00:11:12.620But I'm not familiar with Australian citizenship process.
00:11:16.820But I never even questioned your citizenship.
00:11:18.980so i'm not sure how we arrived there in any case okay uh next hi my name is elara i go by vela
00:11:27.180online vela lol on instagram i'm 24 i'm from chicago but i recently moved to san diego for
00:11:33.020school i'm pursuing my phd in literature and um yeah that's about it all right next
00:11:39.780hi everyone my name is crystal i go by cj shines bright on insta red pill brown girl
00:11:46.620I have a podcast called Unblack, where I talk about the issues that's facing black Americans and how it's important to kind of not be under labels because black is the absence of light, and that's what's happening a lot.
00:17:16.120We'd probably have to hazmat it, put hazmat suits on, and then, you know, put it in a barrel and bury it underground for a period of 10,000 years.
00:26:51.220So Christians, Catholics are called to marry, have children.0.61
00:26:57.060So there's nothing in the Catholic or Christian faith that would preclude you from engaging in post-marital sex.0.91
00:27:03.620Obviously, it does say don't engage in premarital sex, but you don't want to engage in sex period, right?
00:27:09.800So there's not a – my understanding is – now, of course, there are nuns in the churches, but there's nothing actually in the faith that precludes Catholic women from once married engaging in sex.0.69
00:27:26.420I have heard this is a common problem with religious women, and I've heard some religious women talk about it.0.99
00:27:33.800Like, there was Aline Tamir and Shelby Haddon, and they got married, but then because of their upbringing, they were unable to have sex after they got married.
00:27:46.060Well, I'm not familiar with those particular cases, but they were unable to?
00:34:14.980Yeah, he adamantly believed that whatever money he gave me would go to my son,
00:34:20.380which doesn't make sense because I'm a good mother.
00:34:22.720And in the state of Virginia, really, child support is to pay the mother back already invested through, you know, through rent and food and child care and shoes and all that stuff.
00:39:23.520Yeah, he's, you know, he recently told me that he would like to start coming to church with me again because, you know, he knows it means a lot to me.
00:39:31.660But I just don't think that he feels he says he like doesn't feel anything.
00:39:35.720You know, he'd rather like play video games and stuff.
00:39:40.860So he now sometimes there's there's loopholes and technicalities in this sort of conversation.0.94
00:39:49.380When it comes to the cessation, the abstinence, are you guys engaging in any other sexual activity such as oral sex, mutual masturbation, anything like that?0.96
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00:42:23.540to shop now i depend on them i would be open to like a relationship with a protestant but ideally
00:42:29.860a catholic man i see okay and uh let's one sec uh okay where was i going with all this
00:42:39.780shouldn't it just be you said ideally like ideally you'd want to marry a Christian man
00:42:46.640shouldn't it just be they have to be Christian because I if like having shared values is pretty
00:42:55.020much one of the most important things I think you can have yeah I agree in a relationship and if the
00:42:59.800person doesn't share your religious values which I mean yep I imagine your faith is overall it is
00:43:08.820the most important thing to you yeah absolutely so like if there's not a share if there's not
00:43:13.820an alignment on religion yeah then i just for someone who is religious i don't see the point
00:43:21.780in like entertaining somebody who's agnostic atheist or another religion doesn't really make1.00
00:43:26.620sense truth be told let the man free let him roam yeah let him get some pussy agree yeah just you0.99
00:43:34.500got to break up with a guy or he's got to dump you no offense i think um like it's complicated0.99
00:43:39.240only because when we got in the relationship i wasn't you know christian and so i think he had
00:43:45.300already like and i feel you know i do feel bad for him he had like emotionally invested in me for me
00:43:49.840all of a sudden to like flip the switch and be like i'm catholic now i don't want to have sex
00:43:53.820like i can imagine that was really difficult for him and probably still is um but we've chosen to
00:43:59.600stay together um if he chooses to break up with me then i would be understanding of that decision
00:44:05.120uh for sure now as far as the no sex thing um how did he take that um like he's not yeah he's pretty
00:44:15.720like emotional and pretty um no i wouldn't say violent but like he gets angry so i would say
00:44:25.440that this is definitely something that upsets him well hold on so okay to be clear he's not
00:44:33.820physically attacking you no has he ever physically assaulted you no more verbal okay so he gets he's
00:44:40.540angry but yeah it's like a verbal expression yes exactly so you guys argue a lot um not really
00:44:47.340arguing no he just like like i can give an example um like a little bit ago like about a week ago i
00:44:54.940was streaming um just like games on twitch like i'm not a titty stream or anything like just
00:45:00.560streaming and he was upset that i was like interacting with the chat so he pulled the
00:45:06.420power and shut off the power so like little things like that let me ask you a question so
00:45:11.980i know he's just your boyfriend but you do plan to get married correct not not to him necessarily
00:45:16.740but yeah exactly uh maybe him maybe somebody else yes uh so um
00:45:22.260do you believe that from a christian perspective wives should obey their husbands
00:45:30.480uh yes absolutely okay so if your husband said you're not going to stream ever again
00:45:37.100would you accept that i think uh it depends well yes but it depends like i would hope that the
00:45:43.400person that is my husband has like reasonings for this and could give if he could give me like
00:45:47.980you know his reasoning and how he's deciding to lead and what decision this is and why it's good
00:45:52.580for us um then yeah so let's say you disagree yeah with his reasoning but he still wants you to
00:46:01.640cease do you cease um I don't know that's a hard question I guess I I don't know well so
00:46:13.060okay um i don't know that the person that i love and should oh sorry go ahead i don't know why the
00:46:18.800person i don't know if the person that i love and want to spend the rest of my life with
00:46:21.980would try to strip me of something that makes me happy like that's not harming any well so so hold
00:46:27.740on though um good wives should wives be submissive to their husbands yes yes yeah hold on from i'm
00:46:33.980asking from a catholic christian perspective yes uh and it in fact it states as much in the bible
00:46:40.700Yes. Right. So is submission when you, is submission something you do when you already
00:46:49.400want to do it? Or is submission something, even when you don't want to do the thing,
00:46:54.040you do it anyways? Um, I think, sorry, what were the, can you repeat that?
00:47:02.240Well, okay. So it's like, yeah, you know, it's very easy for a woman to be submissive when,0.99
00:47:06.360Say, for example, she's on your private jet and you're giving her $10,000 a month to buy things.
00:47:16.920There's a lot of instances where it's pretty easy for a woman to be submissive.0.51
00:47:20.420But the real test of if you do actually subscribe to what the Bible instructs you to do is when you're submissive in an instance where perhaps you might disagree with your husband.0.82
00:47:32.320Now, to be clear, if your husband is instructing you to do something, say, immoral or against, you know, he's like, okay, I'm going to pimp you out.
00:47:42.440Obviously, you can not be submissive and you can, disobey isn't the right word.
00:47:48.140You can reject his leadership in that instance because he's not instructing you to do something in alignment with Christian values.
00:47:56.380However, if he's just like, hey, listen, I'm your husband.
