00:05:09.540There was a monkey that was being bullied, a baby monkey?
00:05:12.000His mom abandoned him, and because you are, like, a priming animal in a whole zoo in Japan, he had no one else really protecting him.
00:05:23.380And so, everybody, or every other monkey within the zoo was bullying him, throwing him around, beating him up.
00:05:28.440And so, the zookeepers decided to give him a little, like, monkey-cloth stuffed animal, and he was just carrying that little stuffed animal around, because that's his only comfort.
00:06:22.640So, the question I was going to ask is, and I saw some discourse about this online, is, on one hand, you have a lot of women who are upset that this poor monkey, an animal, many monkeys are deemed actually kind of almost pests in many countries.
00:06:37.540Um, and they're often quite annoying for tourists in certain countries.
00:06:43.000Uh, women seem to have more empathy for this abandoned monkey than, for example, like, the millions upon millions of, of, uh, babies who, human babies, who are aborted.
00:06:54.020So, I was curious how you might reconcile the empathy for this monkey, which is an animal.
00:07:01.480I would say it doesn't have as much, uh, worth or value as a human baby, for example.
00:07:08.880Well, I understand that, but personally, for me, having empathy for a monkey is just humanity.
00:07:15.880I feel like, as a human, you should have empathy for animals, other humans.
00:07:21.060But in terms of being pro-choice, in my opinion, it's more of the fact that, like, there are so many other circumstances that could happen to a woman, and I don't think that it's virtually right for, to force a woman to go full term, not knowing everything that could have possibly happened to her.
00:07:38.820Okay, so you're saying, like, there might have been incest, or there might have been essay, for example.
00:07:43.220Well, if I were to sit here and grant, in the instances where there is life of the mother, incest, or essay, that we would actually be willing to grant abortion in those instances,
00:07:54.220would you then be against the instances in which women are just pure, like, you know, they're having consensual sex with a boyfriend, or they just have, like, a hookup at a frat house, oopsie, pregnant, would you be against abortion in those instances?
00:08:21.060I don't think that, like, giving birth and having to, like, give birth to her child is not only just for those circumstances as well, but also, like, there's so much more to, like, having a child.
00:08:34.580You could have a child, but then, next thing you know, you're still living within your parents' household.
00:08:39.540You are not economically well-off enough to give this child the best life it possibly could.
00:08:44.900And so now you're bringing in a life that could have so much more difficulties and traumas, and then now you yourself are also still figuring out your own life while having to raise something else.
00:08:55.900And so for me, personally, I just believe in giving birth and providing a life as easy as possible.
00:09:04.200I mean, granted, life is not perfect, but just lessen the chances.
00:09:08.060So of the people who are currently struggling economically, financially, should we just unalive them?
00:09:58.620You know, maybe not tens, but they had huge, large families.
00:10:01.720And I think the other thing I would perhaps ask you is, would you grant to men the same allowance?
00:10:11.880So, for example, let's say a guy gets a woman pregnant and she wants to keep the child, would you allow the man an escape from being a father?
00:10:20.480If he himself feels like this is not within his own path and that there's other things that he has to do in life,
00:10:29.700but it's the mother that wants to keep the child and believes that she herself and her family can help with this child, by all means, that's hers.
00:10:38.280But, like, within that circumstances, don't, like, then guilt him into it.
00:10:44.820Because at the end of the day, it's more like it's her body.
00:11:32.120They can be forced through the court system to pay child support anywhere from 18 to 21 years.
00:11:37.220Sometimes if the child has health issues that would extend into adulthood, they actually, I think, sometimes might have to pay support.
00:11:45.500I'd have to fact check this indefinitely.
00:11:49.260In any case, are you okay with men not paying child support?
00:11:52.000Like, being able to escape child support legally?
00:11:55.140I think that this is where you would have the communication with that partner during the moment that you found out.
00:11:59.880And I feel like it's important for men as well to be like, okay, like, if he himself wants to stay at that moment, wants that child, then you should make a legal agreement for him to pay child support continuously throughout the child's leave.
00:12:14.240No, but assume in a situation, the woman wants to keep it, she needs financial support, but the man, he didn't want any part in being a father, any sort of parental responsibility.
