Whatever Podcast - MELTDOWN？! Heated Debate w⧸ Feminist! Men Must WORSHIP Women？! She IS The Table？! ｜ Dating Talk #225

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00:04:06.760 introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location occupation education go ahead

00:04:14.360 my name is natasha alhandi shaw i'm 30 from woodier in los angeles california i'm a personal trainer

00:04:21.560 and a la clippers girl and i have a bachelor's in classical music uh child development and education

00:04:29.880 triple major okay and uh you you're from la right like you grew up there border of la and oc in

00:04:37.640 whittier okay la clippers girl so you like cheerleading okay or is it dance squad or i don't know it's like a

00:04:44.200 hype crew so you're like getting the crowd excited passing out t-shirts i did it for the la kings for

00:04:48.840 five years i do it for the clippers this is my third season do you have pom-poms no we do okay

00:04:54.280 all right so there's it's the what is it called clippers what la clippers girl girl that's your

00:05:00.600 what if you had to put it on a resume what do you put on the resume like a hype squad hype yeah squad

00:05:06.440 girl you just put hype squad hype squad yeah hype squad is that it's different from cheerleaders like

00:05:11.880 they have cheerleaders they have like a dance team they have like a kids dance team they have a drum

00:05:16.040 line and then they have like the crew that gets everyone excited all right cool what about you

00:05:21.800 my name is trinidad i'm 32 i'm from the virgin islands but i live here in la now almost like 10

00:05:27.800 years now okay um i act and i do music all right and uh any college or anything like that i graduated

00:05:35.480 it's been so long but i graduated um with a ba in broadcast and media journalistic writing with a

00:05:41.400 minor in photography and psychology for like child development which university it was evergreen state

00:05:48.280 college in uh washington state is that the ever is that the same evergreen brett weinstone yeah i think

00:05:55.320 it is college yeah oh okay they're pretty woke over there hey they're pretty uh liberal yes very

00:06:00.440 liberal it was like eighth in the nation for liberal arts school when i went there and uh you said you're a

00:06:06.520 musician are you like do you sing you rap what do you do i sing i rap i write i do reference tracks

00:06:12.440 for people all right yeah and you have like a pretty interesting piercing can you show it

00:06:18.280 that into this camera right here wow okay nice cool was it painful or no and so you rap you sing we're

00:06:25.320 we're gonna need some bars try give us give us something like you're gonna find a good instrumental for

00:06:33.240 for when these occasions arise brian i'm not going to get it demonetized what's that you need to find

00:06:39.080 a good instrumental oh yeah like a royalty free yes uh how about drop us uh like a rap or something

00:06:49.720 like can you just acapella i mean yeah i could freestyle and i could i'm like i did my mind just

00:06:55.400 go so fast and stuff because like i started thinking of my song i was about to start advertising like

00:06:59.960 go check out my song what's it called what you know what should we pull it up yeah pull it up

00:07:03.880 can we pull it up is that cool yeah that's fine it's called running up racks i'll find it what's

00:07:08.280 going running running up right what does that mean if you had to explain it to an australian

00:07:12.440 like it means like get into the money like stacking it up running up right yeah running up rex okay

00:07:18.680 and then what is a rack is it a thousand dollars yeah i thought it was running up what's a band it's

00:07:26.280 the same band yeah and the g is also a thousand yeah there's a lot of yeah that's why you gotta

00:07:33.480 stack them up you know run them up okay uh i'm gonna search for your music video but i'm gonna

00:07:38.680 while we're doing that we'll have you introduce yourself go ahead hello everybody my name is bna also

00:07:43.640 known as fifth dimension princess i'm 27 years old from los angeles and i'm a personal assistant

00:07:50.360 and i also do music i'm a rapper and a singer okay oh you also have you guys collaborated before

00:08:00.680 any college or anything yes i went to ucsb and i got a bachelor's in global studies

00:08:05.800 okay nice do you also do freestyling no i usually write oh so we couldn't get a rap battle

00:08:11.240 wait sorry i missed this uh age again i'm 27 27 okay and you you're you go by fifth dimension

00:08:19.960 princess yes you skipped to the fourth dimension yes went right to the fifth dimension what so what's the

00:08:26.840 backstory of the name fifth dimension princess yeah so i've always kind of like went by princess

00:08:34.520 like my username used to be 310 princess that's where i was from like that's my area code and then i

00:08:40.680 grew up and kind of really got into spirituality and just decided that fifth dimension kind of went

00:08:46.440 better for me so just went with it have you have you been to the fifth dimension always always okay

00:08:55.560 and do uh have you been to the fourth yes now is there a sixth dimension there's nine i hear there's

00:09:03.240 nine why did you why you stop at five why not go to the ninth it's just the one that's the one

00:09:09.320 yeah and you're the fifth dimension princess yes do you have like um any

00:09:16.840 like powers because of the royalty because you're a princess in the fifth dimension like do you have

00:09:22.360 territory yeah the whole fifth dimension the whole fifth dimension but isn't there like a king and queen

00:09:27.320 or did they die like your parents they're my parents because you're the princess so your parents are

00:09:32.520 the king and the queen um i just it's got more of a name um oh sorry i'm like thinking i'm like way

00:09:39.480 too okay there's not like a whole like family lineage or anything like can you can you drop a bar

00:09:44.040 bars i found love with you in the metaverse i could hold your glocky on in my fendi purse

00:09:49.800 wait the glock in the metaverse will be held in the fendi purse okay all right that was good i

00:09:58.600 liked it yeah i liked it um you must be their agent me yeah the agent for yourself i wish wait um going

00:10:07.560 to you it's trendad right yes i geeked or do you that that is one of them but it was running i said

00:10:14.680 running up racks running up racks we shouldn't okay i'll look you could do either one though but in

00:10:19.000 geeks i'm gonna be the second verse for that one i i collab with my friend on that one sure um here

00:10:24.040 we'll come to that in a sec what uh no hold on hold on hold on go ahead i thought that was for me

00:10:30.920 i'm like wait i'm not a rapper um my name is callie with a k i'm from new york um what part uh spanish

00:10:40.200 harlem okay i'm 100 years old no i'm 35 and i went to thank you i went to art school

00:10:48.920 in new york nyu okay how long you've been in california uh six years now six years okay all

00:10:57.000 right and you said you went to art school okay any like uh did you get a bachelor's is it the same

00:11:05.000 yeah like in arts or painting or uh it was mostly film school film school okay very cool what about

00:11:11.240 you my name is jill i live in pennsylvania i'm 25 and i for work i am self-employed with a startup

00:11:20.920 coffee truck business that i have and i went to school for business bachelor's all right very cool

00:11:27.960 um i'm malena i'm 22 i'm a personal training trainer um a reiki master and i make indie music

00:11:39.720 all right any college um for personal training yeah okay and uh reiki reiki uh can you demonstrate

00:11:48.840 something um like can you do it on the mic certain symbols i could show you like one of the symbols

00:11:55.000 to like activate it you're supposed to do choku rei which is like is that like a sex act or something

00:12:02.280 and then say hey key would be

00:12:07.320 and then you do choku rei again and that's supposed to like activate it and start it and then you

00:12:12.600 you what do you do um it's like in the air and then you would start i usually start with like

00:12:19.240 forehead and then i go from like one hand on the forehead and then focus on each chakra so it's

00:12:25.000 you're not actually touching them you're you're above them um most of the time above them sometimes

00:12:31.240 i'll touch them but only like below the knees because i find it helpful to like if you're not

00:12:35.000 touching them you have to like make any noises or what do you have to do um you're just like hovering

00:12:40.920 above and um when you're on like the receiving end of it usually it feels like kind of hot and tingly

00:12:46.440 yeah and they're not touching you nope okay yeah interesting

00:12:55.160 is the audio muted oh i don't know why it's not true um sorry metro matt i don't know why i didn't

00:13:05.000 trigger but that's a dude but you sent it in five minutes ago so i don't

00:13:13.080 is somebody

00:13:16.440 somebody here like uh

00:13:22.040 you know you know what i mean

00:13:25.720 i don't know why it's not that didn't trigger i'll fix it um

00:13:30.600 okay darkavia go ahead um my name is darkavia i'm 23 i'm a babysitter and i don't go to school

00:13:38.920 all right jake what about you good to be back jake 29 years old still a rolling stone uh have a

00:13:46.760 youtube channel rattlesnake tv podcast the reality-based podcast travel channel rattlesnake

00:13:52.120 travel we've just today released a video of me shooting guns at andrew's farm which you guys might

00:13:56.440 enjoy and andrew and i have a show coming out called not one step back so keep your eye out for

00:14:01.560 it very cool very cool all right uh that's everybody's uh intro we're gonna get everybody's

00:14:08.760 relationship status here so what's your current relationship status if you're single how long have

00:14:15.640 you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead

00:14:19.960 i am single i have always been single i've dated in college and after but never an official

00:14:27.720 relationship so the whole time you've never had a relationship uh what's the longest period of time

00:14:34.200 that you've seen a guy the same guy like off and on for like a year and a half almost two

00:14:41.320 okay um how many times was it off and on too many like more than 10 no uh like probably four four

00:14:52.680 times total and how long were the breaks typically would they vary in length yeah uh the first one

00:14:58.200 maybe like two months and then maybe less than that each time but still like substantial breaks and

00:15:04.760 so when you said it was between a year and a half and two years was that uh like two calendar

00:15:10.520 years or are you saying like in total that's how long okay yeah got it okay so this was maybe over

00:15:17.240 the course of three years then no uh like december all the way around and then back to an october

00:15:24.680 so almost two years okay and when it was off who would initiate that um both the first time him but

00:15:34.840 sometimes me sometimes him okay uh and then who would be the one reaching back out trying to get

00:15:41.240 it back on always him okay and uh i guess when you've been single your entire life uh did you call

00:15:48.840 this guy your boyfriend no and you've never called anybody your boyfriend no okay have you been proposed

00:15:54.680 too no have uh have you said i love you to anybody no has anybody said i love you to you yes okay the

00:16:02.600 guy several times yes the two-year guy or whatever okay yeah many multiple multiple men have said i love

00:16:09.240 you yes like seriously though like they say it seriously in a serious sense yeah okay and then how do you

00:16:16.680 respond uncomfortably give them the thanks babe no like thank you for sharing that with me you give

00:16:24.440 them the thanks babe yeah i called it thank you thanks yeah and then at that point i usually do end

00:16:30.600 it because if i'm not feeling it i'm not going to say it but i also don't want to lead them on to think

00:16:34.600 that i think at that point you would know if you're almost there or if you're never going to be there

00:16:39.720 and i know that i'm never going to be there with those people with those people okay uh when's the last time

00:16:45.320 you've been i guess not in a relationship but involved with a man in a romantic or sexual sense

00:16:53.960 uh probably like two three months two three months ago yeah okay got it all right what about you

00:17:02.760 can you ask the questions again relationship status if you're single how long have you been

00:17:07.080 single and longest relationship okay so i'm single um for a few years now three years four years yeah

00:17:14.120 about yeah which one three to five somewhere around there because like i talked to people

00:17:18.520 between time but you know nothing like where it's uh sure yeah longest relationship like three years

00:17:24.920 three years yeah ever married no any kids no the three-year relationship who broke up with you

00:17:31.320 i did okay and was that the one that ended like four years ago or whatever yeah all right and uh

00:17:38.920 uh you're single currently so there's no guys in the picture i mean there's always people in the

00:17:46.840 picture but like yeah okay what what do you have in the picture currently a couple guys no no i

00:17:52.600 wouldn't say like a roster i'm like i mean i did who but no no no i don't have like a roster i mean

00:17:58.840 i got like my favorite people but like what does that mean like someone that trumps like other people so

00:18:05.240 like if they're around then they're obviously gonna they get priority yes exactly there's a hierarchy

00:18:11.800 yes exactly and how many uh how many total people are there like there's your you've got a main piece

00:18:18.440 and some side side hose i don't have no i don't have no means everybody's on the same playing field

00:18:23.480 so you said there was a there's like a priority but yeah that's when they're like in like i might

00:18:27.800 like some number one side yeah there's not a main though because there's no relation you have to

00:18:33.000 have like be in a relationship because like when you have a main it's like you're in that relationship

00:18:38.360 with them that's your main and then you're not exclusive right yes exactly yeah exactly okay and uh

00:18:44.440 but so is it like of the you know some of these guys that you're in a situationship or just kind of

00:18:50.200 talking to is it three guys four guys yeah it depends on where i'm at like if you're in like

00:18:57.240 if i'm here yeah like if i'm in la okay so you got hose in different area codes something like that

00:19:05.240 so how many la because you're you live in la how many la pieces do you have i don't know maybe like

00:19:13.560 three or four three three or four okay uh vegas anything in vegas i'm actually yeah i probably

00:19:20.120 have somebody if i went to vegas and i posted like you know a story and it's like i'm here

00:19:24.520 somebody's gonna come out the cut like yo i'm here too boom easy new york new york yeah for sure

00:19:29.960 for sure miami yes texas uh yeah actually montana no you gotta step it up you are slacking in montana

00:19:39.960 what get get with the program okay these are rookie numbers um so okay we got miami how many in miami

00:19:49.560 like florida is different miami like one two you're more of like a uh like uh what's it called 0.98

00:19:57.080 daytona beach gal like you don't fuck with miami no i love miami i love miami like the panhandle it's 0.99

00:20:03.720 just like um yeah it's just i don't know are you international yes like you got okay 0.99

00:20:10.200 mexico nothing in mexico i don't have nothing in mexico nothing in mexico no nothing in mexico

00:20:17.880 what countries do you have anything in egypt no egyptians no i had i used to i used to

00:20:23.800 dubai um two two in dubai yes you gotta keep paris yeah i love paris paris how many in paris just one

00:20:32.680 just one what just give us the list because i'm i'm guessing that's so many is it a frenchman in

00:20:39.480 paris or uh he arabic way in paris the so they're french arabic i guess because they're egyptian

00:20:45.960 moroccan but from paris oh okay do uh do you have what about the the different continents like anybody in

00:20:53.000 asia no i don't think no russia well wait this military count they might be in asia like in

00:20:59.240 in okinawa or something yeah i think like japan or something like that yeah so that that counts

00:21:04.680 they're military so that counts okay uh and um what about antarctica like a research scientist or

00:21:14.520 something no but if you know one tell them call i will get you hooked up okay um oh damien let's

00:21:20.280 pull up the her rap song we're gonna skip ahead though to the best part oh you didn't find running

00:21:28.120 up racks we'll we'll get that going yo just gerald thanks for the gift of 20 whatever memberships

00:21:32.600 thank you gerald appreciate it man

00:21:44.520 thank you

00:22:14.520 find the racks okay so when you start running it's no g at the end it's just like the apostrophe

00:22:39.640 so that might help but it's it's just uh on her youtube channel just click on the link yeah it is

00:22:43.960 on my channel uh oh thank you thank you eric appreciate it man thank you eric uh guys tts is 100

00:22:51.640 get it in like the video also what's that oh yeah

00:23:09.640 i think it's on my screen

00:23:14.520 uh

00:23:18.920 um

00:23:31.960 uh

00:23:39.640 That's dope. 0.93

00:24:06.820 Thank you.

00:24:07.760 Thank you.

00:24:08.160 Oh, cool.

00:24:11.440 That's awesome.

00:24:12.980 I was vibing.

00:24:14.620 Yeah?

00:24:15.100 I was vibing.

00:24:16.120 I love that.

00:24:17.160 I appreciate it.

00:24:18.080 Sweet.

00:24:18.580 So, okay.

00:24:19.980 Been single for four years, but you got, you know, you got a couple, you know, some BZs. 1.00

00:24:26.380 Yeah, I'm a little thing. 1.00

00:24:26.920 I'm a little shit. 1.00

00:24:28.920 What about you? 1.00

00:24:30.380 So, I'm actually in a relationship.

00:24:32.540 We got together in November of last year.

00:24:34.800 And before that, my longest relationship was four years.

00:24:40.540 All right.

00:24:42.380 And you said November of 2024?

00:24:45.040 Yes.

00:24:45.400 So, it's like been three months or so.

00:24:47.580 Okay.

00:24:48.460 And your longest relationship, four years.

00:24:50.860 Who broke up with who?

00:24:51.900 I broke up with him.

00:24:52.900 All right.

00:24:54.000 What about you?

00:24:55.740 I'm single probably for like two years now.

00:24:59.400 I was engaged and then I wasn't.

00:25:03.100 Okay.

00:25:03.860 Longest relationship?

00:25:05.460 Three years.

00:25:06.680 Was that the engagement guy or no?

00:25:09.620 No, I was actually married to that guy.

00:25:12.800 The three years.

00:25:13.240 Oh, you were married?

00:25:14.240 Yeah.

00:25:14.560 You've been married just once though?

00:25:15.820 Just once.

00:25:16.520 Okay.

00:25:17.280 Engaged once.

00:25:18.500 Okay.

00:25:19.920 Who initiated the divorce? 0.97

00:25:24.920 I think I did, but it was mutual towards the end.

00:25:30.420 Mutual towards the end.

00:25:32.120 Okay.

00:25:32.800 Interesting.

00:25:34.080 Huh.

00:25:34.180 I don't know why it's not triggering.

00:25:38.800 Okay.

00:25:39.760 Hold on.

00:25:40.420 I'll skip that.

00:25:41.140 I'll get back to it.

00:25:41.860 Metro, Matt.

00:25:42.340 I don't know why it's not working.

00:25:44.600 And, oh, orientation for everybody?

00:25:48.700 I forgot to ask that.

00:25:49.920 Like straight by?

00:25:50.980 Oh, I'm straight.

00:25:51.760 I'm straight.

00:25:52.080 Straight.

00:25:52.260 Straight.

00:25:52.760 Straight.

00:25:53.380 Straight.

00:25:53.800 Okay.

00:25:54.240 What about you?

00:25:56.000 I've been, I'm single.

00:25:57.360 My longest relationship was, I don't know, maybe four years.

00:26:00.660 And that was maybe two, or two years ago.

00:26:08.560 Yeah.

00:26:11.200 Straight gay? 0.91

00:26:12.140 Wait, did we watch that whole thing and there was no audio?

00:26:15.460 That's what I said, yeah.

00:26:16.580 How did you not?

00:26:17.680 Okay.

00:26:18.040 I mean, I don't have the shadow one.

00:26:19.900 Huh?

00:26:20.600 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:26:21.580 Fuck. 1.00

00:26:22.140 Okay. 1.00

00:26:22.420 Apparently the audio was not working.

00:26:23.980 I don't know why.

00:26:24.940 The whole time?

00:26:25.480 So you were just vibing to nothing.

00:26:27.260 It's a shame.

00:26:28.280 That is very upsetting.

00:26:30.660 Okay.

00:26:33.180 Sorry, guys.

00:26:35.740 Okay.

00:26:36.540 Relationship status.

00:26:37.580 Go ahead.

00:26:38.040 No, you.

00:26:38.600 I missed it.

00:26:39.260 I wasn't paying attention.

00:26:40.560 I'm single.

00:26:41.200 I've been single for a couple years now.

00:26:42.960 My longest relationship was three, four years.

00:26:47.220 And that ended a couple years ago.

00:26:50.100 Almost two, I think.

00:26:51.740 Okay.

00:26:52.380 Who broke up with who?

00:26:53.700 We were married.

00:26:55.580 I would say I initiated the divorce.

00:26:58.120 Okay.

00:26:59.600 And you were married for how long?

00:27:05.200 Technically, I guess a year and some change.

00:27:09.240 We lived together for nine months and then he deployed.

00:27:13.040 Got it.

00:27:13.660 Okay.

00:27:14.120 Why did you divorce him?

00:27:17.120 There was some unfaithfulness and some other things that went on that I was not safe.

00:27:23.060 So.

00:27:23.360 How many times did you cheat on him?

00:27:25.380 Oh, no.

00:27:25.860 Not on my end.

00:27:27.200 Oh, my bad.

00:27:28.540 That's okay.

00:27:29.140 Because you said.

00:27:30.360 Yeah.

00:27:30.760 No.

00:27:31.680 All right.

00:27:32.260 While he was deployed?

00:27:34.140 Some.

00:27:34.900 Some before, some after.

00:27:35.920 Where was he deployed?

00:27:37.040 He was deployed in, oh, my gosh.

00:27:43.680 Iudid?

00:27:44.640 Iraq? 0.57

00:27:45.500 No.

00:27:46.240 It's so long ago.

00:27:48.020 Whereabouts in the world is it?

00:27:50.340 Outside of Turkey.

00:27:50.940 Give me a sec, Metro, Matt.

00:27:52.920 In Turkey or outside of Turkey?

00:27:54.900 Like, next to.

00:27:55.360 In Syria?

00:27:56.120 Next to, in between Russia and.

00:27:58.740 Azerbaijan?

00:27:59.700 Mm-mm.

00:28:00.660 It's Iudid, I think, is the name of the, the, or the location where he was in the base.

00:28:06.520 Birth control.

00:28:07.260 So, between Turkey and Turkey.

00:28:08.140 No.

00:28:08.160 Well, I always, like, mix up the, the, the letters.

00:28:11.520 It could have been.

00:28:12.560 Was it the Middle East?

00:28:13.440 Or was it?

00:28:13.540 Yeah, yeah.

00:28:13.880 It was the Middle East. 0.88

00:28:14.440 Was it between Russia and Turkey?

00:28:16.000 Mm-hmm.

00:28:16.440 I think so.

00:28:17.140 Wait.

00:28:17.560 Was it Georgia?

00:28:18.100 Was it Operation Iraqi Freedom?

00:28:20.020 No.

00:28:20.420 He was, it was, uh, no.

00:28:22.800 He was in the reserves.

00:28:24.180 He deployed.

00:28:24.720 Was it Operation Enduring Freedom?

00:28:26.820 No.

00:28:27.980 Which one?

00:28:28.580 Okay.

00:28:29.020 All right.

00:28:29.320 I don't know.

00:28:30.120 He was in Afghanistan?

00:28:31.200 No, no, no, no.

00:28:34.540 He was close.

00:28:35.660 You were married to him and you didn't know about his military career?

00:28:39.040 No, he, I do know about his military career.

00:28:41.180 I know he was in the, um, the Air Force.

00:28:44.060 And then he, he was in the reserve, so we only had to do the weekend a month.

00:28:47.880 And then he went overseas, um, for nine months.

00:28:51.660 Okay.

00:28:52.500 All right.

00:28:53.640 Uh, what about you?

00:28:56.300 Um, single.

00:28:57.180 I've been seeing one person.

00:28:59.320 The same as the last time I was on.

00:29:02.800 Okay.

00:29:03.460 Uh, how long have you been seeing this person?

00:29:06.200 Um, on and off since, like, August?

00:29:13.860 Um, but it's been, like, consistent since, like, October.

00:29:17.480 Um, and, uh, longest relationship?

00:29:25.740 Um, year and a half.

00:29:27.980 All right.

00:29:29.480 When did that end?

00:29:32.460 End of 2023.

00:29:35.820 Who broke up with who?

00:29:36.860 He broke up with me.

00:29:37.900 Okay.

00:29:38.260 Darkavia, what about you?

00:29:40.300 Um, I'm currently single.

00:29:42.740 I have two longest relationships.

00:29:44.660 Only two I've ever been in.

00:29:46.160 Um, first one was five years.

00:29:48.840 Second one was four years.

00:29:51.140 And, no, I'm currently not seeing or talking to anyone.

00:29:54.020 What about, uh, the photographer guy?

00:29:57.520 Yeah, that one, uh, we, I just recently cut that off.

00:30:02.520 Okay.

00:30:03.160 All right.

00:30:04.200 Uh, Jake, what about you?

00:30:06.260 Longest one was a year and a half.

00:30:07.720 I'm currently dating to marry.

00:30:09.640 All right.

00:30:10.280 And, and are you, you're single, or? 1.00

00:30:13.140 If I told you, Brian, I'd have to kill you. 1.00

00:30:15.440 Yeah. 1.00

00:30:17.080 Okay.

00:30:18.360 Uh.

00:30:18.680 Not bad.

00:30:19.460 So you're, uh, you're, what do I put, what do I write down, Jake?

00:30:25.920 I, I gotta write something down.

00:30:27.360 I'm just gonna say, I'm just gonna say, um, currently.

00:30:33.460 A lot of psychos on the internet say that.

00:30:35.460 I'll say, uh, save it.

00:30:40.280 Save himself.

00:30:41.320 Yes.

00:30:41.660 For Jesus.

00:30:42.920 Perfect.

00:30:43.500 There we go.

00:30:44.300 Okay.

00:30:45.320 All right.

00:30:45.980 Uh, so I need to deal with some very problematic audio issues we're having.

00:30:52.460 So we're gonna, uh, Jake, do you have a question?

00:30:57.000 Can you take over for like a minute?

00:30:58.820 So if you girls were at an interview, right?

00:31:02.900 And there was a guy there and he is, he's him, right?

00:31:05.800 He's the one.

00:31:06.580 But there's 50 other women. 1.00

00:31:08.020 And you have to go into this interview, this audition and sell yourself to make yourself

00:31:12.640 different from these 50 other women.

00:31:14.360 What would you do?

00:31:17.160 Me first.

00:31:18.140 You're the first.

00:31:19.620 Uh, I personally don't like that strategy at all because I, in any normal situation.

00:31:24.420 So the hypothetical is that this is what the situation is.

00:31:27.180 Right.

00:31:27.420 You have to sell yourself.

00:31:29.000 And this guy is, is everything you've ever wanted.

00:31:31.980 He's him.

00:31:32.960 And you have to compete with these women. 1.00

00:31:34.580 What, how would you sell yourself?

00:31:35.640 Like the bachelor.

00:31:36.800 Yeah.

00:31:36.980 I wouldn't do that.

00:31:37.800 That's what I would.

00:31:38.300 But in the hypothetical, you are going to do that.

00:31:40.360 So if you had to, in the hypothetical, what would you say?

00:31:45.260 I, I, I wouldn't.

00:31:47.860 That's what I'm, I, I, no.

00:31:49.420 Nothing to add?

00:31:49.960 Okay.

00:31:50.260 Okay.

00:31:51.680 I'm like, I feel, I feel Natasha on that because.

00:31:54.300 No, no.

00:31:54.640 You have to, have to engage with the hypothetical or else it's just, it's just boring.

00:31:57.420 I'm, I'm just, I don't think of something, but it's like, I mean, I'm me.

00:32:03.680 So, and if he's perfect for me, he'll be mine.

00:32:08.160 Okay.

00:32:08.840 Next one.

00:32:09.680 I probably try to go in with like a performance, um, singing a song, setting the vibe because

00:32:16.600 that's what it's all about, the vibe for me.

00:32:18.960 So, yeah.

00:32:19.800 So you think that you, the way that you would sell yourself is, is the vibe?

00:32:23.160 You'd have the vibe?

00:32:24.060 Yes.

00:32:24.400 Like cute outfit, like nice song.

00:32:28.160 But if I, if I heard that, I'd probably think, okay, maybe the vibe's there, but like, who

00:32:31.540 are you?

00:32:32.060 Like what, what's, what's special about you?

00:32:33.900 Um, I would say I'm really, really kind, sweet and funny.

00:32:38.380 I love being able to laugh with somebody and being very respectful overall.

00:32:43.400 Okay.

00:32:43.820 How about yourself?

00:32:45.300 Uh, I would probably bring some Dominican food to seal the deal.

00:32:50.240 But how would you sell yourself though, besides the food?

00:32:52.840 I think the food will do all the talking because it's going to be so good.

00:32:57.220 He's going to be like, oh, I need this woman in my life because if the, you know what they 1.00

00:33:01.180 say, if the food is good, the vagina. 1.00

00:33:04.620 Vagina. 1.00

00:33:05.220 Is that what they say?

00:33:06.480 I don't know.

00:33:06.780 Right?

00:33:07.160 That's what they do.

00:33:07.940 I've seen some grandmas who cook a mean, mean dish. 1.00

00:33:10.860 So they probably do have one good.

00:33:12.440 Doesn't necessarily correlate.

00:33:13.860 Because you didn't try it.

00:33:15.360 I didn't try it.

00:33:17.000 That's true.

00:33:17.660 It's unfalsifiable.

00:33:19.360 They are grandma.

00:33:20.560 Uh, I probably come with like a full resume of everything that I would be able to give

00:33:25.480 him or everything that I do or can do.

00:33:28.560 And then, um, let him read over that.

00:33:31.200 And then, um, yeah, I'm going back.

00:33:34.780 What would be on the resume?

00:33:35.760 What would be some of the key points?

00:33:36.780 Uh, I would, I would list things like my beliefs, my core values, uh, what I want in

00:33:43.820 my future and, uh, the things that I want to see in my husband.

00:33:49.120 And then I would, um, you know, kind of list out how I communicate and how I, um, uh, yeah,

00:33:57.280 communicate, resolve conflicts, all those things.

00:33:59.660 And what are some of the beliefs and core values that you'd list?

00:34:02.320 So I am a Christian.

00:34:03.700 I, um, believe I want, I would say that I, um, in church, like I want to go to church.

00:34:11.120 I, I read my Bible.

00:34:12.980 I would want a family.

00:34:15.240 Um, I want someone who's loyal and trustworthy and, um, well, I would be loyal and trustworthy

00:34:21.940 as well.

00:34:22.820 Um, other practical things would be like cooking, cleaning, um, uh, taking care of the housework

00:34:30.820 and, and then, um, also, you know, on the communication side, I would, um, you know, respect his space

00:34:39.660 if he needed it.

00:34:40.520 I would be sure to, um, communicate if there's something on my end that I don't have, that

00:34:46.340 I have an issue with, uh, not just like sulking around and not communicating that.

00:34:50.720 So.

00:34:51.040 Cool.

00:34:51.520 All right.

00:34:51.920 And yourself?

00:34:52.340 Um, I would agree that I think if they're like the right person for me, it would just

00:34:57.840 happen.

00:34:58.360 But if hypothetically I had to, I would speak about, um, my accomplishments, like my goals

00:35:06.100 long-term in life and definitely, um, the importance of faith for me.

00:35:10.860 And what do you mean by faith?

00:35:12.260 Um, I wouldn't necessarily call myself Christian cause I also believe in like Buddha and, um,

00:35:22.840 obviously like spirituality.

00:35:24.040 You believe in Buddha?

00:35:25.100 As in you believe that he was a man that existed or something beyond that?

00:35:28.780 Um, his teachings were also just that he existed, but I also believe in Jesus and, um, the majority

00:35:36.800 of the Bible.

00:35:37.240 So do you believe that Buddha is a prophet or what do you, do you believe that Buddha was

00:35:40.060 just a good guy?

00:35:40.580 I believe that, um, we're all from the same consciousness.

00:35:44.620 So I think, um, that Buddha is similar to Jesus in the sense that it was another prophet.

00:35:51.860 So you don't believe that Jesus is God?

00:35:54.740 I believe that Jesus and Buddha are God.

00:35:58.220 So you believe that everyone's God?

00:35:59.420 Yes.

00:35:59.660 So you're like a Hindu? 0.93

00:36:01.200 Yeah.

00:36:01.720 Okay.

00:36:03.820 Um, uh, I don't know.

00:36:09.260 That's like, see, like for me in this situation, I'm a dominant.

00:36:14.420 So I don't think I would ever try to try to impress a man in a way that I-

00:36:20.080 What do you mean by you're a dominant?

00:36:21.360 I'm a, I'm a dom-fim. 0.73

00:36:23.100 Like I like being in control.

00:36:24.940 So like having the, giving the, in this scenario that you've given, it gives me saying that

00:36:31.140 this man has the lot of the power and it kind of turns me off by this scenario.

00:36:36.760 So I would rather be the person in the room with 50 other men and they would have to compete 0.97

00:36:41.720 for me.

00:36:42.640 That's what I mean.

00:36:44.100 Period, girl. 0.95

00:36:45.280 Okay.

00:36:45.640 So what do you guys think would be the factors that he's looking, can I go around again?

00:36:50.400 Yep.

00:36:51.040 What do you think he would be looking for?

00:36:52.920 Mr. Mr. Perfect?

00:36:54.560 Like Mr. Perfect for me?

00:36:56.120 No.

00:36:56.380 Yeah.

00:36:56.640 I mean the, the ideal guy, he's, you know, six foot four, he's handsome.

00:37:00.400 He's got a good family.

00:37:01.320 He's got good values, everything.

00:37:02.500 What's he looking for?

00:37:03.400 Like high value, I think looks different to everybody, but to me it's somebody who's very

00:37:07.660 family oriented, somebody who is honest and really considers you in their actions, which

00:37:13.360 I think includes like not cheating on you, being considerate of like how you will play

00:37:18.340 into their life in the longterm.

00:37:19.800 I think somebody who considers you, that's like the highest form of love.

00:37:22.760 No, no, no.

00:37:22.780 What do you think he's looking for?

00:37:25.540 I mean, the same thing.

00:37:26.960 If we're compatible, you would have to be giving the same thing that they're giving you.

00:37:30.180 Not necessarily your, your perfect guy, but just in like the sort of like the, the

00:37:34.880 prototype of, of a perfect guy.

00:37:36.900 What, what, what are the particular things that you think he'll be looking for?

00:37:39.140 Like physical attributes?

00:37:39.980 Everything.

00:37:41.780 Consideration.

00:37:42.180 Um, I prefer a man who's bigger.

00:37:44.420 I like, like a big, hairy style.

00:37:46.320 You keep on saying that, but what, what you like, what do you think he's looking for?

00:37:51.320 Like personality wise?

00:37:53.840 What do you think he's looking for in terms of looks, in terms of values, in terms of

00:37:57.220 what you can bring to his life?

00:37:58.880 Uh, somebody that would be like a nurturer, somebody that can bring him like a family life.

00:38:04.180 If he is in a position that is like more, uh, traditional, I think that that is what they

00:38:09.720 would be looking for.

00:38:10.600 I think it depends.

00:38:11.780 Everybody's very different.

00:38:12.580 Some people like traditional values.

00:38:13.860 Some people don't.

00:38:14.740 Okay.

00:38:15.100 Next one. 0.99

00:38:17.740 Um, this is a guy who's really got his shit together. 0.98

00:38:19.600 Like, what do you think he's going to, he's a busy guy, very successful. 0.99

00:38:22.080 What's he going to be looking for?

00:38:23.240 So he's a busy guy or like, he's a, he's a busy guy, successful on his grind.

00:38:27.160 He's handsome.

00:38:27.660 He's got a lot of women chasing him. 1.00

00:38:29.080 What's he going to be looking for?

00:38:30.300 Um, probably someone understanding.

00:38:32.000 Cause if you're busy, usually you don't have a lot of time to like, you know, like someone

00:38:36.580 that's good at communicating because also if you're busy, you need someone that's like,

00:38:41.020 you have to be on like the same page with your significant other.

00:38:44.080 Um, maybe someone who's more serious, um, stable, something like that.

00:38:50.100 I think probably somebody feminine and sweet and submissive kind of. 0.99

00:38:55.220 Uh, yeah, someone hot, you know, someone that, uh, is going to understand them when they

00:39:03.100 get home after a busy day.

00:39:05.220 Mm-hmm.

00:39:06.340 Yeah.

00:39:06.820 If he's got 50 women in the room, he's probably going to look for the most physically attractive 1.00

00:39:11.260 along with the most feminine and the most submissive and the most respectful.

00:39:17.740 I would say someone that would raise his children with faith, um, nurturer, stable,

00:39:25.220 um, which I think is why I'm casually dating right now because I don't think that I'm that

00:39:32.300 woman yet for the perfect guy. 0.88

00:39:34.480 Yeah.

00:39:35.040 Yeah.

00:39:35.680 Well, you want a guy who believes in Jesus, Buddha and Hinduism, hey?

00:39:39.760 Um, I don't really care.

00:39:40.760 I just want them to have faith in general.

00:39:42.720 I don't care which one. 0.98

00:39:43.600 He wants you to kick him in the nuts or something? 0.99

00:39:46.280 Huh? 0.99

00:39:46.880 What do you think he wants?

00:39:48.500 Um, I, I honestly, I agree with all the women here that I do believe that a genuine,

00:39:53.900 uh, like a genuine men, men at like a whole, all of them want a traditional woman basically

00:39:59.880 that unlike understand what men should be.

00:40:03.320 Cause they do have more of a mindset that men are the caregivers and then women are the

00:40:10.580 ones that support them in a way.

00:40:13.120 And for like, that's why I just like, I'm just not that.

00:40:17.480 I think, yeah, I mean, what, like the, the kind of guy you're, so you saying that you

00:40:23.260 like to project some sort of dominance by a man, like what kind of a dude would accept 0.69

00:40:27.720 that?

00:40:28.480 That's, that's why it's, um, there's, I have most, I have met men that are like that, but

00:40:34.020 they do, obviously men do have that, you know, very masculine there where they try to overcome

00:40:40.220 you.

00:40:41.120 So where I've noticed in relationships or try to date that it becomes like in battle,

00:40:46.440 like it's not, it's kind of hard being in relationships with me because I do have that

00:40:51.240 mindset.

00:40:51.940 Yeah.

00:40:52.100 So I think women like you, you just haven't quite realized why you do that yet. 1.00

00:40:55.100 Yeah.

00:40:55.400 And the reason why I'd say that you do that is because it's a wall that you put up and

00:40:58.760 to say that I want the most masculine guy.

00:41:01.220 That's what a lot of people believe that I have this wall up or where women have this 1.00

00:41:05.680 thing, but I just.

00:41:06.920 It's in your nature, every fiber of your being wants a man who's going to be a leader, masculine,

00:41:10.780 protecting you, provide for you.

00:41:12.400 So you don't essentially want to dominate a man.

00:41:14.380 You want to, it's a bad strategy if I'll say so, but you're going to put up this front

00:41:18.340 to say, I'm going to give you an attitude and you have to put me in my place.

00:41:21.540 And then eventually if you put me in my place, maybe I'll submit to you.

00:41:24.260 No, that's not, I'm like, I'm willing, like I, I can be very submissive to a man that

00:41:29.000 will understand that like there's boundaries for me as a dom femme, like there is, like I will

00:41:36.160 totally submit to a man, but there's also where you have to be submissive to me as well.

00:41:41.360 Like it has to be like a very understanding arrangement that I would have with a man.

00:41:47.040 In what sense does he have to be submissive to you?

00:41:48.640 I would say that like in the point where it's not, he cannot be controlling in a way,

00:41:53.400 because I know I wouldn't be controlling as a, even as a dominant person.

00:41:58.000 I would just be like when somebody listens, because I would listen to them, it has to

00:42:02.540 be like a win-win type of situation.

00:42:04.240 Like I cannot go for men that think, oh, I'm the man, I can control you because this is

00:42:09.440 how women should be. 1.00

00:42:10.940 Can you think of any other situations in life where there are two leaders?

00:42:17.100 Two leaders.

00:42:18.240 I would say.

00:42:20.280 Every team sport.

00:42:21.700 In a team sport?

00:42:22.420 Every team sport has multiple captains.

00:42:24.740 All of the NHL has multiple co-captains.

00:42:30.280 Occasionally in team sports, you will get multiple captains, but there's still a hierarchy.

00:42:33.800 So, I mean, that person is still the leader.

00:42:36.000 And then at the, above them though, you've got the coach.

00:42:38.840 Didn't she have a king? 0.94

00:42:39.560 So there's not normally two coaches.

00:42:41.400 No.

00:42:42.220 Right?

00:42:42.660 King consort.

00:42:44.440 That's what I was thinking.

00:42:45.060 Anyways, there's not normally two coaches though, right?

00:42:48.000 So you've got the team sport.

00:42:49.220 There might be two captains.

00:42:50.200 There might be a co-captain, but then above them is the coach.

00:42:52.360 The coach calls the shots, right?

00:42:55.140 I mean, in theory, multiple teams have several coaches.

00:42:58.220 I mean, there's not like a hierarchy of coaches.

00:42:59.860 One of them is the back coach.

00:43:00.860 One of them is the defensive coach, whatever, whatever.

00:43:02.720 But then there's the coach at the top who calls the shots, right?

00:43:05.700 And it's the same with CEOs.

00:43:07.060 It's the same with kings.

00:43:08.360 You don't get two kings in a kingdom.

00:43:10.380 So the reason why we have this is because human beings naturally order themselves into hierarchies.

00:43:15.460 And it's the same with a relationship.

00:43:17.260 If you want a relationship where you guys are both the boss, essentially, by the way, that just means that you're the boss.

00:43:21.220 Because if you can tell a man when you're going to be submissive and when you're going to be not submissive, that means you're the boss.

00:43:27.280 But yeah, it's just like, it's just like, I just can't, like, I just don't like the mindset that men have where they have to think that they have to be that way with women.

00:43:37.160 And it's like, I don't know.

00:43:40.240 I just, I don't like it.

00:43:41.720 I might as well just be gay, honestly.

00:43:44.480 I think if a man does it in the proper way, like respectfully and makes you feel safe, then even when you are a super dominant woman, then you can allow yourself to feel submissive.

00:43:53.160 Exactly.

00:43:53.400 And be submissive to that partner.

00:43:55.900 But in general, your personality is more dominant.

00:43:57.760 That doesn't mean that you're now not a dominant person.

00:44:00.260 You're just not dominant with that person.

00:44:01.840 Yeah.

00:44:02.020 And I just, I don't mean, like, being dominant by giving attitude or anything like that.

00:44:05.960 I just, I just, like.

00:44:07.480 You really?

00:44:07.940 You don't give attitude?

00:44:09.220 I'm a sassy, I'm a very sassy person.

00:44:11.420 Give me a break.

00:44:12.060 I'm a very sassy person.

00:44:13.660 But it's also that I just, like, I'm just in that realm, like, I think, like a man, I guess, in a way.

00:44:21.280 But I just don't want to feel like I'm being triumphed over, like, men feel like they have to try to dominate me because that's what men do, basically.

00:44:30.180 Yeah.

00:44:30.520 I want to have the word in a relationship as well.

00:44:32.240 Yeah, it's something that, like, modern women all have to deal with, this idea that submission is oppression when it's not actually. 1.00

00:44:40.300 I like to use the Mufasa reference.

00:44:42.680 If you watch The Lion King, is Mufasa an oppressive leader?

00:44:46.780 Everyone loves Mufasa.

00:44:48.340 But he's the boss.

00:44:49.320 Everyone listens to Mufasa.

00:44:50.480 But he's a benevolent king.

00:44:51.940 It's an archetype.

00:44:53.020 You've got the, then you've got Scar, who's an evil king, and Mufasa, who's a benevolent king.

00:44:57.580 So if you find a Mufasa, you know, maybe you wouldn't mind being, which is life's name.

00:45:03.920 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

00:45:04.180 I'm saying that there is someone out there for me that has the understanding that they're okay with who I am as a woman and how that, and not just because I can't be submissive, I definitely can.

00:45:16.180 In my relationships, I had to pull that role off because they were very dominant, and I did it for a long time.

00:45:21.520 And I just knew that wasn't me.

00:45:23.140 Like, it was really hard for me to be that submissive, in a way.

00:45:28.480 Like, a part of me just felt like I always pretended to be someone I'm not.

00:45:32.240 Yeah, the problem is, though, if you went into a relationship and you were like, look, I'm dominant, I want to dominate you, and he goes, okay, sweet, step on my nuts.

00:45:40.380 No, nothing like that.

00:45:41.400 Whatever these guys want you to do to them.

00:45:43.300 I'm submissive in the bedroom, that's for sure.

00:45:45.300 They always are.

00:45:46.720 Yeah, so if you wanted to go into that sort of relationship,

00:45:51.520 then you would end up hating him and resenting him.

00:45:54.620 It happens every single time. 0.91

00:45:56.160 These women, they act like they're all feminist, they want to dominate a man, 1.00

00:45:59.740 they want to say, I'm going to be the boss, and then they end up hating him 0.63

00:46:02.680 because every fiber of their being wants him to lead them.

00:46:07.700 Oh, that's crazy, yeah, because I've had the two relationships I've always been in,

00:46:10.700 and they try to lead me, and I hated them for it, so.

00:46:12.960 Maybe they just didn't do it right.

00:46:14.700 It's just not my cup of tea.

00:46:17.440 Maybe it's an attitude problem coming into it as well, though,

00:46:19.580 because if you come into it with the mindset of, I'm going to be the boss,

00:46:23.680 but then secretly you want him to be the boss,

00:46:25.500 because if you're submissive in the bedroom,

00:46:26.860 then that's the ultimate form of physical submission,

00:46:29.800 so obviously you're a submissive girl.

00:46:32.740 I can be, yes.

00:46:33.360 If you come into it with that sort of attitude,

00:46:35.420 then there's going to be all sorts of problems.

00:46:38.780 Have you tried coming into it with the attitude of bowing for him at the door,

00:46:43.080 having his noodles ready?

00:46:44.520 I like Asian men, so I would definitely do that for you.

00:46:47.220 Really?

00:46:47.860 Yes.

00:46:48.340 What do you like about Asian men?

00:46:49.980 Everything.

00:46:51.540 I feel like you're trolling me.

00:46:53.060 No, I love Asian men.

00:46:54.500 I'm going to Korea for my birthday.

00:46:56.720 Which part?

00:46:57.680 I'm going to Seoul.

00:46:58.560 North? No.

00:46:59.520 Yeah, I'm going to Seoul, and then I'm going to Japan.

00:47:02.260 Are you going to have a T-shirt that says,

00:47:03.800 I love Asian men? 0.84

00:47:04.240 I'm actually, I have a custom-made shirt that says,

00:47:06.420 who wants a green card?

00:47:07.580 Are you one of those anime girls who likes anime?

00:47:09.780 Oh, no, no, no.

00:47:10.540 These women are not only toned police spots, but they clearly do not want no men. 1.00

00:47:17.480 They want a simp beta liberal.

00:47:20.780 Not only do these women not bring anything to a real man, 1.00

00:47:26.020 they are clueless, brain dead. 1.00

00:47:28.380 Well, Trump. 0.99

00:47:30.200 That's great.

00:47:30.740 Thank you, Trump.

00:47:32.520 Pretty sure I just fixed it. 1.00

00:47:34.260 Fucking 300 IQ. 1.00

00:47:37.160 Fixing this shit. 1.00

00:47:38.100 Okay. 0.99

00:47:38.420 I'm going to get some of these going, hopefully.

00:47:41.000 All right.

00:47:42.480 Sorry for the delays, guys, on the TTSs.

00:47:44.700 I'm not sure what happened there.

00:47:46.020 Oh, it's still not working.

00:47:47.020 That's lovely.

00:47:48.660 Okay.

00:47:49.120 I just have to read it.

00:47:50.040 Sorry, Metro Matt.

00:47:51.180 I see we went to the local mental hospital for panelists again. 1.00

00:47:54.300 Thank you for muting that atrocious noise they call music.

00:47:58.140 Do you want to respond to that?

00:47:59.760 Oh, no.

00:48:02.000 He just called your music atrocious.

00:48:05.380 He didn't even hear it, and he just called it atrocious.

00:48:07.760 Why would I dignify that with a response?

00:48:11.060 Fair enough.

00:48:11.640 All right.

00:48:11.960 Meet the Kaiser.

00:48:12.700 What's up, Brian?

00:48:13.920 Hope.

00:48:14.420 Oh, give me a sec here.

00:48:16.500 What's up, Brian?

00:48:17.180 Hope everyone is good.

00:48:18.120 Congrats to the Clippers girl for finally hyping up something with fans. 1.00

00:48:23.860 C4, haven't seen you since.

00:48:26.900 I made you in GTA Online.

00:48:29.520 Oh, Chair 4.

00:48:30.340 That's you.

00:48:31.300 He made you.

00:48:32.880 Have fun all.

00:48:33.820 Cheers and enjoy.

00:48:34.700 Yo, Kaiser.

00:48:35.300 Good to see you in the chat, man.

00:48:36.240 Thank you so much.

00:48:37.760 All right.

00:48:38.720 Thank you, Kaiser.

00:48:39.940 Let me see.

00:48:40.400 Is this working?

00:48:41.400 Nope.

00:48:41.740 That's not working.

00:48:42.400 Okay.

00:48:42.720 I don't know what's going on.

00:48:44.140 All right.

00:48:44.860 We have Metro Matt again.

00:48:46.640 Thank you, man.

00:48:47.220 Al Udeed is in Qatar and is a vacation compared to a real deployment.

00:48:52.020 That is very true.

00:48:52.900 So he's in the Air Force.

00:48:54.460 He was in the Air Force.

00:48:56.540 All right.

00:48:57.020 Thank you, Metro Matt.

00:48:57.800 Appreciate it.

00:48:59.280 Yo, Cheeks with the 200 here in just a sec.

00:49:01.700 I do apologize, guys.

00:49:02.700 These are not coming through as TTS.

00:49:04.060 That's our audio scuff.

00:49:06.060 So I'm just going to have to read them.

00:49:07.880 All right. 0.99

00:49:09.780 And we're waiting on Cheeks here to come in while we're, it's about to fuck it. 1.00

00:49:15.120 Whatever. 1.00

00:49:16.020 Shreva, the girl sitting beside Jake, his name, dark labia, question mark.

00:49:20.420 Shreva, thank you for that.

00:49:21.960 We have Beat in Cheeks.

00:49:23.060 These women are not only tone police thoughts, but they clearly do not want no man. 1.00

00:49:26.580 They want a simp beta liberal. 0.98

00:49:29.340 Not only do these women not bring anything to a real man, they are clueless brain. 1.00

00:49:33.080 Wow. 0.99

00:49:33.380 Okay.

00:49:33.660 Beat in Cheeks.

00:49:34.700 Good job.

00:49:35.640 Thank you for that.

00:49:36.420 Appreciate it.

00:49:37.600 Do you guys want to respond to this accusation?

00:49:39.520 This terrible accusation?

00:49:41.100 Their name is Beat in Cheeks.

00:49:43.200 That is his username.

00:49:46.420 I love simps.

00:49:47.160 Thank you, man.

00:49:47.620 Appreciate it.

00:49:48.900 Guys, I do apologize.

00:49:50.360 I don't know why the TTS is not coming through properly.

00:49:55.140 I'm just, at least for the time being, unless something comes to mind on how to fix it, I'm

00:50:00.000 just going to go ahead and read them instead.

00:50:02.500 And I'll try to read them as soon as they come in.

00:50:05.040 Do apologize on that.

00:50:06.220 Okay, well, let's get into some of the pre-show notes, unless you wanted to finish up on your

00:50:12.660 thing.

00:50:13.220 No.

00:50:13.600 I think we got there.

00:50:14.940 All right.

00:50:16.000 Let's see here.

00:50:17.460 There was, oh, we're not going to be able to do reacts either until we get that sorted.

00:50:25.240 Actually, I think the video thing, here, Damien, go to the video.

00:50:28.340 Remember I told you how to fix it?

00:50:29.520 Might as well do it now.

00:50:32.360 Well, here, just put it on Twitch and then just go to the video tab.

00:50:36.220 Device, put it on CQ78.

00:50:48.500 Oh, wait.

00:50:49.280 I don't even know if that's going to be it.

00:50:50.880 Okay, put it on.

00:50:53.060 Okay, can you guys hear us now?

00:50:55.260 Chat, can you let us know if you can hear us on the video tab?

00:51:00.880 Put it back really quick.

00:51:01.960 Put one in the chat if you guys can hear us on video tab now.

00:51:06.140 Is it working?

00:51:07.680 Chat, let me know.

00:51:09.440 One in the chat if it's working on the video tab now.

00:51:13.480 Looks like it is.

00:51:14.660 Why don't we do our first react?

00:51:15.740 Let's get that pulled up. 0.99

00:51:21.780 The first, I'm not sure, the first react that I indicated.

00:51:24.860 It is, yeah, it's the TikTok one.

00:51:35.300 All right.

00:51:37.340 Oh, my God.

00:51:41.000 What?

00:51:42.240 What?

00:51:42.840 He's going?

00:51:43.860 What?

00:51:44.240 What?

00:51:46.340 Oh, no.

00:51:48.680 So, the thing says, POV, you ghost a guy after two dates and get this message.

00:51:58.480 And as you see, she's scrolling, and this guy sent her a novel of freaking paragraphs on paragraphs.

00:52:05.640 So, before I get my take on this, we're going to go around the panel.

00:52:09.680 We're going to have you guys.

00:52:11.340 Oh, chat.

00:52:12.300 Can you just one in the chat if you were hearing the audio from the clip?

00:52:16.020 It was just some girls giggling or whatever.

00:52:18.680 Your reaction to this?

00:52:20.780 I mean, two dates, the ghosting, the, like, that huge wall of text.

00:52:28.000 Your thoughts?

00:52:29.260 Well, I do think ghosting's a bit immature if you're giving somebody your time, and they're expecting or hoping for another date.

00:52:36.100 I think it's just more mature to address it and say that you're not interested.

00:52:38.620 But, in general, if I were to get that after two dates, I would be so icked out because it was not that deep.

00:52:46.500 It could not possibly be that deep in two dates.

00:52:49.120 So, that on its own would be enough not for a third date.

00:52:52.780 Sure.

00:52:53.220 What about you?

00:52:53.720 Your reaction?

00:52:55.120 Yeah, that's crazy.

00:52:57.740 I probably wouldn't respond.

00:52:59.860 Just, and if I did, my response would probably be, I'm not reading all of this.

00:53:06.220 Okay, sure.

00:53:06.900 Yeah.

00:53:08.460 Yeah, it's giving psychopaths.

00:53:10.320 So, same.

00:53:10.780 I wouldn't read it either.

00:53:12.180 All right.

00:53:13.480 Yeah, definitely projecting something that's in him, not what happened in the two dates.

00:53:19.600 Okay.

00:53:20.520 It depends how good the first two dates were.

00:53:22.900 Like, if they were really clicking and stuff, I would, that would make sense for her to ghost him.

00:53:28.240 But, I think you just shouldn't ghost people.

00:53:31.900 Okay.

00:53:33.040 I also think ghost scenes emotionally immature.

00:53:36.300 I've definitely been guilty of it. 0.98

00:53:40.740 But, I think my reaction in that position would probably be the same, like, laughing about it with my friends, which is kind of fucked up. 0.94

00:53:47.700 But, oh, um, I would say, I don't know. 0.94

00:53:55.860 I think ghosting, yeah, no, absolutely not.

00:53:58.560 I wouldn't do it.

00:53:59.540 But, the whole, I would kind of just be curious.

00:54:03.000 So, I wouldn't read it.

00:54:04.100 I would actually call him and be like, yo, what is going on?

00:54:07.460 Because I would be curious.

00:54:08.240 Because, especially if the messages were negative and he's calling her names, saying, like, oh, you're ghosting me after two dates.

00:54:13.160 I thought we had a good time.

00:54:14.320 Unless he was like, yo, like, what's happening?

00:54:16.120 He wants an explanation, like, type of thing.

00:54:18.540 Then, yeah, I wouldn't read all of that, no.

00:54:21.340 But, I would definitely give him a call if the first few sentences were polite and he just wanted a, like, response.

00:54:26.400 Like, what did he do wrong or anything like that?

00:54:27.820 I would.

00:54:28.560 Okay.

00:54:28.900 Jake, any thoughts?

00:54:29.920 Yeah, it's just a very interesting peek behind the veil of what happens if you simp. 1.00

00:54:33.740 And, what happens if you send these long, stupid messages. 1.00

00:54:36.360 Because, guys think that girls will read it. 1.00

00:54:38.500 And, he's probably been tricked into thinking that, you know, girls, they like nice guys.

00:54:43.380 And, they want to read this long message from him.

00:54:45.520 But, really, what they're going to do is they're going to show it to their friends and they're going to ridicule you.

00:54:48.940 So, that's why you shouldn't simp.

00:54:50.600 Yeah.

00:54:50.920 So, I mean, I think ghosting's bad.

00:54:53.680 But, he's doing, like, sending a long message like that, even if he really liked the girl, that's way too extra.

00:55:02.180 It's too, he's doing too much.

00:55:03.900 Just take the L, move on. 0.93

00:55:05.460 It sucks to get ghosted.

00:55:06.620 But, you just got to take the L and move on.

00:55:08.840 I think my bigger criticism, though, like, he's kind of in the wrong for sending, who knows what the content is of that.

00:55:17.160 Maybe he was insulting her.

00:55:18.420 Maybe he was, like, I don't know.

00:55:20.320 He was probably, whatever it was, it was bad.

00:55:22.400 But, even if he sent that long, crazy message, there's, like, well, there's two things.

00:55:29.860 She went and showed it to her friend group and they were, like, laughing at him.

00:55:34.600 But, not only that, they recorded it and then posted it on TikTok and it went viral.

00:55:40.940 And, I feel like that's...

00:55:42.400 Too much.

00:55:43.880 Whatever happened, I don't know.

00:55:47.160 The guy already took an L.

00:55:48.400 He's upset.

00:55:49.580 Yeah, he sent you this, like, crazy long text, a little inappropriate, little, like, that's kind of weird.

00:55:56.360 But, man, now he's, it's an even bigger L because they posted on social media.

00:56:02.280 And, I'm curious, like, it seems like women are more inclined to want to, like, resort to reputation destruction 1.00

00:56:11.180 in the event of a breakup.

00:56:14.920 Like, while some guys are going to put their, put a girl on blast publicly, women are way more likely 1.00

00:56:21.760 and it's way more socially acceptable to put a dude on blast publicly.

00:56:26.940 So, I wonder why that is.

00:56:28.460 Do you think it's because women are communicative more?

00:56:31.840 Like, we're designed to talk with each other and we're more socially...

00:56:36.340 More disposed to gossip.

00:56:38.520 Yeah.

00:56:39.180 I'd say, yeah.

00:56:40.140 Well, and also, like, the way in which men would handle conflicts, there, there would be, like, physical...

00:56:48.040 Like, if, if two men have a conflict, there's an opportunity there for, like, a physical altercation.

00:56:54.840 Women, well, some women can be violent, physically violent. 1.00

00:56:58.820 It's far less likely.

00:57:00.240 And what women tend to do is they'll resort to reputation destruction. 1.00

00:57:04.300 Uh, so, instead of, like, confronting somebody physically, violently, no, I'm just gonna, like, have a grudge for, like, multiple years and ruin their reputation.

00:57:16.300 Yeah.

00:57:16.720 Yeah.

00:57:17.000 It's the way they deal with things, I would say more than...

00:57:19.000 You seem to be making a face.

00:57:20.080 You disagree?

00:57:21.000 No, I was gonna say, I do think that, like, in the context of if your friends know you're dating somebody and that it was done, and then he were to send a long message like that, it's natural to want to share that with the girls.

00:57:32.700 I don't think, no, I was gonna say, I don't think showing them the actual message and, like, making fun of it and laughing is natural, but I, if you're, you know that your friend is dating someone and they're, like, you know, I wasn't really feeling it, and look at, he sent me this really long message, it was a little bit extra, I think that's normal.

00:57:47.660 But, like, blasting him, showing the specific message and, like, laughing at it, I don't think that's kind.

00:57:51.900 Yeah, but it's just to say that Brian's point is that generally men definitely wouldn't do that to another man because we tend to regulate our relationships in the sense that if we cross a certain line, then there's gonna be physical altercations or there's gonna be physical implications for that.

00:58:07.440 And we generally tend to have the same sort of rule with women as well because it's just how we're sort of wired, whereas women don't actually have that boundary in terms of gossip and reputation destruction. 0.97

00:58:18.160 So they'll cross those boundaries like we've just seen there, and it's just, they're more likely to do it because they regulate their relationships in a way that doesn't have consequences like that.

00:58:28.300 Yeah, I don't think there's the same consequences. I agree.

00:58:30.380 I think it might have to do with women not being, just ignore it, um, with women not being violent, so maybe it has something to do with, like, feeling a lack of power, and so they go for, like, an emotional hit more often. 0.72

00:58:46.400 Not that it's okay, but.

00:58:47.300 Because it's repressed.

00:58:48.320 Yeah, and I also think that, like, I definitely have done this in my earlier years, but now would I say I would do this now? No, but I also think that young women, I think those girls are definitely really young in that video. 0.85

00:59:00.380 So, obviously, it's purely jokes, you know what I mean? They don't think of it, the outcome of it, as you do when you're an adult, like, you know what I mean?