00:48:47.820So there's, now I still think women should be generally submissive to their premarital partners or whatever.0.88
00:48:56.620However, from like a biblical perspective, I don't have quite as strong of an argument.0.64
00:49:04.380But if your husband, for example, were to tell you to stop streaming and you refused, would it necessarily be so wrong in that instance for him to pull the power?
00:49:15.900Yeah, well, that would be if I were to refuse, but I guess like there was no.
00:49:20.080He just pulled it just out of the blue.
00:49:21.800Yeah, out of the blue because he was fine with it before.
01:05:17.100But, yeah, I think if women were a little different, they would probably be more like, hey, I want to be with you.0.97
01:05:22.700But, no, I don't think, I think men would be happier if they didn't need women.0.96
01:05:27.380Well, do you think that's because there's like a lack of emotional intelligence in a lot of women these days, just purely because of what they're exposed to?1.00
01:05:35.800I think both ways. I think there's a lack of people having even the opportunity, they don't give themselves the opportunity to be emotionally intelligent and available anymore.0.84
01:05:45.980Yeah, I actually hear and agree. Men really on, I mean, just like just in a very natural scale, do not need women. And unfortunately, when you're in Western world, we take away the very, the very thing that they're hanging out with you for the very thing that they're marrying you for the very thing that they even want to entertain your presence. We say we have a headache.1.00
01:06:14.060like it's just yeah i don't think i don't think a lot of people are in the position to think
01:06:19.840outside of themselves enough to add value to someone's life wow but i i guess okay so
01:06:26.760the better framing i heard from this is that viral tiktok i saw she asked the question
01:06:33.420would men still want to date women if they didn't have access to women's bodies
01:06:42.140is that what you're getting at yes i think the answer is no me too right but where do we take
01:06:48.300so i don't think that's wrong though like if if a woman does not want to have sex with a man
01:06:55.960and he wants like okay what is the purpose the ultimate purpose of most romantic relationships
01:07:01.960to have kids ultimate coupling like and what is the difference then um like what distinguishes
01:07:09.140a, uh, what distinguishes friendship from a romantic relationship? Sexual attraction. Right.
01:07:17.420There's the sexual component. Um, so it's like, would you date an asexual man? No. Right. And I
01:07:25.680love men and I want to please a man and just the, I just want to give, give, give, you know,
01:08:41.060So I guess that viral video I saw, and perhaps a bit to your point, where the woman was saying,
01:08:46.900would men even want to date us if they didn't have access to our bodies?
01:08:49.940I don't think there's anything immoral about saying that sexual compatibility, sexual access, having sex is a prerequisite for a romantic relationship.
01:09:03.760So I think romance and friendship are different kinds of relationships.
01:09:08.400And if a guy knows that there's not going to be any sex, perfectly reasonable for him to not want to pursue a romantic relationship.
01:09:21.480That doesn't mean he doesn't respect women or value them as people.
01:09:26.080Chris Rock says that if a guy does not want to have sex with you or he's your friend, that was an accident.
01:19:34.740Maybe this is just an internet thing0.98
01:19:37.820I see all these women getting very upset about the hip dip thing online, and apparently you guys are all pretty cool with the hip dip rejection thing.
01:19:48.840Or you guys just don't want to bite on this subject.
01:19:52.900Okay, so anyways, Hipplet's done, I guess.
01:31:19.500I don't have, like, look, if you're a single guy, I think porn can be bad if you're single in the sense that it's preventing you from finding the motivation to actually go get a girlfriend or go get, you know.
01:31:33.080But I don't do this huge pearl clutching thing where it's like, okay, if a guy like watches 20, 30 minutes of porn while he's masturbating, I don't really care.
01:31:49.180I think there is a bit of catastrophizing related to it.
01:31:54.640I think some of the fears about porn are a bit overstated.0.96
01:32:00.760like a guy who's just like, okay, he's masturbating three times a week. He watches0.93
01:32:04.880porn for 20 minutes each time. Is he going to like completely fry his brain? No. But you got0.99
01:32:09.620a gooner like this girl next to me, who's just, you call yourself a gooner. If you're just gooning
01:32:15.460out hours a day and you're addicted to it and it's prevent, like you're just, it's preventing you
01:32:20.780from pursuing a relationship, trying to find a girlfriend, you're getting your fulfillment
01:32:24.500in that way, then that can be an issue. Uh, so I kind of land a little bit like overall,
01:32:31.840yeah, porn's bad. Like it's bad for a lot of reasons, but, um, well, sure. Okay. If you're
01:32:37.500not actively having sex with a, with a partner, then I think masturbation is okay. But if you0.99
01:32:42.780have a girlfriend who wants to fuck you and you guys live in the same, like you should fuck your1.00
01:32:47.500girlfriends and you should save that for your girl, because there is a phenomenon where if1.00
01:32:53.040you're too into the porn you're not going to be able like there's that visual component and who1.00
01:32:58.240knows maybe she's like fucking prude and she wants the lights off or some shit now hopefully she's1.00
01:33:03.480not like that and she's like you can look at my butthole if you want whatever doggy style but1.00
01:33:08.720there are some women who you know they want the lights off and you're so porn brained it's like1.00
01:33:13.340you can't even get hard unless you're like looking at like 300 different large labias at the same0.98
01:33:19.140Well, I would argue that if you don't like your woman or don't want to have sex with your woman and while you're watching porn, I would argue you don't like her.0.99
01:33:29.900You know, I would argue you don't really like her.0.90
01:33:32.520And I think a lot of people get together and they shouldn't even be with people.
01:52:40.300So we're going to stick for now on your disagreement here, which seems to be that you think, and I think you did write in the notes, you think the whatever podcast is sexist.
02:30:45.520Okay, then it is fair to call pornographers degenerate because they're engaging in sexual immorality.0.89
02:30:52.800As it's framed to Christianity, and I'll tell you.
02:30:55.200Right, but so it's fair to call it, like it would meet the definition of degenerate or degeneracy.0.75
02:31:00.520to refer to pornographers women who do only fans who do porn who participate in porn
02:31:05.180as degenerates on the flip side much like somebody who okay sorry go ahead on the flip
02:31:12.360side i was a preteen and came across my dad's whole porn collection multiple multiple uh i
02:31:20.360watch it like it was national geographic i discovered sexuality i mean i didn't touch
02:31:25.320myself i didn't masturbate to them but i watched what people do and i'd say like i failed as a0.95
02:31:32.200slut i couldn't be a slut if i tried but it certainly made me a sexual person i so okay not0.96
02:31:38.180sure how that's relevant objection objection relevance reclaiming my time we're moving we're0.99
02:31:43.680moving on to a different nope moving on to a different topic no no i i already what no no i
02:31:49.540I was just going to say what she was saying earlier was that when you said that, why OnlyFans feel like they have to, just for me, this is for me and me only, I never felt like I had to, I wanted to.
02:32:00.720Yeah, and there's a song that came out, a recent song that says, you know, like boosting and stuff like that.
02:32:07.700Whatever reason people do that, I just don't like calling them that.
