Whatever Podcast - February 09, 2026


MEGA BLACK PlLL？! Sarah Stock DRAMA! Former ＂VlRGlN＂ Guest EXPOSED! Mormon Girl Tried To Sell Her VlRGlNlTY？! ｜ Dating Talk 281

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Hosted by
Andrew Wilson Brian Atlas
Mentioned
Mary Twitch Nick Fuentes Virgin Mormon Charlie Kirk Sarah Stock Bevo Michael Jackson Adriana Lima Justin Bieber Findum Kanye Sikh Jesus Christ Wait Eos Hot Tub George Washington Seattle Seahawks Trad Catholics Louis Vuitton Harry Styles and 31 more
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In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we introduce ourselves and talk about who we are, where we grew up, and what we do in our day-to-day lives. We also talk about what it's like being Chinese-American in the United States.

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00:01:11.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape.
00:01:16.680 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
00:01:17.460 We're just going to jump right into the show. Sorry for the delay, guys.
00:01:22.140 Go ahead and introduce yourself.
00:01:24.100 Hi, my name is Indy. I'm 20 years old, and I go to college in San Marcos.
00:01:29.680 I'm a psychology major, and I'm also getting into the modeling industry.
00:01:34.920 Okay, and you're from San Marcos?
00:01:37.260 I'm originally from Boston, Massachusetts.
00:01:38.780 From Boston. So you were born there, grew up there?
00:01:41.020 Yeah, and I moved to California for college.
00:01:43.020 Okay, can you, like, fake a Boston accent for the show?
00:01:47.280 I don't know. I don't think I have one. I don't think I have it in me.
00:01:50.700 You'll not? What parts of Boston, typically, of the people who live there have the accent?
00:01:56.320 Like, there's probably some neighborhoods.
00:01:58.000 Yeah, I think people that live more, like, in the city, I'd say.
00:02:02.480 So you're from the suburbs?
00:02:03.540 Older people, yeah. 0.98
00:02:04.920 Older people. The younger people don't have it anymore. 0.98
00:02:07.280 Yeah, no, a little bit.
00:02:09.460 Huh, interesting.
00:02:10.040 Yeah, I live, yeah, on the coast.
00:02:12.660 And you're studying psychology?
00:02:13.820 Mm-hmm.
00:02:13.980 Gotcha, okay. What about you?
00:02:16.060 My name is Vicky Sun. I'm 18 years old, born in China, raised in San Francisco, and I currently go to school at UCSB.
00:02:24.620 All right, and what part of China?
00:02:28.100 Hainandao, so it's an island on the south.
00:02:30.580 Okay, you speak Mandarin?
00:02:32.360 I do.
00:02:32.720 Cantonese?
00:02:34.500 Somewhat, yes.
00:02:35.040 Somewhat, okay. And you moved to the United States at what age?
00:02:40.040 At the age of five.
00:02:41.240 Oh, age of five. Okay, gotcha. And do you have citizenship?
00:02:47.040 I do not. I'm a citizen of China still.
00:02:49.520 Okay, and your parents, they live here too, or?
00:02:52.440 Yes.
00:02:53.180 Okay, do they have U.S. citizenship? Have they tried to go through the process?
00:02:57.380 No, we all are still Chinese citizens.
00:02:59.400 Okay, do you have, like, green cards, or?
00:03:02.360 Yeah, we got that in the process.
00:03:04.600 Gotcha, okay. What about you?
00:03:07.020 Hi, my name is Amelia. I'm 21. I'm from Los Angeles.
00:03:11.540 My education, I commuted, excuse me.
00:03:15.120 I finished technical college to be a phlebotomist, but I'm currently working as a caregiver.
00:03:19.880 I'm extending my education to become a medical assistant pretty soon, and I currently work, yeah, caregiver with disabled adults.
00:03:27.080 All right, what about you?
00:03:27.900 Hi, my name is Lola Gold. I'm 23, and my main source of income is OnlyFans, but I studied as a veterinary nurse, and I'm a catwalk model.
00:03:38.560 Okay, all right, and where are you from?
00:03:40.300 England.
00:03:41.200 Well, what city?
00:03:43.040 Manchester?
00:03:43.400 No, it's Bristol.
00:03:45.360 Bristol, okay.
00:03:46.120 But I live in London currently.
00:03:47.740 London, got it. What about you?
00:03:49.940 My name is Mahi. I'm 19, and I go to UCSB.
00:03:53.500 Where are you from?
00:03:54.320 I'm from Chicago.
00:03:55.760 What are you studying?
00:03:57.060 Psych and brain science.
00:03:58.660 All right.
00:04:00.000 What about you?
00:04:00.480 I'm Julia. I'm 27. I work in pediatric dentistry, no higher education for the time being, and I'm from Arizona.
00:04:10.020 All right. What about you?
00:04:12.160 My name is Erica. I am 38, and I work in child care. I'm from Long Beach. I grew up in Long Beach. I live in Orange County currently.
00:04:20.760 Any college or university?
00:04:22.400 I went to Cal State, Long Beach.
00:04:23.960 Did you graduate?
00:04:25.300 Yeah, a long time ago.
00:04:26.460 Bachelors?
00:04:27.260 Yeah.
00:04:27.620 What did you?
00:04:29.100 Theater and child development.
00:04:30.480 Okay. What about you?
00:04:32.080 Hi. My name is Komal Preet. I'm 26. I'm an actress and a psychic, and I did some community college before lockdown, but then I had a lot of health problems follow me, so I had to take time off school, but I want to go back for game development and design.
00:04:47.660 Okay. And where are you from?
00:04:48.860 Oh, I'm from the San Fernando Valley in L.A. County, a valley girl.
00:04:52.120 Born?
00:04:52.700 Yes.
00:04:52.980 Born and raised.
00:04:53.560 Okay. And any college, university?
00:04:56.960 Yeah, I did a little bit of community college, but I haven't finished yet. I want to go back.
00:05:00.700 What were you studying?
00:05:02.720 Oh, computer science with a concentration in game development and design.
00:05:06.780 Got it. Okay. What about you?
00:05:08.780 Hi. My name is Maddie. I'm 29.
00:05:11.060 I was born and raised in SoCal, Inland Empire area. I currently work in local government. I'm an executive assistant for a fire department.
00:05:30.160 All right. Any college, university?
00:05:32.720 Yes. I have my master's in public administration.
00:05:35.780 Huh?
00:05:36.080 Her mic seems off.
00:05:38.780 Her mic seems off.
00:05:40.700 Yeah.
00:05:40.920 Has it been the audio for other people?
00:05:50.460 Wait, chair. Wait, chat. Who's chat? So this is 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. Chair 9 or chair 10? Chair 10 is next to me. Is it chair 9 or chair 10?
00:06:07.980 Which microphone is having?
00:06:12.780 Oh, hers.
00:06:13.640 Okay. Okay. Got it, guys. Wait, chair 9? So you?
00:06:19.860 Me.
00:06:20.180 Okay. All right. Master's in?
00:06:24.220 Master's in public administration and then bachelor's in political science.
00:06:30.920 Wait, bachelor's in political science?
00:06:32.760 Yes.
00:06:33.380 Okay. All right. From?
00:06:37.980 Inland Empire region. SoCal.
00:06:39.940 Okay. All right. I'm going to fix the mic here in just a moment. But first, we have a quick sponsorship announcement. So guys, the world knows the legend of Camelot. What history forgets is how close it came to never happening.
00:06:56.200 There was a story.
00:07:26.200 So I'm going around the table once more. And I'm also going to get up and fix the audio situation, attempt to fix it. Can you tell us your relationship status, please?
00:07:38.580 Starting with me?
00:07:40.580 Starting with me?
00:07:41.120 Yeah, yeah. Starting with me.
00:07:41.920 Sorry. I'm single.
00:07:43.940 I'm also single.
00:07:45.620 And then tell us how long you've been single and then your longest career.
00:07:50.700 I think I've been single for a little over a year, maybe a year and a half. And my longest relationship was two years.
00:08:00.860 I've been single for like half a year now. And my longest relationship was a year and six months.
00:08:07.040 One sec. Can you talk into your mic a little bit?
00:08:09.740 Hello.
00:08:11.340 Louder? 0.53
00:08:12.160 Hello.
00:08:12.440 I'm in a relationship.
00:08:19.260 You know what? Hold on. I'm sorry. Why don't you do this? Who do you have for the Super Bowl? Just fucking, whatever. Starting with you. Who do you want to win for the Super Bowl?
00:08:28.340 Bad Bunny.
00:08:33.620 I don't have a team.
00:08:35.460 I'm from Washington, so obviously he lost.
00:08:40.280 I don't care about football.
00:08:43.400 I have no idea who's playing.
00:08:45.560 Same.
00:08:46.620 No idea.
00:08:47.480 Same. I don't know.
00:08:49.820 Is it Patriot?
00:08:50.840 It's all staged anyway.
00:08:56.780 It's staged?
00:08:58.080 Yeah.
00:08:58.520 Why don't you tell us how you're a psychic? Tell us about that.
00:09:00.740 Oh, I do tarot and palm readings.
00:09:04.260 I love that.
00:09:05.780 Okay.
00:09:06.500 What do you mean?
00:09:07.200 All right. Can you speak into the microphone, please?
00:09:10.500 Hello.
00:09:10.940 Hello.
00:09:12.440 Is it working?
00:09:14.200 Keep going.
00:09:14.960 Chat.
00:09:15.720 Is it fixed?
00:09:16.580 It should be fixed.
00:09:17.500 Is it fixed?
00:09:18.280 Is it fixed, chat?
00:09:20.060 One, two, three.
00:09:20.800 Testing, one, two, three.
00:09:21.680 Testing, one, two, three.
00:09:23.140 One, two, three.
00:09:23.820 Okay, it's working.
00:09:26.860 All right.
00:09:27.220 Sorry for the delay there, guys.
00:09:30.200 Technical magic there.
00:09:32.040 All right.
00:09:32.600 So going back to the relationship status, if you can repeat it.
00:09:36.060 Go ahead.
00:09:36.920 I'm single.
00:09:37.820 I've been single for like a year and a half, and my longest relationship lasted for two years.
00:09:42.700 Is that the one that ended a year and a half ago?
00:09:45.240 Yeah.
00:09:45.600 Mm-hmm.
00:09:46.440 Okay.
00:09:47.640 And who broke up with who?
00:09:50.360 I technically broke up with him, but it was kind of a mutual thing.
00:09:54.220 Mutual thing.
00:09:54.960 Mm-hmm.
00:09:55.160 Okay.
00:09:56.900 So, but why?
00:09:58.800 Okay.
00:09:59.400 Technically, you broke up with him.
00:10:01.060 I broke up with him, but like we both kind of agreed things weren't working.
00:10:04.980 And so the breakup was mutual.
00:10:06.880 I see.
00:10:07.420 Okay.
00:10:09.120 All right.
00:10:09.920 What about you?
00:10:11.740 So I have been single for like a half a year now, and my longest relationship was a year and a half.
00:10:19.840 All right.
00:10:20.480 A year and a half.
00:10:22.240 Is that the one that ended a year and a half ago?
00:10:25.040 The one that ended like six months ago, like half a year ago.
00:10:28.020 Gotcha.
00:10:28.540 Yeah.
00:10:28.640 Okay.
00:10:29.780 Who broke up with who?
00:10:31.140 I broke up with him.
00:10:33.060 Okay.
00:10:33.300 Well, it was like a high school relationship.
00:10:35.860 Yeah.
00:10:36.080 High school, pretty much.
00:10:37.200 All right.
00:10:38.040 Did you go back to China, by the way?
00:10:39.940 I go back in the summers, yes.
00:10:42.060 In the summers.
00:10:42.640 Have you done any dating in China?
00:10:44.620 No, I haven't.
00:10:45.340 No dating?
00:10:45.840 No dating in China.
00:10:46.720 Okay.
00:10:47.060 Yeah.
00:10:47.400 Just curious.
00:10:48.060 Do you have a preference when it comes to the kind of men that you date?
00:10:51.760 Well...
00:10:52.200 White guys, Asian guys, black guys, Latino? 0.60
00:10:54.260 Speaking like from my experience, I've honestly pretty much been with like Chinese people.
00:10:58.940 Not that I have a preference, but I think like there's just more in common and more
00:11:03.080 similarity with Chinese people being like Chinese.
00:11:06.040 Okay.
00:11:06.540 I'd say like Asian guys, yeah.
00:11:07.920 So your last boyfriend, he was Chinese?
00:11:10.300 Yes.
00:11:10.800 Gotcha.
00:11:11.920 All right.
00:11:13.380 And single for half a year?
00:11:15.160 Yeah.
00:11:15.520 Something...
00:11:16.760 Everything okay?
00:11:17.720 Yeah.
00:11:18.080 Okay.
00:11:18.460 I thought I heard like a...
00:11:19.440 What about you?
00:11:21.140 I'm in a relationship and it's coming up on 11 months.
00:11:25.300 11 months.
00:11:26.280 All right.
00:11:26.760 Did you used to do OnlyFans?
00:11:29.080 Never.
00:11:30.180 And you don't do it currently, correct?
00:11:31.820 Never.
00:11:32.120 I'm just trying to remember.
00:11:33.160 You do raves.
00:11:34.500 You go to raves.
00:11:35.160 Yes.
00:11:35.620 Okay.
00:11:36.560 All right.
00:11:37.160 Never did OF.
00:11:39.700 Just wanted to double check there.
00:11:42.960 Okay.
00:11:43.500 In a relationship, 11 months.
00:11:45.080 What about you?
00:11:46.260 I'm single and I've been single for nearly a year.
00:11:52.420 Okay.
00:11:53.020 Longest relationship?
00:11:53.500 Oh, sorry.
00:11:53.960 My longest relationship was a year.
00:11:56.400 One year?
00:11:56.740 Is that the one that ended a year ago?
00:11:59.940 Yes.
00:12:00.660 All right.
00:12:01.060 And you're friends with Bevo.
00:12:03.380 Well, Bevo's girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, I guess.
00:12:06.220 I don't know.
00:12:06.800 I mean, we've actually never met.
00:12:08.540 We're not...
00:12:09.240 Oh, okay.
00:12:09.640 We're not friends.
00:12:10.200 But you know his...
00:12:11.580 I suppose we're associates.
00:12:13.020 Associates.
00:12:13.600 Yes.
00:12:14.220 Yes.
00:12:14.460 You haven't done content with Bevo.
00:12:15.900 Absolutely not.
00:12:16.580 With Bevo.
00:12:16.940 Absolutely not, please.
00:12:17.880 He does content, right?
00:12:18.860 I don't know.
00:12:19.240 I don't know.
00:12:20.400 You don't?
00:12:20.820 Okay.
00:12:21.120 I think maybe.
00:12:23.080 And how long have you been in the United States?
00:12:25.280 I've been here for two and a bit months now.
00:12:29.200 You're just visiting?
00:12:30.380 Yes.
00:12:31.120 Yes.
00:12:31.600 Have you dated any American men?
00:12:33.880 Yeah.
00:12:34.680 I have.
00:12:35.540 What's the difference, would you say, between American men and British?
00:12:38.840 I think you guys are more forward in a good way.
00:12:43.120 In a good way.
00:12:43.880 Okay.
00:12:44.380 Yeah.
00:12:45.240 All right.
00:12:46.300 What about you?
00:12:47.960 I'm currently in a two and a half year relationship, and that's been my longest relationship.
00:12:52.220 All right.
00:12:52.600 What about you?
00:12:54.840 My longest relationship has been four months, and I'm in a complicated situation.
00:13:03.200 Four months longest.
00:13:05.500 Okay.
00:13:05.960 So, it's complicated currently.
00:13:08.100 How long have you been seeing Mr. It's Complicated?
00:13:12.200 Now, a month.
00:13:13.620 One month.
00:13:14.580 Mm-hmm.
00:13:14.740 Why is it complicated?
00:13:15.420 So, we are debating if our compatibility is there, and he told me that we would take a break.
00:13:25.380 Not like a break, but like a talking break for a week, and that will redefine and redetermine our compatibility after this podcast.
00:13:35.160 After, so is he watching live?
00:13:39.240 Probably.
00:13:39.840 And he's assessing your answers?
00:13:42.600 Yes, sir.
00:13:44.480 Whose decision was it to reassess after your appearance on the whatever podcast?
00:13:49.440 His idea.
00:13:51.280 That's interesting.
00:13:52.960 That's a new one for us.
00:13:54.260 Yeah.
00:13:55.180 So, okay.
00:13:55.760 You've been, and you've only known him for a month?
00:13:57.940 Yes, sir.
00:13:58.900 How did you guys meet?
00:13:59.900 Dating at?
00:14:00.160 Eos Hot Tub. 1.00
00:14:02.340 Damn. 1.00
00:14:03.220 Eos Hot Tub? 1.00
00:14:04.480 Yes, sir.
00:14:06.000 Formerly Gold's Gym.
00:14:06.600 Is that like a nightclub, or?
00:14:07.860 Oh, no.
00:14:08.320 It's a gym.
00:14:09.600 It used to be Gold's Gym.
00:14:10.700 They bought it out.
00:14:11.280 Oh, Eos.
00:14:11.840 Uh-huh.
00:14:12.640 Really big and easy.
00:14:13.180 Okay.
00:14:13.200 You guys met at the gym.
00:14:14.160 I got it.
00:14:14.660 Okay.
00:14:17.240 Your longest relationship ever, four months.
00:14:21.580 That's interesting.
00:14:23.180 You're Christian?
00:14:24.600 I am Mormon.
00:14:26.180 Oh.
00:14:26.540 But I will.
00:14:27.720 Mormons are, well.
00:14:28.780 Yeah, yeah.
00:14:29.120 According to Mormons, you got out loud.
00:14:33.780 No, but didn't you guys, you guys kind of revoked the Mormon title.
00:14:38.820 It's LDS.
00:14:39.940 It's Latter-day Saint.
00:14:40.540 I used to say that, and no one used to say it, and now everyone says Latter-day Saint,
00:14:43.620 so now I say Mormon.
00:14:45.120 Just to be?
00:14:46.360 Yeah.
00:14:49.320 Just to be troublesome, yes.
00:14:51.080 Did you go to church?
00:14:52.040 Yes.
00:14:54.000 Okay.
00:14:55.200 How long have you been LDS or Mormon or whatever?
00:14:57.980 My entire life.
00:14:59.000 I took a long break for a while and explored different religions, but essentially my entire
00:15:03.460 life.
00:15:04.500 Did you go to BYU?
00:15:05.960 No.
00:15:07.500 Okay.
00:15:08.360 Wanted to, but no.
00:15:10.740 Interesting.
00:15:11.400 Okay.
00:15:12.960 Are you waiting until marriage?
00:15:14.540 Yes, sir.
00:15:15.500 Has that been your standard your entire life?
00:15:17.780 Yes.
00:15:18.380 Super virgin?
00:15:19.140 Yes.
00:15:19.780 Okay.
00:15:20.060 None of that, what do they call it?
00:15:22.900 What do the Mormons do?
00:15:23.200 Not reborn again, or the super soaking thing.
00:15:25.760 The bed shaking thing.
00:15:27.180 The super soaking thing.
00:15:28.680 No, that's so disgusting.
00:15:30.140 Is that real?
00:15:31.220 Yes, and I don't know anyone who does it, or openly admits it.
00:15:34.960 So not born again virgin, by the way.
00:15:37.000 Never virgin.
00:15:39.380 I've been a virgin my whole life.
00:15:40.760 Okay.
00:15:41.200 Yeah.
00:15:41.900 All right.
00:15:42.580 Okay, and you're dating a guy, is he a Mormon?
00:15:44.440 No, he's Jewish.
00:15:46.980 You're a devout, LDS, Mormon, Christian, dating a, what kind of, is he orthodox?
00:15:54.360 I don't know if he's orthodox or Hasidic or whatever.
00:15:57.640 He just says that he's Jewish.
00:15:59.920 Like culturally Jewish, or like actually religiously Jewish?
00:16:02.920 He grew up Jewish, like his mom is a cantor, but they didn't, they weren't super rigid or anything.
00:16:09.980 That's interesting.
00:16:13.440 So the complicated guy, Jewish. 1.00
00:16:16.220 Yes, sir.
00:16:18.460 And you're devoutly Mormon.
00:16:22.920 Shouldn't that just be a non-starter for you?
00:16:26.200 You would think so.
00:16:27.600 I'm open.
00:16:28.340 And I'm one of the rare ones that's open to dating other men, as long as they love Jesus or, and he's open to Jesus.
00:16:34.800 And so.
00:16:36.300 Well, I mean, Christianity, whether it's Islam, whether it's Judaism, the faiths are to some degree non-aligned.
00:16:48.560 So it's a bit, and also, so are you going to convert to Judaism or is he going to convert to LDS?
00:16:57.340 Should things work out?
00:16:59.060 I see us having like an interfaith sort of environment.
00:17:02.120 I've seen it happen.
00:17:03.180 I've seen Catholics date Jews.
00:17:04.800 It's a thing.
00:17:05.500 Well, it happens, but I mean, it's, it's just, if you guys both take your faith seriously, it just seems completely incompatible.
00:17:16.420 I have a question for you.
00:17:17.380 Even, by the way, even other Christian, like the differences between Christian denominations, Orthodox with a Catholic or with a Protestant, it's, even then, even if you're both Christians, it's going to cause issues.
00:17:31.620 Yes, it could possibly.
00:17:34.200 You have to.
00:17:34.780 But why not just be like, you know what?
00:17:36.440 I'm Mormon.
00:17:37.160 Let me just make things easy.
00:17:38.440 Just date a Mormon guy. 1.00
00:17:39.340 I was talking to someone about that earlier, and that's part of the compatibility question that we have on hand.
00:17:47.540 It seems like a pretty significant compatibility issue.
00:17:52.960 Are there, but outside of religion, are there other compatibility issues?
00:17:58.920 Yes.
00:17:59.860 Personality differences. 0.66
00:18:01.320 He's very, he's kind of brute.
00:18:03.900 He's very direct.
00:18:05.600 Brute?
00:18:06.180 Brute, yes.
00:18:06.840 Brute, okay.
00:18:07.440 He's a brute man.
00:18:09.100 He's direct, okay.
00:18:10.760 Yeah, he's very direct.
00:18:13.560 He's very difficult, kind of stubborn, and these are all fine things.
00:18:18.680 It's just how he goes about those.
00:18:21.840 Okay.
00:18:23.800 Is he waiting until marriage?
00:18:25.660 He's willing to.
00:18:26.980 He's willing to.
00:18:28.040 Okay.
00:18:29.140 I don't know if that's in Judaism.
00:18:30.900 I'm not sure if that's the standard in the religion.
00:18:33.520 Maybe if you're Orthodox, I think.
00:18:35.900 Probably that.
00:18:36.460 But, like, the more, I don't know, whatever.
00:18:38.760 Okay.
00:18:39.720 That's interesting.
00:18:41.180 Complicated.
00:18:41.720 All right.
00:18:41.980 What about you?
00:18:44.300 Oh, Lord.
00:18:45.520 I'm single.
00:18:46.980 All right.
00:18:48.700 How long have you been single for?
00:18:51.660 Maybe a month.
00:18:53.540 One month.
00:18:54.000 Maybe less.
00:18:55.620 I had my heart broken.
00:18:56.740 I didn't want to count.
00:18:58.900 Longest relationship you've ever been in?
00:19:01.260 Like six, seven years.
00:19:02.580 Is that the one that ended a month ago?
00:19:04.480 No.
00:19:05.400 Okay.
00:19:06.000 So, I see.
00:19:07.160 The one that ended a month ago, how long was that relationship?
00:19:10.840 Gosh, I don't even know if I could call it a relationship.
00:19:12.720 It was, like, nine months, maybe?
00:19:17.000 Nine months.
00:19:17.480 He was from the UK.
00:19:19.600 Okay.
00:19:21.400 White guy? 0.84
00:19:22.160 Black guy? 0.91
00:19:22.720 He was black. 0.93
00:19:23.360 Black guy.
00:19:23.840 Okay.
00:19:24.880 And...
00:19:25.400 It was from Reading, though, may I add?
00:19:27.920 Where?
00:19:28.740 Reading.
00:19:29.380 Reading?
00:19:29.960 Yeah.
00:19:30.240 That's a place in the UK, I assume?
00:19:33.560 Yeah.
00:19:34.000 Okay.
00:19:34.380 Is that, like, a bad place?
00:19:37.180 It's just a little bit rough.
00:19:38.780 Rough?
00:19:39.320 Yeah.
00:19:40.560 Oh, okay.
00:19:42.600 Okay.
00:19:43.120 Single for one month.
00:19:45.700 Hmm.
00:19:46.180 All right.
00:19:47.200 What about you?
00:19:48.340 Hi.
00:19:49.580 I've been single for almost six years.
00:19:53.240 Six years?
00:19:53.960 And I'm currently single, yeah.
00:19:55.540 Currently single.
00:19:56.460 Okay.
00:19:56.860 Longest relationship?
00:19:58.100 Eight months.
00:19:59.180 Eight months.
00:19:59.680 Is that the one that ended six years ago?
00:20:01.320 Yes.
00:20:02.200 Okay.
00:20:02.520 You've been single for six years, but anything in that time period, anything shorter term,
00:20:07.500 a couple months here, six months, something like that?
00:20:10.120 I just had a couple of narcissists love bomb me, but that doesn't really count for anything,
00:20:14.720 so...
00:20:15.480 Narcissists love bomb you? 0.99
00:20:17.220 Yeah.
00:20:18.600 Okay.
00:20:20.820 Question.
00:20:21.380 Of the men, I will just really quick ask the whole panel.
00:20:24.120 Who here has dated a narcissist?
00:20:27.640 Show of hands, please.
00:20:29.580 Just you?
00:20:30.040 Nobody else has dated a narcissist?
00:20:34.020 Oh, okay.
00:20:34.500 Why?
00:20:34.780 The hands aren't coming up.
00:20:35.720 You've dated.
00:20:36.260 You've dated.
00:20:37.100 Okay.
00:20:37.400 Well, I'll focus on you here for a moment then.
00:20:39.620 Were they diagnosed with NPD?
00:20:42.700 The thing is, it's nearly...
00:20:44.020 It's like virtually impossible to get diagnosed with NPD because part...
00:20:47.600 Like, the whole core thing of their disorder is that they don't admit that they're doing
00:20:51.500 anything wrong.
00:20:55.280 Well, I mean, I would imagine that if they went to a therapist, perhaps the rates of people
00:21:02.620 who actually end up or undiagnosed have NPD, maybe their rates of going to a therapist
00:21:07.980 are much lower, but, I mean, there's clearly a diagnostic metric for how you would diagnose
00:21:18.860 somebody with NPD.
00:21:20.360 Okay.
00:21:20.660 But no, they don't have a diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder.
00:21:25.720 Okay.
00:21:26.720 And you said that was for how long?
00:21:29.120 Oh, I mean, I just...
00:21:31.160 Both narcissists.
00:21:31.880 It was just a couple of months.
00:21:33.820 How many narcissists have you dated?
00:21:35.940 Two.
00:21:36.480 Two.
00:21:36.940 Okay.
00:21:37.720 Was the eight-month one also a narcissist? 0.97
00:21:40.140 No, but he was probably like a sociopath. 0.99
00:21:42.960 Sociopath. 0.98
00:21:43.680 Okay. 0.95
00:21:44.140 And then you said he love-bombed you.
00:21:46.160 What do you mean by that?
00:21:46.960 What did he do?
00:21:47.880 Like, they purposely do this thing where they talk to you like 12, 13 hours a day.
00:21:52.100 They never spend any time away from you.
00:21:54.220 They purposely mirror all your little quirks and interests to make it seem like they're your
00:21:58.400 soulmate.
00:21:59.060 They tell you they love you like really early on.
00:22:01.380 They do these things to, like, rush the relationship, like, have you meet their family.
00:22:06.740 Okay.
00:22:09.580 How soon did he say, I love you?
00:22:12.920 Probably after a few weeks.
00:22:15.080 Okay.
00:22:15.600 Did you also reply that you loved him?
00:22:19.120 No.
00:22:19.680 I think my gut knew something was wrong.
00:22:21.380 I just started crying.
00:22:22.920 You cried?
00:22:24.420 Yeah.
00:22:24.980 Like, you know when your gut just knows, like, something is off.
00:22:28.160 Like, I felt like I was in danger.
00:22:29.520 I was in danger.
00:22:30.940 Okay.
00:22:32.300 You're a psychic, though, right?
00:22:33.840 Yeah.
00:22:34.680 As a psychic, shouldn't you be able to have foreknowledge of this person's a narcissist?
00:22:41.420 Like, shouldn't you, don't you know that?
00:22:44.140 Well, here's the thing.
00:22:45.200 I'm also very naive.
00:22:46.760 Like, I come from a culture where, like, your parents don't really talk to you about dating
00:22:51.000 and all that.
00:22:51.500 Like, my parents had an arranged marriage.
00:22:52.840 So, I was really sheltered in that regard.
00:22:54.860 What culture is that?
00:22:55.840 I'm Indian.
00:22:56.840 Indian.
00:22:57.140 And so, like, I can just be naive, gullible, trusting, because, like, I just assume the
00:23:03.800 other person feels as strongly as I do.
00:23:05.800 And when you're into someone, it's easy to romanticize them, you know, like, overlook
00:23:09.100 their flaws, because you just so badly want that connection.
00:23:13.500 Wait, I have, hold on.
00:23:15.300 Okay.
00:23:15.700 I have a magic eight ball here.
00:23:16.980 Uh, as a psychic, uh, I want you to predict what will be, what's gonna be on the, the dice.
00:23:27.480 Okay.
00:23:27.940 Okay, tell me.
00:23:28.600 I guess, uh, ask again next time. 0.67
00:23:31.520 Wouldn't that be fucking insane if it was actually? 0.70
00:23:36.320 Here, you read it, so I'm not lying. 0.98
00:23:39.120 Don't bet on it.
00:23:40.400 Okay.
00:23:44.280 You want two for best time?
00:23:46.580 No.
00:23:46.760 Here, okay, one more time?
00:23:47.920 All right.
00:23:48.780 All right, well, uh, so what, what are your, obviously it doesn't work very well with magic
00:23:54.160 eight balls, but in terms of your psychic abilities, um, can you, what, what would be
00:24:00.020 an application that we could explore right here, right now?
00:24:03.120 I mostly do tarot card readings.
00:24:06.360 Tarot card.
00:24:07.320 Mm-hmm.
00:24:07.860 Okay.
00:24:09.760 Is that psychic, though?
00:24:11.760 Is that under the realm of psychic?
00:24:14.960 I think so.
00:24:16.440 But you said you're a psychic.
00:24:17.640 That makes me think you have, like, precognition, or you can see the future, kind of.
00:24:25.740 I mean, haven't you ever had that happen to you, where your gut was trying to tell you
00:24:29.440 or warn you of something before it happened?
00:24:31.280 Well, that's not psychic ability.
00:24:33.540 That's, uh, I mean, that, that's kind of just evolutionary.
00:24:39.760 Like, there is something, what, what is the gift of fear?
00:24:44.160 Something like that.
00:24:45.180 But, um, yeah, sometimes, look, sometimes your gut is wrong, but sometimes it's correct.
00:24:52.920 But I don't think that makes you a psychic.
00:24:56.560 I mean, you're a man, you don't believe in this stuff.
00:24:58.500 Well, what would prevent a woman from being rational and coming to the determination that 0.77
00:25:05.420 psychic, psychic tree, is that the right term? 1.00
00:25:08.240 Psychic, psychic tree, psychic tree, psychic, whatever, is, uh, snake oil and bullshit. 0.99
00:25:14.420 I don't believe in it. 0.99
00:25:16.300 I think everyone's allowed to be skeptic.
00:25:18.380 Like, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
00:25:21.800 Yeah, but why, why should we dismiss women who are skeptical of this? 0.52
00:25:27.620 I don't know, I'm saying anyone can be skeptical.
00:25:29.760 Oh, okay.
00:25:30.200 But you said specifically as a man.
00:25:32.200 I'm just like, I have greater what?
00:25:34.480 What do I, as a man, what, greater what?
00:25:36.640 I just know, like, stereotypically men just aren't into this stuff.
00:25:40.100 Like, it's like, you know, gender interests.
00:25:43.840 Well, I think it actually is probably true that, for example, with astrology, this, not
00:25:49.560 all women believe in astrology, but it seems like more women have an interest in it than 1.00
00:25:55.500 men do.
00:25:56.480 Men are more dismissive of it than women are.
00:25:59.640 So I suppose that's true, but yeah.
00:26:03.640 Okay.
00:26:05.920 You want to predict something?
00:26:07.480 Like, I don't know, it's like, yeah, no, you want to, well, give us one prediction.
00:26:15.060 Somebody going to, one of the women here going to enter into a lesbian relationship with one 1.00
00:26:18.800 of the other women. 0.77
00:26:19.640 Ooh.
00:26:20.200 Maybe.
00:26:21.520 No, I don't think.
00:26:22.420 You don't feel it?
00:26:23.620 I'm actually detecting a little lesbian energy from this side of the table, right in that 1.00
00:26:27.820 corner.
00:26:28.080 I'm not going to say who, but I do detect.
00:26:30.440 I think you're telling us your fantasies out loud.
00:26:33.460 Definitely not.
00:26:34.340 Definitely not.
00:26:35.280 Um, but, um, okay.
00:26:39.160 All right.
00:26:39.780 Uh, what about you?
00:26:43.100 Um, I'm engaged and I've been in this relationship for 15 years.
00:26:49.520 Uh, how long have you guys been engaged?
00:26:52.100 Uh, two, five years.
00:26:54.560 Five years.
00:26:55.160 Yeah.
00:26:55.500 That's a long, I want, I wonder what the women here think. 1.00
00:26:58.720 What do you guys think?
00:27:00.560 That's a long time to be, not if you're saving up for the right day.
00:27:06.360 Yeah.
00:27:06.740 Yeah.
00:27:07.680 Well, to be fair, you guys also met young, right?
00:27:11.180 Cause you're 29.
00:27:12.320 I'm 29.
00:27:12.820 He's 29.
00:27:14.140 Yeah.
00:27:15.000 So you guys met in like high school.
00:27:16.460 Middle school.
00:27:17.340 Met like 14.
00:27:18.620 Yeah.
00:27:19.420 A little closer to the mic if you can.
00:27:20.840 Yeah.
00:27:21.120 We met in middle school.
00:27:22.320 Okay.
00:27:23.000 Um, okay.
00:27:26.840 We have two kids.
00:27:28.720 Oh, okay.
00:27:29.320 Yeah.
00:27:29.520 Two kids.
00:27:30.000 I have an 11 year old and a five year old.
00:27:31.840 With him?
00:27:32.400 Yes, with him.
00:27:32.780 I'm hoping.
00:27:33.400 Yeah, both with him.
00:27:34.180 Okay.
00:27:34.800 Anybody else here have kids?
00:27:36.840 I have a daughter.
00:27:37.660 Daughter?
00:27:38.700 Is, uh, is that from the, wait.
00:27:42.260 No.
00:27:42.800 The nine month guy?
00:27:44.280 No.
00:27:45.440 It's from my ex-husband.
00:27:47.280 Oh, you were married previously.
00:27:48.800 Wait.
00:27:49.700 Yeah.
00:27:49.900 I didn't mention that.
00:27:50.820 No.
00:27:51.140 Your longest relationship was?
00:27:52.580 No, that was a long time ago.
00:27:53.940 I'm 38.
00:27:55.060 I have a lot of.
00:27:56.740 The longest relationship at any point.
00:27:58.780 Six, seven years.
00:27:59.740 That was a long time.
00:28:00.580 I was in high school when, with the six, seven year, like from high school to college.
00:28:06.220 I see.
00:28:07.020 Okay.
00:28:07.220 Uh, so you were married to him for.
00:28:10.700 No, that was somebody.
00:28:12.280 Wait.
00:28:12.860 So high school, I was with someone for like six, seven years.
00:28:15.620 Six, seven years.
00:28:16.200 Okay.
00:28:16.620 And then, you know, um, another two year relationship.
00:28:20.360 And then I got married.
00:28:22.080 We were married for four years, I think.
00:28:25.140 And I have a daughter with him.
00:28:27.080 I see.
00:28:27.760 From Europe also.
00:28:29.300 Oh, no.
00:28:30.340 He's from, he's from Denmark.
00:28:32.540 Black guy? 0.91
00:28:33.240 He looks like you. 0.60
00:28:34.460 Oh, wow.
00:28:35.760 White guy then. 0.56
00:28:36.660 White guy.
00:28:37.220 I guess a black guy could look like me.
00:28:40.140 Yeah.
00:28:40.880 A black version of me.
00:28:42.380 Uh, okay.
00:28:43.140 He's white.
00:28:44.300 Uh, okay.
00:28:46.180 Does he pay you child support?
00:28:48.060 No.
00:28:48.820 You have full custody, I'm assuming.
00:28:50.380 No.
00:28:51.360 He has custody.
00:28:52.520 50-50.
00:28:52.940 50-50.
00:28:53.360 So he lives in the USA?
00:28:54.920 Yes.
00:28:55.560 Okay.
00:28:56.280 Interesting.
00:28:57.120 Very.
00:28:57.680 Uh, does he pay you alimony?
00:28:59.940 Or did he, did he pay you alimony?
00:29:01.220 No, he made me feel so bad for even thinking about alimony.
00:29:06.560 You thought about alimony?
00:29:08.280 At first I was like, no.
00:29:09.500 And then he was being really mean.
00:29:10.660 And I was like, I'm going to take alimony.
00:29:12.200 He was like, you're spiteful.
00:29:14.060 And then you were like, nah, I'm not going to.
00:29:16.580 I was, I just, our divorce took so long.
00:29:19.620 And I was just like, I'm over it.
00:29:20.980 Whatever.
00:29:21.280 We're just at no alimony, 50-50, whatever.
00:29:25.060 Just, let's be done.
00:29:26.280 Well, that's reasonable of you.
00:29:27.980 That's reasonable.
00:29:29.140 Uh, okay.
00:29:30.100 What about you?
00:29:31.380 I'm single.
00:29:32.500 I've been single for five to six months.
00:29:35.720 And my longest relationship was four years.
00:29:39.380 Is that the one that ended five to six months ago?
00:29:42.080 No.
00:29:43.100 Uh, how long was the most recent one?
00:29:45.040 Uh, it was around two years, but it was on and off.
00:29:48.780 On and off for two years.
00:29:50.940 How many times was it on and off?
00:29:53.260 Oh, it's a blur, honestly.
00:29:54.560 I couldn't even tell you.
00:29:55.460 Um, ballpark three, four, five, six, seven.
00:29:57.460 Probably.
00:29:58.220 More than six, seven.
00:29:59.420 More than seven, maybe.
00:30:00.580 More than six, seven.
00:30:01.160 Okay.
00:30:01.360 Yeah.
00:30:03.100 Oh, boy.
00:30:04.320 When will it end?
00:30:05.380 Um, uh, who would be initiating the off?
00:30:11.460 Um, it was probably split or leaning towards me.
00:30:18.600 Yeah.
00:30:19.880 You would overwhelmingly be the one to break things off?
00:30:23.440 Not overwhelmingly, but like it, it was kind of even, but more so probably me if I had
00:30:29.320 to pick one.
00:30:30.360 So if it was seven times off, you ended things four times, he ended things three times.
00:30:35.380 Yeah.
00:30:35.400 Probably around there.
00:30:36.040 Yeah.
00:30:36.140 Something like that.
00:30:36.740 Um, who would try to get back with each, with the person?
00:30:40.960 Um, I'd say him.
00:30:42.380 He, he was more likely to reach out.
00:30:44.700 Okay.
00:30:44.960 And how long were the breaks typically during the off period?
00:30:48.380 A couple of weeks, a couple of days, a couple of months?
00:30:49.840 Sometimes they were like three months and sometimes it would be like a week.
00:30:54.540 So that also varied.
00:30:56.280 Who here at the panel has a experience with on again, off again relationship show fans?
00:31:01.900 Um, okay.
00:31:06.460 All right.
00:31:07.060 A couple of you guys, a couple of you guys.
00:31:09.220 Um, hmm.
00:31:10.920 Um, why would, what would be the primary reason for the breakups?
00:31:15.220 Was it different every time or would there be a repeating issue?
00:31:19.200 Um, okay.
00:31:20.420 Uh, mainly it would be around loyalty or just.
00:31:26.000 How many men did you cheat on him with? 1.00
00:31:28.100 No, none.
00:31:29.360 Uh, women? 1.00
00:31:30.640 None.
00:31:31.140 Oh, my bad.
00:31:32.220 He cheated then.
00:31:33.920 Yes.
00:31:34.480 Yeah.
00:31:34.780 I did catch him cheating, cheating a couple of times.
00:31:36.900 So a couple of times.
00:31:37.420 Yeah.
00:31:38.520 Catch him like in the act.
00:31:39.940 Like you walked in and.
00:31:41.500 No, no, not that.
00:31:43.160 Um, it was mainly like I had, had a feeling, some type of intuition.
00:31:49.260 And then I asked to see his phone and I saw something on it.
00:31:54.320 So.
00:31:55.020 What did you see?
00:31:56.160 A DM.
00:31:57.520 It wasn't like full on physical cheating.
00:31:59.660 Okay.
00:32:00.140 Um, but yeah, it was like messaging girls and saying things that you shouldn't be saying
00:32:04.240 while in a relationship.
00:32:05.700 Okay.
00:32:06.440 Yeah.
00:32:06.620 And you, were you completely faithful?
00:32:09.480 Yeah.
00:32:09.800 Yeah.
00:32:09.980 When we were in a relationship, I, I had never.
00:32:12.600 Were there other guys during the breaks?
00:32:14.720 Um, that I had talked to?
00:32:16.800 Yeah.
00:32:17.520 I genuinely, cause I wanted to move on.
00:32:19.040 So I was trying to actually start a relationship elsewhere and then he'd come back and yeah.
00:32:26.160 Okay.
00:32:26.660 Good times.
00:32:27.300 Was it toxic?
00:32:28.720 Uh, yeah, definitely.
00:32:29.860 I would say so.
00:32:30.440 Were you toxic?
00:32:30.960 I had some moments.
00:32:32.660 I was not perfect.
00:32:33.520 Yeah.
00:32:33.700 What did you do?
00:32:35.180 Um, I think I would argue, I, like my biggest regret was just not leaving and wanting to
00:32:41.280 prove my point.
00:32:41.960 I think I should have just stuck to my morals and just left and that would have been better
00:32:47.820 for me.
00:32:48.680 Gotcha.
00:32:49.780 All right.
00:32:50.980 Uh, and are you Christian?
00:32:52.860 Uh, yes.
00:32:53.400 I'm Catholic.
00:32:54.300 Catholic.
00:32:54.980 Okay.
00:32:55.300 Uh, anybody else here, religious, you know, religious, what, what do you, what do you?
00:33:02.160 Christian.
00:33:02.780 What do you?
00:33:03.480 Sikh.
00:33:04.160 Sikh.
00:33:04.680 Okay. 1.00
00:33:05.360 Sikhs are dope. 1.00
00:33:06.980 They're legends. 0.51
00:33:08.120 What?
00:33:08.520 I just, I just believe in God.
00:33:10.200 I don't know.
00:33:10.240 You're the Mormon?
00:33:12.220 You?
00:33:12.780 You're Catholic, right?
00:33:14.640 Uh, yeah, I follow God, Christ.
00:33:16.380 I don't really have a label.
00:33:17.980 Oh, I thought you said you were Catholic.
00:33:18.760 I mean, Catholic, Christian is, I guess what you could classify it as, but it's not to the
00:33:24.180 certain traditions and things like that.
00:33:26.120 I would say, I'm sorry.
00:33:27.860 Not to certain traditions?
00:33:29.060 What do you mean?
00:33:30.200 Like, I just don't agree with a lot of what the, the propaganda the churches have implemented,
00:33:33.940 like on top of things that are to start, like that are not in the Bible.
00:33:38.600 Such as what?
00:33:39.540 I think that there's a lot of top topics and things that have been added in over time that
00:33:46.040 are excess, that are not, that are like deterring, deterring away from the main point,
00:33:50.940 which is your relationship between you and God.
00:33:52.300 So, I don't go to church as often as I do.
00:33:55.080 If I do, like I said, last time I was here, I'll go to Catholic Mass, but I don't agree
00:33:58.900 with all the things that they say.
00:34:00.260 I don't like a lot of the politics that these churches do.
00:34:03.800 What politics?
00:34:05.100 Because there's different politics in various churches and denominations.
00:34:09.780 This is true.
00:34:10.560 So, I think that, well, I think that certain churches, like the one that I attend in Santa
00:34:18.380 Monica, support abortion, which I think is in direct contradiction to what I believe and 0.53
00:34:23.660 what the Bible states.
00:34:25.160 So, for that, many other Catholic churches do as well, as well as Presbyterian, all denominations
00:34:30.980 of Christianity, unfortunately.
00:34:32.580 Wait, the Catholic church you go to is pro-abortion?
00:34:36.240 Yes, this is in Santa Monica.
00:34:39.220 So, this is, if I have to go, I'll go with my grandma because she enjoys it, and that's
00:34:42.940 all right.
00:34:43.960 You know?
00:34:44.660 Yeah.
00:34:45.400 Well, yeah, I mean, my understanding of Catholicism...
00:34:48.960 It's a lot different than that, and so is mine.
00:34:50.640 So, that's why I'm saying I don't fully claim the label, because that's just one example,
00:34:54.340 as well as having pride flags outside of churches.
00:34:56.060 Well, I think the mainstream Catholic position on abortion is, they're against abortion.
00:35:03.340 True, but I haven't been able to find a church yet that supports, that's just baseline Christianity, 0.97
00:35:07.760 you and God, not all this other BS put in place.
00:35:09.960 Doesn't the, look, I don't really know all too much about Catholicism, but, well, you're
00:35:13.840 Catholic, right?
00:35:14.380 Doesn't the, can't the, the higher up you go, I don't know, like, what it would be called,
00:35:21.200 the archdiocese, or even going up to the Vatican, the Pope, whatever, couldn't the Pope, like,
00:35:27.280 revoke your ability to be a Catholic church, or kick you?
00:35:33.140 I don't know how that would work, actually.
00:35:34.420 Well, there's excommunication, but there's, like, very strict procedures and protocol behind
00:35:39.720 that.
00:35:40.020 Um, in this case, I'm not really sure, I've never heard of any, like, Catholic priest or
00:35:46.320 anyone who's Catholic that preaches, like, talking in support of abortion.
00:35:52.660 Um, you could probably tell the, the diocese, um, I'm not sure which one you would belong
00:35:59.540 to if you're in Santa Monica, uh, but you could tell the diocese because they're not supposed
00:36:04.740 to be sharing anything that's against doctrine.
00:36:07.720 You can have different, like, interpretations of certain things, but if it goes against
00:36:11.020 church doctrine, then that shouldn't be what they're doing.
00:36:14.300 So, that's my understanding.
00:36:15.760 I'm not completely sure, so.
00:36:17.540 Interesting.
00:36:18.260 Okay.
00:36:19.160 Uh, you wanted to weigh in on this?
00:36:20.780 Oh, um, I was just going to say that I resonate the most with the Buddhist teachings, but I'm
00:36:25.360 not practicing.
00:36:26.260 I just, I believe in good karma and potentially reincarnation if you're well behaved.
00:36:30.940 All right.
00:36:32.420 There you go.
00:36:33.360 There you go.
00:36:33.880 Okay.
00:36:34.220 Everybody's got to have some kind of comfort, I feel, in this crazy world.
00:36:38.160 Sure.
00:36:38.380 And, yeah.
00:36:38.980 Mary, can you Google, uh, Super Bowl score at the moment, please?
00:36:43.980 Uh, so it looks like they're, it's, it's ending actually pretty soon, it looks like.
00:36:48.120 So, uh, or wait, no.
00:36:50.100 It's ending.
00:36:50.380 They're, sorry, they're in the third.
00:36:53.020 No, it's fine.
00:36:53.620 You don't have to.
00:36:54.320 They're in the third quarter, Seattle Seahawks leading nine to zero.
00:36:59.440 Wow.
00:36:59.960 Pretty uneventful game so far.
00:37:03.040 Um, but, uh, yeah, anyways, I don't know what I am going to do.
00:37:08.080 One of the topics we have that might take a bit of time is maybe some of you are aware,
00:37:13.280 maybe you're not.
00:37:14.060 There's a recent massive controversy kind of on, on X on Twitter with this conservative
00:37:20.840 traditional pundit who we've actually had on the show before named Sarah Stock.
00:37:25.720 Now, because it's, uh, probably some of our audience is currently split watching the Super
00:37:30.140 Bowl.
00:37:30.880 I'm probably going to wait to address all the Sarah Stock drama.
00:37:35.660 I'll wait maybe until 7 p.m. Pacific.
00:37:38.920 I think the Super Bowl ends around 6.30, so maybe 7, 7.30 we'll get into the Sarah Stock
00:37:44.520 drama.
00:37:45.000 But just for the table, for those watching, as a, I guess, a teaser for what we're going
00:37:50.460 to get into, Sarah Stock, this girl who came on the show, uh, she was Catholic, Christian,
00:37:56.860 conservative, uh, claimed on the show that she was on like two years ago, that she was 0.95
00:38:01.700 waiting for marriage, that she was a virgin, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:38:06.180 Turns out, and she got married, she got married a couple months ago.
00:38:11.440 Turns out she was cheating on her husband. 1.00
00:38:15.660 Well, now husband.
00:38:16.920 I don't think they were married at the time, but they were together.
00:38:18.860 She was cheating on her, I guess, boyfriend, fiance, whatever it is, cheating on her boyfriend 0.99
00:38:24.040 and then, uh, with her boss and he was married or is married with children and they're both
00:38:32.800 Catholic or he's Orthodox, she's Catholic.
00:38:36.020 She lied to her now husband that she was a virgin and she was waiting for marriage. 0.66
00:38:39.900 She was making her husband, excuse me, well, her now husband, soon to be ex-husband, wait 0.96
00:38:47.140 for marriage to have sex. 0.58
00:38:50.380 Meanwhile, she's getting cracked by her married with children boss. 0.91
00:38:57.040 Very complicated situation.
00:38:59.080 We're going to dive, we're going to dive massively into that, but I'm going to wait a little bit
00:39:03.020 as some more viewers trickle in once the Super Bowl ends.
00:39:06.660 But that's the teaser for it.
00:39:08.520 So, um, and I'm sure you guys will have opinions and thoughts on all of that.
00:39:14.420 What we're going to do now is I'm going to get into some of the pre-show notes that you
00:39:18.060 guys provided.
00:39:19.920 So, uh, that's one of the no-shows, so we can do whatever, nope.
00:39:24.340 So, um, let's see here.
00:39:29.200 One sec, guys, while I get this going, we did.
00:39:32.780 Oh, actually, before we do that, I wanted to do a follow-up question on, uh, the people
00:39:38.000 here who are single, which is most of you, um, what does it actually mean to be single
00:39:45.120 in 2026?
00:39:47.420 You've been single for a year and a half, single for a year and a half, single for a
00:39:50.760 year, uh, complicated for like a month or whatever.
00:39:54.780 Single for six years?
00:39:57.080 Wait, that was you, right?
00:39:58.020 I don't know, like a month.
00:39:59.240 Wait, no, I'm six years.
00:40:00.440 No, you've been single for one month.
00:40:01.780 You've been single for six years, uh, single for five to six months for you.
00:40:06.120 So what does that mean, though?
00:40:07.380 What does it mean to be single?
00:40:08.820 Uh, so I guess perhaps some clarifying questions.
00:40:11.380 Is there a guy in the picture currently in any capacity?
00:40:14.280 Wait, wait, wait, hold on.
00:40:15.000 I actually wrote out, I need to be more detailed on this.
00:40:18.980 One sec, hold on, let me find it.
00:40:21.000 Okay.
00:40:21.180 Okay.
00:40:22.100 Cause for example, somebody could say they're single and be like sleeping with one, two,
00:40:26.940 three other people.
00:40:28.140 I'm single, but I don't have the title.
00:40:31.480 You're technically not in a relationship, right?
00:40:32.960 Right.
00:40:33.220 So you're technically not in a relationship.
00:40:34.600 So you're single, but you're getting smashed out by, you know, one, two, three people.
00:40:39.520 Uh, this would apply to men too. 0.99
00:40:41.040 Men can claim to be single, but they're fucking, you know, whatever three chicks. 1.00
00:40:45.120 Are you really single? 0.99
00:40:46.680 Um, so here's the question.
00:40:49.060 Here's a question that you have to ask in 2026.
00:40:52.300 You can't just ask somebody, whether you're a man or a woman, are you single anymore?
00:40:56.560 You can't rely on that to give you an answer that you can really draw any information from.
00:41:03.160 Because I think that, how do we say, uh, people are not going to be particularly forthcoming
00:41:10.000 about, uh, they can be, but they're not going to be super forthcoming.
00:41:13.680 So here's the question.
00:41:15.460 Uh, I had a lawyer assist me in drafting this.
00:41:18.320 Because we got to close the loopholes.
00:41:22.460 We can't let loopholes as a man or a woman, you don't want loopholes. 1.00
00:41:26.840 Okay.
00:41:27.680 Are you presently engaged in, or have you at any time during the relevant period of time
00:41:33.120 we've been talking, been engaged in any form of communication, association, interaction,
00:41:38.480 or relationship with any other male individual or individuals, whether romantic, intimate,
00:41:44.400 sexual, or otherwise, be it casually or seriously.
00:41:48.320 Including, but not limited to, dating, meetings, sneaky links, hangouts, chilling, kicking it,
00:41:57.500 ongoing contact, or involvement of any kind, whether conducted in person or, or through
00:42:03.500 electronic means, including text messages, direct messages, dating applications, social
00:42:08.980 media platforms, or any other form of digital or written communication.
00:42:15.540 Wow.
00:42:16.100 I think that's pretty thorough.
00:42:17.060 I think, you can't just say, are you single?
00:42:19.080 You covered it all.
00:42:19.500 You covered it all.
00:42:20.060 You got to ask that question in 2026.
00:42:25.860 I have a worse one, too.
00:42:28.220 Should I read the twice as long one?
00:42:30.780 Oh, yeah.
00:42:31.380 Go for it.
00:42:32.100 Go for it.
00:42:32.560 All right.
00:42:32.820 Here we go.
00:42:33.240 Are you currently, or have you, at any time during the applicable or relevant period of
00:42:40.240 time, directly or indirectly engaged in, participated in, maintained, initiated, responded to, or
00:42:47.260 otherwise been involved in any communication, contact, association, interaction, arrangement,
00:42:52.960 understanding, or relationship of any nature whatsoever with any other male individual or
00:42:58.520 individuals, whether such involvement is characterized as romantic, intimate, sexual, emotional, or
00:43:04.020 otherwise, including but not limited to, dating, courtship, companionship, repeated or isolated
00:43:09.620 encounters, continued correspondence, or ongoing or intermittent contact.
00:43:14.800 Regardless of frequency, duration, or intent, such inquiry expressly includes, without limitation,
00:43:21.860 any form of in-person interaction or any form of communication conducted through electronic,
00:43:26.960 digital, written, or recorded means, including but not limited to, telephone calls, text messages,
00:43:33.160 multimedia messages, emails, direct messages, private messages, smoke signals, or exchanges
00:43:38.620 on or through dating applications, social networking platforms, messaging services, forms, websites,
00:43:44.960 or any other present or future communication medium, whether public or private, initiated by you or by
00:43:50.560 other, the other party, and whether reciprocated, acknowledged, or unacknowledged.
00:43:55.460 Guilty as charged.
00:43:57.260 I don't like that one, actually.
00:43:58.800 I think it's faulty.
00:43:59.940 You think it's faulty?
00:44:00.760 Why is that?
00:44:01.380 Well, you started it by saying during the applicable or relevant time, which is up to interpretation,
00:44:08.620 and the other person could use that to their advantage, and, yeah, it's just kind of relative.
00:44:15.600 Well, I suppose it depends when you're asking this question, but, yeah.
00:44:21.420 But change that, and you're solid.
00:44:22.580 I think it's pretty strong.
00:44:23.600 I think it's very strong.
00:44:26.260 So, is there a guy in the picture under this framework?
00:44:30.400 Yes.
00:44:31.800 I'd say so.
00:44:32.720 There we go.
00:44:33.460 Okay.
00:44:33.820 I guess.
00:44:34.440 What does that mean?
00:44:35.860 What does that mean?
00:44:37.140 In what context?
00:44:38.880 The guy in the picture.
00:44:41.280 What about him?
00:44:42.680 Is he, are you, what are you guys hooking up?
00:44:45.800 What's the deal?
00:44:46.800 Um, sort of.
00:44:49.420 Sort of?
00:44:49.900 Sort of, yeah.
00:44:51.160 How long have you guys known each other?
00:44:54.840 Maybe, like, five months?
00:44:57.460 A couple months, yeah.
00:44:58.620 Five months?
00:44:59.460 And have you been hooking up for that period of time, or?
00:45:03.640 No, no.
00:45:04.480 How did you guys meet?
00:45:05.880 At school.
00:45:07.240 At school.
00:45:07.920 Okay.
00:45:09.140 And, um, is, are there other guys in the picture besides him?
00:45:17.220 No, I wouldn't say so.
00:45:18.280 Do you guys live together?
00:45:19.660 No.
00:45:20.480 How, when's the last time you saw him?
00:45:22.760 Uh, like two days ago.
00:45:24.780 And was there a sleepover?
00:45:27.840 It was a group hangout. 0.96
00:45:29.800 An orgy? 0.98
00:45:30.680 No. 0.97
00:45:31.020 Wow, okay.
00:45:33.260 No, no.
00:45:33.820 No?
00:45:34.960 Um, no.
00:45:36.120 Okay.
00:45:39.200 Yeah, um.
00:45:40.300 Are you on any dating apps?
00:45:41.820 No.
00:45:42.840 Okay.
00:45:43.680 Yeah.
00:45:44.480 Um, and then, uh.
00:45:47.240 I have a question for you.
00:45:48.700 Yeah.
00:45:49.300 Would you consider, um, someone who is, like, in a talking stage or, you know, sleeping with
00:45:55.040 someone else, would you consider that person to be single?
00:45:59.660 Which one?
00:46:00.280 Uh, the person who's.
00:46:02.100 You know, in a talking stage or sleeping with someone without a relationship label.
00:46:05.400 Would you consider them to be single?
00:46:07.320 They're not in a relationship, but I don't think they're single.
00:46:09.780 Okay.
00:46:10.080 So, what would you categorize that as?
00:46:12.920 In a situationship.
00:46:14.040 A situationship?
00:46:14.960 Okay.
00:46:15.280 Talking stage.
00:46:16.160 Right, right.
00:46:17.080 Not single, though.
00:46:18.000 Not single. 1.00
00:46:18.340 I think if another, I think if another man's penis has been inside you within the past fortnight, 0.99
00:46:23.280 14 days, two weeks. 1.00
00:46:26.480 What if it, what if it wasn't sex?
00:46:28.040 You're not single, huh? 0.81
00:46:28.880 What if it wasn't sex?
00:46:29.840 Like, what if it's just like a. 0.87
00:46:30.500 BJ's will count, too.
00:46:31.520 Still 14 days.
00:46:32.800 What if it's just like a talking thing?
00:46:34.460 Like, um, would you consider someone to.
00:46:36.660 Hands also count towards that.
00:46:37.920 Oh, okay. 0.98
00:46:38.220 Handjob, not that a guy should ever want a handjob. 0.98
00:46:41.220 What's the point? 0.99
00:46:41.780 Oh, okay.
00:46:42.540 What about if you had just been on a date?
00:46:44.340 Like, I'd rather.
00:46:45.080 Yeah, like just a fun date.
00:46:46.200 Yeah, that's what I'm kind of getting at.
00:46:47.480 Yeah, like a date or just like even like texting, you know, talking on the phone.
00:46:52.040 Sure.
00:46:52.400 Hanging out, just, yeah.
00:46:53.780 Yeah, so I think no.
00:46:55.220 Then you could probably claim single if you've been on a date with a guy.
00:46:59.360 What about multiple?
00:47:00.200 Heavy petting.
00:47:02.080 It's a gray area.
00:47:03.020 If there's heavy petting, gray area.
00:47:05.420 Kiss, probably still single. 0.99
00:47:08.220 But is it the second date?
00:47:10.320 The third date?
00:47:11.240 Yeah, I don't know.
00:47:12.020 I don't think situationships are real.
00:47:14.080 I think the person just doesn't like you that much.
00:47:16.260 Like either you're single or you're not.
00:47:17.840 There's either a label or there's not.
00:47:19.080 What about that like beginning talking stage before you're, when you're getting to know
00:47:22.560 someone?
00:47:23.280 Before you're like ready to fully commit to a relationship?
00:47:25.560 Right, but that's, I wouldn't say that's a situationship, right?
00:47:28.600 Because this isn't a situationship where you do like relationship type things, but with
00:47:31.740 no label and you guys don't even talk about it.
00:47:34.260 But I challenge that to say like some people maybe aren't in the right headspace for a relationship
00:47:39.240 or not looking for a relationship.
00:47:41.800 Yeah, so I feel like that's just.
00:47:43.160 They don't want to fully commit to a label.
00:47:44.240 I feel like that's just friends with benefits.
00:47:45.720 Like you guys are just hanging out.
00:47:47.260 I wouldn't call that like a situationship.
00:47:49.360 What would you call a situationship?
00:47:51.140 Like I don't, I don't think that's real.
00:47:53.260 Like I think if you're talking to someone and they're also talking to you, but they don't
00:47:56.880 want to date you, but they claim to like you, like they're just not that into you.
00:48:00.400 I feel like.
00:48:03.880 What about you?
00:48:07.620 You got, is there a guy in the picture in any capacity whatsoever?
00:48:12.060 No.
00:48:12.420 Well, it was kind of similar to what she mentioned earlier.
00:48:15.340 Like I don't have any like situationships or anything going on.
00:48:20.020 And I'm just single and, I don't know, focusing on myself, doing the things I like.
00:48:24.600 When's the last time you were, uh, you hung out with a guy where you, you at least liked
00:48:32.360 him, let's say.
00:48:33.180 Okay.
00:48:33.380 Well, actually like a month ago, like it was kind of like a, like a friends with, like we
00:48:40.760 were friends.
00:48:41.320 It was kind of like we were friends with benefits, but, um, yeah.
00:48:46.620 And how long were you guys, uh, seeing each other friends with benefits, I guess?
00:48:52.780 Um, like three months, three months.
00:48:55.860 Yeah.
00:48:56.240 It was like, yeah, he, um, this wasn't ready for a relationship and I respect that, but
00:49:02.040 that's like adding onto what she said, like they probably just didn't like me as much.
00:49:06.020 So there's, yeah.
00:49:08.840 Were you dating other guys at the time?
00:49:10.640 No.
00:49:11.040 Was he dating other girls?
00:49:12.260 No, it was, we weren't like that, but yeah.
00:49:15.180 How would you know though, for sure?
00:49:16.860 Did he tell you he was exclusive to you or whatever?
00:49:20.020 Yes.
00:49:20.560 And I mean, through observation, you can kind of just tell if someone were to be seeing
00:49:25.960 other people and it just didn't seem like that.
00:49:28.240 Yeah.
00:49:29.220 Okay.
00:49:30.180 Um, and, uh, okay.
00:49:35.100 So did you say I love you to him?
00:49:38.440 No, absolutely not.
00:49:40.080 There's, I think there's some things that like I draw the line with between like, um,
00:49:46.040 someone I'm just seeing or someone that I'm dating.
00:49:48.020 Like I'm not gonna, um, we also didn't crack, like I'm not gonna, um, do that with someone
00:49:53.140 that.
00:49:53.580 You were friends with benefits, but you didn't have sex?
00:49:58.480 We, I don't hook up with people.
00:50:00.780 That's something about me, but we.
00:50:02.620 What do you mean by that?
00:50:03.780 Like, I don't, I'm not just gonna, well, going to UCSB, there's a lot of parties, you
00:50:07.880 know, the life there.
00:50:08.900 I'm not just gonna find a random guy at a party and take them home and then crack them
00:50:11.980 from there.
00:50:12.720 Um, I get, I want to take the time to like get to know someone.
00:50:16.040 So during that period, it was kind of like, kind of like working up to it, but we just
00:50:22.060 never got there.
00:50:22.820 And then, yeah.
00:50:23.460 Um, so wait, you're friends with benefits, but you didn't have sex, but there was like
00:50:33.520 other to it.
00:50:34.240 Like, I don't think like you have to, okay, well, if you have to have sex to be friends
00:50:39.020 with benefits, then I guess you could say we weren't friends with benefits, but it was
00:50:42.340 like a situation kind of thing going on.
00:50:45.920 Okay.
00:50:46.880 Yeah.
00:50:47.040 I don't know if they're watching right now, so I'm not trying to say too much.
00:50:49.300 I guess my confusion is if you're friends with benefits, like he didn't want more.
00:50:56.220 So what was it that you were building up to?
00:50:59.120 Well, he was kind of figuring out if he wanted more during the time that we were talking.
00:51:03.260 And then like when he realized it wasn't, um, it happened very abruptly.
00:51:07.100 That's why like it caught me off guard.
00:51:08.600 Cause up until that point, like we were like sleeping together and like, we were like hang
00:51:12.620 out, sleepovers, blah, blah, blah.
00:51:14.040 Wait, when you say sleeping together, not like having sex, but like we, there was like
00:51:18.520 others, you know, it just, yeah.
00:51:20.640 But I'm sure the girls can know like what I'm talking about. 0.98
00:51:24.000 Like third base or, huh?
00:51:26.200 Are you saying like third base?
00:51:28.640 Third base?
00:51:29.660 Like third base is like oral, second base is like petting and mess like hand stuff. 1.00
00:51:34.020 First base is like making out, fourth base is like sex. 1.00
00:51:36.640 No answer to that. 0.98
00:51:37.400 Okay.
00:51:37.720 But yeah, I'm not trying to, I don't want to say that out loud, but.
00:51:41.160 Yeah, no, I understand.
00:51:42.380 Okay.
00:51:42.780 I think we understand.
00:51:44.460 Um, okay.
00:51:46.140 That's interesting.
00:51:47.160 Um, huh.
00:51:50.340 What about you? 0.99
00:51:52.440 Um, so I enjoy sex. 0.99
00:51:58.340 Um, I, the sex that I have with guys is on camera and off camera. 0.94
00:52:05.780 So the only men that I have on my platform with me are guys that I have dated before.
00:52:11.160 So yeah, I, I'm known as hard to get in the industry because I don't actually do commercial
00:52:17.840 porn.
00:52:18.660 Interesting. 0.93
00:52:19.220 You won't find me anywhere.
00:52:20.400 So go to the link.
00:52:22.280 Oh, okay.
00:52:24.040 Uh, question for you though.
00:52:25.380 So during this period of time when you were seeing this guy, you were friends with benefits,
00:52:30.600 partial benefits, I guess.
00:52:32.460 Partial.
00:52:33.040 Yes.
00:52:33.320 Partial benefit, half benefits, quarter, three fourths benefits.
00:52:37.200 Uh, you were, would you have described yourself as single?
00:52:43.420 Um, low key.
00:52:45.200 No, like I didn't, I wasn't open to talking, talking to anyone else.
00:52:49.540 And if someone asked me if I was like seeing anyone, I'd be like, oh, like I'm talking to
00:52:53.380 someone, but like we aren't together.
00:52:54.760 So yeah, I wouldn't categorize myself as single during that period.
00:52:58.480 I see.
00:52:58.860 Uh, if a guy, say a guy who you thought was attractive.
00:53:03.320 I've walked up to you and hit on you or whatever, uh, would you turn him down?
00:53:09.560 Like say, oh, sorry, I'm seeing somebody.
00:53:12.040 Yeah, actually I would.
00:53:13.580 Is that unexpected?
00:53:17.060 Wait, question on this.
00:53:18.140 So, okay, moving.
00:53:18.780 I guess I'm shifting the topic a little bit.
00:53:20.400 Okay.
00:53:20.580 So you said, okay, you're, you were, you, the term you used was crack, cracked, cracked.
00:53:26.960 Oh, okay.
00:53:27.560 Sorry.
00:53:28.140 No, no, that's, no, that's totally fine.
00:53:29.460 Okay.
00:53:30.100 Cracked.
00:53:30.420 Uh, and it was three months, three months, no crack.
00:53:35.980 When does one crack?
00:53:37.660 Well, I guess it's, well, when do you crack the first night?
00:53:41.880 Like, I think it depends on like who, where your boundaries are, you know?
00:53:45.240 Ooh, that's a good one.
00:53:46.100 Wait, wait, that depends on who.
00:53:47.260 Okay.
00:53:47.480 It depends on where your boundaries are.
00:53:48.840 It like, for me, I've ever cracked.
00:53:51.220 By the way, just to be clear, let me, let me start first.
00:53:53.300 Okay.
00:53:53.660 I've cracked very quickly.
00:53:56.080 Okay.
00:53:56.560 See, and that's where your boundaries are.
00:53:58.100 He's easy.
00:53:58.440 Very quickly.
00:53:59.600 Uh, I've cracked first, first day, first couple hours.
00:54:02.880 So I'm not going to judge you if you've cracked quickly.
00:54:05.960 I've cracked quickly.
00:54:07.040 Cracked.
00:54:07.300 So have I.
00:54:08.800 They cracked, who, who?
00:54:10.660 If there's an attraction going.
00:54:12.960 If there's an attraction like what?
00:54:13.740 But is it, I cracked her?
00:54:15.140 Yeah.
