Whatever Podcast - September 11, 2023


HEATED DEBATE On NOT Reciprocating In The Bedroom?! | Dating Talk #99


Episode Stats

Length

4 hours and 58 minutes

Words per Minute

192.35304

Word Count

57,360

Sentence Count

3,037

Misogynist Sentences

515

Hate Speech Sentences

404


Summary

In this episode of the Whatever Dating Talk Podcast, we have a special guest on the show, a girl who is a streamer, content creator, and streamer's wife. We talk about her relationship status, what it's like being in a non-monogamous relationship, and what it means to be in a poly relationship.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been
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00:01:40.380 description go sub without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce excuse me introduce
00:01:45.340 themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hi everyone i'm kathy i'm 24
00:01:51.160 years old and i am a only fans creator welcome hi i'm pixie i'm also 24 years old and i do political
00:02:01.020 streaming online hi i'm emmy i'm 26 and i'm a realtor and also content creator hi i'm alessia i'm 26 and i do
00:02:13.960 only fans hi i'm 29 i'm a math physics science tutor and um i also do content creation on youtube
00:02:26.060 hi i'm amy i'm 28 and i did high ticket sales i'm currently unemployed so i guess i'm just doing content
00:02:35.960 right now okay welcome everybody guys we were gonna have a little more filled out panel but unfortunately
00:02:41.340 we had some uh no shows and flakes so uh it is what it is but we're gonna have a good show tonight
00:02:45.700 regardless so we're gonna go around the panel once more what is your current relationship status so are
00:02:50.680 you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule sex cult
00:02:55.880 uh if you're single how long have you been single what's your longest relationship go ahead
00:03:00.260 um i'm currently dating um just dating um longest relationship probably like
00:03:07.500 one year a little more than one one year yeah okay so you're you said you're currently dating
00:03:13.300 yes so are you seeing one guy multiple guys a couple girls in there what's what's
00:03:18.860 i'm not entirely sure um you're not sure about their gender
00:03:23.340 it could be whatever it is whatever you want it to be okay non-binary okay um so you're not entirely
00:03:32.200 sure so there's is there a do you have a main guy and like three side pieces i feel like you got game
00:03:37.940 do i i think you got game i think you could get the bitches i have no game i have no game the male
00:03:42.600 bitches and the female bitches you got no game you have zero game you look like you have game
00:03:47.740 humble and has game that's part of the game can we have you tilt your microphone uh down just a
00:03:55.040 little bit yeah so it's perfect a little less a little less and can you scoot it that way just a bit
00:04:00.420 ocd brian over here yeah um so give it give us some deets what are the details you got you got
00:04:06.960 one main dude couple some pieces i don't think i'm healed enough for actual healthy relationship
00:04:13.700 but yeah you don't think you're healed enough yes from you got like um sepsis or what's the
00:04:20.200 situation what's going on probably just like childhood stuff or like past relationship whatsoever
00:04:25.600 past relationship but yeah i'm dating currently okay um but so what do you mean like what do you
00:04:32.880 mean by dating currently like you're going on dates or you got do you have a situation ship with any guys
00:04:38.800 potentially i mean there's there's there's no label whatsoever
00:04:44.240 how many okay so you're dating how many dates have you been on in the past month
00:04:49.980 the past month with like individual new people new people um a few i don't really keep count
00:04:56.980 okay so you i'm just we gotta we gotta get a number on it you got seven
00:05:03.800 boyfriends is that kind of the situation no it doesn't seven situation ships no not seven i would
00:05:10.700 say more like two or three okay two to three situation ships are they all guys any girls in there
00:05:17.660 just dudes um probably just guys you might i don't i'm you might not even be interested in women
00:05:24.240 i'm just i mean i i think it's up to the people to define like what they are who they are and you
00:05:30.340 can't really tell from the first date can you from the first date yeah i'd hope so wait so you're
00:05:35.100 saying that some of them are trans i i i don't know i mean it might be maybe but that's what i'm
00:05:42.680 asking because what do you mean you're not sure like from a first date like if they don't reveal
00:05:48.220 it to me like i'm not gonna ask them if somebody is clearly presenting themselves like okay for
00:05:53.600 instance me like do you like what gender am i i don't want to make in this you don't even want to
00:06:00.700 make an assumption you can't tell you can't tell what gender i am i i can't tell but like if you
00:06:05.300 tell me otherwise i will respect it right something is there something wrong no no you're perfectly
00:06:11.160 fine i mean i obviously can tell that like you know you're a girl so like oh so i am a girl
00:06:16.680 yes but if you say that you're something else i will respect that okay i'm actually i just want
00:06:23.300 to let you know and i'm a hippopotamus so like if i just say some whatever i want okay i'm like
00:06:34.140 i'm you should make a different animal because you're not you're pretty trim so i don't think
00:06:39.580 hippopotamus would be the yeah i don't i don't know hey uh hold on just a sec yo fdg thank you for
00:06:45.220 the 50 gifted memberships guys if you've been wondering why fdg is just dropping mad uh memberships
00:06:51.800 in the uh chat on youtube i have a sugar mama she's my sugar mama and she pays me by gifting
00:06:58.420 membership so uh she's dropping like 300 400 500 a show so thank you very much um uh so you
00:07:06.580 lauren non-binary confirm or deny um confirm i i don't have it's like barbie i don't want to
00:07:16.380 reveal the movie are we already getting into pronouns but it's like barbie down there uh-huh i i'm a
00:07:21.720 it's a i'm a i'm actually a he wait so you you're a furry because you're a hippopotamus i'm a furry
00:07:28.340 i'm a furry non-binary i respect that i respect that 100 okay so throughout the podcast if you slip
00:07:38.540 up and like refer to me as a she like i could like get mad at you and stuff it's hipper hipper self
00:07:44.420 yes okay i'll try my best thank you i appreciate you respecting hippopotamus
00:07:50.080 self
00:07:51.800 okay moving on pixie what's what's your relationship situation i'm single as a pringle
00:08:00.140 single as a pringle how long have you been single um since like february february yeah do you uh are
00:08:07.640 you straight by what's your orientation i consider myself pan like pan yeah you uh pan that's where
00:08:15.660 like gender identity uh it doesn't really you'll date men you'll date women you'll date transgender
00:08:21.040 women you'll date non-binary you'll date transgender yeah basically um what is it i mean it takes a
00:08:27.800 really long time for me to feel like truly like in love with someone um so i feel like it just yeah
00:08:35.180 depends i feel like it depends on the person basically if i'm gonna end up being anything
00:08:40.060 with them or not okay um so your last relationship was with a guy a girl it was with a guy i've only
00:08:47.180 have had romantic relationships with guys have you ever hooked up with a girl um i've made out with a
00:08:54.500 girl i i'm not gonna go i don't want to go further beyond kissing and telling okay for a life partner who
00:09:02.920 do you see yourself ending up do you want a life partner i do want a life partner you want kids
00:09:06.620 yeah i do want who do you see yourself ending up with i don't know a guy or girl because i mean if
00:09:11.320 you want kids well i guess you could adopt right yeah i also use the sperm bank they have all these
00:09:15.980 options they got those or surrogates surrogates yeah i feel like um i don't know traditionally i was
00:09:24.520 raised in a very like catholic traditional household like conservative so you know i'm sure my parents
00:09:30.920 would be happy if i was a man but it all depends on who i fall in love with because and you said
00:09:36.240 you were raised in a conservative catholic household but you're pretty you consider yourself fairly
00:09:42.120 progressive fairly liberal absolutely do you think that because you're you were raised in a very
00:09:47.900 conservative traditional uh household that that kind of pushed you in the other direction
00:09:54.140 i think um or did you just come to your own conclusions about politics well i think there's two
00:09:59.180 things going on in here basically um my father being the conservative he is always taught me to
00:10:04.680 never trust big government or just institutions in general sure so obviously growing up um i was
00:10:11.720 also doubtful of him because the parental unit is a authority in the household so yeah part of me was
00:10:18.860 like okay well i should question government and i should also question everything around me
00:10:22.420 including my parents but i think um more than that i there's a lot of ideas of how like conservatism is
00:10:31.000 supposed to be or how the traditional household is supposed to be and all the benefits it's supposed
00:10:34.560 to reap and there are definitely benefits but i think um oh sorry hold on just a second
00:10:39.480 bra donated 100 dollars oh thank you i would swim up the amazon river with 45 pound weights tied to my
00:10:46.280 scrotum with nothing else but gorlock the destroyer's queefs as my air supply if if it meant i could have
00:10:52.040 one seafood dinner with brian over skype using a dial-up internet connection my dms are open dme
00:10:59.120 and we'll get it set up thank you okay appreciate it um thank you for that um you're telling us about
00:11:05.040 your parents oh yeah thank you for the donation mr i appreciate it oh is this a bodybuilding.com okay okay
00:11:13.800 yeah no but basically um you know people talk about like oh no the two-parent household is like
00:11:19.860 the best household ever etc etc and i i saw some ways that that's not necessarily true or some
00:11:25.240 things that go against the traditional narrative so i also think that kind of made me progressive
00:11:29.400 okay all right question in your last relationship how long was your last relationship my last
00:11:35.200 relationship was like around five to six months did you end it or did he or was it i ended it you
00:11:40.600 ended it did you wear the pants in that relationship do you mean if i wear the pants what does i don't
00:11:45.200 know is that a sexist no i just don't know what you mean exactly like were you kind of the the boss
00:11:50.800 in the relationship i think we each were 50 50 i think so yeah i think we're both the bosses in
00:11:57.880 different ways like what what do we what what are the ways in which he was a boss and you were a boss
00:12:04.360 um i just okay i guess i never felt like we were the boss of each other i just felt like we were
00:12:10.820 just more like compat compatriots just like discussing things and figuring things out and
00:12:16.920 stuff like that were you ever in a situation where it needed to be like your cool or his cool for
00:12:21.760 example were you ever in a situation where you had such conflicting viewpoints that it's like
00:12:25.580 one needs to necessarily supersede the other or you never found yourself in that situation well i mean
00:12:32.080 i get along well with people who i have very different opinions from um i know we get along
00:12:38.480 really well and we disagree on daily everything so no no way um but i feel like there was a time
00:12:47.640 where he was like really upset about me because i wasn't like texting him enough i wasn't messaging
00:12:52.160 him enough and he was like kind of far away and to me it's one of those things where like i have
00:12:56.640 adhd really badly i know it doesn't manifest super obviously here but i do have it
00:13:01.960 so i am a little bit time blind i try my best i try my best with messaging communication but if
00:13:08.620 you're expecting me to like message you like every day when we're dating it's just it's just not gonna
00:13:12.400 happen i will forget i'm sorry that's just how i am so he was needy um yes but who isn't in a
00:13:21.740 relationship everyone's a little bit needy and really a little bit at least you know you want your
00:13:27.040 partner to be like hey i love you i miss you you know you can say that's a little bit needy but
00:13:31.140 that's okay who liked who liked who more in the relationship did you like him more did he like
00:13:36.420 you more i feel like there's always somebody likes the other more than the other i don't know i feel
00:13:42.160 like um i don't think there was a more i think we were just too different in the ways that we
00:13:48.520 liked people our love like language is too different you know
00:13:52.800 fat bastard donated one hundred dollars they're going hard tonight get in my belly i want my baby
00:13:59.180 back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back
00:14:05.760 that bastard chili's baby back baby back okay uh
00:14:11.840 keep going
00:14:18.000 continue
00:14:20.080 wait are you laughing at the tts or laughing at the tts
00:14:30.280 are you austin powers fan or i that was for austin powers i didn't know that i just thought it was
00:14:37.980 super random oh yes okay maybe that was before your time i think because you're what 24 yeah
00:14:43.080 so you were like two when that came out probably i'm four maybe okay whatever um your relationship
00:14:50.120 situation so i'm currently in the relationship okay and um how long have you been
00:14:58.100 in said relationship almost 10 months 10 months okay and uh what's your longest relationship
00:15:06.260 two and a half years two and a half years all right uh how did you meet current uh boy boyfriend
00:15:14.820 girlfriend yeah boyfriend um he slid through the dms he slid into okay dating what what's that
00:15:22.340 it's like a modern dating story what what was his opening message so this was around the time where
00:15:28.960 i just bought a house and in my tinder bio i had hey let's go furniture shopping or whatever
00:15:36.180 i'm also a realtor like hit me up if you need to like sell a house and he slid through the dms we
00:15:42.780 actually didn't match but he slid through the dms about how he had a ton of coupons
00:15:46.240 that he could you know get really good deals on and he was also verified before all the like
00:15:53.720 verification things were like bought so it like went through and i'm like yeah like what's the harm
00:15:58.980 like i'm super single and yeah let's let's test it out so he's very uh musician athlete what oh he's
00:16:06.580 a director film director yeah film director yeah so like the strike is kind of does he do
00:16:12.200 commercials music videos yeah commercials music videos he's lined up for some movies but because
00:16:17.000 of the strike no movies just commercials and music videos so you're holding it you guys live together
00:16:22.020 yeah right now we live together okay okay um verified but he's talking about coupons i don't know about
00:16:30.260 hey it's economical it's you know it's big brain how i feel like how much will coupons save over the
00:16:38.740 course of like the cutout coupons from magazines what does he like are you sure you're not dating
00:16:43.920 like a grandma or some shit i like the grandma vibes whatever that is like there you go i think
00:16:49.120 my grandma vibes are good so my parents grew up in communism and they're very very frugal even though
00:16:55.020 they're like hyper capitalistic right now but they've always taught me to save when it wherever you can
00:17:01.320 and always reuse your trash bags or whatever yeah reuse your old t-shirts with into rags so
00:17:08.880 vietnam no china china vietnam was north vietnam was communist yeah okay yeah all right okay and china
00:17:19.000 like made them communist kind of gotcha okay um wait so were you born in china or did you were born in
00:17:25.300 the u.s i was born in chicago but we my family moved to china when i was four ish okay so you went
00:17:32.440 back yeah born in the u.s went back came okay got it came back yeah gotcha part of china in shanghai
00:17:38.800 oh okay yeah okay sweet so he slid into the dms and that shit worked cool yeah he was just really high
00:17:46.820 effort so he he slid through the dms talked about the coupons like oh sure but we weren't gonna meet up
00:17:51.620 for like another week or two or so and then he made like an entire pitch deck so you know how like
00:17:56.120 film people they do pitches for on projects he like made a whole powerpoint presentation
00:18:01.800 now can you boost the audio a little bit what hold on oh no it's already sorry is it
00:18:06.660 am i too far from the mic sounds like a lot of work you made a pitch deck yeah like literally a
00:18:14.020 powerpoint presentation i've never seen that before so guys take note if you ever want to slide through
00:18:19.160 a pitch deck will absolutely put you like in the forefront that is the highest effort
00:18:25.300 it will get you the most attention well yeah what was what's he pitching in we see a copy yeah what
00:18:30.960 was the most like profound like slide in that pitch deck so it was just about like interior design
00:18:36.880 like oh like there's like little paragraphs in there it's like oh here's like whatever vibe i think
00:18:43.660 bohemian this will look good oh so he made you a pitch deck for your career and something relating to
00:18:48.660 you i thought you made a pitch deck about why he's an ideal boyfriend oh no no no no no no no he
00:18:53.800 made a pitch deck about furniture in my house yeah i was gonna say no no okay do not recommend to
00:19:00.440 make a pitch deck about why you would be a good partner that's creepy but if it's something first
00:19:05.260 of all six four my way i need to put this on one second wait but okay here's a question
00:19:13.860 let's say he had not made the pitch deck let's say he had not made the pitch deck
00:19:19.120 you still would have hung out with him right um i think it depends because there's always guys sliding
00:19:25.760 through dms no matter what no matter who you are no matter if you have a social media following or not
00:19:30.220 if you just like hang out on facebook whatever there's always guys trying to slide through the
00:19:34.640 dm it's like hey you know like how are you doing beautiful like it could be like right place right
00:19:40.360 time whatever but if he did that then it's like well like that's effort put in and i would like to
00:19:47.140 show effort back and get to know this person but if you weren't into him i don't think the pitch deck
00:19:53.580 would have been the selling point either but we barely even talked and on his profile it didn't
00:19:58.680 really have his face or anything on there at all it was just like a profile oh that's kind of sketch
00:20:04.500 but okay no but i knew he was a real person like sure okay wait so how how long do you think he spent
00:20:13.120 on this pitch deck he said only like 20 minutes but i thought it was a cool pitch deck so maybe like
00:20:19.540 an hour or something he's like no i'm i'm just used to doing this with my projects and film
00:20:24.620 he's he's probably sends like seven pitch decks a day
00:20:28.880 just oh i'm gonna make a fucking pitch deck i'll just wake up 20 minutes like morning routine
00:20:36.060 he's just like it's it's actually like he gets so much pussy from the pitch decks
00:20:41.620 no he said he's never done that before he said he's never done that before and i believe that's okay
00:20:49.760 he's not that's like when a girl who's like really good at head and she's oh it's my first time i've
00:20:54.380 never done this before i mean it's like okay do you know from experience yeah you don't like you
00:21:00.720 don't you're not a hiccup like hookup guy right what do you oh my god you're like that he knows
00:21:06.840 the girls that are you asking if i've ever if i've just never had sex before so much experience with
00:21:14.080 getting head from women that you would experience the type of woman repeatedly that would be like
00:21:19.640 it's literally a meme though like this is a meme that you see online but there's i mean i don't know
00:21:23.920 if i've actually encountered a woman who's like oh i'm i don't know it's my first time i don't know
00:21:30.520 if it's gonna be good and then she's like just fucking going to town
00:21:34.380 so you haven't experienced that it's only specific
00:21:40.980 literally there's meme there are memes about this about like you you guys haven't seen these memes
00:21:51.280 about oh i've never done this before and she's like okay puts herself in fucking doggy position
00:21:56.200 and she's just like okay you've never done this before maybe i read a lot you know maybe they're
00:22:01.940 scholars they don't have like reddit and cornhub we do we do have experience like with food kind
00:22:08.760 of in a way with like you know i don't know popsicles lollipops like yeah i don't know yeah i think you
00:22:14.120 really just what's your alicia's just at home wait yeah what's your go-to food for practicing bjs
00:22:20.720 i think a i want an answer from all the women by the way on this corn on the cob might be
00:22:27.160 does the dick have an std or something i don't know the egg that's
00:22:34.760 just in size how do you participate in like with a man you're saying it's like corn on the cob
00:22:40.800 i mean no no i'm just saying for size wise like i don't know like as far as like a realistic
00:22:47.720 side of that wait hold on size wise like this big though like i've always seen like the little
00:22:55.740 big wait what are those like little mini what are those what are those fucking called the salad
00:23:00.720 corns the salad corns what the fuck are those called chat chat chat chat my first time my favorite
00:23:09.860 food to practice on is coke cans like this chick of my my first time okay my first time the first
00:23:19.540 food experience but yeah no i was talking about my first time eating a girl out it went really well
00:23:24.740 and it was my first time it went amazing and what about your second time and third every time it's
00:23:30.380 great i mean i guess wait what helped you accomplish that we know about the corn well you know they say
00:23:36.820 gay guys are really good at giving because we know jays because they know their anatomy yes exactly do
00:23:42.000 you consider yourself um bi gay what's your flavor i'm just bisexual okay well we haven't gotten to
00:23:52.800 uh your relationship status yet so uh uh relationship status pitiful i'm i'm single and i'm i'm not really
00:24:03.160 like dating right now nothing i'm completely like turned off like with a woman sure but like men like
00:24:12.380 i need some time why is that i just always need time like after like a breakup i just got out of
00:24:17.320 something like a couple months ago a couple months ago how long was that situation it was only a couple
00:24:22.980 months itself and it's you're still not over it i'm no okay uh so you uh you broke up what three
00:24:33.020 months ago four months ago um in june june july okay about three months so there's nothing since
00:24:41.440 then zilch no dates no pussy eating nothing nothing she's celibate now i i really am stop the cow i don't
00:24:54.180 believe it come on do we approve like what what can i do to prove it yes i want to go through your
00:25:00.120 phone right now because you're an only fans model right so does this include work um and do you model
00:25:06.360 with men um no i don't just women and myself solo content so it's like well not solo content
00:25:14.420 i don't think women women are people she does women are people too well don't you want to repeal
00:25:20.900 the 19th but um no i i don't but i do understand pearly's arguments with repealing the 19th i
00:25:27.220 understand where she's coming from she does girl girl content and solo content yes okay um so
00:25:34.840 have you shot any well no what just me just me myself okay oh and just you to do of uh what kind
00:25:44.980 of content you guys do is it solo content girl girl boy girl um so i mostly do like ludes like
00:25:51.520 lingerie and bikini i don't really it's not full yeah it's not full you can't see like china and stuff
00:25:56.700 occasionally top but like mostly like oh occasionally top but mostly pasties but it's more like
00:26:03.300 lingerie lewd content cosplay etc got it okay uh what about you yeah i do a lot of solo content
00:26:11.680 just solo have any of you done any bg content like in the past i tried with a boy girl oh no
00:26:22.420 i tried with a boyfriend but we never like put it out okay never posted it i was just concerned about
00:26:30.020 his well being seven hundred and seventy seven donated one hundred dollars advertising has us
00:26:36.280 chasing cars and clothes working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need
00:26:41.980 all right okay like clubs reject modernity embrace masculinity it's good it's a good point
00:26:48.620 seven hundred and seventy seven the silly and seven hundred and seventy seven no million seven
00:26:54.620 hundred and seventy seven not tillion seven hundred and seventy seven septilion seven hundred and seventy
00:27:00.420 seven seconds i have seven hundred and seventy seven quintillion seven hundred seventy seven thousand seven
00:27:07.740 777,777,777,777,777.
00:27:17.680 It's good luck in some cultures, right?
00:27:18.840 Thank you.
00:27:19.260 Thank you, Tyler.
00:27:20.120 I appreciate it.
00:27:23.200 Lauren, your relationship status?
00:27:25.960 I am single.
00:27:28.740 Yeah.
00:27:29.100 How long have you been single?
00:27:30.620 For life.
00:27:31.860 For life?
00:27:32.620 Yeah.
00:27:32.760 Oh, yeah.
00:27:33.940 You've never had a serious boyfriend, right?
00:27:36.000 No.
00:27:36.320 Well, we might have talked about it last show, but I'm sure we've got new people here.
00:27:43.880 What's the longest period of time that you've, maybe you didn't have an official boyfriend,
00:27:49.020 but there was a guy that you were seeing for some period of time?
00:27:54.620 Two months?
00:27:55.760 Three months?
00:27:56.440 I dated, well, you know.
00:27:57.820 Six weeks.
00:27:58.700 People like to point out, I dated Martin Shkreli for like two years.
00:28:03.080 Oh.
00:28:03.780 But you guys weren't boyfriend-girlfriends?
00:28:06.420 Wait, what's he?
00:28:06.860 Well, no, because like I thought we were, but then he.
00:28:15.920 Yo, FDG, thank you for the gifted 50 memberships.
00:28:20.180 Yo, W's in the chat for FDG there.
00:28:22.920 Thank you so much.
00:28:23.600 Yeah, it was kind of like, I don't know, so I kind of thought we were heading towards
00:28:30.740 a relationship, and we did not, and it was very on and off, yeah.
00:28:37.060 For two years?
00:28:37.980 For two years, and then he ended up going to prison for like seven.
00:28:41.800 Yeah, Nick, can you just do a Google, just for people who don't know who Martin Shkreli
00:28:45.040 is, Nick?
00:28:45.440 Can you just do a Google on, on, just for context?
00:28:47.600 Things happen, you know?
00:28:49.100 Things do happen.
00:28:49.860 Were you, were you dating him during, while he was incarcerated, or?
00:28:54.180 No.
00:28:54.760 I dated him, like, at kind of like the height of his, like, fame and like, notoriety, like
00:29:00.840 all of this.
00:29:01.740 Were you still romantically involved with him when, like, kind of the, some of the, not
00:29:06.280 when he was in prison, but while the court case was going on, or?
00:29:10.500 Yeah, I, like, moved in with him for a brief.
00:29:12.320 Oh, Nick, no, no, no, no, just go to the Wikipedia, go to the Wikipedia.
00:29:16.160 I moved in with him for, like, a brief period, but, like, we're still friends.
00:29:20.460 Here, Nick, let me just read this real quick.
00:29:23.080 Martin Shkreli, born 1983, is an American CEO, hedge fund manager, and fraud convict.
00:29:27.900 Shkreli is the co-founder of the hedge funds, Elia Capital, MSMB, Capital Management, a couple
00:29:33.920 other things.
00:29:36.060 Former CEO of Startup Software.
00:29:37.480 September 2015, Shkreli was widely criticized when Turing obtained the manufacturing license
00:29:43.120 for the anti-parasitic drug Daraprim, is it Daraprim?
00:29:47.000 Daraprim.
00:29:47.480 Daraprim, and raised its price by 5,455% from U.S. $13 to $750 per pill.
00:29:55.960 Ooh, yikes.
00:29:56.660 In 2017, Shkreli was charged and convicted in federal court on two counts of securities fraud
00:30:01.780 and one count of conspiracy for activity unrelated to the Daraprim controversy.
00:30:06.540 He was sentenced to seven years in prison and up to $7.4 million in fines.
00:30:12.640 In the civil case, he was fined a further $64.6 million to be repaid to victims on May 18, 2022.
00:30:19.360 Shkreli was released early from the low-security federal prison in Allenwood, Pennsylvania.
00:30:24.900 So that's a little background on Mr. Martin Shkreli.
00:30:29.420 Yeah.
00:30:29.580 Have you talked to him since he was out?
00:30:31.600 Oh, yeah.
00:30:32.000 We talk all...
00:30:33.540 I think we talked to yesterday.
00:30:34.540 We talk all the time.
00:30:35.440 Yeah.
00:30:35.840 Like, he's a bro.
00:30:36.700 He's a homie.
00:30:37.940 Yeah.
00:30:38.220 Wu-Tang Forever.
00:30:40.360 Oh, yeah.
00:30:40.660 Harambe for life.
00:30:41.800 He bought the rights...
00:30:43.120 Bring back Harambe.
00:30:44.340 He patented a drug.
00:30:46.080 So he bought the Wu-Tang album.
00:30:48.000 I actually have a picture of myself holding it.
00:30:50.080 Like, Wu-Tang.
00:30:52.800 I even got to meet RZA and, like, hang out with him for a while.
00:30:57.560 That's awesome.
00:30:58.120 It's pretty chill.
00:30:58.620 We'll give a background down that.
00:30:59.920 So he bought the exclusive ownership rights to, like, one of their Wu-Tang clans, one of their albums.
00:31:07.740 Is that correct?
00:31:08.600 Yeah.
00:31:09.000 So he's really into music.
00:31:10.700 Like, so he bought...
00:31:11.880 They had an album, and I don't know if they knew how it was going to sell.
00:31:15.520 So they were, like, we'll have, instead of putting it out for the public, we'll have, like, an exclusive rights ownership to it.
00:31:22.900 And so he bought it on an auction, and he got it, I think, for, like, $2 million, which I think is pretty cheap for, like, entire ownership of Wu-Tang.
00:31:32.100 But then he didn't ever republish it for anyone to hear.
00:31:36.000 So very select people got to listen to literally any of it.
00:31:40.040 Yeah.
00:31:40.700 And so you dated him for two years.
00:31:43.560 Very on and off.
00:31:44.680 I wouldn't have...
00:31:45.120 On and off.
00:31:45.520 Yeah.
00:31:46.200 Would you characterize it as a toxic relationship, or...?
00:31:50.160 I think we had really poor communication.
00:31:54.020 I think he had really a lot of stress coming up with his court case.
00:31:59.920 And so I think that it was just a really bad time.
00:32:03.420 But I think he's doing a lot better now.
00:32:04.880 I know him and his girlfriend, his most recent girlfriend, like, just broke up.
00:32:08.860 And I think he's pretty bummed about that.
00:32:11.300 But he did have a pretty healthy relationship with her.
00:32:13.740 And I think he's doing a really good job with, like, creating healthy relationships now.
00:32:17.460 So I'm pretty happy for him.
00:32:18.820 When you first started dating him, was he, at that point, already embroiled in the criminal case?
00:32:25.560 No, not at all.
00:32:26.700 Not at all at all.
00:32:27.740 Okay.
00:32:28.060 So at what point in the relationship did the criminal case be developed?
00:32:34.620 Like, oh, kind of towards the end.
00:32:39.000 Okay.
00:32:39.420 So we were...
00:32:41.700 So he got famous for raising the price of the pill.
00:32:44.900 And I looked into it, and nobody was getting harmed from the pill.
00:32:48.020 And so I reached out to him, and I was like, I'm very confused.
00:32:50.460 You're kind of made to be the enemy here.
00:32:52.420 But it seems like you're doing a lot of research and development, helping people, and yada, yada.
00:32:57.160 And he was like, oh, yeah, let's talk about it.
00:32:58.880 I swing by UC Davis area frequently for my other companies in San Francisco.
00:33:03.240 So, like, we hung out, and then we just continued hanging out.
00:33:07.160 And then that was, like, years before he was charged with anything.
00:33:12.700 Like, maybe a year and a half before he was charged with anything.
00:33:15.320 And then he went to prison.
00:33:18.560 And, yeah.
00:33:19.780 Did he try to hit you up while he was in prison?
00:33:23.900 Yeah, he did.
00:33:25.340 This is a collect call from the...
00:33:27.240 He had a prison cell phone.
00:33:30.280 Pennsylvania?
00:33:31.120 Pennsylvania.
00:33:32.840 Yeah.
00:33:33.360 Federal facility.
00:33:35.680 Did he ever propose, like, a marriage to you so there could be conjugal visits?
00:33:41.660 No.
00:33:42.260 One time before he got in financial trouble, he was, like, he was really into live streaming.
00:33:47.520 This is so embarrassing.
00:33:48.500 I don't know why I'm telling the story.
00:33:50.900 He was really into live streaming, and he took me to a Tiffany's, and then he proposed to me in the Tiffany's.
00:33:56.140 And then when I said yes, he said, just kidding.
00:33:58.440 Oh, my God.
00:33:59.440 Oh, my God.
00:34:00.180 What a joke.
00:34:02.680 What the fuck?
00:34:03.940 Wait.
00:34:04.680 So, did they bring out the champagne and everything?
00:34:07.480 No.
00:34:07.580 Were they all, like, let's go?
00:34:09.300 Oh, my God.
00:34:10.000 Thank God it didn't get that far.
00:34:12.780 It was just, like, it was, like, immediately, like, ha-ha, just kidding.
00:34:18.000 What was your response to that?
00:34:20.300 What was your response to that?
00:34:20.900 Please tell me you were upset.
00:34:22.260 Oh, my God.
00:34:22.800 It was mortified.
00:34:23.420 No, were you laughing, or were you, like, fuck you?
00:34:26.200 Oh, well, keep in mind, we were on camera, and at the time, like, I didn't have, like, any social, really, almost any social media.
00:34:33.900 And so, like, I just was, like, I was just, like, really wanting to be liked.
00:34:40.340 So, I was, like, oh, ha-ha-ha.
00:34:42.620 And then I, like, ran away to go cry, and then I, like, came back.
00:34:47.820 Oh, you're a dick.
00:34:48.280 Yeah.
00:34:48.900 They told us, like, not to trauma dump, and I'm trauma dumping.
00:34:51.620 I mean, that's a really interesting situation.
00:34:54.180 I mean, he asked, so.
00:34:56.240 But that wasn't to get conjugal visits.
00:35:00.280 That was not for conjugal visits.
00:35:01.040 It was just a troll.
00:35:02.300 Yeah, this was before he was in any legal trouble whatsoever.
00:35:05.400 He shouldn't be the serious.
00:35:06.240 He could have gotten them visits.
00:35:08.220 I don't think he cares that much about that.
00:35:12.600 That's really good.
00:35:13.740 I love that in a man.
00:35:15.640 Yeah, but he's, like, a jerk.
00:35:17.900 I don't know if I'd call him a jerk.
00:35:19.660 I just think that he sometimes thinks things are funny, and he doesn't think through, like,
00:35:24.020 how harm.
00:35:24.980 Like, I think he's just, like, I don't think he realized.
00:35:27.380 Like, I think he genuinely thought that was just, like, a funny joke and something that
00:35:30.300 would be funny on a live stream.
00:35:31.460 I don't think he really thought about it from, like, the perspective, like, the female perspective
00:35:35.480 and how devastating it is.
00:35:37.280 Yo, FTG, thank you very much for the 50 gifted memberships.
00:35:42.140 W's in the chat for FTG.
00:35:43.920 Okay, so you were involved with Martin Shkreli for a little bit, so, but it was on-again,
00:35:48.240 off-again relationships, so it is sometimes hard to count that.
00:35:51.640 Yeah.
00:35:51.820 Like, how do you, like, were you dating, like, are you dating for two years, but it was on-and-off,
00:35:58.520 so.
00:35:59.460 What about besides Martin Shkreli?
00:36:01.780 Any two-month, three-month, six weeks?
00:36:04.900 Have I had situationships?
00:36:07.140 Yeah.
00:36:09.100 Like, yes.
00:36:10.940 I've.
00:36:11.600 Besides him, what's, like, the longest situationship that you've had?
00:36:15.000 I don't know.
00:36:19.140 I've never had any, like, long-term situationships.
00:36:21.580 She's probably the longest, and that was two years.
00:36:23.940 I don't think I've had any situationships other than that.
00:36:26.520 Okay.
00:36:26.760 That lasted, like, a year or anything.
00:36:28.500 Gotcha.
00:36:28.860 And you want to get married at one point, one day, have kids, et cetera?
00:36:31.580 Very much so, yeah.
00:36:32.540 Gotcha.
00:36:32.980 Very much want to get married, have kids.
00:36:34.640 Do you, and when it comes to, like, having either not found that person or not having had
00:36:39.060 any other long-term relationships, do you think that it just becomes, like,
00:36:45.000 the men out here that be fucking up?
00:36:49.580 Do you feel like there's, maybe, is there something you're doing?
00:36:52.480 Is it the men that are fucking up?
00:36:53.760 What's your diagnosis?
00:36:55.480 Yeah, I mean, like, there has to be something I'm doing, right?
00:36:58.420 Like, I want something, and I'm trying to get it, and I'm not achieving that goal.
00:37:03.420 I'm working on it.
00:37:06.860 No, it's hard to find, I don't know, other people do it, so I can't say that it's impossible,
00:37:12.940 but it's hard to find somebody.
00:37:14.520 Like, I just want to go on dates and meet someone nice and take things slow and figure
00:37:21.060 it out, but it is difficult to meet people to even just get an initial date with, so.
00:37:26.300 You got to check the DMs.
00:37:29.100 And that's another thing, yeah.
00:37:30.420 I have, sure, I have, like, people, like, swarming my DMs, but, like, like, what, so,
00:37:36.340 what am I supposed to do?
00:37:37.680 Like, search through everyone, look through their pictures, and then go based off their
00:37:41.180 picture and, like, meet them out for, like, that's really hard, too.
00:37:44.280 I do want to meet someone.
00:37:45.900 I would prefer to meet someone organically.
00:37:48.820 Yeah.
00:37:49.000 And, yeah.
00:37:51.840 Morpheus donated $100.
00:37:54.360 The Matrix is a system.
00:37:56.680 That system is our enemy.
00:37:58.620 You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged.
00:38:03.080 And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight
00:38:08.900 to protect it.
00:38:11.140 I'm curious.
00:38:11.780 That's true.
00:38:13.040 That's true, Morpheus.
00:38:14.840 Take the red pill.
00:38:16.140 Which system are you talking about?
00:38:17.940 The relationship system?
00:38:19.380 Definitely the relationship.
00:38:20.360 Political system?
00:38:21.480 I think all of the above.
00:38:23.920 Oh, we got Mike Davis here.
00:38:24.660 Mike Davis donated $100.
00:38:26.960 Thank you, Morpheus.
00:38:27.800 Brian, where did you find this group?
00:38:30.480 You put an ad on Craigslist seeking basic white girls.
00:38:34.320 They all talk the same.
00:38:36.060 Nah, but for real.
00:38:37.760 I can only laugh.
00:38:39.060 These broads really in their head think they be special when they dime a dozen.
00:38:44.700 That's Mike Davis, everybody.
00:38:46.160 If you want to know, that's, pretend that's, oh yeah, there he is.
00:38:49.180 That was really rude, Mike.
00:38:51.240 And am I not here?
00:38:52.880 Like, we're all white today.
00:38:54.960 I was about to say, we have white privilege today.
00:38:57.580 You're white.
00:38:58.140 We have two Asian women.
00:38:59.600 And are you Latina?
00:39:01.500 Afro, Latina, Mexican, and Black.
00:39:03.160 Okay.
00:39:03.460 Native American.
00:39:04.320 Okay.
00:39:04.580 No, you're white.
00:39:05.420 He just said that.
00:39:05.740 We have white privilege now.
00:39:07.280 And in June.
00:39:07.780 We all talk the same.
00:39:09.040 I guess that's white now.
00:39:10.640 Well, Mike Davis, thank you very much.
00:39:12.000 Good to see you back in the chat there.
00:39:14.600 While we got some chats up, Space Monkey, Amy Dangerfield's video on Andrew Tate was question
00:39:20.320 mark nair.
00:39:22.040 Can you, can we get a nair?
00:39:23.920 Nair.
00:39:24.640 No.
00:39:25.380 Yeah.
00:39:25.880 Thank you.
00:39:26.560 I don't, I don't, you, question mark, question mark.
00:39:28.560 I don't know.
00:39:30.080 That's positive.
00:39:31.040 Yeah.
00:39:31.400 It's a little vague.
00:39:32.340 It's questionable.
00:39:33.020 Okay.
00:39:33.340 You did a video on Andrew Tate, I guess.
00:39:35.000 I did.
00:39:35.020 Yeah.
00:39:35.500 Uh-huh.
00:39:35.780 I did an analysis of the victims that came forward on my YouTube.
00:39:40.120 Victims?
00:39:40.600 Oh, shit.
00:39:41.680 You don't know about his criminal charges?
00:39:42.920 Well, let's keep it moving.
00:39:44.080 All right.
00:39:44.400 We have Pimp Rogers here.
00:39:45.740 Hello, my beautiful Ozzie Amy.
00:39:47.780 Brian, anything special for episode 100?
00:39:50.120 Also, bro, I'm, okay, I'm, was, drag your name.
00:39:57.760 Yeah, I'm not going to address like bullshit fucking shit like that.
00:40:01.060 But, uh, nothing special planned for episode 100.
00:40:05.360 Um, oh, yo, FTG, thank you for the 50 gifted memberships.
00:40:08.520 Appreciate it, man.
00:40:09.740 Oh, okay.
00:40:10.880 We should all celebrate.
00:40:12.220 Yay.
00:40:12.620 Is this Twitch kick or?
00:40:14.820 What do you mean?
00:40:15.440 The subscriptions.
00:40:16.460 Oh, the memberships, that's YouTube.
00:40:18.380 Oh.
00:40:18.680 Yeah, it's on YouTube.
00:40:20.160 And, uh, yeah.
00:40:21.820 Uh, Amy, your relationship status?
00:40:24.400 I'm single.
00:40:25.180 My longest relationship was four years, which was my last relationship.
00:40:28.780 Okay.
00:40:29.040 Which ended about four months ago.
00:40:31.060 Four months ago.
00:40:31.620 Yeah.
00:40:31.780 Okay.
00:40:32.780 Your most recent relationship ended four months ago.
00:40:35.640 Correct.
00:40:36.100 And that was my longest, four years.
00:40:39.560 Your, oh, your longest relationship was four years.
00:40:41.700 Yes, which was the last one, which ended about four.
00:40:45.300 Four months ago?
00:40:46.180 Yeah, I'd say, wait, it was in the end of May.
00:40:50.060 So whatever that is.
00:40:51.640 Okay.
00:40:52.700 Got it.
00:40:53.620 Cool, cool.
00:40:54.220 Uh, I had a question for the girls who do, uh, OnlyFans.
00:40:57.400 Uh, so some people on OnlyFans can make a lot of money.
00:41:00.360 Just curious, are you guys down to share, like, how much money you guys make?
00:41:03.320 I'd rather not, but they can.
00:41:05.360 Is it five figures, six figures, a month?
00:41:09.380 Are you all in the top one percent of OnlyFans that make at least $2,500 per month?
00:41:14.420 Oh, yeah.
00:41:15.040 Yeah.
00:41:15.180 So you're all in the top one percent, the three people?
00:41:19.280 Under my top one percent.
00:41:21.600 Under one percent.
00:41:22.220 I don't know.
00:41:23.200 Yeah.
00:41:24.520 Okay.
00:41:25.200 Point what?
00:41:26.340 I don't know.
00:41:27.520 It fluctuates.
00:41:28.640 It fluctuates.
00:41:29.520 It also depends on, like, if you're with a good agency, if you're putting out a lot
00:41:32.920 of content on social media, depends on a lot of things.
00:41:35.840 I don't know what that means.
00:41:37.060 I don't know.
00:41:37.740 Do you guys talk to your, to the guys that you, that follow you?
00:41:42.440 Do you have, like, those communications, or is it just the photos and the videos?
00:41:46.720 Like, on social media or on OnlyFans?
00:41:48.840 On OnlyFans.
00:41:50.080 I think, it depends on if you have an agency.
00:41:53.100 Sometimes the girls are managed.
00:41:54.720 Sometimes, like, the girls are not.
00:41:56.040 You personally?
00:41:57.740 I do.
00:41:58.260 Yeah.
00:41:58.780 Yeah.
00:42:00.160 Okay.
00:42:01.600 Do you have any men that consider you to be, like, their girlfriend?
00:42:07.860 I feel like they do.
00:42:09.560 I mean, we're kind of, like, selling a fantasy here.
00:42:12.440 You know?
00:42:12.820 Like, I feel like they might.
00:42:14.040 Yeah.
00:42:14.600 Okay.
00:42:15.180 Do you see any, like, potential conflicts with that?
00:42:18.600 And do they ever ask to meet up?
00:42:20.280 And how do you get out of, like, ever actually meeting them in person?
00:42:24.960 Oh, I just, very forward.
00:42:26.960 Like, I say, I'm not comfortable with that.
00:42:29.120 Like, if they ask anything that I'm not willing to do, or, like, meeting up, or, like, any photos
00:42:35.260 or videos I don't want to do, I just tell them I don't want to.
00:42:38.360 Oh, okay.
00:42:39.300 And so you have these guys who consider you to be their girlfriend, and then they'd be,
00:42:45.300 like, oh, but can we get some, like, want to get a drink sometime?
00:42:48.360 And you're just, like, no, never.
00:42:50.560 How does that?
00:42:50.920 Yeah, I would say no.
00:42:51.620 It's for, like, safety reasons.
00:42:53.900 I don't really want to meet up with, like, people online.
00:42:57.260 They're probably parasocial.
00:42:58.800 Yeah, I think it's more parasocial than, like, actually thinking you're a girlfriend.
00:43:02.600 You're more, like, an e-girl to them.
00:43:05.260 I don't think anybody thinks you're in a serious relationship ever, because they understand
00:43:11.280 that they're on a platform talking to you.
00:43:14.080 It's not like you're actually, like, talking on the phone or, like, meeting up for dates
00:43:19.080 and stuff.
00:43:19.700 And parasocial relationships exist in a lot of capacities.
00:43:22.460 Like, people feel a parasocial relationship with their favorite influencers and celebrities.
00:43:26.200 But I think it borders on the line of a little bit more precarious and a little bit more,
00:43:31.040 hmm, maybe this is not quite safe when you are so sexually involved with them as well.
00:43:36.140 Because that draws on emotions that are not typical in the average parasocial relationship
00:43:40.720 where people are just worshipping their social media idols or celebrities.
00:43:44.640 You know what I mean?
00:43:45.300 I think that's kind of...
00:43:46.400 Right.
00:43:46.740 I mean, and also, like, those people have security for a reason.
00:43:50.760 Like, most celebrities that you see out have security.
00:43:54.820 And you guys, there's just now all of these content creators who, I don't think they're
00:43:59.360 as careful about not letting the public know their whereabouts.
00:44:03.380 And often, they're actually really loose with letting people know their doxed information.
00:44:08.440 And it just seems dangerous.
00:44:10.140 I think that's also one of the things.
00:44:11.560 I think it's a bit of a cope when people say, like, oh, OnlyFans is so much safer than
00:44:15.820 these other platforms.
00:44:16.720 Because OnlyFans did not start as a content for that type of explicit content.
00:44:21.160 It started off as, like, a Patreon of sorts, right?
00:44:23.640 Where they had more relaxed kind of standards.
00:44:25.980 And so, when you look at the traditional sex work environment, strip clubs, you know,
00:44:29.620 anything like that, there are guidelines in place.
00:44:32.540 There are restrictions.
00:44:33.480 There's, like, direct training on that.
00:44:35.160 Versus with OnlyFans, because it wasn't...
00:44:37.700 The platform wasn't explicitly started with that intent.
00:44:40.520 I feel like that's lacking, which can almost cause people to fall into more precarious
00:44:45.620 situations, depending on what comes up.
00:44:48.200 I feel like even Instagram is more dangerous, in a sense, because people are involved with
00:44:52.980 your life emotionally.
00:44:54.100 You're posting stories all the time.
00:44:55.280 There's not, like, a story speech on OnlyFans, for example.
00:44:57.900 It's not, like, purely transactional.
00:44:59.840 You can, like, communicate and comment and, like, be invested in a figure or social media
00:45:04.920 persona, like, very, very intensely.
00:45:07.540 And I don't see it, like, as that.
00:45:10.980 There's also, like, the lack of...
00:45:13.180 There's two things that are different on Instagram.
00:45:15.700 So, now, with Instagram, you can, like, post bikini pictures.
00:45:18.000 You can post whatever.
00:45:18.760 But it's not, like, overtly sexual.
00:45:21.360 You're not, like, literally selling sex.
00:45:23.280 I mean, you kind of are, but not explicitly.
00:45:26.040 And then, also, the exchange...
00:45:27.280 Marketing sex.
00:45:28.120 You're marketing sex.
00:45:29.380 You're not selling sex.
00:45:30.200 But I feel like people can be...
00:45:31.840 Sorry, my second one was the exchange of money.
00:45:35.020 I think people start feeling...
00:45:36.020 Can you put it on start, please?
00:45:37.000 As though they have some sort of ownership over people or ownership over the women because
00:45:42.220 they've paid some specific amount and, therefore, like, they're entitled to...
00:45:47.980 I worry about people becoming possessive, obsessive, and feeling entitled.
00:45:53.580 I just want to say, as far as, like, the strip club or, like, other, like, walks of sex work,
00:45:58.760 I feel like OnlyFans is kind of, like, the safest because, like, with those, you have to be with these people in person as far as...
00:46:07.640 I don't want to say any words that I can't say, but, like, just other forms of sex work.
00:46:12.220 Like, you know, because I used to do those and I joined OnlyFans because it was, like, I don't have to see these people.
00:46:19.480 They know what I want them to know.
00:46:21.000 And it was, like, just safer, like, as far as that goes.
00:46:23.940 She's talking about, like, what is the recourse, though, if someone was crazy?
00:46:27.220 Because there's a lot of recourse and there are set protocols and standards in place with these forms of sex work that are, like, explicitly considered sex work versus something like OnlyFans, which is a little bit more vague, a little bit more ambiguous.
00:46:37.640 Like, what is the true recourse for that?
00:46:40.100 Do you know what I mean?
00:46:40.620 Like, all those specific standards and protocols in place where people are even informing themselves about the potential dangers and how to be aware of them and how to navigate them if they were to arise, you know?
00:46:50.420 I would just say it's, like, the same protocols as, like, if anyone was in danger, like, you know, police or, like...
00:46:56.840 I've had in person, like, people follow me to my car and all these different things, like, in real life or on my regular...
00:47:02.480 From your OnlyFans as a result of that or, like, in real life?
00:47:05.320 Before I ever made a social media, if I have guys catcall me, follow me in their car, it's just downtown L.A., and all you can do is just, like, keep walking, but on OnlyFans, you can establish your specific boundaries.
00:47:16.800 Like, hey, I'm not comfortable with this, this, and this.
00:47:20.300 Here are some photo sets that you can buy.
00:47:24.060 Here is how we can, like, chat, but it's very strict boundaries.
00:47:27.140 I think it just depends on how you're able to establish boundaries for yourself because I feel like just existing as a woman is kind of dangerous in society.
00:47:34.720 Like, if you're walking alone in, like, a bad part of town.
00:47:38.820 I mean, it's actually more dangerous to exist as a man.
00:47:42.220 Yeah, I think men actually do get more violently targeted, but it's always...
00:47:47.720 Men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes, so...
00:47:50.720 Yeah, violent crimes for sure, but I think when it...
00:47:53.400 I think it...
00:47:54.260 I just...
00:47:54.720 I just...
00:47:55.220 Yes.
00:47:55.660 I just want to know, who is committing these crimes, like, against the men?
00:48:00.140 Men.
00:48:00.560 That's kind of almost victim-blaming.
00:48:03.720 What does it matter what the gender of the perpetrator is?
00:48:05.940 No, I'm just saying, I'm just saying, like, it just feels like men, the conversation of safety and the world not being safe, it's like, just comes back to men.
00:48:15.320 It's not because of men, it's a very small proportion of men who commit these violent crimes, so...
00:48:21.580 And they've existed since the beginning of time, and that's never going to change.
00:48:25.200 That's with almost any group of people, though, for any stats figures, it's almost always a small group, but usually, like, if you divide by race or by gender or whatever, then there's a larger percentage within each categorized group in some as opposed to others, which makes these disparities seem large.
00:48:45.320 Yeah, I think when people say, oh, it's more dangerous for men, it really depends on how you qualify that, because I feel like if...
00:48:53.700 Just across the board, generally speaking, violent crime, go ahead.
00:48:56.980 Okay, because I was going to say, I think women do a lot of risk de-escalation as much as they can, so if women took the same actions as men do, then you might see similar numbers of violence.
00:49:07.740 But what ends up happening is that women from a young age are socialized to, okay, don't be out too late at night, or if you are, be with, like, a bunch of friends, and, like, always, like, be careful walking to the parking lot, and have the keys with you, and the pepper spray, and the 911 ready to call, and if a guy, like, flirts with you or comes up with you, think about all the ways that he can harm you.
00:49:25.040 So I'm not saying that men aren't larger victims of, like, let's say, street violence, for example, but I wonder if those numbers would change if women were more casual like men are.
00:49:37.000 I think it just has to do with proximity, and then also, like, you have gang violence is going to be, like, one of the main...
00:49:44.500 And so it's usually gangs fighting against each other to tend to be men.
00:49:47.080 I have a question for you.
00:49:47.980 Yeah.
00:49:48.360 But, like, also, like, if you break it down by race, like, black people tend to hurt black people, whereas white people hurt white people, Asian people hurt Asian people.
