Whatever Podcast - HEATED DEBATE On NOT Reciprocating In The Bedroom？! ｜ Dating Talk #99

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00:01:40.380 description go sub without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce excuse me introduce

00:01:45.340 themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hi everyone i'm kathy i'm 24

00:01:51.160 years old and i am a only fans creator welcome hi i'm pixie i'm also 24 years old and i do political

00:02:01.020 streaming online hi i'm emmy i'm 26 and i'm a realtor and also content creator hi i'm alessia i'm 26 and i do

00:02:13.960 only fans hi i'm 29 i'm a math physics science tutor and um i also do content creation on youtube

00:02:26.060 hi i'm amy i'm 28 and i did high ticket sales i'm currently unemployed so i guess i'm just doing content

00:02:35.960 right now okay welcome everybody guys we were gonna have a little more filled out panel but unfortunately

00:02:41.340 we had some uh no shows and flakes so uh it is what it is but we're gonna have a good show tonight

00:02:45.700 regardless so we're gonna go around the panel once more what is your current relationship status so are

00:02:50.680 you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule sex cult

00:02:55.880 uh if you're single how long have you been single what's your longest relationship go ahead

00:03:00.260 um i'm currently dating um just dating um longest relationship probably like

00:03:07.500 one year a little more than one one year yeah okay so you're you said you're currently dating

00:03:13.300 yes so are you seeing one guy multiple guys a couple girls in there what's what's

00:03:18.860 i'm not entirely sure um you're not sure about their gender

00:03:23.340 it could be whatever it is whatever you want it to be okay non-binary okay um so you're not entirely

00:03:32.200 sure so there's is there a do you have a main guy and like three side pieces i feel like you got game 0.94

00:03:37.940 do i i think you got game i think you could get the bitches i have no game i have no game the male 1.00

00:03:42.600 bitches and the female bitches you got no game you have zero game you look like you have game 1.00

00:03:47.740 humble and has game that's part of the game can we have you tilt your microphone uh down just a 1.00

00:03:55.040 little bit yeah so it's perfect a little less a little less and can you scoot it that way just a bit

00:04:00.420 ocd brian over here yeah um so give it give us some deets what are the details you got you got

00:04:06.960 one main dude couple some pieces i don't think i'm healed enough for actual healthy relationship

00:04:13.700 but yeah you don't think you're healed enough yes from you got like um sepsis or what's the

00:04:20.200 situation what's going on probably just like childhood stuff or like past relationship whatsoever

00:04:25.600 past relationship but yeah i'm dating currently okay um but so what do you mean like what do you

00:04:32.880 mean by dating currently like you're going on dates or you got do you have a situation ship with any guys

00:04:38.800 potentially i mean there's there's there's no label whatsoever

00:04:44.240 how many okay so you're dating how many dates have you been on in the past month

00:04:49.980 the past month with like individual new people new people um a few i don't really keep count

00:04:56.980 okay so you i'm just we gotta we gotta get a number on it you got seven

00:05:03.800 boyfriends is that kind of the situation no it doesn't seven situation ships no not seven i would

00:05:10.700 say more like two or three okay two to three situation ships are they all guys any girls in there 1.00

00:05:17.660 just dudes um probably just guys you might i don't i'm you might not even be interested in women

00:05:24.240 i'm just i mean i i think it's up to the people to define like what they are who they are and you

00:05:30.340 can't really tell from the first date can you from the first date yeah i'd hope so wait so you're

00:05:35.100 saying that some of them are trans i i i don't know i mean it might be maybe but that's what i'm

00:05:42.680 asking because what do you mean you're not sure like from a first date like if they don't reveal

00:05:48.220 it to me like i'm not gonna ask them if somebody is clearly presenting themselves like okay for

00:05:53.600 instance me like do you like what gender am i i don't want to make in this you don't even want to

00:06:00.700 make an assumption you can't tell you can't tell what gender i am i i can't tell but like if you

00:06:05.300 tell me otherwise i will respect it right something is there something wrong no no you're perfectly

00:06:11.160 fine i mean i obviously can tell that like you know you're a girl so like oh so i am a girl

00:06:16.680 yes but if you say that you're something else i will respect that okay i'm actually i just want

00:06:23.300 to let you know and i'm a hippopotamus so like if i just say some whatever i want okay i'm like

00:06:34.140 i'm you should make a different animal because you're not you're pretty trim so i don't think

00:06:39.580 hippopotamus would be the yeah i don't i don't know hey uh hold on just a sec yo fdg thank you for

00:06:45.220 the 50 gifted memberships guys if you've been wondering why fdg is just dropping mad uh memberships

00:06:51.800 in the uh chat on youtube i have a sugar mama she's my sugar mama and she pays me by gifting

00:06:58.420 membership so uh she's dropping like 300 400 500 a show so thank you very much um uh so you

00:07:06.580 lauren non-binary confirm or deny um confirm i i don't have it's like barbie i don't want to

00:07:16.380 reveal the movie are we already getting into pronouns but it's like barbie down there uh-huh i i'm a

00:07:21.720 it's a i'm a i'm actually a he wait so you you're a furry because you're a hippopotamus i'm a furry 0.73

00:07:28.340 i'm a furry non-binary i respect that i respect that 100 okay so throughout the podcast if you slip

00:07:38.540 up and like refer to me as a she like i could like get mad at you and stuff it's hipper hipper self 0.95

00:07:44.420 yes okay i'll try my best thank you i appreciate you respecting hippopotamus

00:07:50.080 self

00:07:51.800 okay moving on pixie what's what's your relationship situation i'm single as a pringle

00:08:00.140 single as a pringle how long have you been single um since like february february yeah do you uh are

00:08:07.640 you straight by what's your orientation i consider myself pan like pan yeah you uh pan that's where

00:08:15.660 like gender identity uh it doesn't really you'll date men you'll date women you'll date transgender

00:08:21.040 women you'll date non-binary you'll date transgender yeah basically um what is it i mean it takes a

00:08:27.800 really long time for me to feel like truly like in love with someone um so i feel like it just yeah

00:08:35.180 depends i feel like it depends on the person basically if i'm gonna end up being anything

00:08:40.060 with them or not okay um so your last relationship was with a guy a girl it was with a guy i've only

00:08:47.180 have had romantic relationships with guys have you ever hooked up with a girl um i've made out with a

00:08:54.500 girl i i'm not gonna go i don't want to go further beyond kissing and telling okay for a life partner who

00:09:02.920 do you see yourself ending up do you want a life partner i do want a life partner you want kids

00:09:06.620 yeah i do want who do you see yourself ending up with i don't know a guy or girl because i mean if

00:09:11.320 you want kids well i guess you could adopt right yeah i also use the sperm bank they have all these

00:09:15.980 options they got those or surrogates surrogates yeah i feel like um i don't know traditionally i was

00:09:24.520 raised in a very like catholic traditional household like conservative so you know i'm sure my parents

00:09:30.920 would be happy if i was a man but it all depends on who i fall in love with because and you said

00:09:36.240 you were raised in a conservative catholic household but you're pretty you consider yourself fairly

00:09:42.120 progressive fairly liberal absolutely do you think that because you're you were raised in a very

00:09:47.900 conservative traditional uh household that that kind of pushed you in the other direction

00:09:54.140 i think um or did you just come to your own conclusions about politics well i think there's two

00:09:59.180 things going on in here basically um my father being the conservative he is always taught me to

00:10:04.680 never trust big government or just institutions in general sure so obviously growing up um i was

00:10:11.720 also doubtful of him because the parental unit is a authority in the household so yeah part of me was

00:10:18.860 like okay well i should question government and i should also question everything around me

00:10:22.420 including my parents but i think um more than that i there's a lot of ideas of how like conservatism is

00:10:31.000 supposed to be or how the traditional household is supposed to be and all the benefits it's supposed

00:10:34.560 to reap and there are definitely benefits but i think um oh sorry hold on just a second

00:10:39.480 bra donated 100 dollars oh thank you i would swim up the amazon river with 45 pound weights tied to my

00:10:46.280 scrotum with nothing else but gorlock the destroyer's queefs as my air supply if if it meant i could have

00:10:52.040 one seafood dinner with brian over skype using a dial-up internet connection my dms are open dme

00:10:59.120 and we'll get it set up thank you okay appreciate it um thank you for that um you're telling us about

00:11:05.040 your parents oh yeah thank you for the donation mr i appreciate it oh is this a bodybuilding.com okay okay

00:11:13.800 yeah no but basically um you know people talk about like oh no the two-parent household is like

00:11:19.860 the best household ever etc etc and i i saw some ways that that's not necessarily true or some

00:11:25.240 things that go against the traditional narrative so i also think that kind of made me progressive

00:11:29.400 okay all right question in your last relationship how long was your last relationship my last

00:11:35.200 relationship was like around five to six months did you end it or did he or was it i ended it you

00:11:40.600 ended it did you wear the pants in that relationship do you mean if i wear the pants what does i don't

00:11:45.200 know is that a sexist no i just don't know what you mean exactly like were you kind of the the boss

00:11:50.800 in the relationship i think we each were 50 50 i think so yeah i think we're both the bosses in

00:11:57.880 different ways like what what do we what what are the ways in which he was a boss and you were a boss

00:12:04.360 um i just okay i guess i never felt like we were the boss of each other i just felt like we were

00:12:10.820 just more like compat compatriots just like discussing things and figuring things out and

00:12:16.920 stuff like that were you ever in a situation where it needed to be like your cool or his cool for

00:12:21.760 example were you ever in a situation where you had such conflicting viewpoints that it's like

00:12:25.580 one needs to necessarily supersede the other or you never found yourself in that situation well i mean

00:12:32.080 i get along well with people who i have very different opinions from um i know we get along

00:12:38.480 really well and we disagree on daily everything so no no way um but i feel like there was a time

00:12:47.640 where he was like really upset about me because i wasn't like texting him enough i wasn't messaging

00:12:52.160 him enough and he was like kind of far away and to me it's one of those things where like i have

00:12:56.640 adhd really badly i know it doesn't manifest super obviously here but i do have it

00:13:01.960 so i am a little bit time blind i try my best i try my best with messaging communication but if

00:13:08.620 you're expecting me to like message you like every day when we're dating it's just it's just not gonna

00:13:12.400 happen i will forget i'm sorry that's just how i am so he was needy um yes but who isn't in a

00:13:21.740 relationship everyone's a little bit needy and really a little bit at least you know you want your

00:13:27.040 partner to be like hey i love you i miss you you know you can say that's a little bit needy but

00:13:31.140 that's okay who liked who liked who more in the relationship did you like him more did he like

00:13:36.420 you more i feel like there's always somebody likes the other more than the other i don't know i feel

00:13:42.160 like um i don't think there was a more i think we were just too different in the ways that we

00:13:48.520 liked people our love like language is too different you know 0.99

00:13:52.800 fat bastard donated one hundred dollars they're going hard tonight get in my belly i want my baby 0.99

00:13:59.180 back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back 1.00

00:14:05.760 that bastard chili's baby back baby back okay uh 1.00

00:14:11.840 keep going 1.00

00:14:18.000 continue

00:14:20.080 wait are you laughing at the tts or laughing at the tts

00:14:30.280 are you austin powers fan or i that was for austin powers i didn't know that i just thought it was

00:14:37.980 super random oh yes okay maybe that was before your time i think because you're what 24 yeah

00:14:43.080 so you were like two when that came out probably i'm four maybe okay whatever um your relationship

00:14:50.120 situation so i'm currently in the relationship okay and um how long have you been

00:14:58.100 in said relationship almost 10 months 10 months okay and uh what's your longest relationship

00:15:06.260 two and a half years two and a half years all right uh how did you meet current uh boy boyfriend

00:15:14.820 girlfriend yeah boyfriend um he slid through the dms he slid into okay dating what what's that

00:15:22.340 it's like a modern dating story what what was his opening message so this was around the time where

00:15:28.960 i just bought a house and in my tinder bio i had hey let's go furniture shopping or whatever

00:15:36.180 i'm also a realtor like hit me up if you need to like sell a house and he slid through the dms we

00:15:42.780 actually didn't match but he slid through the dms about how he had a ton of coupons

00:15:46.240 that he could you know get really good deals on and he was also verified before all the like

00:15:53.720 verification things were like bought so it like went through and i'm like yeah like what's the harm

00:15:58.980 like i'm super single and yeah let's let's test it out so he's very uh musician athlete what oh he's

00:16:06.580 a director film director yeah film director yeah so like the strike is kind of does he do

00:16:12.200 commercials music videos yeah commercials music videos he's lined up for some movies but because

00:16:17.000 of the strike no movies just commercials and music videos so you're holding it you guys live together

00:16:22.020 yeah right now we live together okay okay um verified but he's talking about coupons i don't know about

00:16:30.260 hey it's economical it's you know it's big brain how i feel like how much will coupons save over the

00:16:38.740 course of like the cutout coupons from magazines what does he like are you sure you're not dating 0.99

00:16:43.920 like a grandma or some shit i like the grandma vibes whatever that is like there you go i think 0.93

00:16:49.120 my grandma vibes are good so my parents grew up in communism and they're very very frugal even though 0.97

00:16:55.020 they're like hyper capitalistic right now but they've always taught me to save when it wherever you can

00:17:01.320 and always reuse your trash bags or whatever yeah reuse your old t-shirts with into rags so

00:17:08.880 vietnam no china china vietnam was north vietnam was communist yeah okay yeah all right okay and china 0.58

00:17:19.000 like made them communist kind of gotcha okay um wait so were you born in china or did you were born in

00:17:25.300 the u.s i was born in chicago but we my family moved to china when i was four ish okay so you went

00:17:32.440 back yeah born in the u.s went back came okay got it came back yeah gotcha part of china in shanghai 0.95

00:17:38.800 oh okay yeah okay sweet so he slid into the dms and that shit worked cool yeah he was just really high 0.92

00:17:46.820 effort so he he slid through the dms talked about the coupons like oh sure but we weren't gonna meet up 0.96

00:17:51.620 for like another week or two or so and then he made like an entire pitch deck so you know how like

00:17:56.120 film people they do pitches for on projects he like made a whole powerpoint presentation

00:18:01.800 now can you boost the audio a little bit what hold on oh no it's already sorry is it

00:18:06.660 am i too far from the mic sounds like a lot of work you made a pitch deck yeah like literally a

00:18:14.020 powerpoint presentation i've never seen that before so guys take note if you ever want to slide through

00:18:19.160 a pitch deck will absolutely put you like in the forefront that is the highest effort

00:18:25.300 it will get you the most attention well yeah what was what's he pitching in we see a copy yeah what

00:18:30.960 was the most like profound like slide in that pitch deck so it was just about like interior design

00:18:36.880 like oh like there's like little paragraphs in there it's like oh here's like whatever vibe i think

00:18:43.660 bohemian this will look good oh so he made you a pitch deck for your career and something relating to

00:18:48.660 you i thought you made a pitch deck about why he's an ideal boyfriend oh no no no no no no no he

00:18:53.800 made a pitch deck about furniture in my house yeah i was gonna say no no okay do not recommend to

00:19:00.440 make a pitch deck about why you would be a good partner that's creepy but if it's something first

00:19:05.260 of all six four my way i need to put this on one second wait but okay here's a question

00:19:13.860 let's say he had not made the pitch deck let's say he had not made the pitch deck

00:19:19.120 you still would have hung out with him right um i think it depends because there's always guys sliding

00:19:25.760 through dms no matter what no matter who you are no matter if you have a social media following or not

00:19:30.220 if you just like hang out on facebook whatever there's always guys trying to slide through the

00:19:34.640 dm it's like hey you know like how are you doing beautiful like it could be like right place right

00:19:40.360 time whatever but if he did that then it's like well like that's effort put in and i would like to

00:19:47.140 show effort back and get to know this person but if you weren't into him i don't think the pitch deck

00:19:53.580 would have been the selling point either but we barely even talked and on his profile it didn't

00:19:58.680 really have his face or anything on there at all it was just like a profile oh that's kind of sketch

00:20:04.500 but okay no but i knew he was a real person like sure okay wait so how how long do you think he spent

00:20:13.120 on this pitch deck he said only like 20 minutes but i thought it was a cool pitch deck so maybe like

00:20:19.540 an hour or something he's like no i'm i'm just used to doing this with my projects and film

00:20:24.620 he's he's probably sends like seven pitch decks a day 0.91

00:20:28.880 just oh i'm gonna make a fucking pitch deck i'll just wake up 20 minutes like morning routine 0.99

00:20:36.060 he's just like it's it's actually like he gets so much pussy from the pitch decks 0.99

00:20:41.620 no he said he's never done that before he said he's never done that before and i believe that's okay 0.99

00:20:49.760 he's not that's like when a girl who's like really good at head and she's oh it's my first time i've

00:20:54.380 never done this before i mean it's like okay do you know from experience yeah you don't like you

00:21:00.720 don't you're not a hiccup like hookup guy right what do you oh my god you're like that he knows

00:21:06.840 the girls that are you asking if i've ever if i've just never had sex before so much experience with 1.00

00:21:14.080 getting head from women that you would experience the type of woman repeatedly that would be like

00:21:19.640 it's literally a meme though like this is a meme that you see online but there's i mean i don't know

00:21:23.920 if i've actually encountered a woman who's like oh i'm i don't know it's my first time i don't know 0.80

00:21:30.520 if it's gonna be good and then she's like just fucking going to town 1.00

00:21:34.380 so you haven't experienced that it's only specific 0.60

00:21:40.980 literally there's meme there are memes about this about like you you guys haven't seen these memes 0.97

00:21:51.280 about oh i've never done this before and she's like okay puts herself in fucking doggy position 0.98

00:21:56.200 and she's just like okay you've never done this before maybe i read a lot you know maybe they're 0.66

00:22:01.940 scholars they don't have like reddit and cornhub we do we do have experience like with food kind

00:22:08.760 of in a way with like you know i don't know popsicles lollipops like yeah i don't know yeah i think you

00:22:14.120 really just what's your alicia's just at home wait yeah what's your go-to food for practicing bjs

00:22:20.720 i think a i want an answer from all the women by the way on this corn on the cob might be 1.00

00:22:27.160 does the dick have an std or something i don't know the egg that's 0.98

00:22:34.760 just in size how do you participate in like with a man you're saying it's like corn on the cob 0.99

00:22:40.800 i mean no no i'm just saying for size wise like i don't know like as far as like a realistic

00:22:47.720 side of that wait hold on size wise like this big though like i've always seen like the little 0.91

00:22:55.740 big wait what are those like little mini what are those what are those fucking called the salad 0.99

00:23:00.720 corns the salad corns what the fuck are those called chat chat chat chat my first time my favorite 0.99

00:23:09.860 food to practice on is coke cans like this chick of my my first time okay my first time the first 0.97

00:23:19.540 food experience but yeah no i was talking about my first time eating a girl out it went really well

00:23:24.740 and it was my first time it went amazing and what about your second time and third every time it's

00:23:30.380 great i mean i guess wait what helped you accomplish that we know about the corn well you know they say

00:23:36.820 gay guys are really good at giving because we know jays because they know their anatomy yes exactly do 0.91

00:23:42.000 you consider yourself um bi gay what's your flavor i'm just bisexual okay well we haven't gotten to 0.94

00:23:52.800 uh your relationship status yet so uh uh relationship status pitiful i'm i'm single and i'm i'm not really

00:24:03.160 like dating right now nothing i'm completely like turned off like with a woman sure but like men like

00:24:12.380 i need some time why is that i just always need time like after like a breakup i just got out of

00:24:17.320 something like a couple months ago a couple months ago how long was that situation it was only a couple

00:24:22.980 months itself and it's you're still not over it i'm no okay uh so you uh you broke up what three

00:24:33.020 months ago four months ago um in june june july okay about three months so there's nothing since 0.99

00:24:41.440 then zilch no dates no pussy eating nothing nothing she's celibate now i i really am stop the cow i don't 1.00

00:24:54.180 believe it come on do we approve like what what can i do to prove it yes i want to go through your 0.99

00:25:00.120 phone right now because you're an only fans model right so does this include work um and do you model

00:25:06.360 with men um no i don't just women and myself solo content so it's like well not solo content

00:25:14.420 i don't think women women are people she does women are people too well don't you want to repeal 1.00

00:25:20.900 the 19th but um no i i don't but i do understand pearly's arguments with repealing the 19th i

00:25:27.220 understand where she's coming from she does girl girl content and solo content yes okay um so

00:25:34.840 have you shot any well no what just me just me myself okay oh and just you to do of uh what kind

00:25:44.980 of content you guys do is it solo content girl girl boy girl um so i mostly do like ludes like

00:25:51.520 lingerie and bikini i don't really it's not full yeah it's not full you can't see like china and stuff

00:25:56.700 occasionally top but like mostly like oh occasionally top but mostly pasties but it's more like

00:26:03.300 lingerie lewd content cosplay etc got it okay uh what about you yeah i do a lot of solo content

00:26:11.680 just solo have any of you done any bg content like in the past i tried with a boy girl oh no

00:26:22.420 i tried with a boyfriend but we never like put it out okay never posted it i was just concerned about

00:26:30.020 his well being seven hundred and seventy seven donated one hundred dollars advertising has us 0.90

00:26:36.280 chasing cars and clothes working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need 0.89

00:26:41.980 all right okay like clubs reject modernity embrace masculinity it's good it's a good point 1.00

00:26:48.620 seven hundred and seventy seven the silly and seven hundred and seventy seven no million seven

00:26:54.620 hundred and seventy seven not tillion seven hundred and seventy seven septilion seven hundred and seventy 0.58

00:27:00.420 seven seconds i have seven hundred and seventy seven quintillion seven hundred seventy seven thousand seven

00:27:07.740 777,777,777,777,777.

00:27:17.680 It's good luck in some cultures, right?

00:27:18.840 Thank you.

00:27:19.260 Thank you, Tyler.

00:27:20.120 I appreciate it.

00:27:23.200 Lauren, your relationship status?

00:27:25.960 I am single.

00:27:28.740 Yeah.

00:27:29.100 How long have you been single?

00:27:30.620 For life.

00:27:31.860 For life?

00:27:32.620 Yeah.

00:27:32.760 Oh, yeah.

00:27:33.940 You've never had a serious boyfriend, right?

00:27:36.000 No.

00:27:36.320 Well, we might have talked about it last show, but I'm sure we've got new people here.

00:27:43.880 What's the longest period of time that you've, maybe you didn't have an official boyfriend,

00:27:49.020 but there was a guy that you were seeing for some period of time?

00:27:54.620 Two months?

00:27:55.760 Three months?

00:27:56.440 I dated, well, you know.

00:27:57.820 Six weeks.

00:27:58.700 People like to point out, I dated Martin Shkreli for like two years.

00:28:03.080 Oh.

00:28:03.780 But you guys weren't boyfriend-girlfriends?

00:28:06.420 Wait, what's he?

00:28:06.860 Well, no, because like I thought we were, but then he.

00:28:15.920 Yo, FDG, thank you for the gifted 50 memberships.

00:28:20.180 Yo, W's in the chat for FDG there.

00:28:22.920 Thank you so much.

00:28:23.600 Yeah, it was kind of like, I don't know, so I kind of thought we were heading towards

00:28:30.740 a relationship, and we did not, and it was very on and off, yeah.

00:28:37.060 For two years?

00:28:37.980 For two years, and then he ended up going to prison for like seven.

00:28:41.800 Yeah, Nick, can you just do a Google, just for people who don't know who Martin Shkreli

00:28:45.040 is, Nick?

00:28:45.440 Can you just do a Google on, on, just for context?

00:28:47.600 Things happen, you know?

00:28:49.100 Things do happen.

00:28:49.860 Were you, were you dating him during, while he was incarcerated, or?

00:28:54.180 No.

00:28:54.760 I dated him, like, at kind of like the height of his, like, fame and like, notoriety, like

00:29:00.840 all of this.

00:29:01.740 Were you still romantically involved with him when, like, kind of the, some of the, not

00:29:06.280 when he was in prison, but while the court case was going on, or?

00:29:10.500 Yeah, I, like, moved in with him for a brief.

00:29:12.320 Oh, Nick, no, no, no, no, just go to the Wikipedia, go to the Wikipedia.

00:29:16.160 I moved in with him for, like, a brief period, but, like, we're still friends.

00:29:20.460 Here, Nick, let me just read this real quick.

00:29:23.080 Martin Shkreli, born 1983, is an American CEO, hedge fund manager, and fraud convict.

00:29:27.900 Shkreli is the co-founder of the hedge funds, Elia Capital, MSMB, Capital Management, a couple

00:29:33.920 other things.

00:29:36.060 Former CEO of Startup Software.

00:29:37.480 September 2015, Shkreli was widely criticized when Turing obtained the manufacturing license

00:29:43.120 for the anti-parasitic drug Daraprim, is it Daraprim?

00:29:47.000 Daraprim.

00:29:47.480 Daraprim, and raised its price by 5,455% from U.S. $13 to $750 per pill.

00:29:55.960 Ooh, yikes.

00:29:56.660 In 2017, Shkreli was charged and convicted in federal court on two counts of securities fraud

00:30:01.780 and one count of conspiracy for activity unrelated to the Daraprim controversy.

00:30:06.540 He was sentenced to seven years in prison and up to $7.4 million in fines.

00:30:12.640 In the civil case, he was fined a further $64.6 million to be repaid to victims on May 18, 2022.

00:30:19.360 Shkreli was released early from the low-security federal prison in Allenwood, Pennsylvania.

00:30:24.900 So that's a little background on Mr. Martin Shkreli.

00:30:29.420 Yeah.

00:30:29.580 Have you talked to him since he was out?

00:30:31.600 Oh, yeah.

00:30:32.000 We talk all...

00:30:33.540 I think we talked to yesterday.

00:30:34.540 We talk all the time.

00:30:35.440 Yeah.

00:30:35.840 Like, he's a bro.

00:30:36.700 He's a homie. 1.00

00:30:37.940 Yeah.

00:30:38.220 Wu-Tang Forever. 0.95

00:30:40.360 Oh, yeah.

00:30:40.660 Harambe for life.

00:30:41.800 He bought the rights...

00:30:43.120 Bring back Harambe. 0.98

00:30:44.340 He patented a drug.

00:30:46.080 So he bought the Wu-Tang album.

00:30:48.000 I actually have a picture of myself holding it.

00:30:50.080 Like, Wu-Tang.

00:30:52.800 I even got to meet RZA and, like, hang out with him for a while.

00:30:57.560 That's awesome.

00:30:58.120 It's pretty chill.

00:30:58.620 We'll give a background down that.

00:30:59.920 So he bought the exclusive ownership rights to, like, one of their Wu-Tang clans, one of their albums.

00:31:07.740 Is that correct?

00:31:08.600 Yeah.

00:31:09.000 So he's really into music.

00:31:10.700 Like, so he bought...

00:31:11.880 They had an album, and I don't know if they knew how it was going to sell.

00:31:15.520 So they were, like, we'll have, instead of putting it out for the public, we'll have, like, an exclusive rights ownership to it.

00:31:22.900 And so he bought it on an auction, and he got it, I think, for, like, $2 million, which I think is pretty cheap for, like, entire ownership of Wu-Tang.

00:31:32.100 But then he didn't ever republish it for anyone to hear.

00:31:36.000 So very select people got to listen to literally any of it.

00:31:40.040 Yeah.

00:31:40.700 And so you dated him for two years.

00:31:43.560 Very on and off.

00:31:44.680 I wouldn't have...

00:31:45.120 On and off.

00:31:45.520 Yeah.

00:31:46.200 Would you characterize it as a toxic relationship, or...?

00:31:50.160 I think we had really poor communication.

00:31:54.020 I think he had really a lot of stress coming up with his court case.

00:31:59.920 And so I think that it was just a really bad time.

00:32:03.420 But I think he's doing a lot better now.

00:32:04.880 I know him and his girlfriend, his most recent girlfriend, like, just broke up.

00:32:08.860 And I think he's pretty bummed about that.

00:32:11.300 But he did have a pretty healthy relationship with her.

00:32:13.740 And I think he's doing a really good job with, like, creating healthy relationships now.

00:32:17.460 So I'm pretty happy for him.

00:32:18.820 When you first started dating him, was he, at that point, already embroiled in the criminal case?

00:32:25.560 No, not at all.

00:32:26.700 Not at all at all.

00:32:27.740 Okay.

00:32:28.060 So at what point in the relationship did the criminal case be developed?

00:32:34.620 Like, oh, kind of towards the end.

00:32:39.000 Okay.

00:32:39.420 So we were...

00:32:41.700 So he got famous for raising the price of the pill.

00:32:44.900 And I looked into it, and nobody was getting harmed from the pill.

00:32:48.020 And so I reached out to him, and I was like, I'm very confused.

00:32:50.460 You're kind of made to be the enemy here.

00:32:52.420 But it seems like you're doing a lot of research and development, helping people, and yada, yada.

00:32:57.160 And he was like, oh, yeah, let's talk about it.

00:32:58.880 I swing by UC Davis area frequently for my other companies in San Francisco.

00:33:03.240 So, like, we hung out, and then we just continued hanging out.

00:33:07.160 And then that was, like, years before he was charged with anything.

00:33:12.700 Like, maybe a year and a half before he was charged with anything.

00:33:15.320 And then he went to prison.

00:33:18.560 And, yeah.

00:33:19.780 Did he try to hit you up while he was in prison?

00:33:23.900 Yeah, he did.

00:33:25.340 This is a collect call from the...

00:33:27.240 He had a prison cell phone.

00:33:30.280 Pennsylvania?

00:33:31.120 Pennsylvania.

00:33:32.840 Yeah.

00:33:33.360 Federal facility.

00:33:35.680 Did he ever propose, like, a marriage to you so there could be conjugal visits?

00:33:41.660 No.

00:33:42.260 One time before he got in financial trouble, he was, like, he was really into live streaming.

00:33:47.520 This is so embarrassing.

00:33:48.500 I don't know why I'm telling the story.

00:33:50.900 He was really into live streaming, and he took me to a Tiffany's, and then he proposed to me in the Tiffany's.

00:33:56.140 And then when I said yes, he said, just kidding.

00:33:58.440 Oh, my God.

00:33:59.440 Oh, my God.

00:34:00.180 What a joke. 1.00

00:34:02.680 What the fuck? 1.00

00:34:03.940 Wait. 1.00

00:34:04.680 So, did they bring out the champagne and everything?

00:34:07.480 No.

00:34:07.580 Were they all, like, let's go?

00:34:09.300 Oh, my God.

00:34:10.000 Thank God it didn't get that far.

00:34:12.780 It was just, like, it was, like, immediately, like, ha-ha, just kidding.

00:34:18.000 What was your response to that?

00:34:20.300 What was your response to that?

00:34:20.900 Please tell me you were upset.

00:34:22.260 Oh, my God.

00:34:22.800 It was mortified. 1.00

00:34:23.420 No, were you laughing, or were you, like, fuck you? 1.00

00:34:26.200 Oh, well, keep in mind, we were on camera, and at the time, like, I didn't have, like, any social, really, almost any social media. 1.00

00:34:33.900 And so, like, I just was, like, I was just, like, really wanting to be liked.

00:34:40.340 So, I was, like, oh, ha-ha-ha.

00:34:42.620 And then I, like, ran away to go cry, and then I, like, came back. 1.00

00:34:47.820 Oh, you're a dick. 1.00

00:34:48.280 Yeah. 1.00

00:34:48.900 They told us, like, not to trauma dump, and I'm trauma dumping.

00:34:51.620 I mean, that's a really interesting situation.

00:34:54.180 I mean, he asked, so.

00:34:56.240 But that wasn't to get conjugal visits.

00:35:00.280 That was not for conjugal visits. 0.93

00:35:01.040 It was just a troll.

00:35:02.300 Yeah, this was before he was in any legal trouble whatsoever.

00:35:05.400 He shouldn't be the serious.

00:35:06.240 He could have gotten them visits.

00:35:08.220 I don't think he cares that much about that.

00:35:12.600 That's really good.

00:35:13.740 I love that in a man. 1.00

00:35:15.640 Yeah, but he's, like, a jerk. 1.00

00:35:17.900 I don't know if I'd call him a jerk. 1.00

00:35:19.660 I just think that he sometimes thinks things are funny, and he doesn't think through, like, 0.98

00:35:24.020 how harm.

00:35:24.980 Like, I think he's just, like, I don't think he realized.

00:35:27.380 Like, I think he genuinely thought that was just, like, a funny joke and something that

00:35:30.300 would be funny on a live stream.

00:35:31.460 I don't think he really thought about it from, like, the perspective, like, the female perspective

00:35:35.480 and how devastating it is.

00:35:37.280 Yo, FTG, thank you very much for the 50 gifted memberships.

00:35:42.140 W's in the chat for FTG.

00:35:43.920 Okay, so you were involved with Martin Shkreli for a little bit, so, but it was on-again,

00:35:48.240 off-again relationships, so it is sometimes hard to count that.

00:35:51.640 Yeah.

00:35:51.820 Like, how do you, like, were you dating, like, are you dating for two years, but it was on-and-off,

00:35:58.520 so.

00:35:59.460 What about besides Martin Shkreli?

00:36:01.780 Any two-month, three-month, six weeks?

00:36:04.900 Have I had situationships?

00:36:07.140 Yeah.

00:36:09.100 Like, yes.

00:36:10.940 I've.

00:36:11.600 Besides him, what's, like, the longest situationship that you've had?

00:36:15.000 I don't know.

00:36:19.140 I've never had any, like, long-term situationships.

00:36:21.580 She's probably the longest, and that was two years.

00:36:23.940 I don't think I've had any situationships other than that.

00:36:26.520 Okay.

00:36:26.760 That lasted, like, a year or anything.

00:36:28.500 Gotcha.

00:36:28.860 And you want to get married at one point, one day, have kids, et cetera?

00:36:31.580 Very much so, yeah.

00:36:32.540 Gotcha.

00:36:32.980 Very much want to get married, have kids.

00:36:34.640 Do you, and when it comes to, like, having either not found that person or not having had

00:36:39.060 any other long-term relationships, do you think that it just becomes, like, 0.98

00:36:45.000 the men out here that be fucking up? 0.94

00:36:49.580 Do you feel like there's, maybe, is there something you're doing? 0.99

00:36:52.480 Is it the men that are fucking up? 0.99

00:36:53.760 What's your diagnosis? 0.99

00:36:55.480 Yeah, I mean, like, there has to be something I'm doing, right?

00:36:58.420 Like, I want something, and I'm trying to get it, and I'm not achieving that goal.

00:37:03.420 I'm working on it.

00:37:06.860 No, it's hard to find, I don't know, other people do it, so I can't say that it's impossible,

00:37:12.940 but it's hard to find somebody.

00:37:14.520 Like, I just want to go on dates and meet someone nice and take things slow and figure

00:37:21.060 it out, but it is difficult to meet people to even just get an initial date with, so.

00:37:26.300 You got to check the DMs.

00:37:29.100 And that's another thing, yeah.

00:37:30.420 I have, sure, I have, like, people, like, swarming my DMs, but, like, like, what, so,

00:37:36.340 what am I supposed to do?

00:37:37.680 Like, search through everyone, look through their pictures, and then go based off their

00:37:41.180 picture and, like, meet them out for, like, that's really hard, too.

00:37:44.280 I do want to meet someone.

00:37:45.900 I would prefer to meet someone organically.

00:37:48.820 Yeah.

00:37:49.000 And, yeah.

00:37:51.840 Morpheus donated $100.

00:37:54.360 The Matrix is a system.

00:37:56.680 That system is our enemy.

00:37:58.620 You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged.

00:38:03.080 And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight

00:38:08.900 to protect it.

00:38:11.140 I'm curious.

00:38:11.780 That's true.

00:38:13.040 That's true, Morpheus.

00:38:14.840 Take the red pill.

00:38:16.140 Which system are you talking about?

00:38:17.940 The relationship system?

00:38:19.380 Definitely the relationship.

00:38:20.360 Political system?

00:38:21.480 I think all of the above.

00:38:23.920 Oh, we got Mike Davis here.

00:38:24.660 Mike Davis donated $100.

00:38:26.960 Thank you, Morpheus.

00:38:27.800 Brian, where did you find this group?

00:38:30.480 You put an ad on Craigslist seeking basic white girls. 0.85

00:38:34.320 They all talk the same.

00:38:36.060 Nah, but for real.

00:38:37.760 I can only laugh.

00:38:39.060 These broads really in their head think they be special when they dime a dozen. 1.00

00:38:44.700 That's Mike Davis, everybody.

00:38:46.160 If you want to know, that's, pretend that's, oh yeah, there he is.

00:38:49.180 That was really rude, Mike.

00:38:51.240 And am I not here?

00:38:52.880 Like, we're all white today. 0.65

00:38:54.960 I was about to say, we have white privilege today.

00:38:57.580 You're white. 0.95

00:38:58.140 We have two Asian women. 1.00

00:38:59.600 And are you Latina?

00:39:01.500 Afro, Latina, Mexican, and Black.

00:39:03.160 Okay.

00:39:03.460 Native American.

00:39:04.320 Okay.

00:39:04.580 No, you're white. 0.87

00:39:05.420 He just said that.

00:39:05.740 We have white privilege now.

00:39:07.280 And in June.

00:39:07.780 We all talk the same.

00:39:09.040 I guess that's white now.

00:39:10.640 Well, Mike Davis, thank you very much.

00:39:12.000 Good to see you back in the chat there.

00:39:14.600 While we got some chats up, Space Monkey, Amy Dangerfield's video on Andrew Tate was question

00:39:20.320 mark nair.

00:39:22.040 Can you, can we get a nair?

00:39:23.920 Nair.

00:39:24.640 No.

00:39:25.380 Yeah.

00:39:25.880 Thank you.

00:39:26.560 I don't, I don't, you, question mark, question mark.

00:39:28.560 I don't know.

00:39:30.080 That's positive.

00:39:31.040 Yeah.

00:39:31.400 It's a little vague.

00:39:32.340 It's questionable.

00:39:33.020 Okay.

00:39:33.340 You did a video on Andrew Tate, I guess.

00:39:35.000 I did.

00:39:35.020 Yeah.

00:39:35.500 Uh-huh.

00:39:35.780 I did an analysis of the victims that came forward on my YouTube.

00:39:40.120 Victims? 1.00

00:39:40.600 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:39:41.680 You don't know about his criminal charges? 1.00

00:39:42.920 Well, let's keep it moving.

00:39:44.080 All right.

00:39:44.400 We have Pimp Rogers here.

00:39:45.740 Hello, my beautiful Ozzie Amy.

00:39:47.780 Brian, anything special for episode 100?

00:39:50.120 Also, bro, I'm, okay, I'm, was, drag your name. 1.00

00:39:57.760 Yeah, I'm not going to address like bullshit fucking shit like that. 0.98

00:40:01.060 But, uh, nothing special planned for episode 100. 0.99

00:40:05.360 Um, oh, yo, FTG, thank you for the 50 gifted memberships.

00:40:08.520 Appreciate it, man.

00:40:09.740 Oh, okay.

00:40:10.880 We should all celebrate.

00:40:12.220 Yay.

00:40:12.620 Is this Twitch kick or?

00:40:14.820 What do you mean?

00:40:15.440 The subscriptions.

00:40:16.460 Oh, the memberships, that's YouTube.

00:40:18.380 Oh.

00:40:18.680 Yeah, it's on YouTube.

00:40:20.160 And, uh, yeah.

00:40:21.820 Uh, Amy, your relationship status?

00:40:24.400 I'm single.

00:40:25.180 My longest relationship was four years, which was my last relationship.

00:40:28.780 Okay.

00:40:29.040 Which ended about four months ago.

00:40:31.060 Four months ago.

00:40:31.620 Yeah.

00:40:31.780 Okay.

00:40:32.780 Your most recent relationship ended four months ago.

00:40:35.640 Correct.

00:40:36.100 And that was my longest, four years.

00:40:39.560 Your, oh, your longest relationship was four years.

00:40:41.700 Yes, which was the last one, which ended about four.

00:40:45.300 Four months ago?

00:40:46.180 Yeah, I'd say, wait, it was in the end of May.

00:40:50.060 So whatever that is.

00:40:51.640 Okay.

00:40:52.700 Got it.

00:40:53.620 Cool, cool.

00:40:54.220 Uh, I had a question for the girls who do, uh, OnlyFans.

00:40:57.400 Uh, so some people on OnlyFans can make a lot of money.

00:41:00.360 Just curious, are you guys down to share, like, how much money you guys make?

00:41:03.320 I'd rather not, but they can.

00:41:05.360 Is it five figures, six figures, a month?

00:41:09.380 Are you all in the top one percent of OnlyFans that make at least $2,500 per month?

00:41:14.420 Oh, yeah.

00:41:15.040 Yeah.

00:41:15.180 So you're all in the top one percent, the three people?

00:41:19.280 Under my top one percent.

00:41:21.600 Under one percent.

00:41:22.220 I don't know.

00:41:23.200 Yeah.

00:41:24.520 Okay.

00:41:25.200 Point what?

00:41:26.340 I don't know.

00:41:27.520 It fluctuates.

00:41:28.640 It fluctuates.

00:41:29.520 It also depends on, like, if you're with a good agency, if you're putting out a lot

00:41:32.920 of content on social media, depends on a lot of things.

00:41:35.840 I don't know what that means.

00:41:37.060 I don't know.

00:41:37.740 Do you guys talk to your, to the guys that you, that follow you?

00:41:42.440 Do you have, like, those communications, or is it just the photos and the videos?

00:41:46.720 Like, on social media or on OnlyFans?

00:41:48.840 On OnlyFans.

00:41:50.080 I think, it depends on if you have an agency.

00:41:53.100 Sometimes the girls are managed. 1.00

00:41:54.720 Sometimes, like, the girls are not. 0.87

00:41:56.040 You personally?

00:41:57.740 I do.

00:41:58.260 Yeah.

00:41:58.780 Yeah.

00:42:00.160 Okay.

00:42:01.600 Do you have any men that consider you to be, like, their girlfriend?

00:42:07.860 I feel like they do.

00:42:09.560 I mean, we're kind of, like, selling a fantasy here.

00:42:12.440 You know?

00:42:12.820 Like, I feel like they might.

00:42:14.040 Yeah.

00:42:14.600 Okay.

00:42:15.180 Do you see any, like, potential conflicts with that?

00:42:18.600 And do they ever ask to meet up?

00:42:20.280 And how do you get out of, like, ever actually meeting them in person?

00:42:24.960 Oh, I just, very forward.

00:42:26.960 Like, I say, I'm not comfortable with that.

00:42:29.120 Like, if they ask anything that I'm not willing to do, or, like, meeting up, or, like, any photos

00:42:35.260 or videos I don't want to do, I just tell them I don't want to.

00:42:38.360 Oh, okay.

00:42:39.300 And so you have these guys who consider you to be their girlfriend, and then they'd be,

00:42:45.300 like, oh, but can we get some, like, want to get a drink sometime?

00:42:48.360 And you're just, like, no, never.

00:42:50.560 How does that?

00:42:50.920 Yeah, I would say no.

00:42:51.620 It's for, like, safety reasons.

00:42:53.900 I don't really want to meet up with, like, people online.

00:42:57.260 They're probably parasocial.

00:42:58.800 Yeah, I think it's more parasocial than, like, actually thinking you're a girlfriend.

00:43:02.600 You're more, like, an e-girl to them. 0.99

00:43:05.260 I don't think anybody thinks you're in a serious relationship ever, because they understand

00:43:11.280 that they're on a platform talking to you.

00:43:14.080 It's not like you're actually, like, talking on the phone or, like, meeting up for dates

00:43:19.080 and stuff.

00:43:19.700 And parasocial relationships exist in a lot of capacities.

00:43:22.460 Like, people feel a parasocial relationship with their favorite influencers and celebrities.

00:43:26.200 But I think it borders on the line of a little bit more precarious and a little bit more,

00:43:31.040 hmm, maybe this is not quite safe when you are so sexually involved with them as well.

00:43:36.140 Because that draws on emotions that are not typical in the average parasocial relationship

00:43:40.720 where people are just worshipping their social media idols or celebrities.

00:43:44.640 You know what I mean?

00:43:45.300 I think that's kind of...

00:43:46.400 Right.

00:43:46.740 I mean, and also, like, those people have security for a reason.

00:43:50.760 Like, most celebrities that you see out have security.

00:43:54.820 And you guys, there's just now all of these content creators who, I don't think they're

00:43:59.360 as careful about not letting the public know their whereabouts.

00:44:03.380 And often, they're actually really loose with letting people know their doxed information.

00:44:08.440 And it just seems dangerous.

00:44:10.140 I think that's also one of the things.

00:44:11.560 I think it's a bit of a cope when people say, like, oh, OnlyFans is so much safer than

00:44:15.820 these other platforms.

00:44:16.720 Because OnlyFans did not start as a content for that type of explicit content.

00:44:21.160 It started off as, like, a Patreon of sorts, right?

00:44:23.640 Where they had more relaxed kind of standards.

00:44:25.980 And so, when you look at the traditional sex work environment, strip clubs, you know,

00:44:29.620 anything like that, there are guidelines in place.

00:44:32.540 There are restrictions.

00:44:33.480 There's, like, direct training on that.

00:44:35.160 Versus with OnlyFans, because it wasn't...

00:44:37.700 The platform wasn't explicitly started with that intent.

00:44:40.520 I feel like that's lacking, which can almost cause people to fall into more precarious

00:44:45.620 situations, depending on what comes up.

00:44:48.200 I feel like even Instagram is more dangerous, in a sense, because people are involved with

00:44:52.980 your life emotionally.

00:44:54.100 You're posting stories all the time.

00:44:55.280 There's not, like, a story speech on OnlyFans, for example.

00:44:57.900 It's not, like, purely transactional.

00:44:59.840 You can, like, communicate and comment and, like, be invested in a figure or social media

00:45:04.920 persona, like, very, very intensely.

00:45:07.540 And I don't see it, like, as that.

00:45:10.980 There's also, like, the lack of...

00:45:13.180 There's two things that are different on Instagram.

00:45:15.700 So, now, with Instagram, you can, like, post bikini pictures.

00:45:18.000 You can post whatever.

00:45:18.760 But it's not, like, overtly sexual.

00:45:21.360 You're not, like, literally selling sex.

00:45:23.280 I mean, you kind of are, but not explicitly.

00:45:26.040 And then, also, the exchange... 0.77

00:45:27.280 Marketing sex. 0.99

00:45:28.120 You're marketing sex. 0.99

00:45:29.380 You're not selling sex. 0.97

00:45:30.200 But I feel like people can be...

00:45:31.840 Sorry, my second one was the exchange of money.

00:45:35.020 I think people start feeling...

00:45:36.020 Can you put it on start, please?

00:45:37.000 As though they have some sort of ownership over people or ownership over the women because

00:45:42.220 they've paid some specific amount and, therefore, like, they're entitled to...

00:45:47.980 I worry about people becoming possessive, obsessive, and feeling entitled.

00:45:53.580 I just want to say, as far as, like, the strip club or, like, other, like, walks of sex work,

00:45:58.760 I feel like OnlyFans is kind of, like, the safest because, like, with those, you have to be with these people in person as far as...

00:46:07.640 I don't want to say any words that I can't say, but, like, just other forms of sex work.

00:46:12.220 Like, you know, because I used to do those and I joined OnlyFans because it was, like, I don't have to see these people.

00:46:19.480 They know what I want them to know.

00:46:21.000 And it was, like, just safer, like, as far as that goes.

00:46:23.940 She's talking about, like, what is the recourse, though, if someone was crazy?

00:46:27.220 Because there's a lot of recourse and there are set protocols and standards in place with these forms of sex work that are, like, explicitly considered sex work versus something like OnlyFans, which is a little bit more vague, a little bit more ambiguous.

00:46:37.640 Like, what is the true recourse for that?

00:46:40.100 Do you know what I mean?

00:46:40.620 Like, all those specific standards and protocols in place where people are even informing themselves about the potential dangers and how to be aware of them and how to navigate them if they were to arise, you know?

00:46:50.420 I would just say it's, like, the same protocols as, like, if anyone was in danger, like, you know, police or, like...

00:46:56.840 I've had in person, like, people follow me to my car and all these different things, like, in real life or on my regular...

00:47:02.480 From your OnlyFans as a result of that or, like, in real life?

00:47:05.320 Before I ever made a social media, if I have guys catcall me, follow me in their car, it's just downtown L.A., and all you can do is just, like, keep walking, but on OnlyFans, you can establish your specific boundaries.

00:47:16.800 Like, hey, I'm not comfortable with this, this, and this.

00:47:20.300 Here are some photo sets that you can buy.

00:47:24.060 Here is how we can, like, chat, but it's very strict boundaries.

00:47:27.140 I think it just depends on how you're able to establish boundaries for yourself because I feel like just existing as a woman is kind of dangerous in society. 1.00

00:47:34.720 Like, if you're walking alone in, like, a bad part of town.

00:47:38.820 I mean, it's actually more dangerous to exist as a man.

00:47:42.220 Yeah, I think men actually do get more violently targeted, but it's always...

00:47:47.720 Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes, so...

00:47:50.720 Yeah, violent crimes for sure, but I think when it...

00:47:53.400 I think it...

00:47:54.260 I just...

00:47:54.720 I just...

00:47:55.220 Yes.

00:47:55.660 I just want to know, who is committing these crimes, like, against the men?

00:48:00.140 Men.

00:48:00.560 That's kind of almost victim-blaming.

00:48:03.720 What does it matter what the gender of the perpetrator is?

00:48:05.940 No, I'm just saying, I'm just saying, like, it just feels like men, the conversation of safety and the world not being safe, it's like, just comes back to men.

00:48:15.320 It's not because of men, it's a very small proportion of men who commit these violent crimes, so...

00:48:21.580 And they've existed since the beginning of time, and that's never going to change.

00:48:25.200 That's with almost any group of people, though, for any stats figures, it's almost always a small group, but usually, like, if you divide by race or by gender or whatever, then there's a larger percentage within each categorized group in some as opposed to others, which makes these disparities seem large.

00:48:45.320 Yeah, I think when people say, oh, it's more dangerous for men, it really depends on how you qualify that, because I feel like if...

00:48:53.700 Just across the board, generally speaking, violent crime, go ahead.

00:48:56.980 Okay, because I was going to say, I think women do a lot of risk de-escalation as much as they can, so if women took the same actions as men do, then you might see similar numbers of violence. 0.65

00:49:07.740 But what ends up happening is that women from a young age are socialized to, okay, don't be out too late at night, or if you are, be with, like, a bunch of friends, and, like, always, like, be careful walking to the parking lot, and have the keys with you, and the pepper spray, and the 911 ready to call, and if a guy, like, flirts with you or comes up with you, think about all the ways that he can harm you.

00:49:25.040 So I'm not saying that men aren't larger victims of, like, let's say, street violence, for example, but I wonder if those numbers would change if women were more casual like men are. 0.82

00:49:37.000 I think it just has to do with proximity, and then also, like, you have gang violence is going to be, like, one of the main...

00:49:44.500 And so it's usually gangs fighting against each other to tend to be men.

00:49:47.080 I have a question for you.

00:49:47.980 Yeah.

00:49:48.360 But, like, also, like, if you break it down by race, like, black people tend to hurt black people, whereas white people hurt white people, Asian people hurt Asian people. 0.56

00:49:56.680 Women hurt women, men hurt men. 0.99

00:49:58.380 Just, like, year-round...

00:49:59.680 I would say way more men hurt women, but... 1.00

00:50:02.440 So you'll see more men hurting women than women hurting men,

00:50:06.060 but men attack men more than men attack women. 1.00

00:50:09.340 Yeah, that's true.

00:50:10.260 So I think men, we just...

00:50:12.480 I think it's a society that is the reason for this.

00:50:15.800 Systemic thing.

00:50:16.420 I wouldn't say it's just men.

00:50:17.820 I would just say it's how they were...

00:50:20.420 Raised?

00:50:22.720 Is it raised or wired?

00:50:25.540 Nature or nurture?

00:50:26.920 I don't think any of us were, like...

00:50:29.060 Have much of a chance with the way that the system is set up.

00:50:36.260 Yeah.

00:50:36.620 It's largely based on, like, socioeconomic conditions, too.

00:50:40.480 Yeah, I feel like I agree with that, because I also was born and raised in China from Beijing for 15 years.

00:50:45.520 I've never actually experienced such high amount of violence where I grew up.

00:50:51.500 Maybe you could say it's communism.

00:50:53.060 You could say it's, like, the government controls everything.

00:50:55.760 But, like, this much amount of violence is kind of unheard of, almost.

00:51:02.060 I was, like, pretty shocked when I got here, to be honest.

00:51:04.680 So, sorry, you were saying in Beijing there's less violence than in America?

00:51:08.860 I think it's simply because the government has more control over there.

00:51:13.400 Do you prefer communism, then?

00:51:15.760 I don't have a preference.

00:51:18.340 I think I actually prefer here.

00:51:20.320 But because people here can actually have their own voice, have their opinions, and then, like, be who they are,

00:51:26.260 I think that could potentially lead to, like, more violence.

00:51:29.760 Have you experienced with the communist government, like, governmental violence in China?

00:51:35.940 I've not personally experienced it, but I've heard things.

00:51:43.400 What's that face?

00:51:44.380 Brian? 0.98

00:51:46.360 I have no idea what the fuck this has to do with dating. 0.97

00:51:48.680 But, okay. 0.77

00:51:50.160 So, we're at...

00:51:54.160 We're talking about violence.

00:51:55.420 Okay, you were making the point, Pixie, that women, because the way they are raised to be more aware of risk... 0.98

00:52:04.400 Like, risk adverse.

00:52:05.780 Yeah.

00:52:06.520 Okay.

00:52:07.100 There was another part that you said after that that I had a point on, but it's updated me.

00:52:13.940 What did you say after that?

00:52:15.940 She was saying that if women are brought up to be cautious around men,

00:52:20.240 which is why they potentially have less conflicts with men than when you were saying that men get attacked more frequently than women get attacked.

00:52:27.500 But you could also argue that men have...

00:52:32.280 There's something within a lot of men, which is, like, a white knight thing, where it's, like, told never to hit a woman.

00:52:40.300 In fact, I think women have certain privileges on the street, for example. 1.00

00:52:43.480 Like, you, for example.

00:52:44.840 Let's say you're in some...

00:52:47.260 You're walking in some bar or nightclub district, and a guy comes up to you and slaps you across the face.

00:52:54.780 There are totally strange men that will intervene on your behalf and essentially be your bodyguards for free that will defend you. 0.92

00:53:03.520 However, if I just get slapped in the face by some dude and he starts trying to fuck me up, nobody's coming to save me. 0.53

00:53:10.060 So I think that's actually a privilege that women have. 1.00

00:53:14.620 You basically, in a public area, you basically have male bodyguards that will intervene on your behalf that are total strangers.

00:53:21.820 I don't know.

00:53:23.280 Okay.

00:53:24.400 Like, I agree to you to a certain extent.

00:53:27.280 Especially, like, if a woman were to slap you, I highly doubt that you'll have any interveners.

00:53:32.220 But if a random man slaps you, I think you'll have a high likelihood that you're also going to have strangers intervene.

00:53:38.380 No.

00:53:38.640 And then also, there's been multiple issues, specifically during COVID, like when they started letting the trains run again, where women were being, you know, essayed on the trains in New York.

00:53:50.560 And sometimes for many, many stops, and passerbyers were videotaping it, and nobody was doing anything to help these women.

00:53:58.700 So women do experience that as well. 1.00

00:54:01.380 Yeah, I'll agree with you that, in general, strangers are more likely to help a woman being beaten than a man being beaten by a woman.

00:54:09.340 But women definitely experience times where strangers will not help them.

00:54:14.580 I'm not saying that there's never a situation where a woman is being physically assaulted by a man, and that it's impossible that a guy doesn't intervene. 0.98

00:54:26.060 However, it's very, I would say it's very likely, if there's other men around, seeing a woman being beaten by a man, they are very likely to not just intervene, but beat the fucking shit out of the guy who's beating on the woman. 0.62

00:54:42.300 Whereas, if I'm getting attacked by another man, I don't know why you flip the genders, if I'm getting attacked by another man, there's no, it's very, very unlikely that other men are going to intervene to stop.

00:54:57.940 And just to say something on that, so for example, when that situation does arise, when a woman is being beaten by a man, and there aren't any defenders, oftentimes there could be missing context from the situation.

00:55:09.420 So did you guys hear about the woman who got bricked in the face recently?

00:55:13.280 Oh yeah, we talked about that.

00:55:15.100 Oh, you don't want to talk about it? 0.99

00:55:16.600 We don't have to, I was just using it as an example, because she was literally saying, men weren't standing up for me, men are pussies, they're cowards, this and that, trying to paint this narrative, but there was a lot more to the context than... 0.99

00:55:27.780 Hold on, just a sec. 0.99

00:55:30.720 Thank you, Mike Davis.

00:55:31.560 People will be thinking I'm anti-women when the fact is I'm anti-everybody. 0.99

00:55:34.620 Most men are completely useless working dead-end jobs just to throw that bread at some e-fot, but they're self-aware and know they're losers. 1.00

00:55:44.180 300 plus pound women think they're special. 1.00

00:55:47.500 Crazy.

00:55:48.420 All right, Mike Davis, there you go.

00:55:50.680 He's on something.

00:55:52.620 Thank you, Mike Davis, appreciate it.

00:55:54.080 I think that, although in theory it sounds like, oh yeah, like, you know, men will be valiant and stand up for women, there's a reason why women are even given advice like, hey, if you're being assaulted or if some, like, strange guy's trying to attack you, instead of yelling, like, help, like, I'm being SA'd, instead they say you should scream fire.

00:56:14.460 Because, like, there is, like, the bystander to the fact that there is, oh, you know, a lot of people, both men and women, in the face of atrocities freeze or think that somebody else called the police, somebody else is going to do something about it, regardless of gender.

00:56:28.480 I kind of want to talk about why men defend women when they see them being harmed on the streets.

00:56:34.620 I think most of the time, like, the average woman's height is, like, 5'4", versus the average male height is 5'9", and there's, you know, a lot more muscle mass when, just when you're a guy in general, and I feel like people tend to want to defend people who are, like, yeah, like, just smaller, like, it's like, if you see someone literally, like, beating the shit out of a kid, or someone who is, you know that cannot physically defend themselves, then you're more inclined to help.

00:57:03.600 If someone's beating on an old person in a wheelchair, he's like, hey, stop that.

00:57:07.980 Yeah, I agree with that.

00:57:09.460 I think if there's a disparity in size or strength, I think there's perhaps, even if it's two men, there might be a greater likelihood of intervention, and certainly your examples with, if it's someone who's elderly, a child, I actually, yeah, that's a fair point.

00:57:27.420 You said you had a question for me before you went up to.

00:57:29.700 Oh, yeah, I was wondering, how many people you share your location with on your phone?

00:57:35.860 Like, just find my friends, if you have an iPhone or Android.

00:57:41.980 How many people?

00:57:43.240 I don't think I share my location with anybody.

00:57:45.180 So I want to bring up that most women share their locations with other women and friends, just as like a primary safety, like, hey, if I go on this date, this is where I'm at, something could happen.

00:57:59.280 And it's just, we're taught to always be cautious, because things can happen.

00:58:04.740 And then we get blamed if something does happen, a lot of times.

00:58:08.040 Like, if someone drugs our drink, or if someone ends up assaying us, like, it's typically like, oh, we didn't take enough precaution.

00:58:18.760 You always have to have an out, like, hey, like, I'm right here, come pick me up, whatever.

00:58:22.640 Okay.

00:58:24.580 Okay.

00:58:25.360 Yeah.