00:54:15.460 Did I get cracked?
00:54:15.960 She's the one with the crack.
00:54:17.040 Did she crack me?
00:54:18.080 She cracked you.
00:54:19.140 It depends.
00:54:19.540 And I cracked her.
00:54:20.320 Yes.
00:54:21.060 Mutual cracks.
00:54:21.500 Or you just say we cracked.
00:54:22.460 You could have also been cracked, depending on what she was using with you, whether she
00:54:27.020 used a strap on or whatever.
00:54:28.000 There was carnal knowledge.
00:54:29.380 Okay.
00:54:30.180 Um, so three months.
00:54:31.520 Yeah.
00:54:31.980 What, have you, have you had carnal knowledge before?
00:54:36.520 Um, yes.
00:54:37.120 And those were with my.
00:54:38.820 Your boyfriend.
00:54:39.680 My boyfriend.
00:54:39.980 Yeah.
00:54:40.200 That I actually dated for both over a year after.
00:54:42.520 So.
00:54:43.040 How long until they cracked?
00:54:45.260 Um, I'd say, okay, no, that's fine.
00:54:47.540 I'd say like, um, four months into the relationship.
00:54:53.580 Was it, you said you had, uh, two boyfriends?
00:54:55.640 Two boyfriends.
00:54:56.500 Yeah.
00:54:56.720 Okay.
00:54:56.840 So the, the first one was four months?
00:54:59.180 Yes.
00:54:59.600 And then the second one was.
00:55:00.660 Around the same time, like four or five months.
00:55:01.840 Four months.
00:55:02.700 Mm-hmm.
00:55:03.280 This guy really, he was at the, he was at the end of the finish line.
00:55:06.620 Yeah.
00:55:06.780 This, this most recent friends with benefits, he just had one more month to go and you guys
00:55:11.180 would have been there.
00:55:12.240 Oh, you see, no, no, no.
00:55:13.320 He totally.
00:55:13.920 You weren't dating.
00:55:14.560 We were never dating.
00:55:15.500 Like I, I make my boyfriends wait a little bit too.
00:55:18.060 Like I will not just crack them just because we're dating.
00:55:20.860 Like I met like four to four months into the relationship, but with this recent one, we
00:55:24.780 never even got there.
00:55:25.860 Oh, wait.
00:55:26.160 So, okay.
00:55:26.840 With the relationships, you're saying there was a period of time before you considered it
00:55:30.920 the start of the relationship when you were dating.
00:55:33.660 Is that with your boyfriends?
00:55:35.920 Is that what you're saying?
00:55:37.740 Um, wait, can you?
00:55:39.720 Well, you said you make your boyfriends wait too.
00:55:42.260 And you said it was four months, four months about.
00:55:44.820 Yeah.
00:55:45.240 But are you saying that, okay, there's a period of time before you're officially boyfriend,
00:55:50.320 girlfriend.
00:55:50.880 Correct.
00:55:51.340 Where you were dating your boyfriends too.
00:55:54.180 Also.
00:55:55.980 So like, okay, let's say you meet the person and then like a month in, you're like, we're
00:56:00.820 boyfriend, girlfriend.
00:56:01.780 So would it be five months until the crack, cracked, cracking?
00:56:05.960 Um, well, I don't, I don't really consider like the time I met them before.
00:56:10.100 Like, I just like, I don't know.
00:56:11.760 I don't have like a dead timeline.
00:56:13.560 I don't think you put a time limit on it.
00:56:15.260 Yeah.
00:56:15.560 Of the two boyfriends.
00:56:16.420 It's just when you feel comfortable.
00:56:17.640 How long did you like hang out with them before they were your boyfriend?
00:56:23.400 Like two, three months each.
00:56:24.660 Okay.
00:56:24.960 So you got to add two, three months to the cracking time period.
00:56:27.280 Okay.
00:56:27.640 So like I'll say half a year then.
00:56:28.880 Waiting time period.
00:56:29.760 Half a year.
00:56:30.880 Half, six months.
00:56:31.680 Okay.
00:56:31.940 So let's say, yeah, six months.
00:56:33.140 Is that bad?
00:56:34.280 Okay.
00:56:34.520 So he was three months away.
00:56:35.960 This guy.
00:56:36.160 I don't think anything's bad.
00:56:36.600 All right.
00:56:36.620 So he had another half of a race to go.
00:56:40.160 Um, all right.
00:56:41.600 Okay.
00:56:42.020 Nothing's bad.
00:56:42.700 It's just your own preference.
00:56:44.060 It's your preference.
00:56:44.860 Yeah.
00:56:45.600 I think everyone has different personal preferences. 0.51
00:56:47.780 You can meet one person and be comfortable, like having sex with them within like the
00:56:51.940 first week of meeting them and you can meet another person and then like need a lot more
00:56:56.540 time getting to know them.
00:56:57.800 You know, some connections are just different.
00:57:00.600 Yes.
00:57:01.140 Um, T humble.
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00:57:09.560 Um, how long do you, do you typically wait before the crackening happens?
00:57:13.680 Um, typically I would say until I feel comfortable enough with that person that like, you know,
00:57:23.540 I feel safe with them.
00:57:24.740 Like now, can that happen within like three hours?
00:57:29.140 No, not for me.
00:57:30.840 No.
00:57:31.640 24 hours.
00:57:32.700 No.
00:57:33.320 48 hours.
00:57:34.660 No.
00:57:35.160 I mean, I wouldn't, I'm not going to like put a time limit on it and say like typically
00:57:39.000 a couple months, but like, have you ever cracked quick?
00:57:42.780 I have.
00:57:43.240 I've cracked quick.
00:57:44.620 I have.
00:57:45.460 I have.
00:57:45.980 Quick crack. 0.92
00:57:46.440 Right.
00:57:46.740 And I realized it wasn't for me.
00:57:48.140 A quick crack.
00:57:48.820 And I realized it wasn't for me.
00:57:50.040 It wasn't for you.
00:57:50.800 Okay.
00:57:51.160 What about you?
00:57:52.000 How long do you typically wait before having carnal knowledge with?
00:57:56.180 I don't have like, like statistics on this.
00:57:59.260 Oh, I'm not looking for an exact amount.
00:58:00.980 Obviously it's going to differ a little bit from guy to guy, but like your recent boyfriend,
00:58:06.180 uh, your, your current boyfriend, how long until he.
00:58:10.440 Um, I'm not going to give a timeline, but.
00:58:12.540 I always wait a while.
00:58:16.800 Like three days or what are we talking?
00:58:19.060 Like months.
00:58:20.260 Months?
00:58:20.880 Yes.
00:58:21.380 Has that always been your standard?
00:58:22.660 Yes.
00:58:23.440 Really?
00:58:24.780 Can I add something?
00:58:26.160 Of course. 0.76
00:58:26.740 I also don't think there's anything wrong with having casual sex.
00:58:31.360 I think it's all personal preference and it's all what you are comfortable with and what
00:58:36.140 your partner is comfortable with.
00:58:37.980 I think, yeah, I think that there's no, like, you don't have to wait a certain amount of time.
00:58:42.500 It's whatever you feel like your boundaries, your morals, whatever you feel is right.
00:58:48.320 I slightly disagree.
00:58:50.800 So I think the quick crack is fine.
00:58:53.300 Okay.
00:58:53.660 You want a quick crack?
00:58:54.900 Quick crack. 0.92
00:58:56.040 Like.
00:58:56.160 So you agree with that?
00:58:56.800 You think that's fine?
00:58:57.720 Well, I disagree with the casual part.
00:58:59.500 I think if you sleep with somebody, whether you're a man or a woman, there should be some 0.99
00:59:03.840 moving towards, let's.
00:59:08.400 A relationship?
00:59:09.080 Yeah, yeah.
00:59:09.400 Or of some sort?
00:59:09.760 That should be, even if you guys sleep together quick, that should hopefully be the intention
00:59:15.120 for both of you.
00:59:15.820 I think it's personal preference, right? 0.67
00:59:17.540 Some people can do casual sex. 0.99
00:59:19.380 Some people can do casual sex. 0.92
00:59:21.160 That's not me personally, but like some people out there, like they're comfortable with that 0.96
00:59:25.340 and we call them hoes. 1.00
00:59:26.920 The casual sex I have is with girls. 1.00
00:59:29.400 The intimate sex I have is with men. 0.98
00:59:31.560 So all of the filming I have with guys on my platform is all intimate because I don't 0.99
00:59:38.200 want to have sex with a guy because guys don't know where to touch us in the right places 0.59
00:59:43.320 at the right times. 0.95
00:59:44.100 You need someone you can trust.
00:59:46.500 You could teach him. 0.72
00:59:48.020 I mean, yeah, and I have, of course, but like with a woman, I think sex is more fun, casual 1.00
00:59:53.380 because nine times out of ten, we all know what we like and you know what you're doing.
00:59:59.220 Even if you think you don't, you do, you're, yeah.
01:00:02.840 It's not, it's not for everyone.
01:00:04.440 Casual sex is not for everyone, but I'm not one to judge other people for what they do
01:00:08.320 with their sex life.
01:00:10.880 I personally like my, when talking about myself, like that's not for me, but I would never judge
01:00:19.920 another woman for having just like a casual sexual relationship with someone else. 1.00
01:00:24.040 What do you think about fuck boys? 1.00
01:00:28.220 Um, just do your thing. 1.00
01:00:30.820 Anyone, you know, fuck boys is like a, it's like a term, right? 1.00
01:00:34.820 But like, then we could say that girls do the same thing. 1.00
01:00:38.800 Like there's a lot of people that like sleep around like that, like fuck boys. 1.00
01:00:42.020 And then like girls that sleep around as well. 1.00
01:00:44.340 So I would say there's like a double standard there.
01:00:46.120 Like, you know, um, but like, yeah, no judgment.
01:00:51.620 It's just not my thing.
01:00:53.800 Well, there's a double standard because it's objectively harder for men to get laid.
01:00:57.580 They kind of have to have some sort of like charisma.
01:01:00.320 They have to be rich.
01:01:01.280 They have to be something.
01:01:02.580 They have to have some sort of game where it's like for women. 1.00
01:01:05.260 It's like, it's like, it's always available for us, you know?
01:01:10.200 Does anybody disagree with her?
01:01:12.900 Nobody?
01:01:13.480 Okay.
01:01:14.820 Interesting.
01:01:15.260 Interesting.
01:01:15.880 Uh, Mary, pull up Twitch. 0.98
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01:05:07.820 I'm the founder of the nonprofit and grassroots movement, Big Labia Matter, or BLM for short.
01:05:15.560 All labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter. 1.00
01:05:17.520 As someone who only dates women with large labia, this is a very important issue for me. 0.89
01:05:22.720 10,000 women undergo labiaplasty procedure a year in the USA alone.
01:05:28.660 You know, there's a lot of stuff going on.
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01:06:00.560 Okay.
01:06:02.900 I wanted that surgery at one point in my life.
01:06:05.880 For the labia?
01:06:06.780 Yep. 0.97
01:06:07.100 You have a...
01:06:08.140 Yep.
01:06:08.460 You're rocking?
01:06:09.180 I'm rocking.
01:06:09.860 Have you ever been questioned for you?
01:06:11.320 Well, any other...
01:06:12.460 That takes a lot of courage, by the way, to admit that.
01:06:14.520 Me too.
01:06:15.240 Any other women have an Audi, as they're called? 1.00
01:06:18.680 An Audi?
01:06:19.620 Yes.
01:06:20.380 Okay.
01:06:21.140 Have you guys ever experienced shame?
01:06:24.100 No.
01:06:24.520 Genuinely not.
01:06:25.640 No.
01:06:26.260 I've gotten great compliments.
01:06:28.600 Has a guy ever said an inconsiderate thing?
01:06:33.000 No.
01:06:33.800 No.
01:06:34.100 I've heard from some women that they get a little bit of, you know, some shame for it. 1.00
01:06:38.760 You'd think with my platform, I would, as well, but I really don't.
01:06:41.720 No.
01:06:42.160 Okay.
01:06:42.680 A guy told me, who wants a sandwich without any meat in it?
01:06:47.520 I'll take that.
01:06:48.320 I like that. 1.00
01:06:49.060 It's a great sense of stupidity, I think. 1.00
01:06:49.580 That's a good one. 1.00
01:06:50.260 I like that.
01:06:50.840 I'm going to steal that.
01:06:51.420 It was my ex-husband.
01:06:52.520 Oh! 1.00
01:06:52.840 Oh, shit. 1.00
01:06:54.500 Okay. 1.00
01:06:55.500 Show him out.
01:06:55.960 That's interesting.
01:06:56.420 Who looks like me, by the way, apparently.
01:06:57.740 I'm like, yeah, you know what grinds my gears, though? 0.94
01:07:02.580 Some women labia fish. 1.00
01:07:05.120 Like, they claim they have an Audi, but they don't.
01:07:08.740 Why?
01:07:09.260 That bothers me.
01:07:09.900 I've met girls that think that they do.
01:07:11.980 But they don't.
01:07:12.540 And I'm like, what are you talking about?
01:07:15.000 She's like, it's here.
01:07:16.440 And I'm like, no, girl.
01:07:17.800 No.
01:07:18.060 You don't know.
01:07:18.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:07:19.160 It's kind of similar, like it's a body dysmorphia or something.
01:07:22.400 And, like, you know how somebody who might be, like, anorexic or bulimic and they think
01:07:28.040 they're fat, but they're, like, really skinny?
01:07:30.040 I feel like that's the same.
01:07:31.220 Like, these girls think they have an Audi, but they don't. 1.00
01:07:33.460 It's like, maybe it's a midi at best.
01:07:36.120 Yeah? 0.66
01:07:36.260 I'm embarrassed to ask this, but what is big labia?
01:07:40.920 Like, what does that look like?
01:07:41.920 Because I, like...
01:07:42.440 Sure.
01:07:43.140 I can just...
01:07:44.260 I can draw a picture.
01:07:45.520 What is it?
01:07:46.180 We could draw...
01:07:46.820 I would appreciate that.
01:07:48.600 Yeah.
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01:07:56.320 Oh, my God.
01:07:56.880 Okay.
01:07:57.140 That's crazy.
01:07:57.700 Sorry.
01:07:57.820 It was appropriate.
01:07:58.560 Mary, pull up the photo.
01:08:00.200 Yeah.
01:08:00.680 Find it in the Discord.
01:08:01.620 We'll show you a sandwich representation of what's...
01:08:05.640 I think it's media or memes.
01:08:09.220 I'm pretty sure it's media.
01:08:12.520 But...
01:08:13.320 You know what you're clear is?
01:08:14.360 Yes.
01:08:14.620 Okay.
01:08:15.160 So, this is your persuadure.
01:08:16.920 And then there's the cub lips that are here just below.
01:08:20.400 So, this is your pursuadure.
01:08:22.400 Yes.
01:08:22.860 And then underneath, you have your lips where your...
01:08:25.320 Yes.
01:08:26.980 P-hole is. 1.00
01:08:27.660 Uh-huh.
01:08:28.020 Yeah?
01:08:28.380 All right.
01:08:28.700 Go ahead.
01:08:29.240 Show it to us.
01:08:30.100 Our lips are...
01:08:30.700 You can see them.
01:08:31.600 They're visible.
01:08:32.140 It's right there.
01:08:32.720 Yours might be inside.
01:08:34.020 Yeah.
01:08:34.320 I don't know what they're trying to do with C, but...
01:08:36.660 Yeah.
01:08:37.160 So, A, any...
01:08:38.540 B, Audi as a sandwich.
01:08:39.860 And it's nothing to do with...
01:08:40.860 It's just your body's biology.
01:08:44.000 It's nothing to do with how often you...
01:08:45.540 True.
01:08:46.740 Yeah.
01:08:46.940 No, that's true.
01:08:47.460 That's fake news.
01:08:48.200 Some people say, oh, if you have an Audi, you've been ran through.
01:08:51.180 No.
01:08:51.600 You could be a virgin, have an Audi. 1.00
01:08:53.400 You could have fucked 10,000 dudes and have a... 1.00
01:08:56.800 An innie. 1.00
01:08:57.560 A total innie.
01:08:58.340 So, good times.
01:09:01.240 I feel less confused.
01:09:02.340 Thank you for the clarification.
01:09:03.660 You're very welcome.
01:09:04.720 Very welcome there.
01:09:05.940 But, yeah, there's some labia fishing going on.
01:09:09.300 And it is...
01:09:10.480 Yeah.
01:09:10.740 So, anyways.
01:09:11.980 Why is that your preference?
01:09:13.480 Like, do you know why?
01:09:14.220 Oh, boy.
01:09:15.780 Do I know why?
01:09:17.120 What's the underlying reason?
01:09:22.420 Do you want the...
01:09:24.020 You want the...
01:09:25.240 Yes, we do.
01:09:26.360 Please.
01:09:26.580 The details?
01:09:27.360 Yes.
01:09:28.340 I mean, it's pretty basic.
01:09:29.480 I think...
01:09:30.480 Look, it's not a deal-breaker for Girl Hasn't Any, but I would say this. 0.59
01:09:35.980 I think it feels better, it looks better.
01:09:39.140 I'll just...
01:09:39.480 I'll leave it at that.
01:09:41.480 Beauty's in the eye of the beholder.
01:09:43.260 I love that.
01:09:44.880 Aesthetically, I think it looks better.
01:09:47.440 Like, lips that grip, if you want to get detailed.
01:09:50.280 Okay.
01:09:51.480 Feels better.
01:09:54.720 Just saying.
01:09:55.720 All right.
01:09:56.240 Thank you.
01:09:56.800 You're welcome, I guess.
01:09:59.180 What else was there?
01:10:00.420 Marrington?
01:10:01.800 Marrington, but Kanye.
01:10:04.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:10:06.060 Oh, yeah, yeah.
01:10:07.200 Pull that up.
01:10:07.980 I ratioed Kanye on this topic.
01:10:09.520 He said that labioplasty should be government-issued, and I ratioed them.
01:10:13.500 He deleted it, though.
01:10:15.140 Okay.
01:10:15.660 Anyways, if you can't catch the full shows, we have a Clips channel.
01:10:18.580 Links in the description.
01:10:20.480 We have a Discord.
01:10:21.340 Discord.gg slash whatever.
01:10:22.680 We post our stream schedule, behind-the-scenes, hate mail, research, studies, a bunch of other stuff.
01:10:27.400 If you're my Caucasian, you will join the Discord. 0.98
01:10:31.020 And when I say Caucasian, you can be, like, black and still be my Caucasian.
01:10:37.260 You know what I mean?
01:10:38.820 Mm-hmm.
01:10:39.360 No?
01:10:39.680 Yeah.
01:10:40.220 We got some...
01:10:40.960 We got...
01:10:42.020 We have a Chinese woman. 0.99
01:10:44.300 We have...
01:10:45.060 You're...
01:10:46.220 I'm Indian.
01:10:46.940 You're Indian.
01:10:48.460 Black, Indian, Latina.
01:10:51.600 Okay. 0.85
01:10:51.960 You guys can all be my Caucasian.
01:10:54.540 Right?
01:10:55.120 Like, for example...
01:10:57.020 I can only ask you this.
01:10:58.460 Okay.
01:10:59.180 Could I be your...
01:11:01.160 I'm not going to say it.
01:11:01.720 Yes, you can.
01:11:02.500 But can...
01:11:03.280 Here.
01:11:04.400 You fill in the blank.
01:11:06.020 Can I be your...
01:11:08.020 You want me to say it?
01:11:09.200 You fill in the blank.
01:11:10.000 Can I be your... 0.99
01:11:10.920 My nigga. 0.78
01:11:12.620 Can I be... 0.99
01:11:13.600 As a white man, can I be your...
01:11:14.880 Yes.
01:11:15.260 See?
01:11:15.840 She can be my Caucasian. 0.99
01:11:17.660 There it is.
01:11:18.380 By the way, I'm just curious on...
01:11:20.280 Since I brought it up, I guess.
01:11:22.200 Who here...
01:11:23.260 Who here is a bit more...
01:11:24.800 By the way, no shade.
01:11:26.340 A bit more liberal.
01:11:27.880 More liberal politically.
01:11:30.340 Anybody?
01:11:31.220 Come on.
01:11:32.260 Just you?
01:11:32.880 Oh, boy.
01:11:33.260 Really?
01:11:34.240 No?
01:11:34.620 Liberal?
01:11:35.920 You're a Trump voter?
01:11:37.480 Okay.
01:11:37.920 No, I would say I'm neutral when it comes to...
01:11:40.820 I take a neutral stance.
01:11:41.880 Just you?
01:11:43.160 What about your girlfriend?
01:11:44.600 She's a Trump supporter.
01:11:45.940 Well, I can't even vote.
01:11:46.920 I'm not a citizen, so...
01:11:47.340 Oh, that's right.
01:11:49.360 That's right.
01:11:49.740 But it's just about your stance on the issues, I think, is what he's asking.
01:11:52.880 Yeah, yeah.
01:11:53.380 Even if you can't vote, you probably might lean politically.
01:11:56.060 Yeah, probably more liberal.
01:11:57.520 More liberal.
01:11:58.140 What do you guys think about reparations?
01:12:00.040 In favor?
01:12:01.400 Mahi?
01:12:02.340 Did I say your name right?
01:12:03.520 Yeah.
01:12:03.840 Into the mic?
01:12:05.940 Reparations?
01:12:06.640 I mean...
01:12:07.500 I understand the concept, but I guess it's not really my place to say.
01:12:11.260 I don't know.
01:12:11.900 Well, of course it's your place to say.
01:12:13.940 Of course.
01:12:14.520 It hasn't been anything...
01:12:15.580 Nothing's been done to Indians, I feel like.
01:12:17.220 No, but should we pay reparations to African Americans? 0.78
01:12:21.200 What is the term?
01:12:22.360 Foundational?
01:12:23.280 African? 0.67
01:12:24.200 I don't know.
01:12:25.300 Should we pay reparations to African Americans in this country? 0.99
01:12:29.460 No.
01:12:30.940 It's not very liberal.
01:12:33.000 I feel like we should acknowledge that they were at a very big disadvantage for most of
01:12:37.740 our history, and like...
01:12:39.600 So you're anti-reparations?
01:12:41.480 I'm not anti.
01:12:42.500 It's literally not my place.
01:12:43.880 Like, I don't know.
01:12:44.440 I mean, I know some people believe in it, but I feel like no one really says that.
01:12:48.140 Like, it's not like people are going up to white people saying, you owe me money.
01:12:51.260 No, but like, you know, there are...
01:12:53.720 Well, sometimes.
01:12:55.980 Who's...
01:12:56.340 Anybody in favor of reparations?
01:12:58.760 I'm out of love if that happened.
01:13:00.580 If I got it.
01:13:01.180 For some money.
01:13:01.600 I'd be like, yeah, give it to me.
01:13:02.720 Nobody?
01:13:03.220 Really? 1.00
01:13:04.260 Damn, I was trying to hook you up. 1.00
01:13:05.500 I was gonna... 1.00
01:13:05.900 Nobody?
01:13:06.680 Who has some cash on them?
01:13:08.080 Anybody have cash? 0.99
01:13:08.940 Give this girl some fucking reparations. 1.00
01:13:09.960 Can you rephrase for me? 0.99
01:13:11.120 I'm so sorry.
01:13:11.840 Please rephrase.
01:13:12.840 Please rephrase.
01:13:13.540 I have, like, I don't understand what you're saying.
01:13:15.520 I'm gonna be honest.
01:13:16.340 In the United States, there was slavery of black people, of African Americans.
01:13:19.820 Yes.
01:13:20.560 And the rest of the world.
01:13:21.540 And this, you know, and there were obviously other...
01:13:24.200 It's actually Black History Month, isn't it?
01:13:26.360 I think so.
01:13:27.120 It is.
01:13:28.320 So, respect.
01:13:28.560 Even better, this is why those of you who do have cash on you ought to go get some money.
01:13:32.580 But, obviously, there were other grievances that African Americans experienced throughout, even after slavery ended.
01:13:40.000 And continue to do...
01:13:40.820 And so, for this reason, there is an argument that African Americans should be paid some sort of amount of money to make up for...
01:13:52.820 The term is reparations.
01:13:54.660 For the trauma.
01:13:55.380 For the...
01:13:57.280 For the long-standing...
01:13:58.620 Yes.
01:13:59.300 Yeah.
01:13:59.980 A hundred percent.
01:14:00.940 Is that not...
01:14:01.560 That should be happening.
01:14:02.540 Yeah.
01:14:02.680 There was, like, a promise that black people would get a hundred acres and a mule back, like, you know, when slavery was abolished or whatever. 0.90
01:14:12.100 And it just never happened.
01:14:14.980 I don't know.
01:14:16.520 Oh, Mr. Pickles, thank you for the...
01:14:19.520 It looks like you bought something on the merch store.
01:14:21.320 Thank you very much, man.
01:14:22.140 Appreciate it.
01:14:22.700 You could have done the message, but thank you for...
01:14:24.940 It looks like you maybe bought two shirts or a shirt and a hoodie.
01:14:28.600 So, thank you very much, man.
01:14:29.640 Appreciate it.
01:14:31.080 No?
01:14:31.560 Nobody is going to...
01:14:32.780 Okay.
01:14:33.080 Well, how about this?
01:14:34.500 Related to money.
01:14:35.240 Who has cash on them?
01:14:37.140 On them?
01:14:38.040 Cash?
01:14:38.340 You got cash?
01:14:38.860 You got cash?
01:14:39.780 Not on this outfit?
01:14:40.440 No, no, no.
01:14:40.860 Like, in your purse?
01:14:41.660 Yes.
01:14:42.320 You got cash?
01:14:43.160 Anybody else have cash, like, in your purse?
01:14:44.720 Like, a few dollars.
01:14:45.760 A few bucks?
01:14:46.120 You got cash?
01:14:46.600 You got cash?
01:14:47.880 Cash?
01:14:48.460 No.
01:14:48.640 My?
01:14:49.500 Am I saying your name right?
01:14:50.640 Yeah.
01:14:51.100 Cash?
01:14:52.200 No cash?
01:14:52.980 Really?
01:14:53.400 Cash.
01:14:54.000 Here.
01:14:54.600 Okay.
01:14:56.020 Every time I say really, you fill in the blank for me, okay?
01:15:00.440 Really? 0.99
01:15:01.240 My nigga. 0.98
01:15:02.120 No, not... 0.99
01:15:02.980 What?
01:15:03.960 Don't give her the my. 0.98
01:15:05.300 Okay?
01:15:05.720 You give her the...
01:15:06.300 Oh, oh.
01:15:06.820 Really? 0.90
01:15:07.560 Nigga? 0.99
01:15:08.500 Yes.
01:15:08.860 Okay.
01:15:09.500 For the rest of the show,
01:15:10.260 let's do that.
01:15:10.880 Okay.
01:15:11.760 All right.
01:15:14.200 Black History Month, everybody.
01:15:15.540 I'm wielding power right now.
01:15:18.780 Okay, so...
01:15:20.320 Well, I want to do...
01:15:21.240 By the way, you're the only one here who has OnlyFans.
01:15:23.540 Is that correct?
01:15:24.040 Nobody else here has OnlyFans?
01:15:25.660 Or has ever done OnlyFans?
01:15:27.220 I have a page.
01:15:28.000 You did the OnlyFans?
01:15:28.320 I just never posted anything.
01:15:29.960 I never posted anything.
01:15:31.040 I just made it to look.
01:15:32.040 That probably doesn't count.
01:15:33.520 There was an attempt many years ago.
01:15:35.840 Nothing ever got posted.
01:15:36.820 It was supposed to be for nude yoga and feet stuff.
01:15:39.040 Oh, I mean...
01:15:39.660 Then go through with it.
01:15:40.240 Wait, nude yoga and...
01:15:41.120 Yes.
01:15:41.720 Did you record nude yoga?
01:15:42.920 No, I tried and I didn't like how I looked and never got posted.
01:15:45.960 No, you would have done so well.
01:15:47.580 Are you...
01:15:47.880 Yes.
01:15:48.540 Yeah.
01:15:49.060 Why are you capping?
01:15:50.460 Wait, hold on.
01:15:51.720 Virgin Mormon... 0.99
01:15:53.700 It's actually...
01:15:54.460 ...was...
01:15:54.920 Attempted.
01:15:56.360 ...contemplating nude yoga feet pictures?
01:16:00.900 Yeah, is that a problem?
01:16:01.620 Well, it's kind of like the...
01:16:04.120 For example, let's say you've never even smoked a cigarette or never even tried weed once.
01:16:10.580 When it comes to drug use, I think there's like an escalation.
01:16:15.980 So with drug use, it would be, well, maybe they smoke weed.
01:16:19.120 And then you usually don't jump right into like mainlining heroin as your first drug.
01:16:25.240 Yes. 0.99
01:16:25.660 Like usually you smoke some cigarettes, you smoke some weed, you did cocaine, you fucking whatever. 0.98
01:16:30.520 And then, not to say logically, it's of course possible. 0.99
01:16:33.580 Like, yes, you never smoked weed once, but you went straight to mainline like doing fucking fentanyl or some shit, right? 0.99
01:16:40.900 Logically, it's possible. 0.99
01:16:43.180 Practically, it's pretty close to being very unlikely.
01:16:47.960 So it's like, for me, I think, you don't go from chaste, Mormon, virgin, waiting until marriage.
01:16:57.360 Like usually before you get into sex work. 0.93
01:17:01.280 You have sex beforehand. 0.79
01:17:02.500 I feel like there's a little bit like, okay, there's some degree of promiscuity.
01:17:06.080 You're like having one-night stands.
01:17:07.880 Not to say, again, it's logically possible a woman could be a virgin on OnlyFans.
01:17:12.940 It's logically possible that, you know.
01:17:15.240 But it seems like the escalation ladder from virgin, chaste, religious, LDS, Mormon, Christian, I don't know.
01:17:27.720 This was when I was practicing different religions and I was questioning things.
01:17:31.940 Can I ask, was it lockdown?
01:17:33.600 Was it COVID?
01:17:34.360 It was around COVID, yeah.
01:17:36.340 Yes.
01:17:37.300 Yep, that'll do it.
01:17:39.240 And I wanted money.
01:17:42.280 When you say you're a virgin, you're not like born again.
01:17:44.620 Not born again, no, no, that's BS.
01:17:46.760 It's not BS, I mean.
01:17:48.580 So proper virgin.
01:17:49.880 Proper, yes. 0.99
01:17:50.420 Okay, haven't had sex, okay.
01:17:52.500 Okay.
01:17:53.260 All right, I have a question for you.
01:17:55.000 Sure.
01:17:55.520 What's your stance on OnlyFans?
01:17:57.200 What's my stance on OnlyFans?
01:17:59.700 I mean, it's quite detailed.
01:18:01.280 Let me come to that in just a moment.
01:18:02.420 Where was I going with the OnlyFans thing?
01:18:03.980 Oh, who here has cash?
01:18:06.240 Who's down to, so okay, really quick, I'll answer your question in the moment.
01:18:08.920 When you say it's cash, I don't have like.
01:18:11.140 I'll take British pounds.
01:18:13.080 Or do you guys have euros?
01:18:13.960 No, it's British pounds.
01:18:15.200 You're still doing pounds.
01:18:16.160 Yes, but I get paid in dollars.
01:18:17.720 I will take euros, I will take British pounds.
01:18:20.640 So here's what I'm going to do.
01:18:22.020 Wait, what? 1.00
01:18:22.580 I feel like as women, y'all get, men will just buy you shit. 1.00
01:18:26.000 Men will give you gifts. 1.00
01:18:27.200 Yes. 0.96
01:18:27.320 Sometimes a guy, you don't even have to be a sex worker. 1.00
01:18:30.420 Some simp guy would just be like, here's a hundred bucks just because you have a vagina. 1.00
01:18:34.640 Well, he's doing that because he wants to get laid by that girl. 1.00
01:18:37.400 Well, sometimes there's like pay pigs that have no expectation of ever sleeping with you. 0.99
01:18:42.540 She's shaking her head. 0.92
01:18:43.480 Have you had that experience?
01:18:44.400 Some guy, because you're an attractive gal. 1.00
01:18:45.880 That's like a minority.
01:18:46.940 Yeah, that's not it.
01:18:47.740 Some guys just be like, oh, here's 50 bucks.
01:18:51.700 Have you had that?
01:18:52.580 Yeah.
01:18:52.960 What was the story?
01:18:53.900 Tell us what happened.
01:18:54.840 Really no story, honestly.
01:18:56.720 But they kind of like just hit me up on social media and with absolutely no expectation,
01:19:01.780 they'll say something, be like, oh, let me send you money.
01:19:04.100 Just like straight up.
01:19:05.060 And then you wouldn't really have, I've never done anything with these guys, never sent them anything.
01:19:09.260 I don't even talk to them, but they'll just like random times of the day.
01:19:12.660 You don't even have to ask.
01:19:13.600 They'll just like send you money.
01:19:14.880 Sometimes it's just like worship.
01:19:16.240 How much though?
01:19:16.820 How much have you gotten?
01:19:18.220 I'd say like total, not that much because at one point it messed with like my mental health
01:19:22.700 and I cut them off.
01:19:23.700 Like I didn't feel right.
01:19:25.100 Even though I wasn't doing anything, I didn't like the fact that like I was receiving money
01:19:28.420 from random people because I didn't like really need it.
01:19:31.280 It was just more so like, oh, like sure.
01:19:32.960 But then it got to me in the head.
01:19:34.800 But within the course of like two months, I'd say probably like a few hundred dollars total.
01:19:40.720 Nothing crazy.
01:19:41.180 And how many about, how many different guys would you say sent you?
01:19:45.280 Like how many of pay pigs I had or?
01:19:47.480 Yeah, like how many, like three, four, five guys more or less?
01:19:50.780 No, it was like two.
01:19:51.820 Two guys.
01:19:52.160 Yeah, just two.
01:19:52.720 And they contacted you on Instagram or?
01:19:55.400 They reached out to me on TikTok because I would post like videos off the, yeah.
01:19:59.280 And then.
01:19:59.700 What do you do, like little dances?
01:20:00.900 No, I just post like lip sync, like face videos.
01:20:03.280 Oh, okay.
01:20:03.780 Yeah.
01:20:04.020 Gotcha.
01:20:04.300 Um, I don't post any like explicit content.
01:20:07.700 Um, and I respect for anyone who does like, that's not my business, but yeah, they just
01:20:11.620 reach out to you on that.
01:20:12.900 Okay.
01:20:13.220 Pretty much any platform is like possible.
01:20:15.140 Why was it messing with your mental health?
01:20:16.820 Because I just like, didn't like that.
01:20:19.740 I was even in contact with men like that in general.
01:20:22.540 Like, okay.
01:20:23.380 It was just like, okay.
01:20:24.360 Like, sure.
01:20:25.420 Did you have to send them pictures like of your feet or anything like that?
01:20:28.440 I never sent them anything.
01:20:29.620 I think like, it was just them knowing that like, they were able to like provide for
01:20:33.060 me or whatever, like made them feel better.
01:20:34.640 But you would like text them and stuff?
01:20:36.780 No, I honestly wouldn't.
01:20:38.320 It would just.
01:20:38.840 Just even hi or how's it going?
01:20:40.420 Well, if they ask, I'd respond, but I never initiated anything.
01:20:44.600 I see.
01:20:44.900 You would give kind of maybe dry responses.
01:20:46.740 Dry responses and then like, they'll send money.
01:20:49.400 Yeah.
01:20:49.660 It wasn't, it was purely transactional, I'd say.
01:20:52.320 Well, I want to do a role reversal.
01:20:53.800 So as a, as a little bucket list thing so that you as women, many of you have, maybe 1.00
01:21:00.980 you didn't take them up on the offer, even if you don't do OnlyFans, but you, you've maybe
01:21:04.460 been offered, oh, let me be your sugar daddy.
01:21:08.300 Let me send you money.
01:21:09.540 Send me, maybe you haven't, whatever it is.
01:21:12.980 I want those of you who have cash right now.
01:21:17.000 I want some cash just for existing as a man.
01:21:20.120 I want, so who's going to do it?
01:21:24.220 You going to do it?
01:21:25.140 You going to do it?
01:21:25.680 Who had the cash?
01:21:26.360 You had the cash?
01:21:26.940 No, I said, no.
01:21:27.940 You had the cash?
01:21:28.280 Nose goes.
01:21:28.920 I'm nosing the goes.
01:21:29.840 Someone else has to do it.
01:21:31.040 You got cash?
01:21:31.700 Yes.
01:21:32.360 You going to, because women, y'all have the experience of men simping for you. 1.00
01:21:38.400 I want to give you a taste of the reverse.
01:21:41.020 I want y'all to simp for me for funsies.
01:21:41.880 Yeah, but I don't demand it like that.
01:21:43.320 You just demanded it.
01:21:44.600 I don't do that.
01:21:45.780 Yeah.
01:21:45.980 I'm financially dominating right now.
01:21:48.360 Findum.
01:21:48.920 This is Findum.
01:21:50.500 This is.
01:21:51.220 So get up. 0.95
01:21:53.840 Give me some freaking cash. 0.96
01:21:55.580 Yes, daddy? 0.96
01:21:56.620 Oh.
01:21:57.100 Good girl.
01:21:57.760 Go ahead.
01:21:58.460 Up you go.
01:21:59.640 Go ahead.
01:22:00.220 If I don't even beat her. 0.82
01:22:01.720 I'm being serious.
01:22:02.180 I'm dead serious, by the way.
01:22:03.460 No.
01:22:04.760 It's mine.
01:22:05.480 I earned it.
01:22:07.160 Your loss.
01:22:08.600 Okay.
01:22:09.140 Would you feel better if I went up and gave you a 10?
01:22:11.660 I think I have a 10 on me.
01:22:13.660 He would.
01:22:14.120 Do you have more?
01:22:14.820 He would.
01:22:15.280 Probably.
01:22:15.680 I need all of it.
01:22:17.040 All of it.
01:22:17.980 All?
01:22:18.300 I'm an all or nothing kind of guy.
01:22:20.540 You know, I'm not going to be wish on the fence.
01:22:22.740 You know, with dating too.
01:22:23.740 I'm not like wishy-washy with a girl.
01:22:25.820 I don't know.
01:22:26.520 It's like all in.
01:22:27.840 Let's go.
01:22:28.920 We're together.
01:22:30.380 When it comes to your money, all in.
01:22:33.320 Let's go.
01:22:34.100 That's my money now.
01:22:35.380 Wow.
01:22:36.140 Yeah.
01:22:36.920 Okay.
01:22:37.480 You got what?
01:22:38.360 12?
01:22:39.280 There's the 20 and there's a 10.
01:22:40.840 I've got 30.
01:22:41.800 I will take the 30.
01:22:42.660 Do I get up, guys?
01:22:45.520 No.
01:22:46.020 Don't get up, girl. 1.00
01:22:46.860 Think of this as a tithe, okay?
01:22:48.900 Oh, no.
01:22:49.140 This is a Mormon church.
01:22:51.240 Well, you offered, so you have to get up.
01:22:53.380 That is true.
01:22:54.020 I asked him if he would feel better.
01:22:55.920 Yeah, I do.
01:22:56.620 I have a few books.
01:22:57.100 It was actually an ultimatum.
01:22:58.400 I made you good.
01:22:59.100 Just a few books.
01:23:01.220 Are you going to?
01:23:01.980 Do you want to?
01:23:02.660 Should Mary get your purse for you so you don't even have to get up?
01:23:05.360 Girl, there's people in the chat giving him money now.
01:23:07.980 You don't need to.
01:23:08.720 He's fine.
01:23:09.480 Oh, no.
01:23:10.020 I'm a starving college student.
01:23:12.640 But I asked you if it would make you feel better, and you did not say yes or no.
01:23:16.080 Is this yours, Mary?
01:23:17.160 She feels better.
01:23:18.640 All right. 1.00
01:23:20.320 Thank you for the fucking $8. 1.00
01:23:21.600 Doesn't she work for you? 1.00
01:23:23.240 What a pick me.
01:23:24.040 Yeah.
01:23:24.580 Why is she giving you money? 0.98
01:23:26.560 All right.
01:23:27.220 Okay.
01:23:27.500 Well, that seems like a no-go.
01:23:30.440 Okay.
01:23:30.880 Moving on, then.
01:23:31.680 You had a question for me.
01:23:33.040 Go ahead.
01:23:34.000 What is your stance on OnlyFans?
01:23:36.460 What is?
01:23:36.980 I mean, it's very vague.
01:23:38.720 But, so, okay.
01:23:41.680 Generally, I would say, I think, as a general idea, I think porn is bad for society.
01:23:49.500 I think it's bad for the individual people who do it.
01:23:51.720 I think it's bad for the consumers.
01:23:53.080 I think it's moving us towards, I guess, a greater, more degenerate society.
01:24:02.260 Now, I want to balance this with, I think, somebody who, like a man, for example, or even
01:24:08.320 a woman who consumes porn in moderation, I think some of the harms of porn consumption are overstated.
01:24:16.000 Now, if you're addicted to porn and it has massive impacts on your relationship, I think
01:24:19.880 that's bad.
01:24:20.520 My personal view, though, I don't believe if I'm in a relationship with a girl and it's 0.88
01:24:24.560 not, like, long distance and we're seeing each other, you know, regularly.
01:24:30.260 I don't watch porn in a relationship. 0.99
01:24:33.580 Don't think you should be masturbating in a relationship. 0.99
01:24:35.720 You should save that for your partner. 0.94
01:24:37.460 If you're not in a relationship, then whatever. 0.99
01:24:39.280 You're fucking, you're not seeing somebody. 0.99
01:24:41.400 You want to watch something, 30 minutes, an hour, whatever. 1.00
01:24:44.700 That's fine.
01:24:45.200 Do you believe that for all relationships or just are you talking about your personal
01:24:48.420 relationships?
01:24:49.760 Well, I mean, I'm talking for my personal relationships, but I would be prepared to
01:24:53.040 prescriptively say I think porn consumption in men or women is going to be harmful for
01:24:59.440 the relationship.
01:25:00.840 Now, even outside of a relationship, I would say porn consumption will be generally harmful
01:25:05.520 to you as an individual also and will have downstream impacts on future relationships.
01:25:12.040 For example, I mean, and it can manifest in different ways.
01:25:14.260 It could either be this person, whether man or woman, has an expectation of either how
01:25:18.620 sex should be or how attractive somebody should be, and this would go both ways.
01:25:23.920 It would apply to men and women. 0.76
01:25:26.000 Women who consume porn, typically, they're watching really degenerate stuff. 1.00
01:25:31.620 They're watching really rough, violent sex, and it's like I think the average guy, you 0.97
01:25:38.300 women have basically bullied men into this rough sex thing, which I think is a bit peculiar. 0.99
01:25:42.240 Look, if people have kinks, if you want to be choked a little bit, you want your hair 1.00
01:25:45.400 pulled, you want to be spanked, whatever, that's fine. 0.99
01:25:48.440 But some of this shit, I feel like it can be a little intense. 0.99
01:25:51.280 I don't know. 0.99
01:25:53.400 Mary laughed.
01:25:55.040 And you don't think men are watching the extreme stuff?
01:25:57.280 Oh, men are definitely watching extreme stuff too.
01:25:59.300 But women watch, in terms of what women consume, it's like a lot of it's like really rough stuff 1.00
01:26:07.280 and like having the expectation in a relationship that a guy does this.
01:26:11.600 Look, I mean, like people have their fetishes, kinks. 1.00
01:26:13.920 There's a degree of, look, if it's consensual, it's fine.
01:26:18.300 There's some stuff that I think is probably okay.
01:26:22.200 Other stuff I don't.
01:26:23.140 But, um, so there's that component, but, uh, okay.
01:26:28.100 Now, as far as OnlyFans goes, um, OnlyFans is another layer though.
01:26:34.120 So all that stuff I just referenced about, about the nudity, I personally, like I, the
01:26:41.040 nudity, I don't think is that big of a deal.
01:26:44.400 Like I can, I can sit here and say, it's generally probably bad for society.
01:26:49.560 I think it's bad to be consuming.
01:26:51.660 It's bad for the individual.
01:26:53.320 Probably bad.
01:26:54.460 That's kind of when it, with my OnlyFans though.
01:26:56.860 What do you mean by it's not that big of a deal?
01:26:57.700 Like watching is not that big of a deal or participating in it? 0.99
01:26:59.720 Like some girl taking a fucking picture of her poster or whatever. 1.00
01:27:03.380 I don't really care that much about that. 0.99
01:27:04.940 So my, cause my criticism of OnlyFans goes beyond the nude content production component.
01:27:11.760 Okay.
01:27:12.340 Because I think some people can make compelling arguments for the acceptability of nude content.
01:27:18.720 They're going to make free speech arguments.
01:27:21.440 You're not going to be able to, it's going to be very difficult to, for example, pass laws
01:27:25.480 to prevent people from producing nude content.
01:27:30.220 So from a politically tenable position, I think probably most likely pornography is here
01:27:36.800 to stay.
01:27:37.340 I don't think there's really going to be an avenue political.
01:27:40.060 I mean, never say never.
01:27:41.680 There's all kinds of political things that we can do to potentially ban it.
01:27:44.480 But I think it's unlikely that it will be challenged from the political angle.
01:27:49.320 So I'm kind of less concerned about that.
01:27:51.240 I think some of the harms are overstated.
01:27:53.000 But with OnlyFans, I think the bigger thing is, which I think is completely indefensible,
01:27:58.400 is the scam component of OnlyFans.
01:28:01.700 So it's one thing if you're a porn producer.
01:28:03.200 I solely agree.
01:28:04.080 If you're a porn producer, like, okay, you know, you're making nude content, whatever, 0.87
01:28:10.540 whatever.
01:28:11.700 But the scam component is, and there's a couple different components.
01:28:14.900 So we have one OnlyFans girl here. 1.00
01:28:16.740 Do you have a management company?
01:28:18.400 I manage myself.
01:28:19.700 By the way, a lot of women who do OnlyFans, even if they do have a management company. 1.00
01:28:24.720 I'm also a creative director.
01:28:26.220 Even if they do have a management company, even if they do have a typer or chatter, they're
01:28:30.500 not going to admit that they do have one.
01:28:32.040 Uh, so the scam component of OnlyFans is twofold.
01:28:36.900 One is if you make a representation on your OnlyFans platform, you're talking to me, the
01:28:42.500 girl, you're talking to me.
01:28:44.460 I have a friend that's responding to all my messages right now.
01:28:46.820 And the only things that are being sold are just like pre-made videos.
01:28:50.200 Right.
01:28:50.760 So my position would be that's some degree of fraudulent activity.
01:28:54.420 Oh no, she's saying, she's saying Lola is on whatever.
01:28:56.620 You can go and see her now.
01:28:57.720 Well, that's different.
01:28:58.500 And if you, so it wouldn't be fraudulent if you disclose to the person, uh, the person
01:29:03.280 you're communicating with who is paying money to engage in messaging, you're not talking
01:29:08.020 to the girl.
01:29:09.420 You're talking to this, uh, person who makes $5 a day in the Philippines.
01:29:13.800 Some accounts.
01:29:14.440 And who's typically a man.
01:29:15.580 Now, now they're probably using AI, I would imagine to do all the typing and chatting.
01:29:20.240 But so these OnlyFans girls who many of them, some of them, especially the high earning 1.00
01:29:24.380 ones.
01:29:25.140 I have to prove myself with voice notes.
01:29:27.040 I literally voice note every day because people, there's so many girls that are out 1.00
01:29:30.900 there scouting.
01:29:31.200 You could pepper those in. 0.99
01:29:32.380 And then like 95% of the other work is some dude in fucking the Philippines making $5 an 0.99
01:29:39.800 hour. 0.98
01:29:41.200 You don't, you don't know about this?
01:29:42.340 The typers and chatters.
01:29:43.760 No.
01:29:44.560 You don't know about typers and chatters.
01:29:46.540 So it's the way women on OnlyFans make money is they, through messaging. 1.00
01:29:51.780 I understand.
01:29:52.600 Right.
01:29:53.020 Obviously.
01:29:53.420 And so there's, there's this component and messaging sometimes with dozens, hundreds,
01:29:58.380 or even thousands of different people.
01:30:00.180 One person typically, especially a woman who's not.
01:30:02.200 Unless you have a VIP page.
01:30:04.000 Then, so on my free page, I had like 19,000 fans and it was genuinely just, you buy something
01:30:10.300 from the wall and I'm probably not going to talk to you because how the hell am I supposed
01:30:13.640 to go through these messages?
01:30:13.820 Well, even if you don't do it, this is still true for most OnlyFans girls. 0.69
01:30:17.160 I know.
01:30:17.480 I know it is.
01:30:18.100 I know for, for fact.
01:30:19.120 Right.
01:30:19.380 So, I mean, also it's like, how are you going? 0.90
01:30:21.180 And they're fucking online 24 seven constantly always responding to messages. 0.97
01:30:24.880 Or they'll buy a video and it's meant to be like nude and then it's going to be them 0.98
01:30:28.720 like covering up their parts with like little pieces of tape and stuff.
01:30:33.140 And it's just, yeah, it's inauthentic.
01:30:34.460 Well, Camilla?
01:30:35.700 I think, or there's some girls, like recently I've heard there's some girls that are doing
01:30:39.300 OnlyFans that don't even enjoy sex and they're not doing it for that reason. 1.00
01:30:43.040 I'm like, girl, if you don't enjoy your job, get a new job.
01:30:47.200 What are you doing?
01:30:48.000 So, so you enjoy what you're doing then?
01:30:50.440 Yeah, I love, I love it.
01:30:52.260 Yeah. 0.99
01:30:52.600 I have sex for pleasure. 1.00
01:30:54.260 I masturbate for pleasure. 1.00
01:30:55.560 My videos are authentic and real and yeah. 0.98
01:30:59.200 But don't you feel some amount of shame that you're doing this?
01:31:01.800 I feel no shame.
01:31:03.000 No, sorry.
01:31:03.340 Why not?
01:31:03.780 I'm sorry.
01:31:04.340 I just don't.
01:31:06.540 You don't have to.
01:31:07.200 So let's, let's just finish off the point here.
01:31:10.560 It's not my shame.
01:31:11.400 There's the type of chatter fraud where you're basically, look, if, if you're a company and
01:31:17.320 you could say like, let's say Justin Bieber offered up a service for his fans, not a sexual
01:31:22.680 thing, but not on OnlyFans, but like, Hey, if you pay $50 a month or you pay for individual
01:31:29.540 messages, you can actually be corresponding with me.
01:31:33.840 And that's the advertisement.
01:31:35.860 And it turns out that it actually wasn't Justin Bieber who was actually talking to his fans.
01:31:40.960 It was an assistant, uh, maybe somebody overseas.
01:31:48.120 This would open Justin Bieber up to a lawsuit for fraud.
01:31:51.540 So that's one of the components of fraud with OnlyFans.
01:31:54.020 The other component of fraud is the, this is even a deeper level, which I think is more
01:31:58.140 insidious is the women are, um, a lot of women on OnlyFans claim to be single, but they're 0.99
01:32:04.520 actually, uh, in relationships.
01:32:06.800 So they claim to be single and they do what I consider a romance scam.
01:32:11.300 They sell a girlfriend experience and they, they, through the parasocial relationship that
01:32:17.220 they develop with their, um, typically male clientele, they're going to bait these
01:32:23.960 men into thinking that they are developing and building a relationship, a romantic relationship
01:32:31.720 with the man in an effort to siphon money from them without any actual genuine intention of
01:32:39.520 like dating the guy.
01:32:41.960 But with, but they lead these men on as if, yes, I will, you know, we're pursuing it and
01:32:48.820 they will do as much as possible to delay, delay, delay meeting.
01:32:52.480 And then they try to siphon as much money as possible under the guise of, oh, we're dating,
01:32:58.800 we're in a relationship.
01:33:00.240 Uh, so that's another layer, I think worse below the one that I just mentioned as to
01:33:04.360 the fraud component.
01:33:06.240 That's really despicable.
01:33:08.560 Um, why are you talking about these guys?
01:33:10.580 Sorry.
01:33:10.940 Hold on.
01:33:11.700 And then you, you can imagine though, um, like imagine if it was the reverse, uh, imagine
01:33:17.880 if, you know, there, if, if you're a man and you induce a woman into a romance scam and siphon
01:33:25.380 money from them, you get a Netflix special made about you.
01:33:28.540 What was it? 1.00
01:33:28.880 The fucking Tinder swindler. 1.00
01:33:30.000 Uh, so it's interesting that we have wholesale massive scale of romance scam happening on 1.00
01:33:36.780 OnlyFans, typically in the direction of men, uh, that basically just is accepted.
01:33:42.060 People are just like, oh, they deserve it. 1.00
01:33:43.780 They're stupid. 1.00
01:33:44.700 Uh, I take a bit, perhaps a bit more empathetic approach to these men. 1.00
01:33:48.640 I think most of these men tend to be incredibly lonely and incredibly desperate to some degree.
01:33:54.420 Yes.
01:33:54.740 Buyer beware, but they're being misled by these women. 0.98
01:33:57.280 I'm a companion to a lot of guys that I talk to and I genuinely love chatting to them.
01:34:02.240 I think that you like chatting.
01:34:04.940 Yes, I do.
01:34:05.660 I video chat.
01:34:06.520 I voice.
01:34:07.180 No, I like, yeah.
01:34:08.720 How much do you charge for that?
01:34:10.740 I'm not disclosing my prices.
01:34:12.060 You do charge for it though.
01:34:13.720 Yes, I do.
01:34:14.540 Yeah.
01:34:14.920 But that's like, you know, it's not something that I'm forcing anybody to do.
01:34:19.260 I'm not, I'm not forcing it.
01:34:20.600 They come to me and I provide a service that maybe if they're like they're widowed or they're,
01:34:27.040 they have disabilities.
01:34:27.960 You're single, right?
01:34:28.820 I am.
01:34:29.640 Yeah.
01:34:30.120 Do you know any, are you aware of this phenomenon?
01:34:32.880 Do you know any OnlyFans girls who claim they're single, but they're actually married, 0.99
01:34:36.520 but they don't say that publicly or they actually have a long-term boyfriend?
01:34:42.160 I guess.
01:34:43.400 Yeah.
01:34:43.900 I don't think these guys are the victims you're making them out to be.
01:34:46.800 I think like they need to live in reality at some point.
01:34:49.120 Like they know what they're getting into.
01:34:50.500 They willingly sent their money to like someone on the internet.
01:34:54.840 I have a question.
01:34:56.100 Well, I mean, so I'm not taking full accountability away from them.
01:35:01.660 So I think as a man, I mean, with any sort of purchase, there's a degree of buyer beware.
01:35:07.720 Uh, although that actually isn't totally the legal standard, like corporations have a duty
01:35:14.320 to not mislead their, their customers.
01:35:19.100 Um, so yes, uh, yeah, they should have some diligence when it comes to this, but I think
01:35:27.060 you have to understand a lot of men can be very naive, especially men with minimal or no
01:35:32.020 dating experience.
01:35:33.060 Um, maybe it's some older men, uh, right.
01:35:37.220 But an OnlyFans model, like that's like thinking the stripper actually likes you. 1.00
01:35:41.400 That's like thinking the waitress actually flirted with you. 0.93
01:35:43.820 Well, sure.
01:35:44.180 But you are, you, but that's the game.
01:35:46.900 That's the game that the OnlyFans girls are playing. 1.00
01:35:49.700 And like, do you think that that is the biggest issue with OnlyFans?
01:35:52.860 It's like you said, like, this is worse.
01:35:53.940 Like this is next level, right?
01:35:55.400 When don't you think the first level, the worst level is OnlyFans just existing in the
01:36:00.040 first place because that's misleading men to seek validation and security in something
01:36:04.740 that is not going to be present.
01:36:06.980 It's an artificial sense of security.
01:36:08.940 So personally, I'm going to disagree with you.
01:36:10.520 I think that the existence of porn in general leads men to believe that they're going to
01:36:14.260 find a sense of security in a woman who is getting monetary gain out of it when they're 1.00
01:36:18.740 getting nothing but getting deeper into the fucking rabbit hole that's pushed onto them 0.99
01:36:22.540 by the over-sexualization of everything in society. 0.99
01:36:24.580 And OnlyFans is like the peak of that.
01:36:26.000 Well, but so my, cause OnlyFans is unique in the sense that it's adult content, uh, adult
01:36:33.380 content packaged with the parasocial actual, like for example, before OnlyFans, if a girl
01:36:41.120 was a porn star, like the consumer did not have access to them on a parasocial level.
01:36:48.300 So absent OnlyFans, there was porn before OnlyFans.
01:36:53.940 That's what I'm saying.
01:36:54.640 I'm saying it led up to that.
01:36:55.720 But you're saying the, the, the nude content is the issue.
01:36:59.220 I agree.
01:36:59.700 It is an, it is an issue, but the unique issue I have with OnlyFans is the, uh, the frauding,
01:37:07.240 the frauding, the typer, the chatter, the messaging, but it's not actually them.
01:37:11.860 But then the girlfriend experience where they're siphoning money from men who, uh, these women 1.00
01:37:18.020 are misleading them to believe that a relationship is being developed when there actually isn't a
01:37:22.820 genuine intention on the woman's part to actually see through that relationship.
01:37:28.000 They just know, like, for example, if a girl's in love with me, if I was inclined to be a piece 1.00
01:37:33.420 of shit, it's really easy for me to manipulate a woman. 0.99
01:37:36.900 It's easier for me, much easier for me to manipulate a woman who's in love with me than a woman who's 1.00
01:37:43.640 not.
01:37:44.520 It's much easier for me to siphon money from a woman. 1.00
01:37:47.700 Not that I'd ever do this unless you're on the podcast.
01:37:50.780 I could, so I could definitely siphon money from a woman who was in love with me versus 0.98
01:37:58.280 just some random woman on the street. 1.00
01:38:00.380 And so with their girlfriend experience that they do on this thing, they, they do lead the
01:38:05.460 men down this, we're building a relationship.
01:38:08.240 And for a guy who has very little dating prospects, maybe the only attention they're getting from
01:38:14.120 a woman, positive attention is this OnlyFans girl. 1.00
01:38:16.640 So it's really easy to make that guy get really invested in the woman.
01:38:23.100 Why is your biggest issue with like how it's affecting the men and not the fact that like
01:38:27.200 a bunch of girls are getting groomed before they turn 18, like the minute they turn 18 1.00
01:38:31.560 to start an OnlyFans is that it's quick, easy money.
01:38:35.840 I don't understand.
01:38:36.860 I don't know why you're bringing it to this underage thing.
01:38:39.220 Although, look, uh, well, first off, in order to be on OnlyFans, you have to be of age.
01:38:45.020 Now, yes, there are some women who like, it's my 18th birthday, going to drop the OnlyFans 1.00
01:38:49.740 right on my 18th birthday.
01:38:51.800 That's, that does happen.
01:38:53.520 But the majority of women on OnlyFans, it's not always a first choice. 0.97
01:38:57.720 The majority of women on OnlyFans are not being sex trafficked.
01:39:01.380 They're willingly do it.
01:39:02.340 They, they want to be making a hundred thousand dollars a month.
01:39:05.480 I mean, not all of them make that much, but they, they want the quick money.
01:39:08.980 They want, they want it.
01:39:10.860 So this idea, I mean, I don't understand your criticism here.
01:39:15.700 Um, do I, of the women who are, or maybe being trafficked into OnlyFans, do I object
01:39:23.480 to that?
01:39:23.860 Yes, absolutely.
01:39:24.720 It's wrong.
01:39:25.660 However, the majority of women are doing it willingly. 1.00
01:39:29.220 Right.
01:39:29.700 But like, yeah, like, I guess I'm just wondering, why do you think like when you talk about your
01:39:34.240 biggest gripe with OnlyFans, you're talking about how it affects the men.
01:39:37.100 Like, what about how it affects the women's mental state? 1.00
01:39:39.680 Like they have to deal with talking to weirdos all the time, or just the fact that just like
01:39:43.880 these girls probably have like something else going on. 1.00
01:39:46.420 Like, you know, like they don't respect themselves.
01:39:47.980 That's why they're like selling this content.
01:39:49.480 Well, look, yeah.
01:39:49.880 I mean, sure.
01:39:50.300 I'd be willing to grant, but it's not that I'd be willing to.
01:39:52.980 I do in fact grant that women who do sex work, it's harmful to them too. 1.00
01:39:57.820 It's harmful to them too.
01:39:59.000 I think a lot of women who do sex work actually end up having typically, uh, they typically 1.00
01:40:04.440 don't, while in it or after they leave it, they see a dark side of men sometimes that
01:40:11.980 is not so great.
01:40:13.680 So that has a negative impact on them.
01:40:15.480 Uh, they've traded their soul for money.
01:40:19.360 I'm like a nymphomaniac. 0.98
01:40:21.220 So I actually love sex. 0.91
01:40:22.400 If you can Google it, um, or somebody can, but yeah. 0.98
01:40:25.360 Well, I know what nymphomaniac is, but you could be in love sex. 1.00
01:40:28.720 Well, how do you know you don't have a sex addiction? 0.86
01:40:30.280 It makes it, I probably do have a sex addiction girl, but it's, it's under safe, I'm in safe
01:40:35.640 hands.
01:40:35.740 A woman can be a nymphomaniac and not be a sex worker. 1.00
01:40:39.660 Um, so we're getting into a different topic here.
01:40:42.160 Okay. 0.75
01:40:42.640 You, you think all nymphomaniacs must be sex workers? 0.98
01:40:45.600 No, no, of course not. 0.95
01:40:46.480 That's what I'm saying.
01:40:47.040 I'm saying I enjoy what I do because I believe that I am a bit of a nymphomaniac.
01:40:51.920 Okay.
01:40:52.200 That's what I'm saying.
01:40:53.780 Um, I don't think that I'm going to come away from what I do.
01:40:56.960 I don't believe I sold my soul.
01:40:58.640 I don't think I'm going to come away from it like a shell of a woman. 1.00
01:41:01.520 Like I'm genuinely, yeah.
01:41:03.860 Okay.
01:41:04.340 You can, whatever, but yeah.
01:41:06.800 How long have you been doing sex work?
01:41:08.800 Um, I've been on OnlyFans for two years almost.
01:41:14.860 Is that the only form of sex work that you've done?
01:41:17.720 Yes.
01:41:18.640 I need to get up momentarily, but if you guys want, it seemed like you guys wanted to
01:41:21.740 have a bit of back and forth on this, feel free to continue.
01:41:23.780 Um, yeah, I, I did love my job beforehand.
01:41:26.540 I worked with animals and I was doing my veterinary nursing degree.
01:41:30.140 Um, but it doesn't pay well.
01:41:33.420 And I was being paid a lot for what I was doing and my catwalk shows and my bikini modeling
01:41:37.420 that I just started to do my work on OnlyFans.
01:41:40.160 And now when I get my payout and when I retire, I want to open a sanctuary to actually help
01:41:46.640 the animals that I have missed out helping while it's not doing my veterinary degree.
01:41:51.480 So do you not have a fear that you're going to age out of the industry?
01:41:54.160 Like by the time you reach, like, I don't know how old you are, but like, how old are
01:41:57.420 you?
01:41:57.760 I'm 23.
01:41:58.420 I'm 24 in a couple of months.
01:41:59.380 Okay.
01:41:59.500 So like by the time you're like 27 plus, they start saying that you hit the wall.
01:42:03.380 Like I'm not going to be doing it anymore.
01:42:05.220 So you have enough money you think to retire by then?
01:42:07.500 Soon, I hope so.
01:42:09.240 And I want to open my animal sanctuary.
01:42:11.360 Wait, why will you not be doing it?
01:42:12.980 Do you think?
01:42:13.600 Just because I, I might, because I enjoy putting out my own content, I may still do that.
01:42:18.780 And like to my loyal fans, I probably still, I might like still use my site, but I won't
01:42:24.280 be like hustling as hard as I hustle now.
01:42:27.380 You said that you, it gives you pleasure doing what you do.
01:42:31.360 Do you think that we should do anything that gives us pleasure?
01:42:35.700 Or is there like a, a line that you draw there?
01:42:39.040 Like what if?
01:42:39.860 I say that we should, aside from sex, like we should all do what we love because predominantly
01:42:45.760 you're in a job for however many years.
01:42:49.700 And all of your week is spent at your work normally.
01:42:52.720 So I do believe that we should all do something that we love in life.
01:42:55.740 This is a hard question to ask.
01:42:58.720 Yes, but do you feel like you're adding like value to society and that you're like making
01:43:05.040 the correct like butterfly effects?
01:43:07.380 You know what I mean?
01:43:08.380 So that you're not like other than yourself, but like other people are also being better
01:43:14.440 versions of themselves.
01:43:15.560 You know what I mean?
01:43:16.560 Like, is that her life purpose?
01:43:19.300 Are you asking if that's her life purpose?
01:43:20.720 I do, what I don't like about it is when men go behind their partner's backs to go on to
01:43:26.720 OnlyFans and like I do, there is a sense of like guilt that I find and I'm like, why
01:43:31.960 are you doing that? 0.99
01:43:32.580 Just, and they'll be like, oh, my wife's upstairs and I'm like, well get off this fucking platform. 0.99
01:43:36.880 Like, I don't want to talk to you. 0.99
01:43:37.920 Like, you know, so.
01:43:39.480 Yeah.
01:43:39.900 So what if, because just to go along with what we were saying, what if, do you think that
01:43:46.180 you can, something can please you, but be bad for you and if that's the case, then should
01:43:51.320 you not do what pleases you in some circumstances?
01:43:55.200 I respect what you're saying entirely.
01:43:58.320 Like, like anything, like drugs or any addiction that anybody may have, like it may give them
01:44:04.400 pleasure for an amount of time, but then it could be detrimental to other people around
01:44:08.800 them.
01:44:09.000 I absolutely understand that.
01:44:10.000 But I feel that what I do is like, I don't think I'm, I don't believe I'm hurting anybody
01:44:15.060 and yeah, I'm, I've not hurt any of my fans yet.
01:44:20.260 They're all happy.
01:44:22.020 So if someone could convince you.
01:44:22.640 I've not scammed anyone.
01:44:23.800 Nobody's got angry.
01:44:24.660 Nobody charges back.
01:44:25.720 I don't have any, I don't have a bad rep on OnlyFans for being a scammer.
01:44:31.700 Yeah.
01:44:32.300 There's, I'm so sorry.
01:44:33.620 A lot of my friends as well are like, are not in the industry.
01:44:36.760 I'm, yeah.
01:44:37.860 I'm very much a girl's girl.
01:44:38.360 And I haven't even said my opinion or anything.
01:44:40.140 I'm just kind of playing devil's advocate, but if someone were able.
01:44:43.040 It's only OF girl, so it's only me.
01:44:45.120 You probably expected this, but.
01:44:46.440 Only, yeah, to an extent.
01:44:47.780 Yeah.
01:44:48.520 So if someone was able to convince you that you were harming someone, then in that case,
01:44:54.340 would you think twice about what you do?
01:44:57.300 Yeah.
01:44:57.740 Okay.
01:44:58.140 Yeah.
01:44:58.740 I would, I would probably rethink if it was something that was genuinely, extremely detrimental
01:45:04.540 to somebody's health or their life, then what was I'm, yeah.
01:45:08.040 So like if a cheating boyfriend does reach out to you and like messages you and be like,
01:45:10.980 oh, my, my, my girl is upstairs.
01:45:12.320 My wife is upstairs.
01:45:13.140 Do you then cut off communication or do you still engage?
01:45:16.200 I'm disrespectfully like curious.
01:45:17.460 I will cut off conversation if I'm like, okay, this really isn't right.
01:45:21.500 And like, they'll tell me that they have children or whatnot.
01:45:23.900 And I'm just like, no.
01:45:25.280 Like genuinely, like I pick and choose who I talk to because it's actually me talking.
01:45:32.560 I'm really hard for people to believe, but it is.
01:45:34.820 But you don't think sometimes these guys that have partners. 0.99
01:45:37.680 So I'm not going to like entertain people that if they talk to me like shit, if they 0.98
01:45:42.200 come on and you're like, and they like are very vulgar and they're calling me names or 0.98
01:45:47.020 they want me to do certain things that I'm not comfortable with, I would never do it.
01:45:50.100 I have my own boundaries and yeah, that's important.
01:45:53.680 Can we all agree that people in general, not just women, but women and men should do whatever
01:45:59.900 makes them happy as long as it's not hurting themselves or other people?
01:46:03.640 Oh, I agree.
01:46:05.020 No, no, sorry, I don't know.
01:46:06.780 I feel like sex work has been a thing for like centuries.
01:46:10.320 Like women were getting exploited. 1.00
01:46:11.700 Like there was prostitution. 0.97
01:46:13.000 There were like, it's been there for so long.
01:46:15.020 I feel like OnlyFans, honestly, I could say is like a kind of good thing because women 1.00
01:46:18.900 are finally being able to take control of what they want to do.
01:46:21.700 They're not getting exploited like they were on like Pornhub or anything like that.
01:46:25.660 And like OnlyFans was created by a woman because she wanted like woman creators. 1.00
01:46:29.820 And do you know who owns it now?
01:46:32.220 No, I have no idea.
01:46:32.800 Isn't it kind of like a pyramid scheme?
01:46:34.180 It's a Jewish person who donates hundreds of thousands of dollars to the Israel war right
01:46:38.820 now. 0.96
01:46:40.280 Yeah, but the whole purpose, I'm just saying like it's, it's like sex work will always
01:46:44.420 be a thing.
01:46:44.960 At least now when we're finally getting something out of it, like they're getting what they
01:46:49.320 deserve.
01:46:49.600 Also, honestly, like OnlyFans and Pornhub, there honestly might be a better option because
01:46:54.020 women aren't having to meet men in person. 0.69
01:46:56.320 Obviously, strip clubs are still a thing. 1.00
01:46:57.920 Yeah.