02:48:15.460Has done to your mind, you're arguing a point that you're defending people lying on your ancestors as people make you feel guilty about it.
02:48:24.040humans be humans humans are not great creatures so when you tell me i've heard a story that humans0.98
02:48:29.600cannibalize cannibalize each other i'm gonna believe that white people cannibalize black1.00
02:48:35.140people during slavery that happened yes and we just found out about it in 2022 you see how stupid1.00
02:48:41.340that is like like like literally you're sitting up here allowing people vitamins do you're allowing0.95
02:48:47.520people we only just discovered that there were planets outside of our solar system uh within the
02:48:53.660last hundred years do you think that the you think if white people were eating people we would just0.74
02:48:59.200now be hearing about it they literally make you feel bad for everything everything that happens
02:49:03.240in the black community is blamed on white people don't you think that if there was a chance for0.71
02:49:08.000them to tell y'all that y'all were eating them that would have been one of the first things i0.98
02:49:12.640think cannibalism has happened in human history all over the world white people yes white people0.97
02:49:19.100too cannibalizing black slaves that they paid good money for to go work their fields they just0.64
02:49:27.580decided that they're going to eat them if there's no food yeah if it yes when has there been no food0.98
02:49:33.620during slavery honey pay for a slave then they could probably she's white y'all see y'all girl0.93
02:49:38.360over here this is the problem honestly this is what's happening 50 of your people are just in0.77
02:49:45.900complete rebellion straight up traitors you're arguing a point that you have absolutely no0.50
02:49:50.920evidence to prove on behalf of black people same with you no i don't have proof that there wasn't0.98
02:49:56.940cannibalism by white people on slaves and if you don't have proof you don't purport it that's the
02:50:02.980way the world works that's not true so you just go say things that i can't prove you're saying that0.60
02:50:11.040I am, I am, you're saying, I'm saying it's possible that white people were pushed to
02:50:17.000eat their slaves, yes, if there was no food.
02:50:19.440And it's possible that, it's possible that black people were kings and queens in Wakanda.0.81
02:51:56.860But they were contending that there was like widespread cannibalism
02:51:59.740Oh, I look, I don't know. It's that's like it's certainly possible that like some white people ate black people.0.97
02:52:08.780I don't know if there's compelling evidence for it, but I certainly where we almost certainly agree is that this was not like a widespread, like systemic racist problem in the United States where white people are just like, we're going to eat these black people.0.88
02:52:22.980that's ridiculous yeah can you is it i'm not saying is it plausible that there was an instance0.55
02:52:28.220of a white person eating a black person sure i'd be happy to say that is there like robust0.97
02:52:33.440evidence for this i'm not sure and also like the alligator thing or whatever yes like we're skinner
02:52:38.580and and my my thing is the only reason i care so you you asked about this the only reason i care0.99
02:52:44.320is because the african-american community is really in a pickle they they they are they have0.64
02:52:50.620run out of strings with blaming other people for everything that's happening to them. And what I1.00
02:52:57.760am hoping that white people just literally start saying, your problem, I'm sorry that happened to0.93
02:53:04.060you. I'm sorry you were enslaved. I'm sorry that your ancestors were enslaved. But we're moving on0.95
02:53:10.720because that is the only thing that is going to save these people from themselves. And the more
02:53:16.680that you just continue to allow them to keep pushing, pushing, pushing. Oh, we had chattel
02:53:21.040slavery. Oh, you did this. Oh, you did. Oh, now we ate you. Now we skinned you with alligators.
02:53:25.540Like, come on, cut it out. Cut it out. I agree with you in that we need to push back. But then1.00
02:53:30.160if we do push back, we're deemed as racist. That's exactly what I'm saying. So then what can we do
02:53:35.360then? Who cares? Thank you. Well, I think, I think. Oh yeah, but then that doesn't matter
02:53:39.780because then people get all upset still. But I think that's probably. Wait, wait, wait. In order
02:53:45.300to save civilization we're going to have to hurt the feelings of women and we're going to have to0.57
02:53:52.340hurt the feeling we're out we're going to have to be called racist yes we're gonna they're gonna
02:53:56.600have to call us racist look we're gonna have to uh what's the term re re emigrate remigrate what0.93
02:54:02.320like we're gonna have to deport a fuck ton of people out of europe yes we're gonna have to0.90
02:54:06.320deport people out of the united states if you want to call that racist i don't think it's racist but0.81
02:54:10.160yeah we got to support a lot of people if we want to uh save our civilization yes i agree completely
02:54:17.700i think where she's maybe coming from too you and i are both kind of maybe in the realm of like
02:54:23.360academia research these kind of these are very like left-leaning you know industries um or like
02:54:28.820um places you know very very left-leaning and it's very hard to speak up against this stuff
02:54:35.980without being completely, like, annihilated.
02:57:27.900I think, like, too, maybe, like, again, I agree with your point, you're eating it up out here, but I do want to say, like, so you would agree that maybe, like, what do you think the problem is, I know, like, you're saying, like, white people not calling them out, but do you think, and, like, what would you say is the problem, like, within the black community, like, is it, like, a cultural issue, or, like, what is the issue with why are there, why is the single motherhood rate so high, why are, you know, why are the people resorting to gang violence, like, all these things?0.52
02:57:53.960Yeah, low IQ, I believe, and I mean, like, people don't really like to talk about these things, but the average IQ in the African-American community is 85, and that is a real problem because typically when you see people get violent, people get ignorant, don't really understand the value of life, and they'll attack you over 10 issues, or they'll attack you because that you were looking at, that's usually an IQ problem.0.67
02:58:21.720What I have an issue with is, and I know it's hard, I do not mean anything when I say this, but white people, y'all have got to get strong.0.98
02:58:32.660Y'all are really weak, and I understand that you may lose some things, and I understand that things may be hard for you.0.51
02:58:39.400There's nobody that has done anything that is worth doing that hasn't got, I mean, our president, for crying out loud, got shot in the ear, and he still kept going.
03:16:48.780Let's say we defund and we completely abolish abortion and we put all that funding to foster care or finding good placements for those children that the parents don't want them.
03:18:11.020So if you're trying to say everyone's saying pro-life, pro-life, the biggest pro-lifers are going to be people in, you know, a religion stance point.