00:58:26.740 All right. 0.99

00:58:29.360 Okay, let's fucking talk about something else. 0.97

00:58:32.380 So, hold on, let me see if there's any chats. 0.93

00:58:37.040 Let me get rid of this.

00:58:38.140 It just meant to go to dangerous places.

00:58:41.240 I mean, as far as, okay, just really quick, me personally, like, me not sharing my location, I don't go to bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't go to parties.

00:58:47.880 So, I'm not putting myself in potentially violent situations that often happen when you are, like, so I could, it's plausible that a girl that three times a week she's getting fucking tanked at bars and nightclubs, it's probably likely that she's going to be sharing her location with more people, because she is putting herself in those sorts of, when you're out at nightclubs and bars and parties, like, it is a vulnerable, it's a vulnerable position for both men and women.

00:59:15.040 I was going to say, I don't share my location with anyone.

00:59:18.540 Oh, really?

00:59:19.120 Yeah, I don't put myself in those situations where I feel like I would need to.

00:59:22.520 I used to share it with my ex.

00:59:24.760 You might need to adjust the volume on her.

00:59:26.420 And to be honest, when I came over here and I traveled to California, I kind of thought, I thought about that, I'm like, wow, he's the only person who actually had my location, and I'm here in this state where I don't know anyone.

00:59:36.380 And I did think about that for a second, but to your point, no, I didn't.

00:59:40.220 I'm not with a bunch of my friends, it was with one person.

00:59:42.860 I mean, I don't really go to a bunch of clubs or bars or anything, but I always share my location no matter what, with, like, my best friends, with just people that, even if we're just, like, having dinner or something, like, oh, where did you park?

00:59:56.760 And it's just, like, very casual for me.

00:59:58.660 Right.

00:59:59.000 But maybe it's, like, the location or, like, age thing, I don't know.

01:00:02.860 I actually do share my location with a lot of people, too, and I think it might be, like, a physical location thing, because I live in the middle of LA, I'm not going to share where, but I don't feel safe walking around sometimes, just going to the grocery store by myself sometimes, which is why I share my locations with friends.

01:00:19.840 Also, I would point out, I think you mentioned the word feel, right?

01:00:23.640 So I do think it's the case that women feel less safe, but, like, if you look at the actual data, the actual statistics, as far, when it comes to violent crime across the board, generally speaking, men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.

01:00:36.140 They're more likely to be locked.

01:00:36.560 To be fair.

01:00:37.400 But you don't want to be harassed, either, even if they're not going to stab you.

01:00:40.260 You don't want someone following home and, like, hit on you, either.

01:00:43.080 Yeah, sure, yeah, that doesn't sound, you don't want someone following you, of course.

01:00:47.820 Yeah, and I don't know.

01:00:48.100 Did you have something for this, Lauren?

01:00:49.260 It sounded like.

01:00:49.800 Well, just, like, you said violent crimes across the board, so I'd imagine those statistics, a lot of them would include, like, gang violence, and then also men who are assaulting each other, and then one is considered the victim, even though they're both kind of at it, fighting with each other, so I think that's going to inflate the statistics.

01:01:05.080 I don't really know.

01:01:06.980 Wait, what?

01:01:08.320 You're saying that men.

01:01:09.720 So the incidence of violence perpetrated by men, you're saying that's inflated by male versus male violence as well, which is being categorized into that statistic.

01:01:18.520 Yeah, so, like, not so much, just, like, random victims on the street.

01:01:22.900 I don't think that, like, men are being perpetrated more often than females, like, in those situations.

01:01:29.200 They are, though.

01:01:30.360 Also, like, mugging and stuff.

01:01:31.940 You don't think your statistics are inflated by gang violence and other types of, like, violence among male groups?

01:01:38.720 If you probably removed gang violence, it would still be more likely.

01:01:44.060 I think, as brought earlier, it also depends, like, on one type of violence, and that's why women are, like, more cautious as well, because I think that there is a very big difference for people saying, like, oh, you know, we got into a fist fight.

01:01:56.460 Maybe there was, like, a stabbing versus, like, oh, there was a potential stabbing and essay, right?

01:02:02.560 Or human trafficking, potentially, or things of that degree.

01:02:06.520 So I think that also, for a lot of people, it's like, would you rather be beat up or would you rather be horribly essayed?

01:02:13.200 And I think a lot of people would pick, like, the beating up.

01:02:16.600 Wait, so hold on.

01:02:17.300 You're comparing essay to getting beat up.

01:02:19.440 But, like, let's talk about murders.

01:02:21.000 Men are more likely to be victims of murder.

01:02:23.360 Would you rather be essayed or be murdered?

01:02:25.080 Oh, you don't want me to answer this question? 0.97

01:02:28.160 I think you literally. 0.99

01:02:29.840 Okay, you'd rather be murdered. 0.95

01:02:31.060 That's, I mean.

01:02:32.120 No, I mean, I don't think that's an answer other people should have. 0.95

01:02:35.960 But it's not a fair comparison to say, would you rather just get into a fist fight or get fucking violently essayed? 0.91

01:02:42.520 Well, no, but that's, exactly. 0.98

01:02:44.540 That's the point.

01:02:45.320 You're saying, like, oh, no, men overall, you know, they're more victims of violence, et cetera, et cetera.

01:02:51.880 They are.

01:02:52.420 No, I'm not disagreeing with that.

01:02:54.480 Now, there's differentials in terms of women are more likely to be essayed, although, I mean, you can't hear. 0.99

01:03:00.920 Women are more likely to be human trafficked. 1.00

01:03:02.540 Women are more likely to be victims of domestic assault. 1.00

01:03:05.180 We're talking about the United States, right?

01:03:06.860 Yes, in the United States.

01:03:07.060 Women are more likely to be. 1.00

01:03:08.200 What does it mean to be human trafficked, just so I'm clear?

01:03:10.960 Are we talking, like, pimping?

01:03:12.640 Yeah.

01:03:13.240 Pimped out, labor.

01:03:14.860 There's labor trafficking.

01:03:15.960 There's a lot of different types of human trafficking.

01:03:17.660 You're more likely to, like, be a maid and trafficked here. 0.83

01:03:21.600 So, basically, it goes beyond.

01:03:23.400 A lot of people, when they think human trafficking, right, they think I'm a slave.

01:03:27.040 Like, I'm in chains or I am being, like, physically or, you know, mentally exploited, right?

01:03:33.280 But what they're saying now is that the love of way method of human trafficking is also equally punishable under a court of law.

01:03:41.820 Meaning that, like, you could get the same level of punishment, prison time, everything for the love of way method versus, you know, any other forms of human trafficking, which are done by force versus coercion.

01:03:53.340 So, coercion is basically, like, making a woman believe that you love them, right, and then forcing them into sex work under some type of guise of relationship or cohabitation situation, which is what the Tates are facing right now.

01:04:09.300 That's Romanian law, and that's...

01:04:10.780 That's Romanian law.

01:04:11.380 That's also...

01:04:11.980 Coercion is also applicable under U.S. law as well.

01:04:14.960 Right.

01:04:15.620 How do you prove coercion?

01:04:16.840 So, you have, like, it's pretty subjective, but you're trying to show that there's some sort of power dynamic.

01:04:24.440 So, I read the Romanian law, and I don't know the American law because I wasn't interested in it, and at least in Romania, they, like, specifically say that there has to be some sort of power differential where the person feels, like, a loss of control.

01:04:38.160 And what they're trying to say in the Tate case is they have, like, some text message exchange in which...

01:04:46.160 Now, there's debate whether or not this text message exchange is real, but in which it seems like the Tates are saying, like, let's get poor people and, like, let's get poor girls who will not be able to leave and yada yada.

01:04:58.180 But there's doubt whether or not that's a real text exchange.

01:05:02.760 There's doubt whether that will be admissible evidence.

01:05:05.500 It's doubt whether or not that's about the women that are the prime victims in the alleged victims in the case.

01:05:12.200 So, yeah, but because technically...

01:05:14.800 So, it's kind of hard to prove coercion completely, like, unless you have, like, physical documented evidence.

01:05:20.780 It's very difficult.

01:05:21.660 It's kind of like a rape case, right?

01:05:22.920 Unless you have the physical, like, evidence, right?

01:05:25.840 And you're able to get a rape kit, like, immediately off the train.

01:05:27.740 Yeah, let's not talk about that.

01:05:29.240 Great.

01:05:29.960 But, sorry, it's a very similar type of thing, right?

01:05:32.460 Where it's highly subjective in the court of law.

01:05:35.480 Yeah.

01:05:35.680 Oftentimes, yeah.

01:05:37.380 I have a question, though.

01:05:38.560 Okay.

01:05:39.060 So, when it comes to, like, DV, right?

01:05:41.820 So, you often hear inter-partner violence that, oh, men are just beating women up en masse.

01:05:50.280 But what's interesting to me is domestic violence rates are actually lowest amongst gay men and highest amongst lesbian women.

01:06:00.360 So...

01:06:00.600 I believe it.

01:06:01.440 I believe it.

01:06:02.340 So, how's the rate of reporting?

01:06:03.300 That's kind of, like, interesting to...

01:06:05.260 Or is it reported?

01:06:06.060 Like, is it, like, prosecuted?

01:06:07.100 It's a rate of reporting.

01:06:08.320 Like, you don't think women would report more likely than men?

01:06:11.060 I think men don't report DV at all.

01:06:13.100 I think there are a lot of abusive women out there who beat men up, but men choose to not report to the police. 0.99

01:06:19.800 So, you're saying, oh, I mean, that's almost further proven my point a little bit, but...

01:06:26.480 Yeah, I think, what is it?

01:06:28.260 At least from the self-reports, like, separate from, like, let's say, like, police reports, it still seems like there's a disparity.

01:06:33.980 But I absolutely can agree with you that, yeah, like, a lot of men are disincentivized from going to the police or reporting in general

01:06:41.220 because there is a general stigma against men who are in these situations, and that's really sad and horrible.

01:06:47.820 However, I would say that most men, on average, can overpower women, and if a woman decided to physically beat a man up, 0.88

01:06:55.100 the man can stop them physically, just muscle mass-wise, and height and weight-wise, weight class.

01:07:03.240 I'm not just playing whatsoever.

01:07:03.980 Girl, this conversation is such a buzzkill.

01:07:05.340 I don't want to talk about DV and SA anymore.

01:07:07.700 Okay.

01:07:09.120 What's the next topic?

01:07:10.200 All right.

01:07:11.540 Okay, wait, so, Emmy, for you, you said your boyfriend, and you said he made you this pitch deck.

01:07:17.880 In your pre-show notes to us, you also said he made, he gifted you furniture on the first date?

01:07:22.580 Yeah.

01:07:23.520 Okay, what did he give you, like, a duvet? 0.99

01:07:26.100 Wait, not a duvet, a fucking... 0.99

01:07:27.320 He gave me a tabletop. 0.99

01:07:29.280 Because he just moved into your home, right?

01:07:30.660 You said you just bought your home.

01:07:32.360 Yeah, I got my home around, like, a month before me and him ever met, but we started talking, like, whenever.

01:07:39.620 And I was on a Twitch stream, and I was like, oh, my God, my Ikea, like, tabletop is breaking down.

01:07:44.680 And he was on the stream, and he was like, yeah, I got, like, a wood guy.

01:07:48.280 I got the best wood in town.

01:07:49.640 Like, aha.

01:07:51.080 Oh, my God, he does have the best wood in town.

01:07:54.520 That's what got him.

01:07:55.340 So, he bought you just a tabletop?

01:07:59.660 Yeah, he got, like, two big slabs of wood for me.

01:08:02.040 Oh, he got you wood?

01:08:02.860 He delivered me wood.

01:08:03.960 On the first date?

01:08:04.960 He delivered me wood.

01:08:05.740 Yeah.

01:08:06.420 Did you, did he also give you the wood?

01:08:08.860 No, not on the first date, though.

01:08:09.840 Not on the first date?

01:08:10.900 Okay.

01:08:14.200 Second date?

01:08:15.400 Did he show up with some, with a package?

01:08:18.660 On the second date?

01:08:19.580 Not, like, you know.

01:08:20.320 Oh, I think, yeah, I think it's, like, around second or third date.

01:08:26.120 Yeah.

01:08:26.780 What did he get you on the third date?

01:08:29.800 Wiener?

01:08:30.460 Hitzel? 0.75

01:08:30.980 Just quality time spent, and words of affirmation, and, yeah.

01:08:36.820 Okay, all right.

01:08:37.320 He's a sweet guy.

01:08:38.520 What's your love language, Brian?

01:08:40.880 My love language?

01:08:42.320 Yeah.

01:08:43.080 What are the five?

01:08:44.680 It's physical touch.

01:08:46.080 Words of affirmation.

01:08:47.820 Quality time.

01:08:49.220 Quality time.

01:08:50.760 And then acts of service.

01:08:52.340 Acts of service, yeah.

01:08:52.440 I want to say acts of service, number one.

01:08:59.020 Physical touch.

01:09:03.600 Quality time's pretty, that's down there.

01:09:07.420 Down there?

01:09:08.400 That's all the time, man, because you're spending time.

01:09:11.140 You like to receive gifts?

01:09:12.100 Do you like to give gifts?

01:09:13.040 Gifts, I don't really care.

01:09:14.020 Gifts would be, like, second to.

01:09:14.760 He loves gifts.

01:09:15.380 Look at the donos.

01:09:16.480 Dono more.

01:09:17.140 He loves it.

01:09:17.740 Look at his face light up.

01:09:18.600 Every time someone gives, he's like, hold on.

01:09:20.800 And his attachments to, like, certain physical items.

01:09:23.980 Like, you have some, like, emotional attachments to something.

01:09:27.720 Yeah, like the, very autistic.

01:09:30.280 Like Brian?

01:09:30.780 Yeah.

01:09:31.200 He knows Brian right now.

01:09:32.420 Chat, what do you think?

01:09:34.140 What's the, wait, so, okay.

01:09:35.560 Acts of service, physical touch.

01:09:38.440 Quality time.

01:09:39.320 Quality time.

01:09:39.840 You said that's lower down.

01:09:40.840 Gift giving is also lower down.

01:09:41.540 Gift giving.

01:09:41.940 What's the other one?

01:09:43.380 Acts of service is top.

01:09:45.060 Wait, what's the fifth one?

01:09:48.040 Words of affirmation.

01:09:49.360 Words of affirmation.

01:09:50.060 So, like, you did a great job.

01:09:52.040 Brian, you did so good on that show.

01:09:53.620 I'm proud of you.

01:09:54.140 You crushed it.

01:09:54.860 You crushed it.

01:09:54.880 That was amazing. 0.93

01:09:56.160 That was the sickest show.

01:09:57.400 Like, does that make you feel great? 0.63

01:09:58.480 You dunked on those OnlyFans girls, babe. 1.00

01:10:02.020 Yeah, I mean, they're.

01:10:02.760 He's smiling.

01:10:03.980 It's fair.

01:10:04.300 They're all good.

01:10:05.060 I like them all.

01:10:05.900 I like them all.

01:10:07.160 I don't know. 0.99

01:10:07.940 I feel like the whole love language thing, though, is kind of bullshit. 0.99

01:10:13.740 A little bit. 0.99

01:10:14.620 I honestly agree.

01:10:15.340 It's just like, I don't know.

01:10:16.560 You can't categorize things into, like, true main.

01:10:19.100 They're all good, I guess.

01:10:19.900 Yeah, because doesn't quality time include all of it?

01:10:22.280 Like, is it quality time still if you just, like, don't talk it on?

01:10:25.580 You, like, send me a stack of cash.

01:10:29.140 You don't have to spend time with me, right?

01:10:30.760 That's a gift giving.

01:10:31.840 That's a gift giving.

01:10:32.400 That's a gift giving.

01:10:33.940 Also, with the whole.

01:10:35.240 We do have a lower and light.

01:10:36.400 It's okay.

01:10:37.540 With the whole love language thing, when, like, for example, on a dating app, if you

01:10:41.960 see somebody list their love languages, it's not clear to me if that's what you desire

01:10:47.920 or that's how you show love.

01:10:50.100 They tend to be both.

01:10:50.940 They tend to be one and the same.

01:10:52.160 Is it both?

01:10:52.480 No.

01:10:53.040 I think I like giving gifts.

01:10:54.900 Like, I like to, I don't know, make, like, a personal card for people, but not necessarily

01:10:59.120 receiving that.

01:11:00.620 You don't like to receive the cards? 0.99

01:11:01.740 If you got a card, you'd be like, what the fuck is this? 0.99

01:11:04.100 Why don't you hang out with me instead? 1.00

01:11:07.000 I don't want to get the dumbest card. 0.60

01:11:08.560 People tend to show people how they want to be interacted with. 0.94

01:11:13.620 And so people, it's not always for everybody.

01:11:16.560 So maybe you're an exception.

01:11:18.160 But most people tend to do what they want to receive.

01:11:22.700 Projecting.

01:11:23.200 They're projecting, basically.

01:11:24.140 So, like, I am pretty good at, like, painting and drawing, and that's, like, what my friends

01:11:30.420 think is cool.

01:11:31.520 So I like to make little crafts and things for my friends.

01:11:34.940 Because, you know, they'll appreciate it specifically.

01:11:37.120 Yeah.

01:11:37.440 Right.

01:11:37.620 But I don't necessarily expect that back at all.

01:11:41.200 Yeah.

01:11:41.840 Like, if my friend is really good at, like, words of affirmation, if you're, like, an essay

01:11:45.240 or a poem person, I think, like, a poem is like, oh, cool.

01:11:48.380 But I can't do that.

01:11:49.300 Really?

01:11:49.820 Someone hands you a poem, and you're going to be like, oh, wow.

01:11:52.600 Really?

01:11:53.120 I feel like I wouldn't be able to.

01:11:54.860 Like, oh, my birthday.

01:11:55.700 It's like, oh, like, happy birthday.

01:11:57.060 I just, you know, you're my best friend.

01:11:59.020 There's, okay, there's some gifts that people really do think they're doing the right thing.

01:12:03.660 And it is the wrong thing.

01:12:05.000 Like, my friend, someone serenaded her one time to prom.

01:12:09.900 And I just remember thinking, if someone serenaded me, I'd just cringe.

01:12:15.360 I'd, like, want to.

01:12:16.640 I would.

01:12:17.340 I'd point and laugh.

01:12:18.620 You can't tell him who he was.

01:12:20.160 What if he was incredible?

01:12:22.760 What if he was the best musician that you've ever heard?

01:12:25.840 What if he was your favorite musician?

01:12:27.280 Right.

01:12:27.860 Like, what if it was at that level?

01:12:29.000 They came to you.

01:12:30.120 And then they started playing the guitar or, like, DJing.

01:12:32.940 Like, so, if Adele serenades me, I think I would become the.

01:12:38.840 Because you're straight.

01:12:39.680 So, the male equivalent of Adele.

01:12:41.540 Who do I like?

01:12:42.980 I don't know.

01:12:43.660 I don't even know who to compare to that.

01:12:45.800 But you would probably be about it.

01:12:46.300 If you like One Direction.

01:12:47.440 Okay.

01:12:47.980 You have to admit you'd be about it.

01:12:49.320 I'd be about it.

01:12:50.080 But.

01:12:50.780 Depends on the skills.

01:12:51.740 Most guys can't.

01:12:52.640 They don't have the skill to back it up.

01:12:54.240 Right?

01:12:54.520 They don't have the skills to back up the grand gesture.

01:12:55.980 Honestly, even if they were good, I don't think I would like it.

01:12:59.900 Still.

01:13:00.160 Because this guy was good.

01:13:01.740 This guy was pretty good.

01:13:03.000 Now they're trans. 0.84

01:13:04.100 So, now she's good.

01:13:05.700 Well, I mean, that says a lot.

01:13:07.240 But.

01:13:08.300 Huh?

01:13:08.820 That's a good choice.

01:13:09.740 I'm kind of that way with, like, a striptease.

01:13:13.240 I'm just like.

01:13:14.320 Oh, my God.

01:13:14.900 You get a lot of stripteases gifted to you? 1.00

01:13:17.940 No.

01:13:18.580 Oh, yeah.

01:13:19.540 He's like, I've experienced this several times.

01:13:21.280 Wait, is that an act of service?

01:13:22.600 Or is that quality time?

01:13:24.100 What?

01:13:24.600 Where does that fit?

01:13:25.660 Is it like gifts?

01:13:26.940 Gift giving?

01:13:27.640 I'm giving you my underwear.

01:13:29.940 It's just like.

01:13:31.380 Oh, okay.

01:13:32.420 Striptease.

01:13:32.940 What do you guys like it?

01:13:33.560 Cool.

01:13:34.440 Like. 0.98

01:13:34.960 Can you just get naked?

01:13:35.600 Oh, it's the opposite. 0.98

01:13:36.460 You're just like.

01:13:37.200 Why are they giving me that? 0.99

01:13:37.240 Like, bro, you don't need to put on some fucking performance for me. 0.99

01:13:40.320 I don't know. 0.99

01:13:40.720 That's good.

01:13:41.340 Oh.

01:13:41.700 He just, like, wants to get straight to it. 0.98

01:13:43.560 Just get naked. 0.99

01:13:44.900 Get it done. 0.99

01:13:45.620 Get out.

01:13:46.200 Deliver the wood.

01:13:47.320 Get out.

01:13:47.900 That's why you're anti-OF.

01:13:49.660 I'm just kidding. 1.00

01:13:50.920 Get to the fucking point. 0.99

01:13:52.780 The white tee. 1.00

01:13:53.560 The white tee.

01:13:54.800 Right?

01:13:55.180 Have you guys heard of that? 1.00

01:13:56.200 The fuck is. 1.00

01:13:57.000 You've never been white teed before? 1.00

01:13:58.680 What is white teed?

01:13:59.100 I didn't know what it was until I was on XenoStream.

01:14:02.260 Wait, is this where you just wear a white tee and over on, like.

01:14:05.760 It's a striptease, basically. 0.98

01:14:07.420 But, like, guys give it to girls.

01:14:09.160 Like, they take off their white t-shirt.

01:14:10.660 Wait, guys give it to girls?

01:14:12.860 I've only been given white tees.

01:14:16.160 Wait, so you don't like stripteases, to clarify.

01:14:18.620 Wait, Nick, can you.

01:14:19.660 Is she peeking the microphones, Nick?

01:14:21.220 No, I'm just really loud.

01:14:22.600 Nick, I need you to double check.

01:14:24.620 Make sure she's not peeking the microphones.

01:14:26.080 I'm just loud.

01:14:26.720 So, Ryan won't like that gift that we planned to give him.

01:14:29.240 No, Ryan.

01:14:29.660 I guess not.

01:14:29.880 I'm so sad.

01:14:31.100 We all had a surprise for you.

01:14:33.580 Physical touch or quality time. 1.00

01:14:35.660 So, fuck it all. 1.00

01:14:39.480 All right. 1.00

01:14:41.240 Well, I don't know what we're talking about.

01:14:43.980 Love languages.

01:14:44.780 Love languages.

01:14:45.700 To give and to receive.

01:14:46.720 I'm, when it comes to gifts, first off, I feel like I don't receive a lot of gifts.

01:14:51.880 But if I did, I'd be very, I'm a great receiver.

01:14:55.540 Terrible giver, but great receiver.

01:14:57.820 His love language is receiving.

01:14:59.540 That doesn't sound good.

01:15:00.280 I'm a fantastic receiver. 0.99

01:15:02.160 Sounds really gay. 0.82

01:15:02.660 Great receiver. 1.00

01:15:04.620 Terrible giver.

01:15:05.700 So, you're bottom.

01:15:06.700 I'm just kidding. 0.97

01:15:07.560 No, not in like a gay sort of way.

01:15:09.260 It's more just like when it comes to gifts and stuff. 1.00

01:15:11.460 And oral sex. 0.99

01:15:11.740 What do you mean you're a great receiver? 1.00

01:15:12.840 Terrible giver, like you show like a lot of appreciation when somebody.

01:15:17.720 No, not even.

01:15:18.520 You just like it a lot.

01:15:19.280 So, then you're not really a great giver.

01:15:21.960 Well, it depends what context we're talking about.

01:15:24.380 But I'm a great receiver.

01:15:26.400 Let's just say.

01:15:27.500 Receiver of what?

01:15:29.160 Receiver of what?

01:15:30.260 Of gifts. 1.00

01:15:30.900 Do you write oral sex? 0.99

01:15:33.320 Nice thank you notes. 1.00

01:15:34.820 Well, we know he doesn't reciprocate the oral sex. 0.99

01:15:37.180 Nope. 0.99

01:15:37.380 Does he reciprocate?

01:15:37.860 Don't do that to you.

01:15:38.520 Do you don't reciprocate?

01:15:39.500 Do you reciprocate the gifts?

01:15:40.960 What?

01:15:41.700 That's so bad.

01:15:43.120 Oh, my God.

01:15:43.860 What do you mean?

01:15:44.480 Why is it bad?

01:15:45.700 Unless she is the largest labier in the world. 1.00

01:15:48.240 Even if she has the largest labier in the world, I still don't do it.

01:15:52.800 No wonder why. 1.00

01:15:53.260 What if it's the largest dick in the world? 1.00

01:15:54.980 I'm sorry. 1.00

01:15:56.500 That's an exception.

01:15:57.280 She's like, oh, yes.

01:15:59.260 I don't know.

01:15:59.660 Not all of us are like Pixie here where we're going both ways.

01:16:04.280 Yes. 0.99

01:16:04.640 I'm a giant whore, obviously, who sleeps with. 1.00

01:16:08.160 Wait, that's. 1.00

01:16:08.700 No, that's not.

01:16:09.540 That's not what I was in fact.

01:16:10.380 She was just saying that you're.

01:16:11.880 So it depends on the emotional connection, right?

01:16:14.080 Yeah, it does.

01:16:14.740 Is what you're saying.

01:16:15.240 Yeah.

01:16:15.420 Oh, I'm so used to people.

01:16:17.080 That's what he meant.

01:16:17.720 He was saying you're pan, like you're going for whatever depending on the immersion

01:16:20.720 that you feel. 0.70

01:16:20.880 Oh, so you're like sapiosexual. 1.00

01:16:23.160 No, sapiosexual is the mind. 0.69

01:16:24.060 That's like intelligence.

01:16:25.600 I don't think that's even real.

01:16:26.100 What's the emotional?

01:16:27.220 That's fake.

01:16:27.540 Yeah, I think that's fake too. 0.55

01:16:29.160 But pansexual is the real one. 0.80

01:16:30.860 Wait, there's this meme.

01:16:32.180 Pansexual is more like emotional based.

01:16:34.140 I thought pansexual is like, I just don't see body. 1.00

01:16:38.120 So I would argue it's.

01:16:40.200 Or gender.

01:16:40.580 It is more like that.

01:16:41.860 So it's hard to explain, but the best way I explain it is the difference between bi and

01:16:45.060 pan is that a bi person is like, I like chocolate and vanilla ice cream. 0.53

01:16:49.520 Sometimes I like chocolate more.

01:16:50.780 Sometimes I like vanilla more.

01:16:51.840 Once in a while, I like strawberry, whatever. 0.99

01:16:53.160 And then a pan person's like, it's all fucking ice cream to me. 0.99

01:16:57.160 You know, like I like ice cream. 0.99

01:17:01.880 I'm trying to find the meme about.

01:17:03.820 Oh, wait, I think I have it.

01:17:06.480 Actually, if it's about pansexual people, like in pans, I will. 1.00

01:17:10.540 It's about sapiosexual. 1.00

01:17:11.460 The pots and pansexual. 0.97

01:17:12.480 Okay, I can't find it.

01:17:13.420 It doesn't matter.

01:17:13.740 Sapiosexual is not real. 1.00

01:17:14.800 But it's like women will say. 1.00

01:17:16.240 Demi Lovato.

01:17:16.700 Are you saying Demi Lovato isn't real?

01:17:18.480 No, she's not.

01:17:19.360 She wasn't when she said she was bi.

01:17:21.220 What did she say?

01:17:22.260 She was non-binary.

01:17:23.560 She wasn't when she did trust in her non-binary. 0.98

01:17:26.140 They are non-binary.

01:17:27.040 She still is not now.

01:17:28.440 But women will say they. 1.00

01:17:30.660 I'm trying to remember what the meme is.

01:17:32.080 But women will say they are sapiosexual. 0.79

01:17:34.980 They're like attracted to really intelligent dudes.

01:17:37.220 But then the dudes they end up dating are the type of dudes that like when they're reading.

01:17:41.640 When they're reading, they have to like they read with their finger.

01:17:45.860 I think some girls are attracted to himbos.

01:17:47.820 How do I pronounce this?

01:17:49.280 I think some women love himbos. 1.00

01:17:51.740 It's like to have a guy who just like builds furniture all day.

01:17:55.720 Like that's cool.

01:17:56.380 You know, somebody who reads like this, you know, like.

01:18:00.780 I think.

01:18:01.680 Babe, you read it.

01:18:03.440 Babe, read this for me.

01:18:04.640 I think a lot of.

01:18:06.200 I think there are a lot of women who are attracted to like Chris Pratt types. 0.56

01:18:09.700 Like in.

01:18:10.260 What is it?

01:18:11.460 Parks and Rec.

01:18:12.200 He's smart though.

01:18:12.920 No, but like in Parks and Rec.

01:18:14.080 His character, Andy.

01:18:15.360 Like I think.

01:18:16.140 I think a lot of women prefer funny than smart. 1.00

01:18:18.960 Like if you can make somebody laugh all day long.

01:18:21.360 I think they're like.

01:18:21.960 Honestly, if someone's witty.

01:18:23.580 Witty is the difference.

01:18:24.460 That's true.

01:18:24.620 Because if somebody's witty, then they're clearly intelligent as well.

01:18:27.740 Because they're able to contextualize situations and make light out of it.

01:18:30.700 And that takes some degree of intelligence to be able to do that.

01:18:34.440 So I would say it's more so witty men.

01:18:36.040 They're like.

01:18:36.280 They're hot to anyone.

01:18:37.420 They're so witty.

01:18:38.500 Universally hot.

01:18:39.060 We all love a witty man.

01:18:41.200 Yeah.

01:18:42.660 What's his name in the show?

01:18:44.320 I think Andy.

01:18:45.340 Andy.

01:18:45.660 I think it's also in addition to just being funny.

01:18:47.820 I think it's also having a positive affectation.

01:18:50.820 I think that's good too.

01:18:53.600 That's super hot.

01:18:54.040 Like the guys that are like golden retrievers.

01:18:56.400 Like personality wise.

01:18:58.060 I love them.

01:18:59.200 They're my favorite.

01:19:00.420 Yeah.

01:19:01.000 It's hard to be.

01:19:01.540 Give an example.

01:19:02.240 What do you mean?

01:19:02.860 What's a golden retriever man?

01:19:04.680 Just like you can't bring them down.

01:19:07.340 There's this guy that I went to law school with who was like that.

01:19:10.640 And we took the bar together.

01:19:13.100 And like he was just happy.

01:19:15.020 Everyone was like about to take this exam.

01:19:16.720 He was just like happy and smiling.

01:19:18.520 Sounds like my ex-boyfriend was.

01:19:22.240 And then I was like how did you do on the exam?

01:19:25.160 Like I passed.

01:19:25.900 He's like oh I failed but it's all good.

01:19:27.800 Like I went to the bar.

01:19:29.540 I went to this awesome festival.

01:19:31.080 I met some people while I was there.

01:19:32.840 I met some people.

01:19:33.760 It's all good.

01:19:34.700 My ex is still literally like rage.

01:19:37.600 Hold on.

01:19:37.900 Valdev donated $99.

01:19:39.620 Yo good to see you in the chat man.

01:19:41.060 Welcome welcome.

01:19:41.620 DGG philosophy is the place to be open your minds and get free.

01:19:45.060 If you want a good night go watch Not So Erudite.

01:19:47.660 And if you want to fight the good fight go watch my man Stevie Knight.

01:19:51.260 Those are some recommendations.

01:19:53.020 But it's whatever and your endeavor.

01:19:55.400 Yo thank you Val.

01:19:56.220 D.A.V.

01:19:56.880 For the TTS.

01:19:58.220 Shout out DGG.

01:19:58.820 We are going to have Stevie Knight on the show eventually.

01:20:03.540 I'm talking to him.

01:20:04.540 He'll be on the show.

01:20:05.100 And we're going to try to get a couple other good people.

01:20:07.160 We got some I think some good guests coming up soon.

01:20:10.620 Assuming you know no can't we get you know people cancel things come up.

01:20:14.060 But thank you very much for your TTS.

01:20:16.640 Where were we?

01:20:17.480 We were talking about.

01:20:19.020 Golden retriever types.

01:20:20.440 I forget my point.

01:20:21.880 On my ex he literally used to like rate Uber drivers and tip according to how much they

01:20:25.640 talked to him in the Uber.

01:20:27.080 Like how good.

01:20:27.580 Oh that's my worst nightmare.

01:20:28.820 I will do it.

01:20:29.300 I get real done.

01:20:30.320 I wear a driver.

01:20:31.220 I'm literally such a golden retriever type personality.

01:20:34.500 It was my ex-boyfriend.

01:20:35.700 Yo.

01:20:35.900 All right.

01:20:36.220 I got a chat here.

01:20:37.080 We have you're not a 10.

01:20:39.540 Q4ner. 0.98

01:20:40.380 What are you looking for in a relationship?

01:20:41.740 What do you think is enough minimum annual income for you to have a family with?

01:20:46.400 What buffers do you think are best to keep a relationship together in today's society

01:20:50.280 to combat hypergamy?

01:20:52.500 I think traditionalism.

01:20:53.080 That's a lot.

01:20:53.660 Before you answer that's a lot of questions there.

01:20:55.480 Um, we typically like to limit it to just one question per chat.

01:20:59.240 Um, so I can keep it under 10.

01:21:02.800 Try, try to keep it brief if you can, if you want to try to hit, hit everything.

01:21:06.200 Yeah.

01:21:06.940 So what I'm really looking for in a relationship is a leader and somebody who is a superior

01:21:12.020 to me in a lot of ways because I've been the opposite where I am leading either like

01:21:16.600 physically, like, uh, financially or intellectually in the relationships that I've been in.

01:21:20.780 How do you lead physically?

01:21:22.340 Um, by actually.

01:21:23.780 You're talking about like initiating sex?

01:21:25.260 Uh, yeah.

01:21:26.140 That, that's one, one of the things for sure.

01:21:28.200 And I've definitely been in that situation.

01:21:29.940 However, I would say that for me, it's like, when you have those traits, when you are someone

01:21:35.220 who can lead in those respects, then naturally that's going to obviously show in your income

01:21:40.140 and in your career.

01:21:41.380 So it's not necessarily the income that I'm going for, but those proclivities and the,

01:21:46.120 uh, the ability to be able to display those characteristics, those leadership characteristics,

01:21:51.620 to be able to be somebody who can support a family.

01:21:55.160 Naturally, you're going to want someone who's a multiple six figure earner.

01:21:57.960 So I would say that that, cause I make that and I want someone who makes more than me.

01:22:01.660 Right.

01:22:02.540 Um, so that is.

01:22:03.700 Did you say naturally, naturally?

01:22:06.080 Naturally.

01:22:06.640 Yeah.

01:22:06.840 Because naturally somebody who is a leader, someone who is a leader, somebody who is able

01:22:11.580 to exemplify those characteristics will naturally find a way to transpire that to their career

01:22:16.980 because they're going to have some type of skillset that they can monetize.

01:22:20.040 Otherwise, what skillset do they really have?

01:22:23.140 I mean, sure.

01:22:23.740 There are some skillsets that you cannot monetize, but generally speaking, I know,

01:22:27.960 I mean, I think if you're looking for somebody who has those character, character, like traits

01:22:33.240 that we're talking about here, they're going to be able to make money off of it.

01:22:36.140 Right?

01:22:37.820 Yes.

01:22:39.100 And a leader is never broke.

01:22:40.740 A good leader.

01:22:41.600 Do you guys, uh, you're currently seeing somebody, you're currently dating seven people.

01:22:48.000 Uh, you're properly single.

01:22:50.220 I'm a hermit.

01:22:50.800 Um, but you guys, I mean, I, I know that a lot of girls who do, uh, only fans are typically,

01:22:56.620 well, not typically, but, uh, it sounds to me like you guys are high earners yourselves.

01:23:01.920 Uh, do you make more than your boyfriend?

01:23:06.020 We're like about even.

01:23:08.220 Okay.

01:23:08.980 I guess right now I'd make a little more.

01:23:10.600 Isn't he on strike right now?

01:23:12.020 He's like, yeah, like right now, like I make a little more, but that doesn't matter.

01:23:15.560 Okay.

01:23:16.240 Do you guys want somebody that makes more than you or how about as much or more than you?

01:23:22.980 It would be nice.

01:23:24.360 I feel like lately I've been, I've always felt like I wanted someone to make more than

01:23:29.120 me, but I've gotten into relationships where it was a bit of like a, um, weird power dynamic.

01:23:37.540 And the men that tended to make more than me, they were just a bit more like, I'm sure

01:23:44.220 it's just the ones that I came in contact with, but just a bit more like arrogant and

01:23:48.820 controlling.

01:23:49.620 But then there's the men that make less and they're insecure and it's just like, I don't

01:23:54.300 know.

01:23:55.720 Oh yeah.

01:23:57.480 Um, I don't know.

01:24:00.260 I feel like I honestly, I just want somebody that's like good to me.

01:24:03.680 It doesn't really matter like what they make.

01:24:05.600 I mean, as long as I'm not taking care of them, but yeah, my, my last ex, or I guess

01:24:11.880 like during the pandemic, he, we, so we met when we were both working in tech, we were

01:24:16.860 both programmers, but during the pandemic, we both quit.

01:24:19.620 Because the company was only fun when there was like a whole campus.

01:24:25.720 Like, it's like, there's a meditation room, there's infinite alcohol, there's all these

01:24:28.400 outings.

01:24:28.800 So when the pandemic hit, coding was a miserable job.

01:24:31.000 So we both quit and he never got another job.

01:24:33.880 So the whole time I had to pay for everything, like housing costs, food, and all of that.

01:24:40.340 And I did not have a good time.

01:24:42.840 This was during the pandemic.

01:24:44.440 Yeah.

01:24:44.620 How long was the relationship?

01:24:46.720 Um, so I would say like around two, we never made it official.

01:24:50.720 We just kind of like started hanging out more.

01:24:52.960 Yeah.

01:24:53.120 So like around two years.

01:24:54.660 Sorry.

01:24:54.960 You never made it official and you were paying all of his expenses.

01:24:58.340 Yeah.

01:24:58.480 So we started hanging out more and more cause we were like carpool and like, so when we

01:25:03.080 were coworkers, we just kind of got closer and closer and it was never official.

01:25:07.220 Like, will you be my girlfriend?

01:25:08.200 It was just like, we just.

01:25:11.160 Surely there was some mutual understanding that you guys were exclusive, right?

01:25:15.120 Yeah.

01:25:15.760 Yeah.

01:25:16.040 Cause I wasn't really like seeing anyone.

01:25:16.980 You just never said it out loud, but that doesn't necessarily indicate that you guys

01:25:21.160 weren't in a relationship.

01:25:22.420 Yeah. 0.91

01:25:22.600 It was like situation shit, but I was taking care of him cause he was like, oh, we have 0.97

01:25:26.280 nowhere else to go. 0.98

01:25:27.200 Well, I feel like as a woman, if, especially if you're taking care of a man's stuff, you

01:25:30.680 assume he's exclusive to you.

01:25:32.540 Like in any of you ladies, imagine being in a situation like that and you find out he's 0.99

01:25:35.900 fucking around on the side, like, oh, hell no. 0.99

01:25:39.800 Yeah. 0.99

01:25:40.220 So it was like an exclusive arrangement kind of.

01:25:44.220 And I, but I have a, so, so what you're saying, Amy, is that if women really want to 0.99

01:25:50.380 get commitment from men, they got to start, start being the breadwinners.

01:25:55.120 Is that what you're saying?

01:25:55.680 No, that's like literally not what I'm saying at all.

01:25:57.860 I was just trying to point.

01:25:59.060 That's a good question.

01:26:00.440 That's a good question.

01:26:01.580 I actually think it's the exact opposite because I think that when you go for that dynamic,

01:26:05.860 it automatically, you are conflicting with so many, um, factors in evolutionary psychology

01:26:11.400 and just the way people are in general, there's already going to be so much friction in the

01:26:15.860 relationship.

01:26:16.340 So actually I think quite the opposite.

01:26:18.380 I was just trying to prod a little bit deeper to really get your perspective on it.

01:26:22.680 Cause I'm not sure I quite fully understand what the dynamic was.

01:26:25.980 Let me just jump in really quick.

01:26:27.340 I, perhaps I should reframe it a little bit.

01:26:29.740 So do you think that's a fair trade-off in order to, because a lot of women complain that 1.00

01:26:34.220 men aren't prepared to commit to them.

01:26:35.980 Do you think that'd be a fair trade-off for women? 1.00

01:26:38.460 They have to, the women have to be the providers. 1.00

01:26:40.440 They have to be the breadwinners.

01:26:41.520 They have to take care of expenses in exchange.

01:26:45.300 They get commitment.

01:26:46.500 That just sounds like a bedrock.

01:26:47.940 It's an inverse of values, right?

01:26:49.680 Because naturally the man is the provider.

01:26:52.040 He is the protector, right?

01:26:53.540 And then by default, you have a woman who submits to him. 0.99

01:26:56.460 So what I'm saying is if the standard was reversed, which I do not necessarily think that

01:27:01.020 it should be, I disagree.

01:27:02.680 I don't think that it should be, but if it were to be reversed, then wouldn't the man

01:27:08.400 have to naturally submit?

01:27:09.540 Otherwise, what's the point of the inversion of it?

01:27:11.620 Yeah.

01:27:11.800 I think men don't naturally submit.

01:27:13.380 And that's the issue.

01:27:14.020 Like if he were to cook clean and like me buy him a gym membership, workout, whatever,

01:27:18.760 I'd be totally fine with it.

01:27:20.160 But he didn't cook.

01:27:21.300 He didn't clean.

01:27:22.100 He didn't really do much.

01:27:23.180 And he was like kind of resentful towards like all the social media stuff I was doing,

01:27:27.440 even though I was also going to grad school.

01:27:28.840 And it was just like very chaotic because he was insecure.

01:27:33.580 I think he naturally wanted to be a leader, but he couldn't at the time because of the

01:27:38.780 pandemic.

01:27:39.400 But even if a woman is the breadwinner, it's not clear to me if women want men to be submissive,

01:27:45.440 even if you out earn the man.

01:27:47.120 Well, I think a woman who's willing to be it. 0.92

01:27:49.340 Sorry, Pixie, one second.

01:27:50.260 I feel like a woman who's willing to be in that type of a relationship.

01:27:54.240 Hold on.

01:27:54.640 Just a second.

01:27:55.400 She donated $100.

01:27:56.880 Ladies, is Flowers on the first date a red flag? 0.99

01:28:01.140 And Brian, when is Real Natch coming on?

01:28:06.000 We'll see.

01:28:06.860 We'll see.

01:28:07.360 We got a lot of people that want to be on the show.

01:28:10.240 But Ryan OG, thank you very much for the TTS.

01:28:13.520 Flowers on the first date.

01:28:14.660 So we'll come back to this really quick.

01:28:16.780 First date, Flowers, is it a red flag?

01:28:19.700 No.

01:28:20.180 No, it's cute.

01:28:21.540 No, it's cute.

01:28:23.120 Okay, it's not a red flag, but I don't recommend you do it.

01:28:26.200 What?

01:28:26.460 Why?

01:28:27.140 You're already paying for dinner.

01:28:28.460 Might as well.

01:28:28.960 Pixie, you go to your point.

01:28:30.020 I ain't paying for dinner.

01:28:31.220 Who is?

01:28:31.960 I don't pay for dinner.

01:28:33.280 She can pay for herself.

01:28:34.680 Wait, if you ask her out.

01:28:35.820 I mean, if you can't afford flowers, you can pick some flowers, and that's still cute.

01:28:38.620 It's acts of service.

01:28:39.800 It's a show of gratitude, right?

01:28:41.760 I don't know.

01:28:42.220 Give her some flowers. 1.00

01:28:43.120 Wait, when's the last time you took someone on a dinner date?

01:28:45.780 Me?

01:28:46.480 Brian.

01:28:46.980 No, Brian.

01:28:47.500 Dinner date?

01:28:48.140 I don't think dinner dates are, for a first date, I don't think dinner dates are a good

01:28:53.780 move.

01:28:54.120 I think you could meet somewhere for a coffee or a tea or go for a walk, even.

01:29:00.580 Because for dinner, you gotta sit down.

01:29:02.340 When was the last time you had a date?

01:29:05.000 Oh, it's been a minute.

01:29:06.120 I've been way too fucking busy. 0.55

01:29:07.660 I'm not trying to... 0.80

01:29:08.760 It's not worth my time right now.

01:29:10.880 Especially in this day and age.

01:29:12.640 No, it's not about that.

01:29:13.440 I'm just way too focused.

01:29:14.620 I have a big thing going on here, and I'm not trying to be distracted right now by doing

01:29:20.120 that.

01:29:21.420 I do want to continue on with the point, though.

01:29:24.860 Why do half your guests not understand the difference between women and woman talking 1.00

01:29:29.020 about the girl in the light blue?

01:29:30.740 Is this an education thing, Carly thing?

01:29:34.380 My toddler nephew has better grammar.

01:29:37.500 Do you have a response, Pitt?

01:29:38.540 Is it...

01:29:39.020 Why are they...

01:29:39.860 Oh, they're talking about my pronunciation?

01:29:42.340 Women versus woman, which is something people say a lot in this space. 1.00

01:29:46.000 They say woman, where they should technically say women. 1.00

01:29:48.880 I've noticed this, too.

01:29:49.820 Women. 1.00

01:29:50.120 All I'm going to say is that I literally speak two languages, so he can suck a dick. 1.00

01:29:55.300 Like, it's just like... 1.00

01:29:56.460 He can suck a dick. 1.00

01:29:57.640 Yes. 1.00

01:29:58.540 You speak Spanish, or...

01:29:59.640 Yeah, I speak Spanish.

01:30:00.580 Can we hear a little... 1.00

01:30:02.300 Tell them to suck a dick in Spanish. 1.00

01:30:07.540 Chupa una pena. 1.00

01:30:10.500 Well, you speak two languages.

01:30:12.020 Let's hear it.

01:30:12.720 Yes, I speak Spanish, but I have a sense of gringa, and that's because I speak English, but we can speak in Spanish now, if you want.

01:30:19.680 That's hot.

01:30:20.680 That's hot.

01:30:21.400 Oh.

01:30:21.520 Yeah.

01:30:23.100 Caliente.

01:30:24.780 He might slide into the DMs after that.

01:30:27.340 Okay.

01:30:27.940 Yeah, guys, it's ESL.

01:30:30.340 Are you English as a second language?

01:30:31.720 I'm ESL, too.

01:30:33.140 My first language is French.

01:30:34.940 Do you still speak French?

01:30:36.060 A little bit.

01:30:36.760 Unfortunately, I started speaking English when I was very young, so I started losing it a little bit.

01:30:40.600 I understand it fairly well, though.

01:30:42.680 Yeah.

01:30:42.860 Speaking is a little harder.

01:30:44.100 Yeah.

01:30:44.360 I technically learned Spanish first, and I learned most of my English through reading, so I mispronounce a lot of words the longer that you know me, because I pronounce them as you would read them in Spanish.

01:30:55.180 Oh.

01:30:55.720 Yeah.

01:30:56.200 Okay.

01:30:56.740 All right.

01:30:57.560 Well, Sam.

01:30:59.820 Yeah, I hear maybe it could also be, like, they think they heard someone say woman instead of woman.

01:31:06.520 I haven't noticed or heard anything, but...

01:31:09.000 Yeah, but Sam, thank you very much.

01:31:10.720 I noticed it every time.

01:31:10.740 Anytime I'm on a Red Pill podcast, I noticed it.

01:31:13.320 Literally, anytime I'm on a Red Pill podcast, I noticed people say woman, where they should be saying women, but also I'm a grammar nerd.

01:31:20.040 I guess it's just a...

01:31:21.260 Oh, women. 1.00

01:31:21.940 Instead of saying women, they say the word woman, where they should be saying women.

01:31:25.720 Plural versus singular.

01:31:27.640 Exactly.

01:31:28.300 But it's okay.

01:31:28.980 I mean, I figured it's an American thing, because I've only noticed it since I moved here.

01:31:33.660 Well, I mean, if they can't recognize Supreme Court justices, they're not going to recognize grammar. 0.98

01:31:39.160 Yeah, no, our educational system is trash. 0.96

01:31:42.000 Like, I'm from the Central Valley. 0.97

01:31:43.560 I'm from Bakersfield, after I moved from China.

01:31:46.260 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:31:46.800 And she's from Fresno.

01:31:48.100 Yikes.

01:31:49.140 Yikes on Bakersfield.

01:31:50.640 Okay, so, ladies, it's flowers on the first date, a red flag, and then we were talking about paying for the first date, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

01:31:57.160 Y'all were shocked when I said, you know what I'm saying?

01:32:00.460 Because women aren't going to, like... 1.00

01:32:02.500 Or as men should not pay for the first date.

01:32:04.160 Yeah, you have to get ready for, like, an hour or something just to meet someone that you're unsure about.

01:32:10.180 You're, like, having a lot of risk just to, like, grab a coffee.

01:32:13.700 I think that's, like...

01:32:15.000 Well, you're assuming, like, I'm at least assuming that you're meeting this person beforehand in person.

01:32:20.740 And then you're, like, okay, I want to date this person, so then you're going out for a date.

01:32:24.880 How much risk is there?

01:32:25.840 You want to, like, look nice, and...

01:32:27.340 I think it depends on the dating app.

01:32:28.380 Well, I mean, a lot of people meet online, social media, dating apps.

01:32:31.420 Right, but women put in that much effort to look good pretty much every day when they go out of their house to meet strangers. 1.00

01:32:36.900 It's, I mean, maybe they go the little extra mile for a date, but the majority of women are already caking their face before they step out of their household. 1.00

01:32:44.060 Shit's true. 0.99

01:32:44.780 On the balance of probability. 1.00

01:32:45.580 That shit's true. 1.00

01:32:46.500 And you don't know what kind of shit we do before. 1.00

01:32:49.320 We got to get ready, too. 0.99

01:32:50.280 Tell us how long it takes for you to get ready.

01:32:53.880 I see you have gel in your hair.

01:32:55.280 It took him an hour to get ready.

01:32:57.160 Wait, no.

01:32:57.580 This is...

01:32:58.220 I put a little maple syrup in my hair.

01:33:00.040 I don't use gel.

01:33:00.620 Oh, okay.

01:33:01.140 I just put a little maple syrup at breakfast.

01:33:03.400 I just want...

01:33:04.140 You all know what men are doing before a date.

01:33:06.560 Yeah.

01:33:07.320 Yeah, we do a lot, okay?

01:33:09.280 I got to...

01:33:09.540 I bet you do.

01:33:10.600 Yeah, we do.

01:33:12.140 Yeah, you know?

01:33:13.800 What's that movie, When Harry Met Sally?

01:33:16.040 Yes.

01:33:16.300 You got to bust a nut before a date.

01:33:18.380 You know, that's...

01:33:18.860 Yeah.

01:33:18.960 That's where we were all going.

01:33:21.240 Is that where the...

01:33:21.960 When the...

01:33:22.500 When Cameron Diaz was like, Ben's do love with her hair.

01:33:25.180 With her hair. 0.81

01:33:27.000 Yep.

01:33:28.540 Well, okay.

01:33:29.220 Let me also just add to the...

01:33:31.200 Gentlemen, you should probably not listen to me on this one.

01:33:34.740 You probably should pay for the first date because you're going to lose women if you don't. 1.00

01:33:39.200 But, yeah, if you want to min-max your dating success or dating results, you should pay for the first date.

01:33:48.120 You're more likely to get laid.

01:33:50.380 You're more likely to have the woman just keep talking to you, period. 1.00

01:33:53.800 It feels a little transactional, though, don't you? 0.98

01:33:55.820 Are you guys saying that women are basically prostitutes? 0.99

01:34:01.120 Is that what you're saying? 0.99

01:34:02.380 No.

01:34:02.600 Oh, he has to pay for my date.

01:34:04.260 No, not have to. 1.00

01:34:04.660 Otherwise, he ain't getting no pussy. 0.99

01:34:06.120 What's up? 1.00

01:34:06.780 I usually split.

01:34:08.240 Usually, I actually, like...

01:34:09.620 Yeah, I do.

01:34:10.240 I'm a feminist. 1.00

01:34:10.720 I don't agree to talk about this.

01:34:11.960 I've seen YouTube videos of women talking about this, and they literally say, 1.00

01:34:15.260 well, I mean, it's not because of feminism, but, I mean, if you don't want to split it, 1.00

01:34:19.100 if you want to split it, my pussy's going to dry up. 1.00

01:34:21.080 And that's your repercussion at the end of the day. 1.00

01:34:23.820 I think the problem is...

01:34:24.800 I don't agree with that.

01:34:25.940 I'm just saying that that is what people said.

01:34:28.320 I think what happens is that men are also, like, competing against other men

01:34:32.140 and also versus a woman being with herself.

01:34:34.860 But, basically, if a guy doesn't do that, the problem is, like,

01:34:37.360 there's going to be, like, 10 other guys who are willing to do that, right?

01:34:39.920 So, if a woman is, like, yeah, pay for the first date. 1.00

01:34:43.380 Enjoy your simps.

01:34:45.620 But, also, it's, like, if they pay for the first date, I'm more likely to be, like,

01:34:48.600 oh, yeah, drinks on me.

01:34:49.800 Like, if they don't pay for it, it's, like, okay, I owe you nothing.

01:34:52.320 Or, like, if I insist to split the bill.

01:34:54.260 If a girl, like, really, really insists and, like, is, like, fighting on it,

01:34:58.280 like, it probably means that she never wants to see you again.

01:35:01.340 Wait, wait, is splitting the bill, like, an American thing?

01:35:04.400 It is an American thing.

01:35:05.660 It's a Californian liberal thing.

01:35:07.100 Do you not know where you're from?

01:35:09.120 No, we don't.

01:35:10.100 The man pay.

01:35:11.120 Wait, how long have you been in the U.S.?

01:35:13.300 Nine years now.

01:35:14.760 Oh, I mean, so, and you're...

01:35:16.660 You have not experienced this on the dates that you've been on?

01:35:19.140 Where you're, like, oh, this is a bit different to back home.

01:35:21.280 Yeah, yeah, I've experienced it, but then I was, like...

01:35:23.160 Wait, but you're 24.

01:35:24.020 You've been here for nine years.

01:35:25.760 I came here when I was 15.

01:35:27.880 I mean, were you really dating all that much prior to 15 back in Beijing?

01:35:31.540 I think it's more so, like, family values, like, what you see growing up with family and stuff like that.

01:35:37.040 Like, I've seen people split bills here, but then...

01:35:40.300 Wait, you're...

01:35:40.660 No, no, no, sorry.

01:35:41.360 Continue.

01:35:41.740 Didn't mean to interrupt.

01:35:42.700 Continue.

01:35:43.280 But, yeah, like, usually if they're, like, let's 50-50, I would just pay for it because I...

01:35:47.440 I don't know why.

01:35:48.720 I feel like it's just, like...

01:35:51.000 Maybe it's a culture thing, like...

01:35:52.920 You said...

01:35:53.300 But you said values?

01:35:55.120 Did you say family values?

01:35:56.620 Yeah, a little bit of that.

01:35:57.880 I think growing up, I've seen men provide and pay most of the time, and then, so, like, after I came here, I was, like, ooh, so, like...

01:36:05.520 Hold on, hold on.

01:36:06.840 Let me just try to continue on this chain really quick.

01:36:10.080 So, your parents are still together or divorced?

01:36:13.600 Divorced.

01:36:14.000 Okay, but growing up, you had strong traditional values, correct?

01:36:20.280 Okay, well, I mean, you do OnlyFans, correct?

01:36:26.260 Like, you do nude content.

01:36:28.220 Yes.

01:36:28.440 It's not...

01:36:28.960 I don't have an issue with it, but it's not really...

01:36:31.680 It doesn't strike me as traditional, you know?

01:36:33.460 It's not, which is why I've had, like, issues with family, yes.

01:36:38.660 Do your...

01:36:40.980 Does your dad and mom, do they know that you do content?

01:36:44.000 I haven't talked to my dad in forever.

01:36:46.680 I think my mom does.

01:36:48.760 You think she knows?

01:36:50.400 I think so, yes.

01:36:51.620 Okay.

01:36:52.360 You...

01:36:52.640 What do you mean, you think she knows?

01:36:54.060 We're not...

01:36:54.560 We haven't been on speaking terms for a long time.

01:36:56.720 We recently reconnected, and I kind of told her what I was doing, but I don't think she

01:37:00.880 understands, like, the social media stuff quite a bit.

01:37:04.560 But I...

01:37:05.100 How would you say it in Mandarin?

01:37:07.140 Do you speak Mandarin or Cantonese?

01:37:08.660 Mandarin.

01:37:08.960 Okay. 0.94

01:37:09.580 How would you say in Mandarin, dear mom, I post my titties on OnlyFans.

01:37:15.260 Wait, what if she watches this?

01:37:16.980 Yo, what's up, mom?

01:37:18.300 Wait, what's your mom's name?

01:37:19.540 Is she single?

01:37:20.560 Is she still single? 0.95

01:37:21.420 Because, like, I'm...

01:37:22.100 She is single, though.

01:37:22.860 I thought you weren't looking for the name.

01:37:24.040 Can you link...

01:37:24.340 Can you link me and your mom up?

01:37:26.780 Is she single?

01:37:27.340 Like...

01:37:27.700 Is she in the U.S.?

01:37:28.840 Yeah, she's in the U.S. now.

01:37:30.240 Yeah, she's in the U.S. now.

01:37:30.260 She wants a nice dinner date for her mom. 0.92

01:37:32.780 She's a traditional woman. 0.67

01:37:33.500 Did you know in China, for a man to marry a woman, they have to provide a house and own 1.00

01:37:38.400 a...

01:37:38.620 Like, they have to own a house and a car at minimum, and they have to pay for all the food.

01:37:43.620 Sounds like a lot of work.

01:37:44.060 And also, they pay for the wedding.

01:37:45.780 I learned that in America that the bride's family pays for the wedding, which is, like, mind-blowing.

01:37:50.560 That's why you just don't get married.

01:37:53.660 Just saying.

01:37:54.300 Just throwing it out there.

01:37:55.200 Wait, so is your mom single?

01:37:56.060 Can you hook it up?

01:37:57.360 Maybe.

01:37:57.900 Is she in California?

01:37:59.200 She's not.

01:38:00.240 I thought high-value...

01:38:00.860 I'll fire her out. 1.00

01:38:01.280 What's up?

01:38:01.720 I thought high-value men were supposed to look for a young woman. 0.55

01:38:04.460 Is she a babe? 1.00

01:38:05.100 You know?

01:38:05.800 Is your mom a babe? 0.99

01:38:06.860 She's cute. 0.95

01:38:07.400 She got a boyfriend, or what was the situation?

01:38:09.180 Oh, my God.

01:38:09.580 Am I really hitting on your mom?

01:38:13.380 What do you guys think? 1.00

01:38:14.240 Do you guys shit me and her mom? 1.00

01:38:15.940 Yes. 1.00

01:38:17.160 Is she looking, you think?

01:38:19.100 She's cute. 0.95

01:38:19.800 You don't even know what she looks like.

01:38:20.840 No, is she looking for a boyfriend? 0.92

01:38:22.820 But maybe you should give her some time, because my stepdad passed away, like, fairly recently.

