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00:02:32.980 announcement here before we get into the guest intros uh madison so a lot of you've been asking

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00:03:10.800 guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead hi my name

00:03:17.320 is rogue i am 32 i just turned 32 two days ago happy birthday thank you um i work at a plastic surgery

00:03:25.020 office i'm an adult entertainer um i also go to school full-time uh for x-ray technician and i also

00:03:33.600 teach pole dancing wow okay quite a lot and do you uh when you say you do adult content what kind of

00:03:40.920 adult content only fans okay well but what do you do on only fans oh i do full adult content so

00:03:47.960 okay bg yeah um bg f fm uh swapping bg yeah all the things what's the most amount of bs uh just two

00:03:58.560 just two usually just swaps yeah i i work with only couples so other relationships got it okay

00:04:06.180 what about you uh my name is isabella i'm 18 i live here in santa barbara and i'm a student at ucsb

00:04:12.740 all right welcome back what do you study i study psych psych okay what about you my name's keely i'm

00:04:19.260 18 i'm from santa barbara and i'm currently a student too all right what are you studying interior

00:04:24.400 design interior design and are you at the uc or the cc cc got it okay what about you i'm ria i'm 18

00:04:30.860 i live here too and i go to the cc and i'm studying psychology all right i'm mallory i'm 18 as well i go

00:04:40.000 to the cc and i'm studying communication all right and are you guys from santa barbara or where are you

00:04:47.340 guys all from we're from sacramento originally all three of you yeah we came to school together for

00:04:51.660 the cc okay so you're friends from back home god what about you i'm marcy i just turned 37 on

00:04:58.060 friday i'm from orlando florida and i work in project management all right i'm megan i'm 33

00:05:05.800 i'm a operations and logistics manager and i coach volleyball and i'm from orlando florida all right

00:05:11.760 welcome yo what's good guys say it's a gave it's a version otherwise known as chess bra 38 years old

00:05:17.460 from sydney australia full-time sitcom wbff pro soon to be ifbb pro multiple business owner and

00:05:23.480 i'm happy to be here all right perfect good to have you man good to have you actually wait before

00:05:27.600 or at liam let's have you intro but then i got some questions for you oh this is gonna be good

00:05:31.740 uh my name is uh liam 36 years old uh the cereal entrepreneur not that i sell cereal i just have

00:05:37.660 multiple businesses so um just want to make that clear you should get into cereal though you know i'm

00:05:42.720 gonna hold you to that where's my frosty flakes bitch we're going into business together it would

00:05:47.260 probably be the only thing i haven't sold to be fair so yeah we're gonna we're gonna start a

00:05:51.660 cereal business right if we don't it'd be a crime no frosty flakes we're here to make money not

00:05:55.700 commit crime so um i'd love to start a cereal crikey flakes no no cracky crackers crikey crackers there

00:06:01.640 you go then i really will be a cereal then i really will be a cereal entrepreneur there you go

00:06:06.160 yeah so that's me you've got some questions for my brother on the left i do yeah so um

00:06:11.420 um you know i i are you aware of course it's okay uh first off for uh can you pull up the first

00:06:20.120 photo all right um sorry guys we're well it's okay i'll have that effect training wheels i'll have

00:06:30.860 that effect on people all right um tell me what's on your mind brian huh what are you thinking yeah

00:06:36.960 yeah so so your brother is ziz ziz r.i.p that's you guys a long time yes 14 years ago yeah 14 years

00:06:45.440 ago and we have uh wait morgan can you hold up we actually have that exact we did some yes i've seen

00:06:51.060 it yeah i've seen it actually in your podcasting stories there it is it's exactly the same it just

00:06:56.060 looks a bit modern yeah yeah and uh and so but and i was familiar guys with you guys way back during

00:07:02.820 the misc oh yeah i heard you on the misc forums can you pull it up uh pull up the

00:07:06.740 yeah that we just saw that one the the next the next tab over

00:07:19.860 i'm sure it's worth it all right there it is so this is and here's the crazy thing for the for

00:07:29.620 the viewers out there uh we'll come back to that in just a sec forms they they got rid of the

00:07:34.800 bodybuilding.com forums a week ago actually yeah i've seen it all over the instagram it's very sad

00:07:40.820 it's very sad pull it back up yeah so this is the old misc the bodybuilding forum go to the next tab

00:07:46.840 and then dude i've got a question for you what was your name on the misc oh i can't say that i

00:07:50.860 can't say that but there's the reps do you remember the reps and the negs yeah do you remember um what

00:07:55.620 was that guy with a pirate he would have his hands tied behind his back and then all you guys are do i

00:08:00.560 have potential you remember that thread potential oh my god that was legendary and then the dude

00:08:06.020 they've got like a thousand fucking threads the debate over how many days in a week in before clive

00:08:11.880 yes in before in before clive ah those were the days oh my god those were the days um that takes

00:08:18.720 me back i actually posted on there about six months ago i just chimed in just for the hell of

00:08:22.960 it just made a thread pop like pop back in there and just like ask a chess brother or anything yeah

00:08:27.600 posted like a little fucking photo like in a spoon photo just approvals me and everyone's just

00:08:31.780 like typing away and reached like six seven pages but i don't know man it was just different

00:08:35.400 it was like more toxic and i don't know more toxic yeah yeah just it seems like it had less

00:08:40.200 lifters and i feel like people from our time and our generation like you're my age 30 35 yeah see

00:08:46.040 i'm 38 so i feel like people from our time like internet was a lot different back then there was

00:08:50.560 like more bullying everyone just it was more crude everyone just said whatever they wanted to say

00:08:54.340 there was none of this pc bullshit culture people were just unapologetically unapologetically

00:08:59.280 themselves and it was raw and it was real and it was a great time to be alive you know what i mean so

00:09:03.280 rest in peace to the misc r.i.p to the misc you will be missed all right please can you get some

00:09:09.040 uh emojis in the chat r.i.p's in the chat uh and i i'm brian atlas 35 from santa barbara california

00:09:16.940 uh over the hill has been washed up youtuber is my profession and uh let's see here uh oh we'll go

00:09:24.580 around with everybody's relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship friends with

00:09:30.660 benefits relationship married polycule sex cult harem whatever it may be if you're single how long

00:09:35.600 have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in um i'm in a

00:09:39.640 polyamorous relationship we've been together for three and a half years i uh broke up with my ex

00:09:45.400 husband of seven years and that was my longest relationship who initiated the divorce that was me

00:09:51.160 that was you yeah okay all right and uh you're in a poly relationship for the past 3.5 years

00:09:58.360 poly swinger kind of style relationship okay i guess that's just the best words to put towards

00:10:04.360 it wait wait what does that mean does that mean you guys couple swap and all that shit yeah okay

00:10:09.680 yeah and your husband's fine with that no no i broke up with him and then so now your boyfriend's

00:10:14.460 fine with it yeah do you feel like do you honestly question like do you do you feel like he loves you

00:10:19.480 if he lets you sleep with other men i do actually because um how old is he my ride or die best friend

00:10:24.460 how old is he and how long have you guys been together so we've been together for three and a

00:10:28.160 half years okay he is 42 and i am 32 okay he's a bit older okay yeah yeah and after i divorced my

00:10:35.840 husband i just didn't want to be held down and we ended up just we were best friends and then it

00:10:40.760 turned into could you could you have a relationship that's just monogamous oh yeah i could but i think

00:10:45.960 what i have right now is just works and that's what i'm here for and who put that on the table is that

00:10:50.900 you or your partner uh it was kind of uh i really like you but i don't want to be um like i'm like

00:10:57.980 don't want to be stuck with just one person right now because i was in a relationship for so long

00:11:03.240 yeah and he's like okay well let's just have fun together see what happens and we that's what we've

00:11:08.380 been doing ever since okay so if you guys say if you guys get married because you guys still see

00:11:12.640 yourself doing that if you have children if you have a family yes and most of the people that are

00:11:17.280 friends have children and have families and they do the same thing wow okay all right and so the

00:11:23.240 whole part oh did you have more no just i'm it really just interests me because i'm like i'm really

00:11:27.500 old school like i have a partner we've been together almost two years and i've always just

00:11:31.420 been like a one woman man kind of guy you know what i mean like i'm not gonna sit here and pretend

00:11:35.020 i'm an angel like i had a very fruitful past but when it comes to like dating and being with a

00:11:39.860 woman that i love i can't imagine being or bringing other people into the relationship i don't know

00:11:45.320 call me old school old-fashioned whatever i just think it's just that it's just easy it's just it's

00:11:49.060 nice it feels wholesome and somewhere just in a man's fucking brain if you just picture your woman

00:11:55.460 with another man it just makes me just want to like it just makes me sick to be honest and i don't know

00:11:58.940 how society can be like that today so that's fucking disgusting exactly what i thought is that kind of

00:12:04.240 pretty much okay yeah pretty much but i mean each to their own some person's yuck is another person's

00:12:09.320 yum right yeah each to their own you know whatever makes you happy but i genuinely do think

00:12:13.200 and you know correct me if i'm wrong in 10 years down the line i genuinely do think

00:12:17.080 one party will regret it sooner rather than later it's funny because a lot of the couples we do play

00:12:22.080 with they've been together for 12 years sometimes even more and oh yeah there's definitely there's

00:12:27.740 definitely a market there's definitely a market for it yeah i feel like it goes into that because

00:12:31.360 you i feel like it goes into that more with older people i've seen all the swingers in their 50s

00:12:35.800 and 60s when they're almost fucking dead i think i think the older you get the more you realize

00:12:42.020 that sex is sometimes just so superficial it's about really loving somebody for who they are and

00:12:47.440 i personally just want somebody who i can have fun with and just explore the world with and just be

00:12:53.100 like my best friend i mean well but so what does that have to do with being poly you're not really

00:12:58.620 like answering his i mean because you could do that great but but could you dicks are great no but

00:13:03.860 all the things you just said you could have all that in a monogamous relationship yeah but i also

00:13:08.180 really love people but you said you could have a monogamous relationship i could but i don't know

00:13:13.620 could you really so much fun right now it's okay if you can't that's totally cool everyone's different

00:13:17.340 you know what i mean like i'm just like genuinely like it makes me curious i have in the past and i

00:13:22.100 i enjoyed it and you know i was faithful in the past but i think what i have now is it's new and

00:13:28.820 it's different and it feels right so that's what i'm doing what's the scope of your polyamorous

00:13:34.520 relationship so typically id like one guy it's it's mostly just couples like we all do single females

00:13:42.260 too because i'm also bi um but it's usually just couple swapping we've never really had like single

00:13:48.960 dudes so when couple swapping you'll meet another uh heterosexual couple yeah male female you'll

00:13:56.820 sleep with the male you'll sleep with the woman essentially okay and then um do you ever go with

00:14:03.060 single men no no but you will go single women yeah okay we're but you'll take a single man if

00:14:10.280 there's a man and a woman yeah well no no no they have to be in a couple they have to be in a

00:14:14.760 relationship if they're in a relationship then you'd swap then i'd swap yeah okay so this is

00:14:18.940 what i don't understand then how come like if a single bachelor buck just came in there just

00:14:23.260 decided to join in on your shenanigans shenanigans why would he get a no straight away the reason why

00:14:29.240 i don't do that is because your partner doesn't get something out of it no i think the guys sometimes

00:14:33.400 get clingy when the guys are in a relationship then they're in a relationship with their girl and

00:14:39.440 they're less likely to get clingy with me oh wow i didn't even know that myself so interesting yeah

00:14:45.720 it's kind of it is it is a boundary it creates a boundary i thought women get clingy having sex

00:14:51.020 with men on it no guys get clingy jeez yeah my might have the times to change people

00:14:55.680 so moving on uh what about you uh i'm taken and my longest relationship was a year

00:15:03.200 all right and were you uh last time you were on the show were you in a relationship yes

00:15:07.820 okay all right

00:15:11.400 dinner on brian tonight let's go baby i declare bankruptcy i declare bankruptcy wait how's it

00:15:21.000 i got this i'm never gonna promise brian's taking us to dinner tonight i guess so yo thank you so much

00:15:25.920 man that's huge uh i uh the office fan do i have any office no god no god please no uh let's see

00:15:38.880 what else i don't know what we're talking about uh thank you man really appreciate it man that's

00:15:45.460 your legend uh we'll pop the champagne just as soon as we just get everybody's relationship

00:15:50.940 status so we're in a relationship oh bro i only got dr rainbow i don't have that many

00:15:57.940 999 dollars oh come on pop champagne why not a thousand like the other guy but only with one

00:16:03.900 man and multiple women cheers whatever yo anonymous dr rainbow thank you so much man uh i didn't have

00:16:10.500 no idea thank you hey both of you guys he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer yo thank you

00:16:16.300 guys i how i think we only have how many champagne bombs that's it oh well well hey maybe i gotta

00:16:23.040 send somebody down pull that goody good out of you uh we'll just put it down here and then i'll pop

00:16:27.020 both of them uh as soon as we get through the relationship status we'll we'll get to it in just

00:16:31.980 a moment here uh so okay you were how long you've been in the relationship for uh nine months now nine

00:16:38.180 months okay it's a male yeah okay just just checking and um how did you guys meet uh through school

00:16:45.720 through school okay what about you i'm currently in a relationship right now and my longest

00:16:52.340 relationship was a year and a half before that how long is this current relationship just a couple

00:16:58.840 months three three months yeah yeah and your longest relationship was one year you said all right who

00:17:05.300 broke up with who um it was a really bad messy breakup i would say that he broke up with me he broke up

00:17:14.120 with you yeah okay was there like infidelity or cheating or it was just we didn't see eye to eye

00:17:20.740 on a lot of stuff and we were just fighting a lot and i just don't think that we like ended up liking

00:17:26.280 each other as much as we thought we would was there cheating though or no it was just a lot of fighting

00:17:31.080 drama yeah like drama and conflict and we just weren't made for each other all right how did you meet

00:17:36.220 the current guy that you're dating now um i met him on social media and he lives down here so we met

00:17:41.920 down here you met him on so he slid into your dm yes he did okay all right is he a tiktoker or

00:17:48.560 something or no he he uh i forget he just honestly texted me just like snap with a question mark

00:17:57.000 you snapchat yeah that was it question mark on instagram dm that was his line and i was like

00:18:02.300 yes he did you got yes i had to stalk the account first but he did wait can we

00:18:07.360 just okay i'll send it in private chat um what about you oh um i'm single right now

00:18:15.700 yeah okay um how long you've been single for um since like last september

00:18:22.740 okay uh so over a year you've been single yeah uh longest relationship like three months three months

00:18:32.280 was that the one that ended yeah okay who broke up with who um i i broke up with him

00:18:38.580 all right uh why because i just like didn't like him anymore yeah you didn't like him anymore yeah

00:18:47.660 just lost feelings and yeah i was bored you got bored kind of like someone else oh a lot okay when so

00:18:54.260 what when you say you're bored what does that mean um i don't know it just got boring you know

00:19:02.640 we were like long distance so it's like i couldn't really see him as much as i wanted to

00:19:06.440 and it just just ended up like that's what happens not working out you know okay long distance all right

00:19:14.520 uh and but so you're single now yes are you on dating apps no no uh any any guys in the picture

00:19:21.560 no no no guys in the picture okay nothing absolutely nothing sneaky link no and you've

00:19:30.560 been single for a year about a year and a month uh so there's been no guys in the picture for the

00:19:36.240 past year oh well no just as of right now no okay what's the law uh since the breakup of the three

00:19:42.940 month relationship that was about a year ago what's the longest period of time you've seen a guy in

00:19:47.480 between then say that again wait just uh so you've been single for a year and a half or a year and a

00:19:55.080 month yeah but you have been maybe talking to some guys here and there yes what's the longest like for

00:20:01.460 one month two months three months oh probably like like eight months like oh like off and on

00:20:09.240 okay but it wasn't official no okay so you wouldn't consider that a relationship no okay

00:20:15.900 when you say off and on what do you mean like it just was off and on sometimes we would like hang

00:20:21.660 out sometimes we wouldn't how did you guys meet through like school you met at a party or high

00:20:28.140 school oh okay yeah all right so you guys would like hook up infrequently kind of yeah okay i see

00:20:34.840 all right what about you um i'm in a relationship right now and it's the longest one i've had how

00:20:41.560 long it's nearing a year like nine months right now all right how do you guys meet we met through

00:20:48.600 because her ex-boyfriend is my current boyfriend's like best friend oh oh not as bad as i thought it

00:20:55.420 was gonna be but yes we met through them because they were dating and we were really close and they

00:21:00.000 were really close so we just they kind of like set us up and then we've been dating ever since then

00:21:04.800 so wait not her ex-boyfriend no no no her ex-boyfriend's best friend okay yes i guess

00:21:11.280 that's not too bad yeah yeah that gets a pass slash roommate yeah slash roommate slash roommate

00:21:17.700 and uh okay what about you i am engaged we have been together for we think four years we're not

00:21:27.040 really sure it just kind of happened my longer relationship was like nine or ten years my whole

00:21:33.720 20s basically all right um and you've been in gateway your whole 20s was there like a three-year

00:21:43.320 break between the 10-year relationship and this most recent one yeah i was single for about six

00:21:49.280 years yeah about five or six years in between all right who broke up with who in the 10-year

00:21:53.480 relationship which time the final time was me okay uh so it was on again off again yeah it was a really

00:22:02.840 how many times toxic four or five times i would say you said it was really toxic yeah it was a lot of

00:22:09.580 cheating what did you do that was toxic a lot of cheating on his end and i didn't know how to

00:22:13.680 communicate well and i didn't understand boundaries so i kind of just kept believing his excuses and kept

00:22:19.960 taking him back and then finally had enough and walked away you said he he was cheating yeah did

00:22:25.220 you do uh any cheating or no okay all right what about you i'm single um the last relationship was

00:22:33.900 about six years ago and it was about a year long all right who broke up with who i broke up with him

00:22:42.160 and you're uh that was your longest relationship was like a year yeah was the last one yeah i see

00:22:49.500 okay all right why did you break up with him um my mental health wasn't doing very well because you

00:22:55.380 were with him or just in general in general in general yeah i was struggling so i couldn't be there

00:23:03.060 for him so what uh okay all right um uh what about you so i'm in my longest relationship currently

00:23:13.140 uh almost two years love of my life most likely we get married um besides from that uh i've just

00:23:22.040 the longest relationship is from that it's probably been a year year and a half so i've had short

00:23:26.720 relationships here and there um and before that i was single for quite a long time and just you know

00:23:32.240 focusing on my career focusing on business traveling the world i'm what they call a fitness

00:23:36.900 influencer so you know i never really committed myself to anything um you know important or

00:23:42.420 meaningful until i got a bit older until i realized you know what really matters in life family

00:23:46.140 love uh business you know just creating a legacy a long-lasting legacy something that will like

00:23:52.380 withstand the test of time so she's watching right now so shout out to my babe i hope you're enjoying

00:23:57.460 this um yeah australia or no she's here she came down with me okay very cool she's just watching

00:24:02.980 this from her laptop as she works so very cool and just so everyone knows she's um she's a very

00:24:08.680 successful woman as well she almost turns as much as i do she's absolutely killing it she's a head of

00:24:14.220 customer service for a really big company not going to say too much because i'm going to keep her a

00:24:18.880 little bit private and i'd like to add as well i'd like to keep my partners private i'm in the social

00:24:23.720 media world quite a lot so i like to protect the people that i love and not really let them be seen

00:24:28.420 in the social media realm because you know it's really toxic and sometimes you know you don't need

00:24:32.900 to parade the best things around in life on social media so you know i hope you ladies can learn

00:24:37.720 something from like older gentlemen such as myself that you know love is really good when you find it

00:24:42.300 and this is coming from someone who's a massive fuck boy when i was younger like i was one of the

00:24:45.520 worst like brian would probably know massive wait me no brian would know he was on the mist he's

00:24:50.900 probably seen it all but the best thing i can say is is uh growing up maturing and uh becoming a man

00:24:57.760 and just learning to love one woman and being one person how did you guys meet good question she

00:25:02.560 actually came up to me in the supermarket so i was uh prepping for a bodybuilding contest and she met

00:25:08.560 me in the frozen aisle section i was grabbing some peas and beans okay and she tapped me on the

00:25:12.640 tapped me on the shoulder so we knew each other through mutual friends but we had never met if that

00:25:16.900 makes sense yeah and then she just tapped me on the shoulder and yeah we just started talking and

00:25:21.320 i still ask her to this day i'm like wow what gave you like the courage to do that because she's really

00:25:25.120 shy and then she's like well i just i knew what you were like and i've heard like a bit about you and

00:25:30.500 this and that but because to me like most people like especially girls like it's normally the guys

00:25:35.040 going up to the girls like to court them and in courtship and all that kind of stuff but um you know

00:25:39.420 as well when you're like famous and well known it just kind of like scares a lot of like good girls away

00:25:44.920 what i've noticed like in the past the girls that i would hook up with and be with were just

00:25:49.460 no one of real like substance and no one that can really like keep me i guess keep me wanting to stay

00:25:56.320 around you know so she's really smart and i really value her intelligence she's absolutely beautiful

00:26:00.560 and uh yeah it was just um best thing that happened to me in my life i'm 38 years old now and

00:26:05.120 it's only now that i've just found love but you know i wouldn't have it any other way because

00:26:08.740 and i like to say this for like all men we need to get it out of our fucking system like seriously

00:26:13.020 we really do guys i hope you're all listening get whatever it is out of your system when you're

00:26:16.920 young and then you'll be much more inclined to settle down when you're older well done all right

00:26:22.140 liam what about you uh yes so my relationship status currently married to my job i'm a workaholic

00:26:27.880 so any girl i was with would have to be very tolerant and very patient very understanding so but i have

00:26:34.300 had three relationships um they were all beautiful women i have nothing but amazing things to say about all

00:26:38.940 of them so i've been very fortunate i've been very fortunate from that perspective um i've always

00:26:43.680 had amazing partners but i will say one thing about this gentleman next to me because we've been mates

00:26:48.360 for several years now and um being with his current partner is the happiest i've ever seen him

00:26:54.620 and i've been that's real sweet bro no no for real no no hear me out hear me out but like i've been

00:26:59.080 i've got a little bit of a gift where i can predict things that are going to happen and remember that

00:27:03.060 was at one point where i said i feel like someone's going to come into your life it's about two years ago

00:27:06.720 two years ago it's going to be very special i said i don't know what it is but i just feel it

00:27:10.560 and i feel that you attract the best partner when you're the best version of yourself and

00:27:16.260 say he met his partner when he was the best version of himself and a lot of happiness has come from

00:27:21.500 that so i always say to people it's when you're your best self you'll have the fewest friends you'll

00:27:27.140 have smaller circles of friends but you'll also attract the best i gotta jump into that that only is

00:27:32.100 applicable for men so as a man in the dating world you need to you need to become a high value

00:27:36.580 man you need to go on the journey a man's journey you need to you need to go through a whole bunch of

00:27:40.240 fucking hurt and pain before you can of course and more you can become like desirable correct

00:27:44.860 and no one's been through more of that nothing's nothing's least desirable than like a 20 year old

00:27:48.340 broke-ass bum well you know when when a man hits like he's 30s and plus and he's successful he's

00:27:53.280 doing well for himself that's kind of when like when he gets visible you girls right now this is like

00:27:58.600 hey my man hey chest bro can we get to this pose and this dance hey also can the two australians say

00:28:08.680 no not now now come on man what are you talking about no no no okay all right um i could definitely

00:28:17.600 give you the pose but i ain't about to get up here and dance for you brother this one's with

00:28:21.080 the big man up there let's go baby i hope you fucking screenshotted that one um also can i

00:28:26.100 quickly do you want to present the gifts for the whatever audience yeah sure okay so i've been

00:28:29.680 sponsored by two brands to be here one is i want a gummies these gummies are going viral i get to i'll

00:28:33.980 get to those in a minute um i currently own seven brands they'll do seven figures i've got over 700

00:28:39.440 creators that promote the products for us um and my team kept getting hit up by people that wanted to

00:28:44.360 learn how to do this so what we did is we put every resource i've ever had every book i've written

00:28:48.920 every ebook every training seminar every webinar we've got merch we've got books we put it all into

00:28:53.740 one box so we called the box the money box now there's around the money box so there's around

00:29:02.360 one second it's gonna pop this down sorry so there's around twenty thousand dollars worth of value in that

00:29:09.140 box but as a gift to the whatever audience if you use the code whatever you'll get forty percent

00:29:14.140 off which means you'll get twenty thousand dollars worth of value for around fifty bucks access

00:29:18.620 everything um raid the store for real because it's going to sell out like i don't even know if we

00:29:22.840 have enough stock so that's the first one the money box the second product that i have

00:29:27.340 i wanted gummies so these have been going viral i'm pretty sure we sold over a thousand units the

00:29:35.300 other months we did over a quarter million dollars worth of sales we can't even keep up with these gummy

00:29:39.780 bears so it's got a beautiful luxury box with gummy bears to help you wake up rest relax focus and sleep

00:29:48.160 um obviously i have adhd so i need to sleep once quite a lot but we cannot keep up with demand for

00:29:54.640 these products so as a second gift to everyone on the whatever podcast you're going to get forty

00:30:00.700 percent off everything in store so last time we had people raid the store we couldn't even keep up with

00:30:06.320 sales i recommend use that code whatever because you get forty percent off everything we've even got

00:30:12.200 a trial box which gets you two hundred bucks worth of gummies for twenty five bucks and you get forty

00:30:16.860 percent off that too so as i said raid both stores because we will run out of stock and these products

00:30:22.880 pump money back guarantee forty percent off everyone from whatever get at it and we do have the links if

00:30:29.660 you guys are interested those are in the description of the video uh and i do have one chat that came in

00:30:35.460 here from the office fan hey brian love the pod while i disagree with some things you all chat about

00:30:41.920 on here i enjoy and appreciate the conversation slash debate thanks for everything you do speaking of

00:30:48.220 which we do still have those two champagne pops i should have been getting this prepped up do we have

00:30:53.960 cups by the way for the guests who uh oh they are okay cool i'll get those uh so um let's see

00:31:03.460 one sec guys while i get this popped who wants champagne you gotta be

00:31:08.840 hey uh brian one once we are since we're doing the celebrations and we're doing a bit of a sales pitch

00:31:15.100 i might just chuck my bit in there before we finish okay guys so

00:31:18.480 all right welcome to the uh qvc whatever podcast

00:31:26.420 i'm gonna get this one out of the way real quick so we can move on with the show guys i am have my

00:31:35.420 own clothing brand it's called subversion fitness for all you guys that follow the ziz and chest

00:31:39.420 price story from back in the days from back in the misc days it's all the official apparel that me my

00:31:43.900 dearest brother used to wear festivals raves dance parties you know the go we got shorts we got jumpers

00:31:48.820 we got hoodies there's the logo yes thank you liam for holding it for me we can all see it

00:31:52.900 there's the logo on there so guys this business has been going for 10 years uh it's something

00:31:57.360 that i've launched uh as a commemoration to my brother who passed away 10 years ago and it's

00:32:02.600 something that helps to keep his name and memory alive yes i would love a glass of champagne my man

00:32:06.280 and so anyone that wants to support it i really much appreciate it code chad for a 10 discount

00:32:11.700 i've also gifted brian some clothes behind the scenes but i will also give him this pair of shorts

00:32:16.480 uh just chucking it here for him thank you very much brian there's more behind the scenes and

00:32:20.580 finally i'd just like to plug my pre-workout guys uh it's called level up so this is a pre-workout

00:32:27.020 that athletes bodybuilders anyone can take when they're training pre-training before sport

00:32:30.920 uh it's full of nootropics caffeine we've got citrulline better alanine creatine monohydrate

00:32:36.160 taurine caffeine uh it's one of those pre-workouts guys that isn't fully stimmed so it's not completely

00:32:42.040 strong and it won't wire the shit out of you but it will give you a nice focus a nice pump

00:32:46.460 nice energy with a nice tapered come down you know those pre-workouts that you take that are too

00:32:50.340 strong ain't nothing like that you can still go to sleep on this it tastes fucking delicious

00:32:54.220 it's amazing so this is from exclusive sups brian again will link all that stuff in the bio whatever

00:33:00.420 he does i'll leave that with him but you guys can grab this from exclusive sups uh there it is again

00:33:05.220 it's called level up and again one more thing before i go it also has nootropics in there which

00:33:10.100 is great for brain function sleep and just general activity throughout the day so thank you very much

00:33:14.420 well done does it go well with champagne we can try we can try we can try if you like i mean i

00:33:20.500 wouldn't recommend it but we can try this is pop number two we can try it all right sure

00:33:23.360 you want you want me to pour it in okay yeah i got you i got you oh send it this way

00:33:29.180 send it this way of course can we chuck in i can't believe you're gonna it'll give you a lot

00:33:33.560 of energy that's great that's cool that's what you want yeah i'm a sleepy baby all the time all right

00:33:37.040 you're the best there we go we don't have a scoop we'll just eyeball it for you

00:33:42.580 tell me if they taste nice

00:33:44.600 i'll be the judge of that

00:33:47.180 allow my company to gum in your mouth

00:33:50.680 that's how you eat them

00:33:53.640 yes

00:33:54.960 that's about

00:33:56.740 did you really put it in with champagne

00:34:00.380 of course

00:34:01.380 of course

00:34:02.380 mad mad

00:34:03.380 you know let me know how let me know how it goes i'm actually really interested

00:34:05.920 do you cheese over here do we cheese in america

00:34:07.920 if i get a heart attack yes let us do it

00:34:09.920 let us cheese sorry guys let us do cheers so uh two

00:34:13.580 where's my glass at oh shit did i get one or is that it here's yours he's yours he's yours

00:34:16.920 he's yours he's yours

00:34:17.920 no we got it we got it i think she didn't get one

00:34:19.920 i didn't get one it's fine

00:34:20.920 is it what's in here

00:34:22.720 oh what's in there

00:34:24.480 it actually smells really good

00:34:27.380 sorry guys hold on we got two champagne pops

00:34:30.380 it does smell good

00:34:31.380 they're really good they're delicious

00:34:32.380 yeah guys by the way you guys all should try the gummies they're really really good

00:34:35.380 yeah they're delicious

00:34:36.380 all right

00:34:37.380 except the sleep ones don't take the sleep on

00:34:38.380 dr rainbow to the office fan

00:34:41.380 cheers guys thank you so much for the champagne pops

00:34:44.380 cheers

00:34:45.380 cheers guys

00:34:46.380 what happens if people keep ordering we all get blind

00:34:49.380 yeah that could happen i guess

00:34:52.380 it's gonna become drinking bros

00:34:53.380 that's good

00:34:54.380 there it is

00:34:55.380 it is really good

00:34:56.380 it goes well with champagne by the way

00:34:57.380 oh yeah you like it thank you

00:34:58.380 there you go guys

00:34:59.380 it's a good level up pre-workout also goes great with champagne

00:35:01.380 that's the best

00:35:02.380 as said by the poly girl

00:35:04.380 poly is that what we call poly

00:35:06.380 yeah you can call me rogue

00:35:07.380 rogue

00:35:08.380 rogue

00:35:09.380 i'll call you rogue okay cool

00:35:10.380 as said by rogue thank you very much

00:35:12.380 all right so let's get into the show then

00:35:14.380 let's get right into the show

00:35:16.380 oh yeah

00:35:17.380 you're welcome thank you my friends thank you

00:35:18.380 all right guys so we're gonna get into the pre-show notes here

00:35:21.380 so who do we have first we have uh why don't we start with Isabella

00:35:26.380 yeah

00:35:27.380 Isabella you've been on the show before

00:35:28.380 i was just curious again i forgot what i i asked you this previously

00:35:31.380 uh your instagram username is what

00:35:34.380 uh ball smelly

00:35:36.380 what

00:35:38.380 what

00:35:39.380 what

00:35:40.380 uh yeah

00:35:41.380 why

00:35:42.380 why

00:35:43.380 just curious why

00:35:44.380 for fun you know just

00:35:45.380 shock value

00:35:46.380 do you smell the balls or

00:35:48.380 no but you know

00:35:50.380 it's just up there

00:35:51.380 stinky ball 69

00:35:53.380 that's funny man

00:35:54.380 oh my god

00:35:55.380 like are you talking about like tennis balls or

00:35:57.380 no like testicles

00:36:01.380 what

00:36:02.380 okay

00:36:03.380 that's a that's a crazy instagram username

00:36:05.380 riveting tail

00:36:06.380 does that mean you enjoy smelling them or like you would smell them if there was a pair available to sniff

00:36:10.380 um you know i'd rather not but

00:36:12.380 yeah

00:36:13.380 but if they were there you'd try sniffing them

00:36:15.380 um let's just say no

00:36:16.380 okay

00:36:17.380 hmm

00:36:18.380 so the title's a lie basically

00:36:20.380 it's for fun

00:36:21.380 let me have fun

00:36:22.380 you can have fun

00:36:23.380 i'm just teasing

00:36:24.380 going to uh

00:36:25.380 stellar

00:36:26.380 stellar rogue

00:36:27.380 do you prefer stellar or rogue

00:36:28.380 you can do rogue

00:36:29.380 okay

00:36:30.380 yeah

00:36:31.380 all right so

00:36:32.380 can you give us your twitter bio introduction

00:36:34.380 cause you gave us

00:36:35.380 you know ours but

00:36:36.380 it's nice though

00:36:37.380 or yours

00:36:38.380 my twitter

00:36:39.380 yeah cause you said like

00:36:41.380 do you recall your twitter bio introduction

00:36:44.380 oh

00:36:46.380 i made that a little while ago

00:36:47.380 so i do not

00:36:48.380 remember

00:36:49.380 okay i'll do it

00:36:50.380 i'll do it for you

00:36:51.380 so in your twitter bio

00:36:52.380 you say you're a stripper physics students

00:36:54.380 pro slut

00:36:55.380 porn star model

00:36:56.380 cum slut

00:36:57.380 bimbo curvy

00:36:58.380 adventurer

00:36:59.380 foodie

00:37:00.380 bookworm

00:37:01.380 bookworm

00:37:02.380 and kink fiend

00:37:03.380 exotic dancer

00:37:04.380 stripper

00:37:05.380 adult entertainer

00:37:06.380 and assistant in the plastic surgery office

00:37:07.380 uh

00:37:08.380 yeah that's why i didn't remember it cause it's a lot of things in a row

00:37:10.380 let's start with pro slut

00:37:12.380 yeah

00:37:13.380 what does that mean

00:37:14.380 i'm just really good at it

00:37:16.380 at being slutty

00:37:17.380 just living the

00:37:19.380 living

00:37:20.380 what does that mean

00:37:21.380 i feel like to be a slut is

00:37:23.380 it's it's a term that comes out of society for someone who is

00:37:27.380 obviously just a little bit more promiscuous

00:37:29.380 but i feel like sluts have a lot of fun and we get a bad rap about that so

00:37:33.380 pro slut

00:37:34.380 oh

00:37:35.380 you

00:37:36.380 sluts get a bad rap

00:37:37.380 yeah

00:37:38.380 i've i'm an ethical slut

00:37:40.380 what is

00:37:41.380 what is that

00:37:42.380 it means that for example like if i'm not gonna like hit on you if you are in a relationship

00:37:49.380 um

00:37:50.380 i thought i'm not gonna try to get with your partner or anything like that unless you guys both consent

00:37:55.380 i'm like really into consent i'm really into you know we can have fun but people have boundaries and i respect those boundaries

00:38:02.380 ethically

00:38:03.380 ethically

00:38:04.380 i thought that meant like carbon neutral semen or something

00:38:06.380 oh yeah absolutely

00:38:07.380 my carbon footprint

00:38:09.380 very low

00:38:10.380 organic semen only

00:38:12.380 grain fed

00:38:15.380 i don't know

00:38:16.380 okay cool

00:38:17.380 i've learned something

00:38:18.380 uh so when you say slut what do you mean

00:38:22.380 um i would say slut is just a term meaning um a girl who's more promiscuous

00:38:29.380 it's more of a modern day slang term for promiscuous i would say

00:38:33.380 okay

00:38:34.380 all right

00:38:35.380 and so you're in favor of promiscuity

00:38:37.380 i'm in favor of people doing whatever the fuck they want

00:38:40.380 as long as it's not hurting physically or mentally abusing others

00:38:45.380 do you think that hookup culture is a good thing or a bad thing

00:38:48.380 i feel like it is a bad thing if it's done the wrong way

00:38:51.380 how so

00:38:52.380 i feel like people go into something wanting like for example someone is looking for a relationship

00:38:59.380 another person is looking just to smash and the person that's looking for a relationship gets hurt

00:39:04.380 but if the person is hey i'm not looking for a relationship i just want to smash

00:39:08.380 do you consent to just doing that

00:39:11.380 then i feel like people get less hurt i think hookup culture is it's kind of like lying

00:39:15.380 it's trying to get somebody trying to get into somebody's pants without being forward that that's all you want from them

00:39:22.380 okay and uh so hookup culture bad but with caveats

00:39:29.380 is that your position kind of

00:39:32.380 okay so i mean what's the difference between promiscuity and hookup culture

00:39:35.380 that is a very good question

00:39:41.380 i would say

00:39:44.380 promiscuity is

00:39:46.380 having a very large sex drive

00:39:49.380 and that you want to

00:39:51.380 you know smash

00:39:53.380 and hookup culture is just

00:39:55.380 going out there

00:39:57.380 not really giving a crap about the other person in front of you

00:40:00.380 and just taking what you need from somebody

00:40:01.380 and i feel like that's the difference

00:40:04.380 you're not giving that person

00:40:06.380 the ability to bow out of that situation

00:40:08.380 they're thinking they're getting something

00:40:10.380 like a relationship or like a first date

00:40:13.380 that's going to maybe go into something else

00:40:15.380 but that person is

00:40:17.380 is only doing that thing to get to a final end

00:40:20.380 does that make sense

00:40:22.380 brian's like no

00:40:24.380 he's got all the wheels turning

00:40:26.380 okay

00:40:27.380 well i'll get more into that a bit later

00:40:28.380 but i do want to get into your notes here

00:40:31.380 so you said you've had some wild experiences on dating apps

00:40:34.380 and at events

00:40:35.380 including navigating polydynamics through the dating app

00:40:39.380 meeting people in the adult entertainment world

00:40:42.380 when you were in your early twenties

00:40:43.380 you were dating a 60 year old lawyer in town

00:40:46.380 he had a wife you didn't know about

00:40:48.380 and craziness ensued like things being stolen

00:40:51.380 propane tanks being thrown through windows

00:40:53.380 pepper spray etc

00:40:54.380 so why don't you tell us the story

00:40:55.380 wow you really did research

00:40:59.380 okay i was

00:41:01.380 how was i was 19 years old

00:41:03.380 i was working at my friend's

00:41:05.380 Chinese restaurant

00:41:07.380 and this guy comes in

00:41:08.380 and he was getting his corvette washed across the street

00:41:11.380 and i obviously you know take his order and stuff like that

00:41:14.380 he thinks i'm cute he gives me his number

00:41:16.380 and i'm and he originally gave me his number to offer me a job

00:41:20.380 and i was like cool like i'm in school i'd love to make more money than just being a waitress

00:41:23.380 so he ended up owning a casino building

00:41:27.380 not like a big casino but a small like casino

00:41:30.380 and uh he when he realized that i wasn't 21

00:41:34.380 he's like oh well i can't give you a job

00:41:36.380 but he even wanted other things

00:41:38.380 so um i didn't know this at the time

00:41:41.380 i was just you know i was just a little lady

00:41:44.380 so i kind of went over to his casino

00:41:47.380 he had a bar down there i played some games with him and then uh i kicked his butt at air hockey

00:41:53.380 and he wanted to take me on a shopping spree so i went to san francisco

00:41:57.380 so fast forward all the boring stuff that's how we met

00:42:00.380 could we do that please

00:42:02.380 yes a little bit of background but

00:42:05.380 so he ended up having a wife i had no idea about

00:42:07.380 um we were in his he i was with my brother on new year's and i got this crazy text of this girl

00:42:15.380 basically cussing me out saying that she was his wife all this stuff

00:42:19.380 i message him and i say what is this person messaging me like you never told me you were married

00:42:26.380 there was no pictures or anything at his house there was no women's clothing jewelry anything like his house

00:42:32.380 didn't have any female presence in it whatsoever

00:42:35.380 he told me they were separated

00:42:37.380 and i was like okay so he was still married but he didn't let me know

00:42:40.380 well things got a little crazier because

00:42:43.380 i he offered to have me come to his guest house

00:42:47.380 um he said that his

00:42:49.380 separated wife was staying at the main house right now

00:42:51.380 because she was in between traveling

00:42:53.380 and so he invited me over and i did

00:42:55.380 well she saw us through the window and lost her mind

00:42:58.380 she pushed open the door

00:42:59.380 um at this point he is like removing all my stuff like trying to hide my presence

00:43:05.380 which i was like uh what the fuck

00:43:07.380 he threw me out the window in the snow

00:43:09.380 so i had like shoes a dress and that's it

00:43:12.380 and he was like run

00:43:14.380 and i was like run in the woods in the snow

00:43:16.380 at like 11 o'clock at night

00:43:18.380 i was like

00:43:20.380 i just went i went up across the side of the building

00:43:23.380 well she knocks the door down

00:43:24.380 and then i just hear screaming

00:43:25.380 screaming

00:43:27.380 so i guess what happened was he

00:43:29.380 she pepper sprayed him

00:43:31.380 and uh it was very loud and scary sounding

00:43:35.380 i thought she stabbed him like multiple times

00:43:37.380 but it was pepper spray

00:43:39.380 this is the 60 plus year old lawyer

00:43:41.380 okay how long were you dating him for

00:43:43.380 uh i think at that point like three months

00:43:46.380 three months

00:43:48.380 yeah

00:43:49.380 yeah

00:43:50.380 all right

00:43:52.380 uh so

00:43:53.380 pretty significant age gap there

00:43:55.380 yeah it was kind of crazy

00:43:57.380 it just kind of happens

00:43:59.380 i was expecting like getting a job out of it

00:44:02.380 and it kind of turned into more

00:44:04.380 but i mean i wasn't very smart back then

00:44:07.380 like i've been through some stuff now

00:44:09.380 so i would definitely see that coming

00:44:11.380 but yeah that was not good

00:44:13.380 and she was scary

00:44:15.380 she like stuck her head out

00:44:16.380 was it like a typical like sugar relationship

00:44:18.380 like he'd pay for your shit

00:44:20.380 no i i honestly wish it was

00:44:22.380 it was so much more

00:44:24.380 drama than it was worth

00:44:26.380 was he paying for your stuff

00:44:27.380 giving you an allowance

00:44:28.380 anything like that

00:44:29.380 no he was just he just wanted to travel with me

00:44:31.380 and like he just

00:44:32.380 so did he take you

00:44:33.380 did he travel with you

00:44:35.380 yeah we never left

00:44:36.380 where did you guys go

00:44:37.380 we just went up and down the coast of California

00:44:39.380 and stayed at nice places and shopped around

00:44:41.380 okay so he'd shop for you

00:44:42.380 he'd buy things for you

00:44:43.380 yeah he would buy things for me

00:44:44.380 but i don't think at that time i knew what

00:44:47.380 so it was a sugar baby was

00:44:48.380 okay well that's a sugar relationship

00:44:50.380 yeah

00:44:51.380 like looking after you

00:44:52.380 i was thinking more of we were

00:44:54.380 maybe didn't give you that much money

00:44:55.380 but it's still it's still a sugar relationship

00:44:56.380 yeah at that time i didn't know what that was

00:44:58.380 yeah i was 19

00:45:00.380 yeah fair enough

00:45:01.380 and that was what

00:45:03.380 10 to 12 years old

00:45:04.380 and how old was he 60?

00:45:05.380 he was 62

00:45:07.380 damn

00:45:09.380 he looked really good

00:45:10.380 he was a great 62

00:45:11.380 he looked a lot like robert dunney jr

00:45:13.380 so

00:45:14.380 you gotta show me a photo later

00:45:15.380 i gotta see this man

00:45:17.380 were you with him after the pepper spray incident as well?

00:45:20.380 at that point things got really weird

00:45:22.380 after the pepper spray?

00:45:23.380 after the pepper spray yeah

00:45:25.380 he

00:45:26.380 so she stuck her head out the window

00:45:27.380 and was trying to find me

00:45:28.380 like a velociraptor

00:45:29.380 and i was pushed up against

00:45:31.380 the wall

00:45:32.380 like heart pounding

00:45:34.380 and she was freaking looking for me

00:45:36.380 and he called the cops on her

00:45:37.380 and she went to jail that night

00:45:38.380 and then i climbed back through the window

00:45:41.380 so you fought with a 60 year old woman as well?

00:45:42.380 no

00:45:43.380 she went to jail

00:45:44.380 i never like

00:45:45.380 physically

00:45:47.380 so you had a grandma chasing you trying to fight you

00:45:48.380 yeah

00:45:50.380 and she stole

00:45:51.380 she stole my knife out of my duffel bag

00:45:53.380 that i got for christmas

00:45:54.380 and i was so scared that she was going to stab him

00:45:56.380 and blame it on me

00:45:58.380 who got you a knife for christmas?

00:45:59.380 my friend

00:46:00.380 good friend

00:46:01.380 yeah

00:46:03.380 so that was scary

00:46:04.380 so i want to bring up open this up to the entire panel

00:46:09.380 this is a pretty substantial age gap relationship

00:46:11.380 perhaps when i'm having this conversation

00:46:13.380 i'm not thinking of an age gap relationship quite this big

00:46:16.380 but perhaps a 35 and a 25 year old

00:46:19.380 or a 30 and 20 year old something like that

00:46:21.380 so

00:46:23.380 do you going around the panel object to age gap relationships

00:46:26.380 starting with you

00:46:27.380 go ahead

00:46:28.380 great question by the way

00:46:29.380 i would say

00:46:32.380 i think it's not a great idea

00:46:34.380 if you are under the age of 25

00:46:39.380 oh the prefrontal cortex

00:46:41.380 yeah

00:46:42.380 just from experience guys

00:46:44.380 from experience it's not a great idea

00:46:45.380 your current relationship is there an age gap

00:46:47.380 yeah 10 years

00:46:49.380 but we got together

00:46:50.380 but it's a bad idea

00:46:51.380 but we got together when i was 28

00:46:53.380 so prefrontal cortex

00:46:55.380 wait

00:46:56.380 has been created

00:46:57.380 you got together with your current guy at 20

00:46:59.380 or are you talking about the lawyer

00:47:00.380 no no

00:47:01.380 my current relationship

00:47:03.380 you got together when you guys were 20

00:47:04.380 28

00:47:06.380 oh 28

00:47:07.380 8

00:47:08.380 okay

00:47:09.380 i'm 32

00:47:10.380 okay

00:47:11.380 and he's 42

00:47:12.380 and he's 42

00:47:13.380 i think a lot of people who are object to age gap relationships

00:47:14.380 would even object to that

00:47:16.380 but

00:47:17.380 so

00:47:18.380 10 years you said

00:47:19.380 or what's the gap

00:47:20.380 yeah 10 years is the gap for us

00:47:21.380 but i would say

00:47:22.380 age gap relationships are bad

00:47:24.380 if you're under the age of like 25

00:47:27.380 okay so

00:47:28.380 you can only have an age gap relationship

00:47:30.380 after 25

00:47:31.380 uh

00:47:32.380 i mean everyone can do what they want

00:47:33.380 but yeah i feel like it would be better

00:47:35.380 it would be

00:47:36.380 a better idea

00:47:37.380 after 25

00:47:39.380 your thoughts

00:47:40.380 i don't think it's smart

00:47:41.380 but i think it's okay

00:47:43.380 not smart

00:47:44.380 on whose part

00:47:45.380 the older person or the younger person

00:47:47.380 i say

00:47:48.380 both

00:47:49.380 because

00:47:50.380 how old are they gonna like pass sooner

00:47:53.380 and health issues

00:47:54.380 there's just a lot of things that tie into it

00:47:57.380 such as

00:47:59.380 like

00:48:01.380 you've more experience

00:48:02.380 less experience

00:48:03.380 do you

00:48:04.380 like what do you mean

00:48:05.380 do i what

00:48:06.380 well like let's say i gave you an example where

00:48:08.380 there is a 20 year old woman who had more experience than the 30 year old man

00:48:12.380 would you no longer object to it

00:48:15.380 wait 22 and 30

00:48:17.380 the 20 year old woman has more experience than the 30 year old

00:48:20.380 i don't think that matters

00:48:21.380 well

00:48:22.380 you don't think what

00:48:23.380 no that doesn't matter

00:48:24.380 what does

00:48:25.380 so you'd still object to the age gap

00:48:26.380 yeah

00:48:27.380 okay

00:48:28.380 so it's not about experience then

00:48:29.380 what is it about

00:48:31.380 maybe experience in life not sexually

00:48:34.380 yeah a 20 year old woman could have more life experience

00:48:36.380 that's true

00:48:37.380 than a 30 year old

00:48:38.380 okay

00:48:39.380 maybe she's traveled the world

00:48:40.380 maybe he's been very sheltered

00:48:41.380 you could even reverse the genders too

00:48:43.380 someone could be very sheltered even into their 30s

00:48:46.380 you could encounter somebody who's

00:48:49.380 involved in

00:48:51.380 the arts in some way

00:48:52.380 music

00:48:53.380 actor

00:48:54.380 athlete

00:48:55.380 they've traveled the world

00:48:56.380 that's true

00:48:57.380 fucking 18 year old justin bieber

00:48:58.380 probably have more life experience than

00:49:00.380 40 year old people living in the midwest

00:49:03.380 with diddy

00:49:04.380 oh boy

00:49:05.380 oh god

00:49:07.380 she already got a lot of experience

00:49:08.380 but so in any case it sounds like you're not

00:49:10.380 you're not thrilled

00:49:11.380 you're not a fan of age gap relationships

00:49:13.380 age gap relationships

00:49:14.380 yeah

00:49:15.380 okay

00:49:16.380 uh alright

00:49:17.380 and uh

00:49:18.380 do you think that kind of like her

00:49:19.380 do you think there is an age where it does become

00:49:21.380 a bit more appropriate

00:49:23.380 um

00:49:25.380 i don't think a minor should be dating like someone who's super old

00:49:28.380 well just to be clear

00:49:29.380 so when i'm talking about age gap relationships

00:49:31.380 yeah

00:49:32.380 i'm talking about adult relationships

00:49:34.380 okay

00:49:35.380 just

00:49:36.380 oh okay

00:49:37.380 okay

00:49:38.380 so when i say adult

00:49:40.380 adults

00:49:41.380 it could be an 18 year old

00:49:42.380 okay

00:49:43.380 but we're not talking about minors

00:49:44.380 no that i don't think it matters

00:49:45.380 we're talking about adult

00:49:46.380 adult men or women

00:49:47.380 yes

00:49:48.380 so 18 and up

00:49:49.380 who are dating

00:49:50.380 could be

00:49:51.380 20s

00:49:52.380 30s

00:49:53.380 older

00:49:54.380 could be 25 35

00:49:55.380 whatever it is

00:49:56.380 i don't think the age matters

00:49:57.380 from start

00:49:58.380 what do you mean

00:49:59.380 like i don't think you have to be 20 to start

00:50:01.380 if you want to age gap

00:50:03.380 so you don't have a problem with age gap relationships

00:50:05.380 i don't think it's good

00:50:06.380 but if you're going to be in one

00:50:07.380 i don't think there's a set limit of what time it can start

00:50:09.380 you agree that people can be in age gap relationships

00:50:12.380 yeah

00:50:13.380 there's obviously no law against it

00:50:14.380 oh am i for them

00:50:15.380 i'm not for them

00:50:16.380 you're against them

00:50:17.380 yes

00:50:18.380 yeah so for what reasons

00:50:19.380 if you want to just re-articulate them

00:50:22.380 um

00:50:23.380 it just seems off to me

00:50:25.380 it doesn't seem appropriate

00:50:26.380 i don't know

00:50:27.380 gives you the ick

00:50:28.380 you could say so

00:50:29.380 gives you the ick

00:50:30.380 okay

00:50:31.380 um

00:50:32.380 what can you

00:50:33.380 why

00:50:36.380 like i said experience

00:50:37.380 but you said you

00:50:38.380 experience

00:50:39.380 yeah

00:50:40.380 well i mean look i'll even grant you

00:50:42.380 that it's more likely that somebody who's older

00:50:44.380 is going to have more life experience than somebody who's younger

00:50:46.380 on the balance of probabilities

00:50:48.380 but uh

00:50:50.380 anything else besides the experience component

00:50:53.380 no i don't think so

00:50:54.380 not that i can recall right now

00:50:55.380 okay sure

00:50:56.380 uh your thoughts on age gap relationships

00:50:58.380 yay and nay

00:50:59.380 um

00:51:00.380 i think it's really common

00:51:01.380 i don't really have like a

00:51:03.380 anything against it

00:51:04.380 because i feel like a lot of people

00:51:05.380 when they get into their 30s or 40s

00:51:06.380 like

00:51:07.380 you're not exactly like

00:51:08.380 asking people how old you are

00:51:10.380 rather when you're like

00:51:11.380 in your 20s

00:51:12.380 i feel like it's more common

00:51:13.380 so i don't really have anything against it

00:51:15.380 i think it's pretty normal now

00:51:17.380 to have like an age gap relationship

00:51:19.380 mm-hmm

00:51:20.380 and then i do want to add this also

00:51:22.380 uh

00:51:23.380 would you be

00:51:24.380 in an age gap relationship

00:51:25.380 and then i already asked you

00:51:26.380 this one

00:51:27.380 but have you been in one

00:51:28.380 so going back to you really quick

00:51:29.380 uh

00:51:30.380 so have you had an age gap relationship

00:51:32.380 how big of a gap like five years

00:51:34.380 uh sure

00:51:35.380 no i haven't

00:51:36.380 okay and then would you be in an age gap relationship

00:51:38.380 so you're 18

00:51:39.380 would you date a guy who's 28

00:51:40.380 if i was

00:51:41.380 if you were single

00:51:42.380 yeah if i was single yes

00:51:43.380 what's the oldest you would date

00:51:45.380 if you were single

00:51:46.380 um

00:51:47.380 probably 26

00:51:51.380 26

00:51:52.380 26 okay

00:51:53.380 and then uh

00:51:54.380 you are in a relationship

00:51:55.380 but if you weren't

00:51:56.380 would you be in an age gap relationship

00:51:59.380 probably

00:52:00.380 yeah

00:52:01.380 okay

00:52:02.380 what's the oldest you would date

00:52:04.380 probably like

00:52:05.380 26 to 28

00:52:07.380 okay

00:52:08.380 um and then going back

00:52:09.380 it sounded like

00:52:10.380 your actual view on the age gap relationships

00:52:12.380 was what again

00:52:13.380 it's like positive

00:52:14.380 i feel like it's super normal now

00:52:15.380 i feel like it's super normal now

00:52:16.380 i don't have anything against it

00:52:18.380 i feel like when you get older

00:52:19.380 you like don't start to care about like your age

00:52:22.380 like you don't ask

00:52:23.380 sure

00:52:24.380 okay

00:52:26.380 um i think

00:52:27.380 viewers

00:52:28.380 uh just re

00:52:30.380 did it go red

00:52:31.380 no

00:52:32.380 oh okay

00:52:33.380 viewers uh just refresh

00:52:35.380 i think there's

00:52:36.380 also

00:52:37.380 some people are saying there's an issue with the audio

00:52:40.380 how long has it been lagging

00:52:43.380 okay

00:52:46.380 sorry guys

00:52:47.380 give me

00:52:48.380 i'm gonna go check it out

00:52:50.380 okay

00:52:51.380 sorry guys

00:52:52.380 give us one sec

00:52:53.380 we're getting a little bit of lag

00:52:54.380 i think if you guys refresh the stream

00:52:56.380 it should be fine

00:52:58.380 if you guys go ahead and refresh the stream

00:53:00.380 we're live on twitch

00:53:01.380 yeah we're also live on twitch

00:53:02.380 so

00:53:03.380 if you guys want to refresh over there on twitch

00:53:05.380 uh should be fine

00:53:07.380 fine let me just double check here

00:53:09.380 looks okay

00:53:10.380 but uh keep an eye on it if you can

00:53:12.380 uh and then

00:53:13.380 what

00:53:14.380 how old's your current boyfriend

00:53:16.380 he's 19 right now

00:53:17.380 okay

00:53:18.380 so he's just a year older

00:53:19.380 can you tilt your mic down just a bit

00:53:20.380 yeah

00:53:21.380 uh what about you

00:53:22.380 so

00:53:23.380 you are

00:53:24.380 uh

00:53:27.380 you're sorry excuse me

00:53:28.380 oh my thoughts

00:53:29.380 yeah your thoughts on age gap relationships

00:53:31.380 um

00:53:32.380 i mean yeah i feel like

00:53:33.380 like there's not much like

00:53:35.380 i don't know it's positive

00:53:36.380 i don't really mind

00:53:37.380 it doesn't affect me

00:53:38.380 okay

00:53:39.380 um

00:53:40.380 would you be in an age gap relationship

00:53:42.380 not like a huge one

00:53:43.380 but maybe like

00:53:44.380 six years

00:53:45.380 max

00:53:46.380 six years so okay

00:53:47.380 you're 18

00:53:48.380 so you would date like 23 24

00:53:49.380 yeah

00:53:50.380 okay

00:53:51.380 got it

00:53:52.380 what about you your thoughts

00:53:53.380 um

00:53:54.380 i feel like now

00:53:55.380 it could be a little weird

00:53:56.380 like

00:53:57.380 at this age

00:53:58.380 it's a little weird

00:53:59.380 but i feel like when you're like

00:54:00.380 70 dating

00:54:01.380 or like

00:54:02.380 like a 60 year old

00:54:03.380 it's not that big of a deal

00:54:04.380 at that point in life

00:54:05.380 but

00:54:06.380 at this point

00:54:07.380 i don't know

00:54:08.380 i mean i don't mind it

00:54:09.380 i don't have anything against it

00:54:10.380 but

00:54:11.380 sure

00:54:12.380 i personally

00:54:13.380 don't think i would be in a very

00:54:14.380 age gap relationship

00:54:15.380 uh

00:54:16.380 how old's your boyfriend

00:54:17.380 he's 19

00:54:18.380 19

00:54:19.380 yeah

00:54:20.380 all right

00:54:21.380 and then uh

00:54:22.380 what about you

00:54:23.380 i'm in an age gap relationship

00:54:24.380 okay

00:54:25.380 so you're 37 how old's your uh

00:54:26.380 he's gonna be 50

00:54:27.380 50

00:54:28.380 yeah he'll be 50 on halloween

00:54:29.380 13 14 years

00:54:30.380 okay

00:54:31.380 what

00:54:32.380 he turns 50 on halloween

00:54:33.380 on halloween

00:54:34.380 okay can you tilt your mic down just a little bit and if you want scooting to the table

00:54:37.380 just a tad

00:54:38.380 it's okay

00:54:39.380 uh let's see

00:54:40.380 um

00:54:41.380 and have you had prior age gap relationships

00:54:44.380 no

00:54:45.380 the

00:54:46.380 biggest gap before then was

00:54:48.380 probably like

00:54:49.380 five six years tops

00:54:50.380 okay

00:54:51.380 yeah got it

00:54:52.380 were was there any hesitations when you're initially getting into it about the age

00:54:55.380 no

00:54:56.380 difference or no

00:54:57.380 all right

00:54:58.380 what about you you're 33 uh

00:55:00.380 ever had an age gap relationship thoughts on age gap relationships

00:55:03.380 i'm okay with them and i've not really fully dated someone who's an age gap but i've like been on dates with people

00:55:10.380 what's the oldest guy that you would date

00:55:12.380 um

00:55:13.380 right now 47

00:55:14.380 47

00:55:15.380 47 okay

00:55:16.380 all right

00:55:17.380 uh

00:55:18.380 what your guys's thoughts on age gap relationships for against

00:55:21.380 um

00:55:22.380 i mean i've been with girls older than me

00:55:24.380 mm-hmm

00:55:25.380 like 10 years older 15 years older and i've also been with girls younger than me

00:55:28.380 mm-hmm

00:55:29.380 uh when it comes to like sex

00:55:30.380 um

00:55:31.380 you know i don't really mind too much but dating

00:55:34.380 would be a little bit different i would want to date someone that's a little bit more like

00:55:37.380 closer to

00:55:39.380 my mindset so

00:55:40.380 i mean when i was single like

00:55:42.380 i'm 38 now even when i was like 36

00:55:44.380 i was still like with 23 24 25 year olds

00:55:47.380 mm-hmm

00:55:48.380 but and vice versa i also had women in their mid 40s

00:55:50.380 mm-hmm

00:55:51.380 so i mean it's not really any different it was kind of the same but

00:55:54.380 if it comes to dating then yeah obviously i want someone within a five year age age range

00:55:58.380 got it

00:55:59.380 yeah what about you

00:56:00.380 yeah i i agree i agree i think like the closer you are together the closer your life experience

00:56:04.380 mm-hmm

00:56:05.380 and i think that usually makes for a more compatible relationships

00:56:07.380 some of the best ones i've had is with people that are closer to my age

00:56:10.380 mm-hmm

00:56:11.380 and then also i've seen like um

00:56:12.380 you guys have probably seen i won't drop names but there's like some pseudo alpha kick streamer dudes

00:56:17.380 which are in their like late 30s and they'll date 18 year olds and it just seems a bit exploitative

00:56:22.380 and like either way i don't know i feel like if you're exploiting the age gap a little bit too much

00:56:28.380 it's kind of like not really a vibe and i feel like yeah you're more compatible when you're closer in terms of life experience

00:56:35.380 so that's what's worked for me and um so yeah

00:56:38.380 well i'm not sure entirely who you're referring to i do know there were like some kick streamers where it was like

00:56:42.380 it was very low

00:56:43.380 yeah that's what i'm talking about

00:56:44.380 that's certainly objectionable

00:56:45.380 yeah that's the one i'm talking about

00:56:47.380 glad you know

00:56:48.380 okay yeah i think i know what you're talking about

00:56:49.380 did you find that a bit like that was pretty bad

00:56:51.380 well yeah they were i mean they were underage

00:56:54.380 yeah so yeah that's that's very bad

00:56:57.380 that's like the darkest end of age gaps is what i'm saying

00:57:00.380 so it's like it can get pretty bad

00:57:01.380 right but so i mean for the context of this conversation

00:57:04.380 obviously i think if you're underage

00:57:06.380 objectionable

00:57:07.380 yeah but we're talking here

00:57:08.380 adults

00:57:09.380 yeah no i think i think adults

00:57:11.380 the closer you are the better your life experience the more compatible you most likely will be

00:57:14.380 so statistically

00:57:15.380 well let me ask you a question liam

00:57:16.380 um which uh you're uh how old are you again

00:57:19.380 36 36 uh in terms of let's remove like personality compatibility commonality all that

00:57:26.380 uh what age do you find most physically attractive

00:57:31.380 for me personally it's hard to say because like i'm surrounded by so many we've got 700 creators that work for us

00:57:40.380 and like i've seen people in their 30s that look better than some people who are in their 20s and vice versa

00:57:46.380 so it's really hard to say like at what age someone is at their peak

00:57:49.380 like i mean look i'll give you a prime example i think i peaked in my 30s

00:57:53.380 i wouldn't date 19 year old me at all

00:57:55.380 so like i think um i think it's less about the age it's just about how you look after yourself

00:58:01.380 and at what point do you peak

00:58:02.380 you know physically

00:58:04.380 because have you seen the same people peak at different ages right

00:58:07.380 sure yeah

00:58:08.380 but i'm i'm thinking of it more so from like so

00:58:13.380 when i think it's more like it's much more than just looks bro i think what he's trying to say is like

00:58:17.380 on a on a mindset kind of level you know what i mean like what do you find most like what age generally

00:58:23.380 do you find most attractive like yeah there's always outliers

00:58:26.380 older women younger women but we're just like speaking like the median median age here what would you say is like

00:58:31.380 i think when someone gets to like 29 30 they're usually like cognitively developed

00:58:35.380 pretty well yeah

00:58:37.380 for me from my experience anyway that's what i've seen

00:58:39.380 i don't know i met a lot of

00:58:41.380 yeah but

00:58:43.380 there's not so

00:58:45.380 cognitively developed

00:58:47.380 30 year olds

00:58:49.380 i think that depends on how hard they party in their 20s for sure

00:58:51.380 yeah i mean yeah

00:58:53.380 partying and some other stuff

00:58:55.380 but i mean i think i think intelligence is all genetic to be honest like

00:58:59.380 i partied like a fucking motherfucker in my 20s but i'm still successful now like and i'm almost 40 so

00:59:04.380 i think it just

00:59:05.380 comes down to like you know a lot of it's genetics

00:59:08.380 a lot of it's hard work

00:59:09.380 and a lot of it is like yeah if you really truly want something you'd go for it you'd work hard at it you know

00:59:14.380 i don't think partying or anything like that has anything to do with it to be honest

00:59:18.380 i still party now

00:59:20.380 i'm successful as fuck

00:59:22.380 you know what i'm saying

00:59:23.380 humble too

00:59:24.380 very humble

00:59:25.380 very humble

00:59:26.380 you gotta keep it real man that's just how it is you know what i mean

00:59:28.380 you feel good at what you do

00:59:29.380 you gotta praise it

00:59:30.380 i think humble

00:59:31.380 is a fucking horrible word

00:59:32.380 it keeps people down here

00:59:33.380 because extraordinary

00:59:34.380 extraordinary people

00:59:35.380 they always aim higher

00:59:36.380 thank you

00:59:37.380 so using the word humble

00:59:38.380 just kind of like puts you at a level of everyone else

00:59:40.380 so completely

00:59:41.380 don't ever say that word

00:59:42.380 fuck humble

00:59:43.380 no i agree

00:59:44.380 you should be proud of your achievements

00:59:45.380 no matter what

00:59:46.380 i consider it

00:59:47.380 whatever you're good at

00:59:48.380 a slur to say humble

00:59:49.380 yeah

00:59:50.380 when people are like oh be humble and bright be humble

00:59:51.380 why be humble

00:59:52.380 where do you draw the line between cocky

00:59:53.380 and humble

00:59:54.380 that's a good question

00:59:55.380 that's a fine line

00:59:56.380 i'm not gonna lie to you

00:59:57.380 it's a super fine line

00:59:58.380 and i tread it every day

01:00:00.380 i would say

01:00:01.380 look it really

01:00:02.380 it really depends

01:00:03.380 like you just gotta be yourself

01:00:04.380 you know what i mean

01:00:05.380 like if you're a cocky guy

01:00:06.380 confident

01:00:07.380 humble

01:00:08.380 shy

01:00:09.380 quiet

01:00:10.380 whatever like it really doesn't matter

01:00:11.380 you just gotta be you

01:00:12.380 and you can't be anyone other than yourself

01:00:13.380 you know so

01:00:14.380 someone telling you to be humble

01:00:15.380 or someone telling you to be

01:00:16.380 more confident

01:00:17.380 you know

01:00:18.380 you just gotta be yourself

01:00:19.380 so

01:00:20.380 i mean obviously there's like

01:00:21.380 like

01:00:22.380 if you were to draw the line

01:00:23.380 i would probably say like

01:00:24.380 you still gotta be polite to people

01:00:25.380 you gotta be nice

01:00:26.380 you know

01:00:27.380 when you're making conversation with someone

01:00:28.380 you gotta look at their eyes

01:00:29.380 you gotta dress them by their name

01:00:30.380 you gotta shake hands

01:00:31.380 you just

01:00:32.380 like as a man you still have to be a gentleman

01:00:33.380 but there's nothing wrong with being confident

01:00:35.380 and you know what

01:00:36.380 a degree of cockiness is actually a good thing

01:00:37.380 it takes you a long way

01:00:38.380 like

01:00:39.380 it takes you a long

01:00:40.380 long way in life

01:00:41.380 it gets you

01:00:42.380 the jobs that you want to get

01:00:43.380 it gets you the dates

01:00:44.380 and the women that you're trying to get

01:00:45.380 like fake it till you make it

01:00:46.380 kind of thing

01:00:47.380 not necessarily

01:00:48.380 being cocky

01:00:49.380 and faking something

01:00:50.380 two different things

01:00:51.380 like you can be confident

01:00:52.380 and you can be cocky

01:00:53.380 but being fake

01:00:54.380 that always shows very very quickly

01:00:55.380 okay

01:00:56.380 so you can be

01:00:57.380 a confident and cocky guy

01:00:58.380 but obviously like

01:00:59.380 you know there's limits

01:01:00.380 you wouldn't you wouldn't like

01:01:01.380 you can't be too quiet and too shy

01:01:03.380 but you can't be like overly cocky

01:01:04.380 but i think confidence

01:01:05.380 in any of the sex is a

01:01:07.380 super sexy

01:01:08.380 it's a an attractive feature

01:01:09.380 and i think

01:01:10.380 more women and men

01:01:11.380 should be confident in themselves

01:01:12.380 you know

01:01:13.380 we're all different

01:01:14.380 none of us are the same

01:01:15.380 guys girls

01:01:16.380 like we're all

01:01:17.380 bring different things to the table

01:01:18.380 so i think it's important that

01:01:19.380 you know we celebrate that

01:01:20.380 and we're confident in that

01:01:21.380 so just when i heard my boys say

01:01:22.380 like humble this humble that

01:01:23.380 i'm just like no man

01:01:24.380 like you shouldn't be humble

01:01:25.380 you should be really proud

01:01:26.380 i hate the word

01:01:27.380 you should be really proud

01:01:28.380 of who you are

01:01:29.380 what you've achieved you know

01:01:30.380 and your friends should be proud

01:01:31.380 your family should be proud

01:01:32.380 so that's just my take on it

01:01:34.380 okay

01:01:35.380 curious though

01:01:36.380 to the ladies here

01:01:37.380 would any of you

01:01:38.380 who maybe

01:01:39.380 bump your

01:01:40.380 oldest guy you would date

01:01:42.380 if it was

01:01:43.380 Ryan Reynolds

01:01:44.380 yes

01:01:45.380 yes

01:01:46.380 yes

01:01:47.380 Henry Cavill

01:01:48.380 yes oh yeah

01:01:49.380 Henry Cavill

01:01:50.380 there you go

01:01:51.380 alright

01:01:52.380 let's see here

01:01:53.380 and then

01:01:56.380 I guess going back to you two

01:01:58.380 I'm still looking to actually hear an argument

01:02:00.380 as to why it's wrong though

01:02:05.380 hmm

01:02:06.380 I mean I feel

01:02:08.380 I feel like if you're

01:02:09.380 if you're very old

01:02:10.380 and you're dating

01:02:11.380 just from my experience

01:02:12.380 dating like an 18-19 year old

01:02:14.380 you're taking advantage of that person

01:02:16.380 for sure

01:02:17.380 how so

01:02:18.380 I believe that you

01:02:21.380 I

01:02:22.380 the majority of people

01:02:24.380 older

01:02:25.380 at least 10-15 years older

01:02:26.380 than an 18-19 year old

01:02:27.380 I

01:02:28.380 think they do have

01:02:29.380 a lot more life experience

01:02:31.380 I feel like it's very rare

01:02:32.380 for an 18-19 year old

01:02:33.380 to have a lot of experience

01:02:34.380 unless they're a celebrity

01:02:35.380 and they've

01:02:36.380 or they've come from

01:02:37.380 a certain family backgrounds

01:02:39.380 but

01:02:40.380 the majority of time

01:02:41.380 most 18-19 year olds

01:02:42.380 are not as

01:02:43.380 confident

01:02:44.380 or

01:02:45.380 really know themselves

01:02:46.380 or what they like

01:02:47.380 what they don't like

01:02:48.380 and I feel like

01:02:49.380 older people

01:02:51.380 can take advantage of that

01:02:52.380 very easily

01:02:53.380 how would they take advantage

01:02:54.380 of that?

01:02:56.380 sexually

01:02:58.380 or

01:02:59.380 having

01:03:00.380 you know

01:03:01.380 using them as

01:03:02.380 kind of arm candy

01:03:03.380 or

01:03:04.380 a way to kind of

01:03:05.380 show off to others

01:03:06.380 that they can get somebody younger

01:03:07.380 I don't feel like

01:03:08.380 it's really in that person's

01:03:09.380 best interest

01:03:10.380 I feel like

01:03:11.380 there's something

01:03:12.380 that person wants

01:03:13.380 that's the only thing

01:03:14.380 I can come up with

01:03:15.380 at least

01:03:16.380 the older gentleman

01:03:17.380 or person

01:03:18.380 or woman too

01:03:21.380 I don't know

01:03:22.380 to maybe groom that person

01:03:24.380 to be their perfect mate

01:03:26.380 maybe

01:03:28.380 you know

01:03:29.380 they're still kind of

01:03:30.380 coming into their own

01:03:31.380 they're still figuring out

01:03:32.380 who they are

01:03:33.380 and when you're with someone

01:03:34.380 that much older

01:03:35.380 you can kind of

01:03:36.380 tell them what they like

01:03:37.380 just can you define

01:03:38.380 what grooming is

01:03:39.380 in this context?

01:03:42.380 I would say

01:03:45.380 showing somebody

01:03:46.380 a life

01:03:47.380 and

01:03:48.380 telling them

01:03:49.380 what they like

01:03:50.380 by certain situations

01:03:52.380 wait so okay

01:03:53.380 but so

01:03:54.380 couldn't this be

01:03:55.380 an expectation

01:03:56.380 you encounter

01:03:57.380 in any relationship

01:03:58.380 regardless of age

01:03:59.380 so don't you teach

01:04:00.380 your partner

01:04:01.380 your likes

01:04:02.380 your dislikes

01:04:03.380 and vice versa?

01:04:04.380 usually those people

01:04:05.380 have their likes

01:04:06.380 and dislikes

01:04:07.380 already developed

01:04:08.380 not someone

01:04:09.380 who's learning

01:04:10.380 what they like

01:04:11.380 and dislike

01:04:12.380 so if I'm with

01:04:13.380 somebody who is

01:04:14.380 around my same age

01:04:15.380 and they already know

01:04:16.380 what they like

01:04:17.380 and dislike

01:04:18.380 we have the opportunity

01:04:19.380 to be like

01:04:20.380 I don't like that

01:04:21.380 and kind of

01:04:22.380 dip into the void

01:04:23.380 where someone

01:04:24.380 who's 18 and 19

01:04:25.380 like oh well

01:04:26.380 I've never experienced

01:04:27.380 that before

01:04:28.380 I guess I'll try it

01:04:29.380 that might not be

01:04:31.380 the best for them

01:04:32.380 like what?

01:04:33.380 hmm

01:04:34.380 hmm

01:04:37.380 maybe

01:04:38.380 they put their own

01:04:40.380 dreams on the back burner

01:04:41.380 instead of trying

01:04:42.380 to develop what

01:04:43.380 they feel like

01:04:44.380 would be beneficial

01:04:45.380 to them

01:04:46.380 what's wrong with that?

01:04:47.380 hmm

01:04:48.380 well if the relationship

01:04:49.380 doesn't work out

01:04:50.380 you're kind of SOL

01:04:51.380 I feel like one thing

01:04:53.380 I definitely learned

01:04:54.380 is always have

01:04:55.380 your own money

01:04:56.380 like always always

01:04:57.380 have your own money

01:04:58.380 because when I was dating

01:04:59.380 the older guy

01:05:00.380 when I was 19

01:05:01.380 he had me quit my job

01:05:02.380 so we can travel

01:05:03.380 and then if I didn't hear

01:05:04.380 from him for a couple

01:05:05.380 of days

01:05:06.380 how can I eat?

01:05:07.380 how can I do anything?

01:05:08.380 was he paying you

01:05:09.380 an allowance or anything

01:05:10.380 like that?

01:05:11.380 there wasn't like any

01:05:12.380 sugar daddy component?

01:05:13.380 if I was me now

01:05:14.380 there would have been

01:05:15.380 stipulations

01:05:16.380 but when I was 19

01:05:18.380 I didn't ask for anything

01:05:20.380 I just was along

01:05:21.380 for the ride

01:05:22.380 wait so hold on

01:05:23.380 were you living rent free

01:05:24.380 with him?

01:05:25.380 no

01:05:26.380 how long did the relationship last?

01:05:27.380 six months

01:05:28.380 six months

01:05:29.380 okay so you're saying

01:05:30.380 you were financially harmed

01:05:32.380 because you were dating him

01:05:33.380 is that your

01:05:34.380 I would say I wasn't looking out

01:05:36.380 for my best interest

01:05:37.380 I stopped going to college

01:05:39.380 and getting good grades

01:05:40.380 I kind of put

01:05:42.380 this adventure

01:05:43.380 that he presented to me

01:05:45.380 as being the important thing

01:05:47.380 when I should have

01:05:48.380 made the important thing

01:05:50.380 making a future for myself

01:05:53.380 couldn't this happen at any age though?

01:05:55.380 I don't really see how

01:05:56.380 I was about to say the same thing

01:05:57.380 I feel like

01:05:58.380 at any age

01:05:59.380 it can happen

01:06:00.380 like obviously like

01:06:01.380 not to the extent of like

01:06:02.380 say like an 18 year old

01:06:03.380 with like a 30 year old

01:06:04.380 but still like

01:06:05.380 even like a 30 year old

01:06:06.380 with a 50 or 60 year old

01:06:07.380 you could still be putting

01:06:08.380 a lot of your own dreams

01:06:09.380 a lot of your own interests

01:06:10.380 on the back burner

01:06:11.380 of a more successful

01:06:12.380 more powerful man

01:06:13.380 you know?