00:12:26.940In that situation, do you think the man should have a legal escape from having to pay child support?
00:12:31.900Within that situation, yes, because he himself doesn't want the child, cannot help with the child.
00:13:05.940Would you be okay with a billionaire man, say I, you know, say I make millions of dollars a year, I knock up a woman, she wants to keep the kid, I want to, I don't want to, you know, wasn't my intention.
00:13:18.880As a rich man, should I be able to escape?
00:18:52.100I knew I had to start doing stand-up now because I'm getting older, and I don't want to end up getting famous for my comedy before it's too late,
00:19:01.360like, or get famous for being amazing when it's too late, like, you know, like Galileo or Van Gogh or JonBenet.
00:19:11.960Okay, but, yeah, and I have to be careful.
00:19:18.680I'm totally forgetting my minute right now.
00:19:20.660I do have to be careful because you want to make sure that you don't impersonate the greats when you do it.
00:19:26.660And, you know, some of those people were really legends.
00:19:29.020Like, for example, I met one of the legends once.
00:19:31.060I met Bill Cosby in Chicago in a hotel.
00:19:45.080But you do also have to be careful when you do stand-up because you don't want to be, like, the obvious thing.
00:19:50.300Like, I didn't want to be sitting up here talking about, like, how much I love dick because then I'd just become the answer to the question no one is asking.
00:25:45.540So I'm going to present a hypothetical to some of you here.
00:25:47.620In a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the United States and either your birth country or country of your parents' origin, where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance?
00:26:52.360And, by the way, just to be clear, this, when I ask this question, it doesn't mean that you, you know, if the country of your origin speaks a different language or, you know, you have family there or it doesn't mean you have to completely revoke an affinity for your home country or, you know, the cultural ties or anything like this.
00:27:10.680It's purely just if there was some, you know, conflict, to which country is your allegiance.
00:27:17.860It almost reminds me a little bit of the Olympics.
00:27:20.220There was a bit of a, you know what I'm talking about, with Alyssa Liu and Eileen Gu, where Alyssa Liu, they're both, I'm trying to remember the, I don't know the exact background.
00:27:37.200But Eileen Gu, like, I think, I don't know if she was born in China, but grew up her whole life in San Francisco, goes in, but she's, like, half white, half Chinese.
00:27:49.760She, even though having lived in the United States pretty much her whole life, represents China in the Winter Olympics.
00:28:00.280And, there's, like, this big kind of drama conflict there.
00:28:04.240And, then, you have, like, based Alyssa Liu, the ice skater, who represented the United States.
00:43:19.260Because, according to him, he is cheating, and the wife caught years ago.
00:43:25.000So, that means it's a repeating behavior, and the wife is still, like, due to the social pressure, the wife is still with the...
00:43:34.340Well, yes, it could be a repeating behavior, but at the same time, maybe, like, there's so much situations where you don't know.
00:43:42.960She could believe that he could change, or that, like, there's family involved.
00:43:47.340There's just so much within it, and I think it's just more of a respect thing for her as well to ask whether or not she would be okay with you telling everyone else.
00:43:58.600Yeah, I mean, I guess I don't want to linger on that for too long, but there could be some argument made that it's acceptable to tell the direct person that is affected by this.
00:44:10.120I wasn't paying attention to all the details.
00:44:12.180I was distracted by a tech thing going on, but the going to the family, that seems...
00:44:20.120I think people might side with you on the going to the wife thing, letting her know, but I think that ought to have probably been the extent of it.
00:44:30.080Telling the whole family seems particularly malicious and vindictive.
00:44:44.060I feel like you were young, so I feel like when somebody cheats, especially when that guy is older, when you're young, I feel like you don't really, like...
00:44:54.240I don't want to say you don't think about it, but...
00:44:58.380Yeah, so what I'm saying is, like, you can still take the accountability for it, but I think because you were so young, it's like, you don't really think about it, so you just do it.
00:45:24.980I was really banking on that, but I mean, you know, I think eventually you're gonna have to, like, just come to terms with yourself eventually and just kind of feel bad about it a little bit, because in the end, you've given him the validation for cheating on you, right?