01:46:58.000 But if you're not, if you don't want to do that, like there's still a way you can do
01:47:00.740 that.
01:47:01.000 It might be more ideal than other forms of sex work.
01:47:03.760 And I would like, but sex work will always be a thing.
01:47:06.180 Like it's been here for centuries.
01:47:07.020 But you can still have a standard or like you can still think it's harmful to society.
01:47:11.800 And just because it's always been there.
01:47:12.800 Well, what is that going to do for society?
01:47:13.720 I don't disagree that it's always been there.
01:47:14.960 But no matter what you do, you'll never get rid of like sex work.
01:47:20.200 Yeah.
01:47:20.580 Even if she sets her boundaries, these men are just going to find someone else who doesn't.
01:47:24.020 Yeah.
01:47:24.060 And I think that's so true.
01:47:25.020 I think there's individual responsibility.
01:47:26.600 I feel like you guys, uh-huh.
01:47:27.560 Continue.
01:47:28.140 Yeah.
01:47:28.380 I think there's individual responsibility that we should place on the men who are consuming 0.85
01:47:32.820 it.
01:47:33.240 Absolutely.
01:47:34.200 And I think there's responsibility because I'm of the belief that sex work is wrong in
01:47:38.680 any form or type.
01:47:40.040 Correct.
01:47:40.200 So I think that there's a tremendous amount of responsibility for those who are producing it as well.
01:47:45.900 So, and just because something's been here for a long time, I don't think that necessarily
01:47:50.060 means like, okay, well, let's just turn a blind eye or support it.
01:47:53.420 Well, it's just at least these women aren't being exploited as they were. 1.00
01:47:56.140 I think they are, but they're exploiting themselves.
01:47:59.200 But they're choosing.
01:47:59.820 But they're choosing to.
01:48:00.420 Yeah, but just because you choose to do something doesn't make it.
01:48:02.960 But some people would say that people that go to work for 12 hours a day and they work
01:48:08.980 potentially like on a building site or in construction, I do believe that they're doing their
01:48:13.560 body as a dishonor. 0.51
01:48:14.820 And I'll probably live a longer, more healthy and happier life than those people. 1.00
01:48:21.020 Plus you're idiots. 1.00
01:48:23.920 Okay. 1.00
01:48:24.700 Yeah.
01:48:24.820 And that's true.
01:48:25.400 I think.
01:48:25.940 Thank you, Brian.
01:48:26.540 Yeah.
01:48:26.720 And it's also about hard work too. 1.00
01:48:28.380 It's not about like being lazy and just taking a picture of your tits. 0.99
01:48:31.440 Oh girl, it's, I promise you it's not that. 0.99
01:48:33.780 A part of me kind of wishes I could have your moral compass because if I did, if I wasn't
01:48:38.280 mean, if I was like you or had a part of like, you know, your moral compass, I would
01:48:42.620 have done my OnlyFans thing.
01:48:44.220 Like I mentioned, I would have done the nude yoga.
01:48:46.000 I would have full sent it, but I knew a part of me would have felt destroyed.
01:48:49.520 And this is just the natural man speaking right now.
01:48:52.280 But the part of me that's, you know, not godly right now, I just, I wish I could be like
01:48:57.600 you, but I can't.
01:48:58.400 And if I tried, it would destroy me and like, I feel weird admitting that I'm jealous in
01:49:03.320 a way.
01:49:03.560 Oh, stop.
01:49:03.920 Thank you so much.
01:49:04.820 But like, there's, there's a Bible verse and it's interesting that you mentioned animals
01:49:07.980 and I have to share it because you've mentioned animals.
01:49:11.180 The good are kind to their animals, but the good acts of the wicked are considered cruel
01:49:19.260 and I'm not calling you wicked, but like, I hope, and I really hope one day you don't
01:49:24.540 wake up and like, look at yourself, like the picture of Dorian Gray and realize, oh my
01:49:28.380 gosh, look at me, look at this person I was and, and, and like have like this big regret.
01:49:32.760 Like if you, like you're genuinely like, that's your epistemology.
01:49:36.300 Everything you've said, that's your own epistemology, your dating epistemology, your career epistemology.
01:49:40.880 I respect that, you know, and I can't, I cannot argue.
01:49:44.160 And that's coming from two people that are completely polar opposites.
01:49:47.380 Yeah.
01:49:47.620 And, and I have my own, I cannot switch your epistemology with mine despite what I do.
01:49:52.080 And I've tried.
01:49:53.840 Wow.
01:49:54.340 Yeah.
01:49:54.760 I mean, I would, I don't want to sound like I'm judging you or anything like that.
01:49:58.680 I think at the end of the day we came on here to share our morals and our values.
01:50:01.720 I was hoping I may have one.
01:50:03.080 Yeah.
01:50:04.100 And I respect you as a person.
01:50:06.980 I don't think that means I need to agree with what you say.
01:50:10.240 But one of the points you brought up was like the 12 hour work day.
01:50:13.400 Let's say you're working.
01:50:14.520 I'm very sorry to interrupt you.
01:50:15.720 Brian's probably good.
01:50:16.360 I have to move the topic.
01:50:17.680 I'm pushing it more.
01:50:19.260 Thank you, girls.
01:50:19.860 I need to get back up though here in a moment.
01:50:22.100 But just while we're waiting, you had some hot takes.
01:50:27.600 While I step away, I'll let you have a little girl session if you want to dive into that. 0.99
01:50:32.520 I don't remember everything I sent you.
01:50:35.140 But yeah, one thing I did send you was that I think a woman's right to vote should count as three-fifths of a man's vote. 0.82
01:50:44.600 I'll be back.
01:50:46.180 Why?
01:50:47.540 Elaborate.
01:50:48.500 Because I don't think women are nearly as competent as men are. 1.00
01:50:51.860 Like I've been around girls and they say these things like, oh, I don't want to go there.
01:50:55.720 And I'm like, why?
01:50:56.520 I've never driven that far before.
01:50:58.220 I'm scared.
01:50:58.680 It's like you've never heard a man ever opt out of anything out of fear because they don't have that option to.
01:51:03.620 I just, or like you just hear, like women tend to like rely on men a lot too.
01:51:08.080 Like they basically want like a surrogate father figure.
01:51:10.900 Like they think it's cute to have generalization.
01:51:14.140 Yeah, but I am talking generally. 0.92
01:51:15.740 I'm talking about like how women, like most women, honestly, like they tend to think it's like cute to be weak and incompetent. 1.00
01:51:21.940 And they want like a man to come and rescue them.
01:51:24.580 The stereotypes are true for a reason. 1.00
01:51:25.940 Like they form for a reason.
01:51:27.140 It's like pattern recognition.
01:51:28.960 It's important to not generalize and say like most women, some women, you know? 1.00
01:51:34.540 Well, and competent at what?
01:51:35.860 Like what are you referring, you have to be specific there.
01:51:38.140 Because it is a generalization, but it's hard to say that just women in general aren't competent. 1.00
01:51:43.080 Like at what?
01:51:44.540 Well, I just like.
01:51:45.560 There's tons of women I know that are competent. 1.00
01:51:46.600 You're a woman yourself. 0.64
01:51:47.220 You can start with yourself.
01:51:48.280 What do you think you're not competent in?
01:51:49.920 Break it down.
01:51:51.360 Well, I don't think I'm the most athletic.
01:51:53.480 So what if I told you I can run a mile faster than my brother who works out every day?
01:52:00.540 So she said, I believe you.
01:52:02.280 I also finished technical college and he didn't.
01:52:05.040 I'm the first person in my family to do that.
01:52:07.340 I think there are competent women that exist. 1.00
01:52:09.080 I'm not saying they don't.
01:52:09.900 Right, so what's the generalization when there's record-breaking surgery?
01:52:13.480 And I'm not a feminist. 0.99
01:52:14.300 I'm not a feminist. 0.96
01:52:15.800 But what I'm telling you, for me personally, with my religion, in the Bible it says God created men and women equal.
01:52:21.660 Yes, with different roles, different roles in society.
01:52:24.920 But physically, I'm not as strong as my brother.
01:52:27.600 But I can run faster than him.
01:52:28.940 That's great.
01:52:29.820 But to say that it's like almost like three-fourths of a man is almost like derogatory to your own self.
01:52:34.960 Like it's almost like some self-projection going on there because I don't think that way.
01:52:38.160 I don't think some of these other ladies here think that way. 0.98
01:52:39.820 And it's honestly kind of offensive.
01:52:41.600 You're basically saying we're worth like three-fifths of what a man is.
01:52:46.040 But do we do the same roles that men do in society?
01:52:48.700 Like they're most likely to get drafted into war, are we?
01:52:51.080 Not all of them.
01:52:52.140 Wait, I think it should be both genders for the war. 0.96
01:52:54.860 There's definitely different gender roles in our society. 1.00
01:52:57.400 Obviously, yeah.
01:52:58.320 Right.
01:52:58.980 And you don't think men do more of like the harder work in society?
01:53:02.300 In this generation, it's honestly, it's starting to break.
01:53:04.620 Like women are just as confident.
01:53:05.680 So you think like there's a lot of women in blue-collar work? 1.00
01:53:08.340 I wouldn't say blue-collar, but there's in lawyers, doctors, surgeons.
01:53:11.780 Like women are showing that they're as confident. 0.84
01:53:13.860 It's just how we wrote like raised.
01:53:15.660 But now women are starting to raise stronger women. 1.00
01:53:18.200 And it's like we can see that.
01:53:19.320 But you think that's like all women? 0.94
01:53:21.120 You think every single woman?
01:53:22.600 But again, with the generalization, we can't say all women, all men.
01:53:26.240 There's an exception to every stereotype, to every gender.
01:53:29.220 Yeah, I believe that.
01:53:29.960 I think there's always exceptions to every rule.
01:53:31.140 Exactly.
01:53:31.520 So we can't say like most women act weak and incompetent and we want a man to provide for us. 0.99
01:53:36.720 Because that's not most women. 1.00
01:53:38.520 You don't think women think it's cute to be weak and incompetent? 1.00
01:53:41.220 Like ever. 0.99
01:53:41.460 Maybe that's you.
01:53:42.560 No, it's not me.
01:53:43.860 It's me getting fed up and jaded with my own gender acting that way all the time.
01:53:47.400 What's your idea of a competent woman then? 1.00
01:53:49.860 Right.
01:53:50.460 I guess someone more rational.
01:53:52.320 Someone that doesn't let like fear overtake her.
01:53:54.640 Do you believe in gender roles?
01:53:55.660 To some extent, yeah.
01:53:58.320 Do you believe that men are naturally more logical or rational?
01:54:03.140 I think there are like feminine men out there for sure. 1.00
01:54:05.920 But I think on average, yeah, like there's probably more men that are typically more rational than women are. 0.79
01:54:11.100 Did you know that scientifically a woman was created by God to think harder and rationally about situations?
01:54:17.520 While men, before the age of 26, when their brain, their frontal cortex is fully developed, they are statistically more inclined to take risks.
01:54:25.940 That's why a woman can rent a car at a younger age than a man can because her brain develops faster. 1.00
01:54:31.700 That's just how it is.
01:54:33.100 It doesn't mean that he's not going to be accelerated at certain things earlier on in life.
01:54:37.100 But it's like that specific part of the brain with critical thinking and risk assessment is developed much quicker in a woman. 1.00
01:54:42.960 So I'm trying to figure out like where like the logical like ground here is.
01:54:47.320 Like I said, I'm not a feminist, but it's like just scientifically, it just doesn't make sense. 0.78
01:54:50.620 Well, it's also confusing because you kind of just conceded the point that men on average are probably more rational than this isn't my belief.
01:54:57.880 I'm just, this is what you had conceded, right?
01:54:59.940 It's generalizing.
01:55:00.360 But you also said in order for a woman to be competent, she needs to be more rational.
01:55:05.040 So it's like, how do you believe in gender roles if you're saying in order for a woman to be competent, she needs to act like a man, which in your opinion is someone who's more rational.
01:55:15.540 Does that make sense?
01:55:16.420 Yeah, but I don't know what you're asking. 0.83
01:55:18.640 So are you gay?
01:55:19.080 Well, I'm just saying it doesn't, it's like a, it's like you're asking girls to be or women to act more like men in your belief in order to be competent.
01:55:28.900 But you also believe in gender roles and that women should act like women and men should act like men.
01:55:34.420 I think like, I don't know, I feel like I can't control other people, right?
01:55:38.460 Like if there's a feminine guy out there, if there's a tomboy out there, like that's just who they are. 1.00
01:55:43.080 Like people, like everyone's their own person, you know?
01:55:45.220 So if there's a really strong woman, is that just who she is too?
01:55:48.420 Yeah.
01:55:49.060 So technically the same, it should apply to both genders, what you're saying about incompetency. 0.99
01:55:53.180 Yeah, I mean, I've definitely met like just really like, like typically like the quote unquote incels, like guys that are just like feel really entitled to a girl's affection, but they don't do anything but play video games all day.
01:56:05.040 Like I think guys like that are incompetent, you know, for one example.
01:56:10.100 Right.
01:56:10.580 So stereotypes do exist, but like, does that make generalizing okay? 0.96
01:56:14.680 Like what you said earlier about most women being weak and incompetent? 1.00
01:56:23.060 No, I said they liked, they think it's cute to act that way. 0.94
01:56:26.400 Right.
01:56:26.800 You think it's like, it's like weaponized incompetence almost.
01:56:30.120 Well, there's no statistic that proves that.
01:56:33.080 I think it's just vague too.
01:56:34.440 Like if you know more women that act that way, you could say that. 1.00
01:56:38.400 But to generalize a gender and say that most of our gender acts that way.
01:56:44.680 It's offensive.
01:56:45.560 And I think probably a lot of the women here would take offense to that comment. 1.00
01:56:48.860 And act weak in what way?
01:56:50.360 Like, like physically, like I can't lift anything.
01:56:54.600 Probably because the first thing.
01:56:55.980 Or do you mean like weak minded?
01:56:56.940 Like, I guess weak minded.
01:56:58.240 Yeah.
01:56:58.760 Okay.
01:56:59.380 So, hmm.
01:57:01.660 I think it's just vague.
01:57:02.580 Like I would disagree with you because I think you definitely can make generalizations.
01:57:06.900 But if you're going to have the stats.
01:57:09.640 Right.
01:57:09.960 No, I agree with that.
01:57:11.120 And then it shouldn't be.
01:57:12.460 I agree with that 100%.
01:57:13.240 Well, also, to be fair to women, I do want to point out, like I do think part of it comes
01:57:17.340 from the fact that it's not just that women aren't encouraged. 0.58
01:57:19.740 They're actually actively discouraged, whether they're like good at school or good at their
01:57:23.960 hobbies.
01:57:24.280 Like a lot of times, like the whole concept of male mediocrity, like a guy will be not
01:57:29.000 as talented as a girl, but he gets all the attention because he's a guy.
01:57:31.820 Like I do think that there is that in society.
01:57:34.120 Like people kind of just push back on women a lot and don't give them enough credit.
01:57:38.140 I don't think that's true either, really.
01:57:39.860 I feel like nowadays, I'm sorry for disagreeing with you on a lot, but no, I don't feel like
01:57:45.820 men get most of the attention nowadays.
01:57:49.060 I'd say it's.
01:57:50.200 I think they get much less.
01:57:51.060 Yeah.
01:57:51.280 I think they get a lot less.
01:57:53.800 I would agree.
01:57:54.240 So I think we, we also highlight women because usually we don't choose to do like, for example,
01:58:00.440 blue collar work and stuff like that.
01:58:01.960 So we tend to highlight women who do do those things like girls or women in STEM.
01:58:06.560 It's like a novel piece versus common, which is like male blue collar.
01:58:11.400 Right.
01:58:11.580 Is what you're saying?
01:58:12.260 Yeah.
01:58:12.500 There's definitely some cultures.
01:58:13.740 Like I can talk like Percy that are like more patriarchal. 0.74
01:58:16.700 So like when a girl gets born, everyone's like kind of like, oh, sucks for you.
01:58:20.500 But when a guy gets born, like everyone's so excited.
01:58:22.960 Like, I know it's like that in my culture.
01:58:24.860 I know I've heard of something called machismo and like Latin culture too.
01:58:28.160 So I know that it is a thing, but I don't know about America.
01:58:33.000 I mean, that's a thing, but it's just that it's a thing.
01:58:39.060 Yeah.
01:58:39.380 It's like, I don't know.
01:58:40.200 Like I've had it happen to me in person where like I'm out with my dad and people will say
01:58:43.200 hi and greet him, but not me, you know, like that could be a respect thing too.
01:58:47.500 Respectful.
01:58:47.760 Right.
01:58:48.020 Because, you know, like that happens with me and my dad, but it's like, because some men,
01:58:52.960 don't like my dad might not want some, one of his friends talking to me, you know, and
01:58:58.520 they know that, or they don't want to cross that line, that boundary and make a mistake.
01:59:02.700 So it's like a respect thing.
01:59:04.560 I think.
01:59:04.940 I have a question for you.
01:59:06.500 Going back to like gender roles and stuff like that.
01:59:09.080 Do you believe that it's, it should be more socially acceptable and it should be okay for
01:59:14.460 men to show emotion?
01:59:15.480 Show emotion.
01:59:18.080 How like crying, crying, expressing their feelings, emotions besides like anger, you know?
01:59:26.000 I think it's okay for men to be nurturing and vulnerable, but I don't think men should
01:59:30.920 cry. 0.75
01:59:31.320 No.
01:59:31.640 Do you think women should cry? 1.00
01:59:34.060 Yeah.
01:59:35.420 Why?
01:59:35.880 What's the difference between women crying and men crying?
01:59:38.680 Cause I think like men kind of have to, like, I know like in my household, for example,
01:59:44.140 like men kind of like have to make a decision for a household or something.
01:59:47.340 Like you kind of have to know that this person's like reliable or mentally strong.
01:59:52.520 But it sounds like a very like culturally based take.
01:59:55.140 And I'm going to agree with you on that because like, not agree, sorry, disagree with you on
01:59:57.680 that because I was also raised in a very culturally based family, German, hardcore. 0.99
02:00:01.580 My dad was born there.
02:00:02.840 He's a Sergeant Sheriff.
02:00:03.860 Same exact way.
02:00:04.700 He was taught men don't cry, boys don't cry.
02:00:06.300 He is now two divorces later crying doing AA because he didn't express that for all the
02:00:11.960 years he was with me.
02:00:13.340 And now at the age of 21 with me, I was taught word for word.
02:00:16.720 I was raised, I was supposed to go to military school, didn't end up going because of a surgery
02:00:19.560 is that men don't cry, get on your toes, stand at attention.
02:00:23.760 He's now teaching me all these years later, he sat us down.
02:00:26.580 We just got back from a beautiful trip.
02:00:27.820 We have a beautiful relationship.
02:00:28.940 He's apologized for everything.
02:00:30.140 He told me that was some place where I went wrong because that's what, that's how I was
02:00:33.680 raised.
02:00:34.000 I passed down the generational trauma and it had a huge effect on me to the point where
02:00:37.940 it broke two different marriages because if men don't express their feelings, it comes 0.70
02:00:41.500 out in other ways, abuse, mistreatment, emotional abuse, whatever it is, divorce.
02:00:47.100 And later on in life, they have to deal with it.
02:00:48.740 I've lived that.
02:00:49.440 I've experienced it.
02:00:50.380 And it is a very culturally based thing, not as much in general American households anymore,
02:00:54.500 but with more traditional families, that's how it works.
02:00:57.620 But I'm just want to show you what, from my perspective and from all the other aspects of my
02:01:02.160 family, because it's happened in other branches of my family, that that's the outcome.
02:01:05.900 As well as my brother ending up in jail twice.
02:01:09.580 So.
02:01:09.860 And anyone suppressing their emotions.
02:01:11.580 Like as a woman, you know, if we're feeling distressed or our mental health is, you know,
02:01:16.800 not good, we're told to like go to therapy or open up to someone about it or talk about
02:01:21.340 it.
02:01:21.480 Right.
02:01:21.660 But like men aren't like openly allowed to cry or allowed to like show emotions.
02:01:26.960 And like, what does that do to a person's mental state?
02:01:29.700 What is therapy doing for women though? 0.95
02:01:32.080 Like you're just talking in circles about something that's never going to change.
02:01:36.960 Like what can a therapist really do for you?
02:01:38.820 They can't change your situation.
02:01:40.280 That's not true.
02:01:41.380 I went, you would expect them to hand you a tissue and pat you on the back.
02:01:45.580 It's coping mechanisms and like new ways of looking at things.
02:01:48.760 Open your eyes on different perspectives.
02:01:50.860 Yeah.
02:01:50.980 But there's other ways to do that.
02:01:52.540 There is other ways to do that.
02:01:53.360 And I totally respect your view if you don't agree with therapy and you don't agree with
02:01:56.780 that for yourself, you know, that's fine.
02:01:58.960 That's like, I respect your opinion, but I think like to generalize and say that therapy
02:02:03.560 doesn't work is just like, you know, it's another like big generalizing statement because
02:02:08.580 it does work for some people.
02:02:09.660 It does help some people.
02:02:10.740 And I feel like if you're talking in circles and you're not getting anywhere, that's a,
02:02:14.260 that's a bad therapist.
02:02:15.400 That's a you problem too, because you should be willing to change if you actually want to
02:02:21.200 make a difference in yourself.
02:02:23.240 There's different ways to help yourself besides therapy.
02:02:25.720 You know, it's not for everyone.
02:02:26.940 Some people might go to therapy and be like, you know, this isn't working for me.
02:02:29.920 I don't feel like I resonate with this.
02:02:31.860 And then they'll go on and do a different form of something to help with their mental
02:02:34.660 health, whether that's like art or, you know, a different form of expressing themselves,
02:02:38.620 talking to someone that they care about.
02:02:40.160 Like there's, there's different ways.
02:02:41.480 Therapy is not the only option.
02:02:42.640 And I respect people having like their own opinions on that.
02:02:45.920 But what I was going back to, like that got off topic is like, I don't think it's healthy
02:02:51.280 for anyone to suppress their emotions and what they're going through.
02:02:54.760 It's going to lead to bigger problems in the future.
02:02:57.340 I think you should know how to control your emotions though.
02:03:00.260 And I think maybe we should give women a little bit more leeway in terms of, because I mean, 1.00
02:03:07.140 hormonally, we just are different.
02:03:08.780 Like there are certain times of the month that I'm crazy and there are certain times where
02:03:12.600 I'm not.
02:03:13.420 And so I think like there is some validity to that.
02:03:16.900 And I, I don't, I know I was raised with a dad who was like very traditional to my mom,
02:03:23.840 same.
02:03:24.320 And I like respect him a lot because of how he controlled his emotions.
02:03:27.760 And it taught me a lot as well.
02:03:30.380 So I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing to, I don't want to say full on suppress your
02:03:35.040 emotions, but control them, learn how to control them.
02:03:38.380 Controlling and suppressing your emotions are two different things.
02:03:40.580 I think regulating is then the next level up from that.
02:03:44.060 Yeah.
02:03:44.300 And that'll look different for everyone.
02:03:45.560 Right.
02:03:45.780 So, yeah, I mean, I wouldn't want my husband constantly coming to me crying and I don't
02:03:52.060 think he would want the same from, for me to him to either.
02:03:55.220 Um, that's different.
02:03:56.620 Yeah.
02:03:56.840 But I think a lot of women would say that, but I don't know that they would necessarily
02:04:03.280 respect a guy that came crying to them about something that, you know, I 1000% would.
02:04:09.340 I would think that I would actually see the man as being a lot stronger for being able
02:04:13.500 to open up to me and come to me about something and like express their emotions to me in that
02:04:17.260 way.
02:04:17.440 I'd see them as being 1000% stronger for that.
02:04:19.720 So has a man ever cried to you before?
02:04:21.520 And how did it make you feel?
02:04:22.820 Many times.
02:04:23.600 And it made me feel okay.
02:04:26.480 Happy that they were able to come to me and confide in me.
02:04:30.140 Happy that, you know, they were able to come to me and I was able to be there for them
02:04:33.960 and listen to them.
02:04:35.420 And also just like glad that, you know, things are changing in our society so that they didn't
02:04:44.060 feel like that pressure to keep it all pent inside.
02:04:47.040 It's really important that you're providing that space for a man to come to you because
02:04:51.080 well, I want to be a therapist one day, right?
02:04:53.280 And male suicides are higher than any other suicide rate.
02:04:56.600 And I think that it's, yeah, opinions like that of men not being allowed to cry or express
02:05:02.740 themselves that would lead somebody to, yeah.
02:05:05.940 And I have a question for you.
02:05:07.720 What would you do if a man that you really cared about, a friend, someone you loved, a
02:05:12.940 family member came to you crying about something?
02:05:15.740 Are you going to make fun of them and be like, oh, that's not manly of you?
02:05:18.360 Or are you going to judge them?
02:05:19.740 I would never make fun of someone like while they're crying or something like that.
02:05:24.480 But men aren't supposed to cry, right?
02:05:26.580 Yeah.
02:05:26.900 I mean, like I would definitely like ask what's going on and like try to figure out what's
02:05:31.540 going on.
02:05:31.960 But I have to be honest and admit like there is a part of me that would kind of get the
02:05:36.020 ick and be kind of like, ugh.
02:05:37.740 Would you think they're weak for crying in front of you?
02:05:39.880 Yeah, probably.
02:05:41.420 But when you cry, it's okay.
02:05:42.700 And you're not weak for that because you're a woman, right?
02:05:44.660 Like, I guess like she said, like women have like hormonal stuff going on too sometimes. 1.00
02:05:49.740 But men also have feelings.
02:05:51.120 What you're saying right now is that their feelings are not valid to cry when we're on
02:05:55.300 our periods.
02:05:57.660 What?
02:05:58.760 She asked if it was okay to only cry when we're on our periods.
02:06:01.880 I think it's definitely okay for men to cry.
02:06:07.140 Um, but if you're doing, if you're just as emotional as me, it's going to be harder for
02:06:12.000 me to respect you because I need someone to ground me.
02:06:14.960 Um, like I'm not asking for him to be like my therapist or anything, but like, I, I don't
02:06:20.280 know.
02:06:20.400 I feel like it is harder for a woman to respect a guy if he's just as emotional as her.
02:06:25.980 And that's why I think like something can be true for a woman. 0.99
02:06:28.560 Like it might be okay for me to constantly cry about things because I just happen to be
02:06:32.160 an emotional person.
02:06:32.920 But if that was the same for a guy, because he's a guy and this might seem unfair to some
02:06:37.140 people, um, it's, it's just, it would be harder, at least speaking for myself, it'd
02:06:41.860 be harder to respect him.
02:06:43.540 Um, and not to say he can't come to me if he ever needs to, um, or he can't be vulnerable
02:06:49.180 because I think vulnerability, vulnerability is like very important in a relationship.
02:06:54.000 Um, but at this, there is kind of that double standard if you will, but it's, it just goes
02:06:59.400 back into the different roles.
02:07:00.580 I'd like to challenge that though, because that gets into different people and different
02:07:04.420 connections.
02:07:04.900 Every person has different needs and wants in a relationship, in a friendship, whatever.
02:07:09.180 If you have your own mental health stuff, like say you're struggling with depression,
02:07:14.700 anxiety, whatever, and you're going to your partner a lot crying or, you know, just expressing
02:07:21.220 that to them that you're in like emotional distress, you might not be able to take on the emotional
02:07:26.000 distress of your partner being in that same headspace.
02:07:28.740 Right.
02:07:29.940 And I think that's person to person.
02:07:31.280 That's not like man to woman.
02:07:32.760 Like the man needs to stand up and be the bigger part.
02:07:34.960 Like I don't, I just think like if two people are both in mental, like bad mental head spaces,
02:07:40.060 like it's not, it might not work out because.
02:07:42.700 I think, but even if they're in an ideal mental headspace, I don't think it changes anything
02:07:47.620 for me.
02:07:48.160 Like there's variations, but I think there is usually a rule of like typically if a man
02:07:54.240 is just as emotional as his partner, um, then typically she, it's going to be harder
02:08:00.900 for her to respect him.
02:08:02.000 I think there's like different times you might be going through different things in your life
02:08:05.640 and it might make it, you know, harder to balance.
02:08:07.760 There's a balance in different relationships.
02:08:09.360 But I think again, there's, there's usually a general rule that applies.
02:08:14.400 And I just, from what I've experienced and seen with my girlfriends and stuff, I, I just
02:08:19.860 find that to be true.
02:08:21.100 I agree.
02:08:21.600 That's kind of like a biological thing almost that women are like most women, again, a 1.00
02:08:26.220 situational are like programmed to want to feel safe and protected.
02:08:29.400 And like, yes, like I said before, I believe that men should be able to cry when they need 1.00
02:08:33.100 to express their feelings in a vulnerable space with the right person.
02:08:35.340 And again, situation to situation for me, I don't want a man that's crying every day 1.00
02:08:40.000 all the time.
02:08:40.560 I wouldn't accept that.
02:08:41.580 That's a personal.
02:08:42.480 Exactly.
02:08:43.020 Right.
02:08:43.160 Yeah.
02:08:43.520 And it's like, that's, for me, that's really rooted on, I value masculinity a lot.
02:08:47.060 Not that I really fully believe to like the stereotypical definitions of that.
02:08:51.160 But for example, a long time ago, I went on one date with this guy and then I went on
02:08:55.860 another one.
02:08:56.360 And on the second date, he just started breaking down, crying in my arms, like bawling about
02:09:01.360 how he misses his mother that lives in Florida.
02:09:05.340 And I was out after that because I don't tolerate that because I am more of a strong
02:09:10.760 personality and I don't want the roles in that category to be reversed for myself.
02:09:17.160 It is a to each their own thing, but I think just biologically, at least I'm stuck to my
02:09:21.000 biological components that that's what I need.
02:09:23.300 So for some people, it might be different.
02:09:24.840 The woman might be more masculine and that's a whole nother conversation. 0.99
02:09:27.380 I think it's sad that we're saying that like, well, some people are saying that it's masculine,
02:09:37.540 it's less masculine to cry.
02:09:39.640 That's crazy to me.
02:09:40.820 It's a human emotion.
02:09:42.520 It's like, I'm sweating right now.
02:09:44.320 Yeah.
02:09:44.640 And people are like, oh, she's sweating.
02:09:46.720 You know what I'm like?
02:09:47.280 Right.
02:09:47.760 I'm a human being.
02:09:48.960 I have sweat pores.
02:09:49.780 That's kind of like saying girls don't fart or poop. 0.98
02:09:53.820 Well, they shouldn't.
02:09:55.420 Well, they shouldn't.
02:09:55.880 I wish I didn't, but I do because I can't control that.
02:09:59.760 And I feel like saying that a man who cries, I mean, I understand if it can, anybody crying
02:10:05.900 too much is annoying, like even from a child.
02:10:08.540 Or trauma-dumping like that, you know, there's a time in place.
02:10:11.600 There's a time in place.
02:10:12.120 Did anybody else want to weigh in on the women should have three-fifths? 1.00
02:10:16.340 I disagree with that.
02:10:17.840 Mai, what do you think?
02:10:19.900 I totally disagree with that.
02:10:21.480 Why is that?
02:10:21.960 Why do you disagree?
02:10:23.260 Because it's like women are equal to men.
02:10:25.200 There's no reason why we should have three-fifths of a vote.
02:10:27.960 Like, but her reason, I guess there's some way I can empathize with her.
02:10:31.400 Maybe she's just not surrounded by whatever competent woman, like she's saying.
02:10:35.720 But like, I grew up in a very educated area.
02:10:37.920 Most people, their parents were both worked.
02:10:42.080 Like, I see women in a very, like, highlight.
02:10:44.680 Like, I see that they are capable of doing anything just as much as a man.
02:10:49.100 And like, yeah, obviously men are stronger than women.
02:10:51.460 But like, mentally, women can be as strong as men.
02:10:53.940 Like, there's nothing about our, like, gender that has any difference with that.
02:10:58.920 Well, I have some slight disagreements, a little bit there.
02:11:03.540 I think on average, men and women are equal in intelligence, on average.
02:11:10.600 However, there's something called the, and it's, I don't even know if it's a theory anymore.
02:11:14.420 I think it's been proven.
02:11:15.460 There's something called the greater male variability myth. 1.00
02:11:18.660 Sorry, did I just, Freudian slip that shit, myth? 0.99
02:11:21.400 Sorry, theory. 0.99
02:11:22.760 Greater male variability theory.
02:11:24.440 So, on the averages, you actually have more women in terms of where the average IQ lands. 1.00
02:11:31.000 Mary, can you Google greater male variability hypothesis or theory or whatever?
02:11:35.360 We'll show you the thing just to demonstrate it.
02:11:38.680 So, but what you have happening, though, is on average, men and women are about equal in terms of intelligence.
02:11:49.440 But you have a greater proportion. 1.00
02:11:51.960 Like, there are more really, really stupid men than there are really, really stupid women. 1.00
02:11:56.560 However, coinciding with that, you have more really, really intelligent men than you do have really, really intelligent women. 1.00
02:12:06.960 Interesting.
02:12:07.480 On the average, if you average it out, it's the same.
02:12:10.800 Pull it up.
02:12:11.540 Yes, pull it up, please.
02:12:12.960 Click on the thing.
02:12:16.000 Click on it.
02:12:16.580 So, the blue would be women and the green would be men. 1.00
02:12:23.000 So, what you end up having is there's more really stupid people as men. 1.00
02:12:27.460 There's more really smart people as men. 1.00
02:12:29.620 But there's more women who have, you know, in that center. 1.00
02:12:35.400 So, this is why, for example, in certain endeavors where it's not physical at all, like chess, for example, you don't see women.
02:12:44.940 Now, you might say, well, it's women have less of a propensity to want to play chess. 1.00
02:12:49.340 They're less interested in it than men. 0.94
02:12:51.860 But they wouldn't really explain in a game where there's actually no physical component to it.
02:12:57.700 It's all mental.
02:12:59.160 Why don't we see any, like, in terms of, like, grandmasters and stuff, women can't really compete with men on chess. 1.00
02:13:08.780 Why is that?
02:13:09.700 They can't.
02:13:10.180 Now, by the way, I don't agree with her on her little voting thing, but just wanted to at least provide that clarity.
02:13:15.440 I don't know if you disagree with me on that, though.
02:13:16.980 What do you think?
02:13:17.900 I mean, how many, like, women, though, are, like, raised to, are, like, encouraged to play chess? 0.99
02:13:23.520 Like, that's the thing.
02:13:24.240 Like, I feel like chess is something that, I mean, I grew up to play chess, but it was never, like, to...
02:13:30.120 Well, doesn't your own anecdote defeat?
02:13:31.580 Well, but it was never, I was never taught to be that passionate, just so I can be able to play it, like, play pool, play chess, like, and any, I can just have those talents.
02:13:39.940 But, like, what woman is pushed and, like, like, to only pursue chess and to, like, make that, like, her only goal of life? 0.99
02:13:46.960 I mean, my counter would be what women are precluded from exploring chess. 1.00
02:13:50.660 It's kind of funny because, like I said, this is European household I grew up in.
02:13:54.360 My brother was taught from a very young age to play chess, and I was not invited.
02:13:57.940 In general, like, you see in the chess, like, competitions, it's a lot of people from, like, Eastern Europe, young men.
02:14:05.300 It is kind of, like, a traditional thing, actually, believe it or not.
02:14:08.080 But this is just one very obscure, tiny example we're talking about chess.
02:14:11.000 But I think, in general, certain hobbies are pushed more on men, and certain hobbies are pushed more on women.
02:14:15.460 If it was the case, you would hope that you would see, like, it's, perhaps it is the case that there's, well, it is the case, that there is a higher proportion of men who play chess.
02:14:24.780 I don't, I wouldn't just default to, well, women aren't being pushed into it. 1.00
02:14:29.700 I would say women have a lacking of interest in those sorts of things. 1.00
02:14:33.460 In the same way that there's no preclusion from women having an interest in women's sports.
02:14:38.880 Explain to me the great societal conspiracy that prevents women from caring about women's sports.
02:14:47.600 There's absolutely none, yet it is the reality, both for men's sports and for women's sports.
02:14:52.740 Women just overwhelmingly seem to not care about viewing sports in general, whether it's women's sports, whether it's men's sports.
02:14:59.840 So, look, there may be a case that, yes, maybe they're pushing their boys a little bit more, but you still have some women. 0.54
02:15:06.080 And you would expect to see some women who did get pushed at an early age, who have been playing since childhood, who are highly intelligent, who are exceptionally skilled at chess.
02:15:17.060 You would expect to see some of them have the capacity to occasionally beat, you know, some of these top chess players, but they just don't.
02:15:24.640 They're incapable of doing it.
02:15:26.780 Now, look, I'm not saying it's impossible.
02:15:28.300 There could be some superstar female chess player that comes along again. 1.00
02:15:32.720 But this idea that just to dismiss, you know, the physical realm, well, of course, when it comes to sports, men are physically stronger than women.
02:15:40.560 But I do think that we do see some variability in terms.
02:15:45.400 And by the way, I mean, you're going to have to determine, those of you who are upset by the following statement, I mean, that's on Wikipedia if you want to look into it, the greater male variability thing.
02:15:54.240 And you're going to have to determine what's actually more sexist. 0.99
02:15:57.160 Because on one hand, I'm saying, well, there's more men who are way fucking dumber than women. 1.00
02:16:03.300 But there's also men who are way smarter than women. 1.00
02:16:06.260 So you got to kind of, am I the sexist against men, against women?
02:16:11.700 I don't know.
02:16:12.000 But I feel like the most important thing, like, an average person, like, the roles of, like, a doctor, a lawyer, like, all those average roles, like, yeah, chess, but, like, how much does chess really, like, impact society?
02:16:22.620 I feel like day-to-day roles, like, women and men, they are both equally equipped to do what?
02:16:28.160 Yeah.
02:16:28.180 Like, if I'm saying, like, yeah, that theory honestly makes sense. 1.00
02:16:32.060 Like, yeah, there are more stupid men, and there are probably a lot more. 1.00
02:16:34.380 Maybe you know some. 1.00
02:16:34.960 There are probably, like, a lot more, like, geniuses that are always going to be more men.
02:16:40.860 Yeah.
02:16:41.060 But then day-to-day, like, who's, like, in society and who's, like, really contributing to society, it's men and women have equal roles in that regard.
02:16:49.880 Well, so you mentioned doctors, lawyers, I guess.
02:16:54.700 I think I overheard maybe previously.
02:16:57.340 I think just I'll give you, like, I guess one charitable position.
02:17:00.220 I think sometimes female doctors can have, sometimes have a tendency to have a better bedside manner, which can be good in a medical setting. 1.00
02:17:12.080 They can sometimes be a bit more open in some ways.
02:17:17.460 But I don't know if I totally agree with the men and women equally contribute to society.
02:17:23.900 Well, more just, like, we can work the same jobs, like, in those, like, just, like, the average day-to-day jobs.
02:17:28.960 We can work the same jobs, but we have certain strengths and certain weaknesses.
02:17:33.060 Well, I mean, I would say that it depends what we mean by keeping society functioning or running.
02:17:40.960 My position is a lot of the jobs that women occupy, they're, I mean, it depends what we mean by important. 1.00
02:17:51.020 In terms of having society function, though, I'm not actually sure that women participate nearly to the same degree that men do.
02:18:00.660 So, for example, telecommunications, water systems, waste collection, firefighting, you know, physical labor jobs, transportation jobs.
02:18:14.960 So, how is it that you guys get the ingredients for your boba?
02:18:19.880 Well, do you think that women are capable of... 1.00
02:18:21.120 How is it, so the farmers, the men who transport it, the men who work on oil rigs, that women are definitely not have offshore oil rigs.
02:18:29.820 Women have zero interest in doing that. 1.00
02:18:31.720 They don't, I don't even think they physically can do it.
02:18:33.920 So, if you, actually, you know what, Mary, pull up, Mary, go to Discord, go to Men at Work tab.
02:18:41.440 It's under resources, okay?
02:18:43.260 Men at Work, you're going to play, we're going to look at the most recent three.
02:18:48.800 When it comes to the critical infrastructure jobs, the proportion of men that are in the jobs that actually make society function,
02:18:57.920 it's overwhelmingly men, anywhere from 80% all the way to 100%.
02:19:02.120 But it takes a village, right?
02:19:05.800 So, like, what about, like, the nurses when they get hurt? 0.54
02:19:08.140 I'm pretty sure, like, at least in my industry, it's female-dominated. 1.00
02:19:10.700 Yeah, there's a predominance of women in some healthcare positions. 1.00
02:19:15.660 I feel like if you're comparing, like, blue-collar jobs, yeah, that's different.
02:19:19.180 That is, like, a male-dominated.
02:19:20.560 But then there's also, there are, like, industries where it's woman-dominated. 1.00
02:19:25.440 Like, I feel like it's equal in that regard.
02:19:26.980 And also, like, I don't know if you...
02:19:29.100 Sorry, go ahead.
02:19:29.860 Like, more, like, it's equal, like, there's women-dominated, like, industries and then male. 0.82
02:19:34.440 And, like, as a society, it equals out.
02:19:36.440 I think part of...
02:19:37.080 Well, hold on, hold on, hold on.
02:19:38.020 Let me finish a few points here.
02:19:41.040 It doesn't equal out, though.
02:19:42.620 So, it doesn't equal out in the following way.
02:19:46.160 And, look, I'm not saying that women's contribute... 1.00
02:19:47.540 Obviously, women are a necessary function of society. 1.00
02:19:51.380 But in terms of women's careers and professions, if, for example, without any preparation, we were to snap our fingers and we did a comparative analysis. 0.96
02:19:59.520 If all men disappeared versus all women disappeared and the impact that the doubt...
02:20:03.920 Let's put aside, like, that would obviously suck to lose mothers and wives and girlfriends and daughters and friends and et cetera, et cetera.
02:20:13.260 That would obviously be terrible, catastrophic, and there wouldn't really be a way to reproduce the species from there.
02:20:18.160 But putting all that aside, in terms of the representation of the various professions that men and women...
02:20:23.760 What?
02:20:25.140 How's that?
02:20:25.620 Okay.
02:20:26.060 Don't distract me, please.
02:20:28.620 In terms of the varying professions that men and women are in, because of men's over-representation in critical infrastructure...
02:20:37.160 So, what you would have happen if men and women were to just instantly disappear, doing a comparison of both, it would obviously suck.
02:20:46.120 But society would, you know, there'd be disruption in certain fields, the medical field, education field.
02:20:55.440 But these aren't typically quite as critical as something like people who work in telecommunications, people who manage the electrical grid, people who manage water, people who manage...
02:21:09.120 How do you make sure your water's clean?
02:21:11.760 How does it get to your house?
02:21:12.700 Et cetera, et cetera.
02:21:14.040 My boyfriend works in telecommunication.
02:21:15.460 And there's...
02:21:16.100 My boyfriend works in telecommunication with Frontier, and there's not a single woman who works with him.
02:21:20.900 I mean...
02:21:21.360 And he said he's only seen, like, one.
02:21:21.940 You can see this with your own eyes.
02:21:23.180 When you pass a construction site, when you see men who are working out in the heat, you ever see women?
02:21:29.380 Like, every time I pass it, like, men who are in the high-vis jackets and the hard hats, I never see women.
02:21:38.420 And so my position would be, if you were to get rid of all men, you'd basically have complete catastrophe, cascading failures to the point where women will be basically have to depart en masse, all urban centers within a few days. 0.98
02:21:58.840 And then you'll have, like, within a month, I think 50% of women are dead. 0.99
02:22:03.060 But because you just aren't involved, you think the modern city woman is going to survive? 1.00
02:22:10.720 No.
02:22:10.960 Like, look, some women will survive, but it's going to be complete catastrophe. 1.00
02:22:14.980 All women disappear? 1.00
02:22:16.620 Again, it's going to suck. 1.00
02:22:17.960 That'd be a terrible thing.
02:22:18.860 But in terms of their lack of representation in critical infrastructure jobs, you're going to have impacts in, like, the medical field a little bit.
02:22:27.660 But, like, society, as we experience it and enjoy it, in terms of food supplies, oil supplies, electricity, lights, air conditioning, or if you're in a really cold region, heaven forbid this were to happen in the middle of winter,
02:22:42.760 or, yeah, any woman in a cold area is dead within four days, five days, maybe.
02:22:50.220 So I think that's what the difference here.
02:22:54.000 Now, I don't know if you agree with that.
02:22:55.520 I don't know if you think the women are going to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and be boss babes and figure out how to run electrical plants, nuclear plants. 1.00
02:23:04.060 They're going to figure out how to figure out the wastewater.
02:23:06.620 They're going to all of a sudden become truckers and be able to figure this out.
02:23:09.920 Now, there's a level of knowledge that uniquely lies in men that women would not have the requisite time to be able to prepare for some sort of... 0.83
02:23:19.720 Now, look, if you prepared women, you gave women a year to... 0.99
02:23:24.400 Okay, all men are disappearing in a year. 0.92
02:23:26.780 Then I think it might be okay, but snap your fingers.
02:23:30.040 For men, yeah, I mean, it's the end of the species. 0.99
02:23:32.060 But all the comforts of modernity, those would be maintained if all women were to disappear. 1.00
02:23:38.220 All the comforts you guys take for granted would disappear within a week.
02:23:43.240 Your internet is gone within a few days.
02:23:45.660 Electricity, gone.
02:23:47.020 Gas, gone.
02:23:48.360 Drinkable water, gone.
02:23:50.080 Running water, gone.
02:23:52.980 Firefighters, fires are going to break out eventually within 24 to 48 hours.
02:23:58.100 You're not going to be able to fight the fires because that's predominantly men. 1.00
02:24:01.100 And you're going to have to evacuate major urban hubs because of the fucking rampant uncontrolled fires. 0.83
02:24:08.240 And your water and electricity is going to be off.
02:24:10.320 And there's going to be massive food shortages. 0.97
02:24:13.380 Probably some badass women are going to go to Costco and take fucking everything and have some guns. 1.00
02:24:18.000 And they're going to keep that shit. 1.00
02:24:19.900 And then the other women, I don't know, you're going to have to forage in the fucking concrete jungle of Los Angeles. 1.00
02:24:25.020 You're going to be mega fucked. 1.00
02:24:26.480 I don't know. 1.00
02:24:26.820 Anyways, I was rambling there.
02:24:27.780 I don't know if you have any thoughts on any of that.
02:24:30.440 I feel like wouldn't it be harder for a blue-collar, like a person who has a blue-collar job to work like in the medical field or like a white-collar job rather than someone who's in the white-collar or like medical field to transition to a blue-collar job.
02:24:45.540 Would it be harder?
02:24:46.900 Yeah, like wouldn't it be harder for a blue-collar person to transition into the medical field or like a white-collar job rather than someone who's a white-collar or like in the medical field to transition to a blue-collar job.
02:24:57.780 we still have men that do both white collar and men who do both but if you're i mean like honestly
02:25:03.720 the equivalent of a man who works a blue collar job is a woman who are estheticians or like 0.98
02:25:09.020 hairstylists like that's just what we're pushed into but i feel like if you are picking a blue
02:25:13.400 i don't know if you're pushed into it you pick those things no i think we are i think gender
02:25:17.580 is a performance to some extent i think like women because they prioritize like group order 1.00
02:25:22.220 and social harmony there's this peer pressure that they have when they're amongst each other
02:25:25.660 to be kind of fake like say things like oh my god girl you look so beautiful and like she's a whale
02:25:30.040 like i just have to do with what we were just talking about i'm talking about gender is a
02:25:33.820 performance like i'm talking about how women feel peer pressure to say things that they don't really 0.70
02:25:38.580 mean like that's one aspect of it like for example like how certain hobbies are pushed on to certain
02:25:43.540 genders like every time a girl gets a birthday gift it's either like jewelry fuzzy socks or lip gloss 1.00
02:25:48.860 but when a guy gets a gift it's like video games or like a book about science or history i want
02:25:53.400 jewelry fuzzy socks and lip gloss but there's some girls like me that don't want that yeah there's
02:25:58.340 but but a lot of them do but and there's guys but how much of that is peer pressure by society
02:26:03.480 how much of that is peer pressure from society so are we just not allowed to like it like if you
02:26:08.360 don't that's on you but like like you said this sorry really quick who wants pizza oh thank you
02:26:13.420 we have some pizza one two three four anybody else can you get gluten-free pizza oh sorry i have
02:26:21.740 celiac disease it's not like i don't choose it can you hand out the pizza for the people who raise
02:26:26.300 their hand sorry i didn't mean to interrupt you can i just scoot your mic this way yeah and then
02:26:30.840 straighten your mic tilt down i don't want to die sorry i didn't mean to interrupt you do you want
02:26:35.260 to finish your point um i don't remember my thought but sorry my bad no worries i just realized the 0.96
02:26:40.320 pizza was getting cold back there so oh shit there's no good you were asking her like good 0.81
02:26:44.220 does anybody remember what to like those we were talking about how she i think she was making the 0.98
02:26:49.260 point that well she thinks that women are pressured into certain fields right yeah by like each other 1.00
02:26:56.240 mostly what do you mean by that how do we pressure each other you don't seem very pressured because
02:27:01.400 like you said you don't like that things and that's okay but yeah i mean i don't feel pressured but
02:27:05.600 i don't i wouldn't say i'm like like i don't represent all women you know like i just feel
02:27:10.280 like when i'm around other women there's always this like pressure there's like restraint that we
02:27:14.200 can't say what we really think maybe you're just not around like people who like the same things in
02:27:18.920 you maybe you just haven't found your clarifying question for you are you saying because women feel
02:27:23.800 like we because we feel like we need to perform because we want jewelry and fuzzy socks or what have
02:27:28.660 you that tying in with what um brian was saying um with industry is that because that's why we choose
02:27:34.660 jobs because of our of what we gender orient ourselves towards does my question make sense
02:27:41.640 like so we like fuzzy socks does that mean we're like choosing a girlier job like being like a makeup
02:27:46.740 stylist yeah i think so okay but i think they did studies on this and i don't remember what country
02:27:51.640 specifically but it was a country that was heavily pushing women to do traditionally masculine jobs 1.00
02:27:59.580 um and it actually showed that even when we're pushing for women to do to be in stem to be cops to
02:28:07.340 do whatever they actually chose still to do what we were already doing just being teachers nurses they
02:28:13.960 still chose overwhelmingly professions that historically women traditionally have done so even i don't know 0.79
02:28:21.740 that so you think it's a biological component i think we just have different interests and i think
02:28:26.840 again in countries that have that even when you push women to do certain things sometimes we just
02:28:32.680 did everyone get a pizza is there four maybe
02:28:37.380 there's one more right did you want it or who wanted you wanted a piece right yeah but then she 0.98
02:28:49.020 you wanted a piece no there should be one more right mary okay um that one's yours right did you
02:28:55.700 want no oh wait we have one two three four i thought we want oh so maybe pass that one to her 0.99
02:29:03.140 no that's for her oh that's for you okay yeah so one more mary uh here we have a chat but we'll
02:29:08.460 continue on with the thank you based justin based justin donated one hundred dollars how many of
02:29:14.940 these ladies have run a 240 volt circuit in bent pipe or sweat copper for plumbing or dug trenches 1.00
02:29:21.880 or engineered anything mechanical or even started a fire on purpose yeah
02:29:28.780 yeah justin thank you for the uh tts appreciate it man base justin w's in the chat for him
02:29:38.020 uh by the way this isn't like to some dunk on women like i just think it's the reality there's a 1.00
02:29:43.740 nature and nurture component to it so i think for a lot of these jobs the reality is uh i think
02:29:49.680 there's a nurture component so like a societal thing where uh women are either not pushed or 1.00
02:29:55.540 you know but there's also i think in sweden or one of the scandinavian countries where you have
02:30:01.540 basically the most egalitarian uh viewpoints and the most egalitarian societies you actually see a
02:30:08.840 tendency for women to actually in terms of the job differences women tend to actually go more 0.98
02:30:15.320 towards the i guess i don't know if more feminine jobs is the right characterization even in societies 1.00
02:30:21.140 that are more equal so as a society gets more equal you actually you actually see women going more
02:30:27.060 towards the more traditionally feminine careers whereas like in a country like india for example 0.99
02:30:32.600 my understanding is you'll that's when you actually end up seeing more women like engineers 1.00
02:30:37.300 you see more women in the sort of the fields that were viewed more historically as male dominated i 0.99
02:30:44.780 think culturally in indian culture the men tend to like they kind of tend to be like pussies for lack 1.00
02:30:50.760 of a better word they're like mama's boys and so the women tend to be more macho for that reason than 1.00
02:30:54.980 their men well i don't i don't know anything about that but um ultimately uh where were we with all of
02:31:02.220 that um well also i just think women just don't have the physical they don't have an interest in 1.00
02:31:10.200 a lot of these things and they just don't have the physical strength to do it they don't have the
02:31:16.920 physical strength to do a lot of these jobs well men are like physically stronger than women yeah can
02:31:21.800 i have you tilt your mic down and straighten it um yeah i think that men are physically stronger than
02:31:28.120 women and i think that yeah that's a main reason why these jobs are more predominantly you know done 1.00
02:31:34.960 by men and maybe perform better by men but i do think that there are you know right to to every i 0.65
02:31:40.640 mean to every like stereotype or to every like you know that it's a field predominantly run by men like
02:31:47.360 there are women in it like you know well i guess um the question could go uh hmm i'm wondering how to 1.00
02:31:55.740 phrase this hold on let me think this here let's play the videos really quick mary let's play those
02:32:04.540 videos and then i can have you jump in the three videos uh just play it i don't even know if there
02:32:16.860 is sound but so like look women don't want to do this they don't want to do it most people like 1.00
02:32:25.660 it's not just oh the evil there's a conspiracy theory of men who are holding women back from
02:32:30.540 doing these jobs even if it was like completely there were completely everything's uh fair in
02:32:35.880 society women still just wouldn't want to do these jobs uh and look i think maybe that points to 1.00
02:32:42.700 it could be a bit of a privilege but actually hey i don't want to do that i don't want to do that 0.98
02:32:47.820 shit that shit is dangerous so maybe women are smarter women are more aware of their own self 1.00
02:32:53.100 preservation uh by the way the you know we talk about wage gap we talk about the women are paid 1.00
02:32:58.960 less than men as a gap observation there's a different gap observation called the workplace fatality
02:33:06.260 gap the workplace injury gap men are like 93 percent or something of workplace fatalities
02:33:12.260 are men 90 something percent of workplace injuries are men so there's all kinds of gaps but uh play the
02:33:18.800 next one yeah start from the beginning i guess play it all right so there these guys are in like
02:33:28.100 i don't know where i think they're in a it's gonna pan down here in a sec but they're in
02:33:35.460 like a it looks like a some sort of silo of some sort i don't know if it's an i don't know anybody in
02:33:42.520 the chat know what that is exactly i don't know they're in some kind of silo of some kind
02:33:48.240 now i'm i'm not fan of heights but that's fucking insane okay these guys have uh and look there's all 0.94
02:33:56.720 kinds of videos we could show let's just do the next one 0.87
02:33:58.660 yeah that's fine uh this one so it's raining on a i believe this is a offshore oil platform i think
02:34:09.840 go ahead play it wait wait pause it audio please yeah give us audio please video tab
02:34:16.440 that's hot
02:34:33.920 all right women don't want to do that i don't even think they can physically maybe like 1.00
02:34:41.720 looking at that last video see how like the guy's friend was like cheering him on in the back
02:34:46.120 maybe like men doing these jobs it also comes with like a sense of pride and ego that they're
02:34:50.400 able to fulfill these responsibilities so maybe like like you said women some women most women 1.00
02:34:55.920 don't want to do that and that's true but maybe some men do want to do that because it like sure
02:35:00.280 like i said it helps their ego so well i mean
02:35:03.360 yeah sure but i don't think it i guess we were she was talking about she like and i don't really
02:35:11.480 agree with her totally on this she wants women to have three-fifths of the vote that men have um 0.93
02:35:17.580 and then we were talking about i think you were mentioning mahi that that women's uh in terms of 0.99
02:35:23.800 profession professional contribution to society is equal to men
02:35:27.740 i don't think it is now i'm not saying women don't contribute societally through their profession 0.88
02:35:35.000 but i mean can i ask you a question um knowing i mean maybe you disagree about the representation of
02:35:43.220 men in these fields but would you i don't know how to frame this let's just say we were to instantly
02:35:50.820 and i use this not literally but figuratively let's say we just instantly we didn't get rid of any of
02:35:57.360 the people but we got rid of their jobs like and i don't know some weird hypothetical we instantly
02:36:03.620 nuke figuratively all of women's professions like that that all the not women excuse me not women's 1.00
02:36:11.260 professions all jobs that women currently have we just nuke them like they just disappear they're gone 1.00
02:36:16.720 or but no women disappear the demographics stay the same nobody dies or you nuke all men jobs
02:36:24.620 instantly in which society would you rather live in you mean male dominated or female dominated well
02:36:31.760 you're not getting rid of the entire job just whatever job all women in the world currently have 1.00
02:36:37.180 those jobs are just and you can't replace them just instantly gone like no more nurses no i think
02:36:43.460 both of them will eventually die out like maybe the one where you nuke women's jobs because women 1.00
02:36:48.540 will most of the nurses teach like nurses like if you go to hospital then men they're just dying like 0.83
02:36:53.720 it's done for them but then yeah woman like the blue collar jobs men work them maybe will die more 1.00
02:36:58.400 fast but then women men will eventually also die like there's no society that's a little bit better 1.00
02:37:03.520 i think that's why can't a man be a nurse well i think they can't i'm not saying they can't men and
02:37:09.180 women can be whatever they want but there are women yeah there are women that's a woman just 1.00
02:37:12.940 dominated well i think in this hypothetical i think in this hypothetical we would have to grant
02:37:17.580 that you can't replace with the other gender like these jobs are just gone so there are some male
02:37:24.140 nurses they remain but yes you can't refill the female jobs with men i mean also there are some
02:37:31.580 women like blue collar workers but i'm just saying like each society is like doomed i would rather 1.00
02:37:37.000 i would do neither because each of them are you had to pick one though the man's society would last
02:37:42.040 longer because a lot of women no you don't kill you you don't know in the life yourself a lot of 0.95
02:37:46.260 women's jobs exist solely to serve other women like eyelash extensions facials hair i believe that 0.99
02:37:53.960 the men's world where all the women got evaporated they would last a lot longer because there are still 1.00
02:38:01.440 male nurses i know because i see them but not as many as women but i think that the overall arch of
02:38:07.720 like what men are capable of doing like they can cover a day-to-day woman's job much easier than a 0.97
02:38:13.300 man and then a woman can go working on the oil rig which doesn't even exist any ways so like it seems
02:38:18.760 like this just boils down to uh to mahi to your point let's say we just actually the entire health care
02:38:26.900 field was completely uh figuratively nuked wow so even men there are no men in the health care field
02:38:36.080 either uh this would obviously be really bad people would die really catastrophic uh but ultimately
02:38:43.820 i don't actually think that there would be a great deal of disruption actually to society
02:38:52.120 as compared to if it's like okay well let's just go ahead and nuke uh you know the people that work
02:39:01.160 in uh you know those who oversee the electrical grid telecommunications oil refinery transportation
02:39:07.780 farming all these things like yeah it would obviously a lot of people would die people wouldn't be able
02:39:12.800 to get medical intervention a lot of people would die even people who are in those critical fields who
02:39:17.880 have cancer who have ongoing medical needs uh yeah that's gonna have an impact but i think society as
02:39:24.460 we enjoy it running water electricity plumbing cell phone internet those things persist so like
02:39:33.020 it would be catastrophic it would be very bad i wouldn't say catastrophic but i feel like it'd be very
02:39:37.560 bad but but then i feel like a lot of blue-collared people would not want to go to work because if you
02:39:42.300 just know there's no health care system like oh if i get hurt there i can't be treated a lot of people
02:39:47.460 wouldn't want to put themselves at risk yeah well i feel like people have been doing physical labor
02:39:53.080 jobs throughout all human history yeah there was not good health care like 300 years ago i don't
02:39:57.820 think that's why like okay i'm just gonna get some leeches put on me okay but i don't know i feel
02:40:03.140 like if there was like obviously maybe it wouldn't immediately society wouldn't immediately be gone
02:40:08.540 but it would slowly like people wouldn't want to take as many risks like people wouldn't want to put
02:40:12.520 themselves in danger like even yeah ever there's always been dangerous jobs but you always kind of knew
02:40:16.940 like oh i can get help maybe in a way but now if that whole thing is gone people wouldn't want to
02:40:22.280 put themselves in danger for nothing maybe i i think men i mean obviously the economy chugs along so
02:40:28.820 people still are going to go to work they still need to make money they still need to buy food
02:40:33.180 have housing so um it would be bad it'd definitely be bad a lot of people would die but i i don't see a
02:40:40.480 total societal collapse is what i'm getting at whereas if you start chipping away at the
02:40:46.560 jobs in which men disproportionately have i've already mentioned them you know telecoms those
02:40:53.740 who oversee electrical grid water systems uh trucking farming etc um you do see you do see
02:41:02.600 societal collapse if we nuke figuratively speaking uh male dominated jobs but not female dominated jobs
02:41:11.400 i disagree i disagree you disagree i feel like if all the men disappeared yeah things would be
02:41:19.440 horrible for sure but i mean things haven't always been the way they are now society has existed before
02:41:27.540 all of these jobs so things will get figured out eventually uh well here's i i guess my
02:41:34.320 so some women will be able to adapt but i think uh i think all the women sitting at this table 0.85
02:41:42.260 most of you have probably lived comfortable suburban or urban lives most of you probably
02:41:48.540 have never foraged food in the forest most of you are not survivalists so i would say like yes
02:41:54.800 historically we didn't have a lot of the comforts that we have now we didn't have electricity we didn't
02:41:59.340 have running water we didn't have agriculture we didn't have farming we didn't have all these things
02:42:03.420 um but people were adapted to it hundreds or thousands of years ago they knew how to live
02:42:10.520 under those confines then but it's like you have so many and by the way men also have lived
02:42:16.140 very comfortable lives too i'm not saying like okay if all if this happened in a scenario where
02:42:21.620 men and women were affected uh a lot of men are not survivalists a lot of men don't know how to start
02:42:28.360 a fire i think men might fare a little bit better because of their physical advantage 0.98
02:42:32.080 jesus christ wait cap it bro you're are you drunk what the fuck can you fix it please 1.00
02:42:38.340 you put me in the chair that everybody has okay no it's mary mary you did it 0.99
02:42:43.280 can you just scoot behind her so she can fix it mary just fix that please sorry guys one sec here 0.96
02:42:53.320 that was absolutely no it's not your fault yeah it's a tight situation it's all good um hold on let me
02:43:02.100 let some chats come through sorry for the mary audio josh donated 100 can we go around the table
02:43:11.000 and answer when you die what do you want to be remembered for and by who most of us are forgotten
02:43:17.280 by everyone except our families in death so what's important to you uh we'll do that in just
02:43:22.240 a moment josh thank you for your message hold on yo josh uh appreciate that thank you i'm gonna let
02:43:29.760 this one come through from justin then we're gonna answer that one okay josh i hope i didn't trigger it
02:43:34.700 twice we're about to see based justin donated 100 all women's jobs are gone men then get paid more 1.00
02:43:43.040 and we can now return to establishing families raising children on a single income imagine that
02:43:49.040 can you pass it down that way i was i was thinking that same thing like okay i work in child care
02:43:55.580 and if you and it's predominantly female if it disappeared then more women would just be at home 1.00
02:44:03.900 with their kids which is not a bad thing base justin donated 100 can you take that women's
02:44:10.560 jobs are gone men then get paid more and we can now return to establishing families and raising 0.68
02:44:16.280 children on a single income imagine uh going around the table when you die what do you want to be
02:44:23.860 remembered for and by who quick answer please okay i want to be remembered by the people that i love
02:44:30.140 as someone who is um who feels free to be creative and express myself um no matter what that means you
02:44:37.960 know and to be someone that's loving and caring and accepting all right quick answers please well
02:44:44.660 can you come back to me yeah i want to be remembered for taking care of other people and living like jesus did
02:44:52.520 i want to be remembered for being fun and a good friend and taking care of animals okay um i want to
02:45:03.960 contribute to psychology and how like everlasting
02:45:06.100 i want to be remembered for like just someone who tried i want to be someone who tried and um
02:45:15.980 someone who's kind i want to be remembered for being a loving person okay you you you were skipping go
02:45:27.620 ahead uh i want to be remembered by my kids for being a loving mom what about you uh the legacy i
02:45:33.360 passed down specifically the values i passed down to my children and the faith in god
02:45:37.060 all right thank you for that uh brendan gilman the girl that hasn't said much number nine black dress
02:45:42.420 is cute as cute as anything that's you babe you just put your hoodie on yeah uh you on the right
02:45:47.960 side of the stream have opinions with no justification men have force bricks and based okay um thank you
02:45:56.460 brandon for your super chat appreciate it man uh i am trying to remember where we were on all of
02:46:03.040 that stuff um jobs disappearing oh yeah jobs disappearing yeah uh
02:46:09.860 you said you were saying something on that i'm trying to remember you you talked about it i said
02:46:18.720 you know things haven't always been this way oh right yeah yeah well i mean it would be obviously
02:46:24.980 terrible thing to happen but uh look it is what it is i'm so tired of the whole men versus women thing
02:46:34.920 is so old it's like we're we need to work together that's like the bottom line i think the algorithm
02:46:41.180 pushes it a little bit you should tell that to the feminists they need to get over it they need to get 1.00
02:46:47.260 over it well i would say this i would say this so when you start viewing things and forwarding to
02:46:54.300 society and then infiltrating academia and then forwarding it upon institutions and governments and
02:47:01.160 media and journalism and the news and corporations when look it is true that throughout history women have 0.98
02:47:11.200 had specifically gendered grievances what feminists have done is said women have had specifically gendered 1.00
02:47:21.440 grievances and some of those are valid some of those are true but they have done a sort of
02:47:27.980 what's the best framing for this they've completely forsaken or done any investigation
02:47:35.480 as to compared to what and the comparison would be was just we're only considering and analyzing the
02:47:44.120 ways in which women have been disadvantaged without a sort of comparative lens of at what price and as
02:47:53.060 compared to who compared to men and they wanted to i mean feminism is basically women oppressed men 0.96
02:47:57.940 oppressors men are to men are to be blamed uh in a sort of marxist way it's basically
02:48:04.900 class class division between men and women where uh women are the oppressed group men are the
02:48:14.000 oppressor group and when you view things through this lens um it's actually really damaging but what ends
02:48:22.620 up happening is if women or rather i should say feminists do an analysis of society and say how is this 1.00
02:48:32.200 impacting women well that invites men or i guess you could say men's rights activists to look through
02:48:40.260 society through the exact same lens that women use but to analyze the ways in which men are disadvantaged
02:48:48.280 which is something that feminists completely uh ignore disregard or don't acknowledge or downplay 1.00
02:48:56.360 and so but feminists really don't like that feminists really do not like when men say uh actually uh 1.00
02:49:07.220 maybe it's not the case that men throughout all of human history have had it really easy and really
02:49:12.620 great and life's been easy for men and women have had it so hard i mean that's basically the feminist
02:49:19.060 construct and that's that's a framework feminism started men were not like viewing society through
02:49:27.360 this lens ever feminists came and said women have all these grievances xyz some of which were true 1.00
02:49:33.980 some of which exaggerated some of which fabricated and so a lot of these things going on with by the way
02:49:43.900 if we're doing a comparison of like you might even say my podcast is forwarding some male-centric
02:49:50.140 viewpoints uh any any men who are using this framework the same framework feminists do
02:49:56.660 which is in group gendered disadvantage in society you have uh what's the best way to put this
02:50:07.880 i would say we don't have nearly the same amount of widespread uh societal acceptance or institutional
02:50:17.820 acceptance that does feminism have uh so i mean the gender war you have feminists to blame and then men 0.90
02:50:26.180 are doing a reactionary thing of basically like uh yeah feminists have let's say been greedy in 1.00
02:50:34.640 overstepping and the the great uh overreaches is perhaps the best way i would put it the great
02:50:43.320 overreaches of feminism uh men are men combating it is a reaction to the feminist overreach
02:50:53.060 i think whether or not it's a reaction i it's annoying when men do it it's annoying when women do it 1.00
02:50:59.760 i think it's just victim mindset it's not productive like it's like we're keeping tally
02:51:04.640 at this point and well it's oh sorry continue yeah and i don't think there's anything wrong with
02:51:10.460 pointing out that yeah there are certain ideologies that are pushed heavily in mainstream media as well
02:51:18.380 as educational institutions um but it's like it's just been so tiring lately i feel like it's this back
02:51:24.480 and forth of well as a woman i can't do this and we're not represented in this field as much and
02:51:29.780 then the men respond by saying well you also don't have to go to war and there's a lot of truth to
02:51:35.060 that but it's like it's just so exhausting to hear it's like and feminine feminism has changed it went 1.00
02:51:41.420 from women should have a choice which women should have a choice to now i feel like it was like oh you
02:51:47.740 should have a choice you could you should be able to stay home if you want to to now women are being 1.00
02:51:51.240 ashamed for wanting to stay at home and feminism and more like no you should go out and do everything 0.98
02:51:56.900 a man is doing and it's just like there's no there's so much focus on gender and not enough on
02:52:02.740 the individual it's just so like you said annoying you wanted to go yeah i just want to me like the way
02:52:10.500 i say i'm a feminist to me it's just i feel like women should have the choice to do what they want if 0.99
02:52:14.980 you want to stay at home and take care of kids or if that's what you want to do then you should do
02:52:20.060 that if you want to go and be a doctor or surgeon you should be able to do that like for me it's
02:52:25.020 like women should have the choice to do what they want like they the same as men like men can choose
02:52:29.520 whatever they wanted like there was no and the thing is i would say like no women sorry go ahead 1.00
02:52:34.740 go ahead i just said men have yeah they do have like they've been they have been through a lot and
02:52:40.240 like but the one thing about them is that they could have always they they had the option to do
