but they're not always

01:12:20.900 a crazy thing and also i mean i don't know do you know anybody from a gang yeah and then those

01:12:26.160 people what commit crimes oh i i know uh i don't like personally like on a personal level not know

01:12:32.700 of so okay hold on okay currently i'm not friends with anyone who is actively in a gang however i

01:12:39.580 knew somebody who did 10 years in prison uh i've actually had them on the show a long long time

01:12:44.260 ago uh and uh yes he he was in a gang he did 10 years in prison he's out of that life now

01:12:51.720 but uh this idea that i don't understand this like are are they um they're they're boy scouts

01:13:00.520 the the gang members i never said that look i mean people join gangs for various reasons maybe

01:13:06.360 it is the case that uh they joined well i think i think look i'm gonna go ahead and grant that

01:13:12.380 people join sometimes people are looking for belonging and maybe they don't have uh strong

01:13:19.940 male figures they don't have strong masculine figures they don't have a father figure maybe

01:13:24.200 you know they've been bullied or they're whatever it is and maybe it's just the it's they're living

01:13:29.520 in a geographical region maybe their neighborhood is just uh predominantly filled with gang members

01:13:35.500 and that's who they're around and who they're exposed to i'm going to go ahead and grant all

01:13:39.340 those things however you're not going to be able to make a very convincing argument that uh when

01:13:44.660 we're referring to gangs that this is typically this is typically not a criminal organization

01:13:52.400 right i'm also pretty sure that in order to get initiated into a gang you have to do something

01:13:57.200 illegal not always no not always yeah when you get jumped into a gang you have to help the elderly

01:14:03.980 lady cross the street that's what gangs are known for is is you know just doing acts of charity

01:14:09.240 and this is this is you're just saying like completely random things like obviously that's

01:14:14.240 not true whether it involves like stealing like robbing people no i mean i just got jumped in

01:14:18.940 are this shooting i didn't shoot anybody i just got jumped in not all gangs are the same okay

01:14:23.700 this wasn't a debate about me defending gangs at all it was just saying that i don't even know how

01:14:29.760 it came up but because i said that i i went to college for criminal justice in history he asked

01:14:34.180 me to explain I said that I focused a lot on juveniles in gangs um and it's sad it's a sad

01:14:41.580 it is sad and I don't condone it but um I do and there was I mean I was in university for five

01:14:47.900 years obviously I didn't study juvenile gangs for five years but that is a class that was repeat for

01:14:52.880 me because I was constantly piqued in the interest of gangs um however you know there were more

01:14:59.240 aspects to criminal justice that I learned but I think that my main interest was that while I was

01:15:03.920 university there's a lot that people don't know and don't understand and when you when you start

01:15:10.300 to understand yeah it's just one one thing that's like it's just i get it i don't know this isn't

01:15:17.260 like i don't know what's that movie i've actually never seen it west side story where they're 0.61

01:15:21.040 fucking dancing and shit like that's not that's not what a gang is like look i understand if you 0.98

01:15:27.380 want to do this uh thing where we're gonna be like well some members are like affiliates or 0.99

01:15:33.380 associates of the gang, but they haven't actually participated in any criminal behavior. I'm

01:15:38.320 actually going to agree with you. Of course, there's probably associates or affiliates of gangs

01:15:42.600 who haven't actively participated in any criminal activity. However, I would argue like the

01:15:50.260 leadership or the central membership of the gang or purpose of the gang has some degree of

01:15:56.140 criminality. There's a criminality component to it. I mean, that is a gang.

01:16:02.520 i agree with you i agree that's a gang anyways let me move it on um okay what about you a uh

01:16:07.860 introduction please hello i'm brooke i'm 41 i'm from the inland empire and i'm a server and i have

01:16:14.840 two kids all right any college education no okay all right great uh we're gonna get everybody's

01:16:23.460 relationship status uh the dude thank you for the gifted subs appreciate it man so going around the

01:16:28.880 table uh tell us your relationship status uh if you're single how long you've been single and if

01:16:34.160 you're in a relationship how long you've been in the or well yeah how long you've been in the

01:16:38.480 relationship i'm single okay i love being single um do you i really do honestly it's the best way

01:16:46.700 for me i have two yeah you love being single i love it i love it because i'm able to focus

01:16:53.440 completely on what i want to do without an insecure man in my ear 24 7 like what are you

01:16:58.080 doing? We're transferring the phone. I don't want you to talk to that guy. Oh, but this is for my

01:17:01.520 career. And men are typically insecure. They are. Typically insecure? Yeah. Are women typically

01:17:07.440 insecure? Yeah. Most likely not me though, but yeah, a lot of females are. No, not at all. I 1.00

01:17:12.080 don't feel like I need to be. I feel like if I obsess over you cheating, it's probably going to

01:17:15.220 happen. So why am I going to do all that? I just don't do that. So yes, I'm single. I've been single

01:17:19.260 for since February or no, March of 2023. So about two years or wait, no, three years. Is that like

01:17:27.280 three now. What's your longest relationship? I would say five years. Five years. And you said

01:17:34.460 you had two kids, same father? No, different. Two different dads. Okay. Because they're very

01:17:39.960 far apart in age. How old are your kids? 17 and 11. 17 and 11. The five-year one, is that one of

01:17:47.200 the fathers? No. Okay. It was after my son. Okay. Your first or your oldest child, how long was the

01:17:56.720 relationship with the man there uh three years about and then yeah and we got married actually

01:18:04.120 oh married okay your youngest child forced to be married though forced my parents yeah they're

01:18:08.700 very japanese so they were like if you're having this baby you're getting married and i was like 0.84

01:18:12.140 damn so both your parents are japanese yeah do you speak japanese i do are your parents uh from

01:18:17.840 japan or were they like from the united states or born in um my real mother she passed away when i 0.95

01:18:23.740 was younger, but she was born, I think in like Monterey park. And then my dad was born in like

01:18:28.080 Chicago. Um, my step-mom right now though, she's actually the one who taught me how to speak

01:18:31.920 Japanese because she didn't speak any English. Gotcha. Okay. Um, and the length, sorry, I might 0.58

01:18:36.320 have missed this. The length of the relationship with the second father was pretty short, maybe

01:18:42.400 like a year and a half, two years. Yeah. Okay. And then how soon into the relationship did you get

01:18:46.540 pregnant? Very soon. How soon? On both. Yeah. Yeah. Like, uh, like less than, less than six

01:18:53.460 months, I would say. Okay. Yeah. I was young and just wilding. You know what I mean? Like,

01:18:59.040 and I don't, I don't know. Wait, hold on. You said your kid is how old again? 17. 17. So how

01:19:05.320 old were you when you got pregnant? Okay. Well now we're going to go into the age, right? I mean,

01:19:08.480 honestly, I don't care. I'm 35, right? So yeah. So I'm 35. I was 17 when I got pregnant. Okay.

01:19:14.660 17 when you're pregnant and but i had her at 18 had her at 18 okay and she's wait sorry 17 or 19 0.92

01:19:21.800 17 17 yeah okay not 18 have you told her like don't get pregnant well you know she's actually 0.82

01:19:28.060 gay so she's yeah wait bye or no she she's like a boy she's a full-on boy now yeah not trans or 0.69

01:19:34.720 okay see that's where like i get all mixed up because you know before back in the day would 0.99

01:19:39.380 be like oh she's a dyke which is like a girl who dresses like a man right in i don't know i don't 0.96

01:19:44.420 know the politically correct terms now she tries to teach me and i'm trying to be as politically 0.98

01:19:48.500 correct as i can but um i guess she's considered a mask uh or something what's her pronouns he

01:19:54.840 now oh he now yeah she just non wait is she so is she trans or non-binary i don't know you don't

01:20:02.000 know your own daughter i don't know the terminology what i do know is she would like to be addressed

01:20:07.840 as a male now does she have a different name like did she change her name yes to a male name 0.86

01:20:12.920 mm-hmm okay so what is that considered what uh well i'm not sure because you said she's mask 1.00

01:20:18.620 so you could be like i guess feminine mask or whatever but she's lesbian but she goes wait so 0.97

01:20:25.040 hold on but she goes by he now so originally she had went by still her birth name right and we would

01:20:32.180 call her her and everything and now she goes by oh no like mom i want to be addressed as a different

01:20:38.720 name and I was like oh okay cool when did she transition um so that's what you call that

01:20:43.140 transition see before a transition to me was getting like your body parts change but now

01:20:48.520 teenagers are saying like oh I transitioned oh how just by saying that and I'm like oh okay

01:20:53.980 so well did she change her appearance at all or yeah yeah so when she first came back to me from

01:20:59.560 living at her dad's she was like I want to chop my hair off I'm like okay go ahead she's like yeah 0.51

01:21:03.760 I'm gay I'm like fire that's cool do what you want to do I will fully support you so we cut

01:21:08.160 her hair off she still was going by her birth name though you know she was saying i'm gay i like

01:21:12.380 girls you know this and that i'm like okay cool but now that she's a boy they're saying that it's

01:21:16.540 technically not gay because she's a boy who likes girls now does that make sense i mean

01:21:23.500 in a very peculiar sort of way yes yeah i don't get too much into it i love her

01:21:29.980 so you have split custody no i have full custody of both my kids oh okay because you said she was

01:21:35.780 That her dad said. 0.86

01:21:36.880 Before, yeah.

01:21:37.600 And then some stuff happened, yeah.

01:21:39.740 Okay.

01:21:41.700 What does the dad think of the transition?

01:21:43.720 Is he on board with it?

01:21:45.120 No.

01:21:45.740 He doesn't like it?

01:21:46.660 So she doesn't go to see him anymore?

01:21:49.120 They're cool.

01:21:49.920 They're cool?

01:21:50.540 Yeah, they're cool.

01:21:51.580 Okay.

01:21:52.280 And you said you were married once?

01:21:54.220 To him, yeah.

01:21:54.960 Have you been married other times?

01:21:56.820 I've been proposed to, but no.

01:21:58.240 How long were you married?

01:22:00.100 Very short.

01:22:01.320 Did he pay you alimony?

01:22:03.340 No.

01:22:03.780 No.

01:22:04.420 Does he pay you Chelsea?

01:22:05.240 I think we annulled it, I think.

01:22:07.120 Yeah, it was so long ago, though.

01:22:08.180 Does he pay you child support?

01:22:10.040 He never has up until recently where I asked.

01:22:14.020 It's not on paper, but I was like, hey, you want to shoot a couple hundred?

01:22:16.740 You know what I mean?

01:22:17.320 Sure.

01:22:17.760 Yeah.

01:22:18.060 I'm obviously doing financially better than both of them, but I just feel like it's just not fair.

01:22:23.720 You know what I mean?

01:22:24.180 Like, you should be contributing.

01:22:25.580 You know what I mean?

01:22:25.900 Okay, so it's not like through the court system.

01:22:27.720 No, I don't do all that.

01:22:29.020 It's just like, hey, can you help out with it?

01:22:29.960 Yeah, like, hey, here and there.

01:22:31.160 And it actually was very recent, like almost three months ago that I really started asking

01:22:34.320 both of them for anything.

01:22:35.520 Oh, okay.

01:22:36.040 So, and you said one is 17 and one is 11.

01:22:39.100 Yeah.

01:22:39.240 Okay.

01:22:40.120 Okay.

01:22:40.560 Got it.

01:22:41.180 Uh, and then you're, I'm your younger daughter.

01:22:44.080 I'm assuming she's like my son.

01:22:46.360 Oh, sorry.

01:22:46.820 Your son, excuse me. 1.00

01:22:47.900 He's not trans or anything.

01:22:50.320 No, he's, he's just a boy. 0.98

01:22:52.020 And the, so, okay.

01:22:53.900 Your daughter, well, I guess now your son.

01:22:57.140 Right.

01:22:58.200 To be correct.

01:22:59.260 Yeah.

01:22:59.560 Right.

01:22:59.800 Yeah.

01:22:59.920 To be.

01:23:01.160 is he, she taking puberty blockers or?

01:23:06.480 Oh, I'm not about to talk about my kids stuff.

01:23:08.640 He watches all this, so we're not about to get into all that.

01:23:11.120 You don't want to talk about that?

01:23:11.940 That's fine.

01:23:13.920 Okay.

01:23:14.460 But is there plans for changing the appearance and all that?

01:23:18.060 Definitely.

01:23:18.560 And I'm all for it.

01:23:19.360 But you're, are you saying like you want them to wait until they're 18?

01:23:23.220 I think, I think that honestly, I feel like a little bit older than 18.

01:23:25.960 You know what I mean?

01:23:26.440 Cause that's, you're still young at 18, you know?

01:23:28.200 but I mean, I was on board for like the hair, you know, I, she's tatted, like, you know,

01:23:34.020 whatever. I feel like he's tatted. Yeah. You're misgendering your own. Yeah. Okay. It's I'm so

01:23:39.200 used to it. You know, this was literally last week that she was like, Oh, by the way, I want

01:23:45.980 to go by that. And I'm like, fire. All right. Let me, it's going to take me some time. So short

01:23:50.140 hair been short hair though for like four years. Yeah. Oh wow. Okay. So, um, he looks

01:23:57.860 hella cool tatty does he i mean she does he say he yeah he yeah yeah does he like get mad at you

01:24:06.680 if you fuck up the pronouns or no no yeah i think he's very understanding because this is also new

01:24:12.200 to me you know so okay uh somebody looks like somebody bought some merch uh thank you based

01:24:19.840 thor appreciate it man guys shop.whatever.com if you want to get yourself your own merch appreciate

01:24:24.760 it guys all right uh okay that's super interesting uh so you've been single for three years though

01:24:28.960 yes uh can you crack a door open so are there currently any guys in the picture

01:24:34.880 um no yeah no yes i don't know when's the last time you hung out with a guy

01:24:42.340 oh i don't know who's watching this oh no i'm playing no so you you have a roster

01:24:50.320 I wouldn't say I have a roster, no.

01:24:51.940 I would say that I hang out with people and they know what it is.

01:24:55.300 They know that I am not interested in pursuing a relationship.

01:24:59.280 So whatever happens that night happens, we're just hanging out.

01:25:02.960 We're chilling.

01:25:03.520 And I make that very clear from the beginning.

01:25:05.580 Because when I love, I love very hard.

01:25:07.280 And I've lost myself once in a relationship.

01:25:09.280 And I think we can all kind of relate to that. 1.00

01:25:11.100 As a woman, you fall for that fairytale shit. 1.00

01:25:14.220 And it's just not real. 1.00

01:25:15.320 So this happened a long time ago in that five-year relationship that I spoke of earlier.

01:25:18.680 What's not real?

01:25:19.320 Oh, fairy tales.

01:25:20.700 Oh, yeah, sure.

01:25:21.380 Yeah, so that's what I'm saying.

01:25:23.000 So now.

01:25:24.000 Can I have you just push your cup a little bit? 0.91

01:25:25.980 Just like push it.

01:25:27.620 Yeah, perfect.

01:25:28.140 Thank you.

01:25:28.560 So now I'm more so of just like I'm very focused on what I need to do.

01:25:32.400 And I'm getting very far in what I'm doing.

01:25:35.500 You know, I came from being homeless with my daughter to now having so much things, right?

01:25:40.940 And just I built myself.

01:25:42.140 So I find it that when I'm single, it's just best for me.

01:25:46.120 For you?

01:25:47.160 For me, yeah.

01:25:47.860 Not everybody, obviously.

01:25:48.620 actually good for you yeah for me oh yeah good for you gotcha uh what about you uh i've been

01:25:53.540 keeping it on the dl but i'm in a relationship oh you're in a relationship why were you keeping

01:25:59.360 it on the dl um well because you're dating multiple guys or no no just um because of like

01:26:07.080 casting sometimes there's some casting yeah because i act and stuff so sometimes it's just

01:26:13.460 better oh that sounds really sketch well just because at the beginning we were kind of seeing

01:26:19.080 each other so there was no title but then since recently we're wait why would you hide your

01:26:24.500 relationship status for casting i don't know sometimes it's just like oh uh like we want

01:26:31.620 a single person for this ad even though there's nothing actually going on with other people but

01:26:40.300 they just want a like single person so you're like yeah single i i guess for like a dating show

01:26:48.880 maybe you might want them to be potentially but like actual acting gigs i don't think they would

01:26:55.200 like for a proper acting gig i don't see why your relationship status should matter i'm gonna defend 0.96

01:27:01.480 you as a woman yeah they're more prone to hiring you if you're single available already and all

01:27:08.340 that but if you're no trust me it is you can shake your head but you haven't obviously been

01:27:12.580 in that situation right well no I mean so I understand like if these must be really like

01:27:17.680 sketchy low quality production so I understand that there's a casting couch and these these 0.98

01:27:22.680 photographers or whatever like they want a casting couch they want a fucking Harvey Weinstein you or 0.98

01:27:28.480 whatever like I fucking get that but like for most professional productions whether you're single 0.99

01:27:35.460 you're married you're in a relationship I don't see how that that shouldn't matter 0.94

01:27:38.900 under like it shouldn't matter but I don't even know why they would like why would they ask you

01:27:46.120 like that's not that's not relevant to that okay I can give an example so one of them it was for a

01:27:53.780 certain drink that they were gonna do ads for and then in the ad they want me to say something of

01:28:00.900 the sort like uh if um so i'm single if i'm up for this brand then maybe you are kind of thing

01:28:10.360 so i have to like in the ad say i'm single so they prefer to say the say that i am so but but

01:28:17.460 if i am in the relationship i can't do the casting yeah you can't do the casting they don't want

01:28:23.100 someone who's in a relationship so wait they up front ask if you're in a relationship yeah they

01:28:27.940 They're only going to cast people that are in a relationship.

01:28:32.620 Acting is make-believe.

01:28:35.120 So this idea that in an advertising campaign,

01:28:38.160 an actor does not actually need to be single to say that...

01:28:47.920 No, what you're saying is right, but it's just not how it is.

01:28:50.700 This is the real world, though.

01:28:52.340 I've done a lot of commercial castings where it's like,

01:28:54.920 for example, if there's a dating app thing,

01:28:57.820 they want you to be single because they don't want

01:28:59.820 any chance of someone seeing you. Wait, I need you

01:29:01.720 speaking closer to my... Yeah, sorry, apologies.

01:29:03.680 So, for, like, dating app commercials,

01:29:05.660 for example, they will make you...

01:29:07.460 They will only cast people who are single because they don't want

01:29:09.740 anyone who's in a relationship promoting

01:29:11.700 it because that undermines the dating app. 0.87

01:29:13.960 How the fuck would it undermine the dating app? 0.96

01:29:16.000 What? That makes, like, no sense. 0.93

01:29:18.120 I mean, I'm gonna take

01:29:19.880 your word for it.

01:29:21.540 I'm gonna just say I believe you.

01:29:24.540 That's still...

01:29:25.500 Not what you... Not you guys, but 1.00

01:29:27.700 That's just retarded. 1.00

01:29:29.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:29:29.500 Like, if this is actually true, it's just retarded. 1.00

01:29:31.740 It's true. 0.99

01:29:32.600 But there was a moment in time, like,

01:29:34.400 we were seeing each other, and I felt like it could go

01:29:36.880 somewhere, but we weren't, like, in a relationship,

01:29:41.240 relationship, so I was still open for that kind of castings

01:29:45.660 for a bit, so I wasn't, like, openly saying that title.

01:29:48.720 But now, like, it's locked in, so I won't be taking those kinds.

01:29:53.360 How long have you been seeing him?

01:29:55.520 Since November.

01:29:57.500 Okay, so about six months.

01:30:00.200 What's the longest relationship you've ever been in?

01:30:02.600 Three years.

01:30:03.760 Three years.

01:30:04.340 Who broke up with who?

01:30:09.080 It's a little too touchy, but he died.

01:30:13.020 Oh, okay.

01:30:14.280 There you go.

01:30:14.640 Sorry for your loss.

01:30:15.640 Oh, my God.

01:30:17.280 Okay, and let's see.

01:30:20.260 So you've been seeing this guy for six months?

01:30:22.400 Yeah.

01:30:22.720 Like in a relationship, or you met him six months ago?

01:30:24.980 I met him six months ago.

01:30:25.920 Okay, during that period of time, were you dating other men before making it official?

01:30:29.740 I was open to it, but I wasn't dating any.

01:30:32.820 Okay, is he Canadian?

01:30:33.960 Yeah.

01:30:34.540 Okay.

01:30:35.260 Did he go to college?

01:30:37.760 Yeah, yeah.

01:30:39.100 Did he get a degree?

01:30:41.020 Did he graduate?

01:30:41.920 Yes.

01:30:42.540 Okay, all right.

01:30:45.500 Okay, ever married?

01:30:47.220 No.

01:30:47.580 Okay, what about you?

01:30:50.520 Single.

01:30:51.320 How long have you been single?

01:30:52.840 Since June of last year, so 11 months.

01:30:57.780 11 months, okay.

01:30:59.280 Longest relationship?

01:31:00.480 Three years.

01:31:01.600 Ever married?

01:31:02.540 Mm-hmm.

01:31:03.320 That was my husband.

01:31:05.820 Only once?

01:31:07.040 Just one marriage, yeah.

01:31:08.200 Okay.

01:31:09.200 Kids?

01:31:10.380 No.

01:31:11.140 No kids?

01:31:12.300 No kids.

01:31:15.400 Wait.

01:31:19.160 He passed away.

01:31:20.500 Oh.

01:31:21.460 I don't. 1.00

01:31:21.840 Shit. 1.00

01:31:22.260 I didn't write about it, so I don't know. 1.00

01:31:25.820 I think I saw something online.

01:31:27.380 Oh, it's in a documentary.

01:31:28.940 I saw something in the documentary.

01:31:30.560 Yeah, she passed away.

01:31:31.520 Okay, so was that referenced in the documentary?

01:31:34.300 It was, yeah.

01:31:34.780 Well, I'm very sorry to hear that.

01:31:35.820 I didn't know that.

01:31:40.960 Single for 11 months.

01:31:42.440 How long was the relationship that ended 11 months ago?

01:31:45.660 Three years.

01:31:46.720 Three years, okay.

01:31:48.220 Wait, is that the same one that you said your longest relationship, three years?

01:31:51.520 That was the same guy.

01:31:54.940 And you said you were married?

01:31:57.100 Not right now.

01:31:58.220 No, it used to be.

01:31:59.120 Yeah, sorry.

01:32:00.220 Is that the three-year?

01:32:01.120 Yeah.

01:32:02.140 I see.

01:32:02.840 Okay.

01:32:03.100 Who initiated the divorce?

01:32:06.220 Me, but we stayed together for six months after the divorce.

01:32:11.140 It's complicated.

01:32:14.540 Wait, you got divorced but kept dating?

01:32:17.260 Yes.

01:32:19.200 It's complicated.

01:32:21.520 It is complicated.

01:32:22.520 It's true love.

01:32:23.560 All right.

01:32:24.640 Okay.

01:32:26.340 All right.

01:32:26.900 What about you?

01:32:27.940 Single.

01:32:29.020 How long have you been single?

01:32:30.280 Since I was born.

01:32:31.780 Okay.

01:32:32.260 Your whole life.

01:32:33.160 That's right.

01:32:34.020 Okay.

01:32:34.260 So let's explore that.

01:32:35.720 We're going to explore that.

01:32:36.980 So you've been single your whole life.

01:32:40.860 What's the longest period of time?

01:32:43.000 So you've never had a boyfriend is what you're saying.

01:32:45.160 No.

01:32:45.520 Mike.

01:32:46.840 What's the longest period of time you have seen a guy?

01:32:51.520 not very long at all a week two weeks maybe a month it's like a number of times maybe

01:33:00.440 four or five and then four or five times yeah uh okay um so what but four or five times

01:33:09.160 over the you can see somebody four or five times in a week it could take a month it could take two

01:33:13.780 months yeah i'm not seeing anyone right now and that was for a really long time because i'm

01:33:20.660 focusing on my studies sure my life everything like this and yeah that's it and so but uh the

01:33:31.020 guy that you saw four or five times i said like four approximately five uh combien combien de

01:33:40.120 How long have you done the boom-boom with this jeune homme? 1.00

01:33:52.760 Did I say that right? 1.00

01:33:53.840 I think she got it in English, too.

01:33:55.540 Oh, yeah.

01:33:56.140 You know, I'm translating.

01:33:57.560 I'm not fluent, but I can understand.

01:33:59.360 Yes.

01:33:59.760 I'm okay.

01:34:00.600 I'm just, this is more for me.

01:34:02.500 I'm practicing my French.

01:34:03.940 No.

01:34:05.380 Can I add something?

01:34:07.500 Sorry, I'm going.

01:34:08.480 but um she when she was in france she was like a different person than she is now so she was like

01:34:15.100 really studying not very social and maybe a little bit from us like strict uh more

01:34:22.640 um yeah strict family i'd say so and then like religious family no just strict strict yeah so

01:34:30.280 you're i've never seen a dad in france so you're you never what seen a boy in france like never

01:34:35.240 she wasn't dating i wasn't dating at all i had my first kiss when i arrived you had your first kiss

01:34:41.060 wait and you're 24 yeah when how old were you when you had your first kiss 22 around 22

01:34:46.420 oh okay so like two years ago okay when she moved to montreal is when she started like

01:34:51.520 so she's freshly new to like the dating scene and all that how long have you been friends with her 0.90

01:34:56.060 over like a year yeah last summer so she's your wingman wing woman for sure wing woman

01:35:01.960 Okay, is she a bad influence on you?

01:35:04.520 No, very good influence.

01:35:05.700 My best influence there.

01:35:07.020 What's that?

01:35:07.600 My best influence there in Montreal.

01:35:10.560 Montreal.

01:35:11.120 But we have some bad influences in our friend group. 1.00

01:35:15.540 Those Canadians, what can I say? 1.00

01:35:18.560 They get up to no good. 1.00

01:35:20.080 All right, so a month?

01:35:26.740 Are you a virgin?

01:35:28.180 No, not at all, no.

01:35:29.660 When did you lose your virginity?

01:35:31.000 at 23

01:35:32.320 okay so like a year ago

01:35:34.420 and is that the guy you said you saw a guy

01:35:37.020 four or five times

01:35:37.900 yeah but it's not

01:35:40.880 I don't want to speak about that

01:35:43.020 that much she's seen a few

01:35:45.000 people since

01:35:46.100 she didn't just see one guy she saw

01:35:48.960 a few people at the same time

01:35:50.420 I don't think so

01:35:52.440 one after the other kind of thing

01:35:55.140 yeah

01:35:55.500 a few like a few people

01:36:00.900 at the same time no one after the other but she just hasn't just seen one guy for that four or

01:36:06.020 five times she's seen a few guys oh like four or five times no but i asked her what's the longest

01:36:11.140 so she hasn't had a boyfriend uh but what's the longest period of time she was talking to or

01:36:17.220 hanging out with a guy so like if you went on yeah yeah a month okay all right and uh okay

01:36:25.880 uh and how many different guys have you had that with oh not a lot how did you meet him

01:36:35.860 dating app uh i tried but i really didn't like it okay yeah sure mutual friends yeah mutual

01:36:47.220 friends okay what are you looking for right now um someone who understand me who support me

01:36:54.480 who is able to teach me a lot of things that I don't know,

01:36:59.080 patient.

01:37:01.720 Like, I want to find a partner in life,

01:37:04.700 not just a guy that is there for me.

01:37:08.080 We will be a team, and I'm still...

01:37:10.820 I know that I will meet someone later.

01:37:14.040 I'm sure about that, so I'm not stressing me out.

01:37:16.380 Oh, I need to find someone right now.

01:37:18.500 Sure.

01:37:19.160 Yeah.

01:37:19.540 It will happen when it will happen.

01:37:22.120 Okay.

01:37:22.420 But are you just having fun right now?

01:37:25.240 Not that.

01:37:25.880 No.

01:37:26.300 No.

01:37:26.900 No.

01:37:27.660 A little closer to the mic.

01:37:28.900 No.

01:37:29.760 Okay.

01:37:30.280 So you're not in a rush, but you would like something more serious.

01:37:35.320 Yeah, for sure.

01:37:36.360 Got it.

01:37:37.280 All right.

01:37:38.580 What about you?

01:37:40.020 I'm single.

01:37:40.840 I've been single for a little over a year.

01:37:43.420 I'm in the same as her.

01:37:45.440 Looking for something serious, but I'm not in a rush.

01:37:49.360 And then longest relationship?

01:37:51.380 Seven months.

01:37:52.760 Seven months.

01:37:53.360 Yeah.

01:37:53.660 Any kids?

01:37:54.540 No.

01:37:54.960 Ever married?

01:37:55.720 No.

01:37:56.140 Okay.

01:37:56.980 You've been single for one year.

01:37:58.660 Did the seven-month one, is that the one that ended a year ago?

01:38:02.360 No, that was a different one.

01:38:03.780 Relationship.

01:38:04.080 Are there any guys in the picture currently?

01:38:05.760 No.

01:38:06.820 For you, are there any men in the picture currently?

01:38:09.120 No.

01:38:09.520 No guy?

01:38:10.480 No guy.

01:38:10.980 You're not on the dating app?

01:38:12.180 No dating app.

01:38:12.720 You're not talking to a guy?

01:38:13.820 Not talking to a guy. 0.72

01:38:14.280 You didn't kiss a guy recently?

01:38:16.000 It was maybe three weeks ago.

01:38:18.540 Three weeks?

01:38:18.880 Once.

01:38:19.660 Three weeks ago.

01:38:21.140 Oh, okay.

01:38:22.420 Wait, wait.

01:38:23.100 I have something on this.

01:38:24.360 Okay.

01:38:27.940 No guy in the picture?

01:38:29.580 No.

01:38:30.060 I am on dating apps, but I'm not seeing anyone.

01:38:31.360 Dating apps?

01:38:31.680 Okay.

01:38:31.920 What about you?

01:38:33.060 So I'm single, and my last relationship ended about nine-ish months ago.

01:38:38.640 Okay.

01:38:39.040 My longest relationship wasn't my last one.

01:38:41.280 It was around three years.

01:38:43.820 No kids, never married.

01:38:45.240 Perfect.

01:38:45.660 Thank you.

01:38:46.340 What about you?

01:38:47.400 I'm single.

01:38:48.220 I've been single since last June.

01:38:50.620 my longest relationship was four years and i don't have kids ever married i have not been married

01:38:57.160 what about you um longest relationship is seven years um and i've been single for about four years

01:39:07.180 ever married no any kids two same father no two different ones two different fathers okay age of

01:39:15.240 kids 11 and 15 all right and then the two two different fathers how long were you dating them

01:39:22.400 respectively um before i got pregnant uh well how long were you with them total um i was with

01:39:28.200 my oldest son's father for about i want to say three and a half and then my youngest

01:39:34.280 he he was seven years it was kind of off and on but pretty much together the whole time yeah he

01:39:40.840 passed away. And then how soon into each relationship did you get pregnant? Very quick.

01:39:45.420 How quick? About, I want to say three months in. For both of them? Yes. Damn. Y'all be moving fast.

01:39:53.180 Yeah. Now question. Oh, I guess question for both of you. Um, were these, were you guys like

01:40:01.000 trying to get pregnant? No. Was it, were you on birth control? No. Were you on birth control?

01:40:07.300 birth control uh the first one no the second one yeah so like it didn't work what were you

01:40:13.500 what were you taking um the shot the depo shot the depo shot really

01:40:17.040 okay and so you were on the depth yeah because that's a bit more effective because it's not

01:40:26.220 like oh i forgot my pill um interesting very strong okay so but the first one so question

01:40:32.660 were you like were were you the first pregnancy you said no birth control were you uh using

01:40:40.500 protection no was he just blasting yes up inside everywhere and you weren't on birth control no

01:40:47.980 17 17 wait do you have a type do i have a type like white guys asian guys latino like tatted

01:40:57.020 Asian gangsters I mean yeah okay so it's an Asian guy yeah they're both Asian both you're both okay 0.98

01:41:02.900 same gang same gang oh shit so they know each other right no they're not friends they bang 0.99

01:41:07.740 together that sounded weird that's what they do they bang yeah they're um I think highly more of 0.99

01:41:15.800 one than the other obviously um sure but yeah okay so could that be the reason why you got shot

01:41:22.540 girl that was i was 17 oh okay yeah i got shot because she dated two guys in the same gang no

01:41:28.880 no but i earlier i had said that it had nothing to do with them and then for you uh were you you

01:41:34.280 were not on birth control no not on birth control uh were they just not to be a little

01:41:41.700 were they just blasting inside sometimes and then sometimes pull out but yeah just going full force

01:41:49.860 doesn't work blasting no yeah it's yeah i mean pull out pull out it has like an 81 percent

01:41:56.560 rating or something but i mean you gotta if the girl's not on birth control and you're not pulling 0.98

01:42:04.380 out not wearing a rubber and you're just blasting inside raw she's gonna get fucking pregnant like 1.00

01:42:10.140 that she's gonna get pregnant like so i mean shit okay they're rolling the dice with their dick uh 1.00

01:42:17.600 Or, well, with their child support payments, I guess. 1.00

01:42:19.980 Or, well, not in your...

01:42:21.000 Nope, not in my situation. 1.00

01:42:22.460 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:42:23.300 All right. 1.00

01:42:23.940 Okay, independent.

01:42:24.740 Well, there it is.

01:42:25.800 Okay, so that's everyone's relationship status. 1.00

01:42:27.740 So what we're going to do, we have two lovely Canadian women here. 1.00

01:42:30.980 Can you pull up Twitch?

01:42:32.200 I hope he's still live.

01:42:33.620 I'm going to...

01:42:34.840 Well, you're in a relationship, but I'm going to do her a favor.

01:42:38.260 I'm going to... 1.00

01:42:38.940 Fuck, he's now in line. 1.00

01:42:40.240 Never mind. 1.00

01:42:40.820 Actually, wait, there's another guy.

01:42:42.500 Okay, here's who you're going to...

01:42:43.720 Twitch.tv slash Bobka.

01:42:45.840 uh b-o-b-k-a and you're gonna put it in video tab uh and then you can put the video so these are 0.98

01:42:54.300 they're canadian is payo this fucker payo is offline damn it i was gonna get you set up with 0.94

01:42:59.020 payo i'm also we're gonna do xvc all right come on guys come on pull it up please uh 0.99

01:43:05.680 b-o-b-k-a twitch.tv slash b-o-b-k-a this guy is a world of warcraft player you're gonna go

01:43:13.420 full screen full screen full screen full screen full screen video tab video tab

01:43:21.980 full screen full screen

01:43:26.300 all right so he plays

01:43:35.820 he's he's in the middle of a match but i'm gonna set you up with him he lives he lives in canada

01:43:41.420 lower the volume a bit lower the volume a little bit i broke his van i have sheep gonna step to

01:43:46.500 him big big ghosty too all right so he played this is a world of warcraft the burning crusade

01:43:53.000 and um he plays uh he's a rogue they're in arena right now this looks like a 3v3

01:43:58.720 oh boy here we go um it looks like they're up against was that a mage there no that's on his 0.98

01:44:03.780 team no no that's the opponent wait fuck i can't see who's yes that is a mate wait 0.98

01:44:09.340 oh he just got feared he just got feared uh who's on his team they lost they lost a tell 0.99

01:44:18.380 bobka guys if i'm gonna open up another tab tell bobka we're watching him right now i'm trying to

01:44:22.480 set him up with uh i'm trying to set him up with a girl uh so do you like do you want to date video

01:44:26.960 game players or i'm not really i'm not really into video games doesn't matter if it and he's 0.98

01:44:32.380 a giga chad he has almost 2 000 subs so he's a fucking giga chad and um somebody tell babka 0.85

01:44:40.320 that we're reacting to him right now um so let's see so he's like one of the top tier rogue players 0.98

01:44:48.600 in world of warcraft and he's in canada i don't know if you can detect the accent a little bit

01:44:55.060 So, are you down to date him?

01:44:59.140 I don't see him.

01:45:00.660 He doesn't...

01:45:01.320 What does he look like?

01:45:04.240 I hear him.

01:45:05.940 Here, boost the volume really quick.

01:45:08.840 All the way, I guess.

01:45:10.060 If we go together.

01:45:11.380 I'll show sometimes.

01:45:13.760 Oh, wait.

01:45:14.620 You know what?

01:45:16.260 Okay, well, here.

01:45:17.700 Pause that.

01:45:19.000 Pause that.

01:45:20.600 Yeah, and then go to XQC.

01:45:23.180 So, twitch.tv slash XQC.

01:45:24.800 Pause the audio, please.

01:45:28.000 Do you know XQC?

01:45:29.200 He's also Canadian.

01:45:30.460 Okay, I'm going to set you up with him.

01:45:33.960 XQC.

01:45:35.580 XQC.

01:45:36.200 Based on the accent, he's not from Montreal.

01:45:39.740 Pull it up, please.

01:45:40.940 All right, so I'm going to get you set up with...

01:45:42.840 This is your option, too.

01:45:45.140 Unfortunately, Payo went offline.

01:45:46.920 Otherwise, I would have done it.

01:45:48.500 Hello, can we get it pulled up, please?

01:45:49.600 Last minute update here.

01:45:50.580 I completely finished this video, but there was something... 0.99

01:45:52.560 Oh, my God, he's just watching a fucking video. 1.00

01:45:54.120 All right, fuck it. Never mind. 1.00

01:45:56.820 All right.

01:45:57.960 Maybe pull up XQC's Instagram.

01:46:00.340 Pull up XQC's Instagram.

01:46:03.960 Pause the audio, please.

01:46:08.300 All right, pull up his Instagram.

01:46:09.940 It's probably just, I don't know, Google XQC Instagram.

01:46:16.140 And, because look, she's never had a boyfriend.

01:46:19.120 I'm trying to help her out.

01:46:20.240 I'm trying to be, all right, scroll.

01:46:21.960 okay window tab please

01:46:24.580 scroll down

01:46:25.940 okay so this is xqc

01:46:28.300 scroll down

01:46:29.280 all the way to the bottom

01:46:31.540 he's Canadian he's a nice guy

01:46:34.200 and he speaks French

01:46:35.540 so he's a friend of mine

01:46:38.900 he's a friend of mine

01:46:40.160 creepy

01:46:42.800 scroll back up

01:46:43.940 scroll back up

01:46:45.320 yeah

01:46:47.900 and

01:46:48.520 so those are some photos

01:46:52.200 so is

01:46:53.880 is he your type

01:46:54.980 I need to see the people

01:46:58.260 in real life to know if it's

01:47:00.360 my type or not because

01:47:01.820 it's all about

01:47:03.360 his

01:47:04.960 being

01:47:06.060 I don't know it's a whole thing it's not just

01:47:10.420 a picture

01:47:11.060 so I understand that there's more than just his appearance

01:47:14.440 and other things but based off

01:47:16.380 what you've seen would you go on

01:47:18.280 a date with him maybe the multi multi multi-millionaire super famous i won't say no

01:47:30.500 because it's everything i tried my best i tried i tried xqc the poor guy xqc he's had some marital

01:47:37.680 issues long time ago you know he's he's out of that mess now but you are canadian you're also

01:47:43.940 like from the French part. I'm French. Well, you're French, but you live in Canada. Sorry,

01:47:47.900 you're French, but you live in Canada. You live in Canada. He is Canadian. He speaks French. You 1.00

01:47:53.260 don't need your translator there. So it'll be, it'll be all good. All right. Okay. Well,

01:47:57.780 that's everyone's relationship status. We're going to get into, where do we go first? I actually

01:48:01.900 need to get up momentarily. What was there? Okay. No payo. Rip, rip, rip, rip, rip, rip. Okay.

01:48:10.200 let's see the first topic one sec here guys actually let's start with the disagreements i

01:48:17.620 feel like i'm like kind of lollygagging here with the beginning

01:48:21.440 phase of the show does anyone have any disagreements oh bro what 0.84

01:48:27.120 damn i told her the instructions and she just all right don't worry any disagreements anybody has 0.97

01:48:35.240 with what not yet don't make me dig through college is a scam like like with you i agree 0.99

01:48:43.120 with right like are we disagreements with you you mean uh maybe you said that oh okay she's

01:48:50.240 getting up then all right i'm pretty sure some of you guys had disagreements in your notes do

01:48:55.460 i have to really prompt you guys or okay all right we'll get to that yeah

01:49:00.460 okay um here while we do that go ahead what's your disagreement oh me yeah just a little baby

01:49:08.520 disagreement um i i i think a lot of times you say women cry just to manipulate people

01:49:16.560 and that's like a some a podium you stand on uh well don't misrepresent the position sorry

01:49:23.480 so the position is not in all instances when women cry they're doing so to be manipulative 0.81

01:49:29.640 That's not it.

01:49:30.420 Okay. 0.99

01:49:31.340 However, would you agree with me that women do cry to manipulate in some instances? 1.00

01:49:39.920 Yes. 0.90

01:49:41.680 A small percentage.

01:49:43.320 A small percentage.

01:49:44.520 Okay.

01:49:45.000 Probably.

01:49:47.300 Okay. 0.95

01:49:48.160 I don't know if it's a small percentage, and this is going to vary by women to women.

01:49:53.680 But, okay, continue on with your disagreement, though.

01:49:55.920 Oh, just, I mean, because I think you also say that the Socrates quote,

01:50:04.100 and then I researched the Socrates quote, heavily misattributed.

01:50:07.640 A lot of people don't think actually Socrates said it.

01:50:10.560 But I think your laser focus on that does not allow for women to,

01:50:23.000 like a lot of times I cry out of joy almost every day.

01:50:25.920 so it's just yeah well okay i guess a couple things so first off there's a mischaracterization

01:50:33.100 here as to the laser focus okay this topic has come up perhaps three four times out of nearly

01:50:41.140 300 episodes that we've done so i think laser focus this is not a topic that comes up a lot

01:50:48.060 uh hold on i have a tts coming through

01:50:51.140 thank you man appreciate it brian your favorite brit is back question will you be bringing back

01:51:00.660 the likes of maddie gustavo and joe for a special episode need the ogs back for sure

01:51:06.900 hashtag michael is king yo uh adzils thank you the big tts man i really appreciate it

01:51:12.980 guys show show some respect give uh put a w in the chat for adzils for the big tts thank you man

01:51:18.940 uh i don't know who joe is i'm trying to get i i would like to get maddie and gustavo for

01:51:26.160 episode 300 episode 300 i want that to be kind of a reunion episode but the availability for

01:51:34.840 some big returning guests for like a super super 300 episode may not pan out but i'm i'm trying

01:51:42.220 It's hard scheduling people, and I especially like to align it all on one date.

01:51:49.180 But I'm trying.

01:51:50.020 Thank you for the TTS. 1.00

01:51:51.600 Okay, so your disagreement that women cry to manipulate. 0.90

01:51:55.880 So, again, not all instances where women cry, they are doing so to be manipulative.

01:52:01.480 I don't even think I would say it's the majority of the time. 1.00

01:52:04.940 I couldn't give you a percentage off the top of my head.

01:52:07.960 I don't know.

01:52:08.640 I would say this, though. 1.00

01:52:09.840 women are more likely to cry in a way to manipulate as compared to men when women cry 0.93

01:52:17.560 as compared to men it's often over something uh when men cry typically 0.99

01:52:25.680 they're fucked up a woman a woman will cry because she had a rough day 0.97

01:52:32.460 i've seen men cry because they've had a rough day yeah okay so i'm speaking hold on i'm speaking 1.00

01:52:38.820 here as a sort of general principle. So yes, there are men who will stub their toe or will

01:52:45.080 be minorly inconvenienced and will cry. However, here's my position. I'm trying to think the

01:52:55.600 best way to frame it. Women, well, I guess the easiest way, women cry more. Women cry 1.00

01:53:02.720 more than men. Can we start there? Do we agree? I don't agree. Definitely. You disagree. 1.00

01:53:07.620 I would agree.

01:53:09.900 I think it just varies per person.

01:53:11.440 Hold on, hold on.

01:53:12.680 Because you won't catch me crying more than these men.

01:53:14.580 So there are women who are stoic, and you'll never see them cry.

01:53:19.960 And then there are men who are highly emotional who will cry.

01:53:24.340 But these are sort of, I would say, leaning towards, especially for the man, very outlier.

01:53:31.620 As a general principle, on average, I'm asking you, do women cry more than men? 0.93

01:53:36.620 i guess we'll never know well i it's true though we won't know we can know do you think i i don't

01:53:45.240 know if i could point to a study but i don't think you need a study to point to like to refer to like

01:53:51.380 anecdotal universal experiences i really just feel like that's an opinion common sense it's an

01:53:56.820 opinion okay well here before i respond to you let me open it up what do you think you were hold on

01:54:02.540 I think women cry more than men because it's more socially acceptable to do so, but I don't think it's in a way to manipulate anyone.

01:54:12.620 I just, like, it's hard to fake cry.

01:54:15.380 I don't think it's hard to fake cry. 1.00

01:54:16.880 But again, my position is not in all instances where women cry, they do so to manipulate. 1.00

01:54:24.780 Although, I do think there are probably some times where women may cry unconsciously in an effort to confer some sort of sympathy or benefit, where they might not be consciously attempting to do so. 0.95

01:54:42.200 Not in all instances.

01:54:44.260 I haven't done that, but I've been accused of it.

01:54:48.000 Okay. What do you think?

01:54:50.340 About which part?

01:54:53.060 Well, let's start with if we can agree to some baseline things. 0.93

01:54:56.640 So my position is, as a baseline, women cry more than men. 0.86

01:55:02.580 For me personally, I don't know.

01:55:04.440 I'm not asking you personally.

01:55:06.040 So when I say women cry more than men, did I say Tatum cries more than men?

01:55:11.460 No, I meant my observations might be a bit, because of the line of work that I do,

01:55:16.480 I see men in vulnerable positions.

01:55:18.480 So I see a lot of men crying a lot.

01:55:20.820 So I don't know.

01:55:22.460 But so, for example, if you're a police officer and you saw a disproportionate amount of dead bodies, as police officers frequently do, I don't think you could then map that on to a sort of average.

01:55:36.880 I understand.

01:55:37.600 Like, for example, let's say you're very specialized.

01:55:40.600 You're a homicide detective.

01:55:42.600 Right.

01:55:42.860 Your sole job relates to investigating murders and homicides, right?

01:55:47.980 Yeah.

01:55:48.180 But you would not map that on and say, like, the majority of people commit homicides and murders because on a daily basis I'm dealing with the investigation of homicides and murders.

01:55:57.460 So in your case, your claim, you're going to say, well, I'm a sex worker and these men are very vulnerable and they sometimes cry when receiving my services or whatever.

01:56:09.360 well besides my line of work i will say that um the most masculine men i've dated

01:56:19.320 are the ones who've cried the most and the more feminine men i've dated i never saw them cry once

01:56:27.140 which is fascinating right the most masculine men you've dated cried the most yes because

01:56:35.860 Because they're in touch with themselves, and they're so confident in their masculinity that they're okay crying, and I think that's awesome.

01:56:43.140 Can I ask you a question?

01:56:44.200 The most masculine man you've ever dated, when you say he was comfortable crying in front of you, what was the – could you maybe list a few of the things that he cried about?

01:56:56.720 So, for example, I would have no quarrel with a man crying if his mom died, his father died, a sibling died, perhaps even a pet, a beloved pet died.

01:57:11.680 Were those the circumstances under which the man was crying?

01:57:14.780 I mean, there's a handful of circumstances, but I mean, with my husband, when I told him I wanted to work at a brothel, he definitely cried. 0.99

01:57:23.060 huh i'm gonna allow that as a reason for a man to cry your fucking wife wants to become a 0.98

01:57:30.340 prostitute i'll give him a pass on that um yeah i'm gonna okay that from as representative of 1.00

01:57:39.520 the male delegation your fucking wife wants to become a prostitute and the relationship is 1.00

01:57:46.700 basically over i guess yeah you can cry i guess sure no we stayed married for two yikes okay well 1.00

01:57:51.980 I don't know what's going on there.

01:57:53.640 But okay, most masculine men.

01:57:54.980 What were the things he was crying over?

01:57:57.760 Other things?

01:57:58.720 Sure.

01:58:02.280 I think he did a lot of crying around that topic.

01:58:06.060 But in the other relationship, it was just like processing his own relationship with his father and crying through that.

01:58:18.740 that's like really honorable to do well so i i mean i'm not gonna dig too much no i know i know

01:58:25.580 but if there was like abuse this can obviously no no no no this can obviously uh and if you're

01:58:31.740 like talking through that uh then that could probably prompt uh tears i'm actually gonna 0.88

01:58:37.680 walk back the granting that he cried when you told him you want to be a prostitute honestly i 1.00

01:58:42.860 I think if your wife tells you she wants to fuck other men for money, 1.00

01:58:48.100 I think you have to be a stone-cold killer. 1.00

01:58:51.040 You can be upset by that. 1.00

01:58:52.900 You've got to be a stone-cold killer and just instantly divorce. 0.99

01:58:57.080 And I don't think you should cry. 1.00

01:58:59.760 Fuck that. 1.00

01:59:00.220 No. 1.00

01:59:00.340 If my girlfriend came to me, or my wife even, my wife comes to me,

01:59:05.500 hypothetical wife, comes to me,

01:59:07.940 excuse me, Brian, 1.00

01:59:08.680 I want other men's penises in and around 1.00

01:59:12.280 my mouth and vagina for money 1.00

01:59:14.000 hell yeah 1.00

01:59:16.100 fuck no 0.99

01:59:17.080 I'm like 1.00

01:59:19.380 I'm gonna be like oh do you now

01:59:22.080 okay

01:59:23.240 I'm gonna

01:59:26.220 pull up my phone 0.99

01:59:27.260 alright Mr. fucking 0.98

01:59:29.860 gonna call 0.99

01:59:31.860 call 1.00

01:59:32.920 I'm gonna call a Jewish lawyer 1.00

01:59:35.260 excuse me 1.00

01:59:36.040 i need the best divorce attorney no uh are you jewish huh are you jewish no but i mean they're

01:59:43.820 known for being good lawyers oh i see solid lawyers i'm gonna call it all right right mr

01:59:49.400 goldstein i need a divorce uh and uh i'm gonna yeah and it's an instant divorce i'm i'm i'm 0.75

02:00:00.240 either like get the fuck out the house out the house you go or i'm leaving if we got kids 0.82

02:00:06.980 all right custody dispute i'm trying to get the kids 100 custody 0.98

02:00:13.240 but i ain't crying i am not crying when's the last time you cried yeah yeah yeah brian

02:00:22.040 yeah brian let me think about this you know what i was watching a sentimental movie let me think

02:00:28.240 No, I'm kidding.

02:00:29.580 Wait, what was the movie that I was watching? 1.00

02:00:32.440 Shit, I'm trying. 1.00

02:00:33.100 Was it a documentary? 1.00

02:00:34.920 I cried.

02:00:35.500 Was it Babe?

02:00:36.900 You know at the end? 0.98

02:00:38.060 You know at the end?

02:00:39.020 Have you seen Babe?

02:00:39.880 Probably not.

02:00:40.400 It's an old movie.

02:00:40.940 The pig movie?

02:00:41.660 The pig movie.

02:00:42.240 Yeah. 0.99

02:00:43.040 And the old man is like, this cute little pig is like, that'll do, pig. 0.98

02:00:48.760 That'll do. 0.99

02:00:49.300 Oh, my God.

02:00:51.400 Heartbreaking.

02:00:52.240 Instant tear.

02:00:53.140 No, I'm kidding.

02:00:53.780 Oh.

02:00:54.380 Oh, so you did cry.

02:00:56.140 So you cry at movies.

02:00:57.340 Are you trolling us?

02:00:58.240 I'm trolling, obviously.

02:01:00.360 I did in my heart.

02:01:03.140 I cried internally. 0.99

02:01:04.720 When he was like, that'll do, pig. 0.98

02:01:06.900 That'll do. Holy shit. 1.00

02:01:08.620 Does that stem from maybe like... 0.98

02:01:11.020 You know, because that's like a

02:01:12.240 thing. Do you have a good relationship

02:01:14.660 with your dad?

02:01:17.300 But I get that, though.

02:01:19.040 You know what I mean? Because coming from an Asian 1.00

02:01:20.760 household, you'll never hear your parents be like,

02:01:22.640 I'm so proud of you. Let me hug you.

02:01:24.480 That shit don't exist, right? 1.00

02:01:25.480 so it's like you know nowadays like when i do something you know somebody close to me or 0.99

02:01:30.160 somebody i actually respect is like oh i'm proud of you for doing this and you know it's like oh

02:01:33.900 you feel differently you know so i think maybe like you referencing that part from the movie

02:01:37.760 you weren't growing up with people being like i'm proud of you no my parents were both very loving

02:01:43.020 they're still they're still married maybe just touch something very very pretty normal just

02:01:48.040 curious uh good household parents still together still married um loving caring parents so

02:01:55.340 no it was i wasn't like thinking i was i mean i'm a pig now that's another conversation to be

02:02:02.620 hold on we have a tts here really quick from adzils thank you man appreciate it adzils donated

02:02:07.580 two hundred dollars joe as in joe who worked as security for whatever during 2024 and made

02:02:14.580 appearances in a few episodes black tall and about six feet three inches i could send an image on

02:02:21.840 discord i have you added yeah no i i thought that's who you're talking about but he was on

02:02:27.800 like he was on the panel for i think one episode long time ago uh and then did security on like

02:02:35.520 two episodes so i don't feel like he was super central that would warrant him coming on but uh

02:02:43.720 thank you adzils for the tts appreciate it okay back to crying uh did anyone else want to weigh

02:02:49.340 on this topic who cries more men or women me you i cry a lot you cry a lot okay what about

02:02:56.420 you i cry a lot but i definitely agree that women cry more than men in general women cry more what

02:03:01.260 what do you think in general women cry more okay i agree women cry more what do you think women

02:03:05.540 cry more and i was gonna say i cry a lot hormonal changes hormonal crying okay yeah yeah um and then

02:03:14.660 you said you cry a lot yeah i'm a sensitive person sensitive yeah sensitive did you cry today

02:03:22.820 no yesterday yesterday but just a little bit one minute but so question for you how often would

02:03:29.600 you say you cry i don't have an average well but it happens when it happens sometimes a week

02:03:38.400 Sometimes it may be like two times a day.

02:03:42.380 I don't know.

02:03:42.860 But after that, I don't cry for one month.

02:03:45.980 It's like very short periods.

02:03:47.880 And then I'm good.

02:03:49.820 Okay.

02:03:51.540 So how many times have you cried?

02:03:54.260 You cried yesterday.

02:03:55.660 Just one minute, a little bit.

02:03:57.220 Why didn't anyone see that?

02:03:58.080 Why did you cry?

02:03:58.580 One, two, because I was stressed to come here.

02:04:01.880 But right now I'm okay.

02:04:03.260 Stressed to come on the podcast?

02:04:04.420 A little bit, yeah.

02:04:06.140 Stressed to come on the podcast.

02:04:07.060 it can be stressful right

02:04:09.880 but what about something else

02:04:11.420 what's another reason you've recently cried

02:04:13.300 I miss my family

02:04:16.000 miss your family

02:04:17.000 missing family homesick

02:04:19.600 what's something else

02:04:23.620 can you scoot into the table

02:04:27.980 scoot scoot scoot

02:04:29.560 even when watching films

02:04:32.180 with animals

02:04:33.400 especially

02:04:34.420 the little pig 1.00

02:04:36.500 I don't know the pig. 1.00

02:04:37.420 I know Balto. 1.00

02:04:38.680 I know the husky one. 1.00

02:04:41.160 I don't remember the name.

02:04:41.980 The husky one.

02:04:42.720 It was a very good film.

02:04:45.640 Avatar?

02:04:47.100 I haven't seen Avatar.

02:04:48.580 I haven't seen Avatar?

02:04:49.460 Yeah.

02:04:49.960 Do you know Denver?

02:04:51.240 No.

02:04:51.560 Do you know Denver, the last dinosaur?

02:04:54.880 Do you know?

02:04:55.380 No.

02:04:56.000 Do you know that?

02:04:56.740 No.

02:04:57.260 Ah, well, what's that?

02:05:00.500 Okay, so.

02:05:01.320 This is a craziness crossover.

02:05:03.660 What about Marlene?

02:05:04.620 What about Marley and me?

02:05:07.000 Oh, Marley.

02:05:08.260 That one always gets me.

02:05:09.540 Oh, it's so good.

02:05:10.300 Is that the Golden Retriever one?

02:05:11.740 No, it's a Huss.

02:05:12.800 No, it's a lab.

02:05:13.660 No, it was like a lab. 0.96

02:05:15.180 It was like a yellow lab. 0.79

02:05:16.900 Yeah.

02:05:17.460 That one always gets me.

02:05:18.760 Archie.

02:05:19.360 Yeah, Archie.

02:05:20.500 All right, sometimes a film will move you. 0.99

02:05:23.860 Damn, I'm trying to think. 0.98

02:05:24.880 There's something that got me misty recently. 0.99

02:05:27.820 It wasn't the Hulk Hogan documentary.

02:05:31.660 Poor Hulk.

02:05:33.340 Michael biopic.

02:05:34.620 Poor Hulk Hogan, man.

02:05:37.680 Let's see. 1.00

02:05:38.600 Shit. 1.00

02:05:38.900 What was the... 1.00

02:05:39.480 Man. 1.00

02:05:40.900 Damn. 1.00

02:05:41.300 I'm trying to remember what it was. 1.00

02:05:43.220 Some fucking documentary. 0.99

02:05:44.700 Anyways. 1.00

02:05:45.240 Okay. 1.00

02:05:45.880 So you cry for women. 0.99

02:05:49.280 All right. 1.00

02:05:49.940 I'm doing better.

02:05:51.640 Look.

02:05:52.380 So, okay.

02:05:52.740 Here's my first position. 1.00

02:05:54.280 Women cry more than men. 1.00

02:05:55.880 So, I don't know. 1.00

02:05:56.860 Agreed?

02:05:57.800 Yeah, I agree.

02:05:58.620 You disagree, though.

02:06:00.260 And then you... 1.00

02:06:01.880 I think women have more access to their emotions.

02:06:04.620 at this point in time and men are catching up men are catching up well there could be like a

02:06:11.840 hormonal as she said predisposition to this um but uh could it be that emotions may manifest

02:06:20.200 in different ways so uh i think men tend to go to anger before that's how i say so for me like

02:06:29.380 If they get mad, it's like the female version of crying. 0.94

02:06:32.640 I agree. 0.99

02:06:33.840 But once again, I think it's because it's more socially acceptable for us to cry and I guess more socially acceptable for them to get angry.

02:06:43.500 But often I'm like, I don't know.

02:06:47.140 When they get angry, I'm like, you're crying.

02:06:51.440 Well, that's true.

02:06:52.080 Every time a man yells at me, I cry.

02:06:54.180 I'm sensitive.

02:06:55.740 If you yell at me, I'm going to cry.

02:06:56.880 It's just instinctive.

02:06:59.380 disappear for, like, any strong emotion. 0.99

02:07:01.580 We're going to hit him. 0.86

02:07:02.100 It's too strong.

02:07:05.360 Now, the quote that I'm referencing, and you are correct that there is,

02:07:11.560 whether it's attributed to Socrates or not, there's obviously some,

02:07:16.460 and it's more likely than not he didn't actually say this.

02:07:20.320 Regardless of who actually is the originator of the quote, though,

02:07:24.360 I think it does speak to some truth.

02:07:26.980 And again, not all instances, and I would say even the majority of times when women are crying, certainly they're not doing so as a means of manipulation.

02:07:38.640 However, I do think that they're, depending on the context, in a crying that occurs in a social interaction, and specific social interactions,

02:08:00.400 the rates of when crying occurs in these specific social interactions,

02:08:05.140 that can actually be quite a high amount of manipulation.

02:08:10.440 What specific social interactions?

02:08:12.560 Well, one specific situation where you might be holding a woman accountable.

02:08:18.960 In that specific situation, if you do see tears,

02:08:22.880 I think there's actually quite a high probability

02:08:25.360 that tears are used as a method to attempt to elicit sympathy and tears have a tendency to

02:08:36.380 shut down dialogue. Now, I'll give you examples. Now, it's never my goal. The reason I cited on

02:08:43.820 the podcast is not to say when women are crying in other contexts that they're doing so to

02:08:51.060 manipulate. But we have had women cry on the podcast. And this often has occurred. And again,

02:08:57.940 it's never my goal. But it has happened. When women cry on the podcast, this typically has been

02:09:05.500 happens when I'm pushing back on something. And what happens when a woman cries, it's actually, 0.98

02:09:14.420 The manipulation is actually not even necessarily an action from the woman.

02:09:23.520 Notice we have eight women here. 0.55

02:09:25.320 The moment a woman cries, 0.99

02:09:28.060 ah, well, we have to put aside the logical conversation we're having,

02:09:32.620 and we need to placate, and we need to coddle her.

02:09:38.460 Oh, my God, are you okay?

02:09:40.420 Is everything okay?

02:09:41.620 Do you need an applesauce?

02:09:43.000 You need a little blanket?

02:09:47.020 It shuts down conversation.

02:09:49.520 And if I continue with my line of questioning, and by the way, this has happened very few times.

02:09:55.080 A handful of times this has happened.

02:09:57.100 We've had 300 episodes. 1.00

02:09:58.640 We've had 2,000 women plus on the show.

02:10:01.920 This is not a common occurrence.