00:59:08.400 So, yeah, the repercussions that it does to people's mindset and what it does on their livelihood, reputation, and everything, but I think when women grow, they kind of lean towards not resulting into that, you know what I mean?

00:59:20.840 But I definitely did that in high school, but would I say I would do it now? Absolutely not.

00:59:25.400 Very high school thing to do.

00:59:26.960 Yeah.

00:59:27.120 Very.

00:59:28.060 Yeah.

00:59:28.300 And you said, I think going back to what you said, Natasha, you said it's normal for women to, like, communicate those sorts of things, right?

00:59:38.460 Yeah, I don't think, like, specifically blasting, like, what he said or showing the message, I don't think that's nice.

00:59:43.160 But in general, I do think if, like, you know that I'm dating someone, then it would be natural to be like, he went a little bit cuckoo and sent me this really extra message.

00:59:50.980 Something kind of related to that, that I kind of take a problem with when it comes to dating is, and I mean, I don't think all women do this, but it seems pretty common. 1.00

01:00:02.140 I guess going around the table, I guess going around the table, I'd like to know, do you, like, let's say you go on a date with a guy, you really like him, maybe you guys hook up, you got your friend group of girls or whatever, next time you see them, or maybe your group text, whatever.

01:00:17.640 Do you guys share details after you hook up with a dude?

01:00:22.960 Like intimate details?

01:00:23.940 Yeah.

01:00:24.200 Like, like, personally, I don't know. 1.00

01:00:26.540 Penis size, you've never shared penis size, you know? 0.92

01:00:29.240 Like, the same thing, like, when I was younger, I might have said something, like, as a joke, but I would never, like, at this point in my life, know that's an intimate thing where somebody's at their most vulnerable, I think that's totally inappropriate, even, like, as a joke, that's disrespectful. 0.98

01:00:42.080 Okay.

01:00:43.660 What do you do?

01:00:44.580 You share, you share details?

01:00:46.060 I don't share details because...

01:00:49.540 You share details.

01:00:50.260 Come on.

01:00:50.640 I don't, no, okay, so the reason why I don't share details.

01:00:52.700 You shared them in your rap songs, I heard them.

01:00:54.880 Lies. 0.99

01:00:55.580 Racks on the racks.

01:00:57.040 Yeah.

01:00:57.480 I'm talking about getting money in my songs.

01:00:59.560 I heard some references.

01:01:01.080 Oh.

01:01:01.680 Okay.

01:01:02.360 What are you hearing?

01:01:03.340 I don't know, I couldn't understand if I'm honest.

01:01:06.480 But no, I don't think so, like, well, not that, I know I don't share, like, details like that, but it's because, unless maybe it was bad, and I was just like, oh, it wasn't...

01:01:15.540 Isn't that even worse?

01:01:16.540 Yeah.

01:01:16.940 That's the worst.

01:01:17.800 It's like our worst fear.

01:01:18.800 I'm not going to get the details on, like, why it was bad, like, oh, it's tiny.

01:01:21.500 Tell them if it's good, not if it's bad.

01:01:22.700 No, I'm not going to tell them if it's good, because then when some people ain't really your friends like that, where do they want to go try it?

01:01:27.980 There you go. 0.99

01:01:28.440 Then now I got to whip your ass and his, and then it's my fault. 1.00

01:01:31.860 That's a friend's problem, though. 1.00

01:01:32.240 Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.

01:01:34.060 Well, if he's really good, then why don't you just tell him he was really bad?

01:01:37.340 Well, because then you're going back to what I just said, that I tell him it's bad, and then you just told me to tell him it's good.

01:01:43.920 Well, we have a chat here really quick.

01:01:46.240 Spicyween89.

01:01:47.120 Sorry, our TTS is not working.

01:01:48.900 The nickname Dark Labia equals spicy unhot, so own it. 1.00

01:01:54.760 Darkavia's been so mad at me for weeks now, because I'm the one that started that joke on the podcast.

01:01:59.640 Is that you?

01:02:00.080 Yes, she literally said it, and I, guys, stop, dude.

01:02:02.800 It's pink.

01:02:03.420 I'm not going to call it.

01:02:04.200 I'm not...

01:02:04.660 Hold on.

01:02:05.200 It's not dark.

01:02:06.980 That's all right.

01:02:07.660 Dark labia's matter? 0.99

01:02:09.180 Yes, dark labia's matter.

01:02:11.520 I'm not going to call her it anymore, because I feel like it's mean to make...

01:02:16.880 Like, that's your name, you know? 0.99

01:02:18.840 It's equivalent to a dick-sized joke. 0.99

01:02:21.020 It's darkavia. 0.99

01:02:22.560 You stuck with it.

01:02:23.140 It's a beautiful name.

01:02:24.220 Thank you.

01:02:24.740 I feel like the more upset you get, though, the more they're going to point it out.

01:02:29.100 And I'm just going to keep saying it's pink, so...

01:02:31.280 Okay, that's fine.

01:02:32.120 What about you?

01:02:32.700 What do you think?

01:02:33.100 Yeah, I don't really, like, talk about it, but, like, I'm still with my boyfriend, so,

01:02:37.760 you know.

01:02:38.520 Yeah, okay.

01:02:39.220 Can't be bad.

01:02:40.000 Sure.

01:02:41.280 Wait, what was the question?

01:02:42.480 Like, do you share, like, if you just, like, first time hooking up with a new guy?

01:02:46.460 If it's really bad, I have to share it.

01:02:48.580 You have to share it.

01:02:48.860 Like, one time, it was so small, I had to call my aunt.

01:02:52.280 How...

01:02:52.680 Can you show us?

01:02:53.760 So...

01:02:54.040 No, it was a micropenis.

01:02:55.380 I had to take a picture and call my aunt.

01:02:57.720 You called your aunt?

01:02:58.300 You took a picture?

01:03:00.260 I've never seen anything like it.

01:03:01.920 I was in shock.

01:03:03.100 I couldn't believe it.

01:03:04.180 He was so tall, the guy.

01:03:05.820 Maybe he was cold or something.

01:03:06.980 No, the guy was very tall.

01:03:09.020 Destiny over here, taking pictures.

01:03:10.020 He was, like, 6'2".

01:03:12.660 He was a tall guy.

01:03:14.780 Did he consent to the picture?

01:03:16.840 No, he did not.

01:03:17.820 That's illegal.

01:03:18.760 But it was not on mine.

01:03:20.340 It was just between me and my auntie, you know.

01:03:22.840 I said she looked like a music producer before. 0.98

01:03:24.760 This could be Puff Daddy's...

01:03:26.100 Puff Daddy's, uh, right-hand girl. 1.00

01:03:29.820 Shit. 1.00

01:03:30.520 Okay, what about you? 1.00

01:03:31.760 I don't do hook-up culture.

01:03:34.140 So, no. 0.77

01:03:34.660 Okay, but, I mean, you've, like, had sex with a guy?

01:03:37.040 No, we didn't.

01:03:38.700 Like, when me and my sisters would talk, we didn't talk about that stuff.

01:03:41.020 Okay.

01:03:41.140 Um, I won't share size. 0.97

01:03:44.120 I feel like that's just fucked up.

01:03:46.440 Um, but definitely I'll share with my friends, like, details about it. 0.98

01:03:50.920 The guy I'm currently seeing, um, will make, like, sex tapes, and he wants me to show my friends.

01:03:57.900 But I am not worried about my friends, like, I'm not worried about my friends wanting him

01:04:03.240 because they have such different types.

01:04:04.700 Like, Darkavia likes Asian men.

01:04:07.840 And Mexicans. 0.99

01:04:09.180 This is a tall white bro.

01:04:10.380 And Mexicans. 1.00

01:04:10.760 She hates white dudes. 1.00

01:04:13.040 Okay. 0.99

01:04:13.740 Tell me y'all.

01:04:14.660 Cool.

01:04:16.180 For me, I personally wouldn't because...

01:04:19.300 Lies. 0.99

01:04:20.220 No, I'm so for real.

01:04:22.800 I'm so for real.

01:04:23.580 I literally want, I wouldn't unless, like, unless one of my friends, let's say I hooked

01:04:29.420 up with someone, and one of, like, associates, someone, was like, hey, yo, I know you, you

01:04:35.680 know, slept with him.

01:04:36.440 I was like, if it's cool if I sleep, like, you know, get with him, whatever.

01:04:39.060 And I'm like, yeah, I mean, like, I don't care, but, you know, you got to give him a

01:04:42.560 heads up, basically.

01:04:43.440 That's what I would do if they're interested in the person I hooked up with.

01:04:46.440 And then I get, I don't really care if they do it.

01:04:48.400 But if it's someone that I've been taking seriously, no, absolutely not.

01:04:53.000 That is, that is my business.

01:04:54.560 She's telling the truth.

01:04:56.180 Yeah.

01:04:56.720 I don't know, man.

01:04:58.420 Uh, I don't know how prevalent this is.

01:05:01.180 Uh, maybe it depends on, I've, well, obviously, it goes without saying it depends on the individual,

01:05:08.220 but I would be pretty upset if I was dating a girl and her, like, close friend group knew,

01:05:13.360 like, sexual details about me and I've never even met them.

01:05:17.180 Um, I'd be, I would be, I'd probably dump the chick. 1.00

01:05:20.160 I'd be like, because you guys might think, oh, it's not that serious.

01:05:23.280 I'd be like, this is a major breach of like something that's kind of private, intimate.

01:05:28.560 Uh, when it comes to my personal relationships, very private.

01:05:32.080 And it's like, you just don't have that level of respect where it's like, like, I would never

01:05:37.580 with my male friends, I would never go to them and be like, oh yeah, this is, this is

01:05:43.580 the circumference of her vaginal canal, I would never share that kind of details.

01:05:48.260 I wouldn't show them photos if she sent me photos.

01:05:51.160 I wouldn't share any of that.

01:05:52.780 That's like, for, for respect for her and then our relationship would never share like

01:05:59.860 any photos, any intimate details.

01:06:02.060 You never went to a destiny party?

01:06:04.100 A what?

01:06:04.820 A destiny party?

01:06:05.960 No.

01:06:06.440 No?

01:06:06.760 No.

01:06:07.160 Okay.

01:06:07.640 What if she let you try something new and you were like hyped about it and wanted to

01:06:10.900 tell your friends?

01:06:12.440 What, what do you mean try something new?

01:06:14.220 I don't know.

01:06:14.620 That's just the weirdest thing I've ever heard.

01:06:16.120 Like, dude, she let me slap her, bro. 0.87

01:06:19.680 Slap her? 0.98

01:06:20.300 I don't know.

01:06:21.120 I'm just, you asked for an example.

01:06:23.100 That's a normal Tuesday.

01:06:24.680 It's a.

01:06:25.260 I don't know.

01:06:25.540 What if you walked in, but that's a good point though.

01:06:27.140 What if you walked into our house and she took you downstairs and she had like a, a dungeon 1.00

01:06:30.700 with like BDSM and stuff?

01:06:33.540 I wouldn't, I wouldn't even share that.

01:06:35.220 Really?

01:06:35.440 I mean, it's a little, I don't know if I would date a girl. 0.98

01:06:37.620 I can't say I wouldn't share that.

01:06:40.040 Do you share intimate details?

01:06:41.640 Yes.

01:06:43.180 Did you, wait, did I just, just make that clear or wait, what do you mean?

01:06:48.080 Like anything.

01:06:49.220 Do you share anything?

01:06:50.140 Okay.

01:06:50.360 Here, here, I'll, I'll walk you through a scenario.

01:06:53.000 Hook up with a girl last night.

01:06:54.700 This is a, just an exit, not actually happened.

01:06:58.120 Hook up with a girl last night and then, uh, I'm hanging out with my friends the next day.

01:07:04.260 They're like, oh, Brian, you went on a date with, they probably wouldn't even know I was

01:07:07.500 on a date with a girl, but whatever.

01:07:08.420 Oh, you went on a date with, uh, that, whatever, that girl, whatever.

01:07:11.660 How'd it go?

01:07:12.180 I'd be like, oh, it's good.

01:07:14.180 That's it.

01:07:15.000 That's all they get.

01:07:16.940 That's normally how it goes to deal with guys. 0.99

01:07:19.180 We could have done crazy shit, son. 1.00

01:07:21.880 We could have, you know, crazy shit. 1.00

01:07:25.060 Fifth dimension. 1.00

01:07:25.820 I do think that's really respectful. 0.96

01:07:27.760 Fifth dimension, crazy sex. 0.98

01:07:32.000 It was good. 0.91

01:07:32.780 That's it.

01:07:33.340 They don't get details.

01:07:34.360 They don't get anything.

01:07:36.200 And all I want, you know, I'd like a little reciprocation on this from a woman. 0.99

01:07:41.160 But didn't guys started that whole thing?

01:07:43.620 Like, oh yeah.

01:07:44.920 You know, like talking about the girl.

01:07:47.020 No, that's a girl. 0.93

01:07:48.140 That's a girl.

01:07:48.940 What?

01:07:49.520 Is that not locker room, barbershop talk?

01:07:51.660 I think, I don't think we're like sharing details.

01:07:55.300 Not details, you know what I mean?

01:07:56.880 We might, the conversations could be like, we could be talking about sex in a, as a general 1.00

01:08:03.620 concept, but we're not like, yeah, I, I, I fucked Becky and her pussy. 1.00

01:08:09.920 Like, no. 1.00

01:08:11.020 There might be like the conversation of, have you guys had sex?

01:08:13.440 And you'd be like, yes or no.

01:08:14.340 But it wouldn't be like, and then I did this.

01:08:15.900 It's like, it's not really a conversation you have with your boys.

01:08:18.400 But I think the girls, they get into the weeds. 0.98

01:08:20.400 And they, they.

01:08:21.580 And to be fair, there's probably some guys that do talk like that.

01:08:26.100 Low quality, man.

01:08:26.740 I think it's younger people in general.

01:08:28.980 Like, when they're less respectful.

01:08:30.480 When you guys were younger, did you?

01:08:32.400 No.

01:08:33.020 No.

01:08:33.520 Never.

01:08:34.120 Never did it.

01:08:34.840 I'm not, yeah.

01:08:36.120 Okay, you go ahead.

01:08:37.840 When you're younger, and when you're first exploring it, and you're like, you know, with

01:08:41.900 your other teenage friends, which you shouldn't be doing, but we live in a fallen world.

01:08:45.240 But, yeah, at that point, you're like, oh yeah, like this happened.

01:08:48.120 If it's like the first time doing something, tell the boys, you know.

01:08:51.320 We have Shriva here.

01:08:52.940 I saw Sexy Reds leaks, and it wasn't pink either.

01:08:55.320 And she said it's never pink.

01:08:56.720 It was dark.

01:08:59.200 I don't.

01:08:59.980 If I had an OnlyFans dude, all y'all would be exposed, because I'm telling the truth.

01:09:06.680 For real.

01:09:07.500 I want to play this.

01:09:08.300 It's not, oh my, it's not working.

01:09:09.800 That's fine.

01:09:10.960 Shriva, thank you for the $100 soup chat.

01:09:12.960 W's in the chat for Shriva.

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01:09:44.620 All right, let's get into some of the pre-show notes here.

01:09:47.440 Audio still scuffed.

01:09:48.600 I'll try to work it out.

01:09:49.580 So, let's start with Jillian.

01:09:52.200 Jillian?

01:09:53.000 Jill.

01:09:53.780 Jill.

01:09:55.020 Okay.

01:09:55.920 You were married.

01:09:57.920 You describe yourself as a conservative Christian.

01:10:01.240 You subscribe to the belief that men and women have certain roles

01:10:03.640 and that when they live in those roles, they are not only fulfilling their purpose,

01:10:07.840 but also the happiest in those roles.

01:10:09.820 You think dating should be taken more seriously than it is in today's age.

01:10:13.540 You date to marry.

01:10:15.260 Has that always been the case or is this a new development?

01:10:18.080 No, it's always been the case, yeah.

01:10:19.500 Always been the case.

01:10:21.000 So, you were married once.

01:10:24.240 Date to marry.

01:10:25.520 Okay.

01:10:26.500 And so, is your body count just one?

01:10:29.040 No, it's two.

01:10:30.560 Okay.

01:10:30.880 Okay.

01:10:30.920 Was that after?

01:10:34.240 That was after.

01:10:35.140 Was it a rebound?

01:10:36.560 No.

01:10:37.200 Rebound?

01:10:37.620 Okay.

01:10:39.280 Got it.

01:10:40.000 And then you said, you think men should pursue women

01:10:43.460 and then women should contribute to the relationship in their area of gifts and expertise. 1.00

01:10:48.560 I think women are buying into a lie that they can have it all, the job, the guy, the kids. 1.00

01:10:52.900 But they're actually hurting society by not having kids at all or waiting until way too late.

01:10:57.460 Mm-hmm.

01:10:58.120 Okay.

01:11:01.740 How's that going for you, I guess?

01:11:03.420 Yeah.

01:11:03.920 So, I would love to have kids and be married again.

01:11:07.860 I think it's contributing to society.

01:11:10.900 And, you know, if marriage never presents itself again because it's a very serious thing,

01:11:15.920 I still hold it to a highest esteem, then I would love to foster and adopt and, you know,

01:11:23.100 be a part of raising the next generation that way.

01:11:25.380 Are you waiting?

01:11:27.140 Do you wait until marriage when it comes to having sex? 0.95

01:11:29.520 Mm-hmm.

01:11:29.640 But what happened to, like, the...

01:11:30.960 So, there's a verse in the Bible where it says, don't awaken love until it's time.

01:11:35.360 And that is very true when it comes to being intimate with someone.

01:11:39.860 I...

01:11:40.460 My...

01:11:41.100 First was my husband.

01:11:41.960 And then after we divorced, there was a period of time where it was very hard to become celibate again.

01:11:48.900 And so, I kind of did, like, a little relapse.

01:11:51.500 And it was kind of like a reality check to my beliefs and who I am and what marriage is and how I view men

01:11:59.760 and just all of that stuff was kind of coming, crashing down.

01:12:03.300 So, wait.

01:12:04.520 How soon after you got divorced did this other guy come into the picture?

01:12:10.740 To be honest, I don't even know.

01:12:12.680 It was probably not long after.

01:12:15.720 My divorce process took a year, like almost a year.

01:12:20.140 So, it was a very fuzzy...

01:12:21.420 How long after separation, then?

01:12:23.760 Oh, years.

01:12:25.360 Years.

01:12:25.960 Okay.

01:12:26.100 Yeah, because we separated nine months after we got married.

01:12:29.800 Like, we never lived again.

01:12:31.500 So, question.

01:12:32.420 Yeah.

01:12:33.240 How long after meeting guy number two, like, you meet him?

01:12:38.940 And then did you, like, was it a one-night stand?

01:12:41.600 What are we talking here?

01:12:42.300 Yeah.

01:12:42.940 Well, no, it wasn't a one-night stand.

01:12:44.300 But it was, like, a one-time thing and then it was done.

01:12:46.360 Like, we had a thing, I would call it a situationship, and then we, that happened, and then it was, that was it for me.

01:12:55.480 I was like, I can't do this anymore.

01:12:57.040 I'm sorry.

01:12:57.640 Like, these are my beliefs.

01:12:58.780 I'm, this is where I stand, and I can't do this.

01:13:01.980 Wait, so, you were, were you dating him for a while?

01:13:06.320 We were seeing each other, dating, sure.

01:13:08.140 But so, you meet, where did you meet him?

01:13:10.000 Dating him?

01:13:10.440 No.

01:13:10.800 No, mm-mm.

01:13:11.380 Just in person?

01:13:12.720 Okay.

01:13:13.480 And then you meet him?

01:13:14.780 And then, like, first date, second date, third date?

01:13:16.640 No, I don't, no, way later.

01:13:19.060 Down the road.

01:13:19.980 We were seeing each other maybe for a couple months. 0.56

01:13:22.960 And then you guys have sex one time?

01:13:24.820 That was it. 0.81

01:13:25.260 And then you, you ended or he ended?

01:13:27.440 I said, I'm so sorry, I cannot do this.

01:13:30.040 I, um, this is not where I want to go down.

01:13:32.940 This is not who I am.

01:13:34.660 Done.

01:13:35.400 Did you guys, did you say you love each other?

01:13:37.660 No.

01:13:37.780 It was, but it was, like, three months in.

01:13:40.340 Yeah, maybe.

01:13:44.960 But, hold on. 0.99

01:13:47.740 You had sex with him. 0.99

01:13:49.980 So, you hit it and quit it. 1.00

01:13:51.500 We, so.

01:13:52.900 You hit it.

01:13:53.400 This is a lot of information I don't really feel comfortable sharing.

01:13:56.560 Okay.

01:13:57.020 Was the sex bad?

01:13:58.560 I wouldn't even say it was a full thing, I guess.

01:14:02.200 Just a tip?

01:14:03.260 Sure.

01:14:03.940 I don't know.

01:14:04.680 Again, details I don't really feel.

01:14:06.400 These are details I don't really feel comfortable sharing.

01:14:09.100 Did you, so you were like, wait. 0.99

01:14:12.260 The penis entered and you're like, hold on. 0.99

01:14:15.120 I can't do this. 1.00

01:14:16.280 I don't, I'm not answering that.

01:14:18.820 A couple strokes?

01:14:20.200 I'm not answering that.

01:14:21.040 Okay.

01:14:21.340 Okay, that's it.

01:14:22.220 That's the extent of my inquiry.

01:14:24.000 It was a very personal moment for me.

01:14:24.760 Extent of the inquiry.

01:14:25.440 I really don't want to revisit that.

01:14:27.860 Okay.

01:14:28.520 Yeah.

01:14:28.940 But, like, your future, like, what about, so the next guy, though, he's going to, like,

01:14:32.980 marriage.

01:14:33.580 He has to wait until marriage.

01:14:34.440 Oh, yeah, for sure.

01:14:36.560 But I think that would be. 1.00

01:14:37.140 What if he's like, what the fuck? 0.98

01:14:38.100 Like, this guy got to hit three months in? 0.99

01:14:39.600 No, I've heard that argument from you.

01:14:41.820 Yeah.

01:14:42.060 I think that's entirely valid, that argument.

01:14:45.880 But that's his decision to make.

01:14:49.840 But I'm like, did you like the guy before the sex?

01:14:52.200 To be honest, I wasn't, like, a super fan of it.

01:14:58.160 A super fan of him.

01:14:59.400 Yeah.

01:14:59.640 Oh, okay.

01:15:01.500 But then you're like, ah, dang, this guy for three months, I don't really like him. 0.99

01:15:07.260 I guess I could fucking watch. 0.83

01:15:08.320 It was, it was a, no, it wasn't like that, and it's, I don't want you to boil it down 0.97

01:15:12.260 to just, like, that moment, because there was a lot of emotions and healing that was

01:15:17.560 happening, and so it was just a lot of, like, things that were coming to a head, and in

01:15:24.860 that moment, I realized, that's not who I want to be, and so that's not who I'm going

01:15:27.880 to be.

01:15:28.940 Okay.

01:15:31.020 All right.

01:15:34.760 Interesting.

01:15:38.860 How did he take the breakup?

01:15:41.600 I don't know.

01:15:42.400 I think he was, like, a little disappointed.

01:15:45.200 I did explain that, like, I'm sorry, this is not who I am.

01:15:50.940 He was probably more, like, used to hookup culture and things like that.

01:15:55.020 So.

01:15:55.360 I mean, you guys were three months in.

01:15:56.860 I mean, that's.

01:15:57.460 I mean, we didn't, like, talk.

01:15:58.580 Like, there's three months into a relationship, but then there's three months into just, like,

01:16:02.420 Well, how many times, how many dates had you been on?

01:16:05.640 I don't know.

01:16:06.440 Over 10?

01:16:07.740 Probably, yeah.

01:16:08.740 Okay.

01:16:09.100 I mean, all right. 1.00

01:16:11.620 Damn, bro. 0.99

01:16:13.840 Because it's, like, one thing if, you know, maybe you'd been on a couple dates with a girl 1.00

01:16:17.540 and you hook up, whatever reason, she doesn't, you know, she's not feeling it.

01:16:22.040 Then, like, three months in, you have sex once.

01:16:25.820 Yeah, and these are not details that I want to focus on, and I don't think it's respectful

01:16:30.180 to me or, like, that man that happened.

01:16:32.300 And so I really don't want to focus on that.

01:16:34.920 Okay.

01:16:35.720 Yeah.

01:16:36.320 That's fine.

01:16:36.860 Thank you.

01:16:37.580 Yeah, sure.

01:16:38.720 Let's see the rest of your notes here.

01:16:41.220 You said, okay, men should pursue women.

01:16:44.620 Yeah, we talked about that.

01:16:45.680 While you do own and run a business, your goal in life is to be married and be a mom. 1.00

01:16:51.980 Your business is set up that when you meet that person and settle down, the business takes

01:16:55.160 a back seat.

01:16:56.300 You want to be the primary caregiver and educator for your children, so homeschool.

01:16:59.500 Is that what you're talking about?

01:17:00.400 Yeah.

01:17:00.620 Okay.

01:17:01.160 You also think women need to be submissive and to pick a guy that's worthy of being submitted 1.00

01:17:05.940 to, and then let him take the lead in the relationship.

01:17:09.640 Mm-hmm.

01:17:10.220 Yeah.

01:17:10.380 Okay.

01:17:10.860 All right.

01:17:13.320 Guy that's worthy of being submitted to.

01:17:17.280 I think that's valid, but then I feel like Andrew has quons with this.

01:17:22.460 Yeah, he does.

01:17:23.040 He'll be like, well, who are you to make the determination what is or is not good leadership?

01:17:29.480 But I don't know if I fully agree with that.

01:17:30.940 I mean, like, obviously it has to be, you're not going to just date anybody.

01:17:35.120 Like, it has to be the right guy for you, but I don't know.

01:17:40.420 Go ahead.

01:17:40.900 You were going to say?

01:17:42.200 When it comes to a man being worthy to submit it to is someone who shares your values and

01:17:47.120 who is, you know, honest and kind and has your best interests at heart.

01:17:53.280 So even when you don't agree with him, at the end of the day, he has the final say because

01:17:58.100 you trust that he is making the best decision for you guys.

01:18:01.440 So who here, for the whole panel, she says, look, you might have disagreements, but, and

01:18:08.480 you adhere more to a traditional relationship dynamic.

01:18:12.140 If you have a disagreement, somebody has to be the tiebreaker.

01:18:15.920 Somebody has to make the final determination.

01:18:18.560 And she says that that should be the man.

01:18:20.780 Do you agree or disagree with this?

01:18:23.480 In any sense?

01:18:24.600 Or like with kids?

01:18:25.480 Everything.

01:18:26.580 He gets final say.

01:18:29.220 If it's a, if, if you guys just can't come to an agreement, he gets final say.

01:18:34.380 Are you for it?

01:18:36.100 In an ideal world?

01:18:37.340 Yeah.

01:18:37.640 I haven't met a man that I feel obligated or interested in doing that for, but I would love

01:18:42.260 to for sure.

01:18:43.320 Okay.

01:18:43.580 Um, no, because I feel like it's circumstantial.

01:18:49.280 Like if, and under certain circumstances, yes, he can be the one to have the final word

01:18:54.720 and stuff, especially if he's more educated or experienced on the matter, you know, but

01:18:59.920 if it's something like we have kids and you're telling me what to do with our daughter who's

01:19:05.180 going through like her period or something that you'd never dealt with, then obviously,

01:19:09.240 no, I'm going to have the final say so on, you know.

01:19:11.660 Do you think that he would care about having the final say on something like that?

01:19:14.920 Maybe.

01:19:15.280 Because when you say, when you're talking about authority and leadership, generally, if you're

01:19:18.740 the CEO of a company, you defer roles to people.

01:19:21.480 You're not wearing every single hat.

01:19:23.700 So with something like that, that would just be an obvious thing that it's, it's, it's

01:19:27.440 your thing to say about how to, how to deal with a period.

01:19:30.580 Well, sometimes men do feel entitled to that, especially when it's their children.

01:19:34.840 I'll give like an example.

01:19:35.900 Um, T.I.

01:19:37.500 If you guys know the rapper T.I.

01:19:38.780 He was ridiculed because he went to the gynecologist with one of his daughters and wanted to know

01:19:43.760 if she was still a virgin or something like that.

01:19:47.180 So, and then like in that aspect, do you have a say so as a mother?

01:19:53.080 Well, that's a different thing.

01:19:54.140 If he wants to know if his daughter's still a virgin as, as opposed to telling her how

01:19:57.860 to handle a period.

01:19:58.840 But I mean, it's still the, it's kind of similar in a sense.

01:20:01.860 Well, I know a father definitely has like, has a say in, in whether or not his, in his

01:20:05.880 daughter's chastity and, and instilling those values in her for sure. 0.99

01:20:09.620 Yeah, no, for sure.

01:20:10.680 But I think it's a way to go about it.

01:20:12.460 Like you could talk to your kids or things like that, like to just go to the gynecologist

01:20:16.500 with it, especially like, I don't think she was like under 18 anymore.

01:20:19.720 I think she was over 18 by that time.

01:20:22.120 But besides the point, like, I don't care either way, but it's like, you know, some things

01:20:26.220 you guys just don't know about and you shouldn't have the final say.

01:20:29.280 So like, even like with the laws about women's bodies and stuff like that, like abortion 1.00

01:20:33.800 laws, the plan B pill, things like that.

01:20:36.440 Like it's a man who got the final say so on that.

01:20:39.240 So why, why you, so you're, you're of the opinion that a man shouldn't have any say in

01:20:43.540 whether a woman can have an abortion?

01:20:44.840 I never said any say, but I don't think they should have the final say.

01:20:48.880 Over the, whether a woman can have an abortion?

01:20:50.960 Yeah.

01:20:51.380 Or like, yeah, that's just another example.

01:20:53.680 Who should decide?

01:20:53.920 Um, I think it should be like a dual, like agreement, especially if you're in a relationship.

01:21:00.020 So if the man says no, then you can't.

01:21:03.220 Well, I don't, I wouldn't say you can't.

01:21:05.700 So then if you're saying that it has to be two people making the decision.

01:21:08.780 So if it has to be two people and he says no, then you can't.

01:21:13.060 No, I said that I don't agree with that.

01:21:14.740 Okay.

01:21:15.020 So then if you say, then you decide, is what you're saying.

01:21:17.100 So the woman decides. 0.98

01:21:17.640 No, I don't say that I decide, but I would, he was saying that in every situation, if you

01:21:21.360 had to agree with me, no, but we're talking specifically about the abortion situation.

01:21:23.660 So if there's a baby in the stomach and he says no, it's a human being at that point.

01:21:30.060 If then he says no and you say yes, who, who's right?

01:21:34.840 Me personally.

01:21:36.000 Um, I, I don't really feel like I would return to sender.

01:21:40.920 So I would agree with him if he said no, but I do feel like.

01:21:44.840 You would agree with him?

01:21:45.660 Yeah.

01:21:46.000 Okay.

01:21:46.320 So he gets to decide.

01:21:47.580 Well, yeah.

01:21:48.000 This is, this is the, this is the problem that keeps coming up though.

01:21:50.100 So it's like, two people can't make that sort of decision.

01:21:53.360 Well, yeah, you're right.

01:21:54.760 But that's, I think what he was saying is like, if you had to let the man make a decision

01:21:59.460 for you or whatever, are you going to give him that?

01:22:02.200 Okay.

01:22:02.520 To make the final decision.

01:22:03.620 I said, no, lots of faces coming over here.

01:22:05.920 I want to see, I want to hear what you have to say.

01:22:07.680 Yeah.

01:22:07.900 Sorry.

01:22:08.340 I cannot control my face.

01:22:09.820 A man can choose to leave a pregnancy and have nothing to do about it. 0.87

01:22:14.300 A woman leaving a pregnancy that become mean a group decision is insane to me. 0.74

01:22:18.820 It's her body. 0.98

01:22:20.220 It's her choice.

01:22:20.980 She's the one that's carrying it to term or not.

01:22:23.220 If a man can leave a viable pregnancy because of his desire to leave a pregnancy, then a 0.99

01:22:28.220 woman should be able to do the same. 1.00

01:22:29.620 Okay.

01:22:29.780 So men, men should definitely not be entitled to pay any child support then.

01:22:33.540 I don't think that's the same argument at all. 0.97

01:22:35.580 Wait, if she, if it's her decision to, to, to kill the baby, then. 0.74

01:22:39.220 It's not a baby. 0.98

01:22:40.120 What is it then?

01:22:40.860 It's an embryo at that point.

01:22:42.160 And when does, when does life begin?

01:22:46.020 After four weeks.

01:22:47.900 Isn't that right?

01:22:48.820 When does life begin?

01:22:51.720 It depends where you follow that spectrum.

01:22:54.240 Yeah.

01:22:54.740 It's a spectrum.

01:22:55.440 What's the spectrum?

01:22:56.060 Explain it to me.

01:22:56.860 So an embryo, a zygote is very different in terms of a baby.

01:23:01.000 When you can hear a heartbeat.

01:23:02.240 And an adult is different to a baby.

01:23:03.780 So when does, when does life start?

01:23:05.460 That's the question.

01:23:05.920 It's the cutoff of when you can have an abortion, when you can hear the heartbeat.

01:23:09.780 Okay.

01:23:10.080 So whether or not you think abortion should be or should not be is a separate argument,

01:23:15.000 but I'm saying if a man can leave a pregnancy, a woman should be able to do the same.

01:23:18.280 Just to clarify, your position is that life begins when you can hear a heartbeat.

01:23:23.940 Yeah.

01:23:24.200 So you should not be able to have an abortion after the heartbeat.

01:23:27.300 Yeah, I agree with that.

01:23:28.360 100% completely illegal, every state, every part of the world to have a heartbeat.

01:23:32.680 Well, I, okay.

01:23:33.440 Okay.

01:23:33.640 So I think that regardless of if it's legal or illegal, people are going to do it.

01:23:37.520 They've been doing it since the beginning of time.

01:23:39.860 Legalizing it just allows it to be done safer.

01:23:42.360 Right.

01:23:42.860 I gotcha.

01:23:43.300 If I personally got pregnant at any point, I could not have an abortion. 0.99

01:23:48.320 So you think that it's more about, it's more about the fact that they can safely kill that baby.

01:23:54.180 It's not a baby. 0.95

01:23:55.100 You just said it starts at heartbeat.

01:23:57.000 That's what you said.

01:23:57.540 I'm saying you can have an abortion up to the point where you can hear a heartbeat. 0.60

01:24:00.540 Okay.

01:24:00.980 So then after that, you can't have an abortion. 0.99

01:24:03.820 Am I, am I correct?

01:24:04.720 Legally or like emotionally?

01:24:06.420 No, no.

01:24:06.640 In your world, after heartbeat, you can't have an abortion.

01:24:09.840 True?

01:24:10.420 I wouldn't.

01:24:11.240 Personally.

01:24:11.300 No, no.

01:24:11.540 I'm saying, should it be illegal?

01:24:13.400 My decision is not their decision.

01:24:14.840 I'm saying, should it be illegal?

01:24:15.960 But that should never be a man's decision.

01:24:16.420 I'm not talking about your specific point of view.

01:24:18.780 I'm talking about in terms of whether it should be illegal.

01:24:21.360 At heartbeat, do you think it should be completely illegal?

01:24:23.540 I do, yeah.

01:24:26.060 Okay.

01:24:26.560 And what is the, like, how did you determine that heartbeat is when life begins?

01:24:31.960 Because when it's an embryo or a petri dish baby or however, you fertilize that egg, it's

01:24:37.760 still an egg.

01:24:38.480 It's still an embryo.

01:24:39.420 That is still something that is not a living, breathing person.

01:24:43.440 If we had a scientist here, a biologist who was an expert in this field, the world's

01:24:47.260 foremost expert, what do you think they would tell you about when life begins?

01:24:50.020 I think that besides the fact that a scientist might say that, science is so devalued in

01:24:59.780 society now because men make the decision based on their emotion and not based on science.

01:25:04.840 Men make the decision based on their emotion?

01:25:06.480 Do you think that women make this decision based on their emotion?

01:25:10.060 I think if it's something that is inside you that you are going to have to carry to term,

01:25:16.740 that is a you decision.

01:25:18.300 It's your body.

01:25:18.600 I didn't ask that.

01:25:19.100 So I asked, do you think that women make the decision based on emotion? 1.00

01:25:21.980 Yeah, I do.

01:25:22.760 Okay.

01:25:23.000 Well then, it equalizes it.

01:25:24.660 But can I tell you what the biologist would tell you if they were sitting right here?

01:25:28.180 You sure can.

01:25:28.860 They would tell you that life begins at conception.

01:25:31.200 Sure.

01:25:31.640 Yeah.

01:25:31.900 It's when the egg is fertilized.

01:25:32.980 It's when the DNA is created.

01:25:34.460 Right.

01:25:34.700 But you're subjectively going against that.

01:25:37.280 So you don't agree with the scientific consensus?

01:25:39.240 I don't agree that there are so many instances where a woman should not have to carry that to 1.00

01:25:44.260 term.

01:25:44.540 There are instances of things that we probably shouldn't talk about on here, but you should

01:25:50.160 not.

01:25:50.600 Even in that instance, what if it's after the heartbeat that they want to get rid of the

01:25:54.940 child?

01:25:55.500 I don't think a woman should have to deal with that emotional baggage. 0.90

01:25:58.180 So you think that they should be able to kill the child?

01:26:00.460 It's not a child. 0.98

01:26:01.420 Wait.

01:26:01.560 What about this, though?

01:26:02.900 Okay.

01:26:04.320 No, what about this?

01:26:05.780 What if pro-lifers are actually willing to go ahead and grant that in the instances that

01:26:13.100 you were going to mention, essay, incest, so forth, they're like, you know what?

01:26:18.800 That's fine.

01:26:19.280 But all the other ones where it's just like, I'm not ready, not financially capable, just

01:26:23.900 don't want it, don't want to birth the child, they have to continue with the pregnancy. 0.92

01:26:28.040 Are you fine with that?

01:26:29.720 Like, personally or legally?

01:26:33.020 What do you mean?

01:26:34.240 Like, I personally, if I were to get pregnant in that scenario, I could not get an abortion

01:26:38.780 emotionally, but I don't think that my choice should be for the greater person.

01:26:41.860 So you wouldn't get an abortion in those circumstances? 0.92

01:26:45.400 I don't think so.

01:26:45.580 Okay, but legally, you think like other women should? 1.00

01:26:47.480 I think in general, we should be pro-choice because it's a woman's body to do with what 1.00

01:26:51.200 she wants.

01:26:51.900 But what if she wants to do with her body, abort the baby after six months? 1.00

01:26:56.240 And you're saying that the man doesn't want to, or just in general, that she shouldn't

01:26:59.520 be able to do that?

01:26:59.540 In general, everybody wants to, everybody's super stoked about it.

01:27:01.940 At six months?

01:27:02.440 Yes, we're going to do it at six months.

01:27:03.260 Yeah, it's her body. 0.89

01:27:03.960 She should be able to do it?

01:27:04.660 Yeah, no.

01:27:05.180 Okay, so then it's not about whether it's her body.

01:27:07.240 So what's the actual determining factor?

01:27:09.700 Which I said several times, the heartbeat.

01:27:12.080 Okay, but what if they're R-worded though?

01:27:14.860 What if what?

01:27:15.460 What if they're R-worded, and then it's at six weeks?

01:27:19.460 Just a week after the heartbeat is heard, but the woman was R-worded, yeah? 0.94

01:27:23.460 She was graped. 0.51

01:27:24.320 Right.

01:27:24.720 Yeah, and she wants to get rid of it. 1.00

01:27:26.120 Should she be able to?

01:27:28.480 Yeah.

01:27:29.040 So you're arguing for murder.

01:27:30.540 And what?

01:27:31.300 You're arguing for murder.

01:27:33.560 I think in instances that we're not talking about, I don't think a woman should ever have 1.00

01:27:37.500 to take that to term because that's emotional.

01:27:39.120 So you're arguing for murder.

01:27:39.900 So if you say that it's a life when the heartbeat starts, and you're arguing to take that life

01:27:44.700 after the heartbeat starts, you're arguing for murder?

01:27:46.500 Yes, because they also took something from her.

01:27:49.280 That was not her decision, so that then becomes her choice.

01:27:53.340 Is it emotional baggage to carry the child or to raise the child?

01:27:56.900 Both.

01:27:58.320 Because I don't think that's fair to the child either, because it wasn't their fault.

01:28:02.240 Can I add?

01:28:02.760 How is it emotional baggage if that's what we're designed to do, is we're designed to

01:28:06.400 carry it?

01:28:06.780 You're not designed to carry your... 0.62

01:28:09.400 Do you know that 100% of babies that are given up at the hospital get adopted?

01:28:16.500 I don't think that's a real statement.

01:28:17.420 That's a true fact.

01:28:18.540 100% of babies who are given up for adoption are adopted.

01:28:22.600 There's a massive, massive waiting line.

01:28:23.840 100%.

01:28:24.520 There's a massive waiting line.

01:28:25.560 But there's a lot of nipostics. 1.00

01:28:26.700 If it was possible to have 100% more, they would also get adopted.

01:28:30.300 But they have a lot of postpartum and like mental...

01:28:32.160 It is true.

01:28:32.860 What's your...

01:28:33.500 What's your...

01:28:34.500 How do you say that?

01:28:35.620 There are thousands of children in the foster system.

01:28:37.280 That's not a true stat at all.

01:28:39.000 They get adopted.

01:28:39.440 I didn't say foster system.

01:28:40.280 I said babies that get adopted from birth, from the hospital, 100% of them get adopted.

01:28:44.940 The reason why there are thousands of children in the foster system is because when they get

01:28:47.540 older, it gets harder and harder to adopt them as they get older.

01:28:50.220 But from a baby, they get snapped up straight away.

01:28:55.280 I have a couple questions.

01:28:56.520 I'd love to see that stuff.

01:28:58.660 Question.

01:28:59.280 If pregnancy only lasted one day, like you get pregnant and then next 24 hours later, you're 0.69

01:29:05.020 popping out a kid, would you be in favor of abortion? 0.62

01:29:09.120 Personally, no.

01:29:09.980 I'm not in favor of abortion in general.

01:29:12.440 Oh.

01:29:13.720 Well, but you're pro-choice, right?

01:29:15.440 I am.

01:29:16.000 Yeah.

01:29:16.120 But I'm saying me personally, no.

01:29:17.660 I would not agree with an abortion.

01:29:19.060 But like...

01:29:19.740 Okay.

01:29:20.200 But so for other women, would... 1.00

01:29:22.640 If abortion only lasted 24 hours, would you be in favor of allowing women choice in that

01:29:29.340 scenario?

01:29:30.440 I still think it's a woman's choice what she does with her body. 1.00

01:29:33.640 Okay.

01:29:35.020 It's just like...

01:29:35.540 I know it's a totally hypothetical scenario if like pregnancy lasts one day.

01:29:39.020 The pregnancy length doesn't determine that for me.

01:29:41.800 Okay.

01:29:42.380 Well, just curious then, like, so let's say 24 hours before a woman would otherwise give

01:29:47.960 birth to a healthy baby, would you be fine with abortion then? 0.90

01:29:50.220 No, of course not.

01:29:50.960 I said several times that.

01:29:52.060 The heartbeat.

01:29:53.200 I mean...

01:29:53.600 But then after that, you said that if they had been graped and then it was a week after...

01:29:57.080 Yes.

01:29:57.100 In the instance of graped, absolutely never do I think a woman should have to be forced to

01:30:02.620 do that.

01:30:03.040 Right.

01:30:03.300 What about if it was a week after and she was having really, really bad depression and

01:30:07.680 like financial issues, life was in complete chaos and she was like, I just want to get... 0.99

01:30:11.960 I still think it's a woman's choice. 0.96

01:30:13.020 Okay.

01:30:13.140 So then you have no standard then.

01:30:15.420 You've just contradicted yourself so many times.

01:30:17.460 I have not.

01:30:18.360 My stance...

01:30:19.640 No, I have not contradicted myself at all.

01:30:21.380 You said it's five weeks.

01:30:22.400 It becomes a life.

01:30:23.180 You said that it should be illegal after that.

01:30:24.660 You actually said that before.

01:30:26.080 And then I've given you...

01:30:26.920 I'm saying I never agree with abortion ever.

01:30:30.800 But I don't think it's my choice to make that determining factor for anybody else.

01:30:34.920 Okay.

01:30:35.200 So then what Brian's just said before, if she wants to abort it, like when it's about to

01:30:40.120 be born, then you have no problem with that because it's her choice.

01:30:42.820 I don't...

01:30:43.780 Okay.

01:30:44.640 I've said the same thing several times.

01:30:46.420 I think it's like her person...

01:30:47.120 But that's what we're talking about.

01:30:47.800 Like you personally wouldn't, but we're trying to get at...

01:30:50.720 Okay.

01:30:50.940 Well, like...

01:30:51.360 Should she be able to?

01:30:51.940 Your worldview...

01:30:52.880 Like, should women be able to have an abortion like an hour before they would otherwise give 0.99

01:30:56.300 birth?

01:30:56.520 Of course not.

01:30:57.200 Well...

01:30:57.640 That's not legal or...

01:30:59.520 No, but...

01:31:00.100 It is actually.

01:31:00.800 Who does...

01:31:01.380 It is actually.

01:31:01.880 It's not.

01:31:02.540 In some states it is.

01:31:03.440 No, but they're not going into labor and they're going, excuse me, I'd actually like

01:31:05.880 an abortion.

01:31:06.400 I mean, you can laugh about it, but it has happened many, many times actually.

01:31:09.900 They would never allow that.

01:31:11.160 I mean...

01:31:11.440 That's absolutely not legal.

01:31:12.720 Yeah, they...

01:31:13.400 It's going to be pretty embarrassing when you find out that they...

01:31:15.680 An hour before they're going into labor.

01:31:16.620 Yeah, like they just...

01:31:17.440 Post-birth abortions.

01:31:18.600 Like...

01:31:19.080 There's something in that way.

01:31:21.400 Okay, but...

01:31:21.740 If you found out that it was true...

01:31:23.140 But would you be in favor of women having the choice to do that?

01:31:27.560 In a normal situation or in a grape situation?

01:31:31.040 Normal.

01:31:31.920 No.

01:31:32.820 Okay, so they should be legally prevented from having an abortion a day before they would 1.00

01:31:37.600 otherwise give birth?

01:31:39.780 I think so, yeah.

01:31:41.380 And what about three months before?

01:31:43.160 What about at six months?

01:31:44.580 Should the police come in and say no?

01:31:46.060 My argument stays the same with the heartbeat.

01:31:47.720 Your argument is actually very, very inconsistent because you're saying at one point,

01:31:51.740 that women shouldn't be able to do it after five weeks, it should be illegal. 1.00

01:31:55.240 I've said the same thing 72 times.

01:31:55.900 You've said actually very different things many different times.

01:31:58.020 So you said it...

01:31:58.820 You can make faces all you want or you can just engage with a logical argument if you'd

01:32:02.440 like to as well.

01:32:03.600 But you said at five weeks, it should be illegal.

01:32:06.060 We can run back the tape.

01:32:07.040 You said that before.

01:32:07.940 Right.

01:32:08.260 At a heartbeat.

01:32:08.560 And then after that, you said that it should be a woman's choice.

01:32:11.800 Right?

01:32:12.120 I still think in general it should be a woman's choice. 0.86

01:32:14.600 There's situations of SA.

01:32:15.940 There's situations of grape.

01:32:17.580 That's...

01:32:17.860 So then you don't...

01:32:18.640 The heartbeat thing isn't your position.

01:32:21.080 Can I add something?

01:32:22.380 Okay.

01:32:22.840 Go.

01:32:23.280 I think that like it's more like after five weeks that the heartbeat is formed in her

01:32:28.240 state that like before that, like from that, when it's being, when it was a baby and

01:32:34.940 then from week five, that from that standpoint is where it should be legal for her to sort 1.00

01:32:40.060 of a woman to have a choice to have an abortion.

01:32:42.380 Wait, post five weeks or pre five weeks?

01:32:44.980 Like before five weeks.

01:32:46.200 Isn't that the...

01:32:46.720 Because you might even just miss one period and think that it's late at five weeks.

01:32:50.360 You can't get an abortion until seven weeks. 1.00

01:32:52.240 I don't know.

01:32:52.880 I don't know what...

01:32:53.380 What's the cutoff?

01:32:53.800 Okay, guys.

01:32:54.180 Is it four weeks?

01:32:54.880 Six weeks.

01:32:55.600 My sister did not find out she's pregnant until she was five months.

01:33:00.220 So I think in the case of grape, I think it doesn't matter.

01:33:05.740 I don't think the time period should know because I think especially if it's like a 12 year 0.99

01:33:09.240 old little girl, how the fuck are they supposed to know? 1.00

01:33:11.820 That's what I'm saying. 0.99

01:33:12.580 What about post birth then?

01:33:15.300 Just after they're born, it was a victim of...

01:33:18.760 No.

01:33:19.040 What about a day before?

01:33:20.260 Yeah.

01:33:20.920 They should be able to?

01:33:22.120 In my opinion, yeah.

01:33:23.180 Okay.

01:33:23.480 So you're also arguing for murder?

01:33:24.860 Yes.

01:33:25.540 Okay.

01:33:28.480 I can say it.

01:33:29.360 Wait, in any circumstance?

01:33:31.260 No.

01:33:31.420 Because you...

01:33:32.120 With grape.

01:33:32.640 Huh?

01:33:33.100 With grape.

01:33:33.820 Sorry.

01:33:34.060 I can't say it.

01:33:35.060 I can't say it.

01:33:35.320 Okay.

01:33:36.100 And so, but like, what if she's just not ready?

01:33:42.240 A day before birth?

01:33:43.500 Are you fine with that?

01:33:44.820 No.

01:33:45.900 Oh, what?

01:33:46.900 Okay.

01:33:47.300 I guess there's some differentiation there.

01:33:49.620 Question for the panel going around the table.

01:33:51.500 Would you rather have a democracy or access to abortions? 0.99

01:33:55.780 Me again first?

01:33:56.860 Yeah, we're going around.

01:33:58.080 Into the mic.

01:33:59.520 Democracy.

01:34:02.560 Okay, can you say the second part again?

01:34:04.180 Sorry.

01:34:06.020 Just try to pay attention.

01:34:07.380 Would you rather have a democracy or access to abortions? 0.99

01:34:09.560 I don't know.

01:34:14.820 A democracy.

01:34:16.560 Democracy.

01:34:17.760 Access to abortion.

01:34:19.800 Democracy.

01:34:20.840 Democracy.

01:34:22.280 Access to abortion.

01:34:23.420 So, like, like, Trump just becomes authoritarian and it's like he becomes king?

01:34:31.160 He already is.

01:34:31.820 He is.

01:34:32.180 That's where we're at.

01:34:32.800 He's already doing it.

01:34:33.580 No, I mean, no.

01:34:35.060 How so?

01:34:35.460 No.

01:34:35.980 How's he an authoritarian?

01:34:38.220 What I'm saying is, he's like, okay, there's not going to be elections anymore.

01:34:42.220 I've seized control of the government and now it's going to be, like, passed down,

01:34:46.480 like, through my firstborn son.

01:34:49.440 And that's going to be the form of government.

01:34:51.700 But you get to keep access to abortion. 0.99

01:34:56.560 Is that, you still pick access to abortion?

01:34:58.160 I think that's already happening with Barron.

01:35:00.520 He already is, like, pointing him out.

01:35:02.540 It's going to go down.

01:35:03.280 Barron can't become president until he's, like, 35.

01:35:06.160 Oh.

01:35:06.700 I'm pretty sure.

01:35:07.300 And he's, like, what, 18, 19?

01:35:08.900 He's 18, 19.

01:35:09.320 And if he does, it'll be through democracy.

01:35:11.440 It'll be a long time.

01:35:12.160 In, like, two decades or something.

01:35:13.800 And you, wait, Darkhavia, you picked abortion over democracy? 0.90

01:35:18.300 Yeah, because I don't care.

01:35:20.020 About, are you an anarchist or something?

01:35:22.260 Yeah, no, I just don't care.

01:35:23.640 Like, I'm just going to be living.

01:35:25.160 You just want to abort all those people?

01:35:27.540 Like, I just, like, I'm just. 0.99

01:35:29.560 Just give me abortion. 1.00

01:35:30.780 Yeah, because I don't know what happened.

01:35:32.740 I can't predict the future, you know?

01:35:34.360 Like, I just want the option on the table, you know what I mean?

01:35:37.460 So, like, and I don't, I don't read the news about Trump and stuff like that.

01:35:41.360 I'm, like, I don't.

01:35:42.800 Did you vote?

01:35:43.480 Did you vote?

01:35:43.820 No, I've never voted.

01:35:44.640 How about this?

01:35:45.180 How about this?

01:35:46.000 Free college or free abortions? 0.99

01:35:49.280 Free college.

01:35:50.160 Yeah, free college.

01:35:51.060 Free college.

01:35:52.460 Free abortion. 0.54

01:35:53.660 What's up?

01:35:54.160 How many have you had?

01:35:55.220 Yeah, how many abortions have you had? 0.75

01:35:56.940 No, and I'm laughing because I was forced to have an abortion and ruined my life. 0.65

01:36:01.860 Like, mentally, emotionally, I shaved my head.

01:36:03.820 Now people think I'm a lesbian, guys are afraid of me.

01:36:06.780 So this is new?

01:36:07.300 You had a.

01:36:07.980 No, no, this was 10 years ago.

01:36:09.820 Oh. 0.98

01:36:10.140 And it fucked me up. 0.99

01:36:11.060 Yeah, it grows slowly. 0.98

01:36:12.480 Yeah, I was in a room for 10 years, like.

01:36:14.660 You've been shaving your head for 10 years?

01:36:15.560 No, this was recently because I catch a guy getting pegged.

01:36:18.640 That's a different story.

01:36:20.040 Okay.

01:36:20.400 Wait, say that again?

01:36:21.320 A guy got pegged.

01:36:22.320 A guy.

01:36:22.900 Yeah, and I got traumatized.

01:36:24.260 I'm sorry.

01:36:25.040 You pegged him?

01:36:25.720 No, I catched him.

01:36:27.040 Like, this other girl was doing it, and I was like, oh my God.

01:36:29.940 Is this someone you've never seen?

01:36:31.000 I'm sorry.

01:36:31.440 That's besides, yeah.

01:36:32.880 We'll get into the pegging thing later.

01:36:36.820 Oh, free college.

01:36:37.680 Free college or free abortion? 0.78

01:36:39.120 Free abortions.

01:36:40.360 You could be successful without college.

01:36:43.220 End abortions. 0.85

01:36:44.560 I would say free college.

01:36:46.060 You would have more doctors.

01:36:47.300 All right, that's cool.

01:36:48.860 And then final thing on this, we're not going to linger on the conversation too long.

01:36:53.620 What do you think about deadbeat dads? 1.00

01:36:57.740 Kill them. 1.00

01:36:58.860 Hold on. 1.00

01:36:59.480 One at a time.

01:37:00.860 Starting with you.

01:37:01.660 Go ahead.

01:37:02.880 Like, in general, what their effect is?

01:37:05.920 Yeah, like, I mean, so basically a deadbeat dad would be a guy who doesn't want to be involved

01:37:10.140 in the child's life, doesn't want to financially support the child.

01:37:15.180 Your thoughts?

01:37:16.700 Like, is this wrong?

01:37:17.860 Well, of course, yeah.

01:37:18.720 I think it takes two functional parents in the most ideal sense to raise a family.

01:37:23.400 And I think that that happens more often than deadbeat moms. 0.98

01:37:27.740 Men walk out on families a lot more often than women do. 0.66

01:37:31.240 And I do think that as much as women without healthy father figures, like, to think that 0.99

01:37:37.060 that's not a big issue, I think it is.

01:37:39.180 And I think it affects your relationship.

01:37:40.460 Yeah, you said men walk out more on their families. 0.62

01:37:44.340 Women initiate 80% of divorces, and they destroy their families. 1.00

01:37:47.900 So, I mean, I'm a little confused by where you came to this, like, men walk out on their families.

01:37:52.440 Do you hear a lot of people talking about mommy issues as opposed to people talking about daddy issues?

01:37:56.440 I hear about both.

01:37:56.980 Daddy issues is a lot bigger of an issue that people talk about.

01:37:59.640 Yeah, but if the woman initiates the divorce and prevents an otherwise willing father access 0.63

01:38:05.640 to their children, then this would indicate this wouldn't be the fault of the father necessarily.

01:38:10.660 In that one instance, I think in a lot of instances it is the man.

01:38:14.580 Just because a woman initiates the divorce doesn't mean that the woman is initiating the conflict. 0.98

01:38:19.360 Well, I'd be prepared to go ahead and grant that.

01:38:22.760 Most divorces, the reason is for it. 1.00

01:38:25.480 It's just, I'm just not happy.

01:38:27.520 Irreconcilable differences.

01:38:28.640 Yeah, on both sides.

01:38:28.980 Financial issues.

01:38:30.440 Yeah.

01:38:30.920 But for women, it's just like, I'm just vaguely unhappy. 1.00

01:38:34.600 There's no abuse.

01:38:35.920 There's no abuse.

01:38:40.820 There's no anything bad happening.

01:38:43.900 He's not hitting the woman. 1.00

01:38:45.300 She's just, uh, want new dick. 1.00

01:38:48.080 I think there's no reported abuse, and also I think you're not taking into consideration pre-marital pregnancies. 0.99

01:38:55.740 Yeah, when there's not reported abuse.

01:38:58.580 I can just make the same claim.

01:39:00.200 Well, 100% of men are abused, but it's not reported.

01:39:03.620 So I can't, we can't do any sort of analysis.

01:39:06.300 Men are much less likely to report it as well.

01:39:08.840 And yes, Jake makes, raises an excellent argument.

01:39:11.000 I would agree with that.

01:39:11.440 In the event of actual abuse, men are more likely than women to not report it.

01:39:16.580 I agree.

01:39:17.020 Are you taking into consideration pre-marital pregnancies, though?

01:39:21.240 Because I think in that situation, it's definitely men walking out more.

01:39:26.520 I agree with that.

01:39:27.720 Yeah.

01:39:28.140 Do you think that there's more men walking out or more women having abortions?

01:39:30.840 Now it's more men walking. 0.86

01:39:35.460 I think that it would definitely be, because you get about a million a year in America.

01:39:38.340 I don't think there's a million men a year walking out on pregnancy.

01:39:40.560 Yeah, but if people, if we would have a, that rate would be a lot different if we weren't

01:39:44.500 having abortions.

01:39:45.400 I think that if the nuclear family was intact and we had any morals in our society, then 0.89

01:39:50.800 there definitely would be less of that.

01:39:52.220 I was going to exactly say that, that I think that the nuclear family doesn't really exist

01:39:56.620 in as much as it did before.

01:39:58.560 And so the family structure is very different.

01:40:00.720 And most households aren't a two-parent healthy household to begin with.

01:40:05.420 Yeah.

01:40:06.900 Your thought on deadbeat damned? 1.00

01:40:08.820 They suck. 1.00

01:40:09.720 They suck? 1.00

01:40:10.520 Yeah. 1.00

01:40:10.940 Is there more?

01:40:11.620 No, it's fine.

01:40:12.500 It's it.

01:40:13.180 Yeah.

01:40:13.840 It's whack to do that.

01:40:15.100 Whack.

01:40:16.060 Ruining society.

01:40:17.380 Ruining society.

01:40:19.300 I don't know.

01:40:19.760 I think there's probably more to the situation that, of the reason why they're maybe out of

01:40:23.960 their kids' lives.

01:40:24.780 Sure. 1.00

01:40:25.700 I was totally kidding about Kill Them. 0.96

01:40:27.320 I think you can still make a beautiful child with a deadbeat dad and for them to be not involved 0.97

01:40:34.000 at all.

01:40:34.520 But I do think there needs to be more percussions and laws around child support, because I think

01:40:41.340 it's very, it's so easy to get away with not paying it.

01:40:44.480 No, it's not.