02:52:44.280 whatever career they wanted to and i just feel like women should have that as well well i have
02:52:50.420 some gripes with that i there's a couple different gripes um so you said men always had the choice
02:52:55.600 women didn't have the choice but so women would have by the way this idea that women were like 1.00
02:52:59.620 full-blown barred from being in professions well no they could have no they could have been
02:53:05.620 400 women were definitely had jobs women worked women were able to make money um now there were 1.00
02:53:12.080 some differences here and there and there were societal components but so women had the if we 1.00
02:53:17.540 want to talk about choice um women didn't have to work now men never had that choice throughout 0.99
02:53:26.620 history and i'd argue men with very rare even in 2026 men can't realistically dating podcasts
02:53:34.920 men can't realistically go out there in the dating market and be like i want to be a stay-at-home 0.92
02:53:40.380 husband that shit will not fly with even liberal women liberal women who might have good career 1.00
02:53:47.700 ambitions their standard even though they are feminist and believe in 50 equality blah blah blah 1.00
02:53:53.340 they will never be in a position by the way when i say never yes there are some women who are 1.00
02:53:58.100 okay you want to be the house husband and take care of the kids and i'm gonna go out to work
02:54:01.900 there are some very very few women who are okay with that most women even liberal progressive women 0.97
02:54:07.880 their standard is going to be i want a guy who makes as much money as me uh or more he has to earn as
02:54:13.840 much as me or more so there is never really a choice for men to want to actually step back and be
02:54:20.560 more taking care of the household that's a choice women have now in terms of uh careers i think you also 1.00
02:54:27.740 you have to have a really strong understanding of what the world looks like 100 200 300 years ago
02:54:35.340 300 years ago women's lack of representation in the workplace you have to remember 300 years ago 0.96
02:54:42.740 there wasn't air conditioning there wasn't like uh lunch breaks and hr and there wasn't pregnancy leave
02:54:49.660 there wasn't like oh we're gonna live in a i'm gonna go to work at my corporate job for for some
02:54:57.260 tech company and have all these benefits and they give me free food and there's cupcakes and uh they do
02:55:05.200 there's entertainment at the work and there's like a there's a meditation studio no 100 200 years ago
02:55:13.940 life was pretty difficult life was really hard i don't even think most people if we got men included
02:55:22.540 to be fair if we got transported back 300 years ago and we had to like live and survive 0.81
02:55:27.840 we'd be most modern humans would be probably incapable of doing it but also just like whoa this sucks 0.99
02:55:37.500 i can't doom scroll on tiktok i just got to sit here in my fucking cabin for what the fuck am i 0.99
02:55:43.880 supposed to do like so there i mean that's an entertainment component but so women in terms of 1.00
02:55:50.020 oh so unfair uh women themselves either didn't have the physical capacity to do the jobs that were 1.00
02:55:57.580 available 100 200 years ago you go 200 years back you think there was hr ladies you think that there was 0.99
02:56:03.540 project managers in some uh swanky air-conditioned office job for some tech company no that shit did 0.97
02:56:11.780 not exist 100 years ago 200 years ago uh as a man you go into the coal mines maybe sorry maybe 200 years 0.94
02:56:19.220 ago that's a bit too far back but uh this idea of like lacking of access to the workplace the workplace
02:56:27.120 was physical it was labor there wasn't coding there wasn't these jobs that required more brain
02:56:35.980 than brawn so it's like i think actually if we go back to say like 1930s 1940s i mean there was coal
02:56:46.280 mining before then and women started getting a bit more involved in in the workplace but let's go back
02:56:51.360 to the 1910s 1920s coal mines you could be the wife and stay home in the comfort of your house 1.00
02:56:58.260 take care of the kids or you can go into the coal mines and your lungs completely gigafucked by the 0.80
02:57:04.100 time you're 40 and then you're dying of like brutal literally gasping for air for the last five years of 0.99
02:57:10.120 your life you can't even fucking breathe you've got black lung i think women it wasn't evil men 0.97
02:57:17.960 preventing women from the workplace it was benevolent sacrificial men willing to do the 1.00
02:57:24.980 dangerous difficult labor jobs and insulating women and protecting women and i guarantee you if you 0.99
02:57:32.200 women had the choice and you we transported you back 100 years ago and the choice was stay at home 0.99
02:57:38.060 take care of the house raise the kids or go in the coal mine and there wasn't there wasn't uh what's 0.84
02:57:46.000 the org uh the organization that um osha thank you there wasn't fucking osha back then you go in the 0.99
02:57:52.640 coal mine you work 12 hours you piss in a corner there's no bathroom breaks no one hour lunch break 0.95
02:58:00.560 uh and i don't know you die at 40 for the last five years of your life you can barely breathe your 1.00
02:58:07.980 fucking oxygen what is it oxygen level the oh what what what your o2 levels or whatever you're fucking 1.00
02:58:14.140 you guys ever had like pneumonia or been sick or some shit fucking covid you're fucking can barely 1.00
02:58:20.700 breathe and shit five years of that then you die like shit i think i think women kind of had the 1.00
02:58:29.040 good deal now look there's obviously jobs now that are more comfortable and safe and i have kind of a 1.00
02:58:35.920 hot take with this um back then i agree exactly with what you're saying it wasn't safe it was there was
02:58:41.540 clear roles notice the time that when feminism really started to begin getting pushed was around 1.00
02:58:47.840 the time when comfortable workplaces started evolving sure and yes i believe that it was a
02:58:54.340 psyop by the government that was designed um with paid actors to come in and riot and do things like
02:59:01.260 that to mentally like again like psyop us into thinking that women are equal to men in the workplace
02:59:07.820 which they still the jobs were still not the same back then they still had crazy conditions but
02:59:12.420 it's becoming slowly more accessible and comfortable so to say now you have double taxes
02:59:18.160 you have two parents out of the home i said this last time i was here your kids are in a public system
02:59:24.140 that got taken over by people who god knows what they're teaching it's the perfect destruction of
02:59:30.740 the original american dream or whatever and it's ended us here with like we've lost the plot of
02:59:35.940 feminism there is no more feminism it's just radicalization of evil and here you are however 1.00
02:59:41.020 more pushing 50 years later and it's it's a whole new idea it's just not even it's it's exactly what
02:59:47.820 they wanted we're playing right into like liberation of females the over consumption of porn and only fans
02:59:53.600 it was just a setup like i know that's very base tate but that's honestly what i believe because it
02:59:58.620 just makes sense like on the map the history books i think that too because you were saying that it's
03:00:04.740 really it comes down to choice right and i don't think that's necessarily true i don't think that's
03:00:09.680 what feminism is anymore because if it was just about choice it would be okay that sometimes women 1.00
03:00:15.660 just choose to do other jobs we just choose to you know be teachers and that's fine but i think it's
03:00:22.660 it's not the quality of opportunity anymore it's equality of outcome like we need to force women into 1.00
03:00:29.800 these or we need to lower standards and i'm so against lowering standards so that women can be 1.00
03:00:33.360 part of certain jobs it's just a bad idea all around and i think that we've done that in many
03:00:38.940 instances kind of like any idea or any kind of group there's going to be always radicals who push it
03:00:43.240 like you i feel like everyone now always like generalizes like oh um they i think they now think
03:00:49.260 feminists are like misandrist like women yeah they are they are i mean no but i think i think women 1.00
03:00:55.220 are equal but i just feel like now like there are feminists who just believe like they we just want 1.00
03:00:59.860 a choice and that that's what it is and yeah there are also radicals who push for more who want for
03:01:05.120 more but then that shouldn't just kind of make everyone look down on the whole idea because like
03:01:09.720 the whole basis of it is just women just want a choice and that's how i look at it that's how i 0.94
03:01:14.240 think about it and the extremes of it i don't agree with like i feel like we're pushing too hard
03:01:19.000 for all of that like i feel like right now we've made good progress but like now like since the
03:01:24.980 radicals are like pushing so much of it and then everyone just looks down at the whole cause and
03:01:29.200 thinks that it's taken too well we reached the goal so long ago so it's like what are we doing now we
03:01:34.380 reached the goal so long ago you can nuke my job i guess what is the point of what's the point anymore
03:01:40.360 besides to like today split up families and like make these like crazy women but what what is the 1.00
03:01:45.560 purpose of feminism today like that's what i'm asking women can work women have choice women 1.00
03:01:49.800 have freedom women have the vote so what i guess what is the purpose of feminism so can create 1.00
03:01:54.560 division you said that well there's a lot of double standards for women and men there is for me is 0.59
03:02:00.700 there's still a lot of double standards like it's not like i'm preaching for anything it's just i say
03:02:04.880 like i'm a feminist i still believe and like when it comes to hooking up and women having high body 1.00
03:02:10.000 count versus men having a high body count like you can't legislate men to not have double standards
03:02:16.680 but it basically just feels like in patriarchy that men never face consequences for their actions and
03:02:22.380 because that women are kind of scapegoated like okay for example those consequences in patriarchy 1.00
03:02:26.820 yeah no they don't like people minimize what men do all the time are there just is there a justice
03:02:32.300 system that can operate under a patriarchy yeah and even wait wait wait this i actually believe
03:02:41.980 there there's this concept of the women women are wonderful effect uh i actually believe that
03:02:47.260 typically even in a patriarchy which i to some degree reject but it depends what how we define
03:02:53.780 patriarchy i actually think society is gynocentric uh you actually see for example when it comes to being 0.56
03:02:59.380 held accountable if we look at crime for example uh women actually get let off way easier their 1.00
03:03:06.420 studies on this women receive far less harsh punishments when it comes to crime they're much 1.00
03:03:11.840 much less much more likely to either get probation their their charges reduced uh if they do get charged
03:03:19.600 with an equivalent crime they're going to serve less time their prison conditions uh prison conditions
03:03:24.740 for women are much better much more safe than the conditions for men so i mean this idea that men
03:03:31.180 aren't held accountable if we're in terms of are you talking about crime no i'm talking about like
03:03:36.480 socially like if a guy complains it's seen as oh he's just speaking his mind when a girl does it it's 0.70
03:03:41.780 seen it's nagging like even like with kendrick and drake when they when they went at it with their
03:03:46.500 rap beef everyone was praising them but the minute taylor swift writes like a slight diss track against
03:03:51.460 another woman it's why can't she act her own age nobody was telling those guys they need to act their 1.00
03:03:55.560 own age like it's just stuff like that like hey women are the hold on women are the fan the consumers
03:04:01.320 of female pop music so that's women who are being critical of other women men don't know or give a 0.67
03:04:08.500 fuck about the beef that taylor swift has with whoever what are you talking about how would that be 0.88
03:04:13.480 evidence of the patriarchy the evil patriarchy the men or uh have a double standard when it comes to 0.99
03:04:20.500 male and female pop stars what men don't know about the taylor swift beef what i didn't know
03:04:28.160 about it i don't know it was just an example about how like men like women always get told to act
03:04:33.500 their age but men don't like that was just the example i mean i reject the premise i've never heard
03:04:38.500 of i mean does doesn't like anyone who acts kind of immature get told to like ask their age like i i
03:04:44.380 don't know i've never really i feel like people minimize what men do a lot of emphasis on younger men
03:04:48.700 to perform right i think there is i think that if you're at the age let's say probably from like
03:04:53.920 19 to 26 i think there's a way heavier emphasis in society to overachieve to have performance anxiety
03:05:01.880 versus like a woman who's just cruising she's like oh you know i'll start like beauty school a little 1.00
03:05:05.840 bit later on in life and be done it's like a man might be like shitting his pants because he's thinking
03:05:09.720 all these extra things like how am i going to provide how am i going to live up like i think it's
03:05:13.260 honestly that's just the way it is no i would agree with that i i live with it i have a younger
03:05:18.760 brother like it's he the pressure on him was astronomically different than the pressure on
03:05:22.900 me and i'm the eldest sibling well like there's also a double standard where like i feel like when
03:05:26.260 men are a little bit quirky no one cares like they're like oh that's just steve but when like
03:05:29.920 a girl's quirky it's like she's annoying she's evil she's this that and the third like
03:05:33.820 is this from personal experience because i don't see i've never been called annoying for me
03:05:38.820 i mean i see people like like they make povs on tiktok all the time like mocking women that 0.83
03:05:44.240 are a little bit quirky is this your reference right now i mean i'm just giving an example you
03:05:48.080 guys can't nitpick like every example like i give like i feel like you're not giving good examples like
03:05:52.340 i feel like if you look at body count like women with high body count are disregarded more than men
03:05:56.680 with high body count like women's sexuality is still yeah it's not the same as how men's sexuality is
03:06:01.380 looked at like i'm bringing examples of double standards i would look at that like sexuality most
03:06:06.200 importantly like men can express this however they want but women are still judged greatly if 0.99
03:06:10.940 you're going to name a stereotype then you have to have an example to back it up with
03:06:14.860 you know yeah yeah well you guys got mad in my example i don't think we're getting mad i think it's
03:06:20.480 it's just a lot of generalizations that are one big and then two when we ask you to give an example
03:06:26.280 it's like well this one time this happened and it's like okay well that was one experience like and
03:06:31.360 we all feel you are also talking about your experience what when have i cited about like
03:06:36.260 like multiple girls on here have like talked about personal lighting an experience so when 1.00
03:06:40.220 did i say so there you go splitting hairs again like but she's not trying to convince us of something
03:06:45.060 you're yeah i'm having a conversation i'm asking questions i'm asking you're saying like this is my
03:06:50.040 experience or don't you guys think this and we're all saying no yeah unfortunately not so not a mean
03:06:54.140 way it's just it's vague and there's not much to back up relate to it that's okay sometimes you'll have
03:07:00.160 an experience or um something that you believe in that maybe other people won't have that same
03:07:04.860 experience or won't you know agree with the generalization um to talk about what you were
03:07:10.860 talking about the the pressure that's put on men to perform and provide and protect and all that
03:07:14.720 i like i kind of feel like if anything what modern feminism has done is give women that same type of
03:07:23.400 pressure too because if anything i feel like i don't really have a choice like i have to go to work
03:07:27.860 now like i i can't afford my i have to like take care of myself and hope that one day i marry
03:07:34.720 someone that makes enough to provide for the entire family but that's not the case for most women 1.00
03:07:39.220 so if anything i feel like in that regard it's kind of taken our choice away because before
03:07:45.380 yeah like yeah i guess that was my point she makes a fantastic point you mentioned choice right 0.63
03:07:52.200 uh so yes there's more freedom for women to pursue various professions and making money but uh she is 1.00
03:08:00.100 right that it has taken the choice away from women who might have otherwise been inclined to
03:08:04.880 uh stay home like that choice is gone for 97 percent of women because of the economic reality and by the 1.00
03:08:14.500 way i'm not saying that just to be clear i'm fine with i think it's fine that well it's not just fine i
03:08:20.160 agree that women should have the choice but we have to what are the consequences uh even with good 0.91
03:08:27.720 things there are perhaps unintended or negative consequences in this case when it comes to women's
03:08:34.240 uh equal participation in the workforce and look there's other economic components to why this is
03:08:42.020 the case but if you double the labor pool you are uh corporations love that uh because it drives it
03:08:54.620 drives wages down and so now we live in a society where historically you could support a family on one
03:09:00.580 income and typically the job that could support a family wasn't it wasn't like you know you're some
03:09:07.680 high-powered attorney you could have like a farm in fact i think perhaps even historically you could
03:09:13.440 even have a minimum wage or close to minimum wage job and support a family like wife kids wife doesn't 1.00
03:09:20.360 have to work on that uh income and so look i'm not saying women shouldn't be able to work but 1.00
03:09:27.200 it is the case that through feminism uh that is perhaps an unintended consequence that you've taken 0.79
03:09:34.560 the choice away from women who otherwise did want to just hey i don't want to work i want to stay at
03:09:39.020 home have some kids raise the kids now it's like you force you're sort of forcing the women to to go 0.98
03:09:46.780 to work i guess um because you can't the economic reality for most people you can't have a family and
03:09:54.120 raise kids on just one income for most families i mean if you're a really high earner then you can
03:10:00.260 but uh it has taken another choice away how do we reverse it i wanted to ask that with like the
03:10:06.700 sign up how do we reverse what we've done like i don't think you honestly the only way to reverse
03:10:11.320 is women don't work again like it's it's either or like yeah we had an unintended consequence but 1.00
03:10:16.400 at least women have the choice now but like it's either women never worked and only men did and they 1.00
03:10:21.920 just were the ones who provided or now women have the choice and maybe i mean i'm sorry for the women
03:10:26.240 who don't want to work and they do but then there's also women who want to work and who also 0.99
03:10:30.100 i honestly i like the pressure of having to do well in society because why should i be any different
03:10:35.340 from a man like men have the pressure and they have to perform well i also want the pressure to
03:10:39.700 perform i think you can do well in society without having to having a job like a an actual job i think
03:10:46.400 you can be like i think women that raise their children to be good people are doing the best thing
03:10:52.280 that they can for society that's also like we should also be uplifting people that choose to
03:10:56.460 do that but again you said like well at least we have the choice it's there's no choice i have to
03:11:01.200 work and it doesn't empower me i don't feel good that i have to like slave myself every week at work
03:11:05.960 i i do it because i need this woman don't work then like that's at this point i couldn't answer 1.00
03:11:11.300 now that like all this is has happened i don't know what we would do at this point and because
03:11:16.680 we're in today's economy too i don't know how you would change that so i i really don't think that
03:11:23.580 there is currently a solution i think there is none once the toothpaste is out of the tube you can't
03:11:29.760 really put it back um i i think there could be societal changes in the future because of uh automation
03:11:37.100 robots ai where we could potentially be moving towards or even get to a post scarcity society where
03:11:46.200 you basically nobody has to work i mean i guess people could still work but i'm not
03:11:51.320 but this could be decades or even much further down the road so i mean that's a bit too far in the
03:11:57.300 future i mean what i think at least short term is uh perhaps less of a negative sentiment towards
03:12:06.120 motherhood it does seem like there's like i think the propaganda that women receive is more career 0.79
03:12:14.160 career career career not even necessarily saying that that that's bad but there's like sometimes a
03:12:21.260 corresponding uh motherhood wife family bad so i think that there should be at least as much
03:12:33.100 maybe propaganda is another right word but there should be as much push perhaps for women to 1.00
03:12:39.760 re-examine having a family perhaps a bit younger not waiting until you're in your late 20s or 30s to
03:12:47.580 have kids get married start a family etc we have a chat coming through thank you justin 0.98
03:12:53.720 uh hello what the fuck based justin donated 100 thank you man appreciate it c3 nailed it women in the 0.99
03:13:02.180 workplace has destroyed the concept of the nuclear family instead women are fed into the college soft 1.00
03:13:08.460 science career scam avoiding the trad role at all costs more c3 thank you justin that's that's what
03:13:16.920 i'm talking about like i think that feminism has we were we were sold a propaganda of feminism where 1.00
03:13:24.460 it's like empowerment and freedom and here we are all these years later where it's not like i said it's
03:13:29.600 not feminism anymore it's it's just evil and the literal outcome has been the polar opposite of what
03:13:34.940 the women were fighting for way back in the beginning and like i said yes nuclear family is done it's 1.00
03:13:39.820 destroying now we have double income your kids are being raised by the government and public funded 0.84
03:13:44.120 schools and it's it's honestly just like think about like the happiness levels and the cortisol levels
03:13:49.380 and everything it's it's it's all planned and intended and i just believe that i think the outcome
03:13:55.420 the end outcome is is more a lesbian relationships which have a hot hey listen higher domestic violence 1.00
03:14:04.180 okay kids being raised to take on what their parents think gender roles swapping and just the complete
03:14:11.120 transformation of society to like this weird dystopian place where we've completely lost the plot that god
03:14:15.920 put for us way back in the beginning well how about this uh who here is currently in college
03:14:19.540 show of hands who's in college college college college okay you three um what do you guys uh
03:14:26.120 prioritize more for yourself and i'm not speaking i i guess looking long term a little bit
03:14:32.680 do you prioritize uh one day having a really killer career great career or do you prioritize having a
03:14:42.440 family a husband and children which one would you prioritize higher um
03:14:49.520 out of the two
03:14:52.440 am i allowed to say that i prioritize them equally uh sure you can yeah i would say that i prioritize
03:15:01.640 them equally but like now right now is a time in my life where like what i'm prioritizing the most is
03:15:07.520 just like doing the things that make me happy and like can i just uh tilt your mic down a little bit
03:15:12.100 for me okay what about you um i think like adding on to what she said it really depends on like
03:15:18.920 what part of time i'm in like right now i'm obviously very focused on like trying to
03:15:23.840 get my degree in my career starting but then hopefully later on in the future like my priorities
03:15:29.020 will shift to be having like a family and marriage but as of right now like um well i understand right
03:15:34.640 now obviously you're you're in college yeah but if we're like whole life in totality do you think
03:15:42.960 do you uphold like career and academic achievement over family kids husband um i think i'll have you
03:15:52.240 tilt your mic down please yeah i think i'll pick family and kids if we're speaking long term over
03:15:57.800 career um but yeah okay what about you um equal i want a successful career and i want a husband and
03:16:06.480 i don't know if i want kids so okay what would you say women should pick what do i think women should 1.00
03:16:13.000 pick family family husband children not in that order or anything but the that should that should
03:16:22.840 be a priority over career what's the point of getting married if you're not gonna have kids
03:16:27.780 love i want a partner for life but you can just live with them there are some people that are
03:16:34.160 infertile too marriage is more than just just having kids you should be open to procreation
03:16:39.320 also i can have kids maybe it's our upbringing differences say your last part again that you
03:16:44.300 said the last phrase what i don't know just something i didn't hear what you said said something
03:16:48.320 about adoption you can adopt yeah because she says people were infertile so i said those people can
03:16:52.020 adopt so i can't have kids because of i have a metal spine does that make me not any less interested
03:16:59.460 in getting married to my current partner no my question is just what specifically like what's
03:17:04.060 the difference between getting married versus just living with each other like that's kind of what i'm
03:17:07.720 trying to get at like what is a commitment a commitment until death do us part but how is it still
03:17:12.800 not a commitment if you guys are like in a long-term relationship and living together
03:17:15.900 it's not the same level mentally yeah maybe we've just seen different because i remember earlier
03:17:21.020 you mentioned your parents are arranged marriage and i think that changes the picture a lot for what
03:17:25.180 we've seen growing up but i think like marriage is really important in a woman's life um and it's
03:17:29.840 not just about like coexisting and like it's not transactional if that's what i'm trying to say
03:17:34.420 it's about love and it's not and like yeah like what's the point of having um a marriage if you don't
03:17:39.620 have like a job is what you're saying but like what's the point of having like a job and slaving yourself
03:17:43.300 at work if you don't have a nice family to come home to if you're just alone and miserable every
03:17:46.580 day another point i want to make is like we are all in college or college age like we're all like
03:17:52.780 in our like early 20s late teens like we are still figuring out like everything about life like what
03:17:59.320 we want like who we are and everything if we're putting all that energy into like finding a lifelong
03:18:03.600 partner we're not putting any of that energy into like ourselves and like doing the things that we
03:18:08.240 love and like becoming more and more ourself every single day just a i mean people can your
03:18:15.120 lifelong partner should support you and you doing those things too not just it shouldn't be one or
03:18:19.180 the other no i know i don't think so either really quick just on the economic financial components you
03:18:28.520 know both people having to work i mean to me do you guys think that this makes sense let's say there's
03:18:35.180 a man and woman they're together they're married and they they have a kid and the woman has a job
03:18:42.760 and she makes 40 50 000 a year the man makes 100 000 a year uh let's say the woman makes 50 000 0.97
03:18:51.000 and they have two kids child care for the two kids like to send them off to child care facility or
03:18:57.600 whatever let's say it's 40 000 a year to do that do you think that makes sense economically no not
03:19:07.900 financially like so okay she makes an extra so if she makes 50 000 the child care is 40 000 she ends up 0.78
03:19:14.080 making 10 000 just on the economic basis alone i think that kind of makes no sense of course a woman 1.00
03:19:21.780 can make more than that she makes 100 000 and the child care is 40 000 yeah i also think it's important
03:19:27.080 for like a woman or a mother to bond with her children and raise some yeah i think a mother's 0.53
03:19:32.060 going to do way better than some fucking minimum wage 20 an hour yeah consuela 100 something taking 1.00
03:19:39.780 care taking care of the kids um wait really quick i guess getting back to the origination of all this 0.97
03:19:45.420 is the three-fifths vote thing uh so actually i think we should just do away entirely with uh what's
03:19:53.800 the right term it's uh universal suffrage for men and women uh i think we should maybe move to a system
03:20:04.580 where uh the vote would be accessible by both men and women but we move to a system where you either
03:20:12.640 need some sort of stake in the country or you have children uh maybe you own a house or you
03:20:18.560 opt into military service i think that should be the way you get the vote i agree with that i don't 0.97
03:20:26.980 think just okay you turn 18 you get the vote i think that's kind of bullshit also sort of tying into 0.66
03:20:33.660 the three-fifths thing uh i think there is an argument to be made here that women have secured the 1.00
03:20:39.520 vote for over 100 years without any duty or responsibility to this country men have responsibility
03:20:45.720 men have duty women have no duty uh so i think there's an inequality unfairness that exists there 1.00
03:20:52.060 which should be truthfully um should either be remediated remediated is that the right word
03:20:59.560 should be cured either by uh making women subject to military conscription 0.99
03:21:06.280 or truthfully acknowledging that there is this inequality that exists i think there's a compelling
03:21:13.700 argument that we if we're not if we're going to make a determination that no we are definitely not
03:21:19.820 putting women uh in the in the selective service we are not allowing that to ever happen i think there's
03:21:28.180 actually a compelling argument that under that circumstance if we make a final determination
03:21:33.020 no women are not going to be drafted yeah i think there we can probably argue to just take away 1.00
03:21:38.220 women's right to vote but that under that circumstance i would assume that we earn our right to vote 1.00
03:21:44.840 everyone earns their right to vote through the duty of serving your country right is that is that well so
03:21:51.320 i there's other examples like um no taxation with without representation so yes men and women
03:21:57.240 are taxed however actually if interestingly enough uh if you look over the lifetime of both men
03:22:02.960 and women men pay into the tax system there's a net benefit to the tax system through men women 1.00
03:22:08.680 actually take more from the tax system than they put in so i mean there's there's a bit of an
03:22:13.740 argument there that can be made but um and then also like yes uh are are women subject to the laws of 1.00
03:22:23.980 this country if they commit a crime are they subject to the laws just as men are yes however on this 0.98
03:22:29.220 specific dynamic as it relates to military conscription women are completely exempt from it men have a
03:22:35.700 duty women don't in order for men to be so in order for men to be able to vote it is tied to a duty to 0.99
03:22:44.000 the country so yeah are you saying that because there are legal repercussions which would preclude you
03:22:52.760 from voting if you didn't sign up for the selective service as a man so if as a man if you do not
03:22:58.620 register for the selective service you basically essentially can't register to the vote you can't
03:23:03.380 vote you don't have any voting rights as a man unless you make yourself subject to and register for
03:23:09.860 the selective service even if you didn't register for the selective service the government could still
03:23:13.980 mandate in a military conscription circumstance but that's to draft you that's not unique to the to
03:23:20.420 registering for the selective service though right because if you if you were to commit any crime and
03:23:25.280 you go to jail or prison then you can't vote because you're in prison so like i don't know that it's
03:23:30.680 unique to that and i also just i'm very hesitant to agree with you just because i don't trust the
03:23:35.760 government enough to allow them to dictate what groups of people can and cannot vote i think they
03:23:40.760 already do can people under 18 vote well i think there are lines that you draw why can't we draw
03:23:48.000 the legal's vote well that's debatable actually well technically no it's all rigged anyways but
03:23:55.940 it's like it's just but i mean look uh my personal position is not we i i personally as an egalitarian
03:24:05.220 i don't think that we should take the vote away from women but we should definitely make them subject 1.00
03:24:09.980 to military conscription i think we should definitely draft women what do you think 1.00
03:24:16.120 um what do you think about should we draft women you'd be a good soldier
03:24:21.980 you think so oh okay um maybe i mean i
03:24:27.680 well realistically speaking like nobody wants to go to war so
03:24:33.920 i'd say no like i don't think we should we we shouldn't what draft woman in the war but so
03:24:42.200 i understand that war is bad ideally there never is war but knowing that sometimes no matter how strong
03:24:51.160 our society and values there could be a belligerent external nation that wants to invade us that wants
03:24:57.660 to attack us that is causing havoc on the world stage so either we need to defend ourselves or
03:25:03.800 we need to intervene in some external conflict that you know who knows
03:25:07.800 um in any case so knowing that governments and nations and states are never going to
03:25:15.600 uh demilitarize they're never going to revoke their ability to call upon and sometimes force
03:25:23.300 its citizenry to um you know be part of the military wouldn't you agree that
03:25:33.040 if the current situation is men can be forced to go to war shouldn't we also force women 1.00
03:25:39.520 if you believe in equality i think so well you have i mean it would be an entailment of
03:25:45.560 if you believe in equality you would basically have to agree do feminists fight for that today 1.00
03:25:50.460 i'm curious definitely don't then what is about equality well feminist feminism is not about 1.00
03:25:54.340 equality it's about selective well i want to be equality on the surface i'm saying obviously it's
03:25:59.360 not anymore feminism is in its most charitable sense i give the worst definition but 0.99
03:26:03.880 it's women's advocacy now there's nothing wrong with women's advocacy but it's definitely not about
03:26:10.280 equality because it won't in instances where a form of equality could somehow negatively impact
03:26:18.540 or detriment women or burden women feminist will absolutely fight against achieving said equality
03:26:26.140 equality if like i said it comes to their detriment in some way exactly i think that they also fight
03:26:31.960 for things that do come to our detriment as well like they say that you know doing this will will
03:26:38.720 make us more equal and stuff but and it will give us more choice but we've seen that it doesn't do
03:26:43.720 that it does the opposite so like there's unintended consequences to some of what a lot of feminists 1.00
03:26:49.620 have been pushing and yeah i think there's that side of it as well but any further thoughts on that
03:26:54.840 should we draft women is it still a no i think yeah still a no why is that well do you believe in 0.98
03:27:03.100 equality i do but i feel like things just aren't equal in reality and oh what do you mean they're
03:27:10.900 not equal well well i feel like in some aspects i can't think of any off the top of my head men just
03:27:18.820 have more like men or women just have more of an advantage in some so we should like we should even 0.61
03:27:24.940 bar women from volunteering to join the military well if they want to that's a personal thing see 1.00
03:27:29.320 now that's different but but if the argument is men are better soldiers because of just their natural
03:27:34.820 physical strength then shouldn't we just bar women from joining the military or becoming police officers 1.00
03:27:40.040 or because if they want to but if they want to they women can still build that physical strength 1.00
03:27:44.480 but biologically speaking yes men are built to be more muscular and like more fit for war hence
03:27:49.220 that they're more advantaged if they were to but so why can't we force women to be soldiers then 1.00
03:27:55.460 in the same way that we can force men to be soldiers
03:27:59.140 well you can but it just doesn't happen and it's just never been but maybe it should
03:28:04.780 i'm in favor of it well you can make it happen then but it almost seems like i'm more of a
03:28:11.920 feminist than you are in this regard well i never said i was exactly a feminist you believe in equality
03:28:17.880 to then sure yeah i'd say so why not in this regard not maybe not equality i believe in equity
03:28:24.920 so what is equity in this situation well what would be equitable well like you said if a woman is like 1.00
03:28:32.540 voluntarily wanting to do like labor and like military work then go ahead like by all means
03:28:38.020 go for it men can also volunteer but so what's the equitable solution
03:28:41.540 or what is equity in this context
03:28:47.040 because men don't want to be forced to go to war and die
03:28:52.560 well
03:28:57.240 men what is equity by the way
03:29:02.520 isn't it like giving someone resources in accordance with their needs instead of giving
03:29:09.780 the same amount of resources to everyone blank like blank slate or whatever i don't know well if
03:29:14.840 women can volunteer for the military then i can't actually see an objection to forcing women into the 1.00
03:29:21.660 military in fact i mean sure we should equalize combat participation too because even even though women 1.00
03:29:28.940 can volunteer they overwhelmingly are not in combat roles now look you want the realistic answer uh men
03:29:36.380 fare much better in combat they're more physically attuned to being able to have the capacity
03:29:43.340 to uh be effective and have lethal lethal ability but again i don't know i guess explain the equity thing
03:29:51.820 should we just draft the women i think we should just no we should just draft them do it well 0.83
03:30:01.680 so maybe that girl oh sorry go ahead no i don't have anything to say oh well she was saying that
03:30:08.080 uh she didn't want to get rid of women's right to vote but she wanted three-fifths 1.00
03:30:12.080 so maybe if men have a duty that women don't men have responsibility that women don't i mean look
03:30:20.400 maybe we don't fully get rid of women's right to vote but she's she's saying that maybe three-fifths 1.00
03:30:27.920 no disagree what do you think see you shaking your head by the way this is just a thought experiment here
03:30:34.240 i mean when would a draft a draft ever happen like honestly like that's the thing i feel like if you
03:30:40.180 want if you want equal rights and it has to be equal then yeah a woman should be drafted as well 1.00
03:30:44.120 well i mean i i don't know how that'd actually be relevant so it might never even happen but
03:30:48.820 yeah that's what i'm saying like it's never going to happen but like if it is like that's the thing
03:30:52.020 like if we're fighting for equal rights then we should do the same like as what men are doing
03:30:57.380 and like i agree with that like one should be drafted right yeah well then that would just be a
03:31:03.060 separate conversation though what is the likelihood that the united states would enter into a military
03:31:08.100 conflict where a draft would be necessary required that's beside the point but so you are in favor of
03:31:14.500 uh the draft for women military conscription forcing women to i mean we force men we i right we do force 0.99
03:31:24.180 men or i mean we theoretically could force men so we should theoretically should be able to force women 1.00
03:31:30.340 too right yeah okay so you're on board with the program i wasn't on you're on board why is that
03:31:36.660 why is it why are we considering just like no one being forced i understand people are like oh we need
03:31:42.660 to have the military we need but like why is that not a consideration like men shouldn't be for no one
03:31:47.780 should be forced to join the military i wasn't born i wasn't i didn't ask to be born into this country
03:31:53.380 like why i don't think that's right i don't like war i don't like the idea of it or i don't think it's
03:31:57.940 necessary like some people believe why not just abolish that whole thing like no one has to well
03:32:04.020 i mean if you lived in a sort of idealized utopian world or society that might be possible but i don't
03:32:10.180 think it's ever something that will go away it's not something that's unique to the united states
03:32:14.900 almost every single country can call upon its uh citizenry and force them uh into the military
03:32:21.620 through military conscription i don't think any government or nation or state is going to give
03:32:26.820 up the power to forcibly raise a military to defend itself um and i think just all platitudes
03:32:33.780 about ending selective service just seems like a bit of a waste of time and energy it's kind of like
03:32:39.380 we might as well just say well there shouldn't be war there shouldn't be okay well there shouldn't
03:32:45.060 be crime but because there is there shouldn't be crime however because there is crime we should
03:32:50.980 have police officers we should have a prison system we should have a justice system that can bring
03:32:55.780 justice to those who commit and perpetrate crimes right but crime is bad nobody should be murdered
03:33:01.300 correct right but people do commit murders people do are we gonna i feel like if people didn't have
03:33:08.500 to do it maybe maybe the issue isn't like forcing people to do it but giving people more incentives
03:33:13.860 to sure yeah they do that maybe that's the issue but they do that though you more incentives like it's
03:33:20.740 not enough obviously but could there be a situation where i mean there definitely could be a situation
03:33:26.580 where even beyond just incentive well either the incentives would be have to be so immense that it
03:33:33.940 would be economically unfeasible like yes okay you could give soldiers a million dollars per year
03:33:40.340 and people would be fighting tooth and nail to become soldiers like there would probably be say there's a
03:33:45.780 limit as to how many people uh the military can uh can have in its ranks uh and you just paid
03:33:53.380 soldiers a million dollars but i don't think economically that'd probably be feasible to do
03:33:57.460 is that the only option like i don't know there are other incentives we can everybody's smart to come
03:34:02.500 up with things i think they do that you pay less taxes i don't know you yeah you get free school
03:34:07.780 yeah you give them free education already well yeah they do there's those incentives do exist but
03:34:14.180 there are definitely situations where you probably will not i mean historically there's been situations
03:34:20.500 where not just in the united states but other countries you have to force the men you literally
03:34:26.420 abduct them in the street man if you got you guys upset with this ice you should see what they're
03:34:31.780 doing in ukraine they're driving military police driving around ukraine and no nobody's here you don't
03:34:37.460 hear about it because it's men uh they're literally abducting men in the street dragging them into
03:34:43.060 vans they get some like base level military um training and then they ship them off to the front
03:34:50.260 line and they're just cannon fodder and it's like uh yeah governments do that that's not okay
03:34:57.540 that's that's wrong i don't agree but i look so i guess back to the point i think women we should draft 0.98
03:35:02.500 them and you can keep the vote or we have to look if if women don't get uh through the law they don't 1.00
03:35:09.620 get uh forced to at least in the united states to have to register with selective service within the
03:35:15.860 next by 2030 i think we got to really start looking at women's right to vote because you guys have had 0.52
03:35:22.660 the right to vote for 100 years without any duty to this country i think it's about time we have a serious
03:35:27.540 conversation about this do you think that's because women didn't have the right to vote before 1.00
03:35:32.980 maybe it's like uh well we didn't let them vote from before so now they don't have to give up well
03:35:38.580 they're they're actually women who were who were actually anti-suffragettes who were against uh wanting 0.80
03:35:45.060 the right to vote because they thought uh if they did get the right to vote it would open them up to the
03:35:49.700 same burdens and duties and responsibilities that men had uh of course uh i guess women quite
03:35:56.420 luckily managed to secure a right without any corresponding responsibility and that's sort
03:36:01.620 of the genesis of feminism secure as much privilege and right as possible without any duty or responsibility
03:36:12.340 i mean i don't i don't really vote and i get a lot of for it but i feel like a lot of people
03:36:17.300 are justin donated 100 no one needs female soldiers only american married households with
03:36:25.620 children can vote in u.s elections all incentives aligned cultural carnage recedes simple as
03:36:34.900 it's not a bad point i don't disagree my position is i women should continue to be able to vote but 0.94
03:36:42.820 they should have to register with selective service just as men do you're saying that because
03:36:48.180 if you if a man does not register to vote they i mean to um if they don't register for the military
03:36:54.580 they can't vote i don't think that's okay i feel like if you that's messed up it's not an okay system
03:37:00.900 i don't that's how it is so either i mean we either i guess another solution would be to completely
03:37:05.300 get rid of the draft but i think that that's i think that's less likely than having women become 1.00
03:37:11.940 subject to the draft so uh look i think hey women keep your right to vote but y'all gotta 0.96
03:37:21.700 y'all gotta get drafted y'all gotta be subject to the draft anyways yeah i mean i feel like it should
03:37:27.460 be fair y'all are some badass women you guys can do it i believe in you i'm more of a feminist than you 1.00
03:37:34.100 guys you guys don't want to get drafted i've never claimed to be a feminist i guarantee you 0.67
03:37:38.660 though if there was something trying to be passed in uh congress or whatever to equalize
03:37:45.380 the draft all these feminists all these feminist organizations are gonna fight that 1.00
03:37:50.340 shit yeah to the death wait i'm gonna play devil's advocate for a second yeah sure you just said that 0.99
03:37:55.300 all those jobs right that are predominantly run by men would not be done as good as women right 1.00
03:38:00.980 like you said that those jobs like such as like blue collar work or like the clips that you just
03:38:08.180 showed that women couldn't do as good of a job as men right so do you think women could do as good 1.00
03:38:13.620 of a job as men in the military and how is that benefiting our military doesn't matter why not it
03:38:19.860 doesn't matter because it's all it all comes down to equality and also women can volunteer look 1.00
03:38:25.620 ultimately even if we did draft women it would be the same standard that currently exists with 1.00
03:38:30.900 the volunteer military force so even when women do join the military overwhelmingly they are not
03:38:36.660 placed in combat situations they're not placed on the front line uh there are perhaps some examples
03:38:42.340 you can point to and there are women who die in the military but uh women there there are plenty 1.00
03:38:46.820 of jobs in the military that do not involve being frontline soldiers there's a lot of
03:38:52.020 women shouldn't be frontline soldiers well honestly look for if we're if we're elevating equality above 1.00
03:38:58.740 all else yes put make women frontline soldiers but then how is that effect like how is that it would 1.00
03:39:03.540 be less effective yes it would be bad yeah but if military if look if the virtue if the value here
03:39:10.420 is equality above all else then look ultimately my point is if women have a privilege or a right 0.97
03:39:20.580 right that men have a duty or responsibility in order to have said right if women have access to 0.94
03:39:27.220 said right they should have a corresponding duty or responsibility so why don't you agree with my
03:39:33.700 take on the three-fifths thing oh i was actually saying that arguably if if the status quo is going to
03:39:40.100 continue where women just enjoy rights and privileges without responsibility then actually perhaps her 1.00
03:39:46.340 position is compelling in the sense that maybe a woman shouldn't have quite as much of a say as man 1.00
03:39:52.100 why should women be able to vote for people and vote to send us to war when they have no they don't 1.00
03:39:58.820 face the same level of uh peril that men potentially do sounds like equity
03:40:06.740 like you disagree with that i'm no no no no so like what you were saying like it like three-fifths
03:40:11.060 itself to me sounds better than not having the right to vote so like but like if uh if we're
03:40:17.380 being stereotypical and we're making generalizations and we're saying women should be you know like
03:40:22.340 stay-at-home moms or whatever okay i'm sorry brian um no you're good okay i just have that oh okay i
03:40:27.300 thought i was saying something annoying okay so like if we're making generalizations um and women don't 1.00
03:40:32.580 contribute as much as like men do and specifically in combat situations um i don't know the statistics but i
03:40:40.020 mean i think three-fifths sounds good and i'm not gonna lie i don't know what the commander in chief
03:40:44.340 fully does or all our military operations or you know like the whole thing in ukraine i had no idea
03:40:49.220 that was going on and i feel kind of weird being a citizen a female citizen having to vote i haven't
03:40:54.100 voted because i'm subject to indiscriminate um empathy i don't know and that for that reason i kind
03:40:59.700 of like the three-fifths idea when you brought it up i like the spirit behind it that's not the society
03:41:04.500 we live in i can empathize with it um and you could argue it's actually the centrist position too because
03:41:09.380 there's people that want to full-on repeal the 19th amendment i'm not even saying that you know
03:41:13.700 well i don't know if you're here when i'm saying this i think we should just get rid of universal 1.00
03:41:16.900 suffrage in general so i think we claw back the right to vote from both men and women because you
03:41:22.340 have a bunch of like really low information voters society you just huh how would our society function
03:41:28.500 if nobody you have okay so there there's pathways to getting the vote so that would be military service
03:41:34.500 which would be available and open to both men and women uh so there that would be one pathway
03:41:41.540 you'd have to be a stakeholder in some sort of way you would uh maybe if you have children that's
03:41:46.420 another way maybe there's a civil service component where maybe you're not you don't join the military
03:41:50.820 but you do some form of civil service for the country but uh yeah or you could just you i was gonna
03:41:57.540 say raise the voting age maybe that's one option 25 potentially prefrontal cortex blah blah blah 0.97
03:42:03.780 not fucking bullshit but um yeah i mean i think uh i don't know if like our founding fathers this is 0.96
03:42:10.660 really what they had in mind where just we had this degree of universal suffrage uh so so what do you 0.99
03:42:19.860 think they had in mind oh um people who had like a stake in the country i think what was it originally
03:42:27.220 like landowners or something oh yeah yeah so maybe somebody who owns i just maybe you could own a
03:42:34.340 house or maybe you have if you have children maybe it could be like a a household vote or something like
03:42:40.180 that one household gets a vote um you could and and through military service i agree i feel like there
03:42:48.580 are a lot of uneducated voters and i that's why i don't vote because i looked at ballots i was reading
03:42:54.020 certain i was like i don't know what this is talking about i'm not even gonna vote because
03:42:59.060 i feel like that's unfair well yeah you have really low information voters and the way they
03:43:03.620 word things too is like they're counting on you to misinterpret what they're saying or they're
03:43:08.500 being very tricky so things need to change them in a lot of ways um okay we'll move off of that but
03:43:16.660 by the way just to be clear i'm fine with y'all keeping the right to vote women should be able to vote 1.00
03:43:20.980 but hey let's have a conversation y'all should be drafted that's my position um let's see where
03:43:28.260 were we going next i don't know we let's get back maybe dating would be good wait um who here uh you 0.73
03:43:34.900 were born in china is that correct anybody else like born not in the united states i mean i'm born
03:43:40.900 in england but you're not you don't live here so no i don't live here uh anybody else anyone born
03:43:46.340 somewhere else okay um to uh you're indian and you're indian is that correct do you get do you
03:43:53.940 feel strong cultural ties to your heritage or your culture like indian culture yeah because there's
03:43:59.700 like so many different ethnic groups in india since it's a subcontinent and i'm i'm Punjabi uh
03:44:04.820 personally and like the big stereotype with Punjabis is you'll always know because they'll always tell 1.00
03:44:08.820 you because we're really prideful people okay what about you um i mean i feel a lot of like
03:44:15.700 pride for my culture but honestly like my parents had a love marriage and they were and they both came
03:44:20.980 here when they're really young and they also i don't know any like indian languages they spoke
03:44:25.700 fully english in our house like i know a lot of immigrant parents they'll speak their native
03:44:30.100 language in their house and their kids are raised up on it no my parents spoke spoke fully english sure
03:44:34.980 and also they were religious but they didn't we never went to temple much like i don't consider
03:44:39.300 myself religious at all so i don't i'm not super indian so you moved to the united states when you're
03:44:45.140 five yeah okay and so you have chinese citizenship yes but you don't have u.s citizenship yet i don't
03:44:52.100 and i don't plan on getting it oh you don't plan on getting it but i could have already gotten it
03:44:56.100 because i'm 18 already but i don't plan on naturalizing so oh why is that because i do have plans
03:45:00.820 to return back to china and like if i were to naturalize every time i go back would be like
03:45:05.540 an hassle to have to get a visa and get approved but then right now where i'm sitting with a chinese 0.99
03:45:10.340 citizenship like a chinese passport with a green card it gives me the freedom to just travel freely
03:45:15.220 between two countries so i can go back to china for like two months which i did and like come back
03:45:19.540 and be perfectly fine not have to sign any paperwork or anything if you had to estimate like in terms of
03:45:25.460 so you're 18 in terms of total time spent in each country what would be the like the ratio the
03:45:33.860 breakdown yeah i'd say like because i go i come here for school like the reason why my family came
03:45:38.660 to the u.s was so um my siblings and i could get an american education uh so i'd say like for 10 months
03:45:44.900 out of the year i'm here and then like the summer time i go back to my since you were five well not
03:45:49.620 every summer sometimes in summers like i have plans and like i have like tutoring like i have like
03:45:54.420 extracurriculars but when i have the time yeah pretty much i'm still pretty connected to the
03:45:58.180 culture over there if that's what you're saying like i'm fluent in my language yeah you speak
03:46:01.380 mandarin yeah but you uh you live there entirely for your first five years yes yes and then you came
03:46:07.860 here and you spend most of the time here in the united states yeah after that after my yeah after i
03:46:14.020 moved here i'm trying to think if you spend like one to two months
03:46:16.500 maybe it's like 70 30 percent is that fair to say 70 70 30 70 30 percent 70 percent of the united
03:46:25.940 states and your parents don't plan to naturalize to the united states either they don't either they
03:46:31.300 are just waiting for us to finish school and then they're also going back to china okay are your
03:46:36.260 parents like diplomats or something or what do they do um what do you mean like for work or yeah yeah for
03:46:42.500 work well my mom she's a stay-at-home mom she doesn't do anything and my dad works at apple
03:46:46.740 at apple okay he's like a software engineer or uh no he does something like an hr but he um
03:46:53.860 yeah pretty much he's the only one that works in our family and he's supporting yeah i have an older
03:46:58.260 sister who goes to ucsb and a younger brother who's 10 years old 10 years old and are they gonna stay
03:47:04.820 here until he yeah he graduates from college um high school and then at least high school yeah so
03:47:10.500 another eight years yeah and are you gonna stay here until your parents move back or you're moving
03:47:14.900 back as soon as you're done with college well it depends on like where i locate based on my career
03:47:20.340 because i'm trying to get my cpa after um my degree so we'll just see i'm not sure but my long-term
03:47:27.300 goal is to do big four accounting in like a city in china so oh interesting so how do you um i guess
03:47:35.220 like how do you come i'm just i'm not maybe unaware of the process if the goal is not to naturalize
03:47:42.180 how do you come and stay in the united states like long term like your does your father have we had
03:47:49.220 h1b visa or no i don't know what it would be categorized as but um i actually am not too familiar
03:47:57.140 with how we really got here or anything i just know like we had a we had a we did have like we
03:48:03.780 knew people who are just able to do it for us i don't know what you want me to say about that but
03:48:08.020 you guys are like you guys are here legitimately not not like illegally or something okay you can't
03:48:12.660 call ice on me i'm here no no i'm just curious like what the categorization is because there's
03:48:19.540 different ways to stay here long term utilizing your school oh i saw that comment yep exactly
03:48:25.140 don't need to justify yourself that's interesting i have a question for you um this it's interesting
03:48:32.020 though because you're not planning to naturalize you're not planning to gain citizenship although
03:48:37.380 you've lived the majority of your life in the united states you've enjoyed the benefits of living in
03:48:41.860 the united states you've enjoyed the prosperity of living in the united states the education system
03:48:47.060 of the united states did you go to a public school and for high school yeah okay um here's a question
03:48:53.620 for you go ahead so imagine a completely neutral hypothetical situation where neither the united
03:49:00.180 states or china is the aggressor neither has done anything unethical and there's no moral dimension
03:49:07.220 just a military conflict that exists in that value neutral scenario to which side would your
03:49:15.220 allegiance be the united states or china china china i'd say okay and that's obviously biased because
03:49:23.700 i'm chinese from china most of my family's there but right um like you said like you're confused why
03:49:28.420 like i don't want to naturalize spending here being in the us for like such a long period of time
03:49:32.820 i think like being and being here for a long period of time made me realize that i personally like my
03:49:38.180 life in china better like it's more convenient it's easier like politics aside yes correct but
03:49:45.140 not by choice because i go to school here like once this is over of course i want to be back home like
03:49:49.940 where i feel happiest all right i guess uh yeah interesting and for me home is china not the united
03:49:54.660 states i wonder if uh i don't even know if would that be possible for an american to do in china what
03:50:04.260 your parents like i don't know if it's not possible and i don't know if you gave that answer or if an
03:50:11.060 american gave the answer you gave in china how that would go over but um but luckily for us
03:50:17.540 america has pretty robust uh freedoms especially related to speech um perhaps unprecedented on the
03:50:24.660 global stage but uh okay that's interesting i mean my argument does crumble uh it crumbles a little
03:50:32.020 bit in the sense that you're not actively you're not a citizen of the united states you're not trying to
03:50:36.980 naturalize so like it kind of makes sense but it is interesting it's like you have lived the
03:50:43.780 majority of your life here although you're 18 so you've been under the i don't know if control is
03:50:48.900 the right word but like you've been under the authority of your parents for your whole life 0.99
03:50:53.620 basically yeah so like when you're 15 you can't be like fuck you mom i'm going back to china you can't 0.97
03:50:59.380 do that really yeah your parents have uh authority over you they're your guardians and uh correct but 0.96
03:51:06.020 this is interesting this is an interesting thought you know we've asked this question before to um
03:51:11.780 people who have like dual citizenship or who naturalized as american citizens like we had one
03:51:17.220 girl who came from uh i think it was columbia was it do you remember mary that episode yeah we had a
03:51:23.460 girl who came here immigrated here from columbia became a uh she wasn't a legal immigrant become a 0.99
03:51:28.420 naturalized american citizen and she said that her allegiance was still to columbia and i found
03:51:34.580 that interesting but in your case it's a bit different i don't know i think we're cooked in
03:51:41.540 america honestly look i gotta be yo chat let me ask the channel why do you think i want out uh well you
03:51:47.940 know the the thing is is that i i think china is doing a lot of things uh in some ways better than
03:51:56.020 the united states like i feel like i've seen construction videos oh yeah construction there
03:52:01.620 isn't fast gets done like they've been uh i don't want to say the location but like near i mean there's 0.95
03:52:08.420 all kinds of construction around just santa barbara right man that shit is like what are they doing it 0.95
03:52:14.660 takes fucking years for them to do a little patch of road it's like but in china i feel like they get 0.98
03:52:19.780 shit done and i wonder if that's because there's probably a bit more of a well mono culture i think 0.99
03:52:25.780 there's an incentive here too the longer you take the more these companies that we can make money 0.95
03:52:31.460 yeah i think it's just the structure of how things are like in china you know like the ccp everything's 1.00
03:52:35.380 run under one organization versus here like you there's so many bills and like like papers that
03:52:40.020 have to be passed so much paperwork that has to be done to do anything that in china it's just like
03:52:44.500 okay one said and done like they just get straight to it here it's like so many approvals it's just like
03:52:48.500 like how the like our leaders like our government runs i guess i think like that wait but here's my
03:52:56.740 question chat chat do you guys think i'm worried bro i'm worried i think that uh you know i feel like
03:53:06.740 china is a bit of a threat you know i think that uh they're gonna surpass i think the chinese 1.00
03:53:14.980 it's already happened england well she says it's already happened i don't know about that
03:53:20.340 i don't know about that but in some ways i i do think that uh have you ever been to china let me
03:53:26.660 ask you that no i haven't but i think that there's probably there's a lot of social upheaval in the
03:53:33.220 united states there's a lot of political polarization social polarization in the united states the united
03:53:40.100 states has multiculturalism uh look in china you have like uyghurs and i don't know if i said that 0.97
03:53:45.700 right but there are different like i guess ethno groups i don't know if that's even like in china
03:53:51.380 but generally like the people in china they're like chinese heritage whereas here in the united states
03:53:57.540 like multiculturalism i don't really think you have multiculturalism in china you have chinese
03:54:03.860 culture yes but we do have like india like we have a lot of different ethnic groups majority are
03:54:08.900 like the han ethnic group which is what i am but like there's a lot of there's like a lot of cultures
03:54:13.940 within china too i wouldn't just categorize like all of china into one chinese culture like depending on
03:54:18.900 what region you're in they eat different foods they have different practices different beliefs
03:54:22.500 they even look different like people in the north tend to be taller than people in the south
03:54:26.180 because of like climate differences i yeah i don't think it's like all categorized as one i don't know if that
03:54:31.540 helps but well i don't think china's fully caught up quite yet to the united states but
03:54:36.580 i would say that china has a better i i think china probably has a better foundation for social
03:54:42.740 cohesion than the united states does so i think like the fall of the united states i don't think is
03:54:48.740 going to be external i think the fall of the united states would be internal correct which i think
03:54:54.100 would be very unlikely and for china for example i don't think there's enough political polarization
03:55:00.420 or social upheaval in china and so uh by the way i apologize we're totally getting off the 0.86
03:55:04.900 fucking date fucking talking about geopolitics in china i don't know chat what do you guys think i i 0.98
03:55:10.100 mean it isn't it just true though like there we got a lot of fucking polarization societal upheaval 0.99
03:55:19.700 in the united states china seems a bit more cohesive a little bit among its populace but isn't their 0.79
03:55:26.500 education better so i'm just i'm not sure but i'm just well it is but like the way they do it like
03:55:33.380 the system is like really detrimental to like students mental health like yeah at the end of
03:55:39.620 the day like i guess you can say like china pumps out smarter kids or whatever but like
03:55:45.220 yeah i think like their education system is something that i wouldn't really like approve
03:55:49.060 of so like yeah that's why i'm studying here and then like taking this knowledge back but
03:55:53.060 and would you argue that china like values stem more than america does um
03:56:01.300 that i actually am not too sure they probably wouldn't say but i also i mean the chinese
03:56:06.260 government has more control way more control like for example uh the chinese government can kind of
03:56:12.660 dictate i i believe didn't didn't the chinese government there's something about how uh 0.95
03:56:20.100 uh the men were becoming too feminine or wait fuck i'm trying to remember what this was 0.95
03:56:27.060 mary are you googling it something like they they were like all right these these little 0.99
03:56:36.020 well there was something like okay if you're on tick tock
03:56:41.460 right yeah like if you're on tick tock in china they're gonna like the algorithm on tick 0.95
03:56:46.420 tock and i guess it's named something different in china yeah or whatever they're gonna show like
03:56:51.380 they're gonna push in the algorithm like science videos they're gonna push uh educational videos
03:56:56.500 whereas here in the united states they're the tick tock app is going to push like retarded dances 0.98
03:57:02.580 and like just brain rot fucking just slop fucking content um and that's something proactive that the chinese 0.98
03:57:11.460 government is doing to like not rot the brains of their youth you don't have access to everything 0.99
03:57:18.420 on the internet either there right because i had a one of my exes had gone to china and besides
03:57:24.180 it being like very difficult to you know get approval to go to china um i remember he had to
03:57:28.740 get like a vpn to access or insights or whatever it was yeah that is true for sure
03:57:35.860 anyways whatever we'll get off of that um i was just curious about that okay let's do um
03:57:39.700 oh i apologize for the delay on this we are gonna do the sarah stock situation so we were
03:57:46.420 gonna do it the like right when the super bowl ended but i think who won yo chat who won the
03:57:51.380 super bowl seahawks what was the score chat what was the score 29 to 13 yeah hey chat was it a good game
03:58:00.980 was it a good game
03:58:06.660 what what time it was oh yeah uh seahawks
03:58:15.620 uh i think there's something before that isn't there that's the first one isn't there like an article
03:58:20.740 or something isn't there an article oh what's before that here just do the first one after the chat gpt stuff
03:58:28.820 we'll we'll get into the sarah stock drama here and we'll have the girls weigh in 1.00
03:58:41.540 all four there should no no it should be the thing right after the chat gpt before getting
03:58:48.500 into the sarah stock thing we have like stories photos
03:58:57.700 all right we're going to react to these super quick then we're going to get into the sarah stock
03:59:00.500 thing go ahead all right this is yours uh this was a story you made beforehand your girl's going on a
03:59:07.780 dating podcast pray for me dating marriage is not easy nowadays with god anything is possible
03:59:12.900 you want to be encouraging on the whatever podcast you've made a lot of mistakes and want to give
03:59:17.140 people hope next one mormonism religion okay i'm a little trad conservative but not extreme
03:59:25.700 you okay well we're not gonna get into that but uh so what were the mistakes you made you mentioned
03:59:31.140 making mistakes so one mistake i already brought up um the essay attempt i've attempted multiple
03:59:37.540 times to sell myself um in various forms they've never gone through you know but the temptation's
03:59:45.140 there and all i know when you say sell yourself do you mean prostitution yes sir what do you mean you
03:59:50.340 attempted to sell yourself so there was there was a um i'm i'm going to admit it so um i tried selling
03:59:58.180 my virginity online not online but like to meet up with a guy there's a place called cinderella escorts 0.97
04:00:04.340 um and i thought i could make money from that there was someone who made a million dollars from
04:00:09.940 selling their v card and i thought i could do something similar because you know i need money to
04:00:15.540 you know to live and to support a family so that was what i had in mind um that's what i mean by selling
04:00:22.420 myself and that was a mistake to you uh you attempted multiple times to sell yourself yes so i consider
04:00:29.380 of like a form of selling yourself like a form of selling yourself i put it in like the i'm talking
04:00:33.620 about the prostitution yeah so so that was just one time that was one time and that's related to the
04:00:40.980 essay no no no no no no no oh mistakes the mistake thing like i've me committing mistakes okay you you
04:00:50.660 had brought up the essay thing though um but so okay you attempted to prostitute yourself yes sir to one
04:00:56.500 man or multiple men or to to someone hypothetically i never met up with anyone to exchange my v card for
04:01:04.740 for uh money okay how far along the process did you get to selling your v card not that far i just found
04:01:13.540 the website i attempted to make an account but then there was just a lot of application stuff that i had
04:01:19.940 to do first and i was just i was like you know what i probably shouldn't be doing this so what it was
04:01:26.500 like uh you spent 30 minutes on the website and then you backed out yes but i spent several months
04:01:32.340 actually years thinking about doing it until i decided to get on the website and you were a mormon
04:01:38.820 at this point um yes isn't that like really probably frowned upon yes sir
04:01:49.140 uh okay i'm not a good like what was your asking price um i was going to go for 500k or a million 0.72
04:01:57.060 damn bro that's a lot okay some women get that though right apparently someone would be willing to 1.00
04:02:03.780 pay that how did the women prove it though like i mean uh you can't like like i don't know if a guy's 1.00
04:02:10.420 going to drop 500 000 like how do you actually know for sure i don't think there's a way to tell
04:02:17.940 you just have to take a word for it like somebody you could you could be have been cracked like 10 times
04:02:26.180 yeah crack crackening and nobody would know like you any of you women who here's a virgin who's a virgin 1.00
04:02:34.820 oh i am well i mean obviously why obviously though because you've already told us because she said she
04:02:41.300 is well um like any of you could just claim you're a virgin aside from those of you who have kids that's
04:02:50.980 not gonna work but unless it was like the immaculate conception or like ivf or some
04:02:55.220 shit like you could claim you're a virgin you could claim you're a virgin like how would anybody know 0.79
04:03:01.060 that you're not you know yeah maybe how you act in bed that girl can fake that you can have experience 1.00
04:03:08.820 and still suck in bed milky but that is true too i want to say like the hymen thing but like every
04:03:14.740 girl like even mine's probably not in tax because of you know i did sports growing up you know yeah but 0.95
04:03:19.060 not every woman has a hymen or it can get broken or if they do horseback riding or tampons or what 1.00
04:03:26.260 you know whatever it is so that's not uh the lack of a hymen wouldn't be indicative of lacking of virginity 1.00
04:03:34.420 but okay that's fucking insane so you tried to sell your virginity damn 500 000 1.00
04:03:39.140 shit i would sell my if i could go back in time shit bro woman a woman would not even give you a 1.00
04:03:46.180 hamburger to take your virginity like a man's virginity you would as a man you'd have to pay 1.00
04:03:52.820 a woman to take your virginity that's the difference in sexual dynamics i guess huh you don't have to 1.00
04:04:00.740 what's that you don't have to you can choose not to well what i'm saying is is like i don't think
04:04:06.980 there's any women there's no woman in the history of ever who would pay a million dollars 1.00
04:04:14.980 to deflower a man i bet there's one never i bet there's no they just you just make an internet 0.99
04:04:20.820 post any virgins out there want to fuck that's it that's all you gotta do is you'll get takers 1.00
04:04:28.580 you had something on this i was just gonna say i think there's just a differentiation between how like 0.99
04:04:32.660 men and women like or generally speaking view sex like i feel like well i feel like men they see it
04:04:39.460 they can see it as more of like a casual thing because at the end there's not like well yes like
04:04:44.100 you should if you get a woman pregnant you should be accountable but realistically speaking there's no 1.00
04:04:48.020 like like he could just leave if he wanted to but like a woman like if you're having sex with someone 0.89
04:04:53.540 if you're choosing to do that you have to sit with the consequences if you get pregnant and there was
04:04:57.220 actually an experiment done on this i learned in one of my previous classes where um someone just went
04:05:01.860 around a college campus asking men and women if there was a average looking person i showed them
04:05:06.260 a photo of a very average looking girl or guy if there were a girl um would you crack them i think
04:05:11.940 it was the statistics were like 75 percent of men said yes while zero women said yes and the reasoning
04:05:18.420 behind this psychologically speaking could be like women like our egg is seen as like a protective seed 1.00