02:10:03.680 But I have noticed a pattern where if you start continuing on with the questions or whatever,

02:10:08.380 and the woman's crying it is somehow uh other women will do a sisterhood thing 0.83

02:10:16.080 despite a logical presentation of the actual conversation it shuts down conversation and 0.97

02:10:23.840 i believe that is manipulative oh so it's like you're saying it's a collective manipulation

02:10:29.180 rather than well there's it's a sympathy thing in the sense that like we've had women

02:10:36.380 cry uh oftentimes over very it's not like i oh i hit like a sense of thing like for example i mean

02:10:45.360 obviously you know uh if you've had like a loss or whatever it's not like i hit something sensitive

02:10:51.540 there it's just they start crying because for i don't know for whatever reason okay i'll give

02:10:57.500 you an example oh here's a perfect example i was talking to a girl and famous clip she said

02:11:05.360 she invoked misogyny she said not me directly but she said that i think it maybe was a chatter

02:11:13.680 or there was an idea that was being presented and she said that's a very misogynistic idea

02:11:18.580 that's the essence of it it was a long time ago i might be misremembering the context

02:11:23.060 but she did invoke misogyny and i asked her to define misogyny

02:11:27.200 and she couldn't define it and i was like well what and she started crying

02:11:32.900 because she maybe she felt embarrassed she didn't know the definition of it and then she asked to 1.00

02:11:40.360 leave and the other women when by the way i wasn't like you stupid fucking bitch how do you 1.00

02:11:46.000 i was very calm i was very calm i was just like so what's the definition 1.00

02:11:51.040 and then the women were like brian brian stop stop she she's crying i'm like okay well it's

02:11:59.820 a discussion podcast i mean like as if i was i was uh like i was treading on her by talking to her

02:12:10.820 like i don't know so i don't know that's the manipulation i guess where where it will be

02:12:15.800 used to attempt to cultivate sympathy from surround or nearby people or whatever and

02:12:23.040 once the tears come out you can no longer i don't know right so the goal is to continue

02:12:29.240 dialogue through tears,

02:12:31.400 like, potentially, and that's

02:12:33.340 not a bad thing. I think that would be a strength

02:12:35.180 to, like, be able to keep talking through

02:12:37.280 tears.

02:12:39.480 I suppose, but I mean, it's not like

02:12:41.260 I'm just gonna super dig in,

02:12:43.400 but, um,

02:12:45.240 well, I guess here's the other component.

02:12:47.400 I will be blamed

02:12:49.000 for her crying.

02:12:51.480 So that's the other manipulation that occurs.

02:12:54.020 She cried,

02:12:55.920 and I'm to blame.

02:12:57.880 And again, I'm not, usually,

02:12:59.100 i make a very good effort to avoid insults i might disagree with people but i try to avoid

02:13:05.180 just straight up insulting people uh but even disagreements or inquiry inquiry into somebody's

02:13:12.340 perspective has resulted in this and uh i'll get blamed you made her cry i'm sorry uh i don't i

02:13:23.100 I reject that as an idea that I made them cry.

02:13:29.680 They cried.

02:13:31.280 They are, in fact, crying.

02:13:33.240 But I made them cry.

02:13:34.460 Now I'm the villain. 0.90

02:13:35.840 I'm the monster.

02:13:37.120 I'm the bad guy for her, perhaps, disproportionate emotional reaction.

02:13:44.520 Or even if it's a valid emotional reaction,

02:13:47.560 why am I to be blamed as the cause of this reaction?

02:13:53.100 yeah i don't think you should be blamed but i think that crying over embarrassment is a very

02:13:59.280 you know common reaction people get embarrassed and they cry because they don't know you know

02:14:05.340 we're embarrassed that's the whole reason so i don't think you should be blamed but i think

02:14:09.220 maybe a little bit of understanding about why she's crying because she's embarrassed

02:14:13.260 that's like you know just basic human decency i think we should just be nice to each other

02:14:19.000 and not i'm not saying you weren't nice to her i'm saying like just be like okay i shouldn't be

02:14:22.560 blame but she's crying because she's embarrassed could be i'll be right back but you guys can

02:14:27.360 either continue on on the crying thing or discuss i think it's the fault of the english language

02:14:40.960 it's like when you say i hurt my hand it doesn't mean that you took a hammer and hit your hand

02:14:45.580 like your hand hurts yeah i don't know maybe she was just nervous and yeah yeah and it's hard to

02:14:51.820 talk when you're crying so well a lot of people use words that they really don't know the meaning

02:14:58.160 to just because they heard somebody else use them I would probably sell true yeah but don't you

02:15:04.740 think a lot like I think a lot of crying and it's involuntary so I think it's it's it's interesting

02:15:09.840 to say like like I think okay sure maybe sometimes it's manipulative but a lot of it is so involuntary

02:15:15.700 like yeah can't we just accept like a lot of human behavior is involuntary like I raise my eyebrows

02:15:20.260 too much it's not like i'm trying to like if it's manipulative i don't think it's in like

02:15:25.020 fully consciously intentional personally right at the same time if someone's crying it can be

02:15:30.660 but like from experience like maybe like after i started crying like something went on to my

02:15:37.440 advantage but it's never i'm just like nervous stressed sad so i'm crying and then right i feel

02:15:43.800 like anytime i've cried manipulatively it was because i knew that was like what i was going

02:15:49.340 gain out of it okay does that make sense like if i'm if something happens and i'm crying and i'm

02:15:55.580 like by myself obviously like who am i gonna have to manipulate but if i know that like i can gain

02:16:02.000 something out of it to make myself feel better you know i feel like everyone is guilty of that

02:16:06.280 at some point even if it's to your parents you know i'm sure when we were younger we were like

02:16:10.600 oh i really want ice cream if i cry for it they'll eventually give in so to say that like

02:16:15.980 no one or you know personally you haven't done it you got to think even of the small things i know

02:16:21.800 it's like we're talking about dating as a kid i wasn't i was just i wanted ice cream and i wasn't

02:16:26.300 getting it so i was crying it's manipulative it's a manipulative tactic and even if we're

02:16:31.380 not consciously thinking about it at the time because we're children that is what it what

02:16:35.980 you know but i think as adults we should have some type of like regulation to that i don't

02:16:43.380 think it's fair to use that tactic and be like okay let me cry to get what i want out of it i

02:16:48.260 think i'll do whatever i want to get what i want not that i do that but i'm just saying no i'm not

02:16:53.480 talking about what exactly you know i mean if you're like crying because if i'm in front of a

02:16:57.520 man and i need to act a certain way i'll read him right and i say okay this is my end goal this is 0.95

02:17:02.100 what i need to do sure not talking about crying just by itself and so i'm not like other shit 0.63

02:17:06.440 right like if i need to do what i need to do and i could read this man and if that's what's stopping 0.56

02:17:10.240 me from getting what i want i'm gonna do it yeah right i'm not talking about just crying so

02:17:13.640 i don't know everything my brother is like you know we shouldn't do that i don't know no that's

02:17:18.900 not what i mean like i'm not i'm not talking about men specifically i'm just talking about like i mean

02:17:24.320 like okay you're let's just say like you're you're homeless you have no money you know i mean

02:17:29.000 sometimes you gotta cry like look i'm starving you know i mean you might shed a tear or two

02:17:33.260 but i'm saying like cry or go work at the ranch you know fire but i'm saying if you're just like

02:17:39.320 chilling not getting your way like what is the point of that because at that point i feel like

02:17:44.980 that's creating other roadblocks in whatever relationship if we're referring to relationships

02:17:49.980 you know what i mean i think crying is just a waste of time sometimes i don't know that's why

02:17:55.820 i tell my kids right i'm i'm not saying all that like obviously we're human we have emotions right

02:17:59.560 obviously but i just feel like some people they'll sit there and they'll wallow in their

02:18:05.220 emotions and oh woe is me and I'm fucking crying and there's no solution there so for me I'm a

02:18:11.060 very practical thinker I feel like you know I try to teach my kids this too like you can sit there 0.98

02:18:15.220 and you can cry about something but what the fuck is I gonna do nothing so for me I'm like okay cry 0.85

02:18:19.220 about it cool not now what are we gonna do about this that's just how I think about it so it might 0.97

02:18:22.960 come off as like insensitive to me but I think that's just how I was taught throughout life like

02:18:27.700 I'm not gonna sit here and cry about it what the fuck I gotta figure it out you know so that's why

02:18:31.480 like when girls are like oh my god i just cried about it for five hours why you know i'd be like 0.94

02:18:35.760 because crying is healthy it's healthy to you maybe it's not healthy to me you know what i mean

02:18:41.180 every to each his own you know what i mean sure but that's just how i feel about it because those

02:18:45.140 five hours could have been spent figuring something else out biochemically crying does

02:18:49.720 have a calming effect so if there is one purpose it does calm the individual down some people cry

02:18:54.440 more than others i'm not saying no of course but you know i mean i'm just saying i think it is

02:18:57.900 medically proven that crying is

02:18:59.760 a form of comfort, you know.

02:19:01.800 So if someone cries about something for five hours,

02:19:03.780 it just might be their form of comfort at the time.

02:19:06.300 I don't think it's about, like, I cry more,

02:19:07.860 she cries less. It could be about the same situation.

02:19:10.180 You're releasing that bad energy.

02:19:12.060 Well, here, let me ask a couple clarifying

02:19:13.800 questions on the crying thing here. 1.00

02:19:15.840 You're a stripper, or

02:19:17.400 used to be? I'm not a stripper. Used to be, though.

02:19:19.480 Used to be? Dance. Used to be a stripper, or you

02:19:21.740 still dance? Sometimes I do pop

02:19:23.720 into clubs. Okay, can I ask?

02:19:27.900 When you guys were there, how frequently would you see, and there's a locker room, right?

02:19:32.420 There's a locker room, yeah.

02:19:33.660 Would you see women crying?

02:19:36.480 No, not really.

02:19:37.860 Not really?

02:19:38.340 No.

02:19:38.540 What about you? 0.68

02:19:39.140 Didn't see women crying?

02:19:40.420 No.

02:19:41.340 And what about your work at the ranch?

02:19:43.700 Do you hear or see women crying?

02:19:47.700 I'm on an individual basis.

02:19:52.520 Usually it's me.

02:19:54.760 Usually it's me.

02:19:55.820 Dana was a crier.

02:19:56.720 we've already established that uh all right and then i mean the other example that i would cite to

02:20:03.320 is that for example if on tiktok um i think women are far more performative with their crying

02:20:10.920 so like here's an example i would give women just this is what women will do like have you 0.71

02:20:17.040 seen the cry i hate those i hate those do that cry by yourself okay let me put the camera on 1.00

02:20:23.740 let me put it in a good angle let me get my tripod yeah record they fucking cry like they 0.99

02:20:30.560 record crying tiktoks like there was this one uh i mean it's not just one there's like dozens if 0.98

02:20:36.320 not hundreds of examples of this we're like women post tiktoks of them crying they're in their car 0.99

02:20:42.380 crying they're in the shower crying and it's like look sometimes you're crying over some real shit 0.99

02:20:48.780 But I feel like, look, from the male perspective, you can't just be dishing out cries just for the fuck of it. 0.99

02:20:57.340 As a man, there are, as the representative of the male delegation, there are some, there's a code. 0.98

02:21:04.960 There's a code that men need to live by, an honor code.

02:21:08.600 The only times in which a man is allowed to cry are as follows.

02:21:14.080 He has cancer, diagnosed with cancer.

02:21:17.620 Okay.

02:21:18.100 You can cry upon receiving the news that you've been diagnosed.

02:21:22.160 And then we will grant every 14 days the continuing sorrow.

02:21:27.960 You can cry once every 14 days.

02:21:31.220 If you cry before, depending on.

02:21:34.360 It's excessive.

02:21:35.040 If it's stage one, stage two, stage three, it reduces by days.

02:21:40.520 A family member dies.

02:21:43.240 You can shed one tear if it's like a cousin.

02:21:45.920 i'm talking you know brother sister mom dad you can ball your eyes out you can cry totally fine

02:21:56.620 uh child yep definitely can cry if your child dies uh what else you were involved with something 0.99

02:22:07.520 severely traumatic like i don't know you saw the fucking towers in nyc fucking fall down in that 1.00

02:22:14.780 moment, you're a first responder, you saw some shit, you can cry. Your police officer involved 1.00

02:22:19.620 in a shooting, you can cry. You're a firefighter and it's the worst fire that you've seen in 10

02:22:33.940 years and you've been up for 36 hours and you're pulling bodies out of buildings, you can cry.

02:22:44.780 What else?

02:22:47.080 Your dog dies.

02:22:48.180 Your cat dies.

02:22:49.440 If you have a reptile and it dies, can't cry.

02:22:52.340 Nope.

02:22:53.000 Sorry.

02:22:53.260 Reptiles don't count.

02:22:54.520 What?

02:22:56.140 No.

02:22:56.540 Yes.

02:22:57.040 Okay.

02:22:57.540 Cat.

02:22:58.260 Dog.

02:22:59.100 Okay.

02:22:59.440 Got it.

02:22:59.720 Okay.

02:22:59.880 Maybe there's other.

02:23:01.640 Should we allow birds?

02:23:02.700 Birds.

02:23:03.000 Yes.

02:23:03.860 Birds.

02:23:04.200 I don't know.

02:23:04.660 Should we allow a man to cry over a bird?

02:23:07.460 Please don't cry over a bird. 1.00

02:23:08.760 Like there were parakeets and shit. 0.99

02:23:09.480 I don't know. 0.99

02:23:11.300 My room is happy.

02:23:12.140 I'm going to wait.

02:23:12.740 I'm going to wait for judgment on the bird thing

02:23:14.980 besides that

02:23:16.960 I'm probably forgetting something

02:23:18.380 I don't think men should cry 1.00

02:23:21.840 and why can't they cry 0.96

02:23:23.220 in other circumstances

02:23:24.180 maybe I forgot one

02:23:27.100 I'm sure I forgot one or two

02:23:29.020 but just in general why can't they

02:23:31.120 cry for other things in your opinion

02:23:33.340 because I think

02:23:34.600 there's a couple reasons

02:23:35.760 so the first reason 0.99

02:23:38.280 is men ought

02:23:41.100 to be

02:23:41.880 as in control of their emotions as possible.

02:23:47.400 And so this also would relate to, I don't know, well, that's one, that's one, gender roles. 0.86

02:23:57.200 Now, you might say, we should reject gender roles. 1.00

02:23:59.140 Okay, all of you think men should pay on first dates, get fucked. 1.00

02:24:02.200 I didn't say that. 1.00

02:24:03.180 Okay, well, I don't know.

02:24:04.160 I'm assuming.

02:24:05.320 Almost all of you probably think that.

02:24:06.860 I didn't.

02:24:07.320 I didn't.

02:24:07.720 Most of you probably would prefer a man who's masculine.

02:24:09.920 so it's socially reinforced it's socially stigmatized and shamed for men to cry

02:24:17.520 now again there's certain circumstances where like you know if a police officer is not the

02:24:26.380 one who did the shooting but he is responding to the call and he gets there and he and the

02:24:31.700 police officer who you know killed somebody and he sees that guy crying the police officer should

02:24:37.860 go, rub his back, give him some support, and be understanding that he's crying in that context.

02:24:44.120 You shouldn't, in genuine situations of crying, if it's non-private and it is in public,

02:24:49.580 no, there shouldn't be like some sort of mocking that should go on for these people.

02:24:54.140 Or perhaps even, I don't think you should mock a man in any circumstances in which he's crying.

02:25:00.040 However, realistically speaking, there will be a social judgment that occurs when men do cry.

02:25:09.060 And then in addition to that, this is also not just propped up by other men, but women themselves will, let's say it's your girlfriend, a lot of women are not prepared to deal with male emotions in that way, and you will lose attraction for that man.

02:25:29.120 You, it might even be on a subconscious, unconscious level. 0.97

02:25:33.560 If a dude fucking cries, it's not gonna, it's not gonna go over well with women. 0.98

02:25:40.120 And you might say, no, of God, be supportive. 1.00

02:25:42.980 Nah, you're all full of shit. 1.00

02:25:45.020 You want a virtue signal because you want to be perceived. 1.00

02:25:48.840 Women want to protect their social standing.

02:25:52.440 And it would come off as harsh or perhaps unnurturing to say, 0.94

02:25:56.240 it gives me the ick if I saw a guy cry.

02:25:58.320 But deep down somewhere, whether unconscious or conscious, a lot of women have an issue with their man crying.

02:26:05.520 Nope.

02:26:06.080 I feel like it depends on what they're crying about.

02:26:08.320 It's literally true.

02:26:09.220 It depends on what they're crying about. 0.99

02:26:11.580 And you can say this, and you say, men, proceed at your own peril this advice that you should fucking cry in front of a woman or be vulnerable in front of a woman. 0.98

02:26:22.180 It's the politically correct thing. 0.99

02:26:25.240 It's bullshit, and women might not even understand their own psychology when they witness a male who is weak, or a man who is vulnerable, or a man who cries, because women do not respond well to weak men. 1.00

02:26:40.660 Absolutely. 1.00

02:26:41.720 So, men, as a general rule and principle, should not cry, in front of women especially.

02:26:48.840 If a man cries in front of him, I'm out.

02:26:51.420 There you go, you heard about it.

02:26:52.640 Brian, I feel like you're wrong.

02:26:53.760 You feel like I'm wrong

02:26:56.920 Because I feel like it's situational

02:26:59.140 Obviously it's situational

02:27:00.440 In our society where

02:27:02.920 Participation trophies are handed out

02:27:05.060 And everybody matters and blah blah blah 0.98

02:27:07.100 All this shit right 0.99

02:27:08.300 Everyone's equal blah blah blah 1.00

02:27:10.580 And yes oh compassion and empathy blah blah blah

02:27:13.220 Can I get an example of when I got

02:27:15.120 I got icked out of when a man cried

02:27:16.240 Go for it 0.99

02:27:16.940 I was dating this guy super loser right 0.94

02:27:19.520 Well I didn't think so at the time but whatever 0.97

02:27:22.080 He cried hella right

02:27:23.640 like one time he found out something we're all chilling one of my homeboys told him something

02:27:28.240 like hey you know porsche gets really bored of guys something something he left right he sends

02:27:32.900 me a picture of him in bed sideways crying and i was like i know i know damn well bro you ain't 0.99

02:27:38.900 never gonna see me again after this because what the fuck is that that like that's pathetic 0.99

02:27:43.680 what you just said like yeah when when you asked me like oh do men cry more than women in my my 0.99

02:27:49.600 situation i don't know if maybe i make men cry more or what was he what was he crying over because

02:27:55.240 because he thought that i was going to get bored of him over a joke basically oh my home wait you

02:28:00.520 noticed how like half the women laughed yeah that's why you don't cry in situations like that

02:28:07.580 picture yeah why are you it's like the tiktok thing why are you sending me a picture of you

02:28:12.860 crying bro you're a baby oh great you're a princess sure but you agree with me if we

02:28:21.140 elevate this idea that men ought to be i never said that i don't agree with that i know you

02:28:25.360 didn't say that but other women here are saying oh you should be vulnerable in front of a woman

02:28:28.940 it's fine to cry in front of a woman a woman's not going to change a woman's not going to change

02:28:32.800 her perspective let me tell you why why okay obviously me her her we're all different right 0.76

02:28:37.460 I feel like she's a very soft, sensitive, little, I'm just a girl, right?

02:28:43.920 Like, you'll never hear me say that.

02:28:45.360 Like, you know what I mean?

02:28:45.960 We're just different.

02:28:46.860 So that's our opinions.

02:28:48.320 Well, she does say that in her notes, I recall, that she prefers very masculine men.

02:28:55.520 Because masculine men brings out the feminine in you.

02:28:58.180 So I don't know if we have a different understanding of masculinity, but I think a component of masculinity is emotional stability.

02:29:07.460 you if you're you know there's i'm not crying i'm gonna butcher the saying but like this idea

02:29:14.140 of stoicism you're the what is it it's like some i don't even rocky upon the rocky promontory and

02:29:21.580 the waves are crashing you remain still and sturdy uh that is the idea of stoicism that is the idea

02:29:27.340 of masculinity love that and so a man who is crying in now look just to be clear of course

02:29:36.720 women like you're dating a guy for two years his mom dies he cries I don't think that the 0.88

02:29:43.700 circumstance in which he cries is important most women are going to be like this completely makes

02:29:48.800 sense his mom just died he's crying although I would say perhaps some women still feel a little

02:29:55.720 something but I think most women are like of course this makes sense a family member just died

02:30:00.180 i'm here for my boyfriend however if the man cries in circumstances where you think perhaps 1.00

02:30:07.660 this isn't warranted for a man to cry why is he being a baby why is he being a sissy being a bitch 0.99

02:30:12.320 yeah it's gonna be like you women are gonna have an issue with it but in her example 1.00

02:30:20.000 um earlier if a girl were to do the same thing to like she didn't doesn't like something one 1.00

02:30:26.980 of the friends said at the table she leaves doesn't communicate anything and then sends a

02:30:31.420 picture of her crying that's also weird too i don't think that example is really that good

02:30:41.240 oh i was just bringing up one for funny yeah just to tell you guys it's funny yeah like it's really

02:30:45.800 situational well yeah really quick on the vulnerable thing so like crying would be a

02:30:50.640 form of vulnerability would you guys agree yes yeah and i respect but so i'll give you another

02:30:55.680 example of being vulnerable in front of a woman a woman which should you be in this position it

02:31:01.260 will be at your peril as a man so uh if you ever are in a state of weakness as a man and this could

02:31:07.860 be if you're okay i'll make it super simple if your girlfriend sees you get beat up

02:31:13.240 not all women yeah but there's a 50 there's a 50 where's your gun there's a 50 chance

02:31:22.040 she's lost maybe not all but a high portion of her attraction for you uh she's going to view you

02:31:32.000 in a different way whether consciously or subconsciously she might not even she might 0.99

02:31:37.200 be there you might take care of the guy when he's all fucked up or whatever just got his ass whooped 0.99

02:31:42.260 there's a part of you inside that you might not even know you're like 0.99

02:31:46.400 ooh

02:31:48.060 yeah I'm like ooh to the guy who beat him up

02:31:50.420 you know like

02:31:51.380 now look

02:31:54.540 I'm not saying all women

02:31:56.160 I'm not saying all women but this is something

02:31:58.400 that men have to be conscious of

02:31:59.900 and I mean

02:32:01.380 I'm trying to think there was a woman who went

02:32:04.380 on the Joe Rogan podcast

02:32:05.680 she was an MMA fighter herself

02:32:08.300 so of course I would assume she'd be

02:32:09.880 understanding because unless you're

02:32:11.980 an excellent MMA fighter

02:32:13.880 you lose

02:32:14.880 you do lose fights you get knocked out in fights she was dating another mma fighter

02:32:20.600 and uh or maybe she was a kickboxer or something i'm not sure but uh no i think she was mma fighter

02:32:27.480 her she saw her boyfriend get knocked out during a not like a street fight like a an mma an official

02:32:36.540 match you know and she was like oh when i saw him get knocked out and he got in the fencing 0.61

02:32:42.160 position or whatever the fuck she was like i dumped him right after and so and i look i have

02:32:49.680 my own anecdotal experiences i've heard from other men i can tell you my own experience i'm not going 0.95

02:32:55.040 to go super fully into detail uh i got jumped by three people so it wasn't like a 1v1 and you know

02:33:02.920 i didn't really have a fair chance i got jumped by three people this was many years ago and luckily

02:33:08.480 it wasn't that bad, but I did get punched and I was like, I got, um, I ended up on the ground 0.94

02:33:14.660 and like my fucking knee or something got fucked up. So I was like kind of limping for a little, 0.95

02:33:20.500 for a week. And I had like massive, uh, uh, like road rash or whatever. So like bruise, like skin

02:33:28.520 ripped off, whatever. And, uh, and so I was like in pain, kind of limping around. And, uh, right

02:33:36.500 after it happened i was seeing this girl for six months i call her up and i'm like hey i just got 0.99

02:33:42.300 i just got jumped come over babe she comes over to her credit you know helps me out takes care of

02:33:47.460 me but like there was an instant like switch and by the way i didn't cry i wasn't like oh my god

02:33:53.860 i was just like i told her what happened i got jumped she saw me all week limping whatever 0.92

02:34:00.680 the whole relationship changed ick well she never she never she sucks i think the wrong person 0.67

02:34:09.380 no she was actually i mean there's nothing i don't know but we never argued we were together 0.99

02:34:14.660 for six months never argued immediately she started fucking arguing with me immediately 1.00

02:34:21.100 because everything bothered her after that right me and so when that shift happens in a relationship 1.00

02:34:26.000 when it was smooth sailing and then she starts nagging and bickering and kind of testing you a 1.00

02:34:33.620 little bit yeah well one it's over but two she lost respect for you yep she lost respect for me 1.00

02:34:40.240 she lost and look not all women are like that but you're rolling the dice with a woman because you 1.00

02:34:45.700 don't really know what kind of woman sometimes even the woman doesn't know she doesn't even know

02:34:50.580 so you're rolling the dice and uh ultimately and you might say well brian you shouldn't date a

02:34:56.080 woman like that well you know i think somewhere deep down in the in the lizard brain men have a

02:35:01.920 lizard brain too but in the lizard brain of woman you see your boyfriend get beat up or like you see 1.00

02:35:08.720 him in the week like to you see your boyfriend being a little bitch you see your boyfriend uh 0.99

02:35:16.180 Well, how about this? 1.00

02:35:18.600 This was a couple months ago.

02:35:20.220 There was this viral video.

02:35:21.360 I think it was in Colombia or Peru or something.

02:35:25.980 A guy was with a girl.

02:35:28.320 And this thug on the street had like a knife.

02:35:32.740 And he tries to rob.

02:35:34.920 And he successfully robs the woman.

02:35:36.600 I saw that.

02:35:37.500 He successfully robs the woman of her purse. 0.62

02:35:40.640 And she was with a man.

02:35:41.920 Now, it's not clear if this was just a male friend.

02:35:44.340 Maybe it was a gay friend.

02:35:45.400 Who knows?

02:35:46.180 if it was a male friend or boyfriend or whatever,

02:35:48.900 but she was with a male companion.

02:35:52.260 And he didn't do anything.

02:35:53.580 He just stood by and he kind of,

02:35:57.580 he didn't like protect her or anything.

02:36:00.560 Everyone was on his case.

02:36:02.120 How could you not protect the woman?

02:36:04.700 And so I would say that in instances of either male vulnerability,

02:36:08.760 male weakness, or male cowardice,

02:36:10.980 women definitely, whether consciously or subconsciously,

02:36:14.400 judge men that was just the coward i mean i saw another guy that would it cowardice be

02:36:21.520 vulnerability yes to be coward hold on what could be more vulnerable then scared i don't know

02:36:29.100 how to deal with the life or death situation that would be that would be vulnerable that

02:36:36.820 would be vulnerable oh one shade of vulnerability well yeah but the for example if a woman sees a

02:36:43.660 rat scurrying across the floor and she shrieks and jumps up on the chair in the kitchen oh my

02:36:48.440 god can you get it i don't i'm like perhaps i mean if i was having a logical thought process

02:36:57.220 of it it seems like to some degree logically a bit of a disproportionate response uh however

02:37:02.500 i wouldn't lose attraction for a woman if she did that if a man did that oh if a man okay spider

02:37:11.680 Oh, my God. 1.00

02:37:13.000 Ew. 0.99

02:37:13.500 Shrieks. 0.99

02:37:14.220 Babe, can you kill the spider? 0.99

02:37:15.520 I'm scared.

02:37:16.940 You're going to, as a woman, you're going to lose attraction for the guy.

02:37:23.680 Vulnerability, though, that would be vulnerable.

02:37:26.220 Maybe a little bit. 1.00

02:37:27.120 So you shouldn't be vulnerable in front of women. 0.99

02:37:28.760 Well, can I share an experience?

02:37:30.340 Yeah, Dale.

02:37:30.660 A personal experience of mine?

02:37:32.040 Okay, so this was my most recent ex-boyfriend.

02:37:34.880 um on our first date we uh went to boston and we were sitting in his car and he got bad news like

02:37:43.960 about his mom and he immediately started crying in front of me and i wiped his tears and was very

02:37:50.760 comforting just instinctually i'm very caring and comforting and even like months later before we

02:37:56.900 broke up he said i just i just wanted to say thank you for being you know so understanding that he

02:38:01.680 felt comfortable enough to let loose like that in front of me. So I definitely think it's very

02:38:07.000 personable. Like it depends on the situation. But so that was one of my, you said something

02:38:13.900 happened to the mom? Yes. Like she died? Not that day, but she did end up passing. Yes. Okay. So I

02:38:20.040 mean, it was obviously something very severe. Yeah. That's one of my, you know, uh, grantings

02:38:25.720 there. I might've, I think perhaps I didn't include like, okay, so not death, but like they're in a

02:38:31.220 fucking terrible car accident and they're in a hospital. Yeah, that's fine. They could die. 0.97

02:38:38.600 Yeah, that's fine if the man cries in that instance. 0.92

02:38:41.140 I do have respect for men that feel comfortable enough in a woman's presence

02:38:45.680 to let go of their emotions.

02:38:47.920 Wait, I have two really good examples, but then I want to move on to the topic.

02:38:51.480 One example, this was actually another example from the show. It happened two, three months ago.

02:38:56.460 We had a woman on who one of the questions in the thing here is wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight or a woman should not be rejected because of her weight.

02:39:07.960 And the woman was arguing that it is wrong. 0.94

02:39:10.560 You shouldn't judge a woman because of her weight. 1.00

02:39:12.540 And she had a height preference. 0.54

02:39:14.280 And so I was like, you know, poking at her on that.

02:39:17.560 OK, hold on.

02:39:18.560 But you have a height preference.

02:39:21.240 By the way, if a woman doesn't want to date a guy because he's overweight, that's totally fine, too.

02:39:25.460 so i don't have a double standard women can reject men who are chubby overweight trust me i get it

02:39:30.860 all the time as a chubby man happens all the time totally totally acceptable thing for a woman to

02:39:37.580 a female preference but it's also okay for the male to have that preference and she's like well 0.55

02:39:42.080 i wouldn't date a guy who's under five foot ten and i was like well god if it's then it it either

02:39:49.500 has to be okay then for the man to reject a woman because of her weight because you're fine with 0.99

02:39:53.140 people rejecting people based on how they look right uh their appearance but then she was like

02:39:59.140 well wait it's different blah blah blah and then she just couldn't she just couldn't she literally

02:40:04.680 started crying though and like got not just crying got up and left and wait was she fat

02:40:12.120 no she was well you know what it might have been an extensive topic she's on the thinner side 0.92

02:40:17.400 oh so maybe it was like a tooth yeah yeah maybe she had maybe just something she had bulimia or

02:40:24.140 anorexia perhaps who knows so it could have been a sensitive subject in any case i really don't

02:40:29.140 think it's that sensitive um i wasn't like well tell me about how long you've been suffering with

02:40:34.060 bulimia no it was just like she was like she couldn't wrap her head around the idea that men

02:40:40.880 are allowed to not want to date a woman because of her weight now typically this is framed from

02:40:46.560 the perspective of the woman's fat but technically yes that maybe the woman's too thin like she's a

02:40:54.620 skeleton maybe she couldn't gain weight maybe that was like whatever things you know what i mean

02:40:58.080 but like everyone has the right to their own she's not gonna say that everyone has the right

02:41:01.980 to their own preference yeah but so she got upset with that conversation and she walked up 0.99

02:41:07.440 off and left and then like i got blamed everyone's like brian you're kind of a dick 0.97

02:41:13.220 no i was like anyways whatever uh then the the other example final thing on the crying thing 0.82

02:41:20.040 world of warcraft who's familiar with the game well you just showed us but i've heard it but 0.83

02:41:27.600 i have no idea how to play it yeah okay so this is crazy so actually i was being a little bitch 0.77

02:41:33.860 not gonna lie but 0.93

02:41:34.580 she just didn't understand so okay this was

02:41:39.780 what was that

02:41:42.820 what

02:41:44.000 when I talk about this

02:41:48.060 well games can be everything

02:41:49.720 World of Warcraft it's very emotional

02:41:51.840 you didn't see when he put it on

02:41:54.060 he was nerding out for like 30 seconds

02:41:55.880 he was like 10 words I didn't even know

02:41:57.660 let me explain it I'll explain it like this

02:41:59.780 so I'll cut to the

02:42:00.880 bulk of it so okay I was in the hardcore 0.98

02:42:03.820 you guys are not going to understand what the fuck I'm talking about 0.96

02:42:05.940 I was in a hardcore raiding guild 0.98

02:42:07.920 like the number one guild on the server

02:42:09.840 and there's politics in the game

02:42:12.200 like World of Warcraft is not just

02:42:14.160 Tetris

02:42:15.420 some people I guess can play that like 10 hours a day

02:42:18.280 World of Warcraft can be a game

02:42:20.540 where you're literally playing it

02:42:21.880 12 hours a day 1.00

02:42:23.120 hardcore gamer type shit 1.00

02:42:25.020 and people take that shit seriously 1.00

02:42:27.460 and there's 1.00

02:42:28.820 you play on a server

02:42:31.020 and there's like a social component

02:42:33.560 to MMO

02:42:35.460 it's MMORPG

02:42:37.220 massively multiplayer online role-playing game and so like if you're on a server maybe there's

02:42:43.800 a few thousand people on the server well i guess now they merge servers so it's like tens of

02:42:47.540 thousands of people but like you have your reputation and like there's social connections

02:42:52.080 and like you can have a good reputation or bad reputation and there's favorite and there's 0.90

02:42:56.920 guilds oh my god this is so fucking cringe such a nerd yeah the point here is i was in the top 0.78

02:43:01.960 guild and uh this is a game you invest hours into so it's not just like right you get invested 0.97

02:43:09.460 right and so uh i was in this guild and they had loot council they have got no fucking idea

02:43:16.120 i'm almost at the uh the finish line here though all right i was on the receiving end 0.63

02:43:24.160 of a really unfair loot distribution i should look people are gonna be like brian you're 0.97

02:43:31.500 fucking loot goblin by the way i don't play video games anymore i haven't touched a video game since 0.97

02:43:36.820 like essentially like i stopped playing video games since like 2020 i played like one week 0.97

02:43:43.180 two years ago but that's it uh you know had a little relapse he's in recovery i had a relapse

02:43:50.100 for like a month or no sorry a week but i was like i'm too busy with the podcast i don't have time

02:43:55.940 one week relapse haven't played video games since 2020 i was on the bad end of a bad loot deal

02:44:03.920 and my girlfriend was like kicking it in my bed while i was playing and i got i was like pissed

02:44:10.140 i was pissed because look you pour hours of work into this hours of work like just it's like 0.92

02:44:19.080 hours you're playing fucking eight nine ten hours a day uh and this was a period in my life where i 0.96

02:44:26.240 basically had fuck all going on so this was my main thing right very bad blue thing and it wasn't 0.99

02:44:35.920 the first time i got screwed over another so i was like oh man like what's going on i'm getting 0.96

02:44:40.740 screwed over in the guild and i actually so i actually decided to quit uh not long after but

02:44:48.400 that's besides the point but my girlfriend i was telling her i was telling her about what happened

02:44:53.780 very vulnerable that relationship was over within a month that's right yep yeah within a month it

02:45:01.380 was over yeah yeah it's a game yeah but i get it she was not happy yeah i didn't oh my god they

02:45:06.600 gave they gave they gave you the wrong loot like no they didn't give you enough they gave 0.74

02:45:11.540 perdition's blade perdition's blade like the fucking best dagger from ragnaros molten core 0.97

02:45:18.580 for like right you don't you don't get you don't replace perdition's blade for fucking months 0.99

02:45:25.460 that's your best in slot no like sure i understand what she knows what i'm talking about she plays 0.87

02:45:31.300 i do not but um i forgot to put it in my list but gamers like hardcore gamers like that huge

02:45:39.060 ick wait say that again huge ick um but yeah my ex was like in a huge gaming phase at some point i

02:45:55.600 was so annoyed it's so unproductive nothing you're not it's a it's doing anything good for

02:46:02.840 your future you're just in your room getting mad at a computer oh if it's like to that point where 0.99

02:46:07.980 it takes over your entire fucking life. 0.99

02:46:10.100 I understand that. 0.99

02:46:11.020 But I've seen some videos of girlfriends 0.97

02:46:13.740 purposely shutting off 1.00

02:46:15.940 their game when they're

02:46:17.920 so close to finishing. 0.99

02:46:19.080 I think it's fucked up. 0.99

02:46:20.480 And then they break up with him. 0.99

02:46:22.500 But you earned that. 1.00

02:46:24.640 You fucked over his entire 0.99

02:46:26.320 earning of that game of where he was 0.99

02:46:28.460 at that point.

02:46:29.480 I do think that there are some pros

02:46:32.380 to gaming.

02:46:33.860 There's definitely pros.

02:46:35.120 like i do think it actually in some ways like there's certain games that you will become smarter

02:46:41.460 if you play that game it'll help with your hand-eye coordination it'll help with organization 0.99

02:46:46.480 it'll help with like doing tasks in an expedient way like in world of warcraft oh shit like you 0.98

02:46:53.660 gotta if you're like leveling there's a way to maximize your level leveling routes and shit

02:46:58.820 that has that's life skill application right but in any case overall i think video games are a

02:47:07.040 distraction that's why i quit i don't play them anymore um but uh especially it depends if you

02:47:13.600 can do it in moderation but for me it wasn't and i've never been addicted i've never been addicted 0.98

02:47:20.220 to drugs or alcohol or smoking anything but video games oh boy i might as well be a fucking meth 0.96

02:47:26.660 fiend because i can't be casual with it i can't just play two hours yeah right i need to play 0.98

02:47:34.640 10 hours that's your life i think most men just kind of like that yeah so i'm like look i understand

02:47:41.920 you have to learn but related to the ick though that's an interesting segue for sure related to

02:47:46.880 the ick i think it's fair for women to have an apprehension uh to it's a fair preference to not

02:47:53.420 want to date a guy who um yeah close the door uh to not want to date a guy who plays video games

02:47:59.800 i think that's fair women have this preference it's hot but i think i think men men are willing

02:48:07.500 to acknowledge this to a degree now some some men will go on the defensive yeah

02:48:11.720 but i think it's fair for men to also make criticism of women's behavior but when men

02:48:20.380 criticize things women do women do a lot of defensiveness and do a lot of cope so for example

02:48:27.940 i would say i don't know what the what is the corresponding thing to video games 0.99

02:48:32.380 like what's the thing women do maybe i'll give a list social media maybe like it could be social 0.98

02:48:39.980 media usage it could be uh going out to bars and clubs and partying yep it could be dressing

02:48:46.120 revealing it could be sex work or only fans and then also make absolutely not i disagree uh plastic

02:48:52.660 surgery and makeup these are the things so these are the behaviors that men want to stifle in women

02:48:59.300 oh okay but you're not comparing it to gaming right because it's totally different everything

02:49:04.000 you just named is totally different than spending 10 hours on a game doing nothing

02:49:09.200 you know what i mean like all the things you just named like different yeah me doing social media 0.95

02:49:13.300 like let's say I want to get my boobs done

02:49:15.380 or I want to get something done, this is to make more money 1.00

02:49:17.480 you guys are just sitting there on a fucking game 1.00

02:49:19.200 doing nothing, being stinky 1.00

02:49:20.880 well so I would actually 0.80

02:49:22.140 some of them make money

02:49:24.600 I would disagree, like a competition or whatever

02:49:27.200 so they are different

02:49:28.960 but I would disagree as follows

02:49:30.860 I think

02:49:34.300 different in different ways, so for example

02:49:36.940 if your man's playing video games 0.98

02:49:39.480 he's not fucking 1.00

02:49:41.220 another bitch, he's at home 1.00

02:49:42.680 being a loser 1.00

02:49:43.960 right but he's at home 0.99

02:49:46.300 he's not cheating on you

02:49:48.560 if he's at home playing video games 0.99

02:49:50.000 whereas if a woman's at the bar 0.64

02:49:52.240 a woman's at the club 1.00

02:49:53.600 a woman's doing a 1.00

02:49:56.580 bachelorette trip 1.00

02:49:58.280 nah like y'all women 1.00

02:50:00.740 going to the clubs 1.00

02:50:01.580 bars, parties, drinking

02:50:03.780 hanging out with your single friends

02:50:05.740 men do that too

02:50:08.160 girls trips it's different

02:50:09.700 but he's not at the gym working out either

02:50:12.280 Sure. Yes. So I agree. So, uh, look, I think video games in moderation, uh, women can still

02:50:19.060 prefer against that, but video games in moderation, not such a big deal. 10 hours a day. I think it

02:50:24.160 is going to have an impact. Um, but, uh, and look, I, but I'm fine with women having the 1.00

02:50:30.560 anti-video game preference, but women seem to really push back against the don't be going to 0.99

02:50:37.280 club. Don't be dressing in a certain way. Don't be partying. Don't be drinking. Don't be going 0.99

02:50:41.860 on girls trips don't be doing xyz women do not like that conversation yeah no that's fair that's

02:50:51.880 valid i don't know it depends on who it is can i give a example club and everything i understand

02:50:57.900 that um and then obviously like dressing too revealing i can also understand that

02:51:02.620 that this guy just said um only fans obviously don't worry about that only fans obviously

02:51:07.660 Thank you, Pasty George.

02:51:08.860 He has a crush on Brian.

02:51:11.420 He is Canadian. 1.00

02:51:12.460 But hey, Pasty George, I don't know if you caught Canadian. 0.98

02:51:14.960 Well, she's got a boyfriend.

02:51:15.860 Yeah, he mentioned earlier, he talked about them.

02:51:17.660 He said, be careful, Chair 4, your friend C2 is jealous of you.

02:51:21.940 Did you guys read that?

02:51:22.720 Yeah, I saw that.

02:51:23.860 I saw that.

02:51:24.600 I was like, ooh.

02:51:25.320 Oh, I didn't see that. 1.00

02:51:26.700 Just another example of men not knowing what the fuck is going on. 0.99

02:51:28.640 Hold on, we have a chat here real quick. 0.99

02:51:31.840 Here, let me have you read that.

02:51:33.880 Yeah, of her.

02:51:34.440 Hold on, I'll stop.

02:51:35.640 Go ahead, read it.

02:51:37.660 before it disappears read it slowly one two three four awg2 donated 100 oh sorry check check out

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02:51:59.440 of h hour podcast all right thank you man for the uh message thank you soli uh okay so there's that

02:52:05.840 Anyways, I don't know where I was going with that, but the video game thing.

02:52:08.480 Yeah, how about this? 1.00

02:52:09.540 I think when a woman's in a relationship, she should not be going out to the bar or club, period. 0.99

02:52:17.100 Can a man? 0.97

02:52:17.880 With her man or without her man?

02:52:19.200 Well, so here's where it differentiates.

02:52:21.620 Who with?

02:52:22.880 The men should not go to bars and clubs, period. 1.00

02:52:26.740 They're retarded venues. 1.00

02:52:28.960 Like, it's actually retarded. 1.00

02:52:30.640 Oh. 1.00

02:52:31.300 Yeah.

02:52:32.340 So you'd never go?

02:52:34.200 I went a few times when I was younger, but no, I haven't been to a bar or club in probably over a decade.

02:52:39.660 No?

02:52:40.260 Well, you also don't drink.

02:52:42.140 Not even, like, a chill bar?

02:52:44.420 So when I say bar or club, I'm typically, like, obviously there's, like, more lounge-type environments where you might meet up with a friend, and it's not a party environment.

02:52:55.720 Okay.

02:52:56.620 That's a bit different.

02:52:57.600 Like, I'm trying to think an example.

02:53:01.020 Like when I say bars and clubs, these are, I'm talking about party.

02:53:05.700 Like there's bars that are like party clubs.

02:53:08.120 Like nightlife.

02:53:09.280 Nightlife.

02:53:09.800 Okay.

02:53:10.040 Yeah.

02:53:10.640 Like dance floors.

02:53:11.800 So I don't think men should go out period.

02:53:15.440 But so I guess yes in the relationship also, but it's different.

02:53:21.660 What's different?

02:53:22.720 Okay.

02:53:23.100 So for example, men and women, would you agree with me that men and women have different strategies when it comes to dating?

02:53:31.020 Yes. So for example, men will like say before the advent of social media, it still is the case

02:53:39.480 for social media and dating apps before social media, uh, men would go up to women. Generally

02:53:46.560 speaking, men would make the first move. Agree. They're supposed to. Yeah. Right. And so typically, 1.00

02:53:52.580 so women might put themselves in a venue that gives men access to approach them. So women, 1.00

02:54:00.460 are not like uh they are i suppose passive they're not active in the sense that when you'll 1.00

02:54:08.800 never see a woman who's like a pickup artist go out to a bar and like approach like 10 dudes in

02:54:14.500 a row me okay i'm kidding i'm kidding so you don't really see that like but as a guy um if if you're

02:54:22.340 trying to mack on girls in a bar or a club he might go up to 10 different girls in a night right

02:54:28.320 um 10 20 30 whatever he's shooting his shot women don't do that women will put themselves 0.85

02:54:35.080 in a situation to be approached though when men and women get into relationships

02:54:40.020 we say you have to we say to men and i technically women too even though women don't do it to begin

02:54:48.980 with you can't go up to new people and hit on them you need to stop men have to stop their behavior 0.53

02:54:57.580 when they're in a relationship. We don't put it. We don't stifle what women do when they're in a 1.00

02:55:07.000 relationship. And so because we have different strategies, women, you're not going to like go 1.00

02:55:13.180 up and hit on a guy or slide in his DMS. Although sometimes you do, sometimes you can, but you might, 1.00

02:55:17.700 you might post photos on Instagram. You might thirst trap on Instagram and you wait for the

02:55:22.640 men to come to you. That's your strategy as women. That's fair. You might go to a bar or club. You 1.00

02:55:28.940 might not go up to a man, but you might be in the venue. And look, I get it. You don't just go to

02:55:36.780 the bar and club just to get a dick. I get it. But if a really handsome, cool, attractive guy 1.00

02:55:42.820 happens to be there and talks to you, you're not going to just instantly necessarily shut that down

02:55:47.460 if you're single. So if you're in a relationship, I believe the man should, of course, not be

02:55:54.140 approaching women. That's his strategy when he's single. Why aren't we having a conversation about

02:55:59.920 shutting down women's strategy when they're clearly in the relationship? You got to shut 1.00

02:56:05.200 down your methods of procuring men. So the entire time women are in fucking full-blown monogamous 1.00

02:56:12.440 relationships and married y'all are still advertising us men we're salesmen we are salesmen 0.99

02:56:18.600 we're going out there y'all are marketers you guys market and you continue marketing throughout

02:56:25.000 the relationship and throughout the marriage i don't really think so i think some women are very

02:56:31.720 happy with their men and they're not doing all that right well okay yes fine then if they're

02:56:36.180 not doing all that perfect they're doing what they should do if you're in a relationship you

02:56:40.920 You can't be posting thirst traps on Instagram. 0.99

02:56:43.140 You've got to put your shit private. 1.00

02:56:45.320 Oh, I know. 1.00

02:56:46.100 I 100% disagree, bro. 1.00

02:56:47.640 You've got to put your shit private, and you should not be going to bars and clubs. 1.00

02:56:51.540 Period. 1.00

02:56:52.200 That is fine, but if I'm in a relationship, if I'm on vacation, I can't post a picture in a bikini or something because I'm in a relationship.

02:56:58.200 Nope.

02:56:58.400 I just feel like, why?

02:57:00.340 Because I said so.

02:57:01.740 Oh, so you make all the rules, basically, is what you're saying.

02:57:04.360 Yes, I am the dictator.

02:57:09.860 Yeah.

02:57:10.920 uh tiffany can you get water for if oh yeah if any of you need water maybe just like hold it up

02:57:16.760 and my assistant will get it for you guys okay i personally i i want to be more like onto like

02:57:22.480 social media like a content creator like influencer type situation that's like the end

02:57:27.620 goal hopefully um so i don't know if i'd i'd get rid of like certain things but i wouldn't

02:57:33.800 i don't know about maybe deleting my whole instagram i go private but like

02:57:39.140 that kind of defeats the whole purpose of trying to be an influencer especially like on tiktok and

02:57:44.240 stuff like yeah well the other reason you shouldn't date influencers is because they'll literally use

02:57:49.980 your relationship as content and like um so i don't know that's another issue that's why i'm 1.00

02:57:58.920 like highly averse to dating any women who are involved in social media because they'll just

02:58:05.960 use the breakup for content then again well of course it depends on the creator yeah like not

02:58:12.060 everyone i suppose but like like i'm a private i'm a private individual when it comes to my

02:58:18.320 relationships and uh relationships should not relationship issues should never be litigated

02:58:28.700 in the public sphere ever no exactly but literally like look i guess men can do this too

02:58:35.200 but women will literally be making tiktoks about guys they're actively dating and i'm like bro

02:58:43.740 how can you date a woman who's literally airing out everything like no no that is absolutely yeah

02:58:51.500 i agree that it definitely depends on like the person obviously well i'm i personally am not

02:58:57.360 one to go do that so i have seen that so i know exactly what you mean but beyond that like i don't

02:59:02.840 even I mean putting social media aside if you're in a relationship with somebody I don't even think

02:59:10.040 unless it's like really something insane I think it's really toxic when and men can do this too

02:59:16.800 but girls y'all talk with each other and I think it's toxic when in a relationship now look there's 0.71

02:59:24.600 on one hand I think it's fair to attempt to get advice from your girlfriend 1.00

02:59:28.360 you will a woman will poison the well with her entire friend group because she's constantly 1.00

02:59:35.820 complaining about her boyfriend my perspective i don't know if i'm old school this can be family 0.99

02:59:42.580 too you do not talk shit or just like dump about potential conflict to your family or friends 1.00

02:59:52.300 about your partner because yeah are you going to dump him right okay fucking dump him and then 1.00

02:59:58.940 fine but if you're going to keep dating the guy and you're just oh my god my boyfriend's fucking 1.00

03:00:03.580 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah yeah yeah i agree and then it's just poisoning the well and 0.99

03:00:08.540 then you're going to stay with them and then i'm going to be meeting your friends and your friends 0.99

03:00:11.160 fucking hate me yeah now i'm of course i'm a perfect gentleman and my girlfriend would never 0.98

03:00:16.320 think to say anything hypothetical yeah no i totally i totally would never think to ever say 0.99

03:00:20.540 anything negative but guys do that too ever so it goes both ways like like men shouldn't be talking 0.97

03:00:26.620 shit about their girlfriends to their guys suffer in silence men suffer in silence we don't really 0.96

03:00:31.400 laugh yeah i say no a lot of men like for example a lot of guys hold on let me y'all friends right 1.00

03:00:38.060 yeah yeah c'est bien ça et bien don't she's had some new experiences right

03:00:45.940 has she told you about the experiences as her friend i've witnessed them you you were in the 0.99

03:00:53.260 bedroom seeing it wait hold on that was just a joke but she might was this a threesome threesome 0.55

03:01:00.880 next question whoa what you lost your virginity in the threesome no no no no no no that would be 0.99

03:01:07.680 have you had a threesome i want to return you want what i want to answer wait have you had 0.98

03:01:14.280 a threesome though i won't answer i think that's a yes i guess that i guess yeah i guess we're 1.00

03:01:20.120 different though damn bro losing virginities and threesomes and all this shit no that's a no 0.99

03:01:26.220 okay all right more than the threesome no who hears show of hands who's that threesome 1.00

03:01:30.800 foursome gangbang bukkake i know no okay no i don't know you could have a non-okay

03:01:37.580 okay uh nobody else threesome three threesome when i was real young yeah so yeah yeah look i

03:01:47.420 haven't i have not had a threesome um no i you know the thing is uh i would

03:01:53.600 but like i'm not gonna go out of my way okay like it has to fall into my lap like it has to my

03:02:00.400 girlfriend has to be like do all the lifting she has to here's a threesome silver platter 0.98

03:02:06.440 otherwise i ain't doing that shit so you're saying it has to be her idea 1.00

03:02:09.980 pretty much it would have to be her idea she would have to do the leg work 0.99

03:02:14.320 or it could just like spontaneously fall into my lap but i'm not going to be like hey babe

03:02:19.520 let's organize a three no she i mean she can come to me with it but i okay generally speaking though

03:02:26.840 look i don't know well i'm happy with one girl any it's like i don't want to disappoint two

03:02:31.940 women at the same time i'd rather rather rather just disappoint one woman at the time you know

03:02:37.760 so it's like you know right what what if she wants a dude in there not a chick whoa no hold on 1.00

03:02:44.620 no absolute no when i hold on first off blasphemy oh god that's fucking that guy that's fucking 1.00

03:02:54.160 haram two dudes two dudes and a woman fucking haram no the only acceptable threesome muslim 0.99

03:03:02.220 no oh then why would you say right i mean it's arabic right or whatever i don't know 0.99

03:03:08.020 the only acceptable threesome is two women and one man it's not that fun though i don't know

03:03:16.500 i'd be pissed for you i guess yeah brought another girl i don't know have you been eiffel towered

03:03:21.020 I agree.

03:03:21.580 What's Eiffel Tower?

03:03:22.560 Two dudes.

03:03:23.800 Oh, no.

03:03:24.540 I wish, though.

03:03:25.200 That'd be so fun.

03:03:26.360 Can I pick?

03:03:28.960 I don't know.

03:03:29.660 No, honestly, I might start laughing.

03:03:31.280 Those type of situations. 0.98

03:03:32.600 If I see their dick touchy or something, or one guy's thigh touch another guy's thigh, 0.99

03:03:37.080 bro, I'm laughing. 0.99

03:03:37.940 I'll be like, did you like that?

03:03:39.180 That was weird.

03:03:41.220 So anyways.

03:03:43.600 When I'm with someone, I love them too much. 1.00

03:03:45.500 And I'll get pissed if he wants to bring in another girl.

03:03:48.220 Yeah, that's too territorial.

03:03:49.480 I'm not even wanting to be with another guy.

03:03:52.140 Wait, are you wearing a cross? 0.96

03:03:53.960 Hmm?

03:03:54.380 Is that a cross?

03:03:55.100 No, it's a star.

03:03:56.280 Oh, okay.

03:03:57.160 It looked like a cross.

03:03:58.400 I was about to go in.

03:03:59.180 That was ammo right there.

03:04:01.380 Yeah, I was about to go in.

03:04:03.060 Wait, what were we talking about?

03:04:04.460 We were talking about three-somethings.

03:04:05.240 No, but before that, before the three-something.

03:04:08.380 What were we talking about?

03:04:09.740 I think you guys were talking about telling the family.

03:04:12.100 Yeah, you were asking if they were friends.

03:04:12.460 Yeah, you were asking if they were friends.

03:04:14.260 Thank you.

03:04:15.240 Okay, so have you shared intimate details

03:04:19.460 about your intimate experiences

03:04:21.060 with your friend, Chyna.

03:04:23.360 No. 0.93

03:04:23.820 Chyna. 0.60

03:04:24.700 Chyna. 0.95

03:04:25.460 Like the country.

03:04:26.600 Where'd you get that name from?

03:04:27.240 That was also my name.

03:04:28.480 Oh, you guys want to know

03:04:29.480 why my parents called me Chyna?

03:04:31.100 Because of the wrestler?

03:04:32.360 No.

03:04:33.020 Oh. 0.99

03:04:33.580 Because they made me in Chyna. 1.00

03:04:36.440 Oh. 1.00

03:04:37.240 Made in Chyna. 0.99

03:04:38.600 All right. 0.96

03:04:39.080 Made in Chyna. 1.00

03:04:39.660 That's a fun little fact. 0.95

03:04:41.060 I'm literally made in Chyna. 0.97

03:04:42.200 Do you have a tattoo? 1.00

03:04:42.980 Oh, she has a tattoo.

03:04:43.980 Yeah. 0.97

03:04:45.160 Oh my God, I have made in Japan.

03:04:47.160 wait you have a bit of a hair strand pull it back like there's a hair covering it oh yeah 0.96

03:04:53.580 yeah right wow yep made in china wow that is that's actually cool i love that damn now i

03:05:01.920 wish my name was china well it was almost china you know they say though the things that are made 0.87

03:05:10.400 in china are typically low quality oh that was a nice brain no it's true like they no it's not 0.67

03:05:16.820 the humans no i'm just saying like maybe the products yeah the product the product quality

03:05:21.900 like for example certain certain plastics or like metal metal that's produced in china

03:05:27.580 typically not the highest quality my mom is also a half chinese so it she was just randomly on that

03:05:34.920 trip wait your mom's half chinese yeah i'm a quarter wait so what's your breakdown i'm mostly

03:05:40.000 indigenous but i'm a quarter chinese wait so you're you don't know what like indian hold on

03:05:46.900 you're oh indian oh okay cool you're 75 indigenous and 25 chinese yeah you got some european yeah 1.00

03:05:54.740 hold on you got some european your dad's white as fuck what are you talking about 0.99

03:05:58.680 well he looked white his dad was 100 indigenous and his mother was half do you are you part of 1.00

03:06:04.800 a tribe uh where i'm all gone quinn fire sweet i love that for you thank you that's dope i just

03:06:13.340 figured out who you look like i was trying to figure out this whole time have you seen bring

03:06:16.460 it on yeah yeah you know the the coach the girl before they brought in torrance oh big red

03:06:23.540 big red she does look like her bro

03:06:25.980 big red I started to figure it out

03:06:28.400 the whole time

03:06:29.420 I was looking at the thing and I was like

03:06:31.820 you would be big red if her hair was 0.87

03:06:34.600 brown you would be big red 1.00

03:06:35.700 I get 0.81

03:06:38.720 Georgina Rodriguez

03:06:41.660 the soccer player's wife

03:06:44.980 and like Dua Lipa

03:06:46.820 I guess you do 1.00

03:06:47.980 what the fuck were your parents doing in China 1.00

03:06:50.440 my dad was 1.00

03:06:52.380 coaching

03:06:53.300 Chinese Hockey League?

03:06:56.560 No, it was like a training camp.

03:06:58.720 Oh. And my mom came with

03:07:00.780 and things

03:07:02.860 happened.

03:07:05.020 Okay. 1.00

03:07:06.280 I want my children made in the United 0.90

03:07:08.820 States. 1.00

03:07:09.960 I was waiting for some shit like that, bro. 1.00

03:07:12.100 Made in the USA. 1.00

03:07:14.800 Made in the USA.

03:07:15.960 Very patriotic of you.

03:07:18.480 That's cool. China's fire.

03:07:20.500 Were you born in China? No.

03:07:22.020 I was born in Vancouver.

03:07:24.580 Vancouver.

03:07:25.240 Because my dad was playing for the Canucks.

03:07:27.140 The Canucks.

03:07:28.040 Why have I heard of that?

03:07:29.720 How I Met Your Mother.

03:07:31.360 Yeah.

03:07:31.900 What are some Canadian things I could say?

03:07:35.260 Poutine.

03:07:36.220 Poutine.

03:07:38.460 Sorry.

03:07:40.540 I'm sorry.

03:07:41.300 A boot.

03:07:41.900 A boot.

03:07:42.880 We don't really say that.

03:07:43.780 What's that?

03:07:44.920 About.

03:07:45.980 A boot.

03:07:46.400 A boot.

03:07:47.580 All right.

03:07:48.280 I get it.

03:07:48.620 South Park does Canada. 0.99

03:07:50.580 Apparently we say a lot of like A's.

03:07:52.920 And you guys are like eat donuts and like are happy all the time, right?

03:07:56.800 Oh, the talking, the talking.

03:07:58.960 Yeah, I think that, I don't know, y'all women, y'all share more with each other. 0.99

03:08:04.180 Yeah. 1.00

03:08:04.540 When it comes to intimate detail. 0.68

03:08:05.940 No, not all women.

03:08:07.140 Maybe not all groups of friends or whatever.

03:08:10.000 But like I do think there is this idea, like, I don't know, some, I've overheard some of y'all conversations.

03:08:15.980 I've done research.

03:08:17.480 I undercover like you know I'm just I'm just in the bushes and I've heard y'all's private 0.96

03:08:24.260 conversations like I'm an anthropologist sociologist in the field uh I got khakis on and all that shit

03:08:31.400 and I hear over here y'all talking man you guys share some details like sex details y'all talk 0.99

03:08:37.640 about sex like crazy like y'all be talking about dick sizes and where he nut and what it tastes 0.99

03:08:45.420 like what you did and it was like the viscosity and like the fucking the the the what no not 1.00

03:08:52.400 what's the word girth the the the i forgot the fucking word for it but y'all be talking about 0.99

03:09:01.020 crazy shit if i sleep with a woman and my my buddy asked me oh man how'd it go last night 0.99

03:09:07.020 you were you were hanging out with uh becky i'll be like it was good bullshit that's that's it 1.00

03:09:14.320 What if it wasn't bullshit? 0.99

03:09:16.760 Okay, fine. 1.00

03:09:17.620 It's boring, but it's showing respect for Becky because I'm not just airing out, oh, yeah, her pussy lips were perfect. 1.00

03:09:25.500 They were so fucking big. 1.00

03:09:27.040 Pussy lips huge. 1.00

03:09:28.060 Big labia matter. 1.00

03:09:29.080 Giant pussy lips. 1.00

03:09:29.940 The biggest pussy lips ever. 1.00

03:09:31.320 No, I keep that shit a secret because you never know. 1.00

03:09:35.080 Look, I got good friends, right? 1.00

03:09:37.220 But maybe who knows?