00:47:07.280So, she said, the next time that they hooked up and she received his seed, I guess you could say, she kept the seed in her mouth and spit it in his mouth.
00:47:24.520Now, I think that that's fucking a sex crime, to be honest.
01:09:11.980But, I mean, I would say, I mean, if I were to actually give advice, I mean, you got to make yourself probably more appealing to that demographic.
01:09:59.840I'm sure that there's, and I mean this in the most respectful way, I'm sure that there are younger women and more fertile women that can offer the same.
01:10:09.500So, you would have to either lower your standards or change something about yourself in order for that man to want to desire you or want you as a wife.
01:10:23.680I understand that, and I think a lot of Christianity today is very weak, and it's not, it's so Americanized right now.
01:10:35.260And so, maybe they're not, like, they're just Christian by name, and a man wants a God-fearing woman.
01:10:43.680But a Christian man, the one that you talk about, wants a woman with a low body count, young, who's going to support him in anything he does.
01:10:54.740What's the definition of a low body count?
01:11:17.060So, like I said, you would have to sacrifice something at that point, and that would probably be maybe giving it up before marriage.
01:11:23.620I mean, I respect that, like, you've, you know, accepted that you may die alone, and that's fine.
01:11:32.620But, yeah, I think the, like, the man that you're looking for is probably slim to none without sacrificing something yourself.
01:11:45.460I mean, I think it's, by the way, I think it's totally fine for you to have this standard where you want to wait until marriage.
01:11:50.940I'm just trying to be pragmatic and realistic about the probability, you know, how many men in their, you know, mid-30s are still inclined to wait to have sex, wait until marriage.
01:12:06.840Of course, there's Christian men at all ages, but it's going to be difficult.
01:12:15.420And it might, because, for example, I think they're, you're an attractive woman, you're an attractive woman, but I think that there are men who, for example, would date you, but they are, they're like, look, I'm not a virgin.
01:12:39.400They would otherwise be great boyfriends or great husbands, but I think a lot of guys today, and again, your standard's perfectly fine, but a lot of guys today are just, they don't want to wait, and they'll find somebody else.
01:12:56.380And so, like, so a guy could otherwise be a good partner to you, a good boyfriend, good husband, but that could be a sticking point for them in the same way it's a sticking point for you.
01:13:11.320Again, not trying to get you to change your, your preference or whatever, but it is a consideration.
02:37:11.900Yeah, so that, um, means that there has to be, like, a sort of, like, level of dating where you, um, are able to open up to the person more about, like, um, personal things like that.
02:37:27.540Um, and then also, like, that's not something that, um, I would personally answer, like, on the first date.
02:37:37.120I think maybe, like, um, maybe, like, more of the third date.
03:01:10.740But like my, you have to understand that men are not, like when they're really, really nice and they say stuff to you that sounds so perfect, that's not a man.
03:01:27.480If you want something with them, you have to allow them to be able to say what they have and not be all emotional about it.
03:01:33.500Because they know, and I think Brian can agree, they know that sometimes when they say something, it doesn't come out the way that they want it to, but they mean well.
03:48:54.680If you have style, you can rock that Amazon bag just as good as you can rock that Louis bag.
03:48:59.400But, I guess, from my perspective, it's, even if I could afford it, I would, and I'm fully providing, I'm taking care of everything, I would still want authority over purchases.
03:49:14.000I mean, not in totality, but, okay, you want to spend, like, if my girlfriend were to come to me and I'm taking care of everything, oh, I want a $3,000 bag.
03:52:44.120Like, me personally, I do want to work, not full time, but, like, I want to cook, I want to clean, I want to take care of kids, but I would also like to have a job as well, just because I feel like me personally, I would get bored from just, not bored, but as fulfilling as that would be, I think it would also be cool to have a job.
03:53:05.680Isn't that a really good example of wanting it all, though?
03:53:08.480Like, the pie is only so big, you can only cut so many pieces out of it.
03:53:11.700Yeah, but it's, like, even, like, I mean, I joke about it with my boyfriend all the time, like, yeah, I don't, like, I just want to sit at home on my ass and do nothing, but it's, like, he would also, like, say, me and him do get married, he would also want me working.