00:49:56.680 Women hurt women, men hurt men.
00:49:58.380 Just, like, year-round...
00:49:59.680 I would say way more men hurt women, but...
00:50:02.440 So you'll see more men hurting women than women hurting men,
00:50:06.060 but men attack men more than men attack women.
00:50:09.340 Yeah, that's true.
00:50:10.260 So I think men, we just...
00:50:12.480 I think it's a society that is the reason for this.
00:50:15.800 Systemic thing.
00:50:16.420 I wouldn't say it's just men.
00:50:17.820 I would just say it's how they were...
00:50:20.420 Raised?
00:50:22.720 Is it raised or wired?
00:50:25.540 Nature or nurture?
00:50:26.920 I don't think any of us were, like...
00:50:29.060 Have much of a chance with the way that the system is set up.
00:50:36.260 Yeah.
00:50:36.620 It's largely based on, like, socioeconomic conditions, too.
00:50:40.480 Yeah, I feel like I agree with that, because I also was born and raised in China from Beijing for 15 years.
00:50:45.520 I've never actually experienced such high amount of violence where I grew up.
00:50:51.500 Maybe you could say it's communism.
00:50:53.060 You could say it's, like, the government controls everything.
00:50:55.760 But, like, this much amount of violence is kind of unheard of, almost.
00:51:02.060 I was, like, pretty shocked when I got here, to be honest.
00:51:04.680 So, sorry, you were saying in Beijing there's less violence than in America?
00:51:08.860 I think it's simply because the government has more control over there.
00:51:13.400 Do you prefer communism, then?
00:51:15.760 I don't have a preference.
00:51:18.340 I think I actually prefer here.
00:51:20.320 But because people here can actually have their own voice, have their opinions, and then, like, be who they are,
00:51:26.260 I think that could potentially lead to, like, more violence.
00:51:29.760 Have you experienced with the communist government, like, governmental violence in China?
00:51:35.940 I've not personally experienced it, but I've heard things.
00:51:43.400 What's that face?
00:51:44.380 Brian?
00:51:46.360 I have no idea what the fuck this has to do with dating.
00:51:48.680 But, okay.
00:51:50.160 So, we're at...
00:51:54.160 We're talking about violence.
00:51:55.420 Okay, you were making the point, Pixie, that women, because the way they are raised to be more aware of risk...
00:52:04.400 Like, risk adverse.
00:52:05.780 Yeah.
00:52:06.520 Okay.
00:52:07.100 There was another part that you said after that that I had a point on, but it's updated me.
00:52:13.940 What did you say after that?
00:52:15.940 She was saying that if women are brought up to be cautious around men,
00:52:20.240 which is why they potentially have less conflicts with men than when you were saying that men get attacked more frequently than women get attacked.
00:52:27.500 But you could also argue that men have...
00:52:32.280 There's something within a lot of men, which is, like, a white knight thing, where it's, like, told never to hit a woman.
00:52:40.300 In fact, I think women have certain privileges on the street, for example.
00:52:43.480 Like, you, for example.
00:52:44.840 Let's say you're in some...
00:52:47.260 You're walking in some bar or nightclub district, and a guy comes up to you and slaps you across the face.
00:52:54.780 There are totally strange men that will intervene on your behalf and essentially be your bodyguards for free that will defend you.
00:53:03.520 However, if I just get slapped in the face by some dude and he starts trying to fuck me up, nobody's coming to save me.
00:53:10.060 So I think that's actually a privilege that women have.
00:53:14.620 You basically, in a public area, you basically have male bodyguards that will intervene on your behalf that are total strangers.
00:53:21.820 I don't know.
00:53:23.280 Okay.
00:53:24.400 Like, I agree to you to a certain extent.
00:53:27.280 Especially, like, if a woman were to slap you, I highly doubt that you'll have any interveners.
00:53:32.220 But if a random man slaps you, I think you'll have a high likelihood that you're also going to have strangers intervene.
00:53:38.380 No.
00:53:38.640 And then also, there's been multiple issues, specifically during COVID, like when they started letting the trains run again, where women were being, you know, essayed on the trains in New York.
00:53:50.560 And sometimes for many, many stops, and passerbyers were videotaping it, and nobody was doing anything to help these women.
00:53:58.700 So women do experience that as well.
00:54:01.380 Yeah, I'll agree with you that, in general, strangers are more likely to help a woman being beaten than a man being beaten by a woman.
00:54:09.340 But women definitely experience times where strangers will not help them.
00:54:14.580 I'm not saying that there's never a situation where a woman is being physically assaulted by a man, and that it's impossible that a guy doesn't intervene.
00:54:26.060 However, it's very, I would say it's very likely, if there's other men around, seeing a woman being beaten by a man, they are very likely to not just intervene, but beat the fucking shit out of the guy who's beating on the woman.
00:54:42.300 Whereas, if I'm getting attacked by another man, I don't know why you flip the genders, if I'm getting attacked by another man, there's no, it's very, very unlikely that other men are going to intervene to stop.
00:54:57.940 And just to say something on that, so for example, when that situation does arise, when a woman is being beaten by a man, and there aren't any defenders, oftentimes there could be missing context from the situation.
00:55:09.420 So did you guys hear about the woman who got bricked in the face recently?
00:55:13.280 Oh yeah, we talked about that.
00:55:15.100 Oh, you don't want to talk about it?
00:55:16.600 We don't have to, I was just using it as an example, because she was literally saying, men weren't standing up for me, men are pussies, they're cowards, this and that, trying to paint this narrative, but there was a lot more to the context than...
00:55:27.780 Hold on, just a sec.
00:55:30.720 Thank you, Mike Davis.
00:55:31.560 People will be thinking I'm anti-women when the fact is I'm anti-everybody.
00:55:34.620 Most men are completely useless working dead-end jobs just to throw that bread at some e-fot, but they're self-aware and know they're losers.
00:55:44.180 300 plus pound women think they're special.
00:55:47.500 Crazy.
00:55:48.420 All right, Mike Davis, there you go.
00:55:50.680 He's on something.
00:55:52.620 Thank you, Mike Davis, appreciate it.
00:55:54.080 I think that, although in theory it sounds like, oh yeah, like, you know, men will be valiant and stand up for women, there's a reason why women are even given advice like, hey, if you're being assaulted or if some, like, strange guy's trying to attack you, instead of yelling, like, help, like, I'm being SA'd, instead they say you should scream fire.
00:56:14.460 Because, like, there is, like, the bystander to the fact that there is, oh, you know, a lot of people, both men and women, in the face of atrocities freeze or think that somebody else called the police, somebody else is going to do something about it, regardless of gender.
00:56:28.480 I kind of want to talk about why men defend women when they see them being harmed on the streets.
00:56:34.620 I think most of the time, like, the average woman's height is, like, 5'4", versus the average male height is 5'9", and there's, you know, a lot more muscle mass when, just when you're a guy in general, and I feel like people tend to want to defend people who are, like, yeah, like, just smaller, like, it's like, if you see someone literally, like, beating the shit out of a kid, or someone who is, you know that cannot physically defend themselves, then you're more inclined to help.
00:57:03.600 If someone's beating on an old person in a wheelchair, he's like, hey, stop that.
00:57:07.980 Yeah, I agree with that.
00:57:09.460 I think if there's a disparity in size or strength, I think there's perhaps, even if it's two men, there might be a greater likelihood of intervention, and certainly your examples with, if it's someone who's elderly, a child, I actually, yeah, that's a fair point.
00:57:27.420 You said you had a question for me before you went up to.
00:57:29.700 Oh, yeah, I was wondering, how many people you share your location with on your phone?
00:57:35.860 Like, just find my friends, if you have an iPhone or Android.
00:57:41.980 How many people?
00:57:43.240 I don't think I share my location with anybody.
00:57:45.180 So I want to bring up that most women share their locations with other women and friends, just as like a primary safety, like, hey, if I go on this date, this is where I'm at, something could happen.
00:57:59.280 And it's just, we're taught to always be cautious, because things can happen.
00:58:04.740 And then we get blamed if something does happen, a lot of times.
00:58:08.040 Like, if someone drugs our drink, or if someone ends up assaying us, like, it's typically like, oh, we didn't take enough precaution.
00:58:18.760 You always have to have an out, like, hey, like, I'm right here, come pick me up, whatever.
00:58:22.640 Okay.
00:58:24.580 Okay.
00:58:25.360 Yeah.
00:58:26.740 All right.
00:58:29.360 Okay, let's fucking talk about something else.
00:58:32.380 So, hold on, let me see if there's any chats.
00:58:37.040 Let me get rid of this.
00:58:38.140 It just meant to go to dangerous places.
00:58:41.240 I mean, as far as, okay, just really quick, me personally, like, me not sharing my location, I don't go to bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't go to parties.
00:58:47.880 So, I'm not putting myself in potentially violent situations that often happen when you are, like, so I could, it's plausible that a girl that three times a week she's getting fucking tanked at bars and nightclubs, it's probably likely that she's going to be sharing her location with more people, because she is putting herself in those sorts of, when you're out at nightclubs and bars and parties, like, it is a vulnerable, it's a vulnerable position for both men and women.
00:59:15.040 I was going to say, I don't share my location with anyone.
00:59:18.540 Oh, really?
00:59:19.120 Yeah, I don't put myself in those situations where I feel like I would need to.
00:59:22.520 I used to share it with my ex.
00:59:24.760 You might need to adjust the volume on her.
00:59:26.420 And to be honest, when I came over here and I traveled to California, I kind of thought, I thought about that, I'm like, wow, he's the only person who actually had my location, and I'm here in this state where I don't know anyone.
00:59:36.380 And I did think about that for a second, but to your point, no, I didn't.
00:59:40.220 I'm not with a bunch of my friends, it was with one person.
00:59:42.860 I mean, I don't really go to a bunch of clubs or bars or anything, but I always share my location no matter what, with, like, my best friends, with just people that, even if we're just, like, having dinner or something, like, oh, where did you park?
00:59:56.760 And it's just, like, very casual for me.
00:59:58.660 Right.
00:59:59.000 But maybe it's, like, the location or, like, age thing, I don't know.
01:00:02.860 I actually do share my location with a lot of people, too, and I think it might be, like, a physical location thing, because I live in the middle of LA, I'm not going to share where, but I don't feel safe walking around sometimes, just going to the grocery store by myself sometimes, which is why I share my locations with friends.
01:00:19.840 Also, I would point out, I think you mentioned the word feel, right?
01:00:23.640 So I do think it's the case that women feel less safe, but, like, if you look at the actual data, the actual statistics, as far, when it comes to violent crime across the board, generally speaking, men are more likely to be victims of violent crime.
01:00:36.140 They're more likely to be locked.
01:00:36.560 To be fair.
01:00:37.400 But you don't want to be harassed, either, even if they're not going to stab you.
01:00:40.260 You don't want someone following home and, like, hit on you, either.
01:00:43.080 Yeah, sure, yeah, that doesn't sound, you don't want someone following you, of course.
01:00:47.820 Yeah, and I don't know.
01:00:48.100 Did you have something for this, Lauren?
01:00:49.260 It sounded like.
01:00:49.800 Well, just, like, you said violent crimes across the board, so I'd imagine those statistics, a lot of them would include, like, gang violence, and then also men who are assaulting each other, and then one is considered the victim, even though they're both kind of at it, fighting with each other, so I think that's going to inflate the statistics.
01:01:05.080 I don't really know.
01:01:06.980 Wait, what?
01:01:08.320 You're saying that men.
01:01:09.720 So the incidence of violence perpetrated by men, you're saying that's inflated by male versus male violence as well, which is being categorized into that statistic.
01:01:18.520 Yeah, so, like, not so much, just, like, random victims on the street.
01:01:22.900 I don't think that, like, men are being perpetrated more often than females, like, in those situations.
01:01:29.200 They are, though.
01:01:30.360 Also, like, mugging and stuff.
01:01:31.940 You don't think your statistics are inflated by gang violence and other types of, like, violence among male groups?
01:01:38.720 If you probably removed gang violence, it would still be more likely.
01:01:44.060 I think, as brought earlier, it also depends, like, on one type of violence, and that's why women are, like, more cautious as well, because I think that there is a very big difference for people saying, like, oh, you know, we got into a fist fight.
01:01:56.460 Maybe there was, like, a stabbing versus, like, oh, there was a potential stabbing and essay, right?
01:02:02.560 Or human trafficking, potentially, or things of that degree.
01:02:06.520 So I think that also, for a lot of people, it's like, would you rather be beat up or would you rather be horribly essayed?
01:02:13.200 And I think a lot of people would pick, like, the beating up.
01:02:16.600 Wait, so hold on.
01:02:17.300 You're comparing essay to getting beat up.
01:02:19.440 But, like, let's talk about murders.
01:02:21.000 Men are more likely to be victims of murder.
01:02:23.360 Would you rather be essayed or be murdered?
01:02:25.080 Oh, you don't want me to answer this question?
01:02:28.160 I think you literally.
01:02:29.840 Okay, you'd rather be murdered.
01:02:31.060 That's, I mean.
01:02:32.120 No, I mean, I don't think that's an answer other people should have.
01:02:35.960 But it's not a fair comparison to say, would you rather just get into a fist fight or get fucking violently essayed?
01:02:42.520 Well, no, but that's, exactly.
01:02:44.540 That's the point.
01:02:45.320 You're saying, like, oh, no, men overall, you know, they're more victims of violence, et cetera, et cetera.
01:02:51.880 They are.
01:02:52.420 No, I'm not disagreeing with that.
01:02:54.480 Now, there's differentials in terms of women are more likely to be essayed, although, I mean, you can't hear.
01:03:00.920 Women are more likely to be human trafficked.
01:03:02.540 Women are more likely to be victims of domestic assault.
01:03:05.180 We're talking about the United States, right?
01:03:06.860 Yes, in the United States.
01:03:07.060 Women are more likely to be.
01:03:08.200 What does it mean to be human trafficked, just so I'm clear?
01:03:10.960 Are we talking, like, pimping?
01:03:12.640 Yeah.
01:03:13.240 Pimped out, labor.
01:03:14.860 There's labor trafficking.
01:03:15.960 There's a lot of different types of human trafficking.
01:03:17.660 You're more likely to, like, be a maid and trafficked here.
01:03:21.600 So, basically, it goes beyond.
01:03:23.400 A lot of people, when they think human trafficking, right, they think I'm a slave.
01:03:27.040 Like, I'm in chains or I am being, like, physically or, you know, mentally exploited, right?
01:03:33.280 But what they're saying now is that the love of way method of human trafficking is also equally punishable under a court of law.
01:03:41.820 Meaning that, like, you could get the same level of punishment, prison time, everything for the love of way method versus, you know, any other forms of human trafficking, which are done by force versus coercion.
01:03:53.340 So, coercion is basically, like, making a woman believe that you love them, right, and then forcing them into sex work under some type of guise of relationship or cohabitation situation, which is what the Tates are facing right now.
01:04:09.300 That's Romanian law, and that's...
01:04:10.780 That's Romanian law.
01:04:11.380 That's also...
01:04:11.980 Coercion is also applicable under U.S. law as well.
01:04:14.960 Right.
01:04:15.620 How do you prove coercion?
01:04:16.840 So, you have, like, it's pretty subjective, but you're trying to show that there's some sort of power dynamic.
01:04:24.440 So, I read the Romanian law, and I don't know the American law because I wasn't interested in it, and at least in Romania, they, like, specifically say that there has to be some sort of power differential where the person feels, like, a loss of control.
01:04:38.160 And what they're trying to say in the Tate case is they have, like, some text message exchange in which...
01:04:46.160 Now, there's debate whether or not this text message exchange is real, but in which it seems like the Tates are saying, like, let's get poor people and, like, let's get poor girls who will not be able to leave and yada yada.
01:04:58.180 But there's doubt whether or not that's a real text exchange.
01:05:02.760 There's doubt whether that will be admissible evidence.
01:05:05.500 It's doubt whether or not that's about the women that are the prime victims in the alleged victims in the case.
01:05:12.200 So, yeah, but because technically...
01:05:14.800 So, it's kind of hard to prove coercion completely, like, unless you have, like, physical documented evidence.
01:05:20.780 It's very difficult.
01:05:21.660 It's kind of like a rape case, right?
01:05:22.920 Unless you have the physical, like, evidence, right?
01:05:25.840 And you're able to get a rape kit, like, immediately off the train.
01:05:27.740 Yeah, let's not talk about that.
01:05:29.240 Great.
01:05:29.960 But, sorry, it's a very similar type of thing, right?
01:05:32.460 Where it's highly subjective in the court of law.
01:05:35.480 Yeah.
01:05:35.680 Oftentimes, yeah.
01:05:37.380 I have a question, though.
01:05:38.560 Okay.
01:05:39.060 So, when it comes to, like, DV, right?
01:05:41.820 So, you often hear inter-partner violence that, oh, men are just beating women up en masse.
01:05:50.280 But what's interesting to me is domestic violence rates are actually lowest amongst gay men and highest amongst lesbian women.
01:06:00.360 So...
01:06:00.600 I believe it.
01:06:01.440 I believe it.
01:06:02.340 So, how's the rate of reporting?
01:06:03.300 That's kind of, like, interesting to...
01:06:05.260 Or is it reported?
01:06:06.060 Like, is it, like, prosecuted?
01:06:07.100 It's a rate of reporting.
01:06:08.320 Like, you don't think women would report more likely than men?
01:06:11.060 I think men don't report DV at all.
01:06:13.100 I think there are a lot of abusive women out there who beat men up, but men choose to not report to the police.
01:06:19.800 So, you're saying, oh, I mean, that's almost further proven my point a little bit, but...
01:06:26.480 Yeah, I think, what is it?
01:06:28.260 At least from the self-reports, like, separate from, like, let's say, like, police reports, it still seems like there's a disparity.
01:06:33.980 But I absolutely can agree with you that, yeah, like, a lot of men are disincentivized from going to the police or reporting in general
01:06:41.220 because there is a general stigma against men who are in these situations, and that's really sad and horrible.
01:06:47.820 However, I would say that most men, on average, can overpower women, and if a woman decided to physically beat a man up,
01:06:55.100 the man can stop them physically, just muscle mass-wise, and height and weight-wise, weight class.
01:07:03.240 I'm not just playing whatsoever.
01:07:03.980 Girl, this conversation is such a buzzkill.
01:07:05.340 I don't want to talk about DV and SA anymore.
01:07:07.700 Okay.
01:07:09.120 What's the next topic?
01:07:10.200 All right.
01:07:11.540 Okay, wait, so, Emmy, for you, you said your boyfriend, and you said he made you this pitch deck.
01:07:17.880 In your pre-show notes to us, you also said he made, he gifted you furniture on the first date?
01:07:22.580 Yeah.
01:07:23.520 Okay, what did he give you, like, a duvet?
01:07:26.100 Wait, not a duvet, a fucking...
01:07:27.320 He gave me a tabletop.
01:07:29.280 Because he just moved into your home, right?
01:07:30.660 You said you just bought your home.
01:07:32.360 Yeah, I got my home around, like, a month before me and him ever met, but we started talking, like, whenever.
01:07:39.620 And I was on a Twitch stream, and I was like, oh, my God, my Ikea, like, tabletop is breaking down.
01:07:44.680 And he was on the stream, and he was like, yeah, I got, like, a wood guy.
01:07:48.280 I got the best wood in town.
01:07:49.640 Like, aha.
01:07:51.080 Oh, my God, he does have the best wood in town.
01:07:54.520 That's what got him.
01:07:55.340 So, he bought you just a tabletop?
01:07:59.660 Yeah, he got, like, two big slabs of wood for me.
01:08:02.040 Oh, he got you wood?
01:08:02.860 He delivered me wood.
01:08:03.960 On the first date?
01:08:04.960 He delivered me wood.
01:08:05.740 Yeah.
01:08:06.420 Did you, did he also give you the wood?
01:08:08.860 No, not on the first date, though.
01:08:09.840 Not on the first date?
01:08:10.900 Okay.
01:08:14.200 Second date?
01:08:15.400 Did he show up with some, with a package?
01:08:18.660 On the second date?
01:08:19.580 Not, like, you know.
01:08:20.320 Oh, I think, yeah, I think it's, like, around second or third date.
01:08:26.120 Yeah.
01:08:26.780 What did he get you on the third date?
01:08:29.800 Wiener?
01:08:30.460 Hitzel?
01:08:30.980 Just quality time spent, and words of affirmation, and, yeah.
01:08:36.820 Okay, all right.
01:08:37.320 He's a sweet guy.
01:08:38.520 What's your love language, Brian?
01:08:40.880 My love language?
01:08:42.320 Yeah.
01:08:43.080 What are the five?
01:08:44.680 It's physical touch.
01:08:46.080 Words of affirmation.
01:08:47.820 Quality time.
01:08:49.220 Quality time.
01:08:50.760 And then acts of service.
01:08:52.340 Acts of service, yeah.
01:08:52.440 I want to say acts of service, number one.
01:08:59.020 Physical touch.
01:09:03.600 Quality time's pretty, that's down there.
01:09:07.420 Down there?
01:09:08.400 That's all the time, man, because you're spending time.
01:09:11.140 You like to receive gifts?
01:09:12.100 Do you like to give gifts?
01:09:13.040 Gifts, I don't really care.
01:09:14.020 Gifts would be, like, second to.
01:09:14.760 He loves gifts.
01:09:15.380 Look at the donos.
01:09:16.480 Dono more.
01:09:17.140 He loves it.
01:09:17.740 Look at his face light up.
01:09:18.600 Every time someone gives, he's like, hold on.
01:09:20.800 And his attachments to, like, certain physical items.
01:09:23.980 Like, you have some, like, emotional attachments to something.
01:09:27.720 Yeah, like the, very autistic.
01:09:30.280 Like Brian?
01:09:30.780 Yeah.
01:09:31.200 He knows Brian right now.
01:09:32.420 Chat, what do you think?
01:09:34.140 What's the, wait, so, okay.
01:09:35.560 Acts of service, physical touch.
01:09:38.440 Quality time.
01:09:39.320 Quality time.
01:09:39.840 You said that's lower down.
01:09:40.840 Gift giving is also lower down.
01:09:41.540 Gift giving.
01:09:41.940 What's the other one?
01:09:43.380 Acts of service is top.
01:09:45.060 Wait, what's the fifth one?
01:09:48.040 Words of affirmation.
01:09:49.360 Words of affirmation.
01:09:50.060 So, like, you did a great job.
01:09:52.040 Brian, you did so good on that show.
01:09:53.620 I'm proud of you.
01:09:54.140 You crushed it.
01:09:54.860 You crushed it.
01:09:54.880 That was amazing.
01:09:56.160 That was the sickest show.
01:09:57.400 Like, does that make you feel great?
01:09:58.480 You dunked on those OnlyFans girls, babe.
01:10:02.020 Yeah, I mean, they're.
01:10:02.760 He's smiling.
01:10:03.980 It's fair.
01:10:04.300 They're all good.
01:10:05.060 I like them all.
01:10:05.900 I like them all.
01:10:07.160 I don't know.
01:10:07.940 I feel like the whole love language thing, though, is kind of bullshit.
01:10:13.740 A little bit.
01:10:14.620 I honestly agree.
01:10:15.340 It's just like, I don't know.
01:10:16.560 You can't categorize things into, like, true main.
01:10:19.100 They're all good, I guess.
01:10:19.900 Yeah, because doesn't quality time include all of it?
01:10:22.280 Like, is it quality time still if you just, like, don't talk it on?
01:10:25.580 You, like, send me a stack of cash.
01:10:29.140 You don't have to spend time with me, right?
01:10:30.760 That's a gift giving.
01:10:31.840 That's a gift giving.
01:10:32.400 That's a gift giving.
01:10:33.940 Also, with the whole.
01:10:35.240 We do have a lower and light.
01:10:36.400 It's okay.
01:10:37.540 With the whole love language thing, when, like, for example, on a dating app, if you
01:10:41.960 see somebody list their love languages, it's not clear to me if that's what you desire
01:10:47.920 or that's how you show love.
01:10:50.100 They tend to be both.
01:10:50.940 They tend to be one and the same.
01:10:52.160 Is it both?
01:10:52.480 No.
01:10:53.040 I think I like giving gifts.
01:10:54.900 Like, I like to, I don't know, make, like, a personal card for people, but not necessarily
01:10:59.120 receiving that.
01:11:00.620 You don't like to receive the cards?
01:11:01.740 If you got a card, you'd be like, what the fuck is this?
01:11:04.100 Why don't you hang out with me instead?
01:11:07.000 I don't want to get the dumbest card.
01:11:08.560 People tend to show people how they want to be interacted with.
01:11:13.620 And so people, it's not always for everybody.
01:11:16.560 So maybe you're an exception.
01:11:18.160 But most people tend to do what they want to receive.
01:11:22.700 Projecting.
01:11:23.200 They're projecting, basically.
01:11:24.140 So, like, I am pretty good at, like, painting and drawing, and that's, like, what my friends
01:11:30.420 think is cool.
01:11:31.520 So I like to make little crafts and things for my friends.
01:11:34.940 Because, you know, they'll appreciate it specifically.
01:11:37.120 Yeah.
01:11:37.440 Right.
01:11:37.620 But I don't necessarily expect that back at all.
01:11:41.200 Yeah.
01:11:41.840 Like, if my friend is really good at, like, words of affirmation, if you're, like, an essay
01:11:45.240 or a poem person, I think, like, a poem is like, oh, cool.
01:11:48.380 But I can't do that.
01:11:49.300 Really?
01:11:49.820 Someone hands you a poem, and you're going to be like, oh, wow.
01:11:52.600 Really?
01:11:53.120 I feel like I wouldn't be able to.
01:11:54.860 Like, oh, my birthday.
01:11:55.700 It's like, oh, like, happy birthday.
01:11:57.060 I just, you know, you're my best friend.
01:11:59.020 There's, okay, there's some gifts that people really do think they're doing the right thing.
01:12:03.660 And it is the wrong thing.
01:12:05.000 Like, my friend, someone serenaded her one time to prom.
01:12:09.900 And I just remember thinking, if someone serenaded me, I'd just cringe.
01:12:15.360 I'd, like, want to.
01:12:16.640 I would.
01:12:17.340 I'd point and laugh.
01:12:18.620 You can't tell him who he was.
01:12:20.160 What if he was incredible?
01:12:22.760 What if he was the best musician that you've ever heard?
01:12:25.840 What if he was your favorite musician?
01:12:27.280 Right.
01:12:27.860 Like, what if it was at that level?
01:12:29.000 They came to you.
01:12:30.120 And then they started playing the guitar or, like, DJing.
01:12:32.940 Like, so, if Adele serenades me, I think I would become the.
01:12:38.840 Because you're straight.
01:12:39.680 So, the male equivalent of Adele.
01:12:41.540 Who do I like?
01:12:42.980 I don't know.
01:12:43.660 I don't even know who to compare to that.
01:12:45.800 But you would probably be about it.
01:12:46.300 If you like One Direction.
01:12:47.440 Okay.
01:12:47.980 You have to admit you'd be about it.
01:12:49.320 I'd be about it.
01:12:50.080 But.
01:12:50.780 Depends on the skills.
01:12:51.740 Most guys can't.
01:12:52.640 They don't have the skill to back it up.
01:12:54.240 Right?
01:12:54.520 They don't have the skills to back up the grand gesture.
01:12:55.980 Honestly, even if they were good, I don't think I would like it.
01:12:59.900 Still.
01:13:00.160 Because this guy was good.
01:13:01.740 This guy was pretty good.
01:13:03.000 Now they're trans.
01:13:04.100 So, now she's good.
01:13:05.700 Well, I mean, that says a lot.
01:13:07.240 But.
01:13:08.300 Huh?
01:13:08.820 That's a good choice.
01:13:09.740 I'm kind of that way with, like, a striptease.
01:13:13.240 I'm just like.
01:13:14.320 Oh, my God.
01:13:14.900 You get a lot of stripteases gifted to you?
01:13:17.940 No.
01:13:18.580 Oh, yeah.
01:13:19.540 He's like, I've experienced this several times.
01:13:21.280 Wait, is that an act of service?
01:13:22.600 Or is that quality time?
01:13:24.100 What?
01:13:24.600 Where does that fit?
01:13:25.660 Is it like gifts?
01:13:26.940 Gift giving?
01:13:27.640 I'm giving you my underwear.
01:13:29.940 It's just like.
01:13:31.380 Oh, okay.
01:13:32.420 Striptease.
01:13:32.940 What do you guys like it?
01:13:33.560 Cool.
01:13:34.440 Like.
01:13:34.960 Can you just get naked?
01:13:35.600 Oh, it's the opposite.
01:13:36.460 You're just like.
01:13:37.200 Why are they giving me that?
01:13:37.240 Like, bro, you don't need to put on some fucking performance for me.
01:13:40.320 I don't know.
01:13:40.720 That's good.
01:13:41.340 Oh.
01:13:41.700 He just, like, wants to get straight to it.
01:13:43.560 Just get naked.
01:13:44.900 Get it done.
01:13:45.620 Get out.
01:13:46.200 Deliver the wood.
01:13:47.320 Get out.
01:13:47.900 That's why you're anti-OF.
01:13:49.660 I'm just kidding.
01:13:50.920 Get to the fucking point.
01:13:52.780 The white tee.
01:13:53.560 The white tee.
01:13:54.800 Right?
01:13:55.180 Have you guys heard of that?
01:13:56.200 The fuck is.
01:13:57.000 You've never been white teed before?
01:13:58.680 What is white teed?
01:13:59.100 I didn't know what it was until I was on XenoStream.
01:14:02.260 Wait, is this where you just wear a white tee and over on, like.
01:14:05.760 It's a striptease, basically.
01:14:07.420 But, like, guys give it to girls.
01:14:09.160 Like, they take off their white t-shirt.
01:14:10.660 Wait, guys give it to girls?
01:14:12.860 I've only been given white tees.
01:14:16.160 Wait, so you don't like stripteases, to clarify.
01:14:18.620 Wait, Nick, can you.
01:14:19.660 Is she peeking the microphones, Nick?
01:14:21.220 No, I'm just really loud.
01:14:22.600 Nick, I need you to double check.
01:14:24.620 Make sure she's not peeking the microphones.
01:14:26.080 I'm just loud.
01:14:26.720 So, Ryan won't like that gift that we planned to give him.
01:14:29.240 No, Ryan.
01:14:29.660 I guess not.
01:14:29.880 I'm so sad.
01:14:31.100 We all had a surprise for you.
01:14:33.580 Physical touch or quality time.
01:14:35.660 So, fuck it all.
01:14:39.480 All right.
01:14:41.240 Well, I don't know what we're talking about.
01:14:43.980 Love languages.
01:14:44.780 Love languages.
01:14:45.700 To give and to receive.
01:14:46.720 I'm, when it comes to gifts, first off, I feel like I don't receive a lot of gifts.
01:14:51.880 But if I did, I'd be very, I'm a great receiver.
01:14:55.540 Terrible giver, but great receiver.
01:14:57.820 His love language is receiving.
01:14:59.540 That doesn't sound good.
01:15:00.280 I'm a fantastic receiver.
01:15:02.160 Sounds really gay.
01:15:02.660 Great receiver.
01:15:04.620 Terrible giver.
01:15:05.700 So, you're bottom.
01:15:06.700 I'm just kidding.
01:15:07.560 No, not in like a gay sort of way.
01:15:09.260 It's more just like when it comes to gifts and stuff.
01:15:11.460 And oral sex.
01:15:11.740 What do you mean you're a great receiver?
01:15:12.840 Terrible giver, like you show like a lot of appreciation when somebody.
01:15:17.720 No, not even.
01:15:18.520 You just like it a lot.
01:15:19.280 So, then you're not really a great giver.
01:15:21.960 Well, it depends what context we're talking about.
01:15:24.380 But I'm a great receiver.
01:15:26.400 Let's just say.
01:15:27.500 Receiver of what?
01:15:29.160 Receiver of what?
01:15:30.260 Of gifts.
01:15:30.900 Do you write oral sex?
01:15:33.320 Nice thank you notes.
01:15:34.820 Well, we know he doesn't reciprocate the oral sex.
01:15:37.180 Nope.
01:15:37.380 Does he reciprocate?
01:15:37.860 Don't do that to you.
01:15:38.520 Do you don't reciprocate?
01:15:39.500 Do you reciprocate the gifts?
01:15:40.960 What?
01:15:41.700 That's so bad.
01:15:43.120 Oh, my God.
01:15:43.860 What do you mean?
01:15:44.480 Why is it bad?
01:15:45.700 Unless she is the largest labier in the world.
01:15:48.240 Even if she has the largest labier in the world, I still don't do it.
01:15:52.800 No wonder why.
01:15:53.260 What if it's the largest dick in the world?
01:15:54.980 I'm sorry.
01:15:56.500 That's an exception.
01:15:57.280 She's like, oh, yes.
01:15:59.260 I don't know.
01:15:59.660 Not all of us are like Pixie here where we're going both ways.
01:16:04.280 Yes.
01:16:04.640 I'm a giant whore, obviously, who sleeps with.
01:16:08.160 Wait, that's.
01:16:08.700 No, that's not.
01:16:09.540 That's not what I was in fact.
01:16:10.380 She was just saying that you're.
01:16:11.880 So it depends on the emotional connection, right?
01:16:14.080 Yeah, it does.
01:16:14.740 Is what you're saying.
01:16:15.240 Yeah.
01:16:15.420 Oh, I'm so used to people.
01:16:17.080 That's what he meant.
01:16:17.720 He was saying you're pan, like you're going for whatever depending on the immersion
01:16:20.720 that you feel.
01:16:20.880 Oh, so you're like sapiosexual.
01:16:23.160 No, sapiosexual is the mind.
01:16:24.060 That's like intelligence.
01:16:25.600 I don't think that's even real.
01:16:26.100 What's the emotional?
01:16:27.220 That's fake.
01:16:27.540 Yeah, I think that's fake too.
01:16:29.160 But pansexual is the real one.
01:16:30.860 Wait, there's this meme.
01:16:32.180 Pansexual is more like emotional based.
01:16:34.140 I thought pansexual is like, I just don't see body.
01:16:38.120 So I would argue it's.
01:16:40.200 Or gender.
01:16:40.580 It is more like that.
01:16:41.860 So it's hard to explain, but the best way I explain it is the difference between bi and
01:16:45.060 pan is that a bi person is like, I like chocolate and vanilla ice cream.
01:16:49.520 Sometimes I like chocolate more.
01:16:50.780 Sometimes I like vanilla more.
01:16:51.840 Once in a while, I like strawberry, whatever.
01:16:53.160 And then a pan person's like, it's all fucking ice cream to me.
01:16:57.160 You know, like I like ice cream.
01:17:01.880 I'm trying to find the meme about.
01:17:03.820 Oh, wait, I think I have it.
01:17:06.480 Actually, if it's about pansexual people, like in pans, I will.
01:17:10.540 It's about sapiosexual.
01:17:11.460 The pots and pansexual.
01:17:12.480 Okay, I can't find it.
01:17:13.420 It doesn't matter.
01:17:13.740 Sapiosexual is not real.
01:17:14.800 But it's like women will say.
01:17:16.240 Demi Lovato.
01:17:16.700 Are you saying Demi Lovato isn't real?
01:17:18.480 No, she's not.
01:17:19.360 She wasn't when she said she was bi.
01:17:21.220 What did she say?
01:17:22.260 She was non-binary.
01:17:23.560 She wasn't when she did trust in her non-binary.
01:17:26.140 They are non-binary.
01:17:27.040 She still is not now.
01:17:28.440 But women will say they.
01:17:30.660 I'm trying to remember what the meme is.
01:17:32.080 But women will say they are sapiosexual.
01:17:34.980 They're like attracted to really intelligent dudes.
01:17:37.220 But then the dudes they end up dating are the type of dudes that like when they're reading.
01:17:41.640 When they're reading, they have to like they read with their finger.
01:17:45.860 I think some girls are attracted to himbos.
01:17:47.820 How do I pronounce this?
01:17:49.280 I think some women love himbos.
01:17:51.740 It's like to have a guy who just like builds furniture all day.
01:17:55.720 Like that's cool.
01:17:56.380 You know, somebody who reads like this, you know, like.
01:18:00.780 I think.
01:18:01.680 Babe, you read it.
01:18:03.440 Babe, read this for me.
01:18:04.640 I think a lot of.
01:18:06.200 I think there are a lot of women who are attracted to like Chris Pratt types.
01:18:09.700 Like in.
01:18:10.260 What is it?
01:18:11.460 Parks and Rec.
01:18:12.200 He's smart though.
01:18:12.920 No, but like in Parks and Rec.
01:18:14.080 His character, Andy.
01:18:15.360 Like I think.
01:18:16.140 I think a lot of women prefer funny than smart.
01:18:18.960 Like if you can make somebody laugh all day long.
01:18:21.360 I think they're like.
01:18:21.960 Honestly, if someone's witty.
01:18:23.580 Witty is the difference.
01:18:24.460 That's true.
01:18:24.620 Because if somebody's witty, then they're clearly intelligent as well.
01:18:27.740 Because they're able to contextualize situations and make light out of it.
01:18:30.700 And that takes some degree of intelligence to be able to do that.
01:18:34.440 So I would say it's more so witty men.
01:18:36.040 They're like.
01:18:36.280 They're hot to anyone.
01:18:37.420 They're so witty.
01:18:38.500 Universally hot.
01:18:39.060 We all love a witty man.
01:18:41.200 Yeah.
01:18:42.660 What's his name in the show?
01:18:44.320 I think Andy.
01:18:45.340 Andy.
01:18:45.660 I think it's also in addition to just being funny.
01:18:47.820 I think it's also having a positive affectation.
01:18:50.820 I think that's good too.
01:18:53.600 That's super hot.
01:18:54.040 Like the guys that are like golden retrievers.
01:18:56.400 Like personality wise.
01:18:58.060 I love them.
01:18:59.200 They're my favorite.
01:19:00.420 Yeah.
01:19:01.000 It's hard to be.
01:19:01.540 Give an example.
01:19:02.240 What do you mean?
01:19:02.860 What's a golden retriever man?
01:19:04.680 Just like you can't bring them down.
01:19:07.340 There's this guy that I went to law school with who was like that.
01:19:10.640 And we took the bar together.
01:19:13.100 And like he was just happy.
01:19:15.020 Everyone was like about to take this exam.
01:19:16.720 He was just like happy and smiling.
01:19:18.520 Sounds like my ex-boyfriend was.
01:19:22.240 And then I was like how did you do on the exam?
01:19:25.160 Like I passed.
01:19:25.900 He's like oh I failed but it's all good.
01:19:27.800 Like I went to the bar.
01:19:29.540 I went to this awesome festival.
01:19:31.080 I met some people while I was there.
01:19:32.840 I met some people.
01:19:33.760 It's all good.
01:19:34.700 My ex is still literally like rage.
01:19:37.600 Hold on.
01:19:37.900 Valdev donated $99.
01:19:39.620 Yo good to see you in the chat man.
01:19:41.060 Welcome welcome.
01:19:41.620 DGG philosophy is the place to be open your minds and get free.
01:19:45.060 If you want a good night go watch Not So Erudite.
01:19:47.660 And if you want to fight the good fight go watch my man Stevie Knight.
01:19:51.260 Those are some recommendations.
01:19:53.020 But it's whatever and your endeavor.
01:19:55.400 Yo thank you Val.
01:19:56.220 D.A.V.
01:19:56.880 For the TTS.
01:19:58.220 Shout out DGG.
01:19:58.820 We are going to have Stevie Knight on the show eventually.
01:20:03.540 I'm talking to him.
01:20:04.540 He'll be on the show.
01:20:05.100 And we're going to try to get a couple other good people.
01:20:07.160 We got some I think some good guests coming up soon.
01:20:10.620 Assuming you know no can't we get you know people cancel things come up.
01:20:14.060 But thank you very much for your TTS.
01:20:16.640 Where were we?
01:20:17.480 We were talking about.
01:20:19.020 Golden retriever types.
01:20:20.440 I forget my point.
01:20:21.880 On my ex he literally used to like rate Uber drivers and tip according to how much they
01:20:25.640 talked to him in the Uber.
01:20:27.080 Like how good.
01:20:27.580 Oh that's my worst nightmare.
01:20:28.820 I will do it.
01:20:29.300 I get real done.
01:20:30.320 I wear a driver.
01:20:31.220 I'm literally such a golden retriever type personality.
01:20:34.500 It was my ex-boyfriend.
01:20:35.700 Yo.
01:20:35.900 All right.
01:20:36.220 I got a chat here.
01:20:37.080 We have you're not a 10.
01:20:39.540 Q4ner.
01:20:40.380 What are you looking for in a relationship?
01:20:41.740 What do you think is enough minimum annual income for you to have a family with?
01:20:46.400 What buffers do you think are best to keep a relationship together in today's society
01:20:50.280 to combat hypergamy?
01:20:52.500 I think traditionalism.
01:20:53.080 That's a lot.
01:20:53.660 Before you answer that's a lot of questions there.
01:20:55.480 Um, we typically like to limit it to just one question per chat.
01:20:59.240 Um, so I can keep it under 10.
01:21:02.800 Try, try to keep it brief if you can, if you want to try to hit, hit everything.
01:21:06.200 Yeah.
01:21:06.940 So what I'm really looking for in a relationship is a leader and somebody who is a superior
01:21:12.020 to me in a lot of ways because I've been the opposite where I am leading either like
01:21:16.600 physically, like, uh, financially or intellectually in the relationships that I've been in.
01:21:20.780 How do you lead physically?
01:21:22.340 Um, by actually.
01:21:23.780 You're talking about like initiating sex?
01:21:25.260 Uh, yeah.
01:21:26.140 That, that's one, one of the things for sure.
01:21:28.200 And I've definitely been in that situation.
01:21:29.940 However, I would say that for me, it's like, when you have those traits, when you are someone
01:21:35.220 who can lead in those respects, then naturally that's going to obviously show in your income
01:21:40.140 and in your career.
01:21:41.380 So it's not necessarily the income that I'm going for, but those proclivities and the,
01:21:46.120 uh, the ability to be able to display those characteristics, those leadership characteristics,
01:21:51.620 to be able to be somebody who can support a family.
01:21:55.160 Naturally, you're going to want someone who's a multiple six figure earner.
01:21:57.960 So I would say that that, cause I make that and I want someone who makes more than me.
01:22:01.660 Right.
01:22:02.540 Um, so that is.
01:22:03.700 Did you say naturally, naturally?
01:22:06.080 Naturally.
01:22:06.640 Yeah.
01:22:06.840 Because naturally somebody who is a leader, someone who is a leader, somebody who is able
01:22:11.580 to exemplify those characteristics will naturally find a way to transpire that to their career
01:22:16.980 because they're going to have some type of skillset that they can monetize.
01:22:20.040 Otherwise, what skillset do they really have?
01:22:23.140 I mean, sure.
01:22:23.740 There are some skillsets that you cannot monetize, but generally speaking, I know,
01:22:27.960 I mean, I think if you're looking for somebody who has those character, character, like traits
01:22:33.240 that we're talking about here, they're going to be able to make money off of it.
01:22:36.140 Right?
01:22:37.820 Yes.
01:22:39.100 And a leader is never broke.
01:22:40.740 A good leader.
01:22:41.600 Do you guys, uh, you're currently seeing somebody, you're currently dating seven people.
01:22:48.000 Uh, you're properly single.
01:22:50.220 I'm a hermit.
01:22:50.800 Um, but you guys, I mean, I, I know that a lot of girls who do, uh, only fans are typically,
01:22:56.620 well, not typically, but, uh, it sounds to me like you guys are high earners yourselves.
01:23:01.920 Uh, do you make more than your boyfriend?
01:23:06.020 We're like about even.
01:23:08.220 Okay.
01:23:08.980 I guess right now I'd make a little more.
01:23:10.600 Isn't he on strike right now?
01:23:12.020 He's like, yeah, like right now, like I make a little more, but that doesn't matter.
01:23:15.560 Okay.
01:23:16.240 Do you guys want somebody that makes more than you or how about as much or more than you?
01:23:22.980 It would be nice.
01:23:24.360 I feel like lately I've been, I've always felt like I wanted someone to make more than
01:23:29.120 me, but I've gotten into relationships where it was a bit of like a, um, weird power dynamic.
01:23:37.540 And the men that tended to make more than me, they were just a bit more like, I'm sure
01:23:44.220 it's just the ones that I came in contact with, but just a bit more like arrogant and
01:23:48.820 controlling.
01:23:49.620 But then there's the men that make less and they're insecure and it's just like, I don't
01:23:54.300 know.
01:23:55.720 Oh yeah.
01:23:57.480 Um, I don't know.
01:24:00.260 I feel like I honestly, I just want somebody that's like good to me.
01:24:03.680 It doesn't really matter like what they make.
01:24:05.600 I mean, as long as I'm not taking care of them, but yeah, my, my last ex, or I guess
01:24:11.880 like during the pandemic, he, we, so we met when we were both working in tech, we were
01:24:16.860 both programmers, but during the pandemic, we both quit.
01:24:19.620 Because the company was only fun when there was like a whole campus.
01:24:25.720 Like, it's like, there's a meditation room, there's infinite alcohol, there's all these
01:24:28.400 outings.
01:24:28.800 So when the pandemic hit, coding was a miserable job.
01:24:31.000 So we both quit and he never got another job.
01:24:33.880 So the whole time I had to pay for everything, like housing costs, food, and all of that.
01:24:40.340 And I did not have a good time.
01:24:42.840 This was during the pandemic.
01:24:44.440 Yeah.
01:24:44.620 How long was the relationship?
01:24:46.720 Um, so I would say like around two, we never made it official.
01:24:50.720 We just kind of like started hanging out more.
01:24:52.960 Yeah.
01:24:53.120 So like around two years.
01:24:54.660 Sorry.
01:24:54.960 You never made it official and you were paying all of his expenses.
01:24:58.340 Yeah.
01:24:58.480 So we started hanging out more and more cause we were like carpool and like, so when we
01:25:03.080 were coworkers, we just kind of got closer and closer and it was never official.
01:25:07.220 Like, will you be my girlfriend?
01:25:08.200 It was just like, we just.
01:25:11.160 Surely there was some mutual understanding that you guys were exclusive, right?
01:25:15.120 Yeah.
01:25:15.760 Yeah.
01:25:16.040 Cause I wasn't really like seeing anyone.
01:25:16.980 You just never said it out loud, but that doesn't necessarily indicate that you guys
01:25:21.160 weren't in a relationship.
01:25:22.420 Yeah.
01:25:22.600 It was like situation shit, but I was taking care of him cause he was like, oh, we have
01:25:26.280 nowhere else to go.
01:25:27.200 Well, I feel like as a woman, if, especially if you're taking care of a man's stuff, you
01:25:30.680 assume he's exclusive to you.
01:25:32.540 Like in any of you ladies, imagine being in a situation like that and you find out he's
01:25:35.900 fucking around on the side, like, oh, hell no.
01:25:39.800 Yeah.
01:25:40.220 So it was like an exclusive arrangement kind of.
01:25:44.220 And I, but I have a, so, so what you're saying, Amy, is that if women really want to
01:25:50.380 get commitment from men, they got to start, start being the breadwinners.
01:25:55.120 Is that what you're saying?
01:25:55.680 No, that's like literally not what I'm saying at all.
01:25:57.860 I was just trying to point.
01:25:59.060 That's a good question.
01:26:00.440 That's a good question.
01:26:01.580 I actually think it's the exact opposite because I think that when you go for that dynamic,
01:26:05.860 it automatically, you are conflicting with so many, um, factors in evolutionary psychology
01:26:11.400 and just the way people are in general, there's already going to be so much friction in the
01:26:15.860 relationship.
01:26:16.340 So actually I think quite the opposite.
01:26:18.380 I was just trying to prod a little bit deeper to really get your perspective on it.
01:26:22.680 Cause I'm not sure I quite fully understand what the dynamic was.
01:26:25.980 Let me just jump in really quick.
01:26:27.340 I, perhaps I should reframe it a little bit.
01:26:29.740 So do you think that's a fair trade-off in order to, because a lot of women complain that
01:26:34.220 men aren't prepared to commit to them.
01:26:35.980 Do you think that'd be a fair trade-off for women?
01:26:38.460 They have to, the women have to be the providers.
01:26:40.440 They have to be the breadwinners.
01:26:41.520 They have to take care of expenses in exchange.
01:26:45.300 They get commitment.
01:26:46.500 That just sounds like a bedrock.
01:26:47.940 It's an inverse of values, right?
01:26:49.680 Because naturally the man is the provider.
01:26:52.040 He is the protector, right?
01:26:53.540 And then by default, you have a woman who submits to him.
01:26:56.460 So what I'm saying is if the standard was reversed, which I do not necessarily think that
01:27:01.020 it should be, I disagree.
01:27:02.680 I don't think that it should be, but if it were to be reversed, then wouldn't the man
01:27:08.400 have to naturally submit?
01:27:09.540 Otherwise, what's the point of the inversion of it?
01:27:11.620 Yeah.
01:27:11.800 I think men don't naturally submit.
01:27:13.380 And that's the issue.
01:27:14.020 Like if he were to cook clean and like me buy him a gym membership, workout, whatever,
01:27:18.760 I'd be totally fine with it.
01:27:20.160 But he didn't cook.
01:27:21.300 He didn't clean.
01:27:22.100 He didn't really do much.
01:27:23.180 And he was like kind of resentful towards like all the social media stuff I was doing,
01:27:27.440 even though I was also going to grad school.
01:27:28.840 And it was just like very chaotic because he was insecure.
01:27:33.580 I think he naturally wanted to be a leader, but he couldn't at the time because of the
01:27:38.780 pandemic.
01:27:39.400 But even if a woman is the breadwinner, it's not clear to me if women want men to be submissive,
01:27:45.440 even if you out earn the man.
01:27:47.120 Well, I think a woman who's willing to be it.
01:27:49.340 Sorry, Pixie, one second.
01:27:50.260 I feel like a woman who's willing to be in that type of a relationship.
01:27:54.240 Hold on.
01:27:54.640 Just a second.
01:27:55.400 She donated $100.
01:27:56.880 Ladies, is Flowers on the first date a red flag?
01:28:01.140 And Brian, when is Real Natch coming on?
01:28:06.000 We'll see.
01:28:06.860 We'll see.
01:28:07.360 We got a lot of people that want to be on the show.
01:28:10.240 But Ryan OG, thank you very much for the TTS.
01:28:13.520 Flowers on the first date.
01:28:14.660 So we'll come back to this really quick.
01:28:16.780 First date, Flowers, is it a red flag?
01:28:19.700 No.
01:28:20.180 No, it's cute.
01:28:21.540 No, it's cute.
01:28:23.120 Okay, it's not a red flag, but I don't recommend you do it.
01:28:26.200 What?
01:28:26.460 Why?
01:28:27.140 You're already paying for dinner.
01:28:28.460 Might as well.
01:28:28.960 Pixie, you go to your point.
01:28:30.020 I ain't paying for dinner.
01:28:31.220 Who is?
01:28:31.960 I don't pay for dinner.
01:28:33.280 She can pay for herself.
01:28:34.680 Wait, if you ask her out.
01:28:35.820 I mean, if you can't afford flowers, you can pick some flowers, and that's still cute.
01:28:38.620 It's acts of service.
01:28:39.800 It's a show of gratitude, right?
01:28:41.760 I don't know.
01:28:42.220 Give her some flowers.
01:28:43.120 Wait, when's the last time you took someone on a dinner date?
01:28:45.780 Me?
01:28:46.480 Brian.
01:28:46.980 No, Brian.
01:28:47.500 Dinner date?
01:28:48.140 I don't think dinner dates are, for a first date, I don't think dinner dates are a good
01:28:53.780 move.
01:28:54.120 I think you could meet somewhere for a coffee or a tea or go for a walk, even.
01:29:00.580 Because for dinner, you gotta sit down.
01:29:02.340 When was the last time you had a date?
01:29:05.000 Oh, it's been a minute.
01:29:06.120 I've been way too fucking busy.
01:29:07.660 I'm not trying to...
01:29:08.760 It's not worth my time right now.
01:29:10.880 Especially in this day and age.
01:29:12.640 No, it's not about that.
01:29:13.440 I'm just way too focused.
01:29:14.620 I have a big thing going on here, and I'm not trying to be distracted right now by doing
01:29:20.120 that.
01:29:21.420 I do want to continue on with the point, though.
01:29:24.860 Why do half your guests not understand the difference between women and woman talking
01:29:29.020 about the girl in the light blue?
01:29:30.740 Is this an education thing, Carly thing?
01:29:34.380 My toddler nephew has better grammar.
01:29:37.500 Do you have a response, Pitt?
01:29:38.540 Is it...
01:29:39.020 Why are they...
01:29:39.860 Oh, they're talking about my pronunciation?
01:29:42.340 Women versus woman, which is something people say a lot in this space.
01:29:46.000 They say woman, where they should technically say women.
01:29:48.880 I've noticed this, too.
01:29:49.820 Women.
01:29:50.120 All I'm going to say is that I literally speak two languages, so he can suck a dick.
01:29:55.300 Like, it's just like...
01:29:56.460 He can suck a dick.
01:29:57.640 Yes.
01:29:58.540 You speak Spanish, or...
01:29:59.640 Yeah, I speak Spanish.
01:30:00.580 Can we hear a little...
01:30:02.300 Tell them to suck a dick in Spanish.
01:30:07.540 Chupa una pena.
01:30:10.500 Well, you speak two languages.
01:30:12.020 Let's hear it.
01:30:12.720 Yes, I speak Spanish, but I have a sense of gringa, and that's because I speak English, but we can speak in Spanish now, if you want.
01:30:19.680 That's hot.
01:30:20.680 That's hot.
01:30:21.400 Oh.
01:30:21.520 Yeah.
01:30:23.100 Caliente.
01:30:24.780 He might slide into the DMs after that.
01:30:27.340 Okay.
01:30:27.940 Yeah, guys, it's ESL.
01:30:30.340 Are you English as a second language?
01:30:31.720 I'm ESL, too.
01:30:33.140 My first language is French.
01:30:34.940 Do you still speak French?
01:30:36.060 A little bit.
01:30:36.760 Unfortunately, I started speaking English when I was very young, so I started losing it a little bit.
01:30:40.600 I understand it fairly well, though.
01:30:42.680 Yeah.
01:30:42.860 Speaking is a little harder.
01:30:44.100 Yeah.
01:30:44.360 I technically learned Spanish first, and I learned most of my English through reading, so I mispronounce a lot of words the longer that you know me, because I pronounce them as you would read them in Spanish.
01:30:55.180 Oh.
01:30:55.720 Yeah.
01:30:56.200 Okay.
01:30:56.740 All right.
01:30:57.560 Well, Sam.