03:09:38.100 Maybe they got a thing too, and they're trying to roll up and snatch. 0.97

03:09:41.460 Big labia matter. 1.00

03:09:42.500 Pull that shit up. 1.00

03:09:43.220 big labia matter son i'm just saying i gotta keep that shit under wraps i can't be telling my male 1.00

03:09:48.700 friends she's got a giant like a giant pussy lips you know i can't be saying that i gotta keep that 0.99

03:09:54.540 shit under wraps for me okay good talk i feel like i've never like said oh this guy like i 1.00

03:10:01.980 fuck this guy he has a really big dick and my friend was like you know what let me like try 0.99

03:10:05.380 to slide in there that's a shitty brand yeah yeah like i don't think i've ever had to do i know what 1.00

03:10:09.660 happens but i don't think i've ever had to deal with that i think like my friends are just like

03:10:12.940 oh what happened like was it good we're just curious yeah we're talking about it wait hold

03:10:17.100 on i'm sure in the history of women sharing details about men a woman has been like holy 0.99

03:10:22.720 shit he was the most amazing sex ever blah blah blah uh somewhere in the female brain i feel like 0.97

03:10:27.600 that triggers a curiosity not so if you have like a best friend maybe you're sharing all the details 1.00

03:10:34.080 best friends do each other dirty sometimes i'm just saying okay then they're not your friend

03:10:38.480 Hey males will do it too 0.96

03:10:40.500 Sometimes the men 1.00

03:10:41.340 Men pillow talk more than bitches 1.00

03:10:43.640 I used to have a lot of male friends 1.00

03:10:46.440 And they talked very dirty

03:10:48.220 All the time

03:10:49.680 Well this is perhaps a class thing

03:10:53.040 As a sophisticated

03:10:55.260 Oh right

03:10:56.480 Sophisticated

03:10:59.080 Ex-gamer

03:10:59.740 As a sophisticated

03:11:02.940 Sophisticated

03:11:04.200 Sophisticated man 0.96

03:11:07.160 I never talk about my sexual conquests 0.65

03:11:09.540 ever. No, I seriously

03:11:10.840 jokes aside, I actually don't

03:11:13.200 like, I would never

03:11:14.660 they don't even know if we hooked up, they don't know if we've

03:11:17.220 had sex. I'd literally

03:11:19.300 literally, hey Brian, how'd it

03:11:21.280 go? It was good. We had a good time.

03:11:23.400 That's it. You don't be like, I smashed?

03:11:25.940 No. So if you had the best sex of your life, you wouldn't want to tell

03:11:29.220 someone? You're not going to tell your homie? Like if that was the best 1.00

03:11:31.120 performance you've ever had, you wouldn't

03:11:33.160 want to be like, let me tell my friend. 0.98

03:11:35.060 No, you could tell your girl that was the best sex. 0.96

03:11:37.180 No, well, here's the thing with that. 0.82

03:11:38.780 Even if it is the best sex, you should not tell the girl the sex was really good.

03:11:43.000 Now, here's why.

03:11:44.180 This is going to be toxic.

03:11:45.500 I'm going to put you on some game, though.

03:11:46.720 I don't get it. 1.00

03:11:48.200 If the girl is really fucking good in bed, you can't boost her ego like that. 1.00

03:11:52.980 Stop. 1.00

03:11:53.760 Now, look, look. 1.00

03:11:54.520 Two years down when she's locked in, then you can boost her ego.

03:11:59.240 Then you can tell her.

03:12:00.820 But, like, right away, you've got to pump the brakes a little bit. 0.99

03:12:03.100 you got to like make her keep her on edge a little bit make her think the the oral sex game 1.00

03:12:10.260 you know you can't be letting on too soon that the sex is too bomb because then she thinks 0.99

03:12:16.680 there's this old eddie murphy joke very old this is some boomer shit he had this comedy special 0.98

03:12:23.820 called i think it was raw i think it was from raw yes it was no what's his other one there's raw 0.78

03:12:28.780 and then there's wait chat his like his specials from the 80s there's raw and then there's like 0.81

03:12:35.460 starts with an i infamous or wait fuck delirious wait delir is it delirious delirious it was from 0.93

03:12:44.640 raw so once a man makes a hold on let me start over okay i'm not gonna do the bit no but so 0.97

03:12:55.320 once and i'm gonna butcher his joke and we can't play it because copyright he says we know we've

03:13:02.820 got the woman once we've made her come real good like when she i don't even want to do it because 0.98

03:13:10.340 it's cringe as fuck it's like if you make a woman go if you make a woman if you make a woman go like 1.00

03:13:17.500 that you're in the pillow like i got this motherfucking that like that's you got that girl 1.00

03:13:23.680 but so as a man you can't let a girl know too soon that the otherwise that the pussy is bomb 1.00

03:13:31.140 you can't not too soon you can't let let it on too soon you can't let on that the sex is too good 0.99

03:13:37.840 she's gonna get too confident confident you know yeah because you can't fake like like i don't fake

03:13:43.180 an orgasm i'm just saying you can't you can't let if he's not doing it for me i'm not gonna let him

03:13:48.260 Because then she's like 0.99

03:13:52.780 She's going to start slacking 1.00

03:13:54.040 She's going to start slacking 1.00

03:13:56.020 If she's like I got this 1.00

03:13:58.180 Fucking that like if you're too 1.00

03:13:59.740 If you're pussy whipped 1.00

03:14:00.660 If she thinks you're pussy whipped 1.00

03:14:03.420 You can't let it on too soon 1.00

03:14:06.260 I so disagree with that

03:14:07.500 Just saying

03:14:08.980 You gotta get better

03:14:11.380 Yeah

03:14:12.800 No because look you don't also 1.00

03:14:15.680 Like let's say she gives good head

03:14:17.680 let's say she gives you a plus head first time yeah you gotta tell her b minus now here's why

03:14:26.020 here's why always room for improvement if you just tell her out the gate maybe she was holding 1.00

03:14:31.920 back too maybe she's on some super saiyan shit where the head it's like she but she's gonna stop 0.98

03:14:37.780 there you gotta get to b minus and then she'll try harder next time interesting yeah that's so 0.99

03:14:43.980 My grand plie was an A+.

03:14:45.540 What's that?

03:14:46.380 My grand plie was an A+.

03:14:49.140 Her plie.

03:14:50.880 No, I was being honest. 1.00

03:14:52.700 That shit was a B-. 1.00

03:14:54.240 That shit was still a B-. 1.00

03:14:56.760 Still a B-. 1.00

03:14:58.000 I'm just saying.

03:14:59.440 I'm just saying.

03:15:01.260 Look, you can't let... 1.00

03:15:03.500 Now, I think the woman should simp, though, right away. 1.00

03:15:06.040 Oh, God. 1.00

03:15:06.700 The woman needs to be... 1.00

03:15:08.120 The woman needs to be confessing her love to you within two weeks. 1.00

03:15:12.520 that's what the woman should be doing 1.00

03:15:14.880 men run away at that 1.00

03:15:16.100 the woman needs to be 0.99

03:15:17.380 look I think there's a right 1.00

03:15:20.440 well if the man runs away he wasn't that

03:15:23.020 into you but

03:15:24.120 not in like a stalker 1.00

03:15:26.900 I'm going to murder you sort of way 0.97

03:15:28.600 like not in that way you shouldn't be like 1.00

03:15:31.080 not wide eyed

03:15:34.020 but you got to tell the guy

03:15:36.040 like but I mean look obviously it's better

03:15:39.000 it should be true okay

03:15:40.820 It's got to be true. 1.00

03:15:41.980 Don't fake the shit. 1.00

03:15:43.580 Yeah. 1.00

03:15:44.280 But don't hold.

03:15:44.880 What I'm saying is if you do really feel that strongly about the guy, don't hold back. 0.99

03:15:49.020 If you really feel strongly about the guy, even early on, you got to say that shit right away. 0.99

03:15:54.520 No. 1.00

03:15:54.880 We need a girl. 1.00

03:15:55.960 Men need a woman obsessed. 0.99

03:15:57.300 But should men? 1.00

03:15:58.260 Should men if they feel it?

03:15:59.640 Yeah.

03:16:00.280 Nope.

03:16:00.920 Not always.

03:16:02.260 That is the recipe to, nope, you cannot let a girl too early know how much you're, if

03:16:08.180 you're too into a girl you gotta basically uh no why is that just now can you explain to me why 0.60

03:16:15.100 though like because women do not okay hold on how do i want to frame this

03:16:22.740 women are inundated with sims women are inundated with male validation male attention

03:16:34.500 inundated and so um i don't think women will respect that i agree actually if the guy look

03:16:46.620 because i think the best the best relationship dynamic the girl has to be more into you

03:16:52.620 than you're into the girl oh my god no i agree with what you first said but the second part

03:16:58.620 Like in love

03:17:02.860 Okay sure I'm willing to grant that

03:17:06.280 However I think often time

03:17:08.620 There's an

03:17:10.340 Unequal interest level

03:17:13.020 Usually

03:17:13.860 Most of the time there's

03:17:16.620 One person who's more into the other

03:17:18.820 Now I'm not saying

03:17:19.840 You can still really be into the person

03:17:22.480 Or be into the person

03:17:24.920 Maybe not really

03:17:25.680 But the other person is more into you 0.97

03:17:28.320 than the reverse and it it needs to be the woman it needs to be the woman because it's funny our 0.92

03:17:34.860 mothers teach us the opposite yeah but it's a bad recipe i think it's a bad recipe for men

03:17:40.200 to be too too much onto the girl i think i don't know well then it's like validating to us

03:17:47.080 if we express it yeah but you guys already get validation

03:17:50.760 we don't want it from other men we don't want it from other men come on brian or most girls who 0.98

03:17:59.660 want to be in an actual like legit relationship and not just like fucking attention seeking you 0.88

03:18:05.380 know what i mean right like yeah i'm gonna be with a man like it's gonna be reciprocated 0.59

03:18:10.160 i look sometimes there can be a genuine like equally like equal level of interest but

03:18:20.460 i don't know i don't think it works out that well if the man is too into the girl

03:18:27.440 like it's just i okay when you said that i agree a little bit because like look if a man comes off

03:18:32.280 hella strong on me like oh my god i'm in love with you i'm like ew right right so i do i do

03:18:37.960 value like the the chase a little bit you know what I mean like oh okay like he's not super into

03:18:42.660 me because you are right like men do that all day right to me so I guess it is a little bit

03:18:46.940 different when the guy is like yeah like you know less that way then I'm like okay cool you know I

03:18:52.020 mean but yeah I agree with that but the other part you said no not really I thought it's considered

03:18:56.660 thirsty if a girl is like shows she's too into a guy and then so that's my approach in dating I

03:19:04.640 just don't show anything i look there's obviously different men out there my personal perspective

03:19:13.360 is i like a woman who's up front it doesn't mean she needs to be uh i i still want to be

03:19:20.460 in the lead but there's ways in a feminine way for a woman to be demonstrate her interest in you 0.99

03:19:26.760 and frankly i i do think it's feminine if a woman's just fucking simping all over you 0.99

03:19:31.720 like that's not masculine for a woman to be like oohing and aahing and gushing all over you 0.99

03:19:38.260 you see that dynamic though like if a woman's dealing with a guy who's just like frankly way 1.00

03:19:43.520 above her league like you might see that uh with a celebrity basically like these women are fucking 0.98

03:19:49.960 gushing over uh fucking who knows jesse brown or whatever like are they lacking in femininity and 0.98

03:19:56.600 they're like fucking gushing over him i don't think so i don't think that that's like somehow 1.00

03:20:00.460 masculine uh but there's something like if uh fuck what's if oh man there's this great saying 0.99

03:20:08.300 maybe somebody in the chat it's not coming to me somebody in the chat help me uh if you 0.99

03:20:13.660 it's something along the lines like this somebody can correct me if you put her on a pedestal she'll

03:20:19.180 treat you like a fan wait what what is it if you treat her like a what is what is that saying

03:20:25.960 Somebody in the chat knows what I'm talking about

03:20:27.640 Like she'll treat

03:20:29.000 Blank, blank, blank

03:20:30.380 She'll treat you like a fan

03:20:32.140 Chat, hello

03:20:34.700 Help me out, chat

03:20:36.220 Help a brother out 1.00

03:20:38.700 I think that was the pussy on a pedestal 1.00

03:20:40.740 Wasn't that a song? 1.00

03:20:42.400 That's Kendrick Lamar

03:20:43.460 I'm like, what are you talking about?

03:20:46.740 I can't even think, I'm like hot

03:20:48.200 If you treat her like a star 0.80

03:20:51.380 She'll treat you like a fan 0.88

03:20:53.360 uh well but can am i wrong to say like when when a woman is single and men are you know actively

03:21:05.740 swiping up or giving us compliments it's like good to feel validated but when there's that one

03:21:11.480 guy that you're really trying to take interest in if he's not taking similar interest you're like

03:21:17.200 okay well i have all these other options why am i going to chase after this one person that's not

03:21:21.420 giving me the same amount of attention that i'm giving him like am i wrong to say that as to why

03:21:27.940 i feel like the woman shouldn't be simping more than the man like it should just be equal

03:21:33.280 i think on the other way around if a guy had like interest in five different girls four are like

03:21:43.600 on their knees like oh my god like obsessed with that with him and there's one that's like

03:21:49.540 yeah you're cool but like that's usually the one i think he's going to be drawn to that

03:21:53.520 like fifth girl that's that's usually what i want but what i'm saying is like

03:21:57.660 if if i know that like open the door please go ahead continue oh if i if i know that

03:22:05.880 someone out there is going to give me the attention that i'm looking for but this one

03:22:10.600 guy that is claiming they're interested in me and that wants to pursue me is not giving me

03:22:15.620 the attention or the interest that i feel like i deserve why would i keep letting him you know

03:22:21.180 what i mean like keep me dangling you know because to me if you're not giving me that interest you're

03:22:26.820 just keeping me down like that's not fair no now you shouldn't you shouldn't be you should as the

03:22:33.340 guy if she's interested in you that should be reciprocated um you shouldn't be playing some

03:22:40.020 like hot or cold game you shouldn't be playing around with her emotions you can still demonstrate 0.95

03:22:45.600 that you're interested in the woman without it devolving to you being a sucker simp i guess 1.00

03:22:51.660 that's what i'm trying to get at okay like i think women can do a thing where they're gushing over a 1.00

03:22:56.800 man but if a man is like gushing over you and he's like oh my god i really like you oh my god 1.00

03:23:02.840 like that's uh that's no like the man has to be like yeah you're hot

03:23:08.620 but it can't be this like the man can't have like this sort of a not obsessive but he can't like

03:23:17.400 yearn i don't think the man needs to be shouldn't yearn for you like he should find you attractive

03:23:23.480 he can even tell you that but it needs to be from this place where it's not like

03:23:29.160 if he loses you it shouldn't matter okay but why do so many women fall for the love bombing then 0.99

03:23:37.340 because it feels good well so the love bombing thing i think is women want not all the time but

03:23:45.840 women want relationships so if a woman and by the way this is a criticism i have of men

03:23:52.120 if the woman wants a relationship it the love bombing is essentially this guy is sort of

03:24:00.820 misrepresenting his long-term intentions for the woman and it might be like oh my god i'm so into

03:24:05.560 you i i love you i mean love bombing um and uh so i i would say that that's wrong is it though 0.86

03:24:20.280 to love bomb well so no no i mean i agree that it's wrong but women fall for it so i think 0.99

03:24:27.800 I don't think there's 1.00

03:24:30.360 as many women 1.00

03:24:31.920 well guys that fall for 1.00

03:24:33.760 can I go grab something for my car

03:24:36.140 what can I

03:24:38.040 just what is it or

03:24:39.080 do you need like a

03:24:43.180 no I need a change

03:24:44.880 change

03:24:46.060 change like are you cold

03:24:49.580 no I'm hot

03:24:51.020 you ain't wearing nothing 1.00

03:24:53.680 what the fuck are you talking about 0.99

03:24:54.860 Well, yeah, we're going to crack open the doors a bit more. 1.00

03:25:00.240 Crack open the doors a bit more.

03:25:02.860 What's that?

03:25:03.640 I think 10 minutes.

03:25:05.140 Whoa, you said 10.

03:25:06.160 What are you talking about?

03:25:07.280 10 minutes to run to my car.

03:25:09.460 Oh, I thought you said you're leaving.

03:25:11.120 No, I don't want to run my car away.

03:25:12.900 I mean, we really can't.

03:25:16.360 Is it?

03:25:16.980 What are you getting?

03:25:17.980 Clothes?

03:25:18.520 But it's.

03:25:19.940 What? 0.98

03:25:20.300 Girl stuff. 0.93

03:25:21.200 Yeah, like relax, bro.

03:25:22.600 Or online.

03:25:23.260 No, but you said you need to get clothes

03:25:26.160 Change

03:25:28.460 Change

03:25:29.180 Cause it's too

03:25:31.380 Cold

03:25:32.960 Oh

03:25:35.460 Oh

03:25:37.460 There you go, Brian

03:25:39.540 Come on, Brian

03:25:41.140 We talked about this earlier

03:25:42.440 Her brown turned a different color 0.98

03:25:45.780 What? 1.00

03:25:47.780 What?

03:25:48.900 What?

03:25:49.460 What does that even mean?

03:25:51.100 Aunt Rose is visiting 1.00

03:25:52.320 Motherfucker 1.00

03:25:53.200 Aunt Flo. Motherfucker. 1.00

03:25:54.620 Rose. She's visiting. 1.00

03:25:57.000 I like Rose.

03:25:58.680 Why would you need 10?

03:26:00.100 Okay, wait a minute.

03:26:02.960 So you're leaving then?

03:26:04.940 No, no. She's coming with me.

03:26:07.000 Okay, go ahead. Lock behind you.

03:26:10.360 Go ahead.

03:26:11.300 Okay.

03:26:12.740 I'm trying to remember where we were at.

03:26:14.600 I forgot.

03:26:16.540 I just said that I think 1.00

03:26:17.960 girls fall for 1.00

03:26:20.500 love bombing 0.99

03:26:22.020 more than guys do. 1.00

03:26:23.200 is women's fault well yeah okay so you wait your question was why like if a girl love bombs a guy 1.00

03:26:33.320 i think guys are a little bit more avoidance so they'll be like yeah whereas right a guy that

03:26:38.440 loves bombs a girl they'll be more into it well i think here's my idea here so if the guy really

03:26:43.600 likes the girl it can go one of both ways either yes it can work for him because he really likes

03:26:49.880 her he's already like determined that he'd she's attractive and he'd want a relationship with her

03:26:57.340 sometimes it can be like too intense where it's like whoa stalker vibes yeah but if he otherwise

03:27:03.960 it depends the degree of the love bombing right but like you gotta understand a lot of guys 0.98

03:27:09.700 deal with you for pussy and that's all they want so when you're love bombing 0.99

03:27:15.400 they don't want a relationship with you they just want pussy so that's why love bombing is going to 1.00

03:27:20.880 be off-putting uh to certain men you're dealing with because they don't want anything else besides 1.00

03:27:26.260 sex they just want a casual sexual relationship hey sometimes women want casual sexual relationships 1.00

03:27:31.680 but i would say there's a difference here so for a guy to fuck y'all for a guy to have sex with you 1.00

03:27:37.840 guys you could okay i here's my perspective in order for a man to have sex with a woman 1.00

03:27:47.220 well hold on let me flip that in order for a woman to have sex with a man he his baseline 0.98

03:27:56.540 in terms of looks he's at least attractive enough to be in a relationship with 0.99

03:28:02.740 like if you're gonna fuck a guy baseline he's at least good looking enough you would like boyfriend 0.98

03:28:11.300 you would be in a relationship with him oftentimes it's like for example let's say a girl only wants 0.99

03:28:17.800 a relationship but she's like either meets a guy who's really attractive or i don't know she's just 0.99

03:28:24.960 looking for a hookup she's not just gonna a girl who's just trying to get some dick like a girl 1.00

03:28:32.420 who's just trying to get laid she's not gonna go because dick is easy dick is abundant she's not 1.00

03:28:39.200 just gonna go to like the easiest option which can which would technically i suppose be the 1.00

03:28:45.180 a less attractive guy or the first guy when a girl's just trying to get some dick 0.99

03:28:51.480 she goes in the opposite direction she's like well if i'm just gonna fuck i'm gonna make sure 1.00

03:28:57.460 the guy's really attractive physically generally speaking yep so women work in like this sort of 1.00

03:29:03.360 opposite way that men work so like if say you're a woman who primarily wants a relationship 1.00

03:29:08.360 but it's a celebrity and he's really good looking i'll fuck him i'll fuck him 1.00

03:29:14.500 and maybe that's all you get right you'll break your rule if the guy's hot enough men if we're 1.00

03:29:22.040 just trying to get some pussy but we don't we don't want the relationship we'll fuck a girl 1.00

03:29:27.260 that just on her looks alone we would never be in a relationship with her like we will have sex 1.00

03:29:34.080 with women that she could be fucking amazing personality the other things we care about 1.00

03:29:41.600 but we would never date her because she's fat or because she her face is not attractive 1.00

03:29:47.360 but we'll fuck her women don't do that women typically don't do that like well so in other 1.00

03:29:56.420 words we will fuck women we're not even all that attracted to physically like just to get some 1.00

03:30:03.880 pussy and so but for y'all women just to repeat the point for you to have sex with a guy across 1.00

03:30:12.100 the line whether it's relationship or just a casual thing he has to be at well i guess it's 0.99

03:30:19.080 just for casual to have sex with a guy as a woman he has to be at least attractive enough you would

03:30:25.380 date the guy be in a relationship with him personally not me so just to be clear for you 1.00

03:30:30.880 when it comes to casual sex you fuck ugly dudes but then necessarily ugly but it just i like 0.99

03:30:39.660 it can work for that but like i would probably probably be a little ashamed to be like hey this 0.99

03:30:46.300 is my man you know like it can be attractive for whatever's going on but like sometimes it might be

03:30:52.440 a little bit of a height thing or just uh personality or something no but it's i don't

03:31:00.360 know it's just like they're fine but if he's my man i'm like nah i wouldn't see that see i feel

03:31:06.980 like i'm the opposite like if i'm gonna if i'm gonna have sex with you this is someone that i

03:31:11.380 would i see myself being with at least to some extent like i'm not going to just have sex with 0.82

03:31:17.200 someone to just have sex with someone because at that point what's the point i can just wait for

03:31:21.160 the person that i'm attracted to whether you think he's ugly like i don't i've dated plenty 0.98

03:31:26.300 of guys and my friends are like bro this guy is hideous i'm like okay to you it's not them you

03:31:30.540 know right so but i just feel like i'm not going to get into bed with someone that like i'm not

03:31:35.580 remotely at least attracted to in terms of bringing them around other people because then

03:31:40.500 it's like yeah i think it's maybe like right in the beginning i'm like sure and then i get to know

03:31:45.980 then i'm like yeah well that's different that's different like people's personalities are ugly

03:31:49.660 but like i mean i just feel like if you're gonna lay in bed with someone that you're not

03:31:53.780 you know like confident enough to even show someone a picture it's like are you really

03:31:59.380 doing it to that extent but it's just like sometimes you get to know them and you're like

03:32:03.800 yeah no right yeah person people's personality sucks all the time but like looks wise yeah 1.00

03:32:07.940 Now, look, sometimes women do charity, you know, every once in a while. 0.98

03:32:13.080 But as a general principle, like, again, men, they'll have sex with women that, like, they've already, I don't care, like, what else there is about you, they've already, men will put you in a category. 0.97

03:32:35.200 there's and it can be just off the basis of looks there's like i'll have sex with her 1.00

03:32:43.620 but i would never long-term date her because of her looks okay but pussy is a bit like pizza 1.00

03:32:53.180 it's hard to fuck up pizza you know like most pizza is good pizza like it's there's good there's 1.00

03:33:04.460 better pizza there's worse pizza but it's still fucking i mean it's really hard to fuck pizza up 1.00

03:33:09.680 so most pussy is good pussy not all dick is good dick let me tell you that much not all dick is 1.00

03:33:15.940 good so have you tried have i tried dick no how do you know that but he knows i mean i bro well 1.00

03:33:24.940 i mean for example women uh frequent complaint from women is that they don't orgasm during sex 1.00

03:33:31.460 And so when I say dick 1.00

03:33:32.940 I'm not necessarily 0.99

03:33:35.280 It's not necessarily literally the dick 0.99

03:33:37.780 It's like his skills in the bedroom 0.99

03:33:40.300 His ability

03:33:41.320 Like his abilities in the bedroom

03:33:43.060 So you just have to work it then

03:33:45.180 If you don't know how

03:33:46.600 But it's like 1.00

03:33:47.780 For women to be bad in bed 1.00

03:33:50.680 You have to go out of your way 1.00

03:33:52.580 To like be bad in bed

03:33:55.100 You have to try to be bad in bed 0.94

03:33:57.940 Like sex is

03:33:59.680 And this is a physiological thing.

03:34:03.540 Like, to be good in bed as a man, that takes a bit more skill.

03:34:08.480 That takes a bit more work.

03:34:09.780 That's a bit more rare.

03:34:11.120 But, like, for example, I could meet a virgin.

03:34:17.140 And I, at least from my perspective, I mean, I like to think I'm just to be humbled.

03:34:25.120 I'm not bad, you know.

03:34:26.160 I'm not bad.

03:34:26.780 I'm not bad. 0.99

03:34:27.240 And I like to think I could have great sex with a virgin 0.99

03:34:30.560 Like at least I would enjoy it 1.00

03:34:32.780 Again who knows

03:34:33.760 Hey look

03:34:34.760 Sometimes

03:34:36.760 It's like a puzzle piece

03:34:39.300 Sometimes you don't always fit together

03:34:40.740 You know what I'm saying

03:34:41.620 Like I don't know 1.00

03:34:45.000 These chicks that want to be choked and shit 1.00

03:34:46.640 Like too much rough sex 1.00

03:34:49.060 I don't know 0.99

03:34:49.540 Can we just take it slow a little bit

03:34:51.720 They're like deeper 1.00

03:34:53.180 I'm like there's no more dick 0.99

03:34:55.700 Sorry 1.00

03:34:56.000 i'm at the end of i've given all the dick i she's deeper brian i'm sorry there's no more dick 1.00

03:35:02.500 i don't have any more dick what do you want me to do i can't go there's no more dick together 1.00

03:35:07.800 i wonder if they're just saying that like because they hear it like on pornography or like i don't 1.00

03:35:13.360 like harder either if they tell me to go harder i'm like are you shaming women i got a bad sex 0.87

03:35:18.700 i got a bad back am i shaming no well i sort of yes i am i don't know some of y'all women 0.84

03:35:25.300 Like for example 0.93

03:35:27.220 Violent porn 1.00

03:35:29.120 That's actually women who be 1.00

03:35:32.600 It's women who are consuming 1.00

03:35:34.220 The violent porn and shit 1.00

03:35:36.220 So I do think there's an aspect of female sexuality 1.00

03:35:39.420 That I don't know

03:35:40.880 I don't know when it changed

03:35:43.100 Like something happened 20 years ago

03:35:45.780 All the women got together

03:35:46.840 And were like 1.00

03:35:48.460 Want to be choked 0.99

03:35:51.080 What the fuck happened 0.99

03:35:52.540 Something 20 years ago 1.00

03:35:54.160 They just all of a sudden wanted to be choked or something. 1.00

03:35:57.360 What the fuck? 1.00

03:35:58.860 I don't want to choke a bitch. 1.00

03:36:01.860 I don't want to. 1.00

03:36:04.000 If she asks nicely, I might, you know, I'll do a limp-wristed choke.

03:36:08.640 Like gently. 1.00

03:36:09.780 Might do a little hand on the neck for novelty.

03:36:14.400 But I don't know.

03:36:15.560 What happened?

03:36:16.180 What happened 20 years ago?

03:36:17.400 They just all want to be choked all of a sudden.

03:36:19.720 Choke me, daddy. 1.00

03:36:20.580 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

03:36:21.520 i am not catching a case i am not killing a woman i ain't trying to kill a woman for her 1.00

03:36:30.060 sexual gratification okay here how about this i'll spill some tea one thing i'll spill some 0.99

03:36:36.780 fucking tea maybe you guys are gonna laugh at me i actually i can't believe i'm fucking saying this 1.00

03:36:41.880 but why not i actually don't like rough sex all that much now look i can fucking you can pull her 1.00

03:36:48.200 hair spank her a little bit talking her ear whatever but when i say rough sex i don't like 1.00

03:36:53.380 i don't like i don't like that shit like what the jackhammer get the fuck get out of here with that 1.00

03:37:02.020 how about like gentle a little more gentle you know so cute sensual a little more gentle sex i 1.00

03:37:08.520 don't know i'm not trying like it doesn't even feel good like the jackhammer like i want 0.84

03:37:13.780 actually I'm not going to get too detailed but like

03:37:17.020 slow and steady wins the race

03:37:19.020 I feel like also I have a bad back

03:37:20.600 sometimes it is the case I will say

03:37:22.600 it doesn't feel like

03:37:24.380 it dulls the sensation 1.00

03:37:26.500 if she just be throwing it back all fucking crazy 0.99

03:37:29.000 or like you're just jack 0.99

03:37:30.260 it doesn't let me feel every fucking 0.99

03:37:32.960 centimeter 0.96

03:37:33.640 okay anyways

03:37:34.880 Brian how old are you 0.98

03:37:37.180 she's fucking good 1.00

03:37:38.000 she's gonna hire me as a prostitute 1.00

03:37:41.760 So he's going to be like, this is a new experience. 0.97

03:37:44.720 Do you have any cash on you, by the way?

03:37:47.200 Wow.

03:37:47.640 Do you carry cash?

03:37:48.960 No, I don't. 0.61

03:37:49.980 I'm not soliciting you for sex.

03:37:53.200 As the, I'm not soliciting.

03:37:55.900 Okay.

03:37:56.260 I am saying, though, if you do have any cash and if you just want to give it to me just because, I'll take it.

03:38:01.780 I'm so confused right now.

03:38:02.940 Do you have cash on you?

03:38:03.820 This is going above my head.

03:38:04.480 No, do you, okay, here, I'll make it super.

03:38:05.920 I have $40.

03:38:06.900 Can you go get it and give it to me?

03:38:08.340 Why?

03:38:08.720 Well, here's why.

03:38:09.440 I'm so confused. 1.00

03:38:10.340 Because I feel like women, not even just sex workers, women have the experience of men just give you guys shit, kind of. 1.00

03:38:19.220 Yep. 0.99

03:38:20.060 Men will just like, and it might not even be a guy who you're dating.

03:38:24.440 Like, I've heard, look, I'm sure it maybe doesn't happen all the time.

03:38:27.800 Maybe if you're really hot, it happens more often. 0.98

03:38:30.400 But, like, women will be like, oh, I was at the gas station the other day and this guy just filled up my tank for me. 1.00

03:38:37.580 It's an art, Brian. 1.00

03:38:38.840 Motherfucker. 1.00

03:38:39.340 He doesn't get it. 1.00

03:38:42.080 I want to do

03:38:44.280 a role reversal. So you're a sex worker. 1.00

03:38:46.380 You kind of do OnlyFans. Maybe y'all 0.99

03:38:48.300 women have had sugar daddies. 1.00

03:38:50.080 Sugar daddies? No. Sugar daddy? 1.00

03:38:52.080 Come on. Maybe went on a date

03:38:54.220 or two. Sugar daddy. And it's like men just

03:38:56.120 even guys you're dating 0.99

03:38:58.380 and shit, men will just give you 0.99

03:39:00.200 stuff. So I want 1.00

03:39:01.940 as a novelty thing

03:39:04.060 as a novelty thing, like just one

03:39:06.120 time to give you guys

03:39:08.040 an opportunity because i'm a nice guy oh i did this if if you guys want to like do a reverse

03:39:14.580 simp so you if you have any cash on you i'll take canadian dollars um well yeah if you guys have any

03:39:23.560 cash maybe just give it to me but we're not simping over you at all no but not i know you 0.99

03:39:30.040 guys aren't i know you guys don't want to have sex with me after the trip was here was too expensive

03:39:35.320 but it's right but i'm saying if you guys just as a novelty like tea tea i can't find some bucks 0.64

03:39:43.740 on the podcast you know if like a like a oh that was funny like i gave him money on the show like

03:39:50.840 how is that funny that to men in our life women are not simping to the same degree that men are

03:39:57.460 simping. I flew out

03:39:59.820 here for the show.

03:40:01.040 Why are you trying to fly? 1.00

03:40:03.440 See, she's not.

03:40:05.440 Yeah, you came to be on the show.

03:40:08.060 Would you say yes if she

03:40:09.640 was?

03:40:11.660 I don't know. Do you have a big labia? 0.99

03:40:14.620 I only 1.00

03:40:15.300 date women with large labias. 1.00

03:40:18.500 It's 100% serious. 1.00

03:40:20.360 Now look.

03:40:21.860 I've never measured.

03:40:23.140 I say it in a humorous

03:40:25.740 way, but

03:40:27.100 is it a preference is it a legitimate preference a hundred percent okay a hundred percent now look

03:40:34.620 it's not a deal breaker if she's gotten any but she's gonna you know like for example a short guy

03:40:39.440 right any like women will like if he's rich you know she he's short but he's rich and he's got

03:40:46.780 lethal face card like she'll date a short guy oh but for me if she's got in any labia like she's

03:40:54.340 gotta make up for it get it and i'll if the bigger the bigger the labia she gets passes wow if she's 1.00

03:41:01.480 got a giant labia like i'll let something slide oh damn oh like sexually or like relationship 0.99

03:41:07.460 when you travel well your klm royal dutch airlines ticket takes you to more than just your destination 0.99

03:41:13.700 it takes you to winding streets spontaneous detours and the realization that neither of

03:41:20.440 is actually good with directions.

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03:41:23.980 And when the final shortcut taken

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03:41:30.100 Our crew is here to give you a trip home

03:41:32.140 that goes just as planned.

03:41:34.140 KLM Royal Dutch Airlines.

03:41:36.000 When you travel, travel well. 0.98

03:41:50.440 did you get contact info or no okay so i have to be looking at the fucking instagram for 0.93

03:42:02.360 i mean maybe you can pull up the messages do you know okay that's fine do you know how to pull up 0.97

03:42:07.020 the messages nathan so it's just like the instagram it's the fucking messages tab it's uh in the 0.79

03:42:13.840 general tab her name's elisa you're just i mean just keep an eye on it keep it the uh 0.95

03:42:19.920 hold on keep it the oh i could have scooted over i know you're trying to get out

03:42:24.700 uh hmm do i like move the chair i guess i'll leave it for a bit but if she's not

03:42:32.240 wait wait should we do a poll in chat

03:42:35.300 a what i want to say it's a chat so i think it's a 50 50 chance she comes back i give it a 50 50

03:42:45.340 chance maybe a mod on twitch can do a a prediction thing or whatever i give it 50 50 was it close to

03:42:53.040 10 like what time is it uh 8 45 or something oh okay so yeah i know she said she wanted to leave 0.54

03:42:59.540 like 10 or whatever wait was she bullshitting though tiffany no what did she what did sorry 0.96

03:43:07.120 What does she need?

03:43:09.120 I don't think she wants it on the podcast.

03:43:12.240 Oh.

03:43:13.560 Okay, yeah, I heard it.

03:43:14.740 Okay, that's fine.

03:43:15.780 Disregard.

03:43:16.320 What were we talking about?

03:43:18.320 Is it locked?

03:43:19.600 Labia size.

03:43:20.900 Yeah, we're measuring.

03:43:22.040 Tiffany, is it locked?

03:43:23.240 Yeah.

03:43:23.680 Okay. 0.98

03:43:24.200 You said like big labia. 0.99

03:43:26.280 Oh, right. 0.99

03:43:27.020 I wanted big labia. 1.00

03:43:28.620 And like you had to make up for it if you didn't. 0.98

03:43:30.880 Yeah, so.

03:43:32.340 Oh, you were letting stuff slide. 1.00

03:43:33.320 For example, like a guy, let's say his dick is either small or he's not good with like intercourse sex. 1.00

03:43:43.340 You might say, oh, he's got to make up for it with like oral sex or some shit. 1.00

03:43:48.620 Or he's got to be rich or he's got to be really funny or have a really good personality. 0.99

03:43:54.980 So, yeah, a woman who she's got to make up for it, you know, she's got to like get me gifts and she's got to, you know,

03:44:02.100 take me on nice dates and she's gotta yeah but isn't that preference uncommon because i feel 0.56

03:44:10.420 like most girls are doing like surgeries to get it like it's so sad yeah it is true though i was

03:44:16.000 gonna ask how you like like i didn't like okay so just like first of all i never heard of this

03:44:21.260 i'm just wondering like is this something that you see like in porn and like figure it out or

03:44:27.660 is it just experience but if it's not average then statistically maybe like to figure this out

03:44:33.560 without you know they're like secondhand like through firsthand experience that's wait with

03:44:40.700 figure what out so okay so yeah so if a big labia is statistically not common you know what well so

03:44:49.400 i'm actually not sure i don't know if they've done a study on this but i think they estimate it's

03:44:54.920 about 50-50.

03:44:56.700 That was going to be my question.

03:44:58.560 If you guys are down to do a little

03:45:00.940 research, we could...

03:45:03.000 Okay, show of hands.

03:45:05.520 Who has an Audi?

03:45:08.320 Who has a what?

03:45:09.120 An Audi labia.

03:45:10.840 Audi labia.

03:45:13.360 I don't know. 1.00

03:45:15.020 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:45:15.940 You all know? 1.00

03:45:18.040 I don't know.

03:45:19.580 Can't translate.

03:45:20.880 Est-ce que tu as un gros

03:45:23.060 no i i don't i haven't seen like other people's wait so you guys don't know what i'm talking

03:45:30.700 no i don't know like i don't know if it's no i haven't i haven't any i know average or not

03:45:35.100 you have any yes okay three some off the table okay good i don't want to do some anyways i get

03:45:40.200 it whatever yeah whatever was after the show off the table uh i just don't know what's like 0.99

03:45:44.740 unless you make up like does it like poke like does it poke out okay the lips the pussy lips 1.00

03:45:50.800 Poke out of the pussy lips 1.00

03:45:52.960 Nathan go to the discord 1.00

03:45:55.260 We can settle this right here right now

03:45:57.880 I'm trying to explain it like the most

03:45:59.780 Nathan go to the discord

03:46:00.840 Go to media

03:46:02.980 Wait is it the media tab or is it the memes tab

03:46:05.940 Oh it's the memes tab

03:46:07.920 It's one up 0.99

03:46:08.600 Okay pull that shit up Nathan 0.99

03:46:10.700 Okay so this is a sandwich 0.99

03:46:13.880 That's a sandwich

03:46:14.880 Audi for life

03:46:17.280 Okay so Audi is good

03:46:19.100 well hold on it's i like outies it's my preference yeah it's a preference the bigger the better

03:46:25.740 okay the bigger the better okay got it that's a simple way to show it i think this is great

03:46:31.960 because i think growing up i thought it was i was like ashamed i thought it was cooler to have a

03:46:39.040 well so okay so so thank you for yeah i'm like the only guy talking about no that was a thing 0.90

03:46:46.480 i'm a fucking maverick okay i'm a fucking i'm a trailblazer i'm a trailblazer uh what's that 1.00

03:46:53.680 you said the martyr of labias i will yes i will die i'll die i will die for the pussy um just 1.00

03:47:02.920 but what's it called certain no but look right it is um so the old thing here was well if you 1.00

03:47:11.140 like this is the old like in the 70s 80s 90s the language about this was like in the porn 0.97

03:47:17.160 magazines and shit they would only show women with innies right but now like with the internet 0.97

03:47:23.440 that that changed because there's by the way if i'm in a relationship i don't watch porn just 0.99

03:47:29.220 saying nice that's a good thing i have that's a good thing i'm not gonna sit here and lie i have 0.99

03:47:34.900 watched porn but i'm not like some gooner where it's like i'm looking at that shit all day you 0.98

03:47:40.460 You know, you use it as a tool if you're single. 1.00

03:47:44.300 You know, look, hey, whatever. 1.00

03:47:45.620 People masturbate. 1.00

03:47:48.980 But, yeah, there's definitely women in porn who have outies. 1.00

03:47:55.040 Representation.

03:47:56.160 I don't know how we got to that point in time.

03:47:58.260 I blame her. 1.00

03:47:59.740 It's China's fault. 1.00

03:48:02.060 I don't know. 1.00

03:48:02.520 It's all your fault, China. 1.00

03:48:03.500 Everything's your fault. 1.00

03:48:04.440 Brian, how old are you?

03:48:05.660 Remind me of my ex-time.

03:48:06.720 I am 36.

03:48:10.460 seven are you sure it was my birthday it was my birthday recently so i okay thank you appreciate 0.93

03:48:17.860 it why didn't you guys get me any fucking gifts i didn't know i didn't know how old you are so 0.88

03:48:22.300 i didn't know it was your birthday you're blessed with our presence right yeah that's about it 0.98

03:48:27.220 blessed with your presence you're a private person besides being on here i i don't know

03:48:32.980 if you guys are familiar with my personal lane i'm blessed with their presence folks um no like

03:48:38.020 Didn't you say earlier that you were a virgin?

03:48:40.540 Oh, no, that's a joke.

03:48:42.200 Oh, okay.

03:48:42.760 I was going to ask.

03:48:44.060 I know you said that you were talking about sex earlier.

03:48:46.340 I am not a virgin.

03:48:47.640 Okay. 0.75

03:48:47.940 I have had sex with at least one woman one time. 0.80

03:48:50.800 Okay. 0.79

03:48:51.240 Okay.

03:48:52.100 Just once.

03:48:52.920 Cool.

03:48:53.960 Only once.

03:48:55.040 Just the tip.

03:48:56.220 Okay, so then you're not good at it.

03:48:57.560 Just for a second.

03:48:58.460 Just to see how it feels.

03:48:59.220 It's really tough out here.

03:49:00.840 Sarcasm is...

03:49:03.360 Sarcasm.

03:49:05.340 How did we get on to the big labia thing though 1.00

03:49:08.320 We were talking about dick 0.99

03:49:09.420 Bad dick 1.00

03:49:10.500 I don't know how we got on to that 0.99

03:49:13.640 I think you brought it up

03:49:15.240 Who wanted to talk about it

03:49:17.560 I don't think anyone was talking about their labia

03:49:19.060 So now that I showed you the photo

03:49:20.860 I'm somewhere in the middle

03:49:22.720 You have an Audi

03:49:25.740 I really don't want to respond

03:49:27.900 I feel like my family is watching

03:49:29.160 I didn't see the picture 1.00

03:49:31.100 Damn girl 0.99

03:49:31.940 shit um oh wait really quick uh pull up the discord and then show us this is in the media 1.00

03:49:41.000 tab there's a wikipedia link for brain matures at 25 while i have it guy 0.96

03:49:45.900 bro okay here let me walk oh okay well uh let me know when you have it uh so who here show of

03:49:58.720 thinks that the prefrontal

03:50:01.060 cortex is not fully developed until

03:50:02.960 25.

03:50:04.660 For men, I know it's later.

03:50:07.360 I don't know. 0.83

03:50:08.360 That you are basically, until you're 0.53

03:50:10.900 25, whether you're a man or a woman, 1.00

03:50:12.960 you're a retard. 1.00

03:50:14.560 You are a bona fide retard. 1.00

03:50:16.780 For women, yes. But for men, 1.00

03:50:19.260 I think men... How do you say retard

03:50:21.000 in French? Translate for me. 0.98

03:50:22.820 Retardé. Retardé?

03:50:25.080 Retardé. With a 0.92

03:50:26.020 Oh, that was pretty good, right? 1.00

03:50:39.000 It doesn't seem like retarde when you say that. 1.00

03:50:41.680 It's like a good thing. 1.00

03:50:42.920 Retarde. 1.00

03:50:44.540 I'm going to try.

03:50:45.340 So, you know, this often comes up in age gap conversations where, you know, it's, say, a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old.

03:50:56.960 Her prefrontal cortex is not fully developed.

03:51:00.560 Apparently, and I've been hearing this rebuttal, 25, prefrontal cortex.

03:51:06.240 Apparently, I just learned about this the other day.

03:51:09.840 It's a myth. 1.00

03:51:11.180 It's total bullshit. 1.00

03:51:12.180 Pull it up. 1.00

03:51:13.120 Pull it up.

03:51:13.880 It's not thin.

03:51:15.340 Make it a little bigger, like control, mouse wheel, zoom in.

03:51:19.520 Yeah, that works.

03:51:21.380 The brain matures at 25. 1.00

03:51:22.640 It's on Wikipedia, so it must be true.

03:51:27.080 Is the claim that the human brain...

03:51:29.260 Here, wait.

03:51:30.620 Can you read this for us into the mic?

03:51:32.920 Sure.

03:51:33.860 The brain matures at 25.

03:51:35.720 Myth or 25-year-old brain myth is the claim that the human brain,

03:51:40.260 particularly the prefrontal cortex,

03:51:43.500 reaches an adult level maturity approximately around age 25 this until when do you want me to

03:51:50.960 go through the whole thing uh yeah continue okay this myth occasionally has other numbers

03:51:58.540 cited but 25 is by far the most commonly occurring teen brain theory is the

03:52:05.420 pseudoscientific scientific theory based on this myth the myth suggests that a person does not have

03:52:13.060 a full adult capacity or maturity until this age threshold is achieved it has been attributed to

03:52:21.060 various figures not notably j guided and then the next paragraph it has been shown that the

03:52:28.740 prefrontal cortex does prune gray matter with age but these changes are not conclusively

03:52:36.100 linked with better cognitive function or a higher level of socio-emotional maturity

03:52:42.740 it is widely quoted on social media outlets usually in debates regarding legal age limits 0.96

03:52:49.140 or youth behavior age gap arguments fucking defeated eternally defeated 25 prefrontal cortex 0.99

03:52:58.160 done myth debunked fake news misinformation fake science bullshit pseudoscience boom 0.97

03:53:05.940 all right good talk guys good job but that's on wikipedia so okay well since anyone could

03:53:15.400 have just wrote that since we're talking about age gap relationships now that it was recently

03:53:19.480 my birthday you know i'm getting older um you know but i'm look you know i'll look i've dated

03:53:25.120 women older than me when i was 33 i dated a 44 year old in my defense she was wajian 0.98

03:53:32.720 i rest my case thank you but uh you know because asian people age but okay never mind like you

03:53:42.720 know they look like she could have totally been like 34 no wait hold on no that's too nice 0.98

03:53:50.180 she could have passed for like a 36 37 year old but she wasn't she was 44

03:53:56.360 wasion okay very beautiful woman that's great beautiful woman

03:54:01.120 i wonder what she's up to now you like waisians yeah i was gonna say i think you like well no

03:54:08.220 look hey i like i like white women i like wasion women i like asian women i like latino women i

03:54:13.300 like indigenous women i like women what are the wait did i say latina yes white yeah yep so more

03:54:22.340 dark where's the where's the black girl black uh excuse me oh she's in the bathroom i was just 0.98

03:54:27.980 gonna say i feel like black women i would black women just don't want to date me because i'm too 0.98

03:54:34.160 white like when i say white i don't mean my it well it is my skin color like i'm very pale but 0.90

03:54:40.420 it's also my behavior like i'm not i feel like i don't know like a a black woman needs like a 0.97

03:54:49.620 Marvin Gaye type, they have

03:54:51.580 no idea. I don't even know what I'm talking about.

03:54:53.980 I don't know. It depends on... A black woman needs 1.00

03:54:55.580 like, you know, 1.00

03:54:57.800 a black 0.53

03:54:59.840 man. I don't know

03:55:01.700 what I'm fucking talking about. No, you don't. Hey, look. 1.00

03:55:03.640 A black, look. Black women, you can date white guys. 1.00

03:55:05.640 Date whoever you want. Date who you want. 1.00

03:55:07.380 Date whoever you want. I don't give a fuck. 1.00

03:55:11.180 It would 0.99

03:55:11.660 be my preference if my kids

03:55:13.700 are white, though.

03:55:18.640 Okay.

03:55:19.620 yeah that's a preference do you have a reason why yeah okay do you want them to look more

03:55:27.400 oh you want an ant oh you want me to elaborate i just thought that yeah would have been good

03:55:31.320 enough uh well i think like there is a component of i guess there's two components one is you kind

03:55:40.640 of want a kid who looks like you like and i think that would whether consciously or subconsciously

03:55:47.520 unconsciously whatever it helps with the bonding like because you feel a a bigger pull towards

03:55:54.500 like i don't know i i i'm having difficulty actually articulating this but i do think like

03:56:02.720 there is a stronger all right i gotta ask the chat chat help me out with this one help me out

03:56:09.620 with this one because i know the argument's there help me out help me out chat what's the argument

03:56:14.260 but they might resemble you more in like personality or something you know that's true

03:56:20.320 and they'll look like your partner which you love so i don't know what i'm uh it's like i don't know

03:56:28.760 so i think it's a thing in that like i don't know what research confirmed this but that when babies

03:56:35.080 are born a lot of times they look more like their father so like you know evolutionary narrowly wise

03:56:40.760 the father doesn't abandon their kid thinking that oh this isn't my kid but that's not like

03:56:46.540 a race thing that's well i think i mean this is like super minor oh wait like it's a very small

03:56:55.040 thing but i think that from and this is a sad thing in society but i've heard stories of men

03:57:04.020 who are on airplanes with their biological children and like people and the mom's not there

03:57:09.580 people will see a father with a young daughter young son and like have a questioning

03:57:16.000 attitude towards it or be like is this a predator yeah and so and so again this is a very like

03:57:25.100 sort of maybe extreme example this isn't the central reason but there is like a narrative

03:57:31.680 in society like i've heard men who i've heard men who are at the the park with their daughter or son 0.96

03:57:39.560 alone it's their fucking kid like what's wrong with that but but people will 0.98

03:57:47.600 be more suspicious of it right like adult man with a toddler or with a young kid they're like 1.00

03:57:56.180 a man at the park people will like say the kid's running over there and i'm sitting over here at 1.00

03:58:01.340 the bench at the park people will look at that and be like it's a fucking creep he's a predator 0.99

03:58:09.620 and so this might be super small but i feel like if your kid and it's a terrible state of affairs 0.99

03:58:19.080 that this is the case if the kid matches your race there's less of a suspicion but if i'm like

03:58:27.980 the kid looks Asian people are more likely to jump to unfortunate conclusions now that's very

03:58:35.740 minor though that's super minor like I it wouldn't be like well that wouldn't be the like the main 1.00

03:58:41.560 reason well she's Asian I can't impregnate her because down the road some dipshit at the park 1.00

03:58:51.060 might think right yeah I'm a predator or something no that's stupid but um I guess that's maybe a 0.99

03:58:57.480 component of it i think i don't know uh what's the other reason i forgot the other reason i don't 0.98

03:59:03.740 know are we talking about race a little bit okay what about exactly oh just like that it's okay

03:59:09.500 to have racial dating preferences or wanting your kid to like be your race or whatever

03:59:15.440 i think that's fine across all races

03:59:18.720 i get a lot of backlash for the men that i date because i date white men and i think my friends

03:59:28.660 hate it i mean look if people can have racial dating preferences i think it's fine i've heard 0.90

03:59:36.640 black men black men get flack when they're dating white women yeah yeah like the black 0.98

03:59:41.920 women get real defensive because i think uh black women are the most likely to want 0.99

03:59:48.000 to date within their race right generally speaking yeah no it's true that's why i get 1.00

03:59:54.140 so much backlash like they're like damn you're taking our men like whereas like women uh like 0.93

04:00:00.980 asian women for example uh they're they're more open to dating like white men for example they're 0.95

04:00:08.260 more open to dating outside their race whereas like and this is studies you know it's not just

04:00:13.540 assumptions, whereas black 1.00

04:00:15.820 women have a stronger preference to dating

04:00:17.560 black men. 1.00

04:00:20.400 So, yeah. 1.00

04:00:22.380 Faux show.

04:00:23.840 Yeah, it depends on the person. 1.00

04:00:25.840 Yeah, but I like black guys, so

04:00:27.520 I got a little bit of that with my ex.

04:00:30.160 Anybody else here 1.00

04:00:31.240 like black men? I like black men. 0.83

04:00:33.820 I like all races.

04:00:35.160 You like all races? What about you?

04:00:36.620 I have a preference for

04:00:38.620 lighter futures, I'd say.

04:00:40.760 I think that's...

04:00:42.240 Any update or no?

04:00:43.540 You said lighter features

04:00:46.280 Blonde, light brown, blue eyes

04:00:51.340 I kind of want to wait to get into the questionnaire 1.00

04:00:56.440 Until she's back

04:00:57.280 So I guess I'm going to wait on the questionnaire for a bit

04:01:00.300 I'm going to get into some of the pre-show notes

04:01:01.820 Let's do

04:01:03.620 I don't think she's going back

04:01:07.360 Probably not 1.00

04:01:09.200 Pretty fucking scummy 0.99

04:01:10.460 Just because of that 10 p.m. thing. 0.99

04:01:12.980 If she doesn't come back, yeah, true, true.

04:01:15.120 Oh, well, it took me so long.

04:01:16.680 I just figured I'd leave.

04:01:17.820 Yeah, I'm wagering it's probably.

04:01:21.640 Hey, but you know what?

04:01:22.920 Never say never.

04:01:23.840 Okay.

04:01:24.660 Who do we start with? 1.00

04:01:26.140 Brooke. 0.89

04:01:27.740 Brooke.

04:01:28.300 Which one?

04:01:28.780 Which one?

04:01:29.340 There's two.

04:01:29.840 There's two. 1.00

04:01:30.460 Oh, shit. 1.00

04:01:31.160 Two Brooks, two Taylors. 1.00

04:01:32.500 You.

04:01:33.360 So you don't do OnlyFans anymore?

04:01:35.720 Correct.

04:01:36.300 Did you used to do boy-girl content?

04:01:37.760 just yeah just me and one of the guys like there's there were or are videos of you on the internet 0.84

04:01:44.340 and you were fucking a man uh there were but not anymore okay you took them down yes but you did 0.87

04:01:50.520 create that content yes but they were only with guys that i had dated yeah you were in a relationship 0.99

04:01:55.140 with them uh you said your ex was the biggest gaslighter you've ever met in your life and he

04:02:00.580 cheated on you so uh when you say gaslighter how would he gaslight you well he would uh i would

04:02:08.420 confront him about uh hanging out with an ex alone at night and he said well my mom died and she just

04:02:16.920 wanted to comfort me um and stuff like that but i was like that's like that's the stuff that you

04:02:22.800 wouldn't do like in a relationship and i was like how would you feel if i went to see my ex

04:02:26.980 you know because something happened he was like i'd break up with you and i was like

04:02:30.500 exactly so double standard yeah double standard and he did that multiple times and um being like

04:02:39.460 late and stuff like i didn't want to be late all right but he would always be late for everything

04:02:44.080 and i was just trying to help him be on time but he would just yell at me and yeah it was just a

04:02:50.400 lot of things like that uh and then you let's see you dated a deadbeat father that's the same guy

04:02:58.280 oh same guy so you had a kid yes okay yes and with the six months that we did get we were together

04:03:04.820 he only saw him twice and he refused to go to court to fight for his son because um of his

04:03:13.420 heritage heritage nigerian he's like nigerians don't go to court and i was like but that's your 0.71

04:03:19.220 son he's like still oh they don't go to court i was like they don't have a court system in 0.78

04:03:27.920 nigeria they just duel or some shit i had no clue i don't know uh oh question who here has plastic 0.95

04:03:35.180 surgery what do you have uh breast nose nose okay oh i guess super vulnerable uh i had a 0.96

04:03:47.420 a mini tummy tuck because i had a c-section oh okay yeah repaired it okay um i guess quick

04:03:54.100 question on the deadbeat father thing uh who just curious who here is pro-choice

04:04:00.720 show up hands pro-choice

04:04:03.200 yeah do i want to i don't know if i want to do the abortion thing pro-life who's pro-life pro-life

04:04:13.620 Yeah, to a degree. 0.99

04:04:15.140 I have limits, like rape or incest, and I don't fuck with that. 1.00

04:04:20.460 Sure. 1.00

04:04:21.940 My only thoughts on the deadbeat father thing.

04:04:25.400 I think, now look, maybe we should, should we categorize women who get abortions as deadbeat mothers?

04:04:38.600 No.

04:04:39.880 But, I mean, think about it this way.

04:04:42.160 let's say a man who was inclined to be a deadbeat what if he had an exit from preventing his dead

04:04:49.720 beatness which was murdering the kid well abortion isn't murder so well i mean then we can get into

04:04:59.660 when does life begin it is murder i would argue life begins at conception yeah well how about

04:05:07.220 this if abortion uh if a woman aborts her child a day before she otherwise gives birth okay let's

04:05:15.080 be realistic but i i understand that that's super rare but you can't no no i understand no but under

04:05:21.600 well there's some abortion advocates not all but there are some many abortion advocates might say

04:05:27.620 well uh you know i don't know what is it uh viability or 12 weeks 16 weeks 18 weeks whatever

04:05:34.640 it is right but my question is when does life begin is it when the child has exited the womb

04:05:42.260 when the heartbeat is detected oh when the heartbeat okay so when the heartbeat so after

04:05:46.880 the heartbeat the woman can't get an abortion i would say yes well in canada that's the law 0.98

04:05:52.640 i would say yes she's not coming back what a fucking okay what's the what's the reason that's 0.99

04:05:58.440 fucking scummy what's the reason what was her what was her deal tiffany 1.00

04:06:01.980 she has a medical thing coming on you saw what like you saw it 1.00

04:06:11.100 yeah so what's the proof what's the proof is there any proof or is she just her words 1.00

04:06:17.320 i guess there's no proof but she has um infections infections

04:06:24.480 okay all right i'm gonna do musical chairs here a little bit

04:06:31.460 Um, so here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to move you there. Uh,

04:06:38.420 and then I'm going to move you over and then, 0.99

04:06:47.380 oh shit. Do I just, what, how do I do this? 0.99

04:06:54.700 Take out a chair. Just spread out a little bit.

04:06:56.800 I suppose we could keep it as is I think I'm maybe scoot that chair in a little bit let me

04:07:03.560 have both of you scoot into the table scoot scoot scoot scoot in scoot in now for you I want you to

04:07:09.220 try to scoot in on center frame here uh this is our center zoom no so scoot this way scoot that 0.99

04:07:14.820 way a little bit actually I don't have that much space uh she's going to scoot over just a tad

04:07:18.020 uh yeah that's pretty scummy I guess whatever

04:07:21.560 medical i don't believe it i don't whatever okay anyways back to the show i'm not gonna let it

04:07:34.980 uh burn any time pasty george uh here let me see if i need you to scoot in so you're in frame on

04:07:42.780 center zoom you yeah look center zoom i need you in frame so you're on camera okay so like that

04:07:49.580 means scooting in and scooting it might mean scooting that way a little bit you need me to

04:07:56.040 scoot this way all right maybe just good posture let me have you move the microphone a little bit

04:08:03.740 all right I think that'll do that should be good uh all right I think that looks good okay

04:08:10.940 uh so actually wait should we have 0.94

04:08:16.240 hmm i might sorry guys it's just normally we don't have fucking walk-offs like 0.67

04:08:22.660 well quite like this i almost might want to shift the microphones um 0.94

04:08:28.640 no it's probably fine okay where were we we're talking oh abortion okay um so against

04:08:40.940 so life begins at heartbeat yes i think we agreed on that

04:08:46.180 okay in any case um do you think let's say a guy didn't want to pay child support

04:08:53.620 do you think a man prior to the heartbeat or whatever the man should be able to like

04:08:57.920 uh force an abortion no but i do think that if a woman goes through with having a baby after

04:09:06.840 the man said he didn't want it I don't think she should put the blame on him and I know that's

04:09:12.440 very controversial but like it takes two to tango I think they should also have some type of say not

04:09:18.140 what I do with like my body but I shouldn't have to expect him to pay if he said that he didn't 0.96

04:09:25.500 want it I mean that's that's great but most women are not as noble as you are and regardless of the 1.00

04:09:33.460 man's desire or lack of desire to have the children uh a lot of women are going to force 0.70

04:09:40.520 a man to pay child support uh look some men are actually like don't have the income to even pay

04:09:46.880 for it uh you were dealing with a a guy who i i mean it is what it is but a woman reserves the

04:09:56.000 right at any moment within the first 18 or even 21 years to basically force a man into uh being a 0.58

04:10:02.660 pay pig, basically. So a woman can get an abortion for no reason, any reason. One of the reasons a 0.98

04:10:09.720 woman might want an abortion, again, there's no even requirement to get an abortion. You don't 1.00

04:10:14.820 have to provide a reason. But one of the reasons would be, I'm not in a place in my life where I'm

04:10:21.040 ready to have a child. I'm not financially in a place in my life where I want to have a child.