01:40:45.860 My niece's dad didn't pay the first 10 years.

01:40:47.840 I'm 23 and my dad has never paid a dime.

01:40:50.940 So you got two people.

01:40:52.320 You guys can say that, but there's a robust legal system.

01:40:58.240 And then it can also be done civilly too.

01:41:00.700 So they can go to the court or they can go to the, there's a specific government agency.

01:41:05.320 I, it's evading me exactly, but it's like child services or something.

01:41:10.220 So you cannot go to them or you can go to court.

01:41:13.040 But that is an immediate.

01:41:14.180 You have to go through so much, so much in the court system to even get to that point.

01:41:18.180 Yes, you do.

01:41:18.700 No, you don't.

01:41:19.540 There's two, four, seven of us at this table.

01:41:22.060 How many here, who has kids?

01:41:23.800 Who here has attempted to get child support from anybody?

01:41:26.600 Or we were the children that needed to be supported.

01:41:29.340 There's three out of seven.

01:41:30.280 That's half of your table.

01:41:31.020 That needed child support?

01:41:32.760 That didn't get it.

01:41:33.600 That didn't get it?

01:41:34.180 Yeah.

01:41:34.480 Did your parents, did your, did your.

01:41:36.840 Yeah, my mom went through the court system. 1.00

01:41:38.080 It took her about like three years and my, it was from me and my twin sister.

01:41:41.620 Okay.

01:41:41.920 And so what, what was, what, what tell us exactly what happened in the court system?

01:41:47.840 What, I know I was, when it happened, I was really young, but like, I, yeah, I think that's

01:41:53.560 like the whole application and then they have to find out where they live or some stuff like

01:41:57.100 that.

01:41:57.360 And they have to get their current address, especially it's a lot harder when the parent,

01:42:00.960 when the person that left woman or dad, whatever.

01:42:04.500 It's also harder when they live in a different state and getting ahold of them and such and

01:42:08.020 all that.

01:42:08.800 So like, that's, I feel like that's how my dad got away with it.

01:42:11.920 Because he moved around a lot to stay away from it.

01:42:14.540 It was a similar circumstance.

01:42:16.080 He moved to New Mexico and they weren't able to track him down until a year ago when he

01:42:22.200 moved back to Arizona and got a job that he was paying taxes on.

01:42:26.120 So they started taking it out of the paycheck.

01:42:28.840 A job that's not like easily traceable is harder to find.

01:42:31.600 My dad, the same thing.

01:42:32.660 My parents had like a 32 court of parents custody battle over me.

01:42:37.600 So that takes years.

01:42:39.300 So there was an ongoing custody.

01:42:41.420 He wanted to get custody.

01:42:42.980 He did.

01:42:44.700 He wanted partial custody, but he didn't.

01:42:47.100 And your mom wanted him to have no custody?

01:42:48.840 No.

01:42:49.180 My mom wanted to give him partial custody, but she wanted him to have evidence of like

01:42:52.900 a stable job or like a stable living situation.

01:42:56.420 Otherwise he would have no custody.

01:42:58.620 Or she, no, she didn't want him to have no custody.

01:43:00.840 She wanted him to have like monitored visitation so that I wasn't in a situation that was unsafe.

01:43:06.320 Was he an unsafe man?

01:43:07.620 Wait, who was the breadwinner?

01:43:09.540 My mom.

01:43:09.980 Who earned more?

01:43:10.920 My mom.

01:43:11.620 So in what scenario, if custody was going to be split, would the person who's earning less

01:43:18.640 money pay child support to the parent who's making more money?

01:43:23.360 Did your mom pay child support to him so that he could?

01:43:26.740 I was never with him.

01:43:27.540 Hold on.

01:43:28.220 Okay.

01:43:28.960 You weren't with him because she wanted to withhold custody because he wasn't financially

01:43:35.600 capable, even though she was the breadwinner and she could have been paying him child support

01:43:40.980 so that in the same way that a lot of women face this scenario where they don't have financial 1.00

01:43:46.480 resources and they seek the man to bolster their own resources so that they can raise

01:43:51.220 the child, your mother ought to have been paying child support to your father so that he did 0.74

01:43:56.900 have that safe home and have the resources to raise you.

01:44:01.040 As the breadwinner, that would have been justified.

01:44:03.020 Not with an unsafe man.

01:44:04.120 Absolutely not.

01:44:04.900 Well, now you're adding another layer to it.

01:44:06.780 No, but that's not how it...

01:44:07.180 But I said that to begin with.

01:44:08.520 Okay.

01:44:08.780 So he was physically abusive.

01:44:10.260 Right.

01:44:10.400 Okay.

01:44:11.680 Well, I mean, that goes beyond...

01:44:13.080 So what she had wanted was not no custody.

01:44:16.960 She just wanted him to have a safe area because he didn't have a home that was stable and she

01:44:22.820 didn't want me to be in an unsafe area.

01:44:25.580 He lived in a different state once they got divorced and so she wasn't going to just send

01:44:30.620 me at four years old to a different state to go visit him with no parameters to make it

01:44:35.360 a safe situation for her child.

01:44:36.760 How long were they married for?

01:44:38.740 Before me or like in general?

01:44:40.580 Yeah, before you?

01:44:41.700 Two years before me and then a year or two years.

01:44:45.600 I was two when the divorce finalized.

01:44:47.420 They separated when I was one and a half.

01:44:48.560 When did the physical violence start?

01:44:51.200 Immediately.

01:44:52.580 When you...

01:44:53.360 Like I was a year and a half.

01:44:55.700 It started after you were born?

01:44:57.640 With me.

01:44:58.360 The physical violence with me.

01:45:01.560 Do you remember any of this?

01:45:03.260 Yes, of course.

01:45:04.340 I mean...

01:45:04.560 When you were one or two years old?

01:45:05.780 No, I remembered the court situation and all of the custody things because I was like

01:45:10.380 that happened for years.

01:45:11.100 Wait, you remember the court situation or the violence?

01:45:14.340 No, the court situation.

01:45:15.580 You said you remembered the violence.

01:45:17.920 Okay, then I misspoke.

01:45:19.060 I said the court situation.

01:45:20.760 They went through a very long custody battle after they filed for divorce to get custody

01:45:25.040 of me.

01:45:25.960 My mom wanted to have me in a safe area so that I still had a relationship with my dad

01:45:30.640 but that I wasn't unsafe.

01:45:32.360 And so what was she asserting...

01:45:34.140 I think it's the bare minimum.

01:45:34.960 What was she asserting about his conduct?

01:45:37.580 Was he striking her?

01:45:39.780 No, it was me.

01:45:40.840 I just said that.

01:45:41.540 He was hitting you.

01:45:43.300 I don't think we need to go into the specifics of it.

01:45:45.280 It was a physical altercation and it was with me.

01:45:49.380 Like he was hitting you.

01:45:50.900 I just said twice.

01:45:51.860 We don't have to get into it.

01:45:52.680 I don't need...

01:45:53.320 But it was violence is what you're saying.

01:45:55.000 Yes.

01:45:59.720 So if you have a two-year-old that that is happening to, would you want them in that unsafe

01:46:05.060 situation?

01:46:05.840 Look, I don't know the details of it.

01:46:07.640 What I do know that is very common in custody disputes, and this is more so something that

01:46:12.460 women do, is they will manufacture either claim that the male parent is either physically 0.99

01:46:22.520 If there's doctors, things showing, and there's photos, then obviously not.

01:46:27.980 Maybe that's the case.

01:46:28.580 It is true.

01:46:29.160 I do have friends that the man, you know, he goes through custody battles all the time

01:46:33.580 because his ex-wife is, you know, saying things that happened to the kid.

01:46:37.300 I've seen it a million times as well.

01:46:39.300 But it doesn't mean that it's all of them.

01:46:40.760 We don't know.

01:46:42.160 I've never said that.

01:46:43.060 I'll just say it does happen.

01:46:45.080 Was he ever physically violent towards your mom?

01:46:47.400 Look, if you don't want to talk about it, I understand.

01:46:52.980 It does seem uncharacteristic, though, for physical violence to be directed at a child

01:46:59.420 but not a spouse.

01:47:00.920 I don't know the details.

01:47:03.580 A lot of people in a custody dispute say things.

01:47:07.960 This is absolutely not a fabricated thing, if that's what you're trying to insinuate.

01:47:11.180 Well, there's no way for us to know, but yeah.

01:47:12.880 Well, I mean, there is a way for us to know because there's documentation and photographs

01:47:16.520 and doctor's testimony.

01:47:19.900 So absolutely, there is a way to know.

01:47:23.880 Okay.

01:47:25.040 I mean, I'll take your word for it.

01:47:27.900 Then your father was a sick individual if he was physically violent with a baby.

01:47:33.840 And if that is the case, if there is actually stone-cold evidence for it,

01:47:37.180 then there should not be any custody.

01:47:38.700 I don't know why.

01:47:39.600 Why would he want to visit you?

01:47:40.920 I don't know why your mom would even know that.

01:47:41.900 That would be like, if my...

01:47:43.580 That's why my mom had said that she wanted me to know he existed,

01:47:46.960 but she didn't want it to be in a situation where I was ever alone with him,

01:47:50.880 that I could have monitored visitations with an agency.

01:47:53.480 Was there a police report?

01:47:54.640 Yeah.

01:47:55.240 There's all of that.

01:47:55.400 Okay.

01:47:55.620 Was he arrested?

01:47:57.200 Was there a prosecution?

01:47:59.100 Yes, there was a prosecution.

01:48:00.700 Okay.

01:48:01.180 All right, then.

01:48:02.740 Okay.

01:48:04.720 Good talk. 0.98

01:48:05.420 What the heck? 0.98

01:48:05.660 What the heck got? 0.99

01:48:08.900 Abortion. 0.72

01:48:10.380 Child abuse.

01:48:11.380 We're really hitting all the hot-button issues, huh?

01:48:14.080 We have a couple chats here that came in.

01:48:15.620 I'm going to get to those.

01:48:16.800 Apologies for the delays, guys.

01:48:18.300 And I have to...

01:48:18.820 Noah donated $100.

01:48:22.780 Good to know women are yet still more concerned about ridding themselves of babies instead of taking responsibility. 1.00

01:48:30.260 Try closing your legs, girls. 1.00

01:48:32.240 Good to have the whatever pot back, Brian.

01:48:35.080 Cheers, mates.

01:48:35.780 Very negative opinions towards deadbeat dads.

01:48:38.700 But, I mean, if you were to ask a deadbeat dad, which is a spin on, like, a man whose circumstances might not be ideal, financially...

01:48:47.980 Can we say what we mean by that, though?

01:48:49.500 Because when you say deadbeat dad, I tend to think somebody who is intentionally not wanting to be in the child's life.

01:48:54.600 Not somebody who was pushed out by the mother or somebody who's just fallen on hard times financially or somebody who just doesn't earn much.

01:49:01.580 Well, I think defining our terms is important here.

01:49:03.900 I mean, it's probably a bit of an umbrella term that could cover some of those things or all of those things.

01:49:09.720 I was thinking of one of those guys who's got, like, multiple, like, different sort of women that he's intentionally sort of, like, not being there for.

01:49:15.680 Like, you know, you see this a lot in the black community with, like, the single mother rate and stuff.

01:49:21.040 You're going to get canceled, bro.

01:49:21.960 Oh, that's true.

01:49:22.800 It's a massive single mother. 0.94

01:49:23.900 It's, like, 75%.

01:49:24.780 But I don't think that women would intentionally push out a man so they could be a single mother. 0.86

01:49:30.020 Women push away men. 1.00

01:49:31.320 Hold on.

01:49:31.640 Women push away men all the time. 1.00

01:49:33.620 Not even with children, just in relationships.

01:49:35.880 But I don't think that, like, they intentionally mean, like, oh, yeah, I'm going to be a single mom now.

01:49:39.540 Yeah.

01:49:40.040 Like, no.

01:49:40.800 No one wants to be a single mom. 1.00

01:49:42.780 No one wants to be a single mom. 1.00

01:49:44.140 If a woman has, like, a vindictive streak about her and she sees a way to get back at the man, say he went and, like, was sleeping with a younger girl, for example, and she sees a way of getting back at him as not letting him see the child, that is a very realistic situation.

01:49:58.840 Happens regularly.

01:49:59.320 Well, also, incarceration is a big number in the black male, like, in the black community.

01:50:06.120 So, a lot of the times, sometimes those men don't get a chance to be a father.

01:50:11.040 And then a lot of the times, it's a lot of injustice in those situations.

01:50:14.980 Well, the biggest problem that you guys have got is the welfare system.

01:50:17.280 Because since the welfare system came to be in the 1960s with Lyndon Maid Johnson, the single motherhood rate has gone from 25% to 75%.

01:50:25.640 Because they're actually incentivized to tell the government that they don't have a daddy in their home so they can get more money.

01:50:30.700 Yeah, I agree with that, too. 0.98

01:50:31.820 So, on the whole deadbeat dad thing, though, it's just interesting to me because if the guy, let's say he's not, he doesn't want to be a father, he doesn't want that responsibility, he's not financially in a place where he can take care of the kid, like, all you guys say, these guys are clowns. 0.96

01:50:53.820 But, like, are you prepared? 0.75

01:50:56.560 The same statements that you made about deadbeat dads, will you say that about women who abort their child?

01:51:05.180 Like, you have to make the same statement.

01:51:07.080 Like, let's say these women, and most abortions are not ready, just not ready, don't want to go through the pregnancy, don't want to be a mom, not financially capable. 0.59

01:51:16.900 That's, like, 99% of abortions. 1.00

01:51:19.080 You have to make that same claim about the women who get the abortions. 1.00

01:51:22.600 Well, not really, because they don't have a kid that's here every day for the rest of their lives that they have to take care of a human that you're raising emotionally and mentally and physically.

01:51:31.300 Did you just say they put the kid out of their misery?

01:51:33.260 Yeah.

01:51:33.600 What are you talking about?

01:51:34.860 I'm saying, like, with someone not paying child support, that's 18 years of, like, misery.

01:51:42.440 Like, people come from bad situations and make something good of their life all the time.

01:51:46.340 I agree.

01:51:46.900 It's an absurd thing to say, they're putting them out of their misery.

01:51:49.020 I'm saying I wouldn't say the same thing about a mom aborting, because they're not putting their child through something horrible for 18 years.

01:51:58.280 I think women can be. 1.00

01:51:59.440 So you think it's better to kill the child instead of having them overcome the situation of having, like, not a two-parent home? 0.98

01:52:06.560 Um, personally, I wouldn't, um, but I think they should have the option, yeah. 0.94

01:52:12.060 But I think they should have the option, yeah.

01:52:13.920 I think that would be a not great reason to have an abortion, but if that's their choice, yeah. 0.99

01:52:19.820 Yeah.

01:52:20.260 You got something?

01:52:21.220 Yeah, I think if you got pregnant, you would not let women decide what to do with your body. 1.00

01:52:25.660 You'd be like, oh, hell, nine months in my balls? 1.00

01:52:28.200 You would never be talking about this. 1.00

01:52:29.900 Let me just tell you, let me tell you this, if I had a baby in my balls, I'd take that thing to term, and I'd spit it out my pee hole. 1.00

01:52:36.440 Yeah, right. 1.00

01:52:37.180 I would, and then if I, you'd think that I'd kill the baby. 0.73

01:52:40.860 I mean, you wouldn't be pregnant for nine months, you guys can't even get your periods, that's how fragile.

01:52:46.900 No, we actually don't get our periods, but what we do do is we work all of the most difficult jobs in the world,

01:52:51.780 and we work all of the most dangerous jobs in the world, we do all the dying in war.

01:52:55.560 And we appreciate it all of the time.

01:52:57.580 Yeah, just let us control our bodies.

01:53:00.360 Thank you.

01:53:00.940 Thank you.

01:53:01.460 You appreciate it.

01:53:02.260 But here you are saying that maybe we're not tough enough to, I think that if we can be ice road truckers,

01:53:07.580 and if we can go and die in ditches in war, pretty sure we can have a few little mood swings from being pregnant and having an hour period.

01:53:14.300 I think we'd be okay.

01:53:14.860 I think we need to, Ryan, you need to get that one stimulator for the period cramps.

01:53:19.860 Bring that on your podcast.

01:53:21.060 I mean, this whole, like, pregnancy is the most painful thing ever, there's, what is it, kidney stones?

01:53:26.580 Like, women who have been pregnant and then women who have had kidney stones, from women themselves, 1.00

01:53:33.540 report that the pain is just as, if not worse, than pregnancy.

01:53:38.220 And men get kidney stones.

01:53:40.300 My understanding is it's a little bit more painful for men than it is for women.

01:53:44.660 Try getting trench foot.

01:53:46.760 Yeah, trench foot. 0.56

01:53:47.800 You guys suffer so much.

01:53:50.740 Poor little babies.

01:53:51.920 Poor little babies.

01:53:52.380 You have to go through a little pregnancy. 1.00

01:53:54.120 We get all the pays and the money and the big things.

01:53:57.080 Oh, no, you have to have a little baby. 0.97

01:53:58.580 You have to have a little blood coming out of you for a few days a week.

01:54:01.640 But you have to realize what a baby does to a woman's body. 0.90

01:54:05.420 Yeah, exactly.

01:54:05.960 It literally does.

01:54:06.980 Do you know what trench foot does to a man's body?

01:54:09.020 You have to cut that thing off.

01:54:10.480 It is.

01:54:11.320 Look at World War I and World War II.

01:54:13.120 Look at the war in Russia and Ukraine.

01:54:14.760 We're not in World War II anymore.

01:54:17.900 You're right.

01:54:18.620 You know what?

01:54:19.260 World War II was a long time ago.

01:54:20.800 Women not being able to vote was also a long time ago, so it doesn't matter. 1.00

01:54:23.800 Also, slavery was a long time ago, so it doesn't matter, right?

01:54:27.140 No, no, no, no.

01:54:27.760 Go ahead.

01:54:28.660 Slavery was a long time ago, so it doesn't matter.

01:54:30.660 Say it.

01:54:31.700 Say it.

01:54:32.220 Which, the percentage of men who have had trench foot in the last 20 years to the amount

01:54:36.940 of women who have had babies is not statistically significant enough to compare them.

01:54:40.340 No, no, no.

01:54:40.360 We never said that.

01:54:41.100 That was nobody's claim.

01:54:41.920 No, no, no.

01:54:42.040 Hold on.

01:54:42.400 I'm exploring your claim of-

01:54:43.940 But you're saying that men had to have trench foot.

01:54:45.940 Hold on.

01:54:46.080 Take your logic to the logical conclusion.

01:54:47.460 Let's see where it goes.

01:54:48.260 Hold on.

01:54:48.520 So, you said, because Jake here brought up World War I, World War II, totally catastrophic,

01:54:55.760 tens of millions of male deaths, very few female deaths, so you said, well, World War

01:55:02.940 I, World War II, so long ago, doesn't matter.

01:55:06.300 Tell me, slavery was a long time ago.

01:55:08.740 It doesn't matter, right?

01:55:10.640 That's not comparable.

01:55:12.140 Hold on.

01:55:12.860 World War I and World War II, no offense to-

01:55:15.280 Trench foot versus slavery?

01:55:16.700 No, no, no.

01:55:17.220 Women were fighting in World War I and World War II. 0.93

01:55:19.660 Hold on.

01:55:20.280 I'm just saying that it's a high point.

01:55:22.200 Here.

01:55:22.420 Like, 100 million people died in the dream.

01:55:24.500 Just to be clear.

01:55:25.140 I understand that, but how many out of that that fought were actually women? 0.99

01:55:29.100 Because if-

01:55:29.420 Not many.

01:55:29.700 100% were men, then 100% of the outcome would be men.

01:55:32.760 Wait.

01:55:32.780 Just to be clear.

01:55:33.540 You think U.S. slavery has had a bigger impact on society than World War II?

01:55:41.880 Here.

01:55:42.400 Try to listen.

01:55:43.420 World War II.

01:55:44.780 Trench foot is one component of World War II.

01:55:46.880 And World War I.

01:55:48.560 All of World War II.

01:55:51.300 Which is worse?

01:55:53.360 Everything that is involved with World War II or just U.S.-based slavery?

01:55:59.240 Go ahead.

01:55:59.720 Which one's worse?

01:56:00.540 That's not what we were discussing.

01:56:01.900 It's literally, yes, it is.

01:56:03.940 No, we were comparing pregnancies and trench foot.

01:56:06.360 Yeah.

01:56:06.600 We're not comparing slavery.

01:56:07.720 Here's what happened.

01:56:08.320 I said that trench foot was something that was exclusive.

01:56:10.900 I use it as an example, right?

01:56:12.360 Because I'll tell you what's worse than trench foot, getting blown in half by those World 1.00

01:56:16.080 War II bullets.

01:56:16.680 That would be actually a fair bit worse because you're actually dead.

01:56:19.060 Do you think it was?

01:56:19.320 So we were comparing that and saying that, and she was saying, oh, poor little men have

01:56:22.760 to get trench foot and go and die in war.

01:56:24.740 And then we said, oh, well, poor women. 1.00

01:56:26.020 You guys have to just have a little period for a few months and be in a bad mood when you

01:56:29.080 probably don't even need to, to be honest.

01:56:30.160 How do you know that?

01:56:32.060 Oh, there it is.

01:56:33.800 How do you know?

01:56:34.620 You build your whole personality around it.

01:56:36.240 You don't know, Jacob.

01:56:38.200 You do not literally have, like, okay, so let's say, example, women have periods, but

01:56:42.680 let's say also that women that take birth control to maintain the periods and the hormones 0.99

01:56:47.000 that they process through their bodies, if you ever read the side effects on a birth

01:56:50.540 control package and how many side effects there are, and literally just to consume

01:56:54.320 of a woman's hormones because of their period.

01:56:56.100 For me, I take birth control because I have my, literally, I have an iron problem, so

01:57:00.560 if I can take my period, like, it literally, my blood flow will not stop.

01:57:03.500 Let me literally, let me literally tell you something, literally.

01:57:05.120 So I'm saying that we're a woman.

01:57:05.460 Let me literally tell you something, literally.

01:57:06.840 Literally, if you don't have sex, you literally won't have to take the birth control.

01:57:09.900 No, I take, I know, I literally, I just stated the fact that I take birth control because

01:57:13.760 of my period.

01:57:14.260 That's actually not true.

01:57:16.160 Hold on.

01:57:16.760 I literally just said it.

01:57:17.700 I was on it before I lost my virginity.

01:57:19.660 I'm not going to, listen, I'm not going to let you weasel, so. 1.00

01:57:22.940 There are so many other reasons to be on birth control.

01:57:25.120 That's cool.

01:57:25.500 So you said, these are the words you said, so I'm contending, stop, be quiet.

01:57:32.120 So you, look, I was very clear at the beginning of the show, not to be doing like cross talk

01:57:37.160 one microphone at a time.

01:57:38.540 We got to have good discipline when it comes to the microphones.

01:57:41.700 Anyways, back to this.

01:57:43.980 I heard, I was listening to you very closely.

01:57:46.300 You said, you didn't say trench foot was a long time ago.

01:57:49.220 You said World War I.

01:57:50.600 No, I wasn't.

01:57:51.240 Yes, you did.

01:57:51.900 You said World War I, World War II was a long time ago.

01:57:54.240 No, that's literally what came out of your mouth.

01:57:56.400 And then I followed it up by saying the amount of men who have had trench foot in the last

01:58:00.240 20 years compared to the amount of women who have been pregnant in the last 20 years is

01:58:04.280 not statistically significant enough to compare, which was the original argument.

01:58:09.360 But hold on.

01:58:10.180 The first half of that sentence was about World War I.

01:58:12.500 The entire sentence included what we were discussing.

01:58:17.660 Okay.

01:58:18.240 You realize trench foot, while there is to some degrees, like in the Ukraine war, there is

01:58:23.120 some degree of like trench warfare.

01:58:25.160 Trench warfare was like predominantly a World War I scenario and to some degree in World War

01:58:30.700 II.

01:58:31.300 So you said, well, what about the trench foot the past 20 years?

01:58:34.840 It's not really a major concern when it comes to global conflict.

01:58:40.820 You said World War I, World War II, long time ago.

01:58:45.320 Okay.

01:58:46.020 So just because something happened a long time ago doesn't mean that it doesn't have like

01:58:49.760 lingering impacts.

01:58:51.480 The whole world is completely different because of World War I and World War II. 0.79

01:58:56.260 Great.

01:58:57.620 I agree.

01:58:58.820 Okay.

01:58:59.080 That wasn't what we were discussing.

01:59:01.740 But you said, you were trying to like say, oh, well, these things happened a long time

01:59:05.320 ago.

01:59:05.880 Doesn't matter.

01:59:07.360 That was your position.

01:59:09.240 No, that wasn't my position at all.

01:59:10.920 I mean, then why bring up, oh, because you're trying to downplay it.

01:59:16.100 Why bring up that it happened so long ago?

01:59:18.740 Because that's...

01:59:19.540 Do you want a more recent example?

01:59:22.080 Sure.

01:59:22.500 Okay.

01:59:22.760 The Ukrainian war, which is currently ongoing.

01:59:25.960 All the women could leave the country. 1.00

01:59:27.920 All the men had to stay.

01:59:29.080 That seems like an injustice, doesn't it?

01:59:32.540 From a system that men set up. 0.91

01:59:35.940 What do you mean a system that men set up? 0.99

01:59:38.020 Who made rules of war?

01:59:40.220 Men?

01:59:40.780 Humans?

01:59:41.680 What does it have to do with men?

01:59:43.200 Wait, hold on.

01:59:43.920 Just to be clear.

01:59:44.480 So if most people in power are men, but that only represents 0.00001% of the population?

01:59:52.040 Men are only 0.01% of the population?

01:59:55.800 The men...

01:59:56.260 In power.

01:59:56.880 The kind of power that you're talking about.

01:59:58.200 How many Russian males are there versus how many Putins are there? 0.79

02:00:03.220 Right.

02:00:03.660 But the system is still set up by men.

02:00:05.540 And so you're complaining about a system that...

02:00:07.040 How do you know it has to do with the...

02:00:08.780 Because they're men.

02:00:10.700 Because that is the case.

02:00:11.900 They happen to be men.

02:00:13.060 If there was...

02:00:13.460 To just ask one question.

02:00:14.320 If there was a system that was set up by men and exclusively by men that made men walk 0.87

02:00:20.280 into a hole that was going to bury them and kill them, right?

02:00:24.180 And they just were walking into there all day. 0.95

02:00:26.320 A million of them died, but it was set up by men. 0.97

02:00:28.340 Would it be unfair?

02:00:31.300 Okay.

02:00:32.200 Is that unfair to men versus women? 0.96

02:00:34.240 Is that your argument?

02:00:34.960 Would it be unfair to the men who that was happening to?

02:00:37.880 I mean, if they're dying, sure.

02:00:39.280 It's unfair to anybody who dies.

02:00:40.720 So then it doesn't necessarily about if there's a guy in power who set it up.

02:00:44.560 No, I'm saying if you're complaining about rules that affect men, but the rules were

02:00:48.760 set up by men, what do you expect?

02:00:52.200 That's who set up the...

02:00:53.660 It's not women being unfair to men and saying, let me make these rules to disqualify... 0.99

02:00:58.900 You know what, the funny thing is that men are actually so benevolent when it comes to

02:01:03.320 this sort of thing, because if they want to do, they could conscript women and send 0.99

02:01:06.560 them off to the front lines to die.

02:01:08.600 But instead, you know what they send off? 0.94

02:01:10.940 Other young men.

02:01:12.040 Other 18, 19, 20-year-old young men to go die in hundreds of thousands.

02:01:14.960 You're complaining about the system, but then you're justifying it.

02:01:17.220 What do you mean I'm justifying it?

02:01:18.180 How am I justifying it?

02:01:18.900 You're saying that men do this...

02:01:20.320 No, I'm just talking about from the female purview.

02:01:21.840 From the female purview, you can say that it's all men who set it up, but also it's men who 0.92

02:01:26.320 take all of the responsibility.

02:01:27.480 And it's all men who are dying in it as well.

02:01:30.920 They take all of the responsibility.

02:01:32.060 They have all the duties when it comes to war.

02:01:33.700 Right.

02:01:34.080 But that's the system that you were complaining about two minutes ago, and I said, how are

02:01:38.660 you complaining about it if men are the ones that set up the system? 1.00

02:01:41.680 Wait, just to be clear, do you think infinitely complex geopolitical conflicts, it all just

02:01:47.940 boils down to, oh, a man happened to be in position of power?

02:01:52.480 Like, if a bad thing happens, if a bad thing happens, and it happens to be a man who was

02:02:00.340 in a position of power, it's like somehow the men who are negatively impacted by that

02:02:07.560 is, it's not as severe because a man in position of power...

02:02:12.240 No, that's not what I'm saying.

02:02:13.060 Why don't we also, like, why do we look at it in that way?

02:02:18.200 Like, what are you trying to communicate by saying, well, who set that system up?

02:02:21.980 Well, because you were complaining about...

02:02:22.900 Are you victim blaming?

02:02:24.000 No.

02:02:24.460 You're complaining about the system, but I'm saying that men set up that system. 0.89

02:02:28.500 So if you're complaining about the system, that's what was set up by men. 0.93

02:02:31.380 I mean, this seems like to be a bit of a logical fallacy.

02:02:35.060 What's your point?

02:02:38.140 I just said my point several times.

02:02:39.800 But are you saying...

02:02:40.540 This is just...

02:02:41.400 I mean, but are you saying that the grievance is of less concern?

02:02:48.900 Somebody else, something.

02:02:50.160 Oh, you're just going to disengage?

02:02:51.840 No, I've said it several times, but you keep asking me the same question, hoping that I'm

02:02:55.300 getting a different response, but I'm not doing that.

02:02:57.500 I've literally asked you a different question.

02:03:00.220 Are you trying to suggest by pointing out, well, it happens to be a very small minority

02:03:05.240 of men who had some degree of power, supposedly set the system up?

02:03:11.360 No, it actually did set the system up.

02:03:13.180 Well, of course, ignoring certain biological and evolutionary realities.

02:03:17.580 What are you ultimately trying to get to?

02:03:19.780 That any grievance...

02:03:22.000 So if the grievance, this individual or group of people, shares a gender, shares a sex with

02:03:30.420 the individual or individuals that set that system up, their grievance should not be taken

02:03:36.420 as seriously?

02:03:37.160 Is that what you're getting at?

02:03:39.680 I've said several times that...

02:03:41.600 I mean, I'm asking you a different question.

02:03:43.720 But on the same topic, that if it's a man making a decision for men, then it shouldn't

02:03:49.860 matter, is what you're saying?

02:03:52.060 I'm asking.

02:03:53.300 Maybe it doesn't matter as much?

02:03:55.700 What are you trying to communicate by saying, but men set that system up? 0.98

02:04:00.160 Because men complain about the system that they themselves set up. 0.51

02:04:03.060 So if they didn't like the system, then why wouldn't they have changed it?

02:04:06.120 Hold on.

02:04:06.560 So just to be clear, you think like 18-year-olds who are drafted into the military have like

02:04:11.760 the political capital to change the system?

02:04:15.640 No, but the system was still set up by men.

02:04:18.760 So should they not complain?

02:04:20.880 They can complain.

02:04:22.300 Men can complain? 0.99

02:04:23.240 Yeah, of course.

02:04:24.060 Do you think that warfare and conflict and tribalism is a part of human nature, or do you

02:04:27.620 think that it's something that men do?

02:04:29.900 Warfare in general?

02:04:31.080 Warfare and tribalism.

02:04:32.960 I think it's human nature.

02:04:35.240 Right.

02:04:35.500 So do you think that if there were women in power, if we were just all of a sudden run 0.96

02:04:38.780 by queens, even though they wouldn't be able to enforce anything, if we were run by queens,

02:04:43.740 then do you think that there would be no war?

02:04:45.640 It would be sort of John Lennon seeing and imagined by John Lennon holding hands?

02:04:49.720 No, I don't think there would be no war, but I do think that the way that men handle 0.82

02:04:51.160 conflict versus the way that women handle conflict is very different. 1.00

02:04:54.400 So I think if women were quote-unquote running the road, there would be more communication 1.00

02:04:59.260 and probably less casualty.

02:05:01.000 Do you think that there would be less war if it was up to women? 1.00

02:05:06.080 Yes.

02:05:06.460 I don't think war would be non-existent.

02:05:08.060 Do you think the girls would just have a chai latte and just talk it out? 1.00

02:05:10.220 No, I didn't say that at all.

02:05:11.380 There's two ends of the spectrum, but I do think women are more communicative and men 0.99

02:05:15.060 technically, usually, are more physical.

02:05:19.080 So they handle conflicts more physically.

02:05:20.880 Women usually handle conflicts with emotion and communication. 1.00

02:05:24.240 You don't have to agree.

02:05:28.960 I mean, that's just...

02:05:29.800 So, I mean, what's your prescription, though?

02:05:31.480 So you're saying, okay, men complain about war.

02:05:35.680 Well, tough, because men set that system up. 1.00

02:05:39.880 Like, what is your actual prescription?

02:05:43.480 Exactly what I said.

02:05:46.740 I mean, I didn't really hear a prescription.

02:05:50.640 Women should run things. 1.00

02:05:51.780 We should have a matriarch, and I'd all get together with the gals and have a chai latte, 1.00

02:05:54.840 and they'd be no fighting.

02:05:55.240 I don't know why this is, like, so hyper-focused on me for every question, though.

02:05:58.020 It's a little bit strange.

02:05:59.780 It's because when we ask you to actually state your position, you just go, you, like, look

02:06:03.460 around and give, like, weird face, and then say, I already said that.

02:06:06.440 You can just say it again, maybe in a more... 0.94

02:06:07.940 Maybe we're too stupid to understand, so just say it in a more... 0.97

02:06:09.980 That's not true. 1.00

02:06:10.420 I've said the same thing on abortion several times, and it was just a runaround.

02:06:14.380 I've said the same thing on this topic, and it's just a runaround.

02:06:17.100 So we just don't agree.

02:06:18.040 I mean, I'm exploring your worldview.

02:06:19.500 I'm not repeating questions.

02:06:20.760 No, you're speaking down on it, is what you're...

02:06:23.300 How am I speaking down on what?

02:06:24.820 It seems like you're speaking down on us.

02:06:26.740 You're dismissing genuine male grievances by simply saying, by using the apex fallacy,

02:06:32.920 oh, this 0.0001% of men who do have power, meanwhile, the average man has absolutely no

02:06:39.180 power.

02:06:39.560 In fact, the average man tends to fare worse than the average woman.

02:06:42.780 And then if you look at the bottom rungs of society, most men occupy the absolute worst 1.00

02:06:48.420 outcomes in society, whereas women in general tend to have like a higher standard of living 1.00

02:06:55.960 the average woman does than the average man.

02:06:59.040 So you might look at the man and the CEO or the executive or the really rich guy, and you

02:07:07.520 think that that's the experience of most men or all men, but it's an apex fallacy.

02:07:12.660 It's a very, very small percentage of men that enjoy any sort of supposed or alleged privilege.

02:07:19.480 Most men live unremarkable lives. 0.99

02:07:23.360 Most women have... 1.00

02:07:24.880 Average women, compared to average men, have far more privilege in a myriad of different 0.96

02:07:29.820 ways.

02:07:31.440 I'm going to agree to disagree.

02:07:32.660 I'm not going to agree to disagree.

02:07:34.220 Explain to me the worst outcomes that women face as compared to the worst outcomes that

02:07:38.440 men face.

02:07:38.900 For example...

02:07:39.900 This is exhausting.

02:07:41.040 Sure.

02:07:41.240 I mean, it's just on me.

02:07:42.300 Like, this is very strange.

02:07:43.520 There are six other people at the table who can ask me a question as well.

02:07:44.760 Well, if any of the other girls want to jump in with a, like, coherent argument, I'm happy 0.97

02:07:48.460 to hear it.

02:07:49.060 But so far, you're the only one that's biting.

02:07:51.180 So that's what I have to go off of.

02:07:52.860 When it comes to homelessness, for example, do you care to take a guess at the percentage

02:07:58.340 breakdown of homelessness between men and women?

02:08:01.040 I think somebody else can take a guess.

02:08:03.080 Okay, well, I'll just tell you then.

02:08:04.480 80% of homeless are men.

02:08:05.920 And this, to me, seems like it would be a worse life outcome.

02:08:10.700 So how do we reconcile this amazing privilege that is bestowed upon men?

02:08:16.300 I assume you believe in the patriarchy.

02:08:18.340 How could it be the case that there's this patriarchy that exalts and raises men up and

02:08:23.580 they have this fantastical privilege and their lives just go splendidly without any issue.

02:08:29.720 But all of the worst negative life outcomes drastically, disproportionately impact men.

02:08:40.320 I mean, just, are you, do you just want to concede the argument?

02:08:43.120 I'll move it on if you just want to concede, but.

02:08:45.160 I've said this now the fourth time.

02:08:47.100 Somebody else can talk.

02:08:48.120 This is, like, the hyper focus is strange.

02:08:50.320 Somebody else can bite. 0.56

02:08:52.300 Okay, what if they're not willing?

02:08:53.340 I mean, I'm literally going off of your own positions.

02:08:57.480 Because, okay, we are exploring your statement of who set that system up.

02:09:03.880 So I'm exploring that worldview.

02:09:06.960 That's why I'm talking to you.

02:09:09.340 None of the other panelists forwarded that worldview.

02:09:12.540 Is this, is this the, like, healthy, you, you know what stonewalling is? 0.98

02:09:21.200 Is this what you do in a relationship?

02:09:23.160 No.

02:09:23.600 Oh, okay.

02:09:24.360 All right.

02:09:25.100 I mean, you're doing it live on stream.

02:09:26.540 Like, this is a boundary that I've said several times.

02:09:28.500 Focus on somebody else.

02:09:30.680 I'm literally, you've agreed to come on, like, a discussion show.

02:09:34.580 Right, and I've explained my stance several times and you're asking.

02:09:37.280 I'm not, I'm not asking you to repeat it.

02:09:39.320 But I've literally forwarded different questions and positions for you to, like, either try to rebut or contend with.

02:09:46.660 Can I add something?

02:09:47.680 I'd love that.

02:09:49.100 All right.

02:09:49.680 She's going to, I'm just going to say she concedes the argument then.

02:09:52.000 Okay, well, so my, I wanted to add something because you can correct me too if, you know, I'm totally off or whatever.

02:09:59.160 But I think where she was getting at with that comment was going back to earlier discussion about the abortions and how men shouldn't have a say-so on women's body, even though men passed that law to have a say-so on women's bodies, like them being able to have abortions.

02:10:17.540 So moving, like, forward into this conversation, she's basically just, like, going back to that, like, well, men made those laws the same way, like, we don't feel men should have a say-so on women's bodies and what women do.

02:10:29.680 Wait, hold on.

02:10:30.340 Something like that.

02:10:31.140 Women are, there's a massive amount of conservative women who are part of the electorate and you have women on the Supreme Court, you have female politicians, senators, et cetera. 1.00

02:10:39.580 Like, would you guys be okay?

02:10:41.860 Like, let's assume, and actually, I think the majority, there's more women voters than there are male voters. 1.00

02:10:46.600 So if the majority of women voted to ban abortion, and if I said, you guys who are pro-choice, if I was like, oh, well, who set up that system?

02:10:57.760 There's a majority of female voters. 1.00

02:11:00.500 Okay, and that's exactly where she was, like, going with the, like, war thing.

02:11:04.120 And that's completely okay if you said that, like, my standpoint is I'm a very different woman compared to the women that are on that panel.

02:11:11.520 Like, I'm a minority.

02:11:13.000 I'm younger.

02:11:13.920 Like, these are, like, really old, like you said, like, conservative white women who are making, like, he said, there's a lot of not-two-parent homes in the black community. 0.99

02:11:24.480 It's more known in that community than y'alls and stuff.

02:11:28.360 So, like, for us, if we don't, if we know this man is not going to stick around or do this, like, and we're like, oh, okay, I want to have an abortion, so I don't raise my kid in a one-person, you know, household, maybe that's their standpoint.

02:11:42.080 I'm just, I'm not speaking for myself, but, yeah.

02:11:46.000 I don't know if you get that, but.

02:11:48.500 Can I just say, can I add, if it was the statistic was 50% men, 50% women homeless, would you guys be happy with that?

02:11:57.380 No, you probably want the men lower and then the women higher. 1.00

02:12:01.580 I don't want anybody homeless.

02:12:02.760 Okay, good.

02:12:03.560 It just feels like.

02:12:04.880 But homelessness is by their choice.

02:12:07.340 There's, like, jobs literally, there's homeless people.

02:12:10.460 Like, what do you mean? 0.99

02:12:11.480 Like, it's like, men be, like, fucking be a man and go get a job. 1.00

02:12:15.100 Like, what the freak? 0.99

02:12:15.820 Actually, if you have a seven- 1.00

02:12:16.620 Men are homeless, but why the hell are they sitting on their ass holding a sign? 0.99

02:12:19.600 Yo, put a big fat L in the chat for DarkHead. 0.99

02:12:22.220 If you have seven-

02:12:22.940 I'm just saying, bro.

02:12:24.060 Big fat L in the chat.

02:12:24.500 You literally, you literally use-

02:12:26.500 I feel like homelessness is different, too, because I think-

02:12:28.260 Wait, so if a woman's homeless, it's also her choice? 0.99

02:12:30.600 Yes.

02:12:30.960 No, no.

02:12:31.300 It's literally any homeless person, bro.

02:12:33.120 They literally chose that lifestyle.

02:12:34.820 Like, we just saw a homeless person at a gas station.

02:12:36.440 I laughed at them.

02:12:37.160 Like, get up, bro.

02:12:37.900 You're sitting in front of a gas station that has a hired sign in the window.

02:12:40.700 Homelessness is their choice. 1.00

02:12:41.700 You understand that if there are certain societal conditions, there is going to be homelessness.

02:12:45.220 Homelessness, like, if you have a certain unemployment rate, and if you have these mental health epidemics that you're having in the United States, where there's so much prescription drugs everywhere, and if you close down all of your mental institutions, like they've done in California, which is just an absolute shithole, by the way, then you're going to have a bunch of homelessness.

02:13:01.760 So, there's conditions that actually-

02:13:03.460 But how do you get out of homelessness?

02:13:05.440 Like, I don't know why we're talking about homelessness.

02:13:06.780 If you're talking about a 60-year-old war veteran who's schizophrenic and literally can't get hired anywhere, and then they're just on the street, then no, unfortunately-

02:13:16.360 Okay, like I said, they chose that lifestyle.

02:13:18.920 People struggle with schizophrenia all the time and still have manageable jobs and still have a good lifestyle.

02:13:25.780 Just to be clear, you're saying that they chose to be schizophrenic?

02:13:28.320 They chose to be homeless and not to do anything about it.

02:13:30.840 So, if someone has such a severe case of schizophrenia that they cannot get a job, because in order to have a job, you have to be somewhat functional at least, you're saying that they still chose that?

02:13:38.200 Because there are people who have- PTSD is a very serious thing, and there are people who have very, very serious forms of PTSD who are homeless on the street.

02:13:47.060 Literally, there's probably 100,000 of them in California, in LA alone.

02:13:51.360 These people have very, very serious conditions, and they get no help from their government.

02:13:55.380 They went to war to try and defend their country from.

02:13:58.680 And you're saying that you laugh at these people and say, get up, bro.

02:14:02.120 Yeah, I mean, it's like, yeah, I mean, it's like, make your- you can make you have every option to make your life better, bro.

02:14:07.440 Yeah, and then-

02:14:07.780 Look, talk about privilege.

02:14:08.540 You cannot say I'm wrong.

02:14:10.260 You cannot sit- you cannot, Brian, you cannot sit there and say I'm wrong about that.

02:14:13.200 No, we can.

02:14:13.880 Hold on, we can.

02:14:14.660 So, hold on, look.

02:14:15.440 A lot of the homelessness in LA spiked when Ronald Reagan was the president because he shut down-

02:14:22.000 Oh, I don't know about non-presidentship, bro.

02:14:22.760 Well, he shut down so many mental institutions and programs that helped people who needed it, and that's where-

02:14:27.500 What did they result to?

02:14:28.480 Instead of literally going somewhere where they can provide help, they resort to taking drugs and make their life a little bit more harder than it has to be.

02:14:35.500 That's how I see homelessness.

02:14:36.700 Like, and I don't see why we brought up homelessness when we're talking about abortions and comparing it to trench foot.

02:14:41.600 Where that, like, where was that taking a term?

02:14:43.200 How most people get trench foot?

02:14:44.320 It's about negative life outcomes.

02:14:46.280 But, I mean, look, look, to some degree people have agency over their lives, but typically the circumstances which lead to homelessness, I don't know if it's so much about- I mean, look, people do make choices and it can lead to certain life outcomes.

02:15:01.980 But a lot of these people, you know, there's- like Jake said, there's- it could be PTSD, there could be drug use, there could be mental illnesses that have led them to certain unfavorable life outcomes.

02:15:14.960 I worked for the Salvation Army for two years in a homeless shelter, and there was one lady that I remember that when she was a little kid, her dad locked her in her house for her whole entire life.

02:15:23.900 And then, like, you know, did- you can imagine all kinds of terrible things to her.

02:15:27.760 And then she got out, and then it was sort of still happening, and then she had a child that was a product of the father and her.

02:15:34.480 And then this child was, like, seriously deformed. 0.97

02:15:36.960 And they were both homeless, and it was like- some people, it's like, yeah, you have agency, and there are a lot of success stories out there, but, I mean, some people are just fucked from the get-go. 0.97

02:15:45.920 So. 0.57

02:15:46.860 All right, we have two chats here.

02:15:48.660 Oh, oh, is it working?

02:15:49.800 Chromo Jones donated $100.

02:15:52.220 The easy way to not have to worry about child support is to make sure the guy who knocks you up doesn't leave.

02:16:00.160 Wow, Chromo Jones, yeah.

02:16:03.460 I just think it's interesting, like, y'all would say to the guy who, like, knocks up a girl and he's got to pay child support for 18 years, you'd say, oh, you shouldn't have done that.

02:16:14.280 Tough luck.

02:16:15.320 Should have not had sex. 0.97

02:16:17.460 But, like, you never say that to a woman who's, like, considering an abortion. 0.97

02:16:21.100 They just said keep your legs closed for women, like, about abortions and stuff like that. 1.00

02:16:26.060 I know, but y'all, you guys would take issue with it.

02:16:29.820 No, they just said it, and we didn't have no issue with it.

02:16:32.280 We just- we laughed about the comment when it popped up.

02:16:35.340 When it said-

02:16:36.040 We would take issue with it. 1.00

02:16:36.940 When it said keep your legs closed, shit, you're right. 1.00

02:16:38.940 We should have kept our legs closed, but hey, now we're here. 1.00

02:16:40.880 Yo, Chad, is there an echo?

02:16:42.160 Is there an echo on the TTS?

02:16:43.940 What's that?

02:16:44.280 Okay, cool.

02:16:46.180 Oh, it's fixed.

02:16:48.120 Dark Omen 42 donated $100.

02:16:51.120 Yo, thank you, man.

02:16:51.800 States represent women for free for child support collection. 0.51

02:16:55.540 You go to jail for not paying.

02:16:57.240 If you're dodging it, you're effectively living like you're on the run or only having cash jobs.

02:17:02.780 All cope.

02:17:03.820 I mean, yeah, there are men who do that.

02:17:07.500 They're evasive with it, but if you're a normal guy who's getting a check, you're not working under the table, you can evade it.

02:17:17.200 You can try to, like this guy said, you work under the table jobs, cash jobs.

02:17:21.820 Like if you're a guy who's making $100K a year as a software engineer, like good luck evading the inevitable 18 years of child support you're going to have to pay because you hooked up with some girl and she got knocked up and you didn't want, like you just thought you were having a one-night casual encounter.

02:17:37.180 She wants to keep the kid. 0.53

02:17:38.520 She's got you for 18 years.

02:17:41.040 Okay, so wait, you want her to abort the kid? 1.00

02:17:43.840 No, that's not what I'm, here's what I think is fair.

02:17:47.580 In any state or country where abortion is legal, men should be able to say, it's called legal paternal surrender. 0.76

02:17:56.480 You can kill the kid, I should be able to abandon it.

02:17:59.880 That seems fair. 1.00

02:18:00.840 Yeah, I agree.

02:18:01.980 In a world, if a woman can't get an abortion, the men can't opt out and they got to pay child support.

02:18:08.120 But the current state of affairs is, no matter what, as the guy, regardless of the abortion laws, whether the woman can nuke your kid, whatever it is, you got to pay. 0.77

02:18:20.060 You making money, she goes to the state, you're paying child support 18 years.

02:18:25.480 If you don't, there's going to be penalties and eventually they're going to put you in jail.

02:18:30.320 So, it goes for women, too, though. 1.00

02:18:34.600 If women were, if, like, say the man took the child or whatever, like, say you had a son and you decide to raise the son and you get granted full custody, whatever, the woman still has to pay child support in that instance. 1.00

02:18:45.240 So, I don't see where.

02:18:47.780 I agree with you.

02:18:49.000 That is true.

02:18:50.260 However, there's two things here.

02:18:52.140 One, men are, women are much, actually three things, women are much more likely to get a greater degree of custody. 0.70

02:19:01.700 And then, in addition to that, just based off the data that we have, I think it's like 90% of child support payments go from men to women.

02:19:11.180 So, it's a small minority of women who are paying child support. 1.00

02:19:14.720 Actually, four things.

02:19:15.740 There's a bias in the court system that's going to morph, I don't know why you're laughing.

02:19:18.720 There's a bias in the court system that more favorably looks towards women versus men in these sort of situations.

02:19:24.820 And then, the fourth thing is, even if the guy is fully within his right to go after the breadwinner woman and get child support, men are just naturally less likely to seek it.

02:19:37.580 And that's the same with alimony, too.

02:19:39.320 In the event of a divorce, she's the breadwinner.

02:19:42.000 There is a greater proportion of men who are just going to throw their hands up and be like, I just want out.

02:19:46.880 I don't want your money.

02:19:48.720 Whereas, women are going to have a much greater sense of entitlement. 1.00

02:19:52.860 Women are going to be like, I feel entitled to this money. 1.00

02:19:56.500 Well, you still have the same position or the same entitlement.

02:19:59.940 You just don't feel like you need to take action into it.

02:20:03.700 That's not a woman's fault if a man doesn't want to take it. 0.98

02:20:06.740 Sure.

02:20:06.960 He still has a chance.

02:20:07.280 I agree with you.

02:20:07.980 It's not a woman's fault, but it's to the woman's benefit if men are less likely to seek the child support or alimony. 0.83

02:20:15.440 Yeah, that's fine, but it's not...

02:20:17.440 I'm not playing a blame game here.

02:20:20.040 No, no, no.

02:20:20.240 I understand.

02:20:20.640 I agree with you, and you're right.

02:20:22.840 Even though those are the statistics, it still shows that a man can get child support or he can do that.

02:20:29.820 It's mama's baby, daddy's maybe, so that's usually why the court goes with the mom because the mom carried the baby. 1.00

02:20:36.220 You know, so you know it belongs to them and stuff.

02:20:38.660 Sometimes fathers can be like, oh, well, how do I know it's mine?

02:20:41.860 Then you have to go through the paternity test, and then once you discover, like, oh, okay, you are the father, now it's going through the court system to, you know, what do you want to do as a father?

02:20:51.440 Do you want, you know, custody?

02:20:53.340 Do you want to give up your parental rights?

02:20:55.120 Do you want, like, what do you want to do in that aspect?

02:20:57.620 And then you can move forward from there.

02:20:59.260 But, I mean, that's kind of why they favor the mom over the dad because you know the mom, you know, it's their baby.

02:21:05.740 Okay, I mean, you're just arguing my position that there's a bias in the court system.

02:21:09.300 Yeah, I didn't say that there wasn't.

02:21:11.140 I actually agree with you.

02:21:12.160 Yeah, I'm sure I agree with you.

02:21:13.100 But I also, you also were saying it, like, men don't have the option that women have, and they do have, you said that men throw up their hands and don't go for alimony or don't go for, like, they're less likely.

02:21:23.960 That's not our fault that they're less likely.

02:21:26.260 That's a man.

02:21:26.900 That's not my position, though.

02:21:27.800 I'm not saying that it's women's fault that that's the case. 0.92

02:21:30.980 What are you saying, then?

02:21:31.720 What are you saying, then?

02:21:35.080 I'm just looking at outcomes here, right?

02:21:38.160 Because you were like, well, in 10% of cases, the woman's the breadwinner, and the guy can get child support.

02:21:46.260 And I was like, yeah, sure, of course.

02:21:48.180 But it's like, we're looking at disproportionality and differences, right?

02:21:52.460 Mm-hmm.

02:21:53.040 Yeah.

02:21:53.760 But you also said that with the court system.

02:21:55.780 No, but the original conversation, the conversation here stemmed from, like, so a guy who doesn't want to have a kid for financial reasons or he doesn't want to be a parent, he doesn't have a say in the matter.

02:22:10.580 He doesn't have a choice.

02:22:12.140 I said that I—

02:22:12.920 Okay, you have a position on this?

02:22:14.120 You're laughing, so.

02:22:15.980 Okay.

02:22:16.420 I said that I agree with you on that, though.

02:22:18.900 Like, that was kind of what, going back to mine and his initial discussion about abortion or about, like, when a man—because that's what started that whole conversation was I said that I wouldn't let a man have a final say in every single thing, but I will let him.

02:22:33.740 Like abortion, right?

02:22:34.640 Yeah, like abortion.

02:22:35.600 Oh, you would let him have a say?

02:22:37.140 No, I said I would definitely discuss it with them because I do feel like—

02:22:40.560 Right, so he can have input.

02:22:41.760 Yeah, so he—because I do agree with what you said.

02:22:44.000 Like, if a dad told me, like, if I got pregnant and the father told me, like, hey, look, I don't want to have a baby with you. 0.90

02:22:49.240 I'm not going to be in this kid's life and blah, blah, blah.

02:22:51.700 I have all the information I need to say if I want to continue having this baby with him.

02:22:56.460 Now, if he said that and said he's not going to be in the baby's life, but me personally, I don't agree in abortions, then I'm still going to have the baby, but he's not legally—we can set up a legal documentation that says you're legally not responsible financially or anything, whatever.

02:23:09.780 It doesn't matter.

02:23:10.500 You can—first off, that wouldn't be legally—the court would throw that out.

02:23:15.360 For what?

02:23:16.000 You change—a year later, you change your mind. 1.00

02:23:18.840 You're like, fuck, this is hard. 1.00

02:23:20.500 I need money. 1.00

02:23:21.800 He's making money.

02:23:23.460 Whatever legal agreement you have, the court's going to be like, we're looking out for the best interest of the child.

02:23:29.880 This document you have is unenforceable.

02:23:33.180 Unenforceable.

02:23:33.700 It would not be enforceable.

02:23:35.800 And then secondly, even if you did have this document, if you in some sort of situation—let's say you don't want to enforce it.

02:23:43.920 You're like, well, it's unenforceable, but, like, we agreed to it.

02:23:47.540 I'm not going to go to the court.

02:23:48.460 So if you ever try to get any sort of government subsidy, like welfare, EBT, food, they're going to—they're going to be like, do you have a kid?

02:24:00.100 You're going to say yes, and they're going to be like, okay, we're automatically going to go after the father now.

02:24:05.040 And you can't tell them, no, no, no, please don't.

02:24:07.220 I have an agreement.

02:24:07.940 They're like, doesn't matter.

02:24:09.220 If we're going after welfare, if you're filing for welfare, we have to go after the dad and get some sort of money from him.

02:24:18.640 So even if you have that agreement in place, which, by the way, wouldn't be enforceable at any point, maybe it pisses you off. 1.00

02:24:24.160 You're like, fuck you. 1.00

02:24:25.940 You're going to pay money to me from now on. 1.00

02:24:27.640 If you ever have to file for, like, any sort of welfare, health care, that sort of thing, government, health care, they're going after the dad.

02:24:37.700 So there's risk there to the man no matter what.

02:24:40.300 Anyways, I do have to move it on.

02:24:41.640 We have a chat here.

02:24:42.680 Wrongful Rage.

02:24:43.340 Wrongful Rage donated $100.

02:24:46.860 Brian, I see you got the big brains on panel tonight. 0.92

02:24:50.560 If skin hue is important, you're a shallow person. 1.00

02:24:53.440 If that makes you qualified, that make your employer an idiot. 1.00

02:24:56.900 Good day, ladies. 1.00

02:24:58.140 I said good day.

02:25:00.200 Thank you, Rage.

02:25:01.120 Appreciate it, man.

02:25:03.100 That's an interesting one.

02:25:04.260 We have, thank you, Rage, though.

02:25:06.160 Good to see you back, man.

02:25:07.680 Pelagic back in the chat.

02:25:08.920 Thank you, dude.

02:25:10.460 Zero accountability.

02:25:11.400 To who, Pelagic?

02:25:14.620 Darkavia here?

02:25:16.280 Zero accountability? 1.00

02:25:18.160 Just talking shit about homeless people? 1.00

02:25:19.740 What the fuck? 1.00

02:25:21.200 Totally rude. 1.00

02:25:22.040 All right, guys.

02:25:22.640 $100 TTS.

02:25:23.980 Like the video, guys.

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02:25:31.760 And then I do want to give a shout-out to David Champagne.

02:25:37.560 Dude, thank you for the 50 on, where is it?

02:25:40.280 I think that's Venmo.

02:25:41.720 Thank you for the 50 on Venmo, man.

02:25:42.980 Really appreciate it.

02:25:44.440 And keep up the good work.

02:25:47.060 Thank you so much, man.

02:25:47.980 Appreciate it.

02:25:49.100 And then we have a chat here from Stifler.

02:25:51.740 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:25:53.920 You can't pick 7.

02:25:54.800 Starting with you.

02:25:55.480 Go ahead.

02:25:56.900 8.

02:25:58.040 10.

02:25:59.180 10.

02:26:01.020 11.

02:26:01.820 Period.

02:26:02.100 6.

02:26:05.340 We really can't pick 7?

02:26:06.980 Nope.

02:26:07.240 10, baby girl.

02:26:11.460 8.

02:26:12.700 Tarkavia.

02:26:13.900 10.

02:26:15.360 Adjustable 6.

02:26:16.700 I give myself a 5.

02:26:17.920 Wow.

02:26:18.180 We've got some very...

02:26:19.300 We've got 10, 10, 11 over there.

02:26:22.520 So you gave yourself the highest rating at the table off the scale.

02:26:26.560 So are you prepared to say as the highest rating that you're the most attractive woman

02:26:30.980 in the room?

02:26:32.040 To me, I am.

02:26:33.640 Maybe not to you guys.

02:26:35.500 Well, don't forget about us.

02:26:36.920 We're not going to go there.

02:26:38.120 But do you think you're...

02:26:40.100 Like, I want you to say, I'm hotter than every other girl in this room.

02:26:44.360 Say it.

02:26:45.320 To me, yes. 0.72

02:26:46.260 I'm hotter than every girl in this room.

02:26:48.020 Even to you? 0.95

02:26:48.720 Okay.

02:26:48.820 Yep.

02:26:49.500 Even to me.

02:26:50.640 The only person that matters, really.

02:26:52.960 Okay.

02:26:53.840 How do the girls... 1.00

02:26:54.780 She's saying she's hot.

02:26:55.920 How do you girls feel about that?

02:26:57.560 You know, look.

02:26:58.640 We've been going at it.

02:26:59.740 The men and the women have been going at it.

02:27:01.300 Maybe the women and the women got to go at it for a bit. 1.00

02:27:03.720 She's saying she's hotter than all of you uggos. 1.00

02:27:07.900 That's what she's... 0.98

02:27:08.800 She's like, you guys are...

02:27:11.120 She called you all a foot.

02:27:12.540 All of you. 0.89

02:27:13.320 You all look like a foot. 0.94

02:27:17.000 Are you girls going to stand for this insult? 1.00

02:27:21.660 Will you stand for this?

02:27:23.320 I love that.

02:27:24.060 Yeah.