01:30:59.820 Yeah, I hear maybe it could also be, like, they think they heard someone say woman instead of woman.
01:31:06.520 I haven't noticed or heard anything, but...
01:31:09.000 Yeah, but Sam, thank you very much.
01:31:10.720 I noticed it every time.
01:31:10.740 Anytime I'm on a Red Pill podcast, I noticed it.
01:31:13.320 Literally, anytime I'm on a Red Pill podcast, I noticed people say woman, where they should be saying women, but also I'm a grammar nerd.
01:31:20.040 I guess it's just a...
01:31:21.260 Oh, women.
01:31:21.940 Instead of saying women, they say the word woman, where they should be saying women.
01:31:25.720 Plural versus singular.
01:31:27.640 Exactly.
01:31:28.300 But it's okay.
01:31:28.980 I mean, I figured it's an American thing, because I've only noticed it since I moved here.
01:31:33.660 Well, I mean, if they can't recognize Supreme Court justices, they're not going to recognize grammar.
01:31:39.160 Yeah, no, our educational system is trash.
01:31:42.000 Like, I'm from the Central Valley.
01:31:43.560 I'm from Bakersfield, after I moved from China.
01:31:46.260 Oh, I'm sorry.
01:31:46.800 And she's from Fresno.
01:31:48.100 Yikes.
01:31:49.140 Yikes on Bakersfield.
01:31:50.640 Okay, so, ladies, it's flowers on the first date, a red flag, and then we were talking about paying for the first date, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
01:31:57.160 Y'all were shocked when I said, you know what I'm saying?
01:32:00.460 Because women aren't going to, like...
01:32:02.500 Or as men should not pay for the first date.
01:32:04.160 Yeah, you have to get ready for, like, an hour or something just to meet someone that you're unsure about.
01:32:10.180 You're, like, having a lot of risk just to, like, grab a coffee.
01:32:13.700 I think that's, like...
01:32:15.000 Well, you're assuming, like, I'm at least assuming that you're meeting this person beforehand in person.
01:32:20.740 And then you're, like, okay, I want to date this person, so then you're going out for a date.
01:32:24.880 How much risk is there?
01:32:25.840 You want to, like, look nice, and...
01:32:27.340 I think it depends on the dating app.
01:32:28.380 Well, I mean, a lot of people meet online, social media, dating apps.
01:32:31.420 Right, but women put in that much effort to look good pretty much every day when they go out of their house to meet strangers.
01:32:36.900 It's, I mean, maybe they go the little extra mile for a date, but the majority of women are already caking their face before they step out of their household.
01:32:44.060 Shit's true.
01:32:44.780 On the balance of probability.
01:32:45.580 That shit's true.
01:32:46.500 And you don't know what kind of shit we do before.
01:32:49.320 We got to get ready, too.
01:32:50.280 Tell us how long it takes for you to get ready.
01:32:53.880 I see you have gel in your hair.
01:32:55.280 It took him an hour to get ready.
01:32:57.160 Wait, no.
01:32:57.580 This is...
01:32:58.220 I put a little maple syrup in my hair.
01:33:00.040 I don't use gel.
01:33:00.620 Oh, okay.
01:33:01.140 I just put a little maple syrup at breakfast.
01:33:03.400 I just want...
01:33:04.140 You all know what men are doing before a date.
01:33:06.560 Yeah.
01:33:07.320 Yeah, we do a lot, okay?
01:33:09.280 I got to...
01:33:09.540 I bet you do.
01:33:10.600 Yeah, we do.
01:33:12.140 Yeah, you know?
01:33:13.800 What's that movie, When Harry Met Sally?
01:33:16.040 Yes.
01:33:16.300 You got to bust a nut before a date.
01:33:18.380 You know, that's...
01:33:18.860 Yeah.
01:33:18.960 That's where we were all going.
01:33:21.240 Is that where the...
01:33:21.960 When the...
01:33:22.500 When Cameron Diaz was like, Ben's do love with her hair.
01:33:25.180 With her hair.
01:33:27.000 Yep.
01:33:28.540 Well, okay.
01:33:29.220 Let me also just add to the...
01:33:31.200 Gentlemen, you should probably not listen to me on this one.
01:33:34.740 You probably should pay for the first date because you're going to lose women if you don't.
01:33:39.200 But, yeah, if you want to min-max your dating success or dating results, you should pay for the first date.
01:33:48.120 You're more likely to get laid.
01:33:50.380 You're more likely to have the woman just keep talking to you, period.
01:33:53.800 It feels a little transactional, though, don't you?
01:33:55.820 Are you guys saying that women are basically prostitutes?
01:34:01.120 Is that what you're saying?
01:34:02.380 No.
01:34:02.600 Oh, he has to pay for my date.
01:34:04.260 No, not have to.
01:34:04.660 Otherwise, he ain't getting no pussy.
01:34:06.120 What's up?
01:34:06.780 I usually split.
01:34:08.240 Usually, I actually, like...
01:34:09.620 Yeah, I do.
01:34:10.240 I'm a feminist.
01:34:10.720 I don't agree to talk about this.
01:34:11.960 I've seen YouTube videos of women talking about this, and they literally say,
01:34:15.260 well, I mean, it's not because of feminism, but, I mean, if you don't want to split it,
01:34:19.100 if you want to split it, my pussy's going to dry up.
01:34:21.080 And that's your repercussion at the end of the day.
01:34:23.820 I think the problem is...
01:34:24.800 I don't agree with that.
01:34:25.940 I'm just saying that that is what people said.
01:34:28.320 I think what happens is that men are also, like, competing against other men
01:34:32.140 and also versus a woman being with herself.
01:34:34.860 But, basically, if a guy doesn't do that, the problem is, like,
01:34:37.360 there's going to be, like, 10 other guys who are willing to do that, right?
01:34:39.920 So, if a woman is, like, yeah, pay for the first date.
01:34:43.380 Enjoy your simps.
01:34:45.620 But, also, it's, like, if they pay for the first date, I'm more likely to be, like,
01:34:48.600 oh, yeah, drinks on me.
01:34:49.800 Like, if they don't pay for it, it's, like, okay, I owe you nothing.
01:34:52.320 Or, like, if I insist to split the bill.
01:34:54.260 If a girl, like, really, really insists and, like, is, like, fighting on it,
01:34:58.280 like, it probably means that she never wants to see you again.
01:35:01.340 Wait, wait, is splitting the bill, like, an American thing?
01:35:04.400 It is an American thing.
01:35:05.660 It's a Californian liberal thing.
01:35:07.100 Do you not know where you're from?
01:35:09.120 No, we don't.
01:35:10.100 The man pay.
01:35:11.120 Wait, how long have you been in the U.S.?
01:35:13.300 Nine years now.
01:35:14.760 Oh, I mean, so, and you're...
01:35:16.660 You have not experienced this on the dates that you've been on?
01:35:19.140 Where you're, like, oh, this is a bit different to back home.
01:35:21.280 Yeah, yeah, I've experienced it, but then I was, like...
01:35:23.160 Wait, but you're 24.
01:35:24.020 You've been here for nine years.
01:35:25.760 I came here when I was 15.
01:35:27.880 I mean, were you really dating all that much prior to 15 back in Beijing?
01:35:31.540 I think it's more so, like, family values, like, what you see growing up with family and stuff like that.
01:35:37.040 Like, I've seen people split bills here, but then...
01:35:40.300 Wait, you're...
01:35:40.660 No, no, no, sorry.
01:35:41.360 Continue.
01:35:41.740 Didn't mean to interrupt.
01:35:42.700 Continue.
01:35:43.280 But, yeah, like, usually if they're, like, let's 50-50, I would just pay for it because I...
01:35:47.440 I don't know why.
01:35:48.720 I feel like it's just, like...
01:35:51.000 Maybe it's a culture thing, like...
01:35:52.920 You said...
01:35:53.300 But you said values?
01:35:55.120 Did you say family values?
01:35:56.620 Yeah, a little bit of that.
01:35:57.880 I think growing up, I've seen men provide and pay most of the time, and then, so, like, after I came here, I was, like, ooh, so, like...
01:36:05.520 Hold on, hold on.
01:36:06.840 Let me just try to continue on this chain really quick.
01:36:10.080 So, your parents are still together or divorced?
01:36:13.600 Divorced.
01:36:14.000 Okay, but growing up, you had strong traditional values, correct?
01:36:20.280 Okay, well, I mean, you do OnlyFans, correct?
01:36:26.260 Like, you do nude content.
01:36:28.220 Yes.
01:36:28.440 It's not...
01:36:28.960 I don't have an issue with it, but it's not really...
01:36:31.680 It doesn't strike me as traditional, you know?
01:36:33.460 It's not, which is why I've had, like, issues with family, yes.
01:36:38.660 Do your...
01:36:40.980 Does your dad and mom, do they know that you do content?
01:36:44.000 I haven't talked to my dad in forever.
01:36:46.680 I think my mom does.
01:36:48.760 You think she knows?
01:36:50.400 I think so, yes.
01:36:51.620 Okay.
01:36:52.360 You...
01:36:52.640 What do you mean, you think she knows?
01:36:54.060 We're not...
01:36:54.560 We haven't been on speaking terms for a long time.
01:36:56.720 We recently reconnected, and I kind of told her what I was doing, but I don't think she
01:37:00.880 understands, like, the social media stuff quite a bit.
01:37:04.560 But I...
01:37:05.100 How would you say it in Mandarin?
01:37:07.140 Do you speak Mandarin or Cantonese?
01:37:08.660 Mandarin.
01:37:08.960 Okay.
01:37:09.580 How would you say in Mandarin, dear mom, I post my titties on OnlyFans.
01:37:15.260 Wait, what if she watches this?
01:37:16.980 Yo, what's up, mom?
01:37:18.300 Wait, what's your mom's name?
01:37:19.540 Is she single?
01:37:20.560 Is she still single?
01:37:21.420 Because, like, I'm...
01:37:22.100 She is single, though.
01:37:22.860 I thought you weren't looking for the name.
01:37:24.040 Can you link...
01:37:24.340 Can you link me and your mom up?
01:37:26.780 Is she single?
01:37:27.340 Like...
01:37:27.700 Is she in the U.S.?
01:37:28.840 Yeah, she's in the U.S. now.
01:37:30.240 Yeah, she's in the U.S. now.
01:37:30.260 She wants a nice dinner date for her mom.
01:37:32.780 She's a traditional woman.
01:37:33.500 Did you know in China, for a man to marry a woman, they have to provide a house and own
01:37:38.400 a...
01:37:38.620 Like, they have to own a house and a car at minimum, and they have to pay for all the food.
01:37:43.620 Sounds like a lot of work.
01:37:44.060 And also, they pay for the wedding.
01:37:45.780 I learned that in America that the bride's family pays for the wedding, which is, like, mind-blowing.
01:37:50.560 That's why you just don't get married.
01:37:53.660 Just saying.
01:37:54.300 Just throwing it out there.
01:37:55.200 Wait, so is your mom single?
01:37:56.060 Can you hook it up?
01:37:57.360 Maybe.
01:37:57.900 Is she in California?
01:37:59.200 She's not.
01:38:00.240 I thought high-value...
01:38:00.860 I'll fire her out.
01:38:01.280 What's up?
01:38:01.720 I thought high-value men were supposed to look for a young woman.
01:38:04.460 Is she a babe?
01:38:05.100 You know?
01:38:05.800 Is your mom a babe?
01:38:06.860 She's cute.
01:38:07.400 She got a boyfriend, or what was the situation?
01:38:09.180 Oh, my God.
01:38:09.580 Am I really hitting on your mom?
01:38:13.380 What do you guys think?
01:38:14.240 Do you guys shit me and her mom?
01:38:15.940 Yes.
01:38:17.160 Is she looking, you think?
01:38:19.100 She's cute.
01:38:19.800 You don't even know what she looks like.
01:38:20.840 No, is she looking for a boyfriend?
01:38:22.820 But maybe you should give her some time, because my stepdad passed away, like, fairly recently.
01:38:27.560 Aw, Brian, something so rude.
01:38:28.980 Just a little bit of time.
01:38:29.800 I'm trying to dig into a widow's panties, like, so quickly.
01:38:33.320 That's the perfect time.
01:38:34.600 No, I'm kidding.
01:38:36.320 The emotional support.
01:38:38.200 One time...
01:38:38.920 Wedding crashers, the funeral crashers.
01:38:40.760 I was thinking of it.
01:38:42.340 Yeah, it was, uh...
01:38:44.320 They be mad horny.
01:38:45.880 You're right.
01:38:46.920 Yes.
01:38:47.280 The grief.
01:38:48.280 But sorry to hear about your, uh, stepfather.
01:38:54.240 It's okay.
01:38:55.220 Unless he sucked ass.
01:38:55.860 Am I being inappropriate right now?
01:38:56.960 Okay, fuck.
01:38:57.740 I'm always saying stupid shit.
01:38:59.240 Um, uh, okay.
01:39:01.800 So, I don't know how to make it un-awkward after hitting your, hitting on your mom.
01:39:07.540 Um.
01:39:08.780 Yeah, do you have any...
01:39:10.140 So, wait, where is your mom right now?
01:39:12.060 Oh, she's in Florida.
01:39:12.880 Oh, she's in Florida.
01:39:14.840 Okay, did she move here when you were 15 as well?
01:39:17.040 No, I actually came first.
01:39:19.120 Um, I moved here by myself.
01:39:20.540 And then she came when I was like, maybe like four years after.
01:39:24.260 Three years after.
01:39:24.680 Where was she at the time?
01:39:26.860 Um, first off, Hawaii, and then to Florida.
01:39:30.520 Hawaii's America still.
01:39:32.140 That's America.
01:39:32.880 Where was, sorry, where were you born?
01:39:34.700 Where are you from originally?
01:39:35.940 Oh, born and raised in Beijing.
01:39:37.300 Beijing.
01:39:37.960 Okay.
01:39:38.620 Rebound?
01:39:39.300 Is your dad still in Beijing?
01:39:41.220 It's a rebound, right?
01:39:42.020 I have no clue.
01:39:43.580 You don't know at all.
01:39:44.260 She needs a rebound.
01:39:45.240 She needs a rebound.
01:39:46.120 Tell her I'm available.
01:39:46.980 Okay.
01:39:47.500 Okay, I will.
01:39:48.320 All right.
01:39:48.700 Wait, what, what, we're, okay, we're talking about paying for first dates.
01:39:52.300 Yeah.
01:39:53.560 Did you guys have any thoughts on that?
01:39:55.820 I feel like Lauren has some thoughts on that.
01:39:58.380 Honestly, the first date, it's ultimately going to be his idea.
01:40:02.000 So I think that he should pay because I didn't ask.
01:40:07.020 If I really, the person out should pay.
01:40:09.400 If I ask someone out, I'm like, let's go to Disneyland.
01:40:12.920 Yeah.
01:40:13.440 Let's go.
01:40:14.140 Like, I'm not going to be like, yeah, if it's like a first date and you're like, whoa.
01:40:18.140 First date to Disneyland?
01:40:19.220 Yeah.
01:40:19.480 Then I should pay, right?
01:40:20.840 Because it's like.
01:40:21.420 That's a lot.
01:40:22.660 Yeah.
01:40:22.820 No, that's too much.
01:40:23.700 So you should pay.
01:40:24.920 Unless you're drunk.
01:40:25.820 Like if you're the one asking, like if some guy asked me to go to Disneyland on the first date,
01:40:29.140 they should pay.
01:40:29.160 Have you ever done that for a first date?
01:40:30.800 No, I haven't, but.
01:40:32.120 Not yet.
01:40:32.500 I have had people ask me to do it.
01:40:34.880 I feel like over elaborate first dates are very ill advised because let's say it's weird.
01:40:42.140 Like you want to, you want to be in a kind of casual situation where it's, you're just
01:40:47.080 not into them.
01:40:47.740 Or if it's weird, you can be like, oh, hey, nice to meet you.
01:40:51.600 And you can dip like, but for dinner, that's why I'm kind of hesitant with dinner because
01:40:55.680 it's like, oh, we got to wait another 20 minutes for the food, but I don't like you.
01:40:59.900 And, you know, it's like Disneyland.
01:41:03.080 You can't spend an hour with someone you don't like in the pursuit of eventually finding
01:41:06.900 your wife.
01:41:08.220 Well, if you don't want to get married, but.
01:41:10.920 What if you don't hit it off at first?
01:41:12.660 Teleplay is donated $99.
01:41:14.460 The right answer to who paid for the first date is easy.
01:41:18.400 No one.
01:41:18.900 Good call.
01:41:19.300 Make that shit free.
01:41:20.600 Hell yeah, comrade.
01:41:21.400 Do something free.
01:41:21.960 Um, well, okay.
01:41:23.780 So if, if you're just not attracted to them, but they're otherwise pleasant, I say just
01:41:30.200 continue on with the date, you know, uh, you know, eat the meal, have a nice conversation.
01:41:36.600 But if there's like something like you're, you feel your safety is kind of, or like they're
01:41:44.260 being weird in some kind of way, then yeah, absolutely.
01:41:48.860 You can't finish a dinner.
01:41:50.400 Like with a weirdo.
01:41:51.640 So like we're having dinner, we're on a date and then you're like, oh wow, she's really
01:41:55.120 fucking weird.
01:41:56.080 Like, yikes.
01:41:57.960 You're going to be like, ah, sorry, can't finish this.
01:42:00.840 I'm going to tap out.
01:42:02.460 Or like if you're on a nature walk, even.
01:42:04.920 Wouldn't do that.
01:42:05.740 I'm not going, I'm not going into nature.
01:42:07.300 Well, you said that you want a free, you're saying that you want a free date.
01:42:09.940 So what's a free date?
01:42:11.140 No, walk around the park, go to a Starbucks, grab a tea, that shit.
01:42:15.180 That's not free.
01:42:15.980 Go to the gym.
01:42:16.760 What?
01:42:18.060 What?
01:42:18.640 Yeah.
01:42:19.160 Or you can just go walk at the beach.
01:42:21.180 Hike?
01:42:21.900 No, because then you're getting into the crevices of the mountain, but like beach, there's people
01:42:26.180 around and shit.
01:42:26.820 So beach is okay.
01:42:27.880 Definitely agree with doing a free thing.
01:42:29.260 But whether you're a man or a woman and you feel uncomfortable on a date, then yeah, you reserve
01:42:36.020 the right at any moment to be, to fucking leave.
01:42:38.660 You reserve the right.
01:42:39.600 Sure.
01:42:39.820 I'm not saying that you shouldn't be allowed to.
01:42:41.260 I'm not obliged to stay on a date with somebody.
01:42:43.260 Now, again, if they're otherwise pleasant, if, well, no, if they're otherwise pleasant,
01:42:47.700 but I'm just, and this applies to women too, if they're otherwise pleasant, but you can
01:42:53.620 tell, and I'm not really, maybe we don't align, maybe I'm not attracted.
01:42:56.940 I'd say, yeah, the polite thing would be just stick it out.
01:42:59.580 Have you ever walked out on a date?
01:43:01.760 Yes.
01:43:02.400 What's the story?
01:43:03.760 What is the story?
01:43:04.800 She was 30 minutes late.
01:43:06.120 She didn't apologize.
01:43:07.080 I stuck it out for 10 minutes.
01:43:09.000 I was brewing because if you're late, and she didn't let me know she was going to be
01:43:17.720 late.
01:43:18.140 Was it to a restaurant?
01:43:19.180 Was it a park?
01:43:20.060 Was it a beach?
01:43:20.800 What was it?
01:43:21.300 Uh, it was a, uh, it was like a lounge where we were going to grab a drink.
01:43:25.220 Okay.
01:43:25.800 Yeah.
01:43:26.380 Um, and so she was 30 minutes late.
01:43:28.980 She let me know like 10 minutes after I had already arrived.
01:43:32.160 Hey, I'm running late.
01:43:33.400 I'll be there in 10.
01:43:34.540 She ended up being, so she was 30 minutes late and, uh, I would have actually been okay
01:43:39.960 if she gave me a token apology, like, Hey, sorry, I was late, but she just stepped and
01:43:43.920 didn't say anything.
01:43:45.380 So I was like, all right, let's, uh, so yeah, I was just kind of.
01:43:51.320 Okay.
01:43:51.640 So you were taken back and then, then did you try to like, was that it for you?
01:43:55.720 Like you can't move on or was there like a further conversation?
01:43:59.320 Then you're like, Oh, this is it for me.
01:44:01.060 And then what was the exit?
01:44:02.360 Like, okay.
01:44:03.740 So, um, I was basically like, okay, because of this, because you were late, because you
01:44:10.460 didn't offer up, I think the polite courteous thing would be that at least, I wasn't expecting
01:44:14.760 her to be like, get down on one knee and be like, Oh my God, Brian, I'm so sorry.
01:44:18.820 Please forgive me.
01:44:19.600 I just wanted like, Hey, sorry, I'm late.
01:44:21.900 How's your day?
01:44:23.280 I think that's like the, if you're that late, you say sorry.
01:44:27.360 Right.
01:44:28.860 So I was like, okay, let's just see if she's DTF.
01:44:33.160 So I was like, you want to come back to my place?
01:44:35.100 And then, uh, she said no.
01:44:36.840 And I was like, Oh, okay.
01:44:38.220 Well, Hey, I gotta go.
01:44:39.120 So, okay.
01:44:40.180 But to be fair, nice to meet you.
01:44:42.900 I don't think most of them would be DTF within the first like 10 minutes of meeting.
01:44:47.840 But I was, it was like, because she didn't apologize.
01:44:50.700 Like you were like, you couldn't see past, you weren't even like going to figure out what
01:44:54.320 she was going to say.
01:44:54.920 Then you immediately went to the DTF and when she was, no, I was waiting for the apology.
01:44:59.600 So you just were sitting there waiting for the apology and it never happened after 10 minutes.
01:45:02.980 You were like, no, I wasn't, it wasn't like awkward silence, but I was like, okay, I guess we
01:45:08.820 could fuck, you know, but you would fuck a person who's that inconsiderate.
01:45:13.840 I'm just like shocked at that.
01:45:16.120 It's so funny.
01:45:16.860 Cause you already had your mind made up and then she was like sitting there for 10 minutes
01:45:21.040 trying to have a conversation with you.
01:45:22.800 And then you were just like probably awkwardly thinking, I wonder if she's down to fuck,
01:45:26.600 but I don't want to like hook up.
01:45:28.380 I don't want to date this person any more than this.
01:45:30.760 And then she, she lacked the necessary courtesy for me to ever consider her for a long-term
01:45:36.800 relationship.
01:45:37.740 That makes sense.
01:45:38.460 So I was like, okay, we could maybe be fuck buddies, but I.
01:45:42.500 Did she seem upset when you left?
01:45:44.140 No, because I thoroughly tanked the interaction when I basically was like, Hey, do you want
01:45:50.020 to go hook up?
01:45:50.920 And what was her reaction to that?
01:45:52.960 Oh, I mean, she was just like, no, I'm okay.
01:45:55.220 And I was like, okay, cool.
01:45:56.820 Well, I'm going to go.
01:45:58.720 Yeah.
01:45:59.060 I think it was thoroughly awkward.
01:46:01.020 Most girls would not be down to fuck within 10 minutes of talking to someone.
01:46:04.760 I mean, he was already over it.
01:46:05.980 So he just shot his shot.
01:46:07.000 He shot his final shot.
01:46:08.180 I shot my shot.
01:46:09.480 So what happens if she says, yes.
01:46:11.280 Yeah.
01:46:11.740 What if you're just stuck in a situation ship with her where.
01:46:14.860 She says, yes.
01:46:15.400 Yeah.
01:46:15.640 So when she's like, you know what?
01:46:16.940 Maybe you can redeem yourself.
01:46:18.380 You caught me.
01:46:19.240 What do you think?
01:46:20.100 This goes crazy.
01:46:21.320 It's been 10 minutes and she's ready to fuck.
01:46:23.320 Maybe she says sorry while during the BJ.
01:46:25.560 I don't know.
01:46:26.440 I'm sorry, Brian.
01:46:27.760 And she's fucking.
01:46:28.200 I'm so sorry.
01:46:29.300 In the middle of sad.
01:46:32.160 I don't know.
01:46:33.860 Tell me you're sorry.
01:46:35.340 Tell me.
01:46:36.380 Tell me you're sorry.
01:46:37.360 Tell me I'm sorry.
01:46:39.180 Maybe she's into that.
01:46:40.300 That's such a.
01:46:40.940 Yeah, that'd be great.
01:46:42.020 She's apologizing during the sex.
01:46:44.060 I'm so sorry, Brian.
01:46:45.120 I'm sorry.
01:46:45.180 I'm sorry.
01:46:45.240 I'm sorry.
01:46:45.300 I'm sorry.
01:46:45.640 I'm sorry.
01:46:46.920 Maddie does it, too.
01:46:48.820 Light blue.
01:46:49.640 I also speak Spanish.
01:46:51.720 Nobody cares about your gringo accent as long as it is understood.
01:46:56.200 Woman equals just one female, though.
01:46:59.380 Mujer equals mujeres.
01:47:01.940 You know that.
01:47:04.080 Wait.
01:47:04.680 What is it?
01:47:04.980 I don't speak Spanish.
01:47:06.200 What is it?
01:47:06.520 He just said woman is woman.
01:47:08.020 The plural versus the singular.
01:47:09.460 Oh, okay.
01:47:10.840 Wait.
01:47:11.440 Pixie, do you smoke weed?
01:47:13.900 No, I don't.
01:47:14.380 I always look high, though.
01:47:15.500 Yeah, I was about to say, you like have resting.
01:47:18.360 High face.
01:47:19.320 Yes.
01:47:19.800 It's happened to me more than once where a random person comes up to me and is like,
01:47:23.900 oh, like, are you smoking anything?
01:47:25.720 Do you have anything?
01:47:26.600 And I'm like, no, I don't smoke weed.
01:47:28.600 Shame to anyone who smokes weed, honestly.
01:47:31.020 She'll be jailed.
01:47:31.840 Oh, wow.
01:47:32.620 That was lettuce.
01:47:33.760 Okay.
01:47:34.060 Wow.
01:47:34.240 You're not degenerates.
01:47:34.980 I mean, do you guys have a rebuttal to these people?
01:47:38.420 I don't know if any of you smoke weed.
01:47:39.540 All I have to say is just like, fuck me.
01:47:44.180 She's taking it as a compliment.
01:47:45.660 She's like, yes, fuck me.
01:47:47.520 Because I smoke.
01:47:51.280 Okay.
01:47:52.720 Shame.
01:47:53.460 We're fucking being ironic, dude.
01:47:56.320 We came here high as fuck.
01:47:57.940 What are you talking about?
01:47:59.380 Yeah, you guys smelled like.
01:48:00.800 That's awesome that you can, like, mask it like that.
01:48:03.920 Oh, like, be present?
01:48:05.740 Yeah.
01:48:05.920 Yeah, y'all, like, seem real on top of you.
01:48:07.020 You should see her when she's sober.
01:48:09.080 I haven't.
01:48:09.720 That's awesome.
01:48:10.040 What do you mean?
01:48:11.240 That's amazing.
01:48:11.780 Have you been sober?
01:48:12.820 Ever.
01:48:13.240 On a podcast?
01:48:14.320 No, I'm always at least one degree.
01:48:15.700 Within the last couple of years?
01:48:18.000 Yeah, the last couple of years, yeah.
01:48:19.560 Don't you?
01:48:20.000 You're like, for like a day or two.
01:48:20.960 When you're going to be somewhere for like three to five hours straight,
01:48:24.660 just sitting around the table talking.
01:48:25.920 I'm sorry.
01:48:26.440 People aren't that interesting, right?
01:48:28.180 So it's not for me.
01:48:29.640 It's to make y'all more interesting, to be honest.
01:48:32.180 I love the fact that.
01:48:33.600 Rude.
01:48:34.120 Come on.
01:48:34.860 Roast her.
01:48:35.020 It's the same.
01:48:35.660 That's why I smoke too.
01:48:36.940 I'm not saying you guys specifically.
01:48:38.820 I'm saying, like, people.
01:48:39.720 Roast her on that.
01:48:40.900 Well, bitch, I drink to make you look pretty.
01:48:43.120 So how about that?
01:48:45.140 I just love the fact that, you know, we came in the car.
01:48:48.380 All right, these two bitches would be smoking, be smoking, be high.
01:48:51.660 And then he comes to Pixie.
01:48:52.440 And then I'm the one who's asked if I'm high.
01:48:56.640 Pixie's, like, rolling down the window, like, give me some gross hair.
01:49:01.740 Get me out of here.
01:49:02.980 Okay.
01:49:03.600 All right.
01:49:05.120 Wait.
01:49:05.700 So, Amy, you have a dark past.
01:49:08.020 Is that correct?
01:49:08.980 I have a dark past?
01:49:09.940 You have a dark past.
01:49:10.520 What do you look like?
01:49:11.400 There's, like, some post on your Instagram that's like, yeah, I used to be wild.
01:49:16.100 Yeah, no, totally.
01:49:17.380 And now I just smoke weed.
01:49:21.260 Yeah.
01:49:22.360 So are we talking when, like, are we talking with men?
01:49:26.260 Are we talking with drinking?
01:49:27.440 Are we talking with drugs?
01:49:28.260 So for me, I'm a very, I don't have a very high sex drive.
01:49:32.400 So for me, the majority of the time, this, when I am in a committed relationship, like,
01:49:38.240 I want to please my partner.
01:49:39.720 Like, that's my goal.
01:49:40.700 Right?
01:49:41.260 But generally speaking, unless I feel that level of, like, commitment and attachment
01:49:45.560 to somebody, I'm not about that life.
01:49:47.660 It's been very, very rare, few and far between for that to occur.
01:49:50.820 Stop the cap.
01:49:52.020 Brian.
01:49:52.380 Wait.
01:49:52.900 For what to occur?
01:49:53.960 Sex?
01:49:54.680 Yeah.
01:49:55.880 It's been rare and far between.
01:49:58.020 Yeah.
01:49:58.360 Like, for me to meet somebody who I'm not in a relationship with, who I actually end up
01:50:02.240 sleeping with.
01:50:02.960 I mean, there's just a lot of risk, too.
01:50:03.980 Have you ever had a one-night stand?
01:50:05.780 Um, one.
01:50:07.180 One.
01:50:07.560 My whole life.
01:50:08.420 Whole life.
01:50:09.700 Yeah.
01:50:10.000 How'd that go?
01:50:10.200 What about that other one?
01:50:12.400 Wasn't there another one?
01:50:14.140 There's multiple ones?
01:50:16.120 What do you mean?
01:50:16.580 Why are you looking at me now?
01:50:17.600 What the fuck?
01:50:18.400 I don't know what you're talking about.
01:50:20.820 But, um, no, I mean, sir, after my relationship breakup, there was something that I did that
01:50:25.980 I regret very much.
01:50:28.400 What did you do?
01:50:29.480 I hooked up with somebody after my breakup.
01:50:32.060 After my breakup.
01:50:32.860 Like, within the last several months, I hooked up with somebody.
01:50:35.580 Haram!
01:50:35.980 I know.
01:50:36.360 It was very haram.
01:50:37.820 And, like, I literally, I literally, like.
01:50:39.400 Is he a podcaster?
01:50:40.320 I literally, no.
01:50:41.320 Podcaster?
01:50:41.780 I mean, you know what?
01:50:42.640 Who gives a fuck?
01:50:43.420 But I literally just cried the whole next day.
01:50:45.560 There was a lot of regret.
01:50:47.300 Because that, that's not me.
01:50:49.080 And that's not the standard that I hold myself to.
01:50:51.240 And that is not necessarily.
01:50:53.500 Dude.
01:50:54.300 You asked.
01:50:54.840 I'm going to cry, too.
01:50:55.660 You can't say this.
01:50:56.500 Sorry, I think you asked.
01:50:58.480 Hello, darkness, my old friend.
01:51:02.860 Go on, continue.
01:51:04.200 I have nothing to say.
01:51:05.500 Oh, my gosh.
01:51:06.640 Okay.
01:51:08.800 My, so, the dark part.
01:51:12.720 It doesn't, no, it doesn't necessarily come from that.
01:51:15.740 But other things, for sure.
01:51:17.220 I was definitely a little bit of a party animal.
01:51:19.740 Yes, I like to party.
01:51:22.140 Yes.
01:51:22.860 Okay.
01:51:23.400 All right.
01:51:23.900 Let me get a couple chats in here.
01:51:25.140 Oh, actually, no.
01:51:26.020 We got all of them.
01:51:26.840 The soundboard is fighting words.
01:51:28.460 Should be written into the constitution.
01:51:30.520 Based.
01:51:30.840 I don't know where the fuck we were.
01:51:35.060 We were talking about paying for the first date.
01:51:38.060 Talking about my dog passed.
01:51:40.000 We're talking about bringing roses to the first date, which I'm all for.
01:51:43.360 Yes, bring flowers on the first date.
01:51:44.740 Bring flowers on the first date.
01:51:46.000 Even if you pick it out from the sidewalk, it's cute.
01:51:47.100 No, don't my mother's flowers off her front yard.
01:51:50.000 She'd be pissed.
01:51:50.580 My mom and dad would be pissed.
01:51:51.480 Like, if you, like, plucked flowers from our garden and then handed it to me, I'd get shot.
01:51:56.180 Yeah, you'd get some mats.
01:51:59.980 Amy, ask a question.
01:52:01.280 I'll be right back.
01:52:02.020 You want me to ask a question right now?
01:52:04.080 It's damn true.
01:52:04.940 Yeah, okay.
01:52:06.100 Oh, shit.
01:52:07.000 I mean, that was pretty rough.
01:52:09.300 Did you guys not feel like that was a little bit rough?
01:52:11.500 Goddamn.
01:52:12.720 Who here considers themselves to have somewhat of a past?
01:52:17.560 Yeah, you and I.
01:52:18.520 Like a dark past.
01:52:19.740 Yeah.
01:52:20.300 I mean, that's what you meant to me.
01:52:21.440 It's like, what is the context of that?
01:52:23.440 When somebody says that to you, I'm like, what do you mean?
01:52:26.060 Yeah, it's also a very ominous question, because I'm sure somebody said that to me.
01:52:29.500 I'd be going through, like, my entire life history.
01:52:33.000 Like, what horrible thing is he talking about?
01:52:34.760 Like, what do you mean, past?
01:52:36.200 Are you talking about current?
01:52:37.280 Like, no, but, yeah, my past is pretty checkered.
01:52:41.400 Yeah.
01:52:41.700 Not with regards to, like, dating, but, I mean, obviously, your past influences the way
01:52:46.840 that you approach dating.
01:52:48.040 Anyone here have a felony?
01:52:51.860 No, but I have.
01:52:53.840 Misdemeanor?
01:52:54.600 Yeah, I've been arrested a couple times.
01:52:56.000 Ooh, what you've been arrested for.
01:52:57.800 I don't think I should say right this second, but I have.
01:53:02.020 Anything to do with boy drama?
01:53:04.260 Kind of, yeah.
01:53:05.180 I was 19.
01:53:06.320 It happened a couple times.
01:53:07.440 I was young, but.
01:53:08.540 A couple times.
01:53:09.100 That's kind of, like, the worst time.
01:53:10.640 If you're going to be rowdy, do it when you're charged as a juvenile.
01:53:14.120 Like, 19.
01:53:15.440 Yeah, not, like, you know, 30 plus.
01:53:17.500 I think that's crazy, but, I mean, things happen, so.
01:53:20.540 Yeah, no.
01:53:20.980 Oh, she has had, like, a really interesting past that has led her, like, to, like, OnlyFans
01:53:25.660 today, but OnlyFans is so much better than.
01:53:28.780 Than your past?
01:53:29.780 Yeah.
01:53:30.280 Do you have it?
01:53:30.840 So, would you say that your pause contributed to your decision to be able to do OnlyFans?
01:53:35.400 Yeah.
01:53:35.760 Yeah.
01:53:36.140 It drove me to it.
01:53:38.300 That was, like, kind of.
01:53:39.560 In what way?
01:53:40.420 I was just doing different types of sex work, and it was just.
01:53:44.200 I was doing different types of sex work, like, everything you could.
01:53:47.080 Stripping?
01:53:48.900 Everything you could possibly think of, and it was.
01:53:51.420 Escorting.
01:53:52.080 The bunny ranch.
01:53:52.340 She was groomed into it.
01:53:54.300 Oh.
01:53:55.340 Escorting.
01:53:56.380 But, wait, how did you get your start, and when did you start?
01:53:59.260 How old were you?
01:54:00.060 I was 19.
01:54:01.340 You were 19.
01:54:02.380 How, what was your life leading up to that?
01:54:06.800 So, like, what was your high school experience like?
01:54:09.560 High school?
01:54:10.320 Honestly, like, my freshman year, I don't know.
01:54:13.620 I hated school so much.
01:54:15.640 So, it was really, like, family life, like, childhood growing up.
01:54:20.760 Everything was kind of just, like, fucked.
01:54:23.260 Are you close with your dad or your mom?
01:54:27.920 I talk to them, but they're just, like, people.
01:54:32.240 Yeah.
01:54:33.320 Yeah.
01:54:33.900 Damn, that shit's sad.
01:54:36.960 That sucks.
01:54:38.000 I mean, how's everyone else's relationship with this family?
01:54:40.380 I think it's crazy that anybody can have a child.
01:54:42.460 I think it's wild that any, like, drug addict, any person who hates children can just have a child.
01:54:48.700 Is that something that commonly happens, like, children haters are just, like, let me just pump out.
01:54:55.720 Well, I think what happens is, like, literally, we have bad sex ed.
01:54:59.480 We have, like, a lack of contraception.
01:55:01.140 We have, like, literally people trying to ban contraception.
01:55:04.020 We have, like, people who don't allow for abortions.
01:55:06.680 So, what happens?
01:55:07.680 People get born into, like, shitty family situations, and it's horrible.
01:55:13.360 Should we, are we going to have an abortion debate right now?
01:55:15.320 I mean, we can.
01:55:16.380 I mean, that's interesting, right?
01:55:17.560 We can.
01:55:18.500 Are you guys pro-life?
01:55:19.560 Yeah.
01:55:20.080 Pro-choice?
01:55:20.840 Okay.
01:55:21.380 Pro-choice.
01:55:22.040 I just, I honestly strongly believe that most Republicans claim to be, like, pro-life and everything,
01:55:28.020 but then they're against contraception, so I don't think they're actually pro-life or anti-abortion.
01:55:33.260 Just saying.
01:55:33.480 It's not clear to me that conservatives or Republicans are necessarily anti-contraception.
01:55:38.660 What kind of contraception?
01:55:40.480 Oh, like, all types of contraception, IUD, emergency birth control, just long-acting.
01:55:46.020 Plan B.
01:55:46.780 Yeah, Plan B.
01:55:47.500 There's, you literally have, let's see, Ohio, Bill 704, Virginia, HB 1395, I believe, Louisiana
01:55:56.440 as well, all in 2022, tried to pass laws banning long-term contraception.
01:56:02.800 So, like, IUDs, like, insane shit like that is happening.
01:56:05.480 Like, non-hormonal, non-hormonal IUDs?
01:56:08.880 Well, no, there's the copper IUD, which is not, because what I have heard from Republicans
01:56:12.520 and conservatives, they make the argument that the hormonal birth controls have a negative
01:56:18.900 impact on, like, fertility and on your health, and it's not good for you to be on it, but,
01:56:24.040 I mean, I suppose, but I don't know if they full outright object to contraception, such
01:56:30.280 as, like, condoms or non-hormonal contraceptives.
01:56:33.380 I mean, and, yeah, in the past, there have been, I think it's been consistently conservatives
01:56:39.300 who have been against legislation allowing for condoms.
01:56:43.200 So, like, for instance, there was a Supreme Court case where people were handing out condoms
01:56:48.200 and condoms, contraceptions were only...
01:56:50.300 How long ago, though?
01:56:51.780 I think the 70s.
01:56:51.980 Because I've heard about this a long...
01:56:53.620 But, like, in recent history, I don't think conservatives or Republicans are that against
01:56:58.320 contraceptive use.
01:57:00.760 I don't think they're that against it.
01:57:02.140 Well, in 2022, you had Louisiana, Ohio, Virginia, Texas, all tried to ban long-term, long-access
01:57:09.740 contraception.
01:57:11.060 In 2021 and 2022, the federal government tried to pass a bill guaranteeing contraception as
01:57:18.000 a federal right to people.
01:57:19.840 Every single Republican in the House voted against it, as well as in the Senate.
01:57:24.320 So this is something that, you know what, the majority of conservatives in general throughout
01:57:28.260 the population, over 90% of the population agrees, this should be a right that people should
01:57:32.580 have.
01:57:33.160 But...
01:57:33.600 No, no, no.
01:57:33.980 When you say a right, hold on, just to be clear, just to clarify.
01:57:37.420 The second thing you mentioned there was they just...
01:57:40.660 It sounded like they didn't want to have it be taxpayer-funded.
01:57:44.660 No, no, no.
01:57:45.280 I mean, as a literal right.
01:57:46.420 I mean, as a state should not be able to say, hey, it's illegal to sell condoms.
01:57:50.600 It's illegal to provide IUDs.
01:57:52.600 Wait.
01:57:53.240 Yeah.
01:57:53.640 I just want to make sure you're not strawmanning the opposition here.
01:57:56.160 I am not.
01:57:56.760 I swear.
01:57:57.040 There are states that are trying to ban condoms.
01:58:00.480 Are...
01:58:00.800 I just want to...
01:58:01.980 I haven't heard of that, but is that actually...
01:58:04.560 Have you guys heard about this?
01:58:05.600 I think there is something to be said.
01:58:07.320 That seems to be a strawman.
01:58:09.100 Okay.
01:58:09.480 Right now, they can't ban condoms.
01:58:11.080 Right now, it's not really an issue.
01:58:12.660 Condom ban?
01:58:13.020 Hold on.
01:58:13.460 No, Brian.
01:58:13.920 Right now, it's actually not an issue because of the Supreme Court case, which made it so that...
01:58:17.600 Right now, it's like a constitutional right to have these...
01:58:22.880 Because of a Supreme Court case, but it's not codified.
01:58:26.360 So right now, a state wouldn't be capable of banning abortion.
01:58:32.560 Am I right?
01:58:33.200 I'm correct?
01:58:33.540 Well, no.
01:58:33.720 Do you have states that have banned abortion?
01:58:35.420 Also, I want to ask for you pro-lifers.
01:58:38.080 Do you truly think that someone will be a good parent if they did not want a child, but are forced to?
01:58:43.420 I don't think...
01:58:44.600 You're not forced to have a child.
01:58:46.280 You're forced...
01:58:46.920 Like, first of all, if you want to...
01:58:49.480 If you're going to subject yourself to getting pregnant, if you're going to open your leg,
01:58:52.780 we've subjected to that.
01:58:53.260 But there are people who just open their legs, but they absolutely would not be good parents.
01:58:57.360 Great.
01:58:57.380 I mean, there are...
01:58:58.460 But that should be a consequence.
01:58:59.660 Adoption...
01:58:59.900 Like, a whole other life form should be a consequence.
01:59:02.300 I don't think you should be allowed to murder somebody just because you think that you might
01:59:06.440 be a bad parent.
01:59:07.540 There's other options out there besides murder.
01:59:09.540 I think a life of suffering is better than, like...
01:59:11.380 I think a life of suffering...
01:59:12.740 Adoption doesn't have an actually way to a life of suffering whatsoever.
01:59:15.180 But not many people actually always get adopted.
01:59:18.120 And even if they're not adopted...
01:59:18.740 There are so many orphans in the world.
01:59:19.600 Okay, even if they're not...
01:59:21.480 Even if they're an orphan, that doesn't mean that they're a life of suffering.
01:59:24.400 And even if it is a life of suffering, life itself is better than being brutally murdered.
01:59:31.900 And haven't you guys heard of those people who are, like, who literally talk about that?
01:59:35.540 They're like, I...
01:59:36.440 My parents wanted to abort me because this was the situation.
01:59:39.560 I was down and out.
01:59:40.460 I was in this situation.
01:59:41.660 And honestly, I was one of those kids.
01:59:43.720 My mom wanted to abort me due to what my grandparents said because they are very traditional Hungarian.
01:59:49.600 They do not believe in having children.
01:59:51.760 I'm Hungarian.
01:59:52.660 They do not believe in having children out of wedlock.
01:59:54.960 And so my mom got married when she was, like, six to nine months pregnant with me.
01:59:59.440 But you hear these stories time and time again.
02:00:03.620 Oh, to me.
02:00:04.860 Oh, I'm so sorry.
02:00:05.840 You went like this.
02:00:06.720 Okay.
02:00:07.600 Well, there's also different opposite arguments where one of my best friends growing up...
02:00:12.340 Like, I met her in middle school and we're still best friends right now.
02:00:14.760 Where I asked her about the abortion argument.
02:00:16.800 She said that her parents only ever wanted to have one child and that her mom was pregnant out of wedlock before.
02:00:27.240 And if it weren't for that, she wouldn't have existed.
02:00:29.780 So there are also a lot of people who wouldn't have extra children if it weren't for them becoming financially stable or into wedlock.
02:00:35.900 Like, if you were in wedlock and more financially stable, you would have, like, three or four kids or something.
02:00:40.180 Versus if you're a single mom, sometimes you can't afford to have more, like, healthy, happy, financially stable children.
02:00:46.580 So there's, like, the obvious...
02:00:47.660 There's arguments on both sides.
02:00:49.620 Where I truly do think that if someone cannot afford to have a child and has a really bad relationship
02:00:56.220 and turbulent relationship with everyone around them and are, like, drug addicted,
02:01:00.380 I don't think having a child is good.
02:01:04.660 And I think that should negate somebody's...
02:01:06.620 Like, that doesn't negate the fact that it is a life-ended.
02:01:09.380 And this is the...
02:01:10.500 I find the disparity in this argument is where does life begin then, right?
02:01:13.820 Yeah.
02:01:13.940 You know what I mean?
02:01:14.540 And some people believe it's from conception.
02:01:16.840 As soon as it happens, from that very moment, some people believe it's at, like, what, 28 weeks?
02:01:21.740 Other people believe it's much further along.
02:01:23.520 So I think that's the semantics that we come down to.
02:01:25.620 We all agree that it's wrong to terminate a life, to kill somebody.
02:01:29.280 We all agree that's wrong.
02:01:31.180 I think the point of disparity is where does that actually begin?
02:01:33.960 Where does that life begin?
02:01:34.880 When they cannot live out of the womb.
02:01:37.340 That's, like, from my personal perspective and also I think culturally for me and Kathy, like, we're Chinese.
02:01:42.540 And I think for Chinese people or, like, just, like, spiritual, whatever, like, historical, like, religious stuff,
02:01:48.560 like, your soul, you breathe in your soul, your first breath, when you are out the womb.
02:01:53.760 Or whenever you breathe in your first breath, that's when the soul comes in.
02:01:56.980 Or at least that's what I was taught.
02:02:00.360 That's what you guys are taught in, like, your religion or just...
02:02:02.540 I mean, there's not really religion, that much religion in China besides Buddhism, which is, like, they didn't even...
02:02:06.820 Wait, hold on.
02:02:08.120 I'm sorry.
02:02:08.880 My aunt's Chinese.
02:02:09.940 She also said that, like, when you're born, you're born at one years old because they consider your life to have started
02:02:16.400 at literally the moment of conception.
02:02:18.900 And so, therefore, when you're born, isn't that true?
02:02:22.260 Like, you're not born at zero years old.
02:02:24.060 You're born at one years old.
02:02:25.480 I've heard that from Korea.
02:02:26.920 I've heard that from Korea.
02:02:27.240 Not from Korea.
02:02:27.660 Me?
02:02:28.260 Is that in China or is that other Asian cultures?
02:02:30.520 Because I've heard that exact same thing.
02:02:32.160 I've heard that in Korea only.
02:02:32.380 I've heard that in some Asian cultures.
02:02:34.260 Not for me in Shanghai, but maybe in...
02:02:36.380 It's not in China, but you're saying it's in Korea.
02:02:38.380 No, Shanghai's in China.
02:02:39.940 Yeah, Shanghai's in China.
02:02:41.020 But you're saying it didn't happen for you in your Chinese.
02:02:42.900 Not for me.
02:02:43.360 I don't count myself a year older, but I do know some people from China.
02:02:46.080 You're saying that people in general in China, on the balance of probability, meaning at
02:02:49.760 least 51% of the time, are people inclined to believe that or not believe that?
02:02:54.240 Or are you talking from your own perspective?
02:02:55.520 Not from my generation, no, but I cannot speak for other generations.
02:03:00.720 So, your mom's generation is in the general...
02:03:01.920 Wait, can you scoot your mic back?
02:03:03.660 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:03:04.800 Like, on your legal paperwork, when you're born in China, they start counting you one years
02:03:10.600 old at the moment of birth.
02:03:11.780 Wait, do they do that, Kathy?
02:03:13.500 Do they count you as one year old?
02:03:15.800 Here, let's, uh, we're going to move away from abortion here, so...
02:03:19.160 Oh, wait, okay, can I, can I say one more thing, just on the axis of contraception thing?
02:03:23.580 Last thing, go ahead.
02:03:24.520 Okay, because you're saying, like, oh, are they banning condoms, blah, blah, blah, but
02:03:28.120 specifically, they're trying to ban IUDs.
02:03:30.400 And you can say, oh, no, it's a health thing, maybe it's a health thing, et cetera, et cetera.
02:03:34.320 There has been no study that has shown long impacts on fertility if you're doing it properly.
02:03:38.380 Now, if you're misusing your birth control, if you're doing only emergency contraception,
02:03:42.900 if you're leaving your IUD too long, then that's something else.
02:03:45.960 But, again, you shouldn't ban IUDs as a whole because of that.
02:03:49.440 That's like saying, like, we should ban, like, let's say, soda or something unhealthy if you
02:03:52.920 misuse it, you know?
02:03:54.680 But that's my...
02:03:55.220 So, wait, have any of these bans actually been passed on birth control?
02:03:59.400 No, but what has been told over and over again, well, funding has been cut for birth
02:04:04.840 control, for access for birth control, especially in, like, low-income communities.
02:04:08.060 So, that's really bad.
02:04:09.200 Second of all, you have these groups that continuously say, we're not going to stop
02:04:12.220 passing these bills until they pass.
02:04:14.360 And then, on the other hand, you have Republicans who are like, hey, you know, instead of codifying
02:04:18.640 this law, we're going to veto it.
02:04:20.680 We're not going to pass it.
02:04:22.060 So, it's, to me, in my opinion, imperative that we try to pass this instead of being like,
02:04:26.780 no, we're going to leave it in a limbo.
02:04:28.640 Well, all of a sudden...
02:04:29.460 She's passionate.
02:04:30.240 No, it's good.
02:04:31.420 No, I think the reasoning is because the birth rate of the U.S. is going down.
02:04:35.400 The birth rate, we're still increasing in population, no matter what.
02:04:38.640 So, it affects our 401k, our retirement, our Roth IRAs, and overall, like, all of those
02:04:44.260 things only exist and work with stocks.
02:04:45.940 Wait, you're, like, hiding behind the mic.
02:04:47.820 Oh, weird.
02:04:48.160 Okay.
02:04:48.500 Can you push it?
02:04:49.300 Only thing...
02:04:49.860 Does it...
02:04:50.320 Is it not directly?
02:04:51.260 No, no, no.
02:04:51.580 Can you move it...
02:04:52.600 End of the table.
02:04:53.580 To your clavicle.
02:04:54.420 To your...
02:04:55.420 That...
02:04:56.860 Right here.
02:04:57.280 That way.
02:04:57.960 Can you...
02:04:58.360 To your right?
02:04:58.920 This here?
02:04:59.380 Right here?
02:04:59.700 Yeah, yeah.
02:05:00.100 Okay.
02:05:01.120 So, basically, I think that people are panicking and trying to ban abortions and also some certain
02:05:08.960 types of contraception because the birth rate is going down as that's, like, the trend for
02:05:14.420 any very developed country.
02:05:15.880 And, but a lot of our economy is based off of the population and, like, having workers
02:05:22.400 on the bottom to sustain everything.
02:05:25.980 And even, like, when it comes to a new sort of retirement plan, 401k, Roth IRA, it's kind
02:05:31.800 of a Ponzi scheme where they depend on more people to go into the workforce.
02:05:35.260 And people are also dying later.
02:05:36.880 And so, your retirement funds are...
02:05:38.640 Wait, what are we talking about here?
02:05:39.840 We're talking about, like, the reason there are a lot of anti-abortion laws being passed
02:05:45.440 recently.
02:05:47.120 You think it's a populist control, like, levelation?
02:05:50.000 Yeah.
02:05:50.280 Populist control levelation thing is the reason behind the legislation.
02:05:53.200 I think it's partially the reason because you see America talk about, like, Europeans, like,
02:06:00.660 how the population is declining.
02:06:02.320 And then it's like, oh, like, they're not going to be an economic power.
02:06:07.480 Okay.
02:06:08.160 We're moving on.
02:06:09.220 Okay.
02:06:09.800 Pixie got her word about birth control.
02:06:13.040 Okay.
02:06:13.980 So, Jesus Christ.
02:06:15.880 Let me try to bring it back to something more.
02:06:17.660 Sorry, tangent.
02:06:18.280 Okay, before y'all, like, I don't know, some of y'all grimaced when I, when we were talking.
02:06:23.800 Okay.
02:06:24.240 Is it a deal breaker if a guy doesn't want to go down on you?
02:06:27.560 We'll go around the table.
02:06:28.580 Go ahead.
02:06:29.080 No, I don't care.
02:06:30.900 Um, if he expects me to go down on him, then yes, it's a deal breaker.
02:06:36.200 So, okay, if a guy didn't want to go down on you, let's say he didn't have an expectation
02:06:40.120 that you go down on him, but...
02:06:43.200 Yeah, as long as it's even.
02:06:44.520 No, no, no.
02:06:45.120 But would you still go down on him?
02:06:46.500 He doesn't have the expectation, but would you still go down on him?
02:06:50.520 Um, probably not if he doesn't want to go down on me.
02:06:53.560 It has to be even.
02:06:54.820 Has to be even, huh?
02:06:55.540 Has to be even.
02:06:56.460 Okay.
02:06:57.020 All right.
02:06:57.520 What about you?
02:06:58.440 I used to not think it was a deal breaker until I dated someone who only wanted head all
02:07:03.340 the time.
02:07:04.120 Then I was like, wait a second.
02:07:05.780 Like, you're not doing anything for me.
02:07:08.020 And she knows who it is.
02:07:09.140 Like, it's like, what?
02:07:09.820 What the hell?
02:07:10.440 I just found out.
02:07:11.620 Yeah, no, no.
02:07:12.300 But like, he would not give any head whatsoever.
02:07:15.280 So that's a deal breaker.
02:07:17.120 Like, I didn't used to, like, care if I had, like, much.
02:07:20.480 I was like, whatever.
02:07:21.680 But since I dated someone who was like, I only care about head and you, like, should
02:07:25.540 do it all the time.
02:07:26.560 Then I'm like, okay.
02:07:27.460 It needs to be more even.
02:07:28.420 So now I, like, really appreciate men who do go down on women.
02:07:34.380 Wait.
02:07:34.840 So hold on.
02:07:35.380 Question.
02:07:35.660 This guy, he wouldn't do anything to make you come or please you?
02:07:41.360 Yeah, pretty much.
02:07:42.300 Like, for no.
02:07:43.080 Yeah, it was just.
02:07:43.900 You just gave him head?
02:07:45.080 Yeah, no.
02:07:45.420 He was kind of a narcissist for sure.
02:07:48.920 And I don't even use that word lightly.
02:07:50.660 I feel like that word is kind of used everywhere.
02:07:53.040 Like, he just, like, lacked the empathy.
02:07:55.500 I think he just legitimately did not understand that, like, pleasing people is, like, a good
02:08:01.260 thing.
02:08:01.580 Okay, but were you guys, he was, you were just giving him head, like, no sex?
02:08:07.480 Uh, no, there's still, like, sex going on.
02:08:10.440 Oh.
02:08:11.260 But.
02:08:11.700 Okay.
02:08:12.400 It was, like, the main thing was just.
02:08:15.920 Did you make you come?
02:08:17.000 I mean, like, occasionally, like, not.
02:08:20.300 Like, it was just very, like, him oriented.
02:08:23.280 Okay.
02:08:23.500 So.
02:08:24.160 See, I, because I don't like to give head, but I like to make my girl come.
02:08:27.460 Okay, that's fine.
02:08:28.220 That's fine.
02:08:29.180 Preferably before me, so.
02:08:30.600 What if she were to say that she could only come by getting her?
02:08:35.060 Oh.
02:08:36.400 Sucks for you.
02:08:37.800 Well, apparently doesn't suck for him.
02:08:40.420 No, just, I mean, if, there's no way that.
02:08:45.440 No, you can make a girl come.
02:08:46.520 But if someone doesn't have.
02:08:47.900 Wait, are you saying this doesn't exist?
02:08:50.260 The only way a girl can come is through head.
02:08:52.880 There's definitely men out there who, the only way they can come is through head, so.
02:09:00.020 Okay, no, no, no, it's not cap, it's not cap, but there's probably guys who say that, but
02:09:04.620 it's cap.
02:09:05.200 They just want.
02:09:06.640 I've seen it.
02:09:07.720 Like.
02:09:08.140 Someone who can only finish by.
02:09:09.960 Well, actually.
02:09:10.360 No, it exists, but like, I.
02:09:12.320 That's grip.
02:09:12.960 But there's probably some guys who say they can only come from head, but they might be
02:09:19.240 lying about that shit.
02:09:20.280 No, I've experienced it.
02:09:22.220 Wait, question, but were you fucking wrong?
02:09:23.700 Okay, well, no.
02:09:26.260 They said so first of all.