01:06:14.380 I think

01:06:15.380 because there is a power dynamic

01:06:16.380 with the age difference

01:06:17.380 no matter

01:06:18.380 whether you're 18

01:06:19.380 whether you're 30

01:06:20.380 the power dynamic

01:06:21.380 yeah no absolutely

01:06:22.380 and I agree with that

01:06:24.380 but I feel like

01:06:25.380 as someone who is 32

01:06:26.380 I feel like I've already lived

01:06:27.380 a lot of life

01:06:28.380 and I can have a better

01:06:29.380 let me tell you something

01:06:30.380 I'm 38

01:06:31.380 I'm a different man

01:06:32.380 than when I was

01:06:33.380 when I was 32

01:06:34.380 you're constantly changing

01:06:35.380 you're constantly learning

01:06:36.380 new things

01:06:37.380 what I like now

01:06:38.380 I didn't like when I was 32

01:06:39.380 and I guarantee the same thing

01:06:40.380 will happen to you

01:06:41.380 and everyone else in this room

01:06:42.380 so it's yeah

01:06:43.380 that's just coming from

01:06:44.380 a bit of older man experience here

01:06:46.380 yeah we're always changing

01:06:47.380 and we're always thinking

01:06:48.380 of different things

01:06:49.380 so yeah just

01:06:50.380 don't be too quick

01:06:51.380 to think like that

01:06:52.380 because it's like

01:06:53.380 like Brian said

01:06:54.380 it's applicable to any age

01:06:55.380 I feel like just in general

01:06:57.380 when there's a big power dynamic

01:06:58.380 and a difference in age

01:06:59.380 it's going to happen either way

01:07:00.380 okay

01:07:01.380 whether you're 18

01:07:02.380 or whether you're 30

01:07:03.380 it's going to happen either way

01:07:04.380 okay so you said

01:07:05.380 so you're basically saying

01:07:06.380 that you should date in your lane

01:07:07.380 if you're dating

01:07:08.380 yes you should date

01:07:09.380 like if you want to be

01:07:10.380 in line with someone

01:07:11.380 on the same morals

01:07:12.380 values life experience

01:07:13.380 I would say date

01:07:14.380 within a five year

01:07:15.380 but if you date somebody

01:07:16.380 who is more powerful than you

01:07:17.380 should step into their lane

01:07:18.380 well that's normally what happens

01:07:20.380 you know whether you like it or not

01:07:21.380 that's just what happens

01:07:22.380 it's a power balance

01:07:23.380 the imbalance of power

01:07:24.380 to be honest

01:07:25.380 when a man's like 20 years old

01:07:26.380 and you has more money

01:07:27.380 has a far more advanced career

01:07:29.380 than say like a 30

01:07:30.380 25 year old woman

01:07:31.380 it's just naturally what happens

01:07:32.380 the woman naturally adopts

01:07:34.380 and takes on you know

01:07:36.380 that what the alpha brings

01:07:37.380 to the relationship

01:07:38.380 which is which is a man

01:07:39.380 so if the man's got like

01:07:40.380 you know more money

01:07:41.380 more more assets

01:07:42.380 more life experience

01:07:43.380 then the woman is just

01:07:44.380 by nature

01:07:45.380 she's just she's gonna follow

01:07:47.380 but would you be okay with

01:07:49.380 like your partner

01:07:50.380 would you would you support them

01:07:52.380 if they wanted to do something else

01:07:54.380 well in my situation

01:07:55.380 my partner is three years younger

01:07:56.380 than me so she has her own career

01:07:58.380 I've got my own career

01:07:59.380 I support her

01:08:00.380 she supports me

01:08:01.380 in general

01:08:02.380 if I had a younger partner

01:08:04.380 it would be a different dynamic

01:08:06.380 to be honest

01:08:07.380 because I'm successful

01:08:08.380 I feel like she wouldn't have to

01:08:10.380 have to be following her own path

01:08:13.380 she could if she wanted to

01:08:14.380 but I would offer her

01:08:15.380 a different life

01:08:16.380 and she wouldn't have to

01:08:17.380 be trying to

01:08:18.380 like I guess chase her own dreams

01:08:19.380 and hopes

01:08:20.380 because essentially

01:08:21.380 she wouldn't have to work

01:08:22.380 you know what I mean

01:08:23.380 so I would offer her that

01:08:24.380 but if she wanted to do something else

01:08:25.380 then that's her prerogative

01:08:26.380 but in saying that

01:08:27.380 which is why

01:08:28.380 I think it's important to date

01:08:29.380 within like a five year age range

01:08:31.380 so it's like you guys are

01:08:32.380 at the same kind of level you know

01:08:33.380 yeah and I totally understand that

01:08:34.380 but my only problem is

01:08:36.380 unless that comes with a ring

01:08:38.380 if somebody dumps you

01:08:40.380 and you don't put yourself

01:08:41.380 at least a little bit first

01:08:42.380 you're kind of left back

01:08:43.380 where you were

01:08:44.380 you're back at square one

01:08:45.380 so so what do you mean by that

01:08:47.380 I feel like you got to

01:08:48.380 protect yourself

01:08:49.380 unless you know

01:08:50.380 how would you protect

01:08:51.380 relationships for real

01:08:52.380 you got to have your own

01:08:53.380 so how would you protect yourself

01:08:55.380 what about having a plan B

01:08:56.380 I would protect myself

01:08:58.380 by making sure that I am

01:08:59.380 investing in in myself

01:09:01.380 so that if something

01:09:02.380 what what happens if you die

01:09:04.380 like that person still

01:09:05.380 I mean it's

01:09:06.380 it's always important to look after

01:09:08.380 obviously yourself first

01:09:09.380 but like I feel like

01:09:11.380 when you're in a relationship

01:09:12.380 you know if you love

01:09:14.380 if you truly love each other

01:09:15.380 not like this fake situationships

01:09:16.380 and just like temporary

01:09:18.380 little like flings and all that

01:09:19.380 if you truly love someone

01:09:20.380 you know if they're about that life

01:09:22.380 and you know if they want

01:09:23.380 you know

01:09:24.380 but when you're stepping into

01:09:25.380 somebody's lane

01:09:26.380 hold on you got to let them finish

01:09:27.380 oh I apologize

01:09:28.380 it's right

01:09:29.380 so yeah you just want to know like

01:09:30.380 you can normally tell these things

01:09:31.380 so I've been in many relationships

01:09:32.380 I can tell when the relationship

01:09:34.380 generally isn't gonna perpetuate

01:09:36.380 into anything more

01:09:37.380 than just say like a relationship

01:09:39.380 and I've been in relationships

01:09:40.380 where they've been so much more

01:09:41.380 when I'm like

01:09:42.380 okay cool

01:09:43.380 I could actually marry this girl

01:09:44.380 and there's nothing wrong with either one

01:09:46.380 but you just you got to pick them

01:09:47.380 and realize them for what they are

01:09:49.380 so if you're in one of those relationships

01:09:50.380 and and deep down

01:09:51.380 and you we all have this innate

01:09:53.380 like feeling in our gut

01:09:54.380 we can tell if this person is gonna

01:09:56.380 you know if they're gonna be around for a while

01:09:58.380 and I guess maybe I'm speaking from experience

01:10:00.380 but it's just something that you can normally pick up on

01:10:03.380 after you've experienced it I feel

01:10:06.380 by the way really quick

01:10:07.380 we'll get back to the conversation here in just a moment

01:10:09.380 uh Andrew I don't know if you're watching

01:10:11.380 the Crucible crew

01:10:12.380 he sent over a raid

01:10:13.380 he just finished up his live stream

01:10:15.380 so if you came from the Crucible

01:10:17.380 uh welcome guys

01:10:19.380 we have chest bra

01:10:21.380 we've got some Australian

01:10:23.380 we've got some Aussies here

01:10:24.380 so so

01:10:25.380 let's go baby

01:10:26.380 um

01:10:27.380 they actually

01:10:28.380 don't

01:10:29.380 confident not cocky

01:10:30.380 they don't think Australia exists

01:10:32.380 a lot of these people

01:10:33.380 are you serious?

01:10:34.380 yeah they think it's a myth

01:10:35.380 it's crazy

01:10:37.380 don't even get me started on American stereotypes

01:10:39.380 but shit man

01:10:40.380 oh damn

01:10:41.380 but uh so

01:10:42.380 I'll wear it around

01:10:43.380 trust me we've got lots of spiders

01:10:44.380 lots of kangaroos

01:10:45.380 everybody in the chat is telling me

01:10:46.380 we gotta get Andrew to do a call in

01:10:48.380 I mean I don't know if

01:10:50.380 you guys want Andrew on the call

01:10:52.380 I mean who the fuck is Andrew?

01:10:53.380 uh Andrew Wilson he's like a frequent

01:10:55.380 he does video call ins

01:10:57.380 is he the one on this other show?

01:10:59.380 yeah and he comes

01:11:00.380 oh I like that dude

01:11:01.380 take that back

01:11:02.380 he's cool

01:11:03.380 he's really cool

01:11:04.380 we were saying something positive about him on the way here

01:11:06.380 yeah I was hoping he was to be on this show

01:11:07.380 he's pretty cool

01:11:08.380 yeah check him out bro

01:11:09.380 we were bringing up um

01:11:10.380 Andrew?

01:11:11.380 yeah go ahead

01:11:12.380 yeah no we're bringing up how

01:11:13.380 he's crude I like him

01:11:14.380 no no we were bringing up how he stood on his moral ground on that podcast

01:11:17.380 yeah

01:11:18.380 yeah he was cool

01:11:19.380 he had a blow up with that alpha male

01:11:21.380 oh Wes Watson

01:11:22.380 yeah

01:11:23.380 and I was just like

01:11:25.380 fuck that dude man

01:11:26.380 yeah me and Saeed were saying

01:11:27.380 what a loser

01:11:28.380 he stood on his moral ground in terms of um

01:11:31.380 in terms of valuing the quality of a good relationship and being married so

01:11:37.380 yeah

01:11:39.380 we could if you guys are cool with it I know we got a full panel already but if you guys

01:11:43.380 do you wanna do it now or when do you wanna do it?

01:11:45.380 we could call him in

01:11:46.380 let's go Andrew

01:11:47.380 I'm buzzed

01:11:48.380 Liam you

01:11:49.380 if you want us to talk to someone who's had 21 coffees

01:11:52.380 you cool if we have him join in or?

01:11:54.380 how long for?

01:11:55.380 we could do the whole show I mean

01:11:57.380 I mean it's your show Brian whatever you wanna do bro

01:12:00.380 yeah I gotta think

01:12:01.380 I'll take the pressure off

01:12:02.380 I can't check the responses live that's all

01:12:04.380 that's all

01:12:05.380 okay

01:12:06.380 yeah

01:12:07.380 well maybe we could have him do a brief call in later

01:12:10.380 I need to even ask him if he can

01:12:11.380 you can call him later

01:12:12.380 I'll tell him Chess Bro's a big fan

01:12:14.380 I'm a big fan

01:12:15.380 yeah I'll see

01:12:16.380 but we were literally talking about this just before

01:12:19.380 let Andrew compare abs with Chess Bro

01:12:23.380 hey

01:12:24.380 I'm bulking bro

01:12:25.380 I'm humble I'm not cocky I keep the shirt on

01:12:27.380 but I'm cocky so that's why I'm wearing a singlet

01:12:29.380 but so let me ask you a question

01:12:32.380 you mentioned the terms grooming exploitation

01:12:35.380 when it came to these age gap relationships

01:12:38.380 couldn't you make the similar argument towards the younger woman

01:12:42.380 in these cases

01:12:43.380 oh absolutely

01:12:44.380 because for example

01:12:45.380 if they're dating especially old men typically

01:12:48.380 Epstein bruh

01:12:49.380 absolutely

01:12:50.380 absolutely

01:12:51.380 I feel like

01:12:52.380 so well the I guess the point I'm trying to make here is

01:12:55.380 is that

01:12:56.380 when the age gap is so significant

01:12:58.380 typically what you'll see from women is

01:13:00.380 this is a financial angle here

01:13:03.380 you know

01:13:04.380 a 20

01:13:05.380 a 22 year old dating a 32 year old

01:13:08.380 there can be love there

01:13:10.380 like 22 dating 62

01:13:13.380 she's probably after the money

01:13:15.380 yeah

01:13:16.380 not always

01:13:17.380 not always

01:13:18.380 maybe but

01:13:19.380 not sometimes they're just dumb

01:13:20.380 like I was

01:13:21.380 wouldn't that just be predatory on their end

01:13:23.380 absolutely

01:13:24.380 I feel like women date men just for the money all the time

01:13:27.380 all the time

01:13:28.380 sure

01:13:30.380 and

01:13:31.380 but so

01:13:32.380 not for me though

01:13:33.380 been there done that

01:13:34.380 but so then who's the more predatory one when it comes to these age gap relationships

01:13:37.380 like is it predatory for example let's say there's a 22 year old

01:13:44.380 and she's got her eye on Ryan Reynolds who is

01:13:48.380 how old's Ryan he's like 48 or 45 or something

01:13:51.380 is he really

01:13:52.380 let me see his age

01:13:53.380 his age is just

01:13:54.380 he's 47

01:13:55.380 or he turns 47

01:13:57.380 48 in three days

01:13:58.380 October 23rd

01:14:00.380 like wouldn't it be predatory on the young girl's age

01:14:05.380 the 22 year old woman

01:14:07.380 yeah

01:14:08.380 to be going after Ryan Reynolds

01:14:09.380 oh absolutely

01:14:10.380 because I feel like at that point it's like preemptive

01:14:13.380 it's like a strike on getting that person

01:14:15.380 it's a strike

01:14:16.380 yeah it's like you're thinking about like

01:14:18.380 I unless you're meeting somebody organically

01:14:23.380 I feel like you're kind of going into it with a certain purpose and that would definitely be predatory

01:14:30.380 like if you if you've seen that guy and you go or let's say somebody goes up to you and you weren't with your current girlfriend

01:14:36.380 and they're like I know you I know the money that you make that is completely predatory completely predatory

01:14:41.380 wait

01:14:42.380 a female

01:14:43.380 yes a female

01:14:44.380 yeah

01:14:45.380 I don't know I wouldn't think that to be honest

01:14:48.380 if it's like I feel like it's like the males would like could be like a bit predatory but I don't know

01:14:53.380 I can't see like a female like trying to put her on me and then trying to pick me up for my

01:14:57.380 I don't know I'm just I can't see that to be honest

01:15:01.380 I could see it from a man's point of view like but it's just it's how often have you seen a woman who's like older than a man and dating a man and

01:15:08.380 and she's got more power and more money than the guy and she's putting on the guy and she's got all the power like when

01:15:13.380 can you guys name any relationship like that

01:15:16.380 I don't know I'm a bit old school I just I think it's the I think it's the men that can be a bit predatory

01:15:20.380 I don't know if a woman can actually I don't know I just don't see it to be honest

01:15:24.380 you mean like an older woman going after a younger

01:15:27.380 yeah like a cougar she's got lots of money

01:15:29.380 single divorced woman has has all of her ex-husband's money and she's dating like younger men who are like broke and poor

01:15:35.380 that could be okay sure that could probably be predatory

01:15:38.380 but how often do we see that I think it's more so for the men

01:15:41.380 it's more common

01:15:42.380 yeah it's more common for the men

01:15:45.380 so I just think that's something that we see more in men

01:15:48.380 but obviously like there's always outliers

01:15:50.380 but I'm speaking for the majority here so I think

01:15:52.380 majority wise it's probably more like a male dominated thing than a female

01:15:57.380 I don't disagree with you I think it's definitely more common in that way

01:16:00.380 but I think there's just in general a tendency for women even if there's not like an age gap

01:16:06.380 like a big age gap for women to date a little bit older like one two three years

01:16:11.380 that's like tends to be the norm

01:16:13.380 pretty normal

01:16:15.380 like we have you guys are all 18

01:16:17.380 I don't know if you see

01:16:19.380 yeah how old's your boyfriend?

01:16:20.380 18

01:16:21.380 okay well you guys are 18 your boyfriends are all nine or you two boyfriends are 19

01:16:25.380 there will be like smaller age gaps like that

01:16:28.380 18 to 19

01:16:30.380 18 to 20

01:16:31.380 19 to 21

01:16:32.380 these sorts of things

01:16:33.380 I think it's just more common in general

01:16:34.380 women tend to date up

01:16:36.380 a little bit in terms of age

01:16:38.380 and I think the average age of marriage if you compare between men and women

01:16:42.380 like women it's 28 I think

01:16:45.380 and men it's a bit older I think it's 30

01:16:48.380 so I think it's just kind of common in general to see this

01:16:52.380 this and this is probably because

01:16:57.380 maturity

01:16:59.380 also it's not I don't think it's a one directional thing

01:17:02.380 I don't think it's one directional thing where you have like these men

01:17:05.380 they just want want to date younger

01:17:08.380 it seems like

01:17:09.380 unless you're Leo

01:17:10.380 Leo DiCaprio

01:17:11.380 yeah that's a good thing

01:17:12.380 he has a rule he's like 25 and you're out

01:17:14.380 25 cut off

01:17:16.380 oh man

01:17:17.380 we'll get to the rest of the pre-show notes here

01:17:19.380 so going back to you here

01:17:20.380 let's see

01:17:21.380 you said

01:17:23.380 hold on one sec

01:17:24.380 let me get this pulled up

01:17:26.380 you're a small town switch that jumped into this crazy world of love sex and fetishes

01:17:34.380 I've been fulfilling fantasies for over two years now

01:17:38.380 three now

01:17:39.380 it's exciting and thrilling

01:17:40.380 I'll be posting my sexcapades and explorate explorations

01:17:45.380 okay

01:17:46.380 that's interesting

01:17:48.380 small town switch

01:17:50.380 what does that mean

01:17:52.380 it means a switch is basically somebody who

01:17:55.380 can be both dominant and submissive

01:17:56.380 is that what you're talking about

01:17:58.380 and you're from a small town

01:18:00.380 yeah

01:18:02.380 where

01:18:03.380 reno

01:18:05.380 reno

01:18:06.380 reno

01:18:07.380 reno sriracha

01:18:08.380 all right

01:18:09.380 and you also in your pre-show notes

01:18:12.380 let's see here

01:18:14.380 modern dating can be complicated

01:18:16.380 but I think people over complicate it by trying to force relationships that don't align with their true selves

01:18:21.380 it's okay to be picky about your needs and boundaries

01:18:24.380 that's a good let's go into that we're going to open this up to the entire panel

01:18:27.380 so

01:18:29.380 do you consider yourself picky

01:18:31.380 go ahead

01:18:33.380 yeah

01:18:34.380 I don't like guys that are boring

01:18:36.380 I

01:18:37.380 it's not so much how much money somebody makes though it does help

01:18:41.380 but I really like a guy who can make me laugh

01:18:44.380 and who

01:18:46.380 every day is an adventure

01:18:48.380 and it doesn't have it can be

01:18:50.380 I don't know

01:18:51.380 watching movies and stuff

01:18:52.380 every day is an adventure

01:18:53.380 yeah

01:18:54.380 even if it's a small adventure

01:18:55.380 I just

01:18:56.380 I like somebody who can keep my attention

01:18:59.380 I get bored really easily

01:19:01.380 you get bored really easily

01:19:03.380 yeah

01:19:05.380 okay

01:19:07.380 for the other girls at the panel here

01:19:09.380 do you get bored really easily with guys

01:19:11.380 yes

01:19:12.380 yes

01:19:13.380 or you said that yes

01:19:15.380 you get bored

01:19:16.380 sometimes

01:19:17.380 yeah

01:19:18.380 yeah

01:19:19.380 yeah

01:19:20.380 yeah

01:19:21.380 I did cool people

01:19:22.380 okay

01:19:23.380 bored

01:19:24.380 bored

01:19:25.380 no

01:19:26.380 okay

01:19:27.380 I don't get the whole like

01:19:28.380 why y'all looking to us to be your entertainment

01:19:30.380 you know what

01:19:31.380 like have you heard of a Netflix

01:19:32.380 that is true

01:19:33.380 okay

01:19:34.380 you want to be entertained

01:19:35.380 watch Netflix

01:19:36.380 are you not entertained

01:19:38.380 no you're right about that

01:19:42.380 I think maybe instead of them being like entertaining I mean more someone who grows with you

01:19:49.380 I feel like the boring part comes from men who maybe they stop progressing in their life

01:19:55.380 I like somebody who is always looking to do the next thing whether that be in their business or vacation or learning something new

01:20:04.380 I feel like having somebody who continues to grow is super important because I otherwise I just feel stagnant for just doing the same stuff all the time

01:20:12.380 is it up to them to make all the plans or do you

01:20:15.380 oh no I make I make plans too

01:20:17.380 okay

01:20:18.380 so it's not just all

01:20:19.380 no no no no

01:20:20.380 no it's definitely not all on them

01:20:22.380 I feel like women should bring a lot to the table as well as men

01:20:25.380 I feel like a lot of women

01:20:28.380 I feel like they get it a little easy where they just kind of feel like they can just sit back in the relationship and it's all the guy doing everything

01:20:34.380 like I feel like romance is about both parties making each other's dreams come true

01:20:39.380 and for the bored thing you said you get bored

01:20:43.380 um well I agree with her I get what she's saying about like growing because I feel like if you get stuck in the same like cycle with your partner

01:20:50.380 it gets boring after a while like some people might like a routine

01:20:54.380 but I would like what she said about growing like with a person and experiencing things with them

01:21:00.380 like that I would say that I got bored so

01:21:04.380 you got bored what what's going on with the being bored

01:21:07.380 I don't know it just happens you know you just get bored

01:21:10.380 you get bored of them

01:21:11.380 yeah you just get bored of them

01:21:13.380 like like they're boring

01:21:15.380 not like they're boring it's just like together it's like it's just like okay we're boring

01:21:20.380 you know

01:21:22.380 it's just not very exciting

01:21:24.380 it's just not exciting there's we're not doing anything

01:21:26.380 nothing's exciting about you

01:21:28.380 yeah

01:21:29.380 so what would like I an ideal non boring relationship look like

01:21:34.380 I don't know just like having hobbies together doing activities

01:21:37.380 yeah

01:21:38.380 yeah and you didn't do that with any of your previous

01:21:40.380 no

01:21:41.380 people

01:21:42.380 no not my most recent ex

01:21:43.380 no

01:21:44.380 well what would you guys do

01:21:47.380 um

01:21:48.380 like go to the beach watch movies

01:21:52.380 sounds great

01:21:53.380 that's really it

01:21:54.380 food beach movies

01:21:55.380 movies

01:21:56.380 yeah but there's only so much food beach movies

01:21:58.380 you want to do

01:21:59.380 yeah exactly

01:22:00.380 well you get stuck in that cycle

01:22:01.380 that's what I was talking about

01:22:02.380 the cycle of being boring

01:22:04.380 yeah

01:22:05.380 the cycle of being

01:22:06.380 you gotta keep it spicy

01:22:07.380 yes

01:22:08.380 that's it

01:22:09.380 keep it spicy

01:22:10.380 you gotta keep it spicy

01:22:11.380 it's just I was kind of crazy to me

01:22:12.380 and you too right

01:22:13.380 you get bored

01:22:14.380 yeah

01:22:15.380 yeah it's just like like

01:22:16.380 people talk about like the honeymoon phase or whatever

01:22:18.380 and then it kind of just gets into like the same thing all the time

01:22:21.380 metromat donated $200

01:22:24.380 youngins

01:22:25.380 don't get tainted by the ideals of methanine chair one

01:22:28.380 oh methanine

01:22:30.380 she's prime example of what not to do

01:22:34.380 that's I think yeah you got some we got four 18 year olds here

01:22:38.380 metromat thing for the TTS appreciate it

01:22:41.380 uh you were saying

01:22:42.380 yeah it's just like

01:22:43.380 I feel like

01:22:44.380 once you get past that stage

01:22:45.380 then people get like comfortable

01:22:46.380 and it's just like

01:22:47.380 it's not as exciting anymore

01:22:48.380 that's kind of what I mean in boring

01:22:50.380 like it's not exciting

01:22:51.380 it's not like

01:22:52.380 like when it's new

01:22:53.380 it's really exciting

01:22:54.380 but there's also like people

01:22:55.380 that can still make it feel new

01:22:56.380 like everyday

01:22:57.380 like that's how I feel

01:22:58.380 well you've been in a relationship for one year

01:22:59.380 is it

01:23:00.380 yeah it's like

01:23:01.380 exciting

01:23:02.380 yeah it's still really exciting

01:23:03.380 like

01:23:04.380 I never get bored of him

01:23:05.380 like it's just always like fun

01:23:07.380 and like light hearted

01:23:08.380 but still like

01:23:09.380 sparks I guess

01:23:10.380 I'd say

01:23:11.380 I mean

01:23:12.380 I'm gonna have to join in with the females in this one

01:23:14.380 I can't do fucking boring either

01:23:15.380 like I've had

01:23:16.380 I've had pretty girls in the past

01:23:18.380 that were dead shit

01:23:19.380 bad shit boring

01:23:20.380 and quiet

01:23:21.380 quiet is the worst

01:23:22.380 when they're super quiet

01:23:23.380 when they don't talk

01:23:24.380 so I think again

01:23:25.380 I like you know

01:23:26.380 I gotta disagree with you on this one

01:23:27.380 that's fine bro

01:23:28.380 I'm a fan of the introverted

01:23:30.380 a bit more quiet

01:23:31.380 I mean

01:23:32.380 you know what I mean

01:23:33.380 it depends on the person

01:23:34.380 like if you're a quiet guy

01:23:35.380 then obviously you might want a quiet person

01:23:36.380 I like to talk a lot

01:23:37.380 sometimes I don't fucking stop talking you know

01:23:39.380 I can't shut up

01:23:40.380 so I want someone who is not

01:23:42.380 like quiet

01:23:43.380 and introverted

01:23:44.380 and shy

01:23:45.380 and boring

01:23:46.380 I want someone who can like

01:23:47.380 they don't have to match my energy

01:23:48.380 but I just want someone who's

01:23:50.380 interesting

01:23:51.380 because I can't do boring

01:23:52.380 I've left girls in the past

01:23:53.380 and they'll drop shit

01:23:55.380 fucking batshit beautiful

01:23:57.380 like so pretty

01:23:58.380 but they'll just so fucking boring

01:23:59.380 let me ask you one question

01:24:00.380 and I would literally tell them

01:24:01.380 like I can't be with you

01:24:02.380 because you're boring

01:24:03.380 like I'll just tell them

01:24:04.380 and your current girlfriend

01:24:05.380 would you say she's more introverted

01:24:06.380 or extroverted

01:24:07.380 she's very extroverted

01:24:08.380 and then one question

01:24:09.380 on the boring thing

01:24:10.380 otherwise I wouldn't be with her

01:24:12.380 when you say

01:24:13.380 but when you say

01:24:14.380 boring

01:24:15.380 like I'm assuming you're not talking about

01:24:18.380 quarreling

01:24:19.380 quarrel

01:24:20.380 like

01:24:21.380 conflict right

01:24:23.380 no not conflict

01:24:24.380 because some people

01:24:25.380 like I'm more talking about

01:24:26.380 like just you know

01:24:27.380 just having fun

01:24:28.380 yeah yeah

01:24:29.380 because there's lots of girls out there

01:24:31.380 that just don't really have fun

01:24:33.380 or don't know how to get down and dirty

01:24:34.380 I like to do lots of fun things

01:24:36.380 like fucking go rock climbing

01:24:37.380 Sure

01:24:38.380 and fucking

01:24:39.380 I don't know just all crazy shit man

01:24:40.380 like skateboarding

01:24:41.380 and snowboarding

01:24:42.380 like I like to do fun shit

01:24:43.380 so if a girl doesn't like to

01:24:45.380 dive into the activities that I like

01:24:47.380 I think she's boring

01:24:48.380 you know

01:24:49.380 so I like extreme sports

01:24:50.380 I like to go to the gym

01:24:51.380 if a girl doesn't like to train

01:24:52.380 or doesn't look after her fitness

01:24:54.380 or doesn't do any kind of like movement

01:24:56.380 whether it's gym, tap, ballet, whatever

01:24:59.380 then I find them boring

01:25:00.380 you know

01:25:01.380 I find someone who's just in a routine

01:25:02.380 and doesn't get out of their routine boring

01:25:05.380 so I don't think

01:25:06.380 yeah there's no growth

01:25:07.380 yeah so I'm with the girls on this one

01:25:08.380 I don't think it's a male or a female thing

01:25:09.380 like I've been in that situation

01:25:11.380 where I've left plenty of women

01:25:13.380 because they were super boring

01:25:14.380 you know what I mean

01:25:15.380 so that's one thing I look for now

01:25:16.380 someone that can stimulate me

01:25:17.380 mentally and physically

01:25:19.380 I left one girl for that reason too

01:25:20.380 she was so boring

01:25:21.380 we used to call her the bubblegum princess

01:25:23.380 because all she wanted to do

01:25:24.380 was bang and eat candy and bubblegum

01:25:26.380 but like she was

01:25:27.380 What?

01:25:28.380 Wait one second

01:25:29.380 Bubblegum bonanza

01:25:30.380 no she was as intellectually deep as a puddle

01:25:33.380 like I would come home from work

01:25:34.380 and I'd be like

01:25:35.380 oh I had the worst day

01:25:36.380 and she's like oh

01:25:37.380 do you want to know what happened?

01:25:38.380 she goes no

01:25:39.380 I'm like okay

01:25:40.380 she goes can we just bang

01:25:41.380 and then you want to eat more bubblegum?

01:25:42.380 what?

01:25:43.380 yeah for real

01:25:44.380 wait hold on

01:25:45.380 she eats bubblegum?

01:25:46.380 like the candy?

01:25:47.380 but she had candy under her bed

01:25:48.380 with like little snacks and bubblegum

01:25:50.380 how was her teeth?

01:25:51.380 they were really nice

01:25:53.380 and she used to watch Disney all the time

01:25:55.380 and she was like 28

01:25:56.380 I'm like

01:25:57.380 it's the most bizarre thing ever

01:25:58.380 things I would like be on the way there

01:25:59.380 I'd have to come up with an excuse to leave

01:26:01.380 yeah

01:26:02.380 that's red flag

01:26:03.380 I would like preload leaving excuses

01:26:05.380 I'd be like I have to go

01:26:06.380 and then

01:26:07.380 but then she broke up with me

01:26:09.380 I'm like how do you even smart enough to know how to do that?

01:26:12.380 she was preemptive

01:26:13.380 she knew you were gonna dump her

01:26:14.380 she was like I gotta get rid of this guy first

01:26:15.380 no but what I'm saying is I was so bored

01:26:18.380 and it was just not fun

01:26:19.380 so everyone try new things

01:26:21.380 if you want to be popular in the dating world

01:26:23.380 I mean I jumped on this podcast because I was bored

01:26:25.380 I was literally like I'm bored

01:26:27.380 I'm gonna do this

01:26:28.380 I'm gonna be in LA

01:26:30.380 what about you boring?

01:26:33.380 what do you think Brian?

01:26:34.380 what do you think about what I said?

01:26:36.380 like honestly

01:26:37.380 in terms of like being on the same level with activities and mindset

01:26:40.380 like you can be

01:26:42.380 like someone can be boring

01:26:43.380 and you know you might

01:26:44.380 that might not be like a definitive like no for you in terms of dating

01:26:48.380 but I mean for sure it is for me

01:26:50.380 you know someone can be boring mentally

01:26:52.380 they might be stupid

01:26:53.380 they might not even be able to hold a conversation

01:26:56.380 they might just be dumb and pretty

01:26:58.380 that's boring to me too

01:26:59.380 you know?

01:27:00.380 yeah well I mean first off I recognize

01:27:01.380 people obviously have different preferences

01:27:03.380 and then that's gonna be influenced based on

01:27:06.380 kind of your own personality dispositions

01:27:09.380 if you're more on the extroverted side

01:27:11.380 you might be more appreciative of somebody

01:27:13.380 who's a bit more extroverted

01:27:14.380 if you're more outdoorsy

01:27:16.380 you'll want somebody who matches up with you there

01:27:18.380 if you're more like homebody

01:27:20.380 you're probably gonna get along better with somebody who's more of a homebody

01:27:23.380 me personally

01:27:24.380 and I think there's nothing wrong with your preferences at all

01:27:27.380 we all have our own preferences

01:27:29.380 I certainly prefer more introverted women

01:27:31.380 I consider myself more introverted

01:27:35.380 shy

01:27:36.380 a little shy is always good

01:27:39.380 homebody is good

01:27:42.380 yeah I don't want to like go on hikes you know

01:27:45.380 probably why I gained a bunch of weight

01:27:46.380 but that's another conversation

01:27:47.380 but

01:27:49.380 no I don't like you know

01:27:51.380 cause the thing is I'm so busy right

01:27:53.380 the thing with

01:27:54.380 not all women but some women

01:27:56.380 you get a little bit of free time

01:27:58.380 this is a Bill Burr bit

01:28:00.380 they just want to like

01:28:01.380 sometimes you just want a little bit of peace

01:28:03.380 they want to fill shit in

01:28:04.380 you know for like the free time

01:28:06.380 oh let's go to brunch

01:28:08.380 I'm not gonna

01:28:09.380 I can't do brunch

01:28:11.380 I can't even do a linner

01:28:13.380 linner

01:28:14.380 I can't do linner

01:28:15.380 I can't do brunch

01:28:16.380 lunch dinner

01:28:17.380 they gotta fill in that empty can't just chill

01:28:20.380 I've actually not experienced that too much with any of my relationships

01:28:24.380 because it's kind of my way

01:28:27.380 yeah

01:28:28.380 I get that

01:28:30.380 I'm the same dude

01:28:31.380 I'm the same

01:28:32.380 it's my way or the highway

01:28:33.380 it's part of being the boss as well

01:28:34.380 yeah

01:28:35.380 when I got with my partner

01:28:36.380 I told her I'm gonna listen

01:28:37.380 I'm gonna do like

01:28:38.380 I have like the next four or five years

01:28:39.380 planned in doing bodybuilding competitions

01:28:42.380 and I have to go through like a bodybuilding prep

01:28:44.380 and I like to hang out with the boys

01:28:46.380 and I still like to smoke weed

01:28:47.380 and I still like to do all this shit

01:28:48.380 I still I'm a boys boy you know

01:28:50.380 like

01:28:51.380 can't say anything bad but

01:28:53.380 no hermit erectus

01:28:54.380 but I like to hang out

01:28:55.380 I like to hang out with the boys

01:28:56.380 you know I'm a boys boy

01:28:57.380 I like to hang out with my mates

01:28:58.380 and have fun

01:28:59.380 play video games

01:29:00.380 smoke weed

01:29:01.380 so like if I had a partner that

01:29:03.380 would try to take that away from me

01:29:04.380 and just make me resent them

01:29:05.380 so I still like to do that boy shit

01:29:07.380 when I'm fucking married one day

01:29:08.380 I want to have a man cave

01:29:09.380 I want to disappear in there

01:29:10.380 with my dogs

01:29:11.380 and my video games

01:29:12.380 yeah bro

01:29:13.380 no no no no

01:29:14.380 you get more than a man cave

01:29:16.380 you can't be like

01:29:17.380 it would be a man palace brother

01:29:19.380 yeah it can't be like

01:29:20.380 you're relegated to one room

01:29:22.380 and the rest of the house is your wife

01:29:23.380 but that's what I like

01:29:24.380 I want a huge man cave

01:29:26.380 pinball machines

01:29:27.380 lava lamps

01:29:28.380 pool tables

01:29:29.380 lava lamps

01:29:30.380 there you go

01:29:31.380 I'm like a boys boy

01:29:32.380 I like that shit

01:29:33.380 you know what I mean

01:29:34.380 foosball

01:29:35.380 foosball

01:29:36.380 yeah just shit like that man

01:29:37.380 so I mean

01:29:38.380 I guess that's just where I'm at

01:29:40.380 like

01:29:41.380 they gotta be

01:29:42.380 back to what I was saying

01:29:43.380 before I diverged too much

01:29:44.380 but they just gotta be interesting man

01:29:46.380 and I think what you said was right Brian

01:29:47.380 like

01:29:48.380 they just gotta match your energy

01:29:49.380 so like

01:29:50.380 I mean if you're a quiet dude

01:29:51.380 obviously you're not gonna want

01:29:52.380 an out there crazy girl

01:29:53.380 and vice versa

01:29:54.380 you know if you're a bit extroverted

01:29:55.380 you'd probably want someone

01:29:56.380 who's extroverted

01:29:57.380 I've been with introverted women

01:29:58.380 and they're fucking boring

01:29:59.380 half the time I didn't even know if they liked me

01:30:01.380 I was like

01:30:02.380 one time I was with this introverted girl

01:30:03.380 and we went on like two dates

01:30:05.380 and I had no idea if she liked me or not

01:30:07.380 and then by the end of it

01:30:08.380 I was like listen

01:30:09.380 you seem like a nice girl

01:30:10.380 but I don't think this is going anywhere

01:30:11.380 I don't think I'm the type of guy for you

01:30:13.380 like we could just stay friends

01:30:14.380 and then she messaged me

01:30:15.380 she's like no no no

01:30:16.380 I do like you

01:30:17.380 I do like you

01:30:18.380 I'm like what the fuck

01:30:19.380 you don't even say a word when I hang out with you

01:30:20.380 you don't say anything

01:30:21.380 you don't talk

01:30:22.380 you don't converse

01:30:23.380 sign me up

01:30:25.380 I'll send her your way bro

01:30:27.380 she's in my DM somewhere from a few years ago

01:30:29.380 but yeah no man

01:30:30.380 and I just found that like

01:30:31.380 I don't know

01:30:32.380 it was really weird for me

01:30:33.380 it was really strange

01:30:34.380 I'm like how can you like me

01:30:35.380 and you can't even like speak to me

01:30:36.380 like what the fuck

01:30:37.380 like it was just weird

01:30:38.380 maybe she was a fan

01:30:40.380 and she was nervous

01:30:41.380 she probably was

01:30:42.380 she might have been nervous man

01:30:43.380 you're

01:30:44.380 I mean dude I'm chill man

01:30:45.380 there's nothing to be nervous about

01:30:46.380 she was like

01:30:47.380 how did she slide into your DMs

01:30:48.380 is that how you guys

01:30:49.380 I'm

01:30:51.380 I can't remember

01:30:52.380 I might have slid into hers actually

01:30:54.380 oh oh

01:30:55.380 yeah I might have slid into hers

01:30:56.380 oh okay

01:30:57.380 and then all hanging out

01:30:58.380 and then yeah she was just

01:30:59.380 she's just dull

01:31:00.380 she's dull

01:31:01.380 just boring

01:31:02.380 oh I love dull

01:31:03.380 very boring

01:31:04.380 no

01:31:05.380 it's great

01:31:06.380 seems no

01:31:07.380 okay what what would you do

01:31:08.380 I mean you're in a relationship right

01:31:09.380 so yeah

01:31:10.380 what do you do with your boyfriend

01:31:12.380 um

01:31:13.380 well it's very different from my last relationship

01:31:15.380 I felt like I planned a lot of stuff

01:31:17.380 and I wasn't getting like the same treatment back

01:31:20.380 so I really wanted to find someone who like matches my energy

01:31:23.380 and wants to do the same things I do

01:31:24.380 and like puts in the same effort that I give

01:31:26.380 instead of like me doing everything

01:31:28.380 so we go to the gym together

01:31:30.380 that's like one thing that we do constantly

01:31:32.380 like something that he likes that I'll like

01:31:34.380 okay I have to do it with you

01:31:36.380 and then just like the beach

01:31:37.380 I mean there's so much to do in Santa Barbara

01:31:39.380 so we're constantly like we go to the zoo

01:31:40.380 we just like spontaneously like we drove to

01:31:43.380 how often can you go to the zoo though

01:31:44.380 well we just went once

01:31:45.380 that's like a once a year

01:31:46.380 no I get it but like

01:31:47.380 that's like a once a decade

01:31:49.380 yeah

01:31:50.380 like you go to the zoo you've seen it

01:31:51.380 what else is there to do at the zoo

01:31:53.380 I don't know

01:31:54.380 maybe you're really into animals

01:31:55.380 do you like animals

01:31:56.380 yeah it was I'm just saying like

01:31:57.380 we just do things like out of the blue

01:31:59.380 like we drove to like my hometown

01:32:00.380 it was like a seven hour drive

01:32:02.380 for like no reason

01:32:03.380 that sounds so bad

01:32:04.380 well it was fun

01:32:05.380 seven hours I'm sorry

01:32:06.380 okay it wasn't that bad

01:32:07.380 but I'm just saying like

01:32:08.380 we do things just like for fun

01:32:10.380 we don't like to just like sit around

01:32:11.380 like it is nice

01:32:12.380 like I get sitting around

01:32:13.380 and having your free time

01:32:14.380 having your free time

01:32:15.380 but like going to dinners and stuff

01:32:17.380 and like hanging out

01:32:18.380 like bonding friend groups

01:32:19.380 I think that that's important

01:32:21.380 hmm

01:32:22.380 I was probably a little more

01:32:24.380 when I was younger you know

01:32:25.380 what did you do for fun Brian

01:32:27.380 when I was younger

01:32:28.380 yeah like even now

01:32:29.380 surfing

01:32:30.380 even now surfing

01:32:31.380 okay cool

01:32:32.380 yeah but I don't want to take a girl

01:32:33.380 no offense

01:32:34.380 what if she's good

01:32:35.380 if she's good

01:32:36.380 I get that yeah yeah yeah

01:32:37.380 if she's shit

01:32:38.380 but if you're doing

01:32:39.380 yeah I get that

01:32:40.380 okay cool

01:32:41.380 like doing activity with somebody

01:32:42.380 and their skill level is like

01:32:43.380 I know what you mean

01:32:44.380 yeah yeah yeah

01:32:45.380 like I can't bring her out

01:32:46.380 on like a like double overhead day

01:32:48.380 and she's gonna fucking drown

01:32:49.380 and shit

01:32:50.380 like she's gotta know

01:32:51.380 yeah okay

01:32:52.380 you know but yeah

01:32:53.380 but so and that was my thing

01:32:54.380 it was like

01:32:55.380 I feel you on that one

01:32:56.380 I would you know I could take her out

01:32:57.380 once or twice on a small day

01:32:58.380 and teach her how to surf

01:33:00.380 but then like when I want to go surf

01:33:02.380 yeah

01:33:03.380 you can't come with like

01:33:05.380 that's like that's like the beach

01:33:06.380 that's like my girlfriend

01:33:07.380 we went to the snow

01:33:08.380 like a few months ago

01:33:09.380 snowboarding

01:33:10.380 she I told her

01:33:12.380 I didn't teach her

01:33:13.380 but I just took her into the sports

01:33:14.380 so she started skiing

01:33:15.380 and I was snowboarding

01:33:16.380 and she's like

01:33:17.380 she's not that good

01:33:18.380 so I'm just like babe

01:33:19.380 like you just learn on this mountain

01:33:20.380 I'm gonna go do like some black runs

01:33:21.380 and diamond runs

01:33:22.380 and all this other stuff

01:33:23.380 and then by the end of the day

01:33:24.380 she was just able to go down

01:33:25.380 like a basic mountain

01:33:27.380 and then she's so cute

01:33:28.380 she's like oh I want to book a snow trip

01:33:29.380 for us and everything

01:33:30.380 we'll go for a whole week

01:33:31.380 and I'm just thinking in my head

01:33:32.380 fuck I'm gonna have to like spend like

01:33:34.380 the whole week

01:33:35.380 either just ditching you

01:33:36.380 and doing my own runs

01:33:37.380 or like staying on this like

01:33:38.380 little tiny little run

01:33:39.380 when my skill level is like pretty high

01:33:41.380 so we came to a conclusion

01:33:42.380 I'm like why don't you like

01:33:44.380 do a few lessons

01:33:45.380 learn or go up with like

01:33:46.380 one of your girl mates

01:33:47.380 who also skis

01:33:48.380 learn a bit

01:33:49.380 get on like a decent level

01:33:50.380 then we can do it

01:33:51.380 I have no quarrels about that

01:33:52.380 if you get like you don't have to be as good

01:33:53.380 I'm a great snowboarder

01:33:54.380 I've only snowboarded like

01:33:55.380 four times in my life

01:33:56.380 but I can already fucking like

01:33:57.380 I'm a gun at it

01:33:58.380 because I used to skateboard when I was younger

01:33:59.380 so I told her like

01:34:00.380 just get to like a level

01:34:01.380 where we can both go down a mountain together

01:34:02.380 and you know

01:34:03.380 then it'll be fucking enjoyable

01:34:04.380 why wouldn't you want to do that

01:34:05.380 with your partner

01:34:06.380 I'd rather do that like with my girlfriend

01:34:08.380 than like with a bunch of guys

01:34:09.380 you know what I mean

01:34:10.380 like sure

01:34:11.380 especially if she can get on my skill level

01:34:12.380 that would be fucking mad

01:34:13.380 hey let me know

01:34:14.380 I'll teach her

01:34:15.380 I grew up skiing

01:34:16.380 oh you can ski

01:34:17.380 ski team

01:34:18.380 I raced in high school

01:34:19.380 there you go

01:34:20.380 there you go

01:34:21.380 we want to do some trips like in Canada

01:34:22.380 and we want to do some trips in like Japan

01:34:24.380 but like she's still learning the ropes now

01:34:26.380 she can she's just picked it up after like two three days

01:34:28.380 but I think she's still at least one season away from being able to go down a mountain

01:34:33.380 yeah

01:34:34.380 I mean I'm not that good at a snowboarder either

01:34:36.380 but I picked it up very quick

01:34:37.380 like in about a week

01:34:38.380 just going down the black runs

01:34:40.380 the diamond runs

01:34:41.380 so yeah that's good

01:34:42.380 I can't wait to do it again

01:34:43.380 just go straight and don't hit trees

01:34:45.380 we don't have we don't have trees

01:34:47.380 we don't have any trees in Australia

01:34:49.380 oh

01:34:50.380 we don't have any of that

01:34:51.380 yeah it's just

01:34:52.380 so perfect just go straight

01:34:53.380 it's easy just

01:34:54.380 unfortunately you have to fall a few times before you learn you know

01:34:57.380 you have to just

01:34:58.380 get used to falling

01:34:59.380 get used to hurting yourself

01:35:00.380 and then when you get used to it

01:35:01.380 that's how you learn

01:35:02.380 like I stacked it at least a hundred times on my first two three days

01:35:05.380 my mates left me

01:35:06.380 I went with a group of boys and they left me

01:35:08.380 they're just like fuck you suck dude

01:35:09.380 so they left me on a mountain on my own

01:35:11.380 that's how you get better

01:35:12.380 yeah they left me on the chicken run

01:35:13.380 they're like you suck dude

01:35:14.380 just do your own thing

01:35:15.380 and then by the end of the two days

01:35:16.380 I was like I was a fucking gun

01:35:18.380 so I intend to do the same with my partner

01:35:20.380 just like let her learn

01:35:21.380 and then let's go do it together

01:35:22.380 we have a chat here from Pelagic

01:35:24.380 he says are all Aussies as boring and simpy

01:35:27.380 do you guys want to respond to these accusations

01:35:30.380 you little fucking insult poof

01:35:31.380 come say that out here bro

01:35:32.380 oh shit

01:35:33.380 go check out my instagram brother

01:35:34.380 say it's again

01:35:35.380 it's far from boring my man

01:35:36.380 oh shit

01:35:37.380 Pelagic

01:35:38.380 he's probably some incel with a fucking neckbeard

01:35:40.380 sitting behind his laptop

01:35:41.380 oh lord

01:35:42.380 Pelagic

01:35:43.380 Pelagic

01:35:44.380 brother my arms

01:35:45.380 brother my arms are probably the size of your legs

01:35:46.380 probably someone who's

01:35:47.380 Pelagic

01:35:48.380 they're mine

01:35:49.380 yeah they're probably

01:35:50.380 well thank you Pelagic for the super chat

01:35:52.380 I guess you and Chespar are gonna fight now

01:35:54.380 but

01:35:55.380 go check out my instagram

01:35:56.380 say it underscore Sigavitz

01:35:57.380 oh shit

01:35:58.380 tell me if I'm boring bro

01:35:59.380 oh shit

01:36:00.380 okay

01:36:01.380 never heard boring

01:36:02.380 ever

01:36:03.380 you can hide it

01:36:04.380 oh it's cheeks

01:36:05.380 okay so

01:36:06.380 cocky arrogant

01:36:07.380 funny

01:36:08.380 never boring

01:36:09.380 so I have a question going around the table on the whole boring thing really quick

01:36:13.380 would you rather be with a boring guy but there is never any conflict arguing

01:36:19.380 or with a really fun entertaining interesting guy but there's constant conflict and arguing

01:36:28.380 you go first

01:36:30.380 I would still pick the conflict

01:36:33.380 the conflict drama

01:36:34.380 yeah

01:36:35.380 okay

01:36:36.380 I would pick conflict

01:36:37.380 the conflict

01:36:38.380 okay

01:36:40.380 maybe I would pick boring because in my previous relationship we didn't fight at all and

01:36:45.380 I wouldn't say that it was boring but it was like good like he was still fun but

01:36:48.380 in this situation I would stay with boring

01:36:51.380 yeah

01:36:52.380 okay so boring no conflict

01:36:53.380 all right

01:36:54.380 what about you

01:36:55.380 probably conflict

01:36:56.380 conflict

01:36:57.380 okay

01:36:58.380 conflict as well

01:36:59.380 conflict

01:37:00.380 okay

01:37:01.380 give me the peace

01:37:02.380 peace

01:37:03.380 all right

01:37:04.380 all right

01:37:05.380 and what about you which do you pick

01:37:06.380 fuck

01:37:07.380 you put me on the spot on this one I don't know

01:37:08.380 they both suck

01:37:09.380 um

01:37:10.380 if you gotta pick one

01:37:11.380 if you have to pick one

01:37:12.380 boring I guess

01:37:13.380 I've got too much shit going on

01:37:14.380 yeah I need the peace

01:37:15.380 yeah I have to have peace to do my job

01:37:16.380 I'll take the boring

01:37:17.380 I couldn't deal with my job with drama

01:37:18.380 I pick boring

01:37:19.380 that's the first thing I thought of before

01:37:20.380 yeah you know

01:37:21.380 I thought how's my career gonna get impacted with a toxic girl or a boring girl

01:37:24.380 I'm like I'll take boring

01:37:25.380 you try to do this podcast your fans

01:37:26.380 why

01:37:27.380 why is it not finished

01:37:29.380 you didn't like the podcast

01:37:30.380 you didn't like my photo on Instagram

01:37:31.380 what the fuck

01:37:33.380 do you like her

01:37:34.380 what do you marry a podcast

01:37:35.380 yep

01:37:36.380 yep

01:37:37.380 um

01:37:38.380 yeah boring

01:37:39.380 yeah

01:37:40.380 agreed

01:37:41.380 uh so we going around

01:37:42.380 I think we're going around the table on

01:37:44.380 uh are you picky

01:37:45.380 so I think you were kind of starting to answer

01:37:48.380 uh why don't we also so are you picky

01:37:50.380 And then if so, or even if not, what do you want a guy to bring to the table?

01:37:58.760 What does a guy need to bring to the table to get you?

01:38:01.960 So if you want to just restate some of your things.

01:38:05.500 I like someone who grows, someone who's funny.

01:38:08.720 I love to laugh, even if it's at my own expense.

01:38:12.240 Laughter is the best thing in the whole world.

01:38:14.220 So if he can't make me laugh, I can't do it.

01:38:16.500 And as far as bringing things to the table, definitely somebody, when you go into them, they are your home.

01:38:30.880 No matter where you're at.

01:38:32.500 That's what I just want.

01:38:34.460 It doesn't matter if you're rich, poor, whatever.

01:38:36.320 I just want to feel like I'm home when I'm with you.

01:38:39.460 Alright, are you picky?

01:38:40.920 I feel like I'm not picky.

01:38:42.420 However, I do see commonalities between the people I date.

01:38:45.200 I think that they're usually funny.

01:38:47.640 They usually like video games, stuff like that.

01:38:50.760 That just I enjoy as well.

01:38:52.460 Going outdoors.

01:38:53.940 And then so for the what do they need to bring to the table question, you can include things like...

01:38:59.440 Humor.

01:38:59.940 Yeah, so personality and then like physical traits too.

01:39:03.280 If you need a guy who's tall or ripped or whatever, shredded.

01:39:08.120 I don't think I...

01:39:08.860 I like long hair, but...

01:39:10.100 Sliced.

01:39:10.440 Sliced.

01:39:11.040 No, I don't have physical traits.

01:39:12.460 Aesthetic as fuck.

01:39:13.980 Aesthetic.

01:39:14.380 Myron Aesthetics.

01:39:15.700 You Marron games, bro?

01:39:16.640 You Marron?

01:39:17.900 What about you?

01:39:20.720 Wait, sorry.

01:39:21.420 What was the question?

01:39:22.280 Oh, it's okay.

01:39:23.420 In before five.

01:39:24.120 Are you picky?

01:39:24.920 Oh, yeah.

01:39:25.680 Yeah, are you picky?

01:39:26.560 In dot JPEG.

01:39:27.740 And then what...

01:39:30.300 Oh, are you picky?

01:39:32.600 And then what does a guy need to bring to the table to get you?

01:39:35.060 It could be personality.

01:39:36.540 It could be looks.

01:39:37.460 He has to be six foot tall.

01:39:38.820 Whatever it is.

01:39:39.380 Um, I...

01:39:41.460 I do think that I'm picky sometimes.

01:39:45.120 I think it...

01:39:45.960 It depends because the people who have come into my life have come in, like, not, like,

01:39:50.200 forced.

01:39:50.800 It's, like, been a very natural way.

01:39:52.340 So, it's not like I'm really, like, looking for someone.

01:39:54.460 Right.

01:39:55.080 And as, like...

01:39:56.560 Most of the guys, all our gym heads are my weakness.

01:40:00.680 I really like guys who go to the gym.

01:40:02.220 Um, uh, they have to be tall, less short.

01:40:06.060 I don't like short men.

01:40:07.720 Yeah.

01:40:08.540 Yeah.

01:40:09.040 And then just basic personality traits.

01:40:11.840 Just, like, funny, like, home.

01:40:14.240 I like that.

01:40:15.680 Um, but, yeah.

01:40:16.460 Mostly gym head.

01:40:17.400 That's my thing.

01:40:17.940 Gym head?

01:40:18.740 Yeah.

01:40:19.080 Is your boyfriend shredded?

01:40:20.660 Yeah.

01:40:21.880 I would say.

01:40:23.720 All right.

01:40:24.480 Uh, okay.

01:40:25.200 What about you?

01:40:25.680 Okay.

01:40:26.220 Um, I don't think I'm picky, like, with, like, physical traits.

01:40:30.220 But, maybe with, like, personality and stuff.

01:40:33.340 Like, don't be boring.

01:40:34.760 Don't be boring.

01:40:35.220 Yeah.

01:40:35.820 I already said that, so, yeah, you know.

01:40:36.600 Okay.

01:40:36.620 So, they can be, like, short and fat, but...

01:40:39.100 Oh, okay.

01:40:39.620 Well, okay.

01:40:40.720 Maybe, like, tall, taller than me, which isn't that hard, so...

01:40:45.040 I'll tell you.

01:40:46.060 5'2".

01:40:46.780 Okay.

01:40:47.240 So, 5'3"?

01:40:48.020 No.

01:40:48.620 Okay.

01:40:48.900 Probably, like...

01:40:49.580 Oh, okay.

01:40:50.400 I would, like, prefer, like...

01:40:52.460 Bare minimum.

01:40:53.240 Okay.

01:40:54.340 Mm, like, 5'9".

01:40:57.160 And then you said you would prefer...

01:40:59.160 Prefer, like, 6'3", 6...

01:41:02.540 Somewhere in that range.

01:41:03.860 What?

01:41:04.420 6'3", 6'4".

01:41:05.900 Yeah.

01:41:06.500 My ex was 6'5", so...

01:41:08.940 Damn.

01:41:11.500 And you're 5'2".

01:41:12.140 Yeah.

01:41:13.540 Wait, so, okay, 5'2", but you'd prefer 6'3", 6'4".

01:41:16.860 Yes.

01:41:18.080 It's always like that, though.

01:41:19.020 I've noticed, like, the shorter girls, like, the super tall guys.

01:41:21.320 That is a really good observation.

01:41:23.300 Like, the girls who are, like, 5'4", to, like, even taller, like, they're kind of, like,

01:41:27.480 a little more forgiving, but, like, the 5'5", 5'4", he's got to be, like, 6'4".

01:41:31.240 I think it's, like...

01:41:31.780 Honestly, I think it's, like, a biological thing.

01:41:33.760 I think they just don't want to have manlet kids.

01:41:35.420 The kids.

01:41:36.100 Little manlets.

01:41:36.760 Manlets, yeah.

01:41:37.820 Well, you got to make up.

01:41:39.320 They got to make up for you.

01:41:40.160 Yeah, of course.

01:41:41.000 You know, average of that.

01:41:41.800 5'2", 6'4", equals, what, like, 6'4"?

01:41:44.280 Yeah, I think that's how the math plays out.

01:41:47.660 But, okay.

01:41:49.100 All right.

01:41:50.500 Any other traits?

01:41:53.360 I mean, have to be, like, attracted to you, but...

01:41:55.880 I don't really have a...

01:41:56.600 No.

01:41:57.200 Okay.

01:41:57.740 Yeah.

01:41:58.320 All right.

01:41:59.160 What about you?

01:42:00.580 I mean, I wouldn't say I'm really picky when it comes to looks.

01:42:03.900 I look more in, like, personality, and I'd rather someone have a good personality than

01:42:08.240 be, like, picture perfect.

01:42:10.680 But, obviously, looks don't matter, and, like, you have to be taller than me by, like, a pretty

01:42:17.040 good amount, and, like, I don't know, obviously I have to be attracted to you in some way, but

01:42:21.760 I'd rather, like, look into someone's personality than their looks.

01:42:25.320 And, wait, taller than you by a...

01:42:27.180 So, how tall are you?

01:42:28.300 I'm 5'3", so, like, 5'10".

01:42:31.020 Okay.

01:42:31.420 That's minimum, 5'10".

01:42:32.440 Yeah.

01:42:32.920 Okay.

01:42:33.340 Yeah.

01:42:33.520 And how tall is your boyfriend?

01:42:35.020 He's 5'11".

01:42:37.000 5'11".

01:42:37.820 5'11".

01:42:38.140 Yeah.

01:42:38.880 All right.

01:42:39.480 So, 5'9".

01:42:40.460 Can't do it?

01:42:42.340 Yeah, I don't know.

01:42:43.240 I don't know.

01:42:43.320 Can't do it?

01:42:43.860 Probably not.

01:42:44.700 5'9 is supermanlet, bro.

01:42:46.620 Superman.

01:42:47.100 Supermanlet.

01:42:48.080 Okay.

01:42:48.780 Oh.

01:42:49.800 Can't do it?

01:42:50.680 5'9"?

01:42:51.360 5'9"?

01:42:52.260 Mm-hmm.

01:42:53.260 Can do it or can't?

01:42:54.400 Can do it.

01:42:54.980 Can do it.

01:42:55.660 Probably.

01:42:56.280 But prefer 6'4", 6'3".

01:42:58.240 You guys are lucky.

01:42:59.840 I am 5'9".

01:43:01.700 I need 6' and above.

01:43:04.000 Yeah.

01:43:04.620 Same.

01:43:05.680 Can I leave the tall guys for the tall girls?

01:43:07.660 Yeah.

01:43:08.180 Please.

01:43:08.800 There.

01:43:09.440 And then, are you picky?

01:43:11.040 What does a guy need to bring to the table to get you?

01:43:13.080 I'm not really very picky.

01:43:15.360 Strong communication is huge.

01:43:17.040 And I am a little superficial in that I would like somebody a little taller than me.

01:43:21.760 How tall are you?

01:43:22.420 I'm 5'9", 5'10".

01:43:23.620 Okay.

01:43:23.920 So, how tall do you want?

01:43:25.080 My fiance is 5'11", and that's perfect.

01:43:26.920 Oh, okay.

01:43:27.420 So, just taller than you.

01:43:28.000 Just taller than me.

01:43:28.640 Okay.

01:43:29.600 What about you?

01:43:30.900 I don't think I'm that picky.

01:43:32.140 I want someone who likes sports and likes to be outside.

01:43:35.860 Mm-hmm.

01:43:36.180 I'm 5'11", so my height are taller, but not really.

01:43:42.480 It's fine if they're my height.

01:43:44.620 Okay.

01:43:44.960 So, 5'11", your height are taller.

01:43:47.480 So, six foot, that's fine?

01:43:49.380 Six foot's fine, yeah.

01:43:50.220 Okay.

01:43:51.040 All right.

01:43:52.040 And now that we've gone around the table for you guys in terms of what you want a guy to

01:43:58.960 bring to the table, what do you bring to the table?

01:44:02.480 Hmm.

01:44:02.880 I think I bring a lot of fun, a lot of freedom, a lot of understanding, communication.

01:44:13.200 I like shooting for success.

01:44:15.860 I'm very busy, but I also am not someone who feels like, oh, if you've been working all

01:44:21.060 day, we need to do this or that.

01:44:22.500 I'm not naggy.

01:44:23.720 Like, you know, do what you need to do.

01:44:26.260 Go where you need to go.

01:44:27.040 Go hang out with the boys.

01:44:27.920 Go on a boy vacation.

01:44:29.400 Like, I don't, that stuff doesn't bother me.

01:44:31.820 I don't even care if, like, my guy hits on a girl, because, like, I like girls, too.

01:44:36.940 So, bring them over.

01:44:39.140 I don't know.

01:44:39.820 I'm just, I feel like I bring someone that you can grow with and be successful with.

01:44:45.560 Because I'm down for it.

01:44:46.960 We want to start a new business?

01:44:47.860 Let's go.

01:44:48.360 We want to travel.

01:44:49.320 We want to save up and go to Japan?

01:44:50.660 Let's go.

01:44:51.200 Let's make our dreams come true.

01:44:53.160 So.

01:44:55.140 What about you?

01:44:56.440 I feel like I bring care.

01:44:58.820 I bring attention to my partner.

01:45:00.680 I support them and I want them to be their best version of themselves.

01:45:03.820 I want, I'm an adventurous person, so I typically tend to push people to do things more adventurous

01:45:08.260 and get them out of, like, their boundary that they're usually in.

01:45:12.560 Mm-hmm.

01:45:13.820 What do you bring to the table?

01:45:15.720 I would say I'm super extroverted, so I love, like, hanging out with friends and, like,

01:45:19.340 being around their friends.

01:45:20.360 And I think it's important that, like, I bond with his friends so they, like, like me in

01:45:24.080 a sense so I can, like, feel connected to him.

01:45:26.880 I cook a lot.

01:45:28.200 That's, like, my form of love language is, like, cooking for the other person.

01:45:33.200 And, yeah, I would say that I'm very, like, relaxed as a partner.

01:45:36.720 Like, I don't really need to be texting them all the time if they're out or whatever and,

01:45:40.880 like, spamming their phone.

01:45:41.760 Like, I just don't really care that much about, like, what they're doing because I trust them.

01:45:45.000 I think, like, trust is really big.

01:45:47.160 All right.

01:45:47.880 Have you guys tried her food?

01:45:48.900 Is it any good?

01:45:49.940 Yes.

01:45:50.260 They actually have.

01:45:51.260 I cooked for all of them when their guys spent the night at my house.

01:45:54.500 All right.

01:45:55.020 What do you bring to the table?

01:45:57.480 Okay.

01:45:57.840 I think I'm, like, a good listener and, like, yeah, I don't really know what else.

01:46:04.120 That's it?

01:46:04.840 Come on.

01:46:05.380 What do you got?

01:46:06.880 Okay.

01:46:07.240 I don't know.

01:46:11.960 I mean, I'm nice.

01:46:12.840 I'm funny.

01:46:13.660 Yeah.

01:46:15.400 Okay, nice.

01:46:16.320 Okay, nice.

01:46:16.800 Just pretty normal, honestly.

01:46:18.800 Good listener.

01:46:19.200 I don't think I'm, like, that crazy.

01:46:21.000 It depends.

01:46:21.740 You're not that crazy.

01:46:23.120 Yeah.

01:46:23.320 So, you're a little crazy.

01:46:24.740 Like.

01:46:25.220 Just a bit.

01:46:26.320 Yeah.

01:46:27.220 It depends.

01:46:28.120 Tell us about how you're a little crazy.

01:46:30.180 Well, okay.

01:46:31.160 Oh, God.

01:46:32.160 Okay.

01:46:33.180 Slashing tires?

01:46:34.160 Oh, no, no, no.

01:46:35.060 Not that crazy.

01:46:35.820 But, like.

01:46:36.640 Burning clothes?

01:46:37.860 Mm-mm.

01:46:38.340 Not even that crazy.

01:46:39.460 Just, like.

01:46:40.560 Domestic abuse?

01:46:41.740 No.

01:46:42.340 Domestic violence?

01:46:43.420 No.

01:46:43.740 Maybe I would, like, text, like, a parent.

01:46:45.960 Like, a significant other's, like, parent.

01:46:48.080 If, like, they did something bad.

01:46:49.160 Like, try to put on the dad?

01:46:49.980 Yeah.

01:46:50.480 Oh, wait.

01:46:51.380 Wait.

01:46:51.660 No, no, no, no.

01:46:52.180 Clip it, boys.

01:46:53.020 No.

01:46:53.620 Clip it and ship it.

01:46:55.480 No, no, no.

01:46:56.340 Clip it and ship it.

01:46:57.560 No.

01:46:58.260 No.

01:46:58.720 You heard it here first.

01:47:00.140 Oh, God.

01:47:00.580 No.

01:47:00.780 I just mean, like.

01:47:01.680 Okay.

01:47:02.020 Like, I literally did this with my ex.

01:47:03.420 He, like, cheated on me.

01:47:05.820 And said his mom.

01:47:07.540 And said your son cheated on me.

01:47:10.600 Well, no, I was just, like.

01:47:11.720 Oh, like, watch out for, like, the next girl that, like.

01:47:14.420 Oh.

01:47:14.820 That comes into his life.

01:47:16.020 Because he's, like, a pathological liar, so.

01:47:19.060 Damn.

01:47:19.580 Yeah.

01:47:19.700 Okay.

01:47:22.020 All right.

01:47:22.420 That's what I bring to the table.

01:47:23.400 Okay, I mean.

01:47:23.780 I don't think that's too.

01:47:25.240 That's not too crazy, right?

01:47:26.440 I mean.

01:47:28.040 Unless there was more.

01:47:29.020 That's why I said a little bit crazy.

01:47:30.060 Not, like, that much.

01:47:30.880 Was there more to that?

01:47:32.120 Did you also, like.

01:47:33.540 No.

01:47:34.180 Oh, no.

01:47:35.100 There's more?

01:47:35.820 No, no, no.

01:47:36.400 Oh, okay.

01:47:36.880 Okay.

01:47:37.220 All right.

01:47:37.620 Okay, wait.

01:47:38.000 I do bring more to the table.

01:47:39.180 This person's calling me boring, but.

01:47:41.580 Uh-oh.

01:47:43.460 What you got?

01:47:44.060 I just can't think of it.

01:47:45.220 I don't know.

01:47:45.680 I'm a good listener.

01:47:46.660 I'm nice.

01:47:46.920 I'm funny.

01:47:47.720 I'll, like.

01:47:48.560 I'm, like, pretty selfless.

01:47:50.840 Like, if you need something for me to do, I can do it.

01:47:53.860 Pretty selfless.

01:47:54.600 Wait, question on the good listener thing.

01:47:57.080 So, when you're with a guy, you can even, maybe going back to your ex-boyfriend or whatever.

01:48:02.800 Or, uh, who is the talking, like, is it kind of 50-50?

01:48:07.060 Do you talk more?

01:48:08.200 Do they talk more?

01:48:09.120 Where do you?

01:48:10.520 Um, I don't know.

01:48:12.800 I think probably I probably talk more.

01:48:15.380 Mm-hmm.

01:48:15.880 Yeah.

01:48:16.900 Okay.

01:48:18.100 Yeah.

01:48:18.860 Good listener.

01:48:21.420 Okay.

01:48:21.940 All right.

01:48:22.320 What about you?

01:48:22.860 What do you bring to the table?

01:48:24.400 Um, I would say, like, excitement and, like, adventure.

01:48:28.540 Like, I always try to, like, plan.

01:48:30.780 Not even plan.

01:48:31.540 Like, we both try to, like, plan trips and not just, like, sit around and do nothing as much as we can.

01:48:36.880 And, like, I'm always down for just, like, kind of anything, like, spontaneously.

01:48:40.760 And, like, yeah.

01:48:42.680 You said excitement and adventure.

01:48:44.780 Sure.

01:48:45.220 Yeah.

01:48:45.720 Um, so what's, like, you're in a relationship.

01:48:50.000 What is something recently you've done that's exciting?

01:48:52.760 Um, two weeks ago, it was, like, coming up to my birthday.

01:48:57.340 And we just, like, wanted something to do for the weekend.

01:48:59.900 So we planned a trip with, like, seven of our friends to rent an Airbnb in Joshua Tree.

01:49:05.700 And we drove over there, like, the day after we, like, just talked about it.

01:49:09.320 And it was just, like, spontaneous and fun and something we could, like, do with all of our friends.

01:49:14.240 Like, in that kind of sense.

01:49:15.800 Like, stuff like that.

01:49:18.160 Okay.

01:49:18.660 And then I'm assuming that also describes, you said, adventures you like to do.

01:49:23.840 Yeah.

01:49:24.280 Like, stuff like, yeah.

01:49:26.420 I don't know.

01:49:27.300 Okay.

01:49:27.540 Anything else you bring to the table?

01:49:31.000 I think I'm pretty funny.

01:49:33.540 Like, I'm always making my partner laugh.

01:49:36.540 I think we're always having a really good time together.

01:49:39.680 And, like, I don't know.

01:49:41.440 Even if it's just, like, sarcastic funny.

01:49:43.460 Like, it's just, yeah.

01:49:46.460 Hmm.

01:49:47.080 Okay.

01:49:47.600 What about you?

01:49:49.240 Um, I'm very supportive.

01:49:51.820 Supportive.

01:49:52.340 Um, for my fiancé, because he is such a hard worker, I try to bring as much peace to the home so that he's, there's, like, no craziness, no fighting.

01:50:01.740 Yeah.

01:50:02.160 If there's any tensions, you just discuss it like adults.

01:50:04.580 Mm-hmm.

01:50:04.980 Um, picking up where he can't around the house and stuff.

01:50:10.580 So, just, just being a good, supportive woman.

01:50:13.820 Okay.

01:50:14.320 What do you bring to the table?

01:50:15.580 Um, I like to go on adventures.

01:50:17.280 And I like to go out and just, I don't know.

01:50:19.820 Does he have to plan the adventure?

01:50:21.540 Not always.

01:50:22.460 Oh, okay.

01:50:23.420 I mean, sometimes it's, like, oh.

01:50:24.760 Because I don't know if that would be bringing anything to the table.

01:50:27.380 Like, you like to receive adventures.

01:50:30.060 If I'm, like, hey, let's go skydiving.

01:50:31.240 Is that, like, bringing something to the table, you know?

01:50:33.280 I don't know.

01:50:33.960 It's, like, I receive the adventure.

01:50:37.280 I don't bring the adventure.

01:50:38.560 I receive the adventure.

01:50:39.480 No, like, I like to have ideas.

01:50:40.740 This is what I bring to the table.

01:50:42.100 Okay.

01:50:42.620 All right.

01:50:43.140 That's fair.

01:50:44.120 Um, okay.

01:50:44.860 Anything else?

01:50:45.920 Um, I like to be very supportive.

01:50:48.660 Well, I am supportive.

01:50:49.740 Yeah.

01:50:50.000 Okay.

01:50:50.200 I'm good at communicating, and I like to cook, so.

01:50:53.020 Cook?

01:50:53.360 Clean?

01:50:53.940 Yeah.

01:50:54.300 Yeah, Lord.

01:50:54.920 Thank you for the gift at 10 subs, man.

01:50:56.340 Appreciate it.

01:50:57.360 Uh, we have a chat here.

01:50:58.520 We'll get right back into this, but I have a chat here from, oh, it's going to take a

01:51:03.340 sec to come through.

01:51:04.060 Um, oh, what was I going to ask?

01:51:08.200 Laugh.

01:51:10.420 Hmm.

01:51:12.540 Does your girlfriend make you laugh?

01:51:14.660 Yeah, all the time.

01:51:15.460 Yeah?

01:51:15.760 Yeah, she's a funny bitch.

01:51:18.040 Absolutely funny bitch.

01:51:19.320 I can say bitch, right?

01:51:20.680 Of course I can.

01:51:22.700 Oh, you're asking me if on the show?

01:51:23.940 I don't know.

01:51:24.240 It's your show, bro.

01:51:24.860 Yeah.

01:51:25.180 You can say it.

01:51:25.940 All those words we couldn't say before the show?

01:51:28.200 Yeah, you can say it.

01:51:29.420 Bitch is all right.

01:51:29.920 I thought you were more asking, like, is it okay to say in general?

01:51:34.660 Nah, no.

01:51:35.560 I say bitch all the time.

01:51:36.520 She's a mad bitch.

01:51:36.840 Thank you, Lord.

01:51:37.840 For all of you that don't understand, when you, like, say, like, a mad or, like, a sick

01:51:42.760 cunt or mad cunt, it's like a compliment.

01:51:44.560 It's like the ultimate compliment from an Aussie.

01:51:46.580 Yeah, it's like saying, like, you're a legend or you're cool, you're, like, you know.

01:51:50.520 So, yeah, if you say, like, you're a sick bitch, it's a compliment.

01:51:53.700 If you say, like, you're a sad bitch, it's definitely not a compliment.

01:51:56.800 Not a compliment.

01:51:57.520 It's the opposite of that.

01:51:58.420 We have Smithers here.

01:51:59.400 Oh, I'll get that pulled back up.

01:52:01.900 He says, would you rather have a six-foot guy with a crappy personality or a 5'7 guy who

01:52:07.560 treats you with the respect a woman deserves?

01:52:10.980 Oh, my God.

01:52:11.420 Give me the 5'7 guy.

01:52:12.580 5'7.

01:52:13.140 Which one do you pick?

01:52:14.920 Thank you, Smithers.

01:52:16.120 That's a tough one.

01:52:19.080 Uh-oh.

01:52:20.140 Oh, my God.

01:52:21.800 I honestly would have to say six foot with a bad personality.

01:52:25.320 But the 5'7 is still taller than you.

01:52:27.480 I cannot with the short.

01:52:29.760 I can't do it.

01:52:30.760 It's, like, such a trigger.

01:52:32.240 No, I can't.

01:52:33.180 You can't.

01:52:33.800 No.

01:52:34.500 No.

01:52:35.040 Sorry, how tall are you again?

01:52:36.340 5'3.

01:52:37.100 5'3.

01:52:37.600 And you said the, what is the maximum or minimum or whatever?

01:52:41.180 I didn't say.

01:52:41.920 I would say minimum has to be 5'10.

01:52:44.400 5'10.

01:52:45.180 Yeah.

01:52:45.460 So, 5'9.

01:52:47.240 Good luck.

01:52:47.740 Sorry.

01:52:48.800 5'7.

01:52:49.780 Taller is, like, much better for me.

01:52:51.860 Okay.

01:52:52.600 Six foot guy, crappy personality.

01:52:54.720 5'7 guy treats you wonderfully.

01:52:57.600 5'7 guy.

01:52:58.700 5'7 guy?

01:52:59.520 Okay.

01:53:00.180 5'7 guy.

01:53:01.100 5'7 guy.

01:53:02.420 5'7 guy.

01:53:03.660 All right.

01:53:04.180 I wonder what the male version of this is.

01:53:06.220 So, she's obese.

01:53:07.580 I don't even want to say it.

01:53:10.300 But she's the best.

01:53:12.060 Can we take it one step further?

01:53:13.940 You know how girls always make fun of guys with small dicks?

01:53:16.580 Yeah.

01:53:16.700 So, like, I wouldn't want to be with a girl with a loose vagina.

01:53:19.600 There you go.

01:53:20.320 You know what I mean?

01:53:20.920 Like, fuck.

01:53:21.660 Men can have standards.

01:53:22.660 I don't want a loose vagina and I don't want a fat bitch.

01:53:25.880 Just like girls don't want a short guy and girls don't want a guy who's bald or girls

01:53:29.580 don't want a guy who's boring and poor.

01:53:31.080 Fair is fair, right?

01:53:31.900 I guess it's only fair.

01:53:32.620 I think so.

01:53:34.260 Loose?

01:53:34.960 Loose.

01:53:35.280 How can you tell?

01:53:36.500 Oh, you can tell.

01:53:37.060 You can tell.

01:53:38.620 You can definitely tell.

01:53:39.800 Do your kegels.

01:53:41.020 Yeah.

01:53:41.520 Although, I do think it's rare.

01:53:45.520 What, for the tight or the loose?

01:53:46.720 The loose.

01:53:47.760 It's rare.

01:53:48.480 You can always do the butt, though.

01:53:49.620 That's usually tighter.

01:53:50.100 What?

01:53:50.300 I mean.

01:53:51.240 What the fuck?

01:53:53.140 I mean, like.

01:53:54.920 That's why I stick to the heels.

01:53:55.680 I think I beg to differ.

01:53:58.160 I think tight is, like, rare.

01:53:59.960 Tight is rare?

01:54:00.900 Yeah.

01:54:01.680 Are you just.

01:54:03.500 Got a can?

01:54:04.260 I mean, without bragging.

01:54:05.320 You got a fucking cannon, dude?

01:54:06.720 I guess I do.

01:54:07.520 Yeah.

01:54:08.460 Wait, but what did that.

01:54:09.440 Wait, hold on.

01:54:09.940 There's the crickets.

01:54:10.560 Or no, wait.

01:54:11.600 Shouldn't the question be.

01:54:12.920 I mean, he asked.

01:54:13.760 He asked, so.

01:54:15.080 Wait.

01:54:15.600 I fucked that up.

01:54:16.260 But whatever.

01:54:16.480 Tight is rare, it's the opposite of the guy.

01:54:17.660 It would be the.

01:54:18.600 Yeah.

01:54:19.080 It kind of didn't make sense.

01:54:20.820 Yeah.

01:54:21.120 Liam would know.

01:54:21.880 What are you talking about?

01:54:24.120 Or maybe you just.

01:54:26.080 Maybe you turn on girls so much that they're just, like, really, like.

01:54:30.180 No, like.

01:54:30.820 You can tell.

01:54:31.540 Like, you know how women can tell, like, a short guy from, like, a big guy?

01:54:34.660 It's the same.

01:54:35.100 Like, it's the same with men.

01:54:36.200 Like, there's tight vaginas and there's loose vaginas.

01:54:38.820 Wait.

01:54:38.960 It is what it is.

01:54:39.640 By height?

01:54:40.280 Huh?

01:54:40.660 By height?

01:54:41.320 You said from tall men and short men?

01:54:42.440 No, no.

01:54:42.660 It's funny you say that.

01:54:43.760 The taller women normally have the bigger gaping vaginas.

01:54:46.720 Oh, wait.

01:54:47.240 Shorter girls.

01:54:48.460 Shorter girls normally are more tight because they're more compact.

01:54:51.540 I swear to you.

01:54:52.320 It's a thing.

01:54:52.960 It's a proper thing.

01:54:54.400 It's like.

01:54:54.920 Okay.

01:54:55.400 If I had, like, a six foot two Amazonian woman, I'm telling you.

01:54:58.280 She's a bigger girl.

01:54:58.960 She's going to have.

01:54:59.540 Everything's going to be bigger.

01:55:00.560 It's a little bit loose.

01:55:01.040 Wait.

01:55:01.660 So height with guys?

01:55:02.520 By a small dick standard.

01:55:04.720 Say again?

01:55:05.720 By a small dick standard.

01:55:06.740 I mean, it does check out.

01:55:08.240 I think it checks out.

01:55:09.820 But, I mean, I've encountered.

01:55:12.440 It's not always the case.

01:55:13.860 Not always.

01:55:14.420 Not always.

01:55:15.400 You could be tall.

01:55:16.320 Well, of course.

01:55:16.780 It doesn't matter.

01:55:17.720 It's like, you know.

01:55:18.660 It's like saying.

01:55:19.040 But it's more likely.

01:55:20.040 Correct.

01:55:20.320 It's more likely.

01:55:21.060 Correct.

01:55:22.700 That is fair, though.

01:55:23.700 I mean.

01:55:23.980 Standards, man.

01:55:24.600 Come on.

01:55:24.860 It's fair.