03:20:45.340you want to talk about the bear versus man situation is a great discussion point uh so i
03:20:50.300guess what's your take on the bear versus man thing um so i'm i like the first thing well the
03:20:56.060first option i would choose would obviously be the man but my argument being that if you took a woman
03:21:01.740and you put her in between a man or a bear and you said who would you run to first their first
03:21:07.260choice would probably be a man right so when you say when a lot of these women who say they'd rather
03:21:12.060be stuck in the forest with a bear it really doesn't make a whole lot of like cognitive sense
03:21:16.540I think the argument is that there's so much hatred towards men right now online a lot of
03:21:21.980people are like I hate men I hate men I'll choose the bear over the man and it's just said so much
03:21:28.300people will say that even though it doesn't make sense it doesn't make logical sense you're gonna
03:21:32.580run to the man if you see a brown bear but that's just the argument yeah but the thing is if you
03:21:38.740have the choice right if you choose to be so if you had if you were stuck in the forest between
03:21:43.540with a man or a bear i'm going to the man yeah even if there wasn't a bear uh you pick the bear
03:21:49.460you pick the bear why is that why do you pick bear the worst animal to be killed by is a human
03:21:53.520um what i mean they can at least do it fast with a bear you're gonna be suffering for a while
03:22:01.700okay the worst animal to be killed by is a human how do you know is she a performance artist i feel
03:22:11.260like she's doing a i don't know i can't explain what you mean have you not seen the documentary
03:22:16.320grizzly man no i should yeah okay so why do you pick bear you'd rather encounter a bear than the
03:22:22.820man don't you think that's kind of sexist i must have um jumped to an extreme with that question
03:22:28.620like I just said um right but nothing in the question suggests that the bear could be peaceful
03:22:34.560so to speak and the man could be peaceful okay so why is there an assumption that in both instances
03:22:39.660yeah okay they would be violent I guess I so do you just assume men are violent maybe I've
03:22:45.620watched this so are you sexist do you do you think generally I didn't say men it could have said
03:22:50.860woman. It totally said man. But you would have picked a bear over being in the woods with a woman? What a waste of time. All right. If that's what I was thinking, yeah. Christina, why do you pick bear? Wait, what's the question? Oh, my God. Okay, skip. I'm sorry. If you're not paying attention, I'm not going to, I'm just going to skip over you. Going back to you, Elizabeth, you said you're not a fan of dating apps. You've, uh, why is that?
03:23:17.200I feel that the instant gratification that comes from dating apps kind of demoralizes,
03:23:23.220and I guess it destroys actual interpersonal relationships that we should be having with each other,
03:23:29.500especially as it pertains to women corresponding and relating to men.
03:23:33.880I think it's also caused us to really disrespect the men in our life by not actually...
03:23:41.280We don't really view them anymore as men.
03:23:43.340We like looking at them as just objects that we're flicking through,
03:23:45.960like, you know, one after the other. Okay. Let's see. You also write, men often say they don't
03:23:55.520want their woman to have established careers. They prefer their partner at home. Is it success0.76
03:24:02.900men dislike or the attitude that sometimes comes with it? Do you want to elaborate?
03:24:07.340Yeah. So, and this is just speaking from experience. I did like drive forward with my
03:24:12.860career right i was very career driven and and that was at the demise of like my relationship
03:24:18.140and being able to have a family so that one aspect of this argument is that men don't typically like
03:24:25.900women to have careers just because they would like to be would like them to be in front of the family
03:24:29.720but it's another aspect of it that when women do develop careers and they do advance in their
03:24:35.800careers that they do develop some kind of attitude that comes with it that men don't really like
03:24:40.480you asking me oh yeah that was a general like question yeah yeah well i think uh when it comes
03:24:49.300to moving through the business world corporate world there is a degree of game playing that one
03:24:58.520needs to develop uh and i guess it depends a little bit you know are you in the corporate
03:25:04.640world as an employee? Are you a business owner? Um, how ambitious, like how, how much do you
03:25:12.160value career ambition? If you're like some A type personality go-getter and you're like
03:25:17.820prioritize career advancement overall, um, men typically don't, uh, find this to be an
03:25:25.180attractive thing in a woman because it doesn't, it's not really a value proposition for a woman
03:25:31.100to be have career ambition typically speaking um and women can like i don't know if this frame is1.00
03:25:40.280gonna is gonna come across as crude but typically um there's a level of
03:25:46.360not that it's bad to be assertive but usually in the if as an employee you you want to be assertive
03:25:59.180and I'm not saying being assertive is necessarily a bad thing but there's this boss babe mentality
03:26:08.780that can develop in women and men oftentimes find this not particularly appealing you don't
03:26:16.500need to be a wet blanket or a complete uh what's the doormat or whatever but um I don't know I think
03:26:24.080uh conquest is typically the the realm of men and so you want to con you want to do conquest
03:26:34.200in your career and so oftentimes more aggressiveness is more typically more associated
03:26:42.320with men i would say and i i actually i i don't even know what i'm saying this is just this is
03:26:47.800just a bunch of stupid word salad i guess i'm saying but um i do think there is a component0.97
03:26:52.060This is not observed in all women who work in the corporate field, but I do think women will find themselves, if they are being a boss babe, they are a bit more lacking in femininity.0.99
03:27:05.140They become more masculine, I find.0.95
03:27:09.020And so men don't want typically to date masculine women.
03:27:14.160And there's a whole bunch of reasons. I mean, there's just a general personality thing, but there's also just men, if a man is interested in having a family, he wants to have kids. If the woman is going to prioritize a career over kids, then that's not an alignment in goals, I guess.
03:27:34.600but why does it have to be a prioritization why can't it be multitasking why can't a woman0.99
03:27:41.740i mean i'm not saying everyone could but it's more like the attitude that comes with it and
03:27:47.660that's what i was referring to which i speak from experience you know i had to do a lot of self
03:27:52.600like introspection and kind of um self-reflection on why my relationships weren't working out and
03:27:59.720why i you know i was having these long-term relationships that weren't leading anywhere
03:28:03.600well why do you think um because i was so like mission first right um my career came before my
03:28:10.080relationship a lot of the time let me ask you a question did you ever have to like cancel a date
03:28:13.800because like oh deadline yes yeah and it's like when a woman does that it's uh like look i'm not0.88
03:28:22.200we're not saying okay women you need to obviously you need to provide for yourself you need to have0.99
03:28:28.140housing food take care of yourself my argument here is not okay women you should be unemployed0.95
03:28:34.440but if your career even before we have kids if your career makes it difficult you're so focused1.00
03:28:43.500on your career oh there's a deadline coming oh i gotta cancel the date some big projects came up
03:28:48.200it's like look you can have like a nine to five that i mean a nine to five that's full-time work
03:28:54.440that's that's demanding but like she's i gotta cancel because there's a thing i kind of like1.00
03:28:59.980at least in my experience if a woman cancels on me because of something work related like okay0.99
03:29:05.540you already have your nine to five that's off limits i get that but we have a date on saturday
03:29:10.840oh i got a deadline it's like okay you're prioritizing your work over
03:29:18.600trying to date and it only gets worse doesn't it apply to men also no yeah but so if if you're
03:29:27.780if you're approaching dating as a woman and you want like at least some degree of traditional
03:29:32.040dynamic there uh the traditional thing was the men the man is the breadwinner sometimes the sole
03:29:38.100breadwinner and so there's the expectation on the man to work but i think the man but like from my
03:29:43.820perspective, for example, like whoever I'm going to be with long-term, I'm a higher earner. The
03:29:50.600woman doesn't need to work period. She won't have to work. So when some girl has a dog walking1.00
03:29:57.440business and she cancels on her pre-planned date, Oh, I got to walk dogs and I'm going to make,
03:30:05.420I make 50, 60 K a year, a hundred K. I'm like, congrats. Like I make that in a month. I don't
03:30:12.060fucking care like you really you're you're going to in furtherance of your 70k job so then you need0.98
03:30:20.540to you're going to cause friction for me who's prepared who's like trying to size you up so you0.99
03:30:28.320never have to work again you're going to cancel on me when down the road the possibility is money
03:30:34.300will never be an issue for you i'm like okay and it's only to feed their ego i mean that's that's
03:30:40.560why i say a lot of the women especially the career women are no different than the only fans girls
03:30:45.780like seriously just so that dog walking business can say oh yeah i have thus much and i have this
03:30:51.520much and i do this for myself and women a lot of times when they um are career driven they become
03:30:58.060like nightmares not just to the men that they date they become nightmares in the workplace they're
03:35:14.320I think school's kind of bullshit, but there's ways to make money.0.96
03:35:18.320Now, if you were also in a financially good place, then hopefully, you know, if there was life insurance, your husband dies, whatever, there's all kinds of mechanisms to hopefully protect a woman from not, okay, husband died, I'm in the streets in 30 days.0.98
03:35:38.060I actually think that, and I am a Christian, you guys, but I do believe a lot of these men, the answer to kind of fixing what's going on with these relationships, I think they are going to have to start leaving women.