02:09:27.620 Well, I'm just saying, because like, with a condom, yeah, that it's kind of, it can be
02:09:32.020 tough to come with a condom.
02:09:33.200 Okay, yeah, all right, I'll bite.
02:09:36.320 So, under those circumstances, yeah, maybe you can only come from head.
02:09:42.840 Okay, yeah, that makes sense.
02:09:44.540 Okay, well, I don't know.
02:09:46.440 But I will say that when, you know, it's a long time ago, but he would come really quick
02:09:52.840 by being jacked off, and that was like a red flag to me.
02:09:56.200 From just a hand job?
02:09:57.620 That was like, yeah.
02:09:58.400 Wait, just a hand job?
02:09:59.820 Yeah.
02:10:00.260 I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper than get a hand job.
02:10:04.900 It worked for him.
02:10:06.360 I'd rather not do anything than get a hand job from a woman.
02:10:09.140 Like, we've had, you know.
02:10:10.600 Or men, for that matter.
02:10:11.840 I bet men can make you feel some type of way.
02:10:15.240 No, just like, wait, chat.
02:10:16.660 Nick, can you scroll down the chat?
02:10:18.680 Yo, chat, would you rather, like, if the option with a girl, let's say you're hanging
02:10:22.300 out with a girl, and she's like, I'll give you a hand job.
02:10:26.380 Wouldn't you rather just not get the hand job?
02:10:28.840 Do you know what I mean?
02:10:29.380 Chat, do you know what I mean?
02:10:30.460 Hand jobs are lit.
02:10:31.480 You'd rather just not get the hand job.
02:10:32.860 This was foreplay.
02:10:33.420 I really doubt that Brian, Ellen, I don't know.
02:10:35.500 Nick, can you try and get a hand job?
02:10:36.480 No, bad paper.
02:10:37.540 Sure, Brian.
02:10:39.240 Wait, chat, do you agree?
02:10:40.560 Chat, do you agree?
02:10:41.460 I don't think chat's going to agree.
02:10:42.120 Depends on the circumstances.
02:10:43.960 No.
02:10:44.800 Nope.
02:10:45.140 I can't do the hand job to myself.
02:10:46.700 It's very 50-50, I think.
02:10:47.520 I'm going to sleep.
02:10:48.180 I'll take it.
02:10:49.280 No.
02:10:50.620 Yes, I love it.
02:10:52.020 No.
02:10:52.460 Will you take it handy, or will you double it and give it to the next person?
02:10:55.320 Yo, chat, chat, chat, chat.
02:10:58.400 Double it.
02:10:58.900 Hold on, chat.
02:11:00.360 Okay, so if the, holy shit, what?
02:11:03.040 This is a very contentious one.
02:11:04.280 Is it, wait, chat, is it look really blue?
02:11:08.280 We did some adjustments with the lights, and I think, chat, one in the chat if it looks blue.
02:11:12.840 Okay, when it comes to the hand job thing, here's the option.
02:11:16.280 Your chick will give you a hand job.
02:11:18.200 No lube.
02:11:19.320 Or no hand job.
02:11:20.920 No lube.
02:11:22.160 Can she spit?
02:11:23.220 Yeah.
02:11:23.700 Why the fuck?
02:11:24.480 Why not just give you a blow job?
02:11:25.880 Why would it be dry, though?
02:11:27.440 Because you can get STDs in the throat.
02:11:30.520 You can get STDs in the throat.
02:11:33.080 Because excrements will lube it.
02:11:34.580 But you can't from a handy.
02:11:36.820 You're just going to be spitting?
02:11:39.440 And you, no, no, no.
02:11:40.340 Just lick it, lick it.
02:11:41.340 But like, not full on.
02:11:43.460 What if there's no lube prepared?
02:11:45.420 So it's like, it's just going to be a dry.
02:11:46.740 Then you're not going to do dry.
02:11:47.780 I'm sorry, you don't have any lotion in your house.
02:11:50.240 Any unscented lotion.
02:11:51.820 No, no, no.
02:11:52.000 You can't just use, like, Neutrogena on your fucking dick.
02:11:56.580 You need sex.
02:11:57.860 I'm sure everyone in chat does.
02:11:59.200 No, no, no.
02:11:59.640 You'll get a UTI.
02:12:00.740 In chat, can you do a lotion?
02:12:02.540 Why are you tracking off Martin Shkreli with some fucking Neutrogena?
02:12:06.680 I never did.
02:12:07.820 I never did.
02:12:08.820 I never lied.
02:12:09.260 It looks so smooth.
02:12:10.220 The lies.
02:12:11.520 Exfoliated.
02:12:11.800 The lies ain't told right now.
02:12:13.620 Just not the tip.
02:12:14.680 Just not the tip, right?
02:12:16.020 Like, you can do the shower.
02:12:17.120 Just bath and body works, okay?
02:12:19.120 And the balls.
02:12:19.320 No, no, no.
02:12:20.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:12:20.900 Yeah, the balls.
02:12:21.340 No, but, but, like, you, okay, obviously if it's a dry handy, which, why the fuck would
02:12:27.740 you even do that?
02:12:28.840 Okay, dry handy you yourself or dry handy by a girl?
02:12:34.280 Dry.
02:12:35.400 Both.
02:12:37.100 I'll tell you what.
02:12:38.020 I will accept a dry handy from a cello player.
02:12:42.020 Like, a virtuoso cello or violin.
02:12:44.120 Otherwise, these normal women out here who don't have fucking symphony experience don't
02:12:49.880 have the necessary, the requisite technique to do a proper fucking hand job.
02:12:55.580 Yeah, have you got, like, strings on your dick?
02:12:57.620 Like, you gotta have someone that, like, no, bro, bro, bro.
02:12:59.780 It's just like, have you seen, yo, put, Nick, pull up a video of Yo-Yo Ma.
02:13:05.340 I want box.
02:13:06.060 Oh, Brian DeMintis crush.
02:13:08.280 No, no, actually, it's probably copyright.
02:13:11.320 Box cello suite, number one.
02:13:13.720 Bro, pull up a chick doing that shit.
02:13:15.360 They got the fucking, they know how to do that shit.
02:13:17.680 Okay, okay, okay.
02:13:18.540 I'm sorry.
02:13:18.920 No, even cello players are sexualized.
02:13:20.600 I had some caffeine.
02:13:21.340 Just kidding.
02:13:22.160 No, okay.
02:13:23.740 Just the shaft, though.
02:13:25.120 Because obviously if it's dry, you can't, these girls be trying to, like, go over the
02:13:28.620 head and shit when it's dry.
02:13:29.640 You can't do that.
02:13:30.420 It hurts.
02:13:31.160 It's strangling it, yeah.
02:13:32.520 Do you not have, like, do you not have any, like, natural fluids?
02:13:35.880 Like, this is, like, a normal thing.
02:13:36.680 They do.
02:13:37.320 Wait, what?
02:13:38.000 What?
02:13:38.680 But, like, you don't have free foam.
02:13:40.400 Like, I'm sorry.
02:13:41.280 Wait, natural fluids?
02:13:42.140 There's a lot.
02:13:43.140 Oh.
02:13:43.560 Don't, don't, don't pull up the video.
02:13:45.540 What?
02:13:45.860 Yeah.
02:13:47.120 If I'm crazy, like.
02:13:49.320 Wait, what?
02:13:50.260 Oh, only Mark has.
02:13:51.160 Here, wait, wait.
02:13:51.640 Actually, here's what we're going to do.
02:13:53.380 Nick, I need you a YouTube video box cello suite, number one, by a woman, but we can't
02:13:59.440 play the audio.
02:14:00.440 Brian likes calistans.
02:14:02.300 Actually, wait, never mind.
02:14:03.200 Never mind.
02:14:03.580 Have better fantasy.
02:14:04.020 That's a terrible idea.
02:14:04.780 He just wants it, like, on silent.
02:14:06.140 Yeah, shut the fuck up.
02:14:07.760 Let's just watch.
02:14:09.940 I think it's still probably Mike at a copyright, so I just, let's not do it, because even the
02:14:14.460 video might.
02:14:15.000 Oh, even the image could be?
02:14:16.000 Even the video, yeah.
02:14:17.060 Isn't this, like, fair use?
02:14:18.300 We're, like, educationally analyzing the hand movements.
02:14:22.540 Yes.
02:14:22.980 Yeah.
02:14:23.780 It's a little on the fence, and I'd rather not risk it, unfortunately.
02:14:27.880 It's too ahead of its time.
02:14:29.840 Yeah, so deal breaker for you, if the guy doesn't want to go down on you?
02:14:34.820 If he just first, like, off the bat says, like, oh, I don't do that.
02:14:38.440 I feel like it's really childish, and, like...
02:14:40.280 No, it's not childish.
02:14:42.080 I think it is.
02:14:43.680 No, that's grown up.
02:14:44.160 Like, what's the reason not?
02:14:45.680 What's the reason for not?
02:14:46.820 Like, you're not with me for no reason.
02:14:48.640 Like, you know.
02:14:49.740 I just don't like looking at it.
02:14:52.260 Whoa.
02:14:52.840 I just don't, like...
02:14:54.520 I don't agree with that.
02:14:55.580 I like to look.
02:14:56.840 I'm a fan of looking.
02:14:58.320 I will look.
02:14:59.360 Was he gay?
02:15:00.100 I don't know.
02:15:01.220 Oh, that's interesting.
02:15:02.280 I just processed that.
02:15:03.460 Yo, big labia matter in the chat.
02:15:06.440 Big labia matter in the chat.
02:15:07.720 What?
02:15:08.940 Wait, what?
02:15:09.520 Huh?
02:15:09.760 Exactly.
02:15:10.120 He's saying big labia matter.
02:15:12.140 He likes it to look like a box of cow tongues.
02:15:15.380 Like, he wants it to just, like...
02:15:17.140 I will not...
02:15:17.780 Hold on.
02:15:18.620 Lauren, I am offended on behalf of women with large labias.
02:15:23.200 I will not stand for you...
02:15:25.080 Are you saying cow tongues are ugly?
02:15:26.800 I will not stand for you shaming the natural way in which some women, some women's pussies
02:15:33.500 are.
02:15:33.860 I will not stand for it.
02:15:35.420 I demand an apology to all the women out there.
02:15:39.680 All pussies are beautiful.
02:15:41.100 Yes, yes.
02:15:41.760 That's true.
02:15:42.220 I'm sorry to Brian's mom.
02:15:43.920 BLM.
02:15:44.400 Big labia matter.
02:15:45.260 Yeah, big labia matter.
02:15:46.640 Big labia matter.
02:15:47.880 Just kidding.
02:15:48.780 BLM, for short.
02:15:49.960 Okay.
02:15:50.340 You just touched that.
02:15:51.440 I guess not.
02:15:53.340 Wait, what?
02:15:54.340 You missed it.
02:15:55.360 You apologized to my what?
02:15:57.200 To all the lovely ladies out there.
02:16:00.540 What?
02:16:00.940 Yeah.
02:16:01.300 I mean, it's just...
02:16:02.460 She said extra fat labias.
02:16:04.260 Yeah.
02:16:04.540 She said you're a mom.
02:16:06.100 I'm a bum?
02:16:07.000 Yes, that's what I said.
02:16:09.240 Your mom.
02:16:10.140 A big apologies to your mother.
02:16:12.260 Speaking of mothers, Lauren, is your mom single?
02:16:15.400 Because...
02:16:15.960 Oh, he's into milk.
02:16:17.520 He has some milk thing.
02:16:18.920 I think I do have a milk thing.
02:16:19.860 She's married to my dad, and they get along swiftly.
02:16:24.000 Beautiful.
02:16:24.440 I would love to just get in there.
02:16:26.320 Well, can you...
02:16:26.900 We'd love to be a home worker.
02:16:27.820 Fuck that relationship.
02:16:28.580 Ryan, can you tell us...
02:16:29.780 You've never told us why you like the large labia.
02:16:32.500 Like, what...
02:16:33.240 Like, speak it out loud.
02:16:34.840 Say it.
02:16:35.620 Okay.
02:16:36.040 Why do you like it?
02:16:36.420 Do you want me to actually articulate this shit?
02:16:38.040 Yes, articulate it in words.
02:16:39.500 Go.
02:16:39.860 First off, if they have an Audi, right?
02:16:42.700 Oh, my God.
02:16:43.160 It, like, grips...
02:16:45.660 Lips...
02:16:46.160 Lips that grip.
02:16:47.000 And lips.
02:16:47.840 Lips that grip.
02:16:48.760 It grips the dick.
02:16:50.320 The grip gets dicked.
02:16:51.780 Wait, what?
02:16:52.460 The dick gets gripped.
02:16:54.740 The grip gets dicked.
02:16:56.920 It's...
02:16:57.500 It's...
02:16:57.800 This next one is hard.
02:16:59.960 It's really bold.
02:17:00.840 We need more men like you, though, because all these women are getting surgeries.
02:17:04.440 They have more, like, porn star standard lips.
02:17:09.160 And...
02:17:09.320 And there's a lot of men that like...
02:17:11.440 Yeah, and that's great.
02:17:13.500 Giant labia.
02:17:14.400 Hook it up.
02:17:15.300 But...
02:17:15.660 No, it's like 10,000 a year women in the United States get labiaplasty, where they get their...
02:17:21.760 Basically get their genitals mutilated.
02:17:25.340 And it's very unfortunate.
02:17:26.500 Ladies, if there's any ladies watching who feel self-conscious about their large labia,
02:17:30.640 I will talk you out of getting a labiaplasty, my DMs are open.
02:17:34.940 Okay.
02:17:34.980 I wonder if there's any trans people who are like, give me a big one.
02:17:38.520 Oh.
02:17:39.200 Big labia.
02:17:39.900 That would be hard.
02:17:40.740 That would be hard to do, though.
02:17:42.420 That would be hard to do, right?
02:17:44.400 I don't know.
02:17:44.740 Is it?
02:17:45.180 You laugh, and then you're like, wait a second.
02:17:48.660 Okay.
02:17:49.200 Thought about it.
02:17:50.060 Wait.
02:17:50.240 You get to make it however you want, right?
02:17:52.500 Wait, you wanted me to articulate why?
02:17:54.740 You just did.
02:17:55.560 You did.
02:17:56.020 There's more.
02:17:57.000 There's more.
02:17:57.580 I want to hear it all.
02:17:58.840 He wants to go into detail now that you've asked.
02:18:00.320 It's just, it feels better.
02:18:05.540 That was so descriptive.
02:18:07.160 Thank you so much.
02:18:07.900 I don't know how to articulate.
02:18:08.220 We got that from the first thing you said.
02:18:09.960 I don't know how to articulate it, but it just kind of feels better.
02:18:13.680 You know what I mean?
02:18:14.840 You know what I'm saying?
02:18:15.660 Is she an outie or an innie?
02:18:18.360 Kiki.
02:18:18.900 Don't touch her hair.
02:18:21.300 She does not consent here.
02:18:23.720 You guys got the stuff of her face.
02:18:25.600 I got most of it all.
02:18:26.500 Good job.
02:18:27.080 Yeah.
02:18:27.200 Her lace is showing.
02:18:29.240 Fix that show.
02:18:29.960 Gross.
02:18:31.060 Ratchet.
02:18:31.780 It's not good.
02:18:32.520 It's not good.
02:18:32.980 I'm confused.
02:18:33.240 Is this like a mannequin or like a sex doll?
02:18:35.300 What is it?
02:18:36.620 It's a woman of the night.
02:18:38.060 What happened to her knees?
02:18:38.800 A woman of the night.
02:18:39.460 Wait, because she's dark?
02:18:40.940 What?
02:18:41.480 No.
02:18:41.920 No, a woman of the night is a...
02:18:44.540 I'm kidding.
02:18:46.180 It's not actually an exact...
02:18:47.960 Well, a woman of the night would be like a courtesan.
02:18:51.180 Do you have like a little red light for her to flash in the window?
02:18:55.000 No.
02:18:55.460 And scare everyone?
02:18:56.520 No.
02:18:57.800 Like demon.
02:18:59.360 No, that's like to signify that you're working.
02:19:02.300 I wouldn't get with her because it's just like, you know, what's the point?
02:19:06.620 It's unprofessional.
02:19:07.740 You know, she's your co-worker.
02:19:08.900 You have a problem with colored-haired women?
02:19:11.180 Huh?
02:19:11.520 Is that it?
02:19:12.360 Because her hair is blue?
02:19:13.300 No, he loves colored-haired women.
02:19:15.480 No, we actually talked about this last show.
02:19:18.020 From a purely aesthetic point of view, I actually like women who have either like, say, red hair,
02:19:24.700 like dyed white hair.
02:19:27.260 Oh, you like the eccentric type of women.
02:19:30.100 I like blue, not green, not so much.
02:19:32.680 You like the female destiny.
02:19:34.320 You like the female destiny.
02:19:35.900 He likes the destiny, general.
02:19:37.840 Let me finish my point.
02:19:38.900 He just likes destiny, general.
02:19:40.080 Blue, pink, red, and like, uh, what?
02:19:46.140 Like, uh.
02:19:46.440 He looked that blacky.
02:19:48.100 Yeah, I was like, ooh.
02:19:49.260 Maybe like a little more white.
02:19:51.600 What about my mom?
02:19:52.120 It's a little faded, I think.
02:19:53.100 What?
02:19:55.180 Platinum blonde.
02:19:55.820 Like super platinum blonde.
02:19:57.020 I get you.
02:19:57.500 You're already cheating on her mom with her.
02:20:00.300 You're just cheating on my mom.
02:20:01.340 What's that movie producer?
02:20:03.500 Woody Allen.
02:20:04.540 What's her mom's name?
02:20:04.820 Yeah, your Woody Allen 2.0.
02:20:06.640 Oh, maybe you shouldn't share that.
02:20:07.680 Yeah, I don't, I don't know about that.
02:20:09.540 Maybe after, maybe after.
02:20:10.620 But here's the thing.
02:20:11.240 When it comes to the hair, aesthetically, I like it.
02:20:13.440 However, it is associated now.
02:20:15.660 There's a pretty strong correlation with if you have color in your hair, you're like
02:20:18.980 a woke, super, super liberal, social justice warrior person.
02:20:25.380 Whereas in the past, like you're probably, it just meant you were like, if you had.
02:20:29.640 You were alternative.
02:20:30.420 Yeah, if you were seen.
02:20:31.800 If you had, if you had color.
02:20:33.700 You're RAR XD.
02:20:34.920 Very hot topic.
02:20:35.840 If you had color in your hair like 10 years ago, it meant that you, it might not have anything
02:20:40.480 to do with your politics.
02:20:41.240 You could be apolitical, just have color in your hair, and you were like into rock, alt-rock,
02:20:46.300 or had daddy issues.
02:20:47.260 Yeah, when I went here in college, I had blue hair just all the time.
02:20:50.700 And then I dyed it back.
02:20:51.660 So true.
02:20:52.320 Inprofessional.
02:20:52.960 Yeah.
02:20:53.260 I have beef with liberals over that.
02:20:54.940 Like, you guys ruined cool colored hair.
02:20:57.320 They took it.
02:20:58.260 Like, no, they ruined it.
02:20:59.600 They made it.
02:21:00.260 They fucking ruined it.
02:21:01.960 They actually know, because like now as a conservative, when you have colored hair, it really makes
02:21:06.980 you stand out.
02:21:07.580 Like, I had purple hair in law school, and then I'd be like super hard.
02:21:12.400 Like, pro.
02:21:13.460 They thought I was trolling as a conservative, because I'd like come into con law class being
02:21:18.840 like, fuck Roe v. Wade, that's bad law.
02:21:21.720 I'll wait for it to go overturned, bitches, and then when it, like, got overturned.
02:21:25.500 And he had purple hair.
02:21:26.160 I can't even picture that.
02:21:26.280 And he had purple hair, yeah.
02:21:28.500 That's so funny.
02:21:29.960 Okay, Piximus Maximus, I have a question for you.
02:21:34.160 Wait, oh, actually, before that, deal breaker for the guy who won't go down on you?
02:21:40.380 Not a deal breaker.
02:21:42.900 But disappointed.
02:21:44.080 You're not mad, you're just disappointed.
02:21:46.360 I feel like he doesn't care about me.
02:21:49.160 Like, enough.
02:21:50.220 Amy, what about you?
02:21:51.160 It's not a deal breaker for me.
02:21:52.800 I think where it would be a deal breaker, I think for a lot of women, they don't give
02:21:56.900 head because they fucking love it, because they salviate at the concept of being able
02:22:02.060 to suck a fat one, right?
02:22:04.640 It's because they want to pleasure their partner.
02:22:06.720 They want to pleasure their partner.
02:22:07.900 They want to see their partner gratified.
02:22:09.620 And so if a man, if you're not doing it for the love of being a throat goblin, right,
02:22:14.440 and you just want to pleasure your partner, and that is not replicated.
02:22:19.140 Oh, it's muted, Nick, it's muted.
02:22:20.280 There isn't a symbiotic relationship in that sense, and yes, I would have a problem with
02:22:24.100 that, right?
02:22:24.920 I'm muted, Nick.
02:22:25.640 If it wasn't on that type of a level, then it would be fine.
02:22:28.100 Have I been muted sometime?
02:22:29.400 No, no, no.
02:22:29.800 Oh, the sound box.
02:22:30.020 Just the soundboard was muted.
02:22:31.860 Oh, bummer.
02:22:31.880 Yeah.
02:22:32.640 So, I mean, if she's a throat goblin prior, then yes.
02:22:37.540 I disagree.
02:22:39.260 However, if she's just doing it purely because she wants to pleasure her man and make him
02:22:44.020 happy, and he's not willing to reciprocate that, then I would have a problem with that.
02:22:48.640 I think that was fair.
02:22:53.820 Wait, what?
02:22:55.340 I think that was fair.
02:22:56.900 I don't know.
02:22:57.380 I just checked out that throat goblin.
02:23:00.600 That's all I heard.
02:23:01.660 Now he's fantasizing.
02:23:02.820 But, like, have you ever had a girl say that she wouldn't date you because you wouldn't
02:23:08.860 go down on her?
02:23:10.720 I don't think I've encountered it.
02:23:13.100 It's possible, though.
02:23:14.800 It's possible.
02:23:15.740 So you don't?
02:23:16.440 Yeah, do you, are you worried that any of your exes are like, and, not only that, not
02:23:21.480 only would he wear the same stupid flannel to all of our nice dates, but he also, he
02:23:27.820 also would not go down on me, and he'd be like, oh!
02:23:31.120 And, like, if he would ask for it all the time, like, do you worry that that's what
02:23:35.140 your exes are saying behind your back?
02:23:36.380 That they're telling, well, I think, on a serious note, I think it would be, I mean,
02:23:43.100 besides the fact that I've already disclosed this publicly, I do think it would be in bad
02:23:47.220 taste to, like, disclose, well, man, women do that shit anyways, to disclose, like, private
02:23:53.980 sexual details about a partner.
02:23:56.700 I believe that there ought to be certain things that you have discretion about when it comes
02:24:01.060 to current partners and past partners, but would it bother me if she was like, yeah,
02:24:06.500 he doesn't eat pussy?
02:24:07.300 No.
02:24:08.540 Do you think that's, like, one of their major complaints, though?
02:24:11.040 No.
02:24:11.780 No.
02:24:12.960 Most of, I'd say most of the women that I end up, there's definitely women out there
02:24:16.300 that, I mean, I don't know if there's any girls here at the table, but some women actually
02:24:20.800 don't like it.
02:24:22.120 Wait, how much do you care?
02:24:23.500 I don't like it.
02:24:23.600 How much do you care?
02:24:24.880 Most women know this.
02:24:25.680 Like, it's not my favorite thing, but it's considerate.
02:24:28.040 She is a keeper.
02:24:29.080 Wait, but all other stuff, though.
02:24:30.820 How much do you care?
02:24:32.120 Whoa, whoa, whoa, wait, wait, wait, hold on.
02:24:33.180 Let's dive deep into this here.
02:24:34.580 What are we talking about here?
02:24:35.740 What kind of, you want to peg the dude?
02:24:37.700 What?
02:24:38.240 No.
02:24:38.620 Because I'm not down for that.
02:24:39.660 Like, you don't have to go down on me, but you have to choke me.
02:24:43.020 What?
02:24:44.580 Huh?
02:24:44.940 Oh, she's got her kinks.
02:24:48.300 Like, when we're talking choke, are we talking just a hand on the throat, or are we talking
02:24:53.020 you want to be suffocated?
02:24:55.800 You want to see God.
02:24:56.680 I think all the way.
02:24:58.200 Yeah.
02:24:58.500 It's a real goblin.
02:24:59.840 I can't.
02:25:00.120 It's a real goblin.
02:25:01.380 It's a real goblin right there.
02:25:03.680 She gives the throat, and she doesn't want to be choked, but she doesn't care about that.
02:25:07.800 That's like, you know, you need to compromise.
02:25:09.980 You can compromise.
02:25:10.880 Wait, I have a question for you.
02:25:12.100 First on whatever podcast, then on first 48.
02:25:14.940 I have a question for you on the whole choking thing.
02:25:18.480 Was it something that you either saw in porn, or was it something that one partner, you
02:25:26.420 didn't know you liked it, but a partner did it, and then you're like, ooh, I kind of like
02:25:29.680 that.
02:25:30.380 How did you discover that you like to be choked?
02:25:34.080 I think there's many ways, whether it's movies or animes or partners.
02:25:39.960 What was it for you?
02:25:40.680 What was it for you?
02:25:42.100 I think I've always had been.
02:25:42.920 They do that shit in anime?
02:25:43.880 Like, I've had fantasies before.
02:25:44.880 Were you watching hentai?
02:25:47.620 Choked by an octopus.
02:25:49.980 Since I was like 12, 13?
02:25:53.360 Oh, this is going to be 12, maybe?
02:25:55.740 13.
02:25:57.720 Wait, what's the volume at, Nick?
02:25:59.180 It sounds kind of low.
02:26:00.480 I don't know.
02:26:00.900 Oh, no, it's okay.
02:26:02.940 That's a yikes.
02:26:03.840 So, choking, how did you, was it a dude that introduced you, or you read Fifty Shades of
02:26:11.620 Grey, or what was it?
02:26:13.120 That was uncomfortable.
02:26:14.440 There's books.
02:26:14.940 There's movies.
02:26:15.660 There's actually, definitely previous partners, too.
02:26:18.940 Have you ever passed out?
02:26:20.600 Um, I would like to, but no.
02:26:23.980 I have.
02:26:24.760 It scared me.
02:26:26.080 I didn't like that.
02:26:26.500 My recommendation to men is, if she just wants, like, a hand on the neck and you do a little
02:26:33.360 squeeze and it's a pretty token choke, do it.
02:26:36.480 If she wants to be choked the fuck out, make sure you, uh, have your lawyer ready to go.
02:26:44.300 Is it just choking, or is it spanking?
02:26:46.640 It's everything.
02:26:47.820 Yeah.
02:26:48.380 Do you ever like to dumb, or are you just dumb?
02:26:50.360 Um, kind of a switch.
02:26:51.720 I can do both.
02:26:52.560 Yeah.
02:26:53.000 So, like, in your house, do you own, like, handcuffs, whips, all of that sort of stuff?
02:26:58.460 You got a dungeon.
02:26:59.520 Yes, I do.
02:27:00.680 You have a dungeon?
02:27:01.780 Not, like, a dungeon, but, you know, like, a little drawer.
02:27:04.400 Jesus.
02:27:04.760 Do you have one of those sex swings?
02:27:07.320 Um, it's not, unfortunately, my place is not big enough, but maybe eventually.
02:27:11.180 One day.
02:27:11.740 Yeah.
02:27:12.000 One day.
02:27:13.060 What about being tied up?
02:27:14.080 Do you like to be tied up?
02:27:15.420 Yes, and I can tie, too.
02:27:16.960 What is it?
02:27:17.860 He, uh, what's the Japanese rope tie?
02:27:21.840 Shibari?
02:27:22.360 Shibari, yeah.
02:27:22.820 Shibari?
02:27:23.280 Okay.
02:27:24.160 All right, don't ask me why I know that.
02:27:25.440 Okay.
02:27:26.320 All right.
02:27:27.200 Um, what are we talking about?
02:27:30.340 We're talking about not deal breaker if the dude doesn't want to go down.
02:27:32.680 I'm going to ask you, like, how important is it to you to make your partner reach the O?
02:27:40.240 Okay.
02:27:41.440 Um, how important is, sorry, repeat that?
02:27:45.280 How important is it for you to make your part, to get your partner to reach the O?
02:27:49.460 Oh, to climax.
02:27:51.900 Oh, I mean, how important is it?
02:27:54.640 Yeah, like, if you, let's say you, like, you come, you're happy, you're like, okay, good to go!
02:28:00.600 Are you, or are you like, okay, I'm going to make sure she...
02:28:03.180 Sure.
02:28:04.020 So, my goal is to always have my partner, my girl come before me.
02:28:07.740 Okay.
02:28:08.160 In every instance.
02:28:10.220 So, whether...
02:28:10.740 It's a little bit more forgivable than for not going down on her.
02:28:12.980 No, no, like, I don't like to give head, but, like, I enjoy to make my partner come.
02:28:17.480 I like to make my partner come.
02:28:18.740 It turns me on if she comes.
02:28:20.260 Um, even better if it's mid-sex.
02:28:22.740 But, uh, and you can achieve that with hands, with toys.
02:28:29.360 With whips, with choking.
02:28:31.140 Not with your thing.
02:28:32.400 Not with what?
02:28:33.380 Not with your tongue, though.
02:28:34.380 You're just with hands and toys, but not with your tongue.
02:28:35.980 That's the one thing that you usually, you would hope it would be, just fire.
02:28:41.700 I mean, oh, okay, you're talking about G-spot orgasm?
02:28:44.360 So, you're saying...
02:28:44.880 I mean, for some, for some women, that's more difficult.
02:28:47.680 Yeah.
02:28:47.860 Yeah, most women are only, like...
02:28:49.400 And you gotta be, like, really, like...
02:28:51.760 Right.
02:28:52.380 If you're gonna make her fucking G-spot orgasm with your dick, but, like...
02:28:56.600 Uh, and here's the thing, though, is women's orgasm response is so much more varied than it is in men.
02:29:02.760 So, you'll have women, I've dated women, who are, like, multi-orgasmic, who can come in, like, 10 seconds, without toys, without hands, just, uh, pee in the V.
02:29:11.460 Like, insane.
02:29:13.160 Like, and they'll come, like, 10 times in a row.
02:29:16.280 And then you'll have other women, you can use the most intensive vibrator on their clit while having sex, while fucking spank, like, psychologically stimulating her, and they still can't come.
02:29:26.760 So, the orgasm response in women is super varied.
02:29:29.360 And some women, like, need very gentle pressure if it's on the clit.
02:29:32.820 Some women need, like, a bit more firm pressure.
02:29:35.800 So, there's such a...
02:29:36.900 Variety.
02:29:37.460 There's a much more variety.
02:29:39.260 What's that?
02:29:40.260 Sounds like you've had experience.
02:29:42.680 Yeah, bro, I'm, I'm, I've been fucking since I've, for a minute.
02:29:47.200 Since the fucking Bush administration, son.
02:29:49.480 And I haven't been, I, I have gone down on a girl, like, maybe...
02:29:52.960 It has occurred, but, like, it's, it's been since the Bush administration.
02:29:56.840 Do you think men's body count matters as much as women's body count?
02:30:02.000 Do I think it matters?
02:30:05.420 I, I think women care less.
02:30:07.580 I don't know if I'm answering your question by saying that, but I think women care less about body count than do men care about body count.
02:30:13.940 I think it depends on the type of woman.
02:30:15.980 I think, um, a lot of conservative traditional women.
02:30:18.680 Yeah, generally, I would agree.
02:30:21.720 Also, I think the head subject is a skill issue.
02:30:25.540 Just kidding.
02:30:25.940 Wait, is the head subject a skill issue?
02:30:29.080 Yeah, you said you only did it, like, a handful of times?
02:30:31.440 You only did a handful of times ever?
02:30:33.060 Is it because you didn't get the reward and, like, the reaction?
02:30:35.220 No, no, no, no.
02:30:35.820 No, the reward was achieved.
02:30:38.060 I just didn't really enjoy it.
02:30:40.960 It wasn't my thing.
02:30:42.040 I found out very early on.
02:30:43.540 I must have done it three times.
02:30:45.540 And I was like, yeah, I don't really like it.
02:30:47.900 That's what I'm saying.
02:30:48.620 I feel like a lot of women do it for that reason, right?
02:30:51.980 They do it because they want to pleasure their man.
02:30:54.700 They want to see him get off.
02:30:55.820 And that is their main objective in doing it.
02:30:57.600 It's not necessarily because they are...
02:31:00.260 Throat goblins.
02:31:01.260 Throat goblins, exactly.
02:31:03.060 Thank you, Lauren.
02:31:04.220 Thank you.
02:31:04.980 Exactly.
02:31:05.860 And so, what do you have to say to that, though?
02:31:07.800 Like, is it a little bit different when your woman is only giving you head because she wants to pleasure you?
02:31:13.160 And then you come to the table saying, this is not something I'm willing to do?
02:31:16.820 Are you able to see that in a different light versus a girl who's just like...
02:31:21.160 No, go ahead, go ahead.
02:31:22.960 So, there is a girl, right, in your example that you give, who is like, oh, she...
02:31:27.220 Because I don't want to give it, now she doesn't want to give it, right?
02:31:30.160 Which I agree.
02:31:31.240 That is tit for tat.
02:31:32.480 That's not very good in relationships in general.
02:31:34.840 Agreed.
02:31:34.940 But what if it is a woman who is only giving you head because she does it for your pleasure?
02:31:42.540 And she's like, I don't enjoy this, but I love to see my man get off.
02:31:46.560 And I know that this makes him really happy.
02:31:49.420 Therefore...
02:31:50.140 Well, she enjoys it because of that.
02:31:52.060 Okay, so you don't enjoy seeing your girl happy to the point that you become...
02:31:59.020 Wait, what?
02:31:59.160 So, like, women enjoy...
02:32:01.300 What Amy is trying to say, and tell me if I'm wrong,
02:32:03.940 is women will enjoy the act of giving head because they enjoy seeing their partners happy,
02:32:09.560 not necessarily the act of doing it.
02:32:11.880 But you...
02:32:13.020 Like, you hate the act so much that even if your partner's enjoying it,
02:32:18.460 it doesn't bring you joy at all.
02:32:21.520 Your pain of doing it and your neck problems supersede the joy that you get from seeing a woman get off, right?
02:32:29.100 And so, what I'm saying is maybe a woman has neck problems, back problems, whatever.
02:32:32.920 She doesn't like it, but she does it because...
02:32:36.540 My back.
02:32:37.480 Lick my arms.
02:32:38.600 And my crack.
02:32:39.320 Exactly.
02:32:40.100 So, would you see that there is a different instances versus a girl who's just like,
02:32:44.540 it's tit for tat, I'm not going to do this just because you won't do that.
02:32:48.320 You know what I mean?
02:32:49.120 Okay, so the question is, would I be upset if she was tit for tat with it?
02:32:52.740 No, a girl who isn't tit for tat, who genuinely, the only reason she was doing it is because it brings you pleasure.
02:32:59.600 That's the only reason.
02:33:00.840 Sweet.
02:33:01.520 So, why don't you do that?
02:33:03.120 Reciprocate that, and she says, okay, well, if it's non-reciprocal in that sense...
02:33:06.700 Then it's tit for tat.
02:33:08.760 Then she would be tit for tat?
02:33:09.820 No, no, it's not tit for tat.
02:33:10.600 Wait, what's the question?
02:33:11.660 What's the question?
02:33:12.660 Are you guys really that confused?
02:33:14.060 Am I being retarded?
02:33:14.700 No, no, I understand.
02:33:15.220 Yes, you are being our choice.
02:33:16.600 Why can't you enjoy it the same way she would enjoy it?
02:33:19.300 She enjoys it because it makes you happy.
02:33:21.040 Why can't you enjoy it to make her happy?
02:33:23.980 I don't really totally follow the question.
02:33:27.760 That was pretty literal.
02:33:29.880 I think that was the right question.
02:33:31.480 Jesus Christ, Jerusalem.
02:33:33.120 Chat, am I being retarded?
02:33:34.320 Okay, so there's women who say, okay, it's tit for tat.
02:33:39.060 So, if you aren't going to go down on me, I'm not going to go down on you.
02:33:43.900 And maybe they even like giving head.
02:33:45.560 They like it.
02:33:46.400 They enjoy it.
02:33:47.100 But they say, I'm not going to do it because you don't want to do it to me.
02:33:50.840 Is there a question?
02:33:51.720 Are you arriving at a question?
02:33:53.120 I'm waiting.
02:33:54.320 Yeah.
02:33:54.660 Okay, go, go, go.
02:33:55.640 Go, go, go, go.
02:33:56.140 Versus the woman who says, maybe, like, I don't enjoy giving it, but I will give it to you
02:34:01.260 because I like to see you happy.
02:34:03.100 What is the question?
02:34:04.260 Where is the question mark?
02:34:05.900 Where is the question mark?
02:34:07.240 You said that you would have a problem dating a woman like that.
02:34:10.260 There is a woman who is saying it's tit for tat.
02:34:12.620 Would you have a problem with tit for tat?
02:34:14.900 Or would you have a problem with, you know, a woman who enjoys, who's only giving it to give
02:34:19.500 you a pleasure?
02:34:20.180 Like, would you have a problem with either of them?
02:34:23.560 Would I, what?
02:34:24.320 This was not well articulated.
02:34:26.200 I don't know why.
02:34:26.980 Hold on.
02:34:27.520 Okay.
02:34:27.880 Okay.
02:34:28.320 I phrased it perfectly already.
02:34:31.540 No, you didn't.
02:34:32.280 No, you didn't.
02:34:32.880 Let me try.
02:34:33.420 No, no, no.
02:34:33.980 No, Jesus.
02:34:35.220 Okay.
02:34:35.480 Okay.
02:34:35.760 Okay.
02:34:36.020 Look, look, look, look.
02:34:36.800 She enjoys giving you head because it makes you happy.
02:34:40.380 Yes.
02:34:40.760 You get that concept?
02:34:42.240 She enjoys giving you head because it makes you happy.
02:34:44.460 Yes.
02:34:44.780 Okay.
02:34:45.140 I get that.
02:34:45.760 But you, but she doesn't actually enjoy it.
02:34:48.440 I don't, I don't want to go do it.
02:34:50.140 If she hates it, I don't want her doing it.
02:34:52.520 Even if it makes you happy.
02:34:54.280 Well, it wouldn't make him happy.
02:34:55.720 But if she hates it.
02:34:55.820 So she doesn't like the physical sensation, but she does it because it makes you happy.
02:34:59.940 She's not a throat goat.
02:35:01.140 And he, and you might not like.
02:35:02.640 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
02:35:03.320 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
02:35:04.620 I don't want an unenthusiastic BJ.
02:35:07.300 No, it's enthusiastic.
02:35:08.540 I want an enthusiastic fucking BJ.
02:35:09.140 It's enthusiastic because she knows that it like.
02:35:12.060 You're having jazz hands with your BJ?
02:35:13.640 You're having the time.
02:35:15.080 Jazz hands.
02:35:16.180 Bro, I don't want, I don't want like a, fuck, what's the word?
02:35:20.560 Jazz.
02:35:22.120 Sympathetic BJ.
02:35:22.880 Hello, princess.
02:35:23.580 Sorry, Mike.
02:35:24.600 A begrudging blowjob.
02:35:26.660 Get the fuck out of here with your begrudging blowjob.
02:35:28.360 No, no, no, she is passionate because it makes you happy.
02:35:31.540 But then she also wants head because it will make her happy even if the feeling is neutral.
02:35:37.800 Check out this vibrator I got, babe.
02:35:39.040 Too negative.
02:35:40.040 I guess, yeah, that's a good solution, right?
02:35:41.560 Check out my index finger.
02:35:42.400 What's up?
02:35:43.680 I got you, babe.
02:35:44.640 You can check out her vibrator and index finger.
02:35:47.500 Bro, what, is she going to bust out a fleshlight?
02:35:49.060 Yeah, yeah, what if she did that?
02:35:50.640 What if, yeah, she busts out a fleshlight.
02:35:52.620 She's like, oh, here, baby.
02:35:53.900 They're even more advanced for men.
02:35:55.200 I've seen some of these like mechanical fleshlight things.
02:35:57.780 Like spinny things?
02:35:58.820 They're wild.
02:35:59.740 And they don't have that for women.
02:36:02.120 And one of the prostate.
02:36:04.460 My point is that it's different.
02:36:06.060 It's a difference between a woman who's like, oh, you don't want to go down on me?
02:36:08.740 Fuck you.
02:36:09.080 I'm never going down on you.
02:36:10.200 Versus a woman who likes it, who would do that anyway.
02:36:13.720 Right?
02:36:14.040 Or a woman who says, I would never do that, but I'm just doing it to pleasure you.
02:36:18.300 And then you're not reciprocating back.
02:36:20.040 It's a difference.
02:36:21.340 I think it's a difference.
02:36:23.560 Sure.
02:36:24.160 I guess.
02:36:25.040 Okay.
02:36:25.420 Is it a deal breaker for you if a woman doesn't give head?
02:36:28.540 Huh?
02:36:28.760 Is it a deal breaker for you?
02:36:30.360 No, it's not.
02:36:31.140 It's not a deal breaker, but she's a little less appealing.
02:36:39.220 A little less appealing.
02:36:40.660 Fair.
02:36:40.740 Fair.
02:36:41.220 Although, honestly, you know what?
02:36:42.640 Besides, actually, wait.
02:36:43.880 There was one relationship I had, and it was actually a good relationship.
02:36:49.040 It was actually good.
02:36:50.780 Where she did make it tit for tat.
02:36:53.740 She was like, well, you don't want to do it.
02:36:55.780 I'm not going to do it.
02:36:57.300 And this was when I was younger.
02:37:01.040 So I would have probably, because here's the thing.
02:37:04.140 I think that you can, just because your partner doesn't want to engage in a certain sexual activity
02:37:10.740 doesn't mean that you necessarily have to be like, oh, so I'm not going to do that shit for you.
02:37:17.840 Like, I don't think, like Amy said, I don't think it has to be tit for tat.
02:37:22.480 But I did have a relationship with a girl like that.
02:37:26.740 And fell apart with tit for tat for other things?
02:37:30.620 So what if you found out?
02:37:31.840 What if she said to you?
02:37:32.760 Hold on.
02:37:33.000 Let me just finish really quick.
02:37:34.060 So, but I mean, we were having, we were just having sex instead.
02:37:39.840 So it wasn't a relationship?
02:37:42.020 It was just sex?
02:37:43.060 No, we had a relationship, but just she wasn't going down on me.
02:37:47.000 I wasn't going down on her.
02:37:48.260 But I'd say the most of my other relationships, I don't go down on the girl.
02:37:53.300 She goes down on me.
02:37:55.340 Good for you.
02:37:57.040 And you use tit, you use, yeah, you still make them finish and everything?
02:38:01.560 Yeah.
02:38:02.100 Sometimes I make them come before they even go down on me.
02:38:04.380 That's the least you can do.
02:38:05.420 Oh, okay.
02:38:06.160 Yeah, no, no, that's great.
02:38:07.140 I've already said that.
02:38:07.560 Yeah, that's fine.
02:38:08.200 I was trying to make the girl come before me.
02:38:10.700 That's good.
02:38:11.680 Acceptable.
02:38:12.320 Yeah.
02:38:13.420 Acceptable.
02:38:13.740 Yeah, bro.
02:38:15.260 It's not taste very nice for her.
02:38:17.200 Wait, taste very nice?
02:38:18.460 Never mind.
02:38:18.580 No, I make her, I don't come.
02:38:21.320 No, no, no.
02:38:21.820 I make her come before, wait, what?
02:38:25.740 Before she puts her, so you go inside her before she puts her mouth on you?
02:38:29.560 I just don't get how you didn't get what my question, I don't get how you didn't get
02:38:33.160 what I was saying this whole time.
02:38:34.380 There was no question mark.
02:38:35.380 There was no question mark.
02:38:37.000 So you were saying you would have a problem with a woman who does that.
02:38:40.160 Does what?
02:38:41.000 Tip for tat?
02:38:41.700 Yes, correct.
02:38:42.880 But what if the only reason she was doing that was because she is just, she just wants
02:38:47.460 to see you pleasured.
02:38:48.320 It's not because she likes doing it.
02:38:49.960 She does not enjoy the dick down the throat.
02:38:52.720 She does not enjoy the mouthache.
02:38:54.040 She does not enjoy it.
02:38:55.180 Which is so much, hold on.
02:38:56.500 What is more enjoyable to do, to give head or to eat pussy?
02:39:00.780 Because you've done both.
02:39:01.760 Which one's easier?
02:39:02.760 Which one hurts your jaw less?
02:39:04.120 Which one tastes better?
02:39:05.380 Which one's nicer?
02:39:06.560 Yeah, giving head to a man.
02:39:08.300 Turn your mic.
02:39:10.080 It's kind of like, yeah, there you go.
02:39:11.840 Go ahead.
02:39:12.060 I would say giving head to a man is a lot more work because giving head to a woman is
02:39:18.360 just like simple tongue action flicking, you know, but for a man, you have to put a
02:39:22.680 whole like engorged thing inside of your mouth continuously.
02:39:26.180 It's gaped wide open and sometimes, you know, they take a while.
02:39:30.700 It depends.
02:39:31.280 So it's like, so it's not only more work and she's doing it for his pleasure and then
02:39:35.160 he's like, I'm not even going to do the easier task for your pleasure because I just
02:39:39.100 don't like it.
02:39:39.900 He doesn't like it, not even because he doesn't like it, but he can't even be like, I'm just
02:39:43.860 doing this because I want to see you happy.
02:39:45.480 Right.
02:39:45.740 Right.
02:39:46.000 That's the problem that I have with it because most women are not sucking dick because they
02:39:50.500 love to suck dick.
02:39:51.440 They're like, oh, what are they?
02:39:52.420 She should show it at home.
02:39:53.360 Well, that's why I'm just like, unless if it's even, what's it?
02:39:58.020 I mean, my ex used to tell me different.
02:39:59.420 He's like, no, girls fucking love it.
02:40:01.000 They love to suck the dick.
02:40:02.280 That's what they tell you.
02:40:03.920 That's what they say.
02:40:06.100 I know.
02:40:06.360 I had an ex like, oh no, I saw this video.
02:40:08.200 These girls like really seem to enjoy it.
02:40:10.800 The video.
02:40:11.240 They did seem to enjoy it in a video.
02:40:14.740 Like what?
02:40:15.120 I'm sure they're getting paid for that video.
02:40:17.480 They enjoy the pay for sure.
02:40:19.920 I just don't think, look, there's some things that women might not like in the bedroom.
02:40:23.900 There's some things that men might not like in the bedroom.
02:40:26.080 Ultimately, we all have our preferences when it comes to what we like and what we don't
02:40:29.200 like.
02:40:29.480 And I don't think it has to be totally reciprocal.
02:40:32.120 I don't think it has to be totally, or sorry, not reciprocal, symmetrical.
02:40:37.840 You know, I certainly, what I do find interesting though, is there seems to be a lot of pushback
02:40:42.280 when a guy doesn't want to go down on a girl.
02:40:44.920 Like it's like, oh, wow.
02:40:46.680 Oh, you must be selfish.
02:40:47.700 You must be X, Y, Z.
02:40:48.840 Because it's easy.
02:40:50.320 It's easy.
02:40:50.740 Like, it's much easier to go, as opposed to go, ah, what the fuck?
02:40:58.860 Maybe he has like a tongue deformity.
02:41:00.800 Maybe he can't like flick his tongue.
02:41:02.760 Yeah, maybe he has a short tongue.
02:41:04.680 Have you eaten pussy before?
02:41:06.760 He's basing it off of what you just heard.
02:41:08.820 Lauren, have you, do you eat pussy?
02:41:11.460 No.
02:41:12.480 That's a nonsense I've been saying.
02:41:13.900 No, I have, I have.
02:41:15.060 Wait, did y'all, wait, what the fuck?
02:41:17.660 No, I mean, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe you're discriminating against him.
02:41:23.960 I had to put in the work.
02:41:25.080 I, God, I had a feeling there was an, there was something between you two.
02:41:29.040 You guys, uh.
02:41:30.700 Yeah.
02:41:32.680 Be fucking.
02:41:33.760 Okay, all right.
02:41:34.800 In Australia, they tell you to go down under.
02:41:42.780 All right.
02:41:44.780 Okay, um.
02:41:47.660 Uh, what, I don't know how it is.
02:41:50.080 All right.
02:41:51.040 All right.
02:41:51.280 All right.
02:41:51.820 So, okay, we've been talking about something degenerate, so let's talk about something toxic
02:41:55.520 now.
02:41:56.820 Oh, wait, really quick.
02:41:57.660 I was like, also toxic.
02:41:58.600 I know.
02:41:59.320 Nick.
02:42:00.400 Pull up the Twitch, please.
02:42:03.080 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.
02:42:05.500 Drop us a follow.
02:42:06.620 Drop us a prime sub.
02:42:07.800 If you have one, can you move it over?
02:42:10.660 Yeah, drop us a follow.
02:42:11.880 Drop us a prime sub.
02:42:12.800 Oh, power.
02:42:13.560 Thor.
02:42:13.860 Thank you for the raid earlier.
02:42:16.080 Let's see.
02:42:16.420 Preacher.
02:42:16.720 Thank you for the prime.
02:42:17.320 Night.
02:42:17.700 Think for the prime.
02:42:18.900 Rolla.
02:42:19.260 Think for the prime.
02:42:20.600 Church.
02:42:21.040 Think for the resub.
02:42:23.860 Justin Bieber.
02:42:24.580 Think for the prime.
02:42:25.280 Gascar.
02:42:25.720 Think for the tier one.
02:42:26.960 Shaggy the boomer.
02:42:27.780 Think for the prime.
02:42:28.340 Guys, twitch.tv slash whatever.
02:42:30.180 Drop us a follow in the prime sub if you have one.
02:42:32.160 Nick, can you also pull up the Twitter post from, that we got to react to?
02:42:38.360 This is one of your posts.
02:42:39.960 So, would you ever date someone with an OnlyFans?
02:42:42.860 This is a question for the chat.
02:42:45.280 Would you date a girl with an OnlyFans?
02:42:48.360 One in the chat, if you would, scroll it down.
02:42:51.840 One in the chat, would you date a girl who has an OnlyFans?
02:42:54.280 Two in the chat, you would not date a girl who has an OnlyFans.
02:42:57.820 One in the chat, if you would.
02:42:59.680 I mean, OnlyFans, also, there's like a whole spectrum.
02:43:04.540 So, there's people who only do cooking on there, or there's people who do full sex work,
02:43:09.800 or there's people who do drag, or...
02:43:11.040 I don't think that matters, though.
02:43:12.320 At the end of the day, your reputation is going to be affected regardless.
02:43:16.520 And anyone going into that career and that profession should be very aware of the label
02:43:21.640 that they're going to get, irregardless of the type of work they're doing on the platform.
02:43:24.560 Yeah, but I think a lot of people assume OnlyFans is only porn, for example.
02:43:29.340 Exactly.
02:43:29.960 And they wouldn't date someone who is doing that specifically.
02:43:33.820 But anybody who's willing to cast themselves within that same light and same shadow
02:43:37.800 is willing to cop that same reputation.
02:43:40.260 So, whether or not they're willing to do the same act, like you just said,
02:43:43.500 everyone's dumped into that same category.
02:43:45.660 Therefore, if somebody is willing, is a willing person going into that,
02:43:50.900 they know the type of ramification this is going to have on their dating prospects,
02:43:55.220 on their reputation, on everything.
02:43:56.760 So, if they still choose to go into that, engaging in it,
02:44:00.080 then they should cop the full ramifications of that,
02:44:02.820 whether or not they're doing BG contact, whether or not they're naked.
02:44:05.700 They're cooking.
02:44:06.260 Or not.
02:44:06.660 Yeah, I know.
02:44:07.220 No, but in LA, I think in LA, if someone's like, I have an OnlyFans,
02:44:10.620 people ask, like, what do you do on it?
02:44:12.220 Versus, I think, outside of LA, people are kind of like,
02:44:14.500 oh, you have an OnlyFans?
02:44:15.860 Then, like, you're for the streets.
02:44:17.660 Is that what it's like in LA specifically?
02:44:19.580 They categorize it based off whether you're...
02:44:22.820 Yeah, yeah, like what you do on OnlyFans.
02:44:24.800 On Patreon.
02:44:25.840 Do you...
02:44:26.680 Okay, what led you to OnlyFans?
02:44:28.580 Because you're a very smart girl.
02:44:29.960 You're college-educated.
02:44:31.180 You went to a very good school.
02:44:32.700 You have a very oppressive degree.
02:44:35.300 So, like, what led you to the OnlyFans route?
02:44:38.720 She said, fuck it.
02:44:40.080 No, it's like...
02:44:40.900 No, it's like a supply-demand thing.
02:44:43.480 It's kind of like if men are giving me unwanted attention anyway,
02:44:46.940 might as well monetize it kind of thing.
02:44:48.840 Are you doing something other than OnlyFans to, like, supplement your income?
02:44:53.520 Yeah, so I do real estate.
02:44:54.980 I'm a property manager, and I own several properties.
02:44:57.200 Are you worried that OnlyFans is going to hurt your real estate business at all?
02:45:04.100 No, I actually think that social media has given me a lot more opportunity
02:45:08.040 when it comes to clients, when it comes to being, like, a buyer's agent
02:45:11.940 or a seller's agent.
02:45:13.100 I can just post, like, hey, like, does anyone want to sell a house?
02:45:15.940 And people actually don't personally know that many real estate agents, surprisingly.
02:45:20.160 So I actually get more listings and more people to be my clients than before.
02:45:26.760 It'd be like, oh, yeah, my parents need to sell a house.
02:45:28.900 And it's really surprising because I never thought those would intertwine,
02:45:32.740 but it works.
02:45:33.840 I feel like whenever you have a really big following, though, irregardless,
02:45:37.720 you could put up any offer, and there's going to be people who fall through the cracks, right?
02:45:42.160 Who you're like, okay, this is my ideal client.
02:45:44.460 It just is law of averages if you have a big enough following.
02:45:47.200 But on the balance of probability, I would not deem that as, like,
02:45:50.020 an effective marketing strategy.
02:45:51.540 No, I don't think that's...
02:45:52.360 To be able to attract real estate clients, for example.
02:45:56.120 Yeah, however, I had a lot of people in my class,
02:45:58.200 so I had to go through, like, the real estate exam and everything
02:46:00.460 and go through the classes.
02:46:01.640 I would say, like, majority of my classmates, like, have not ever had a listing,
02:46:06.460 for example, or have had deals, even though they've been in the industry
02:46:10.160 for, like, a couple years.
02:46:13.600 So it's, like, only...
02:46:16.160 So because you're a sole proprietor and you have to, like,
02:46:18.340 get into your brokerage yourself, there's not, like,
02:46:21.060 oh, you get hired specifically.
02:46:23.000 You have to kind of, like, hustle your own way.
02:46:25.440 And it's all about, like, your spirit and who you know
02:46:27.420 and not even what you know.
02:46:29.440 Like, it actually is advantageous if you have a social media.
02:46:32.140 Like, ironically, like, the people who work really hard
02:46:34.280 who are really fucking smart.
02:46:35.440 For sure, your network is your net worth,
02:46:37.100 but, like, I would...
02:46:38.140 Like, I deem it questionable.
02:46:39.780 Would the people in your network deem you in a sort of light
02:46:43.240 and a certain regard?
02:46:44.280 Is that really advantageous to you long-term?
02:46:46.600 Possibly, by what you're saying,
02:46:48.020 but I think for the average person,
02:46:50.220 having that type of reputation
02:46:52.040 and the people in your network generally regard you in such a light,
02:46:55.040 like, I don't think that would be advantageous
02:46:57.060 to most business endeavors.
02:46:58.020 For the average person, at least.
02:47:00.060 What's more profitable, your real estate agent,
02:47:03.200 like, your real estate business, or your OnlyFans?
02:47:06.160 It's about even, for sure,
02:47:07.920 because I have, like, Airbnbs.
02:47:09.320 So why don't you just go all in in real estate then?
02:47:11.680 Because it's, like, an extra six figures a year.
02:47:14.240 Okay, I get it, but, sorry,
02:47:15.700 it's really hard to go all in on multiple things, right?
02:47:18.700 Could you not see yourself,
02:47:19.820 if you were put away from the OnlyFans stuff
02:47:22.700 and you just went all in on real estate,
02:47:24.720 But also, with my OnlyFans network,
02:47:26.880 all my homegirls and all my friends
02:47:29.020 also make a lot of money
02:47:30.480 who don't have the financial advice
02:47:33.200 or, like, the real estate networking connections
02:47:36.100 to help them invest in different real estate properties.
02:47:40.640 So, like, why wouldn't I tap into...
02:47:41.500 But you make six figures in real estate.
02:47:42.600 Don't you think it's a cop-out to tell women
02:47:44.320 that the only way that they can make six figures
02:47:46.560 is by literally turning themselves into a commodity
02:47:48.660 and selling their body?
02:47:49.900 I don't think that's the only way.
02:47:50.820 But you make six figures through another avenue,
02:47:53.280 and what I'm saying is,
02:47:54.640 why not go all in on that?
02:47:55.720 And you're saying, but I have friends.
02:47:57.200 They see that as their only thing.
02:47:58.920 No, it's not that their only thing.
02:48:00.500 It's just that I can help a bunch of people
02:48:02.880 who have a decent amount of income
02:48:04.260 who can purchase houses,
02:48:05.440 versus most of my nine-to-five friends
02:48:07.600 actually cannot afford homes.
02:48:09.720 So, do you actually recruit girls for OnlyFans?
02:48:13.740 And...
02:48:14.020 What do you mean?
02:48:14.720 Like...
02:48:15.020 For the referral program.
02:48:16.060 Yeah, do you...
02:48:16.620 Referral program for, like, agencies...
02:48:18.340 For OnlyFans.
02:48:18.800 Oh, for, like, OnlyFans?
02:48:20.060 Mm-hmm.
02:48:20.800 Um, I would say most people already do OnlyFans
02:48:24.420 that I know.
02:48:25.360 Like, when I started doing OnlyFans,