01:55:25.160 You're all going to have them.

01:55:26.300 Wait.

01:55:26.740 So we were going around on the six foot guy, crappy personality.

01:55:32.080 Or no.

01:55:32.320 We already did that.

01:55:33.220 We did that.

01:55:33.540 We asked for the men.

01:55:34.260 We're asking, what's the reverse?

01:55:35.820 Yeah.

01:55:36.360 I just told you.

01:55:37.300 Yeah.

01:55:37.900 A fat woman with a loose vagina.

01:55:40.740 What?

01:55:42.440 But we're adding.

01:55:43.720 I feel like if we just do like overweight.

01:55:44.860 Okay.

01:55:44.880 Add something else.

01:55:45.460 What else would you add?

01:55:46.280 No.

01:55:46.700 Let's just do the overweight.

01:55:47.780 A short guy with a small penis.

01:55:49.000 A fat woman.

01:55:49.460 Big vagina.

01:55:51.000 Wait.

01:55:51.620 Wait.

01:55:52.140 Wait.

01:55:53.420 I'm lost.

01:55:54.360 We were talking about heights, I thought.

01:55:55.540 Yeah.

01:55:56.000 Yeah.

01:55:56.300 And personality wise.

01:55:57.700 You're talking about a good personality.

01:55:59.180 We don't care about that as much.

01:56:01.180 We don't care about that.

01:56:01.300 We don't care about that.

01:56:01.340 We don't care about that.

01:56:01.360 We don't care about that.

01:56:01.940 We're more physical.

01:56:03.280 We look at the physical.

01:56:04.340 So here it is.

01:56:04.900 Here it is.

01:56:05.320 Okay.

01:56:06.060 Overweight, but amazing personality.

01:56:08.460 Submissive.

01:56:09.060 This one's going to be tough.

01:56:09.560 Super feminine.

01:56:10.360 Low body count.

01:56:11.040 Submissive.

01:56:11.160 Et cetera, et cetera.

01:56:12.040 Low body count?

01:56:12.680 We'll get into all that later.

01:56:14.080 What's the other option?

01:56:15.140 The other is like fitness model.

01:56:18.600 Maybe not.

01:56:19.380 Just good body.

01:56:20.920 Good body.

01:56:21.940 Good body.

01:56:22.700 But like terrible, rude.

01:56:25.600 Domestic abuse.

01:56:26.320 Nah, let's not bring crime into it.

01:56:30.120 I thought we could talk about some domestic abuse.

01:56:33.660 And is there something you want to get off your chest?

01:56:36.500 Yeah, yeah.

01:56:37.260 You got smacked around by your ex.

01:56:38.860 No, no.

01:56:40.160 I just, nah, I want to, it's because you mentioned it to one of the girls before.

01:56:43.800 You want to do a PSA?

01:56:44.740 Yeah, I do actually, I do.

01:56:46.680 No, I don't want to do a PSA.

01:56:47.160 Okay, go ahead, go ahead.

01:56:48.060 I just think it's something that's not really talked about.

01:56:50.140 Cool.

01:56:50.440 Like domestic violence towards dudes.

01:56:52.040 Because like last time I was here on the podcast, there was, no, no, I swear to God,

01:56:56.360 there was one dude.

01:56:57.140 Topic change.

01:56:58.020 Yeah.

01:56:58.640 I saw you.

01:56:59.360 You brought it up.

01:56:59.840 No, you're right.

01:57:00.420 Yeah, no, I had one friend, we didn't hear from him for six months.

01:57:03.240 It turns out he was getting smacked around.

01:57:04.220 My woman beats me.

01:57:05.240 No, no, no, really.

01:57:06.180 Like literally, like hit his property damage, everything.

01:57:09.540 That's really, that was the last time I was on this podcast.

01:57:12.540 Second time, there's another friend that we haven't heard of for seven months.

01:57:15.640 Turns out, same thing.

01:57:16.880 Hit, hit, spat on, had his property damaged.

01:57:20.360 Um, like, you know when people.

01:57:22.220 Yeah, not good.

01:57:22.860 You know when people are in the corner with their phone?

01:57:24.740 It's definitely not favorable.

01:57:26.080 They hide in the corner and you're like, what's going on?

01:57:28.060 And you look over their shoulder and he's like, you're a loser.

01:57:30.520 You're not even a man.

01:57:31.680 You're a nobody.

01:57:32.920 No wonder you don't have any friends.

01:57:34.140 I'm like, why do you let people talk to you like this?

01:57:36.200 Damn, I got to check on my homies.

01:57:37.220 Yeah, seriously.

01:57:37.980 Anyway, the girl's name's, the girl's name's Pippi, by the way.

01:57:40.700 Pippi?

01:57:41.060 Don't ever get smacked around by a girl named Pippi.

01:57:43.420 Yeah.

01:57:43.740 Pippi.

01:57:44.100 So it does happen to you.

01:57:45.200 It does happen to you.

01:57:46.300 It does happen.

01:57:46.940 It could be fat with a good personality versus hot and she's an abuser.

01:57:50.120 Yeah.

01:57:50.660 You know what I mean?

01:57:51.600 Okay.

01:57:52.080 Because I've seen people go for what they consider hot and then it doesn't end up well

01:57:56.760 because they're not the kindest person, is what I'm saying.

01:57:59.560 Separate situation, I feel.

01:58:01.860 Anyways.

01:58:03.180 So thank you for that.

01:58:04.100 Yeah, of course.

01:58:04.940 Of course.

01:58:05.500 Of course.

01:58:06.740 Yeah.

01:58:07.840 But, uh, hashtag Big Labia Matters.

01:58:10.740 Thank you, Hookers.

01:58:11.400 Appreciate it.

01:58:11.880 I mean, do you guys have a preference on, on that front?

01:58:15.600 Like, the Audi?

01:58:17.320 Like, so not loose, not loose, but the, there are the, there's innies and outies.

01:58:22.740 Oh.

01:58:23.960 I prefer outies.

01:58:25.260 I mean, I only date outies.

01:58:27.200 As long as it looks like tidy, it could be like, it doesn't have to be, full innie doesn't

01:58:30.620 have to be full outie.

01:58:31.380 Like, it could look nice as long as it's like in the middle, I'd say.

01:58:34.580 Like a midi.

01:58:35.440 Yeah, a midi.

01:58:35.940 A midi.

01:58:36.540 So midi or innie, but you won't do an outie.

01:58:39.020 No, not too much of an outie.

01:58:40.340 You'd like a, no.

01:58:40.960 It's okay.

01:58:41.380 More for me.

01:58:43.100 All right.

01:58:44.620 Liam, what about you?

01:58:45.660 Innie or outie?

01:58:46.260 Innie or outie?

01:58:46.560 I don't know why I'm bringing this up.

01:58:47.780 No, no, no.

01:58:48.260 He sent a chat.

01:58:48.960 He sent a chat.

01:58:50.060 Let's do it.

01:58:50.460 He sent a chat.

01:58:51.020 I wasn't going to go.

01:58:51.800 Let me just say, I'm really enjoying this convo.

01:58:53.840 These questions never get asked to guys.

01:58:55.260 It's really, really interesting.

01:58:56.320 Yeah, it's good.

01:58:56.700 I feel like when you.

01:58:57.520 I feel empowered.

01:58:58.300 I feel like when you made it down there, you know, if you've got a connection with that.

01:59:02.940 No, it's like, it's actually when you see it, you know what you like.

01:59:05.300 I'm connected to your vagina.

01:59:06.600 But like, you know what you like, right?

01:59:08.700 You know what you like.

01:59:10.060 So you're saying you, you know it when you see it.

01:59:12.620 Yes, exactly.

01:59:13.900 The way that it presents when you see it, it's like you have an emotional connection with

01:59:18.240 the picture.

01:59:19.600 They're talking to it?

01:59:20.860 You just see it and it's, ah.

01:59:22.160 Yeah, exactly.

01:59:23.020 It's real.

01:59:23.640 That's how you know they're the one.

01:59:26.160 Maybe it's just me.

01:59:27.300 What?

01:59:27.860 Yeah.

01:59:29.920 Yeah.

01:59:30.420 I feel like you know it when you see it.

01:59:32.340 It talks to them.

01:59:33.560 It talks to them.

01:59:33.960 Interesting.

01:59:34.700 Interesting.

01:59:35.060 No, like I go around meeting vaginas all the time.

01:59:37.920 I'm just saying.

01:59:38.660 Generously.

01:59:40.440 But what, let me, going back to the hype thing a little bit here.

01:59:44.860 So do you guys think that, would you object to a guy who refused to date a girl because

01:59:50.900 she was overweight?

01:59:53.440 No.

01:59:54.260 No objections?

01:59:54.440 I think fitness is really important.

01:59:55.980 Sure.

01:59:56.540 What about you?

01:59:57.100 People have their own preferences.

01:59:58.480 Sure.

01:59:58.920 Yeah.

01:59:59.480 Preference wise.

02:00:00.620 Are they a jerk for it though?

02:00:02.440 No.

02:00:02.640 No, it's just what they like.

02:00:03.540 Like, you can't get mad at someone.

02:00:04.800 If he's like, she's too chunky for me.

02:00:07.500 Well, you could say the same thing.

02:00:08.840 Like, oh, you're too short.

02:00:09.360 With the height and stuff.

02:00:10.140 Like, for the guys.

02:00:11.020 So, like, it's like your voice.

02:00:11.920 Yeah, I agree with Keely.

02:00:13.580 Okay.

02:00:14.180 Yeah, I agree as well.

02:00:15.260 Totally fine.

02:00:15.640 It's just preference.

02:00:16.220 Yeah.

02:00:16.380 Okay.

02:00:16.760 All right.

02:00:17.160 Totally fine.

02:00:17.980 Totally fine.

02:00:19.280 Okay.

02:00:19.820 All right.

02:00:20.740 You know, you guys are at least consistent.

02:00:23.200 You know, you guys won't date short guys.

02:00:25.400 Yeah.

02:00:26.020 I will.

02:00:26.660 You won't date a fat girl.

02:00:28.180 I mean, how can I, bro?

02:00:29.240 I go to the gym.

02:00:30.220 That would be going against everything I stand for.

02:00:32.680 Think about it.

02:00:35.180 That would be against your culture.

02:00:36.160 It would be against your culture.

02:00:37.540 It would be against culture.

02:00:38.960 Against the culture.

02:00:40.360 Against the legacy, really.

02:00:41.980 Against everything.

02:00:43.620 Against everything.

02:00:46.120 Hey, you never know.

02:00:47.000 I might be into fat bitches.

02:00:48.460 Might have a secret fat finish.

02:00:50.240 Damn.

02:00:51.600 Stable of swine.

02:00:52.640 Oh, yeah, baby.

02:00:53.400 I want to get you fit as fuck.

02:00:54.840 Oh, my God.

02:00:56.120 Eat more piggy.

02:00:56.680 Let me change you.

02:00:58.560 I can change him.

02:01:00.680 I can change him, I swear.

02:01:02.680 But maybe, like, I mean.

02:01:06.180 I mean, slightly choppy is okay.

02:01:07.460 Have you ever, like, worked on a girl, though?

02:01:09.440 Like, I can help you.

02:01:11.080 You know?

02:01:13.220 Or is it, like, they have to already be there?

02:01:15.540 Fix it, bro.

02:01:16.320 Look.

02:01:17.520 I mean, I'll be lying if I said I haven't porked a fatty before.

02:01:20.560 Oh, my God.

02:01:21.000 I have just to see what it's like, you know?

02:01:23.620 Just to experience it.

02:01:24.640 But it's definitely, it wasn't that great.

02:01:27.660 But I've helped girls, like, yeah, lose weight.

02:01:30.160 Okay.

02:01:30.660 All right.

02:01:30.860 I could see, like, the potential in women.

02:01:32.400 Like, they're super pretty.

02:01:33.900 All that my brain thinks is, like, wow, imagine if this girl lost weight, she'd look even better.

02:01:37.420 You know what I mean?

02:01:38.360 So, like, sometimes I'll turn into, like, my own little project.

02:01:41.180 And I'll just, like, kind of just, like, take them to the gym and take all their food away from them and just see what happens.

02:01:46.240 You know?

02:01:46.540 Document it.

02:01:47.040 Just see what's up, you know?

02:01:47.940 But, I mean, on preference, no.

02:01:49.660 I'd normally just, I go for what I like.

02:01:51.240 And what I like is what I like.

02:01:52.380 So, and that's not fat pictures.

02:01:54.100 But you're a personal trainer at 1.2.

02:01:55.440 Yeah.

02:01:56.880 Still am.

02:01:57.720 Yeah, that's true.

02:01:58.420 Online.

02:01:59.060 Just not in person.

02:01:59.980 Yeah.

02:02:02.440 Wait.

02:02:02.720 So, you, I think I was mentioning a couple things in terms of traits that would be positive in a woman.

02:02:08.200 I mentioned being submissive, low body count.

02:02:11.660 What's a low body count to you?

02:02:13.460 I mean, it depends on age, you know?

02:02:15.140 I guess.

02:02:15.940 You give them a bit more leeway if they're, you know, they're older, they're a bit younger, and they've got more.

02:02:22.260 But, so, what was your reaction to the?

02:02:26.720 I was just wondering, like, is that important to you specifically?

02:02:29.840 To me, it's important to men being submissive.

02:02:32.060 Yeah.

02:02:32.720 Yeah, both are pretty important.

02:02:34.640 Yeah.

02:02:35.180 A lot of guys won't say it, but it's pretty.

02:02:37.640 For the body count part, why is that?

02:02:40.420 I just want to know.

02:02:41.340 Why?

02:02:42.020 Oh, there's a couple reasons.

02:02:43.600 Well, just because.

02:02:44.240 Go on.

02:02:44.820 Is it, like, to be, like, safe or clean?

02:02:47.140 What's that?

02:02:47.620 Is it to be, like, clean?

02:02:49.000 Like, you would prefer someone who is more, like, conservative with it?

02:02:54.080 So, I mean, there's a couple reasons.

02:02:55.100 Can I start it?

02:02:55.980 Yeah.

02:02:56.220 Go ahead.

02:02:56.720 Go ahead.

02:02:56.880 Okay, so, first and foremost, I feel like, and again, my views are very old school.

02:03:02.760 But I feel like a woman's body is, like, it's, women are just different to men, yeah?

02:03:08.040 So, I feel like women, because they can get it easier, they shouldn't just give it up

02:03:12.220 to, like, every kind of dude.

02:03:13.380 You know what I mean?

02:03:13.760 Whereas guys, like, it's hard for guys to get sex.

02:03:16.360 So, guys have to work for it.

02:03:17.560 It's a lot harder than women.

02:03:18.660 Really?

02:03:19.220 Yes.

02:03:19.580 You think so?

02:03:20.220 I know so.

02:03:20.920 Oh, okay.

02:03:21.180 I know so.

02:03:22.080 But in saying that, I think the body count is very important if you, like, want to marry

02:03:27.340 a woman.

02:03:27.660 Like, no guy in their right mind would marry a woman that slept with 100 dudes.

02:03:31.100 No guy would.

02:03:31.940 Yeah, but at the same time, I feel like guys who just want a low body count just don't

02:03:35.800 fuck good.

02:03:36.380 So, they don't want the girl to know what real sex is like.

02:03:38.220 Okay, because that's a cop-out excuse.

02:03:40.240 No.

02:03:40.660 That's a cop-out excuse.

02:03:41.940 No.

02:03:42.180 There's lots of guys out there that just don't want that kind of woman.

02:03:45.060 They'll fuck with those kind of girls, but they won't marry them or date them.

02:03:48.180 So, really, like, I don't know any guy.

02:03:50.920 Like, I've got lots of friends that are married.

02:03:52.720 I don't know any one of them that's had a girl that's more than, like, 30, 40.

02:03:56.380 Even that's too high for me, like, body count.

02:03:58.260 So, body count is important, but guys don't want to talk about it.

02:04:01.480 Guys don't want to talk about it because they get, like, you know, oh, no, you're just saying

02:04:04.680 that because you don't perform good in sex.

02:04:06.280 It's nothing to do with that.

02:04:07.300 Nothing at all.

02:04:08.480 It's literally just, like, when I hear, like, a woman's been with a lot of guys, it's a turnoff.

02:04:13.540 So, would you marry a girl without fucking her first?

02:04:16.780 Hell no.

02:04:17.840 Okay.

02:04:18.640 I would not.

02:04:19.340 But I would also get to know what her background is and, you know, find out what kind of girl

02:04:23.700 she is, what she's done, who she's been with.

02:04:25.940 And in saying that, like, I'm not completely prudish.

02:04:28.380 Like, I understand, like, you know, people go through relationships.

02:04:30.700 They'll have a one-night stand here and there.

02:04:32.220 But give or take, like, I have my, like, standards and values, and I just like to stick to it,

02:04:36.760 you know?

02:04:37.300 Someone else might be different.

02:04:38.960 And that's their prerogative.

02:04:39.720 It doesn't bother me.

02:04:40.720 But for me, like, I personally couldn't date someone who has more than, like, let's say,

02:04:45.660 like, double digits to me is, like, too much.

02:04:48.020 Like, 20?

02:04:49.380 Way too much.

02:04:50.460 Really?

02:04:50.900 Way too much.

02:04:51.380 What about when you were saying that you were, like, a fuck boy back in your time?

02:04:55.060 I'm a guy.

02:04:55.640 It's completely different.

02:04:56.940 I'm sorry.

02:04:57.380 Oh, so you think that you can, like, fuck whoever you want, but, like, girls can't?

02:05:00.180 I'm sorry.

02:05:00.580 It's completely different.

02:05:01.400 It's a shitty double standard, yeah.

02:05:03.220 It is what it is.

02:05:04.860 Look, I'll say it's a double standard, but it is what it is.

02:05:08.060 You know, like, men can get away with it, and women, they get, unfortunately, they get

02:05:11.460 judged for it.

02:05:11.900 It's just what it is.

02:05:12.680 Yeah.

02:05:13.220 You know what I mean?

02:05:13.800 So that's just the society we live in.

02:05:15.820 And, you know, I'm just addressing the elephant in the room.

02:05:17.740 No guy would marry a woman that's set with, like, 100 dudes.

02:05:21.240 No guy would.

02:05:23.140 Find me a guy that would, please.

02:05:24.580 Unless you're, like, the guy from No Jumper.

02:05:26.080 Beaver.

02:05:27.640 Who?

02:05:28.360 Isn't Lana Rhodes married?

02:05:30.020 Who?

02:05:30.480 Lana Rhodes.

02:05:31.660 Isn't she married?

02:05:33.160 I think a lot of porn stars are married.

02:05:35.420 Yeah, but porn stars normally marry with other people within that industry.

02:05:39.380 I don't think...

02:05:39.740 Yeah, but, I mean, I don't know.

02:05:41.620 I feel like there's a lot of people out there that would marry a porn star.

02:05:44.420 Obviously, there's always outliers.

02:05:45.740 I'm not saying there isn't.

02:05:46.520 I'm just saying that a majority of guys aren't fond of the idea of having a partner or a wife

02:05:52.260 who might be the future mother of their children having, like, 50 cocks inside of her before they met them.

02:05:57.020 That's just what it is.

02:05:58.100 Okay.

02:05:58.780 Yeah.

02:05:59.520 Like, anyone, like, any guy, please, please speak up now.

02:06:03.220 Guys in the audience, anyone at the back, if I'm saying anything wrong.

02:06:06.500 Well, the chat master's coming.

02:06:08.680 And it's also like saying put two men together, put two women together, both the same age,

02:06:13.220 both the same, like, you know, socioeconomic status level, looks, everything.

02:06:17.360 One has a body count of 10.

02:06:18.680 One has a body count of 50.

02:06:20.160 The guy's going to pick the one with 10 every single time.

02:06:23.620 Every single time.

02:06:25.960 Unless they're a porn star.

02:06:29.180 Yeah.

02:06:29.780 I've built up more of a body count with my partner than without.

02:06:32.680 Say again?

02:06:33.420 So, my partner, when I first got with him, I was at, I think, nine.

02:06:37.940 Yeah.

02:06:38.520 I mean, look, what I say shouldn't bother you and shouldn't trigger you.

02:06:42.080 That's just my thoughts, my views.

02:06:43.400 You know what I'm saying?

02:06:43.980 Like, who am I to tell you how to live your life?

02:06:46.240 You can live your life how you want and you can have your opinions too.

02:06:48.900 That's cool.

02:06:49.520 I respect that.

02:06:50.580 But I'm saying in my eyes, in my world, this is how I think.

02:06:54.280 And I'm also just letting you know, a lot of guys actually do think like this.

02:06:57.620 Like, we really do.

02:06:58.320 But just guys are just too scared to speak up, you know, to challenge the status quo or just to like, out of fear of like, just being judged.

02:07:04.860 But it is what it is.

02:07:06.000 We genuinely feel that very strongly about it.

02:07:08.960 It's the same way like, girls feel like, about a guy who's like, short.

02:07:12.180 Like, you know, they won't say it, but like, fucking girls don't like short guys.

02:07:15.420 No, we won't say it.

02:07:15.700 Guys don't like girls that are fucked like hundreds of dudes.

02:07:18.240 We just, we don't.

02:07:21.100 And then, well, somebody posed a question just now.

02:07:23.500 I missed it, but.

02:07:24.920 Oh, I was, um, way up to him.

02:07:27.840 I asked him about like, when he previously said that he was like a fuck boy.

02:07:32.220 And I told you that men and women are different.

02:07:34.160 We're not built the same.

02:07:35.100 Men are made to spread their seed.

02:07:36.740 Biologically, this has been proven by science that men, like, especially back in the prehistoric era, Neanderthals, all that shit, men were spreading their seed.

02:07:44.100 Women were the bearers that carried the child for nine months that looked after the child.

02:07:47.780 Nothing's changed.

02:07:48.520 The only thing that's changed is society has tried to like, shame men for basically like, sleeping around.

02:07:55.340 And it's like, you know, and with this whole wave of feminism, it's trying to equalize things.

02:07:58.780 But because that's happened, there's, there's, it's like, it's been tilted a little bit more in the women's favor.

02:08:03.360 But go a hundred years ago, back to like our moms and our moms' moms.

02:08:07.240 They were way less promiscuous than the women of today.

02:08:10.020 Well, there's technology now to ensure that those things don't happen, like birth control and stuff.

02:08:14.820 So I feel like as technologies get better, we're not talking about being like, we're not talking about being pregnant and falling pregnant.

02:08:22.240 We're just like, what we're trying to say is like, you know, just preferences.

02:08:26.020 The reason is because, you know, women can get pregnant.

02:08:29.120 And so you're supposed to have a low body count because you're negating that from happening.

02:08:34.660 But now that we're evolving in, as a species, we're being able to become more equal because we're able to control ourselves.

02:08:43.580 Yeah.

02:08:43.920 Yeah.

02:08:44.500 How long does evolution typically take?

02:08:46.480 You think it takes 40 years?

02:08:47.820 Well, I feel like we've definitely changed as a society within like the last 10,000 years.

02:08:53.020 Yeah, but it doesn't unwind.

02:08:54.560 And so men have a sort of almost evolutionary revulsion to promiscuity in women, that women can have an intellectual disgust for promiscuity in men.

02:09:07.380 And actually there is an evolutionary basis in women having a disgust in it for men too, but it's not as substantial and it's for a different reason.

02:09:15.440 Lots of women can be disgusted by a high body count.

02:09:16.940 Yeah.

02:09:17.160 So for example, like one of the evolutionary reasons a woman might be disgusted by a promiscuous man

02:09:22.900 is that it comes down to, and it's sort of similar but different.

02:09:26.580 So it comes down to parental, what's the term?

02:09:34.180 Like if a man's promiscuous, he's less likely to stick around.

02:09:38.180 Yeah.

02:09:38.620 So like women are going to look at that on an evolutionary component and be like, well, if I have a child with you, if you get me pregnant,

02:09:46.240 are you going to actually have the resources to be able to support the family, et cetera, et cetera?

02:09:50.880 Whereas for men, the difference is a bit reason.

02:09:53.420 It comes down to paternity uncertainty.

02:09:55.880 So if the woman's promiscuous, yeah, there's no way for us to.

02:10:00.180 But we got rid of that now.

02:10:01.640 How?

02:10:01.780 So like by having birth control, it's a less likely chance of that happening.

02:10:05.640 Right.

02:10:05.980 But okay.

02:10:06.400 So it doesn't undo hundreds of thousands of years of evolution, a modern invention from, you know, the 60s or DNA test in the 80s.

02:10:17.220 But I feel like things are going that way.

02:10:19.560 Things are going into that direction.

02:10:21.140 Right.

02:10:21.220 But just because we have changed doesn't mean that it doesn't undo the evolution that's already occurred that gives men that evolutionary basis for having like a disgust response to promiscuity in women.

02:10:34.080 I agree with that.

02:10:34.760 I agree that there's a disgust response.

02:10:36.800 But I'm saying that I feel like a lot of other men.

02:10:38.660 Would you agree that, would you, like, do you feel like a lot of guys genuinely feel like that?

02:10:43.940 Like, honestly, I'm asking all you girls.

02:10:45.600 Do you feel like guys don't really care about body count or do you think they somewhat do?

02:10:49.580 They do.

02:10:50.000 I'm curious.

02:10:50.680 No, it's true.

02:10:51.280 They definitely do.

02:10:51.480 Like all jokes aside and all bullshit aside, do you think they care?

02:10:53.940 Yeah.

02:10:54.400 Like how many times have you girls been questioned by boyfriends or partners or lovers?

02:10:58.100 Or how many guys have you been with?

02:10:59.340 How many guys have you slept with?

02:11:00.840 You know?

02:11:01.140 My current boyfriend, no.

02:11:02.680 He doesn't really care.

02:11:03.620 You're still super young.

02:11:04.620 When you get a bit older.

02:11:05.540 Yeah.

02:11:06.040 I feel, yeah.

02:11:06.920 I agree with that.

02:11:07.840 It's, like, at 18, like, what do you expect?

02:11:10.200 Oh, I've been with 100 guys.

02:11:11.600 Yeah, no.

02:11:12.100 You know what I'm saying?

02:11:12.740 Yeah, at that age, they could have, like, a body count that's a job.

02:11:16.620 Extremely rare.

02:11:17.240 But it's much more rare.

02:11:18.580 So, like, at that age, most guys are not going to.

02:11:20.460 Correct.

02:11:21.160 I mean, when I was 18, I wasn't asking my 18-year-old girlfriends, what's your body count?

02:11:24.640 I feel like most guys ask now.

02:11:26.780 Yeah.

02:11:27.060 Thanks to those guys.

02:11:27.320 They're very, yeah.

02:11:29.300 I know.

02:11:31.560 Yeah.

02:11:32.560 Guys always ask now.

02:11:33.960 Hey, Brian, fighting the good fight.

02:11:35.720 Yeah.

02:11:35.860 I think nowadays it's kind of a key question to ask.

02:11:37.920 But actually, I won't say it.

02:11:39.420 There you go.

02:11:40.000 Key question.

02:11:40.940 I do actually want to go back to something that kind of a bit of a back and forth that

02:11:44.700 you two were having.

02:11:45.820 So, Chesbra, you were saying how you were a fuckboy when you were younger.

02:11:50.320 Yes.

02:11:50.520 You were promiscuous when you were younger.

02:11:51.840 Yes.

02:11:52.160 I mean, I was actually, and you were saying how men and women are different.

02:11:54.780 Correct.

02:11:55.040 And so, I actually don't see anything wrong, though.

02:11:58.120 So, let's say he slept with 100 plus women.

02:12:00.820 And then after doing so, he determines, well, actually, I think a woman with a low body count

02:12:05.640 is actually more optimal when it comes to being in a relationship with.

02:12:09.620 I actually don't see anything wrong with that.

02:12:12.100 And I actually don't think it's hypocritical at all.

02:12:15.160 You might not like it, but I don't think it's actually hypocritical.

02:12:19.600 I think it's just preference-wise, honestly.

02:12:21.600 I'm not saying it's hypocritical at all.

02:12:23.620 I don't care about any of that.

02:12:25.020 I do not care about body counts with my partner.

02:12:27.520 I'm not going to, like, if they have a lot, I'm not going to shame them for it.

02:12:30.780 Sure.

02:12:31.080 And if they have, like, little, it's like, okay.

02:12:33.460 Like, I don't really care.

02:12:35.000 Like, you are who you are.

02:12:35.880 Everyone before.

02:12:36.860 That's your prerogative, you know what I mean?

02:12:38.100 Yeah.

02:12:38.560 Like, each and every one of us are different.

02:12:40.160 But I think what Brian is trying to say is that, like, it puts me in a position that I

02:12:45.880 can see a little bit more clearly what would be good for me and what wouldn't be good for me.

02:12:50.480 Yeah.

02:12:50.540 Because I've experienced, like, the spectrum, you know?

02:12:53.580 So, like, I've been with, like, girls that are, like, a little bit out there and I've

02:12:56.860 been with, like, more, like, I guess you could say, like, more introverted girls.

02:13:01.240 And I know, end of the day, because I've lived that kind of life, I can't be someone, be with

02:13:05.440 someone who's also lived that kind of life because that'd be just too much, like, friction.

02:13:08.500 That's just your traits.

02:13:09.380 So, I get that.

02:13:10.080 That's fair.

02:13:10.540 Did anybody else have anything on the body count, convo?

02:13:14.540 I mean, not really, but how is it, like, like, you get to try, like, if you were to get with

02:13:22.980 a hundred girls and, like, you just then realize after a hundred girls, like, you don't want

02:13:28.440 that.

02:13:28.760 Like, how is it fair to put that on another girl saying, like, they can't have the same

02:13:33.160 opportunity to experience a hundred guys?

02:13:35.860 It's not fair, but it's just reality.

02:13:38.380 That's, it's a double standard and it's one that exists.

02:13:40.600 It's one that we try to shy away from.

02:13:42.840 It's like the elephant in the room that no one really wants to address.

02:13:45.660 I didn't say it's fair.

02:13:46.680 I didn't say it's just.

02:13:47.480 It's just the reality.

02:13:48.620 The reality is a guy can get away with it and be called a stud or this or that.

02:13:53.540 And if a girl does it, guys are like, ugh, you've been with a hundred men.

02:13:56.860 Like, it is what it is.

02:13:58.180 You know what I mean?

02:13:58.760 It's like, I'm not just saying this because, like, it's what I believe.

02:14:02.320 It's what a lot of men believe.

02:14:03.680 It's what society tells us.

02:14:05.320 It's just the way things are.

02:14:06.760 It's just the same way saying, like, it's the same way, like, let me put it in terms.

02:14:10.880 It's like the same way you can say, like, a man can get graped by a woman.

02:14:16.680 A man can't get graped.

02:14:18.600 Like, you know what I mean?

02:14:19.500 But a woman can get graped.

02:14:21.300 I could say graped.

02:14:22.180 Yeah, he could.

02:14:23.000 I mean, grapes.

02:14:23.760 You know, grapes, lemons.

02:14:24.640 No, no, but I'm saying.

02:14:25.420 Talking about fruit.

02:14:26.160 I think a dude can get graped.

02:14:27.920 Extremely rare and very unlikely.

02:14:29.720 Well, it's by another dude.

02:14:31.440 Then he can.

02:14:32.280 He can get graped.

02:14:32.980 Yeah, yeah, then he definitely could.

02:14:34.620 Well, I mean, there's, like, the legal component, different definitions.

02:14:38.420 It's like, and I don't think that would be, like, I don't think that would be, like, as

02:14:43.940 detrimental to a man than it would be to a woman.

02:14:46.840 A hundred more times worse for a woman.

02:14:48.840 A hundred more times worse for a woman.

02:14:51.200 If you got graped by a woman, would that be a bad thing for you?

02:14:54.560 He small says it all.

02:14:55.580 I personally wouldn't want to be graped by a woman.

02:15:00.580 Hang on, you haven't been graped on your own book.

02:15:02.600 Oh, no, that's just essayed on your own podcast.

02:15:05.300 That was terrifying.

02:15:07.200 Yeah, that's true.

02:15:07.580 I watched that episode.

02:15:08.420 I didn't get brought to my attention.

02:15:09.460 Oh, the, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:15:10.300 That's all right.

02:15:10.920 Are you okay?

02:15:11.820 Huh?

02:15:12.080 Are you okay?

02:15:13.080 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:15:14.200 Yeah, no, it was mostly Andrew that got the brunt of it, but I was there.

02:15:18.280 I was there.

02:15:18.560 You've got to film me enough, though.

02:15:19.400 Oh, yeah, we'll tell you.

02:15:20.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:15:21.000 Okay, nothing crazy.

02:15:22.180 It's not serious.

02:15:22.760 Some girl assaulted us.

02:15:24.460 Metro Matt donated $200.

02:15:25.980 Can we hear from the girls, FFS?

02:15:28.720 Oh, shit.

02:15:28.960 This guy won't stop yapping.

02:15:30.620 Fucking tell us more than my ex.

02:15:32.220 I did say I talk a lot.

02:15:34.420 Yo, Metro Matt, thank you for the TTS, man.

02:15:36.440 Appreciate it.

02:15:36.520 Talking about a podcast?

02:15:37.720 Come on.

02:15:38.300 How dare you talk?

02:15:40.320 What does it mean by FFs?

02:15:41.740 For fuck's sakes.

02:15:42.680 Oh, for fuck's sakes.

02:15:43.740 FFS.

02:15:44.400 Okay.

02:15:44.720 Yo, thank you, Metro Matt.

02:15:46.080 So, I guess, to the body count thing, and just to be clear,

02:15:49.400 like, I actually don't think promiscuity is good in men.

02:15:53.100 I think promiscuity is bad in both.

02:15:55.120 But I do think there is a bit of a differential here.

02:15:57.480 I think women tend to care a bit less about it or a lot less than men do.

02:16:02.180 They're going to be probably a bit more forgiving than a man who has a promiscuous past than the reverse.

02:16:08.860 Also, typically, a man who has the capacity to be promiscuous and who was promiscuous

02:16:13.440 tends to lean more towards being, like, very attractive, whether that's looks or personality,

02:16:18.680 whereas any woman has the capacity to be promiscuous, regardless of her awful personality or her subpar looks.

02:16:28.340 I don't know if any of you want to bite on that one, but pretty much any woman...

02:16:31.860 Is it because men fuck whatever they want?

02:16:34.460 Or they'll fuck anything?

02:16:35.800 Yeah.

02:16:36.240 They really will.

02:16:37.240 I mean, if women put it out there pretty easily.

02:16:39.700 I suppose, yes.

02:16:40.420 But I guess the point I'm trying to make here is that pretty much any woman, if she was inclined to, could be promiscuous.

02:16:47.000 She could sleep with 100-plus men.

02:16:50.440 Any single woman.

02:16:50.860 So is that bad on, like, the guy's part or the girl's part?

02:16:52.980 Yeah, but like...

02:16:54.060 Go ahead.

02:16:54.600 Sorry, go ahead.

02:16:56.060 Like, wouldn't that be kind of, like, bad on, like, a guy's part if you're saying they would just, like, sleep with...

02:17:00.420 Shouldn't you have standards?

02:17:01.240 Yeah.

02:17:02.320 Like, how is it the...

02:17:03.280 Well, I don't think it's neither good nor bad.

02:17:05.160 It just kind of is what it is.

02:17:06.500 But I'm not really trying to make a value judgment.

02:17:10.760 I'm just trying to kind of describe what it is.

02:17:13.020 So any single woman, every single woman here at this table, if you guys were so inclined, you could go sleep with 100 men in the next year very easily.

02:17:21.080 I can't say that's about men, though.

02:17:23.640 I can't say that the majority of men, or even a minority of men, could go ahead and sleep with 100 women in a year.

02:17:30.060 Even if they were to reduce their standards substantially.

02:17:33.440 Because most men are just invisible to most women.

02:17:36.100 And most men don't have game like that.

02:17:37.940 They don't have riz.

02:17:39.380 Oh, God.

02:17:40.020 So...

02:17:40.580 What?

02:17:42.440 I just don't like that word.

02:17:43.860 Riz?

02:17:44.500 No.

02:17:45.020 It was icky.

02:17:45.400 It was icky.

02:17:46.300 It gives you the ick?

02:17:47.340 Okay, what do you prefer?

02:17:48.300 It's not giving.

02:17:48.860 I don't know.

02:17:49.820 Just don't say that.

02:17:51.180 Game?

02:17:51.260 Don't say riz.

02:17:52.520 I don't like that.

02:17:53.380 I mean, that's a common parlance of...

02:17:55.320 Now it is.

02:17:56.100 We didn't say this like a year ago.

02:17:58.520 It's the riz.

02:17:59.020 Gen Z people.

02:17:59.700 I feel like if a woman, let's say, slept with 100 men, a woman can sleep with anybody.

02:18:05.220 So if she has high standards, there are probably 100 really fucking nice looking men.

02:18:09.440 But if a man sleeps with 100 women, women are more likely not to say yes.

02:18:14.100 So maybe they're not like that great look.

02:18:17.140 I don't know.

02:18:18.120 Sure.

02:18:18.520 So a girl's body count might be higher, but maybe the guys are also more quality too.

02:18:23.700 I don't know if that's a great argument though, because then they were probably fucking a bunch

02:18:29.340 of other women too, and she's been explored, greater likelihood of being exposed to some

02:18:34.060 sort of STD.

02:18:34.860 Yeah, but if you're safe about it.

02:18:37.040 What do you mean?

02:18:37.560 You can...

02:18:37.800 Like getting tested?

02:18:38.680 Mm-hmm.

02:18:39.000 Yeah.

02:18:39.220 Like I don't sleep with any...

02:18:40.620 Being tested doesn't make you safe.

02:18:42.180 Yeah.

02:18:42.540 I don't sleep with any person unless they've been fully paneled.

02:18:46.320 Like before anything.

02:18:47.620 You've never...

02:18:48.060 Fully paneled.

02:18:48.260 Really?

02:18:48.820 Mm-hmm.

02:18:48.960 You've never slept with somebody without there being a test first?

02:18:52.960 Not when I was like 18, 19, but that's less likely.

02:18:56.020 Can I have you just adjust your mic a little bit so scoot it this way?

02:19:00.600 Just scoot it.

02:19:02.160 Scoot...

02:19:02.400 Nope.

02:19:02.840 Sorry.

02:19:03.400 That way.

02:19:04.540 Yep.

02:19:04.980 There you go.

02:19:05.580 Okay.

02:19:07.260 But body count...

02:19:08.480 I mean, so going back to it really quick, I do think that...

02:19:12.980 And you're welcome to provide disagreement or pushback.

02:19:15.780 I do think if you have two girls, one of them has a high body count, one of them has a

02:19:21.940 low body count, comparable attractiveness, personality.

02:19:26.600 It is suboptimal, I think, from the male perspective to pick the one with the higher body count.

02:19:35.500 I don't know if you have a disagreement there or if you...

02:19:38.260 No, I'm just curious.

02:19:40.340 Like I'm trying to do your two people.

02:19:42.800 Like what if the one with the other, like with the higher body count has a better personality

02:19:48.960 than the girl with the lower?

02:19:50.480 That's what I'm saying.

02:19:51.120 Like would you go for higher?

02:19:52.880 Because it's like a girl that like matches your qualities and everything that you like

02:19:56.160 except for the body count.

02:19:57.440 Would you choose her over the girl who's like boring?

02:20:00.540 So like let's say a girl who has five body count, but her personality...

02:20:06.480 I don't want to use boring just because I like that.

02:20:08.480 So I want to be fair.

02:20:09.980 I want to be charitable.

02:20:10.700 She's exciting and fun.

02:20:11.700 She's less of a match.

02:20:13.660 She's got a five body count, but she's less of a match.

02:20:16.540 For you.

02:20:16.920 Based off my criteria versus a woman with a 50 body count, but she's like very close to

02:20:22.660 like in terms of what I'm looking for, just very close match personality wise, maybe even

02:20:27.680 more physically attractive too.

02:20:28.920 I would still take the lower body count.

02:20:30.780 Really?

02:20:31.320 Yep.

02:20:32.040 Okay.

02:20:32.720 Yep.

02:20:33.940 50 is a lot.

02:20:36.060 That's a lot.

02:20:37.220 That's yeah.

02:20:38.780 50 is a lot.

02:20:40.120 50 is a lot.

02:20:41.180 Yeah.

02:20:43.140 And I'm trying to think if there's anything else.

02:20:45.420 Wait, I have a question.

02:20:46.720 Sure.

02:20:47.180 I have a question for you.

02:20:48.300 Okay.

02:20:48.540 Wait, what's your, what's your body count?

02:20:50.180 If you feel comfortable sharing.

02:20:53.300 I don't know.

02:20:53.900 Range?

02:20:54.660 Over a hundred?

02:20:55.580 More.

02:20:56.860 Oh, over a hundred?

02:20:57.760 Over a hundred?

02:20:58.800 Less.

02:20:59.280 Probably like, I don't know.

02:21:00.580 Maybe.

02:21:00.860 Three hundred?

02:21:01.860 Okay.

02:21:02.480 Three hundred?

02:21:03.100 Yes!

02:21:03.680 Yes!

02:21:04.340 Yeah.

02:21:07.100 Yeah.

02:21:07.400 But you got to remember like, I'm 38.

02:21:10.300 I'm 38.

02:21:11.200 So like I've, I had my first girlfriend when I was 18.

02:21:14.420 I lost my virginity when I was 18.

02:21:15.820 Um, and then I hit fame, internet fame at around the age of 24, 25.

02:21:21.940 So it was just like thrown at me like a lot of the times cause like the fame and social

02:21:26.340 media.

02:21:27.080 So it was just, you know, I was just a young guy doing my thing.

02:21:29.600 Like really, I didn't really think too much of it.

02:21:31.100 I still don't think too much of it, but it made me grow and learn a lot.

02:21:35.380 And it made me realize like what I want and what I don't want.

02:21:37.760 And like I said, I could see some of the looks on your faces.

02:21:39.820 Like, it's not fair.

02:21:40.960 I get it.

02:21:41.380 Well, I was going to ask questions.

02:21:42.460 It's not fair, but it is what it is.

02:21:44.320 Wait, you have the next question?

02:21:45.820 Go on.

02:21:46.860 Um, did you get famous for like gym physique?

02:21:50.240 I'm, I'm just not familiar with it.

02:21:51.820 That's okay.

02:21:52.220 Like what did you get famous from?

02:21:53.360 Like vine or something?

02:21:54.760 That's completely fine.

02:21:55.840 Um, me and my brother started a fitness movement dubbed aesthetics.

02:21:59.400 You might've heard of his name, Ziz.

02:22:01.480 I'm his older brother.

02:22:02.480 Okay.

02:22:02.880 Um, they've got a picture of him behind the wall and we started, I guess Brian can jump

02:22:07.540 in with me if he wants, if he wants to add anything.

02:22:09.160 We started a fitness movement.

02:22:10.520 We dubbed it aesthetics.

02:22:11.580 We got famous on internet forums, MISC forums, RIP, which are now shut down.

02:22:15.820 We moved it to YouTube videos, Instagram, Facebook.

02:22:19.100 I still have a...

02:22:19.600 Is it just you working out?

02:22:20.600 It's so much more than that.

02:22:21.660 It's so much more than that.

02:22:22.360 I can't even put it to words.

02:22:23.220 He's being a bit...

02:22:23.940 It's a movement.

02:22:24.500 He is being a bit humble to be fair.

02:22:25.980 For once I'm being humble.

02:22:26.980 Can I jump in for you?

02:22:27.860 So him and his brother kind of like pioneered what you would call influencers today.

02:22:31.420 Okay.

02:22:31.700 So when, before Instagram was around, before TikTok, like literally just when YouTube was

02:22:36.820 starting out, like we just had forums, we had forums, we had YouTube and Facebook was

02:22:41.940 just starting out.

02:22:42.840 And these guys were the ones that were just playing around with it, having fun.

02:22:46.160 It feels so much better when someone else does it.

02:22:47.660 Like, you know what I mean?

02:22:49.280 No, let me tell the story.

02:22:50.280 Go on.

02:22:50.780 Let me tell your life story.

02:22:52.360 No, but like...

02:22:52.760 I'm talking too much, so...

02:22:53.520 No, no.

02:22:54.000 They pioneered the concept like unintentionally of what you would call an influencer.

02:22:58.060 So they'd go to the gym, they'd have fun, they'd document their life.

02:23:00.800 And that was in what, 2011, 2012?

02:23:05.920 2008.

02:23:06.520 Oh, wait.

02:23:06.760 2007.

02:23:07.300 Up to 2011 though, right?

02:23:09.900 Yeah.

02:23:10.260 Yeah.

02:23:10.400 So they were just mucking around on YouTube and Facebook and having fun and they would

02:23:14.380 go on the forums and troll and like, that would be kind of the content engagement.

02:23:18.300 And you were on those forums at that time as well, right?

02:23:20.260 So that was kind of our generation.

02:23:22.320 And then it all popped off.

02:23:23.180 It's a different time than you guys.

02:23:24.080 So it's like...

02:23:24.360 Popped off massively.

02:23:24.940 Yeah, no, I get it.

02:23:25.580 But here's where it becomes, and I have even goosebumps talking about this, but like sadly

02:23:30.680 the Sade's brother passed away, but due to the volume of content that they made,

02:23:35.920 like it just took off like a rocket and it went viral and it went all over the world.

02:23:39.620 And he had people from Germany and Europe and the US and all over the planet watching

02:23:44.620 the content that they'd made.

02:23:45.900 And because of the volume, it just, it became more and more and more viral.

02:23:49.800 And for better or for worse, like, you know, sometimes people...

02:23:53.360 We're not your typical bodybuilders.

02:23:54.820 Well, sometimes...

02:23:55.620 Very different.

02:23:56.140 No, no, hear me out.

02:23:56.800 Sometimes people seek fame, but then sometimes people have that put upon them, right?

02:24:01.140 Steve Irwin was one of the most famous people on the planet and his children didn't

02:24:04.740 choose to be famous.

02:24:05.340 Did you say Steve Irwin?

02:24:06.060 Steve Irwin.

02:24:06.760 Like at that point, the crocodile hunts...

02:24:08.400 Fuck, I love that guy.

02:24:09.240 No, no, but his kids didn't choose to be famous.

02:24:13.580 I'm sorry.

02:24:14.120 You don't know who Steve Irwin was?

02:24:15.180 No, I'm aware.

02:24:16.260 Yeah.

02:24:16.760 That's very popular in Australia.

02:24:18.660 I feel like I would have picked that.

02:24:20.200 Some people seek fame.

02:24:21.660 Some people have it thrust upon them.

02:24:23.680 And he had it thrust upon him at a very young age.

02:24:26.800 So he's gone through this his entire life.

02:24:29.200 And I don't know if you want to tell the story about how you found the content vault and

02:24:32.800 then you just picked that legacy up and ran with it.

02:24:34.800 So basically, my brother started a movement, a really, really huge one.

02:24:39.980 I implore you all in your own time just to even like just Google his name.

02:24:42.960 Even on TikTok, you type the hashtag Ziz.

02:24:44.820 It's got one billion hashtags.

02:24:46.520 Okay.

02:24:47.180 If I could jump in really quick too.

02:24:48.840 Yes.

02:24:49.060 So Ziz, he passed away in 2011.

02:24:53.440 And in terms of the impact, if some other person on the internet or content creator

02:25:00.360 passed away 15 years ago or whatever, 13 years ago, forgot it.

02:25:05.360 I mean, Ziz is still like kind of within the cultural zeitgeist.

02:25:10.700 And like you can go to any gym, ask a bodybuilder.

02:25:14.700 They all know who he is.

02:25:15.380 Even if they're like 18, 19, they know who it is.

02:25:17.540 Ask your boyfriend right now.

02:25:19.340 Do you know who Ziz is?

02:25:19.580 I had my phone out there.

02:25:21.340 Text him.

02:25:21.720 Wait, go get your phone.

02:25:22.620 All of you girls, ask your boyfriends.

02:25:24.260 Text him right now.

02:25:25.040 Do you know who Ziz is?

02:25:25.980 No, we can't do a call.

02:25:27.260 We can't do a call.

02:25:27.720 And basically.

02:25:29.100 Yeah, do it.

02:25:29.960 Do it.

02:25:30.280 Do it, please.

02:25:30.700 Just text him.

02:25:31.180 Text him.

02:25:32.280 And to finish the story off, I guess.

02:25:34.540 From picking up the treasure trove of content.

02:25:36.080 Because that's a good story.

02:25:36.840 Yeah, yeah.

02:25:37.120 So to pick it up from there, he passed away.

02:25:40.100 And here I am basically continuing his story and my story.

02:25:43.460 And picking up the pieces.

02:25:45.580 Z-Y-Z-Z.

02:25:46.400 Z.

02:25:47.480 It's not Zs.

02:25:48.800 It's not Zs.

02:25:49.440 It's Z-Y-Z-Z.

02:25:50.340 It's fucking Zs, man.

02:25:52.040 Z-Y-Z-Z.

02:25:53.040 Z-Z.

02:25:54.120 Zs.

02:25:55.140 Zs.

02:25:55.580 Zs.

02:25:56.060 It's fucking Zs, bro.

02:25:57.380 Zs.

02:25:57.900 So Australians say Zs.

02:25:59.800 Just be like, do you know who Z-Y-Z-Z is?

02:26:02.420 We say Zs and Australia say Zs.

02:26:03.560 And you have to show the camera.

02:26:04.860 If your boyfriend doesn't know him.

02:26:06.200 He's a young bodybuilding guy.

02:26:07.420 Yeah, just be like, do you know a famous bodybuilder named Zs?

02:26:09.660 Do you know Zs?

02:26:10.300 Zs.

02:26:11.300 Okay, what do you reckon?

02:26:12.200 Am I saying it wrong?

02:26:13.360 Zs.

02:26:14.200 Zs.

02:26:14.560 Anyway, and then basically, yeah.

02:26:18.520 So he passed and I kept releasing content of him in a timely manner after he passed to

02:26:23.740 keep his legacy and his name going.

02:26:25.780 And then I just...

02:26:26.320 You said yes, I do.

02:26:27.060 See?

02:26:29.320 Where's your little hands?

02:26:30.720 Press something.

02:26:32.660 What do you got for us?

02:26:33.800 There you go.

02:26:34.980 And I guess...

02:26:37.440 How good is that?

02:26:38.360 That's mad.

02:26:38.940 And I guess here I am.

02:26:39.880 You said love him.

02:26:41.940 Tell him he's a sick cunt.

02:26:45.300 He'll know what I mean.

02:26:45.820 Tell your boyfriend he's a king of men.

02:26:47.380 Clip it and chip it, boys.

02:26:48.480 Oh, my God.

02:26:49.000 That's mad.

02:26:49.620 That's mad.

02:26:50.840 I got some goosebumps as well.

02:26:52.920 19-year-old Zs.

02:26:54.100 That is amazing.

02:26:54.820 19-year-old.

02:26:55.640 They know who it is.

02:26:56.280 That is incredible.

02:26:57.360 Be real.

02:26:57.820 That's incredible.

02:26:58.280 That's beautiful.

02:26:59.040 That's beautiful.

02:26:59.920 That is...

02:27:00.380 Oh, actually...

02:27:01.200 He transcends.

02:27:03.060 I'm sorry.

02:27:03.720 He transcends.

02:27:04.560 That is...

02:27:05.120 Yeah, no, I feel emotional hearing about that, bro.

02:27:08.660 Oh, man.

02:27:11.120 Damn.

02:27:11.440 And I think we're talking about...

02:27:12.300 You've done well, bro.

02:27:13.400 You've done really well.

02:27:14.560 Seriously.

02:27:14.960 Look at where you are, man.

02:27:16.340 Millions of people are watching this.

02:27:17.760 You know what I mean?

02:27:18.080 It's crazy.

02:27:18.920 Millions of people.

02:27:19.260 Everybody in the chat, too, is like...

02:27:22.560 You're a good man.

02:27:23.840 And also, like, that's pretty incredible for you to continue that.

02:27:26.960 Yeah.

02:27:27.260 It must have been really hard, so...

02:27:28.420 Yeah, yeah.

02:27:28.800 It hasn't been easy.

02:27:29.760 Yeah.

02:27:30.160 You're good, too.

02:27:30.620 It's been tough.

02:27:31.920 You're a good man.

02:27:32.340 You're a good man.

02:27:33.860 Yeah.

02:27:34.160 It was hard.

02:27:34.640 It's always hard.

02:27:34.920 Can I ask you a question about bodybuilding?

02:27:36.800 Yeah, sure.

02:27:37.560 What's up?

02:27:38.380 Are you natural?

02:27:39.340 No.

02:27:39.820 Fuck no.

02:27:40.920 Can I ask what you're on?

02:27:42.220 I'm honestly very open.

02:27:43.340 A cycle or something?

02:27:44.100 Yeah, my cycle at the moment.

02:27:45.760 I'm using test.

02:27:48.080 250 mg per week.

02:27:49.180 MK677.

02:27:50.440 And a bit of growth hormone.

02:27:51.700 2 IU a day.

02:27:52.520 So, I'm very open and honest.

02:27:53.740 Do you know any side effects?

02:27:54.980 Like, have you noticed any side effects?

02:27:56.500 Of course.

02:27:57.140 Yeah, of course.

02:27:58.020 You should have one.

02:27:58.480 You need a boyfriend on a cycle.

02:27:59.620 No.

02:28:00.300 No.

02:28:00.660 He's too young.

02:28:01.000 No, no.

02:28:01.280 He's too young.

02:28:01.860 He's too young.

02:28:02.380 No, no.

02:28:02.600 There's heaps of side effects.

02:28:03.720 Like, you can shut down your natural testosterone production.

02:28:06.440 You can get hair loss.

02:28:07.500 You can get bitch tits.

02:28:08.840 Mood swings.

02:28:09.660 Mood changes.

02:28:10.580 Or whatever it is.

02:28:10.960 Or whatever it is.

02:28:11.180 Gynecomastia.

02:28:11.940 Yeah, there's a whole bunch of things.

02:28:13.200 Like, it's...

02:28:13.940 This is like TMI, but do you still get erect?

02:28:16.820 Of course.

02:28:17.240 Although you're on steroids.

02:28:18.760 So, you should get more erect.

02:28:19.700 You should get more erect.

02:28:20.300 Because I'm on testosterone, I'm, like, almost being 40 years old, I've got the energy

02:28:26.280 and, like, libido of, like, a 25-year-old.

02:28:28.900 He was erect on the way here, to be honest.

02:28:30.440 In fact, may I just...

02:28:31.760 I thought it was the gear stick, but it is.

02:28:33.640 Oh, my God.

02:28:35.000 Jesus Christ.

02:28:35.900 Anyway.

02:28:36.740 Crack it.

02:28:37.560 Crack it.

02:28:37.920 Crack it.

02:28:37.940 What the fuck?

02:28:38.660 Anyway, let me just say it.

02:28:40.280 Surprise, bitch.

02:28:41.320 Yeah.

02:28:41.680 Let me just say, and I implore for all men out there over the age of 35, that TRT will

02:28:47.300 change your life.

02:28:48.100 That one mil of tests a week will change your life.

02:28:50.580 It will keep you young.

02:28:51.440 It will keep you strong.

02:28:52.220 It will keep you, like...

02:28:52.920 It will still keep your sex drive up there.

02:28:55.020 It's the best thing you can do in your life.

02:28:56.420 What would you recommend for women?

02:28:57.620 I wouldn't recommend women to do steroids.

02:29:00.680 You can't take tests, right?

02:29:01.900 Well, there is female steroids.

02:29:04.240 Wait, so are you going to get her boyfriend on the cycle?

02:29:06.020 No, no.

02:29:06.720 I mean, inevitably, I think you already will after seeing this podcast.

02:29:09.680 I'll get her boyfriend on the cycle.

02:29:11.780 No, no.

02:29:12.320 I do not.

02:29:13.060 Oh, shit.

02:29:13.480 I don't have...

02:29:13.840 He's too young.

02:29:15.620 He's way too young.

02:29:16.540 By the way, 19...

02:29:17.400 When's the, like, 20...

02:29:18.960 If I was to make a recommendation, I would say, like, 24 plus.

02:29:22.460 24 plus.

02:29:23.000 But you have to be serious about it.

02:29:24.400 You have to be wanting a career out of it.

02:29:26.100 You want to be wanting to compete, like, do a bodybuilding competition.

02:29:29.180 Yeah.

02:29:29.980 You know, something like that.

02:29:30.840 If I wasn't competing, doing bodybuilding comps, or earning a living daily from, like, my physique,

02:29:36.540 then I wouldn't...

02:29:37.420 You wouldn't do it.

02:29:38.020 I wouldn't be doing steroids.

02:29:38.720 Just because, like, some guys feel sad about how small they are, so they, like, hop on it.

02:29:42.880 Like, you wouldn't recommend that?

02:29:44.440 I would just do the bare minimum.

02:29:46.000 I would not be this big.

02:29:47.340 I'd downsize.

02:29:48.280 Yeah.

02:29:48.440 And I'll just stay natural.

02:29:49.240 Like, there's no need for it unless you're, honestly, making money or competing.

02:29:53.460 Like, it's pointless.

02:29:54.140 Okay.

02:29:54.380 That makes sense.

02:29:55.020 And plus, like, it's, like, bigger's not always better.

02:29:58.600 Like, sometimes, like...

02:29:59.140 It's hard.

02:29:59.700 Yeah.

02:30:00.140 Like, sometimes, just, like, a lean, small physique can look great, you know?

02:30:03.000 It's, um...

02:30:03.920 But I like being the size.

02:30:05.780 I like what I do.

02:30:06.500 So, you know, that's my prerogative.

02:30:07.840 But each their own.

02:30:08.580 Like, I wouldn't recommend anyone to go down my path.

02:30:11.120 Unless they were, like, almost certain that this is what they want to do for the rest of their life.

02:30:14.300 Because otherwise, I'm telling you now, they'll fucking regret it.

02:30:17.220 Yeah.

02:30:17.440 100% they'll regret it.

02:30:18.920 Yeah, you can do too much.

02:30:20.280 It's a lifelong commitment.

02:30:21.620 It really is.

02:30:22.140 Oh, okay.

02:30:22.500 If you do it too young, you can...

02:30:24.080 Oh, it's lifelong?

02:30:25.260 Like, yeah.

02:30:25.580 Wait, you're going to have to keep...

02:30:26.400 I told myself when I did my first steroid cycle at 23, I'm just going to do one cycle

02:30:30.540 and never again will I touch steroids.

02:30:32.300 I'm 38 years old.

02:30:33.040 I'm still doing what I'm doing.

02:30:34.500 Like, you know what I mean?

02:30:35.460 It's a lifelong commitment.

02:30:36.320 Like, you have to stay on it?

02:30:38.320 I'm pretty sure you do.

02:30:39.380 I want to.

02:30:39.900 But I guess you could say, like, I'm addicted.

02:30:41.740 If there's anything I'm addicted to, I'm like, yeah, I'm addicted to the feeling of being on,

02:30:45.440 you know, TRT, like, feeling strong and having that energy.

02:30:48.880 Like, I can't imagine life without it.

02:30:50.360 You wouldn't have natural production anymore.

02:30:51.760 No, I'd be shut down for good.

02:30:52.780 So would I.

02:30:53.300 So would most people.

02:30:53.720 Yeah, I'd be shut down.

02:30:54.700 It's like a mastectomy.

02:30:54.820 Like, if you hit it too hard, you can't make tests anymore.

02:30:57.240 So you have to take it, basically.

02:30:58.740 It's a lifelong.

02:30:59.320 I just started drinking caffeine this year.

02:31:04.180 That's it.

02:31:05.120 That's a big move.

02:31:06.460 I've been juicing, boys.

02:31:07.720 Oh, my God.

02:31:08.440 This podcast.

02:31:09.300 I'll get you on a nice juicy cycle after.

02:31:11.020 I'll give you some recommendations, bro.

02:31:12.240 Come on, imagine we saw Brian jacked us in fucking hell.

02:31:16.360 Dude, I need to be ripped.

02:31:17.400 I can help you.

02:31:18.880 I'm here, bro.

02:31:19.720 I'm here for a reason.

02:31:20.620 I'm telling you.

02:31:21.840 I got a little something.

02:31:23.340 I got a little something.

02:31:24.500 Actually, they're pretty big arms.

02:31:26.340 I got a little.

02:31:27.240 They're pretty big arms.

02:31:28.340 You cut down the body fat?

02:31:29.660 There's a little there.

02:31:30.440 I got to cut down the body fat.

02:31:31.340 You cut down the body fat?

02:31:32.020 That's the key.

02:31:32.720 You'd be fucking huge.

02:31:33.560 I would be.

02:31:34.120 Wait, do we have old photos of Brian?

02:31:36.500 I had a little bit of muscle.

02:31:37.120 Chuck him up on the screen.

02:31:38.140 We want to see Brian in his heydays.

02:31:39.480 Let's go, baby.

02:31:40.080 Come on.

02:31:40.360 I was a bit more fit.

02:31:42.200 I wasn't big like you guys, but I was.

02:31:44.360 I'm small, bro.

02:31:45.500 No, you're.

02:31:46.060 You have body dysmorphia.

02:31:46.900 I do have body dysmorphia.

02:31:48.180 I feel like a skinny little prune.

02:31:50.500 He gets in my car looking like a truck.

02:31:51.960 He's like, oh, man, I'm so skinny.

02:31:53.380 Did you play World of Warcraft?

02:31:55.400 Yes, you did.

02:31:56.220 A little bit.

02:31:56.800 Not as much as Az.

02:31:57.740 Az played a huge.

02:31:58.300 He played a lot.

02:31:58.720 I played more Final Fantasy.

02:32:00.060 So another story is like me and Az.

02:32:02.320 Scroll down.

02:32:02.980 We were like internet video game geeks.

02:32:05.500 So we played lots of video games.

02:32:06.820 And then we got into bodybuilding.

02:32:07.880 You look like Eminem.

02:32:08.680 Scroll up.

02:32:09.200 I look like who?

02:32:09.840 Eminem.

02:32:10.420 Oh, shit.

02:32:11.080 Click on the tank top.

02:32:13.000 Is that you?

02:32:13.960 That's not you.

02:32:14.580 That's me.

02:32:15.140 What?

02:32:15.620 Oh, shit.

02:32:16.240 I mean, I was.

02:32:17.580 Who do you look like?

02:32:18.560 I was.

02:32:19.440 You look like someone, but I can't put my.

02:32:22.880 Eminem.

02:32:23.380 There's got Machine Gun Kelly over there, bro.

02:32:24.860 Oh, shit.

02:32:25.660 What the fuck?

02:32:26.740 Yeah, I was.

02:32:28.160 You look mad.

02:32:28.780 What's the word?

02:32:29.580 Slim?

02:32:30.200 Lean.

02:32:30.640 Lean.

02:32:31.420 What's the endomorph, ectomorph thing?

02:32:33.460 That shit's not important.

02:32:34.980 Rip.

02:32:35.940 Rip.

02:32:36.540 Endomorph, ectomorph, mesomorph.

02:32:37.640 So I got on, boys.

02:32:38.280 Just fucking train, man.

02:32:39.600 Don't worry about that bullshit.

02:32:41.600 This time next year, I'm going to be.

02:32:43.360 And now this podcast is about bodybuilding, guys.

02:32:45.700 Let's go.

02:32:47.040 All right.

02:32:47.620 Let's talk about.

02:32:48.880 This is.

02:32:49.240 This is.

02:32:50.060 Yeah.

02:32:50.500 Yeah.

02:32:51.400 But.

02:32:52.420 So wait.

02:32:53.180 Going back to the body count conversation.

02:32:55.980 Bodybuilding to bodybuilding.

02:32:56.540 Do you guys.

02:32:57.640 There you go.

02:32:58.240 Good segue.

02:32:59.180 Do you guys think men are insecure if they care about body count?

02:33:02.760 Yes.

02:33:03.180 Men are so insecure.

02:33:06.560 Yeah.

02:33:07.260 I do.

02:33:08.720 I do.

02:33:09.540 I've heard this one a hundred times.

02:33:11.620 No, because I care about it.

02:33:12.940 You care about it?

02:33:13.560 Yeah.

02:33:13.720 Do you think they're insecure if they care about body count?

02:33:15.400 Yeah.

02:33:16.060 Yeah?

02:33:16.260 I think, yeah.

02:33:17.100 Very much so.

02:33:17.940 Okay.

02:33:18.340 And why do you say that?

02:33:22.020 It.

02:33:23.340 They just can't handle.

02:33:24.740 Yeah, I would just say, like, I don't care, like, if they ask, you can tell, like, that

02:33:29.700 they don't care.

02:33:30.280 But if they're very persistent on it, I would say, like, oof, you have some insecurities

02:33:34.980 that you need to work on.

02:33:36.220 Like, I don't think it's bad, like, if they ask.

02:33:38.000 Like, I'm super open.

02:33:39.200 But, like, when they kind of make it, like, a constant conversation and talk about your

02:33:43.360 past and everything that was, like, before them, that's a problem that is on them, I

02:33:48.740 would say.

02:33:49.020 Okay.

02:33:49.520 Yeah.

02:33:49.940 I fully agree with you.

02:33:51.780 So, insecure if they care about body count?

02:33:54.320 Like, it depends, though.

02:33:55.640 Like, yeah, yeah, agreed.

02:33:57.220 If you ask about it, like, once and, like, you, like, care about it, like, no.

02:34:00.900 But if you keep continuing to bring it up, then it's, like, okay, chill.

02:34:05.800 Yeah, I agree, actually.

02:34:07.140 Like, just consistently bringing it up and, like, also trying to make someone, like, feel

02:34:11.140 bad about their past, even though they didn't know you.

02:34:13.980 Wait, let me just revive.

02:34:15.040 Here, let me bring it back to the question, though.

02:34:17.780 So, I mean, we're adding these kind of qualifiers where, well, he's, like, just constantly

02:34:23.220 bringing it up.

02:34:24.380 So, it's more so just.

02:34:25.980 But you've got to ask the question.

02:34:27.620 Sorry.

02:34:27.880 You've got to ask the question.

02:34:29.140 Why would a guy keep constantly bringing it up?

02:34:31.340 Because they're insecure.

02:34:33.740 I'm pretty sure that was a question, though.

02:34:35.880 I feel like maybe because, like, sometimes girls lie, perhaps, about their past.

02:34:41.440 No, like, I'm saying, like, if you tell them, like, you're honest, and then they'll, like,

02:34:44.840 ask about who each person was.

02:34:46.940 Well, you've got to remember, sometimes when a guy would ask a lot, maybe in the past they've

02:34:50.780 been lied to by their partner or by a girl.

02:34:53.460 Yeah, that's fine.

02:34:54.280 That's their insecurity, though.

02:34:55.480 If you girls have experienced that, it just shows that you've probably had guys that have

02:34:59.940 been lied to about a woman's body count.

02:35:01.480 So, if a woman was secure with her sexuality or whatever, she wouldn't lie.

02:35:05.020 She'd just be honest about it.

02:35:06.420 You know what I mean?

02:35:06.920 So, if she is honest and he still cares, that's just...

02:35:09.940 Oh, if he's asking numerous, numerous times, yeah, that's different.

02:35:12.520 If he asks and a woman's honest and open, he either takes it or he leaves it, you know?

02:35:16.680 Yeah, exactly.

02:35:17.440 Which is his choice, for sure.

02:35:18.860 Yeah.

02:35:20.160 But it's up to the woman to be honest, because a lot of women, like, you know how, like,

02:35:23.800 a lot of women would just, like, lie or just hide the real number?

02:35:26.940 And even guys, guys would inflate their number and say that's a lot higher than what it

02:35:30.780 is.

02:35:32.200 Did you inflate your number?

02:35:33.880 Honestly, honestly, honey, I wish I did.

02:35:37.420 Completed or not.

02:35:38.300 I'm like, I'm not too, I'm not too happy about my number.

02:35:41.340 I will.

02:35:41.540 I wish it was lower, to be honest.

02:35:42.620 Okay.

02:35:43.000 I wish it was lower.

02:35:45.660 So much time wasted just doing stupid shit.

02:35:49.000 I think it's...

02:35:49.820 Are men insecure if they care about a woman's body?

02:35:50.900 No.

02:35:51.180 I think it's a boundary.

02:35:52.740 Sure.

02:35:53.260 Your thoughts?

02:35:54.080 Yes.

02:35:54.740 Okay.

02:35:56.400 And then, and just going back to you guys, because I feel like we were adding some of

02:36:00.980 these qualifiers, like, he keeps bringing it up, but let's just say he didn't keep bringing

02:36:07.480 it up, but he chose not to date a woman because of her body count.

02:36:11.980 In this situation, insecure.

02:36:13.180 He's insecure, man.

02:36:14.020 Come on.

02:36:14.420 Insecure?

02:36:14.940 Okay.

02:36:15.360 Yeah.

02:36:15.820 I would say insecure.

02:36:16.540 Still insecure?

02:36:17.500 Yeah.

02:36:17.940 I don't think so.

02:36:18.840 Don't think so?

02:36:19.740 Yeah, I don't think so.

02:36:20.720 Like, if they're already not dating, like...

02:36:22.320 Oh, if you're not dating...

02:36:23.460 Wait, don't change your answer, because your friends are going against you.

02:36:26.400 No, I don't care.

02:36:27.220 By the way, I was being sarcastic.

02:36:28.240 I was being sarcastic.

02:36:29.420 You don't care about what your friends think?

02:36:31.300 You guys really need to reconsider your friendship.

02:36:33.640 Okay.

02:36:34.580 Okay.

02:36:35.400 No, if it's a preference, it's a preference.

02:36:37.500 I get it.

02:36:37.840 I thought you meant, like, in a relationship, like, they kept asking, but I got your question

02:36:42.400 out.

02:36:42.560 I was just a little slow.

02:36:43.860 They're not going to, like, bully you about it.

02:36:47.900 They just wouldn't date you to begin with, and that's the end of it.

02:36:50.840 Yeah, then that's fine.

02:36:51.260 Then, okay.

02:36:51.920 If you don't like me, then that's okay.

02:36:53.280 So, going around the table, what's everybody's body count?

02:36:56.500 Starting with you.

02:36:57.700 Why me?

02:36:58.580 Well, you already revealed it.

02:36:59.840 I don't know.

02:37:00.220 Honestly, it's like, it's over...

02:37:01.400 200, 300?

02:37:02.200 Yeah, somewhere around there.

02:37:02.840 Okay.

02:37:03.280 Going to you.

02:37:03.840 I would say, I think it's 20 men and nine women.

02:37:07.320 Word.

02:37:07.740 Okay.

02:37:08.540 Two.

02:37:09.580 Five.

02:37:10.660 Four.

02:37:11.700 Three.

02:37:12.540 Twelve.

02:37:13.740 Nineteen.

02:37:15.460 Liam.

02:37:16.580 I'll be about the same as him, I think.

02:37:18.540 Yeah.

02:37:18.840 Same as...

02:37:19.500 Same as...

02:37:19.920 200, 300?

02:37:21.060 Yeah, about that, maybe.

02:37:21.880 Mommy.

02:37:22.640 Mommy.

02:37:22.880 I wasn't trying to, by the way.

02:37:26.580 All right, okay.

02:37:27.920 He wasn't even trying, it just happened.

02:37:29.660 You're opening on this, or what?

02:37:30.840 Oh, I don't share my body count.

02:37:32.040 Oh, okay.

02:37:33.080 Rules for thee, but not for me.

02:37:34.760 What?

02:37:34.980 I am...

02:37:36.280 Range?

02:37:36.680 Yeah, it's true.

02:37:37.220 No, it's true.

02:37:37.780 I reckon Brian's like, maybe, I'd say like...

02:37:41.360 20 to 40?

02:37:43.080 Uh, it's a big range.

02:37:46.020 I can neither confirm or deny.

02:37:48.280 Okay.

02:37:48.700 Smart answer.

02:37:49.540 It's below a thousand.

02:37:51.540 Okay.

02:37:52.560 So from zero...

02:37:53.400 I think Brian's just back to 900.

02:37:54.020 So it's 999.

02:37:56.120 It's from zero to...

02:37:58.140 I'm just judging based on your, like, quiet introvert nature.

02:38:01.820 The quiet introvert nature.

02:38:02.140 And you seem like a gentleman.

02:38:03.220 I'm saying 10.

02:38:03.960 I think Brian's a hopeless romantic.

02:38:05.380 He likes...

02:38:05.740 I do prefer relationships.

02:38:06.960 Yeah, I think so, too.

02:38:07.700 I don't like one night stands.

02:38:09.940 That's good, actually.

02:38:11.000 I stand with my statement.

02:38:12.700 He's wholesome, Daddy.

02:38:14.200 20 minutes.

02:38:14.540 I'm saying 10.

02:38:15.820 10?

02:38:16.380 10.

02:38:17.960 What, are we going to all go around and guess Brian's body?

02:38:20.160 Yeah.

02:38:20.840 Yeah.

02:38:21.620 Yeah, actually, that's a good idea.

02:38:22.860 Let's do it.

02:38:23.400 You go first.

02:38:23.940 All right.

02:38:24.480 I reckon you're north of 20.

02:38:26.660 North of 20.

02:38:27.740 Okay, north of 20.

02:38:28.980 I reckon.

02:38:30.040 Okay.

02:38:30.580 I reckon.

02:38:31.100 That's all you say.

02:38:32.200 Oh, I know.

02:38:32.800 What do you reckon?

02:38:33.300 I already told you, 20.

02:38:34.360 20?

02:38:34.880 Yeah, 20.

02:38:35.340 30.

02:38:35.780 30, okay.

02:38:37.360 20.

02:38:37.860 20?

02:38:38.760 11.

02:38:39.540 11, all right.

02:38:40.280 Yeah, mid-20s.

02:38:41.900 Mid-20s.

02:38:42.980 12.

02:38:43.720 Okay.

02:38:44.720 14.

02:38:45.440 Okay.

02:38:46.020 How old are you?

02:38:46.980 35.

02:38:47.460 35.

02:38:48.640 And you're married.

02:38:49.340 How long have you been married for?

02:38:50.200 I'm not married.

02:38:51.120 Oh, you're not married?

02:38:52.140 Oh, I thought you were married.

02:38:54.100 Nope, that married energy.

02:38:55.380 He's married to the game.

02:38:56.460 Yeah, I'm married to the game.

02:38:57.420 So, how long have you been?

02:38:59.060 I am married to the game.

02:38:59.720 He's married to the game.

02:39:00.520 I'm married to the game.

02:39:00.540 How long have you been with your partner?

02:39:02.320 He doesn't have one.

02:39:02.980 I didn't say my relationship.

02:39:03.920 No, I thought you had a partner.

02:39:05.040 This podcast is his partner.

02:39:06.800 This is my girlfriend.

02:39:07.780 This is his girlfriend.

02:39:08.700 Okay, so then that changes my answer.

02:39:10.700 Yeah, I have to sanitize the table.

02:39:13.300 God.

02:39:14.300 Oh, my God.

02:39:15.080 Sometimes the table doesn't make sense.

02:39:16.400 Okay.

02:39:16.660 And the seats do.

02:39:17.280 I'm going to guess then he's above 20 for sure.

02:39:20.740 Above 20.

02:39:21.500 Okay, all right.

02:39:22.220 Yeah, well, those were some great guesses.

02:39:24.540 I'm not telling any of you what my body count is, but great guesses.

02:39:27.900 Good job, guys.

02:39:28.820 Wonderful, wonderful.

02:39:30.340 I'm sure you'll whisper it in my ear after the show.

02:39:33.020 Yeah, maybe.

02:39:33.820 Maybe.

02:39:34.020 Let's see.

02:39:34.680 Sorry, I won't tell anyone.

02:39:35.860 I just want to see if I was right.

02:39:36.920 He's like, do you want to be number one?

02:39:42.140 No homo rectus.

02:39:43.520 You got to take my version.

02:39:45.160 Homo sapiens, I guess.

02:39:47.320 No homo.

02:39:47.680 No homo Simpson.

02:39:51.320 Wait, and then I think you had a thing.

02:39:56.860 I brought up submissiveness.

02:39:58.680 And you kind of, like, recoiled a little look.

02:40:02.080 I feel like most people don't talk about that.

02:40:03.960 Let's talk about it.

02:40:04.740 By the way, Hilary Epstein, let me just read it while it's...

02:40:08.060 Still love you, Brian.

02:40:10.420 Hey, thank you, man.

02:40:11.680 Thank you.

02:40:12.180 Good to see you in the chat.

02:40:13.020 You were here.

02:40:13.540 You were killing it the other show.

02:40:15.360 So I just got to drop this really quick.

02:40:17.100 He's a brave and a decent man.

02:40:18.640 He's a pioneer.

02:40:19.500 It's true.

02:40:19.840 It's true.

02:40:20.220 Thank you, Hilary.

02:40:21.020 Appreciate it.

02:40:21.780 Sorry, go ahead.

02:40:22.460 Continue with your...

02:40:23.260 What was I saying?

02:40:24.660 Submissive, submissive.

02:40:25.500 Oh, just, I feel like not a lot of people talk about it unless they're, like,

02:40:28.620 very open with their sexuality and, like, if they're, like, a switch.

02:40:33.760 Oh, are you thinking BDSM?

02:40:35.480 No.

02:40:36.120 No, I'm just saying, like, if you're more of a submissive person or dominant, like,

02:40:39.400 I feel like that kind of leads into the sex world, too.

02:40:41.460 In the bedroom?

02:40:42.400 Yeah.

02:40:42.700 Because I'm not talking in the bedroom necessarily, although I am.

02:40:46.380 Oh.

02:40:46.780 But I'm primarily talking about...

02:40:48.680 In a relationship?

02:40:49.420 Non-sexual dynamics.

02:40:50.580 Oh, so you like when, like, a girl listens to you all the time?

02:40:53.600 I'm just, like, what is your...

02:40:54.820 Even if she...

02:40:55.600 Yeah, that's what they're saying.

02:40:57.000 What was that thing about?

02:40:57.560 Well, what is your submissive, like, your definition for it in a relationship?

02:41:01.580 Let's me lead and listens...

02:41:03.660 Listen?

02:41:03.880 But when I say listen, I don't mean, like, she's just hearing me.

02:41:08.540 Like, she lets me lead.

02:41:12.040 Okay.

02:41:12.760 Like, give an example.

02:41:13.960 Yeah.

02:41:14.320 No, I get, like, controlling, but, like, not controlling in that sense.

02:41:17.160 It's, like, not that word, but I get what you're saying.

02:41:19.920 Not controlling.

02:41:21.040 Like, what's an example of that?

02:41:22.500 Leadership.

02:41:23.220 Strong leadership.

02:41:24.640 What's an example?

02:41:25.520 Yeah.

02:41:25.860 What are you guys, Gen...

02:41:26.540 Are they Gen Z?

02:41:27.900 They're Zoomers.

02:41:28.720 Zoomers.

02:41:29.140 You guys are real cute, man.

02:41:30.620 Very funny.

02:41:31.760 So, so funny.

02:41:32.160 Wait, why do you say that?

02:41:33.040 It's just funny.

02:41:34.100 Like, controlling, that's the first thing that popped into mind when you said you like

02:41:37.320 to lead.

02:41:38.200 Well, yeah, that's what I said.