03:35:53.140I think the told to death do us part stay together for the children has made the world worse because men are having to take whatever from their wives and you guys I say that I say this as a divorcee who left my husband the first time for nothing good guy shout out to him.
03:36:15.140He's my son's father. And, um, I just left because I wasn't happy anymore. And what would
03:36:22.160have happened is, is he would have stayed with me and I would have been hell to be with. And so I
03:36:29.040think a lot of these guys need to start taking their power back and saying, Hey, you know what?
03:36:33.720I'm going to be an awesome father to my kids. And he tells me all the time, he's like, you're not a
03:36:37.860single mom. You're a single woman. And I'm going to be an awesome father to my kids. I'm going to
03:36:43.100make sure that I'm there and I'm going to have four, five, six more babies and they're going to
03:36:47.620be better than the one that we made. So even if you've fallen out of love as a woman, uh, as soon
03:36:53.980as look, if you don't have kids, you know, even the Christians would probably object to divorce,
03:36:58.520but look, you don't have kids and it's not working. Fuck. I don't care. Go your own ways.1.00
03:37:02.760However, once you have kids from a religious perspective or not, I do think that you should
03:37:09.780probably stick it out with that person. And you're saying the woman's just going to be obnoxious and1.00
03:37:15.060nagging and a bitch. The woman has a duty to be a good person in the relationship. And so I don't1.00
03:37:23.780think that, I don't know. So what's the incentive if you're going to stay with them forever? I've
03:37:29.960heard women actually say that you better not cheat on me because I'm not leaving you, but I'm going1.00
03:37:34.620to make your life hell. Who wants to stay there? Well, she shouldn't though. The woman should not1.00
03:37:40.000make the man's life hell. Like that shouldn't be the case. I agree. She should. You made a
03:37:47.720commitment. You made a commitment. You now have kids. You are secondary now. Your happiness and
03:37:54.880wanting to get dicked down by some new dude, that is secondary. Your own selfish desires are
03:38:02.240secondary when you have kids so and perhaps maybe there's a rough patch and instead of giving up
03:38:08.740you find a way to fix it can i make a point sure quickly to your um thing that you said
03:38:15.180you said like uh when something about um when you uh like staying with them when they've uh
03:38:24.560when the relationship when you're not happy um is bad for the kids right i see yeah it can be bad
03:38:31.780Yeah, but wouldn't you agree, too, that divorce could have a substantial impact on a child's life, maybe even more so than just unhappy parents?
03:38:43.340So, I think it all depends on how the parents handle the separation and divorce process.
03:38:49.200Personally, I think children can become stronger people if they're faced with, my parents aren't getting along, here's how they're handling it.
03:38:59.260they've decided to split and this is the way people can manage their lives like if you show
03:39:05.120them a healthy avenue they can grow stronger for it um i don't see the point in um keeping people
03:39:12.880together if it's just not going to work you know teach the kids how people can separate like for
03:39:19.120i've never i always want to be friends with my exes i don't understand anger and animosity and
03:39:24.360vitriol because I'm emotionally intelligent. My kids grow up in broken homes and they're strong,
03:39:31.080wonderful people. So I don't think it's a done, done, done situation if the situation breaks.
03:39:36.880But Brian, here's one thing I want to ask you. In another show, you said
03:39:41.540a woman's career is not important, right? And that's fine. Let's say you meet the woman of1.00
03:39:48.780your dreams and and she develops an interest so you want peace you said you want your your partner
03:39:56.460to be give you peace well in order to give her peace you have to recognize and support whatever
03:40:02.260interests she decides that she wants to go into you don't think i don't have a duty in a relationship0.79
03:40:07.020to support her interests that's ridiculous that is ridiculous give me an example love0.94
03:40:15.240Hey honey you're really good at this0.87
03:40:17.220I would love to see what you do with it
03:40:40.260You're not going to ride motorcycles1.00
03:40:42.500You're not going to do the horseback riding shit1.00
03:40:45.200anymore. So, no, I don't have a duty as a man to support her interests or whatever, especially if0.99
03:40:51.860it causes a financial burden on the relationship or poses some health risk or fucking life risk0.97
03:40:58.480to my girlfriend. Okay, to your point, what if something happens to you and you're not able to0.96
03:41:05.220contribute to the family financially? Are you going to take the time for the wife to train up?
03:41:09.600That takes years. Or would you have someone who's capable of saying, okay, I can step up now,1.00
03:41:14.440help you get on your feet. I can do this because I've already skilled at that.
03:41:19.240Sorry, can you make your question more clear?
03:41:22.380If something happens to you, my husband, and we need money,0.96
03:41:27.220why wait and get trained up, get the wife0.99
03:41:30.460trained up to make the money or marry someone who's already got the skills and capabilities1.00
03:41:34.360to bring in cash flow when you're not able to?
03:41:38.500What's the question? The question is, your partner's supposed
03:41:42.440to help support you when you're down and out if you're the breadwinner and you can no longer win0.99
03:41:47.800the bread do you want to wait right well you're saying i don't want a career focused woman well0.98
03:41:54.240career focused woman has the skills and ability to get a job real quick and bring in the money1.00
03:41:59.080when it's necessary right so you can present me hypothetical situations in which you know1.00
03:42:04.560some catastrophic thing happens and you know we're down in the dumps and uh realistic situations yeah
03:42:12.360Yeah, well, I mean, these, yes, people do encounter things in their life, whether they get sick or whether they get in some sort of catastrophic injury.
03:42:25.020This wouldn't supersede the general inclination to men having an aversion to women who put to career over other things.0.75
03:42:37.160Look, you don't, as a man, if you want to date a woman who has a decent grasp of the marketplace and she has a job, I'm not saying don't, but it is generally, I think it can generally be an issue when a woman is so career oriented that she puts that over family, over kids.0.75
03:42:53.840And then when you do have kids, she's going to be like, I'm not fulfilled.0.95
04:10:08.040Can we agree that when it comes to, like, birth control, for example, there's been way more robust research on female birth control as compared to male birth control?