04:10:27.480 So a woman might be able to murder her unborn baby because she's not financially ready. 0.96

04:10:37.020 So why do we call men deadbeats who don't like women can escape responsibility? 1.00

04:10:42.640 A woman could get an abortion for financial reasons. 1.00

04:10:46.900 We should call them deadbeats. 1.00

04:10:50.060 They should be deadbeats. 1.00

04:10:51.620 If we're going to call guys deadbeats, we should call the women deadbeats. 1.00

04:10:55.020 i think no i think a woman would be more of a deadbeat if she does have the kid and then 1.00

04:11:03.380 doesn't take care of it right then like yeah so you think just to be clear yeah it's worse to 0.97

04:11:09.520 have the kid then not take care of it and then put him in the system and stuff yeah i think so

04:11:16.140 i agree okay so it's well okay so you're saying worse to have the kid well the kid's dead if she

04:11:26.000 gets the abortion depending on when she gets the abortion concept well i mean my position 0.99

04:11:33.260 would be conception yeah but ours is hard yeah okay but sometimes do women get abortions beyond 0.80

04:11:40.560 heartbeat i don't know what the laws yeah but like they're they're shitty people no but if it's

04:11:47.140 afterwards from a legal point of view it has to there needs to be some kind of problem with the

04:11:55.120 child like um and then you can take that decision if it's past that three months then you cannot

04:12:02.500 what about the mother

04:12:04.580 because I know like

04:12:06.260 like if the birth

04:12:09.560 or like the pregnancy

04:12:11.200 causes the

04:12:13.920 mother loss of life 1.00

04:12:15.900 yeah that's fine

04:12:16.540 even people who are against

04:12:19.880 abortion

04:12:20.300 if life of the mother is at risk then abortion 0.98

04:12:23.780 is acceptable

04:12:25.320 that's not even 1.00

04:12:26.100 especially if she already has children 1.00

04:12:28.840 obviously she needs to be there for

04:12:30.440 those children that are already alive right yeah that's one of the few you're going to struggle

04:12:35.420 you're going to struggle to find anybody who's pro-life who says if it is a genuine case of life

04:12:41.580 of the mother that they're against uh the abortion in that instance bro really okay the mom they're

04:12:49.740 like okay well uh yeah the mom has to die no like most people majority of people who are pro-life

04:12:54.800 her fine with life of the mother although that's pretty it's pretty rare um well i guess my

04:13:01.440 question is then for those who here just show of hands again who here is pro-choice

04:13:06.620 pro-choice pro-choice pro-choice pro-choice pro-choice do you think men should have to

04:13:12.060 pay child support i said my stance on that okay i'm i guess i'm asking the other panelists who

04:13:19.500 raise their hands i mean it's the law so just okay so what's stopping us from passing laws

04:13:25.460 from outlawing abortion it's the law well the well in canada the law is that abortion is legal so

04:13:34.180 okay but so i understand perhaps it's currently yes it is currently the law that there's no state

04:13:42.240 that i'm aware of at least in the united states i assume it's the case in canada

04:13:45.280 men can't escape uh their child support obligation legally speaking if they want to uh so

04:13:53.840 question is though uh should that be a law i i get that it is a law should men if they don't 0.98

04:14:01.740 want to like if they don't okay here's an example i'm dating a girl for i don't know fuck it it's a 0.58

04:14:08.780 one-night stand sometimes it happens the girl gets pregnant she wants to keep it i thought we were 1.00

04:14:13.760 just having fun she told me she was on birth control oops had no intention of getting her

04:14:18.320 pregnant no intention of having a child should i escape having to pay child support no wait no 0.90

04:14:26.920 yeah no no i shouldn't be able to didn't you say mention have to pay child support no if they said

04:14:33.340 that they if i was with someone and they and i said oh i'm pregnant and they're like look i don't

04:14:38.640 want a baby and i say you know what i do i'm keeping it and they leave i don't think it's

04:14:43.720 his responsibility he did but now this is a one night stand you you know what you're doing if 0.98

04:14:49.120 you're having unprotected sex and you know ejaculating in someone you can't escape that

04:14:55.260 you're also part of this problem wait this is completely contradictory he should be paying then 0.88

04:15:01.460 that's but that but he never said he didn't want a baby is what i'm saying like if what

04:15:06.300 Either way it doesn't matter

04:15:08.840 If he verbally says it

04:15:10.840 He's still responsible

04:15:11.900 That's completely incoherent 1.00

04:15:13.480 So before I fuck a woman 1.00

04:15:15.540 She has to tell me ahead of time 1.00

04:15:17.460 That she would get an abortion 1.00

04:15:18.880 If she doesn't tell me that she's pro 1.00

04:15:21.160 Like let's say we're

04:15:22.460 Most one night stands by the way 1.00

04:15:24.500 You talk about the abortion topic before you fuck her 1.00

04:15:27.140 If she doesn't disclose to me 1.00

04:15:30.060 That she wants to abort an unwanted baby 1.00

04:15:32.600 She has to keep the baby

04:15:34.140 i didn't say that but i'm confused this is contradictory to your previously stated thing

04:15:40.320 where you said if the man doesn't want to blah blah blah he shouldn't have to pay child support

04:15:45.120 do i have that correct right but i just asked a completely different example i in my opinion

04:15:52.940 i think it's two different scenarios so what were the two scenarios one you're in a relationship

04:15:57.300 right that's what i'm saying like if i'm in a relationship with someone we are doing whatever

04:16:02.320 we're doing i get pregnant i say i want to keep it he says he doesn't i shouldn't then put the

04:16:08.320 blame on him if i have a one night stand though that's like i don't know if he wants to have this

04:16:14.660 baby or not that's so incoherent i'm sorry i really don't think that so you're saying in the

04:16:22.160 one night stand example yes the man should pay for the child support right but not in a relationship

04:16:29.960 Wait, that makes no, wouldn't it like, shouldn't you give the, it seems like you would be more inclined to give the escape to the, like if you're in a relationship with a girl and you're like regularly engaging in sex, this seems like it's almost more of a, I don't know if this is the right framing, more of a consent to the risk of her getting pregnant than just a one night stand.

04:16:56.880 like if you're dating somebody like maybe down the road i'm assuming if it's a serious relationship

04:17:02.900 there is the potential future prospect that you would want to have children together if you're 0.97

04:17:08.340 some frat boy at fucking toronto university or some bullshit ottawa university i don't know if 0.99

04:17:14.260 they've got sororities and fraternities up there and you're just fucking it's a drunken hookup 1.00

04:17:18.920 there's no intention there to get anybody pregnant or have a kid i i mean look the the escape 0.96

04:17:25.620 arguably if we're going to live in a pro-choice society men should have an escape and i don't

04:17:33.520 you don't need to disclose it here's my standard if if in any country or state where a woman can

04:17:41.520 get an abortion at any moment the guy should not have any responsibility to that child if he wants

04:17:50.240 the man should always be able to escape he should never have to pay child support

04:17:55.100 in a country where women can get abortions the escape is to not be there physically like

04:18:02.920 physically or involved in the child's life but the responsibility is to be is to contribute 0.70

04:18:09.520 financially i well actually this is completely backwards i would argue that the greater benefit

04:18:15.560 for the child would not be let's say you don't have the financial capability the greater benefit

04:18:21.260 to the child would actually to be in the child's life men are not just atm machines i'm saying

04:18:25.660 this is what happens and like this like guys who do a hookup or something and the girl decides to

04:18:33.920 keep it he has the choice to be involved or not but from a like so you you are correct in the sense

04:18:41.480 that men can escape a parental responsibility so but not a financial one the court can't like uh

04:18:49.900 you can't be forced uh at least in the united states i'm not sure about that i'm pretty sure

04:18:56.400 most places the court can't be like okay you're gonna be a you're gonna be a present father no 0.98

04:19:02.580 but financially oh they can fuck you financially for sure and so what i'm talking about no but my 0.96

04:19:10.120 argument i understand that i understand that the court can't be like okay you're gonna be 0.98

04:19:14.680 you're you're gonna have custody of the kid exactly yeah i understand that i'm talking

04:19:18.980 financially i'm when i say child support i'm talking about money yeah that's what i'm saying

04:19:23.520 so they have the choice to be involved or not uh like like they will never be like obliged

04:19:32.460 to have the kid two days a week or anything like that if they don't want money yeah but

04:19:37.560 men shouldn't have to pay money any money at all or just through the courts so a man hold on a man

04:19:44.880 can voluntarily under this idea the man could voluntarily be like well i'm willing to give you

04:19:51.880 this much money but say the man doesn't want to his body his choice because really what's happening

04:19:59.220 here is if the court well exactly his body his choice so he physically it doesn't have to be

04:20:05.040 there but no no no no so uh labor a man has a right to the fruits of his labor and when the

04:20:14.620 government says we're taking 20 percent of what you make you're essentially taking 20 percent

04:20:20.980 of his labor and in fact sometimes i believe doing it with tax in fact not only that there's a level

04:20:28.120 of coercion that occurs here because say the man doesn't have a job and he just chooses to

04:20:33.720 be a bum. The court, uh, there's a specific term for this. It's evading me. The court can still,

04:20:42.420 um, there's a word for maybe somebody in the chat knows it's like, let's say you used to work,

04:20:51.040 but you're no longer working. The court can be like, well, you used to do this job and you were

04:20:55.640 making this much money inferred wait inferred ability wait chat it's like inferred income

04:21:03.860 maybe it's child support inferred income some shit like that oh imputed income

04:21:11.660 more commonly known as imputed income it's an estimated amount of money a court assigns a

04:21:18.900 parent based on what they could be earning rather than what they actually report so even if you don't

04:21:28.000 have a job even if you're not making money the court can still be like you owe this much money

04:21:31.520 and if you don't pay that you go to jail not in canada but i don't know the laws in canada

04:21:38.160 but in the united states at least uh and maybe it is the case in canada you just might not know

04:21:43.080 in the united states one of the remedies that the court system has if you're either not paying all

04:21:49.220 of the child support or not paying it at all uh look and to be fair they don't do it right away

04:21:55.420 it's like okay you missed one payment you're going straight to jail but over time i don't know what

04:22:00.760 the you know it could be months maybe longer they will put you in jail for failure to pay child

04:22:05.840 support there's no other debt that you can owe where you can ever go to jail for not paying the

04:22:12.320 debt only in this way. Like for example, in the, in the past, if you owed a debt to a company,

04:22:18.220 there were things called debtors prisons where you could literally, if you owed somebody money

04:22:22.940 and either you just couldn't pay it or you willfully didn't want to pay it, you could go

04:22:27.020 to jail. You could go to prison. We did away with that because we're like, that's wrong. That's

04:22:30.960 immoral. However, not when it comes to men and child support. So I guess what I'm trying to get

04:22:38.280 here is um the the courts can definitely force men through coercion okay you don't pay child

04:22:46.620 support we're gonna put you in jail typically people are averse to going to jail um and so

04:22:52.340 there is like a coercive level there there is a forcing of it but also it's like what if i just

04:22:58.220 don't want to pay i don't want to pay that money that's my money you lied to me you said you're on 1.00

04:23:03.660 birth control you you you you guys know drake fucking canadian right yeah these motherfuckers 1.00

04:23:09.240 these women he's fucking they be digging through the trash for the condom yeah and they be dumping 1.00

04:23:15.360 the fucking condom jizz in their pussy did he consent to that did he consent to have a kid 1.00

04:23:19.940 that's insane women do that shit women lie about being on birth control now look most unplanned 1.00

04:23:25.580 pregnancies i'm not saying that they're the majority of unplanned pregnancies it's all 1.00

04:23:30.120 consensual i don't think there's deception going on they're just fucking accidents happen 0.92

04:23:35.200 and i would but i would say in those situations no the men shouldn't have to pay 0.91

04:23:39.640 in any situation i think it's a discussion to have between both parties but so okay the woman has a 1.00

04:23:46.640 kid and uh oh it's hard raising kids especially as a single mom she's gonna want that money more 1.00

04:23:52.260 likely than not so when it's a discussion and i say i'm not fucking paying you and she says oh 1.00

04:23:57.940 really okay boom go to the court the court forces you women use the government for violence against 0.72

04:24:04.860 men the government allows them to so the government what do you mean like i'm not saying it's right 0.59

04:24:11.560 but i'm just saying the government gives them that option so is it really the woman's fault or is it

04:24:15.220 the government's fault for allowing that to be an option so uh well hold on women are not forced to 0.99

04:24:23.020 go to the state they're not forced to go to the government to do this so yes like the woman could

04:24:29.820 have a kid and that kid could reach 18 and she never went to the court system so yes it is the

04:24:37.200 woman's fault so what about a situation where it's a marriage wife and husband they have a kid

04:24:46.520 yeah few years into that the dad leaves and now all of the bird the financial burden at least in 0.67

04:24:53.420 the situation like we're talking about is on the mom is it wrong if the mother goes to like let's

04:24:59.420 but also let's say like she reached out saying like hey you might not want to be here you might

04:25:02.880 not want to be in the life like but i still need you financially in this case and he says no now

04:25:07.180 is it wrong if she goes and says okay well i need help and he's not going to help me so i need you

04:25:11.880 to force it to help me. Is that wrong? Well, you have to remember the framework of my anti-child

04:25:16.820 support stance. The framework is in a world where women can get abortions. Right. So look, my true 1.00

04:25:25.400 underlying position is that if you do get a woman pregnant, even if you didn't intend for it, 0.96

04:25:31.560 I do think you have a duty to, and it's your kid, you do have a duty to that child to support it 1.00

04:25:36.700 at minimum financially that's my true position okay however in a world where women get an escape 0.71

04:25:44.120 men should get look if you guys believe in equality men should get an escape too but they

04:25:52.040 do get an escape they don't get an escape a physical one yeah no no men do not get an escape

04:25:57.100 i'm talking about child support i'm talking about the financial thing the financial component

04:26:01.560 If women can get an abortion, men should have an ability to escape the financial burden and duty. 0.91

04:26:10.380 Simple as that. 0.97

04:26:13.180 Personally, I wouldn't have a child with a man who does not want to be there, 1.00

04:26:18.520 so it's hard to have an actual stance, but I know some women will do it on their own. 0.94

04:26:25.180 I mean, you've never dated a guy who, in that moment while dating you, if you were to get pregnant,

04:26:31.560 he wouldn't want to have the kid it's just not i'm not at a place where i want kids right now so

04:26:40.200 it's hard to hard to say okay again though look if dave chappelle puts it like this

04:26:48.400 if when if women can murder their child a man should at least be able to abandon it

04:26:56.400 my wallet my choice once again physically not being there okay but no i'm talking yes i'm 0.57

04:27:05.140 talking about money well i disagree it's finance but hold on so can women so okay let's say the 1.00

04:27:10.380 woman has no health issues the woman uh the reason the woman wants to get the abortion is 0.81

04:27:17.580 i don't want to spend money on the kid and that's it she would be okay going through the pregnancy 1.00

04:27:25.080 and all that the only thing the only reason she wants to get the abortion is because children 0.96

04:27:31.360 cost money and she wants to keep her money are you okay with her getting an abortion i think that's 0.92

04:27:37.500 rather unlikely but i mean this is most women are not getting okay most abortions are for

04:27:45.420 completely benign reasons the majority of okay the majority of abortions are as follows 0.97

04:27:52.680 girl was fucking her boyfriend girl fucked a guy it was consensual 0.96

04:27:58.660 unintended pregnancy she's not ready to have the kid that's it that's 99 of abortions i think 1.00

04:28:07.980 that's fair if you're not ready in your life to support and take care of a child why i have no

04:28:13.160 but how about let me ask you this go ahead a woman is a billionaire okay a woman is a billionaire 1.00

04:28:20.160 and she has the means to have a kid in fact she's already had one kid and she plans to have other 0.99

04:28:26.060 kids in the future but she's decided that she doesn't want to have this kid quite now can she 0.96

04:28:34.120 get an abortion her body her choice are you fine with her getting an abortion but she has the 0.99

04:28:39.280 financial means to have the kid she's had the kid before she wants a kid in the future but she 1.00

04:28:44.200 doesn't want to do it right now well maybe she's in a toxic relationship and she doesn't want to 0.98

04:28:49.140 have to stay well i didn't grant that the relationship is fine she's being selfish 1.00

04:28:54.980 that's your opinion right so i'd rather a woman be selfish than put a child in the world and 0.99

04:29:07.000 right not my i guess my argument here is we can create a scenario where it's so unfair for the 0.82

04:29:15.000 man but in a world where there's abortions i would argue that a man who already has kid or a man

04:29:21.260 kids or one kid or a man who wants kids in the future and a man who's rich a man who makes

04:29:27.980 billions of dollars a year but he doesn't want to pay child support even though it won't it won't

04:29:33.680 impact his life it won't he's not going to be financially in a bad place i'm actually completely

04:29:40.520 okay with him refusing to want to pay child support really if he doesn't want to in the

04:29:47.280 same way that women if they don't want kids they can end the life of an unborn child

04:29:53.560 i'll stick to my stance of what i said that it's okay for them to 0.98

04:29:58.440 not be there physically but financially you just have to wrap it up well say that to women then 0.93

04:30:05.760 yeah i feel like they if you don't want a kid you probably should have 1.00

04:30:14.900 yeah like been smart about it but even if a woman was being a retard uh you would still 0.98

04:30:21.700 you would still let her get an abortion regardless of how uh regardless of how 0.99

04:30:28.120 um irresponsible she was being yeah because i don't think it's fair for a child to come in

04:30:34.440 this world and not have like stable and loving parents but once a child has already been created

04:30:40.800 is it better to let them come into a but they're not difficult well they are created uh better to 0.99

04:30:47.860 come into a difficult world or should we just kill them like for example let's say your parents are 0.99

04:30:52.920 broke they're broke and maybe they got issues or whatever and they're divorced and they split up 1.00

04:31:00.000 before the child's even born should we abort the kid because they might have a difficult life

04:31:04.680 if they want the kid then they should have the kid okay how about a kid that was is already alive 0.67

04:31:10.280 but the parents are broke and they have no money and they're divorcing should we kill the kid no

04:31:17.420 it's already alive yeah that's already alive no no okay so because life will be bad for the kid 0.90

04:31:24.540 i don't think that is justification we're talking before a heartbeat here still

04:31:31.400 okay well ultimately though i think it's interesting that when it comes to men's

04:31:39.320 reproductive rights you guys are very much taking on the abortion uh anti-abortionist

04:31:45.460 anti-abortion position it's interesting that that sort of duality where for women

04:31:52.320 pro-choice for men pro-responsibility so i think we should perhaps reconsider

04:31:59.920 if we view men as deadbeat dads well you know in a country where abortion is allowed

04:32:09.000 i don't know i think uh men should get an escape i think it does suck to some degree that the guy

04:32:18.120 doesn't get as much of a choice than the he has no choice men have zero choice but

04:32:24.560 in it would not be okay for if a guy says i want you to have a board an abortion and then choose

04:32:31.940 over her body what she does with it so right let me i guess the final question here is

04:32:37.160 who do you think is worse what is a greater moral wrong a man who is a deadbeat dad so who refuses

04:32:47.980 to pay child support or a woman who gets an abortion what is a greater moral wrong 0.94

04:32:54.140 uh i'd say the dead be dead yeah

04:32:58.780 so it's more morally wrong to well okay you don't think it's like killing a life or whatever so

04:33:07.940 yeah i mean look i just from a from a moral perspective i don't know how you can

04:33:14.680 let me ask you this though just as a hypothetical assume i'm correct and i know you disagree but

04:33:23.820 assume that it is a life at conception just for the sake of a hypothetical in that instance and

04:33:31.220 let's say it is in fact if it is in fact a life what is the greater moral wrong in that paradigm

04:33:37.900 the abortion or the guy just not paying child support and being a deadbeat well the this

04:33:46.540 alive like they're not feeling pain at this stage right so well so let's say that um somebody is 0.95

04:33:56.880 under anesthesia and i sneak into the operating room and with a hammer i bash their brains in

04:34:03.760 while they're under anesthesia well they can't feel pain right so

04:34:11.280 they're talking about this child but you're saying you're saying the the the fetus doesn't

04:34:17.920 have consciousness it can't feel pain although this might be disputed so if your argument is

04:34:23.420 it's okay to kill people when they're in a state of consciousness or lack of consciousness where

04:34:29.600 they can't feel pain then it's okay this is i feel like it's going way far off of the

04:34:35.840 it's the same thing talking about financial like the financial aspect of having the abortion when

04:34:44.500 the baby is supposedly being born like is that the only reason because if that's the only reason i

04:34:49.320 feel like we're going to debate about this forever there's so many other reasons why women get 0.74

04:34:53.880 abortions yeah like so many well the majority of the reasons why women get abortions is just

04:35:00.760 primarily because it's unwanted that's fine but like i can even put myself out there for example

04:35:08.120 i was 18 i got pregnant i had an abortion because i didn't even what i basically ended up finding

04:35:15.460 ready but no what i basically ended up finding out is that my ex-boyfriend's poking holes in

04:35:19.820 condoms so like in that sense i'm wrong because he manipulated me you know what i mean like

04:35:26.180 there's so many other reasons to say oh abortion is wrong so because i didn't even know that someone

04:35:33.520 was putting their own sperm in me like i shouldn't have that choice that that's what i'm trying to

04:35:39.220 get at well so these are two separate things here so that's what i'm asking hold on so what your

04:35:43.080 boyfriend did is wrong right although anytime you're engaging in sex even if you're using

04:35:48.320 condoms. Condoms are not a hundred percent effective. So look, in a different scenario,

04:35:52.860 you could have been using condoms and still gotten pregnant. But the underlying reason,

04:35:57.240 again, what he did is wrong. Arguably, this should be a crime. Um, but, but, uh, the reason

04:36:05.620 you didn't want to have, uh, it was just an unwanted pregnancy. So there wasn't, um,

04:36:10.980 it might fall under i mean it might fall i think this could be truth be told i think this would be

04:36:19.440 a form of a sex crime sure so i mean you might say under certain you know okay so under certain

04:36:26.400 sex crimes that uh there's a greater justification for uh abortion however uh the sex was otherwise

04:36:33.780 consensual right um the sex was consensual that specific thing he was doing that was non-consensual

04:36:41.960 though right uh and it's clearly wrong like they're not gonna clearly wrong um but ultimately

04:36:50.160 it wasn't like um it wasn't life of the mother it wasn't no it would have been as well it wasn't

04:36:58.460 like, uh, this falls under some sort of sex crime in my perspective. Maybe it's not, I don't know,

04:37:05.080 you'd have to find the court case or whatever, but it wasn't like a, you know, more strictly

04:37:10.300 speaking, uh, an essay or a rape or whatever, um, where people are more quick to say under that

04:37:15.960 circumstance, it's more justified. Um, anyways, I don't want to linger on the abortion thing for

04:37:21.800 too long, but I don't know, man, if y'all can kill kids, we should shit. We should not have 1.00

04:37:27.400 to pay child support i agree with that that's a valid final thoughts um i think we should

04:37:36.100 really educate uh like focus on like educating people how to not get pregnant and how to like

04:37:43.740 consciously not do that there's like there's ways uh yeah and like i think people should

04:37:51.180 be responsible yeah yeah okay your thing have you ever seen the videos of the girls going to

04:37:56.640 get abortions be like yeah i'm gonna get that baby out of me drinking alcohol have you ever seen

04:38:00.820 yeah yeah i've seen some of those yeah yeah that's disgusting yeah all right um let's do next topic 0.85

04:38:08.360 uh let's see here we have we were talking to brooke about deadbeat fathers uh you said you're

04:38:15.500 old-fashioned you 100 believe relationships are transactional and it should be 50 50 most of the 0.91

04:38:23.640 time yes like i understand like obviously shit happens like both sides go through like deaths 0.85

04:38:30.220 in the family or they might be slacking at some point in life um but um well we're like the other

04:38:39.900 might be like put in 20 maybe that's all they can give and the other has to put in like the

04:38:44.980 other 80 to like make it work but all right um okay and uh yeah you say let's see

04:38:56.340 um you'll never complain but you do think it's a gentlemanly for a man to do that

04:39:05.120 um what are you talking about pay or communicate properly okay uh tay you said if a man flew you

04:39:12.000 out to his state and then ghosted you when you landed yeah that did happen so another guy flew

04:39:18.280 you out to where he was instead that did also happen yeah so wait how often do you get was 0.97

04:39:25.780 this the first time you got flown out yeah and you damn that's wait so you were ghosted that's 0.98

04:39:32.020 fucked up yeah but you had another hookup no what when i say hookup i mean like for the flight 0.99

04:39:38.200 like another guy flew you out from where you were at right but that was very situational 0.98

04:39:45.280 like very situational that was like nothing that wasn't like oh if this doesn't work out

04:39:50.700 i have somewhere else to go okay yeah it was as crazy as it sounds it was pure coincidence

04:39:57.660 hey you got rescued i guess you said you said you would genuinely defend

04:40:03.700 the type of things women post when in a relationship yeah so what do you mean like I know

04:40:10.000 for a fact there's a lot of men that I've spoken to in the past they don't like the things that I

04:40:15.740 post um simply because like I spend lots of times like at the beach in bikinis or um like modeling

04:40:25.300 in bikinis whatever the case may be um and they think like sometimes it's disrespectful which I

04:40:30.480 can understand to a certain extent but i'm very up front and i'm also very giving like forthcoming

04:40:37.340 so if the person i was with wanted all my passwords or wanted the password to my phone

04:40:41.920 like i'd be like yeah go through my stuff i don't care i'm not doing anything me posting something

04:40:46.000 is for my benefit not everybody else's benefit i'm not someone that's like fishing for like i

04:40:51.160 know earlier you were saying like okay the women's tactic of men coming to them might be posting but 0.99

04:40:57.540 like that's not everybody's and it's not mine just that's what i like you know women women can walk 0.96

04:41:05.720 on stage you know victoria's secret and lingerie and that's okay because that's their job and 1.00

04:41:10.500 they're getting paid to do it but god forbid you know i mean just a little girl from new jersey

04:41:15.020 i'm not but that's what i'm saying like god forbid a little girl from new jersey just wanted to do

04:41:18.900 it just because it's wrong like because i'm not getting paid for it's not my job so i don't really

04:41:23.140 see how you know there's really much of a difference besides money well i suppose it

04:41:28.840 depends what kind of relationship dynamic you want if you want a more traditional dynamic

04:41:32.640 i think within the purview of a traditional dynamic uh men are going to prioritize a woman

04:41:39.220 being modest like modesty and dress i don't know if you're a christian but uh if you're dating a

04:41:44.400 christian guy you're a christian whatever there's a component of christianity that relates to

04:41:48.580 modesty. Are you Christian? I'm not religious, no. Okay. Well, that's fine. And look, there's

04:41:54.620 obviously all kinds of different dynamics out there. However, I would say if you're a woman 0.68

04:41:58.940 and you want more traditional treatment from a guy, I think it's fair that the woman holds up

04:42:06.060 her end of the deal of the traditional bargain, of the traditional exchange. And there seems to

04:42:12.000 be this massive push in society where women want traditional men, masculine men. They want them to

04:42:18.200 be traditional do chivalry uh you know pay for dates do xyz etc but they don't want to hold up

04:42:26.360 their end of the deal by being traditional themselves so look you want to be a modern

04:42:31.260 woman go find yourself a 50 50 guy you split the bills uh you don't look to him to be taking steps

04:42:38.100 of initiative you reciprocate the initiative uh but i don't know that that's my perspective

04:42:45.180 um i feel like i'm not a or i shouldn't say i'm not but i'm not someone that's like oh i need a

04:42:52.440 traditional relationship um as far as like modesty goes as you're saying the person the person that

04:43:01.720 wants me for me that likes me and that accepts me for me isn't going to care about the little

04:43:07.020 things like posting a picture in bikini now if i was like posting a picture in bikini and like

04:43:11.360 engaging in people's comments or no offense to those, but like having an OnlyFans and stuff

04:43:16.000 like that. I would understand why, you know, they would be like, oh, okay. Like, you know what I

04:43:19.840 mean? You're, you're seeking the male validation. You're seeking male attention that I would

04:43:24.980 understand. But if I'm doing something for me because it makes me happy, I don't really see

04:43:30.840 the problem. Now, if this is a relationship I really want something that is really bothering

04:43:35.680 my significant other and there is a conversation I am open-minded I would you know mean change for

04:43:42.360 that person but I don't want to be told what to do I don't want someone to say you cannot do this

04:43:47.800 because it's going to make me not want to stop doing that I mean I'm not convinced that all

04:43:54.800 things need to be a negotiation and have long-winded conversations I don't know why

04:43:59.800 maybe sometimes you can just defer to a man's better judgment on this particular issue but

04:44:05.980 let me ask you two questions is it your preference to date men who play video games are you fine with

04:44:11.480 the guy who plays video games I could be but it's not your preference though I wouldn't say that I

04:44:18.080 would once again say it's situational I talked to a guy long distance who would rather sit there and

04:44:23.220 play video games all day but then claim that he liked me I feel like how do you like me if you 0.95

04:44:27.100 don't want to get to know me because you're playing video games all day how could a woman

04:44:31.120 like me if i'm supposed to be depending on how serious we are should be the most important person

04:44:38.800 in her life uh assuming it's quite serious at this point sure uh i'm the one she loves i'm her

04:44:45.200 boyfriend but she insists on continuing to post bikini photos to instagram for validation of

04:44:54.360 strangers the only validation a woman really ought to get or ought to even need is the validation of 0.91

04:45:01.480 her partner but if he's not validating me because he's stuck playing video games all day then then 0.86

04:45:06.120 you well hold on what do we mean are you getting are you having sex with the guy that there you go 0.55

04:45:11.420 there's your validation but you should not be seeking external validation look i know it's like

04:45:16.620 maybe i'm a bit older i'm 37 now uh y'all grew up with cell phones y'all were 10 years old on the

04:45:23.460 cell phone doom scrolling and shit whatever uh you know people lived lives without needing to

04:45:30.900 blast out to total strangers on the internet what you had for breakfast needing to show people all 0.96

04:45:36.160 the experiences you're having needing people to see what you look like uh total strangers you're

04:45:42.900 even uh friends or even perhaps male pursuers despite you being in a relationship people got

04:45:51.900 on. People had, you know, people had relationships and it wasn't really that a need. But now people

04:46:00.600 are so attention motivated, so validation motivated that the thought of hunkering down on women's

04:46:11.020 attention drive is just, oh my God, that's very controlling, right? What about porn? Would you

04:46:16.940 prefer to date a guy who doesn't watch porn in a relationship? I don't really care. You don't

04:46:21.300 care no really it doesn't necessarily bother me um really okay i'll believe you i'll believe you 1.00

04:46:29.500 women find it a form of cheating i do not okay all right well hey i mean at least their own

04:46:34.980 consistent i guess i think a lot of women have an issue with their boyfriend watching porn in

04:46:39.860 relationships maybe not again not all women but i think a lot of women this is a perhaps a bit of a

04:46:45.100 red flag for some of them uh same with the video game thing but it seems like here here i am as a

04:46:51.580 man i'm not going to make a defense of men who watch porn who play a lot of video games to the

04:46:57.260 point where perhaps it has an impact on the relationship or even if it doesn't look even 0.97

04:47:01.220 if it's like you could tell your girlfriend look we don't fuck every single day i'm gonna watch 0.99

04:47:08.660 porn once a week i'm gonna i'm gonna masturbate i'm not addicted to it i still think you're 1.00

04:47:12.960 beautiful i'm still gonna fuck you women will still be upset like nah motherfucker you're not 1.00

04:47:20.080 gonna watch porn even if we're having sex as much as i want as much as the woman wants to 1.00

04:47:24.920 and he's he's not having erectile dysfunction he's still in love with her i think a woman 0.99

04:47:30.820 a woman will still be like no zero porn i don't want you watching porn or at least that's her

04:47:37.540 preference and i think i i mean i don't know i think uh that would be my comparison here is that

04:47:47.400 i personally haven't had like this issue in a relationship but i i know like from other people

04:47:55.620 they say like if your man watches porn whatever then he'll pretty much compare the sex to like a

04:48:01.640 porn star and you know then it will go downhill from there sure uh i'm trying to think if there 0.96

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04:49:14.800 okay uh i don't know i need to get up momentarily uh take it away

04:49:20.980 i was gonna say something about the porn um like with my with my younger boys well both of them

04:49:30.240 were young i don't want them watching it because i don't want them to have that warped perception

04:49:35.300 you know what sex is gonna be like of what their girl should be able to do that's acting right off

04:49:41.080 about and i and i told my 15 year old because he watches that i've walked in on it yeah i said

04:49:46.540 that's acting don't expect that i'm i try to be upfront about it because you know there's some

04:49:52.460 crazy stuff out there so yeah yeah i know that it's something that people can get addicted to

04:49:58.900 um it's just i guess maybe something that i'm a little naive against since i've never dealt with

04:50:05.000 it but i like i said if if like i was in a relationship and let's say like okay i've been

04:50:11.660 gone for the past three days you know i mean and my man was like oh you know i'm like what have you

04:50:16.440 been up to and he like told me like oh like i watched porn last night i'd be like okay you know

04:50:20.480 like to me i wouldn't think anything of it because like in my head it's like oh i'm not there

04:50:24.880 you know but now if we were together like i've had friends be like oh you know i mean i didn't 0.97

04:50:31.640 feel like having sex so my boyfriend put on porn and jacked off next to me i'd be like that's like 0.98

04:50:35.700 so ick ish you know what i mean like you couldn't just contain yourself for one night but that's 1.00

04:50:41.860 what you did or like go relieve yourself in the bathroom like but you just decided to do that 0.70

04:50:45.480 that's where it feels disrespectful exactly because at that point it feels like a sex addiction like

04:50:50.580 oh i can't go without it because you don't want to have you won't give it to me okay i'm gonna

04:50:54.460 get it this in that case i would understand why women are like oh i don't want my man to watch 0.85

04:50:57.800 okay fine that's a whole other issue like right like having a sex edition like not being able to 1.00

04:51:02.540 go without it for like one or like yeah you know like yeah you need it every single freaking night 0.99

04:51:07.300 yeah like that or having to watch it before you have sex with your girlfriend like oh i need to 0.98

04:51:12.480 yeah yeah some people do i mean if it's if it's like agreed upon then whatever yeah yeah do your 0.80

04:51:19.820 own thing whatever no judgment but yeah if it's like a one-sided situation yeah no that's not

04:51:25.840 gonna happen yeah that's that's fair you just seem very like chill and I am a very chill I feel

04:51:33.660 like there's just like so many things that like don't really bother me until they happen that I'm

04:51:38.300 like oh yeah now it's like oh wait like I said it's not everybody like I try not to put everyone

04:51:43.760 in a bubble you know because just like Portia was saying before like I'm different you're different

04:51:47.820 she's different we're not the same people so like categorizing put everybody in a bubble is like so

04:51:52.180 unfair you know and there's a lot of topics where like i'll say and my friends would be like oh

04:51:58.180 that's so wrong and i'm like okay yeah to you but you and i are not the same person but it's like

04:52:04.800 it is what it is like my ex had a really bad sex addiction and i just like didn't care for it 0.92

04:52:08.920 so it was like sorry sex a sex oh my god sex addiction thank you and it's just something 0.78

04:52:16.760 that i'm not like oh my god i have to have sex every day like this is like you know i mean the 0.90

04:52:21.420 one thing i'm looking forward to every day so it was something that we fought about a lot

04:52:25.500 and it was like to me it was what ultimately ended our relationship because it got to the

04:52:32.560 point where like it got violent got physical and i was just like i can't do this anymore because

04:52:35.980 it became a problem but it was never about porn it was simply just about sex so yeah i can see

04:52:41.540 why it would get crazy but like something as small as porn to me isn't like a big to do you know

04:52:49.100 like everyone's watched it before like i said it was an addiction fine but like we've all been

04:52:53.820 curious or like wanted to get off one night like let me just watch it i haven't really watched

04:53:01.900 something this is just like a thought i had so like in my mind i've never had experience with

04:53:06.060 this in my mind i'm like thinking like oh if he just wants to watch porn sometimes it's fine

04:53:10.220 but what if you find out the porn is very specific and it's not at all like well yeah like that 0.53

04:53:15.500 yeah i think i'd be like am i your type or no yeah what are we doing here am i wasting my freaking

04:53:24.080 time yeah you should probably be with someone else because it looks like it's you don't want

04:53:30.380 to be with me but no like i have like kind of like a personal question which you don't have to

04:53:33.920 answer but i get a lot of backlash because like men like if i'm in a relationship they'll like

04:53:38.880 be like oh you don't like you don't like self-pleasure and i'll be like no that's not my

04:53:42.940 thing per se you know and they think that's weird so like what do you guys think about that like do

04:53:48.400 you think a girl that doesn't self-pleasure is weird no yeah like no some just don't aren't just

04:53:54.880 aren't as interested you know and i don't i don't even do it a lot like people like like yeah like

04:54:00.960 yeah like you don't really do it i'm like no i don't you don't need it all the time no you know

04:54:07.060 i just like i have never like don't do it i i feel like the thought of it makes me uncomfortable so

04:54:13.480 i've never even explored that route but so many people are like oh that's why you're missing that's

04:54:18.220 why this happens to you or that's why you're depressed i'm like yeah and i get it other women

04:54:24.020 i love it i'm gonna encourage i'm gonna support but like for me i feel like other women that

04:54:28.640 backlash that i get from them i'm just like you don't get it because you don't feel the same way

04:54:33.400 that I do but that's why I wanted to ask because like maybe you know from a different perspective

04:54:37.220 for women that do you could be like well it's life-changing you know do you mind if I ask you

04:54:44.060 a question back yeah do you ever like orgasm during sex not really no no see that's that's 0.89

04:54:51.000 where I started self-pleasuring okay because I couldn't get through sex you'll learn get through

04:54:56.460 it as in like you would stop or you would just be like no I'd go through it but it's like okay

04:55:01.060 this is yeah yeah that's pretty much my life yeah and so that's when i started self-pleasuring

04:55:05.200 okay yeah that's that's fair i yeah okay but yeah i don't i don't think i've ever like not been

04:55:12.620 satisfied if that makes sense like even my sister would be like i feel like half the reason why xyz

04:55:18.960 happens is because you aren't satisfied and you don't know it because it's never happened

04:55:22.580 and then like the first time it happened she and you know i was like oh my god that was like super

04:55:26.740 wild she's like see what i told you and i was like yeah but if that happened every time like

04:55:30.340 i think i'd be a psychopath because like i'd be like bro you're not going anywhere like in the

04:55:34.640 closet you know what i mean like the boyfriend right so i mean i get it but i feel like there's

04:55:43.060 so many ups and downs to that topic that it's like there are yeah it's a it's a sticky situation

04:55:48.920 right either way you know both ways it's it's hard to find that happy medium where both parties 0.99

04:55:53.660 are happy and then you've got to worry about fucking cheating and shit yeah and being cheated 0.99

04:55:57.880 is the worst it is the worst feeling ever yeah yeah that'll send your ego crashing yeah or just 0.99

04:56:05.520 like even like your you know self-esteem your your self-worth i would probably never be able to like

04:56:10.060 even try to be with the guy again if i got i was gonna say would you take someone back after they

04:56:14.440 cheat on you no hell no no i did that once no i'd never date a guy that that would cheat like just

04:56:23.900 in general because if they'll cheat uh with you they'll cheat on you yeah that's true yeah uh

04:56:29.280 yeah yeah i made that mistake once yeah yep that yeah see how that ended it's fair yeah it happens

04:56:35.840 we live and we learn yeah nothing's worse than when you like actually catch them because it's

04:56:42.160 one thing to like see a message but when you like that's what happened to me last year i walked i

04:56:46.780 walked in on my ex fucking someone else and i actually almost went to jail so yeah oof 0.99

04:56:53.080 you guys talking about orgasms or something we're talking about cheating a little bit so wait you 0.99

04:56:59.020 said you've never come during sex or who was that i did me i never come during sex yeah we were show 0.98

04:57:05.200 your hand raise your hands who's never climaxed no during sex like just you two you i'm abstaining 0.94

04:57:11.620 can you speak into the mic i'm abstaining okay that's fine uh you know i want to talk about a 0.93

04:57:17.440 different orgasm gap though. So there is a, you know, I've heard from a lot of women that they 1.00

04:57:22.920 don't come during sex, you know, from on the show, not in my personal life. Uh, but, uh, you know, 0.93

04:57:34.440 I've encountered a different issue and this is a, this is the, a different orgasm gap.

04:57:40.900 us men we can really only come once now there's a refractory there's a refractory

04:57:49.140 hold on there's a refractory period yeah and uh you know it changes as you age but the refractory 0.99

04:57:57.820 period nathan why are you smiling at me nathan's like i know what this motherfucker's talking about 0.97

04:58:02.720 Uh, but, uh, usually look, you need like 30 minutes to recharge. 0.98

04:58:10.420 That's like, I'd say that's a, yeah.

04:58:12.520 Right.

04:58:13.520 Uh, sometimes longer.

04:58:15.920 Yeah.

04:58:16.400 It depends on the person.

04:58:17.400 Sometimes shorter.

04:58:18.140 Depends how frequently if it's been a long time.

04:58:21.720 And, but if you're having sex every day, the refractory period is longer.

04:58:25.760 Yep. 1.00

04:58:26.280 but y'all women in one individual instance of having sex y'all can have multiple orgasms not 0.93

04:58:34.380 all of you but some of y'all and i'm feeling jealous over here like i only get to come once 0.99

04:58:39.480 and y'all are coming like 10 20 30 times and shit and i'm just you know what i mean 0.84

04:58:46.060 by coming does that include like squirting it i mean it can i i have found i feel like a lot 0.98

04:58:53.840 of women lie about climaxing okay squirting i'm 41 it took until i was 39 one guy got me to do it

04:59:06.040 yeah yeah it depends it really does depend yeah but like a lot of women can lie about climaxing

04:59:14.460 well they shouldn't but i mean i'd like to think because i feel bad for the guy honestly we do

04:59:20.100 feel bad i mean yeah but i feel like it's is a is a woman who's gonna fake an orgasm is she's

04:59:26.800 gonna fake having multiples or is she just gonna fake the one the one like i don't think she she's 0.64

04:59:34.260 gonna yeah no round two yeah no but like i don't have enough so you're not getting something out 0.96

04:59:39.840 of me if it's in round two yeah so i mean my advice to my advice to women is you should never

04:59:45.420 fake an orgasm ever because it's just bad communication and then it's just it it sets

04:59:52.520 you up to be because if the man thinks he's pleasuring you but he's not you're not going

04:59:57.840 to be pleasured uh and you can go about telling him what you like in a diplomatic way that's not 1.00

05:00:04.080 gonna you know offend his ego but uh yeah no that's fair that's fair look there's some women 1.00

05:00:13.780 guilty of that but also you shouldn't fake it like look there's some women who they can't even 1.00

05:00:19.500 get themselves off or it's really hard to get themselves off uh or maybe they can get themselves

05:00:25.700 off easily but it's hard they've had difficulty with men getting them off because i don't know 0.99

05:00:31.420 they're fucking rubik's cube they're fucking you got to be hit like doing the exact same right thing 0.99

05:00:37.080 for 20 minutes fucking straight 1.00

05:00:38.860 and if you lay off 0.99

05:00:41.100 the right angle 0.99

05:00:44.020 she's like 80% there

05:00:46.000 and you lay off the pressure for like 3 seconds 0.98

05:00:48.400 you just fuck the entire thing up 0.98

05:00:49.700 that's so true though 0.99

05:00:50.860 that's so true

05:00:52.440 well there's one thing, one advice I would give to men

05:00:55.480 is 0.95

05:00:56.240 if you sense that the woman's getting close

05:00:59.580 you should not change anything 0.97

05:01:01.660 don't change

05:01:02.720 don't make it faster

05:01:04.760 but they get but i understand they get tired well that's true like i understand that i'm

05:01:10.260 getting carpal tunnel syndrome over here trying to get her to come but uh i think that it is

05:01:15.920 really unfair that i've dated multiple women i was like is this going to reveal the body count

05:01:21.820 i'll just say i've dated multiple women who are like multi-orgasmic and it's just it's i'm not

05:01:27.020 even exaggerating they'll come within like 10 seconds and then it's like 10 seconds 10 seconds

05:01:34.260 like well damn i'm jealous it's like a medical disorder it's a medical disorder maybe it's a

05:01:41.340 good one it's like i guess it wouldn't be a disorder if it's actually to their benefit in 0.97

05:01:45.560 this case like i mean that's definitely a good thing like yeah yeah i would kill for that and 0.94

05:01:50.760 i'm like i'm over here like getting my one and their legs are twitching and shit and they're 0.99

05:01:56.780 all like they're exacerbated and shit i don't know so there's ways to delay your orgasm as a 0.99

05:02:03.880 male that is creates sensations akin to ejaculating but without releasing it so you can get there but 0.98

05:02:11.240 it requires a lot of work i've heard of this it's like you have yeah no i've heard of this but it's

05:02:16.760 like you have to do like what is it the male kegels or whatever yeah you have to like there 0.96

05:02:24.560 are certain it's like you gotta fucking meditate and shit you gotta reach the third plane or 0.97

05:02:29.280 yeah so yes i guess some men can do that yeah like bust a nut keep going yeah i don't know 1.00

05:02:39.540 though because well it's not but she was she was shaking her head like yeah she'd be having dudes 0.99

05:02:45.900 who fuck come and keep fucking okay girl period i mean i feel like it's like it's actually painful 0.99

05:02:57.840 to keep going like because it's oh it's too sensitive as a girl like yes for a guy 1.00

05:03:03.540 yeah like okay look i'll give it i'll explain it like this like girls who keep like during oral 0.99

05:03:10.720 sex you gotta stop you can't keep doing that you can't keep sucking oh after after no like as soon 1.00

05:03:20.440 as pretty much as soon as you you know climax as the guy chill the fuck out bro stop like it's 1.00

05:03:28.440 no like don't keep going like it's too much yeah it's too much it's yeah yeah it's like a vagina 1.00

05:03:38.380 after going too many rounds i guess yeah i guess yeah like a clit like a clit like don't move your 1.00

05:03:45.360 mouth at all it's the same same for girls don't move your mouth at all just just get off stay 1.00

05:03:51.020 there for 30 seconds stay there wait for oral sex right yeah getting off of it no you can't 1.00

05:03:59.680 you can't just like let it hit the ceiling like no you gotta be a trooper and 1.00

05:04:04.100 you know wait what like hold it in there like hold it in your mouth for a couple seconds no no

05:04:12.340 like stop touching it completely oh yeah okay you mean like let it go limp right just let it fall

05:04:18.080 no just okay like for head i i figured this was self-explanatory but just he's shaking his head

05:04:26.640 he's confused too and now he's ducking it's like this i don't give a lot very simple okay

05:04:33.680 when you're coming as a guy and she's giving you head like she can continue for maybe one or two

05:04:40.620 seconds but then it's gonna be it's basically like that cadence i me personally it needs to just 1.00

05:04:50.340 she can keep the oh my god she can keep the mouth on the dick but she shouldn't continue the the 1.00

05:04:56.980 sucking she should not continue the motion like it gotcha it that shit hurts honestly it's painful 1.00

05:05:05.000 i feel you i've heard that yeah you know what i mean i don't know yeah they don't know what i 1.00

05:05:11.160 mean i've heard that yeah what the fuck all right um let's get back to the let's get back to the 0.97

05:05:16.860 notes here um uh let's get to you know what let's do cheyenne or maybe we should wait till her 0.99

05:05:23.780 friends back so the friend can laugh at these oh she's coming china she's coming

05:05:28.280 Oh, boy.

05:05:31.100 Oh, boy.

05:05:32.480 Oh, we have a TTS here.

05:05:34.460 Boom.

05:05:36.100 Desert Judge donated $200. 0.63

05:05:39.300 Ladies, on the panel and watching,

05:05:41.880 if you aren't climaxing with your man and you keep faking it to be nice, 1.00

05:05:45.940 you are the shitty partner because you'll never be satisfied 1.00

05:05:48.840 and he's not a mind reader. 1.00

05:05:51.960 True.

05:05:53.000 Desert Jorge, well put.

05:05:55.220 Yeah, we're not mind readers.

05:05:56.340 and uh but also it's just like i don't know personally if you can't make me come you can't

05:06:05.240 be my man yeah that's where i was telling you sometimes i see guys and then i see that and

05:06:11.760 they're it's not they're not gonna be able to or whatever i'm like yeah no 0.89

05:06:15.720 you know though this does the female orgasm enjoyable though it may be

05:06:27.860 is not a requisite for procreation i will say that so technically although i it is a goal of

05:06:39.800 mine to achieve uh it isn't necessary for procreation but to be my man yes yeah fair enough

05:06:51.580 fair enough but i'm just saying yeah we should be more honest i mean that's a valid point i

05:07:01.040 understand i totally understand you should look coming from you should look my rule is she comes

05:07:07.440 first preferably multiple times if possible okay so be honest and just keep going until it happens

05:07:14.480 uh i keep working on it or is that like a deal breaker i'm not i'm not making when i say that

05:07:20.920 the female orgasm isn't necessary for procreation i'm not saying that uh from a relationship

05:07:26.240 perspective it's not important i think the man should have be uh wanting to please his partner

05:07:31.580 but it can even be a selfish thing too like i find it psychologically stimulating for me

05:07:38.020 to make her come yeah and like she gets more wet and it's more so even from a purely selfish

05:07:44.400 perspective uh it seems like it would be conducive to want to make your girlfriend come uh but also

05:07:52.580 just i mean that's i'm not saying that for me it's a selfish thing but i'm saying even if you

05:07:59.780 were selfish like the sex would be better she's going to be more into it i don't know so anyways

05:08:05.660 uh what what are we going to do china china chian china right should we i think we should 0.97

05:08:14.180 do you think we should uh never mind i was going to say if we should annex canada like take it 0.51

05:08:20.600 i'm kidding you can try okay come and take it okay uh over our dead canadian bodies okay

05:08:29.860 just kidding we love you guys we love you canadians yep not all canadians love you guys

05:08:37.440 though right that is true that is true well i mean not all americans like canadians either but

05:08:43.160 anyways yeah uh okay so china china uh we actually have a video from china can we pull that video

05:08:50.660 up and it's just the window tab that's crazy got a video from china uh she's in a toronto

05:08:57.880 this is her doing this is this is her in mexico doing cocaine just kidding 0.52

05:09:02.800 in the bathroom just kidding go ahead play it all right so make it one bigger

05:09:08.980 okay yeah pause it there just pause it uh read these read the list into the microphone sure

05:09:21.380 so essentially i said the guy texted me the date went well and then in my mind i'm like

05:09:29.680 he was late for eight minutes his shoes weren't clean he didn't hold the door for me

05:09:36.060 not a single funny joke he has weird palms

05:09:40.940 said yikes three times yeah he uses the same perfume as my dad perfume yeah yeah yeah put

05:09:52.740 his phone face down didn't offer me his jacket when i said it was cold he didn't smile when

05:09:59.900 talking to the waitress his haircut was uneven flexed too much about how much money he makes

05:10:06.780 no flowers though i'm not mad now i think i've seen this before so this wasn't you who wrote this

05:10:13.740 it was not but it was inspired from but i did get the the date went great and i was like yeah

05:10:21.440 yeah you didn't think so yeah

05:10:23.300 word pull it up Tiffany 1.00

05:10:29.240 uh baby butthead spitters or quitters agreed wow 1.00

05:10:35.620 don't get me started

05:10:41.400 thank you baby butthead for okay you can uh thank you for that appreciate it uh let's

05:10:50.920 see where were we um okay so that's the list you got that whole list there pull it up one more time

05:10:56.500 let me see if there's anything there i wanted to weird palms i like i mentioned it but like i have

05:11:04.060 an ick if the guy's hands are too small or his feet are too small it just like yeah well let's

05:11:10.520 we'll get to your while we do that we'll get to your ick list okay so that was also so do you

05:11:16.440 remember you sent me your ick list do you remember every single bullet point um maybe not in order

05:11:22.820 but okay let's go through it yeah wait well how before i have you do it who else has a ick list

05:11:30.800 things that give you the ick from a guy kind of i mean if i thought about it can you if you're

05:11:37.900 gonna speak yeah you speak very softly i need you up on the microphone when you're speaking i'll do

05:11:42.840 i was just saying like if i had like 20 seconds think of an ick list i probably could but well

05:11:48.700 she's gonna give hers and while she's giving hers you guys can think of it go ahead for the longest

05:11:53.460 time i actually had one in my phone but then i switched phones but yeah so the first one it

05:12:00.520 might not apply for you guys but we speak french and the men out there do not know how to spell

05:12:06.600 right or like not all of them most of them though and we get like these wild like sentence structures

05:12:14.900 that are like so we actually like kind of make fun of certain guys that I just show them the text

05:12:22.820 I'm like yo this is wild like but uh so that's one wait but so they're primarily English speakers

05:12:29.380 no they're French speakers but they don't know how to write in French oh okay so they're like

05:12:34.500 illiterate yeah yeah but like i think honestly like 0.96

05:12:38.680 at least 80 if not more are illiterate text-wise yeah yeah but french is i'm actually i'm okay

05:12:48.820 with that i'm not no what i'm saying is i'm okay with you with that like if the guy is not

05:12:58.800 like he communicates i mean i sort of have that too with women if they talk like they're 0.98

05:13:04.260 not to be classist or whatever like they talk like they're fucking retarded like or they talk 1.00

05:13:10.540 ghetto i'm not like no like they talk like their hood rat shit nah not for me i need a 0.99

05:13:17.180 she doesn't have to no i was gonna say proper so i get that like i don't i don't like that so okay 0.97

05:13:24.200 next um what was that there uh that yeah um I'm pretty tall I'm 5'8 so if a guy is like near my

05:13:35.840 height or even like I'm yeah so like even 5'10 it's not even their fault but it makes me feel

05:13:43.020 like less feminine or just like less comfortable more aware of my height I'd say so when I'm with

05:13:49.900 someone taller i just like prefer it okay so height so yeah uh i guess what's the minimum

05:13:57.420 um like it's a little controversial but even six foot sometimes i'm like yeah

05:14:03.340 i like preferably six one to six four

05:14:07.680 okay all right so if the guy's six foot it might give you the ick

05:14:16.700 yes if they have short hands like small hands like small hands or small feet and they're like

05:14:25.160 six or under what about my hands they're fine these are fine hands yeah i feel like they're

05:14:33.180 a little feminine to be honest they're very they're fine they're piano you know you ever

05:14:38.440 seen a guy like a guy who has thick like thick meaty hands i got kind of thin hands like for

05:14:44.040 playing the piano i wouldn't give them a 10 out of 10 but yeah okay i'll let you do you want to

05:14:49.120 and the side i'd give them a 6.5 do i have weird palms are the palms weird i think they could be

05:15:01.520 like your hands could be long like the fingers could be longer could be longer a little bit 0.98

05:15:06.400 yeah or thicker i don't know how far back is the fucking g-spot what the fuck you know like the 0.99

05:15:10.840 digit ratio thing like the court like the if your ring finger is longer than your index finger it 0.99

05:15:16.420 like correlates to the amount of testosterone that you i think it was exposed to in the womb

05:15:20.340 and if your index finger is longer than your ring finger it's like more estrogen and so if

05:15:25.440 your ring finger is longer it's like uh it's an indicator i think i don't like more testosterone

05:15:31.160 i mean i don't remember if it's more testosterone or exposed to more testosterone but it's like for

05:15:35.860 me like i have a longer ring finger and a but but it's more common for sorry i have a longer

05:15:41.920 i have a longer ring finger but for females it's more common to have a longer index finger it's

05:15:47.680 like a correlation there's a wikipedia page if you look up digit ratio thing on wikipedia it'll

05:15:53.180 explain it okay that's cool anyways next did you rate my yeah six six is 0.5 okay yeah valid next

05:16:03.200 um if they still live at their parents i just can't oh girl can't do that you're how old are you 29

05:16:10.160 yeah okay the economy's rough though i'm 28 i'm still living i'm still living with my parents

05:16:18.160 man i live in new jersey we'll do like roommates that's like a con like roommates sure but if

05:16:23.820 you're just like i have to go to your parents house like that's crazy sort of i mean 29 so

05:16:30.900 Okay, you're dating guys.

05:16:31.600 Mind you, I'm like a house owner, so like for me to go to a guy's parents is only.

05:16:37.780 Yeah.

05:16:38.240 How much is a house in Canada?

05:16:39.340 I mean, it's not totally unreasonable, but.

05:16:42.100 And even if you have to go through the fenster?

05:16:45.380 The what?

05:16:46.020 The window.

05:16:47.040 Window, window.

05:16:48.260 The fenster?

05:16:49.200 The fenster?

05:16:50.360 No, no, no.

05:16:50.860 Can you put that down?

05:16:51.900 Oh, okay, yeah.

05:16:51.980 I will mention this.

05:16:52.960 Yeah, I like that.

05:16:53.520 this is a funny one but I was like talking to a guy like here known him for a while

05:17:01.160 shout out Max and at some point he's like we were at a festival or something and he lived a little

05:17:09.220 closer to the festival and he was like oh do you guys want to come like sleep over or something

05:17:14.300 and I'm like look at her do you want to go she's like sure but mind you I don't know of like

05:17:20.300 anything that's going on like where he lives or whatnot and then he's like well my parents aren't

05:17:25.180 here but there's cameras so you you're gonna have to go through the window I'm like excuse me you

05:17:31.800 think I'm gonna go through a window to come see you hell no so I essentially told him I'm like

05:17:38.360 sorry but that was a huge ick we're not at the same place in life I can't that's fair with you

05:17:45.400 anymore that's fair so we haven't talked since okay so there's the there's that yeah um if like

05:17:53.100 i feel like guys usually take care of their cars so i don't know if you're i get into your car and 0.53

05:18:01.060 it's like a shit show there what if there's like one no that's fine like one thing no no that's 0.57

05:18:07.780 okay here i'm gonna i have your list i have your list i'm gonna read it uh when they say that 0.99

05:18:14.100 everything's expensive example a seven dollar water bottle at a themed park yeah i'm not gonna 0.90

05:18:21.860 lie seven dollars for a ball of water is bullshit that's expensive but refusing to buy it if you 0.91

05:18:28.380 need it well hold on you know if you need water i mean you you gotta get it you gotta get the water 0.99

05:18:34.980 you don't be passing out complaining about it yeah it's just like okay obviously if uh we're

05:18:40.740 looking at a mansion you're saying like this is a pricey house sure but if like your things under

05:18:50.060 twenty dollars and that you're comparing it to like you're saying that this item for what it's

05:18:57.680 worth is a lot and repeatedly it's kind of an ick yeah i think it's harder if a guy's just like who

05:19:07.320 cares we need water like let's do it well so okay but we need to differentiate between like okay you

05:19:13.760 need the thing and he buys it anyways or if he refuses to do it but like okay he buys the 0.89

05:19:19.020 fucking thing if it happens once and it's no but if it's i would be look 0.98

05:19:25.240 let's say i make millions of dollars let's just say 0.98

05:19:32.520 and somebody wanted to sell me a ball of water for seven dollars i can afford it it's not a problem 1.00

05:19:41.300 seven dollars for a fucking bottle of water that's fucking bullshit that's bullshit 1.00

05:19:48.240 fuck that like i don't know somebody uh i'm trying to think of something i'm trying to think of an 1.00

05:19:54.820 example another example i mean the bottle of water one's perfect but it's from past experiences that 0.99

05:20:00.340 sometimes i just keep oh this is expensive this is expensive well can i ask you this let's say you

05:20:05.520 let's say you were a billionaire yeah and so you could you could spend a thousand dollars on a

05:20:10.400 water bottle from costco uh and by the way it's like 40 for five dollars

05:20:15.180 you wouldn't even as a billionaire you wouldn't be like a two a thousand dollar water bottle 0.96

05:20:21.960 like that that's uh 10 cents in costco 20 cents at costco well that's bullshit i've heard billionaires 0.76

05:20:29.320 on like podcasts and this and that say that they don't really know the price of like small things

05:20:34.580 because they don't take care of that kind of thing well so that's different though so that's

05:20:38.120 just like so i think if i were a billionaire i wouldn't even know what the price would be

05:20:43.120 well i mean you would have some unless you've been a billionaire your entire life

05:20:47.640 and you don't even look at the price even then i mean come on uh knowing what you know about 0.99

05:20:54.160 water bottles and if you got a billion dollars tomorrow you'd be like what the fuck water a 0.98

05:20:58.820 thousand dollar water bottle that's okay but that's different no but that's difference okay 0.99

05:21:03.780 uh that would still be bullshit because you could go to the costco and buy the water bottle 40 40 0.78

05:21:12.220 water bottles for five dollars i would look at it and probably in my mind be like weird but okay but 0.67

05:21:19.080 i wouldn't be like repeatedly let me ask you a question mentioning it let me ask you a question

05:21:25.480 if you didn't have breakfast this morning how would you feel i didn't you didn't have no i fast

05:21:33.600 no but repeat that i didn't have breakfast this morning you did or didn't did not you did not

05:21:39.340 have breakfast this morning and i didn't complain about it yeah how would you feel if you didn't

05:21:44.840 have breakfast this wait let me ask did you have breakfast yesterday no when's the last time you 1.00

05:21:49.720 get this girl some fucking pancakes 1.00

05:21:52.520 when's the last time you had breakfast girl 1.00

05:21:55.200 I don't know two or three weeks ago

05:21:57.460 alright two or three weeks ago

05:21:59.100 when you had breakfast

05:22:00.180 had you not had breakfast how would you feel

05:22:02.920 it's fine I'm on Adderall

05:22:05.240 I'm not really hungry in the morning

05:22:06.540 I guess that's kind of

05:22:09.440 an answer

05:22:09.860 I eat from like

05:22:13.300 two to ten

05:22:14.660 three yeah

05:22:15.760 alright okay

05:22:17.480 uh so if they don't have a car it's an ick you have a car yeah uh if they have a dirty car we

05:22:24.460 talked about that is your car clean no

05:22:26.320 double stand are you guys renting a car no wait how long you guys here for in california

05:22:36.420 um when y'all leave uh tuesday oh on tuesday okay all right i'm gonna take a train tomorrow

05:22:42.320 got it okay uh let's see when they're when they're cheap and they don't want to spend a lot that

05:22:48.320 gives you the ick yeah but it's even it's most like obviously to some degree on me but it's when

05:22:54.560 they're not even like spending on themselves they're you know what I'm like depriving

05:23:02.360 a certain standard can I ask you a question do you think I dress nicely

05:23:07.840 Well, you have your whatever shirt right now. 1.00

05:23:13.860 The fuck? 1.00

05:23:14.440 She just looks right at my penis. 1.00

05:23:16.900 I didn't know it, but... 0.99

05:23:18.060 She just looks right down Main Street.

05:23:21.060 Well, right off the bat, I'd say no.

05:23:23.600 You're prioritizing comfort at the moment.

05:23:26.620 That's true.

05:23:27.340 That's how I like to dress.

05:23:28.620 And advertising your brand.

05:23:29.500 Right, but I mean, it's not very stylish.

05:23:31.600 I don't dress stylish, right?

05:23:32.760 I don't care.

05:23:33.320 um but uh i have the money to dress stylishly i could buy i don't know i don't frankly this is 0.99

05:23:41.000 how much i don't give a fuck i don't even know what the nice brands are what is it fucking gucci 0.92

05:23:45.180 what is the nice well i'm like that too like my uh i don't spend like on for clothing and 0.98

05:23:54.520 person and stuff like that right but you said if the guy doesn't spend a lot on themselves

05:23:59.820 here let me let me give you an example so i'm i do fairly well i'm not going to say how much i 0.99

05:24:06.640 make but i do well uh now my girlfriend future girlfriend i'm not going to get married fuck

05:24:13.220 that but uh i will have kids with a woman hopefully a lot and she's not going to have to work uh she 1.00

05:24:21.720 doesn't, if, uh, I mean, I, she wouldn't have to work, right? If she's, I don't know. 0.99

05:24:29.600 It's not necessarily a deal breaker, but like when we have kids, it would be my strong preference

05:24:34.860 that, okay, let's focus on the kids. Right. Um, up until that point, she wants to work.