02:27:24.520 Okay.

02:27:24.860 All right.

02:27:25.160 I love that.

02:27:25.760 Isn't that insulting me?

02:27:26.880 It's not insulting me at all.

02:27:27.740 What was an insult?

02:27:29.520 That she thought she was pretty as an invite.

02:27:30.480 I wish I was that confident.

02:27:31.600 Maybe one of you...

02:27:33.000 Because I think the same about myself.

02:27:34.800 I wish I was that confident.

02:27:36.040 They'd only be upset if a real 10 said it.

02:27:38.300 If a real 10 said it, then you guys would be upset.

02:27:39.740 She's a real 10. 0.97

02:27:40.920 Is she?

02:27:41.300 She's a real 11, actually.

02:27:43.320 Oh, period.

02:27:43.740 Yeah.

02:27:44.280 You think objectively...

02:27:46.100 I think everybody's different.

02:27:47.180 She's absolutely perfect, gorgeous, amongst the hottest women that have ever lived on planet

02:27:52.200 Earth.

02:27:53.300 That's different to everybody.

02:27:55.120 But you think so.

02:27:56.160 If you had your...

02:27:56.940 And there has to be women at the bottom as well. 1.00

02:27:59.780 I don't...

02:28:00.240 I mean, the most beautiful woman in the world, like, to me, I don't think is any of us.

02:28:04.160 No offense.

02:28:04.760 Including myself.

02:28:05.540 So you think that she just lied to your face? 0.59

02:28:07.240 But she literally stated, in her eyes, she's 11.

02:28:13.260 Yeah, for myself.

02:28:14.060 She did not claim that we think that.

02:28:15.900 Yes.

02:28:16.500 Let's put that out there.

02:28:17.400 Wait.

02:28:17.840 Question.

02:28:19.000 If 10 is perfect, for those of you who said 10 or 11, do you still give yourself a 10?

02:28:26.280 Yes.

02:28:26.720 Yes.

02:28:27.580 Perfect, perfect.

02:28:28.880 More than perfect.

02:28:30.960 Darkavia is perfect over here.

02:28:32.340 Yes.

02:28:33.060 Okay.

02:28:35.500 Why do you give yourself a 5?

02:28:37.240 I'm like...

02:28:39.240 Why?

02:28:39.800 Look, you want me to, like, break it down here?

02:28:41.820 That's not higher than 5.

02:28:43.560 I'm probably going to start balding within a couple years.

02:28:46.700 You know, I'm losing a little bit right here.

02:28:48.920 A lot of stress.

02:28:49.980 It happens to us all.

02:28:50.840 I'm losing it.

02:28:51.800 I got to lose a bit of weight.

02:28:52.880 I could lose, like, 30, 40 pounds.

02:28:59.040 Big nose.

02:28:59.980 Pale.

02:29:01.220 Dandruff.

02:29:02.920 Well, I'm tall.

02:29:04.000 I'm 6'1", so I got that going for me.

02:29:05.980 Blue eyes.

02:29:08.140 But I'm like an average guy.

02:29:09.400 I'm an average looking guy.

02:29:10.540 I got an average face.

02:29:12.160 Average face.

02:29:13.960 When you looked your best, what would you have rated yourself then?

02:29:17.020 You know, I saw a video the other day on my Instagram.

02:29:19.160 Oh, Damien, pull up that old photo of me.

02:29:21.080 I was going to send you it the other day.

02:29:22.120 I saw an old video of you that popped up on my Instagram of you walking around pretending 0.64

02:29:25.380 you had a boner to girls. 0.69

02:29:26.880 Oh, yeah? 0.75

02:29:27.180 Was that handsome?

02:29:27.660 It was on my rear.

02:29:28.520 You were skinny, and you looked like you were going surfing.

02:29:30.900 I was fit.

02:29:31.340 Yes.

02:29:31.620 Yeah, dude.

02:29:32.600 Yeah, pull it up, and then pull up my Instagram after that.

02:29:35.140 All right, let's see young Brian.

02:29:36.640 Show us young Brian.

02:29:37.600 You got that photo?

02:29:38.640 I don't know.

02:29:38.960 I think so.

02:29:39.460 It's like the, I'm in the blue shirt.

02:29:41.260 Blue shirt?

02:29:42.260 Yeah.

02:29:43.380 Pull it up.

02:29:44.960 Pull it up.

02:29:45.900 The what?

02:29:47.280 The dog?

02:29:48.060 The dog, it's a woman. 1.00

02:29:52.100 I'm in the blue shirt.

02:29:53.900 No, it's not on my Instagram.

02:29:55.220 It's in the tabs.

02:29:56.640 Oh.

02:29:57.280 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:29:58.080 Okay.

02:29:58.540 I think I've showed it.

02:30:01.820 And then we'll go to Instagram.

02:30:03.320 Then we'll go to Instagram afterwards.

02:30:05.360 All right.

02:30:05.680 Is this meaningful?

02:30:06.660 This is young.

02:30:07.680 No way.

02:30:07.960 No freaking way.

02:30:09.620 How old are you in this? 0.91

02:30:10.880 That's you?

02:30:11.340 I think I was 21 here.

02:30:13.400 There's no way that's you.

02:30:16.280 Dark lady, huh? 1.00

02:30:17.180 Ouch.

02:30:17.800 No, stop it.

02:30:19.400 That's young Brian.

02:30:20.740 Let me start talking about it.

02:30:21.960 Brian is blushing.

02:30:23.500 Wait, let's go.

02:30:25.160 I think, yeah, I was like 20.

02:30:26.800 I think I was 21.

02:30:28.840 Pull up the Instagram.

02:30:29.660 Pull up the Instagram.

02:30:30.340 While he's doing that, we got Michael Jones.

02:30:32.480 Ask them what they think 1,000 random men would rate them on average 1 to 10, can't pick 7.

02:30:38.260 Okay, that's a good idea.

02:30:40.040 Here, get the Instagram, though, real quick, and then we'll come right back to it.

02:30:43.320 All right.

02:30:43.740 This is young Brian.

02:30:45.300 Young Brian.

02:30:46.080 You were a surfer?

02:30:47.780 Yes.

02:30:48.800 Look at that karate. 1.00

02:30:50.360 Look at, yeah, pull up the karate shit. 1.00

02:30:53.020 Scroll up, scroll up. 1.00

02:30:54.300 Look at that.

02:30:55.040 I was a kid there.

02:30:55.860 I was a kid.

02:30:56.800 All right, you know.

02:30:57.360 That's so cute.

02:30:57.940 The red background.

02:30:59.440 Yeah.

02:30:59.980 All right, there you go.

02:31:01.780 Okay.

02:31:03.800 Does that answer?

02:31:05.180 So you were higher and then.

02:31:07.540 Oh, yes.

02:31:08.360 I.

02:31:08.580 I've just, like 25, just downhill.

02:31:14.440 Downhill.

02:31:15.040 But you know what?

02:31:15.920 35, I'm going to go up to a six.

02:31:18.440 I'm going to stay there for five years.

02:31:20.180 And then just, it's just going to be downhill at 40.

02:31:23.780 You should take up old mate from last show on his offer to get you a program.

02:31:27.240 Dude, I'm working on it.

02:31:29.600 What was his name again?

02:31:30.520 Brandon.

02:31:30.940 Brandon.

02:31:31.380 Brandon.

02:31:31.960 Yeah.

02:31:32.260 Oh, this thing here.

02:31:34.660 Okay, going around the table once more.

02:31:36.720 So if men had to rate you, a thousand men, what do they, what's the average?

02:31:43.620 Michael Jones.

02:31:44.540 W's in the chat for MJ.

02:31:46.020 That's a good question.

02:31:47.120 Starting with Natasha.

02:31:48.680 Natasha.

02:31:51.160 Maybe an eight.

02:31:52.700 Still an eight.

02:31:53.580 Okay.

02:31:57.360 Am I these men's type or is like these just, you know, literally like random men, you're

02:32:03.000 just going to be like.

02:32:03.280 If you had to sort of think about the global average.

02:32:05.220 Like average.

02:32:06.220 Like the global average.

02:32:07.480 Just what men generally tend to like.

02:32:09.900 I'm still going to say a 10.

02:32:12.180 I'll be humble and say nine.

02:32:14.620 It's so humble.

02:32:16.040 It's so humble.

02:32:17.260 That's big of you.

02:32:17.820 I don't even want to say.

02:32:19.360 I feel like.

02:32:20.480 Honestly, it's different if I'm naked.

02:32:23.040 I think if I'm naked, it's definitely an 11.

02:32:25.740 I'm just saying.

02:32:26.600 Wait, it's what?

02:32:27.380 It's an 11.

02:32:27.820 It's an 11.

02:32:28.580 But when I have the glasses and the jacket, I look a little like Betty, Betty the Ugly

02:32:32.800 or whatever.

02:32:33.680 What was that?

02:32:34.620 Soap opera.

02:32:35.360 Hey, I'm hot.

02:32:36.400 All right.

02:32:36.900 Back off.

02:32:37.620 Wait, so.

02:32:38.380 That's it.

02:32:39.260 So what do they.

02:32:40.140 Okay.

02:32:40.340 With clothes on, what do they give you?

02:32:42.780 I would say like at six.

02:32:44.500 Okay.

02:32:44.920 But clothes off.

02:32:46.080 Yeah.

02:32:46.660 It's nice.

02:32:47.820 I'm just kidding.

02:32:50.140 Clothes off.

02:32:51.540 A little wig, maybe.

02:32:52.940 You know, a little lipstick.

02:32:54.180 What?

02:32:54.640 So what's the.

02:32:55.600 I'm just curious.

02:32:56.740 What's.

02:32:57.380 What makes it an 11?

02:32:59.100 Like is your.

02:33:00.280 It's the.

02:33:00.860 It's the whole concept of like, oh, she's wearing a. 0.93

02:33:03.700 She's covered.

02:33:04.540 She's wearing glasses.

02:33:05.320 And she has a shaved head. 1.00

02:33:06.880 If I, you know, put on the wig and the heels and my ass and, you know, it's nice. 0.99

02:33:12.500 What's nice. 0.99

02:33:13.900 Oh, yes.

02:33:15.140 What is it?

02:33:15.920 You.

02:33:16.500 The package altogether.

02:33:18.920 The package.

02:33:19.900 The package.

02:33:20.520 Yes.

02:33:21.120 Yeah.

02:33:21.980 The package.

02:33:23.260 Yeah.

02:33:23.740 Yeah.

02:33:24.560 The package.

02:33:25.820 Pack.

02:33:26.240 Okay.

02:33:27.120 So like you're saying like.

02:33:28.580 So basically they'll give me a six, but then. 0.99

02:33:31.260 When you have sex with them. 0.97

02:33:32.520 Then they'll give me an 11. 0.99

02:33:33.920 It goes up to an 11.

02:33:35.080 Yeah. 0.94

02:33:35.300 Is it because you had sex with them or. 0.98

02:33:38.220 Because they saw me again. 0.99

02:33:39.800 They saw me naked.

02:33:40.460 They saw me naked.

02:33:40.980 They saw me without my thing.

02:33:42.840 My.

02:33:43.540 What do you call this?

02:33:44.400 Like my.

02:33:45.300 Is it.

02:33:46.160 Persona.

02:33:46.740 I was about to.

02:33:47.160 If you will.

02:33:48.520 It's tight.

02:33:49.340 Yes.

02:33:49.680 It's very.

02:33:50.280 No.

02:33:50.460 I thought you were going to.

02:33:51.360 Oh.

02:33:51.820 I'm sorry.

02:33:52.660 I didn't know what you were going to.

02:33:53.700 Big lady matter. 1.00

02:33:54.640 Okay.

02:33:55.320 All right.

02:33:55.740 Good talk.

02:33:59.000 All right.

02:33:59.600 And then final thing on this thing, I guess.

02:34:01.840 Oh, wait.

02:34:02.520 We were going around.

02:34:04.320 A thousand men.

02:34:05.420 Probably still sex.

02:34:06.740 I think they'd agree with eight.

02:34:11.380 I'm like.

02:34:13.600 Probably.

02:34:14.380 I would say I'm not like men's person. 0.98

02:34:16.460 Like based on my personality. 0.67

02:34:18.660 I would say just licks.

02:34:20.380 I would say probably like a six.

02:34:24.480 Oh, okay.

02:34:25.320 All right.

02:34:26.600 So a little downgrade.

02:34:28.100 I'm just like, you know, would it be that hard to just be like, you know what?

02:34:36.340 I'm average looking.

02:34:39.380 You know, you know what I mean?

02:34:41.480 I think I am average looking.

02:34:42.880 I said that.

02:34:43.160 But you said you were an eight.

02:34:44.140 I think I'm like right above average.

02:34:45.860 So I would do seven.

02:34:47.640 Or wait.

02:34:48.800 But I can't do seven.

02:34:50.340 So I said eight.

02:34:52.320 But right above average would be six.

02:34:54.660 Like five is average.

02:34:56.400 Oh, if five.

02:34:57.040 Six.

02:34:57.620 Six is about that.

02:34:58.240 Well, I thought like five would be ugly.

02:35:00.100 Generally, if you look at it, it will operate in a bell curve.

02:35:02.580 So at the very bottom, if you see ones and twos, it ruins your day, ruins your whole entire

02:35:06.080 week probably.

02:35:06.560 And then if you get towards three, you get a few more, you'd still, you wouldn't want

02:35:10.760 to go near them, but you wouldn't want to, you know, but then if you get to like four,

02:35:15.080 five, and six, that's where like 80% of people sort of tend to reside.

02:35:18.120 And then seven, and then eight, nine, ten is like where you get to, you know, chef's

02:35:22.240 kiss.

02:35:22.940 Oh.

02:35:23.460 By the way, Jake, I have a, I've got beef with you, dude.

02:35:26.380 Okay.

02:35:26.720 Let's go.

02:35:27.100 Let's have it out.

02:35:27.520 So two, three days ago, we're going to come back to this topic though.

02:35:31.520 I was on Netflix and I saw Love on the Spectrum.

02:35:36.080 Oh, my favorite show, dude.

02:35:36.980 I love that show.

02:35:37.600 Which was first invented by the Australians.

02:35:40.380 Yes.

02:35:41.040 You, how dare you? 1.00

02:35:43.400 That is the best show ever.

02:35:44.440 I want you to apologize on behalf of Australians.

02:35:47.580 The Australians, we've literally invented the boomerang and Love on the Spectrum.

02:35:51.000 It's so.

02:35:51.840 We have, we have nothing else.

02:35:53.300 Oh, my God.

02:35:53.780 You're insulted.

02:35:54.540 You don't like that show.

02:35:56.160 It's really frustrating.

02:35:57.900 Why?

02:35:58.260 Because I feel like they could cast me and I would do really good. 1.00

02:36:02.080 I would fucking kill it. 1.00

02:36:05.340 Love is on the Spectrum. 1.00

02:36:07.020 You would, dude. 1.00

02:36:07.600 I would fucking kill that show. 1.00

02:36:08.660 You would. 1.00

02:36:09.140 We'd put you with like a Down Syndrome girl and you guys would be sitting there like.

02:36:11.780 Don't.

02:36:12.420 No.

02:36:12.800 Hey.

02:36:13.720 Hi.

02:36:14.440 I would get along with that, that girl who's like, well, the animation.

02:36:20.020 I didn't watch the Australian one.

02:36:21.200 Whatever.

02:36:21.880 Anyways, that was crazy. 1.00

02:36:23.760 You'd kill it.

02:36:25.660 We have two tweets, two TikToks to react to that's related to this conversation that I 0.99

02:36:30.860 think is important.

02:36:31.940 Damien, can you pull up the next TikTok react?

02:36:35.300 I think I'm finally ready to go out and meet new people.

02:36:42.920 I says with immaculate confidence.

02:36:45.080 I was then hit by a plane and pulverized instantaneously.

02:36:48.620 Seize my matches.

02:36:49.820 So, pause it.

02:36:50.520 So, she creates her hinge account and then she sees her matches and so I think what she's

02:36:58.220 trying to communicate here is she's like, whoa, I have this standard of like what I think

02:37:05.140 I deserve when it comes to a guy's appearance or whatever.

02:37:07.680 But then the guys who are actively matching her, she's like, these guys are below my league.

02:37:14.660 Can you pull it back up really quick because I'll read the comments and then there's another

02:37:17.840 video on this.

02:37:19.200 Then the first comment reads, it's actually, put it on a window tab really quick for the

02:37:25.180 commentary.

02:37:26.420 Window tab.

02:37:28.080 It's actually traumatic and I just want to make sure the audio is okay.

02:37:34.260 Yo, chat, can you hear us in the audio?

02:37:35.880 But Ashlyn says it's actually traumatic ATP.

02:37:39.100 Where does their confidence, where does their confidence come from?

02:37:42.080 How dare men match with a woman on a dating app or send a like on a dating app? 0.64

02:37:48.000 Yes, I created an account on a random Sunday night, saw my matches and deleted that night.

02:37:53.600 I don't have it in me.

02:37:56.540 Scroll down.

02:37:59.720 Quite literally the most humbling experience.

02:38:02.600 Christina says, we think you two should meet.

02:38:04.780 I think not.

02:38:05.900 Indicating that she thinks that the matches that she's getting are below her.

02:38:11.540 Let's see.

02:38:12.260 The matches I get on him scare me.

02:38:16.480 This other girl says, or Haley says, dude, like where are the hot ones? 0.99

02:38:21.500 Scroll down.

02:38:23.600 I feel insulted.

02:38:26.220 Scroll down a little bit.

02:38:30.300 I don't think I'm that shallow, but like, dang, that's from another woman. 1.00

02:38:35.980 And then there's another TikTok that's related to this.

02:38:38.620 If we can pull it up.

02:38:39.500 And then start it from, start it at just 30, because I think she rambles a little bit.

02:38:51.880 Hold on. 0.94

02:38:52.460 You'll shoot a buttful to say.

02:38:54.440 And I know that this is awful to say, but getting likes and being shown people who are clearly, like, below your league will give you self-confidence issues. 0.94

02:39:06.960 It really will, okay?

02:39:08.580 And vice versa, like, not getting any matches at all or not getting any likes at all, like, that is also a self-confidence issue that I feel like people shouldn't have to go through.

02:39:21.420 Oh, baby.

02:39:22.980 Pause it.

02:39:23.260 And for me personally, the only time I ever download dating apps is when I feel lonely.

02:39:29.560 Okay.

02:39:29.960 Just pause it.

02:39:30.620 And this last time.

02:39:31.420 So, she said, what did she say?

02:39:34.140 She said that it's, like, a hit to her self-esteem, seeing, like, the, start from 30 again.

02:39:42.200 And while you're doing that, Marky says, dating apps have made me so insecure.

02:39:47.300 Start at 30.

02:39:48.800 Like, it's a self-confidence issue, right?

02:39:51.880 Like, and I know that this is awful to say, but getting likes and being shown people who are clearly, like, below your league will give you self-confidence issues.

02:40:05.440 Okay, pause it.

02:40:06.000 It really will.

02:40:06.780 Okay.

02:40:07.200 And then I'm going to just read one or two of these chats.

02:40:10.100 Scroll down a little bit here.

02:40:13.500 Let's see.

02:40:14.300 Um, I don't know if there's any really.

02:40:17.980 It was mostly, I think, the comments.

02:40:20.620 I think it was the comments in the other one that I thought I thought were interesting.

02:40:23.240 But anyways, so, do you think that these women are actually getting liked by people who are way outside their league? 0.99

02:40:35.200 Or are these women delusional as to their standing in the dating marketplace? 1.00

02:40:40.020 And they think that they're more attractive than they actually are.

02:40:45.100 And then they're looking at people who are their, who are actually their looks match, their looks equivalent, and they're zeroing them out.

02:40:52.760 What do you think is happening there?

02:40:54.760 I have a question.

02:40:56.040 I thought on dating apps, you both had to like each other.

02:40:58.480 Yeah, that's what I was confused about as well.

02:40:59.980 Well, so, on Hinge, for example, if I recall, and I haven't been on it in, like, a year and a half.

02:41:05.520 On Hinge, you can see your incoming likes, so you can look at their profile before you send a like.

02:41:12.740 So, it'll show you there's, like, a, like, if you're just swiping through the feed, I guess you could like at the same time, or they've already liked you.

02:41:21.860 But you can actually look at people who've already picked you.

02:41:24.820 So, that's what they're talking about.

02:41:25.980 Okay.

02:41:26.620 I've never had that experience.

02:41:28.000 Like, with the app that I was on, in order for you to be a match, you had to say yes, they had to say yes.

02:41:32.800 So, if somebody was surprised by that, that would be strange to me.

02:41:35.540 You know what I mean?

02:41:36.020 Because you both had to say yes.

02:41:36.540 So, what they're specifically talking about is there's a feed in the dating apps that they have that it already, you haven't necessarily swiped yes on them.

02:41:49.080 They're showing you the people who have swiped yes on you.

02:41:51.540 And I'm pretty sure they're talking about, I think she said hinge.

02:41:55.480 They're talking about hinge.

02:41:56.540 So, you can see, before you like them, who's liked you.

02:42:00.560 And they're dissatisfied with the people who've liked them because they want to pick.

02:42:05.680 They don't want to send a like out first.

02:42:07.800 They want to pick amongst the men who've already picked them.

02:42:10.580 But they're dissatisfied with those men.

02:42:14.240 But they can have their preference, right, if they don't like them, if they don't think they're cute.

02:42:21.220 Because I had Tinder, and when I was scrolling, it would take me like 500 scrolls to find like one person that I thought was cute.

02:42:31.560 And sometimes your type might not be their type.

02:42:34.600 Like, the type that you like might not like what you look like.

02:42:38.240 It goes both ways.

02:42:39.740 Also, women don't date for looks that much as men do. 1.00

02:42:42.920 Yeah, they do.

02:42:43.600 They care way.

02:42:44.600 Women care way more about looks than men. 1.00

02:42:47.280 What?

02:42:47.980 That's a lie.

02:42:48.840 Y'all think men are these superficial, super shallow.

02:42:52.420 Y'all care way more about looks.

02:42:53.880 You invented the number system.

02:42:56.060 We didn't come up with that.

02:42:56.680 We invented math.

02:42:57.840 No, the whole 7, 10.

02:42:59.500 All the great inventions.

02:43:00.880 Of course.

02:43:01.940 That is true.

02:43:02.660 Good job.

02:43:03.000 But if you treat us good, like. 1.00

02:43:05.720 Here, get the fucking. 1.00

02:43:06.760 Oh, snap. 1.00

02:43:07.460 Some people like that.

02:43:08.980 No, I think that when it comes to this conversation, though, it's like, if you look at it from

02:43:12.900 the guys who are like up the very top echelon, they're going to be able to pick apart women 1.00

02:43:16.660 a lot more, as opposed to women will, I think, will pick the men apart a lot more in general. 1.00

02:43:22.220 But if you get a guy who's like sort of bottom 60% of men in terms of that.

02:43:27.660 See, look how domestic she is. 1.00

02:43:29.460 No, it's a terrible job.

02:43:30.960 Do more.

02:43:31.420 Awful job.

02:43:32.600 Spilled a whole bunch.

02:43:34.560 I know.

02:43:34.940 I'm sorry, guys.

02:43:35.540 But if you, yeah.

02:43:36.540 Like I was saying, if you get a guy who's like bottom sort of 50%, he's generally just

02:43:40.520 going to want a girl who's cute, you know?

02:43:43.040 And then there are other things.

02:43:44.360 And then with the guys who are even in the top percentile, they're going to look at very

02:43:49.140 different things than just looks.

02:43:50.580 You'll often see very successful guys who with an adjustable six.

02:43:53.760 Right.

02:43:54.480 Yeah.

02:43:54.740 Because if a woman is like, and this is bad, but like if a woman is above an eight, generally 1.00

02:44:00.560 they just tend to be completely fucking insufferable. 0.85

02:44:02.940 With the world that they're raised in, if they're above an eight, like a genuinely above 0.98

02:44:06.740 an eight, then yeah, like the world is just going to reinforce to them constantly their

02:44:12.980 whole entire lives about how pretty they are.

02:44:15.040 Doors are going to get open for them. 1.00

02:44:16.380 They're going to get a lot of free shit. 0.98

02:44:17.480 They're going to get offered to be flown all around the world. 0.99

02:44:19.960 Pretty guys get that too.

02:44:21.900 No?

02:44:22.180 I mean, if you're a successful guy, you'll get that.

02:44:24.400 The hot felon.

02:44:25.640 Remember that guy that was a convict, a murderer, and then got hot and like traveled the world?

02:44:30.300 Have you ever had an offer for a guy to like fly you out or anything?

02:44:34.560 When in my twenties, yeah, I did.

02:44:37.280 Okay.

02:44:37.780 Are you, when you were in your twenties, were you as attractive as the hot felon dude?

02:44:43.340 Like, would you have been able to land the hot felon dude in your twenties?

02:44:46.480 Mm-mm.

02:44:47.100 Oh, I thought you were 11 though.

02:44:48.480 I mean, maybe in my twenties.

02:44:49.740 Yeah.

02:44:49.940 Any, I think any guy, how can I put this in a PG-13? 1.00

02:44:56.280 Wouldn't fuck you? 1.00

02:44:57.380 Yeah. 1.00

02:44:57.740 Guys don't say no to me.

02:44:59.100 Like.

02:44:59.620 Nah, but here's the thing. 0.99

02:45:01.020 Getting sex from a guy, that's not a W for women. 1.00

02:45:04.340 No, of course. 0.99

02:45:05.200 Of course.

02:45:05.680 The W is the ring.

02:45:06.740 Of course.

02:45:06.980 The W is a long-term relationship.

02:45:08.980 A relationship, right. 1.00

02:45:09.640 Any, you can fuck any guy. 1.00

02:45:11.340 Right, right. 0.99

02:45:11.700 That's not like a.

02:45:12.580 But what I mean is, the felon guy got pretty boy treatment, you know, and it's like, you

02:45:19.200 guys get it too.

02:45:20.140 But like, average women can get that kind of treatment. 1.00

02:45:23.640 An average girl can get flown out. 1.00

02:45:25.940 Yeah.

02:45:26.320 An average girl. 0.99

02:45:26.780 If she puts the right sort of filters on her Instagram and she posts the right, like,

02:45:29.920 bum photos or whatever they post.

02:45:31.120 Dude, I'm going to leave this podcast being like, poor man. 0.99

02:45:34.060 I'm going to really, tomorrow I'm going to give out blowjobs to, no, that's too much. 0.98

02:45:38.440 I'm not going to give them out. 0.99

02:45:40.000 But.

02:45:40.260 If you leave the podcast thinking more about men, then I'll consider the position about

02:45:44.240 periods being painful.

02:45:45.120 I'm not convinced.

02:45:45.820 Oh, look at that.

02:45:46.560 That's like a commitment.

02:45:47.980 I'm not convinced about it, but I think that we can, we can come to that agreement.

02:45:50.600 You know what?

02:45:51.320 It's like giving, have you seen these TikTok videos where the girls like after motherhood 0.92

02:45:55.740 and they're like wrecked?

02:45:57.000 Like they show them three months before and then three months after.

02:45:59.780 Have you guys seen this like new trend?

02:46:01.980 And I'm not sure if, like, I don't think motherhood does that to you, but it seems brutal.

02:46:06.560 Actually, there's actually though, like the hormones that are released when you're pregnant

02:46:10.000 and, and everything actually tend to keep a woman young. 1.00

02:46:13.280 Right.

02:46:13.800 When she, when she has children, keep, keeps them young.

02:46:16.620 You know, they're designed to do that. 0.77

02:46:18.060 Designed to have children young.

02:46:20.140 So the argument is never have an abortion and it doesn't matter like how old you are,

02:46:26.040 who did it, just have babies. 1.00

02:46:27.760 Well, I would say, yes, definitely never have an abortion.

02:46:32.040 Look, I'm just, the reason I brought those up is those were two examples.

02:46:36.920 Like that first girl, I'm not saying this to be mean.

02:46:39.980 She's an average looking girl. 0.99

02:46:41.600 The second girl, a little better looking than the first one.

02:46:45.640 Average looking girl.

02:46:46.680 I think y'all are gassed up when it comes to how attractive y'all think you are.

02:46:52.600 And then the guy who's actually your looks equivalent, you're passing him up.

02:46:57.620 And it's, to me, it's just like, it's crazy to get up, get on TikTok and be like, oh, these

02:47:05.400 men who are interested in dating me.

02:47:07.460 I wouldn't even give them a shot when they're your equivalent.

02:47:12.480 If you're passing up men who are your equivalent, you're just chasing after, because here's 1.00

02:47:16.900 the thing, right? 0.99

02:47:17.880 Remember how I was saying, it's easy for women to get sex. 1.00

02:47:23.040 Like you could be an average chick and fuck a really attractive dude. 1.00

02:47:27.420 He's never going to commit to you. 1.00

02:47:29.060 He's just going to use you for sex. 1.00

02:47:31.080 Maybe some of you have had that experience. 0.99

02:47:33.000 You're sleeping with a dude who you want commitment from.

02:47:37.280 Why isn't he giving it to you? 1.00

02:47:39.920 Probably not like you're, you're fucking outside of your league. 0.99

02:47:43.240 No offense. 0.99

02:47:45.700 Am I wrong?

02:47:46.960 I don't know.

02:47:47.340 I don't know if you're making a face.

02:47:48.340 I don't know if you disagree.

02:47:49.340 No, it was good.

02:47:50.340 It made me laugh.

02:47:51.340 It was good.

02:47:52.300 But what about how you guys said a man is more commonly going to be with a average

02:47:57.220 six?

02:47:57.680 It's like a really attractive dude than a woman. 1.00

02:47:59.720 But that's the thing that women will tend to be able to look outside of their league. 1.00

02:48:03.440 And that's the way that women date. 1.00

02:48:04.560 They're hypergamous daters, which means that they look above in terms of the social hierarchy

02:48:09.040 because they want a guy who earns more than them, is obviously bigger, stronger, more

02:48:12.840 competent, can look after them, can protect them.

02:48:15.460 And women, and men, sorry, we tend to be okay with looking down a little bit as long as she 1.00

02:48:20.320 respects us.

02:48:21.560 And there's a lot that comes with respect, but just for the short answer, as long as they

02:48:26.620 respect us.

02:48:27.200 Is it like a dominance thing for you guys?

02:48:29.880 Like you feel like more dominant?

02:48:31.060 You feel like you could lead somebody that's making less?

02:48:33.980 If you're a woman, you definitely should try and make a man feel dominant. 1.00

02:48:37.120 Absolutely.

02:48:38.080 And even if it's just in everyday life, oh, I can't get this from the top.

02:48:42.220 Even you can get it if you really want to.

02:48:43.640 Can you come get it for me?

02:48:44.720 Oh, you're so strong.

02:48:46.040 All of that sort of stuff makes men feel respected.

02:48:48.780 And yeah, but this is the thing, like dominance can be obviously associated with negative connotations

02:48:56.520 because, you know, if you're dominant in a negative way, then you're going to be sort

02:49:00.640 of really horrible and really mean to someone.

02:49:02.320 But if you're dominant in a way that you can still have the person's best interests in

02:49:06.400 mind, what's wrong with that?

02:49:09.540 Do you want a dominant man?

02:49:11.080 Oh, yeah, I do.

02:49:11.580 I want a man that can lead me.

02:49:13.260 And so, you know, like when you were saying that, I'm like, I think that is why women 0.95

02:49:16.320 do tend to look for someone, like you said, that is in a hierarchy than, you know, other

02:49:21.920 men.

02:49:22.220 Or maybe if they see a man that's on their level, that's why they're looking like, oh,

02:49:25.960 he's not really on my level.

02:49:28.240 If that makes sense.

02:49:29.480 Say it again, sorry.

02:49:30.180 Like if they're looking at a man like who they're saying statistically, like look wise,

02:49:35.360 financial wise, whatever, y'all are compatible, like you're on the same level.

02:49:38.840 But women are looking at them, like looking down is because that aspect of wanting someone 1.00

02:49:43.680 that's smarter or more financially stable or something like that's going to teach me

02:49:47.660 something to lead.

02:49:48.600 But the problem that it highlights, though, is that with dating apps, this has changed

02:49:52.460 the way that men and men and women interact in the intersexual dynamics completely.

02:49:56.700 Because if you're a woman in the olden days, what you would have to do is you would have

02:50:01.600 to find a man who's in your town.

02:50:03.260 So you'd have a much smaller pool of options.

02:50:05.320 Right.

02:50:05.620 But nowadays, if you log on to a dating app or if you're on Instagram and you have an

02:50:10.460 open profile and you post cute photos and you do some sort of cursory marketing of yourself

02:50:15.460 and you can have guys from all around the world sort of sliding into your DMs and then

02:50:19.060 automatically that opens up this massive pool.

02:50:21.280 And then what are you going to do?

02:50:22.100 You're going to look to the very top of that pool to the guys that you like the most and

02:50:25.220 be like, this is where I stand.

02:50:27.020 Right.

02:50:27.500 This is the guys that I want to date.

02:50:29.320 And then anything below that is not going to interest you.

02:50:32.160 And then what's worse is that when you get older and you date a guy who you consider

02:50:36.580 below, you'll end up thinking, you know, Kevin's nice, but Jermichael, the quarterback,

02:50:44.360 he was really good back in the day when I was in my 20s.

02:50:47.680 And it's called being alpha widowed.

02:50:50.840 You know?

02:50:51.020 You call me a what?

02:50:51.800 Alpha widowed. 0.58

02:50:52.860 It's when you've experienced the alpha male in the past and then you're with another guy

02:50:57.660 and he doesn't have those same sort of traits, whether it be like sexually or his charisma

02:51:01.780 or whatever.

02:51:02.600 And then you pine for that guy.

02:51:04.260 I think that's honestly a massive reason why a lot of marriages don't work these days 1.00

02:51:07.340 is because of the experiences that people have.

02:51:10.880 And then they end up pining for somebody in their past or aspects of different people.

02:51:16.020 Well, I think that when it comes to divorces, it comes down to the way that men and women

02:51:21.160 are designed and the way they communicate with each other.

02:51:23.480 Because women and men, they tend to give what they want to receive.

02:51:28.500 And so there tends to be a lot of like conflict and struggle because men are expecting women

02:51:34.740 to, and women are expecting men to be a certain way that they're not.

02:51:39.400 And they don't try and understand men. 0.99

02:51:41.580 And then women and men.

02:51:43.780 Wait, hold on.

02:51:44.300 Can you make it relevant to his point?

02:51:46.560 Yeah.

02:51:46.800 Because we're just, we're having a vague conversation about marriage now.

02:51:49.620 He's talking about a phenomenon where if a woman, because you've only been with two

02:51:53.640 men, right?

02:51:54.100 So I don't know if you were alpha.

02:51:56.440 I mean, the guy you married, you were a virgin.

02:52:00.240 So you were not in a situation in your marriage to have been alpha widowed.

02:52:05.420 That doesn't make sense to me.

02:52:07.120 Like as in you had a really good man.

02:52:08.900 Let me break it down really simply.

02:52:11.960 At some point in your past, you date a remarkable man.

02:52:16.280 Maybe he's outside of your league.

02:52:17.560 He's really good looking, really good in bed.

02:52:19.580 He's rich.

02:52:20.360 Whatever the metric is, he doesn't give you commitment, but you date him for three months. 0.87

02:52:25.460 Any best sex you've ever had.

02:52:27.820 Then the guy who you can actually get commitment from doesn't meet any of those criteria. 0.99

02:52:35.740 Now you've had a taste of the good life, the good dick. 0.98

02:52:39.700 And now you're going to settle for Joe Schmo. 0.99

02:52:41.780 No, but that's not.

02:52:42.320 That's what we're talking about.

02:52:43.260 I'm disagreeing with that.

02:52:44.120 The old saying, ignorance is bliss.

02:52:45.600 What are you disagreeing with?

02:52:46.440 Because I'm disagreeing that he's saying that's a lot of the reasons why couples end in divorce.

02:52:51.420 And I'm saying I don't think that's a lot of the reasons why.

02:52:54.160 I don't think that they experience something better and now they always pine for that.

02:52:59.220 I think they're not.

02:53:01.000 Why do you think that virgins stay together for longer than people who have slept around? 1.00

02:53:07.560 Well, I do because their pool has been exposed more.

02:53:11.860 They have a lot more experiences.

02:53:13.660 That's what I said, yeah.

02:53:14.880 So if you've got 10 ex-boyfriends and Jimmy was tall and Billy was handsome and Kevin was – I keep saying Kevin.

02:53:22.700 I can't come up with their new names.

02:53:24.180 Darren was rich.

02:53:25.720 And then all of a sudden when you're settling down, you want all of those things in one man.

02:53:29.520 So you're saying women settle? 0.59

02:53:31.680 What do you mean?

02:53:32.280 I'm saying when you settle down.

02:53:33.840 Right. 0.58

02:53:34.020 So do women settle when they find that mediocre man? 1.00

02:53:37.980 Well, they think they're settling.

02:53:39.580 They think they're settling.

02:53:40.440 That's a good way to put it.

02:53:41.560 Yeah.

02:53:42.160 But it's actually the guy who's your equivalent.

02:53:45.640 But because you've had – hold on.

02:53:46.880 Because women can get access to men sexually, maybe even like short-term sexual access to men that are outside of their league, they're like, oh, now this guy down here who is actually my equal, I've had this guy, but he won't commit to me. 0.68

02:54:03.400 But like I've had him.

02:54:04.340 I've had that experience. 0.99

02:54:05.000 It's like if you lived in a mansion all your life and then you go live in a shack, that's a – you're like, fuck, that mansion was way better. 0.99

02:54:15.360 And so it's just – look, it's a phenomenon. 0.99

02:54:17.740 It's also a reality check.

02:54:18.940 Like we have to live in reality.

02:54:20.360 We have to understand that we are – like those women, they got a reality check of this is their pool. 1.00

02:54:27.000 So they have to accept that.

02:54:28.300 They have to accept that that's their –

02:54:29.620 They don't though.

02:54:30.380 So – but that's –

02:54:31.580 He's saying that's a factor of divorce and I just said I disagree.

02:54:34.020 Well, and one last thing on this like the widow concept.

02:54:40.040 Widow.

02:54:40.860 So here's the –

02:54:41.700 Hold on.

02:54:42.420 Who's a widow? 1.00

02:54:43.500 Alpha.

02:54:43.840 Alpha widow.

02:54:44.560 It's a term.

02:54:44.880 I feel like we shouldn't even use it because it's just confusing.

02:54:47.440 I mean it's sort of like a red pill term, but basically just what it means is that you've had a guy or multiple guys who have certain characteristics and traits that you don't have in your guy that you actually settle down with.

02:55:01.260 So then it means that the woman's always pining for those traits that he doesn't have.

02:55:05.280 So hence pining for those men.

02:55:07.500 Yeah.

02:55:07.680 And then one thing here on this like in terms of the differentials, you might say like, oh, men can have that too.

02:55:14.440 Not really because here's why.

02:55:15.880 Like if me or Jake steps to a girl that's outside of our league, instant rejection.

02:55:23.660 Like we're instantly zeroed out. 0.94

02:55:26.000 If I step to a girl and I'm like, I'm offering you sex. 1.00

02:55:30.160 Easy sex. 1.00

02:55:31.280 I ain't getting nothing. 0.99

02:55:34.700 I get nothing with a girl who's outside my league. 1.00

02:55:37.080 I don't get a conversation.

02:55:38.440 I don't get a date.

02:55:40.360 I definitely don't get sex.

02:55:41.720 But as a girl, if you make yourself sexually available to a guy who's outside your league, maybe it's not the case every single time you're going to get it.

02:55:51.100 But you got a chance. 0.99

02:55:52.820 Chris Brown has fucked a lot of average girls, I'd say. 0.99

02:55:54.960 Like there's a lot of like NFL, NBA players that just be like hooking up with girls that they have no intention of ever having a relationship with. 0.99

02:56:05.300 And so, you know, like.

02:56:10.240 And by the way, to your point, I'm not saying that it's the sole purpose for divorces.

02:56:15.180 Because I'm saying that it's, I think that in the modern world, considering the factors that we're talking about in terms of social media and the way that people date and they sort of play more fast and loose with sex and other intersexual dynamics, then that would be something that I think would be a major factor these days.

02:56:31.740 But you're saying that you believe that like communication and different values is a major reason or?

02:56:37.220 I think we're just having, we don't seek to understand the opposite sex.

02:56:42.400 So we don't seek to understand how they.

02:56:44.200 Do you think that tends to go both ways?

02:56:47.000 Yeah.

02:56:47.500 I think that to an extent it is true.

02:56:49.980 But like the experiment that I ran at the start here when I asked you all what you would do in your job interview, you guys gave pretty bad answers.

02:56:58.060 You gave a pretty good answer, but the rest of you guys gave pretty bad answers.

02:57:00.320 I'm not going to lie.

02:57:01.500 And that actually shows that you guys don't really understand like what men actually want.

02:57:05.860 Like if you're put in that situation where you have to sell yourself, you actually don't know really how to sell yourself.

02:57:10.960 Whereas men, the competition is greater. 0.95

02:57:13.700 So if we want to acquire like a certain type of woman, which is very, very rare these days, then we have to really, really know the game. 0.99

02:57:22.160 We have to really understand how to achieve that.

02:57:25.120 Yeah.

02:57:25.300 Well, I mean, Natasha's position on this, she wrote some pre-show notes.

02:57:28.220 And if I've committed them to memory, you're talking about the table, what somebody brings to the table.

02:57:33.860 Natasha doesn't believe in, is that fair to say?

02:57:36.220 Like you, women are the table. 1.00

02:57:39.100 Is that fair?

02:57:39.940 That's not what I said, no.

02:57:40.940 Well, you said that if a guy were to ask a woman what she brings to the table, she just brings herself. 0.99

02:57:48.260 It's her presence.

02:57:49.800 Isn't that what you said?

02:57:50.540 No, I'm saying sort of to a point that I don't think if a man asks that question, they see the value in you to begin with if they're having to ask.

02:57:57.820 But I'm saying that a man who is super secure, let's say financially in his job, all of these things, it doesn't really matter what a woman brings to the table in terms of that if she brings the attributes he's looking for. 0.96

02:58:11.400 Like she could be a waitress. 1.00

02:58:12.680 She might not be financially stable.

02:58:14.740 But if she brings the qualities that he's looking for, then that's enough for him.

02:58:18.820 So I don't think she has to be of a certain like looks or of a certain like financial caliber.

02:58:24.180 I think if she's bringing the attributes like the qualities within herself, then I don't think that it matters like what she does to bring to the physical table.

02:58:31.960 Right.

02:58:32.540 And so what you wrote in your notes was a man asking what you bring to the table is a major red flag.

02:58:38.780 Him asking something like that just reveals his cards that he isn't secure in where he is and that they harbor resentment for women.

02:58:47.120 Insecure men tend to think that women have an easier time.

02:58:49.760 And if I'm going to marry you, what will you provide for me?

02:58:53.480 Meh.

02:58:54.180 Ballers will marry someone from any walk of life, a waitress. 1.00

02:58:57.740 It doesn't matter.

02:58:58.720 So if he's a real provider and a man who's secure, he will not care about your standing because for the right man, all you will have to do is exist.

02:59:06.580 You can't see my qualities without that question.

02:59:09.940 But I think men who are asking, don't worry about it.

02:59:14.520 I think men who are asking what you bring to the table, they're not talking financially.

02:59:20.240 They're not talking money.

02:59:21.380 Yeah, but those are soy boys. 0.90

02:59:22.540 Don't deal with them.

02:59:23.520 They're saying, like, what you bring to the table outside of that.

02:59:28.800 Well, I'm saying in, like, a financial sense when I think men try to say, like, oh, where are you at in your career?

02:59:33.480 Damien, can you close the door?

02:59:34.380 So when you're saying about bringing to the table, you're talking about it in a financial sense.

02:59:39.380 Yeah, that's what I was talking about.

02:59:40.360 Okay, well, I would actually agree with you then that men won't tend to care. 0.93

02:59:43.800 Yeah, I don't think it matters as much to men.

02:59:44.340 Yeah.

02:59:44.620 But when we're talking about what you bring to the table, though, it's sort of like the experiment that we ran before where I said what qualities and attributes and what makes you different from other women. 0.98

02:59:53.520 I think that's what is more important to a man.

02:59:55.920 Like, I'm saying if it's a financial question, I don't think that matters at all to a man, really.

02:59:59.820 I would agree.

03:00:01.280 We did it.

03:00:02.860 Wow, that was beautiful.

03:00:03.180 We found one.

03:00:04.380 That was beautiful.

03:00:05.980 We got there.

03:00:06.480 Okay, yeah.

03:00:07.860 But, like, let's say that when the guy asks that question, what do you bring to the table, but he's not thinking about finances at all, do you think that then it's a fair question?

03:00:18.040 Yeah.

03:00:18.780 Yeah, I would just, I would ask, sorry, I would ask for a specification, like, what they mean in terms of what I bring to the table, if they meant, like, financial stability or if they meant attributes, because I do think attributes matter in what you bring to the table on both ends.

03:00:30.820 But I don't think, at least for a man, that the financial standing of a woman is that important compared to their physical and personal attributes. 0.95

03:00:38.340 All right, Natasha, you and me, we also have an agreement there.

03:00:40.660 Wow.

03:00:41.200 Don't care whatsoever. 0.90

03:00:43.400 I mean, it's probably good if she's not looking dead, like crazy dead or something.

03:00:47.220 What's important to me is if you're not lazy.

03:00:49.880 If I think that you're somebody who, you know, is able to just get out of the bed in the morning and just do things, and if I have to go away, say we've got kids and I've got to go away for a week for work, you're like, cool, I'm going to hold it down at home.

03:00:59.740 I think lazy is extremely unattractive.

03:01:02.900 That's why when I see these sort of, like, pampered princesses who just want to sit around all day and be provided for, it's like, no, thank you. 1.00

03:01:09.440 No, you've got to pull your weight and show that you can hold it down, you know?

03:01:13.160 How do you guys feel about 50-50?

03:01:15.320 No.

03:01:15.960 No.

03:01:16.520 No.

03:01:17.140 Oh, that's good.

03:01:17.980 Yeah, if you're the provider, then it implies authority.

03:01:20.840 And also, I don't want my wife one day going to work for another man, because obviously, I don't think that there's any position, there's any time when it's actually appropriate for your wife.

03:01:29.740 To be going and having close relationships with a man who's in authority, in a position of authority with her.

03:01:36.180 Wait, 50-50.

03:01:38.140 You guys, who's in favor of 50-50? 0.71

03:01:40.200 Absolutely not.

03:01:40.800 No?

03:01:42.080 I think it depends.

03:01:45.420 Like, because, like, if, like, say, like, you were, like, just starting out dating, and, like, if I made more than the dude I was talking to or whatever, it don't make sense.

03:01:54.120 Like, if I'm already providing for myself to go 50-50, because he can, you know, in turn, soon, hopefully make more.

03:02:02.460 But what if he asks you on the date, you still want to be the person to pay for the date he wanted to take you on?

03:02:07.740 Well, no, but that wasn't the question.

03:02:09.480 It was if you would go 50-50, so I'm assuming that we were already in a relationship, in a point that we'd want to live together, or, you know, be in that part where we're partners.

03:02:18.200 Because that's what 50-50 is to me, is, like, partners.

03:02:20.840 Like, if you ain't got it, then I got you.

03:02:22.940 Are you cool with 50-50? 0.82

03:02:25.460 No.

03:02:26.060 50-50? Cool with it? Not cool with it? 50-50? 50-50?

03:02:29.580 Yeah.

03:02:30.420 Why are you stroking the pickle, Abba?

03:02:33.540 Calm down, Darkavia. 1.00

03:02:35.160 Sorry.

03:02:35.560 Calm down.

03:02:37.160 And then what about, who should pay on the first date, the man or the woman?

03:02:39.880 I think whoever asks.

03:02:41.080 Whoever asks?

03:02:41.860 Yeah.

03:02:42.060 Okay, but.

03:02:42.860 Like, if a man.

03:02:43.220 Have you ever, have you asked a guy out on the first date?

03:02:45.020 I would never, no.

03:02:45.900 I like a tradition.

03:02:47.540 Right, but it's like, okay, so just say man.

03:02:49.420 Yeah, a man.

03:02:50.100 Yeah, okay.

03:02:51.380 Yeah, man.

03:02:52.400 Man.

03:02:52.940 Man.

03:02:55.420 What?

03:02:56.460 Who should pay for the first date? 1.00

03:02:57.760 Oh, man.

03:03:01.820 Oh, this took you so long.

03:03:03.800 Wait, I have a question.

03:03:06.640 Natasha, I know you have a hyphenated last name.

03:03:10.620 Are you going to want to hyphenate with your future husband?

03:03:14.040 No, I want to get rid of both of my last names and take his name.

03:03:17.720 Okay.

03:03:18.160 Yeah.

03:03:18.800 Do you take your, you want to get married?

03:03:21.320 Yeah.

03:03:21.540 Do you want, will you take your husband's last name?

03:03:23.480 Yeah, but I'd probably hyphenate it.

03:03:25.480 So, no, you won't take his, you'll hyphenate it.

03:03:28.440 I would still have his last name.

03:03:29.780 Well, honestly, I could, because my last name is Trinidad.

03:03:33.300 So, like, I like my, like, I love, it's part of my artist name, it's part of my name,

03:03:38.380 so I guess I could.

03:03:39.200 Are you Trinidadian?

03:03:41.040 No, I'm Cruzan, but, like, I'm Puerto Rican.

03:03:44.360 You're what, sorry?

03:03:44.980 Cruzan, like, my, I'm from St. Croix, like, Virgin Islands, so my nationality is Cruzan.

03:03:50.140 You speak Creole?

03:03:51.020 No, we speak Cruzan, but, yeah, no, I'm Puerto Rican, though.

03:03:55.640 We'll get back to that.

03:03:56.700 You hyphenate or you take his name?

03:03:58.480 I'm taking the last name.

03:04:00.320 How about this?

03:04:01.080 Let me double down on this.

03:04:02.320 It's a bad last name, too.

03:04:03.840 Oh.

03:04:04.520 Taking the bad last name.

03:04:05.520 Yep, okay.

03:04:06.580 Why you have to change it as a bad last name?

03:04:09.640 Um, no, if it's bad, I won't change it.

03:04:12.480 If it's good, I'll change it.

03:04:14.460 Okay.

03:04:15.540 I'll take it.

03:04:17.300 I'd change it.

03:04:18.780 I will not change my last name.

03:04:20.100 You're gonna hyphenate.

03:04:20.760 So, wait.

03:04:21.600 Hyphenate, hyphenate, hyphenate.

03:04:24.740 I mean.

03:04:25.140 What happens if there's a double hyphenation?

03:04:26.920 You could do that.

03:04:28.360 It's just.

03:04:28.880 I don't throw a long last name.

03:04:30.060 It's just so extra.

03:04:31.080 Well, that's the problem with the hyphenation thing.

03:04:33.000 If everybody did it, then, like, once you go far, it's like 16 last names.

03:04:38.440 If you just keep all of them.

03:04:39.120 It shouldn't be allowed.

03:04:39.960 It shouldn't be allowed.

03:04:40.880 No, just take it.

03:04:41.420 It's such a kick in the nuts to your husband to not take his last name.

03:04:44.200 Awesome.

03:04:44.520 The reason I'm hyphenated is because my mom was already a practicing lawyer when she got 0.71

03:04:49.520 married, and all of her documentation was just how handy.

03:04:52.240 So, she wanted to hyphenate it to make it easier.

03:04:54.740 But I don't know why I got both of them.

03:04:56.760 I don't know, man.

03:04:58.020 I liked Arkevia Jacobs.

03:05:00.120 Look, you guys want a guy to pay for the first date?

03:05:03.160 You don't want to do 50-50? 0.92

03:05:04.840 You got to take his last name.

03:05:06.240 Like, you can't have it like, I want a man to be traditional, but you won't even take

03:05:11.840 his last name?

03:05:12.340 That's true.

03:05:12.820 I agree with that.

03:05:13.800 Like, imagine, you're like, oh, 50-50.

03:05:16.920 I said I'd go 50-50, though.

03:05:18.380 Huh?

03:05:18.680 I said I'd go 50-50.

03:05:19.560 Oh, I thought you were kind of against it.

03:05:21.480 No, I said if I got it and he doesn't, or if I was making more money than him.

03:05:25.660 What do you do for work?

03:05:26.800 I'm an actress.

03:05:27.880 And a rapper.

03:05:28.880 Yeah, and I do music.

03:05:30.580 Not bringing in the big bucks at the moment.

03:05:31.860 Racks on racks.

03:05:32.560 Is it bringing in the big bucks or no?

03:05:34.460 Not as big, but yeah, I make a lot.

03:05:36.320 I work with a lot of big artists and stuff like that.

03:05:39.280 But I mean, you still said you want the guy to, maybe you're 50-50, but you want the

03:05:42.800 guy to pay for the first date or first couple of dates.

03:05:44.900 Yeah, because she had said, like, if he asked you on a date, and I was like, well, yeah,

03:05:48.540 they're asking.

03:05:48.800 Do you ask guys out on dates?

03:05:50.000 I have before.

03:05:51.260 Of all the dates you've been on, what's the breakdown?

03:05:54.280 Like, 80% the guy?

03:05:55.680 Yeah, mostly the guy.

03:05:57.120 Mostly the guy?

03:05:57.760 Yeah, mostly the guy.

03:05:58.540 But I haven't really been on really, like, a lot of traditional dates.

03:06:01.940 But what if you had a family and kids, would you still be rapping and talking about,

03:06:05.560 like, your coochie and stuff?

03:06:07.040 Talking about what?

03:06:07.900 Racks on racks.

03:06:08.280 Coochie and stuff?

03:06:09.680 Did you say my coochie?

03:06:10.880 Racks on racks.

03:06:11.420 Because that's not what I talked about.

03:06:12.800 She's talking about coochie.

03:06:13.360 I was talking about.

03:06:14.280 That's what all the rappers talk about.

03:06:15.840 She got liquor. 1.00

03:06:16.300 That is stupid. 1.00

03:06:17.040 Hey, pull that video back. 1.00

03:06:18.260 Honestly, I really do be trying to make it fair.

03:06:20.380 Oh, it's okay.

03:06:20.880 Don't worry about it.

03:06:21.260 So you never mentioned the word coochie once?

03:06:23.300 No, actually.

03:06:24.960 Okay.

03:06:25.900 Wait, hold on.

03:06:27.600 Okay, well, anyways.

03:06:28.940 Oh, since we have everybody at the table, from the 10, the 10, the 11, and the 10,

03:06:35.400 I want you guys to rate me.

03:06:38.000 I will not be offended.

03:06:40.040 Rate me on a scale of 1 to 10 looks.

03:06:41.680 I won't be offended.

03:06:43.220 That's the thing.

03:06:43.880 I don't, I think it's more than looks, because you, you know, you're doing the other stuff.

03:06:48.980 You see him in the street.

03:06:49.980 Fine.

03:06:50.540 I, looks for you, I started out at 5, but then you got to know me, and now I'm a 0.

03:06:55.740 I don't care.

03:06:56.540 Just look.

03:06:57.900 This guy, whatever. 1.00

03:06:58.860 You're like, this guy's a fucking dick. 1.00

03:06:59.880 Just whatever. 1.00

03:07:00.480 Whatever it was, like, just looks.

03:07:02.040 Honestly, I'll give you one point higher than you gave yourself.

03:07:05.500 I'll give you a 6.

03:07:06.260 Give me a 6.

03:07:06.920 What about you?

03:07:07.500 What do you give me?

03:07:07.980 A 5.

03:07:08.840 Okay.

03:07:09.300 So, 6, 5.

03:07:11.800 What do you give me?

03:07:12.060 I mean, the old you that, or, like, you right now.

03:07:14.860 She's 5. 0.86

03:07:16.240 She's 5. 0.86

03:07:18.340 Racks on racks.

03:07:19.960 No, I'm saying, you're, you're like a 7.

03:07:21.640 You're, like, not for me, but, like, I feel like a lot of women would like you.

03:07:25.880 Thank you.

03:07:26.080 Like, you have the beard going for yourself.

03:07:28.140 You have pretty eyes.

03:07:29.040 Wait, so I'm a 7 when I was younger or 7 right now?

03:07:31.000 No, you're probably, like, an 8 or 9.

03:07:32.200 I'd date you when you were younger.

03:07:33.760 She. 0.93

03:07:34.140 Right.

03:07:35.540 Missed out, man.

03:07:36.400 Missed out.

03:07:36.880 Okay.

03:07:37.500 7.

03:07:38.120 Okay, so I get a 7.

03:07:39.640 And then Darkavia, what do you give me?

03:07:44.160 I would say, I would say a 6.

03:07:48.380 All right.

03:07:49.280 It's the beard.

03:07:50.460 Okay.

03:07:50.980 It's worse, or I don't know.

03:07:52.500 Okay.

03:07:52.660 It's good.

03:07:53.760 That's cool.

03:07:55.040 Actually, here, you know what?

03:07:56.180 We're going to do, Milena, why don't you also rate me?

03:07:59.300 I'd say a 5.

03:08:00.280 Give me a 5.

03:08:01.280 Okay.

03:08:02.200 No thought.

03:08:02.720 And then...

03:08:04.520 Jill? 1.00

03:08:05.340 Fuck it. 1.00

03:08:05.920 Jill, what do you rate me? 1.00

03:08:07.600 6.

03:08:08.560 6?

03:08:09.320 Okay. 1.00

03:08:10.160 Okay, fuck it. 1.00

03:08:10.760 What do you rate me? 1.00

03:08:11.800 She's going to give me a low number because we argued earlier. 0.91

03:08:15.100 Go ahead.

03:08:15.880 Like, unbiased?

03:08:17.400 Into the mic?

03:08:19.080 Unbiased a 6?

03:08:20.440 Okay.

03:08:21.840 What is bias?

03:08:22.940 Give me the biased answer.

03:08:24.520 Give me the biased answer.

03:08:26.720 Like...

03:08:27.360 Just looks.

03:08:28.920 Just looks.

03:08:29.320 Yeah, like, you're not my type at all, but, like, just...

03:08:31.280 Is it because I'm white?

03:08:32.580 No. 1.00

03:08:33.000 You're such a racist. 1.00

03:08:34.760 That's a wild question. 1.00

03:08:35.780 I'm kidding.

03:08:36.240 It's a joke.

03:08:36.880 Okay.

03:08:37.320 So, she gives me a 6.

03:08:38.600 So, wait.

03:08:40.100 I did this so out of order.

03:08:41.160 So, you gave me a 6.

03:08:42.420 You gave me a 5.

03:08:43.320 You gave me a 7.

03:08:45.980 Darkavia gave me a 6.

03:08:47.200 You gave me a 5.

03:08:47.880 So, just to be clear, you're an 11.

03:08:50.700 To you, I'm a 6.

03:08:51.980 So, you would be settling for me.

03:08:53.540 No, hold on.

03:08:54.660 That's literally what you said.

03:08:56.100 I said looks-wise.

03:08:57.500 Like...

03:08:57.980 Yeah, that's what I'm talking about, looks.

03:09:00.320 Okay.

03:09:01.060 I said you are more than 6 if you weren't just looks-wise.

03:09:05.100 But just looks-wise.

03:09:05.660 Okay, what's my total rating, then?

03:09:08.100 You know, you have your little thing going.

03:09:10.360 You seem like you have a nice head on your shoulders.

03:09:13.020 I would say a 9.

03:09:14.200 Like, you can be a husband to somebody and, like, take care of people and not murder them.

03:09:19.780 You know?

03:09:20.220 It's not murder them.

03:09:21.700 All right, sounds good.

03:09:22.960 Yeah, like, if it's just looks, then yes.

03:09:25.380 You're still settling for me as a 9.

03:09:27.380 I mean, you're 11 over here.

03:09:28.660 Okay.

03:09:30.580 You gave yourself a 10, but you gave me a 5.

03:09:33.580 So, you would be downgrading.

03:09:36.740 I think we got to do a split on this.

03:09:39.060 We'd be downgrading from a 10 to a 5.