01:38:27.560 Aw, Brian, something so rude.

01:38:28.980 Just a little bit of time. 0.62

01:38:29.800 I'm trying to dig into a widow's panties, like, so quickly.

01:38:33.320 That's the perfect time.

01:38:34.600 No, I'm kidding.

01:38:36.320 The emotional support.

01:38:38.200 One time...

01:38:38.920 Wedding crashers, the funeral crashers.

01:38:40.760 I was thinking of it.

01:38:42.340 Yeah, it was, uh...

01:38:44.320 They be mad horny. 1.00

01:38:45.880 You're right.

01:38:46.920 Yes.

01:38:47.280 The grief.

01:38:48.280 But sorry to hear about your, uh, stepfather.

01:38:54.240 It's okay. 1.00

01:38:55.220 Unless he sucked ass. 1.00

01:38:55.860 Am I being inappropriate right now? 1.00

01:38:56.960 Okay, fuck. 1.00

01:38:57.740 I'm always saying stupid shit. 1.00

01:38:59.240 Um, uh, okay. 1.00

01:39:01.800 So, I don't know how to make it un-awkward after hitting your, hitting on your mom.

01:39:07.540 Um.

01:39:08.780 Yeah, do you have any...

01:39:10.140 So, wait, where is your mom right now? 1.00

01:39:12.060 Oh, she's in Florida.

01:39:12.880 Oh, she's in Florida.

01:39:14.840 Okay, did she move here when you were 15 as well?

01:39:17.040 No, I actually came first.

01:39:19.120 Um, I moved here by myself.

01:39:20.540 And then she came when I was like, maybe like four years after.

01:39:24.260 Three years after.

01:39:24.680 Where was she at the time?

01:39:26.860 Um, first off, Hawaii, and then to Florida.

01:39:30.520 Hawaii's America still.

01:39:32.140 That's America.

01:39:32.880 Where was, sorry, where were you born?

01:39:34.700 Where are you from originally?

01:39:35.940 Oh, born and raised in Beijing.

01:39:37.300 Beijing.

01:39:37.960 Okay.

01:39:38.620 Rebound?

01:39:39.300 Is your dad still in Beijing?

01:39:41.220 It's a rebound, right?

01:39:42.020 I have no clue.

01:39:43.580 You don't know at all.

01:39:44.260 She needs a rebound. 1.00

01:39:45.240 She needs a rebound. 1.00

01:39:46.120 Tell her I'm available.

01:39:46.980 Okay.

01:39:47.500 Okay, I will.

01:39:48.320 All right.

01:39:48.700 Wait, what, what, we're, okay, we're talking about paying for first dates.

01:39:52.300 Yeah.

01:39:53.560 Did you guys have any thoughts on that?

01:39:55.820 I feel like Lauren has some thoughts on that.

01:39:58.380 Honestly, the first date, it's ultimately going to be his idea.

01:40:02.000 So I think that he should pay because I didn't ask.

01:40:07.020 If I really, the person out should pay.

01:40:09.400 If I ask someone out, I'm like, let's go to Disneyland.

01:40:12.920 Yeah.

01:40:13.440 Let's go.

01:40:14.140 Like, I'm not going to be like, yeah, if it's like a first date and you're like, whoa.

01:40:18.140 First date to Disneyland?

01:40:19.220 Yeah.

01:40:19.480 Then I should pay, right?

01:40:20.840 Because it's like.

01:40:21.420 That's a lot.

01:40:22.660 Yeah.

01:40:22.820 No, that's too much.

01:40:23.700 So you should pay.

01:40:24.920 Unless you're drunk.

01:40:25.820 Like if you're the one asking, like if some guy asked me to go to Disneyland on the first date,

01:40:29.140 they should pay.

01:40:29.160 Have you ever done that for a first date?

01:40:30.800 No, I haven't, but.

01:40:32.120 Not yet.

01:40:32.500 I have had people ask me to do it.

01:40:34.880 I feel like over elaborate first dates are very ill advised because let's say it's weird.

01:40:42.140 Like you want to, you want to be in a kind of casual situation where it's, you're just

01:40:47.080 not into them.

01:40:47.740 Or if it's weird, you can be like, oh, hey, nice to meet you.

01:40:51.600 And you can dip like, but for dinner, that's why I'm kind of hesitant with dinner because

01:40:55.680 it's like, oh, we got to wait another 20 minutes for the food, but I don't like you.

01:40:59.900 And, you know, it's like Disneyland.

01:41:03.080 You can't spend an hour with someone you don't like in the pursuit of eventually finding

01:41:06.900 your wife.

01:41:08.220 Well, if you don't want to get married, but.

01:41:10.920 What if you don't hit it off at first?

01:41:12.660 Teleplay is donated $99.

01:41:14.460 The right answer to who paid for the first date is easy.

01:41:18.400 No one.

01:41:18.900 Good call. 1.00

01:41:19.300 Make that shit free. 1.00

01:41:20.600 Hell yeah, comrade. 1.00

01:41:21.400 Do something free.

01:41:21.960 Um, well, okay.

01:41:23.780 So if, if you're just not attracted to them, but they're otherwise pleasant, I say just

01:41:30.200 continue on with the date, you know, uh, you know, eat the meal, have a nice conversation.

01:41:36.600 But if there's like something like you're, you feel your safety is kind of, or like they're

01:41:44.260 being weird in some kind of way, then yeah, absolutely.

01:41:48.860 You can't finish a dinner. 0.72

01:41:50.400 Like with a weirdo.

01:41:51.640 So like we're having dinner, we're on a date and then you're like, oh wow, she's really 0.99

01:41:55.120 fucking weird. 0.99

01:41:56.080 Like, yikes. 0.99

01:41:57.960 You're going to be like, ah, sorry, can't finish this.

01:42:00.840 I'm going to tap out.

01:42:02.460 Or like if you're on a nature walk, even.

01:42:04.920 Wouldn't do that.

01:42:05.740 I'm not going, I'm not going into nature.

01:42:07.300 Well, you said that you want a free, you're saying that you want a free date.

01:42:09.940 So what's a free date? 1.00

01:42:11.140 No, walk around the park, go to a Starbucks, grab a tea, that shit. 1.00

01:42:15.180 That's not free. 1.00

01:42:15.980 Go to the gym.

01:42:16.760 What?

01:42:18.060 What?

01:42:18.640 Yeah.

01:42:19.160 Or you can just go walk at the beach.

01:42:21.180 Hike? 1.00

01:42:21.900 No, because then you're getting into the crevices of the mountain, but like beach, there's people 0.99

01:42:26.180 around and shit. 0.97

01:42:26.820 So beach is okay. 0.99

01:42:27.880 Definitely agree with doing a free thing.

01:42:29.260 But whether you're a man or a woman and you feel uncomfortable on a date, then yeah, you reserve 0.98

01:42:36.020 the right at any moment to be, to fucking leave. 0.97

01:42:38.660 You reserve the right. 0.98

01:42:39.600 Sure.

01:42:39.820 I'm not saying that you shouldn't be allowed to.

01:42:41.260 I'm not obliged to stay on a date with somebody.

01:42:43.260 Now, again, if they're otherwise pleasant, if, well, no, if they're otherwise pleasant,

01:42:47.700 but I'm just, and this applies to women too, if they're otherwise pleasant, but you can

01:42:53.620 tell, and I'm not really, maybe we don't align, maybe I'm not attracted.

01:42:56.940 I'd say, yeah, the polite thing would be just stick it out.

01:42:59.580 Have you ever walked out on a date?

01:43:01.760 Yes.

01:43:02.400 What's the story?

01:43:03.760 What is the story?

01:43:04.800 She was 30 minutes late.

01:43:06.120 She didn't apologize.

01:43:07.080 I stuck it out for 10 minutes.

01:43:09.000 I was brewing because if you're late, and she didn't let me know she was going to be

01:43:17.720 late.

01:43:18.140 Was it to a restaurant?

01:43:19.180 Was it a park?

01:43:20.060 Was it a beach?

01:43:20.800 What was it?

01:43:21.300 Uh, it was a, uh, it was like a lounge where we were going to grab a drink.

01:43:25.220 Okay.

01:43:25.800 Yeah.

01:43:26.380 Um, and so she was 30 minutes late.

01:43:28.980 She let me know like 10 minutes after I had already arrived.

01:43:32.160 Hey, I'm running late.

01:43:33.400 I'll be there in 10.

01:43:34.540 She ended up being, so she was 30 minutes late and, uh, I would have actually been okay

01:43:39.960 if she gave me a token apology, like, Hey, sorry, I was late, but she just stepped and

01:43:43.920 didn't say anything.

01:43:45.380 So I was like, all right, let's, uh, so yeah, I was just kind of.

01:43:51.320 Okay.

01:43:51.640 So you were taken back and then, then did you try to like, was that it for you?

01:43:55.720 Like you can't move on or was there like a further conversation?

01:43:59.320 Then you're like, Oh, this is it for me.

01:44:01.060 And then what was the exit?

01:44:02.360 Like, okay.

01:44:03.740 So, um, I was basically like, okay, because of this, because you were late, because you

01:44:10.460 didn't offer up, I think the polite courteous thing would be that at least, I wasn't expecting

01:44:14.760 her to be like, get down on one knee and be like, Oh my God, Brian, I'm so sorry.

01:44:18.820 Please forgive me.

01:44:19.600 I just wanted like, Hey, sorry, I'm late.

01:44:21.900 How's your day?

01:44:23.280 I think that's like the, if you're that late, you say sorry.

01:44:27.360 Right.

01:44:28.860 So I was like, okay, let's just see if she's DTF.

01:44:33.160 So I was like, you want to come back to my place?

01:44:35.100 And then, uh, she said no.

01:44:36.840 And I was like, Oh, okay.

01:44:38.220 Well, Hey, I gotta go.

01:44:39.120 So, okay.

01:44:40.180 But to be fair, nice to meet you.

01:44:42.900 I don't think most of them would be DTF within the first like 10 minutes of meeting.

01:44:47.840 But I was, it was like, because she didn't apologize.

01:44:50.700 Like you were like, you couldn't see past, you weren't even like going to figure out what

01:44:54.320 she was going to say.

01:44:54.920 Then you immediately went to the DTF and when she was, no, I was waiting for the apology.

01:44:59.600 So you just were sitting there waiting for the apology and it never happened after 10 minutes.

01:45:02.980 You were like, no, I wasn't, it wasn't like awkward silence, but I was like, okay, I guess we 1.00

01:45:08.820 could fuck, you know, but you would fuck a person who's that inconsiderate. 1.00

01:45:13.840 I'm just like shocked at that. 1.00

01:45:16.120 It's so funny.

01:45:16.860 Cause you already had your mind made up and then she was like sitting there for 10 minutes 0.99

01:45:21.040 trying to have a conversation with you. 1.00

01:45:22.800 And then you were just like probably awkwardly thinking, I wonder if she's down to fuck, 0.99

01:45:26.600 but I don't want to like hook up. 0.99

01:45:28.380 I don't want to date this person any more than this.

01:45:30.760 And then she, she lacked the necessary courtesy for me to ever consider her for a long-term

01:45:36.800 relationship.

01:45:37.740 That makes sense. 0.99

01:45:38.460 So I was like, okay, we could maybe be fuck buddies, but I. 0.97

01:45:42.500 Did she seem upset when you left? 0.97

01:45:44.140 No, because I thoroughly tanked the interaction when I basically was like, Hey, do you want

01:45:50.020 to go hook up?

01:45:50.920 And what was her reaction to that?

01:45:52.960 Oh, I mean, she was just like, no, I'm okay.

01:45:55.220 And I was like, okay, cool.

01:45:56.820 Well, I'm going to go.

01:45:58.720 Yeah.

01:45:59.060 I think it was thoroughly awkward. 0.99

01:46:01.020 Most girls would not be down to fuck within 10 minutes of talking to someone. 1.00

01:46:04.760 I mean, he was already over it. 1.00

01:46:05.980 So he just shot his shot.

01:46:07.000 He shot his final shot. 0.54

01:46:08.180 I shot my shot.

01:46:09.480 So what happens if she says, yes.

01:46:11.280 Yeah.

01:46:11.740 What if you're just stuck in a situation ship with her where.

01:46:14.860 She says, yes.

01:46:15.400 Yeah.

01:46:15.640 So when she's like, you know what?

01:46:16.940 Maybe you can redeem yourself.

01:46:18.380 You caught me.

01:46:19.240 What do you think?

01:46:20.100 This goes crazy. 1.00

01:46:21.320 It's been 10 minutes and she's ready to fuck. 1.00

01:46:23.320 Maybe she says sorry while during the BJ. 1.00

01:46:25.560 I don't know.

01:46:26.440 I'm sorry, Brian. 1.00

01:46:27.760 And she's fucking. 1.00

01:46:28.200 I'm so sorry. 1.00

01:46:29.300 In the middle of sad.

01:46:32.160 I don't know.

01:46:33.860 Tell me you're sorry.

01:46:35.340 Tell me.

01:46:36.380 Tell me you're sorry.

01:46:37.360 Tell me I'm sorry.

01:46:39.180 Maybe she's into that.

01:46:40.300 That's such a.

01:46:40.940 Yeah, that'd be great. 0.98

01:46:42.020 She's apologizing during the sex. 0.90

01:46:44.060 I'm so sorry, Brian.

01:46:45.120 I'm sorry.

01:46:45.180 I'm sorry.

01:46:45.240 I'm sorry.

01:46:45.300 I'm sorry.

01:46:45.640 I'm sorry.

01:46:46.920 Maddie does it, too.

01:46:48.820 Light blue.

01:46:49.640 I also speak Spanish.

01:46:51.720 Nobody cares about your gringo accent as long as it is understood. 0.95

01:46:56.200 Woman equals just one female, though. 1.00

01:46:59.380 Mujer equals mujeres. 1.00

01:47:01.940 You know that.

01:47:04.080 Wait.

01:47:04.680 What is it?

01:47:04.980 I don't speak Spanish.

01:47:06.200 What is it?

01:47:06.520 He just said woman is woman. 0.99

01:47:08.020 The plural versus the singular.

01:47:09.460 Oh, okay.

01:47:10.840 Wait.

01:47:11.440 Pixie, do you smoke weed?

01:47:13.900 No, I don't.

01:47:14.380 I always look high, though.

01:47:15.500 Yeah, I was about to say, you like have resting.

01:47:18.360 High face.

01:47:19.320 Yes.

01:47:19.800 It's happened to me more than once where a random person comes up to me and is like,

01:47:23.900 oh, like, are you smoking anything?

01:47:25.720 Do you have anything?

01:47:26.600 And I'm like, no, I don't smoke weed.

01:47:28.600 Shame to anyone who smokes weed, honestly.

01:47:31.020 She'll be jailed. 1.00

01:47:31.840 Oh, wow.

01:47:32.620 That was lettuce.

01:47:33.760 Okay.

01:47:34.060 Wow.

01:47:34.240 You're not degenerates.

01:47:34.980 I mean, do you guys have a rebuttal to these people?

01:47:38.420 I don't know if any of you smoke weed. 1.00

01:47:39.540 All I have to say is just like, fuck me. 1.00

01:47:44.180 She's taking it as a compliment. 1.00

01:47:45.660 She's like, yes, fuck me. 1.00

01:47:47.520 Because I smoke. 1.00

01:47:51.280 Okay.

01:47:52.720 Shame. 0.99

01:47:53.460 We're fucking being ironic, dude. 1.00

01:47:56.320 We came here high as fuck. 1.00

01:47:57.940 What are you talking about? 1.00

01:47:59.380 Yeah, you guys smelled like. 0.99

01:48:00.800 That's awesome that you can, like, mask it like that.

01:48:03.920 Oh, like, be present?

01:48:05.740 Yeah.

01:48:05.920 Yeah, y'all, like, seem real on top of you.

01:48:07.020 You should see her when she's sober.

01:48:09.080 I haven't.

01:48:09.720 That's awesome.

01:48:10.040 What do you mean?

01:48:11.240 That's amazing.

01:48:11.780 Have you been sober?

01:48:12.820 Ever.

01:48:13.240 On a podcast?

01:48:14.320 No, I'm always at least one degree.

01:48:15.700 Within the last couple of years?

01:48:18.000 Yeah, the last couple of years, yeah.

01:48:19.560 Don't you?

01:48:20.000 You're like, for like a day or two.

01:48:20.960 When you're going to be somewhere for like three to five hours straight,

01:48:24.660 just sitting around the table talking.

01:48:25.920 I'm sorry.

01:48:26.440 People aren't that interesting, right?

01:48:28.180 So it's not for me.

01:48:29.640 It's to make y'all more interesting, to be honest.

01:48:32.180 I love the fact that.

01:48:33.600 Rude.

01:48:34.120 Come on. 0.99

01:48:34.860 Roast her. 0.99

01:48:35.020 It's the same. 0.97

01:48:35.660 That's why I smoke too.

01:48:36.940 I'm not saying you guys specifically.

01:48:38.820 I'm saying, like, people. 0.96

01:48:39.720 Roast her on that. 1.00

01:48:40.900 Well, bitch, I drink to make you look pretty. 1.00

01:48:43.120 So how about that? 1.00

01:48:45.140 I just love the fact that, you know, we came in the car. 1.00

01:48:48.380 All right, these two bitches would be smoking, be smoking, be high. 1.00

01:48:51.660 And then he comes to Pixie. 0.99

01:48:52.440 And then I'm the one who's asked if I'm high.

01:48:56.640 Pixie's, like, rolling down the window, like, give me some gross hair.

01:49:01.740 Get me out of here.

01:49:02.980 Okay.

01:49:03.600 All right.

01:49:05.120 Wait.

01:49:05.700 So, Amy, you have a dark past.

01:49:08.020 Is that correct?

01:49:08.980 I have a dark past?

01:49:09.940 You have a dark past.

01:49:10.520 What do you look like?

01:49:11.400 There's, like, some post on your Instagram that's like, yeah, I used to be wild.

01:49:16.100 Yeah, no, totally.

01:49:17.380 And now I just smoke weed.

01:49:21.260 Yeah.

01:49:22.360 So are we talking when, like, are we talking with men?

01:49:26.260 Are we talking with drinking?

01:49:27.440 Are we talking with drugs?

01:49:28.260 So for me, I'm a very, I don't have a very high sex drive.

01:49:32.400 So for me, the majority of the time, this, when I am in a committed relationship, like,

01:49:38.240 I want to please my partner.

01:49:39.720 Like, that's my goal.

01:49:40.700 Right?

01:49:41.260 But generally speaking, unless I feel that level of, like, commitment and attachment

01:49:45.560 to somebody, I'm not about that life.

01:49:47.660 It's been very, very rare, few and far between for that to occur.

01:49:50.820 Stop the cap. 0.94

01:49:52.020 Brian.

01:49:52.380 Wait.

01:49:52.900 For what to occur?

01:49:53.960 Sex?

01:49:54.680 Yeah.

01:49:55.880 It's been rare and far between.

01:49:58.020 Yeah.

01:49:58.360 Like, for me to meet somebody who I'm not in a relationship with, who I actually end up

01:50:02.240 sleeping with.

01:50:02.960 I mean, there's just a lot of risk, too.

01:50:03.980 Have you ever had a one-night stand?

01:50:05.780 Um, one.

01:50:07.180 One.

01:50:07.560 My whole life.

01:50:08.420 Whole life.

01:50:09.700 Yeah.

01:50:10.000 How'd that go?

01:50:10.200 What about that other one?

01:50:12.400 Wasn't there another one?

01:50:14.140 There's multiple ones?

01:50:16.120 What do you mean?

01:50:16.580 Why are you looking at me now? 1.00

01:50:17.600 What the fuck? 1.00

01:50:18.400 I don't know what you're talking about. 0.99

01:50:20.820 But, um, no, I mean, sir, after my relationship breakup, there was something that I did that

01:50:25.980 I regret very much.

01:50:28.400 What did you do?

01:50:29.480 I hooked up with somebody after my breakup.

01:50:32.060 After my breakup.

01:50:32.860 Like, within the last several months, I hooked up with somebody.

01:50:35.580 Haram!

01:50:35.980 I know.

01:50:36.360 It was very haram.

01:50:37.820 And, like, I literally, I literally, like.

01:50:39.400 Is he a podcaster?

01:50:40.320 I literally, no.

01:50:41.320 Podcaster?

01:50:41.780 I mean, you know what? 1.00

01:50:42.640 Who gives a fuck? 0.99

01:50:43.420 But I literally just cried the whole next day. 0.99

01:50:45.560 There was a lot of regret.

01:50:47.300 Because that, that's not me.

01:50:49.080 And that's not the standard that I hold myself to.

01:50:51.240 And that is not necessarily.

01:50:53.500 Dude.

01:50:54.300 You asked.

01:50:54.840 I'm going to cry, too.

01:50:55.660 You can't say this.

01:50:56.500 Sorry, I think you asked.

01:50:58.480 Hello, darkness, my old friend.

01:51:02.860 Go on, continue.

01:51:04.200 I have nothing to say.

01:51:05.500 Oh, my gosh.

01:51:06.640 Okay.

01:51:08.800 My, so, the dark part.

01:51:12.720 It doesn't, no, it doesn't necessarily come from that.

01:51:15.740 But other things, for sure.

01:51:17.220 I was definitely a little bit of a party animal.

01:51:19.740 Yes, I like to party.

01:51:22.140 Yes.

01:51:22.860 Okay.

01:51:23.400 All right.

01:51:23.900 Let me get a couple chats in here.

01:51:25.140 Oh, actually, no.

01:51:26.020 We got all of them.

01:51:26.840 The soundboard is fighting words.

01:51:28.460 Should be written into the constitution.

01:51:30.520 Based. 0.99

01:51:30.840 I don't know where the fuck we were. 0.99

01:51:35.060 We were talking about paying for the first date. 0.99

01:51:38.060 Talking about my dog passed.

01:51:40.000 We're talking about bringing roses to the first date, which I'm all for.

01:51:43.360 Yes, bring flowers on the first date.

01:51:44.740 Bring flowers on the first date.

01:51:46.000 Even if you pick it out from the sidewalk, it's cute.

01:51:47.100 No, don't my mother's flowers off her front yard. 1.00

01:51:50.000 She'd be pissed.

01:51:50.580 My mom and dad would be pissed. 0.92

01:51:51.480 Like, if you, like, plucked flowers from our garden and then handed it to me, I'd get shot.

01:51:56.180 Yeah, you'd get some mats.

01:51:59.980 Amy, ask a question.

01:52:01.280 I'll be right back.

01:52:02.020 You want me to ask a question right now? 0.95

01:52:04.080 It's damn true. 0.95

01:52:04.940 Yeah, okay. 1.00

01:52:06.100 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:52:07.000 I mean, that was pretty rough. 1.00

01:52:09.300 Did you guys not feel like that was a little bit rough? 0.99

01:52:11.500 Goddamn. 0.98

01:52:12.720 Who here considers themselves to have somewhat of a past? 0.99

01:52:17.560 Yeah, you and I.

01:52:18.520 Like a dark past.

01:52:19.740 Yeah.

01:52:20.300 I mean, that's what you meant to me.

01:52:21.440 It's like, what is the context of that?

01:52:23.440 When somebody says that to you, I'm like, what do you mean?

01:52:26.060 Yeah, it's also a very ominous question, because I'm sure somebody said that to me.

01:52:29.500 I'd be going through, like, my entire life history.

01:52:33.000 Like, what horrible thing is he talking about?

01:52:34.760 Like, what do you mean, past?

01:52:36.200 Are you talking about current?

01:52:37.280 Like, no, but, yeah, my past is pretty checkered.

01:52:41.400 Yeah.

01:52:41.700 Not with regards to, like, dating, but, I mean, obviously, your past influences the way

01:52:46.840 that you approach dating.

01:52:48.040 Anyone here have a felony?

01:52:51.860 No, but I have.

01:52:53.840 Misdemeanor?

01:52:54.600 Yeah, I've been arrested a couple times.

01:52:56.000 Ooh, what you've been arrested for.

01:52:57.800 I don't think I should say right this second, but I have.

01:53:02.020 Anything to do with boy drama?

01:53:04.260 Kind of, yeah.

01:53:05.180 I was 19.

01:53:06.320 It happened a couple times.

01:53:07.440 I was young, but.

01:53:08.540 A couple times.

01:53:09.100 That's kind of, like, the worst time.

01:53:10.640 If you're going to be rowdy, do it when you're charged as a juvenile.

01:53:14.120 Like, 19.

01:53:15.440 Yeah, not, like, you know, 30 plus.

01:53:17.500 I think that's crazy, but, I mean, things happen, so.

01:53:20.540 Yeah, no.

01:53:20.980 Oh, she has had, like, a really interesting past that has led her, like, to, like, OnlyFans

01:53:25.660 today, but OnlyFans is so much better than.

01:53:28.780 Than your past?

01:53:29.780 Yeah.

01:53:30.280 Do you have it?

01:53:30.840 So, would you say that your pause contributed to your decision to be able to do OnlyFans?

01:53:35.400 Yeah.

01:53:35.760 Yeah.

01:53:36.140 It drove me to it.

01:53:38.300 That was, like, kind of.

01:53:39.560 In what way?

01:53:40.420 I was just doing different types of sex work, and it was just.

01:53:44.200 I was doing different types of sex work, like, everything you could. 0.95

01:53:47.080 Stripping? 0.67

01:53:48.900 Everything you could possibly think of, and it was.

01:53:51.420 Escorting.

01:53:52.080 The bunny ranch.

01:53:52.340 She was groomed into it.

01:53:54.300 Oh.

01:53:55.340 Escorting.

01:53:56.380 But, wait, how did you get your start, and when did you start?

01:53:59.260 How old were you?

01:54:00.060 I was 19.

01:54:01.340 You were 19.

01:54:02.380 How, what was your life leading up to that?

01:54:06.800 So, like, what was your high school experience like?

01:54:09.560 High school?

01:54:10.320 Honestly, like, my freshman year, I don't know.

01:54:13.620 I hated school so much.

01:54:15.640 So, it was really, like, family life, like, childhood growing up. 0.99

01:54:20.760 Everything was kind of just, like, fucked. 0.97

01:54:23.260 Are you close with your dad or your mom? 0.99

01:54:27.920 I talk to them, but they're just, like, people.

01:54:32.240 Yeah.

01:54:33.320 Yeah. 1.00

01:54:33.900 Damn, that shit's sad. 1.00

01:54:36.960 That sucks. 1.00

01:54:38.000 I mean, how's everyone else's relationship with this family? 0.99

01:54:40.380 I think it's crazy that anybody can have a child.

01:54:42.460 I think it's wild that any, like, drug addict, any person who hates children can just have a child.

01:54:48.700 Is that something that commonly happens, like, children haters are just, like, let me just pump out.

01:54:55.720 Well, I think what happens is, like, literally, we have bad sex ed.

01:54:59.480 We have, like, a lack of contraception.

01:55:01.140 We have, like, literally people trying to ban contraception.

01:55:04.020 We have, like, people who don't allow for abortions.

01:55:06.680 So, what happens? 0.91

01:55:07.680 People get born into, like, shitty family situations, and it's horrible. 0.77

01:55:13.360 Should we, are we going to have an abortion debate right now? 0.98

01:55:15.320 I mean, we can.

01:55:16.380 I mean, that's interesting, right?

01:55:17.560 We can.

01:55:18.500 Are you guys pro-life?

01:55:19.560 Yeah.

01:55:20.080 Pro-choice?

01:55:20.840 Okay.

01:55:21.380 Pro-choice.

01:55:22.040 I just, I honestly strongly believe that most Republicans claim to be, like, pro-life and everything,

01:55:28.020 but then they're against contraception, so I don't think they're actually pro-life or anti-abortion.

01:55:33.260 Just saying.

01:55:33.480 It's not clear to me that conservatives or Republicans are necessarily anti-contraception.

01:55:38.660 What kind of contraception?

01:55:40.480 Oh, like, all types of contraception, IUD, emergency birth control, just long-acting.

01:55:46.020 Plan B.

01:55:46.780 Yeah, Plan B.

01:55:47.500 There's, you literally have, let's see, Ohio, Bill 704, Virginia, HB 1395, I believe, Louisiana

01:55:56.440 as well, all in 2022, tried to pass laws banning long-term contraception. 0.99

01:56:02.800 So, like, IUDs, like, insane shit like that is happening. 0.98

01:56:05.480 Like, non-hormonal, non-hormonal IUDs? 0.99

01:56:08.880 Well, no, there's the copper IUD, which is not, because what I have heard from Republicans

01:56:12.520 and conservatives, they make the argument that the hormonal birth controls have a negative

01:56:18.900 impact on, like, fertility and on your health, and it's not good for you to be on it, but,

01:56:24.040 I mean, I suppose, but I don't know if they full outright object to contraception, such

01:56:30.280 as, like, condoms or non-hormonal contraceptives.

01:56:33.380 I mean, and, yeah, in the past, there have been, I think it's been consistently conservatives

01:56:39.300 who have been against legislation allowing for condoms.

01:56:43.200 So, like, for instance, there was a Supreme Court case where people were handing out condoms

01:56:48.200 and condoms, contraceptions were only...

01:56:50.300 How long ago, though?

01:56:51.780 I think the 70s.

01:56:51.980 Because I've heard about this a long...

01:56:53.620 But, like, in recent history, I don't think conservatives or Republicans are that against

01:56:58.320 contraceptive use.

01:57:00.760 I don't think they're that against it.

01:57:02.140 Well, in 2022, you had Louisiana, Ohio, Virginia, Texas, all tried to ban long-term, long-access

01:57:09.740 contraception.

01:57:11.060 In 2021 and 2022, the federal government tried to pass a bill guaranteeing contraception as

01:57:18.000 a federal right to people.

01:57:19.840 Every single Republican in the House voted against it, as well as in the Senate.

01:57:24.320 So this is something that, you know what, the majority of conservatives in general throughout

01:57:28.260 the population, over 90% of the population agrees, this should be a right that people should

01:57:32.580 have.

01:57:33.160 But...

01:57:33.600 No, no, no.

01:57:33.980 When you say a right, hold on, just to be clear, just to clarify.

01:57:37.420 The second thing you mentioned there was they just...

01:57:40.660 It sounded like they didn't want to have it be taxpayer-funded.

01:57:44.660 No, no, no.

01:57:45.280 I mean, as a literal right.

01:57:46.420 I mean, as a state should not be able to say, hey, it's illegal to sell condoms.

01:57:50.600 It's illegal to provide IUDs.

01:57:52.600 Wait.

01:57:53.240 Yeah.

01:57:53.640 I just want to make sure you're not strawmanning the opposition here.

01:57:56.160 I am not.

01:57:56.760 I swear.

01:57:57.040 There are states that are trying to ban condoms.

01:58:00.480 Are...

01:58:00.800 I just want to...

01:58:01.980 I haven't heard of that, but is that actually...

01:58:04.560 Have you guys heard about this?

01:58:05.600 I think there is something to be said.

01:58:07.320 That seems to be a strawman.

01:58:09.100 Okay.

01:58:09.480 Right now, they can't ban condoms.

01:58:11.080 Right now, it's not really an issue.

01:58:12.660 Condom ban?

01:58:13.020 Hold on.

01:58:13.460 No, Brian.

01:58:13.920 Right now, it's actually not an issue because of the Supreme Court case, which made it so that...

01:58:17.600 Right now, it's like a constitutional right to have these...

01:58:22.880 Because of a Supreme Court case, but it's not codified.

01:58:26.360 So right now, a state wouldn't be capable of banning abortion.

01:58:32.560 Am I right?

01:58:33.200 I'm correct?

01:58:33.540 Well, no.

01:58:33.720 Do you have states that have banned abortion?

01:58:35.420 Also, I want to ask for you pro-lifers.

01:58:38.080 Do you truly think that someone will be a good parent if they did not want a child, but are forced to?

01:58:43.420 I don't think...

01:58:44.600 You're not forced to have a child.

01:58:46.280 You're forced...

01:58:46.920 Like, first of all, if you want to...

01:58:49.480 If you're going to subject yourself to getting pregnant, if you're going to open your leg, 0.99

01:58:52.780 we've subjected to that.

01:58:53.260 But there are people who just open their legs, but they absolutely would not be good parents.

01:58:57.360 Great.

01:58:57.380 I mean, there are...

01:58:58.460 But that should be a consequence.

01:58:59.660 Adoption...

01:58:59.900 Like, a whole other life form should be a consequence.

01:59:02.300 I don't think you should be allowed to murder somebody just because you think that you might

01:59:06.440 be a bad parent.

01:59:07.540 There's other options out there besides murder.

01:59:09.540 I think a life of suffering is better than, like...

01:59:11.380 I think a life of suffering...

01:59:12.740 Adoption doesn't have an actually way to a life of suffering whatsoever.

01:59:15.180 But not many people actually always get adopted.

01:59:18.120 And even if they're not adopted...

01:59:18.740 There are so many orphans in the world.

01:59:19.600 Okay, even if they're not...

01:59:21.480 Even if they're an orphan, that doesn't mean that they're a life of suffering.

01:59:24.400 And even if it is a life of suffering, life itself is better than being brutally murdered.

01:59:31.900 And haven't you guys heard of those people who are, like, who literally talk about that?

01:59:35.540 They're like, I...

01:59:36.440 My parents wanted to abort me because this was the situation.

01:59:39.560 I was down and out.

01:59:40.460 I was in this situation.

01:59:41.660 And honestly, I was one of those kids.

01:59:43.720 My mom wanted to abort me due to what my grandparents said because they are very traditional Hungarian.

01:59:49.600 They do not believe in having children.

01:59:51.760 I'm Hungarian.

01:59:52.660 They do not believe in having children out of wedlock.

01:59:54.960 And so my mom got married when she was, like, six to nine months pregnant with me.

01:59:59.440 But you hear these stories time and time again.

02:00:03.620 Oh, to me.

02:00:04.860 Oh, I'm so sorry.

02:00:05.840 You went like this.

02:00:06.720 Okay.

02:00:07.600 Well, there's also different opposite arguments where one of my best friends growing up...

02:00:12.340 Like, I met her in middle school and we're still best friends right now.

02:00:14.760 Where I asked her about the abortion argument.

02:00:16.800 She said that her parents only ever wanted to have one child and that her mom was pregnant out of wedlock before.

02:00:27.240 And if it weren't for that, she wouldn't have existed.

02:00:29.780 So there are also a lot of people who wouldn't have extra children if it weren't for them becoming financially stable or into wedlock.

02:00:35.900 Like, if you were in wedlock and more financially stable, you would have, like, three or four kids or something.

02:00:40.180 Versus if you're a single mom, sometimes you can't afford to have more, like, healthy, happy, financially stable children. 0.99

02:00:46.580 So there's, like, the obvious...

02:00:47.660 There's arguments on both sides.

02:00:49.620 Where I truly do think that if someone cannot afford to have a child and has a really bad relationship

02:00:56.220 and turbulent relationship with everyone around them and are, like, drug addicted,

02:01:00.380 I don't think having a child is good.

02:01:04.660 And I think that should negate somebody's...

02:01:06.620 Like, that doesn't negate the fact that it is a life-ended.

02:01:09.380 And this is the...

02:01:10.500 I find the disparity in this argument is where does life begin then, right?

02:01:13.820 Yeah.

02:01:13.940 You know what I mean?

02:01:14.540 And some people believe it's from conception.

02:01:16.840 As soon as it happens, from that very moment, some people believe it's at, like, what, 28 weeks?

02:01:21.740 Other people believe it's much further along.

02:01:23.520 So I think that's the semantics that we come down to.

02:01:25.620 We all agree that it's wrong to terminate a life, to kill somebody.

02:01:29.280 We all agree that's wrong.

02:01:31.180 I think the point of disparity is where does that actually begin?

02:01:33.960 Where does that life begin?

02:01:34.880 When they cannot live out of the womb. 0.97

02:01:37.340 That's, like, from my personal perspective and also I think culturally for me and Kathy, like, we're Chinese.

02:01:42.540 And I think for Chinese people or, like, just, like, spiritual, whatever, like, historical, like, religious stuff,

02:01:48.560 like, your soul, you breathe in your soul, your first breath, when you are out the womb.

02:01:53.760 Or whenever you breathe in your first breath, that's when the soul comes in.

02:01:56.980 Or at least that's what I was taught.

02:02:00.360 That's what you guys are taught in, like, your religion or just...

02:02:02.540 I mean, there's not really religion, that much religion in China besides Buddhism, which is, like, they didn't even...

02:02:06.820 Wait, hold on.

02:02:08.120 I'm sorry.

02:02:08.880 My aunt's Chinese.

02:02:09.940 She also said that, like, when you're born, you're born at one years old because they consider your life to have started

02:02:16.400 at literally the moment of conception.

02:02:18.900 And so, therefore, when you're born, isn't that true?

02:02:22.260 Like, you're not born at zero years old.

02:02:24.060 You're born at one years old.

02:02:25.480 I've heard that from Korea.

02:02:26.920 I've heard that from Korea.

02:02:27.240 Not from Korea. 0.98

02:02:27.660 Me?

02:02:28.260 Is that in China or is that other Asian cultures?

02:02:30.520 Because I've heard that exact same thing.

02:02:32.160 I've heard that in Korea only.

02:02:32.380 I've heard that in some Asian cultures.

02:02:34.260 Not for me in Shanghai, but maybe in...

02:02:36.380 It's not in China, but you're saying it's in Korea.

02:02:38.380 No, Shanghai's in China.

02:02:39.940 Yeah, Shanghai's in China.

02:02:41.020 But you're saying it didn't happen for you in your Chinese.

02:02:42.900 Not for me.

02:02:43.360 I don't count myself a year older, but I do know some people from China.

02:02:46.080 You're saying that people in general in China, on the balance of probability, meaning at

02:02:49.760 least 51% of the time, are people inclined to believe that or not believe that?

02:02:54.240 Or are you talking from your own perspective?

02:02:55.520 Not from my generation, no, but I cannot speak for other generations.

02:03:00.720 So, your mom's generation is in the general...

02:03:01.920 Wait, can you scoot your mic back?

02:03:03.660 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:03:04.800 Like, on your legal paperwork, when you're born in China, they start counting you one years

02:03:10.600 old at the moment of birth.

02:03:11.780 Wait, do they do that, Kathy?

02:03:13.500 Do they count you as one year old?

02:03:15.800 Here, let's, uh, we're going to move away from abortion here, so... 0.98

02:03:19.160 Oh, wait, okay, can I, can I say one more thing, just on the axis of contraception thing?

02:03:23.580 Last thing, go ahead.

02:03:24.520 Okay, because you're saying, like, oh, are they banning condoms, blah, blah, blah, but

02:03:28.120 specifically, they're trying to ban IUDs.

02:03:30.400 And you can say, oh, no, it's a health thing, maybe it's a health thing, et cetera, et cetera.

02:03:34.320 There has been no study that has shown long impacts on fertility if you're doing it properly.

02:03:38.380 Now, if you're misusing your birth control, if you're doing only emergency contraception,

02:03:42.900 if you're leaving your IUD too long, then that's something else.

02:03:45.960 But, again, you shouldn't ban IUDs as a whole because of that.

02:03:49.440 That's like saying, like, we should ban, like, let's say, soda or something unhealthy if you

02:03:52.920 misuse it, you know?

02:03:54.680 But that's my...

02:03:55.220 So, wait, have any of these bans actually been passed on birth control?

02:03:59.400 No, but what has been told over and over again, well, funding has been cut for birth

02:04:04.840 control, for access for birth control, especially in, like, low-income communities.

02:04:08.060 So, that's really bad.

02:04:09.200 Second of all, you have these groups that continuously say, we're not going to stop

02:04:12.220 passing these bills until they pass.

02:04:14.360 And then, on the other hand, you have Republicans who are like, hey, you know, instead of codifying

02:04:18.640 this law, we're going to veto it.

02:04:20.680 We're not going to pass it.

02:04:22.060 So, it's, to me, in my opinion, imperative that we try to pass this instead of being like,

02:04:26.780 no, we're going to leave it in a limbo.

02:04:28.640 Well, all of a sudden...

02:04:29.460 She's passionate.

02:04:30.240 No, it's good.

02:04:31.420 No, I think the reasoning is because the birth rate of the U.S. is going down.

02:04:35.400 The birth rate, we're still increasing in population, no matter what.

02:04:38.640 So, it affects our 401k, our retirement, our Roth IRAs, and overall, like, all of those

02:04:44.260 things only exist and work with stocks.

02:04:45.940 Wait, you're, like, hiding behind the mic.

02:04:47.820 Oh, weird.

02:04:48.160 Okay.

02:04:48.500 Can you push it?

02:04:49.300 Only thing...

02:04:49.860 Does it...

02:04:50.320 Is it not directly?

02:04:51.260 No, no, no.

02:04:51.580 Can you move it...

02:04:52.600 End of the table. 0.93

02:04:53.580 To your clavicle.

02:04:54.420 To your...

02:04:55.420 That...

02:04:56.860 Right here.

02:04:57.280 That way.

02:04:57.960 Can you...

02:04:58.360 To your right?

02:04:58.920 This here?

02:04:59.380 Right here?

02:04:59.700 Yeah, yeah.

02:05:00.100 Okay.

02:05:01.120 So, basically, I think that people are panicking and trying to ban abortions and also some certain

02:05:08.960 types of contraception because the birth rate is going down as that's, like, the trend for

02:05:14.420 any very developed country.

02:05:15.880 And, but a lot of our economy is based off of the population and, like, having workers

02:05:22.400 on the bottom to sustain everything.

02:05:25.980 And even, like, when it comes to a new sort of retirement plan, 401k, Roth IRA, it's kind

02:05:31.800 of a Ponzi scheme where they depend on more people to go into the workforce.

02:05:35.260 And people are also dying later.

02:05:36.880 And so, your retirement funds are...

02:05:38.640 Wait, what are we talking about here?

02:05:39.840 We're talking about, like, the reason there are a lot of anti-abortion laws being passed

02:05:45.440 recently.

02:05:47.120 You think it's a populist control, like, levelation?

02:05:50.000 Yeah.

02:05:50.280 Populist control levelation thing is the reason behind the legislation. 0.70

02:05:53.200 I think it's partially the reason because you see America talk about, like, Europeans, like,

02:06:00.660 how the population is declining.

02:06:02.320 And then it's like, oh, like, they're not going to be an economic power.

02:06:07.480 Okay.

02:06:08.160 We're moving on.

02:06:09.220 Okay.

02:06:09.800 Pixie got her word about birth control.

02:06:13.040 Okay.

02:06:13.980 So, Jesus Christ.

02:06:15.880 Let me try to bring it back to something more.

02:06:17.660 Sorry, tangent.

02:06:18.280 Okay, before y'all, like, I don't know, some of y'all grimaced when I, when we were talking.

02:06:23.800 Okay.

02:06:24.240 Is it a deal breaker if a guy doesn't want to go down on you?

02:06:27.560 We'll go around the table.

02:06:28.580 Go ahead.

02:06:29.080 No, I don't care.

02:06:30.900 Um, if he expects me to go down on him, then yes, it's a deal breaker.

02:06:36.200 So, okay, if a guy didn't want to go down on you, let's say he didn't have an expectation

02:06:40.120 that you go down on him, but...

02:06:43.200 Yeah, as long as it's even.

02:06:44.520 No, no, no.

02:06:45.120 But would you still go down on him?

02:06:46.500 He doesn't have the expectation, but would you still go down on him?

02:06:50.520 Um, probably not if he doesn't want to go down on me.

02:06:53.560 It has to be even.

02:06:54.820 Has to be even, huh?

02:06:55.540 Has to be even.

02:06:56.460 Okay.

02:06:57.020 All right.

02:06:57.520 What about you?

02:06:58.440 I used to not think it was a deal breaker until I dated someone who only wanted head all

02:07:03.340 the time.

02:07:04.120 Then I was like, wait a second.

02:07:05.780 Like, you're not doing anything for me.

02:07:08.020 And she knows who it is.

02:07:09.140 Like, it's like, what? 0.94

02:07:09.820 What the hell? 0.62

02:07:10.440 I just found out. 0.98

02:07:11.620 Yeah, no, no.

02:07:12.300 But like, he would not give any head whatsoever.

02:07:15.280 So that's a deal breaker.

02:07:17.120 Like, I didn't used to, like, care if I had, like, much.

02:07:20.480 I was like, whatever.

02:07:21.680 But since I dated someone who was like, I only care about head and you, like, should

02:07:25.540 do it all the time.

02:07:26.560 Then I'm like, okay.

02:07:27.460 It needs to be more even.

02:07:28.420 So now I, like, really appreciate men who do go down on women.

02:07:34.380 Wait.

02:07:34.840 So hold on.

02:07:35.380 Question.

02:07:35.660 This guy, he wouldn't do anything to make you come or please you?

02:07:41.360 Yeah, pretty much.

02:07:42.300 Like, for no.

02:07:43.080 Yeah, it was just.

02:07:43.900 You just gave him head?

02:07:45.080 Yeah, no. 0.89

02:07:45.420 He was kind of a narcissist for sure.

02:07:48.920 And I don't even use that word lightly.

02:07:50.660 I feel like that word is kind of used everywhere.

02:07:53.040 Like, he just, like, lacked the empathy.

02:07:55.500 I think he just legitimately did not understand that, like, pleasing people is, like, a good

02:08:01.260 thing.

02:08:01.580 Okay, but were you guys, he was, you were just giving him head, like, no sex? 0.98

02:08:07.480 Uh, no, there's still, like, sex going on. 0.99

02:08:10.440 Oh.

02:08:11.260 But.

02:08:11.700 Okay.

02:08:12.400 It was, like, the main thing was just.

02:08:15.920 Did you make you come?

02:08:17.000 I mean, like, occasionally, like, not.

02:08:20.300 Like, it was just very, like, him oriented.

02:08:23.280 Okay.

02:08:23.500 So.

02:08:24.160 See, I, because I don't like to give head, but I like to make my girl come.

02:08:27.460 Okay, that's fine.

02:08:28.220 That's fine.

02:08:29.180 Preferably before me, so.

02:08:30.600 What if she were to say that she could only come by getting her?

02:08:35.060 Oh. 0.99

02:08:36.400 Sucks for you. 1.00

02:08:37.800 Well, apparently doesn't suck for him. 0.99

02:08:40.420 No, just, I mean, if, there's no way that.

02:08:45.440 No, you can make a girl come. 1.00

02:08:46.520 But if someone doesn't have.

02:08:47.900 Wait, are you saying this doesn't exist?

02:08:50.260 The only way a girl can come is through head. 1.00

02:08:52.880 There's definitely men out there who, the only way they can come is through head, so.

02:09:00.020 Okay, no, no, no, it's not cap, it's not cap, but there's probably guys who say that, but

02:09:04.620 it's cap.

02:09:05.200 They just want.

02:09:06.640 I've seen it.

02:09:07.720 Like.

02:09:08.140 Someone who can only finish by.

02:09:09.960 Well, actually.

02:09:10.360 No, it exists, but like, I.

02:09:12.320 That's grip.

02:09:12.960 But there's probably some guys who say they can only come from head, but they might be 1.00

02:09:19.240 lying about that shit. 1.00

02:09:20.280 No, I've experienced it. 1.00

02:09:22.220 Wait, question, but were you fucking wrong? 0.97

02:09:23.700 Okay, well, no. 0.97

02:09:26.260 They said so first of all.

02:09:27.620 Well, I'm just saying, because like, with a condom, yeah, that it's kind of, it can be

02:09:32.020 tough to come with a condom. 0.83

02:09:33.200 Okay, yeah, all right, I'll bite. 0.98

02:09:36.320 So, under those circumstances, yeah, maybe you can only come from head.

02:09:42.840 Okay, yeah, that makes sense.

02:09:44.540 Okay, well, I don't know.

02:09:46.440 But I will say that when, you know, it's a long time ago, but he would come really quick

02:09:52.840 by being jacked off, and that was like a red flag to me.

02:09:56.200 From just a hand job?

02:09:57.620 That was like, yeah.

02:09:58.400 Wait, just a hand job?

02:09:59.820 Yeah. 1.00

02:10:00.260 I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper than get a hand job. 1.00

02:10:04.900 It worked for him. 1.00

02:10:06.360 I'd rather not do anything than get a hand job from a woman. 1.00

02:10:09.140 Like, we've had, you know.

02:10:10.600 Or men, for that matter.

02:10:11.840 I bet men can make you feel some type of way.

02:10:15.240 No, just like, wait, chat.

02:10:16.660 Nick, can you scroll down the chat?

02:10:18.680 Yo, chat, would you rather, like, if the option with a girl, let's say you're hanging 0.99

02:10:22.300 out with a girl, and she's like, I'll give you a hand job. 1.00

02:10:26.380 Wouldn't you rather just not get the hand job?

02:10:28.840 Do you know what I mean?

02:10:29.380 Chat, do you know what I mean?

02:10:30.460 Hand jobs are lit.

02:10:31.480 You'd rather just not get the hand job.

02:10:32.860 This was foreplay.

02:10:33.420 I really doubt that Brian, Ellen, I don't know.

02:10:35.500 Nick, can you try and get a hand job?

02:10:36.480 No, bad paper.

02:10:37.540 Sure, Brian.

02:10:39.240 Wait, chat, do you agree?

02:10:40.560 Chat, do you agree?

02:10:41.460 I don't think chat's going to agree.

02:10:42.120 Depends on the circumstances.

02:10:43.960 No.

02:10:44.800 Nope.

02:10:45.140 I can't do the hand job to myself.

02:10:46.700 It's very 50-50, I think.

02:10:47.520 I'm going to sleep.

02:10:48.180 I'll take it.

02:10:49.280 No.

02:10:50.620 Yes, I love it.

02:10:52.020 No.

02:10:52.460 Will you take it handy, or will you double it and give it to the next person?

02:10:55.320 Yo, chat, chat, chat, chat.

02:10:58.400 Double it.

02:10:58.900 Hold on, chat. 0.98

02:11:00.360 Okay, so if the, holy shit, what? 0.97

02:11:03.040 This is a very contentious one. 0.97

02:11:04.280 Is it, wait, chat, is it look really blue?

02:11:08.280 We did some adjustments with the lights, and I think, chat, one in the chat if it looks blue.

02:11:12.840 Okay, when it comes to the hand job thing, here's the option.

02:11:16.280 Your chick will give you a hand job. 1.00

02:11:18.200 No lube. 0.99

02:11:19.320 Or no hand job.

02:11:20.920 No lube.

02:11:22.160 Can she spit? 1.00

02:11:23.220 Yeah. 1.00

02:11:23.700 Why the fuck? 1.00

02:11:24.480 Why not just give you a blow job? 1.00

02:11:25.880 Why would it be dry, though? 1.00

02:11:27.440 Because you can get STDs in the throat.

02:11:30.520 You can get STDs in the throat.

02:11:33.080 Because excrements will lube it. 0.98

02:11:34.580 But you can't from a handy. 0.91

02:11:36.820 You're just going to be spitting?

02:11:39.440 And you, no, no, no. 0.99

02:11:40.340 Just lick it, lick it. 0.98

02:11:41.340 But like, not full on.

02:11:43.460 What if there's no lube prepared?

02:11:45.420 So it's like, it's just going to be a dry.

02:11:46.740 Then you're not going to do dry.

02:11:47.780 I'm sorry, you don't have any lotion in your house.

02:11:50.240 Any unscented lotion.

02:11:51.820 No, no, no. 1.00

02:11:52.000 You can't just use, like, Neutrogena on your fucking dick. 1.00

02:11:56.580 You need sex. 1.00

02:11:57.860 I'm sure everyone in chat does. 1.00

02:11:59.200 No, no, no.

02:11:59.640 You'll get a UTI.

02:12:00.740 In chat, can you do a lotion? 0.99

02:12:02.540 Why are you tracking off Martin Shkreli with some fucking Neutrogena? 0.99

02:12:06.680 I never did. 0.99

02:12:07.820 I never did.

02:12:08.820 I never lied.

02:12:09.260 It looks so smooth.

02:12:10.220 The lies.

02:12:11.520 Exfoliated.

02:12:11.800 The lies ain't told right now.

02:12:13.620 Just not the tip.

02:12:14.680 Just not the tip, right?

02:12:16.020 Like, you can do the shower.

02:12:17.120 Just bath and body works, okay? 0.99

02:12:19.120 And the balls. 0.99

02:12:19.320 No, no, no. 1.00

02:12:20.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

02:12:20.900 Yeah, the balls. 1.00

02:12:21.340 No, but, but, like, you, okay, obviously if it's a dry handy, which, why the fuck would 1.00

02:12:27.740 you even do that? 0.97

02:12:28.840 Okay, dry handy you yourself or dry handy by a girl? 0.77

02:12:34.280 Dry.

02:12:35.400 Both.

02:12:37.100 I'll tell you what.

02:12:38.020 I will accept a dry handy from a cello player.

02:12:42.020 Like, a virtuoso cello or violin. 0.99

02:12:44.120 Otherwise, these normal women out here who don't have fucking symphony experience don't 1.00

02:12:49.880 have the necessary, the requisite technique to do a proper fucking hand job. 1.00

02:12:55.580 Yeah, have you got, like, strings on your dick? 1.00

02:12:57.620 Like, you gotta have someone that, like, no, bro, bro, bro. 0.99

02:12:59.780 It's just like, have you seen, yo, put, Nick, pull up a video of Yo-Yo Ma.

02:13:05.340 I want box. 0.89

02:13:06.060 Oh, Brian DeMintis crush.

02:13:08.280 No, no, actually, it's probably copyright.

02:13:11.320 Box cello suite, number one. 1.00

02:13:13.720 Bro, pull up a chick doing that shit. 1.00

02:13:15.360 They got the fucking, they know how to do that shit. 1.00

02:13:17.680 Okay, okay, okay. 1.00

02:13:18.540 I'm sorry.

02:13:18.920 No, even cello players are sexualized. 0.99

02:13:20.600 I had some caffeine.

02:13:21.340 Just kidding.

02:13:22.160 No, okay.

02:13:23.740 Just the shaft, though.

02:13:25.120 Because obviously if it's dry, you can't, these girls be trying to, like, go over the 1.00

02:13:28.620 head and shit when it's dry. 0.99

02:13:29.640 You can't do that. 1.00

02:13:30.420 It hurts.

02:13:31.160 It's strangling it, yeah.

02:13:32.520 Do you not have, like, do you not have any, like, natural fluids?

02:13:35.880 Like, this is, like, a normal thing.

02:13:36.680 They do.

02:13:37.320 Wait, what?

02:13:38.000 What?

02:13:38.680 But, like, you don't have free foam.

02:13:40.400 Like, I'm sorry.

02:13:41.280 Wait, natural fluids?

02:13:42.140 There's a lot.

02:13:43.140 Oh.

02:13:43.560 Don't, don't, don't pull up the video.

02:13:45.540 What?

02:13:45.860 Yeah.

02:13:47.120 If I'm crazy, like.

02:13:49.320 Wait, what?

02:13:50.260 Oh, only Mark has.

02:13:51.160 Here, wait, wait.

02:13:51.640 Actually, here's what we're going to do.

02:13:53.380 Nick, I need you a YouTube video box cello suite, number one, by a woman, but we can't 0.99

02:13:59.440 play the audio.

02:14:00.440 Brian likes calistans.

02:14:02.300 Actually, wait, never mind.

02:14:03.200 Never mind.

02:14:03.580 Have better fantasy.

02:14:04.020 That's a terrible idea.

02:14:04.780 He just wants it, like, on silent. 1.00

02:14:06.140 Yeah, shut the fuck up. 1.00

02:14:07.760 Let's just watch. 0.99

02:14:09.940 I think it's still probably Mike at a copyright, so I just, let's not do it, because even the

02:14:14.460 video might.

02:14:15.000 Oh, even the image could be?

02:14:16.000 Even the video, yeah.

02:14:17.060 Isn't this, like, fair use?

02:14:18.300 We're, like, educationally analyzing the hand movements.

02:14:22.540 Yes.

02:14:22.980 Yeah.

02:14:23.780 It's a little on the fence, and I'd rather not risk it, unfortunately.

02:14:27.880 It's too ahead of its time.

02:14:29.840 Yeah, so deal breaker for you, if the guy doesn't want to go down on you?

02:14:34.820 If he just first, like, off the bat says, like, oh, I don't do that.

02:14:38.440 I feel like it's really childish, and, like...

02:14:40.280 No, it's not childish.

02:14:42.080 I think it is.

02:14:43.680 No, that's grown up.

02:14:44.160 Like, what's the reason not?

02:14:45.680 What's the reason for not?

02:14:46.820 Like, you're not with me for no reason.

02:14:48.640 Like, you know.

02:14:49.740 I just don't like looking at it.

02:14:52.260 Whoa.

02:14:52.840 I just don't, like...

02:14:54.520 I don't agree with that.

02:14:55.580 I like to look.

02:14:56.840 I'm a fan of looking.

02:14:58.320 I will look.

02:14:59.360 Was he gay?

02:15:00.100 I don't know.

02:15:01.220 Oh, that's interesting.

02:15:02.280 I just processed that. 0.94

02:15:03.460 Yo, big labia matter in the chat. 0.95

02:15:06.440 Big labia matter in the chat. 0.89

02:15:07.720 What?

02:15:08.940 Wait, what?

02:15:09.520 Huh?

02:15:09.760 Exactly.

02:15:10.120 He's saying big labia matter. 0.92

02:15:12.140 He likes it to look like a box of cow tongues. 0.84

02:15:15.380 Like, he wants it to just, like...

02:15:17.140 I will not...

02:15:17.780 Hold on.

02:15:18.620 Lauren, I am offended on behalf of women with large labias. 1.00

02:15:23.200 I will not stand for you... 0.94

02:15:25.080 Are you saying cow tongues are ugly? 1.00

02:15:26.800 I will not stand for you shaming the natural way in which some women, some women's pussies 1.00

02:15:33.500 are. 1.00

02:15:33.860 I will not stand for it.

02:15:35.420 I demand an apology to all the women out there. 1.00

02:15:39.680 All pussies are beautiful. 1.00

02:15:41.100 Yes, yes. 1.00

02:15:41.760 That's true.

02:15:42.220 I'm sorry to Brian's mom.

02:15:43.920 BLM. 0.71

02:15:44.400 Big labia matter. 1.00

02:15:45.260 Yeah, big labia matter. 1.00

02:15:46.640 Big labia matter. 1.00

02:15:47.880 Just kidding.

02:15:48.780 BLM, for short. 0.97

02:15:49.960 Okay.

02:15:50.340 You just touched that.

02:15:51.440 I guess not.

02:15:53.340 Wait, what?

02:15:54.340 You missed it.

02:15:55.360 You apologized to my what?

02:15:57.200 To all the lovely ladies out there.

02:16:00.540 What?

02:16:00.940 Yeah.

02:16:01.300 I mean, it's just... 0.97

02:16:02.460 She said extra fat labias. 0.98

02:16:04.260 Yeah. 0.89

02:16:04.540 She said you're a mom.

02:16:06.100 I'm a bum?

02:16:07.000 Yes, that's what I said.

02:16:09.240 Your mom.

02:16:10.140 A big apologies to your mother.

02:16:12.260 Speaking of mothers, Lauren, is your mom single? 0.94

02:16:15.400 Because...

02:16:15.960 Oh, he's into milk.

02:16:17.520 He has some milk thing.

02:16:18.920 I think I do have a milk thing.

02:16:19.860 She's married to my dad, and they get along swiftly.

02:16:24.000 Beautiful.

02:16:24.440 I would love to just get in there.

02:16:26.320 Well, can you...

02:16:26.900 We'd love to be a home worker. 1.00

02:16:27.820 Fuck that relationship. 1.00

02:16:28.580 Ryan, can you tell us... 1.00

02:16:29.780 You've never told us why you like the large labia.