04:49:09.800I'm going to completely butcher this.0.99
04:49:12.800fucking i think bless it's something along the lines of whose quiver is full blessed is the man1.00
04:49:19.980who oh my god fuck something about um the man who has many kids is like uh a man who has many1.00
04:49:30.380sons is like having many arrows oh my god i'm so bad i just i'm okay it was a good show good0.99
04:49:37.380something about quiver and lots of suns and it being a good thing
04:49:43.680i mean i just don't i don't know it's just my perspective that i i think okay i guess i'll
04:49:53.000put a clearer picture i think like 20 plus year age gap like as a as young like 18 20 year age
04:50:01.260gap like if you're like 60 and 40 you know i'm sure that's as you get older i think the age
04:50:07.020matters less but like 18 you know with a 37 year old that's just like a little strange to me i'm
04:50:16.420sorry i just find it to be strange now let me ask you a question um does it change anything if
04:50:22.600okay this is i don't know where i'm going with this i saw something andrew posted recently
04:50:28.080um do you think there's a component like do you think that there's women for example who are
04:50:33.56018 and they have like a quote-unquote woman's body and you have like women who are in their
04:50:39.58030s 40s 50s who are not so to speak developed who do you think is more like let's say this1.00
04:50:48.120woman has is flat-chested uh does not have curves has no ass do you think the man who's dating her0.98
04:50:55.680would you find that more objectionable than the man who's dating an 18 year old who's like1.00
04:50:59.980she's fucking stacked boom pow no there's a there is a generational difference it's not just like0.98
04:51:09.700about body and having yeah having you know a womanly body a curvy body that has to me that0.99
04:51:16.940has nothing to do with my argument i i'm not i don't you know i'm not objectifying women in the
04:51:22.980sense of them being like curvy or whatever to constitute them being more womanly. Cause then
04:51:28.700you could just follow that same logic and, and it gets pretty, you know, dangerous if you're
04:51:34.760going to apply that logic down. No, but you wouldn't, you would not apply it down. You would
04:51:40.720say, uh, we're speaking strictly of adults here in the situation. But I don't, but again, I don't
04:51:47.140look at a woman's body and think oh she's she's got a curvy body therefore she is more womanly1.00
04:51:53.920like i don't that my brain doesn't connect those two things i don't think you're more womanly for1.00
04:52:00.560having bigger right so but so i i i'm not claiming that this is my position i think a woman is just0.90
04:52:07.000as much of a woman if she has a cups or nothing as compared to like a woman who has double d's
04:52:12.240i'm not suggesting that but there there is this sort of argument that like that people want to
04:52:17.820say oh well that's um you know you're attracted like there's a physical component to attraction
04:52:24.220right yeah and so i i sometimes guess where i get somewhat confused is like
04:52:32.140you would agree that there's a woman who can be like who's who can be 18 but she can have0.63
04:52:39.520all the like typical markers of say i mean look people can be super curvy at 18 and be completely
04:52:47.300flat at 40 right but i don't know uh i don't know where i'm even going with that argument well
04:52:54.680there's a different can i say brian there's a difference between statutory grapes as opposed
04:53:01.760to like actual you know i don't i don't want to say the i don't know what so so i think a lot of
04:53:09.120times women you see um a 18 year old and you're like oh well you know she's still a kid it's1.00
04:53:14.360actually not they have all the working parts probably around 12 13 and you see these girls0.71
04:53:20.560kind of throwing themselves at these guys because they have all the working parts by the time they're
04:53:25.24018 they can date whoever they want I mean when do how how where are we how are we playing this
04:53:31.280whole legal age like I mean you want to make it 25 I mean you want to make it 26 20 like you know
04:53:36.540That's kind of a straw man, because I actually don't think that I'm not making that argument at all. I don't actually believe that like women can't date whoever they want. I think they absolutely can. You know, you have the freedom to date and do whatever you want. But the question was about me. Do I think that it is strange? And I'm just saying that, yes, I do. I'm answering the question. I do think it is strange when a much older man dates a much younger woman. I think that there are generational differences. They grew up in different times. I just find it to be strange.0.73
04:54:06.140I think you you are literally dating an agnostic you are dating a man so let me ask I think your0.87
04:54:14.740relationship dynamic is more objectionable than say a 30 year old dating a 19 year old and they're0.92
04:54:20.620both like I said like 20 years but they're both but I said 20 years okay so fine 35 year old dating
04:54:26.700a 19 year old uh but let's say they're both equally yoked and they're both like the same
04:54:31.780denomination of christian and they have complete alignment in all values i think that that's they
04:54:37.800have a stronger similarity than you do with your boyfriend who you've been like dating for a year
04:54:44.720who's still agnostic and isn't getting on the christian train yeah that's probably but so you're
04:54:50.620engaging in a relationship dynamic where you guys have completely contradictory uh like values no
04:54:58.600Okay, hold on, because you're not in the relationship.
05:04:00.380All right. Back to the age gaps. Anyways. So let me ask a question. Let me ask you a question. All right. So look, I'm not on dating apps, so I'm not like setting my filter for like 18 to 21. I'm not going to college parties so I can mack on some fucking retarded 18 year olds or whatever. Right.
05:04:18.380let's say a 19 year old girl dms me i'm not going out of my way she dms me she's hot1.00
05:04:26.860she agrees with me on everything she's based big labia should i should i from your perspective0.82
05:04:36.900turn her down should i turn her down how old are you 37 but i read at a 34 year old so you're not
05:06:11.900So in this case, would you tell me, Brian, even the woman, the 19-year-old woman who DMs you and she's got a huge labia, Brian, you should turn her down because she's 19 and you're unk.0.75
05:06:25.840I think, honestly, I would, yes, I would say yes to that.0.57
05:15:35.200You would thus have to have some sort of objections to, like, say, because you can narrow the age gap, and then all of a sudden, like, a 25-year-old dating a 20-year-old, even that narrow, maybe you object to that even, that narrow of an age gap, well, when he was 20, she was 15.
05:22:45.360Or, yeah, sorry. No, like, no, I mean, like, just based on my, um, no, yeah, sorry. Subjective. I'm getting the words mixed around. My subjective outlook, my, my, me looking in on the situation from what she said, I think that that man has no business with this young woman.
05:52:35.160But that doesn't negate the fact that it can, that doesn't negate the fact that you could be somewhere further, except that you can't, whether it's, you know.