02:48:26.440 a lot of people already do it.
02:48:27.900 But I think occasionally, I'll be like,
02:48:30.000 yeah, like, if anyone wants to ask me questions,
02:48:32.500 like, here are the pros and cons.
02:48:34.400 Mm-hmm.
02:48:34.980 But I wouldn't be like,
02:48:36.020 yeah, this is the life indefinitely.
02:48:38.660 But so what she's asking,
02:48:39.500 so you recruit those people
02:48:40.660 into your OnlyFans business or not?
02:48:43.240 Oh, no.
02:48:43.660 I don't have a personal business or agency.
02:48:46.480 I'm just a sole proprietor
02:48:47.620 for my own OnlyFans platform.
02:48:50.320 Right.
02:48:50.980 But they have an affiliate program, right?
02:48:52.500 Where they can refer anyone
02:48:53.360 and they can make up to 5% of the commissions
02:48:55.200 of the person who they brought on.
02:48:57.360 Yeah.
02:48:57.420 Irregardless of whether you're an agency or not,
02:48:59.140 you can be an individual.
02:49:00.320 Yeah.
02:49:00.460 It's kind of like an MLM, right?
02:49:01.620 You can just send someone your sign-up link.
02:49:03.860 They sign up and...
02:49:04.760 But I think to my understanding,
02:49:05.980 what she's saying is that
02:49:07.240 there's already girls doing it
02:49:08.840 that then ask her for help
02:49:10.200 versus her seeking out other girls
02:49:12.180 and being like, oh, join OnlyFans.
02:49:14.020 Ask her for help with what?
02:49:15.800 Like, growing their own OnlyFans.
02:49:17.260 How to optimize the money.
02:49:18.400 Yeah, how do you optimize it
02:49:20.060 if you're not doing more...
02:49:22.380 Like, if you're not doing
02:49:23.100 crazier and crazier pictures,
02:49:24.960 how are you growing an audience
02:49:26.960 on OnlyFans marketing?
02:49:28.680 Marketing for your front end.
02:49:30.140 So you can do comedy skits.
02:49:32.040 You can start doing cosplay stuff.
02:49:34.140 You can go to Broadway.
02:49:35.280 You can do anything that's front end.
02:49:37.220 You can do music.
02:49:38.660 People...
02:49:39.220 As long as you have exposure,
02:49:40.720 they will fund into your OnlyFans.
02:49:41.940 You don't have to go
02:49:42.700 more and more explicit.
02:49:44.620 I think that's a misconception
02:49:45.780 that you have to go more explicit
02:49:47.540 and you have to do porn.
02:49:48.780 But it is, to a degree,
02:49:50.000 not to get people to sign up,
02:49:51.280 but the main thing with OnlyFans
02:49:52.460 is the residual income,
02:49:53.500 the fact that it's recurring.
02:49:54.560 It's month after month.
02:49:55.360 But if somebody signs up
02:49:56.460 and they're like,
02:49:56.860 oh, this bitch is literally
02:49:57.760 just dressing it as a furry.
02:49:59.240 She's dressed in cosplay.
02:50:00.460 Like, that's not going to do anything for them.
02:50:02.540 And what I see is,
02:50:04.040 especially in a society
02:50:05.040 where things are getting
02:50:05.780 more and more degenerate,
02:50:07.380 and now we're getting
02:50:07.940 the AI girlfriends.
02:50:08.920 We're getting these AI
02:50:10.160 parasocial relationships.
02:50:12.080 Things are going to get
02:50:12.760 more and more degenerate.
02:50:14.560 They're going to have to keep
02:50:15.220 pushing the envelope
02:50:16.280 and pushing the envelope
02:50:17.660 and pushing the envelope
02:50:18.600 in order to get people
02:50:19.700 to subscribe
02:50:20.560 on that, like, residual basis.
02:50:22.700 Right.
02:50:23.140 And I think that's what
02:50:24.220 she's more so talking about.
02:50:25.460 It's not about the marketing
02:50:26.320 to get people in.
02:50:27.660 Like, I know people
02:50:28.520 who've literally said,
02:50:29.500 hey, I'm launching an OnlyFans,
02:50:31.060 had a thousand people sign up
02:50:32.560 and their first picture
02:50:33.340 was a thing saying,
02:50:34.180 sucker, I got you.
02:50:35.880 Right?
02:50:36.060 It's not about that.
02:50:37.140 It's about the ability
02:50:38.340 to be able to have
02:50:39.180 that ongoing residual income,
02:50:40.820 and that is not going to happen
02:50:42.100 unless you are delivering
02:50:43.160 the content
02:50:43.740 that these people want
02:50:45.100 or expect.
02:50:46.160 Wait, now I kind of want
02:50:47.140 an OnlyFans.
02:50:48.040 That just goes like...
02:50:49.300 I mean,
02:50:51.220 there are a lot of people
02:50:51.900 who actually scale back.
02:50:53.080 Like, I actually know people
02:50:54.000 who used to be in porn,
02:50:55.340 who used to actually do,
02:50:57.920 you know,
02:50:58.240 in real life clients
02:51:00.240 and all that.
02:51:01.060 They're escorting.
02:51:01.460 So they're prostitutes,
02:51:02.440 basically.
02:51:02.980 Yeah.
02:51:03.380 I knew people
02:51:04.160 who used to be prostitutes
02:51:05.740 who just scaled back
02:51:06.700 on OnlyFans
02:51:07.260 and now they only do,
02:51:08.320 like, lingerie stuff.
02:51:09.780 And it's great
02:51:10.240 because they were able
02:51:11.020 to, like, save up
02:51:12.000 and eventually, like,
02:51:13.300 delve into something
02:51:14.140 that's legit.
02:51:14.980 I know people, like,
02:51:15.940 from all avenues
02:51:16.940 who, like, started
02:51:17.680 from OnlyFans
02:51:18.380 and then they funded
02:51:19.240 all the money
02:51:20.440 into different, like,
02:51:21.460 passions that they're into.
02:51:23.200 Like, I have a friend
02:51:24.840 who's a race car driver,
02:51:26.140 but they had an OnlyFans
02:51:27.660 for a year
02:51:28.200 before they were able
02:51:29.340 to, like,
02:51:30.620 fly themselves
02:51:31.260 to these different, like,
02:51:32.100 racetracks and stuff
02:51:33.080 like that.
02:51:33.820 And she's really open
02:51:34.820 about it, too.
02:51:35.820 But.
02:51:36.360 Yeah.
02:51:36.660 And I think that's great.
02:51:37.620 I think if you're gonna do it,
02:51:39.040 then fuck yeah.
02:51:39.800 Have an exit strategy.
02:51:41.000 Have a plan
02:51:41.620 because, number one,
02:51:42.640 your body is a depreciating asset.
02:51:45.380 And even in the realm of.
02:51:46.520 With AI?
02:51:46.740 No, even in the realm
02:51:47.620 of mils and gilfs.
02:51:49.480 Yeah, exactly.
02:51:50.500 But then somebody's
02:51:51.280 gonna make an AI of you
02:51:52.420 and you're not gonna get
02:51:53.000 paid shit for it
02:51:53.980 because they're just
02:51:54.520 gonna create something
02:51:55.260 in your likeness
02:51:56.000 or something that's
02:51:56.480 even more attractive
02:51:57.380 because, to be honest,
02:51:58.560 anyone can do that with AI.
02:51:59.520 But that's the fear.
02:52:00.660 But the money,
02:52:01.360 like, you know,
02:52:01.720 opportunity cost,
02:52:02.620 like, money is worth
02:52:03.300 way more now than later.
02:52:04.620 If you just, like,
02:52:05.520 don't optimize anything
02:52:06.660 that you have now
02:52:07.540 that you can take
02:52:08.100 advantage of,
02:52:08.760 then it's gonna pass
02:52:09.940 and then in the future
02:52:10.720 you might ask, like,
02:52:11.300 oh, what if I did that?
02:52:12.500 True.
02:52:12.920 But also, but no.
02:52:14.120 Fuck!
02:52:14.360 I agree, but mostly
02:52:15.100 with your mindset
02:52:16.360 and intellect.
02:52:17.160 I would agree,
02:52:17.840 but with your mindset
02:52:18.600 and intellect,
02:52:19.240 not with your body.
02:52:20.420 I feel like at the end
02:52:21.420 of the day,
02:52:22.200 there's two very different
02:52:23.160 types of people.
02:52:24.340 There are certain people
02:52:25.280 who believe,
02:52:26.400 who are very opportunistic
02:52:28.460 and I think it's a good thing
02:52:29.760 to be opportunistic,
02:52:30.680 but you need to have
02:52:31.500 parameters on that.
02:52:32.580 At the end of the day,
02:52:33.660 your money,
02:52:34.520 money should never cost
02:52:35.640 your fucking dignity.
02:52:36.800 That's what I believe
02:52:37.440 at the end of the day
02:52:38.120 and there's people...
02:52:39.020 But why do you think
02:52:40.140 it's undignifying?
02:52:40.980 I think it's undignifying
02:52:41.020 because I think that
02:52:41.820 at the end of the day,
02:52:42.800 your body,
02:52:43.320 your naked body
02:52:44.240 is the most intimate
02:52:45.400 you could ever be
02:52:46.340 with somebody
02:52:46.960 other than physically
02:52:48.080 doing the act with them.
02:52:50.100 And there's maybe
02:52:50.680 some people who are able
02:52:51.760 to be emotionally
02:52:52.420 detached from that,
02:52:53.740 but I would agree
02:52:54.400 that it's very rare.
02:52:55.640 And even you, Pixie,
02:52:56.560 have admitted that.
02:52:57.160 You literally said
02:52:58.040 on the podcast with me
02:52:59.300 that if you were to put
02:52:59.960 your naked body
02:53:00.640 on OnlyFans,
02:53:01.640 you'd probably be depressed,
02:53:02.800 you'd probably deal
02:53:03.300 with self-esteem issues.
02:53:04.560 Yeah, but that's also
02:53:05.620 me personally.
02:53:07.040 I know, but that is
02:53:07.740 the majority of women.
02:53:08.740 The majority of women
02:53:09.740 because of our
02:53:10.460 psychological proclivities
02:53:11.760 and our inclinations
02:53:12.960 will not feel good
02:53:14.760 about ourselves
02:53:15.540 because sexualizing yourself
02:53:17.420 nine times out of ten.
02:53:18.820 I feel like I have more agency
02:53:19.900 over sexualizing myself.
02:53:21.200 I also was in swim
02:53:22.000 my entire life,
02:53:23.180 so I was in competitive swimming.
02:53:25.580 I had personal trainers
02:53:26.320 my whole life
02:53:26.900 and I feel like
02:53:27.380 I was just in swimsuits
02:53:28.460 my entire life growing up.
02:53:31.120 And I was in the Junior Olympics
02:53:32.080 and I feel like
02:53:32.960 people sexualized me
02:53:33.920 no matter what.
02:53:35.700 And I feel like
02:53:36.500 if people did that anyway.
02:53:37.740 It's got to be different
02:53:38.300 in professional sports.
02:53:39.380 My mom was a professional swimmer.
02:53:40.880 That's very different
02:53:42.000 at the end of the day.
02:53:42.720 But people definitely
02:53:43.620 still do sexualize you.
02:53:45.100 Fuck, son.
02:53:46.020 Sorry, keep going.
02:53:46.780 Keep going.
02:53:46.920 They will in any industry
02:53:48.140 that you're a potter.
02:53:48.940 They're always going to
02:53:49.740 find a way to do that.
02:53:50.660 But I feel like
02:53:51.180 a professional swimmer,
02:53:53.220 especially at that type
02:53:54.440 of professional level,
02:53:55.480 Olympic level,
02:53:56.400 very, very different
02:53:57.440 to our OnlyFans girls.
02:53:58.860 And one of the biggest
02:53:59.560 things about sexualizing
02:54:00.860 leads to something
02:54:01.700 called objectification.
02:54:03.140 Objectification means
02:54:04.040 that you only deem yourself
02:54:06.580 as an object.
02:54:07.520 you view your value
02:54:09.680 based off your
02:54:10.300 physical appearance,
02:54:11.280 which is proven
02:54:12.500 through many,
02:54:13.860 many different studies
02:54:14.660 that that is one
02:54:15.380 of the ramifications
02:54:17.020 that come along
02:54:17.640 with sexualizing yourself
02:54:18.700 or being sexualized
02:54:19.880 by others.
02:54:20.500 I have a question for you.
02:54:21.640 So what do you think
02:54:22.800 about people who acted
02:54:24.380 in, for example,
02:54:25.560 Euphoria, HBO shows
02:54:27.440 like Game of Thrones
02:54:28.360 where...
02:54:29.000 I'm completely against
02:54:29.880 all of that.
02:54:30.380 And honestly,
02:54:30.860 I'm probably deemed
02:54:31.960 as someone who's
02:54:32.460 a little bit extra
02:54:33.260 in our society,
02:54:34.040 but I don't watch
02:54:34.780 any of that.
02:54:35.300 I don't watch,
02:54:35.780 I never watch Euphoria.
02:54:36.980 I don't listen to music
02:54:38.300 that explicitly talks
02:54:39.380 about being overly
02:54:40.260 sexualized and get...
02:54:41.520 I am very,
02:54:42.660 very intentional
02:54:43.200 about anything
02:54:44.380 that comes in here
02:54:45.500 because I know
02:54:46.160 that everything
02:54:46.620 that comes in here
02:54:47.500 determines what I speak,
02:54:48.940 what I think,
02:54:49.800 and literally
02:54:50.300 my day-to-day interaction.
02:54:51.620 So I'm really not
02:54:52.320 the person to ask
02:54:53.240 about that.
02:54:54.180 I do agree
02:54:54.920 that there are issues
02:54:55.980 with that,
02:54:56.400 but I think that's
02:54:56.980 very, very different.
02:54:58.820 That is not the slippery
02:54:59.820 slope we're talking about
02:55:01.020 in how maybe media
02:55:02.700 and music is a little bit
02:55:03.800 risque.
02:55:04.700 It's a little bit
02:55:05.180 this and that.
02:55:05.780 Versus blatantly
02:55:06.960 sexualizing yourself
02:55:08.100 on a platform.
02:55:08.740 Well, in Game of Thrones,
02:55:09.620 like the first episode,
02:55:10.840 Khaleesi, like,
02:55:11.900 you know,
02:55:12.160 is naked,
02:55:12.860 the brother touches
02:55:13.620 his boob,
02:55:14.360 her boob,
02:55:14.980 and there's a lot
02:55:16.340 of sexual things
02:55:17.040 going on.
02:55:17.620 I hate all of that.
02:55:18.860 For me personally,
02:55:19.640 I hate all of that.
02:55:20.460 I would not engage
02:55:21.160 with any of that
02:55:21.720 and I would not
02:55:22.200 let my children
02:55:22.940 ever engage.
02:55:24.020 I would be that
02:55:24.640 or your protective mom
02:55:25.580 who's like,
02:55:25.980 you don't get an iPad,
02:55:27.120 you don't get this,
02:55:28.020 you're not going
02:55:28.460 to have these things
02:55:29.280 infect your subconscious
02:55:30.460 brain before you
02:55:31.920 come to adulthood
02:55:32.600 and you're able
02:55:33.200 to determine
02:55:33.740 how to react
02:55:34.460 to those things.
02:55:35.180 But what if they
02:55:35.740 get exposed to it anyway?
02:55:37.400 And they probably
02:55:38.440 would to some degree.
02:55:39.060 They have friends
02:55:39.300 who have iPads,
02:55:40.640 they have the internet.
02:55:41.060 Absolutely, absolutely.
02:55:42.620 But I think
02:55:43.400 at the end of the day,
02:55:45.100 the standards
02:55:45.900 that you implement
02:55:46.760 in your home,
02:55:47.500 like your leadership
02:55:48.280 within your home
02:55:49.060 needs to be stronger
02:55:49.820 than the world's programming.
02:55:51.400 That's what I thoroughly believe
02:55:52.420 and I was somebody
02:55:53.280 who used to say
02:55:54.060 I didn't want to have kids.
02:55:55.600 I was strongly
02:55:56.300 of the opinion
02:55:56.760 I don't want to have kids
02:55:57.660 because I know
02:55:58.220 this world is fucked up
02:55:59.240 and I don't want my kids
02:56:00.480 to be affected by that.
02:56:01.940 But I have learned
02:56:02.920 to accept personal accountability
02:56:04.500 over the last year
02:56:05.540 to the point
02:56:06.220 where I've realized
02:56:06.960 that my parenthood,
02:56:08.480 my leadership
02:56:09.120 of my children
02:56:09.860 needs to be stronger
02:56:10.820 than the world's influence
02:56:12.000 over them.
02:56:13.240 And that's what I believe.
02:56:14.320 You're capable of doing that.
02:56:15.740 It's difficult.
02:56:16.300 Spitting.
02:56:16.900 But I believe
02:56:17.520 that it's possible.
02:56:18.800 Yeah.
02:56:19.140 I just think
02:56:19.600 you're just so
02:56:20.720 unbelievably talented
02:56:22.260 and smart
02:56:23.020 because like
02:56:23.560 being in the Junior Olympics,
02:56:25.080 that's very impressive.
02:56:26.620 I never grew taller
02:56:27.460 so I never made it
02:56:28.540 to the real Olympics.
02:56:30.320 I mean,
02:56:30.660 also you are
02:56:31.480 well endowed
02:56:32.120 so I'd imagine
02:56:32.740 that would also
02:56:33.220 be difficult
02:56:34.140 with swimming.
02:56:35.180 What are you talking about?
02:56:36.420 What do you mean
02:56:36.900 well endowed?
02:56:37.340 Well endowed?
02:56:38.440 What are you talking about?
02:56:39.780 Well endowed.
02:56:40.560 Well endowed.
02:56:41.340 I'm just kidding.
02:56:42.340 They're fake though, right?
02:56:43.800 You got fake titties?
02:56:44.740 No, they're not fake.
02:56:45.820 Yeah, they are.
02:56:46.600 They're pretty.
02:56:47.240 They're right there.
02:56:48.500 Are they real or fake?
02:56:50.640 I'd imagine
02:56:51.360 it'd be difficult
02:56:52.420 to be an athlete with.
02:56:54.080 They are.
02:56:54.620 They're right here.
02:56:56.260 I got the fake tittie vision.
02:56:58.780 Okay.
02:56:59.220 I know.
02:56:59.820 Well, either way
02:57:00.620 you're very impressive
02:57:01.520 and I just wonder
02:57:02.360 like
02:57:02.840 is there a reason
02:57:04.580 that you would choose
02:57:05.520 like do you have
02:57:06.300 some sort of affinity
02:57:07.540 to OnlyFans
02:57:08.600 and to sex work
02:57:09.780 when you have
02:57:10.380 so much other talent
02:57:11.720 that you could put out there
02:57:13.080 that other people
02:57:14.560 might find
02:57:15.220 the sex work
02:57:16.380 debasing
02:57:16.960 and also find
02:57:18.520 that sex workers
02:57:19.980 eventually find themselves
02:57:21.260 debased.
02:57:22.280 But what do you mean
02:57:23.520 by debased?
02:57:26.460 Like regretful?
02:57:27.060 Welcome to the
02:57:27.580 whatever podcast.
02:57:30.120 OnlyFans intervention.
02:57:32.300 Well, no,
02:57:33.080 I think this is
02:57:33.720 like the biggest
02:57:34.280 like difference
02:57:34.920 between like
02:57:35.280 what you guys think
02:57:35.980 and what other people think
02:57:36.960 and it's basically
02:57:37.740 not for everybody
02:57:38.860 sex work is inherently
02:57:40.040 debasing
02:57:40.560 and it is intimate
02:57:41.680 for a lot of women
02:57:42.540 but that doesn't
02:57:43.200 necessarily mean
02:57:43.960 like that sexualization
02:57:45.060 of the self
02:57:46.680 is seen as a bad thing.
02:57:48.020 It can become a bad thing.
02:57:49.340 It can become objectification
02:57:50.660 but I think a lot of people
02:57:52.000 also associate that
02:57:53.040 with a lot of other jobs
02:57:54.300 that they think
02:57:54.920 are even worse.
02:57:55.840 So for example,
02:57:57.060 McDonald's
02:57:57.720 or like doing service industries
02:57:59.040 can get very objectifying
02:58:00.860 and humiliating
02:58:01.680 very quickly.
02:58:02.520 I worked at the recs in here
02:58:04.400 so I literally
02:58:05.320 just went to the gym
02:58:06.260 earlier today at UCSB.
02:58:07.540 I had to clean up
02:58:08.300 literal human shit
02:58:09.300 and I think that was like
02:58:10.280 way more
02:58:10.960 that's the most
02:58:11.540 humiliating thing ever.
02:58:12.720 Hold on just a sec.
02:58:13.500 $99.
02:58:15.040 For Amy,
02:58:15.860 I appreciate you teaching them
02:58:17.480 that selling your body
02:58:18.520 on the internet
02:58:19.200 is not the only way
02:58:20.580 to make money
02:58:21.260 these days.
02:58:22.620 Clearly,
02:58:23.620 there are better ways
02:58:24.660 to make money
02:58:25.360 than starting
02:58:26.080 an early fans
02:58:26.940 but how does one
02:58:28.320 new RR
02:58:29.040 what the learn
02:58:29.600 of averages is?
02:58:31.580 Earn their fans.
02:58:33.020 How does one
02:58:33.900 learn
02:58:34.460 of averages?
02:58:37.420 Yeah,
02:58:38.000 I mean,
02:58:38.340 I'm not saying
02:58:38.760 it's the only way
02:58:39.480 to make income
02:58:40.020 but I think
02:58:40.520 that's another avenue
02:58:41.420 that I want to
02:58:42.020 take advantage of
02:58:42.780 when I'm young
02:58:43.460 once I hit like
02:58:44.520 33 or something
02:58:47.900 then it's like
02:58:48.620 completely gone
02:58:49.300 or I can go towards
02:58:50.540 an avenue
02:58:51.160 where it's like
02:58:51.680 oh,
02:58:51.880 it's just bikini modeling
02:58:52.700 it's like
02:58:53.020 oh,
02:58:53.320 it's equivalent to
02:58:54.260 it's like
02:58:54.520 oh,
02:58:54.680 your mom was like
02:58:55.240 a Playboy bunny
02:58:55.960 which for my circle
02:58:58.480 and people in California
02:59:00.060 and LA
02:59:00.500 is not that negative
02:59:01.700 of a thing
02:59:02.400 How did it start?
02:59:04.080 How did you start
02:59:04.800 doing what you're doing?
02:59:05.740 Like,
02:59:05.920 what was the moment
02:59:06.720 and did you have
02:59:07.540 any questions
02:59:08.960 or precautions
02:59:09.620 about it before going in
02:59:11.100 and if so,
02:59:11.860 what changed your mind?
02:59:13.140 So,
02:59:13.540 I used to do Patreon
02:59:14.380 where I would sell
02:59:15.240 professional prints
02:59:16.160 because I'm also
02:59:16.720 really into photography
02:59:17.720 and like cosplays
02:59:18.780 and all of that
02:59:19.400 so I would have
02:59:20.820 I had a Patreon
02:59:21.640 and then everyone
02:59:22.280 was moving towards
02:59:23.000 OnlyFans
02:59:23.520 even though OnlyFans
02:59:24.280 had like a bad reputation
02:59:25.500 and I'm like
02:59:26.740 but people were like
02:59:27.940 you can do the same
02:59:28.800 exact thing
02:59:29.640 but then you just do it
02:59:30.940 on the OnlyFans platform
02:59:31.880 because there's way more
02:59:32.520 people on there
02:59:33.280 and I think that was
02:59:35.720 kind of the decision
02:59:36.500 and then I saw
02:59:37.360 the revenue
02:59:38.080 and it was great
02:59:39.700 And then did you
02:59:40.260 sexualize your photos
02:59:41.580 more after you switched?
02:59:42.820 Did your type of style
02:59:44.460 of content change
02:59:45.780 the more that you got
02:59:46.600 into working on that platform
02:59:47.840 and realizing what was
02:59:48.800 acceptable at the time?
02:59:51.300 I guess it was
02:59:52.720 a little bit more
02:59:53.520 sexualized
02:59:54.120 but I still do not
02:59:55.740 for example
02:59:56.420 show any vagina
02:59:58.100 or like do any
03:00:00.100 like solo content
03:00:01.260 But did you do
03:00:01.440 on Patreon
03:00:02.400 like sexualized content?
03:00:03.980 Did you show your titties
03:00:04.740 on Patreon
03:00:05.240 or just OnlyFans?
03:00:06.540 No,
03:00:07.120 no,
03:00:07.460 I didn't show my titties
03:00:08.380 on Patreon
03:00:09.840 but on OnlyFans
03:00:11.260 So since you started
03:00:12.240 OnlyFans
03:00:12.840 that was one boundary
03:00:13.920 that you kind of
03:00:15.000 were able to push through
03:00:15.920 basically
03:00:16.700 Oh was it against TOS
03:00:18.180 in Patreon?
03:00:19.540 I think in Patreon
03:00:20.540 it was against TOS
03:00:21.380 Oh yeah,
03:00:21.700 Patreon it is
03:00:22.880 But I never thought
03:00:24.280 that like topless content
03:00:25.720 was like super outrageous
03:00:28.180 like I like looking at
03:00:29.720 magazines that had
03:00:30.980 like beautiful
03:00:31.500 like new
03:00:32.600 so I also was an art miner
03:00:34.320 and then we always
03:00:35.340 had new models
03:00:36.280 to where we would
03:00:37.900 draw them
03:00:38.520 and I wasn't like
03:00:39.720 how dare they
03:00:40.580 show their titties
03:00:41.220 and the guys
03:00:41.720 are literally
03:00:42.400 completely naked
03:00:43.340 and you would
03:00:43.800 draw their penises
03:00:45.160 and I just never
03:00:46.600 thought that was
03:00:47.860 a terrible thing
03:00:49.600 It was at UCSB
03:00:51.700 by the way
03:00:52.120 they were like
03:00:52.840 my like figure drawing
03:00:54.020 class
03:00:54.280 Drawing penises?
03:00:55.220 What?
03:00:55.560 Like yeah
03:00:55.900 they would draw
03:00:56.720 yeah they would
03:00:57.460 have nude models
03:00:58.820 to like study
03:01:00.160 study the human body
03:01:02.420 I just never thought
03:01:03.700 it was such a
03:01:05.000 like taboo thing
03:01:06.100 Wait, okay
03:01:06.360 question for all the
03:01:07.300 girls here
03:01:07.660 who do OnlyFans
03:01:08.540 do you object to
03:01:10.580 and maybe you've
03:01:11.380 heard this from men
03:01:12.060 but would you object
03:01:13.340 to a man not
03:01:14.180 wanting to date you
03:01:15.220 because you do
03:01:15.960 OnlyFans?
03:01:17.100 I think that's fine
03:01:17.740 I think it's fine
03:01:18.820 they don't have to
03:01:19.860 date me
03:01:20.440 My ex
03:01:21.320 but do you have
03:01:22.100 any feelings about it
03:01:23.080 like fuck you
03:01:23.940 you don't know me
03:01:24.960 No
03:01:25.600 No
03:01:26.020 They're just ignorant
03:01:27.860 They're immediately
03:01:29.480 ignorant
03:01:30.080 because it's like
03:01:30.780 you don't know me
03:01:31.260 as a person
03:01:31.900 like you know
03:01:32.580 I could be the best
03:01:33.300 wife, the best mother
03:01:34.300 just because of my
03:01:35.300 job title
03:01:35.860 you're going to
03:01:36.540 you know
03:01:37.060 like shit yourself
03:01:38.520 out of luck
03:01:38.940 pretty much
03:01:39.540 because you can go
03:01:40.180 be with a regular
03:01:40.760 girl that has a
03:01:41.520 nine to five
03:01:42.000 and she can be
03:01:42.940 shit to you as well
03:01:43.940 so I mean
03:01:45.500 and that happens
03:01:46.480 in real life
03:01:47.440 it does happen
03:01:48.120 but if you had to
03:01:48.760 choose between
03:01:49.700 a regular chick
03:01:51.440 who's shitty
03:01:52.760 versus a chick
03:01:58.060 that does sex work
03:01:59.680 who's shitty
03:02:00.200 At least a sex work
03:02:01.780 gets bred
03:02:02.460 like at least
03:02:03.020 they can spoil you
03:02:03.580 Yeah but you don't
03:02:04.280 share it
03:02:05.000 Women don't share
03:02:05.840 their money with men
03:02:06.900 That's not true
03:02:07.660 That's true
03:02:08.540 That's such a
03:02:09.640 minor answer
03:02:10.440 Wait wait
03:02:10.740 but okay
03:02:11.540 earlier on in the
03:02:12.240 conversation
03:02:12.660 you said during
03:02:13.320 the pandemic
03:02:13.820 you were holding
03:02:14.460 a guy down
03:02:15.120 like you were
03:02:16.440 paying for everything
03:02:17.460 he was living
03:02:17.960 with you
03:02:18.340 and you're like
03:02:19.080 ooh I
03:02:19.600 like I
03:02:20.860 Well she was also
03:02:22.080 doing the housework
03:02:23.000 and the house labor
03:02:23.780 Because yeah she wasn't
03:02:24.020 cooking or cleaning
03:02:24.940 or working out
03:02:25.880 like I would be
03:02:26.980 totally fine
03:02:27.960 with like a
03:02:28.860 trophy husband
03:02:29.860 who just chills
03:02:30.820 and like hangs out
03:02:32.720 and is just like
03:02:33.900 cute
03:02:34.620 that's totally fine
03:02:35.920 with me
03:02:36.260 How much you make?
03:02:39.200 She says Ann
03:02:40.260 didn't work out
03:02:40.960 Brian
03:02:41.260 this was an issue
03:02:42.100 for her
03:02:42.580 I will buy them
03:02:43.440 an Equinox membership
03:02:44.580 like personal trainer
03:02:45.660 Oh he has to work out
03:02:46.700 I mean that's like
03:02:48.140 if they cook and clean
03:02:49.420 it's fine
03:02:49.900 so it's like
03:02:51.140 either or
03:02:51.700 they have to
03:02:52.460 either cook and clean
03:02:53.640 or they work out
03:02:55.180 so
03:02:55.620 one of those
03:02:57.500 So if the guy's
03:02:58.440 shredded
03:02:58.860 you'll be like
03:03:00.440 okay I'll do all the work
03:03:01.340 but at least you're
03:03:02.080 in really good shape
03:03:02.820 I thought it was both
03:03:03.980 I thought he had to be
03:03:04.840 a hot bod
03:03:05.600 and
03:03:06.180 That's like impossible
03:03:07.320 my standards are not
03:03:08.360 that high
03:03:09.000 Is it really like
03:03:10.360 I feel like
03:03:11.480 when it comes to
03:03:12.820 taking care of the house
03:03:14.340 I don't know
03:03:15.880 I live
03:03:16.320 pretty much
03:03:17.360 on my own
03:03:18.180 Guys like
03:03:19.960 don't know
03:03:20.300 how to do laundry
03:03:21.080 guys
03:03:21.980 don't know
03:03:23.100 how to feed themselves
03:03:24.060 I do my laundry
03:03:24.840 I feed myself
03:03:25.400 Can you cook?
03:03:26.200 Amazing
03:03:26.600 I eat out a lot
03:03:29.800 I can cook
03:03:30.560 but I prefer to
03:03:31.220 or sorry
03:03:31.620 I prefer to get
03:03:32.220 take out
03:03:32.720 He doesn't eat out a lot
03:03:33.020 You made that very clear
03:03:34.560 on this show
03:03:35.340 What does your toilet
03:03:37.920 look like though?
03:03:38.980 Is it clean?
03:03:40.260 It looks clean
03:03:40.780 Is your toilet
03:03:42.600 no at home?
03:03:43.760 Well I got the studio
03:03:44.840 I'm taking care of the studio
03:03:46.020 and my other place
03:03:47.240 clean as a motherfucker
03:03:48.900 Okay
03:03:49.540 That's good
03:03:50.100 Do you have a maid?
03:03:52.540 No I clean myself
03:03:53.660 Okay that's good
03:03:54.700 I feel like it's like
03:03:56.020 one or two hours a week
03:03:58.540 What percentages of your meals
03:04:00.540 do you eat at home
03:04:01.360 versus out?
03:04:01.820 Oh I do DoorDash
03:04:02.540 for most of my meals
03:04:03.540 Convenience
03:04:04.940 Opportunity cost
03:04:05.820 How do you wipe your ass?
03:04:07.580 What the fuck?
03:04:08.120 How do you
03:04:10.640 after you go to the bathroom
03:04:11.640 what do you do?
03:04:12.880 Oh my god
03:04:13.300 That's very stupid
03:04:14.240 Bro
03:04:15.840 This is a male topic
03:04:18.000 for my
03:04:18.420 Is it front to back
03:04:19.580 or back to front
03:04:20.380 is that what you're asking?
03:04:21.000 Wait are you talking
03:04:21.240 about my technique
03:04:21.960 or like the full process?
03:04:23.800 She's asking
03:04:24.360 Some don't wipe
03:04:25.380 What the fuck?
03:04:26.400 No that's true
03:04:27.060 Some men don't wipe?
03:04:28.320 No I have heard that as well
03:04:29.800 I take that shit
03:04:29.920 a step forward
03:04:30.740 Not only do you have paper
03:04:32.620 You have a bidet huh?
03:04:34.640 Well
03:04:34.880 You should get
03:04:35.560 No but I have
03:04:36.320 I have the
03:04:37.560 Put it on the Amazon wish list
03:04:38.820 Booty wipes
03:04:39.260 Yeah
03:04:39.600 Booty wipes son
03:04:40.540 No there is like
03:04:41.460 I heard a reddit post
03:04:42.920 this doctor was talking
03:04:43.980 about how like
03:04:45.020 with her male patient
03:04:46.240 she would do like
03:04:46.760 prostate exams
03:04:47.680 and like 50% of them
03:04:49.360 they would sit down
03:04:50.140 on the white piece of paper
03:04:51.420 and when they would
03:04:52.380 get back up
03:04:53.080 they would like
03:04:53.500 leave a mark
03:04:54.580 I'm so drunk
03:04:55.580 Can you guys hear
03:05:03.400 Chad can you hear that?
03:05:04.280 I really like
03:05:08.400 the yelling
03:05:09.380 Welcome to the
03:05:10.040 whatever podcast
03:05:10.780 where the local
03:05:11.580 crackhead is having
03:05:12.660 a blast down
03:05:13.800 down on the street
03:05:14.880 Woo Santa Barbara
03:05:15.740 Did he really?
03:05:18.800 Greed
03:05:19.320 Was it a full can
03:05:21.180 or an empty can?
03:05:25.320 I think
03:05:27.060 I think he plays
03:05:28.020 I want to play
03:05:28.820 He plays League of Legends
03:05:30.000 and he's really upset
03:05:31.120 that nobody wants to
03:05:31.960 do well
03:05:32.380 I have no fucking idea
03:05:35.200 Wait
03:05:36.220 We were talking about
03:05:37.460 what?
03:05:38.040 Wiping your ass
03:05:38.820 We were talking about
03:05:39.320 wiping your ass
03:05:39.840 Yeah why the fuck?
03:05:41.040 Because men are gross
03:05:43.020 is the point
03:05:44.020 but I do think
03:05:45.380 it's similar
03:05:45.920 to intellect
03:05:46.760 like I think
03:05:47.840 women
03:05:48.380 like when it comes
03:05:49.640 to cleanliness
03:05:50.380 similar to intellect
03:05:51.760 they're like
03:05:52.180 average cleanliness
03:05:53.320 whereas men
03:05:54.200 are either
03:05:55.180 like neurotically
03:05:57.040 clean
03:05:57.580 or disgusting
03:05:59.180 Like
03:06:00.180 There's no middle ground
03:06:01.420 Yeah
03:06:02.260 I feel like
03:06:02.920 Let me
03:06:03.780 let's do a couple
03:06:04.940 chats here
03:06:05.600 So we have
03:06:06.840 Liam LA
03:06:08.720 kick that
03:06:09.360 J17
03:06:10.260 What is
03:06:10.920 J17 out?
03:06:13.120 What is
03:06:13.880 J17?
03:06:15.080 Is he
03:06:16.460 Is that a slur?
03:06:17.500 Is it a Jew thing?
03:06:18.480 That's what I was saying
03:06:19.080 Oh my god
03:06:20.100 Is it a Jew thing?
03:06:21.280 I'm so for
03:06:22.100 Bring on the
03:06:23.560 anti-Semitism people
03:06:24.900 I face Nick Fuentes
03:06:26.860 I'm ready
03:06:27.600 I don't know
03:06:28.640 We have Anonymous here
03:06:30.240 Basic human dynamics
03:06:31.940 opposite attracts
03:06:34.020 One is a receiver
03:06:34.960 and one is a giver
03:06:35.900 One likes being on the bottom
03:06:37.420 and one likes being on the top
03:06:38.680 When both are givers
03:06:39.780 you're all competing
03:06:40.380 who is better
03:06:41.020 or vice versa
03:06:42.000 In conclusion
03:06:42.600 bad sex causes
03:06:43.560 failed marriages
03:06:44.280 from Anonymous
03:06:45.220 Thank you very much
03:06:46.460 Appreciate it
03:06:48.020 Pat escalated quickly
03:06:50.020 Pat escalated
03:06:51.320 You don't have good sex
03:06:53.780 Alright
03:06:55.160 We have
03:06:55.720 Big Blue here
03:06:56.780 Oh Brian
03:06:57.740 Bricks and Brain
03:06:58.360 Sorry I'm late
03:06:59.100 Busy day
03:07:00.620 Intervening in fights
03:07:01.800 Counting debate points
03:07:02.740 on my fingers
03:07:03.460 Buying Neutrogena
03:07:04.700 Making pitch decks
03:07:05.540 Identifying as a hippo
03:07:07.700 Anyway
03:07:08.060 Martin is misunderstood
03:07:09.340 Long live
03:07:10.360 Wall Street bets
03:07:11.220 R.I.P.
03:07:13.560 In peace
03:07:14.160 Harambe
03:07:14.720 Yo Stochastic
03:07:15.680 Send me a DM
03:07:16.360 on Instagram
03:07:16.980 Yo Big Blue
03:07:18.340 Lauren
03:07:18.700 Tell the audience
03:07:19.320 about how you got
03:07:19.880 booted from the Air Force
03:07:20.680 Academy for trying
03:07:21.300 to seduce a cadet
03:07:22.220 Oh
03:07:22.980 I left the Air Force
03:07:24.720 Academy on good terms
03:07:26.120 and got an honorable
03:07:27.280 discharge
03:07:28.120 and am currently
03:07:29.540 a veteran
03:07:29.900 Fake news
03:07:31.080 Yeah
03:07:31.460 So you can probably
03:07:32.840 get a VA loan
03:07:33.960 No I can get a VA loan
03:07:35.860 Yeah I absolutely can
03:07:37.180 You should get a quadplex
03:07:38.980 You should
03:07:40.980 Okay
03:07:42.320 Kona 19
03:07:42.980 Head for men
03:07:44.340 versus women
03:07:44.760 is very different
03:07:45.400 Some men find the idea
03:07:46.500 of unsettling
03:07:47.480 of sticking their tongue
03:07:48.260 in the hole
03:07:48.920 that excretes
03:07:50.620 blood
03:07:51.440 old tissue
03:07:52.120 pee
03:07:52.380 and multiple dicks
03:07:53.480 have came inside
03:07:54.820 of before
03:07:55.540 You lick the clit
03:07:56.680 You already don't know
03:07:57.460 how to do it
03:07:58.160 just by that description
03:07:59.440 What do you mean
03:08:00.180 Don't throw Kona 19
03:08:02.180 under the bus
03:08:03.100 What
03:08:03.340 No I'm talking about
03:08:04.180 the fact that he
03:08:04.860 just said in the hole
03:08:06.140 like what are you talking
03:08:07.420 You just
03:08:07.840 Guys don't think
03:08:08.620 they're talking there
03:08:09.520 I mean when they do
03:08:10.480 it's like
03:08:10.960 It's a proximity
03:08:11.860 proximity thing
03:08:13.360 Pee comes from the same hole
03:08:14.980 as the blood
03:08:16.180 which I think is very funny
03:08:17.340 Same for them
03:08:18.300 as well
03:08:18.920 How are you getting
03:08:19.960 tissue up in there
03:08:20.880 I don't know
03:08:21.420 Oh yeah you said pee
03:08:22.460 Wow okay
03:08:23.460 I think he thinks
03:08:26.420 women have a
03:08:27.200 He doesn't pee
03:08:27.760 out of the vagina
03:08:28.720 Women pee out of the vagina
03:08:30.740 Wait
03:08:31.360 What
03:08:31.920 Wait are you being
03:08:33.200 are you joking
03:08:33.840 Yeah no
03:08:35.000 Conan
03:08:36.400 That's what he thinks
03:08:37.600 I am confirming
03:08:39.120 his beliefs
03:08:39.740 We have only two holes
03:08:42.180 When it comes to
03:08:44.520 peeing
03:08:44.900 When it comes to
03:08:45.580 peeing though
03:08:46.060 you could actually
03:08:46.640 argue that
03:08:47.600 I mean the
03:08:48.500 urethra is closer
03:08:49.640 to the clit
03:08:50.300 than the
03:08:50.900 so I mean
03:08:52.200 The tip
03:08:53.260 that we have to
03:08:54.340 insert
03:08:54.860 The urethra
03:08:56.460 is closer to the clit
03:08:57.500 So where you pee out of
03:08:58.840 is closer to the clit
03:08:59.620 Than the vagina
03:09:00.480 So you're saying
03:09:02.180 that when they're
03:09:02.700 licking the clit
03:09:03.900 they're getting some pee
03:09:05.000 And so are we
03:09:06.100 No you're saying
03:09:07.480 that men pee
03:09:08.940 No I'm saying
03:09:09.900 that the proximity
03:09:10.660 The proximity
03:09:12.100 of the female
03:09:12.700 urethra
03:09:13.220 is closer
03:09:14.900 to the clitoris
03:09:16.480 than say like
03:09:17.140 the vagina
03:09:17.840 He's just trying
03:09:19.020 to show off
03:09:19.620 his anatomy skills
03:09:20.880 He's just trying
03:09:22.340 to prove
03:09:22.860 that he knows
03:09:23.440 how to make
03:09:23.840 a woman
03:09:24.120 child
03:09:24.440 He's like
03:09:24.480 you're a little
03:09:24.860 bit correct
03:09:25.440 Okay we'll
03:09:26.280 give you that
03:09:26.780 He's like
03:09:27.360 look at me
03:09:27.820 using lame heart
03:09:28.820 terms
03:09:29.300 I know
03:09:30.340 female anatomy
03:09:31.260 He's like
03:09:31.620 I know clitoris
03:09:32.960 I swear
03:09:33.540 I know labia
03:09:34.620 Yo
03:09:34.900 Oh we got
03:09:36.080 Big Red
03:09:36.660 Thank you man
03:09:38.220 I appreciate it
03:09:39.620 Wow that was scuffed
03:09:40.280 To the ABG
03:09:41.100 in the front right
03:09:41.980 corner
03:09:42.460 a Texan
03:09:43.200 could treat you
03:09:44.000 right
03:09:44.400 Brian checked
03:09:45.580 out during
03:09:46.220 the of convo
03:09:47.060 the same way
03:09:47.940 the girls
03:09:48.460 would have
03:09:48.840 during a wow
03:09:49.640 rant
03:09:50.100 but he wasn't
03:09:51.120 playing wow
03:09:51.840 World of Warcraft
03:09:53.160 Wow
03:09:54.040 Do you have
03:09:54.920 a response to him
03:09:56.060 He's calling
03:09:56.880 you an ABG
03:09:58.140 What's that
03:09:58.940 Asian boba girl
03:09:59.840 Wait
03:10:00.060 Asian baby girl
03:10:01.000 Asian baby girl
03:10:01.880 Isn't that for girls
03:10:02.700 who are like
03:10:03.060 from here
03:10:03.900 Yeah I think
03:10:04.360 it typically applies
03:10:05.340 to like
03:10:05.680 American born
03:10:06.540 Asian women
03:10:07.440 who have
03:10:08.600 a certain
03:10:09.040 like attitude
03:10:10.320 or style
03:10:10.800 or something
03:10:11.260 It used to be
03:10:12.320 like related
03:10:13.160 to gangs
03:10:13.700 but now
03:10:14.140 it's more
03:10:14.400 of an aesthetic
03:10:14.960 so it's like
03:10:15.660 someone who
03:10:16.280 has tattoos
03:10:17.180 died here
03:10:17.800 and goes to raves
03:10:19.120 Do you have
03:10:23.780 a response to him
03:10:24.960 I didn't really
03:10:26.020 catch it
03:10:26.740 What did he say
03:10:28.340 He said
03:10:28.920 to the
03:10:30.180 here
03:10:30.440 to the ABG
03:10:31.900 in the front corner
03:10:32.520 a Texan
03:10:33.260 could treat you right
03:10:34.080 so he's asking
03:10:34.720 you out
03:10:35.120 I would vouch
03:10:37.500 to other boys
03:10:38.100 I've never been
03:10:38.780 That'd be cool
03:10:39.740 Okay I guess
03:10:40.780 are your DMs
03:10:41.500 open or not
03:10:42.060 because you have
03:10:42.540 like three boyfriends
03:10:43.240 right now
03:10:43.820 I thought I was seven
03:10:45.380 Yeah I have no clue
03:10:47.020 You what?
03:10:48.520 You could try
03:10:49.040 There's a lot
03:10:49.900 You could try
03:10:50.500 Wait okay
03:10:51.200 give us more details
03:10:52.260 about how much
03:10:53.040 competition there is
03:10:53.960 though
03:10:54.100 Like okay
03:10:54.780 so you said
03:10:55.420 there's like
03:10:55.860 your kind of dating
03:10:57.200 be specific
03:10:59.820 Do I have to?
03:11:01.260 You have to
03:11:02.020 You're gonna make me cry
03:11:02.940 I'm gonna make you
03:11:04.280 Wait you're gonna cry?
03:11:06.560 No okay
03:11:06.960 so as your friend
03:11:08.080 I would say
03:11:08.640 sexually is literally
03:11:09.660 just like one person
03:11:11.480 Oh wait
03:11:12.780 so sexually
03:11:13.700 If that
03:11:14.680 You're hooking up
03:11:15.380 Yeah
03:11:15.780 Just one
03:11:16.400 Or just one person
03:11:18.000 Like who like
03:11:19.580 barely
03:11:19.940 Barely what?
03:11:21.660 Like they don't
03:11:22.920 They don't what?
03:11:24.000 They just thought
03:11:24.740 It's not like
03:11:25.220 No it's not like
03:11:25.900 No no no
03:11:26.740 They don't see each other
03:11:27.460 every single day
03:11:28.060 and they don't live together
03:11:28.840 and things like that
03:11:30.060 Like it's just like
03:11:30.840 Yeah
03:11:31.560 One person
03:11:32.420 sexually
03:11:33.520 with their situation
03:11:35.100 Yeah
03:11:36.060 Do you feel okay
03:11:37.020 with her saying
03:11:38.020 your situation?
03:11:39.420 Oh no you can
03:11:39.960 you can talk
03:11:40.660 I mean
03:11:41.280 She said if that
03:11:42.840 so what do you mean
03:11:43.720 by if that?
03:11:44.600 You mean she's not actually
03:11:45.700 He comes around
03:11:47.300 from time to time
03:11:48.140 right?
03:11:48.940 You know?
03:11:50.120 Wait so you guys
03:11:50.820 Wait do you like
03:11:52.720 this guy for her?
03:11:53.960 Do you like this
03:11:54.620 man for her?
03:11:55.440 You think he's good for her?
03:11:56.520 If she likes him
03:11:57.760 Do you like
03:11:58.740 If she likes him too
03:12:00.840 Have you met the guy?
03:12:01.840 Have you met the guy?
03:12:02.820 Yeah
03:12:02.980 Wait how long
03:12:03.440 have you been seeing him?
03:12:05.140 Um
03:12:05.540 I don't know
03:12:08.000 Maybe a few months
03:12:09.180 So what
03:12:10.600 you guys fuck once a week
03:12:11.780 kind of thing?
03:12:12.520 What do you mean?
03:12:13.520 I guess whenever he wants
03:12:14.920 But okay
03:12:15.520 How
03:12:15.780 If you had
03:12:16.740 When does he want to?
03:12:18.560 Once a week
03:12:19.140 Probably every time
03:12:21.200 Do you want anything?
03:12:21.980 No no no
03:12:22.100 But how
03:12:22.440 How often
03:12:23.620 Every time
03:12:25.980 Like once a year
03:12:26.940 Like
03:12:27.240 How often is he swinging by?
03:12:30.180 Twice a week?
03:12:31.540 Twice a week?
03:12:32.120 Does he
03:12:32.480 Have you had any conversations
03:12:34.060 with like
03:12:34.700 where this is heading?
03:12:35.840 Do you want to
03:12:36.540 like have a relationship
03:12:38.080 or
03:12:38.580 Do you want a relationship?
03:12:39.540 Or do you not care at all?
03:12:40.780 I'm not really sure
03:12:41.800 I think I just
03:12:42.600 I am just going
03:12:43.900 with the flow
03:12:44.560 Do you have needs?
03:12:47.680 I
03:12:48.080 I think I barely do
03:12:49.540 actually
03:12:50.020 but then if my partner
03:12:51.240 wants to
03:12:51.840 then like
03:12:52.360 I would be more than
03:12:53.300 happy to
03:12:54.060 Wait so question
03:12:55.740 His type of girl
03:12:56.600 I'm just kidding
03:12:56.980 He comes over
03:12:59.960 Do you guys like
03:13:01.480 kick it
03:13:02.120 or is it like
03:13:02.740 he comes over
03:13:03.320 you fuck and he dips?
03:13:04.680 Oh we do stuff
03:13:05.560 We do
03:13:06.320 Like dates
03:13:08.520 And then like
03:13:09.940 Oh you'll go out
03:13:10.860 in public
03:13:11.340 Like I said
03:13:12.320 I'm dating
03:13:13.320 I don't do that shit
03:13:14.400 Big Blue donated
03:13:15.260 $100
03:13:16.060 Lauren
03:13:17.380 as I recall
03:13:18.580 although you received
03:13:19.840 an honorable D
03:13:20.760 you got kicked out
03:13:21.920 of Yusufir
03:13:22.680 Can you tell us
03:13:23.900 the full story?
03:13:25.020 Or is it too embarrassing?
03:13:26.920 You can't get kicked
03:13:27.700 If you got kicked out
03:13:29.100 it would be
03:13:30.100 a dishonorable discharge
03:13:31.500 so on like
03:13:32.440 my military paperwork
03:13:33.540 it says I have
03:13:34.520 an honorable discharge
03:13:35.920 I don't know
03:13:36.500 what their
03:13:36.940 I don't know
03:13:38.500 who this person is
03:13:39.700 but nope
03:13:40.900 have an honorable discharge
03:13:42.400 honorably served
03:13:43.460 my country for two years
03:13:44.580 did basic training
03:13:46.260 I did ESET
03:13:47.280 I did SEER
03:13:48.320 then I went on
03:13:50.660 to get a math degree
03:13:51.780 and then I went on
03:13:52.720 to go to law school
03:13:54.300 and then I passed the bar
03:13:55.620 and speaking of
03:13:57.320 the honorable D
03:13:58.460 you can honorably
03:13:59.620 suck my D
03:14:00.500 so
03:14:00.920 Are you gonna
03:14:03.800 hold on
03:14:04.300 are you gonna let her
03:14:05.100 talk to you like
03:14:05.880 that
03:14:06.220 don't let her
03:14:06.760 okay
03:14:06.980 alright we have
03:14:08.100 Eric Beck
03:14:08.780 why are men paying
03:14:09.840 to view these women
03:14:10.560 in OF Google images
03:14:11.920 you can see women
03:14:12.600 for free
03:14:13.040 and corn on the hub
03:14:14.620 you can view
03:14:15.280 the act for free
03:14:16.120 how do you keep
03:14:17.020 these people paying
03:14:17.940 for your content
03:14:18.900 I mean isn't it
03:14:19.680 just like a
03:14:20.280 there's the actual
03:14:21.580 engagement of
03:14:22.340 messaging back and forth
03:14:24.320 there's also like
03:14:25.760 DMCA
03:14:26.460 yeah it's like
03:14:27.900 more about the
03:14:28.580 personality
03:14:29.080 but also there's
03:14:29.900 DMCA
03:14:30.400 you usually
03:14:31.720 especially now
03:14:32.580 can't see everything
03:14:33.600 that people put up
03:14:34.960 like even when
03:14:36.560 it comes to
03:14:37.320 what was that
03:14:38.160 musician
03:14:38.560 who I cancelled
03:14:40.260 recently
03:14:40.860 Lizzo
03:14:41.860 Lizzo
03:14:42.420 no no no
03:14:43.160 Lizzo
03:14:43.700 Lizzo
03:14:44.280 Lizzo got cancelled
03:14:44.780 yeah she got cancelled
03:14:45.940 recently
03:14:46.280 because she made
03:14:47.900 oh my god
03:14:48.700 I made a whole video
03:14:49.300 on this
03:14:49.600 okay anyway
03:14:51.480 I changed like
03:14:52.020 the lyrics to her
03:14:52.740 songs to like
03:14:53.500 make a video on this
03:14:54.260 but anyway
03:14:54.560 she forced her
03:14:56.040 forced
03:14:56.880 wait wait wait
03:14:57.240 let's not talk about it
03:14:57.940 it doesn't matter
03:14:58.640 the point is that
03:15:00.140 she had like
03:15:01.000 for example
03:15:01.400 like a video of her
03:15:02.340 like go viral
03:15:02.980 because she fell off
03:15:03.700 the stage
03:15:04.120 and then like
03:15:04.520 saw everything
03:15:05.160 and she erased it
03:15:06.440 by the internet
03:15:07.360 or from the internet
03:15:08.540 it's just that
03:15:09.400 DMCA erasing
03:15:11.900 is very strong now
03:15:13.040 with technology
03:15:13.920 okay
03:15:14.880 all right
03:15:16.040 Stifler
03:15:16.400 ask the ladies
03:15:17.200 ask everyone
03:15:18.060 to rate their looks
03:15:18.680 on a scale
03:15:19.140 of 1 to 10
03:15:20.160 rate our own looks
03:15:22.620 or each other
03:15:24.040 like what are you
03:15:24.540 talking about
03:15:24.900 okay so
03:15:25.340 no no no
03:15:25.700 so rate your own looks
03:15:29.480 we'll go around
03:15:29.920 the table like this
03:15:30.840 like right at this moment
03:15:32.560 yeah
03:15:33.560 on a scale of 1 to 10
03:15:35.220 what do you rate
03:15:35.660 your own looks
03:15:36.200 it depends on the day
03:15:37.740 man
03:15:38.020 just like right now
03:15:39.000 um
03:15:39.760 like
03:15:40.940 6
03:15:42.300 7
03:15:42.940 don't do that
03:15:44.260 Pixie
03:15:44.740 7
03:15:45.360 yeah I would say
03:15:46.340 7
03:15:46.780 I would say
03:15:47.280 on a good day
03:15:47.860 a 10 out of 10
03:15:48.620 yeah a good day
03:15:49.740 I'm like 9
03:15:50.340 yeah it depends
03:15:51.180 on the day
03:15:51.900 don't start that
03:15:55.400 don't start that
03:15:56.220 laughing
03:15:56.720 10 out of 10
03:15:57.820 okay
03:16:00.140 alright
03:16:00.980 yeah
03:16:01.580 okay
03:16:02.060 yes very
03:16:03.160 very much so
03:16:03.960 10 out of 10
03:16:05.560 in delusion
03:16:06.760 what do you rate
03:16:08.060 yourself Brian
03:16:08.760 6
03:16:09.160 what do you rate
03:16:11.900 yourself
03:16:12.620 I said
03:16:13.340 you already said
03:16:14.060 7
03:16:14.320 okay
03:16:14.740 uh
03:16:15.640 Lauren
03:16:16.120 4
03:16:16.680 3
03:16:17.380 what the fuck
03:16:19.460 Lauren
03:16:19.960 sorry
03:16:20.680 no okay
03:16:21.120 for women
03:16:21.660 I feel like
03:16:22.300 the scale is
03:16:23.000 always above 5
03:16:24.080 like that's like
03:16:24.900 the 0
03:16:25.380 here's the thing
03:16:25.580 are we going
03:16:25.980 purely based off looks
03:16:27.240 or is it also
03:16:28.080 intellect personality
03:16:29.060 just looks
03:16:29.740 just looks
03:16:30.440 looks
03:16:30.640 okay wait no
03:16:31.760 I'm sorry
03:16:32.220 before you continue
03:16:33.040 this girl
03:16:33.940 we went out
03:16:34.520 to the freaking
03:16:35.000 bars like
03:16:35.720 the other day
03:16:36.580 seven men
03:16:37.440 hit on her
03:16:38.040 like in the night
03:16:38.900 like one
03:16:39.700 after the other
03:16:40.240 after the other
03:16:40.960 after the other
03:16:41.540 I'm just saying
03:16:42.440 like you have to
03:16:42.980 be delusional
03:16:43.520 to think you're
03:16:44.020 not a 7
03:16:44.480 at least
03:16:45.340 okay I'm done
03:16:46.320 okay
03:16:47.280 cool
03:16:49.220 yeah I'm just
03:16:50.140 saying
03:16:50.660 haha
03:16:51.280 um
03:16:53.660 so like
03:16:54.880 fresh out of
03:16:55.580 the shower
03:16:56.080 like
03:16:56.900 nothing
03:16:58.040 I'd say
03:16:58.820 like yeah
03:16:59.380 6 probably
03:17:00.280 wow
03:17:01.780 you guys really
03:17:02.720 underdid it
03:17:03.620 I feel like
03:17:04.140 well no
03:17:04.920 because think of
03:17:05.840 a 10
03:17:06.120 think of the
03:17:06.540 most perfect
03:17:07.160 most beautiful
03:17:08.040 woman that
03:17:08.600 you've ever seen
03:17:09.460 and then try to
03:17:10.500 like calculate
03:17:11.200 the disparity
03:17:11.800 between you and
03:17:12.520 her
03:17:12.740 I'm just being
03:17:13.500 logical
03:17:13.960 like honestly
03:17:15.540 yeah I mean
03:17:16.280 for sure
03:17:16.740 okay what about
03:17:17.140 what about
03:17:17.480 on your best day
03:17:18.340 like your best
03:17:19.120 day like
03:17:19.740 professional makeup
03:17:20.840 oh totally
03:17:21.460 like I mean
03:17:22.720 yeah like
03:17:23.240 8 7 8
03:17:24.400 sure
03:17:24.960 but
03:17:25.920 I'm at 10
03:17:26.540 right now
03:17:27.200 I'm just gonna
03:17:28.080 say
03:17:28.540 also like
03:17:30.900 attraction
03:17:31.380 is so
03:17:32.080 subjective
03:17:32.600 like I grew
03:17:33.440 up with a
03:17:33.760 really low
03:17:34.180 self esteem
03:17:34.660 especially in
03:17:35.260 Bakersfield
03:17:35.680 there's no
03:17:36.180 Asians
03:17:36.520 people like
03:17:36.860 what the
03:17:37.280 fuck is
03:17:37.600 wrong with
03:17:37.880 your face
03:17:38.320 but there's
03:17:38.380 also general
03:17:39.040 things right
03:17:39.700 so like
03:17:40.040 symmetry
03:17:40.440 is one thing
03:17:41.280 that people
03:17:41.640 really look
03:17:42.220 for like
03:17:42.640 there's sort
03:17:43.160 of like
03:17:43.380 like things
03:17:43.820 based in
03:17:44.240 health
03:17:44.600 right
03:17:44.900 so like
03:17:45.240 your
03:17:45.380 complexion
03:17:45.940 having
03:17:46.160 healthy
03:17:46.520 clear skin
03:17:47.160 these are
03:17:47.760 things that
03:17:48.120 like psychologically
03:17:49.000 we're programmed
03:17:49.900 to look out
03:17:50.580 for right
03:17:51.580 so there are
03:17:52.200 certain
03:17:52.580 determining factors
03:17:53.900 that really
03:17:55.080 state whether
03:17:55.680 or not
03:17:55.960 somebody's
03:17:56.360 attractive
03:17:56.780 it's not
03:17:57.300 as subjective
03:17:58.040 as what
03:17:58.480 some people
03:17:58.960 would make
03:17:59.300 it seem
03:17:59.700 for sure
03:18:00.240 beauty is in
03:18:01.100 the eye of
03:18:01.500 the holder
03:18:02.200 I agree
03:18:02.780 with that
03:18:03.080 to some
03:18:03.340 extent
03:18:03.620 but there
03:18:03.940 are parameters
03:18:04.660 which define
03:18:06.040 that to
03:18:06.840 some degree
03:18:07.340 to some
03:18:08.020 degree
03:18:08.340 depending on
03:18:09.140 like the
03:18:09.460 culture
03:18:09.840 depending on
03:18:10.500 the region
03:18:10.960 and the
03:18:11.280 area
03:18:11.660 and what
03:18:12.700 is popular
03:18:13.240 sure I
03:18:13.980 mean there's
03:18:14.280 some cultures
03:18:14.740 where right
03:18:15.120 it's bad
03:18:15.540 to be tan
03:18:16.100 because they're
03:18:16.580 like if
03:18:16.880 you're tan
03:18:17.360 then that
03:18:17.680 means you
03:18:18.000 work outside
03:18:18.700 therefore
03:18:19.000 you're a
03:18:19.380 peasant
03:18:19.760 only the
03:18:20.680 really pale
03:18:21.620 people are
03:18:22.480 attractive
03:18:23.040 right
03:18:23.560 versus
03:18:24.040 in a lot
03:18:25.340 of western
03:18:25.720 cultures
03:18:26.180 being tan
03:18:26.840 is considered
03:18:27.340 a lot more
03:18:28.000 attractive
03:18:28.440 so I get
03:18:29.580 being subjective
03:18:30.620 in that sense
03:18:31.520 but I feel
03:18:32.040 like there's
03:18:32.420 certain factors
03:18:33.040 especially where
03:18:33.700 symmetry
03:18:34.160 is involved
03:18:35.440 that is a
03:18:36.380 really large
03:18:37.280 determination
03:18:38.040 of whether
03:18:38.660 someone's
03:18:39.020 attractive
03:18:39.320 yeah I guess
03:18:39.840 that's like
03:18:40.260 kind of
03:18:40.640 genetic
03:18:41.200 can we see
03:18:42.120 like who
03:18:42.640 is because
03:18:43.140 wasn't there
03:18:43.580 like a vote
03:18:44.180 of like
03:18:44.620 America's
03:18:45.160 most attractive
03:18:45.760 people it
03:18:46.380 was like
03:18:46.740 two people
03:18:47.400 a man
03:18:47.860 and a woman
03:18:48.840 I feel
03:18:49.120 like they
03:18:49.340 were
03:18:49.500 what was
03:18:50.080 this
03:18:50.460 every year
03:18:50.940 they come
03:18:51.380 up with a
03:18:51.780 list
03:18:52.140 of the
03:18:52.540 most
03:18:52.740 attractive
03:18:53.100 people
03:18:53.560 celebrities
03:18:54.120 like Kim
03:18:55.060 Kardashian
03:18:55.460 didn't
03:18:57.400 Jennifer
03:18:57.720 Aniston
03:18:58.160 win like
03:18:58.880 two years
03:18:59.580 but like
03:19:00.260 very like
03:19:00.900 decades
03:19:01.300 apart
03:19:01.780 that's so
03:19:02.360 funny
03:19:02.740 I think she
03:19:04.280 did
03:19:04.540 really quick
03:19:06.020 we had
03:19:06.520 Liam here
03:19:07.780 Liam sorry
03:19:08.420 the TTS
03:19:08.920 didn't come
03:19:09.280 through
03:19:09.420 it's probably
03:19:09.760 because you
03:19:10.400 used a
03:19:10.680 profanity
03:19:11.220 the robot
03:19:12.180 voice doesn't
03:19:12.860 like to
03:19:13.240 read it
03:19:13.780 uh but