04:05:23.540 that we kind of have to protect and like we're not just willing to just give it to anyone versus men like
04:05:27.860 you guys can recharge you know like multiple times a day every day so it doesn't it's not as sacred
04:05:33.620 it's not as like like precious to you i guess so maybe that explains why like men are so willing to 0.57
04:05:42.260 give more to have sex with a woman versus a woman is like why would i pay to have sex with you it's 1.00
04:05:47.140 like why would i do anything to have i think it's because like the thing you were bringing up is like 0.96
04:05:51.380 about how like the different ratings i think it's because women are not nearly as realistic about 0.98
04:05:57.540 how men look compared to how men are like towards women really can you elaborate more on that like
04:06:04.740 what do you mean like there'll be a girl that's like a five on a good day and she feels entitled to
04:06:11.140 like an eight plus whereas like men i feel like they understand like not every woman's gonna look
04:06:15.540 like adriana lima of course but they understand that there's like levels to it like a six could be
04:06:20.020 like somewhat above average kind of mad looking but still have a really dateable personality
04:06:26.180 and they go for that i feel like women are just really like so he's got to be six feet so you think
04:06:30.420 women don't go for personality and we just look for the looks i think there's some women that do but i 1.00
04:06:35.380 don't i wouldn't say it's like majority do you think that most women have unrealistic standards 1.00
04:06:39.700 yeah and you don't so you think men's standards are very reasonable then i think men are more 1.00
04:06:44.740 realistic just about how women look like physically oh girls are gonna love that one interesting 1.00
04:06:53.940 i tend to agree with that i kind of agree to like generally speaking
04:07:02.420 but i do think that there are men out there that you know yeah there's some men who are yeah and they
04:07:08.820 think that they can think that they can box yeah it's just cool but i think the difference is so
04:07:14.020 the men think that they can pull but women can actually pull so i think here's one of the differences
04:07:20.820 and it's something we often talk about on the show uh so men will as a woman even if on your looks alone 1.00
04:07:29.540 the guy would never consider you for a relationship so there's a threshold where a man will look at a
04:07:35.220 woman and he would sleep with her but he wouldn't date her but he wouldn't be in a relationship with 1.00
04:07:40.500 her but he would if she offers up sex and she gives him sex on the platter want some pussy he'll 1.00
04:07:49.380 take he'll take the pussy right but he'll never be in a relationship with that girl whereas i think 1.00
04:07:53.300 typically for women again not saying all instances all times all women i think for a woman to be 0.99
04:07:59.620 for a woman to have sex with a man he needs to be at least good looking enough that she would be in 1.00
04:08:06.260 a relationship with him generally now there could be some situations whereas men men will sleep with 0.96
04:08:14.260 a woman that they don't even want to be seen in public with but they'll have sex with her because 1.00
04:08:21.220 they want they want some pussy so y'all women you can pull a caliber of men you can have sex you have 1.00
04:08:27.940 limited access limited sexual access to men that are above your league are more attractive in some 1.00
04:08:35.700 component whereas men we don't like for example if i if i shoot my shot to a woman outside of my league 0.86
04:08:42.660 outside of my looks league here's what a woman does a woman needs to go to an attractive guy and be 1.00
04:08:49.460 pleasant and offer pussy want some pussy sir and maybe he it might not work for all guys but 0.99
04:08:56.580 you know you'll get a guy whereas as a man if we're making ourselves pleasant and we offer some 1.00
04:09:03.060 dick to a woman outside of our league they're gonna the fuck you know so like you step to a guy outside 1.00
04:09:11.140 of your league he might look at you and here's the framing i'll have sex with her but nothing else 1.00
04:09:16.740 i said a man steps to a girl outside of her league uh complete and total shutdown nothing you don't get a 0.92
04:09:24.020 date you don't get a conversation um you certainly don't get sex even if you're otherwise pleasant 1.00
04:09:30.740 and just offering up maybe the dick could be really good often a really good dick but even then no women 1.00
04:09:37.300 are more selective and that's not an indictment of women actually i think it's probably more an 1.00
04:09:41.380 indictment of men but for this reason i think because women and also because women men are their
04:09:49.220 pursuers pursuers uh you can be a woman below average woman hop on a dating app you have 0.98
04:09:56.340 a hundred dick offers right away you're an average looking dude on a dating app no 1.00
04:10:01.380 pussy offers zero pussy office offers zero on a dating app below average woman 1.00
04:10:08.740 you can get you can fight a even an ugly woman an ugly woman if she wanted to not saying women want 1.00
04:10:19.860 to do this y'all could fuck like five dudes a day but for for a guy to fuck five chicks a day you got to be 1.00
04:10:28.740 like like top one percent looks you got to be or like a famous musician famous athlete like top male 0.99
04:10:41.060 sorry go ahead you want to know i was just saying like i think that just kind of like proves like
04:10:44.980 ties back to what i was saying about like women just see sex differently as like men like they do 0.98
04:10:49.380 you guys are just yeah okay i thought you were trying to disagree or like argue against that but
04:10:54.100 well i think i was more so just pointing out um i think it's more in terms of the likelihood of
04:11:02.740 uh the delulu yeah like i think women women will overestimate their attractiveness because women 1.00
04:11:12.180 even like average or below average looking women they pull are bombarded with with offers 0.99
04:11:19.460 uh dick offers uh and so you you like men would be completely fucking degenerate if the roles were 0.99
04:11:28.820 reversed like to to women's credit y'all have restraint like you are turning down a lot of men 0.99
04:11:37.060 whereas if the men like how many dick offers do y'all get per day well i shouldn't it depends if 0.95
04:11:43.940 you're if you're not if you're like not on a dating app you're just not on social media like that it's 0.67
04:11:49.140 probably not too crazy i try 50. 50 per day yeah right yeah yeah so uh yeah to you guys's credit
04:12:02.500 it's probably a good thing y'all y'all are selective in the sense that uh
04:12:06.820 yeah i don't know where i'm going with that well it's not just the pregnancy i would argue like women 1.00
04:12:12.500 are also more at risk of utis too that's why they're more picky uh yeah i guess well not even
04:12:20.340 just like the utis or like the medical aspect of it i think just how women view our bodies it's just 1.00
04:12:24.740 more of like like like a temple i guess you could say like it's more like sacred and then like a
04:12:32.100 men's body is just more like a regular office building i don't know i think we're getting farther
04:12:36.900 from that though no yeah like i feel like that's like the more traditional view like you know sex
04:12:42.180 is sacred but now we're like but like what brian said even now in this reality it's still true like
04:12:47.220 men are always going to be down to crack versus like you won't be able to find a like or maybe you 1.00
04:12:51.700 can but like generally speaking it's going to be harder to find a woman that's as down bad for sex 1.00
04:12:55.700 as like a typical man i don't really like that you called a man's body um an office and a woman's a
04:13:00.500 temple i feel like everyone's body is a temple men and women that's just like my christian mormon
04:13:05.300 outlook well i mean i think what she's trying to get at stereotypically how people view their body
04:13:11.140 look there's women are promiscuous too but i think men are more willing to play russian roulette with 0.99
04:13:16.100 their dick correct i do think we have whereas women i think are a little like look women women 1.00
04:13:22.020 fuck okay i feel like we do have controversy like more control in the bedroom when it comes to like 0.99
04:13:29.380 the male female dominancy and i'm not meaning because i'm a submissive woman but um if i was 0.99
04:13:35.140 to say to somebody i was dating um would you like to have a freesome i've got a girlfriend that's 0.97
04:13:41.140 like i want to bring into the bedroom it'd be more likely that he would be happy and excited about that
04:13:46.740 rather than if it was the other way around i know it's a double standard you'd be like what am i not 0.58
04:13:50.980 good enough for you so uh but so going back to this thing so you tried to sell your virginity
04:13:59.300 you know what i'm not proud of it i'm a virgin any takers we have some single women at the table 1.00
04:14:04.100 anybody uh i'll give you a discount i'll give you a discount uh my price a thousand dollars 0.61
04:14:12.500 i'm charging a thousand dollars you get to take my virginity um it'll be the best five minutes of your 0.99
04:14:17.380 life i'll give you the 30 that i almost gave you earlier but wait then i'd have to lose my virginity 0.79
04:14:26.900 that'd be awful no i'll answer it back after that but um and if you're uncomfortable talking about it
04:14:33.780 so i understand you you were i think you were tying in there's like an essay or yeah that that has
04:14:38.900 impacted my dating and um i didn't know if it was going to be brought up or if other people were going
04:14:43.620 to bring up other experiences they had from traumatic childhood um or something um that that affects their
04:14:49.940 dating life that was the point of that bullet point i see it affects mine i'm sorry that is okay
04:14:58.900 uh yeah well sorry to hear that that uh happened um but okay it's not related to the selling the
04:15:04.820 virginity thing did you message with any potential takers or no no okay i'm so glad you can i join that
04:15:12.340 website can i sell my virginity i think there might be a mail portion if you want to look it up maybe sure
04:15:17.460 i feel like it'd just be dudes trying to yeah like it'd just be dudes like get your bag brian
04:15:23.620 i have so many chances like that they're like i'm gonna i'm gonna put it on ebay
04:15:26.820 i've never seen ebay i'm gonna offer up auction it off see if there's any takers end up selling for
04:15:35.540 like 30 bucks or 40 bucks okay um let's get into the sarah stock thing let's get into that finally
04:15:42.820 sorry for the delay on that okay so there's a quite a bit of backstory quite a bit of detail so
04:15:48.660 i'll try to be as concise as possible i think i need to provide a bit of uh how do i explain this
04:15:57.540 mary why don't you pull up that youtube video i think we're gonna start there 0.54
04:16:00.500 okay at that time stamp originally so okay um was she like an internet celebrity before she came 1.00
04:16:07.540 on your show yeah i genuinely need more backstory yeah i feel like i should have read an american
04:16:14.820 history book or something no no like girl for like four hours i've had no idea what any of you
04:16:20.900 you're talking about i'm so sorry hold up and you don't need to no i know i'm like should i get back
04:16:26.340 on the plane and go to england if you put on video tab it's gonna move it again just put it on video
04:16:31.220 or window tab window window tab go ahead yeah you're gonna have to keep it here and put it back
04:16:39.140 to where it needs to go no no if you put leave it on window move now move scrub it while staying on
04:16:49.140 window okay what remember with the arrow keys to like move over no don't press play remember with
04:17:00.100 the arrow keys okay all right so uh this guy uh he says his wife divorced me took my kids and i have
04:17:10.100 no idea where they are uh start uh tabbing over okay uh whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa okay hold on way too
04:17:17.620 fast okay we skipped over a bunch um uh uh tab let's just keep tabbing over a little bit
04:17:29.300 keep going okay keep going all right so this is what started it and then keep going what keep going 0.99
04:17:39.700 what the fuck is on this keep going keep going keep going 0.99
04:17:46.340 okay there there's so much guys i hold on let me think about how i want to approach this 0.99
04:17:52.420 um hmm how do i do this i don't know if i'm i'll here we'll start there so that's that guy is involved
04:18:00.740 we had a woman on the podcast named sarah stock and she came on this was about two years ago she was on
04:18:06.660 she came on the podcast she's a christian she's catholic she claimed that she was waiting for
04:18:11.860 marriage she claimed she was a virgin it's not entirely clear based on the timeline if when she
04:18:18.580 was on maybe she was a virgin maybe she wasn't maybe it was all a lie what ended up happening was
04:18:23.860 she uh currently was is married to a man and you know she was this trad conservative right wing 1.00
04:18:34.340 uh kind of uh kind of talking head influencer content creator she's had a hundred thousand 0.98
04:18:42.740 plus following on x she was on like the jubilee surrounded i think once or twice and uh so she's
04:18:50.180 building sort of a brand for herself as this sort of uh conservative traditional catholic
04:18:56.820 uh political commentator uh political commentator it comes out that and she just got married a couple
04:19:05.860 months ago that apparently that guy who i know is a little complicated there but that guy that we
04:19:12.020 pulled up his tweets that was her boss not her husband prior to her marriage up until the day of
04:19:22.180 her engagement she was in a uh she was basically sleeping with her boss that guy named elijah 1.00
04:19:30.340 and this started in february allegedly wait how did this come out uh someone named milo
04:19:36.660 yiannopoulos uh sort of maybe some other people were revealing this but he primarily revealed uh there
04:19:44.740 was a leaked phone call where she uh didn't fully admit to everything but did admit that there
04:19:50.820 there was a uh a cheating situation that she did cheat on her uh my understanding is she didn't cheat 0.99
04:19:59.620 during the marriage or during the engagement but she was sexually involved with a married father
04:20:07.700 during the course of her pre-engagement relationship with her now husband soon to be ex-husband
04:20:15.220 uh and so uh that stems back to i think february of 2025 is when she got romantically sexually involved
04:20:26.260 with this other guy all the while dating her now husband she was allegedly cheating on him 1.00
04:20:34.900 up until the engagement so it wasn't just a one-time mistake allegedly
04:20:39.300 she was there was this was an ongoing cheating situation now the other complication is she told
04:20:48.660 her husband that she was waiting for marriage so all the while he was waiting for marriage to have
04:20:54.900 for them to have sex she was selling purity she was having she was getting cracked let's say by her boss 1.00
04:21:04.980 who's a orthodox christian or i don't know what his faith is who's a married man with children he's now
04:21:11.620 getting divorced his wife is divorcing him i suspect the marriage with sarah and her husband is also
04:21:20.100 heading in that same direction uh so it is a complicated in the sense that she was preaching
04:21:26.260 all these conservative traditional values claiming to be a virgin making her husband white while she's 0.90
04:21:32.260 getting cracked on the low and uh just just a complete contradiction of her her values um now we're
04:21:40.820 gonna actually marry here's what we're gonna do we're gonna pull up let's pull up the video really
04:21:46.020 quick actually that doesn't matter let's let's just go into the tweets let's go into the first one 0.94
04:21:51.700 so when this shit went down uh she basically immediately deleted her ex which was her primary 1.00
04:21:58.980 platform go ahead pull it up so she deleted her ex when this shit went down you would think that 1.00
04:22:07.220 if these allegations were false that she would perhaps defend herself but uh she has completely 0.93
04:22:13.460 deleted all her social media tab over to the next let me provide some important history now sarah was on
04:22:22.900 the show two years ago and the reason i'm even talking one of the reasons i'm talking about this
04:22:28.660 aside from it being relevant to the podcast is she talked about me okay she talked about me she 0.54
04:22:36.100 begged pull it back up mary she talked some shit and she had begged to be on pull it back up she had begged 0.99
04:22:42.580 to be on the podcast three separate occasions october 2023 november 9th 2023 january 29th 2024 and in 0.82
04:22:51.060 february of 2024 we finally had her on the show now you see down there where it says this post is from
04:22:55.860 an account that no longer exists she said something to the effect of i was just tweeting i wasn't even
04:23:01.140 tweeting about her it was something else i was tweeting about somebody else who's we're not going
04:23:05.140 to go down that rabbit hole but somebody who goes by the name of ashley st claire and i'm not going to
04:23:11.780 get into that but in response to my tweet that had nothing to do with sarah stock here she says well your
04:23:18.500 podcast does suck after she'd been on the podcast after she had begged to be on the podcast and after 1.00
04:23:25.620 she kind of a backstab a little bit so then scroll up so then i leaked the dms because it's like how 0.91
04:23:32.500 are you gonna say my podcast sucks when you begged to be on it multiple times um tab over 0.72
04:23:40.820 uh so then then this is me inviting sarah to do a debate on her criticisms of the show why she thinks it 0.65
04:23:46.980 sucks now she calls i the reason i show this she calls the podcast degenerate now notice the date 0.55
04:23:53.460 february 15th 2025 she calls my podcast degenerate precisely around the same time she began her cheating 0.94
04:24:03.540 escapade with a married man who has children and she was claiming to be a virgin and waiting until 0.90
04:24:09.540 marriage and cucking her boyfriend at the time now husband and she's calling me a degenerate and oh
04:24:17.380 the guy who she's having the affair with is the guy who said cook as in as in he agrees with her
04:24:26.100 calling my podcast degenerate and they call it degenerate because you know we sometimes have only
04:24:31.700 fans girls on although today we only have one out of ten and you know we talk about sex and blah blah
04:24:37.540 blah blah but their position is my podcast is so degenerate and then uh next one i guess so that's
04:24:47.140 the cheating elijah is the cheating partner and by the way he was cheating on his wife who he has kids 0.99
04:24:53.140 with and then here's her talking more shit uh this is actually before the that shit talking but so this 0.99
04:25:01.220 is uh kind of out of order chronologically but she writes let me can you read this for me me sure 0.99
04:25:09.140 um there's something very feminine about a man sitting on a podcast chatting and bickering with 0.99
04:25:14.340 girls about sex and dating all day long obviously directed at me so she's been talking shit what's that 0.99
04:25:20.500 you sure you love a gossip oh huge fan of it love it love it very feminine very feminine to be sitting 1.00
04:25:26.740 here with all you guys heaven forbid a man has conversations with the women so feminine uh so 1.00
04:25:32.820 anyways um i actually i i i kind of scorched her with a tweet on this but next one mary 0.99
04:25:41.380 okay so this is just more shit talking i'm establishing the shit talking because it's going 0.99
04:25:46.260 to matter in a moment she calls the podcast total brain brain rot she agrees that it's slop for low iq 1.00
04:25:53.140 retards um some hey some maybe it's true they say it's covert advertising for of which is totally not 1.00
04:26:01.460 true um and then she says yes i've been on it it sucks okay continue on next ah uh mary go ahead and
04:26:12.660 make it full screen put it video tab and we're going to play the video go ahead
04:26:15.540 oh uh just scroll it back okay go ahead play hi i'm sarah stock i'm 20 i'm from newport beach um i'm
04:26:26.260 single i've never had a long serious relationship or anything i've had like two pretty short relationships
04:26:34.740 and a lot of first dates kind of thing how many first dates would you say you've had no idea to be
04:26:41.460 honest more than 10 more than 20 more than 30 i don't know probably around 20 over my life okay
04:26:49.620 um what's the longest period of time that you've dated a guy
04:26:54.580 like two and a half three months i think would you call it a situationship have you ever called
04:27:00.500 somebody your boyfriend yeah you're also religious correct yeah i'm a christian are you waiting until
04:27:04.980 marriage yeah have you always waited till marriage yes you both are virgins is that correct 0.96
04:27:11.700 yeah the chick with the helmet on is slaying right no shame just okay what's your body count 1.00
04:27:18.900 yeah it's oh my god somebody should give it to me i would fucking wear it yeah 0.91
04:27:21.860 oh the helmet was cute i'm sorry i feel like it would be more interesting yeah 0.54
04:27:40.100 um we were appreciating the helmet in the video and then we spotted it on the shelf i'm really sorry i do
04:27:44.820 apologize if this takes away from um this video
04:27:50.500 just continue playing the video sure i 120 120 okay four four eight zero zero zero zero
04:28:03.700 whoa okay okay surrounded by purity here yeah i feel it rubbing off on me um that's between me and
04:28:13.220 the man upstairs okay so that's just further establishing a few things here uh mary can you
04:28:19.540 pull up the next tab please window down all right so that's her on the show now here's some more detail 0.97
04:28:26.180 uh and that's august 4th so there's a this is a secondary part of the story prior to the cheating
04:28:33.620 accusations that came to light this is all in the past couple days that the cheating stuff came to
04:28:38.820 light uh this is august 4th this kind of went viral we actually covered it on previous episode uh
04:28:45.540 so she posted this on x and all the e-girls attacked her and i actually don't have an issue really with
04:28:52.340 this maybe there's minor criticisms but she says i won and uh showing that she got engaged right
04:29:00.660 and i don't have any criticisms of this but uh it did get into this big controversy and all the
04:29:06.900 conservative e-girls started fighting each other over it i don't really know why
04:29:12.100 i didn't think it was a big deal maybe it was a bit performative and like
04:29:15.540 sharing it online i didn't really care i thought it was fine i actually defended her a little bit 0.83
04:29:20.020 despite the beef uh and but then i after the after the revelations of the cheating
04:29:30.900 well i i actually had a new interpretation of the that photo that viral moment go ahead pull it back
04:29:37.620 up mary um so this is my new interpretation of she won um so i did that mary can you tab over
04:29:49.780 next one uh divorce attorney she won and mary hit the x so i just hit x up there
04:30:01.700 so i just would write i won just to uh tab over you get the idea so yeah yeah uh tab over now oh this
04:30:10.420 is where it gets even juicier so this is she no so there's something where newlyweds for catholics 1.00
04:30:19.140 you can have your uh you can have your marriage it's called a papal blessing that's the pope that's
04:30:26.820 the top figure in the catholic faith you can have newlyweds can go to uh the vatican and have their i believe
04:30:34.180 they go to the vatican for this but i'm not sure if they the pope travels but i'm pretty sure they go
04:30:38.820 to the vatican and he blesses the pope the top of the food chain of the catholic faith
04:30:45.700 blesses your marriage and she says highly recommend getting your marriage blessed by the pope mind you
04:30:53.860 the marriage is because of what the new revelations it's actually completely i believe it can be the
04:30:59.860 marriage can be annulled it's null and void the marriage because of the infidelity and the lying
04:31:06.740 that sarah stock there uh look poor guy poor husband right oh i'm marrying a virgin waiting
04:31:14.100 for marriage okay next whoa next well did you tab over more than once or
04:31:21.780 or or did you resize wait what are you doing you just okay can you just go back to the pope video
04:31:36.580 or the pope photo and then we'll see what happened there uh here while we're waiting for that um
04:31:43.060 um okay just tab over once here okay that's weird okay uh click on the image there so mind you sarah 0.93
04:31:54.500 stock related to her being a conservative trad grifter she writes sex is bad for the soul outside 0.99
04:32:01.380 of its intended purpose yes actually can i have you read these her tweets again yeah okay um sex is bad 0.99
04:32:08.660 for the soul outside of its intended purpose yes all of them yeah all of them wrong real christian men 0.67
04:32:14.580 want to get married because sex outside of marriage is a sin regardless of regardless of whether or not
04:32:20.580 you've committed the sin before no but having sex out of wedlock is a sin against the baby that results 0.89
04:32:26.260 from it so kind of related to that last one but also you know here she is online talking about sex 0.97
04:32:32.980 outside of marriage is a sin but she's cheating on her eventual husband with a married man who has 1.00
04:32:42.660 children so quite the sin um while she's she's basically kind of being a hypocrite here and uh being 1.00
04:32:50.180 a grifter and then also it's alleged i don't know this for sure it is alleged by others that she got 0.88
04:32:56.900 abortions which if you're a catholic not really supposed to do that but and if you're a conservative
04:33:04.180 whatever she's pro-choice or excuse me she's pro-life uh next one mary
04:33:13.700 again uh sex outside of it's okay it's i don't know why it's being weird uh sex outside the marriage
04:33:19.940 is always a sin again uh next one oh is that it yeah okay um all right so i'm trying to think if
04:33:29.460 there's any other details oh pull up the article we'll just do that super quick i think that's the
04:33:33.780 final thing on this okay scroll down to the oh wait wait scroll up just keep it at the top hey scroll up
04:33:41.700 all the way to the top please and then you see that thing in the very top left right just hit x hit x
04:33:47.220 please okay so this is a the final article she wrote for her the company she was working for
04:33:54.260 this is how easy it is to be a top 10 woman in 2026 uh sarah stock scroll down to the don't be a 0.96
04:34:01.380 slut one what the fuck geez oh my god i yikes okay scroll down scroll down to the text no no no no no 0.99
04:34:08.820 scroll up scroll up just to the text part no scroll down scroll down i just need the text i don't need 1.00
04:34:13.460 that stupid image uh scroll down a bit more okay uh could i have you read why is it always me 0.80
04:34:21.140 reading i'm just picking on you um most single young women have been deceived into believing casual 1.00
04:34:26.820 promise behavior is the best way to lock down a high quality man in reality it is it make it so that 0.97
04:34:33.220 only the most desperate men are willing to take you seriously even if you've been acted like a slut in 1.00
04:34:37.780 the past it's never too late to stop i shouldn't have to say this but don't sleep around all you 0.89
04:34:43.380 really have to do is put on some clothes when you're in public don't wear yoga pants crop tops
04:34:48.100 tight short dresses excessive cleavage lingerie shirts etc we're gonna skip that part go to the 0.91
04:34:52.660 next paragraph regarding your history it's regarding your history it's 2026 most women are going to have 1.00
04:34:59.540 at least a bit of sexual or romantic past with other women what's important is that you don't talk 0.97
04:35:04.020 about it aside from being honest about its extent if things start to get serious with the guy make
04:35:08.420 sure to express regret over any mistakes but spare the details because most men prefer not to know
04:35:13.620 avoid talking about your exes or bragging about male attention because it actually doesn't make you look
04:35:18.180 desirable please don't talk about male celebrities you think are hot and pretend that the guy you're
04:35:23.300 interested in is the only one that exists all right so a little bit of some indictment there because
04:35:28.900 she's trying she's sort of hinting at you should suppress some of your romantic or sexual history
04:35:36.020 if you're a woman in this case kind of emblematic here she duped her husband um i'm trying to think
04:35:42.900 if there's anything else to really she so she deleted her ex um who knows if she'll be back um there's
04:35:49.860 some other details there that's the bulk of it um i'm curious to hear from panelists what you guys think
04:35:57.460 starting with you on what exactly you're just reaction your reaction to the whole article the 0.96
04:36:05.540 tweets all of it um well i definitely think she's a hypocrite i mean for everything that she said like 1.00
04:36:14.180 she kind of went against all of it when with her actions like she claims to be this like very like 0.93
04:36:19.940 right like i don't know her view she doesn't align with her views in the way she acts 1.00
04:36:27.380 going around the table what do you think um well i think she summed it up pretty well i agree i think
04:36:33.060 it's very hypocritical and like she's not she's just not um yeah her actions just don't match her words
04:36:41.700 um i think she's just like a professional larper either it was all for like show like maybe a 1.00
04:36:48.100 fucking plant or some shit but like honestly that's like you're you're a joke of like a representation 0.98
04:36:53.780 of what like real conservatism means maybe it's like to put a negative light like honestly i wouldn't 1.00
04:36:59.540 doubt if it was a plant it's just disgusting repulsive behavior and like don't call yourself anywhere near 0.85
04:37:04.420 catholic well okay did you say she had only fans no no no she wasn't a sex worker i was gonna say don't 0.97
04:37:13.220 scam that's it i have yeah okay what do you think it's like annoying to see her like tear down like 0.98
04:37:20.100 other women and like telling them not to have sex before marriage and all of this and then she probably 1.00
04:37:24.340 did like the worst thing like not even just she had sex out of wedlock but she cheated and then 1.00
04:37:28.900 what she did with a married man who had kids so pretty bad yeah so yeah what about you same thing as 0.99
04:37:35.060 everyone else okay okay any uh i was gonna say she's like clearly a grifter like she just said 1.00
04:37:42.020 the things that she knew to say in order to get a platform she's just a clout chaser yeah absolutely
04:37:49.940 anything madeline assuming it's true because i've never seen this before um but just taking your word
04:37:56.340 for it uh it's really disappointing i think it's just better to own up to your mistakes like she said
04:38:01.620 she should take her own advice be honest about what she had done say that she's not proud of it but now
04:38:07.220 she is caught as a liar and a really bad um representation of you know what she a conservative 1.00
04:38:14.180 traditional catholic etc do you think some of its publicity stunts like the thing with like the ring
04:38:20.820 like do you think she did that because she knew it would like start controversy in order for her to 1.00
04:38:24.820 get like publicity probably i mean i think look you just got married it's a big milestone in somebody's
04:38:30.980 life i don't know if she had the intention of uh starting a controversy i don't think it was really
04:38:36.740 even all that controversial but i don't think so either the e-girl conservative e-girls lost their 0.92
04:38:43.460 fucking mind about some of them lost their mind about it um i mean there could be some argument that 0.96
04:38:49.620 it was like slightly attention seeking like yeah i don't really have personally the thing i don't have 0.98
04:38:54.500 a problem with it really i think it's uh i mean me personally i don't really i'd prefer to date a
04:39:00.100 woman who has like minimal or no social media presence but i think it was pretty harmless right 1.00
04:39:07.380 the ring thing the ring thing the ring thing yeah but i mean the the primary thing here is the the
04:39:13.380 cheating the lying the um also i'm just like how are you gonna call me a degenerate i'm the degenerate 0.99
04:39:23.220 you're the one larping as a fucking conservative catholic while getting cracked by your boss while 1.00
04:39:29.380 making your husband wait for sex that's such a like stereotypically like like like sick like 1.00
04:39:36.420 actually like to call you degenerate is like and it's just like a weird projection they were well 0.95
04:39:42.180 i think they were projecting obviously yeah because it's like it seems like if she really like think
04:39:46.820 about it if she really actually believed even the basics of like the catholic faith or what she's
04:39:52.100 preaching about politics it just it just seems like a bit almost now the question i'm curious about
04:39:58.180 is was the boss at their wedding that's what i want to know that bro that's gotta be brutal you're so
04:40:07.060 you invite i bet yeah he might have been you the the man who basically cucked you is at your wedding 1.00
04:40:15.620 shit it's fucked up honestly that whole situation is probably one of the biggest black pills slash red 1.00
04:40:26.500 pills uh of the year i i want to say that's going to be the biggest black pill slash red pill of the 1.00
04:40:33.860 year do you think she can make a comeback in any form no she's done she's a hundred percent
04:40:39.460 done she deleted her instagram too or i think she deleted her instagram she deleted her ex 0.98
04:40:44.580 i mean look she might try to do a comeback oh the crazy part oh i totally forgot about this
04:40:49.700 um i'm wondering if we can find the tweets wait mary can you find the guy's ex so do you remember that
04:40:57.620 one uh if you google elijah schaefer x oh this gets fucking crazy hold on i totally forgot this find 0.90
04:41:05.460 his ex account mary i hope i don't know if he deleted the tweets but um yeah i mean i look
04:41:14.020 yeah do you have his ex yeah uh make sure it's like okay to show but you want to just pull it up
04:41:23.620 to confirm so he apparently uh he doubled down when the ship came out this is her fiance no no this is
04:41:32.100 the cheating partner this is the guy her boss her boss who's married and has kids you you got it
04:41:37.940 elijah schaefer x twitter
04:41:46.180 okay
04:41:49.940 no it's it's s
04:41:55.780 but you can find it from the remember where he said cook that's his his at if you can pull up
04:42:05.300 i mean yes i'm gonna give you 10 lashes mary if i find this before you do wait okay all right 0.99
04:42:14.020 private chat found that shit before oh my god then i'm on a shitty laptop at a fucking elevated angle 1.00
04:42:19.380 there you go pull that shit up there it is i'm fucking yeah i'm gonna cane you you're getting 1.00
04:42:26.500 fucking caned that's hot that's who said that all right there it is all right uh hit click on the 1.00
04:42:34.900 replies tab wait mary click replies do you see the replies tab yeah but just to be safe click it 0.99
04:42:43.380 all right um can you just scroll down and make sure there's not anything like he's not like leaking a 0.95
04:42:48.580 picture of his cock or something just scroll down like i don't know for five ten seconds i just want 0.94
04:42:54.420 to make sure i didn't pre-look at it so okay go ahead pull it back up if it looks safe from the top 1.00
04:43:01.620 it looks okay all right pull that shit back up all right scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down 0.97
04:43:09.140 uh let's see scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down uh wait scroll down scroll down 0.99
04:43:15.380 scroll down one more one more one more tweet uh okay here we'll start the scroll down or actually
04:43:24.100 wait go up okay sorry so sorry i got it go up up up up up more okay it's my story to tell so this is
04:43:33.620 in response to the things coming out uh and then he says i got mad aura be mad scroll down they will not
04:43:40.340 get away with this i'm not fucking leaving so by the way he's getting divorced from scroll up married 0.99
04:43:46.900 to the text um no the the the part i just read so in response to the cheating allegations coming out 0.97
04:43:56.420 out there's not by the way i think he's catholic or orthodox uh there's no repentance there's no i
04:44:04.580 fucked up he's he broke up two i mean both of them broke up two families his family and hers and 0.94
04:44:14.180 his response to this is not i fucked up i made a mistake it's i got mad aura be mad scroll down i'm 1.00
04:44:21.300 gonna read the other one uh so that's the guy yeah just leave it there uh you fucking snake 0.99
04:44:28.740 bitch this is the guy who leaked some of the stuff uh he says i have a dick and it works everyone can 0.99
04:44:34.180 go cry about it so basically he's doing a justification of the cheating because basically 1.00
04:44:39.300 saying uh yes i am a man and i have a penis and i uh yes i i am desirous of sex uh and then scroll 0.99
04:44:49.540 up i think there's one more that's relevant up up up keep going i'll tell you when to stop 0.99
04:44:53.780 it's okay for a man to say that uh scroll up wait scroll scroll down scroll down scroll down this one
04:45:04.020 right here uh yeah i mean that's pretty much it that's pretty much it all right so that's just
04:45:09.700 another layer um unfortunate yeah um
04:45:15.220 nobody has more further thoughts on that what that's fucking insane to me it's the whole i have 0.94
04:45:24.900 a and it works is crazy to me because if he is orthodox or catholic or whatever he is it's it's 0.57
04:45:32.500 just insane that he's justifying that and like you don't have self-control that's what i care about
04:45:39.540 as a woman i think that's what your wife cared about was your self-control and your loyalty obviously 0.99
04:45:43.140 you didn't have that so that's yeah all right somebody on a dirt bike or something um that i
04:45:53.620 miss yeah and having no remorse for your bad actions makes you a bad person yeah no remorse
04:46:00.020 that's like a huge slap in the face to his ex-wife too like imagine you find something out like that and
04:46:05.700 then you see on his twitter he's justifying it like who did i even marry and you said they have kids
04:46:10.420 right oh shoot yeah didn't you say they have kids he has he has kids so now they're gonna see that
04:46:16.580 because nothing on the internet is ever scrubbed yeah and they're gonna grow up with that perception
04:46:20.740 i don't know how old they are now but especially if they're on social media i'm sure they've already
04:46:24.020 seen something imagine like what your perspective of your father looks like now yeah or your perspective
04:46:29.060 of like a lead a man in a leadership role in your life that's like not only did he sabotage him and
04:46:34.900 his wife he sabotaged his kids perception of lots of different things for the future growing up so 0.64
04:46:40.340 shame on him yeah yeah well the the big black pill is and we we sort of talked about this at the very
04:46:47.780 beginning of the convo with how can you really know if a girl is single so it's sort of related in the sense
04:46:56.580 that how do you know how do you know what this real like somebody could just lie about their past and
04:47:05.380 like unless you were intimately familiar with the person you knew them before you started dating them
04:47:10.580 even then how do you really know like what goes down behind the scenes like some girl could be
04:47:18.100 smashing the entire football team and you wouldn't know
04:47:23.380 it's just kind of a black pill because it's not just like she how are you gonna claim you're a 0.57
04:47:30.580 virgin waiting till marriage and you're just not black pill that's why you know what i kind of respect 0.93
04:47:39.700 these liberal women to the extent that one can respect liberal women um 0.99
04:47:46.340 i kind of at least i feel like liberal more liberal women more uh i don't know if sex positive is the 1.00
04:47:54.340 right term no that's not the right term at least i feel like there's they're still gonna lie
04:48:01.940 but there's a little there's more incentive for them to be not incentive but they're more likely to be
04:48:07.300 honest they don't see anything wrong with it so it's like why why yeah it's like oh well yeah oh i was 0.99
04:48:12.100 promiscuous whereas like i feel like the conservative chicks i think they're fucking 1.00
04:48:16.980 grifting but i think a lot of these conservative chicks the fucking religious chicks bro they got 1.00
04:48:22.580 a past and they're gonna hide that shit whereas like a fucking atheist liberal girl she's gonna be 1.00
04:48:26.980 like yeah you know i was in i was in college i fucked you know 20 dudes or whatever i think it's less 1.00
04:48:32.020 likely to come across for like if you choose to date a conservative woman you don't have to worry 0.93
04:48:38.020 about it as much like it's less likely that she's gonna have been promiscuous than someone who might
04:48:43.300 be outspoken about it and they they're proud of it you know i don't know these conservative 1.00
04:48:48.100 girls be fucking she's shaking her head she's like i know some republican bitches that don't 1.00
04:48:52.500 fuck i know some trump some trump voters that don't fuck the entire sig gap frat house 1.00
04:48:58.660 are you in a sorority okay are you in a sorority okay i'm just saying i don't know how you 1.00
04:49:05.780 are you ever gonna know you think you got yourself a good girl but she has an orgasm what's wrong with 1.00
04:49:12.820 there's nothing wrong with orgasms but like she what if she fucked like the entire every all the 1.00
04:49:18.660 dudes in a frat house that's a lot of she gang banged an entire frat what the fuck and she's never 1.00
04:49:24.660 gonna tell you bro that scares me oh my god imagine you oh my god what if he did something similar 0.90
04:49:31.860 though like think about here here's the best way good times no it's not a good time not a good time
04:49:37.540 bad time very bad time very bad i've not but like all right well i know your version of fun is to get
04:49:44.420 gang banged by i've never been gang banged but thank you i thought you said it was a good time
04:49:49.380 like good for her she obviously like do your thing bad for her but uh like um i'm not saying
04:49:56.900 if you're in a relationship yes like enjoy i'm not saying i'm not like no women should never climax
04:50:04.980 that's retarded but uh in fact women y'all climax more than men well sometimes if you're able if 0.92
04:50:12.180 you're able to look i'm sorry i'm sorry you're dysfunctional i'm sorry no look it's look okay i just 0.94
04:50:19.540 like i find that into the mic guys reminder speak into the mic sorry i find that statistically so hard to
04:50:24.420 believe because so many women that i've talked to have been like i think he's referring to how
04:50:28.340 women can have orgasms back to back women can have multiple orgasms i see what you mean yeah sorry so 0.95
04:50:34.020 why is it the case that women who have the ability to have multiple multiple orgasms when they have 0.99
04:50:40.500 sex with a guy they're not climaxing i don't know you guys tell me y'all the women repeat that 1.00
04:50:46.740 are you guys are you guys just time are these guys just not laying it down properly are they 0.99
04:50:52.740 they're not they don't know how to fuck or they guys can't teach him i feel like like some of it's 0.99
04:50:57.860 on the woman like she's not teaching the guy enough she's not speaking up enough that could be part of 0.98
04:51:02.020 it yeah communication is key but i think the guy has some duty to do check-ins you know yeah do some
04:51:08.820 check-ins some people are so fast or slower left right question is the first time really bad for
04:51:14.340 women more pressure less pressure no um it can be it can be painful especially if you're tight 0.99
04:51:20.340 which you probably are i mean what i don't think there's anything uh sorry girl i don't know where 0.97
04:51:28.100 we're going with that i mean yeah it was just a question i mean shit imagine though imagine imagine 0.99
04:51:35.620 you uh you think you got yourself a virgin girl and she's fucking her boss yeah she puts shames to 1.00
04:51:41.620 virgins i'm like i hate people who are like oh i'm a virgin and like they're not i'm like uh there's 0.99
04:51:46.740 just genuine virgins who yeah you know i've taken sometimes i've taken a hard stance on only fans
04:51:52.580 girls and i've said i've said before i think my initial position was i would only be with a of girl 0.97
04:52:00.100 i i did say this very early on in the show i would and i never actually ended up dating an only fans 0.99
04:52:05.700 girl but i would date an only fans girl if she only did solo content like she didn't if she fucked 1.00
04:52:10.980 another guy on camera no what if she was with another girl is that okay it's not as good as 0.97
04:52:16.180 solo content but it's not as bad as if she did content with men but my content with boys is content
04:52:22.020 that i've been in a relationship with them yeah still a problem i don't just so problem but i guess
04:52:27.380 what i'm getting at here is nick i don't know if you guys know who nick fuentes is so you wouldn't
04:52:31.540 want to be in a relationship with someone that did only fans i've never i've never slept with never
04:52:36.020 dated a girl who's any kind of only but if she did solo content it'd be fine no no well what i'm
04:52:41.540 saying is then my position switched to uh well i might be okay with it if she only did solo content 0.99
04:52:47.460 never actually ended up dating an only fans girl two hundred percent deal breaker don't care if she 1.00
04:52:52.980 only posts fucking bikini pictures if she does only fans hundred percent deal breaker two now i'm kind 0.97
04:52:58.180 of getting i don't know if i'm blackpilled i don't know if i'm just losing it with this sarah stock 0.98
04:53:02.660 thing nick fuente and look i don't agree with a lot of nick what nick fuente says however
04:53:09.780 he said something along the lines of wouldn't it be hot to marry an only fans girl yes and related
04:53:15.780 to the sarah stock thing i was thinking like no matter if no matter who you marry 0.98
04:53:24.340 they're gonna do some dirty shit i like it kind of makes sense a little i don't know 0.92
04:53:29.220 it's like in the marriage or like are you talking about no i'm just i guess what i'm trying to say 0.99
04:53:33.300 is like explore your fantasy it's not a fantasy i'm just saying like like if they're gonna
04:53:38.660 fucking cheat on you anyway that's such a way she's concerned okay oh oh no i'm not gonna date an only 0.95
04:53:48.820 fans girl i'm gonna find myself a based trad catholic uh virgin waiting until marriage girl and she's 1.00
04:53:57.700 still she fucking lied she's like so it's like fuck i might as well i don't know that's one girl 1.00
04:54:03.620 though like yes i agree she's not look sarah stock is not emblematic of all conservative women or 0.99
04:54:10.580 christian women of course not of course that's not true there's good women out there 1.00
04:54:16.340 but you never know you never know all women are convincing that's the risk you take i mean 0.91
04:54:23.060 people have a past and some people are liars that's just a risk you take i mean the other
04:54:31.460 option is to yeah the other option is to not talk to them don't date them like i don't know like i
04:54:37.380 would here's i guess here's what i'm trying to say if if the choice was between in a hypothetical
04:54:46.260 where i don't know the outcome until later on of dating an only fans girl who's honest with me about
04:54:53.300 her past versus dating a girl who lies to me about being a virgin and she wants to wait but that's 0.89
04:55:01.780 completely too but for but actually done had fucking trains ran on her at the frat house and 1.00
04:55:08.820 fucked a bunch of dudes i almost would prefer and appreciate the honesty do you want an honest 0.98
04:55:16.420 person that's important like i if i had to choose i know that sounds it's like look it's bad either way 0.98
04:55:21.940 those are both shitty options but i'd almost have an appreciation for like at least i know what i'm
04:55:28.580 getting i'm not being deceived it's honesty you know i don't know if the chat disagrees i promise 1.00
04:55:33.700 you'd be having a good time huh you'd be having a good time it'd be fun what the fuck your sex life 0.98
04:55:40.340 would be fun that's all i'm saying well what why you're you're saying that women who are not 1.00
04:55:45.380 no no no no no no no no no i'm just saying bro the shy chicks are the best in bed that little nerdy 1.00
04:55:51.780 that nerdy girl in the in the library with the glasses she fucks yeah like she she knows she yeah 1.00
04:55:58.740 that's you bro it's the what are you talking about what are you talking about you don't know 0.99
04:56:04.980 you're saying you're fun bro it's that nerdy chick that you never suspect that's gonna 1.00
04:56:11.700 give you a good time just saying yeah no i bet just saying
04:56:17.620 so you said i don't know maybe i'm black-pilled i don't know you said on only fans what if a girl is
04:56:22.660 posting things on instagram is it just the only fans thing because they're having people pay our
04:56:26.740 instagram too like if a girl like i have a bikini shot on my instagram is that a problem for you 0.79
04:56:33.140 uh i mean i'd have to see it i'd have to see what else is being posted on the instagram i mean look my
04:56:39.140 general preference is towards uh more uh public facing modesty uh i definitely prefer that um i
04:56:48.660 personally prefer a girl who has as minimal social media presence or even none so she has a 1.00
04:56:55.860 fucking private instagram with like totally everything archived or a couple posts like 0.90
04:57:03.060 that's the ideal and women can want that too i've heard a lot of women say oh i want a guy who has 0.99
04:57:07.860 no social media yeah but i want a guy who doesn't post on instagram i want a guy who doesn't follow
04:57:12.420 300 girls i want a guy who doesn't have a thousand followers like so women can want this too um 1.00
04:57:18.340 but uh but women that say they want loser boyfriends they say that because they want to feel like 1.00
04:57:24.500 they're above him somehow like they want to feel like secure in the relationship like oh he'll never
04:57:28.660 leave me he's a loser socially that's what like what a lot of those girls say like i want a guy with 1.00
04:57:33.700 no social media i i think like a a bikini photo some guys have an issue with it i think it's a pretty
04:57:42.980 minor thing would it be my preference overall for it to for it to be leaning more modest side yes
04:57:50.260 yes i don't think it's a deal breaker um but i'd prefer a girl not super active on social media
04:57:56.420 like that so why is that your preference uh instagram's a dating app especially for women 0.51
04:58:01.940 you think so oh i've never used it for dating like ever yeah well it's also just an appearance thing
04:58:07.540 like i so i'm very private with you know i've been doing the show for four years very private with uh
04:58:13.700 the women i've dated my relationships uh i also uh in terms of an appearances thing uh oh this is 1.00
04:58:23.780 sort of a different dynamic i i mean i'd want to insulate my girlfriend from like my what i do is
04:58:31.540 controversial what i do brings heat on me and if i was public with my uh let's say previous girlfriends
04:58:39.860 i've had uh during the course of the show uh and like people knew their instagram and like could
04:58:47.140 find them and shit that would be a level of attention i would not want to inflict and inflict 0.99
04:58:52.900 is certainly the right word uh on my girlfriend like these motherfuckers gonna be harassing the 1.00
04:58:57.940 shit out of her how big is his dick does he come too quick is he a premature ejaculator sending 1.00
04:59:05.220 death threats they'd send death threats to her oh my god how could you date such a toxic man 1.00
04:59:10.660 yeah i can't not so any girl i'm seeing that shit's gonna always be private but even then i'd still 1.00
04:59:16.260 not want her really posting uh i wouldn't want her posting shit on instagram like the bikini pics 0.97
04:59:24.260 ideally if you're in the archive in the archive it goes it's a hot day and you're in a bikini 0.99
04:59:31.300 uh i mean having a good time yeah but is it one of these where it's like what's wrong look at my ass 0.98
04:59:38.020 do you see my ass i'm turning around for this picture and i'm looking over my shoulder like 0.99
04:59:43.860 this thirst trap like like uh you know well you could just look in a bikini what what's the word 0.99
04:59:52.740 for a picture if it's a candid photo of her in a bikini okay whatever yeah you could still archive
04:59:57.700 it by the way i preferred to submissive uh submissive dynamic in my relationships
05:00:03.780 so if i tell you to do something you should do it what if you didn't right within reason with within
05:00:12.020 reason well yeah if i submission is not if i tell my girlfriend to jump off a bridge she should rightfully 1.00
05:00:19.540 say no fuck you well she shouldn't say fuck you even if i tell her jump off a bridge but she should 1.00
05:00:24.580 say no like that's beyond the scope of what a submissive dynamic would be but if i say hey listen 1.00
05:00:32.740 um i want you to bunker down your social media i i this is not good for appearances i want you to be
05:00:40.980 like yes sir i disagree with that i think why is that i think that everyone's entitled works too
05:00:49.940 everyone's entitled to be exactly who they are in whatever in whatever form if you don't like
05:00:55.620 someone's social media presence or you don't like the way they are expressing themselves and you don't
05:01:00.420 have to be with right but what's most important is staying true to yourself like and being like you
05:01:07.060 know empty platitude but okay and doing your thing you know like obviously okay obviously like 0.99
05:01:12.260 have i've seen your instagram have respect for your part oh shit half your shit's gone if we were to 1.00
05:01:17.540 i have the fucking shit archive private archive you're dancing around with is it a bb gun or actual 1.00
05:01:24.180 gun oh it's like a prop gun it's not a real gun yeah that shit's got to go that sounds amazing in 1.00
05:01:29.860 your underwear and shit yeah that shit's got to go okay i am confident in who i am and i'm confident in 0.99
05:01:35.060 my artwork my instagram is artwork and i'm confident it is something it is stuff that i have created 1.00
05:01:40.340 yes it is art it is photography it is artwork everyone has a different no no you can have a
05:01:45.140 different opinion and i like i respect your opinion i respect other everyone else's opinions on my
05:01:49.620 instagram too because it's really not for everyone it's like but it's stuff that no one has done before
05:01:54.820 you know it's like original creations and at least i mean that's me being true to myself and if my
05:02:00.740 partner is gonna look at my art in a burka i right you don't need to be right but like i get i guess
05:02:10.660 it gets into like different themes of like you know freedom of body like there's a lot of different
05:02:15.220 things that i'm expressing through my art on my instagram and it's not it's not trying to look for
05:02:21.380 attention or to be sexual but you can have a different maybe that's the case but i think if you're in a
05:02:26.580 relationship with somebody and something you're doing is making them uncomfortable right and i i
05:02:32.020 would consider it and take it into account for sure but then at the end of the day like if you
05:02:37.620 if you don't agree with how i'm expressing myself or me being myself you don't have to be
05:02:43.380 right so then it would just become a negotiation but i mean i would no so so but if the if on the
05:02:49.780 outset or i guess onset of a relationship is i'm disclosing to a woman hi i prefer a submissive
05:02:57.380 dynamic i want you to defer to my decision making i want you to defer to my leadership uh what i say
05:03:03.940 ought to go and i would be like okay that's not if she's then agreed to enter into that dynamic with me
05:03:10.820 right then yeah she's going to she well she can obviously do whatever she wants but if the 0.99
05:03:16.980 content the continuity of the relationship is at stake and i understand that and also i want to
05:03:21.380 add on to that by saying that like if i was with a guy that i really cared about and really liked and
05:03:26.580 he came to me and was like hey i'm uncomfortable with one of your posts like this post makes
05:03:30.900 you know i'm uncomfortable i don't like it being up like i would take his opinion into consideration
05:03:36.500 would you do it for the perfect guy not just into consideration just instantly oh my god yes you're
05:03:41.540 right i'm gonna take it down would you ever do that it depends on the circumstance like if if i'm
05:03:48.420 like married to a guy or something and he's like yeah like this one post that you posted like i don't
05:03:54.820 want other people seeing like your body in this way or something i would be like okay you know what that
05:04:00.740 i can get behind that i can understand why you feel that way and i'll take it down to make you feel
05:04:05.860 better but if he's like i don't want you doing instagram i don't want you doing photography i don't want
05:04:11.300 you making art i think that like i think that's just weird i think it's like not cool okay well
05:04:15.060 then don't follow me like don't what do you think i was just gonna say what she pretty much just said
05:04:20.340 i think like there's like a boundary for like what you can control like not even control but like
05:04:26.500 there's some things that's just like there's no reason why you should be making your partner take
05:04:29.860 this off their social media it's just what if there is no reason what if it's just my preference
05:04:34.500 well then i think that's kind of like an issue on your behalf like you shouldn't like yeah you want
05:04:41.940 a submissive person but like are you in a relationship can i ask you that or are you
05:04:45.460 single right now too i can't disclose my current okay well i said we we have to but i mean i can
05:04:51.380 engage with your question okay i can engage with your question regardless but okay well that makes it a
05:04:57.620 little hard to continue but um just go continue as if i was in a relationship then as if well that
05:05:04.340 was not the answer i was expecting so i would just or oh you were saying i was single or yeah okay sure
05:05:11.540 for the sake of the question i'm saying well i just think that like well one i'd say there's a reason to
05:05:17.380 that probably because you want to well i wouldn't say you're controlling like you don't seem like that
05:05:23.140 type of person but like you see you sure maybe i'm just trying to glaze but you see the way he
05:05:28.580 dictates yeah i just think like the right person like the perfect person would not tell me what to
05:05:33.540 do would not tell me what i can and can't post and like i think like if you're doing that to your
05:05:37.540 partner it stems from insecurity in a sense where like why should it matter what they're putting out
05:05:43.380 there if like you're with them at the end of the day i don't think it's insecure to like not want
05:05:47.700 your girl to not post thirst traps in a relationship i think it's just a matter of respect because you
05:05:52.180 have to be really honest you have to be really honest with yourself like what is your intentions 0.97
05:05:56.180 when you're posting those things like when you're posting an ass shot you want guys to slide in your 0.99
05:06:01.220 dms and tell you that your ass looks flat necessarily then what are you doing it for freedom of body like 0.99
05:06:06.980 it's a way to express yourself freedom of body is a theme in photography and it's a way to express 0.99
05:06:12.180 like like the artwork of body like you ever go into an art museum and you see a sculpture of a naked
05:06:17.220 lady or a naked man it's freedom of body yeah or like if you go to a gym and like
05:06:22.020 let's say you have gains and stuff yeah you might want to post that and like i'd respect it it's not 0.98
05:06:26.740 gains is different than an ass shot but i mean if you're going to the gym you'll be if you're 0.98
05:06:31.220 building your butt you're going to want to post your butt right like why why do you have to post 0.98
05:06:34.660 your butt well you don't have to but that's just like how like women have been able to it's like how 1.00
05:06:39.380 guys will post your biceps topless pics and not get back i mean well i shouldn't do that you shouldn't 0.97
05:06:44.100 do that but other people um women have had happy lives prior to instagram like this idea that uh 0.99
05:06:53.540 publicizing all aspects of your otherwise unremarkable life are necessity to fulfillment
05:07:01.060 and happiness seems a little bit shallow but um i just look by the way to be fair i'm a bit older if
05:07:09.060 i didn't do this i wouldn't even have an instagram i don't follow people on instagram i just don't give 0.93
05:07:13.940 a fuck i don't i don't care what you ate i don't care where you travel to correct i don't follow 0.99
05:07:18.660 anybody i i don't know people are just a little too self-obsessed with themselves when it comes to 1.00
05:07:24.740 social media but like teach their own dear thing right and maybe we're just from a different time
05:07:29.300 like i didn't like you don't use social media but i'm sure like the people your age that are like
05:07:33.220 your friends probably also don't use social media but like in our day now there's media there's gen z that
05:07:37.780 barely there's there's strong adoption of social media among millennials but uh i mean we were the
05:07:44.420 first ones in fact to use it but uh i mean i almost wonder if i was on facebook before some of you guys
05:07:50.820 were born but that's another conversation to be had uh no but i think i mean i would point out that
05:07:57.380 there's probably 18 19 20 21 year old men who they don't want their girlfriend posting revealing photos
05:08:03.700 on instagram but let me ask you a question uh are you guys cool if you're dating a guy and he's
05:08:09.300 liking another girl's uh instagram post 1000 you're you're fine with it okay i've heard a lot of women 1.00
05:08:14.980 who are not okay with it i'm okay with it well it depends on what the post is uh the the specific
05:08:20.820 the content that we're exactly talking about so a booty a booty shot at the gym i don't that's well
05:08:27.060 i wouldn't be okay with it but also that's never really been that seems really insecure and controlling
05:08:31.220 one of you really yeah by the way what you call insecurity i call uh boundaries and standards
05:08:39.140 i would be totally okay with it in the context of it being i mean any context but first of all
05:08:44.100 like look at my instagram i'm posting it from an art perspective i'm posting it from right a creative 0.97
05:08:49.300 perspective so if he's liking another model's post of like her i don't know say it's her ass or whatever 0.93
05:08:56.660 but it's like done in like a way where she's like like clearly being creative and just expressing 0.68
05:09:00.980 herself i'd be like he's admiring like this work we've really trampled on the grave of the term art
05:09:07.940 but yeah but so wait you said you would have an issue if uh the guy was liking other girls instagram
05:09:15.940 posts or like following a bunch of like ig thoughts well i'd have an issue not with the girl but with the 0.98
05:09:22.020 guy with your boyfriend or whoever you're seeing but i'm not gonna be like no i'm not gonna dm the
05:09:26.660 girl and be like you should take this down my boyfriend's in the legs like that's out of line 1.00
05:09:30.260 you know what i mean you should probably have not an issue with the girl but you'd have an issue with 0.95
05:09:34.180 your your guy yeah but these are sort of two sides of the same i probably just break up with him at
05:09:39.460 that point it's just like but these are two sides of the same coin so if and i think it's totally okay
05:09:44.420 for women to have an issue with your boyfriend liking other women's posts following a bunch of ig models 0.99
05:09:50.660 whatever um but the trade-off i think should be if i agree with you there i think the trade-off needs
05:09:57.460 to be you as the woman in the relationship you shouldn't be putting that content out there 0.51
05:10:04.020 like you shouldn't be posting kind of revealing photos uh whether it's in a bikini i don't have a
05:10:11.620 major issue with it why why uh well i think generally relationship-minded men tend to have a leaning
05:10:20.100 towards uh not wanting their woman to be advertising people are gonna put you in a box
05:10:28.100 regardless people are gonna like have thoughts about you and put you into different stereotypes 0.89
05:10:33.380 different like you know people might look at my instagram and be like oh she's a slut or oh whatever 0.51
05:10:37.220 like i don't care but you don't need to make it easier for them to do that yeah you don't carry 0.84
05:10:41.460 yourself with humility even if it's like i know what i'm posting is for me and i know that it's me
05:10:46.500 being true to myself and expressing myself in a way that feels authentic to myself and i'm not saying
05:10:50.660 you can't do that but like if you were like because one thing you were saying is what if i'm artistically
05:10:54.820 doing it well i'm still gonna be mad at i don't care what your intention in posting this is is my
05:11:01.540 husband boyfriend whatever he can't like it no matter what the girl's intention was
05:11:05.460 so like and i don't think that's insecure but i mean to each their own yeah everyone has different
05:11:11.380 boundaries right yeah and and my boundaries might be different but i don't think it's like it's
05:11:15.780 somewhat like i don't think you can call someone insecure for not agreeing i didn't say anyone was
05:11:20.180 insecure okay so even if you are artistically showing whatever you're showing and you communicate
05:11:27.700 this to the person that your partner and he's telling you i'm actually i'm not okay with this
05:11:31.860 yes and he's like and he's like well it depends on what he's asking if he's like you need to delete
05:11:36.740 your entire social media presence that i'm gonna be just the photo one photo or one video oh then
05:11:42.580 yeah i would consider it and i would take into account what he's saying and i would like have
05:11:46.580 it would be a conversation and i would obviously like listen to his point of view but if he's like
05:11:51.140 i don't want you doing making this kind of art anymore like it's not my vibe then i'd be like
05:11:55.300 maybe i'm not for you well i think it's fine for you i i guess your position can be fine
05:12:00.580 but don't do a thing where when he's liking other girls instagram posts and following a bunch of ig 0.94
05:12:06.580 models don't have an issue with it i don't have an issue with it i don't okay well then that's
05:12:11.140 totally fine i don't i think there's no contradiction well i think first of all if he's following other
05:12:15.860 instagram model he's admiring someone else's beauty and that in my opinion i'm fine with that i don't
05:12:20.660 care it's an instagram photo it's a photo with it a lot of women do have an issue with their 1.00
05:12:25.380 boyfriend following a bunch of other women liking their stuff um so i i think fair what's fair is
05:12:33.780 fair would be if the man has to stop following girls and not be by the way men shouldn't be doing 0.97
05:12:39.620 that shit period to begin with regardless of if you're in a relationship or not mention be doing 1.00
05:12:44.580 that shit it's simp it's lame it's borderline pornographic coomer bullshit men shouldn't be doing 1.00
05:12:50.980 it depends on the type of stuff you're liking but i mean he's talking about the gooner stuff 1.00
05:12:56.100 i love simps well no i mean they're my faves even just like some college girl that you go to college 0.99
05:13:01.620 with and bikini pics like i don't think you should be liking that shit that's fucking lame 0.99
05:13:06.020 um but uh so i don't think it has to be even transactional the man shouldn't be doing it to begin 0.99
05:13:13.140 with but i think if you're a relationship-minded man i think it's uh you should have the woman
05:13:19.700 i i want to frame it like this so men and women have different sexual strategies they have
05:13:26.820 different romantic strategies women typically don't shoot their shot women typically uh don't 1.00
05:13:33.380 slide into dms sometimes they do okay but generally speaking women don't approach a guy shoot game run 1.00
05:13:42.660 game whatever is blah blah blah women will put themselves in position they'll they'll go to the event 1.00
05:13:49.460 and wait for men to come to them you'll make yourself put yourself in the position to be approached but
05:13:54.660 you won't approach men have a more proactive approach to dating we shoot our shot we approach you whether
05:14:00.900 that's uh do you want to grab like a paper towel for that men will shoot their shot women you are less 1.00
05:14:08.100 you're more passive generally speaking when it comes to dating not saying that it never happens obviously
05:14:14.100 sometimes you'll shoot a dm maybe you'll right but in today's society it's more accepted for like
05:14:18.660 men to be the one to go out it's always been more yeah that's yeah it's actually i'd say it's becoming
05:14:23.780 actually more a bit more likely that women shoot their shot today but i know what you're saying right 0.99
05:14:30.580 but so the ways in which men act when they're single that shit gets shut down once a guy's in a 0.99
05:14:39.300 relationship so you would agree that it's cheating if a guy's in a relationship to shoot a shot 0.80
05:14:44.340 depends on your boundaries but yeah i mean for a monogamous relationship yeah 99 of relationships
05:14:51.300 a guy hitting on a girl is definitely cheating uh well yeah sliding into dms definitely cheating
05:14:58.100 now if you're in a monogamous the tactics and methods that women use to get into a relationship 1.00
05:15:05.780 that doesn't get shut down so there's an inequality there what do you mean by that
05:15:09.540 well so for example going to the bar going to the club going out to parties um
05:15:14.980 post it okay so for example a woman won't slide into a guy's dms but she'll post photos on instagram
05:15:20.500 she'll post stories and then guys will like react to the stories or slide into the dms when she posts
05:15:25.860 like if she posts like revealing pictures women are uh i think the term is 1.00
05:15:31.220 y'all are women are marketers and men are advertisers wait hold on let me think i i totally 0.71
05:15:38.740 fucked that up disregard that it's just women are more passive y'all put yourself in positions to 1.00
05:15:46.820 be approached and be pursued but women don't pursue on that let some do but they're really not pursuing 1.00
05:15:52.740 like that some women yeah but yeah but some women but the point i'm trying to make here is that i
05:15:58.900 think when you're in a relationship both people have to shut shut down their edge so the man's edge
05:16:05.540 is to be the pursuit be the pursuer women don't shut down now there's obviously some scenarios where 1.00
05:16:11.940 obviously look you go to trader joe's as a woman some guy hits on you you can't that's gonna happen 0.76
05:16:17.220 right but the ways in which when you put yourself in specific social situations like going to the
05:16:23.300 bar going to the club going to a party these are very specific uh social venues where there's
05:16:30.500 an expectation that you're going to be pursued you're going to be approached there's alcohol
05:16:34.740 involved which has a greater likelihood of leading to cheating or infidelity and uh the social media so
05:16:41.780 the dating uh not the date there's instagram you're posting you're still posting thirst traps in a
05:16:46.340 relationship i think if men we have to get rid of our edge in a relationship our tool set in a
05:16:53.060 relationship with uh pursuing and approaching and sliding into dms then women have to give 1.00
05:16:59.540 up their edge which is advertising which is marketing which is putting yourself out there
05:17:04.580 posting revealing photos and going to these environments where you're going to be approached
05:17:09.380 like at the bar club or party um just can't go out then you can go to dinner you can go to brunch
05:17:16.980 do you think you can go to environments where it's designed to pick up chicks but can you go to
05:17:23.060 college is that okay uh well so my position i mean it's a bit different so okay i don't go to the bar
05:17:32.900 so me personally i don't drink i don't go to bars i don't go clubs i don't go to parties don't drink 0.53
05:17:37.460 don't smoke don't do any of that shit i think it's personally i think these i don't know maybe i'm 0.90
05:17:43.300 old and jaded why the these okay you're gonna go you're gonna wait in line a fake line by the way 0.99
05:17:50.180 the fucking club is empty they're just trying to make themselves look cool you're gonna wait in some 1.00
05:17:54.020 line and they're holding people back you're gonna fucking the bouncers are dickheads you're gonna uh 1.00
05:18:00.420 pay fucking twenty dollars for a drink that you could just go to bevmo and just buy a whole 0.99
05:18:05.700 fucking handle of that's from a guy's perspective and the lights the lights and the smoke and it's 1.00
05:18:11.860 fucking you can't even have a conversation why the fuck would you go to a bar or club it's not 1.00
05:18:15.220 that's your autism speaking is it wrong i don't like it's for a girl well so i don't think men should 1.00
05:18:22.260 be going to the clubs and bars to begin with like that's wait so men can't enjoy music what if it was 0.96
05:18:27.780 a rave for example oh hold on oh shit spotify every single song ever invented is on spotify why the 0.95
05:18:33.940 fuck do i have to go to a club to listen to music social and maybe dance have you ever 0.99
05:18:38.020 maybe you can go to a concert have you ever you know i can go oh dance do you dance oh my god 0.99
05:18:42.580 dance dancing hold on let me finish my point uh so the difference is though if i if i'm a single dude
05:18:51.540 and there's a single woman and she goes to the club and i go to the club and i just have my drink
05:18:56.020 here and i'm just kicking it at the fucking bar or somewhere in the club i'm just standing there i'm 0.99
05:19:00.900 just oh yeah the music uh no women are coming to talk to me women don't really do that i could go 1.00
05:19:07.220 to a bar 10 nights in a row and i'll be fucking lonely as fuck no women are coming up to guys 1.00
05:19:13.140 really so why are you so scared a woman goes to a club you can almost guarantee some guy's going to 0.98
05:19:19.540 come talk to her maybe one two three four five six multiple times a night and so it's a different
05:19:24.820 environment if a woman goes to a club she's going to be pursued i go to a club 1.00
05:19:28.900 you might get ain't nobody talking to me no girls trying to buy me a drink 1.00
05:19:34.420 well why are you trying to be around single girls yeah wait i'm not okay aren't you famous why don't
05:19:39.700 they want you um wait what wait i think it was just an example i i think no i was just using an
05:19:44.500 example yeah but there are some cases they just slide into the dms but even sorry yeah it's okay um
05:19:48.900 there's some cases where i think like it's still like putting yourself out there being around single
05:19:55.140 women if if she's fine with it then okay fine you can go to the bar you can go to go to the club but 1.00
05:20:00.340 if she's not okay with it then there's a reason behind it like would you honor her opinion for you
05:20:07.940 i know you don't care to go to clubs or bars anyways and okay so then you're kind of biased so
05:20:13.700 it's hard to i i guess but i mean the the experience is completely different a girl goes to a club she 0.98
05:20:20.260 gets hit on a guy goes to the club he just fucking stands there like a dork all night and no girls are 0.99
05:20:26.500 like okay want some pussy but but you you as a girl go to a club but why put yourself in an environment 1.00
05:20:31.220 where girls are like half naked and is that right but i'm saying is the the difference is go to the 1.00
05:20:37.380 club in lingerie the difference is it's a different kind of club the difference is is that women's 0.85
05:20:42.180 strategy when it comes to if they're single they go to the club with the expectation they're not 1.00
05:20:47.060 if a woman is trying to get dick like let's say a woman's really trying to get some dick 1.00
05:20:51.540 uh she can still reliably go to the nightclub and never shoot her shot and just uh filter of the 1.00
05:20:59.380 men who come to her so women can have a strategy of going to the club and being passive and still be 0.93