05:52:44.660well you got to be intentional like intentional about the person that you love and caring about
05:52:50.960about each other like we need to get back to that but i i do agree you get in a relationship and you
05:52:56.620just don't try anymore you don't try to be pretty you don't flirt with them i try very hard like
05:53:01.600i don't want to be that girl and you guys this has been an evolution i'm auntie at this point
05:53:06.800i'm 42 so i'm trying to school you guys like i don't want to be that girl that was busting it
05:53:11.240wide open at at these ages and then get in a marriage and act like i'm sister mary clarence
05:53:18.360like no you don't do that to a person that will cause the person to like want to choke you out
05:53:24.200and i'm not i'm not advocating for it but it's very frustrating just a reminder guys we're casting
05:53:32.160women for the podcast you can dm at whatever on instagram if you're interested also get me to a
05:53:37.480million followers on my personal ig brian atlas x we're 40 000 away i think we can do it we should
05:53:43.480most likely do it before the end of uh july so that'd be a cool little milestone to hit one
05:53:51.340million on the instagram also guys if you're enjoying the stream like the video always remember
05:53:57.340a big labia matter uh i'm gonna lower the tts here we're gonna do maybe a bit of a roast
05:54:04.220tts is going to lower to 69 69 tts 10 will still be the display and then pull up twitch really
05:54:12.560quick t dog big t thank you man uh guys drop a follow and a prime sub on twitch i know we got
05:54:23.3601200 watching just on twitch so i need all of you guys who are watching us on twitch who are not
05:54:28.760following you need to push all these followers down that's the little pink hearts or whatever
05:54:33.180on the left you gotta push all those down i need to see just this minute this minute this minute
05:54:38.900this minute push these guys down let me see three prime subs boys you guys are gonna re-up your prime0.97
05:54:44.400sub i'm holding this shit hostage until i see three prime subs there's one nerd hq thank you0.94
05:54:49.740for the prime let me see two more prime subs and i'll bring it back to the show and i will ask tina0.94
05:55:21.760you're gonna you're gonna say some retarded shit tino so no you can't ask me a question after the0.99
05:55:27.280show you can ask me the question how about that no no no it's my uh about me like personal question0.99
05:55:32.120not about you i promise i promise okay so you you checked my um profile right on instagram
05:55:44.880yeah you check it what about it so i have a question um a lot of men they ask me if i do
05:55:51.820only fans or not because they think my pictures posted on instagram are too over do you think so
05:55:58.060like like too sexy looks like a of girl like what do you think so i think it's normal i think you
05:56:08.900do something no i think there you do something that you know no no no no i think you might be
05:56:15.860an escort if you want my honest opinion no i'm not i think you do escorting but i don't think
05:56:21.080you'd admit it that's my impression and i saw you do we had this girl on the show i think her name
05:56:27.840is dj sakura who's like she's a porn star i don't know her i don't know i'm pretty sure you have a
05:56:33.300photo with her no no no like so you associate with and she's chinese i think no she's korean
05:56:41.280i think but you don't know her yeah i don't oh i thought you don't know
05:56:45.700wait wait i i what's your um she went to the podcast right you know who we're talking about1.00
05:56:53.560yeah i think i checked her profile before so i know yeah she's a sex worker0.75
05:56:59.400And I saw the video, she was a porn star, like a man, something, they took a video together, so I know her, like the face and the name, but I don't know her like person.
05:57:09.580But look, obviously, look, you could, it's possible you could associate with sex workers and not be a sex worker yourself, but like you can somewhat look at who you surround yourself with and try to draw inferences from that.
05:57:22.620But, I mean, your profile reads escort.
05:57:25.940it just gives it's giving escort i don't know if you're an escort oh i think it's really normal
05:57:34.540so i think that women who and look this is maybe me judging a book by its cover um i think the
05:57:42.600plastic barbie thing that i think more likely it's more likely a woman who's done a lot of1.00
05:57:50.300plastic surgery more likely than a woman who has no plastic surgery generally speaking is going to1.00
05:57:58.200be involved in some form of sex work it's not a guarantee i'm not saying okay you've you've got1.00
05:58:04.080fake titties you must be a sex worker no but i think that when you start getting compare a woman0.98
05:58:11.220who's not vain compared to a woman who's very vain greater likelihood that she's involved in1.00
05:58:17.860sex work it's not a guarantee so do you want to tell us something
05:58:23.820no okay okay let me ask you this have you ever0.96
05:58:29.380had sex with a man and then afterwards he placed a stack of money
05:58:36.420near you has that ever happened no never the way she said no i know you're right
05:58:45.220no never i mean look i'm the whole whisper nothing gets by me actually that's not true
05:58:50.100you can be duped men even if you think you got it good you can think you're dealing with the
05:58:54.680kind of girl and look i don't know tina i don't know i'm not you may you may be you may not be
05:58:59.980i don't know but you do post fairly revealing photos you travel quite a bit especially for a
05:59:05.220young woman and there was some dispute over what your actual age is but uh i think i believe your
05:59:13.140age i think but you travel a lot you have a bit of a i think i showed you my green card picture
05:59:18.160before i know you did you did verify that but uh although you could get a fake one i suppose
05:59:23.240no it's real i don't know it's just you know there's a couple hints that make it today i
05:59:30.760can't show you right now and so i've already seen it it's okay maybe i should do a poll for my what
05:59:36.700do you what do the women here think do you think christina here may be a escort i have a question1.00
05:59:43.560for you how do you like make your money like how do you afford your surgeries and stuff from my1.00
05:59:50.320parents oh they pay for it i mean that's really like that's a normal thing in uh china what do
05:59:57.040your parents do are they in china i know my mom is here okay and your dad is in china yeah and
06:05:07.380Okay. Would you rather date your German? Oh, boy. You're going to love this. Hitler? Just kidding. Would you rather... Here, we'll do... Would you rather date... I think we've got to go with Hitler. Hitler or Donald Trump? Yikes. This is a terrible question. Into the mic.1.00
06:22:41.340there oh my god tiffany oh geez all right um let's see here any other topics from anybody
06:22:49.840before i do the rapid fire segment any other things any of you want to talk about speak now
06:22:54.480forever hold your peace um are you guys against video games when dating because i know that that's
06:23:02.180like a topic absolutely no i actually prefer that i do too yeah yeah yeah okay cool yeah um speaking
06:23:10.180of which and i didn't get the chance to say this but um god this is gonna be so bad tell me if if
06:23:15.700you want to move on i'm totally okay with it but speaking about white people not defending each
06:23:21.340other and their race and if i said that you were racist i didn't mean i went to say you were raised
06:23:26.540something i can't remember but um derek chauvin shout out to him free chauvin he is in jail and
06:23:33.940And almost every single conservative person knows that George Floyd died of a fentanyl overdose and he had four, I mean, he had three block chambers in his heart and no white people are even defending this poor man.
06:23:52.820That's deep. That's too deep for me right now.
06:24:31.920And, um, I don't think beyond a reasonable doubt, you could prove that he died because of, uh, the position that, uh, the police officer had in him, had him in.
06:24:46.820It was obviously super politically motivated.
06:24:49.320Um, yeah, free Chauvin, because you see Austin in the Austin Metcalf situation, like, uh, Carmelo Anthony literally stabbed some.
06:25:01.920or can I say stab, like stabbed a young boy
06:25:04.660and black people are in the street defending him.0.98
06:25:08.640And I'm like, it's so bass-ackwards.0.98
06:25:11.820And so I get so frustrated with white people
06:25:13.600because I'm like, y'all know this man.