02:41:39.480 Okay.

02:41:39.960 Well, let's explore it.

02:41:41.060 We can explore it.

02:41:41.840 I think it's, like, traditional values versus, like, new age values sort of thing.

02:41:45.400 What is new age values?

02:41:46.480 So, like, what may be considered traditional would be leading, but what may be considered

02:41:51.900 new age may interpret leading as controlling.

02:41:54.300 When it's not really controlling, it's just trying to, like, set the pace.

02:41:57.880 Do you know what I mean?

02:41:58.360 Yeah, I know.

02:41:58.780 Well, I just don't know any other word besides, like...

02:42:00.180 I wouldn't even say set the pace, to be honest.

02:42:02.200 What's that?

02:42:02.760 I wouldn't...

02:42:03.260 I wouldn't even use the term, like, set the pace.

02:42:06.120 It's just, like...

02:42:06.760 It's supposed to be friends.

02:42:07.460 We should agree with each other all the time.

02:42:08.920 Yeah.

02:42:09.200 Yeah.

02:42:09.360 Yeah.

02:42:09.660 Like, it's not about who's right or who's wrong, but just naturally in a relationship, I feel

02:42:14.520 like a man.

02:42:15.140 Oh, my God.

02:42:17.120 I feel like...

02:42:18.060 You're eating too many of those gummies.

02:42:20.540 Calm down.

02:42:21.400 How many have you had, bro?

02:42:22.700 I had two bottles.

02:42:23.140 How much cocaine?

02:42:23.860 The whole bottle is empty.

02:42:25.360 No, cocaine, we're coming down.

02:42:27.100 These got me off my head.

02:42:28.360 I'm so sorry.

02:42:29.420 I'm going to have to take four.

02:42:30.660 The store is going to be empty.

02:42:32.080 They're going to be like, these are cocaine in them?

02:42:33.120 This is, like...

02:42:33.700 At least we'll sell them out now.

02:42:34.580 No, we did put, like, a little bit in there, but...

02:42:36.660 It's just...

02:42:37.240 I lost my train of thought.

02:42:38.840 Sorry.

02:42:39.200 The question was, we were talking about being submissive.

02:42:43.000 They're that good, huh?

02:42:43.780 Fuck, I might have some more.

02:42:44.660 I'm wired, bro.

02:42:46.740 If we got some for them as well, completely buzzed.

02:42:50.500 Are you going to focus on?

02:42:51.420 Yeah.

02:42:52.360 Now they're like, can I have some as well?

02:42:54.280 Everyone's like, I'm screwed.

02:42:56.260 I just, like...

02:42:56.580 Knocking on the door at three in the morning.

02:42:58.760 I need some more.

02:42:59.500 Some gummies.

02:43:00.760 They're really nice.

02:43:02.220 How many are you going to go after the champagne and pre-workout?

02:43:05.760 You're going to be wired.

02:43:07.040 I'll tell you that.

02:43:07.340 I want to read the katerol.

02:43:08.780 Isn't that a small?

02:43:09.920 It's like...

02:43:10.480 Yeah, they're insane.

02:43:11.800 Caffeine?

02:43:12.360 I don't even...

02:43:12.760 We've had people email us saying what's in there.

02:43:14.660 I really...

02:43:15.160 I probably should know.

02:43:16.200 Four calories.

02:43:17.540 One gram of sugar.

02:43:19.580 Two milligrams of vitamin B.

02:43:22.760 Give this one four of the sleep ones.

02:43:26.120 No, I don't want the sleep ones.

02:43:27.200 You'll be out cold.

02:43:28.420 You'll be like, oh.

02:43:29.120 They're so strong.

02:43:29.800 They're drugging.

02:43:30.600 They're so strong.

02:43:32.060 That's controlled drugging.

02:43:33.140 Alanine, a bit of caffeine.

02:43:34.140 What is it?

02:43:34.880 It's not melatonin?

02:43:36.220 It's not caffeine.

02:43:37.220 Just caffeine.

02:43:37.840 No, I'm talking about the sleep ones.

02:43:39.220 Oh, the sleep ones will knock you out for days.

02:43:41.180 No, don't say that.

02:43:42.560 Seriously, they will.

02:43:43.480 The sleep ones floor me.

02:43:44.820 The sleep ones will knock you out like Mike Tyson.

02:43:47.560 You couldn't pay me to take the sleep one.

02:43:49.200 Are you ready for that fight?

02:43:49.960 You have to now.

02:43:50.960 You'll be on the floor.

02:43:51.880 But those ones...

02:43:52.700 Don't take those ones.

02:43:53.960 Yeah, don't take...

02:43:54.580 They'll have you singing Trap Queen in your kitchen.

02:43:57.600 Wait, so I think you were maybe asking a question on the submissive topic.

02:44:01.280 Yeah.

02:44:01.700 Just like an example of what that would mean to you.

02:44:04.540 Because I can't really even answer on it because I don't know what that really means to you.

02:44:09.600 Like an example.

02:44:10.180 Yeah, I mean, essentially just allowing me to lead.

02:44:12.960 Letting me lead.

02:44:14.420 Like in what way?

02:44:15.440 Like a real life example.

02:44:17.820 I'm trying to think of an example where a woman's been quarrelsome and not let me...

02:44:23.020 Like if I've set the plan and they want to like nitpick the plan, right?

02:44:29.580 They want to, oh, but I want to do this.

02:44:31.880 No.

02:44:32.600 We're doing this.

02:44:35.360 Yeah.

02:44:35.600 Like let me lead, you know?

02:44:37.240 Is that like relationships, like friendships too?

02:44:40.040 Like you just like to be in charge like that or like just...

02:44:43.800 I mean, I think friendships can be a bit more egalitarian, especially if they're male friendships.

02:44:49.260 But I do...

02:44:50.900 I mean, even with friendships, I do tend to be a bit more of the go-getter in those situations too.

02:44:56.280 I mean, I think that is even typical in friendships also.

02:45:00.300 Yeah.

02:45:00.460 There's somebody who's a bit more assertive.

02:45:04.080 Yeah, exactly.

02:45:04.520 They're a bit more like scheduling and reaching out and making things happen.

02:45:08.660 Does that mean if a girl dates you, she never has to pick where she's going to eat?

02:45:11.520 Because that sounds pretty awesome.

02:45:13.160 Yeah.

02:45:14.140 That's really good.

02:45:15.580 I always know what I want to eat.

02:45:17.860 So you pick it?

02:45:18.520 That's what we're eating.

02:45:19.340 I mean, look, if like she gives me a good recommendation, like, hey, do you want...

02:45:22.920 Then sure.

02:45:24.040 Yeah.

02:45:24.280 But like if she's uncertain, I'm like, oh, this is what we're eating.

02:45:27.060 That's good.

02:45:27.700 That's nice.

02:45:28.140 I don't like to think about places like...

02:45:29.980 Like, I would never be like, what do you want to...

02:45:32.820 Oh, I don't...

02:45:33.480 Or it's like, what do some guys do?

02:45:35.180 It's like, oh, I don't know.

02:45:36.900 You pick.

02:45:37.480 No, it's okay.

02:45:37.920 I'll pick.

02:45:39.060 That's good.

02:45:39.820 That's better.

02:45:40.720 No one really likes...

02:45:42.140 Or I don't know any girls who like to pick a spot because then you're thinking about it.

02:45:46.360 Yeah, the guy's like, oh, I don't mind.

02:45:47.740 You just...

02:45:48.240 Whatever you want.

02:45:48.680 Yeah, then it's annoying.

02:45:50.900 Okay, wait.

02:45:51.240 But what if the girl has actually a craving for something, but you also do?

02:45:56.760 Where would you guys go?

02:45:57.860 Wait, so she has a craving and I have a craving.

02:46:00.440 Yeah, they're both different.

02:46:01.400 So I have a craving.

02:46:02.220 Oh, we're going with me.

02:46:03.400 Okay.

02:46:04.160 Yeah, I'm the threshold breaker.

02:46:05.920 No.

02:46:06.940 No?

02:46:07.420 No.

02:46:07.820 No?

02:46:08.220 No.

02:46:08.400 So, okay.

02:46:08.960 So what if you're having a conversation with your boyfriend?

02:46:11.740 Yeah.

02:46:12.120 It's Mallory.

02:46:12.480 And he really wants to go to one place.

02:46:13.380 No, it's Mallory.

02:46:14.320 Hold on.

02:46:15.120 He really wants to go to one place.

02:46:16.680 And you really want to go to one place.

02:46:18.880 And you guys just can't come to a decision.

02:46:21.100 Yeah.

02:46:21.600 You guys break up?

02:46:23.100 No.

02:46:23.680 So who has to break the threshold?

02:46:25.640 You.

02:46:26.400 For sure.

02:46:26.880 I mean, I think he would go where I want to go.

02:46:30.020 You would think he would go where he wanted?

02:46:31.800 Yeah, he would submit to me.

02:46:34.920 But this is obviously, he would submit to you.

02:46:37.080 Yeah, not in even a bad way.

02:46:39.380 I think that's good.

02:46:40.260 He would put his, my needs before his, which I would appreciate that.

02:46:45.760 Okay.

02:46:46.520 And that's just how I think of it.

02:46:48.720 Have you ever pegged him?

02:46:50.760 No.

02:46:51.380 Okay, just checking.

02:46:52.960 Look, I mean, look, there's certainly, there's probably scenarios where, like, if I'm with

02:46:57.040 a girl and she has a really strong craving and maybe I'm a bit more neutral on what I

02:47:00.900 want, I'm like, oh, yeah, that sounds like a good idea.

02:47:03.220 We can get that.

02:47:04.000 Yeah.

02:47:04.100 Or whatever.

02:47:05.020 But if it's like, I want this.

02:47:08.380 Oh, no, I want, she wants pizza.

02:47:10.180 And I want burgers.

02:47:12.100 We're getting burgers.

02:47:14.460 They hate this answer.

02:47:17.040 Okay.

02:47:18.000 Yeah.

02:47:19.660 Or, or she could just starve.

02:47:22.980 That's also not true.

02:47:24.580 This is why I always have my own money.

02:47:27.280 Okay, I'm being a bit, I'm joking about the starving thing.

02:47:30.540 She can get a salad.

02:47:33.480 Salads are good.

02:47:34.360 I don't think that's like a bad thing to say.

02:47:36.020 I would love to order a salad.

02:47:37.040 I just, I love protein.

02:47:38.520 Give me the protein.

02:47:39.220 I would choose a burger.

02:47:39.880 Yeah, but protein is good.

02:47:42.520 Wait, so you would like make your boyfriend get what you want?

02:47:45.700 I mean, I don't even think I would have to like make him do that.

02:47:49.080 I think he would want to do that for me.

02:47:50.800 Although I feel like this, I think we, I'd like to take this example further.

02:47:54.400 Okay.

02:47:54.580 Because I feel like the food thing is a bit, it doesn't really matter.

02:47:57.760 Let's talk about a major relationship.

02:47:58.880 Yeah.

02:48:00.000 Like crossroad here.

02:48:01.220 I'm trying to think what?

02:48:03.000 Maybe like picking a holiday.

02:48:04.960 Could be.

02:48:05.720 I don't know.

02:48:06.080 I don't know.

02:48:06.680 One's got a preference to, I don't know, fucking go to Canada.

02:48:10.540 The other one wants to go to Europe.

02:48:11.880 Hmm.

02:48:12.780 The man's putting up the money.

02:48:14.140 So the man should have the final say.

02:48:15.860 I can think of examples that are further along in a relationship, like when there's kids

02:48:20.720 involved or something, or like you guys are a bit further along, like, because I could

02:48:26.000 give you an example, but I don't know if it would really track since you guys are a bit

02:48:29.160 younger.

02:48:29.600 But like if I was married to a woman or we were in a long-term relationship and I was

02:48:34.940 like, and I was the bread, well, I would be the breadwinner most likely.

02:48:39.580 Um, and I was like, okay, we're moving here and she was like, no, I'd be like, so are we

02:48:51.980 breaking up then?

02:48:53.040 Because yeah, let me just, let me just add on top of that.

02:48:56.080 And I know this might trigger some of you, but my partner's the same.

02:48:59.220 I told my girlfriend, I want to move to the Gold Coast because the weather in Sydney is

02:49:02.920 like really shit.

02:49:03.600 It's always raining.

02:49:04.180 It's cold.

02:49:04.880 I told her I want to move to the Gold Coast and you know, that's where we're going to

02:49:09.200 live in like one or two years time.

02:49:10.500 And she said, yeah, okay.

02:49:11.320 That sounds great.

02:49:12.720 Um, I would obviously like have a conversation and like, yeah, exactly.

02:49:17.880 Like just a conversation, not just we're living here or we're breaking up.

02:49:20.880 Of course.

02:49:21.220 Yeah.

02:49:21.400 Yeah.

02:49:21.600 Of course.

02:49:22.000 It's, it's never just like that.

02:49:23.280 Like there's always a conversation.

02:49:24.660 Yeah.

02:49:25.140 We're talking like, and like you would not be open-minded if she wanted to go somewhere

02:49:28.360 else.

02:49:28.660 Like that would not be.

02:49:30.240 I'm not sitting in and saying that I wouldn't go somewhere that she, if she said a location

02:49:34.940 that I was happy with, then I think, you know, it's, it's fine.

02:49:37.660 But if I had my eyes, no, no, no, I'm pretty, I'm pretty, I'm pretty chill like that.

02:49:42.620 But if I really wanted to move to say like the Gold Coast and she works remote off her

02:49:47.380 computer and she can work anywhere where she wants and there's nothing holding her back

02:49:51.540 in Sydney.

02:49:52.060 There's nothing holding me back in Sydney.

02:49:53.560 If I tell her we want to move to the Gold Coast, we're moving to the Gold Coast.

02:49:56.520 You know what I mean?

02:49:57.160 If she mentioned, oh, but I'd like to go live in Perth.

02:50:00.340 And if that fitted and aligned with what I was doing with my business and my work, I'd say,

02:50:04.880 okay, cool.

02:50:05.300 Let's go to Perth.

02:50:05.940 Yeah.

02:50:06.500 So, um, I think if it was like, like you said before, Brian, if it was like in a favor

02:50:12.860 of me, um, I would go with it.

02:50:15.320 Um, lucky for my situation, me and my girlfriend, we think very similar.

02:50:19.140 So we have like the same kind of mindset around the same, same age.

02:50:22.400 So it's like, it makes it a bit easier, you know, but I guess it's not always going to

02:50:26.120 be like that.

02:50:26.560 There's going to be times where you're in a relationship where, you know, you're going

02:50:29.580 to have your man now or in the future, uh, kind of dictate things and tell you what

02:50:34.700 he wants to do or where he wants, where he wants to go.

02:50:36.500 And it's not from a place of like being controlling or it's not from a place of like wanting to

02:50:41.560 be like the alpha male or anything like that.

02:50:43.280 Sometimes like a man just has to lead as a man, you know?

02:50:46.280 And, and that's just the way it is, you know, but let me also give you some added context

02:50:50.840 here.

02:50:51.340 So this would be when we're far enough into a relationship.

02:50:54.800 Yeah.

02:50:55.000 Not like early on, I'd say like, yeah.

02:50:56.880 In terms of like the kind of relationship that I'm going to have is she's not going to

02:51:03.100 have to work.

02:51:04.360 Okay.

02:51:04.920 Like I'm going to be taking care of everything.

02:51:07.180 Right.

02:51:07.580 And so if I've made a determination, like I want to move here in furtherance of my career

02:51:14.000 so that I can provide for you.

02:51:15.720 Oh yeah.

02:51:16.100 So you never have to work another day in your life.

02:51:18.800 Like I am going to have to take on a bit more authority in the relationship so I can

02:51:23.920 continue providing you, providing you with that sort of life where you don't have to

02:51:29.480 work ever.

02:51:31.400 Um, and then also I'd probably pick a dope place like Hawaii.

02:51:33.940 Like I wouldn't be like, let's move to the fucking core.

02:51:36.360 Like I like the heat.

02:51:37.740 I'm taking Utah.

02:51:39.200 That's actually what I probably, that's probably where I'll end up.

02:51:42.560 Yeah.

02:51:42.860 Hawaii.

02:51:43.420 Do it.

02:51:43.880 In Hawaii.

02:51:44.640 Yeah.

02:51:44.900 That's paradise.

02:51:45.740 He's going back to his surfing ways.

02:51:47.200 There you go.

02:51:47.960 I think like, really?

02:51:50.100 Yeah.

02:51:50.380 Yeah.

02:51:50.600 I think I will probably end up in Hawaii.

02:51:54.020 Which island?

02:51:54.660 What's Hawaii like, by the way, guys?

02:51:56.060 I've always wanted to.

02:51:56.600 Oh, you should go.

02:51:57.180 It's nice.

02:51:57.600 It's amazing.

02:51:58.620 I got stuck there.

02:52:00.200 It's a nice place to be stuck.

02:52:01.580 Let me tell you.

02:52:02.420 Yeah.

02:52:02.600 I'd like to go and just learn how to bodyboard or something.

02:52:05.400 Oh, you should come.

02:52:06.220 I mean, there's good surf in Australia, though.

02:52:08.360 Have you surfed at all?

02:52:09.300 I can bodyboard, but I can't surf.

02:52:10.760 Have you tried?

02:52:11.620 I'm hopeless.

02:52:12.440 Oh, you got it.

02:52:13.040 You got good balance.

02:52:13.380 I'm hopeless.

02:52:14.200 No, but I'm too heavy, man.

02:52:15.160 I sink.

02:52:15.600 There's good instructors in Hawaii.

02:52:16.640 I can barely bodyboard.

02:52:18.320 Snowboard, pretty decent.

02:52:19.780 Bodyboard, hopeless.

02:52:21.440 Yeah.

02:52:21.700 Yeah.

02:52:22.440 But let's see here.

02:52:23.860 Where were we?

02:52:24.340 We were talking about the body count.

02:52:25.320 I'd love to surf.

02:52:27.260 Submissive.

02:52:27.860 Well, here.

02:52:28.300 I want to show you guys a video.

02:52:29.640 It's very dear.

02:52:30.340 It's a video of my ex-girlfriend.

02:52:33.320 Can we get the bow video pulled up?

02:52:35.660 Would you be willing?

02:52:37.980 Well, I'll show you.

02:52:38.640 I'll show you guys.

02:52:39.780 I'll show you guys.

02:52:41.440 Let's get the bow video.

02:52:44.340 And by the way, guys, drop.

02:52:46.720 Like the video, guys.

02:52:48.060 Like the video.

02:52:51.160 All right.

02:52:51.760 I knew you were going to show this one.

02:52:53.520 So this is my ex-girlfriend.

02:52:54.700 This is kind of my expectations, you know, when it comes to being submissive.

02:52:57.820 You go ahead.

02:52:58.440 Go ahead.

02:53:01.520 Boom.

02:53:01.960 Huge bow.

02:53:02.460 Did you see the bow?

02:53:03.040 That's what I need.

02:53:03.740 She's got a bow for me as soon as I walk through the door.

02:53:06.780 Look, I just get home from a long day at the podcast.

02:53:10.620 She's got to get my laundry all, my shirt in the hamper.

02:53:15.380 Dinner's already ready.

02:53:16.600 It's ready to go.

02:53:18.620 She's got the beer ready.

02:53:20.520 Opens it for me.

02:53:22.360 Stirs the noodles.

02:53:23.740 There we go.

02:53:24.340 Yep.

02:53:24.720 I had to scold her about the tomatoes.

02:53:26.920 I don't like what she did with the tomatoes there.

02:53:29.600 And, yeah, and then just hit play one more time.

02:53:32.600 Play it again.

02:53:33.200 Let's just see the bow again.

02:53:34.900 Boom.

02:53:36.720 Massive bow.

02:53:37.500 So going around the table, would you bow for your man?

02:53:42.380 If my, well, I bow a lot for my man.

02:53:44.900 But if he was making all the money and I was living rent-free under his house,

02:53:51.360 of course.

02:53:52.940 Of course.

02:53:53.560 I feel like that's just, I don't know, courtesy.

02:53:56.580 Because then at that point, what are you bringing to the table?

02:53:58.740 If he's making all the money and all the things and everything,

02:54:02.580 and you're just there, you've got to do something.

02:54:05.240 Yeah, you've got to hit the bow.

02:54:06.400 Okay, what about you?

02:54:07.380 I want to provide, so no.

02:54:09.120 Wait, you want to provide?

02:54:10.640 Yeah, I want to build something out of myself.

02:54:11.960 You want him to bow?

02:54:13.960 I mean, it could go both ways.

02:54:14.480 I got a video for you right after this.

02:54:17.880 Wait, so you, wait, sorry, repeat that?

02:54:19.920 It could go both ways.

02:54:21.420 Both ways?

02:54:22.020 Both ways, yes.

02:54:22.700 Okay.

02:54:23.780 And you're studying what again?

02:54:25.920 Psych, but I want to switch to bio, so.

02:54:27.520 And you want to be like a doctor, or what do you want to do?

02:54:30.160 Optometrist, eye doctor.

02:54:30.900 Optometrist?

02:54:31.380 Okay, they make good money.

02:54:32.460 All right, okay, sure.

02:54:34.100 So, wouldn't bow, though?

02:54:38.900 Maybe.

02:54:39.860 I could.

02:54:40.760 Well, you're in a relationship now.

02:54:42.220 What's the dynamics in your relationship?

02:54:44.020 50-50, chivalry, equality, what is it?

02:54:46.820 It's mainly 50-50, yes.

02:54:47.840 50-50?

02:54:48.460 Yeah.

02:54:48.620 Okay, all right.

02:54:50.540 What about you?

02:54:51.400 Would you bow for your man if he asked you to?

02:54:55.100 Yes, I would.

02:54:55.960 Okay, W.

02:54:57.420 W, hey, he likes, he knows your brother.

02:55:01.780 Yeah.

02:55:02.320 Actually, to be fair, that's a big W.

02:55:03.640 He's probably watching right now.

02:55:05.080 He just came home from the gym, so.

02:55:07.960 Yo, if you're a boyfriend, if you're watching, you got to ask for a bow tonight or tomorrow.

02:55:12.740 Okay.

02:55:13.700 All right, what about you?

02:55:14.840 Would you give a bow for your boyfriend?

02:55:17.260 Yeah, I mean, if he was, like, providing everything, then, like, sure, I guess.

02:55:21.420 What if he wasn't?

02:55:22.780 Hell no.

02:55:23.700 Yeah, probably not.

02:55:24.820 I don't know.

02:55:25.440 It's not that deep.

02:55:26.260 It's just a bow.

02:55:27.760 Yeah, it's not that deep.

02:55:29.120 It's just a, you know, it's, like, take three seconds.

02:55:31.780 Sure.

02:55:34.580 No.

02:55:35.260 No.

02:55:35.620 I would not.

02:55:36.340 That was an emphatically no.

02:55:38.420 Yeah, no.

02:55:39.220 Why not?

02:55:40.480 I just think that's, like, weird.

02:55:42.820 It's weird.

02:55:43.140 If someone asks me to bow for them, I just think they have, like, a high ego and they

02:55:47.600 need me to, like, fulfill that bite.

02:55:49.280 What if it's not about ego?

02:55:50.500 It's just, uh, it's like a kind of, not a fetish.

02:55:53.980 Oh.

02:55:54.300 Like, a quirky thing.

02:55:56.520 And it's a show of respect.

02:55:57.880 Bow for me.

02:55:58.880 I mean, if they would bow for me in return, then no.

02:56:01.660 No, they won't bow for you.

02:56:03.060 No.

02:56:03.420 No, no bow.

02:56:04.080 Okay, so it's, uh, okay.

02:56:05.520 No.

02:56:05.940 And you said it would just be weird?

02:56:07.580 It would.

02:56:08.220 I don't.

02:56:09.260 What if he was Asian?

02:56:10.700 Oh, God.

02:56:12.320 If it was, like, culture appropriate and it, like, made sense, I guess.

02:56:16.680 I mean, I'd still find it weird because it's not my culture.

02:56:19.320 Okay.

02:56:19.500 So I have a bias, but.

02:56:20.980 Sure.

02:56:21.520 Sure.

02:56:22.140 Okay.

02:56:22.520 That's what he wants.

02:56:23.240 Would you hit a bow?

02:56:23.880 Yeah.

02:56:24.500 Hit a bow?

02:56:24.980 Yeah.

02:56:25.420 Okay, going back to you really quick.

02:56:27.240 So, um, uh, let's see here.

02:56:31.520 Do you want to get married one day?

02:56:32.980 Yeah.

02:56:33.480 Okay.

02:56:34.140 Uh, would you want your partner to be the one who proposes?

02:56:39.320 Yeah.

02:56:40.320 Okay.

02:56:41.400 Would you want him to do a more traditional, uh, proposal?

02:56:44.880 Like, get down on one knee with the ring?

02:56:46.980 Yeah.

02:56:47.180 You wouldn't want him to just, like, throw you a McDonald's hamburger and be, like, marry

02:56:51.380 me person?

02:56:52.920 No.

02:56:53.880 Yeah, you'd want.

02:56:54.400 I'd want the traditional, yeah.

02:56:55.220 Okay, so get down on one knee.

02:56:56.660 Yeah.

02:56:57.120 Kneel.

02:56:57.660 Mm-hmm.

02:56:59.000 And then, please, please.

02:57:01.100 Here, I got.

02:57:01.640 Where's the.

02:57:03.660 Here we go.

02:57:04.740 So he gets down on one knee and he goes.

02:57:09.100 Oh.

02:57:09.580 Gertrude.

02:57:10.200 Brian, you shouldn't have.

02:57:11.100 I just made up your.

02:57:12.260 Will you marry me?

02:57:13.820 You know?

02:57:14.980 Yeah.

02:57:15.300 Uh, don't you think that that's a bit more weird than a bow?

02:57:22.440 Like, it's a bigger ask, don't you think?

02:57:24.340 Well.

02:57:24.620 The guy's getting down on one knee.

02:57:25.820 He's basically doing a lunch.

02:57:26.840 Yeah, it's more the glute.

02:57:28.540 He's at the gym.

02:57:29.080 Yeah, but that's been.

02:57:29.580 Glute activation.

02:57:30.340 Glute and hamstring.

02:57:31.660 Okay.

02:57:32.300 A bit of a cough as well.

02:57:33.980 A bit of a cough in there.

02:57:34.860 You propose once to one person, like, if you're just going to stay with one person, like,

02:57:38.760 a bow, what, every day when they come to work, you just bow to them?

02:57:42.120 The legendary trash pan, the donated $200.

02:57:46.000 Brixen, never have on dollar store, little alcohol syndrome, David Schwimmer on again.

02:57:51.040 What the fuck?

02:57:51.580 What the fuck?

02:57:51.960 The guy loves his own voice too much and simps over your talking points.

02:57:55.920 Who's David?

02:57:56.560 Wait, David Schwimmer.

02:57:57.880 What the fuck?

02:57:58.620 David Schwimmer?

02:57:59.340 I think he's talking about me.

02:58:00.260 From France?

02:58:00.920 Yeah.

02:58:02.260 Do you have a response to Trashman?

02:58:04.180 Who's the David Schwimmer?

02:58:05.640 I don't know, man.

02:58:06.440 This is probably another thing.

02:58:07.560 Probably a troll.

02:58:08.180 Probably a misc troll.

02:58:09.620 Could be a misc troll.

02:58:10.700 You kind of do a little while.

02:58:11.600 You fucking troll.

02:58:13.540 Trash.

02:58:14.020 Hey, at least he pays you, bro.

02:58:15.080 It's all good.

02:58:15.900 Probably if someone says something man on Instagram.

02:58:17.880 Oh, my God.

02:58:18.340 That's crazy.

02:58:18.940 That's crazy.

02:58:19.340 I've got to stop simping for Brian.

02:58:21.260 Well, we've had a couple things that we disagree on.

02:58:24.020 Yeah, I know.

02:58:24.520 I don't think we've been simping for Brian.

02:58:27.240 Wait, so, going back, you said bow is every day.

02:58:30.720 I mean, would the bow be every day?

02:58:32.520 Like, when he comes home from work, you bow to him.

02:58:35.120 Wait, so, question.

02:58:35.820 Do you want a man who's chivalrous or a man who comes, like, equality?

02:58:42.820 I don't know.

02:58:43.860 I'd, like, want a balance between them.

02:58:45.660 I don't know.

02:58:46.180 What's the balance?

02:58:47.080 I don't know.

02:58:47.800 I'd still want to be, like, independent in my own self.

02:58:50.260 Like, I don't want to fully have to rely on someone else.

02:58:51.380 But when you say independent, you mean independent of a man?

02:58:55.840 Like, no.

02:58:56.520 Like, if you're talking about, like, financially, I mean, like, with chivalry.

02:59:02.100 That microphone came out of nowhere, dude.

02:59:04.700 It just came out of nowhere.

02:59:07.440 Wait, so, like, financially, it's still, like, I wouldn't expect a man to completely, like, not, like, have me work.

02:59:18.120 Like, my mom still works.

02:59:19.420 My dad works.

02:59:20.340 Like, I don't have an, like, issue with that.

02:59:23.020 Neither do they.

02:59:23.840 Like, if that's in the way you're kind of saying.

02:59:25.940 The economic reality is, in today's society, you're going to need a two-income household.

02:59:31.400 I mean, it is what it is.

02:59:34.020 But, I mean, if, let's say you encountered a guy who's either very wealthy or a high-income earner and he was like, eh, you can just stay home.

02:59:43.880 And would you be more inclined to do it then or even then you still want to work?

02:59:49.820 I mean, I guess if I was, like, completely, I don't know.

02:59:53.600 I honestly, I don't really know.

02:59:55.140 I think I'd still kind of want to, I'm going to school, I'm getting a degree.

02:59:58.400 I don't want it to be for nothing to just, like, kind of sit at home.

03:00:01.880 Like, I, I don't know.

03:00:05.020 I think I'd still kind of want to make a living for myself.

03:00:07.300 Even if it's not super important, like, life-changing, just do something to make me feel more, like, fulfilled in my life, I guess.

03:00:16.020 What about kids?

03:00:16.780 Yeah.

03:00:17.300 Like, if I had kids, I, yeah, for sure.

03:00:20.580 But, like, just us two, like, I would, just wouldn't want to sit in the house all day and just kind of, I don't know.

03:00:25.900 Yeah, well, do you want to take time off work when you do have kids?

03:00:29.120 Yeah.

03:00:29.640 Do you know how long?

03:00:31.840 I don't know.

03:00:32.480 How many kids do you want?

03:00:33.220 I mean, if my husband at that point could provide wealth and we had kids, then I would stay at home.

03:00:39.000 Like, it's different when you have kids.

03:00:40.540 Sure.

03:00:40.920 I would want that.

03:00:41.760 That's fulfillment for me.

03:00:43.340 Yeah.

03:00:44.260 Okay.

03:00:45.740 Yeah.

03:00:46.460 But, but it sounds like you do want a bit more 50-50 in a relationship.

03:00:51.520 Yeah.

03:00:51.920 Okay.

03:00:52.360 Yeah.

03:00:52.900 All right.

03:00:53.320 And then does that, are you talking about just the financial component or other things, too?

03:00:57.520 Yeah, kind of just financially.

03:00:59.100 Just financially.

03:00:59.580 Yeah.

03:01:00.080 So you still want him to be masculine and a bit more.

03:01:03.860 Like, for example, I know you're in a relationship now.

03:01:07.340 Who made the first move?

03:01:10.480 He did.

03:01:11.280 He did?

03:01:11.680 Yeah.

03:01:12.140 And how did you guys meet?

03:01:13.100 Was it at a mutual friend?

03:01:14.900 It was at a Halloween party.

03:01:16.600 And he, so he approached you.

03:01:17.740 Yeah.

03:01:18.400 And you guys had not known each other prior to that?

03:01:20.520 No.

03:01:20.920 Okay.

03:01:21.240 So that was a cold approach.

03:01:23.480 I heard of him, but I didn't know him really in person.

03:01:27.140 Okay.

03:01:27.440 Yeah.

03:01:27.720 So he approached you, Halloween party.

03:01:29.700 What was his, what did he say?

03:01:31.780 I don't.

03:01:32.620 You don't remember?

03:01:32.960 I don't remember.

03:01:33.600 I think he was just like, hi.

03:01:35.760 Yeah.

03:01:36.540 Hi.

03:01:36.740 He was probably there.

03:01:37.580 I don't know.

03:01:38.020 I was there.

03:01:38.340 It was just, yeah.

03:01:39.020 He definitely made the first move, though.

03:01:40.420 And then he, did he carry the conversation initially?

03:01:42.440 Yeah.

03:01:42.900 Initially?

03:01:43.400 Yeah.

03:01:43.600 And then, uh, did he ask for your number?

03:01:47.520 Yeah.

03:01:47.960 Well, we already had each other on like social media, but we didn't like know each other.

03:01:51.720 So then, yeah, he asked to hang out again.

03:01:54.940 Okay.

03:01:55.300 So he made the initiative to like ask you out?

03:01:57.480 Yeah.

03:01:57.960 Okay.

03:01:58.260 And then he planned the first.

03:01:59.940 Yeah.

03:02:00.540 He planned the first date.

03:02:01.560 Was it the first date?

03:02:01.800 Yeah.

03:02:02.260 Not that, but like.

03:02:03.060 Was it more casual like a hangout?

03:02:04.260 The first night we met, that was more hangout.

03:02:06.480 And then like, he took me out like formally.

03:02:09.080 Formally.

03:02:09.400 So you guys got like food or something?

03:02:11.420 Yeah.

03:02:11.520 We did like mini golf and then whatever.

03:02:13.820 And he planned the whole thing?

03:02:14.760 Yeah.

03:02:15.160 He paid for it?

03:02:15.860 Mm-hmm.

03:02:16.700 Well, you're not being very 50-50 now, are you?

03:02:19.020 I know.

03:02:19.460 Like I just, I literally just meant like financially.

03:02:22.480 Like I.

03:02:22.940 Well, he paid for that date, didn't he?

03:02:24.440 Yeah.

03:02:24.920 Okay.

03:02:25.260 Well, yeah, but.

03:02:25.780 Did you offer to pay?

03:02:27.360 Probably not.

03:02:27.980 Well, that's not very 50-50 of you.

03:02:30.200 I mean, that's certain scenarios, I guess.

03:02:31.920 What scenarios?

03:02:32.220 It's like depending.

03:02:33.120 Like what I said, like when I'm older, I want to be able to like still.

03:02:37.020 Sure.

03:02:37.560 Wait, you guys have been.

03:02:38.800 First date, the guy should pay.

03:02:40.060 Yeah, like that's just like.

03:02:41.700 Should they?

03:02:42.000 Yeah, I think whoever asked that person out should pay.

03:02:44.440 Well, we can get into that, but just finishing this up really quick.

03:02:48.580 So you guys been dating for how?

03:02:51.440 Nine months?

03:02:51.880 Nine months, yeah.

03:02:52.780 Okay.

03:02:53.080 And how often do you guys go out to eat frequently once a week or something?

03:02:57.400 Yeah.

03:02:58.180 Yeah.

03:02:58.380 Okay.

03:02:58.880 I'll get right into that.

03:02:59.760 The legendary Trash Panda donated $200.

03:03:02.320 Oh, Ross from Friends.

03:03:03.160 That's okay.

03:03:03.800 David Schwimmer equals Ross from Friends.

03:03:06.300 Band of Brothers 2.

03:03:08.000 But Dollar Store Mom was hitting the Tennessee while Prego Ross from Friends.

03:03:12.380 I never watched Friends.

03:03:13.880 Oh, you haven't seen Friends?

03:03:15.300 No, no, no.

03:03:15.820 I know who David Schwimmer is though.

03:03:16.820 Yeah.

03:03:17.360 Yeah.

03:03:17.720 I liked him.

03:03:18.180 He's funny.

03:03:18.720 He's funny.

03:03:19.080 I never watched Friends, no.

03:03:20.480 You're not missing much.

03:03:21.440 Well, thank you, Trash Panda.

03:03:23.280 I appreciate it.

03:03:24.420 Pull up a picture.

03:03:26.420 I guess we could Google a picture because he asked for it, but...

03:03:29.520 Lord Fargoat donated $200.

03:03:32.400 Why does the Western women have the dilution of having double standards on dating and marriage

03:03:37.540 and yet they want to lay in bed and do nothing at all?

03:03:41.180 Are you talking...

03:03:41.780 When you say lay in bed, do you mean like...

03:03:43.780 Like starfish?

03:03:44.400 Starfishing?

03:03:45.000 Yeah.

03:03:45.060 Or do you mean like just not do anything?

03:03:48.480 Like non-sexually?

03:03:49.940 What's the dilution of having double standards on dating and marriage?

03:03:54.100 So, okay.

03:03:54.740 You guys have been dating for nine months and you guys go out on dates like once a week.

03:04:01.180 Does he pay or do you pay?

03:04:02.600 It's 50-50.

03:04:03.760 I don't...

03:04:04.840 I feel like guilt kind of in that sense.

03:04:07.240 Like I don't think that's really how it should work.

03:04:09.780 You don't need to pay every single time.

03:04:11.680 Like I'm willing to pay for myself or both of us.

03:04:14.660 Like...

03:04:14.940 Okay.

03:04:15.620 So when you guys do go out, like you'll pay for your food, he pays for his?

03:04:19.620 Either that or I'll pay for both or he'll pay for both.

03:04:22.040 It's just kind of depending on like...

03:04:24.100 I don't know.

03:04:24.640 So one date you'll pay, another date he'll pay.

03:04:27.000 Yeah.

03:04:27.140 Okay.

03:04:27.840 All right.

03:04:28.140 But then first date was not 50-50.

03:04:31.060 No.

03:04:31.440 And then you were saying the man should pay on the first date.

03:04:33.980 Well, yeah.

03:04:34.420 Like in this scenario, like it was the first date he asked her out.

03:04:37.680 So he should pay.

03:04:38.540 Oh.

03:04:39.020 That's why.

03:04:39.680 Well, and then you were coming in on that saying whoever asks should pay, right?

03:04:44.000 Yeah.

03:04:44.120 I think if you're going to ask somebody on a date, then I feel like you should be the

03:04:48.080 one to pay for it.

03:04:48.640 Well, let me get right into that.

03:04:49.720 But first, just going around the table, who do you think should pay on the first date?

03:04:52.200 The man or the woman?

03:04:53.280 Whoever asks first.

03:04:54.240 Whoever asks.

03:04:54.800 Sure.

03:04:55.120 That can be an answer.

03:04:55.880 Whoever asks first.

03:04:56.400 Whoever asks.

03:04:57.020 The man.

03:04:57.980 The man should pay.

03:04:58.700 Okay.

03:04:59.300 Yeah.

03:04:59.520 The man.

03:04:59.980 The man should pay.

03:05:00.800 The man.

03:05:01.420 The man.

03:05:01.940 Whoever asks.

03:05:02.700 Whoever asks.

03:05:03.280 Whoever asks.

03:05:04.020 What do you think?

03:05:04.520 The man.

03:05:05.140 The man.

03:05:05.720 Okay.

03:05:06.280 And then some of you said, who said whoever asked should pay?

03:05:09.680 I think it was you, you, and then you.

03:05:13.160 I can ask the whole panel this.

03:05:15.780 Have you ever asked a guy out?

03:05:17.300 Yeah.

03:05:17.840 Okay.

03:05:18.380 Of all the first dates that you've been on, who asked who out?

03:05:25.180 The majority of the time, I've been asked out.

03:05:27.600 You've been asked out.

03:05:27.820 But I have asked guys out, and I have paid for dates.

03:05:30.540 Okay.

03:05:30.780 And this can include dates you turned down and rejected.

03:05:34.380 So, you said whoever asks should pay.

03:05:39.040 More often than not, are you asking for the date?

03:05:41.100 For first dates?

03:05:41.700 First date.

03:05:42.340 Not counting.

03:05:43.140 You've been dating a guy for three months, and hey, babe, you want to get?

03:05:46.260 No.

03:05:46.860 First date.

03:05:47.260 Yeah.

03:05:47.280 I haven't dated that many people, so I've only been asked out.

03:05:49.740 I haven't asked anyone.

03:05:50.540 You've never asked anybody out.

03:05:51.820 But you said whoever asks should pay.

03:05:53.820 Yes.

03:05:54.380 I mean, if I've.

03:05:55.060 Well, that's convenient.

03:05:55.820 Don't you think that's a bit convenient, though?

03:05:57.180 I'll ask for dates when I'm in the relationship.

03:05:58.800 No, no, no.

03:05:59.100 That doesn't count, though.

03:05:59.840 It's first date.

03:06:01.180 Well, I just haven't dated a lot, so.

03:06:03.200 How many first dates have you been on?

03:06:05.220 Into the mic?

03:06:06.740 Probably three.

03:06:08.340 Three?

03:06:08.680 Yeah.

03:06:09.060 Okay.

03:06:09.320 None of them you asked out?

03:06:10.640 No.

03:06:11.180 Okay.

03:06:11.500 They asked you out?

03:06:12.400 Yeah.

03:06:12.560 And they paid?

03:06:13.200 Yeah.

03:06:13.640 Okay.

03:06:14.100 I wasn't looking for a relationship, though.

03:06:15.560 I'm not actively seeking relationships.

03:06:17.820 Yeah, but, like, three of the first dates you've been on.

03:06:22.440 But you see, okay, here, I'll continue on.

03:06:24.600 But of all the first dates you've been on, who asked you out?

03:06:31.120 I don't believe I've ever asked anyone out.

03:06:33.900 Never asked somebody out, okay?

03:06:35.240 I don't think so.

03:06:35.640 And how many dates you've been on?

03:06:36.780 Five?

03:06:37.220 Ten?

03:06:38.540 First dates?

03:06:39.380 First dates, yeah.

03:06:41.160 And this can include a first hangout, because some people don't consider these dates, but

03:06:45.080 five?

03:06:46.460 For hangouts, I don't know.

03:06:48.020 And for, like, formal dates, probably, like, five or something like that.

03:06:51.000 And then informal hangouts?

03:06:52.260 I have no idea.

03:06:54.000 Yeah.

03:06:54.440 30?

03:06:55.000 100?

03:06:55.700 Okay, not 100.

03:06:56.720 Okay, all right.

03:06:57.480 Okay.

03:06:57.920 Hey, you know, whatever.

03:06:58.940 What about you?

03:07:00.180 Wait, repeat the question again.

03:07:01.260 Have you ever asked a guy out?

03:07:03.220 I don't think so.

03:07:05.160 I don't think I've ever asked someone out on a first date.

03:07:07.200 And how many first dates have you been on?

03:07:08.980 Probably, like, in between, like, 10 to 15.

03:07:11.420 10 to 15 first dates?

03:07:12.540 Okay.

03:07:13.760 What about you?

03:07:15.020 Um, yeah, I've never asked anyone out myself.

03:07:18.780 Okay, and how many first dates have you been on?

03:07:20.840 Like, three, maybe.

03:07:22.000 How many informal first hangouts have you been on?

03:07:25.640 Like, maybe, like, six?

03:07:27.660 I don't know.

03:07:28.300 Six?

03:07:28.620 Okay, what about you?

03:07:29.300 How many first dates?

03:07:30.420 Oh, Jesus.

03:07:31.520 Oh, no, it's not a lot.

03:07:33.460 Okay, yeah.

03:07:35.100 I don't know, maybe, like, seven or eight.

03:07:36.260 Seven or eight?

03:07:36.680 Yeah.

03:07:36.820 Can you tilt your mic down a little bit?

03:07:37.660 Yeah, sorry.

03:07:37.960 What about you?

03:07:38.740 I have asked someone out.

03:07:40.720 Okay, and oh, how many guys have you asked out?

03:07:44.360 If any.

03:07:45.220 I've asked out quite a few.

03:07:46.640 It doesn't bother me to approach those.

03:07:48.560 So, for first dates, you're doing the asking more often than the guy is?

03:07:53.060 No, I would say maybe, like, 60-40 the guy.

03:07:55.640 60-40?

03:07:56.100 Yeah.

03:07:56.440 In your favor or his?

03:07:58.540 Like, him asking me or me asking him?

03:08:00.280 Yeah, what's the breakdown?

03:08:01.100 60, him asking me, 40.

03:08:02.760 And then for you?

03:08:04.220 Which part?

03:08:05.220 Both parts.

03:08:05.980 I have asked guys out.

03:08:07.840 Yeah, what's the breakdown?

03:08:08.960 Like, 75-25.

03:08:11.220 75 them asking?

03:08:12.580 Yes.

03:08:12.780 Okay.

03:08:12.960 I don't know.

03:08:14.460 It's just kind of convenient.

03:08:15.880 Like, whoever asked should pay.

03:08:18.620 But also, I've never asked a guy out on a date.

03:08:24.820 Oh, you're fine.

03:08:27.540 Oh.

03:08:28.520 I've been asked out and then...

03:08:30.680 It's too big.

03:08:31.580 Hold on.

03:08:31.940 I mean, do we need to re...

03:08:33.400 I'll re-fix that in just a sec.

03:08:37.940 It's kind of convenient, you know?

03:08:39.940 I mean, just like body count's not always fair.

03:08:43.320 Right.

03:08:44.160 Sure.

03:08:44.900 But I agree that things aren't always fair.

03:08:47.660 But, like, there's this, like, when it tends to favor men, if it's unfair, there's, like,

03:08:53.300 a huge amount of pushback and scoffing.

03:08:56.420 But, like, when the disadvantage or unfairness goes towards the men, it's kind of like, what's the deal?

03:09:05.940 Yeah, no, I can agree with that.

03:09:09.420 But I think it's also...

03:09:11.020 It's also...

03:09:13.100 Like you said, thousands of years of evolution.

03:09:16.900 You know, sometimes it's just ingrained in our society.

03:09:21.000 Mm-hmm.

03:09:21.400 I mean, you said you want a girl to be submissive.

03:09:27.420 Do you want a submissive woman to pay for you for the first day and ask you out and be dominant in that way?

03:09:31.820 Well, here's actually the interesting thing, is that I think that a woman can actually still be very submissive

03:09:37.820 and take some degree of initiative.

03:09:39.700 In fact, you can even argue that perhaps a woman...

03:09:42.400 Is that not considered leading?

03:09:44.040 No, not necessarily, because you can still be in the lead,

03:09:48.380 and the other person has taken some degree of initiative.

03:09:52.020 If that makes any sense to you whatsoever.

03:09:55.240 I mean, if it's a first date, you're leading, because it's the first interaction.

03:09:58.920 Well, so, in terms of, like, if you're almost looking at it from a dynamic of who's more invested, right?

03:10:04.680 Yeah.

03:10:05.680 So, for example, and I don't tend to talk from this perspective,

03:10:10.380 just because I try to talk about my, like, pre-podcast perspective,

03:10:14.320 where I was engaging in, like, more, like, what a normal man or woman could expect from dating.

03:10:22.780 Yeah.

03:10:23.380 But, like, my experience since I've started the podcast is, like,

03:10:25.840 I pretty much only will date women who come to me,

03:10:28.500 because the dynamic is way better.

03:10:31.520 So, I actually prefer that, if they come to me first.

03:10:36.100 Because, one, it's because I like women who've already demonstrated high levels of interest.

03:10:41.320 I don't like dealing with low-interest women,

03:10:45.340 which can be very common, especially if you're on dating apps.

03:10:48.600 So, high-interest women are just going to be way more into you.

03:10:52.540 That's a way better dynamic.

03:10:54.240 But I don't like to typically talk about that,

03:10:56.320 just because it doesn't apply to most men's experience,

03:11:00.900 because they're not going to have that degree of,

03:11:04.940 they either don't have some degree of status,

03:11:07.320 or they don't have that level of interest from women.

03:11:10.460 But I actually do think it's a far better dynamic,

03:11:13.660 because if this woman is, like, fucking crazy over you,

03:11:17.760 yeah, it's way easier to be, I think, to lead in that situation

03:11:22.420 than to you be, like, kind of chasing a bit too much, you know.

03:11:27.020 And you can call the shots more, like, do my laundry.

03:11:29.440 No, I'm kidding.

03:11:30.600 But actually.

03:11:34.740 Wait, you scoffed at that.

03:11:36.720 What's up?

03:11:37.840 It was a little out there, but.

03:11:40.000 Why is that out there?

03:11:41.620 I don't know.

03:11:42.200 I don't know.

03:11:42.640 If you were on the first date with your boyfriend,

03:11:45.480 or, well, soon-to-be boyfriend or whatever,

03:11:47.760 and would you want him to, like, physically defend you

03:11:50.900 in some sort of situation that would involve that?

03:11:55.580 What do you mean?

03:11:57.480 There's, like, somebody who's being aggressive towards the two of you,

03:12:00.360 and, like, would you expect him to intervene on your behalf?

03:12:02.680 Yeah.

03:12:03.120 So just to be clear, you want a man on a first date

03:12:05.700 to potentially put his life on the line for you,

03:12:08.040 but I can't expect a girl to do laundry on a first date?

03:12:10.840 On the first date?

03:12:11.900 Fuck yeah, on the first date.

03:12:13.200 Because if somebody took me to their house

03:12:15.180 and had me do laundry for them on a first date,

03:12:17.580 that's a little wild.

03:12:19.840 Oh, yeah.

03:12:20.440 That's what I do.

03:12:22.960 Yeah.

03:12:23.780 That's your first date?

03:12:24.860 You're like, all right, we're going to go to the house,

03:12:26.260 and you're going to show me what you do for me.

03:12:27.340 Well, I'll be a gentleman,

03:12:28.840 so I'll have already put it in the wash.

03:12:31.620 She gets to transfer it.

03:12:32.340 She needs to dry it?

03:12:33.240 She gets to dry it.

03:12:33.720 What?

03:12:34.080 Is this, like, a test?

03:12:35.180 Dry and fold.

03:12:36.140 Do you just bring her over?

03:12:36.840 She has to fold.

03:12:37.920 Do you just bring her over,

03:12:38.780 and if she does it on her own,

03:12:39.800 then you're like, that's white human material.

03:12:41.700 If I'm feeling very generous, I'll put it in the dryer,

03:12:43.200 but she has to fold the shit.

03:12:44.840 You don't like folding?

03:12:45.500 I fold the laundry.

03:12:46.500 I'm not a folder.

03:12:47.340 I don't like to fold.

03:12:48.120 Does she have to fold it a certain way?

03:12:49.880 I don't like doing dishes, though.

03:12:50.020 I don't care.

03:12:50.300 She can do it however she wants.

03:12:52.240 They tend to be good added.

03:12:55.240 Okay.

03:12:55.720 Well, why is that objectionable?

03:12:57.180 I just feel like...

03:12:57.700 Why is it...

03:12:58.200 Hold on.

03:12:58.520 Here's what I don't understand.

03:12:59.900 You women want men to literally die for you.

03:13:02.940 Yeah.

03:13:03.760 But I can't expect my girl to fold laundry.

03:13:07.220 No.

03:13:08.120 No.

03:13:08.660 But on the first date...

03:13:10.040 I'll fold some laundry, but not on a first date.

03:13:12.500 That's crazy.

03:13:13.440 That's actually a red flag.

03:13:15.280 How is that red flag?

03:13:16.620 Because if a person...

03:13:18.120 Why is that red flag?

03:13:18.760 Because if a guy's going to fight for you,

03:13:20.280 that's a circumstantial thing that happens.

03:13:22.920 It's not like...

03:13:23.400 I'm not taking my first date to a fucking fight club

03:13:25.680 and being like, all right,

03:13:27.160 show if you can fight for me.

03:13:30.080 I don't know.

03:13:30.720 It can happen, but it's like...

03:13:32.440 But you would have the expectation

03:13:33.760 that if it did happen,

03:13:35.320 he would intervene in some capacity.

03:13:37.080 That's just like defending someone.

03:13:38.620 Yeah.

03:13:38.800 I would fight for someone who was smaller than me

03:13:42.460 and I wouldn't have to know that.

03:13:43.460 Really?

03:13:43.800 I've stepped into a lot of things.

03:13:45.300 Wait.

03:13:45.500 Do you guys go out and party?

03:13:46.480 You guys go out and been to parties?

03:13:48.300 Yeah.

03:13:48.660 Have you ever seen a fight breakout?

03:13:50.040 Yeah.

03:13:50.280 Yeah, you guys stepping in to break it up?

03:13:52.240 Be honest.

03:13:52.780 Well, not when it's two guys.

03:13:53.900 Not when it's two guys.

03:13:53.980 What am I going to do?

03:13:55.140 Oh, okay.

03:13:56.520 Oh.

03:13:57.000 Yeah, but if a guy's coming up to me

03:13:58.980 and my boyfriend, per se,

03:14:00.280 I would expect that he goes after the guy, too.

03:14:03.620 Because what am I going to do?

03:14:05.580 Right.

03:14:05.880 So the expectation is on the man.

03:14:07.720 Yeah, exactly.

03:14:08.620 Yeah.

03:14:09.000 But it's so circumstantial.

03:14:09.540 If two girls are fighting,

03:14:10.660 well, that's easier for you.

03:14:12.480 The expectation,

03:14:13.640 if I got laundry in the dryer on a first date.

03:14:16.920 Oh, God.

03:14:17.680 I just.

03:14:18.080 Fold that shit up.

03:14:20.200 Fold it up.

03:14:21.560 I can just imagine Brian in the corner going,

03:14:23.700 oh, that's so hot.

03:14:24.920 And she's just like.

03:14:26.180 Folding the laundry.

03:14:27.360 It is hot.

03:14:28.180 It is pretty hot.

03:14:28.860 Look, my love language is acts of service.

03:14:31.760 Oh, okay.

03:14:32.480 Acts of service.

03:14:33.280 If you do shit for me, you got me.

03:14:35.560 You got me.

03:14:36.400 Like paying for things?

03:14:37.340 Like materialistic things?

03:14:38.380 Or like folding laundry, doing dishes?

03:14:40.380 No, like the kitchen is dirty

03:14:41.400 and you just go.

03:14:42.220 Oh, she starts cleaning the shit.

03:14:43.460 I'm like, God damn, this woman's amazing.

03:14:46.040 Hmm.

03:14:46.740 Okay.

03:14:47.160 And girls go with that?

03:14:48.160 Like you're like, fold my laundry

03:14:49.220 and they're like, okay, yes.

03:14:50.360 Yes.

03:14:50.920 Really?

03:14:51.360 They do.

03:14:51.900 Okay.

03:14:52.240 Really.

03:14:52.480 They're not feminists.

03:14:53.560 Do you leave dishes out on purpose?

03:14:54.780 You don't have to be a feminist.

03:14:55.780 You don't want to hold some fucking laundry.

03:14:59.340 I don't know.

03:14:59.780 I wouldn't.

03:15:00.140 I don't think that's feminist.

03:15:01.320 I wouldn't expect a guy to fight for me on a first date.

03:15:04.260 Like I wouldn't expect to throw him into a Thunderdome

03:15:06.320 and be like, this is the first date,

03:15:08.140 the first test.

03:15:09.660 I feel like that's kind of wild.

03:15:10.480 I wouldn't say that, but like if he acted like a coward

03:15:14.380 in some sort of situation,

03:15:15.800 assuming this hypothetical,

03:15:18.300 there was a situation that called for intervention physically

03:15:21.660 and he cowered,

03:15:23.300 there probably wouldn't be a second date.

03:15:24.680 You'd be like, this guy's numb.

03:15:26.000 While I agree with you, I think.

03:15:28.160 Wait, wait, wait.

03:15:28.860 Answer the question.

03:15:29.700 Would you get the ick?

03:15:30.480 If a guy cowered, yes, I would get the ick.

03:15:33.380 But however, I don't think both of those things

03:15:35.960 are equal to each other.

03:15:37.280 This would get the ick.

03:15:38.760 Yeah, but I don't think those things are equal to each other.

03:15:41.340 They're not.

03:15:42.260 Yeah, you're right.

03:15:43.240 One is like the dude could die.

03:15:44.860 Yeah, you're right.

03:15:45.680 Okay, dying is crazy.

03:15:47.640 Dying?

03:15:48.320 Yes.

03:15:48.800 Dying.

03:15:49.300 That's so extreme.

03:15:50.040 Who says anyone has to die?

03:15:51.600 Why can't it just be a simple like back off?

03:15:53.500 Yeah, sure.

03:15:54.180 It doesn't happen very much.

03:15:55.660 But there's, in the history of dating,

03:15:57.860 has some guy got killed on a first date?

03:16:00.040 Probably, yeah.

03:16:01.080 Probably happened.

03:16:01.680 And you're using that one experience out of like...

03:16:05.380 Oh, yes.

03:16:06.100 Yeah.

03:16:06.580 Oh, yeah.

03:16:07.160 Yeah.

03:16:07.860 Oh, yeah.

03:16:08.660 Pull it out.

03:16:09.160 Got it.

03:16:10.060 But even if it didn't happen,

03:16:11.880 there's still this expectation on the man.

03:16:15.240 Okay.

03:16:16.360 Hypothetically, if you were with a girl on a first date

03:16:18.460 and a guy was like trying to hit on her or whatever

03:16:20.800 and like would not stop and was super persistent,

03:16:22.840 would you say anything or no?

03:16:24.240 Wait, if I was on a date with a girl

03:16:25.440 and another dude was trying to hit on her?

03:16:27.240 Yeah.

03:16:28.340 Like you'd step in?

03:16:29.700 Or is that too violent like for you?

03:16:31.520 What do you mean?

03:16:32.180 Well, you're saying that like...

03:16:33.520 I'd be like, I'd tell the guy to get lost essentially.

03:16:36.180 Yeah.

03:16:36.360 Yeah, that's what we're saying.

03:16:37.880 Like a defending thing.

03:16:39.520 It doesn't have to be life or death.

03:16:40.480 You're like, someone's gonna die.

03:16:42.040 Like what if a guy gets killed?

03:16:43.100 Someone's gonna die today.

03:16:45.040 Do you get what I'm saying?

03:16:45.920 That would be such a like oddly belligerent.

03:16:49.020 I mean, I suppose it happens.

03:16:50.720 That's odd compared to folding laundry.

03:16:52.500 No, it's a, it would be an odd situation

03:16:55.680 for a guy to like, you're on a date with a girl

03:16:58.360 and another dude.

03:16:59.360 It's not that odd.

03:17:00.380 Like steps, steps.

03:17:01.160 I feel like, if you're like getting murdered

03:17:02.860 is kind of more like...

03:17:04.780 Some champagne.

03:17:06.160 Odd.

03:17:06.960 Yeah.

03:17:07.820 Yeah.

03:17:09.600 But so you guys don't like the laundry thing apparently.

03:17:13.960 Well, I don't really care about the laundry.

03:17:15.660 I just think that that's really weird.

03:17:17.060 I would never imagine a guy would ask me on a first date.

03:17:19.280 I just want to do it on a first date.

03:17:20.660 I fold all the laundry.

03:17:21.880 No, you gotta surprise her with it.

03:17:23.460 Like you gotta surprise her with the laundry.

03:17:25.900 You can't be like, come over and do my laundry.

03:17:28.200 It's gotta be like, oh, oh my God.

03:17:30.220 I forgot to fold my clothes.

03:17:31.760 Will you help me?

03:17:33.000 Could you do it for me?

03:17:34.100 Oh.

03:17:35.160 No.

03:17:35.760 Yeah.

03:17:35.940 Could you help me as in you do all the work?

03:17:37.940 Yeah.

03:17:38.200 And you just stand there eating, admiring her.

03:17:41.680 Wait, have you ever...

03:17:42.540 No, I wouldn't admire her.

03:17:43.100 I'd go do something else.

03:17:44.120 Oh, then what's the point?

03:17:45.420 I wouldn't even keep her company.

03:17:46.600 I'd just be like, go ahead, do it.

03:17:48.120 Wow.

03:17:49.160 Has a girl actually ever done that on the first date for you?

03:17:51.960 Yes, all the time.

03:17:52.860 Wow.

03:17:53.240 Okay.

03:17:54.160 All the time.

03:17:55.480 All the time.

03:17:56.400 Wow.

03:17:56.560 So, then why aren't you in a relationship then?

03:17:59.340 They're so triggered.

03:18:02.180 No one is triggered.

03:18:05.960 I'm really triggered.

03:18:07.680 You seem a little...

03:18:08.440 It obviously hasn't worked though, because you don't have a relationship.

03:18:11.480 Oh, did I say that?

03:18:13.460 You said you didn't have one.

03:18:15.660 I said I don't talk about it on the show.

03:18:17.840 Oh.

03:18:18.220 Yeah.

03:18:18.660 Because I have stalkers and this sort of thing.

03:18:20.980 Okay.

03:18:21.200 Um, but, uh...

03:18:24.060 Are you single?

03:18:25.700 Bro, did you just...

03:18:26.680 Are you fucking...

03:18:28.820 When I was here last time, you said you were single.

03:18:31.140 I did not say that.

03:18:32.240 Yes, you did.

03:18:32.720 That's literally...

03:18:33.160 Because Andrew said he was married and you said you were single.

03:18:35.840 Bro, rewind the fucking tape.

03:18:37.620 I did not say that.

03:18:38.440 That's what I remember.

03:18:39.360 I don't know.

03:18:39.460 I just don't disclose whether I'm single or not.

03:18:42.640 Why?

03:18:43.520 Are you not fucking listening?

03:18:45.240 I'm fucking stalkers, baby.

03:18:46.540 I'm sorry.

03:18:47.080 I'm sorry.

03:18:47.500 God damn, bro.

03:18:48.420 So, talk about fucking boundaries with these chicks.

03:18:50.820 Holy shit.

03:18:51.300 It even happened to me on your podcast.

03:18:52.620 One of the, uh, the listeners was like, hey, asshole, I checked all your exes and they

03:18:57.680 don't look anything like you said.

03:18:58.860 I was like, you checked all my ex-girlfriends on Instagram?

03:19:01.140 Like, yeah.

03:19:02.240 Like, it gets wild out there.

03:19:04.160 It's wild.

03:19:05.380 It's wild.

03:19:06.240 It's a jungle out there.

03:19:07.300 You gotta be careful.

03:19:08.240 It's wild out there.

03:19:09.540 I don't even think that's a good rebuttal, though.

03:19:11.560 Um, but in any case, what, like, can you actually articulate what's wrong with the

03:19:15.680 vow or the laundry?

03:19:19.300 Back to the vow.

03:19:20.180 I don't know.

03:19:20.600 I just think it's like, like, you just want to assert dominance and, like, have her, like,

03:19:25.600 just do whatever you want.

03:19:26.920 And I just, I don't see what the point of that is.

03:19:29.920 Like, unless it is.

03:19:31.300 What's actually wrong with it?

03:19:32.640 Well, because it sounds like you want a dog, not a partner.

03:19:35.740 Part?

03:19:36.260 Who, who said anything about a partner?

03:19:38.000 Okay, so that's, I want a girlfriend.

03:19:43.460 I don't want a partner.

03:19:44.780 Okay, so.

03:19:46.100 Partner?

03:19:46.880 Partner how?

03:19:48.360 Usually a girlfriend is, like, your other half.

03:19:50.320 Bro, it's so funny to me.

03:19:51.820 And what's funny to me is, you girls hate, like, any sort of inequality in terms of what

03:19:56.600 men desire in women.

03:19:57.960 You literally said, you cannot date a short guy.

03:20:01.420 Right?

03:20:01.800 Didn't you say that?

03:20:02.580 No.

03:20:03.120 I said, I mean, 5'10".

03:20:04.920 I think.

03:20:05.320 What, am I getting gaslit here?

03:20:06.460 Or did she not say gaslit?

03:20:08.340 I don't think 5'10 is a very, like, crazy height.

03:20:13.420 Like, I don't think that's super tall.

03:20:15.460 Like, I think that's kind of lenient with height.

03:20:16.820 But there's, like, an asymmetry in what men and women want.

03:20:21.320 You guys desire traits in men that you yourselves do not possess.

03:20:24.800 Your trait is a bow.

03:20:26.700 My trait is a submissive woman.

03:20:29.380 Even.

03:20:29.640 And this is a litmus test for how submissive she's going to be.

03:20:33.440 If she won't do it on the first date, she ain't going to ever do that shit.

03:20:37.460 It's not true.

03:20:38.120 It's true.

03:20:38.660 Even going back to height as well.

03:20:40.220 I don't think so.

03:20:40.580 It's 6'0 and above.

03:20:42.520 I've read statistics that it's, like, literally 15% of the male population is 6'0 and above.

03:20:47.920 So, if girls are saying, like, they want a guy who's, like, 6'0 tall, 6'5", with a six-pack or whatever.

03:20:52.400 Yeah.

03:20:52.720 That automatically, like, takes it down to, like, the top, like, 3%.

03:20:55.560 Oh, it's probably less.

03:20:57.360 There you go.

03:20:58.100 There you go.

03:20:58.660 So, you know what I mean?

03:20:59.720 And, like...

03:21:00.140 And those guys are in high demand.

03:21:01.680 Yeah.

03:21:02.120 So, like, you know, you have those standards.

03:21:03.820 But then, yeah, a guy says he wants his, like, clothing washed, folded, and iron.

03:21:08.520 And that's just, like, met with such, like, dismay.

03:21:10.300 You know what I mean?

03:21:11.100 No, not even that.

03:21:12.040 It's just on the first date.

03:21:13.140 When I get home...

03:21:13.860 Just the first date.

03:21:14.440 Like, that's just weird.

03:21:15.420 You shouldn't expect that.

03:21:15.840 When I get home, my...

03:21:17.220 You want a guy to pay on the first date.

03:21:19.100 That's pretty normal.

03:21:20.160 That's normal.

03:21:20.900 Have you ever heard of laundry on a first date?

03:21:23.640 Like, there's not a ping.

03:21:25.560 Here's my laundry.

03:21:26.660 Pack and fold it.

03:21:27.580 She's not a thing.

03:21:28.040 It sounds more like a job interview than a date to me.

03:21:30.380 I know.

03:21:30.940 That's what I'm...

03:21:31.440 Yes.

03:21:32.160 I'll tell you what.

03:21:33.120 When I met my girlfriend on our second date, when I went over to her house, we were sitting

03:21:37.740 and watching TV.

03:21:38.460 I put my legs up on a table.

03:21:40.140 She got up, and she picked up a pillow, and she put the pillow, and she picked up my

03:21:44.080 feet, and she put it under the pillow.

03:21:45.720 Okay.

03:21:45.980 You know what I mean?

03:21:46.500 Yeah, that's nice.

03:21:47.000 Just little things like that, you know?

03:21:49.080 Yeah, that's normal.

03:21:49.820 Okay, that's nice that you would...

03:21:51.720 That's not doing your chores.

03:21:53.300 Faith in women.

03:21:53.900 That's nice.

03:21:54.400 Yeah, that's like...

03:21:55.420 I mean, I've never had anyone do my laundry on the first date, but maybe after a few weeks.

03:22:00.880 Yeah.

03:22:01.520 So, I don't care about normal, because what is normal?

03:22:05.640 You're not normal.

03:22:06.740 You're special.

03:22:07.900 Yeah.

03:22:08.320 But that's called, like, welcome to encountering a man who actually has standards and expectations

03:22:14.700 for women, because most of y'all deal with dudes who will just be happy with a crumb of pussy.

03:22:20.800 That's it.

03:22:21.800 And so, it's weird for you to encounter a guy who needs more than just pussy.

03:22:27.020 No, I would say...

03:22:28.340 Once you've had enough pussy, you realize you need a bit more than that.

03:22:32.700 So, maybe the guys you fuck with, you give them some pussy, that's it.

03:22:37.460 They're good little lap dogs, and they'll do fucking everything for you for some pussy.

03:22:42.660 But, but, here's the thing.

03:22:45.280 Here's the thing.

03:22:45.900 I mean, I have much higher expectations for my girlfriend than just having sex with me.

03:22:54.720 Okay.

03:22:55.080 In fact, I'm not even arguing.

03:22:56.760 There's more important.

03:22:57.540 Sex isn't even that important, to be honest.

03:22:58.920 In fact, there's more important things than the sex.

03:23:02.320 Sex, okay, fucking 20, 30 minutes, and then I gotta spend the rest of the next...

03:23:05.940 20, 30 minutes?

03:23:07.700 Oh, is that too short for you?

03:23:08.900 No, no.

03:23:09.760 I was just...

03:23:10.200 Is that your normal time?

03:23:11.180 I was just wondering.

03:23:12.540 Everyone's different, I don't know.

03:23:13.680 It's a five, three-pump Trump over here.

03:23:15.900 30-minute sex is...

03:23:17.460 Oh, sorry, it's too short, the 30 minutes of sex.

03:23:18.900 No, I never said that.

03:23:20.520 You're insinuating that I said that.

03:23:21.360 This girl wants to fuck for three hours.

03:23:23.260 I'm sorry.

03:23:24.180 She wants to be...

03:23:24.920 You don't talk about that shit.

03:23:25.680 What the fuck?

03:23:27.320 I did not say that.

03:23:28.760 Look, round two, round three, I'm with you, but fucking three hours.

03:23:31.860 Look, I'm gonna...

03:23:32.560 30 minutes, I'm good, okay?

03:23:34.420 Look, we can have a bit of foreplay if you want, but okay.

03:23:36.920 All right.

03:23:37.520 I'm speaking in general.

03:23:40.500 Three-pump Trump, I'm gonna use that.

03:23:43.500 You've never heard that.

03:23:44.340 Oh, I'd say pump-pump squirt.

03:23:46.400 Oh my, that's terrible, but change that shit up.

03:23:49.200 Change it up.

03:23:49.820 You've just given me a new one now.

03:23:51.780 But wait, so hold on.

03:23:53.200 Hold on, so okay.

03:23:54.700 Yeah, there's more important things than just sex.

03:23:58.720 Yes, of course.

03:23:59.320 But most men are so desperate that they don't assert any boundaries.

03:24:04.780 That's very true.

03:24:05.700 They don't assert any boundaries or preferences or standards.

03:24:08.800 Yeah.

03:24:09.160 Because most men, in terms of their optionality, they don't have a lot of options.

03:24:13.280 They take what they can get.

03:24:15.680 They're needy.

03:24:16.700 They're desperate.

03:24:17.620 Whatever it is.

03:24:18.620 And it's like, I'm not pressed.

03:24:20.680 Like, you can be in my life.

03:24:22.420 You cannot be in my life.

03:24:23.380 If I don't fuck you, don't give a fuck.

03:24:24.840 Don't care.

03:24:26.040 Don't care.

03:24:27.440 But I have these expectations, a lot more expectations.

03:24:30.840 And I've had fantastic treatment from exes.

03:24:33.740 And so if I'm going to, like, maybe this is kind of like an alpha widow thing.

03:24:37.320 I've had this experience with women who are, like, really thoughtful in terms of what they bring into my life.

03:24:44.340 And, like, then I run into a girl that all she's bringing is sex.

03:24:49.220 You're not going to impress me.

03:24:51.440 So that's why you've got to bring more.

03:24:53.420 I feel like that's pretty normal.

03:24:53.920 Yeah, but I feel like a woman can demonstrate that without just doing your laundry on the first date.

03:24:58.100 Yeah.

03:24:58.520 I'm going back to the laundry thing.

03:24:59.680 I don't understand.

03:25:00.660 Like, you're talking about sex.

03:25:01.700 I was not talking about sex.

03:25:03.240 I was just, like, laundry.

03:25:04.060 Well, okay.

03:25:04.580 So, like, what else?

03:25:06.740 Well, those are just your personal traits when you're, like, oh, I have super high standards.

03:25:09.840 Okay, so how else is a woman going to demonstrate this for me or be appealing?

03:25:13.560 Well, I feel like there's, you can make it 50-50 in the household.

03:25:16.880 Like, my partner does the, like, puts the laundry in the washer and dryer and brings it up.

03:25:21.020 And then I fold it all and I put it all away.

03:25:22.700 Or I hate doing the dishes.

03:25:24.280 He does the dishes.

03:25:25.000 So I clean the bathroom and I clean the living room and I tidy up.

03:25:28.000 Okay, but look.

03:25:29.240 And I know I'm.

03:25:29.500 And that doesn't make him, like, a pussy because he helps out.

03:25:33.040 I feel like that makes him a leader because it, he shows me that he gives a shit about me being comfortable too.

03:25:38.900 Okay, but here's my thought on this.

03:25:41.160 So, I mean, if you guys are working the exact same hours and you have comparable incomes, maybe.

03:25:47.780 But if, like, you're the guy and your girl's got a part-time job and you guys live together and I'm busting my ass working 80 hours a week.

03:25:55.280 Yeah, you're taking care of the household.

03:25:57.180 Absolutely, absolutely.

03:25:57.880 You're taking care of the household.

03:25:59.960 Point blank, period.

03:26:01.440 I agree with that.

03:26:02.400 I'm not working 80 hours a week paying for everything.

03:26:05.140 You got a 20, a part-time job.

03:26:08.020 Okay.

03:26:08.340 And you want me to do 50-50 in the household?

03:26:10.840 Get the, get out of here, bro.

03:26:12.600 What?

03:26:13.300 Well, if you're paying the majority of the bills, then yeah.

03:26:16.420 But I, for example, I work and I do a lot.

03:26:18.620 So my partner does the majority of the housework if he's not.

03:26:20.900 50-50 egalitarian relationship.

03:26:23.700 I don't want an egalitarian relationship.

03:26:26.620 Yeah, but that's because you bring more bread to the table.

03:26:29.520 Sure.

03:26:30.180 That's the only reason.

03:26:31.440 Yeah.

03:26:31.660 If you, if you were not making as much as her, you'd probably be doing 50-50% of the housework.

03:26:37.280 And it's not to mean like I'm going to be a slob.

03:26:39.840 Like I've lived alone.

03:26:41.300 Like I know how to take care of myself.

03:26:43.240 Right.

03:26:44.020 But yeah, that sort of dynamic.

03:26:46.780 So would you, if you weren't the breadwinner, would you expect her to also do all of the housework?

03:26:52.020 Hmm.

03:26:53.040 Yes.

03:26:53.860 That's a good question.

03:26:55.160 Even still.

03:26:56.440 Yes.

03:26:57.120 Because you're still, because a woman, even if we're 50-50,

03:27:00.600 you're still going to look to me to be leaders, excuse me, be a leader in other ways, in other capacities.

03:27:07.560 I'm still going to have to take initiative.

03:27:09.600 I'm still going to have to lead.

03:27:10.740 I'm going to have to put in the front effort when it comes to actually building and developing the relationship.

03:27:14.700 I've got to disagree with you there.

03:27:15.760 If you're a bum-ass man and you're not making much money and you're useless, you know,

03:27:20.600 then you can't really command too much, like from a woman.

03:27:23.900 Or you're not really in the place of like...

03:27:25.380 It's going to be harder.

03:27:26.280 It's going to be a lot harder.

03:27:27.320 It's going to be harder.

03:27:27.560 Yeah.

03:27:28.040 So, you've got to be of value.

03:27:29.880 You know, if you're the breadwinner, if you're making the money, if you own a home or whatever,

03:27:33.360 you have assets to your name, then yeah, it's kind of like the natural progression.

03:27:37.000 But if you don't have those things, then you can't really be asking for the feminine side

03:27:41.880 of a woman to be like washing, folding, ironing.

03:27:44.220 Well, I think so anyway.

03:27:45.160 You know, you've got to bring something to the table as a man.

03:27:47.380 Whether that's providing, whether that's safety, whatever that is, you have to bring something.

03:27:51.780 And then I feel like it's just a natural like inclination for women to submit.

03:27:56.520 But if a guy's a fucking bum and he's got nothing, he's piss broke working at Burger

03:28:00.080 King, then it's going to be hard for a woman to like respect him or bow down to him or wash

03:28:05.240 his clothes or fold his clothes and shit like that, you know?

03:28:07.420 Yeah.

03:28:07.760 I mean, like if my partner is doing 100% of the work, every day, cleaning, cooking, vacuuming,

03:28:15.260 making everything comfortable for him because I want to show him I give a shit about all

03:28:19.460 the hard work he's doing.

03:28:20.280 But if I'm making just as much money as him or if I am working just as hard as him, like

03:28:26.880 I need a break too.

03:28:27.920 And I would need, I would need that to be shown as well.

03:28:30.700 I suppose that's fine.

03:28:31.660 It can be negotiated.

03:28:34.700 Anything I suppose can be negotiated in a relationship.

03:28:38.600 But I mean, we can even take it a bit further.

03:28:44.060 If there's a bump in the night, home intruder breaks in.

03:28:47.840 Are you dealing with it or is he?

03:28:51.080 Even if you guys are 50-50 and do all the chores together.

03:28:54.780 I mean, well, usually men are usually the bigger person.

03:28:57.540 And not even that.

03:28:58.600 Sometimes you've got to look at the chores as well.

03:29:00.320 Like, a woman's not going to, like, go and cut the fucking lawn and, you know, cut their, like...

03:29:05.720 I've mowed the lawn.

03:29:06.980 Really?

03:29:07.200 I love mowing the lawn.

03:29:08.000 That's crazy.

03:29:08.760 Yeah, well.

03:29:09.420 And, like, take the garbage out or mow the lawn in the backyard and do all that kind of stuff.

03:29:14.560 So, like, where a woman's, like, you know, folding clothes or whatever, the guy's, like,

03:29:17.920 fixing the backyard.

03:29:19.280 And that's something that I even see, like, in my parents because they're very traditional.

03:29:22.360 Like, my dad takes care of the whole backyard, takes the garbage out, and my mom's just inside

03:29:26.200 cleaning and cooking and folding clothes and doing all that stuff, you know?

03:29:29.460 So, I think it's also dependent on the jobs because there's, like, you know, there's jobs

03:29:33.260 that men are just better at doing and then there's jobs that women are better at doing.

03:29:37.320 You know?

03:29:37.540 Same, like, with, like, taking care of a baby.

03:29:39.420 As much as a man can take care of a baby, a woman's going to be ten times more nurturing

03:29:43.160 and have that feminine energy.

03:29:44.580 She's going to be able to raise a child or a baby much better than a man could.

03:29:49.220 Hmm.

03:29:50.680 Yeah.

03:29:51.860 Valid.

03:29:52.760 Valid.

03:29:53.140 I do have a few...

03:29:54.180 Oh, we have the other bowel video.

03:29:55.560 Let's do the other bowel video.

03:29:57.300 It's a bowel video...

03:29:58.620 The girls will like this one.

03:30:00.520 I think the girls...

03:30:01.340 You guys will like this video.

03:30:02.620 Is this the opposite?

03:30:03.140 I thought so.

03:30:06.560 All right.

03:30:09.460 All right.

03:30:10.120 So, I love the beginning of this video.

03:30:13.360 This is even better than a bowel.

03:30:15.820 Better than a bowel.

03:30:17.620 Wait, actually, pause.

03:30:18.680 We've got to get her watching this.

03:30:20.320 Start from the beginning.

03:30:21.740 She's got to react to it.

03:30:23.340 She's going to have strong feelings about the beginning of this.

03:30:26.680 So, start it from the...

03:30:28.360 If you can.

03:30:29.200 All right.

03:30:29.620 One more time.

03:30:31.180 All right.

03:30:31.620 This is better.

03:30:32.460 This is more effort from the woman's part.

03:30:34.780 My brain goes straight to porno.

03:30:37.220 All right.