03:09:42.540 Do you think it would be a mismatch if you and me dated, looks-wise?

03:09:45.720 Yes.

03:09:45.960 Like, if people saw you and me together, they'd be like,

03:09:49.260 oh, my God, she really is doing that guy a favor.

03:09:53.260 She's so much more attractive.

03:09:55.780 Like, people would be saying that.

03:09:57.580 Yes.

03:09:58.140 I'm a music video model.

03:10:00.700 I mean, have you seen music videos recently?

03:10:03.020 I have.

03:10:03.480 Some of those music videos, they've got some stuff that they pulled out from the back trash can in those music videos.

03:10:09.220 Yeah, but that's not me.

03:10:10.020 Yo, chat.

03:10:13.940 Who's settling for who, chat?

03:10:16.380 Or is it a match?

03:10:17.820 A looks match?

03:10:19.440 Who's settling for who?

03:10:20.360 Be for real.

03:10:21.820 Okay.

03:10:22.840 You are a 10.

03:10:24.280 You gave me a 7.

03:10:27.960 What?

03:10:28.400 Why are you laughing at that?

03:10:31.260 Yo, chat.

03:10:34.000 Who's settling for who?

03:10:35.760 It's a match?

03:10:39.920 Brian's settling.

03:10:41.180 Pull it up.

03:10:41.860 Show us the chat.

03:10:43.340 Show me the chat.

03:10:44.360 You know what?

03:10:44.860 Put it on Twitch and put it on Twitch so the stream can see.

03:10:47.940 No, just put it on Twitch.

03:10:51.600 Put it on Twitch and leave the chat.

03:10:53.380 Does that make sense?

03:10:54.720 Oh, it's too late now.

03:10:58.260 F11.

03:10:58.700 Can you go F11?

03:11:00.900 And then are you able to get the chat?

03:11:03.380 You should still be able to get.

03:11:04.920 Oh, just show us the chat.

03:11:06.640 Yo, who's settling, boys?

03:11:08.220 Me and the background dancer in music videos.

03:11:11.480 Can you make it bigger?

03:11:13.060 Click on the white part.

03:11:15.620 No, no, no, no, no.

03:11:16.280 No, no, no, no.

03:11:16.860 Just click on the white part.

03:11:18.900 Just click on any white part and you're just.

03:11:21.440 And then control mouse wheel up.

03:11:27.840 Control mouse wheel up. 1.00

03:11:32.500 Oh, okay, fuck it. 1.00

03:11:34.980 All right, chat. 1.00

03:11:35.600 Are we settling, boys?

03:11:37.340 Brian is out of their league.

03:11:38.780 Brian's settling.

03:11:39.700 He would be settling.

03:11:41.460 Brian's settling.

03:11:42.560 You're loyal fans.

03:11:44.520 Okay, and then racks on racks.

03:11:48.520 Who's settling?

03:11:51.160 She's a 10.

03:11:52.060 I'm a lowly.

03:11:53.660 She gave me a very.

03:11:54.760 She ranked me higher than I rank myself.

03:11:57.960 So, to be fair, to be fair, I need to lose a bit of weight.

03:12:05.020 So, I don't know.

03:12:05.720 And I ranked you the highest.

03:12:07.080 She did give me the highest ranking.

03:12:08.580 Yeah.

03:12:09.900 Brian doesn't have a job.

03:12:11.320 Bro, this is my job.

03:12:15.780 Brian, okay, all right.

03:12:17.600 And then I want to do, oh, Callie.

03:12:19.700 Between me and the girl with the orange tinted glasses.

03:12:24.000 She gave me a 6, and she's an 11.

03:12:30.440 Is she a settling for me, boys?

03:12:33.380 Chat.

03:12:34.260 And then finally, Milena over here. 0.99

03:12:38.940 Her.

03:12:40.220 With the beautiful downturned eyes.

03:12:42.000 Is that a bad quality?

03:12:45.640 No.

03:12:46.980 No, your eyes are beautiful.

03:12:48.240 Beautiful.

03:12:48.880 Yeah.

03:12:49.500 Like half a moon down.

03:12:52.160 She gave me a, was it a 5?

03:12:55.520 Why'd you bring up my downturned eyes?

03:12:57.560 I was complimenting you.

03:12:59.420 Were you actually?

03:13:00.460 Of course.

03:13:02.020 That's rude.

03:13:03.020 What do you mean?

03:13:03.660 I didn't say anything rude about your look.

03:13:05.100 You said I was a 5, bro.

03:13:06.720 You said I was a 5.

03:13:07.480 You also said you were a 5.

03:13:09.520 Yeah, but bro, you said you were an 8, so you're like settling for me, bro.

03:13:12.460 Okay.

03:13:13.860 I don't know, Milena.

03:13:14.960 I feel like we're probably like looks match, you know what I'm saying?

03:13:17.420 That's hilarious.

03:13:18.460 It's true, bro.

03:13:19.640 Okay.

03:13:20.460 Yo, chat.

03:13:21.580 Are we looks, me and Milena, are we looks match?

03:13:25.560 Chat.

03:13:28.020 Chat.

03:13:28.800 Chat disappeared.

03:13:31.620 Are we looks match, chat?

03:13:33.160 Chat, what does it say?

03:13:34.760 Match.

03:13:35.860 Is it a match?

03:13:36.480 Of course they do.

03:13:37.540 They're Brian's fans.

03:13:38.980 No, but if they wanted to be mean, they'd be like, nah, Brian, you don't even look her way, bro.

03:13:46.040 Match, but chair, Brian is better.

03:13:49.820 Someone said no.

03:13:50.600 Brian said match.

03:13:52.580 We're sticking with the no.

03:13:54.120 Match.

03:13:55.380 Wait, yo, yo, yo, chat, chat, chat, chat, chat.

03:13:57.160 Hold on.

03:13:58.000 Pull up young Brian again.

03:13:59.700 Is young Brian settling for her? 1.00

03:14:02.160 I'd fuck young Brian. 1.00

03:14:03.580 What the fuck? 1.00

03:14:05.060 You look good. 1.00

03:14:05.920 Add some tattoos.

03:14:07.560 Is young Brian settling for Milena?

03:14:13.060 Whoa, don't laugh like that, bro.

03:14:15.040 That's crazy.

03:14:15.400 I feel like that's a good match.

03:14:16.120 Did you hear her laugh?

03:14:17.000 She was like quivering over it.

03:14:19.580 Like, that's crazy. 1.00

03:14:20.800 Oh, save that shit for later. 1.00

03:14:24.000 I mean, after this. 1.00

03:14:26.640 Am I settling, boys?

03:14:28.360 All right.

03:14:29.760 Wait, okay.

03:14:30.500 Okay.

03:14:30.820 Final thing on the looks thing.

03:14:33.380 Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time?

03:14:36.480 Natasha, you're 30.

03:14:37.780 In 10 years time, you'll be 40.

03:14:39.320 Will you be better looking at 40 than you are now at 30?

03:14:42.540 No.

03:14:43.000 Okay.

03:14:43.360 And you're 30 now.

03:14:44.220 Were you better looking 10 years ago at 20?

03:14:46.140 No.

03:14:47.160 Better looking.

03:14:48.040 When did you peak?

03:14:49.620 Now?

03:14:49.800 Recently.

03:14:50.380 Recently?

03:14:50.740 Yeah.

03:14:51.100 I'd say like the last couple years.

03:14:53.040 Good to know.

03:14:53.740 Okay.

03:14:54.500 Yeah.

03:14:55.080 You're 32.

03:14:56.520 Better looking in 10 years time at 42? 0.97

03:14:58.360 Yeah, because, you know, black don't crack, so. 0.65

03:15:00.880 I thought you were like Afro-Latina. 0.94

03:15:03.640 I am, but I am black.

03:15:06.040 Okay.

03:15:06.640 That's fair.

03:15:07.640 So, 20 years time, 52?

03:15:10.540 I'm not going to be 52.

03:15:11.700 That's, oh, you said 20. 0.69

03:15:12.560 Oh, you're going to die? 1.00

03:15:13.460 You're going to be like for cocaine or some shit? 1.00

03:15:15.020 No, I thought you said 10 years, and then I just realized you said 20. 0.98

03:15:17.640 Okay.

03:15:17.980 My bad.

03:15:18.320 Time's fast.

03:15:19.200 My bad.

03:15:19.840 You said it so fast.

03:15:20.720 I didn't compare you.

03:15:21.540 20 years.

03:15:22.180 So, yeah, 20 years time, 52.

03:15:24.000 Better looking.

03:15:24.420 I still going to look good.

03:15:25.440 My ground.

03:15:26.060 Yeah, yeah.

03:15:26.480 100%.

03:15:26.900 Just to be clear, women can be beautiful, 30, 40, 50. 1.00

03:15:30.400 That's not what I'm saying.

03:15:31.360 I'm just saying like compared to how you look now.

03:15:33.720 Oh, compared.

03:15:34.640 You could still be attractive.

03:15:36.260 I'm just saying, will you be more attractive in 10 years, 20 years, et cetera?

03:15:40.820 Okay, in 10 years, I think I could still be about equal.

03:15:44.200 Equal, okay.

03:15:44.600 Yeah, and then like 20 years, I think I'm going to be more attractive now than later.

03:15:50.520 Okay, and then you're 32.

03:15:52.580 If we go back 10 years, were you better looking at 22 versus now 32?

03:15:58.540 I would say I looked very different, but I think it's equal.

03:16:02.580 Like I was thicker back then.

03:16:04.460 Thicker. 1.00

03:16:04.820 Yeah, like thicker, like more ass, more, yeah, like, yeah. 0.99

03:16:08.980 So I was like more thick there, but I was always like in shape and stuff, so I just was bigger on the downward part. 1.00

03:16:14.640 More ass. 1.00

03:16:15.460 Yeah, so, but. 1.00

03:16:16.660 You had what they call a badonkadonk.

03:16:19.000 Yes, I did.

03:16:20.380 I was dragging the wagon, yeah.

03:16:22.200 You were dragging a wagon.

03:16:23.560 Yeah.

03:16:24.260 Okay.

03:16:24.740 Yeah.

03:16:25.880 Cool.

03:16:26.800 All right, but better looking now in total.

03:16:29.940 I think I do my makeup better.

03:16:31.140 Better at 32 versus 22.

03:16:32.760 Okay, you're 27.

03:16:34.200 Better looking now or in 10 years' time at 37?

03:16:37.360 I think better in 37.

03:16:39.620 Okay, how about 20 years' time, 47?

03:16:42.080 I'll look better now.

03:16:43.360 Okay, and then going back, 18 versus 27?

03:16:48.020 Now I look better.

03:16:49.060 Okay.

03:16:49.600 You're 35.

03:16:50.560 Better looking in 10 years' time at 45?

03:16:52.340 Ah, yes, I'll have more money, maybe plastic surgery.

03:17:00.720 I'm going to have more money.

03:17:02.100 I'll look better.

03:17:04.160 Okay, great.

03:17:05.100 He wants me to like hate myself.

03:17:07.140 Dude.

03:17:08.800 But, oh, you'll have more money for the plastic surgery. 1.00

03:17:13.020 I thought you were just saying I have more, like men don't care about that shit. 0.99

03:17:15.840 Like I'll have more money and, you know, I'll have maybe a little nip and talk here and there. 0.99

03:17:21.440 It'll look, it'll look.

03:17:22.660 Okay, all right.

03:17:23.460 It'll look a little put together.

03:17:25.480 What if you didn't have that, like the plastic surgery though?

03:17:27.800 Better at 45?

03:17:30.260 If I have the money, yes.

03:17:32.720 I think money makes you hotter. 0.98

03:17:35.100 Because you're not struggling as much and you're not constantly like, you know, you take care of yourself better.

03:17:41.240 Uh, 20 years' time at 55.

03:17:45.620 Better looking than now. 0.78

03:17:46.620 Hopefully I'll be dead by then. 0.85

03:17:48.380 No.

03:17:48.900 Why would...

03:17:49.620 55?

03:17:50.100 The average life expectancy is like 70, 80 or something.

03:17:54.560 Why would you want to be dead? 1.00

03:17:57.140 Damn, bro. 1.00

03:17:57.700 That's funny. 1.00

03:17:58.060 Look better than now at 55? 1.00

03:18:01.480 Damn, bro. 1.00

03:18:02.580 We're having like a good time. 1.00

03:18:04.600 I was like insulting everybody's looks and shit. 0.99

03:18:07.220 Now you got to make it a little negative and shit. 0.99

03:18:09.040 No, I'm 55. 0.99

03:18:11.640 I think I look...

03:18:12.200 Chill out, Melina.

03:18:13.160 Sorry.

03:18:13.420 I think now.

03:18:14.100 Better.

03:18:14.500 Better now.

03:18:15.360 What'd you do?

03:18:16.160 Than 55.

03:18:17.700 So better looking now.

03:18:18.800 Yeah.

03:18:19.020 Okay, and you're 35.

03:18:20.200 Were you better looking at 25, 10 years ago at 25?

03:18:22.860 Ah, yes.

03:18:23.960 25.

03:18:25.460 You are 25, better looking in 10 years' time at 35?

03:18:28.540 No.

03:18:28.960 Okay.

03:18:29.680 You're 22, better looking in 10 years' time at 32.

03:18:31.920 I think I'll look better.

03:18:33.020 I'll look more womanly.

03:18:34.380 More as opposed to your current prepubescent body?

03:18:38.960 Like what?

03:18:39.480 What are you talking about?

03:18:40.000 I would hope to have like kids by then so I think my ities will get bigger. 0.87

03:18:43.800 The titties. 0.83

03:18:44.440 Okay. 0.99

03:18:44.880 Wait, I thought you said that having a baby destroys your body.

03:18:47.920 I didn't say that.

03:18:48.480 Oh, she didn't get it.

03:18:49.600 Oh, Jill wasn't me.

03:18:51.000 That was me.

03:18:52.000 That was me.

03:18:52.520 I'm valid.

03:18:53.360 That was me.

03:18:54.020 What about, wait, so.

03:18:55.880 I'm also a personal trainer, so I think if I keep being consistent in the gym, I'm just

03:19:00.380 going to look better.

03:19:00.980 Can you do some Reiki right now?

03:19:05.180 No, you asked me last time too.

03:19:07.960 All right.

03:19:09.420 Whatever.

03:19:10.960 And then, wait, 20 years' time at 42?

03:19:13.840 Better looking?

03:19:14.680 No.

03:19:15.280 Okay.

03:19:15.900 Darkavia, 23, better looking in 10 years' time.

03:19:18.480 I'm 33?

03:19:19.140 No?

03:19:19.680 No.

03:19:20.180 Okay.

03:19:23.660 It's actually pretty reasonable answers on this one.

03:19:27.080 Some people be saying, we've had panelists say, oh, I'll be better looking at 72 versus

03:19:32.580 now at 22.

03:19:33.460 It's like, okay.

03:19:34.880 That's cool.

03:19:35.700 So that's wild.

03:19:37.700 Reminder, guys.

03:19:38.480 TTS is $100.

03:19:39.960 Normally, it's $200, guys.

03:19:41.040 So get it in.

03:19:41.720 Get it in if you want.

03:19:43.500 Oh, thank you.

03:19:44.780 Sorry for the delay.

03:19:45.720 Michael Jones donated $100.

03:19:48.860 Brian would be settling for any of these women.

03:19:51.860 Know you're worth, king.

03:19:55.660 You're loyal fans.

03:19:57.720 You didn't even ask the chat about us, Brian.

03:20:00.120 I feel left out.

03:20:01.260 About who?

03:20:01.900 You and me.

03:20:03.140 Or me.

03:20:03.760 Can you rate all of us, Brian, on looks?

03:20:06.920 Yeah, you didn't rate any of us on looks.

03:20:09.700 That's right. 0.97

03:20:11.080 Fucking right, Michael Jones. 0.97

03:20:13.800 Know you're worth, king. 0.97

03:20:15.300 Wait, what?

03:20:16.140 What do you want?

03:20:17.280 Can you rate us all on looks?

03:20:18.460 I was a 10, too.

03:20:20.080 You're supposed to have to chat about us.

03:20:21.620 I'll only rate you guys if you each individually give me the green light to do it.

03:20:28.300 Green light.

03:20:29.000 I give you green.

03:20:30.160 Green light.

03:20:31.200 It's just your opinion.

03:20:32.320 Green light.

03:20:32.940 Yeah.

03:20:33.120 Green light?

03:20:34.020 I don't care.

03:20:34.820 You're fine with it?

03:20:35.580 Yeah.

03:20:36.520 I'm fine.

03:20:37.000 No, it's fine.

03:20:37.380 You don't have to.

03:20:38.020 That's fine.

03:20:38.620 It's fine.

03:20:39.780 Okay.

03:20:40.940 Okay.

03:20:42.300 Are we doing just looks?

03:20:45.600 Yes, just looks.

03:20:46.660 So, I think we'll do split and then, like, move it around as I go around.

03:20:53.140 Six.

03:20:57.680 I need to see you with your hair down, but.

03:21:02.060 It looks different in many ways down, too.

03:21:07.660 Five and a half.

03:21:09.740 Five.

03:21:13.000 You said, I mean, right now with clothes on

03:21:16.520 and then there's a whole naked thing.

03:21:18.160 I'm going to say three and a half now, four and a half.

03:21:25.540 You don't know how I look.

03:21:27.220 I don't know.

03:21:27.920 Fine.

03:21:28.340 Whatever.

03:21:34.080 Six.

03:21:35.920 Five and a half.

03:21:38.140 I give you seven.

03:21:39.420 Yeah.

03:21:40.100 I give you seven.

03:21:41.560 I said my average man, if I was in a room with a thousand men,

03:21:43.880 my average would be six.

03:21:44.880 So, that's good.

03:21:45.560 I changed my answer.

03:21:47.300 She's a six.

03:21:49.980 No one heard that.

03:21:51.720 Actually, no.

03:21:52.260 Sorry.

03:21:52.600 Because of Australia at nine.

03:21:54.740 Sorry.

03:21:55.660 Sorry.

03:21:56.060 It's the accent.

03:21:56.900 It's great.

03:21:58.440 Can't do it, man.

03:22:00.160 I'm sorry.

03:22:00.540 Does the chat agree with you?

03:22:02.040 Yo, chat.

03:22:02.580 Do you agree?

03:22:04.960 Am I pretty on point?

03:22:07.800 Chat.

03:22:08.020 They don't.

03:22:11.080 Well, they're like, chill out.

03:22:14.000 Chill out on Darkavia.

03:22:18.820 They're saying I was.

03:22:19.820 I gave you a point too high.

03:22:21.980 They're saying I was a bit too.

03:22:23.360 I gave you a point too high.

03:22:24.440 We all know that's probably the truth.

03:22:27.560 So, I'll humble that.

03:22:28.700 Okay.

03:22:29.140 All right.

03:22:29.420 You guys asked for it.

03:22:30.480 I, as a gentleman, I refuse to do that, but you guys gave me the green light.

03:22:34.560 Dude, that's the problem.

03:22:36.080 Like, she's a beautiful girl and you're already brainwashing her to be like, I'm humble.

03:22:40.500 I'm humble.

03:22:41.080 I'll be humble.

03:22:41.780 You're a 12.

03:22:43.560 If I'm an 11, you're a 15.

03:22:46.100 God forbid people are humble, hey?

03:22:48.460 Yeah, but not to the point where it's like low self-esteem.

03:22:51.840 No, like, I'm definitely a 10 in my eyes, but eyes of men, it could be different.

03:22:56.660 At three and a half?

03:22:57.800 I should have given you a four.

03:22:59.780 That's it.

03:23:00.300 I take my six back.

03:23:01.780 I take it back.

03:23:03.080 And then I was like, ooh.

03:23:03.860 Retribution.

03:23:04.520 He's a nine.

03:23:05.440 I take that back too.

03:23:07.300 Retribution.

03:23:07.720 That's it.

03:23:08.180 I take it back.

03:23:09.280 I mean, I didn't see you.

03:23:10.420 The thing, it's really unfair to you.

03:23:12.040 I didn't see you naked, so I can't.

03:23:13.360 And you never will now.

03:23:14.880 Forgive me a three and a half.

03:23:15.780 So you're saying before, though.

03:23:17.260 Of course, maybe.

03:23:18.260 If I had rated you higher, if I had given you a higher rating.

03:23:21.760 At least a four.

03:23:22.600 After the show, she would have hocked you at it. 0.94

03:23:25.960 She would have thought about it, but now the thought is gone.

03:23:30.040 All right? 0.99

03:23:30.420 That's damn. 0.99

03:23:31.360 I really missed out. 1.00

03:23:33.820 You did.

03:23:35.300 Okay, good talk.

03:23:36.580 Let's see here.

03:23:40.420 Anyways.

03:23:42.320 Oh, let's get, we got to get through the notes.

03:23:44.000 We got to get through the notes here.

03:23:45.040 Because we didn't even get through all of Jillian.

03:23:48.280 So I'm going to try to get through these quick.

03:23:50.400 You said, you think women are a major part in setting the tone for how emotionally healthy

03:23:57.040 the relationship is.

03:23:58.280 I hope you wholeheartedly believe that if a woman has not communicated her need or want

03:24:05.460 to her man, she cannot complain or expect him to act or do something when all she did

03:24:11.500 was roll her eyes and expect him to know what she's thinking.

03:24:15.280 Yeah, I think it goes back to what I was saying before about how men and women communicate

03:24:18.480 with each other.

03:24:19.100 But I think the problem starts with the woman not like being a little bit more gracious. 1.00

03:24:26.980 Cause I think we, we are emotionally high.

03:24:29.320 We, we talk a lot more.

03:24:31.400 We, you know, we, we have all of those qualities and they can very easily turn the man off to

03:24:38.040 them if they don't, um, are able, if they're not able to communicate those thoughts and feelings.

03:24:43.440 Sure.

03:24:44.020 You also wrote, you have a disagreement with me about my viewpoint on why I don't want

03:24:49.760 to get married.

03:24:50.660 You said marriage is constant work.

03:24:52.620 You have to put in equally and you have to be committed when that happens.

03:24:56.340 When people are that, that's when people are the happiest in marriage.

03:24:59.780 I say that it's incentivized for a woman to divorce a man when they get older. 0.75

03:25:04.500 There's some stuff like when she's 45 kids trying to divorce her husband because she's

03:25:08.520 not happy.

03:25:09.140 She's believing a lie.

03:25:10.660 She's not as young and attractive as she was at 20.

03:25:13.440 Even if she gets his money, she'll be lonely and unfulfilled as she abandoned her roles 0.95

03:25:17.680 and commitments.

03:25:18.420 That's your position.

03:25:19.640 Uh, you said women and men need to have principle and to stand by what they believe, even if they

03:25:24.040 can't see how the future will pan out.

03:25:25.660 So if Brian says a woman will not love him unconditionally and will eventually leave him, that will probably 0.94

03:25:30.920 be a self-fulfilling prophecy and he won't experience true love and contentment.

03:25:35.040 Uh, so you disagree with my anti-marriage positions.

03:25:38.460 How do you reconcile your positions here though?

03:25:43.380 You yourself are a divorcee who initiated the divorce and you mentioned unconditional love,

03:25:48.640 but it appears to me that there were conditions in which your love ceased to exist for your

03:25:53.700 now ex-husband.

03:25:55.920 Yeah.

03:25:56.100 I can see that's a contradiction.

03:25:57.880 So do you believe in unconditional love to start?

03:26:00.320 I didn't.

03:26:01.500 Um, I didn't.

03:26:02.300 Do you do now?

03:26:02.860 Yeah, I do.

03:26:04.380 So you were mistaken to have divorced your husband?

03:26:07.020 I think that I was, um, on biblical grounds.

03:26:12.820 I had the right to do it, but I think I was at a different mindset and a different belief

03:26:19.340 then.

03:26:20.500 And, um, I don't live in a way that, oh, if I did it over again, what's done is done.

03:26:25.960 Okay.

03:26:26.940 But I guess my confusion here, and I know that not all relationships pan out the way in which

03:26:33.060 yours did, given my anti-marriage positions, couldn't I just use your own, like you as 0.68

03:26:40.520 an example, because you said, well, love him unconditionally.

03:26:44.400 And you're saying that because I don't believe in unconditional love, what if I marry a woman 0.86

03:26:49.240 who is not at this sort of, uh, what's the word? 1.00

03:26:53.960 Uh, shit. 0.99

03:26:55.120 It's, uh, uh, what's the word for it? 1.00

03:27:00.500 Uh, enlightened.

03:27:03.060 A man who has not reached the level of post-divorce enlightenment that you've, uh, arrived at.

03:27:10.920 Uh, what happens when I marry that woman and then she divorces me? 1.00

03:27:15.480 Yeah, I think it, yeah, it's a very careful choice you have to make because, um, it should

03:27:20.700 be locked in for life and, um, unfortunately.

03:27:24.360 Oh yeah.

03:27:25.440 What were the, but so you would love a man unconditionally?

03:27:29.840 Yeah, especially.

03:27:30.580 What if he struck you?

03:27:31.460 That's not cause for divorce. 0.99

03:27:35.280 I mean.

03:27:36.460 Unconditionally means like unconditionally.

03:27:38.360 So we can take it to some pretty big extremes right now.

03:27:41.200 I could.

03:27:41.560 Well, there are, there are biblical reasons to, to end it.

03:27:46.040 Like, I, I don't want to get caught in the weeds here, but I think you're, my position now and

03:27:53.120 the, and the way you view marriage is because, um, because you haven't found someone that is,

03:28:03.200 that you are looking at and saying, I don't want to lose this person.

03:28:07.340 I, I think.

03:28:09.120 Wait, hold on.

03:28:09.900 Yeah.

03:28:10.880 So there's two things to contend with here.

03:28:13.600 You just said, I don't want to lose this person.

03:28:19.220 Wouldn't I be inclined?

03:28:21.040 Like, do you think unconditional love can exist prior to marriage?

03:28:25.280 It's, it, possibly.

03:28:29.100 Yeah.

03:28:29.780 Mm-hmm.

03:28:30.680 What do you mean possibly?

03:28:31.640 Wouldn't that be a condition?

03:28:32.680 I will only love you this much unless we get married.

03:28:35.140 That's a condition.

03:28:36.100 I think there's an, uh, a vulnerability and a, a trust and a loyalty that sets in when you

03:28:41.940 marry someone that you might not experience outside of marriage because there's always.

03:28:46.800 So a condition?

03:28:48.760 Um, okay.

03:28:49.820 Yeah, for sure.

03:28:50.740 Then I don't know if you can unconditionally love someone outside of marriage because.

03:28:55.300 Okay.

03:28:55.600 But once marriage exists, then, uh, unconditional love can exist.

03:29:03.020 Yes.

03:29:03.480 Only then.

03:29:04.860 I think through the grace of God.

03:29:05.940 I think that when you're talking about unconditional love, the only time that you can really sort

03:29:10.040 of say that is with a child.

03:29:11.940 I agree.

03:29:12.340 I think the love you have for a child is much different than a spouse.

03:29:15.480 Like, if you found out, and this is, we won't go deep into this, obviously, but that your

03:29:19.540 husband had been diddling kids for 10 years and you had no idea, you, you, you'd get out

03:29:26.700 of there pretty quickly and you wouldn't look back.

03:29:29.640 That's a crime.

03:29:30.460 Yeah.

03:29:30.560 He'd probably go to jail.

03:29:31.920 Um, but I think marriage is supposed to be a picture of Christ in the church.

03:29:35.640 So Christ's love for the church is unconditional and marriage is supposed to picture that.

03:29:40.020 It's a broken, it's a broken picture of that.

03:29:42.680 So it's not going to be perfect.

03:29:42.880 But even within the church, you can get an annulment if there's violence or if there's,

03:29:45.960 uh, cheating or.

03:29:47.040 Yeah.

03:29:47.380 And things like this.

03:29:48.040 So even within like the, the Christian purview, you can, you can get a divorce for those reasons.

03:29:53.220 For sure.

03:29:53.840 And it's completely justified. 0.56

03:29:55.300 Mm-hmm.

03:29:55.680 So yeah.

03:29:56.160 I think there's a, I think it's a semantic problem with the word unconditional, which

03:29:59.660 doesn't apply to the church.

03:30:00.680 Yeah.

03:30:00.700 Yeah.

03:30:01.260 But I'm, I'm just confused with the whole condition stuff.

03:30:03.880 Jake raises a good point that we can all, we don't need to state them, but we, I'm sure

03:30:08.680 we could think of like scenarios where like there's really abusive behavior either towards

03:30:15.960 you or to a child or to an, and like we could think of like monstrous behavior.

03:30:21.560 Yeah.

03:30:23.800 Like unconditional love would mean that despite monstrous behavior, you would stay with this

03:30:29.600 person.

03:30:30.520 Cause like my point of view, whether you're religious or not religious, I think if somebody

03:30:35.220 is like, there's severely abusive or monstrous behavior, that's grounds, even theologically

03:30:44.560 that would be grounds for, I'm not an expert in.

03:30:47.040 I agree.

03:30:47.320 I think what my position is ideally it's unconditional because it's, it's a picture of what we believe

03:30:53.980 as Christians.

03:30:55.220 But we're in a fallen world.

03:30:57.280 We're in a sinful world.

03:30:58.160 Stuff happens.

03:30:59.320 And that's why it says in Matthew from the beginning, it wasn't so, but because of the

03:31:04.160 sinfulness and the hardness of hearts.

03:31:05.620 I, so I have a couple of questions on this.

03:31:07.160 So you say that it'll probably be a self-fulfilling profit, a self-fulfilling for me.

03:31:11.920 And I won't experience true love and contentment because, uh, I don't think a woman will love 1.00

03:31:18.260 me unconditionally and could eventually leave me.

03:31:22.940 I think if you tell yourself something over and over again, then you're just going to believe

03:31:27.040 that.

03:31:27.200 But so why would it be, um, I mean, I'm not sure I'd totally follow the logic for like, for

03:31:31.920 example, do you think that women who take precautions for safety reasons prior to like

03:31:37.720 going out on a date with men, like maybe meeting them in a public place, that if you think this,

03:31:42.740 it's going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

03:31:44.340 And if you take the precautions that it's going to mean that it's going to happen to you.

03:31:48.700 And there's a difference between smart and then having that, that, that, uh, preconceived

03:31:55.480 like repetitive thought going through your head.

03:31:58.440 But I'm just confused.

03:31:59.220 So my concern with marriage is there are legitimate risks when it comes to, uh, money, when it

03:32:05.980 comes to marrying the wrong woman.

03:32:07.700 And I think because of what you believe, that's really valid because I don't know, um, the,

03:32:13.360 the kind of, I don't really know the kind of women that you date. 0.99

03:32:17.180 So maybe the, the kind of women that you date, that's, that's a hundred percent valid.

03:32:20.960 What if I told you, I only date beautiful, amazing women who are the most sweetest, nicest 1.00

03:32:27.000 women ever. 1.00

03:32:28.080 Yeah.

03:32:28.560 Yeah.

03:32:29.520 So why don't you want to change?

03:32:32.180 Like for example, in the relationship you have, did he change?

03:32:35.740 I don't think he changed.

03:32:37.200 I just don't think I saw what was going on.

03:32:39.140 So just to be clear, you didn't you like, wasn't there like abuse in your marriage?

03:32:43.060 So he was abused.

03:32:43.980 You just, you chose to get married to an abuse.

03:32:45.800 I didn't know.

03:32:46.760 I didn't know that was the case.

03:32:48.320 We didn't live together until, no, we didn't live together until I didn't know.

03:32:52.660 There were, there were signs that he was, I ignored those signs, but he never actually

03:32:58.100 got to that point until we lived together.

03:33:00.960 Would you advocate for me to live together with a woman prior to marriage?

03:33:04.840 I don't, I don't think it's good, but I think.

03:33:07.540 So what if I marry a woman and I haven't lived with her and then post marriage, she starts 1.00

03:33:12.120 abusing me?

03:33:12.700 Well, again, I think that's why you have to really get to know the person.

03:33:16.160 I'm not saying you should get married with someone after knowing them for a week.

03:33:21.240 That's crazy.

03:33:21.880 Or like a couple of months, you know, like make sure you really know the person.

03:33:26.180 Okay.

03:33:26.620 Can I ask from a, um, from Brian's worldview, he's not necessarily, I don't think you're

03:33:32.100 a Christian yet.

03:33:33.120 I have, I, I'm not Christian, but I have like pro Christian sentiments.

03:33:38.640 Is he culturally Christian?

03:33:39.600 Um, it's more so like I'm agnostic, but like, I'm not like there's, do you believe, do you

03:33:46.140 think that Jesus is God?

03:33:47.780 I, I don't, I'm not.

03:33:50.240 So you wouldn't, yeah, you wouldn't be, yeah.

03:33:52.100 Okay.

03:33:52.340 But, but I'm not like F religion. 0.99

03:33:54.480 I'm like, there's a lot of positive with religion.

03:33:57.200 I have a lot of religious friends.

03:33:59.020 I think there's like a lot of like truth in like, uh, Bible verses and stuff.

03:34:05.940 Um, and I have positive sentiments towards the faith.

03:34:10.680 Yeah.

03:34:11.440 But I am agnostic.

03:34:12.820 Gotcha.

03:34:13.280 So from that point of view, would you say that largely these days that marriage is considered

03:34:19.400 a religious institution or like a political institution or a government institution?

03:34:24.160 Sorry.

03:34:24.960 Religious.

03:34:25.340 But do you think that like, like the wide consensus amongst people generally is that

03:34:31.580 that's a religious sacrament or do you think that it's just something that you do to sort

03:34:35.080 of cross your vows?

03:34:36.740 Yeah.

03:34:37.020 I think it's socially like more common for people to get married too, but I do think it's

03:34:42.540 more for religious reasons.

03:34:44.540 Yeah.

03:34:44.780 Well, I guess the reason that I ask is because the way I view it these days is that for the

03:34:49.580 most part, the idea of marriage itself being a union ordained by God has been completely

03:34:55.320 corrupt to the point where now it's viewed as like a secular government institution where

03:34:59.620 you can join your bank accounts basically.

03:35:01.820 So from the secular perspective, when that's all it is, what's actually the point in getting

03:35:07.480 married at all?

03:35:08.580 If you don't believe that it's something that's ordained by God and that it comes with

03:35:11.920 those strict parameters, I think it's not opening yourself up to live a vulnerable and full

03:35:19.740 life.

03:35:20.400 I think when you do lock it in with that person for life, you're opening yourself up to a

03:35:26.200 huge amount of vulnerability and trust and loyalty.

03:35:28.800 And by not doing that, you're kind of just only half doing it and you're not really getting

03:35:34.120 the full experience.

03:35:35.160 But like, if you are like a Christian, like you say you are, and I'm going to say you

03:35:40.100 are, why would you want people to get married who don't believe in the sacraments?

03:35:45.720 I don't think there's any point in them getting married except to live a full, like to experience

03:35:51.180 life at a deeper level.

03:35:52.480 But why would you encourage someone to get married if they did not want to do it through

03:35:55.580 the church or if they didn't want to do it in a way that actually represents what

03:35:58.620 marriage is supposed to be?

03:36:00.340 Well, our society was built on the family unit.

03:36:05.240 So you're looking at it more of a utilitarian sort of perspective.

03:36:08.060 It's like the utility of people having a nuclear family and having a two-parent household is 0.64

03:36:12.560 good for society rather than it being that marriage is actually something that's ordained

03:36:17.260 by God and that we have to stick to those parameters.

03:36:19.760 I think that that kind of makes sense from your perspective.

03:36:23.800 But from the secularist perspective, I actually can't really even see a good reason to get

03:36:28.200 married considering the risks.

03:36:29.800 If you look at it as the secular sort of institution that it's sort of become these days, I mean,

03:36:34.820 like there's so much risk involved.

03:36:36.780 And if you don't believe in that sort of spiritual side of it, then I can sort of see Brian's

03:36:41.140 perspective.

03:36:41.560 That argument of like, well, if it is good for society and we're not doing it because

03:36:47.480 it's a huge risk, isn't that the same argument that women take when it comes to having kids? 1.00

03:36:52.380 Like it's good for society, but it's a big risk for them.

03:36:55.620 What do you mean by that?

03:36:56.580 So you're saying that men shouldn't get married if they don't have religious beliefs because

03:37:01.380 it's a huge risk for them.

03:37:02.120 It's just that there's no meaning to it.

03:37:04.560 There's no meaning and there's no incentive.

03:37:05.760 It doesn't really mean anything because marriage is something that's a religious sacrament.

03:37:08.500 For sure.

03:37:08.980 Isn't that the same logic though when it comes to women having kids? 0.95

03:37:11.940 We would say it's good for society.

03:37:13.700 It's good for all that.

03:37:14.480 But then it puts them in a vulnerable position.

03:37:17.420 It puts them at risk for things.

03:37:18.660 I mean, if they're having kids outside of wedlock, maybe.

03:37:21.260 Which most of the times they are because they're not getting married.

03:37:23.680 Yeah, but having kids is obviously good for society and you want it to be inside of a nuclear household. 0.98

03:37:29.100 Isn't like a nuclear family good for society too?

03:37:31.420 Yeah, it is.

03:37:31.780 Do you need marriage to have that?

03:37:32.540 I'm not saying that from the utilitarian perspective that that isn't a correct point of view because it is a correct point of view to want people to get married and have kids.

03:37:40.020 But if you're looking at it from more of an individualistic perspective of what are my values, if you step into Brian's shoes for a second.

03:37:47.900 Isn't that the problem though that we're so individualistic?

03:37:50.240 Yeah, I know.

03:37:50.960 It is a problem and I'm saying ideally that everybody would be getting married and it would be like a religious sacrament and everything.

03:37:57.560 But if you actually had to step into his shoes for a second and think, I'm not a religious person, I don't believe in marriage as it should be necessarily.

03:38:06.120 Why should he actually get married?

03:38:07.560 I don't think he has any reason to get married except that it would be good for society and all that.

03:38:13.560 But if he doesn't want to get married, he's not going to get married and I don't have anything against that.

03:38:18.880 Like for him to not get married is...

03:38:20.760 Well, we won't linger too long on this one, but you also wrote when it comes to atheists being opposed to marriage, it just means that they don't have the balls, trust or loyalty to lock it in with that person for life.

03:38:37.540 Yeah, I kind of talked about that with Jake when you were up, but...

03:38:41.180 Oh, I mean, I was listening to everything, but I mean, so when it comes to the whole having kids family, you can have a monogamous for life relationship with a woman. 0.90

03:38:55.040 What is this?

03:38:56.100 What is it?

03:38:56.740 What are the tix-tix of that?

03:38:58.400 It doesn't matter.

03:38:59.240 Of that happening right now?

03:39:01.300 Like, is that...

03:39:02.380 Do people do that right now?

03:39:04.280 What do you mean?

03:39:04.760 Do people...

03:39:05.340 Do people have like kids and stay with each other without marriage all the time? 0.97

03:39:08.500 So what is the...

03:39:09.840 What are the stats on that?

03:39:11.500 I'm not sure.

03:39:12.020 Tell me...

03:39:12.320 Why don't you tell me the divorce statistics?

03:39:14.080 Oh, they're high.

03:39:14.680 They're like...

03:39:15.140 They're probably closer to like 60, 70%.

03:39:17.400 Well, it's...

03:39:17.920 Then wouldn't this just be evidence that even with marriage, like most of them end?

03:39:22.820 Yeah, I'm not saying it's...

03:39:23.800 Okay, so then why should I get married?

03:39:25.640 You're saying, well, oh, what's the statistics?

03:39:28.560 I'll just throw right back in your face the statistics when it comes to marriage, which are like...

03:39:33.900 The outcomes are really bad.

03:39:35.360 Yeah.

03:39:36.300 Really bad.

03:39:36.860 It's a problem.

03:39:37.220 And it's worse if you look at it from a secularist because the Christians are sort of like, 1.00

03:39:40.520 holding up the fort in the sense that they don't get divorced as much.

03:39:44.020 Right.

03:39:44.160 But then if you looked at just the secularists and especially liberal women who are college 1.00

03:39:48.280 educated, it's like a humongous divorce.

03:39:50.980 Yeah, it's a much deeper issue than marriage for sure.

03:39:53.320 Yeah.

03:39:53.580 But I mean, I can have kids, don't need marriage.

03:39:57.320 I can have a lifetime girlfriend.

03:40:03.200 We have kids.

03:40:04.380 We live in the same house together.

03:40:07.980 Why do I need marriage?

03:40:09.540 I mean, you're always just going to have the option to dip.

03:40:12.320 She does.

03:40:12.920 You do.

03:40:13.560 Hold on.

03:40:13.940 But in a marriage, you always have the option to dip.

03:40:17.540 Oh, so it just makes it harder.

03:40:19.060 So like we're staying together because it's harder for us to leave each other.

03:40:23.300 Is that a good reason to stay with somebody?

03:40:25.620 I think you should stay with them because you made the choice.

03:40:28.000 Also, it's like you go to the courthouse, get the divorce.

03:40:30.340 Like, I mean, maybe you get a lawyer to do it.

03:40:31.940 The lawyer handles everything.

03:40:33.960 It's not that hard.

03:40:35.000 Hello, lawyer.

03:40:35.800 I want a divorce.

03:40:36.840 Okay, cool.

03:40:37.720 Spend like an hour with me on the phone.

03:40:39.240 We'll go over everything.

03:40:41.440 Divorce.

03:40:42.560 Yeah, there's a lot of issues.

03:40:44.000 Wait, just to be clear, you think like an hour on the phone with an attorney, like that's.

03:40:50.640 That's not a good solution, no.

03:40:53.020 I think people should try and work through their marriages.

03:40:56.560 Okay.

03:40:58.280 So here, how about last thing on this?

03:41:00.320 And I'll open it up to any of the panel if you guys want to weigh in.

03:41:04.740 I could give you a bunch of reasons why I don't want to get married, but I'd actually rather hear.

03:41:09.660 Why should I, as a man, like give me a compelling reason why I should get married?

03:41:18.120 I don't have one.

03:41:19.880 Then why should men get married? 1.00

03:41:22.960 If you can't, like, imagine a salesman.

03:41:26.640 I go to a, hey, why should I buy this car? 1.00

03:41:29.900 And they're like, fuck if I know the car kind of sucks. 0.99

03:41:33.320 That's, that's like a bad, that's a bad sale. 1.00

03:41:38.200 There's actually a study from Harvard that says that men that don't get married are way more miserable than women that don't get married.

03:41:45.560 Because you guys need, like, your mommy next to you.

03:41:48.420 And they don't live as long as well.

03:41:50.760 But if you look at that, like, is it controlling for other variables?

03:42:00.320 Marriage?

03:42:01.020 Like, it's literally just looking at, like, okay, we're looking at all the unmarried men and all the married men.

03:42:08.080 Like, I mean, is it because they're married that they're living longer?

03:42:13.400 If you look at married versus unmarried men, I think that generally you tend to see a higher level of, like, risk taking from unmarried men and, like, personality traits that would put them, make them a little bit more edgy. 0.98

03:42:24.240 And you'd see a lot of guys who are sort of normie would, would be more likely to get married.

03:42:28.620 So maybe they'd die.

03:42:29.280 Wait, and I don't know if this is factored into the statistics, but couldn't you, like, make the argument that they're, like, men who have made it to the point where they do get married? 0.99

03:42:41.940 Indeed, it's not factoring in people who, like, but then this would also factor in, like, men who are married who, like, die in some, like, freak fucking accident.

03:42:52.860 I was going to say, like, the unmarried men never got married, so maybe they, never mind, that's a terrible argument.

03:42:58.180 Okay, I'm taking that one back.

03:42:59.620 Wait, so do you think marriage is obsolete now?

03:43:02.940 Yes.

03:43:03.480 Okay. 1.00

03:43:04.100 And the laws around it are dog shit. 1.00

03:43:07.580 Unfortunately, that's something that's been imposed upon society, though. 0.99

03:43:12.500 Yeah, it shouldn't be that way.

03:43:13.700 You have something?

03:43:14.380 It's okay.

03:43:14.720 I was just going to say that I think if you're going back to what a marriage should be, if people actually upheld on both ends what they should be providing in the marriage and what they're expecting the partner to be providing for them, then I think our divorce rates would be a lot lower.

03:43:29.360 Mm-hmm.

03:43:29.920 But because of how modern dating and modern relationships and the dynamics of the modern world factoring into marriages is why it doesn't work.

03:43:39.600 I think, like, for men, I don't think it's beneficial. 0.96

03:43:44.120 Like, back in the day, it used to be, like, a transactional thing.

03:43:46.880 Like, they didn't want daughters.

03:43:49.480 They wanted sons because a son holds the last name and, you know, like, that's how you keep your land or your titles, things like that.

03:43:55.720 Your daughter was, like, property that was, you know, kind of sold.

03:43:59.280 And it's, like, if you could – I don't know.

03:44:02.040 So I feel like marriage back then and stuff was, like –

03:44:04.840 Actually, marriage, the reason why people have gotten married throughout history, like, the most common reason is for in-laws to marry into families and to have a higher social status.

03:44:16.440 Yeah, that was my point of what I was getting at.

03:44:19.340 It's, like, back then it was – like, even nowadays it's still transactional in a sense for, like, men because, like, they are taking more of the risks than, like, us women do more times, more often than not.

03:44:33.120 So it was more political.

03:44:35.560 Moving on to the rest of the notes.

03:44:37.820 Wait, does anybody here do OF?

03:44:40.260 What is that?

03:44:40.780 I was about to say we had a hope-free –

03:44:41.860 Oh, there you go.

03:44:43.160 Oh, wait, she –

03:44:44.180 Malayne, you – oh, you used to do OF, though.

03:44:46.360 I did for, like, two months, two years ago.

03:44:48.960 Okay, okay, used to.

03:44:51.160 You say, Jill, you think OnlyFans and any S-work should be illegal and banned.

03:44:57.360 Women are being served a big, fat lie that through feminism they can have it all. 1.00

03:45:01.820 They will never be truly fulfilled or find meaningful purpose to life if they buy into the feminist ideology. 1.00

03:45:08.240 Yeah.

03:45:09.500 Okay, and then you also say, I guess, moving on, women don't try and understand men. 0.69

03:45:12.860 If we did, we would stop seeing them as a problem but more of a prize.

03:45:16.280 Mm-hmm.

03:45:18.960 I wasn't disagreeing.

03:45:20.100 Oh, okay.

03:45:21.060 Going to Callie with our notes here, and then we got to do the age thing, if you can remind me, Damien.

03:45:26.880 You said a guy wanted you to peg him.

03:45:31.040 Oh, God, yes.

03:45:32.580 What's the story?

03:45:34.140 Did you do it?

03:45:34.860 I'm traumatized. 0.90

03:45:35.920 No, I said no, and then we had sex, right?

03:45:39.900 And then, like, 12 hours after, I go to get a charger in his room, like, my phone charger. 0.98

03:45:46.460 There's this tiny Mexican girl on top of him with a huge yes. 0.98

03:45:52.040 Wait, wait, hold on.

03:45:53.320 Where did she come from?

03:45:54.380 Yeah, where did she come from?

03:45:55.400 Okay, so you went to the toilet, and in that time that you went to the toilet.

03:45:58.140 No, no, no, I slept there.

03:46:00.180 You didn't know about the Mexican girl?

03:46:01.860 I didn't know she was pegging him.

03:46:04.660 I had no idea.

03:46:05.460 But you knew that she was present?

03:46:07.300 Oh, no, she got there after, like a gremlin during the night.

03:46:12.120 She was, like, a housekeeper or something? 0.93

03:46:13.940 No, they were seeing each other, but apparently this girl goes around and pegs a bunch of dudes. 1.00

03:46:19.280 With the same peg?

03:46:20.240 Yeah.

03:46:20.600 Wait, she was pegging him?

03:46:23.220 Yes.

03:46:23.940 So you went to the bathroom, you walked in on the guy who you just slept with getting pegged by a Mexican lady? 0.90

03:46:29.820 Yes, hence, shaved my head, thought the universe was over.

03:46:33.820 Wait, how long were you dating this guy?

03:46:36.520 Not even that long, like a month.

03:46:39.780 It wasn't that serious, but it broke me.

03:46:42.180 Like, it's like, I've never seen that before.

03:46:45.520 And then I Googled it, and a lot of people are into it.

03:46:48.980 So you went to the toilet.

03:46:51.800 You went to the toilet.

03:46:53.540 Did you take long in the toilet?

03:46:54.800 Were you there for long?

03:46:55.200 No, it wasn't that I went to the toilet. 0.81

03:46:57.000 So we had sex the night before, and I slept there.

03:47:00.100 And when I wake up, I slept in a different room because I don't like to sleep with strangers. 0.99

03:47:04.580 I'll have sex with them, but, you know. 0.99

03:47:06.220 You know what? 1.00

03:47:07.020 I agree with her.

03:47:08.100 Thank you, thank you.

03:47:09.240 I agree on that.

03:47:09.720 And then when I wake up, 12 hours or whatever, the next day, I go to get my charger,

03:47:15.000 and it's like 9 o'clock in the morning on a Sunday.

03:47:17.500 And I was like, oh, my God, it's Sunday morning.

03:47:21.900 That's their Sunday morning on a Sunday.

03:47:23.220 I was like, I'm not even religious.

03:47:24.960 But at that point, I thought I should start.

03:47:28.800 That is wild.

03:47:30.900 Are you guys into that?

03:47:32.400 No.

03:47:33.200 Okay.

03:47:33.780 You could be honest.

03:47:35.260 Yeah, you could tell us.

03:47:38.020 No?

03:47:39.060 You won't traumatize her.

03:47:40.520 What is the deal with that?

03:47:42.220 Because now every, like, five out of six guys are into it in L.A.

03:47:46.240 No way.

03:47:46.620 I've never been into it.

03:47:47.400 Dating in L.A., yes.

03:47:48.560 Do you live in L.A.?

03:47:49.640 I live in Hollywood.

03:47:50.220 Do you seem like you'd knock around weird circles, though?

03:47:54.340 You know, I try not to, but the weirdos are everywhere.

03:47:58.260 It's Hollywood. 0.97

03:47:58.980 I mean, L.A. is full of absolute freaks and weirdos. 0.94

03:48:01.200 But that's a new thing. 0.91

03:48:02.420 Are you a liberal?

03:48:03.220 Are you a liberal?

03:48:03.840 You like Kamala Harris? 0.97

03:48:05.540 Oh, God.

03:48:06.420 That's so funny.

03:48:07.060 I'm a liberal, but not that liberal.

03:48:09.560 Like, I thought I was cool.

03:48:10.260 You said you went to art school?

03:48:12.300 I lived in one of the most liberal places in the world, in London, in Hackney Wick,

03:48:16.100 before I was ever political at all.

03:48:17.700 And they're all just freaks, all these people, that are, like, really sort of, like, artistic

03:48:22.540 and stuff. 1.00

03:48:23.160 They just do weird shit. 0.96

03:48:24.880 Yeah, and I thought I was cool, because I, you know, I'm an artist, but I'm not that 0.97

03:48:29.440 cool.

03:48:30.020 When I saw that, I was like, oh, my God.

03:48:31.780 Like, I just, I don't know how to explain it.

03:48:33.780 So you can wear the glasses, but you won't, you know.

03:48:35.760 Yeah, exactly.

03:48:36.640 I'm not down with the cause.

03:48:38.100 You're not that open-minded.

03:48:38.580 Yep, yep.

03:48:39.180 You're not.

03:48:39.460 You know, you know what?

03:48:40.940 Like, if that's what the guy's into, you know.

03:48:43.760 Was he a liberal man?

03:48:44.580 Yeah.

03:48:45.620 I guess, but it's like.

03:48:46.800 Liberal men, I've heard that they like that.

03:48:48.160 But then it's like, don't say you're straight after that.

03:48:50.580 You will never be straight after that in my eyes.

03:48:52.360 There's a group called White Dudes for Kamala.

03:48:54.300 It's a bunch of, like, little liberal TikTok streamers.

03:48:56.220 Apparently, they're all into that sort of stuff.

03:48:57.760 That's what I heard.

03:48:58.640 They love to be packed.

03:48:59.560 Um, you said, you said that you'd love to do it more.

03:49:05.080 Wait.

03:49:05.620 You'd love to do it more, but people suck at dates now.

03:49:09.620 No one is trying anymore.

03:49:10.980 By it?

03:49:12.760 I mean it.

03:49:13.940 Yes.

03:49:14.280 You mean?

03:49:14.900 Yes.

03:49:15.340 Like today, before I got here. 1.00

03:49:17.120 You fucked? 1.00

03:49:17.820 No, I wanted to. 1.00

03:49:19.280 I was like, let me just get into the move of whatever.

03:49:22.540 I invite this guy over.

03:49:25.220 He does nothing.

03:49:26.440 He starts arguing about some conversation we had on the phone.

03:49:29.520 I'm like, just, let's do this.

03:49:32.440 Like, this wasn't a play date.

03:49:33.540 Wait, you said that?

03:49:34.600 Here.

03:49:35.000 Okay, let's role play.

03:49:36.040 No.

03:49:37.040 I swear to God.

03:49:38.140 He comes over.

03:49:38.440 Is he, what, what, white guy, black guy, Latino? 0.63

03:49:40.800 Black guy.

03:49:41.480 Okay. 0.58

03:49:41.680 So you would think he's about that business.

03:49:43.640 Yeah, I would have thought he would be straight in there.

03:49:46.100 I don't know what it's a. 0.90

03:49:46.900 Here, pretend to be a black guy. 0.83

03:49:48.800 Go ahead, role play. 0.97

03:49:49.800 Role play with her.

03:49:50.060 What is it?

03:49:50.500 Yeah, okay, so you come over, right?

03:49:52.380 And I'm like, hey, what's up?

03:49:54.020 Is he, like, African-American?

03:49:56.500 He's a black man. 0.59

03:49:58.120 Tall, black dude did seven years in prison. 0.59

03:50:00.720 Okay, Tarcavia, bring that energy.

03:50:02.000 Wait, seven years in prison?

03:50:03.200 I mean, I'm guessing.

03:50:04.620 I don't think.

03:50:05.400 Okay, role play as a tall, beautiful, chocolate man who went to prison.

03:50:11.700 For what?

03:50:12.620 I don't think he actually did go to prison.

03:50:14.800 I'm just thinking.

03:50:16.040 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:50:17.320 Hold on. 1.00

03:50:17.900 How fucking dare you? 1.00

03:50:21.700 You're just assuming because he's black? 1.00

03:50:24.580 He did seven years in prison?

03:50:26.100 No, he did say.

03:50:26.840 He did mention it.

03:50:27.860 He mentioned it. 0.99

03:50:28.620 Look into this camera and apologize to black people. 1.00

03:50:30.900 He did do time.

03:50:32.240 He did time, which is what I liked him to begin with.

03:50:35.000 He's got that rough edge, you know?

03:50:37.140 That's what attracted him to you.

03:50:39.420 Because I have that, obviously you guys thought I was a lesbian when I first said that.

03:50:43.600 No.

03:50:43.860 Yeah, yes, you did.

03:50:45.260 I have that masculine vibe.

03:50:47.340 Maybe bisexual.

03:50:47.360 So I got to go for even more masculine men, I think.

03:50:50.980 But then those men, I don't know if they're afraid of me.

03:50:54.700 I think that they think I'm going to peg them.

03:50:56.660 That I look like that girl.

03:50:57.540 You give off pegging vibes.

03:50:58.760 I do.

03:50:59.560 I don't know.

03:51:00.540 You look like you want to bend over a dude.

03:51:02.480 I do.

03:51:03.200 I don't want to.

03:51:04.600 I really don't.

03:51:04.820 You just want to, you want a doggy style of dude. 0.58

03:51:07.100 I really don't.

03:51:08.120 You got, how many, how many strap-ons do you have?

03:51:10.720 None.

03:51:11.540 I'm very, I'm a vanilla person.

03:51:14.120 I swear.

03:51:15.740 You're vanilla? 0.96

03:51:16.480 But then they think that I, you know, I'm into the other stuff.

03:51:20.120 Okay.

03:51:21.500 Yeah.

03:51:22.400 So he just starts arguing with you.

03:51:25.160 Yeah.

03:51:25.520 And at that point I was just so turned off because he made me wait like two hours.

03:51:29.380 And it's like, dude, I sent you that text.

03:51:32.840 He fumbled. 1.00

03:51:33.900 He fucking fumbled the pussy. 1.00

03:51:34.960 I mean, he's got a kid. 1.00

03:51:36.340 He has a responsible adult. 1.00

03:51:37.920 He fumbled the pussy. 1.00

03:51:38.920 I'm losing brain cells listening to this. 1.00

03:51:40.880 That is so rude.

03:51:42.220 You need to apologize to Callie.

03:51:44.200 It's.

03:51:44.620 How dare you, Milena? 1.00

03:51:46.620 What do you, oh, you're losing brain cells?

03:51:48.280 What do you want to talk about, Milena?

03:51:49.600 How about you elevate the, elevate the intellect.

03:51:51.760 That's the special level of this conversation, Milena.

03:51:53.280 You want to talk about stripping?

03:51:54.700 What do you want to talk about?

03:51:55.660 Go ahead.

03:51:55.960 Why would I want to talk about that?

03:51:57.320 I don't know.

03:51:58.400 What do you want to talk about?

03:51:59.360 I don't know.

03:52:00.120 Reiki?

03:52:00.460 You want to talk about Reiki?

03:52:01.400 Let's talk about Reiki.

03:52:02.460 Go ahead.

03:52:02.800 Elevate.

03:52:03.280 Let's talk about Buddha.

03:52:04.000 I just don't think that like all liberal men want to get pegged.

03:52:07.760 That is.

03:52:08.520 Listen, it's actually categorical.

03:52:09.700 They did studies on this.

03:52:10.740 I don't want to visualize it.

03:52:11.720 They did studies.

03:52:11.740 Liberal men, 99% of them want, want dildos in and around.

03:52:17.180 That's nothing wrong with that.

03:52:18.920 It's a, it's a study.

03:52:20.500 Look at it.

03:52:20.960 Is it really?

03:52:21.700 Yes. 1.00

03:52:22.100 Let a guy orgasm, bro. 1.00

03:52:23.340 I did the study. 1.00

03:52:23.660 I just. 1.00

03:52:23.800 Just let a guy orgasm. 1.00

03:52:25.080 I asked them. 1.00

03:52:25.240 Literally, just let it happen.

03:52:26.720 Let them be happy.

03:52:28.560 Yeah.

03:52:28.780 But that's too happy.

03:52:29.520 Yeah, liberal men like to do that by getting pegged.

03:52:31.600 Have you done that?

03:52:32.380 Have you pegged someone?

03:52:33.800 No, but if a man asked me, I'd probably be down.

03:52:37.380 You know what?

03:52:38.520 I can imagine you with some little, some little Chinese guy. 0.97

03:52:41.540 Oh my God.

03:52:43.600 Ah, jeez.

03:52:46.000 Yeah.

03:52:46.760 Does the guy who wants to get pegged like provide the thing?

03:52:49.220 Or they just assume that you have it.

03:52:51.560 That girl had a book bag full of like stuff in there. 1.00

03:52:55.760 Like she was armed.

03:52:57.260 But hold on.

03:52:58.040 How did you contribute to the argument?

03:53:01.480 What argument?

03:53:02.460 Today?

03:53:02.800 With the dude.

03:53:03.180 Yeah.

03:53:03.400 Because you said he came over and started arguing.

03:53:05.400 But like, let's be real.

03:53:07.940 Because he's been like.

03:53:09.060 He was late though. 1.00

03:53:09.620 Fuck that shit. 1.00

03:53:09.720 He's been talking to me. 1.00

03:53:11.140 You know, he's been trying to talk to me.

03:53:13.240 But he was two hours late.

03:53:14.420 He was. 1.00

03:53:15.240 Honestly, bro, I would pass up some pussy if she was two hours late. 1.00

03:53:17.820 Oh, you're two hours late? 1.00

03:53:19.500 Fuck you. 1.00

03:53:20.100 I would start arguing. 1.00

03:53:20.740 Yeah, I got.

03:53:21.480 So you got mad at him because he was late.