03:53:29.660So if you're, again, okay, imagine there's a pie, and you cut out a slice, and that pie is your time, and you cut out a slice for your husband, of course, I'm making the food analogy.
03:53:41.700You cut out a slice for your husband, you cut out a slice for your children, if you're cutting a slice for a job, your husband and your child are getting less of a slice.
03:53:54.200Well, that's why at one point you'll have to get to a place where your job is making money without you fully being there for it.
03:54:00.420Exactly, and, like, for example, like, I want to be, like, a teacher.
03:54:06.840When I'm teaching, my kids are going to be in school.
04:11:40.780And I was seeking validation and love in all the wrong places.
04:11:44.460You did write here, uh, actually, can I, the, you sent a, I don't want to like, you sent a message about someone, can I share it, or you prefer not?
04:17:41.740Of your coworkers who are not single, of the men you know in software that are making that 500K, how many of them, even at your age or older, are dating or married to women in their 20s or early 30s?
04:35:29.620I'm talking about churches, community, nonprofits.
04:35:33.400Like, there are so many of those from every angle that if you put in a little bit of footwork, that financial, even when you were talking earlier about being pro-choice, that financial break, that gap can be filled by these programs.
04:35:45.360And I'm speaking as someone who, fortunately, thank God, I have an amazing job right now that I can provide for myself.
04:35:51.900But I have absolutely had points in my past.
04:36:11.680But here in America, there are resources to help you and save you and push you forward, even without leaning into shitty, badly run government ones.
04:36:20.260Yes, but also, like, the thing within, like, Asian culture, for example, it's just, even if you are no longer within Asia, it's still ingrained within you, like, to not ask for help.
04:36:33.860A divorce is also, like, looked down upon within Asian culture, for example.
04:36:38.240I'm working with other NGOs, and they are feeding information to my AI.
04:36:44.160So I am working with all other nonprofits, you know?
04:36:47.840No, but in the West, it doesn't matter what culture you are, there is a way out.
04:36:54.340And if you're married and you're in that sort of situation, I don't know how far I can go in this situation, the husband pays an alimony, right?
04:37:41.580So, so if you see what she's saying, like, at least here, even if it's hard, the choice is still there.
04:37:47.560Well, even in Christianity, even way back when, what would happen is that, like, if there was a situation like that, the woman was removed or whatever, the man was ostracized from the, from the community that he was, like, thrown out of the church.
04:38:00.920Nobody talked to him, and he still had to pay the woman.
04:38:04.080They were still married, but they still had to, he had to pay a certain amount and stuff like that.
04:38:10.260I think there's a, I get that it sucks.
04:38:14.200There's bad men in the world, and there's bad women in the world, too.
04:38:16.720And at some point, we both, like, as women, we have to take responsibility for that.
04:38:20.140I know that you could, like, let's say he abuses you.
04:38:23.640Yes, what he did was wrong, but I chose that man, and I should have chose better for me, is what I'm saying.
04:50:47.280Apparently, maybe you guys are just all really smart.
04:50:49.300Apparently, and there's a difference between men and women when you test them on this, women fail it more than men.
04:50:57.660Not to say that all women fail it, but I think they've done this test on college campuses, and women fail it at like 2x the rate that men do.
04:51:09.380Hey, that's very sexist and misogynistic of you.
04:51:13.040I figured you were going to do some type of intelligence test, because I've seen videos where you are asking all kinds of historical questions.
04:52:12.720I think it's pretty – I think it's pretty – I think it's pretty 50 feet in different ways.
04:52:16.380It's like the men are generally the ones that – like, physically that are being affected, but then their families are having to deal with post-traumatic stress when they – if they come home.
04:53:33.960Like, they experience rape and torture and all that.
04:53:36.180Just the same thing that you're saying women experience, men experience too, and then they die.
04:53:40.960Well, I'm even willing to grant that this happens more to women, and just for the sake of argument, I'd be prepared to grant that – let's even say it never happens to men and only happens to women.
04:53:52.400Men are still the primary victims of war because – well, I guess let me ask you a question.
04:53:59.180How many men would you be willing to kill to prevent one rape?
04:57:14.280For example, a man who is not on the front line, who's in the internal of the country, and he's safe.