03:30:37.880 Chill out.

03:30:38.580 Chill out.

03:30:38.780 Chill out.

03:30:39.580 All right.

03:30:40.280 This is great.

03:30:41.660 But wait.

03:30:42.700 Uh-uh.

03:30:43.100 Wait.

03:30:43.980 Hold on.

03:30:45.860 Oh, no.

03:30:47.740 Oh, no.

03:30:50.180 Bro, what the...

03:30:51.720 What the fuck?

03:30:54.140 Dude.

03:30:54.760 Dude.

03:30:55.420 No.

03:30:56.120 Okay.

03:30:57.020 Beginning part, I'm on board with it.

03:30:59.420 The end part, not so much.

03:31:03.020 What do you think about that one?

03:31:05.580 That was a pretty good one.

03:31:08.080 Um...

03:31:08.600 I mean, if he's for that, then that's great.

03:31:12.640 If it's...

03:31:13.240 I don't know.

03:31:13.980 Okay.

03:31:14.460 That's...

03:31:15.020 All right.

03:31:16.100 Good for him.

03:31:16.520 Well, that's more of a joke video, but in response to the bowel...

03:31:19.560 So, just really quick.

03:31:21.700 So, when it comes to my bowel thing or the laundry thing, just going around the table,

03:31:25.560 I think some of you guys said the criticism was it's not normal.

03:31:28.680 Yeah, it is a little weird, but...

03:31:33.300 Okay.

03:31:33.320 Sure, sure, sure, sure, sure.

03:31:34.060 Yeah.

03:31:34.560 Yeah?

03:31:35.140 If I was asked, I'd probably do it, but it is weird.

03:31:37.640 It is weird.

03:31:38.260 Okay.

03:31:38.740 No, that's really weird.

03:31:40.080 Really weird?

03:31:40.700 Yeah.

03:31:40.840 Not normal?

03:31:41.440 No.

03:31:41.540 Okay.

03:31:42.260 Yeah, not normal.

03:31:43.380 Not normal?

03:31:44.600 Not normal.

03:31:45.400 Not controlling?

03:31:47.320 Psycho?

03:31:47.720 Red flag?

03:31:48.800 Egotistical?

03:31:49.540 Egotistical?

03:31:50.120 What else?

03:31:50.520 Give us some more...

03:31:51.400 Just wanting the power.

03:31:53.140 The power, power, weird...

03:31:56.120 Synonyms.

03:31:56.580 Weird.

03:31:56.880 Weird power dynamic, sure.

03:31:58.400 Weird, yeah.

03:31:58.760 Okay.

03:31:59.660 Is it not normal, weird?

03:32:01.500 I mean, I get where you're coming from, but as a first date, that's a little...

03:32:04.720 A little awkward, yeah.

03:32:04.900 A little laundry.

03:32:05.700 A little awkward, yeah.

03:32:06.000 Okay, a bit much.

03:32:07.000 Not normal.

03:32:07.880 Yeah.

03:32:08.180 Let me ask you guys a question.

03:32:09.480 Would it be normal, would it be normal if two people, they both really like each other

03:32:17.620 and they want to have a relationship with each other and they end up having...

03:32:23.880 sex on the first night?

03:32:25.760 Is that normal?

03:32:29.820 Um...

03:32:30.220 I feel like, yeah, I mean, they really like each other.

03:32:33.400 I agree with you.

03:32:33.740 I think it's normal.

03:32:34.360 Did they just meet?

03:32:37.280 Well, it's the first date, so yeah, I guess.

03:32:39.400 Is it...

03:32:40.680 Would you agree that that...

03:32:41.960 No one would think that's weird, right?

03:32:44.740 It's normal, but I don't think that's good.

03:32:46.840 Well, you wouldn't do it, but it's normal, right?

03:32:49.240 Yeah.

03:32:49.480 In fact, people who have no intention of even being in a relationship will fuck each other

03:32:53.560 within 30 minutes, right?

03:32:54.700 Yes.

03:32:55.300 Normal?

03:32:56.000 Yes.

03:32:56.460 Okay.

03:32:57.080 Not weird?

03:32:58.060 Okay.

03:32:58.460 I think it's normal.

03:32:59.720 Normal?

03:33:00.620 Yeah.

03:33:01.100 Normal?

03:33:01.980 It's normal.

03:33:02.700 Normal?

03:33:03.360 Unfortunately.

03:33:04.180 Normal.

03:33:04.800 And then, who here has done that?

03:33:07.280 First date?

03:33:08.420 Hooked up with...

03:33:09.300 I have...

03:33:09.640 You gotta test the chemistry right off the bat.

03:33:11.400 First date, second date, had sex?

03:33:13.580 That's...

03:33:14.580 No?

03:33:15.380 No?

03:33:15.720 No?

03:33:16.460 Okay.

03:33:17.460 So, I'm just curious here.

03:33:18.900 So, just to be clear, I've kind of...

03:33:23.460 I feel like I got you guys here a little bit.

03:33:25.780 So, as a guy, I can expect to...

03:33:32.140 Hold on.

03:33:33.380 How do I want to...

03:33:33.960 I want to be as...

03:33:34.700 I know where you are.

03:33:35.000 I want to be...

03:33:35.600 So, as a guy, I can have an expectation to penetrate a woman, be inside her, come on

03:33:45.000 her face.

03:33:46.520 There's some photos of you on Twitter which are fucking degenerate about that.

03:33:50.200 You fucking degenerate.

03:33:52.880 But that's another conversation.

03:33:55.180 So, a girl will desire or want or allow a guy, she will swallow his seed, let him blast

03:34:03.600 on her face or hair or whatever the fuck.

03:34:05.660 I don't do that on the first date.

03:34:06.900 Yeah, I know.

03:34:07.500 Fucking earmuffs.

03:34:08.760 Earmuffs if the thought of oral sex is fucking crazy to you.

03:34:14.720 That's normal.

03:34:15.940 But, if I want a woman to fold my laundry, that's where you draw the line.

03:34:21.480 But she can have my sperm in her belly within 30 minutes of her meeting me.

03:34:28.280 And that's cool.

03:34:29.460 Just to be clear.

03:34:30.340 Just to be clear.

03:34:31.020 She can swallow my seed.

03:34:34.180 No problem.

03:34:35.560 She can get it in her eye.

03:34:36.980 Ah, fuck.

03:34:38.840 Ah, fuck.

03:34:39.900 It's really intense.

03:34:41.580 You're both receiving.

03:34:42.620 Look, I have good aim.

03:34:43.320 He's right, though.

03:34:44.020 I have good aim, okay?

03:34:46.240 That's cool.

03:34:47.380 That's cool.

03:34:49.400 But I want a little wholesome...

03:34:51.300 I want a wholesome moment with this potential future mother of my children and she does my

03:34:56.840 laundry.

03:34:57.300 But you're not even in the room with her.

03:34:58.300 But you're not even there.

03:34:59.020 You just left her.

03:34:59.420 Yeah, you said you were going to leave.

03:35:00.260 Are you hiring a cleaning lady or are you having a girlfriend?

03:35:03.400 Hold on.

03:35:04.120 I am getting the vacuum ready for her because I'm a gentleman.

03:35:09.140 Oh.

03:35:10.140 Yeah, that's right.

03:35:11.660 Yeah.

03:35:12.220 I'm a nice guy.

03:35:13.440 Okay.

03:35:14.420 But that's crazy, son.

03:35:16.140 Like, you won't bow.

03:35:18.460 You won't do the laundry.

03:35:19.800 But you'll suck a dude's dick.

03:35:21.980 What the fuck?

03:35:23.500 Oh, man.

03:35:24.780 It's crazy, bro.

03:35:25.800 That's something that the girl enjoys, too.

03:35:28.020 Nobody likes folding laundry.

03:35:30.100 A girl desires it.

03:35:31.260 You both are seeing.

03:35:31.940 But, I mean, some girls, like, don't get...

03:35:34.600 I mean, look, I'm all with you.

03:35:36.560 Like, a girl can, like, really like sucking a dick, you know?

03:35:38.840 But, like, do you really...

03:35:40.620 Like, you don't really get it, like, any...

03:35:43.240 I mean, you're pleasing your partner, right?

03:35:44.780 Yeah, but I like...

03:35:45.280 Wait, you're pleasing your partner.

03:35:46.020 Whoa, whoa, whoa, wait.

03:35:47.160 You're pleasing your partner?

03:35:48.280 Mm-hmm.

03:35:49.500 If you suck his dick?

03:35:50.580 Are you pleasing your partner?

03:35:51.960 Yeah.

03:35:52.880 Wait, we got it.

03:35:54.800 Yeah, you're pleasing your partner.

03:35:56.880 Huh?

03:35:57.500 Yeah.

03:35:58.640 So, for you, the version of you getting your dick sucked is folding laundry.

03:36:02.340 Hold on, hold on.

03:36:02.840 But would you say that the woman is...

03:36:05.660 She's getting pleasure, why?

03:36:09.020 It's an act of service.

03:36:10.080 Hold on.

03:36:10.400 It is an act of service, yeah.

03:36:11.680 She's getting pleasure by pleasuring her partner.

03:36:15.860 What if she folded your clothes while sucking your dick?

03:36:18.900 He would explode.

03:36:19.740 That's like ultimate bliss.

03:36:21.140 Holy shit.

03:36:22.480 That's a 4D chest.

03:36:23.220 Oh, my God.

03:36:24.880 That is brilliant, sir.

03:36:26.760 Oh, my God.

03:36:27.360 That's actually impressive.

03:36:28.540 I would be impressed not...

03:36:29.880 Some multitasking skills right there.

03:36:32.300 I would be like...

03:36:33.380 The fact that you can focus and fold and suck at the same time.

03:36:35.160 I'm going to totally put this in my OnlyFan notes.

03:36:37.880 Blowjob while laundry.

03:36:40.140 Perfect.

03:36:40.600 Well, that's a good idea.

03:36:42.540 That's...

03:36:43.100 Look.

03:36:43.960 Oh, my God.

03:36:45.180 We're talking about what's weird, what's normal.

03:36:47.360 I just...

03:36:48.500 It's crazy to me that a girl...

03:36:52.820 Like, it's a...

03:36:54.040 You guys think it's a big ask to do laundry, to fold laundry, which takes like fucking five

03:36:59.420 minutes to fold that shit, and then do a bow, which is like three seconds, no effort whatsoever.

03:37:05.320 You let a man come inside?

03:37:08.980 Like, I don't mean to be vulgar, but I'm trying to like...

03:37:11.940 I'm using specific language to like...

03:37:15.320 And people do that all the time.

03:37:17.060 The same girl who won't cook, who won't clean, who won't bow, who won't do your laundry on a first date.

03:37:23.260 She'll fuck you.

03:37:25.200 She'll let you penetrate her, which historically was reserved for marriage.

03:37:30.320 But now, 30 minutes after meeting, you can fuck?

03:37:33.040 Okay.

03:37:33.320 So, like, I don't...

03:37:35.260 I don't...

03:37:37.260 Who cares about what fucking normal is, or weird, you know?

03:37:41.840 Yeah.

03:37:44.500 I think there's standards...

03:37:46.180 Am I wrong?

03:37:46.980 It's just not standard.

03:37:48.220 Am I wrong?

03:37:49.100 Hey, if the date's vibing, though...

03:37:51.000 If the date's vibing, and it's going well, and she does it, cool.

03:37:54.120 But, like, what's a bigger ask?

03:37:58.100 Fold my laundry, or...

03:38:01.220 S the D.

03:38:03.320 Like, what's more effort?

03:38:04.700 S the D.

03:38:05.680 It's not even about...

03:38:06.260 S the D is more effort, right?

03:38:07.520 Effort.

03:38:08.000 It's just, like, demeaning.

03:38:10.080 Like, it's just, like...

03:38:10.880 Wait, so blasting on your face is not demeaning?

03:38:12.820 Is less demeaning than doing his laundry?

03:38:14.420 No, not really.

03:38:14.900 Why do you think my skin looks...

03:38:16.000 These girls...

03:38:16.600 It's crazy.

03:38:17.600 It's demeaning.

03:38:18.520 Skin care.

03:38:19.260 Skin care.

03:38:19.600 Demeaning.

03:38:20.500 Demeaning.

03:38:21.220 I don't know.

03:38:22.060 It's just...

03:38:22.640 I don't know.

03:38:23.540 I see that as demeaning.

03:38:25.100 Do you engage in oral copulation?

03:38:28.920 No comment.

03:38:32.140 Look, sex is great.

03:38:33.220 I'm not trying to, like, shame sex.

03:38:35.180 I'm not shaming the sex.

03:38:36.700 It's just, like...

03:38:37.620 To me, it seems like sex is a way bigger leap or ask than just folding a guy's laundry.

03:38:45.820 So you'd rather have your laundry folded on a first date?

03:38:48.620 Yeah, I want both.

03:38:49.740 Okay.

03:38:51.380 But it's, like...

03:38:53.200 I don't know.

03:38:54.680 It seems like...

03:38:55.500 So what's your perfect first date?

03:38:56.840 Is it just taking the girl home and seeing what domestic things she can do?

03:38:59.980 Or, like...

03:39:00.320 Yeah, it's not a bad idea.

03:39:02.680 Yeah, like laundry.

03:39:03.840 Go to your favorite restaurant and everything you say.

03:39:06.380 Look, I know you guys don't like it because the feminist mind virus has been so heavily implanted.

03:39:11.320 I don't think that's it.

03:39:12.460 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

03:39:13.340 Like, it's been so implanted in you that you can't do anything for a man that, like, falls within the domestic, whatever.

03:39:19.600 That's not true.

03:39:20.320 That's not true.

03:39:20.780 Here's the thing, though.

03:39:21.640 Here's the thing.

03:39:22.520 Is that...

03:39:23.740 I'm pretty sure if you did do these things, I think you would have...

03:39:32.340 The guys would like it a lot more.

03:39:35.520 Well, I'm gonna...

03:39:36.760 Some get scared, though.

03:39:37.680 I'm gonna throw a pin in there.

03:39:38.480 Like, if you go over to a guy's house for the first time and you're like, oh, can I help clean up?

03:39:43.460 I've done that.

03:39:44.000 I have done that.

03:39:44.580 I've done that.

03:39:44.920 I've done all the dishes.

03:39:45.760 Let me ask you a question.

03:39:47.480 Do you think the guy will like you less or more?

03:39:50.060 Yeah, he'll like you more, but...

03:39:51.260 Like you more?

03:39:52.180 I'm not in that relationship with that guy.

03:39:53.800 If I, like, did all of...

03:39:55.040 Well, I did.

03:39:55.840 I think he did.

03:39:56.860 I'm not sure.

03:39:57.240 Is this the guy you're dating right now?

03:39:58.380 No.

03:39:58.800 Oh, okay.

03:39:59.480 Previous guy, then.

03:40:00.180 Yeah.

03:40:00.580 But do you think he would like you less?

03:40:02.500 No.

03:40:03.020 I think he did.

03:40:03.920 I think it was just, like, respectable.

03:40:05.040 It was at his house, so I was, like, using his kitchen, cleaning up, like, doing all

03:40:08.740 that.

03:40:09.260 Okay.

03:40:09.640 Like, I feel like it's normal.

03:40:10.500 And then I, like, I did, like, vacuum and, like, sweep, but that was because, I don't

03:40:14.140 know.

03:40:15.040 That's...

03:40:15.480 Okay.

03:40:15.900 Yeah, good for you.

03:40:16.820 Good job.

03:40:17.520 But, yeah.

03:40:17.980 And you dated him for how long?

03:40:19.220 I...

03:40:19.520 We didn't date.

03:40:20.280 Oh.

03:40:20.880 Yeah.

03:40:21.640 So she got nothing from doing that.

03:40:23.600 No.

03:40:23.860 Yeah, so...

03:40:24.420 No.

03:40:25.120 I just...

03:40:25.860 But what's, like, what...

03:40:28.160 So what if she didn't get anything from it?

03:40:29.680 Yeah.

03:40:30.060 From it?

03:40:30.300 Who cares?

03:40:30.840 I was just trying to be nice, honestly.

03:40:31.840 Like, think about it this way.

03:40:33.300 Think about it this way.

03:40:34.120 Like, is a guy entitled to sex if he pays for a date?

03:40:37.960 No.

03:40:38.440 Right?

03:40:39.000 Yeah.

03:40:39.460 Okay.

03:40:40.080 So it's like, yeah, we put in an effort.

03:40:41.640 It doesn't mean we're entitled or owed.

03:40:43.260 Yeah.

03:40:43.900 He was long distance, so it wouldn't have, like, worked.

03:40:47.280 Mm.

03:40:47.960 So.

03:40:50.420 Food for thought.

03:40:51.840 All right.

03:40:53.120 Cool.

03:40:53.340 So you guys gonna do laundry now, or what?

03:40:55.200 Have I convinced you right now?

03:40:56.380 Yes.

03:40:57.300 Yes?

03:40:57.660 Oh, yes.

03:40:58.700 I'm gonna do so much laundry.

03:40:59.940 I'm just saying, just try it once.

03:41:04.660 With who?

03:41:05.520 I'm just gonna start doing his laundry, like, randomly.

03:41:08.360 Like, hey, can I do your laundry for you tonight?

03:41:10.140 Try it.

03:41:10.440 He's gonna be like, oh my god.

03:41:11.500 Try it.

03:41:11.880 Yeah.

03:41:12.780 I mean, this applies more if you're, like, single.

03:41:14.880 I guarantee he will say no.

03:41:16.260 He will be like, can we just, like, hang out?

03:41:18.780 I think it would work more.

03:41:19.960 Yeah.

03:41:20.560 See, my thing with laundry is I fuck everything up in the washers, so...

03:41:23.700 I believe that.

03:41:24.740 Yeah.

03:41:25.820 The guy's gotta do that part.

03:41:27.180 I'll fold it, though.

03:41:29.100 Let's get into...

03:41:30.500 We have a question here from Stifler.

03:41:34.020 Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

03:41:38.040 Starting with you.

03:41:38.940 Go ahead.

03:41:39.440 Okay.

03:41:43.060 I would say...

03:41:44.440 Can you scoot the mic a little closer?

03:41:46.660 Yeah.

03:41:47.020 Straighten it up.

03:41:47.560 There you go.

03:41:48.140 I would say I'm...

03:41:49.080 I know I'm pretty attractive.

03:41:50.500 So I would say they're a 9, because there's always room for improvement with anything.

03:41:53.820 So...

03:41:54.980 All right.

03:41:56.240 9.

03:41:56.740 What about you?

03:41:58.220 Probably 6.

03:41:59.860 Okay.

03:42:00.380 What about you?

03:42:01.200 I would also say 6.

03:42:02.980 All right.

03:42:03.500 What about you?

03:42:04.260 Probably, like, a 7.

03:42:05.500 All right.

03:42:06.980 Yeah, like, 6 or 7.

03:42:09.200 Okay.

03:42:09.980 Like, a 5 and a half, 6.

03:42:11.940 All right.

03:42:12.660 What about you?

03:42:13.180 A 4.

03:42:13.940 4.

03:42:15.040 What about you?

03:42:16.000 I'd say 7.

03:42:17.340 7.

03:42:17.840 I give myself a 5.

03:42:20.660 All right.

03:42:22.340 Okay.

03:42:22.900 So, number 9 here.

03:42:24.920 Number 9.

03:42:34.540 9?

03:42:35.820 Are you asking that as, like, do I really think I'm a 9?

03:42:38.480 Yeah.

03:42:39.140 Yeah.

03:42:39.380 Um, I think I'm a 9 just because I've been subjectively told that I'm very pretty.

03:42:47.060 So...

03:42:47.620 By who?

03:42:48.300 Your OnlyFans viewers?

03:42:49.680 Yeah.

03:42:50.100 And, like, online and stuff.

03:42:51.800 On the street.

03:42:52.800 People stare at me all the time.

03:42:54.740 Um, so I've just, I've, you know, objectively, I feel like people say I'm pretty.

03:43:02.660 And so I'm being honest.

03:43:03.820 Like, I think I am pretty, subjectively.

03:43:06.460 Could you be a pretty 6 or 7?

03:43:09.040 Absolutely.

03:43:09.240 Not you.

03:43:09.720 I mean, like, you could still be pretty and be a 6 or a 7.

03:43:13.940 Yeah.

03:43:14.260 I think it all comes to preference.

03:43:15.780 I mean, there's some people that probably think I'm totally ugly and that's totally fine.

03:43:18.900 But I think the majority of people think I'm pretty attractive.

03:43:22.340 And then, um, would you agree with me that women who are 9s, uh, these are, like, supermodels, typically?

03:43:30.640 Or are those 10s?

03:43:31.920 I would say those are 10s.

03:43:32.880 Those are 10s.

03:43:33.440 Okay, so you're just, like, you're one down from.

03:43:37.100 Yeah.

03:43:37.720 I take good care of my body.

03:43:39.140 I work out.

03:43:39.800 I was actually thinking of joining a fitness competition.

03:43:43.480 Um, you know, I lift and I take really good care of my skin.

03:43:48.800 I, you know, I take good care of my health and my hygiene.

03:43:52.320 And I feel like that plays a huge part.

03:43:55.160 So.

03:43:56.300 And do you think there were other women here at the table who gave their response?

03:44:00.500 Uh, you ranked yourself the most attractive woman at the table.

03:44:03.820 Perhaps you disagree with some of the other women's rankings.

03:44:06.840 Maybe you think they rank themselves too low.

03:44:09.240 But given what you've heard from the table, do you agree with the assessment of the table?

03:44:13.860 Do you think you're the most attractive woman here?

03:44:15.560 No, I, well, you guys are so young, you haven't even grown into yourselves yet.

03:44:22.600 Like, you're going to be.

03:44:23.420 Wait, are you saying they're, what are you trying to say, bro?

03:44:26.480 They're going to be smoking hot in 20 years.

03:44:28.960 Wait, you're going to be?

03:44:29.640 So you're just talking shit?

03:44:30.820 You're saying they're ugly, bro?

03:44:31.900 No, they're not ugly.

03:44:32.740 What the fuck?

03:44:33.400 They're babies.

03:44:34.340 They're little ladies, you know?

03:44:36.340 Damn, you guys should be pissed off at what you're saying.

03:44:38.280 I'm not looking at them in that kind of way.

03:44:41.040 They're, like, they're little.

03:44:42.740 They're growing into themselves.

03:44:43.720 Like, I don't find you guys sexually attractive because, like, you're babies.

03:44:49.520 I don't date people younger than, like.

03:44:52.600 Wait, oh, are you bi?

03:44:53.340 Is that?

03:44:54.060 Yeah, I'm bi.

03:44:54.540 Oh, that's right.

03:44:55.340 Okay.

03:44:56.040 Yeah.

03:44:56.500 Okay.

03:44:57.020 And it's not because they're not pretty.

03:44:58.500 It's just because they're little.

03:45:00.260 They're just little ladies.

03:45:03.660 Wait, when you say little, you mean, like.

03:45:05.680 They're all in their teens.

03:45:07.240 They're still growing up.

03:45:08.540 Like, I don't know.

03:45:10.520 You mean adults?

03:45:11.260 Yeah, well, I mean, they're adults.

03:45:14.700 But, I mean, if you have teens still in your name, you're just still a baby.

03:45:18.980 I don't know.

03:45:19.360 This is a little disingenuous, though, because you can.

03:45:21.480 There's 19.

03:45:22.720 Uh-huh.

03:45:23.180 And then there's 13.

03:45:25.480 These are totally different.

03:45:27.880 Yeah, but, like, would you guys consider, the older people here, that when you were 18, that your mentality is way different?

03:45:37.720 That you were like, I was, you know, still growing into myself.

03:45:42.140 Oh, sure.

03:45:42.820 Yeah.

03:45:43.000 You're still.

03:45:43.700 Yeah.

03:45:43.980 Yeah.

03:45:44.320 I was an idiot.

03:45:45.040 I was a loser.

03:45:45.800 I was an idiot.

03:45:46.660 I was, like, non-desirable.

03:45:49.360 I was in great shape.

03:45:50.900 But I was an idiot.

03:45:52.020 Yeah.

03:45:52.260 Could you imagine if, like, you gave the younger version of yourself, like, the access to the resources and the money and the political capital you have now?

03:46:01.120 Like, imagine your ego would just be on fire, right?

03:46:04.400 I'd be, like, if you could.

03:46:05.420 And I was not super gorgeous when I was 18.

03:46:08.540 I don't think I got hot until I was, like, 26.

03:46:12.260 Completely honest.

03:46:13.080 So, wait, you were just, like, mid?

03:46:15.380 I was hella mid, I think, until I was in my late 20s.

03:46:18.060 And then 26.

03:46:19.120 Yeah.

03:46:19.860 Prefrontal cortex develops.

03:46:22.040 Boom.

03:46:22.640 Yeah.

03:46:23.160 But what was the question?

03:46:23.740 Babes at Brian and I?

03:46:24.940 Like, did you guys, would you guys rank yourself hotter now as you're older or when you were younger?

03:46:29.440 I was more attractive when I was younger.

03:46:31.000 You reckon?

03:46:31.940 I think I'm more attractive now.

03:46:33.460 See?

03:46:33.980 Yeah.

03:46:34.380 I look like a skinny little rock.

03:46:35.060 Yeah.

03:46:35.220 Looks-wise, actually, honestly, personality-wise.

03:46:40.660 And there you go for the chat.

03:46:41.860 Yo, put that shit away, bro.

03:46:43.860 Put that fucking shit away.

03:46:45.460 So, they were, like, roll up your stomach and see a fitness comp.

03:46:48.540 And I'm, like, okay.

03:46:49.460 There you go.

03:46:50.820 18, I'd-

03:46:51.900 Yeah.

03:46:52.300 I was better looking.

03:46:53.720 And honestly, I think I was-

03:46:55.960 I mean, I've-

03:46:57.380 In some dimensions, I've-

03:47:00.900 Personality-wise, maybe I've improved.

03:47:03.600 I actually think-

03:47:04.480 No.

03:47:05.200 Go on, go on, go.

03:47:06.200 Here we go.

03:47:06.780 Look, I'm just-

03:47:07.460 I'm super honest with myself.

03:47:08.960 Go, go, go.

03:47:09.520 I think I'm maybe funnier now, but I'm way more jaded.

03:47:15.200 Yeah.

03:47:15.420 Way more jaded.

03:47:16.200 That comes with age.

03:47:17.020 Way more jaded.

03:47:18.140 Like, I was a golden retriever when I was 18, 19.

03:47:22.360 But, yeah, now, I've been through shit.

03:47:25.280 Yeah.

03:47:25.860 Yeah.

03:47:26.320 And not saying you guys aren't adults.

03:47:28.060 I was saying, like-

03:47:29.760 When I was 19, did a girl have to bow to me?

03:47:32.080 No.

03:47:33.040 Did you have to do my laundry?

03:47:34.560 No.

03:47:35.180 Because you wanted that pussy.

03:47:38.280 Oh, she got him.

03:47:40.540 Well, you know, I cared about more than just pussy.

03:47:44.880 I didn't.

03:47:45.580 But I didn't-

03:47:46.260 No, I didn't know how to have-

03:47:47.380 Like, when you're young as a guy, and mind you, this was a long time ago.

03:47:50.420 So, when you're young, you don't have, it's harder for you to have boundaries and standards

03:47:58.200 and preferences.

03:47:59.740 Like, you're a little more, you have less relationship experience.

03:48:03.880 So, it's harder for you, at least from the guy's perspective, when you're a bit more naive

03:48:08.300 to be able to lead and to be able to be assertive and assert yourself.

03:48:13.560 I'm much more assertive now.

03:48:14.980 Yeah.

03:48:15.640 Than when I-

03:48:16.380 You know what you like.

03:48:17.480 Sure.

03:48:17.840 You've been through it.

03:48:18.440 I was very bad at being assertive at 18.

03:48:20.200 When I was 18, if a girl would, like, leave, I'd be like, no, come back.

03:48:23.880 I honestly would have been the perfect moment for you when I was 18, because I would come

03:48:27.460 over to the guy's house, and I would do all of his dishes, and I would vacuum, and

03:48:32.400 I would sweep, and I would do all the things.

03:48:35.700 All the news.

03:48:36.840 When did you start sex work?

03:48:39.260 28.

03:48:40.000 Oh, wait.

03:48:41.100 28?

03:48:41.660 Mm-hmm.

03:48:41.840 How long have you been a stripper?

03:48:43.360 Three years.

03:48:44.760 Oh.

03:48:46.200 Okay.

03:48:46.940 Yeah.

03:48:47.480 I didn't start.

03:48:48.200 I was late to the game, but I didn't start very young at all.

03:48:53.760 How tall are you?

03:48:54.520 5'9".

03:48:55.080 Yeah, you're too tall.

03:48:55.980 Sorry.

03:48:58.020 Even then, at 18, I only date four.

03:49:00.800 If the height doesn't start with, like, 4'11", it's just-

03:49:03.780 Just kidding.

03:49:04.800 I'll date any-

03:49:05.640 You know what?

03:49:06.240 I don't know.

03:49:07.340 Would you date a girl taller than you?

03:49:09.020 Because I would have no problem with it.

03:49:10.580 I'll date a 6'5 girl.

03:49:12.660 Yeah, I think-

03:49:13.280 Sign me up.

03:49:13.980 I'd be open to it.

03:49:14.760 Like, if she was chill and cool and compatible, yeah.

03:49:16.800 Yeah.

03:49:16.900 For sure.

03:49:17.400 Yeah.

03:49:17.700 Okay.

03:49:18.300 It'd be good.

03:49:19.060 Okay.

03:49:19.280 I wouldn't bother.

03:49:20.660 Yeah.

03:49:21.900 What were we talking about?

03:49:23.260 Yeah.

03:49:24.400 Something about 18-year-olds and what we were like at 18 versus what these guys were like

03:49:29.620 at 18.

03:49:30.120 Like, do you guys feel like you're prettier now or when you were younger?

03:49:34.300 Well, I have a question for that.

03:49:36.200 So, here, I'll ask the question, and we'll go around the panel on this.

03:49:39.120 So, do you- I'll go both directions with it, but to start, do you think you'll be better

03:49:45.800 looking, so better looking looks, in 10 years' time?

03:49:49.180 From looking at my mom, I'll be pretty- my mom's gorgeous, but I'm saying conventionally

03:49:55.660 hot until I'm 55.

03:49:57.120 I'm going to leave this up.

03:49:59.000 All right.

03:49:59.800 Sorry.

03:50:00.080 Go ahead and repeat that, please.

03:50:01.500 I'm saying I'll probably be conventionally hot until I'm 55.

03:50:06.160 Just going off of my own family genetics.

03:50:09.580 You'll be hot until 55.

03:50:11.800 Okay.

03:50:12.540 But so, the question is, though, is will you be better looking?

03:50:16.580 So, you're 32.

03:50:18.160 Yeah.

03:50:18.540 I think I will continue to grow on myself.

03:50:24.700 I think- but who knows?

03:50:26.120 Like, I might- you know, this might be the hill that I die on.

03:50:28.960 So, you're 32, will you be better looking at 42 in 10 years' time?

03:50:33.040 Yeah, I think so.

03:50:33.740 And then, 20 years' time at 52?

03:50:38.260 I don't know.

03:50:39.000 Maybe.

03:50:39.520 I think, yeah.

03:50:40.160 You know, I think I'd still be pretty cute.

03:50:43.460 Take good care of your skin, fitness.

03:50:45.900 People can be- still be attractive when they're older, but the question is, like, as a comparison.

03:50:51.940 So, 20 years' time, better looking at 32.

03:50:55.140 Or, sorry.

03:50:55.660 At 42?

03:50:56.480 At 52.

03:50:57.580 52?

03:50:57.860 Oh, no, I would- I would be hotter at 32.

03:51:00.440 And then, what about better- 42?

03:51:02.260 42.

03:51:03.240 Better looking at 42 than now at 32?

03:51:05.080 Yeah, I think I'll still be better looking at 42.

03:51:06.960 Okay.

03:51:07.240 And then, going backwards 10 years ago, we're better looking at 22 versus now at 32?

03:51:13.100 No.

03:51:13.180 Mm-mm.

03:51:13.540 Better looking now.

03:51:14.460 Better looking now.

03:51:15.300 At 32?

03:51:16.000 At 32.

03:51:16.620 Than at 22?

03:51:17.960 Yeah.

03:51:18.380 Okay.

03:51:19.080 Do you have any photos that we can compare?

03:51:20.820 Yeah.

03:51:21.280 Can I grab my phone?

03:51:22.960 Yeah, sure.

03:51:23.640 I'll move on to the next person, so.

03:51:25.160 I think I'd be better looking, because I'd have more time to invest in myself.

03:51:29.940 Better looking in 10 years' time?

03:51:31.540 Yeah.

03:51:31.700 Okay.

03:51:32.320 So, at 28, you're 18 now?

03:51:34.780 Yeah.

03:51:35.960 More time to invest in yourself in what way?

03:51:38.820 I have more resources to, like, I'm going to have more freedom, more time, like, work out,

03:51:44.080 eat healthier, like, do better stuff, better skincare.

03:51:47.280 I'll have more money.

03:51:47.920 I'll have more experience in life, and I'll be able to go higher.

03:51:52.420 20 years' time at 38?

03:51:55.520 I say yes.

03:51:56.900 Okay.

03:51:57.300 30 years' time at 48?

03:51:59.900 I don't know.

03:52:01.340 I don't think so, no.

03:52:02.620 Okay.

03:52:02.920 So, 38, better looking than now at 18.

03:52:05.840 28, better looking now than at 18.

03:52:08.460 Mm-hmm.

03:52:08.760 Okay.

03:52:09.460 And then you're 18, better looking in 10 years' time?

03:52:12.020 Oh, probably.

03:52:13.180 Hopefully.

03:52:13.500 Probably at 28.

03:52:14.380 20 years' time at 38?

03:52:15.640 Uh, I would want to have kids by then, so, probably not.

03:52:22.400 I think Prime will be, like, 25 to 30.

03:52:26.500 That will be my best time in my head.

03:52:28.860 Okay.

03:52:29.600 And then, what about you?

03:52:31.180 You're 18, better looking in 10 years' time at 28?

03:52:34.720 Mm-hmm.

03:52:36.240 Yeah.

03:52:37.180 Hopefully.

03:52:37.840 Okay.

03:52:38.140 20 years' time at 38?

03:52:41.960 Probably not.

03:52:42.880 Okay.

03:52:43.140 You're 18, better looking in 10 years' time at 28?

03:52:46.440 Yeah.

03:52:47.200 And then, better looking in 20 years' time at 38?

03:52:51.020 Probably not.

03:52:51.900 Okay.

03:52:52.220 And then, you're 37, better looking in 10 years' time at 47?

03:52:57.500 No.

03:52:58.260 And then, you're 37, better looking at 27?

03:53:01.560 I would say no.

03:53:02.520 I was heavier back then.

03:53:04.220 Okay.

03:53:04.820 And then, better looking at 18 versus now?

03:53:08.980 Yes.

03:53:09.980 Better looking at 18?

03:53:11.040 Yeah.

03:53:11.320 Yeah.

03:53:12.200 Had you not been heavier at 27, would you have been better looking?

03:53:15.240 Probably, yeah.

03:53:15.920 Yeah.

03:53:16.120 Okay.

03:53:17.380 33, better looking at 10 years' time at 43?

03:53:21.020 Yes.

03:53:23.000 Better, okay.

03:53:23.600 Yeah.

03:53:23.880 And then, 20 years' time, 53?

03:53:26.520 No.

03:53:27.360 And then, going backwards, were you better looking at 23 than you are now at 33?

03:53:31.940 Yes.

03:53:32.260 I had a lot of recent weight gain, so.

03:53:34.200 So, you're better looking at 23?

03:53:35.440 Yes.

03:53:35.680 Okay.

03:53:36.320 But, you will be better looking at 43 versus now at 33?

03:53:39.140 Yeah.

03:53:39.340 I'm working on losing the weight, so.

03:53:41.220 I see.

03:53:41.860 Okay.

03:53:42.760 By the way, we're going to do, keep an eye on the Discord, because maybe they did the

03:53:46.060 age increase.

03:53:47.060 Oh, God.

03:53:48.300 Thank you, my bobber.

03:53:51.160 What about you?

03:53:51.940 Better looking in 10 years' time?

03:53:53.380 I don't think so, no.

03:53:55.200 It'll be 15.

03:53:55.900 And then, you're 38 now.

03:54:00.140 Were you better looking 10 years ago, or better looking now?

03:54:02.720 I think now.

03:54:03.380 Now?

03:54:03.540 Hitting my prime, yeah.

03:54:04.520 And then, Liam, better looking now, or 10 years ago?

03:54:06.660 Oh, way better now, for sure.

03:54:07.580 And then, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time, or better looking now?

03:54:12.400 I think I've probably peaked.

03:54:13.960 Like, I'm at peak looks right now, so.

03:54:16.420 Okay.

03:54:16.780 It's going to enjoy it while it lasts.

03:54:18.260 Yeah.

03:54:19.020 But have you seen that guy, Zeus?

03:54:20.380 He's got the open shirt, he's got the Lamborghini, he lives in, like, Monaco.

03:54:24.300 The older tattooed guy?

03:54:25.360 Yes, no, like.

03:54:26.160 Not tattooed.

03:54:26.700 He's got the gray beard, and he wears slippers, and he's, yeah.

03:54:29.580 Yeah.

03:54:29.880 See, he's probably 60.

03:54:31.020 That's a good look for a 60-year-old man.

03:54:33.240 Yeah, look, people, when they're older, can be attractive, but.

03:54:36.460 It's a coin toss, but I think I'm at the peak.

03:54:38.460 Yeah, keep an eye on the Discord for me, okay?

03:54:40.340 What are they doing, huh?

03:54:41.660 We're just seeing if anybody submits the aging forward, aging backward thing.

03:54:46.920 Let's see here.

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03:56:09.100 Before I get into the rest of the pre-show notes, does anybody have any disagreements with anything?

03:56:14.340 Like, maybe you've seen the show before, or you disagree on a topic that we haven't already talked about,

03:56:18.700 or there's something you heard earlier on in the show that you disagree about?

03:56:22.920 Anything?

03:56:24.040 Anybody?

03:56:26.300 Good opportunity to get a word in.

03:56:35.000 Oh, wait.

03:56:36.860 No, I have one.

03:56:38.480 Yep.

03:56:39.440 Probably the girl who was like, I don't like to wake up.

03:56:43.920 I don't think girls should wear makeup.

03:56:45.640 Oh, okay.

03:56:46.480 Yeah, that was a trigger.

03:56:47.740 That was just weird.

03:56:48.500 Why?

03:56:49.180 Well, first, I felt like she was already wearing makeup, so I was confused.

03:56:53.300 Sure.

03:56:53.980 And then I also just feel like she kind of just said that to, like, I don't know, get views or something.

03:56:59.440 I felt like it was very, like, oh, yeah, don't wear makeup.

03:57:02.400 Like, I feel like people can do what they want.

03:57:03.860 If she doesn't like it, I don't know why she had to, like, basically shame everyone else for it.

03:57:08.560 Like, women who wear it.

03:57:10.400 Are there any things that guys do that you guys don't like?

03:57:14.880 Like, in terms of how they dress or flip-flops, sandals?

03:57:17.180 I don't like skinny jeans.

03:57:19.440 Oh, but why should you say that?

03:57:23.460 Well, that's just my preference.

03:57:25.500 A guy probably doesn't like what I wear sometimes.

03:57:27.700 That's just, like, what they don't like.

03:57:29.240 Like, that's like, are they actually?

03:57:30.760 Oh, God.

03:57:31.200 I'm so sorry.

03:57:33.780 Are you willing to come on here to be personally attacked?

03:57:36.740 No, it's not like I hate them.

03:57:39.060 I just, like, I like the more, like, baggier look.

03:57:41.640 Not, like, skater boy baggy.

03:57:43.180 I feel like that's more, like, American style.

03:57:44.900 They wear the baggier jeans.

03:57:46.220 Yeah, it's probably different style.

03:57:47.080 Aussies wear, like, the tighted jeans and stuff.

03:57:49.140 Yeah.

03:57:49.720 There's no hate.

03:57:51.420 We're joking.

03:57:52.480 We're teasing.

03:57:52.920 We're teasing.

03:57:53.600 Yeah.

03:57:54.300 So, wait, the criticism is she was anti-makeup.

03:57:58.080 I just think her statement was stupid.

03:58:00.380 Why?

03:58:01.140 I just think her opinion on it was dumb.

03:58:03.500 I don't know why she had to, like, come out and openly say she doesn't like makeup.

03:58:06.980 It was just, like, it just seemed weird.

03:58:09.380 I don't know.

03:58:10.120 I didn't like it.

03:58:10.780 Why is it weird?

03:58:11.500 Why didn't you like it?

03:58:13.000 Well, I feel like.

03:58:15.780 Is makeup beyond criticism?

03:58:19.140 No, I think that ever, like, you can do whatever you want with your face.

03:58:22.520 I don't care, but I feel like making it, like, shaming women for wearing makeup and saying that it's unhealthy for people is, like, kind of crazy.

03:58:30.720 Because it's just, like.

03:58:31.880 Well, let's even grant that she was wrong.

03:58:34.580 Let's say it's not unhealthy.

03:58:35.700 Although there's probably arguments that can be made.

03:58:38.180 Yeah, of course.

03:58:38.560 That it's maybe bad for your skin.

03:58:39.780 But let's just grant that it's perfectly.

03:58:41.860 There's no.

03:58:42.500 Well, I know it's bad for your skin.

03:58:43.960 For sure.

03:58:44.480 If you're not, like, doing skincare and taking it off.

03:58:46.920 Like, I get it.

03:58:47.540 You can get acne.

03:58:48.180 But let's just ignore that entirely.

03:58:49.680 What's actually wrong with being, objecting to makeup?

03:58:53.460 I don't know.

03:58:53.860 I just felt like it was pretty hypocritical.

03:58:55.500 If I remember the video correctly, I'm pretty sure she was wearing makeup.

03:58:58.140 Yeah, I think there were.

03:58:59.240 So I was just confused.

03:59:00.520 Like, even just touch-ups at all.

03:59:01.600 What if her position was, so she came on the podcast and she wanted to be presentable when she's being recorded on camera.

03:59:07.540 But in her day-to-day personal life, she didn't wear makeup.

03:59:10.260 Well, then that's fair.

03:59:11.200 But I feel like that doesn't.

03:59:12.620 Yeah, no, that is reasonable.

03:59:13.880 But then.

03:59:14.280 So let's just grant that she's a hypocrite.

03:59:17.260 Mm-hmm.

03:59:19.140 What else in her criticism do you object to?

03:59:23.540 Wait, I got to think about it.

03:59:24.920 Because I've seen it a lot.

03:59:26.340 She thinks it's unhealthy.

03:59:28.260 She was like, it puts on...

03:59:32.200 Oh.

03:59:32.760 Sons of Liberty donated $69.

03:59:35.960 Oh, yeah.

03:59:36.420 Recovering from hurricanes.

03:59:38.720 Beach House was submerged by over four Gulf Ocean.

03:59:42.360 Lost 97% of my belongings.

03:59:45.200 Neighbors died.

03:59:46.320 Dodged tornadoes.

03:59:47.720 Just got power back.

03:59:49.580 Did not see one woman in electric crews.

03:59:54.080 Yo, dude, I hope you're okay, man.

03:59:55.740 Are you in Florida?

03:59:56.680 That's crazy.

03:59:58.640 Hope everything's okay.

04:00:00.180 Hope the recovery's going all right.

04:00:01.820 But thank you.

04:00:02.260 Good to see you in the chat, man.

04:00:03.240 You were saying?

04:00:04.780 About the makeup lady.

04:00:06.840 Oh, she said it puts on...

04:00:09.500 I forget the...

04:00:10.180 I don't want to say the wrong things.

04:00:12.120 But she said that it makes women feel a certain way about themselves.

04:00:15.500 But I forget what it is.

04:00:16.720 It was like some...

04:00:18.660 I don't know.

04:00:19.820 Yeah.

04:00:20.000 But I just remember that vividly from your podcast.

04:00:23.420 And I was like, that is wrong.

04:00:24.400 I believe that that's wrong.

04:00:26.280 What's wrong?

04:00:27.260 I just think that her stance on saying, no, okay, she has an opinion on it.

04:00:31.640 I don't care about her opinion.

04:00:32.560 But she's wearing makeup and she's making it so like, oh, it's unhealthy for women.

04:00:37.420 She said something about the way it makes you perceive yourself or something.

04:00:40.820 It's like it makes some false reality of yourself or something.

04:00:46.120 It makes you think that you're like, well, no.

04:00:49.000 It's just like if you want to put on makeup, put on makeup.

04:00:50.900 If you don't, don't do it.

04:00:52.280 And I don't really care.

04:00:53.400 I'm just saying.

04:00:54.660 If you...

04:00:55.300 Like, I don't know.

04:00:56.260 Well, I don't know how long I want to debate the makeup topic.

04:00:58.480 Yeah.

04:00:58.720 I don't know.

04:00:59.700 On makeup.

04:01:00.440 I'll throw this out, though.

04:01:01.480 I think makeup is the functional equivalent of a man working at McDonald's lying, saying

04:01:07.460 that he's a lawyer.

04:01:09.240 I'm...

04:01:09.800 Okay.

04:01:11.280 Okay.

04:01:11.480 I don't understand.

04:01:12.520 You can see makeup.

04:01:13.200 She doesn't like that one.

04:01:15.180 Like...

04:01:15.780 Wait.

04:01:16.440 What are your thoughts?

04:01:17.640 It's like a lie.

04:01:18.240 Like, you don't really look like how you...

04:01:19.680 Into the...

04:01:20.180 Closer to the mic.

04:01:20.800 Closer to the mic.

04:01:21.540 Oh.

04:01:22.180 I was just saying, like, you don't really look...

04:01:23.560 Like, they're saying you don't look how you present yourself when you're wearing makeup.

04:01:27.480 So that's like saying...

04:01:28.420 How much makeup do you think is too much?

04:01:31.500 What do you mean?

04:01:32.640 Like, if you would look at someone and you're, like, comparing your, like, McDonald's job.

04:01:37.600 Oh.

04:01:38.240 Okay.

04:01:38.620 Well, I mean, I don't know.

04:01:39.380 Are you...

04:01:39.640 I mean, you're going a bit hard with the eyeliner, but...

04:01:42.700 I always wear eyeliner.

04:01:42.960 Are you wearing foundation or any of that shit on your face?

04:01:45.760 I'm wearing concealer, yeah.

04:01:47.100 And I have, like, a pimple that I'm covering up.

04:01:48.960 Okay.

04:01:49.600 I mean, the style of makeup is obviously a factor here.

04:01:53.180 You're going for a bit more of a...

04:01:54.960 I don't know what the look is even called.

04:01:56.940 Alternative.

04:01:57.640 Alternative look.

04:01:58.280 Yeah.

04:01:58.400 So, um...

04:02:00.280 I mean, a little bit of mascara, eyeliner, I don't really care.

04:02:04.920 But if you're putting it on your face and it's going to, like, rub off on me or on my pillows,

04:02:09.860 then it's, like, probably too much, I feel like.

04:02:12.980 Okay.

04:02:13.580 Okay.

04:02:15.080 Pillows matter.

04:02:16.120 I've actually heard that from a lot of guys.

04:02:17.400 Guys actually prefer the more natural look over the cake done makeup.

04:02:21.900 Yeah.

04:02:22.100 They would actually prefer no makeup at all if they had a choice.

04:02:24.960 That's what I've heard from most people.

04:02:25.880 Look, a little eyeliner, mascara, fine, whatever, but...

04:02:29.080 Also, the more makeup you wear when you're older, it makes you look older.

04:02:32.040 Yeah.

04:02:32.200 So you kind of want to tone it back as you get older.

04:02:34.160 Yeah.

04:02:35.220 But, okay, can we...

04:02:36.300 Here, I want to see if I can get an agreement on this.

04:02:40.020 Is makeup deceptive?

04:02:42.500 To bring it to, like, a dating perspective.

04:02:45.040 Is it deceptive?

04:02:46.720 Into the mic.

04:02:47.360 I don't think, like, too much.

04:02:50.320 But, like, I get it when you say, like, oh, cake, dog, like, you probably, like, you could

04:02:53.780 have, like, terrible acne, and then, like, you wear all this foundation, and you set it

04:02:57.160 and everything, and then, like, say you, like, go back to the guy's house, and you take it

04:03:00.300 off, they're probably like, what the fuck?

04:03:02.100 Like, that's deceiving, because you're like, ooh, I did not know that you looked that way.

04:03:06.020 Well, let's...

04:03:06.040 I mean, I agree with you that, like, minimal makeup isn't going to change you super dramatically.

04:03:12.980 Like, you're still going to look how you look.

04:03:14.320 I think it just, like, highlights some features.

04:03:15.800 But, like, if it didn't...

04:03:16.780 If even minimal makeup didn't change your appearance, you wouldn't wear it.

04:03:22.120 Like, if it didn't change how you looked...

04:03:24.940 Yeah, I think it enhances it.

04:03:26.260 I want to say it changes it.

04:03:27.020 You wouldn't wear it, right?

04:03:27.900 So, you wear it to some degree to change something about the way you look.

04:03:32.740 Yeah, I would say.

04:03:33.860 I wouldn't say change, but I would definitely say enhance.

04:03:35.880 Like, mascara, it's like, I would say that that's, like, blackened to make your eyelashes

04:03:39.720 look longer.

04:03:40.840 So, change.

04:03:42.140 Yeah.

04:03:42.380 Well, okay.

04:03:42.740 Well, you have natural eyelashes.

04:03:44.560 Like, you're enhancing it.

04:03:45.420 I'm not like...

04:03:46.060 Well, okay.

04:03:46.460 Change, enhance.

04:03:47.940 We can always use flowery language to try to paint something.

04:03:50.620 No, no, no.

04:03:51.120 That's fine.

04:03:51.460 Or use the marketing spin to make it a bit more digestible.

04:03:56.080 But, when you put on the mascara, do you look identical to how you look without it?

04:04:05.040 No.

04:04:05.440 I don't think I do, no.

04:04:06.700 You might look very similar, but there has been a change, right?

04:04:10.700 Oh, yes.

04:04:11.160 Yes.

04:04:12.060 Okay.

04:04:12.380 So, I don't think we're going to dispute that it changes.

04:04:15.760 We can give it the lawyer spin.

04:04:20.320 No.

04:04:20.680 It's enhancing, but...

04:04:22.080 It's all good.

04:04:23.240 Okay.

04:04:23.800 And then...

04:04:24.720 Oh, what was the other thing?

04:04:26.700 Oh, we've got a video.

04:04:27.680 Let's pull up that video.

04:04:28.460 Oh, the Asian woman with the makeup.

04:04:32.480 Oh, my gosh.

04:04:33.020 Let's pull up that video.

04:04:37.380 Let's get it going.

04:04:39.020 Oh, okay.

04:04:39.680 I don't know what they're talking about.

04:04:41.340 You got to go click, click.

04:04:42.880 Face tape and everything.

04:04:43.940 F11 again.

04:04:46.020 Yep.

04:04:46.220 I'm not like putting shit.

04:04:47.260 Guys, while he's getting that up, if you want, the TTS has been lowered to $69.

04:04:55.600 Also, like the video, guys.

04:04:57.300 Like the video.

04:04:58.600 Drop a thumbs up if you guys are watching.

04:05:01.060 Get us to 2,000 likes if you guys can.

04:05:04.080 Do we have the video ready?

04:05:04.960 Yeah, we're ready.

04:05:05.380 Okay.

04:05:08.580 All right.

04:05:09.320 Go ahead and play it.

04:05:11.760 All right.

04:05:12.560 So, let's...

04:05:14.120 Hold on.

04:05:15.400 Pause it.

04:05:15.700 Pause the video.

04:05:16.160 Pause it.

04:05:16.660 Donated $69.

04:05:18.980 A man tells you that he's 5 feet 11 inches, but you show up on the date and he's really 5 feet 7 inches,

04:05:26.180 but he has those insoles that give him 4 inches.

04:05:29.400 Do you feel deceived?

04:05:30.680 This is actually a really good question because a few of you here at the panel said, like,

04:05:33.820 height is very important to you.

04:05:35.820 So, do you feel deceived going around the table, starting with you?

04:05:39.000 Yes or no?

04:05:41.240 I can probably tell if they were, but...

04:05:43.840 Would you feel deceived?

04:05:47.960 Yeah, I'd probably feel deceived.

04:05:50.820 Go ahead.

04:05:51.680 He blatantly lied.

04:05:53.180 So, yes, of course, I feel deceived.

04:05:54.880 Is wearing makeup blatantly lying?

04:05:57.520 Am I saying I'm not wearing makeup?

04:05:58.780 I'm all natural?

04:05:59.580 No.

04:06:00.880 Well, he's not saying...

04:06:01.880 He's saying he's 5'11 when he's actually 5'7.

04:06:05.300 What if he doesn't say that?

04:06:06.520 Oh, well, does he say it?

04:06:07.600 Sorry.

04:06:08.040 I missed that part.

04:06:09.020 Yeah.

04:06:09.320 Cracker Jack donated $69.

04:06:11.020 Oh, you're right.

04:06:11.600 He does tell you.

04:06:12.800 Sub chest, bruh.

04:06:13.960 You hear miscellaneous is officially gone.

04:06:16.920 RIP is in the chat.

04:06:18.860 We're all going to make it.

04:06:20.520 Good to see you in better spirits, Brian.

04:06:23.480 Thank you.

04:06:23.600 C6 slopes gone sloat.

04:06:25.880 That's a positive thing.

04:06:27.460 C6?

04:06:28.360 Thank you.

04:06:28.840 Yeah, I heard the misc.

04:06:31.660 I think it went down about a week ago.

04:06:33.360 I'm not too sure.

04:06:34.260 I think it was in September.

04:06:35.720 No, really?

04:06:36.700 It went down once and then it came back.

04:06:39.760 But then it went down again only like a few weeks ago because everyone was just sending me DMs.

04:06:44.540 People just don't know what they missed out on.

04:06:46.840 Yeah, it was such a good era.

04:06:48.340 You had to be there to experience it.

04:06:49.960 You had to be there.

04:06:50.380 I can't even explain it, to be honest.

04:06:51.920 It was a good time.

04:06:53.040 I love that you guys both know.

04:06:54.840 What about you?

04:06:55.620 So, he says he's 5'11".

04:06:57.540 Thank you for the nice comment too, brother.

04:06:58.680 I appreciate that.

04:06:59.460 Thank you.

04:06:59.620 Yeah, thank you, Cracker Jacked.

04:07:01.440 Appreciate it.

04:07:02.040 That was cool.

04:07:03.020 What about you?

04:07:03.680 Oh, this actually has happened to me before.

04:07:05.840 Yeah.

04:07:06.380 And he did have like inserts in his shoes and like everyone knew about it and it was really

04:07:12.100 embarrassing and I just, I don't know.

04:07:15.220 I, yes, it's very deceiving.

04:07:17.120 I thought he looked one way and then he took off his shoe and I was like, why did you just

04:07:21.140 shrink three inches?

04:07:22.280 Yeah, it was bad and he would like lie about it too, but you could like see it in his shoes.

04:07:27.480 Hmm.

04:07:27.860 Okay.

04:07:29.020 Yeah, I definitely feel deceived.

04:07:30.860 Feel deceived.

04:07:32.060 Yeah.

04:07:32.500 Yeah.

04:07:32.780 And what about you too?

04:07:34.240 Yeah, definitely.

04:07:35.060 Yes.

04:07:35.520 And then just to kind of piggyback on this one from Davon, good to see you in the chat,

04:07:40.020 by the way.

04:07:41.740 So, he used to have a full head of hair like two years ago, so the photos are still pretty

04:07:48.040 recent, but he always wears hats, shows up on the date with a hat, but he's actually

04:07:53.500 bald.

04:07:56.460 Deceived?

04:07:57.440 Davon Jackson donated $69.

04:08:00.560 If he's wearing the shoes, he's standing in front of you, five feet, 11 inches, not

04:08:05.960 lying.

04:08:06.880 If you're wearing makeup, you're standing in front of me, not looking how you really

04:08:11.020 look.

04:08:11.660 It's the same concern Brian raises.

04:08:14.000 Yo, Davon, thank you so much for the TTS, man.

04:08:16.600 I think the only problem is, and perhaps it's just the wording from your original message,

04:08:20.060 you said a man tells you that he's 5'11", so it would have, maybe if we had removed that

04:08:25.760 from the original question, like he tells you he's 5'11", if he just like shows up, approaches

04:08:31.740 you in person, and he's 5'11", makes no mention of his height, perhaps that's where

04:08:36.540 we got kind of tripped up on, but bald?

04:08:42.060 But where's the hat?

04:08:43.000 Deceived?

04:08:43.440 Bald, as long as he has a beard.

04:08:44.960 Is it deceived, though?

04:08:45.800 Deceived?

04:08:46.300 No.

04:08:46.960 Not deceived.

04:08:47.740 Okay.

04:08:48.320 Deceived?

04:08:48.720 I feel like it's not something you need to state, so no.

04:08:51.300 Deceived?

04:08:51.900 Yeah, I don't think it's that big of a deal.

04:08:54.160 Okay.

04:08:54.440 Yeah, agreed.

04:08:55.400 All right.

04:08:56.020 Yeah, no.

04:08:57.200 I'm going into it thinking that he has the hair, because of the pictures?

04:08:59.840 Is that what you're saying?

04:09:00.500 Yeah.

04:09:01.040 But then I show up and he's not?

04:09:02.460 And he's gotten these bald.

04:09:03.220 Yeah, that's deceiving.

04:09:04.080 Yeah, I think it's deceiving.

04:09:05.840 Yeah.

04:09:06.180 There's nothing wrong with being bald, just deceiving.

04:09:08.060 It's deceiving.

04:09:10.060 Bald is beautiful.

04:09:11.340 I love bald men.

04:09:12.420 I probably haven't got a year left.

04:09:14.680 I don't know.

04:09:16.220 Yeah, all the stress.

04:09:17.320 All the stress.

04:09:17.960 I got one year left.

04:09:18.720 I'm going to be losing it.

04:09:19.520 You're going to say hit him up for a routine.

04:09:21.320 No, I got you for hair care, brother.

04:09:22.760 Oh, shit.

04:09:23.320 Look at this head of Hercules' head that he's still got.

04:09:24.540 It's good.

04:09:25.380 Jesus.

04:09:25.960 It's plump.

04:09:27.020 It's luscious.

04:09:27.760 It is very nice.

04:09:29.560 It's beautiful.

04:09:30.020 It's like a pillow-worthy head of Hercules himself.

04:09:33.320 Still going strong.

04:09:33.860 Don't jinx me, bro.

04:09:36.220 Knock on wood.

04:09:37.240 Don't jinx genetics, bro.

04:09:38.340 Don't jinx me.

04:09:39.760 Yeah.

04:09:40.220 But so wait, can I get a concession that makeup is deceiving?

04:09:46.100 I think it can be.

04:09:47.720 Can be?

04:09:48.360 Okay.

04:09:49.460 Wait.

04:09:50.100 In every instant.

04:09:51.680 In every instant?

04:09:52.400 It's always deceiving.

04:09:55.280 I don't think so.

04:09:56.040 To lesser degrees.

04:09:57.980 I'll grant you, like, it's, you know, some women wear more than others, so it's going

04:10:03.280 to be to lesser degree.

04:10:04.480 Maybe it's like a marginal, just a teeny bit deceiving, you know?

04:10:08.680 You have one zit and you cover up one zit.

04:10:11.620 It's not going to change you a whole bunch, right?

04:10:14.500 Is it a little deceiving?

04:10:16.200 I don't think it's deceiving.

04:10:17.520 I think everyone wants to look their best and, you know, doing little things here and

04:10:21.860 there just shows that you care about your appearance.

04:10:25.920 Buy those platform shoes.

04:10:28.260 Can you concede it's a bit deceiving?

04:10:31.040 Yeah.

04:10:31.420 I also agree with the notion that everyone wants to look their best, though.

04:10:34.320 But yeah.

04:10:34.700 Yeah.

04:10:34.840 Men want to be as tall as they can.

04:10:37.680 Oh, my God.

04:10:39.500 I do think it's deceiving.

04:10:41.000 I can get what you're saying.

04:10:41.900 Like, putting, like, some, like, covering acne.

04:10:44.240 Like, I understand that.

04:10:45.520 But I don't know.

04:10:47.620 I guess, like, if it's, like, super heavy makeup, like, I understand that.

04:10:50.540 But if it's, like, pretty natural, I don't really feel like anyone's going to care that

04:10:54.260 much about it.

04:10:55.300 Deceiving?

04:10:56.460 I guess it, like, depends in, like, some situations.

04:11:00.560 Yeah.

04:11:00.880 How about the situation right now with how much makeup you're wearing?

04:11:05.900 Yeah, maybe a little bit.

04:11:07.440 Okay.

04:11:07.920 All right.

04:11:08.400 What about you?

04:11:08.960 Deceiving?

04:11:10.600 I guess.

04:11:11.560 You guess?

04:11:12.080 Yeah.

04:11:13.120 I guess.

04:11:13.800 Why is it hard for you guys to just say?

04:11:17.340 Like, I can say, yeah, if a guy wears.

04:11:19.740 If she took her makeup off, she would still be smoking hot.

04:11:22.240 Like, her makeup, I don't feel like is changing anything really about her.

04:11:27.400 Like, it's just showing off her high cheekbones.

04:11:30.740 She's got, like, nice eyebrows.

04:11:34.400 You down to take it off?

04:11:37.240 I got some makeup wipes.

04:11:38.660 I don't want to take my makeup off.

04:11:40.260 All right.

04:11:40.620 They have, folks, they have.

04:11:43.180 All right.

04:11:45.300 Deceiving, deceiving.

04:11:46.260 Yes, yes.

04:11:46.700 Okay.

04:11:47.280 All right.

04:11:47.640 Let's play the video really quick, then we'll move on to the rest of the pre-show notes.

04:11:51.640 All right.

04:11:52.220 Yeah, you can just play it from here.

04:11:56.820 All right.

04:11:57.400 There she is.

04:11:59.500 What is, what?

04:12:00.440 Is that soap?

04:12:01.380 Yeah.

04:12:01.540 Maybe she's cleaning the face first.

04:12:04.120 All right.

04:12:04.700 There it is.

04:12:05.720 All right.

04:12:06.360 Maybe she's, she looks like what?

04:12:07.700 You've got to have that skin care.

04:12:08.120 She looks like she's maybe in her 30s, maybe.

04:12:11.600 I think.

04:12:12.680 She looks 30s.

04:12:15.020 30s.

04:12:15.620 Okay.

04:12:17.240 And I've seen, you know, okay.

04:12:19.360 All right.

04:12:20.100 We're getting there.

04:12:22.280 What the, what is that?

04:12:24.180 What the fuck?

04:12:25.500 That looks like asbestos, bro.

04:12:27.180 I actually saw this documentary on Netflix where these women with the makeup, some of

04:12:31.840 it had asbestos in it.

04:12:34.300 Yeah.

04:12:34.760 They got, they put asbestos in some of the powder shit and these women get fucking cancer

04:12:38.640 from the makeup.

04:12:40.860 Bro.

04:12:41.720 Hello?

04:12:42.740 Hello, bro?

04:12:45.020 Dude.

04:12:46.140 I mean, obviously she's got some filters and fucking fake contacts and shit in too, but

04:12:50.180 damn, bro.

04:12:51.380 I would be deceived.

04:12:54.820 I mean, I'd still hit like before the makeup.

04:12:57.900 Like I'd still smash.

04:12:58.580 But I mean, she could put it back on before you guys leave again.

04:13:03.580 Bro, I'm going to have to like fucking dry clean my fucking pillowcases.

04:13:07.740 Did you not see the video she put up against her phone and it didn't come off?

04:13:10.600 Okay.

04:13:10.920 Well, there's all kinds of makeup technology.

04:13:13.960 Makeup technology.

04:13:14.740 I'm not aware of.

04:13:15.940 It just stays there.

04:13:17.020 It doesn't ever rub off, I guess.

04:13:18.860 I don't know.

04:13:19.980 Let's see here.

04:13:20.780 We have, let's get back to the pre-show notes.

04:13:23.760 So going to, one sec, guys, I'm getting this pulled up.

04:13:28.580 We have, I think we finished all them for you.

04:13:33.160 So we have Megan.

04:13:36.780 You said you have a lot.

04:13:38.140 One of them was an age catfish.

04:13:39.540 He said he was in pharmacy school.

04:13:41.000 So you assumed he was over 22.

04:13:42.460 Turns out he was 19 and you were 25 at the time.

04:13:45.500 So some cougar shit.

04:13:47.040 Yeah.

04:13:48.160 Nice.

04:13:48.880 Okay.

04:13:49.560 Did you keep dating him or no?

04:13:51.860 No, not after that.

04:13:53.060 No.

04:13:54.240 How did you meet him?

04:13:55.200 Dating him?

04:13:55.680 Or?

04:13:56.340 No, we worked together at Universal.

04:13:59.500 Oh.

04:14:00.140 Yeah.

04:14:00.940 Hmm.

04:14:02.100 Yeah, it was.

04:14:03.060 But did he lie about his age or you just assumed?

04:14:04.800 I just assumed.

04:14:05.560 He never told me.

04:14:06.580 He looked a little bit older.

04:14:07.060 That's not so bad.

04:14:07.720 Yeah.

04:14:08.680 You could have still.

04:14:10.360 I know.

04:14:11.840 You know.

04:14:12.460 I don't know.

04:14:13.000 But you did.

04:14:13.200 I was a high school math teacher at the time and I felt like that was kind of weird.

04:14:17.600 Okay.

04:14:18.080 All right.

04:14:18.520 Yeah.

04:14:19.840 Okay.

04:14:21.580 Let's see.

04:14:23.120 You said you're conservative but have hooked up a lot when you were younger and was shamed for it.

04:14:31.400 What did you say the body count was?

04:14:33.440 19.

04:14:34.280 19.

04:14:34.600 19.

04:14:34.880 Okay.

04:14:35.100 Yeah.

04:14:37.040 And what do you mean you were shamed?

04:14:38.320 And you're 38?

04:14:42.320 33.

04:14:42.720 33.

04:14:43.000 33.

04:14:43.080 33.

04:14:43.120 33.

04:14:43.160 33.

04:14:43.240 33.

04:14:43.340 33.

04:14:43.480 33.

04:14:43.840 33.

04:14:43.980 33.

04:14:44.000 33.

04:14:44.020 33.

04:14:44.040 33.

04:14:44.060 33.

04:14:44.080 33.

04:14:44.100 33.

04:14:44.120 33.

04:14:44.580 33.

04:14:45.120 33.

04:14:45.180 33.

04:14:45.240 And so this was when you were in college?

04:14:47.140 Yeah.

04:14:47.400 Like after college.

04:14:48.400 Okay.

04:14:48.460 And you don't do the hookup stuff anymore?

04:14:50.160 No.

04:14:50.480 Okay.

04:14:51.240 Okay.

04:14:51.280 And you were shamed for it though.

04:14:53.680 What is that?

04:14:54.200 Yeah.

04:14:54.380 So what do you mean?

04:14:54.960 Like I told some of my girlfriends about it and then we were having good fun and then

04:14:59.040 when we were talking about maybe dating one of their guy friends they basically told

04:15:03.200 me no that I was too much for them.

04:15:06.480 Wait.

04:15:07.480 The guy friend?

04:15:08.480 No.

04:15:09.480 My girlfriends told me.

04:15:10.480 I was like I said I was interested in someone and they told me no because they knew that.

04:15:13.860 The girlfriends told you no?

04:15:14.860 Yeah.

04:15:15.860 Because they knew he would have an issue?

04:15:16.860 Yeah.

04:15:17.860 Like my friends did.

04:15:18.860 Oh.

04:15:19.860 Maybe the friends were trying to get what to do.

04:15:20.860 Yeah.

04:15:21.860 They said they had someone else in mind with a lower body count.

04:15:23.860 What's the term for cock block but for a woman?

04:15:26.320 Oh.

04:15:27.320 Box block.

04:15:28.320 Box block.

04:15:30.320 Trying to box block.

04:15:31.320 Clam jam?

04:15:32.320 Clam jam.

04:15:33.320 Twat swatter.

04:15:34.320 Clam jam.

04:15:35.320 It's a twat swatter.

04:15:36.320 Twat swatter.

04:15:37.320 It's a twat swatter.

04:15:38.320 Okay.

04:15:39.320 All right.

04:15:40.320 That's a good one.

04:15:41.320 Let's see.

04:15:42.320 You met a guy on Discord.

04:15:43.320 You made plans to meet in Memphis.

04:15:45.320 Flew in and he never showed up at the airport to meet me?

04:15:48.320 Yes.

04:15:49.320 Damn.

04:15:50.320 That's rough.

04:15:51.320 Yeah.

04:15:52.320 I was on Discord a lot and then I finally thought I met someone that was worth pursuing

04:15:58.780 as far as like a relationship in person.

04:16:01.780 I finally booked a flight because he kept saying let's go meet in Memphis and finally got there

04:16:06.780 and he wouldn't answer my phone calls.

04:16:08.780 So yeah.

04:16:09.780 And so when, what was the last thing you heard from him?

04:16:12.780 Like was he like hey I'm coming to the airport or?

04:16:15.780 We talked on the phone the night before and then he said yeah I'll see you in the morning.

04:16:20.240 Had you guys exchanged like photos?

04:16:22.240 Yeah.

04:16:23.240 And phone number, yeah.

04:16:25.240 I don't know.

04:16:26.240 I don't know if he was a catfish or something and that's why he didn't show up but then I

04:16:30.240 had to call my aunt and tell her why I was in Memphis.

04:16:32.240 You didn't send him money or anything like that?

04:16:34.240 Okay.

04:16:35.240 Who bought the ticket?

04:16:36.240 I bought the ticket.

04:16:37.240 He said he got the hotel.

04:16:39.240 And did you like, was there, he ghosted you?

04:16:42.700 Yes.

04:16:43.700 But like did you catch up with him afterwards?

04:16:45.700 Like what happened?

04:16:46.700 Never.

04:16:47.700 Haven't heard in like two years from him.

04:16:48.700 So.

04:16:49.700 That's weird.

04:16:50.700 I'm sorry.

04:16:51.700 Like do you think he went to the airport and he like got cold feet type thing or what?

04:16:55.700 I have no idea.

04:16:56.700 He, I like, I knew what kind of car he drove and I never saw or what he told me, so yeah.

04:17:03.160 Yeah.

04:17:04.160 Yeah.

04:17:04.660 Did you know like his ID?

04:17:06.660 No.

04:17:07.660 You just knew his Discord username?

04:17:09.660 Yeah.

04:17:10.660 And phone number.

04:17:11.660 Wait, into the mic.

04:17:12.660 Oh yeah.

04:17:13.660 And phone number.

04:17:14.660 But like, did you know his real name?

04:17:15.660 Did you know any details about him?

04:17:16.660 I thought I knew his real name, but now I don't know what I know.

04:17:19.660 Hmm.

04:17:20.660 So.

04:17:21.660 Damn, that's.

04:17:22.660 That's rough.

04:17:23.660 That's rough.

04:17:24.660 Yeah.

04:17:25.660 You got to do like vetting, make sure they're real and shit.

04:17:29.060 Yeah.

04:17:30.060 Background checks and stuff.

04:17:31.060 I'm just kidding.

04:17:32.060 Yeah.

04:17:33.060 And you said you date for marriage.

04:17:34.060 Yes.

04:17:35.060 Anything else is dating for heartbreak.

04:17:36.060 Yeah.

04:17:37.060 So when you say you date for marriage, what does that look like?

04:17:39.500 What does that mean?

04:17:41.620 When I go out on a date, I kind of try to get a feel for how they would be or fit into

04:17:47.820 my family.

04:17:48.820 Because if I go on a date and I feel like this person is not someone I could take home

04:17:52.320 to meet my family, then it's not worth pursuing.

04:17:54.620 You mean your parents?

04:17:56.020 Yeah.

04:17:57.020 My parents and my sisters.

04:17:58.020 Oh, nice.

04:17:59.020 They're like conservative sort of people.

04:18:00.020 Yeah.

04:18:01.020 They're conservative.

04:18:02.020 Nice.

04:18:03.020 So if I don't think like they would get along with them or if I don't think, I don't know,

04:18:06.020 if I'm not willing to have them meet my family, then I'm not willing to keep dating them.

04:18:10.020 Yeah.

04:18:11.020 That's nice.

04:18:12.020 That's wholesome.

04:18:13.020 Thanks.

04:18:14.020 Hmm.

04:18:15.020 Nice.

04:18:16.020 So you said you used to do the hookup culture.

04:18:18.420 Yeah.

04:18:19.020 Now you're dating for marriage.

04:18:20.420 So like, do you, are you waiting for marriage to have carnal knowledge?

04:18:24.420 To have carnal?

04:18:25.420 What do you mean?

04:18:27.420 Sex.

04:18:28.420 No.

04:18:29.420 Like...

04:18:30.420 By the latini, thank you for earlier for the gifted.

04:18:33.820 So no.

04:18:34.820 No.

04:18:35.820 I would not wait.

04:18:36.820 Like first date, second date?

04:18:37.820 Like second.

04:18:38.820 Second date.

04:18:39.820 Okay, so okay.

04:18:40.820 No.

04:18:41.820 There's like a girl's like hooked up like 50 dudes and then they're like, oh, now I

04:18:46.820 want to wait till marriage.

04:18:47.820 I'm like, okay.

04:18:48.820 No.

04:18:49.820 Okay.

04:18:50.820 At what point do you guys take the girls home to the parents?

04:18:52.820 Never.

04:18:53.820 No, just kidding.

04:18:54.820 No, no.

04:18:55.820 For real.

04:18:56.820 Like at what point did you take your beautiful girlfriend to your parents?

04:18:59.820 Um, good question actually.

04:19:01.820 Um, a few months, maybe four months, five months.

04:19:08.820 Yourself?

04:19:09.820 I mean, it depends because some relationships move a little quicker than others.

04:19:13.820 Yeah.

04:19:14.820 Like how often you spend time with each other.

04:19:16.820 Sometimes relationships, you're not able to, um, spend as much time with each other.

04:19:20.820 If it's a bit more long distance, that's a component.

04:19:23.820 Um, and then it depends like, are your parents in the same locality as you?

04:19:27.820 If they live across the country, that's going to have an impact.

04:19:30.820 Honestly, I like to, before I introduce anybody to my parents, uh, I, they have to be vetted heavily.

04:19:38.820 Yeah.

04:19:39.820 So like, I'm thinking for me, it's like six months to a year before you're going to meet my parents.

04:19:43.820 I would agree.

04:19:44.820 Yeah.

04:19:45.820 I've never had that problem.

04:19:46.820 I need to get up for a sec guys.

04:19:47.820 Uh, I'm going to let the girls, since they're so funny and entertaining and they bring conversation and, and what else do you guys bring to the table?

04:19:53.820 Uh, uh, what the?

04:19:54.820 I'm just kidding.

04:19:55.820 What did she say?

04:19:56.820 All right.

04:19:57.820 Well, the camera wasn't on when she did that.

04:19:58.820 That was probably for the best, but.

04:19:59.820 Oh, is that what she brings to the table?

04:20:00.820 Okay.

04:20:01.820 Uh, I don't know.

04:20:02.820 Carry the conversation for like, I don't know, three minutes.

04:20:03.820 All right.

04:20:04.820 Give me some controversial topics before you leave.

04:20:05.820 Oh, come on.

04:20:06.820 Jesus Christ.

04:20:07.820 All right.

04:20:08.820 I met my current boyfriend when I was 15.

04:20:21.820 Oh, wow.

04:20:22.820 He was my oldest brother's best friend.

04:20:24.820 Oh, wow.

04:20:25.820 So he already knows my family.

04:20:28.820 When you were 15, he met your parents.

04:20:30.820 Yeah.

04:20:31.820 But I hated him.

04:20:32.820 Did you?

04:20:33.820 He was an asshole.

04:20:34.820 What if we go around the table?

04:20:35.820 At what point would you, or have you taken your boyfriend to meet your parents?

04:20:42.820 Typically I'm friends first.

04:20:44.820 So like through friendship, my parents already know the person.

04:20:47.820 And then maybe after a couple months, four or three months, I'd probably make them aware.

04:20:52.820 Um, I think I was like really lenient with it, like for a while.

04:20:57.820 And now I like realize like, it's like super important to me.

04:21:00.820 So I would say it like takes a little bit longer, but because like I live far away, like

04:21:05.820 my hometown is far away from Santa Barbara.

04:21:07.820 I like brought my current boyfriend now and we haven't been dating that long to like stay

04:21:11.820 at my house.

04:21:12.820 Cause I was like, I literally needed to sleep there.

04:21:14.820 So like he met my mom and stuff, but.

04:21:16.820 Nice.

04:21:17.820 Yeah.

04:21:18.820 Maybe like two months.

04:21:20.820 I mean, the guy I'm with right now, I met him in high school, so he already knew my

04:21:27.820 parents and was like around them since the start.

04:21:29.820 But now I guess if I hadn't met him and I like met him through college, I would probably

04:21:35.820 take like a month or two to bring him back home.

04:21:39.820 Uh, my dad just met my fiance in April and he still has not met my mom.

04:21:46.820 Nice.

04:21:47.820 I'm just not close with my family.

04:21:48.820 So.

04:21:49.820 That's right.

04:21:50.820 I don't have parents for my girlfriend to meet either.

04:21:51.820 He's my family.

04:21:52.820 That's all that matters.

04:21:53.820 No, I'm literally, sometimes I think it's weird cause I don't have a, um, yeah, our dad

04:21:57.820 left when I was 10.

04:21:58.820 My mom's a drug addict, so I don't have any parents.

04:22:00.820 I had a conversation with girls cause they're like, when can I meet you?

04:22:01.820 I'm like, there's no one to meet.

04:22:03.820 Yeah.

04:22:04.820 They're like, yeah.

04:22:05.820 Well, Batman had no parents, so it's okay.

04:22:07.820 I don't think I'd let them meet them until I was sure like that might be someone I would

04:22:11.820 marry.

04:22:12.820 Oh, good.

04:22:13.820 Yeah.

04:22:14.820 So that's a hard line.

04:22:15.820 Yeah.

04:22:16.820 Like that's was like, I don't want to, I don't want to like.

04:22:18.820 Yeah.

04:22:19.820 I don't know.

04:22:20.820 Yeah.

04:22:21.820 Yeah.

04:22:22.820 You kind of, you kind of knew yours was the one, right?

04:22:24.820 So you're kind of on the same point.

04:22:25.820 No.

04:22:26.820 I mean, I had to wait a bit, obviously, and just suss out the situation.

04:22:29.820 Brian just got an upgrade.

04:22:30.820 So everything was.

04:22:31.820 And, um, no, no, about five months.

04:22:34.820 Yeah.

04:22:35.820 I had to, you have to like.

04:22:36.820 But you knew she was the one anyway.

04:22:38.820 Uh, yes, yes I did.

04:22:40.820 But I'd still, you still need to wait a little bit before introducing them to the family.

04:22:43.820 You know?