05:21:05.380 on the hunt for some dick however as a guy i can never have the strategy of i'm gonna go to 0.95
05:21:10.900 the club and not talk to any women i'm not gonna go i can't go to the club and that be my strategy 0.99
05:21:16.420 as a man i'm not gonna i'm just gonna sit back and let the women come to me because i'm so 0.99
05:21:21.140 fucking cool no i'm gonna never get pussy for the next decade if i do that never i'll be fucking 1.00
05:21:27.780 celibate i don't think your rate of success has anything to do with it though either no it's related 0.99
05:21:32.820 well okay but it's not gonna make me as your as a girlfriend feel any more comfortable with it i
05:21:37.940 still think something's wrong i'm not justifying why i go to the club i'm saying even if i did go to the
05:21:42.340 club and okay so here's the the equality i guess uh girl in relationship goes to club man in 0.93
05:21:50.340 relationship goes to the club neither can proactively approach the opposite sex man talks to zero 0.98
05:21:58.660 fucking women the entire night woman talks to a handful of men maybe many men the night because 1.00
05:22:05.780 they're pursuing her okay here's and they're fucking gonna hammer her with fucking drinks 1.00
05:22:11.140 and the women the woman's gonna get free drinks and let hey as the guy i'm gonna i want to protect 1.00
05:22:15.700 my girl you want to go to the club and get fucking roofied no some fucking dipshit frat boy is going 1.00
05:22:21.540 to try to roofie your fucking drink at the club you're not going to the club that's why there's members 1.00
05:22:25.540 only clubs you can still get what the you can still get fucking slipped to something in your 0.99
05:22:29.780 drink if you're like the whole like everyone goes out in college like you can get slipped it 0.54
05:22:34.660 doesn't even have to be at a bar even at a restaurant someone can walk by and roof your
05:22:37.860 drink i feel like your perspective on like oh women shouldn't if you're or your girlfriend at least 0.92
05:22:41.940 shouldn't go to clubs it's more you should donald's okay well focus but anywhere your girl can get hit 0.97
05:22:47.300 on if she's beautiful she's gonna get hit on anywhere at the club like i feel like you saying that she's 1.00
05:22:52.020 not allowed to go it's less about like other people hitting on her but like i think it comes down to
05:22:55.780 like your girl being loyal like if she was a loyal person club or not she's not going to entertain
05:23:00.900 those guys people like honestly even for me like being out in public no matter where you are guys
05:23:05.780 are going to hit on you but it's just up to what you do about it because the loyal girl is going to
05:23:09.140 be loyal not just at home but everywhere she goes and if she's not loyal then i think that's just a
05:23:12.980 skill issue and you need a new girl but yeah but do you believe in temptation do you believe in
05:23:16.820 mistakes i believe in no temptation i don't believe i would never cheat on my boyfriend so wait do you
05:23:21.140 you think in the history of relationships a girl has never regretted cheating i'm sure there is
05:23:26.660 regret but i feel like regret does not change reality even if you regret it you be accountable
05:23:32.340 for your actions your partner will does not deserve you i don't here's the scenario what do you mean
05:23:36.180 here's the scenario okay so okay uh let's say you're fighting with your girl let's say you just had a big
05:23:41.540 fight with your girl and she's like i'm going out and then she goes out with all her single female 1.00
05:23:46.660 friends who fucking hate the boyfriend because he done step stolen the girl the boyfriend stole 0.99
05:23:53.300 the girl and the the single female friends they want to go do hood ratchet with their single female 0.99
05:23:58.420 friend they want their friend back you've been you've been hanging out at rupert's house way too much 1.00
05:24:03.780 you haven't been doing some hood ratchet with us so they're like man fuck rupert that motherfucker 1.00
05:24:09.060 man well maybe they just want to have girls like his dick ain't even that big they be talking 1.00
05:24:12.740 mad about your boyfriend they're talking matches about rupert and they're just oh uh vicky right 1.00
05:24:19.380 yeah victoria here's some shots and they just fucking give you a bunch of drinks and they get 1.00
05:24:25.620 you fucking plastered and oh my god and they're in your ear the entire night oh my god vicky he's 1.00
05:24:30.420 such a jerk he's such an asshole oh my god you he he's fucking mid blah blah you're so beautiful 1.00
05:24:36.260 you deserve better blah blah oh my god here's bartholomew uh you should fucking oh my god he's so cool 1.00
05:24:41.700 and funny hahaha and then you're fucking plastered and then uh oopsies but i'm just saying it could 0.99
05:24:49.460 happen it could happen and then like that's i still wouldn't think that's a mistake like you 0.97
05:24:54.100 cheated regardless i feel like even then like it comes down to like your mental well i also i think
05:25:00.660 i mean look even if she's like deathly loyal and would never cheat uh then it would just come down to
05:25:06.500 uh the the optics of it and then also just the risk of i doubt that she would never cheat she would
05:25:13.540 never cheat but bad things can happen when people are drinking uh maybe maybe it's not even like uh 0.64
05:25:19.140 i don't know nothing gets slipped in the drink but she gets into some fucking cat fight her weave gets 1.00
05:25:24.740 pulled off not that i date women who wear weaves but oh no she gets into a big fight with some chick 1.00
05:25:29.380 and i don't want my girl getting into fights and shit i don't want her to get hurt she's supposed to 1.00
05:25:33.940 have fucking seven of my children i can't have her with a fucked up leg or some seven children yeah i 1.00
05:25:40.020 can't have her with a fucked up leg and then also she should um oh shit cha i saw i'm sorry i'm just 1.00
05:25:48.500 seeing your tts i'll let it come through in just a moment sorry cha i'm very apology apologetic for the 0.99
05:25:53.620 delay uh also it's just uh you know i optically i think it's a bad look on a guy if some girl's out
05:26:02.740 there dancing and i don't know well like dancing with what with her friends i don't think with a 1.00
05:26:09.300 dude like some dude's gonna start but then that's different that's just like again that's like a skill
05:26:13.300 issue that you're like as a girl you shouldn't like guys are just gonna be grabby and shit i don't 0.99
05:26:17.940 want my girl look by the way that's completely wrong for men to do but like it look some sometimes 0.99
05:26:23.300 guys are fucking scumbags at these places and i want to insulate my my girlfriend from 0.99
05:26:29.140 potentially risky or dangerous situations and look i think this is a perfectly reasonable uh 1.00
05:26:35.780 boundary to have if you're a relationship-minded man and you want to protect the relationship
05:26:40.420 with her i've seen so many boyfriends that's even worse it's even worse because then some dude 1.00
05:26:46.020 fucking uh you walk by and some dude grabs your ass then you come to me oh my god that dude grabbed my 1.00
05:26:51.780 ass and he's like fucking six foot five and 300 pounds and you're like brian are you gonna do 1.00
05:26:55.700 anything uh no he's your girlfriend now i guess i'm not gonna fuck what you you want me to go fight 1.00
05:27:01.140 some fucking giant dude i'm not gonna no then you're going to the go to the gym no but it's like by the 0.99
05:27:08.980 way you go out with your girl i'm telling you look i used to go out a little bit a teeny bit when i was 0.99
05:27:13.780 younger i like your local bar or something you go out you go out with your girl the amount of times i've
05:27:20.820 seen girls get their boyfriends sparked up you oh my god you girls because i think women y'all will 0.99
05:27:29.380 talk some shit when you're drunk in the game as a woman you will talk some shit to a man and if i'm 1.00
05:27:34.660 next to you i'm like shut the fuck up you're about to get me fucking sparked lady y'all women will get 1.00
05:27:41.220 your boyfriend's fucking little fucking literal brain damage you'll get them sparked up some guy says 1.00
05:27:47.140 some dumb shit because he's drunk hey toots nice fucking ass or whatever i don't know nice tits 1.00
05:27:51.700 sugar tits whatever and then i gotta be and then you look at me like you're gonna let him talk to 1.00
05:27:56.420 me that way you're gonna let me yeah exactly talk to me that way yeah i don't want to be put in that 0.75
05:28:01.060 position bro if i gotta protect you then what what are you there for if it's not for protection or
05:28:06.100 anything like what do i need you for what values you add to a woman's life if i gotta protect you i need 1.00
05:28:11.140 authority over you if i have to protect you i need authority and if in my authoritative decision
05:28:17.540 i'm like you going out to nightclubs and getting belligerently drunk sounds like a 0.97
05:28:22.180 fucking terrible idea and you're gonna mouth off to somebody and you're gonna get in a fight with 0.99
05:28:26.660 a girl or you're gonna mouth off to some guy and he's not gonna punch you in the face he's gonna be 1.00
05:28:30.740 like oh there's the boyfriend bow fucking blast me in the face i feel like there's a lot of trauma 0.99
05:28:35.540 yeah this is like going into like a specific scenario this shit happens all the time the 0.99
05:28:41.060 amount of yo when shit pops off it's some girl bro it's some girl i'm not saying it's her fault but 0.99
05:28:50.580 like when shit pops off with guys a lot of times there's a fucking girl involved okay so i was with 0.99
05:28:56.980 someone who started fights at bars it wasn't me like it was him he was always yes that happens 0.99
05:29:03.300 starting things and i i'm not a person a lot of what you're saying i feel like oh like that's not
05:29:08.260 me at all like i don't really like going out i'm not saying all women are like this we said you women
05:29:12.980 you women speaking in generalities a little bit look i'm just saying it's a bad look you go you go 1.00
05:29:19.620 out drinking with your girlfriend look some women they drink they're just quiet whatever some of y'all 1.00
05:29:24.660 are fucking mouthy especially when you've drank alcohol and some guy says something inconsiderate 0.99
05:29:30.580 next thing you know i gotta defend my woman's honor because he said some drunk guy said some 1.00
05:29:35.300 dumb shit she's drunk she's all upset i'd rather just avoid the whole thing can we just watch 1.00
05:29:40.580 fucking uh game of thrones and fuck like can't we just have a quiet night in do we have to really we 1.00
05:29:45.940 have to go out to fucking spend twenty dollars for a drink i'll go buy some fucking coronas we're 1.00
05:29:52.660 gonna watch game of thrones we're gonna watch a night of the seven kingdom well you can do both 0.99
05:29:57.300 like some nights you go out some nights you stay in you just never go out you just never leave
05:30:01.620 you just like chain to the bed in your house that's basically how it is is it a normal like 0.98
05:30:06.420 man thing to like want to stay inside and like watch a movie and then like fuck is that like a normal 0.96
05:30:11.060 man thing because my man like we went to the bar because i wanted to see the fight and i was like well 0.85
05:30:15.460 then we can go home and like cuddle and stuff right and like he did not really like the idea of being at
05:30:21.060 a bar it was going to be a low-key bar because to get like wings and stuff but he didn't like it
05:30:24.900 um is so is it just a man thing uh is it just a man thing i mean like it depends on the man like
05:30:31.620 it depends on the man some i'm more introverted maybe your ex-boyfriend or whatever was more
05:30:35.780 introverted he's quite introverted yeah i mean uh me personally we can watch the ufc here i'll watch
05:30:44.100 a ufc match uh with my girl at the house we don't gotta go to the bar yeah like what if she wanted to 1.00
05:30:52.100 go like wouldn't you want to do it for her similar to how like no the woman should acquiesce to the 0.67
05:30:56.580 man we should ask each other to each other compromise no if you look you're gonna have 0.99
05:31:02.420 a hard time finding the dictator no actually no well women love this shit but but uh i guess i'm lucky 0.99
05:31:10.100 that he went with me then he's such a hand if you love this shit love what i agree whatever he just said 0.99
05:31:16.020 i i don't like going out i want to stay home i don't want to pay i don't want to stand in line 0.99
05:31:20.260 to use the restroom i don't like any of that it's cold but i mean stay in the comfort of our house
05:31:26.020 we can yeah yeah i used to have fun that isn't like i find i find it you can play pokemon go at
05:31:33.140 the park please one of the time i was saying you could play pokemon go at the park like that's a
05:31:38.580 free activity that's fun i think i'll go to the beach with a girl we can go to the beach together i
05:31:43.220 know the best time i know the best beaches in santa barbara i know the best time to go we've had some
05:31:48.500 great weather recently yeah like that's okay you know but i don't the bar nah i don't really like
05:31:54.580 big there are plenty of places for good dates that don't include the bar i do absolutely agree with you
05:31:59.940 no but i do look i do think you know a little the woman should acquiesce to the man
05:32:05.460 this is the clip farming segment no it's not there's no clip there's no clip farm look ladies
05:32:17.140 i think i think women should defer to a man's decision making and if i decide that's your
05:32:22.340 opinion and you're entitled to that opinion right it is my right we respect i agree but okay do you want 0.99
05:32:27.620 to date a guy who when do you want to date a guy when god damn it fucking dropping shit hold on 0.99
05:32:37.140 oh my god exactly okay my bad uh do you want to date a guy who you're like okay uh what do you want 0.99
05:32:45.620 for dinner and he's like whatever you want no i know in every single fucking instance every single 0.98
05:32:54.340 meal i know exactly what i want there's some girls like that too though i know exactly why does 1.00
05:33:00.820 dinner relate to this why does dinner relate to this whatever you want babe no i've never those
05:33:05.220 wait but why does those words have never left my mouth oh whatever you want babe no we're getting 0.96
05:33:10.500 fucking burritos no we're getting fucking pizza no we're getting oh she's not cooking i mean if you're 0.99
05:33:15.780 getting it if you're paying well yes also you're i mean if you're cooking then like why does this 1.00
05:33:20.900 relate to what we were talking about before yeah no i'll tell her what she's gonna cook too i guess
05:33:25.620 are you gonna buy the groceries yeah i cover everything everything look you don't want you
05:33:30.740 guys to understand the frame here so okay whoever i'm with long term she doesn't have to work everything's 1.00
05:33:36.900 taken care of she doesn't need everything what if she wants to work will you let her would that
05:33:42.500 make her feel in superior it would depend it would depend it would feel in superior ladies 1.00
05:33:45.940 that's not my preference i think also we gotta pump out seven kids she's gonna be that's her job 1.00
05:33:50.740 oh her job is to breathe seven kids hold on um but before you guys have kids like say she already 1.00
05:33:56.180 got a degree in something that she was like passionate about that she went to college for
05:33:59.060 i'm not saying like she's doing sex work or she's doing sure social media because you already 0.79
05:34:03.780 expressed that those things aren't something you look for in a partner of course but like say she
05:34:07.860 like you know she has this thing she's really passionate about doing and she's like put her all into
05:34:12.100 it she's gone to college for four years or whatever got a degree and like she's happy doing work why to
05:34:19.540 be fair i am a bit of individualistic in the sense that i enjoy time alone i need some time alone uh
05:34:27.300 so i mean when we don't have kids then yeah you know she can preoccupy herself with with uh her career 1.00
05:34:34.420 and uh but i mean ultimately like if we're living together and we don't have kids yet yeah i mean i'll
05:34:40.980 take some of her money and like buy guns or something but there it is but yeah i mean
05:34:48.340 i don't know if that answers your question i guess yeah like her money is my money basically so is your
05:34:54.820 money her money too no wait can i uh tilt your mic down oh i have a question her money her money is going 1.00
05:35:00.900 to be used to buy firearms would you let her own a firearm sure okay yeah she can have guns i guess 1.00
05:35:07.940 um well when earlier her money is my money for firearms earlier when you said that like when you
05:35:14.340 had if you have a girlfriend long term um you're gonna financially cover everything and like whatever
05:35:18.820 she just takes care of the kids like everything i feel like there's okay i want to ask a clarifying
05:35:22.980 question are you the type to like have her like run through all her purchases with you or like when
05:35:28.260 you say you're providing for her financially like you mean like you're like let's say if she wanted to
05:35:32.260 buy a new bag does she have to ask you before that or can she just do it probably a purse like 1.00
05:35:36.260 a purse or like something fun something that's not like groceries or for the family if she wanted to
05:35:40.980 use that with your money would you be okay with that he's not gonna date girls with a fashion sense
05:35:44.340 let's be honest so i'm gonna bare hands no purse 100 a trader joe's back let me answer the question
05:35:53.300 i'm gonna 100 cover everything however i'm still going to have oversight and authority
05:35:58.740 over specific purchases uh amazon has fantastic handbags available for okay i hope you find your
05:36:06.980 amazon wife 20 to 50 dollars uh you think you think even if i'm a millionaire you think she's gonna 1.00
05:36:14.660 get a fucking what louis vuitton she's not getting a fucking birkin and you're getting seven kids 1.00
05:36:22.820 why i know you're a fan of materialism but definitely yeah but why does she need my my 1.00
05:36:28.260 woman is is not going to care about these material she's a basic bitch do you need i love 1.00
05:36:35.380 to care about material stuff it's giving great then if if that's what it means that i i'm going to have 0.99
05:36:42.580 a basic bitch who doesn't want to waste money from my perspective uh look maybe if i'm like obscenely 1.00
05:36:49.140 what is wasting money to you like what do you think some expenses that like usual girls have yeah so the 1.00
05:36:53.620 actual costs of making a purse say it's 20 but because a company has a brand and a logo they're
05:37:02.580 going to charge five thousand dollars for it but if it makes that's retarded but it's a welt flex 0.95
05:37:08.260 don't you want like don't you think it like looks better for you too if like your girl is like
05:37:12.260 dressed well blah blah it makes you look well she's not going to be in rags but like but like
05:37:16.820 she's going to have the newest no wait wait she's chained to the kitchen oh the newest kirkland 1.00
05:37:21.940 okay change the bed hey they have some nice stuff stuff okay okay okay don't knock it's very
05:37:29.780 amazon basics okay better amazon basics three-pack for ten bucks
05:37:36.900 not like want to but like let's say it made her happy like she really wanted it
05:37:40.980 wouldn't you want your wife to be happy wouldn't you want to get it for her well i would screen for a
05:37:44.820 woman who's derives happiness from possession of a five thousand dollar bag over a ton the bag is for 1.00
05:37:51.540 utility but you want her to carry around the firearm sorry this shit just blows my mind like 0.99
05:37:56.340 americans yeah firearms have a utility like what is this the firearms have a utility the 0.99
05:38:00.580 shit doesn't happen but what if she's really into high fashion like that's her hobby and interest 0.96
05:38:05.380 i don't think you'll get like she says she'll probably he probably won't get with someone like 1.00
05:38:08.340 like that i want a simple woman i want a simple woman who doesn't want to fuck it what what's this 1.00
05:38:15.300 draw to a fucking you want a birkin bag what well it's like how guys want like i don't know the best 1.00
05:38:22.100 skin pack in fortnight or something that's stupid too okay that's like my analogy if that makes sense 0.99
05:38:28.580 or like a guy wants a nice car a nice watch it's the same idea utility okay well i have to put 0.93
05:38:34.500 about a bag as utility to i hold stuff in it no like your lip gloss your keys a car doesn't have
05:38:38.820 to be fancy to get you somewhere you know it just has to work but it sure does look better if it's
05:38:43.220 nicer right like well i mean certain luxury cars have actual superior amenities and safety like lexus
05:38:50.500 for example has certain like actual utility advantages over other but of course some of it is
05:38:58.740 there's some different components but like a lamborghini
05:39:00.900 i mean then you're just paying now you're paying for a brand ferrari you're paying for a brand now
05:39:05.380 if i was obscenely wealthy but what's wrong with that maybe i would buy a lamborghini look it depends
05:39:10.900 the level of wealth right uh i think some people have different thresholds but i don't know i don't think
05:39:18.020 i would buy i would want 10 million liquid before i bought like a lamborghini that's my threshold other 0.97
05:39:29.860 people they're like oh well i'm uh they'll buy a lambo or ferrari at 3m i personally think that that's
05:39:37.780 kind of stupid but to each their own so you're just talking about making good and smart investments 0.88
05:39:43.860 well yeah i also you know who knows how what the future holds but gotta pump out a lot of kids kids 0.99
05:39:50.580 you know that's gonna cost some money so we're gonna have to sacrifice our own vain material
05:39:56.580 pursuits for the sake of the children and then also for the sake of like i i want a really nice
05:40:03.140 house like i think you can maximize i'd rather maximize like nice house and uh having like more
05:40:11.540 land or you know it's really modern or i'm trying to think like with seven kids don't you need like
05:40:18.260 10 million dollars or like a lot of money in this economy to house that many kids not 10
05:40:22.580 uh maybe you know you need uh he's driving around you probably need like five five five six
05:40:30.660 five six bedrooms and i do think i'm gonna have my kids two to a bedroom oh i find this quite
05:40:37.140 interesting actually my dad came here when he was two from germany and he got a degree in german
05:40:43.300 literature never used it wasn't usable he ended up joining the police force and when i was growing up
05:40:48.980 he was he he was uh retired as a sergeant he would wear costco he would wear kirkland and he told me
05:40:54.260 in his life all he needs is three uh stores big five walmart and costco and when i was growing up
05:40:59.940 i got nothing that i wanted i had to work for whatever i wanted if it was like a special i really
05:41:06.100 liked video games so i like saved it to buy my own computer and now at his age of retirement he is
05:41:12.900 i can't it's just he's a multi-millionaire he drove a civic actually his whole life because
05:41:19.380 he taught me that like wealth is not displayed it's like internal like do you see like bill gates
05:41:26.020 carrying around like a louis pouch like honestly no because it's like it's a thing to make you feel
05:41:30.980 better like honestly those small sacrifices along the way like literally like set my dad up to provide
05:41:37.220 for his children and my children and their children and it was because we only wore walmart
05:41:42.900 stuff growing up even though we lived in the nicest neighborhood in california it was it was it's a very
05:41:48.260 fascinating thing because then i see like now at this point in my life i try to save money i do uh
05:41:54.100 stocks i try to invest when i can and i drove around my mom's beat-up car for god knows how long and i
05:42:00.500 actually was able to get a mustang recently and i felt really great about that because i made such
05:42:04.100 sacrifices for a long time i'm not saying that there's things that i don't storage on like my
05:42:07.700 hair costs more than my rent but there's certain things where it's like you know oh my gosh i i
05:42:12.900 work really hard i like to buy myself nice things but like nice things in the category of like okay my
05:42:18.260 car is like gonna get me from point a to point b but it's also like on the nicer end because i
05:42:23.060 sacrificed xyz for a while so i feel like there's a balance in life that my dad really taught me that's
05:42:27.780 like helped me to become successful where like you can enjoy nice things because life is worth living i
05:42:32.340 work hard i like to kind of you know reward so what are you what's your opinion like a middle
05:42:35.780 ground if your wife was like yo like we both work really hard i want to change my hair to blonde and 1.00
05:42:41.460 she has black hair that's gonna cost just just think hypothetically that costs a thousand plus 1.00
05:42:46.340 dollars how would you feel about that does it really cost a thousand dollars wow what a waste of money
05:42:51.060 i mean uh if it my initial knee-jerk reaction gut reaction is that's a total waste of money
05:43:01.220 you already got me you don't need to change your appearance maybe out of novelty it might be
05:43:06.740 intriguing but i i'm leaning towards no probably on the hair even if you have the money why can't
05:43:13.140 you just bleach your day i have the money to buy uh oh let me do the tts but i look i i could buy like
05:43:20.420 well i could brought buy like a ferrari lamborghini i could afford it i could afford it i could buy it
05:43:30.020 but it's just it doesn't make sense i still drive a car i bought 12 years ago okay i'd rather put
05:43:36.020 myself in like a really strong financial position for the future uh let me look at this chat through i
05:43:41.300 apologize for the delay you're not wearing a lot of clothes dressed as some character or something
05:43:48.900 isn't out you're not creative you're not an artist stop coping about it and just admit you want
05:43:55.380 attention maximum no one is fooled mary can you max the audio he paid a hundred dollars for that ego
05:44:02.660 at least i think and and i want to just say i want to just say that i'm my posts on instagram are
05:44:09.780 posted for me and me only and it's not going to be everyone's thing if you're going to say something 0.98
05:44:14.820 like that then then don't you know it's not everyone's thing don't follow my shit don't you 0.91
05:44:19.700 know it's okay he paid a hundred dollars donated 99 dollars yo what's up i remember your favorite brit 0.95
05:44:26.660 is back surely you remember the name did you watch the michael trailer looks lit you're gonna watch
05:44:33.380 it you've been to neverland so you might be in it hashtag michael is king uh yeah thank you appreciate
05:44:40.100 it man uh i hope you uh moonwalk later tonight i guess he's a michael jackson fan i don't know uh
05:44:47.620 i haven't seen the trailer i didn't even know there was a michael who's playing somebody is there is
05:44:52.020 a biopic or something i don't know it's a biopic his nephew's playing oh i saw the poster for it
05:44:58.180 yeah yeah that that's all i haven't seen the trailer though it looks good um thank you adzils
05:45:03.460 good to see you look if i if i had a bunch of money would i buy her a bag probably not but she 1.00
05:45:10.420 wouldn't want one is the thing okay yeah she's out there somewhere it's like it's just a why do
05:45:16.500 y'all want the bag you can buy a bag the same bag basically a bag is an analogy
05:45:21.940 i'm saying like in general like if she has a request financially would you be able to
05:45:27.140 cope with that that's not just i'm going off like not even just financially say she has a request
05:45:31.940 where she's like hey like i don't want you going to the bar with your friends like would you
05:45:35.940 be okay i wouldn't go to i don't go to the bar period but say you say you would go out with your
05:45:40.180 friends to the bar like i don't know just to like have drinks and stuff like nothing like weird but
05:45:44.420 like say she was like i'm not comfortable with that would you cater to her like decision i guess
05:45:48.980 probably not on that front but you wouldn't allow her to go to the bar or the club so where's the 1.00
05:45:55.220 double standard well women okay for example uh do you go on dates sometimes i've been on a date
05:46:03.380 before yeah do you want a guy to pay for her first dates do you want a guy to pay for the date 1.00
05:46:08.100 it would be nice but i don't care really like i would be fine with splitting the check
05:46:11.860 have you yeah yeah i've actually paid first date i've actually first date i've actually not some
05:46:18.420 guy you've been fucking for three years i uh first date first date have i paid for the food yeah i 0.98
05:46:24.100 paid for my own food actually you pay for his food i paid for his food too how many days have you been 0.98
05:46:29.060 on not very many okay i don't i'm not on dating apps like i don't really like i don't know look i
05:46:34.500 think there's asymmetry in behavior in treatment in what men and women want uh
05:46:41.940 for example a woman could say i want a guy to pay for the first date would you you agree with that
05:46:48.260 that's true for a lot of women a lot of women yeah okay do you think it'd be an effective
05:46:53.460 argumentation from my part to say well would you pay for a date yeah how would it be effective
05:46:59.940 it's asymmetry i think okay i think it's demanded asymmetry well i think it's like if like say i was
05:47:05.060 going on a date with a guy and he was like you know i'm a broke college student i can't afford like
05:47:09.620 can we split the can we split the check i don't know you yeah sure no but it wouldn't be a defeat
05:47:14.740 it wouldn't be a defeater to the female position of if the if the woman says i want a man to pay for 1.00
05:47:19.860 the first date it's not a defeater to her wanting that by saying well would you pay for the first date 0.99
05:47:26.340 no because it's almost baked into the preference of having men pay for first dates the woman doesn't 1.00
05:47:33.780 want to pay for the first date so there i believe when it comes to men and women there's asymmetry
05:47:39.540 in preferences boundaries expectations wants etc etc 100 there's always going to be yes i think
05:47:45.540 there's asymmetry in this there's always going to be different now i don't go the bar i don't go
05:47:48.900 the club i'm not liking girls instagram posts i'm not following women on instagram so a woman doesn't 0.99
05:47:55.700 even have to worry about that really to begin with but yeah if some friend from out of town
05:48:03.140 old friend comes and he wants to go get a drink at the bar uh but even then i might be okay a girl
05:48:10.340 my girlfriend she has a friend coming to town and she wants to go that's what i'm saying she has a
05:48:16.660 restaurant that's fine no no say she has a friend that comes in from town and her friend wants to take
05:48:22.020 her to a club or a rave or something no 100 okay right right so you'd say no and that's totally 1.00
05:48:27.540 valid and that's like an understandable i see where you're coming from but then it's like the
05:48:31.860 same thing if your friend from town is like i want to go to the club or i want to go to the bar then
05:48:36.260 like you gotta respect her one right because it's the same exact thing like when i think of like going
05:48:42.020 to a bar with a male friend we're gonna sit at the bar we're gonna have a beer uh and it's not i don't
05:48:49.540 know when women go out it's a different yeah i feel like he's explained this multiple times
05:48:54.100 already like i feel like we keep circling back
05:48:59.300 next next
05:49:03.540 i'm trying to think if there's anything else on that probably not but uh okay here let's get into
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05:50:27.540 stifler ask everyone to rate their looks so give me say uh wait why is it total face body it should be
05:50:34.260 face body total whatever uh give me your face rating your body rating total rating scale of 0 to 10 you
05:50:41.060 can't pick seven starting with you so i have to give a different rating for my face and my body
05:50:44.820 and then a total well it could be the same it could be seven okay so it could be like this uh seven face
05:50:50.180 seven body seven total okay i'd give myself 3.5 face four body um four total okay i think you
05:51:00.020 underrated yourself but we'll get to that later uh we can't pick seven can't pick seven okay oh can
05:51:06.340 you scoot your mic to the edge of the table yeah of course yeah okay um i'd say face is like eight
05:51:11.780 out of ten and then body is also like eight out of ten total i'll just say eight out of ten okay what
05:51:17.060 about you um i think my face is nine my body is ten and i think all around i'm a ten wait you said nine
05:51:27.300 ten ten nine face ten body total ten okay what about you i absolutely agree with your statement
05:51:35.460 and also myself um nine ten face and ten body i spend a lot of time in the gym and me too yeah
05:51:44.820 and inside yeah i'm healthy the gut health is good the outer health is good okay my skin is clear
05:51:51.220 what about you uh can you my hair is actually sorry is it just like a seating there's not space
05:51:57.060 for you yeah we are like that's why i brought down your whole set dude are you able to scoot in
05:52:01.460 or could you not afforded a bigger room like honestly what can you do uh grading go ahead uh face
05:52:09.220 eight body nine so like an 8.5 overall okay what about you i wrote down on the paper and eight there's
05:52:16.420 a lot of pretty people here and so without looking at anyone my body is like a six and um my face is
05:52:23.300 like an eight um i don't know we'll go with eight no another ten oh wait are these
05:52:31.380 you wrote eight here i think i did yeah so eight face or yes okay what about you why can't we do seven
05:52:39.380 what's wrong with seven uh seven forces somebody to air closer to six or closer to eight so too many
05:52:47.780 people just pick seven i think that's why well i'll give myself a 7.5 no no fractions so either six
05:52:54.340 or eight how about that um gosh i'm gonna say my face is eight so i'll just do six then six face six
05:53:00.100 body sure okay what about you i'll say face is eight body is ten so total is nine wait um
05:53:09.940 wait sorry face eight body ten total nine you haven't even seen my body what's with that face
05:53:17.220 you haven't even looked at my body what's with your face nothing okay uh what about you uh my face is
05:53:23.460 probably a three and a two girl shut up stop honey it's important to practice self-love you're
05:53:31.700 beautiful thank you so much what about you into the mic um i probably do six for both six for both okay
05:53:38.420 i give myself 4.5 face 4.5 body 4.5 total um okay so we have wow i have a i have constructed perhaps
05:53:50.260 one of our at least based off self-assessment one of the most beautiful panels uh ever tonight i'm
05:53:58.580 very lucky to get all these supermodels here in the building um so you did i do think i'll give you 0.82
05:54:05.540 guys uh a rating what why so hold on can i ask a question well that's gonna ask us if we wanted to
05:54:12.420 or not can i ask a question i'm down everybody's down great can i ask a question though before you
05:54:17.700 before you go and rate everyone why does it matter and why do you do this on every single one of your
05:54:22.980 shows oh it's i mean it's just one of our segments that we've done from the very beginning but why
05:54:27.220 what why does what matter like you're rating like rating people rating people just in general people
05:54:33.620 why rate a person like why does their appearance matter that much you don't care about appearance i
05:54:38.020 mean i care about my appearance to some extent no like no disfigured because they're not gonna they're
05:54:43.940 not taking care of themselves and obviously you have to have physical attraction to someone so
05:54:47.700 would you date a skinny guy who's like just really ugly that has nothing to do with being able to
05:54:52.180 no like i'd have to be attracted to the person i'm dating to some extent so it doesn't matter but 1.00
05:54:55.540 i'm not gonna rate people that i'm talking to or dating i think that's stupid would you date a guy 0.95
05:55:01.140 who's shorter than you yes you saw that on my paper you date any height unless unless it's 0.97
05:55:06.900 like shorter than yeah like well you're five ten so you're definitely tall if some guy was like
05:55:11.540 four eleven like that might be a little hard and it might make me like less physically attracted to
05:55:16.500 them okay like i grab a step stool physically you date a guy who's like five foot four yeah which is
05:55:22.900 still very short for a man if if i liked him and if i was attracted to him yeah question how many
05:55:28.900 boyfriends have you had uh four four boyfriends okay uh technically three but like four one of them
05:55:38.820 of the four that are whatever how tall were they um first one was five eleven second one six foot one
05:55:47.860 third one was like yeah six foot one and then fourth one was five ten
05:55:53.940 uh you've completely defeated your own position there with that right acknowledgement but okay
05:56:00.340 i understand i don't care about height don't care about height but all my boyfriend's average total
05:56:06.340 height is above average you got a point there you do have a point there but i am a tall say but i am a
05:56:11.060 taller women say they don't care about height women say they don't care about height but like conveniently 1.00
05:56:14.820 all their boyfriends were but have i been in situationships with guys shorter than me 100 000
05:56:18.980 percent well yeah i'm not denying that it's possible that you've dated men height doesn't
05:56:23.940 matter when you're let down girls i also think it's like but i just i do find it interesting when
05:56:29.060 women say they don't care about height but the men they were in relationships with conveniently 1.00
05:56:34.340 well we got a little off topic here why does like appearance matter so much that we have to like
05:56:39.460 rate well i'll tell you why i asked that because so what what you're you claim that you don't care
05:56:44.020 about height though conveniently all the men you've dated are the majority of them
05:56:48.580 were so 510s the male average you dated like above the male average of height okay yeah um to be
05:56:56.100 fair you're also tall yourself so i'll give you some leeway there but so a lot of women would not 1.00
05:57:00.740 date a guy who's short or shorter than them and that's personal preference you know whatever you're
05:57:05.220 attracted to hierarchy based off of a measurable physical attribute so when a woman says i wouldn't 0.61
05:57:10.580 date a guy below 510 or whatever the metric is you're rank ordering you're creating a hierarchy of
05:57:16.820 of attractiveness based off of a measurement so we can also do assessments of attractiveness and
05:57:24.340 create hierarchies when it comes to facial harmony but why are we doing that but why women do it well 1.00
05:57:30.260 women do it men do it we all do it whether it's conscious or self subconscious you we obviously in
05:57:36.340 our attraction is not really a choice yeah you see a beautiful person we're like oh i'm attracted to
05:57:40.820 them oh i'm not you know yeah but i'm not going to be like oh like his nose makes him a two out of
05:57:45.940 like like i'm not going to say subconsciously you probably do make that determination though
05:57:50.820 maybe so like the maybe the actually nose plays like a major factor in like the facial harmony and
05:57:57.940 balance so uh i say this as somebody who has a big nose like it definitely somebody's nose uh if they
05:58:04.500 have a big nose that typically has a negative impact i have a big nose like and i'm proud of that
05:58:08.340 turn your face that way i'm proud of that and it's fine i'm i'm yeah it's a little it's like a teeny bit
05:58:14.820 but it's really not confident in myself and that's why you said my ratings were low but everyone has
05:58:21.220 like flaws i know i can acknowledge the fact that i have physical flaws as does everyone else in the
05:58:26.580 entire world and i'm i don't look like adriana lima or megan fox but i'm still confident if you got a tan
05:58:32.180 you could probably do okay i'm still confident and happy with the way i look you know and that's
05:58:38.580 fine considering all my flaws well so i guess the reason why i ask it why it matters is earlier on i
05:58:44.180 think it was you who was saying that women have a i don't know exactly i framed it but you said women
05:58:51.380 are delusional like or they think that they deserve better than so i think i think it's important because
05:58:59.060 if you can't assess yourself you're not going to know how to navigate when it comes to dating so
05:59:04.900 if you think for example by the way men can be fall victim to this too this isn't a uniquely woman thing
05:59:10.420 although i think more women tend to have a miss incorrect self-assessment of where they stand 1.00
05:59:18.660 in the dating hierarchy and the dating marketplace um that's for a couple different reasons like but
05:59:26.100 definitely men can come to incorrect assessments i think the difference and we talked about this
05:59:32.900 before but just to reiterate if you're an average looking guy and you step to a girl who's a super
05:59:39.060 model or an eight or seven or whatever we're human beings though right that's the only way to quantify
05:59:48.740 it yeah it's like also like it's like i understand where you're coming from with all this like i do i get
05:59:53.860 it but it's like i'm not going to meet a guy that i really really like and i'm really attracted to
05:59:59.460 and put a number on his face and body and facial symmetry and then you might not but everyone else
06:00:04.740 does my belief is yeah can we get a like no i'd love to do you want to show me pictures like off
06:00:11.940 camera of your exes and i can do an assessment of how attractive they are because i mean i'd be curious 0.99
06:00:17.860 to see like if you're just exclusively dating only ugly men because you seem to make the argument you're
06:00:24.420 seeing you're forwarding this position that you don't care about looks um it's not that i don't
06:00:28.980 care about looks everyone cares about looks yeah so i'm just quantifying i'm just saying like i'm
06:00:33.300 quantifying a real phenomenon step ahead to rate a human being a person put a rating on them i don't
06:00:40.260 know but that's what you're doing ultimately like you don't like the way a number i mean right but like
06:00:46.580 you're doing it on the subconscious level well if you have such a problem can i could i show you a
06:00:53.140 series of 10 images of 10 different men and you would be able to be like you wouldn't put a number
06:00:59.300 but you would be like here's the most attractive guy then this is the next if you asked me the next
06:01:04.100 most attractive if you asked me to but if you showed me a picture of 10 different guys and my
06:01:07.780 head's not going to be like that's the hottest one that's the next hottest one that's maybe i'll be
06:01:12.020 like you could probably order them maybe i would okay but maybe i would look at the picture and be
06:01:16.020 like i'm the most attracted to that one but i'm not going to order them just naturally no but you
06:01:19.780 could order them anyone could anyone could do that and even if you were to resist it on a conscious
06:01:25.700 level subconsciously you would still be able like you would still be feeling like the the most
06:01:33.380 attractive man would elicit something in you that the least attractive man wouldn't which would be 0.54
06:01:38.660 attraction but the the reason is is i think if you're like delulu and and this is something that i think
06:01:45.460 more women tend to fall into because of what we talked about earlier where as an average looking 1.00
06:01:53.300 guy if you shoot your shot with a beautiful woman she completely zeroes you out you get 1.00
06:01:58.660 fucking nothing you don't get a date you don't get a convo uh you don't get sex you don't get anything 1.00
06:02:03.700 but as a woman if you shoot your shot with a guy outside of your league or me he might even pursue 1.00
06:02:09.140 you he might just be like well trying to get some pussy so uh and i do agree with that statement so 1.00
06:02:18.180 what can happen is like if imagine if like you're an average dude and all these you you could smash 0.99
06:02:24.500 supermodels but none of them wanted to be in a relationship with you that guy would be have the 1.00
06:02:31.540 most confidence in the entire world he'd think oh i'm hot shit i just smashed this guy and this guy and 0.97
06:02:36.420 i'm getting flown out by this chick and uh you know that victoria's secret model she flew me out 1.00
06:02:41.460 and i i hooked up with that uh female athlete and that uh taylor swift blah blah all guys would be
06:02:48.900 delusional too but men don't and this is a indictment of men to some degree uh men don't have that
06:02:55.300 experience but as a woman you could be a nobody average looking chick and you can deal with some and 0.80
06:03:01.460 it could be in different dimensions he could be really good looking he could be super famous he
06:03:05.940 could be a professional athlete he could be like at the top top top and so can has a famous person
06:03:14.900 ever slid into your dms yeah i think that like i i don't know i think taylor swift ain't sliding into 0.98
06:03:23.860 some average dude's dms i can tell you that much she done fucked half of hollywood 1.00
06:03:27.700 but she ain't sliding into an average dude's dms well yeah but i i don't know i don't like 0.98
06:03:33.940 i mean obviously i can't change this but i don't like how much society places importance on females 1.00
06:03:39.460 appearance like especially like women like especially it's a lot more for women than men you can agree
06:03:45.380 right you don't think so you don't think society places more of a place on a women's looks than men 1.00
06:03:50.340 it places a massive importance on both i think yes and i i think more on women i think we're like
06:03:56.580 we have this standard to wear makeup and get our hair done and like we it's a standard do women wear 1.00
06:04:01.780 makeup for men or women or for themselves it actually depends well it depends on the woman
06:04:06.980 right it depends on the woman some women tell me that they don't wear makeup for men 1.00
06:04:10.740 well so what is it i think most women wear makeup for themselves but also to look good in front of men
06:04:15.460 i think it's a mixed mouth yeah and also it depends on the girl like i think some girls like 1.00
06:04:19.540 genuinely like are lesbian and they you know obviously they're not going to wear makeup for 1.00
06:04:23.140 men so like well i think it's more it's probably it comes down to social acceptability uh and if you
06:04:30.340 for the makeup and all these cosmetic procedures but i mean i think that i think women are really harsh 1.00
06:04:36.260 judges of male physical appearance in fact i think the the window of what women will deem attractive
06:04:45.460 is way more narrow than the window of what men will find attractive this could be body type 0.99
06:04:52.580 uh i think there's other components here too let me think uh like body types i think there's a much
06:05:00.340 broader window of what's uh what men will deem as an attractive body whereas the attractive 0.99
06:05:07.620 body for a man from a from a woman's perspective from the female gaze is really narrow really narrow 0.84
06:05:14.900 so for example i would one component would be i think that
06:05:22.900 when it comes to body fat percentage the acceptable range of body fat is much more wide in terms of
06:05:30.580 what will be deemed attractive on a woman than what would be deemed attractive on the man well women 1.00
06:05:35.780 are like known to have a little bit more body fat anyway no but i'm saying the range oh yeah so if
06:05:41.060 your body fat could be anywhere from 10 to 30 i think the acceptable range like you can have women 1.00
06:05:47.140 going into thick territory and a lot of men are really into that you can have women who are really
06:05:52.660 thin and men will still appraise the thin female body as attractive i think the the natural female body 1.00
06:06:00.900 without any training is going to be appraised as attractive right whereas i think like okay you
06:06:08.180 look at the skinny girl women will have like the things that men care about when it comes to body 1.00
06:06:12.820 attraction those things tend to come about more naturally in women so it's going to be more curves 1.00
06:06:19.700 that stuff can come about more naturally whereas typically when it comes to female assessments of 1.00
06:06:26.500 male body attractiveness that's typically strictly through training like abs is what you're talking
06:06:32.500 like a skinny like a dude that works out with muscles like muscular is like the body yeah like
06:06:37.700 a girl can had never has stepped foot in the gym never did a sport in her life as long as her body fat 1.00
06:06:43.060 percentage is low uh there's going to be uh more men who are going to appraise her body as attractive 0.98
06:06:52.180 whereas like some some twinkie look some girls like the stick dudes or whatever but i think 1.00
06:06:58.180 most women generally like for them to deem a guy's body's attractive the body's going to be a bit 1.00
06:07:03.620 athletic i'm not saying like fucking steroided actually girls i think dislike the when guys go 0.98
06:07:09.940 too far with it that's the male gaze like the steroid or whatever i think women prefer more like 0.99
06:07:16.660 athletic body to like somewhat built but not go going into like the super gigantic yeah i think
06:07:22.980 just a moment takes care of his body basically yeah you eat good food yeah i mean i don't know
06:07:28.100 some girls like a good dad also also look i think there's other things in terms of women caring more 1.00
06:07:34.660 about looks than men i think the things that women care about men can't really control whereas the 0.99
06:07:40.580 things that men care about ah well it's more in control for women so like the three top things i 0.94
06:07:48.660 think women care about would be hair it would be height and it would be penis size wow men can't 0.77
06:07:57.300 control any of that well your hair a little bit but a little bit but you got to do like quite a bit of 0.88
06:08:03.620 medical intervention like if you're going to be some dudes be balding in high school uh so okay uh
06:08:10.820 men can't really control their hair absent medical intervention they can't control at their height 0.76
06:08:16.420 period uh and the surgeries are ill-advised for the pipe i mean you're basically going to cripple 0.96
06:08:22.900 yourself if you do it and then penis size can't do anything about that right apparently i mean i heard 0.94
06:08:27.940 the stint the german olympic team like inject do you guys hear about that no to give them 0.97
06:08:35.220 she knows what i'm talking about like i heard there's like a surgery you can get they were like
06:08:38.580 skiers yeah do the i don't know whatever that doesn't matter more surface area um the most streamlined
06:08:46.740 i don't know i think uh and then the things look obviously a woman can't really grow her breasts for 1.00
06:08:52.420 example i mean she could try to get fat yeah that helps a little bit but not really ill-advised i
06:08:59.780 don't think that's a good trade-off uh and then but like being thin that's like the primary thing
06:09:05.940 women can definitely control that and then but i think i think those are the three things that 1.00
06:09:12.500 guys care about the most well in terms of no no not the most i'm saying in terms of well in terms of
06:09:17.220 oh in terms of body i thought you meant just in terms of looks in general no no i i mean you know 0.91
06:09:22.260 i actually did a poll on this by the way some some guys are boob guys butt guys i'm a labia guy 0.99
06:09:28.340 we know labia it goes labia butt and then boobs okay anyways what's that exactly yeah uh 1.00
06:09:38.900 shit what is it um oh i did a poll would you rather and you girls can answer this from like 1.00
06:09:44.100 your perspective okay would you rather a guy hmm would you rather a guy with a 10 face but a five 0.99
06:09:51.700 body or a guy with a 10 body but a five face 10 face yeah 10 face 10 face lethal face card yeah 10
06:10:00.100 face 10 face into the mic maha maha 10 my mic oh this girl we gotta get her get her some salmon or 1.00
06:10:08.180 something i don't care i'm sorry you don't care no you don't care come on nothing comes to mind it's
06:10:13.780 about personality okay no no i yeah i totally agree with you to some extent it is about yeah when
06:10:21.460 i asked this of men though i actually got really interested i asked it on x and i think i had like
06:10:25.380 10 000 respondents it was mixed the guys were like some picked the five face 10 body 10 face me
06:10:34.260 personally 10 that's interesting i think that like body uh yeah let me ask the chat right now wait chat
06:10:40.260 for a woman 10 face five body or 1.00
06:10:48.340 five face 10 body wait did i get that mixed up
06:10:52.660 no i think you got it right wait 10 face five body or
06:10:57.700 five face 10 body i'm getting confused a lot of people are okay a couple 10 bodies 10 bodies i yo
06:11:04.740 you gotta pick 10 face oh you got some lethal face card you have to because think about it it's
06:11:09.140 personal preference yeah although you have to think what is a five body really it's average
06:11:15.380 just a regular body just like someone that like the average american body so then that's like
06:11:21.140 i mean actually i guess
06:11:23.380 that's actually tough it depends what we mean like what do you what would you consider a five body
06:11:28.660 i wouldn't consider it obese because i'm thinking of it from the i wouldn't from an aesthetic
06:11:35.540 perspective not the distribution so i don't think the five uh or do you have to wait chat do you have
06:11:44.020 to view it from a distribution perspective because i would put a five body as just like
06:11:52.020 maybe there's a little chub but not like obese you know it's just like average
06:11:55.940 some guys that's some guys preference though i don't know but like yeah it's to each their own
06:12:01.940 there's a different like flavor for every guy out there like i don't know every literally everyone
06:12:06.820 out there yeah that's gonna at least like the benefit for the kids
06:12:13.140 like you want to give your kids a lethal face card like the body you can work on that you know 0.99
06:12:17.860 can't do much with the face you know all right oh what the fuck spice donated 100 1.00
06:12:24.580 dollars yo what i'd puppy chair nine and i'm more attractive than brain who would puppy him 1.00
06:12:31.380 what does that even mean oh it changed to puppy who would him oh
06:12:40.900 who's chair nine 0.99
06:12:41.620 you're married right girl motherfucker she's married bro how are you talking how are you saying 0.99
06:12:50.340 this to a married woman her her husband's gonna find you okay well uh anyways i don't know where 1.00
06:12:57.700 we're going with all the looks thing the looks yeah you were gonna rate everybody great all right
06:13:02.420 don't rate me i'm rating everyone i'm opting out sorry we have to we're doing you respect my wish
06:13:08.660 uh why don't you get up if you don't want to be rated i have to rate everybody i'm sorry it's the
06:13:13.860 new segment we have to do it wait do we because you're here just close your close your ears just
06:13:20.020 close your ears um i guess are you rating our body but i don't even know why you'd object to it
06:13:24.900 because you said i when you rated yourself three i said you underrated yourself so how would you
06:13:29.540 actually i just like well i just like giving you a higher rating here's the thing i just like don't
06:13:33.540 i just like don't care and i don't really want okay perfect then why'd you come on the podcast if
06:13:37.940 you knew this was happening because i wanted to challenge it and i did i mean you i challenged it
06:13:44.100 and i got well to be honest but you tried you know it's the effort that counts but okay i got answers
06:13:48.500 to what i was looking for just have to like accept things we don't want to necessarily be a part of
06:13:53.300 like wait what i'm not even saying that i don't know what you're talking about
06:13:55.860 like because last time you asked me if i went to be rated like i just don't want it i just don't
06:14:00.420 care i don't want to hear it respectfully i don't know you know like it's just not okay well i hey you 0.94
06:14:06.580 know cover your ears i guess okay okay oh what the fuck did not mean to press that 0.91
06:14:17.620 okay uh let's see here the ratings okay actually do i you know what why don't 0.99
06:14:25.860 ah fuck it whoa what if we rated each other oh yeah you girls will totally be honest about that 0.99
06:14:33.940 one yeah just let's let's do it it's like 11 o'clock at night we've been here for six hours oh my god 0.99
06:14:39.300 if you want to leave then no i'm good i'm just saying out then no i'm quite happy i'm fine oh you're
06:14:45.300 leaving it was nice meeting you are i didn't even well you gotta stay no you should stay i gotta finish
06:14:51.700 your notes you gotta do your notes wait is that thing was that thing still on okay i don't even
06:14:57.700 know um all right uh okay um where are we uh hmm i'll i'll rapid fire it i won't even give you the
06:15:10.020 breakdown on the i usually give a positive and a negative i'm not even gonna do that i'll just give 0.98
06:15:14.740 the rating uh oh i should have written down all your ratings well shit can you just repeat your 0.86
06:15:18.900 rating back and then i'll give it i said a 3.5 or a 3.5 face a 4 body overall 4 i'm not gonna rate 0.96
06:15:27.700 bodies i'm just gonna do face rating um uh just look straight at me look that way
06:15:35.700 i give you a between a i want to say 5 and 5.5 uh you i rated myself an eight eight face okay uh can
06:15:44.900 you turn that one more more more okay thank you uh are you wearing color contacts i'm wearing brown
06:15:53.220 yeah you are wearing color contacts okay but i can't take them out because i need to no surgery
06:15:57.140 no surgery no nothing this is not even like the eyelid surgery no these are my natural eyes okay um
06:16:02.500 do they not look like it no i think i don't think you have the surgery but just asking if you have any
06:16:07.700 surgery um hmm i almost want to give some positives because you have some strong striking features but
06:16:20.660 i've got to rapid fire this i appreciate that um i i want to say you are wearing full face of makeup
06:16:28.580 though are you wearing no i'm only wearing makeup over here on my are you i don't wear makeup on my
06:16:32.580 forehead i don't wear makeup over here i can smear it and my naturals my brows are natural i don't
06:16:36.420 fill them in or anything okay uh you are wearing mascara do you have fake lashes on i have lashes
06:16:41.140 on you have lashes on do you want me to break down my whole makeup routine i feel like you're
06:16:44.180 asking so much about it to try to pick something to look at i think i'd give you a seven six point
06:16:48.660 i thought we can't pick six point five to well i can pick seven six point five to seven you're
06:16:53.460 wearing so much makeup you're the you got the the crazy lashes it's really instagram without makeup it's
06:17:00.500 really hard for me to make assessments of like full face makeup like the it's hard uh i'm gonna
06:17:06.340 it you have lip filler um i know you're biased it's all right uh i want to say five to five point
06:17:13.060 five maybe six uh lola what did you rate yourself or what did you rate yourself nine and ten nine and
06:17:20.660 ten okay what did you rate yourself like a nine ten nine uh okay i think you're five point five
06:17:26.580 well thank you so much there's many people that will do yourself there's people gooning to this
06:17:30.900 right now for me so oh what because you're beautiful i said eight thank you eight um can you turn your face
06:17:37.540 that way uh okay all right uh you're so funny i want to say i i have to rate within the phenotype 0.62
06:17:49.460 so figure out what whatever the fuck that means um i i want to say and you are wearing full face of 0.86
06:17:55.940 makeup into the mic is that correct like are you wearing like uh foundation or no i'm anything on 0.92
06:18:02.660 the face no concealer and blush concealer okay that that's on the face right yeah um i want to say between
06:18:11.220 5.5 six uh you what did you rate yourself i said eight for face i said six for body okay i'm gonna go
06:18:20.260 ahead and say uh 4.5 uh what did you rate yourself into the mic please six six uh
06:18:31.540 hmm
06:18:34.740 are you you're not wearing any makeup are you no no plastic surgery uh can you guys scoot into the
06:18:39.540 table a little bit so you're closer to the mics uh actually i think for your phenotype uh pretty
06:18:44.100 striking features i want to say uh i want to say six 6.5 for the phenotype uh what did you rate yourself
06:18:56.900 an eight
06:18:57.300 3.5 or four what about you i said three into the mic please three three for the face yeah um
06:19:13.860 i think that's pretty accurate i would agree what did you rate yourself i said six six uh
06:19:19.300 uh
06:19:24.820 5.56
06:19:27.620 i think you're trolling and i give myself
06:19:28.980 he's such a troll i give myself a 4.5 that's where he gets his clickbait yeah how's that clickbait
06:19:33.620 oh come on oh come on if i wanted to be
06:19:35.860 and it's pretty obvious you have a type too like you've said what your type is on previous episodes
06:19:41.220 thank you so much girl because he said he likes asian white i know i am so that's so thank you very
06:19:46.260 very much you know what what what what what you're lying like she's beautiful and you gave her face
06:19:56.820 a what did i say lola gold like a five what did you say four or five i think i got a four i think
06:20:02.100 he rated me a four out of ten and you're definitely a ten you're so pretty he's actually just it's
06:20:09.540 honestly it's just for the viewers it's rage if i'm on an arrangement i'd just say you're all two
06:20:13.060 none of you should take that seriously at all guys attraction is up like beauty is in the behind
06:20:17.460 yeah that's true that's true like it's very subjective
06:20:23.860 you might not actually be attracted to her
06:20:28.660 well you made a face when i said something about my body though like you don't like thick girls 1.00
06:20:33.220 um but i mean there's a personal rating based on your preferences yeah but i'm just doing face
06:20:38.900 ratings i'm not rating body you're so funny wait don't you think you're biased because you have
06:20:44.660 a time right off you are what did i give you i think i gave you a six you didn't i said didn't 0.99
06:20:50.260 you said 4.5 for her no i did not give her 4.5 you guys are literally fucking lying 0.94
06:20:57.300 i think you said 5.5 yeah 5.5 i'm pretty sure i said 5.5 to six yeah can somebody in the chat 0.98
06:21:02.740 okay watch them go watch the play back your men are gonna i'm pretty either way it's his personal
06:21:09.060 opinion it's genuine it can't be right or wrong yeah i don't yeah you definitely should have you
06:21:16.740 have enough yeah but if i wanted to rage bait i would just say you guys are ones i i mean that i'm
06:21:21.620 well that would be i'm doing a a rating based off of uh to some degree objective metrics
06:21:30.740 but what are those objective metrics yeah sure so it'd be like uh facial harmony facial symmetry
06:21:38.500 skin clarity uh facial thirds uh certain individualized positive characteristics uh this
06:21:47.140 sort of thing i mean look here here if this helps give understanding of my scale five is average
06:21:56.820 five five is not ugly five is average most people are average doesn't mean you're ugly it just means
06:22:03.860 you're average looking a lot a lot of people will still be attracted to you even if you're average
06:22:09.300 five is average six is cute seven is pretty eight is beautiful getting it and some people even in
06:22:17.060 the nate can be like model tier nine is like top top top elite there's no such thing as a ten
06:22:22.020 that's that's the metric so 5.5 would be cute your cute territory oh and are you like comparing her to
06:22:33.300 other like white women is that what i think he's doing is that what it is because you're like 1.00
06:22:37.860 phenotype and all this yeah you have to be considerate of the phenotype okay so you come comparative to
06:22:44.980 women who look like her she's uh 5.5 or whatever yeah i mean well in totality amazing interesting 1.00
06:22:53.860 you do you disagree but also yours what do you no i think she's a 10 her face in her body thank you
06:22:59.540 so much yeah and i've seen ugly models too you said models are like nine or something well yeah 0.98
06:23:05.780 that's woke bullshit where they like wanted to make obese women models not no i'm not even talking 0.98
06:23:10.500 about obese but i'm talking like genuine like undisputably i think no but beautiful models no 0.99
06:23:16.500 but you're talking about like facial harmony not traditionally you're thinking of like high
06:23:20.820 fashion catwalk yeah i'm thinking of uh adriana lima oh okay well i'm saying like high fashion models
06:23:27.940 aren't true yeah sometimes they have attractive kind of peculiar or unique faces yeah yeah i'm not
06:23:34.740 talking about that yeah so you don't think people that are peculiar unique could have their own kind
06:23:38.660 of beauty or like look more striking than the general public they can um but i'm saying that
06:23:44.820 there's a tendency for like high fashion catwalk modeling to not all the time but typically with a
06:23:51.380 high fashion they tend to pick people with with a unique sometimes more unique looks that wouldn't from
06:23:58.500 a like uh from like a purely aesthetic scale kind of deviates a little bit why i don't know why you guys
06:24:06.740 are so upset i didn't rate anybody as oh i'm not upset i don't know these girls are a bit upset to 1.00
06:24:12.260 be honest i think that yeah everyone has a different idea of what they find attractive
06:24:16.900 we get to rate you oh yeah i'm hey i'm below average looking i i'm i don't think i'm hot 0.86
06:24:22.740 shit if you want to rate me you can rate me but given the tenor of the conversation given the tenor of 0.75
06:24:27.220 the conversation i think the rating will be retributive given that i gave you guys lower ratings 0.98
06:24:32.420 than your own self-assessment i don't think you'll you can do it i don't think you would give a
06:24:38.340 like even if i disagreed with any of you tonight i'm not going to like intentionally give you
06:24:44.020 a rating lower because of that i try to be as objective in my ratings as possible
06:24:50.580 how can you be objective if you have a type though like you've said in other episodes that you
06:24:54.420 are biased towards white asian and latina women so that means whoever's not in those categories 0.65
06:24:58.820 indians are technically asian yeah but is that when someone says asian girls are my type they're 1.00
06:25:03.380 not talking about indian girls because indian girls look different from well yeah everybody 1.00
06:25:06.660 of course my perhaps my own personal biases will have some impact on the rating but uh so then it's
06:25:12.660 not objective if your bias is getting in the way well yes it's okay any sort of looks assessment is
06:25:18.260 not going to be strictly objective and pure philosophical terms but there are objective metrics by which
06:25:25.060 you can rate a face for example somebody's interpupillary distance that is an objective
06:25:30.820 metric that you can measure in somebody's face what is that uh so interpupillary distance would
06:25:35.460 be like for example if somebody has really close set eyes or it doesn't even have to be really but
06:25:40.580 as you scale your eyes closer or farther apart that's going to have an impact on your facial harmony
06:25:46.660 um and that's going to typically if it's not within a certain uh amount that is deemed within the
06:25:56.420 norm then that's going to typically have negative impact your looks assessment and that's just purely
06:26:02.980 objective like the distance between your pupils that's not like that can be objectively measured
06:26:09.940 so yeah or somebody for example who has like a long mid face like if you have a really long mid face
06:26:15.620 so that's like here to here basically that's going to have an impact on your facial harmony
06:26:22.260 all right these girls really don't like this yeah i'll go yeah i don't like it because it uh i don't 0.69
06:26:27.540 know does it hurt the fee fees no i mean you rated me what i rated myself so i don't know yeah you
06:26:34.340 rated me higher so i didn't come here for validation same okay all right well um i don't know if there's
06:26:42.420 any uh uh uh to those of the to those women who rated themselves like a nine or a ten which i
06:26:46.900 believe was was a you it was an eight eight okay you said nine ten what did you give yourself like a
06:26:54.020 nine ten wait hold on what did you write here literally nine slash nine nine or ten okay uh anybody
06:27:01.060 else say nine or ten okay um can you tell me a woman celebrity who you think is a ten 1.00
06:27:08.740 oh currently margot robbie i'm so obsessed with you what about like uh who's the who's the actress
06:27:17.620 sydney sweeney who was the actress um i'm trying to think here
06:27:29.140 uh megan fox do you guys think how would you rate megan fox oh i'm not allowed to clap sorry
06:27:34.260 10. megan fox i'm trying to like i don't really keep up with celebrity i don't i think i'm trying
06:27:41.300 i'm trying to remember for megan fox uh dark eyes like dark makeup like long black hair right no
06:27:46.660 green eyes um transformers like she was my gay awakening like genuinely megan fox in transformers 0.99
06:27:52.900 gay awakening uh that was everything can you scroll up you're only talking about her when she was in
06:27:58.740 her 20s she doesn't look like that okay but um we can she looked like this at one point so we can use 0.53
06:28:06.420 this as a reference guideline um so what do you rate megan fox into the mic please what do you rate 0.99
06:28:13.780 megan fox i believe she's a 10. okay so as a benchmark for what a 10 is in her own category
06:28:21.540 in her own category i'm not sure what that means would you do you consider yourself do you consider
06:28:25.940 yourself to be as physically attractive as megan fox when she was 20. i would say yeah because i think
06:28:33.300 then what about you yeah all right but it's like two different i'm sorry two different things though
06:28:38.500 because it's like i am a 10 in like the alternative space like in my own mind but to like societal
06:28:47.060 standards of like beauty i think i've also hit most of those marks like this is like a stereotypical
06:28:52.420 like exactly what like the perfect woman deemed by probably 90 of society would view as that you know 0.97
06:28:57.780 so i think it's beauty's an eye of the beholder whatever bullshit but it just varies on who you 0.70
06:29:06.340 ask i'm sure some people find megan fox not so who who do you guys who here thinks is like a guy 0.83
06:29:11.380 who's a 10 timothy chalamet brad pitt when he was younger timothy is not a 10 he's a good looking guy
06:29:18.260 but he's not a 10 brad pitt when he's younger compared to have you seen brad pitt young brad pitt 0.73
06:29:24.820 yeah he fucking mogs the shit out of timothy chalamet personal opinion i think i'm sorry 0.98
06:29:29.700 there's no way i you like his personality probably but i'm sorry just from a purely aesthetic point 0.98
06:29:34.820 of purely aesthetic like i think timothy chalamet is more my type yeah i think that brad pitt is
06:29:39.940 handsome oh yeah but his face is kind like when people are to me when people are super symmetrical
06:29:45.140 it's boring it's like give me some i like a little yeah some quirkiness to that face like
06:29:51.060 pretty symmetrical face but um no but i like he's got like he's got like really like he's got unique
06:29:56.260 features yeah yeah a little bit i mean he has i think he has a bit of a negative cancel tilt but um
06:30:03.140 uh who's a 10 guy for you my boyfriend okay well like uh an actor that we can look up or we can we all
06:30:12.580 know okay what about you david beckham i don't know who's no why why would you say that i don't know
06:30:19.220 he's british harry styles sorry sorry okay yeah all right so can we currently had cute boys all day
06:30:28.500 long yeah so so i mean you guys if if i you guys are all kind of upset and you feel like i'm being
06:30:33.540 insensitive but if i were to sit here and say i'm just as attractive as timothy chalamet i'm just as 0.96
06:30:38.740 attractive as brad pitt i'm just as attractive as harry styles you guys would fucking clown on me 0.99
06:30:44.180 you guys would be like this guy's fucking delusional no you guys would be like this guy's 0.99
06:30:49.060 fucking delusional this guy uh clearly delusional he thinks he's way more attractive than he actually 1.00
06:30:55.060 is what a fucking clown what a joke but y'all don't want to take accountability for your own delusion 1.00
06:31:01.620 that's crazy what what's the who's delusional here the delusion the delusion is we have women 1.00
06:31:11.700 here who think that they're on par with megan fox or elite supermodels and nobody wants to say 0.53
06:31:18.100 anything but if i if i say i'm on par with elite male supermodels all of you internally are like 0.91
06:31:24.900 fucking gonna cringe and be like because that's really far off yeah they are really bad so that's 0.85
06:31:29.380 close enough but like you it's like you know what i mean like even you said yourself 4.5 below 0.98
06:31:33.860 average it's a huge gap for all of you too i don't know you guys are that i think we've both done
06:31:39.860 we're both done modeling oh my god what does modeling mean on in fucking 2026 what does that 0.96
06:31:44.820 mean that's also that's not oh my god anybody's the same as megan fox said it's two different 0.84
06:31:51.380 categories of ten two different categories of tens like you say appeal to two different types of
06:31:56.020 audiences they're closer to megan fox than you are to yeah i think the range is very different
06:32:00.500 and i'm totally willing to accept that but you're you're leagues below megan fox then you're hundreds
06:32:06.420 of leagues below brad pitt and whatever you know what i mean we can okay that's totally fine i'm i'm
06:32:11.380 not then let's all i think his argument is he's willing to own up to that but some of the girls in
06:32:15.860 this panel aren't willing the difference it's our actual opinion that's what we really think
06:32:19.540 i'm even if you think i'm a three if you think i'm a three and i think i'm a 4.5 you're talking
06:32:26.340 about like leagues of difference at least i'm close to the assessment whereas you have women who 0.99
06:32:32.820 frankly are about average looking maybe a little bit above average looking or even below average
06:32:38.580 looking who are assessing themselves at like near elite tier looks why does it matter and that's such a
06:32:44.580 gap that's such a chasm okay we can talk about gaps then we can also talk about how the photos you're
06:32:48.900 comparing of megan fox are the ones you're finding on the internet versus right now you're seeing the
06:32:52.740 girls in real life do you think megan fox looks like what she looks like on google 24 7 probably 1.00
06:32:57.300 not right so at sometimes you could probably agree like when she just gets out of bed or on a day-to-day
06:33:01.300 average without the good angles without the camera everything she was probably like a 8.9 i don't know 1.00
06:33:06.660 etc whatever woman you think is a 10 that that and there's wide agreement that that woman is a 10 we
06:33:13.620 could just use her if you don't think it's megan fox i mean i would argue i i don't know maybe yes
06:33:20.100 obviously in hollywood they're sometimes using filters the lighting is perfect the angles are
06:33:25.140 perfect uh i i understand that but yeah megan fox probably from when she was 20 you put her in this
06:33:32.660 room no offense she mogs the women in this room correct well yeah that's why she's famous yeah looks like 1.00
06:33:38.660 that brian why do you think we're here not in hollywood why does it matter so much to you
06:33:43.700 how these women rate their own looks like no i mean it seems like you guys are the upset ones you
06:33:49.860 guys are the ones giving me pushback and i'm simply responding i mean it's it doesn't really
06:33:55.300 your framing is what it upsets me well you're just you keep saying like oh like she's not a 10.