03:53:23.860 And then he started arguing back. 1.00

03:53:25.300 He's like, shut the fuck. 1.00

03:53:26.620 I'm about to give you some dick. 1.00

03:53:27.740 Why are you arguing with me? 1.00

03:53:28.560 Right. 1.00

03:53:28.720 And then you're like, man, fuck you. 1.00

03:53:30.160 Yeah. 1.00

03:53:30.440 You're two hours late.

03:53:31.820 I would.

03:53:32.540 Bro, I would.

03:53:33.820 Two hours late?

03:53:35.120 You know.

03:53:35.480 I don't care how hot she is. 1.00

03:53:36.540 I've walked out of death.

03:53:37.200 I don't care how hot she is. 1.00

03:53:39.040 I felt the definition of. 1.00

03:53:40.600 I'm fumbling the pussy. 1.00

03:53:41.580 If she's two hours late, goodbye. 1.00

03:53:42.820 Blue balls.

03:53:44.240 Thank you.

03:53:44.640 I feel like I got blue balls today.

03:53:46.640 Can I ask something, Brian?

03:53:47.220 I think being late in general is disrespectful.

03:53:48.820 So you said this is why you shaved your head?

03:53:51.100 Wait, what?

03:53:52.020 No, because I saw a man getting pegged and I was, it was very upsetting.

03:53:56.240 So this was like.

03:53:56.940 Like this guy was the, to me, he was like a king.

03:53:59.560 And then to see the king getting pegged, it was just, I was like, what is life?

03:54:03.220 Can I say this is like one of your most traumatic experiences?

03:54:07.060 I mean, of the year, yes.

03:54:08.940 Of the last few years.

03:54:09.620 I think that's why I was so annoyed because I'm like, I wish that was my most traumatic.

03:54:14.420 Imagine like that being what makes you have a mental breakdown.

03:54:17.260 That's pretty freaking traumatic.

03:54:18.760 I mean, it's pretty.

03:54:19.440 If you're not, you get pegged.

03:54:20.620 I wish you'd been dating this dude for a month and then like she goes to the bathroom, comes 0.93

03:54:24.040 back like a little, a dwarf.

03:54:26.800 Did you say she was a dwarf? 0.99

03:54:27.860 A dwarf Mexican is pegging your man. 1.00

03:54:31.560 That's crazy. 1.00

03:54:32.060 Yeah, I know.

03:54:32.480 That's crazy.

03:54:33.120 I'll be kind of freaked out too. 0.91

03:54:34.220 A dwarf Mexican wearing a sombrero. 1.00

03:54:36.460 That literally came out of nowhere.

03:54:37.840 It was a huge deal though, guys.

03:54:39.580 Huge. 0.69

03:54:40.080 Black. 0.93

03:54:40.720 Huge. 0.74

03:54:41.240 It was black?

03:54:42.380 Yes.

03:54:42.780 It was at least 10 or 12 inches.

03:54:44.640 I was just like, how?

03:54:46.860 It was a lot.

03:54:47.860 It was just a lot.

03:54:48.860 That sounds like a lot.

03:54:50.600 You've never like accidentally pressed on like the wrong porn video or something.

03:54:54.520 Like that was the first time.

03:54:56.000 Well, that's what I mean.

03:54:56.900 Like if you've seen it, why did it like traumatize you so much that you shaved?

03:55:02.280 I love the shaved head.

03:55:03.480 I think it looks great.

03:55:04.780 I'm just saying.

03:55:05.600 That was my first time seeing it.

03:55:06.780 But then I went and did some research after I saw it and went down the rabbit hole of the

03:55:10.820 porn.

03:55:11.320 Oh my God. 0.92

03:55:12.640 What happens is bad after a while.

03:55:15.180 Like the couples that get older and keep doing the pegging.

03:55:18.360 Oh.

03:55:18.860 Yeah.

03:55:19.480 It's bad, guys.

03:55:21.240 What the?

03:55:21.920 There's like metal baskets for the balls.

03:55:24.800 It's just. 1.00

03:55:25.580 What the fuck? 1.00

03:55:26.600 I'm way too vanilla for this. 1.00

03:55:28.180 What the fuck? 1.00

03:55:29.700 Yeah. 1.00

03:55:30.240 No, I'm scared now.

03:55:31.800 Yeah, exactly.

03:55:32.740 That's how I felt.

03:55:33.700 That's how I felt.

03:55:35.200 Yo.

03:55:36.740 Chat.

03:55:37.180 I've seen cancer.

03:55:38.420 If the hottest girl ever, if she's two hours late.

03:55:42.780 You got to have some self-respect.

03:55:52.100 I mean.

03:55:52.660 Yeah.

03:55:53.160 It's like.

03:55:53.620 You don't wait two hours.

03:55:55.220 No.

03:55:55.880 Two hours is crazy.

03:55:56.920 I don't know.

03:55:58.260 Maybe 20 minutes.

03:56:00.660 So if you got it after you made somebody wait two hours, what does that say?

03:56:05.500 If she waits two hours for me?

03:56:07.580 Yeah.

03:56:08.760 What does that say?

03:56:09.520 She's a wonderful woman who's considerate of my.

03:56:12.860 No.

03:56:14.300 I would never be.

03:56:15.320 I would never be that late, though.

03:56:16.960 I done been that late before.

03:56:18.080 I would never.

03:56:18.320 Wow. 1.00

03:56:18.580 You're a terrible person. 0.99

03:56:19.860 I done been that late before. 0.99

03:56:20.640 That's terrible.

03:56:21.300 For sure.

03:56:22.560 Did he smash?

03:56:23.520 Did he still smash?

03:56:24.400 Yeah.

03:56:24.900 I still got it.

03:56:25.600 You were two hours late and he still smashed?

03:56:27.780 Yeah.

03:56:28.100 We ended up getting food first.

03:56:30.420 Smoked.

03:56:31.380 Sealed for a second.

03:56:32.660 Then.

03:56:33.160 He was pressed. 1.00

03:56:34.740 Or you got a magical pussy. 1.00

03:56:35.820 I don't know. 1.00

03:56:36.560 It's either one.

03:56:37.260 Essentially both.

03:56:38.420 Could be both.

03:56:39.260 Okay.

03:56:40.040 Moving on to the rest of the show notes.

03:56:41.800 Callie, you said you miss when men were nice to women because they wanted slash needed 0.99

03:56:46.880 sex from them. 0.99

03:56:48.800 Okay.

03:56:49.140 That's taken out of context.

03:56:50.600 But you know how, you know, back in the 50s when we're talking about like marriage and

03:56:56.380 you're talking about that stuff a lot. 0.89

03:56:59.560 I feel like back then they were nicer to us because the vagina was more, I don't even know 0.98

03:57:08.540 how to say it, but you know how stock, the stock market is just like when something goes 0.50

03:57:12.160 too much, it loses value. 0.99

03:57:14.620 Vagina now is just like a frisbee. 1.00

03:57:16.780 It's depreciating.

03:57:17.240 And it's just like, oh, you bought me a coffee?

03:57:19.660 Open the, you know what I mean?

03:57:20.740 Like, it's just like, we're just giving it out. 0.99

03:57:22.660 The value, you're saying the value of pussy has gone down. 0.99

03:57:26.380 Because we're just. 1.00

03:57:27.740 Because you're giving out too much pussy. 1.00

03:57:29.800 Right. 1.00

03:57:30.140 Women giving out too much pussy. 1.00

03:57:31.220 Right. 1.00

03:57:31.480 So guys don't feel the need to be nice. 0.99

03:57:33.120 It drives down the cost of pussy. 1.00

03:57:34.620 Yeah. 0.99

03:57:35.100 And so you don't feel the need to be nice to us anymore. 0.99

03:57:37.660 Because it's like, oh, well, I can just treat her like shit and she still gave me the 1.00

03:57:40.700 pussy. 1.00

03:57:40.860 You know what I mean? 1.00

03:57:41.900 Wow.

03:57:42.660 That's probably always true.

03:57:44.000 Not cool, man.

03:57:44.960 Yo, ladies, is she kind of right? 1.00

03:57:47.660 Do you feel like she's right or what?

03:57:49.080 Yeah, I think she's right.

03:57:49.700 I agree.

03:57:50.680 Yeah, I agree too.

03:57:51.920 You agree?

03:57:52.700 Because even if you try to be like, oh, like, I'm not going to give it up or something like

03:57:56.480 that.

03:57:56.700 Like, I want to have some self-respect on the first date or something.

03:57:59.400 Like, going back to like that little topic. 1.00

03:58:01.420 Like, some girls are just like, yeah, fuck you. 1.00

03:58:03.280 It's the first date. 1.00

03:58:04.120 I have a question for you, Brian. 1.00

03:58:04.980 You guys have flooded the market with pussy. 1.00

03:58:07.500 What's up? 1.00

03:58:08.060 I have a question for you.

03:58:09.140 So have you ever heard of the 90-day method?

03:58:11.460 No, what's that?

03:58:12.240 Okay, so there's a 90-day method of when girls wait 90 days before sleeping with a man that 1.00

03:58:17.440 they're interested in.

03:58:18.960 And how would you feel if you knew about the 90-day method and a woman took upon herself 1.00

03:58:24.520 to do the 90-day method on you?

03:58:27.220 Will you be okay with waiting 90 days?

03:58:29.780 Is she a virgin? 0.99

03:58:31.320 Is she a virgin? 0.99

03:58:32.060 No, she just wants to build.

03:58:33.480 Oh, it's nice to meet you.

03:58:35.020 Goodbye.

03:58:35.900 But listen, listen.

03:58:36.600 But she's trying to build her self-confidence back because she did sleep around, you know?

03:58:41.160 Like, if she did do that and she was just like, yeah, I need to change my ways.

03:58:44.320 I don't want to be that person anymore.

03:58:45.840 You know what I mean?

03:58:46.880 So, like, would you, like, wait, would you wait? 1.00

03:58:48.780 The market is too flooded with pussy, as she said. 1.00

03:58:51.640 Okay, but what? 1.00

03:58:52.500 I'm going to find some other pussy. 1.00

03:58:53.500 Okay, what if? 1.00

03:58:54.140 I'm not waiting 90 days.

03:58:55.020 Okay, hypothetically, what if she was doing 90 days with everybody that she slept with?

03:59:00.200 What do you mean?

03:59:00.900 Like, her body counts three.

03:59:03.060 Like, she's a three.

03:59:03.960 And she made every single guy wait 90 days. 1.00

03:59:05.340 90 days.

03:59:06.340 And it just didn't work out after 90 days.

03:59:07.740 I want to feel special.

03:59:09.160 She's got to give me 60. 1.00

03:59:11.400 And then I'll accept, you know what?

03:59:13.480 I'll be a nice guy.

03:59:14.780 I'll do 60.

03:59:15.920 That's all you get.

03:59:17.400 If it's true that she only did 90.

03:59:19.480 In fact, you know what?

03:59:20.400 But she already did three. 0.80

03:59:21.420 No.

03:59:21.840 For every guy, it goes down 15 days.

03:59:24.440 So, for every other guy, it's 45 days.

03:59:26.960 45 days, a month and a half.

03:59:28.860 That's it.

03:59:29.360 That's all I can do.

03:59:30.360 Okay.

03:59:30.820 I was just curious.

03:59:31.420 Why 15 for a guy?

03:59:37.540 It's like, it's got to be 90 for the first guy, 75 for the next, 60.

03:59:42.100 That makes sense.

03:59:42.600 You can't.

03:59:42.940 Okay.

03:59:43.300 But what if a girl, like, okay, let's say, like, she slept around, but she was always safe 0.98

03:59:47.820 with it.

03:59:48.260 You know, like.

03:59:48.700 Safe?

03:59:49.100 Safe.

03:59:49.740 She wore, okay, she wore condoms.

03:59:50.860 Yeah.

03:59:51.280 Yeah.

03:59:51.700 Like, what if she was safe?

03:59:52.820 You know, like, she took precautions into being, staying clean and doing all thingy thing.

03:59:57.600 You know what I mean?

03:59:59.000 Like, what would, like.

03:59:59.760 It doesn't matter.

04:00:01.000 It's better.

04:00:01.800 Look, that's better than if she was letting a bunch of dudes hit raw. 1.00

04:00:05.360 Sure.

04:00:06.460 But it's still, you know, what are you going to, like, ask?

04:00:08.920 Tell you what, I'll give, like, a one day, I'll give it one extra day per guy.

04:00:12.580 Right.

04:00:12.920 So, instead of, like, 15, it's, like, 14.

04:00:14.640 Okay.

04:00:15.100 So, in a perfect world, would you rather have a virgin?

04:00:16.060 So, you're saying there's no redemption for a girl?

04:00:18.680 Yeah.

04:00:18.880 In a perfect world, would you rather have a virgin? 0.91

04:00:20.560 Sure. 0.89

04:00:20.760 Yeah.

04:00:21.740 It's not, I don't, like, I'll date a girl who's not a virgin, but, like.

04:00:25.760 Ask the question in the inverse. 1.00

04:00:27.840 If you say, in a perfect world, would you like to have another man have fucked your girl? 1.00

04:00:32.860 No. 1.00

04:00:33.600 So, then you'd like a virgin. 0.97

04:00:35.160 I just wouldn't care.

04:00:36.260 I personally wouldn't care about a man that, I wouldn't really care about their past.

04:00:40.860 I mean, like, I'm present.

04:00:42.100 I'm relevant.

04:00:43.320 That's all that matters.

04:00:44.300 I don't want a virgin. 1.00

04:00:45.720 I want somebody that knows what they're doing.

04:00:47.540 Definitely different for girls and guys. 0.90

04:00:49.380 Yeah.

04:00:49.540 Guys value that, girls don't. 1.00

04:00:51.420 That's true.

04:00:51.760 And I'd be like, oh, it feels different.

04:00:53.560 Also, it's, like, I think there's, like, a couple different angles here with the whole, like, the quality of the sex.

04:01:00.100 So, one, like, men are pretty simple to please.

04:01:06.120 Like, for example, here, let me ask you guys this.

04:01:10.980 Like, for, let me give my position first, then I'll ask the question. 0.99

04:01:14.540 So, I could put a girl in doggy style, and she could just stay there, and I could make myself cum. 1.00

04:01:23.420 Like, I could cum just like, and she doesn't have to do anything, just be in doggy style. 1.00

04:01:28.540 Can you guys make, and maybe some of you can, but I think it's much more rare in women. 1.00

04:01:33.540 If the guy's just laying there hard, or put him in whatever position you want, and you can't touch yourself, 0.84

04:01:40.500 can you make yourself cum just doing your own thing? 1.00

04:01:43.980 On his dick. 1.00

04:01:44.740 Some girls can. 1.00

04:01:45.580 Some girls can. 1.00

04:01:47.460 Not as common as the opposite, though.

04:01:50.840 Right?

04:01:52.420 So, a man's sexual experience, when it comes to your pleasure, your climax, is going to matter more.

04:01:58.700 Because he has to actually do something to make you climax. 0.58

04:02:02.880 Now, some of y'all, or some women, can cum in, like, ten seconds, whatever. 1.00

04:02:08.780 Or, like, insanely orgasmic. 0.99

04:02:10.760 The guy could just sit there, do nothing, and you can make yourself cum. 0.95

04:02:13.820 Do you guys want to answer that question? 0.99

04:02:15.540 Like, could you make yourself?

04:02:18.180 Okay.

04:02:18.420 I can.

04:02:19.180 Thank you.

04:02:19.480 I appreciate it.

04:02:19.860 But it's not going to be, like, in ten seconds or something.

04:02:22.160 And it's not necessarily, like, if we didn't come, it's not that it didn't feel good.

04:02:26.180 Because some things can just feel good, and it might get you there.

04:02:29.460 But I feel like us, you have to stay on, like, a certain rhythm for a while.

04:02:33.500 Like, you guys, once you're nuts, it's like, okay, it's done.

04:02:35.960 But us, it's like, it can last, like, a little longer and stuff.

04:02:39.280 Like, if you keep the stroke, too.

04:02:40.660 And it can be better.

04:02:41.600 It can be stronger.

04:02:42.880 You know, things like that. 0.99

04:02:44.060 But, yeah, I definitely can make myself cum. 0.85

04:02:45.600 But, and then the other thing, like, a guy who has some degree of sexual experience, like, I mean, I don't know if you guys are trying to deal with dudes who aren't experienced. 1.00

04:02:56.300 And you got to, like, teach them how to fuck you. 0.99

04:02:59.040 I feel like most women, like, there's obvious certain things, like, you're going to maybe, there's certain things that you like. 0.99

04:03:07.240 But, like, you probably would prefer a guy who's, like, let's say he's really good in bed and he just gets it instantly. 1.00

04:03:13.580 Versus you got to be, like, you got to teach the guy how to fuck you. 1.00

04:03:16.960 I think you're going to prefer the guy who just gets it. 0.99

04:03:20.000 I think you'd be kind of turned off if you're, like, you're not really doing it right.

04:03:24.460 Whereas, like, as a guy, even if the girl has no idea what she's doing, if you know what you're doing as the guy, you can lead. 0.96

04:03:31.160 You can have great sex with her. 1.00

04:03:32.620 I'm not so sure if that's the case with, like, a really inexperienced guy in bed. 1.00

04:03:36.640 If you would even want it or if you can even, like, have good sex with a guy that you got to teach how to fuck you. 0.99

04:03:42.140 I feel like sometimes that ruins a guy's confidence in the, like, action of doing it more so than ours. 0.98

04:03:49.260 Like, because if you hit it in the right spot after we told you, it's not going to be any different from if you knew what you were doing and hit the right spot.

04:03:56.800 Because the right spot is going to feel like the right spot no matter if I told you how to get there or you knew how to get there yourself.

04:04:02.240 But telling a man, like, he ain't doing a good job while he's hitting it, like, you know, that's...

04:04:06.560 Well, yeah, you shouldn't do that.

04:04:07.720 Exactly.

04:04:08.320 You shouldn't do that, but, I mean, it just...

04:04:10.740 So I feel like it plays more for you guys.

04:04:12.460 Like, it's more of a play for you guys than us.

04:04:14.580 Like, but it occurs to me, like, I don't know if a girl, like, if you got to kind of guide a girl, that would be more psychologically stimulating if she's just, like, like, if she's just, like, oh, been here, done this.

04:04:31.400 Like, if she's never done doggy style and I'm the...

04:04:35.660 That's why I think the girls who are less experienced, it's much, much more enjoyable sleeping with girls like that than girls who have had... 1.00

04:04:41.860 For the psychological stimulation component.

04:04:44.040 Yeah, it's, like, the dynamic as well between the two of you.

04:04:47.500 Melina doesn't like this very much.

04:04:49.460 No, I mean, that makes sense from the guy perspective.

04:04:51.580 I was thinking about, I think because I'm so submissive, I don't want to have to teach a guy what to do.

04:04:58.000 Would it be a turnoff?

04:04:59.340 Like, if you had to tell him...

04:05:00.120 It would be a turnoff.

04:05:01.020 And I think also when I marry someone, I want to know that, like, they got it out of their system, not, like, that they've only been with me.

04:05:08.480 And so they're, like, I wish I experienced this or, like, I wish, you know.

04:05:12.520 Yeah, opposite for us.

04:05:14.100 We want it all in the system.

04:05:15.920 Do you find it unattractive if a guy has a high body count?

04:05:19.680 What was that?

04:05:20.300 Do you find it unattractive if a guy has a high body count or, like, you know that they're, like, sleeping all around kind of thing?

04:05:26.720 I think if they're currently sleeping all around, I would find that unattractive.

04:05:30.820 But if they had a high body count in the past, no.

04:05:35.840 Personally.

04:05:36.420 So, Brian, do you think it's girls with a high body count so they can't redeem themselves? 0.93

04:05:41.280 Like, they're just done?

04:05:42.120 What do you mean by redeem themselves?

04:05:43.100 Like, you know what I mean?

04:05:43.780 Like, how you refer a virgin, but would you go for a girl that has a high body count but no longer is like that?

04:05:50.120 Like, you know, like, there's no redeeming that.

04:05:52.240 You can't unfuck anyone.

04:05:53.660 Yes, very fact.

04:05:54.480 That's what I'm saying.

04:05:55.220 It should be unredeemable.

04:05:56.360 Like, you can't just, like, you will never be, like.

04:05:58.740 No, she's not.

04:05:59.960 What's a high body count?

04:06:01.440 Like, what's high?

04:06:02.660 Depends on her age. 0.53

04:06:03.580 I mean, anything above, like, I mean, it depends.

04:06:07.500 You mean on a personal level or in general?

04:06:09.880 How old are you guys?

04:06:10.520 Or both.

04:06:11.100 29.

04:06:11.580 35.

04:06:13.400 What's a blonde? 1.00

04:06:14.260 I think these days, like, it's very common for girls to have, like, 20 plus.

04:06:18.960 20, 30, 40.

04:06:19.700 But for me, if there's ever been any hookups in the past or one night stands, it's automatically disqualified.

04:06:27.020 And any, like, sort of.

04:06:30.140 For L.A.?

04:06:31.220 Anything outside of relationships.

04:06:32.120 Let's let Jake finish.

04:06:33.720 Anything outside of relationships, that would be an automatic disqualification.

04:06:38.280 But you count those, right?

04:06:40.100 What do you mean?

04:06:40.720 Like, you count everybody you had sex with.

04:06:43.840 I have or the other person.

04:06:45.960 No, everyone is counting, right?

04:06:47.880 Yeah, yeah.

04:06:48.200 But I'm saying with the woman, if I was dating a girl and she'd had, like, one night stands and all of that, I just would never go for it.

04:06:54.020 Right.

04:06:54.500 But if she'd had a few boyfriends and they'd lasted a few years and she'd had sex with them, it wouldn't be that much of a problem. 0.77

04:07:00.160 But ideally a virgin.

04:07:01.840 Have you ever had a one night stand?

04:07:03.940 What does that matter?

04:07:04.480 Just curious if you're okay with answering.

04:07:09.100 It doesn't even matter.

04:07:10.040 Even if I did answer you, it wouldn't even matter.

04:07:11.980 Answer is yes.

04:07:12.880 I'm curious because I wonder if, like, like, why would it be okay if you've had one night stand to care if another woman has?

04:07:24.160 Well, because, let me ask you this.

04:07:25.720 Why is it okay for you to want a man who's over six foot tall if you're not over six foot tall?

04:07:32.700 What?

04:07:34.820 It's a pretty simple question.

04:07:35.780 I mean, why is it okay for you to want a man to pay for the first date if you're not going to pay for the first date?

04:07:40.940 I don't want any of those things.

04:07:42.580 So, what do you want in a man? 0.81

04:07:43.860 Tell me.

04:07:44.220 Tell me some of the features.

04:07:45.040 Oh, man.

04:07:45.300 I don't know. 0.99

04:07:45.860 Do you want him to have long hair and tits? 1.00

04:07:48.400 You said you're submissive, right? 1.00

04:07:49.840 Oh, so I want them to be dominant. 0.87

04:07:51.020 Right, so then why is it fair for you to want dominance in a man, but you're not dominant in yourself?

04:07:57.100 You're saying in order for Jake to desire a woman who's not had a one night stand, it doesn't compute that he, like, just because he desires something in a partner doesn't mean that he has to meet that criteria.

04:08:14.580 That makes sense.

04:08:15.320 Otherwise, because there's asymmetry in what men and women like.

04:08:23.300 Yeah.

04:08:24.400 Why are you making that face, Darkavia?

04:08:26.740 What, you disagree?

04:08:28.620 I don't know.

04:08:29.720 It just blows my mind how men were, bro.

04:08:33.460 Like, why y'all exist?

04:08:35.120 Oh, my God.

04:08:36.880 Y'all stressing me out.

04:08:38.560 That was coherent.

04:08:39.280 But, no, but it's just like, and this is one of our questions here in the questionnaire, but, like, there's not symmetry between what men want and what women want, and I don't think you need to possess a trait in order to desire it.

04:08:56.660 So you're not dominant, but you want a dominant guy.

04:08:59.360 I'm not submissive.

04:09:00.280 I want a submissive woman. 1.00

04:09:01.680 Maybe Jake had a one night stand.

04:09:03.400 He wants a woman who's had no promiscuity in her past. 0.59

04:09:06.300 I don't think that's hypocritical.

04:09:07.500 I don't think there's any issue with that.

04:09:09.360 Women want all kinds of things in men that they don't possess. 1.00

04:09:14.080 Every girl here would probably date a professional athlete. 1.00

04:09:16.520 Are any of you professional athletes?

04:09:18.400 No.

04:09:19.120 Would any of you here, who here would date a billionaire?

04:09:21.780 Are any of you billionaires?

04:09:23.520 No.

04:09:24.040 I don't think you need to possess the trait that you desire in a partner to want it. 0.83

04:09:28.940 It doesn't make you a hypocrite.

04:09:29.920 You can be a broke woman and want a rich man. 1.00

04:09:32.920 It doesn't make you a hypocrite. 0.95

04:09:34.520 Nothing wrong with it.

04:09:35.580 That's just naturally attractive.

04:09:36.900 When it comes to female promiscuity, women who are not promiscuous, low body count, that's 1.00

04:09:42.940 attractive to men.

04:09:44.140 I agree.

04:09:44.700 I'm happy to take on the duty and the burden of being a provider, but then I would never

04:09:49.400 expect that out of my wife. 1.00

04:09:51.360 Never expect that.

04:09:52.360 It is a big, large duty, but you just never expect that in return.

04:09:56.140 I would expect them to be chaste.

04:09:58.960 What would you recommend to a woman that has had like a promiscuous past to become a more 1.00

04:10:05.140 high quality woman? 1.00

04:10:06.280 Since they can't like fully redeem themselves, what would you recommend?

04:10:09.120 Do you want to take this first, Jake?

04:10:10.040 Yeah, I'll take it.

04:10:10.720 I'll take it.

04:10:11.140 I'll go after.

04:10:11.740 I would say that there are other things.

04:10:15.200 Obviously, promiscuity and your past is one factor.

04:10:18.220 And there are other things that you can seriously bring to a man's life.

04:10:21.800 And there are going to be men who don't care as much about it.

04:10:24.380 For me, it's just something that's really important.

04:10:26.400 But if you can...

04:10:28.400 The reason why I asked that question before was the thing that I was getting to when we're

04:10:31.500 asking about what you guys would do at the job interview for the man, for the high status

04:10:35.100 man, is because there are a few things I always find it interesting to see girls' answers 1.00

04:10:39.000 that you can do, that you can provide to a man that most women would never even really 0.98

04:10:44.400 think about.

04:10:45.360 And it's like, if you look at a guy who's successful and on his grind and a guy who is

04:10:49.780 someone that you'd want to date, if you'd analyzed his life and you thought, where can

04:10:54.040 I bring value to his life?

04:10:56.020 Okay, he's really busy.

04:10:57.820 He's a little bit messy.

04:10:58.900 I'm going to come in and like clean up his room, do his laundry, all that sort of thing.

04:11:01.900 Or maybe he's got like a something that I can do with work.

04:11:05.300 I can like help him with his emails or something like that.

04:11:07.380 All of those little things are things that can easily set you apart from the rest.

04:11:11.880 So if I was you, or this hypothetical girl with a high body count, I would look at the

04:11:16.420 guy and I would say, where can I bring value to the point where a few months down the line,

04:11:20.240 three months, six months down the line, he's looking at me as somebody who's like, you

04:11:23.980 know, irreplaceable.

04:11:25.000 If I left his life, then it would be way harder.

04:11:29.160 Do you think that people should do, or women should do that, regardless of body count prior 0.96

04:11:34.680 to a marriage?

04:11:35.380 Like, you think that they should present wife qualities when they're not getting husband

04:11:38.640 qualities?

04:11:39.700 Absolutely.

04:11:40.300 Yeah.

04:11:40.480 How else are you going to sell yourself?

04:11:42.820 How else is a man going to sell himself?

04:11:44.360 You know what I mean?

04:11:45.120 But like, so why would I marry you if you're not showing me wife qualities?

04:11:50.600 But by the same token, why would a woman show you wife qualities if they're not getting 1.00

04:11:54.380 any...

04:11:54.800 So then we're just at a stalemate and just, it'll never happen.

04:11:57.240 So if I have someone who's my girlfriend and she's saying, I'm not going to do your laundry,

04:12:02.160 I'm not going to make your bed, I'm not going to cook you food because I don't have a ring 1.00

04:12:05.300 on my finger, I'd be like, all right, then fuck off. 1.00

04:12:07.460 But wife qualities are more than cleaning and cooking. 1.00

04:12:10.500 Like, just get them made.

04:12:12.220 Wife qualities are way more than cleaning and cooking. 1.00

04:12:13.440 And what's she going to do? 1.00

04:12:14.500 Just sit on her asshole day? 1.00

04:12:15.680 No, she's going to support you emotionally. 1.00

04:12:18.060 She's going to be there for the kids.

04:12:18.640 I don't need to be supported emotionally.

04:12:19.700 If you're a guy who's already like achieved certain things in life, you've probably been 0.99

04:12:23.160 through some shit. 0.99

04:12:24.280 Maybe you could use a cuddle on a Sunday morning. 1.00

04:12:26.300 Why are you guys so into men? 1.00

04:12:28.240 Are you gay? 1.00

04:12:29.060 Like, you're like, men are the shit. 1.00

04:12:30.980 What do you mean? 1.00

04:12:31.440 I'm confused.

04:12:32.040 Because you keep saying like, women are this and that and it's blah, blah, blah.

04:12:37.020 No, no, I think I actually really...

04:12:38.680 So just date each other and go have fun in the bathroom. 0.99

04:12:42.360 Let us watch.

04:12:43.440 I think I actually pretty...

04:12:45.100 Go get paid.

04:12:46.160 I think I actually pretty clearly just sort of laid it out as to like the value that

04:12:49.760 a woman can bring to a man's life. 1.00

04:12:51.360 You said cooking and cleaning.

04:12:52.140 It's just a matter of attitude.

04:12:53.480 Cooking and cleaning.

04:12:54.260 That's it.

04:12:54.580 That's a wise...

04:12:54.860 What else did I say?

04:12:56.100 What else did I say?

04:12:57.020 Laundry.

04:12:57.820 Doing emails, cooking, cleaning, making yourself like make his life easier.

04:13:02.860 And your life is what? 1.00

04:13:04.080 Shit? 1.00

04:13:04.580 You were born to be a piece of shit. 1.00

04:13:06.000 He also said that he doesn't expect you a piece of shit if you're being... 1.00

04:13:09.420 A lot of people talking. 1.00

04:13:11.940 You wanted to ask a question.

04:13:13.000 Yeah.

04:13:13.200 So I already provide those things when I'm dating someone.

04:13:17.940 And so like I obviously do have a promiscuous past and I'm currently not dating because

04:13:24.320 I want to become like a higher quality woman before I date so that I can attract a more 1.00

04:13:30.360 high quality man.

04:13:31.360 So what would you recommend besides like the cooking, the cleaning and...

04:13:36.320 Well, I think that you have to just cater it to that person's individual needs.

04:13:39.560 So you have to just be good at looking at the man and understanding a little bit about

04:13:43.360 his life and then seeing where you can add value particularly.

04:13:46.220 Because he might be someone who's a clean freak and he does all of his cleaning.

04:13:48.920 He might love cooking.

04:13:49.760 He might be like Greek or something like that.

04:13:51.340 Loves cooking.

04:13:52.260 And then you're going to be like, all right, well, where else can I add value to his life?

04:13:55.020 You know?

04:13:55.420 Can I help him with his organization?

04:13:57.600 Can I do this and that?

04:13:58.800 But it's about getting yourself to the point where months and months down the line, he looks

04:14:02.500 at you as like inexpendable.

04:14:04.500 Should I be waiting a while to sleep with someone?

04:14:07.000 It depends on his values.

04:14:10.600 Okay.

04:14:11.040 Yeah.

04:14:11.300 Because if he's a guy who's like a little bit more liberal about it, he's not going to

04:14:14.320 mind.

04:14:16.640 But a guy who's more conservative, how high is the body count?

04:14:19.820 Like, what are we talking?

04:14:20.680 I don't feel comfortable sharing.

04:14:21.960 Didn't you share it last time?

04:14:23.020 Yeah.

04:14:23.360 No.

04:14:24.060 Oh, I know.

04:14:24.860 No, she did.

04:14:25.800 What is it?

04:14:26.560 I did it.

04:14:27.200 I refused.

04:14:27.700 No, I'm thinking of someone else.

04:14:28.760 It was double digit though, yeah?

04:14:30.460 Yeah, it was double digit.

04:14:31.360 Triple digit?

04:14:31.840 No.

04:14:32.040 I think that if you can master other aspects, then you, then guys will, will look past that.

04:14:38.320 Yeah.

04:14:38.540 So majority of it was when I was like 17.

04:14:41.420 I don't sleep around anymore.

04:14:43.060 I don't know if that's, that's not, it's horrible.

04:14:45.440 It's absolutely horrible.

04:14:46.800 It was before I got sober.

04:14:47.980 But so, I mean, there's this video game term called min maxing.

04:14:54.200 You minimize negative characteristics and you maximize positive characteristics.

04:14:58.500 So, I mean, you can't really minimize it, but what you can do is you maximize all the other

04:15:05.340 positive characteristics, I suppose, to kind of, I mean, this is just like general advice

04:15:10.760 to anybody.

04:15:11.080 You want to become the best person and best partner that you can.

04:15:15.360 So if that means, you know, getting into really good shape, it could come down to your

04:15:19.480 behavior.

04:15:20.180 It could come down to, you know, other things that you're bringing to the table.

04:15:23.380 Uh, so if you just become like the super pleasant, amazing, amazing woman, super submissive, uh, 0.70

04:15:31.480 acts of service and maximize just how can I become more attractive, not just looks, but

04:15:37.940 how can I become more attractive in other dimensions, fifth dimension over here, fifth dimension

04:15:42.540 princess album out in three months.

04:15:44.660 Um, right.

04:15:46.060 Three months.

04:15:46.500 Yeah.

04:15:46.720 Something like that.

04:15:47.860 Then you just got to maximize all those things.

04:15:50.440 Are some guys still going to disqualify you no matter how amazing you are?

04:15:53.780 Sure.

04:15:54.240 But they might disqualify you for other things too.

04:15:55.960 They might not, uh, you might not be their type physically, whatever it is.

04:15:59.740 So you just got to maximize it.

04:16:01.860 And, um, but, uh, yeah.

04:16:05.180 So is there redemption?

04:16:06.960 Like, yeah, that's a good point that, uh, she says a man you would want is the kind of

04:16:12.500 man who wants you to demonstrate that you will be able to help meet rather than, uh, rather 0.99

04:16:17.880 than a giant pain in the ass. 0.99

04:16:19.320 Honestly, cooperative, not combative. 1.00

04:16:22.040 Exactly.

04:16:22.320 Rachel makes a huge point.

04:16:24.200 And this is something we don't talk about.

04:16:25.520 I mean, I mentioned it often in passing, but we don't ever do deep dives into it.

04:16:30.120 Like ladies, one of the biggest things, cause like one of the biggest things that you can 1.00

04:16:34.280 do to become more appealing to a guy, it's not like how the cool stories you can tell your

04:16:40.180 personality or how attractive you are.

04:16:41.720 If you're just like chill and pleasant to be around, because a lot of guys have experience 0.99

04:16:48.300 dealing with like, and look, girls deal with some like fucking psycho dudes too. 0.98

04:16:53.080 Don't get me wrong. 0.98

04:16:53.760 But like a guy who's dealt with like a girl, who's a headache, like, man, the biggest thing 1.00

04:16:59.600 you can be in a relationship is if you're just like calm and you, when he's with you,

04:17:05.700 it's peace.

04:17:06.740 And look, sometimes, sometimes you have disagreements.

04:17:09.420 Sometimes there's arguments.

04:17:10.340 I mean, some people have a really hard line stance on like, you know, submission and that

04:17:16.200 sort of thing.

04:17:16.660 But if you can be peace, that's like one of the biggest things you can bring a dude.

04:17:20.620 We don't want to, like guys don't want to deal with a quarrelsome woman. 1.00

04:17:24.300 Like if we're constantly, and look, to be fair, sometimes men, y'all, I don't know.

04:17:31.200 Sometimes men bring that energy.

04:17:32.920 Like sometimes men are the ones looking for an argument, but a lot of dudes have an experience

04:17:37.940 of dealing with a girl that it's just like a headache and we don't want to, we don't 1.00

04:17:42.160 want to deal with that.

04:17:43.000 We want peace.

04:17:43.840 We want calm.

04:17:44.820 And if you can be our calm, a lot of dudes are going to overlook a lot of things.

04:17:50.120 Exactly.

04:17:50.280 Exactly.

04:17:50.580 Especially if you're a really busy guy who's got a lot going on and your life's very stressful.

04:17:54.100 If you can be like a sanctuary for him and you can create a home that's a sanctuary and

04:17:58.780 then that's massive, but also sort of like, you know, it might sound like a little bit

04:18:03.620 infantilizing, but if you can look at him with like goo goo ga ga sort of eyes, you know,

04:18:07.940 like I said before, always doing things to make him feel respected, make him feel strong

04:18:12.340 and just point out all of these little things.

04:18:14.860 Most guys in the current dating market with the way that most women are will not know what 1.00

04:18:19.500 has hit them.

04:18:20.000 If you actually treat a guy like that with genuine respect and you look up to him and

04:18:24.860 admire him.

04:18:25.640 Besides providing the money and all that stuff, what is he doing?

04:18:29.180 Is he like, does he love me?

04:18:31.140 Is it providing emotional really like respect and emotional support and all that stuff?

04:18:34.840 Well, a man has duties in a relationship and the duty, in my opinion, is to provide and 0.56

04:18:40.460 also to be, I mean, you have to take a bullet if there's a home invasion and to make her 1.00

04:18:44.540 feel protected, to make her feel like her needs are met.

04:18:48.060 Whether that be like financial needs or like the support of being a leader and all those

04:18:54.060 sorts of things.

04:18:54.880 And I think that's actually, it sounds like it's in a few sentences, but it's a very

04:18:58.700 significant job and it requires a lot of experience.

04:19:01.220 I think in the true sense of like a submissive, dominant relationship between a husband and

04:19:05.960 a wife, like if there's mutual respect, it's not about dominating the wife just because 0.71

04:19:10.880 they are more leading and more guiding. 0.96

04:19:13.040 That doesn't mean that they're shitting on you. 0.95

04:19:15.080 No, I understand that. 0.98

04:19:16.500 But some men do do that.

04:19:17.800 Some men provide and then they treat you like a slave. 0.99

04:19:20.600 Also with submission, like submission is not taken.

04:19:23.940 Submission is given.

04:19:25.140 Right.

04:19:25.580 Right.

04:19:26.920 Jake, I do disagree with you on the bullet thing, though. 0.98

04:19:29.320 She can take the bullet.

04:19:30.040 But yeah, Natasha likes that one. 1.00

04:19:33.740 She can take the bullet. 0.98

04:19:34.720 Here's why. 0.99

04:19:35.020 Brian just grabs her and puts her in.

04:19:36.920 Put the kid in front of us.

04:19:38.440 Hear me out, Jake.

04:19:39.520 So here's why.

04:19:40.780 People say, Brian, that's kind of beta.

04:19:43.100 You're kind of a beta male for not being willing to take the bullet.

04:19:45.960 And listen, maybe I am.

04:19:48.220 But you know what's better than being dead?

04:19:51.000 Being a beta male.

04:19:52.540 Although, wait, hold on.

04:19:53.600 Do you know how many men have gone out of the trenches in war and run onto the beaches,

04:20:00.980 don't need to be gunned down by the Turks, just so they don't look like a beta male to 0.99

04:20:04.720 their friends?

04:20:05.400 Oh, that's the reason they do it.

04:20:07.420 But like, think about it this way.

04:20:09.020 Like, oh, they're all dying.

04:20:10.140 He's going on.

04:20:11.140 What's more gangster, Jake? 0.99

04:20:13.200 Taking the bullet for your wife. 0.99

04:20:14.900 Let's say, would you take a bullet for, you don't have kids yet. 0.99

04:20:17.200 You take the bullet? 0.99

04:20:18.260 If I had kids.

04:20:19.400 No, no.

04:20:20.200 You're married, but you don't have kids yet.

04:20:22.480 Do you take the bullet for your wife?

04:20:23.740 Yes, I think it's the man's responsibility.

04:20:24.960 But so what's more gangster?

04:20:26.800 Check this out, Jake.

04:20:28.800 Gangster.

04:20:29.320 Okay. 0.95

04:20:29.780 Keep it gangster.

04:20:30.420 Go.

04:20:32.240 Check this out.

04:20:33.320 Okay. 0.99

04:20:35.060 She takes the bullet.

04:20:37.300 Like a strong, independent, boss babe woman. 1.00

04:20:39.200 And then, and then maybe you get kind of clowned on a little bit, but you probably, I mean,

04:20:45.600 whatever, nobody was there.

04:20:46.880 You don't know what happened, right?

04:20:48.320 And then a week later, you meet a new girl and then you have kids with her and you've just

04:20:55.780 continued your bloodline.

04:20:58.080 That's more gangster. 0.59

04:20:59.580 You continued your bloodline.

04:21:01.680 I'm willing, see, I'm willing to sacrifice the individual woman. 1.00

04:21:05.680 I will sacrifice the individual woman for my benefit. 1.00

04:21:10.460 So the girl with gangsta?

04:21:11.760 That's embarrassing.

04:21:12.880 That's the purely utilitarian perspective on it, bro.

04:21:15.380 Am I, chat, chat, am I, I'm kind of right, chat.

04:21:18.920 Embarrassing.

04:21:19.480 It's a secular utilitarian perspective.

04:21:21.340 Fine.

04:21:21.820 Oh my God, I'm, I'm so embarrassed. 1.00

04:21:23.760 You're dead. 0.95

04:21:24.720 I'm alive. 1.00

04:21:25.680 I'm going to fuck another chick. 1.00

04:21:27.320 We're good. 1.00

04:21:28.340 Sorry, I'm kind of spazzing out a little bit, but.

04:21:30.660 That's always been like that.

04:21:31.920 This whole podcast was about that.

04:21:33.520 It's like, why can't we just keep continuing to put you down so you can be barefoot and

04:21:37.740 cook our food? 1.00

04:21:38.660 The fuck are you talking about, Lee? 1.00

04:21:39.620 The whole podcast. 1.00

04:21:39.920 What the fuck are you talking about? 1.00

04:21:41.280 That's crazy, bro. 1.00

04:21:42.260 What are you talking about?

04:21:42.880 Go back to pegging people, bro.

04:21:44.360 Go back to pegging people.

04:21:45.540 No.

04:21:46.020 You don't know what you're talking about.

04:21:47.220 Yeah, go back to. 0.99

04:21:48.200 Go back to pegging Mexicans. 1.00

04:21:49.960 You just want to feel superior and you will never be superior. 1.00

04:21:52.940 Women will always be superior. 1.00

04:21:55.020 Women will always be superior. 1.00

04:21:56.760 In which way?

04:21:57.800 In which way?

04:21:58.440 We give you life. 1.00

04:21:59.680 If it wasn't for us, you wouldn't be talking all this shit. 1.00

04:22:01.720 What do you mean by superior and how are women superior? 1.00

04:22:04.580 Superior.

04:22:05.620 Superior.

04:22:06.820 That's it.

04:22:07.480 Superior.

04:22:08.100 Say it again five more times and I'll understand the definition.

04:22:10.220 The mother energy.

04:22:11.640 The goddess.

04:22:12.600 You would never.

04:22:13.600 No, no, no, no.

04:22:14.240 You provide.

04:22:14.960 You make money.

04:22:16.200 Good.

04:22:16.480 Thank you. 0.98

04:22:17.060 Goddesses are demons. 0.96

04:22:17.700 No, thank you for providing. 0.72

04:22:19.120 That's your job as a man.

04:22:20.980 Oh, really?

04:22:21.660 To provide for women. 0.66

04:22:22.420 And thank you for carrying that baby to term and not killing it.

04:22:25.120 That is your job.

04:22:26.040 You.

04:22:26.600 They forced me to do that.

04:22:28.000 That is your job, woman. 0.99

04:22:29.220 A man forced me to do that. 1.00

04:22:30.660 It is your job to bleed out of your vagina and then have my baby. 1.00

04:22:33.020 A man forced me to do that. 1.00

04:22:34.000 It is your job, woman. 1.00

04:22:34.780 You little fat. 0.99

04:22:35.800 It's your job, woman. 1.00

04:22:37.100 That's too much.

04:22:37.300 You got to take that baby all the way to term.

04:22:38.840 That was too much.

04:22:39.700 You forced me to do it.

04:22:40.580 Good woman.

04:22:41.100 Good woman.

04:22:41.720 Take it all the way to term.

04:22:42.660 You forced me to do it.

04:22:43.620 She definitely said facts.

04:22:45.100 Facts.

04:22:45.220 I said facts.

04:22:46.120 Yeah, facts.

04:22:46.740 Yeah, okay, be quiet, lady. 1.00

04:22:48.500 Oh, and now they.

04:22:49.760 See how they get?

04:22:51.020 When I'm right.

04:22:51.800 You can't say that word on stream, bro. 0.98

04:22:53.000 Chill the fuck out. 0.99

04:22:53.580 The mother goddess. 1.00

04:22:55.620 Superior than men. 0.93

04:22:56.820 Period.

04:22:58.000 That's cool.

04:22:58.920 God is literally a man.

04:22:59.660 The goddess.

04:23:00.440 The queen.

04:23:01.320 The princess.

04:23:02.120 The mother. 1.00

04:23:02.620 She's got to take the fucking bullet, bro. 1.00

04:23:04.300 They gave birth to you. 1.00

04:23:04.620 She can take the fucking bullet. 1.00

04:23:06.340 Your mom can take the bullet? 1.00

04:23:07.720 No, not my mom can take the bullet. 1.00

04:23:09.760 I'm saying my girl.

04:23:10.880 I'm saying my girl.

04:23:11.640 If I'm dating a girl, she takes the bullet. 1.00

04:23:15.400 What's the point of men being stronger if you're not going to take the bullet?

04:23:18.080 The point of me being stronger is so that after she dies, I can take care of the kids.

04:23:24.240 Because I'm honestly, well, once we have kids, if we already have kids, I'm better suited to take care of them.

04:23:31.720 Financially.

04:23:32.280 Who's going to kick for that?

04:23:33.580 Who's going to give them good intuition?

04:23:35.400 Huh?

04:23:35.700 Who's going to give them good intuition?

04:23:37.860 Me, bro.

04:23:38.940 You could have dodged the bullet.

04:23:40.320 I dodged the bullet.

04:23:41.180 I give my kids good intuition.

04:23:42.880 You took the bullet. 1.00

04:23:44.440 Obviously, your intuition wasn't that good to fucking dodge that shit. 1.00

04:23:47.300 I would dodge it for sure. 1.00

04:23:48.440 Boom, you take the bullet. 0.98

04:23:49.200 I think the more accurate for you is that you both just stand there and whoever gets hit gets hit. 1.00

04:23:53.120 I'm going to put it in my teeth.

04:23:54.660 No, bro.

04:23:56.400 You're my girlfriend. 0.99

04:23:57.940 Here's the bullet.

04:23:58.600 You ever seen those...

04:23:59.200 I put you in front of me, dude.

04:24:00.700 You ever seen those videos of when the plant jumps out and scares people and then the guy grabs his girlfriend?

04:24:04.820 He doesn't seem like a very dominant man.

04:24:05.640 That's you.

04:24:06.480 Yeah.

04:24:06.700 He said he was a beta man.

04:24:08.400 He said he's going to use his girlfriend as a human shield.

04:24:10.440 He's very dominant.

04:24:11.840 No.

04:24:12.180 How would that...

04:24:13.500 That's...

04:24:14.380 Okay.

04:24:14.600 Let me ask you a question.

04:24:15.820 Genghis Khan.

04:24:17.280 You know Genghis Khan?

04:24:17.720 That's not a question.

04:24:18.560 Hold on.

04:24:18.780 You know Genghis Khan?

04:24:20.240 Not personally.

04:24:21.120 Yes.

04:24:21.520 I know who you're talking about.

04:24:22.140 The Mongolian conquest? 0.86

04:24:23.440 I know who you're talking about.

04:24:24.120 This guy had like multiple...

04:24:26.840 Dozens of wives.

04:24:28.860 Dozens of wives and concubines and just chicks. 1.00

04:24:32.700 He was...

04:24:33.460 Thousands of children.

04:24:34.340 Blasted. 0.65

04:24:34.820 Thousands, son.

04:24:36.300 Like just multiple times a day.

04:24:38.820 Just busted nuts.

04:24:40.640 So anyways, hold on.

04:24:41.900 Check this out, Natasha.

04:24:43.380 You listening?

04:24:44.000 I'm listening.

04:24:44.440 Okay. 0.99

04:24:45.640 You think Genghis Khan, the most fucking ruthless... 0.98

04:24:49.460 You think Genghis Khan wasn't dominant? 0.99

04:24:52.140 He would...

04:24:53.320 Any wife, if it's between him and the wife... 0.98

04:24:57.340 Goodbye.

04:24:59.260 Oh, goodbye wife. 1.00

04:25:01.120 I've got 10 more.

04:25:03.280 Genghis Khan is a G.

04:25:05.740 He's a real G.

04:25:07.540 Henry VIII, the King of England. 1.00

04:25:10.600 This motherfucker beheaded his... 1.00

04:25:13.980 Wait, no. 1.00

04:25:14.560 Two wives. 1.00

04:25:15.420 Divorced, beheaded, died. 0.99

04:25:18.080 Divorced, beheaded, died. 0.99

04:25:19.560 He beheaded. 0.90

04:25:20.940 What's that?

04:25:21.720 The last one, he outlived him.

04:25:24.300 Whatever.

04:25:24.840 So anyways.

04:25:25.840 So scary. 1.00

04:25:26.560 According to your logic, that's the most gangster shit you can do. 1.00

04:25:29.120 Is behead your wife. 1.00

04:25:30.860 Just go Henry. 1.00

04:25:31.780 You know what?

04:25:32.600 She doesn't bow for me.

04:25:34.620 Divorced, died.

04:25:35.600 These are like that small percentage of men with power.

04:25:39.180 Like that's who you're speaking on.

04:25:40.940 You're not talking about...

04:25:42.140 Remember like back when we were talking about like the...

04:25:44.360 But Genghis Khan.

04:25:45.220 You know what I'm saying?

04:25:45.880 The men of the men of the world, whatever, you can't compare yourself to the... 0.98

04:25:50.960 I'm not saying I'm fucking Genghis Khan, bro. 0.97

04:25:53.140 No, I'm just saying. 0.99

04:25:53.620 I'm just saying.

04:25:54.720 If it's a W for Genghis Khan to be like, I've got 50 wives.

04:25:59.620 One of them...

04:26:00.680 Okay.

04:26:01.080 But you don't have 50 wives.

04:26:02.380 That's not legal.

04:26:02.860 But that's the thing.

04:26:03.420 He's that percentage.

04:26:03.960 You don't even want one wife. 0.98

04:26:05.520 Take the spear.

04:26:06.540 Yeah.

04:26:07.080 He's that percentage of men that you spoke about.

04:26:09.840 They can't...

04:26:10.520 Using an example with somebody with a bajillion wives. 1.00

04:26:13.180 Yeah, that makes me more gangster because she's more important to me and I'm still willing

04:26:17.960 to sacrifice the chick.

04:26:20.140 Woo! 0.99

04:26:20.700 You can't even say it without a... 1.00

04:26:22.060 Oh, shit. 1.00

04:26:23.740 Oh, she's more important. 1.00

04:26:25.200 That's more gangster.

04:26:27.000 I'm still willing to sacrifice her because the bloodline... 1.00

04:26:30.240 It's more important for me to survive to forward the fucking bloodline. 0.99

04:26:34.480 Okay, so what if she was pregnant? 1.00

04:26:36.200 I could go and pregnant 10 other women. 1.00

04:26:38.480 But what if she was pregnant at the time with your child, your firstborn child?

04:26:44.040 Does he know if...

04:26:44.600 And you got shot in the nuts so you can't have no more kids. 0.97

04:26:48.520 I got shot in the nuts. 0.99

04:26:50.240 So you can't have no more kids.

04:26:52.020 Are you still going to protect her?

04:26:52.900 That's not true.

04:26:53.600 We don't love these hoes. 1.00

04:26:54.160 Men can't love unconditionally because they're never loved unconditionally.

04:26:57.380 You have to provide to be loved.

04:26:59.160 We don't love these hoes. 1.00

04:26:59.600 So you never give us unconditional love. 1.00

04:27:01.420 I love to a lot of men that don't provide shit. 1.00

04:27:03.580 No, men love hoes. 1.00

04:27:04.780 Men cannot love unconditionally.

04:27:07.240 There's too much ego involved.

04:27:09.000 There's too much I need power.

04:27:10.800 My size of my day.

04:27:12.000 If she gets fat.

04:27:14.020 I'm trying to have a conversation. 1.00

04:27:15.680 And she got to take the bullet.

04:27:17.160 Wait, wait, wait.

04:27:18.080 But do y'all think these women out here are worth taking the bullet for? 0.97

04:27:23.820 I could be married.

04:27:24.560 Hold on.

04:27:25.020 I could be dating this girl married to her. 1.00

04:27:27.400 She's getting new dick within three months, bro. 1.00

04:27:30.040 And you? 1.00

04:27:30.840 You want me to take the bullet? 0.51

04:27:32.360 You wouldn't even wait three weeks. 1.00

04:27:34.260 You'd be out there crying at the freaking funeral. 0.98

04:27:36.760 Like, oh, look at me so sad. 0.99

04:27:38.220 You pity for me giving me head. 1.00

04:27:39.880 I would be on fucking Tinder at the funeral. 1.00

04:27:41.200 Of course. 1.00

04:27:41.820 I'd be on fucking Hinge. 0.98

04:27:42.640 So you want her to wait three months? 0.99

04:27:44.680 I'd be on Hinge.

04:27:45.140 I'd be on Bumble.

04:27:45.960 Exactly.

04:27:46.340 I'd be on Tinder.

04:27:47.440 I'd be on Farmers Only.

04:27:48.360 Why would we wait?

04:27:49.000 I'd be on Christian Mingle. 0.93

04:27:50.060 I'd be on J-Date. 1.00

04:27:51.180 I'd be on fucking the Asian dating app. 0.99

04:27:53.000 That's going to be the first place I'll be. 0.98

04:27:54.480 So why she can't be in the same app? 0.94

04:27:56.360 That's disgusting.

04:27:56.800 Because she's a lady and she has to wait for you forever in her little coffin. 1.00

04:28:00.940 No, what I'm saying is.

04:28:02.420 What I'm saying is, though.

04:28:02.960 Don't settle, ladies. 1.00

04:28:04.100 Don't do it. 0.98

04:28:04.180 You guys have an expectation that I take the bullet. 1.00

04:28:06.280 Hell no. 0.91

04:28:06.900 I ain't taking the bullet because.

04:28:08.420 No one expects you to take the bullet.

04:28:10.180 We know.

04:28:11.100 She expects me.

04:28:12.280 You're a five.

04:28:13.280 There ain't no five taking bullets. 0.99

04:28:15.320 You're a three and a four naked.

04:28:20.300 You notice that when we get them, they always switch, like, the conversation. 0.74

04:28:24.380 You switch the conversation.

04:28:26.080 Because.

04:28:26.900 You wouldn't take the bullet.

04:28:27.980 But then you said, my mom. 0.98

04:28:29.040 For my mom, I would take a bullet. 0.98

04:28:30.420 Would you? 1.00

04:28:31.040 That's a lie.

04:28:31.740 I would take, you know what?

04:28:34.860 For my parents. 0.99

04:28:36.660 Damn, that's a hard. 0.99

04:28:37.420 Yes. 0.99

04:28:38.060 I think for my parents.

04:28:39.060 Because I got love for my parents like that.

04:28:42.040 Look at that.

04:28:42.900 The truth comes out.

04:28:44.540 For your wife, no.

04:28:45.920 Who hurt you? 1.00

04:28:46.520 Like, what the fuck? 1.00

04:28:47.520 Who hurt me? 1.00

04:28:48.120 Chill out.

04:28:48.700 Well, you act like.

04:28:49.560 Reiki chick, whatever.

04:28:50.340 It seems like you think people are going to, like, switch up and betray on you.

04:28:53.920 What?

04:28:54.880 What about your kids?

04:28:56.240 She's a romance.

04:28:58.140 It's a good question, Brian.

04:28:59.180 Who hurt you?

04:28:59.840 Who hurt me?

04:29:01.440 I don't.

04:29:02.000 Wait.

04:29:02.480 What was this? 1.00

04:29:02.900 For your parents, you would take a bullet. 1.00

04:29:05.580 For your kids, would you take a bullet? 1.00

04:29:06.780 You know what's crazy? 1.00

04:29:07.900 Like, if somebody talks shit about me, I don't care. 0.99

04:29:11.560 But if somebody ever said something nasty, like, in front of my dad to my dad, I would be so fucking angry. 0.99

04:29:17.800 Like, if somebody punched me, or I saw somebody punch my dad, I would be more upset if they punched my dad. 0.96

04:29:25.360 Yeah. 0.99

04:29:25.700 And I would be fucking blood boiled. 1.00

04:29:28.340 I would kill this person. 1.00

04:29:29.500 That's love. 1.00

04:29:30.620 That's love.

04:29:31.080 But you wouldn't do that for your wife, because men cannot love women. 0.92

04:29:35.060 I can't get another dad.

04:29:36.340 I can't get another mom. 1.00

04:29:37.920 I can get another bitch. 1.00

04:29:39.260 Oh, see? 1.00

04:29:40.060 That's messed up.

04:29:41.300 That's so messed up.

04:29:43.040 So your kids, you would let your kids die, too?

04:29:45.680 Because you can get new kids. 0.99

04:29:47.100 No, because it's their woman hatred. 1.00

04:29:49.680 You see? 0.82

04:29:50.560 It's their woman hatred. 1.00

04:29:51.720 It just fuels them to wake up every morning.

04:29:54.880 What if it's a girl?

04:29:56.240 Huh?

04:29:57.000 Wait, what?

04:29:58.200 You said kids are the bloodline.

04:29:59.460 I said, what if it's a girl?

04:30:01.260 She still carries on the bloodline.

04:30:03.480 So it doesn't matter to you about the name?

04:30:05.140 I mean, he's the one who said that he'd do the killing.

04:30:07.420 So if it's between, hold on.

04:30:09.640 You really want to play this game?

04:30:10.740 So between my son and my daughter.

04:30:17.260 But why?

04:30:18.280 Many cultures around the world have actually disposed of the women at birth. 0.98

04:30:24.120 I'm just kidding.

04:30:24.960 I would love my daughters and sons equally.

04:30:29.900 I don't think you could take that back.

04:30:31.020 They're going to just have daughters. 0.98

04:30:31.580 I feel like people say that until they get a daughter.

04:30:33.940 Yeah.

04:30:35.000 Who's going to watch that?

04:30:35.920 Definitely getting a daughter. 1.00

04:30:37.000 She's watching that.

04:30:37.560 He's only going to have daughters.

04:30:38.460 I'm just, guys.

04:30:39.660 I hope you got like 10 daughters.

04:30:40.900 Guys.

04:30:41.980 Obviously, I've been bantering.

04:30:44.100 I'm joking a little bit.

04:30:46.580 Being a little exuberant here.

04:30:50.940 A little bee.

04:30:52.060 She still takes the bullet. 0.99

04:30:53.940 But like some of that other stuff, you know.

04:30:56.900 Anyways.

04:30:57.460 A little bee.

04:30:58.040 All right, guys.

04:30:58.480 We got to get through notes.

04:30:59.240 We got to get through notes.

04:30:59.900 I'm going to try to do it quick.

04:31:01.080 Damien, we got the age stuff.

04:31:02.360 Do you got two batches or one?

04:31:03.640 Okay.

04:31:03.920 Okay, let's do the, guys.

04:31:06.160 Some of you said you're going to be looking, looking like.

04:31:09.680 Jicks and MILF. 0.71

04:31:11.160 Hot.