02:16:32.500 Like, what...

02:16:33.240 Like, speak it out loud.

02:16:34.840 Say it.

02:16:35.620 Okay.

02:16:36.040 Why do you like it? 1.00

02:16:36.420 Do you want me to actually articulate this shit? 1.00

02:16:38.040 Yes, articulate it in words. 1.00

02:16:39.500 Go.

02:16:39.860 First off, if they have an Audi, right?

02:16:42.700 Oh, my God.

02:16:43.160 It, like, grips...

02:16:45.660 Lips...

02:16:46.160 Lips that grip.

02:16:47.000 And lips.

02:16:47.840 Lips that grip. 1.00

02:16:48.760 It grips the dick. 1.00

02:16:50.320 The grip gets dicked. 1.00

02:16:51.780 Wait, what? 1.00

02:16:52.460 The dick gets gripped. 1.00

02:16:54.740 The grip gets dicked. 1.00

02:16:56.920 It's...

02:16:57.500 It's...

02:16:57.800 This next one is hard.

02:16:59.960 It's really bold.

02:17:00.840 We need more men like you, though, because all these women are getting surgeries. 1.00

02:17:04.440 They have more, like, porn star standard lips. 0.91

02:17:09.160 And... 0.63

02:17:09.320 And there's a lot of men that like...

02:17:11.440 Yeah, and that's great. 0.99

02:17:13.500 Giant labia. 0.98

02:17:14.400 Hook it up. 0.96

02:17:15.300 But...

02:17:15.660 No, it's like 10,000 a year women in the United States get labiaplasty, where they get their... 1.00

02:17:21.760 Basically get their genitals mutilated. 0.73

02:17:25.340 And it's very unfortunate. 0.99

02:17:26.500 Ladies, if there's any ladies watching who feel self-conscious about their large labia, 1.00

02:17:30.640 I will talk you out of getting a labiaplasty, my DMs are open.

02:17:34.940 Okay. 0.64

02:17:34.980 I wonder if there's any trans people who are like, give me a big one. 1.00

02:17:38.520 Oh. 1.00

02:17:39.200 Big labia. 0.98

02:17:39.900 That would be hard. 0.96

02:17:40.740 That would be hard to do, though.

02:17:42.420 That would be hard to do, right?

02:17:44.400 I don't know.

02:17:44.740 Is it?

02:17:45.180 You laugh, and then you're like, wait a second.

02:17:48.660 Okay.

02:17:49.200 Thought about it.

02:17:50.060 Wait.

02:17:50.240 You get to make it however you want, right?

02:17:52.500 Wait, you wanted me to articulate why?

02:17:54.740 You just did.

02:17:55.560 You did.

02:17:56.020 There's more.

02:17:57.000 There's more.

02:17:57.580 I want to hear it all.

02:17:58.840 He wants to go into detail now that you've asked.

02:18:00.320 It's just, it feels better.

02:18:05.540 That was so descriptive.

02:18:07.160 Thank you so much.

02:18:07.900 I don't know how to articulate.

02:18:08.220 We got that from the first thing you said.

02:18:09.960 I don't know how to articulate it, but it just kind of feels better.

02:18:13.680 You know what I mean?

02:18:14.840 You know what I'm saying?

02:18:15.660 Is she an outie or an innie? 1.00

02:18:18.360 Kiki.

02:18:18.900 Don't touch her hair.

02:18:21.300 She does not consent here.

02:18:23.720 You guys got the stuff of her face.

02:18:25.600 I got most of it all.

02:18:26.500 Good job.

02:18:27.080 Yeah.

02:18:27.200 Her lace is showing.

02:18:29.240 Fix that show.

02:18:29.960 Gross.

02:18:31.060 Ratchet. 0.99

02:18:31.780 It's not good.

02:18:32.520 It's not good.

02:18:32.980 I'm confused. 0.99

02:18:33.240 Is this like a mannequin or like a sex doll? 0.95

02:18:35.300 What is it? 0.99

02:18:36.620 It's a woman of the night. 0.80

02:18:38.060 What happened to her knees? 0.64

02:18:38.800 A woman of the night.

02:18:39.460 Wait, because she's dark?

02:18:40.940 What?

02:18:41.480 No.

02:18:41.920 No, a woman of the night is a... 1.00

02:18:44.540 I'm kidding.

02:18:46.180 It's not actually an exact...

02:18:47.960 Well, a woman of the night would be like a courtesan. 1.00

02:18:51.180 Do you have like a little red light for her to flash in the window? 1.00

02:18:55.000 No.

02:18:55.460 And scare everyone?

02:18:56.520 No.

02:18:57.800 Like demon.

02:18:59.360 No, that's like to signify that you're working.

02:19:02.300 I wouldn't get with her because it's just like, you know, what's the point?

02:19:06.620 It's unprofessional.

02:19:07.740 You know, she's your co-worker.

02:19:08.900 You have a problem with colored-haired women? 1.00

02:19:11.180 Huh?

02:19:11.520 Is that it?

02:19:12.360 Because her hair is blue? 0.98

02:19:13.300 No, he loves colored-haired women. 1.00

02:19:15.480 No, we actually talked about this last show.

02:19:18.020 From a purely aesthetic point of view, I actually like women who have either like, say, red hair, 1.00

02:19:24.700 like dyed white hair.

02:19:27.260 Oh, you like the eccentric type of women. 1.00

02:19:30.100 I like blue, not green, not so much.

02:19:32.680 You like the female destiny. 0.94

02:19:34.320 You like the female destiny. 0.94

02:19:35.900 He likes the destiny, general.

02:19:37.840 Let me finish my point.

02:19:38.900 He just likes destiny, general.

02:19:40.080 Blue, pink, red, and like, uh, what?

02:19:46.140 Like, uh.

02:19:46.440 He looked that blacky. 1.00

02:19:48.100 Yeah, I was like, ooh. 0.96

02:19:49.260 Maybe like a little more white.

02:19:51.600 What about my mom?

02:19:52.120 It's a little faded, I think.

02:19:53.100 What?

02:19:55.180 Platinum blonde.

02:19:55.820 Like super platinum blonde.

02:19:57.020 I get you.

02:19:57.500 You're already cheating on her mom with her. 1.00

02:20:00.300 You're just cheating on my mom. 1.00

02:20:01.340 What's that movie producer?

02:20:03.500 Woody Allen.

02:20:04.540 What's her mom's name?

02:20:04.820 Yeah, your Woody Allen 2.0.

02:20:06.640 Oh, maybe you shouldn't share that.

02:20:07.680 Yeah, I don't, I don't know about that.

02:20:09.540 Maybe after, maybe after.

02:20:10.620 But here's the thing.

02:20:11.240 When it comes to the hair, aesthetically, I like it.

02:20:13.440 However, it is associated now.

02:20:15.660 There's a pretty strong correlation with if you have color in your hair, you're like

02:20:18.980 a woke, super, super liberal, social justice warrior person.

02:20:25.380 Whereas in the past, like you're probably, it just meant you were like, if you had.

02:20:29.640 You were alternative.

02:20:30.420 Yeah, if you were seen.

02:20:31.800 If you had, if you had color.

02:20:33.700 You're RAR XD.

02:20:34.920 Very hot topic.

02:20:35.840 If you had color in your hair like 10 years ago, it meant that you, it might not have anything

02:20:40.480 to do with your politics.

02:20:41.240 You could be apolitical, just have color in your hair, and you were like into rock, alt-rock,

02:20:46.300 or had daddy issues.

02:20:47.260 Yeah, when I went here in college, I had blue hair just all the time.

02:20:50.700 And then I dyed it back.

02:20:51.660 So true.

02:20:52.320 Inprofessional.

02:20:52.960 Yeah.

02:20:53.260 I have beef with liberals over that.

02:20:54.940 Like, you guys ruined cool colored hair.

02:20:57.320 They took it.

02:20:58.260 Like, no, they ruined it.

02:20:59.600 They made it. 1.00

02:21:00.260 They fucking ruined it. 0.99

02:21:01.960 They actually know, because like now as a conservative, when you have colored hair, it really makes 0.99

02:21:06.980 you stand out.

02:21:07.580 Like, I had purple hair in law school, and then I'd be like super hard.

02:21:12.400 Like, pro.

02:21:13.460 They thought I was trolling as a conservative, because I'd like come into con law class being 1.00

02:21:18.840 like, fuck Roe v. Wade, that's bad law. 1.00

02:21:21.720 I'll wait for it to go overturned, bitches, and then when it, like, got overturned. 1.00

02:21:25.500 And he had purple hair. 0.98

02:21:26.160 I can't even picture that.

02:21:26.280 And he had purple hair, yeah.

02:21:28.500 That's so funny.

02:21:29.960 Okay, Piximus Maximus, I have a question for you.

02:21:34.160 Wait, oh, actually, before that, deal breaker for the guy who won't go down on you?

02:21:40.380 Not a deal breaker.

02:21:42.900 But disappointed.

02:21:44.080 You're not mad, you're just disappointed.

02:21:46.360 I feel like he doesn't care about me.

02:21:49.160 Like, enough.

02:21:50.220 Amy, what about you?

02:21:51.160 It's not a deal breaker for me.

02:21:52.800 I think where it would be a deal breaker, I think for a lot of women, they don't give 1.00

02:21:56.900 head because they fucking love it, because they salviate at the concept of being able 1.00

02:22:02.060 to suck a fat one, right? 1.00

02:22:04.640 It's because they want to pleasure their partner. 1.00

02:22:06.720 They want to pleasure their partner.

02:22:07.900 They want to see their partner gratified.

02:22:09.620 And so if a man, if you're not doing it for the love of being a throat goblin, right, 0.72

02:22:14.440 and you just want to pleasure your partner, and that is not replicated.

02:22:19.140 Oh, it's muted, Nick, it's muted.

02:22:20.280 There isn't a symbiotic relationship in that sense, and yes, I would have a problem with

02:22:24.100 that, right?

02:22:24.920 I'm muted, Nick.

02:22:25.640 If it wasn't on that type of a level, then it would be fine.

02:22:28.100 Have I been muted sometime?

02:22:29.400 No, no, no.

02:22:29.800 Oh, the sound box.

02:22:30.020 Just the soundboard was muted.

02:22:31.860 Oh, bummer.

02:22:31.880 Yeah.

02:22:32.640 So, I mean, if she's a throat goblin prior, then yes. 0.98

02:22:37.540 I disagree.

02:22:39.260 However, if she's just doing it purely because she wants to pleasure her man and make him 0.99

02:22:44.020 happy, and he's not willing to reciprocate that, then I would have a problem with that.

02:22:48.640 I think that was fair.

02:22:53.820 Wait, what?

02:22:55.340 I think that was fair.

02:22:56.900 I don't know.

02:22:57.380 I just checked out that throat goblin.

02:23:00.600 That's all I heard.

02:23:01.660 Now he's fantasizing.

02:23:02.820 But, like, have you ever had a girl say that she wouldn't date you because you wouldn't

02:23:08.860 go down on her?

02:23:10.720 I don't think I've encountered it.

02:23:13.100 It's possible, though.

02:23:14.800 It's possible.

02:23:15.740 So you don't?

02:23:16.440 Yeah, do you, are you worried that any of your exes are like, and, not only that, not 0.98

02:23:21.480 only would he wear the same stupid flannel to all of our nice dates, but he also, he 0.98

02:23:27.820 also would not go down on me, and he'd be like, oh! 0.99

02:23:31.120 And, like, if he would ask for it all the time, like, do you worry that that's what

02:23:35.140 your exes are saying behind your back?

02:23:36.380 That they're telling, well, I think, on a serious note, I think it would be, I mean,

02:23:43.100 besides the fact that I've already disclosed this publicly, I do think it would be in bad 0.98

02:23:47.220 taste to, like, disclose, well, man, women do that shit anyways, to disclose, like, private 1.00

02:23:53.980 sexual details about a partner. 0.99

02:23:56.700 I believe that there ought to be certain things that you have discretion about when it comes

02:24:01.060 to current partners and past partners, but would it bother me if she was like, yeah, 1.00

02:24:06.500 he doesn't eat pussy? 1.00

02:24:07.300 No. 1.00

02:24:08.540 Do you think that's, like, one of their major complaints, though?

02:24:11.040 No.

02:24:11.780 No.

02:24:12.960 Most of, I'd say most of the women that I end up, there's definitely women out there 1.00

02:24:16.300 that, I mean, I don't know if there's any girls here at the table, but some women actually 1.00

02:24:20.800 don't like it.

02:24:22.120 Wait, how much do you care?

02:24:23.500 I don't like it.

02:24:23.600 How much do you care?

02:24:24.880 Most women know this. 1.00

02:24:25.680 Like, it's not my favorite thing, but it's considerate.

02:24:28.040 She is a keeper.

02:24:29.080 Wait, but all other stuff, though.

02:24:30.820 How much do you care?

02:24:32.120 Whoa, whoa, whoa, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

02:24:33.180 Let's dive deep into this here.

02:24:34.580 What are we talking about here?

02:24:35.740 What kind of, you want to peg the dude?

02:24:37.700 What?

02:24:38.240 No.

02:24:38.620 Because I'm not down for that.

02:24:39.660 Like, you don't have to go down on me, but you have to choke me. 0.99

02:24:43.020 What?

02:24:44.580 Huh?

02:24:44.940 Oh, she's got her kinks. 1.00

02:24:48.300 Like, when we're talking choke, are we talking just a hand on the throat, or are we talking

02:24:53.020 you want to be suffocated?

02:24:55.800 You want to see God.

02:24:56.680 I think all the way.

02:24:58.200 Yeah.

02:24:58.500 It's a real goblin.

02:24:59.840 I can't.

02:25:00.120 It's a real goblin.

02:25:01.380 It's a real goblin right there.

02:25:03.680 She gives the throat, and she doesn't want to be choked, but she doesn't care about that. 0.82

02:25:07.800 That's like, you know, you need to compromise.

02:25:09.980 You can compromise.

02:25:10.880 Wait, I have a question for you.

02:25:12.100 First on whatever podcast, then on first 48.

02:25:14.940 I have a question for you on the whole choking thing.

02:25:18.480 Was it something that you either saw in porn, or was it something that one partner, you

02:25:26.420 didn't know you liked it, but a partner did it, and then you're like, ooh, I kind of like

02:25:29.680 that.

02:25:30.380 How did you discover that you like to be choked?

02:25:34.080 I think there's many ways, whether it's movies or animes or partners.

02:25:39.960 What was it for you?

02:25:40.680 What was it for you?

02:25:42.100 I think I've always had been. 1.00

02:25:42.920 They do that shit in anime? 1.00

02:25:43.880 Like, I've had fantasies before. 1.00

02:25:44.880 Were you watching hentai?

02:25:47.620 Choked by an octopus.

02:25:49.980 Since I was like 12, 13?

02:25:53.360 Oh, this is going to be 12, maybe?

02:25:55.740 13.

02:25:57.720 Wait, what's the volume at, Nick?

02:25:59.180 It sounds kind of low.

02:26:00.480 I don't know.

02:26:00.900 Oh, no, it's okay.

02:26:02.940 That's a yikes.

02:26:03.840 So, choking, how did you, was it a dude that introduced you, or you read Fifty Shades of

02:26:11.620 Grey, or what was it?

02:26:13.120 That was uncomfortable.

02:26:14.440 There's books.

02:26:14.940 There's movies.

02:26:15.660 There's actually, definitely previous partners, too.

02:26:18.940 Have you ever passed out?

02:26:20.600 Um, I would like to, but no.

02:26:23.980 I have.

02:26:24.760 It scared me.

02:26:26.080 I didn't like that.

02:26:26.500 My recommendation to men is, if she just wants, like, a hand on the neck and you do a little 0.98

02:26:33.360 squeeze and it's a pretty token choke, do it. 0.97

02:26:36.480 If she wants to be choked the fuck out, make sure you, uh, have your lawyer ready to go. 1.00

02:26:44.300 Is it just choking, or is it spanking? 0.99

02:26:46.640 It's everything.

02:26:47.820 Yeah. 1.00

02:26:48.380 Do you ever like to dumb, or are you just dumb? 1.00

02:26:50.360 Um, kind of a switch. 1.00

02:26:51.720 I can do both.

02:26:52.560 Yeah.

02:26:53.000 So, like, in your house, do you own, like, handcuffs, whips, all of that sort of stuff?

02:26:58.460 You got a dungeon.

02:26:59.520 Yes, I do.

02:27:00.680 You have a dungeon?

02:27:01.780 Not, like, a dungeon, but, you know, like, a little drawer.

02:27:04.400 Jesus. 0.99

02:27:04.760 Do you have one of those sex swings? 0.95

02:27:07.320 Um, it's not, unfortunately, my place is not big enough, but maybe eventually. 0.89

02:27:11.180 One day.

02:27:11.740 Yeah.

02:27:12.000 One day.

02:27:13.060 What about being tied up?

02:27:14.080 Do you like to be tied up?

02:27:15.420 Yes, and I can tie, too.

02:27:16.960 What is it?

02:27:17.860 He, uh, what's the Japanese rope tie?

02:27:21.840 Shibari? 0.96

02:27:22.360 Shibari, yeah.

02:27:22.820 Shibari? 0.96

02:27:23.280 Okay.

02:27:24.160 All right, don't ask me why I know that.

02:27:25.440 Okay.

02:27:26.320 All right.

02:27:27.200 Um, what are we talking about?

02:27:30.340 We're talking about not deal breaker if the dude doesn't want to go down.

02:27:32.680 I'm going to ask you, like, how important is it to you to make your partner reach the O?

02:27:40.240 Okay.

02:27:41.440 Um, how important is, sorry, repeat that?

02:27:45.280 How important is it for you to make your part, to get your partner to reach the O?

02:27:49.460 Oh, to climax.

02:27:51.900 Oh, I mean, how important is it?

02:27:54.640 Yeah, like, if you, let's say you, like, you come, you're happy, you're like, okay, good to go!

02:28:00.600 Are you, or are you like, okay, I'm going to make sure she... 0.89

02:28:03.180 Sure.

02:28:04.020 So, my goal is to always have my partner, my girl come before me.

02:28:07.740 Okay.

02:28:08.160 In every instance.

02:28:10.220 So, whether...

02:28:10.740 It's a little bit more forgivable than for not going down on her.

02:28:12.980 No, no, like, I don't like to give head, but, like, I enjoy to make my partner come.

02:28:17.480 I like to make my partner come.

02:28:18.740 It turns me on if she comes.

02:28:20.260 Um, even better if it's mid-sex. 0.94

02:28:22.740 But, uh, and you can achieve that with hands, with toys.

02:28:29.360 With whips, with choking.

02:28:31.140 Not with your thing.

02:28:32.400 Not with what?

02:28:33.380 Not with your tongue, though.

02:28:34.380 You're just with hands and toys, but not with your tongue.

02:28:35.980 That's the one thing that you usually, you would hope it would be, just fire. 0.97

02:28:41.700 I mean, oh, okay, you're talking about G-spot orgasm? 0.90

02:28:44.360 So, you're saying...

02:28:44.880 I mean, for some, for some women, that's more difficult. 0.99

02:28:47.680 Yeah.

02:28:47.860 Yeah, most women are only, like... 1.00

02:28:49.400 And you gotta be, like, really, like...

02:28:51.760 Right. 1.00

02:28:52.380 If you're gonna make her fucking G-spot orgasm with your dick, but, like... 1.00

02:28:56.600 Uh, and here's the thing, though, is women's orgasm response is so much more varied than it is in men. 1.00

02:29:02.760 So, you'll have women, I've dated women, who are, like, multi-orgasmic, who can come in, like, 10 seconds, without toys, without hands, just, uh, pee in the V. 1.00

02:29:11.460 Like, insane.

02:29:13.160 Like, and they'll come, like, 10 times in a row. 1.00

02:29:16.280 And then you'll have other women, you can use the most intensive vibrator on their clit while having sex, while fucking spank, like, psychologically stimulating her, and they still can't come. 1.00

02:29:26.760 So, the orgasm response in women is super varied. 1.00

02:29:29.360 And some women, like, need very gentle pressure if it's on the clit. 1.00

02:29:32.820 Some women need, like, a bit more firm pressure. 1.00

02:29:35.800 So, there's such a...

02:29:36.900 Variety.

02:29:37.460 There's a much more variety.

02:29:39.260 What's that?

02:29:40.260 Sounds like you've had experience. 0.96

02:29:42.680 Yeah, bro, I'm, I'm, I've been fucking since I've, for a minute. 0.99

02:29:47.200 Since the fucking Bush administration, son. 0.99

02:29:49.480 And I haven't been, I, I have gone down on a girl, like, maybe... 0.99

02:29:52.960 It has occurred, but, like, it's, it's been since the Bush administration.

02:29:56.840 Do you think men's body count matters as much as women's body count?

02:30:02.000 Do I think it matters?

02:30:05.420 I, I think women care less. 1.00

02:30:07.580 I don't know if I'm answering your question by saying that, but I think women care less about body count than do men care about body count. 0.92

02:30:13.940 I think it depends on the type of woman. 1.00

02:30:15.980 I think, um, a lot of conservative traditional women. 0.98

02:30:18.680 Yeah, generally, I would agree.

02:30:21.720 Also, I think the head subject is a skill issue.

02:30:25.540 Just kidding.

02:30:25.940 Wait, is the head subject a skill issue?

02:30:29.080 Yeah, you said you only did it, like, a handful of times?

02:30:31.440 You only did a handful of times ever?

02:30:33.060 Is it because you didn't get the reward and, like, the reaction?

02:30:35.220 No, no, no, no.

02:30:35.820 No, the reward was achieved.

02:30:38.060 I just didn't really enjoy it.

02:30:40.960 It wasn't my thing.

02:30:42.040 I found out very early on.

02:30:43.540 I must have done it three times.

02:30:45.540 And I was like, yeah, I don't really like it.

02:30:47.900 That's what I'm saying.

02:30:48.620 I feel like a lot of women do it for that reason, right? 1.00

02:30:51.980 They do it because they want to pleasure their man. 0.87

02:30:54.700 They want to see him get off.

02:30:55.820 And that is their main objective in doing it.

02:30:57.600 It's not necessarily because they are...

02:31:00.260 Throat goblins.

02:31:01.260 Throat goblins, exactly.

02:31:03.060 Thank you, Lauren.

02:31:04.220 Thank you.

02:31:04.980 Exactly.

02:31:05.860 And so, what do you have to say to that, though?

02:31:07.800 Like, is it a little bit different when your woman is only giving you head because she wants to pleasure you? 0.98

02:31:13.160 And then you come to the table saying, this is not something I'm willing to do?

02:31:16.820 Are you able to see that in a different light versus a girl who's just like... 1.00

02:31:21.160 No, go ahead, go ahead.

02:31:22.960 So, there is a girl, right, in your example that you give, who is like, oh, she...

02:31:27.220 Because I don't want to give it, now she doesn't want to give it, right?

02:31:30.160 Which I agree.

02:31:31.240 That is tit for tat.

02:31:32.480 That's not very good in relationships in general.

02:31:34.840 Agreed.

02:31:34.940 But what if it is a woman who is only giving you head because she does it for your pleasure? 1.00

02:31:42.540 And she's like, I don't enjoy this, but I love to see my man get off.

02:31:46.560 And I know that this makes him really happy.

02:31:49.420 Therefore...

02:31:50.140 Well, she enjoys it because of that.

02:31:52.060 Okay, so you don't enjoy seeing your girl happy to the point that you become...

02:31:59.020 Wait, what?

02:31:59.160 So, like, women enjoy... 1.00

02:32:01.300 What Amy is trying to say, and tell me if I'm wrong,

02:32:03.940 is women will enjoy the act of giving head because they enjoy seeing their partners happy, 0.99

02:32:09.560 not necessarily the act of doing it.

02:32:11.880 But you...

02:32:13.020 Like, you hate the act so much that even if your partner's enjoying it,

02:32:18.460 it doesn't bring you joy at all.

02:32:21.520 Your pain of doing it and your neck problems supersede the joy that you get from seeing a woman get off, right? 1.00

02:32:29.100 And so, what I'm saying is maybe a woman has neck problems, back problems, whatever. 0.92

02:32:32.920 She doesn't like it, but she does it because...

02:32:36.540 My back.

02:32:37.480 Lick my arms.

02:32:38.600 And my crack.

02:32:39.320 Exactly.

02:32:40.100 So, would you see that there is a different instances versus a girl who's just like, 0.96

02:32:44.540 it's tit for tat, I'm not going to do this just because you won't do that.

02:32:48.320 You know what I mean?

02:32:49.120 Okay, so the question is, would I be upset if she was tit for tat with it?

02:32:52.740 No, a girl who isn't tit for tat, who genuinely, the only reason she was doing it is because it brings you pleasure.

02:32:59.600 That's the only reason.

02:33:00.840 Sweet.

02:33:01.520 So, why don't you do that?

02:33:03.120 Reciprocate that, and she says, okay, well, if it's non-reciprocal in that sense...

02:33:06.700 Then it's tit for tat.

02:33:08.760 Then she would be tit for tat?

02:33:09.820 No, no, it's not tit for tat.

02:33:10.600 Wait, what's the question?

02:33:11.660 What's the question?

02:33:12.660 Are you guys really that confused? 0.88

02:33:14.060 Am I being retarded? 0.74

02:33:14.700 No, no, I understand.

02:33:15.220 Yes, you are being our choice.

02:33:16.600 Why can't you enjoy it the same way she would enjoy it?

02:33:19.300 She enjoys it because it makes you happy.

02:33:21.040 Why can't you enjoy it to make her happy?

02:33:23.980 I don't really totally follow the question.

02:33:27.760 That was pretty literal.

02:33:29.880 I think that was the right question.

02:33:31.480 Jesus Christ, Jerusalem. 0.65

02:33:33.120 Chat, am I being retarded?

02:33:34.320 Okay, so there's women who say, okay, it's tit for tat. 1.00

02:33:39.060 So, if you aren't going to go down on me, I'm not going to go down on you.

02:33:43.900 And maybe they even like giving head.

02:33:45.560 They like it.

02:33:46.400 They enjoy it.

02:33:47.100 But they say, I'm not going to do it because you don't want to do it to me.

02:33:50.840 Is there a question?

02:33:51.720 Are you arriving at a question?

02:33:53.120 I'm waiting.

02:33:54.320 Yeah.

02:33:54.660 Okay, go, go, go.

02:33:55.640 Go, go, go, go.

02:33:56.140 Versus the woman who says, maybe, like, I don't enjoy giving it, but I will give it to you 0.98

02:34:01.260 because I like to see you happy.

02:34:03.100 What is the question?

02:34:04.260 Where is the question mark?

02:34:05.900 Where is the question mark?

02:34:07.240 You said that you would have a problem dating a woman like that. 0.99

02:34:10.260 There is a woman who is saying it's tit for tat.

02:34:12.620 Would you have a problem with tit for tat?

02:34:14.900 Or would you have a problem with, you know, a woman who enjoys, who's only giving it to give 0.98

02:34:19.500 you a pleasure?

02:34:20.180 Like, would you have a problem with either of them?

02:34:23.560 Would I, what?

02:34:24.320 This was not well articulated.

02:34:26.200 I don't know why.

02:34:26.980 Hold on.

02:34:27.520 Okay.

02:34:27.880 Okay.

02:34:28.320 I phrased it perfectly already.

02:34:31.540 No, you didn't.

02:34:32.280 No, you didn't.

02:34:32.880 Let me try.

02:34:33.420 No, no, no.

02:34:33.980 No, Jesus.

02:34:35.220 Okay.

02:34:35.480 Okay.

02:34:35.760 Okay.

02:34:36.020 Look, look, look, look.

02:34:36.800 She enjoys giving you head because it makes you happy. 0.98

02:34:40.380 Yes.

02:34:40.760 You get that concept?

02:34:42.240 She enjoys giving you head because it makes you happy. 0.98

02:34:44.460 Yes.

02:34:44.780 Okay.

02:34:45.140 I get that.

02:34:45.760 But you, but she doesn't actually enjoy it.

02:34:48.440 I don't, I don't want to go do it.

02:34:50.140 If she hates it, I don't want her doing it.

02:34:52.520 Even if it makes you happy.

02:34:54.280 Well, it wouldn't make him happy.

02:34:55.720 But if she hates it.

02:34:55.820 So she doesn't like the physical sensation, but she does it because it makes you happy.

02:34:59.940 She's not a throat goat. 1.00

02:35:01.140 And he, and you might not like.

02:35:02.640 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:35:03.320 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:35:04.620 I don't want an unenthusiastic BJ.

02:35:07.300 No, it's enthusiastic. 1.00

02:35:08.540 I want an enthusiastic fucking BJ. 1.00

02:35:09.140 It's enthusiastic because she knows that it like. 1.00

02:35:12.060 You're having jazz hands with your BJ?

02:35:13.640 You're having the time.

02:35:15.080 Jazz hands. 1.00

02:35:16.180 Bro, I don't want, I don't want like a, fuck, what's the word? 0.99

02:35:20.560 Jazz. 1.00

02:35:22.120 Sympathetic BJ.

02:35:22.880 Hello, princess.

02:35:23.580 Sorry, Mike. 1.00

02:35:24.600 A begrudging blowjob. 1.00

02:35:26.660 Get the fuck out of here with your begrudging blowjob. 1.00

02:35:28.360 No, no, no, she is passionate because it makes you happy. 1.00

02:35:31.540 But then she also wants head because it will make her happy even if the feeling is neutral.

02:35:37.800 Check out this vibrator I got, babe.

02:35:39.040 Too negative.

02:35:40.040 I guess, yeah, that's a good solution, right?

02:35:41.560 Check out my index finger.

02:35:42.400 What's up?

02:35:43.680 I got you, babe.

02:35:44.640 You can check out her vibrator and index finger. 0.78

02:35:47.500 Bro, what, is she going to bust out a fleshlight? 1.00

02:35:49.060 Yeah, yeah, what if she did that?

02:35:50.640 What if, yeah, she busts out a fleshlight. 1.00

02:35:52.620 She's like, oh, here, baby.

02:35:53.900 They're even more advanced for men.

02:35:55.200 I've seen some of these like mechanical fleshlight things.

02:35:57.780 Like spinny things?

02:35:58.820 They're wild.

02:35:59.740 And they don't have that for women. 1.00

02:36:02.120 And one of the prostate.

02:36:04.460 My point is that it's different.

02:36:06.060 It's a difference between a woman who's like, oh, you don't want to go down on me? 1.00

02:36:08.740 Fuck you. 1.00

02:36:09.080 I'm never going down on you. 1.00

02:36:10.200 Versus a woman who likes it, who would do that anyway. 1.00

02:36:13.720 Right?

02:36:14.040 Or a woman who says, I would never do that, but I'm just doing it to pleasure you. 0.86

02:36:18.300 And then you're not reciprocating back.

02:36:20.040 It's a difference.

02:36:21.340 I think it's a difference.

02:36:23.560 Sure.

02:36:24.160 I guess.

02:36:25.040 Okay.

02:36:25.420 Is it a deal breaker for you if a woman doesn't give head? 1.00

02:36:28.540 Huh?

02:36:28.760 Is it a deal breaker for you?

02:36:30.360 No, it's not.

02:36:31.140 It's not a deal breaker, but she's a little less appealing.

02:36:39.220 A little less appealing.

02:36:40.660 Fair.

02:36:40.740 Fair.

02:36:41.220 Although, honestly, you know what?

02:36:42.640 Besides, actually, wait.

02:36:43.880 There was one relationship I had, and it was actually a good relationship.

02:36:49.040 It was actually good.

02:36:50.780 Where she did make it tit for tat.

02:36:53.740 She was like, well, you don't want to do it.

02:36:55.780 I'm not going to do it.

02:36:57.300 And this was when I was younger.

02:37:01.040 So I would have probably, because here's the thing.

02:37:04.140 I think that you can, just because your partner doesn't want to engage in a certain sexual activity 0.99

02:37:10.740 doesn't mean that you necessarily have to be like, oh, so I'm not going to do that shit for you. 0.98

02:37:17.840 Like, I don't think, like Amy said, I don't think it has to be tit for tat. 0.99

02:37:22.480 But I did have a relationship with a girl like that. 1.00

02:37:26.740 And fell apart with tit for tat for other things?

02:37:30.620 So what if you found out?

02:37:31.840 What if she said to you?

02:37:32.760 Hold on.

02:37:33.000 Let me just finish really quick.

02:37:34.060 So, but I mean, we were having, we were just having sex instead.

02:37:39.840 So it wasn't a relationship?

02:37:42.020 It was just sex?

02:37:43.060 No, we had a relationship, but just she wasn't going down on me.

02:37:47.000 I wasn't going down on her.

02:37:48.260 But I'd say the most of my other relationships, I don't go down on the girl.

02:37:53.300 She goes down on me. 1.00

02:37:55.340 Good for you.

02:37:57.040 And you use tit, you use, yeah, you still make them finish and everything?

02:38:01.560 Yeah.

02:38:02.100 Sometimes I make them come before they even go down on me.

02:38:04.380 That's the least you can do.

02:38:05.420 Oh, okay.

02:38:06.160 Yeah, no, no, that's great.

02:38:07.140 I've already said that.

02:38:07.560 Yeah, that's fine.

02:38:08.200 I was trying to make the girl come before me. 0.93

02:38:10.700 That's good.

02:38:11.680 Acceptable.

02:38:12.320 Yeah.

02:38:13.420 Acceptable.

02:38:13.740 Yeah, bro.

02:38:15.260 It's not taste very nice for her.

02:38:17.200 Wait, taste very nice?

02:38:18.460 Never mind.

02:38:18.580 No, I make her, I don't come. 1.00

02:38:21.320 No, no, no.

02:38:21.820 I make her come before, wait, what? 0.83

02:38:25.740 Before she puts her, so you go inside her before she puts her mouth on you? 1.00

02:38:29.560 I just don't get how you didn't get what my question, I don't get how you didn't get

02:38:33.160 what I was saying this whole time.

02:38:34.380 There was no question mark.

02:38:35.380 There was no question mark.

02:38:37.000 So you were saying you would have a problem with a woman who does that. 1.00

02:38:40.160 Does what?

02:38:41.000 Tip for tat?

02:38:41.700 Yes, correct.

02:38:42.880 But what if the only reason she was doing that was because she is just, she just wants 0.84

02:38:47.460 to see you pleasured.

02:38:48.320 It's not because she likes doing it. 1.00

02:38:49.960 She does not enjoy the dick down the throat. 1.00

02:38:52.720 She does not enjoy the mouthache. 1.00

02:38:54.040 She does not enjoy it.

02:38:55.180 Which is so much, hold on. 1.00

02:38:56.500 What is more enjoyable to do, to give head or to eat pussy? 1.00

02:39:00.780 Because you've done both. 1.00

02:39:01.760 Which one's easier?

02:39:02.760 Which one hurts your jaw less?

02:39:04.120 Which one tastes better?

02:39:05.380 Which one's nicer?

02:39:06.560 Yeah, giving head to a man. 0.99

02:39:08.300 Turn your mic.

02:39:10.080 It's kind of like, yeah, there you go.

02:39:11.840 Go ahead.

02:39:12.060 I would say giving head to a man is a lot more work because giving head to a woman is 1.00

02:39:18.360 just like simple tongue action flicking, you know, but for a man, you have to put a

02:39:22.680 whole like engorged thing inside of your mouth continuously.

02:39:26.180 It's gaped wide open and sometimes, you know, they take a while.

02:39:30.700 It depends.

02:39:31.280 So it's like, so it's not only more work and she's doing it for his pleasure and then

02:39:35.160 he's like, I'm not even going to do the easier task for your pleasure because I just

02:39:39.100 don't like it.

02:39:39.900 He doesn't like it, not even because he doesn't like it, but he can't even be like, I'm just

02:39:43.860 doing this because I want to see you happy.

02:39:45.480 Right.

02:39:45.740 Right. 1.00

02:39:46.000 That's the problem that I have with it because most women are not sucking dick because they 1.00

02:39:50.500 love to suck dick. 1.00

02:39:51.440 They're like, oh, what are they? 1.00

02:39:52.420 She should show it at home.

02:39:53.360 Well, that's why I'm just like, unless if it's even, what's it?

02:39:58.020 I mean, my ex used to tell me different. 0.96

02:39:59.420 He's like, no, girls fucking love it. 1.00

02:40:01.000 They love to suck the dick. 1.00

02:40:02.280 That's what they tell you. 1.00

02:40:03.920 That's what they say.

02:40:06.100 I know.

02:40:06.360 I had an ex like, oh no, I saw this video.

02:40:08.200 These girls like really seem to enjoy it. 1.00

02:40:10.800 The video.

02:40:11.240 They did seem to enjoy it in a video.

02:40:14.740 Like what?

02:40:15.120 I'm sure they're getting paid for that video.

02:40:17.480 They enjoy the pay for sure.

02:40:19.920 I just don't think, look, there's some things that women might not like in the bedroom.

02:40:23.900 There's some things that men might not like in the bedroom.

02:40:26.080 Ultimately, we all have our preferences when it comes to what we like and what we don't

02:40:29.200 like.

02:40:29.480 And I don't think it has to be totally reciprocal.

02:40:32.120 I don't think it has to be totally, or sorry, not reciprocal, symmetrical.

02:40:37.840 You know, I certainly, what I do find interesting though, is there seems to be a lot of pushback

02:40:42.280 when a guy doesn't want to go down on a girl. 0.99

02:40:44.920 Like it's like, oh, wow.

02:40:46.680 Oh, you must be selfish.

02:40:47.700 You must be X, Y, Z. 0.54

02:40:48.840 Because it's easy.

02:40:50.320 It's easy. 1.00

02:40:50.740 Like, it's much easier to go, as opposed to go, ah, what the fuck? 1.00

02:40:58.860 Maybe he has like a tongue deformity. 0.99

02:41:00.800 Maybe he can't like flick his tongue.

02:41:02.760 Yeah, maybe he has a short tongue. 1.00

02:41:04.680 Have you eaten pussy before? 1.00

02:41:06.760 He's basing it off of what you just heard. 1.00

02:41:08.820 Lauren, have you, do you eat pussy? 1.00

02:41:11.460 No. 1.00

02:41:12.480 That's a nonsense I've been saying.

02:41:13.900 No, I have, I have. 1.00

02:41:15.060 Wait, did y'all, wait, what the fuck? 0.99

02:41:17.660 No, I mean, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe you're discriminating against him. 0.99

02:41:23.960 I had to put in the work.

02:41:25.080 I, God, I had a feeling there was an, there was something between you two.

02:41:29.040 You guys, uh.

02:41:30.700 Yeah. 1.00

02:41:32.680 Be fucking. 1.00

02:41:33.760 Okay, all right. 1.00

02:41:34.800 In Australia, they tell you to go down under.

02:41:42.780 All right.

02:41:44.780 Okay, um.

02:41:47.660 Uh, what, I don't know how it is.

02:41:50.080 All right.

02:41:51.040 All right.

02:41:51.280 All right.

02:41:51.820 So, okay, we've been talking about something degenerate, so let's talk about something toxic

02:41:55.520 now.

02:41:56.820 Oh, wait, really quick.

02:41:57.660 I was like, also toxic.

02:41:58.600 I know.

02:41:59.320 Nick.

02:42:00.400 Pull up the Twitch, please.

02:42:03.080 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:42:05.500 Drop us a follow.

02:42:06.620 Drop us a prime sub.

02:42:07.800 If you have one, can you move it over?

02:42:10.660 Yeah, drop us a follow.

02:42:11.880 Drop us a prime sub.

02:42:12.800 Oh, power.

02:42:13.560 Thor.

02:42:13.860 Thank you for the raid earlier.

02:42:16.080 Let's see.

02:42:16.420 Preacher.

02:42:16.720 Thank you for the prime.

02:42:17.320 Night.

02:42:17.700 Think for the prime.

02:42:18.900 Rolla.

02:42:19.260 Think for the prime.

02:42:20.600 Church.

02:42:21.040 Think for the resub.

02:42:23.860 Justin Bieber.

02:42:24.580 Think for the prime.

02:42:25.280 Gascar. 0.61

02:42:25.720 Think for the tier one.

02:42:26.960 Shaggy the boomer. 0.77

02:42:27.780 Think for the prime.

02:42:28.340 Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:42:30.180 Drop us a follow in the prime sub if you have one.

02:42:32.160 Nick, can you also pull up the Twitter post from, that we got to react to?

02:42:38.360 This is one of your posts.

02:42:39.960 So, would you ever date someone with an OnlyFans? 1.00

02:42:42.860 This is a question for the chat.

02:42:45.280 Would you date a girl with an OnlyFans? 0.68

02:42:48.360 One in the chat, if you would, scroll it down.

02:42:51.840 One in the chat, would you date a girl who has an OnlyFans? 0.51

02:42:54.280 Two in the chat, you would not date a girl who has an OnlyFans. 0.95

02:42:57.820 One in the chat, if you would.

02:42:59.680 I mean, OnlyFans, also, there's like a whole spectrum.

02:43:04.540 So, there's people who only do cooking on there, or there's people who do full sex work,

02:43:09.800 or there's people who do drag, or...

02:43:11.040 I don't think that matters, though.

02:43:12.320 At the end of the day, your reputation is going to be affected regardless.

02:43:16.520 And anyone going into that career and that profession should be very aware of the label

02:43:21.640 that they're going to get, irregardless of the type of work they're doing on the platform.

02:43:24.560 Yeah, but I think a lot of people assume OnlyFans is only porn, for example.

02:43:29.340 Exactly.

02:43:29.960 And they wouldn't date someone who is doing that specifically.

02:43:33.820 But anybody who's willing to cast themselves within that same light and same shadow

02:43:37.800 is willing to cop that same reputation.

02:43:40.260 So, whether or not they're willing to do the same act, like you just said,

02:43:43.500 everyone's dumped into that same category.

02:43:45.660 Therefore, if somebody is willing, is a willing person going into that,

02:43:50.900 they know the type of ramification this is going to have on their dating prospects,

02:43:55.220 on their reputation, on everything.

02:43:56.760 So, if they still choose to go into that, engaging in it,

02:44:00.080 then they should cop the full ramifications of that,

02:44:02.820 whether or not they're doing BG contact, whether or not they're naked.

02:44:05.700 They're cooking.

02:44:06.260 Or not.

02:44:06.660 Yeah, I know.

02:44:07.220 No, but in LA, I think in LA, if someone's like, I have an OnlyFans,

02:44:10.620 people ask, like, what do you do on it?

02:44:12.220 Versus, I think, outside of LA, people are kind of like,

02:44:14.500 oh, you have an OnlyFans?

02:44:15.860 Then, like, you're for the streets.

02:44:17.660 Is that what it's like in LA specifically?

02:44:19.580 They categorize it based off whether you're...

02:44:22.820 Yeah, yeah, like what you do on OnlyFans.

02:44:24.800 On Patreon.

02:44:25.840 Do you...

02:44:26.680 Okay, what led you to OnlyFans?

02:44:28.580 Because you're a very smart girl.

02:44:29.960 You're college-educated.

02:44:31.180 You went to a very good school.

02:44:32.700 You have a very oppressive degree.

02:44:35.300 So, like, what led you to the OnlyFans route? 1.00

02:44:38.720 She said, fuck it. 0.99

02:44:40.080 No, it's like... 1.00

02:44:40.900 No, it's like a supply-demand thing.

02:44:43.480 It's kind of like if men are giving me unwanted attention anyway,

02:44:46.940 might as well monetize it kind of thing.

02:44:48.840 Are you doing something other than OnlyFans to, like, supplement your income?

02:44:53.520 Yeah, so I do real estate.

02:44:54.980 I'm a property manager, and I own several properties.

02:44:57.200 Are you worried that OnlyFans is going to hurt your real estate business at all?

02:45:04.100 No, I actually think that social media has given me a lot more opportunity

02:45:08.040 when it comes to clients, when it comes to being, like, a buyer's agent

02:45:11.940 or a seller's agent.

02:45:13.100 I can just post, like, hey, like, does anyone want to sell a house?

02:45:15.940 And people actually don't personally know that many real estate agents, surprisingly.

02:45:20.160 So I actually get more listings and more people to be my clients than before.

02:45:26.760 It'd be like, oh, yeah, my parents need to sell a house.

02:45:28.900 And it's really surprising because I never thought those would intertwine,

02:45:32.740 but it works.

02:45:33.840 I feel like whenever you have a really big following, though, irregardless,

02:45:37.720 you could put up any offer, and there's going to be people who fall through the cracks, right?

02:45:42.160 Who you're like, okay, this is my ideal client.

02:45:44.460 It just is law of averages if you have a big enough following.

02:45:47.200 But on the balance of probability, I would not deem that as, like,

02:45:50.020 an effective marketing strategy.

02:45:51.540 No, I don't think that's...

02:45:52.360 To be able to attract real estate clients, for example.

02:45:56.120 Yeah, however, I had a lot of people in my class,

02:45:58.200 so I had to go through, like, the real estate exam and everything

02:46:00.460 and go through the classes.

02:46:01.640 I would say, like, majority of my classmates, like, have not ever had a listing,

02:46:06.460 for example, or have had deals, even though they've been in the industry

02:46:10.160 for, like, a couple years.

02:46:13.600 So it's, like, only...

02:46:16.160 So because you're a sole proprietor and you have to, like,

02:46:18.340 get into your brokerage yourself, there's not, like,

02:46:21.060 oh, you get hired specifically.

02:46:23.000 You have to kind of, like, hustle your own way.

02:46:25.440 And it's all about, like, your spirit and who you know

02:46:27.420 and not even what you know.

02:46:29.440 Like, it actually is advantageous if you have a social media.

02:46:32.140 Like, ironically, like, the people who work really hard 0.96

02:46:34.280 who are really fucking smart. 0.82

02:46:35.440 For sure, your network is your net worth, 0.99

02:46:37.100 but, like, I would...

02:46:38.140 Like, I deem it questionable.

02:46:39.780 Would the people in your network deem you in a sort of light

02:46:43.240 and a certain regard?

02:46:44.280 Is that really advantageous to you long-term?

02:46:46.600 Possibly, by what you're saying,

02:46:48.020 but I think for the average person,

02:46:50.220 having that type of reputation

02:46:52.040 and the people in your network generally regard you in such a light,

02:46:55.040 like, I don't think that would be advantageous

02:46:57.060 to most business endeavors.

02:46:58.020 For the average person, at least.

02:47:00.060 What's more profitable, your real estate agent,

02:47:03.200 like, your real estate business, or your OnlyFans?

02:47:06.160 It's about even, for sure,

02:47:07.920 because I have, like, Airbnbs.

02:47:09.320 So why don't you just go all in in real estate then?

02:47:11.680 Because it's, like, an extra six figures a year.

02:47:14.240 Okay, I get it, but, sorry,

02:47:15.700 it's really hard to go all in on multiple things, right?

02:47:18.700 Could you not see yourself,

02:47:19.820 if you were put away from the OnlyFans stuff

02:47:22.700 and you just went all in on real estate,

02:47:24.720 But also, with my OnlyFans network,

02:47:26.880 all my homegirls and all my friends

02:47:29.020 also make a lot of money

02:47:30.480 who don't have the financial advice

02:47:33.200 or, like, the real estate networking connections

02:47:36.100 to help them invest in different real estate properties.

02:47:40.640 So, like, why wouldn't I tap into...

02:47:41.500 But you make six figures in real estate.

02:47:42.600 Don't you think it's a cop-out to tell women 1.00

02:47:44.320 that the only way that they can make six figures

02:47:46.560 is by literally turning themselves into a commodity

02:47:48.660 and selling their body?

02:47:49.900 I don't think that's the only way.

02:47:50.820 But you make six figures through another avenue,

02:47:53.280 and what I'm saying is,

02:47:54.640 why not go all in on that?

02:47:55.720 And you're saying, but I have friends.

02:47:57.200 They see that as their only thing.

02:47:58.920 No, it's not that their only thing.

02:48:00.500 It's just that I can help a bunch of people

02:48:02.880 who have a decent amount of income

02:48:04.260 who can purchase houses,

02:48:05.440 versus most of my nine-to-five friends

02:48:07.600 actually cannot afford homes.

02:48:09.720 So, do you actually recruit girls for OnlyFans?

02:48:13.740 And...

02:48:14.020 What do you mean?

02:48:14.720 Like...

02:48:15.020 For the referral program.

02:48:16.060 Yeah, do you...

02:48:16.620 Referral program for, like, agencies...

02:48:18.340 For OnlyFans.

02:48:18.800 Oh, for, like, OnlyFans?

02:48:20.060 Mm-hmm.

02:48:20.800 Um, I would say most people already do OnlyFans

02:48:24.420 that I know.

02:48:25.360 Like, when I started doing OnlyFans,

02:48:26.440 a lot of people already do it.

02:48:27.900 But I think occasionally, I'll be like,

02:48:30.000 yeah, like, if anyone wants to ask me questions,

02:48:32.500 like, here are the pros and cons.

02:48:34.400 Mm-hmm.

02:48:34.980 But I wouldn't be like,

02:48:36.020 yeah, this is the life indefinitely.

02:48:38.660 But so what she's asking,

02:48:39.500 so you recruit those people

02:48:40.660 into your OnlyFans business or not?

02:48:43.240 Oh, no.

02:48:43.660 I don't have a personal business or agency.

02:48:46.480 I'm just a sole proprietor

02:48:47.620 for my own OnlyFans platform.

02:48:50.320 Right.

02:48:50.980 But they have an affiliate program, right?

02:48:52.500 Where they can refer anyone

02:48:53.360 and they can make up to 5% of the commissions

02:48:55.200 of the person who they brought on.

02:48:57.360 Yeah.

02:48:57.420 Irregardless of whether you're an agency or not,

02:48:59.140 you can be an individual.

02:49:00.320 Yeah.

02:49:00.460 It's kind of like an MLM, right?

02:49:01.620 You can just send someone your sign-up link.

02:49:03.860 They sign up and...

02:49:04.760 But I think to my understanding,

02:49:05.980 what she's saying is that

02:49:07.240 there's already girls doing it 1.00

02:49:08.840 that then ask her for help

02:49:10.200 versus her seeking out other girls 1.00

02:49:12.180 and being like, oh, join OnlyFans.

02:49:14.020 Ask her for help with what?

02:49:15.800 Like, growing their own OnlyFans.

02:49:17.260 How to optimize the money.

02:49:18.400 Yeah, how do you optimize it

02:49:20.060 if you're not doing more...

02:49:22.380 Like, if you're not doing

02:49:23.100 crazier and crazier pictures,

02:49:24.960 how are you growing an audience

02:49:26.960 on OnlyFans marketing?

02:49:28.680 Marketing for your front end.

02:49:30.140 So you can do comedy skits.

02:49:32.040 You can start doing cosplay stuff.

02:49:34.140 You can go to Broadway.

02:49:35.280 You can do anything that's front end.

02:49:37.220 You can do music.

02:49:38.660 People...

02:49:39.220 As long as you have exposure,

02:49:40.720 they will fund into your OnlyFans.

02:49:41.940 You don't have to go

02:49:42.700 more and more explicit.

02:49:44.620 I think that's a misconception

02:49:45.780 that you have to go more explicit

02:49:47.540 and you have to do porn.

02:49:48.780 But it is, to a degree,

02:49:50.000 not to get people to sign up,

02:49:51.280 but the main thing with OnlyFans

02:49:52.460 is the residual income,

02:49:53.500 the fact that it's recurring.

02:49:54.560 It's month after month.

02:49:55.360 But if somebody signs up

02:49:56.460 and they're like, 1.00

02:49:56.860 oh, this bitch is literally 1.00

02:49:57.760 just dressing it as a furry. 1.00

02:49:59.240 She's dressed in cosplay.

02:50:00.460 Like, that's not going to do anything for them.

02:50:02.540 And what I see is,

02:50:04.040 especially in a society

02:50:05.040 where things are getting

02:50:05.780 more and more degenerate,

02:50:07.380 and now we're getting

02:50:07.940 the AI girlfriends.

02:50:08.920 We're getting these AI

02:50:10.160 parasocial relationships.

02:50:12.080 Things are going to get

02:50:12.760 more and more degenerate.

02:50:14.560 They're going to have to keep

02:50:15.220 pushing the envelope

02:50:16.280 and pushing the envelope

02:50:17.660 and pushing the envelope

02:50:18.600 in order to get people

02:50:19.700 to subscribe

02:50:20.560 on that, like, residual basis.

02:50:22.700 Right.

02:50:23.140 And I think that's what

02:50:24.220 she's more so talking about.

02:50:25.460 It's not about the marketing

02:50:26.320 to get people in.

02:50:27.660 Like, I know people

02:50:28.520 who've literally said,

02:50:29.500 hey, I'm launching an OnlyFans,

02:50:31.060 had a thousand people sign up

02:50:32.560 and their first picture

02:50:33.340 was a thing saying, 1.00

02:50:34.180 sucker, I got you. 0.99

02:50:35.880 Right? 0.99

02:50:36.060 It's not about that.

02:50:37.140 It's about the ability

02:50:38.340 to be able to have

02:50:39.180 that ongoing residual income,

02:50:40.820 and that is not going to happen

02:50:42.100 unless you are delivering

02:50:43.160 the content

02:50:43.740 that these people want

02:50:45.100 or expect.

02:50:46.160 Wait, now I kind of want

02:50:47.140 an OnlyFans.

02:50:48.040 That just goes like...

02:50:49.300 I mean,

02:50:51.220 there are a lot of people

02:50:51.900 who actually scale back.

02:50:53.080 Like, I actually know people

02:50:54.000 who used to be in porn,

02:50:55.340 who used to actually do,

02:50:57.920 you know,

02:50:58.240 in real life clients

02:51:00.240 and all that.

02:51:01.060 They're escorting. 0.99

02:51:01.460 So they're prostitutes, 1.00

02:51:02.440 basically. 0.98

02:51:02.980 Yeah.

02:51:03.380 I knew people 0.72

02:51:04.160 who used to be prostitutes 0.84

02:51:05.740 who just scaled back 0.67

02:51:06.700 on OnlyFans

02:51:07.260 and now they only do,

02:51:08.320 like, lingerie stuff.

02:51:09.780 And it's great

02:51:10.240 because they were able

02:51:11.020 to, like, save up

02:51:12.000 and eventually, like,

02:51:13.300 delve into something

02:51:14.140 that's legit.

02:51:14.980 I know people, like,

02:51:15.940 from all avenues

02:51:16.940 who, like, started

02:51:17.680 from OnlyFans

02:51:18.380 and then they funded

02:51:19.240 all the money

02:51:20.440 into different, like,

02:51:21.460 passions that they're into.

02:51:23.200 Like, I have a friend

02:51:24.840 who's a race car driver,

02:51:26.140 but they had an OnlyFans

02:51:27.660 for a year

02:51:28.200 before they were able

02:51:29.340 to, like,

02:51:30.620 fly themselves

02:51:31.260 to these different, like,

02:51:32.100 racetracks and stuff

02:51:33.080 like that.

02:51:33.820 And she's really open

02:51:34.820 about it, too.

02:51:35.820 But.

02:51:36.360 Yeah.

02:51:36.660 And I think that's great.

02:51:37.620 I think if you're gonna do it, 1.00

02:51:39.040 then fuck yeah. 1.00

02:51:39.800 Have an exit strategy. 1.00

02:51:41.000 Have a plan

02:51:41.620 because, number one,

02:51:42.640 your body is a depreciating asset.

02:51:45.380 And even in the realm of.

02:51:46.520 With AI?

02:51:46.740 No, even in the realm

02:51:47.620 of mils and gilfs.

02:51:49.480 Yeah, exactly.

02:51:50.500 But then somebody's

02:51:51.280 gonna make an AI of you

02:51:52.420 and you're not gonna get 0.99

02:51:53.000 paid shit for it 0.94

02:51:53.980 because they're just 0.99

02:51:54.520 gonna create something

02:51:55.260 in your likeness

02:51:56.000 or something that's

02:51:56.480 even more attractive

02:51:57.380 because, to be honest,

02:51:58.560 anyone can do that with AI.

02:51:59.520 But that's the fear.

02:52:00.660 But the money,

02:52:01.360 like, you know,

02:52:01.720 opportunity cost,

02:52:02.620 like, money is worth

02:52:03.300 way more now than later.

02:52:04.620 If you just, like,

02:52:05.520 don't optimize anything

02:52:06.660 that you have now

02:52:07.540 that you can take

02:52:08.100 advantage of,

02:52:08.760 then it's gonna pass

02:52:09.940 and then in the future

02:52:10.720 you might ask, like,

02:52:11.300 oh, what if I did that?

02:52:12.500 True.

02:52:12.920 But also, but no. 1.00

02:52:14.120 Fuck! 1.00

02:52:14.360 I agree, but mostly 1.00

02:52:15.100 with your mindset

02:52:16.360 and intellect.

02:52:17.160 I would agree,

02:52:17.840 but with your mindset

02:52:18.600 and intellect,

02:52:19.240 not with your body.

02:52:20.420 I feel like at the end

02:52:21.420 of the day,

02:52:22.200 there's two very different

02:52:23.160 types of people.

02:52:24.340 There are certain people

02:52:25.280 who believe,

02:52:26.400 who are very opportunistic

02:52:28.460 and I think it's a good thing

02:52:29.760 to be opportunistic,

02:52:30.680 but you need to have

02:52:31.500 parameters on that.

02:52:32.580 At the end of the day,

02:52:33.660 your money,

02:52:34.520 money should never cost 1.00

02:52:35.640 your fucking dignity. 0.99

02:52:36.800 That's what I believe 1.00

02:52:37.440 at the end of the day

02:52:38.120 and there's people...

02:52:39.020 But why do you think

02:52:40.140 it's undignifying?

02:52:40.980 I think it's undignifying

02:52:41.020 because I think that

02:52:41.820 at the end of the day,

02:52:42.800 your body,

02:52:43.320 your naked body 0.77

02:52:44.240 is the most intimate

02:52:45.400 you could ever be

02:52:46.340 with somebody

02:52:46.960 other than physically

02:52:48.080 doing the act with them.

02:52:50.100 And there's maybe

02:52:50.680 some people who are able

02:52:51.760 to be emotionally

02:52:52.420 detached from that,

02:52:53.740 but I would agree

02:52:54.400 that it's very rare.

02:52:55.640 And even you, Pixie,

02:52:56.560 have admitted that.

02:52:57.160 You literally said

02:52:58.040 on the podcast with me

02:52:59.300 that if you were to put 0.94

02:52:59.960 your naked body 0.93

02:53:00.640 on OnlyFans, 0.98

02:53:01.640 you'd probably be depressed,

02:53:02.800 you'd probably deal

02:53:03.300 with self-esteem issues.

02:53:04.560 Yeah, but that's also

02:53:05.620 me personally.

02:53:07.040 I know, but that is

02:53:07.740 the majority of women.

02:53:08.740 The majority of women

02:53:09.740 because of our

02:53:10.460 psychological proclivities

02:53:11.760 and our inclinations

02:53:12.960 will not feel good

02:53:14.760 about ourselves 0.70

02:53:15.540 because sexualizing yourself 0.64

02:53:17.420 nine times out of ten.

02:53:18.820 I feel like I have more agency

02:53:19.900 over sexualizing myself.

02:53:21.200 I also was in swim

02:53:22.000 my entire life,

02:53:23.180 so I was in competitive swimming.

02:53:25.580 I had personal trainers

02:53:26.320 my whole life

02:53:26.900 and I feel like

02:53:27.380 I was just in swimsuits

02:53:28.460 my entire life growing up.

02:53:31.120 And I was in the Junior Olympics

02:53:32.080 and I feel like

02:53:32.960 people sexualized me

02:53:33.920 no matter what.