06:34:01.140 she can't say that of herself she's not in megan fox's league like it's just not accurate
06:34:05.380 yeah i just believe because the truth but why does it not allowed to have self-worth remember
06:34:09.060 it has nothing why does it matter to you like like i said before everyone's like version of
06:34:14.420 what's attractive to them is different so if like she wants to say that she's a 10 and she feels
06:34:18.660 confident in herself like period like that's amazing that's good like how do you guys get
06:34:23.620 give men that same leeway yeah if a man that's yeah you wouldn't really love average looking dudes 0.98
06:34:30.100 who think they're hot shit that goes really that that really goes over well with women 1.00
06:34:36.180 please i know about every woman but i know i for me y'all clown on dudes who think they're hot 1.00
06:34:41.940 shit but they're i don't clown on this bullshit about well if he's really confident yes queen no 0.94
06:34:48.340 y'all fucking clown on dudes who think they're hot shit but they're not i haven't and you see it you 1.00
06:34:53.060 know it wait but when you give women a pass why do you all give women a pass on that 1.00
06:34:57.380 when have i done that though right i just think that we're accurate if she thinks she's a 10 go
06:35:02.500 queen no when have i done that with you literally just i'm not suggesting you clown on men but y'all
06:35:09.780 are way more willing to give women the pass on this whereas women are really harsh judges of men's 0.99
06:35:15.700 attractiveness yeah i'm not about me in particular i'm talking in general i don't know about i don't
06:35:21.140 know about your specifics i'm saying in general women will big up other women you 1.00
06:35:27.300 look at a bro you go to a fat girl's comment section and it's all her friends saying oh my 0.74
06:35:33.780 god i wish i looked like you slay queen you're so beautiful they're gassing their friends up 0.99
06:35:39.140 gassing the shit out of their to be fair unattractive female friends okay slay queen you're 1.00
06:35:44.900 so beautiful i wish i looked like you behind the scenes she's so fucking ugly like bro i know how some 1.00
06:35:51.700 of y'all operate well that's some fake ass i've never it is fake that's how women are fake women 1.00
06:35:56.180 are socialized to be fake y'all will like be all uh sugar and spice and everything nice uh to a 1.00
06:36:03.060 girl's face and as soon as she leaves fuck that bitch yeah you guys will do that i don't have 1.00
06:36:08.180 friends like that i'm not like that yes of course you guys don't know but it seems like girls girls 1.00
06:36:13.940 always yeah girls girls all the way yeah i understand that's a stereotype a lot of women operate 1.00
06:36:18.660 that way but it's not fair to say all women do i'm not saying all women do that but it is a
06:36:23.380 phenomenon that is observed in women agreed like i'm not bro my male friends they're like brian you're
06:36:30.420 getting fat you're getting chubby and they're right it's true but have you ever heard a a fat girl be 1.00
06:36:35.620 like yeah i'm fat i should probably lose weight no that would fucking crush them i've heard women 1.00
06:36:41.060 say that no women are not like that women will be like i'm fat and i'm hot no i'm 1.00
06:36:46.820 fucking chubby i need to lose weight i acknowledge that i acknowledge that my 0.98
06:36:52.180 current weight situation is really suboptimal have you ever heard a fat girl be like yeah i'm a fat 1.00
06:36:58.580 piece of shit and my current situation is suboptimal no they cope they cope well the ones that say that 0.99
06:37:05.060 end up going to the gym and losing weight but i think i know what you're talking about like the 1.00
06:37:08.580 girls the body positivity they feel like men should be entitled to being attracted to them even if they're
06:37:13.300 like a size 20 you know look the reason it matters each their own some guys like their
06:37:19.540 women a little bit bigger look that i i really you can you can think whatever you want i i'm really
06:37:26.020 just i'm sensing the friction from you guys and i'm responding to the friction you guys have taken
06:37:30.980 great offense at really i think i rated most of you around the average mark some of you above some of you
06:37:38.180 below but that's not rage bait that's not if i wanted to rage but i just say you're all zeros 0.99
06:37:43.460 you're all fucking the ugliest women ever no you guys are between most of y'all are basically 1.00
06:37:47.940 average to what gave you the idea that we took great offense to that we did he's just saying that 1.00
06:37:53.460 you guys yes you guys did you guys like two like two women i'm basically getting gaslit now
06:37:59.540 two women the girls did get upset to like two like you got a bit upset you got a bit upset 1.00
06:38:05.060 i did not get upset you were yes you were like i thought you were so funny i thought it was nice
06:38:08.980 that you gave me a six i genuinely wasn't at all um and this will be clipped and it will show that i
06:38:13.700 was not upset at all you were literally okay i really wasn't i promise you were one of the people
06:38:18.420 that got a little upset and you were like there are people who are whatever over me you got a little
06:38:22.980 upset i didn't get upset i think i don't know i thought it was nice as you i didn't think you're
06:38:27.220 gonna give me a six i was like oh he gave me a six i was gonna go lower but i i don't know i feel
06:38:32.900 like there are like two women who got up you definitely didn't get upset you did like two 0.99
06:38:38.420 people got upset about it don't let his opinion but it's yeah i think he just rage bait i just think
06:38:43.460 he doesn't have taste like i also think i also i don't think you do i think that your opinion of
06:38:49.300 yourself just attractiveness out of anyone else's opinion your opinion of yourself and how you value
06:38:54.580 yourself that matters the most so like if she wants to call herself a 10 you don't think that
06:38:58.500 she's a 10 let her have her thing you know he's more mad that she rated herself as a 10 i'm not i
06:39:05.700 think you're very bothered by women waiting themselves as a 10 well i mean there i think 1.00
06:39:09.860 there is a a kernel of truth to the frustration that can be experienced when it comes to dating
06:39:18.660 because i do think and you brought it up i do think it's the case that women haven't have a
06:39:26.420 a uh inaccurate self-assessment of where they stand when it comes to how attractive they are
06:39:33.300 and so what you see happening because of the phenomenon we talked about before where women can 0.97
06:39:38.900 sleep outside their league women can deal with guys who are more attractive than them have more status 1.00
06:39:44.340 have more money all these things um this is going to tend to and women will gas them up oh my god 1.00
06:39:50.100 you look at the girls comments on instagram oh my god slay queen you're so beautiful blah blah
06:39:54.340 women gas each other up uh women can have a y'all y'all look at yourself in the mirror or not even 1.00
06:40:00.180 that y'all look at yourself on instagram with your filters with your makeup and you just your
06:40:04.020 assessment of your looks is filter makeup it's not like straight out of the shower completely bare
06:40:09.860 face that's fair enough but so what ends up happening is basically you have massive amounts
06:40:16.900 of women who here's what i see happening uh there's a mary can you google hypergamy chart please i wonder 1.00
06:40:24.900 if i've posted it somewhere in the discord let me actually see i think ultimately you have what you
06:40:29.620 have happening is women don't want to date their equivalent women are hypergamous women want to get 1.00
06:40:36.260 the best that they can get men too but women act as a sort of a a bit of a bottleneck into that 1.00
06:40:43.540 because we already talked about how women uh they will not just entertain a guy strictly for sex they 1.00
06:40:50.500 won't they will not do it whereas men will entertain you for sex so for a couple different reasons you're 0.99
06:40:55.540 you're gonna be assessing yourself as more attractive than you actually are like if i was fucking running 0.97
06:41:01.220 through models but none of them wanted to date me but i could them and they were you know they 0.99
06:41:06.100 were coming at me and i'd probably think i'm hot shit too i'd probably think i'm hot shit too because 0.98
06:41:11.780 i'm and then the girl who's in my league who's a five who's average looking who's going to give me 1.00
06:41:17.620 commitment i i overlook her i pass on her because i'm like well why would i deal with the average girl
06:41:25.300 who is actually willing to be in a relationship with me when i can get attention affection and sex
06:41:32.260 from women who are more uh who are more enticing than her who are more physically attractive than 1.00
06:41:38.820 her but that phenomenon doesn't exist for men but it does exist for women and that's why i think 0.87
06:41:44.820 there's a tendency for women to be a bit delusional as to where they stand in addition to that once you've 0.98
06:41:49.940 had a taste of the good life it's very hard to go and date the normal guy once you've dated a super
06:41:57.860 wealth guy or super good looking guy maybe he only gave you sex and that was it you're going to be
06:42:03.380 looking at joe schmo and maybe you're the equivalent you're an average chick but you had a taste of the 1.00
06:42:09.940 good life a taste of the good dick how are you going to go and date an average dude you're not you're 0.99
06:42:16.100 fucking cooked it's over you're gonna be resenting you're gonna resent that guy or you wait until 1.00
06:42:22.100 you're 30 fuck none of the really hot guys who i fucked from 18 to 30 wanted to wife me up so 1.00
06:42:31.060 time to settle and then you're gonna marry that guy it'll last seven years you're gonna divorce him 1.00
06:42:35.860 because you're dissatisfied because he's not as attractive the the dick's not as good whatever it is 0.99
06:42:42.020 and uh it's just a fucking recipe for disaster do you have the hypergamy scale 0.99
06:42:47.940 yeah this is essentially it so women are chasing after the top tier of men 1.00
06:42:55.620 they're chasing after the top tier of men and you'll get it you'll get them for sex 1.00
06:42:59.620 and then eventually when you're in your late 20s and 30s you're gonna settle down maybe you'll end up
06:43:05.140 with an average guy and then you're going to be uh let's say really dissatisfied in your
06:43:14.180 relationship look i just because of their looks or it could be a whole bunch of different factors
06:43:18.900 the things that make men attractive can be varied uh it could be personality it could be looks it
06:43:23.860 could be well for everyone it could be wealth it could be status well men don't really care about
06:43:27.860 your career about wealth men don't care about women's career or status or well it depends on the 1.00
06:43:32.580 man women don't share their resources with men so it doesn't even matter even even if men did care 1.00
06:43:36.980 about it we wouldn't receive a benefit i remember when i was a bit younger uh i think i was in my
06:43:43.540 mid-20s and i was dating an attorney and she's making three times as much as i did high-powered 0.96
06:43:48.900 civil litigation attorney i think she's 26 or something uh she still wanted me to pay for the
06:43:53.780 date she made more three three times more than me so even if i'm gonna deal with a woman who's got 1.00
06:43:59.540 plenty of money and she can afford the date i still don't receive a benefit from her money and 0.99
06:44:04.740 her wealth men are just more generous in that sense like y'all women don't share your resources really 1.00
06:44:10.580 like you're not prepared to hold it down really like if the guy loses his job y'all you you're not
06:44:17.620 really prepared to hold a guy down like that yay brian figured it all out everybody why are we even here
06:44:23.380 he has all the answers oh my god well i think that's generalization right hold on let me respond
06:44:29.380 to that i mean you can be passive aggressive with your response or you can actually contend with my
06:44:33.380 argument at this moment i'm currently getting crickets so if you're gonna allow me let me speak
06:44:37.940 then okay so i can speak for myself i don't know about everybody and i do know women who take care of 1.00
06:44:42.740 their men i know men who are stay-at-home dads like i've i've seen this and i like you at you did this
06:44:49.860 little thing with the questions like i've paid for first dates for myself and a man and i like to go
06:44:56.420 half on things like i don't want to make whoever i'm talking to feel like everything is on their 0.86
06:45:00.900 shoulders that's me so when you're like you girls like a lot of this crap you're saying does not apply 0.78
06:45:06.900 to me i don't know about y'all but and and it does apply to a lot of women i know a lot of women who 1.00
06:45:11.780 have this thing about like i do have a thing about height for sure i don't like dating tall guys i want
06:45:18.020 i don't want a guy taller than six feet like it's too much it it's not functional too like
06:45:25.060 on top of a really tall guy and his head is way up there and it's like i do i've just my favorite
06:45:31.780 relationship was with a guy who was a few inches taller than me but it's not why i'm with him i'm
06:45:36.820 speaking in general you speak for very like not specific but you speak more for like conservative
06:45:41.380 men like i've asked what do you mean like i feel like there are people men who care about like
06:45:47.140 women being intelligent and like i didn't say when did i say anything about intelligence well i 0.90
06:45:51.380 feel like intelligence mostly translates to the career women have not really do you think rappers 1.00
06:45:55.940 are intelligent but they make a ton of money i get what you're saying no i feel like it does
06:45:59.620 like rappers don't really have to use your brains or anything there's nothing intellectual that comes
06:46:03.620 with rapping right but you would agree that you can still be like a really high income earner and
06:46:07.860 like be right but i'm not gonna be like wow he's a rapper oh my god he's so smart he's so attractive
06:46:12.580 but like if you if you were a guy like okay you said it doesn't matter for a woman but like from
06:46:17.220 my perspective if a guy was a rapper versus like a doctor and they the rapper made more i'll still be
06:46:22.260 more attracted to the doctor than like the rapper if that makes sense i don't know uh perhaps so i
06:46:26.660 think like a rapper analogy is like like maybe is there another one you could why maybe you don't have
06:46:31.620 an affinity for rap music do you prefer is there a different genre of music you prefer well like it's not
06:46:39.380 about i don't think it was about the music it was just like rapping was just like a bad career to
06:46:43.540 talk about when it comes right but i mean i i could see a woman who might otherwise be more inclined to 0.96
06:46:48.020 date a doctor but if it's i don't i don't know who's like a a musician that women are just fawning over 1.00
06:46:53.540 i don't know if women like justin bieber anymore i don't know uh 1.00
06:46:59.620 you're saying there's no musician you can think of that you would prefer to date that super successful
06:47:04.580 rich musician over a doctor in all instances you pick the doctor over the face super famous
06:47:10.740 musician well i can't think of i actually played music for like 12 years of my entire life so i know
06:47:15.380 some but i can't like okay say like what are you what are you trying to say going back to her point
06:47:22.420 i'm not really interested in the the my claim wasn't about intelligence my claim is that so men don't
06:47:29.540 really care about the woman's ambition her career her money her status these though these things so
06:47:36.180 what do you care about i'll get to that men do care about ambition i think i think it depends what
06:47:42.740 we mean by ambition but your career that's not going to make you more attractive to a man but the
06:47:50.660 things it takes for you to get to that career shows a lot about your ambition and the type of person you
06:47:55.300 are if you're like not really really okay like you don't think that's like in medical school would
06:48:00.980 be more attractive to a guy than a girl that's just does like a nail artist you don't think it
06:48:04.660 shows more about like her ambition and her work ethic and how much she went through to get to 0.72
06:48:08.580 going through medical school being in like etc etc you're just okay well she's in medical school
06:48:12.660 school okay what like i mean it doesn't tell you anything i think it can be indicative of
06:48:17.220 certain positive characteristics but i don't know if men prioritize those positive characteristics
06:48:23.060 i think there's asymmetry between what men and women find attractive you prioritize lobby like blm
06:48:29.380 uh i mean that uh sure i guess that that is one component of it but yes i would say that men
06:48:35.220 typically prioritize uh i i'd be i'd be prepared to say that men do prioritize looks over a woman's
06:48:42.580 career that's for certain uh i i wouldn't dispute that but i i would say that when it comes to the
06:48:49.220 career success etc men don't care about it for a few reasons i think it's there's an evolutionary
06:48:56.500 basis for it i think men in a traditional role men are the providers men are protectors uh that's
06:49:03.300 been typically the dynamic between men and women throughout history there's an evolutionary basis for
06:49:08.900 it then uh but also even if men were inclined to care about it it doesn't occur to me that
06:49:15.860 men even reap a benefit when women are obscenely successful or uh whether financially or they have 0.89
06:49:25.780 status men just don't have that draw um and i i would also say like and the reason
06:49:35.780 even if the draw was there there's not actual benefit like if you're dating a rich guy
06:49:39.940 your life is pretty good your life is pretty good as a woman uh can be anyways a lot of men will be
06:49:48.500 very can be very at least more let me frame it like this men are more generous with their money
06:49:54.500 in a romantic setting than women are generous with their money in a romantic setting you'll hear stories 0.97
06:50:00.340 where uh a girl has a hundred thousand dollars worth worth of savings and her boyfriend is paycheck to
06:50:07.540 paycheck and he's still paying for the bills he's still paying for dates do you think that that's
06:50:13.620 equitable a woman who has a hundred thousand dollars in savings and her boyfriend is paycheck 0.94
06:50:21.620 to paycheck no i feel like that's definitely not equitable that's pretty extreme in that case i
06:50:26.340 think like yeah the expectation first for some girls yeah everybody yeah i'm all about like guys providing
06:50:34.020 and stuff but i feel like if it's really to that extent where like you're genuinely paycheck to
06:50:37.940 paycheck then like yeah like in a relationship the girls should step up support each other 1.00
06:50:41.780 but on the first date the guy should still pay right well why are you going on dates if you're
06:50:46.260 paycheck to paycheck and broke like that's so people of a lower socioeconomic status should just 1.00
06:50:52.020 die no not just die but it's just like well okay if it's the first day i wouldn't know that 0.85
06:50:57.220 you're living paycheck to paycheck so yeah i would still expect you to pay on the first date 0.98
06:51:01.380 men shouldn't date but broke women can still date do i have that clear i don't think so necessarily but
06:51:06.500 they don't men don't expect women to like financially do anything really early on so
06:51:12.420 there's there's no block to them dating financially i'm sorry i don't understand i i think that if both
06:51:21.540 if if both parties are doing paycheck to paycheck broke like coming into that point to start a new
06:51:27.460 relationship that takes on a lot of responsibility financially for both parties paycheck to paycheck
06:51:32.100 isn't necessary well i mean you might say that's i mean it's not it's not broke but i'm just saying
06:51:36.900 like you need extra money for extracurriculars right like going like i like to go to festivals i
06:51:42.260 like to do fun things like that and the man should pay for it costs a lot of money um no
06:51:46.500 not every time okay if i if i initiate a big a bit this is how i think of it if i initiate a big
06:51:53.860 activity event trip something like that and i have the ability to pay for that i believe that
06:51:58.980 honestly i should pay for that and i do sometimes and i think if there's like a balance there's like
06:52:05.700 a beautiful harmony that can be found where neither of you are like fully dependent upon the other but
06:52:11.460 there's like a beautiful middle ground where it's like if someone gets laid off someone gets sick
06:52:15.140 you can help them out vice versa you know sure uh i think that's fine but but overall the man should
06:52:22.340 be the provider i agree with that every date i've ever been on first day i always expect to pay for
06:52:28.580 myself and if a guy um chooses a place where i know i'm like i cannot afford this bill i will let
06:52:34.820 them know and they're like i got you and i'm like okay but i never i have never expected a man to pay
06:52:40.820 for me on a first date but do they do it anyways i pay for myself without them knowing they got mad
06:52:45.860 at me like no i should do it anyways sometimes do they insist no no no yeah sometimes right some of
06:52:53.620 them right so that's not my fault like i didn't expect you to do that look i acknowledge sometimes
06:52:58.580 the woman pays for the whole meal sometimes it goes 50 50. i would say majority so over 50 of the time 0.99
06:53:05.620 there is typically even you could i would say well i would say 99 of conservative women have the 0.93
06:53:11.860 standard maybe it's like 50 of even liberal progressive feminist equality women still want 1.00
06:53:18.660 men to pay for first dates it's the nice thing to do it's gentlemanly treatment uh blah blah blah
06:53:24.180 if he doesn't pay for the first date there's not going to be a second so ultimately if a woman makes 1.00
06:53:30.420 money i don't benefit from it why should i care about it well if you want to provide for her you 0.97
06:53:39.380 yeah you shouldn't care about it right like what do you what are you trying to say okay if the
06:53:43.140 conversation the foundation of the conversation is about my position is men don't care or they're
06:53:49.860 it doesn't make a woman more attractive if uh for for because of her career or how much money she 1.00
06:53:56.500 makes it doesn't make a woman more attractive uh there seems to be some pushback on this and i was
06:54:01.620 saying well even if men did care about it there wouldn't perhaps even one of the reasons they
06:54:07.540 don't care is they know even if i date a woman who makes six figures she's not like what i would the 1.00
06:54:16.580 the man the male paradigm is if i made six figures i would do xyz for her i would buy her this i would pay 0.98
06:54:22.980 for dates i do even when a woman makes that much money she's not doing that shit so it's like why 0.98
06:54:28.420 should we care i would i don't know i just feel a lot of what you're saying i just don't i'm speaking 0.83
06:54:35.700 in general but you want our opinion i agree i don't give opinions on anything um you agree with him i
06:54:41.620 agree with him yeah i kind of get what he's saying he's saying at the end of the day why does it matter
06:54:45.220 how much money a woman makes because the guy's not going to really benefit from what she's what she 1.00
06:54:50.260 has i get what he's saying i'll say this a guy look a guy will pick the beautiful barista who makes
06:54:59.860 eighteen dollars an hour over the high-powered female attorney who's like cute who makes six 1.00
06:55:06.660 figures the guy's gonna but i think a lot of women uh i think a lot of women go in the other direction 1.00
06:55:14.740 they take the like above you know he's a bit above average but he's like an attorney
06:55:18.980 where he's a doctor they pick him over the guy who is a barista making eighteen dollars an hour
06:55:26.340 i agree with you yeah because the man like i think they're trying to pick a mate that they
06:55:29.700 know is going to provide for their kids they're making that financially sound decision right and
06:55:33.300 there's an evolutionary basis for this hold on we have a chat here search don't hate me i apologize
06:55:38.740 your xd donated 100 the reason they get upset is simple their world view is material in nature
06:55:47.220 so they value themselves based on nothing other than looks they don't understand that this isn't
06:55:52.740 about ontological value yo lizzie thank you for the 10 gifted subs chau sorry for the delay thank you
06:56:00.740 for the tts really appreciate it all right we're going to blast through our uh notes here as quick as we
06:56:05.540 can uh why don't we just do the questionnaire starting here what is the minimum yearly income
06:56:10.100 to be your future husband i don't have one okay so you'll when you're 30 and i don't know if i want
06:56:18.420 to have kids yet i could go either way but i base my i base my uh view based on human connection not
06:56:24.500 based on money all right but there you do acknowledge that say when you're in your mid he has to have drive
06:56:30.820 and he has to have a job that he likes to do okay but you do acknowledge when you're in your mid 20s to
06:56:36.820 early 30s and if you do eventually end up inclined to have children there's just going to be a financial
06:56:42.660 and economic reality that uh it does take money to i mean have kids personally i want to be a therapist
06:56:51.780 so i can like go through pregnancy and have kids and still work uh what about you um i'd say 100k 100k
06:56:59.300 okay what about you um i don't we have a whatever you just just just for the sake of time i'm just
06:57:06.740 trying to blast through this i think i wrote down like whatever you wrote down like minimum like 40
06:57:11.220 to like it doesn't matter because you said 60 100k what about you something it's not important to me
06:57:17.460 okay at all 500k 500k even the liberal progressive woman demands a man make 500 000 uh why 500k 0.83
06:57:29.300 i'll be making pretty good money too so what are you gonna do get a phd in clinical psychology
06:57:36.020 oh what phd in clinical psychology she's really smart you're gonna be a psychiatrist
06:57:42.420 psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist they make i don't think they make 500 000
06:57:47.300 well no they make but if you play your cards right you can make like 200 300k
06:57:51.300 well why okay well i mean look uh regardless of how much you make you can still desire
06:57:57.540 500 000 but i thought the 500 000 was because you anticipate making this much but it doesn't
06:58:04.340 know but i make like not like i'll make like i need to 2x 3x your earnings okay that you do that's like
06:58:12.660 the top one percent by the way so you've closed your dating pool to 99 of men are you okay with that
06:58:17.780 and he also he also has to agree with you politically he has to be share values you have
06:58:23.860 to be attracted to him um all the other traits you care about the path that my boyfriend's going
06:58:28.500 on he'll probably make that what's that probably the path that my boyfriend's going on he'll probably
06:58:32.340 make that money what is he going into finance or something yeah med school
06:58:38.740 what kind of is he wants to be a surgeon or i feel like most doctors
06:58:42.020 uh orthopedic surgery okay i don't i'm not sure about how much orthopedic surgeons make
06:58:48.180 surgeons can do pretty good so it's i think it's like 600 what about you it's pretty high told my
06:58:53.380 man this a couple weeks ago when we were talking about it 50k okay what about you i said it doesn't
06:58:59.460 matter i didn't put a number okay i said 85 000 what about you um it doesn't matter to me as long
06:59:06.500 as you can take care of us and our family and so like 40 000 okay what about you i think i didn't
06:59:13.300 put anything either because my same as her it's whatever it takes to support our family did i put
06:59:18.820 something i think so no but i mean you guys must have some sense i mean if we're in california it's
06:59:25.220 expensive to live here i don't think we need to live in california though so if we move to a different
06:59:29.220 state though it would change and then i'd be working as well probably until i got pregnant so
06:59:35.860 i don't know maybe around 100 000 here okay i mean yeah there's ways you can come for those of
06:59:42.500 you who are like unsure you can definitely come to determinations like okay do you want to stay in
06:59:47.220 you want to live in southern california or do you want to live in idaho do you how big of a house do you
06:59:51.940 want do you want to have two cars do you want luxury cars do you want to go on vacations if we
06:59:58.020 get a sense of your lifestyle then we can probably come to your desired lifestyle we can probably come
07:00:02.340 into a determination as to what the minimum income needs to be for the household uh how tall are you
07:00:07.700 and what's the minimum height of a man you would date um i'm 5'10 and the minimum height of a man
07:00:14.100 that i would date would be probably like 5'4 okay 5'4 okay what about you i'm 5'7 and a minimum
07:00:21.460 height date is six feet or if they're or sometimes 5'11 for like 5'11 5'11 if they're a great person
07:00:29.700 you're 5'7 six foot minimum okay what about you i'm 5'3 and a minimum is six sorry where where were
07:00:38.100 you looking at you're just sorry my bad oh i'm sorry i'm tired yeah yeah i get it sorry repeat that
07:00:43.540 i apologize 5'3 5'3 and i would date minimum six feet okay 5'5 and as long as you're my height
07:00:51.780 that's cool but if you are six foot then that's also fun because i like to be thrown around
07:00:57.780 um i'm 5'5 and i said minimum is 5'8 i'm 5'7 as long as you can reach five minimum
07:01:05.060 wait is so you'll date the five foot guy yes okay what about you i'm 5'4 and i really do not
07:01:13.460 care don't care okay i'm 5'5 and i said i would date 5'8 and plus i'm 5'4 and i said 5'5 or it
07:01:23.220 doesn't matter i'm five feet and i think i said five nine but if they checked other boxes i would
07:01:29.300 i wouldn't care i could go lower all right uh we're gonna skip the bear one any disagreements here
07:01:36.980 uh amelia you have a disagreement about tattoos filler and age gaps we'll just blast through those 0.99
07:01:44.340 super quick tattoos um brian um i'm really sorry i'm gonna wrap here because i've had a great time
07:01:52.420 and it is way past my bedtime thank you for having me um well let's at least we need to do your
07:01:58.820 notes we needed okay all right uh
07:02:08.180 let's get into it then yeah like i said last time i was here i think that there is a stereotype that
07:02:14.500 comes with having tattoos that's mostly negative especially for women not the same for men but for
07:02:19.460 me specifically i think it makes me look more attractive it doesn't make everyone look more
07:02:23.380 attractive um i think depends on the quality of what you get where you get it for example i would never
07:02:28.340 get it on my face anywhere or anything vulgar or gross but i think it's a beautiful artistic
07:02:34.500 expression and um it's how i wanted to look like when i was like a little kid i thinking how i wanted
07:02:38.420 to look i'm you know reaching that point so okay but what's the disagreement that you don't like
07:02:44.180 tattoos and you think that they're make everyone more attractive for women correct i mean my position 1.00
07:02:49.860 my position on tattoos is this i think uh for for myself and i think generally for most men uh
07:02:56.980 generally tattoos are going to be appraised as either neutral at best uh or negative
07:03:05.460 right for most men there are some men who are fine who are on a fine is the right word but yeah i think
07:03:13.620 generally and obviously it depends the design depends on the location depends how much um
07:03:21.860 but ultimately i i don't think there's like you have a wrist tattoo for example like for most men
07:03:27.140 that i don't think most men would be like oh my god deal breaker uh but i don't think most men are 0.70
07:03:32.260 gonna be like i didn't want to have sex with her but she has that wrist tattoo now i want to have sex 1.00
07:03:37.780 with her i think so in in that sense i don't think tattoos are going to be appraised typically as a 0.93
07:03:43.780 positive it's either neutral where it's like i don't care right you have a tattoo okay cool don't
07:03:48.820 care or negative like it's going to be neutral or negative you don't think that guys can be like oh
07:03:54.180 like that's cool that she has a tattoo or like oh i like that about her i think there's some guys who
07:03:59.380 have like a fetish or a kink for tattoos but not even just a fetish just like oh that's attractive 0.73
07:04:03.540 like i like her tattoo no most men because that's been my experience personally yeah i think that
07:04:08.980 about guys no i think that about guys like i'll see a guy with a tattoo it'll be like oh that's
07:04:13.220 attractive to me i i don't believe there's symmetry on this specific topic so i think women when it
07:04:18.820 comes to tattoos on men the the appraisal tends to be positive neutral or negative so because i think
07:04:26.580 tattoos can typically can sometimes make a man look more masculine tattoos definitely don't make women 0.99
07:04:32.500 more feminine i agree with that so um like a guy so if like a a woman is otherwise inclined towards 1.00
07:04:42.100 like a more dominant man a guy who's like has like full sleeve or uh that can increase his assessment
07:04:49.940 in terms of his masculinity he can like look he can even look a bit intimidating which uh from like a
07:04:57.060 evolutionary perspective this would almost make sense here's this guy who's maybe he's a bit rough
07:05:02.020 around the edges he's more capable of protecting me he's a bit rough uh that makes sense and it's
07:05:07.220 more uh it's more masculine but it's never if men prioritize femininity in women tattoos are not
07:05:14.020 feminine they're maybe they're neutral maybe they're neutral but they're either masculine or neutral
07:05:20.180 i don't think it's masculine but i don't i think it is neutral it's definitely not making me more
07:05:24.980 feminine i will admit that but it's also not my goal um because i think another layer that it adds
07:05:31.060 at least for me when i see like a fully completely covered tattoo person that's a lot of pain you had
07:05:36.180 to sit through that's a lot of like mental it's like what are you making up for in your life that
07:05:40.100 you have to replace with like sitting for hours of pain or getting something like needled into your
07:05:43.540 skin i know there's like a root cause to that whether it's male or female so that adds like a
07:05:47.620 mental illness not necessarily mental illness but um it's it's a it's a certain type of person just
07:05:55.460 like statistically that gets tattooed specifically with female with men it might not always be the
07:06:01.220 same but it's like it's a lot of pain it's a lot of process that goes into it and it's like
07:06:05.940 it's an extra step that you took to almost like make up for something lacking and it's like i know it's
07:06:10.660 like for me because it's like this is like an inward expression of the things that i like and
07:06:14.260 um i just do you agree with that though you know what i'm saying like it's it's a little bit of a
07:06:20.340 red flag and it's even more as a red flag in women well it seems like you agree with me i do agree with
07:06:25.460 you oh i thought we disagreed on the tattoo thing well with no with this with this specific thing but
07:06:29.700 it's like in general for i'm saying for me specifically in my own eyes i believe it makes
07:06:33.940 me more attractive but to the general population i know it doesn't well i think it can point to um
07:06:39.940 um not always but i think and it again depends on how much tattoos the design of the tattoo
07:06:46.900 the location of the tattoo i definitely think that it can be uh what's going on here exactly
07:06:53.780 you know a girl's got tattoos is a huge red flag no matter what it is that's like i would never ever
07:07:00.420 also shitty tattoos tattoos including drugs like like inappropriate paraphernalia even i don't like
07:07:06.260 nude tattoos i think that that like it goes to even deeper red flag sure so i don't know if it's
07:07:11.940 very situational like personally i spend a lot of money on my tattoos they look nice so i don't look
07:07:16.020 cheap because i think that it borders into cheap as well sure well i mean um then you can even draw
07:07:21.220 certain things from certain tattoos like girls who have like the finger tattoos or whatever uh or if
07:07:26.500 they have like a uh a spiderweb tattoo on their elbow are we talking like what what what are you
07:07:35.860 talking about like germany type spiderwebs that was like an old that was no that's like a typical
07:07:41.140 convict people who get the people who get the spiderweb tattoo on their elbow it either means drugs or
07:07:48.500 prison so i see if i see a girl with that tattoo i'm like she used to be she's a addict or was an 0.93
07:07:56.260 addict exactly and i'm like no really i almost got an elbow tattoo but just because of hyperpigmentation
07:08:03.380 so i've never heard about the spiderwebs i almost got a spiderweb i didn't know what it meant
07:08:10.180 now you know it's now i know world war ii terms it's really not good and there's even worse things
07:08:15.060 in the u.s so it's like i i wouldn't have known that unless i did my research um but we can't
07:08:19.380 linger too long on the tattoo thing um i look it's not a deal breaker but you know it depends on the
07:08:24.740 scale and all this sort of thing that was a good and i do think that uh but look if you want the you
07:08:30.820 want the honest thing from from me i do think generally for men it's neutral or negative it's
07:08:37.860 neutral or negative uh you might have you might be like well brian i have a tattoo and the one time 0.98
07:08:42.900 a guy was like whoa that's a really nice type tattoo was he trying to fuck you because it would 0.98
07:08:47.460 never like if i was dating a girl it wouldn't really go over well if i was like hey by the way 0.99
07:08:52.500 you're less attractive because of your tattoo like that's not that's really autistic thing to say by the
07:08:58.820 way but that's not gonna be like flattering to the girl and uh yeah so as a guy you try to there's a
07:09:07.700 degree of flattery that's involved in courting women um so uh lip filler um yeah i mean that's
07:09:16.820 just i i like my lip filler and i know you don't like it yeah i just aesthetically i don't really
07:09:23.540 like it some men are fine with it i guess but uh you think my rating scale is a bit harsh but i think
07:09:30.020 we already talked about that unless you had anything to add i mean yeah i just think generally other
07:09:34.660 people's scales are like more lenient than yours are like to other people five is average six is
07:09:39.940 like there's some attractive features seven is attractive eight is above attractive like you
07:09:45.140 know like i think that's how people use it but i feel like you were skewing it a little bit
07:09:50.740 well i mean five average six cute seven pretty eight beautiful nine uh elite tier supermodel
07:09:57.940 but you're saying eight is beautiful eight is beautiful yeah who's like a celebrity that's like
07:10:03.780 an eight to you like a female i mean i don't know um who's an eight 1.00
07:10:13.060 celebrity female i'm you know what i i can't think of anybody at the moment to be honest um i would say
07:10:20.020 maybe it's an 8.5 i'd say jessica beale is eight like i'm not attracted to her personally 0.97
07:10:31.380 you're also a woman yeah i know but like i can still no but i can still say if i think a woman's 0.93
07:10:36.740 attractive or not like i don't think i'm talking jessica jessica by the way she's in her 40s at this 1.00
07:10:40.820 point i'm talking like jessica beale when she was in her early 20s she's still not what like i would 0.89
07:10:46.500 consider like you're shaking your head you don't think jessica beale is we're not i just think
07:10:52.180 you're maybe into white girls a little bit more um well you asked me what okay we pulled a picture
07:10:59.060 of her i don't know what she looks like uh mary it's actually in the discord if you want to go in
07:11:02.500 the looks folder i have two pictures of her in the looks you're gonna have to
07:11:07.300 do yeah resources looks and uh
07:11:15.700 it's just one up it's like with gorlok that batch
07:11:22.900 do you have it oh my gosh
07:11:28.420 uh and then go back
07:11:30.020 uh so i mean bare minimum eight i might even argue she's a bit higher but i'd give her an hit 1.00
07:11:40.180 uh well here why don't we do go use the arrow key go ahead okay adriana lima arrow key
07:11:51.940 adriana lima arrow key i forgot her name the girl from lost uh she's pretty good me i'd say i i think
07:11:59.460 maybe she's more of an eight maybe no you think she's a she's a six probably yeah what did you rate
07:12:06.500 yourself face well i couldn't read myself a seven so i just went okay but you okay realistically you'd
07:12:13.460 give yourself a seven yeah okay so you mog her it depends on who you ask like some people aren't
07:12:19.860 into white girls it's kind of my point like some people are more attracted to like melanin and things 1.00
07:12:23.940 like that wait just to be fair so while i do have my own type which is typically white asian or latina
07:12:30.820 uh there are definitely black women who are way more attractive than a lot of white women so it's 1.00
07:12:38.100 not just yes i have my own personal preference but it can also be like yes that's a black woman who's
07:12:44.980 way more attractive than like all these white women but don't you think your standards for black 1.00
07:12:49.460 women are a little bit higher than your standards for white women uh i i don't know i don't think so 1.00
07:13:03.300 ink oh i think my yeah you're right thank you for pointing that out my cup the ink fades thank you for
07:13:11.300 i'll i'll just wipe it off in the bathroom in the moment uh yeah the the cup the ink kind of
07:13:17.540 if you touch a lot i drink a lot so um was there anything more no
07:13:25.140 uh okay you here i'm gonna go to your notes here really quick just so i can get up for a moment here
07:13:31.460 uh did you have any other topics you wanted to you wanted bro i disagree with you on this the girls
07:13:37.060 are gonna have very strong opinions on this you right so i disavow this i disavow this in advance
07:13:44.020 you say bring back legalizing hitting your wife okay i was okay i was exaggerating don't walk it
07:13:52.340 back you believe that no no no i was exaggerating but like i i don't even think it's just wife i think
07:13:57.780 in general we could legalize slapping as a whole like regardless of gender wait just hear me out 0.95
07:14:02.580 like i slap you in the face right now it depends on what okay bro just chill out like you need to chill
07:14:08.260 for real no like i'm just saying like i think in other countries the way that people deal with 0.72
07:14:12.500 conflict sometimes is physically and i feel like doesn't make it right though there's i feel like
07:14:17.380 that's how some people learn their lesson though can't you argue like yeah it doesn't make imbecile
07:14:21.860 societies result to violence before talking over an issue long reloids result to that before they're
07:14:29.380 able to talk it out like adults that's just the way it is i think clearly someone who's saying
07:14:37.700 something like that is saying it so that the clip will blow up so wait no but so you guys disagree 0.99
07:14:42.420 with will smith slapping chris rock for disrespecting his wife like who the fuck is that okay it was 0.97
07:14:49.300 like a clip that went viral at the oscars a few years ago but like some actor slapped another comedian 0.98
07:14:54.340 because he made a joke about his wife it should be legal though you just like we shouldn't legalize 1.00
07:14:58.820 okay well i don't mean like legal i just meant like not maybe like outlaw it is what i'm trying
07:15:03.700 to say like if it's self-defense like if you're defending yourself but i can't like yeah i just i
07:15:10.020 don't even well i think a slap is different than a punch right like i'm just saying i think it's
07:15:13.220 really insensitive to say something like that yeah i think you don't really believe that yourself
07:15:16.820 because as soon as you read it you're like well i was being a little bit wait so what did you mean
07:15:20.660 to say since you said i'm telling you what i meant to say i'm saying like some there's just some
07:15:25.620 instances where like you hear a person talk and it's like wow they've clearly never been slapped
07:15:29.540 before in their life like i just feel like if that's me to you right now but i'm just saying
07:15:33.700 if some people are sometimes so disrespectful that like you there's no way to get the point across
07:15:39.060 like maybe that's the way they i think this is rage bae i don't think you actually genuinely yeah
07:15:42.820 i think you're trying to get clipped i think you're trying to like blow up that's what you think 0.98
07:15:46.180 i don't have anything to prove to you but i think if they're that dumb they'll learn their own 0.96
07:15:49.860 lessons however they learn that and if they don't who cares i don't think you need to resort 0.91
07:15:53.460 to violence to teach someone a lesson or legalize it at that i just i'm just not going to give that
07:16:00.500 comment another out to my attention you should post that on instagram but we should legalize slapping 0.66
07:16:05.700 women i said slapping everyone i said slapping everyone internet the whole live stream so bring 1.00
07:16:12.180 back legal yeah i know i just said stuff for him to like bring up in the podcast whatever i don't think
07:16:18.020 you're really keeping in mind that like people have had maybe some like really horrible things
07:16:23.060 happen to them some bad experiences some trauma you know and like saying something like that can make
07:16:27.780 a lot of people feel really invalidated i think it's important did your parents hit you growing up
07:16:33.780 just serious question i actually want to know yes and you think that's okay you want to pass that down
07:16:38.660 for the future generation i see what my dad's doing this is right in the future we should hit women i 0.99
07:16:43.380 wouldn't hit my kids though because i was growing up too but i have a total different view compared
07:16:48.180 to you wait you wouldn't hit your kids but you you think it's okay for a guy to hit his wife
07:16:54.260 or why do you think it's okay for anyone to put their hands on another person i just think
07:16:59.220 that sometimes people cross a line and like they don't realize they crossed the line if you just
07:17:04.500 tell them like there's like words don't always get through to people it's kind of my point well 0.96
07:17:08.020 then you just so you slap them across the face just that's a that's a retard response if you can't 0.99
07:17:12.420 talk it out like adults genuinely but some things don't get through to people when you talk to them 0.98
07:17:16.740 have you ever hit a boyfriend no maybe your school's just like this was specifically about your wife so
07:17:21.940 if there's something like you're at an impasse and there's something that's just that bad where you
07:17:26.020 feel like you need to lay your hands on your partner just leave like obviously you can't control
07:17:30.900 your emotions can i ask you a question um say you got in a fight with your boyfriend and you know
07:17:36.740 things were getting heated you both were raising your voice or whatever and he like he hit you
07:17:42.420 would you justify that you would think that that was okay and you wouldn't get hurt or upset by that
07:17:47.460 in any way well what you're describing sounds more like abuse like he's just getting mad at me and
07:17:51.380 taking his anger out on me but isn't that what hitting someone is at what point is yeah putting
07:17:55.220 your hands on not abuse no matter the reason okay there's never been a time in your life where someone 0.96
07:17:59.300 said something so disrespectful that you kind of had the thought like damn this person needs to
07:18:03.060 yeah but i have self-control and i know what right from wrong is and i know it's not legal to put my 0.97
07:18:07.380 hands on someone so okay that's what i'm saying i'm talking about a hypothetical world where we live
07:18:13.060 we live in a first world country not a third world society where no one i know i have a different
07:18:17.540 perspective obviously because i have family from a different country come back to reality
07:18:22.980 what world are you living wait can you say that in mandarin i don't even know what mars is in
07:18:26.980 another planet are you from outer space because genuinely i feel like we're not in the same
07:18:33.940 world right now okay like that's how you do we're here talk to me if you prefer to talk
07:18:39.220 it to me in mandarin oh boy i i don't have much to say genuinely wait do it it it's about
07:18:45.460 a speed all right let her go off i don't know what she said okay that's all i agree
07:19:09.620 that was good oh wait there's actually a little bit of room
07:19:12.580 for you guys to scoot over that way a little bit scoot your mics like just two inches or whatever
07:19:16.740 mary do you want to just grab that chair and just just to give a bit more space a few more things i 0.78
07:19:21.700 guess a few more things we're going to just try to blast through here super quick i that's ridiculous 0.79
07:19:25.860 by the way i'm sorry you shouldn't you shouldn't put hands you're uh a woman shouldn't put hands 0.99
07:19:29.940 on a man the man should not put hands on a woman even coming from someone who wants a submissive 0.99
07:19:34.740 girl he thinks like even that's wrong even the toxic toxic is like no you should not be 0.99
07:19:41.060 fucking a wife peter that's against the law like well like i mean for a reason you're saying though 0.99
07:19:49.380 i i can see a situation where somebody has wronged you so like where you'd you'd have rage it would 0.99
07:19:56.020 still be wrong but i could see a situation like that's what ends up when people get physical they're
07:20:00.500 so enraged that they're basically not controlling themselves uh of course that's wrong so so i can 0.50
07:20:06.980 understand like i don't know like what if you're fucking look i'll be honest oh my god i'm gonna 0.99
07:20:10.740 get clipped for this but like can we agree that there's some situation where it would be justified 0.99
07:20:15.300 to slap somebody yes that's what i'm trying to get at let's say your boyfriend like killed your dog 0.99
07:20:20.340 or something out like some crazy shit like i'd be like yeah he deserved to slap yeah but the way she 1.00
07:20:26.020 worded it was like let's legalize men hitting women you never said anything about no but i'm i'm like 0.99
07:20:30.500 i feel like whenever him and i agree like when he says it you guys are like fine with it but when i say
07:20:34.740 you guys kind of dogpile you guys are like he'd be very look and no but i'm kind of like that's the
07:20:41.140 point i was trying to get at like what he said was it though that's not what he said where people
07:20:45.700 like a slap is deserved yeah that is what i was trying to say no but i used an extreme example where
07:20:49.700 like your your significant other like cheats on you and simultaneously kills your pets like i would 0.98
07:20:56.740 i could see a slap being warranted like if somebody fucks with my cat where are we right 0.99
07:21:04.020 somebody kills my cat they're getting a they're getting a a slap but that also wasn't the point 0.90
07:21:10.340 was like her claim was let's bring back it was legal basis well no your wife at that not even just 1.00
07:21:18.420 any like no i said regardless of gender i specified that you did not specify yeah i know but i said it
07:21:25.380 here are you paying attention to the conversation that's happening if you never called that out would
07:21:29.780 you have thought about that if you never brought that to the attention of all of us would you have
07:21:32.980 kept your statement with oh let's legalize because you're only switching up now because
07:21:35.860 we're all coming at no i'm saying i exaggerate in dms like you guys never exaggerate when you
07:21:42.340 text your friends anything like all right like that if i'm like like yeah god forbid yeah okay you're
07:21:47.860 so okay but that's your but you were talking about wife and husband done this like for hours bro like
07:21:53.780 done what what have we done are you just victim here no i never said all that
07:21:59.300 are they bullying is vicky am i bullying you no i'm sorry vicky do you want to apologize in no
07:22:07.220 we don't we don't need this how do you say sorry in mandarin i don't know
07:22:12.820 oh but i don't mean it i'm just saying it to show you but i'm not sorry
07:22:16.180 is what's your actual chinese name it's hard to pronounce it because the tones are in english
07:22:27.700 yeah yeah yeah it's like you have to like roll your r's like j is there like a j like a z sounded
07:22:34.900 like a z but it's spelled r what does it mean it's just like a combination of both my parents name put
07:22:41.060 together like care like do you ever go by icky vicky no okay i feel like that'd be a good vicky is
07:22:48.340 actually like a name i made up when i came to the u.s like i called myself vicky because you know most
07:22:53.300 people can't pronounce it so i just came up with it and that's like a lot of other like chinese kids
07:22:58.020 like chinese international kids they tend to come up with their own names like coming into the u.s can
07:23:02.100 you scoot your mic that way just a little bit yeah to make it more like western friendly i guess
07:23:05.780 yes rock and roll uh okay um you know what i want actually never mind uh really quick your
07:23:13.220 notes you said you didn't want to spend your birthday alone in nyc you downloaded hinge the
07:23:17.220 guy got up and left before the food could even arrive and he unmatched you actually that's not
07:23:21.380 interesting sorry skip uh you say hypergamy is is okay hold on let me do some of these from the
07:23:27.060 the questionnaire uh okay vicky uh we're gonna skip almost everything on the questionnaire for the
07:23:36.900 sake of time uh let's do lola oh she left well that's unfortunate okay um she's gone so we'll just
07:23:47.140 put that there uh people of color can't be racist towards white people why is that
07:23:57.060 it's not systematic racism okay uh but you acknowledge so you no i you can be racist i
07:24:06.420 didn't read it like properly you can be racist you can be racist towards white people but it's not
07:24:10.980 systematic racism but it would be like an individualized racism so like you would acknowledge
07:24:16.500 that a black person walking up to a white person and murking them because they're white would be 0.57
07:24:22.100 a racially racist motivated or racially motivated racist killing okay it wouldn't just be prejudicial it 0.88
07:24:31.620 would actually be racist okay uh i don't know if anyone else agreed on that uh
07:24:43.220 you said women are oppressed in the usa
07:24:44.980 yeah i mean it was kind of like with the conversation i was saying earlier like i just
07:24:50.740 feel like society kind of judges them harsher for things sometimes like it was just more in that vein
07:24:57.540 all right um i'm gonna almost i'm pretty much just gonna skip everything on the questionnaire
07:25:02.260 uh let me just double check and see if there's anything else that is of interest
07:25:05.940 uh
07:25:10.900 i mean women men are more or wait men are more privileged in society than women
07:25:17.780 uh sake of time i'll skip that but uh
07:25:21.700 the only i guess the only other one i'll do is uh passion not matter body count uh who going around
07:25:27.380 the table do you guys think do you think it's insecure for men to care about a woman's body count
07:25:31.780 i think some people care about body count and some people don't personally i don't think it matters
07:25:36.900 because i think like people can change or whatever like someone could like have a phase where they
07:25:40.660 like have a lot of sex that's meaningless and then you know they i get values or they realize it's not
07:25:46.660 for them or just like stuff like that so like i don't know personally it doesn't really matter to
07:25:50.020 me a guy's body count but okay what about you vicky um same i think like the past is in the past like
07:25:57.380 i try to think more positively and like well i mean you can't change anything about it like they
07:26:02.420 had their past she pretty much summed it up so yeah uh okay actually just skipping on the head um
07:26:08.900 so what is everyone's body count starting with you five okay two two okay very very very very low
07:26:20.340 you want to give a range or a ballpark it's a number you can count on one hand
07:26:24.340 five got it what about you it's not five four okay what about you zero zero okay
07:26:33.380 12 12 okay two two okay one okay i have her answer and it's five it's not gotcha okay well if you
07:26:43.540 won't share it i just have to assume the worst i guess i'll tell you multiply by three and that's
07:26:47.620 the real number still on the bible still zero technically for you have you you could still
07:26:53.700 technically try to sell can i broker this deal right now chat we got a virgin here she wants to 1.00
07:27:00.100 make some money oh my gosh uh the price is one mil to me the price is one mil uh i get the 20 commission
07:27:08.020 uh just be honest for a mil would you do it in the past i would have said yes the temptation's still
07:27:15.540 there but i know to choose the right thing even though the temptation is still there so 10 mil i
07:27:22.500 mean no offense i don't think there's gonna be any takers but i'm still going to decline one billion
07:27:31.060 i'm still going to decline okay all right there you go a woman of good for you virtue i guess um but 1.00
07:27:37.060 you did in the past you would you do it would i lose your virginity for one billion dollars for a 0.99
07:27:43.060 billion dollars i think he's past that point well yeah but i'm saying if you were ever if i reclaimed
07:27:47.380 my virginity if you were a virgin no if you were actually a virgin like i don't know you were like 1.00
07:27:52.660 i do um if if i could just give you a billion dollars now would you say yes
07:27:58.100 yes to me i'm not a virgin no i'm not no no i'm just oh oh yeah it's it's so it's yeah of course 0.97
07:28:07.300 a billion dollars to she could be like the ugliest woman in the world and like really plump like a 1.00
07:28:17.380 plump like i don't even know where the is like i gotta move out of the way to find the 1.00
07:28:22.500 pussy i'm still doing a billion i'm still doing it'll be the it'll be the best five minutes of 1.00
07:28:29.460 her life all right tough crowd tonight um tough crowd all right uh okay i think we're done with 0.99
07:28:36.820 this thing uh let's see if there's anything else we need to uh touch on i'm gonna blast through your
07:28:44.500 guys's notes here um one moment one moment oh let's do a little fun segment to line the mood a
07:28:52.580 little bit mary let's do the we made all of you men so the question is what do you date the male 0.98
07:28:57.460 version of yourself what do you date the male version of yourself a little fun segment here just a
07:29:02.180 little intermission what's that
07:29:06.900 hey i my caucasian hey my caucasian come back
07:29:10.820 are you gonna be my caucasian or are you gonna be my no no the wait what what's she saying is she
07:29:21.540 saying yes all right see you're my caucasian you're my caucasian part there's a trooper over 0.99
07:29:29.540 here she's a fucking trooper hey we're in the tail end here we're we're we're getting close we're getting 1.00
07:29:33.780 close a few more little segments and uh we're getting this uh wrapped up i feel like we need more pizza 0.99
07:29:39.540 though who anybody hungry let me feed you guys let me be a gentleman let me feed you guys i
07:29:44.900 mahi are you do you eat did you have pizza you did okay you okay who wants some i might order
07:29:51.940 something i'd like some pizza okay we're gonna get some more we got some more food i'll take care of
07:29:56.820 you guys by the way did you guys try the cookies thank you did you guys try the cookies they're
07:30:00.100 great no i really want to try one you're like salted caramel you're gonna get a cookie
07:30:04.420 good wait i want to get a cookie my brian am i saying your name right by the way you're so much
07:30:08.260 nicer than last time my i'm saying what you're so much nicer today than last time really thank you
07:30:13.060 for all the food brian brian listen to me last time we were here for 10 hours you ordered food for
07:30:17.860 yourself and didn't get anything wait i did not wait go back you know what did i have what did i eat you
07:30:24.500 you were in a bad mood you were on your dearie ed you went off a camera you or you ate food and you 0.99
07:30:30.100 came back a dick period oh i thought it was like dad that was a record that was the record longest 0.76
07:30:38.020 show in 2025 by the way well you were so you were so amazing so i mean i just think i just thank you
07:30:45.860 thank you for being nice this show have i been i feel like i've been what's up well you haven't been
07:30:52.980 like you yeah you don't yeah just go to the bathroom you don't have to tell me i feel like
07:31:00.260 he's nicer on camera than he is off wait really yes probably true probably true look i'm just you
07:31:09.300 know it's very stressful at before the show it's very stressful gotta make sure everything's going
07:31:14.340 you know uh so you know okay i see i can see because in theater that's how it was too like the
07:31:20.260 director and it would be like yeah and we're understaffed at the moment we're down a producer
07:31:25.460 like a guy here or something yeah so we're we're kind of understaffed so it's kind of like a little
07:31:30.420 a little oh you still made it happen so good for you i also think you just didn't like lola because 1.00
07:31:34.740 you were really mean to her off camera oh i did snap i was a little snappy yes to her specifically
07:31:41.540 bro okay but to be fair let's have a meta conversation about that moment all right
07:31:50.100 the viewers probably know this before the show i'm running around like a chicken with my head
07:31:54.020 to cut off i'm doing the cameras making sure everything's said and checking things and oh
07:31:58.500 my god the this camera is not working obs isn't working the audio is not working we've got to restart
07:32:03.620 this uh i'm like multitasking 30 different things before the show uh lola's like um in the midst of
07:32:13.140 all of this are you gonna repost my my story she said it jokingly though she wasn't she was and right
07:32:21.700 after that she was like i mean never now i know she was joking and you were pissed i feel like there's a
07:32:27.060 time and a place it's like look do you see how it's like look you see how busy i am lady not you but
07:32:33.220 lola you see how busy i am lola lady honestly you didn't look busy you just looked really stressed
07:32:38.980 which could be for any reason you could be stressed about past stuff like your girlfriend just broke
07:32:44.580 up with you or you know yeah i'm just depressed i'm like yeah it's up it's it's really
07:32:50.340 up but yeah um no it wasn't a big deal but i you know if you're already in like kind of a stressed
07:32:57.060 position then uh i think little things can frustrate you she said something else too and
07:33:03.060 you were like yeah i was like you don't like her yeah i'm trying to i don't remember what the other
07:33:07.780 thing was but she's like are you gonna repost my story like and i'm like chill we'll do it we're
07:33:13.300 gonna do it but yeah i don't know what the other thing was she was when she was trying to grab the 1.00
07:33:20.260 helmet when you were showing the sarah stock videos it was something before that it was something
07:33:24.820 before that that was yeah that was mary or something yeah mary was like i don't even know
07:33:29.540 okay let me order food uh while i'm just semi-distracted doing this any topics oh here's fun
07:33:39.140 what's that the male version of ourself yeah once mary's mary had to run to the bathroom so we'll wait
07:33:43.860 for that i do a segment called big brother brian and it's basically you can ask me for advice
07:33:49.220 about it maybe you have a specific dating scenario or you have always wanted to ask a guy a question
07:33:55.540 but maybe you were unsure you you were uncertain if he would even give you an honest answer i will
07:34:01.380 give you the unfiltered honest male perspective male truth uh i'm not a guy who's like trying to 0.94
07:34:07.380 date you i'm not a guy who's trying to sleep with you where the guy's gonna fucking lie or whatever 0.96
07:34:11.620 or sugarcoat things i will give you the honest truth about anything you want to ask 0.98
07:34:15.700 dating relationship sex whatever it is i will answer it any takers yeah i have a question
07:34:21.940 actually because i hear this a lot people try and come at me and maybe they're trolling but
07:34:25.460 a lot of people love to tell me that indian women are the least desired in the dating pool do you think
07:34:29.540 that's true uh she well you're taking me up on my offer there about being honest um
07:34:36.740 um so i think they've actually i'll defer to this i do believe they've done studies on the for both men
07:34:46.500 and women in terms of racial preferences and the varying races that they in the united states anyways 1.00
07:34:55.380 in terms of who is assessed as most attractive or most desired and i think in the united states you
07:35:01.620 have something like it's actually i think asian women at the top white women latina women and then 0.99
07:35:08.580 it's um i mean there's obviously women who are uh like middle eastern or there's other breakdowns but
07:35:19.620 uh probably uh yeah it's probably according to the studies not me do you have a study you could pull up on
07:35:29.460 this or um probably but i don't think it's worth our time but look it is what it is it is what it is
07:35:40.180 is it true if you give men leeway like with like boundaries physical intimacy whatever it may be
07:35:46.100 if you don't set the boundaries they'll take advantage of what you give them is that true
07:35:53.860 because i've been told that by women like they're like you have to communicate with men you have to be
07:35:57.620 firm with what you do or don't want or they will take uh
07:36:10.260 do you understand the question or do i need an example yeah give me an example so a good example
07:36:15.780 is physical intimacy so if i don't set a boundary for what i'm willing to give what i'm willing to do
07:36:22.420 or what i'm willing to receive um it'll just be done 0.93
07:36:28.420 so like if i'm not comfortable giving like a blow job i'll i'll do them if i'm willing to be in it 0.89
07:36:32.820 you know if i'm in a committed relationship i'll do them i know it sounds contradictory i don't 0.99
07:36:36.660 consider oral sex like sex sex because it's oral okay and so i'm willing to do it um you said you 0.99
07:36:43.860 don't because my body count i count oral sex if you can catch a disease from it it counts as sick so 0.99
07:36:50.180 i feel like i mean yeah i mean it's it's not sex it's different but it's probably you can catch something
07:37:00.100 from it it's yeah so in my body it's not exactly waiting until marriage those count even if i only
07:37:05.300 got head like it counts to me you think it doesn't count no i was it was never communicated to me that 0.88
07:37:12.340 it counts as sex and i follow like oral sex doesn't count as sex it was for guys it does i feel like like 0.97
07:37:18.740 whenever i ask guys their body count they always exaggerate it and say that head counts but women 1.00
07:37:23.700 don't wait so what's related to the boundary though what yeah so so if i like don't communicate with
07:37:28.180 someone that i if i don't like like don't do this they'll just do it anyway like hey don't like
07:37:36.420 like with boobs if i want them to just only touch over the clothes you know um and and if i don't 1.00
07:37:41.700 say that then they'll just go for going under the clothes and so i have to tell them right like
07:37:48.100 they'll do they'll go under the clothes if i don't tell them to not do that so okay you're
07:37:53.300 like making out with a guy sure yeah and if you don't explicitly say don't do that they'll they'll
07:38:03.780 do it uh okay and take that take is is that is that all guys is that a guy thing well this is kind of
07:38:14.500 a murky territory here um so if the burden typically when it comes to moving things forward
07:38:24.980 physically is on men uh and so and i think a lot of escalation when it comes uh sexually is not
07:38:35.860 like if you want it to be like insanely clinical i think most women will not like this so technically
07:38:43.860 the guy could be like is it okay if i touch your upper chest area but not your breast is it okay
07:38:49.780 if i touch your breast over your shirt is it okay if i go under the shirt
07:38:59.220 i mean i i think most when people hook up it tends to be a bit more organic and not like
07:39:05.860 like at every single instance the guy is going to ask try to get a verbal yes now i think you can
07:39:15.140 obviously tell a lot from uh body language but i mean if we're all being realistic here
07:39:23.700 for those of you who've had sex
07:39:25.300 are you or is the guy asking for permission at every single plausible step of
07:39:35.460 and i'm sure we would agree that that's not like an essay that has occurred that's not
07:39:41.300 now if you say no and he persists or you persist i guess then this would be getting into a territory of
07:39:49.780 some crime but my suggestion to you if you have these boundaries as to how far you want to go i
07:39:56.980 think those ought to be communicated and i think and sometimes it's fair for the guy to actually prompt
07:40:02.740 that too um i think typically though if we're being realistic most people when it comes to physical
07:40:10.660 intimacy it's a bit more organic and there's less verbal communication and it's more making out
07:40:17.780 making out making out next step next step the next step if you're on i think if you're uncomfortable
07:40:22.500 you should voice it and that should be a hundred percent respected but um yeah i would strongly advise
07:40:30.740 you if you're uncomfortable with a guy touching here or lower you i i think you should say that sure
07:40:39.860 and he should 100 respect it and it should stop there yes on a separate note not just with physical
07:40:45.540 intimacy that was just the easiest example what about like spending time with one another
07:40:50.340 or like sleeping schedules like oh here's a good oh two good things that could be interesting i think
07:40:56.100 uh the woman should sleep in a different bedroom he says the same thing he told me the same thing is 0.94
07:41:01.220 that your question though i don't know no that's not my question but wait you think that you think that
07:41:05.780 a woman should sleep or the well i mean not uniquely to the woman like just i think separate bedrooms can 1.00
07:41:13.220 why uh sleep quality supersedes two percent extra intimacy so like if it's difficult for me to fall
07:41:22.820 asleep with my like somebody sleeping right next to me yeah i mean it depends on the girl like some girls 0.96
07:41:27.940 are fucking deadly silent they don't even move they don't snore they don't make noise they don't kick 0.98
07:41:35.780 that's a bit more tenable but other even if it's like got to get up and use the bathroom i'd much 0.99
07:41:41.460 prefer we spent we spend you know we have a great day together spend the night together whatever but
07:41:46.900 when we're like ready to sleep let me set you up in the guest room this is like for you personally
07:41:51.700 though you don't think that about everyone should do oh no i don't think it's probably better um if
07:41:56.260 you're both able to get quality sleep sleeping in the same bed it's probably just better if it was
07:42:01.780 affordable i live in separate homes separate homes yeah well i don't know about that but that is an
07:42:07.700 option if if uh i'm not totally opposed to that but um i think separate beds at least for me that's
07:42:15.940 my preference not to say i can't do it especially if the girls like some some of y'all are whisper 0.97
07:42:21.540 silent well wait that doesn't make sense you're just silent but others you're fucking flailing and 0.99
07:42:26.740 shit some girl fucking i think broke my nose oh yeah this isn't the reason why i still care 1.00
07:42:32.980 about sleep quality but some girl was like sleeping in my bed and like flailed and like hit my nose 1.00
07:42:39.300 big target and uh to begin with but uh yeah i think she broke my nose a second i've broken my nose before 1.00
07:42:46.660 so her nose was just like already broken it was yeah well i broke my i did wrestling in high school and i 0.99
07:42:52.260 broke my nose in high school wrestling and then she broke it again it was oh yeah so oral sex is sex 1.00
07:43:00.500 like the among you does anybody else want to participate in the big brother brian um thing 0.99
07:43:07.380 you have a question or no okay i'll move on to the next segment then we got a fun segment mary
07:43:11.700 merrington please pull up the uh gender swaps por favor yes ma'am 0.98
07:43:19.940 oh wow that doesn't even look like it's like an ai picture where'd you get this picture yeah i would
07:43:25.860 i would date him who is oh my i need to have a word i need to have a word with whoever actually
07:43:31.860 yeah where did you guys get that picture bro is it ai like yeah it is it's a it's a from the video
07:43:37.060 yeah okay next no no no i would not date him okay i think that i'm just gonna be honest you know
07:43:50.660 see because that's a good photo of me but not see last week i told the person who does this
07:43:56.740 that they were being too generous oh and now i think they've over corrected into the other direction
07:44:02.980 that still looks i don't know it just no you mock him you mock him i don't think that's there's no
07:44:08.500 way that's the guy version of i don't think that yeah like ai messed up on that no yeah why did mine
07:44:13.060 have a i don't think that's fair i don't think that's fair i'm with hair would be so much more
07:44:18.100 attractive can we be can we add hair to mine like yeah uh next 0.95
07:44:25.540 wow good job mary you're fired just kidding you're fired you're getting 10 lashes 0.57
07:44:32.980 uh just figure out if you can just try to figure out what what happened did you did you figure it
07:44:39.460 out oh this is you okay oh period low key yeah he was cute he was cute he looks like my brother
07:44:48.740 the last time i was here oh no no okay next
07:44:54.660 oh lola's not here accurate 0.99
07:44:56.340 next wait you look like fucking cash patel yeah you're like the fucking fbi director 0.99
07:45:06.340 he's cute no a little bit actually well that guy he's he's he's cute he's a little better he he's a 1.00
07:45:13.540 little a little better than pass i guess okay would you date him you only date white guys
07:45:20.260 no okay wait into the mic just say give your answer wait there's space now scoot scoot in
07:45:27.380 scoot in girl come on scoot in get this girl into the table all right what about uh next 1.00
07:45:34.980 who's doing these brother they're not being very i don't know i do not look like that first of all
07:45:40.420 you know what i see the i see the vision it's not bad it's not bad i see the vision i'd give him a
07:45:47.060 chance okay okay all right next
07:45:54.420 no absolutely not wait he's actually kind of cute no like throat it's like usher he looks too young too
07:46:01.940 but it's because you look so youthful girl that doesn't look like me either
07:46:05.140 they got the eyebrows uh so would you date him no if he was had a great personality
07:46:13.860 okay next oh hell no
07:46:18.900 oh no i don't like indian guys anyway oh you have a bias too yeah i mean but but for them it's 0.98
07:46:27.300 well i like asian white and any type of brown that isn't indian but like indian it has more
07:46:31.700 to do with their personality if anything i just i don't know it feels like i'm hooking up with my
07:46:35.700 cousin or something like they just all look basic to me like i don't understand this like and i've
07:46:41.220 heard this from people uh like like a lot of asian women i've heard it from from uh like black women 0.82
07:46:47.620 or like not so much latina women but like what's this like brother thing like they share the same
07:46:55.540 race so it reminds me of my brother i don't know like i just feel like if i run into one they just
07:47:00.420 look too basic like too similar to me you know like you know what's interesting though like i i've
07:47:05.140 have heard a lot of and to be clear i'm not saying all asian women or whatever i've heard a lot of
07:47:11.060 asian women say i wouldn't date an asian guy because it just reminds me of my brother 1.00
07:47:16.420 yeah kind of weird right yeah i think i kind of said the opposite like i've only yeah you i like asian
07:47:21.220 people and i've only dated asian people yeah so i'm not saying it's all asian women but i have heard it 1.00
07:47:26.260 a decent amount from asian women and i was like and i thought about that and i was thinking that's
07:47:31.780 kind of dysfunctional if you think about it in the sense that well in modern day not really because
07:47:37.300 you have access to people outside of your race in 2026 but historically if you go back uh like
07:47:46.500 a hundred plus years if you let's say 200 years just to make it easy if you lived in china
07:47:55.060 you did not see a white person or a black person probably your entire life if you lived in europe
07:48:06.980 you didn't see you didn't see a black person you didn't see
07:48:10.020 asian person if you lived in africa you did not see white people or wait hold on south africa let me 0.84
07:48:17.300 think about the timeline let me think about the timeline here a little bit
07:48:20.180 uh let me revise that a little bit you know what maybe we need to go back a little anyways whatever 0.96
07:48:27.060 fuck it i just think it's like you would basically if you were an asian woman living in the 1500s 0.89
07:48:33.700 in china or japan korea mongolia laos whatever cambodia vietnam philippines whatever it is 1.00
07:48:39.380 and you were not attracted to asian men you're cooked you're fucked like those are the only men you have 0.99
07:48:45.860 access to yeah you don't got instagram you don't got airplanes that's why they did arrange marriages 1.00
07:48:51.860 you're like basically you you would be it would be an ineffective uh i mean okay never mind whatever
07:48:58.820 i don't know just a thought maybe it's ridiculous um uh let's see oh wait next yeah thank you thank you 0.56
07:49:05.220 thank you thank you wait what do you have it oh he's not bad would you date 0.68
07:49:15.860 no okay
07:49:20.260 what's that audio is there something what is that okay just
07:49:25.860 who's doing these you got you over corrected whoever did them over correct he looks
07:49:30.020 why did they make us age what i know for over correction all right next
07:49:37.940 oh
07:49:39.700 oh my god well yeah she's 4.5 into a six she's pretty actually yeah i can't lie thank you thank you
07:49:46.020 icky vicky she can get it she can get it i would date her she can definitely get it um oh what about
07:49:52.420 this okay we have this big debate i think last show the toilet seat dilemma should a guy should your
07:49:58.020 boyfriend's put down the toilet seat for you yes i think anyone who does not put the lid down
07:50:05.060 completely before they flush the toilet is just out of hand so i was everybody should i was thinking
07:50:09.860 about that so i mean my position was like number two absolutely you gotta put the lid down but let's
07:50:14.580 say hypothetically there wasn't a a like germ component to like the flush i still yeah okay let's
07:50:22.900 it because people say oh there's like a plume of if you leave the the lid open whether it's number
07:50:29.380 one number two plume of grossness let's just put that aside just from a strictly
07:50:37.620 dating dynamic should the man put the toilet seat down 0.99
07:50:41.620 but the toilet like when they pee yes they should pee all over the lid no like uh
07:50:46.820 for your benefit should the guy put the toilet seat up did i say down sorry i might have yeah
07:50:53.300 so sorry should the guy put the no no yes the man puts the toilet seat down for the woman isn't that 1.00
07:50:58.660 it so she could sit on the i mean i think it's a nice thing to do yeah it's quite so should what do
07:51:03.700 you think well i think like dating wise yes but not even just dating wise i feel like
07:51:09.620 most toilets you come in just like in general like most toilets you go into the bathroom and the toilet seat
07:51:14.100 not like the germ one but the actual toilet seat is down i think it's just common sense to just leave
07:51:19.060 things how you found them like it's pretty rare to walk into a bathroom and the toilet seat be up
07:51:22.900 so i think like you just should do it just out of like human decency not even for like a relationship
07:51:28.340 wise and it's not hard just like put the thing down yeah um okay what do you think yeah i think
07:51:36.900 yeah it's just courteous you know if i was a guy i would put it down when i'm done
07:51:40.100 okay what do you think yeah you should put it down if you're putting it up you should put it back
07:51:46.580 down put it down it looks neat and tidy okay i feel like i'm kind of torn on this one i don't know
07:51:58.180 like if you go to the bathroom you're a guy you left it up and you just didn't put it back down
07:52:01.940 it's not a big deal i feel like regardless of germs the the lid should always be closed because stuff
07:52:07.460 could always fall on the toilet like you could knock over stuff from your counter so i i i always
07:52:12.100 out of habit just keep the whole lid closed for that reason i think he means like right after they
07:52:16.180 pee yeah are you talking about like the seat where we sit how guys lift up yeah no i know i know what
07:52:20.580 he's saying but i'm just saying i'm just saying the lid should also be down if a guy pees the lid or
07:52:25.140 the seat so if a guy pees he he puts the seat up this is the cover right and the seat that we sit on
07:52:31.060 is both up well yeah obviously right so what are you talking about both are going down or just the
07:52:36.420 seat i know what he's asking but i'm just adding to the conversation well no i'm just trying to
07:52:42.740 clarify the base level would be there's no reason to be shady here it's not girl i was confused i'm
07:52:48.180 asking a question i changed my answer i think you're right because i dropped things in the toilet
07:52:52.980 okay uh what do you think i've never had a problem with it like i've never what's your husband he
07:53:03.380 puts it down he after he uses it so what do you think bro okay so there is a compelling argument that
07:53:14.740 for reducing the plume of disgustingness even then though i i really don't think that it's going to
07:53:22.740 have like a huge impact on health one way or the other but uh but even putting that aside
07:53:30.420 my position would simply be if you go into the bathroom you put the seat to whatever position you
07:53:37.780 need it to be in for your usage and then you leave it as is so if i go take a piss and i i put 0.93
07:53:50.020 the seat up i'm not putting it back down for the sake of my girlfriend at the house a little selfish
07:53:57.060 no you should just get a urinal at that point because like at that like men sometimes i just 0.91
07:54:02.740 pee outside to be honest that works too save water my backyard like but why even flush at that point
07:54:08.660 if you're just gonna leave you can't flush outside no i mean like what i'm saying is why why even
07:54:14.020 flush in your scenario like why not just leave it on the toilet toilet what why even flush yeah
07:54:22.900 because you're saying like i'm gonna leave it as is no you flush you flush but you leave the toilet
07:54:28.100 seat up yeah but i'm asking why why not also not flush if you're talking about leaving it as is
07:54:34.500 for the next person if it's flushed wait what that doesn't make i don't know where you're going
07:54:39.940 with that it makes no she's saying you do your business you leave why even bother flushing it if 0.96
07:54:43.540 you're that's ridiculous that's ridiculous that's totally different than what we're talking about
07:54:48.100 it's not at all related but um no i i would in all instances flush um but you're saying it's selfish 0.99
07:54:57.780 so are you saying women are selfish no because i don't so when a woman uses the bathroom does she put 1.00
07:55:04.740 the seat up for the man after she uses no just at least for me i'm thinking about like who's putting
07:55:10.340 the seat down after like i don't that's like a whole extra step your girl gotta take to get a piece 0.87
07:55:14.180 of paper to grab onto it and put it down okay if i was a guy i just wouldn't want to inconvenience her
07:55:18.660 like that for that bacteria aspect so that makes sense doesn't it because if both the lid and the seat
07:55:28.500 is up now i gotta touch that piece why should the man why should the man do this i don't really care
07:55:36.260 i yeah it's kind of rude so it's rude that for women i don't understand for women to what not put 0.93