05:24:42.620 Don't really care all that much, but anyways, I can take care of everything. I'm in the financial

05:24:47.900 position to do it she's never getting a louis vuitton bag she's never getting you know uh

05:24:56.640 i'm not going to ever waste thousands of dollars on a designer thing now but that might my

05:25:03.480 my financial expenditure might manifest in other ways like the house will be nicer the vacations

05:25:12.100 or it might be for the benefit of our kids even though i might have the money to i could

05:25:18.960 certainly afford to buy her some very nice bag so does that uh what i just described is that

05:25:26.700 icky to you no it's more so let's say you can afford a somewhat decent car like doesn't have 0.96

05:25:34.540 to be a bugatti but like a good and functional honda civic but you keep your shitty car that 0.52

05:25:44.940 barely works for i don't know 15 years or something and upgrade when you can okay it's

05:25:53.160 kind of like you said if they have short legs that gives you the egg

05:25:57.860 yeah like once i i had a guy sleep over

05:26:04.700 he was like tried to cuddle with me wait can i have you yeah yeah sorry to the mic um he like

05:26:13.220 tried to cuddle with me and then he put his legs near mine and then i just realized you know what 0.99

05:26:18.740 we're gonna do um can uh maybe tiffany you can help out we're gonna i want to give her the taller 1.00

05:26:25.720 mic because she's kind of tall so that mic is going to go under the table we're going to scoot

05:26:30.660 those two mics over yeah sorry better with that one it was just it was bothering me uh no no here

05:26:35.120 give it to tiffany give it to tiffany tiffany you put it somewhere where it won't get kicked

05:26:38.860 probably just right in front there all right scoot the mics down for me all right is that good

05:26:45.120 do you know how to turn the mic off yeah that should have been nine you muted it uh chat just

05:26:53.380 say testing testing testing testing can you guys hear chat i'm sure it's fine um do you see the

05:26:59.160 chat you guys team do they hear testing testing testing testing testing yep okay cool continue on

05:27:10.680 yeah so we were in bed he tried to like cuddle me a little bit and then i don't know i just felt

05:27:18.700 that his legs were much shorter than mine i was like oh why did i bring him over i was like hesitant

05:27:26.280 from the get-go but i kind of just like he asked can i sleep over let me think about it and then i

05:27:35.000 was like legs okay but yeah yeah and then that happened i was like hell no and then uh i kind

05:27:44.340 scooched over and the crazy thing is this man proceeded to say that he had a threesome with

05:27:51.400 milana and i which is complete bull he never kissed me or did the closest thing was sleep over 0.77

05:28:00.960 and touch you with the short legs yeah short legs so yeah okay cool cool uh what else what else is 0.93

05:28:11.780 on your ick list uh if they have small hands and feet oh bald and balding ick yeah um i my ex 0.68

05:28:20.400 boyfriend was well like bald slash balding but it did kind of low-key give me the ick yeah low-key

05:28:29.140 gave you the okay uh so question let's say you know as you get older you're going to be dating

05:28:35.300 a guy who you know say the guy you marry or whatever he's going to get older as men get older

05:28:40.020 um some i mean look some men can go into their 50s 60s be totally fine uh what about in that

05:28:47.860 situation you're already dating him and he starts going bald um or is he going to get a transplant

05:28:52.420 maybe well what if he doesn't want like are you going to pressure him to get a transplant

05:28:56.920 no but if he talks about it about it and it's like should i i'm like yeah let's go together 0.99

05:29:03.340 to turkey do a little trip okay uh you said out of shape slash belly fat yeah well i'm fucked 0.99

05:29:11.360 if they uh okay sure that's fine uh if they often eat fast food don't yeah okay yeah that's fine 0.99

05:29:20.140 yeah i i'm personally when's the last time you had fast food today we went to um how's it called

05:29:27.900 in and out or something but i um took out the bread and everything and i just took the meat

05:29:33.360 and like like cheese and ketchup yeah good for you uh if they're if they're obsessed with camping

05:29:40.020 it gives you the ick yeah i'm not a camper like i don't understand why people go on vacation to

05:29:47.540 downgrade their lifestyle personally if i'm going on vacation i want to upgrade it so i just don't

05:29:53.240 get it and also yeah i don't like mosquitoes and feeling dirty i like to shower but you know what

05:30:00.580 glamping it actually yeah i sort of agree with you so but like if a girl's into camping or she's

05:30:08.920 outdoorsy it doesn't give me the ick yeah like i'm not turned off by it but i just don't like

05:30:15.080 camping that that's it so if they want to go do those things i feel like i'll probably kind of

05:30:21.280 like end up doing it and i'm just not going to enjoy it because i feel like you know look we

05:30:25.400 built all of this to get away from that in the sense that i don't know we have a lot of modern

05:30:34.480 comforts yeah i don't mind doing like an excursion in nature and everything but once we go back home 0.96

05:30:41.140 like home i want to be comfy you know yeah i don't want to right live in a being a fucking tent and 0.89

05:30:46.980 there's ants and shit and i could maybe do it one night but not two fair enough if they're too hairy 0.97

05:30:53.700 yeah and the worst part is like i've the last few guys i've been are on the hairier side of 0.97

05:31:02.760 the spectrum but it's just like if you like touch them and then it's their backs hairy

05:31:08.420 yeah okay that gives you the ick look yeah back hair agree it's all you have a long ick list yeah

05:31:15.000 i do but they're i think some of these are kind of yeah these are kind of preferency so yeah yeah

05:31:21.340 you know i there's not too much pushback on some of these but um do you have an issue with men who

05:31:27.040 don't want hairy women uh no because i've done laser pretty much everywhere on my body so i yeah

05:31:35.420 i prefer is that self or you go to like a place yeah i went to a place but i'm lucky because

05:31:42.300 with my like i have dark hair and stuff but i'm not like particularly hairy but i just prefer it

05:31:49.960 do you think because i've heard some women say as an argument that men who prefer women

05:31:55.880 uh who have less hair or who groom that that it's like creepy that guys that

05:32:05.380 groom wait no that guys that prefer women who grew like who are uh through grooming who are

05:32:11.500 hairless to have that preference as a guy they say it's creepy down there i've heard that before

05:32:16.520 yeah yeah why is it like a little like i don't think it's like so i don't think that little girl 0.87

05:32:20.960 but what they're trying to allude to is these women maybe they have arm hair or whatever yeah

05:32:27.720 And men who prefer women who don't have, like, body hair, arm hair, et cetera, this is somehow indicative that, to put it bluntly, that they're pedophiles.

05:32:38.860 I disagree. 0.97

05:32:39.860 Which I think is ridiculous. 0.97

05:32:40.600 No, yeah, I think that's ridiculous. 0.92

05:32:41.820 That's taken it way too far. 0.98

05:32:42.860 Yes, they are.

05:32:43.980 Can I have you scoot your mic to the edge of the table for me?

05:32:46.600 That's not how it works.

05:32:48.840 Okay.

05:32:49.600 If they didn't go to college gives you the ick.

05:32:52.340 if so if they didn't go to college and like they believe in conspiracy theories and like they

05:33:01.540 i don't know if they have like or they're a little more on the like misogynist part of the spectrum

05:33:08.040 and stuff like that or they just have and they didn't go to college i'm like yeah that's that's

05:33:12.300 what's up am i a misogynist i like i watch clips of the show but i haven't got like

05:33:19.940 watch the full nine hours kind of thing so i i don't know you've seen

05:33:25.240 go ahead you can say it if you're massage um massage therapist

05:33:34.000 well some of your stances i don't fully agree with but sure are they misogynistic but some

05:33:42.260 we saw pretty much eye to eye on certain things so i don't know what are the stances you disagree

05:33:47.240 with the abortion thing well i mean that was something we got into tonight but putting that

05:33:53.000 aside uh what is uh other stances you disagree with um for me it's like double standards so

05:34:01.540 if um for me if a girl hooks up with a lot of guys and you guys say oh she's a this or that

05:34:09.020 i think it's the same thing for guys if they sleep with any girl even if it's not their type or

05:34:16.020 like for me is that you don't really like value yeah value yourself that much or you don't put

05:34:23.000 yourself to a high standard so i think it's yeah um well so this is my position i don't

05:34:30.380 believe that promiscuity is good in men or women yeah well however however i am prepared to say

05:34:38.640 that i think it's different so there is a double standard there um one of the i guess one of the

05:34:45.200 components is it's really easy for women to get laid and it's relatively comparatively speaking

05:34:51.400 difficult for men to get laid uh so something that is easy to do is typically not going to be viewed

05:34:59.260 in a as charitable of a way well for me but you do you agree with that or you disagree well

05:35:07.200 for me it is difficult because i'm picky you know what i mean like for me to be down to do

05:35:15.700 something with someone i have so many criteria that she's got the ick list yeah so it is probably

05:35:22.340 like your palms are weird yeah well well but so that's a bit different though so well you said

05:35:29.180 it's different no well no what i what i'm saying here is is that let me ask you this 0.99

05:35:34.960 when the guy does meet your list yeah how confident are you you can fuck him 0.99

05:35:42.900 um pretty yeah pretty confident men can't say that i think it depends so yeah so yeah yeah 0.99

05:35:53.440 well hold on for men when it comes to even getting laid with women we would never even

05:35:59.540 be in relationships with like we'll get rejected and curved by women who like I guess it wouldn't

05:36:07.500 be objectively speaking but like men will get rejected and curved by like let's be honest 0.99

05:36:12.380 like women who are even below their league right and so uh for men if you're out there trying to 0.98

05:36:21.940 get pussy trying to get laid that's that can be called getting lucky like if I'm on a date with 0.99

05:36:27.600 a woman it's not a given that we're gonna fuck it's not a given you know in most circumstances 1.00

05:36:35.160 but my stance is that if you hook up with someone you're not even attracted to them and you're doing 0.99

05:36:40.800 that multiple times I don't I think it's the same thing as your version of like well okay fine even

05:36:50.680 if I take a guy who only goes on dates with women whom he finds attractive enough to be in

05:36:56.480 relationships with it's not a given that he can get laid like you can shoot your shot as a guy

05:37:03.460 and get rejected 10 out of 10 times i'll respect you a lot more if you just hook up with people

05:37:08.380 that or potentially attract like that you are attracted to and might maybe you'll miss maybe

05:37:13.160 well yeah but that's a separate thing that's not really what we're talking about what we're

05:37:16.960 talking about here you're talking about the double standard that exists between men and women 0.98

05:37:20.760 where uh you know they're a woman's a slut and the man's a stud you know the man it's impressive 1.00

05:37:28.100 if he fucks a lot of women whereas it's disgusting if a woman oh my god she's a sturdy slut oh my god 1.00

05:37:33.980 that guy is just a that guy just runs through all these hot beesies like that that's a different 1.00

05:37:39.960 that's the double standard you're referencing but and again i don't think men should be promiscuous 0.99

05:37:45.800 but uh it's it is somewhat like if you're a guy and you can fuck a lot of women uh as objectionable 0.99

05:37:55.500 as it may be that communicates something about the man like any woman can be a slut any single 1.00

05:38:02.920 one of you tonight you go out to a fucking bar on a sunday night in fucking small ass santa barbara 1.00

05:38:07.780 you can get some dick within 30 minutes us men most men unless you're unless you're a guy and 1.00

05:38:14.600 you're a top top top tier even then it's not a guarantee i can't i can't just at 10 p.m on a 0.99

05:38:22.420 tuesday just be like i need pussy i can't just men most men cannot just at any given moment 1.00

05:38:29.080 need some pussy get some pussy can't do it women at any hour of the night it could be it could be 1.00

05:38:36.420 4 a.m you hop on tinder come over but i'll disagree there just because i wouldn't be able 1.00

05:38:43.980 to go through it because i'm not attracted to them it would so i just can't get like a quality

05:38:52.760 guy i find attractive at 4am but that's a filtering that would be a filtering issue but

05:38:59.500 guys don't have that right but so for men to be able to get laid they have to actually be

05:39:07.540 bringing at least regularly right uh they have to be bringing something women okay i'll paint it 1.00

05:39:16.460 like women don't have to bring anything to get sex it's not impressive like if a woman can fuck 0.99

05:39:22.960 a bunch of dudes like okay if a woman can fuck four men in a night it's like oh okay duh like 1.00

05:39:33.820 that's not really all that challenging for a woman like she could do it for a dude to fuck 1.00

05:39:40.820 four different women like brand new fresh women in the night bro this guy needs to write a fucking 0.99

05:39:47.300 book or something that's insane but regularly like you gotta be i don't know it's still hard 0.99

05:39:53.960 though bro hold on we had i remember this one episode we had a a below average looking fat 0.90

05:40:02.460 woman who said that she was a sex addict and she would be on tinder and she would literally i know 1.00

05:40:08.340 this sounds gross schedule these dudes she would fuck six dudes in a day 3 p.m 5 p.m 7 p.m 9 p.m 1.00

05:40:18.940 like literally and she's below average looking at for a guy to fuck six women off tinder in a day 0.99

05:40:25.840 he has to be a fucking greek god and like the most aesthetic fucking insane aesthetics and even then 0.99

05:40:34.180 if i'm a betting man i don't think he's doing it i don't think most men now look maybe goes on 0.99

05:40:41.840 he sets up some dates and maybe he gets pussy down the road i don't think even the greek god dude can 0.97

05:40:48.680 I don't know if it's my life savings 1.00

05:40:51.760 I'm not

05:40:54.300 I'm not going all in

05:40:56.540 On Greek god guy 1.00

05:40:58.340 Being able to fuck six women 1.00

05:41:00.740 I don't know I'm not going all in 1.00

05:41:02.340 I'm just saying 0.92

05:41:03.220 But a woman you give me 1.00

05:41:05.960 I would rather place my money 1.00

05:41:07.600 On a chubby 1.00

05:41:09.260 Not obese but let's say she's a little chubby 1.00

05:41:11.880 And she's average in the face 1.00

05:41:13.400 I would quicker put my money on her 1.00

05:41:16.020 Fucking six dudes 1.00

05:41:18.120 then i would put all my money chips all in on greek god giga chad 10 out of 10 1.00

05:41:25.620 then then him getting six women or at least like who can fuck more quicker i guess but doesn't it 1.00

05:41:33.560 take six dudes to fuck this one girl how would that be relevant though well you need some guys 0.99

05:41:40.240 to do it so they're getting laid to some degree i suppose but the idea here is it's super easy 0.98

05:41:49.140 for women to get laid it's difficult for men to get laid so it's more it's like more impressive

05:41:54.360 uh the other component here is that there's a couple hold on there's a couple different reasons 0.97

05:42:00.280 promiscuity in women is grosser it's more disgusting i disagree right well i'll explain 1.00

05:42:09.200 why i'll explain why and i think you guys will agree with me by the end of it so if a woman 0.99

05:42:15.880 let's say let's say in both instances so the man version and the female version they're 0.91

05:42:22.800 fucking without a condom but let's remove stds from this hold on oh people are fucking without 0.65

05:42:28.640 condoms trust okay so let's remove stds from this but i mean we could even incorporate std argument 1.00

05:42:35.400 if I have sex with a woman and then I hop in the shower say I came inside of her right I hop in the

05:42:43.740 shower and there's no STD or whatever I might as well and I soap and whatever I might as well be a 1.00

05:42:51.120 virgin I'm dick as good as new dick as good as new uh it's true literally you you hop in the shower 0.99

05:42:58.900 because our parts look it's physiologically true our parts are inter are excuse me external we can 1.00

05:43:04.860 wash that shit if a guy nuts inside of you this is granted in the hypothetical if i'm not in a 1.00

05:43:12.420 girl versus uh who okay fine her her pussy's overflowing with juice and it's all over me 1.00

05:43:19.820 it's it's literally fucking like a waterfall and it's i don't know the bed is leaking with 1.00

05:43:24.660 her pussy juice she squirts all over whatever whatever the fuck i take a shower good as 1.00

05:43:30.320 Fucking new 1.00

05:43:31.300 She can shower too 1.00

05:43:32.820 Hold on a guy comes in you 0.97

05:43:36.340 Okay it's not advised 1.00

05:43:40.140 That women 1.00

05:43:40.880 You should not put soap in your pussy 1.00

05:43:43.760 You can't soap that shit out 1.00

05:43:45.640 I don't even think you're really supposed to 0.99

05:43:47.500 Put water up in there to that degree

05:43:49.380 So if 1.00

05:43:51.420 I could fuck a girl 1.00

05:43:52.720 I take a shower one hour later 1.00

05:43:54.980 I'm with another girl 0.99

05:43:56.080 Dick is good as new 1.00

05:43:59.200 You fuck a guy 1.00

05:44:01.020 And then one hour later 1.00

05:44:02.580 You're fucking another guy 1.00

05:44:04.020 You have another man's cum still inside of you 1.00

05:44:06.820 Well that's a wild thing to do 1.00

05:44:09.640 Right 1.00

05:44:10.000 For a woman too 1.00

05:44:11.180 Wait but hold on 1.00

05:44:12.820 So if the woman's a slut 1.00

05:44:15.140 And she fucked a guy the night before 1.00

05:44:16.820 Yeah there's DNA up inside of her 1.00

05:44:19.960 But then the guy's a slut too 1.00

05:44:21.340 Right yeah 1.00

05:44:22.720 You can't just wash off a body

05:44:25.140 Wait wait wait hold on

05:44:26.460 But I'm talking about physiological 1.00

05:44:28.000 like fucking bacteria here i'm willing to i'm i'm not gonna argue men can't be sluts i totally 1.00

05:44:34.300 agree with you men are sluts anyways back to this yes men can be sluts they can fuck a lot of women 1.00

05:44:39.100 uh promiscuity in males are bad however the reason it's worse in women is for fucking literally 1.00

05:44:45.120 bacterial motherfucking reasons literally dna uh it's gross it's gross to think you could fuck a 1.00

05:44:52.720 woman and she's got another dude's fucking seed in her that's disgusting but if i wash my dick 1.00

05:44:58.700 i'm good as new but you're only talking about people who are having unprotected sex 1.00

05:45:04.520 well uh yeah if you want to do carve outs um i i suppose you you could do that but comparing 0.99

05:45:12.460 like for like and look let's be real here uh a lot of people are fucking without condoms 1.00

05:45:21.340 okay personally a lot okay well you're a prostitute you have to use condoms uh 0.99

05:45:26.020 yeah and it's like that's but and we're not just like we're talking about promiscuous women 1.00

05:45:31.940 so comparing a promiscuous man to a promiscuous woman then yes she is fucking lots of dudes 1.00

05:45:39.240 and yes say she's on birth control whatever she's letting dudes blast inside her 1.00

05:45:44.800 i think if you're more responsible and having multiple partners no but then you're also more 1.00

05:45:52.060 likely to get a yeast infection even if you're using condoms even if you're using condoms

05:45:58.120 maybe the condom breaks even if you're still so from that perspective right it's gross it's more 1.00

05:46:06.900 gross and then here's the other component that's evolutionary psychology if i have 10 wives

05:46:13.260 and they're all loyal to me and i'm well loyal to the 10 wives but well we get it

05:46:21.420 and i get them all pregnant and they're loyal to me we know who the father is and for each of the

05:46:31.440 kids we know who the mother is if a woman has 10 husbands and they're all loyal to her and she's 0.99

05:46:39.720 well fucking all of them who the fuck is the father you don't know you don't know 0.99

05:46:46.260 okay paternity tests are a modern invention of science back in the are we in 2026 or well hold 1.00

05:46:54.300 on but so do you know what flight or flight is yeah why is it that people have panic attacks

05:46:59.860 and anxiety attacks when there's not an actual uh mountain lion yeah why do i have a panic attack

05:47:06.820 when there's not a a lion why some do some don't but yeah it's but why do people have panic attacks

05:47:15.120 but there's not an immediate threat i'm looking for the correct way to say it but it's uh like uh

05:47:22.040 to some i don't know it's a way to like the anticipation of it

05:47:27.900 well it's to protect yourself in certain situations but what is the purpose of the

05:47:33.600 flight or flight response if i'm just chilling in my cave if i'm just chilling in my cave 0.97

05:47:42.260 uh and i'm kicking it fred flintstone shit and there i'm good there's no there's no saber-toothed 0.95

05:47:52.740 tiger what is the purpose of me having a panic attack i don't think you should have a panic 0.98

05:48:02.640 attack if there's but what is that system so when you have a panic attack that's your

05:48:07.260 fight or flight response so that's like saber-toothed tiger danger danger danger i need to

05:48:13.740 run and i need adrenaline to help me run faster and longer and i also need maybe i'm fighting

05:48:19.560 something i need my strength fight or flight adrenaline more strength a way to survive

05:48:25.100 right okay but in the data in for most of you who here has ever had a panic attack

05:48:31.140 now did you have a panic attack

05:48:35.000 when a saber tooth tiger was about to kill you

05:48:37.200 or did you have a panic attack

05:48:38.840 ruminating over some 1.00

05:48:40.980 fucking bullshit drama 1.00

05:48:42.540 that doesn't actually pose 1.00

05:48:44.620 any threat to you 0.97

05:48:46.140 I don't think it was a bullshit drama 0.97

05:48:49.300 well 0.96

05:48:50.000 the idea here is that

05:48:53.340 what I'm trying to get at

05:48:55.500 is that we have systems in our body

05:48:57.580 that

05:48:59.540 that transcend modern uh the sort of comforts of modernity so in this case you say that well

05:49:10.260 we have dna tests okay my feeling as a man if my girlfriend gets pregnant by another man

05:49:20.040 well don't that's bro it's you can't even intellectual it's not a thing you can even 0.99

05:49:26.540 think through and intellectualize so when you're dealing with a promiscuous woman the reason men 0.85

05:49:35.140 have a a revulsion factor to promiscuity in women is promiscuous women if they're women who are 0.99

05:49:43.240 promiscuous are more likely to cheat on you so if she's going to cheat on me the biggest l that you 1.00

05:49:48.240 can take as a man is she fucks around and you think that kid is yours she's from fucking france 1.00

05:49:54.700 by the way this is this is great if you fuck if you're dealing with a woman and she's fucking 1.00

05:50:01.240 other men it's one of the worst because you women can't even empathize i don't even think you 1.00

05:50:07.580 understand because when you have a kid you know it's yours there's no world in which 0.98

05:50:12.220 oh he was cheating on me and the and i thought it was my kid no when you give birth you know

05:50:21.100 that's your kid men can't get pregnant well in all the situations that i'm aware of guys if they

05:50:26.500 were unsure would just get a paternity test okay so but that doesn't take away tens of thousands

05:50:32.980 hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary psychology and biology so the reason men have

05:50:40.360 a greater aversion to female promiscuity is okay if i'm going to invest all this time and energy 0.97

05:50:46.880 and resources in a child it better fucking be mine and if it's not my kid that is the biggest l 0.99

05:50:53.020 for most men that you can take to be duped by a woman into thinking that it's your kid but it's 0.99

05:50:59.640 not that's a dead end to your fucking bloodline if you just invested 5 10 20 30 years in raising 0.96

05:51:07.600 a kid that's not your blood and so in france actually she's from france they actually banned 0.99

05:51:14.900 paternity tests in france because apparently this is such an issue in france it's so rampant

05:51:21.780 that if men were to i think you can do it with consent or something i believe but the man uh 0.87

05:51:28.980 cannot just like he needs permission or some bullshit can we google this can we google uh 0.77

05:51:35.700 France Paternity Test Law. 0.98

05:51:42.200 Can you Google that?

05:51:46.480 France Paternity Test Law.

05:51:52.140 Show us what you got. 0.99

05:51:55.100 Make it bigger, please.

05:51:59.680 One less.

05:52:01.700 Yeah, so private at-home recreational paternity test.

05:52:05.700 But if you go see a doctor in court.

05:52:08.640 But so, purpose, the ban is intended to protect the stability of the family unit

05:52:14.260 and restrict DNA testing to regulated medical.

05:52:18.280 So, okay, they're only legal.

05:52:20.940 Oh, wait.

05:52:21.680 Oh, they have to be ordered by a judge.

05:52:25.420 Oh, wait.

05:52:27.120 Wait, it has to be?

05:52:28.900 Hold on.

05:52:29.840 That's a bit conflicting.

05:52:30.720 It has to be?

05:52:33.860 Oh, no, no, no, no. 1.00

05:52:34.840 so yeah the judge has to order the paternity test so i wait would this even if the woman

05:52:44.860 consents you can't get like a private at-home test so wait what if the woman i've never heard

05:52:53.340 of an at-home paternity you can order them like on amazon yeah you can order anything at this

05:52:59.500 But the idea here, apparently France made a determination.

05:53:04.000 Let me ask, can you ask why?

05:53:06.120 Oh, wait, actually.

05:53:09.320 Filiation over purely.

05:53:11.500 French bioethics law.

05:53:13.120 Where?

05:53:13.760 Pull it up.

05:53:17.000 French bioethics law prioritizes legal recognized filiation over purely biological evidence to avoid disrupting family structures.

05:53:27.400 Okay.

05:53:27.680 so what that's suggesting is 1.00

05:53:30.200 women in France just be 1.00

05:53:33.840 fucking other dudes 1.00

05:53:35.340 and it would be very disruptive 1.00

05:53:37.540 if men knew that

05:53:39.940 their wife or girlfriend 0.60

05:53:41.100 and that that kid isn't his 1.00

05:53:43.360 but y'all women can't even understand 1.00

05:53:45.560 how much of a betrayal 0.97

05:53:47.800 that would be

05:53:48.640 y'all can't even conceptualize it

05:53:51.700 because it could never happen to you

05:53:53.420 but that does seem hard

05:53:55.100 yeah yeah i can like we're realistic it does i can i can see how that would be disturbing yeah

05:54:03.180 but look that's why men are more invested in this for i mean a variety of reasons

05:54:09.460 i don't know if you disagree or it's just hard for me to relate to this because

05:54:15.320 one i'm not in the mindset of oh i want kids at the moment and wait you don't you don't want kids

05:54:22.820 period it's like 29 when's your birthday uh it was in january okay so you'll be 30 in january

05:54:31.660 okay um i just yeah i am it's not on the priority list i guess why not what's your priority right

05:54:39.700 now um living life um living life investing investing okay i don't know it's just not

05:54:49.200 so do you not want kids not i not at the moment no in like right now i would say no but i don't

05:54:59.340 know sometimes people things change people change but right now it's just not on the

05:55:04.780 priority list so it's hard to put myself in that situation and i think pretty sure if i were to be

05:55:11.740 pregnant like i know who it i know who it would be so um okay who here uh who here wants kids

05:55:20.000 show of hands you don't want kids i want kids yeah sorry i want kids okay you are you christian

05:55:28.400 uh i've done my communion but i'm not going to the church every every week okay because you're

05:55:37.260 running across so everybody wants kids or did i miss i want kids kids no kids for you no no kids

05:55:43.960 okay uh okay so you're on the fence about kids yeah i think it's for some people have like the

05:55:53.620 qualities or the or in the right situation but like personally i'm so adhd that i have a hard

05:56:01.820 time taking care of myself sometimes so i just like so do you have brothers yeah okay i guess

05:56:10.100 they'll continue on the bloodline and you'll be the you'll be the wine aunt or whatever yeah cool

05:56:15.600 aunt is that really you don't want kids uh right now yeah yeah okay but my brothers have kids yeah

05:56:25.000 oh okay interesting i have a question for you let's say you could get the perfect guy

05:56:30.080 so he's rich meets all your criteria but he's got the looks he's got the personality he's got the

05:56:36.220 money he's got all the things that you care about perfect guy but there's one condition

05:56:40.840 you have to have three kids with him do you take the deal do you take the trade

05:56:45.600 um i would there would be a lot of conditions what do you mean conditions um first of all 1.00

05:56:54.840 i'm get like he's gonna have to like put some money in there oh yeah in your pussy 1.00

05:57:01.900 no no so um because for me the biggest thing that i would be scared of is like 1.00

05:57:07.620 the whole like pregnancy like i gained two pounds and i'm like tripping so imagine like

05:57:13.320 the whole not just that but this part of it so i'm gonna need a personal trainer

05:57:18.040 if i have three kids i'm probably staying at home so you better perfect guy

05:57:24.020 yeah but yeah i'm i'm gonna need ozampic i'm gonna need a personal trainer and it's not gonna

05:57:31.840 come from me it's gonna come from him but three that's wild but can it be an adoption nope and

05:57:40.340 you uh maybe a surrogacy it's potentially negotiable but uh those are yeah but if i have

05:57:48.120 to you i think no part of the deal i think you have to you have to give birth to the kids

05:57:52.780 that's part of the deal no you don't want to lose your body mainly is that what it is it's part of

05:57:58.440 it yeah and i but you already have the man so who cares and he's perfect he'll never how i feel he'll

05:58:04.620 never cheat he'll never leave you postpartum and then oh my god anti-natalist crazy yeah

05:58:10.480 all right my body my choice huh well yeah it's obviously people can do whatever uh well not

05:58:16.660 whatever they want but people can choose to have kids or not have kids i just think like when

05:58:21.700 presented with this opportunity to have the perfect man it's you're thinking still me me me

05:58:28.040 me no but if i someday in my life meet the perfect guy i will consider it way more than

05:58:36.000 like i'll never have a one-night stand get pregnant and be like oh absolutely like no

05:58:41.540 yeah yeah that will not happen but if the circumstances are perfect and i'm in another

05:58:47.600 headspace in my life long later on perhaps but it's not like oh I absolutely need kids and I'm

05:58:57.040 ready to raise them on my own and not take any child support so what's I mean let's say you

05:59:04.280 don't have kids what would be your purpose in life there's so many things like I feel like I'm

05:59:09.360 like for me every day or like as I'm growing up I'm trying to be a better person and like

05:59:18.840 work on things so that's my like my goal is that at a certain age I'll have no issues and I'll just

05:59:26.620 progress so you currently have issues don't we all I suppose but I mean those just go away as

05:59:35.760 you age no but you try to improve okay so you don't want to have kids because adhd

05:59:42.640 and yeah just like already like just she helped me like pack here because like just thinking about

05:59:51.240 everything and stuff i was like all right maybe you shouldn't have kids there you go

05:59:55.420 you have you struggle packing yeah just like 29 yeah she's always losing your keys oh yeah i lose

06:00:04.300 things yeah do you are you clumsy are you clumsy yeah yeah yeah it's a liability to date a clumsy

06:00:13.260 woman oh but she's improving since i mean her life she's improving you know it's not not talking 1.00

06:00:21.400 about you but like clumsy women the the way they're dangerous is they can't you can't have sex 1.00

06:00:28.440 with them on top because they'll break your shit they'll just they're they're so like just they 1.00

06:00:36.080 flail around and shit and uh like a girl who isn't aware of her environment like i don't know 0.99

06:00:42.880 yo let me ask the chat chat have you ever like maybe a girl a girl's going down on you and then 1.00

06:00:51.920 she like climbs to get on top of you and as she's climbing on top she like knees you in the dick 1.00

06:00:57.400 or she like knees you in the balls you've done that whoops not sober bro it's like bro 1.00

06:01:05.320 and like you're you're tall right like five foot eight yeah right you're you're not like a petite 0.99

06:01:11.040 woman you know i don't think i'm a non-petite woman no i'm not saying you're fat but like your

06:01:16.300 your dad was an athlete like he was a big guy right yeah yeah so i mean like i'm not saying 0.60

06:01:21.920 you're just you're just a larger that sounds so bad i don't mean it that way but you're like a

06:01:26.560 you're bigger which is good d1 if you do have kids like you'll give your your kids will be

06:01:31.860 athletes or whatever i already thought of this but if i have a girl and i usually am interested 1.00

06:01:37.440 in taller guys this poor girl's gonna be so tall yeah it's yeah but wait where the fuck oh no but 0.99

06:01:44.360 i'm saying like look if like a little petite thing yeah like accidentally yeah but i mean like 1.00

06:01:49.740 do you work out too yeah so you got like some leg strength yeah that's the problem like a clumsy 1.00

06:01:54.560 girl with like big thought like muscle she's gonna wreck your shit she's gonna just and then 1.00

06:02:00.640 the sheets it hasn't been a problem it's more like i'll like hit something here or like yeah my 1.00

06:02:05.860 knees are bruised kind of thing i'm just saying it's i i'm scared to date a clumsy woman because 1.00

06:02:12.060 they're gonna like as they're you know it could be different shit but they're like i don't know 1.00

06:02:18.160 they'll just fucking knee you in the balls and as they're coming up just fucking knee you in the 1.00

06:02:24.420 dick fuck my dick's there be careful lady i only got one you break this shit it's over 1.00

06:02:30.760 it's over for it shit hey you can break your dick did you guys know that yeah oh yeah 1.00

06:02:36.600 you guys broken dicks nope no shit you gotta be careful especially if you can though you gotta 1.00

06:02:42.820 be careful guys okay anyways uh okay you don't want kids i want kids oh you do want kids okay 1.00

06:02:49.860 i forgot where i was going with the kids thing i guess i was gonna say

06:02:52.980 for the perfect guy because you're you're still in college uh university and you want to do a job

06:03:02.900 and you're you're in electrical engineering yeah okay say the perfect guy comes around

06:03:09.280 and he's like rich and when i say perfect so this means personality looks money and he's perfectly

06:03:17.380 loyal like you have a i don't know you can see the future he would never cheat on you

06:03:21.260 i guess you you don't see the future but you know he would never cheat he's perfectly loyal uh he

06:03:27.260 would never be abusive he would treat you perfectly so when i say perfect i mean everything he's not

06:03:32.980 just a hot dude with money everything perfect he would never leave you like everything so you never

06:03:38.500 have to worry about him leaving perfect guy you meet him tomorrow but a condition of you being

06:03:44.320 being with him is you have to drop out of college and start having kids do you do it i think yes

06:03:50.820 i want kids i want to be a mother later there you go right now w i'm studying because i love that

06:03:59.020 and i'm sure that i will love my job because i love uh studying i love research i love everything

06:04:06.140 yeah but i want to have kids later and if it and i want to take care of them to raise them

06:04:15.000 and to make them good people like uh with my values and everything like this i want them to

06:04:23.020 be intelligent uh polite good manier everything okay so yeah all right but if you did meet the

06:04:31.160 perfect guy you would oh preferably i will work here because i will maybe become the can in order

06:04:39.520 to get the perfect guy one of the conditions is you can't work you have to drop out of college

06:04:46.920 to be with him do you do it okay yeah just clarifying all right uh we're gonna move on

06:04:52.440 to some other note uh one uh wait oh question how long have you been celibate

06:04:58.360 since i've been on the trip oh right you have a boyfriend yeah like in my job or personal life

06:05:07.200 total total i just went to work last week so that's x okay okay i didn't understand the

06:05:14.280 question la dernière fois que tu as uh i don't want to talk about that

06:05:23.140 Faire le boum-boum, le dernier.

06:05:24.980 Le boum-boum.

06:05:25.900 Le boum-boum, le dernier.

06:05:27.760 Oh, man.

06:05:28.500 Non?

06:05:28.800 Non.

06:05:30.760 Désolé.

06:05:31.420 Okay.

06:05:32.220 What about you?

06:05:32.960 About a year.

06:05:34.260 One year?

06:05:34.720 A little bit less than a year.

06:05:36.480 One year?

06:05:36.940 What about you?

06:05:37.560 Several months.

06:05:38.800 Several months.

06:05:39.400 All right.

06:05:40.020 What about you?

06:05:41.100 Yesterday.

06:05:42.480 Good for you.

06:05:43.240 Oh, did you come with like a guy?

06:05:44.860 Wait, what?

06:05:45.860 Wait, hold on.

06:05:47.080 Wait, you said you're single.

06:05:48.140 I am single.

06:05:49.080 You got a guy in the picture?

06:05:50.100 No.

06:05:51.440 I don't.

06:05:52.100 Who did you follow?

06:05:52.680 Was it here in San Barbara?

06:05:53.820 Yeah. 1.00

06:05:54.460 Oh, shit. 1.00

06:05:55.200 You went out to the clubs? 1.00

06:05:56.140 No.

06:05:56.580 Was it Nathan?

06:05:57.440 It could have been. 0.80

06:05:58.160 Nathan, you dog you.

06:05:59.660 Do you want to?

06:06:00.920 Oh.

06:06:02.800 Wait.

06:06:03.460 Is he lying?

06:06:04.840 Hold on.

06:06:05.340 Let me see if I can.

06:06:06.660 Let me broker this deal.

06:06:08.160 I'm going to broker this deal.

06:06:09.680 Wait, Nathan.

06:06:11.000 Do you like a little chocolate? 1.00

06:06:13.660 Hey, what the fuck, Nathan? 1.00

06:06:15.360 You fucking racist. 1.00

06:06:16.500 You're fired. 1.00

06:06:17.780 How dare you? 0.96

06:06:18.580 This is a diversity inclusion zone.

06:06:22.240 Okay. 0.94

06:06:22.680 last last time and a half years two and a half years good for you damn good for you i'm not 0.77

06:06:30.040 getting in bed with anybody until i know i really fair enough me too yeah i'm being 0.96

06:06:35.580 celibate until then okay yeah noise uh brooke read this for me white brooke 0.88

06:06:42.640 mate me or i don't know if you're like latina or something

06:06:45.960 yeah having paternity tests issued by the judicial branch also ensures consistency purity 1.00

06:06:51.680 and accountability i have no doubt this was driven by women falsifying the results 0.95

06:06:57.120 shout out lizzie yo shout out lizzie thank you for the t uh the not the tts the read there lizzie

06:07:05.100 thank you thank you thank you all right let's finish up the notes here uh where were we we're

06:07:09.640 talking about celibacy oh back to your ex let me see if there's any okay if they have a dog

06:07:14.920 ick girl okay hear me out because like i have a nice home i have yeah i have a nice home

06:07:23.180 and like even um wait can you straighten the mic a little bit so it's like uh just

06:07:30.560 that's good go ahead i will say i have no problems with dogs i like dogs it's just to have one in my 0.97

06:07:39.060 home would be overwhelming oh shit sorry continue go ahead yeah tell us more of the 0.88

06:07:44.400 um okay um so yeah i like is it just dogs or is it like pets no i have a cat but um my cat has 0.98

06:07:57.020 no claws i had him like like that and he's sterilized but he's super sweet and i love him

06:08:04.060 okay so cats are are fine but um let's say if i had roommates and like they have a cat

06:08:12.960 or something i know but i i just like if i can choose my roommates and stuff i'd just rather

06:08:19.800 uh not to have another animal because it's like more work or whatever gotcha or they might not

06:08:27.840 get along yeah or something like that yeah yeah no i get that yeah but i i like dogs it's just

06:08:33.280 like having a dog in my house there are more work than cats yeah and then i feel like my floors

06:08:38.780 would get all i just i love it up and my couch and like um well the adh is kicking and you're

06:08:45.600 like yeah they would wake me up and bark in the morning and stuff i just rather not yeah okay

06:08:52.340 do you remember the x i had on my um i don't remember all the x i know i want to pull mine

06:09:01.900 up i don't remember yeah i don't want one of mine's like a high body count but we already

06:09:06.100 talked about that so um you remember what i said is that height um the spelling oh if they this is

06:09:19.660 more like a red flag but like if um the guy i'm seeing keeps talking shit about his exes yeah for 0.51

06:09:26.160 me from personal experience if you keep mentioning your ex is that you're not over it so for me

06:09:32.800 that's a red flag i don't know if it's an yeah but it's a red flag but um my ik is when guys

06:09:39.420 like will put on their dating profile like bonus points if you x i'm like this isn't about points

06:09:46.500 i'm not trying to impress you with my profile like if you're attracted to it that's fine but

06:09:51.760 i'm not trying to like right be your person i don't know you yet right yeah if they're sexual

06:09:59.560 right away yeah yeah i don't like men that would it be in person or like over text or something

06:10:04.820 i just really feel like it's no one's business i don't i don't want to know yours i don't think

06:10:09.400 you need to know mine i don't even care if it was three i don't care if it's a thousand i don't

06:10:13.120 what you do in your personal life is really not my business i don't think the amount of people

06:10:17.120 that you sleep with makes you un wifeable or unhusbandable like people really think that

06:10:23.560 that matters but you would never really know i could lie to you you know i mean if my body count

06:10:28.800 was 500 i could easily be like oh it's five how would you ever know you know so i really don't

06:10:33.980 think it's anybody's business i just think it comes down to personality and to me it counts a

06:10:38.240 lot okay so here's my question because like i don't have a huge strong opinion but i think for

06:10:44.740 me i would perceive the question as it could be indicative of like the future like if someone had

06:10:51.500 a high body count does that mean you're thinking oh does that like do you have a high sex drive

06:10:56.200 are you more likely to cheat on me I think those are some of the things that run through people's

06:10:59.160 heads yeah no definitely yeah yeah there's this like I wouldn't say unconscious but it's kind of

06:11:05.680 there but if I'm dating someone who I know has a higher body count is that I don't know he's more

06:11:13.660 out there he's more like flirty or whatever and I'm like in my mind I'm like if we were to break

06:11:18.960 up I'm gonna have a hard time kind of thing but if he's just like someone calmer who doesn't is

06:11:26.680 not like trying to like flirt with girls and stuff if we were to break up I won't be as like

06:11:33.580 stressed about it it's weird but it's kind of comes from that I guess yeah what about like

06:11:38.040 slow text like slow texters I think it depends um yeah it sucks it for me it's like if when

06:11:44.880 you want to you can kind of thing so if you're uh into someone you're gonna want to respond quickly

06:11:52.580 for me if you answer me every 24 hours because I'm not high on the priority list right and it

06:11:59.700 goes both ways no exactly like if you have a like busy schedule or like I don't know you're

06:12:07.100 um let's say I've had a guy that was like a firefighter but like in helicopters for forests

06:12:14.580 and stuff like obviously you can't answer why yeah but like if they do care whenever they can

06:12:22.260 they'll like give you a call or a text or something right or they'll if they can't answer

06:12:26.440 they'd be like hey sorry um i can't answer right now but i'll call you the minute i can and they

06:12:31.960 do so yeah yeah that's important i never i was gonna say i never thought it was an ick for me

06:12:38.240 if someone didn't respond quickly but then like the first time somewhat recently this person

06:12:42.880 didn't message like once every two to three days and i've never had that it was just like almost

06:12:48.480 like i knew it was coming every two to three days to the point where i'm like okay you're doing this

06:12:52.780 on purpose that's not random i don't know unless maybe it was becoming like a schedule yeah anyone

06:12:58.220 that takes two or three days is eventually going to stop texting yeah they're just you're from the

06:13:02.180 get-go find someone who cares more about you and will give you the energy yeah i think i try to

06:13:09.400 stay away from people that take an extensively long time you know like I'll just reciprocate

06:13:17.660 oh you're gonna not answer for 24 hours fine I'll do it for 48 straight up I'm so bad like

06:13:25.240 once you respond I'm I'm like either like I'm gonna take a week to respond or I'm gonna take

06:13:29.680 30 seconds to respond but if I'm interested in someone like I feel like I put them at the

06:13:35.820 top of my priority list you know um however like i work in a restaurant it's really busy you know

06:13:43.020 there are times there are days like you know valentine's day mother's day where i'm not on

06:13:47.480 my phone i'm you know i mean i clock in and i'm not done until i mean everybody leaves so there

06:13:53.140 might be a day where i'm not on my phone for 12 hours you know but like every day it's like you

06:13:59.160 know like you ever see that thing where someone was like like majority of people check their phone

06:14:05.320 every few hours you know what i mean so if someone's not responding to you like at least

06:14:09.060 every five to six hours like you're just really not that important because no matter what like

06:14:13.360 people go to the bathroom get water check their phone like oh you know i mean if you can't even

06:14:17.680 just say hey busy text me when i can like i just feel like you're not really it all comes down to

06:14:21.660 communication so yeah like if you just say hey i won't be able to respond for this amount of time

06:14:26.460 right yeah right yeah like i do home care and my client at the at the moment she has dementia and

06:14:32.420 she's been sundowning pretty much every single day which is bizarre um but like every single

06:14:38.520 hour of the day pretty much and i can't i can't reply unless i'm in the bathroom

06:14:43.100 being or something yeah but you know so it really depends time you're in the bathroom you're going

06:14:48.400 to respond to the people you exactly right yeah yeah exactly exactly it's all about prioritizing

06:14:55.820 the time that you make available yeah but i do i do think that modern you know times we've come

06:15:07.120 accustomed to that like you have to respond to me yeah very quickly or like i think you're not

06:15:12.500 interested um no that's toxic yeah and i was just saying like i feel like the relationships for me 0.78

06:15:19.280 that didn't end up working out were always the ones where we were up each other's asses and it

06:15:24.460 was that whole like we talk from like the time we wake up to the time we go to sleep because you're

06:15:29.380 just so like heavily dependent on somebody but then again once I do talk to someone that's like

06:15:34.300 you know I mean like oh I can only respond like when I can I'm like oh this is so boring like I

06:15:39.160 want to get to know somebody you know so somewhere in the middle somewhere in the middle yeah yeah

06:15:44.520 it's hard to find that happy medium yeah that perfect happy medium that schedule that's like

06:15:49.080 works for everybody but it but ultimately if you're taking two to three days

06:15:54.220 if you want to make it work you'll make it work yeah yeah i forgot about you by three days

06:16:01.340 what the heck girl right three days ran a marathon i know went to california

06:16:08.320 come on i'm only here for three days like you you didn't talk to me for three days you probably 0.96

06:16:15.160 didn't even know i was here you know like come on travel out of the freaking state yeah they can't

06:16:21.340 even return a text for god's sake right it's like come on that's in yeah something i will do though

06:16:28.160 is sometimes i'll see a text and i'm like if it's like barely new or something i'm like i can't

06:16:33.340 answer right away it's just like too wild and then i'm like i'll answer later and then i completely

06:16:38.560 forget that's my adhd or you respond i respond in my head yeah yeah and then i don't hear for

06:16:46.340 them for hours i'm like what the heck and then i check and i'm like oh my god i didn't reply

06:16:50.680 or sometimes what i'll do is like i'll write the message forget to press send and then i'm like

06:16:57.320 why the hell is he ignoring me and then i check i'm like oh i did i was the one ignoring i did

06:17:03.060 the open the message got a different message so i was opening that message because that message 0.54

06:17:06.880 was more important yeah forgot about the other message never went back to it like but it's not 0.96

06:17:11.660 just like professionally or like plenty of other like parents family or whatever yeah shit happens 0.99

06:17:17.240 you know obviously it's not the end of the world we all do it yeah all right what kind of shit did 0.98

06:17:26.320 you guys talk about me while i was gone texting we don't talk bad about you no no i'm kidding 0.99

06:17:33.360 does anybody want a popsicle no oh that sounds really good okay i guess one for her wait wait

06:17:41.240 what flavors are they it's fruit okay i guess that's two for over here uh i overheard while

06:17:49.040 i was gone you were saying that something about body count yeah i did could you just repeat it

06:17:54.400 just from i said that i don't think it's anybody's business and i well what i said was i don't like

06:17:59.360 when a man asks me what my body count is because i feel like it's not your business it's not my

06:18:04.520 business um okay uh really quick i guess before we get into that segment um body count does

06:18:13.160 anybody here uh think past should not matter typically related to body count uh china you

06:18:20.040 agree past should not matter oh tatum you did not follow the instructions i know i'm so sorry

06:18:26.360 This is why it took you so long, even though I said how to do it.

06:18:29.780 I know, I know.

06:18:31.560 Okay, you say it does matter, all right?

06:18:34.560 You say past should not matter, body count.

06:18:38.660 Okay.

06:18:40.580 Taylor, no?

06:18:42.980 Other Taylor?

06:18:43.960 We got two Taylors next to each other?

06:18:45.460 Okay. 0.92

06:18:46.600 Past should not matter, body count, you agree?

06:18:51.380 Okay, so just really quick, why is that, Chyna? 0.88

06:18:56.360 Uh, just, I base more of like who I'm basing and the person that he is rather than, but 0.63

06:19:06.020 do you, do you have an objection?

06:19:07.480 This is more so preference men have.

06:19:10.200 Do you have an objection to men caring about this?

06:19:15.180 Maybe it just comes down to preferences.

06:19:17.520 So is it wrong for men to care about it?

06:19:24.600 i think everyone can have their preferences i guess because let's say i prefer a guy that's

06:19:30.520 six foot a guy is allowed to have a preference on that i guess but i under so we're we agree

06:19:37.620 that people can have their preferences but in the analysis of the preference do you think

06:19:44.000 maybe it speaks to something about the man maybe he's insecure maybe maybe a little bit yeah okay

06:19:49.520 so you think it's perhaps even though he's allowed to have the preference as he is yeah you might

06:19:54.480 think it's wrong not necessarily wrong but I do think it often stems from some kind of

06:20:04.000 insecurity maybe insecurity I see okay uh and those who said body count should not matter what

06:20:10.660 about you yeah or passion not matter yeah um I'm thinking about it right now because I forgot what

06:20:20.440 i said before okay what about you why it shouldn't matter yeah like i just i i know that uh like

06:20:31.820 right now in society like we put a lot of emphasis on sex and like how many people you have sex with

06:20:39.040 how often you have sex i just never saw it as like this big to-do so to me it just doesn't matter i

06:20:45.620 just don't care it's not your business it's not my business if you wanted to go you know 0.99

06:20:50.140 fuck 100 people in like the last 10 years i don't you know that's what you decided to do 0.99

06:20:57.220 but to me i don't care but now if we're talking about like you're fucking 100 people and then 0.99

06:21:05.600 like you got like you know 100 stds that's like yeah all right yeah but like take care of yourself 0.69

06:21:09.820 So the question is, body count, some of you say body count shouldn't matter, passion should not matter.

06:21:16.560 What's your body count, starting with you?

06:21:19.800 So, like, including my sex work career?

06:21:25.540 Why don't you differentiate? 1.00

06:21:27.380 So sex work and then civilian fucks. 0.99

06:21:30.900 So I began my career as a sex worker full service when I was 27. 0.99

06:21:37.120 Before that, my body count was 33.

06:21:39.820 Uh, and that was before the sex work. Yes. And I've only, since beginning sex work, I've only

06:21:47.000 added one to my body count. Um, two to my personal civilian life. Yeah. Um, one person after my

06:21:56.120 divorce. Um, so in my sex work career, I count all my clients, but a lot of my clients, I don't

06:22:04.320 have penetrative sex with, so it's really hard to count, but I would say it's in like, 0.76

06:22:09.820 the the 300s probably okay total sure some of them maybe it's just oral sex some of them it's 0.99

06:22:18.560 not even that hand job uh cuddling talking talking everything yeah but uh 300 from the 0.99

06:22:26.820 sex work you said probably yeah body count i think it's a little tmi no it's not too much 1.00

06:22:35.720 i'll say we've been talking about pussy and dick and yeah i'll say uh with my body count i could 0.99

06:22:41.600 buy a trio big mac uh just one thing i i didn't say this this isn't your fault i didn't say this 1.00

06:22:47.440 at the beginning um i noticed you kind of turn your body when you speak yeah if you can't yeah

06:22:51.720 just in that way just because this camera's here you start turning your face so go ahead uh yeah

06:22:57.180 i just said maybe tmi but i will say with my body count i can buy a trio big mac

06:23:03.740 i mean mcdonald's is getting expensive uh but uh

06:23:10.140 okay i'll let you do do you want to do a range you want to tell us a range

06:23:15.720 i think it was kind of kind of well maybe like is it more than 10 yeah more than 20

06:23:23.560 in there yeah more than 30 no so between 20 to 30 okay body count i don't answer give us a range

06:23:32.040 ballpark no no i just don't want yeah is it more than how about this is it more than 10

06:23:36.860 i will not answer because i'm not comfortable with that and it's on in the internet after that

06:23:42.960 and yeah it's just my choice before getting on the show she told me that was like probably one

06:23:48.560 of the questions she wouldn't answer so okay uh body count um it's very important for me to keep

06:23:53.820 it under 10 so it's under 10 yes okay what about you body count under 10

06:23:58.800 okay body count same same yeah

06:24:05.480 earlier you said if you lied about your body count who would know so so are you lying about

06:24:16.220 your body are you lying no you saw someone yesterday oh my god yes

06:24:24.080 We can talk about it

06:24:25.900 We can talk about it

06:24:28.080 We can talk about it

06:24:30.200 I totally forgot about that

06:24:31.520 I hope he's watching too

06:24:33.560 China with the assist 1.00

06:24:35.300 I'm going to hire her as a co-host 1.00

06:24:36.940 Please hire me

06:24:39.460 I want to leave Canada

06:24:40.240 To be fair I wasn't a random person

06:24:42.500 I've known him for a few years

06:24:45.480 I'm not going to give all his info 1.00

06:24:48.120 You're a fucking liar 1.00

06:24:50.180 You're a fucking liar 1.00

06:24:51.660 Wait wait wait 1.00

06:24:53.300 But it was the first time you guys cracked

06:24:54.680 Yeah

06:24:55.440 Wait where are you from again

06:24:57.760 New Jersey 1.00

06:24:58.480 And this motherfucker lives in Santa Barbara 1.00

06:25:01.860 No he's from 1.00

06:25:05.180 He's from the east coast

06:25:06.300 Like I said I'm not going to give all his information

06:25:07.880 Because it's a little personal

06:25:09.140 As to why he's here

06:25:11.280 He flew you out

06:25:13.560 No he drove four hours

06:25:15.600 And picked me up from the airport

06:25:16.760 Yeah so

06:25:18.700 And you got some 0.99

06:25:20.180 yep um i'm just i wish i could just fly into a city and some girl drives four hours to pick me 1.00

06:25:27.560 up give me some pussy well that's that where did it wasn't like it wasn't like oh let me go to 1.00

06:25:34.000 drive four hours and i'm gonna fuck i need to go it definitely wasn't like that girl why can't i 1.00

06:25:38.380 just go to saskatchewan and get me some canadian pussy like and just she drives from fucking 0.99

06:25:43.560 how far is toronto from saskatchewan oof i don't know oof yeah yikes montreal to toronto is like 1.00

06:25:51.400 it's an ick when women not just kidding um what yikes no all in like montreal to toronto is 1.00

06:25:58.180 six hour drive where's that where's like nova scotia yeah it's further down vancouver yeah 0.97

06:26:06.820 vancouver is like the far end of it i think it's like 20 it would take like isn't it like

06:26:13.100 anyways yeah it's pretty far anyways uh body count under 20 under under 20

06:26:20.400 say it again under 20 okay cool i'm a virgin yeah we're sure we know

06:26:31.680 multiply it by three and that's the real number

06:26:35.440 just saying just saying uh okay so there's the body count thing look well really quick to address

06:26:43.380 your point that you made while i was gone i think and when i say i think i mean i know

06:26:49.060 uh i don't think you said okay well if the body counts 500 but who's gonna really ever know

06:26:54.520 i could just lie i could say it's five and that's true like unless you have had close

06:26:59.680 connection with somebody you can't really ever be all that sure like you basically have to be

06:27:04.980 stalking this person to know for realsies what's up you know how much uh they've done but i think

06:27:11.980 it's like lying is bad i think you should be honest especially if it's like this is going to

06:27:16.520 be somebody you i mean you shouldn't lie even if it's casual but if hey this is going to be your

06:27:22.580 future boyfriend girlfriend started out on a lie i don't i don't like that i don't think you should 0.92

06:27:28.340 lie i think you should be honest and shit because maybe what if it's a what if it is a deal breaker 0.92

06:27:34.640 and they find out somehow i don't know maybe you got a list on your phone and they 0.99

06:27:38.940 look at your shit and they find your list or who knows there's all kinds of scenarios and then 0.98

06:27:44.920 you it's the day before the marriage and then he's like i'm done i'd be fuming day before the 1.00

06:27:52.540 marriage shit i think that's fine it's the day before you get married and your girl comes to you 0.99

06:27:59.920 Babe 1.00

06:28:00.600 Before we're gonna get married

06:28:02.420 I need to tell you something 0.99

06:28:03.560 I told you I fucked five dudes 0.99

06:28:06.500 I really fucked 1.00

06:28:09.940 Five 1.00

06:28:11.060 Hundred

06:28:11.860 That's a

06:28:14.100 I'm sorry

06:28:15.080 That's a big lie

06:28:17.540 Okay fine

06:28:19.100 50

06:28:20.160 How about that 50

06:28:22.220 50

06:28:24.460 What about 50 though

06:28:26.100 She said 5

06:28:27.140 It's still alive, but mine's bad.

06:28:29.080 It's still alive, but it's still more reasonable than 500.

06:28:31.800 5 to 15.

06:28:32.720 I still divorce.

06:28:34.160 Really?

06:28:34.640 Over.

06:28:36.100 Yeah, it's still a huge lie.

06:28:37.300 It's over, like The Sopranos.

06:28:38.860 Over.

06:28:40.040 Good show.

06:28:40.760 You guys probably don't know what that is.

06:28:42.800 I've heard of it.

06:28:43.480 Of course you don't.

06:28:44.020 I know his friend.

06:28:45.040 Because he thinks he's older.

06:28:46.440 I love Sopranos. 0.94

06:28:47.160 Just like a boomer. 0.97

06:28:48.240 That's a Jersey thing.

06:28:50.940 Read this one, please.

06:28:52.260 Lizzie, thank you.

06:28:54.820 Who?

06:28:55.400 You.

06:28:55.840 Me. 1.00

06:28:56.000 women with high body counts are satisfyingly more statistically oh sorry canada reads at 0.5 0.99

06:29:03.700 speed so i have to do it oh you want i thought you want no you got it go ahead go ahead go ahead 1.00

06:29:08.100 oh wait this is another one women with high body counts are statistically more likely to struggle 0.97

06:29:15.500 with depression substance abuse and impaired analytical thinking women are not neurologically 0.97

06:29:24.520 equipped to sleep around okay sure well what we do find so the more light i mean the more sexual 1.00

06:29:32.260 partners you've had the greater chance of having an std the greater likelihood of infidelity the

06:29:37.420 greater likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction the greater likelihood of uh

06:29:43.500 divorce so it is correlated with uh some bad outcomes both ways so

06:29:50.880 it to a degree but it's more this phenomenon is more observed in women than in men

06:29:58.240 yeah like i know i i personally take it a bit heavier yeah whenever i add have add have added

06:30:06.300 a body on and i just i know it's not me and i was like why did i do that like i've made mistakes 0.99

06:30:12.360 obviously we're all human but um i mean guys i take my body count very seriously like you fuck 0.97

06:30:17.540 a girl and then yeah I don't know how I feel about that yeah so I mean body count very important to 0.96

06:30:26.300 me true true it's kind of like you know what it is well I'll tell you this much I think there when

06:30:35.340 I say it's like it's different between men and women I think it's kind of like this the body 0.97

06:30:39.680 count thing well this is a totally separate subject but fuck it I'm gonna say it anyways 0.99

06:30:43.440 I think I brought it up last show 0.99

06:30:45.500 And we're not going to linger on this 0.99

06:30:46.820 But this is going to sound fucked up 0.98

06:30:48.900 And you should never cheat 0.99

06:30:49.860 I would never cheat on a woman

06:30:51.120 You should never cheat

06:30:51.960 But

06:30:52.860 You know how like

06:30:55.740 You know when I say but

06:30:58.160 However

06:30:58.900 It's kind of like

06:31:00.440 You know

06:31:00.900 If somebody says

06:31:02.000 I'm not racist

06:31:02.900 But 1.00

06:31:03.600 You know how they're about to say some racist shit 1.00

06:31:07.000 I'm about to say some fucked up shit 1.00

06:31:09.280 But okay 1.00

06:31:09.740 You should never cheat on somebody

06:31:11.100 But

06:31:11.760 I think

06:31:14.160 as men

06:31:15.140 you could love your girlfriend 1.00

06:31:17.740 and you could fuck another woman 1.00

06:31:21.400 and still love your girlfriend 1.00

06:31:22.860 if a woman

06:31:25.100 cheats on her man 0.99

06:31:26.660 she does not love her man 1.00

06:31:29.700 no both are fucked 1.00

06:31:31.600 that's so wrong 1.00

06:31:33.140 you can't love someone and then 1.00

06:31:35.060 fucking sleep with someone else 0.99

06:31:36.400 look never cheat I'm not saying you should cheat 0.99

06:31:38.860 don't cheat men shouldn't cheat women shouldn't cheat

06:31:41.060 no double standard i'm just saying i believe i don't think you respect your partner

06:31:49.500 in that might be sure that's not love i don't know if men require

06:31:55.020 okay see what you're about to say you know that misogyny thing no no i don't think i don't think

06:32:03.280 it's misogynist we're getting close to it no i don't think it's misogynist um maybe it's

06:32:07.240 misandrist even uh i don't think maybe it is misandrist i don't know look i i don't think

06:32:14.700 that men need to have wait how do i frame this that men necessarily need to receive 0.86

06:32:24.240 this sounds so retarded because men need to i don't think men in order to love a woman 0.92

06:32:30.260 I don't think a man needs to 1.00

06:32:32.520 Respect her

06:32:34.420 I disagree

06:32:34.600 What?

06:32:36.620 Because if you love her you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings

06:32:39.060 Listen to what I'm saying though

06:32:40.960 I'm not saying that men should

06:32:42.780 Disrespect

06:32:43.740 But I'm saying that love can exist

06:32:46.800 Absent

06:32:48.520 Respect

06:32:49.820 Wow

06:32:52.380 What's your reasoning?

06:32:56.240 It's like having a pet at that point

06:32:58.460 Yeah

06:32:59.800 But what's your reasoning?