03:19:14.820 that girl
03:19:15.780 S'd a D
03:19:17.560 and left
03:19:18.260 I sucked
03:19:19.580 it
03:19:19.820 you're allowed
03:19:20.480 to suck
03:19:20.860 I'm not sure
03:19:21.720 if you're aware
03:19:22.180 about this
03:19:22.700 if you join
03:19:23.280 the military
03:19:23.760 you're still
03:19:24.260 allowed to
03:19:24.600 suck
03:19:24.840 dick
03:19:25.440 that's not
03:19:26.720 like
03:19:27.240 I think it's
03:19:28.080 like a religious
03:19:28.860 boot camp
03:19:29.440 Lauren De La Duna
03:19:30.220 confirm or deny
03:19:31.360 did you suck
03:19:32.460 a dick
03:19:32.880 while you were
03:19:33.400 in the military
03:19:33.960 didn't everyone
03:19:35.800 did I
03:19:36.760 it's not the
03:19:38.760 reason I left
03:19:39.360 the military
03:19:39.880 okay
03:19:40.680 okay
03:19:41.880 there's a lot
03:19:42.760 worse
03:19:43.200 there's a lot
03:19:47.540 worse going
03:19:48.120 on in the
03:19:49.020 military
03:19:49.400 so I just
03:19:50.260 want to say
03:19:50.520 let's bring
03:19:52.700 it to Pixie
03:19:53.620 here
03:19:53.920 I got
03:19:54.380 something for
03:19:54.860 Pixie
03:19:55.320 so Pixie
03:19:57.200 you're a
03:19:57.480 feminist
03:19:57.900 are any
03:20:00.180 of you
03:20:00.520 would you
03:20:01.120 consider
03:20:01.380 yourselves
03:20:01.780 feminists
03:20:02.320 anyone
03:20:02.640 I love
03:20:03.220 humans
03:20:03.980 I don't
03:20:04.720 love
03:20:04.900 anything
03:20:05.240 I don't
03:20:07.320 like
03:20:07.800 I'm
03:20:11.480 sorry
03:20:11.920 I would
03:20:15.040 like
03:20:15.320 things
03:20:15.680 to
03:20:16.040 become
03:20:16.840 more
03:20:17.960 equal
03:20:18.400 but I
03:20:18.760 would
03:20:18.880 say
03:20:19.000 I
03:20:19.120 was
03:20:19.280 way
03:20:19.600 more
03:20:19.800 feminist
03:20:20.160 in
03:20:20.580 college
03:20:21.160 than
03:20:21.460 now
03:20:22.400 okay
03:20:24.580 so you're
03:20:25.640 still kind
03:20:26.020 of
03:20:26.120 feminist
03:20:26.380 but
03:20:26.680 yeah
03:20:27.580 like
03:20:27.880 I think
03:20:28.280 the wage
03:20:28.880 gap
03:20:29.300 like I
03:20:29.640 think the
03:20:29.900 average
03:20:30.160 man
03:20:30.380 makes way
03:20:31.080 more
03:20:31.340 than the
03:20:31.720 average
03:20:32.160 woman
03:20:32.700 that's
03:20:34.740 why
03:20:34.940 men
03:20:35.520 should
03:20:35.860 pay
03:20:36.300 for
03:20:36.460 the
03:20:36.580 first
03:20:36.860 date
03:20:37.200 because
03:20:37.520 women
03:20:37.940 have
03:20:38.180 more
03:20:38.360 consequences
03:20:39.060 erroneous
03:20:40.120 a lot
03:20:41.060 of these
03:20:41.420 things
03:20:41.620 I feel
03:20:41.960 like a lot
03:20:42.260 of these
03:20:42.480 things
03:20:42.680 are
03:20:42.840 applicable
03:20:43.280 and I
03:20:43.800 think
03:20:43.940 everyone
03:20:44.260 I mean
03:20:44.940 their
03:20:45.360 experience
03:20:45.920 and their
03:20:46.520 feelings
03:20:46.780 are valid
03:20:47.300 depending
03:20:47.860 on
03:20:48.160 you know
03:20:48.680 don't you
03:20:49.080 think
03:20:49.300 men
03:20:50.040 are paid
03:20:50.760 more
03:20:51.020 because
03:20:51.340 they
03:20:51.820 choose
03:20:52.340 like
03:20:52.540 they tend
03:20:52.860 to choose
03:20:53.300 more
03:20:53.500 STEM jobs
03:20:54.180 and also
03:20:55.320 their ability
03:20:56.900 to be
03:20:57.340 able to work
03:20:57.880 hard
03:20:58.300 definitely
03:20:59.140 not
03:20:59.580 it depends
03:21:00.480 on the
03:21:00.720 culture
03:21:01.000 like in
03:21:01.460 Asia
03:21:01.780 all the
03:21:02.380 women
03:21:02.600 are in
03:21:03.000 STEM
03:21:03.340 in white
03:21:03.940 collar jobs
03:21:04.640 and doctors
03:21:05.480 and all
03:21:06.040 of that
03:21:06.320 good at
03:21:06.660 math
03:21:07.060 but in
03:21:07.820 America
03:21:08.320 it's like
03:21:08.860 so when I
03:21:09.340 moved to
03:21:09.560 America
03:21:09.800 I learned
03:21:10.280 algebra
03:21:10.600 in fourth
03:21:10.980 grade
03:21:11.200 and I
03:21:11.360 moved to
03:21:11.560 America
03:21:11.760 people are
03:21:12.200 still on
03:21:13.480 multiplication
03:21:13.860 and all
03:21:14.700 the women
03:21:15.020 acted
03:21:15.420 dumb
03:21:15.900 because it
03:21:16.240 was like
03:21:16.460 a social
03:21:16.800 norm
03:21:17.160 because that
03:21:17.500 was cute
03:21:18.020 so it was
03:21:18.660 really strange
03:21:19.420 no no
03:21:20.780 they're like
03:21:21.140 oh my god
03:21:21.660 I'm so
03:21:22.260 bad
03:21:22.780 and it's
03:21:23.120 popularized
03:21:23.700 in pop
03:21:24.020 culture
03:21:24.500 because it's
03:21:24.960 cute
03:21:25.320 yeah it's
03:21:25.960 cute
03:21:26.340 and I
03:21:26.720 was like
03:21:26.920 what
03:21:27.140 and I
03:21:27.440 was like
03:21:27.700 bullied
03:21:28.200 for being
03:21:28.760 a nerd
03:21:29.180 but there's
03:21:29.740 a lot of
03:21:30.100 cultural
03:21:30.400 differences
03:21:30.880 like in
03:21:31.420 Asia
03:21:31.700 there's a lot
03:21:32.160 more like
03:21:32.640 CEOs that are
03:21:33.720 women and
03:21:34.280 stuff but
03:21:34.800 like here
03:21:35.220 there's not
03:21:35.880 so I would
03:21:36.340 like to
03:21:36.800 push society
03:21:37.720 to kind of
03:21:38.320 like not
03:21:38.720 discriminate
03:21:39.160 against women
03:21:39.920 who like
03:21:40.460 but like
03:21:41.120 assuming they
03:21:41.680 don't work
03:21:42.140 as hard
03:21:42.900 in a capitalist
03:21:43.840 market
03:21:44.380 if we were
03:21:45.200 if a company
03:21:46.140 was really
03:21:47.100 truly trying
03:21:47.840 to maximize
03:21:48.660 profits
03:21:49.120 which is what
03:21:49.560 most companies
03:21:50.040 do
03:21:50.420 and it's
03:21:51.200 true that
03:21:51.860 women just
03:21:52.660 will accept
03:21:53.520 less pay
03:21:54.300 than men
03:21:54.940 then why
03:21:55.600 wouldn't all
03:21:56.140 of these
03:21:56.480 companies
03:21:56.900 hire
03:21:57.380 exclusively
03:21:58.400 women
03:21:58.880 because then
03:21:59.420 they could
03:21:59.700 just pay
03:22:00.200 77 cents
03:22:01.340 down the
03:22:01.660 dollar
03:22:02.000 and make
03:22:02.840 huge
03:22:03.260 because men
03:22:03.960 believe that
03:22:04.660 women are
03:22:05.140 less capable
03:22:05.740 at producing
03:22:06.360 good work
03:22:06.880 when it comes
03:22:07.340 to STEM
03:22:07.860 so like
03:22:08.480 that's a
03:22:08.800 problem
03:22:09.040 there's like
03:22:09.740 these discrepancies
03:22:10.640 between like
03:22:11.180 hiring practices
03:22:12.040 and like
03:22:12.580 the companies
03:22:12.900 I was in all
03:22:13.440 these cozy classes
03:22:14.240 and all these
03:22:14.960 guys are like
03:22:15.580 oh yeah
03:22:15.900 like guys
03:22:16.360 helping you
03:22:16.920 even in my job
03:22:17.880 specifically
03:22:18.520 because I don't
03:22:18.940 really know
03:22:19.300 STEM but when
03:22:19.920 you think about
03:22:20.540 it anybody
03:22:20.980 who's able
03:22:21.580 to maximize
03:22:22.220 and get to
03:22:22.860 like the top
03:22:23.340 like 1-2-3%
03:22:24.700 of their profession
03:22:25.480 to the point
03:22:25.940 where they're
03:22:26.240 making multiple
03:22:26.840 six figures
03:22:27.400 because at that
03:22:28.340 point when you're
03:22:28.840 making six figures
03:22:29.780 you're already
03:22:30.760 considered to be
03:22:31.380 the 1% of
03:22:32.100 American income
03:22:33.260 earners right
03:22:33.820 or like the top
03:22:34.340 3%
03:22:34.980 at least
03:22:35.500 top 3%
03:22:36.560 no it's the top
03:22:37.140 3% actually
03:22:38.160 100,000 per year
03:22:39.360 makes you within
03:22:39.900 the top 3%
03:22:41.120 of income earners
03:22:42.560 that's false
03:22:43.120 no it's not
03:22:43.780 it's not
03:22:44.240 it's not actually
03:22:44.680 it's not
03:22:45.240 no no no
03:22:46.080 look it up
03:22:46.800 because 100k
03:22:47.960 in San Francisco
03:22:48.900 is actually poverty
03:22:49.800 per household
03:22:50.540 yeah I know
03:22:51.060 but when you're
03:22:51.960 talking about America
03:22:54.360 as a whole
03:22:55.340 when you make over
03:22:56.880 100k
03:22:57.740 that is considered
03:22:58.380 the top 3%
03:22:59.700 I thought it was
03:23:00.120 like 10 to 15
03:23:01.180 can we look it up
03:23:02.380 and that is the disparity
03:23:03.380 where women get that wrong
03:23:04.620 because when they talk
03:23:05.340 about the man
03:23:05.980 that they want
03:23:06.460 oh I want a man
03:23:07.020 who makes six figures
03:23:07.920 to be this
03:23:08.480 to be that
03:23:09.000 oftentimes women think
03:23:10.180 that that is a large
03:23:10.980 majority of men
03:23:11.900 to be frank
03:23:12.980 it is in California
03:23:13.800 when you calculate
03:23:14.920 all those factors
03:23:15.600 it's less than 0.5%
03:23:16.980 it's usually less than
03:23:18.180 1% of men
03:23:19.160 who actually make
03:23:19.820 over six figures
03:23:20.660 who are at least
03:23:21.560 like six foot tall
03:23:22.380 for example
03:23:23.000 who have a lot
03:23:24.500 of the other characteristics
03:23:25.420 that women are looking for
03:23:26.600 right so women
03:23:27.740 honestly people
03:23:28.740 really get that messed up
03:23:30.100 when it comes to
03:23:30.940 income expectations
03:23:32.420 and especially with women
03:23:33.760 who are able to
03:23:34.640 maximize their income
03:23:35.540 on platforms like OnlyFans
03:23:37.140 but I'm telling you
03:23:38.600 shit is rare
03:23:39.780 for the average man
03:23:41.160 to make six figures
03:23:41.880 that is exceedingly rare
03:23:44.140 for him to be able
03:23:45.140 to do that
03:23:45.440 regardless of your location
03:23:46.600 we live in San Francisco
03:23:47.640 wait Kathy
03:23:49.280 are you feminist?
03:23:51.080 I'm not sure
03:23:52.020 define it
03:23:53.320 okay maybe you're just
03:23:54.220 apolitical
03:23:54.960 you believe in equality
03:23:55.740 between men and women
03:23:56.800 wait what?
03:23:58.360 feminism
03:23:58.720 you believe in equality
03:24:00.140 between men and women
03:24:01.220 oh is that what feminism is?
03:24:02.960 yeah
03:24:03.180 but that doesn't seem
03:24:04.000 to be feminism's goals
03:24:05.060 right now Pixie
03:24:06.040 I strongly disagree
03:24:07.340 I think a lot of people
03:24:08.800 have a misconception
03:24:09.780 of feminism
03:24:10.400 because you have
03:24:11.660 certain places
03:24:13.160 or people
03:24:13.880 who take like
03:24:14.580 the worst type of women
03:24:15.820 or extremities of women
03:24:17.680 and then put them in place
03:24:18.760 and basically make fun of them
03:24:19.980 so is that like
03:24:20.780 a no true Scotsman?
03:24:22.100 no it's not
03:24:22.680 a no true Scotsman
03:24:23.320 oh they're not actually
03:24:24.020 by definition of feminism
03:24:25.620 you have to believe
03:24:26.500 in equality between women
03:24:27.860 and men
03:24:28.360 if you do not meet
03:24:29.620 that definition
03:24:30.160 you are by definition
03:24:31.220 not a feminist
03:24:31.740 but would you not agree
03:24:32.660 sorry
03:24:33.060 can you look up
03:24:36.020 there are a large majority
03:24:37.720 of women
03:24:38.420 who would claim
03:24:39.020 to be a feminist
03:24:39.740 who literally
03:24:40.320 when they say
03:24:40.880 like what do you think
03:24:41.700 of men
03:24:42.060 or XYZ
03:24:43.000 it's automatically
03:24:43.820 something derogatory
03:24:45.600 or something negative
03:24:46.720 and a lot of those women
03:24:48.180 claim those ideas
03:24:50.100 to be based on
03:24:51.000 their principles
03:24:51.580 of feminism
03:24:52.260 so are you saying
03:24:52.860 they're fake feminists
03:24:53.780 or
03:24:54.240 I think
03:24:55.060 it specifically depends
03:24:56.360 on the context
03:24:56.880 that you're talking about
03:24:57.800 so for example
03:24:58.580 if we're talking about
03:24:59.540 like women
03:25:00.000 who have gone
03:25:00.480 like through
03:25:00.920 SA
03:25:01.900 they might be talking
03:25:03.060 about like
03:25:03.460 oh yeah
03:25:03.740 like
03:25:04.000 these men
03:25:05.720 in general
03:25:06.380 or these men
03:25:07.060 who's just
03:25:07.420 you know
03:25:07.880 these societal problems
03:25:09.400 indicate a problem
03:25:10.280 with how we raise men
03:25:11.580 for example
03:25:12.260 that's very different
03:25:14.140 than being like
03:25:15.100 oh
03:25:15.460 I think
03:25:17.320 all men suck
03:25:18.420 yeah
03:25:18.720 but I feel like
03:25:19.480 a natural
03:25:20.020 like extension
03:25:21.100 of feminism
03:25:21.860 is this whole mindset
03:25:22.700 of like
03:25:23.000 fuck the patriarchy
03:25:24.100 right
03:25:24.420 and that's one thing
03:25:25.400 before I even knew
03:25:26.140 what feminism was
03:25:27.260 I'd heard the term
03:25:28.100 fuck the patriarchy
03:25:29.240 before I even knew
03:25:30.160 what the patriarchy was
03:25:30.800 but that's the loudest
03:25:31.400 of the internet
03:25:31.960 I think feminism
03:25:32.900 is kind of like
03:25:33.840 default
03:25:34.640 in for example
03:25:36.020 LA
03:25:36.600 San Francisco
03:25:37.320 and like
03:25:37.780 a lot of the majority
03:25:39.020 like big cities
03:25:39.940 metropolitan cities
03:25:40.940 such as
03:25:41.640 New York City
03:25:42.580 even Shanghai
03:25:43.560 like
03:25:44.120 I would say
03:25:46.180 even Houston
03:25:46.860 and Dallas
03:25:47.360 like big
03:25:48.060 metropolitan cities
03:25:49.160 like people
03:25:49.760 are default
03:25:50.460 feminists
03:25:51.260 right
03:25:51.540 but my question is
03:25:52.400 the loudest people
03:25:53.360 like portray it
03:25:54.200 as like really negative
03:25:55.160 and I see
03:25:55.880 a lot of people
03:25:57.100 online who are like
03:25:58.040 oh my god
03:25:58.600 these feminazis
03:25:59.800 whatever
03:26:00.100 and I get that
03:26:01.560 so but so
03:26:02.140 okay
03:26:02.440 if the argument
03:26:03.120 of feminism
03:26:03.920 is based on equality
03:26:05.100 then where are we
03:26:06.280 where would you consider
03:26:07.500 us to be
03:26:08.120 unequal in society
03:26:09.280 right now
03:26:10.280 based on the
03:26:10.960 United States
03:26:11.700 of America
03:26:12.260 and where we
03:26:13.280 currently are
03:26:13.900 right now
03:26:14.380 what would you
03:26:14.880 consider to be
03:26:15.520 unequal
03:26:16.120 unbalanced
03:26:16.620 let me add to that
03:26:17.560 too
03:26:17.760 so you were saying
03:26:19.000 feminism is about
03:26:19.920 men and women
03:26:20.740 are equal
03:26:21.200 equal rights
03:26:21.940 right
03:26:22.400 not just equal
03:26:24.680 rights
03:26:24.980 it's a little bit
03:26:25.440 more than that
03:26:26.020 but generally
03:26:26.920 speaking
03:26:27.360 sure
03:26:27.680 okay
03:26:28.320 but would you
03:26:29.240 do you think
03:26:29.820 that women
03:26:30.240 don't have
03:26:31.060 equal rights
03:26:31.840 in the US
03:26:33.640 or in western
03:26:34.740 countries
03:26:35.140 what is it
03:26:35.740 I think in
03:26:36.720 terms of
03:26:37.940 okay what do you
03:26:38.600 define as a right
03:26:39.180 let's start there
03:26:39.700 do you mean like
03:26:40.160 pure constitutional
03:26:40.940 rights
03:26:41.380 I think women
03:26:42.020 and men
03:26:42.340 have
03:26:42.560 reproduction rights
03:26:43.280 men have
03:26:43.740 more
03:26:44.380 we can't just
03:26:45.060 get our tubes
03:26:45.660 tied
03:26:45.840 men actually
03:26:47.060 have no
03:26:48.300 reproductive rights
03:26:49.260 that's not true
03:26:50.420 you guys can get
03:26:51.900 a vasectomy
03:26:52.520 that is a
03:26:53.140 reproductive right
03:26:53.880 that's a
03:26:54.220 reproductive right
03:26:54.980 no reproductive
03:26:56.020 right has to do
03:26:57.120 with the children
03:26:58.580 that's a consummation
03:26:59.880 right
03:27:00.160 no
03:27:00.580 that's what is it
03:27:02.320 wait hold on
03:27:02.920 let me ask you a question
03:27:03.760 if you were to get
03:27:04.760 pregnant and you
03:27:05.860 decided that you
03:27:06.520 didn't want to keep
03:27:07.660 the baby
03:27:08.160 would the person
03:27:09.040 who impregnated
03:27:09.820 you have a choice
03:27:10.840 over your ability
03:27:12.340 to get rid of
03:27:13.780 the baby or not
03:27:14.400 psychologically
03:27:14.920 but no
03:27:16.000 not physically
03:27:16.620 right
03:27:17.160 no but a
03:27:18.100 reproductive right
03:27:18.760 has to do with
03:27:19.440 your body's
03:27:20.900 reproduction
03:27:21.340 the fact that
03:27:22.260 you can get
03:27:22.700 a vasectomy
03:27:23.420 is an example
03:27:24.080 are you comparing
03:27:24.720 vasectomies
03:27:25.740 and abortion
03:27:26.420 no I'm saying
03:27:27.920 I'm saying
03:27:28.480 you're being like
03:27:29.360 men have zero
03:27:30.000 reproductive rights
03:27:30.720 and I'm like
03:27:31.060 that's not true
03:27:31.600 here's one
03:27:32.220 reproductive right
03:27:32.980 that men have
03:27:33.640 I feel like that's
03:27:34.320 a contraceptive right
03:27:35.200 not a reproductive right
03:27:36.320 contraceptive
03:27:37.780 I guess so
03:27:38.620 women are
03:27:41.080 women are
03:27:41.880 legally
03:27:42.500 hold on
03:27:43.360 hold on
03:27:43.880 stop
03:27:44.280 men can get
03:27:46.340 vasectomies
03:27:46.900 women can
03:27:47.820 sterilize themselves
03:27:49.080 too
03:27:49.520 not necessarily
03:27:51.120 you literally
03:27:51.660 have to be
03:27:52.340 oh no
03:27:53.020 you would have to be
03:27:54.320 over a certain age
03:27:55.860 with approval
03:27:56.680 by a husband
03:27:57.580 that is not true
03:27:58.840 yes it depends
03:27:59.800 on the state
03:28:00.260 and on the hospital
03:28:01.200 we can search it up
03:28:02.640 right now
03:28:03.160 there is no law
03:28:03.840 that says
03:28:04.500 so many of my friends
03:28:04.520 try to get their tubes
03:28:05.280 high they can't
03:28:06.040 that is not true
03:28:07.020 that is just
03:28:07.740 that's some myth
03:28:09.040 that feminists
03:28:09.840 have invented
03:28:10.440 is it possible
03:28:11.580 that some doctor
03:28:12.520 was being
03:28:13.220 sexist in some way
03:28:15.240 and he said
03:28:15.600 are you sure
03:28:16.280 your husband's
03:28:16.820 okay with this
03:28:17.320 it's possible
03:28:18.160 but if you're
03:28:19.380 a woman
03:28:19.700 and you want
03:28:20.420 to get your
03:28:20.920 tubes tied
03:28:21.600 you can
03:28:22.760 the fact that
03:28:23.640 hospitals can
03:28:24.560 literally make
03:28:25.280 it a policy
03:28:25.880 for themselves
03:28:26.600 to say
03:28:26.980 we will not
03:28:27.640 give up
03:28:28.040 tie a woman's
03:28:28.860 tubes
03:28:29.160 unless if she
03:28:29.860 has
03:28:30.200 private hospitals
03:28:31.860 can do what
03:28:32.340 they want
03:28:32.840 okay but
03:28:33.360 well
03:28:33.860 private hospitals
03:28:34.820 aren't allowed
03:28:35.380 wait wait wait
03:28:36.080 private hospitals
03:28:37.420 aren't allowed
03:28:37.920 to discriminate
03:28:38.400 based on race
03:28:39.200 for example
03:28:39.940 they're not
03:28:40.380 allowed to say
03:28:40.780 we're not
03:28:41.060 going to take
03:28:41.340 black patients
03:28:42.020 yeah because
03:28:42.900 they have a
03:28:43.380 constitutional requirement
03:28:44.880 but they're not
03:28:45.380 constitutionally required
03:28:46.940 to give anybody
03:28:48.160 who wants
03:28:48.820 one sec
03:28:49.740 quite comparing
03:28:50.600 sf to the united
03:28:51.620 states
03:28:52.340 the u.s national
03:28:53.800 median income
03:28:54.600 is thirty two
03:28:55.420 thousand dollars
03:28:56.300 per year
03:28:56.840 in twenty nineteen
03:28:58.080 no too many
03:28:59.460 people make over
03:29:00.320 one hundred
03:29:01.060 comma oh oh
03:29:02.140 slash year
03:29:03.180 and in order to
03:29:03.960 be in the top
03:29:04.600 one percent of
03:29:05.460 earners you have
03:29:06.200 to make six
03:29:06.980 hundred and fifty
03:29:07.860 thousand dollars
03:29:08.880 per year
03:29:09.520 reality check
03:29:11.020 yeah a hundred
03:29:12.060 k is like top
03:29:12.980 ten to fifteen
03:29:13.860 it's not ten
03:29:14.480 fifteen it's top
03:29:15.280 three at least
03:29:16.000 minimum
03:29:16.340 so but okay
03:29:17.440 what what rights
03:29:18.500 do men have
03:29:19.940 that women don't
03:29:20.580 the only one
03:29:21.300 that i can think
03:29:22.140 of and i think
03:29:23.780 this it depends
03:29:24.460 on your city
03:29:25.060 but men can go
03:29:27.020 topless in public
03:29:27.720 that's the only
03:29:29.220 right i can think
03:29:30.040 of that men
03:29:30.820 have that women
03:29:31.800 don't
03:29:32.080 i wish
03:29:32.780 the fact that
03:29:33.980 hospitals can have
03:29:35.060 a private policy
03:29:35.800 stating oh no
03:29:36.660 we're not gonna
03:29:37.320 allow a woman to
03:29:38.360 get sterilized
03:29:39.120 unless if she has
03:29:39.760 like permission
03:29:40.280 from her husband
03:29:41.080 is already showing
03:29:42.300 a vast difference
03:29:43.220 between how
03:29:43.880 they're treating
03:29:44.540 men and how
03:29:45.140 they're treating
03:29:45.500 women
03:29:45.820 they can have
03:29:46.280 the same thing
03:29:46.880 for men
03:29:47.320 they could
03:29:47.820 a hospital
03:29:48.400 could have
03:29:48.920 a policy
03:29:49.340 saying okay
03:29:49.820 we won't
03:29:50.300 give a man
03:29:50.760 a vasectomy
03:29:51.260 i'm not saying
03:29:51.860 men who got
03:29:52.740 give vasectomies
03:29:53.920 and my women
03:29:54.500 friends who don't
03:29:55.180 want children
03:29:55.660 can we also
03:29:56.680 i i think
03:29:57.680 i'm not sure
03:29:58.680 on the procedure
03:29:59.960 of getting
03:30:00.740 a tubal legation
03:30:01.820 i think it's
03:30:02.260 what it's called
03:30:02.660 and there's also
03:30:03.360 can you also
03:30:04.020 get a hysterectomy
03:30:04.860 i don't
03:30:05.220 there might be
03:30:05.800 a couple different
03:30:06.200 things but
03:30:06.940 we can also
03:30:07.620 agree that
03:30:08.160 i i believe
03:30:09.380 it's a more
03:30:10.180 invasive procedure
03:30:11.840 to get your
03:30:12.340 tube side
03:30:12.760 than to get
03:30:13.200 a vasectomy
03:30:13.700 that doesn't
03:30:14.200 excuse
03:30:14.600 so that could
03:30:15.380 be the reason
03:30:16.520 that could be
03:30:17.420 related to
03:30:18.180 perhaps the
03:30:19.100 further
03:30:19.520 hoops that
03:30:21.600 women might
03:30:22.040 have to jump
03:30:22.520 through in order
03:30:22.980 to undergo
03:30:23.560 like a more
03:30:24.300 potentially dangerous
03:30:25.200 and invasive
03:30:25.760 procedure
03:30:26.180 let's see if
03:30:26.660 we can agree
03:30:27.180 on this basis
03:30:27.940 right
03:30:28.320 okay
03:30:28.640 there should
03:30:29.080 be no
03:30:29.500 there should
03:30:30.640 be no
03:30:31.000 hospital
03:30:31.440 that should
03:30:32.180 be allowed
03:30:32.500 to say
03:30:32.920 okay if
03:30:33.780 you're a
03:30:34.000 man in
03:30:34.500 your early
03:30:34.980 20s
03:30:35.500 we're gonna
03:30:36.020 you know
03:30:36.600 help you
03:30:37.200 get a vasectomy
03:30:37.800 or you can
03:30:38.200 get a vasectomy
03:30:38.760 versus
03:30:39.360 oh if you're
03:30:40.460 a woman
03:30:40.840 we're not
03:30:41.560 gonna allow
03:30:41.980 you to do
03:30:42.500 it unless
03:30:42.900 if you get
03:30:43.240 permission
03:30:43.620 by your
03:30:44.080 husband
03:30:44.380 and if
03:30:44.800 you do
03:30:44.980 not have
03:30:45.260 a husband
03:30:45.640 you're
03:30:45.920 kind of
03:30:46.220 fucked
03:30:46.360 private
03:30:46.740 companies
03:30:47.180 get to do
03:30:47.600 what private
03:30:47.940 companies
03:30:48.260 want to do
03:30:48.760 okay but
03:30:49.360 you can argue
03:30:49.820 that private
03:30:50.240 company
03:30:50.540 okay let me finish
03:30:51.500 my sentence
03:30:51.860 you asked me a question
03:30:52.700 let me finish my sentence
03:30:53.620 no okay
03:30:55.260 no but here's a point
03:31:02.260 you shouldn't be able to
03:31:03.220 discriminate on the
03:31:03.920 basis of sex
03:31:04.940 right we should
03:31:06.100 agree that that's
03:31:07.200 something that shouldn't
03:31:08.080 be discriminated
03:31:08.700 against
03:31:09.000 I don't think
03:31:09.480 I don't think the
03:31:09.660 like in the
03:31:10.540 American
03:31:11.000 does this
03:31:12.540 isn't the 19th
03:31:15.020 amendment
03:31:15.300 or
03:31:15.840 it wouldn't be under
03:31:16.500 the 19th if anything
03:31:17.400 it'd be under like
03:31:18.060 the 14th
03:31:19.000 I think
03:31:19.840 let's search it up
03:31:20.880 right now
03:31:21.160 it's a lower discrimination
03:31:21.880 I think that they can
03:31:23.440 I think they can
03:31:24.460 discriminate
03:31:24.940 yeah actually I know
03:31:26.020 they can
03:31:26.420 so why don't we do this
03:31:27.920 let's just concede
03:31:28.760 let's just concede
03:31:29.520 that all hospitals
03:31:30.900 across the country
03:31:31.980 are just denying
03:31:33.000 women the right
03:31:34.500 to get tubal
03:31:35.300 legations
03:31:35.780 or get sterilized
03:31:37.020 let's just
03:31:37.480 what else
03:31:38.200 what do you mean
03:31:39.540 what else
03:31:39.940 okay
03:31:40.220 when I say
03:31:41.320 when I say rights
03:31:41.760 like
03:31:41.980 like laws
03:31:44.100 no no
03:31:44.740 I think
03:31:45.140 in modern day
03:31:46.700 America
03:31:47.140 most discrimination
03:31:48.240 comes from like
03:31:49.900 social norms
03:31:50.620 rather than laws
03:31:51.560 you asked me
03:31:52.460 to give you
03:31:53.180 some examples
03:31:54.000 of unfair treatment
03:31:54.780 but I do think
03:31:55.720 that America
03:31:56.500 has come a very
03:31:57.560 long way
03:31:58.220 and yeah
03:31:59.400 I think most of
03:32:00.200 discrimination is now
03:32:01.040 social rather than
03:32:01.820 legal
03:32:02.140 okay so
03:32:02.960 sure let's talk
03:32:03.960 about social
03:32:04.420 what are
03:32:05.160 some ways
03:32:06.480 in which
03:32:06.980 women don't have
03:32:08.560 equal rights
03:32:09.600 socially
03:32:10.400 or okay
03:32:11.280 so there has been
03:32:12.600 multitude of studies
03:32:13.920 showing that
03:32:14.920 when women
03:32:16.260 or men
03:32:16.860 have the same
03:32:17.860 qualifications
03:32:19.020 if there is a
03:32:20.260 woman name
03:32:20.680 on the resume
03:32:21.240 they are less
03:32:21.920 likely to get
03:32:22.520 picked
03:32:22.800 rather than
03:32:23.380 like a male
03:32:23.800 name
03:32:24.180 well number
03:32:24.920 one I feel
03:32:25.440 like that is
03:32:26.060 number one
03:32:26.800 with what's
03:32:27.600 what's it called
03:32:28.240 when
03:32:28.920 I forget the
03:32:30.320 name of it
03:32:30.680 when they're
03:32:31.100 like literally
03:32:31.540 selecting
03:32:32.140 women
03:32:32.860 or literally
03:32:33.520 selecting
03:32:34.120 affirmative
03:32:34.540 action
03:32:35.700 with affirmative
03:32:36.280 action
03:32:36.700 it's like a
03:32:37.180 band-aid
03:32:37.720 though
03:32:38.060 yeah but
03:32:38.940 regardless
03:32:39.400 I think at
03:32:39.860 the end of
03:32:40.200 the day
03:32:40.380 it comes down
03:32:40.880 to who can
03:32:41.540 get the job
03:32:42.120 done
03:32:42.480 when you look
03:32:43.320 at it
03:32:43.560 right
03:32:43.760 and I've
03:32:44.080 seen this
03:32:44.340 from first
03:32:44.820 hand experience
03:32:45.580 a woman
03:32:46.020 who walks
03:32:46.600 into a job
03:32:47.140 interview
03:32:47.500 where the
03:32:48.220 person tells
03:32:48.780 them this
03:32:49.060 is what
03:32:49.380 you're gonna
03:32:49.700 get paid
03:32:50.420 a willing
03:32:51.180 probably gonna
03:32:51.980 walk out of
03:32:52.400 that interview
03:32:52.800 and be like
03:32:53.120 okay shit
03:32:53.680 that's what
03:32:54.000 I'm gonna
03:32:54.220 get paid
03:32:54.740 a man
03:32:55.600 who walks
03:32:56.300 into that
03:32:56.640 interview
03:32:56.980 who's qualified
03:32:57.920 who knows
03:32:58.420 his worth
03:32:58.900 when they
03:32:59.240 tell him
03:32:59.660 that figure
03:33:00.180 will say
03:33:00.940 no I know
03:33:02.300 what I am
03:33:02.900 worth
03:33:03.200 and that
03:33:03.640 is a
03:33:04.200 personality
03:33:05.180 characteristic
03:33:06.100 and at the
03:33:06.580 end of the
03:33:06.900 day that
03:33:07.220 all factors
03:33:08.520 in to this
03:33:09.700 wage gap
03:33:10.580 disparity
03:33:11.160 that we're
03:33:11.500 talking about
03:33:12.180 yes
03:33:12.800 and women
03:33:13.460 are trained
03:33:13.940 to be okay
03:33:14.680 like if
03:33:15.380 an employer
03:33:16.060 asks you
03:33:16.760 what did
03:33:17.440 you get
03:33:17.640 paid
03:33:17.860 at your
03:33:18.060 last job
03:33:18.580 women tend
03:33:19.120 to tell
03:33:19.520 the truth
03:33:20.000 while men
03:33:20.920 tend to
03:33:21.540 say that
03:33:22.380 they got
03:33:22.660 paid 20%
03:33:23.400 more
03:33:23.900 but now
03:33:24.900 the wage
03:33:25.440 gap is
03:33:25.920 slowly
03:33:26.440 diminishing
03:33:27.040 and closing
03:33:27.660 but right
03:33:28.380 now it's
03:33:29.040 still not
03:33:29.860 there yet
03:33:30.460 but we're
03:33:30.860 like on
03:33:31.300 the way
03:33:31.580 actually if
03:33:31.880 you adjust
03:33:32.900 it's pretty
03:33:33.560 much
03:33:33.900 also
03:33:34.900 also
03:33:35.440 it's gone
03:33:36.060 it's gone
03:33:36.880 if you
03:33:39.660 account for
03:33:40.960 all variables
03:33:41.860 if you
03:33:42.360 adjust for
03:33:43.040 all variables
03:33:43.840 taking time
03:33:44.560 off for
03:33:44.880 children
03:33:45.360 for example
03:33:46.000 when you
03:33:46.300 account for
03:33:46.720 the fact
03:33:47.080 that women
03:33:47.480 are far
03:33:47.860 more
03:33:48.000 like what
03:33:48.660 woman is
03:33:49.200 willing to
03:33:49.660 work 80
03:33:50.340 hours per
03:33:51.040 week to
03:33:51.640 be able to
03:33:52.260 get into the
03:33:52.760 position of
03:33:53.280 other men
03:33:53.780 men that is
03:33:54.540 naturally their
03:33:55.400 proclivity
03:33:55.880 they are based
03:33:56.880 on competition
03:33:57.640 how can I
03:33:58.660 get ahead of
03:33:59.420 the men next
03:34:00.080 to me
03:34:00.320 women don't
03:34:00.900 naturally have
03:34:01.620 that mindset
03:34:02.160 unless they
03:34:03.040 are an
03:34:03.460 exceedingly
03:34:04.220 rare type
03:34:04.960 of woman
03:34:05.420 I strongly
03:34:06.280 disagree
03:34:06.720 but then on
03:34:07.360 top of that
03:34:07.860 you can make
03:34:08.260 the argument
03:34:08.680 of like oh
03:34:09.460 you know
03:34:10.200 who's pressured
03:34:11.120 more to
03:34:11.740 take care of
03:34:12.240 children and
03:34:12.700 to stay at
03:34:13.100 home
03:34:13.360 it's always
03:34:13.900 women
03:34:14.080 I don't
03:34:16.960 think you can
03:34:17.760 make that
03:34:18.060 claim
03:34:18.400 I don't
03:34:18.720 think it's
03:34:19.020 like if
03:34:19.340 you look
03:34:19.780 okay the
03:34:20.440 argument that's
03:34:21.000 a natural
03:34:21.300 proclivity
03:34:21.820 comes from
03:34:23.500 like okay
03:34:24.000 civilization
03:34:24.860 post-agricultural
03:34:25.700 revolution which
03:34:26.400 has been like
03:34:26.780 the last 10,000
03:34:27.420 years and
03:34:28.260 that is even
03:34:29.040 by itself
03:34:29.540 like very
03:34:29.960 tumultuous
03:34:30.460 because we
03:34:31.000 look at oh
03:34:31.620 men gained
03:34:32.560 supply or
03:34:33.400 control of
03:34:34.040 the food
03:34:34.300 supply at
03:34:34.700 that time
03:34:35.160 so you can
03:34:35.580 argue that
03:34:36.120 like when
03:34:36.460 men have
03:34:36.860 control of
03:34:37.260 the food
03:34:37.500 supply that's
03:34:38.520 how like
03:34:39.080 environmental
03:34:39.460 factors end
03:34:40.320 up creating
03:34:40.700 society but
03:34:41.640 for the past
03:34:42.160 100,000 years
03:34:43.100 before that when
03:34:43.860 we were nomadic
03:34:44.440 societies things
03:34:45.520 are a lot more
03:34:46.080 egalitarian in
03:34:46.720 nature which
03:34:47.260 makes sense we
03:34:47.940 hunted in
03:34:48.480 groups we
03:34:49.100 took care of
03:34:49.820 children in
03:34:50.380 groups there's
03:34:51.180 a reason
03:34:51.600 there was
03:34:52.400 women who
03:34:52.980 were gathering
03:34:53.560 and men
03:34:53.980 who were
03:34:54.380 hunting
03:34:54.800 but doesn't
03:34:55.520 mean one
03:34:55.920 is more
03:34:56.320 valuable than
03:34:56.900 the other
03:34:57.300 no no no
03:34:58.580 but it's
03:34:59.160 showing that
03:34:59.520 they have
03:34:59.760 different places
03:35:00.360 equal but
03:35:01.240 separate they
03:35:01.920 serve different
03:35:02.660 purposes within
03:35:03.760 society
03:35:04.260 okay but here's
03:35:05.480 the deal the
03:35:05.940 idea that's
03:35:06.460 like no women
03:35:07.060 only gathered
03:35:07.800 and men only
03:35:08.580 hunted that's not
03:35:09.440 true either there
03:35:10.100 was a great
03:35:10.700 overlap we can
03:35:11.540 search it right
03:35:12.040 now
03:35:12.140 some overlap
03:35:12.580 but great
03:35:13.680 overlap
03:35:14.200 probability then why
03:35:15.280 is that literally
03:35:16.000 a thing where
03:35:16.560 they said women
03:35:17.240 were gatherers
03:35:17.880 and men were
03:35:18.220 hunters were
03:35:18.760 they lying
03:35:19.240 way back then
03:35:20.260 well no
03:35:20.860 that is what
03:35:23.440 happened
03:35:23.780 because the
03:35:24.820 argument post
03:35:25.620 1800s when
03:35:26.640 this was first
03:35:27.240 brought up was
03:35:28.060 this idea that
03:35:28.680 women are too
03:35:29.300 frail and too
03:35:29.980 weak to hunt
03:35:30.640 so therefore
03:35:31.280 they must have
03:35:31.840 only been
03:35:32.340 gatherers but
03:35:33.440 if we look at
03:35:34.160 let's say like
03:35:34.740 the recent like
03:35:35.300 bone studies
03:35:35.980 basically where
03:35:36.680 we look and
03:35:37.140 re-examine the
03:35:37.760 corpses and
03:35:38.280 stuff hey guess
03:35:39.060 what a lot more
03:35:39.860 are women than
03:35:40.360 we previously
03:35:40.920 thought and
03:35:41.760 which makes
03:35:42.280 sense because
03:35:42.880 the way that
03:35:43.340 we hunted
03:35:43.820 wasn't through
03:35:44.420 brute force and
03:35:45.260 strength it was
03:35:45.940 through literally
03:35:46.500 walking animals
03:35:47.740 until they
03:35:48.240 collapsed out of
03:35:49.000 exhaustion and
03:35:49.700 then reaping the
03:35:50.440 meat
03:35:50.860 out of that
03:35:51.320 oh that's how
03:35:51.380 they did it
03:35:51.760 back in the day
03:35:52.140 I didn't
03:35:52.400 but also modern
03:35:54.320 society because
03:35:55.480 men aren't like
03:35:56.500 just doing blue
03:35:57.920 collar jobs I
03:35:58.620 would agree if
03:35:59.260 we're in a blue
03:35:59.880 collar society it's
03:36:00.920 just farmers it's
03:36:01.700 just hunters it's
03:36:02.580 just construction
03:36:03.480 workers like I
03:36:04.240 would agree that
03:36:04.800 yeah men should do
03:36:05.520 these jobs but
03:36:06.300 when it comes to
03:36:06.800 like white collar
03:36:07.440 jobs like I think
03:36:08.320 women are just as
03:36:09.300 capable and
03:36:10.060 intelligent and
03:36:11.000 true but
03:36:11.720 that's really
03:36:12.980 sexist of you to
03:36:14.240 say that men
03:36:15.260 should do the
03:36:16.220 dangerous dirty
03:36:17.280 difficult work
03:36:17.780 I think men
03:36:18.240 are on average
03:36:19.040 bigger muscle
03:36:20.240 mass
03:36:20.500 would you say
03:36:21.560 like can you
03:36:22.560 name many women
03:36:23.600 who you know in
03:36:24.240 your friend group
03:36:24.780 who are willing to
03:36:25.340 work 80 hours per
03:36:26.460 week on something
03:36:27.300 I could name
03:36:27.900 several men who I
03:36:29.080 know who I who
03:36:30.520 are in my circle
03:36:32.060 who do that or
03:36:33.180 who aspire to do
03:36:34.180 that versus most
03:36:35.000 women were
03:36:36.040 exhausted
03:36:36.440 after doing an
03:36:37.540 average 40 hour
03:36:38.500 week that's why
03:36:39.260 most women are
03:36:39.760 going to only
03:36:40.240 fans because they
03:36:41.100 can't even work a
03:36:41.820 fucking restaurant
03:36:42.500 job they can't
03:36:43.440 even work a 40
03:36:44.240 hour per week
03:36:45.120 job so they go
03:36:46.360 and they do
03:36:46.860 only fans and
03:36:47.780 yet we're here
03:36:48.360 fighting about
03:36:49.180 women's natural
03:36:50.100 work ethic and
03:36:51.220 proclivity to be
03:36:52.040 able to achieve
03:36:52.580 the same results
03:36:53.220 I mean you just
03:36:54.160 assume that
03:36:54.920 put in the word
03:36:55.860 you're assuming
03:36:56.460 that I only do
03:36:57.600 like only fans
03:36:58.620 you do other
03:36:59.820 things as well
03:37:00.380 because you
03:37:00.800 stated it I'm
03:37:01.500 talking about on
03:37:02.200 the balance of
03:37:02.660 probability for
03:37:03.360 most women
03:37:03.920 I know so many
03:37:04.760 lazy men as well
03:37:05.740 like you know
03:37:06.280 the men like
03:37:06.940 if you look at
03:37:08.140 the stats of the
03:37:09.420 norm like there
03:37:10.240 are way more men
03:37:10.840 who are homeless
03:37:11.540 who are unemployed
03:37:12.960 and there are also
03:37:13.720 way more men who
03:37:14.400 are billionaires
03:37:14.980 and I think
03:37:16.340 there's just a
03:37:17.520 lot more men on
03:37:18.280 average who like
03:37:18.960 do everything but
03:37:19.880 it's not represent
03:37:20.760 doesn't represent
03:37:22.000 the whole and
03:37:22.480 same with like
03:37:22.920 women I think
03:37:23.640 women more have
03:37:24.320 like a normal
03:37:24.860 curve where a
03:37:25.680 lot of people
03:37:26.060 work like maybe
03:37:26.760 average 40 hours
03:37:27.700 but there are
03:37:28.240 people who work
03:37:28.860 more and there
03:37:29.240 are people who
03:37:29.640 work less
03:37:30.040 but we're talking
03:37:30.900 on the balance
03:37:31.440 of probability
03:37:32.020 we're not talking
03:37:32.760 about the
03:37:33.160 yeah the probability
03:37:33.900 of it is that
03:37:35.140 there are a lot
03:37:35.680 more men
03:37:36.160 standards which
03:37:36.980 in turn relate
03:37:38.400 to people's
03:37:38.920 natural proclivities
03:37:40.320 I don't think
03:37:40.880 it's necessarily
03:37:41.420 natural you might
03:37:43.100 have like an
03:37:43.860 excellent group
03:37:44.560 of friends who
03:37:45.120 are very
03:37:45.500 extremely hard
03:37:46.180 working but I
03:37:46.980 know a lot of
03:37:47.600 people who are
03:37:48.240 just unemployed
03:37:49.160 Joe Dirt
03:37:51.100 believing men
03:37:51.940 and women are
03:37:52.660 equal is crazy
03:37:53.780 who's Joe Dirt
03:37:55.880 yo Bender the
03:37:57.020 offender thank you
03:37:58.340 so I do think
03:37:59.360 that there are
03:37:59.840 men who work
03:38:00.360 I think it's
03:38:00.900 you Pixie I
03:38:01.620 think you're
03:38:02.060 Joe Dirt
03:38:03.160 I'm Joe Dirt
03:38:04.240 that's what he
03:38:04.960 said he's
03:38:05.500 saying you're
03:38:05.960 Joe Dirt
03:38:06.360 he's a character
03:38:08.020 from movie and
03:38:08.740 he had like a
03:38:09.400 mullet and so
03:38:10.300 they're trying to
03:38:10.800 say that
03:38:11.300 now you have
03:38:12.660 beautiful hair
03:38:13.660 and it's just
03:38:14.920 blonde in color
03:38:15.740 these are actually
03:38:16.880 bangs
03:38:17.740 you look stunning
03:38:21.000 yeah you look
03:38:21.820 stunning they're
03:38:22.380 just it's just a
03:38:24.280 movie reference
03:38:24.920 and it's one of
03:38:26.700 my favorite movies
03:38:27.740 with your sample
03:38:30.060 size of men
03:38:30.960 that you know
03:38:31.660 I think they're
03:38:32.340 probably really
03:38:32.760 excellent people
03:38:33.480 because you're
03:38:33.820 like an excellent
03:38:34.320 woman as well
03:38:35.120 but I do think
03:38:36.640 that there are
03:38:37.300 an equal amount
03:38:38.260 of men who
03:38:39.820 work zero hours
03:38:41.060 per week and
03:38:41.780 just like what
03:38:42.560 play video games
03:38:43.420 like I do
03:38:44.280 know a lot
03:38:44.680 of unemployed
03:38:45.180 men
03:38:45.660 and I think
03:38:46.240 a lot of
03:38:46.500 this is the
03:38:46.940 product of
03:38:47.320 the times
03:38:47.840 right but
03:38:48.320 I'm talking
03:38:48.800 about like the
03:38:49.520 natural like
03:38:50.400 inclinations of
03:38:51.200 people on a
03:38:51.760 biological and
03:38:52.680 like psychological
03:38:53.360 level there are
03:38:54.400 reasons that are
03:38:55.580 so do you think
03:38:56.120 it's more nature
03:38:57.000 or nurture
03:38:57.820 no I think it's
03:38:58.560 nature like I
03:38:59.500 believe that
03:38:59.900 nurture has an
03:39:01.280 effect but I
03:39:02.060 believe at the
03:39:02.720 end of the day
03:39:03.380 evolutionary psychology
03:39:04.500 plays such a
03:39:05.160 huge huge factor
03:39:06.240 how much what
03:39:07.160 percentage do you
03:39:07.840 think like nature
03:39:08.880 takes over compared
03:39:10.040 to nurture I mean
03:39:11.060 if you're raising
03:39:11.860 a certain environment
03:39:12.600 so for me for
03:39:13.400 example I when
03:39:14.520 you look at my
03:39:15.580 nurture I should
03:39:16.880 be a failure I
03:39:17.640 should be this I
03:39:18.260 should be that and
03:39:18.920 I'm not but I
03:39:19.800 could be an
03:39:20.260 outlier I know I'm
03:39:21.180 an exception exactly
03:39:22.160 and here's the
03:39:22.680 thing there are
03:39:23.140 exceptions to the
03:39:23.900 rule but people
03:39:24.420 try to use their
03:39:25.040 personal experience
03:39:26.140 to be able to
03:39:26.720 denote what is
03:39:27.620 actually going on
03:39:28.480 in society when to
03:39:29.400 be honest you're
03:39:30.080 not the world
03:39:30.840 doesn't revolve
03:39:31.460 around you it's
03:39:32.620 not just because
03:39:33.500 this is my personal
03:39:34.420 experience doesn't
03:39:35.260 necessarily mean that
03:39:36.260 that is how society
03:39:37.100 functions or runs
03:39:38.240 yeah and I'm
03:39:39.500 self-aware enough
03:39:40.140 to be able to
03:39:40.620 realize that like
03:39:41.860 um I think about
03:39:43.120 like your conclusion
03:39:44.120 and assumption with
03:39:44.940 OnlyFans girls too
03:39:46.000 though like no I
03:39:47.480 know because I do
03:39:48.240 on a balance of
03:39:49.000 probability most
03:39:49.880 OnlyFans girls are
03:39:50.900 going to number one
03:39:51.660 affect their job
03:39:52.560 prospects because AI
03:39:54.300 is also being used
03:39:55.940 to determine job
03:39:56.900 candidates for a lot
03:39:57.820 of companies right
03:39:58.580 now and they are on
03:39:59.920 like a 0.01%
03:40:01.920 accuracy and speed
03:40:03.320 going through your
03:40:04.680 history so that's
03:40:05.600 number one and that's
03:40:06.280 just going to become
03:40:06.780 more and more prevalent
03:40:07.580 number two a lot of
03:40:09.000 guys aren't going to
03:40:09.740 want to date somebody
03:40:10.660 who is being on
03:40:11.620 OnlyFans some men
03:40:13.000 will but a lot of
03:40:14.100 men you are limiting
03:40:15.140 your dating prospects
03:40:16.320 I feel like I
03:40:17.480 attracted a lot more
03:40:18.780 people who are open
03:40:19.800 minded when the type
03:40:20.780 of men you'd want to
03:40:21.520 date though or the
03:40:22.280 type of men who are
03:40:22.960 into you type of men
03:40:24.620 that I want to date
03:40:25.400 but you also look at
03:40:26.180 billionaires the type
03:40:27.600 of men I would want
03:40:28.660 to date are also
03:40:29.480 attracted to me because
03:40:30.620 they are also more
03:40:31.440 open minded then
03:40:32.160 why aren't you
03:40:32.420 dating them she is
03:40:32.960 dating I am dating
03:40:34.120 them okay oh you're
03:40:35.860 the single one over
03:40:36.640 hearing I know but
03:40:37.860 I'm saying if you
03:40:38.700 look at billionaires
03:40:39.720 though for most
03:40:40.660 women generally
03:40:42.060 speaking a lot of
03:40:43.360 guys and for you I
03:40:44.500 can tell you are like
03:40:45.580 she said you're an
03:40:46.100 exceptional person you're
03:40:47.080 obviously very intelligent
03:40:47.920 I don't think I'm
03:40:48.460 necessarily that
03:40:49.100 exception to the norm
03:40:50.000 though like I know a
03:40:50.800 lot of girls who
03:40:51.520 graduated from college
03:40:52.600 and they have like a
03:40:53.720 high she graduates from
03:40:55.020 USC dude that's a way
03:40:56.080 higher ranking than
03:40:56.700 UCSB like there's so
03:40:58.480 many women yeah yeah
03:41:00.100 what's your degree um
03:41:01.600 art and design oh wow
03:41:03.380 I just feel like
03:41:04.260 there's a lot of
03:41:04.820 women who literally
03:41:06.020 they're just kidding
03:41:07.020 they put all of their
03:41:08.140 value into their body
03:41:09.160 being a commodity and
03:41:10.120 that is their only plan
03:41:11.100 I mean I think most
03:41:12.020 people are aware that
03:41:13.300 the body does decay but
03:41:15.140 then there's AI you know
03:41:16.140 if you're already an
03:41:16.920 influencer they can just
03:41:17.780 keep on deep faking you
03:41:18.940 like um my boyfriend
03:41:21.260 did do like a oh my
03:41:22.680 boyfriend did do a
03:41:24.200 video for Paul McCartney
03:41:25.980 where they defaked him
03:41:26.960 to look like he was 20
03:41:28.120 and it was a whole music
03:41:28.940 video like it's just
03:41:29.820 like there's so there's
03:41:31.400 so much more to the
03:41:32.180 industry than what is
03:41:33.340 to the eye but aren't
03:41:34.240 you guys worried about
03:41:34.920 that as only fans
03:41:35.620 creators that then
03:41:36.480 your value is going to
03:41:37.580 diminish when someone
03:41:38.280 can literally just make
03:41:39.180 a replica of you like
03:41:40.060 what type of intellectual
03:41:41.260 but they can make
03:41:42.280 replicas of people who
03:41:43.700 don't do only fans like
03:41:44.800 I know a lot of
03:41:45.400 celebrities where they
03:41:46.600 have news out there but
03:41:48.160 it's just like someone
03:41:49.280 does it but this is
03:41:50.360 only becoming prevalent
03:41:51.260 the last couple of years
03:41:52.140 imagine 10 years from
03:41:53.580 now though hold on
03:41:55.160 so okay let's we're
03:41:56.900 talking about OF we've
03:41:58.560 talked about it quite a
03:41:59.360 bit pixie
03:42:00.800 you're a feminist
03:42:02.820 yes
03:42:03.580 a lot of feminists
03:42:04.980 claim that women
03:42:05.820 are oppressed
03:42:06.440 yes
03:42:07.420 do you agree do you
03:42:09.580 think women are
03:42:10.180 oppressed
03:42:10.560 yeah I think there's
03:42:11.360 certain ways that
03:42:12.100 women face oppression
03:42:12.960 okay are you so
03:42:14.640 you're a woman
03:42:15.200 yes
03:42:15.780 I didn't mean to
03:42:17.420 assume your gender
03:42:18.060 there
03:42:18.300 how are you oppressed
03:42:20.940 as I previously
03:42:22.260 stated I think it's
03:42:23.400 absolute bullshit that
03:42:24.880 me and a guy can have
03:42:25.940 the same exact resume
03:42:26.820 or that I might be
03:42:27.760 overqualified than him
03:42:28.960 and on the basis of
03:42:30.140 my name out of like
03:42:31.660 a million studies that
03:42:32.720 there are out there I
03:42:33.800 am less likely to be
03:42:34.700 chosen however the
03:42:36.120 thing is though is that
03:42:37.080 that's one study but
03:42:39.360 then you hear all this
03:42:40.360 stuff about affirmative
03:42:41.320 action and that oh
03:42:42.860 we're going on a
03:42:43.620 diversity hiring spree and
03:42:44.920 apparently diversity has
03:42:46.120 to do with 50% of the
03:42:47.220 population or more than
03:42:48.500 50% of the population
03:42:49.560 which is women
03:42:50.780 okay so there seems to
03:42:53.160 be a disparity between a
03:42:54.680 company claiming to be
03:42:55.880 diverse and inclusive and
03:42:57.440 then actually hire actual
03:42:58.920 hiring practices right
03:43:00.500 can we agree that this
03:43:01.660 exists are made out of
03:43:02.880 hyper liberal typically
03:43:05.380 women okay I'm not the
03:43:06.880 leader of every HR
03:43:08.460 department but I can say
03:43:10.060 that we can just like look
03:43:11.500 at like blind studies and
03:43:12.580 blind data and when we
03:43:13.740 look at affirmative action
03:43:14.740 the way that's supposed to
03:43:15.740 work is that it's supposed
03:43:16.880 to be two people of equal
03:43:18.220 merit then okay we might
03:43:20.360 pick the woman or the
03:43:21.400 woman might be picked in
03:43:22.360 certain scenarios but either
03:43:24.000 way it doesn't change the
03:43:24.900 fact that you see like a
03:43:26.040 big gap in diversity for
03:43:28.340 a couple of reasons
03:43:29.160 mostly favoring men and
03:43:31.400 guess what one of these
03:43:32.200 reasons you think you
03:43:33.140 think DEI has has a bias
03:43:35.460 towards hiring men I
03:43:37.200 think well so it mainly
03:43:38.760 has to do with because
03:43:39.860 assumption that women
03:43:41.020 will have children
03:43:41.760 eventually so it is true
03:43:43.160 if you see a name on a
03:43:44.240 resume if they're a woman
03:43:45.480 you assume that they're
03:43:46.680 going to like especially a
03:43:48.240 woman who is like mid
03:43:49.800 20s or late 20s or early
03:43:52.460 30s they actually do hire
03:43:53.900 women less because they
03:43:56.480 assume that they will
03:43:57.300 have children which it is
03:43:59.580 yeah yeah so like that's
03:44:00.760 a business decision but
03:44:01.840 it's still unfair because
03:44:02.780 not all women want
03:44:03.780 children it's just like a
03:44:05.260 generalization and also
03:44:06.600 like now a lot of men
03:44:08.060 also take care of their
03:44:08.880 kids like a lot of women
03:44:09.840 want like stay at home
03:44:10.640 husbands because the wage
03:44:11.820 gap is closing hold on
03:44:13.120 with the HR departments
03:44:14.360 and with diversity equity
03:44:15.960 inclusion almost all
03:44:17.300 companies are attempting
03:44:18.660 to hire like at least 50%
03:44:21.060 women have a certain
03:44:22.180 amount of women on the sea
03:44:23.660 level have a certain
03:44:24.760 amount of women what
03:44:25.880 companies what not in
03:44:29.200 tech not in fucking
03:44:30.160 fame not in tech not in
03:44:32.080 tech tech is the most
03:44:34.260 people and software
03:44:35.980 engineers oh maybe in
03:44:37.500 marketing maybe on like
03:44:38.900 the front desk but no
03:44:40.480 software engineers that's
03:44:41.400 what we're saying
03:44:42.000 programmers there's a
03:44:43.080 program yes yeah not when
03:44:44.960 I worked in 2020 can you
03:44:46.860 name the companies I've
03:44:48.100 heard you name the
03:44:49.040 company huh can you name
03:44:50.220 the company literally
03:44:51.020 can I name the company
03:44:52.620 I don't know the first
03:44:53.860 five biggest banks in
03:44:55.260 America for certain like
03:44:57.920 pretty much any company
03:44:59.220 that cares about ESG scores
03:45:01.200 whatsoever which is like
03:45:02.980 the majority I think
03:45:04.140 every single company on
03:45:05.220 the NASDAQ oh look at
03:45:08.640 this apple.com diversity
03:45:10.720 page inclusion in the
03:45:12.420 diversity yeah Nick can you
03:45:14.540 search this apple.com
03:45:15.620 apple.com slash diversity
03:45:18.040 yeah so just like how I
03:45:19.880 said right yeah no no
03:45:21.660 just how I said listen to
03:45:22.840 me there is a gap between
03:45:24.740 what people are stating what
03:45:26.600 they're marketing versus
03:45:27.800 what's actually happening
03:45:28.760 in reality and the gap is
03:45:30.740 closing but it doesn't
03:45:31.900 change the fact that there
03:45:32.680 is a gap and the question
03:45:34.180 is why does this gap exist
03:45:35.320 it exists because hey
03:45:37.260 people assume women are
03:45:38.500 less competent they assume
03:45:40.680 yeah they assume that women
03:45:42.940 are less competent they
03:45:43.820 assume that women are going
03:45:44.680 to have children and women
03:45:46.240 to begin to get into these
03:45:47.520 fears is already very
03:45:48.520 difficult they hold on
03:45:49.700 they assume that women
03:45:50.700 are going to have
03:45:51.500 children I mean but is
03:45:52.500 there is that a fair
03:45:53.560 assumption to make um
03:45:55.380 don't most women have
03:45:57.880 they assume that the
03:45:58.800 mother wants to take
03:45:59.720 care of the children
03:46:00.360 that's what we're taught
03:46:01.120 yeah that's what we're
03:46:02.420 taught well aren't there
03:46:03.060 certain just like
03:46:03.740 biological realities like
03:46:05.140 she has to nurse the
03:46:06.140 child I bet more women
03:46:06.600 are having children than
03:46:07.740 men okay wait
03:46:10.320 controversial take
03:46:11.520 Pixie Pixie can men
03:46:13.040 wait wait wait wait
03:46:13.920 hold on Pixie Pixie Pixie
03:46:15.800 hold on oh my god I'm
03:46:17.460 not gonna answer this
03:46:18.300 question I refuse to
03:46:19.320 answer this question let
03:46:19.900 me just ask no I know
03:46:21.000 what you're gonna ask
03:46:21.680 Pixie hold on wait can
03:46:24.160 we let her guess what
03:46:24.980 you're about to ask
03:46:25.620 I know exactly what
03:46:27.000 is he about to ask
03:46:28.300 you're gonna be like can
03:46:28.980 men have children
03:46:29.840 can men get pregnant
03:46:33.180 can men get pregnant
03:46:34.620 um wait can men get
03:46:36.380 pregnant
03:46:36.760 let me answer okay
03:46:37.940 yeah that's what I was
03:46:40.400 about to say
03:46:40.900 she's a liberal she thinks
03:46:42.640 they can well I think if
03:46:43.820 you're a trans man
03:46:44.960 technically but I feel
03:46:46.680 like this is so already
03:46:47.920 like beyond the realm of
03:46:49.020 general reality yeah
03:46:51.560 science is getting really
03:46:52.880 um interesting so I feel
03:46:55.020 like anything can happen
03:46:56.020 pretty soon
03:46:56.700 sorry you're not part of
03:46:57.220 this team
03:46:57.600 oh my god okay
03:46:58.860 oh my god this is
03:47:00.080 discrimination we believe
03:47:01.340 in trans men so we don't
03:47:02.440 get popcorn
03:47:03.020 it's fucked up
03:47:04.000 I'll give you some
03:47:04.800 after the show
03:47:05.360 I don't want to just
03:47:06.960 throw popcorn at you
03:47:07.980 I think
03:47:08.480 okay here catch
03:47:09.000 he kind of does though
03:47:10.040 wait are you ready Pixie
03:47:11.020 I'll take it in your mouth
03:47:12.000 oh that wasn't a throw
03:47:14.920 that was really an aggressive
03:47:15.940 yeah
03:47:16.280 that wasn't that
03:47:18.360 that was like
03:47:19.300 with malice
03:47:20.320 okay that was
03:47:21.500 that was assault