02:53:35.700 And I feel like

02:53:36.500 if people did that anyway.

02:53:37.740 It's got to be different

02:53:38.300 in professional sports.

02:53:39.380 My mom was a professional swimmer. 1.00

02:53:40.880 That's very different

02:53:42.000 at the end of the day.

02:53:42.720 But people definitely

02:53:43.620 still do sexualize you. 1.00

02:53:45.100 Fuck, son. 1.00

02:53:46.020 Sorry, keep going. 1.00

02:53:46.780 Keep going.

02:53:46.920 They will in any industry

02:53:48.140 that you're a potter.

02:53:48.940 They're always going to

02:53:49.740 find a way to do that.

02:53:50.660 But I feel like

02:53:51.180 a professional swimmer,

02:53:53.220 especially at that type

02:53:54.440 of professional level,

02:53:55.480 Olympic level,

02:53:56.400 very, very different

02:53:57.440 to our OnlyFans girls.

02:53:58.860 And one of the biggest

02:53:59.560 things about sexualizing

02:54:00.860 leads to something

02:54:01.700 called objectification.

02:54:03.140 Objectification means

02:54:04.040 that you only deem yourself

02:54:06.580 as an object.

02:54:07.520 you view your value

02:54:09.680 based off your

02:54:10.300 physical appearance,

02:54:11.280 which is proven

02:54:12.500 through many,

02:54:13.860 many different studies

02:54:14.660 that that is one

02:54:15.380 of the ramifications

02:54:17.020 that come along

02:54:17.640 with sexualizing yourself 0.82

02:54:18.700 or being sexualized

02:54:19.880 by others.

02:54:20.500 I have a question for you.

02:54:21.640 So what do you think

02:54:22.800 about people who acted

02:54:24.380 in, for example,

02:54:25.560 Euphoria, HBO shows

02:54:27.440 like Game of Thrones

02:54:28.360 where...

02:54:29.000 I'm completely against

02:54:29.880 all of that.

02:54:30.380 And honestly,

02:54:30.860 I'm probably deemed

02:54:31.960 as someone who's

02:54:32.460 a little bit extra

02:54:33.260 in our society,

02:54:34.040 but I don't watch

02:54:34.780 any of that.

02:54:35.300 I don't watch,

02:54:35.780 I never watch Euphoria.

02:54:36.980 I don't listen to music

02:54:38.300 that explicitly talks

02:54:39.380 about being overly

02:54:40.260 sexualized and get...

02:54:41.520 I am very,

02:54:42.660 very intentional

02:54:43.200 about anything

02:54:44.380 that comes in here

02:54:45.500 because I know

02:54:46.160 that everything

02:54:46.620 that comes in here

02:54:47.500 determines what I speak,

02:54:48.940 what I think,

02:54:49.800 and literally

02:54:50.300 my day-to-day interaction.

02:54:51.620 So I'm really not

02:54:52.320 the person to ask

02:54:53.240 about that.

02:54:54.180 I do agree

02:54:54.920 that there are issues

02:54:55.980 with that,

02:54:56.400 but I think that's

02:54:56.980 very, very different.

02:54:58.820 That is not the slippery

02:54:59.820 slope we're talking about

02:55:01.020 in how maybe media

02:55:02.700 and music is a little bit

02:55:03.800 risque.

02:55:04.700 It's a little bit

02:55:05.180 this and that.

02:55:05.780 Versus blatantly

02:55:06.960 sexualizing yourself

02:55:08.100 on a platform.

02:55:08.740 Well, in Game of Thrones,

02:55:09.620 like the first episode,

02:55:10.840 Khaleesi, like, 0.99

02:55:11.900 you know,

02:55:12.160 is naked,

02:55:12.860 the brother touches 0.99

02:55:13.620 his boob, 0.98

02:55:14.360 her boob, 0.79

02:55:14.980 and there's a lot 0.99

02:55:16.340 of sexual things

02:55:17.040 going on.

02:55:17.620 I hate all of that.

02:55:18.860 For me personally,

02:55:19.640 I hate all of that.

02:55:20.460 I would not engage

02:55:21.160 with any of that

02:55:21.720 and I would not

02:55:22.200 let my children

02:55:22.940 ever engage.

02:55:24.020 I would be that

02:55:24.640 or your protective mom

02:55:25.580 who's like,

02:55:25.980 you don't get an iPad,

02:55:27.120 you don't get this,

02:55:28.020 you're not going

02:55:28.460 to have these things

02:55:29.280 infect your subconscious

02:55:30.460 brain before you 0.52

02:55:31.920 come to adulthood

02:55:32.600 and you're able

02:55:33.200 to determine

02:55:33.740 how to react

02:55:34.460 to those things.

02:55:35.180 But what if they

02:55:35.740 get exposed to it anyway?

02:55:37.400 And they probably

02:55:38.440 would to some degree.

02:55:39.060 They have friends

02:55:39.300 who have iPads,

02:55:40.640 they have the internet.

02:55:41.060 Absolutely, absolutely.

02:55:42.620 But I think

02:55:43.400 at the end of the day,

02:55:45.100 the standards

02:55:45.900 that you implement

02:55:46.760 in your home,

02:55:47.500 like your leadership

02:55:48.280 within your home

02:55:49.060 needs to be stronger

02:55:49.820 than the world's programming.

02:55:51.400 That's what I thoroughly believe

02:55:52.420 and I was somebody

02:55:53.280 who used to say

02:55:54.060 I didn't want to have kids.

02:55:55.600 I was strongly

02:55:56.300 of the opinion

02:55:56.760 I don't want to have kids

02:55:57.660 because I know 1.00

02:55:58.220 this world is fucked up 0.99

02:55:59.240 and I don't want my kids 1.00

02:56:00.480 to be affected by that.

02:56:01.940 But I have learned

02:56:02.920 to accept personal accountability

02:56:04.500 over the last year

02:56:05.540 to the point

02:56:06.220 where I've realized

02:56:06.960 that my parenthood,

02:56:08.480 my leadership

02:56:09.120 of my children

02:56:09.860 needs to be stronger

02:56:10.820 than the world's influence

02:56:12.000 over them.

02:56:13.240 And that's what I believe.

02:56:14.320 You're capable of doing that.

02:56:15.740 It's difficult.

02:56:16.300 Spitting.

02:56:16.900 But I believe

02:56:17.520 that it's possible.

02:56:18.800 Yeah.

02:56:19.140 I just think

02:56:19.600 you're just so

02:56:20.720 unbelievably talented

02:56:22.260 and smart 0.77

02:56:23.020 because like

02:56:23.560 being in the Junior Olympics,

02:56:25.080 that's very impressive.

02:56:26.620 I never grew taller

02:56:27.460 so I never made it

02:56:28.540 to the real Olympics.

02:56:30.320 I mean,

02:56:30.660 also you are

02:56:31.480 well endowed

02:56:32.120 so I'd imagine

02:56:32.740 that would also

02:56:33.220 be difficult

02:56:34.140 with swimming.

02:56:35.180 What are you talking about?

02:56:36.420 What do you mean

02:56:36.900 well endowed?

02:56:37.340 Well endowed?

02:56:38.440 What are you talking about?

02:56:39.780 Well endowed.

02:56:40.560 Well endowed.

02:56:41.340 I'm just kidding.

02:56:42.340 They're fake though, right? 0.99

02:56:43.800 You got fake titties? 0.94

02:56:44.740 No, they're not fake. 0.97

02:56:45.820 Yeah, they are.

02:56:46.600 They're pretty.

02:56:47.240 They're right there.

02:56:48.500 Are they real or fake?

02:56:50.640 I'd imagine

02:56:51.360 it'd be difficult

02:56:52.420 to be an athlete with.

02:56:54.080 They are.

02:56:54.620 They're right here.

02:56:56.260 I got the fake tittie vision.

02:56:58.780 Okay.

02:56:59.220 I know.

02:56:59.820 Well, either way

02:57:00.620 you're very impressive

02:57:01.520 and I just wonder

02:57:02.360 like

02:57:02.840 is there a reason

02:57:04.580 that you would choose

02:57:05.520 like do you have

02:57:06.300 some sort of affinity

02:57:07.540 to OnlyFans

02:57:08.600 and to sex work 0.96

02:57:09.780 when you have

02:57:10.380 so much other talent

02:57:11.720 that you could put out there

02:57:13.080 that other people

02:57:14.560 might find

02:57:15.220 the sex work

02:57:16.380 debasing

02:57:16.960 and also find

02:57:18.520 that sex workers 0.90

02:57:19.980 eventually find themselves

02:57:21.260 debased.

02:57:22.280 But what do you mean

02:57:23.520 by debased?

02:57:26.460 Like regretful?

02:57:27.060 Welcome to the

02:57:27.580 whatever podcast.

02:57:30.120 OnlyFans intervention.

02:57:32.300 Well, no,

02:57:33.080 I think this is

02:57:33.720 like the biggest

02:57:34.280 like difference

02:57:34.920 between like

02:57:35.280 what you guys think

02:57:35.980 and what other people think

02:57:36.960 and it's basically

02:57:37.740 not for everybody

02:57:38.860 sex work is inherently 1.00

02:57:40.040 debasing

02:57:40.560 and it is intimate

02:57:41.680 for a lot of women

02:57:42.540 but that doesn't

02:57:43.200 necessarily mean

02:57:43.960 like that sexualization

02:57:45.060 of the self

02:57:46.680 is seen as a bad thing.

02:57:48.020 It can become a bad thing.

02:57:49.340 It can become objectification

02:57:50.660 but I think a lot of people

02:57:52.000 also associate that

02:57:53.040 with a lot of other jobs

02:57:54.300 that they think

02:57:54.920 are even worse.

02:57:55.840 So for example,

02:57:57.060 McDonald's

02:57:57.720 or like doing service industries

02:57:59.040 can get very objectifying

02:58:00.860 and humiliating

02:58:01.680 very quickly.

02:58:02.520 I worked at the recs in here

02:58:04.400 so I literally

02:58:05.320 just went to the gym

02:58:06.260 earlier today at UCSB.

02:58:07.540 I had to clean up 1.00

02:58:08.300 literal human shit 1.00

02:58:09.300 and I think that was like 1.00

02:58:10.280 way more

02:58:10.960 that's the most

02:58:11.540 humiliating thing ever.

02:58:12.720 Hold on just a sec.

02:58:13.500 $99.

02:58:15.040 For Amy,

02:58:15.860 I appreciate you teaching them

02:58:17.480 that selling your body

02:58:18.520 on the internet

02:58:19.200 is not the only way

02:58:20.580 to make money

02:58:21.260 these days.

02:58:22.620 Clearly,

02:58:23.620 there are better ways

02:58:24.660 to make money

02:58:25.360 than starting

02:58:26.080 an early fans

02:58:26.940 but how does one

02:58:28.320 new RR

02:58:29.040 what the learn

02:58:29.600 of averages is?

02:58:31.580 Earn their fans.

02:58:33.020 How does one

02:58:33.900 learn

02:58:34.460 of averages?

02:58:37.420 Yeah,

02:58:38.000 I mean,

02:58:38.340 I'm not saying

02:58:38.760 it's the only way

02:58:39.480 to make income

02:58:40.020 but I think

02:58:40.520 that's another avenue

02:58:41.420 that I want to

02:58:42.020 take advantage of

02:58:42.780 when I'm young

02:58:43.460 once I hit like

02:58:44.520 33 or something

02:58:47.900 then it's like

02:58:48.620 completely gone

02:58:49.300 or I can go towards

02:58:50.540 an avenue

02:58:51.160 where it's like

02:58:51.680 oh,

02:58:51.880 it's just bikini modeling

02:58:52.700 it's like

02:58:53.020 oh,

02:58:53.320 it's equivalent to

02:58:54.260 it's like

02:58:54.520 oh,

02:58:54.680 your mom was like 0.95

02:58:55.240 a Playboy bunny 0.95

02:58:55.960 which for my circle

02:58:58.480 and people in California

02:59:00.060 and LA

02:59:00.500 is not that negative

02:59:01.700 of a thing

02:59:02.400 How did it start?

02:59:04.080 How did you start

02:59:04.800 doing what you're doing?

02:59:05.740 Like,

02:59:05.920 what was the moment

02:59:06.720 and did you have

02:59:07.540 any questions

02:59:08.960 or precautions

02:59:09.620 about it before going in

02:59:11.100 and if so,

02:59:11.860 what changed your mind?

02:59:13.140 So,

02:59:13.540 I used to do Patreon

02:59:14.380 where I would sell

02:59:15.240 professional prints

02:59:16.160 because I'm also

02:59:16.720 really into photography

02:59:17.720 and like cosplays

02:59:18.780 and all of that

02:59:19.400 so I would have

02:59:20.820 I had a Patreon

02:59:21.640 and then everyone

02:59:22.280 was moving towards

02:59:23.000 OnlyFans

02:59:23.520 even though OnlyFans

02:59:24.280 had like a bad reputation

02:59:25.500 and I'm like

02:59:26.740 but people were like

02:59:27.940 you can do the same

02:59:28.800 exact thing

02:59:29.640 but then you just do it

02:59:30.940 on the OnlyFans platform

02:59:31.880 because there's way more

02:59:32.520 people on there

02:59:33.280 and I think that was

02:59:35.720 kind of the decision

02:59:36.500 and then I saw

02:59:37.360 the revenue

02:59:38.080 and it was great

02:59:39.700 And then did you

02:59:40.260 sexualize your photos

02:59:41.580 more after you switched?

02:59:42.820 Did your type of style

02:59:44.460 of content change

02:59:45.780 the more that you got

02:59:46.600 into working on that platform

02:59:47.840 and realizing what was

02:59:48.800 acceptable at the time?

02:59:51.300 I guess it was

02:59:52.720 a little bit more

02:59:53.520 sexualized

02:59:54.120 but I still do not

02:59:55.740 for example 0.98

02:59:56.420 show any vagina 1.00

02:59:58.100 or like do any 0.99

03:00:00.100 like solo content

03:00:01.260 But did you do

03:00:01.440 on Patreon

03:00:02.400 like sexualized content? 1.00

03:00:03.980 Did you show your titties 1.00

03:00:04.740 on Patreon 0.99

03:00:05.240 or just OnlyFans?

03:00:06.540 No,

03:00:07.120 no, 0.99

03:00:07.460 I didn't show my titties 0.98

03:00:08.380 on Patreon 0.92

03:00:09.840 but on OnlyFans

03:00:11.260 So since you started

03:00:12.240 OnlyFans

03:00:12.840 that was one boundary

03:00:13.920 that you kind of

03:00:15.000 were able to push through

03:00:15.920 basically

03:00:16.700 Oh was it against TOS

03:00:18.180 in Patreon?

03:00:19.540 I think in Patreon

03:00:20.540 it was against TOS

03:00:21.380 Oh yeah,

03:00:21.700 Patreon it is

03:00:22.880 But I never thought

03:00:24.280 that like topless content

03:00:25.720 was like super outrageous

03:00:28.180 like I like looking at

03:00:29.720 magazines that had

03:00:30.980 like beautiful

03:00:31.500 like new

03:00:32.600 so I also was an art miner

03:00:34.320 and then we always

03:00:35.340 had new models

03:00:36.280 to where we would

03:00:37.900 draw them

03:00:38.520 and I wasn't like

03:00:39.720 how dare they 0.99

03:00:40.580 show their titties 0.99

03:00:41.220 and the guys 0.99

03:00:41.720 are literally

03:00:42.400 completely naked

03:00:43.340 and you would 1.00

03:00:43.800 draw their penises 1.00

03:00:45.160 and I just never 1.00

03:00:46.600 thought that was

03:00:47.860 a terrible thing

03:00:49.600 It was at UCSB

03:00:51.700 by the way

03:00:52.120 they were like

03:00:52.840 my like figure drawing

03:00:54.020 class 0.99

03:00:54.280 Drawing penises? 0.97

03:00:55.220 What? 0.99

03:00:55.560 Like yeah

03:00:55.900 they would draw

03:00:56.720 yeah they would 0.88

03:00:57.460 have nude models 0.94

03:00:58.820 to like study

03:01:00.160 study the human body

03:01:02.420 I just never thought

03:01:03.700 it was such a

03:01:05.000 like taboo thing

03:01:06.100 Wait, okay

03:01:06.360 question for all the

03:01:07.300 girls here 1.00

03:01:07.660 who do OnlyFans

03:01:08.540 do you object to

03:01:10.580 and maybe you've

03:01:11.380 heard this from men

03:01:12.060 but would you object

03:01:13.340 to a man not

03:01:14.180 wanting to date you

03:01:15.220 because you do

03:01:15.960 OnlyFans?

03:01:17.100 I think that's fine

03:01:17.740 I think it's fine

03:01:18.820 they don't have to

03:01:19.860 date me

03:01:20.440 My ex

03:01:21.320 but do you have

03:01:22.100 any feelings about it 1.00

03:01:23.080 like fuck you 1.00

03:01:23.940 you don't know me 1.00

03:01:24.960 No

03:01:25.600 No 1.00

03:01:26.020 They're just ignorant 1.00

03:01:27.860 They're immediately 1.00

03:01:29.480 ignorant 1.00

03:01:30.080 because it's like 1.00

03:01:30.780 you don't know me

03:01:31.260 as a person

03:01:31.900 like you know

03:01:32.580 I could be the best

03:01:33.300 wife, the best mother

03:01:34.300 just because of my

03:01:35.300 job title

03:01:35.860 you're going to

03:01:36.540 you know 1.00

03:01:37.060 like shit yourself 1.00

03:01:38.520 out of luck 1.00

03:01:38.940 pretty much

03:01:39.540 because you can go

03:01:40.180 be with a regular

03:01:40.760 girl that has a 1.00

03:01:41.520 nine to five

03:01:42.000 and she can be 1.00

03:01:42.940 shit to you as well 1.00

03:01:43.940 so I mean 1.00

03:01:45.500 and that happens

03:01:46.480 in real life

03:01:47.440 it does happen

03:01:48.120 but if you had to

03:01:48.760 choose between

03:01:49.700 a regular chick 0.99

03:01:51.440 who's shitty 0.96

03:01:52.760 versus a chick 1.00

03:01:58.060 that does sex work 1.00

03:01:59.680 who's shitty 0.99

03:02:00.200 At least a sex work 0.99

03:02:01.780 gets bred

03:02:02.460 like at least

03:02:03.020 they can spoil you

03:02:03.580 Yeah but you don't

03:02:04.280 share it

03:02:05.000 Women don't share 1.00

03:02:05.840 their money with men

03:02:06.900 That's not true

03:02:07.660 That's true

03:02:08.540 That's such a

03:02:09.640 minor answer

03:02:10.440 Wait wait

03:02:10.740 but okay

03:02:11.540 earlier on in the

03:02:12.240 conversation

03:02:12.660 you said during

03:02:13.320 the pandemic

03:02:13.820 you were holding

03:02:14.460 a guy down

03:02:15.120 like you were

03:02:16.440 paying for everything

03:02:17.460 he was living

03:02:17.960 with you

03:02:18.340 and you're like

03:02:19.080 ooh I

03:02:19.600 like I

03:02:20.860 Well she was also

03:02:22.080 doing the housework

03:02:23.000 and the house labor

03:02:23.780 Because yeah she wasn't

03:02:24.020 cooking or cleaning

03:02:24.940 or working out

03:02:25.880 like I would be

03:02:26.980 totally fine

03:02:27.960 with like a

03:02:28.860 trophy husband

03:02:29.860 who just chills

03:02:30.820 and like hangs out

03:02:32.720 and is just like

03:02:33.900 cute

03:02:34.620 that's totally fine

03:02:35.920 with me

03:02:36.260 How much you make?

03:02:39.200 She says Ann

03:02:40.260 didn't work out

03:02:40.960 Brian

03:02:41.260 this was an issue

03:02:42.100 for her

03:02:42.580 I will buy them

03:02:43.440 an Equinox membership

03:02:44.580 like personal trainer

03:02:45.660 Oh he has to work out

03:02:46.700 I mean that's like

03:02:48.140 if they cook and clean

03:02:49.420 it's fine

03:02:49.900 so it's like

03:02:51.140 either or

03:02:51.700 they have to

03:02:52.460 either cook and clean

03:02:53.640 or they work out

03:02:55.180 so

03:02:55.620 one of those

03:02:57.500 So if the guy's

03:02:58.440 shredded

03:02:58.860 you'll be like

03:03:00.440 okay I'll do all the work

03:03:01.340 but at least you're

03:03:02.080 in really good shape

03:03:02.820 I thought it was both

03:03:03.980 I thought he had to be

03:03:04.840 a hot bod

03:03:05.600 and

03:03:06.180 That's like impossible

03:03:07.320 my standards are not

03:03:08.360 that high

03:03:09.000 Is it really like

03:03:10.360 I feel like

03:03:11.480 when it comes to

03:03:12.820 taking care of the house

03:03:14.340 I don't know

03:03:15.880 I live

03:03:16.320 pretty much

03:03:17.360 on my own

03:03:18.180 Guys like

03:03:19.960 don't know

03:03:20.300 how to do laundry

03:03:21.080 guys

03:03:21.980 don't know

03:03:23.100 how to feed themselves

03:03:24.060 I do my laundry

03:03:24.840 I feed myself

03:03:25.400 Can you cook?

03:03:26.200 Amazing

03:03:26.600 I eat out a lot

03:03:29.800 I can cook

03:03:30.560 but I prefer to

03:03:31.220 or sorry

03:03:31.620 I prefer to get

03:03:32.220 take out

03:03:32.720 He doesn't eat out a lot

03:03:33.020 You made that very clear

03:03:34.560 on this show

03:03:35.340 What does your toilet

03:03:37.920 look like though?

03:03:38.980 Is it clean?

03:03:40.260 It looks clean

03:03:40.780 Is your toilet

03:03:42.600 no at home?

03:03:43.760 Well I got the studio

03:03:44.840 I'm taking care of the studio

03:03:46.020 and my other place 0.99

03:03:47.240 clean as a motherfucker 0.99

03:03:48.900 Okay 1.00

03:03:49.540 That's good

03:03:50.100 Do you have a maid?

03:03:52.540 No I clean myself

03:03:53.660 Okay that's good

03:03:54.700 I feel like it's like

03:03:56.020 one or two hours a week

03:03:58.540 What percentages of your meals

03:04:00.540 do you eat at home

03:04:01.360 versus out?

03:04:01.820 Oh I do DoorDash

03:04:02.540 for most of my meals

03:04:03.540 Convenience

03:04:04.940 Opportunity cost 1.00

03:04:05.820 How do you wipe your ass? 1.00

03:04:07.580 What the fuck? 1.00

03:04:08.120 How do you 1.00

03:04:10.640 after you go to the bathroom

03:04:11.640 what do you do?

03:04:12.880 Oh my god 1.00

03:04:13.300 That's very stupid 1.00

03:04:14.240 Bro 1.00

03:04:15.840 This is a male topic 0.96

03:04:18.000 for my

03:04:18.420 Is it front to back

03:04:19.580 or back to front

03:04:20.380 is that what you're asking?

03:04:21.000 Wait are you talking

03:04:21.240 about my technique

03:04:21.960 or like the full process?

03:04:23.800 She's asking

03:04:24.360 Some don't wipe 0.99

03:04:25.380 What the fuck? 0.99

03:04:26.400 No that's true 1.00

03:04:27.060 Some men don't wipe? 1.00

03:04:28.320 No I have heard that as well 1.00

03:04:29.800 I take that shit 1.00

03:04:29.920 a step forward 1.00

03:04:30.740 Not only do you have paper

03:04:32.620 You have a bidet huh?

03:04:34.640 Well

03:04:34.880 You should get

03:04:35.560 No but I have

03:04:36.320 I have the

03:04:37.560 Put it on the Amazon wish list

03:04:38.820 Booty wipes

03:04:39.260 Yeah

03:04:39.600 Booty wipes son

03:04:40.540 No there is like

03:04:41.460 I heard a reddit post

03:04:42.920 this doctor was talking

03:04:43.980 about how like

03:04:45.020 with her male patient

03:04:46.240 she would do like 0.87

03:04:46.760 prostate exams

03:04:47.680 and like 50% of them

03:04:49.360 they would sit down

03:04:50.140 on the white piece of paper

03:04:51.420 and when they would

03:04:52.380 get back up

03:04:53.080 they would like

03:04:53.500 leave a mark

03:04:54.580 I'm so drunk

03:04:55.580 Can you guys hear

03:05:03.400 Chad can you hear that?

03:05:04.280 I really like

03:05:08.400 the yelling

03:05:09.380 Welcome to the

03:05:10.040 whatever podcast

03:05:10.780 where the local

03:05:11.580 crackhead is having

03:05:12.660 a blast down

03:05:13.800 down on the street

03:05:14.880 Woo Santa Barbara

03:05:15.740 Did he really?

03:05:18.800 Greed 0.51

03:05:19.320 Was it a full can

03:05:21.180 or an empty can?

03:05:25.320 I think

03:05:27.060 I think he plays

03:05:28.020 I want to play

03:05:28.820 He plays League of Legends

03:05:30.000 and he's really upset

03:05:31.120 that nobody wants to

03:05:31.960 do well 0.98

03:05:32.380 I have no fucking idea 0.99

03:05:35.200 Wait 0.99

03:05:36.220 We were talking about

03:05:37.460 what? 1.00

03:05:38.040 Wiping your ass 1.00

03:05:38.820 We were talking about 1.00

03:05:39.320 wiping your ass 1.00

03:05:39.840 Yeah why the fuck? 1.00

03:05:41.040 Because men are gross 1.00

03:05:43.020 is the point 0.99

03:05:44.020 but I do think

03:05:45.380 it's similar

03:05:45.920 to intellect

03:05:46.760 like I think

03:05:47.840 women 1.00

03:05:48.380 like when it comes

03:05:49.640 to cleanliness

03:05:50.380 similar to intellect

03:05:51.760 they're like

03:05:52.180 average cleanliness

03:05:53.320 whereas men

03:05:54.200 are either

03:05:55.180 like neurotically

03:05:57.040 clean

03:05:57.580 or disgusting

03:05:59.180 Like

03:06:00.180 There's no middle ground

03:06:01.420 Yeah

03:06:02.260 I feel like

03:06:02.920 Let me

03:06:03.780 let's do a couple

03:06:04.940 chats here

03:06:05.600 So we have

03:06:06.840 Liam LA

03:06:08.720 kick that 1.00

03:06:09.360 J17

03:06:10.260 What is

03:06:10.920 J17 out? 0.97

03:06:13.120 What is

03:06:13.880 J17?

03:06:15.080 Is he

03:06:16.460 Is that a slur?

03:06:17.500 Is it a Jew thing? 0.99

03:06:18.480 That's what I was saying

03:06:19.080 Oh my god

03:06:20.100 Is it a Jew thing? 0.99

03:06:21.280 I'm so for

03:06:22.100 Bring on the

03:06:23.560 anti-Semitism people

03:06:24.900 I face Nick Fuentes

03:06:26.860 I'm ready

03:06:27.600 I don't know

03:06:28.640 We have Anonymous here

03:06:30.240 Basic human dynamics

03:06:31.940 opposite attracts

03:06:34.020 One is a receiver

03:06:34.960 and one is a giver

03:06:35.900 One likes being on the bottom

03:06:37.420 and one likes being on the top

03:06:38.680 When both are givers

03:06:39.780 you're all competing

03:06:40.380 who is better

03:06:41.020 or vice versa

03:06:42.000 In conclusion

03:06:42.600 bad sex causes

03:06:43.560 failed marriages

03:06:44.280 from Anonymous

03:06:45.220 Thank you very much

03:06:46.460 Appreciate it

03:06:48.020 Pat escalated quickly

03:06:50.020 Pat escalated 0.99

03:06:51.320 You don't have good sex 0.99

03:06:53.780 Alright 0.98

03:06:55.160 We have

03:06:55.720 Big Blue here 0.94

03:06:56.780 Oh Brian

03:06:57.740 Bricks and Brain

03:06:58.360 Sorry I'm late

03:06:59.100 Busy day

03:07:00.620 Intervening in fights

03:07:01.800 Counting debate points

03:07:02.740 on my fingers

03:07:03.460 Buying Neutrogena

03:07:04.700 Making pitch decks

03:07:05.540 Identifying as a hippo

03:07:07.700 Anyway

03:07:08.060 Martin is misunderstood

03:07:09.340 Long live

03:07:10.360 Wall Street bets

03:07:11.220 R.I.P.

03:07:13.560 In peace

03:07:14.160 Harambe

03:07:14.720 Yo Stochastic

03:07:15.680 Send me a DM

03:07:16.360 on Instagram

03:07:16.980 Yo Big Blue

03:07:18.340 Lauren

03:07:18.700 Tell the audience

03:07:19.320 about how you got

03:07:19.880 booted from the Air Force

03:07:20.680 Academy for trying

03:07:21.300 to seduce a cadet 0.99

03:07:22.220 Oh

03:07:22.980 I left the Air Force

03:07:24.720 Academy on good terms

03:07:26.120 and got an honorable

03:07:27.280 discharge

03:07:28.120 and am currently

03:07:29.540 a veteran

03:07:29.900 Fake news

03:07:31.080 Yeah

03:07:31.460 So you can probably

03:07:32.840 get a VA loan

03:07:33.960 No I can get a VA loan

03:07:35.860 Yeah I absolutely can

03:07:37.180 You should get a quadplex

03:07:38.980 You should

03:07:40.980 Okay

03:07:42.320 Kona 19

03:07:42.980 Head for men 1.00

03:07:44.340 versus women 1.00

03:07:44.760 is very different

03:07:45.400 Some men find the idea

03:07:46.500 of unsettling

03:07:47.480 of sticking their tongue

03:07:48.260 in the hole 0.51

03:07:48.920 that excretes

03:07:50.620 blood

03:07:51.440 old tissue

03:07:52.120 pee 0.98

03:07:52.380 and multiple dicks 0.98

03:07:53.480 have came inside 0.95

03:07:54.820 of before 1.00

03:07:55.540 You lick the clit 1.00

03:07:56.680 You already don't know 1.00

03:07:57.460 how to do it

03:07:58.160 just by that description

03:07:59.440 What do you mean

03:08:00.180 Don't throw Kona 19

03:08:02.180 under the bus

03:08:03.100 What

03:08:03.340 No I'm talking about

03:08:04.180 the fact that he

03:08:04.860 just said in the hole

03:08:06.140 like what are you talking

03:08:07.420 You just

03:08:07.840 Guys don't think

03:08:08.620 they're talking there

03:08:09.520 I mean when they do

03:08:10.480 it's like

03:08:10.960 It's a proximity

03:08:11.860 proximity thing

03:08:13.360 Pee comes from the same hole

03:08:14.980 as the blood

03:08:16.180 which I think is very funny

03:08:17.340 Same for them

03:08:18.300 as well

03:08:18.920 How are you getting

03:08:19.960 tissue up in there

03:08:20.880 I don't know

03:08:21.420 Oh yeah you said pee

03:08:22.460 Wow okay

03:08:23.460 I think he thinks

03:08:26.420 women have a 1.00

03:08:27.200 He doesn't pee 1.00

03:08:27.760 out of the vagina 1.00

03:08:28.720 Women pee out of the vagina 1.00

03:08:30.740 Wait 1.00

03:08:31.360 What

03:08:31.920 Wait are you being

03:08:33.200 are you joking

03:08:33.840 Yeah no

03:08:35.000 Conan

03:08:36.400 That's what he thinks

03:08:37.600 I am confirming

03:08:39.120 his beliefs

03:08:39.740 We have only two holes

03:08:42.180 When it comes to

03:08:44.520 peeing

03:08:44.900 When it comes to

03:08:45.580 peeing though

03:08:46.060 you could actually

03:08:46.640 argue that

03:08:47.600 I mean the

03:08:48.500 urethra is closer

03:08:49.640 to the clit 1.00

03:08:50.300 than the

03:08:50.900 so I mean

03:08:52.200 The tip

03:08:53.260 that we have to

03:08:54.340 insert

03:08:54.860 The urethra

03:08:56.460 is closer to the clit 0.99

03:08:57.500 So where you pee out of 0.92

03:08:58.840 is closer to the clit 1.00

03:08:59.620 Than the vagina 1.00

03:09:00.480 So you're saying 0.97

03:09:02.180 that when they're 0.99

03:09:02.700 licking the clit 1.00

03:09:03.900 they're getting some pee 0.99

03:09:05.000 And so are we

03:09:06.100 No you're saying

03:09:07.480 that men pee 1.00

03:09:08.940 No I'm saying

03:09:09.900 that the proximity

03:09:10.660 The proximity

03:09:12.100 of the female

03:09:12.700 urethra

03:09:13.220 is closer 0.80

03:09:14.900 to the clitoris 1.00

03:09:16.480 than say like 0.99

03:09:17.140 the vagina 1.00

03:09:17.840 He's just trying 1.00

03:09:19.020 to show off

03:09:19.620 his anatomy skills

03:09:20.880 He's just trying

03:09:22.340 to prove

03:09:22.860 that he knows

03:09:23.440 how to make

03:09:23.840 a woman 0.57

03:09:24.120 child

03:09:24.440 He's like

03:09:24.480 you're a little

03:09:24.860 bit correct

03:09:25.440 Okay we'll

03:09:26.280 give you that

03:09:26.780 He's like

03:09:27.360 look at me

03:09:27.820 using lame heart

03:09:28.820 terms

03:09:29.300 I know

03:09:30.340 female anatomy 1.00

03:09:31.260 He's like 0.92

03:09:31.620 I know clitoris 1.00

03:09:32.960 I swear 0.97

03:09:33.540 I know labia 0.53

03:09:34.620 Yo

03:09:34.900 Oh we got

03:09:36.080 Big Red

03:09:36.660 Thank you man

03:09:38.220 I appreciate it

03:09:39.620 Wow that was scuffed

03:09:40.280 To the ABG

03:09:41.100 in the front right

03:09:41.980 corner

03:09:42.460 a Texan

03:09:43.200 could treat you

03:09:44.000 right

03:09:44.400 Brian checked

03:09:45.580 out during

03:09:46.220 the of convo

03:09:47.060 the same way

03:09:47.940 the girls 0.99

03:09:48.460 would have

03:09:48.840 during a wow

03:09:49.640 rant

03:09:50.100 but he wasn't

03:09:51.120 playing wow

03:09:51.840 World of Warcraft

03:09:53.160 Wow

03:09:54.040 Do you have

03:09:54.920 a response to him

03:09:56.060 He's calling

03:09:56.880 you an ABG

03:09:58.140 What's that

03:09:58.940 Asian boba girl 1.00

03:09:59.840 Wait

03:10:00.060 Asian baby girl

03:10:01.000 Asian baby girl

03:10:01.880 Isn't that for girls 1.00

03:10:02.700 who are like

03:10:03.060 from here

03:10:03.900 Yeah I think

03:10:04.360 it typically applies

03:10:05.340 to like

03:10:05.680 American born

03:10:06.540 Asian women

03:10:07.440 who have

03:10:08.600 a certain

03:10:09.040 like attitude

03:10:10.320 or style

03:10:10.800 or something

03:10:11.260 It used to be

03:10:12.320 like related

03:10:13.160 to gangs

03:10:13.700 but now

03:10:14.140 it's more

03:10:14.400 of an aesthetic

03:10:14.960 so it's like

03:10:15.660 someone who

03:10:16.280 has tattoos

03:10:17.180 died here

03:10:17.800 and goes to raves

03:10:19.120 Do you have

03:10:23.780 a response to him

03:10:24.960 I didn't really

03:10:26.020 catch it

03:10:26.740 What did he say

03:10:28.340 He said

03:10:28.920 to the

03:10:30.180 here

03:10:30.440 to the ABG

03:10:31.900 in the front corner

03:10:32.520 a Texan

03:10:33.260 could treat you right

03:10:34.080 so he's asking

03:10:34.720 you out

03:10:35.120 I would vouch

03:10:37.500 to other boys

03:10:38.100 I've never been

03:10:38.780 That'd be cool

03:10:39.740 Okay I guess

03:10:40.780 are your DMs

03:10:41.500 open or not

03:10:42.060 because you have

03:10:42.540 like three boyfriends

03:10:43.240 right now

03:10:43.820 I thought I was seven

03:10:45.380 Yeah I have no clue

03:10:47.020 You what?

03:10:48.520 You could try

03:10:49.040 There's a lot

03:10:49.900 You could try

03:10:50.500 Wait okay

03:10:51.200 give us more details

03:10:52.260 about how much

03:10:53.040 competition there is

03:10:53.960 though

03:10:54.100 Like okay

03:10:54.780 so you said

03:10:55.420 there's like

03:10:55.860 your kind of dating

03:10:57.200 be specific

03:10:59.820 Do I have to?

03:11:01.260 You have to

03:11:02.020 You're gonna make me cry 0.56

03:11:02.940 I'm gonna make you

03:11:04.280 Wait you're gonna cry?

03:11:06.560 No okay

03:11:06.960 so as your friend

03:11:08.080 I would say

03:11:08.640 sexually is literally 0.72

03:11:09.660 just like one person

03:11:11.480 Oh wait

03:11:12.780 so sexually

03:11:13.700 If that

03:11:14.680 You're hooking up 0.92

03:11:15.380 Yeah

03:11:15.780 Just one

03:11:16.400 Or just one person

03:11:18.000 Like who like

03:11:19.580 barely

03:11:19.940 Barely what?

03:11:21.660 Like they don't

03:11:22.920 They don't what?

03:11:24.000 They just thought

03:11:24.740 It's not like

03:11:25.220 No it's not like

03:11:25.900 No no no

03:11:26.740 They don't see each other

03:11:27.460 every single day

03:11:28.060 and they don't live together

03:11:28.840 and things like that

03:11:30.060 Like it's just like

03:11:30.840 Yeah

03:11:31.560 One person

03:11:32.420 sexually 0.61

03:11:33.520 with their situation

03:11:35.100 Yeah

03:11:36.060 Do you feel okay

03:11:37.020 with her saying

03:11:38.020 your situation?

03:11:39.420 Oh no you can

03:11:39.960 you can talk

03:11:40.660 I mean

03:11:41.280 She said if that

03:11:42.840 so what do you mean

03:11:43.720 by if that?

03:11:44.600 You mean she's not actually

03:11:45.700 He comes around

03:11:47.300 from time to time

03:11:48.140 right?

03:11:48.940 You know?

03:11:50.120 Wait so you guys

03:11:50.820 Wait do you like

03:11:52.720 this guy for her?

03:11:53.960 Do you like this

03:11:54.620 man for her? 0.87

03:11:55.440 You think he's good for her?

03:11:56.520 If she likes him

03:11:57.760 Do you like

03:11:58.740 If she likes him too

03:12:00.840 Have you met the guy?

03:12:01.840 Have you met the guy?

03:12:02.820 Yeah

03:12:02.980 Wait how long

03:12:03.440 have you been seeing him?

03:12:05.140 Um

03:12:05.540 I don't know

03:12:08.000 Maybe a few months

03:12:09.180 So what 1.00

03:12:10.600 you guys fuck once a week 0.99

03:12:11.780 kind of thing? 1.00

03:12:12.520 What do you mean?

03:12:13.520 I guess whenever he wants

03:12:14.920 But okay

03:12:15.520 How

03:12:15.780 If you had

03:12:16.740 When does he want to?

03:12:18.560 Once a week

03:12:19.140 Probably every time

03:12:21.200 Do you want anything?

03:12:21.980 No no no

03:12:22.100 But how

03:12:22.440 How often

03:12:23.620 Every time

03:12:25.980 Like once a year

03:12:26.940 Like

03:12:27.240 How often is he swinging by?

03:12:30.180 Twice a week?

03:12:31.540 Twice a week?

03:12:32.120 Does he

03:12:32.480 Have you had any conversations

03:12:34.060 with like

03:12:34.700 where this is heading?

03:12:35.840 Do you want to

03:12:36.540 like have a relationship

03:12:38.080 or

03:12:38.580 Do you want a relationship?

03:12:39.540 Or do you not care at all?

03:12:40.780 I'm not really sure

03:12:41.800 I think I just

03:12:42.600 I am just going

03:12:43.900 with the flow

03:12:44.560 Do you have needs?

03:12:47.680 I

03:12:48.080 I think I barely do

03:12:49.540 actually

03:12:50.020 but then if my partner

03:12:51.240 wants to

03:12:51.840 then like

03:12:52.360 I would be more than

03:12:53.300 happy to

03:12:54.060 Wait so question

03:12:55.740 His type of girl 0.99

03:12:56.600 I'm just kidding

03:12:56.980 He comes over

03:12:59.960 Do you guys like

03:13:01.480 kick it 0.96

03:13:02.120 or is it like

03:13:02.740 he comes over 1.00

03:13:03.320 you fuck and he dips? 1.00

03:13:04.680 Oh we do stuff 1.00

03:13:05.560 We do

03:13:06.320 Like dates

03:13:08.520 And then like

03:13:09.940 Oh you'll go out

03:13:10.860 in public

03:13:11.340 Like I said

03:13:12.320 I'm dating 1.00

03:13:13.320 I don't do that shit 1.00

03:13:14.400 Big Blue donated 1.00

03:13:15.260 $100

03:13:16.060 Lauren

03:13:17.380 as I recall

03:13:18.580 although you received

03:13:19.840 an honorable D

03:13:20.760 you got kicked out

03:13:21.920 of Yusufir

03:13:22.680 Can you tell us

03:13:23.900 the full story?

03:13:25.020 Or is it too embarrassing? 0.78

03:13:26.920 You can't get kicked

03:13:27.700 If you got kicked out

03:13:29.100 it would be

03:13:30.100 a dishonorable discharge

03:13:31.500 so on like

03:13:32.440 my military paperwork

03:13:33.540 it says I have

03:13:34.520 an honorable discharge

03:13:35.920 I don't know

03:13:36.500 what their

03:13:36.940 I don't know

03:13:38.500 who this person is

03:13:39.700 but nope

03:13:40.900 have an honorable discharge

03:13:42.400 honorably served

03:13:43.460 my country for two years

03:13:44.580 did basic training

03:13:46.260 I did ESET

03:13:47.280 I did SEER

03:13:48.320 then I went on

03:13:50.660 to get a math degree

03:13:51.780 and then I went on

03:13:52.720 to go to law school

03:13:54.300 and then I passed the bar

03:13:55.620 and speaking of

03:13:57.320 the honorable D

03:13:58.460 you can honorably 1.00

03:13:59.620 suck my D 1.00

03:14:00.500 so 1.00

03:14:00.920 Are you gonna

03:14:03.800 hold on

03:14:04.300 are you gonna let her

03:14:05.100 talk to you like

03:14:05.880 that

03:14:06.220 don't let her

03:14:06.760 okay

03:14:06.980 alright we have

03:14:08.100 Eric Beck

03:14:08.780 why are men paying 0.90

03:14:09.840 to view these women

03:14:10.560 in OF Google images

03:14:11.920 you can see women 0.52

03:14:12.600 for free

03:14:13.040 and corn on the hub

03:14:14.620 you can view

03:14:15.280 the act for free

03:14:16.120 how do you keep

03:14:17.020 these people paying

03:14:17.940 for your content

03:14:18.900 I mean isn't it

03:14:19.680 just like a

03:14:20.280 there's the actual

03:14:21.580 engagement of

03:14:22.340 messaging back and forth

03:14:24.320 there's also like

03:14:25.760 DMCA

03:14:26.460 yeah it's like

03:14:27.900 more about the

03:14:28.580 personality

03:14:29.080 but also there's

03:14:29.900 DMCA

03:14:30.400 you usually

03:14:31.720 especially now

03:14:32.580 can't see everything

03:14:33.600 that people put up

03:14:34.960 like even when

03:14:36.560 it comes to

03:14:37.320 what was that

03:14:38.160 musician

03:14:38.560 who I cancelled

03:14:40.260 recently

03:14:40.860 Lizzo

03:14:41.860 Lizzo

03:14:42.420 no no no

03:14:43.160 Lizzo

03:14:43.700 Lizzo

03:14:44.280 Lizzo got cancelled

03:14:44.780 yeah she got cancelled

03:14:45.940 recently

03:14:46.280 because she made

03:14:47.900 oh my god

03:14:48.700 I made a whole video

03:14:49.300 on this

03:14:49.600 okay anyway

03:14:51.480 I changed like

03:14:52.020 the lyrics to her

03:14:52.740 songs to like

03:14:53.500 make a video on this

03:14:54.260 but anyway

03:14:54.560 she forced her

03:14:56.040 forced

03:14:56.880 wait wait wait

03:14:57.240 let's not talk about it

03:14:57.940 it doesn't matter

03:14:58.640 the point is that

03:15:00.140 she had like

03:15:01.000 for example

03:15:01.400 like a video of her

03:15:02.340 like go viral

03:15:02.980 because she fell off

03:15:03.700 the stage

03:15:04.120 and then like

03:15:04.520 saw everything

03:15:05.160 and she erased it

03:15:06.440 by the internet

03:15:07.360 or from the internet

03:15:08.540 it's just that

03:15:09.400 DMCA erasing

03:15:11.900 is very strong now

03:15:13.040 with technology

03:15:13.920 okay

03:15:14.880 all right

03:15:16.040 Stifler

03:15:16.400 ask the ladies 0.96

03:15:17.200 ask everyone

03:15:18.060 to rate their looks

03:15:18.680 on a scale

03:15:19.140 of 1 to 10

03:15:20.160 rate our own looks

03:15:22.620 or each other

03:15:24.040 like what are you

03:15:24.540 talking about

03:15:24.900 okay so

03:15:25.340 no no no

03:15:25.700 so rate your own looks

03:15:29.480 we'll go around

03:15:29.920 the table like this

03:15:30.840 like right at this moment

03:15:32.560 yeah

03:15:33.560 on a scale of 1 to 10

03:15:35.220 what do you rate

03:15:35.660 your own looks

03:15:36.200 it depends on the day

03:15:37.740 man

03:15:38.020 just like right now

03:15:39.000 um

03:15:39.760 like

03:15:40.940 6

03:15:42.300 7

03:15:42.940 don't do that

03:15:44.260 Pixie

03:15:44.740 7

03:15:45.360 yeah I would say

03:15:46.340 7

03:15:46.780 I would say

03:15:47.280 on a good day

03:15:47.860 a 10 out of 10

03:15:48.620 yeah a good day

03:15:49.740 I'm like 9

03:15:50.340 yeah it depends

03:15:51.180 on the day

03:15:51.900 don't start that

03:15:55.400 don't start that

03:15:56.220 laughing

03:15:56.720 10 out of 10

03:15:57.820 okay

03:16:00.140 alright

03:16:00.980 yeah

03:16:01.580 okay

03:16:02.060 yes very

03:16:03.160 very much so

03:16:03.960 10 out of 10

03:16:05.560 in delusion

03:16:06.760 what do you rate

03:16:08.060 yourself Brian

03:16:08.760 6

03:16:09.160 what do you rate

03:16:11.900 yourself

03:16:12.620 I said

03:16:13.340 you already said

03:16:14.060 7

03:16:14.320 okay

03:16:14.740 uh

03:16:15.640 Lauren

03:16:16.120 4

03:16:16.680 3 1.00

03:16:17.380 what the fuck 0.99

03:16:19.460 Lauren 1.00

03:16:19.960 sorry

03:16:20.680 no okay

03:16:21.120 for women

03:16:21.660 I feel like

03:16:22.300 the scale is

03:16:23.000 always above 5

03:16:24.080 like that's like

03:16:24.900 the 0

03:16:25.380 here's the thing

03:16:25.580 are we going

03:16:25.980 purely based off looks

03:16:27.240 or is it also

03:16:28.080 intellect personality

03:16:29.060 just looks

03:16:29.740 just looks

03:16:30.440 looks

03:16:30.640 okay wait no

03:16:31.760 I'm sorry

03:16:32.220 before you continue

03:16:33.040 this girl

03:16:33.940 we went out

03:16:34.520 to the freaking 0.96

03:16:35.000 bars like 0.95

03:16:35.720 the other day

03:16:36.580 seven men

03:16:37.440 hit on her 0.95

03:16:38.040 like in the night 0.95

03:16:38.900 like one

03:16:39.700 after the other

03:16:40.240 after the other

03:16:40.960 after the other

03:16:41.540 I'm just saying

03:16:42.440 like you have to

03:16:42.980 be delusional

03:16:43.520 to think you're

03:16:44.020 not a 7

03:16:44.480 at least

03:16:45.340 okay I'm done

03:16:46.320 okay

03:16:47.280 cool

03:16:49.220 yeah I'm just

03:16:50.140 saying

03:16:50.660 haha

03:16:51.280 um

03:16:53.660 so like

03:16:54.880 fresh out of

03:16:55.580 the shower

03:16:56.080 like

03:16:56.900 nothing

03:16:58.040 I'd say

03:16:58.820 like yeah

03:16:59.380 6 probably

03:17:00.280 wow

03:17:01.780 you guys really

03:17:02.720 underdid it

03:17:03.620 I feel like

03:17:04.140 well no

03:17:04.920 because think of

03:17:05.840 a 10

03:17:06.120 think of the

03:17:06.540 most perfect

03:17:07.160 most beautiful

03:17:08.040 woman that 0.97

03:17:08.600 you've ever seen

03:17:09.460 and then try to

03:17:10.500 like calculate

03:17:11.200 the disparity

03:17:11.800 between you and

03:17:12.520 her

03:17:12.740 I'm just being

03:17:13.500 logical

03:17:13.960 like honestly

03:17:15.540 yeah I mean

03:17:16.280 for sure

03:17:16.740 okay what about

03:17:17.140 what about

03:17:17.480 on your best day

03:17:18.340 like your best

03:17:19.120 day like

03:17:19.740 professional makeup

03:17:20.840 oh totally

03:17:21.460 like I mean

03:17:22.720 yeah like

03:17:23.240 8 7 8

03:17:24.400 sure

03:17:24.960 but

03:17:25.920 I'm at 10

03:17:26.540 right now

03:17:27.200 I'm just gonna

03:17:28.080 say

03:17:28.540 also like

03:17:30.900 attraction

03:17:31.380 is so

03:17:32.080 subjective

03:17:32.600 like I grew

03:17:33.440 up with a

03:17:33.760 really low

03:17:34.180 self esteem

03:17:34.660 especially in

03:17:35.260 Bakersfield

03:17:35.680 there's no

03:17:36.180 Asians

03:17:36.520 people like

03:17:36.860 what the 1.00

03:17:37.280 fuck is 0.99

03:17:37.600 wrong with 1.00

03:17:37.880 your face

03:17:38.320 but there's

03:17:38.380 also general

03:17:39.040 things right

03:17:39.700 so like

03:17:40.040 symmetry

03:17:40.440 is one thing

03:17:41.280 that people

03:17:41.640 really look

03:17:42.220 for like

03:17:42.640 there's sort

03:17:43.160 of like

03:17:43.380 like things

03:17:43.820 based in

03:17:44.240 health

03:17:44.600 right

03:17:44.900 so like

03:17:45.240 your

03:17:45.380 complexion

03:17:45.940 having

03:17:46.160 healthy

03:17:46.520 clear skin

03:17:47.160 these are

03:17:47.760 things that

03:17:48.120 like psychologically

03:17:49.000 we're programmed

03:17:49.900 to look out

03:17:50.580 for right

03:17:51.580 so there are

03:17:52.200 certain

03:17:52.580 determining factors

03:17:53.900 that really

03:17:55.080 state whether

03:17:55.680 or not

03:17:55.960 somebody's

03:17:56.360 attractive

03:17:56.780 it's not

03:17:57.300 as subjective

03:17:58.040 as what

03:17:58.480 some people

03:17:58.960 would make

03:17:59.300 it seem

03:17:59.700 for sure

03:18:00.240 beauty is in

03:18:01.100 the eye of

03:18:01.500 the holder

03:18:02.200 I agree

03:18:02.780 with that

03:18:03.080 to some

03:18:03.340 extent

03:18:03.620 but there

03:18:03.940 are parameters

03:18:04.660 which define

03:18:06.040 that to

03:18:06.840 some degree

03:18:07.340 to some

03:18:08.020 degree

03:18:08.340 depending on

03:18:09.140 like the

03:18:09.460 culture

03:18:09.840 depending on

03:18:10.500 the region

03:18:10.960 and the

03:18:11.280 area

03:18:11.660 and what

03:18:12.700 is popular

03:18:13.240 sure I

03:18:13.980 mean there's

03:18:14.280 some cultures

03:18:14.740 where right

03:18:15.120 it's bad

03:18:15.540 to be tan

03:18:16.100 because they're

03:18:16.580 like if

03:18:16.880 you're tan

03:18:17.360 then that

03:18:17.680 means you

03:18:18.000 work outside

03:18:18.700 therefore

03:18:19.000 you're a

03:18:19.380 peasant

03:18:19.760 only the

03:18:20.680 really pale

03:18:21.620 people are

03:18:22.480 attractive

03:18:23.040 right

03:18:23.560 versus

03:18:24.040 in a lot

03:18:25.340 of western

03:18:25.720 cultures

03:18:26.180 being tan

03:18:26.840 is considered

03:18:27.340 a lot more

03:18:28.000 attractive

03:18:28.440 so I get

03:18:29.580 being subjective

03:18:30.620 in that sense

03:18:31.520 but I feel

03:18:32.040 like there's

03:18:32.420 certain factors

03:18:33.040 especially where

03:18:33.700 symmetry

03:18:34.160 is involved

03:18:35.440 that is a

03:18:36.380 really large

03:18:37.280 determination

03:18:38.040 of whether

03:18:38.660 someone's

03:18:39.020 attractive

03:18:39.320 yeah I guess

03:18:39.840 that's like

03:18:40.260 kind of

03:18:40.640 genetic

03:18:41.200 can we see

03:18:42.120 like who

03:18:42.640 is because

03:18:43.140 wasn't there

03:18:43.580 like a vote

03:18:44.180 of like

03:18:44.620 America's

03:18:45.160 most attractive

03:18:45.760 people it

03:18:46.380 was like

03:18:46.740 two people

03:18:47.400 a man

03:18:47.860 and a woman

03:18:48.840 I feel

03:18:49.120 like they

03:18:49.340 were

03:18:49.500 what was

03:18:50.080 this

03:18:50.460 every year

03:18:50.940 they come

03:18:51.380 up with a

03:18:51.780 list

03:18:52.140 of the

03:18:52.540 most

03:18:52.740 attractive

03:18:53.100 people

03:18:53.560 celebrities

03:18:54.120 like Kim

03:18:55.060 Kardashian

03:18:55.460 didn't

03:18:57.400 Jennifer

03:18:57.720 Aniston

03:18:58.160 win like

03:18:58.880 two years

03:18:59.580 but like

03:19:00.260 very like

03:19:00.900 decades

03:19:01.300 apart

03:19:01.780 that's so

03:19:02.360 funny

03:19:02.740 I think she

03:19:04.280 did

03:19:04.540 really quick

03:19:06.020 we had

03:19:06.520 Liam here

03:19:07.780 Liam sorry

03:19:08.420 the TTS

03:19:08.920 didn't come

03:19:09.280 through

03:19:09.420 it's probably

03:19:09.760 because you

03:19:10.400 used a

03:19:10.680 profanity

03:19:11.220 the robot

03:19:12.180 voice doesn't

03:19:12.860 like to

03:19:13.240 read it

03:19:13.780 uh but

03:19:14.820 that girl 1.00

03:19:15.780 S'd a D 0.94

03:19:17.560 and left 0.99

03:19:18.260 I sucked 1.00

03:19:19.580 it 1.00

03:19:19.820 you're allowed 1.00

03:19:20.480 to suck 1.00

03:19:20.860 I'm not sure 1.00

03:19:21.720 if you're aware

03:19:22.180 about this

03:19:22.700 if you join

03:19:23.280 the military

03:19:23.760 you're still

03:19:24.260 allowed to 1.00

03:19:24.600 suck 1.00

03:19:24.840 dick 1.00

03:19:25.440 that's not 0.91

03:19:26.720 like

03:19:27.240 I think it's

03:19:28.080 like a religious 0.79

03:19:28.860 boot camp

03:19:29.440 Lauren De La Duna

03:19:30.220 confirm or deny 1.00

03:19:31.360 did you suck 1.00

03:19:32.460 a dick 1.00

03:19:32.880 while you were 1.00

03:19:33.400 in the military

03:19:33.960 didn't everyone

03:19:35.800 did I

03:19:36.760 it's not the

03:19:38.760 reason I left

03:19:39.360 the military

03:19:39.880 okay

03:19:40.680 okay

03:19:41.880 there's a lot

03:19:42.760 worse

03:19:43.200 there's a lot

03:19:47.540 worse going

03:19:48.120 on in the

03:19:49.020 military

03:19:49.400 so I just

03:19:50.260 want to say

03:19:50.520 let's bring

03:19:52.700 it to Pixie

03:19:53.620 here

03:19:53.920 I got

03:19:54.380 something for

03:19:54.860 Pixie

03:19:55.320 so Pixie

03:19:57.200 you're a

03:19:57.480 feminist

03:19:57.900 are any

03:20:00.180 of you

03:20:00.520 would you

03:20:01.120 consider

03:20:01.380 yourselves

03:20:01.780 feminists

03:20:02.320 anyone

03:20:02.640 I love

03:20:03.220 humans

03:20:03.980 I don't 0.54

03:20:04.720 love

03:20:04.900 anything

03:20:05.240 I don't

03:20:07.320 like

03:20:07.800 I'm

03:20:11.480 sorry

03:20:11.920 I would

03:20:15.040 like

03:20:15.320 things

03:20:15.680 to

03:20:16.040 become

03:20:16.840 more

03:20:17.960 equal

03:20:18.400 but I

03:20:18.760 would

03:20:18.880 say

03:20:19.000 I

03:20:19.120 was

03:20:19.280 way

03:20:19.600 more

03:20:19.800 feminist

03:20:20.160 in

03:20:20.580 college

03:20:21.160 than

03:20:21.460 now

03:20:22.400 okay

03:20:24.580 so you're

03:20:25.640 still kind

03:20:26.020 of

03:20:26.120 feminist

03:20:26.380 but

03:20:26.680 yeah

03:20:27.580 like

03:20:27.880 I think

03:20:28.280 the wage

03:20:28.880 gap

03:20:29.300 like I

03:20:29.640 think the

03:20:29.900 average

03:20:30.160 man

03:20:30.380 makes way

03:20:31.080 more

03:20:31.340 than the

03:20:31.720 average

03:20:32.160 woman 0.99

03:20:32.700 that's

03:20:34.740 why

03:20:34.940 men

03:20:35.520 should

03:20:35.860 pay

03:20:36.300 for

03:20:36.460 the

03:20:36.580 first

03:20:36.860 date

03:20:37.200 because

03:20:37.520 women 1.00

03:20:37.940 have

03:20:38.180 more

03:20:38.360 consequences

03:20:39.060 erroneous

03:20:40.120 a lot

03:20:41.060 of these

03:20:41.420 things

03:20:41.620 I feel

03:20:41.960 like a lot

03:20:42.260 of these

03:20:42.480 things

03:20:42.680 are

03:20:42.840 applicable

03:20:43.280 and I

03:20:43.800 think

03:20:43.940 everyone

03:20:44.260 I mean

03:20:44.940 their

03:20:45.360 experience

03:20:45.920 and their

03:20:46.520 feelings

03:20:46.780 are valid

03:20:47.300 depending

03:20:47.860 on

03:20:48.160 you know

03:20:48.680 don't you

03:20:49.080 think

03:20:49.300 men

03:20:50.040 are paid

03:20:50.760 more

03:20:51.020 because

03:20:51.340 they

03:20:51.820 choose

03:20:52.340 like

03:20:52.540 they tend

03:20:52.860 to choose

03:20:53.300 more

03:20:53.500 STEM jobs

03:20:54.180 and also

03:20:55.320 their ability

03:20:56.900 to be

03:20:57.340 able to work

03:20:57.880 hard

03:20:58.300 definitely

03:20:59.140 not

03:20:59.580 it depends

03:21:00.480 on the

03:21:00.720 culture

03:21:01.000 like in

03:21:01.460 Asia

03:21:01.780 all the

03:21:02.380 women 1.00

03:21:02.600 are in

03:21:03.000 STEM

03:21:03.340 in white

03:21:03.940 collar jobs

03:21:04.640 and doctors

03:21:05.480 and all

03:21:06.040 of that

03:21:06.320 good at

03:21:06.660 math

03:21:07.060 but in

03:21:07.820 America

03:21:08.320 it's like

03:21:08.860 so when I

03:21:09.340 moved to

03:21:09.560 America

03:21:09.800 I learned

03:21:10.280 algebra

03:21:10.600 in fourth

03:21:10.980 grade

03:21:11.200 and I

03:21:11.360 moved to

03:21:11.560 America

03:21:11.760 people are

03:21:12.200 still on

03:21:13.480 multiplication

03:21:13.860 and all

03:21:14.700 the women 0.97

03:21:15.020 acted 1.00

03:21:15.420 dumb 1.00

03:21:15.900 because it 1.00

03:21:16.240 was like

03:21:16.460 a social

03:21:16.800 norm

03:21:17.160 because that

03:21:17.500 was cute

03:21:18.020 so it was

03:21:18.660 really strange

03:21:19.420 no no

03:21:20.780 they're like

03:21:21.140 oh my god

03:21:21.660 I'm so

03:21:22.260 bad

03:21:22.780 and it's

03:21:23.120 popularized

03:21:23.700 in pop

03:21:24.020 culture

03:21:24.500 because it's

03:21:24.960 cute

03:21:25.320 yeah it's

03:21:25.960 cute

03:21:26.340 and I

03:21:26.720 was like

03:21:26.920 what

03:21:27.140 and I

03:21:27.440 was like

03:21:27.700 bullied

03:21:28.200 for being

03:21:28.760 a nerd

03:21:29.180 but there's

03:21:29.740 a lot of

03:21:30.100 cultural

03:21:30.400 differences

03:21:30.880 like in

03:21:31.420 Asia

03:21:31.700 there's a lot

03:21:32.160 more like

03:21:32.640 CEOs that are

03:21:33.720 women and 0.99

03:21:34.280 stuff but

03:21:34.800 like here

03:21:35.220 there's not

03:21:35.880 so I would

03:21:36.340 like to

03:21:36.800 push society

03:21:37.720 to kind of

03:21:38.320 like not

03:21:38.720 discriminate

03:21:39.160 against women 1.00

03:21:39.920 who like

03:21:40.460 but like

03:21:41.120 assuming they

03:21:41.680 don't work

03:21:42.140 as hard

03:21:42.900 in a capitalist

03:21:43.840 market

03:21:44.380 if we were

03:21:45.200 if a company

03:21:46.140 was really

03:21:47.100 truly trying

03:21:47.840 to maximize

03:21:48.660 profits

03:21:49.120 which is what

03:21:49.560 most companies

03:21:50.040 do

03:21:50.420 and it's

03:21:51.200 true that

03:21:51.860 women just 1.00

03:21:52.660 will accept

03:21:53.520 less pay

03:21:54.300 than men

03:21:54.940 then why

03:21:55.600 wouldn't all

03:21:56.140 of these

03:21:56.480 companies

03:21:56.900 hire

03:21:57.380 exclusively

03:21:58.400 women 1.00

03:21:58.880 because then

03:21:59.420 they could

03:21:59.700 just pay

03:22:00.200 77 cents

03:22:01.340 down the

03:22:01.660 dollar

03:22:02.000 and make

03:22:02.840 huge

03:22:03.260 because men

03:22:03.960 believe that

03:22:04.660 women are 1.00

03:22:05.140 less capable 0.97

03:22:05.740 at producing

03:22:06.360 good work

03:22:06.880 when it comes

03:22:07.340 to STEM

03:22:07.860 so like

03:22:08.480 that's a

03:22:08.800 problem

03:22:09.040 there's like

03:22:09.740 these discrepancies

03:22:10.640 between like

03:22:11.180 hiring practices

03:22:12.040 and like

03:22:12.580 the companies

03:22:12.900 I was in all

03:22:13.440 these cozy classes

03:22:14.240 and all these

03:22:14.960 guys are like

03:22:15.580 oh yeah

03:22:15.900 like guys

03:22:16.360 helping you

03:22:16.920 even in my job

03:22:17.880 specifically

03:22:18.520 because I don't

03:22:18.940 really know

03:22:19.300 STEM but when

03:22:19.920 you think about

03:22:20.540 it anybody

03:22:20.980 who's able

03:22:21.580 to maximize

03:22:22.220 and get to

03:22:22.860 like the top

03:22:23.340 like 1-2-3%

03:22:24.700 of their profession

03:22:25.480 to the point

03:22:25.940 where they're

03:22:26.240 making multiple

03:22:26.840 six figures

03:22:27.400 because at that

03:22:28.340 point when you're

03:22:28.840 making six figures

03:22:29.780 you're already

03:22:30.760 considered to be

03:22:31.380 the 1% of

03:22:32.100 American income

03:22:33.260 earners right

03:22:33.820 or like the top

03:22:34.340 3%

03:22:34.980 at least

03:22:35.500 top 3%

03:22:36.560 no it's the top

03:22:37.140 3% actually

03:22:38.160 100,000 per year

03:22:39.360 makes you within

03:22:39.900 the top 3%

03:22:41.120 of income earners

03:22:42.560 that's false

03:22:43.120 no it's not

03:22:43.780 it's not

03:22:44.240 it's not actually

03:22:44.680 it's not

03:22:45.240 no no no

03:22:46.080 look it up

03:22:46.800 because 100k

03:22:47.960 in San Francisco

03:22:48.900 is actually poverty

03:22:49.800 per household

03:22:50.540 yeah I know

03:22:51.060 but when you're

03:22:51.960 talking about America

03:22:54.360 as a whole

03:22:55.340 when you make over

03:22:56.880 100k

03:22:57.740 that is considered

03:22:58.380 the top 3%

03:22:59.700 I thought it was

03:23:00.120 like 10 to 15

03:23:01.180 can we look it up

03:23:02.380 and that is the disparity

03:23:03.380 where women get that wrong 1.00

03:23:04.620 because when they talk

03:23:05.340 about the man

03:23:05.980 that they want

03:23:06.460 oh I want a man 0.85

03:23:07.020 who makes six figures

03:23:07.920 to be this

03:23:08.480 to be that

03:23:09.000 oftentimes women think 1.00

03:23:10.180 that that is a large

03:23:10.980 majority of men

03:23:11.900 to be frank

03:23:12.980 it is in California

03:23:13.800 when you calculate

03:23:14.920 all those factors

03:23:15.600 it's less than 0.5%

03:23:16.980 it's usually less than

03:23:18.180 1% of men

03:23:19.160 who actually make

03:23:19.820 over six figures

03:23:20.660 who are at least

03:23:21.560 like six foot tall

03:23:22.380 for example

03:23:23.000 who have a lot

03:23:24.500 of the other characteristics

03:23:25.420 that women are looking for

03:23:26.600 right so women 1.00

03:23:27.740 honestly people

03:23:28.740 really get that messed up

03:23:30.100 when it comes to

03:23:30.940 income expectations

03:23:32.420 and especially with women

03:23:33.760 who are able to

03:23:34.640 maximize their income

03:23:35.540 on platforms like OnlyFans

03:23:37.140 but I'm telling you 0.99

03:23:38.600 shit is rare 1.00

03:23:39.780 for the average man 1.00

03:23:41.160 to make six figures

03:23:41.880 that is exceedingly rare

03:23:44.140 for him to be able

03:23:45.140 to do that

03:23:45.440 regardless of your location

03:23:46.600 we live in San Francisco

03:23:47.640 wait Kathy

03:23:49.280 are you feminist? 1.00

03:23:51.080 I'm not sure

03:23:52.020 define it

03:23:53.320 okay maybe you're just

03:23:54.220 apolitical

03:23:54.960 you believe in equality

03:23:55.740 between men and women 0.90

03:23:56.800 wait what?