06:33:01.640 It's not a healthy kind of love

06:33:03.600 Hot take

06:33:04.720 No look

06:33:06.820 To be clear

06:33:08.780 I just need to make this clear

06:33:10.420 You should not disrespect

06:33:12.460 Your girlfriend or your girl or whatever

06:33:15.400 But what I'm saying is

06:33:17.060 As an observation

06:33:18.320 I think a man could love a woman 1.00

06:33:21.800 But not respect her 1.00

06:33:24.500 Well then

06:33:26.740 The other way around

06:33:28.580 Wait wait

06:33:29.240 i know it sounds crazy but i think i'm on to something remember earlier when you called me

06:33:36.420 out about contradicting myself you're literally doing the same thing right now well because i

06:33:41.020 okay here's i guess here's what i'm kind of getting at here and this is bro signs i haven't

06:33:45.380 fleshed this idea out i think it's very difficult for a woman to love a man who's less competent

06:33:54.040 than her so like if the woman is smarter if the woman is more capable if the woman is uh well i

06:34:05.100 mean smarter more intelligent i already said that um if the woman is um the i mean i guess this could 0.62

06:34:14.880 be related to finances so like the higher earner it's hard for women in those instances i think

06:34:25.560 to love a man women typically so women are hypergamous so women hi what's hypergamous 0.99

06:34:33.480 so this can mean a couple different things but in this case typically women want to date men

06:34:38.720 who are better than them you want a guy who has more confidence than you you want a guy who's 0.61

06:34:45.040 more uh who's more intelligent than you you want a guy who's more capable than you so a man could

06:34:53.560 like look at like if you're more can y'all date men who are less intelligent than you

06:34:57.980 be honest no um but men can date women who are less intelligent than them and still love them

06:35:04.460 so we might not respect you intellectually

06:35:07.140 what's wrong with that

06:35:10.640 there's nothing wrong with that

06:35:11.740 but what does that have to do with sex

06:35:13.440 there's multiple forms of intelligence

06:35:16.280 well there are

06:35:17.640 but like for example

06:35:19.540 I do think it's the case

06:35:21.020 that

06:35:21.820 like yo if you're smarter than the dude

06:35:26.000 I don't think you're going to respect him

06:35:29.480 I don't think you're going to love him

06:35:31.660 to be honest 0.63

06:35:32.420 maybe maybe this is bullshit though maybe i'm making this all up it is well but do y'all really 0.94

06:35:37.920 i feel like women have the bigger issue when it comes to like men are more willing to we don't 0.90

06:35:43.840 really prioritize that as much not to say that it can't be a positive attribute we don't really

06:35:48.840 prioritize intelligence in that way like i'm not looking for a woman who uh

06:35:55.360 i if she's not as intelligent as me i don't care

06:36:02.320 yeah i guess uh some men would disagree or some men are are looking for that

06:36:10.040 so there's just lots of efficiency uh everybody

06:36:15.280 what i need is someone who in my they like their strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa

06:36:25.180 Wait, you literally complained earlier about men who have bad grammar.

06:36:29.640 Yeah, but, like, I'm good at grammar, sure, but it's, let's say I'm not manual, so I,

06:36:36.440 like, if he's not manual as well, like, how are you, like, how are we helping each other

06:36:44.480 if, you know what I mean?

06:36:46.960 So, it doesn't make sense, so I could be smarter or better in certain things, but

06:36:55.140 if i'm better and smarter in all things then what's the point but if i'm smarter in certain

06:37:01.040 things barrio thank you for the hundred thank you man can you read it okay western society

06:37:08.200 feminized itself toward collapse unchecked female nature like eve pandora and callie

06:37:15.760 leads to destruction before rebirth without masculine order civilizations falls something

06:37:22.340 something oh my god okay wait so really quick you said you said that um you you reminded me

06:37:31.800 of the misogyny thing uh and you might think that that position is misogynistic

06:37:36.200 but what are the other things that you feel like that i say maybe you've seen clips that

06:37:41.240 are misogynistic i don't know i i just feel in a lot of situations you're like the man can do this

06:37:50.900 but the woman is not okay and there's like two a few have come up but i wouldn't tag you as a

06:37:59.560 misogynist not just yet sure uh but i don't understand this this so i believe that uh this

06:38:06.740 double standard thing it depends what the context is but there are there are all kinds of things

06:38:15.780 that women uniquely expect from men.

06:38:21.480 So this idea that men need to have the same standard for women 1.00

06:38:31.600 that they have for themselves, that's bullshit. 0.97

06:38:33.580 Otherwise, how would you arrive at men should pay on first dates? 0.98

06:38:37.380 I just think the person who invited the other person.

06:38:42.560 Let's test this out.

06:38:43.800 Have you ever asked a guy out?

06:38:45.780 maybe i don't know that sounds like a no and you're 29 years old

06:38:51.640 you're 29 years old let me tell you this much uh a guy who never did that at 29 would still

06:38:59.520 be a virgin meanwhile you say your body count is what 20 to 30 so i mean you've had relationships

06:39:04.840 you've dated guys you've had experiences if you were a man if i put you in a man's body you would

06:39:11.280 be a virgin so this idea that whoever asked should pay sort of conveniently glances over the fact

06:39:19.420 that women are passive women generally speaking don't initiate exhibit a you've never asked a man

06:39:27.620 out but you've had but not the first time around no no but i'm talking first date yeah of course

06:39:33.320 you were in a three come on you're four four months into a relationship hey chad do you want 0.99

06:39:39.820 to go get fucking tim hortons congratulations you asked you asked your fucking boyfriend out 0.99

06:39:46.240 on the date i'm talking about first dates because the thing is whoever you're saying men should pay 1.00

06:39:51.360 for first dates women overwhelmingly don't ask men out for first dates so that it's very convenient

06:39:57.180 that y'all ignore that y'all don't ask now if women ask men out at about equal rates maybe it's

06:40:05.220 not 50 50 but 40 percent of the time women ask men out i'd stand with you and agree you know what

06:40:11.040 whoever i should pay that's do you think the men shouldn't pay on the first date uh well it it

06:40:18.120 depends what we're talking about well there you go same here well hold on so from a effectiveness

06:40:25.820 perspective the best move if dating is a chessboard the best move for the man to make is to pay for

06:40:31.540 the date. Now, if we're having a conversation here, uh, outside of a date, I think it's bullshit 0.98

06:40:39.700 that men pay for dates, complete bullshit, but it's the most effective tactics. So they should 0.99

06:40:44.740 do it. Um, and part of the reasoning is one women are not traditional anymore. You frankly don't 1.00

06:40:51.460 deserve it. You women do not deserve chivalry and traditional treatment anymore. You aren't 1.00

06:40:58.280 traditional women men should not be traditional let's go 50 50 but you wanted me to give you 20 1.00

06:41:03.680 earlier well you didn't but i don't see how that'd be relevant to what that's a joke the 20

06:41:12.300 thing okay that's your rebuttal the the give me money segment is you say we don't deserve it but

06:41:21.320 you're a man and you're asking all of us for money so you think you deserve it and we shouldn't yeah

06:41:26.280 this is completely a like a false equivalence it's it's okay it's uh a funny segment i do on

06:41:35.280 the show what does not pertain to my view of traditional treatment when it comes to dating

06:41:41.420 uh at all okay well i for that specific dating area i think if the guy does pay for the first

06:41:51.560 date it gives me an impression that like he's got it somewhat figured out and but I wouldn't want

06:41:59.280 necessarily to for him to pay for every date I don't think that's fair okay down the line I'll

06:42:05.600 pay for things too but the first one but so it's a double standard well what's good for one is good

06:42:12.420 for the other but yeah well no no but here's the double standard men should pay on first dates

06:42:16.500 ergo i mean just in and of itself women should not pay for first dates if men should pay for

06:42:23.780 first dates women should not pay for first dates double standard so are double standards okay

06:42:29.620 okay i just think that it if you want to show that like you got your things together and that

06:42:39.500 you can provide and whatnot then yeah a little bit like you mentioned that's so that's not a

06:42:45.200 response to what I just said, that might be a justification for why men should pay for dates. 0.99

06:42:50.840 However, as a man, shouldn't I want a woman who's got her shit together? So why can't I start 0.99

06:42:56.640 demanding the woman pay for dates so I know she's genuinely interested in me and she has her shit 1.00

06:43:01.980 together? Yeah, the second one can be her. Can be her at her discretion. Although there's plenty 1.00

06:43:07.820 of women who are not going to tolerate even that. Most, a lot of women are not going to just be 1.00

06:43:13.040 like well he paid for the first date now it's okay to go 50 50 a lot of women i don't know 0.99

06:43:17.040 if it's the majority but a lot of women the man pays continuously

06:43:21.100 some of them want to free dates i understand that men want to and they do it because it's

06:43:31.260 the most effective thing because women have more leverage in the dating marketplace however now

06:43:36.460 that we're sitting on a podcast that discusses sociological phenomenon like dating uh i think 0.53

06:43:42.380 it's fair to look at the chessboard of dating and be like, do women deserve men to pay for first

06:43:46.520 dates? No, they don't. What would a woman need to do to deserve it in your opinion? Sure. She should 0.99

06:43:54.640 be, if men paying for first dates is traditional treatment and a display of chivalry, she should 1.00

06:44:00.540 be the corresponding embodiment of a traditional woman. She ought to be traditional. Which is what 1.00

06:44:07.540 to you? Sure. It's a couple of different things. I mean, it's her behavior. It's her demeanor.

06:44:10.820 Is she more open to her traditional dynamic, which typically puts the men as leader in relationship?

06:44:18.120 She defers to him.

06:44:21.160 She's modest.

06:44:23.160 She displays temperance in her behavior. 0.99

06:44:27.660 And temperance can also relate to, like, I mean, she's not a fucking degenerate party girl alcoholic. 0.98

06:44:33.800 And then not promiscuous. 0.97

06:44:38.700 I feel like I'm forgetting one here.

06:44:40.400 not promiscuous, modesty, et cetera. Question. So this is deserving having the other person pay

06:44:49.540 on the first date. How does a woman demonstrate that to you before a first date that she's 1.00

06:44:54.280 traditional? Are you like asking all these questions or is it just you judge based on the 0.99

06:44:58.260 profile? Well, look, I also want to make something clear. Men who are meeting women through typical

06:45:07.320 means whether that's in person or dating apps men don't have a lot of leverage when it comes 0.99

06:45:12.240 to dating because they're the pursuers so women can kind of call the shots a bit more

06:45:16.400 uh so uh wait so your question is how are you determining if she's traditional yeah i guess

06:45:24.780 because it's before the first date so you maybe well okay i i mean i'll just tell you how i've

06:45:30.800 dated for the past, like two, three years. Uh, look, and I've, I'm 37. So this has not been the

06:45:37.320 case for most of my life. Uh, but the past two, three years, since I started the podcast,

06:45:41.880 almost not to say I've, I've shot my shot here and there and you know, whatever, but, um,

06:45:48.500 the majority of the women I've dated, they've all come to me for the past three years.

06:45:53.160 Uh, they'll DM me on Instagram or whatever. And so that gives me leverage to call the shots

06:46:00.040 essentially so yeah they're gonna fill out my girlfriend application 100 questions i'm gonna 0.78

06:46:06.100 fucking have what yep 100 question 100 question girlfriend application uh can we see this 0.85

06:46:13.700 application maybe one day i'll reveal it but there's too much it's too much sauce i don't 0.98

06:46:18.060 give it away for free way too much sauce can we hear one of the controversial questions on there 1.00

06:46:22.540 though just one sure i could give you a couple i mean i and look the thing is some of these women 1.00

06:46:27.760 are, they don't live even in California. Some of them are out of the country. Some of them are 1.00

06:46:32.500 across the country, East coast. So if she's going to fly out to see me, like this isn't some just

06:46:40.720 like, Oh, let's go to a coffee, do a 10 minute vibe check. This is like more intentional. I need

06:46:46.120 to make sure like there's like screening things I want that are like deal breakers. And then there's

06:46:51.400 other things that are maybe not deal breakers but they're um just to see you know okay shoot

06:46:58.280 not the preferable answer but it's not a deal breaker uh but some of them are just like just 0.85

06:47:03.620 super blunt autistic fucking questions so it's just like uh i'm trying to i should just pull it 0.98

06:47:11.660 up honestly not to show i won't show it i need to sell this shit yeah it's fucking good let me tell 0.99

06:47:19.060 I still need it. I'm adding over time, you know, but, uh, okay. I mean, I'm, I'm going to ask her 0.95

06:47:24.300 about her drug use. I'm going to ask her if she's been to therapy. Are you in therapy? I'm going to

06:47:28.540 ask if she takes any psych, like any sort of psychoactive medications, either any recreational

06:47:32.700 drugs. Um, has, does she have a history of violence? Um, has she ever been in a DV situation

06:47:38.220 with a man? Was she the perpetrator? Was he the perpetrator? Was it mutual? Um, what else? I mean,

06:47:44.060 there's so much um there's like different uh there's like different categories of the types 0.99

06:47:50.840 of questions i'm asking it's it's involved it's literally autistic as fuck it's super 0.97

06:47:58.020 fucking autistic i feel like those questions were valid but i i also feel like there's a part of that 0.98

06:48:02.680 questionnaire that would probably be like why did like why are you asking me this but those 0.99

06:48:07.360 questions were valid i respect that yeah well i mean like have you done drugs do you currently

06:48:11.380 do drugs um valid i'm sure i feel like i should just pull it up i can't even remember all of them 0.97

06:48:17.560 but it's literally like 100 questions it's the most autistic shit ever some girls see it and 0.76

06:48:22.200 they're like nope i don't give a fuck though other women do fill it out so yeah um so yeah it's just 0.97

06:48:29.180 like now look you can't do that you meet you match with a girl on tinder you really can't do that i 0.99

06:48:35.100 mean you could try but they're probably not you can try they're gonna be like who the fuck do you 0.92

06:48:42.640 think you are i think you shouldn't go on a date with someone you don't think deserve 0.97

06:48:49.820 to wait i'll rephrase that i don't think you should go on a date with someone that

06:48:57.140 you don't think they deserve you to pay for the date and isn't that the point of your questionnaire

06:49:03.920 air too like if they it doesn't fit with what you're aligned with why go on the date and if

06:49:10.400 it does align then why not pay well i'm speaking more so about more like my because of my unique

06:49:18.020 experience being on the internet being on social media i have this unique very unique to men

06:49:24.740 experience of like just women coming to me but so what i'm talking about here that's not the

06:49:31.680 experience for 99% of men. Now, a lot of women, y'all basically get that, like men come to you.

06:49:38.040 But so what I'm talking about is like the average experience of dating for people,

06:49:44.100 which is not the girls are hitting you up and they're groupies. That's not the experience for

06:49:52.220 the average guy. But you're saying that girls don't deserve 0.99

06:49:56.540 so to get the first date paid for but if a guy feels that way going on a date with me i'd rather

06:50:03.580 him that we just don't go on the date yeah if he sure but so thinks that so i understand that 1.00

06:50:10.340 women can be the most degenerate ever and they could be doing only fans they can be 1.00

06:50:17.040 prostitutes and men will take them on dates even knowing what they do and they'll still pay for 1.00

06:50:27.180 the date so if they want to pay for it there's a difference between women still getting the

06:50:31.040 treatment and women deserving the treatment and so i'm looking at the landscape of dating and i 0.99

06:50:36.800 as a bird like bird's eye view down i'm looking at the the landscape and i'm like oh she fucked a 1.00

06:50:43.220 last night that's bullshit she doesn't deserve she doesn't deserve traditional treatment she 1.00

06:50:49.480 doesn't deserve it she shouldn't even ask for that yeah but if you're going on a date and you 1.00

06:50:54.180 know that and you're uncomfortable with it why go on the date period i well so i agree i would tell 1.00

06:50:59.860 men don't deal with these trifling hoes don't deal with them i agree i would tell them they're 0.98

06:51:06.580 voluntarily going on the date okay then but here's the different framing then i would look at that 1.00

06:51:12.220 woman who 1.00

06:51:14.000 you know what 1.00

06:51:15.460 she's good looking but she's a hoe 1.00

06:51:18.320 guys will 1.00

06:51:20.160 guys will trick guys will simp

06:51:21.980 guys will pay for the date but I would tell her

06:51:24.400 even if you get it

06:51:26.140 you don't deserve it

06:51:28.060 I have a question

06:51:29.600 do you think that

06:51:32.000 if a man pays for a first date he

06:51:34.260 should be obligated 0.97

06:51:36.420 to have sex with her afterwards or like 1.00

06:51:38.420 something of that nature 0.99

06:51:39.860 he should be obligated or she

06:51:41.780 no he

06:51:43.520 wait what 1.00

06:51:45.080 she should be obligated to have sex 1.00

06:51:47.300 oh sorry 1.00

06:51:48.000 we're picking up what you're putting down

06:51:51.680 girl 1.00

06:51:52.120 no that's cringe and men

06:51:55.560 who do that are

06:51:57.640 it's creepy 1.00

06:51:58.580 okay if a girl

06:52:00.700 just because a girl goes on a date with you 1.00

06:52:02.760 and you pay for it 1.00

06:52:04.720 I don't care how expensive it is

06:52:07.040 you are not

06:52:09.700 owed anything as a man

06:52:11.580 see this is how i'm saying that like sometimes your takes are like good and non right and then

06:52:18.840 the other one before was just like yeah you know what i mean so i'm full of contradictions i guess 0.61

06:52:23.540 but however this cuts both ways just because a woman fucks me doesn't mean i owe her a relationship 0.99

06:52:32.680 i never said that ah hold on this has to cut both ways in the same way that women are not 1.00

06:52:40.480 vending machines that you put niceness 1.00

06:52:42.660 tokens into or dinner tokens 0.68

06:52:44.820 into and you get sex out 0.96

06:52:46.600 not the case men

06:52:48.580 are not relationship vending 0.89

06:52:50.620 machines that you put sex into 0.96

06:52:52.620 and then you get sex out 1.00

06:52:54.600 or wait hold on I fucked that up 1.00

06:52:56.860 wait sorry 0.97

06:52:57.800 yeah men are not relationship vending 1.00

06:53:00.540 machines where you put sex in and they get 1.00

06:53:02.740 they dispense with a relationship 0.90

06:53:04.600 yeah so this cut those

06:53:06.460 this cuts both ways but

06:53:08.060 no that is weird like 1.00

06:53:10.020 look the the woman should want to fuck like that if she wants to fuck great but no you're not owed 1.00

06:53:19.140 as the man you're not owed sex right if you take a girl that's stupid and it's kind of creepy 1.00

06:53:24.480 but what on the topic since you brought it up do you think that it's creepy or weird for men to 0.99

06:53:31.700 lie about wanting to be in a relationship to have sex so that after they have sex they're just like

06:53:36.720 you know i mean like it's wrong okay see some of your some of your points are good it is so yes i

06:53:44.460 do think it's morally wrong for a man to in furtherance of trying to get sex from the woman

06:53:51.120 uh to lie about his intentions yeah that's there's no no one's gonna ever convince me that that's

06:53:58.380 ethical or moral that's clearly immoral right um now it's not a crime uh to be clear but

06:54:06.300 and I don't think that you're suggesting it's a crime

06:54:09.020 but it is clearly wrong

06:54:10.840 clearly immoral

06:54:11.880 now however 1.00

06:54:14.800 sometimes the pussy was bad 1.00

06:54:17.840 just going to throw that out there 1.00

06:54:19.520 sometimes 1.00

06:54:20.060 well in some cases the pussy can be bad 1.00

06:54:24.300 no but look 1.00

06:54:25.280 I think in some situations

06:54:28.300 also y'all can 1.00

06:54:30.440 fuck it up after sex 0.99

06:54:31.440 so the guy could have had the intention 1.00

06:54:33.900 of he wasn't playing 1.00

06:54:36.280 you but then you did some dumb shit and then you want to play like oh he played me he just wanted 1.00

06:54:43.000 the pussy and i was like nah you just did some stupid shit like sometimes women will fuck and 1.00

06:54:51.000 they'll ruin the whole thing not even during i'm not even talking during the sex yeah but like i 1.00

06:54:55.520 don't know she could just get on your nerves and you're just do some dumb shit and then you're like 1.00

06:55:00.700 uh you fucked shit up sorry get on your hours before you guys had sex but i was sometimes 1.00

06:55:06.640 women you know like how men well both men and women do this we hold back you know you're on 1.00

06:55:12.260 your best behavior for the first okay i don't know if it's three months six months whatever

06:55:15.680 men and women will be on their best behavior and then three months down the road there's some 0.81

06:55:20.440 crazy shit happens yep yep yeah that's so happens both sides yeah i was told by a few of my

06:55:27.860 guy friends that sometimes they go into it and they think they're really interested and they're 0.99

06:55:33.300 like saying like I want this this this and then they hook up with a girl and it kind of leaves

06:55:38.140 and they're like oh I just wanted to hook up like they've realized after hooking up with her like

06:55:43.440 oh it's just like I wanted to hook up with her and then it happens they're like that's a good 0.90

06:55:49.280 that's actually a fair point yeah I mean maybe this is the argument maybe women should be 0.98

06:55:54.060 maybe women should be more more okay with like porn and masturbation because i think like post 1.00

06:56:01.460 nut clarity if the guy if if the guy is just on one hand maybe it's good for you women to deal 1.00

06:56:09.460 with a guy that doesn't masturbate and watch porn but then you gotta this is so fucked up 1.00

06:56:16.340 you also gotta think in the back of your mind if he's just horny and he's not busting nuts 1.00

06:56:22.860 he might just be really horny and trying to fuck and then like he fucks and he's like 0.99

06:56:28.080 oh i was just trying to fuck i oh my god i'm not even into her you know what i mean especially if 1.00

06:56:33.920 he comes fast oh well there's always round two that's when you know that's when you know what 0.99

06:56:41.340 that's when you know that he's he's had sex recently or if he or not or watched porn recently 0.89

06:56:48.100 or something wait if he comes fast yeah it would be the opposite no i feel like if you've been 0.90

06:56:53.300 backed up oh yeah no weeks yeah i got and you're saving it for for girly yeah my bad got it backwards

06:56:59.160 yeah that's all good um okay uh where were we how do we how do we get to all these segues

06:57:07.000 yeah paying first date sure go ahead um oh paying for the first date yeah yeah no no you're in love

06:57:13.340 with me what no um but not that i'm disappointed but every time i've seen some like sequences and

06:57:22.360 stuff you've always done the ratings and you have not done it so you want me to rate you well just

06:57:29.440 like uh i don't know it's like the thing that i see the most yeah i thought it was in the beginning

06:57:35.380 kind of yeah we'll do it soon we're a little behind on a few things here can you read this

06:57:39.240 one for me thank you clan me okay the minute you start respecting a woman is the minute the

06:57:45.440 the minute the stops effing you i have close to the same number as plain face chair too

06:57:52.480 and no i didn't pay for it get another burrito brian well thank you clan i did i was eating a

06:57:58.980 burrito back there as soon as your french friend comes back i'll get into some of the segments

06:58:03.800 uh let's do the hold on let me see if there's anything on let me i feel like i need to finish 1.00

06:58:09.000 the questionnaire uh brooke labadoo labadoo women can't be sexist towards men you agree with that 0.61

06:58:18.620 why is that women can't oh did i not circle that one you did circle so you agree women can't be

06:58:26.580 sexist towards men um i just feel like with a lot of the things it should be equal oh maybe you

06:58:34.720 misunderstood then yeah i'm it's the question is more so do women have the capacity to be sexist

06:58:41.640 like for example some people say uh black people can't be racist towards white people 0.88

06:58:45.380 no i think any race can be racist towards any can any gender be sexist can women be sexist then yes

06:58:54.080 okay so perhaps you mistakenly did that oh okay uh okay taylor taylor i need a taylor e taylor e 1.00

06:59:03.600 what i do you circle the following thing you agree with the following statement women are

06:59:08.860 just as physically strong as men why is that um i know a lot of female bodybuilders and i feel like

06:59:15.780 i feel like if you put in the work you can i don't think naturally we are but i feel like

06:59:22.420 there are plenty of women out there that put in the work to to be equally as strong as men

06:59:28.160 In general, though? 0.98

06:59:30.000 In general, in what aspect?

06:59:31.360 I said that we're not naturally as strong.

06:59:32.900 So in general, on average, are men physically stronger than women?

06:59:38.440 Yeah. 0.86

06:59:39.520 Okay.

06:59:40.060 Yeah.

06:59:41.500 Now, how about this, though? 0.92

06:59:42.700 A male bodybuilder compared to a female bodybuilder. 0.53

06:59:45.520 Sure. 0.99

06:59:46.580 Who's going to be stronger?

06:59:48.460 Probably the male.

06:59:50.020 Probably the male?

06:59:50.720 Okay.

06:59:51.100 Yeah. 0.99

06:59:53.020 Can any given woman ever be stronger than the strongest man? 0.99

06:59:58.160 probably not probably not or just biologically impossible uh well i guess logically it's

07:00:05.700 possible like one of those things like statistically no logically superman is possible

07:00:12.980 okay like it's logically possible the fly it's logically it's logically possible but um okay 1.00

07:00:23.340 uh skipping off of that uh taylor e you you agree with the following statement okay women do not

07:00:30.280 have equal rights to men in the usa why is that so many so many things i mean we we talked about

07:00:38.080 abortion already i feel like it's i i feel like you know not to go crazy into it but like certain

07:00:43.800 states have changed laws i think that's wrong um but so sure putting abortion aside because you

07:00:49.980 said so many things so putting that aside what are the rights uh what are the um

07:00:56.840 so women do not have equal rights to men so what are the other ones

07:01:01.920 i feel like financially nine times out of ten men make more um

07:01:08.040 i know for a fact that there are business in corporate settings where men cannot even be

07:01:15.480 qualified and women can be overqualified and women are still gonna get paid less and i know

07:01:20.000 you're making a face because you think that's like not true but nine times out of nine times

07:01:24.480 out of ten it is true you know no nine times out of ten it's not true but um okay anything else

07:01:30.060 yeah i disagree with that wage gap um i think that's the biggest okay well but i'm looking for

07:01:40.760 rights though so even if i were to grant that the wage gap exists which it doesn't really um but

07:01:46.760 even granting if it exists i don't know how that'd have to do with the rights um maybe i just so what

07:01:53.120 are the rights like what rights laws what rights do men have that women don't okay so i thought

07:01:58.760 differently reading the question like okay that's not what i thought you meant that's what i was

07:02:03.560 you referring to well then really quick i'll jump to abortion uh for 30 seconds huh again well she

07:02:10.500 said that it's uh she said that women do not have equal rights to men in the usa and she cited to

07:02:18.280 abortion so the the argument here is that men don't have reproductive rights so i don't know

07:02:28.740 you might say that abortion is women's rights like a right that women uniquely can have and

07:02:35.940 men are take actively taking it away from them well the gender of the person who's taking away

07:02:42.000 your rights would be irrelevant to whether the respective gender has the right or not

07:02:46.600 in this case though men don't have reproductive rights so when we're saying women do not have

07:02:53.240 equal rights to men if women can't have abortions an inequality of rights would have to dictate

07:03:03.120 that men could force women to get abortions that would be unequal the man can the man has the right 0.99

07:03:11.460 to tell the woman bitch get a fucking abortion in this case men the only way we can get equal rights 0.99

07:03:22.500 between men and women so what i'm saying is women have arguably more rights than men on this 1.00

07:03:27.600 particular topic in order to have equal rights which you wouldn't you would not want equality

07:03:33.980 between men and women on this topic trust me men cannot force women to get abortions men can also

07:03:40.960 not prevent women from getting abortions so in order to we we either have to okay if women are

07:03:48.120 here we need to bring men up here so that would mean i don't think the pathway to that would even

07:03:57.020 be men having a say on whether she gets an abortion or not although you could technically

07:04:01.880 argue that it would be um paternal surrender where they don't have to pay child support

07:04:08.500 or because that would be more equitable or if men are down here and men don't have abortion rights

07:04:14.500 which they don't you have to bring women down here for equality which means no abortions whatsoever

07:04:22.100 no abortion rights and that gets you equality that's equal so should we should we 0.99

07:04:30.920 pedestalized equality in this case and take away women's abortion rights 0.93

07:04:35.920 aren't they already being taken away uh so i mean roe v wade kicked it back to the states

07:04:43.160 many states you can still get abortions uh it's not per state vote it's it's right so we're so

07:04:51.840 currently we're in california women can get abortions in california and many other states

07:04:55.720 yep they can in new jersey too right but so my argument here is if we're talking about equal

07:05:02.300 rights right so like i said arguably you have to get rid of the question hold on arguably you have

07:05:08.680 to get rid of women's right to abortion entirely for it to be equal between men and women but it's

07:05:15.800 so different because the guy's not like having a child inside their body for nine months but 0.85

07:05:21.180 remember the framing of the question i didn't say women i know but women do not have equal rights

07:05:27.280 to men so that suggests that men have a right that women don't so in order arguing with that

07:05:35.260 but i just said to put that equal it's not equal i agree not the yes i agree but i agree it's

07:05:40.800 different but when she says if i if i ask an example of what are like women do not have equal

07:05:46.960 rights to men abortion is incoherent okay yeah do you see do you see the argument on this or

07:06:00.060 do I see the argument yeah I I the first thing I said when you explained was that I misinterpreted

07:06:05.660 the question as far as what you were looking for I can understand where you're coming from

07:06:10.800 with your arguments even if I disagree but that was not how I interpreted the question I think

07:06:15.960 that's okay okay but yeah so the question is though women do not have equal rights to men

07:06:21.800 And then you said wage gap. I mean, the wage gap is debunked. It's been legislated. If you can prove that a corporation is paying you as a woman less for a man who's in your role and your location and all that stuff, all things being equal, they're just being sexist, you can bring a lawsuit. 0.99

07:06:44.340 It is, there's a law protecting against that thing.

07:06:48.220 In fact, oftentimes Google did a self audit and they actually found they were overpaying 1.00

07:06:55.440 the women. 0.96

07:06:57.480 And actually you look at, well, I mean, hold on.

07:07:01.720 Oh, is it revenge? 1.00

07:07:02.720 Is feminism about revenge? 0.86

07:07:04.920 But anyways, if you look at, hold on. 1.00

07:07:09.340 If you look at women in cities who are single and don't have kids and compare them to their male counterparts, oftentimes it's completely equal.

07:07:24.160 You look at a 30-year-old woman who's single, doesn't have kids, 30-year-old man, single, doesn't have kids, live in the city, they're making the same amount of money.

07:07:33.640 Making the same amount of money.

07:07:34.900 Men work more hours.

07:07:37.300 Men work more overtime.

07:07:39.340 men are more likely to negotiate men are more likely to relocate men are more likely to live 1.00

07:07:46.140 in like bumfuck northern canada working on some fucking oil bullshit uh with the chance of him 1.00

07:07:52.160 losing fingers and dying whereas women want the comfortable air-conditioned office jobs feminism 1.00

07:07:58.740 didn't exist 200 years ago there wasn't air conditioning back then now you want it now that 1.00

07:08:04.760 civilization has become comfortable for you guys now you now you can have feminism 200 years ago

07:08:10.720 you guys want to work the jobs men worked 200 years ago nope men still work those jobs

07:08:16.740 y'all want to go into the coal mines nope may i cite something from one of my classes in my

07:08:24.380 marriage and family sociology class or i don't have to but i can just um is it quick or um just

07:08:33.080 that uh in a paper called the second shift by researchers i don't it doesn't matter it doesn't

07:08:40.380 matter who okay okay just citing my sources just um women who uh were in marriages who out earned 0.64

07:08:48.440 their husbands usually did like all the housework as well and so they ended up just being exhausted

07:08:57.020 how would this even if even granting it even allowing for that how would that be relevant to 0.91

07:09:04.180 the discussion of oh well just because the women end up working double uh and so the wage gap is 1.00

07:09:16.260 complicated in that women assume a lot of responsibilities outside of typical jobs

07:09:23.880 um and don't get compensated financially for it right but you know wait hold on if a woman will 1.00

07:09:32.740 in a situation where a woman is a stay-at-home wife no no not a stay-at-home she is being 1.00

07:09:38.600 compensated she's getting free everything she's working and then once she gets at home she does

07:09:43.820 a lot more okay well how does that even granting that how is that relevant to the conversation at

07:09:49.580 hand. It's irrelevant. I'm just explaining what she was saying. It's just like relevant to wage

07:09:53.940 gap. Yeah. And a lot of the ways that men contribute to the household are completely

07:09:57.660 ignored. This unpaid labor argument, men are frequently, uh, the things that men do typically

07:10:04.020 aren't going to be categorized. Men don't do this grievance victimhood thing with their household

07:10:10.120 duties. So that could be the home protection. It could be, you know, mowing the lawn. Like there's 0.95

07:10:15.980 not a really a consideration for some of the more heavy lifting things that men do around the house 0.99

07:10:21.320 men aren't fucking bitching and moaning and becoming professional victims the same way women 0.78

07:10:26.380 are about all the things that men do so ideally it would be a team partnership team partnership 0.99

07:10:33.700 maybe yeah maybe anyways um perfect world what what were we on before the oh the wage gap i mean

07:10:41.960 i would also just cite to this that uh you're talking about the wage gap women don't get paid

07:10:48.180 as much men are more motivated men are more motivated men work harder than you sorry like

07:10:56.680 due to physical like strength just no and i'll explain it in the way that makes you all guilty

07:11:03.840 of the thing.

07:11:05.540 Okay.

07:11:06.100 So. 0.82

07:11:10.460 Chyna, you write men should pay on first dates, men should provide. 0.87

07:11:15.160 Tatum, I'm skipping you because you didn't circle.

07:11:18.020 You said men should pay on first dates, men should provide.

07:11:21.900 Brooke, you said men should provide. 0.92

07:11:24.000 Taylor, no.

07:11:25.960 I think women should provide too in different ways.

07:11:28.360 Men should provide.

07:11:30.000 So, I don't know if it's the majority. 0.72

07:11:31.940 i know it is i think it's the majority of women who want men to pay on first dates

07:11:35.600 and i think the majority of women want men who are providers i'm not going to say all women

07:11:40.920 i would say most women do most men want women to pay for first dates do most men

07:11:48.800 want women to be financial providers if and do you think men are more motivated to get sex 0.99

07:11:56.140 than women are men yeah yeah sex to get sex and this is this you're you're you do prostitution 1.00

07:12:02.860 exactly i think the fact that men are willing to spend money to get pussy whereas women do not 1.00

07:12:09.800 spend some women some women very few and there's very few male prostitutes that well treat a female 0.99

07:12:17.120 clientele there's like gay prostitutes or whatever gay for pay i guess men are highly motivated 0.98

07:12:24.340 sexually romantically yes for you women to get a man we don't care about your money doesn't 1.00

07:12:30.900 matter doesn't matter now hold on nope doesn't matter doesn't matter so as men if part of our 0.99

07:12:42.900 access to sex to companionship to a girlfriend to a wife to one day having kids to continuing

07:12:50.640 our bloodline which is our biological imperative to reproduce if that is dependent to some degree

07:12:59.620 or perhaps to a strong degree on being at a financial point that women deem acceptable

07:13:07.300 then the wage gap would simply be explained away by your own preferences and the pressure

07:13:15.740 not the patriarchy not men the pressure you as individual women singularly and collectively

07:13:23.060 place on men to pay for dates to be providers your own sexist standards create the wage gap

07:13:31.520 if it even existed but it doesn't but if it did exist it would simply be explained by the fact

07:13:36.980 that men are more motivated to get money we're more motivated than you i would say i'm highly

07:13:42.420 motivated well hold on so women hold on here's me being charitable

07:13:46.700 both men and women need money to survive we need food we need housing we need shelter we need to

07:13:56.360 pay for uh health care we need to pay we need to yes however so that's equal let's just say that's

07:14:04.200 equal although technically you can even argue men have higher caloric require men need to eat more

07:14:11.300 food so technically i mean it's like maybe five percent higher for men because we need to eat

07:14:15.540 more food we have a high higher uh calorie requirement so technically our survival is

07:14:21.300 more dependent on making more money but in any case going beyond that though to another massive

07:14:29.980 motivator another massive pressure if we don't make money

07:14:35.740 that's going to have impact on our dating life

07:14:40.880 that's true that's true for so and would you guys agree that men are highly motivated romantically

07:14:49.740 romantically well so when i say romantically this would be sort of an umbrella term encompassing

07:14:56.060 like sex dating relationships marriage girlfriends kids yes like having kids yeah but women as well

07:15:03.580 okay so

07:15:04.700 yes women okay well hold on i would argue putting money aside i think men are more

07:15:13.240 romantically motivated than women are romantically yeah no i think that i think they are um perhaps

07:15:20.940 you can dispute it a little bit but uh i mean how about this men are more sexually motivated

07:15:27.660 yeah yeah but romantically i think so probably even women okay then even if it's equal though

07:15:33.800 even if it's equal men still don't assess you by the money that you make i would agree men assess

07:15:41.300 you by certain positive personality traits but primarily beauty but from my personal experiences

07:15:50.680 um most men don't want to have to completely provide for like their partners so they don't

07:16:00.480 necessarily mind if they do less but they still don't want to have to like take care fully of a

07:16:08.520 second person so they do want to like build it i mean so okay there's a well there's a difference

07:16:16.900 there's a difference here between attraction and economic and financial realism so i think someone

07:16:24.680 could be attracted like to a person but then as a partner if like she's not working not doing

07:16:30.740 anything and they'd have to fully take care of her they'd be like i'll choose someone who has

07:16:35.200 well i would frame it like this so maybe it's the case that men out of necessity realizing that it's

07:16:41.540 difficult to live and have kids, uh, raise a family on one income out of economic and financial

07:16:49.500 reality and necessity. They, that might be like a bonus or a priority when potentially dating

07:16:56.960 somebody. However, I would compare it more so to this. When a man makes a million dollars a year,

07:17:02.040 he doesn't give a fuck about how much money the woman makes. When a woman makes a million dollars 1.00

07:17:06.260 a year, she wants to date a man who makes a million dollars a year or more. I don't know 0.97

07:17:10.920 if you've watched the how's it called the secret life of mormon wives like all those girls are like 1.00

07:17:18.460 making good money and they want their husbands not to work so that they can take care of their 1.00

07:17:24.980 children the men take care of the children well so i have not i'm not familiar with the show you're

07:17:30.840 talking about you're talking about like most likely a scripted reality tv show based in utah

07:17:37.140 around a minority religion uh mormonism lds i don't know if that maps on to what happens on a

07:17:44.820 reality tv show maps on to like the broader general cultural zeitgeist of all this my point simply

07:17:54.120 being that my position is men are more motivated and if there even was a wage gap it would be

07:18:00.900 explained away by not sexism from men, but actually sexism from you guys holding up this

07:18:08.420 patriarchal structure that men should pay on first dates. Okay. If part of my access to

07:18:15.480 getting a date, getting sex, getting a girlfriend, getting married, having kids,

07:18:20.340 the initial entry point is I need to pay for the first date. That places a financial pressure.

07:18:28.400 that places a financial burden on me that doesn't exist on you so it's like yeah i gotta make i'm 0.99

07:18:35.860 not to be clear women care about more than just money it's not just money however it's a component 0.91

07:18:41.880 of it you even admitted like oh if the guy is being a brokey blah blah blah it's it gives me the 0.78

07:18:47.080 ick a guy who's a successful lawyer he'll date a girl who works at a fast food restaurant if 0.65

07:18:55.160 she's beautiful. Okay. Not all of them, but the reality is men and women prioritize different 0.99

07:19:00.680 things. The things you guys care about, we don't necessarily care about. And the things we care

07:19:05.160 about, you don't necessarily care about women like masculine men, men like feminine women.

07:19:11.180 There's not symmetry. There's not perfect symmetry. In this case, women prioritize a man's

07:19:16.320 income more than women do. It's not the only thing women care about, but women care about it more 0.96

07:19:21.660 than men do if women care about it more than men do then if men realize this oh women care about

07:19:28.580 money more than i care oh okay well here's my if you're playing like say you're playing a

07:19:34.140 video game how can i what am i going to put my stats into what am i oh okay um i'm going to

07:19:42.240 maximize my ability one of the ways i can make myself more attractive is to become rich to become 0.99

07:19:47.760 successful again it's not the only thing women care about but if you tell men they should pay 0.90

07:19:54.400 on first dates they need the money to do it the way i see it for dates is if you're not willing to 0.86

07:20:03.160 pay on the first date you don't really give a shit so it's just a more of a like if you're 0.58

07:20:13.280 somewhat it shows somewhat interest and investment and if you're not willing to do that well it just 0.97

07:20:20.480 proves i mean i would actually argue that in today's society a woman who's willing to do that

07:20:25.760 demonstrates way more interest than the reverse like a woman who's willing to pay for a date but 0.78

07:20:30.960 she otherwise doesn't that's her showing way more interest than the man paying for for the date 0.78

07:20:36.500 because that's like socially pressured whereas the woman doing it that's just like she's massively 1.00

07:20:41.160 simping not massively but that's going beyond gender roles and she's willing to do this thing 0.91

07:20:48.500 that women don't otherwise do and that would show more interest so it's like but it's like okay 0.72

07:20:53.720 it shows that the so should women also demonstrate interest yeah i mean i when i go on a first date

07:21:01.580 with people i always offer to pay half i think i think it's partially from like past relationships

07:21:08.600 and like financial I don't want to say trauma I don't think it's like that serious but just you

07:21:13.700 don't mean like that thought in the back of your head like I've had people be like oh you just are

07:21:17.680 with me for my money and I'm like I could care less about your money um and that is something

07:21:23.460 that I definitely get backlash on like why would I ever offer to pay for a date but I never want

07:21:27.180 someone to be like like that again to me like oh you are just with me for my money like that's all

07:21:32.640 you care about because that's not true like I I work you know I mean a lot of hours every week

07:21:37.220 if i go on a date with you i can pay my half this isn't me trying to get a free meal or

07:21:42.220 go on some luxury vacation or whatever the case may be like i i can put up what i need to put up

07:21:48.540 but don't think it's not appreciated if you oh she too much caffeine yeah okay

07:21:57.960 she can just sit on the couch is she sitting on the couch yeah that's fine if she needs to

07:22:04.280 take a little break um okay do you want to take a break and then come back

07:22:20.140 we'll see okay well we'll continue on the show uh all right a few final things here from the 1.00

07:22:29.700 questionnaire uh taylor a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that

07:22:35.660 me yeah um i just don't really think like people have preferences you know um i know men that like

07:22:45.840 bigger women i know men that like smaller women um and you know getting a little touchy i've been

07:22:54.200 i have a lot of medical problems so i've been sick most of my life and you know going into my

07:22:59.600 adult life I was 85 pounds when I was 22 years old you know so this is the heaviest I've ever

07:23:07.000 been this is the fullest I've ever been and I think that like I haven't really seen much of

07:23:14.580 a change like you know from when I was really thin to even now but I do see how people even like

07:23:21.940 compliment like oh you look so much better you know I mean or whatever the case may be so I just

07:23:27.800 think that you know judging a woman based off her weight is like it's not really something that's

07:23:33.840 very uh you know what's the word i'm looking for like it's it it doesn't give the woman much

07:23:40.920 confidence you know i mean in that perspective but yeah my job as a man is not who to a woman

07:23:46.700 who i'm not interested in dating my job is not to give her confidence that's not my responsibility

07:23:52.100 but rejecting her based off of her weight is like yeah it seems like you're you're looking for

07:23:59.840 specific kind of a woman who's not obese no i look i will be the first to tell you i probably

07:24:06.260 am gonna get so much hate for this i am very much like you know the whole like you should

07:24:13.000 take care of yourself like you shouldn't be fat you should put in the work you should do all of

07:24:17.600 the things um however you know some people do have hardships some things do happen i'm not saying

07:24:24.820 like oh if someone's 600 pounds like you know i mean be like oh yeah you know don't reject her

07:24:30.220 because she's 600 pounds yes if someone is slightly like above average i don't think it's

07:24:35.080 right to like call them fat and be like you're ugly or whoa wait hold on you're smuggling in 0.70

07:24:40.600 a lot of things that is not included in the this thing so uh a woman should not be rejected because 0.74

07:24:46.840 of her weight no one nowhere in there does it say a woman should not be rejected because of

07:24:51.680 her weight and called ugly and fat that's not granted well yeah but so that is part of weight

07:24:57.360 is it not well no but i'm not suggesting here that men should call women i don't even think

07:25:02.720 the man has to say why he's rejecting her i'm simply saying like okay you're on a dating app

07:25:07.480 and the woman's fat is it wrong and the only thing you see wrong with her is that she's fat 0.81

07:25:12.320 is it wrong to reject her so swipe no because she's fat no so she's the most beautiful woman

07:25:19.520 on earth but she's just a little bigger you're gonna be like ill i'm not talking about me

07:25:25.020 that's not for everyone but that's why i said but i'm just yeah but why would you i mean you're in

07:25:31.300 that case you're you're shorting yourself because like i said if you think she's the most beautiful

07:25:36.240 girl on earth but she's just a little bigger you won't even like give her a chance what if

07:25:40.740 what if she just needed like someone to come along and be like oh yeah all right we'll hit the gym

07:25:45.400 and get back on the dating apps i guess but i mean this anyone has has any right to to decline who

07:25:51.080 they want i oh can i say something yeah yeah on the topic yeah yeah um i think it's okay to have

07:25:59.600 preferences in any shape or form yeah but i don't think people should reject people based on their

07:26:07.680 weight when it comes to like jobs or friendships or anything like that we're talking about dating

07:26:13.060 though okay but more so in social dynamics but like if you're not attracted to people who are

07:26:20.440 overweight you're allowed to deny like not wanted to initiate that that's fair for both genders

07:26:27.880 yeah by the way i don't have a double standard on this if a woman doesn't want to date a guy

07:26:32.140 who's overweight yeah it goes both ways it's okay for her to reject him so

07:26:37.660 but so you think like let's just say she's fat but let's say she's like really nice or whatever

07:26:46.340 is it okay for me to reject her i'm not saying it's not okay but i'm saying like

07:26:52.220 if you that's why i said in this instance if you think she's so beautiful like this is 0.97

07:26:58.680 you know she's i don't think she's beautiful in the face there are plenty of women who only use 1.00

07:27:04.000 their face because their face is a little bit less rounder but but i don't think you can force

07:27:08.180 someone to be sexually sexually attracted to them if you're not you're not is it wrong for the man

07:27:16.880 to reject a woman because of her weight no no well hold on she i'm trying to get the answer

07:27:23.380 from her i explained my answer how much more do you want okay is it wrong for women to reject a

07:27:29.580 man because of his penis size i mean i think that's situational how what do you mean situational 0.98

07:27:39.260 let's say let's say it's it's not a micro penis but it's below average 1.00

07:27:45.700 i mean does he know how to use it like um fuck around and find out you know but there's other 1.00

07:27:56.180 there's other possible ways to be pleasured by a man if their dick isn't big enough like 1.00

07:28:02.280 yeah but so the question is though is it wrong for a woman to not i don't i wouldn't think it 0.98

07:28:07.400 was like wrong but like that's what i'm saying i don't think it's necessarily like the end of

07:28:13.200 the world for someone to reject them like i said everyone has a preference but to only base that 0.66

07:28:18.640 off of your rejection okay i just feel like it's fucked up all right uh let's see i think we're 0.94

07:28:24.180 on the questionnaire here uh men care more hold on 0.85

07:28:30.480 um yeah i'm wondering i don't know if we've wrapped up the thread on paying for the first

07:28:45.300 date really men should not we talked about it for a period but uh i guess to quickly wrap it up

07:28:55.140 my final position here is that i think there's an expectation on men even here in 2026 that they

07:29:03.440 should be chivalrous that they should be these sort of gentlemen and then treating women

07:29:07.820 traditionally i think we tell women uh we we tell women whether when they're growing up when

07:29:14.680 they're young or at any time this is how you should expect to be treated and we tell men

07:29:19.920 this is how you treat women but we don't tell men here's how you should be treated and we don't tell 0.76

07:29:26.420 women here's how you should treat men here's how you should be we tell men how they should be we

07:29:31.380 don't tell women how they should be a little bit like on like that's very true men get forgotten

07:29:35.920 like you sorry i didn't want to but just like the hooking up part and stuff like that like

07:29:41.800 it's not good you shouldn't hook up with uh too many as a woman you shouldn't hook up with too

07:29:48.760 many guys because it's perceived this way but guys don't get that but then yeah but I from what

07:29:55.280 I see what I see happening is that we still hold men to some of these perhaps even archaic

07:30:02.800 traditional gender roles but we don't really hold women to any standard it's just like yeah like I

07:30:09.360 just mentioned with the burden burden burden on the man to adhere to like a traditional

07:30:15.900 thing but there's nothing we can't place any traditional burden on women which seems like 0.94

07:30:23.580 a kind of bullshit deal for men that seems like a raw deal like so why should i pay for a woman 0.57

07:30:29.060 who acts who's a modern woman she should be traditional why should i pay so i would say like 0.98

07:30:36.420 for me and like thinking about chivalry the way that i was kind of taught about it is kind of like

07:30:42.340 it's men showing politeness and in a way this is something that happened in my adult life that

07:30:47.740 changed my view on chivalry and it wasn't about paying for the first date it was like i was

07:30:51.520 carrying this suitcase and it was like really heavy i could like get it up the stairs but it

07:30:54.960 was like a struggle and the guy's like oh i can take your suitcase and i'm like no i got it because

07:30:58.840 i could physically carry it but then he picks it up with one hand and takes it up the stairs

07:31:02.660 and it was like that mode but then i'm like oh it's like the fact that he was capable of doing

07:31:08.480 it and it assisted me and it wasn't such like a burden for him to do it like that's a sort of

07:31:13.600 chivalry that I think everyone can have like opening a door for someone doesn't cost you a

07:31:18.980 lot but it can really help the person behind you um but there's a difference there I think there's

07:31:27.260 a bit of a difference between like a more like societal politeness and what we're talking about

07:31:31.600 here which is a dating uh from a dating lens and dating perspective so um what is what are the like

07:31:40.460 what are the ways we're expecting women to be chivalrous they're not chivalry is a male oriented 0.97

07:31:46.940 thing yeah but men definitely should be paying more on dates like i always pay i always offer

07:31:54.160 to pay and sometimes the guy like insists that he pays and then i insist okay well you get

07:31:59.560 dinner i get the activity or you know and because men often obviously get forgotten

07:32:05.360 dating wise and they deserve to be spoiled too it shouldn't just be just just on women

07:32:12.340 true uh wait i don't know if we did these can somebody tell me did we read this one

07:32:19.000 did we read this one no no uh can you read it i didn't use chat gpt i've done research 1.00

07:32:26.700 we are in the late stages of a societal decay and feminism is a byproduct of mouse utopia

07:32:33.060 the founding fathers were white protestant christians that dot dot dot created a society

07:32:40.540 of a shared culture this is clearly chachapiti come on uh culture upheld by traditions and 0.93

07:32:46.060 religion without law the death of god destroys families and morality ironically ending female

07:32:52.160 independence okay all right we have this message thank you barrio uh we have clane here coming in

07:32:58.540 oh wait did i do this one no go ahead read it can anyone define these two terms delusional and

07:33:05.000 accountability rate your looks from one to ten can't use seven we'll get to that in a sec

07:33:10.560 clane we got another one coming in if you could read this uh one sec it's coming in 0.85

07:33:15.320 there it is chair one what's up doesn't understand the conversation she is more lost than the french 0.99

07:33:24.800 girl that didn't understand the premise of the podcast her number is probably higher than her

07:33:29.300 iq okay buddy okay all right all right uh okay so um he did wait i think we're oh wait we still

07:33:39.660 have those but that's quick uh here let's do uh what the heck one sec i'm pulling it up can you

07:33:47.360 pull up the gorlach one mine stops losing gorlach all right on a scale wait uh dear

07:33:54.160 do you want to come back for a few segments

07:34:01.640 oh okay sure

07:34:05.560 okay here i'm turning on this yes welcome welcome back welcome back yeah so it's true

07:34:18.760 i've never seen the podcast i wasn't prepared at all i just can't don't worry about that 0.94

07:34:24.160 yeah stupid guy there yeah wait what guy i just wanted to challenge me challenge me to 0.98

07:34:30.200 I'm challenging myself here to speak in front of people, to expose my opinion. 1.00

07:34:34.880 But even to China or my friend, I'm not able to talk about my dating life or something like that.

07:34:40.140 I don't know what happened in my head to think that I would be able to be...

07:34:44.380 You're fine.

07:34:45.100 You're fine.

07:34:45.820 The guy that's sending that message is like...

07:34:49.020 You did great.

07:34:49.800 No, you're doing great.

07:34:50.720 You're so fine.

07:34:51.560 Hey, you're doing great.

07:34:53.160 Guys, W is in the chat for...

07:34:55.220 Yeah, the guy that sent that message...

07:34:57.780 Here, sing the national...

07:34:59.080 I'm going to pass, I would like to sing.

07:35:01.120 I can't, I don't know.

07:35:02.600 Sing Le Marseillaise with me.

07:35:05.980 Allons enfants de la patrie.

07:35:09.460 I don't sing very well.

07:35:10.680 Go ahead, keep going.

07:35:11.220 I'm not a singer.

07:35:11.780 Come on, keep going.

07:35:12.720 I prefer dance.

07:35:13.980 Allons enfants de la patrie.

07:35:17.920 Le joie de la patrie.

07:35:19.300 Le joie de la patrie.

07:35:20.060 T'arrivé.

07:35:21.360 Well done.

07:35:21.980 That's it.

07:35:22.860 All right, so we have a question, though, since you've rejoined us.

07:35:26.000 on a scale of 0 to 10 rate your own looks face body total can't pick seven okay well what i wrote

07:35:32.280 there is i think in canada i'd be like an overall eight personality perhaps an 8.59 but um from like

07:35:41.560 la u.s whatever like la santa barbara standards probably like a six okay what about you well

07:35:49.220 according to your scale

07:35:51.460 well just your own thoughts

07:35:52.960 well

07:35:54.940 I think

07:35:57.600 that well the number gets compared to your

07:35:59.620 number so it's like on

07:36:01.640 your scale and I feel like

07:36:03.520 because you say

07:36:04.740 six is

07:36:07.740 cute

07:36:08.200 just use your scale whatever

07:36:10.480 just give us an answer

07:36:11.960 how do you feel girl?

07:36:14.280 well because

07:36:15.640 okay so my my whole thing is that the guy who i my soulmate is gonna see me as a 10

07:36:28.520 and i'm gonna see him as a 10 even though we're probably both not 10s to the rest of the world

07:36:33.480 um okay but so to the rest of the world i i think that i would be lucky in your rating system to be

07:36:41.140 six okay what about you um it really depends on my mouth on my mood on how i feel at the moment

07:36:49.620 on how i'm dressed if i sleep well the period of the month so it's a lot of parameters yeah

07:36:57.720 sometimes i can't even watch myself in the mirror or something like this or sometimes like like oh

07:37:03.800 yeah today is my day yeah yep okay yeah personality just throw out the mouth i guess 1.00

07:37:11.200 right now five okay five all right uh face five body five total five five wait can we do oh shit 0.99

07:37:18.900 i fucked this up uh face body total so for example i'll do me face 4.5 body 4.5 total 4.5 0.98

07:37:28.220 and you can do you can have different ratings into the mic face five bodies six total 5.5 0.96

07:37:36.820 okay cool what about you i'd probably say face six body eight total six okay what about you 0.96

07:37:45.100 face five body four total four by the way that girl who was who left unfortunately she did give

07:37:55.380 herself a 10 but she left i saw she wrote it on her paper uh okay so let me just see six five

07:38:04.600 yeah okay wait taylor e you said eight i said eight oh did you say i said six eight doesn't

07:38:11.700 wasn't listening i guess sometimes i do that when talking to women just kidding um

07:38:16.620 it's okay you guys zone out when you're listening to me too for sure

07:38:23.420 all right so uh okay you asked me to do the ratings i'm gonna do them super quick

07:38:28.640 uh you gave yourself a usa six like an la six but a canada eight yeah canada eight i give you a

07:38:41.460 manitoba 6.5 i'll take it sure but i'm from montreal i know okay but i'm using the manitoba

07:38:51.140 scale a yeah that's what i thought no okay um i give you uh you had the nose job right any lip

07:39:01.860 filler um lip flip oh you have a lip flip yeah yeah what did it was it what did it look like

07:39:10.060 before um pretty like do you know what a lip lip is yeah it's where yeah it's it's not the same as

07:39:18.360 lip filler it like i don't know the procedure or whatever but it's different but i have like a big

07:39:23.640 bigger lower lip and then like a smaller one wait can you turn your head that way

07:39:28.320 i think they actually you know what normally i'm i'm really not a fan of lip filler but you

07:39:37.040 got a lip flip which is kind of different they actually did kind of a good job for you on the

07:39:42.420 lips thank you they look natural good for you um okay uh rating though

07:39:48.380 should we have everyone take off their makeup haha uh i don't know it's hard to sometimes do

07:39:56.300 an assessment with makeup but uh and you have the nose drop too any botox uh how many a little bit

07:40:05.760 how many units of botox or whatever like 10 like that i think i'm comfortable putting you at 5.5

07:40:15.820 to 6.5 uh tatum you gave yourself a six and your rating system i kind of i think i'm gonna put you

07:40:27.200 go to 4.5 4.5 tatum oh my god yeah uh you you gave yourself you gave yourself a six right not

07:40:38.900 with five oh five she downgraded i'm gonna be nice i'm not gonna what are you talking about

07:40:43.140 i'm a nice guy what are you talking about what are you talking about you mean with me don't be

07:40:46.820 mean to you okay she that's weird that you're into that but okay you should see a therapist

07:40:51.440 about that um i am don't worry about it checks out all right so uh my dear well of course i've

07:40:57.480 got to give the french girl a 10 of course as a friend obviously uh as a friend you know

07:41:01.820 solidarity french solidarity i'm russian too my mom is russian okay so lower my rating uh okay so

07:41:09.660 you you gave yourself a six uh well you're not wearing much makeup are you maybe a little bit

07:41:15.620 but not really me

07:41:16.820 she has no words

07:41:18.920 I think I give you like 5

07:41:20.600 I give you 5

07:41:22.220 ok you gave yourself a 5

07:41:25.440 you're an interesting case

07:41:32.660 why?

07:41:34.100 you're an interesting case

07:41:35.140 why?

07:41:36.660 do you want the honest answer?

07:41:39.160 yeah

07:41:39.400 well I think there are

07:41:41.000 ok there are some aesthetic components to you 1.00

07:41:44.080 what the fuck that sounds so autistic like you have you have some traits that are above average 0.97

07:41:52.180 and then other traits that might be below average facially so there's like a disharmony there that 0.99

07:41:59.080 sounds so bad but um it's okay uh so like i think i just yeah i think five i go with five uh you

07:42:09.440 is that your natural hair color what are you are you mexican what are you i'm african-american

07:42:14.760 yeah you're part black i knew yeah i was like i feel like she's black like you have a black

07:42:20.420 phenotype kind like full i mean like wait can you scoot into the table you're too far from the mic 0.94

07:42:28.380 scoot the chair scoot the chair chair yeah no i mean i i got that impression a little bit that

07:42:34.200 you might be fine no it's not i'm not saying it's a bad thing but so your dad's like one of your

07:42:39.980 parents is black but i'm african-american both my parents are african-american like both your

07:42:45.420 parents are black i mean like uh skin color wise they don't have the same skin tone but they're

07:42:51.440 both african-american i'm not biracial if that's what you're asking you're not part well i mean

07:42:56.220 like if biracial is one parent is one race and the other parents another race i'm not that

07:43:00.060 they're both black 0.66

07:43:02.280 well it's not like I mean like you know being in America 0.94

07:43:05.300 it's usually not full

07:43:06.240 let me make it simple

07:43:08.380 do you see the woman sitting next 0.71

07:43:11.460 to you our black queen 0.95

07:43:13.380 of the night 0.99

07:43:14.220 do both your parents

07:43:17.720 look like her

07:43:19.100 their skin color 1.00

07:43:21.400 no but can 0.95

07:43:23.460 I be clear that like it's a

07:43:25.400 phenotype thing where like I have

07:43:27.420 I'm African American like

07:43:29.320 no one would call me white if they knew my heritage it's just a phenotype thing

07:43:35.500 but what is the skin color that one or do one of your parents have her skin color

07:43:43.040 close to that skin color yes okay so you have like 0.99

07:43:46.000 basically biracial parents no so the thing they're straight black so how the fuck you get red hair 1.00

07:43:57.040 motherfucker so how you get that red hair so i i'm jamaican i'll say that so hey wait let me ask 1.00

07:44:02.780 the sister over here have you ever seen okay to be fair i'm really dark right now i just i just 1.00

07:44:08.540 got no no i'm just you are you are a black woman yes have you ever seen a black woman yes with red 1.00

07:44:15.460 hair yes this is a wig just weird but oh shit it's a wig yes yes take that shit off no 1.00

07:44:21.920 that's so rude 1.00

07:44:23.640 you can go on my social media

07:44:25.720 it's not a secret I show what I look like

07:44:28.200 I think you have to pull it

07:44:29.200 you can look at my Instagram

07:44:31.060 no I'm not going to pull it down

07:44:32.720 no I'm not going to pull it down

07:44:34.400 I'm trying to help you dog

07:44:38.160 thank you for helping

07:44:39.920 because I feel like it's a bit too high

07:44:42.300 oh okay that's fine 1.00

07:44:43.500 just pull that shit down a little 1.00

07:44:44.680 okay I'll pull it down 0.99

07:44:47.400 please don't pull it down

07:44:50.060 I'm not like what do you expect

07:44:51.740 So, what color is your hair?

07:44:54.260 It's auburn.

07:44:56.660 So, a dark red.

07:44:57.240 Why are you wearing a wig?

07:44:58.780 Because my hair is very hard to maintain.

07:45:04.040 Do you shave it?

07:45:05.240 I don't shave it.

07:45:06.220 I cut it short.