04:57:25.040And then there's, like, a woman, there's, like, an invading army, and she gets raped.
04:57:29.100In that instance, if you're comparing that woman to the man who's safe in a different city, then in that individual example, she's the primary victim.
04:57:40.460But the question is not about individual victims.
05:00:40.980So, I mean, discrimination can exist in corporations, but typically a right – corporations typically don't grant you rights.
05:00:50.460The government would grant rights as far as – just for simplicity's sake, rights don't really exist, but we're not going to – we're not going to get into that.
05:01:00.140But, like, for example, the right to bear arms, you would agree that both men and women have that right to have firearms in the United States?
05:02:43.800So, why would it be wrong for a lot of you, you all can be, feel free to weigh in, what would actually be wrong with a guy who has a high body count and he wants to date a woman with a low body count?
05:02:58.300Well, he can want all he wants to, but getting that, it's a lot of times a woman with a very low body count has higher standards.
05:03:05.060And if she finds a man who has a body count, like, you know, a big one, then she's probably going to shy away from him.
05:03:13.740Well, just to be clear, I don't have, like, if a woman doesn't want to date a guy with a high body count, that's totally fine.
05:03:21.320But I think you would acknowledge, not all the time, but typically men who are able to bed many women tend to have attractive traits.
05:03:32.880So, she can have that specific standard about not wanting to date, you know, a guy with a high body count.
05:03:39.980But I don't know if I would call into question, I don't know, the, the, like, I agree.
05:03:51.060I don't think a guy who has a high body count would have an inability to attract women with low body count.
05:03:56.220No, no, he could probably attract, I mean, obviously, I mean, but also guys will do it with about anything.
05:04:02.600So, I mean, it's, I mean, if he's got a high body count, maybe he's attractive, maybe he just has, you know, do anything.
05:04:07.300Well, I think also just morally, a guy with a higher body count has a completely different lifestyle than someone who, more than likely have a different lifestyle than someone, a woman with a lower body count, too.
05:04:19.460So, in that case, he's not approaching her with the intent, probably the same intent that she wants within a relationship.
05:04:25.500Well, let's, let's grant for the sake of the convo that he's had his fun.
05:04:31.940He's done run through a hundred chicks, but he's like, you know what?
05:04:35.540The women that I find to, that, that I just find more attractive and that I think are just better, make for better girlfriends are the women with low body counts.
05:04:45.280So, he's like, I'm going to date them.
05:04:48.140Well, is he going to that date with, like, being fully transparent within it?
05:04:54.300I mean, if she asks him, he can be honest, sure.
05:04:57.820Then I feel like if he's fully transparent, then I feel like she could give him the chance, but then that's on her.
05:05:02.820Right, but the question, the statement is wrong for high body count men to prefer to date low, low body count or virgin women.
05:05:10.720This doesn't say include or incorporate anything about the woman's proclivity to date or not date a high body count man.
05:05:18.400It's simply the desire from the high body count man to prefer to date low body count woman.
05:05:26.160I mean, he can prefer, that's his, that's his personal choice and personal opinion.
05:05:30.500You know, like you all say, like, you don't want to date age, that's your personal choice.
05:05:34.500So, it's okay for him to have that, but saying he's going to get it is a difference.
05:05:39.580Oh, yeah, that is absolutely different.
05:05:41.160Although, I do think it might actually be the case that high body count men might actually outcompete low body count men in getting low body count women.
05:05:51.280Because men who have high body counts typically tend to have traits that are more attractive.
05:05:59.020Women are a bit more forgiving on the body count promiscuity thing.
05:06:02.800Not to say that women can't or don't care about it.
05:06:06.840I just tend to find that they care less about it or they don't care at all.
05:06:10.580Also, women like to tame the wild beast, too.
05:06:12.760So, if he's, like, gone out and done a bunch and you're the one that gets him to stop, I mean, that's another thing.
05:06:37.840When it becomes, when it's about a man and who we're trying to have kids with or whatever, it's always, you know, we see it as, like, the man's super attractive and he's, you know, everybody wants him.
06:36:05.600How does somebody, is Chase going to, like, have, like, a vision appear to him, like, wow, this girl who I don't fucking know, I'm just going to miraculously find her?