03:23:58.360 feminism

03:23:58.720 you believe in equality

03:24:00.140 between men and women 0.90

03:24:01.220 oh is that what feminism is? 1.00

03:24:02.960 yeah

03:24:03.180 but that doesn't seem

03:24:04.000 to be feminism's goals 1.00

03:24:05.060 right now Pixie

03:24:06.040 I strongly disagree

03:24:07.340 I think a lot of people

03:24:08.800 have a misconception

03:24:09.780 of feminism

03:24:10.400 because you have

03:24:11.660 certain places

03:24:13.160 or people

03:24:13.880 who take like

03:24:14.580 the worst type of women 1.00

03:24:15.820 or extremities of women 0.91

03:24:17.680 and then put them in place

03:24:18.760 and basically make fun of them

03:24:19.980 so is that like

03:24:20.780 a no true Scotsman?

03:24:22.100 no it's not

03:24:22.680 a no true Scotsman

03:24:23.320 oh they're not actually

03:24:24.020 by definition of feminism 0.99

03:24:25.620 you have to believe

03:24:26.500 in equality between women

03:24:27.860 and men

03:24:28.360 if you do not meet

03:24:29.620 that definition

03:24:30.160 you are by definition

03:24:31.220 not a feminist

03:24:31.740 but would you not agree

03:24:32.660 sorry

03:24:33.060 can you look up

03:24:36.020 there are a large majority

03:24:37.720 of women

03:24:38.420 who would claim

03:24:39.020 to be a feminist 1.00

03:24:39.740 who literally

03:24:40.320 when they say

03:24:40.880 like what do you think

03:24:41.700 of men

03:24:42.060 or XYZ

03:24:43.000 it's automatically

03:24:43.820 something derogatory

03:24:45.600 or something negative

03:24:46.720 and a lot of those women 1.00

03:24:48.180 claim those ideas

03:24:50.100 to be based on

03:24:51.000 their principles

03:24:51.580 of feminism

03:24:52.260 so are you saying

03:24:52.860 they're fake feminists 1.00

03:24:53.780 or

03:24:54.240 I think

03:24:55.060 it specifically depends

03:24:56.360 on the context

03:24:56.880 that you're talking about

03:24:57.800 so for example

03:24:58.580 if we're talking about

03:24:59.540 like women 1.00

03:25:00.000 who have gone

03:25:00.480 like through

03:25:00.920 SA

03:25:01.900 they might be talking

03:25:03.060 about like

03:25:03.460 oh yeah

03:25:03.740 like

03:25:04.000 these men

03:25:05.720 in general

03:25:06.380 or these men

03:25:07.060 who's just

03:25:07.420 you know

03:25:07.880 these societal problems

03:25:09.400 indicate a problem

03:25:10.280 with how we raise men

03:25:11.580 for example

03:25:12.260 that's very different

03:25:14.140 than being like

03:25:15.100 oh

03:25:15.460 I think 1.00

03:25:17.320 all men suck 1.00

03:25:18.420 yeah 1.00

03:25:18.720 but I feel like

03:25:19.480 a natural

03:25:20.020 like extension

03:25:21.100 of feminism

03:25:21.860 is this whole mindset

03:25:22.700 of like 1.00

03:25:23.000 fuck the patriarchy 1.00

03:25:24.100 right 1.00

03:25:24.420 and that's one thing

03:25:25.400 before I even knew

03:25:26.140 what feminism was 1.00

03:25:27.260 I'd heard the term 0.99

03:25:28.100 fuck the patriarchy 0.99

03:25:29.240 before I even knew 1.00

03:25:30.160 what the patriarchy was

03:25:30.800 but that's the loudest

03:25:31.400 of the internet

03:25:31.960 I think feminism 1.00

03:25:32.900 is kind of like

03:25:33.840 default

03:25:34.640 in for example

03:25:36.020 LA

03:25:36.600 San Francisco

03:25:37.320 and like

03:25:37.780 a lot of the majority

03:25:39.020 like big cities

03:25:39.940 metropolitan cities

03:25:40.940 such as

03:25:41.640 New York City

03:25:42.580 even Shanghai

03:25:43.560 like

03:25:44.120 I would say

03:25:46.180 even Houston

03:25:46.860 and Dallas

03:25:47.360 like big

03:25:48.060 metropolitan cities

03:25:49.160 like people

03:25:49.760 are default

03:25:50.460 feminists

03:25:51.260 right

03:25:51.540 but my question is

03:25:52.400 the loudest people

03:25:53.360 like portray it

03:25:54.200 as like really negative

03:25:55.160 and I see

03:25:55.880 a lot of people

03:25:57.100 online who are like

03:25:58.040 oh my god 0.89

03:25:58.600 these feminazis 0.90

03:25:59.800 whatever 0.54

03:26:00.100 and I get that

03:26:01.560 so but so

03:26:02.140 okay

03:26:02.440 if the argument

03:26:03.120 of feminism

03:26:03.920 is based on equality

03:26:05.100 then where are we

03:26:06.280 where would you consider

03:26:07.500 us to be

03:26:08.120 unequal in society

03:26:09.280 right now

03:26:10.280 based on the

03:26:10.960 United States

03:26:11.700 of America

03:26:12.260 and where we

03:26:13.280 currently are

03:26:13.900 right now

03:26:14.380 what would you

03:26:14.880 consider to be

03:26:15.520 unequal

03:26:16.120 unbalanced

03:26:16.620 let me add to that

03:26:17.560 too

03:26:17.760 so you were saying

03:26:19.000 feminism is about 1.00

03:26:19.920 men and women

03:26:20.740 are equal

03:26:21.200 equal rights

03:26:21.940 right

03:26:22.400 not just equal

03:26:24.680 rights

03:26:24.980 it's a little bit

03:26:25.440 more than that

03:26:26.020 but generally

03:26:26.920 speaking

03:26:27.360 sure

03:26:27.680 okay

03:26:28.320 but would you

03:26:29.240 do you think

03:26:29.820 that women 0.97

03:26:30.240 don't have

03:26:31.060 equal rights

03:26:31.840 in the US

03:26:33.640 or in western

03:26:34.740 countries

03:26:35.140 what is it

03:26:35.740 I think in

03:26:36.720 terms of

03:26:37.940 okay what do you

03:26:38.600 define as a right

03:26:39.180 let's start there

03:26:39.700 do you mean like

03:26:40.160 pure constitutional

03:26:40.940 rights

03:26:41.380 I think women 1.00

03:26:42.020 and men

03:26:42.340 have

03:26:42.560 reproduction rights

03:26:43.280 men have

03:26:43.740 more

03:26:44.380 we can't just

03:26:45.060 get our tubes

03:26:45.660 tied

03:26:45.840 men actually

03:26:47.060 have no

03:26:48.300 reproductive rights

03:26:49.260 that's not true

03:26:50.420 you guys can get

03:26:51.900 a vasectomy

03:26:52.520 that is a

03:26:53.140 reproductive right 0.95

03:26:53.880 that's a

03:26:54.220 reproductive right 0.95

03:26:54.980 no reproductive

03:26:56.020 right has to do

03:26:57.120 with the children

03:26:58.580 that's a consummation

03:26:59.880 right

03:27:00.160 no

03:27:00.580 that's what is it

03:27:02.320 wait hold on

03:27:02.920 let me ask you a question

03:27:03.760 if you were to get

03:27:04.760 pregnant and you

03:27:05.860 decided that you

03:27:06.520 didn't want to keep

03:27:07.660 the baby

03:27:08.160 would the person

03:27:09.040 who impregnated

03:27:09.820 you have a choice

03:27:10.840 over your ability

03:27:12.340 to get rid of

03:27:13.780 the baby or not

03:27:14.400 psychologically

03:27:14.920 but no

03:27:16.000 not physically

03:27:16.620 right

03:27:17.160 no but a

03:27:18.100 reproductive right 0.95

03:27:18.760 has to do with

03:27:19.440 your body's

03:27:20.900 reproduction

03:27:21.340 the fact that

03:27:22.260 you can get

03:27:22.700 a vasectomy

03:27:23.420 is an example

03:27:24.080 are you comparing

03:27:24.720 vasectomies

03:27:25.740 and abortion

03:27:26.420 no I'm saying

03:27:27.920 I'm saying

03:27:28.480 you're being like

03:27:29.360 men have zero

03:27:30.000 reproductive rights

03:27:30.720 and I'm like

03:27:31.060 that's not true

03:27:31.600 here's one

03:27:32.220 reproductive right 0.95

03:27:32.980 that men have

03:27:33.640 I feel like that's

03:27:34.320 a contraceptive right

03:27:35.200 not a reproductive right 0.84

03:27:36.320 contraceptive

03:27:37.780 I guess so

03:27:38.620 women are 1.00

03:27:41.080 women are 1.00

03:27:41.880 legally

03:27:42.500 hold on

03:27:43.360 hold on

03:27:43.880 stop

03:27:44.280 men can get 0.70

03:27:46.340 vasectomies

03:27:46.900 women can 1.00

03:27:47.820 sterilize themselves

03:27:49.080 too

03:27:49.520 not necessarily

03:27:51.120 you literally

03:27:51.660 have to be

03:27:52.340 oh no

03:27:53.020 you would have to be

03:27:54.320 over a certain age

03:27:55.860 with approval

03:27:56.680 by a husband

03:27:57.580 that is not true

03:27:58.840 yes it depends

03:27:59.800 on the state

03:28:00.260 and on the hospital

03:28:01.200 we can search it up

03:28:02.640 right now

03:28:03.160 there is no law

03:28:03.840 that says

03:28:04.500 so many of my friends

03:28:04.520 try to get their tubes

03:28:05.280 high they can't

03:28:06.040 that is not true

03:28:07.020 that is just

03:28:07.740 that's some myth

03:28:09.040 that feminists 1.00

03:28:09.840 have invented

03:28:10.440 is it possible

03:28:11.580 that some doctor

03:28:12.520 was being

03:28:13.220 sexist in some way

03:28:15.240 and he said

03:28:15.600 are you sure

03:28:16.280 your husband's

03:28:16.820 okay with this

03:28:17.320 it's possible

03:28:18.160 but if you're

03:28:19.380 a woman 0.57

03:28:19.700 and you want

03:28:20.420 to get your

03:28:20.920 tubes tied

03:28:21.600 you can

03:28:22.760 the fact that

03:28:23.640 hospitals can

03:28:24.560 literally make

03:28:25.280 it a policy

03:28:25.880 for themselves

03:28:26.600 to say

03:28:26.980 we will not

03:28:27.640 give up

03:28:28.040 tie a woman's 0.99

03:28:28.860 tubes

03:28:29.160 unless if she

03:28:29.860 has

03:28:30.200 private hospitals

03:28:31.860 can do what

03:28:32.340 they want

03:28:32.840 okay but

03:28:33.360 well

03:28:33.860 private hospitals

03:28:34.820 aren't allowed

03:28:35.380 wait wait wait

03:28:36.080 private hospitals

03:28:37.420 aren't allowed

03:28:37.920 to discriminate

03:28:38.400 based on race

03:28:39.200 for example

03:28:39.940 they're not

03:28:40.380 allowed to say

03:28:40.780 we're not

03:28:41.060 going to take 0.99

03:28:41.340 black patients 0.99

03:28:42.020 yeah because

03:28:42.900 they have a

03:28:43.380 constitutional requirement

03:28:44.880 but they're not

03:28:45.380 constitutionally required

03:28:46.940 to give anybody

03:28:48.160 who wants

03:28:48.820 one sec

03:28:49.740 quite comparing

03:28:50.600 sf to the united

03:28:51.620 states

03:28:52.340 the u.s national

03:28:53.800 median income

03:28:54.600 is thirty two

03:28:55.420 thousand dollars

03:28:56.300 per year

03:28:56.840 in twenty nineteen

03:28:58.080 no too many

03:28:59.460 people make over

03:29:00.320 one hundred

03:29:01.060 comma oh oh

03:29:02.140 slash year

03:29:03.180 and in order to

03:29:03.960 be in the top

03:29:04.600 one percent of

03:29:05.460 earners you have

03:29:06.200 to make six

03:29:06.980 hundred and fifty

03:29:07.860 thousand dollars

03:29:08.880 per year

03:29:09.520 reality check

03:29:11.020 yeah a hundred

03:29:12.060 k is like top

03:29:12.980 ten to fifteen

03:29:13.860 it's not ten

03:29:14.480 fifteen it's top

03:29:15.280 three at least

03:29:16.000 minimum

03:29:16.340 so but okay

03:29:17.440 what what rights

03:29:18.500 do men have

03:29:19.940 that women don't 1.00

03:29:20.580 the only one

03:29:21.300 that i can think

03:29:22.140 of and i think

03:29:23.780 this it depends

03:29:24.460 on your city

03:29:25.060 but men can go

03:29:27.020 topless in public

03:29:27.720 that's the only

03:29:29.220 right i can think

03:29:30.040 of that men

03:29:30.820 have that women 1.00

03:29:31.800 don't

03:29:32.080 i wish

03:29:32.780 the fact that

03:29:33.980 hospitals can have

03:29:35.060 a private policy

03:29:35.800 stating oh no

03:29:36.660 we're not gonna

03:29:37.320 allow a woman to 1.00

03:29:38.360 get sterilized

03:29:39.120 unless if she has

03:29:39.760 like permission

03:29:40.280 from her husband

03:29:41.080 is already showing

03:29:42.300 a vast difference

03:29:43.220 between how

03:29:43.880 they're treating

03:29:44.540 men and how

03:29:45.140 they're treating

03:29:45.500 women 1.00

03:29:45.820 they can have

03:29:46.280 the same thing

03:29:46.880 for men

03:29:47.320 they could

03:29:47.820 a hospital

03:29:48.400 could have

03:29:48.920 a policy

03:29:49.340 saying okay

03:29:49.820 we won't

03:29:50.300 give a man 0.50

03:29:50.760 a vasectomy 0.80

03:29:51.260 i'm not saying

03:29:51.860 men who got

03:29:52.740 give vasectomies

03:29:53.920 and my women 0.99

03:29:54.500 friends who don't

03:29:55.180 want children

03:29:55.660 can we also

03:29:56.680 i i think

03:29:57.680 i'm not sure

03:29:58.680 on the procedure

03:29:59.960 of getting

03:30:00.740 a tubal legation

03:30:01.820 i think it's

03:30:02.260 what it's called

03:30:02.660 and there's also

03:30:03.360 can you also

03:30:04.020 get a hysterectomy

03:30:04.860 i don't

03:30:05.220 there might be

03:30:05.800 a couple different

03:30:06.200 things but

03:30:06.940 we can also

03:30:07.620 agree that

03:30:08.160 i i believe

03:30:09.380 it's a more

03:30:10.180 invasive procedure

03:30:11.840 to get your

03:30:12.340 tube side

03:30:12.760 than to get

03:30:13.200 a vasectomy

03:30:13.700 that doesn't

03:30:14.200 excuse

03:30:14.600 so that could

03:30:15.380 be the reason

03:30:16.520 that could be

03:30:17.420 related to

03:30:18.180 perhaps the

03:30:19.100 further

03:30:19.520 hoops that

03:30:21.600 women might 1.00

03:30:22.040 have to jump

03:30:22.520 through in order

03:30:22.980 to undergo

03:30:23.560 like a more

03:30:24.300 potentially dangerous

03:30:25.200 and invasive

03:30:25.760 procedure

03:30:26.180 let's see if

03:30:26.660 we can agree

03:30:27.180 on this basis

03:30:27.940 right

03:30:28.320 okay

03:30:28.640 there should

03:30:29.080 be no

03:30:29.500 there should

03:30:30.640 be no

03:30:31.000 hospital

03:30:31.440 that should

03:30:32.180 be allowed

03:30:32.500 to say

03:30:32.920 okay if

03:30:33.780 you're a

03:30:34.000 man in

03:30:34.500 your early

03:30:34.980 20s

03:30:35.500 we're gonna

03:30:36.020 you know

03:30:36.600 help you

03:30:37.200 get a vasectomy

03:30:37.800 or you can

03:30:38.200 get a vasectomy

03:30:38.760 versus

03:30:39.360 oh if you're

03:30:40.460 a woman 0.57

03:30:40.840 we're not

03:30:41.560 gonna allow

03:30:41.980 you to do

03:30:42.500 it unless

03:30:42.900 if you get

03:30:43.240 permission

03:30:43.620 by your

03:30:44.080 husband

03:30:44.380 and if

03:30:44.800 you do

03:30:44.980 not have

03:30:45.260 a husband

03:30:45.640 you're

03:30:45.920 kind of 1.00

03:30:46.220 fucked 0.99

03:30:46.360 private 1.00

03:30:46.740 companies

03:30:47.180 get to do

03:30:47.600 what private

03:30:47.940 companies

03:30:48.260 want to do

03:30:48.760 okay but

03:30:49.360 you can argue

03:30:49.820 that private

03:30:50.240 company

03:30:50.540 okay let me finish

03:30:51.500 my sentence

03:30:51.860 you asked me a question

03:30:52.700 let me finish my sentence

03:30:53.620 no okay

03:30:55.260 no but here's a point

03:31:02.260 you shouldn't be able to

03:31:03.220 discriminate on the

03:31:03.920 basis of sex

03:31:04.940 right we should

03:31:06.100 agree that that's

03:31:07.200 something that shouldn't

03:31:08.080 be discriminated

03:31:08.700 against

03:31:09.000 I don't think

03:31:09.480 I don't think the

03:31:09.660 like in the

03:31:10.540 American

03:31:11.000 does this

03:31:12.540 isn't the 19th

03:31:15.020 amendment

03:31:15.300 or

03:31:15.840 it wouldn't be under

03:31:16.500 the 19th if anything

03:31:17.400 it'd be under like

03:31:18.060 the 14th

03:31:19.000 I think

03:31:19.840 let's search it up

03:31:20.880 right now

03:31:21.160 it's a lower discrimination

03:31:21.880 I think that they can

03:31:23.440 I think they can

03:31:24.460 discriminate

03:31:24.940 yeah actually I know

03:31:26.020 they can

03:31:26.420 so why don't we do this

03:31:27.920 let's just concede

03:31:28.760 let's just concede

03:31:29.520 that all hospitals

03:31:30.900 across the country

03:31:31.980 are just denying

03:31:33.000 women the right 0.98

03:31:34.500 to get tubal 0.99

03:31:35.300 legations

03:31:35.780 or get sterilized

03:31:37.020 let's just

03:31:37.480 what else

03:31:38.200 what do you mean

03:31:39.540 what else

03:31:39.940 okay

03:31:40.220 when I say

03:31:41.320 when I say rights

03:31:41.760 like

03:31:41.980 like laws

03:31:44.100 no no

03:31:44.740 I think

03:31:45.140 in modern day

03:31:46.700 America

03:31:47.140 most discrimination

03:31:48.240 comes from like

03:31:49.900 social norms

03:31:50.620 rather than laws

03:31:51.560 you asked me

03:31:52.460 to give you

03:31:53.180 some examples

03:31:54.000 of unfair treatment

03:31:54.780 but I do think

03:31:55.720 that America

03:31:56.500 has come a very

03:31:57.560 long way

03:31:58.220 and yeah

03:31:59.400 I think most of

03:32:00.200 discrimination is now

03:32:01.040 social rather than

03:32:01.820 legal

03:32:02.140 okay so

03:32:02.960 sure let's talk

03:32:03.960 about social

03:32:04.420 what are

03:32:05.160 some ways

03:32:06.480 in which

03:32:06.980 women don't have 1.00

03:32:08.560 equal rights

03:32:09.600 socially

03:32:10.400 or okay

03:32:11.280 so there has been

03:32:12.600 multitude of studies

03:32:13.920 showing that

03:32:14.920 when women 1.00

03:32:16.260 or men

03:32:16.860 have the same

03:32:17.860 qualifications

03:32:19.020 if there is a

03:32:20.260 woman name 0.72

03:32:20.680 on the resume

03:32:21.240 they are less

03:32:21.920 likely to get

03:32:22.520 picked

03:32:22.800 rather than

03:32:23.380 like a male

03:32:23.800 name

03:32:24.180 well number

03:32:24.920 one I feel

03:32:25.440 like that is

03:32:26.060 number one

03:32:26.800 with what's

03:32:27.600 what's it called

03:32:28.240 when

03:32:28.920 I forget the

03:32:30.320 name of it

03:32:30.680 when they're

03:32:31.100 like literally

03:32:31.540 selecting

03:32:32.140 women 1.00

03:32:32.860 or literally

03:32:33.520 selecting

03:32:34.120 affirmative

03:32:34.540 action

03:32:35.700 with affirmative

03:32:36.280 action

03:32:36.700 it's like a

03:32:37.180 band-aid

03:32:37.720 though

03:32:38.060 yeah but

03:32:38.940 regardless

03:32:39.400 I think at

03:32:39.860 the end of

03:32:40.200 the day

03:32:40.380 it comes down

03:32:40.880 to who can

03:32:41.540 get the job

03:32:42.120 done

03:32:42.480 when you look

03:32:43.320 at it

03:32:43.560 right

03:32:43.760 and I've

03:32:44.080 seen this

03:32:44.340 from first

03:32:44.820 hand experience

03:32:45.580 a woman 0.57

03:32:46.020 who walks

03:32:46.600 into a job

03:32:47.140 interview

03:32:47.500 where the

03:32:48.220 person tells

03:32:48.780 them this

03:32:49.060 is what

03:32:49.380 you're gonna

03:32:49.700 get paid

03:32:50.420 a willing

03:32:51.180 probably gonna

03:32:51.980 walk out of

03:32:52.400 that interview

03:32:52.800 and be like 1.00

03:32:53.120 okay shit 1.00

03:32:53.680 that's what 0.99

03:32:54.000 I'm gonna

03:32:54.220 get paid

03:32:54.740 a man

03:32:55.600 who walks

03:32:56.300 into that

03:32:56.640 interview

03:32:56.980 who's qualified

03:32:57.920 who knows

03:32:58.420 his worth

03:32:58.900 when they

03:32:59.240 tell him

03:32:59.660 that figure

03:33:00.180 will say

03:33:00.940 no I know

03:33:02.300 what I am

03:33:02.900 worth

03:33:03.200 and that

03:33:03.640 is a

03:33:04.200 personality

03:33:05.180 characteristic

03:33:06.100 and at the

03:33:06.580 end of the

03:33:06.900 day that

03:33:07.220 all factors

03:33:08.520 in to this

03:33:09.700 wage gap

03:33:10.580 disparity

03:33:11.160 that we're

03:33:11.500 talking about

03:33:12.180 yes

03:33:12.800 and women

03:33:13.460 are trained

03:33:13.940 to be okay

03:33:14.680 like if

03:33:15.380 an employer

03:33:16.060 asks you

03:33:16.760 what did

03:33:17.440 you get

03:33:17.640 paid

03:33:17.860 at your

03:33:18.060 last job

03:33:18.580 women tend 0.99

03:33:19.120 to tell

03:33:19.520 the truth

03:33:20.000 while men

03:33:20.920 tend to

03:33:21.540 say that

03:33:22.380 they got

03:33:22.660 paid 20%

03:33:23.400 more

03:33:23.900 but now

03:33:24.900 the wage

03:33:25.440 gap is

03:33:25.920 slowly

03:33:26.440 diminishing

03:33:27.040 and closing

03:33:27.660 but right

03:33:28.380 now it's

03:33:29.040 still not

03:33:29.860 there yet

03:33:30.460 but we're

03:33:30.860 like on

03:33:31.300 the way

03:33:31.580 actually if

03:33:31.880 you adjust

03:33:32.900 it's pretty

03:33:33.560 much

03:33:33.900 also

03:33:34.900 also

03:33:35.440 it's gone

03:33:36.060 it's gone

03:33:36.880 if you

03:33:39.660 account for

03:33:40.960 all variables

03:33:41.860 if you

03:33:42.360 adjust for

03:33:43.040 all variables

03:33:43.840 taking time

03:33:44.560 off for

03:33:44.880 children

03:33:45.360 for example

03:33:46.000 when you

03:33:46.300 account for

03:33:46.720 the fact

03:33:47.080 that women 0.97

03:33:47.480 are far

03:33:47.860 more

03:33:48.000 like what

03:33:48.660 woman is 1.00

03:33:49.200 willing to

03:33:49.660 work 80

03:33:50.340 hours per

03:33:51.040 week to

03:33:51.640 be able to

03:33:52.260 get into the

03:33:52.760 position of

03:33:53.280 other men

03:33:53.780 men that is

03:33:54.540 naturally their

03:33:55.400 proclivity

03:33:55.880 they are based

03:33:56.880 on competition

03:33:57.640 how can I

03:33:58.660 get ahead of

03:33:59.420 the men next

03:34:00.080 to me

03:34:00.320 women don't 1.00

03:34:00.900 naturally have

03:34:01.620 that mindset

03:34:02.160 unless they

03:34:03.040 are an

03:34:03.460 exceedingly

03:34:04.220 rare type

03:34:04.960 of woman

03:34:05.420 I strongly

03:34:06.280 disagree

03:34:06.720 but then on

03:34:07.360 top of that

03:34:07.860 you can make

03:34:08.260 the argument

03:34:08.680 of like oh

03:34:09.460 you know

03:34:10.200 who's pressured

03:34:11.120 more to

03:34:11.740 take care of

03:34:12.240 children and

03:34:12.700 to stay at

03:34:13.100 home

03:34:13.360 it's always

03:34:13.900 women 1.00

03:34:14.080 I don't

03:34:16.960 think you can

03:34:17.760 make that

03:34:18.060 claim

03:34:18.400 I don't

03:34:18.720 think it's

03:34:19.020 like if

03:34:19.340 you look

03:34:19.780 okay the

03:34:20.440 argument that's

03:34:21.000 a natural

03:34:21.300 proclivity

03:34:21.820 comes from

03:34:23.500 like okay

03:34:24.000 civilization

03:34:24.860 post-agricultural

03:34:25.700 revolution which

03:34:26.400 has been like

03:34:26.780 the last 10,000

03:34:27.420 years and

03:34:28.260 that is even

03:34:29.040 by itself

03:34:29.540 like very

03:34:29.960 tumultuous

03:34:30.460 because we

03:34:31.000 look at oh

03:34:31.620 men gained

03:34:32.560 supply or

03:34:33.400 control of

03:34:34.040 the food

03:34:34.300 supply at

03:34:34.700 that time

03:34:35.160 so you can

03:34:35.580 argue that

03:34:36.120 like when

03:34:36.460 men have

03:34:36.860 control of

03:34:37.260 the food

03:34:37.500 supply that's

03:34:38.520 how like

03:34:39.080 environmental

03:34:39.460 factors end

03:34:40.320 up creating

03:34:40.700 society but

03:34:41.640 for the past

03:34:42.160 100,000 years

03:34:43.100 before that when

03:34:43.860 we were nomadic

03:34:44.440 societies things

03:34:45.520 are a lot more

03:34:46.080 egalitarian in

03:34:46.720 nature which

03:34:47.260 makes sense we

03:34:47.940 hunted in

03:34:48.480 groups we

03:34:49.100 took care of

03:34:49.820 children in

03:34:50.380 groups there's

03:34:51.180 a reason

03:34:51.600 there was

03:34:52.400 women who 0.99

03:34:52.980 were gathering

03:34:53.560 and men

03:34:53.980 who were

03:34:54.380 hunting

03:34:54.800 but doesn't

03:34:55.520 mean one

03:34:55.920 is more

03:34:56.320 valuable than

03:34:56.900 the other

03:34:57.300 no no no

03:34:58.580 but it's

03:34:59.160 showing that

03:34:59.520 they have

03:34:59.760 different places

03:35:00.360 equal but

03:35:01.240 separate they

03:35:01.920 serve different

03:35:02.660 purposes within

03:35:03.760 society

03:35:04.260 okay but here's

03:35:05.480 the deal the

03:35:05.940 idea that's

03:35:06.460 like no women 1.00

03:35:07.060 only gathered

03:35:07.800 and men only

03:35:08.580 hunted that's not

03:35:09.440 true either there

03:35:10.100 was a great

03:35:10.700 overlap we can

03:35:11.540 search it right

03:35:12.040 now

03:35:12.140 some overlap

03:35:12.580 but great

03:35:13.680 overlap

03:35:14.200 probability then why

03:35:15.280 is that literally

03:35:16.000 a thing where

03:35:16.560 they said women 0.99

03:35:17.240 were gatherers

03:35:17.880 and men were

03:35:18.220 hunters were

03:35:18.760 they lying

03:35:19.240 way back then

03:35:20.260 well no

03:35:20.860 that is what

03:35:23.440 happened

03:35:23.780 because the

03:35:24.820 argument post

03:35:25.620 1800s when

03:35:26.640 this was first

03:35:27.240 brought up was

03:35:28.060 this idea that

03:35:28.680 women are too 1.00

03:35:29.300 frail and too 1.00

03:35:29.980 weak to hunt

03:35:30.640 so therefore

03:35:31.280 they must have

03:35:31.840 only been

03:35:32.340 gatherers but

03:35:33.440 if we look at

03:35:34.160 let's say like

03:35:34.740 the recent like

03:35:35.300 bone studies

03:35:35.980 basically where

03:35:36.680 we look and

03:35:37.140 re-examine the

03:35:37.760 corpses and

03:35:38.280 stuff hey guess

03:35:39.060 what a lot more

03:35:39.860 are women than 1.00

03:35:40.360 we previously

03:35:40.920 thought and

03:35:41.760 which makes

03:35:42.280 sense because

03:35:42.880 the way that

03:35:43.340 we hunted

03:35:43.820 wasn't through

03:35:44.420 brute force and

03:35:45.260 strength it was

03:35:45.940 through literally

03:35:46.500 walking animals

03:35:47.740 until they

03:35:48.240 collapsed out of

03:35:49.000 exhaustion and

03:35:49.700 then reaping the

03:35:50.440 meat

03:35:50.860 out of that

03:35:51.320 oh that's how

03:35:51.380 they did it

03:35:51.760 back in the day

03:35:52.140 I didn't

03:35:52.400 but also modern

03:35:54.320 society because

03:35:55.480 men aren't like 1.00

03:35:56.500 just doing blue

03:35:57.920 collar jobs I

03:35:58.620 would agree if

03:35:59.260 we're in a blue

03:35:59.880 collar society it's

03:36:00.920 just farmers it's

03:36:01.700 just hunters it's

03:36:02.580 just construction

03:36:03.480 workers like I

03:36:04.240 would agree that

03:36:04.800 yeah men should do 0.63

03:36:05.520 these jobs but

03:36:06.300 when it comes to

03:36:06.800 like white collar

03:36:07.440 jobs like I think

03:36:08.320 women are just as 1.00

03:36:09.300 capable and

03:36:10.060 intelligent and

03:36:11.000 true but

03:36:11.720 that's really

03:36:12.980 sexist of you to 0.59

03:36:14.240 say that men

03:36:15.260 should do the

03:36:16.220 dangerous dirty

03:36:17.280 difficult work

03:36:17.780 I think men 0.84

03:36:18.240 are on average

03:36:19.040 bigger muscle

03:36:20.240 mass

03:36:20.500 would you say

03:36:21.560 like can you

03:36:22.560 name many women

03:36:23.600 who you know in

03:36:24.240 your friend group

03:36:24.780 who are willing to

03:36:25.340 work 80 hours per

03:36:26.460 week on something

03:36:27.300 I could name

03:36:27.900 several men who I

03:36:29.080 know who I who

03:36:30.520 are in my circle

03:36:32.060 who do that or

03:36:33.180 who aspire to do

03:36:34.180 that versus most

03:36:35.000 women were 1.00

03:36:36.040 exhausted

03:36:36.440 after doing an

03:36:37.540 average 40 hour

03:36:38.500 week that's why

03:36:39.260 most women are 1.00

03:36:39.760 going to only

03:36:40.240 fans because they

03:36:41.100 can't even work a 1.00

03:36:41.820 fucking restaurant 1.00

03:36:42.500 job they can't 1.00

03:36:43.440 even work a 40

03:36:44.240 hour per week

03:36:45.120 job so they go

03:36:46.360 and they do

03:36:46.860 only fans and

03:36:47.780 yet we're here

03:36:48.360 fighting about

03:36:49.180 women's natural 1.00

03:36:50.100 work ethic and

03:36:51.220 proclivity to be

03:36:52.040 able to achieve

03:36:52.580 the same results

03:36:53.220 I mean you just

03:36:54.160 assume that

03:36:54.920 put in the word

03:36:55.860 you're assuming

03:36:56.460 that I only do

03:36:57.600 like only fans

03:36:58.620 you do other

03:36:59.820 things as well

03:37:00.380 because you

03:37:00.800 stated it I'm

03:37:01.500 talking about on

03:37:02.200 the balance of

03:37:02.660 probability for

03:37:03.360 most women 0.99

03:37:03.920 I know so many 0.94

03:37:04.760 lazy men as well

03:37:05.740 like you know 0.97

03:37:06.280 the men like

03:37:06.940 if you look at

03:37:08.140 the stats of the

03:37:09.420 norm like there

03:37:10.240 are way more men

03:37:10.840 who are homeless

03:37:11.540 who are unemployed

03:37:12.960 and there are also

03:37:13.720 way more men who

03:37:14.400 are billionaires

03:37:14.980 and I think

03:37:16.340 there's just a

03:37:17.520 lot more men on 0.75

03:37:18.280 average who like

03:37:18.960 do everything but

03:37:19.880 it's not represent

03:37:20.760 doesn't represent

03:37:22.000 the whole and

03:37:22.480 same with like

03:37:22.920 women I think

03:37:23.640 women more have 1.00

03:37:24.320 like a normal

03:37:24.860 curve where a

03:37:25.680 lot of people

03:37:26.060 work like maybe

03:37:26.760 average 40 hours

03:37:27.700 but there are

03:37:28.240 people who work

03:37:28.860 more and there

03:37:29.240 are people who

03:37:29.640 work less

03:37:30.040 but we're talking

03:37:30.900 on the balance

03:37:31.440 of probability

03:37:32.020 we're not talking

03:37:32.760 about the

03:37:33.160 yeah the probability

03:37:33.900 of it is that

03:37:35.140 there are a lot

03:37:35.680 more men

03:37:36.160 standards which

03:37:36.980 in turn relate

03:37:38.400 to people's

03:37:38.920 natural proclivities

03:37:40.320 I don't think

03:37:40.880 it's necessarily

03:37:41.420 natural you might

03:37:43.100 have like an

03:37:43.860 excellent group

03:37:44.560 of friends who

03:37:45.120 are very

03:37:45.500 extremely hard

03:37:46.180 working but I

03:37:46.980 know a lot of

03:37:47.600 people who are

03:37:48.240 just unemployed

03:37:49.160 Joe Dirt

03:37:51.100 believing men

03:37:51.940 and women are 1.00

03:37:52.660 equal is crazy

03:37:53.780 who's Joe Dirt

03:37:55.880 yo Bender the

03:37:57.020 offender thank you

03:37:58.340 so I do think

03:37:59.360 that there are

03:37:59.840 men who work

03:38:00.360 I think it's

03:38:00.900 you Pixie I

03:38:01.620 think you're

03:38:02.060 Joe Dirt

03:38:03.160 I'm Joe Dirt

03:38:04.240 that's what he

03:38:04.960 said he's

03:38:05.500 saying you're

03:38:05.960 Joe Dirt

03:38:06.360 he's a character

03:38:08.020 from movie and

03:38:08.740 he had like a

03:38:09.400 mullet and so

03:38:10.300 they're trying to

03:38:10.800 say that

03:38:11.300 now you have

03:38:12.660 beautiful hair

03:38:13.660 and it's just

03:38:14.920 blonde in color

03:38:15.740 these are actually

03:38:16.880 bangs

03:38:17.740 you look stunning

03:38:21.000 yeah you look

03:38:21.820 stunning they're

03:38:22.380 just it's just a

03:38:24.280 movie reference

03:38:24.920 and it's one of

03:38:26.700 my favorite movies

03:38:27.740 with your sample

03:38:30.060 size of men

03:38:30.960 that you know

03:38:31.660 I think they're

03:38:32.340 probably really

03:38:32.760 excellent people

03:38:33.480 because you're

03:38:33.820 like an excellent

03:38:34.320 woman as well

03:38:35.120 but I do think

03:38:36.640 that there are

03:38:37.300 an equal amount

03:38:38.260 of men who

03:38:39.820 work zero hours

03:38:41.060 per week and

03:38:41.780 just like what

03:38:42.560 play video games

03:38:43.420 like I do

03:38:44.280 know a lot

03:38:44.680 of unemployed

03:38:45.180 men

03:38:45.660 and I think

03:38:46.240 a lot of

03:38:46.500 this is the

03:38:46.940 product of

03:38:47.320 the times

03:38:47.840 right but

03:38:48.320 I'm talking

03:38:48.800 about like the

03:38:49.520 natural like

03:38:50.400 inclinations of

03:38:51.200 people on a

03:38:51.760 biological and

03:38:52.680 like psychological

03:38:53.360 level there are

03:38:54.400 reasons that are

03:38:55.580 so do you think

03:38:56.120 it's more nature

03:38:57.000 or nurture

03:38:57.820 no I think it's

03:38:58.560 nature like I

03:38:59.500 believe that

03:38:59.900 nurture has an

03:39:01.280 effect but I

03:39:02.060 believe at the

03:39:02.720 end of the day

03:39:03.380 evolutionary psychology

03:39:04.500 plays such a

03:39:05.160 huge huge factor

03:39:06.240 how much what

03:39:07.160 percentage do you

03:39:07.840 think like nature

03:39:08.880 takes over compared

03:39:10.040 to nurture I mean

03:39:11.060 if you're raising

03:39:11.860 a certain environment

03:39:12.600 so for me for

03:39:13.400 example I when

03:39:14.520 you look at my

03:39:15.580 nurture I should

03:39:16.880 be a failure I

03:39:17.640 should be this I

03:39:18.260 should be that and

03:39:18.920 I'm not but I

03:39:19.800 could be an

03:39:20.260 outlier I know I'm

03:39:21.180 an exception exactly

03:39:22.160 and here's the

03:39:22.680 thing there are

03:39:23.140 exceptions to the

03:39:23.900 rule but people

03:39:24.420 try to use their

03:39:25.040 personal experience

03:39:26.140 to be able to

03:39:26.720 denote what is

03:39:27.620 actually going on

03:39:28.480 in society when to

03:39:29.400 be honest you're

03:39:30.080 not the world

03:39:30.840 doesn't revolve

03:39:31.460 around you it's

03:39:32.620 not just because

03:39:33.500 this is my personal

03:39:34.420 experience doesn't

03:39:35.260 necessarily mean that

03:39:36.260 that is how society

03:39:37.100 functions or runs

03:39:38.240 yeah and I'm

03:39:39.500 self-aware enough

03:39:40.140 to be able to

03:39:40.620 realize that like

03:39:41.860 um I think about

03:39:43.120 like your conclusion

03:39:44.120 and assumption with

03:39:44.940 OnlyFans girls too 0.99

03:39:46.000 though like no I

03:39:47.480 know because I do

03:39:48.240 on a balance of

03:39:49.000 probability most

03:39:49.880 OnlyFans girls are 1.00

03:39:50.900 going to number one

03:39:51.660 affect their job

03:39:52.560 prospects because AI

03:39:54.300 is also being used

03:39:55.940 to determine job

03:39:56.900 candidates for a lot

03:39:57.820 of companies right

03:39:58.580 now and they are on

03:39:59.920 like a 0.01%

03:40:01.920 accuracy and speed

03:40:03.320 going through your

03:40:04.680 history so that's

03:40:05.600 number one and that's

03:40:06.280 just going to become

03:40:06.780 more and more prevalent

03:40:07.580 number two a lot of

03:40:09.000 guys aren't going to

03:40:09.740 want to date somebody

03:40:10.660 who is being on

03:40:11.620 OnlyFans some men

03:40:13.000 will but a lot of

03:40:14.100 men you are limiting

03:40:15.140 your dating prospects

03:40:16.320 I feel like I

03:40:17.480 attracted a lot more

03:40:18.780 people who are open

03:40:19.800 minded when the type

03:40:20.780 of men you'd want to

03:40:21.520 date though or the

03:40:22.280 type of men who are

03:40:22.960 into you type of men

03:40:24.620 that I want to date

03:40:25.400 but you also look at

03:40:26.180 billionaires the type

03:40:27.600 of men I would want

03:40:28.660 to date are also

03:40:29.480 attracted to me because

03:40:30.620 they are also more

03:40:31.440 open minded then

03:40:32.160 why aren't you

03:40:32.420 dating them she is

03:40:32.960 dating I am dating

03:40:34.120 them okay oh you're

03:40:35.860 the single one over

03:40:36.640 hearing I know but

03:40:37.860 I'm saying if you

03:40:38.700 look at billionaires

03:40:39.720 though for most

03:40:40.660 women generally 0.98

03:40:42.060 speaking a lot of

03:40:43.360 guys and for you I

03:40:44.500 can tell you are like

03:40:45.580 she said you're an

03:40:46.100 exceptional person you're

03:40:47.080 obviously very intelligent

03:40:47.920 I don't think I'm

03:40:48.460 necessarily that

03:40:49.100 exception to the norm

03:40:50.000 though like I know a

03:40:50.800 lot of girls who 1.00

03:40:51.520 graduated from college

03:40:52.600 and they have like a

03:40:53.720 high she graduates from

03:40:55.020 USC dude that's a way

03:40:56.080 higher ranking than

03:40:56.700 UCSB like there's so

03:40:58.480 many women yeah yeah 1.00

03:41:00.100 what's your degree um

03:41:01.600 art and design oh wow

03:41:03.380 I just feel like

03:41:04.260 there's a lot of

03:41:04.820 women who literally 1.00

03:41:06.020 they're just kidding

03:41:07.020 they put all of their

03:41:08.140 value into their body

03:41:09.160 being a commodity and

03:41:10.120 that is their only plan

03:41:11.100 I mean I think most

03:41:12.020 people are aware that

03:41:13.300 the body does decay but

03:41:15.140 then there's AI you know

03:41:16.140 if you're already an

03:41:16.920 influencer they can just

03:41:17.780 keep on deep faking you

03:41:18.940 like um my boyfriend

03:41:21.260 did do like a oh my

03:41:22.680 boyfriend did do a

03:41:24.200 video for Paul McCartney

03:41:25.980 where they defaked him

03:41:26.960 to look like he was 20

03:41:28.120 and it was a whole music

03:41:28.940 video like it's just

03:41:29.820 like there's so there's

03:41:31.400 so much more to the

03:41:32.180 industry than what is

03:41:33.340 to the eye but aren't

03:41:34.240 you guys worried about

03:41:34.920 that as only fans

03:41:35.620 creators that then

03:41:36.480 your value is going to

03:41:37.580 diminish when someone

03:41:38.280 can literally just make

03:41:39.180 a replica of you like

03:41:40.060 what type of intellectual

03:41:41.260 but they can make

03:41:42.280 replicas of people who

03:41:43.700 don't do only fans like

03:41:44.800 I know a lot of

03:41:45.400 celebrities where they

03:41:46.600 have news out there but

03:41:48.160 it's just like someone

03:41:49.280 does it but this is

03:41:50.360 only becoming prevalent

03:41:51.260 the last couple of years

03:41:52.140 imagine 10 years from

03:41:53.580 now though hold on

03:41:55.160 so okay let's we're

03:41:56.900 talking about OF we've

03:41:58.560 talked about it quite a

03:41:59.360 bit pixie

03:42:00.800 you're a feminist 1.00

03:42:02.820 yes

03:42:03.580 a lot of feminists 1.00

03:42:04.980 claim that women 1.00

03:42:05.820 are oppressed

03:42:06.440 yes

03:42:07.420 do you agree do you

03:42:09.580 think women are 1.00

03:42:10.180 oppressed

03:42:10.560 yeah I think there's

03:42:11.360 certain ways that

03:42:12.100 women face oppression 0.99

03:42:12.960 okay are you so

03:42:14.640 you're a woman

03:42:15.200 yes

03:42:15.780 I didn't mean to

03:42:17.420 assume your gender

03:42:18.060 there

03:42:18.300 how are you oppressed

03:42:20.940 as I previously

03:42:22.260 stated I think it's 0.99

03:42:23.400 absolute bullshit that 1.00

03:42:24.880 me and a guy can have 0.99

03:42:25.940 the same exact resume

03:42:26.820 or that I might be

03:42:27.760 overqualified than him

03:42:28.960 and on the basis of

03:42:30.140 my name out of like

03:42:31.660 a million studies that

03:42:32.720 there are out there I

03:42:33.800 am less likely to be

03:42:34.700 chosen however the

03:42:36.120 thing is though is that

03:42:37.080 that's one study but

03:42:39.360 then you hear all this

03:42:40.360 stuff about affirmative

03:42:41.320 action and that oh

03:42:42.860 we're going on a

03:42:43.620 diversity hiring spree and

03:42:44.920 apparently diversity has

03:42:46.120 to do with 50% of the

03:42:47.220 population or more than

03:42:48.500 50% of the population

03:42:49.560 which is women 1.00

03:42:50.780 okay so there seems to

03:42:53.160 be a disparity between a

03:42:54.680 company claiming to be

03:42:55.880 diverse and inclusive and

03:42:57.440 then actually hire actual

03:42:58.920 hiring practices right

03:43:00.500 can we agree that this

03:43:01.660 exists are made out of 0.66

03:43:02.880 hyper liberal typically

03:43:05.380 women okay I'm not the 1.00

03:43:06.880 leader of every HR

03:43:08.460 department but I can say

03:43:10.060 that we can just like look

03:43:11.500 at like blind studies and

03:43:12.580 blind data and when we

03:43:13.740 look at affirmative action

03:43:14.740 the way that's supposed to

03:43:15.740 work is that it's supposed

03:43:16.880 to be two people of equal

03:43:18.220 merit then okay we might

03:43:20.360 pick the woman or the 0.99

03:43:21.400 woman might be picked in 1.00

03:43:22.360 certain scenarios but either

03:43:24.000 way it doesn't change the

03:43:24.900 fact that you see like a

03:43:26.040 big gap in diversity for

03:43:28.340 a couple of reasons

03:43:29.160 mostly favoring men and 0.98

03:43:31.400 guess what one of these

03:43:32.200 reasons you think you

03:43:33.140 think DEI has has a bias

03:43:35.460 towards hiring men I

03:43:37.200 think well so it mainly

03:43:38.760 has to do with because

03:43:39.860 assumption that women 1.00

03:43:41.020 will have children

03:43:41.760 eventually so it is true

03:43:43.160 if you see a name on a

03:43:44.240 resume if they're a woman 0.98

03:43:45.480 you assume that they're

03:43:46.680 going to like especially a

03:43:48.240 woman who is like mid 1.00