03:47:22.980 that was battery
03:47:24.200 it's on camera
03:47:26.240 thank you
03:47:27.380 no she consented
03:47:31.280 you said throw it
03:47:34.060 that was like
03:47:35.160 outside the bounds of consent
03:47:38.000 I'm sorry
03:47:39.000 I'm so sorry
03:47:40.880 I didn't mean to throw it
03:47:42.420 that hard
03:47:42.860 I thought popcorn
03:47:43.780 would have a little
03:47:44.540 it's not cotton candy
03:47:47.300 you ready
03:47:47.520 is this a thing
03:47:52.200 you ready
03:47:52.480 you ready
03:47:56.460 wow that was terrible
03:47:58.560 you're even dry
03:47:59.400 Kobe
03:48:00.420 catch it in your boobies
03:48:01.740 wait wait
03:48:02.480 you literally
03:48:03.240 oh really
03:48:04.080 that's why I was
03:48:04.960 trying to catch it
03:48:05.740 I mean
03:48:06.040 thanks
03:48:07.740 come on
03:48:08.180 Kobe
03:48:08.560 almost
03:48:09.740 alright
03:48:10.860 you're such a big target
03:48:12.620 yeah
03:48:13.040 why are you missing
03:48:13.840 wait so men
03:48:15.040 men can get pregnant
03:48:17.660 um
03:48:18.720 a trans man
03:48:19.900 could theoretically
03:48:20.720 but
03:48:21.200 I feel like this is just
03:48:22.700 don't forget the non-binary
03:48:24.240 don't forget the nbs
03:48:25.380 the theybs
03:48:26.740 and the walruses
03:48:27.820 don't forget the they
03:48:28.760 don't forget the hippopotamus
03:48:30.240 all the hippopotamus
03:48:31.140 wait
03:48:31.560 Pixie
03:48:32.220 so how are you oppressed
03:48:33.620 besides the
03:48:35.100 that one example
03:48:36.160 okay
03:48:36.720 what else you got for us
03:48:37.700 um
03:48:38.200 I'm more likely to get
03:48:39.660 sexually assaulted
03:48:40.500 that's not oppression
03:48:41.820 I will say
03:48:44.200 yeah men are more likely
03:48:45.060 to get killed
03:48:45.560 how are you defining oppression
03:48:46.620 I
03:48:47.400 okay
03:48:47.840 like oppression
03:48:49.580 like oppression
03:48:49.600 typically has to come
03:48:50.740 from society
03:48:51.360 raise your hand
03:48:52.020 okay
03:48:52.660 do you want to
03:48:53.300 let me ask you a question
03:48:55.140 if you're like
03:48:55.660 let's say you're
03:48:56.340 in the upper echelons
03:48:58.540 of
03:48:59.040 of status
03:49:00.480 of society
03:49:01.720 but like
03:49:02.600 you fall victim
03:49:03.640 to some sort of
03:49:05.240 violent crime
03:49:06.160 like random violent crime
03:49:07.600 does that
03:49:08.940 mean that
03:49:09.780 you are oppressed
03:49:10.840 because you're a victim
03:49:11.680 of a random violent crime
03:49:13.160 if it's random
03:49:13.840 but if it's on the basis
03:49:15.060 of my gender
03:49:16.120 that's different
03:49:16.920 wait
03:49:17.600 there's no female president
03:49:18.740 would that same man
03:49:20.540 do the same
03:49:21.020 or I'm assuming it's a man
03:49:22.500 do the same thing to
03:49:24.300 a man
03:49:25.440 or is he seeking out women
03:49:26.540 I think that's what she's saying
03:49:27.580 men
03:49:27.920 like a Jack the Ripper vibe
03:49:29.400 it's
03:49:29.740 yes
03:49:30.360 men can get sexually assaulted too
03:49:32.340 but
03:49:32.760 people are mostly
03:49:33.980 heteronormative
03:49:34.740 specific
03:49:35.280 um
03:49:35.860 circumstance
03:49:36.400 okay
03:49:38.540 you're playing some weird
03:49:39.900 judo with language here
03:49:42.420 I don't know exactly
03:49:43.180 let's
03:49:43.480 okay
03:49:43.740 let's
03:49:44.080 let's start here
03:49:44.780 how are you defining oppression
03:49:46.500 because that's where
03:49:47.340 all the other arguments
03:49:48.440 are going to come from
03:49:49.320 how do you define oppression
03:49:49.380 no I asked you first
03:49:50.920 how do you define
03:49:52.340 free speech
03:49:53.120 a lack of free speech
03:49:54.320 inequality
03:49:55.960 like
03:49:56.300 like you don't have something
03:49:57.400 that the other person has
03:49:58.500 they have some type of a leg up
03:49:59.800 some type of a magical
03:50:01.120 or mythological
03:50:02.120 thing
03:50:03.000 that is allowing them
03:50:04.080 to be able to supersede
03:50:05.120 your results
03:50:05.580 even though you have
03:50:06.240 the same qualifications
03:50:07.100 well yeah
03:50:07.580 that's a very
03:50:08.300 yeah that's a really good
03:50:09.600 example
03:50:09.840 that's not a good example
03:50:10.920 because for most people
03:50:11.940 who became a politician
03:50:12.860 they were probably working
03:50:14.060 80 hours per week
03:50:15.180 as either a lawyer
03:50:16.020 or some other type
03:50:17.260 of similar profession
03:50:18.380 Donald Trump though
03:50:19.380 in order to get to that level
03:50:19.840 the idea that
03:50:20.620 okay
03:50:20.980 Twitch streamers
03:50:22.000 hold on
03:50:22.260 you're just
03:50:22.780 you're just naming
03:50:23.700 hold on
03:50:24.400 you're just naming
03:50:25.160 the fact that
03:50:26.320 certain jobs
03:50:27.440 men have dominated
03:50:28.380 in those fields
03:50:29.400 but then you also
03:50:30.320 have recognized
03:50:31.220 earlier in this conversation
03:50:32.840 that when it comes to
03:50:34.220 like the
03:50:34.620 when it comes to
03:50:35.340 men spending money
03:50:36.520 on women
03:50:37.460 yeah
03:50:38.180 OnlyFans
03:50:39.060 is a thing
03:50:39.540 no but
03:50:39.860 when I'm talking
03:50:40.780 about the
03:50:41.160 when I'm talking
03:50:41.800 about the intellect
03:50:42.920 yeah and into the mic
03:50:44.260 when you're talking
03:50:44.600 oh
03:50:44.840 when you talk
03:50:46.120 about the intellect
03:50:46.900 for men versus women
03:50:48.100 men have a much
03:50:49.620 less steep
03:50:51.200 bell curve
03:50:51.900 women have an extremely
03:50:52.880 steep bell curve
03:50:53.880 around the median
03:50:54.640 so you're going
03:50:55.260 to have men
03:50:56.040 who are
03:50:56.420 normal
03:50:56.780 yeah have a more
03:50:58.160 normal
03:50:59.340 like it's a
03:51:00.160 it's a normal
03:51:00.700 distribution for both
03:51:01.640 of them
03:51:01.960 but women are much
03:51:02.860 more centered around
03:51:03.560 the median have a much
03:51:04.480 steeper bell curve
03:51:05.260 so you're going to
03:51:05.980 have more men
03:51:07.500 who are mentally
03:51:08.620 slow
03:51:09.180 but you're going to
03:51:10.140 also have more men
03:51:11.180 who are
03:51:11.960 excelling
03:51:12.680 exceptional geniuses
03:51:14.460 so when you have
03:51:15.140 spaces that
03:51:16.020 like people of
03:51:17.240 particular genius
03:51:18.260 tend to excel
03:51:19.360 then men are going
03:51:20.780 to be within
03:51:22.040 like are going
03:51:22.880 to hold most
03:51:23.940 of the space
03:51:24.520 to the top
03:51:25.060 one percent
03:51:25.800 of those
03:51:26.220 oh is this the
03:51:26.720 greater male
03:51:27.320 variability
03:51:28.060 okay this
03:51:28.960 shit pisses me off
03:51:30.240 I'm not going
03:51:30.680 to lie
03:51:30.860 maybe it's because
03:51:31.780 of the fall
03:51:32.540 of the middle
03:51:33.060 class
03:51:33.500 pixie's pissed
03:51:34.740 I am
03:51:35.300 pixie
03:51:36.240 maybe it's because
03:51:37.060 of the fall
03:51:37.640 of the middle
03:51:38.120 class that I feel
03:51:39.440 like women have
03:51:40.320 to shorten
03:51:40.760 but it's just
03:51:41.360 the middle
03:51:41.720 class that's
03:51:42.440 literally
03:51:42.860 becoming less
03:51:44.180 okay
03:51:44.860 pixie how are you
03:51:45.820 oppressed
03:51:46.080 no wait
03:51:46.920 let me
03:51:47.280 let me
03:51:47.640 answer
03:51:47.920 I just
03:51:48.520 literally
03:51:48.860 answered
03:51:49.600 but multiple
03:51:50.300 times
03:51:50.520 you said
03:51:51.180 you're
03:51:51.380 oppressed
03:51:51.700 because you
03:51:52.220 have a chance
03:51:53.140 of
03:51:53.880 you have a higher
03:51:55.060 likelihood
03:51:55.620 of being
03:51:56.480 victimized
03:51:57.080 but
03:51:57.640 yes I'm more
03:51:59.740 likely to be
03:52:00.260 sexually harassed
03:52:01.040 than a man
03:52:01.440 okay
03:52:02.240 than a man
03:52:02.740 is to be
03:52:03.260 sexually harassed
03:52:03.820 by a woman
03:52:04.240 or even other
03:52:05.100 men
03:52:05.280 that's not
03:52:05.560 I don't think
03:52:06.200 that's evidence
03:52:06.820 of oppression
03:52:07.640 you're literally
03:52:09.800 we define
03:52:10.360 it's something
03:52:10.980 like every single
03:52:12.760 day when you
03:52:13.300 go out there
03:52:13.840 when you wake
03:52:14.440 up when you
03:52:14.860 walk out of
03:52:15.260 your house
03:52:15.540 when you go
03:52:15.880 to your job
03:52:16.400 when you go
03:52:16.820 to sleep
03:52:17.240 is this literally
03:52:18.540 on your mind
03:52:19.540 that's not how
03:52:20.240 we started
03:52:20.640 LA if you live
03:52:21.580 in LA
03:52:21.960 actually if you
03:52:22.980 live in downtown
03:52:23.500 LA or K-Town
03:52:24.440 or Hollywood
03:52:24.920 Chicago
03:52:25.460 Fresno
03:52:26.080 Bakersfield
03:52:26.820 Bakersfield
03:52:27.540 New York City
03:52:28.460 like just
03:52:29.360 it depends
03:52:30.080 it depends
03:52:30.680 no Chicago
03:52:31.280 isn't it like
03:52:31.940 a lot of
03:52:32.300 gang shootings
03:52:33.280 a lot of
03:52:33.580 when I think
03:52:34.080 of oppression
03:52:34.800 I think of
03:52:36.000 you know
03:52:36.920 not being able
03:52:38.060 to vote
03:52:39.000 I feel like
03:52:39.740 it needs to
03:52:40.000 affect your
03:52:40.300 day to day life
03:52:40.900 it needs to
03:52:41.420 affect your
03:52:41.980 day to day life
03:52:43.200 okay that's not
03:52:44.300 how we first
03:52:44.840 started establishing
03:52:45.460 oppression
03:52:45.820 but even if
03:52:46.700 you want to
03:52:47.000 establish it
03:52:47.400 that way
03:52:47.720 I think
03:52:48.140 things that
03:52:48.560 affect my
03:52:49.120 long-term
03:52:49.480 career opportunities
03:52:50.420 and my
03:52:50.880 long-term
03:52:51.220 trajectory in life
03:52:52.160 does count
03:52:53.000 even if it's
03:52:53.580 not like a
03:52:54.120 single instance
03:52:55.040 every single day
03:52:55.780 it's the fact
03:52:56.260 that my life
03:52:56.740 men are not
03:52:58.860 holding you back
03:52:59.940 from the job
03:53:01.060 that you desire
03:53:01.820 what do you mean
03:53:02.640 if I literally
03:53:03.560 am just as
03:53:05.300 qualified or more
03:53:06.200 qualified for a job
03:53:07.360 what evidence do you
03:53:07.960 have of that
03:53:08.560 so you don't really
03:53:09.500 have study after study
03:53:10.940 after study
03:53:11.660 you can search it up
03:53:12.760 there's a quality of
03:53:14.060 outcome but there's a
03:53:14.920 quality of opportunity
03:53:15.860 do you not acknowledge
03:53:16.900 that there's at least
03:53:17.620 a quality of opportunity
03:53:18.660 I'm not even getting
03:53:19.660 the opportunity
03:53:20.380 to shine in certain
03:53:21.700 spaces
03:53:22.000 so you disagree
03:53:23.080 that there is a
03:53:23.760 you don't think
03:53:24.360 that there's a
03:53:24.720 quality of opportunity
03:53:25.500 right now
03:53:26.060 no I don't
03:53:26.840 you have affirmative
03:53:27.640 action
03:53:28.300 you have
03:53:28.920 no opportunity
03:53:29.820 yeah but affirmative action
03:53:30.060 is only a band-aid
03:53:31.180 most people who get
03:53:31.980 admitted to college
03:53:32.720 for example
03:53:33.160 from affirmative action
03:53:34.200 actually have to drop out
03:53:35.480 but they still reap the benefit
03:53:35.920 of the affirmative action
03:53:37.320 which they receive
03:53:38.060 okay affirmative action
03:53:40.440 isn't this like little
03:53:41.440 magical fairy wand
03:53:42.640 that solves all problems
03:53:44.020 regarding like
03:53:44.640 quality or society
03:53:45.980 hold on guys
03:53:46.520 one mic at a time
03:53:48.200 go ahead
03:53:48.520 okay affirmative action
03:53:49.860 is not this little
03:53:50.580 magical wand
03:53:51.320 that suddenly solves
03:53:52.160 all problems
03:53:52.960 but that's what you're saying
03:53:54.320 you're like you guys
03:53:54.820 have affirmative action
03:53:55.680 and it's like even
03:53:56.280 with affirmative action
03:53:57.220 there are still
03:53:58.020 differences in the ways
03:53:59.680 that men and women
03:54:00.820 are treated in society
03:54:01.620 some of them unfairly
03:54:02.800 hold on can you agree
03:54:03.700 so okay
03:54:05.040 you've presented some
03:54:06.540 study you've made
03:54:08.540 some arguments about
03:54:09.400 well there's this study
03:54:10.820 where with the two
03:54:11.860 exact same resumes
03:54:13.580 the one with the male name
03:54:15.620 is does better
03:54:17.040 than the one
03:54:17.480 with the female name
03:54:18.220 but we actually
03:54:19.560 that's a study
03:54:20.600 we have in action
03:54:22.680 like that's
03:54:23.680 I think much more
03:54:25.060 observable than a study
03:54:27.080 you have affirmative action
03:54:28.640 you have D.I.E.
03:54:29.780 and major
03:54:30.820 even mid-tier corporations
03:54:32.700 major corporations
03:54:34.000 yeah and you still see
03:54:35.100 when they do the studies though
03:54:36.360 they do comparison
03:54:37.420 between with names
03:54:38.580 and without names
03:54:39.700 and people who
03:54:40.780 like when you do the studies
03:54:42.560 without names
03:54:43.300 way more
03:54:44.060 and you know
03:54:44.260 you know who probably
03:54:45.140 ran the study
03:54:45.760 it was probably
03:54:46.160 some feminist studies program
03:54:47.540 it's not just one study
03:54:48.740 there's multiple
03:54:49.460 there's entire journals
03:54:50.740 it's well established
03:54:52.160 let me finish
03:54:53.300 going into the study
03:54:54.480 they were looking
03:54:55.360 they were fishing
03:54:56.160 for an exact
03:54:57.780 they were
03:54:58.380 it's like if you're
03:54:59.020 looking for the answer
03:55:00.180 yeah you're saying
03:55:01.900 that the study
03:55:02.560 is false to begin with
03:55:03.560 I mean like the same people
03:55:04.520 applying to all of tech
03:55:05.760 and then some tech
03:55:07.240 places
03:55:07.920 who conducted the study
03:55:08.820 was it some feminist
03:55:09.840 I think it was Yale
03:55:10.540 I guess Yale is like
03:55:11.760 a feminist
03:55:12.120 it doesn't have to be a feminist
03:55:12.980 but the assumption is that
03:55:14.500 women will eventually
03:55:15.520 have children
03:55:16.100 and take maternity leave
03:55:17.380 so it's like a business decision
03:55:18.820 so what she is saying
03:55:20.060 is true
03:55:20.800 but because of the business decision
03:55:23.280 companies are trying to make
03:55:24.500 so you think that your career
03:55:25.320 has just not manifested itself
03:55:27.560 in the way you would have liked
03:55:28.700 because you're oppressed
03:55:29.820 no that's not what I said
03:55:31.840 I said that if I decide
03:55:33.320 to go to a certain career path
03:55:34.700 I will most likely be
03:55:35.880 at a disadvantage
03:55:36.640 what did you study in college?
03:55:38.820 I studied
03:55:39.380 I triple majored actually
03:55:40.740 in philosophy
03:55:41.440 economics
03:55:42.060 and psychology
03:55:42.900 okay
03:55:44.200 so have you not been able to
03:55:46.440 proceed in a career
03:55:48.800 because of
03:55:49.560 the oppression
03:55:50.660 that you believe exists?
03:55:51.540 I'm saying that
03:55:51.700 if I decided
03:55:52.740 to go into a STEM career
03:55:54.700 it will be
03:55:55.800 statistically
03:55:56.580 much more
03:55:57.800 harder for me
03:55:58.540 to get a job
03:55:59.200 with my qualifications
03:56:00.060 there's actually more women
03:56:01.180 in STEM than there are men
03:56:02.540 that is just not true
03:56:04.300 define STEM
03:56:05.180 define STEM
03:56:05.920 like which jobs?
03:56:07.020 well okay
03:56:07.440 I have some notes here
03:56:08.320 so
03:56:08.600 in America?
03:56:10.060 yes here in the US
03:56:11.020 okay
03:56:11.520 so science, technology, engineering, maths
03:56:13.720 so
03:56:14.280 what the feminists like to do
03:56:16.460 is they like to exclude
03:56:18.000 certain STEM fields
03:56:19.620 where women are actually
03:56:20.480 overrepresented
03:56:21.500 than men
03:56:22.360 in order to like
03:56:23.500 further try
03:56:24.680 to
03:56:24.940 is it about wage?
03:56:25.520 no
03:56:25.980 in order to further
03:56:27.000 try to gain
03:56:27.800 affirmative action
03:56:30.380 what is
03:56:31.360 what you're saying?
03:56:32.540 so
03:56:32.800 I've got some notes here
03:56:34.480 I'll read it
03:56:34.960 medicine and dentistry
03:56:36.140 subjects allied to medicine
03:56:37.760 biological sciences
03:56:38.920 veterinary science
03:56:39.880 agriculture
03:56:40.480 and related subjects
03:56:41.500 physical science
03:56:42.480 mathematical science
03:56:43.420 those are majors
03:56:45.160 hold on
03:56:45.480 computer science
03:56:46.320 engineering
03:56:46.880 technologies
03:56:47.580 and architecture
03:56:48.380 those are jobs
03:56:49.160 that's the official
03:56:50.440 no no no
03:56:51.040 official definition
03:56:52.100 of STEM
03:56:52.860 yeah
03:56:53.380 okay
03:56:53.740 so
03:56:54.240 but when
03:56:55.080 women say STEM
03:56:55.960 it's
03:56:57.240 they
03:56:57.780 they don't
03:56:58.320 acknowledge
03:56:58.880 all those things
03:57:00.460 for instance
03:57:01.800 nursing
03:57:02.380 right
03:57:02.860 yeah
03:57:03.540 nursing is probably
03:57:04.780 very much overwhelmed
03:57:05.920 by women
03:57:06.480 I guess that would be
03:57:07.340 classified under STEM
03:57:08.460 if we're including
03:57:09.140 all medical
03:57:09.760 but that's like
03:57:11.000 but like
03:57:11.460 nurse assistants
03:57:12.280 like
03:57:13.280 STEM as a whole
03:57:14.760 is definitely
03:57:15.600 male dominated
03:57:16.560 STEM as a whole
03:57:17.340 it's not
03:57:17.780 okay
03:57:17.980 can you tell me
03:57:18.640 where you're getting
03:57:19.120 that statistic from
03:57:19.960 if you're including
03:57:20.600 medical
03:57:21.080 like as a like
03:57:22.000 careers
03:57:22.440 like if
03:57:23.360 they have over
03:57:24.500 six figures
03:57:25.060 if it's software
03:57:25.600 engineers
03:57:26.060 if it's data
03:57:26.800 scientists
03:57:27.520 I'm generally
03:57:28.220 curious
03:57:28.540 they look at
03:57:28.960 physical science
03:57:29.760 mathematics
03:57:30.300 engineering and
03:57:31.180 technology and
03:57:31.880 computing
03:57:32.240 and they think
03:57:33.120 that's the extent
03:57:34.200 of STEM
03:57:34.860 but when you
03:57:35.800 if you start
03:57:36.640 removing like
03:57:37.520 biological sciences
03:57:38.580 nursing etc
03:57:39.620 veterinary science
03:57:40.840 agriculture
03:57:41.480 any subjects
03:57:42.760 allied to
03:57:43.820 medicine
03:57:44.180 then women
03:57:45.740 are actually
03:57:46.460 overrepresented
03:57:47.800 there's more
03:57:48.360 women in STEM
03:57:49.020 I want to know
03:57:49.480 what study
03:57:50.040 you're getting
03:57:50.600 this from
03:57:51.200 please just
03:57:51.820 tell me
03:57:52.140 what source
03:57:52.820 are these
03:57:53.260 assistant jobs
03:57:54.440 as well
03:57:54.960 let me find it
03:57:56.400 I'll find it
03:57:57.400 I'm not even
03:57:58.940 doubting it
03:57:59.380 I want to know
03:57:59.900 for like 10
03:58:00.760 female assistants
03:58:01.480 of course
03:58:02.020 it's going to
03:58:02.400 be female
03:58:02.860 dominated
03:58:03.380 oh of course
03:58:04.700 it's going to
03:58:04.920 be female
03:58:05.360 dominated
03:58:05.820 if you count
03:58:06.620 all the
03:58:07.020 assistants
03:58:07.380 there's going
03:58:07.720 to be one
03:58:08.040 doctor for
03:58:08.720 like 10
03:58:09.400 nurses and
03:58:09.860 assistants
03:58:10.260 but it doesn't
03:58:11.140 mean that they
03:58:11.580 make more
03:58:12.100 or that they
03:58:13.480 actually graduated
03:58:14.320 from those fields
03:58:15.060 you can be a
03:58:15.860 dental assistant
03:58:16.580 yes
03:58:17.120 for every dentist
03:58:18.480 there's dental
03:58:19.240 assistants that
03:58:19.820 didn't actually
03:58:20.260 graduate from
03:58:20.920 college but
03:58:21.580 they're also
03:58:22.040 counted in
03:58:23.140 STEM as a
03:58:24.120 job but if
03:58:24.800 you just look
03:58:25.200 at like income
03:58:25.980 people who make
03:58:27.160 over six figures
03:58:28.560 in a STEM field
03:58:29.340 like how many
03:58:30.040 people are women
03:58:30.660 and men
03:58:31.040 I think that's a
03:58:31.780 more fair
03:58:32.320 comparison because
03:58:33.080 if you're an
03:58:33.440 assistant it
03:58:34.440 doesn't really
03:58:34.800 matter like I
03:58:35.580 can get an
03:58:36.140 assistant job in
03:58:36.860 like any field
03:58:37.600 right now and
03:58:38.860 I can still be
03:58:39.440 counted
03:58:39.660 this is like
03:58:40.780 you want to
03:58:42.700 focus on
03:58:43.560 it's the
03:58:43.980 apex fallacy
03:58:44.600 you want to
03:58:45.060 focus on
03:58:46.240 the top
03:58:47.420 positions
03:58:48.100 yeah because
03:58:48.840 that's what
03:58:49.380 you need a
03:58:49.820 degree for that
03:58:50.400 quality you
03:58:50.960 don't hear
03:58:51.280 feminists
03:58:51.840 arguing oh
03:58:52.500 we need 50%
03:58:53.520 of women to
03:58:54.860 be bricklayers
03:58:55.700 we need 50%
03:58:56.980 of
03:58:57.720 women to work
03:58:58.860 on an oil rig
03:58:59.500 I think the
03:59:00.060 argument
03:59:00.320 like workplace
03:59:01.760 deaths
03:59:02.160 there's a
03:59:02.980 gap
03:59:03.700 there's a
03:59:04.160 workplace
03:59:04.700 death gap
03:59:05.400 93% of
03:59:06.880 it's 91 or
03:59:07.880 93% of
03:59:08.660 workplace
03:59:09.140 deaths
03:59:09.520 are men
03:59:10.280 I think
03:59:11.980 let's we
03:59:12.640 should we
03:59:13.040 equalize that
03:59:14.080 perhaps men
03:59:15.160 one of the
03:59:15.700 reasons men
03:59:16.200 get paid more
03:59:16.820 than women
03:59:17.280 is because
03:59:19.500 I think it
03:59:20.320 would make sense
03:59:20.660 for blue
03:59:21.040 colored jobs
03:59:21.440 they're more
03:59:21.780 likely to do
03:59:22.400 dangerous work
03:59:23.260 they're more
03:59:23.800 likely to work
03:59:24.400 outside if
03:59:25.360 there's some
03:59:25.740 major fucking
03:59:26.520 power outage in
03:59:27.360 the middle of
03:59:27.760 the winter in
03:59:28.440 below zero
03:59:29.280 below freezing
03:59:30.100 temperature
03:59:30.340 who's gonna be
03:59:31.800 the one
03:59:32.300 who's gonna be
03:59:33.200 the one
03:59:33.640 who goes out
03:59:34.520 at 2am
03:59:35.960 and he's
03:59:37.000 working on
03:59:37.560 the line
03:59:37.900 but I don't
03:59:38.460 agree that
03:59:39.100 women shouldn't
03:59:39.980 be in the
03:59:40.300 office
03:59:40.680 this is such a
03:59:44.820 bad argument
03:59:45.280 because when it
03:59:46.000 comes to jobs
03:59:46.640 that are making
03:59:47.120 the most amount
03:59:47.840 of money to
03:59:48.360 begin with
03:59:48.800 your logic
03:59:49.760 or whatever
03:59:50.100 what you're
03:59:50.500 saying it's
03:59:51.040 actually like
03:59:51.480 white collar
03:59:51.860 jobs nice
03:59:52.520 CEO positions
03:59:53.280 but regardless
03:59:54.100 of that putting
03:59:54.880 that aside
03:59:55.320 I really want
03:59:56.680 that's right
03:59:56.880 you can only
03:59:57.600 have feminism
03:59:58.120 when there's
03:59:58.580 cushy air
03:59:59.100 conditioned
03:59:59.440 jobs
03:59:59.820 no
04:00:00.200 no
04:00:00.980 like okay
04:00:02.300 you don't hear
04:00:02.920 feminists fighting
04:00:03.820 for these
04:00:04.820 dangerous
04:00:05.300 first of all
04:00:05.880 that's not
04:00:06.400 true
04:00:06.720 first of all
04:00:07.780 no
04:00:07.960 first of all
04:00:08.520 it is not true
04:00:09.060 if you literally
04:00:09.620 switch up
04:00:10.040 feminists and
04:00:11.140 blue collar work
04:00:12.100 hey no no no
04:00:13.060 no no no
04:00:13.520 no no
04:00:14.180 no no
04:00:14.760 no no
04:00:15.260 no
04:00:15.820 no
04:00:16.860 no
04:00:17.140 zip it
04:00:18.380 you
04:00:18.660 okay fine
04:00:19.340 zip it
04:00:19.620 and then I go
04:00:20.220 go
04:00:20.520 deal
04:00:20.800 oh thank you
04:00:21.680 papacy
04:00:21.980 okay
04:00:22.580 yo
04:00:23.280 y'all
04:00:23.860 feminists just
04:00:24.780 want to fight
04:00:25.660 for the cushy
04:00:26.780 high paying
04:00:27.720 air conditioned
04:00:28.820 office jobs
04:00:29.920 you don't want
04:00:30.960 to do the
04:00:31.540 dirty dangerous
04:00:32.340 work
04:00:32.720 that men
04:00:33.620 are doing
04:00:34.020 that happen
04:00:34.480 to be high
04:00:35.080 paid
04:00:35.340 and you
04:00:36.040 think that
04:00:36.740 because all
04:00:37.460 the men you
04:00:37.920 surround with
04:00:38.380 yourself around
04:00:39.460 say the same
04:00:40.220 exact thing
04:00:40.660 about feminism
04:00:41.260 but there are
04:00:42.240 actually feminist
04:00:43.080 movements within
04:00:43.820 this field that if
04:00:44.580 you did three
04:00:45.080 seconds of research
04:00:45.980 you'll see
04:00:46.680 it's no
04:00:47.220 just say yeah
04:00:47.800 you can say no
04:00:48.320 no no but guess
04:00:49.020 what I'm a
04:00:49.580 feminist I'm
04:00:50.240 actually part of
04:00:50.860 these movements
04:00:51.220 I actually look at
04:00:52.360 them
04:00:52.760 you literally
04:00:53.420 went to stem
04:00:54.480 which is a
04:00:55.100 yeah because
04:00:55.680 stem is one of
04:00:56.360 the biggest
04:00:56.760 disparities where
04:00:57.960 you know
04:00:58.440 theoretically speaking
04:00:59.240 there shouldn't
04:00:59.760 be that's why
04:01:00.660 that's why I
04:01:01.360 went to stem
04:01:02.040 okay
04:01:02.540 what do you
04:01:03.240 mean there's
04:01:03.760 not a disparity
04:01:04.460 and actually
04:01:05.140 there's a disparity
04:01:05.900 hold on but
04:01:06.800 do you acknowledge
04:01:07.560 that there's a
04:01:08.120 disparity in
04:01:08.780 college enrollment
04:01:09.540 oh yes
04:01:10.160 there's more
04:01:10.580 women in
04:01:11.080 college
04:01:11.360 yeah exactly
04:01:12.020 so how come
04:01:12.900 does it take
04:01:13.400 a woman to
04:01:13.880 have like I
04:01:14.460 guess like 1.5
04:01:15.620 more like of an
04:01:16.860 educational level
04:01:17.680 than men to get
04:01:18.420 the same paying
04:01:19.140 job basically a
04:01:20.240 woman has to go
04:01:21.100 get her undergraduate
04:01:22.220 degree and
04:01:23.040 masters to get
04:01:23.880 the same level of
04:01:24.700 job that I just
04:01:25.720 have to get his
04:01:26.340 undergraduate degree
04:01:27.300 erroneous
04:01:27.940 yeah I got to
04:01:28.500 say erroneous
04:01:29.160 because you can't
04:01:29.760 respond to me
04:01:30.340 okay so no I
04:01:31.820 can't respond to
04:01:32.540 you I can respond
04:01:33.540 I can respond to
04:01:34.720 you okay respond
04:01:35.480 throw the popcorn
04:01:36.660 back
04:01:36.920 I'm being a
04:01:37.340 bitch
04:01:37.580 you just
04:01:41.260 I love this
04:01:42.640 savage pixie
04:01:43.400 you didn't even
04:01:44.540 address my argument
04:01:45.640 about how men are
04:01:47.000 underrepresented when
04:01:48.040 it comes to
04:01:48.580 attaining college
04:01:49.980 degrees
04:01:50.540 yeah no I said
04:01:51.820 I actually proves
04:01:52.720 the point of like
04:01:53.340 hey guess what
04:01:54.080 there's a disparity
04:01:54.780 where it shouldn't
04:01:55.360 be because men
04:01:56.260 need less education
04:01:57.480 to get the same
04:01:58.360 job that a woman
04:01:59.220 has
04:01:59.680 a woman needs
04:02:01.020 yeah a woman
04:02:02.100 needs to get an
04:02:02.700 undergraduate degree
04:02:03.400 and masters to
04:02:04.160 basically get the
04:02:04.900 same level paying
04:02:05.820 job as a man
04:02:06.600 that's not you can
04:02:08.160 search it up right
04:02:08.740 now
04:02:08.980 it's not go
04:02:10.740 search it
04:02:11.220 I hate the fact
04:02:12.460 that you have a
04:02:13.060 computer and you
04:02:13.680 can literally google
04:02:14.420 what I'm saying
04:02:15.060 and you just won't
04:02:16.320 you're saying a
04:02:17.360 woman needs to get
04:02:18.220 a master's degree
04:02:19.400 to earn the same
04:02:21.780 as a guy who
04:02:22.340 hasn't
04:02:23.340 I said on at
04:02:24.160 like basically the
04:02:25.240 way that like these
04:02:26.000 numbers are coming
04:02:26.660 out is that a woman
04:02:27.560 needs like more
04:02:28.780 education to get the
04:02:30.160 same level paying as
04:02:31.240 a guy who has less
04:02:31.840 can I address this
04:02:32.940 though because when
04:02:33.600 it comes there is
04:02:34.640 there's a lot of
04:02:35.440 studies that confirm
04:02:36.320 that when it comes to
04:02:37.580 applying for jobs
04:02:38.660 women will look at a
04:02:39.660 job description and
04:02:40.480 let's say there's 10
04:02:41.280 bullet points if they
04:02:42.860 meet like nine of the
04:02:45.000 10 bullet points or
04:02:45.800 eight of the 10 and
04:02:46.540 they're like oh but I
04:02:47.380 didn't meet the last
04:02:48.520 two yeah it says I
04:02:49.480 have my master's or
04:02:50.760 you need a master's and
04:02:51.800 I only have a bachelor
04:02:52.580 they're not even going
04:02:53.280 to apply yeah
04:02:54.180 whereas men like
04:02:55.680 let's say they only
04:02:56.440 meet like three or
04:02:57.320 four they're going to
04:02:58.340 apply yeah
04:02:59.480 absolutely
04:03:00.260 absolutely
04:03:01.520 if you're saying
04:03:03.140 absolutely that's why
04:03:05.260 men are more likely to
04:03:06.980 have the same jobs with
04:03:08.080 bachelors than as
04:03:09.580 women with masters
04:03:10.660 because they're
04:03:11.120 flipping applying
04:03:12.460 they're putting
04:03:13.040 themselves out there
04:03:13.980 way more because they
04:03:14.920 can take they
04:03:15.600 experience rejection in
04:03:17.200 life significantly more
04:03:18.940 than women do which is
04:03:20.100 why they can that's
04:03:21.460 why there's women who
04:03:22.140 are still high levels
04:03:22.920 in those different
04:03:23.540 careers because there's
04:03:24.540 women who are able to
04:03:25.500 exemplify the personality
04:03:26.900 characteristics to be
04:03:28.060 able to achieve that
04:03:28.920 same level otherwise
04:03:30.200 there wouldn't be any
04:03:30.980 women right if it was
04:03:32.180 really that oppressive
04:03:33.220 but no the women who
04:03:34.440 are able to exude and
04:03:35.800 exemplify those
04:03:36.940 characteristics that that
04:03:38.820 are necessary to
04:03:39.560 actually get on top
04:03:40.560 they're still successful
04:03:42.420 they're still in those
04:03:43.120 positions
04:03:43.480 so it's more nurture
04:03:44.520 well that's that's
04:03:46.340 the other thing
04:03:46.820 sometimes absolutely
04:03:47.900 and again but that's
04:03:48.920 the exception to the
04:03:49.840 rule I still believe
04:03:51.020 it's the exception
04:03:51.640 well but we can be
04:03:52.560 more norm than
04:03:53.220 outliers though in
04:03:54.240 the current day but
04:03:55.340 if you look at it 50
04:03:56.460 years ago yeah it's
04:03:57.560 like more nature you
04:03:59.660 would argue
04:04:00.140 well I would say that
04:04:02.280 when it comes to the
04:04:02.880 point that you brought
04:04:03.500 up Lauren that's true
04:04:04.640 that's definitely one
04:04:05.280 of the contributing
04:04:05.880 factors but then that
04:04:07.140 goes back to like
04:04:07.820 socialization and like
04:04:09.120 the and maybe you
04:04:10.300 disagree with me
04:04:11.080 oppression that comes
04:04:12.120 from like brutal so
04:04:13.440 unfair socialization so
04:04:14.840 the fact that like
04:04:15.480 women are always taught
04:04:16.900 to be risk adverse even
04:04:18.040 financially risk adverse
04:04:19.260 risk adverse risk
04:04:20.080 risk adverse oh no
04:04:21.800 you should just be
04:04:22.580 doing everything
04:04:23.180 play and save
04:04:23.660 women are taught
04:04:24.400 that or that's just
04:04:25.180 the natural order of
04:04:26.280 things I think women
04:04:27.460 are definitely taught
04:04:28.300 that I think taught
04:04:29.000 because boys will be
04:04:29.800 boys that's a thing
04:04:30.700 but men if you ever
04:04:31.420 meet a woman who
04:04:32.180 wasn't socialized
04:04:33.040 biologically more risk
04:04:36.080 tolerant risk tolerance
04:04:37.580 men are allowed to be
04:04:39.200 yeah like a woman
04:04:40.640 like boys will be boys
04:04:42.020 like why are you doing
04:04:42.840 that like women are
04:04:44.060 taught to be like more
04:04:45.120 nurturing from the get
04:04:46.060 go we get bought like
04:04:47.160 Barbies I don't think
04:04:48.200 it's about being taught
04:04:49.020 I just think that's
04:04:49.820 just the natural order
04:04:50.860 of things if that was
04:04:51.680 the natural men are
04:04:52.200 more likely to be
04:04:52.940 risk takers that's
04:04:54.260 definitely not true I
04:04:55.340 feel it well not just
04:04:56.280 I think I know if you
04:04:58.360 ever meet a man who
04:04:59.260 is like oh it's okay
04:05:01.560 to be aggressive you
04:05:02.360 know that's just a boy
04:05:03.060 being a boy guess what
04:05:04.340 they're going to show
04:05:05.100 aggressive patterns in
04:05:06.320 the future versus kids
04:05:07.880 that are taught to like
04:05:08.600 emotionally regulate
04:05:09.380 better they tend to
04:05:10.420 have like better like
04:05:11.060 long-term outcomes when
04:05:12.100 it comes to emotional
04:05:13.220 regularity this idea that
04:05:14.680 men are just naturally
04:05:15.600 like more like you
04:05:17.020 know like they like
04:05:18.020 the risk more they
04:05:18.820 like to be a violent
04:05:19.540 more they like to be
04:05:20.300 aggressive more less
04:05:21.280 aggressive societies
04:05:22.280 overall like in Japan
04:05:23.140 there's not as much
04:05:24.200 like violence same in
04:05:25.240 China there's like no
04:05:26.100 violence like if I walk
04:05:27.000 down the street at 3 a.m.
04:05:28.000 no one's gonna like
04:05:28.880 follow me but isn't it
04:05:29.960 the case on the if you
04:05:31.260 look at the average
04:05:32.040 temperamentally men and
04:05:33.280 women are actually fairly
04:05:34.260 close but when you start
04:05:35.500 looking at the extremes
04:05:36.640 you have men that tend
04:05:38.580 to dominate at the
04:05:39.940 extremes I thought we
04:05:41.620 were talking about like
04:05:42.180 society in general though
04:05:43.580 wait what like are we
04:05:45.380 not talking about
04:05:45.860 society in general like
04:05:47.000 oh yeah well yeah
04:05:49.680 when it comes to
04:05:50.360 men are more likely to
04:05:52.360 for example I'm pretty
04:05:53.200 sure men are more
04:05:53.700 likely to be entrepreneurs
04:05:54.560 they're more likely to
04:05:55.340 be business owners for
04:05:57.060 example that typically
04:05:58.140 but that's in America
04:05:59.500 get away with it also
04:06:01.060 work jobs that are more
04:06:02.600 like physically demanding
04:06:03.920 that have high level of
04:06:04.940 risk involved as well
04:06:06.260 yeah that and then
04:06:07.280 women work more
04:06:08.400 nursery jobs when it
04:06:09.320 comes to like coding
04:06:10.340 anyone can stay in front
04:06:11.640 of a computer screen and
04:06:12.620 read code like that's
04:06:14.840 why the wage I was
04:06:15.640 closing for those jobs
04:06:16.800 yeah and it just seems
04:06:18.640 that in a lot of these
04:06:19.440 things where it's like
04:06:19.980 men are more likely to
04:06:20.860 do these things well
04:06:21.620 guess what men are more
04:06:22.780 likely to be raised that
04:06:23.940 it's okay taking risk
04:06:24.960 that they don't have to
04:06:25.600 constantly be aware and
04:06:26.900 like scared of their
04:06:27.580 surroundings so you're
04:06:28.680 saying this is like a
04:06:29.420 chicken or egg situation
04:06:30.640 you're saying that
04:06:31.380 because of the way we've
04:06:32.800 been programmed this is
04:06:33.800 the way society is versus
04:06:35.300 us saying that this is
04:06:36.200 the way society is
04:06:37.180 therefore we have created
04:06:37.980 structures that are
04:06:38.680 revolved around human
04:06:39.980 nature and our natural
04:06:41.080 proclivity what she
04:06:42.400 what she says maybe
04:06:43.600 made sense 30 40 50
04:06:46.420 years ago but now we
04:06:47.380 have girl power be a
04:06:50.440 boss babe
04:06:51.160 so you're talking about
04:06:51.640 the necessity of
04:06:52.860 feminism back when like
04:06:54.660 we literally couldn't
04:06:55.420 even vote when we
04:06:56.180 couldn't own property
04:06:56.880 all of these different
04:06:57.780 things versus today
04:06:59.160 when we have equality
04:07:00.640 of opportunity
04:07:01.580 but we do
04:07:02.400 and the equality of
04:07:03.560 outcome doesn't
04:07:04.640 determine whether or
04:07:05.400 not we have the same
04:07:06.000 opportunity
04:07:06.400 but it's like our
04:07:07.280 parents couldn't even
04:07:08.280 own property until like
04:07:09.700 the 70s so I think
04:07:11.180 like wealth disparity
04:07:13.180 wise like women
04:07:14.020 wait why couldn't your
04:07:15.380 parents own property
04:07:16.320 until the 70s
04:07:16.780 no woman
04:07:17.340 women women just
04:07:18.700 solely on their own
04:07:20.000 without being married
04:07:20.760 they actually couldn't
04:07:21.340 they just couldn't be
04:07:21.900 married right exactly
04:07:22.860 like you said
04:07:23.400 I feel like this is
04:07:24.180 such a
04:07:24.560 it wasn't the 70s
04:07:25.680 wasn't it like the
04:07:26.360 20s
04:07:27.020 no
04:07:27.480 this is such a
04:07:29.980 feminist talking point
04:07:31.040 like oh the way I was
04:07:32.260 raised like I I'm just
04:07:34.220 a slave I'm beholden
04:07:36.040 when did we say
04:07:36.720 hold on
04:07:37.040 okay
04:07:37.440 let me finish
04:07:38.460 oh I you know the
04:07:39.820 because I was raised
04:07:41.160 this way I'm just not
04:07:42.580 going to be I'm not
04:07:43.600 going to be a risk
04:07:44.320 taker you were not
04:07:45.280 beholden to the way
04:07:46.480 you were raised take
04:07:47.460 some accountability
04:07:48.020 women have agency
04:07:49.100 you can move in the
04:07:50.460 world in the west
04:07:51.540 however you damn well
04:07:52.840 please take
04:07:53.620 accountability
04:07:54.080 you have agency
04:07:55.280 nobody's saying that
04:07:56.740 women can't take
04:07:57.420 accountability
04:07:57.940 what they're saying
04:07:58.880 is that obviously
04:07:59.860 just like every other
04:08:01.000 fucking human being
04:08:02.000 in the world
04:08:02.480 the way that you're
04:08:03.220 raised affects your
04:08:04.220 actions
04:08:04.540 I am sorry to tell you
04:08:06.300 that you're not like
04:08:07.040 this special little
04:08:07.740 snowflake that is
04:08:08.780 immune to environmental
04:08:10.220 characteristics
04:08:11.240 Brian
04:08:12.060 I think you're a
04:08:14.080 special little
04:08:14.740 snowflake
04:08:15.380 thank you very much
04:08:16.500 I love to see you
04:08:17.780 fight up like this
04:08:18.520 by the way
04:08:19.060 it's so exciting
04:08:20.240 I still just
04:08:21.940 I
04:08:22.260 you you haven't
04:08:23.620 really made a
04:08:24.460 convincing argument
04:08:25.240 for the ways in
04:08:25.960 which you
04:08:26.460 have
04:08:27.300 don't have
04:08:27.920 rights
04:08:28.120 I just like to
04:08:28.640 see you're angry
04:08:29.200 here let me ask
04:08:33.720 you a question
04:08:33.980 do you think
04:08:34.420 because I'm a
04:08:35.280 male do you
04:08:35.760 think I'm
04:08:36.060 privileged because
04:08:36.820 I'm a male
04:08:37.260 I think there's
04:08:38.900 certain ways that
04:08:39.740 you're privileged
04:08:40.240 and certain ways
04:08:40.860 that you're
04:08:41.140 oppressed
04:08:41.500 because I'm a
04:08:43.200 male
04:08:43.380 yeah I think
04:08:44.140 men definitely
04:08:44.900 have some ways
04:08:46.000 that they're
04:08:46.280 oppressed
04:08:46.680 do you think
04:08:47.620 male privilege
04:08:48.360 is superior
04:08:50.560 to female
04:08:51.440 privilege maybe
04:08:52.080 superior is not
04:08:52.660 the right word
04:08:53.080 is
04:08:53.800 provides more
04:08:55.580 privilege than
04:08:56.300 female privilege
04:08:57.080 white male
04:08:57.740 I don't know
04:08:59.360 white male
04:08:59.980 I will say that
04:09:00.860 I'm not sure
04:09:01.420 how you would
04:09:01.840 quantify
04:09:02.380 these white
04:09:03.800 cis heterosexual
04:09:06.520 men
04:09:07.560 ruining society
04:09:09.820 if a society
04:09:12.200 is built by
04:09:13.200 white men
04:09:14.320 then yeah
04:09:15.120 the rules are
04:09:16.300 to your favor
04:09:17.440 of course
04:09:18.100 if you're in
04:09:19.020 society was built
04:09:19.960 by white men
04:09:21.020 here in America
04:09:21.640 yeah if you're in
04:09:22.420 China you're not
04:09:23.080 going to have
04:09:23.660 as much privileges
04:09:24.480 no
04:09:24.960 I mean but
04:09:26.420 times are changing
04:09:27.380 hopefully
04:09:28.320 I think
04:09:29.300 and you're bigger
04:09:30.240 you can beat up
04:09:31.680 any of us
04:09:32.320 at this table
04:09:32.940 yeah you could just
04:09:45.240 because they're seen
04:09:45.900 as less effective
04:09:46.880 it's like why would
04:09:48.280 you have if you had
04:09:48.920 two employees one
04:09:49.960 costed a little bit
04:09:50.680 more but you think
04:09:51.460 they're doing a plus
04:09:52.460 work versus an
04:09:53.300 employee you could
04:09:53.860 pay them less but
04:09:54.520 they're doing like
04:09:55.080 c work who are you
04:09:56.180 gonna hire this
04:09:56.780 you're saying that
04:09:57.380 women do c-level
04:09:58.820 work
04:09:59.040 yeah I'm saying
04:09:59.700 that men
04:10:00.180 they assume that
04:10:01.720 women are doing
04:10:02.280 c-level work
04:10:03.040 that's a problem
04:10:03.920 it's just in their
04:10:05.320 perception it has
04:10:06.060 nothing to do
04:10:06.700 with their results
04:10:07.460 a lot of times
04:10:09.260 yeah
04:10:09.680 if you remove the
04:10:10.020 name and just
04:10:10.740 look at the resume
04:10:11.540 they do hire way
04:10:12.820 more women
04:10:13.300 but that doesn't
04:10:13.780 even that doesn't
04:10:14.720 even work when
04:10:15.460 you talk about
04:10:16.180 like long
04:10:18.320 companies that
04:10:19.040 have had like a
04:10:19.880 lot like many
04:10:20.520 many years of
04:10:21.520 practice with DEI
04:10:22.900 because that would
04:10:23.800 that doesn't just
04:10:24.840 include first hires
04:10:26.180 that includes all
04:10:27.080 of the people who
04:10:27.800 work and that's
04:10:28.500 why the wage gap
04:10:29.100 is closing because
04:10:29.800 people are realizing
04:10:30.640 that women can be
04:10:31.720 just as capable
04:10:32.480 but slowly but the
04:10:34.440 CEOs are all like
04:10:35.300 boomers you know
04:10:36.040 they're still like
04:10:36.620 60 years old
04:10:37.540 no they're literally
04:10:38.480 financially incentivized
04:10:40.140 to hire women
04:10:40.760 yeah and that's why
04:10:41.320 it is slowly closing
04:10:42.600 because before
04:10:43.520 also not every
04:10:44.420 company is ESG
04:10:45.400 like there's tons
04:10:46.300 of companies
04:10:46.580 literally every
04:10:47.340 company is
04:10:48.140 that is so not
04:10:48.280 true we can
04:10:48.880 search up the
04:10:49.340 statistic about
04:10:50.000 how many ESG
04:10:50.700 companies are out
04:10:51.460 there versus
04:10:51.920 let me come back
04:10:52.260 to what we're
04:10:52.620 talking about
04:10:52.860 okay so let's
04:10:53.480 talk about male
04:10:54.160 privilege right
04:10:54.800 so do you
04:10:56.080 think male
04:10:56.880 I'd rather talk
04:10:57.340 about male
04:10:57.680 oppression I'm
04:10:59.100 sorry okay but
04:10:59.900 do you think male
04:11:00.720 privilege is provides
04:11:03.100 more privilege than
04:11:04.000 female privilege
04:11:04.800 um it depends on
04:11:07.160 what context or area
04:11:08.680 you're talking about
04:11:09.480 right in general
04:11:10.960 like just there's
04:11:11.780 no I hate when
04:11:12.860 people are like in
04:11:13.480 general like no
04:11:14.580 like that I'm sorry
04:11:15.600 world is not black
04:11:16.720 and white it's not
04:11:17.480 simple you have to
04:11:18.520 look at things in
04:11:19.160 certain contexts so
04:11:20.900 I think yeah
04:11:21.980 necessarily well we'll
04:11:24.040 agree to disagree on
04:11:24.920 this okay we can
04:11:25.780 ask you a question
04:11:26.560 not a thing like do
04:11:27.820 we not believe in
04:11:28.680 that I think males are
04:11:29.940 systematically oppressed
04:11:30.820 in this country but I
04:11:31.640 don't think women are
04:11:32.340 that's what I'm talking
04:11:33.020 about if one of us
04:11:35.380 try to jump you you
04:11:36.400 can beat us up and
04:11:37.380 that is a privilege
04:11:38.320 going going way back
04:11:40.020 wait that's not a
04:11:40.960 privilege that's just a
04:11:41.880 biological reality but
04:11:42.960 that's a privilege a
04:11:43.760 biological reality is a
04:11:45.300 privilege right that you
04:11:46.760 can do that how are you
04:11:47.880 defining privilege yeah
04:11:49.380 privilege if they were
04:11:50.380 able to use that to
04:11:51.200 like then you put it
04:11:52.120 in a situation but if
04:11:53.400 you're for that at
04:11:54.180 somebody there then
04:11:55.340 like that's not a
04:11:56.180 privilege but you can
04:11:56.880 come at me and I
04:11:57.940 will be defeated a
04:11:58.800 privilege implies like
04:12:00.160 any of us yeah I'm
04:12:02.000 saying like if you
04:12:02.820 chose to be violent
04:12:04.060 then you can be a
04:12:05.780 majority of women
04:12:06.760 so that is a privilege
04:12:08.760 just like physically
04:12:09.680 W's in the chat for
04:12:10.800 flam life that's just
04:12:11.400 biological physical
04:12:12.480 stuff I don't but I
04:12:14.300 don't I don't know if
04:12:15.180 uh is that not a
04:12:16.080 privilege I don't know if
04:12:16.520 I see that as a
04:12:17.080 privilege either when I
04:12:18.080 really if you can like
04:12:19.200 physically take over if
04:12:20.540 someone broke into your
04:12:21.320 house like as woman if I
04:12:23.140 live I think that's just
04:12:23.920 a reality
04:12:25.780 like when I think
04:12:28.220 I think when we're
04:12:29.840 talking about privilege
04:12:30.600 we're talking about
04:12:31.460 things that are either
04:12:33.740 uh bestowed to us or
04:12:35.880 that like a right
04:12:36.900 bestowed to us by the
04:12:38.440 government or um
04:12:40.440 society
04:12:41.400 this is a social thing
04:12:43.620 like a societal based
04:12:45.480 thing
04:12:46.140 I think it's a societal
04:12:47.240 based thing that's
04:12:48.260 granted to you that you
04:12:49.300 can absolutely choose to
04:12:50.820 beat up any woman and
04:12:52.120 they cannot defeat you
04:12:53.260 no that's just
04:12:53.700 biological reality
04:12:55.020 and also he would be
04:12:56.260 prosecuted like the
04:12:57.900 societal result would be
04:12:59.620 his prosecution
04:13:00.660 yeah but if I chose to
04:13:02.080 do that I can't beat you
04:13:03.020 up
04:13:03.820 because it has nothing
04:13:05.720 to do with society or
04:13:07.040 government roles it has
04:13:08.220 to do with biology
04:13:09.160 okay so it's only
04:13:10.040 systemic and it's only
04:13:11.380 government so biological
04:13:12.660 privileges don't count
04:13:13.740 well do you want it
04:13:15.980 when you say the word
04:13:17.000 because when it comes to
04:13:17.720 women when you say the
04:13:18.460 word privilege you're
04:13:19.280 implying something that
04:13:20.100 you want to get rid of
04:13:20.960 like we don't want some
04:13:21.780 people to be privileged
04:13:22.420 and other people to be
04:13:23.200 not privileged and so
04:13:24.920 when you're talking about
04:13:26.060 like oh he's more
04:13:27.280 privileged because he's
04:13:28.160 biologically bigger that's
04:13:29.300 not something that we
04:13:29.960 could like strive
04:13:30.640 yeah we can't really
04:13:31.080 task that
04:13:31.520 so do you believe in like
04:13:32.840 pretty privilege
04:13:34.060 that's biological too
04:13:35.840 are we striving as a
04:13:37.020 society to get rid of
04:13:38.200 pretty people then
04:13:39.140 no no it's not
04:13:40.420 getting rid of
04:13:41.180 yes
04:13:42.020 yes bitch fix your
04:13:44.700 face
04:13:45.220 there are certain
04:13:46.620 privileges that are
04:13:48.580 biological and I don't
04:13:49.960 know why we discount
04:13:50.920 those but then only
04:13:52.120 count the ones that
04:13:53.140 are so good
04:13:53.600 I think pretty
04:13:54.320 privilege is bullshit
04:13:55.260 and honestly like I'm
04:13:56.480 like I mean to a
04:13:57.460 degree for sure you
04:13:58.300 can get ahead but I
04:13:59.600 honestly personally
04:14:00.420 there's people who've
04:14:01.160 told me I'm really good
04:14:01.760 at high ticket sales
04:14:02.500 because of how I look
04:14:03.500 and I'm like well
04:14:04.300 actually I didn't have
04:14:06.460 a camera on the whole
04:14:07.300 time it's only via
04:14:08.060 phone they're like oh
04:14:08.740 well it's because of
04:14:09.380 your accent
04:14:09.940 I mean people always
04:14:11.200 do whatever they can
04:14:12.000 to discredit your
04:14:13.300 actual value based off
04:14:14.980 the I agree with
04:14:15.940 what you're arguing
04:14:16.920 but I do think it
04:14:18.360 still exists
04:14:19.020 but I do think that
04:14:22.240 if you're like a
04:14:23.480 really attractive
04:14:24.060 person whether you're
04:14:24.980 a man or woman
04:14:25.620 you're gonna be able
04:14:27.040 to maneuver through
04:14:27.840 life a little easier
04:14:29.520 yeah that's why we
04:14:30.780 do men have privilege
04:14:33.760 based off the fact
04:14:34.480 that if a woman
04:14:35.080 came at you
04:14:35.820 like no that's not
04:14:36.620 privilege it's a
04:14:37.320 biological fact and
04:14:38.500 it's a reality I
04:14:39.500 think that those
04:14:40.060 things are very
04:14:40.780 okay so all
04:14:41.840 biological facts are
04:14:43.180 not privileges
04:14:43.840 let's talk let's
04:14:47.060 change the wording
04:14:47.820 to advantage are
04:14:49.160 men advantaged when
04:14:51.440 it comes to physical
04:14:52.240 strength because of
04:14:53.740 because of biology
04:14:54.780 yes yeah is it a I
04:14:57.840 think though when
04:14:58.300 we're thinking of
04:14:58.980 privilege we're
04:15:00.280 thinking like because
04:15:01.300 for example pretty
04:15:02.340 privilege it's not
04:15:04.160 just the fact that
04:15:05.440 you're physically
04:15:06.020 attractive but the
04:15:07.220 benefits that that's
04:15:08.260 going to reap it that
04:15:09.500 the benefits that
04:15:10.460 you're going to be
04:15:11.020 able to reap in the
04:15:12.500 workplace in romantic
04:15:13.780 relationships how
04:15:14.840 people are going to
04:15:15.680 treat you so it's
04:15:16.760 like an external
04:15:17.480 thing and I guess
04:15:18.920 so you have more
04:15:19.560 privilege than someone
04:15:20.440 who is like 5'3
04:15:21.480 right do you think
04:15:22.220 that's different to
04:15:22.960 what she's talking
04:15:23.860 about the so-called
04:15:24.360 male privilege I
04:15:25.660 think it's the same
04:15:26.440 biological facts
04:15:27.640 birth of them
04:15:28.340 how are they
04:15:28.800 distinct what do
04:15:30.260 you mean I'm
04:15:30.900 trying to hold on
04:15:31.480 I'm trying to
04:15:32.060 take some time
04:15:34.200 the hamster wheel
04:15:37.020 is fucking four
04:15:38.400 hours deep in the
04:15:39.360 podcast
04:15:39.700 wait okay so
04:15:43.140 piximus maximus
04:15:45.140 I don't like how
04:15:46.900 you call me that
04:15:48.100 wait I have a
04:15:50.080 question it makes
04:15:50.620 me sound like a
04:15:51.400 pick me like
04:15:52.120 wait oh so
04:15:53.800 wait males got
04:15:56.160 more privilege
04:15:57.020 in certain ways
04:15:59.140 wait I have a
04:15:59.740 question okay so
04:16:00.840 you know you know
04:16:01.680 the show Handmaid's
04:16:02.620 Tale right the
04:16:03.120 whole thing is like
04:16:04.000 wow they're having
04:16:04.720 their kids taken
04:16:05.780 from them like
04:16:06.960 that's a horrible
04:16:08.000 part of the show
04:16:08.560 and now there's
04:16:09.120 other parts of the
04:16:10.300 show that show
04:16:10.800 women's oppression
04:16:11.560 which is supposed to
04:16:13.020 be horrific like
04:16:13.800 the essay and stuff
04:16:14.660 but we all kind of
04:16:15.660 agree as people
04:16:16.660 watching the most
04:16:17.740 horrific thing is
04:16:19.000 the women getting
04:16:19.760 taken away the
04:16:20.860 one difference
04:16:21.780 between men and
04:16:22.540 women legality in
04:16:23.700 society is women
04:16:24.680 have the right to
04:16:25.560 murder men's
04:16:27.240 babies but men
04:16:28.880 don't have any
04:16:29.760 right to keep
04:16:31.040 their baby if a
04:16:32.380 woman wants to
04:16:33.120 murder it yeah
04:16:33.760 men don't have
04:16:34.580 the right of
04:16:35.240 another person's
04:16:36.240 bodily autonomy
04:16:37.340 men do not
04:16:37.960 have their own
04:16:38.900 children yeah no
04:16:39.800 you do not have a
04:16:40.920 right to tell a
04:16:41.880 woman how her
04:16:42.940 internal organs are
04:16:43.960 gonna function
04:16:44.560 it's not her
04:16:45.340 internal organ
04:16:46.300 it is literally
04:16:47.480 your blood your
04:16:48.780 lungs your
04:16:49.600 everything is
04:16:50.540 keeping this you
04:16:51.860 know thing it
04:16:52.920 could be a baby
04:16:53.440 eventually alive but
04:16:54.820 it's you do not
04:16:55.360 have a right to
04:16:56.020 tell another person
04:16:57.060 hey you have to
04:16:58.140 keep this other
04:16:58.840 human being alive
04:16:59.980 you guys will only
04:17:01.560 sleep with someone
04:17:02.260 you would absolutely
04:17:03.040 have a baby with
04:17:04.580 like and raise it
04:17:05.680 to 18 I would not
04:17:06.880 risk unprotected sex
04:17:08.840 no with somebody who
04:17:09.900 I wouldn't you know
04:17:11.620 one in ten people on
04:17:12.560 the pill get pregnant
04:17:14.160 and you would just
04:17:15.400 keep it I actually
04:17:17.740 have never taken the
04:17:18.700 pill personally so
04:17:19.700 what you're saying is
04:17:20.360 people can take the
04:17:21.080 pill and then they get
04:17:22.040 pregnant is what
04:17:22.840 you're saying yes
04:17:23.600 yeah yeah I mean
04:17:25.520 that sucks but
04:17:26.900 personally from my
04:17:28.280 ideals I'm very
04:17:30.160 very pro life at
04:17:31.800 the end of the day