04:22:44.820 You've also got very nice parents.

04:22:45.820 Yeah.

04:22:46.820 They are very sweet.

04:22:47.820 Yeah.

04:22:48.820 Thank you.

04:22:49.820 You don't have to go through the process, you know, go on dates, get to know each other.

04:22:52.820 Um, you know, we were living together.

04:22:54.820 So time obviously was sped up a lot, but.

04:22:56.820 Yeah.

04:22:57.820 Yeah.

04:22:58.820 I still think before introducing them to the parents, you should like let the romance,

04:23:01.820 like let the relationship like flourish a little bit before you make that move.

04:23:04.820 All right.

04:23:05.820 You guys need to be solid first before you bring them.

04:23:07.820 Yeah.

04:23:08.820 Yeah.

04:23:09.820 You want to like, you know, make some memories, do some things together.

04:23:11.820 Yeah.

04:23:12.820 Um, live with each other, like go on a holiday together, just do things together before bringing

04:23:16.820 them like to your family, you know?

04:23:17.820 Yeah.

04:23:18.820 You've got beautiful family.

04:23:19.820 Yeah.

04:23:20.820 Yeah.

04:23:21.820 Yeah.

04:23:22.820 Thank you again.

04:23:23.820 What's about, what about, so wait, your current, what about you?

04:23:24.820 I don't have any parents for them to meet.

04:23:26.820 No, my dad left when I was 10.

04:23:27.820 My mom's a drug addict.

04:23:28.820 So I don't really want them to meet a junkie.

04:23:30.820 So she'd probably be passed out anyway.

04:23:34.820 I more or less have to protect my girlfriends from what parents are.

04:23:38.820 Maybe I can get adopted by yours.

04:23:39.820 Oh, wow.

04:23:40.820 So when your dad called me one time, like he was the nicest man.

04:23:43.820 He's very sweet.

04:23:44.820 And I was like, and he spoke so nicely.

04:23:45.820 I was like, imagine having a dad that like.

04:23:47.820 He's the best.

04:23:48.820 Gives a shit about you.

04:23:49.820 You know what I mean?

04:23:50.820 He's a very good man.

04:23:51.820 I was, I was on the phone.

04:23:52.820 I was like, I was going to, can I ask to be adopted by your dad?

04:23:54.820 You did end up liking him a lot.

04:23:56.820 Do you remember that?

04:23:57.820 He's a really, really nice man.

04:23:58.820 He's a good man.

04:23:59.820 No, you're very lucky, bro.

04:24:00.820 I have a question for you.

04:24:01.820 So I kind of have this opinion that women dictate when the sex happens and men dictate

04:24:07.820 when the relationship happens.

04:24:08.820 Yep.

04:24:09.820 When was it that you kind of realized with your current girlfriend that she was what

04:24:12.820 you wanted to like, what, what did she bring that made you be like, this is the

04:24:15.820 girl I want to get serious with?

04:24:17.820 That's a good question, actually.

04:24:18.820 That's a really great question.

04:24:19.820 So, um, she had her own thing going on.

04:24:23.820 So she has her own career.

04:24:25.820 So she's like career driven.

04:24:26.820 I thought that was very attractive because in the past, um, I would have partners that,

04:24:31.820 you know, didn't really do too much or anything.

04:24:33.820 And they were kind of just hanging off me and it was, it just made me exhausted after

04:24:37.820 a while.

04:24:38.820 Cause it just felt like they were just like, you know, I had to constantly like appease

04:24:41.820 or do something or just always like doing things together.

04:24:43.820 Whereas I've got like a pretty busy life doing my own thing with the social media

04:24:47.820 and all that jazz.

04:24:48.820 I'm always traveling and I'm competing and doing this and that.

04:24:50.820 So it was nice to know that she had her own thing going on.

04:24:52.820 It made it a lot easier.

04:24:53.820 And, you know, we're at the same wavelength.

04:24:55.820 Um, as well as that, just a lots of like familiar interests, like music, um, gym and just into

04:25:02.820 fitness.

04:25:03.820 And as well that she just brought a lot of value to my life.

04:25:05.820 Like she came into my life and made a lot of things like easier, like helping me clean

04:25:09.820 around the home, helping me wash and fold the clothing as well, which I'm fucking hopeless

04:25:14.820 at.

04:25:15.820 And just like fixed all that for me.

04:25:17.820 And she made my home, like feel like a home before it was like kind of like a little

04:25:20.820 bachelor pad.

04:25:21.820 And she moved in and she helped me like, just like, you know, spruce it up, add love to

04:25:25.820 it.

04:25:26.820 And, you know, as a woman like has that touch that a man could never have.

04:25:28.820 Get rid of the lawn chair in the living room.

04:25:30.820 Say again?

04:25:31.820 Say again?

04:25:32.820 I said, get rid of the lawn chair in the living room and throw out all the cum socks.

04:25:36.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:25:37.820 She just, she made my home, she made my home feel, feel like a home.

04:25:40.820 And, um, because of that, uh, yeah, I just saw that value and I didn't get that from other

04:25:45.820 partners in the past.

04:25:46.820 So at that point I knew I'm like, okay, cool.

04:25:48.820 Like I can definitely see myself dating this girl.

04:25:50.820 Do you feel that?

04:25:51.820 She made my life easier and she added value.

04:25:54.820 So that's the two things.

04:25:55.820 That's big.

04:25:56.820 Your whole energy shifts when you get that right support as well.

04:25:59.820 Yeah.

04:26:00.820 Just life feels easier instead of feeling like a battle and things are harder and there's

04:26:03.820 stress and fights and arguments.

04:26:05.820 Things are just easier.

04:26:06.820 It's like more free flowing.

04:26:07.820 So I would implore all you ladies as well.

04:26:10.820 Like, you know, be the piece to your man's life because that's sometimes the best thing

04:26:14.820 you can do to a male, you know, just be that piece, be that shoulder that it can

04:26:18.820 lean on, help, help around the house.

04:26:20.820 Being like submissive or dominant or anything like that.

04:26:22.820 It's just about, you know, being, um, being just being like a pleasure to your man.

04:26:28.820 Like, so like he can come home from work or long day, whether he's an entrepreneur or

04:26:32.820 the businessman does none of five, just, he wants to come home to like a peaceful home,

04:26:36.820 especially if he's like a man, like just with a lot of shit on his mind, doing a lot

04:26:39.820 of shit.

04:26:40.820 Um, no one wants to come back.

04:26:41.820 No man wants to come back to like fights and arguments and this and that and being

04:26:44.820 bagged.

04:26:45.820 And I guess, yeah.

04:26:46.820 So that's something I found with my current girlfriend, which made it very easy for me

04:26:50.820 to date her, you know?

04:26:51.820 That's awesome.

04:26:52.820 She made my life easier.

04:26:53.820 I don't know if, I don't know if a lot of girls realize this, but we have like a superpower

04:26:56.820 when it comes to the, to our men.

04:26:58.820 Like we can bring out their best versions of themselves.

04:27:02.820 Yeah.

04:27:03.820 We have that superpower.

04:27:04.820 Well, when I feel like nowadays women are squandering that superpower.

04:27:07.820 Yeah.

04:27:08.820 I have to agree with you.

04:27:09.820 That's actually a really good point.

04:27:10.820 Um, women have so much power.

04:27:11.820 You ladies don't realize how much power you have, but a woman can literally come in and

04:27:15.820 just be a man's backbone, you know, and just elevate him to levels that he never thought

04:27:19.820 he could reach, you know?

04:27:20.820 But on the, on the flip end of that, you know, the, the wrong, the wrong type of woman can

04:27:25.820 come in and just ruin a man completely.

04:27:26.820 So that's also true.

04:27:28.820 Yeah.

04:27:29.820 So, well, the two girls I was with in my twenties were with me when I had $0 and they supported

04:27:33.820 me until I made several million dollars.

04:27:36.820 In fact, I remember one girl, she was, I almost went bankrupt.

04:27:39.820 I lost all my money and I'm like, Oh, what are we going to do?

04:27:42.820 Like we'll be homeless.

04:27:43.820 But she goes, Oh, we'll just go live with my parents.

04:27:45.820 I'm like, I'll literally just rob a bank before we live with your parents.

04:27:49.820 She goes, that attitude is why we're not going to be poor.

04:27:52.820 And that kind of just made me work harder.

04:27:54.820 So a woman really can be a man's backbone.

04:27:56.820 Cause she was with you in it.

04:27:57.820 A hundred percent.

04:27:58.820 I've literally been supported from bankruptcy.

04:28:00.820 I'm like, all right, they're going to leave to I'll be with you no matter what.

04:28:04.820 I believe in you no matter what.

04:28:05.820 And I've gone on to make, you know, millions of dollars because of that support.

04:28:10.820 On the flip side, I've seen men lose millions of dollars because they chose the wrong partner.

04:28:16.820 And I always say to them, I say, whose fault is that?

04:28:19.820 Is it your fault?

04:28:20.820 Sorry.

04:28:21.820 Is it the partner's fault or is it your fault for choosing someone off the bat who you know

04:28:25.820 is going to be detrimental to your success?

04:28:27.820 Right?

04:28:28.820 Imagine if you're trying to run this podcast and some girls blowing up your phone and abusing

04:28:32.820 you and you can't succeed when you've got that.

04:28:34.820 Yeah.

04:28:35.820 But I personally put the blame on the man.

04:28:37.820 I think you have to choose.

04:28:38.820 That's because the man chooses the relationship and women are the gatekeepers of sex.

04:28:43.820 I have a question for you.

04:28:44.820 Yeah.

04:28:45.820 Where the women that helped you be who you are today, what are they doing now?

04:28:49.820 What are they doing now?

04:28:51.820 They're happy.

04:28:52.820 They've got like partners that enjoy their lives.

04:28:54.820 That's good.

04:28:55.820 Yeah.

04:28:56.820 I have nothing but good things to say about it.

04:28:57.820 Is there a follow up question?

04:28:58.820 No, I was just wondering cause like, you know, sometimes, you know, men get lifted up,

04:29:03.820 but then, you know, they change partners and the woman put all this time and energy into

04:29:07.820 lifting them up and then they got tossed aside.

04:29:10.820 So I was just wondering if they needed help with anything, would you still go back and

04:29:13.820 like help them out?

04:29:14.820 Of course.

04:29:15.820 Of course.

04:29:16.820 But like, I feel like they've, they've succeeded in their own way because they're with men

04:29:19.820 that they really appreciate and they're in happy relationships.

04:29:21.820 And I feel like cause I work so much now anyway, it's kind of like they're more better

04:29:25.820 off.

04:29:26.820 Yeah.

04:29:27.820 Well, were you going to say like, Oh, well they were so great, but where are they now?

04:29:32.820 Is that what you're asking?

04:29:34.820 I mean, not in that way, but I just wanted to make sure that, you know, the woman is

04:29:39.820 taken care of too.

04:29:40.820 Oh yeah.

04:29:41.820 They're in a very happy relationship.

04:29:42.820 Cause like I was, I was married for seven years and my ex-husband came from Egypt and

04:29:47.820 he had nothing.

04:29:48.820 Yeah.

04:29:49.820 He was sleeping on an air mattress and I met him and now he's got a green card and now

04:29:52.820 he works, you know, at a really nice job.

04:29:54.820 And like, I broke up with him because we had differences in religion and stuff.

04:29:58.820 And he, I wish him all the best.

04:30:00.820 I wanted him to find what was his, what he needed and it wasn't me.

04:30:06.820 And I feel like it's selfish to stay with somebody and try to force them into like your box.

04:30:10.820 Like he deserved to have what he wanted and I deserve to have what I wanted.

04:30:14.820 But I, you know, he's, I don't know what he's doing now, but I'm hoping that, you know, whoever, whoever helps each other out.

04:30:24.820 I hope that the person that helped that person didn't get, you know, the shit end of the stick.

04:30:29.820 I got very fortunate.

04:30:30.820 It was always remarkable.

04:30:31.820 Yeah.

04:30:32.820 But I've seen, I've seen the flip side where like really great men have been torn down by

04:30:35.820 like terrible, terrible people.

04:30:37.820 Yeah.

04:30:38.820 Yeah.

04:30:39.820 One guy, he never recovered from it.

04:30:41.820 He, actually I probably shouldn't spill his dirty laundry, but he had his life ruined

04:30:47.820 by two different women.

04:30:48.820 Yeah.

04:30:49.820 Yeah.

04:30:50.820 So yeah, he lost a decade, five years each.

04:30:52.820 Yeah.

04:30:53.820 He wasn't allowed to see his friends for like most of the five years.

04:30:55.820 He had coercive control, isolation, all sorts of stuff.

04:30:57.820 It was terrible.

04:30:58.820 So.

04:30:59.820 Yeah.

04:31:00.820 Yeah.

04:31:01.820 You need to choose correctly in life.

04:31:03.820 Be careful.

04:31:04.820 I, I'm especially at risk.

04:31:06.820 Yeah.

04:31:07.820 Because it's the shy ones, bro.

04:31:08.820 Well, can I tell you as well?

04:31:09.820 Cause you.

04:31:10.820 Like extroverted chicks, like they don't do that shit.

04:31:13.820 Well, I was going to message you about this.

04:31:14.820 Or do that.

04:31:15.820 I was going to message you about this.

04:31:16.820 Nah, they probably do that shit too.

04:31:17.820 Privately.

04:31:18.820 Shy ones.

04:31:19.820 Gotta be careful for those ones.

04:31:21.820 Can I bring up a question?

04:31:22.820 I was going to actually just message you this post.

04:31:24.820 They're the best and the worst.

04:31:25.820 Sorry, go ahead, go ahead.

04:31:26.820 Have you been on the saving end of a BP day relationship?

04:31:29.820 Yeah.

04:31:30.820 I was in, I was in a, well, she had BP.

04:31:32.820 Well, I mean.

04:31:33.820 Could you think.

04:31:34.820 I suspected.

04:31:35.820 Could you think of anything else?

04:31:36.820 She doesn't, she didn't have a diagnosis.

04:31:37.820 So I don't, I don't want to be one of these people that just throws around the word

04:31:40.820 like narcissist or bipolar, but like I'm very, fairly confident she had borderline personality

04:31:47.820 disorder.

04:31:48.820 So you know how bad that can get.

04:31:50.820 Bad.

04:31:51.820 I think I got a tame one too, but it was bad.

04:31:53.820 Yeah.

04:31:54.820 It was bad.

04:31:55.820 How bad did yours get?

04:31:56.820 Uh, compared to the horror stories.

04:32:01.820 Yeah.

04:32:02.820 I got out lucky.

04:32:03.820 My buddy.

04:32:04.820 Like, yeah.

04:32:05.820 But it was, it was the most chaotic fucking insane.

04:32:11.820 Cause I knew you had information on this topic.

04:32:13.820 A buddy of mine got put in jail from one.

04:32:16.820 Cause she goes, um, she goes, if you leave, I'm going to just report you to the police.

04:32:20.820 And he's like, I'm leaving.

04:32:21.820 She goes, all right.

04:32:22.820 She calls the cops.

04:32:23.820 The cops come.

04:32:24.820 And she's like, I just wanted to scare him.

04:32:26.820 And they're like, well, someone's going to get arrested.

04:32:28.820 She's like, I'll just take him.

04:32:29.820 And he goes to jail and he sits in jail for two days.

04:32:32.820 Was it Australian?

04:32:33.820 Yeah.

04:32:34.820 And he just sits in jail because she wanted to scare him.

04:32:36.820 And she's like, Oh no, he didn't touch me.

04:32:37.820 I was just scared.

04:32:38.820 And I'm like, she literally put him in jail to stop him from leaving.

04:32:41.820 Yeah.

04:32:42.820 Well, I mean, look, these, these things definitely happen.

04:32:44.820 Uh, I, there's this one video I saw of this man and he recorded on his phone, but he was

04:32:49.820 trying to break up with his girlfriend and she was like, not letting him leave.

04:32:54.820 And like, it's a very good thing that he was recording the whole thing because she was

04:32:58.820 standing on the phone with her mom or something and like saying things that were happening,

04:33:03.820 but weren't, this was all recorded.

04:33:05.820 He released it and I forget exactly what she was saying, but he was just like recording,

04:33:10.820 standing there totally peaceful.

04:33:11.820 Yeah.

04:33:12.820 And he was like, can you please let me leave?

04:33:14.820 And she was like, Oh my God, he's, he's trying to do, you know, to that point, this

04:33:19.820 guy got a lawyer and his lawyer goes, if it happens again, record.

04:33:22.820 And it did happen again.

04:33:24.820 And he recorded and the cops came again.

04:33:26.820 She's like, I'm in fear for my life.

04:33:27.820 He's like, I'm just standing here at the door.

04:33:29.820 And then the cops came and looked at the footage.

04:33:30.820 They're like, yeah, she's mental.

04:33:32.820 And that's, it's like, it's criminal behavior to, um, threaten false imprisonment against

04:33:37.820 like a man or anyone really.

04:33:40.820 You can't threaten to falsely imprison someone, but this is the reality for a lot of people.

04:33:44.820 If you don't choose correctly, this is what you could end up with.

04:33:48.820 I mean, I haven't, I, I've talked about it briefly in previous shows, but like the biggest

04:33:53.820 the biggest thing for me when, when I was dating this girl who got BPD, it was impossible

04:33:57.820 to break up with her.

04:33:58.820 Oh, I had to say like the, like I would break up with her.

04:34:02.820 She would get different emails.

04:34:03.820 She would get, call me from other people's phones, like came by my house and then would

04:34:08.820 like, but it would be like, it was difficult because she would be like, Oh my God, I'll never

04:34:13.820 do it again.

04:34:14.820 Yep.

04:34:15.820 Yep.

04:34:16.820 Or whatever.

04:34:17.820 And then like all the time as well.

04:34:18.820 Super jealous.

04:34:19.820 Yeah.

04:34:20.820 Super jealous.

04:34:21.820 She'd get mad about girls.

04:34:22.820 I dated before her.

04:34:23.820 Yeah.

04:34:24.820 Like, Oh, you dated a girl three years ago.

04:34:25.820 Fuck you.

04:34:26.820 You piece of shit.

04:34:27.820 How dare you date her?

04:34:29.820 Like three years.

04:34:31.820 I was like, I didn't even know you did.

04:34:33.820 You could talk to a parking meter that stabbed the parking meter.

04:34:36.820 Um, but, uh, no, like it was impossible to break up with her.

04:34:40.820 Cause I was like, she was so persistent and it was so kind of like, um, I don't know if

04:34:47.820 the right word is alarming, but I was like, maybe I can just, it'll go away.

04:34:52.820 If I just get back.

04:34:53.820 I know that sounds fucking crazy, but until you've been in a situation like that now I

04:34:59.820 would be ruthless.

04:35:00.820 I've been in the same thing when I was younger.

04:35:02.820 It works both ways.

04:35:04.820 One woman led me to a sewer slide attempt, but another woman made me feel on top of the

04:35:09.820 world.

04:35:10.820 Love the show.

04:35:11.820 First show.

04:35:12.820 I've donated.

04:35:13.820 Thank you, Brian.

04:35:14.820 Yeah.

04:35:15.820 And just to be clear, like, thank you, Logan.

04:35:16.820 Really appreciate it.

04:35:17.820 Absolutely.

04:35:18.820 Goes both ways.

04:35:19.820 Bad men, bad women out there.

04:35:20.820 I've been the, with the exception of this one relationship.

04:35:23.820 And I don't like to talk poorly about like past relationships or whatever, but, uh,

04:35:27.820 been in a bunch of fantastic relationships.

04:35:29.820 Although I'd sing the, uh, these other women's praises.

04:35:31.820 I just had one particular relationship that was, uh, pretty bad.

04:35:36.820 And I was young too.

04:35:37.820 I was, it was my second relationship.

04:35:39.820 So I was still kind of naive, young, didn't really know.

04:35:42.820 And I didn't know, but I didn't know what this was.

04:35:44.820 I just thought she's a bit eccentric or she's a little, uh, over enthusiastic or she really

04:35:49.820 likes me or some shit.

04:35:50.820 But like, yeah, it was hard to fucking break up with this girl.

04:35:53.820 Oh yeah.

04:35:54.820 And they do this, um, there's this abuse tactic called, um, idealization versus devaluation

04:35:59.820 where they'll suck you and be like, you're the best person I've ever met in my entire

04:36:02.820 life.

04:36:03.820 And then when they get you close enough, they're like, you're a piece of shit because

04:36:05.820 you had a girlfriend three years ago.

04:36:06.820 Fuck you.

04:36:07.820 And you're like, wait, what?

04:36:08.820 How did I get pulled in and then pushed down like that?

04:36:11.820 But it's like a tactic.

04:36:12.820 But when you're young, you don't really know.

04:36:14.820 You know what I mean?

04:36:15.820 Yeah.

04:36:16.820 I mean, I think it's hard lessons learned.

04:36:17.820 Oh yeah.

04:36:18.820 For real.

04:36:19.820 Like until you like roll the dice and land on a crazy person, you ain't expecting it.

04:36:28.820 Cause if all like, if all the previous people you dated are normal and it's, but then once

04:36:34.820 you land on them, you're like, Oh, this, I have not experienced this before.

04:36:38.820 And it not like a good way, but it's like, you don't know how to deal with it.

04:36:42.820 48 cents to the girl in chair one.

04:36:45.820 How would you feel if your boyfriend all of a sudden wanted to stop banging other women

04:36:49.820 and would rather blow his load into sex stalls?

04:36:52.820 Does the dynamic change?

04:36:54.820 Hm?

04:36:55.820 Hm?

04:36:56.820 Hm?

04:36:57.820 Hm?

04:36:58.820 Hm?

04:36:59.820 Thank you.

04:37:00.820 Thank you, Vector.

04:37:01.820 I don't even know how to answer that.

04:37:02.820 Um, I mean, I guess whatever he Jackson's off to on his own time is his own business.

04:37:09.820 No, but what would you prefer, right?

04:37:11.820 Oh, I would prefer sleeping with women.

04:37:14.820 That's actually a really interesting question.

04:37:16.820 It's like, I, so would you prefer, I mean, you're Polly, but even opening up to the other

04:37:21.820 girls on the panel, like, would it be more pathetic if your boyfriend started banging

04:37:26.820 sex dolls?

04:37:27.820 Uh huh.

04:37:28.820 Like, would you, would you prefer him to cheat with a chick over a sex, like a sex doll?

04:37:35.820 Yeah.

04:37:36.820 Ugh.

04:37:37.820 Yeah.

04:37:38.820 Ugh.

04:37:39.820 See, I've watched my dude bang other women and it's hot, so that, like, I'd rather choose

04:37:44.820 that.

04:37:45.820 We don't do that behind each other's backs.

04:37:46.820 It's always.

04:37:47.820 Wait, but what did you question?

04:37:48.820 Mm-hmm.

04:37:49.820 So, he, he, um, does he sleep with other women?

04:37:52.820 Mm-hmm.

04:37:53.820 With, with me in the same room.

04:37:54.820 But you guys do the swap.

04:37:55.820 We do swap, yeah.

04:37:56.820 In the same room?

04:37:57.820 Mm-hmm.

04:37:58.820 Oh, I didn't know.

04:37:59.820 I thought it was like, whatever.

04:38:00.820 No, no.

04:38:01.820 When we swap, it's same room.

04:38:02.820 We don't ever go off.

04:38:03.820 Would you prefer it unilateral?

04:38:04.820 Mm-hmm.

04:38:05.820 So, you get to fuck other people, but he doesn't.

04:38:07.820 No.

04:38:08.820 And he was fine?

04:38:09.820 No, he's fine with it.

04:38:10.820 Do you like that over it being open on both sides?

04:38:12.820 No.

04:38:13.820 I, I like the equality.

04:38:15.820 Like, a lot of guys on here probably be like, oh, I'd love to be poly, but my woman's not

04:38:19.820 allowed to fuck other dudes.

04:38:20.820 I don't think that's fair.

04:38:21.820 Based.

04:38:22.820 And a lot of people feel that way.

04:38:23.820 But for me, I feel like if, you know, if he's gonna sleep with a woman, then it's only

04:38:28.820 fair if I find the male attractive that I get to sleep with a male.

04:38:31.820 Mm-hmm.

04:38:32.820 And that's, he's, he totally agrees with that.

04:38:35.820 So, he doesn't.

04:38:36.820 Word.

04:38:37.820 Word.

04:38:38.820 Okay.

04:38:39.820 Here, really quick, going around the table on this.

04:38:41.820 Uh, would you prefer your boyfriend cheat on you with another chick or a sex doll?

04:38:46.820 I'd rather him not be unloyal.

04:38:47.820 Was that sneeze?

04:38:48.820 It's kind of weird.

04:38:49.820 Oh, okay.

04:38:50.820 It's like covered.

04:38:51.820 Wait, sorry, which one?

04:38:52.820 I'd rather him not be unloyal and cheat.

04:38:53.820 Well, you gotta pick one.

04:38:54.820 The doll.

04:38:55.820 Sex doll or?

04:38:56.820 It's just kind of weird.

04:38:57.820 But you still dump him, right?

04:38:59.820 Like if he fucks a sex doll?

04:39:01.820 I don't know.

04:39:02.820 I'd have to communicate with him.

04:39:04.820 Like you walk in on him fucking a sex doll.

04:39:06.820 But see, at the same time.

04:39:07.820 So, it's kind of cheating?

04:39:08.820 Like, strange.

04:39:09.820 Can you say the same thing for women using vibrators?

04:39:11.820 I mean, they're using a tool.

04:39:13.820 I don't know.

04:39:14.820 Maybe.

04:39:15.820 I don't know.

04:39:16.820 What about a pocket pussy?

04:39:17.820 Like, is that the same thing?

04:39:18.820 Yeah, is that the same thing?

04:39:19.820 Maybe.

04:39:20.820 What about a pocket pussy?

04:39:21.820 Is that the same as a sex doll?

04:39:22.820 Yeah, I think if you scoot into the table, it might be a bit.

04:39:23.820 What about you?

04:39:24.820 What do you think?

04:39:25.820 Um, I just cannot know other women.

04:39:29.820 I would.

04:39:30.820 So, you pick the sex doll?

04:39:31.820 Yeah.

04:39:32.820 What about you?

04:39:33.820 Yeah, the sex doll.

04:39:34.820 Sex doll?

04:39:35.820 Yeah.

04:39:36.820 Okay.

04:39:37.820 All right.

04:39:38.820 Thank you, Vector.

04:39:39.820 Appreciate that.

04:39:40.820 So, where were we?

04:39:41.820 We were getting through.

04:39:42.820 Let's see.

04:39:43.820 I want to bring it back to Keely.

04:39:46.820 Yeah.

04:39:47.820 That's you?

04:39:48.820 I might have mixed up the notes.

04:39:50.820 Food poisoning?

04:39:51.820 Was that you?

04:39:52.820 Yeah, that was me.

04:39:53.820 That's you.

04:39:54.820 Food poisoning on first date, you did what?

04:39:59.820 I just, I had to have him pull over on the side of the road because I felt really sick

04:40:04.820 after eating sushi.

04:40:06.820 And then, yeah, I threw up in front of him and then I threw up a little bit in his car.

04:40:10.820 In the car?

04:40:11.820 Yeah.

04:40:12.820 Did you offer to clean it?

04:40:13.820 Yeah.

04:40:14.820 No, I totally cleaned it.

04:40:15.820 Oh, you cleaned it.

04:40:16.820 Okay.

04:40:17.820 But, yeah.

04:40:18.820 Your next note was, being a hoe, bad.

04:40:25.820 That's actually what it says.

04:40:27.820 I know.

04:40:28.820 What's the, a dash?

04:40:29.820 I know.

04:40:30.820 There's a dash.

04:40:31.820 Yeah.

04:40:32.820 Being a hoe, dash, bad.

04:40:33.820 That was just more about, like, the hookup culture.

04:40:34.820 The hookup culture.

04:40:35.820 Yeah.

04:40:36.820 I agree.

04:40:37.820 There's something we agree on.

04:40:38.820 Yeah.

04:40:39.820 Being a hoe, bad.

04:40:40.820 Yeah, like, I don't know.

04:40:41.820 I just don't like the idea of the hookup culture nowadays just sleeping around, like,

04:40:47.820 a lot to, like, a certain point, I guess.

04:40:50.820 Sure.

04:40:51.820 It's just, like, I don't know.

04:40:53.820 Sure.

04:40:54.820 Yeah.

04:40:55.820 Okay.

04:40:56.820 You said people shouldn't be friends with the opposite gender in relationships.

04:41:01.820 Actually, something else I agree with you on.

04:41:02.820 Do you want to expand on this a bit?

04:41:04.820 I mean, there's, like, certain situations where I do think it's okay, but then there's

04:41:11.820 just others that I just don't when I see other women talk about how they would, like,

04:41:15.820 be comfortable with their boyfriend, like, hanging out one-on-one with a girl or even

04:41:20.820 just, like, I don't know, just other, like, random situations that I just definitely would

04:41:24.820 not be comfortable with.

04:41:25.820 Mm-hmm.

04:41:26.820 But, I mean, that's just me.

04:41:28.820 Mm-hmm.

04:41:29.820 And it's each their own.

04:41:30.820 I don't, like, shame other people for allowing, not allowing, but not being upset at their boyfriend

04:41:35.820 for hanging out with other women like that.

04:41:38.820 Yeah.

04:41:39.820 But me personally, I would just appreciate to keep it all guys and out of just respect.

04:41:46.820 His friends?

04:41:47.820 Yeah.

04:41:48.820 And then what about you?

04:41:49.820 Like, you don't have male friends either, right?

04:41:51.820 Yeah.

04:41:52.820 Or...

04:41:53.820 I...

04:41:54.820 No, I don't.

04:41:55.820 Hold on a second.

04:41:57.820 Not like that.

04:41:59.820 Wait, so you're...

04:42:00.820 No, it's the same standard both ways.

04:42:03.820 Okay.

04:42:04.820 Yeah, definitely.

04:42:05.820 Okay.

04:42:06.820 So you don't have male friends?

04:42:07.820 Yeah, no.

04:42:08.820 Okay.

04:42:09.820 Yeah, I agree with you.

04:42:10.820 I don't know.

04:42:11.820 There's just, it's very much depending on situational, like, factors, but not people

04:42:16.820 that I would hang out with, like, all, like, regularly, like, text them, like, hang out

04:42:23.820 with them all the time type of thing.

04:42:25.820 But, like, I guess I could call people my friends that are males, and he could do that

04:42:30.820 too.

04:42:31.820 But it's just, it's, like, situational, I guess I'd say.

04:42:33.820 It's so controlling of you.

04:42:35.820 I know.

04:42:36.820 I know.

04:42:37.820 It's so controlling.

04:42:38.820 No, I agree with you.

04:42:39.820 I agree with you.

04:42:40.820 I think there is a bit of impropriety if you're dating somebody and they have a bunch

04:42:44.820 of friends of the opposite sex.

04:42:47.820 Yeah.

04:42:48.820 And, well, certainly, I think maybe...

04:42:51.820 Virgin Slayer donated $69.

04:42:54.820 Virgin Slayer?

04:42:55.820 Good name, man.

04:42:56.820 Good thing most of you picked sex dolls, because once you're on YouTube, there's sex robots

04:43:01.820 that also fold laundry.

04:43:03.820 You are all absolutely screwed.

04:43:05.820 Screwed.

04:43:06.820 Screwed.

04:43:07.820 Oh, my goodness.

04:43:08.820 Wow.

04:43:09.820 Yeah.

04:43:10.820 That, who, I wonder who's gonna be quicker to adopt the usage of, like, girlfriend robot,

04:43:18.820 sex robot.

04:43:19.820 Probably men.

04:43:20.820 Yeah.

04:43:21.820 Probably dudes.

04:43:22.820 Definitely.

04:43:23.820 Yeah.

04:43:24.820 100%.

04:43:25.820 I feel like...

04:43:26.820 I don't know, man.

04:43:27.820 Because I feel like women are really dissatisfied with men.

04:43:31.820 Two.

04:43:32.820 You could probably mute a robot, too.

04:43:33.820 Like, what?

04:43:34.820 This robot could be a fucking Giga Chad.

04:43:38.820 And he'll, like, he'll be perfect for you.

04:43:41.820 Yeah.

04:43:42.820 Because I feel like women are more picky.

04:43:44.820 So, like, you'll, it's harder for you to find a guy that, like, fits into what you need

04:43:50.820 and want.

04:43:51.820 And what?

04:43:52.820 Just in general?

04:43:53.820 Yeah.

04:43:54.820 Like, I, I think women have, tend to have higher standards than men.

04:43:58.820 And they're pickier than men.

04:43:59.820 Yours are pretty high.

04:44:00.820 Maybe I'm an outlier.

04:44:03.820 But...

04:44:04.820 Okay.

04:44:05.820 Oh, no.

04:44:06.820 I don't, look, I don't ask for much.

04:44:09.820 I'm very low maintenance.

04:44:13.820 Very low maintenance.

04:44:15.820 Um...

04:44:16.820 So, what do you mean with the sex dolls for women?

04:44:21.820 I'm confused.

04:44:22.820 Well, I'm like, pardon me.

04:44:23.820 Like, we would have high standards for the dolls.

04:44:25.820 Like, in terms of who's gonna, who's gonna adopt more to it?

04:44:28.820 Like, who's gonna be, like, more fulfilled by it?

04:44:31.820 Uh...

04:44:36.820 I mean, definitely men.

04:44:37.820 But, like, I think this idea that women aren't gonna, like, bro, this robot can, like,

04:44:43.820 open jars for you and shit.

04:44:45.820 Kill all the spiders.

04:44:46.820 Like...

04:44:47.820 That's pretty cool.

04:44:48.820 You know?

04:44:49.820 It's like...

04:44:50.820 But I make my boyfriend do that.

04:44:51.820 Actually, like, last longer than, like, three seconds or whatever.

04:44:53.820 No.

04:44:54.820 I don't have...

04:44:55.820 Okay.

04:44:56.820 There's no problem there.

04:44:57.820 See, that's gonna be, that's gonna be the end of the world right there.

04:45:00.820 The sex robots?

04:45:01.820 Yeah.

04:45:02.820 It's...

04:45:03.820 Probably.

04:45:04.820 Yeah.

04:45:05.820 Probably.

04:45:06.820 We'll never procreate ever again.

04:45:07.820 It'll just be the sex robots.

04:45:08.820 I know.

04:45:09.820 And they'll make little robot babies.

04:45:10.820 I wonder though, like...

04:45:11.820 Rowing the world.

04:45:12.820 To...

04:45:13.820 Beyond...

04:45:14.820 Be super honest though.

04:45:15.820 Don't, like...

04:45:16.820 Would you...

04:45:17.820 Would you get it with a sex robot?

04:45:19.820 I mean...

04:45:20.820 They'll also, like, did laundry and shit.

04:45:22.820 If it did my laundry.

04:45:23.820 And that got your protein shakes.

04:45:24.820 I love the laundry.

04:45:25.820 It made my...

04:45:26.820 It does my protein shakes.

04:45:27.820 It does your protein shakes.

04:45:28.820 Pre-workout.

04:45:29.820 Post-workout meal.

04:45:30.820 Pre-teen.

04:45:31.820 And it...

04:45:32.820 It's a hard yes already.

04:45:33.820 Hard yes.

04:45:34.820 If it makes my pre-workout and my protein shakes, my meals for my training.

04:45:37.820 Yeah.

04:45:38.820 That's gonna be great.

04:45:39.820 That'd be worth every penny.

04:45:40.820 Yeah.

04:45:41.820 Does it help me to...

04:45:42.820 Can it be my spotter in the gym as well?

04:45:43.820 Spotter in the gym.

04:45:44.820 Oh my God.

04:45:45.820 Bro, and CPR is more than you.

04:45:47.820 Oh wow.

04:45:48.820 Like she squats more...

04:45:49.820 So she can push me in the gym.

04:45:51.820 Yeah.

04:45:52.820 Oh my God.

04:45:53.820 She squats more than you.

04:45:54.820 Brian, that's a definite yes.

04:45:55.820 Boom.

04:45:56.820 What the fuck?

04:45:57.820 Easy.

04:45:58.820 Wow.

04:45:59.820 Like deadlift.

04:46:00.820 Imagine.

04:46:01.820 She'll be...

04:46:02.820 Like a mechanical...

04:46:03.820 This mechanical piece of shit is lifting...

04:46:04.820 Exactly.

04:46:05.820 What the fuck?

04:46:06.820 That's crazy.

04:46:07.820 That's funny.

04:46:08.820 That's funny.

04:46:09.820 Yeah.

04:46:10.820 Okay, but...

04:46:11.820 Okay, moving to Keely.

04:46:13.820 Keely.

04:46:14.820 Yes.

04:46:15.820 Crazy...

04:46:16.820 Crazy door...

04:46:17.820 Sorry.

04:46:18.820 Tongue tied.

04:46:19.820 Crazy dating story I had was when I was on a date with my boyfriend at the time and

04:46:23.820 his car broke down on the side of the road and a car drove by us that was a previous fling

04:46:29.820 and that guy parked behind us and ended up jumping my...

04:46:32.820 Wait.

04:46:33.820 Hold on.

04:46:34.820 What?

04:46:35.820 What?

04:46:36.820 Yeah.

04:46:37.820 Tell us the story.

04:46:38.820 Go ahead.

04:46:39.820 So my ex-boyfriend and I were dating and he drove like a 66 Mustang that he like built.

04:46:45.820 So we tried to do like a burnout in it at a stop sign and it broke down.

04:46:49.820 So we kind of just like pushed the car to the side.

04:46:51.820 We were waiting on like AAA or whatever to come and like help us and his like feet were

04:46:56.820 out the window and he was like laying in my lap and I was sitting in the passenger seat

04:46:59.820 and I like saw this guy that I was talking to like we didn't date or anything but he

04:47:03.820 like drove by and I was like oh that's super weird and then he drives behind us again

04:47:08.820 and then like parks right behind us and I thought he was like gonna come out and help

04:47:11.820 us but that was not the case and he like pulled my boyfriend out of the

04:47:14.820 car and started like punching him and it was so bad.

04:47:18.820 Like literally they were like fighting on the side of the road.

04:47:21.820 I was like crying.

04:47:23.820 It was really aggressive.

04:47:25.820 That's crazy.

04:47:26.820 Yeah.

04:47:27.820 Wait.

04:47:28.820 And is this your current boyfriend?

04:47:29.820 No, this is my ex-boyfriend.

04:47:30.820 Your ex-boyfriend.

04:47:31.820 My most recent ex-boyfriend, yeah.

04:47:32.820 Okay, so it was a different...

04:47:33.820 Okay.

04:47:34.820 I know.

04:47:35.820 Yeah.

04:47:36.820 But you were broken up with this guy, right?

04:47:38.820 The...

04:47:39.820 We never dated.

04:47:40.820 I don't really, he was just upset that I think that I got with this other guy and

04:47:45.820 like made it official with him rather than...

04:47:47.820 You guys never dated?

04:47:48.820 No.

04:47:49.820 We never dated.

04:47:50.820 Oh, you said previous fling.

04:47:52.820 Yeah.

04:47:53.820 So what were you guys fling for a month or something?

04:47:56.820 Yeah, it was not long at all.

04:47:57.820 Okay.

04:47:58.820 It was like maybe like two months.

04:47:59.820 And then so, how long after the end of the fling did this happen?

04:48:03.820 Super recent.

04:48:04.820 Like right after it.

04:48:05.820 Oh.

04:48:06.820 So like I...

04:48:07.820 Still wrong.

04:48:08.820 I mean, but...

04:48:09.820 No, yeah.

04:48:10.820 It was super wrong.

04:48:11.820 I felt so bad.

04:48:12.820 I like apologized so many times.

04:48:13.820 How recent?

04:48:14.820 This was over a year ago.

04:48:16.820 No, so I mean like you had the fling.

04:48:18.820 Mm-hmm.

04:48:19.820 That's over.

04:48:20.820 And then you were dating a new guy.

04:48:22.820 Probably like a month after.

04:48:23.820 Wait, was there overlap?

04:48:25.820 No, there wasn't like overlap.

04:48:26.820 It was like the reason like I met my ex-boyfriend was like something stupid.

04:48:32.820 And I was never like exclusive with that other guy.

04:48:35.820 So then I met my boyfriend and we were hanging out as friends.

04:48:38.820 And then it became like something that I was like, oh, I like want a relationship with

04:48:42.820 this person.

04:48:43.820 So then I decided to get into a relationship with him rather than the previous guy who

04:48:47.820 was like asking a lot for a relationship.

04:48:49.820 And I was like, no, I don't want one.

04:48:51.820 I don't want one.

04:48:52.820 So he was like upset that I got off.

04:48:53.820 Did they know each other?

04:48:54.820 No.

04:48:55.820 Not at all.

04:48:56.820 Didn't know each other.

04:48:57.820 No, they knew of each other, but they didn't know anything about each other.

04:48:58.820 I think you made the right choice.

04:49:00.820 Oh, yeah.

04:49:01.820 I did.

04:49:02.820 And so this was their first time ever meeting in person.

04:49:07.820 Yeah.

04:49:08.820 Were you followed?

04:49:10.820 No, he, I, I honestly don't know.

04:49:13.820 It was so.

04:49:14.820 Yeah.

04:49:15.820 I would say it's small, but it was just like such a crazy, like, oh, it's so bad.

04:49:19.820 So how, so can you, uh, elaborate on the fling gets out of his car and like, do they

04:49:27.820 exchange words?

04:49:28.820 No, he literally just starts.

04:49:30.820 So your boyfriend's in the car, the fling.

04:49:33.820 Yeah.

04:49:34.820 Grab him and drag.

04:49:35.820 Literally just starts punching the shit out of him in the car.

04:49:37.820 Leans through the car went cause the windows were down.

04:49:40.820 It was so crazy.

04:49:41.820 Yeah.

04:49:42.820 It was really bad.

04:49:43.820 Wait.

04:49:44.820 So he's punched the, your boyfriend's in the car.

04:49:46.820 Yeah.

04:49:47.820 And he just like gets like, yes.

04:49:48.820 So do they start, does he get out?

04:49:50.820 Yeah.

04:49:51.820 Yeah.

04:49:52.820 Like trying to pull him out by his feet.

04:49:53.820 And then my boyfriend at the time, like got out of the car and was just like, what the

04:49:57.820 fuck?

04:49:58.820 Like they were just like, cause it was like literally out of nowhere.

04:50:00.820 Like I was like, Oh, this is so weird.

04:50:01.820 Like, why is he like walking to the car right now?

04:50:03.820 Like what?

04:50:04.820 And then he just freaked out.

04:50:06.820 And how long were they fighting for?

04:50:08.820 I don't know.

04:50:09.820 He like probably like 20 minutes and then, yeah, it was a while.

04:50:14.820 There's like this, uh, well, I couldn't do anything because the previous fling, he was

04:50:20.820 like six, four, I think he was a big guy.

04:50:23.820 Wait, the previous ex fling was like six, four, 200.

04:50:26.820 Yeah.

04:50:27.820 He was a big guy.

04:50:28.820 Six, four, 200 pounds.

04:50:29.820 Yeah.

04:50:30.820 He was big.

04:50:31.820 How tall was your boyfriend?

04:50:33.820 Like five, nine, one 45.

04:50:36.820 Holy shit.

04:50:37.820 This is so weird.

04:50:38.820 I know he didn't have, how did the fight last 20 minutes?

04:50:42.820 Well, surprisingly enough, I was freaking out.

04:50:44.820 So I was like screaming the whole time.

04:50:46.820 The flings like walking back to his car.

04:50:48.820 I'm screaming at him.

04:50:49.820 Punching his window, all this stuff.

04:50:51.820 Anyways, my boyfriend at the time had like no marks on him, like nothing.

04:50:54.820 There was not a single scratch on his body.

04:50:56.820 I was really, I don't know.

04:50:58.820 I guess he defended himself.

04:50:59.820 Were they?

04:51:00.820 They were fist fighting, literally punching the shit out of each other.

04:51:02.820 Yes.

04:51:03.820 It wasn't like a little, ooh, no, it was like a full fight.

04:51:06.820 They were fist fighting for 20 minutes.

04:51:08.820 Yeah.

04:51:09.820 This is bullshit.

04:51:10.820 That's a UFC fight.

04:51:11.820 20 minutes?

04:51:12.820 Yeah.

04:51:13.820 Like pulled him up off the ground, slammed him on the concrete.

04:51:15.820 Okay.

04:51:16.820 Hold on.

04:51:17.820 Just think about this.

04:51:18.820 20 minutes.

04:51:19.820 Okay.

04:51:20.820 20 minutes.

04:51:21.820 I might be like, I wasn't timing it.

04:51:22.820 Like I don't really want.

04:51:23.820 There's probably like a one minute.

04:51:24.820 No, it was definitely not a minute.

04:51:25.820 It lasted for a minute.

04:51:26.820 Do you know?

04:51:27.820 Okay.

04:51:28.820 A while.

04:51:29.820 A while.

04:51:30.820 Not like a minute, but like a while.

04:51:31.820 Yeah.

04:51:32.820 They last maybe one minute, two minutes max.

04:51:34.820 Yeah.

04:51:35.820 Like a knockout or like something.

04:51:36.820 Well, yeah, but.

04:51:37.820 A guy gets seriously punched.

04:51:38.820 Like he did not get seriously punched at all.

04:51:40.820 I'm still talking a lot.

04:51:41.820 Going back and forth.

04:51:42.820 I mean, I wrestled in high school.

04:51:44.820 We had, it was three periods.

04:51:46.820 That's like the, that's a UFC match.

04:51:48.820 20 minutes, five minute rounds.

04:51:49.820 Okay.

04:51:50.820 No, but like.

04:51:51.820 That's fucking long.

04:51:52.820 Forgive my exaggeration on timing.

04:51:53.820 Probably like 20 minutes.

04:51:54.820 Max, maybe like five minutes.

04:51:55.820 Maybe five.

04:51:56.820 I wrestled.

04:51:57.820 Yeah, it was probably like six or eight.

04:51:58.820 But in that time, in that moment, it feels like a lifetime.

04:52:00.820 Oh, yeah.

04:52:01.820 It felt super long.

04:52:02.820 But so I wrestled in high school.

04:52:05.820 You'd have three, two minute periods by like, you're already fucking, your gas tank.

04:52:11.820 After three minutes.

04:52:12.820 For most like high school students.

04:52:13.820 Like your gas tank is gone.

04:52:14.820 Yeah.

04:52:15.820 But like, that's like, you're wrestling.

04:52:16.820 This is like fight or flight mode.

04:52:18.820 Would you say?

04:52:19.820 So you would get gassed even quicker because in wrestling, like, I mean, it's still like,

04:52:24.820 it's just as physically.

04:52:25.820 No, that's true.

04:52:26.820 Yeah.

04:52:27.820 But like, you're going to get gassed way faster because you're in fight or flight.

04:52:31.820 Hmm.

04:52:32.820 Most people in a fight are going to, their gas tank is done after probably two minutes.

04:52:36.820 I have no idea.

04:52:37.820 I was not.

04:52:38.820 I'm sorry.

04:52:39.820 There's no way non-trained people are fighting for 20 minutes.

04:52:42.820 Okay.

04:52:43.820 This is probably exaggeration.

04:52:44.820 Forgive me, but.

04:52:45.820 I'm sorry.

04:52:46.820 Am I wrong?

04:52:47.820 It felt like a long time in my perspective.

04:52:48.820 Okay.

04:52:49.820 That's fine.

04:52:50.820 That's fine.

04:52:51.820 It was very scary.

04:52:52.820 Time dilation, dilution.

04:52:53.820 Whatever.

04:52:54.820 I felt very bad.

04:52:55.820 In any case, who won the fight?

04:52:56.820 I wouldn't say that anyone won.

04:52:57.820 It like, wasn't like a win.

04:52:58.820 I would just, I don't even.

04:52:59.820 Were they hitting each other with their purses?

04:53:02.820 That's what I thought.

04:53:03.820 I swear.

04:53:04.820 Cause I literally.

04:53:05.820 No.

04:53:06.820 Nothing on my ex-boyfriend.

04:53:07.820 Or yeah.

04:53:08.820 My most recent ex-boyfriend.

04:53:09.820 There was nothing on him.

04:53:10.820 It's not a purse.

04:53:11.820 It's a.

04:53:12.820 Satchel.

04:53:13.820 Yeah.

04:53:14.820 Indiana Jones wears one.

04:53:15.820 Yeah.

04:53:16.820 There was no marks or anything.

04:53:17.820 So I was very confused.

04:53:18.820 It was like really intense.

04:53:19.820 Like on concrete too.

04:53:20.820 A 600 or 200 pound guy wasn't able to.

04:53:22.820 I know.

04:53:23.820 That's what I thought.

04:53:24.820 Like threw him on the ground.

04:53:25.820 A couple times.

04:53:26.820 Okay.

04:53:27.820 He was fine.

04:53:28.820 And they're exchanging punches?

04:53:29.820 Yes.

04:53:30.820 Yeah.

04:53:31.820 Okay.

04:53:32.820 Yeah.

04:53:33.820 All right.

04:53:34.820 No, I believe it.

04:53:35.820 Just.

04:53:36.820 They just have bad aim.

04:53:37.820 I don't know.

04:53:38.820 I couldn't tell you.

04:53:39.820 I kind of walked out in that moment.

04:53:40.820 It's like matrix with the punches.

04:53:41.820 Yeah.

04:53:42.820 It's just things.

04:53:43.820 Do it again.

04:53:44.820 Bullet time.

04:53:45.820 Yeah.

04:53:46.820 Bullet time.

04:53:47.820 Okay.

04:53:48.820 That's crazy.

04:53:49.820 Mm hmm.

04:53:50.820 Um.

04:53:51.820 I feel like.

04:53:52.820 As a guy.

04:53:53.820 Why?

04:53:54.820 Like if a girl doesn't want to date you.

04:53:56.820 It's like.

04:53:57.820 So.

04:53:58.820 Yeah.

04:53:59.820 He took it really hard.

04:54:00.820 Aw.

04:54:01.820 He's in a relationship now though.

04:54:02.820 Right after me.

04:54:03.820 He found a girl.

04:54:04.820 And he's been with her for like over a year and a half.

04:54:06.820 So good for him.

04:54:07.820 He found this person.

04:54:08.820 Does he.

04:54:09.820 What was.

04:54:10.820 Like.

04:54:11.820 I don't know if you talked to him afterwards.

04:54:12.820 What was his.

04:54:13.820 Like.

04:54:14.820 Does he feel.

04:54:15.820 He could have been totally wrong.

04:54:16.820 But did he feel like.

04:54:17.820 Yeah.

04:54:18.820 You cheated on him.

04:54:19.820 It was more of like.

04:54:20.820 We were very close.

04:54:21.820 And I like.

04:54:22.820 Opened my family up to him.

04:54:23.820 Since he has like a hard family life.

04:54:24.820 And he felt like.

04:54:25.820 That this new guy like.

04:54:26.820 Took his like.

04:54:27.820 Family away from him.

04:54:28.820 Type thing.

04:54:29.820 If that makes sense.

04:54:30.820 And you guys were what.

04:54:31.820 17.

04:54:32.820 18.

04:54:33.820 Or something.

04:54:34.820 Yeah.

04:54:35.820 I was 17.

04:54:36.820 I think.

04:54:37.820 Okay.

04:54:38.820 Yeah.

04:54:39.820 It was.

04:54:40.820 It was really not that deep.

04:54:41.820 It was not for a long time.

04:54:42.820 But like.

04:54:43.820 I don't know.

04:54:44.820 Emotions took over.

04:54:45.820 I guess.

04:54:46.820 He was coming over and helping.

04:54:47.820 He was just like walking slow.

04:54:48.820 And then.

04:54:49.820 Started getting close to the car.

04:54:50.820 And I was like.

04:54:51.820 Okay.

04:54:52.820 He's picking up some speed.

04:54:53.820 Okay.

04:54:54.820 He's reaching his arms in the car.

04:54:55.820 What the fuck.

04:54:56.820 Oh man.

04:54:57.820 That's crazy.

04:54:58.820 It was bad.

04:54:59.820 Did you tell your.

04:55:00.820 The guy.

04:55:01.820 Like how.

04:55:02.820 Like.

04:55:03.820 So.

04:55:04.820 I was just like.

04:55:05.820 Like.

04:55:06.820 Roll the window up.

04:55:07.820 Like roll it up.

04:55:08.820 It was the.

04:55:09.820 The hand crank.

04:55:10.820 Yes.

04:55:11.820 He was fucked.

04:55:12.820 It was just.

04:55:13.820 It happened all so fast.

04:55:14.820 Like.

04:55:15.820 It was his car.

04:55:16.820 Yeah.

04:55:17.820 It was his car.

04:55:18.820 So he was in the driver's seat.

04:55:19.820 Drink that shit bro.

04:55:20.820 Yeah.

04:55:21.820 He was in like the worst position.

04:55:22.820 I felt so bad.

04:55:23.820 I genuinely thought he was never gonna talk to me again after that.

04:55:26.820 How long did you date.

04:55:27.820 After that.

04:55:28.820 Like.

04:55:29.820 Basically a year.

04:55:30.820 Oh.

04:55:31.820 Okay.

04:55:32.820 Yeah.

04:55:33.820 That's intense man.

04:55:34.820 Did you fold his laundry afterwards.

04:55:36.820 Oh.

04:55:37.820 But.

04:55:38.820 I probably did.

04:55:39.820 I did everything.

04:55:40.820 So.

04:55:41.820 Damn.

04:55:42.820 Probably.

04:55:43.820 That's good.

04:55:44.820 Yeah.

04:55:45.820 What was wrong with the other.

04:55:46.820 Man bro.

04:55:47.820 That's.

04:55:48.820 That's.

04:55:49.820 I know.

04:55:50.820 I never really figured it out quite.

04:55:51.820 You can't be that pressed about.

04:55:52.820 Mm hmm.

04:55:53.820 You can't.

04:55:54.820 Yeah.

04:55:55.820 That's weird too.

04:55:56.820 I don't know.

04:55:57.820 Anyways.

04:55:58.820 You said that.

04:55:59.820 You think that in a relationship your partner.

04:56:01.820 Well we can.

04:56:02.820 Can.

04:56:03.820 Yeah.

04:56:04.820 We already talked about this.

04:56:05.820 I have friends of their choice.

04:56:06.820 Even if they are the opposite gender.

04:56:07.820 So are you.

04:56:08.820 Do you agree with your friend here.

04:56:09.820 Like kind of bad look.

04:56:10.820 Or are you more okay with it.

04:56:11.820 I understand it.

04:56:12.820 Like from my boyfriend's perspective now.

04:56:14.820 He has friends from high school.

04:56:16.820 Yeah.

04:56:17.820 Like from his hometown.

04:56:18.820 Like girls that he's known for like years.

04:56:19.820 So like what am I gonna say.

04:56:20.820 Like oh you can't be friends.

04:56:21.820 I would think it's weird if they hung out.

04:56:23.820 Sure.

04:56:24.820 Cause I've seen.

04:56:25.820 Whatever.

04:56:26.820 But like they've talked at like parties and stuff.

04:56:27.820 And they're super respectful towards me.

04:56:28.820 They're not gonna like do anything weird.

04:56:30.820 Hmm.

04:56:31.820 And they're like very engaging with me.

04:56:32.820 And like nice to me.

04:56:33.820 So I'm like okay.

04:56:34.820 Like be friends with them.

04:56:35.820 I don't really care.

04:56:36.820 Sure.

04:56:37.820 For me like I guess it's like.

04:56:38.820 I don't know.

04:56:39.820 He's very protective.

04:56:40.820 So from his.

04:56:41.820 Like perspective.

04:56:42.820 It's like.

04:56:43.820 He really doesn't like guys.

04:56:44.820 But.

04:56:45.820 It's not like a controlling thing.

04:56:46.820 Okay.

04:56:47.820 Like I get it.

04:56:48.820 I understand.

04:56:49.820 Alright.

04:56:50.820 And then Ria.

04:56:51.820 Ria.

04:56:52.820 You said.

04:56:53.820 On and off situation ship for three years.

04:56:55.820 Ex boyfriend.

04:56:56.820 I met in Cabo.

04:56:58.820 Ended up doing long distance for two months.

04:57:00.820 Cheated on you.

04:57:01.820 Uh.

04:57:02.820 Is that the on and off situation ship.

04:57:04.820 Or that's a different kind.

04:57:05.820 That's a different one.

04:57:06.820 Tell us about the on and off situation ship.

04:57:08.820 Literally just how it sounds.

04:57:10.820 Just on and off.

04:57:11.820 Yeah.

04:57:12.820 Was it on and off.

04:57:13.820 What do you mean.

04:57:14.820 Like how many times were there breaks.

04:57:16.820 Oh.

04:57:17.820 Three times.

04:57:18.820 Four times.

04:57:19.820 Five times.

04:57:20.820 Countless.

04:57:21.820 Yeah.

04:57:22.820 20.

04:57:23.820 Too many to count.

04:57:24.820 I don't know.

04:57:25.820 Too many.

04:57:26.820 Yeah.

04:57:27.820 What was the longest break.

04:57:28.820 Oh.

04:57:29.820 Like.

04:57:30.820 Three months.

04:57:31.820 Three months.

04:57:32.820 Yeah.

04:57:33.820 Three years situation ship.

04:57:34.820 Yeah.

04:57:35.820 So like what.

04:57:36.820 15 to.

04:57:37.820 Like.

04:57:38.820 Yeah.

04:57:39.820 No, no, no.

04:57:40.820 16 to like.

04:57:41.820 Recently.

04:57:42.820 Now.

04:57:43.820 Yeah.

04:57:44.820 Oh wait.

04:57:45.820 Hold on.

04:57:46.820 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:57:47.820 You said you've been single for a year.

04:57:49.820 Yeah.

04:57:50.820 I have been.

04:57:51.820 When's the last time you saw your situation ship.

04:57:54.820 Mmm.

04:57:55.820 Like.

04:57:56.820 Two months ago.

04:57:57.820 Hold up.

04:57:58.820 It's.

04:57:59.820 That's why it's called a situation ship.

04:58:01.820 Not a relationship.

04:58:02.820 Shit.

04:58:03.820 Uh.

04:58:04.820 What.

04:58:05.820 Oh yeah.

04:58:06.820 I'm super proud of it.

04:58:07.820 Like what.

04:58:08.820 Uh.

04:58:09.820 Wait.

04:58:10.820 So.

04:58:11.820 What was the nature of the hangout with the situation ship.

04:58:16.820 Two months ago.

04:58:17.820 Just like hanging out.

04:58:19.820 You know.

04:58:20.820 Sneaky link.

04:58:21.820 Yeah.

04:58:22.820 Sneaky link.

04:58:23.820 Okay.

04:58:24.820 And so.

04:58:25.820 But it ended.

04:58:28.820 Yeah.

04:58:29.820 You guys can get back together.

04:58:30.820 No.

04:58:31.820 Or is it donezo.

04:58:32.820 Done.

04:58:33.820 Done.

04:58:34.820 Okay.

04:58:35.820 You said.

04:58:36.820 You guys would be on again.

04:58:37.820 Off again.

04:58:38.820 Dozens.

04:58:39.820 Fair to say.

04:58:40.820 Dozens of times.

04:58:41.820 Yeah.

04:58:42.820 Okay.

04:58:43.820 More often than not.

04:58:44.820 Who's initiating the break.

04:58:45.820 You or him.

04:58:46.820 Or is it equal.

04:58:47.820 Be honest.

04:58:48.820 Mmm.

04:58:49.820 Probably him.

04:58:50.820 Why?

04:58:51.820 I don't know.

04:58:52.820 What kind of crazy shit you doing.

04:58:54.820 Can't say.

04:58:56.820 No.

04:58:57.820 I'm not that crazy.

04:58:58.820 I'm not that crazy.

04:58:59.820 You're not that crazy.

04:59:00.820 Yeah.

04:59:01.820 All right.

04:59:02.820 Killed his whole family.

04:59:03.820 What.

04:59:04.820 What.

04:59:05.820 So.

04:59:06.820 What does he tell you.

04:59:07.820 Because I know some.

04:59:08.820 Like.

04:59:09.820 What does he say when he breaks it off.

04:59:10.820 Like.

04:59:11.820 Typically people will say.

04:59:12.820 You did this.

04:59:13.820 What.

04:59:14.820 It'll just be like.

04:59:15.820 Like.

04:59:16.820 I tell him that I have feelings for him.

04:59:17.820 And it's like.

04:59:18.820 Oh.

04:59:19.820 Deeper than what he thinks it is.

04:59:20.820 And then like.

04:59:21.820 He'll be like.

04:59:22.820 Okay.

04:59:23.820 Like.

04:59:24.820 I feel like.

04:59:25.820 Yeah.

04:59:26.820 So he's like.

04:59:27.820 Be free.

04:59:28.820 Yeah.

04:59:29.820 Pretty much.

04:59:30.820 We have a button for this.

04:59:31.820 Hold on.

04:59:32.820 Let me see if I can find it.

04:59:33.820 Um.

04:59:34.820 But for now.

04:59:35.820 This wild buck has to roam free.

04:59:37.820 Or he will die.

04:59:38.820 Okay.

04:59:39.820 Yeah.

04:59:40.820 Uh.

04:59:41.820 Yeah.

04:59:42.820 So.

04:59:43.820 Um.

04:59:44.820 So that's it.

04:59:45.820 Yeah.

04:59:46.820 But are you like.

04:59:47.820 Jeff.

04:59:48.820 Cause.

04:59:49.820 Okay.

04:59:50.820 He sees other girls.

04:59:51.820 Is that part of the.

04:59:52.820 Oh.

04:59:53.820 Well.

04:59:54.820 Right.

04:59:55.820 Sometimes we would be like.

04:59:56.820 Make it like an exclusive thing.

04:59:58.820 But it wasn't.

04:59:59.820 Well.

05:00:00.820 At least he said.

05:00:01.820 Yeah.

05:00:02.820 Yeah.

05:00:03.820 Did he ever cheat on you?

05:00:04.820 Well.

05:00:05.820 We weren't dating.

05:00:06.820 Okay.

05:00:07.820 But like.

05:00:08.820 Yeah.

05:00:09.820 I guess so.

05:00:10.820 But you'd be like.

05:00:11.820 No.

05:00:12.820 No.

05:00:13.820 I really like you.

05:00:14.820 I want to be exclusive.

05:00:15.820 Yeah.

05:00:16.820 And there were periods where he would give you that.

05:00:17.820 Yeah.

05:00:18.820 But then other periods.

05:00:19.820 Where he was like.

05:00:20.820 No.

05:00:21.820 Yeah.

05:00:22.820 Pretty much.

05:00:23.820 Yeah.

05:00:24.820 And.

05:00:25.820 Um.

05:00:26.820 So he would.

05:00:27.820 Be like.

05:00:28.820 But would you be acting kind of jealous?

05:00:29.820 Or like.

05:00:30.820 What the fuck?

05:00:31.820 Who's this?

05:00:32.820 Yeah.

05:00:33.820 What are these looks for?

05:00:35.820 Your friend's giving you away here a little bit.

05:00:37.820 Yeah.

05:00:38.820 So like how.

05:00:39.820 Like you'd go through his phone?

05:00:40.820 No.

05:00:41.820 No.

05:00:42.820 Never?

05:00:43.820 It would just be like.

05:00:44.820 Okay.

05:00:45.820 We weren't dating.

05:00:46.820 So it's like.

05:00:47.820 Can you take the mic down just a tad.

05:00:48.820 And try to skid to the table just a bit.

05:00:49.820 But.

05:00:50.820 Go on.

05:00:51.820 Continue.

05:00:52.820 Um.

05:00:53.820 We weren't dating.

05:00:54.820 So like.

05:00:55.820 I just didn't feel like I had the responsibility to like.

05:00:56.820 Be able to do that.

05:00:57.820 But like.

05:00:58.820 If I would hear that he would do something with someone else.

05:00:59.820 I'd be like.

05:01:00.820 Because you wanted him.

05:01:01.820 I mean.

05:01:02.820 That's reasonable.

05:01:03.820 Yeah.

05:01:04.820 Exactly.

05:01:05.820 Like you wanted to be with him.

05:01:06.820 Between you being able to lock down insecure.

05:01:08.820 Uh.

05:01:09.820 Committed long term serious relationship.

05:01:11.820 Um.

05:01:12.820 How many.

05:01:13.820 Over the course of this three year situationship.

05:01:14.820 How many.

05:01:15.820 I mean.

05:01:16.820 If you know a number.

05:01:17.820 How many other girls were in the picture?

05:01:21.820 Um.

05:01:22.820 I don't know.

05:01:23.820 It was just like.

05:01:24.820 It wasn't like.

05:01:25.820 A constant thing there.

05:01:26.820 Where he would like.

05:01:27.820 Hang out with like someone specifically.

05:01:28.820 That you knew about.

05:01:29.820 It would just be like.

05:01:30.820 Well.

05:01:31.820 No.

05:01:32.820 It was just like.

05:01:33.820 Oh.

05:01:34.820 I heard he like.

05:01:35.820 And like.

05:01:36.820 I would be like.

05:01:37.820 Well.

05:01:38.820 Yeah.

05:01:39.820 You know.

05:01:40.820 And you wanted a relationship.

05:01:41.820 Yeah.

05:01:42.820 But he didn't.

05:01:43.820 Yeah.

05:01:44.820 And so.

05:01:45.820 So.

05:01:46.820 Okay.

05:01:47.820 He would break up with.

05:01:48.820 Did you ever break up with him?

05:01:49.820 Or was it him always breaking up with you?

05:01:50.820 No.

05:01:51.820 One time I did.

05:01:52.820 One time you did.

05:01:53.820 After he.

05:01:54.820 I found out he kissed someone.

05:01:55.820 I was like.

05:01:56.820 70 times.

05:01:57.820 He.

05:01:58.820 He ended things with you.

05:01:59.820 Yeah.

05:02:00.820 Okay.

05:02:01.820 And so.

05:02:02.820 Would he.

05:02:03.820 Uh.

05:02:04.820 I want to say probably.

05:02:05.820 It was probably mostly me.

05:02:06.820 There was like a few times where it would be him.

05:02:08.820 Yeah.

05:02:09.820 She's down bad for this guy.

05:02:10.820 She is.

05:02:11.820 I know.

05:02:12.820 I know bro.

05:02:13.820 Um.

05:02:14.820 Okay.

05:02:15.820 And uh.

05:02:16.820 Graffito tagged donated $69.69.

05:02:19.820 Yeah.

05:02:20.820 Thank you man.

05:02:21.820 Great float of the show right now.

05:02:23.820 Yeah.

05:02:24.820 More chill show.

05:02:25.820 On an unrelated note.

05:02:26.820 Any of you girls waiting to say.

05:02:28.820 You didn't know it was gonna last this long.

05:02:30.820 And have kids you need to get home too.

05:02:32.820 Hmm.

05:02:34.820 Yo.

05:02:35.820 Graffito.

05:02:36.820 Thank you for the $69 TTS man.

05:02:37.820 Really appreciate it.

05:02:38.820 Good to see you back in the chat man.

05:02:39.820 Thank you.

05:02:40.820 Thank you.

05:02:41.820 Who.

05:02:42.820 Does anybody here have kids?

05:02:43.820 No.

05:02:44.820 Nobody?

05:02:45.820 Yeah.

05:02:46.820 I have four.

05:02:47.820 I have four.

05:02:48.820 Damn.

05:02:49.820 She started.

05:02:50.820 Amazing.

05:02:51.820 Um.

05:02:52.820 Wait.

05:02:53.820 So.

05:02:54.820 Okay.

05:02:55.820 Going back to you.

05:02:56.820 Uh.

05:02:57.820 So.

05:02:58.820 You would go back to him.

05:02:59.820 Yeah.

05:03:00.820 So he would break off.

05:03:01.820 Break it off.

05:03:02.820 And then.

05:03:03.820 But.

05:03:04.820 So.

05:03:05.820 Would.

05:03:06.820 When he broke it off.

05:03:07.820 Would it be a text?

05:03:08.820 Would it be in person?

05:03:09.820 Would it be a call?

05:03:10.820 All of the above?

05:03:11.820 Um.

05:03:12.820 Yeah.

05:03:13.820 I guess.

05:03:14.820 I don't know.

05:03:15.820 Yeah.

05:03:16.820 It wouldn't be like break it off.

05:03:17.820 Maybe like.

05:03:18.820 Can we go through the text messages?

05:03:19.820 Maybe all the reasons.

05:03:20.820 Like.

05:03:21.820 He broke up.

05:03:22.820 No.

05:03:23.820 Okay.

05:03:24.820 And so.

05:03:25.820 He would break it off.

05:03:26.820 And then three days would go by.

05:03:27.820 And then you'd be like.

05:03:28.820 Babe.

05:03:29.820 I miss you.

05:03:30.820 I promise I won't be so jealous anymore.

05:03:32.820 Something similar to that.

05:03:33.820 Can I come over?

05:03:34.820 Let me.

05:03:35.820 I want to come over.

05:03:36.820 Yeah.

05:03:37.820 Something similar.

05:03:38.820 Been there.

05:03:39.820 Done that.

05:03:40.820 Yeah.

05:03:41.820 And so.

05:03:42.820 Uh.

05:03:43.820 Okay.

05:03:44.820 And he.

05:03:45.820 If you had to like.

05:03:46.820 Try to estimate the number.

05:03:47.820 How many times was it.

05:03:48.820 On.

05:03:49.820 Uh.

05:03:50.820 Off and on.

05:03:51.820 How many breaks were there?

05:03:52.820 Maybe like.

05:03:53.820 Like.

05:03:54.820 Four.

05:03:55.820 We would.

05:03:56.820 It would be like.

05:03:57.820 Yeah.

05:03:58.820 Did you say it doesn't?

05:03:59.820 Okay.

05:04:00.820 No.

05:04:01.820 But it would just.

05:04:02.820 Like seriously.

05:04:03.820 Like that only happened a few times.

05:04:05.820 And then we would just like.

05:04:06.820 Go back to each other.

05:04:07.820 Wait.

05:04:08.820 So.

05:04:09.820 It would.

05:04:10.820 When you say that though.

05:04:11.820 Tell me if my interpretation is correct.

05:04:13.820 So.

05:04:14.820 It would be.

05:04:15.820 It would move into the realm of like.

05:04:17.820 Oh.

05:04:18.820 I'm committed to you.

05:04:19.820 And then he's like.

05:04:20.820 But I want to see other girls.

05:04:21.820 So I'll keep seeing you.

05:04:22.820 So it's not an official break.

05:04:24.820 But you've been downgraded.

05:04:26.820 To.

05:04:27.820 No longer exclusive.

05:04:28.820 Is that a fair.

05:04:29.820 So you're not technically broken up.

05:04:32.820 But you're not.

05:04:33.820 It wasn't even like.

05:04:34.820 Getting exclusivity.

05:04:35.820 It wasn't even like.

05:04:36.820 He wanted to see other people.

05:04:37.820 It was just like.

05:04:38.820 He just didn't want to be in a relationship with me.

05:04:40.820 You know.

05:04:41.820 Right.

05:04:42.820 But it's like.

05:04:43.820 He liked whatever we had going on.

05:04:44.820 Even though.

05:04:45.820 It.

05:04:46.820 No label.

05:04:47.820 Yeah.

05:04:48.820 Okay.

05:04:49.820 So he wanted to keep you around for sex.

05:04:52.820 Just to hang out.

05:04:53.820 You know.

05:04:54.820 Would you guys go on dates?

05:04:56.820 No.

05:04:57.820 What was the nature of.

05:04:58.820 When you guys did hang out.

05:04:59.820 What was the nature of the hangouts?

05:05:01.820 Like.

05:05:02.820 Like sneaky link.

05:05:04.820 Type.

05:05:05.820 Was it typically late at night?

05:05:06.820 Yeah.

05:05:07.820 Was he.

05:05:08.820 Drunk.

05:05:09.820 Typically.

05:05:10.820 Mmm.

05:05:11.820 We would drink like together.

05:05:12.820 Sometimes.

05:05:13.820 Yeah.

05:05:14.820 Would it be on like weekends.

05:05:15.820 Friday.

05:05:16.820 Saturday.

05:05:17.820 Yeah.

05:05:18.820 Yeah.

05:05:19.820 Yeah.

05:05:20.820 Yeah.

05:05:21.820 Tuesdays.

05:05:22.820 No.

05:05:23.820 Wednesdays.

05:05:24.820 No.

05:05:25.820 No.

05:05:26.820 No.

05:05:27.820 No.

05:05:28.820 No.

05:05:29.820 Yeah.

05:05:30.820 Girl.

05:05:31.820 You got to run.

05:05:32.820 I know.

05:05:33.820 I know.

05:05:34.820 I did.

05:05:35.820 Hmm.

05:05:36.820 And.

05:05:37.820 So.

05:05:38.820 Would you hit him up?

05:05:39.820 Or would he hit you up?

05:05:40.820 Or both?

05:05:41.820 Both.

05:05:42.820 Yeah.

05:05:43.820 Around what time of night would he.

05:05:44.820 Oh God.

05:05:45.820 Send you the.

05:05:46.820 W.Y.

05:05:47.820 He wouldn't even write it out entirely.

05:05:48.820 It was just.

05:05:49.820 W.Y.D.

05:05:50.820 What you doing.

05:05:51.820 Yeah.

05:05:52.820 It's like the peach and then the like phone emoji.

05:05:54.820 Oh.

05:05:55.820 No.

05:05:56.820 I'm joking.

05:05:57.820 I'm joking.

05:05:58.820 I'm joking.

05:05:59.820 I'm joking.

05:06:00.820 Damn.

05:06:01.820 That's.

05:06:02.820 That's crazy.

05:06:03.820 No.

05:06:04.820 Yeah.

05:06:05.820 Like come over.

05:06:06.820 It would.

05:06:07.820 Just like come over.

05:06:08.820 That's it.

05:06:09.820 Well.

05:06:10.820 Yeah.

05:06:11.820 So yeah.

05:06:12.820 Pretty much.

05:06:13.820 Or like what are you doing.

05:06:14.820 Exactly.

05:06:15.820 The.

05:06:16.820 W.Y.D.

05:06:17.820 So.

05:06:18.820 How tall was he?

05:06:19.820 Like 6'1".

05:06:20.820 Yeah.

05:06:21.820 She hates that.

05:06:22.820 No Riz.

05:06:24.820 Nerdy.

05:06:25.820 No.

05:06:26.820 Athlete.

05:06:27.820 No.

05:06:28.820 Fat.

05:06:29.820 No.

05:06:30.820 Fat.

05:06:31.820 No.

05:06:32.820 Just curious.

05:06:33.820 What.

05:06:34.820 What about him.

05:06:36.820 Were you so drawn to.

05:06:38.820 I don't know.

05:06:39.820 I couldn't tell you.

05:06:40.820 Was it your first.

05:06:41.820 No.

05:06:42.820 Yeah.

05:06:43.820 I don't know.

05:06:44.820 It just lasted too long.

05:06:46.820 So.

05:06:47.820 Hmm.

05:06:48.820 Yeah.

05:06:49.820 Um.

05:06:50.820 Yeah.

05:06:51.820 How many.

05:06:52.820 Uh.

05:06:53.820 What's the most amount of times.

05:06:55.820 You texted him in a row.

05:06:56.820 Before you responded.

05:07:01.820 Hmm.

05:07:02.820 I don't know.

05:07:03.820 Like three.

05:07:06.820 Your friends are giving you away a little bit.

05:07:08.820 No.

05:07:09.820 Okay.

05:07:10.820 I wouldn't.

05:07:11.820 I don't think I would like.

05:07:12.820 Act like text like hella shit.

05:07:13.820 Unless I was mad about something.

05:07:14.820 Then it could have been more than that.

05:07:16.820 Frequently mad.

05:07:17.820 About things.

05:07:18.820 Hmm.

05:07:19.820 Hmm.

05:07:20.820 Interesting.

05:07:24.820 Sons of Liberty donated $69.

05:07:27.820 Are you voting for Trump or Q Marla.

05:07:30.820 If Q Marla.

05:07:31.820 Name one reason.

05:07:33.820 Besides abortion.

05:07:34.820 By the way.

05:07:35.820 Q Marla slept with married men to get ahead.

05:07:38.820 Hmm.

05:07:39.820 Trump 2024.

05:07:40.820 I guess we could go around the table really quick.

05:07:42.820 On that.

05:07:43.820 That.

05:07:44.820 Um.

05:07:45.820 Yo.

05:07:46.820 Rattlesnake TVs in the chat.

05:07:47.820 What's up man.

05:07:48.820 What's up Jake.

05:07:49.820 Um.

05:07:50.820 Oh.

05:07:51.820 Daryl underscore Frank Castle 512 donated $69.

05:07:54.820 Brian.

05:07:55.820 She wasn't a sneaky link.

05:07:57.820 She was a side BTCH.

05:07:59.820 He only hit her up on weekends when he would tell his wife.

05:08:02.820 He was going out with the boys.

05:08:04.820 That's exactly what happened.

05:08:06.820 I mean.

05:08:07.820 He was what 19.

05:08:08.820 19.

05:08:09.820 Your age right.

05:08:10.820 No like 18.

05:08:11.820 Oh yeah.

05:08:12.820 I don't think he has a wife but.

05:08:13.820 Probably.

05:08:14.820 I mean.

05:08:15.820 Sneaky link.

05:08:16.820 I mean.

05:08:17.820 I don't know.

05:08:18.820 Uh.

05:08:19.820 And then.

05:08:20.820 Going back to the Sons of Liberty question.

05:08:21.820 Who just.

05:08:22.820 He.

05:08:23.820 Hey.

05:08:24.820 They ask.

05:08:25.820 We got to respond.

05:08:26.820 Who you voting for.

05:08:27.820 Trump or Kamala.

05:08:28.820 I'm voting for Kamala but because she's doing $25,000 down payment on new buyers of homes.

05:08:35.820 Well.

05:08:36.820 She can get it passed but.

05:08:37.820 Yeah.

05:08:38.820 Yeah.

05:08:39.820 No comment.

05:08:40.820 That's.

05:08:41.820 That's a Kamala vote right there.

05:08:42.820 Uh.

05:08:43.820 Trump.

05:08:44.820 Oh.

05:08:45.820 Trump.

05:08:46.820 Really.

05:08:47.820 Oh.

05:08:48.820 Okay.

05:08:49.820 I'm not registered to vote so.

05:08:50.820 Well.

05:08:51.820 Let's just say you were registered.

05:08:52.820 Yeah.

05:08:53.820 I'm not answering that.

05:08:54.820 I don't know.

05:08:55.820 It's okay.

05:08:56.820 I mean.

05:08:57.820 Just get a little closer.

05:08:58.820 Oh.

05:08:59.820 Not voting.

05:09:00.820 Not voting.

05:09:01.820 You don't believe in democracy.

05:09:02.820 Exactly.

05:09:03.820 Uh.

05:09:04.820 Seth Van Focorn natural donated $69.

05:09:07.820 No.

05:09:08.820 Disavow.

05:09:09.820 Disavow.

05:09:10.820 Do not do that.

05:09:11.820 Wham bam.

05:09:12.820 Don't do that.

05:09:13.820 Wham bam right.