06:25:16.720Like even if you felt like he did something culpable,
07:02:43.440Okay. So you were willing to put people who had actually already killed free for someone who's not done anything wrong because you wanted to save the lives.
07:02:57.760Wait, what? Put someone free that killed? No.
07:03:00.220So one of the questions was, if you had a handful of murderers and they were to die,
07:03:18.860or one guy would go to jail who's innocent to stay in...
07:03:22.860No, the murderers weren't going to die.
07:31:57.940China, China, China. Sure. China. Sure. China. What country? OK, Istanbul. Thailand. Thailand. Turkey. You. Come on. Come on. What was it? Istanbul. Istanbul. Yeah. Don't know. It sounds like a made up. OK. What country is Budapest in? Budapest. Yeah.
08:01:00.920That's a hole excavated out of a male's pubic region, and the penis material has been inverted.0.99
08:01:11.940The penis material is still there.0.98
08:01:13.960The ball material is still there, but it's inverted into a wound, essentially, an open wound, and it's tucked in, and the cock material is there.0.99
08:17:42.000Okay, so I started OnlyFans. When I signed my first lease all by myself, I had actually a full-time job during that time, and then I lost it two months later, and I wasn't going to go home.
08:17:54.320I finally got my own place, and I was already streaming online, so I said, you know what? I'm going to capitalize on this. I didn't care. I wasn't dating anyone, really, so I just did it.
08:21:55.100thinking that people not being able to answer states countries is cute like oh she's so cute
08:21:59.060she doesn't know she doesn't know where milan is she doesn't know like i don't think a doctorate
08:22:03.360in psychology is cute at all i don't actually i don't have the money i don't have a doctorate
08:22:07.720in psychology it's all paid for it's all paid for i got it all paid for it's a waste of somebody
08:22:12.940else's money still a waste of money no it's not you just think you're so smart i know it's not
08:22:18.140I don't think I'm so smart. I never said that. You are saying that I think I'm so smart. You are saying that I think I'm so smart. You are saying that you think I'm so smart. That's what you're saying. I never said that. I never sat here and be like, I'm so smart. You know, I knew where these cities were. I knew where these cities were because it's basic knowledge. No, that's not true. You know everything and nothing.
08:22:38.620you're just like you're literally just sitting here smiling saying the same thing over and over
08:22:43.660again but not actually able to engage in a conversation with me i literally said keep
08:22:47.920living you said i had a degree you don't know you don't know i don't have a degree in psychology
08:22:52.800that's not even what i'm going for you don't even listen you literally said you're getting a
08:22:56.440doctorate and you i think you were like let's just say psychology no i did not say that english
08:23:00.960okay well whatever she said sorry it was a long day but yeah a lot of times a lot of women think
08:23:07.600That, oh, getting a doctorate to do what?0.60
08:33:16.140um need a little water hold on then do your laundry0.59
08:33:22.720in terms of a division of like labor in terms of expectations in the household there would be a1.00
08:33:31.460sort of gendered division there that would be more traditional she would cook she would clean1.00
08:33:36.940um primarily take care of the children you know i'll say hi to the kids every once in a while
08:33:44.100i like doing that too um you like what i like copying people's laps
08:33:56.500okay uh what else i mean from from like a just a interpersonal dynamic i do prefer
08:34:04.040the woman being more submissive me taking on more of a leadership me making decisions
08:34:09.180so in that way i'm traditional but i'm i don't claim to be like ultra giga traditional in the
08:34:17.260sense like i have premarital sex don't believe in waiting don't believe in marriage so in that way
08:34:22.060i'm lacking in uh being traditional then what do you want your woman like how about the woman0.72
08:34:28.480equivalent of you and their like personality like that would you what do you mean i mean so i would1.00
08:34:35.180i want a woman who doesn't want to get married yes no who oh what well i suppose she could want
08:34:41.340it but she'd have to uh acquiesce to my perspective on this i mean a woman who lives like you and has
08:34:49.180lived like you uh a woman who's lived like me well i mean i think this is this transcends the
08:34:59.120discussion of am i traditional is she traditional whatever uh no but i'm a man i've lived a different
08:35:06.760life my conquest has been in the realm of like work and business um she doesn't have to there's
08:35:13.560not perfect symmetry that needs to exist or that has the same views on this sure uh depends what
08:35:19.720you mean by same views i mean whatever you just said about yourself like if she said the same0.54
08:35:23.500I mean, like, about what depends what everything look, I want a woman who's submissive, who will follow my lead, who will trust my judgment in essentially all matters related to the household, raising our kids, leading the actual relationship itself.0.97
08:35:44.500Well, yeah, but also I don't want to get married.0.99
08:35:46.540Don't I don't believe in waiting for sex.0.97
08:45:09.100circumcised yeah i said hoodie or no hoodie you get it i'm circumcised although but you were born0.89
08:45:14.180in france yeah i'm why well i am circumcised but i'm against i'm against circumcision even0.99
08:45:24.840though i'm circumcised why oh really the fuck why won't this it's really did you fucking super glue0.99
08:45:29.900this tiffany wait can you get me one not from the refrigerator can you get me my son and none0.99
08:45:36.080of the men in my family are circumcised sorry what was the thing somebody had something
08:45:40.600you're french but you weren't circum you weren't circumcised that's or you were circumcised in
08:45:46.520france when well yeah when so wait actually no because sometimes people do it later so you did
08:45:50.960it when you were born at the hospital correct was it a parental decision like did your parents
08:45:56.640decide to no he decided yeah i i came out with the same level of eloquence well i don't know how
08:46:03.720it works like if the doctors do it or like the parents say whether or not they want it i don't
08:46:08.200know i i had the parents right okay why did your parents i started whipping the doctor with my0.98
08:46:14.040umbilical cord and i was like chop my penis up why did your parents like circumcise you when in0.99
08:46:19.860in france they don't it's not it's pretty atypical to be circumcised in europe yeah in europe yeah0.98
08:46:25.500oh not necessarily yeah it is look it up look up the statistics of men circumcised well you have
08:46:31.100understand so okay so my mom's american though oh okay right my mom's american dad dad's french
08:46:38.000right okay so i haven't really inquired with my parents as to the underlying reasons i guess it's
08:46:47.060just my mom's american it's like okay but you don't think that men should be circumcised why
08:46:51.580correct uh it is yeah well i agree but i want to know what he yeah it's mutilation uh children0.51
08:46:57.480obviously perhaps if they're 18 and they want to undergo the procedure they can but um children
08:47:03.100are not able to uh you know there's no informed consent or whatever so um also the procedure is0.98
08:47:11.340not really necessary all this bullshit about yes true well all the bullshit about oh it's more
08:47:16.920hygienic and uh blah blah that doesn't even if there's like a slight overall general increase in0.98
08:47:24.500And basic hygiene, which maybe it takes a bit of extra work, and you might argue, well, people who are uncircumcised are not inclined to do the extra work, still does not warrant mutilating the genitals of a newborn baby.
08:47:39.300It's my understanding that the popularity of circumcision came through out of World War, one of the World Wars.