07:55:45.140 it up but but why okay it's the same thing as like if you eat at someone's house but you don't know if
07:55:50.980 you take their dish and you get like their dish dirty like you just put it in the sink or do you
07:55:55.220 actually clean it it's not really what so right do you think that's like an equal so your argument
07:56:00.100 would be if a girl's over at my house because it's my house when she uses the bathroom she should put 1.00
07:56:04.580 the seat back up after she uses it for my sake yeah sure i don't know well i don't think it really
07:56:11.780 matters i think either way that's what i mean that's like my that's my point but i don't have an
07:56:15.460 expectation it doesn't really matter to me that much i don't have an expectation that the girl uh
07:56:19.860 put if she's at my house using my bathroom that she needs to put it to where i want it like she 1.00
07:56:27.620 can leave she leaves the seat down i go in there i put it to wherever i need it to be who i thought
07:56:33.700 you wanted some pizza what's up oh you're just you're just passing it down you're just passing
07:56:37.940 down guys i gotta get uh i gotta get up momentarily you get some here you have some pizza i gotta get up
07:56:43.060 momentarily you guys talk amongst yourselves about toilets and bathrooms and seats and uh sleeping in
07:56:49.300 separate bedrooms or whatever you guys want to talk about for like two minutes i need to get
07:56:52.900 up momentarily take it away women be entertaining well i feel like you could sleep in different
07:56:58.500 beds without sleeping in different rooms good girl i think that's that's true 0.98
07:57:06.900 i feel like i'm correct about it looking neat and tidy and i stand on that
07:57:10.660 it's polite but i don't think it really like i don't know it's definitely a polite thing to do
07:57:19.540 it's like a night yeah i appreciate like i'm not going to be mad if it doesn't happen it's not a deal
07:57:24.340 breaker or i'm not going to even be annoyed like i'm probably not even going to notice i just think
07:57:27.860 the lid should always be closed because stuff could always fall in the toilet off the counter
07:57:31.860 good point but like germs like it's a thing i'm kind of i'm a bit of a germaphobe me too
07:57:38.420 when it comes to i don't know like mixing things like your toothbrushes i don't even keep my toothbrush
07:57:44.980 out for that reason i keep it like away from the out of the bathroom actually but um yeah i just feel
07:57:52.260 like everyone should completely close the toilet i don't think so thank you and i do appreciate when i
07:57:59.860 there have been times i went to the bathroom and this the everything was up and i was like
07:58:04.580 i just want to sit down but it's not hard to put down a toilet seat it's really easy it's not really not
07:58:15.220 i don't know i feel like women have to pee more than men too yeah so we have smaller bladders 0.99
07:58:20.020 we have smaller bladders well not even oh do we have you guys don't drink water what are you talking
07:58:25.300 about that's almost all i drink we've been drinking water like
07:58:29.220 all this time i don't drink i drink more water than most people but
07:58:38.180 i fart and i sweat and i poop and i don't wear makeup oh like i don't know i just 0.80
07:58:48.340 give us a topic give us a random topic give us something beefy
07:59:04.260 um using your hands what is the ideal size oh my goodness i actually just had this conversation
07:59:13.780 with someone they're like what do you prefer i'm like like six seven inches yeah 6.5 with some
07:59:21.460 so i don't use my hand because i don't know but like six inches is beautiful
07:59:29.380 i think six is like this big girl had four with five no on the floor would be like this 1.00
07:59:37.060 that was longer than your five i can't tell my name are we talking about hand jobs i'm confused
07:59:42.980 he talked about hands and no he's talking about size but didn't he say hands he said show with your
07:59:47.460 hands oh show with your hands i'm sorry like six inches right it's about six inches from here
07:59:52.900 they say to take your knuckle and go like one two i heard the thumb thing 0.95
07:59:56.260 is there room for you to scoot over just a little bit it depends on how long your fingers are too
08:00:04.820 all right wrapping this up here in just a few more things um
08:00:11.460 sorry boys had to have a little pizza back there okay uh maddie um which one
08:00:18.420 you said women shouldn't be drafted men shouldn't have a higher body count than women we talked about 0.62
08:00:22.180 the draft a little bit won't go back there um oh amelia you're pro ice yes how do the women at the 1.00
08:00:31.620 table feel about what why are you shaking your head mahi i want to hear why first if you could
08:00:38.020 elaborate well i think what they're doing right now like they're going way too overboard like i
08:00:41.860 understand people should come here the legal way my parents came here the legal way but right now what
08:00:46.820 they're doing they're deporting people who came here legally there's been a lot of mix up they're
08:00:52.260 taking people who are also like american citizens they killed two people renee good and alex pretty like
08:00:58.420 sure and also alex pretty honestly like a lot of conservatives and a lot of trump supporters are also
08:01:04.660 not even defending him anymore because a lot of it is he had a firearm and they shot him because they
08:01:10.260 said he had a firearm but in the video you can see that they took his firearm away and then i think jd
08:01:15.860 vance said that anyone who's going to protest shouldn't carry a firearm but then you got um
08:01:21.220 republicans and conservatives their whole thing is like everyone should have the bear like the right
08:01:25.220 to bear arms and apparently he did have a legal license to carry a gun but there are there are
08:01:30.020 rules like i don't have anything against him having a firearm but i i know that there are rules for
08:01:34.820 so there's one we can't bring it to protest well i didn't finish so when you do have a ccw there are
08:01:40.740 things like you're not supposed to approach people like law enforcement you don't you don't get into an
08:01:45.380 entanglement with law enforcement whatever it was an approach law enforcement i don't think he helped
08:01:48.980 a woman in the video i don't think did you see that video that was released of there was a conflict
08:01:54.820 between he was on caught on camera i think a few days prior where there was i believe it was an ice
08:02:00.420 vehicle or some law enforcement vehicle where he literally with his foot kicked and smashed the
08:02:07.220 uh the the one of the lights in the back of the car and then he spit on them i didn't see that
08:02:14.660 exactly i heard about it if you don't want to be caught in conflict you shouldn't be there in
08:02:18.420 the first place but i also don't agree with what ice is doing like essaying women in the shelters i've
08:02:24.340 heard of that i you know at the baseline i believe what ice's stance is good but there's no individuals
08:02:32.020 in the system they're taking people away who are illegal like citizens like people are showing up to 0.96
08:02:36.500 their court cases and their legal appointments yeah but that's the thing like i do agree with ice but
08:02:41.060 they're going way too far right now so yeah i mean i think that when you're undergoing a massive
08:02:46.100 national uh campaign of this kind that you know humans whether they're police officers law enforcement
08:02:55.060 they are definitely going to make mistakes i'm not going to even really even debate with you that
08:03:00.740 uh there there's a complete like clearly in sort of any endeavor people are going to make mistakes
08:03:05.780 uh you can argue that you know they weren't following certain protocol or procedure in their
08:03:12.660 escalation of force in some of these instances i would actually tend to lean towards um i think if
08:03:18.980 there is any criminal prosecution brought against the uh either individuals or people involved in these
08:03:24.900 two killings i i think that based off of what i've seen they have a pretty compelling self-defense
08:03:30.020 thing um i think it's a really she was trying to say how if you have a license to carry a firearm you
08:03:37.700 need to do so responsibly like it's a really bad idea to like for i in fact i think it might even be
08:03:42.580 i don't know if it's illegal but for example i don't think you can go to a bar and get drunk while
08:03:47.460 concealed carrying i don't think you're supposed to be drinking at all i think it's a so there is a video
08:03:52.660 of alex peretti or whatever who like i just said he had an altercation with ice a few days prior to the
08:03:58.580 uh unfortunate killing of him uh and he uh he was being really belligerent so we do have video of the
08:04:07.540 incident and we don't know what it was what totally led up to it um i think it's a really
08:04:12.740 bad idea to get into a scuffle with while there's a federal uh uh immigration uh investigation going on
08:04:21.460 to try to while concealed carrying and by the way he was it what was it a sig what was the gun he had
08:04:27.780 like a sig sour or something or what's the term what's the gun name it was like a gun that that
08:04:32.980 is known for misfiring or whatever um these these situations are happening in split seconds
08:04:44.100 the gun did misfire i think you you're unfortunate look it's unfortunate that somebody died um i don't
08:04:51.380 think any conservatives are like yes like these people died i don't think they're anybody's happy about
08:04:56.900 what happened to renee good or but like in these situations these people did have some culpability 0.93
08:05:05.220 in what happened albeit unfortunate um i'm not saying that the ice agents all acted perfectly
08:05:10.900 there's steps that they could have potentially taken especially with renee good that maybe it could have
08:05:15.780 played out in different ways but i think if you're impeding a nice investigation and a law enforcement
08:05:22.020 officer has given you a lawful order to exit your car you're under legal obligation you're you're
08:05:29.300 certainly not legally allowed to flee do you agree with that well renee good i can see like the argument
08:05:35.860 for it but i feel like alex free that one was completely unjustified well could you understand so
08:05:40.820 i think what happened was a mistake i think what happened was a really high tension environment really
08:05:50.100 high tense split second situation going on a gun does go off his gun does go off uh the the police end
08:06:00.660 up shooting him but his gun was taken away but but were the other agents privy i i don't know all the
08:06:07.860 details so i'm not fully aware of all the details were all the police officers involved aware and privy
08:06:15.620 that he had been disarmed i don't know is it possible sometimes people carry more than one pistol
08:06:23.220 uh some people are going to be in a high tent situation you hear a firearm go off that doesn't
08:06:29.700 originate from an officer they're going to make some assumptions ultimately it's very unfortunate
08:06:37.220 that what happened but i i think they're going to have from a legal perspective they're probably
08:06:42.820 going to have a self-defense uh argument they just have to prove because if you look at immigration
08:06:49.300 um customs enforcement their procedures or protocol as it comes to lethal force is you just need to be
08:06:55.300 able to prove that a reasonable person would suspect that someone else's life was in grave danger
08:07:00.260 um and i think you could do that i agree with you like the whole thing is is just
08:07:06.900 sad and i think avoidable and de-escalation definitely could have been used and i don't
08:07:12.100 i think most people would agree with that um but i think they might have some defense there as well
08:07:20.740 um really quick uh i think last time you were on the show my i asked you about charlie kirk do you
08:07:27.300 think that the the assassination of charlie kirk is more objectionable than the these two killings
08:07:32.340 in minnesota no they're all as equally sad uh all is i mean like equally sad but like do you think
08:07:41.540 that the because the outrage over the the two killings in minnesota seemed to be uh a little
08:07:49.300 i mean the writing that's going like for example when charlie kirk was killed uh conservatives didn't riot
08:07:57.940 yeah but then like there wasn't mass riots they weren't burning down buildings and
08:08:02.340 well because they because the renee good and alex pd they got killed by like
08:08:06.420 like that's fair like the state yeah they got killed by an agent of the state that's
08:08:10.660 i mean even charlie kirk though like yeah i feel like he was wrongfully but he got murdered by an
08:08:15.780 ideology he was wrong he was wrongfully killed and that was really completely unjustified
08:08:23.060 what happened to charlie kirk whereas can you see can you be charitable in the sense that
08:08:29.380 when you're interfering with law enforcement and you put yourself intentionally in the situation
08:08:37.780 that you put your either mistakes can happen or you're you are putting yourself at risk to some
08:08:44.020 degree i mean i know renee good like she might at like there's different perspectives like there's 1.00
08:08:50.580 different body cam footage some people say that she was trying to like hit him or the police
08:08:55.060 office thought he was trying to hit her truthfully i don't even think i don't think she was trying
08:08:58.340 to hit him but regardless of her intention she was ordered out of the car by law enforcement that's
08:09:03.540 a lawful legal order you must comply if you start to drive away you're now in your felony fleeing
08:09:09.940 uh a justified detainment um and you start directing and you you have at some point there
08:09:20.500 was a police officer directly in front of her car there's dispute as to as she was accelerating was
08:09:25.380 he off to the side whatever if you start going in the direction of a police officer i mean so this is
08:09:33.460 horrible obviously but it's like did she voluntarily enter an active investigation area
08:09:39.700 like yes she's interfering right so it's like is that not voluntarily setting yourself up for
08:09:45.060 potential danger no matter what the circumstances are you don't know how high alert the agents are
08:09:49.380 you don't know what they're in the middle of it's like yes rest in peace but it's like there were
08:09:54.820 steps that you could have taken wasn't she in her driveway harmed i heard renee good was in her 1.00
08:09:59.620 driveway street i don't think she was in like well in the video the person says you just shot my
08:10:03.700 neighbor she was just she was intentionally blocking the road to impede uh ice agents 1.00
08:10:09.940 well okay but let's put these aside so i i'm going to agree with you that uh there are definitely
08:10:16.180 instances of ice agents not acting correctly or appropriately and i i'd like to see the stories
08:10:23.620 but i'm gonna go ahead and grant that yeah they're probably like deporting or detaining people who are
08:10:28.340 legal citizens of the united states i agree with you that that's wrong nobody who if you're a citizen
08:10:34.660 obviously you shouldn't be deported that's wrong um if there's some sort of uh restitution that can
08:10:42.340 be paid to them for their but also that's like why people are like protesting because they're not doing
08:10:46.980 like yeah i i think the protest has gone a lot more they started protesting even before any of the
08:10:53.220 shit went down in minnesota but they were still because they're still like deportant they were 0.95
08:10:58.020 there were been like documentaries and people started speaking out that they were like detained 0.88
08:11:02.100 when they were illegal citizens that they had to spend time in these detention centers so weird thing
08:11:07.060 however do you think that people the the extent of people's outrage as it come relates to ice is
08:11:13.220 strictly about only the illegal or alleged illegal actions of ice or do people have an objection to
08:11:21.540 the lawful deportation of illegal immigrants like yeah because wasn't there a protest at ucsb the other
08:11:30.980 day like uh there's no such thing as being illegal on stolen land or something and so it's like people
08:11:38.020 clearly have an issue with the general lawful mission of ice they have a general issue with it which
08:11:44.900 because they say they're targeting like drug dealers and like some of them are like some of them are
08:11:51.220 yeah but they're also taking families and they're ripping apart families are they illegal immigrants 1.00
08:11:55.780 they're illegal yeah they are if you live with your parents and you commit a crime and you get taken
08:12:00.180 to jail are you going to be taken away from your family though but over 70 of the detainees don't
08:12:04.980 even have criminal convictions why but why would that even matter why do you coming into the country
08:12:10.420 illegally because didn't trump say he was going to go after the most violent i think yes but i mean
08:12:14.980 if that's priority but there's also this you can prioritize but you can also focus on
08:12:20.660 like that that doesn't just give you complete free reign even if you don't know but it's not he
08:12:27.780 doesn't seem like he's targeting like any drug dealers or anything i feel like most of the
08:12:31.060 people he's detaining right now and they're deporting are families and people who are like that's
08:12:36.180 the thing like yeah i mean he is they they did come here illegally but still if you're gonna like
08:12:41.060 deport wouldn't people you should first prioritize the people who are the drug dealers the people who
08:12:45.220 said like they're bringing all this bad into the country but they're not wouldn't you actually object
08:12:49.220 so if if they were deporting like if they were separating families wouldn't you object to that more
08:12:54.820 like wouldn't it be better like if i was going to be deported like let's say i was kicking it in china
08:12:59.620 for like a year and the chinese authorities and i got a family there or some and i bring my family
08:13:06.420 and they're also illegal immigrants or like overstated visa or whatever wouldn't it be better
08:13:12.580 for us for us all to be deported instead of them to leave like i almost would rather aren't they
08:13:18.580 deporting the kids as well don't they just put them in separate detention centers i don't know about
08:13:22.580 that but so let's all these little uh examples that you're bringing up let's even say you know what this
08:13:28.020 is really wrong but do you object to a general deportation of illegal immigrants no okay well 0.64
08:13:36.900 but they're going about it the completely wrong way like they're completely abusing their power
08:13:41.300 like that's why there's so many riots and so many protests because everyone can see that but do you
08:13:45.220 think it's possible to undergo nationwide like there's millions upon millions of illegal immigrants 0.79
08:13:51.780 in this country and i'm not look if it was i wish humans were completely perfect and never made
08:13:57.220 mistakes and never made uh any you know never did anything wrong but like in any profession people
08:14:03.940 are going to make mistakes and those mistakes ought to be remedied or cured in some sort of way but like
08:14:11.220 trying to deport millions upon millions of people who don't want to leave the country is going to
08:14:17.940 involve a certain level of force it's going to they're not willingly self-deporting they're not
08:14:24.180 willingly leaving many of them are going to fight they want to stay here so how how in a utopian
08:14:32.980 perfect world do you it's an overcompensation for the amount of
08:14:38.500 illegal immigrants that came in during the biden administration i think it's an overcompensation 1.00
08:14:42.820 it by the way by the way during the obama administration during the biden administration
08:14:49.700 it wasn't like they weren't deporting people yeah they were deporting people i know that yeah
08:14:54.180 the mainstream media was not highlighting it as much as it does when there's a conservative or
08:14:58.580 republican president because it's and they were using pictures during during trump's presidency the
08:15:04.820 the first term cages yeah the cages and it was actually taken during a like it's it's selective
08:15:10.260 outrage and also just so are we just going to ignore all the legal immigrants getting deported and 0.84
08:15:14.900 the legal immigrants okay they've been detained but i don't think they've been deported to the
08:15:19.620 place but that's against the law there's a process about we're not yeah then why is i showing up to
08:15:25.540 court appointments and taking you have to show me cases of it individually and you can see all
08:15:29.460 there's due process for people as well there's many people being taken when they're legal immigrants
08:15:34.020 they're stuck in these detention centers for months and then they just get released like nothing
08:15:37.780 happened like and this is happening i haven't i'm not saying it doesn't exist i don't know how
08:15:42.740 prevalent it is i would need to see that see the stats on it i don't think like we abolish like
08:15:47.780 abolishing ice is the solution i don't think like this isn't this isn't unique this isn't unique to
08:15:53.620 america either like every country enforces their laws and their borders as it comes to immigration and
08:15:59.460 for whatever reason when we do that in america it's like i'll ask you a question so let's i guess
08:16:06.020 moving off of immigration a little bit but still sort of on the topic if some if the police are
08:16:10.580 investigating a murder you do acknowledge that sometime there can be like a mistaken identity
08:16:15.940 and the police might like detain uh the wrong person and so typically what happens if the police
08:16:22.580 detain the wrong person they're going if that person is able to verify their identity uh although it is
08:16:28.180 like to some degree an infringement of rights to some degree the police eventually usually they
08:16:33.540 might get held for a couple hours and they're like oh we verified your identity you're free to leave
08:16:38.340 now that sucks it shouldn't happen but in the pursuit of justice sometimes mistakes happen i wish they
08:16:43.940 didn't happen but as it relates to immigration yeah i i agree with you of course citizens should not 1.00
08:16:48.820 be being detained uh i think there's some really rare cases where they're allegedly being deported i don't
08:16:54.740 know what truth but they're also but there's like the new york times i saw like um i think there was
08:17:00.020 like an interview new york times but yeah sorry go ahead how does it matter they like they showed
08:17:05.700 different types otherwise it may be like five to ten people and they explained how they told them
08:17:10.020 repeatedly that they were legally here and they still wouldn't let them talk to anybody they're in
08:17:14.820 the detention center some of them for weeks some of them to months and then they just got released
08:17:19.220 like nothing happened like i can look at i can agree yeah like you like it's fine to deport people
08:17:25.380 whatever but they're not doing it in a strategic way like they're just they made a promise that they
08:17:30.500 wanted to get like they wanted to do this fast but now it's just becoming messy and like they should
08:17:35.700 have to like read like check how they're doing this like the whole program because it's obviously not
08:17:41.540 going well well i mean i i don't even think i disagree with you i would love it for optics reasons
08:17:46.660 if ice made zero mistakes but i still think you would have some objections to the the fundamental
08:17:53.940 core mission of ice even if there were no mistakes whatsoever i mean no i mean okay i i do empathize
08:18:00.900 with these families but yeah they did come here illegally like they do have to go but still like my main
08:18:06.340 problem is how they're i mean yeah maybe it's really rare they're not really deporting legal citizens but
08:18:12.500 they are detaining a lot of legal citizens or a lot of like people immigrants who have come here 0.98
08:18:17.540 legally and not even listening to their cases and there have been like many people speaking out
08:18:22.180 and also these detention centers are even worse than prison and people have said that like multiple
08:18:26.660 times yeah i mean perhaps but look ultimately um i i guess i would say that it seems like a bit of a
08:18:33.460 mot in bailey where it's basically like well i'm fine with illegal immigration but actually i'm not fine with
08:18:38.260 illegal uh or wait i just no i just empathize like that's it i feel bad for these families yeah it's
08:18:45.540 they did come here illegally but it's also sad to see a family like being ripped apart but i my main
08:18:50.980 problem with it and like the reason i like speak up about it is because that they're not doing it the
08:18:55.380 right way they've killed two people even if you agree that they were doing something wrong or not these
08:19:00.100 two people still died and then the biggest thing for me is that they're deporting immigrants but who came
08:19:05.780 here legally and that's kind of just defeating the whole purpose i i think that that while it might
08:19:10.820 happen i'd have to see it it's super rare but more detaining they're more they're detaining a lot of
08:19:16.020 point nine nine percent of people who are being detained they're completely legitimate valid
08:19:21.620 deportations so i would totally agree i totally agree with you though uh yeah if you deport somebody
08:19:26.980 who's a citizen that's completely wrong and there should be some sort of uh that you know maybe they're
08:19:33.460 they should be offered financial compensation for being unlawfully deported that's totally wrong
08:19:39.540 and it shouldn't happen but 99.99 the deportations are completely valid i'm gonna move it on though
08:19:46.260 off of this topic uh let's see here you're a fan of ice though can i i just didn't mean to derail the
08:19:51.700 show there uh julia okay blasting through your notes um you said you find a lot of the individuals
08:20:01.700 that you bring on are fascinating you think of yourself as the same what do you mean how so are
08:20:05.780 you the same um could you repeat that i'm like okay passing over that you got slapped on the first 0.98
08:20:13.700 date oh yes um there's a date i went on and i got slapped on my butt in front of kids it was oh on your 0.97
08:20:22.580 i thought and i thought that was kind of crazy and not not on the face no but it was crazy like why would 1.00
08:20:27.940 you slap a woman's ass like on a first date like in front of kids very inappropriate that's my crazy 0.99
08:20:34.820 thing yeah that's pretty inappropriate um uh okay you also uh the one of the unconsensual situation 1.00
08:20:43.940 wait situationship that healed you yeah so i don't like when i i looked back on my thing that i sent and
08:20:52.260 i don't really like that i labeled it like that by unconsensual something that's uninvited right i
08:20:56.980 just feel like um i have people who have loved me and i never invited love in and but they these were
08:21:04.420 both healing the two situationships i was in you were in two non-consensual situations well it's
08:21:13.460 when you say non-consensual or unconsensual are you talking about sex no you were you were in
08:21:19.540 non-consensual so the relationship itself was non-consensual so it wasn't you're not even
08:21:26.260 talking about sex you're saying the man forced you to be your girlfriend the the girlfriend no i'm 0.84
08:21:34.900 talking about um um being loved on like like loved on yes like being received by by a man
08:21:43.220 are you talking is this sex related no emotional
08:21:52.020 non-consensual love yes you can unconsensually love someone i i know that the word unconsensual
08:22:01.460 is usually for physical stuff but so if i tell somebody i don't consent that they look at me have i been
08:22:10.260 been vision raped or like have i been have i been wronged no so if i tell you for the rest of the
08:22:22.340 show i don't give you consent to look at me for the rest of the show and you look at me have you
08:22:26.420 wronged me in some sort of way no i've just unconsensually looked at you i have not wronged
08:22:32.740 you i've just unconsensually looked at you you don't want me to but i've done it interesting okay
08:22:38.420 i'm trying to wrap my head around the i know it's plain semantics looked i don't know if
08:22:45.380 do you this is an interesting topic do you require consent to look at somebody do i like is that an
08:22:55.220 infringement on the other person i don't know i'm actually this is my brain is mangled on this one
08:23:05.620 the answer is no so you were in unconsensual sit two unconsensual situationships and they healed me
08:23:18.100 is anybody confused it's okay you're allowed to be confused i in my head when i wrote it down it
08:23:23.220 made sense it doesn't need to make sense um like on a like unconditional like human basis yeah no
08:23:29.140 like in a romantic oh no i do not you don't love me i okay so if i didn't
08:23:36.420 if i you didn't want them to love you correct like because i think i'd be
08:23:42.420 okay with a woman who i don't have any interest in it's okay if she loves me as long as she's not a 0.99
08:23:47.380 stalker but i don't know if i would categorize it as unconsensual i i'm trying to wrap my head 0.96
08:23:55.300 around this i maybe i'm just too low iq to fully understand what the fuck i maybe i'm too autistic 0.93
08:24:00.500 it's okay 0.54
08:24:04.260 does anybody else want to help me i'm really confused can i ask you some clarifying questions
08:24:09.220 sure so does it make you uncomfortable that this person is in love with you
08:24:13.540 um unconsensual love it did not make me uncomfortable it made me feel um good about
08:24:20.580 myself but um it was not by my consent and you know i'm not in charge of how someone else feels
08:24:26.660 they are in charge of that yes and so i think what i'm hearing is that you just weren't in love
08:24:31.860 with them back wait yes the maybe it's just like you're you're using a word in like a not
08:24:39.860 appropriate coherent way but for example if a girl approaches me and shoots her shot 0.96
08:24:54.340 is that
08:24:57.700 did she unconsensually approach me and shoot technically yes because you know you didn't 1.00
08:25:05.220 get her permission yes i guess technically it was done without consent so i don't know if like
08:25:10.020 that's wait not ever do you think that like like do you think that like say like i saw you out in
08:25:15.620 public and i was like oh like i thought you were cute like just for example like do you think that if
08:25:21.460 i came up to you and like said that i would have to be like hey is it okay with you if i come up to
08:25:26.900 you like would you want me to ask permission like no you don't need to ask permission it's just not
08:25:30.980 it's it's unconsensual like it's unconsensual i know the word whatever okay um and you but you
08:25:38.500 mentioned something about an essay is that related to these two no they are not is it the slap it is
08:25:45.300 not related to the slap okay all right okay uh maddie mother hold on uh one sec guys uh trans women 0.58
08:25:58.180 aren't aren't women but yeah i mean because i just don't think a woman is a feeling that someone 0.99
08:26:03.540 can have okay uh you also write women shouldn't be easy or have only fans well no agreed uh you said
08:26:16.740 it's ridiculous to expect your man to unfollow every girl uh well i just think men should not be
08:26:24.260 doing that to begin with so uh okay men in relationship okay i'll skip that one find the
08:26:30.340 traditional okay uh you don't you think like the man getting down on one knee and proposing is cringe
08:26:36.580 and outdated also you write yes that the host believes he's a five i'd rate him a little higher oh
08:26:45.140 oh i'm not as harsh as you are what do you rate me um i don't know like maybe like six
08:26:52.340 so okay i say i'm 4.5 by the way but okay i'll take it thank you uh let's see we have vicky
08:27:03.140 nothing for you uh all right uh erica oh she left lola left lucy no show all right we just have two
08:27:12.820 more uh madeline uh your thoughts on feminism i don't even remember what i put i think we touched on a
08:27:20.420 lot of it though um i think at large it's not just about equality like we said if it was women would
08:27:28.980 be drafted um i think men and women have different roles i don't think that's a bad thing i don't
08:27:34.580 think that makes us lesser in value to them but i don't think we're necessarily equal or the same we
08:27:41.620 both have different skill sets and things that we traditionally do well at so yeah okay uh
08:27:52.900 essentially uh
08:27:59.220 what were the district you had this room to andrew wilson oh no okay so there was one thing i was
08:28:04.180 hoping i wanted to talk to him about this but that's okay i'll stand in i'll do a very poor yes do your
08:28:09.780 best andrew wilson impression it's on forced doctrine and i wouldn't say it's a disagreement
08:28:14.420 well maybe it is a disagreement but so the whole forced doctrine thing i won't get into all of all
08:28:19.620 of it but essentially like i guess i'll make the argument that because men can do certain things
08:28:28.100 such as like they can't overpower women women women sorry oh my god i did the thing um because they 1.00
08:28:34.420 can overpower women put them in cages whatever and they choose not to do that that that makes them 0.99
08:28:38.900 benevolent i don't think that like refraining from doing something bad makes you necessarily
08:28:44.740 benevolent so i just wanted to pick his brain or i guess your brain on that so i actually i'm i don't
08:28:51.460 know his argument on on that specific thing so i i won't i'm gonna not stand in for him on it but uh
08:28:59.380 he actually was recently on tim cast and i think he actually went in there i don't know if he talked
08:29:04.740 about the benevolent component to it but whatever all right uh i think that's it for the show notes
08:29:12.580 pretty much i mean you had a few more here but i can't i'm obviously not able to do all of them
08:29:19.860 all right we're gonna do mary what was there anything else for the reacts the bow video okay
08:29:25.220 we'll do the bow video super quick so guys i took a video of my ex-girlfriend i showed to all future
08:29:29.300 girlfriends so they know how to act okay uh you got it ready mary yeah all right so go ahead and press
08:29:38.980 play boom huge bow she has to bow for me as soon as i get home this was after a long podcast day
08:29:46.260 so she's got to greet me at least uh when i get home with a bow just as a show of respect um gotta
08:29:54.580 have my dinner ready after a long podcast gotta have a dinner ready crack open a beer for me i don't
08:30:01.860 even drink but it's just there in case i want a little sip stir my noodles she's got to stir the 1.00
08:30:06.420 noodles and yeah get ready ready to play the bow again huge bad you see the depth submissive hand
08:30:16.740 posture deep bow what's that it's just like okay coming from a chinese right now this is nowhere near
08:30:23.860 where our culture is currently standing like it's actually no it's the total opposite like
08:30:28.500 nowadays chinese men they actually prefer their wives to just sit back and relax they'll take care 0.99
08:30:33.380 of the housework they'll take care of the cooking they'll take care of that so i don't know i thought
08:30:36.340 that was japanese matter of fact when i saw that and i saw the chinese characters i was like that's
08:30:40.020 my culture yeah that has to be a guy it's not real the what the woman is a man is what you're saying 0.94
08:30:45.860 no it has to be ai like there's no no that's that's for sure real well it's definitely
08:30:49.540 of course a little bit well it's definitely like a skit or something because that genuinely
08:30:54.340 doesn't exist in china coming from someone from yeah of course it's a skit but uh is that that's
08:31:01.220 what i want okay that's what i that's what you want but yeah that's what i get in what world maybe
08:31:08.500 not this one but brian world uh for the perfect man would you bow for him do that would you bat for
08:31:13.940 him what what wait scoot your mic to the very edge of the table scoot your mic closer to you no oh
08:31:22.020 well that's sorry okay um you got this would i bow to the most perfect man as a joke yeah like i don't
08:31:30.260 know to in order to get the perfect man you have to do this once per day just bow all the other 0.92
08:31:36.900 shit you know i mean you no perfect man would make their women bow to them well so here the the 0.94
08:31:41.220 hypothetical would be there's a magic genie so the perfect man isn't asking you to do that the 0.99
08:31:47.300 magic genie is saying in order for you to get the perfect man you have to do this as part of the wish
08:31:53.220 or whatever sure would you for the most perfect woman yeah i'd do it right if you put a genie in 0.98
08:31:59.700 the question and you it's like a guaranteed perfect man i think we'd all do it because like most of the 0.99
08:32:03.380 men out here are shit so who wouldn't for like the perfect man some women wouldn't some women say nope 0.98
08:32:08.580 not even for the perfect man but for the perfect man you do it well if the genie can build me the 1.00
08:32:12.260 perfect man because i'm doing it yeah but i'm not gonna do it just but it shouldn't take me bowing
08:32:17.860 to him for him to be the perfect man like if it's like a real life situation where it's like conditional
08:32:21.540 like oh he'll only be the perfect man if i bow to him then absolutely not so you can get the
08:32:25.460 fuck out but if it's like the genie says i have to bow to him to get the perfect man and then 0.88
08:32:30.580 all i have to do is bow then sure i think like your hypothetical is a good hypothetical and it's yes to 0.99
08:32:35.940 that but in reality it's a no do you guys disagree or any i don't know i think perfect man do you hit
08:32:42.180 the bow no no wait no you don't bow for the perfect man no no see see if he asks yes but he has to keep
08:32:51.220 the toilet seat down i don't really see the point like what's the reason besides respect there's 0.93
08:33:00.180 other ways to show respect is there not yeah but i want this like slapping them across the face 0.92
08:33:04.580 oh but why why this specific one shots fired so your man can hit you but you won't bow to him we 0.94
08:33:11.460 don't need to get into the weeds on it but will you do it sure what about you for your husband yeah
08:33:18.740 why not what about you for your in the genie hypothetical yes but not if he's like requiring
08:33:24.340 it of me are you christian yes which catholic yeah uh what does it say in the bible we're gonna get
08:33:31.620 into submission i know we are does it say wives obey and submit your yeah and it says husbands love
08:33:37.780 your wife as you can love your wife and want her to do a bow yeah i don't yeah it's possible but i
08:33:44.260 also think like definitely possible my well you're saying that i would love a woman more if she bowed
08:33:48.740 but i i think like i i find it arrogant and like any like someone that's humble that loves me and
08:33:54.820 respects me wouldn't require me to do that especially if it's not like it's not a prevalent cultural
08:34:00.980 aspect of like that's anything either like would you think it was respectful if a guy bowed for you
08:34:08.100 like would you like that if a guy was like bowing at your feet kind of cringe but adding on to that
08:34:12.420 okay but like i'm just yeah i probably would kind of cringe if someone just about because people don't
08:34:17.220 really do that like it's not necessary yeah um uh how about this let me make it less culturally weird
08:34:25.380 then uh so i here's another standard i have first time a girl comes over to my house she sometimes i 1.00
08:34:32.020 don't have laundry ready to go but she should be willing to do my laundry first time over first time 1.00
08:34:36.980 over first time first that's the last time she'll be over at your house too then what do you mean is
08:34:40.980 that i'm surprised you're able to even get a girl to come to your house if that's how you think like
08:34:46.020 is that you made you paying her is she a cleaner uh no no she just i i think a woman look you guys 0.88
08:34:54.100 are not gonna like this but i'm gonna give you some game i'm gonna give you all some game so look
08:35:00.020 if you really fucking like the guy and you're like i i want to do everything i can uh i want to optimize 0.91
08:35:08.020 my chances of like making this work make yourself help him help him make his life easier do things 0.97
08:35:18.500 for him acts of service clean his house do his dishes do his laundry i and look it does take a bit
08:35:24.980 of effort but it's really pretty minimal i'm telling you the guy will look at you different he'll be 0.97
08:35:30.740 like this is fucking wifey material over here because like if you're dealing with a really top 1.00
08:35:35.060 tier guy really attractive guy uh beautiful women are very common pretty women there's a lot 0.99
08:35:42.420 of beautiful women a lot of attractive women a lot of women willing to smash and get cracked and have 1.00
08:35:46.740 sex you gotta bring more to the table if you're deal and i'm sure most of you are uh dealing with
08:35:55.460 i'm assuming a guy i i mean unless you're just dating like guys you're kind of lukewarm about i'm
08:36:00.340 assuming you're wanting to date guys you you're really you really really like right so you should
08:36:07.060 try to do the most you should maximize your your ability to actually get the guy i agree with that
08:36:14.580 but i also think that guys should be putting in the same amount of effort when they really like a girl
08:36:18.820 who was it here who said i think it was you mahi didn't you say that uh the man has to like the
08:36:25.380 woman more who was that that was somebody here the the man has to be more in love with the woman
08:36:30.980 is that the case in your relationship
08:36:35.460 i just think you put up with more than i i don't know because i love him i don't know what are you
08:36:42.180 doing to your boyfriend what are you doing no because i feel like it's worded no i don't raise my
08:36:47.860 voice okay i believe you um i feel like it it's really bad to say but it's just like he might
08:36:56.580 love me like a little bit more your boyfriend yeah but i love him like very deep yeah like i
08:37:02.820 love him very deeply i love him more than like anyone else her boyfriend you guys are friends right
08:37:06.980 no she's never met but oh you know of him but you know okay um but it's not like it's like when you
08:37:14.420 say like that it's like oh like the woman like likes him and he loves her no like i love him
08:37:18.900 very deeply he loves me very deeply i just think and like maybe if you're putting perspective like
08:37:23.220 maybe he would put up with a little bit more than i would put up i guess
08:37:28.980 i think it's the reverse i think it's the reverse i think the woman has to be more into the guy 1.00
08:37:34.580 than the reverse that's my thought but uh laundry first first time over at the house would you do it 0.86
08:37:40.980 for a man first time is a little bit too first time i think that's pushing i also think he would 0.73
08:37:46.020 think that was weird yeah try it just fucking try it just look do this do this i'm gonna give you 0.99
08:37:51.780 girls some game okay i'm gonna give you some game don't listen to all these fucking cosmo and 1.00
08:37:56.740 fucking call her daddy all that bullshit don't listen to it i'm gonna give you game okay and look 0.99
08:38:03.460 it is it will take a little a little physical effort doing some of these things but i'm telling you the 1.00
08:38:09.460 guy will look at you differently you go over to the guy's house first time over his house now your
08:38:15.700 first instinct might be time to crack no no you could you should still probably do that but maybe
08:38:23.860 you do it first but then after the crack as soon as you crack you crack 0.79
08:38:30.100 then i do his laundry wow in the post sex glow excuse me rupert might i
08:38:39.860 do your laundry offer him be like hey so do you need any help around the house you can say that 0.99
08:38:45.620 hey i feel like any guy would just laugh like i don't know try it just fucking try it as an 0.94
08:38:51.300 experiment you don't even have to want to do just try this experiment hey uh is there anything i can 0.87
08:38:56.340 help you out with around the house you need anything cleaned uh laundry you know don't be
08:39:01.220 weird about it you know keep it kind of chill and cool and casual so don't just get up and start
08:39:06.100 building clothes what that could be hot too the girl just like you could just be like um where's
08:39:11.860 your laundry room oh okay i'll be right back you come back i started the wash what's up not
08:39:18.580 ask him for permission ask him for permission to do it can i help you with your laundry
08:39:26.740 can i clean something for you can i cook something for you i'm telling you okay okay i'm telling you
08:39:35.060 because honestly that's game for a guy that's some game well even for men too if a guy came over to my 1.00
08:39:40.020 house and like i didn't have my laundry done he just started doing my laundry like i'd be like
08:39:43.860 okay it doesn't work the other way i think i'd be like well i know what maybe you're into i think
08:39:49.860 no well i've experienced you should see a therapist about that though but i'd have to know him for a
08:39:53.540 while but like then i would be like i think it's a cultural difference like you want the guy to just
08:39:58.820 well that's how it's always been and in my family too with the girl like my sister who's in a two
08:40:03.300 three-year relationship getting married she's never done the laundry once her boyfriend does the
08:40:06.900 laundry all the time cooks cleans makes the money everything i think it's just a cultural difference
08:40:10.580 maybe with americans they think differently he does like but it's because he really loves her
08:40:18.020 but he also makes the money yeah and he provides everything he lets her drive around his seven
08:40:22.500 series bmw that's a hundred thousand he's getting yeah it's just for the perfect man so how does she
08:40:27.940 spend her day like what does she do well we're students they're all students but he's just rich so
08:40:33.460 he's just able to do that for her and she got really really lucky we're really lucky so i think these
08:40:38.340 men do exist out there and i'm like i'll say this from my opinion i'm not going to stoop my standards
08:40:43.060 for someone who expects me to do their laundry because that's just not what i'm doing you wouldn't
08:40:46.500 do it i would but not because they want me to like i'll do it if i want to but like um for the right
08:40:52.260 man too they he should not want you to be doing choice for him he should also want you to oh she 0.99
08:40:56.740 should be doing all kinds of chores as soon as possible the girl should be doing chores the first 1.00
08:41:01.300 date first date is like a bit much i would think that would see i would think that was weird if a guy
08:41:06.900 started doing like chores for the first date out of the u.s men don't act like that i think it's
08:41:11.220 something maybe you should come to asia come check out how we are over there it's totally opposite
08:41:15.060 you should learn are you saying that the the guys are like doing all that for yeah yes so why would
08:41:20.100 i go to asia wait hold on no no that's totally so you can get like a different perspective on
08:41:24.900 you're like oh i want a submissive girl blah blah hold on there look i've i've not been to any asian
08:41:30.340 countries so i don't have like firsthand experience but the reports seem to indicate that uh
08:41:37.060 yeah asian women are typically more submissive correct and typically more but then asian men 1.00
08:41:41.940 are also more um nurturing and they're more like no no don't do this don't do it i'm nurturing no
08:41:46.740 you are not i'm so nurturing you american how so nurturing how in what way i like to after my like
08:41:54.660 my girl does a good job with the laundry i pat her on the head wow good girl like a pet 0.97
08:41:59.380 wow like a dog yeah uh no you give a little pat their own if that's your key rage bait oh if a
08:42:09.140 girl i'm just playing i'm i just i just successfully rage baited you 1.00
08:42:14.500 no i'm i'm telling you you gotta i literally i'm not even exaggerating
08:42:20.100 after a girl folds my laundry i give her a pat on the head and then what does she do wait so you 1.00
08:42:26.420 do have a girl she thinks it's funny huh wait so you do have a girlfriend no i'm saying uh oh
08:42:32.260 well it didn't work out well that doesn't make any sense no he has a girlfriend he does no i'm a
08:42:38.100 virgin i'm a virgin no no i don't have a i i don't have a girlfriend uh currently i guess you could
08:42:43.780 say uh i don't speak about my relationship status but um i'm question of the women i have dated yeah 0.99
08:42:50.980 you do a little pat on the head you have a little spank on the butt 1.00
08:42:55.940 i'm not even a tree like oh my god good job he's getting flashbacks 0.96
08:42:59.700 also you just you just like squish her against the wall too you just squish her against the wall you 0.99
08:43:05.460 put all your weight especially me it's like crazy you just squish her against the wall and you're like
08:43:11.140 thanks babe and then you just squish her for like two minutes and she's happy like you hold the dog oh 1.00
08:43:17.700 my god no i'm not fucking bear hugging suffocating it's just a little pressure a little pressure i 0.97
08:43:23.540 squish her against the wall and then i fucking tickle her and like oh gosh scratch her back 1.00
08:43:29.780 yeah it's good this is sounds so terrible no right i kill myself madeline likes it 0.99
08:43:37.460 okay good talk all right well you guys just don't know what you're talking about 0.95
08:43:40.900 clearly missing out thank you thank you for the advice look just fucking try it just try it once 0.97
08:43:48.020 i'm telling you telling you just be like i'll try it and when he ghosts me after i'll dm you 0.98
08:43:56.100 if it doesn't work we're coming for you ryan imagine like this is the this could have been the love 0.98
08:44:01.460 of your life but you listen to me i totally fuck everything up for you you like leave my house 1.00
08:44:08.020 like what if he's like leave my house hey shit you never know i'm just saying i think it would work 0.99
08:44:12.340 i think it i'm you know what it will 100 work 67 of the time it works 67 what happens every 0.99
08:44:19.460 percent of the time wait so it doesn't work 69 of the time it works every time 100 of the time 0.97
08:44:26.180 something like that just think yeah no i think uh give it a shot try it oh fuck i had a really good 0.95
08:44:32.740 question related to this but it just vanished in my brain okay i'm just going to get into the 0.97
08:44:38.020 rapid fire questions this is sort of the final segment it's a string of questions here we go
08:44:47.380 uh wait actually i remember what it was okay before we get to the final segment
08:44:53.780 why is it okay to say men should 1.00
08:44:55.700 what men should pay for dates men should be chivalrous men should provide men should protect
08:45:02.740 why is it okay to say that but it seems like when you say women should 1.00
08:45:10.500 oh whoa you're being a sexist you're being a misogynist 0.83
08:45:14.660 i don't understand i don't think that's kind of the same thing as what you just said earlier like
08:45:18.100 when i said oh men should do the laundry you're like well men shouldn't it's just kind of like 1.00
08:45:21.940 well if you want to speak traditionally yeah it's traditional gender roles in our society
08:45:26.020 well no but the traditional gender roles for women seem to be deemed as oppressive or misogynistic or
08:45:33.700 sexist whereas the traditional male gender roles even in 2026 seem to be static who said that though
08:45:41.780 what do you mean who said that like i didn't say like none of us i don't think any of us said that it
08:45:45.140 was so i think i'm speaking in a general sense of where i think society would be at i think
08:45:50.100 generally if a man were to say i uh i think a woman should cook i think a woman should make me a 1.00
08:45:57.300 sandwich i think a woman should clean i don't think that's misogynistic i think well maybe you don't
08:46:01.940 think that but i think at least in terms of a comparative a comparison i do think that there's
08:46:07.860 going to be a a greater negative appraisal of any time we say women should that's going to more often 0.97
08:46:14.740 for a guise of misogyny sexism blah blah blah but no such criticism would ever be made of a woman 1.00
08:46:23.220 saying men should pay on dates men should provide protect be chivalrous even like a liberal like a
08:46:29.300 lot of progressive women are still want these things so i don't know here i'll put it i'll frame 1.00
08:46:36.660 it like this the same woman that would say it's a sexist trope and stereotype or it's sexist 1.00
08:46:42.660 misogynistic for a man to expect or say women should cook and clean i think it's it would be
08:46:50.100 likely that that same woman would say men should pay for dates well men should provide men should
08:46:55.380 protect like yeah anybody my can you dab really quick can you just do dab are you too young for
08:47:05.140 that i feel like you're that's before your time did you dab are you dabber i'm only 19 i'm a dabber
08:47:10.900 can you dab show us a dad i'm not gonna but it was it's this come on no it's am i allowed to dab 0.98
08:47:15.860 vicky do it no she has to do it vicky vicky icky icky hit the dab right now or plank plank or dab you
08:47:25.060 you guys definitely don't know what the plank is do you guys know what the plank is what not the
08:47:29.940 exercise yeah planking what's a plank the exercise on the floor still like you guys don't know what
08:47:35.780 yeah yeah what is it older gen z yeah wait what year were wait i'm 07 you're born 2007 planking is
08:47:44.660 before i'm pretty sure i was like 2012 like around 2012 yeah 2011 yeah i was five planking i think
08:47:52.500 or wait maybe my dates are off whatever i was in middle school i was in middle school yeah uh
08:47:56.900 uh but why is it okay for women to say you should you know what i've done i don't have the 0.98
08:48:01.620 expectations since like i don't like i don't have i don't really like yeah gender roles exist but
08:48:07.140 honestly like i don't really like believe in them so i don't have the expectation like oh men should
08:48:13.060 pay for the first dates men should provide like especially men should provide no i can take care 0.99
08:48:17.060 of myself at independent did your boyfriend vote for trump no my boyfriend's not a republican at all my
08:48:25.220 boyfriend's liberal or so you think he is i've sat down with he loves you he you know what the
08:48:32.500 problem is he loves you so much no he's not willing to disclose who he actually voted for his parents
08:48:38.660 are also immigrants like they i've met his family like they're also very like liberal his mom's
08:48:43.140 in the health care system so she's also liberal immigrants for trump no not not them some of them are okay
08:48:50.020 but that's the thing i don't have the expectation exactly because also yeah like i realized like it
08:48:56.420 is um hypocritical for me to have this expectation like oh women shouldn't have gender norms and force 1.00
08:49:02.100 in them but then we also shouldn't enforce same gender roles on men that they've always had like 0.62
08:49:06.500 they should provide they should take care of us they should pay for the first dates they should be 1.00
08:49:10.420 chivalrous so i don't have the expectation but my boyfriend is like i mean he is kind of like he is
08:49:15.780 very chivalrous and i think your boyfriend's kind of based secretly what do you mean i i don't know
08:49:22.420 i get this i don't even know what your boyfriend looks like i don't know who do you like post your
08:49:26.580 boyfriend i do post my boyfriend okay i haven't really done a deep dive on your instagram or whatever
08:49:31.380 but uh i feel like he's secretly kind of republican he is not republican i can tell you that and i have no
08:49:37.940 fucking idea uh how about this uh before we get into the final segment should a man be willing to 0.95
08:49:45.700 take a bullet for a woman 1.00
08:49:51.380 i would take a bullet for my husband like how deep in the relationship i guess marriage yeah i feel 0.99
08:49:56.420 like you take a bullet no kids though no kids no kids still yes because i feel like marriage if you're 0.80
08:50:01.780 married you're married you should see them as like an equal or if not like higher i guess not that you
08:50:06.100 should like put them before yourselves but like the expectation is that you do love them so much
08:50:11.300 that you're able to and then if that's just not the case then maybe i think you just married the wrong
08:50:14.980 person like if you're not willing to sacrifice yourself for the person you claim you love then do
08:50:21.140 you really love them especially someone that you chose to spend the rest of your life with
08:50:24.580 in this cage marriage i feel like dating wise like low-key could be no like it really depends like if
08:50:29.780 you're dating it's like i wouldn't get mad at someone for saying no of course i need to hear more
08:50:34.260 but like if you're married the expectation should be like yeah i think you should do y'all think it
08:50:38.500 would be beta beta for a guy to
08:50:45.620 like if in a situation you have to pick is it you or your girlfriend you or your wife do you think it
08:50:51.380 would be beta for the man to sacrifice the woman instead of him yes yeah yeah beta i think so
08:50:59.620 i was like damn i actually think i by the way i don't but i i don't consider myself an alpha
08:51:07.380 i'm a i'm a sigma male okay sigma uh i don't believe in the beta alpha thing i think it's 0.98
08:51:16.020 it's super cringe when especially a guy who calls himself alpha males fucking cringe 0.93
08:51:21.540 i'm a fucking sigma male though but just kidding but anyways i actually think it's more alpha 0.99
08:51:26.980 alpha male grind set for the woman to die what like it's more alpha alpha because you're just 0.98
08:51:37.540 too tough huh you can't die you just no it's like the the more alpha thing to do isn't the more alpha
08:51:43.860 thing to do to protect your woman and to take the bullet for her no she'd take you use her in fact as a 1.00
08:51:48.820 meat shield you you you put her in front of you like catch we're looking for some wow i know there's 0.74
08:51:56.580 no way he actually thinks like that there's no way no look if i would do as much as i can to dispatch
08:52:03.220 the threat and i would protect my girl but like in a hypothetical situation where it's like
08:52:09.540 one of you has to die there's no loophole you can't get out of it
08:52:12.420 she's got to go well i wish you could say the same thing about you never i'm never gonna get 1.00
08:52:19.620 pussy again by the way ever it's done i'm gonna be fucking incel because i just said this it's 1.00
08:52:24.260 gonna get clipped oh my god brian such a bitch what sorry go ahead no i didn't say anything oh i 1.00
08:52:29.540 thought you were gonna say something but then i started spurring out no no okay is there a logical 0.99
08:52:35.700 explanation behind this alpha mindset yeah the alpha male mindset i would say uh i would say
08:52:43.380 self-preservation and survival well self-sacrifice and selflessness i wish i you know that scene from
08:52:50.260 i think is it the hangover where they're that asian guy's like huh gay um i yeah self-sacrifice that 0.93
08:52:57.300 sounds super lame to be honest i think that uh like you guys know genghis khan my genghis khan
08:53:05.860 that guy apparently had like dozens or even hundreds of wives and concubines 1.00
08:53:12.100 you think put in a position where yes genghis khan has to either give his life 1.00
08:53:17.940 to protect the life of one of his concubines or wives that's one of hundreds that motherfucker no 1.00
08:53:24.500 that if he had to be like okay you can it's you genghis khan or all your wives he'll still probably 0.99
08:53:34.180 pick himself he's picking himself right that's alpha male alpha male genghis khan largest contid
08:53:39.780 contiguous land empire ever in history alpha's right no okay hold on i don't think they're i 0.99
08:53:48.340 don't think we can dispute the alpha maleness of genghis khan here like this motherfucker's alpha 0.95
08:53:53.460 male this is a hypothetical situation it didn't happen right well what do you mean like was he ever 0.97
08:54:00.100 put in a situation where he had to choose between sacrifice i would be like i don't know too much 0.99
08:54:06.580 there's probably actually maybe records of it i'm pretty sure this motherfucker probably killed 1.00
08:54:11.460 a couple of his wives or concubines like historically kings king king henry the eighth in england uh we 0.99
08:54:21.460 had that lola girl she could have helped king henry the eighth this was like the we miss it
08:54:26.180 it was like the 15 i think it was the 1500s or was it the 14 14 1500 i'm blanking on the date here
08:54:33.460 he what what's the saying with king henry beheaded or divorced beheaded died divorced beheaded died
08:54:46.580 like anne boleyn you guys do you guys know oh his five wives he had five or six wives 0.98
08:54:51.380 yeah it was divorced yes yeah king henry fucking get no i don't think it was guillotine but it was 0.96
08:55:03.220 beheading i'm just saying genghis khan he 0.97
08:55:11.540 no nobody's anyone that has is anybody is anybody getting what i'm putting down yo 0.93
08:55:16.980 no no okay all right well uh i'm just saying i don't know why should men 0.99
08:55:23.540 fucking die that's why should women die no they were the one that's giving birth 1.00
08:55:28.020 like the next generation right like you think if a woman tells me hey brian like i'm not gonna like 1.00
08:55:34.580 jump in front of the bullet for you i'm not like oh oh that's unattractive whereas like all the 0.98
08:55:41.380 shit i just said right there like 90 percent of women instantly just completely dry like yeah 1.00
08:55:49.060 because what happened to like provide and protect right like you said like as a man that's your 0.98
08:55:53.620 biological tendency so act on it yeah but i reject that so so you basically provide and protect to an
08:56:00.980 extent yes okay to an extent then but if it's like a choice in a hypothetical yeah she can take the bullet 0.94
08:56:09.620 look i'm gonna try i'm not gonna just yeah i'll try to help a little that's why you was getting
08:56:14.020 shot in the first place i hope you meet a girl that changes your mind for real like the perfect
08:56:18.500 woman i hope it does happen soon we're like everything is just unconditional and they'll be
08:56:23.700 we're gonna have robots pretty soon so i'll probably be maybe you can cop one of those
08:56:27.540 think that you're like wait what maybe you can get get one of those robots make them make
08:56:31.460 build your own perfect submissive girl that you've always wanted and live your life with that 0.80
08:56:35.780 i don't know bring on i'm kind of fine with the robots to be honest i think
08:56:39.380 humans just didn't work out for you you need robots now no i get it i'll have a robot and then
08:56:43.940 i'll like have a human that sounds so bad i'll have a human too give me the i'll take two robots and 0.99
08:56:52.100 a human thank you thank you very much all right let me get through the rapid fire questions here
08:56:59.940 final this is the tail end here okay
08:57:01.620 okay name three countries besides the usa okay and you can't repeat any answers
08:57:09.540 africa antarctica europe
08:57:15.940 did you say continents or countries countries oh countries oh i thought you said continents no
08:57:20.180 no countries oh my god i'm so sorry okay try again okay countries besides the us yeah okay um
08:57:28.340 spain france germany china japan korea laos cambodia morocco romania russia north korea
08:57:39.380 uzbekistan canada and ireland sudan colombia and palestine 0.98
08:57:45.780 oh my god it's me um it's like i forgot everything i've ever known now um i'm an idiot
08:57:52.980 did we say russia already did we say russia already i don't think so no that's one um russia 0.71
08:58:06.100 to england that's two russia england and um did we say bolivia there we go
08:58:14.420 what are you um thailand taiwan and did someone say canada or mexico i said canada sorry okay
08:58:25.460 how many how many continents are there
08:58:31.220 name one continent um
08:58:34.740 antarctica can't repeat mine yeah asia
08:58:37.940 america south america did we say africa i get no no not for this europe
08:58:50.260 greenland
08:58:51.780 i don't know what uh oh no no last con there's one last continent left
08:58:58.180 oh did we say like 0.99
08:59:05.940 everybody say it again because i'm so sorry i feel like this is an idiot 0.89
08:59:11.940 it's late yeah i don't remember what everybody said is that is the remaining one 0.80
08:59:17.860 i don't even know it was australia it was australia okay uh what two countries border
08:59:25.860 the usa you two countries border the usa
08:59:38.020 why are you saying it with a question mark at the end you're making me nervous
08:59:42.500 you are correct how many states in the usa
08:59:48.580 i'm really tired it's like 50
08:59:50.180 hey no helping no helping i was gonna say 50 i was gonna say 51 but then i was like wait no
08:59:57.300 that's the territory so 50 yeah
09:00:01.380 what is the capital of the usa
09:00:05.940 that's a trick question is it not we i don't not a trick question washington dc hey yeah hey no helping
09:00:13.860 she's wrong what is what do you think it is there's a capital of the whole usa chat
09:00:25.620 like the u.s capital like the washington i don't oh i don't know this the state
09:00:32.900 or the uh how many stars don't help guys don't help how many stars are on the u.s flag
09:00:38.020 i'll i'll be jumping around the 50 you are
09:00:45.620 answer the question 50 you guys are both correct congratulations what century wait but you didn't
09:00:52.020 answer the question what's the capital of the usa i'm curious she got it it was washington dc but okay
09:00:58.420 okay uh what what century what what century are we in 21st century
09:01:14.260 final answer
09:01:18.900 20th century you are incorrect you are right 1.00
09:01:21.940 first how many in one dozen into the into the mike mahi mahi 12. thank you for the four uh what year
09:01:34.180 was the u.s founded
09:01:40.260 1842 was it oh was it 1873 or something 1776 1776 wait it's not 18 1776
09:01:51.940 yeah yeah that is the correct answer congratulations who did the u.s gain its independence from
09:01:59.140 britain you are correct who was the first president of the usa
09:02:06.260 george washington
09:02:10.900 what country is the great wall of china in
09:02:14.820 how many inches in a foot 12 how many seasons are there four how many days in a year 65 how many
09:02:30.500 letters in the alphabet 26 how many days of the week and with the letter y all seven days of the week
09:02:42.100 what's the shape what's the shape with four sides called square uh how uh what language do the people
09:02:48.900 in idaho speak english you are correct what ocean is california next to
09:03:00.740 pacific into the mic correct okay what is half of one million
09:03:05.860 five hundred thousand five hundred thousand how many years in a decade a hundred a thousand
09:03:17.300 and uh ten thousand wait no you're you're you're rage rating me it's a hundred
09:03:22.420 no it's a thousand oh ten sorry
09:03:36.100 how many are in a century a hundred there we go if a dozen eggs cost three dollars how much is each egg
09:03:42.020 yeah how much is each egg 40 cents 40 cents
09:03:53.540 yeah yeah that's right anybody else just wanted uh how much what do you think is she right sure 40
09:04:01.140 40 cents 40 cents i think it would be 25 no it's right no it's no girl it's three divided by 12
09:04:07.380 that's what time yeah what times three equals to 12 oh four at the decimal point point four
09:04:14.900 what is it a dozen eggs cost three dollars how much is each egg
09:04:20.740 quick here you wait i'm coming back to you what do you think it's it's gotta be 40 cents 40 cents okay
09:04:26.340 probably there's a there's a bit of consensus here 40 cents probably 40 cents okay
09:04:33.700 what no you tell me what you think probably what do you think i just said 40 cents yeah 40 cents 40
09:04:38.900 cents what do you think yeah 40 cents what do you think sure wait no i don't think she's right 25
09:04:46.260 cents wow i was she's low-key right she's looking right it's 25 cents you were gaslighting her so 0.97
09:04:54.260 hard no i was like i was like wait i thought about it i was like oh i'm so sorry i don't care i'll take
09:05:00.580 the l on math no you got that it's 25 i thought it was you threw all you threw everybody off yeah i
09:05:07.140 really thought we were on to something confidently mommy is just so confident didn't you say she was 0.98
09:05:12.500 right though no i don't think so no i did you said she was right no yes you did for a second you did
09:05:19.940 say we were right 40 cents and then that's when i started gaslighting her and then i thought about
09:05:23.220 it i was like wait she's right oh 40 oh okay what do you think um anyways uh wait where are we oh what is
09:05:31.140 the closest star to earth uh the sun i don't know about that does anybody have a different guess or
09:05:42.100 i'm actually not certain it's the sun just guess the sun the sun you are correct it is the sun uh
09:05:50.580 let's see do you know what year the war of 1812 started
09:05:54.660 what year the war of what the war of 1812 started what year no i don't know 1812 that is correct
09:06:08.740 oh
09:06:10.660 okay wait i was like wait what
09:06:13.940 what country actually hold on i'm gonna come back to that what is 34 plus 66
09:06:20.180 six 100 are you guys sure yes are you sure okay no don't even play what country is the panama canal in
09:06:34.340 you what country correct
09:06:39.620 come back to me on that panama panama
09:06:42.660 panama panama you are correct okay what is seven plus seven plus seven 21. okay where did the attack
09:06:51.780 on pearl harbor take place
09:06:56.180 japan japan okay hawaii japan in the u.s
09:07:03.380 anybody have a different good so so pearl harbor it's a place of the pearl harbor
09:07:09.220 pearl harbor took place at pearl harbor yeah in hawaii japan no pearl harbor's not in japan where's
09:07:14.980 pearl harbor but you said japan right yeah so
09:07:21.700 the united states was it the united states that bombed pearl harbor yes in japan
09:07:28.980 and that's what made the japanese enter world war ii i feel like i'm getting rage baited like i don't
09:07:35.060 yeah uh what is three times three plus one wait can you answer if that's true no without no we did
09:07:41.540 bomb them after they attacked us in pearl harbor in hawaii and so we yeah in hawaii so we attacked
09:07:46.980 them in uh hishimura hiroshima and nagasaki yeah so pearl harbor's in hawaii pearl harbor's in hawaii
09:07:55.700 yeah yeah not japan okay and the japanese attacked us in pearl harbor
09:08:03.220 well i got it mixed up it's okay i got it reversed for the best of us what is three times three plus
09:08:08.500 one and what country did the vietnam war happen in vietnam what is seven minus seven minus seven
09:08:19.380 negative seven right you are correct how much is a quarter of an hour uh 25 oh wait no uh
09:08:32.580 i feel put on the spot you got this quarter of an hour you know it would be 25 minutes right nobody
09:08:48.340 helped 15 or be yeah it is 15 minutes you know that would be a quarter of a dollar but i was talking
09:08:58.180 about an hour okay what is 100 minus 66 me or her you 34. what is 8 plus 8 plus 8 8 16 24. three times 0.93
09:09:11.700 three times three times three oh what the fuck you it's three it's 27. i had to think about that thank you 0.96
09:09:20.100 sir sir uh what is nine minus nine minus nine negative nine what is 100 minus 34. 66. if yes 0.99
09:09:30.500 is spelled y-e-s what does e-y-s spell nice congratulations you got it right if you were
09:09:37.300 born 10 years ago how old would you be today eight four wait if i was born 10 years ago how old would you
09:09:47.140 be today yeah okay uh how many world wars were there what uh this is for the whole table going
09:09:56.260 around what decade so i'm looking for like 1830s uh 1930s just the decade what decade was world war one
09:10:05.780 1812 to 1814 no no i don't need the date range just what decade so 18 the 1810s
09:10:12.100 yeah okay for world war one world war one the 1910s 1910s okay it was 1910s okay 1910s i'd say 1900 but
09:10:23.540 that century but okay 1910s 1910s same what was the primary decade of world war ii starting on this side
09:10:31.380 um how was that um how was that 1940s i was gonna say 1930s 1940s 1939 1940s late 30s to 40s um yeah 40s
09:10:49.140 okay can you name i'll skip that one uh can who can name three kardashians
09:10:55.860 kim kardashian kourtney kardashian khloe kardashian anybody else can okay well uh
09:11:07.220 oh wait oh this is a good question for you the virgin okay you're a virgin correct i am a virgin
09:11:12.500 do you have a celebrity crush um i i did when i was younger who it was zach geffron still still a bit of
09:11:20.020 of a crush oh yeah of course sure yeah um and you're waiting until marriage before you have
09:11:25.140 sex yes sir for your celebrity crush do you break your rule oh no no no no no but you don't break your
09:11:30.740 rule for anybody nope unless they pay you through a website for okay uh let's see here um what do you
09:11:42.260 rate your personality on the scale of zero to ten i think everyone has personality flaws so i'd give
09:11:50.820 myself like an eight okay i agree i'd say an eight nine eight are we allowed to do seven on this one
09:12:01.460 seven nine seven eight what percentage of men these are more those were like math ones and 0.89
09:12:10.660 fucking geography ones these are more like dating related what percentage of men do you think are 0.96
09:12:15.780 over six feet give me a percentage oh um maybe like 30 percent okay 30 percent i'd say like 0.98
09:12:26.020 15 15 15 15 15 like five percent five percent my say 20 20 20 to 30 10 10 15 5 to 10. what percent of
09:12:40.260 men it's 15 by the way about what percentage of men make at least one million dollars a year
09:12:47.860 like less than one person i agree less than one percent yep less than one less than one percent two percent
09:12:55.940 less than one less than one what percent of men have a yacht uh five five percent okay less less than 0.5
09:13:08.660 if only one percent are millionaires then 0.2 less than one percent less than one percent less than one
09:13:15.460 percent less than one percent less than one percent i'd say less than like 0.5 does anybody here keep a list of
09:13:21.300 all the men you've cracked yes absolutely not with their zodiac signs damn you got the list what did
09:13:30.180 you say four was the what was the body count two two really yeah you need a list for that but i have 0.77
09:13:35.780 a list of people i've kissed too so hey yo gals girl time right now
09:13:43.780 what
09:13:45.380 who you guys buying this just girl talk right now yes she's not here
09:13:49.940 two you guys buy it i'm like very picky sure well mine is two i would you buy it i think like yeah
09:13:58.420 but you're 18. yeah wait how old are you 26. but i also said i was only in one relationship
09:14:04.580 was your virginity when i was 20. oh going around the table i was 17 going around the table i was 0.62
09:14:09.140 also 17. i was 15. young yikes okay well we're talking consensual here oh 16. still past 16. has
09:14:20.340 yet to occur still a virgin 20. what 20 you were 20 okay 14. okay what about you 17. i actually think
09:14:31.060 i was 16. when i think about it what if it just like what if you're like 50. like are you at that
09:14:39.140 point you're just gonna be like i guess i'll let somebody crack i've thought about him i'm thinking
09:14:43.700 maybe my 30s if it happens it might happen are you gonna become a nun um i've thought about it
09:14:49.700 how should mormons don't have nuns right mormons don't have nuns but i've thought about
09:14:53.700 maybe pursuing different religion maybe oh to accommodate the nun thing 0.98
09:14:57.780 wait so you you would change religions just to be a nun possibly it's not a yes i don't think
09:15:06.180 they'd let you do that okay final mostly final few questions here do you have a ross or have you
09:15:13.620 ever had a roster and how what was the biggest it ever was no i i can't even barely okay one person
09:15:21.140 i've never had a roster
09:15:22.180 use your words no no for first dates and stuff yes i lost the sheet of paper
09:15:30.660 how are we defining roster like people you talk to or people you sleep with that means like talking
09:15:34.660 to multiple people right yeah basically don't have to be sleeping with them to be on the roster
09:15:39.220 i mean i think i've just flirted but i wouldn't say i have an official roster no
09:15:42.500 what about you no roster roster madeline come on it just means like wait that just means you've
09:15:49.380 been talking to multiple people then yeah maybe like three people i was dating before anything
09:15:55.220 serious yeah have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them no never wait i'll start first
09:16:03.060 i have i'm a terrible person terrible person my your boyfriend no first date okay it has yet to 0.52
09:16:11.540 happen have well 0.99
09:16:16.340 what's your you said you engage in fellatio what's your fellatio body count what is oh is 1.00
09:16:26.580 fellatio is oral because you said you you don't you do do oral sex yes that's interesting as many guys 1.00
09:16:33.300 as i've dated and that is seven so oral sex count is seven sure yes maybe more give or take yeah okay 0.99
09:16:45.140 oh what was the question again well so i guess the quickest what's the question you ever 0.98
09:16:49.540 gave oral the quickest copy is it oral copulation i think oh i haven't i don't have a quick it's like
09:17:00.420 i don't have metrics i don't have personal metrics for that like you don't recall no well i'm not
09:17:06.020 looking for like to the second but like was it the same day you met you meet a guy same day oh no it
09:17:12.340 has not no no no definitely no same day uh it was technically our first time meeting irl but we had
09:17:17.460 a video called for months before this uh what about you no same day no what's the quickest for
09:17:23.460 everybody i think i'm being completely honest yeah like one or two weeks anyone here ever had a
09:17:35.700 threesome anyone had the hoe phase yeah i had a threesome oh two guys no two girls actually 0.98
09:17:45.460 wait all three of you were girls yes oh okay uh has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24 0.99
09:17:52.580 hour period no okay uh do men suck no no are men trash no really really it can't be uh do we need men 0.99
09:18:05.460 yes yes yeah yeah my not the answer hey uh look over here being quiet come on answer the question no 1.00
09:18:15.460 like really where's the black girl when you need a really for what like well replication
09:18:27.460 survival societally kind of need men you like electricity right you like running water right 0.80
09:18:37.780 you like internet right you like cell phone right you like waste management right
09:18:43.380 you like uh having to depart your home due to fires right 1.00
09:18:56.500 oh mahi a roving band of badass kick-ass ninja women just actually fuck it never mind whatever uh is it 1.00
09:19:06.020 gay for a man to date a trans woman i think this is our final question yes oh sorry wait what is the 1.00
09:19:12.180 question is it gay for man to date a trans woman is it or is it straight
09:19:18.180 however for a straight wait if i was dating a trans woman would that be gay or straight
09:19:26.580 it's up to your definition i guess it would be gay i don't know
09:19:29.780 if you didn't know it's straight if you did know it's gay i feel like it's gay regardless but
09:19:38.260 i mean there's nothing wrong with it but it's still gay it's straight okay but 0.94
09:19:44.180 go ahead gay is like it's up to your interpretation really well no i don't think it's up to interpretation 0.86
09:19:50.020 though because gay means the same-sex attraction if a transgender what did we what did you say
09:19:55.940 well transgender woman is a biological man his sex never change so therefore if he's attracted to
09:20:03.540 a transgender woman he has same-sex attraction because you can't change your sex so i don't see 1.00
09:20:09.460 how it's up to interpretation
09:20:17.460 it's a bit gay it's a little gay question so if you saw two dude well if you saw 0.83
09:20:25.940 two men crossing swords crossing swords but one of them told you they identified as a woman
09:20:34.900 would that be a heterosexual act like they're they're sword fighting they have like bottom surgery 0.85
09:20:44.180 let's do this all right well i'd say that's still gay still gay to me but okay whatever uh guys
09:20:50.500 i'm wrapping the show here do you guys we do a segment where y'all take your makeup off who's 0.90
09:20:55.060 down to take their makeup off vicky icky you want to take your makeup off i don't care like i don't
09:21:01.140 look that different but it's like i like to keep it on i mean aren't you like going i'm going to bed
09:21:05.460 soon i'll take it off i'm a gentleman i'm just trying to be nice i'm probably going to stay up until
09:21:10.180 my classes because it's already 2 a.m oh i have a 9 a.m lecture so i'll probably be up
09:21:16.580 like uh okay i'm gonna get this all wrapped up do you want to you guys want to do it just save it we we
09:21:21.940 show the audience the damage afterwards just show the i can't use the wipes on my face you're gonna 0.99
09:21:27.620 oh it's gonna fuck you all right guys uh mary can you pull up twitch really quick 0.99
09:21:35.860 pull up twitch guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever i'm gonna hold you guys hostage we need 0.98
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09:23:14.980 thank you thank you okay um i think that's it those of you took your makeup off can you just hold it up
09:23:19.700 really quick and then we'll go do the outro show us the damage that's nothing show us the damage hold
09:23:26.820 it up hold it up vicky did you nope not vicky rip okay all right there it is folks that is the
09:23:36.260 that is makeup and it is magical all right uh they all look the same literally like before i wrap this 0.81
09:23:42.980 up any thoughts from anybody my did you want to talk some shit or something no i was worried i was 0.97
09:23:48.740 like she wants she may wants to come on back on she's gonna she's gonna talk some shit or something but 1.00
09:23:54.820 no it wasn't that the first time oh okay well that's good all right by the way guys we're hiring for a 0.97
09:24:01.620 new helmet girl we're hiring for a new helmet girl we're hiring uh i think we're trying to get
09:24:06.260 another production assistant we're hiring for a background soldier um yo who does it 0.85
09:24:13.460 you you looking for a job what job we we have a role called background
09:24:18.980 helmet girl okay didn't you guys see it i saw wait what does she do though like i saw her wearing 1.00
09:24:23.220 a helmet in the back so when i get like you you're either it depends like sometimes we'll have
09:24:28.180 an empty seat you might take the mtc on the panel on a given day otherwise you're just kicking in the
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09:24:45.860 that's pretty much it how much is the pay we'll talk after the talk after the show well i'll we can
09:24:50.820 inquire more about yeah we can talk more we can see i feel like it's uh we we recently had a departure
09:24:57.140 from the show um she regrettably started in only fans but we don't talk about we don't the the 0.54
09:25:03.860 woman who may not be named wait what the fuck harry potter voldemort whatever uh no no it's there's 0.94
09:25:09.060 no beef there but uh you know she did depart uh big l big l massive l massive no i'm not hey it's no 0.98
09:25:17.860 shade it's no shade but big l big l well mostly an l on us to be honest but anyways uh we can talk
09:25:26.100 more after the show but we are hiring for for anybody watching or whatever so uh we are hiring
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09:25:37.060 might happen i'll know maybe he's looking for a job so we can buy her some uh okay all right sorry 0.90
09:25:44.500 spurging out here all right uh gg wait fuck gg well played good game to the panel you guys were so fun 0.84
09:25:51.220 thank you guys it was a fun panel uh it was a fun convo i i had a good time i hope you guys enjoyed 0.93
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09:27:22.900 mary did anybody lie about their body count still zero anybody no mine's two one no i'm serious
09:27:32.900 did anybody lie about anything no no my what did you lie about tonight what did you lie about
09:27:40.820 anybody like no lies told body count no sarah stock girls here okay we're definitely not still recording
09:27:50.740 by the way yeah but even yeah we're definitely not still live right now okay did anybody the time
09:27:58.020 we're still going yeah oh that's that's obs is bugged nobody like lied no i genuinely too and they
09:28:06.500 were both my exes i don't hook up i think i've mentioned that before right like yeah definitely
09:28:10.740 not still alive by the way okay uh good night guys we will see you next time all right good night
09:28:27.940 you