05:09:14.820 Game ovaries.

05:09:15.820 Ha ha ha.

05:09:16.820 Throwback to our stream.

05:09:17.820 I like that.

05:09:18.820 That's funny.

05:09:19.820 Uh.

05:09:20.820 Okay.

05:09:21.820 Don't punch women in the vagina please.

05:09:23.820 That's not.

05:09:24.820 Unless she asks you to.

05:09:26.820 Hmm.

05:09:27.820 But.

05:09:28.820 This thing is a thing.

05:09:29.820 I don't know if I would be okay with.

05:09:31.820 Even if a girl asked me.

05:09:32.820 I don't.

05:09:33.820 I'm not into like.

05:09:34.820 The.

05:09:35.820 What's it called?

05:09:36.820 The.

05:09:37.820 Sadism.

05:09:38.820 Sadism.

05:09:39.820 Sadism.

05:09:40.820 Or the.

05:09:41.820 It's not my vibe.

05:09:42.820 What is it called?

05:09:43.820 It's not BDSM.

05:09:44.820 Oh.

05:09:45.820 Masochism.

05:09:46.820 It's masochism.

05:09:47.820 Yeah.

05:09:48.820 I'm not really.

05:09:49.820 I'm not into that.

05:09:50.820 Uh.

05:09:51.820 Okay.

05:09:52.820 What about you?

05:09:53.820 Trump.

05:09:54.820 Trump.

05:09:55.820 Well.

05:09:56.820 If you were American.

05:09:57.820 You asked the Aussie.

05:09:58.820 Um.

05:09:59.820 Trump I guess.

05:10:00.820 Yeah.

05:10:01.820 I'd probably go for Trump to be honest.

05:10:02.820 Yeah.

05:10:03.820 Alright.

05:10:04.820 Wow.

05:10:05.820 That's a pretty.

05:10:06.820 That's a pretty heavy excuse.

05:10:07.820 Alright.

05:10:08.820 That's a barometer for.

05:10:09.820 What about you?

05:10:10.820 Uh.

05:10:11.820 Honestly.

05:10:12.820 I gotta.

05:10:13.820 I gotta.

05:10:14.820 Gotta go with Trump.

05:10:17.820 Yeah.

05:10:18.820 I gotta go with Trump.

05:10:19.820 Um.

05:10:20.820 He's not my favorite politician.

05:10:23.820 Uh.

05:10:24.820 There's.

05:10:25.820 I have criticisms.

05:10:26.820 But.

05:10:27.820 Over Kamala.

05:10:28.820 Yeah.

05:10:29.820 Definitely Trump.

05:10:30.820 Definitely Trump.

05:10:31.820 Uh.

05:10:32.820 Anyways.

05:10:33.820 Okay.

05:10:34.820 Uh.

05:10:35.820 There you have it folks.

05:10:36.820 And I'm also.

05:10:37.820 You know what.

05:10:38.820 Fuck.

05:10:39.820 I'm going to write in.

05:10:42.820 Chess bra.

05:10:43.820 To be president.

05:10:44.820 I'm writing him in.

05:10:46.820 The vote for aesthetics.

05:10:47.820 President.

05:10:48.820 Aesthetics.

05:10:49.820 Okay.

05:10:50.820 Um.

05:10:51.820 Wait.

05:10:52.820 Going back to your thing.

05:10:53.820 So.

05:10:54.820 I won't interrogate you for too much longer.

05:10:56.820 My man.

05:10:57.820 Chess bra.

05:10:58.820 We're all gonna make it.

05:11:00.820 The world will be a much more aesthetic place.

05:11:02.820 Way more aesthetic.

05:11:03.820 Make America aesthetic.

05:11:04.820 There you go.

05:11:05.820 No voting allowed for people.

05:11:06.820 America aesthetic.

05:11:07.820 No voting allowed for people.

05:11:08.820 Not on the subject.

05:11:09.820 They have to be under a certain body fat.

05:11:11.820 Fuck.

05:11:12.820 I'm gonna lose my vote then.

05:11:13.820 Shit.

05:11:15.820 Shit.

05:11:16.820 Uh.

05:11:17.820 So.

05:11:18.820 Okay.

05:11:19.820 I had a good question for this.

05:11:21.820 Um.

05:11:22.820 Oh.

05:11:23.820 Uh.

05:11:24.820 Okay.

05:11:25.820 So it was like four times you guys were.

05:11:26.820 Yeah.

05:11:27.820 Oh.

05:11:28.820 Yeah.

05:11:29.820 So it's been two months since you've last seen him.

05:11:30.820 Yeah.

05:11:31.820 So he ended things.

05:11:32.820 Maybe three months.

05:11:33.820 Yeah.

05:11:34.820 Um.

05:11:35.820 Yeah.

05:11:36.820 As of right now.

05:11:37.820 Have you reached.

05:11:38.820 Question though.

05:11:39.820 After it ended.

05:11:40.820 Did you reach out to him?

05:11:42.820 Uh.

05:11:43.820 Okay.

05:11:44.820 Well we.

05:11:45.820 Didn't really like.

05:11:46.820 Have a discussion.

05:11:47.820 We just kind of like.

05:11:48.820 Just didn't hang out.

05:11:49.820 Or didn't talk.

05:11:50.820 Hmm.

05:11:51.820 But yeah.

05:11:52.820 I guess.

05:11:53.820 You texted him.

05:11:54.820 Yeah.

05:11:55.820 And he didn't respond.

05:11:56.820 Yeah.

05:11:57.820 No.

05:11:58.820 He did respond.

05:11:59.820 Oh he did.

05:12:00.820 Yeah.

05:12:01.820 And he said.

05:12:02.820 Well I didn't like.

05:12:03.820 I didn't.

05:12:04.820 It wasn't like a.

05:12:05.820 Like oh what are we type of conversation.

05:12:06.820 It would just be like.

05:12:07.820 Oh like.

05:12:08.820 What are you up to.

05:12:09.820 You know.

05:12:10.820 Like what are you up to.

05:12:11.820 Let's hook up.

05:12:12.820 Or just.

05:12:13.820 No no no no no.

05:12:14.820 Oh.

05:12:15.820 Just like.

05:12:16.820 Well he lives somewhere else.

05:12:17.820 So like I was just.

05:12:18.820 Somewhere else.

05:12:19.820 Oh.

05:12:20.820 Yeah.

05:12:21.820 Well you moved here.

05:12:22.820 Is that part of it.

05:12:23.820 Yeah.

05:12:24.820 Oh well that kind of explains it.

05:12:25.820 A little bit then.

05:12:26.820 And then he.

05:12:27.820 Uh.

05:12:28.820 Wait so.

05:12:29.820 You said.

05:12:30.820 What's up.

05:12:31.820 How's it going.

05:12:32.820 Yeah.

05:12:33.820 And he didn't respond.

05:12:34.820 Or he was just like.

05:12:35.820 Oh good.

05:12:36.820 And that's it.

05:12:37.820 Yeah.

05:12:38.820 Pretty much.

05:12:39.820 And then did you text again or no.

05:12:40.820 We've like.

05:12:41.820 Talked like a few times.

05:12:42.820 Does he still live in the hometown.

05:12:43.820 No.

05:12:44.820 Oh so he moved to.

05:12:45.820 Somewhere else.

05:12:46.820 Uh.

05:12:47.820 So when you guys go home for Thanksgiving.

05:12:49.820 Or Christmas.

05:12:50.820 Are you guys going to link.

05:12:51.820 I don't know.

05:12:52.820 Probably not.

05:12:53.820 He.

05:12:54.820 He DMs you.

05:12:55.820 Right.

05:12:56.820 He DMs you tonight.

05:12:57.820 He's watching the show.

05:12:58.820 And he DMs you tonight.

05:12:59.820 And he says.

05:13:00.820 I'm in Santa Barbara.

05:13:01.820 Let's meet up.

05:13:02.820 Do you meet up.

05:13:03.820 No.

05:13:04.820 No.

05:13:06.820 You.

05:13:07.820 You're friends with her.

05:13:08.820 Does she meet up with him.

05:13:11.820 No.

05:13:12.820 No.

05:13:13.820 Not tonight.

05:13:14.820 Not tonight.

05:13:15.820 Not tonight.

05:13:16.820 She'll give it some smart girl thought.

05:13:17.820 Because we'll all be talking to her.

05:13:19.820 About it.

05:13:20.820 Yeah.

05:13:21.820 And she'll regret it or not.

05:13:22.820 Yeah.

05:13:23.820 No.

05:13:24.820 Yeah.

05:13:25.820 Yeah.

05:13:26.820 Yeah.

05:13:27.820 Yeah.

05:13:28.820 Yeah.

05:13:29.820 Yeah.

05:13:30.820 Yeah.

05:13:31.820 Yeah.

05:13:32.820 Yeah.

05:13:33.820 Yeah.

05:13:34.820 Yeah.

05:13:35.820 Yeah.

05:13:36.820 Yeah.

05:13:37.820 Yeah.

05:13:38.820 Yeah.

05:13:39.820 Yeah.

05:13:40.820 Yeah.

05:13:41.820 Yeah.

05:13:42.820 Yeah.

05:13:43.820 Like to herself.

05:13:44.820 There's no other guys in the picture.

05:13:45.820 No.

05:13:46.820 No other sneaky links.

05:13:47.820 No Santa Barbara CC.

05:13:48.820 No.

05:13:49.820 No.

05:13:50.820 Nope.

05:13:51.820 Nope.

05:13:52.820 Nope.

05:13:53.820 Nothing.

05:13:54.820 Zip.

05:13:55.820 So any guys since you moved here.

05:13:56.820 Oh.

05:13:57.820 Because you've been here three months right.

05:13:58.820 Since I've moved here.

05:13:59.820 Yeah.

05:14:00.820 I've like talked to a few people.

05:14:01.820 But nothing like serious.

05:14:02.820 So like sneaky link.

05:14:03.820 No.

05:14:04.820 Oh.

05:14:05.820 Okay.

05:14:06.820 Hmm.

05:14:07.820 Yeah.

05:14:08.820 You're definitely getting back with that guy.

05:14:10.820 Yeah.

05:14:11.820 Something that happened.

05:14:12.820 Um.

05:14:13.820 Okay.

05:14:14.820 That's uh.

05:14:15.820 Yeah.

05:14:16.820 It is what it is.

05:14:17.820 Uh.

05:14:18.820 Then what's about the ex boyfriend you met in Cabo.

05:14:20.820 Ended up doing long distance.

05:14:21.820 Oh yeah.

05:14:22.820 For.

05:14:23.820 Oh yeah.

05:14:24.820 But what's crazy is.

05:14:25.820 Three years.

05:14:26.820 I know.

05:14:27.820 That's a lot of time to be in that kind of situation.

05:14:29.820 I know.

05:14:30.820 Like.

05:14:31.820 A lot of girls will.

05:14:32.820 They deal with a guy like that for even two, three months.

05:14:34.820 They feel bad.

05:14:35.820 Yeah.

05:14:36.820 You did that shit for three years son.

05:14:38.820 Yeah.

05:14:39.820 Yeah.

05:14:40.820 I know.

05:14:41.820 Locked in though.

05:14:42.820 You're locked in.

05:14:43.820 Yeah.

05:14:44.820 The distance helps I guess.

05:14:45.820 Um.

05:14:46.820 Okay.

05:14:47.820 What's the thing about the Cabo long distance boyfriend cheating on you.

05:14:50.820 Okay.

05:14:51.820 Well pretty much I just met this guy in Cabo last summer.

05:14:54.820 And then.

05:14:55.820 Spring break.

05:14:56.820 Um.

05:14:57.820 Maybe.

05:14:58.820 No.

05:14:59.820 It was over summer.

05:15:00.820 Okay.

05:15:01.820 And um.

05:15:02.820 Met him in Cabo.

05:15:03.820 Then.

05:15:04.820 Like.

05:15:05.820 Together there.

05:15:06.820 Then we ended up.

05:15:07.820 Dating.

05:15:08.820 And he lived somewhere else.

05:15:09.820 Like from my hometown.

05:15:10.820 He lives in LA.

05:15:12.820 So.

05:15:13.820 We did long distance.

05:15:14.820 And then after we broke up.

05:15:15.820 His girl best friend called me.

05:15:16.820 And said that he cheated on me during our relationship.

05:15:18.820 And me and him were still friends.

05:15:20.820 So I was like.

05:15:21.820 Pretty.

05:15:22.820 Mad over it.

05:15:23.820 So you met in Cabo.

05:15:24.820 Mm hmm.

05:15:25.820 And then where did you both live?

05:15:26.820 I live in like.

05:15:28.820 Or.

05:15:29.820 I'm from Sacramento.

05:15:30.820 And he's from LA.

05:15:31.820 So.

05:15:32.820 Pretty far.

05:15:33.820 Yeah.

05:15:34.820 That's like an eight hour drive.

05:15:35.820 And so.

05:15:36.820 You met in Cabo.

05:15:38.820 Had you guys hung out.

05:15:39.820 Subsequent time.

05:15:40.820 After Cabo.

05:15:41.820 We did.

05:15:42.820 We did.

05:15:43.820 Was it after the cheating.

05:15:44.820 Or before the cheating.

05:15:45.820 Before.

05:15:46.820 Okay.

05:15:47.820 After Cabo.

05:15:48.820 He like.

05:15:49.820 Drove to see me.

05:15:50.820 For.

05:15:51.820 And stay with me for a week.

05:15:52.820 And then.

05:15:53.820 We hung out.

05:15:54.820 Then he went back home.

05:15:55.820 Then we like.

05:15:56.820 Started dating.

05:15:57.820 Did long distance.

05:15:58.820 For two months.

05:15:59.820 Interesting.

05:16:00.820 Yeah.

05:16:01.820 And then.

05:16:02.820 I don't know if I have really anything else on.

05:16:04.820 On the Cabo thing.

05:16:05.820 Um.

05:16:06.820 Uh.

05:16:07.820 You said men shouldn't always have to make the first move.

05:16:12.820 Yeah.

05:16:13.820 Wait.

05:16:14.820 Didn't you say you never made a first move though?

05:16:16.820 I've never asked a guy out on a date before.

05:16:19.820 But.

05:16:20.820 I think I've made a first move.

05:16:21.820 Like.

05:16:22.820 What do you mean by that?

05:16:23.820 Like.

05:16:24.820 I don't know.

05:16:25.820 Like.

05:16:26.820 Kissing someone.

05:16:27.820 Oh.

05:16:28.820 Like going for the first kiss.

05:16:29.820 Or something.

05:16:30.820 Like initiating something.

05:16:31.820 Something.

05:16:32.820 Define something.

05:16:33.820 I don't know.

05:16:34.820 Carnal.

05:16:35.820 Carnal knowledge.

05:16:36.820 Sex.

05:16:37.820 Um.

05:16:38.820 Yeah.

05:16:39.820 Sure.

05:16:40.820 Cool.

05:16:41.820 Cool.

05:16:42.820 All right.

05:16:43.820 Uh.

05:16:44.820 And then.

05:16:45.820 Being ugly hot.

05:16:46.820 And a little funny.

05:16:47.820 Makes you 10x more attractive.

05:16:48.820 Yeah.

05:16:50.820 Yeah.

05:16:51.820 Was.

05:16:52.820 The three year situationship guy.

05:16:54.820 Ugly hot.

05:16:55.820 But funny.

05:16:56.820 A little funny.

05:16:57.820 Yeah.

05:16:58.820 Hot.

05:16:59.820 Can you define an ugly hot.

05:17:00.820 Like by a celebrity.

05:17:01.820 Oh.

05:17:02.820 I can.

05:17:03.820 Pete Davidson.

05:17:04.820 Yes.

05:17:05.820 Bill Skarsgård.

05:17:06.820 Okay.

05:17:07.820 So like.

05:17:08.820 Hot.

05:17:09.820 Ugly would be like Zac Efron right now.

05:17:10.820 Okay.

05:17:11.820 You know.

05:17:12.820 Looks different.

05:17:13.820 Yeah.

05:17:14.820 Hmm.

05:17:15.820 Hmm.

05:17:16.820 Yeah.

05:17:18.820 Hmm.

05:17:19.820 Okay.

05:17:20.820 I agree.

05:17:21.820 I think it's.

05:17:22.820 It can be cool if the girl makes the first move.

05:17:24.820 A bit.

05:17:25.820 You know.

05:17:26.820 It's nice sometimes.

05:17:27.820 You know.

05:17:28.820 Uh.

05:17:29.820 Let's see.

05:17:30.820 You did long distance with.

05:17:31.820 Okay.

05:17:32.820 We talked about that.

05:17:33.820 The boyfriend wanted some shorts.

05:17:34.820 Uh.

05:17:35.820 Friends.

05:17:36.820 Meeting people organically is better than dating apps.

05:17:37.820 I think we would all agree with that.

05:17:39.820 Uh.

05:17:40.820 Yeah.

05:17:41.820 Let's see.

05:17:42.820 Let's get to.

05:17:43.820 Uh.

05:17:44.820 Said.

05:17:45.820 Did I say your name right?

05:17:46.820 Yeah.

05:17:47.820 Yeah.

05:17:48.820 Said.

05:17:49.820 Said.

05:17:50.820 Said.

05:17:51.820 Dating in Australia.

05:17:52.820 Yeah.

05:17:53.820 Australian girls versus American girls.

05:17:55.820 What's the deal?

05:17:56.820 Hold on.

05:17:57.820 Daryl underscore Frank Castle 512 donated $69.

05:18:02.820 What the fuck?

05:18:03.820 Typical stereotype.

05:18:04.820 One hot chick hangs out with two ugly chicks that'll just CCK block her.

05:18:09.820 Jesus these girls are 19 and already run through.

05:18:13.820 Hashtag Senth in Ukes.

05:18:15.820 I don't know.

05:18:16.820 What are artists?

05:18:17.820 Jesus.

05:18:18.820 One.

05:18:19.820 Wait.

05:18:20.820 What?

05:18:21.820 I wouldn't.

05:18:22.820 I wouldn't have to think some comments to be honest.

05:18:23.820 I don't think they know what they're saying.

05:18:24.820 I really don't think they do.

05:18:25.820 Oh my.

05:18:26.820 I really don't think they do.

05:18:27.820 Oh my lord.

05:18:28.820 Senth in Ukes.

05:18:29.820 Wow.

05:18:30.820 Great graphics there.

05:18:31.820 Yeah.

05:18:32.820 Jesus.

05:18:33.820 Um.

05:18:34.820 All right.

05:18:35.820 I didn't understand that anyways.

05:18:36.820 Wait.

05:18:37.820 Rude.

05:18:38.820 By the way.

05:18:39.820 Go on.

05:18:40.820 So what.

05:18:41.820 What did you say again Brian?

05:18:42.820 Rockets distracted me.

05:18:43.820 They're all.

05:18:44.820 They're not.

05:18:45.820 They're all.

05:18:46.820 Oh my god.

05:18:47.820 What am I saying?

05:18:48.820 They're all.

05:18:49.820 All tens.

05:18:50.820 There's no ugly people here.

05:18:56.820 Uh.

05:18:57.820 Australian girls.

05:18:58.820 Yes.

05:18:59.820 American girls.

05:19:00.820 Australian girls versus American girls.

05:19:01.820 What would you prefer?

05:19:02.820 Be more descriptive.

05:19:03.820 Like elaborate.

05:19:04.820 Um.

05:19:05.820 So I can give you an elaborate answer.

05:19:08.820 Well.

05:19:09.820 What are the differences when it comes to.

05:19:13.820 Well.

05:19:14.820 Looks.

05:19:15.820 Dating.

05:19:16.820 Personality.

05:19:17.820 I would say.

05:19:18.820 Okay.

05:19:19.820 So.

05:19:20.820 I would say in terms of um.

05:19:21.820 The whole feminist movement stuff.

05:19:23.820 Australia is probably maybe like 10 years behind America.

05:19:26.820 You guys are a lot more.

05:19:27.820 I don't know what you call it.

05:19:28.820 Maybe like progressive and all that stuff.

05:19:30.820 Like there's a lot more.

05:19:31.820 Yeah.

05:19:32.820 Um.

05:19:33.820 LGBTQ.

05:19:34.820 TR.

05:19:35.820 Whatever you guys want to call it.

05:19:36.820 You see like there's more of them.

05:19:37.820 Like around.

05:19:38.820 Like you just see them everywhere.

05:19:39.820 In Australia and Sydney where I'm from.

05:19:41.820 It's.

05:19:42.820 They're like you see them.

05:19:43.820 But it's just like not as common.

05:19:44.820 Like.

05:19:45.820 Over here in California.

05:19:46.820 Los Angeles.

05:19:47.820 It's super common.

05:19:48.820 And people are like super open.

05:19:49.820 And so.

05:19:50.820 That's something that.

05:19:51.820 I've only seen.

05:19:52.820 Out here in Los Angeles.

05:19:53.820 I haven't seen that back in Sydney.

05:19:55.820 Sure.

05:19:56.820 So I would say yeah.

05:19:57.820 You guys are a little bit more.

05:19:58.820 Um.

05:19:59.820 Open in that sense.

05:20:00.820 In terms of.

05:20:01.820 Uh.

05:20:02.820 The women.

05:20:03.820 Um.

05:20:04.820 You know.

05:20:05.820 I think Australian women.

05:20:06.820 On.

05:20:07.820 On the whole.

05:20:08.820 Are a bit more attractive.

05:20:09.820 Um.

05:20:10.820 Not to say that American women aren't attractive.

05:20:11.820 I just.

05:20:12.820 You know.

05:20:13.820 I just prefer Australian women.

05:20:14.820 Um.

05:20:15.820 And in terms of dating.

05:20:16.820 Uh.

05:20:17.820 Look.

05:20:18.820 It's.

05:20:19.820 Give or take.

05:20:20.820 It's.

05:20:21.820 It's very similar to America.

05:20:22.820 Um.

05:20:23.820 We're a little bit better.

05:20:24.820 It seemed to be a lot more.

05:20:26.820 Strict.

05:20:27.820 And just a lot more.

05:20:28.820 Like.

05:20:29.820 Um.

05:20:30.820 Just.

05:20:31.820 There's a lot more demand for.

05:20:32.820 Uh.

05:20:33.820 What women are after.

05:20:34.820 Whereas.

05:20:35.820 I feel like in Australia.

05:20:36.820 It's.

05:20:37.820 It's still quite there.

05:20:38.820 But I feel like we're a bit behind.

05:20:39.820 On the movement.

05:20:40.820 So I feel like there's still some.

05:20:41.820 Traditional girls.

05:20:42.820 There's still lots of traditional relationships.

05:20:43.820 Um.

05:20:44.820 There's just less degeneracy.

05:20:46.820 And.

05:20:47.820 In saying that though.

05:20:48.820 I.

05:20:49.820 I do see things.

05:20:50.820 Becoming a little bit more swayed towards.

05:20:51.820 Like how Los Angeles is.

05:20:52.820 And California in general.

05:20:53.820 Uh.

05:20:54.820 Within the next 10, 15 years.

05:20:55.820 Cause yeah.

05:20:56.820 Times are changing.

05:20:57.820 Women are changing.

05:20:58.820 Relationships are changing.

05:20:59.820 And just yeah.

05:21:00.820 The dynamic of like a sexual.

05:21:01.820 Um.

05:21:02.820 Relationship between a man and woman.

05:21:03.820 Woman and woman.

05:21:04.820 Man and man.

05:21:05.820 Whatever.

05:21:06.820 Is changing.

05:21:07.820 Um.

05:21:08.820 But I just feel like we're behind.

05:21:09.820 Than America.

05:21:10.820 And we're a little bit more.

05:21:11.820 Hmm.

05:21:12.820 Uh.

05:21:13.820 I guess a little bit more private.

05:21:15.820 Did you ever date an American back in the day?

05:21:17.820 Never.

05:21:18.820 No.

05:21:19.820 Yeah.

05:21:20.820 Uh.

05:21:21.820 And then I have a few more questions for you.

05:21:22.820 Uh.

05:21:23.820 What.

05:21:24.820 Race.

05:21:25.820 Did you play.

05:21:26.820 In World of Warcraft.

05:21:27.820 And what server?

05:21:28.820 Um.

05:21:29.820 So.

05:21:30.820 I.

05:21:31.820 I didn't play World of Warcraft too much.

05:21:32.820 That was more.

05:21:33.820 Yeah.

05:21:34.820 I was more like the console game.

05:21:35.820 I played Final Fantasy.

05:21:36.820 Mm.

05:21:37.820 Zelda.

05:21:38.820 Arena of Time.

05:21:39.820 Uh.

05:21:40.820 Games like that.

05:21:41.820 Like yeah.

05:21:42.820 Just um.

05:21:43.820 I was more a console game.

05:21:44.820 Okay.

05:21:45.820 PS.

05:21:46.820 PS1.

05:21:47.820 PS2.

05:21:48.820 Sure.

05:21:49.820 Um.

05:21:50.820 Yes.

05:21:51.820 I can't answer that.

05:21:52.820 You said that you had your first love and crush leave you mostly because you lost

05:21:53.820 your job.

05:21:54.820 Ten years later.

05:21:55.820 She's what?

05:21:56.820 Sliding in my DMs.

05:21:57.820 Ever since you what?

05:21:58.820 Put on muscle and made money.

05:21:59.820 Mm.

05:22:00.820 Got jacked making money.

05:22:01.820 And then.

05:22:02.820 But so she.

05:22:03.820 Uh.

05:22:04.820 First.

05:22:05.820 It happened to you because you lost your job.

05:22:07.820 Yeah.

05:22:08.820 I had a job at the time and I lost my job.

05:22:09.820 And then.

05:22:10.820 Her and her family made a big deal about.

05:22:11.820 Me losing my job that I couldn't provide and that I'm useless and all this kind of

05:22:15.820 stuff.

05:22:16.820 Mm.

05:22:17.820 And then.

05:22:18.820 Um.

05:22:19.820 Yeah.

05:22:20.820 Ten years later.

05:22:21.820 Um.

05:22:22.820 Probably about a year ago.

05:22:23.820 That she would just like slide in my DMs and reach out and try to make like chit chat

05:22:24.820 and general conversation.

05:22:25.820 And it's like.

05:22:26.820 Kind of like.

05:22:27.820 You know.

05:22:28.820 Too little too late mate.

05:22:29.820 Like you know.

05:22:30.820 Yeah.

05:22:31.820 Been like progressing on my journey and.

05:22:32.820 You know.

05:22:33.820 Just in my life with my career and like.

05:22:34.820 Talk to me like what the hell.

05:22:35.820 Like you know what I mean.

05:22:36.820 So it's just a little bit funny.

05:22:37.820 That you know.

05:22:38.820 Once you start doing well for yourself.

05:22:40.820 That.

05:22:41.820 Everyone just comes out of the woodworks.

05:22:42.820 Past relationships.

05:22:43.820 Old friends.

05:22:44.820 This and that.

05:22:45.820 Do you feel like that motivated you?

05:22:47.820 It made me feel good.

05:22:48.820 Yeah.

05:22:49.820 It was like.

05:22:50.820 Kind of like the last laugh.

05:22:51.820 I'm just like.

05:22:52.820 Haha.

05:22:53.820 Yeah.

05:22:54.820 It felt great.

05:22:55.820 At the time.

05:22:56.820 She dumped me and I was like.

05:22:57.820 Really.

05:22:58.820 Really upset at the time.

05:22:59.820 You know what I mean.

05:23:00.820 When I was younger.

05:23:01.820 So.

05:23:02.820 When I had that.

05:23:03.820 Approval of her.

05:23:04.820 Running back.

05:23:05.820 It kind of was like.

05:23:06.820 It made me feel good.

05:23:07.820 It's like.

05:23:08.820 Haha.

05:23:09.820 This is like.

05:23:10.820 This is like.

05:23:11.820 This is like.

05:23:12.820 This is like.

05:23:13.820 This is like.

05:23:14.820 This is like.

05:23:15.820 This is like.

05:23:16.820 This is like.

05:23:17.820 I'm just.

05:23:18.820 Self improve in general.

05:23:19.820 Find a craft.

05:23:20.820 Find a skill.

05:23:21.820 Whether that's.

05:23:22.820 You know.

05:23:23.820 Blue collar work.

05:23:24.820 You might become an electrician.

05:23:25.820 Plumber.

05:23:26.820 Whatever it is.

05:23:27.820 Just build on a skill.

05:23:28.820 And work on that.

05:23:29.820 Have a side hustle.

05:23:30.820 While you're doing your main job.

05:23:31.820 So your main job.

05:23:32.820 Might be like a nine to five.

05:23:33.820 You might be doing some office job.

05:23:34.820 That.

05:23:35.820 You drive no pleasure.

05:23:36.820 You don't really love.

05:23:37.820 But have a side hustle.

05:23:38.820 Whether it's like.

05:23:39.820 Social media.

05:23:40.820 Or something on the side.

05:23:41.820 That you truly love.

05:23:42.820 That you're truly passionate about.

05:23:43.820 And you know.

05:23:44.820 Invest into that.

05:23:45.820 Over time.

05:23:46.820 In hustle.

05:23:47.820 And then you can do your side hustle.

05:23:48.820 Is like.

05:23:49.820 Like.

05:23:50.820 Like your career.

05:23:51.820 So that's kind of what happened with me.

05:23:52.820 You know.

05:23:53.820 I was doing odd jobs.

05:23:54.820 And working nine to five.

05:23:55.820 Not really happy.

05:23:56.820 And I had the side hustle.

05:23:57.820 Of fitness.

05:23:58.820 And social media.

05:23:59.820 And influencing.

05:24:00.820 And I just.

05:24:01.820 Eventually over time.

05:24:02.820 I just kept plugging away.

05:24:03.820 At the social media.

05:24:04.820 And it kind of just.

05:24:05.820 Naturally took over.

05:24:06.820 So my best advice.

05:24:07.820 To young men.

05:24:08.820 Would be.

05:24:09.820 To do the same.

05:24:10.820 To make money.

05:24:11.820 To work hard.

05:24:12.820 Not to waste their time.

05:24:13.820 Not to waste.

05:24:14.820 Too much time partying.

05:24:15.820 And doing the shit.

05:24:16.820 That really doesn't matter.

05:24:17.820 Learn skills.

05:24:18.820 Learn crafts.

05:24:19.820 Build your wealth.

05:24:20.820 And just build yourself up.

05:24:21.820 As a man.

05:24:22.820 Because when you do.

05:24:23.820 You'll attract.

05:24:24.820 The right kind of women.

05:24:25.820 And you'll feel.

05:24:26.820 Better for yourself.

05:24:27.820 Actually.

05:24:28.820 And if you're just wasting your 20s.

05:24:29.820 Just doing stupid shit.

05:24:30.820 You said.

05:24:31.820 You wanted to talk about.

05:24:32.820 Sexual dynamics.

05:24:33.820 Of what women bring.

05:24:34.820 To the table.

05:24:35.820 And dating.

05:24:36.820 And how men date down.

05:24:37.820 Yes.

05:24:38.820 Versus dating up.

05:24:39.820 Yes.

05:24:40.820 So like.

05:24:41.820 We spoke about this earlier.

05:24:42.820 As we discussed.

05:24:43.820 Like.

05:24:44.820 Women.

05:24:45.820 Literally fighting for like.

05:24:46.820 I'd say the top 20% of males.

05:24:47.820 You know what I mean?

05:24:48.820 So income.

05:24:49.820 Social status.

05:24:50.820 Yada yada yada.

05:24:51.820 Whereas men.

05:24:52.820 As we discussed earlier.

05:24:53.820 Typically date down.

05:24:54.820 We're not looking for as many things.

05:24:56.820 In a partner.

05:24:57.820 As say a woman does.

05:24:58.820 You know what I mean?

05:24:59.820 And.

05:25:00.820 It's just.

05:25:01.820 I mean.

05:25:02.820 I think a lot of it.

05:25:03.820 Has just come down to feminism.

05:25:04.820 I think also.

05:25:05.820 Just a cultural shift.

05:25:06.820 Over time.

05:25:07.820 As well.

05:25:08.820 I feel like.

05:25:09.820 The balance is a little bit skewed.

05:25:10.820 I feel like.

05:25:11.820 Females now have the power.

05:25:12.820 And men are like.

05:25:13.820 Kind of like.

05:25:14.820 Like this.

05:25:15.820 Whereas before.

05:25:16.820 As we all know.

05:25:17.820 Men always had the power.

05:25:18.820 Since the end of time.

05:25:19.820 For centuries and centuries.

05:25:20.820 So obviously.

05:25:21.820 There was going to be an imbalance.

05:25:22.820 Somewhere in the lives.

05:25:23.820 And women were going to fight back.

05:25:24.820 Which is.

05:25:25.820 It's expected.

05:25:26.820 You know what I mean?

05:25:27.820 This is so interesting.

05:25:28.820 That's interesting.

05:25:30.820 Chair 1.

05:25:31.820 25K of the 300K house will lower your payment about $150 per month and raise taxes.

05:25:39.820 During Trump the interest rates were under 3%.

05:25:42.820 Which means saving over $700 per month.

05:25:45.820 Hashtag.

05:25:46.820 Hashtag.

05:25:47.820 304 math.

05:25:48.820 Hashtag.

05:25:49.820 Common poor.

05:25:50.820 Hmm.

05:25:51.820 Quick response to that.

05:25:54.820 Um.

05:25:55.820 Well.

05:25:56.820 I mean.

05:25:57.820 If it's hard.

05:25:58.820 Right now.

05:25:59.820 To save up the money.

05:26:00.820 To put a down payment on the house.

05:26:01.820 At least.

05:26:02.820 At that point.

05:26:03.820 You have your foot in the door.

05:26:04.820 So.

05:26:05.820 It might be a little bit more money.

05:26:06.820 In the long run.

05:26:07.820 But at least.

05:26:08.820 You're putting your foot in the door.

05:26:09.820 And you don't have to get a $300,000 house.

05:26:11.820 You can get a condo.

05:26:12.820 Or something else.

05:26:13.820 But.

05:26:14.820 I digress.

05:26:15.820 Yeah.

05:26:16.820 Politics aren't my thing.

05:26:17.820 Back to you though.

05:26:18.820 Yeah.

05:26:19.820 I think property investments are the best way to build money in today's society.

05:26:21.820 To be honest.

05:26:22.820 Um.

05:26:23.820 But that's a topic.

05:26:24.820 Sure.

05:26:25.820 Day for another discussion.

05:26:26.820 But back to what I was saying.

05:26:27.820 So.

05:26:28.820 Um.

05:26:29.820 Since the end of time.

05:26:30.820 Like.

05:26:31.820 I feel like men have always had the power.

05:26:32.820 In relationships.

05:26:33.820 In life.

05:26:34.820 In everything.

05:26:35.820 For as long as time.

05:26:36.820 Up until I'd say.

05:26:37.820 Maybe the last.

05:26:38.820 30 years.

05:26:39.820 With the wave of feminism.

05:26:40.820 They had no rights.

05:26:41.820 For so long.

05:26:42.820 Like.

05:26:43.820 God damn.

05:26:44.820 Like.

05:26:45.820 Women couldn't even vote.

05:26:46.820 Like.

05:26:47.820 In like.

05:26:48.820 It was a little bit skewed too much.

05:26:49.820 And then obviously.

05:26:50.820 Feminism came in.

05:26:51.820 And then women.

05:26:52.820 Came up here.

05:26:53.820 Men came down here.

05:26:54.820 But now.

05:26:55.820 As that's happened.

05:26:56.820 Like.

05:26:57.820 You know.

05:26:58.820 Relationships are failing.

05:26:59.820 More marriages.

05:27:00.820 Are ending in divorce.

05:27:01.820 And it's always like.

05:27:02.820 80% of the.

05:27:03.820 Divorces are.

05:27:04.820 Initiated by women.

05:27:05.820 Leaving the men.

05:27:06.820 And all these kind of things.

05:27:07.820 I feel like.

05:27:08.820 In time.

05:27:09.820 It's going to be.

05:27:10.820 More of a balance.

05:27:11.820 And men.

05:27:12.820 I feel like.

05:27:13.820 It's already happening now.

05:27:14.820 I feel like.

05:27:15.820 Men are slowly.

05:27:16.820 Starting to fight back.

05:27:17.820 And have like.

05:27:18.820 Their boundaries.

05:27:19.820 And all this kind of stuff.

05:27:20.820 And I feel like.

05:27:21.820 We're almost going to be equal.

05:27:22.820 And then it's just.

05:27:23.820 It's going to be a place.

05:27:24.820 With like.

05:27:25.820 An equilibrium.

05:27:26.820 I feel like.

05:27:27.820 Back then.

05:27:28.820 Women didn't really have a choice to leave.

05:27:29.820 Like.

05:27:30.820 Well.

05:27:31.820 Here's the thing.

05:27:32.820 Men.

05:27:33.820 You couldn't get a job.

05:27:34.820 You couldn't vote.

05:27:35.820 You couldn't hold a credit card.

05:27:36.820 You couldn't buy a house.

05:27:37.820 Like you.

05:27:38.820 You kind of had to rely on the man.

05:27:39.820 In your life.

05:27:40.820 Well here's the thing.

05:27:41.820 You didn't have a good family.

05:27:42.820 I feel like men.

05:27:43.820 There's less.

05:27:44.820 Like men being men.

05:27:45.820 Today.

05:27:46.820 And there's.

05:27:47.820 More women.

05:27:48.820 That are also being more masculine.

05:27:49.820 More men that are being more feminine.

05:27:50.820 And because of this.

05:27:51.820 It's causing.

05:27:52.820 Like a disruption.

05:27:53.820 In the family unit.

05:27:54.820 Was the man.

05:27:55.820 And you know.

05:27:56.820 Looked after.

05:27:57.820 And provided.

05:27:58.820 For the family.

05:27:59.820 The children.

05:28:00.820 The wife.

05:28:01.820 And now.

05:28:02.820 I feel like.

05:28:03.820 You know.

05:28:04.820 My conspiracy theories for this are wild.

05:28:05.820 But I feel like.

05:28:06.820 I feel like the government.

05:28:07.820 Has like.

05:28:08.820 Done this in a way.

05:28:09.820 To put women.

05:28:10.820 Into the working world.

05:28:11.820 To raise taxes.

05:28:12.820 So that the men.

05:28:13.820 And the women can get taxed.

05:28:14.820 More money goes back to the government.

05:28:15.820 The household is disturbed.

05:28:16.820 More women are online.

05:28:17.820 Shopping.

05:28:18.820 And spending money away.

05:28:19.820 And it's just.

05:28:20.820 All more money is just being plugged into the government.

05:28:21.820 All whilst like.

05:28:22.820 Disrupting the family unit.

05:28:23.820 Problems.

05:28:24.820 Problems cause.

05:28:25.820 Divorce rates are going up.

05:28:26.820 Divorce rates are higher now.

05:28:27.820 Than they were.

05:28:28.820 20.

05:28:29.820 30.

05:28:30.820 40 years ago.

05:28:31.820 So there's obviously a problem.

05:28:32.820 And I feel like.

05:28:33.820 There's going to be a rebound.

05:28:34.820 And I feel like eventually.

05:28:35.820 It's just going to be equal.

05:28:36.820 With men and women.

05:28:37.820 Because.

05:28:38.820 You know.

05:28:39.820 Men can't be all the way up here.

05:28:40.820 And women down here.

05:28:41.820 And women can't be human.

05:28:42.820 It's just.

05:28:43.820 It just has to be equal.

05:28:44.820 So.

05:28:45.820 I feel like.

05:28:46.820 When that happens.

05:28:47.820 And I feel like.

05:28:48.820 20 years.

05:28:49.820 Shit's going to change a lot.

05:28:50.820 Men are already fighting back.

05:28:51.820 There's a reason.

05:28:52.820 These podcasts exist.

05:28:53.820 Fresh and fit.

05:28:54.820 Whatever podcast.

05:28:55.820 There's a big reason.

05:28:56.820 Why these podcasts exist.

05:28:57.820 They wouldn't.

05:28:58.820 Have been around.

05:28:59.820 Or survived.

05:29:00.820 30 years ago.

05:29:01.820 Men are sick and tired.

05:29:02.820 A lot of men are fed up.

05:29:03.820 So I feel like.

05:29:04.820 You know.

05:29:05.820 With this pullback.

05:29:06.820 It's.

05:29:07.820 It's going to maybe.

05:29:08.820 I help.

05:29:09.820 Women understand.

05:29:10.820 Like the problems.

05:29:11.820 That average men face.

05:29:12.820 And I feel like.

05:29:13.820 Eventually.

05:29:14.820 It's going to just.

05:29:15.820 Be equal.

05:29:16.820 I have a question for you.

05:29:17.820 Do you think.

05:29:18.820 Feminism gave women.

05:29:19.820 A sense of entitlement.

05:29:21.820 I think.

05:29:22.820 The original.

05:29:23.820 Wave of feminism.

05:29:24.820 And what feminism stands for.

05:29:25.820 Was actually a really.

05:29:26.820 Really good thing.

05:29:27.820 I think feminism.

05:29:28.820 In its core rights.

05:29:29.820 Was an incredible thing.

05:29:30.820 I really do.

05:29:31.820 I feel like women.

05:29:32.820 Deserve to vote.

05:29:33.820 I feel like women.

05:29:34.820 Deserve to drive cars.

05:29:35.820 I feel like women.

05:29:36.820 Deserve the basic human rights.

05:29:37.820 As men do.

05:29:38.820 And I feel.

05:29:39.820 I feel like it's wrong.

05:29:40.820 Feminism is now.

05:29:41.820 Yeah.

05:29:42.820 Correct.

05:29:43.820 So.

05:29:44.820 Leading on to what I was about to say.

05:29:45.820 I feel like now.

05:29:46.820 It's skewed a little bit too much.

05:29:47.820 And the definition of.

05:29:48.820 What feminism is.

05:29:49.820 Has been completely changed.

05:29:50.820 To disrespecting men.

05:29:51.820 Downplaying men's efforts.

05:29:52.820 And just.

05:29:53.820 It's just been completely.

05:29:54.820 Skewed on the opposite side.

05:29:55.820 And it's like.

05:29:56.820 You know.

05:29:57.820 Women hating on men.

05:29:58.820 Men fighting back.

05:29:59.820 At women.

05:30:00.820 And it's.

05:30:01.820 It's sad.

05:30:02.820 Because it's just.

05:30:03.820 Yeah.

05:30:04.820 Literally.

05:30:05.820 It's just disrupted.

05:30:06.820 We need each other.

05:30:07.820 Yeah.

05:30:08.820 You know what I mean.

05:30:09.820 Whereas like.

05:30:10.820 Men need women.

05:30:11.820 And women need men.

05:30:12.820 Like we need each other.

05:30:13.820 People will feel this.

05:30:14.820 And I feel like.

05:30:15.820 You know.

05:30:16.820 It's only a matter of time.

05:30:17.820 To be honest.

05:30:18.820 It's like.

05:30:19.820 Everyone's.

05:30:20.820 It will heal eventually.

05:30:21.820 Yeah.

05:30:22.820 I think.

05:30:23.820 Women are going to get over.

05:30:24.820 Hating men.

05:30:25.820 And men are.

05:30:26.820 Probably going to get over.

05:30:27.820 Fighting back with women.

05:30:28.820 Trying to prove themselves.

05:30:29.820 And it's just.

05:30:30.820 Like I said.

05:30:31.820 Since the end of time.

05:30:32.820 Men have been.

05:30:33.820 The power balance of men.

05:30:35.820 Compared to women.

05:30:36.820 Has been greatly.

05:30:37.820 Greatly skewed.

05:30:38.820 Like.

05:30:39.820 Huge.

05:30:40.820 You know what I mean.

05:30:41.820 Like.

05:30:42.820 Yeah.

05:30:43.820 A hundred years ago.

05:30:44.820 Women weren't allowed to work.

05:30:45.820 Only a hundred years ago.

05:30:46.820 In how many.

05:30:47.820 Like.

05:30:48.820 How long have we been on this earth.

05:30:49.820 How long have humans been around for.

05:30:50.820 I think.

05:30:51.820 You know what I mean.

05:30:52.820 Not even if you think about.

05:30:53.820 How long humans have been.

05:30:54.820 Like our ancestors.

05:30:55.820 Neanderthals.

05:30:56.820 Like the man pulling the woman's hair.

05:30:57.820 Throwing him into the cave.

05:30:58.820 Going out.

05:30:59.820 Hunting with spears.

05:31:00.820 Getting animals.

05:31:01.820 Like.

05:31:02.820 Since the end of time.

05:31:03.820 Men have just.

05:31:04.820 Had the power.

05:31:05.820 So because of that.

05:31:06.820 Like.

05:31:07.820 This feminism thing.

05:31:08.820 It's going to be.

05:31:09.820 It's going to be strong.

05:31:10.820 And it's going to last for a while.

05:31:11.820 But when it evens out.

05:31:12.820 Shit's going to go back to normal.

05:31:13.820 I truly believe it.

05:31:14.820 And I think women.

05:31:15.820 Want to be.

05:31:16.820 Feminine.

05:31:17.820 I feel like they craved.

05:31:18.820 Being feminine.

05:31:19.820 For the right man.

05:31:20.820 And I feel like men.

05:31:21.820 You know.

05:31:22.820 Deep down.

05:31:23.820 Their inner nature is to.

05:31:24.820 Be masculine.

05:31:25.820 But this shit's just getting.

05:31:26.820 Like translated.

05:31:27.820 It's all getting jumbled.

05:31:28.820 With what you see now.

05:31:29.820 You know.

05:31:30.820 Like men afraid of being men.

05:31:31.820 Women afraid of being women.

05:31:32.820 And men.

05:31:33.820 Are getting labeled.

05:31:34.820 Like toxic masculine.

05:31:35.820 For things like.

05:31:36.820 Going to the gym.

05:31:37.820 And you know.

05:31:38.820 Like wanting to work out.

05:31:39.820 Or wanting to play sports.

05:31:40.820 Or you know.

05:31:41.820 Just like wanting to self improve.

05:31:42.820 It's just.

05:31:43.820 It's such a strange phenomenon.

05:31:44.820 That I'm witnessing.

05:31:45.820 Because I've been in like.

05:31:46.820 Both eras.

05:31:47.820 You know.

05:31:48.820 Like you guys got to remember.

05:31:49.820 I'm almost 40 years old.

05:31:50.820 So I've seen.

05:31:51.820 Like around when my time.

05:31:52.820 Like when I was like.

05:31:53.820 Up and running.

05:31:54.820 It was so different.

05:31:55.820 Like girls would literally.

05:31:56.820 Just come up.

05:31:57.820 And have conversations with you.

05:31:58.820 And there wasn't anything expected.

05:31:59.820 Like a date.

05:32:00.820 Or anything like that.

05:32:01.820 And you can literally.

05:32:02.820 Just take a girl on a date.

05:32:03.820 To like McDonald's.

05:32:04.820 At like.

05:32:05.820 Such a young age.

05:32:06.820 And nothing was thought of it.

05:32:07.820 And now.

05:32:08.820 If like.

05:32:09.820 Something like that's mentioned.

05:32:10.820 Even to like.

05:32:11.820 An 18 year old girl.

05:32:12.820 That's like.

05:32:13.820 20% of men.

05:32:14.820 20% of men.

05:32:15.820 Are being fought for.

05:32:16.820 By 100% of women.

05:32:17.820 Hmm.

05:32:18.820 Hmm.

05:32:19.820 Some analysis.

05:32:20.820 Hmm.

05:32:21.820 Just uh.

05:32:22.820 Shedding that.

05:32:23.820 Uh.

05:32:24.820 Just really quick.

05:32:25.820 I'm curious.

05:32:26.820 On the feminism thing.

05:32:27.820 Who here considers themselves.

05:32:28.820 A feminist.

05:32:29.820 Starting with you.

05:32:30.820 Go ahead.

05:32:31.820 Okay.

05:32:32.820 Yeah.

05:32:33.820 I consider myself a feminist.

05:32:34.820 But I don't think I'm like.

05:32:35.820 A toxic feminist.

05:32:36.820 Like.

05:32:37.820 I.

05:32:38.820 You know.

05:32:39.820 I.

05:32:40.820 My man opens the door for me.

05:32:41.820 And he.

05:32:42.820 You know.

05:32:43.820 Pulls my chair out for me.

05:32:44.820 And I.

05:32:45.820 Let me.

05:32:46.820 I'll give you the charitable definition.

05:32:47.820 Yeah.

05:32:48.820 So.

05:32:49.820 Oh boy.

05:32:50.820 Okay.

05:32:51.820 Hold on.

05:32:53.820 Hold on.

05:32:54.820 Let me walk you through this.

05:32:55.820 Hold on.

05:32:56.820 Don't.

05:32:57.820 Uh.

05:32:58.820 Freak out.

05:32:59.820 Okay.

05:33:00.820 Go to the sources tab.

05:33:01.820 Hide stream yard.

05:33:02.820 Hold on.

05:33:03.820 Let's just bring it center.

05:33:04.820 Okay.

05:33:05.820 Okay.

05:33:06.820 Click that.

05:33:07.820 Okay.

05:33:08.820 Can you try to figure out.

05:33:10.820 Okay.

05:33:11.820 So.

05:33:12.820 You can't.

05:33:14.820 You got.

05:33:15.820 Okay.

05:33:16.820 Can you bring it.

05:33:17.820 Back.

05:33:18.820 F11.

05:33:19.820 If you see my mom.

05:33:20.820 She does not even look like that.

05:33:21.820 Okay.

05:33:22.820 She's 65.

05:33:23.820 Um.

05:33:28.820 All right.

05:33:29.820 Um.

05:33:30.820 So okay.

05:33:31.820 Here's the charitable definition.

05:33:32.820 Of.

05:33:33.820 Feminism.

05:33:34.820 Feminism.

05:33:35.820 Is a.

05:33:37.820 Movement towards.

05:33:38.820 Equality.

05:33:39.820 Or.

05:33:40.820 Egalitarianism.

05:33:41.820 Or some people.

05:33:42.820 Use equity.

05:33:43.820 With a rejection.

05:33:44.820 Of patriarchy.

05:33:45.820 So.

05:33:46.820 Do you consider yourself.

05:33:47.820 A feminist.

05:33:48.820 Yeah.

05:33:49.820 Okay.

05:33:50.820 Uh.

05:33:51.820 Yes.

05:33:52.820 By the way.

05:33:53.820 That's my charitable.

05:33:55.820 Def.

05:33:56.820 It's not.

05:33:57.820 It's actually my like.

05:33:58.820 Super charitable definition.

05:33:59.820 But.

05:34:00.820 I.

05:34:01.820 Don't really think so.

05:34:02.820 Not a feminist.

05:34:03.820 Okay.

05:34:04.820 She's a Trump voter.

05:34:05.820 Yeah.

05:34:06.820 Yes.

05:34:07.820 Feminist.

05:34:08.820 Yeah.

05:34:09.820 Okay.

05:34:10.820 Yeah.

05:34:11.820 Okay.

05:34:12.820 Hell no.

05:34:13.820 Hell no.

05:34:14.820 No.

05:34:15.820 There is.

05:34:16.820 There is.

05:34:17.820 There is male feminists.

05:34:18.820 Isn't there.

05:34:19.820 There.

05:34:20.820 Oh.

05:34:21.820 There are definitely.

05:34:22.820 Well.

05:34:23.820 There are a couple things that have been said.

05:34:26.820 I kind of.

05:34:27.820 To jump in on.

05:34:28.820 The chat.

05:34:29.820 Was begging me to.

05:34:30.820 Hop in on some of these things.

05:34:31.820 Unfortunately.

05:34:32.820 For the sake of time.

05:34:33.820 I can't really address.

05:34:34.820 Every single one of the claims.

05:34:35.820 That you made.

05:34:36.820 I do actually want to just.

05:34:37.820 Quickly.

05:34:38.820 Touch on this whole.

05:34:39.820 Like women couldn't vote thing.

05:34:41.820 Uh.

05:34:42.820 While that is true.

05:34:43.820 And I.

05:34:44.820 I sent you a.

05:34:45.820 Thing to pull up in the.

05:34:46.820 The drop box thing.

05:34:47.820 If we can get that pulled up.

05:34:48.820 So it's like.

05:34:49.820 It's sort of a.

05:34:51.820 Odd relooking of history.

05:34:53.820 Because.

05:34:54.820 For most of human history.

05:34:55.820 Neither men.

05:34:56.820 Or women.

05:34:57.820 Could vote.

05:34:58.820 Like.

05:34:59.820 So if we pull up the chart.

05:35:07.820 Sorry guys.

05:35:08.820 You could.

05:35:09.820 All right.

05:35:10.820 Uh.

05:35:11.820 Okay.

05:35:12.820 Can you hide the.

05:35:13.820 TTS thing please.

05:35:14.820 All right.

05:35:15.820 So.

05:35:16.820 Uh.

05:35:17.820 Countries with universal right to vote.

05:35:19.820 So.

05:35:20.820 Brown is.

05:35:21.820 No universal right to vote.

05:35:22.820 The light blue is universal right.

05:35:23.820 Right.

05:35:24.820 To vote for only men.

05:35:25.820 Universal right to vote for men and women.

05:35:28.820 Make it one smaller please.

05:35:30.820 So I can see the dates.

05:35:32.820 Okay.

05:35:33.820 So.

05:35:34.820 There's maybe like a.

05:35:35.820 Very small period.

05:35:37.820 Between 18.

05:35:38.820 So like prior to 1850.

05:35:40.820 Almost.

05:35:41.820 Nobody.

05:35:42.820 It was like kings.

05:35:43.820 Queens.

05:35:44.820 Lords.

05:35:45.820 All that shit.

05:35:46.820 Mm hmm.

05:35:47.820 Like the average.

05:35:48.820 Typical.

05:35:49.820 Man.

05:35:50.820 Couldn't vote either.

05:35:51.820 1850.

05:35:52.820 Started introducing it for landowners.

05:35:55.820 And then men.

05:35:56.820 And then.

05:35:57.820 So within.

05:35:58.820 Less than a.

05:36:00.820 50 to a hundred year period.

05:36:02.820 From when men got the vote.

05:36:04.820 And from when women got the vote.

05:36:05.820 It's a very small period.

05:36:07.820 Now.

05:36:08.820 You might say well.

05:36:09.820 Even that hundred.

05:36:10.820 Or 50 year period.

05:36:11.820 That's still.

05:36:12.820 That's really unfair.

05:36:13.820 That men had it before women.

05:36:15.820 But so.

05:36:16.820 Men had.

05:36:17.820 A.

05:36:18.820 Corresponding.

05:36:19.820 Duty.

05:36:20.820 And responsibility.

05:36:21.820 That women.

05:36:22.820 To this day.

05:36:23.820 Still don't have.

05:36:24.820 Albeit.

05:36:25.820 You were still able to secure.

05:36:27.820 A privilege.

05:36:28.820 A right.

05:36:29.820 Voting.

05:36:30.820 Without having the corresponding.

05:36:31.820 Duty.

05:36:32.820 And responsibility.

05:36:33.820 That men have.

05:36:34.820 Do you know what this is?

05:36:35.820 Wool.

05:36:36.820 Uh.

05:36:37.820 Yeah.

05:36:38.820 War.

05:36:39.820 Yeah.

05:36:40.820 So in.

05:36:41.820 1914.

05:36:42.820 1918.

05:36:43.820 Women got.

05:36:44.820 The right to vote.

05:36:45.820 We had the most.

05:36:46.820 Catastrophic.

05:36:47.820 War.

05:36:48.820 That ever occurred.

05:36:49.820 Men were drafted.

05:36:50.820 Into this war.

05:36:51.820 Men were drafted.

05:36:52.820 Into the.

05:36:53.820 War for independence.

05:36:54.820 Revolutionary war.

05:36:56.820 And so.

05:36:59.820 It's interesting.

05:37:00.820 To me though.

05:37:01.820 That we overlook.

05:37:02.820 This fact.

05:37:03.820 That.

05:37:04.820 Men had to literally.

05:37:05.820 Die.

05:37:06.820 In order to be able.

05:37:07.820 To get the right.

05:37:08.820 To vote.

05:37:09.820 And you.

05:37:10.820 Women were able.

05:37:11.820 To secure it.

05:37:12.820 Not.

05:37:13.820 Having to.

05:37:14.820 Do anything.

05:37:15.820 Well.

05:37:16.820 I.

05:37:17.820 I don't know.

05:37:18.820 I feel like.

05:37:19.820 Women did.

05:37:20.820 Do things.

05:37:21.820 To try to get their vote.

05:37:22.820 Like.

05:37:23.820 Well.

05:37:24.820 Sure.

05:37:25.820 You did things.

05:37:26.820 To get the vote.

05:37:27.820 But what do you.

05:37:28.820 Like.

05:37:29.820 What obligation.

05:37:30.820 To the country.

05:37:31.820 Do you have.

05:37:32.820 No.

05:37:33.820 I understand that.

05:37:34.820 I think.

05:37:35.820 I think.

05:37:36.820 It should.

05:37:37.820 It would be fair.

05:37:38.820 It would be fair.

05:37:39.820 If you can vote.

05:37:40.820 Also be able.

05:37:41.820 To be drafted.

05:37:42.820 Whether your gender.

05:37:43.820 Or not.

05:37:44.820 Well.

05:37:45.820 I agree with you.

05:37:46.820 For the sake.

05:37:47.820 Of equality.

05:37:48.820 Even if.

05:37:49.820 Women were subject.

05:37:50.820 To the draft.

05:37:51.820 There's.

05:37:52.820 There's a couple things here.

05:37:53.820 Two.

05:37:54.820 Even if they were drafted.

05:37:55.820 They probably wouldn't be put.

05:37:56.820 In those.

05:37:57.820 Frontline positions.

05:37:58.820 Anyways.

05:37:59.820 Yeah.

05:38:00.820 So that would still be.

05:38:01.820 Still not equal.

05:38:02.820 A privilege.

05:38:03.820 And benevolence.

05:38:04.820 On the part of men.

05:38:05.820 So.

05:38:06.820 This actually happens.

05:38:07.820 With women who volunteer.

05:38:08.820 For the military.

05:38:09.820 If they're about to get deployed.

05:38:10.820 They just get pregnant.

05:38:11.820 Yeah.

05:38:12.820 A lot of these women.

05:38:13.820 To avoid getting deployed.

05:38:14.820 Even if they're volunteer for.

05:38:15.820 Not all women do this.

05:38:16.820 But.

05:38:17.820 They just get pregnant.

05:38:18.820 Yeah.

05:38:19.820 And then they can't be deployed.

05:38:20.820 That is interesting.

05:38:21.820 So you always have a way out.

05:38:23.820 Whereas with men.

05:38:24.820 I mean.

05:38:25.820 You could fake an injury.

05:38:26.820 Or hurt yourself.

05:38:27.820 In some way.

05:38:28.820 But.

05:38:29.820 Yeah.

05:38:30.820 Men don't have the option.

05:38:31.820 To really get out of it.

05:38:32.820 In the case.

05:38:33.820 In any case.

05:38:34.820 Women can't be drafted.

05:38:35.820 As it currently stands.

05:38:37.820 So.

05:38:38.820 It's kind of.

05:38:39.820 Yeah.

05:38:40.820 That is unfair.

05:38:41.820 Not even worth exploring.

05:38:42.820 Those other things.

05:38:43.820 But so.

05:38:44.820 That's why we need the robots.

05:38:45.820 The war robots.

05:38:46.820 The war robots.

05:38:47.820 Yeah.

05:38:48.820 But.

05:38:49.820 So you.

05:38:50.820 But do you think.

05:38:51.820 We should get rid of the draft.

05:38:53.820 Because that would.

05:38:55.820 Yeah.

05:38:56.820 That would.

05:38:57.820 That would create.

05:38:58.820 An equality.

05:38:59.820 The draft.

05:39:00.820 Then it would create.

05:39:01.820 A more equal.

05:39:02.820 It would be equal.

05:39:03.820 Right.

05:39:04.820 And feminism is about equality.

05:39:05.820 Right.

05:39:06.820 But you know.

05:39:07.820 Then we have to also worry about.

05:39:08.820 Our government.

05:39:09.820 Or our military.

05:39:10.820 Being strong enough.

05:39:11.820 To protect us from.

05:39:12.820 Allies as well.

05:39:13.820 That's a fit.

05:39:14.820 That's actually.

05:39:15.820 A very good point.

05:39:16.820 That is a very good point.

05:39:17.820 But.

05:39:18.820 So what do we do.

05:39:19.820 Do we either get rid of the draft.

05:39:20.820 For men.

05:39:21.820 And create equality.

05:39:22.820 Or do we draft women.

05:39:23.820 To also get equality.

05:39:24.820 What do we do.

05:39:25.820 I feel like.

05:39:26.820 Getting rid of the draft.

05:39:27.820 Because I feel like.

05:39:28.820 To go to war anyway.

05:39:29.820 Get rid of the draft.

05:39:30.820 Should we get rid of the draft.

05:39:31.820 For equality.

05:39:32.820 No.

05:39:33.820 Keep the draft.

05:39:34.820 Yeah.

05:39:35.820 So you're fine.

05:39:36.820 And are you.

05:39:37.820 Fine with women.

05:39:38.820 Being drafted.

05:39:39.820 Yes.

05:39:40.820 Yes.

05:39:41.820 I am fine with women.

05:39:42.820 Being drafted.

05:39:43.820 Okay.

05:39:44.820 Should.

05:39:45.820 What should we do.

05:39:46.820 Honestly.

05:39:47.820 For equality.

05:39:48.820 I mean.

05:39:49.820 I don't.

05:39:50.820 I guess women can do it.

05:39:51.820 If they want.

05:39:52.820 Wait.

05:39:53.820 Wait.

05:39:54.820 Wait.

05:39:55.820 If they.

05:39:56.820 Like to get drafted.

05:39:57.820 Like women.

05:39:58.820 Like I feel like it should be equal.

05:39:59.820 Like men and women.

05:40:00.820 It shouldn't just all be men.

05:40:01.820 Should women be drafted.

05:40:03.820 Yeah.

05:40:04.820 You get drafted tomorrow.

05:40:05.820 Sent to Middle East.

05:40:08.820 No.

05:40:09.820 Sent to Russia.

05:40:10.820 Sent to China.

05:40:11.820 I couldn't do it.

05:40:12.820 Some future conflict.

05:40:13.820 You wouldn't do it.

05:40:14.820 No.

05:40:15.820 Yeah.

05:40:16.820 You get drafted.

05:40:17.820 I know.

05:40:18.820 They force you.

05:40:19.820 Well.

05:40:20.820 Yeah.

05:40:21.820 And you're.

05:40:22.820 You're able bodied.

05:40:23.820 Right.

05:40:24.820 Yeah.

05:40:25.820 Oh.

05:40:26.820 You're getting drafted.

05:40:27.820 What do you think.

05:40:28.820 Should women be drafted.

05:40:29.820 Into the mic.

05:40:30.820 Yeah.

05:40:31.820 Yeah.

05:40:32.820 Okay.

05:40:33.820 Yeah.

05:40:34.820 Yeah.

05:40:35.820 Yes.

05:40:36.820 Okay.

05:40:37.820 Interesting.

05:40:38.820 Wait.

05:40:39.820 I have a question.

05:40:40.820 And this is going to seem like.

05:40:41.820 I'm not saying this is what.

05:40:42.820 Just.

05:40:43.820 I got to preface it.

05:40:44.820 Could be the case.

05:40:45.820 I'm just like.

05:40:46.820 It's a thought experiment here.

05:40:47.820 Yeah.

05:40:48.820 So.

05:40:49.820 Do you think.

05:40:50.820 All of you said that.

05:40:51.820 I mean.

05:40:52.820 It sounds like you're all.

05:40:53.820 In favor of the draft.

05:40:54.820 Right.

05:40:55.820 Yeah.

05:40:56.820 Like it.

05:40:57.820 Perhaps you all acknowledge that.

05:40:59.820 In the event of.

05:41:00.820 For example.

05:41:01.820 Some other country.

05:41:02.820 Invaded us.

05:41:03.820 And we didn't have enough.

05:41:04.820 Volunteer force.

05:41:05.820 You would.

05:41:06.820 You would agree that.

05:41:07.820 In order to defend the country.

05:41:08.820 From some like.

05:41:09.820 Invading.

05:41:10.820 Barbaric country.

05:41:11.820 That wants to like.

05:41:12.820 Kill everybody.

05:41:13.820 And like.

05:41:14.820 Put.

05:41:15.820 Put all the men to the sword.

05:41:16.820 And like.

05:41:17.820 Do what.

05:41:18.820 They might do to women.

05:41:19.820 Mm hmm.

05:41:20.820 You would agree that.

05:41:22.820 The government should reserve the right.

05:41:24.820 To be able to force men.

05:41:25.820 To fight for the country.

05:41:27.820 Fair proposition.

05:41:32.820 You would agree.

05:41:33.820 Right.

05:41:34.820 I.

05:41:35.820 I don't know.

05:41:36.820 I.

05:41:37.820 I want to disagree.

05:41:38.820 Just because.

05:41:39.820 I don't feel like anybody should be forced to do anything.

05:41:41.820 Right.

05:41:42.820 But it's at this point.

05:41:43.820 It's like we either.

05:41:44.820 Go in.

05:41:45.820 Or we all die.

05:41:46.820 So.

05:41:47.820 Let me.

05:41:48.820 Let me give you this scenario.

05:41:49.820 Right.

05:41:50.820 So.

05:41:51.820 Okay.

05:41:52.820 Some country.

05:41:53.820 Out there.

05:41:54.820 Is.

05:41:55.820 A significant threat.

05:41:56.820 Mm hmm.

05:41:57.820 And we know that our volunteer force.

05:41:58.820 If.

05:41:59.820 We don't draft men.

05:42:00.820 That this.

05:42:01.820 I don't.

05:42:02.820 I can't think of a specific.

05:42:03.820 I don't know.

05:42:04.820 Some other country.

05:42:05.820 Invading country.

05:42:06.820 Men.

05:42:07.820 They're going to.

05:42:08.820 Win the war.

05:42:09.820 Mm hmm.

05:42:10.820 And then.

05:42:11.820 They're going to kill.

05:42:12.820 All the men.

05:42:13.820 All the boys.

05:42:14.820 Yeah.

05:42:15.820 And then they're going to essay all the women.

05:42:16.820 Yeah.

05:42:17.820 Do you think.

05:42:18.820 That.

05:42:19.820 If we know that.

05:42:20.820 If we have some foresight.

05:42:21.820 That this would be the outcome.

05:42:22.820 Mm hmm.

05:42:23.820 Under these circumstances.

05:42:24.820 Should you be able to force men.

05:42:26.820 To go and fight a war.

05:42:27.820 And die.

05:42:28.820 For the sake of the country.

05:42:29.820 I still don't like it.

05:42:33.820 But I guess so.

05:42:34.820 I mean it's.

05:42:35.820 Otherwise we all die.

05:42:36.820 So it has to be the force.

05:42:38.820 Cause then everyone dies.

05:42:39.820 Mm hmm.

05:42:40.820 So.

05:42:41.820 Yeah.

05:42:42.820 Sure.

05:42:43.820 It's sad.

05:42:44.820 Now.

05:42:45.820 Let me ask you guys a question.

05:42:46.820 Again.

05:42:47.820 Not saying this should be.

05:42:48.820 This is just a.

05:42:49.820 Thought experiment.

05:42:50.820 Uh.

05:42:51.820 Let's say that there was a.

05:42:52.820 Population collapse happening.

05:42:53.820 Mm hmm.

05:42:54.820 And for some reason.

05:42:55.820 Feminism.

05:42:56.820 Took a.

05:42:57.820 The brain virus.

05:42:58.820 Women refuse to mate.

05:43:00.820 With men.

05:43:01.820 Mm hmm.

05:43:02.820 And this is worldwide.

05:43:03.820 For example.

05:43:04.820 Worldwide.

05:43:05.820 Women just refuse to have children.

05:43:07.820 And it's spelled the end of the species.

05:43:08.820 Right.

05:43:09.820 Mm hmm.

05:43:10.820 Now the government has an interest.

05:43:11.820 In continuing the species.

05:43:12.820 Could the government.

05:43:13.820 Do you think it would be okay.

05:43:14.820 For the government.

05:43:15.820 To force women to have children.

05:43:17.820 I'm going to say no.

05:43:19.820 And my reason why.

05:43:20.820 I know what you're going.

05:43:21.820 Going with this.

05:43:22.820 Is that.

05:43:23.820 It's not under.

05:43:24.820 Not everyone is going to.

05:43:25.820 Lose their life.

05:43:27.820 If women don't.

05:43:28.820 If women don't.

05:43:29.820 In this hypothetical scenario.

05:43:30.820 In this hypothetical scenario.

05:43:31.820 But everyone still gets.

05:43:32.820 It would be the end of the species.

05:43:33.820 Okay.

05:43:34.820 But.

05:43:35.820 Nobody is.

05:43:36.820 Losing their life to war.

05:43:37.820 It's just.

05:43:38.820 People are choosing.

05:43:39.820 But it would be the end of the species.

05:43:40.820 Yeah.

05:43:41.820 Okay.

05:43:42.820 Sure.

05:43:43.820 Go quietly into the night.

05:43:44.820 Sure.

05:43:45.820 Um.

05:43:46.820 Do you think that would be appropriate?

05:43:47.820 Um.

05:43:48.820 I don't think it's good to force people.

05:43:52.820 Forest women to be pregnant.

05:43:53.820 I don't think.

05:43:54.820 I don't agree.

05:43:55.820 I wouldn't do that.

05:43:56.820 Okay.

05:43:57.820 And the species.

05:43:58.820 All right.

05:43:59.820 What do you think?

05:44:00.820 I think it's.

05:44:01.820 If it's for like.

05:44:02.820 To reproduce.

05:44:03.820 And like.

05:44:04.820 Start another population.

05:44:05.820 Yeah.

05:44:06.820 But I just don't like.

05:44:07.820 The forcing.

05:44:08.820 Aspect.

05:44:09.820 That's like.

05:44:10.820 Really wrong.

05:44:11.820 Yeah.

05:44:12.820 No.

05:44:13.820 I probably.

05:44:14.820 The extinction would be better.

05:44:16.820 Extinction better.

05:44:17.820 I might rather.

05:44:18.820 Yeah.

05:44:19.820 Neither is good.

05:44:20.820 Obviously.

05:44:21.820 But like.

05:44:22.820 What about peachy dish babies?

05:44:24.820 Yeah.

05:44:25.820 Robots.

05:44:26.820 Again.

05:44:27.820 It's the answer.

05:44:28.820 Well.

05:44:29.820 I mean.

05:44:30.820 I'm.

05:44:31.820 I might even be prepared to grant that.

05:44:32.820 The woman doesn't even have to have sex.

05:44:34.820 Oh.

05:44:35.820 Okay.

05:44:36.820 Like.

05:44:37.820 So she could be artificially inseminated.

05:44:38.820 No.

05:44:39.820 Still no.

05:44:40.820 Yeah.

05:44:41.820 She has to carry the pregnancy.

05:44:42.820 Would you do that?

05:44:43.820 If you were a girl?

05:44:44.820 And the species dependent on it?

05:44:47.820 Yeah.

05:44:48.820 Yeah.

05:44:49.820 Do you have to raise the child?

05:44:50.820 I suppose you do.

05:44:51.820 Yeah.

05:44:52.820 Some people aren't stood out for that.

05:44:54.820 I don't think.

05:44:55.820 You should force someone to do that.

05:44:57.820 Well.

05:44:58.820 At the cost of the extinction of the species.

05:45:00.820 Here.

05:45:01.820 Let's go get everybody's answer on this.

05:45:02.820 Uh.

05:45:03.820 Yeah.

05:45:04.820 Extinction.

05:45:05.820 Extinction.

05:45:06.820 I don't want kids.

05:45:07.820 But I would have them for that.

05:45:08.820 For the sake of.

05:45:09.820 Hmm.

05:45:10.820 Okay.

05:45:11.820 It's just.

05:45:12.820 Interesting.

05:45:13.820 I feel like.

05:45:14.820 Do better.

05:45:15.820 Okay.

05:45:16.820 You know.

05:45:17.820 Women don't want to have kids.

05:45:18.820 Okay.

05:45:19.820 Then let's make it easier for women to.

05:45:20.820 You know.

05:45:21.820 Families to have houses.

05:45:22.820 And.

05:45:23.820 If you have kids.

05:45:24.820 You get more.

05:45:25.820 Tax breaks.

05:45:26.820 Or.

05:45:27.820 Do something.

05:45:28.820 So that women.

05:45:29.820 Want to have kids.

05:45:30.820 Make child care.

05:45:31.820 More affordable.

05:45:32.820 Like.

05:45:33.820 A different place to go.

05:45:34.820 Than just.

05:45:35.820 Forcing women to have children.

05:45:36.820 Like women.

05:45:37.820 I.

05:45:38.820 I think every woman.

05:45:39.820 Mostly every.

05:45:40.820 Like.

05:45:41.820 80% of women.

05:45:42.820 Would want to have a kid.

05:45:43.820 I would want to have a kid.

05:45:44.820 But I.

05:45:45.820 Want to have a stable home.

05:45:46.820 And everything first.

05:45:47.820 I know this is the scenario.

05:45:48.820 I feel like.

05:45:49.820 I could probably come up.

05:45:50.820 With a better scenario.

05:45:51.820 How about this.

05:45:52.820 Oh.

05:45:53.820 Here's better.

05:45:54.820 Maybe.

05:45:55.820 Maybe chat can tell me.

05:45:56.820 What they think about this.

05:45:57.820 So.

05:45:58.820 In order to fend off.

05:45:59.820 And.

05:46:00.820 We see this invasion coming.

05:46:01.820 In 20 years time.

05:46:02.820 We have a.

05:46:03.820 Oh my.

05:46:04.820 This is even getting more.

05:46:05.820 Fantasy.

05:46:06.820 We.

05:46:07.820 The invasion is coming.

05:46:08.820 In 20 years time.

05:46:09.820 And.

05:46:10.820 50% of the women.

05:46:11.820 Are.

05:46:12.820 They don't want to have kids.

05:46:13.820 And 50% do.

05:46:14.820 So it's not like.

05:46:15.820 Some weird thing.

05:46:16.820 Where like.

05:46:17.820 All the women just.

05:46:18.820 Stop wanting to have kids.

05:46:20.820 Uh huh.

05:46:21.820 But.

05:46:22.820 There's a.

05:46:23.820 It doesn't even have to be.

05:46:24.820 50% of the women.

05:46:25.820 It could be 20%.

05:46:26.820 Uh huh.

05:46:27.820 I think there's a.

05:46:28.820 Maybe 20% of women.

05:46:29.820 Don't want to have kids.

05:46:30.820 If we don't.

05:46:31.820 Birth more children.

05:46:32.820 If the women don't.

05:46:34.820 Birth more children.

05:46:35.820 Birth more warriors.

05:46:37.820 Birth more.

05:46:38.820 More soldiers.

05:46:39.820 This invading country.

05:46:41.820 Is going to.

05:46:42.820 Wipe us out.

05:46:43.820 And then.

05:46:44.820 Essay all the women.

05:46:45.820 Well then yeah.

05:46:46.820 The government.

05:46:47.820 Then compel.

05:46:48.820 The women who don't want.

05:46:49.820 To give birth.

05:46:50.820 To give birth.

05:46:51.820 To protect.

05:46:52.820 To fend off.

05:46:53.820 This future threat.

05:46:54.820 But see.

05:46:55.820 That's the same thing.

05:46:56.820 As the draft thing.

05:46:57.820 People are going to lose.

05:46:58.820 Their lives.

05:46:59.820 Like people.

05:47:00.820 And everybody dies.

05:47:01.820 So at that point.

05:47:02.820 It changes the game.

05:47:03.820 Like you either.

05:47:04.820 Everyone you love.

05:47:05.820 And know.

05:47:06.820 Gets murdered by aliens.

05:47:07.820 Or you have a kid.

05:47:08.820 To make a soldier.

05:47:09.820 Like.

05:47:10.820 I feel like.

05:47:11.820 That's.

05:47:12.820 Most people would do that.

05:47:13.820 Right.

05:47:14.820 But.

05:47:15.820 Let's assume that.

05:47:16.820 The women.

05:47:17.820 They don't want to.

05:47:18.820 I don't know.

05:47:19.820 Then you're going to have.

05:47:20.820 A lot more people to fight.

05:47:21.820 Than just aliens.

05:47:22.820 You're going to have.

05:47:23.820 A happier species.

05:47:24.820 Here's the scenario.

05:47:25.820 50% of women.

05:47:26.820 Are going to give.

05:47:27.820 Birth to.

05:47:28.820 A bunch of kids.

05:47:29.820 50% don't want to do it.

05:47:31.820 But.

05:47:32.820 25% of the 50%.

05:47:33.820 Do it for the greater good.

05:47:35.820 We still need that.

05:47:36.820 Final 25%.

05:47:37.820 Mm hmm.

05:47:38.820 To like.

05:47:39.820 Birth children.

05:47:40.820 Mm hmm.

05:47:41.820 So that we get more soldiers.

05:47:42.820 So we don't get fucked.

05:47:43.820 Mm hmm.

05:47:44.820 Because we got some.

05:47:45.820 Future vision.

05:47:46.820 Minority report shit.

05:47:47.820 Should the.

05:47:48.820 Should the government be allowed.

05:47:50.820 To force women.

05:47:52.820 To give.

05:47:53.820 Those 25% of women.

05:47:54.820 To give birth.

05:47:56.820 I think giving an incentive.

05:47:58.820 Would be a lot.

05:47:59.820 Like a better.

05:48:00.820 A plausible.

05:48:01.820 Like.

05:48:02.820 Thing to do.

05:48:03.820 So money.

05:48:04.820 That's fair.

05:48:05.820 Yeah.

05:48:06.820 So the government.

05:48:07.820 Sure.

05:48:08.820 I'll even grant that the government.

05:48:09.820 Will financially support.

05:48:11.820 The.

05:48:12.820 Child.

05:48:13.820 Rearing expenses.

05:48:14.820 Mm hmm.

05:48:15.820 And the hospital.

05:48:16.820 The health bills.

05:48:17.820 Whatever.

05:48:18.820 Yeah.

05:48:19.820 I would say.

05:48:20.820 I don't know.

05:48:21.820 Makes it better.

05:48:22.820 Makes it better.

05:48:23.820 But.

05:48:24.820 Do you.

05:48:25.820 Let's say you can vote.

05:48:26.820 You can vote yes.

05:48:27.820 Or you can vote no.

05:48:28.820 On this bill.

05:48:29.820 That the government's trying to pass.

05:48:30.820 I would say no.

05:48:31.820 Because I think.

05:48:32.820 If people know.

05:48:33.820 That there's a war coming.

05:48:34.820 They're not going to want to die.

05:48:35.820 And they're going to naturally.

05:48:36.820 Just start producing more.

05:48:38.820 Out of fear.

05:48:39.820 Yeah.

05:48:40.820 Out of fear.

05:48:41.820 Like.

05:48:42.820 You're not going to just sit there.

05:48:43.820 And let.

05:48:44.820 Nothing happen.

05:48:45.820 Yeah.

05:48:46.820 If I.

05:48:47.820 If somebody told me.

05:48:48.820 Millions coming.

05:48:49.820 And we're all going to die.