04:31:12.340 10, 20.

04:31:14.300 Better.

04:31:14.820 Oh, God.

04:31:15.300 I forgot about this.

04:31:15.960 Pull it up.

04:31:16.720 What is it?

04:31:17.520 I don't know.

04:31:18.580 Aw.

04:31:19.680 Okay.

04:31:20.480 That's.

04:31:21.160 Yep.

04:31:21.720 Next.

04:31:22.160 Do you think that's what I'll look like in 10 years?

04:31:24.920 That's the thing.

04:31:27.320 Next.

04:31:27.960 One of those 50-year-old women at the club. 0.94

04:31:30.200 This is so messed up.

04:31:31.300 Okay, next.

04:31:34.320 Like a hundred.

04:31:35.480 Whoa.

04:31:35.780 Hello.

04:31:37.300 Okay, next.

04:31:40.920 Wow.

04:31:42.060 You look like you could.

04:31:44.360 Never mind.

04:31:45.160 You have to smoke.

04:31:47.140 Next.

04:31:49.260 Oh, my God.

04:31:50.640 I need to quit smoking.

04:31:52.160 That's what it waits.

04:31:52.840 Next.

04:31:53.320 I'm done smoking.

04:31:55.520 It looks like your mom. 0.50

04:31:57.180 Oh, I look cute.

04:31:57.740 Oh, I look like my mom.

04:31:59.060 All right.

04:31:59.560 There you go.

04:31:59.640 I look like my grandpa.

04:32:00.540 There you go.

04:32:00.920 Next.

04:32:01.300 Oh, yeah.

04:32:03.700 All right.

04:32:03.820 Of course.

04:32:04.820 Of course.

04:32:05.540 Next.

04:32:05.640 I feel like last time I looked more like my mom.

04:32:14.700 Okay.

04:32:15.300 Next.

04:32:17.900 Make it a little smaller if you can.

04:32:20.620 Oh, whoa.

04:32:21.160 You gave her like a triple chin. 0.96

04:32:22.900 What?

04:32:23.220 Make it a little smaller?

04:32:24.020 Why is your skin still look good though?

04:32:26.280 What the?

04:32:26.820 Okay.

04:32:27.120 Next.

04:32:29.840 Okay.

04:32:30.600 All right.

04:32:31.120 Next. 1.00

04:32:34.260 Damn. 1.00

04:32:35.040 You went from Latina to Asia. 1.00

04:32:36.840 Yeah, I was about to say.

04:32:38.320 Went from Latina to a Filipino. 1.00

04:32:41.840 Real quick.

04:32:42.580 I switched.

04:32:45.820 Next.

04:32:47.920 That's not bad.

04:32:48.700 That's not that bad.

04:32:50.560 Next.

04:32:51.080 Yeah, it's really not.

04:32:52.940 Oh, my God.

04:32:53.880 By the way, whoever did this, she did a lot of favors on the pictures on the left. 0.71

04:33:02.220 Yeah.

04:33:04.080 Next. 1.00

04:33:04.600 That's so fucked up. 1.00

04:33:06.080 Oh, there you go. 1.00

04:33:07.740 All right.

04:33:08.160 Next.

04:33:08.480 This is a silver fox.

04:33:10.180 Of course.

04:33:11.480 Of course.

04:33:11.760 Yeah, with all that work they did on the left.

04:33:14.280 That's funny.

04:33:16.000 All right.

04:33:16.400 Is that it, Damien?

04:33:17.580 Yeah.

04:33:18.080 All right.

04:33:18.340 We have the bullets donated $100.

04:33:23.220 If woman takes a bullet for guy, would she then be more gangster than him by default? 1.00

04:33:29.120 Yes. 0.92

04:33:29.380 Yes.

04:33:29.920 DC warrior.

04:33:31.960 Absolutely.

04:33:33.480 Maybe.

04:33:34.480 But you guys forget.

04:33:35.400 She's dead.

04:33:38.940 I'm alive.

04:33:40.560 You can't take a bullet and survive? 1.00

04:33:43.500 All the best gangsters are dead, bro. 1.00

04:33:45.380 The assumption here is that if you take the bullet, you die. 1.00

04:33:48.840 Oh. 0.92

04:33:49.300 So, yeah.

04:33:50.580 All the real ones are dead.

04:33:52.240 All the real Gs.

04:33:53.520 Real Gs move in silence. 1.00

04:33:55.320 Like lasagna.

04:33:57.140 All right.

04:33:58.020 Let's see here.

04:33:59.020 Let's get through the rest of the notes.

04:34:01.460 We have...

04:34:03.240 Wow, that really got...

04:34:04.480 That was good.

04:34:05.080 That was a good convo.

04:34:06.760 Okay.

04:34:07.220 We did Jillian.

04:34:08.500 We did Callie.

04:34:10.680 Trini.

04:34:12.120 There's the music video.

04:34:13.440 Crazy Stating Story dated this producer.

04:34:16.880 At the time, he was still up and coming.

04:34:18.740 Now he's huge.

04:34:19.540 Can you say who?

04:34:20.800 No, I don't want to.

04:34:21.980 Okay.

04:34:22.320 That's fine.

04:34:24.720 We still cool.

04:34:28.080 But woo, it was a mess for a minute. 0.99

04:34:30.940 Long story short, he was a cheater. 0.54

04:34:33.460 He had two girls pregnant at the same time as we were dating. 0.97

04:34:36.780 One of them hit me and hit you in the DMs beefing.

04:34:39.980 Her friend hit you up too.

04:34:41.660 They were threatening you and some more stuff.

04:34:44.160 Hot mess.

04:34:45.420 You left him.

04:34:46.380 He ended up having a son and a daughter two weeks apart from the two different women.

04:34:49.940 Now you think he's up to like four to five kids.

04:34:54.040 Thank the Lord you're not attached to that circus.

04:34:56.900 Any other details you can share from that story?

04:34:59.620 No, I think that's pretty much like...

04:35:01.400 That was like Cliff Notes version.

04:35:02.580 Was it Nick Cannon?

04:35:03.860 No.

04:35:05.040 Would we know him?

04:35:05.900 Do you think...

04:35:06.320 I'm like a...

04:35:06.840 I think he...

04:35:07.980 I'm an old school...

04:35:08.960 I'm an old school hip-hop guy.

04:35:10.460 These days, I don't really know too many.

04:35:12.400 But do you think I'd know him?

04:35:13.500 I think you probably would know him just because he's pretty...

04:35:15.940 Scott Sorch.

04:35:17.460 He's got some big songs out there and then he's done a lot of stuff that's like...

04:35:21.620 No.

04:35:21.960 Not Kanye?

04:35:22.640 No.

04:35:23.120 Okay.

04:35:23.280 Next note, you said...

04:35:25.800 He's worked with Kanye.

04:35:26.740 DJ Kelly.

04:35:28.440 Oh, he's worked with Kanye?

04:35:29.760 Yeah.

04:35:30.160 That's enough detail for people to find out.

04:35:33.500 Okay.

04:35:34.520 Putting people in boxes like it's one answer for a relationship and that's it.

04:35:37.720 But really, it's about what works for you and yours.

04:35:39.720 It's not one size fits all.

04:35:41.020 What do you mean by that?

04:35:42.460 What was the question?

04:35:43.920 It wasn't...

04:35:44.420 It was just a statement.

04:35:45.180 You said putting people in boxes like it's one answer for a relationship and that's it.

04:35:48.700 So is this kind of like maybe you have issues with traditional type relationships?

04:35:56.800 Yeah.

04:35:57.100 I know what you're talking about now.

04:35:58.480 No.

04:35:58.720 I didn't have any...

04:35:59.780 I believe in a traditional relationship in the aspect of do I want marriage?

04:36:05.760 Do I want a husband that I love and respect or that I want to lead because I don't want

04:36:12.040 to lead my man?

04:36:13.680 And so, yes, I do agree in that traditional aspect.

04:36:16.060 But let's say like, for instance, you don't want to get married.

04:36:19.300 Do I think that your views are, you know, wrong?

04:36:21.960 No, because I agree with yours too because I do agree.

04:36:24.820 I have brothers.

04:36:25.660 So, you know, I got five brothers.

04:36:27.020 Like, I know that they are...

04:36:29.740 Yeah, they're really looking at a big loss if they get with the wrong person.

04:36:34.200 So, like, I do understand you guys' like, you know, aspect of it too. 0.96

04:36:38.840 You said when it comes to dating, it sucks.

04:36:42.000 It's so hard to actually seriously date someone, especially in Los Angeles. 0.99

04:36:46.460 You're more old school.

04:36:48.180 You feel like you need someone more traditional as well, but also who understands the dynamics

04:36:52.360 of your career.

04:36:53.840 Yeah, because, okay, so this is the thing.

04:36:55.620 So, like, if I...

04:36:57.040 For one, people might think I'd be shallow and stuff like, oh, she's around this artist

04:37:01.620 or that, you know, NFL or NBA player or these people, like, the people I'm around in my

04:37:06.920 work atmosphere.

04:37:08.340 It makes some guys insecure and stuff because they don't feel like they're, I guess, in their

04:37:16.080 idea of what a high-quality man is.

04:37:18.280 They're looking at, like, maybe financially or, like, status or things like that.

04:37:21.740 They don't feel like they're...

04:37:22.760 They compare to that man.

04:37:23.800 And so they're, like, insecure with me being around these men too.

04:37:28.660 And so even if it's just, you know, like, for work, relationships, things like that.

04:37:33.060 But let me ask you a question on this.

04:37:34.600 Is, have you worked with people in the music industry?

04:37:39.400 They're like, oh, I want to produce for you.

04:37:41.020 I want to do that. 1.00

04:37:41.640 And they really just want to fuck? 1.00

04:37:43.060 Yeah. 1.00

04:37:43.740 Right?

04:37:44.400 I mean, so is it kind of fair that these...

04:37:46.160 Because, like, I've heard from a lot of girls. 0.85

04:37:48.440 It's definitely a common thing.

04:37:49.560 It's like, they're like, oh, yeah, we should collaborate.

04:37:53.440 And then they're just, I mean, it's like, and I think that's wrong, by the way.

04:38:01.240 Like, I don't think you should do that as a guy.

04:38:02.720 Like, false pretenses, like, oh, yeah, let's...

04:38:05.760 But he really, like, has an ulterior motive.

04:38:07.880 Like, he's just trying to hit.

04:38:08.920 Diddy did that to Cassie.

04:38:10.260 Her career was just starting.

04:38:11.720 And then they started dating and it never happened again.

04:38:15.080 No, it's just the guy who kind of...

04:38:17.820 She asked me why you said that.

04:38:19.200 Oh, no, the guy, like, who was, like, wanting to do the photo shoot.

04:38:22.960 And then he...

04:38:24.040 That's what I'm talking about.

04:38:25.280 Like, Darkavy had this thing where, like...

04:38:27.620 Is he Asian?

04:38:28.780 No.

04:38:30.080 Unfortunately.

04:38:30.440 So I didn't look for her.

04:38:31.300 No, there was this guy who was, like...

04:38:33.340 My ex-boyfriend, I was with her for four years.

04:38:36.620 No, I'm Mexican.

04:38:38.440 Yeah, there was this guy who was, like, hey, come do a photo shoot.

04:38:41.420 But it was really, he was, like, trying to date her.

04:38:44.020 And I think that...

04:38:45.340 And he did date.

04:38:48.740 No, but it's, like, you should be up front, you know?

04:38:51.000 Yeah, no, for sure.

04:38:52.220 But so maybe that's one of the concerns these guys have is, like,

04:38:54.520 he knows, like, how these people are in the music industry

04:38:57.080 and they're looking out for you.

04:38:58.640 Well, no, I think it was more so in the aspect that...

04:39:01.880 It was two different things.

04:39:03.700 It was one that he was kind of, like, he also does music.

04:39:07.140 So, like, he was still, like...

04:39:09.480 He'd been doing it for years, but he hasn't had the level of success

04:39:12.360 that these men have had.

04:39:13.720 And the fact that I am a woman and can go around these men

04:39:17.640 who have a higher status in the industry that we both work in,

04:39:20.920 it's kind of, like, a jealousy thing there, too,

04:39:23.260 because it is, like, kind of a concept of, like, him thinking,

04:39:26.320 I'm only there because I'm a woman,

04:39:28.120 but not what I actually bring, you know, to the table.

04:39:31.120 Okay.

04:39:32.700 Do have to move on here with the notes,

04:39:35.560 but Fifth Dimension Princess,

04:39:38.140 you said one time you came out in the music video

04:39:40.220 and the rapper asks for your number.

04:39:42.320 You talked on the phone a few times,

04:39:43.840 asked if you wanted to go bowling with him and a few other people.

04:39:47.140 He picks you up, and you guys stop at a liquor store

04:39:49.480 to buy a bottle in pregame.

04:39:51.360 He gets a bottle of Henny and Coke,

04:39:52.880 and on the way to the bowling alley,

04:39:54.460 someone cuts him off in traffic,

04:39:56.560 and he throws his Henny bottle at a car.

04:40:01.000 He didn't hit the car, but you were like,

04:40:03.120 what the hell?

04:40:04.940 Now we don't have no Henny.

04:40:07.560 We end up arriving at the bowling alley,

04:40:09.420 and once you guys park, he starts doing...

04:40:12.420 What's... I don't know.

04:40:14.780 Why guru?

04:40:16.140 He does the nose thing.

04:40:18.980 Yeah, that thing.

04:40:20.500 And you were like...

04:40:21.600 I was like, why you need to do that to pregame bowling,

04:40:25.180 and then you guys play a few rounds,

04:40:27.440 and you Ubered home because you were not getting in that car again,

04:40:30.460 and then you cut him off.

04:40:31.640 Yeah.

04:40:32.420 Had you guys met up before that, or was that it?

04:40:35.120 Can you scoot the mic just to the edge of the table?

04:40:36.640 And who was he?

04:40:37.260 What was his name?

04:40:37.980 I don't want to say who he was.

04:40:39.300 It's always the case.

04:40:40.400 They're always dating freaking these big-time people,

04:40:43.220 but you never give their names out.

04:40:44.600 It makes me think that it never happened.

04:40:46.300 Was it Plosso?

04:40:47.720 Or that people are just private with their personal emails.

04:40:50.420 Or that they're actually like...

04:40:52.780 It's kind of embarrassing.

04:40:53.640 Or that they're SoundCloud rappers or something like that.

04:40:56.280 No, it's actually kind of embarrassing,

04:40:58.100 like just to even like,

04:40:59.060 did you not hear the circus I said?

04:41:00.340 I did not want my name attached to that man.

04:41:02.920 He got like four or five kids now.

04:41:04.940 We'd make the story really entertaining if we knew who he was.

04:41:06.780 It would so make it...

04:41:08.060 Wait.

04:41:08.980 Plosso...

04:41:09.580 Peso Pluma? 0.84

04:41:11.040 What's his name?

04:41:11.880 No.

04:41:12.840 Do you know who...

04:41:13.220 What's his name?

04:41:14.020 Chat?

04:41:14.620 Peso Pluma is a...

04:41:15.480 Peso Pluma.

04:41:16.280 Was it him?

04:41:16.860 No, I wish.

04:41:17.800 Oh, okay.

04:41:20.000 What do you rate him?

04:41:21.600 Peso Pluma.

04:41:22.520 Is he like a 10?

04:41:23.400 I give him like a 9.

04:41:24.700 You'd be settling for Peso Pluma.

04:41:27.380 Looks-wise?

04:41:28.520 Looks-wise.

04:41:29.340 Yes.

04:41:29.640 Okay, even with his mullet?

04:41:32.380 I like his mullet,

04:41:33.640 but I think I'm still kidding.

04:41:35.860 You said you wanted to talk about polygamy?

04:41:38.140 Yes.

04:41:38.540 Are you polygamist?

04:41:39.460 I'm not polygamist,

04:41:40.880 but I am open to it.

04:41:43.840 Only like in the right situation,

04:41:45.500 like if a man had like multiple girlfriends or wives

04:41:48.940 and he was like providing for all of them,

04:41:50.740 they're all having safe sex. 0.50

04:41:52.000 Like I feel like that's okay. 0.81

04:41:53.120 And everybody's like...

04:41:53.840 So if he's like a really successful,

04:41:57.520 high status guy...

04:41:58.580 Like Genghis Khan or whatever.

04:42:00.340 Genghis Khan. 1.00

04:42:00.960 You would fuck Genghis Khan. 1.00

04:42:02.700 I would. 1.00

04:42:02.980 It would come about it differently.

04:42:05.280 He doesn't speak English though.

04:42:07.120 I mean, I'm...

04:42:07.660 He's also dead.

04:42:08.280 Yeah, I'm saying like somebody like powerful like that.

04:42:11.840 Okay.

04:42:13.140 He's an option.

04:42:14.120 What about Puddin?

04:42:15.540 Like would you smash Puddin?

04:42:17.280 Kind of hot.

04:42:18.240 Whoa, okay, Natasha.

04:42:19.340 And if I was single, if I was single.

04:42:21.640 Oh, because you're in a relationship.

04:42:23.380 And is the guy that you're seeing exclusive with you?

04:42:26.520 He is exclusive with me, yes.

04:42:27.960 But if he wanted to have some side pieces,

04:42:30.020 you wouldn't mind?

04:42:30.540 If he was like making me not work

04:42:35.500 and all the other girls too.

04:42:38.140 Okay.

04:42:38.900 I mean, that is a dynamic, you know?

04:42:40.600 It happens.

04:42:41.480 Yeah, it happens.

04:42:42.800 Oh, we do have a chat coming in here.

04:42:44.440 Then we'll get right back to it.

04:42:45.480 Hero underscore Jake donated $100.

04:42:50.640 I have never slept with a woman, 1.00

04:42:52.740 but once I find the one, 1.00

04:42:54.200 I would take a bullet for her. 0.99

04:42:55.940 I got certified in Krav Maga 0.99

04:42:57.840 to make sure I can protect my future wife.

04:43:01.040 P.S.

04:43:01.860 Dark Havia, you beautiful.

04:43:03.800 35, too old.

04:43:05.260 Oh, hey.

04:43:06.040 It's one man with an A,

04:43:08.240 and he spelled Dark Havia's name wrong.

04:43:08.540 Hey, look at how she's stroking the pickle hopper, too. 1.00

04:43:10.720 But never mind that.

04:43:11.920 Thank you.

04:43:13.220 Are you, is that like the Russian version of Dark Havia? 0.95

04:43:16.780 Is that how do you spell it with an I or a Y?

04:43:18.700 Dark Havia, it's. 1.00

04:43:19.480 It's Dark Havia, so it's spelled D-A-R-K-A-V-I-A. 0.98

04:43:23.400 V-I-A, there it is. 0.98

04:43:25.280 Jake, W's in chat for Jake.

04:43:27.740 Thank you for the TTS, man.

04:43:29.380 Appreciate it. 0.99

04:43:31.920 Wait, take a bullet. 0.99

04:43:34.080 Wait, do you guys think the guy should take the bullet for his girl? 0.99

04:43:36.800 Show of hands.

04:43:37.440 Should the guy take the bullet?

04:43:39.860 Is that everybody?

04:43:41.180 Wait, hold on.

04:43:42.120 How do you guys feel about this statement? 0.92

04:43:44.400 Women should be virgins. 1.00

04:43:51.280 Well, it depends.

04:43:52.100 Are you talking about to be married or just to experience life?

04:43:56.340 I kind of wish I was, but.

04:43:58.060 Like, y'all should wait for the first guy,

04:44:01.100 and that should be the guy you stay with the rest of your life.

04:44:02.960 Mm-mm.

04:44:04.420 Not if they mistreat you, no.

04:44:05.980 Mm-mm.

04:44:06.600 Let's assume there's no abuse in this.

04:44:08.680 Ideally, yes, I agree with that.

04:44:09.820 Oh, yeah.

04:44:10.500 Okay.

04:44:11.480 But it's like.

04:44:12.700 It's not an ideal.

04:44:14.180 And you're right.

04:44:14.920 It's not ideal.

04:44:15.640 That's why she got to take the bullet. 0.98

04:44:17.580 Would you take a bullet for a virgin? 1.00

04:44:19.560 No, whoever has the highest body count has to take the bullet. 1.00

04:44:21.800 No.

04:44:22.400 That was still like.

04:44:22.900 So, did you hear Darkavia?

04:44:24.620 More likely to, yes, but no.

04:44:27.620 Darkavia had a good stance.

04:44:29.080 I said whoever has the highest body count has to take the bullet. 0.90

04:44:33.000 Oh, there you go. 0.64

04:44:33.740 I like that.

04:44:34.120 There you go.

04:44:34.640 I like that one.

04:44:35.140 Oh, that works.

04:44:36.560 Well, no, it's just interesting.

04:44:37.720 So, would you be dead? 0.94

04:44:41.060 Probably. 0.93

04:44:41.640 Just kidding.

04:44:42.760 So, anyways.

04:44:43.900 But it's interesting to me.

04:44:45.180 It's like, you guys, really quick, raise your hand, like no big deal. 0.95

04:44:50.240 You want a dude to die for you.

04:44:53.380 No.

04:44:54.060 But you kind of like raised an eyebrow.

04:44:56.860 It seemed that way.

04:44:58.220 Several times.

04:44:58.540 When I was like, virgin preference.

04:45:02.340 No.

04:45:02.980 Like in an ideal world, I understand that.

04:45:04.960 I just don't think we live in an ideal world.

04:45:06.480 Yeah, sure.

04:45:07.000 Is it likely to get that?

04:45:09.020 No.

04:45:10.720 But, but, I'm just saying.

04:45:13.560 I understand the low body count thing.

04:45:15.240 I agree with it. 0.97

04:45:16.480 But if it's like, y'all are saying men should die. 1.00

04:45:19.400 I should be able to say, y'all should not be fucking all these dudes. 1.00

04:45:24.300 You know what I mean? 0.99

04:45:25.080 You're allowed to say it.

04:45:26.040 You're allowed.

04:45:26.340 Yeah.

04:45:27.520 And I mean, I prefer.

04:45:28.560 Well, I'm sure.

04:45:29.300 I'm allowed.

04:45:30.200 I'm allowed.

04:45:31.020 But women don't have any problem saying men should do X. 1.00

04:45:34.660 Men should do Y. 1.00

04:45:36.080 Men should do Z. 1.00

04:45:37.080 But the moment we men say women should. 1.00

04:45:41.220 Like you might say men should know how to change a tire.

04:45:44.820 You might say that, right?

04:45:45.700 But the moment I say women should go make me a sandwich. 1.00

04:45:51.140 Or women should. 1.00

04:45:52.140 That's what you're saying.

04:45:52.940 Should cook.

04:45:53.800 Like any, you're going to say anytime a guy says a woman should, you're going to be like 1.00

04:45:58.860 that sexist.

04:45:59.740 How dare you?

04:46:01.140 No.

04:46:01.640 Not true.

04:46:02.640 Women should cook and clean. 1.00

04:46:04.320 I'd make you a sandwich if you said please.

04:46:06.740 If you know how to change a tire, the woman should know how to change a diaper. 1.00

04:46:09.300 Unprompted.

04:46:09.640 The sandwich should be unprompted.

04:46:11.300 I think if the man is providing those things and the woman is providing those things, that's 0.99

04:46:14.820 an ideal situation for everybody.

04:46:18.020 I kind of feel like it's easier to be a virgin than it is to take a bullet, though.

04:46:22.880 So it's still not fair.

04:46:24.540 It's never fair.

04:46:25.200 It's really not fair.

04:46:26.760 It's never fair.

04:46:27.680 It's easy to be a virgin than to die.

04:46:29.200 That's fair.

04:46:30.180 Kind of got a point.

04:46:31.120 I feel like you're kind of dying if you're 18 and you sleep with one guy, you stay with

04:46:37.340 him your whole life.

04:46:38.380 Like, life is long.

04:46:39.540 You're going to go to your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s. 1.00

04:46:42.300 Same dude, same penis. 1.00

04:46:44.140 You know what's long? 1.00

04:46:45.600 Like, living your life. 1.00

04:46:46.680 I thought you were going to say the dildo that his fat boyfriend got paid for. 1.00

04:46:49.100 I was going to say that. 0.99

04:46:49.800 You really like the paying.

04:46:50.920 But I just, I feel like there's no way that a virgin man or a virgin woman, they get together, 0.98

04:46:57.020 they're married.

04:46:57.560 I feel like there's no possible way that they have the thought that doesn't cross their 0.98

04:47:01.800 mind every day, damn, I wish I did that. 0.97

04:47:04.060 You know what I mean? 0.99

04:47:04.480 Wait.

04:47:05.060 Can you show me your tattoo?

04:47:06.340 Can you show your tattoo to the screen here?

04:47:08.680 What tattoo?

04:47:08.960 The one on your arm?

04:47:10.740 Me?

04:47:11.100 Yeah, show it to the screen.

04:47:12.460 The Raised by Strong Women one? 0.79

04:47:13.860 Yeah, can you, you're going to have to like turn your, turn your whole body.

04:47:17.460 I love, I get comments on this one a lot.

04:47:20.000 Okay, turn.

04:47:21.620 Sorry, guys.

04:47:22.380 It's supposed to be my mom, my sister, my other sister, and daughter.

04:47:29.220 Get away from the mic.

04:47:31.080 Mom, sister, other sister.

04:47:34.840 It says Raised by Strong Women. 0.57

04:47:37.740 Yeah.

04:47:38.280 Okay.

04:47:38.540 I love my dad.

04:47:39.160 My dad's very strong too.

04:47:40.300 He's a woman? 1.00

04:47:41.580 No, I need to get another tattoo for him.

04:47:43.760 Okay.

04:47:43.980 You should, it should be Raised by Strong Man, singular.

04:47:49.860 Why?

04:47:51.480 You don't think my mom's strong?

04:47:53.700 Is your mom a man?

04:47:56.140 What about her grandpa?

04:47:56.880 But my mom raised me.

04:47:58.760 No, but Raised by Strong Man, you should also, never mind.

04:48:03.740 I don't know.

04:48:04.040 What's the problem?

04:48:06.560 What's your problem?

04:48:07.780 What's the problem?

04:48:08.580 Why don't you like it?

04:48:09.460 You got a problem?

04:48:10.100 Why don't you like it?

04:48:11.460 Women can't be strong. 1.00

04:48:12.420 I didn't say I don't like it.

04:48:12.660 Wait, you don't think my mom's strong?

04:48:15.120 Did I say that?

04:48:17.440 Did I say that? 1.00

04:48:18.080 I'm fucking with you. 1.00

04:48:20.300 Okay, good talk. 1.00

04:48:21.640 Okay, going back to you, you said Fifth Dimension Princess.

04:48:27.500 When are you going to upgrade to Queen? 0.99

04:48:28.920 Fifth Dimension Queen. 0.86

04:48:30.020 I like Fifth Dimension Princess.

04:48:31.580 Maybe when I stop doing music, I'll just get rid of the name.

04:48:34.120 What do you think about Fifth Dimension Duchess? 0.96

04:48:40.820 I don't like it.

04:48:41.420 It doesn't have the same ring to it. 1.00

04:48:42.660 You don't fuck with it? 1.00

04:48:43.460 I like pink and purple, sparkles, crowns. 1.00

04:48:46.060 What about Fifth Dimension Viscount?

04:48:48.440 What is that?

04:48:49.320 You don't know about Viscount?

04:48:50.600 I don't.

04:48:50.800 You don't pronounce the S?

04:48:52.360 It's a Viscount?

04:48:53.460 Yeah, it is a Viscount.

04:48:55.140 Wow.

04:48:55.620 Obviously, the American education system failed me, obviously.

04:49:00.220 You said it's hard because social media dating, it's hard because social media makes it seem

04:49:05.860 like there are so many options and a lot of it is over-sexualized and it's hard to be compared

04:49:09.900 to BBL models.

04:49:11.500 But at the end of the day, the right person is going to love you for who you are and you

04:49:15.300 shouldn't look for love.

04:49:16.760 You should let it find you by being your best and most authentic self.

04:49:21.760 I agree with this. 0.97

04:49:24.100 BBLs are gross. 1.00

04:49:25.220 I am not a fan of BBLs, fake titties, lip filler, natural BBL? 0.99

04:49:31.480 It wouldn't be a BBL.

04:49:31.880 Natural, but really big.

04:49:33.260 Are you saying you don't like big butts or are you just saying he doesn't like the surgery?

04:49:36.080 I don't like the BBL.

04:49:37.740 It's noticeable as well, the BBL.

04:49:39.180 Got it. 0.99

04:49:39.840 Big butt. 1.00

04:49:40.380 It also looks so strange when the thighs are small. 0.97

04:49:42.740 It does.

04:49:43.080 It doesn't contour.

04:49:44.140 It doesn't look great.

04:49:44.880 It looks weird.

04:49:45.800 It just looks like...

04:49:46.980 Natasha, don't you think you've got to earn it?

04:49:49.260 You've got to earn it.

04:49:49.800 Yes.

04:49:50.140 I'm a personal trainer.

04:49:51.220 She's a personal trainer. 1.00

04:49:51.900 It drives me nuts when I see girls on TikTok that are talking about like, here's how you build 0.99

04:49:55.540 a shelf and it's clearly a BBL.

04:49:57.500 It's like, that's fine if you want to do plastic surgery, but don't...

04:50:01.480 Lie to people when you're saying you can get this shelf by doing this.

04:50:05.860 You can build a shelf, but not a BBL.

04:50:09.160 BBLs look insane. 1.00

04:50:10.720 When you don't have good thighs and like thick thighs to back up a big butt, it looks ridiculous. 1.00

04:50:15.620 Anybody here have a BBL? 0.98

04:50:17.440 No.

04:50:18.940 Haha.

04:50:19.980 That's good.

04:50:21.380 Okay.

04:50:22.100 Natasha's notes.

04:50:22.840 I think Natasha's notes, you're pretty much...

04:50:25.700 Yeah, I think you're the last one here.

04:50:27.080 Or wait, no.

04:50:27.620 Milena.

04:50:28.600 Oh, really quick, Milena.

04:50:29.660 There's just one thing from you.

04:50:31.480 You said you want...

04:50:32.640 Oh, wait, we have the dating apps too from Darkavia.

04:50:35.780 Okay, we'll do that dating app, then get into Natasha's notes.

04:50:40.740 Milena, you said that you, in a dating app, you want a man to worship the ground you walk

04:50:45.200 on.

04:50:46.780 Ew.

04:50:47.360 It's like kind of a joke.

04:50:49.580 Oh, okay.

04:50:50.300 It's so hot.

04:50:51.480 I felt like I needed to start raising the bar.

04:50:55.100 I can see that.

04:50:56.360 Yeah, right?

04:50:58.580 You heard about my exes.

04:51:00.060 It's so...

04:51:00.740 Like, the bar's in hell.

04:51:02.320 So I was like, maybe if I put this, like, I'll get someone that's like right below that.

04:51:06.640 You'll get a simp is what you'll get.

04:51:09.100 Okay.

04:51:09.660 All right.

04:51:10.180 I don't really check my dating app.

04:51:11.820 It's more just like a video game.

04:51:13.520 Sure.

04:51:14.060 I haven't met up with anyone.

04:51:15.420 It scares me.

04:51:16.300 Now, look, we need to do Darkavia's dating app right now.

04:51:21.600 We're going to get into it.

04:51:23.220 You don't know somebody's behind it.

04:51:26.420 I sent mine in.

04:51:28.880 You did?

04:51:29.700 Yeah.

04:51:30.860 Oh.

04:51:31.040 I had said that.

04:51:31.780 I don't.

04:51:32.140 It's fine.

04:51:32.840 Do you want me to say...

04:51:33.460 I just said one thing.

04:51:34.900 No, I...

04:51:35.740 It's just this.

04:51:36.680 We already did it.

04:51:37.540 Oh.

04:51:38.460 Next.

04:51:40.100 Hide that for a sec.

04:51:41.280 Like, dropping everything that second and hopping on a plane.

04:51:46.200 Any chance I get also dating to marry?

04:51:49.320 Unusual skills.

04:51:50.180 Okay.

04:51:50.660 Next.

04:51:51.720 Guys, in the chat, this is Darkavia's dating app.

04:51:55.240 She's from...

04:51:56.000 She's from Illinois? 0.93

04:51:59.080 Yeah.

04:51:59.420 Chicago.

04:52:00.680 Chirac?

04:52:01.320 You're from Chirac?

04:52:02.420 Yeah.

04:52:02.920 That explains a lot.

04:52:05.460 Just kidding.

04:52:07.600 Okay.

04:52:08.400 Monogamy.

04:52:09.000 She wants long-term relationship.

04:52:11.280 Preferably with an Asian man. 1.00

04:52:13.400 If any Asian men are watching.

04:52:15.260 Next.

04:52:17.140 She... 1.00

04:52:17.740 Don't hate me if I love bomb you.

04:52:19.780 Okay. 0.66

04:52:20.600 I'm a love bomber.

04:52:21.720 Next.

04:52:23.700 My simple pleasures.

04:52:25.120 Men that look mean but aren't mean.

04:52:27.520 That pick, girl. 1.00

04:52:28.120 Here comes...

04:52:29.220 Oh.

04:52:29.480 I did not mean to press that.

04:52:32.040 Raving, sleeping, eating, exploring.

04:52:34.040 Is there another one or is that it?

04:52:37.680 No, this is that cute.

04:52:38.920 Okay.

04:52:39.640 All right.

04:52:40.320 Is that it?

04:52:41.380 Okay.

04:52:42.120 All right.

04:52:42.600 So, chat.

04:52:43.160 Do you swipe yes, swipe no?

04:52:45.180 Can you explain the you love bomb dudes?

04:52:47.740 I...

04:52:48.140 What is that?

04:52:49.200 I definitely have a problem with love bombing.

04:52:52.740 I do do that often.

04:52:54.060 I try not to.

04:52:55.400 But I just fall so quickly.

04:52:57.120 And that's literally my downfall when it comes to relationships.

04:53:01.060 Like, I do.

04:53:02.220 And I think that also takes part in when I sleep with them.

04:53:05.880 I do fall in love with them.

04:53:07.620 And I...

04:53:08.380 That's why I try not to sleep around.

04:53:10.800 Because I do go into that hole of wanting to be in a relationship as soon as I, like, sleep with them.

04:53:17.220 And obviously, they're not obviously in that mindset.

04:53:20.420 So, I think that's why I love bomb them. 0.92

04:53:23.800 Yeah. 0.98

04:53:23.860 There's nothing wrong with love bombing. 0.99

04:53:25.020 From a woman to a man, it's a great thing.

04:53:27.540 Yeah.

04:53:27.940 I think there was a few slight errors with the...

04:53:29.980 I'm going to critique your dating profile.

04:53:31.940 Okay.

04:53:32.700 So, the first bit where you said, willing to drop everything and get on a plane.

04:53:36.440 That seems like a dog whistle to get flown out.

04:53:38.520 Oh, no, no, no.

04:53:39.140 I said, I love to travel.

04:53:41.060 Like, if I could take anything.

04:53:42.180 If I have my last...

04:53:43.680 Let's say I have, like, only $800 in my bank account.

04:53:46.320 I'm probably going to spend that $800 to just go to Paris.

04:53:49.140 Like, I love to just go and travel.

04:53:51.160 Because I travel my whole life.

04:53:52.620 Like, we never stayed in place.

04:53:52.960 Only a woman can travel to Paris with $800. 1.00

04:53:55.680 Well, I'm just saying.

04:53:56.660 I'm just using it as an example.

04:53:58.120 But I've been to Paris, like, three times.

04:53:59.640 So, like, I just love traveling.

04:54:01.360 So, like, I travel my whole life.

04:54:03.040 And, like, me, I'm on probation now.

04:54:05.340 So, it's hard for me to travel to places.

04:54:07.460 What are you on probation for?

04:54:08.080 What do you do?

04:54:08.540 Just a DUI.

04:54:10.120 Happens.

04:54:10.760 Yeah.

04:54:11.880 So, have you ever been flown out?

04:54:14.380 No, I have never been flown out.

04:54:15.820 Yeah.

04:54:16.040 See, whenever I see that sort of thing on a girl's profile, I'm always like, she's looking for a guy to fly around. 0.85

04:54:19.940 I try to make it more unusual skills.

04:54:21.560 When girls get flown out, it's like... 1.00

04:54:23.000 Because it's like, that's my first priority.

04:54:24.340 I love traveling.

04:54:25.320 If I can just get on a plane and go somewhere.

04:54:28.120 I haven't traveled to New York for 10 days by myself.

04:54:30.180 Like, I will travel on my own.

04:54:32.000 I love traveling.

04:54:32.800 I'd say that from the guy's perspective, they're going to look at that and interpret that as, oh, she's trying to get flown out.

04:54:37.340 Okay. 0.99

04:54:37.600 Get some dick in Paris. 1.00

04:54:38.100 I'll definitely change that. 1.00

04:54:39.560 And the other bit was raving.

04:54:42.360 What do you mean by raving?

04:54:43.160 Like, the music festivals, like EDC or, you know, Beyond Wonderland and those things like that.

04:54:49.180 I love raving because when I started raving, I was about 15 years old.

04:54:53.100 And obviously, I don't do drugs.

04:54:55.600 But it's also that it was the community that made me feel, like, beautiful, I guess.

04:55:00.700 And that's why I love raving, obviously.

04:55:02.900 I think I would grow out of it eventually.

04:55:04.340 But it just, the community is just so beautiful.

04:55:06.960 And it just makes you feel happy.

04:55:09.020 And I know people around me are probably, like, you know, high or whatever.

04:55:12.720 But it just, it just, it makes me feel very warm inside.

04:55:14.980 Yeah, that comes to mind, though.

04:55:15.480 When you see the first impressions of the profile and you see raving, you're like,

04:55:19.280 But I have to also remind you that that's how.

04:55:21.340 Around sweaty peasants and a lot of, like, just, like, a headache as well.

04:55:26.240 If I'm, like, with my village, it's like, I'm going to go rave for three days at some random festival dressed in a rainbow.

04:55:31.140 See, like, where I, where you meet your rave day and you have, like, you meet people that love raving and they love the environment.

04:55:39.740 That's literally how you find people.

04:55:41.760 And I just like people that are into my kind of music, EDM.

04:55:45.740 I like EDM music.

04:55:46.400 What is EDM?

04:55:47.480 Electric music.

04:55:48.600 Electric dance music?

04:55:49.440 Is that what it stands for?

04:55:50.060 Yeah, that's literally what it stands for.

04:55:51.800 So I just like that kind of music and music festivals are the easiest way to express that kind of music with everyone that.

04:55:58.100 And it's a huge, EDM is a huge community.

04:56:00.200 And it's, it's beautiful when you explore those kind of festivals.

04:56:03.520 What kind of guy would you really like to swipe right?

04:56:05.620 What would be your ideal match?

04:56:06.920 Tell me his profile.

04:56:08.500 I would probably say, I'm not, I don't really care about height, but you have to be at least taller than me.

04:56:14.300 Or 5'5", I don't really care.

04:56:16.120 5'5 and above.

04:56:17.020 I would have preference Asian, but I would not turn down anyone else.

04:56:21.160 And when you say Asian, do you mean like Chinese?

04:56:23.900 No, I'm not.

04:56:24.400 I don't really have a, I don't really have a preference.

04:56:26.180 You just like, they're like...

04:56:27.080 I like their, I like their culture.

04:56:28.340 I like how they respect women in ways that American, America doesn't respect women.

04:56:34.520 I like their culture a lot.

04:56:36.620 And how they're raised respectfully.

04:56:38.600 They have high standards on education and how they make that very important.

04:56:42.540 So they make themselves make it like, I need to be this.

04:56:46.100 Practicing violin like five hours in a language.

04:56:48.540 Yeah, basically.

04:56:49.180 Like they're very upteen in how America lacks.

04:56:52.020 And that's why I like about them.

04:56:53.640 And then also it doesn't, but I don't, I want to say that it's just Asians.

04:56:56.700 Like I will, if I like, will talk to men of color or anything like that, like Mexicans. 1.00

04:57:02.920 I go, it's just a preference for Asians, but I will not take men off my roster, like off

04:57:07.320 my roster of like who I would go for just because they're not Asian. 0.99

04:57:11.320 So taller than you, preferably Asian. 1.00

04:57:13.360 What else do you want him to have going on?

04:57:15.040 I would probably see some activities on his profile.

04:57:18.160 You know, like he's like active, you know, like, you know, hiking or surfing.

04:57:23.020 Maybe I hate the ocean, but it'd be cool.

04:57:25.860 Can you swim?

04:57:26.920 Yes, I can swim.

04:57:28.520 I just, yeah.

04:57:29.480 And then like stuff like that on their profile.

04:57:31.680 And then maybe someone with good fashion, stuff like that.

04:57:36.480 But that's preferably what I look for in people that, um, on my profiles when I swipe

04:57:43.540 right or stuff like that.

04:57:44.880 Or some people do swipe on me and like, it's not, I wouldn't say that I do not get my preference

04:57:51.180 on hinge, but I would say that like, it's not exactly my deal, but there's still pretty

04:57:58.220 handsome man that, you know, like it just probably just not what I am going for.

04:58:02.700 So when you were walking around South Korea, you went to Seoul?

04:58:05.520 Did you say you went to Seoul?

04:58:06.040 No, I'm going to Seoul in April for my birthday.

04:58:07.820 Oh, so you haven't ever been to Asia?

04:58:09.480 No, not yet.

04:58:10.420 Where do you want to go?

04:58:11.300 Whereabouts in Asia?

04:58:12.540 Well, I want to, I want to experience Seoul for my birthday and then Japan, I'm going

04:58:16.700 there for, I'm going to go stay there for the whole month.

04:58:19.820 Which part of Japan?

04:58:20.560 Um, probably Tokyo.

04:58:22.260 I want to experience the whole like nightlife and the, you know, like the whole, the party

04:58:26.400 scene in Tokyo, but I also, but when I want to go to Korea, I want to experience their

04:58:30.560 face care, the skincare, like the whole, you know, very beauty standard.

04:58:35.340 That's why I really want to go there.

04:58:36.400 So I can just experience the, like the color analysis and stuff, but the nightlife in Tokyo

04:58:41.300 because I heard it's really cool.

04:58:42.240 It's normally that black guys go for Asian girls, but I've never seen a black girl go for 1.00

04:58:46.800 Asian guys.

04:58:47.520 Oh, I, well, I'm not really traveling to Asia.

04:58:49.920 I just, I really, I really love their culture.

04:58:52.240 I really do.

04:58:52.860 Like I'm even learning Korean because I want to start a business there.

04:58:56.620 So yeah, eventually.

04:58:58.240 They're not very business minded in Korea though.

04:59:01.220 They've got a very strange economic system.

04:59:03.440 Yeah.

04:59:03.640 And they're pretty picky about foreigners starting businesses, but it's definitely possible.

04:59:07.200 So.

04:59:08.100 Yeah.

04:59:08.640 What do you girls think about the profile?

04:59:10.460 Give it your critiques.

04:59:12.360 I like that you had like, I like that you had like a casual like face mask moment.

04:59:16.900 Cause I feel like a lot of guys, not that you're, yeah, that's why I wanted to include

04:59:20.780 a picture of me not wearing makeup.

04:59:22.240 So yeah.

04:59:22.520 But so that they could see what you look like, like authentically without any of the filters,

04:59:26.740 without any of that.

04:59:27.600 I think that's cool.

04:59:28.280 And it shows you're confident.

04:59:30.300 Love that.

04:59:33.360 All right, let's do it.

04:59:35.820 Everybody's type.

04:59:36.520 And you have to get specific on looks, particularly like build your avatar of your perfect man.

04:59:41.660 And then what kind of values and everything as well.

04:59:44.140 Starting with me.

04:59:44.960 Yes.

04:59:45.660 I like really big men, big and strong.

04:59:48.700 I'm athletic.

04:59:49.600 So I usually go for athletes, professional or not.

04:59:54.700 I like lighter eyes.

04:59:58.020 I like somebody who's funny and considerate, who has really good family values.

05:00:02.940 Somebody who's close with their family.

05:00:04.280 Um, smart and doesn't have to be necessarily college educated, but I am.

05:00:11.120 So I would rather have that, but some people can be very intelligent without that.

05:00:15.320 So I like, like witty banter and I typically like foreign. 1.00

05:00:19.200 I don't really like American men. 1.00

05:00:21.000 Which, which foreigners are your favorite?

05:00:22.620 Usually Aussies and Kiwis.

05:00:24.820 We're pretty, we're in demand.

05:00:26.980 You know what I mean?

05:00:27.940 Anyways.

05:00:28.900 Or European. 0.51

05:00:29.920 Yeah.

05:00:31.320 All right.

05:00:31.620 Um, I like them tall, dark and handsome.

05:00:35.160 No, I'm just kidding.

05:00:36.120 No, I'm for real, but I was just kidding about that.

05:00:38.660 But yeah.

05:00:39.760 Uh, I like them to have a good, strong, like family view, like cultural view and stuff.

05:00:45.340 Like, um.

05:00:46.400 Like black guys? 1.00

05:00:47.380 Huh? 0.63

05:00:47.740 You like black guys? 1.00

05:00:48.800 Yeah.

05:00:49.340 Preferably?

05:00:49.840 Or like you would date a white guy or?

05:00:51.560 I never dated a white guy before.

05:00:53.120 Didn't you say you'd date white Brian?

05:00:55.100 I mean, young Brian.

05:00:55.980 I said maybe when he was young.

05:00:58.120 Yeah.

05:00:58.680 Yeah.

05:00:59.040 Like, yeah.

05:00:59.560 Maybe when he was young.

05:01:00.560 Yeah.

05:01:00.780 That's what I said.

05:01:01.640 But that's why I said when I was giving him his rating, I said, me personally, I don't

05:01:06.000 have like a, my personal rating for you, but I feel like you are a good looking man for

05:01:11.300 like white girls or. 1.00

05:01:12.660 If you had to name one of the rappers or something.

05:01:14.580 Yeah.

05:01:15.000 Girls who like, like, I don't feel like I'm his type either.

05:01:17.680 Like.

05:01:17.700 One of the, one of like the rappers or athletes or something who's most physically attractive.

05:01:21.280 Who would it be?

05:01:22.160 Oh, for rappers.

05:01:23.540 I don't know.

05:01:24.280 I've, I'm friends with a lot of the ones that like a lot of girls would like really choose 0.96

05:01:28.120 and stuff like that.

05:01:28.940 Like I've turned down a lot of the ones that like, you know, girls would normally choose.

05:01:33.640 But, um, I would say I have dated like professional athletes, things like that.

05:01:38.520 Like I played basketball all through college.

05:01:40.600 And so, you know, I got my championship ring on things like that.

05:01:43.020 Like, so I played like, even like, you know, at different levels, I, I wasn't like a WNBA

05:01:48.840 player, but I did play like in professional leagues.

05:01:51.220 But when you, if you had to choose one guy.

05:01:53.760 One guy for me.

05:01:54.340 If it's like a rapper, you could say like Usher or something like that before the PDD scandal.

05:01:58.380 I choose a singer.

05:01:59.600 But, um.

05:02:00.380 He raps, doesn't he?

05:02:01.280 No.

05:02:02.360 The most he ever rapped was R-A-Y-M-O-N-D. 0.99

05:02:06.460 That's really what you want to do.

05:02:07.660 That's the most he ever rapped.

05:02:09.160 Like, but, um, I would probably, honestly, I would go with, I think I would go with an

05:02:14.660 athlete over a musician, just personally.

05:02:18.100 How about you, Fifth Dimension Princess?

05:02:19.960 My type is a creative genius and tatted.

05:02:25.280 What kind of, what kind of creative, like, as in, like, does video games or as in like

05:02:29.780 musician?

05:02:30.020 No, like, I like, well, I like music a lot.

05:02:32.180 So music, creative genius, it can be, you know, Picasso.

05:02:36.380 Like, I did Pablo Picasso.

05:02:38.260 Yeah.

05:02:39.160 He was a, you know, good-looking fella.

05:02:41.440 Pablo Picasso.

05:02:43.240 Um, I don't know if he was good-looking, but I like his art.

05:02:46.960 And I would want to be his muse.

05:02:48.840 Gotcha.

05:02:50.880 Um, I would like a man that can not get intimidated by me and let me be whoever I am without taking

05:03:00.180 that personally. 1.00

05:03:01.720 And someone that can really, truly knows how to fuck a woman. 1.00

05:03:05.940 Um, fair enough. 1.00

05:03:10.640 Same answer?

05:03:12.480 You?

05:03:12.680 No.

05:03:14.740 Um, I go for guys that are, um, average white guys, I guess.

05:03:22.500 Like, I like facial hair.

05:03:23.840 I like strong arms.

05:03:25.840 Um, not like, not super tall.

05:03:28.200 Maybe like five, five, um, five, four, five, six.

05:03:32.220 And then I really appreciate a guy who has drive and who knows how to get things done and is

05:03:41.640 a leader and is humble and is, um, a man of God.

05:03:46.040 Um, I also want someone that believes in a loving God.

05:03:52.840 I don't care what it is as long as it's a loving God.

05:03:55.580 Um.

05:03:56.040 What if it's Satan?

05:03:56.980 A loving God?

05:03:59.280 Oh, never mind.

05:03:59.720 Some people think that Satan is, yeah.

05:04:01.900 Anyways.

05:04:02.360 Um, at least like five, ten.

05:04:06.300 Um, I want them to have, like, goals, something they're passionate about.

05:04:11.500 I need them to have trauma because a big thing for me is to feel understood.

05:04:16.060 And I feel like if they haven't, like, experienced, um, like, hardship in life, they're not going

05:04:21.120 to really understand me.

05:04:22.220 Um, but, like, also has taken the time and effort to, like, heal and become, um, like, 0.98

05:04:31.640 get their shit together. 0.74

05:04:32.660 What if they don't have any trauma but they can still understand you? 0.99

05:04:35.580 I don't think they'll, like, really understand.

05:04:39.380 Um, also, tattoos, I don't want them, I'm a personal trainer too and I don't want them

05:04:44.480 to be into the gym because I like to have, yeah, I like having my own thing.

05:04:48.640 You want to be the hot one?

05:04:49.260 Um, no, it's more so, I've noticed that guys that are, like, really into weightlifting

05:04:54.380 specifically, um, have, like, unhealthily massive egos.

05:04:59.960 Um, so if they, like, are into being fit and taking care of their body, that's great.

05:05:04.720 But I don't want them to be like me where they go to the gym every day for, like, three

05:05:09.080 hours.

05:05:10.420 I love a dad bod, honestly.

05:05:14.180 Tattoos, tall.

05:05:16.340 And then, Doc Avery, you like her little Asian man? 1.00

05:05:18.800 She's dying of an ass. 1.00

05:05:20.460 See, I just, like, that's a preference, but I will not take anyone else off the thing. 1.00

05:05:26.020 Little Asian man that you can blindfold with the shirtless. 1.00

05:05:27.480 I think the only people I probably won't date, no offense, is probably white men and black 0.99

05:05:30.760 men. 0.82

05:05:31.580 Because I'm half black and half white and I want my children to be very biracial.

05:05:36.380 So anything that I'm not, I would go for them, basically.

05:05:40.440 Okay.

05:05:42.260 Should we do what we're looking for and just move on?

05:05:45.140 I think we can probably move on.

05:05:46.360 Come on, come on. 0.99

05:05:47.200 You guys gotta go.

05:05:48.200 Yeah.

05:05:48.460 Tell us your types.

05:05:49.300 Okay, I'll be quick then.

05:05:50.140 Go ahead, Jake.

05:05:50.540 I'd say, uh, she has to be a Christian, first and foremost.

05:05:53.860 Uh, and she has to be submissive. 0.99

05:05:55.920 She has to be cute. 1.00

05:05:56.680 She has to be someone who does, who's not lazy, like I said before, someone who can sort 1.00

05:06:01.760 of get, get things done if she needs to. 0.93

05:06:03.660 She has to be personable and get along with my family and that sort of thing. 1.00

05:06:08.100 And not be a pain in my ass. 0.99

05:06:09.980 Be peaceful and understand who the boss is. 1.00

05:06:13.540 All right.

05:06:14.500 I'll, I'll just do looks and personality.

05:06:16.260 I'll try to be more, uh, briefer than I usually am.

05:06:20.300 Uh, okay.

05:06:21.760 Any race is fine.

05:06:23.260 Slight.

05:06:23.620 I mean, it's difficult for kids, like an Amazon woman would be good, but like my actual 1.00

05:06:30.360 preference is for short women. 1.00

05:06:32.980 So it's like, I'm in this, like, you say your preference is for sure.

05:06:35.980 Women short, short women, like I prefer like short petite women, like in terms of like 1.00

05:06:43.700 what I think I like looks good, I guess.

05:06:46.700 Yeah. 1.00

05:06:47.220 Five, six is like my limit, but no, I'll shit. 0.99

05:06:49.720 I'll go six, nine, bro. 0.99

05:06:51.160 Six, 10.

05:06:51.880 I'll do the seven.

05:06:52.680 So then you're not in the club, basically.

05:06:54.440 What do you mean?

05:06:54.900 You said you, you like short women. 0.98

05:06:56.640 I thought you were one of us.

05:06:58.780 Wait, you like short women or you don't like short women? 0.99

05:07:00.960 Well, here, I'm thinking like for the kids.

05:07:02.940 Oh.

05:07:03.740 For breeding.

05:07:04.640 So you, so you want, so you want the lady from Game of Thrones. 1.00

05:07:08.100 Like, I'm thinking like, I want on one hand, like what I find the most appealing, like

05:07:13.660 dating wise, and then I'm going to be on sex wise, like short.

05:07:18.880 Although petite, you want to be able to pick them up and throw them around like a, like 0.93

05:07:23.880 a tall, like if she, cause look, I'm a white guy, right? 0.99

05:07:28.220 Like the penis is average. 0.99

05:07:29.480 Okay. 1.00

05:07:30.340 If her, if her shit is too big, it's like hard to get up in there, you know? 1.00

05:07:37.400 Okay. 1.00

05:07:37.800 I'm just being cringe now. 0.92

05:07:39.860 So anyway, I don't know if the like thunder thighs, that's too much for a white man. 0.80

05:07:45.440 Oh, so you're like little girls. 0.74

05:07:47.100 Huh?

05:07:47.420 Not like that.

05:07:48.000 Not like that.

05:07:48.400 Not like that.

05:07:49.120 Like you like petite in general.

05:07:51.540 Petite women. 0.99

05:07:52.180 Not just short, but not just.

05:07:53.580 But the thing is, once you start getting short, then they get kind of stocky.

05:07:56.920 Then they get like, there's the short, thick girl, but then there's like the short petite 1.00

05:08:02.120 and then there's like average height petite. 1.00

05:08:04.820 And then there's like above average height petite. 1.00

05:08:07.520 Yeah.

05:08:07.700 I'll take short, average height petite. 1.00

05:08:09.620 Yeah. 0.99

05:08:10.340 But then if I'm thinking about like my kids, I want some fucking warrior sons. 0.98

05:08:14.740 So I'm like looking at that thick girl who's like, you know what I mean? 0.98

05:08:19.280 And then like the kids, but then like my, I can't get in there properly, bro.

05:08:24.520 If you have sons, though, they'll probably be about your height.

05:08:27.900 Normally, normally boys are taller than their dad or the same height.

05:08:31.160 So if you have sons, you're pretty tall.

05:08:33.120 I think you'll be six foot one.

05:08:34.680 Yeah.

05:08:34.900 Yeah.

05:08:35.180 But like if like a 4'11 girl, don't get me wrong.

05:08:39.740 Like I'm crazy about that, but I'm just thinking about the kids.

05:08:42.860 3'11 even, bro.

05:08:43.880 But I'll do you a dwarf.

05:08:45.700 Yeah.

05:08:45.980 I'll do you a dwarf. 0.96

05:08:46.200 Some dwarfs are bad, bro. 1.00

05:08:47.400 I will do a dwarf. 0.97

05:08:47.840 They're a bit too stocky though.

05:08:49.140 And then let's see.

05:08:50.860 I don't, natural, natural.

05:08:53.300 No BBL, no lipo, no lip filler, no fake titties. 0.55

05:08:58.940 Give me a little belly fat over lipo belly. 1.00

05:09:01.360 Give me a no ass over giant BBL. 1.00

05:09:04.940 A nice ass is nice. 1.00

05:09:06.000 Don't get me wrong. 0.99

05:09:07.600 But BBL, don't like it. 0.99

05:09:09.080 So give me a small ass over that. 1.00

05:09:10.660 But, you know, whatever. 1.00

05:09:12.140 Oh, labia. 0.92

05:09:13.120 If she's got the labiaplasty, that's a tragedy. 1.00

05:09:16.940 Crime against humanity, hey?

05:09:18.880 Literally, if I was president, the first thing I'd do, executive order. 1.00

05:09:24.740 Plastic surgery only for people like who need that shit. 1.00

05:09:29.760 Like burn victims. 1.00

05:09:30.480 You want some giant triple D titties? 1.00

05:09:34.200 Nah, bro. 0.97

05:09:35.700 Nah.

05:09:36.220 It's done.

05:09:37.160 It's over.

05:09:39.160 Plastic surgeons in jail. 1.00

05:09:43.360 Anesthesiologists who do that shit for plastic surgeons in jail. 1.00

05:09:47.180 Straight to jail. 1.00

05:09:48.020 Avuela.

05:09:49.240 It's not worth it.

05:09:50.740 It's the audio's still not. 0.99

05:09:52.700 Damn, bro. 0.99

05:09:53.980 Whatever. 1.00

05:09:54.560 I want to press it.

05:09:56.340 Yeah, big labia matter. 1.00

05:09:57.700 Any big labia supporters at the table?

05:10:02.620 I support our women.

05:10:06.340 Natasha, are you a team big labia matter?

05:10:11.260 Okay, good talk.

05:10:13.200 Oh, personality.

05:10:14.360 I mean, we already talked about it.

05:10:15.380 Peace.

05:10:16.520 Submissive.

05:10:17.520 She has to bow.

05:10:20.620 Like when she walks in the room.

05:10:22.260 All right, play the bow video really quick.

05:10:24.320 Play it really quick.

05:10:24.700 The bow video. 1.00

05:10:25.460 Jake's like, fuck this shit. 1.00

05:10:27.880 I've seen this shit too many times. 1.00

05:10:29.800 We got a chat. 1.00

05:10:31.380 All right, go ahead.

05:10:31.820 Play it.

05:10:35.560 Boom.

05:10:36.240 Huge bow.

05:10:37.520 This is the video I took of my ex-girlfriend so I could teach my next girlfriend what to do.

05:10:42.080 Oh, my God.

05:10:43.720 Because I was like, I need to show her.

05:10:45.740 Because if I explain it with words, she just won't get it.

05:10:49.280 Because women are very visual creatures. 1.00

05:10:51.960 So I think, you know.

05:10:53.320 Creature.

05:10:54.040 Yes.

05:10:55.240 You know, my dinner's ready.

05:10:56.480 I come home from a long. 1.00

05:10:57.860 I did have to scold her because she had fake tits. 1.00

05:11:00.280 So I was kind of upset by that. 0.99

05:11:02.840 I was going to say her boobs look nice. 0.98

05:11:04.600 They look nice, but they were fake. 0.94

05:11:07.980 So that's why I broke up with her, actually.

05:11:10.000 Because she deceived me.

05:11:11.240 No, there's no way that's her ex-girlfriend.

05:11:13.220 Play it again.

05:11:13.660 One more time.

05:11:14.940 Just the bow.

05:11:16.560 Boom.

05:11:17.040 Huge bow.

05:11:17.500 Look at that angle.

05:11:18.860 Amazing.

05:11:19.900 It could have been deeper.

05:11:21.340 I did have to scold her.

05:11:25.460 That's a good talk.

05:11:26.980 Her head should be touching her toes, to be honest.

05:11:28.840 That is a good point.

05:11:29.820 I was going to say, I can touch my toes.

05:11:32.080 And, oh, we have a message here from Hero Jake.

05:11:35.240 Hero underscore Jake donated $100.

05:11:39.080 Brian, I am with you.