03:43:49.800 20s or late 20s or early

03:43:52.460 30s they actually do hire

03:43:53.900 women less because they 1.00

03:43:56.480 assume that they will

03:43:57.300 have children which it is

03:43:59.580 yeah yeah so like that's

03:44:00.760 a business decision but

03:44:01.840 it's still unfair because

03:44:02.780 not all women want 1.00

03:44:03.780 children it's just like a

03:44:05.260 generalization and also

03:44:06.600 like now a lot of men

03:44:08.060 also take care of their

03:44:08.880 kids like a lot of women 1.00

03:44:09.840 want like stay at home

03:44:10.640 husbands because the wage 0.98

03:44:11.820 gap is closing hold on

03:44:13.120 with the HR departments

03:44:14.360 and with diversity equity

03:44:15.960 inclusion almost all

03:44:17.300 companies are attempting

03:44:18.660 to hire like at least 50%

03:44:21.060 women have a certain 1.00

03:44:22.180 amount of women on the sea 0.87

03:44:23.660 level have a certain

03:44:24.760 amount of women what 1.00

03:44:25.880 companies what not in 1.00

03:44:29.200 tech not in fucking 0.99

03:44:30.160 fame not in tech not in 0.97

03:44:32.080 tech tech is the most

03:44:34.260 people and software

03:44:35.980 engineers oh maybe in

03:44:37.500 marketing maybe on like

03:44:38.900 the front desk but no

03:44:40.480 software engineers that's

03:44:41.400 what we're saying

03:44:42.000 programmers there's a

03:44:43.080 program yes yeah not when

03:44:44.960 I worked in 2020 can you

03:44:46.860 name the companies I've

03:44:48.100 heard you name the

03:44:49.040 company huh can you name

03:44:50.220 the company literally

03:44:51.020 can I name the company

03:44:52.620 I don't know the first

03:44:53.860 five biggest banks in

03:44:55.260 America for certain like 0.80

03:44:57.920 pretty much any company

03:44:59.220 that cares about ESG scores

03:45:01.200 whatsoever which is like

03:45:02.980 the majority I think

03:45:04.140 every single company on

03:45:05.220 the NASDAQ oh look at

03:45:08.640 this apple.com diversity

03:45:10.720 page inclusion in the

03:45:12.420 diversity yeah Nick can you

03:45:14.540 search this apple.com

03:45:15.620 apple.com slash diversity

03:45:18.040 yeah so just like how I

03:45:19.880 said right yeah no no

03:45:21.660 just how I said listen to

03:45:22.840 me there is a gap between

03:45:24.740 what people are stating what

03:45:26.600 they're marketing versus

03:45:27.800 what's actually happening

03:45:28.760 in reality and the gap is

03:45:30.740 closing but it doesn't

03:45:31.900 change the fact that there

03:45:32.680 is a gap and the question

03:45:34.180 is why does this gap exist

03:45:35.320 it exists because hey

03:45:37.260 people assume women are 1.00

03:45:38.500 less competent they assume

03:45:40.680 yeah they assume that women 1.00

03:45:42.940 are less competent they

03:45:43.820 assume that women are going 1.00

03:45:44.680 to have children and women

03:45:46.240 to begin to get into these

03:45:47.520 fears is already very

03:45:48.520 difficult they hold on

03:45:49.700 they assume that women 1.00

03:45:50.700 are going to have

03:45:51.500 children I mean but is

03:45:52.500 there is that a fair

03:45:53.560 assumption to make um

03:45:55.380 don't most women have 1.00

03:45:57.880 they assume that the

03:45:58.800 mother wants to take 0.98

03:45:59.720 care of the children

03:46:00.360 that's what we're taught

03:46:01.120 yeah that's what we're

03:46:02.420 taught well aren't there

03:46:03.060 certain just like

03:46:03.740 biological realities like

03:46:05.140 she has to nurse the 0.95

03:46:06.140 child I bet more women

03:46:06.600 are having children than

03:46:07.740 men okay wait

03:46:10.320 controversial take

03:46:11.520 Pixie Pixie can men 0.99

03:46:13.040 wait wait wait wait

03:46:13.920 hold on Pixie Pixie Pixie

03:46:15.800 hold on oh my god I'm

03:46:17.460 not gonna answer this

03:46:18.300 question I refuse to

03:46:19.320 answer this question let

03:46:19.900 me just ask no I know

03:46:21.000 what you're gonna ask

03:46:21.680 Pixie hold on wait can

03:46:24.160 we let her guess what

03:46:24.980 you're about to ask

03:46:25.620 I know exactly what

03:46:27.000 is he about to ask

03:46:28.300 you're gonna be like can 0.86

03:46:28.980 men have children

03:46:29.840 can men get pregnant 0.95

03:46:33.180 can men get pregnant 0.95

03:46:34.620 um wait can men get

03:46:36.380 pregnant 0.80

03:46:36.760 let me answer okay

03:46:37.940 yeah that's what I was

03:46:40.400 about to say

03:46:40.900 she's a liberal she thinks 1.00

03:46:42.640 they can well I think if

03:46:43.820 you're a trans man

03:46:44.960 technically but I feel

03:46:46.680 like this is so already

03:46:47.920 like beyond the realm of

03:46:49.020 general reality yeah

03:46:51.560 science is getting really

03:46:52.880 um interesting so I feel

03:46:55.020 like anything can happen

03:46:56.020 pretty soon

03:46:56.700 sorry you're not part of

03:46:57.220 this team

03:46:57.600 oh my god okay

03:46:58.860 oh my god this is

03:47:00.080 discrimination we believe 0.99

03:47:01.340 in trans men so we don't 1.00

03:47:02.440 get popcorn 1.00

03:47:03.020 it's fucked up 0.99

03:47:04.000 I'll give you some 0.99

03:47:04.800 after the show

03:47:05.360 I don't want to just

03:47:06.960 throw popcorn at you

03:47:07.980 I think

03:47:08.480 okay here catch

03:47:09.000 he kind of does though

03:47:10.040 wait are you ready Pixie 0.97

03:47:11.020 I'll take it in your mouth 0.99

03:47:12.000 oh that wasn't a throw 0.79

03:47:14.920 that was really an aggressive

03:47:15.940 yeah

03:47:16.280 that wasn't that

03:47:18.360 that was like

03:47:19.300 with malice

03:47:20.320 okay that was

03:47:21.500 that was assault

03:47:22.980 that was battery

03:47:24.200 it's on camera

03:47:26.240 thank you

03:47:27.380 no she consented

03:47:31.280 you said throw it

03:47:34.060 that was like

03:47:35.160 outside the bounds of consent

03:47:38.000 I'm sorry

03:47:39.000 I'm so sorry

03:47:40.880 I didn't mean to throw it

03:47:42.420 that hard

03:47:42.860 I thought popcorn

03:47:43.780 would have a little

03:47:44.540 it's not cotton candy

03:47:47.300 you ready

03:47:47.520 is this a thing

03:47:52.200 you ready

03:47:52.480 you ready

03:47:56.460 wow that was terrible

03:47:58.560 you're even dry

03:47:59.400 Kobe 0.97

03:48:00.420 catch it in your boobies 0.79

03:48:01.740 wait wait 0.84

03:48:02.480 you literally

03:48:03.240 oh really

03:48:04.080 that's why I was

03:48:04.960 trying to catch it

03:48:05.740 I mean

03:48:06.040 thanks

03:48:07.740 come on

03:48:08.180 Kobe

03:48:08.560 almost

03:48:09.740 alright

03:48:10.860 you're such a big target

03:48:12.620 yeah

03:48:13.040 why are you missing

03:48:13.840 wait so men 0.70

03:48:15.040 men can get pregnant 1.00

03:48:17.660 um 0.88

03:48:18.720 a trans man

03:48:19.900 could theoretically

03:48:20.720 but

03:48:21.200 I feel like this is just

03:48:22.700 don't forget the non-binary 1.00

03:48:24.240 don't forget the nbs

03:48:25.380 the theybs

03:48:26.740 and the walruses

03:48:27.820 don't forget the they

03:48:28.760 don't forget the hippopotamus

03:48:30.240 all the hippopotamus

03:48:31.140 wait

03:48:31.560 Pixie

03:48:32.220 so how are you oppressed

03:48:33.620 besides the

03:48:35.100 that one example

03:48:36.160 okay

03:48:36.720 what else you got for us

03:48:37.700 um

03:48:38.200 I'm more likely to get 0.50

03:48:39.660 sexually assaulted 0.89

03:48:40.500 that's not oppression

03:48:41.820 I will say

03:48:44.200 yeah men are more likely 0.99

03:48:45.060 to get killed

03:48:45.560 how are you defining oppression 0.96

03:48:46.620 I

03:48:47.400 okay

03:48:47.840 like oppression

03:48:49.580 like oppression

03:48:49.600 typically has to come

03:48:50.740 from society

03:48:51.360 raise your hand

03:48:52.020 okay

03:48:52.660 do you want to

03:48:53.300 let me ask you a question

03:48:55.140 if you're like

03:48:55.660 let's say you're

03:48:56.340 in the upper echelons

03:48:58.540 of

03:48:59.040 of status

03:49:00.480 of society

03:49:01.720 but like

03:49:02.600 you fall victim

03:49:03.640 to some sort of

03:49:05.240 violent crime

03:49:06.160 like random violent crime

03:49:07.600 does that

03:49:08.940 mean that

03:49:09.780 you are oppressed

03:49:10.840 because you're a victim

03:49:11.680 of a random violent crime

03:49:13.160 if it's random

03:49:13.840 but if it's on the basis

03:49:15.060 of my gender

03:49:16.120 that's different

03:49:16.920 wait

03:49:17.600 there's no female president 1.00

03:49:18.740 would that same man

03:49:20.540 do the same

03:49:21.020 or I'm assuming it's a man

03:49:22.500 do the same thing to

03:49:24.300 a man

03:49:25.440 or is he seeking out women

03:49:26.540 I think that's what she's saying

03:49:27.580 men

03:49:27.920 like a Jack the Ripper vibe

03:49:29.400 it's

03:49:29.740 yes 0.94

03:49:30.360 men can get sexually assaulted too 0.52

03:49:32.340 but

03:49:32.760 people are mostly

03:49:33.980 heteronormative

03:49:34.740 specific

03:49:35.280 um

03:49:35.860 circumstance

03:49:36.400 okay

03:49:38.540 you're playing some weird

03:49:39.900 judo with language here

03:49:42.420 I don't know exactly

03:49:43.180 let's

03:49:43.480 okay

03:49:43.740 let's

03:49:44.080 let's start here

03:49:44.780 how are you defining oppression

03:49:46.500 because that's where

03:49:47.340 all the other arguments

03:49:48.440 are going to come from 0.98

03:49:49.320 how do you define oppression

03:49:49.380 no I asked you first

03:49:50.920 how do you define

03:49:52.340 free speech

03:49:53.120 a lack of free speech

03:49:54.320 inequality

03:49:55.960 like

03:49:56.300 like you don't have something

03:49:57.400 that the other person has

03:49:58.500 they have some type of a leg up

03:49:59.800 some type of a magical

03:50:01.120 or mythological

03:50:02.120 thing

03:50:03.000 that is allowing them

03:50:04.080 to be able to supersede

03:50:05.120 your results

03:50:05.580 even though you have

03:50:06.240 the same qualifications

03:50:07.100 well yeah

03:50:07.580 that's a very

03:50:08.300 yeah that's a really good

03:50:09.600 example

03:50:09.840 that's not a good example

03:50:10.920 because for most people

03:50:11.940 who became a politician

03:50:12.860 they were probably working

03:50:14.060 80 hours per week

03:50:15.180 as either a lawyer

03:50:16.020 or some other type

03:50:17.260 of similar profession

03:50:18.380 Donald Trump though

03:50:19.380 in order to get to that level

03:50:19.840 the idea that

03:50:20.620 okay

03:50:20.980 Twitch streamers

03:50:22.000 hold on

03:50:22.260 you're just

03:50:22.780 you're just naming

03:50:23.700 hold on

03:50:24.400 you're just naming

03:50:25.160 the fact that

03:50:26.320 certain jobs

03:50:27.440 men have dominated

03:50:28.380 in those fields

03:50:29.400 but then you also

03:50:30.320 have recognized

03:50:31.220 earlier in this conversation

03:50:32.840 that when it comes to

03:50:34.220 like the

03:50:34.620 when it comes to

03:50:35.340 men spending money

03:50:36.520 on women

03:50:37.460 yeah

03:50:38.180 OnlyFans

03:50:39.060 is a thing

03:50:39.540 no but

03:50:39.860 when I'm talking

03:50:40.780 about the

03:50:41.160 when I'm talking

03:50:41.800 about the intellect

03:50:42.920 yeah and into the mic

03:50:44.260 when you're talking

03:50:44.600 oh

03:50:44.840 when you talk

03:50:46.120 about the intellect

03:50:46.900 for men versus women

03:50:48.100 men have a much

03:50:49.620 less steep

03:50:51.200 bell curve

03:50:51.900 women have an extremely 1.00

03:50:52.880 steep bell curve

03:50:53.880 around the median

03:50:54.640 so you're going

03:50:55.260 to have men

03:50:56.040 who are

03:50:56.420 normal

03:50:56.780 yeah have a more

03:50:58.160 normal

03:50:59.340 like it's a

03:51:00.160 it's a normal

03:51:00.700 distribution for both

03:51:01.640 of them

03:51:01.960 but women are much 1.00

03:51:02.860 more centered around

03:51:03.560 the median have a much

03:51:04.480 steeper bell curve

03:51:05.260 so you're going to

03:51:05.980 have more men

03:51:07.500 who are mentally 0.99

03:51:08.620 slow 0.58

03:51:09.180 but you're going to

03:51:10.140 also have more men

03:51:11.180 who are

03:51:11.960 excelling

03:51:12.680 exceptional geniuses

03:51:14.460 so when you have

03:51:15.140 spaces that

03:51:16.020 like people of

03:51:17.240 particular genius

03:51:18.260 tend to excel

03:51:19.360 then men are going 0.87

03:51:20.780 to be within

03:51:22.040 like are going

03:51:22.880 to hold most

03:51:23.940 of the space

03:51:24.520 to the top

03:51:25.060 one percent

03:51:25.800 of those

03:51:26.220 oh is this the

03:51:26.720 greater male

03:51:27.320 variability

03:51:28.060 okay this 1.00

03:51:28.960 shit pisses me off 1.00

03:51:30.240 I'm not going 1.00

03:51:30.680 to lie

03:51:30.860 maybe it's because

03:51:31.780 of the fall

03:51:32.540 of the middle

03:51:33.060 class

03:51:33.500 pixie's pissed

03:51:34.740 I am

03:51:35.300 pixie

03:51:36.240 maybe it's because

03:51:37.060 of the fall

03:51:37.640 of the middle

03:51:38.120 class that I feel

03:51:39.440 like women have 1.00

03:51:40.320 to shorten

03:51:40.760 but it's just

03:51:41.360 the middle

03:51:41.720 class that's

03:51:42.440 literally

03:51:42.860 becoming less

03:51:44.180 okay

03:51:44.860 pixie how are you

03:51:45.820 oppressed

03:51:46.080 no wait

03:51:46.920 let me

03:51:47.280 let me

03:51:47.640 answer

03:51:47.920 I just

03:51:48.520 literally

03:51:48.860 answered

03:51:49.600 but multiple

03:51:50.300 times

03:51:50.520 you said

03:51:51.180 you're

03:51:51.380 oppressed

03:51:51.700 because you

03:51:52.220 have a chance

03:51:53.140 of

03:51:53.880 you have a higher

03:51:55.060 likelihood

03:51:55.620 of being

03:51:56.480 victimized

03:51:57.080 but

03:51:57.640 yes I'm more

03:51:59.740 likely to be

03:52:00.260 sexually harassed

03:52:01.040 than a man

03:52:01.440 okay

03:52:02.240 than a man

03:52:02.740 is to be

03:52:03.260 sexually harassed 0.78

03:52:03.820 by a woman

03:52:04.240 or even other

03:52:05.100 men

03:52:05.280 that's not

03:52:05.560 I don't think

03:52:06.200 that's evidence

03:52:06.820 of oppression

03:52:07.640 you're literally

03:52:09.800 we define

03:52:10.360 it's something

03:52:10.980 like every single

03:52:12.760 day when you

03:52:13.300 go out there

03:52:13.840 when you wake

03:52:14.440 up when you

03:52:14.860 walk out of

03:52:15.260 your house

03:52:15.540 when you go

03:52:15.880 to your job

03:52:16.400 when you go

03:52:16.820 to sleep

03:52:17.240 is this literally

03:52:18.540 on your mind

03:52:19.540 that's not how

03:52:20.240 we started

03:52:20.640 LA if you live

03:52:21.580 in LA

03:52:21.960 actually if you

03:52:22.980 live in downtown

03:52:23.500 LA or K-Town

03:52:24.440 or Hollywood

03:52:24.920 Chicago

03:52:25.460 Fresno

03:52:26.080 Bakersfield

03:52:26.820 Bakersfield

03:52:27.540 New York City

03:52:28.460 like just

03:52:29.360 it depends

03:52:30.080 it depends

03:52:30.680 no Chicago

03:52:31.280 isn't it like

03:52:31.940 a lot of

03:52:32.300 gang shootings

03:52:33.280 a lot of

03:52:33.580 when I think

03:52:34.080 of oppression

03:52:34.800 I think of

03:52:36.000 you know

03:52:36.920 not being able

03:52:38.060 to vote

03:52:39.000 I feel like

03:52:39.740 it needs to

03:52:40.000 affect your

03:52:40.300 day to day life

03:52:40.900 it needs to

03:52:41.420 affect your

03:52:41.980 day to day life

03:52:43.200 okay that's not

03:52:44.300 how we first

03:52:44.840 started establishing

03:52:45.460 oppression

03:52:45.820 but even if

03:52:46.700 you want to

03:52:47.000 establish it

03:52:47.400 that way

03:52:47.720 I think

03:52:48.140 things that

03:52:48.560 affect my

03:52:49.120 long-term

03:52:49.480 career opportunities

03:52:50.420 and my

03:52:50.880 long-term

03:52:51.220 trajectory in life

03:52:52.160 does count

03:52:53.000 even if it's

03:52:53.580 not like a

03:52:54.120 single instance

03:52:55.040 every single day

03:52:55.780 it's the fact

03:52:56.260 that my life

03:52:56.740 men are not 0.65

03:52:58.860 holding you back

03:52:59.940 from the job

03:53:01.060 that you desire

03:53:01.820 what do you mean

03:53:02.640 if I literally

03:53:03.560 am just as

03:53:05.300 qualified or more

03:53:06.200 qualified for a job

03:53:07.360 what evidence do you

03:53:07.960 have of that

03:53:08.560 so you don't really

03:53:09.500 have study after study

03:53:10.940 after study

03:53:11.660 you can search it up

03:53:12.760 there's a quality of

03:53:14.060 outcome but there's a

03:53:14.920 quality of opportunity

03:53:15.860 do you not acknowledge

03:53:16.900 that there's at least

03:53:17.620 a quality of opportunity

03:53:18.660 I'm not even getting

03:53:19.660 the opportunity

03:53:20.380 to shine in certain

03:53:21.700 spaces

03:53:22.000 so you disagree

03:53:23.080 that there is a

03:53:23.760 you don't think

03:53:24.360 that there's a

03:53:24.720 quality of opportunity

03:53:25.500 right now

03:53:26.060 no I don't

03:53:26.840 you have affirmative

03:53:27.640 action

03:53:28.300 you have

03:53:28.920 no opportunity

03:53:29.820 yeah but affirmative action

03:53:30.060 is only a band-aid

03:53:31.180 most people who get

03:53:31.980 admitted to college

03:53:32.720 for example

03:53:33.160 from affirmative action

03:53:34.200 actually have to drop out

03:53:35.480 but they still reap the benefit

03:53:35.920 of the affirmative action

03:53:37.320 which they receive

03:53:38.060 okay affirmative action

03:53:40.440 isn't this like little

03:53:41.440 magical fairy wand

03:53:42.640 that solves all problems

03:53:44.020 regarding like

03:53:44.640 quality or society

03:53:45.980 hold on guys

03:53:46.520 one mic at a time

03:53:48.200 go ahead

03:53:48.520 okay affirmative action

03:53:49.860 is not this little

03:53:50.580 magical wand

03:53:51.320 that suddenly solves

03:53:52.160 all problems

03:53:52.960 but that's what you're saying

03:53:54.320 you're like you guys

03:53:54.820 have affirmative action

03:53:55.680 and it's like even

03:53:56.280 with affirmative action

03:53:57.220 there are still

03:53:58.020 differences in the ways

03:53:59.680 that men and women

03:54:00.820 are treated in society

03:54:01.620 some of them unfairly

03:54:02.800 hold on can you agree

03:54:03.700 so okay

03:54:05.040 you've presented some

03:54:06.540 study you've made

03:54:08.540 some arguments about

03:54:09.400 well there's this study

03:54:10.820 where with the two

03:54:11.860 exact same resumes

03:54:13.580 the one with the male name

03:54:15.620 is does better

03:54:17.040 than the one

03:54:17.480 with the female name

03:54:18.220 but we actually

03:54:19.560 that's a study

03:54:20.600 we have in action

03:54:22.680 like that's

03:54:23.680 I think much more

03:54:25.060 observable than a study

03:54:27.080 you have affirmative action

03:54:28.640 you have D.I.E.

03:54:29.780 and major

03:54:30.820 even mid-tier corporations

03:54:32.700 major corporations

03:54:34.000 yeah and you still see

03:54:35.100 when they do the studies though

03:54:36.360 they do comparison

03:54:37.420 between with names

03:54:38.580 and without names

03:54:39.700 and people who

03:54:40.780 like when you do the studies

03:54:42.560 without names

03:54:43.300 way more

03:54:44.060 and you know

03:54:44.260 you know who probably

03:54:45.140 ran the study

03:54:45.760 it was probably

03:54:46.160 some feminist studies program

03:54:47.540 it's not just one study

03:54:48.740 there's multiple

03:54:49.460 there's entire journals

03:54:50.740 it's well established

03:54:52.160 let me finish

03:54:53.300 going into the study

03:54:54.480 they were looking

03:54:55.360 they were fishing

03:54:56.160 for an exact

03:54:57.780 they were

03:54:58.380 it's like if you're

03:54:59.020 looking for the answer

03:55:00.180 yeah you're saying

03:55:01.900 that the study

03:55:02.560 is false to begin with

03:55:03.560 I mean like the same people

03:55:04.520 applying to all of tech

03:55:05.760 and then some tech

03:55:07.240 places

03:55:07.920 who conducted the study

03:55:08.820 was it some feminist 1.00

03:55:09.840 I think it was Yale

03:55:10.540 I guess Yale is like

03:55:11.760 a feminist

03:55:12.120 it doesn't have to be a feminist 1.00

03:55:12.980 but the assumption is that

03:55:14.500 women will eventually 1.00

03:55:15.520 have children

03:55:16.100 and take maternity leave 0.54

03:55:17.380 so it's like a business decision

03:55:18.820 so what she is saying

03:55:20.060 is true 0.89

03:55:20.800 but because of the business decision

03:55:23.280 companies are trying to make

03:55:24.500 so you think that your career

03:55:25.320 has just not manifested itself

03:55:27.560 in the way you would have liked

03:55:28.700 because you're oppressed

03:55:29.820 no that's not what I said

03:55:31.840 I said that if I decide

03:55:33.320 to go to a certain career path

03:55:34.700 I will most likely be

03:55:35.880 at a disadvantage

03:55:36.640 what did you study in college?

03:55:38.820 I studied

03:55:39.380 I triple majored actually

03:55:40.740 in philosophy

03:55:41.440 economics

03:55:42.060 and psychology

03:55:42.900 okay

03:55:44.200 so have you not been able to

03:55:46.440 proceed in a career

03:55:48.800 because of

03:55:49.560 the oppression

03:55:50.660 that you believe exists?

03:55:51.540 I'm saying that

03:55:51.700 if I decided

03:55:52.740 to go into a STEM career

03:55:54.700 it will be

03:55:55.800 statistically

03:55:56.580 much more

03:55:57.800 harder for me

03:55:58.540 to get a job

03:55:59.200 with my qualifications

03:56:00.060 there's actually more women 1.00

03:56:01.180 in STEM than there are men

03:56:02.540 that is just not true

03:56:04.300 define STEM

03:56:05.180 define STEM

03:56:05.920 like which jobs?

03:56:07.020 well okay

03:56:07.440 I have some notes here

03:56:08.320 so

03:56:08.600 in America?

03:56:10.060 yes here in the US

03:56:11.020 okay

03:56:11.520 so science, technology, engineering, maths

03:56:13.720 so

03:56:14.280 what the feminists like to do 1.00

03:56:16.460 is they like to exclude

03:56:18.000 certain STEM fields

03:56:19.620 where women are actually 1.00

03:56:20.480 overrepresented

03:56:21.500 than men

03:56:22.360 in order to like

03:56:23.500 further try

03:56:24.680 to

03:56:24.940 is it about wage?

03:56:25.520 no

03:56:25.980 in order to further

03:56:27.000 try to gain

03:56:27.800 affirmative action

03:56:30.380 what is

03:56:31.360 what you're saying?

03:56:32.540 so

03:56:32.800 I've got some notes here

03:56:34.480 I'll read it

03:56:34.960 medicine and dentistry

03:56:36.140 subjects allied to medicine

03:56:37.760 biological sciences

03:56:38.920 veterinary science

03:56:39.880 agriculture

03:56:40.480 and related subjects

03:56:41.500 physical science

03:56:42.480 mathematical science

03:56:43.420 those are majors

03:56:45.160 hold on

03:56:45.480 computer science

03:56:46.320 engineering

03:56:46.880 technologies

03:56:47.580 and architecture

03:56:48.380 those are jobs

03:56:49.160 that's the official

03:56:50.440 no no no

03:56:51.040 official definition

03:56:52.100 of STEM

03:56:52.860 yeah

03:56:53.380 okay

03:56:53.740 so

03:56:54.240 but when

03:56:55.080 women say STEM 1.00

03:56:55.960 it's

03:56:57.240 they

03:56:57.780 they don't

03:56:58.320 acknowledge

03:56:58.880 all those things

03:57:00.460 for instance

03:57:01.800 nursing

03:57:02.380 right

03:57:02.860 yeah

03:57:03.540 nursing is probably

03:57:04.780 very much overwhelmed

03:57:05.920 by women

03:57:06.480 I guess that would be

03:57:07.340 classified under STEM

03:57:08.460 if we're including

03:57:09.140 all medical

03:57:09.760 but that's like

03:57:11.000 but like

03:57:11.460 nurse assistants

03:57:12.280 like

03:57:13.280 STEM as a whole

03:57:14.760 is definitely

03:57:15.600 male dominated 0.52

03:57:16.560 STEM as a whole

03:57:17.340 it's not

03:57:17.780 okay

03:57:17.980 can you tell me

03:57:18.640 where you're getting

03:57:19.120 that statistic from

03:57:19.960 if you're including

03:57:20.600 medical

03:57:21.080 like as a like

03:57:22.000 careers

03:57:22.440 like if

03:57:23.360 they have over

03:57:24.500 six figures

03:57:25.060 if it's software

03:57:25.600 engineers

03:57:26.060 if it's data

03:57:26.800 scientists

03:57:27.520 I'm generally

03:57:28.220 curious

03:57:28.540 they look at

03:57:28.960 physical science

03:57:29.760 mathematics

03:57:30.300 engineering and

03:57:31.180 technology and

03:57:31.880 computing

03:57:32.240 and they think

03:57:33.120 that's the extent

03:57:34.200 of STEM

03:57:34.860 but when you

03:57:35.800 if you start

03:57:36.640 removing like

03:57:37.520 biological sciences

03:57:38.580 nursing etc

03:57:39.620 veterinary science

03:57:40.840 agriculture

03:57:41.480 any subjects

03:57:42.760 allied to

03:57:43.820 medicine

03:57:44.180 then women 0.99

03:57:45.740 are actually

03:57:46.460 overrepresented

03:57:47.800 there's more

03:57:48.360 women in STEM

03:57:49.020 I want to know

03:57:49.480 what study

03:57:50.040 you're getting

03:57:50.600 this from

03:57:51.200 please just

03:57:51.820 tell me

03:57:52.140 what source

03:57:52.820 are these

03:57:53.260 assistant jobs

03:57:54.440 as well

03:57:54.960 let me find it

03:57:56.400 I'll find it

03:57:57.400 I'm not even

03:57:58.940 doubting it

03:57:59.380 I want to know

03:57:59.900 for like 10

03:58:00.760 female assistants 0.99

03:58:01.480 of course

03:58:02.020 it's going to

03:58:02.400 be female

03:58:02.860 dominated

03:58:03.380 oh of course

03:58:04.700 it's going to

03:58:04.920 be female

03:58:05.360 dominated

03:58:05.820 if you count

03:58:06.620 all the

03:58:07.020 assistants

03:58:07.380 there's going

03:58:07.720 to be one

03:58:08.040 doctor for

03:58:08.720 like 10

03:58:09.400 nurses and

03:58:09.860 assistants

03:58:10.260 but it doesn't

03:58:11.140 mean that they

03:58:11.580 make more

03:58:12.100 or that they

03:58:13.480 actually graduated

03:58:14.320 from those fields

03:58:15.060 you can be a

03:58:15.860 dental assistant

03:58:16.580 yes

03:58:17.120 for every dentist

03:58:18.480 there's dental

03:58:19.240 assistants that

03:58:19.820 didn't actually

03:58:20.260 graduate from

03:58:20.920 college but

03:58:21.580 they're also

03:58:22.040 counted in

03:58:23.140 STEM as a

03:58:24.120 job but if

03:58:24.800 you just look

03:58:25.200 at like income

03:58:25.980 people who make

03:58:27.160 over six figures

03:58:28.560 in a STEM field

03:58:29.340 like how many

03:58:30.040 people are women

03:58:30.660 and men

03:58:31.040 I think that's a

03:58:31.780 more fair

03:58:32.320 comparison because

03:58:33.080 if you're an

03:58:33.440 assistant it

03:58:34.440 doesn't really

03:58:34.800 matter like I

03:58:35.580 can get an

03:58:36.140 assistant job in

03:58:36.860 like any field

03:58:37.600 right now and

03:58:38.860 I can still be

03:58:39.440 counted

03:58:39.660 this is like

03:58:40.780 you want to

03:58:42.700 focus on

03:58:43.560 it's the

03:58:43.980 apex fallacy

03:58:44.600 you want to

03:58:45.060 focus on

03:58:46.240 the top

03:58:47.420 positions

03:58:48.100 yeah because

03:58:48.840 that's what

03:58:49.380 you need a

03:58:49.820 degree for that

03:58:50.400 quality you

03:58:50.960 don't hear

03:58:51.280 feminists

03:58:51.840 arguing oh

03:58:52.500 we need 50%

03:58:53.520 of women to 0.76

03:58:54.860 be bricklayers 0.92

03:58:55.700 we need 50%

03:58:56.980 of

03:58:57.720 women to work 1.00

03:58:58.860 on an oil rig

03:58:59.500 I think the

03:59:00.060 argument

03:59:00.320 like workplace

03:59:01.760 deaths

03:59:02.160 there's a

03:59:02.980 gap

03:59:03.700 there's a

03:59:04.160 workplace

03:59:04.700 death gap

03:59:05.400 93% of

03:59:06.880 it's 91 or

03:59:07.880 93% of

03:59:08.660 workplace

03:59:09.140 deaths

03:59:09.520 are men

03:59:10.280 I think

03:59:11.980 let's we

03:59:12.640 should we

03:59:13.040 equalize that

03:59:14.080 perhaps men

03:59:15.160 one of the

03:59:15.700 reasons men

03:59:16.200 get paid more

03:59:16.820 than women 0.99

03:59:17.280 is because

03:59:19.500 I think it

03:59:20.320 would make sense

03:59:20.660 for blue

03:59:21.040 colored jobs

03:59:21.440 they're more

03:59:21.780 likely to do

03:59:22.400 dangerous work

03:59:23.260 they're more

03:59:23.800 likely to work

03:59:24.400 outside if

03:59:25.360 there's some 0.99

03:59:25.740 major fucking 0.99

03:59:26.520 power outage in 0.99

03:59:27.360 the middle of

03:59:27.760 the winter in

03:59:28.440 below zero

03:59:29.280 below freezing

03:59:30.100 temperature

03:59:30.340 who's gonna be

03:59:31.800 the one

03:59:32.300 who's gonna be

03:59:33.200 the one

03:59:33.640 who goes out

03:59:34.520 at 2am

03:59:35.960 and he's

03:59:37.000 working on

03:59:37.560 the line

03:59:37.900 but I don't

03:59:38.460 agree that

03:59:39.100 women shouldn't 1.00

03:59:39.980 be in the 0.97

03:59:40.300 office

03:59:40.680 this is such a

03:59:44.820 bad argument

03:59:45.280 because when it

03:59:46.000 comes to jobs

03:59:46.640 that are making

03:59:47.120 the most amount

03:59:47.840 of money to

03:59:48.360 begin with

03:59:48.800 your logic

03:59:49.760 or whatever

03:59:50.100 what you're

03:59:50.500 saying it's

03:59:51.040 actually like

03:59:51.480 white collar

03:59:51.860 jobs nice

03:59:52.520 CEO positions

03:59:53.280 but regardless

03:59:54.100 of that putting

03:59:54.880 that aside

03:59:55.320 I really want

03:59:56.680 that's right

03:59:56.880 you can only

03:59:57.600 have feminism 0.99

03:59:58.120 when there's

03:59:58.580 cushy air

03:59:59.100 conditioned

03:59:59.440 jobs

03:59:59.820 no

04:00:00.200 no

04:00:00.980 like okay

04:00:02.300 you don't hear

04:00:02.920 feminists fighting 1.00

04:00:03.820 for these

04:00:04.820 dangerous

04:00:05.300 first of all

04:00:05.880 that's not

04:00:06.400 true

04:00:06.720 first of all

04:00:07.780 no

04:00:07.960 first of all

04:00:08.520 it is not true

04:00:09.060 if you literally

04:00:09.620 switch up

04:00:10.040 feminists and

04:00:11.140 blue collar work

04:00:12.100 hey no no no

04:00:13.060 no no no

04:00:13.520 no no

04:00:14.180 no no

04:00:14.760 no no

04:00:15.260 no

04:00:15.820 no

04:00:16.860 no

04:00:17.140 zip it

04:00:18.380 you

04:00:18.660 okay fine

04:00:19.340 zip it

04:00:19.620 and then I go

04:00:20.220 go

04:00:20.520 deal

04:00:20.800 oh thank you

04:00:21.680 papacy

04:00:21.980 okay

04:00:22.580 yo

04:00:23.280 y'all

04:00:23.860 feminists just 1.00

04:00:24.780 want to fight

04:00:25.660 for the cushy

04:00:26.780 high paying

04:00:27.720 air conditioned

04:00:28.820 office jobs

04:00:29.920 you don't want

04:00:30.960 to do the

04:00:31.540 dirty dangerous

04:00:32.340 work

04:00:32.720 that men

04:00:33.620 are doing

04:00:34.020 that happen

04:00:34.480 to be high

04:00:35.080 paid

04:00:35.340 and you

04:00:36.040 think that

04:00:36.740 because all

04:00:37.460 the men you

04:00:37.920 surround with

04:00:38.380 yourself around

04:00:39.460 say the same

04:00:40.220 exact thing

04:00:40.660 about feminism

04:00:41.260 but there are

04:00:42.240 actually feminist

04:00:43.080 movements within

04:00:43.820 this field that if

04:00:44.580 you did three

04:00:45.080 seconds of research

04:00:45.980 you'll see

04:00:46.680 it's no

04:00:47.220 just say yeah

04:00:47.800 you can say no

04:00:48.320 no no but guess

04:00:49.020 what I'm a

04:00:49.580 feminist I'm 1.00

04:00:50.240 actually part of

04:00:50.860 these movements

04:00:51.220 I actually look at

04:00:52.360 them

04:00:52.760 you literally

04:00:53.420 went to stem

04:00:54.480 which is a

04:00:55.100 yeah because

04:00:55.680 stem is one of

04:00:56.360 the biggest

04:00:56.760 disparities where

04:00:57.960 you know

04:00:58.440 theoretically speaking

04:00:59.240 there shouldn't

04:00:59.760 be that's why

04:01:00.660 that's why I

04:01:01.360 went to stem

04:01:02.040 okay

04:01:02.540 what do you

04:01:03.240 mean there's

04:01:03.760 not a disparity

04:01:04.460 and actually

04:01:05.140 there's a disparity

04:01:05.900 hold on but

04:01:06.800 do you acknowledge

04:01:07.560 that there's a

04:01:08.120 disparity in

04:01:08.780 college enrollment

04:01:09.540 oh yes

04:01:10.160 there's more

04:01:10.580 women in 0.62

04:01:11.080 college

04:01:11.360 yeah exactly

04:01:12.020 so how come

04:01:12.900 does it take

04:01:13.400 a woman to

04:01:13.880 have like I

04:01:14.460 guess like 1.5

04:01:15.620 more like of an

04:01:16.860 educational level

04:01:17.680 than men to get 0.89

04:01:18.420 the same paying

04:01:19.140 job basically a

04:01:20.240 woman has to go 1.00

04:01:21.100 get her undergraduate 0.99

04:01:22.220 degree and

04:01:23.040 masters to get

04:01:23.880 the same level of

04:01:24.700 job that I just

04:01:25.720 have to get his

04:01:26.340 undergraduate degree

04:01:27.300 erroneous

04:01:27.940 yeah I got to

04:01:28.500 say erroneous

04:01:29.160 because you can't

04:01:29.760 respond to me

04:01:30.340 okay so no I

04:01:31.820 can't respond to

04:01:32.540 you I can respond

04:01:33.540 I can respond to

04:01:34.720 you okay respond

04:01:35.480 throw the popcorn

04:01:36.660 back

04:01:36.920 I'm being a 1.00

04:01:37.340 bitch 1.00

04:01:37.580 you just 1.00

04:01:41.260 I love this

04:01:42.640 savage pixie

04:01:43.400 you didn't even

04:01:44.540 address my argument

04:01:45.640 about how men are

04:01:47.000 underrepresented when

04:01:48.040 it comes to

04:01:48.580 attaining college

04:01:49.980 degrees

04:01:50.540 yeah no I said

04:01:51.820 I actually proves

04:01:52.720 the point of like

04:01:53.340 hey guess what

04:01:54.080 there's a disparity

04:01:54.780 where it shouldn't

04:01:55.360 be because men

04:01:56.260 need less education

04:01:57.480 to get the same

04:01:58.360 job that a woman 1.00

04:01:59.220 has

04:01:59.680 a woman needs 1.00

04:02:01.020 yeah a woman 0.99

04:02:02.100 needs to get an

04:02:02.700 undergraduate degree

04:02:03.400 and masters to

04:02:04.160 basically get the

04:02:04.900 same level paying

04:02:05.820 job as a man

04:02:06.600 that's not you can

04:02:08.160 search it up right

04:02:08.740 now

04:02:08.980 it's not go

04:02:10.740 search it

04:02:11.220 I hate the fact

04:02:12.460 that you have a

04:02:13.060 computer and you

04:02:13.680 can literally google

04:02:14.420 what I'm saying

04:02:15.060 and you just won't

04:02:16.320 you're saying a

04:02:17.360 woman needs to get 1.00

04:02:18.220 a master's degree

04:02:19.400 to earn the same

04:02:21.780 as a guy who

04:02:22.340 hasn't

04:02:23.340 I said on at

04:02:24.160 like basically the

04:02:25.240 way that like these

04:02:26.000 numbers are coming

04:02:26.660 out is that a woman 1.00

04:02:27.560 needs like more

04:02:28.780 education to get the

04:02:30.160 same level paying as

04:02:31.240 a guy who has less

04:02:31.840 can I address this

04:02:32.940 though because when

04:02:33.600 it comes there is

04:02:34.640 there's a lot of

04:02:35.440 studies that confirm

04:02:36.320 that when it comes to

04:02:37.580 applying for jobs

04:02:38.660 women will look at a 1.00

04:02:39.660 job description and

04:02:40.480 let's say there's 10

04:02:41.280 bullet points if they

04:02:42.860 meet like nine of the

04:02:45.000 10 bullet points or

04:02:45.800 eight of the 10 and

04:02:46.540 they're like oh but I

04:02:47.380 didn't meet the last

04:02:48.520 two yeah it says I

04:02:49.480 have my master's or

04:02:50.760 you need a master's and

04:02:51.800 I only have a bachelor

04:02:52.580 they're not even going

04:02:53.280 to apply yeah

04:02:54.180 whereas men like

04:02:55.680 let's say they only

04:02:56.440 meet like three or

04:02:57.320 four they're going to

04:02:58.340 apply yeah

04:02:59.480 absolutely

04:03:00.260 absolutely

04:03:01.520 if you're saying

04:03:03.140 absolutely that's why

04:03:05.260 men are more likely to

04:03:06.980 have the same jobs with

04:03:08.080 bachelors than as

04:03:09.580 women with masters

04:03:10.660 because they're

04:03:11.120 flipping applying

04:03:12.460 they're putting

04:03:13.040 themselves out there

04:03:13.980 way more because they

04:03:14.920 can take they

04:03:15.600 experience rejection in

04:03:17.200 life significantly more

04:03:18.940 than women do which is 1.00

04:03:20.100 why they can that's

04:03:21.460 why there's women who 1.00

04:03:22.140 are still high levels

04:03:22.920 in those different

04:03:23.540 careers because there's

04:03:24.540 women who are able to 1.00

04:03:25.500 exemplify the personality

04:03:26.900 characteristics to be

04:03:28.060 able to achieve that

04:03:28.920 same level otherwise

04:03:30.200 there wouldn't be any

04:03:30.980 women right if it was 1.00

04:03:32.180 really that oppressive

04:03:33.220 but no the women who

04:03:34.440 are able to exude and

04:03:35.800 exemplify those

04:03:36.940 characteristics that that

04:03:38.820 are necessary to

04:03:39.560 actually get on top

04:03:40.560 they're still successful

04:03:42.420 they're still in those

04:03:43.120 positions

04:03:43.480 so it's more nurture

04:03:44.520 well that's that's

04:03:46.340 the other thing

04:03:46.820 sometimes absolutely

04:03:47.900 and again but that's

04:03:48.920 the exception to the

04:03:49.840 rule I still believe

04:03:51.020 it's the exception

04:03:51.640 well but we can be

04:03:52.560 more norm than

04:03:53.220 outliers though in

04:03:54.240 the current day but

04:03:55.340 if you look at it 50

04:03:56.460 years ago yeah it's

04:03:57.560 like more nature you

04:03:59.660 would argue

04:04:00.140 well I would say that

04:04:02.280 when it comes to the

04:04:02.880 point that you brought

04:04:03.500 up Lauren that's true

04:04:04.640 that's definitely one

04:04:05.280 of the contributing

04:04:05.880 factors but then that

04:04:07.140 goes back to like

04:04:07.820 socialization and like

04:04:09.120 the and maybe you

04:04:10.300 disagree with me

04:04:11.080 oppression that comes

04:04:12.120 from like brutal so

04:04:13.440 unfair socialization so

04:04:14.840 the fact that like

04:04:15.480 women are always taught 1.00

04:04:16.900 to be risk adverse even

04:04:18.040 financially risk adverse

04:04:19.260 risk adverse risk

04:04:20.080 risk adverse oh no

04:04:21.800 you should just be

04:04:22.580 doing everything

04:04:23.180 play and save

04:04:23.660 women are taught 0.65

04:04:24.400 that or that's just

04:04:25.180 the natural order of

04:04:26.280 things I think women 0.99

04:04:27.460 are definitely taught

04:04:28.300 that I think taught

04:04:29.000 because boys will be

04:04:29.800 boys that's a thing

04:04:30.700 but men if you ever

04:04:31.420 meet a woman who

04:04:32.180 wasn't socialized

04:04:33.040 biologically more risk 0.65

04:04:36.080 tolerant risk tolerance

04:04:37.580 men are allowed to be

04:04:39.200 yeah like a woman 1.00

04:04:40.640 like boys will be boys

04:04:42.020 like why are you doing

04:04:42.840 that like women are 1.00

04:04:44.060 taught to be like more

04:04:45.120 nurturing from the get

04:04:46.060 go we get bought like

04:04:47.160 Barbies I don't think

04:04:48.200 it's about being taught

04:04:49.020 I just think that's

04:04:49.820 just the natural order

04:04:50.860 of things if that was

04:04:51.680 the natural men are

04:04:52.200 more likely to be

04:04:52.940 risk takers that's

04:04:54.260 definitely not true I

04:04:55.340 feel it well not just

04:04:56.280 I think I know if you

04:04:58.360 ever meet a man who

04:04:59.260 is like oh it's okay

04:05:01.560 to be aggressive you

04:05:02.360 know that's just a boy

04:05:03.060 being a boy guess what

04:05:04.340 they're going to show

04:05:05.100 aggressive patterns in

04:05:06.320 the future versus kids

04:05:07.880 that are taught to like

04:05:08.600 emotionally regulate

04:05:09.380 better they tend to

04:05:10.420 have like better like

04:05:11.060 long-term outcomes when

04:05:12.100 it comes to emotional

04:05:13.220 regularity this idea that

04:05:14.680 men are just naturally

04:05:15.600 like more like you

04:05:17.020 know like they like

04:05:18.020 the risk more they

04:05:18.820 like to be a violent

04:05:19.540 more they like to be

04:05:20.300 aggressive more less

04:05:21.280 aggressive societies

04:05:22.280 overall like in Japan

04:05:23.140 there's not as much

04:05:24.200 like violence same in

04:05:25.240 China there's like no 1.00

04:05:26.100 violence like if I walk

04:05:27.000 down the street at 3 a.m.