07:45:07.580 Oh, okay.

07:45:11.440 Interesting.

07:45:12.880 I'm happy with my hair.

07:45:13.900 I'm actually technically African American, too.

07:45:16.100 Please.

07:45:17.740 Now, let me tell you why.

07:45:19.020 my dad was born excuse me uh my dad was born in algeria which at the time that's north africa

07:45:30.500 algeria used to belong to france so my dad was born in algeria africa my mom's american

07:45:40.420 dad born in africa mom born in america technically technically i'm african-american

07:45:48.500 That's really far-fetched.

07:45:49.920 Thank you. 0.98

07:45:50.320 No, I'm not black.

07:45:51.880 I'm not black.

07:45:53.720 But technically, I'm African-American.

07:45:55.760 Can you read this?

07:45:56.800 My Canadian best friend.

07:45:59.800 Body, five, three, four, six, three, five, seven.

07:46:04.840 Face, three, four, three, five, three, four, seven.

07:46:09.060 I'm glad you can count till seven.

07:46:12.200 Okay.

07:46:12.400 Claim.

07:46:13.160 All right.

07:46:15.320 Minimum yearly.

07:46:16.200 Wait, we were talking about

07:46:17.480 Wait 0.99

07:46:18.900 Oh shit, I didn't even finish 1.00

07:46:22.300 Shit, okay 1.00

07:46:25.320 You know what 1.00

07:46:28.160 Well, I'll say it afterwards

07:46:30.240 4.5

07:46:34.100 4.5

07:46:37.120 And you

07:46:38.940 Why are you looking at me that way? 1.00

07:46:43.280 She's all trying to seduce me 1.00

07:46:44.520 it's been it's been three years since she's she got laid she's ready to fuck anything even a fat 1.00

07:46:51.260 guy like me uh anyways just kidding it's a joke just kidding it's just kidding i'm gay i don't 0.99

07:46:57.240 date women just kidding okay trying to trying to cool the cool things off a little bit you know

07:47:02.880 uh i give you a four okay good talk uh what is the minimum yearly oh i think you underrated us 0.81

07:47:12.640 maybe who knows the one thing i was going to add a woman can make up for you know how i said like 1.00

07:47:18.080 if a woman has an innie she has to make up for it a woman can compensate for her looks if she has a 0.99

07:47:26.720 large labia so here's this here's the here's the math here's the here's the brian math on it yeah 1.00

07:47:34.120 so the brian math is as follows let's say she's a four like looks body whatever she's a four 1.00

07:47:39.720 but she's got 0.99

07:47:41.920 an Audi. Now there's different

07:47:44.060 categories of Audis.

07:47:46.160 So you have slight Audi

07:47:47.800 that's plus one. You have

07:47:49.760 medium Audi plus two points.

07:47:52.360 Large Audi

07:47:53.820 plus three.

07:47:55.560 XL Audi plus four.

07:47:58.020 And then the big five.

07:47:59.260 This would be like

07:48:00.900 world record Guinness to get

07:48:03.160 plus five on my scale. So she's a four

07:48:05.340 but she becomes a nine.

07:48:07.160 This is like the biggest 1.00

07:48:08.760 pussy lips in the world she becomes four to a nine um but just excel four to seven 1.00

07:48:16.120 she becomes a seven if she has a giant labia no sorry excel labia my bad great that's great for 0.99

07:48:23.620 you thank you it is great for me it is great for me whatever pelotes your book big labia matter 1.00

07:48:31.400 what's up what's up brian is lying he's in fact a chubby what what the fuck chubby chaser all right 0.98

07:48:38.900 thank you for sharing i appreciate it uh what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband 0.99

07:48:43.540 quick answers if you can't please uh i said 100k but um i think in the u.s it's kind of like

07:48:51.040 the cost of living is higher and and stuff so it would probably be different but in canada to be

07:48:58.880 my husband not boyfriend husband 100k okay what about you quick answer um ideally more than me

07:49:08.280 okay what about you 60k what about you 100k 100k okay i said equal or more so what how much

07:49:16.740 as like whatever i'm making or more all right what about you

07:49:20.880 don't really think about it don't really care so you'll date a guy who works at mcdonald's

07:49:28.880 Yeah, sure.

07:49:30.080 Okay.

07:49:31.000 How tall are you, minimum height?

07:49:32.340 Are you a date?

07:49:32.780 Quick answer.

07:49:34.280 Six, six, one.

07:49:36.220 Well, how tall are you, minimum height?

07:49:38.940 Pardon?

07:49:39.660 How tall are you?

07:49:40.760 Five, eight.

07:49:41.260 And what's the minimum height?

07:49:42.560 Yeah, five, eight, minimum is six.

07:49:44.560 Six, okay.

07:49:45.500 I'm five, three, and I wrote five, five, but I think I should put five, eight.

07:49:49.920 Sure, what about you?

07:49:50.580 I'm five, one, and I said five, seven.

07:49:53.620 What about you?

07:49:54.200 I'm five, seven, and I put five, nine.

07:49:56.380 Next.

07:49:56.820 I'm five, two, I put five, two.

07:49:58.880 okay

07:50:00.820 all right

07:50:03.200 okay we're going to get into the rapid

07:50:05.420 fire segment of the show

07:50:06.340 oh really quick let's do the AI 0.99

07:50:09.300 swap on the girls let's do that 1.00

07:50:11.200 we're going to do the rapid fire segment next 0.68

07:50:13.480 there's a few notes to wrap up and then hopefully

07:50:15.280 we are done

07:50:16.780 soon-ish

07:50:19.060 Tiffany can you give me water dear

07:50:20.800 Tiffany water

07:50:22.580 drop drop

07:50:25.060 what's the AI swap I have no idea

07:50:27.020 you're about to find out

07:50:28.760 So the question is, would you date the male version of you?

07:50:32.860 No.

07:50:35.120 That's the male version of me? 1.00

07:50:36.680 Wait, what the fuck? 1.00

07:50:37.840 Oh, God. 1.00

07:50:38.660 Oh, wait.

07:50:39.780 Did they not?

07:50:40.820 Wait.

07:50:41.160 What?

07:50:41.940 They didn't. 0.67

07:50:42.720 Oh, do we not have gender swap?

07:50:44.160 No. 1.00

07:50:45.080 Oh, they just did the beautify?

07:50:46.740 Okay, we'll skip that.

07:50:48.700 Ew.

07:50:49.380 Wait, question.

07:50:50.880 Was there something I asked you guys to remind me of that we were supposed to do?

07:50:57.080 Oh, nah. 1.00

07:50:58.040 Fuck it. 1.00

07:50:59.400 Fuck it. 1.00

07:51:00.320 Let me see. 1.00

07:51:03.640 Okay.

07:51:04.240 No, we don't have that.

07:51:05.220 That's fine.

07:51:05.620 That's not a big thing.

07:51:07.280 Okay.

07:51:07.680 I think we're done with the questionnaire then.

07:51:10.120 We were going to do rapid fire questions.

07:51:12.860 All right.

07:51:15.020 Hold on.

07:51:15.900 Let me pull that up.

07:51:17.240 Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video, please.

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07:51:26.220 All right. 1.00

07:51:26.820 we have where is it where did my notes go all right uh oh man the asian girl left fuck i had 0.99

07:51:35.340 a question for her oh well well snooze you lose i guess well you didn't rate her so what do you 1.00

07:51:40.760 rate her she's not a 10 i'll tell you that much damn well rater i don't know she's got a fucking 1.00

07:51:46.480 10 pounds of makeup on plastic surgery out the wazoo lip filler out the wazoo who knows what 1.00

07:51:53.320 else fake lashes that could reach fucking taiwan i honestly i mean you take all that shit off she's 1.00

07:52:03.540 probably a five maybe who knows who knows it's a mystery under all that makeup you don't even know 0.99

07:52:10.680 how can you even know i don't i don't know uh let's see here

07:52:14.540 is it 1.00

07:52:19.380 show of hands who here is a feminist 1.00

07:52:20.840 feminist 1.00

07:52:22.960 feminist 1.00

07:52:23.880 is there a patriarchy 1.00

07:52:27.520 is there a patriarchy

07:52:29.300 it depends on who's defining it

07:52:31.760 wait what's that

07:52:32.560 it depends on your definition of patriarchy

07:52:35.260 are you going to read out a definition

07:52:37.800 or is it like what

07:52:38.960 everything okay

07:52:41.400 oh wait you have the gender swaps 0.95

07:52:48.860 wait yeah they were there 0.98

07:52:54.700 pull them up

07:53:02.960 why would that matter when they post in the show

07:53:07.880 they're there aren't they

07:53:09.680 wait it doesn't matter when you wait it doesn't okay they could have posted it 10 years ago they 0.99

07:53:20.140 all knew who's going to be on the panel you could still pull that shit up all right um 0.98

07:53:24.180 wait where were we oh patriarchy uh a movement towards egalitarianism with a rejection or 0.99

07:53:33.480 deconstruction of the patriarchy that's your definition of feminism well hold on uh there's

07:53:40.140 again there you are right there are varying definitions of feminism uh so the charitable

07:53:46.660 definition wait hold on well the definition they might say is that uh equality i i strive towards

07:53:57.720 equality on average for people but i don't like like strict i don't like the arguments where it's

07:54:05.580 um putting someone in an inferior position to correct something i like the idea of

07:54:10.880 getting like more like toward equity is better than stagnation or trying to oppress someone

07:54:18.680 yeah well i'll just tell you my position on feminism and then you can tell me if it parses 0.99

07:54:23.800 for you. So the most charitable definition I would give it is women's advocacy. So not equal rights, 0.94

07:54:31.820 not equality, women's advocacy. Now there's nothing wrong with women's advocacy, but don't 0.89

07:54:38.460 parade your movement as caring about equality. I think that's fair. So for example, if there's

07:54:45.720 a form of equality that would not benefit women, feminists won't fight for it, even if it's

07:54:51.420 equality i think that is something that we've seen happen so we agree now my definition goes 0.71

07:55:00.120 my true sense of feminism goes beyond that so it does do women's advocacy so feminism is women's

07:55:06.660 advocacy plus bundled together with it sort of inextricably inextricably inextricably

07:55:14.780 Interconnectedly 1.00

07:55:16.480 Feminism is anti-male 1.00

07:55:18.220 That's far-fetched 1.00

07:55:21.140 How's that far-fetched?

07:55:23.860 I'm not getting

07:55:25.260 But like you can 1.00

07:55:27.240 Advocate for women

07:55:29.840 Without putting men down

07:55:31.600 I totally agree with you

07:55:33.280 You absolutely can advocate

07:55:35.860 For women without putting men down 1.00

07:55:37.660 Feminists have a lot of difficulty doing that 1.00

07:55:39.980 Though 1.00

07:55:40.240 I agree with that to a certain extent

07:55:43.520 I do 0.98

07:55:44.420 like a lot of feminist women are very anti-men camera please sorry repeat that I said I agree

07:55:54.180 with that to a certain extent I said I think that a lot of feminist women that are extreme feminists

07:55:58.520 are very anti-men they're they're pro-women and that's not to say that they're necessarily wrong 0.77

07:56:05.580 in what they believe you could believe what you want but I agree with what you said they are like

07:56:10.180 very anti-med i i will argue then not saying that i agree with this but some people would argue

07:56:16.100 if you're not radical you can't bring people to center i'm not saying that i support that but i

07:56:23.540 see some people saying if you don't do these radical things it will never get awareness it'll

07:56:28.360 never be talked about you can't even have the conversation because you're not it's not in like

07:56:33.700 the zeitgeist i guess i think anyone that's extremist in their beliefs is not the right

07:56:43.580 way to go like left wing or right wing i think the best place to be is in the middle and that

07:56:48.960 both have their pros and cons and we should just take the best out of both here really quick um

07:56:56.680 nathan can you just pull up uh it's in the resources tab not like the one you have to

07:57:01.700 scroll down for it's in the media and you're going to scroll up like three posts there's like

07:57:06.960 black and white photos with captions uh we're just going to show you some quotes from some famous

07:57:14.000 feminists throughout history do you have it okay pull it up all right uh can i have you read these 0.99

07:57:20.960 quickly if you can i want to see a man beat into a bloody pulp with a high heel shoved in his mouth 1.00

07:57:27.200 like an apple in the mouth of a pig next andrea dorkin very famous feminist to call a man an 1.00

07:57:34.200 animal is to flat is to flatter him he's a machine a walking dildo that's the woman who tried to kill 1.00

07:57:41.380 andy warhol next she wrote she wrote the scum manifesto very famous uh feminist piece of 0.99

07:57:47.960 literature go ahead i will say that whatever i'm saying is not from me but from what i'm reading

07:57:52.440 if life is to survive on this planet there must be a decontamination of the earth i think this

07:58:00.040 will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the

07:58:06.000 population of males next i feel that man hating is an honorable and viable political act next 0.88

07:58:14.480 no woman should be authorized to stay at home to raise her children women should not have that

07:58:21.860 choice because if there is such a choice too many women will make that one Simone de Beauvoir 1.00

07:58:27.560 very famous French feminist or wait is she Canadian I'm pretty sure no she's French probably 0.99

07:58:35.320 French it's just you know the Canadians are kind of French so next the proportion of men must be

07:58:42.960 reduced to to and maintained at approximately 10 percent of the human race yikes yikes big 1.00

07:58:49.960 feminist there next notice the armpit hair the more famous and powerful i get the more powerful 1.00

07:58:56.380 i have to hurt the more power i have to hurt men next the nuclear family must be destroyed 0.93

07:59:03.640 whatever its ultimate meaning ultimate meaning meaning the breakup of families now is an 0.82

07:59:09.380 objectively revolutionary process revolutionary process next 1.00

07:59:13.560 the end goal of feminist revolution must be the abolition of the nuclear family next 1.00

07:59:23.340 the first condition for the liberation of the wife is to bring the whole female sex back into 1.00

07:59:31.420 public industry and this in turn demands the abolition of the monogamous family as the 1.00

07:59:40.200 economic unit of society you know what gives me the ick when a woman can't read 0.57

07:59:45.020 sorry i'm tired i know i'm giving you a hard time uh because you said guys who don't have good

07:59:51.300 grammar um give you the ick so okay uh finishing up or let's do the questionnaire here or not the

07:59:58.920 questionnaire the rapid fire questions um skip skip skip skip skip skip i guess we'll go center

08:00:07.540 and then we'll either do split or we'll do that angle for these questions.

08:00:17.520 Okay, what species are we?

08:00:20.440 Human species?

08:00:22.280 Sorry, louder?

08:00:23.100 Human species?

08:00:26.300 What species are we for you?

08:00:30.180 Human?

08:00:32.900 No, but what, I know we're human, yes, but what species are we?

08:00:37.540 like uh trying to find the english word for it but what's the french word

08:00:45.340 or part of the yeah i don't know skip me homo sapien yeah that's what i was looking for

08:00:54.880 homo sapien yeah homo sapien uh it was the language barrier that caused problems um

08:01:03.200 Name three countries besides the USA.

08:01:06.340 Three countries?

08:01:07.780 Canada, France, Italy.

08:01:13.160 Norway, Sweden, and Finland.

08:01:16.260 How many continents are there?

08:01:18.440 Seven.

08:01:20.280 Name one continent.

08:01:24.000 North America.

08:01:26.400 Europe. 0.54

08:01:27.680 Africa.

08:01:29.140 Asia.

08:01:30.460 South America.

08:01:32.160 Students at the table?

08:01:33.200 can you scoot into the table i don't know you don't know okay uh what two countries

08:01:44.800 border the usa question for you here next to me what to what countries border the usa

08:01:52.680 yeah canada a little closer to the mic please canada mexico correct how many states in the usa

08:02:00.740 uh is it like 49 or 51 something like that 50 what is the capital of the usa

08:02:10.360 um washington dc name three u.s states montana idaho iowa name for you next to me name two

08:02:21.240 european countries or two countries in europe two countries in europe um tiffany if you can go

08:02:28.740 center when i asked the question and then swapped when they respond germany and sweden right

08:02:39.900 you are correct how many planets in our solar system to you 12 12 okay

08:02:48.740 um eight nine if you count pluto but now it's a it's called like a dwarf planet

08:02:56.140 question for you next to me what planet do we live on earth

08:03:02.540 earth anybody disagree no okay question the government building the pentagon is what shape

08:03:12.500 a pentagon final answer yeah you're correct congratulations

08:03:18.860 what what country is directly north of mexico

08:03:24.940 directly north of mexico yeah you'll no say you'll no say what's that i don't know you don't

08:03:34.800 know what oh okay uh directly yeah what country is north of mexico north the united states yeah

08:03:43.000 wait on the map yeah so not when i say when i say on the map i if i ask you what direction is

08:03:50.840 something if we if you're just thinking here it's like okay well where's north that's unfair

08:03:55.260 but on the map where is with your finger point to where north is where's south i have a trick

08:04:02.860 never eat sour watermelon oh that's good that's good why actually though why should you not eat

08:04:09.560 sour watermelon it's just a trick okay uh what you purposely ask these questions nine eight nine

08:04:19.020 hours in do you right that is not true it's just boring it's boring for the viewers to hear the

08:04:26.980 early on well so you're purposely doing it yeah but not for the reason you think okay i mean hold

08:04:34.120 on i could be drunk not that i drink i could be drunk out of my mind stoned off of weed stoned 0.96

08:04:40.800 out off of meth on heroin speedballing about to go get fucking my third bbl i could be on my third 0.99

08:04:49.580 bbl surgery they're literally putting the anesthesia into my fucking arm i'm in the twilight 0.98

08:04:55.940 i'm dazing and somebody asked me these questions i can answer all of them bro that's a lot of 0.98

08:05:00.740 confidence i'm very confident in my ability to answer these very simple questions okay

08:05:04.960 what continent is brazil in south america what continent is egypt in next to me

08:05:13.780 i don't know egypt africa wait come on thank you guys okay what continent here if you get

08:05:25.880 one wrong you get a speed round i guess you get a redemption round what continent is japan in for

08:05:31.280 you? Asia. There you go. Got it right. How many dimes make a dollar? A 10. What is the capital

08:05:44.040 of France for you next to me? Capital of France is Paris. You are correct. Capital of Japan.

08:05:57.700 the capital of japan i don't know

08:06:01.060 tokyo tokyo tokyo yeah see eight hours ago uh what country what country is immediately south

08:06:11.580 of the united states uh mexico i think you got that right thank you if today is monday what day

08:06:19.380 it in three days. Thursday. Thursday. Monday. Yeah. Yeah. Thursday. Okay. What is the name

08:06:35.360 of the famous car company founded by Henry Ford? Ford. Well done. Congratulations. Let's

08:06:41.800 see. What is 5 times 5? 25. 12 divided by 3. 4. 100 divided by 4. 25. 15 plus 35. 50. 90 minus 45.

08:07:00.040 90 minus 45 is 45 correct uh i'm skipping a bunch of these how many stars are on the u.s flag

08:07:14.480 yeah 50 yep what century are we in 21st century what galaxy do we live in the milky way

08:07:24.760 uh what country did the united states gain its independence from to my black queen my black 0.94

08:07:36.380 queen is crazy britain britain okay um who was the first president of the usa i'll give that to 0.95

08:07:44.500 the canadian yeah i actually i'm not the first president of the usa i got your girl uh for you

08:07:50.400 first president george washington george washington well done what country is the great

08:07:55.800 wall of china in china china of course of course i have china show us your maiden show us your

08:08:05.680 tattoo again yeah let's do it face this camera here so like your face you're gonna face tatum 0.82

08:08:11.560 for this one no here put your hair yeah there you go all right made in china made in china love it

08:08:19.640 beautiful we're made in france um okay let's see uh how many days of the week end with the letter y

08:08:30.620 all of them well done what language do the people in idaho speak english well done

08:08:37.960 uh if a dozen eggs costs three dollars how much is each egg

08:08:44.920 repeat the question if a dozen so 12 a dozen eggs cost three dollars how much is each egg

08:08:53.080 yeah that's correct what is the closest start to earth

08:09:02.300 the sun are you sure i think so final answer yes i'm not too what what country is the panama canal 0.96

08:09:13.160 in for you no fucking idea panama oh there you go i didn't graduate high school what language do 0.95

08:09:24.080 people in Mexico speak Spanish if you pass the person in second place what 0.99

08:09:31.800 place are you in if I pass the person in second place what place are you now in

08:09:36.140 first place okay what do you think first okay that's the person in second

08:09:44.120 place yeah what place are you now first okay first first okay second second

08:09:49.280 okay second second okay it is second place can you repeat the sentence well you didn't pass the

08:09:55.640 person in first place there's two you passed this person so you're okay roll your eyes like it

08:10:02.740 doesn't make sense all right uh what country we need i should ask this to the french girl

08:10:08.000 what country is the eiffel tower in paris i mean france sorry it paris the country is my favorite

08:10:14.580 country. It's a great country, Paris. What currency is you... What country did the Vietnam

08:10:23.080 War happen in? Vietnam or the United States? I don't know. Or the United States? Okay.

08:10:32.440 What is 34 plus 66?

08:10:36.280 34 plus 66.

08:10:39.580 Is that 100?

08:10:43.600 I'm tired.

08:10:45.800 100 minus 66.

08:10:48.340 100 minus 66 is 34.

08:10:52.420 Who is the current U.S. president?

08:10:54.920 Trump.

08:10:55.880 Who was the U.S. president before Trump?

08:10:58.460 Joe Biden.

08:10:58.900 what is 100 minus 34 for you 100 minus 100 minus 34 is um 60s 66 well done 77 plus 33

08:11:16.040 100 100 uh the same question yeah uh

08:11:22.900 23 yes

08:11:32.340 I don't know I'm tired

08:11:34.120 23 okay

08:11:35.580 77 plus 33

08:11:37.840 is what

08:11:38.780 here you

08:11:40.440 110

08:11:41.980 okay if you were born 10 years ago

08:11:46.100 how old would you be today

08:11:46.980 I was born 10 years ago

08:11:49.720 yeah so you're 29

08:11:51.700 I'd be 10 years old.

08:11:53.980 I was born 10 years ago.

08:11:55.320 Yeah, that's right.

08:11:59.120 Nice try, though.

08:12:00.080 Yeah, we tried to get you.

08:12:00.960 Nice try, though.

08:12:02.860 66 plus 44 to Taylor.

08:12:09.100 110.

08:12:11.820 Yeah.

08:12:12.360 How many world wars were there?

08:12:16.140 Two.

08:12:16.720 Look in my direction.

08:12:17.620 Oh, sorry.

08:12:17.640 Two, potentially three.

08:12:19.760 Potentially three.

08:12:20.520 Okay.

08:12:20.860 How many world wars were there?

08:12:23.240 Two?

08:12:24.000 Two.

08:12:24.980 Going around?

08:12:26.240 World War, like World War I and World War II?

08:12:29.360 Yeah, how many? 0.72

08:12:29.700 Those are the only ones that count?

08:12:30.820 Or are we counting like weird wars?

08:12:32.240 No, just World Wars.

08:12:33.360 Okay, but then two.

08:12:35.800 Okay.

08:12:36.320 Two, but in the media and stuff, they're talking about a potential...

08:12:39.640 Eleven.

08:12:40.400 World War XI.

08:12:41.340 No.

08:12:42.660 Ilhan Omar said it.

08:12:43.820 No, I'm just hearing that things are happening right now.

08:12:47.580 Okay, never mind.

08:12:48.240 Okay.

08:12:48.420 leading to what decade so when i am asking what decade 1820s 1970s decade what decade was world

08:12:57.620 war one 20th century that's a century decade so i'm looking for decade

08:13:07.000 19

08:13:10.400 10

08:13:13.800 I don't know this

08:13:18.320 It's probably like

08:13:19.260 Guess, just guess

08:13:20.220 20s

08:13:21.040 1920s

08:13:22.800 Okay, what about you?

08:13:24.100 Like 1810s or something

08:13:25.700 1810s, okay

08:13:26.500 World War I, 1910s

08:13:28.220 Okay, next 0.67

08:13:28.600 1940

08:13:29.620 1940, okay, what about you?

08:13:32.980 I'm not sure

08:13:33.860 Guess, throw out a wild guess

08:13:35.920 19 uh 1910 there you go okay uh let's see here can you name three kardashians of course i can

08:13:46.000 by the way we will accept jenners so you can do kardashians or jenners so first we have

08:13:53.200 courtney kardashian followed by kim kardashian followed by chloe kardashian then there's rob

08:13:59.460 Kardashian and afterwards there was Kendall Jenner and then Kylie Jenner if you want I can

08:14:05.920 also name all their kids yes wait wait wait quiet quiet quiet do it like 90 okay so first

08:14:13.780 Kourtney had um yep I gotta go uh so wait we gotta do your notes just wait Kourtney had

08:14:21.780 Mason

08:14:23.960 Dizik, then Penelope

08:14:26.260 Dizik, and then

08:14:28.340 Rain Dizik

08:14:30.400 and then recently she had

08:14:32.400 Rocky 13

08:14:34.700 Kim Kardashian

08:14:36.260 has four kids, she had

08:14:38.100 Northwest

08:14:39.360 then St. West

08:14:42.700 Chicago West

08:14:44.280 Chicago West

08:14:46.420 is the last one and

08:14:47.720 Psalm West

08:14:49.700 and after that uh chloe has two kids she has truth thompson and um tatum thompson

08:15:01.040 then robert kardash who the hell you asked i'm answering but you could uh just to skip ahead

08:15:10.200 you could list all of them yeah and then just list the jenners really quick though uh well

08:15:15.660 it's kendall and kylie but they have stepbrothers don't worry about those yeah we don't we don't

08:15:21.140 worry about those uh okay so we're let's see here uh you're dating a guy do you have a celebrity

08:15:32.020 crush yeah uh robert rosh he won the traitors usa though i'm sorry the what robert rosh he was on

08:15:41.820 love island is that guy your celebrity crush is a reality tv star not like an athlete not a hockey

08:15:48.880 player not wayne gretzky no um i try to avoid the hockey players tbd to be honest tbd yeah yeah

08:15:56.220 your dad told you stay away no i just saw i just saw how he rolls and how some of my siblings

08:16:02.940 do well i'm like nah okay um so you do have a celebrity crush though

08:16:09.100 if you could hook up with him would you like not with my current relationships yeah yeah like a

08:16:18.140 hall pass would you do it uh not in my current relationship status but if i were single for

08:16:23.020 sure if you were single for sure okay all right um cool anybody here would you okay say you're

08:16:34.180 married but it's like your celebrity crush and say your partner's okay with it i feel like that

08:16:41.920 kind of changes things would you do the hall pass no no okay all right skipping that one then uh

08:16:50.520 What percentage of men do you think are over six feet? 0.91

08:16:53.360 I mean, you only want to do... 0.90

08:16:54.720 Depends on the country.

08:16:56.180 USA.

08:16:56.800 USA.

08:17:00.360 20%.

08:17:00.760 Okay, next.

08:17:02.260 Probably smaller than that.

08:17:04.340 I don't know.

08:17:05.120 Maybe 10.

08:17:05.360 Just throw out a number.

08:17:06.320 10.

08:17:07.120 Next.

08:17:07.820 You said strictly in the U.S.?

08:17:09.140 Yep. 0.61

08:17:10.980 50.

08:17:11.640 Next.

08:17:12.780 6.

08:17:14.100 12.

08:17:15.060 Closer to Mike's, guys.

08:17:16.340 12.

08:17:17.940 25.

08:17:18.920 And you said 50%?

08:17:20.520 It's actually 15% of men are six feet or over.

08:17:24.360 What percentage of men make at least $1 million a year?

08:17:28.280 In the U.S., I think it's like one out of 10.

08:17:33.800 There are like one out of 20.

08:17:35.340 10%, 5%?

08:17:36.960 Let's say 10.

08:17:38.040 Okay, 10%.

08:17:39.300 I would say 3%.

08:17:40.500 3%.

08:17:40.980 5%.

08:17:41.660 5%.

08:17:42.500 0.1%.

08:17:43.800 0.1.

08:17:44.780 1.

08:17:45.300 1.

08:17:45.720 1.

08:17:46.500 1%.

08:17:46.980 Well, I'll say like net worth, maybe not salary.

08:17:50.520 yeah uh what percentage of men do you find attractive now this is when you're single of

08:17:57.200 course oh like of the men in your age range to be clear obviously i'm not expecting you to be

08:18:03.100 attracted to 60 year old men 10 unless you are which is 10 right off the bat without talking to

08:18:08.960 them talking to them seeing in the street 10 yeah tatum i would say a lot higher uh just 1.00

08:18:15.200 50 percent 40 30 80 60 higher 100 you want to fuck them all it's like pokemon she wants to 1.00

08:18:24.680 fuck them all all right what about you 10 10 10 5 5 50 50 50 i would say it's pretty 50 50 1.00

08:18:32.820 all right what about you 30 30 30 what percentage of men do you think have yachts have what yachts 1.00

08:18:39.040 like the boat oh the boot one percent one percent yeah um point one person i'll say three

08:18:47.700 point oh one percent point one percent point two percent do any of you keep a list of all the men

08:18:55.220 you've been with on your phone no yes like sexually it's got a mental list like on your

08:19:03.240 phone you know like in the notes no you you no yes you yes yes yes you guys down to read it no

08:19:12.720 you're down to read it the list um no do you keep is it just like name date or like it's kind of 0.93

08:19:20.360 detailed like a dick rating or some shit no well no no not even not but like other things yeah 0.99

08:19:26.320 uh real quick sure how the fuck am i supposed to remember that shit from 20 years ago 0.99

08:19:31.360 that's why you write it down well i mean so i'm 37 i lost my virginity at 17 0.99

08:19:37.960 weren't you a virgin huh right weren't you he was 10 minutes ago yeah

08:19:43.420 uh so i remember people i've had sex with 20 years ago like i mean 0.99

08:19:51.140 say like all of them oh all of them you don't how many people were you fucking 10 10 20 years ago 0.97

08:20:00.680 whatever that's where i did my majority of my fucking actually well i mean that's typical when 0.89

08:20:07.340 you're younger people yeah it probably depends how much like home how many people okay how about 0.96

08:20:12.160 this um under 20 and i'm gonna answer this too have you ever slept with someone the same day 1.00

08:20:17.200 you met them i have i don't know close to it but not right you're a fucking liar look think like 1.00

08:20:28.400 some some like like mountie with like the rcmp or whatever you know he like went to canada and 1.00

08:20:37.780 like you know he uh i'm telling you maybe like 48 to 72 but not like like 72 you know 72 yeah but

08:20:46.560 like i mean he's like you know part of the he's got like that red uniform and stuff and you thought

08:20:51.300 that was like really attractive not my cup of tea but not your cup of tea no okay i'm like the guy 0.60

08:20:56.600 from frozen the fuck no but it's like you never been to like a hot nightclub in like toronto and 0.94

08:21:02.400 like maybe i brought them over but i didn't go the oh but what about like a little blowy and 0.97

08:21:07.340 like the back of the tim hortons or whatever you know okay you don't like to go to tim hortons but

08:21:14.180 like what i what about like i don't know like you get some poutine and then he gets i don't like

08:21:19.340 poutine either i'm pretty picky when it comes to food and men but like okay you've never like met

08:21:24.300 a nice guy at like a nice like manitoba like nightclub manitoba oh okay like maybe vancouver

08:21:31.220 like you're in vancouver and you found like a nice guy and you had sex with him not in vancouver

08:21:37.620 huh not in vancouver so you're telling me like a girl like you you've never been to like a night

08:21:43.860 club and you've never like had the sex with as a man like quickly i brought the man over but 0.83

08:21:50.620 uh not necessarily the whole shabang right you notice how when i start to do it she's doing it

08:21:56.260 but like why don't you do it like you know um because uh i want uh the man to run out to like 0.99

08:22:07.200 you know have to work for it a little bit so you like wait until like the second date you know

08:22:12.760 uh i say maybe third you betcha yeah kind of like a rule i try to 0.99

08:22:18.520 well i mean you're prostitutes so yes what about in your civilian life though you fucked very way 0.99

08:22:26.820 same day in my 20s when i was racking up all the numbers racking up the numbers okay what about you 0.99

08:22:32.420 same day yes not proud of it but not proud of it what about you no never no okay you just haven't

08:22:40.200 met a guy who can knock your wig off yet my wig no oh you got a wig on no that's what i'm saying

08:22:47.340 And her, like, she just hasn't met the kind of guy that just blew her wig off.

08:22:51.120 I mean, I've only been wearing a wig for a year.

08:22:53.000 That was pretty good.

08:22:53.520 Nobody gives me that.

08:22:54.480 Yeah, all right.

08:22:55.540 Nobody gives me that.

08:22:56.740 It's a tough crowd.

08:22:57.660 Tough crowd.

08:22:58.140 All right.

08:22:58.920 Same day?

08:22:59.920 Well, yeah.

08:23:00.940 I already exposed myself earlier, so.

08:23:02.480 Oh, yeah. 0.99

08:23:02.760 You fucked a guy here in Santa Barbara. 0.99

08:23:04.720 Yeah, same day. 0.99

08:23:05.840 Same day?

08:23:06.380 Same day.

08:23:06.680 All right.

08:23:06.980 Okay.

08:23:07.280 We've all done it.

08:23:08.120 I've done it. 1.00

08:23:08.960 That French girl who's sitting on the couch probably. 1.00

08:23:11.740 Right? 1.00

08:23:12.740 How are you just here?

08:23:14.200 Oh, don't worry about it.

08:23:15.140 I guess we'll never know.

08:23:16.300 We, uh, eh bien, on va jamais connaître.

08:23:21.340 On va jamais connaître quelle chose elle a fait.

08:23:29.000 On va vraiment connaître pas.

08:23:33.080 Je connais pas.

08:23:34.500 Je connais pas.

08:23:35.200 You're serious and busy.

08:23:36.740 Okay.

08:23:37.240 Who's, show of hands, who's had a threesome?

08:23:40.300 Threesome?

08:23:41.540 Oh, wait, didn't we talk about this already?

08:23:43.020 Yeah, we had to do it.

08:23:44.080 In the very beginning. 1.00

08:23:44.980 Show of hands, who's had a ho phase? 0.91

08:23:47.660 Who's had a what? 0.71

08:23:48.640 Ho phase.

08:23:49.800 Ho for show.

08:23:51.120 Like, it's my ho phase.

08:23:53.900 Oh, you know, like, if you're just in, like, you know, you're just, like, sleeping with all the guys in, like, Quebec, you know.

08:24:00.520 What I will say is, like, I keep myself to a pretty high standard.

08:24:05.600 But when I haven't done anything for a while, sometimes I go on discount, you know, just for a very short period.

08:24:12.740 wait what do you mean by discount you know um well like usually i aim for like this kind of

08:24:19.300 guy and then like i don't know i just go on discount for like a short amount of time and

08:24:23.800 then you know lower the standard rate yeah okay yeah i like that yeah you have to be lucky to

08:24:31.100 fall on a discount but if you do good for you that's why it's called getting lucky for men

08:24:37.480 she's like black friday deals right place right time you gotta be in the you know in the the best 1.00

08:24:43.320 uh montreal nightclubs and just stumble upon her and she's just horny or some shit but for the most 1.00

08:24:48.440 part y'all can't afford me wait so you're saying you you've had wait question i guess question for 0.95

08:24:56.680 all the women like those of you who have like hooked up like quicker whether it's like the

08:25:01.960 first date second date third date but then you meet a guy you really like do you make him wait

08:25:05.920 i'd say the more like the more i like him the more i'll make him wait because i potentially

08:25:13.260 want something more serious out of it see that seems backwards like i feel like if the guy 0.98

08:25:20.500 is the one that you think is relationship worthy you should let him fuck right away 1.00

08:25:25.860 and then the scumbag dudes that don't deserve pussy well you just shouldn't give him pussy 1.00

08:25:31.000 to be honest i guess but like the guy who you're like oh this is the guy who's like a good man 1.00

08:25:37.800 and i could see him being the father of my children and i could marry him and be in a

08:25:42.220 relationship with him that's the guy who's got to wait three months six months a year marriage no

08:25:46.380 that's too much the length of time aside that's the guy that the like think about it from this 0.58

08:25:52.460 perspective imagine this imagine if i said you know these hood rats these rapscallions these

08:26:00.900 strumpets. I'm going to take them on trips. I'm going to take them on vacation. I'm going to buy 0.98

08:26:06.400 them gifts. I'm going to pay for dates. I'm going to buy dinner. I'm going to, you know, give her

08:26:10.720 all this attention. And I tell you, the girl who I think could be the one who could be my girlfriend 0.63

08:26:17.420 who I'm serious about, well, they were just for fun. They were just, they were just sex for you. 0.98

08:26:25.220 I think we should wait for all that stuff. Maybe when we're more serious, maybe when we're married,

08:26:30.440 then i'll give you the gifts then i'll take you on vacation then i'll pay for dates then i'll do xyz

08:26:37.000 you would be like that's backwards my take on it is that maybe for him unconscious unconsciously

08:26:45.900 to do it more like quicker will turn him off or make him less interested so i don't want to take

08:26:52.960 that risk if i am interested so i'll like make him wait more and show him that i'm serious but

08:27:00.140 if i right off the bat i'm like yeah you won't be my man for xyz reason then 0.99

08:27:07.700 the thing is is i think look if the guy really likes you you fuck quick you fuck yeah but it's 0.99

08:27:18.340 always different for like for some people it won't be a problem or it won't change anything 0.98

08:27:24.800 for others it will so i'd rather just not take the risk if i uh yeah but i guess the framing here

08:27:31.760 i think it's fair to think okay well maybe the guy might judge me for it or whatever but 0.82

08:27:36.500 again bird's eye view looking down at the dating landscape i think it's kind of bullshit that 1.00

08:27:43.300 a girl who has no issue fucking quickly she's gonna tell me oh he was just a fuck boy he was 1.00

08:27:49.880 just for fun he was just he was nothing to me it it was just fun it was stupid it didn't matter 1.00

08:27:56.240 so you're telling me i'm the guy that's important 0.99

08:27:59.960 and i gotta wait for sex that seems like stupid like that's backwards no but how i am i just like 0.98

08:28:09.200 don't want to put in myself in a position where i can be mistreated or used or whatnot so i just 0.93

08:28:16.800 tend to make them wait a little bit because good things take time what's your body count again 20

08:28:25.320 to 30 yeah were they all boyfriends not all of them because you said sometimes you have your

08:28:31.480 moments your discount days coupons at the happy hour okay

08:28:37.240 would you prefer to live in a world without men no no nobody we need men

08:28:46.380 yeah no okay um let's see here oh does any anybody here more liberal 1.00

08:28:53.340 okay oh well fuck okay i'm gonna ask it because it'll still be funny um do you believe in 0.99

08:29:01.200 reparations for black americans so i believe i believe reparations were good for people who 0.98

08:29:11.460 I mean in 20 let me put it this way in 2026 probably not but historically they did serve

08:29:18.500 a more direct cause and effect sort of thing okay um but like just giving say we just like give 0.80

08:29:27.960 black people just like ten thousand dollars as reparations if it's 1890 I think that's good

08:29:36.120 because it makes sense given the historical context but in 2026 it doesn't make sense 0.97

08:29:40.740 okay you should have said well i guess something i like to do on the show if there's like white

08:29:46.320 liberal women and there's like a black girl i try to get them to give her reparations 1.00

08:29:50.640 but you're black yeah but well you're african 0.98

08:29:57.200 this is hard for you a little bit i mean like you 0.99

08:30:03.460 you look i don't know how the fuck you know what i mean you know what i mean like i know 0.84

08:30:10.320 what you mean because i've lived with myself my whole life i know what i look like i don't know 0.99

08:30:14.420 what to tell you wait um okay wait oh oh okay hold on oh oh can you say the n-word i mean

08:30:27.660 i wouldn't but hold on you're so but is that a good reason to disrespect people based on their

08:30:36.540 race wait disrespect people oh it's a disrespectful word that's why we call it the n-word no but 0.63

08:30:45.460 black people are allowed to say it but it's a but i in my heart i know it's a disrespectful

08:30:50.680 world and i wouldn't say that but i feel i guess the question that i'm what i'm trying to get out

08:30:59.840 here is so you're you are i mean i would frame it as biracial but you said i'm not biracial

08:31:06.960 but you're not like black okay but i it's a i'm genotypically black phenotypically

08:31:15.880 like you can see me no but okay how about this your skin color is white that's correct

08:31:21.520 but you are part black i am african-american you're african-american but like i feel like

08:31:32.540 if a black person from the streets heard you dropping the n-word they would be upset but i

08:31:41.240 wouldn't do that right right nathan you know the streets you know i'm talking about yeah 0.98

08:31:46.280 He knows what I'm talking about

08:31:47.580 Yeah I lived on him

08:31:48.540 You lived on the streets?

08:31:50.780 Yeah on the streets yeah 1.00

08:31:52.180 Oh shit I would have never guessed 1.00

08:31:54.880 Smart ass 1.00

08:31:58.800 What do you mean 0.99

08:32:00.600 I'm just having a little fun

08:32:01.680 Alright okay

08:32:03.240 Do you think Trump is a fascist? 0.69

08:32:09.020 Fascist is a very specific word

08:32:11.080 That I think people stretch 1.00

08:32:13.160 True

08:32:14.300 true uh okay let me finish the notes and then we're out of here we have mckenzie 0.99

08:32:22.220 who dat wait mckenzie who the fuck is mckenzie who the fuck is mckenzie i don't know we don't 0.99

08:32:30.380 have a mckenzie oh she was she flaked okay uh my lana she's over there we have brooke it took me 1.00

08:32:37.540 years to love myself years and respect myself and nowadays women don't respect themselves at all 0.51

08:32:42.160 Ain't no respect. 1.00

08:32:43.240 We ain't getting no respect. 0.99

08:32:45.000 Who's Brooke? 0.89

08:32:45.740 Is that you?

08:32:46.420 Brooke?

08:32:46.880 We're both.

08:32:47.460 No, this is your note, I think.

08:32:48.920 Oh.

08:32:50.520 Oh.

08:32:52.820 I've worked hard on myself in my life.

08:32:57.980 Okay, sure.

08:32:59.800 Very hard on myself. 0.97

08:33:01.360 So where I didn't really care for respect before, didn't give a shit about myself, I do now. 0.93

08:33:09.320 And I've worked really hard on that. 0.88

08:33:10.920 Okay.

08:33:11.080 Who here has done hard street drugs?

08:33:14.980 What's a hard, what do you define as that?

08:33:17.880 Smack, heroin, black tar heroin, crack, cocaine.

08:33:22.120 Okay, no.

08:33:22.620 I had an Adderall addiction, but I am sober now.

08:33:25.860 Crystal meth.

08:33:27.220 Okay, cool.

08:33:28.980 Let's see here.

08:33:30.400 Hold on.

08:33:31.540 Okay, so I have Cheyenne's notes.

08:33:34.000 I've got your notes.

08:33:36.320 Boom, boom, boom.

08:33:37.780 Wait, we got Brooke, part one.

08:33:41.080 we did some of your stuff.

08:33:43.780 We did the Debbie Potter thing,

08:33:45.280 old fashioned.

08:33:46.180 I think we did old fashioned.

08:33:48.180 Yep.

08:33:48.460 We did your notes.

08:33:49.340 So I just need to do,

08:33:51.220 uh,

08:33:52.940 okay.

08:33:53.140 We did Tay.

08:33:53.820 I need to do Tatum.

08:33:54.980 I need to do Cheyenne.

08:33:56.940 And then I need to do her friends,

08:33:58.600 excuse me, 1.00

08:33:59.280 China.

08:34:00.020 And then we're done. 0.99

08:34:01.500 I think I can blast through it within 10,

08:34:03.360 15 minutes.

08:34:04.520 So,

08:34:05.380 um,

08:34:05.900 yeah,

08:34:06.420 I think we just have to do the notes and then we're done.

08:34:09.920 All right.

08:34:10.740 Tatum.

08:34:11.080 mcdougalson can you're french i have her notes excusez-moi no uh excuse me

08:34:20.920 uh why why are you speaking on her behalf um i spoke to her and she's out i'm talking to her

08:34:30.040 right now why do you say what's it what gets what what's there to get she said she was out

08:34:37.280 and she's out into the mic she said she's but remember earlier when we were talking about the

08:34:42.800 crying thing and then like did you see how she came to the defense no it's not about crying

08:34:50.320 she's just over it yeah we're just reading social cues oh sorry am i too autistic to read the social 0.77

08:34:56.260 cue since i'm too autistic here explain since i need to explain to me because i'm retarded 0.76

08:35:01.400 explain the lacking of social cue that i am experiencing it's not that it's just like um

08:35:08.640 this is like this is more my thing she came as a service to yeah you and the podcast to help out

08:35:16.340 and like her like her what she wanted to do here is she did it yeah she wanted to over like

08:35:27.140 overcome certain things and she's done it and yeah i don't think we should press more like respect

08:35:34.020 her boundaries and everyone's boundaries it's not a but what is the what is the social cue

08:35:39.560 that i'm missing she said no and she's not really responding enthusiastically she's not coming back

08:35:45.320 by herself she's indicating to you non-verbally and she also indicated to you verbally that she 0.98

08:35:51.100 didn't want to be here so that's this whoa hold on just you're smuggling in a bunch of shit that 0.97

08:35:55.660 wasn't said she said that she was going to take a break and that she would come back no you said 0.99

08:36:00.520 that you said possibly she did whoa that's fucking ridiculous complete mr mischaracterization here 0.96

08:36:08.100 she did come back and then she after you asked her nicely and she agreed and then she left again 0.89

08:36:15.000 after what you asked her uh okay but like me asking her to return when she's a guest on the

08:36:21.860 podcast okay but it wasn't like i was pestering her i she's been back there for 20 minutes i 0.85

08:36:28.160 fucking ignored her and i was like hey let's have her back to do her notes that she sent in that's 0.85

08:36:33.340 not like ignoring the no i literally just like as soon as i was like should we have a return you 0.99

08:36:38.680 guys were like no oh let me defend her blah blah no you interpreted how you wanted it her you yeah

08:36:46.800 she repeated what i said and i just spoke to her and she said no okay but why do you guys have to

08:36:51.540 be so defensive about it as you keep pressing on i literally keep pressing is that really the

08:36:59.040 characterization this is how men get falsely accused no but you're like you keep talking

08:37:03.380 about it and i'm different well now i'm talking about it because i've been i've now been accused

08:37:08.600 of missing social cues and you guys are like no that i just she no she stepped away i invite i

08:37:14.920 was like do you want to come back like in the first moment she stepped away yeah and then she

08:37:19.280 was like no i need to take a break and i was like cool and then that was it and then i was like hey

08:37:24.820 do you want to come back for this segment like we're going around the table asking this she said

08:37:28.600 yeah she came back then she stepped away again and then just now i was like hey we should have

08:37:33.340 her back to do the notes so that if you want to characterize that as like some degree of pestering

08:37:38.780 i personally don't think it's unfair when you're coming on the dating discussion podcast i don't

08:37:44.400 think it's unreasonable to like check in with the person who maybe is just taking a break

08:37:48.760 who's maybe just taking a breather but i just spoke to her and i'm telling well i was was i

08:37:54.080 part of that conversation i'm telling you right now am i aware i'm telling you right now i know

08:37:58.780 and i accept that okay but you guys want to do some like pathologizing where

08:38:03.020 whoa brian you're no means no brian no means no i'm just saying i'm not freaking out you think

08:38:09.540 this is freaking out trust me a little bit no i'm not on my period it's just like it's frustrating

08:38:14.660 when people like want to try to frame you as doing something in a certain way look again this

08:38:20.640 is actually playing in exactly into what i was talking to before when it came to the crying

08:38:24.400 she is upset she's not upset she's upset no yeah she is she's upset she's upset and you guys want 1.00

08:38:33.280 to jump to the defense because i'm i'm not like dragging her like bitch get the fuck back on the 0.99

08:38:39.480 fucking podcast i'm sitting here asking her with my words not forcing her to do anything 0.99

08:38:45.820 hey do you want to return i don't need you guys to start barking at me like i've done i've committed 0.99

08:38:51.780 some crime by asking the woman to return to the podcast to discuss things on the dating discussion

08:38:58.120 podcast i just left 30 seconds ago spoke to her was i party to that conversation i'm telling you

08:39:04.160 right now how would it be material how would it be relevant well i feel like if i communicated with

08:39:10.620 her and she just said i'm not coming back and i'm telling you yeah i just spoke to her and she's not

08:39:16.300 coming back that's pretty like relevant to your question of like did i did not push beyond like

08:39:23.660 i'm not a mind reader i wasn't listening to that conversation if i don't have that information

08:39:28.920 available to me i'm giving you the information yes and i've accepted that now we're having

08:39:32.760 meta conversation now i'm not i'm not arguing here with you for her to come back i'm arguing

08:39:39.080 with you guys about the characterization of how you're trying to frame i do this that's that's

08:39:46.220 on you brian i believe you're the one who framed it they said no i said this is a social cue thing 0.64

08:39:51.240 and then you right as if i'm lacking in some so like i'm socially retarded and i don't have the 0.60

08:39:56.480 capacity no no you're putting words into my mouth look brian can i just ask really quickly you've 0.57

08:40:02.620 been giving like charitable readings of everything could you give that to me when i said the social

08:40:07.220 cue thing i think if you're going to invoke the social cue it's suggesting that there's a lack of

08:40:16.340 being able to read the social cues which i kind of disagree with missed because because you have

08:40:22.940 a lot of things to deal with you have your chat and everything you have a lot of things to deal

08:40:26.660 with you might not have noticed everything that we have noticed so that's a charitable reading

08:40:31.700 of it that you have a lot going on she's clearly upset you think i've missed that she's clearly

08:40:36.020 upset no i'm trying to give an explanation for how this woman could say no and they could say

08:40:42.200 no for her and my charitable reading is maybe he didn't see something that's what is the thing

08:40:48.100 that i did not see i don't know that was the thing that's what i but see he doesn't know how 0.99

08:40:54.300 to read social cues maybe he's he's clearly missing something say we women are these like 0.81

08:40:59.720 social geniuses and we can see the fucking matrix of social cues but i can't even articulate what 0.78

08:41:06.140 the social cue is that he missed i i just explained it for you but to put it in brief 0.92

08:41:11.280 i propose the idea that a social cue was missed was did i say it was missed because of misreading

08:41:17.080 What is the social cue that was missed?

08:41:20.100 Well, it was because, well, the social cue is that she said no.

08:41:25.300 She said no.

08:41:26.140 She explained why she was gone.

08:41:28.820 Her friend explained why she was gone.

08:41:31.580 Everyone's kind of like, hey, you asked her again.

08:41:34.340 Everyone's kind of like, okay, no.

08:41:37.240 Is that a no for you or is it a yes for you or is it a maybe for you?

08:41:42.160 Why is that not a no for you?

08:41:42.840 Now the framing is just getting even worse.

08:41:45.080 now it's like essentially they're trying to say brian you don't respect consent no uh no means no 0.83

08:41:49.500 yes that's completely ridiculous completely ridiculous first off you can't use something

08:41:55.380 disclosed to me after the fact as as sort of inculpatory to the initial thing so for example 0.97

08:42:02.040 you said she came back and told the state of affairs of her friend prior me asking her to

08:42:09.180 comeback occurred prior to her disclosing the details and context of the conversation she had

08:42:16.840 with her friend it wasn't like hey brian by the way i just talked to my friend and she doesn't 0.87

08:42:20.980 want to come back to do it okay i didn't give you time so i need to be a fucking mind reader to tell 0.88

08:42:26.280 you respectfully if you're not going to change the subjects i'm gonna go just i'm gonna go to 0.96

08:42:31.120 respectfully respectfully well i think uh respectfully apologize to you because this 0.99

08:42:35.860 hit you a little harder than i intended and i apologize well take your fucking wig off how about 0.99

08:42:39.920 that take the fucking wig off look ultimately though look i think it's unfair your characterization 0.99

08:42:46.680 i think it's unfair how you're characterizing characterization or was it just a note just a 0.98

08:42:52.620 note okay you know what i'm done i'm gonna leave are you gonna move on or i am gonna move on 0.98

08:43:01.200 thank god please do i think it's fair to defend myself when when the women are accusing me of 0.96

08:43:06.880 being like inconsiderate or whatever the fuck just like what the fuck also let's also consider 1.00

08:43:15.960 that this whole fucking thing could have just been avoided look she can do whatever the fuck 1.00

08:43:21.880 she wants but like just stay at the fucking table like it's not that deep but anyways i'm moving it 0.99

08:43:27.100 on yeah please do all right uh we have just your notes and your notes and then that's it 0.96

08:43:31.220 your french friend i had her notes that were quite interesting but she's gone

08:43:36.020 uh and perhaps that's even considerate of me that she came this way to be on the show 0.97

08:43:43.600 and i wanted to give her a moment to speak so please focus on me and my issues it's fucking 0.76

08:43:50.180 my podcast i yeah but i don't need to be i don't even i don't yeah of course you can do that but 0.85

08:43:56.240 Please don't tell me how to run my show.

08:43:57.840 Fair enough.

08:43:58.480 Okay? 1.00

08:43:58.820 I don't come to your work and tell you, like, I don't know, stop sucking. 1.00

08:44:02.560 Like, I don't go to your fucking job and be like, stop sucking dicks or whatever. 1.00

08:44:05.440 You know what? 1.00

08:44:06.440 You know, whatever the fuck. 0.99

08:44:07.980 I ain't going to your job. 0.99

08:44:08.960 So what's your question about me?

08:44:10.800 All right.

08:44:11.320 So you said that you, I think that's a rage quit there.

08:44:14.680 Good job.

08:44:17.760 Are you leaving?

08:44:20.100 I said I had her notes to do.

08:44:26.240 And I had, oh, okay.

08:44:28.200 Then I misread it. 0.98

08:44:29.020 Then my social cue reading is retarded. 1.00

08:44:31.120 I'm sorry. 1.00

08:44:31.620 Oh, Brian, stop.

08:44:33.160 No, I have difficulty reading social cues according to the women at the table.

08:44:37.360 So I'm sorry.

08:44:38.300 I thought she was leaving, but she's just getting water.

08:44:40.600 Okay. 1.00

08:44:40.840 I fucked up. 0.99

08:44:41.720 Hey, I'll take ownership. 1.00

08:44:42.760 I can take accountability. 1.00

08:44:44.120 I fucked up. 1.00

08:44:45.120 I don't know how to read social cues because of my autism. 0.99

08:44:47.880 You know, maybe it was just unfair.

08:44:49.580 She was, you know, she's just getting some water.

08:44:52.480 So do you actually have autism?

08:44:53.840 I've heard you say, I don't know.

08:44:55.120 several times you guys can diagnose me um so anyways okay china yeah you dated two brothers

08:45:02.000 yeah a couple years in between yeah they lived together in an apartment yeah the first one

08:45:07.900 you dated was pissed yeah so they were like step brothers not blood related but they did live like

08:45:16.620 live together during their childhood and whatnot uh dated one for a bit uh didn't work out but we

08:45:24.640 always like stayed friends and then at some point later on the line uh that friend I would come over

08:45:33.920 hang out and met his brother and then started okay you said that you tend to be attracted to

08:45:42.820 younger guys I do so usually three uh what's the like age or whatever uh I like the lowest would

08:45:50.480 be probably like early 20s and yeah you said in your notes and you're 29 yeah uh usually three to

08:45:58.640 eight yeah three to eight years younger approximately yeah so you have you dated a

08:46:03.020 like a 20 year old at 29 i guess yeah how's your guy uh he's 22 22 and you're 29 yeah

08:46:13.460 i like him yeah how tall is he six one almost six two 0.99

08:46:19.480 chicks a milf got a cougar over here a fucking cougar um wow all right you're on the prowl 0.99

08:46:30.500 thank you so are you not attracted to men your age or older uh not necessarily but um like 0.99

08:46:37.960 let's say balding and stuff like that less attractive and then the youngest guy what do

08:46:44.940 you think about nathan can nathan uh he's six foot is he stand up stand taller on your toes 0.99

08:46:54.880 maybe a couple years ago wait he's eight how old are you nathan 21 oh shit we got 19 oh shit call 0.99

08:47:04.240 the cops oh shit bro epstein's island over here fuck uh earlier i will say he's i asked his age 0.99

08:47:12.760 and he said 21 and now he's saying 19 wait nathan said he was 21 yeah you did no that was tiffany 0.99

08:47:17.500 tiffany's 30 no he said 21 he's 30 he said 21 i see asian women let me tell you she's 38 tiffany's

08:47:27.260 37 she looks 21 he's 37 yes tiffany's 37 you look no i know right doesn't she look great

08:47:34.560 flawless korean skin yes flawless flawless i know me too well yeah tiffany every podcast i'm gonna

08:47:44.700 add a year to your age and we'll see how far we can go oh she's 37 i'm serious bro have you seen 0.63

08:47:52.920 what the koreans are doing oh yeah their skincare is elite yeah by the way she is on their face

08:47:57.640 tiffany tiffany told me that the money she's earning from the podcast she's going to use it 0.54

08:48:02.080 for a nose job really go girl tiffany you don't need a nose job girl i don't know bro no i think

08:48:09.580 her nose is fine yeah you don't need it she doesn't need one but you know whatever you look

08:48:13.240 great whatever um okay so uh younger guys wow anybody else here let me ask the panel who likes

08:48:21.400 younger men like from a physical perspective yeah your little uh rendezvous to use a french 0.97

08:48:29.660 word 21 21 wait and you're 25 oh shit i need a took some milk i need a cougar that's like 0.98

08:48:36.960 average a cougar is generally like an older woman a cougar is generally an older woman 0.97

08:48:43.560 i mean she's 29 years old i don't mind but i china brian china he's just oh china oh china

08:48:57.500 oh brian you know i i wonder if there's like uh i don't know if um were you like growing up were

08:49:07.880 you kind of reserved you know like kind of uh kind of like your friends like a bit more reserved

08:49:15.080 no i think actually as i get older i'm less i'm more reserved now than i used to yeah i've never

08:49:22.940 been shy would you date an 18 year old but he's hot maybe he's such a stud maybe 18 year old wait

08:49:32.780 not 17 what's the age of consent in 18 well um i think it's 16 technically but like to be

08:49:40.320 considered an adult i i mean at least i can find someone attractive that's 18 but maybe

08:49:48.000 like the whole dating thing could be yeah okay we're probably not at the same place in life but

08:49:55.720 okay but it's fun uh so you would date an 18 year old though i don't know depends on the

08:50:02.720 person but i think probably ideally a little older but i will say like ideally someone's who's older

08:50:12.060 because he's mature and like whatever but looks younger that's like the but it rarely happens 0.98

08:50:18.840 a vampire yeah who here would fuck a vampire anybody would edward cullen yeah i would say 0.99

08:50:27.060 Yeah, were you talking about the Cullens? 1.00

08:50:28.440 Who would fuck an alien? 1.00

08:50:30.480 Oh, I don't know. 1.00

08:50:31.800 You'd fuck an alien? 1.00

08:50:32.660 No. 1.00

08:50:33.140 Alien fucker? 1.00

08:50:34.420 Depends on what they look like. 1.00

08:50:36.680 I'm sorry.

08:50:37.520 Okay.

08:50:38.420 E.T. is out of my worst nightmare.

08:50:39.880 E.T.?

08:50:40.860 He's out of my worst nightmare. 1.00

08:50:41.840 Oh, E.T., fuck no. 1.00

08:50:42.800 Especially when he's sick. 1.00

08:50:43.560 Avatar.