05:48:50.820 And we need to have children.

05:48:51.820 I'd start popping them out.

05:48:52.820 Okay.

05:48:53.820 You wouldn't have to.

05:48:54.820 Sure.

05:48:55.820 I would be like.

05:48:56.820 All right.

05:48:57.820 Let's.

05:48:58.820 Let's use these breeding hips.

05:48:59.820 They're ready.

05:49:00.820 There you go.

05:49:01.820 Okay.

05:49:02.820 So.

05:49:03.820 Do you vote yes.

05:49:04.820 Or no.

05:49:05.820 On this measure.

05:49:06.820 I.

05:49:07.820 I still don't think people need to be forced.

05:49:08.820 So no.

05:49:09.820 Well.

05:49:10.820 So here's the thing.

05:49:11.820 That if.

05:49:12.820 The vote doesn't end up.

05:49:13.820 As a yes.

05:49:14.820 In totality.

05:49:15.820 You won't be able to breed enough soldiers.

05:49:18.820 And you're going to get.

05:49:20.820 Your country's gone.

05:49:23.820 So.

05:49:24.820 Yes.

05:49:25.820 I mean.

05:49:26.820 It can still be a no.

05:49:27.820 I'm not trying to push you into a.

05:49:29.820 You can still say no.

05:49:30.820 But.

05:49:31.820 That's.

05:49:32.820 That's what's at stake.

05:49:33.820 Yeah.

05:49:34.820 What do you pick.

05:49:35.820 I guess at that point.

05:49:36.820 It's the last resort.

05:49:37.820 So.

05:49:38.820 I change my answer.

05:49:39.820 I'll do yes.

05:49:40.820 I also will change my answers.

05:49:42.820 It's just unreasonable.

05:49:43.820 To let everyone die.

05:49:44.820 Okay.

05:49:45.820 Unfortunately.

05:49:46.820 Um.

05:49:47.820 I would.

05:49:48.820 Say yes.

05:49:49.820 Hmm.

05:49:50.820 I don't know.

05:49:51.820 But I'm glad this is a hypothetical question.

05:49:53.820 Yeah.

05:49:54.820 It's a hypothetical.

05:49:55.820 It's a hypothetical.

05:49:56.820 It's a thought experiment.

05:49:57.820 Um.

05:49:58.820 Wait.

05:49:59.820 Did you answer?

05:50:00.820 No.

05:50:01.820 I don't know.

05:50:02.820 Uh.

05:50:03.820 Yeah.

05:50:04.820 Sure.

05:50:05.820 Yeah.

05:50:06.820 Yeah.

05:50:07.820 Yes.

05:50:08.820 Hmm.

05:50:09.820 That's how we feel.

05:50:11.820 About being forced to go to war.

05:50:13.820 And actually.

05:50:14.820 It's not even.

05:50:15.820 It's not even.

05:50:16.820 Yeah.

05:50:17.820 I did say no to the drafts.

05:50:18.820 Like that's the level.

05:50:19.820 Of unfairness to them.

05:50:21.820 Yeah.

05:50:22.820 Actually it's worse.

05:50:23.820 Hold on.

05:50:24.820 It's worse.

05:50:25.820 Hmm.

05:50:26.820 It's worse.

05:50:27.820 The.

05:50:28.820 For.

05:50:29.820 For us to be drafted.

05:50:30.820 Hmm.

05:50:31.820 Hmm.

05:50:32.820 Hmm.

05:50:33.820 Hmm.

05:50:34.820 Because.

05:50:35.820 You go to war.

05:50:36.820 You die.

05:50:37.820 Yeah.

05:50:38.820 But women still die during pregnancy too.

05:50:39.820 It's less than.

05:50:40.820 War.

05:50:41.820 I don't know.

05:50:42.820 I still think the robots are going to be the answer.

05:50:45.820 So.

05:50:46.820 It's just.

05:50:47.820 And.

05:50:48.820 And then also.

05:50:49.820 Um.

05:50:52.820 Yeah.

05:50:53.820 Anyways.

05:50:54.820 That was an interesting.

05:50:56.820 I don't know.

05:50:57.820 Everyone just got sadder in this room.

05:51:00.820 The end of everyone.

05:51:02.820 It's an interesting thought experiment.

05:51:04.820 Okay.

05:51:05.820 Um.

05:51:06.820 Let me finish up the notes here.

05:51:07.820 So.

05:51:08.820 Okay.

05:51:09.820 Uh.

05:51:10.820 Let's see.

05:51:11.820 We got.

05:51:12.820 Almost done here.

05:51:13.820 Uh.

05:51:14.820 We have.

05:51:15.820 Uh.

05:51:16.820 We.

05:51:17.820 Got.

05:51:18.820 Um.

05:51:19.820 It's just.

05:51:20.820 The notes for you Marcy.

05:51:21.820 So.

05:51:22.820 Uh.

05:51:23.820 When you.

05:51:24.820 Lost your virginity.

05:51:25.820 Why don't you tell us that story?

05:51:26.820 Oh.

05:51:27.820 Um.

05:51:28.820 I did not know if he was inside of me.

05:51:30.820 Or not.

05:51:31.820 I had to ask him twice.

05:51:32.820 And you were a virgin.

05:51:33.820 I'm still not even sure if we did.

05:51:34.820 What?

05:51:35.820 I'm not even kidding.

05:51:36.820 Was it?

05:51:37.820 I'm still not even sure.

05:51:38.820 He wasn't a micro.

05:51:39.820 I just.

05:51:40.820 Just.

05:51:41.820 It was a first for him.

05:51:42.820 A first for me.

05:51:43.820 Oh.

05:51:44.820 He was also a virgin.

05:51:45.820 And it showed.

05:51:46.820 Oh.

05:51:47.820 That's.

05:51:48.820 That's a bad first experience for the guy.

05:51:49.820 It was super awkward.

05:51:50.820 Yeah.

05:51:51.820 Yeah.

05:51:52.820 Yeah.

05:51:53.820 Yeah.

05:51:54.820 I had to ask if he was twice.

05:51:56.820 Yeah.

05:51:57.820 Was he inside of you?

05:51:58.820 I still don't know.

05:51:59.820 He didn't look?

05:52:00.820 He said he was.

05:52:01.820 Just look.

05:52:02.820 I was.

05:52:03.820 I had no fucking idea what I was doing either.

05:52:04.820 I was brand new to this.

05:52:05.820 It was your thigh or.

05:52:06.820 I don't know.

05:52:07.820 I don't know.

05:52:08.820 He made sweet love.

05:52:09.820 I felt like a squishing.

05:52:10.820 It was weird.

05:52:11.820 Uh.

05:52:12.820 Let's see.

05:52:13.820 Okay.

05:52:14.820 That's.

05:52:15.820 That's interesting.

05:52:16.820 That is like one of the worst things a woman can say by the way.

05:52:17.820 Is it in yet?

05:52:18.820 Oh man.

05:52:19.820 I learned that the one the hard way.

05:52:21.820 Can we close the doors by the way?

05:52:23.820 Uh.

05:52:24.820 Yeah.

05:52:25.820 So.

05:52:26.820 Yeah.

05:52:27.820 Yeah.

05:52:28.820 Uh.

05:52:29.820 You said.

05:52:30.820 You're in an age gap relationship.

05:52:31.820 We already talked about that.

05:52:32.820 Yep.

05:52:33.820 You said women need to stop empowering women with bad advice and using their mental illness

05:52:36.820 as an excuse or identity.

05:52:37.820 Yep.

05:52:38.820 You care.

05:52:39.820 Want to elaborate or is that pretty much it?

05:52:41.820 Just from what I've noticed from people in my own social circle and myself because I

05:52:45.820 used to do this.

05:52:46.820 I would kind of dictate my friendships and relationships based on my traumas from the

05:52:52.820 past.

05:52:53.820 So if I had a jealousy issue you had to like contend with that and you had to make sure

05:52:58.820 that you were tip toeing around that and accommodating my jealousy.

05:53:02.820 And I didn't realize at the time that that's bullshit.

05:53:05.820 Hmm.

05:53:06.820 I had to fix that shit myself first.

05:53:08.820 But I hear women giving women information like well if he's if he's not taking your jealousy

05:53:13.820 into consideration then you know fuck him or do like an eye for an eye thing.

05:53:17.820 It's just projection isn't it?

05:53:18.820 Yeah.

05:53:19.820 It's just like it's it's bad information because it's women who have been hurt giving other women

05:53:24.820 who have been hurt bad information and bad advice and they're all I'm going to reference

05:53:32.820 the Barbie movie because I think that movie was atrocious for women.

05:53:36.820 Oh I haven't seen it.

05:53:37.820 Just dead like awful.

05:53:39.820 The whole monologue that the one character gives about how like you can't be too skinny

05:53:45.820 you can't be too this you can't be too loud you can't be too quiet it's like men are not

05:53:49.820 doing that to us.

05:53:50.820 Y'all we're doing it to each other and we need to stop or else we're just going to continue

05:53:55.820 to fight amongst ourselves and nobody's going to grow.

05:53:58.820 Thank you.

05:54:02.820 Can I just say something?

05:54:03.820 I mean and women don't really have many positive female role models to look up to like I'm just

05:54:08.820 thinking off the top of my head like what Kim Kardashian, Cardi B, Queen Latifah I don't

05:54:13.820 know there's no one like you know if you think of if you think of men there's so many positive

05:54:17.820 male role models that young men could look up to I think what the world needs is more positive

05:54:22.820 female role models.

05:54:23.820 The Swifties are going to come after you.

05:54:25.820 I know they are.

05:54:26.820 I know.

05:54:27.820 But she's I think she is awful for women.

05:54:29.820 Yeah you know so I think I think that's what's needed I think some positive female role models

05:54:33.820 that could guide and you know help the youth because I don't see or I don't know any I

05:54:40.820 mean unless you girls can name some.

05:54:42.820 I've seen business women but I don't know their names.

05:54:45.820 They're not that high status.

05:54:46.820 Kristen Bell's pretty cool.

05:54:47.820 I mean look at Blake Lively.

05:54:49.820 She's pretty cool.

05:54:50.820 I mean.

05:54:51.820 She's very cool.

05:54:52.820 I don't know who they are.

05:54:53.820 Bridget Medler.

05:54:54.820 Yeah.

05:54:55.820 Bridget Medler I'll give you that one.

05:54:56.820 I will give you that one because she started off as a child star and then now she's an aerospace

05:54:59.820 engineer with NASA.

05:55:00.820 Who's this?

05:55:01.820 Bridget Medler.

05:55:02.820 You don't know who Amy Poehler is?

05:55:03.820 The office?

05:55:04.820 No.

05:55:05.820 Sorry.

05:55:06.820 I've heard of the office.

05:55:07.820 I've heard of the office.

05:55:08.820 Amy Poehler.

05:55:09.820 I'm sorry not Amy Poehler in the office.

05:55:10.820 Parks and Rec.

05:55:11.820 Oh Amy Poehler.

05:55:12.820 Sorry.

05:55:13.820 I feel like okay if we can name some that's great.

05:55:15.820 I feel like there just needs to be more of them.

05:55:17.820 Much much more.

05:55:18.820 And going back to that I also think that I can only speak from a woman's perspective

05:55:23.820 but we need to be more self accountable for a lot of the stuff that we put ourselves

05:55:27.820 through.

05:55:28.820 I wouldn't say necessarily like everything that we go through is not necessarily our fault

05:55:33.820 but it is our responsibility to own what happened.

05:55:37.820 Just move past it and no longer use it as an excuse for why you act the way you are or

05:55:44.820 use it for blackmail towards the guy that you're with or use it towards blackmail against your

05:55:49.820 friends.

05:55:50.820 I just I feel like I see women fighting more with each other than for each other.

05:55:55.820 You might I see women like fighting for each other face to face but the many people walk

05:56:00.820 away from each other is God she's such a bitch.

05:56:02.820 The shit talking starts immediately.

05:56:04.820 That's I feel like there's no trust full trust among women.

05:56:10.820 I see backstabbing conniving and manipulation more than I see actual genuine care.

05:56:17.820 I would disagree.

05:56:19.820 I feel like a lot of my female interactions have always been super positive and I'm a stripper.

05:56:24.820 I work in a strip club and I've had way more positive interactions with women.

05:56:28.820 And that's like then you're involving money and you're involving like territories and stuff.

05:56:34.820 I don't know.

05:56:35.820 Have you thought maybe it's just like your like city is more.

05:56:40.820 I've lived in multiple places and I've seen it all over the place.

05:56:43.820 And I'm not saying it's it's definitely not everybody.

05:56:46.820 It's not all women.

05:56:47.820 It's not a blanket statement.

05:56:48.820 It's just I would say it's a majority.

05:56:50.820 Yeah.

05:56:51.820 And I do think that a lot of this, you know, well, I have PTSD.

05:56:56.820 I was essayed.

05:56:57.820 I was this.

05:56:58.820 I was that.

05:56:59.820 But now it's your responsibility as the person in my life to make sure that none of that

05:57:04.820 comes up.

05:57:05.820 Well, yeah, it's like I feel like nobody's talking about their triggers.

05:57:07.820 Nobody's talking about their traumas and this goes for men to like the conversations need

05:57:11.820 to happen.

05:57:12.820 Absolutely.

05:57:13.820 I definitely feel like people should have some sort of regulation about how they feel

05:57:16.820 like you can't help what situations happen to you, but you can help how you react to

05:57:19.820 them.

05:57:20.820 And I feel like that is something everybody can learn.

05:57:22.820 Yeah.

05:57:23.820 And I'm I don't see that amongst at least the what I see on a regular basis.

05:57:27.820 Okay.

05:57:28.820 So you said that women have become the problem with their entitlement and enabling.

05:57:33.820 So this is why I asked you about if you think feminism created an entitlement because

05:57:37.820 I think it did.

05:57:38.820 I think women have put themselves on a pedestal, especially with this boss ass bitch mentality.

05:57:43.820 I feel like if you are a boss ass bitch, you don't have to say shit.

05:57:47.820 I agree with that.

05:57:48.820 But the more you preach it, I feel like you're hiding something or you're trying to manipulate

05:57:55.820 something to get something more.

05:57:57.820 I agree with that.

05:57:58.820 Um, cause I mean, a duck doesn't tell you it's a duck to know it's a duck.

05:58:01.820 It's kind of like when people say they're really smart, but it's usually the people who

05:58:05.820 say they're smart are the dumbest ones in the room.

05:58:07.820 Yeah.

05:58:08.820 Yeah.

05:58:09.820 Yeah.

05:58:10.820 Oh, go ahead.

05:58:11.820 Oh, no.

05:58:12.820 You want to finish?

05:58:13.820 Sure.

05:58:14.820 Okay.

05:58:15.820 You said that you used to be one of those shaved head blue hair chicks.

05:58:18.820 Yep.

05:58:19.820 Yep.

05:58:20.820 Feminists who thought she had all the answers.

05:58:22.820 Yep.

05:58:23.820 Oh, yeah.

05:58:24.820 I had the side of my head shaved.

05:58:25.820 I went through blue hair, black hair, pink hair, you name it.

05:58:28.820 And I seriously thought that I was finding myself that I was like in it.

05:58:31.820 I knew exactly what was going on.

05:58:33.820 I was more lost in that moment that I was ever in my life.

05:58:37.820 And I realized the people I was around were doing the same thing.

05:58:42.820 I was, we were living in our victimization.

05:58:45.820 We were living in our traumas and it's, and we thought we were helping each other through

05:58:49.820 them.

05:58:50.820 We thought we were talking it out, but in reality we were more enabling the behavior of the victimization

05:58:56.820 and all that stuff.

05:58:57.820 Like it wasn't until I cut myself away from those people that I started to heal on my

05:59:03.820 own.

05:59:04.820 And I started to realize that those people weren't uplifting.

05:59:07.820 And then now I'm back to blonde and not shaved.

05:59:10.820 I find that very interesting actually.

05:59:11.820 Wow.

05:59:12.820 So you've been on like both ends and you, you're saying.

05:59:16.820 I completely lost myself and had to find it.

05:59:20.820 That's, that's quite interesting.

05:59:21.820 Cause then, then what you're saying is like very important.

05:59:24.820 I think everyone should take note cause you've obviously been on both ends and obviously

05:59:28.820 it's not, it's not a war against men and you know, feminism in itself didn't start off

05:59:34.820 as being a bad thing.

05:59:35.820 But I think what you said is, is correct.

05:59:36.820 Like it's just gone to a point where it's just a little bit too much.

05:59:39.820 Yeah.

05:59:40.820 And you know, that's why these podcasts and these lonely ass men in their basement writing

05:59:44.820 all these comments on your existing, all this kind of shit, you know what I'm saying?

05:59:47.820 So it's like, it's, it's very interesting to hear that from that point of view.

05:59:50.820 None of them are in the basement.

05:59:51.820 I appreciate that.

05:59:52.820 They're all giga chads with giant penises and they're all rich.

05:59:56.820 They're all wrecked all the time.

05:59:57.820 And they bench press more than you.

05:59:59.820 Don't stay with their moms.

06:00:00.820 And it's not even to say that like men are the problem or women are the problem.

06:00:05.820 We are all our own problem.

06:00:07.820 And until we fix our own problem, it's going to continue to be a men versus women thing

06:00:12.820 because nobody's going to actually just be like, wait a minute.

06:00:14.820 I got to look in the mirror and be like, what the fuck am I doing to mess up my own life?

06:00:18.820 Yeah.

06:00:19.820 I agree with that.

06:00:20.820 And then make the changes from there.

06:00:21.820 And then just to kind of get through your notes here.

06:00:23.820 You said, uh, I had more of a bro phase than a ho phase.

06:00:28.820 Instead of sleeping with a bunch of dudes, I was friends with a lot of guys and I would bro down.

06:00:32.820 Yeah.

06:00:33.820 Guys are way less stressful to be friends with.

06:00:34.820 I have seven bros.

06:00:36.820 Like I have seven friends.

06:00:38.820 Like I have seven brothers.

06:00:39.820 Oh wow.

06:00:40.820 Okay.

06:00:41.820 Yeah.

06:00:42.820 So it's easy for me to, I, I speak dude.

06:00:44.820 Yeah.

06:00:45.820 Uh, and are you like in the middle?

06:00:46.820 I'm the middle and I'm the only girl.

06:00:48.820 Only.

06:00:49.820 Oh shit.

06:00:50.820 Uh, you said women need to take more accountability for their own actions and how they get themselves

06:00:54.820 in certain situations.

06:00:55.820 Uh, they need, they also need to learn to speak the words they mean, not just use words

06:01:00.820 to make a point or emphasize.

06:01:02.820 You know, more women who falsely accused a man of R or SA than who actually had it happen

06:01:08.820 to them.

06:01:09.820 Women also throw around those two terms way too easily.

06:01:12.820 Yes.

06:01:13.820 I feel like there's a lot of terms that are thrown around like the word trigger, the word

06:01:18.820 traumas, all these words because they are, they mean something.

06:01:22.820 Abuse.

06:01:23.820 Yeah.

06:01:24.820 They mean something so big.

06:01:25.820 I agree with that.

06:01:26.820 That they're trying.

06:01:27.820 And I get it cause we're trying to get a point across.

06:01:29.820 And instead of articulating the words, we're just grabbing a word that sounds powerful.

06:01:34.820 Let me, let me tell you, I've been more, I've been assaulted way more by women in the strip

06:01:39.820 club than I ever have men.

06:01:41.820 Women are the worst in the strip club.

06:01:43.820 And women don't want to talk about women being creepers.

06:01:45.820 Yeah.

06:01:46.820 They like, they touch the most, they do the most inappropriate stuff.

06:01:50.820 The men are way more respectful.

06:01:52.820 And yeah.

06:01:53.820 Well, you have something on that too, right?

06:01:54.820 I do.

06:01:55.820 Um, and I won't go into too much about it, but I was essayed underage by a female babysitter.

06:02:00.820 So sorry to hear that.

06:02:02.820 Yes.

06:02:03.820 So women are a fucking problem guys.

06:02:06.820 Yeah.

06:02:07.820 Like I know men can be a problem too, but let's, let's look in the mirror, please.

06:02:12.820 Even the ladies out there watching, please for the love of God, look in the fucking mirror.

06:02:16.820 Well, sorry to hear that, uh, you went through that, but you said, uh, women are, can be predators

06:02:21.820 too.

06:02:22.820 Um, and then you, uh, I think that's pretty much it for, for your notes.

06:02:30.820 Um, I have a few more questions.

06:02:32.820 We'll do a roast session, then we're going to wrap the show.

06:02:34.820 So, uh, really quick, I'll just, uh, some simple questions here, uh, going around the

06:02:39.820 table.

06:02:40.820 If your boyfriend asked you to stop partying, would you?

06:02:45.820 He asked me to stop partying?

06:02:47.820 Partying.

06:02:48.820 This is a suit in this situation.

06:02:50.820 It's assumes that you're partying.

06:02:52.820 Maybe you don't party.

06:02:53.820 I don't know.

06:02:54.820 Yeah.

06:02:55.820 I would stop.

06:02:56.820 You would stop.

06:02:57.820 Okay.

06:02:58.820 Yes.

06:02:59.820 I would stop.

06:03:00.820 Yes.

06:03:01.820 Yeah.

06:03:02.820 That seems a little hesitant.

06:03:04.820 No, I would.

06:03:05.820 Do you guys go out?

06:03:06.820 I mean, you guys.

06:03:07.820 It's just like hypothetical.

06:03:08.820 You're in college.

06:03:09.820 My boyfriend would never say that.

06:03:10.820 He does it way more than I do.

06:03:11.820 Well, he parties more than you.

06:03:12.820 Oh, way more.

06:03:13.820 You guys go out and party on the weekends?

06:03:14.820 Yeah.

06:03:15.820 How often?

06:03:16.820 Like every weekend.

06:03:17.820 Thursday, Friday, Saturday.

06:03:19.820 Yeah.

06:03:20.820 Thursday through Saturday.

06:03:21.820 Thursday through Saturday.

06:03:22.820 Yeah.

06:03:23.820 If you're not partying, then I'm like, fuck, something's wrong.

06:03:26.820 Yeah.

06:03:27.820 Like for sure.

06:03:28.820 But so if your boyfriend did.

06:03:29.820 He, I swear that will never happen.

06:03:31.820 But if he did?

06:03:32.820 If he did, I would like less.

06:03:33.820 He would stop?

06:03:34.820 Yeah.

06:03:35.820 Okay.

06:03:36.820 I mean, there would have to be a reason.

06:03:37.820 Yeah, I would.

06:03:38.820 Yeah, exactly.

06:03:39.820 There would have to be a reason.

06:03:40.820 Yeah.

06:03:41.820 He wouldn't just say it.

06:03:42.820 It's kind of about experiencing that kind of life.

06:03:45.820 I don't know.

06:03:46.820 But I would.

06:03:47.820 I don't party, but I would stop.

06:03:49.820 Yes.

06:03:50.820 All right.

06:03:51.820 And then your boyfriend thinks you dress too revealing and he asks you to dress more

06:03:58.820 modestly.

06:03:59.820 Do you, do you go along with it?

06:04:02.820 That's so funny because my boyfriend likes me in the least amount of clothing.

06:04:07.820 But yeah, I'll, I would, I would have to say no on that.

06:04:13.820 I've been in, I know myself, I've been in a relationship before where that was like said

06:04:17.820 and I don't like being told what to wear.

06:04:20.820 So.

06:04:21.820 No, I mean, if he gets in the relationship knowing how I dress already, then he shouldn't

06:04:25.820 have a problem with it later on.

06:04:26.820 Hmm.

06:04:27.820 I have something on that, but.

06:04:29.820 Um, I don't really know.

06:04:31.820 I've never like experienced that before, but like.

06:04:34.820 Dressing revealing or.

06:04:35.820 Well, what do you like?

06:04:36.820 I don't like really dress like super revealing.

06:04:38.820 Right.

06:04:39.820 Maybe you don't.

06:04:40.820 Yeah.

06:04:41.820 So I don't.

06:04:42.820 You're wearing like, I don't know.

06:04:43.820 Oh, he's fine with that.

06:04:45.820 As long as he's like next to me and like sees me.

06:04:48.820 Okay.

06:04:49.820 But like, if it was like me by myself, I feel like he would get like a little upset by it.

06:04:53.820 Not like controlling as much, just like be more like worried.

06:04:56.820 Like, are you going to be okay?

06:04:57.820 Yeah.

06:04:58.820 Okay.

06:04:59.820 He says, I don't feel comfortable with you wearing that when you go out.

06:05:03.820 I would like you to change.

06:05:04.820 Yeah.

06:05:05.820 Do you change?

06:05:06.820 I probably would just, I would rather keep the peace than start a fight.

06:05:11.820 So you would start a fight though.

06:05:13.820 No, I would rather keep the peace than start a fight.

06:05:16.820 But you would think his, he was wrong.

06:05:18.820 No.

06:05:19.820 Oh, okay.

06:05:20.820 Like, yeah.

06:05:21.820 Um, I mean, depends on where we're going, but.

06:05:24.820 No, no.

06:05:25.820 So he's not going out with you.

06:05:26.820 You're just going out.

06:05:27.820 Oh.

06:05:28.820 And he's like, I don't, you're too revealing.

06:05:30.820 Put on the burka.

06:05:31.820 No.

06:05:32.820 No, I'm kidding about the burka, but too revealing.

06:05:35.820 Uh, I don't know.

06:05:36.820 Put on the jacket or put on some pants.

06:05:39.820 I wouldn't like change, but I guess I would put on like a jacket or something.

06:05:43.820 Hmm.

06:05:44.820 Okay.

06:05:45.820 Yeah.

06:05:46.820 I guess.

06:05:47.820 Come on.

06:05:48.820 Be honest.

06:05:49.820 Be, it's controlling, right?

06:05:51.820 No, I don't.

06:05:52.820 It's controlling.

06:05:53.820 I mean, I just, I don't know.

06:05:55.820 I don't know.

06:05:56.820 Okay.

06:05:57.820 I guess I would.

06:05:58.820 I would dress modest.

06:05:59.820 Yes.

06:06:00.820 All right.

06:06:01.820 Uh, one more question.

06:06:03.820 Then we have to do a Twitter react.

06:06:05.820 We're going to do the roast session.

06:06:08.820 You randomly get spawned into the forest.

06:06:12.820 And then there's two buttons that also get spawned in front of you.

06:06:16.820 You can either spawn a random bear or you can spawn a random man.

06:06:25.820 So the motive, there's no, why is he in the forest that it's just, you press the button.

06:06:29.820 He just appears.

06:06:30.820 And then you will cross paths with either you cross paths with either the bear or the

06:06:36.820 man.

06:06:37.820 Do you pick the man or the bear?

06:06:39.820 If it was random.

06:06:40.820 Random.

06:06:41.820 I would probably just pick the man.

06:06:43.820 Okay.

06:06:44.820 I would pick the man.

06:06:45.820 I would pick the man.

06:06:46.820 Yeah.

06:06:47.820 The man, the man, man, man.

06:06:51.820 Oh, wow.

06:06:52.820 Okay.

06:06:53.820 What would you, what would you do if it was a woman for the woman or bear?

06:06:57.820 I'd pick the woman.

06:06:58.820 Yeah.

06:06:59.820 I'd pick the woman.

06:07:00.820 Now, if I had to pick which one I have to share my feelings with, I might pick them.

06:07:08.820 No, I'm kidding.

06:07:09.820 I might pick the bear.

06:07:10.820 Just imagine you opening up to a bear.

06:07:12.820 The bear is like consoling me and shit.

06:07:14.820 You're like, I just, you know what, bear?

06:07:15.820 Nobody really gets lazy.

06:07:16.820 I'm kidding.

06:07:17.820 I'm kidding.

06:07:18.820 I could pick the bear though.

06:07:19.820 I'd pick a panda bear to spawn with.

06:07:20.820 There you go.

06:07:21.820 That's good.

06:07:22.820 If I could pick.

06:07:23.820 Wait, you guys really not bear?

06:07:25.820 Just curious.

06:07:26.820 I feel like you guys got bullied into that.

06:07:27.820 No.

06:07:28.820 Because everybody else was saying man.

06:07:29.820 No.

06:07:30.820 I would say man.

06:07:31.820 All right.

06:07:32.820 This is reasonable.

06:07:33.820 If it wasn't random, I'd pick bear.

06:07:34.820 If it was just, I'm in the woods and there's, you know, some dude that's kind of scary.

06:07:39.820 Yeah.

06:07:40.820 I would say bear.

06:07:41.820 Tweets.

06:07:42.820 We're going to do tweets.

06:07:43.820 We're going to do roast.

06:07:44.820 Then we're going to wrap.

06:07:45.820 So guys, guys, it's in the title.

06:07:47.820 I save it to the end all the time.

06:07:49.820 But before we do the tweets, we've got to go.

06:07:50.820 For all the people that are talking shit and have a problem.

06:07:53.820 Okay.

06:07:54.820 Can you pull up the Twitch?

06:07:55.820 It's okay.

06:07:56.820 It's all right.

06:07:57.820 Can you pull up the Twitch really quick before I get into the Twitter beef?

06:08:00.820 I'm ready.

06:08:01.820 Yo, boys.

06:08:02.820 Boys.

06:08:03.820 Go to Twitch.

06:08:04.820 Excuse me.

06:08:06.820 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:08:07.820 Drop us a follow.

06:08:08.820 Drop us a Prime sub.

06:08:09.820 That's Twitch.

06:08:10.820 Twitch.

06:08:11.820 Oh, the old versions of everybody too.

06:08:13.820 Okay.

06:08:14.820 We'll do that before the tweets.

06:08:15.820 Guys.

06:08:16.820 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:08:17.820 It's been six minutes since we last got Prime.

06:08:19.820 Guys.

06:08:20.820 Help us.

06:08:21.820 Guys.

06:08:22.820 Can you guys help us get to...

06:08:23.820 We're 50 followers away, boys.

06:08:25.820 From 92,800.

06:08:26.820 Hit that follow button if you're watching on Twitch.

06:08:29.820 Get us to 92,800 before the end of the stream.

06:08:33.820 Comedy.

06:08:34.820 Got Kids.

06:08:35.820 Think for the Prime, man.

06:08:36.820 Blah.

06:08:37.820 Think for the Prime.

06:08:38.820 Bev.

06:08:39.820 Think for the Prime.

06:08:40.820 X.

06:08:41.820 I can't even pronounce it.

06:08:43.820 B3R6.

06:08:44.820 Think for the resub.

06:08:45.820 Appreciate it, guys.

06:08:46.820 Drop us a follow on Twitch.

06:08:47.820 And then let's pull up the...

06:08:50.820 Do you got the Discord old people thingies?

06:08:53.820 Let's do that really quick.

06:08:55.820 And then we'll get into the Twitter beef, the Twitter drama.

06:08:58.820 I got into it.

06:09:00.820 Okay.

06:09:01.820 Okay.

06:09:02.820 I'm in my crone phase, okay?

06:09:04.820 I'm a witch in the woods.

06:09:05.820 Wait, do we have the comparisons or...?

06:09:06.820 We do, yeah.

06:09:07.820 Okay.

06:09:11.820 All right.

06:09:12.820 So you said that.

06:09:13.820 This is like the would you be better looking in response to that.

06:09:17.820 I feel like I changed ethnicities in that one.

06:09:20.820 I'm not...

06:09:21.820 You became Asian.

06:09:22.820 Yeah.

06:09:23.820 It tends to make people Asian.

06:09:25.820 It does.

06:09:26.820 What?

06:09:27.820 I'll put it back up.

06:09:28.820 And Asians do not age like that, so...

06:09:30.820 False.

06:09:31.820 I mean...

06:09:32.820 She looks good as an old Asian lady.

06:09:35.820 I think we all...

06:09:36.820 Oh, yeah.

06:09:37.820 Okay.

06:09:38.820 That's a white woman.

06:09:39.820 I got a hairdo.

06:09:40.820 Oh, damn.

06:09:41.820 Good.

06:09:42.820 Okay.

06:09:43.820 I'm not even that bad.

06:09:44.820 I'm terrified.

06:09:45.820 All right.

06:09:46.820 Next.

06:09:47.820 Okay.

06:09:48.820 All right.

06:09:49.820 There we go.

06:09:50.820 Slay.

06:09:51.820 Oh, dear Jesus.

06:09:52.820 Oh, man.

06:09:53.820 Okay.

06:09:54.820 That's fine.

06:09:55.820 Oh, shit.

06:09:56.820 Damn.

06:09:57.820 Wait.

06:09:58.820 Shit.

06:09:59.820 Either Asian or hot.

06:10:00.820 Oh, my God.

06:10:02.820 Oh, shit.

06:10:03.820 That's funny, dude.

06:10:04.820 Are you sure you're aging instead of Asian?

06:10:06.820 What?

06:10:07.820 Yo, bro.

06:10:08.820 Can you guys find one that doesn't turn us all Asian?

06:10:14.820 That's funny.

06:10:15.820 Is there more?

06:10:16.820 That was the biggest trend.

06:10:17.820 That's it.

06:10:18.820 Oh, Japanese.

06:10:19.820 I'm Chinese.

06:10:20.820 Japanese.

06:10:21.820 Shit.

06:10:22.820 Wow.

06:10:23.820 Let's do the tweets really quick.

06:10:25.820 Lil Tay.

06:10:26.820 I got into it.

06:10:27.820 Just before you pull it up.

06:10:28.820 I got into a Twitter beef with Lil Tay.

06:10:31.820 You got...

06:10:32.820 Probably you guys don't know who this is.

06:10:34.820 Yes, we do.

06:10:35.820 She's at the hospital, right?

06:10:36.820 You faked her death?

06:10:37.820 Yeah, that one.

06:10:38.820 Wait, she's not...

06:10:39.820 And she used to be like the fake ghetto thug.

06:10:41.820 Yeah.

06:10:42.820 Isn't she in the hospital?

06:10:43.820 I'm flexing.

06:10:44.820 That's what I thought.

06:10:45.820 Unless it was another fake story.

06:10:46.820 I think this was...

06:10:47.820 Somehow...

06:10:48.820 I don't know how this happened.

06:10:49.820 I want to be with a 16 year old Canadian girl.

06:10:54.820 So, she posted on Twitter.

06:10:56.820 We'll pull it up.

06:10:58.820 Oh, no.

06:10:59.820 So, play the video.

06:11:01.820 Oh, my God.

06:11:02.820 Oh, so she's at the hospital.

06:11:03.820 Nah, you can just keep it like that.

06:11:04.820 For all the people that are talking shit and have a problem with me standing up for people of color, LGBTQ community...

06:11:11.820 Oh, can you...

06:11:12.820 I'm sorry.

06:11:13.820 ...donated $69.

06:11:15.820 Hagmaxing.

06:11:16.820 Girls be premium Hagmaxing.

06:11:17.820 Hey, hey, hey.

06:11:18.820 They look good.

06:11:19.820 They look good.

06:11:20.820 Hagmaxing.

06:11:21.820 Yo, Graffita.

06:11:22.820 Thank you, man.

06:11:23.820 Thank you, brother.

06:11:24.820 And then, uh...

06:11:25.820 So, let's pull it back.

06:11:26.820 Um...

06:11:27.820 Maybe start it back...

06:11:28.820 Shit and have a problem with me standing up for people of color, LGBTQ community, and women.

06:11:34.820 Oh, boy.

06:11:35.820 Get the fuck off of my page.

06:11:36.820 Because what made you think that I wanted you here in the first place?

06:11:39.820 You can fucking leave.

06:11:40.820 Growing up is extra hard if you're a person of color.

06:11:43.820 If you're someone in the LGBTQ community, if you're a woman, you're not a part of a marginalized group, then obviously you wouldn't understand.

06:11:49.820 But, like, why the fuck do you have a problem with me speaking up for it?

06:11:52.820 You can go fuck yourself.

06:11:54.820 For all the people that are talking...

06:11:55.820 Okay, pause it.

06:11:56.820 Pause it.

06:11:57.820 So, you'll see here...

06:11:58.820 And then I quote tweeted it.

06:11:59.820 Or you can scroll up just a bit.

06:12:00.820 No.

06:12:01.820 Scroll up.

06:12:02.820 Yeah.

06:12:03.820 Women are marginalized?

06:12:04.820 Question, question, question mark.

06:12:05.820 And then she responds...

06:12:06.820 I didn't think she was gonna respond.

06:12:08.820 And then she says, yes, women are marginalized.

06:12:11.820 Ever heard of the gender pay gap?

06:12:13.820 Reproductive rights being constantly under attack?

06:12:15.820 Or the rampant rates of violence against women?

06:12:18.820 Maybe try cracking open the history book or Googling sexism.

06:12:22.820 It's 2024.

06:12:23.820 Time to catch up.

06:12:24.820 Which was probably not written by her, but one of her PR people.

06:12:27.820 But...

06:12:28.820 And then go to the next tab.

06:12:29.820 You see my response.

06:12:31.820 And then...

06:12:32.820 So, I did a very thorough response.

06:12:34.820 Scroll...

06:12:35.820 Brian went ahead.

06:12:36.820 I love it.

06:12:37.820 So, I said, gender pay gap has been debunked for years.

06:12:40.820 Men have no reproductive rights.

06:12:42.820 Men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

06:12:44.820 Now, let's talk about how men are marginalized.

06:12:46.820 If you guys wanna see the tweet, I'm not gonna read all that.

06:12:48.820 But I...

06:12:49.820 Scroll down a bit.

06:12:50.820 I...

06:12:51.820 Yeah, I was like, here's how...

06:12:52.820 Wow.

06:12:53.820 It's not great.

06:12:54.820 It's rough out there for men, you know.

06:12:55.820 And then I said, I'll read the wage gap part, or scroll up just a teeny bit.

06:12:59.820 So, there's all kinds of gaps, because she referenced the wage gap.

06:13:02.820 A big one is the gender empathy gap, where people are much less likely to feel empathy

06:13:06.820 for men, whichever gender you are, but related to wage.

06:13:09.820 Let's talk about the dangerous job gap.

06:13:12.820 Die on the job gap.

06:13:13.820 Electrocuted to death gap.

06:13:15.820 Crushed to death gap.

06:13:16.820 Fall to their death gap.

06:13:17.820 Injured on the job gap.

06:13:19.820 Undesirable, disgusting, dirty jobs gap.

06:13:21.820 Work outside in heat, cold gap.

06:13:23.820 Gap.

06:13:24.820 Shitty hours gap.

06:13:25.820 Relocate gap.

06:13:26.820 Relocate gap.

06:13:27.820 I'm just gonna bring it on, Linda.

06:13:30.820 Relocate gap.

06:13:31.820 Commute gap.

06:13:32.820 Overtime gap.

06:13:33.820 Work in bumfuck nowhere gap.

06:13:35.820 Work a job that props up the entire infrastructure of society, so you can sit in your cushy,

06:13:40.820 air-conditioned office job gap.

06:13:42.820 Maybe try cracking open the history book or your eyes.

06:13:45.820 And then I also work for a frequently stressed out podcast host gap.

06:13:53.820 That's another one that my staff can probably attest to.

06:13:58.820 So, they all like that one.

06:14:03.820 So, frequently stressed out.

06:14:05.820 Losing his mind.

06:14:06.820 Frequently.

06:14:07.820 Frequently.

06:14:08.820 Okay.

06:14:09.820 So, um...

06:14:10.820 Oh, and was...

06:14:11.820 Was that...

06:14:12.820 I think that was it for the Lil Tay thing, right?

06:14:14.820 From Lil Tay?

06:14:15.820 Yeah.

06:14:16.820 Or is it the Billy one?

06:14:17.820 Okay, we'll pull up Lil Tay's response.

06:14:22.820 And then...

06:14:23.820 Oh, and then she responded.

06:14:24.820 I think we responded one other time.

06:14:26.820 You guys can go to my Twitter and see the whole back and forth.

06:14:29.820 But, um...

06:14:30.820 Oh my god.

06:14:31.820 Oh, is this it?

06:14:32.820 Oh wait, can you go back though to the...

06:14:34.820 Yeah, she...

06:14:35.820 Yeah, it was either chat GPT or somebody else was writing that shit.

06:14:38.820 So, she wrote all that shit.

06:14:39.820 And I was like, I will happily debate whoever is writing all this for you on our show.

06:14:44.820 Um, so, uh, that was fun.

06:14:49.820 I didn't think I was going to be beefing with a 16 year old this weekend, but it happened.

06:14:53.820 Um, and that would be cool though to get Lil Tay on the show and do a little debate, a debate with her and whoever was writing all that shit.

06:15:00.820 Um, for her on her behalf.

06:15:03.820 And then I have one more.

06:15:05.820 Uh, it's, uh, I don't know if you guys know Billy, Billy Ray Brandt.

06:15:11.820 She's been on the show like four times.

06:15:13.820 She's on the Gorlock episode.

06:15:14.820 She wrote a little thing.

06:15:16.820 Kind of, she wrote like a little, I don't know.

06:15:18.820 It's not a big deal.

06:15:19.820 It wasn't that bad.

06:15:20.820 But, uh, she kind of talked a bit of shit on Twitter.

06:15:22.820 So, I got into it with Billy Ray.

06:15:24.820 Let's pull it up.

06:15:25.820 And then, uh, there, so she wrote, she spent three hours writing this tweet that I just responded to.

06:15:32.820 And then, um, and then I just responded.

06:15:35.820 Why don't you come on the podcast with your boyfriend who probably wrote this parentheses and we can have a debate.

06:15:40.820 And then there's some other more back and forth.

06:15:43.820 But, so I don't know what happened this weekend, guys.

06:15:45.820 I normally don't get into these Twitter beefs, but I got into some Twitter beefs this weekend.

06:15:48.820 I wanted to update you guys.

06:15:50.820 A lot of Twitter beefs going on.

06:15:51.820 It's crazy.

06:15:52.820 It's crazy.

06:15:53.820 It's crazy out there.

06:15:54.820 So, yeah.

06:15:55.820 And by the way, I wasn't saying that to be sexist.

06:15:57.820 I do actually think she admitted that her boyfriend, like, writes a lot of her content.

06:16:05.820 So, anyways, whatever.

06:16:06.820 Um, I think she said that on the show sometime.

06:16:08.820 I don't know.

06:16:09.820 Whatever.

06:16:10.820 Okay, let's do the roast session, guys.

06:16:11.820 We're gonna do a roast session.

06:16:13.820 Then we're gonna wrap up the show.

06:16:14.820 Any final thoughts from any of the panelists on any pressing topics?

06:16:19.820 Final thought?

06:16:20.820 Maybe you want to talk shit to me.

06:16:22.820 I will allow it.

06:16:23.820 If you do, just be- I'm sensitive, so just be nice.

06:16:27.820 Okay.

06:16:28.820 Alright, guys.

06:16:29.820 TTS is now set to $20.

06:16:31.820 $20.

06:16:32.820 $20 TTS if you want to get a roast in.

06:16:35.820 You gotta roast- you want to roast me.

06:16:37.820 You should do it.

06:16:38.820 Tell me to lose some weight.

06:16:39.820 I need to lose some weight.

06:16:40.820 Johnny Spiral donated $20.

06:16:41.820 I gotta fix that.

06:16:42.820 Girl number one would stop partying for her boyfriend, but she won't stop fucking other

06:16:47.820 guys with him in the same room.

06:16:49.820 She must like cuts.

06:16:51.820 Damn.

06:16:52.820 Why do you need multiple weenies stuffing those holes?

06:16:55.820 What the fuck?

06:16:56.820 Uh, cause it feels really good.

06:16:58.820 Um, and an eye.

06:17:01.820 Oh, okay.

06:17:02.820 Okay.

06:17:03.820 Okay.

06:17:04.820 That's-

06:17:06.820 What's wrong with your boyfriend's weenie?

06:17:09.820 I mean his-

06:17:10.820 The underscore bipolar underscore girl donated $20.

06:17:13.820 Brian, you shouldn't have broken up with me.

06:17:16.820 I would have done the laundry, the bowl, and diced your tomatoes.

06:17:20.820 We should be together.

06:17:21.820 Forever.

06:17:22.820 Forever.

06:17:23.820 Forever.

06:17:24.820 Forever.

06:17:25.820 You woo, you woo, you woo.

06:17:26.820 You woo, you woo.

06:17:27.820 No!

06:17:28.820 Shniko owed $4 donated $20.

06:17:30.820 We've had to listen to these roided out tiny nut synths all night.

06:17:35.820 Men, these gummy grifters are not role models.

06:17:38.820 Neither Jake or Andrew call in and school these children.

06:17:42.820 Uh oh.

06:17:43.820 Wait, is Jake- Jake, are you still in the chat?

06:17:45.820 I saw him in the chat.

06:17:46.820 Jake, do you want to do a call in?

06:17:47.820 Let me know.

06:17:48.820 I don't know.

06:17:49.820 That's funny.

06:17:51.820 He's Australian too.

06:17:52.820 Yeah, Jake's a friend.

06:17:53.820 Wait, you were on the show with me.

06:17:54.820 Yeah, I like Jake.

06:17:55.820 Can you do a call in?

06:17:56.820 Of course, who did Jake?

06:17:57.820 By the way, Andrew had other plans.

06:17:59.820 So, Andrew had other plans tonight.

06:18:01.820 Yeah, Jake, you want to do a little call in if you're still in the chat?

06:18:05.820 Let me know.

06:18:06.820 Thank you guys.

06:18:07.820 I think he was in Texas, but he's gone somewhere else now.

06:18:10.820 Yeah, he travels a bunch.

06:18:11.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:18:12.820 He's traveling.

06:18:13.820 He travels a ton.

06:18:14.820 Yeah, Jake Rattlesnake.

06:18:15.820 Jake Rattlesnake.

06:18:16.820 Dear Andy donated $20.

06:18:19.820 Brian, by 1990's standards, you're morbidly obese.

06:18:23.820 Boom roasted.

06:18:24.820 I know, dude.

06:18:25.820 It's good that I'm, you know, it's a little more accepting now.

06:18:29.820 I feel like I would have been bullied a lot more if I was...

06:18:31.820 Drake donated $20.

06:18:34.820 Kiki, do you love me?

06:18:36.820 Are you minding?

06:18:37.820 Say you'll never ever leave from beside me because I want you.

06:18:40.820 And I need you and I'm down for you always.

06:18:44.820 Can you also do Hotline Bling?

06:18:46.820 And started from the bottom...

06:18:48.820 Now I'm here.

06:18:49.820 Now we're here.

06:18:50.820 Now we're here.

06:18:51.820 Started from the bottom, now I'm here.

06:18:52.820 Started from a middle class Canadian.

06:18:54.820 Thank you, man.

06:18:58.820 Thank you, Drake.

06:18:59.820 Appreciate it.

06:19:00.820 Sorry about all the, you know, the Kendrick Lamar shit.

06:19:05.820 It's Kendrick, right?

06:19:06.820 Yes.

06:19:07.820 Kendrick who went in.

06:19:08.820 Yeah.

06:19:09.820 That's tough.

06:19:11.820 Any final thoughts from anybody?

06:19:13.820 Speak now, forever hold your peace.

06:19:16.820 I don't think so.

06:19:17.820 It's been a very positive podcast.

06:19:18.820 Yeah.

06:19:19.820 I've learned a lot.

06:19:20.820 It's been a positive energy podcast.

06:19:22.820 Maybe some of the girls are like, whoa, this was toxic.

06:19:24.820 But trust me, this was tame.

06:19:25.820 No.

06:19:26.820 This was pretty good.

06:19:27.820 This was pretty good.

06:19:28.820 I'm a little bummed out.

06:19:29.820 I didn't get a little more heated.

06:19:30.820 You wanted it to get more heated?

06:19:31.820 Okay, let's talk about...

06:19:32.820 Okay, fine.

06:19:33.820 I agree with like 90% of the shit that you talk about.

06:19:35.820 So you and I aren't going to debate.

06:19:37.820 If you want to upset the girls though, the note that I skipped over,

06:19:40.820 because I didn't want it to be negative.

06:19:42.820 Which one?

06:19:43.820 About abortion.

06:19:44.820 My name is my...

06:19:46.820 I stand by that shit.

06:19:47.820 The burritos miss your mouth, Brian.

06:19:49.820 I had a burrito today.

06:19:50.820 So the orange hair on chair two looks better than the orange face on chair four.

06:19:55.820 Damn.

06:19:56.820 Damn.

06:19:57.820 By the way, I missed the pink hair.

06:19:59.820 You changed it.

06:20:00.820 It was like a month ago.

06:20:01.820 You had pink hair.

06:20:02.820 Now you got the...

06:20:03.820 After trial, everything.

06:20:04.820 I don't even know.

06:20:05.820 What color is that even?

06:20:06.820 There's tints of green.

06:20:07.820 It was like...

06:20:08.820 It faded.

06:20:09.820 It faded.

06:20:10.820 I went to the beach today.

06:20:11.820 Oh, that's the reason.

06:20:12.820 The beach will turn it green.

06:20:13.820 It's yellow and green and a bit of orange.

06:20:15.820 Yeah.

06:20:16.820 Cool highlighter.

06:20:17.820 Yeah.

06:20:18.820 Yeah.

06:20:19.820 It's good.

06:20:20.820 It's good.

06:20:21.820 Let's see here.

06:20:22.820 Let me double check if we have everything.

06:20:24.820 Got over the notes.

06:20:29.820 If you guys want final, last call guys on the little roast session.

06:20:34.820 Get your roasting guys.

06:20:36.820 Also, you guys need a roast.

06:20:39.820 I feel like we need a bit of roast on me.

06:20:44.820 I need to be roasted.

06:20:47.820 I had a cookie today.

06:20:49.820 I had a chocolate chip cookie.

06:20:51.820 You gotta fucking roast me boys.

06:20:53.820 I can't keep doing this.

06:20:55.820 Repeal the 19TH donated $20.

06:20:58.820 Women have always been able to work that's just feminist BS.

06:21:02.820 Women couldn't have credit cards because they couldn't have debt.

06:21:06.820 They spent money and their husbands paid for it.

06:21:09.820 Boo hoo.

06:21:11.820 Okay.

06:21:12.820 That is kind of a good point that he made.

06:21:18.820 That there's a lot of history and reasons for things.

06:21:24.820 Yeah.

06:21:25.820 I feel like I would have more to say if I grew up in that era.

06:21:28.820 But I don't know.

06:21:30.820 I feel pretty happy now.

06:21:31.820 I'm pretty privileged.

06:21:33.820 I think somebody sent in a 10, but it's below the threshold.

06:21:37.820 Let me see.

06:21:38.820 What other final things did I need to go over?

06:21:40.820 I think we pretty much hit everything.

06:21:42.820 We had a lot of good topics tonight.

06:21:44.820 A lot of good.

06:21:45.820 It was less toxic than normal.

06:21:47.820 That was good.

06:21:49.820 I want Gorlock here.

06:21:50.820 You want Gorlock?

06:21:51.820 We'll get you back.

06:21:52.820 We had Gorlock on.

06:21:53.820 We had Gorlock on.

06:21:54.820 No.

06:21:55.820 Like, genuinely not even as a joke.

06:21:56.820 Like, I love her so much.

06:21:57.820 Blackest donated $20.

06:21:59.820 Brian, you have been pretty weak this stream.

06:22:02.820 You are not the same without an alpha holding your hand.

06:22:06.820 I don't know if I can let you spit in my mouth afterwards.

06:22:09.820 What?

06:22:11.820 What?

06:22:12.820 What?

06:22:13.820 What?

06:22:14.820 What?

06:22:15.820 You used to call me on my cell phone late night when you need my love.

06:22:18.820 Call me on my cell phone late night when you need my love.

06:22:21.820 And I know when that hotline bling that can only mean a lot of fun.

06:22:26.820 Donated, donated, donated $20.

06:22:30.820 Anissa, you're beautiful but shut the F.

06:22:33.820 My mistake.

06:22:34.820 It's the strumpets at the table who need to zip it.

06:22:37.820 Anissa, your queen material.

06:22:40.820 So elegant.

06:22:41.820 So hot.

06:22:42.820 Just look at that little face.

06:22:44.820 Wow.

06:22:45.820 What the fuck?

06:22:46.820 Johnny Spiral donated $20.

06:22:49.820 Brian, you need to get more girls with bipolar disorders, obesity problems, and psychotic behaviors.

06:22:56.820 I'm so sorry.

06:22:57.820 It makes for more fun entertainment.

06:22:59.820 The panels have been a little boring long.

06:23:01.820 Honestly though, I kind of wanted to, I didn't want to go like too crazy tonight.

06:23:06.820 I wanted to be a bit more chill, a little more lighthearted, a little more fun.

06:23:09.820 A lot of, it's been kind of hectic past couple days, weeks, months, year.

06:23:15.820 And so, yeah, it's good.

06:23:17.820 I think sometimes you need to like a more chill panel to kind of just like recharge, you know?

06:23:23.820 You know?

06:23:24.820 Brian's left boob donated $20.

06:23:27.820 Yeah, bro.

06:23:28.820 Brian, you have boobs.

06:23:29.820 Damn.

06:23:30.820 Overweight.

06:23:31.820 Monthly emotional and moody outbursts on the podcast.

06:23:35.820 Sure, you're not going through menopause.

06:23:37.820 Come on, bro.

06:23:38.820 I've been on my period for the past like three months, man.

06:23:39.820 It's crazy.

06:23:40.820 That shit won't go away.

06:23:41.820 I tried everything.

06:23:43.820 It's crazy.

06:23:44.820 Anti-woke crusader donated $20.

06:23:47.820 Not a roast, but question for chest, bruh.

06:23:49.820 Favorite protein powder brand and flavor.

06:23:52.820 Also, Christ is Lord.

06:23:54.820 And vote Trump because Kamala is a fucking clown.

06:23:57.820 God bless you all.

06:23:59.820 Even the fonts.

06:24:01.820 Favorite protein flavor.

06:24:03.820 Honestly, I'm a simple man.

06:24:05.820 I would probably just say chocolate.

06:24:07.820 And favorite brand.

06:24:08.820 I keep it simple, dude.

06:24:09.820 Just GNC.

06:24:11.820 Nice.

06:24:12.820 Nice.

06:24:13.820 Wait.

06:24:14.820 I had a...

06:24:15.820 Oh, I want to end the show.

06:24:16.820 Let's do with...

06:24:18.820 You guys can still get some TTSs in if you want.

06:24:21.820 Let's see.

06:24:23.820 We should do the Patrice clip.

06:24:25.820 I kind of want to do the...

06:24:26.820 Do you know how to find it?

06:24:28.820 No.

06:24:29.820 I think it's in the video folder.

06:24:30.820 And it's going to be here.

06:24:31.820 I'm going to see if I can help you find it.

06:24:33.820 So, Dropbox, Podcast, Videos, Patrice.

06:24:39.820 So, yeah.

06:24:40.820 Dropbox, Podcast, Videos.

06:24:41.820 Alpha Smasher donated $20.

06:24:42.820 Patrice.

06:24:43.820 Patrice.

06:24:44.820 Any updates on Mason?

06:24:45.820 Oh.

06:24:46.820 I hope his recovery is going well and he will be back on the show soon.

06:24:50.820 Best wishes to all on the panel.

06:24:52.820 Austin, can you try to find the update thing for Mason?

06:24:55.820 Which one do you want, Chris?

06:24:57.820 Let's do...

06:24:58.820 Let's do Mason, then Patrice.

06:25:00.820 And, uh...

06:25:02.820 Yeah.

06:25:03.820 That's a good one.

06:25:04.820 Patrice is good.

06:25:05.820 Then we'll wrap.

06:25:06.820 And...

06:25:07.820 Let's see.

06:25:08.820 What other thing did we have?

06:25:10.820 There was a question.

06:25:12.820 Update on Mason.

06:25:14.820 I haven't checked it in a while, but, I mean, last I looked, he was doing good.

06:25:17.820 35 year conservative male donated $19.99.

06:25:22.820 To the young 33 old math teacher.

06:25:25.820 On a scale of 1 to 10, I would definitely rate you at a minimum of a 6, not a 4.

06:25:30.820 Your eyes are super pretty and I love your smile.

06:25:33.820 Oh.

06:25:34.820 Yeah.

06:25:35.820 Megan, thank you.

06:25:36.820 It's a good thing you got a sunburn in Hawaii.

06:25:37.820 I know.

06:25:38.820 Um, do you have the Mason update?

06:25:39.820 Okay.

06:25:40.820 Sweet.

06:25:41.820 Um, oh wait.

06:25:42.820 Nick Jensen donated $20.

06:25:43.820 Oh my god.

06:25:44.820 Clearly why do your arms look like noodles?

06:25:45.820 Also, what do the girls in the back do?

06:25:49.820 That is my boyfriend.

06:25:50.820 They are...

06:25:51.820 Oh, that's your boyfriend.

06:25:52.820 Yes.

06:25:53.820 Yo, Nick.

06:25:54.820 Yo.

06:25:55.820 We gotta get him.

06:25:56.820 Trish donated $20.

06:25:57.820 Oh my god.

06:25:58.820 On the show maybe.

06:25:59.820 Ryan, might be a good idea to actually get dirty in the sheets before they are washed

06:26:04.820 and folly.

06:26:05.820 Why would you spend $20 on this?

06:26:06.820 Thank you, Trish.

06:26:07.820 Oh wait.

06:26:08.820 Hold on.

06:26:09.820 Wait.

06:26:10.820 I gotta pause it really quick.

06:26:11.820 Wait.

06:26:12.820 So, can you do a flex?

06:26:13.820 No.

06:26:14.820 No.

06:26:15.820 He calls me noodle arms.

06:26:16.820 Let's see it.

06:26:17.820 No.

06:26:18.820 Immediately.

06:26:19.820 No.

06:26:20.820 Come on.

06:26:21.820 Double bicep.

06:26:22.820 Wait.

06:26:23.820 I'm okay.

06:26:24.820 I'm okay.

06:26:25.820 I'm okay.

06:26:26.820 I'm okay.

06:26:27.820 I'm okay.

06:26:28.820 I'm okay.

06:26:29.820 I'm okay.

06:26:30.820 I'm okay.

06:26:31.820 I'm okay.

06:26:33.820 I like my tiny arms.

06:26:35.820 Will you do a double bicep?

06:26:36.820 Yeah.

06:26:37.820 You guys can do it.

06:26:38.820 Fuck.

06:26:39.820 All natural, baby.

06:26:40.820 No steroids.

06:26:41.820 Fuck.

06:26:42.820 Said no one ever.

06:26:43.820 Orange juice.

06:26:44.820 Orange juice.

06:26:45.820 Fucking Myron, boys?

06:26:47.820 Fuck.

06:26:48.820 Myron.

06:26:49.820 Oh my god.

06:26:50.820 I'm so nervous.

06:26:51.820 Myron.

06:26:52.820 Um.

06:26:53.820 Double bicep.

06:26:54.820 Come on.

06:26:55.820 Hit the double bicep.

06:26:56.820 No.

06:26:57.820 I am so good.

06:26:58.820 Thank you so much.

06:26:59.820 Just do this one.

06:27:00.820 Your boyfriend will like it.

06:27:01.820 Just do this.

06:27:02.820 Just do this.

06:27:03.820 Just like that.

06:27:04.820 Fuck.

06:27:05.820 I'm alright.

06:27:06.820 Honestly, I'm good.

06:27:07.820 I'm telling you your boyfriend will think you're the sickest cunt.

06:27:09.820 In the best way possible.

06:27:10.820 He will like it.

06:27:11.820 I swear to god.

06:27:12.820 If you just do this.

06:27:13.820 Your boyfriend will be able to go.

06:27:14.820 Just do it.

06:27:15.820 Trust me.

06:27:16.820 Say.

06:27:17.820 Say.

06:27:18.820 Chest bra said.

06:27:19.820 Just do that.

06:27:20.820 Trust me.

06:27:21.820 I don't even know what that is.

06:27:22.820 I'll put my arm up.

06:27:23.820 Do you like your boyfriend to love you or not?

06:27:24.820 He does.

06:27:25.820 He does.

06:27:26.820 He's not trolling you.

06:27:27.820 Come on.

06:27:28.820 Seriously.

06:27:29.820 Just do this one.

06:27:30.820 Try it.

06:27:31.820 Just do it.

06:27:32.820 Yay.

06:27:33.820 Yay.

06:27:34.820 There we go.

06:27:35.820 That was good.

06:27:36.820 Clip it and ship it.

06:27:37.820 Well, if he does the ziz dance, ziz dance, will you do a double bye?

06:27:43.820 Fuck no.

06:27:44.820 You should do that shit for fun.

06:27:45.820 I'm half asleep and starving, man.

06:27:47.820 You need to screenshot this.

06:27:49.820 I need some food, man.

06:27:50.820 I want.

06:27:51.820 Cornelius underscore butt knuckle donated $20.

06:27:55.820 Brian, you're getting orangutan titties.

06:27:57.820 What the fuck?

06:27:58.820 Ladies, get you a man that looks at you the same way Brian is.

06:28:02.820 I'm working on it.

06:28:05.820 I'm working on it.

06:28:06.820 I got rules.

06:28:07.820 Labrador donated $20.

06:28:08.820 Yo, Brian, are you ever going to let us know why Chase never comes on anymore?

06:28:14.820 Did he kick your dog?

06:28:16.820 Wait, so first off, I got to respond to the orangutan titties shit first, bro.

06:28:20.820 Look, first off, not cake, chocolate chip cookies.

06:28:24.820 That's my go-to.

06:28:25.820 Okay.

06:28:26.820 But yes, I do take long romantic glances at sweets.

06:28:32.820 Okay.

06:28:33.820 Oh my God.

06:28:34.820 Sorry, that was so fucking lame.

06:28:35.820 I'm sorry, that was so fucking lame as fuck.

06:28:38.820 Chase, I think it was more like the invitation has been there for Chase, but he doesn't want

06:28:45.820 to come on.

06:28:46.820 There's not, we don't have like bad blood or anything.

06:28:52.820 It's just, I think, I mean, the, his words verbatim, and there's maybe other factors

06:28:57.820 too, but I mean, some, he said he, his words, not mine.

06:29:02.820 I don't enjoy arguing with whores.

06:29:11.820 His words, not mine.

06:29:16.820 I can't blame the guy.

06:29:17.820 He doesn't want to do it.

06:29:18.820 It's, you know, I look, I look at what happened to me.

06:29:20.820 What happened to me?

06:29:21.820 I got fat.

06:29:22.820 He's still, he's still fit.

06:29:23.820 He's fit as fuck.

06:29:24.820 So, you know what I mean?

06:29:27.820 Checks out.

06:29:28.820 Yeah.

06:29:29.820 I kind of get it.

06:29:31.820 You know?

06:29:32.820 What?

06:29:33.820 What?

06:29:35.820 Why are you looking at me that way?

06:29:37.820 No, I'm just, nothing.

06:29:38.820 Okay.

06:29:39.820 Alright.

06:29:40.820 Is, so how like ripped is like the boyfriend or whatever?

06:29:43.820 I can show you guys a picture.

06:29:44.820 I can show you guys a picture.

06:29:46.820 Life Medium Salty donated $20.

06:29:48.820 Brian, your girl brings food home.

06:29:51.820 XL large shell taco for her.

06:29:53.820 Just the way you like it.

06:29:55.820 And a burrito for you.

06:29:56.820 You going hard.

06:29:58.820 Realize too late it has red enchilada sauce all over.

06:30:02.820 Still smash.

06:30:03.820 Oh God.

06:30:04.820 Um, the, honestly bro, if she fucks up my food order, yeah, like she's not, she gets

06:30:13.820 a time out.

06:30:14.820 Like she's not.

06:30:15.820 Time out.

06:30:16.820 She's not getting any.

06:30:17.820 Set in the corner.

06:30:18.820 Like I withhold sex.

06:30:20.820 I'm like, no, you've been misbehaving.

06:30:22.820 I'm just kidding.

06:30:24.820 But it's happened once or twice.

06:30:25.820 I was like, damn, that's kinky.

06:30:27.820 You gotta, yeah.

06:30:30.820 It's crazy.

06:30:31.820 Girls don't like to be rejected sexually.

06:30:33.820 That shit's crazy.

06:30:34.820 But what if she messes up the food order but got you a chocolate chip cookie?

06:30:36.820 Like, I don't, you know what's crazy though?

06:30:38.820 I'll answer that in a sec.

06:30:39.820 But it's like.

06:30:40.820 It's food talking.

06:30:41.820 I know.

06:30:43.820 We only got a few more minutes.

06:30:44.820 Man, I'm hungry.

06:30:46.820 But it's crazy.

06:30:47.820 Like, you girls only want one thing and it's so, it's disgusting.

06:30:54.820 What?

06:30:55.820 Like, sometimes, like, you guys have just think about one thing.

06:30:59.820 Like, sometimes a guy just wants to cuddle, man.

06:31:02.820 And like, y'all, all these people want to fuck.

06:31:04.820 It's crazy.

06:31:05.820 Original Dr. Gonzo donated $20.

06:31:06.820 Chase, I don't like arguing with horrors.

06:31:09.820 Chair one proceeds to laugh.

06:31:12.820 Don't argue with me or you'll get fat.

06:31:15.820 That's what it is.

06:31:16.820 It's true, man.

06:31:17.820 I'm gonna need a stress hamburger after this.

06:31:20.820 But, yeah, it's like, I don't know, you girls, like, sometimes we just want to talk.

06:31:24.820 And y'all be trying to fuck.

06:31:26.820 It's crazy, man.

06:31:27.820 Like, can't a guy.

06:31:29.820 Like, I feel like y'all think we're pieces of meat.

06:31:32.820 Bitches be tripping, man.

06:31:33.820 Like, you don't.

06:31:34.820 You objectify us.

06:31:35.820 Yeah.

06:31:36.820 Like, all you guys want to do is fuck.

06:31:37.820 And it's like, really upsetting.

06:31:38.820 Okay.

06:31:39.820 Right.

06:31:40.820 It bothers me.

06:31:41.820 Yeah.

06:31:42.820 Like, can't we just cuddle?

06:31:43.820 Like, chill?

06:31:44.820 Yeah.

06:31:45.820 Okay.

06:31:46.820 When you say you want to talk.

06:31:47.820 Laundry.

06:31:48.820 You got, like, ulterior motives.

06:31:49.820 Like, you say you just want to talk, but all of a sudden you start wanting, like, fucking

06:31:53.820 shit.

06:31:54.820 I'm like, can we?

06:31:55.820 No.

06:31:56.820 Let's just talk, bro.

06:31:57.820 Damn.

06:31:58.820 These girls crazy, man.

06:31:59.820 Anyways.

06:32:00.820 Okay.

06:32:01.820 All right.

06:32:02.820 Let's see here.

06:32:03.820 We're gonna do a Twitch raid.

06:32:04.820 Then we're gonna wrap the show.

06:32:05.820 Who are we raiding?

06:32:06.820 Oh, the Patrice clip.

06:32:07.820 Sorry.

06:32:08.820 Patrice clip.

06:32:09.820 Raid.

06:32:10.820 Yeah.

06:32:11.820 Okay.

06:32:12.820 A million things.

06:32:13.820 Okay.

06:32:14.820 Let's do Mason really quick.

06:32:15.820 Are you able to go to the update tab?

06:32:17.820 Oh, I think it's the other website.

06:32:19.820 Oh, new updates at the end of the, oh, hit read more.

06:32:22.820 Can you make it bigger?

06:32:24.820 By the way, guys, with the help of the whatever audience, we raised five, well, the total donations

06:32:29.820 we sent was about $5,000 to Mason.

06:32:32.820 He was in a tragic, severe motorcycle accident.

06:32:37.820 He's been in the hospital.

06:32:39.820 Wait.

06:32:40.820 Can you scroll down?

06:32:41.820 Can you make it bigger too?

06:32:42.820 Oh, they have not updated this in a while.

06:32:47.820 Excuse me.

06:32:48.820 Sorry.

06:32:49.820 I don't see the update.

06:32:51.820 Well, I'll have to check it.

06:32:52.820 If you guys touch base with me on Tuesday, I'll take a look.

06:32:55.820 Let's do the Patrice clip.

06:32:56.820 Then we'll, I'm gonna get the Twitch raid ready and then we'll wrap.

06:32:59.820 Oh, it's so-

06:33:00.820 I apologize in advance for the images you're about to see.

06:33:03.820 Wait, what?

06:33:04.820 If you're doing a Twitch raid.

06:33:06.820 Are you going on our Twitches and raiding them?

06:33:08.820 Wait, what?

06:33:09.820 Do you mean Twitter?

06:33:10.820 Oh, I'm meaning Twitter.

06:33:11.820 Oh, no, no, no.

06:33:12.820 Sorry.

06:33:13.820 It's Dropbox Podcast Videos and it's the Patrice clip.

06:33:15.820 I don't want to know her Twitter.

06:33:17.820 Yeah.

06:33:18.820 What is your Twitter?

06:33:19.820 Oh, no, no, no, no.

06:33:20.820 No, I'm just like wondering.

06:33:21.820 Stellar underscore rogue.

06:33:23.820 Wait, what is it?

06:33:25.820 Stellar underscore rogue.

06:33:27.820 Oh, started from the beginning.

06:33:28.820 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

06:33:31.820 Hold on.

06:33:32.820 Let's see.

06:33:33.820 Oh, my God.

06:33:34.820 She.

06:33:35.820 Okay.

06:33:36.820 Let's play the clip.

06:33:38.820 All right.

06:33:39.820 Here's a question.

06:33:40.820 Here's a question.

06:33:41.820 Here's a question.

06:33:42.820 Okay, ladies.

06:33:44.820 If you didn't have a job.

06:33:46.820 Vector donated $20.

06:33:48.820 Hold on.

06:33:49.820 I'll pause it.

06:33:50.820 And Brian had a show that was completely logical and saying I would have zero dollars.

06:33:55.820 Now I have 20 less dollars because I am illogical and insane.

06:34:00.820 Vector.

06:34:01.820 Yeah.

06:34:02.820 I don't know if there's ever been.

06:34:03.820 Every show there's a little something crazy.

06:34:04.820 Let's start from the beginning.

06:34:07.820 Let me ask you a question.

06:34:08.820 Here's a question.

06:34:09.820 Here's a serious question.

06:34:10.820 Pay attention.

06:34:11.820 This is for the ladies.

06:34:12.820 Okay, ladies.

06:34:13.820 If you didn't have a vagina, like say it was a terrible train accident, right?

06:34:18.820 And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away.

06:34:23.820 Or you're going to die.

06:34:26.820 How would you keep your man past you get a two month guilty.

06:34:32.820 I can't leave the bitch right away because she just lost the pussy in a train accident.

06:34:39.820 Can't just walk right out on him.

06:34:45.820 How would you keep your man past that if you did not reject it?

06:34:49.820 Pause it.

06:34:50.820 And we'll keep it there.

06:34:52.820 We'll, uh, so you want to answer the question?

06:34:55.820 I mean, we have way more holes than just one.

06:34:57.820 Okay.

06:34:58.820 All right.

06:34:59.820 Sure.

06:35:00.820 Way more holes.

06:35:01.820 There's alternative ways to please men.

06:35:02.820 Such as?

06:35:03.820 Um, oral, anal.

06:35:04.820 Mm-hmm.

06:35:05.820 Oral and anal.

06:35:06.820 Sure, sure.

06:35:07.820 Um, I would just do anal.

06:35:09.820 Oh.

06:35:10.820 What?

06:35:11.820 Um.

06:35:12.820 That's why I stick to anal sex.

06:35:13.820 All right.

06:35:14.820 What about you?

06:35:15.820 Um.

06:35:16.820 Into the mic, into the mic.

06:35:17.820 Um, yeah.

06:35:18.820 I don't know.

06:35:19.820 Neither.

06:35:20.820 I don't know.

06:35:21.820 Wait, neither.

06:35:22.820 I don't know.

06:35:23.820 I zoned out.

06:35:24.820 Sorry.

06:35:25.820 So it's like, okay, here, here, I'll just, I'll recap it for you.

06:35:27.820 Uh, you get in a train accident, terrible train accident, lose your pussy in the train

06:35:31.820 accident.

06:35:32.820 Right, okay.

06:35:33.820 So, can't have like.

06:35:34.820 As you would.

06:35:35.820 Carnal likes that kind of sex anymore.

06:35:37.820 What, what do you do to keep your men?

06:35:40.820 Um, I don't know.

06:35:41.820 Like, treat them right.

06:35:42.820 Okay.

06:35:43.820 No, like.

06:35:44.820 That's the answer.

06:35:45.820 Sure.

06:35:46.820 What do you do to.

06:35:47.820 Yeah, me too.

06:35:48.820 Treat.

06:35:49.820 Treat them very good.

06:35:50.820 Okay.

06:35:51.820 All right.

06:35:52.820 What do you.

06:35:53.820 I agree with what she said.

06:35:54.820 There's other holes.

06:35:55.820 Other holes.

06:35:56.820 Yeah.

06:35:57.820 Like what?

06:35:58.820 Hands and.

06:35:59.820 Hands and.

06:36:00.820 Feet.

06:36:01.820 Get inventive.

06:36:02.820 Yeah.

06:36:03.820 There's lots of options.

06:36:04.820 I don't know, man.

06:36:06.820 That sounds like a lot of work.

06:36:08.820 I meant to press.

06:36:09.820 Choose the mouth that got away.

06:36:11.820 I meant to press that one.

06:36:12.820 Okay.

06:36:13.820 Let's play the rest of the clip.

06:36:25.820 Wow.

06:36:26.820 Nothing.

06:36:27.820 You can talk.

06:36:28.820 You can talk.

06:36:29.820 Suck his dick.

06:36:30.820 Okay.

06:36:31.820 Mouth.

06:36:32.820 Asshole.

06:36:33.820 Okay.

06:36:34.820 Asshole.

06:36:35.820 Okay.

06:36:36.820 That's right.

06:36:37.820 You see what I'm saying?

06:36:38.820 Now, I've been getting pussybeamed the whole show, right?

06:36:40.820 But I give women the opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more.

06:36:44.820 But you just classified yourself as a series of holes.

06:36:45.820 Yup.

06:36:46.820 But you know, I'm supposed to treat you special, but you're just a bunch of holes for yourself.

06:36:59.820 No one said learn how to play Xbox.

06:37:00.820 Learn how to play pool.

06:37:01.820 Tell better stories.

06:37:02.820 Get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in.

06:37:03.820 Well, look.

06:37:04.820 Whatever.

06:37:05.820 Whatever.

06:37:06.820 So, some of you passed.

06:37:08.820 You guys have hope.

06:37:09.820 Most of you failed.

06:37:10.820 But it's okay.

06:37:11.820 All right.

06:37:12.820 So, we're going to wrap up there.

06:37:13.820 We're going to do a Twitch rate.

06:37:14.820 Oh, let me.

06:37:15.820 Sorry.

06:37:16.820 There's maybe one roast that comes in.

06:37:18.820 Labrador donated $20.

06:37:20.820 Okay, final question.

06:37:21.820 Final question.

06:37:22.820 First, share.

06:37:23.820 Do you love licking dingleberries?

06:37:24.820 You look like you do.

06:37:25.820 What?

06:37:26.820 But people like licking dingleberries out of me.

06:37:27.820 Oh, what?

06:37:28.820 No, that's not a thing either.

06:37:29.820 That's fucking disgusting.

06:37:30.820 But it was funny.

06:37:31.820 Excuse me.

06:37:32.820 I'm sorry.

06:37:33.820 I'm sorry.

06:37:34.820 We're going to listen to the podcast.

06:37:35.820 All right.

06:37:36.820 You guys have hope.

06:37:37.820 You guys have hope.

06:37:38.820 Most of you failed.

06:37:39.820 But it's okay.

06:37:41.820 All right.

06:37:42.820 So, we're going to wrap up there.

06:37:43.820 We're going to do a Twitch rate.

06:37:44.820 Oh, let me.

06:37:45.820 Sorry.

06:37:46.820 There's maybe one roast that comes in.

06:37:47.820 disgusting but it was funny excuse me so yikes okay so uh last call if you guys want to get a

06:37:55.280 tts in guys uh let me just get this going we are gonna raid uh whoa grandma if you can get that

06:38:01.340 going austin so oh last thing call to action are you willing to stop uh doing only fans and

06:38:09.560 that stuff like just yeah just quit right now on the whatever podcast because we were so convincing

06:38:15.560 that it's awful we didn't really talk about it but no still still do it still do it okay darn too bad

06:38:20.420 okay well i tried anyway maximum effort try my best yeah you know put in a lot of effort there

06:38:27.720 okay so gg well played well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way

06:38:35.160 out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me

06:38:38.780 i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show thank you to

06:38:43.000 the wonderful panel tonight you guys were great we will be live again tuesday at 5 p.m pacific any

06:38:47.720 girls who want to be on the show dml whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara

06:38:51.840 oh sevens in the chat good night guys uh we're gonna do the quick raid really quick for those of you

06:38:58.160 watching on twitch before you leave guys on twitch drop us a follow over there on twitch drop us a prime

06:39:02.980 sub if you have one and then uh let's get the let me just double check here we're gonna raid whoa

06:39:08.520 grandma so we can get that going you guys so much for watching on twitch appreciate it appreciate it

06:39:12.560 thank you thank you so she's 82 guys be nice be nice she's playing world of warcraft okay uh so

06:39:18.620 i'm gonna send the raid uh in 10 seconds guys she's so cute right now it's a good thing it's a good

06:39:25.800 thing it gives them joy like they get friends i think that's cute okay thank you guys for watching

06:39:30.980 on twitch i hope you guys have a good night sending the raid now good night guys does the raid give her

06:39:35.340 lots of friends it gives her tons of friends does it make them pleased very pleased oh that'd be

06:39:40.700 nice let's watch this old lady yeah she'd be happy she's so cute so what a way to end a wholesome

06:39:46.760 podcast whatever is raiding hello hello hello

06:39:56.400 you're right silverback uh good evening whatever how was everything in your podcast good stream good

06:40:08.080 stream uh we could do one more but we don't have a take again and i'm not hugging

06:40:13.300 boom all right right there it is folks okay you can uh pause that all right guys

06:40:21.780 all right uh oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the youtube chat uh i hope you guys have a good

06:40:28.400 night we got a great show lined up for you guys on tuesday we'll see you guys on tuesday good night guys

06:40:33.560 oh sevens hey chat uh good night

06:40:37.040 wait wait wait um we kind of interrupted you when you were talking about uh your brother did you want

06:40:48.460 to say like a final uh thing about your your bro here as we i just want to say um thank you to

06:40:54.940 everyone who supports uh aziz who supported the movement since day one the miscas the ogs the

06:41:00.780 newcomers the lovers the haters all you guys it's all thanks to you guys that this movement is possible

06:41:06.000 that you know that it's created such a powerful uh momentum in the universe and and and his name is

06:41:13.440 bigger than ever it keeps him alive and it brings great joy to me so i want to thank you guys from the

06:41:17.460 blood of my heart thank you very much it was good to have you guys here thank you man it's been a

06:41:20.900 pleasure thank you brian well done guys all right guys one more for us let's go baby the whole panel

06:41:27.480 should do it there we go there we go she's clicking about it clip it and ship it boys okay

06:41:36.160 all right guys uh hope you guys have a good night we will see you guys on tuesday good night guys

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Whatever Podcast - October 21, 2024

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