04:17:32.280 I think that where
04:17:33.260 a lot of the
04:17:33.720 disparity comes from
04:17:34.580 is okay where does
04:17:35.540 life start and a
04:17:36.540 lot of people are
04:17:37.080 like okay it starts
04:17:37.880 from when the
04:17:38.720 baby's first made
04:17:39.520 some people like no
04:17:40.260 it's 28 weeks some
04:17:41.220 people believe it's
04:17:41.800 this or that I think
04:17:42.520 all of us believe
04:17:43.340 it's wrong to take a
04:17:44.180 life I think the
04:17:45.200 disparity is where
04:17:46.020 does that life start
04:17:46.940 and I believe it
04:17:47.800 starts from inception
04:17:48.760 when the herb
04:17:50.580 latches onto the egg
04:17:51.720 and she fucking
04:17:52.500 starts let's move
04:17:54.860 away from abortion
04:17:55.580 pixie your thoughts
04:17:57.760 on the following
04:17:58.580 statement women are
04:18:01.340 more privileged than
04:18:02.100 men again in certain
04:18:05.320 men are more oppressed
04:18:06.740 than women in certain
04:18:08.100 areas an apology
04:18:09.260 letter for how we
04:18:10.240 were oppressed for
04:18:10.960 so many years a
04:18:11.960 letter or like I
04:18:15.900 think I think men
04:18:16.920 need a letter for how
04:18:18.640 oppressed men have
04:18:19.520 well they started the
04:18:20.560 country they didn't do
04:18:21.340 it to themselves
04:18:21.920 men oppress other
04:18:22.840 men started the
04:18:23.320 country I found it
04:18:25.480 I mean whatever
04:18:26.640 founded one of the
04:18:30.040 most free countries
04:18:31.120 in the world quote
04:18:33.040 unquote free because
04:18:34.220 it is the most free
04:18:35.380 we have the highest
04:18:35.980 impression in the
04:18:37.420 world and also most
04:18:38.680 people live
04:18:39.320 it depends on who
04:18:41.720 we're talking about
04:18:42.500 because people are
04:18:43.360 afraid to do because
04:18:44.980 people are so free to
04:18:46.100 do their actions
04:18:46.980 they're more likely to
04:18:48.160 commit egregious crimes
04:18:49.500 like so in like
04:18:50.480 communist China for
04:18:51.820 instance like as you
04:18:52.880 guys said you feel
04:18:53.580 pretty safe walking
04:18:54.500 around because people
04:18:55.440 are very very scared
04:18:56.720 of the government
04:18:57.260 they're not going to
04:18:57.960 be going out screaming
04:18:59.440 Kim Jong-un sucks
04:19:00.540 dick like you can't
04:19:01.420 even do that
04:19:02.140 that's North Korea
04:19:04.480 bro
04:19:04.960 or sorry
04:19:06.060 Xi Jinping
04:19:07.240 Xi Jinping sucks
04:19:08.520 dick
04:19:08.960 yeah you can't like go
04:19:10.700 out in China and
04:19:11.640 Tiananmen Square and
04:19:12.540 like start like doing
04:19:13.580 that you saw what
04:19:14.320 happened with the
04:19:14.700 tanks in the last
04:19:15.440 sky okay like we
04:19:16.900 we have more for
04:19:18.220 example like freedom
04:19:18.900 of speech
04:19:19.340 this place got shot
04:19:20.000 up my second year
04:19:21.180 of college
04:19:21.620 I know with what's
04:19:23.260 his face Elliot Rogers
04:19:24.580 yeah okay we have
04:19:25.840 in the US we have
04:19:27.520 freedom of speech
04:19:29.320 which a lot of other
04:19:30.540 countries don't really
04:19:31.560 have like it depends
04:19:32.960 because one of my
04:19:33.700 friends got to keep
04:19:34.640 on getting rated by
04:19:35.760 the FBI because he
04:19:36.820 started Area 51
04:19:37.920 raid you remember
04:19:39.000 that he literally
04:19:41.020 kept getting rated
04:19:41.880 every time he would
04:19:42.680 tweet like yo let's
04:19:43.580 meet up so like it's
04:19:45.380 like freedom of
04:19:46.260 speech with an
04:19:47.020 asterisk well yeah
04:19:47.920 you can't like plan
04:19:49.580 yeah but you can't
04:19:50.840 just like okay guys
04:19:51.760 we're going to we're
04:19:52.960 going to like go
04:19:54.020 invade uh like a
04:19:56.760 military base we you
04:19:59.020 can't just yeah I
04:20:00.180 think that they
04:20:01.180 differ I think the
04:20:02.040 FBI tracking him
04:20:03.120 actually does meet the
04:20:04.160 Brandenburg v.
04:20:04.900 Ohio test I think
04:20:05.940 they're constitutionally
04:20:07.260 in the right I think
04:20:08.120 we do need to think
04:20:09.120 about Esquire I think
04:20:11.440 we do need to take
04:20:12.260 into account who has
04:20:14.620 the most freedom like
04:20:15.760 within this country
04:20:16.420 people with the most
04:20:17.720 money have the most
04:20:18.560 freedom who gets to
04:20:19.940 do whatever they want
04:20:21.100 whenever they want
04:20:22.200 and there's no
04:20:22.940 white men
04:20:23.180 is that not true
04:20:25.680 which people
04:20:26.200 not erosexual
04:20:27.080 is that not true
04:20:28.580 I came from
04:20:29.420 Bakersfield so it's
04:20:30.220 not true
04:20:30.660 hold on so you're
04:20:32.220 part black woman
04:20:33.400 correct what can I do
04:20:35.260 as a white man that
04:20:36.480 you can't do
04:20:37.420 do you remember
04:20:38.980 okay not that
04:20:39.880 answer the question
04:20:40.580 answer the question
04:20:41.200 I'm a white man
04:20:43.100 what what can I do
04:20:44.440 that you can't
04:20:46.060 okay let's say um
04:20:47.440 we were uh in I
04:20:49.420 don't know I was a
04:20:49.920 prostitute can I say
04:20:51.180 that and you were
04:20:52.220 at John I don't know
04:20:53.060 where the fuck this
04:20:53.800 is going but okay
04:20:54.420 no this is just that
04:20:55.480 like um as far as
04:20:57.240 like sex work
04:20:58.300 experience whatever
04:20:59.240 if anything were to
04:21:00.100 happen that's right
04:21:00.840 you can be a if
04:21:02.180 like everything in
04:21:03.060 your life fails if
04:21:03.660 you were a John you
04:21:04.420 need money you can
04:21:05.880 sell yourself I
04:21:07.200 can't you're right
04:21:08.400 I would buy
04:21:09.100 no that's not nice
04:21:11.680 that's not what I'm
04:21:12.960 saying I'm very
04:21:14.080 pricy though are you
04:21:14.660 no I'm saying if
04:21:16.700 anything were to
04:21:17.440 happen if an
04:21:18.140 altercation were to
04:21:19.340 happen within between
04:21:20.520 us who's going to
04:21:21.960 get in trouble it's
04:21:22.680 going to be me every
04:21:23.540 single time wait
04:21:24.480 what and that is you
04:21:26.240 know it's no there's
04:21:27.420 actually they're
04:21:28.040 actually I don't I
04:21:29.280 don't know that might
04:21:30.020 be there's actually
04:21:31.060 pushes to make
04:21:32.680 prostitution legal but
04:21:34.980 they will criminalize
04:21:35.880 because there's no
04:21:36.780 reason for it to be
04:21:37.460 illegal I mean
04:21:38.660 forced no but yes
04:21:39.820 but but you're
04:21:42.260 saying you're saying
04:21:42.740 that the the women
04:21:45.120 who's offering her
04:21:46.020 services she will get
04:21:49.420 in trouble but the
04:21:50.060 men it's a mutual
04:21:50.820 agreement it's actually
04:21:51.720 the typically the
04:21:52.660 reverse the man gets
04:21:53.820 into more trouble
04:21:54.640 no not John's
04:21:55.680 don't John's
04:21:56.100 what state are you
04:21:56.720 talking about
04:21:57.460 they're trying to
04:22:00.180 pass laws to
04:22:00.980 tell me this to
04:22:02.200 criminalize the
04:22:03.540 procurer oh
04:22:05.180 really yeah the
04:22:05.940 John's oh that's
04:22:06.640 new I never knew
04:22:08.080 about that I'm
04:22:09.020 curious what is it
04:22:09.900 this might I think
04:22:10.680 this is probably a
04:22:11.380 highly dependent on
04:22:12.100 the state law
04:22:12.620 pixie probably who
04:22:13.800 is more oppressed
04:22:14.860 okay here I'll give
04:22:17.380 you a list on how
04:22:18.360 who's more oppressed
04:22:19.240 and what men are
04:22:20.120 more oppressed
04:22:20.640 men are more
04:22:22.800 oppressed emotionally
04:22:23.640 they are not allowed
04:22:24.580 to express their
04:22:25.120 emotions without being
04:22:25.960 looked down upon
04:22:26.680 you can't cry
04:22:27.360 like yeah but
04:22:28.600 women are allowed
04:22:29.520 to or suicide rates
04:22:31.080 okay let me ask you
04:22:31.920 question but you
04:22:32.760 often hear that
04:22:33.340 because you often
04:22:34.040 hear this talk
04:22:34.520 about oh men
04:22:35.980 are the oppressors
04:22:37.080 women are oppressed
04:22:38.340 male privilege
04:22:39.560 oh my god
04:22:40.280 most violence on
04:22:41.720 women are men
04:22:42.200 let me tell you
04:22:42.440 this you're the
04:22:44.120 the second the
04:22:45.960 minutes after birth
04:22:47.860 who's more
04:22:49.280 oppressed let's
04:22:49.940 just say the first
04:22:50.580 five minutes let's
04:22:51.500 say the first 30
04:22:52.200 minutes of life
04:22:52.980 who's more oppressed
04:22:54.000 men or women
04:22:54.620 boys or girls
04:22:55.880 everyone
04:22:56.560 just answer the
04:22:57.560 question who's more
04:22:58.380 oppressed
04:22:58.560 it's very it's
04:23:02.140 very easy it's
04:23:02.700 very easy the
04:23:03.140 first 30 minutes
04:23:03.820 who's more
04:23:04.180 oppressed
04:23:04.400 women because
04:23:07.140 women are born
04:23:07.760 smaller and men
04:23:08.960 drink more milk
04:23:10.320 they need to get
04:23:11.720 into like a baby
04:23:12.380 fight right
04:23:13.040 yeah you have to
04:23:14.040 put them up against
04:23:14.760 each other in a baby
04:23:15.580 ring
04:23:16.000 we should do it
04:23:17.820 crack babies
04:23:19.220 like we can't like
04:23:20.320 it could be a whole
04:23:21.000 ring pixie okay
04:23:22.560 let's say the first
04:23:24.720 three hours the first
04:23:26.460 day the first no no
04:23:27.460 no I'm trying I
04:23:28.200 don't know how
04:23:28.560 quickly after birth
04:23:29.340 this occurs but
04:23:29.920 who's more
04:23:30.720 oppressed men or
04:23:32.200 women okay boys or
04:23:33.300 girls I do not
04:23:34.320 have oppression is
04:23:35.440 not that's not how
04:23:36.600 oppression works okay
04:23:37.620 like five years I
04:23:39.840 would say women are
04:23:40.520 more oppressed okay
04:23:41.880 okay I'm just
04:23:42.920 talking about
04:23:43.460 immediately upon
04:23:44.460 birth
04:23:45.120 get to your point I
04:23:50.920 really don't
04:23:51.400 understand where
04:23:51.840 you're going with
04:23:52.280 this I don't
04:23:52.920 understand how
04:23:53.440 you're ready for
04:23:55.020 this oh I know
04:23:55.820 what you're gonna
04:23:56.200 say I know is that
04:23:57.160 what you're gonna
04:23:57.480 say circumcision
04:23:59.120 yeah okay yeah you
04:24:00.820 could say that's the
04:24:01.520 way that that's also
04:24:02.420 the American thing
04:24:03.040 yeah men sure upon
04:24:05.080 birth almost every
04:24:06.880 single child in this
04:24:07.980 country has their
04:24:09.340 genitals mutilated
04:24:10.480 that's pretty fucking
04:24:12.420 what's the rate it's
04:24:14.380 came from Jewish people
04:24:15.920 it's very high
04:24:16.020 no no no it's like a
04:24:19.340 custom yeah but even
04:24:20.500 secular even look let's
04:24:22.320 not but no in Europe
04:24:23.420 they don't do it
04:24:24.120 normally in Asia they
04:24:25.080 don't do it normally
04:24:25.740 okay but we're we're
04:24:26.780 talking in America yes
04:24:28.300 there's certain
04:24:29.080 countries probably most
04:24:30.220 countries don't do it
04:24:31.160 we're talking about the
04:24:32.100 United States I'm as a
04:24:33.580 male if you're born in
04:24:35.160 the United States upon
04:24:36.820 birth your genitals are
04:24:38.660 mutilated now sure now I
04:24:39.980 know why Brian started
04:24:41.140 his podcast he's upset
04:24:42.820 about his poor skin he
04:24:44.140 wants it back what the
04:24:45.300 fuck he's bad at all
04:24:47.780 women for this especially
04:24:49.120 those gosh darn stem
04:24:50.440 nurses that's why he
04:24:52.660 loves large labia as it
04:24:54.020 reminds him of like
04:24:55.020 exactly the skin that
04:24:56.540 he's missing in his life
04:24:57.300 yes I'm gonna steal it
04:24:58.240 I'm gonna steal the
04:24:59.800 fucking labia I want to
04:25:01.460 wrap that shit around my
04:25:03.240 dick and I can pretend
04:25:04.700 I can pretend
04:25:05.620 I can pretend for a
04:25:10.380 brief moment of
04:25:11.260 pleasure that that's
04:25:13.080 just my foreskin that's
04:25:14.740 right you guys got me
04:25:16.120 I think that is messed
04:25:17.260 up though that it's a
04:25:18.260 norm for babies to get
04:25:19.900 mutilated why is it a
04:25:21.160 norm though like where
04:25:22.240 did I think that's a
04:25:23.000 bigger crime than any of
04:25:24.240 these grievances that
04:25:25.420 feminists throw out
04:25:26.480 we didn't get to the
04:25:27.280 source of it
04:25:28.000 that like a very high
04:25:30.720 percentage of babies
04:25:32.300 it's so funny that you
04:25:33.560 you guys laugh about
04:25:34.660 this no I doubt I doubt
04:25:36.380 hold on I'm gonna be
04:25:37.460 serious here I doubt
04:25:38.520 that you guys would be
04:25:39.260 laughing if it was the
04:25:40.180 reverse if women were
04:25:41.440 having their fucking
04:25:42.200 clits chopped off like
04:25:43.940 well it's not in Africa
04:25:44.940 they do that if you if
04:25:46.780 we got our lips chopped
04:25:47.940 off we will be less
04:25:48.800 discriminated against in
04:25:50.060 porn and stuff like
04:25:51.100 because men also think
04:25:52.320 that I exclusively watch
04:25:54.480 that shit but you know
04:25:56.680 like there are people who
04:25:57.560 exclusively watch
04:25:58.320 uncircumcised people but
04:26:00.020 then the porn industry is
04:26:01.780 like very hey
04:26:02.660 circumcised dicks and
04:26:04.840 you know small male male
04:26:07.700 sir I would argue that
04:26:09.180 man hold on hold on
04:26:11.560 hold on I would argue
04:26:12.760 that men getting
04:26:13.780 circumcised in the US is
04:26:15.780 a bigger grievance than
04:26:17.140 any grievance that
04:26:18.260 feminists have been
04:26:18.900 talking about for the
04:26:19.700 past
04:26:20.000 ever oh really the right
04:26:24.440 to vote yes getting
04:26:26.260 circumcised getting
04:26:27.840 circumcised is worse
04:26:29.760 the right to not be a
04:26:30.740 second-class citizen yes
04:26:32.120 having your genitals I
04:26:33.500 would argue yes I would
04:26:34.800 argue that getting your
04:26:36.080 genitals mutilated is
04:26:37.860 probably a bit worse so
04:26:38.540 you must have grown up
04:26:41.320 with like dudes in
04:26:42.060 America whose parents
04:26:43.000 didn't do that I mean
04:26:44.140 that must have been like
04:26:45.040 a super self-conscious
04:26:46.100 thing for them like when
04:26:47.100 they were in the locker
04:26:47.900 room dating girls most men
04:26:50.160 I think in the US are
04:26:51.060 circumcised exactly so if
04:26:52.520 they don't get it they
04:26:54.100 tend to be pretty
04:26:55.020 self-conscious about it
04:26:56.240 they tend to be
04:26:56.860 discriminated against
04:26:57.980 they said yeah they tend
04:26:59.220 to be scared to show
04:26:59.980 women it they like don't
04:27:01.300 want to show it in the
04:27:01.860 locker rooms it's like
04:27:03.340 yeah so whereas I don't
04:27:05.500 know any time and period
04:27:06.560 where like some women have
04:27:07.780 the right to vote and
04:27:08.620 other ones like who
04:27:09.700 didn't have the right to
04:27:10.600 vote or sorry we're the
04:27:12.160 ones who have the right to
04:27:13.160 vote are like man I'm
04:27:14.060 jealous of the women who
04:27:15.100 don't have the right to
04:27:15.980 vote so yeah just to
04:27:17.600 everyone here's a bigger
04:27:19.020 grievance military
04:27:21.200 conscription that's that's
04:27:22.520 a bigger grievance than
04:27:23.360 all of women's collective
04:27:24.540 grievances combined no I
04:27:26.180 don't necessarily I think
04:27:27.460 it goes back to right to
04:27:28.500 vote yeah absolutely
04:27:29.660 right to vote right to
04:27:31.140 literally complaining about
04:27:32.260 men men oh oh no men
04:27:34.540 are by the way which I
04:27:36.040 think is fucked up you're
04:27:36.980 delusional pixie okay let
04:27:38.940 me finish your sentence
04:27:39.820 yeah so you can be like
04:27:41.420 oh no like men being
04:27:42.460 drafted is like horrible
04:27:43.620 etc etc men who are in
04:27:46.020 power and decided for
04:27:47.200 themselves oh we should
04:27:48.380 draft other men well
04:27:49.640 whatever whatever they
04:27:50.360 have the right to vote
04:27:51.160 there's a chance to change
04:27:52.220 that while women don't
04:27:53.620 even have or at least if
04:27:55.140 you're talking about any
04:27:55.840 period in time all periods
04:27:56.840 in time or whatever women
04:27:57.920 didn't have the right to
04:27:58.700 vote right so women could
04:28:00.580 if you theoretically had a
04:28:01.820 society where the men
04:28:02.740 decided we're gonna draft
04:28:04.020 women only guess what if
04:28:05.640 women can't vote they
04:28:06.640 can't even write that
04:28:07.440 against themselves this
04:28:08.440 argument is actually
04:28:09.560 working against you because
04:28:10.820 women when they so first
04:28:12.620 of all when men
04:28:13.820 originally had the right to
04:28:15.160 vote that was when the
04:28:16.740 draft first started it was
04:28:18.060 linked to men who had the
04:28:20.400 right to vote and then
04:28:21.820 when women gained the
04:28:23.180 right to vote they
04:28:24.320 separated the distinction
04:28:25.820 between voters and those
04:28:27.420 who are drafted so now you
04:28:28.920 only have to sign up for the
04:28:30.860 draft if you're a man who
04:28:32.200 is who wants no no no but
04:28:33.920 you must understand what i'm
04:28:34.900 saying women were able hold
04:28:36.240 on let me just come in really
04:28:37.120 quick women what uh lauren is
04:28:39.280 saying is women were able to
04:28:42.000 secure the right to vote
04:28:43.220 without the corresponding
04:28:44.180 responsibility that men had to
04:28:46.000 undertake by being subject to
04:28:47.500 military conscription so you
04:28:49.120 were able to get a privilege
04:28:50.380 without the corresponding
04:28:51.360 no no no wait wait you're
04:28:52.500 misunderstanding what i'm
04:28:54.080 trying to say what are you
04:28:55.000 saying you're saying that the
04:28:56.700 draft is by far like the
04:28:59.160 worst form of oppression that
04:29:00.740 a person can possibly have
04:29:01.960 ever military conscription right
04:29:03.000 and i'm saying that at least
04:29:04.760 during that time or at least
04:29:06.020 during the time that men had
04:29:07.020 the right to vote and women
04:29:07.880 didn't there's a possibility of
04:29:09.660 them deciding to turn that
04:29:11.040 over change it etc etc now if
04:29:13.400 for whatever reason in that
04:29:14.580 time period they decided to
04:29:15.880 put that law onto women that
04:29:17.380 women have to be in the draft
04:29:18.800 and they don't get a right to
04:29:19.660 vote guess who can change
04:29:20.800 that not the woman they don't
04:29:22.300 have the right to vote they
04:29:23.180 don't have the right to put
04:29:23.800 their elective representatives
04:29:24.700 they're fucked that's why the
04:29:26.600 right to vote is the most
04:29:28.260 fundamental right that we have
04:29:30.060 your argument does nothing to
04:29:32.160 uh rebuttal the fact that
04:29:34.260 military conscription is a far
04:29:36.340 greater grievance than any other
04:29:38.360 okay so i would say any village
04:29:40.820 like if you were to have one
04:29:42.600 man and like a hundred women
04:29:43.660 if all the men died like they
04:29:44.900 could still repopulate the
04:29:45.860 village yeah so exactly men
04:29:48.080 agree with that so men are
04:29:49.240 going to send their woman to
04:29:50.260 die like men aren't going to
04:29:51.660 like overtake a village and
04:29:53.260 just like kill all the women
04:29:54.160 either they're probably going
04:29:54.760 to take them back like it's
04:29:56.000 like okay so why would you
04:29:57.280 send your woman to war when
04:29:58.460 your country cannot repopulate
04:29:59.860 without the woman yes there
04:30:01.160 are tactical and logical
04:30:02.280 reasons why men are more
04:30:05.360 likely to be recruited to be
04:30:07.160 soldiers because they're more
04:30:08.240 they make better soldiers
04:30:10.020 however because of the
04:30:11.760 physical advantages yeah
04:30:13.380 however yeah there's like
04:30:15.320 physical and strategic
04:30:16.340 advantages to keeping the
04:30:17.440 women at home however when it
04:30:19.260 comes to voting i get what
04:30:21.000 you're saying that like voting
04:30:22.140 is the most important because
04:30:23.020 that controls the society and
04:30:24.900 who's required to go to war
04:30:26.460 and i understand that however
04:30:28.620 with it needs to be tied to
04:30:33.920 the act of potentially going to
04:30:35.680 war because if women have the
04:30:36.760 power to vote which we do but
04:30:38.660 that they're not tied to the
04:30:39.840 potential issue of going to
04:30:42.140 war a potential issue of being
04:30:43.600 drafted then we can make silly
04:30:45.880 and careless decisions with our
04:30:48.000 voting which can lead to war
04:30:49.960 time which only negatively
04:30:51.760 impacts men who will be
04:30:54.100 required to literally die for
04:30:56.680 our silly decisions that's not
04:30:57.680 the assumption we absolutely
04:30:58.660 don't care about the men in
04:30:59.920 society which a lot of people
04:31:01.580 do care they care but
04:31:02.960 sometimes they think that
04:31:04.740 oftentimes people make bad
04:31:06.600 decisions under good intentions
04:31:08.120 right and so that's what she's
04:31:09.680 talking about look at how
04:31:10.660 obama got elected wait the idea
04:31:12.820 that this is only a thing that
04:31:14.440 women do or whatever i don't
04:31:15.580 think is very fair men also make
04:31:17.200 silly decisions now you're
04:31:18.620 saying oh they're tied to the
04:31:19.780 consequence not necessarily
04:31:21.340 they're tied to the consequence of
04:31:22.560 what the majority believes
04:31:23.600 including majority of men either
04:31:25.440 way i don't think anybody should
04:31:27.500 be drafted i think the policy and
04:31:29.260 literally the way that we get
04:31:30.280 into war is a result of what
04:31:32.120 legislators decide right whether
04:31:33.680 congress decides like we're
04:31:34.740 going to go to war with this
04:31:35.760 country or not so i think that
04:31:37.860 the only way that congress
04:31:39.020 should be able to do that is if
04:31:40.400 they're for sure as hell certain
04:31:42.000 that everybody wants to go to
04:31:43.480 war otherwise i don't think the
04:31:45.240 draft should be a thing basically
04:31:46.320 what we need the draft though like
04:31:50.320 there's if you if you don't think
04:31:52.160 that your cause is strong enough to
04:31:54.040 have people volunteer to have the
04:31:55.920 people in your country put the
04:31:57.000 line like their lives on the line
04:31:58.580 your country should not be going
04:31:59.880 to war okay okay but in a
04:32:01.780 self-defense situation let's say
04:32:03.420 your country's being invaded yeah
04:32:04.980 chances are and i truly believe
04:32:06.700 this and you can look at ukraine and
04:32:08.100 you can look at other countries
04:32:09.100 that had their sovereignty in in
04:32:11.280 jeopardy people will step up to the
04:32:13.560 plate when yes ukraine ukraine was
04:32:16.320 drafted in a lot in fact a lot of
04:32:18.480 people were trying to flee ukraine and
04:32:19.980 it became an issue with the trans
04:32:21.380 people because women ukraine exactly
04:32:24.360 and then some people who thought that
04:32:26.500 they were women but it had penises
04:32:28.120 they were not allowed to so in
04:32:31.740 ukraine hold on i do believe in
04:32:33.420 general yeah i don't think that you
04:32:34.960 really looked into this in ukraine in
04:32:37.880 ukraine when the war broke out men
04:32:39.400 between the ages of 18 to 60 were not
04:32:41.580 allowed like that could not leave the
04:32:43.700 country yeah and i okay i think that's
04:32:45.220 messed up and they were i don't think
04:32:46.560 what is it i think that when it comes
04:32:48.580 to a country if their legislator decides
04:32:50.880 to go to war they better be certain as
04:32:53.060 hell that the people within their
04:32:54.380 country want to fight but did you what
04:32:56.840 men imagine that imagine if you were
04:32:58.760 literally left to the whims of that and
04:33:00.500 it's like oh everyone who wants to
04:33:01.700 fight gary fight how stable would that
04:33:04.060 society feel oh only the people who
04:33:06.300 volunteer most of the most of our
04:33:08.680 military is based on volunteer basis
04:33:11.480 yeah but that's not a draft basis wait
04:33:13.620 no but that that literally illustrates the
04:33:16.260 fact that like hey it is possible to
04:33:18.380 have a military on volunteer basis
04:33:19.920 literally fighting wars in other
04:33:21.560 countries we currently have it in a world
04:33:23.540 war though in something that was really
04:33:25.280 that severe and well i mean we've had
04:33:27.300 world wars before and we did have
04:33:28.760 drafts but we also had a shit ton of
04:33:30.100 people volunteering i feel like if we
04:33:31.740 were being invaded by another country
04:33:33.280 they were coming russia trying to coming
04:33:34.840 at us with full force would we really be
04:33:36.780 saying i just hope all the people who
04:33:38.300 really want to fight go and fight no
04:33:40.020 people would literally full force of the
04:33:42.780 country to be protecting us look at what
04:33:45.680 happened after like pearl harbor you had a
04:33:47.600 shit ton of people suddenly be okay
04:33:49.020 okay with war wanting to go to war like
04:33:51.260 volunteering for war this idea that like
04:33:53.200 oh everyone's gonna slowly cower away
04:33:55.060 when their lives are threaded and on the
04:33:56.520 line i think that's the solution
04:33:57.940 pixie what is the strongest like do you
04:34:00.440 know which the strongest army for its
04:34:02.720 size like in terms isn't it the united
04:34:05.020 states it'd probably be this really army
04:34:07.260 and it's the draft okay they have
04:34:09.600 nuclear weapons and everything and for
04:34:12.280 their soft their tiny country and they
04:34:14.260 have like they've fought seven day war
04:34:16.420 they fought off all of the countries
04:34:18.060 surrounding them by themselves as a brand
04:34:20.100 new country and the only way that their
04:34:22.660 military works is every single person in
04:34:25.200 their country man and women are forced to
04:34:28.300 serve in the military for at least two
04:34:30.120 years in the idf and so you're saying
04:34:32.560 that that would provide for a weaker
04:34:33.920 military but just like all evidence what
04:34:36.180 do you mean i'm so i'm talking about the
04:34:37.500 united states pro draft no i'm the opposite
04:34:40.140 oh i'm talking no i'm saying for women
04:34:42.300 so world war ii i'm looking here yeah
04:34:45.800 people got drafted in world war ii that's
04:34:47.460 not a surprise but you you were saying
04:34:49.220 you were acting as if the vast majority
04:34:51.620 of people just went in i'm saying there
04:34:53.520 was a huge surge of like volunteering
04:34:55.500 yes i don't know about the exact numbers
04:34:57.380 but and yeah and right now and there were
04:35:00.440 men who were drafted who did not want to
04:35:02.700 go to war who went to the front lines and
04:35:05.140 in europe or in the pacific and they're
04:35:09.260 dead they died yeah 18 year olds yeah and
04:35:13.640 i'm saying that's really fucked up i think
04:35:16.400 men and women should both be drafted okay
04:35:18.320 like modern technology is it more fucked up
04:35:21.140 than women not having the right to vote
04:35:23.920 because if you do not have the right to
04:35:27.380 vote you do not have the right to change
04:35:29.720 or stop or add onto the draft our society
04:35:33.760 is built on voting without voting
04:35:36.780 everything else falls apart okay can i ask
04:35:39.560 you a question would you rather in let's
04:35:41.880 say 1917 as a 18 year old let's say you're a
04:35:46.940 boy get drafted get sent to uh let's see
04:35:50.800 amiens in france and uh go spend three
04:35:56.300 weeks in a trench you get trench foot and
04:35:58.640 then the shell implodes your face in and
04:36:00.820 then you're just dead uh or would you just
04:36:03.620 be prefer to be back home and fucking
04:36:06.360 montana on your farm and just not be
04:36:11.300 able to vote and you don't know anything
04:36:13.040 about politics you're acting as if not
04:36:15.140 having the right to vote doesn't change or
04:36:17.280 affect everything in your fucking life
04:36:19.260 that's like freedom right you argue that
04:36:21.540 oh yeah maybe you have freedom to roam the
04:36:23.720 streets and have someone stab you but
04:36:25.560 that's freedom so maybe this is gonna
04:36:27.700 sound like i'm i'm a pussy or a coward
04:36:29.460 but i kind of value living and shit so if
04:36:32.500 i was 18 years old back in 1917 i think i
04:36:37.900 would as some fucking stupid farm dude
04:36:40.940 who doesn't know anything about the
04:36:42.280 world hasn't set foot outside my town
04:36:44.800 would i rather just not be able to vote
04:36:47.560 on issues i don't even really know about
04:36:50.280 or get sent to um let's see where where
04:36:55.620 do i get sent to in world war one no no
04:36:58.660 no no well that's world war two yeah i
04:37:00.580 get sent to uh passion dale and i'm in a
04:37:03.580 trench for uh for two months and uh i i'm i
04:37:08.840 have the spanish flu and then i um let's
04:37:11.720 see what else you are literally creating a
04:37:13.460 false dichotomy and then i just get uh
04:37:16.780 shot okay i'm dead no do you think no
04:37:19.480 without the right without the right to
04:37:21.400 vote not only can you get drafted
04:37:23.060 but you can also face the repercussions
04:37:25.820 of like hey guess what um okay they
04:37:28.480 pass a policy where they say your 18
04:37:30.400 year old ass not only gets drafted but
04:37:32.520 has to have like i don't know their
04:37:34.020 balls tortured for a week before doing so
04:37:36.020 no that's that's what i'm saying without
04:37:38.620 the right to vote you are literally under
04:37:40.940 the thumb of whatever power or authority
04:37:43.080 structure there is in place at the time
04:37:44.780 you have no freedom pixie you're trying
04:37:47.380 to say that if you don't have freedom
04:37:49.920 then you then you could get drafted as
04:37:52.380 well yes okay however in this scenario
04:37:55.580 you only can get drafted if you also
04:37:59.420 have the right to vote they're like
04:38:00.860 they're linked together and if you don't
04:38:03.740 have the right to vote you cannot get
04:38:05.780 drafted they're mutually exclusive in
04:38:07.680 this scenario but the point so would you
04:38:09.440 rather would you rather have the right
04:38:12.340 to vote and be drafted or not have the
04:38:15.360 right to vote and not be drafted okay
04:38:17.280 but here's the issue or here's a million
04:38:19.260 dollar problem you're saying like oh no
04:38:21.440 it's guaranteed that you won't be
04:38:23.040 drafted if you don't have the right to
04:38:24.460 vote but by virtue of not having the
04:38:27.060 right to vote you cannot guarantee not
04:38:29.020 being drafted in america you can no
04:38:30.820 because it is up to the people and
04:38:32.580 legislator that literally control the
04:38:34.460 laws whether you get drafted or not
04:38:36.200 eventually eventually yes eventually yes
04:38:39.300 but in history in american history that
04:38:42.300 was never the case so the only i
04:38:44.660 understand that what you're saying
04:38:45.800 eventually down the line if men had
04:38:47.840 the right to vote and maintain the
04:38:49.280 right to vote and they never gave women
04:38:51.040 any power and then they started writing
04:38:53.720 crazy legislation requiring women to
04:38:55.920 also become drafted then yes
04:38:57.720 eventually women could be drafted
04:38:59.460 however that was never the situation
04:39:01.280 the situation was always logically
04:39:03.100 linking let me jump in after lauren
04:39:06.300 draft drafting to voting so in because of
04:39:10.000 that there's never a scenario in which
04:39:12.120 you're going to be drafted and don't have
04:39:13.600 the right to vote so with that being
04:39:15.560 said would you rather have the right to
04:39:18.620 vote and be drafted or no right to vote
04:39:21.460 and guarantee you will not get drafted
04:39:24.220 wait i'm genuinely curious we're here
04:39:27.140 look let me let me come in really quick
04:39:28.820 so just to give a little background this
04:39:30.720 stemmed from me basically asking which i
04:39:34.600 made a statement about i think that
04:39:36.520 military conscription throughout history is
04:39:39.560 worse is a worse grievance than women's
04:39:43.380 grievance of not being able to vote
04:39:46.140 i think that is worse than any grievance
04:39:49.580 possible
04:39:50.120 of women's history well i i mean i'm also
04:39:52.780 prepared to say like worse than what wait
04:39:56.360 what you literally the statement you said
04:39:58.080 yes i said women's collective grievances
04:40:00.480 but the i i think the ultimate grievance
04:40:02.880 that that women often cite is not having
04:40:06.140 the right to vote oh yeah that is well
04:40:08.860 you also had problems in the past where
04:40:11.340 it was like legal to abuse your wife
04:40:13.000 to like that's fake news it's never been
04:40:16.720 positively looked upon to be a wife beater
04:40:19.260 throughout history looked upon on a society
04:40:21.540 but it's been like you had to have at
04:40:24.140 fault divorces and it was extremely
04:40:26.140 difficult to prove abuse so you'd have to
04:40:28.180 prove abuse in a court of law to even get
04:40:30.080 the divorce which was just okay well we i i
04:40:33.720 don't know in the 1700s the frequency of
04:40:36.960 domestic violence in but i mean you have
04:40:39.700 what is it don't know there's like history
04:40:41.360 textbooks talking about like how domestic
04:40:43.440 violence um specifically i don't think it
04:40:45.560 was the norm i really don't know it's not
04:40:48.020 about husbands drafting was also not the
04:40:50.820 norm the majority of people did not get
04:40:52.340 drafted throughout history but when it
04:40:54.520 comes to like domestic violence domestic
04:40:56.200 abuse yeah it was widely popularized that
04:40:58.620 hey this is something you actually should do
04:41:00.220 you should hit your wife when she gets out
04:41:02.300 of line or even when she doesn't like you
04:41:04.640 you kind of can and it's fine one of my
04:41:09.080 dad's favorite lines from like an irish
04:41:10.940 movie is here's a fine stick to beat the
04:41:12.960 lovely lady oh my god that's a yikes okay
04:41:16.720 comparing military conscription to not having
04:41:21.000 the right to vote i like i don't see how
04:41:24.440 you arrive at not having the right to vote
04:41:26.300 is worse they just sound like they're both
04:41:28.380 held because i mean they both come with
04:41:30.420 like um consequences like not having the
04:41:32.760 right to vote it's not just not having the
04:41:34.380 right to vote you didn't have rights like at
04:41:35.940 all like as a person or like women like they
04:41:39.060 were kind of like a sub-genre okay pixie do
04:41:41.100 you know what do you know when um world war
04:41:43.520 two or excuse me world war the dates for
04:41:45.440 world war one um i can't remember 1912
04:41:49.340 1914 to 1918 so women women got the right to
04:41:53.740 vote in 1920 just two years after one of the
04:41:56.320 most brutal at the time uh the most brutal war
04:41:59.680 that had ever been seen most casualties most
04:42:02.440 injuries um i think if you were 18 years old in
04:42:07.500 the years preceding that it would be a pretty like
04:42:11.140 an it'd be pretty hard for you to argue that
04:42:13.500 women who didn't have the right to vote
04:42:16.500 were worse off than the men that got sent to
04:42:21.680 europe during world war one and we're where
04:42:27.520 there was forced military conscription okay
04:42:29.760 you are literally comparing basically all women did
04:42:34.620 not have this right yes um they were under the
04:42:37.440 subjugation of either their husbands or fathers
04:42:40.100 it was under the subjugation or the protection
04:42:43.920 it's not protection when they can legally beat your ass
04:42:47.060 um you're saying you're saying this as if wholesale men were just
04:42:51.280 every day no no i'm saying the fact that it could be any
04:42:55.340 that all women were not guaranteed these protections
04:42:58.480 that's what i'm saying i'm saying that if you're a woman and you don't
04:43:02.340 have the right to vote you don't have the right to change legislation
04:43:04.380 guess what like if a man what percentage of men do you think were just
04:43:08.580 frequently beating their wives it doesn't matter about what percentage
04:43:11.940 it matters that you couldn't get justice for it
04:43:14.640 i don't have like it doesn't matter again it's not the what percentage it's
04:43:19.060 the fact that it could happen and it is seen as normalized and okay if it
04:43:22.440 happens because that's just a dumb lady you know second
04:43:25.640 class citizen like broad should is they even smart enough to
04:43:29.340 vote i think even today women at the time i feel like didn't
04:43:32.640 feel like that though when you like some of them may be depending on
04:43:35.420 circumstances but when you look back at a lot of the videos from women
04:43:38.600 as the feminist movement was happening they're asking them like what do you
04:43:42.360 think about all of this and they're like i don't know about it i don't know
04:43:45.360 about this women's liberation shit like this
04:43:47.720 could honestly potentially be bad it could potentially put us in bad
04:43:52.160 situations this could be dangerous i like the freedom to be able to be at
04:43:56.080 home and be a mother and not have to go
04:43:58.420 out there in the workplace i like a lot of them
04:44:00.700 you still choose that happy with it it's not freedom if you don't get to choose
04:44:04.000 feminism is about like you can either choose to be a stay-at-home mom and not
04:44:08.300 go to work not go to school and it's fine or you can choose to be a career
04:44:11.280 woman so i think that's the point to have the freedom to choose
04:44:14.060 versus before like it's not normal for women to go to college for example
04:44:17.720 or do right but that doesn't necessarily equate to them being oppressed and i
04:44:21.380 think that's a big problem is people automatically assume that women at the
04:44:24.600 time were oppressed there's a lot of women who are more than happy
04:44:27.500 doing that and there's a lot of women do that and there's but there's a lot of
04:44:30.920 women now today who when they want to live that more traditional lifestyle
04:44:34.780 they are judged by the boss babes of this generation by the women who are
04:44:39.760 making a lot of these arguments that we're discussing here today and
04:44:42.940 literally look down on women who are advocating for a more traditional lifestyle
04:44:48.120 i think true feminists really are just for women's choice like it's for women's
04:44:53.320 freedom like if you want to be a stay-at-home mom if that's all you want to
04:44:56.340 be that's totally fine just don't judge a woman who is sexually liberated and
04:45:01.420 trying to do their own thing because men can choose to do that too and it's okay
04:45:05.500 i think um when it comes to argument we shouldn't shame women for being
04:45:09.960 promiscuous and having high body counts if we're not shaming men as much yeah if
04:45:14.700 we're not shaming men i mean it depends i feel like we're more so stigmatized for
04:45:18.640 it yeah no women are stigmatized but i think that that is such a cop-out answer
04:45:24.360 though i feel like at the end of the day you both still risk sd's and you both
04:45:27.760 still risk like the being a child coming alive out of that coitus so
04:45:31.880 honestly the whole idea that's like oh no it's just different it's i think it's a
04:45:35.140 cop-out for consequences and biological reasons because of paternity
04:45:38.520 uncertainty yeah i know and i'm saying the consequences are the same and i don't
04:45:41.560 think you should cope with the idea that like oh no like you still have these
04:45:45.100 immense responsibilities at the end of the day and if you want to talk about
04:45:48.220 evo psych huh not yet not yet no no it was like just like i didn't just the top
04:45:53.860 that's the top of a little bit of color oh and if you want to rosiness i'm sure it's not
04:46:00.340 shadow possibly because you're fine now okay it looked different to how it looked a second
04:46:05.260 okay we're fine okay what up hey i was gonna say and if you want to talk about evo psych there are
04:46:10.440 strong like evolutionary imperatives for a man to stay with a certain woman to not go like sleep
04:46:16.440 with around multiple because it's harder to guarantee impregnation in that way guarantee
04:46:20.660 paternity yeah guarantee paternity right and then on top of that you know you still risk
04:46:25.460 STDs if you sleep around especially back then so it makes more sense to stay with one woman
04:46:29.980 and then again the consequence of having a child even if your physical body is not going through
04:46:34.340 those changes that you know responsibility that you still feel obliged to so there are strong
04:46:39.320 evo psych reasons for men to not sleep around that's not what i was arguing i was saying why men
04:46:45.800 are more why men care more about women's promiscuity well you're i okay i thought that you
04:46:52.560 are arguing that like it doesn't matter if men are promiscuous or there's biological reasons why
04:46:56.880 it's okay for men i'm not in favor of male promiscuity well i feel like going with what
04:47:00.860 you're saying though it would be the opposite i feel like what you're saying is a point for what
04:47:04.180 he is making why we why men don't like women being promiscuous because they want to guarantee their
04:47:08.820 paternity if the woman is sleeping with multiple men he cannot guarantee that that's going to be his
04:47:13.620 kid he could be spending time resources no but but here's the thing our brains don't know the
04:47:19.080 difference and yes we have our logic and we have our reason but 95 to 99 of everything we do
04:47:25.660 is subconscious we don't consciously think about it it's based off programming and then a lot of the
04:47:31.780 conditioning in that old part of our brain that is literally still dictating our emotions and
04:47:36.300 decisions to this day but why are we so different in our perspectives if we're both similarly
04:47:41.580 programmed and that's where the nature versus nurture argument comes in so i do agree that
04:47:45.460 nurture does to some degree have some pull it absolutely does but i'm saying on the balance
04:47:51.320 of probability when you put people into an environment and there is no external influences
04:47:55.720 i feel like people will still have a natural inclination or drive or proclivity to act within
04:48:01.560 a certain way irregardless without any societal pressures and norms if you they were just free
04:48:07.140 roaming like in the forest like we're all like nomads without any sort of social construct people would
04:48:14.900 care highly about body count like i do yes i try i think that women would still feel low self-esteem
04:48:21.060 i think they would still suffer depression i feel like they would still suffer uh suffer uh what's
04:48:25.520 the word it's escaping me right now but they would still feel these things naturally without society's
04:48:31.020 judgments based on them and that's where society's judgments come from we didn't pull this shit out of
04:48:37.460 thin air and decide let's just make our own rules the rules were created out of natural so i would
04:48:44.880 say that the rules of in a capitalistic society is created around capitalism and i would say that
04:48:51.020 social economic like your your degree of happiness is largely determined by income like there's like
04:48:57.700 a technical like economics of happiness and the scale goes up like if you're you know making zero income
04:49:02.560 you're miserable here's like the happiness scale but then if you make 70k a year it's like all the way
04:49:07.820 up here there's a huge difference and then i i know it like diminishes it's kind of like an e-curve
04:49:11.880 but when you make over 100k it doesn't really make much of a difference to your happiness levels
04:49:16.140 apparently yeah it's okay we need to wrap up here soon so i do need to move things along um let me
04:49:21.560 just get in these chats okay we have oh actually nick can you pull up twitch guys go to twitch.tv
04:49:28.440 slash whatever drops the follow drops the prime sub uh thank you guys for all the uh follows and
04:49:32.980 primes twitch.tv slash whatever all right we have hold on we have let me see uh i think sorry that
04:49:40.760 we're just getting to these now guys um gordon's fisherman
04:49:44.000 kathy can you read this one kathy we need the details on your mom asking wait into the mic please
04:49:51.200 oh kathy we need the details on your mom asking for brian um keep reading oh okay emmy got a point
04:49:59.860 western society failed education and failed women with societal expect expectations pixie men and women
04:50:08.020 aren't equal the east treats women better and more naturally hashtag passport bros um what are the
04:50:15.200 details on your mom asking for brian i don't know if i should tell you that like oh you know
04:50:20.600 we gotta go we gotta go you want to set this up after the show is that what you're saying
04:50:24.200 all right eyes wide shut hey thank you for the canadian 50 imagine triple majoring and the result
04:50:28.800 being straight to dvd joe dirt okay your response pixie i don't know how to respond to that you can
04:50:36.380 roast him back look at he's got some he's doing two thumbs up i don't know you could he's i don't
04:50:41.360 know i think it's kind of sad he paid how much money canadian 50 so that's like a dollar american i
04:50:46.980 think i think it's kind of sad to pay 50 dollars to call canadian someone canadian 50 dollars to call
04:50:54.480 someone joe dirt that was a good movie it's not i think it might be a compliment i think it's a
04:50:58.440 compliment right right it's probably compliment probably probably a compliment okay all right
04:51:03.320 conan 19 opinion on a man with a lot of body hair versus zero body hair uh ladies do you prefer body
04:51:09.500 hair or do you prefer a guy with minimal or no body hair minimal minimal oh if it's too much it gets
04:51:20.000 like kind of gross it gets in the way chest hair it's okay to have a little bit it's just overwhelming
04:51:26.200 oh and the pubic or like like the back i don't like that you can't expect me i don't like back
04:51:29.820 hair if they look like a bear i'm out no i don't know i see a little something you just imagine
04:51:36.260 yeah i like i like super masculine so just hairy just like big and hairy okay uh amy uh yeah minimal
04:51:45.120 okay all right yeah i want a bunch of soy boys
04:51:49.120 i mean what do you define this when i like kiss yeah it hurts i want the pain i mean what if they're
04:51:56.360 like you know six no gain okay we have dragon's talon thank you man uh thank you very much women
04:52:03.560 could vote before 1920 it was just a state issue not a federal on hey 25 female mayors hundreds of
04:52:10.460 elected female positions and even one female u.s house of representative member before 1920 men
04:52:15.740 were not the only ones who voted for them also this whole like um this whole this whole thing
04:52:21.900 about women not having the right to vote it was a very short period where men wholesale had the right
04:52:28.520 to vote and women didn't uh for the vast majority of human history no one did most most men couldn't
04:52:36.000 vote most women couldn't vote so it's like a maybe a hundred year period even less that women or that
04:52:44.880 men could en masse vote and then women just couldn't so it's it's been it's not years now since we can
04:52:52.320 vote so i think it's around equal now yeah we're probably chilling okay we got spencer richmond with
04:52:57.280 just the 50. hey thank you very much spencer appreciate it uh let's see how we doing here uh
04:53:02.960 uh i think we're caught up on everything uh anyone final thought really quick before we wrap
04:53:08.580 body count i love seeing pixie mad anyone anybody want to share their body i think depression stems
04:53:16.460 from mostly socioeconomic circumstances when you don't have like a stable place to live rather than
04:53:22.420 body count yeah because or um i was going back at what amy was saying with how a lot of women will
04:53:29.000 feel depression if they were um having high body counts but i think that most people are depressed
04:53:36.300 in society in general if they are of lower income level because there's like the the triangle of
04:53:42.500 knees like the top is like self-actualization and then the bottom is like food shelter your basic
04:53:47.660 necessity is being met yeah but i think that your your mental health complaint like i feel like there are
04:53:52.860 some people who would be happier making 40 000 per year or being broke who are not putting
04:53:59.340 themselves through that versus women who are making 400 000 per year who are sexualizing themselves or
04:54:05.440 sleeping with men for money i think that they're the vast majority of 40k earners would be happier
04:54:10.820 than the 400k earners who are whoring themselves out or who are making themselves into a commodity
04:54:16.340 what about like 200k 400k like what about like a woman who's 500k we gotta wrap it up guys
04:54:23.020 i wrap it up uh pixie last thing do you what do you think of men what do i think of men do you
04:54:28.840 dislike men no i love men oh you do yeah that's why i get sad like i that's why i say men are
04:54:35.440 oppressed and stuff because i think they are and that's sad it seems like feminists don't really
04:54:39.660 like men no i love men that's the bad ones i think okay all right guys last call hit the like
04:54:44.840 button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the
04:54:47.620 world but you were here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and
04:54:51.800 supports the show thank you to the panel uh it's a good it's a decent panel oh okay we got eyes
04:54:57.560 wide shut really quick i'll get that in just a second can you pull that up it's weird that that
04:55:02.240 one popped up um and the rest didn't yo thank you man for the canadian hundred uh so now having
04:55:06.940 money to throw around is a negative pixie so which is it i got bags and i'm well above six feet
04:55:11.440 what's it to you besides being too high value for the likes of you i don't know i feel like did
04:55:17.140 you hear that pixie he's too high value for you i feel like this is how i feel like he wants me
04:55:23.020 like he's like trying to like flex like nagging yeah it's net that's what it's it's giving me
04:55:27.980 would you wait pixie if he went to streamlabs.com slash whatever right now and dropped a champagne
04:55:34.060 trigger how much thousand dollars um would you go on a date with him um just please say yes so we
04:55:42.240 can drink champagne yeah you gotta do a quick eyes wide shut i'm wrapping just for you brian just
04:55:47.900 eyes wide shut you want us to pop some champagne you gotta you got you got three minutes so you'll
04:55:52.160 go on a flight oh wait i this has it has to be live filmed i don't feel comfortable going alone
04:55:57.900 to see the students i'll go with you i'll shop around we'll have him on the podcast and you come
04:56:01.880 back okay okay i feel like pixie i think you're super progressive and liberal but i feel like the
04:56:10.220 type of guy you go for is just like the most intense conservative super trad like christian super
04:56:20.680 religious you guys just think that because i get along with all the trad cons
04:56:24.500 um so okay uh thank you to the panel let's see we have oh thank you to brit for helping with
04:56:34.520 timestamps any women who want to be on the show dm out whatever on instagram we will be live again
04:56:39.700 what tuesday at oh yep he's not okay he's not gonna do that tuesday at 5 p.m he doesn't it's not that he
04:56:46.720 doesn't want to give me the it's it's me he just doesn't obviously it's not that he can drop a
04:56:52.120 thousand bucks do you think he's too never mind what about anyone else though he can drop it on
04:56:56.820 anyone else yeah you can drop it on kathy's kind of sort of single but not really you're definitely
04:57:03.600 single pixie's single as fuck you got a relationship kathy's mom is single yes she is yeah hey you could
04:57:13.200 swoop you could swoop and try to get kathy's mom in florida kathy's mom has got it going on
04:57:19.160 do you have oh it looked like you were doing a hand raise pixie do you have something oh no i'm
04:57:26.920 chilling i'm just happy guys be sure to go subscribe to pixie's only fans i'm just kidding she doesn't
04:57:32.360 have one right but is it in the works is it i mean i have would you start one i not only fans i have
04:57:38.380 cosplay pictures that i've thought about doing a fans leave for well i just i'm afraid that if i
04:57:43.360 do that i'm gonna get a bunch of people like pressuring me to do nudes all the time and i
04:57:47.080 don't know word okay guys be sure to tune in tuesday amy will be joining us again on tuesday uh we have a
04:57:57.020 we have a crazy panel on tuesday it's gonna be insane it's gonna be wild so be sure to tune in on
04:58:02.980 tuesday all right guys we'll see you next time good night guys oh my god it's like one drop you gotta
04:58:10.200 lick it literally how dare you you got you got