08:50:44.660 No. 1.00

08:50:45.600 I'd fuck an avatar. 1.00

08:50:46.740 The avatars are so gorgeous. 1.00

08:50:48.300 Oh, my God. 1.00

08:50:50.300 And she's so protective, the giant fucking avatar bitch. 1.00

08:50:53.820 The blue. 1.00

08:50:54.360 Just the fucking blue and shit. 1.00

08:50:55.780 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

08:50:56.120 she'd give you blue balls that's what i'm talking about i'd fucking avatar shit 1.00

08:51:00.620 come over even if she has small labia 1.00

08:51:03.980 i'd fucking have it who cares about the lady at that point 1.00

08:51:12.360 everything she's just everything about her crazy yeah give me give me that little fucking ponytail 1.00

08:51:19.460 shit i'll put my dick in the pony i think you have to know what the avatar sex procedure is 1.00

08:51:29.620 i'd fuck shit um okay what about like um what's like a hot alien 1.00

08:51:36.540 no one no one can we wikipedia aliens actually no that shit's kind of creepy 1.00

08:51:42.980 it's gonna be some weird ass shit like the the the what is it the gray the gray aliens you know 1.00

08:51:49.080 with the fucking big ass heads and shit i'll pass wait wait this is gonna sound crazy as fuck 1.00

08:51:55.380 okay so it looks like an alien like kind of scary aliens but the labia is huge 1.00

08:52:02.280 i might be tempted like do they even have pussies like what if the pussy's on the foot 1.00

08:52:07.180 right and your sexual desires yeah i'm just jokes it's just jokes but i'm saying what if like an 1.00

08:52:13.260 alien's pussy is in like a weird place then i mean you never know like oh wait nathan nathan 1.00

08:52:19.640 nathan what if the alien's pussy is like in the back of the head like your school like it's the 1.00

08:52:24.280 back of the head you're sort of fucking the head the back of the head tell me that feels like 1.00

08:52:28.400 feels like a violation decapitation it's giving head yeah that's crazy yo chat one in the uh chat 1.00

08:52:38.120 Would you fuck a pussy 1.00

08:52:39.060 Wait 1.00

08:52:39.440 What the 1.00

08:52:39.700 Would you fuck a pussy 1.00

08:52:40.460 Chat 1.00

08:52:41.860 Would you fuck an alien 1.00

08:52:42.840 Chat 1.00

08:52:43.400 Would you fuck a 1.00

08:52:44.060 A hot alien 1.00

08:52:45.580 Hot alien pussy 1.00

08:52:47.280 Are they fertile 1.00

08:52:47.960 Girl 0.75

08:52:49.400 Oh yeah

08:52:51.980 I feel like they'd be

08:52:52.220 Popping out like a hundred 0.77

08:52:53.160 You're gonna rule

08:52:54.120 The planet 1.00

08:52:54.780 If you have children

08:52:56.080 With an alien 0.99

08:52:56.660 That's gonna be some

08:52:57.840 Ruler of the 0.99

08:53:00.200 Earth

08:53:00.780 How did we get here

08:53:02.080 Chat 1.00

08:53:02.560 Would you fuck an alien 1.00

08:53:03.560 Not in the legal 1.00

08:53:04.500 Not like an illegal immigrant 1.00

08:53:06.180 I 1.00

08:53:06.740 i would fuck an illegal immigrant shame from mexico um but like an avatar chick nathan would you an 1.00

08:53:17.900 avatar no okay tatum would you they're gorgeous they're gorgeous all right all right there it is 1.00

08:53:26.300 folks uh aliens uh okay where were we uh you like younger men though how did you how do we go

08:53:31.280 Bro what

08:53:33.020 It's all your fault

08:53:33.900 It's all

08:53:35.460 This was all you

08:53:36.420 This was all you

08:53:37.740 Brooke's fault

08:53:38.080 Brooke's fault 1.00

08:53:39.500 Fucking 1.00

08:53:40.200 We're talking about 1.00

08:53:41.780 Her dating 0.99

08:53:42.380 Barely legal 1.00

08:53:44.560 She's got it 0.99

08:53:46.120 She wants to

08:53:46.720 She's hanging out 1.00

08:53:47.500 At fucking Degrassi 1.00

08:53:48.700 You're hanging out 1.00

08:53:49.680 At fucking Degrassi 1.00

08:53:50.760 With Drake 1.00

08:53:51.480 Drake is in a fucking 1.00

08:53:52.120 Wheelchair and shit 1.00

08:53:53.100 You're in Degrassi 1.00

08:53:54.300 And you're just

08:53:54.880 Macking on these

08:53:55.660 18

08:53:56.060 Barely legal

08:53:56.800 I'll go out

08:53:57.700 Somewhere

08:53:58.060 I'm like

08:53:58.400 Oh he's attractive

08:53:59.580 And it turns out

08:54:00.860 was like 22 like gg yep but i'd say like 18 very like probably wouldn't happen but could i don't 1.00

08:54:12.360 know she doesn't want kids she wants to have to date 18 year olds you want to fuck aliens with 1.00

08:54:21.460 big labia that's valid though that's that's valid you're on gigantic with the vaginas in the back 1.00

08:54:28.440 of their head well no i was just saying that'd be weird you know but i uh i don't know i think you 1.00

08:54:35.360 gotta talk to a therapist okay but i think so i we should go together couples therapy yeah 0.77

08:54:43.060 couples therapy oh my god oh my god but you're gonna pay for the well hit me up when you dump

08:54:48.720 your boy toy and i'll give you three sons i think i'll pass d1 d1 athletes mostly my jeans

08:54:55.940 obviously oh yeah mostly my jeans what sport would you hope hockey hockey or lacrosse no football

08:55:04.180 i love football lacrosse uh tennis actually i play pickleball that's disgusting pickleball

08:55:11.620 that's the most annoying oh stop it's this do you ever drive by a high school

08:55:16.480 no that's like no 18 year olds 18 year olds 18 because she dates 18 i did say i date 18 year

08:55:24.120 olds i said so if i didn't know their age come on do you still go to like college parties to

08:55:30.380 no okay yeah if you say so uh okay you know this do you have different types yeah more casual is

08:55:39.740 what um if it's less like if I find someone attractive right off the bat um I tend to be like

08:55:50.300 less focused on everything else so I don't know it just kind of ends up being

08:55:58.100 blondes with blue eyes that are maybe less on the serious spectrum and then um if I'm attracted to

08:56:08.040 someone with darker features, it's probably become like more related to personality. So

08:56:16.320 well, this is what you wrote. You noticed you have different types. So you write more casual

08:56:22.080 relationships, lighter features, more serious relationships, darker features. But so when you

08:56:28.800 say lighter features, darker features, are you talking about like hair and eye color? So like

08:56:33.360 blonde hair casual blue eyes yeah what about blue eyes dark hair not me uh i'm fat i'm already

08:56:41.580 rejecting myself don't um depends on the person they could i could probably maybe find them

08:56:47.480 attractive it's like in between you know it's like in the middle uh okay but and when are you 0.99

08:56:53.320 talking about skin color too no like so white guys just fuck black guys i tend to be attracted 1.00

08:57:02.780 to all races uh no uh white guys not asian guys no no just like uh you said you don't believe in 1.00

08:57:11.800 double standards if a woman gets judged for sleeping around men should be yeah we've been

08:57:15.820 over that the same way yeah does anybody want a popsicle no no okay do we just have empty here 0.99

08:57:27.760 let me because i feel like she left oh really yeah she left oh shit okay well here wait can 0.71

08:57:34.080 you here you sit here and because i feel like on the split i need i don't know i need it looks 1.00

08:57:39.800 empty when we go split uh okay uh don't believe in double standards if a woman gets judged for 0.99

08:57:47.520 sleep we talked about that we talked about uh you don't agree with double standards if a girl

08:57:51.240 guy has a high body count it's as bad talked about that um you've dated both alpha and beta

08:58:00.200 personalities both have pros and cons you prefer being the one who calls the shots yeah i do

08:58:05.960 that's why you date younger guys maybe because they're naive and you can manipulate them

08:58:11.960 and have you ever pegged a dude yeah wait china like for real yeah like i was kind of joking with

08:58:21.900 that question okay then i was joking too no no no no i was joking no for realsies uh did you ever

08:58:28.020 have you wait more than one guy come on be honest not not like every guy no not not every guy but

08:58:36.380 more than one yeah is that a hickey on your neck i don't think so probably not maybe you and your

08:58:44.340 friend never mind okay wait so you've pegged a dude with a strap on no no no no no well okay

08:58:53.520 sorry it was that no i have not pegged no no i don't know what that means thank you you put

08:58:58.280 a strap on no no i have not i have not i thought it was something else oh what did what did you

08:59:05.040 like with fingers that's oh you fingered a dude booty hole because wait because he asked for it

08:59:12.720 or because you wanted to do it uh both of us okay why's everyone laughing

08:59:26.880 i'm just like i don't know whether to be like really proud of you or mortified

08:59:35.040 have you fisted no jesus christ i don't know maybe two fingers oh man that was it the thumb

08:59:46.640 like during oral when wait how can't wait i'm just trying to think the position 0.84

08:59:53.320 where a woman could slip a finger in some men like to be bent over 1.00

08:59:57.320 oral. I see. 0.94

09:00:02.420 You asked for it?

09:00:05.700 You were like... No, but they've asked

09:00:07.940 for it or I was like... Wait, do you

09:00:10.140 like lube up or...

09:00:11.900 No.

09:00:14.100 Whoa.

09:00:15.380 What? Watch!

09:00:16.120 Okay, it's time for me to go.

09:00:18.040 Wait, wait, wait. Watch!

09:00:22.200 What the fuck? 1.00

09:00:24.080 Huh? Huh? 1.00

09:00:25.160 Hmm? Hmm?

09:00:26.280 you just stick it in okay next she's like a dude she's like a guy she's like a guy man she just

09:00:33.180 goes for it that's wow that's insane okay so you're that you want to be the one who calls the

09:00:39.640 shots yeah it's more convenient so like you you want guys to call you daddy no it's not calling

09:00:47.280 the shots it's just like i want someone who's like open to like do whatever kind of activity

09:00:54.020 or do this is that but when it's the time to put me in my place they're able to do it 1.00

09:01:00.300 why is dating so complicated girls be trying to stick fingers and butts and 1.00

09:01:06.420 they want to call the shots and be put in their place i have options can i just find a nice girl 1.00

09:01:12.780 can i just find a nice girl just kind of wants to hang out and we can have a good time oh i go

09:01:18.100 he's got to put me in my place.

09:01:21.360 Man.

09:01:22.900 I didn't say put me in my place.

09:01:25.240 It's just be able to put me in my place.

09:01:31.600 Really?

09:01:32.600 But if you do it, I'd be annoyed.

09:01:34.360 Right.

09:01:35.340 But able to do it.

09:01:37.400 Can I ask if something's racist?

09:01:39.460 Sure.

09:01:40.620 So I would never say the N-word.

09:01:42.100 But sometimes I want to say, really?

09:01:47.600 Okay. 0.99

09:01:48.100 so i won't say it but can you finish the sentence for me i guess okay say that shit again say that 1.00

09:01:54.860 shit again say it again say that shit again dog say that shit again say it with your chest don't 1.00

09:01:59.780 tell me what to do oh whoa okay calm down lady but say it again i'm calling the shots really 1.00

09:02:06.280 really okay thank you appreciate it see i can't say that shit but i got my 0.99

09:02:13.300 see she she's black but she's she's my caucasian that's my caucasian right there that's i don't 0.98

09:02:20.040 know what you you're my caucasian i think are you what are you oh wait she's my caucasian you're my

09:02:26.340 indigenous my french girl back there she's my caucasian she's my yeah caucasian can i ask you

09:02:33.640 a question yeah can a black person because i'm learning about because you know growing up in

09:02:39.640 santa barbara there was like three black people in my high school yeah that was you know my life

09:02:44.820 that was my experience too and um can a black person call a white friend the n-word in like a

09:02:53.000 positive way i do like you know what i mean is that props to the white person i think it just 0.52

09:03:00.580 depends on the white person some people you know what i mean what like you know she knows what i

09:03:05.880 mean i didn't hear the question oh oh like you know when you in the streets and oh my god what 0.99

09:03:13.560 the fuck and like your crew what will give you mad props yo and call you the n-word i feel like 0.98

09:03:25.060 you're placing a very ghetto stigma on that i don't think that's how it works would you consider 1.00

09:03:31.240 calling me your um if you were don't i'm not asking i'm not asking you to do it i want that 0.91

09:03:37.940 shit to be natural like i don't want to know if you're not an apology i don't want to ask for the 0.88

09:03:42.720 you just give me the like you should give me the apology yeah i don't want to i don't want to force 0.71

09:03:47.100 you yeah but if i just want to tell you if you feel like we've had a good rapport if you want

09:03:56.660 to you can yeah like my boss is really cool he's a white man but like i i don't say that to him i

09:04:02.180 say that he's down with the browns like my you you can say that to me i'm just saying not you

09:04:07.100 don't have to do it well you're definitely not mine but it's okay i'm not there yet why not just 0.98

09:04:12.440 ever gonna be that really oh shit okay anyways uh you're the alpha male female 0.94

09:04:19.200 you pegged a dude we we went through that but but so how do you call the shots though 0.95

09:04:26.140 it's just like i feel like guys know that if they try to press on me or they try to be alpha i'll

09:04:35.880 just knock them down so no physically have you ever no just with my words i don't need to use

09:04:41.920 violence yeah and i won't if i don't like something or what someone said about me or

09:04:50.360 someone i care about like i won't uh you don't like how people disappear when they get into

09:04:57.280 relationships and cut off their friends yeah well what about male friends do you think that's okay

09:05:01.020 for the woman uh can you just uh repeat that sorry the who for who well when people get into

09:05:08.280 relationships cut off their friends but so there's male friends female friends so the opposite sex

09:05:14.000 friends so should men cut off female friends should women cut off male i don't think well 0.99

09:05:20.000 so women like a lot of girls will get into a relationship and then the minute they're in a 0.84

09:05:28.300 relationship they will no longer see any of their friends i think that's bizarre and annoying

09:05:34.240 and then they break up with their man come back and then um expect to go yeah expect the things

09:05:44.480 to go the same i'm like um and then girl boy friendship like obviously you have to put some

09:05:52.540 kind of boundaries uh but if and if you guys already had history if you guys hooked up like

09:05:59.980 obviously not but if it's purely like friendship and like obviously you have to change certain

09:06:08.920 settings or whatnot but if you cut out if your partner makes you cut out your like 0.97

09:06:16.060 friends of opposite sex I think it's not like not viable and kind of stupid I agree yeah I think 0.93

09:06:28.420 like you said it depends on the situation yeah and the friendship and like the background 0.99

09:06:32.300 of each friendship yeah I'm also very strict with my male friends like I do not call any of my male

09:06:39.240 friends friends if they've expressed interest in me that is just like someone I know basically like

09:06:44.540 they can even be someone I you know I mean have a like I've had a close relationship with but as

09:06:51.340 soon as they express that interest like I have to like draw that boundary because I feel like any

09:06:56.700 male that expressed that interest

09:06:58.760 would disrespect you if you were in a relationship.

09:07:02.400 I would just throw out there

09:07:04.740 with the friend thing, I think sometimes

09:07:06.820 it's natural that, oh, you're

09:07:08.760 more with your person. You just see people

09:07:10.860 naturally less, but cutting

09:07:12.860 someone out is kind of deliberate,

09:07:14.720 intentional, and you do have a choice.

09:07:17.180 And I guess I'm not trying to

09:07:18.820 be aggressive. I'm just asking

09:07:20.380 what is the friend worth to you if

09:07:22.660 they're worth cutting out, I guess.

09:07:24.760 Cutting off or cutting out.

09:07:26.700 yeah like to begin with they probably yeah it's like a friend like there are people like if i'm

09:07:32.560 in a relationship i'm just not going to see that person as much but it's like oh if i could choose

09:07:38.320 i wouldn't want to get rid of them i guess yeah right do we think that your partner telling you 0.64

09:07:46.000 to get rid of friends of the opposite sex is controlling yeah okay yeah does anyone disagree

09:07:52.380 To a good degree. I don't know.

09:07:54.080 Again, it depends on the situation.

09:07:55.980 Yeah, it depends on the situation.

09:07:58.600 Like, without getting to, like, know them

09:08:00.300 and, like, their situation,

09:08:02.160 then, yes, I think it's controlling.

09:08:03.660 Okay. Fair.

09:08:04.920 But otherwise, no.

09:08:08.840 Okay, and then we did all your ics.

09:08:11.300 Nope.

09:08:19.900 Ooh, wait. Okay, delusional calculator.

09:08:22.000 can you pull that up uh question what do you bring to the table personality financial stability

09:08:30.160 good looks good advice banter okay do we do the wait should we do the delulu

09:08:43.780 actually

09:08:46.020 yeah

09:08:46.540 um all right you also said oh final thing for you guys who can't handle their alcohol yeah 0.97

09:08:54.380 and then get stupid when they drink yeah but what uh what if they don't drink at all is that also

09:09:02.040 nick no i'm not much of a drinker so nathan can you open the door all the way um okay tatum 0.98

09:09:11.100 save the best for last i know uh we had a lot of segues here in the convo i'm gonna try to

09:09:20.140 get through your notes i might have to skip a few things here and there but so your court is

09:09:24.500 at a legal brothel in nevada named sherry's berries no sherry's ranch and uh okay you 1.00

09:09:31.820 couldn't talk about money that was some of my notes i did ask about the coupons the buy one

09:09:35.780 being one free that maybe you know maybe if you guys want to hire me as a uh i would say keep the

09:09:42.680 um does the split not show her the other split oh uh

09:09:51.620 yeah

09:09:55.180 i guess just when i ask just go here and then put it i think that should be fun unless you actually

09:10:04.340 maybe can you scoot that way you stay there but you scoot that way a little bit there we go that's

09:10:09.520 better the split will work now okay uh okay overlap sex work marriage you have a handful of interesting

09:10:16.200 dating experiences uh most of your dating has been unsuccessful most men do not want to date

09:10:22.760 someone who does what you do for work these are these are your notes uh there have also been cases

09:10:28.460 however of men who do want to be involved with you but only for sex which does not appeal to you

09:10:33.320 you're looking for a relationship and you consider yourself having very traditional values

09:10:39.920 what sound are you gonna put on nothing okay all right very traditional yeah what are the

09:10:53.400 very traditional values i mean after i sent that in i'm like i'm gonna probably have to define that

09:10:59.900 i don't know because i feel like it's more of a vibe it's a vibe yeah so what is the vibe

09:11:08.080 the vibe is like my dream is to uh you know tend the land with my with my babies and my

09:11:17.540 husband tend the land make all my own clothes traditional though okay but that's like this

09:11:25.500 sort of homesteader vibe homestead oh well that's what i meant by traditional well i think when

09:11:31.400 people think of traditional i don't think their first thought is escort uh well not escort i guess

09:11:40.620 a courtesan prostitute yeah brothel i know but i'm just is there a is there a madame there is

09:11:47.460 she's amazing can there be a male and leader of a brothel or yeah there have been what is that 0.98

09:11:53.960 called a pimp oh my god i don't know i because the one i work at is run by a woman run by a woman 1.00

09:12:01.620 yes yeah is she has she owned it forever or what's her steal uh she she was the madam so she's not

09:12:09.500 the owner oh okay there is the owner a man uh it's owned by an investment group oh there's a

09:12:16.620 group of people okay uh the madam so was the madam a former no you know are you trying to

09:12:24.800 become the madam no no no she's don't want that because no because she there's it's a it's a big

09:12:30.720 responsibility and that's not that that's not the you gotta keep them you gotta keep the pimp

09:12:35.440 hand strong you know sorry joke okay yeah uh so okay it's a big job i get that um and she's very

09:12:49.460 good at it how many girls work there um there are over 75 on the rotation um every month but only

09:12:59.960 25 are there at a time okay uh you have uh

09:13:06.980 so okay i guess in quick response to the you saying you consider yourself to have very

09:13:16.540 traditional values i feel that that's like saying i have very vegan values but i get paid by the 0.99

09:13:24.800 meat industry to eat meat right you know what i mean yeah because you're like a prostitute 0.90

09:13:30.980 totally so it's like traditional you you were very pleasant you're nice thank you 0.94

09:13:38.500 but traditional i don't know maybe i just meant uh i interpreted it as

09:13:44.980 traditional in the ancient times

09:13:48.560 okay ancient times ancient times traditional ancient times

09:13:54.840 that's fair

09:13:57.980 thank you okay uh you've tried a lot of different strategies telling people what you do yes not

09:14:07.980 telling people yes until you a connection is formed that's what you wrote yeah but so clarifying

09:14:13.960 question um so that's you're dating a guy and you tell him hey by the way perhaps up front i work in

09:14:21.640 the brothel correct but then there's times where you haven't told and so when you say waiting until

09:14:26.280 a connection sex like after sex i haven't i've only had sex with one person after i got divorced

09:14:33.120 and that's where i've been dating in the past year and i don't but did you tell him tell the 0.93

09:14:38.580 that guy that you had sex with up front that you were a brothel worker no i told him i was a dancer

09:14:44.620 a stripper so but he was very open-minded we've met on field i don't know if you're familiar with

09:14:50.580 the app field it's the it's the open-minded people app for dating open-minded to what like

09:14:58.400 all sorts of things like relationship dynamics it's he did not mind i worked at a brothel but

09:15:04.360 He's the guy who was just like, yeah. 0.87

09:15:05.620 But did you tell him you worked at a brothel and you were a prostitute? 0.82

09:15:10.860 No, I told him I was a dancer. 0.99

09:15:13.360 But you were, at the time, a prostitute. 0.96

09:15:16.100 He was not looking for a relationship. 0.95

09:15:17.700 Oh, answer the question.

09:15:19.400 Okay, what?

09:15:20.100 Okay. 0.98

09:15:20.500 So, okay, at the time you were a prostitute working at the brothel. 0.98

09:15:25.900 Yeah. 0.99

09:15:26.800 But you did not disclose to him prior to having sex.

09:15:30.480 We got fully, he bought like a whole.

09:15:33.620 No, no, no, hold on.

09:15:34.360 Got tested and everything.

09:15:36.640 Yep, yep, yep, yep.

09:15:38.460 But I just need an affirmative. 0.99

09:15:42.080 Did you not tell him that you were a prostitute prior to carnal knowledge? 0.77

09:15:48.280 It was not relevant. 0.96

09:15:49.700 He didn't ask.

09:15:53.920 China, please rejoin the table. 0.93

09:15:57.160 Oh, my God. 1.00

09:15:58.060 This is crazy.

09:15:58.840 He was like 60 years old. 1.00

09:16:00.260 60, motherfucker. 1.00

09:16:01.020 60. 1.00

09:16:01.800 You done 60.

09:16:03.340 It was a certain thing we were both looking for

09:16:06.800 What was the thing that you were looking for?

09:16:08.940 Oh my god this is so like

09:16:10.840 Personal it was like

09:16:12.560 Just a certain

09:16:13.600 It's a kink app 0.97

09:16:15.580 It's a kink app 1.00

09:16:17.100 Oh so you have a thing for grandpas 1.00

09:16:19.800 What's your thing? 0.96

09:16:21.800 I'm trying to brothel

09:16:22.380 No but it's a 1.00

09:16:24.300 It's a kink 0.96

09:16:25.880 But hold on it's a kink app 0.97

09:16:27.680 What's the kink that you were exploring? 1.00

09:16:30.180 Stop! Oh my god 1.00

09:16:32.420 you cannot answer if you listen i've been talking about big pussy lips and labia and all this shit 1.00

09:16:38.680 all night come on it was all can you and can you infer can you can you take a guess and then i can 1.00

09:16:46.640 just was it was it uh what's it called dd oh well it was just we can just say it was in the bdsm

09:16:52.820 category and he had a whole dungeon and everything was it ddlg and no that's a little extreme for my

09:17:00.080 taste wait that's extreme no no like wait okay so my taste okay you don't like that so it wasn't 0.99

09:17:09.180 ddlg oh my god this is like okay okay i've been talking about pussy lips all night it was it was 1.00

09:17:17.400 you know bdsm say there's a mac masochism bondage it was just degradation rope play 0.99

09:17:24.480 are you a rope bunny what is it no it it satisfied the kink and and i realized

09:17:32.840 bondage wait tell me here blink twice wait wait wait wait blink actually i do have this on my

09:17:38.900 profile at the ranch so it's blink twice if i'm in the right bdsm category bondage

09:17:44.380 uh well i guess you could just say yes or no i guess bondage sure yes wait yes it's

09:17:51.840 in bondage there's it's an umbrella term of there's multiple things that happened okay uh sadism

09:17:59.920 yes or no can you define that what you think that is or sadism deriving pleasure from inflicting

09:18:06.800 or giving pain uh sure yes that was masochism so and i think we covered it well why are you so

09:18:17.040 bashful you work in a brothel you work in a brothel and we can't talk we can't talk about 0.53

09:18:22.840 this is my personal life though oh come on okay come on you you just had a guy 0.99

09:18:28.500 fucking two weeks ago dress you up in a japanese school girl outfit and want you to say konichiwa 1.00

09:18:33.780 and shit who said i'm just making it up because you'd be doing crazy shit in the brothel come on 1.00

09:18:37.620 no i actually only do the girlfriend experience just to let you know tiffany hey tiffany take a 1.00

09:18:43.660 seat at the table i'm gonna fucking grill you sit your ass down tiffany said tiffany sit your ass 1.00

09:18:48.680 down get get over there tiffany where right over there isn't this the most beautiful 37 year old 1.00

09:18:56.260 woman you've ever seen i really don't think she's 37 no she's 37 the koreans flawless yeah tiffany

09:19:03.100 your birthday was 1985 wasn't it oh wait actually that'd be 89

09:19:11.060 okay so anyways uh okay what is it just tell us come on you we we said what bondage it was 0.99

09:19:21.180 okay so you like uh shibari the rope shit where you get all fucking tied up in ropes 0.98

09:19:26.040 man i'm trying to i'm trying to wrap the show you gotta just spit it out we did it we covered it 0.99

09:19:33.220 we bondage can be anywhere from fucking handcuffs like all the way to some crazy 0.97

09:19:38.560 like shabari you saw in 50 shades of gray just you can just copy paste and yep check 0.97

09:19:45.580 that is not helpful bdsm has like multiple okay whatever all right i need to do some all right 0.80

09:19:55.200 but you didn't tell the dude that you were a prostitute i told him i told him on the second

09:20:03.140 time we hung out and then was it over after that uh no he actually okay here's the thing as soon 0.99

09:20:10.640 as i told him he was like oh that's super hot and then he turned on porn and then i as if that meant 0.60

09:20:18.500 i worked at a brothel that i would like porn and then i was like i have adhd can you please turn

09:20:23.440 that off wait was it it's distracting me was it cnc no it was just random porn no no the thing

09:20:30.660 with the guy oh no but i do that i that's cool i like that uh let's see here uh you don't hold

09:20:39.780 anything against them for not wanting to be involved with a woman who they would need to

09:20:43.920 share so a woman who's a prostitute if the roles were reversed you wouldn't be okay with your man 0.96

09:20:48.980 being with other people even as a prostitute oh no we just i talked about that with my husband 1.00

09:20:53.780 he could he could uh make money like oh he could fuck for money yeah but not like fuck not for 1.00

09:20:59.900 money okay correct so you'd be fine with that hypothetically in the past that's what i thought 1.00

09:21:04.620 nowadays i'm like you know i've been yeah well because you said you're honestly quite possessive

09:21:10.260 of your partner which you think is healthy to an extent and you like for your partner to be

09:21:14.960 possessive of you i think it's i think it's spicy wait oh oh here's a good question i feel like the

09:21:22.500 girls are gonna like this one okay okay let's say you were dating a guy right now you're single

09:21:26.300 though right it's been a you're kind of it's been a minute because i'm we're working on it i'm a

09:21:31.260 busy you're a nice gal i think you you know what i i think we can get you a guy thank you yeah

09:21:36.040 we'll get you a guy okay okay anybody have any brothers tiffany oh my god would you like to 0.79

09:21:42.960 set her up with oh my god she's like the number one ranked prostitute i'm not number one oh sorry 0.92

09:21:49.400 number three okay so um oh you're dating a guy like a civilian guy but then you're going to work 0.73

09:22:00.220 hypothetically you said well i mean let's say in reality if you were dating a guy okay

09:22:06.660 would it upset you like i would never do this arrangement but

09:22:12.300 like i could imagine if you were in that situation you'd be like okay

09:22:19.400 I'm not kissing you for 24 hours.

09:22:22.820 You know what I mean?

09:22:23.680 Because of what?

09:22:24.360 You know what I mean? 1.00

09:22:25.140 Brooke LaBadoodoo? 0.97

09:22:26.820 LaBooBoo?

09:22:28.040 You know what I mean, Brooke?

09:22:29.220 Like, okay, but...

09:22:30.500 I wouldn't do it.

09:22:31.320 Would you be upset if the guy was like, 1.00

09:22:33.420 did you suck a dick today? 1.00

09:22:36.000 Like, you come home from work. 1.00

09:22:37.720 That's a normal question you ask your girlfriend.

09:22:40.040 Oh, I think you misunderstand the way it works.

09:22:42.620 I'm gone for two weeks at a time.

09:22:44.380 I don't come home at night when I'm...

09:22:46.840 Well, but like, okay, 1.00

09:22:48.500 you worked fine you work two weeks but then you go home right and some prostitute 0.98

09:22:55.520 but i'll be sad oh i'll be so you're awesome all right sounds good thank you appreciate it 0.99

09:23:11.160 thank you thank you all right we're almost wrapped though we are almost wrapped i promise you that

09:23:14.360 that 20 minutes i know but brooke you were just talking too much brooke i know oh yeah this brooke

09:23:20.260 here she was talking too much okay it's the end of your two-week shift you're a little you're a 1.00

09:23:27.420 little weaselly little fucking snake you're a little snake trying to dodge all my questions 1.00

09:23:31.640 and shit you're doing some fucking verbal fucking aikido and shit you know i'm like trying to ask 1.00

09:23:38.480 you a question it's like well it's i don't go home every night gotcha bitch it's like answer 1.00

09:23:44.800 god damn it tatum she's gonna be a fucking politician this one she's gonna be a politician 1.00

09:23:49.480 you try to ask her a question what do you think of illegal immigration well let me tell you what 1.00

09:23:53.980 the real problem in this country is we just got to try harder okay so anyways um wow yeah you're

09:24:02.600 slippery you're a little slippery you're like trying to grab the soap and you can't grab the

09:24:06.180 thank you well anyways you called alice little a politician when she was on here so i'm very

09:24:12.600 flattered by that does she work at your ranch or is that a different one aren't isn't there a 1.00

09:24:17.360 different one there's she do you guys have gang wars and shit like the fucking prostitutes 1.00

09:24:22.680 roll on the other fucking crew like you roll deep you see that motherfucker what's the other 1.00

09:24:27.740 what's the other club called or ranch there's 19 what's the other big one are you the big one 1.00

09:24:34.460 we're the we're the big guys and what's the other big one uh there's several like mustang ranch 0.99

09:24:40.900 bunny ranch wait is there fucking like inter brothel drama i gotta investigate this shit i'm 1.00

09:24:46.480 coming to pahrump bro okay i'm coming to pahrump not for prostitute but i'm coming bro i'm taking 0.99

09:24:52.000 tiffany we rock and i want to get in the weeds you know i feel like y'all fighting with each 1.00

09:24:58.140 other y'all guys y'all guys show up in fucking suvs you roll up fucking drive-by shootings and 1.00

09:25:03.500 shit each other all the fucking ranches and shit bro whoa that's crazy that's that's wild weird 1.00

09:25:09.800 but is there drama no what's the name of the other ranch there's like just one just bunny ranch 1.00

09:25:16.320 the bunny ranch y'all talk shit about the bunny ranch i don't i i love but are you like we got 1.00

09:25:22.460 better pussy here at the cherries ranch people shift around pussy offering better here like 1.00

09:25:27.640 people move around to all the ranches all the time y'all gotta y'all gotta start talking shit 1.00

09:25:33.040 about each other no you know how like pepsi talks about coca-cola you guys man they're pussy stank 1.00

09:25:38.740 that's what you gotta do pussy stank over there at the bunny ranch that's not cool 0.99

09:25:42.720 oh i'm sorry i apologize yeah don't do that y'all competing with each other though it's a business 0.99

09:25:49.240 no we're not sharing y'all the women it's like the mafia in new york but it's like 0.98

09:25:54.220 pussy selling in the nevada desert okay never i love how much you love it though 0.98

09:26:01.400 what's that i love how much you you're passionate about i'm so passionate uh okay 0.99

09:26:07.900 we're uh the the the the the the end oh

09:26:14.220 the okay you're dating you're dating tiffany um you're dating a guy hypothetically you say

09:26:23.760 would you be and you just get home from work yeah from the two weeks and he's like look i don't want

09:26:31.140 to kiss you would that be a problem i mean for 24 hours oh i mean i would just be surprised that

09:26:39.280 my husband didn't do that when i would come home but

09:26:42.340 oh he yeah no it was way different he it was yeah for your next relationship are you going

09:26:52.500 to continue sex work once you're married no i i'm wanting to stop wait but there's only one 0.99

09:27:01.120 guy who you got with who you didn't tell it was a 60 year old on field that you're a prostitute 0.88

09:27:07.860 you didn't tell him i did on the second date can i ask you what about like for other women who are 0.83

09:27:13.400 prostitutes do you think it's up to them or do you think they should tell men uh it's up to the

09:27:18.780 woman i'm not gonna speak for all women on that well like for example i think men should not 0.99

09:27:28.700 bitch slap their girlfriends 0.96

09:27:31.040 bare minimum 1.00

09:27:33.320 you know what I mean 0.95

09:27:34.660 so I think it's okay for women to say 1.00

09:27:37.420 maybe women should 0.92

09:27:38.900 conduct themselves 1.00

09:27:40.240 no but I've told men

09:27:43.100 as well and then they were

09:27:45.300 like 1.00

09:27:45.740 no but should other women 1.00

09:27:48.900 who are sex workers 0.99

09:27:50.620 tell men 0.98

09:27:51.760 I don't have an opinion on that women can do 1.00

09:27:54.960 whatever they want 1.00

09:27:55.860 i think before sleeping with them they should i think they should tell men i think they have

09:28:02.520 the right to know i agree men have the right to know and they definitely should tell men 0.97

09:28:09.200 honestly for their safety like i could see a situation like some girl who fucks men for a 0.96

09:28:17.600 living tells a guy hey by the way you were hitting it raw the other day 1.00

09:28:22.940 I fuck men for money 1.00

09:28:26.240 Oh well we got intravenous 1.00

09:28:28.500 Testing

09:28:29.120 Y'all

09:28:30.600 I could see a guy

09:28:34.300 Shank somebody 0.98

09:28:37.640 You know what I mean

09:28:39.100 Did you lock Nathan

09:28:41.500 Okay

09:28:44.080 I'm just saying I think you should maybe

09:28:48.220 Disclose

09:28:48.920 I do but that was like a one time thing 1.00

09:28:51.300 But other women should disclose to you. 0.99

09:28:52.980 I'm just saying. 0.98

09:28:53.420 I think that's fair.

09:28:54.260 I think it's fair.

09:28:55.560 You have difficulty dating, largely due to the fact that you're the courtesan and the

09:29:00.400 masculine men you're attracted to don't want this.

09:29:04.280 Yes.

09:29:04.740 This.

09:29:05.180 Okay.

09:29:06.500 Masculine men.

09:29:07.400 You dropped out of Cornell. 0.71

09:29:09.520 Wait, really?

09:29:10.580 Yeah.

09:29:11.240 Oh, my God, Tiffany.

09:29:13.860 Wait, her dropping out of college is the thing that got you excited?

09:29:17.680 My friend goes to Cornell.

09:29:18.840 Nice.

09:29:19.240 Oh, my God.

09:29:20.680 tiffany oh my god who the hell can your friend goes to cornell oh my god what did you have for

09:29:27.720 breakfast this morning yogurt bowl with strawberries and blueberries anyways

09:29:33.400 oh my god tiffany oh my god you want to show us your kanye west tattoos we're all dying i know

09:29:41.380 it's torture i can't hour i can't take it off okay uh oh you've treated sorry not treated

09:29:48.760 Sorry, that just came.

09:29:50.260 You've seen men who are virgins.

09:29:53.480 Yeah, of course.

09:29:53.980 Lots of virgins.

09:29:55.520 How many virginities? 1.00

09:29:57.000 Probably like... 1.00

09:29:58.980 Dozens?

09:29:59.760 Yeah.

09:30:02.280 Nice. 1.00

09:30:03.100 They lose their virginity to you. 0.99

09:30:05.120 Yeah. 0.94

09:30:06.220 What an honor.

09:30:07.120 Thank you.

09:30:07.600 So romantic.

09:30:08.860 Oh, my gosh.

09:30:10.080 You know what?

09:30:10.520 Do you know Lauren, who we've had on the show? 0.96

09:30:12.900 No, but she's amazing.

09:30:14.540 She's the sweetest girl.

09:30:15.440 I love... 1.00

09:30:15.720 And she's a courtesan and prostitute. 1.00

09:30:17.180 Yes, yes. 1.00

09:30:17.660 actually one of the nicest people i've met who've come on the show anyways sweetest girl i mean i 1.00

09:30:22.980 don't know her deeply or anything but um so i don't know maybe she's a fucking crazy what's up

09:30:29.740 lauren um i don't know maybe who knows behind the scenes but she's the sweetest person she's so kind 0.92

09:30:34.560 she's very nice and you seem almost in a similar vein you know what compliment to i'll give you a

09:30:39.620 compliment this way when it comes to sex workers for some reason you would almost it's almost

09:30:45.340 counterintuitive intuitive of the like prost like actual prostitutes we've had on the show 1.00

09:30:52.200 they tend to be the nicest versus like the strippers 0.99

09:30:57.220 and the of girls okay well i do all well yeah but like the women who are specifically like

09:31:06.580 either also or just prostitutes for some reason they're they're kind of the nicest

09:31:11.880 i think they're more old school oh my god what's that they're more old school they're old school

09:31:18.000 yeah i give them i almost you know what and it's not just that they're nicer i kind of put more

09:31:23.340 respect on their name they kind of give like white lady next door vibes

09:31:26.880 hey can i ask you a question would you um wait i don't know if this is legal but i'm just gonna

09:31:37.300 ask it okay are you gonna give me a referral a referral cut like if somebody is like a yo tatum 0.74

09:31:46.700 i saw you on the whatever podcast and i'm trying to do some shit are you gonna give me you gonna 0.83

09:31:52.320 give me a little kickback you're gonna be a kickback i think she already gave you something 0.77

09:31:58.500 by coming here thank you but i'm talking money you are gonna make money oh my god not in that

09:32:06.140 i'm talking to kick back from the the the the clientele little kickback i'm kidding but would

09:32:13.700 you give me a dollar per person a small you know fraction 50 bucks starbucks gift card

09:32:21.540 starbucks gift card you never know i mean who knows okay we'll see how that we'll see how that 1.00

09:32:29.220 good talk wait okay we're talking about the virgins oh should i i had a question fuck wait 1.00

09:32:35.740 virgins you you've taken virginity oh i remember the thing i was gonna say um i kind of respect 1.00

09:32:43.100 the prostitutes more than the of girls okay why thank you tiffany i was waiting for that 0.99

09:32:50.200 i don't want to just speak out of turn you know i want to wait i'm very quiet

09:32:55.560 Yeah, I don't speak much on this podcast.

09:32:57.540 Right, right, right.

09:32:59.120 Yeah, you know, I wait my turn. 0.99

09:33:02.780 I think, because the OF girls and the strippers, I view them as, like, a bit predatory. 0.98

09:33:12.420 Okay. 0.99

09:33:13.240 Like, but the prostitutes, as much as I object, I think it's honest work. 0.91

09:33:21.760 Thank you, yes!

09:33:23.200 in the sense that here's what i'm offering here's what you get here's the terms exactly

09:33:31.580 whereas like strippers strip of is the worst but the strippers the strippers put on like a bit of

09:33:40.020 a front to a degree like they put on the front a little bit uh when it comes to like interacting 0.99

09:33:47.080 with the men in the club right i guess maybe prostitutes do that too i don't know but 1.00

09:33:53.060 of girls that's a fugazi the only fans thing that's a hustle then you're the of girls are 1.00

09:34:04.020 hustling men whereas the prostitutes pussy cost 3.99 like that's that's at least respectable i 0.99

09:34:12.880 no chat what do you think chat i think it's more respectable does that make sense yes but i also 0.99

09:34:20.800 don't want to pit sex workers against each other well look ultimately the of girls are running a 1.00

09:34:26.380 hustle a lot of them they're fraud in they're lying they're they're doing all kinds of shit 0.99

09:34:32.080 they're um they got typers they got chatters they got management oh it's me who's talking 0.99

09:34:37.120 no it's not her who's talking uh they are doing the girlfriend experience they're doing romance 1.00

09:34:43.300 scams you on the other hand the prostitutes pussy is 500 you want some pussy 500 i'll give you pussy 1.00

09:34:54.920 like i can at least respect that from a business perspective but when you got women scamming dudes 1.00

09:35:01.640 out here on only fans like scamming them romance literally romance scamming dudes i can't respect

09:35:07.800 that can't respect it now i'm not saying it's good you know i'm not gonna say it's good but

09:35:16.000 people in the chat are getting butt hurt that i'm saying that i'm saying it's more i'm not saying

09:35:22.120 it's respectable no offense but it's more respectable if that makes sense thank you

09:35:30.060 like i put put more respect on the name respect on the name i can understand that yeah they're

09:35:38.800 saying it's true but it's still bad that's my point is what i'm saying but at least i can

09:35:43.380 respect it more than these romance scammer of girls who are hustling cold-blooded hustling

09:35:50.560 these dudes girlfriend experience romance scam oh i'll meet up with you pay more send me money 1.00

09:35:56.540 for a ticket an airplane ticket oh my god i missed my flight oopsie oh no romance scam that's

09:36:02.480 romance scam anyways uh now that i'm not saying all girls of girls do that anyways blasting

09:36:08.660 through the rest um there's more nuance to the world of sex work than the host brian gives you

09:36:16.060 don't have to go into that because it was yeah brian doesn't realize that a lot of the men who

09:36:20.340 come to the brothel are doing this as a last resort do you want to elaborate super quickly

09:36:24.400 oh um did i did i write about just like people are grieving the loss of a spouse and and so

09:36:34.100 they'll go yeah yeah i mean i don't even think i disagree with you like definitely men can be

09:36:40.280 uh i don't think it's just like frat bros who just want to bust a nut i'm sure it's like 0.74

09:36:45.780 guys who go there and i've heard stories like guys will go there and they don't even want sex 0.92

09:36:51.260 they'll just like want to be held and shit you know yeah so i've heard that story i've heard 0.97

09:36:55.340 that story they even want to talk or whatever and it's not even yeah you know so they just 0.95

09:36:59.300 want companionship so i get that um you met a guy at a park on hinge oh who height who height

09:37:07.980 fished you we'll skip that yeah not too interesting oh

09:37:11.920 he said he was five eight he was actually five two um let's see you're fine with first dates

09:37:22.260 not costing anything or like just being like low price hike blah blah blah sorry not you blah blah

09:37:31.360 but um do you recall the climb i'm gonna go through their whole thing like that too

09:37:39.500 oh it's hers or it's her notes are that's it we already did no it's just her and then it's done

09:37:47.100 uh the bumble story um then we return to what the ding is all about seeing if we really do

09:37:54.080 like the other person okay skip

09:37:57.000 okay here's your hot take why is it more socially acceptable for you to be sleeping with many guys 0.55

09:38:04.740 frequently before you became a sex worker so you were like sleeping around uh but not getting paid

09:38:10.600 but once you start actually making money from this it becomes stigmatized frowned upon

09:38:14.480 well you're asking the wrong guy because in certain circles your circles you frown upon both

09:38:20.240 i'd frown upon both right but i'm just talking about larger society but it's too big of a topic

09:38:26.640 to get into at this hour yeah true true um it is an interesting thought which one do you think

09:38:32.520 should be sick stigmatized more neither sexual empowerment no not in like a it's it's it's hard

09:38:44.520 to tease apart you said throughout your 20s you had so many one night stands uh how many

09:38:50.080 when you say how many or had well it was like all of the body count which is 33 33 okay ever two in

09:38:57.460 a night no three in a night no no because i i added that i fell in love with every i thought

09:39:04.580 everyone was going to turn into a relationship you said that yeah you gave the man a full

09:39:09.020 girlfriend experience you gave yourself fully emotionally time efforts love imagined a future

09:39:15.680 with nearly each one though it was a bit demoralizing in these instances to learn i was

09:39:20.020 nothing more than the booty you were nothing more than the booty call it you're grateful for it 0.95

09:39:24.820 because it led you to sherry's ranch to becoming a prostitute where you can provide these experiences 0.55

09:39:30.500 for people who genuinely enjoy appreciate them and give you money you met your ex-husband when

09:39:37.700 you were both in rehab for what adderall addiction what about for him uh meth addiction

09:39:46.520 so romantic yeah i hope to one day meet my future wife it honestly was romantic

09:39:56.340 maybe you should try that tiffany tiffany's been struggling a bit try what what oh meth

09:40:02.680 yes all of the above tiffany now pay attention tiffany pay attention yeah okay

09:40:10.880 you said your point of married men out of pure love wait you married the man out of pure love

09:40:17.140 for his heart and spirit he can make you laugh harder than anyone which goes against pretty

09:40:22.260 much everything you brian say about women just going after resources i don't say that

09:40:28.240 women do care about that but it's i say it's not the only thing

09:40:32.680 i don't actually say that okay okay i don't i don't believe you but okay i'll say okay just 0.83

09:40:42.040 okay um women don't just women don't just go after money okay of course other things matter

09:40:50.080 uh and i think the gold digger phenomenon is actually like very small i i think that's like

09:40:57.240 cope or whatever um and also look hey you guys say i criticize women i'll i'll say this

09:41:04.040 a lot of men who are worried about gold diggers

09:41:06.900 they got nothing to worry about so what i mean by that is they don't got money they don't got 0.99

09:41:15.060 anything to be dug is one thing uh so that's my criticism there um okay you're critical of women

09:41:21.860 who have unrealistic expectations about landing men with higher exceptionally high incomes

09:41:26.380 uh especially when they aren't bringing much to the table themselves are you reading my notes

09:41:31.020 yes really oh my god that was my notes that was gonna be my response i did not say that

09:41:40.660 no yeah i was reading like a note i had in response to your thing that was funny

09:41:45.540 that's actually my brain i guess from me uh okay yeah so

09:41:52.460 that's funny okay um on the show you've observed brian talk about how all the burden falls on men

09:42:00.760 during dating if it feels like a burden it's not the right person the entire process of falling

09:42:05.680 in love should feel exciting and electric however i'm also totally aware that men do appreciate a

09:42:10.080 woman demonstrating interest and especially in the post me too era that's a fair point there at the

09:42:15.740 end um i do think it's a bit of a privileged position though that you know i think i'm

09:42:20.820 somehow wrong about men carrying the burden when it comes to dating. Um, I do think the reality is

09:42:25.940 as sort of discussed a little bit, women tend to be passive when it comes to dating case in point 1.00

09:42:32.460 Canadian exhibit a she's 29. She's had multiple boyfriends. She's had multiple partners,

09:42:40.000 none of which she paid the, she didn't pay on the date. She didn't ask them out.

09:42:45.080 so if we put her into a male body she'd be a virgin yeah sorry yeah no that's how it is if 0.98

09:42:54.440 we put most women in a male body y'all be virgins no i'd be like six foot three muscular oh no this

09:43:01.760 is another thing wait the women this oh my god this um women this you know what's so funny is

09:43:10.780 like a lot of women think man if i was a guy i would be a player i'd be oh i'd be so good looking 1.00

09:43:17.580 and i'd have a big dick and i would be fucking all these chicks i'm like no you put you put 1.00

09:43:23.800 most women into like their male even their male looks equivalent body 1.00

09:43:28.180 a lot of women would be fucking incels like i'm telling you i'm telling you this idea all these 1.00

09:43:36.620 women think oh my god i know exactly what women want i would be such a player oh my god no 1.00

09:43:42.120 well i have a few brothers especially if it's no offense especially if it's an asian woman 0.96

09:43:48.960 oh oh oh eight when asian women say if i was a man i'd be killing it no you would not know bro 0.85

09:43:58.640 all these bro i don't know there's a lot my brothers are doing just fine so i'm not worried 0.88

09:44:04.160 tiffany i would not want to be born an asian man bro they asian men have it are dating because even 1.00

09:44:12.740 asian women be fucking curving them yo i would be asian women be like i want to fuck a white guy 1.00

09:44:19.580 like it's crazy it's crazy so like if you're an asian woman and you're like if i was a man i'd 1.00

09:44:24.800 be getting tons of pussy no you'd be fucking playing league of legends motherfucker what if 1.00

09:44:30.340 white woman says that how do you know if a white woman no even white women even a white woman who's 1.00

09:44:35.720 like if i was a if i was a man i'd be running through pussy okay but how do you know well 1.00

09:44:39.920 first off i would look at her and if she's like a five no she is not running through pussy 1.00

09:44:46.380 so she has to be tall no no i'm when if i'm saying she's a five like her looks equivalent 1.00

09:44:52.380 as a man some of these girls like nah they'd not be you know what i mean so they have to 1.00

09:44:59.980 be really masculine looking oh my no no so not even that like i'm like more introverted just in

09:45:08.940 general so like if i was a man i would definitely be a virgin still i do just fine wait actually

09:45:14.920 never mind okay uh so men oh my god men have the initiative burden men have the rejection burden

09:45:27.260 men have the financial burden so yes i do think it is generally uh men carry a bit more of a burden

09:45:37.440 than women do i think that's the word burden is kind of sad to me because the men who i've been

09:45:44.160 in long-term relationships with have been really excited about the whole process i agree courting

09:45:49.640 me and they're like can't get enough of it they're like oh i'm gonna i'm gonna drag this out as long

09:45:57.300 as i can i'm so excited oh i'm so excited that i've got to be a jester and do this song and 0.95

09:46:05.240 dance for a woman who's fucked 20 guys before me uh i'm so excited to do i'm so excited to do the 0.91

09:46:12.900 courtship process with like a string of like 10 women and then five like maybe the 10th one 0.99

09:46:19.540 becomes my girlfriend and then i'm gonna like you're gonna deal with ghosting and flaking and

09:46:24.040 they're gonna be late to the day and then you're gonna get flaked on 50 of the time oh it's such

09:46:27.680 an exciting process oh i haven't met my long-term people on apps though so wait but when the guy 0.88

09:46:34.240 really likes the girl he's happy to do all that yeah exactly he likes the girl that's the gayest 0.79

09:46:43.460 thing i've ever heard that's because you're cynical when it comes to love because nothing 1.00

09:46:47.060 has worked out for you that's so gay no i'm kidding you know what's really gay fucking women 1.00

09:46:52.960 oh my oh my gosh it's a joke it's a joke like sliding your penis into a vagina is so gay 1.00

09:47:02.000 oh my god tough crowd what tough fucking crowd boys 1.00

09:47:07.160 all right let's see let me see how much oh we're almost there there's like two paragraphs 0.99

09:47:13.060 oh my god please brian do not like i swear i swear we're almost there boys we're almost there

09:47:17.380 i'm trying to observe brian talk about okay okay done with that last summer the two last things

09:47:23.840 last summer you hung out with the guy from hinge at his house on the first date because

09:47:28.160 wait uh mutual interest of ours circus acrobatic you had to leave after about two hours to go

09:47:34.380 study for an exam you generally really liked him but you received advice from your mom that the

09:47:41.880 man would reach out if he was interested you didn't hear back from him for two months until

09:47:45.680 after you had reactivated hinge and he saw you on the app prompting him to text you i said i thought

09:47:50.320 you ghosted me and he said he thought i ghosted sorry i can't even bother finishing reading that

09:47:54.840 i'm sorry it was so boring just kidding i love you you're the best you're my second favorite

09:48:01.080 prostitute okay lauren's my first she's really cool lauren's my first and by the way sometimes

09:48:06.560 lauren sends in like champagne pops and tts's she sent in yo guys lauren has sent me like

09:48:12.440 a cup like one or two champagne pops and like some tts's everyone where she been though i don't 1.00

09:48:17.380 know if she's watching lauren where the fuck you been i need my motherfucking money 1.00

09:48:21.980 fucking brothel okay that's my brothel now okay okay good talk uh okay final thing uh you don't 1.00

09:48:32.420 think it is up to the woman to constantly reach out you honestly thought that was considered 1.00

09:48:36.900 thirsty behavior and would turn a man off there's also an entire movie he's just not that into you

09:48:42.400 2009 thank you for including the date appreciate it which you saw in theaters with your grandma

09:48:47.240 okay when it came out that helped sculpt your worldview you can only speak for yourself but

09:48:53.240 you like initiative on the man's part it's very hot and steamy it shows me the man is interested

09:48:58.520 I know I smuggled that in you're you're pretty shy so you need to know that the other person is

09:49:06.080 interested in you before you start making moves but once you know that the man likes you too 0.96

09:49:09.880 you're extremely romantic and will do the most for a guy besides stopping being a prostitute

09:49:15.900 not sure if this is a good or bad thing it just is what it is I like it when you know I look I 0.62

09:49:22.480 like when a girl makes the first move first off if she's like a girl's a groupie and she watches 0.99

09:49:26.860 my show i don't know who the fuck you are you gotta dm me like how am i gonna find you i don't 0.99

09:49:32.360 like look at who comments on my shit i don't like i don't look at my likes i got too many likes 0.99

09:49:36.960 you gotta send a dm so i like oh my god natalia my my favorite groupie speaking of show that 0.98

09:49:43.360 pull it up pull it up nathaniel nathaniel pull up my favorite oh voice crack yikes

09:49:54.620 natalia my favorite groupie oh i love natalia love natalia she's my favorite uh 20 gifted subs

09:50:02.900 thank you guys thank natalia thank you oh you no i meant the chat you guys you guys should talk 0.98

09:50:09.540 shit about no i'm just kidding don't talk shit natalia okay uh i don't know i i think a woman 0.95

09:50:15.760 can take initiative in a feminine way oh say more can you give me an example 0.99

09:50:21.040 milk so guys guys i'm just curious no i know i'll answer it quick then we're gonna wrap

09:50:29.140 so a girl like don't approach a guy whether it's text or even in like in person whatever 0.98

09:50:37.320 don't be like aggressive with it in the sense of like want some pussy no don't say that i mean 0.98

09:50:44.840 some guys might still go for it but that's a bit much but you can be like oh excuse me sir 0.99

09:50:51.620 you know like go up to him in like a more feminine way like not

09:50:56.280 like you can still be soft and gentle and be like okay like a little bashful like 1.00

09:51:01.340 you know you can do that shit and nathan nathan no just be a little 1.00

09:51:07.220 does he excuse me senpai i thought you were cute you can do that shit okay and like that's you 1.00

09:51:15.080 making the first move i don't think that's feminine though maybe like walking up to them 0.98

09:51:19.080 making small talk is feminine yeah but saying saying directly you're cute is not feminine

09:51:25.420 well it doesn't have to be exactly that wordage it can't be direct right it can't be direct

09:51:34.520 no i think a girl can be direct but in it can still be like you can still let it be known

09:51:41.180 not no you can also play it more indirect you could be just kind of make conversation with him

09:51:46.020 you know i don't know in like i don't know where you're not just like letting on that you like the

09:51:52.480 guy and maybe he'll get the hint but you can also let the guy know in still like a non-aggressive

09:51:57.780 feminine way and that's cool too me personally i don't really mind i don't like aggressive but like

09:52:05.720 up front forthcoming not blunt isn't the right word but like a girl could just dm you approach

09:52:14.840 you just thought you're cute i'm interested like it could just be as simple as that i don't think

09:52:21.760 that that comes across as like aggressive or anything i could maybe change the wording a

09:52:26.560 little bit there to make it but i don't think it's feminine i can make it well i could change

09:52:30.420 the wording there to make it a bit more flowery in a way that uh flowery flowery that's right

09:52:36.340 uh let's see here okay let me see if there's any chats that's it for all the notes any final

09:52:41.280 thoughts from any y'all before i wrap up the show we need the friend should she return for

09:52:47.260 the closing the oh no too much just like to wave goodbye no we should just go to bed

09:52:53.800 She said no

09:52:55.880 Perfect

09:52:57.100 Makeup removal

09:53:01.040 Will you take off your makeup

09:53:02.220 When I get home yeah

09:53:04.460 To the suite

09:53:06.800 To the suite

09:53:08.640 Vitesse

09:53:09.660 I don't like being told what to do

09:53:13.520 Vitesse

09:53:15.340 Vitesse

09:53:17.940 Vite

09:53:19.060 Vite

09:53:20.660 how do you say let's go to sleep in french all right well let me uh get the outro going here

09:53:38.040 um let me get the let me get the outro going oh she's coming back

09:53:43.500 you can just

09:53:46.680 wave

09:53:47.760 I'm jealous

09:53:51.040 you don't even have to talk

09:53:53.820 do you want to just be

09:53:55.020 okay that's fine

09:53:58.080 okay hold on one sec while I get this

09:54:01.880 wrapped up any final thoughts

09:54:04.160 from

09:54:05.640 do you want to take your makeup off

09:54:08.200 I'll bring it for home thank you

09:54:10.360 well you can't take it

09:54:12.280 That's literally, that'd be stealing.

09:54:16.900 Well, I just said I would smell like that.

09:54:21.140 I'm going to need to disinfect that now. 1.00

09:54:23.420 Fuck. 1.00

09:54:24.400 Maybe I should just keep it. 1.00

09:54:25.780 Maybe she should take it, then. 1.00

09:54:26.760 No, we'll clone you. 0.92

09:54:28.980 Okay. 0.97

09:54:29.440 You put your DNA on that, so.

09:54:31.460 Oh, my God. 1.00

09:54:33.060 Little China clones. 0.99

09:54:35.100 Okay, wait.

09:54:35.900 I'm going to say something from the movie The Matrix.

09:54:37.900 Nom de dieu, de putain, de bordel, de mer, de salope, de connaître, de incouler de ta mer.

09:54:49.800 I'm rapping, Nathan.

09:54:51.440 You said that an hour ago.

09:54:53.000 I'm rapping, Nathaniel.

09:54:55.980 Patience.

09:54:56.880 Okay, we're rapping.

09:54:57.860 We're rapping.

09:54:59.260 Okay, okay, okay.

09:55:00.780 Are we forgetting anything?

09:55:02.320 No.

09:55:03.640 Are we forgetting anything?

09:55:04.300 Guys, guys, if you enjoyed the stream 0.98

09:55:06.600 I need you to like the motherfucking video 0.98

09:55:09.340 What do you 0.98

09:55:09.740 Okay, like the video guys

09:55:14.360 Like the video if you enjoyed the stream

09:55:15.900 We're not going to do the AI 0.91

09:55:18.060 We don't have fucking time for that 0.97

09:55:19.400 Let me make sure no chats came through 0.99

09:55:20.780 And I'm going to wrap this shit up 0.99

09:55:23.060 We're going to wrap this up 0.99

09:55:25.620 Wrap it up 1.00

09:55:26.760 Like you should do if you're seeing a prostitute at Cherry's Ranch 1.00

09:55:30.520 Oh my god 1.00

09:55:31.520 Because it's legally required 0.99

09:55:32.780 not because they're prostitutes 0.76

09:55:35.360 but because you do have to wear condoms 0.86

09:55:37.580 legally. Condoms are mandatory

09:55:39.100 Condoms are mandatory

09:55:40.520 at Sherry's Ranch 0.97

09:55:42.320 Sherry's Ranch

09:55:43.880 Sherry's Ranch

09:55:46.300 We do have a chat that I missed

09:55:51.220 Can you read it

09:55:53.280 My Canadian Lover

09:55:54.680 Can we please bring back

09:55:57.440 chair number two lover 1.00

09:55:58.940 I'll come on the podcast if she comes back

09:56:01.560 I don't know who Lizzie is.

09:56:02.920 I'm sorry.

09:56:03.600 Who's Lizzie?

09:56:05.500 And then these came through that are not reads, but are shows.

09:56:10.700 All right.

09:56:11.360 I think that's it.

09:56:12.220 Okay.

09:56:13.080 I feel like I'm forgetting something.

09:56:14.640 Tiffany, do you...

09:56:16.240 You know what?

09:56:16.940 While I got Tiffany here, one question.

09:56:19.760 Are you attracted... 0.88

09:56:21.240 Oh, my God.

09:56:22.520 You're going to clip me. 0.95

09:56:23.140 Tiffany, are you attracted to Asian men? 0.93

09:56:25.720 Yes.

09:56:31.560 Okay

09:56:45.480 That's a long one

09:56:46.720 Okay, alright

09:56:48.100 Have you ever dated an Asian man? 1.00

09:56:51.900 Yeah, I'm gonna wait until you wrap things up 1.00

09:56:54.200 Wait, wait, wait

09:56:56.180 I'm literally, wait, sit down

09:56:57.200 I'm literally wrapping

09:56:57.960 No, just sit

09:56:58.840 Sit

09:56:59.860 Can you sit?

09:57:01.100 i'm literally ending the show don't tell me what to do you're not going to stay for the outro

09:57:09.580 really i'm literally ending the show right now

09:57:15.900 okay i can see why you date younger men all right

09:57:20.460 yep i guess that canadian threesomes off the table what's that 1.00

09:57:25.340 The 18 year old boy toys that you fuck 1.00

09:57:34.460 You realize I would have ended the show 1.00

09:57:38.060 I'm literally okay. Well, she wouldn't know this. I literally had my outro pulled up and you very rudely

09:57:47.300 Very rudely 0.99

09:57:51.400 I'm literally trying to wrap the fucking show 0.99

09:57:55.820 It's polite to sit at the table for the outro. 0.98

09:58:02.460 Are you actually not going to do it?

09:58:04.960 Well, I'll tell you what.

09:58:05.960 You can either return and be polite for the outro.

09:58:08.900 I'm literally going to read the outro.

09:58:10.360 It takes 30 seconds. 0.98

09:58:11.640 You can do that, or you can get the fuck out. 0.98

09:58:13.900 How about that? 1.00

09:58:19.920 Eh, maybe you should just get the fuck out then. 0.99

09:58:23.060 I would have, but we had a little arrangement before to show that I'm going to need, you know. 0.99

09:58:30.320 Oh, the deposit you paid because you flaked previously, so we charged you a deposit and you want it back?

09:58:35.780 Yeah, okay, whatever.

09:58:38.200 All right, sometimes we have to charge people deposits so they show up.

09:58:41.900 Okay.

09:58:44.600 It's a you thing.

09:58:46.100 All right.

09:58:47.880 Let's see here.

09:58:49.620 Where is it?

09:58:50.560 Hold on. 0.99

09:58:50.920 g uh where is it what the fuck do i not oh there it is gg well played well played last call hit 0.94

09:59:01.000 the like button please on your way out also please leave a nice comment once the live ends 0.96

09:59:07.460 i read them positivity is nice and it helps the algorithm thank you for tuning in tonight you

09:59:14.380 could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to

09:59:20.100 everyone who super chats donates and supports the show we could not do it without you we will be

09:59:25.100 live again sunday actually no we have a debate uh i think on the 7th i believe we have a debate on

09:59:31.620 the 7th but dating talk will be back sunday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show you

09:59:35.960 can dm out whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara let me see oh sevens in the

09:59:40.240 chat oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat let me just double check make sure no chats came

09:59:45.520 through hello load nope okay oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat good night guys and

09:59:55.060 we will see you we will see you either i'm pretty sure for a debate on the 7th uh and then dating

10:00:03.700 talk on the 10th oh sevens in the chat good night guys good night okay cool did anybody lie about 0.98

10:00:13.040 their body count now that we're wrapped does anybody want to oh fuck we're still live nathan 0.97

10:00:21.020 oh my goodness good night guys 1.00

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Whatever Podcast - May 04, 2026

French Girl SURRENDERS And WALKS OFF Show？! DELUSIONAL？! ＂Old Fashioned＂ ØF GIRL？! ｜ Dating Talk 293

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