04:05:28.000 no one's gonna like

04:05:28.880 follow me but isn't it

04:05:29.960 the case on the if you

04:05:31.260 look at the average

04:05:32.040 temperamentally men and

04:05:33.280 women are actually fairly 1.00

04:05:34.260 close but when you start

04:05:35.500 looking at the extremes

04:05:36.640 you have men that tend

04:05:38.580 to dominate at the

04:05:39.940 extremes I thought we

04:05:41.620 were talking about like

04:05:42.180 society in general though

04:05:43.580 wait what like are we

04:05:45.380 not talking about

04:05:45.860 society in general like

04:05:47.000 oh yeah well yeah

04:05:49.680 when it comes to

04:05:50.360 men are more likely to

04:05:52.360 for example I'm pretty

04:05:53.200 sure men are more

04:05:53.700 likely to be entrepreneurs

04:05:54.560 they're more likely to

04:05:55.340 be business owners for

04:05:57.060 example that typically

04:05:58.140 but that's in America

04:05:59.500 get away with it also

04:06:01.060 work jobs that are more

04:06:02.600 like physically demanding

04:06:03.920 that have high level of

04:06:04.940 risk involved as well

04:06:06.260 yeah that and then

04:06:07.280 women work more 0.98

04:06:08.400 nursery jobs when it

04:06:09.320 comes to like coding

04:06:10.340 anyone can stay in front

04:06:11.640 of a computer screen and

04:06:12.620 read code like that's

04:06:14.840 why the wage I was

04:06:15.640 closing for those jobs

04:06:16.800 yeah and it just seems

04:06:18.640 that in a lot of these

04:06:19.440 things where it's like

04:06:19.980 men are more likely to

04:06:20.860 do these things well

04:06:21.620 guess what men are more

04:06:22.780 likely to be raised that

04:06:23.940 it's okay taking risk

04:06:24.960 that they don't have to

04:06:25.600 constantly be aware and

04:06:26.900 like scared of their

04:06:27.580 surroundings so you're

04:06:28.680 saying this is like a

04:06:29.420 chicken or egg situation

04:06:30.640 you're saying that

04:06:31.380 because of the way we've

04:06:32.800 been programmed this is

04:06:33.800 the way society is versus

04:06:35.300 us saying that this is

04:06:36.200 the way society is

04:06:37.180 therefore we have created

04:06:37.980 structures that are

04:06:38.680 revolved around human

04:06:39.980 nature and our natural

04:06:41.080 proclivity what she

04:06:42.400 what she says maybe

04:06:43.600 made sense 30 40 50

04:06:46.420 years ago but now we

04:06:47.380 have girl power be a 1.00

04:06:50.440 boss babe

04:06:51.160 so you're talking about

04:06:51.640 the necessity of

04:06:52.860 feminism back when like 1.00

04:06:54.660 we literally couldn't

04:06:55.420 even vote when we

04:06:56.180 couldn't own property

04:06:56.880 all of these different

04:06:57.780 things versus today

04:06:59.160 when we have equality

04:07:00.640 of opportunity

04:07:01.580 but we do

04:07:02.400 and the equality of

04:07:03.560 outcome doesn't

04:07:04.640 determine whether or

04:07:05.400 not we have the same

04:07:06.000 opportunity

04:07:06.400 but it's like our

04:07:07.280 parents couldn't even

04:07:08.280 own property until like

04:07:09.700 the 70s so I think

04:07:11.180 like wealth disparity

04:07:13.180 wise like women 1.00

04:07:14.020 wait why couldn't your

04:07:15.380 parents own property

04:07:16.320 until the 70s

04:07:16.780 no woman 0.99

04:07:17.340 women women just 1.00

04:07:18.700 solely on their own

04:07:20.000 without being married

04:07:20.760 they actually couldn't

04:07:21.340 they just couldn't be

04:07:21.900 married right exactly

04:07:22.860 like you said

04:07:23.400 I feel like this is

04:07:24.180 such a

04:07:24.560 it wasn't the 70s

04:07:25.680 wasn't it like the

04:07:26.360 20s

04:07:27.020 no

04:07:27.480 this is such a

04:07:29.980 feminist talking point 0.99

04:07:31.040 like oh the way I was

04:07:32.260 raised like I I'm just

04:07:34.220 a slave I'm beholden

04:07:36.040 when did we say

04:07:36.720 hold on

04:07:37.040 okay

04:07:37.440 let me finish

04:07:38.460 oh I you know the

04:07:39.820 because I was raised

04:07:41.160 this way I'm just not

04:07:42.580 going to be I'm not

04:07:43.600 going to be a risk

04:07:44.320 taker you were not

04:07:45.280 beholden to the way

04:07:46.480 you were raised take

04:07:47.460 some accountability

04:07:48.020 women have agency 0.95

04:07:49.100 you can move in the

04:07:50.460 world in the west 0.92

04:07:51.540 however you damn well 0.78

04:07:52.840 please take 0.89

04:07:53.620 accountability

04:07:54.080 you have agency

04:07:55.280 nobody's saying that

04:07:56.740 women can't take 1.00

04:07:57.420 accountability

04:07:57.940 what they're saying

04:07:58.880 is that obviously

04:07:59.860 just like every other 1.00

04:08:01.000 fucking human being 1.00

04:08:02.000 in the world 1.00

04:08:02.480 the way that you're

04:08:03.220 raised affects your

04:08:04.220 actions

04:08:04.540 I am sorry to tell you

04:08:06.300 that you're not like

04:08:07.040 this special little

04:08:07.740 snowflake that is

04:08:08.780 immune to environmental

04:08:10.220 characteristics

04:08:11.240 Brian

04:08:12.060 I think you're a

04:08:14.080 special little

04:08:14.740 snowflake

04:08:15.380 thank you very much

04:08:16.500 I love to see you

04:08:17.780 fight up like this

04:08:18.520 by the way

04:08:19.060 it's so exciting

04:08:20.240 I still just

04:08:21.940 I

04:08:22.260 you you haven't

04:08:23.620 really made a

04:08:24.460 convincing argument

04:08:25.240 for the ways in

04:08:25.960 which you

04:08:26.460 have

04:08:27.300 don't have

04:08:27.920 rights

04:08:28.120 I just like to

04:08:28.640 see you're angry

04:08:29.200 here let me ask

04:08:33.720 you a question

04:08:33.980 do you think

04:08:34.420 because I'm a

04:08:35.280 male do you

04:08:35.760 think I'm

04:08:36.060 privileged because

04:08:36.820 I'm a male

04:08:37.260 I think there's

04:08:38.900 certain ways that

04:08:39.740 you're privileged

04:08:40.240 and certain ways

04:08:40.860 that you're

04:08:41.140 oppressed

04:08:41.500 because I'm a

04:08:43.200 male

04:08:43.380 yeah I think

04:08:44.140 men definitely 0.80

04:08:44.900 have some ways

04:08:46.000 that they're

04:08:46.280 oppressed

04:08:46.680 do you think

04:08:47.620 male privilege

04:08:48.360 is superior

04:08:50.560 to female 0.86

04:08:51.440 privilege maybe

04:08:52.080 superior is not

04:08:52.660 the right word

04:08:53.080 is

04:08:53.800 provides more

04:08:55.580 privilege than

04:08:56.300 female privilege 0.99

04:08:57.080 white male

04:08:57.740 I don't know

04:08:59.360 white male

04:08:59.980 I will say that

04:09:00.860 I'm not sure

04:09:01.420 how you would

04:09:01.840 quantify

04:09:02.380 these white 0.59

04:09:03.800 cis heterosexual 0.67

04:09:06.520 men 0.99

04:09:07.560 ruining society

04:09:09.820 if a society

04:09:12.200 is built by 0.66

04:09:13.200 white men

04:09:14.320 then yeah

04:09:15.120 the rules are

04:09:16.300 to your favor

04:09:17.440 of course

04:09:18.100 if you're in

04:09:19.020 society was built

04:09:19.960 by white men

04:09:21.020 here in America

04:09:21.640 yeah if you're in

04:09:22.420 China you're not 1.00

04:09:23.080 going to have

04:09:23.660 as much privileges

04:09:24.480 no

04:09:24.960 I mean but

04:09:26.420 times are changing

04:09:27.380 hopefully

04:09:28.320 I think

04:09:29.300 and you're bigger

04:09:30.240 you can beat up

04:09:31.680 any of us 0.95

04:09:32.320 at this table

04:09:32.940 yeah you could just

04:09:45.240 because they're seen

04:09:45.900 as less effective

04:09:46.880 it's like why would

04:09:48.280 you have if you had

04:09:48.920 two employees one

04:09:49.960 costed a little bit

04:09:50.680 more but you think

04:09:51.460 they're doing a plus

04:09:52.460 work versus an

04:09:53.300 employee you could

04:09:53.860 pay them less but

04:09:54.520 they're doing like

04:09:55.080 c work who are you

04:09:56.180 gonna hire this

04:09:56.780 you're saying that

04:09:57.380 women do c-level 1.00

04:09:58.820 work

04:09:59.040 yeah I'm saying

04:09:59.700 that men

04:10:00.180 they assume that

04:10:01.720 women are doing 1.00

04:10:02.280 c-level work

04:10:03.040 that's a problem

04:10:03.920 it's just in their

04:10:05.320 perception it has

04:10:06.060 nothing to do

04:10:06.700 with their results

04:10:07.460 a lot of times

04:10:09.260 yeah

04:10:09.680 if you remove the

04:10:10.020 name and just

04:10:10.740 look at the resume

04:10:11.540 they do hire way

04:10:12.820 more women 0.98

04:10:13.300 but that doesn't

04:10:13.780 even that doesn't

04:10:14.720 even work when

04:10:15.460 you talk about

04:10:16.180 like long

04:10:18.320 companies that

04:10:19.040 have had like a

04:10:19.880 lot like many

04:10:20.520 many years of

04:10:21.520 practice with DEI

04:10:22.900 because that would

04:10:23.800 that doesn't just

04:10:24.840 include first hires

04:10:26.180 that includes all

04:10:27.080 of the people who

04:10:27.800 work and that's

04:10:28.500 why the wage gap

04:10:29.100 is closing because

04:10:29.800 people are realizing

04:10:30.640 that women can be 1.00

04:10:31.720 just as capable

04:10:32.480 but slowly but the

04:10:34.440 CEOs are all like

04:10:35.300 boomers you know

04:10:36.040 they're still like

04:10:36.620 60 years old

04:10:37.540 no they're literally

04:10:38.480 financially incentivized

04:10:40.140 to hire women

04:10:40.760 yeah and that's why

04:10:41.320 it is slowly closing

04:10:42.600 because before

04:10:43.520 also not every

04:10:44.420 company is ESG

04:10:45.400 like there's tons

04:10:46.300 of companies

04:10:46.580 literally every

04:10:47.340 company is

04:10:48.140 that is so not

04:10:48.280 true we can

04:10:48.880 search up the

04:10:49.340 statistic about

04:10:50.000 how many ESG

04:10:50.700 companies are out

04:10:51.460 there versus

04:10:51.920 let me come back

04:10:52.260 to what we're

04:10:52.620 talking about

04:10:52.860 okay so let's

04:10:53.480 talk about male

04:10:54.160 privilege right

04:10:54.800 so do you

04:10:56.080 think male

04:10:56.880 I'd rather talk

04:10:57.340 about male

04:10:57.680 oppression I'm

04:10:59.100 sorry okay but

04:10:59.900 do you think male

04:11:00.720 privilege is provides

04:11:03.100 more privilege than

04:11:04.000 female privilege 0.99

04:11:04.800 um it depends on

04:11:07.160 what context or area

04:11:08.680 you're talking about

04:11:09.480 right in general

04:11:10.960 like just there's

04:11:11.780 no I hate when

04:11:12.860 people are like in

04:11:13.480 general like no

04:11:14.580 like that I'm sorry

04:11:15.600 world is not black 0.99

04:11:16.720 and white it's not

04:11:17.480 simple you have to

04:11:18.520 look at things in

04:11:19.160 certain contexts so

04:11:20.900 I think yeah

04:11:21.980 necessarily well we'll

04:11:24.040 agree to disagree on

04:11:24.920 this okay we can

04:11:25.780 ask you a question

04:11:26.560 not a thing like do

04:11:27.820 we not believe in

04:11:28.680 that I think males are

04:11:29.940 systematically oppressed

04:11:30.820 in this country but I

04:11:31.640 don't think women are 1.00

04:11:32.340 that's what I'm talking

04:11:33.020 about if one of us

04:11:35.380 try to jump you you

04:11:36.400 can beat us up and

04:11:37.380 that is a privilege

04:11:38.320 going going way back

04:11:40.020 wait that's not a

04:11:40.960 privilege that's just a

04:11:41.880 biological reality but

04:11:42.960 that's a privilege a

04:11:43.760 biological reality is a

04:11:45.300 privilege right that you

04:11:46.760 can do that how are you

04:11:47.880 defining privilege yeah

04:11:49.380 privilege if they were

04:11:50.380 able to use that to

04:11:51.200 like then you put it

04:11:52.120 in a situation but if

04:11:53.400 you're for that at

04:11:54.180 somebody there then

04:11:55.340 like that's not a

04:11:56.180 privilege but you can

04:11:56.880 come at me and I

04:11:57.940 will be defeated a

04:11:58.800 privilege implies like

04:12:00.160 any of us yeah I'm

04:12:02.000 saying like if you

04:12:02.820 chose to be violent

04:12:04.060 then you can be a

04:12:05.780 majority of women 0.99

04:12:06.760 so that is a privilege

04:12:08.760 just like physically

04:12:09.680 W's in the chat for

04:12:10.800 flam life that's just 0.98

04:12:11.400 biological physical

04:12:12.480 stuff I don't but I

04:12:14.300 don't I don't know if

04:12:15.180 uh is that not a

04:12:16.080 privilege I don't know if

04:12:16.520 I see that as a

04:12:17.080 privilege either when I

04:12:18.080 really if you can like

04:12:19.200 physically take over if

04:12:20.540 someone broke into your

04:12:21.320 house like as woman if I

04:12:23.140 live I think that's just

04:12:23.920 a reality

04:12:25.780 like when I think

04:12:28.220 I think when we're

04:12:29.840 talking about privilege

04:12:30.600 we're talking about

04:12:31.460 things that are either

04:12:33.740 uh bestowed to us or

04:12:35.880 that like a right

04:12:36.900 bestowed to us by the

04:12:38.440 government or um

04:12:40.440 society

04:12:41.400 this is a social thing

04:12:43.620 like a societal based

04:12:45.480 thing

04:12:46.140 I think it's a societal

04:12:47.240 based thing that's 0.99

04:12:48.260 granted to you that you

04:12:49.300 can absolutely choose to

04:12:50.820 beat up any woman and 0.98

04:12:52.120 they cannot defeat you 0.98

04:12:53.260 no that's just

04:12:53.700 biological reality

04:12:55.020 and also he would be

04:12:56.260 prosecuted like the

04:12:57.900 societal result would be

04:12:59.620 his prosecution

04:13:00.660 yeah but if I chose to

04:13:02.080 do that I can't beat you

04:13:03.020 up

04:13:03.820 because it has nothing

04:13:05.720 to do with society or

04:13:07.040 government roles it has

04:13:08.220 to do with biology

04:13:09.160 okay so it's only

04:13:10.040 systemic and it's only

04:13:11.380 government so biological

04:13:12.660 privileges don't count

04:13:13.740 well do you want it

04:13:15.980 when you say the word

04:13:17.000 because when it comes to

04:13:17.720 women when you say the 0.99

04:13:18.460 word privilege you're

04:13:19.280 implying something that

04:13:20.100 you want to get rid of

04:13:20.960 like we don't want some

04:13:21.780 people to be privileged

04:13:22.420 and other people to be

04:13:23.200 not privileged and so

04:13:24.920 when you're talking about

04:13:26.060 like oh he's more

04:13:27.280 privileged because he's

04:13:28.160 biologically bigger that's

04:13:29.300 not something that we

04:13:29.960 could like strive

04:13:30.640 yeah we can't really

04:13:31.080 task that

04:13:31.520 so do you believe in like

04:13:32.840 pretty privilege

04:13:34.060 that's biological too

04:13:35.840 are we striving as a

04:13:37.020 society to get rid of

04:13:38.200 pretty people then

04:13:39.140 no no it's not

04:13:40.420 getting rid of

04:13:41.180 yes 1.00

04:13:42.020 yes bitch fix your 1.00

04:13:44.700 face 1.00

04:13:45.220 there are certain

04:13:46.620 privileges that are

04:13:48.580 biological and I don't

04:13:49.960 know why we discount

04:13:50.920 those but then only

04:13:52.120 count the ones that

04:13:53.140 are so good

04:13:53.600 I think pretty 0.99

04:13:54.320 privilege is bullshit 0.98

04:13:55.260 and honestly like I'm 0.99

04:13:56.480 like I mean to a

04:13:57.460 degree for sure you

04:13:58.300 can get ahead but I

04:13:59.600 honestly personally

04:14:00.420 there's people who've

04:14:01.160 told me I'm really good

04:14:01.760 at high ticket sales

04:14:02.500 because of how I look

04:14:03.500 and I'm like well

04:14:04.300 actually I didn't have

04:14:06.460 a camera on the whole

04:14:07.300 time it's only via

04:14:08.060 phone they're like oh

04:14:08.740 well it's because of

04:14:09.380 your accent

04:14:09.940 I mean people always

04:14:11.200 do whatever they can

04:14:12.000 to discredit your

04:14:13.300 actual value based off

04:14:14.980 the I agree with

04:14:15.940 what you're arguing

04:14:16.920 but I do think it

04:14:18.360 still exists

04:14:19.020 but I do think that

04:14:22.240 if you're like a 0.90

04:14:23.480 really attractive

04:14:24.060 person whether you're

04:14:24.980 a man or woman

04:14:25.620 you're gonna be able

04:14:27.040 to maneuver through

04:14:27.840 life a little easier

04:14:29.520 yeah that's why we

04:14:30.780 do men have privilege

04:14:33.760 based off the fact

04:14:34.480 that if a woman 1.00

04:14:35.080 came at you

04:14:35.820 like no that's not

04:14:36.620 privilege it's a

04:14:37.320 biological fact and

04:14:38.500 it's a reality I

04:14:39.500 think that those

04:14:40.060 things are very

04:14:40.780 okay so all

04:14:41.840 biological facts are

04:14:43.180 not privileges

04:14:43.840 let's talk let's

04:14:47.060 change the wording

04:14:47.820 to advantage are

04:14:49.160 men advantaged when

04:14:51.440 it comes to physical

04:14:52.240 strength because of

04:14:53.740 because of biology

04:14:54.780 yes yeah is it a I

04:14:57.840 think though when

04:14:58.300 we're thinking of

04:14:58.980 privilege we're

04:15:00.280 thinking like because

04:15:01.300 for example pretty

04:15:02.340 privilege it's not

04:15:04.160 just the fact that

04:15:05.440 you're physically

04:15:06.020 attractive but the

04:15:07.220 benefits that that's

04:15:08.260 going to reap it that

04:15:09.500 the benefits that

04:15:10.460 you're going to be

04:15:11.020 able to reap in the

04:15:12.500 workplace in romantic

04:15:13.780 relationships how

04:15:14.840 people are going to

04:15:15.680 treat you so it's

04:15:16.760 like an external

04:15:17.480 thing and I guess

04:15:18.920 so you have more

04:15:19.560 privilege than someone

04:15:20.440 who is like 5'3

04:15:21.480 right do you think

04:15:22.220 that's different to

04:15:22.960 what she's talking

04:15:23.860 about the so-called

04:15:24.360 male privilege I

04:15:25.660 think it's the same

04:15:26.440 biological facts

04:15:27.640 birth of them

04:15:28.340 how are they

04:15:28.800 distinct what do

04:15:30.260 you mean I'm

04:15:30.900 trying to hold on

04:15:31.480 I'm trying to

04:15:32.060 take some time

04:15:34.200 the hamster wheel 0.98

04:15:37.020 is fucking four 0.99

04:15:38.400 hours deep in the 0.99

04:15:39.360 podcast

04:15:39.700 wait okay so

04:15:43.140 piximus maximus

04:15:45.140 I don't like how

04:15:46.900 you call me that

04:15:48.100 wait I have a

04:15:50.080 question it makes

04:15:50.620 me sound like a

04:15:51.400 pick me like

04:15:52.120 wait oh so

04:15:53.800 wait males got 0.84

04:15:56.160 more privilege

04:15:57.020 in certain ways

04:15:59.140 wait I have a

04:15:59.740 question okay so

04:16:00.840 you know you know

04:16:01.680 the show Handmaid's

04:16:02.620 Tale right the

04:16:03.120 whole thing is like

04:16:04.000 wow they're having

04:16:04.720 their kids taken

04:16:05.780 from them like

04:16:06.960 that's a horrible

04:16:08.000 part of the show

04:16:08.560 and now there's

04:16:09.120 other parts of the

04:16:10.300 show that show

04:16:10.800 women's oppression 0.99

04:16:11.560 which is supposed to

04:16:13.020 be horrific like

04:16:13.800 the essay and stuff

04:16:14.660 but we all kind of

04:16:15.660 agree as people

04:16:16.660 watching the most

04:16:17.740 horrific thing is

04:16:19.000 the women getting 0.85

04:16:19.760 taken away the

04:16:20.860 one difference

04:16:21.780 between men and

04:16:22.540 women legality in 1.00

04:16:23.700 society is women 0.84

04:16:24.680 have the right to 0.96

04:16:25.560 murder men's 0.99

04:16:27.240 babies but men 0.99

04:16:28.880 don't have any

04:16:29.760 right to keep

04:16:31.040 their baby if a

04:16:32.380 woman wants to 1.00

04:16:33.120 murder it yeah 0.99

04:16:33.760 men don't have 1.00

04:16:34.580 the right of

04:16:35.240 another person's

04:16:36.240 bodily autonomy

04:16:37.340 men do not 0.99

04:16:37.960 have their own

04:16:38.900 children yeah no

04:16:39.800 you do not have a

04:16:40.920 right to tell a

04:16:41.880 woman how her 0.96

04:16:42.940 internal organs are

04:16:43.960 gonna function

04:16:44.560 it's not her

04:16:45.340 internal organ

04:16:46.300 it is literally

04:16:47.480 your blood your

04:16:48.780 lungs your

04:16:49.600 everything is 0.86

04:16:50.540 keeping this you

04:16:51.860 know thing it

04:16:52.920 could be a baby

04:16:53.440 eventually alive but

04:16:54.820 it's you do not

04:16:55.360 have a right to

04:16:56.020 tell another person

04:16:57.060 hey you have to

04:16:58.140 keep this other

04:16:58.840 human being alive

04:16:59.980 you guys will only

04:17:01.560 sleep with someone

04:17:02.260 you would absolutely

04:17:03.040 have a baby with

04:17:04.580 like and raise it

04:17:05.680 to 18 I would not 0.87

04:17:06.880 risk unprotected sex 0.86

04:17:08.840 no with somebody who

04:17:09.900 I wouldn't you know

04:17:11.620 one in ten people on

04:17:12.560 the pill get pregnant 0.98

04:17:14.160 and you would just

04:17:15.400 keep it I actually

04:17:17.740 have never taken the

04:17:18.700 pill personally so

04:17:19.700 what you're saying is

04:17:20.360 people can take the

04:17:21.080 pill and then they get

04:17:22.040 pregnant is what 1.00

04:17:22.840 you're saying yes

04:17:23.600 yeah yeah I mean 0.98

04:17:25.520 that sucks but 0.61

04:17:26.900 personally from my 0.91

04:17:28.280 ideals I'm very

04:17:30.160 very pro life at

04:17:31.800 the end of the day

04:17:32.280 I think that where

04:17:33.260 a lot of the

04:17:33.720 disparity comes from 0.70

04:17:34.580 is okay where does

04:17:35.540 life start and a

04:17:36.540 lot of people are

04:17:37.080 like okay it starts

04:17:37.880 from when the

04:17:38.720 baby's first made

04:17:39.520 some people like no

04:17:40.260 it's 28 weeks some

04:17:41.220 people believe it's

04:17:41.800 this or that I think

04:17:42.520 all of us believe

04:17:43.340 it's wrong to take a

04:17:44.180 life I think the

04:17:45.200 disparity is where

04:17:46.020 does that life start

04:17:46.940 and I believe it

04:17:47.800 starts from inception

04:17:48.760 when the herb

04:17:50.580 latches onto the egg 1.00

04:17:51.720 and she fucking 1.00

04:17:52.500 starts let's move 1.00

04:17:54.860 away from abortion 0.88

04:17:55.580 pixie your thoughts

04:17:57.760 on the following

04:17:58.580 statement women are 1.00

04:18:01.340 more privileged than

04:18:02.100 men again in certain 0.71

04:18:05.320 men are more oppressed

04:18:06.740 than women in certain 0.97

04:18:08.100 areas an apology

04:18:09.260 letter for how we

04:18:10.240 were oppressed for

04:18:10.960 so many years a

04:18:11.960 letter or like I

04:18:15.900 think I think men

04:18:16.920 need a letter for how

04:18:18.640 oppressed men have

04:18:19.520 well they started the

04:18:20.560 country they didn't do

04:18:21.340 it to themselves

04:18:21.920 men oppress other 0.62

04:18:22.840 men started the

04:18:23.320 country I found it

04:18:25.480 I mean whatever

04:18:26.640 founded one of the

04:18:30.040 most free countries

04:18:31.120 in the world quote

04:18:33.040 unquote free because

04:18:34.220 it is the most free

04:18:35.380 we have the highest

04:18:35.980 impression in the

04:18:37.420 world and also most

04:18:38.680 people live

04:18:39.320 it depends on who

04:18:41.720 we're talking about

04:18:42.500 because people are

04:18:43.360 afraid to do because

04:18:44.980 people are so free to

04:18:46.100 do their actions

04:18:46.980 they're more likely to

04:18:48.160 commit egregious crimes

04:18:49.500 like so in like

04:18:50.480 communist China for

04:18:51.820 instance like as you

04:18:52.880 guys said you feel

04:18:53.580 pretty safe walking

04:18:54.500 around because people

04:18:55.440 are very very scared

04:18:56.720 of the government

04:18:57.260 they're not going to

04:18:57.960 be going out screaming 1.00

04:18:59.440 Kim Jong-un sucks 1.00

04:19:00.540 dick like you can't 1.00

04:19:01.420 even do that 0.99

04:19:02.140 that's North Korea

04:19:04.480 bro

04:19:04.960 or sorry

04:19:06.060 Xi Jinping 1.00

04:19:07.240 Xi Jinping sucks 1.00

04:19:08.520 dick 1.00

04:19:08.960 yeah you can't like go 0.85

04:19:10.700 out in China and

04:19:11.640 Tiananmen Square and

04:19:12.540 like start like doing

04:19:13.580 that you saw what

04:19:14.320 happened with the

04:19:14.700 tanks in the last

04:19:15.440 sky okay like we

04:19:16.900 we have more for

04:19:18.220 example like freedom

04:19:18.900 of speech

04:19:19.340 this place got shot

04:19:20.000 up my second year

04:19:21.180 of college

04:19:21.620 I know with what's

04:19:23.260 his face Elliot Rogers

04:19:24.580 yeah okay we have

04:19:25.840 in the US we have

04:19:27.520 freedom of speech

04:19:29.320 which a lot of other

04:19:30.540 countries don't really

04:19:31.560 have like it depends

04:19:32.960 because one of my

04:19:33.700 friends got to keep

04:19:34.640 on getting rated by

04:19:35.760 the FBI because he

04:19:36.820 started Area 51

04:19:37.920 raid you remember

04:19:39.000 that he literally

04:19:41.020 kept getting rated

04:19:41.880 every time he would

04:19:42.680 tweet like yo let's

04:19:43.580 meet up so like it's

04:19:45.380 like freedom of

04:19:46.260 speech with an

04:19:47.020 asterisk well yeah

04:19:47.920 you can't like plan

04:19:49.580 yeah but you can't

04:19:50.840 just like okay guys

04:19:51.760 we're going to we're

04:19:52.960 going to like go

04:19:54.020 invade uh like a

04:19:56.760 military base we you

04:19:59.020 can't just yeah I

04:20:00.180 think that they

04:20:01.180 differ I think the

04:20:02.040 FBI tracking him

04:20:03.120 actually does meet the

04:20:04.160 Brandenburg v.

04:20:04.900 Ohio test I think

04:20:05.940 they're constitutionally

04:20:07.260 in the right I think

04:20:08.120 we do need to think

04:20:09.120 about Esquire I think

04:20:11.440 we do need to take

04:20:12.260 into account who has

04:20:14.620 the most freedom like

04:20:15.760 within this country

04:20:16.420 people with the most

04:20:17.720 money have the most

04:20:18.560 freedom who gets to

04:20:19.940 do whatever they want

04:20:21.100 whenever they want

04:20:22.200 and there's no 0.94

04:20:22.940 white men

04:20:23.180 is that not true

04:20:25.680 which people

04:20:26.200 not erosexual 0.97

04:20:27.080 is that not true

04:20:28.580 I came from

04:20:29.420 Bakersfield so it's

04:20:30.220 not true

04:20:30.660 hold on so you're 0.99

04:20:32.220 part black woman 0.99

04:20:33.400 correct what can I do

04:20:35.260 as a white man that

04:20:36.480 you can't do

04:20:37.420 do you remember

04:20:38.980 okay not that

04:20:39.880 answer the question

04:20:40.580 answer the question

04:20:41.200 I'm a white man

04:20:43.100 what what can I do

04:20:44.440 that you can't

04:20:46.060 okay let's say um

04:20:47.440 we were uh in I

04:20:49.420 don't know I was a 0.66

04:20:49.920 prostitute can I say 0.97

04:20:51.180 that and you were 0.99

04:20:52.220 at John I don't know 0.99

04:20:53.060 where the fuck this 0.98

04:20:53.800 is going but okay 0.99

04:20:54.420 no this is just that

04:20:55.480 like um as far as

04:20:57.240 like sex work

04:20:58.300 experience whatever

04:20:59.240 if anything were to

04:21:00.100 happen that's right

04:21:00.840 you can be a if

04:21:02.180 like everything in

04:21:03.060 your life fails if

04:21:03.660 you were a John you

04:21:04.420 need money you can

04:21:05.880 sell yourself I

04:21:07.200 can't you're right

04:21:08.400 I would buy

04:21:09.100 no that's not nice

04:21:11.680 that's not what I'm

04:21:12.960 saying I'm very

04:21:14.080 pricy though are you

04:21:14.660 no I'm saying if

04:21:16.700 anything were to

04:21:17.440 happen if an

04:21:18.140 altercation were to

04:21:19.340 happen within between

04:21:20.520 us who's going to

04:21:21.960 get in trouble it's

04:21:22.680 going to be me every

04:21:23.540 single time wait

04:21:24.480 what and that is you

04:21:26.240 know it's no there's

04:21:27.420 actually they're

04:21:28.040 actually I don't I

04:21:29.280 don't know that might

04:21:30.020 be there's actually

04:21:31.060 pushes to make

04:21:32.680 prostitution legal but

04:21:34.980 they will criminalize

04:21:35.880 because there's no

04:21:36.780 reason for it to be

04:21:37.460 illegal I mean

04:21:38.660 forced no but yes

04:21:39.820 but but you're

04:21:42.260 saying you're saying

04:21:42.740 that the the women 0.96

04:21:45.120 who's offering her

04:21:46.020 services she will get

04:21:49.420 in trouble but the

04:21:50.060 men it's a mutual

04:21:50.820 agreement it's actually

04:21:51.720 the typically the

04:21:52.660 reverse the man gets

04:21:53.820 into more trouble

04:21:54.640 no not John's

04:21:55.680 don't John's

04:21:56.100 what state are you

04:21:56.720 talking about

04:21:57.460 they're trying to

04:22:00.180 pass laws to

04:22:00.980 tell me this to

04:22:02.200 criminalize the

04:22:03.540 procurer oh

04:22:05.180 really yeah the

04:22:05.940 John's oh that's

04:22:06.640 new I never knew

04:22:08.080 about that I'm

04:22:09.020 curious what is it

04:22:09.900 this might I think

04:22:10.680 this is probably a

04:22:11.380 highly dependent on

04:22:12.100 the state law

04:22:12.620 pixie probably who 0.85

04:22:13.800 is more oppressed

04:22:14.860 okay here I'll give

04:22:17.380 you a list on how

04:22:18.360 who's more oppressed

04:22:19.240 and what men are

04:22:20.120 more oppressed

04:22:20.640 men are more

04:22:22.800 oppressed emotionally

04:22:23.640 they are not allowed

04:22:24.580 to express their

04:22:25.120 emotions without being

04:22:25.960 looked down upon

04:22:26.680 you can't cry

04:22:27.360 like yeah but

04:22:28.600 women are allowed 1.00

04:22:29.520 to or suicide rates

04:22:31.080 okay let me ask you

04:22:31.920 question but you

04:22:32.760 often hear that

04:22:33.340 because you often

04:22:34.040 hear this talk

04:22:34.520 about oh men

04:22:35.980 are the oppressors

04:22:37.080 women are oppressed 0.96

04:22:38.340 male privilege 0.72

04:22:39.560 oh my god 0.81

04:22:40.280 most violence on

04:22:41.720 women are men 1.00

04:22:42.200 let me tell you

04:22:42.440 this you're the

04:22:44.120 the second the

04:22:45.960 minutes after birth

04:22:47.860 who's more

04:22:49.280 oppressed let's

04:22:49.940 just say the first

04:22:50.580 five minutes let's

04:22:51.500 say the first 30

04:22:52.200 minutes of life

04:22:52.980 who's more oppressed

04:22:54.000 men or women

04:22:54.620 boys or girls

04:22:55.880 everyone

04:22:56.560 just answer the

04:22:57.560 question who's more

04:22:58.380 oppressed

04:22:58.560 it's very it's

04:23:02.140 very easy it's

04:23:02.700 very easy the

04:23:03.140 first 30 minutes

04:23:03.820 who's more

04:23:04.180 oppressed

04:23:04.400 women because 1.00

04:23:07.140 women are born 0.92

04:23:07.760 smaller and men

04:23:08.960 drink more milk

04:23:10.320 they need to get

04:23:11.720 into like a baby

04:23:12.380 fight right

04:23:13.040 yeah you have to

04:23:14.040 put them up against

04:23:14.760 each other in a baby

04:23:15.580 ring

04:23:16.000 we should do it 0.98

04:23:17.820 crack babies 0.98

04:23:19.220 like we can't like

04:23:20.320 it could be a whole

04:23:21.000 ring pixie okay

04:23:22.560 let's say the first

04:23:24.720 three hours the first

04:23:26.460 day the first no no 0.90

04:23:27.460 no I'm trying I

04:23:28.200 don't know how

04:23:28.560 quickly after birth

04:23:29.340 this occurs but

04:23:29.920 who's more

04:23:30.720 oppressed men or

04:23:32.200 women okay boys or 1.00

04:23:33.300 girls I do not 1.00

04:23:34.320 have oppression is

04:23:35.440 not that's not how

04:23:36.600 oppression works okay

04:23:37.620 like five years I

04:23:39.840 would say women are 1.00

04:23:40.520 more oppressed okay

04:23:41.880 okay I'm just

04:23:42.920 talking about

04:23:43.460 immediately upon

04:23:44.460 birth

04:23:45.120 get to your point I

04:23:50.920 really don't

04:23:51.400 understand where

04:23:51.840 you're going with

04:23:52.280 this I don't

04:23:52.920 understand how

04:23:53.440 you're ready for

04:23:55.020 this oh I know

04:23:55.820 what you're gonna

04:23:56.200 say I know is that

04:23:57.160 what you're gonna

04:23:57.480 say circumcision 0.92

04:23:59.120 yeah okay yeah you

04:24:00.820 could say that's the

04:24:01.520 way that that's also

04:24:02.420 the American thing

04:24:03.040 yeah men sure upon

04:24:05.080 birth almost every

04:24:06.880 single child in this

04:24:07.980 country has their 0.99

04:24:09.340 genitals mutilated 1.00

04:24:10.480 that's pretty fucking 0.99

04:24:12.420 what's the rate it's 1.00

04:24:14.380 came from Jewish people

04:24:15.920 it's very high

04:24:16.020 no no no it's like a

04:24:19.340 custom yeah but even

04:24:20.500 secular even look let's

04:24:22.320 not but no in Europe

04:24:23.420 they don't do it

04:24:24.120 normally in Asia they 0.95

04:24:25.080 don't do it normally

04:24:25.740 okay but we're we're

04:24:26.780 talking in America yes

04:24:28.300 there's certain

04:24:29.080 countries probably most

04:24:30.220 countries don't do it

04:24:31.160 we're talking about the

04:24:32.100 United States I'm as a

04:24:33.580 male if you're born in 0.87

04:24:35.160 the United States upon 0.97

04:24:36.820 birth your genitals are 0.99

04:24:38.660 mutilated now sure now I 0.99

04:24:39.980 know why Brian started

04:24:41.140 his podcast he's upset

04:24:42.820 about his poor skin he 0.99

04:24:44.140 wants it back what the 1.00

04:24:45.300 fuck he's bad at all 0.99

04:24:47.780 women for this especially 1.00

04:24:49.120 those gosh darn stem 0.96

04:24:50.440 nurses that's why he 0.99

04:24:52.660 loves large labia as it 0.98

04:24:54.020 reminds him of like

04:24:55.020 exactly the skin that

04:24:56.540 he's missing in his life

04:24:57.300 yes I'm gonna steal it

04:24:58.240 I'm gonna steal the 1.00

04:24:59.800 fucking labia I want to 1.00

04:25:01.460 wrap that shit around my 1.00

04:25:03.240 dick and I can pretend 1.00

04:25:04.700 I can pretend

04:25:05.620 I can pretend for a

04:25:10.380 brief moment of

04:25:11.260 pleasure that that's

04:25:13.080 just my foreskin that's 0.79

04:25:14.740 right you guys got me 0.98

04:25:16.120 I think that is messed

04:25:17.260 up though that it's a

04:25:18.260 norm for babies to get

04:25:19.900 mutilated why is it a 0.60

04:25:21.160 norm though like where

04:25:22.240 did I think that's a

04:25:23.000 bigger crime than any of

04:25:24.240 these grievances that

04:25:25.420 feminists throw out 1.00

04:25:26.480 we didn't get to the

04:25:27.280 source of it

04:25:28.000 that like a very high

04:25:30.720 percentage of babies

04:25:32.300 it's so funny that you

04:25:33.560 you guys laugh about

04:25:34.660 this no I doubt I doubt

04:25:36.380 hold on I'm gonna be

04:25:37.460 serious here I doubt

04:25:38.520 that you guys would be

04:25:39.260 laughing if it was the

04:25:40.180 reverse if women were 1.00

04:25:41.440 having their fucking 1.00

04:25:42.200 clits chopped off like 1.00

04:25:43.940 well it's not in Africa

04:25:44.940 they do that if you if

04:25:46.780 we got our lips chopped

04:25:47.940 off we will be less

04:25:48.800 discriminated against in

04:25:50.060 porn and stuff like

04:25:51.100 because men also think

04:25:52.320 that I exclusively watch 1.00

04:25:54.480 that shit but you know 1.00

04:25:56.680 like there are people who 1.00

04:25:57.560 exclusively watch

04:25:58.320 uncircumcised people but 0.71

04:26:00.020 then the porn industry is

04:26:01.780 like very hey 1.00

04:26:02.660 circumcised dicks and 0.99

04:26:04.840 you know small male male 1.00

04:26:07.700 sir I would argue that

04:26:09.180 man hold on hold on

04:26:11.560 hold on I would argue

04:26:12.760 that men getting 0.92

04:26:13.780 circumcised in the US is

04:26:15.780 a bigger grievance than

04:26:17.140 any grievance that

04:26:18.260 feminists have been 1.00

04:26:18.900 talking about for the

04:26:19.700 past

04:26:20.000 ever oh really the right

04:26:24.440 to vote yes getting

04:26:26.260 circumcised getting 0.77

04:26:27.840 circumcised is worse 0.86

04:26:29.760 the right to not be a

04:26:30.740 second-class citizen yes 0.99

04:26:32.120 having your genitals I 0.99

04:26:33.500 would argue yes I would 1.00

04:26:34.800 argue that getting your 0.99

04:26:36.080 genitals mutilated is 0.99

04:26:37.860 probably a bit worse so

04:26:38.540 you must have grown up

04:26:41.320 with like dudes in

04:26:42.060 America whose parents

04:26:43.000 didn't do that I mean

04:26:44.140 that must have been like

04:26:45.040 a super self-conscious

04:26:46.100 thing for them like when

04:26:47.100 they were in the locker

04:26:47.900 room dating girls most men 0.84

04:26:50.160 I think in the US are

04:26:51.060 circumcised exactly so if

04:26:52.520 they don't get it they

04:26:54.100 tend to be pretty

04:26:55.020 self-conscious about it

04:26:56.240 they tend to be

04:26:56.860 discriminated against

04:26:57.980 they said yeah they tend

04:26:59.220 to be scared to show

04:26:59.980 women it they like don't 1.00

04:27:01.300 want to show it in the

04:27:01.860 locker rooms it's like

04:27:03.340 yeah so whereas I don't

04:27:05.500 know any time and period

04:27:06.560 where like some women have 1.00

04:27:07.780 the right to vote and

04:27:08.620 other ones like who

04:27:09.700 didn't have the right to

04:27:10.600 vote or sorry we're the

04:27:12.160 ones who have the right to

04:27:13.160 vote are like man I'm

04:27:14.060 jealous of the women who

04:27:15.100 don't have the right to

04:27:15.980 vote so yeah just to

04:27:17.600 everyone here's a bigger

04:27:19.020 grievance military

04:27:21.200 conscription that's that's

04:27:22.520 a bigger grievance than

04:27:23.360 all of women's collective

04:27:24.540 grievances combined no I

04:27:26.180 don't necessarily I think

04:27:27.460 it goes back to right to

04:27:28.500 vote yeah absolutely

04:27:29.660 right to vote right to

04:27:31.140 literally complaining about

04:27:32.260 men men oh oh no men

04:27:34.540 are by the way which I 0.99

04:27:36.040 think is fucked up you're 0.99

04:27:36.980 delusional pixie okay let 1.00

04:27:38.940 me finish your sentence

04:27:39.820 yeah so you can be like

04:27:41.420 oh no like men being 0.57

04:27:42.460 drafted is like horrible

04:27:43.620 etc etc men who are in

04:27:46.020 power and decided for

04:27:47.200 themselves oh we should

04:27:48.380 draft other men well

04:27:49.640 whatever whatever they

04:27:50.360 have the right to vote

04:27:51.160 there's a chance to change

04:27:52.220 that while women don't 1.00

04:27:53.620 even have or at least if

04:27:55.140 you're talking about any

04:27:55.840 period in time all periods

04:27:56.840 in time or whatever women 0.99

04:27:57.920 didn't have the right to

04:27:58.700 vote right so women could 1.00

04:28:00.580 if you theoretically had a

04:28:01.820 society where the men

04:28:02.740 decided we're gonna draft

04:28:04.020 women only guess what if 1.00

04:28:05.640 women can't vote they 1.00

04:28:06.640 can't even write that

04:28:07.440 against themselves this

04:28:08.440 argument is actually

04:28:09.560 working against you because

04:28:10.820 women when they so first 0.99

04:28:12.620 of all when men

04:28:13.820 originally had the right to

04:28:15.160 vote that was when the

04:28:16.740 draft first started it was

04:28:18.060 linked to men who had the

04:28:20.400 right to vote and then

04:28:21.820 when women gained the 0.97

04:28:23.180 right to vote they 0.88

04:28:24.320 separated the distinction

04:28:25.820 between voters and those

04:28:27.420 who are drafted so now you

04:28:28.920 only have to sign up for the

04:28:30.860 draft if you're a man who

04:28:32.200 is who wants no no no but

04:28:33.920 you must understand what i'm

04:28:34.900 saying women were able hold 0.98

04:28:36.240 on let me just come in really

04:28:37.120 quick women what uh lauren is 0.99

04:28:39.280 saying is women were able to 1.00

04:28:42.000 secure the right to vote

04:28:43.220 without the corresponding

04:28:44.180 responsibility that men had to 0.70

04:28:46.000 undertake by being subject to

04:28:47.500 military conscription so you

04:28:49.120 were able to get a privilege

04:28:50.380 without the corresponding

04:28:51.360 no no no wait wait you're

04:28:52.500 misunderstanding what i'm

04:28:54.080 trying to say what are you

04:28:55.000 saying you're saying that the

04:28:56.700 draft is by far like the

04:28:59.160 worst form of oppression that

04:29:00.740 a person can possibly have

04:29:01.960 ever military conscription right

04:29:03.000 and i'm saying that at least

04:29:04.760 during that time or at least

04:29:06.020 during the time that men had

04:29:07.020 the right to vote and women

04:29:07.880 didn't there's a possibility of

04:29:09.660 them deciding to turn that

04:29:11.040 over change it etc etc now if

04:29:13.400 for whatever reason in that

04:29:14.580 time period they decided to

04:29:15.880 put that law onto women that 1.00

04:29:17.380 women have to be in the draft 1.00

04:29:18.800 and they don't get a right to

04:29:19.660 vote guess who can change

04:29:20.800 that not the woman they don't

04:29:22.300 have the right to vote they

04:29:23.180 don't have the right to put

04:29:23.800 their elective representatives 1.00

04:29:24.700 they're fucked that's why the 1.00

04:29:26.600 right to vote is the most 1.00

04:29:28.260 fundamental right that we have

04:29:30.060 your argument does nothing to

04:29:32.160 uh rebuttal the fact that

04:29:34.260 military conscription is a far

04:29:36.340 greater grievance than any other

04:29:38.360 okay so i would say any village

04:29:40.820 like if you were to have one

04:29:42.600 man and like a hundred women 0.99

04:29:43.660 if all the men died like they

04:29:44.900 could still repopulate the

04:29:45.860 village yeah so exactly men 0.85

04:29:48.080 agree with that so men are

04:29:49.240 going to send their woman to 1.00

04:29:50.260 die like men aren't going to 0.97

04:29:51.660 like overtake a village and 1.00

04:29:53.260 just like kill all the women 1.00

04:29:54.160 either they're probably going 1.00

04:29:54.760 to take them back like it's

04:29:56.000 like okay so why would you

04:29:57.280 send your woman to war when 0.99

04:29:58.460 your country cannot repopulate

04:29:59.860 without the woman yes there 1.00

04:30:01.160 are tactical and logical

04:30:02.280 reasons why men are more 0.97

04:30:05.360 likely to be recruited to be

04:30:07.160 soldiers because they're more

04:30:08.240 they make better soldiers

04:30:10.020 however because of the

04:30:11.760 physical advantages yeah

04:30:13.380 however yeah there's like

04:30:15.320 physical and strategic

04:30:16.340 advantages to keeping the

04:30:17.440 women at home however when it 1.00

04:30:19.260 comes to voting i get what

04:30:21.000 you're saying that like voting

04:30:22.140 is the most important because

04:30:23.020 that controls the society and

04:30:24.900 who's required to go to war

04:30:26.460 and i understand that however

04:30:28.620 with it needs to be tied to

04:30:33.920 the act of potentially going to

04:30:35.680 war because if women have the 1.00

04:30:36.760 power to vote which we do but

04:30:38.660 that they're not tied to the

04:30:39.840 potential issue of going to

04:30:42.140 war a potential issue of being 0.90

04:30:43.600 drafted then we can make silly 0.96

04:30:45.880 and careless decisions with our 0.95

04:30:48.000 voting which can lead to war

04:30:49.960 time which only negatively

04:30:51.760 impacts men who will be

04:30:54.100 required to literally die for 0.91

04:30:56.680 our silly decisions that's not 0.98

04:30:57.680 the assumption we absolutely 0.94

04:30:58.660 don't care about the men in

04:30:59.920 society which a lot of people

04:31:01.580 do care they care but

04:31:02.960 sometimes they think that

04:31:04.740 oftentimes people make bad

04:31:06.600 decisions under good intentions

04:31:08.120 right and so that's what she's

04:31:09.680 talking about look at how

04:31:10.660 obama got elected wait the idea

04:31:12.820 that this is only a thing that

04:31:14.440 women do or whatever i don't 1.00

04:31:15.580 think is very fair men also make 0.96

04:31:17.200 silly decisions now you're

04:31:18.620 saying oh they're tied to the 0.99

04:31:19.780 consequence not necessarily

04:31:21.340 they're tied to the consequence of

04:31:22.560 what the majority believes

04:31:23.600 including majority of men either

04:31:25.440 way i don't think anybody should

04:31:27.500 be drafted i think the policy and

04:31:29.260 literally the way that we get

04:31:30.280 into war is a result of what

04:31:32.120 legislators decide right whether

04:31:33.680 congress decides like we're

04:31:34.740 going to go to war with this

04:31:35.760 country or not so i think that

04:31:37.860 the only way that congress

04:31:39.020 should be able to do that is if

04:31:40.400 they're for sure as hell certain

04:31:42.000 that everybody wants to go to

04:31:43.480 war otherwise i don't think the

04:31:45.240 draft should be a thing basically

04:31:46.320 what we need the draft though like

04:31:50.320 there's if you if you don't think

04:31:52.160 that your cause is strong enough to

04:31:54.040 have people volunteer to have the

04:31:55.920 people in your country put the

04:31:57.000 line like their lives on the line

04:31:58.580 your country should not be going

04:31:59.880 to war okay okay but in a

04:32:01.780 self-defense situation let's say

04:32:03.420 your country's being invaded yeah

04:32:04.980 chances are and i truly believe

04:32:06.700 this and you can look at ukraine and

04:32:08.100 you can look at other countries

04:32:09.100 that had their sovereignty in in

04:32:11.280 jeopardy people will step up to the

04:32:13.560 plate when yes ukraine ukraine was

04:32:16.320 drafted in a lot in fact a lot of

04:32:18.480 people were trying to flee ukraine and

04:32:19.980 it became an issue with the trans

04:32:21.380 people because women ukraine exactly

04:32:24.360 and then some people who thought that 1.00

04:32:26.500 they were women but it had penises 1.00

04:32:28.120 they were not allowed to so in 0.98

04:32:31.740 ukraine hold on i do believe in

04:32:33.420 general yeah i don't think that you

04:32:34.960 really looked into this in ukraine in

04:32:37.880 ukraine when the war broke out men

04:32:39.400 between the ages of 18 to 60 were not

04:32:41.580 allowed like that could not leave the

04:32:43.700 country yeah and i okay i think that's

04:32:45.220 messed up and they were i don't think

04:32:46.560 what is it i think that when it comes

04:32:48.580 to a country if their legislator decides

04:32:50.880 to go to war they better be certain as 0.64

04:32:53.060 hell that the people within their

04:32:54.380 country want to fight but did you what

04:32:56.840 men imagine that imagine if you were

04:32:58.760 literally left to the whims of that and

04:33:00.500 it's like oh everyone who wants to

04:33:01.700 fight gary fight how stable would that

04:33:04.060 society feel oh only the people who

04:33:06.300 volunteer most of the most of our

04:33:08.680 military is based on volunteer basis

04:33:11.480 yeah but that's not a draft basis wait

04:33:13.620 no but that that literally illustrates the

04:33:16.260 fact that like hey it is possible to

04:33:18.380 have a military on volunteer basis

04:33:19.920 literally fighting wars in other

04:33:21.560 countries we currently have it in a world

04:33:23.540 war though in something that was really

04:33:25.280 that severe and well i mean we've had

04:33:27.300 world wars before and we did have

04:33:28.760 drafts but we also had a shit ton of

04:33:30.100 people volunteering i feel like if we

04:33:31.740 were being invaded by another country

04:33:33.280 they were coming russia trying to coming

04:33:34.840 at us with full force would we really be

04:33:36.780 saying i just hope all the people who

04:33:38.300 really want to fight go and fight no

04:33:40.020 people would literally full force of the

04:33:42.780 country to be protecting us look at what

04:33:45.680 happened after like pearl harbor you had a

04:33:47.600 shit ton of people suddenly be okay

04:33:49.020 okay with war wanting to go to war like

04:33:51.260 volunteering for war this idea that like

04:33:53.200 oh everyone's gonna slowly cower away

04:33:55.060 when their lives are threaded and on the

04:33:56.520 line i think that's the solution

04:33:57.940 pixie what is the strongest like do you

04:34:00.440 know which the strongest army for its

04:34:02.720 size like in terms isn't it the united

04:34:05.020 states it'd probably be this really army

04:34:07.260 and it's the draft okay they have

04:34:09.600 nuclear weapons and everything and for

04:34:12.280 their soft their tiny country and they

04:34:14.260 have like they've fought seven day war

04:34:16.420 they fought off all of the countries

04:34:18.060 surrounding them by themselves as a brand

04:34:20.100 new country and the only way that their

04:34:22.660 military works is every single person in

04:34:25.200 their country man and women are forced to

04:34:28.300 serve in the military for at least two

04:34:30.120 years in the idf and so you're saying

04:34:32.560 that that would provide for a weaker

04:34:33.920 military but just like all evidence what

04:34:36.180 do you mean i'm so i'm talking about the

04:34:37.500 united states pro draft no i'm the opposite

04:34:40.140 oh i'm talking no i'm saying for women 1.00

04:34:42.300 so world war ii i'm looking here yeah

04:34:45.800 people got drafted in world war ii that's

04:34:47.460 not a surprise but you you were saying

04:34:49.220 you were acting as if the vast majority

04:34:51.620 of people just went in i'm saying there

04:34:53.520 was a huge surge of like volunteering

04:34:55.500 yes i don't know about the exact numbers

04:34:57.380 but and yeah and right now and there were

04:35:00.440 men who were drafted who did not want to

04:35:02.700 go to war who went to the front lines and

04:35:05.140 in europe or in the pacific and they're

04:35:09.260 dead they died yeah 18 year olds yeah and 0.99

04:35:13.640 i'm saying that's really fucked up i think 0.98

04:35:16.400 men and women should both be drafted okay 0.99

04:35:18.320 like modern technology is it more fucked up 0.99

04:35:21.140 than women not having the right to vote 0.99

04:35:23.920 because if you do not have the right to

04:35:27.380 vote you do not have the right to change

04:35:29.720 or stop or add onto the draft our society

04:35:33.760 is built on voting without voting

04:35:36.780 everything else falls apart okay can i ask

04:35:39.560 you a question would you rather in let's

04:35:41.880 say 1917 as a 18 year old let's say you're a

04:35:46.940 boy get drafted get sent to uh let's see

04:35:50.800 amiens in france and uh go spend three

04:35:56.300 weeks in a trench you get trench foot and

04:35:58.640 then the shell implodes your face in and

04:36:00.820 then you're just dead uh or would you just 1.00

04:36:03.620 be prefer to be back home and fucking 1.00

04:36:06.360 montana on your farm and just not be 1.00

04:36:11.300 able to vote and you don't know anything

04:36:13.040 about politics you're acting as if not

04:36:15.140 having the right to vote doesn't change or 1.00

04:36:17.280 affect everything in your fucking life 0.99

04:36:19.260 that's like freedom right you argue that 0.99

04:36:21.540 oh yeah maybe you have freedom to roam the

04:36:23.720 streets and have someone stab you but

04:36:25.560 that's freedom so maybe this is gonna 1.00

04:36:27.700 sound like i'm i'm a pussy or a coward 0.99

04:36:29.460 but i kind of value living and shit so if 0.99

04:36:32.500 i was 18 years old back in 1917 i think i 1.00

04:36:37.900 would as some fucking stupid farm dude 1.00

04:36:40.940 who doesn't know anything about the 1.00

04:36:42.280 world hasn't set foot outside my town

04:36:44.800 would i rather just not be able to vote

04:36:47.560 on issues i don't even really know about

04:36:50.280 or get sent to um let's see where where

04:36:55.620 do i get sent to in world war one no no

04:36:58.660 no no well that's world war two yeah i

04:37:00.580 get sent to uh passion dale and i'm in a

04:37:03.580 trench for uh for two months and uh i i'm i

04:37:08.840 have the spanish flu and then i um let's

04:37:11.720 see what else you are literally creating a

04:37:13.460 false dichotomy and then i just get uh

04:37:16.780 shot okay i'm dead no do you think no

04:37:19.480 without the right without the right to

04:37:21.400 vote not only can you get drafted

04:37:23.060 but you can also face the repercussions

04:37:25.820 of like hey guess what um okay they

04:37:28.480 pass a policy where they say your 18 1.00

04:37:30.400 year old ass not only gets drafted but 0.99

04:37:32.520 has to have like i don't know their 1.00

04:37:34.020 balls tortured for a week before doing so 0.99

04:37:36.020 no that's that's what i'm saying without

04:37:38.620 the right to vote you are literally under

04:37:40.940 the thumb of whatever power or authority

04:37:43.080 structure there is in place at the time

04:37:44.780 you have no freedom pixie you're trying 1.00

04:37:47.380 to say that if you don't have freedom

04:37:49.920 then you then you could get drafted as

04:37:52.380 well yes okay however in this scenario

04:37:55.580 you only can get drafted if you also

04:37:59.420 have the right to vote they're like

04:38:00.860 they're linked together and if you don't

04:38:03.740 have the right to vote you cannot get

04:38:05.780 drafted they're mutually exclusive in

04:38:07.680 this scenario but the point so would you

04:38:09.440 rather would you rather have the right

04:38:12.340 to vote and be drafted or not have the

04:38:15.360 right to vote and not be drafted okay

04:38:17.280 but here's the issue or here's a million

04:38:19.260 dollar problem you're saying like oh no

04:38:21.440 it's guaranteed that you won't be

04:38:23.040 drafted if you don't have the right to

04:38:24.460 vote but by virtue of not having the

04:38:27.060 right to vote you cannot guarantee not 0.74

04:38:29.020 being drafted in america you can no

04:38:30.820 because it is up to the people and

04:38:32.580 legislator that literally control the

04:38:34.460 laws whether you get drafted or not

04:38:36.200 eventually eventually yes eventually yes

04:38:39.300 but in history in american history that

04:38:42.300 was never the case so the only i

04:38:44.660 understand that what you're saying

04:38:45.800 eventually down the line if men had

04:38:47.840 the right to vote and maintain the

04:38:49.280 right to vote and they never gave women 1.00

04:38:51.040 any power and then they started writing

04:38:53.720 crazy legislation requiring women to 1.00

04:38:55.920 also become drafted then yes

04:38:57.720 eventually women could be drafted 1.00

04:38:59.460 however that was never the situation

04:39:01.280 the situation was always logically

04:39:03.100 linking let me jump in after lauren

04:39:06.300 draft drafting to voting so in because of

04:39:10.000 that there's never a scenario in which

04:39:12.120 you're going to be drafted and don't have

04:39:13.600 the right to vote so with that being

04:39:15.560 said would you rather have the right to

04:39:18.620 vote and be drafted or no right to vote

04:39:21.460 and guarantee you will not get drafted

04:39:24.220 wait i'm genuinely curious we're here

04:39:27.140 look let me let me come in really quick

04:39:28.820 so just to give a little background this

04:39:30.720 stemmed from me basically asking which i

04:39:34.600 made a statement about i think that

04:39:36.520 military conscription throughout history is

04:39:39.560 worse is a worse grievance than women's 1.00

04:39:43.380 grievance of not being able to vote

04:39:46.140 i think that is worse than any grievance

04:39:49.580 possible

04:39:50.120 of women's history well i i mean i'm also

04:39:52.780 prepared to say like worse than what wait

04:39:56.360 what you literally the statement you said

04:39:58.080 yes i said women's collective grievances 0.98

04:40:00.480 but the i i think the ultimate grievance

04:40:02.880 that that women often cite is not having 0.67

04:40:06.140 the right to vote oh yeah that is well

04:40:08.860 you also had problems in the past where

04:40:11.340 it was like legal to abuse your wife 0.96

04:40:13.000 to like that's fake news it's never been

04:40:16.720 positively looked upon to be a wife beater

04:40:19.260 throughout history looked upon on a society

04:40:21.540 but it's been like you had to have at

04:40:24.140 fault divorces and it was extremely

04:40:26.140 difficult to prove abuse so you'd have to

04:40:28.180 prove abuse in a court of law to even get

04:40:30.080 the divorce which was just okay well we i i

04:40:33.720 don't know in the 1700s the frequency of

04:40:36.960 domestic violence in but i mean you have

04:40:39.700 what is it don't know there's like history

04:40:41.360 textbooks talking about like how domestic

04:40:43.440 violence um specifically i don't think it

04:40:45.560 was the norm i really don't know it's not

04:40:48.020 about husbands drafting was also not the

04:40:50.820 norm the majority of people did not get

04:40:52.340 drafted throughout history but when it

04:40:54.520 comes to like domestic violence domestic

04:40:56.200 abuse yeah it was widely popularized that 0.78

04:40:58.620 hey this is something you actually should do 0.99

04:41:00.220 you should hit your wife when she gets out 1.00

04:41:02.300 of line or even when she doesn't like you 0.99

04:41:04.640 you kind of can and it's fine one of my

04:41:09.080 dad's favorite lines from like an irish

04:41:10.940 movie is here's a fine stick to beat the

04:41:12.960 lovely lady oh my god that's a yikes okay 1.00

04:41:16.720 comparing military conscription to not having

04:41:21.000 the right to vote i like i don't see how

04:41:24.440 you arrive at not having the right to vote

04:41:26.300 is worse they just sound like they're both

04:41:28.380 held because i mean they both come with

04:41:30.420 like um consequences like not having the

04:41:32.760 right to vote it's not just not having the

04:41:34.380 right to vote you didn't have rights like at

04:41:35.940 all like as a person or like women like they 1.00

04:41:39.060 were kind of like a sub-genre okay pixie do

04:41:41.100 you know what do you know when um world war

04:41:43.520 two or excuse me world war the dates for

04:41:45.440 world war one um i can't remember 1912

04:41:49.340 1914 to 1918 so women women got the right to 1.00

04:41:53.740 vote in 1920 just two years after one of the

04:41:56.320 most brutal at the time uh the most brutal war

04:41:59.680 that had ever been seen most casualties most

04:42:02.440 injuries um i think if you were 18 years old in

04:42:07.500 the years preceding that it would be a pretty like

04:42:11.140 an it'd be pretty hard for you to argue that

04:42:13.500 women who didn't have the right to vote 1.00

04:42:16.500 were worse off than the men that got sent to

04:42:21.680 europe during world war one and we're where

04:42:27.520 there was forced military conscription okay

04:42:29.760 you are literally comparing basically all women did 0.88

04:42:34.620 not have this right yes um they were under the

04:42:37.440 subjugation of either their husbands or fathers

04:42:40.100 it was under the subjugation or the protection 1.00

04:42:43.920 it's not protection when they can legally beat your ass 1.00

04:42:47.060 um you're saying you're saying this as if wholesale men were just 0.99

04:42:51.280 every day no no i'm saying the fact that it could be any

04:42:55.340 that all women were not guaranteed these protections

04:42:58.480 that's what i'm saying i'm saying that if you're a woman and you don't

04:43:02.340 have the right to vote you don't have the right to change legislation

04:43:04.380 guess what like if a man what percentage of men do you think were just

04:43:08.580 frequently beating their wives it doesn't matter about what percentage 1.00

04:43:11.940 it matters that you couldn't get justice for it

04:43:14.640 i don't have like it doesn't matter again it's not the what percentage it's

04:43:19.060 the fact that it could happen and it is seen as normalized and okay if it 0.99

04:43:22.440 happens because that's just a dumb lady you know second 1.00

04:43:25.640 class citizen like broad should is they even smart enough to 1.00

04:43:29.340 vote i think even today women at the time i feel like didn't

04:43:32.640 feel like that though when you like some of them may be depending on

04:43:35.420 circumstances but when you look back at a lot of the videos from women

04:43:38.600 as the feminist movement was happening they're asking them like what do you 0.94

04:43:42.360 think about all of this and they're like i don't know about it i don't know 0.98

04:43:45.360 about this women's liberation shit like this 0.99

04:43:47.720 could honestly potentially be bad it could potentially put us in bad 0.98

04:43:52.160 situations this could be dangerous i like the freedom to be able to be at

04:43:56.080 home and be a mother and not have to go

04:43:58.420 out there in the workplace i like a lot of them

04:44:00.700 you still choose that happy with it it's not freedom if you don't get to choose

04:44:04.000 feminism is about like you can either choose to be a stay-at-home mom and not 1.00

04:44:08.300 go to work not go to school and it's fine or you can choose to be a career

04:44:11.280 woman so i think that's the point to have the freedom to choose

04:44:14.060 versus before like it's not normal for women to go to college for example 1.00

04:44:17.720 or do right but that doesn't necessarily equate to them being oppressed and i

04:44:21.380 think that's a big problem is people automatically assume that women at the 1.00

04:44:24.600 time were oppressed there's a lot of women who are more than happy 0.99

04:44:27.500 doing that and there's a lot of women do that and there's but there's a lot of 1.00

04:44:30.920 women now today who when they want to live that more traditional lifestyle 1.00

04:44:34.780 they are judged by the boss babes of this generation by the women who are 1.00

04:44:39.760 making a lot of these arguments that we're discussing here today and

04:44:42.940 literally look down on women who are advocating for a more traditional lifestyle

04:44:48.120 i think true feminists really are just for women's choice like it's for women's 1.00

04:44:53.320 freedom like if you want to be a stay-at-home mom if that's all you want to

04:44:56.340 be that's totally fine just don't judge a woman who is sexually liberated and 0.89

04:45:01.420 trying to do their own thing because men can choose to do that too and it's okay

04:45:05.500 i think um when it comes to argument we shouldn't shame women for being 0.85

04:45:09.960 promiscuous and having high body counts if we're not shaming men as much yeah if

04:45:14.700 we're not shaming men i mean it depends i feel like we're more so stigmatized for

04:45:18.640 it yeah no women are stigmatized but i think that that is such a cop-out answer 1.00

04:45:24.360 though i feel like at the end of the day you both still risk sd's and you both

04:45:27.760 still risk like the being a child coming alive out of that coitus so

04:45:31.880 honestly the whole idea that's like oh no it's just different it's i think it's a

04:45:35.140 cop-out for consequences and biological reasons because of paternity

04:45:38.520 uncertainty yeah i know and i'm saying the consequences are the same and i don't

04:45:41.560 think you should cope with the idea that like oh no like you still have these

04:45:45.100 immense responsibilities at the end of the day and if you want to talk about

04:45:48.220 evo psych huh not yet not yet no no it was like just like i didn't just the top

04:45:53.860 that's the top of a little bit of color oh and if you want to rosiness i'm sure it's not

04:46:00.340 shadow possibly because you're fine now okay it looked different to how it looked a second

04:46:05.260 okay we're fine okay what up hey i was gonna say and if you want to talk about evo psych there are

04:46:10.440 strong like evolutionary imperatives for a man to stay with a certain woman to not go like sleep

04:46:16.440 with around multiple because it's harder to guarantee impregnation in that way guarantee

04:46:20.660 paternity yeah guarantee paternity right and then on top of that you know you still risk 0.97

04:46:25.460 STDs if you sleep around especially back then so it makes more sense to stay with one woman 1.00

04:46:29.980 and then again the consequence of having a child even if your physical body is not going through

04:46:34.340 those changes that you know responsibility that you still feel obliged to so there are strong

04:46:39.320 evo psych reasons for men to not sleep around that's not what i was arguing i was saying why men

04:46:45.800 are more why men care more about women's promiscuity well you're i okay i thought that you

04:46:52.560 are arguing that like it doesn't matter if men are promiscuous or there's biological reasons why

04:46:56.880 it's okay for men i'm not in favor of male promiscuity well i feel like going with what

04:47:00.860 you're saying though it would be the opposite i feel like what you're saying is a point for what

04:47:04.180 he is making why we why men don't like women being promiscuous because they want to guarantee their

04:47:08.820 paternity if the woman is sleeping with multiple men he cannot guarantee that that's going to be his 0.92

04:47:13.620 kid he could be spending time resources no but but here's the thing our brains don't know the

04:47:19.080 difference and yes we have our logic and we have our reason but 95 to 99 of everything we do

04:47:25.660 is subconscious we don't consciously think about it it's based off programming and then a lot of the

04:47:31.780 conditioning in that old part of our brain that is literally still dictating our emotions and

04:47:36.300 decisions to this day but why are we so different in our perspectives if we're both similarly

04:47:41.580 programmed and that's where the nature versus nurture argument comes in so i do agree that

04:47:45.460 nurture does to some degree have some pull it absolutely does but i'm saying on the balance

04:47:51.320 of probability when you put people into an environment and there is no external influences

04:47:55.720 i feel like people will still have a natural inclination or drive or proclivity to act within

04:48:01.560 a certain way irregardless without any societal pressures and norms if you they were just free

04:48:07.140 roaming like in the forest like we're all like nomads without any sort of social construct people would

04:48:14.900 care highly about body count like i do yes i try i think that women would still feel low self-esteem 0.99

04:48:21.060 i think they would still suffer depression i feel like they would still suffer uh suffer uh what's

04:48:25.520 the word it's escaping me right now but they would still feel these things naturally without society's 0.99

04:48:31.020 judgments based on them and that's where society's judgments come from we didn't pull this shit out of

04:48:37.460 thin air and decide let's just make our own rules the rules were created out of natural so i would 0.91

04:48:44.880 say that the rules of in a capitalistic society is created around capitalism and i would say that

04:48:51.020 social economic like your your degree of happiness is largely determined by income like there's like

04:48:57.700 a technical like economics of happiness and the scale goes up like if you're you know making zero income

04:49:02.560 you're miserable here's like the happiness scale but then if you make 70k a year it's like all the way

04:49:07.820 up here there's a huge difference and then i i know it like diminishes it's kind of like an e-curve

04:49:11.880 but when you make over 100k it doesn't really make much of a difference to your happiness levels

04:49:16.140 apparently yeah it's okay we need to wrap up here soon so i do need to move things along um let me

04:49:21.560 just get in these chats okay we have oh actually nick can you pull up twitch guys go to twitch.tv

04:49:28.440 slash whatever drops the follow drops the prime sub uh thank you guys for all the uh follows and

04:49:32.980 primes twitch.tv slash whatever all right we have hold on we have let me see uh i think sorry that

04:49:40.760 we're just getting to these now guys um gordon's fisherman

04:49:44.000 kathy can you read this one kathy we need the details on your mom asking wait into the mic please

04:49:51.200 oh kathy we need the details on your mom asking for brian um keep reading oh okay emmy got a point

04:49:59.860 western society failed education and failed women with societal expect expectations pixie men and women 1.00

04:50:08.020 aren't equal the east treats women better and more naturally hashtag passport bros um what are the

04:50:15.200 details on your mom asking for brian i don't know if i should tell you that like oh you know

04:50:20.600 we gotta go we gotta go you want to set this up after the show is that what you're saying

04:50:24.200 all right eyes wide shut hey thank you for the canadian 50 imagine triple majoring and the result

04:50:28.800 being straight to dvd joe dirt okay your response pixie i don't know how to respond to that you can

04:50:36.380 roast him back look at he's got some he's doing two thumbs up i don't know you could he's i don't

04:50:41.360 know i think it's kind of sad he paid how much money canadian 50 so that's like a dollar american i

04:50:46.980 think i think it's kind of sad to pay 50 dollars to call canadian someone canadian 50 dollars to call

04:50:54.480 someone joe dirt that was a good movie it's not i think it might be a compliment i think it's a

04:50:58.440 compliment right right it's probably compliment probably probably a compliment okay all right

04:51:03.320 conan 19 opinion on a man with a lot of body hair versus zero body hair uh ladies do you prefer body 1.00

04:51:09.500 hair or do you prefer a guy with minimal or no body hair minimal minimal oh if it's too much it gets

04:51:20.000 like kind of gross it gets in the way chest hair it's okay to have a little bit it's just overwhelming

04:51:26.200 oh and the pubic or like like the back i don't like that you can't expect me i don't like back

04:51:29.820 hair if they look like a bear i'm out no i don't know i see a little something you just imagine

04:51:36.260 yeah i like i like super masculine so just hairy just like big and hairy okay uh amy uh yeah minimal

04:51:45.120 okay all right yeah i want a bunch of soy boys 0.97

04:51:49.120 i mean what do you define this when i like kiss yeah it hurts i want the pain i mean what if they're

04:51:56.360 like you know six no gain okay we have dragon's talon thank you man uh thank you very much women 1.00

04:52:03.560 could vote before 1920 it was just a state issue not a federal on hey 25 female mayors hundreds of 0.88

04:52:10.460 elected female positions and even one female u.s house of representative member before 1920 men

04:52:15.740 were not the only ones who voted for them also this whole like um this whole this whole thing

04:52:21.900 about women not having the right to vote it was a very short period where men wholesale had the right

04:52:28.520 to vote and women didn't uh for the vast majority of human history no one did most most men couldn't

04:52:36.000 vote most women couldn't vote so it's like a maybe a hundred year period even less that women or that 1.00

04:52:44.880 men could en masse vote and then women just couldn't so it's it's been it's not years now since we can 0.97

04:52:52.320 vote so i think it's around equal now yeah we're probably chilling okay we got spencer richmond with

04:52:57.280 just the 50. hey thank you very much spencer appreciate it uh let's see how we doing here uh

04:53:02.960 uh i think we're caught up on everything uh anyone final thought really quick before we wrap

04:53:08.580 body count i love seeing pixie mad anyone anybody want to share their body i think depression stems

04:53:16.460 from mostly socioeconomic circumstances when you don't have like a stable place to live rather than

04:53:22.420 body count yeah because or um i was going back at what amy was saying with how a lot of women will 1.00

04:53:29.000 feel depression if they were um having high body counts but i think that most people are depressed

04:53:36.300 in society in general if they are of lower income level because there's like the the triangle of

04:53:42.500 knees like the top is like self-actualization and then the bottom is like food shelter your basic

04:53:47.660 necessity is being met yeah but i think that your your mental health complaint like i feel like there are

04:53:52.860 some people who would be happier making 40 000 per year or being broke who are not putting

04:53:59.340 themselves through that versus women who are making 400 000 per year who are sexualizing themselves or 0.95

04:54:05.440 sleeping with men for money i think that they're the vast majority of 40k earners would be happier 1.00

04:54:10.820 than the 400k earners who are whoring themselves out or who are making themselves into a commodity

04:54:16.340 what about like 200k 400k like what about like a woman who's 500k we gotta wrap it up guys 1.00

04:54:23.020 i wrap it up uh pixie last thing do you what do you think of men what do i think of men do you

04:54:28.840 dislike men no i love men oh you do yeah that's why i get sad like i that's why i say men are

04:54:35.440 oppressed and stuff because i think they are and that's sad it seems like feminists don't really 1.00

04:54:39.660 like men no i love men that's the bad ones i think okay all right guys last call hit the like

04:54:44.840 button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the

04:54:47.620 world but you were here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and

04:54:51.800 supports the show thank you to the panel uh it's a good it's a decent panel oh okay we got eyes

04:54:57.560 wide shut really quick i'll get that in just a second can you pull that up it's weird that that

04:55:02.240 one popped up um and the rest didn't yo thank you man for the canadian hundred uh so now having

04:55:06.940 money to throw around is a negative pixie so which is it i got bags and i'm well above six feet

04:55:11.440 what's it to you besides being too high value for the likes of you i don't know i feel like did

04:55:17.140 you hear that pixie he's too high value for you i feel like this is how i feel like he wants me 0.99

04:55:23.020 like he's like trying to like flex like nagging yeah it's net that's what it's it's giving me

04:55:27.980 would you wait pixie if he went to streamlabs.com slash whatever right now and dropped a champagne

04:55:34.060 trigger how much thousand dollars um would you go on a date with him um just please say yes so we

04:55:42.240 can drink champagne yeah you gotta do a quick eyes wide shut i'm wrapping just for you brian just

04:55:47.900 eyes wide shut you want us to pop some champagne you gotta you got you got three minutes so you'll

04:55:52.160 go on a flight oh wait i this has it has to be live filmed i don't feel comfortable going alone

04:55:57.900 to see the students i'll go with you i'll shop around we'll have him on the podcast and you come

04:56:01.880 back okay okay i feel like pixie i think you're super progressive and liberal but i feel like the

04:56:10.220 type of guy you go for is just like the most intense conservative super trad like christian super

04:56:20.680 religious you guys just think that because i get along with all the trad cons

04:56:24.500 um so okay uh thank you to the panel let's see we have oh thank you to brit for helping with

04:56:34.520 timestamps any women who want to be on the show dm out whatever on instagram we will be live again

04:56:39.700 what tuesday at oh yep he's not okay he's not gonna do that tuesday at 5 p.m he doesn't it's not that he

04:56:46.720 doesn't want to give me the it's it's me he just doesn't obviously it's not that he can drop a

04:56:52.120 thousand bucks do you think he's too never mind what about anyone else though he can drop it on

04:56:56.820 anyone else yeah you can drop it on kathy's kind of sort of single but not really you're definitely 0.99

04:57:03.600 single pixie's single as fuck you got a relationship kathy's mom is single yes she is yeah hey you could 0.98

04:57:13.200 swoop you could swoop and try to get kathy's mom in florida kathy's mom has got it going on 1.00

04:57:19.160 do you have oh it looked like you were doing a hand raise pixie do you have something oh no i'm

04:57:26.920 chilling i'm just happy guys be sure to go subscribe to pixie's only fans i'm just kidding she doesn't

04:57:32.360 have one right but is it in the works is it i mean i have would you start one i not only fans i have

04:57:38.380 cosplay pictures that i've thought about doing a fans leave for well i just i'm afraid that if i

04:57:43.360 do that i'm gonna get a bunch of people like pressuring me to do nudes all the time and i

04:57:47.080 don't know word okay guys be sure to tune in tuesday amy will be joining us again on tuesday uh we have a

04:57:57.020 we have a crazy panel on tuesday it's gonna be insane it's gonna be wild so be sure to tune in on

04:58:02.980 tuesday all right guys we'll see you next time good night guys oh my god it's like one drop you gotta 0.97

04:58:10.200 lick it literally how dare you you got you got 0.99

Whatever Podcast - September 11, 2023

HEATED DEBATE On NOT Reciprocating In The Bedroom？! ｜ Dating Talk #99

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