05:11:40.440 I would rather 90-year-old Silver Fox over 22-year-old Beryl. 0.99

05:11:45.640 Why are those the only two options?

05:11:46.260 Not the grandma.

05:11:47.320 Yeah.

05:11:47.780 I feel like.

05:11:48.820 I get it.

05:11:49.360 I get what he's saying, though.

05:11:50.600 Like, I'll take a girl with no. 1.00

05:11:52.520 Like, here's the two options.

05:11:54.680 Like, here's her. 1.00

05:11:56.520 This is her ass. 1.00

05:11:58.220 Straight line. 1.00

05:11:59.760 She's a surfboard. 1.00

05:12:02.260 Versus perfect BBL.

05:12:04.980 I'll take the straight line.

05:12:07.080 So, the BBL looked natural.

05:12:08.960 Like, you didn't know it was.

05:12:10.060 If the BBL looked natural.

05:12:11.400 You can tell. 0.99

05:12:12.380 What about the shots in the ass? 1.00

05:12:13.900 Still bad. 1.00

05:12:15.400 Like, the fat transfer.

05:12:17.040 The fat transfer or whatever.

05:12:18.200 I thought that's what the BBL is.

05:12:19.660 Oh, I know. 0.87

05:12:19.800 I thought the ass shots is, like, the. 0.99

05:12:22.060 No, you could do, like, the literal implants. 0.99

05:12:23.860 There's, like, implants, and then there's the fat transfer.

05:12:25.440 Because, have you ever seen the video that went viral of the girl's implants that flipped?

05:12:28.740 But aren't those called implants, though?

05:12:29.980 Oh, my gosh. 0.98

05:12:31.280 BBL is a Brazilian butt lift, so they're taking fat from other parts of your body and sticking it in your butt. 0.99

05:12:36.680 It's terrible. 0.97

05:12:37.180 I have no idea.

05:12:38.240 Neither do I.

05:12:39.160 It's crazy.

05:12:39.980 Oh, yeah.

05:12:40.560 It grossed me out.

05:12:41.400 Just the personality.

05:12:43.000 I mean, just peace, submissive, feminine, pleasant. 0.96

05:12:46.660 That's it.

05:12:47.280 That's all I need.

05:12:48.240 Oh, and acts of service.

05:12:50.340 I forgot that.

05:12:50.880 That's, like, huge.

05:12:51.800 Is that your love language?

05:12:53.040 I need acts of service.

05:12:55.240 Do you give acts of service?

05:12:56.180 No.

05:12:56.600 What love language do you give?

05:12:58.320 None of them.

05:12:59.020 Oh.

05:13:00.460 I am the table.

05:13:02.700 Okay.

05:13:03.700 Natasha.

05:13:04.240 Bottom of the barrel.

05:13:04.980 What do I bring to the table?

05:13:07.240 I am the table.

05:13:08.400 You think I...

05:13:10.140 My presence...

05:13:11.780 My presence is what she gets.

05:13:14.320 Brings a lip gloss to the table.

05:13:15.660 My presence is what she gets, obviously.

05:13:18.080 Okay.

05:13:18.740 All right.

05:13:19.040 Let's get to Natasha's notes here.

05:13:20.420 By the way, Natasha, you posted an Instagram story.

05:13:25.060 And at the very bottom, very...

05:13:26.960 I saw this.

05:13:28.380 It writes, very small.

05:13:32.080 I'm about to make roasting men my whole personality.

05:13:36.840 JK, parentheses, JK, it already was.

05:13:40.020 Natasha, I'm a little disappointed.

05:13:45.260 You didn't like it?

05:13:46.520 I'm waiting for more of the roasting.

05:13:50.400 Not much to roast.

05:13:51.920 Really?

05:13:52.720 There wasn't?

05:13:54.040 It's not, it's not like a...

05:13:55.240 Close, into the mic.

05:13:57.020 Like, roasting in terms of, like, banter.

05:13:59.180 But I feel like where we started, it wasn't banter.

05:14:01.800 It was just crossing a line, so I wasn't going to engage.

05:14:04.120 Wait, what was the line crossing?

05:14:06.360 Earlier.

05:14:07.000 We don't need to revisit it.

05:14:08.160 We've gotten better as time has gone on.

05:14:10.800 What, what line was crossed?

05:14:12.900 I said it multiple times.

05:14:14.400 I'm not going to revisit it.

05:14:17.620 You got, you got...

05:14:18.920 Like, you said you...

05:14:19.920 You're stonewalling, bro. 1.00

05:14:20.440 Like, you said that you wouldn't appreciate if somebody talked bad about your father,

05:14:24.080 but you made a comment about my mother.

05:14:25.820 And that was it for me.

05:14:26.860 You did.

05:14:27.420 What did I say?

05:14:28.880 I'm not going to repeat it.

05:14:29.840 It was rude.

05:14:32.440 I didn't insult your mother.

05:14:34.520 You did.

05:14:35.140 How did I do it?

05:14:35.940 I'm not going to repeat it.

05:14:36.800 I just said that.

05:14:37.360 Which is fine.

05:14:38.680 We moved past it.

05:14:39.580 You made the claim.

05:14:40.460 I do think you crossed a boundary that she said multiple times with one to end the conversation.

05:14:46.280 Five times specifically.

05:14:47.520 Hold on.

05:14:49.120 So, I come on a podcast and where there's going to be an expectation that you're going to have conversations.

05:14:56.760 Like...

05:14:56.920 Right, but it doesn't mean it's a free for all.

05:14:58.580 Everything's on the table.

05:14:59.100 To be the host of the podcast and continuing a conversation.

05:15:02.220 Like, if every girl here was like, you could literally hijack my podcast and just say, I don't want to talk about that, to every single thing. 1.00

05:15:11.040 Would it be crossing a boundary if I was like, no, fuck you. 1.00

05:15:15.760 You came on this podcast. 1.00

05:15:17.500 I want to talk about this.

05:15:18.860 Is that crossing a boundary?

05:15:21.140 There was an instance where you crossed...

05:15:22.960 Remember your name?

05:15:23.840 We're allowed to say we want to change the subject.

05:15:25.200 Jill.

05:15:25.420 How is it a boundary?

05:15:26.640 It's not...

05:15:27.300 You crossed a boundary with Jill, too.

05:15:28.780 She said she didn't want to talk about body count and things like that with her sexual past multiple times.

05:15:32.800 I think exploring the reasons why isn't crossing a boundary.

05:15:37.380 Right, but it is once you get to a certain point where she says she's uncomfortable a couple times and has...

05:15:41.980 So, shifting the question...

05:15:43.380 Hold on.

05:15:44.200 So, trying to ask, like, a different question that's perhaps walked back a little bit to try to, like, actually flesh out the conversation at hand is not crossing a boundary.

05:15:56.080 I guess our consideration of boundaries is different.

05:15:59.540 If she explicitly said something bothered...

05:16:00.640 Well, I have a boundary that I don't like people...

05:16:02.300 Okay, but are you going to let me finish or are you going to let me answer?

05:16:04.100 Go ahead.

05:16:04.420 Go ahead.

05:16:05.640 She expressed multiple...

05:16:06.960 I'm sorry to use you, but this is just my opinion from the outside, is that she had said multiple times something specific bothered her and you kept asking her about it in the same way that when I said something specifically bothered me.

05:16:17.700 And we could talk about all the things leading up to it, but there was a point where I said this bothers me and this is my boundary.

05:16:22.500 And you then asked me five more times about it.

05:16:25.000 But that's a boundary.

05:16:26.840 That's just...

05:16:27.880 People have boundaries.

05:16:28.380 So, you might disagree with my boundary, but it doesn't mean that it's not my boundary.

05:16:32.560 I have a boundary about people stonewalling on my podcast.

05:16:36.180 You crossed my boundary multiple times.

05:16:39.140 So, now do I have the right to feel aggrieved because you crossed one of my boundaries?

05:16:43.700 Of course.

05:16:44.400 Who's to say...

05:16:46.460 You never said something is a boundary.

05:16:48.400 If I'm on a podcast and I'm asking a question, my boundary is that I want people to, like, in good faith engage in the conversation and not stonewall. 1.00

05:16:58.300 That's my boundary.

05:16:59.320 Which I did.

05:16:59.740 So, are you grieving me or am I grieving you?

05:17:01.680 Which I did for the rest of the time, but I said explicitly one thing was a boundary and I said it explicitly in the moment and you still pushed it.

05:17:08.420 But you never once told me something bothered you and was your boundary or I would have stopped.

05:17:11.760 Bro, if I recall, we were having a discussion about...

05:17:17.760 You just literally stonewalled because when it came to... 0.98

05:17:20.880 I think it was the conversation about World War II.

05:17:23.580 And you know I literally checkmated you.

05:17:26.260 And I was like, you said... 0.99

05:17:27.740 And then you fucking gaslit and said, oh, I didn't say that. 0.99

05:17:31.080 You literally said, World War... 0.99

05:17:32.700 When we were talking about male grievances, we brought up World War I, World War II.

05:17:37.600 And then you said, oh, but that was a long time ago.

05:17:40.340 Ergo, it doesn't matter.

05:17:41.860 And then I was like, okay, well, then slavery happened a long time ago.

05:17:44.680 Does it not matter?

05:17:45.700 And then you knew I checkmated you.

05:17:47.700 And then you created this boundary to try to be evasive and not admit that you made it...

05:17:52.560 That wasn't even what I was talking about.

05:17:53.680 The thing with World War I, that was the beginning of my sentence, like I said.

05:17:57.100 And the rest was what I was saying.

05:17:58.920 But I wasn't even talking about that instance.

05:18:00.420 I was talking about the first instance.

05:18:02.180 That I didn't say like, this is a boundary and you've hurt me, you've upset me, whatever.

05:18:06.540 That was from the first conversation.

05:18:08.660 And then you still kept pushing.

05:18:09.880 I didn't care about the trench foot thing.

05:18:11.160 But it's not...

05:18:11.940 Okay, if we're having a conversation about...

05:18:14.560 I think it all stemmed from possibly child support.

05:18:18.640 We were talking about child support.

05:18:20.140 And then like, I'm trying to engage you in thoughts and ideas.

05:18:24.060 And then I'm trying to...

05:18:25.400 And you gave an anecdotal.

05:18:27.880 Because I was talking in generalities, you immediately go to a personal anecdote.

05:18:32.200 So when I try to like intellectually investigate your worldview and your personal anecdote,

05:18:37.320 if you don't give me enough space to actually investigate it,

05:18:41.100 then it just shuts down the entire conversation.

05:18:43.740 You brought it up.

05:18:45.100 I was trying to suss out the degree, like the nature of the conversation.

05:18:49.420 I was trying to suss out the nature of your anecdote.

05:18:53.340 And you're just like, well, I'm not going to give you like certain details.

05:18:55.760 It's like, well, okay.

05:18:56.560 Then I don't have a full comprehensive understanding of your anecdotal experience.

05:19:03.460 I agree.

05:19:04.320 And I had said that that was a boundary once we got deeper into that conversation.

05:19:08.400 And I...

05:19:09.080 What?

05:19:10.140 What did I do?

05:19:11.240 I just said, because you had said something that was insulting about my mother.

05:19:14.420 So at that point, I was done with the conversation.

05:19:17.140 And then you then asked me five more times about it.

05:19:19.880 I did not ask you five times.

05:19:22.160 Okay.

05:19:25.920 I maybe asked you different questions.

05:19:28.620 You pushed it five different times.

05:19:31.360 Asking me about the child support thing.

05:19:34.320 And I had explicitly...

05:19:35.080 You brought up the anecdote.

05:19:36.720 Right, but I explicitly said it's a boundary.

05:19:39.120 So if I'm explicitly...

05:19:39.680 Then why did you bring it up?

05:19:40.800 I'm sorry.

05:19:41.360 You brought it up.

05:19:42.140 I had said there were three of us at this table that had a child support issue that

05:19:46.760 negated what you said.

05:19:48.020 So I said, our personal experience does not reflect your opinion, which is fine.

05:19:52.680 That's our experience.

05:19:54.420 But then you were asking the personal comment about it.

05:19:57.140 So I explained from there.

05:19:58.820 But there is always a boundary with somebody about something that bothers them.

05:20:02.340 So of course, we could talk up until that point.

05:20:04.600 But when I'm expressly telling you something bothers me, and you're negating that because

05:20:08.840 you don't agree with it, that doesn't mean it doesn't bother me.

05:20:11.260 And that doesn't mean that it's not my boundary just because you don't respect it.

05:20:15.880 I would love to see the clip back because while to be charitable, I was investigating your

05:20:24.160 worldview and I was asking you different questions related to your anecdote.

05:20:30.900 However, I think you're being disingenuous to say that I asked you the same exact question

05:20:37.420 five times.

05:20:38.220 I didn't say the same exact question.

05:20:39.840 You're trying to paint it like it was a super clear cut.

05:20:43.940 Like I asked you a question and then you made it as abundantly clear as possible that I

05:20:49.600 don't want to talk about this.

05:20:50.780 This is a boundary.

05:20:53.900 What?

05:20:54.480 You did ask multiple times.

05:20:55.160 You did ask multiple times.

05:20:56.360 We all saw it.

05:20:56.960 I mean, we all were sitting there.

05:20:57.420 But I didn't ask the same question.

05:20:59.260 I never said it.

05:20:59.720 My verbatim was not you asked me the same question on repeat, on repeat, on repeat.

05:21:04.220 I said you pushed the issue several times.

05:21:06.880 Because I'm exploring your worldview.

05:21:09.640 I get that's your job.

05:21:10.520 I get you're trying to get a reaction.

05:21:11.780 I get you're trying to get information.

05:21:12.380 But if I'm explicitly telling you a boundary, just like anything in life, if someone is

05:21:18.880 expressly telling you something bothers them, you don't get to determine it doesn't.

05:21:22.720 That's me.

05:21:23.840 That bothers me.

05:21:24.680 If you told me me talking about trench foot really bothered you, I would have stopped.

05:21:29.040 We were having a conversation.

05:21:29.880 Bro, but now you're being completely disingenuous.

05:21:32.680 I'm not.

05:21:33.220 You're literally, yes, you're trying to say it's just about the trench foot, though.

05:21:37.620 We were talking broadly about World War I and World War II.

05:21:40.980 We actually were talking about abortion, and then it kind of got over there.

05:21:44.840 But yes.

05:21:45.420 Well, that's where it went.

05:21:46.280 Yeah.

05:21:46.620 Yeah.

05:21:47.740 And then.

05:21:48.740 I'm saying it's not comparable.

05:21:49.900 When I tested your logic, you just shut down and you stonewalled. 1.00

05:21:53.940 No, I'm.

05:21:54.740 Okay.

05:21:55.740 I'm saying once you hit a nerve and really said something that upset me about my mother,

05:22:01.840 at that point, I was not wanting to engage.

05:22:05.440 I thought it was disrespectful.

05:22:07.020 I said it was a boundary and you crossed it.

05:22:09.020 So for a bit there, I was upset because I thought it was disrespectful.

05:22:13.740 So I took a back seat.

05:22:15.660 It just seemed argumentative and hyper-focused on me at that point.

05:22:19.480 And then we got past it.

05:22:20.720 And we've had a pleasant conversation and disagreements and agreements throughout.

05:22:24.340 But I'm saying what you said about my mother was a hard pass for me.

05:22:28.560 Just like you said, if somebody said something to your dad or hurt your dad, it would be a

05:22:31.920 hard pass for you.

05:22:32.720 That's a boundary.

05:22:34.380 Everybody has different boundaries.

05:22:35.500 You don't have to agree with it.

05:22:36.340 That was mine.

05:22:37.020 And I made it clear.

05:22:37.840 Yeah.

05:22:38.120 Except I didn't say anything about your mother.

05:22:40.380 I was asking.

05:22:41.240 No, I was asking clarifying questions.

05:22:44.640 Asking a question isn't the same as like, it's not the same as saying your mother is X.

05:22:51.280 If I'm asking you a clarifying question about the scenarios surrounding that incident, that's

05:22:57.140 not saying something about your mother.

05:22:59.940 You did though.

05:23:01.700 And somebody, I don't know.

05:23:02.660 What did I say?

05:23:03.280 From the conversation, from what I remember, we were having this conversation about this

05:23:07.840 situation that you were in.

05:23:09.100 And he was asking clarifying questions saying, and then he said that there are cases out there

05:23:14.260 where the women have said X and Y to the courts in order to get custody of the child. 0.65

05:23:18.660 But he never actually said that your mother did that.

05:23:21.200 But he said, we'll never know.

05:23:22.180 I think that's how it ended.

05:23:23.240 And I said, which is implying that she did.

05:23:25.740 And then he kept going with it.

05:23:27.300 And so at that point, I'm not going to engage because that was what was implied.

05:23:30.340 And I don't respect that.

05:23:33.580 You don't have to agree.

05:23:34.820 That's just my opinion.

05:23:35.260 Okay.

05:23:35.360 How did that cross your boundary?

05:23:36.840 I don't necessarily think you did.

05:23:39.080 I think we kind of got to the point where it was all the information was needed and we

05:23:44.540 didn't need to go any further with that.

05:23:46.160 I don't think that.

05:23:47.000 I think I asked you maybe once or twice, but I don't feel like it was not respected.

05:23:54.720 Okay.

05:23:55.220 I mean, look, I'm the host of the podcast.

05:23:57.180 It's my job to get to the bottom of this stuff when it comes to dating, et cetera.

05:24:02.180 These conversations, sometimes we're having heated exchanges.

05:24:06.000 We're talking, sometimes we're talking about serious subjects matter.

05:24:08.740 However, it's kind of my job as the host to like investigate those sorts of things.

05:24:15.140 I mean, it is what it is, but whatever.

05:24:17.580 I wasn't upset.

05:24:19.540 Okay.

05:24:20.560 That's cool.

05:24:22.160 So I guess we'll go back to the notes then.

05:24:25.900 I don't know exactly where we left off, but oh, right.

05:24:29.880 It was your story.

05:24:30.860 You said you wanted to roast men.

05:24:32.980 So what do you mean by that? 0.74

05:24:37.300 You're about to make roasting men your whole personality, but that already is your personality.

05:24:44.060 What do you roast men about?

05:24:50.180 I said when it's healthy banter, I think that's fun, which is what I think having a conversation

05:24:56.380 is.

05:24:57.160 Healthy banter and like roasting each other can be fun when you disagree.

05:25:02.040 But like I said, at that point, it was not banter and it wasn't roasting.

05:25:06.900 It was just rude.

05:25:08.580 It was rude.

05:25:10.240 Yes.

05:25:10.820 It was disrespectful.

05:25:11.940 I said I had a boundary and you kept pushing it.

05:25:13.840 I mean, we don't need to do the same conversation several times.

05:25:16.240 I just said that.

05:25:17.040 Well, I don't look, I don't commit every single conversation on the show that I have to memory.

05:25:22.460 I'd be interested to look back at it to see the truth of the matter.

05:25:25.720 But anyways, we'll move on from that.

05:25:28.000 Master debater.

05:25:28.840 Thank you, man.

05:25:29.180 Master underscore debater donated $100.

05:25:33.200 Stonewall Jacqueline, if you can't take the heat, go back to the kitchen. 0.99

05:25:38.100 Brian, don't let the strumpets gaslight you.

05:25:42.080 Who knows?

05:25:42.900 Who knows?

05:25:43.260 Thank you for the TTS, though.

05:25:44.920 I do appreciate it.

05:25:46.720 I do appreciate it.

05:25:48.160 Okay.

05:25:48.680 We already talked about what the men bring to the table thing.

05:25:51.520 You said hookup culture has killed romance.

05:25:53.840 When the priority becomes your roster or how many people you've slept with, which is an incredibly tacky question, by the way, you aren't interested in wowing someone.

05:26:05.580 Making someone feel special and being romantic doesn't have to be expensive and it's never something you should have to ask for.

05:26:10.880 For a guy who really values you, he does it automatically.

05:26:13.500 No matter how strong the girl is, she wants someone who wants to make her feel special. 0.95

05:26:17.280 A lot of things people get excited about are the bare fucking minimum. 0.98

05:26:21.220 The bar is in hell from modern dating. 0.98

05:26:23.340 Do you want to elaborate on that?

05:26:25.200 I think that pretty much said it.

05:26:26.820 I think hookup culture in general has really kind of invalidated romance and has really done away with it.

05:26:32.820 And I don't think people really try and pursue or wow or date people anymore.

05:26:37.540 It seems very casual and hookup oriented and it's just not how I work.

05:26:43.100 You said here, which is an incredibly tacky question, by the way.

05:26:48.900 Do you mean the body count question?

05:26:51.240 Why is it tacky?

05:26:52.740 I just don't think that's something that's appropriate to ask.

05:26:55.680 I think on either end, I don't think a girl should ask a guy. 0.99

05:26:58.620 I don't think a guy should ask a girl. 1.00

05:27:00.520 Why is it tacky?

05:27:01.200 Because I find it to be tacky.

05:27:03.260 Don't you think that it could give some serious indicators as to the character of the person?

05:27:07.280 I think if you have to ask a question like that, you don't know the person very well.

05:27:10.560 And you would know how they treat you.

05:27:12.020 You would know how they are as a person.

05:27:13.560 I don't think that question is like the be all. 0.85

05:27:14.640 But if you're looking at it from a logical standpoint, right?

05:27:16.680 If you're going to be with somebody for the rest of your life, or if that's what you're aiming to do,

05:27:21.140 and you know that all of the statistical indicators point towards women with a lower body count

05:27:26.120 being much more likely to have long marriages and not divorce the husbands,

05:27:30.220 don't you think if that was a really key factor to that, that you'd investigate it?

05:27:35.280 I really don't think it's that important.

05:27:37.340 Yeah.

05:27:37.620 Not for you, maybe.

05:27:38.520 But can you understand why it would be important for a guy?

05:27:40.380 I see why in general it's important.

05:27:41.960 I also don't want a man that's been with a million women.

05:27:44.600 I think it's gross in general.

05:27:46.100 Either way, if somebody has been like super hyper sexually active with either sex, but that's just my opinion.

05:27:52.360 I think you should ask a girl her body count before you even meet her.

05:27:57.240 And I don't think it's tacky at all.

05:27:58.820 You can ask it on the first date.

05:28:00.460 I'll allude to it on the first date.

05:28:02.720 Yeah.

05:28:03.480 I mean, she also don't have to tell you like she could be like, oh, she could be like, she told us her body counts too. 0.99

05:28:09.980 She could have slept with 15 people for all we know. 1.00

05:28:12.000 And she's telling us it's two.

05:28:13.100 We don't know that.

05:28:13.900 She could be lying.

05:28:14.260 We don't know.

05:28:15.280 We don't know.

05:28:16.200 But if you're going to be lying at the start like that, I think there will be indicators as to the person's character.

05:28:21.320 Like they're lying about something significant like that.

05:28:23.440 But how would you know?

05:28:23.900 And that lie will grow and there'll be much worse lies.

05:28:26.340 How would you know?

05:28:27.520 I think what I'm saying though is that like that's an indicator.

05:28:29.780 And then if they're dishonest about that, they're going to be dishonest about other big things as well.

05:28:33.320 But how would you know unless you actually grew up with this person?

05:28:35.560 If you're with somebody who's like a compulsive liar, eventually you start to put the pieces together and you start to realize, oh, this person, this doesn't add up.

05:28:42.680 This doesn't add up. 0.98

05:28:43.700 And then you'll put the pieces together and realize, oh, this person is just a liar.

05:28:46.220 I've known a few of these people in my life. 0.82

05:28:48.020 And they can actually fool you for a little while.

05:28:49.840 But then eventually they just run out of steam.

05:28:51.740 And normally these people have to bounce from relationship to relationship.

05:28:55.200 So if there are big lies from the start, there are going to be more big lies.

05:28:58.520 If you're coming in with a dishonest slate, then there's going to be more lies.

05:29:03.140 And you'll notice for sure.

05:29:04.160 And generally as well, you can tell by the way that she is.

05:29:08.620 You can assess her past as well and some of her characteristics now.

05:29:12.700 And then also if you get to the freaky stuff, you can tell then as well.

05:29:19.200 You can really tell.

05:29:20.360 Because of why? 0.98

05:29:21.180 Because of the vagina? 1.00

05:29:23.580 Well, that can be a factor. 0.96

05:29:25.180 But also because of the experience level.

05:29:27.260 What if they had a lot of experience with that one person?

05:29:29.960 What if that one person was like, hey, look at this porn. 0.60

05:29:32.500 This is how I want you to give me head. 0.70

05:29:33.760 Hey, look at how she's throwing it back here. 1.00

05:29:35.580 That's how I want you to do it.

05:29:36.720 Or what if you sat there and taught your person exactly how you like it.

05:29:40.460 And then now they're on to someone else.

05:29:42.600 Well, if they'd had a long-term relationship in the past, then that would be a positive indicator

05:29:46.240 that they haven't had lots of sexual experience.

05:29:48.860 So that would contribute to it.

05:29:49.800 But if they're like, I've been single for so long.

05:29:51.840 I've only slept with like two guys or whatever.

05:29:53.820 And then you get it and they're throwing it back and hawk-touring it.

05:29:57.060 Then, you know, you'd ask some questions.

05:30:01.120 But there are indicators.

05:30:02.080 You're never going to know.

05:30:02.740 If somebody's lying, they can get away with it.

05:30:04.180 But there are indicators.

05:30:05.460 So guys don't like girls that are good in bed? 0.99

05:30:09.520 Look, there are going to be, like guys are going to like having sex with girls who are 0.98

05:30:15.560 good in bed, right? 0.91

05:30:16.640 That's always going to happen. 0.57

05:30:17.780 If a girl, like, you know, guys, there are going to be guys who want to have sex with 1.00

05:30:21.420 porn stars because of the pure sexual experience.

05:30:25.060 But when it comes to who you're looking for long-term, then no, there's absolutely, I've 0.93

05:30:28.420 got absolutely zero problem with teaching someone.

05:30:30.620 And even if I had to wait to get married for her to have sex, I'd have no problem with 1.00

05:30:35.240 that.

05:30:38.180 I think, look, ask it before you even meet up with her.

05:30:41.400 You meet her on a dating app.

05:30:42.380 What's your body count? 1.00

05:30:43.620 Fuck it. 1.00

05:30:45.660 I don't think it's tacky, though. 1.00

05:30:47.580 I would.

05:30:48.580 Like, if somebody asked me that, I wouldn't find that.

05:30:51.600 I wouldn't want to date somebody like that.

05:30:53.140 So here's the thing.

05:30:53.840 And I don't even have a high one.

05:30:54.840 I just don't think it's respectful.

05:30:56.580 It's not respectful?

05:30:57.860 I don't think it's respectful, personally.

05:30:59.620 I mean, but hold on, just to be clear.

05:31:02.140 You want a guy to pay for the first date, right? 0.57

05:31:04.760 Yeah.

05:31:05.640 Okay.

05:31:06.000 If he's asking me on a date.

05:31:07.520 So, but you, because the guy's trying to assess a numerical number when it comes to

05:31:13.900 your sexual history.

05:31:18.500 You, by wanting a guy to pay for the first date, are assessing him on a numerical number.

05:31:24.560 His money.

05:31:25.760 But you're also assessing him on his masculine virtue as well.

05:31:28.720 Yeah.

05:31:28.880 And he's going to assess you on your feminine virtue.

05:31:30.400 If it's like a walk through the park kind of thing, it doesn't have to be expensive.

05:31:33.860 It doesn't have to be him paying.

05:31:35.020 But I'm saying if he's the one initiating the date, I want him to take.

05:31:38.520 But you don't initiate dates.

05:31:40.240 Right.

05:31:40.820 I wouldn't.

05:31:41.240 Because I want somebody who.

05:31:42.440 But it's the sentiment, though.

05:31:43.400 It's the sentiment of you wanting that sort of masculine virtue out of him.

05:31:47.000 Right.

05:31:47.220 And as a man, he will have certain things that he cares about.

05:31:50.160 And that might be just one of them.

05:31:52.060 Right.

05:31:52.320 But I guess my.

05:31:53.400 But I would find that just like respect for me is the biggest thing.

05:31:55.900 And you might not agree with this, but I feel like that's a disrespectful question to ask a stranger.

05:32:01.060 No.

05:32:01.860 Right.

05:32:02.100 But I'm saying to me, that would be disrespectful.

05:32:03.880 So I wouldn't be interested in that kind of person.

05:32:05.640 I mean, sure.

05:32:06.360 You can have that standard.

05:32:07.980 I think it would actually point to, though, like a guy who doesn't care about this or maybe painted better.

05:32:15.740 So a lot of guys will care about body count, but some of them, they'll still sleep with a girl with high body count just because they want to hit.

05:32:23.500 So as a woman, if a guy is showing that sort of curiosity about your sexual history, this could be used by you as an indicator that he actually sees long-term potential in you.

05:32:36.600 He's not just trying to hit it. 0.99

05:32:38.060 If he's asking these sort of qualifying or disqualifying questions, he's actually like, because dude, if a guy's just trying to fuck you, he doesn't really good. 0.99

05:32:47.200 That's a really good point. 0.98

05:32:47.940 If a guy's just trying to sleep with you, he's not going to ask.

05:32:50.860 He's not going to care.

05:32:51.840 But if he starts asking you about your values, if he's asking you about like your body count, if he's asking you about these things that maybe you find offensive, like, oh, why does that matter?

05:33:02.420 He's looking at you like I'm assessing this girl like to date her.

05:33:07.020 I want her to be my girlfriend.

05:33:08.220 I want her to be my wife.

05:33:09.440 So, I mean, you can look at it that way.

05:33:11.480 I personally think when it comes to body count, it remains a perfectly acceptable metric and standard by which relationship-minded men can and frankly should be disqualifying women on. 0.97

05:33:25.920 Sorry, that was weird.

05:33:26.560 I think that if a guy isn't concerned about that, that should be more of a concern for you because like Brian said, he's not looking at that sort of like feminine virtue.

05:33:36.540 That would see you as a long-term partner.

05:33:38.840 But if he's looking at you and not caring or if he's even more just wondering, are you seeing anybody else right now?

05:33:43.900 That is an indicator that he's looking for something temporary.

05:33:48.000 Okay.

05:33:48.420 We're going to try to get through these last few things here as quick as possible.

05:33:51.740 We have, let's see, one sec, notes here.

05:33:56.780 Oh, three C's.

05:33:58.540 You said something about the three C's.

05:34:00.500 Tell us what the three C's are.

05:34:02.120 I think consideration, communication, and consistency are like the three major things in a relationship that can determine longevity.

05:34:12.060 Because if someone's considering you in their actions, if they're being communicative consistently and they're providing like the same level of effort and consistency for you,

05:34:21.480 then they're not like introducing you to a vibe they can't maintain.

05:34:25.940 And I think that's showing you a lot of respect.

05:34:28.020 And that's major.

05:34:28.760 I don't know, man.

05:34:29.340 That sounds like a lot of work.

05:34:33.700 Relationships are a lot of work.

05:34:34.960 That is true.

05:34:35.920 One chat here, then we're going to get into these notes real quick.

05:34:38.720 Thank you, OJ Simpson.

05:34:41.000 He's got something for the Clippers, lady.

05:34:42.840 This is why nobody likes the Clippers.

05:34:44.820 Oh, wait, that's you.

05:34:45.400 Lake show?

05:34:46.060 All day, baby.

05:34:47.340 Lake show?

05:34:48.180 Oh, Lakers.

05:34:48.860 Okay.

05:34:49.100 Okay, let's get into this.

05:34:52.640 Starting with Natasha, what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband?

05:34:58.960 Like $150,000.

05:35:00.580 Okay.

05:35:01.260 What about you?

05:35:02.500 I'd say he does make like, I don't know, something equal or more to me.

05:35:06.520 Okay.

05:35:06.840 What about you?

05:35:08.140 $100,000.

05:35:08.920 Okay.

05:35:10.300 $200,000.

05:35:12.980 Not dollars.

05:35:14.100 Yeah, $200,000.

05:35:15.820 How much do you make?

05:35:16.740 Uh, hopefully more than him.

05:35:20.100 What do you mean, hopefully more than you?

05:35:22.380 I would like a man that makes less money than me because I feel like that would even out the whole, you know, thing.

05:35:30.660 Wait, you want a guy who makes less than you?

05:35:32.420 So you make more than $200,000?

05:35:35.100 What do you do?

05:35:36.120 Not now.

05:35:37.120 I mean, in the near future.

05:35:39.340 But, I mean, you're 35.

05:35:40.800 What?

05:35:41.540 Yeah, I'm working on it.

05:35:43.120 Okay.

05:35:43.520 All right.

05:35:44.520 Uh, let's see.

05:35:45.500 What about you?

05:35:45.920 Uh, probably $70,000 to $80,000.

05:35:48.200 Okay.

05:35:49.360 At least $60,000.

05:35:50.860 Darkavia?

05:35:51.880 $80,000.

05:35:52.740 All right.

05:35:53.480 You guys, you guys want some decently high earning men there. 0.94

05:35:56.660 A couple of you with the six figures.

05:35:58.340 $200,000, though.

05:36:00.240 But $80,000 is not as much anymore.

05:36:02.600 Like, everything is high.

05:36:03.440 No, that's true.

05:36:04.860 It's not as much as, yeah, inflation.

05:36:06.680 $100,000 is like $100,000 now.

05:36:08.140 Rent's high.

05:36:09.080 Yeah.

05:36:09.920 Okay.

05:36:10.700 Um, all right.

05:36:12.320 How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

05:36:15.160 Absolutely not.

05:36:18.920 Huh?

05:36:19.200 I was reading the comment.

05:36:20.500 Oh, you can just ignore that.

05:36:22.300 Um, how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

05:36:25.920 I'm 5'4 and it really doesn't matter to me.

05:36:27.720 Doesn't matter?

05:36:28.360 What about you?

05:36:28.580 5'7, it don't matter.

05:36:30.020 What about you?

05:36:30.460 I'm 5'2 and my minimum is 5'6.

05:36:33.660 That's fair.

05:36:34.260 Okay.

05:36:34.540 What about you?

05:36:35.440 Uh, 5'6 minimum 5'8.

05:36:38.000 Okay.

05:36:38.440 What about you?

05:36:38.860 I'm 5'2 minimum 5'4.

05:36:40.840 Okay.

05:36:41.440 I'm 5'2, um, 5'10 minimum.

05:36:45.140 You wrote 5'11 here, but okay.

05:36:48.440 Um, 5'4, I'd probably say minimum is 5'5 and above.

05:36:53.840 All right.

05:36:54.620 Uh, would you rather cross paths with a man or a bear in the forest? 0.97

05:36:57.800 A bear every freaking time. 0.95

05:36:59.600 Every time.

05:37:00.260 Okay.

05:37:00.520 Every time.

05:37:00.840 I said man.

05:37:01.760 Man?

05:37:02.260 Yeah, I said man.

05:37:03.340 Man.

05:37:04.200 Man.

05:37:05.020 Bear.

05:37:05.740 Uh-oh.

05:37:06.480 Man.

05:37:07.280 So bear, bear.

05:37:08.900 Why do you pick bear?

05:37:10.220 Why don't you pick man?

05:37:12.260 Why wouldn't I pick man?

05:37:13.460 Because I think what a man would do to you in a forest when nobody's watching is worse than

05:37:19.100 what a bear would do.

05:37:19.980 What do you think a bear would do to you?

05:37:21.900 If the bear's going to kill you, it's going to be quick.

05:37:24.160 No, they just eat you alive. 0.98

05:37:26.780 They're going to rip your skin off and rip your face off and grab, put their teeth around 1.00

05:37:30.960 your neck. 0.98

05:37:31.080 Better than dealing with the trauma that what a man would do to you in the forest alone would

05:37:34.140 do.

05:37:34.160 I think that if you just selected a random man in the population, just plunked one out, 0.91

05:37:40.260 you'd think that he would kill you. 0.89

05:37:41.980 Not necessarily kill you. 0.98

05:37:43.340 Essay. 0.98

05:37:43.900 Yeah.

05:37:44.320 Yeah.

05:37:45.620 Okay.

05:37:46.300 Why do you pick bear?

05:37:48.040 Why don't you pick man?

05:37:49.720 Because a bear won't sexually.

05:37:53.400 Yeah.

05:37:53.640 Yeah.

05:37:54.340 Okay.

05:37:55.160 All right.

05:37:55.640 Um, so because you guys are factoring in like, yes, the man, the bear could kill you.

05:38:00.860 The man could kill you, but the bear's not going to essay you.

05:38:02.940 The man could essay you.

05:38:04.460 Um, you guys are obviously doing like a risk assessment.

05:38:08.400 So let me just ask you both a question.

05:38:10.580 Uh, you don't think every man could do this, right?

05:38:14.680 No, but I also don't think every bear is going to go after you if you're not bothering them

05:38:19.200 and they're not hungry.

05:38:20.300 But so you don't think it's every man.

05:38:22.280 What percentage of men do you think would do this then? 0.98

05:38:26.860 Both things or at least one?

05:38:28.700 Just the essay.

05:38:29.680 How about that?

05:38:31.440 Half.

05:38:32.500 Okay.

05:38:32.780 50%.

05:38:33.380 20 to 30%.

05:38:38.300 20 to 30%.

05:38:39.000 Okay.

05:38:39.980 Um, I think there's a lot of men that might do something like that if they aren't thinking

05:38:45.100 they're going to suffer the consequences for it and somebody wouldn't know.

05:38:47.900 I don't think it's all men, but I do think that.

05:38:51.580 But 50%, 50%.

05:38:53.780 Okay.

05:38:54.300 So 50% of the male population in the United States, you think?

05:38:59.840 Okay.

05:38:59.980 Uh, do you have any brother?

05:39:02.180 Obviously not including children, you know?

05:39:03.600 Yeah, just adult males.

05:39:04.820 We'll exclude, uh, like, underage. 1.00

05:39:07.640 Geriatric and children, yeah.

05:39:09.660 Um, do you have any brothers?

05:39:11.340 I have a half-brother and a step-brother.

05:39:13.920 Two brothers.

05:39:15.640 I mean, neither one is full-blood and neither one I lived with. 0.99

05:39:19.120 But you call them brothers.

05:39:20.500 Two brothers.

05:39:21.140 Not really, no.

05:39:22.260 Well, half-brother.

05:39:23.660 Yeah, I wouldn't call them.

05:39:24.580 Yeah.

05:39:25.380 I'm the only child.

05:39:27.240 Okay.

05:39:27.640 Uh, you have a dad?

05:39:30.800 No.

05:39:31.640 Not anymore.

05:39:32.360 Okay.

05:39:33.280 Grandparents?

05:39:34.440 Yeah, grandparents.

05:39:34.820 Male cousins?

05:39:35.800 Male friends?

05:39:36.760 Grandpa, yeah.

05:39:37.780 Okay.

05:39:38.300 Um, your two brothers?

05:39:40.100 So one of them is an essay here.

05:39:43.480 I'm not saying it has to be from my family, but I think statistically across the U.S., at

05:39:47.800 least half of the guys would not, yeah.

05:39:50.560 Including, like, your male family members?

05:39:53.300 Yeah, I don't think any of them would do it.

05:39:55.020 But, yeah, obviously that would include the general male population.

05:39:58.940 Okay.

05:39:59.220 Okay.

05:39:59.280 Um, 50% is quite a lot.

05:40:04.700 It's half the male population.

05:40:08.260 Don't you?

05:40:09.000 So you must have a pretty negative view towards men, then, if you think 50% of them, maybe

05:40:13.720 a majority.

05:40:14.060 Towards some men.

05:40:15.140 Well, not just.

05:40:16.000 It's not a majority.

05:40:16.820 50% is half.

05:40:17.400 Well, it's half.

05:40:19.100 Half of men.

05:40:20.340 One out of two.

05:40:22.840 You must have very negative attitudes towards half of men, then.

05:40:26.320 No.

05:40:26.820 It's a belt.

05:40:27.660 It's, everything's a belt.

05:40:28.640 You think that they would, they would S.A. you.

05:40:31.500 It's a pretty.

05:40:32.860 Half of men, yeah.

05:40:33.900 It's a pretty egregious thing to do.

05:40:35.280 There's a lot of men in jail for that.

05:40:36.840 There's a lot of men in jail, or not in jail for that.

05:40:39.640 I think that is a problem.

05:40:42.920 But, I mean, not, half of men are not in jail.

05:40:47.220 Wait, that doesn't mean they got caught.

05:40:48.880 And half of men haven't engaged in that sort of activity.

05:40:52.160 And they're still S.A. without grape.

05:40:53.340 I mean, there's still levels of that.

05:40:55.140 And I still think that that is safer than a random bear in a forest who might not even be hungry.

05:41:01.800 Can I say something?

05:41:03.080 Sure.

05:41:03.600 Last weekend, I was hiking in the woods.

05:41:05.400 And I came across a man.

05:41:07.220 And he just walked right past me.

05:41:09.660 Thank you for sharing that example.

05:41:13.560 I do appreciate it.

05:41:15.400 Who said bears do not, they're capable?

05:41:17.720 I was about to say, if the bear was feeling, feeling frisk, maybe, it was mating season.

05:41:22.680 It was mating season.

05:41:24.240 I chose a man because even if he tries to, like, S.A. me or kill me, I think I can take him over a bear.

05:41:30.340 I think you could probably take a man. 1.00

05:41:32.200 Yeah.

05:41:32.620 To be honest.

05:41:33.300 I'll wait for him to go to sleep and then do stuff.

05:41:36.640 Hold on.

05:41:37.060 We have a message coming in here.

05:41:43.160 N7's Voss donated $100.

05:41:45.380 Thank you, Voss.

05:41:45.940 Someone in chat said it.

05:41:47.760 But I will repeat it here.

05:41:49.680 I bet 50% of men won't even approach a girl. 0.99

05:41:53.440 Yeah, man.

05:41:56.000 I think that 50%, that's a high number. 0.99

05:41:59.160 That's ridiculous. 0.98

05:42:00.520 That's a high number. 0.99

05:42:02.120 You're throwing a lot of men under the bus. 0.65

05:42:04.180 Do you think my numbers are first?

05:42:05.640 I think it's just like a...

05:42:08.300 I think you guys have a very different view of how safe a woman feels around men than how

05:42:13.020 women feel around men.

05:42:14.040 Yeah, I don't really feel too safe around bears, though.

05:42:15.840 That's the thing. 1.00

05:42:16.320 And I think it's just total bullshit. 0.99

05:42:17.640 Like, if you were in the forest and then you saw the two and you saw some hungry bear, 1.00

05:42:21.720 grizzly bear, and the shit that that bear could do to you, and then you saw Gavin and you're 0.96

05:42:26.300 like, who do I want to be trapped in this forest with? 0.99

05:42:28.780 You're taking Gavin.

05:42:29.880 You're not taking the bear.

05:42:30.780 But you can say you'll take the bear.

05:42:31.840 That's fine.

05:42:32.100 Do you have that meme, Damien?

05:42:33.280 I really stand by my answer.

05:42:35.460 Yeah. 0.95

05:42:36.620 I'd rather die.

05:42:37.520 I mean, the statistics don't reflect that this is the actual risk that a woman has, though.

05:42:47.460 I mean, even the greatly skewed numbers from some of these organizations, like the one

05:42:53.840 in four, that would put it at 25%, right?

05:42:57.100 But if you look at actual crime statistics, FBI, DOJ, the actual incidence rate of this

05:43:03.340 is fairly low.

05:43:07.520 The girls at the table, have you ever felt unsafe with a man to the point where you felt

05:43:11.420 your safety was jeopardized?

05:43:12.660 How you feel, how you feel doesn't mean that the guy's going to S.A. you.

05:43:19.080 Like, I get you can feel.

05:43:20.480 It's feel how safe you would feel in a forest unsupervised with a man.

05:43:24.420 That is also a feeling.

05:43:25.800 But just because you feel a certain way doesn't mean that that thing that you fear is going

05:43:30.520 to happen.

05:43:31.460 The bear might also not bother you.

05:43:33.620 I agree.

05:43:34.800 It might not.

05:43:35.600 The man could be totally benevolent.

05:43:38.720 And if you're lost in the forest, what do you think is more likely?

05:43:42.580 If you're lost in the forest, do you think a man's going to be benevolent?

05:43:46.200 Like, you go up to him and ask him for help.

05:43:48.220 Do you think he's just going to start S.A.ing you?

05:43:51.280 Or do you think he's going to help you?

05:43:52.440 Like, what's more likely?

05:43:55.260 I don't trust a random man in a forest.

05:43:57.440 That is my stance.

05:43:58.420 I mean, like, have you guys ever felt unsafe with a man to the point of your safety feeling

05:44:03.620 jeopardized at least once in your life?

05:44:05.400 I don't disagree.

05:44:06.060 I bet every single woman here has felt unsafe around a man.

05:44:09.020 All the time.

05:44:09.360 I don't dispute that at all.

05:44:11.560 Can I say something?

05:44:12.440 Go ahead.

05:44:12.940 Okay.

05:44:13.200 So, sometimes they make you feel safe before they S.A. you. 0.50

05:44:17.920 So, it's like that part.

05:44:20.880 The funny part is that actually men actually have such a stronger inclination to protect

05:44:25.480 a random woman than they do to S.A. them. 1.00

05:44:27.440 So, all of these, like, you can make a face about it if you want.

05:44:29.940 But, I was in Colombia a few weeks ago and I was at a random gym in, like, an outdoor

05:44:36.360 gym in Medellin and we saw this guy sprinting and this lady running behind him, like, yelping

05:44:41.720 because he'd just sort of stolen something from her.

05:44:44.000 And literally, there was 30 men around who literally clicked into gear and chased this

05:44:48.900 dude around, captured him.

05:44:50.280 It's all on my Instagram story.

05:44:51.240 I filmed it, by the way.

05:44:52.180 And they got him and they got the girl's thing back and they were walking the girl back

05:44:56.560 to the gym and back home.

05:44:57.780 Like, that is the natural inclination that men have.

05:45:01.040 And I'm sorry that you have this, like, horrible view of men, but it's just simply not true.

05:45:06.080 It's not all men.

05:45:06.880 No, this is, like, what you said is, like, a horrendous view of men.

05:45:10.160 You would rather be dropped in the forest with a bear than a man.

05:45:13.380 Wild animal.

05:45:14.080 And you think that 50% of men are likely to do that to you.

05:45:17.220 You just don't understand men, clearly.

05:45:19.360 But, like, most men would just...

05:45:20.880 Just because I don't agree with your opinion doesn't make it wrong.

05:45:24.040 I'm saying that you're wrong.

05:45:25.300 That's my opinion.

05:45:26.320 I mean, she said the same thing.

05:45:27.580 You just don't really understand, like, the way they're now.

05:45:28.640 What is, like, the hyper-focus?

05:45:30.000 There are other people who agree.

05:45:31.300 Why do you get so, like, snarky about everything?

05:45:33.540 We're just having a conversation.

05:45:34.460 Why can't you just have a conversation?

05:45:35.460 It's always going to be, like, making a face or it's going to be, like, laboring your answers

05:45:39.780 and stuff.

05:45:40.400 Like, it's just annoying.

05:45:41.560 Anyway, we'll, like, move on after.

05:45:42.980 Well, if you're berating me constantly, you are.

05:45:44.640 I'm not berating you.

05:45:45.460 We're having a conversation.

05:45:46.420 Like, it's like you've never heard, like, a contrary opinion in your life.

05:45:48.920 Not at all.

05:45:49.660 There were several contrary opinions that we didn't agree on that I said, oh, I see your viewpoint.

05:45:53.760 But when you're being, like, rude.

05:45:54.600 Yeah, but, like, it's been constant all night.

05:45:56.120 I'm telling you, from my perspective, having talked to you all night, it's, like, constant

05:45:59.480 faces.

05:45:59.860 Can I ask a question?

05:46:00.680 Just laboring.

05:46:01.040 Hold on.

05:46:01.400 Hold on, Darkevia.

05:46:02.580 So, you asked a question.

05:46:04.180 You asked, why are we kind of focusing on you?

05:46:07.360 Milena did pick Bear. 0.80

05:46:08.560 You're 100% right.

05:46:09.460 She picked Bear.

05:46:10.160 She said, what, 20% or 30%.

05:46:11.580 Typically, when you're having, like, a disagreement with somebody, you're going to tend to, like,

05:46:18.740 want to have that disagreement with the person who takes a more hardline position.

05:46:23.080 In this case, you said 50%.

05:46:25.280 It seems like you have a bit more of a hardline.

05:46:27.780 Like, you have a stronger position on this than Milena.

05:46:31.340 And also, Milena's also been on the show before.

05:46:35.540 And we've already kind of had, like, the debate with her.

05:46:38.140 So, like, that's kind of why it's been a bit more focused on you specifically related

05:46:41.660 to the Bear question.

05:46:43.040 So, I mean, that's an explanation to your answer.

05:46:46.420 But, look, I don't really want to linger on the Bear thing for too long.

05:46:50.080 Just, how about this?

05:46:53.020 Clarifying, a couple clarifying things.

05:46:56.080 If it was 10 men versus 10 bears, does that change anything?

05:46:59.760 Yes.

05:47:00.320 Yeah.

05:47:00.960 Like, would you prefer the 10 men then?

05:47:03.080 Yeah.

05:47:03.320 Because I think when there are people with each other, you have more of a responsibility

05:47:09.360 to act accordingly to social standards.

05:47:12.600 I think when men are alone, sometimes that's where the problem can arise.

05:47:16.720 But if there's 10 men, and if they're 50% disposed to SA-ing you, and 50% not, how do

05:47:22.160 you know that 50% of them are just going to overrule the rest of the guys?

05:47:24.880 I still don't think that they're going to take the chance to do something that's inappropriate

05:47:28.260 when there's other witnesses.

05:47:29.960 Whereas somebody alone in the forest would.

05:47:30.860 So you trust the benevolence of the men?

05:47:33.240 I trust the group.

05:47:35.340 Okay.

05:47:35.780 Like, there's a distribution of responsibility.

05:47:38.280 Oh, do you want kids?

05:47:40.600 Yeah.

05:47:41.300 Do you know how many kids you want?

05:47:42.580 Preferably three.

05:47:43.520 Three kids.

05:47:43.960 If you have three sons, you're prepared to take the position that one or even two of them

05:47:49.160 are SA-ers. 0.58

05:47:51.120 I didn't say it's all men.

05:47:52.780 Some men are great.

05:47:54.380 No, but you said 50%.

05:47:55.680 It doesn't have to include my family.

05:47:58.260 Well, statistically, it would have to include your family.

05:48:03.420 There's also thousands of people in the United States that would factor into that.

05:48:07.380 Well, yeah, but I mean, if we're looking statistically at 50%, like-

05:48:11.120 Do you want me to say 40?

05:48:12.140 Does that make you feel better?

05:48:13.680 Okay, so one of them?

05:48:14.980 One and a quarter?

05:48:15.980 I mean-

05:48:17.180 That's just my stance.

05:48:18.320 I don't-

05:48:18.540 No, that's fine.

05:48:19.100 I think when men are alone, they do things that are not appropriate. 0.72

05:48:22.380 I know that.

05:48:23.100 Sure, that's-

05:48:23.380 A lot of times, relatives do.

05:48:24.460 And when they're together, too.

05:48:25.680 Hold on, hold on.

05:48:25.980 I was going to say, relatives do SA-ers. 1.00

05:48:27.980 What's that?

05:48:28.260 I said, a lot of times, relatives do SA people, so you do have to factor-

05:48:32.300 Sure, but I just want to be clear.

05:48:33.660 Yeah.

05:48:33.860 When you're raising, if you have three sons, when you're raising your three sons, you're

05:48:37.540 going to be raising them and thinking of them as, like, future great-ists.

05:48:40.960 Like, that's your view of your sons.

05:48:42.080 No, because I know the things that I'm instilling in them, that doesn't go for the entire general

05:48:48.220 population.

05:48:48.920 They didn't have the same upbringing.

05:48:50.160 They don't have the same family values.

05:48:52.980 That's totally different.

05:48:54.300 Everybody has a different experience.

05:48:56.000 So you'll be the statistical outlier, then, when it comes to your-

05:48:58.780 Okay, all right.

05:48:59.540 If that's your position.

05:49:01.500 Here, how about-

05:49:02.360 What about the-

05:49:04.300 Wait, if we change this question to, instead of it being a man,

05:49:12.080 like, do you think that your position is sexist?

05:49:15.940 No.

05:49:16.520 No, it's not. 0.92

05:49:17.440 If we were to change it to, instead of a man or a bear, it's a black person or a bear, 1.00

05:49:24.560 and the person picks bear, the person picks bear, are they racist?

05:49:30.020 No.

05:49:30.840 You're saying as, like, a follow-up, or, like, just in general, that's the first question?

05:49:33.840 Yeah, so, if we change the question to just be, would you rather cross paths with a black 1.00

05:49:38.340 person or a bear in the forest, and they pick bear instead of the black person, would that

05:49:44.920 be racist?

05:49:47.080 No?

05:49:47.800 Depends.

05:49:48.280 Who's taking it?

05:49:49.020 It depends.

05:49:49.360 I think it would be racist.

05:49:50.640 I'm not going to lie.

05:49:51.540 If a white person said it, it's racist.

05:49:53.720 Is there a 50% chance it would be a woman? 0.99

05:49:57.400 Yeah.

05:49:57.940 No.

05:49:58.180 That's what I'm saying. 0.98

05:49:58.700 Let's say a black man. 0.98

05:50:00.020 So, if it was a black man or a bear, what would you choose? 0.98

05:50:03.340 It's still a man. 0.96

05:50:04.360 A black man is still a man. 0.99

05:50:05.480 So, you think she's racist? 0.99

05:50:06.760 No.

05:50:07.360 Because, like, she just said it before.

05:50:09.020 I don't know if y'all heard it, but she said, like, if it was a black woman there, then she

05:50:12.980 would still feel safe.

05:50:14.000 So, I think it's more of a sexist thing, not a racism thing.

05:50:16.740 How about if a man, a white man, picks the bear?

05:50:23.220 Yeah, that's racist. 0.94

05:50:24.680 Oh.

05:50:26.140 Why?

05:50:26.880 Wait, hold on.

05:50:27.520 Wait, hold on.

05:50:28.680 Unless you said, like, what she just said.

05:50:30.600 So, here.

05:50:31.480 Here's the scenario.

05:50:32.620 You've had bad experiences with men.

05:50:34.680 100% believe it.

05:50:36.060 I'm sure most of you women here have had bad experiences, maybe awful, terrible experiences.

05:50:41.060 Let's say, though, a white person has had one, two, and three terrible experiences with 0.89

05:50:48.860 a or multiple black people. 0.78

05:50:51.080 And then they see on the news reports about these crimes that black people, I'm not saying 0.93

05:50:58.060 this isn't the case, but just this is the hypothetical scenario, that these black people 0.99

05:51:02.260 are committing. 0.91

05:51:03.600 They're part of online groups.

05:51:05.520 They have the TikTok algorithm, which they watched all these videos on TikTok, and the

05:51:10.340 algorithm keeps feeding them stories about black on white crime. 0.92

05:51:15.360 Because of their safety concerns, they're scared of black people. 0.98

05:51:19.900 They believe all black people have the potential or capacity for violence or assault of some 0.99

05:51:26.500 kind. 0.97

05:51:27.340 Would this person be racist?

05:51:29.200 To the point that instead of coming across a black person in the woods, they come across 0.98

05:51:36.660 a giant, wild animal. 0.95

05:51:41.380 Well, I think, honestly, they're being fed a certain image of black people.

05:51:47.840 Or if they had the experience, like how you said, they went one right after the other after

05:51:51.660 the other, and they had bad experiences of black people.

05:51:52.800 They just had two, let's say two or three bad experiences.

05:51:55.660 I mean, that's their personal experience.

05:51:57.380 Are they racist, though?

05:51:59.200 If they think that every black person is going to be like that just because they're

05:52:02.580 black, then yes, that's being racist. 0.63

05:52:03.200 Let's say it's 50% of black people. 0.92

05:52:07.560 If they're saying like, I think 50% of black people might act like this because their experience

05:52:11.820 is this, then it's not, I don't think it's racist.

05:52:13.560 You don't think it's racist?

05:52:14.380 I think they're looking at it like as an experience, like a personal view.

05:52:18.600 They're not saying that like, for instance, if they met her and then they met me and they're

05:52:24.260 like, oh, both you guys are, you know, black girls or whatever.

05:52:27.000 So how she acts might not be like how I act or vice versa.

05:52:31.180 People are individuals, yeah.

05:52:32.320 Yeah.

05:52:32.680 So it's like.

05:52:34.460 Okay.

05:52:35.400 So it's not racist.

05:52:36.600 Is it?

05:52:36.840 Do you think that would be racist?

05:52:37.980 The scenario I provided?

05:52:39.240 I, me personally, I think that would be racist because the ultimate minority is the individual.

05:52:44.720 Oh, okay.

05:52:46.680 That's going to fall on deaf ears.

05:52:48.040 Nevermind.

05:52:48.800 I agree.

05:52:50.440 About what?

05:52:51.260 That it's racist.

05:52:52.500 And I think my opinion is sexist, but I can say that with my chest.

05:52:56.100 That's what I said when he gave it the example of like, just based off the person being black

05:53:01.160 that you're scared, then okay.

05:53:02.780 How about this?

05:53:03.180 That's racist.

05:53:03.620 Let me, like, would you, if you guys could, like, would you prefer, would you prefer to

05:53:08.940 be like, uh, on the subway, like just with other women at night?

05:53:15.540 Like as opposed to other men? 0.98

05:53:16.580 Mm-hmm.

05:53:16.980 Yeah.

05:53:17.400 Yeah.

05:53:17.640 Oh, yeah.

05:53:17.980 So then because of a white person's bad experiences with black people, they would prefer to just

05:53:23.680 have like a white segregated subway.

05:53:26.580 Would you guys, how is that not racist?

05:53:29.520 No, that is, you didn't say it like that though, you said, you said that if they were

05:53:33.080 in a forest by themselves, like they're alone by themselves and they're actually genuinely

05:53:37.740 like deathly scared of this black person, like, oh, this black person, if I'm here with 1.00

05:53:42.160 them, they're going to kill me. 0.99

05:53:43.260 Like they do on the news and stuff like they're genuinely scared of them the same way somebody

05:53:47.460 is scared of the bear.

05:53:48.440 That's different. 0.98

05:53:49.320 But they're like, oh, because you're black, I don't want to be in this thing with you 1.00

05:53:52.600 because you're just a different skin color. 0.99

05:53:54.560 That's being racist.

05:53:55.480 Like it, you never came across nobody black that did anything wrong.

05:53:59.520 Final question on this.

05:54:01.500 A white person wants to live in a white only dormitory in college.

05:54:06.500 Is that racist?

05:54:08.460 Yeah.

05:54:08.840 Yes.

05:54:09.460 I think having the dormitory is always racist.

05:54:11.580 Yeah, I was going to say, I don't think it's the white person wanting to be there because

05:54:14.500 that's common.

05:54:15.460 It's the fact that you have a dormitory just for white people. 0.79

05:54:19.140 That's where it's segregation.

05:54:21.260 You got HBCUs here as an audition.

05:54:24.600 But white people could go to HBCUs.

05:54:26.360 Yeah, white people can.

05:54:27.180 But it's technically a form of segregation though, isn't it?

05:54:31.100 No, it's not a form of segregation because everyone is welcome if you apply to go there.

05:54:36.560 The only difference is it's emphasizing on black excellence.

05:54:40.960 It's emphasizing on the history.

05:54:42.520 Would it be racist to have a white, historically white university where we're emphasizing white?

05:54:47.360 And black people could go there? 0.99

05:54:47.520 No. 0.95

05:54:48.220 Because that's the thing.

05:54:49.200 White people could go there.

05:54:49.220 How do you think that mainstream society would see that if we had a historically white university?

05:54:53.880 We do.

05:54:54.160 They're all historically white universities.

05:54:55.080 Hold on a second.

05:54:56.140 But wait, wait until I finish my sentence.

05:54:58.320 Wait until I finish my sentence.

05:54:59.400 And then you can jump right in.

05:55:01.360 You can jump right in.

05:55:02.420 So if it's a historically white university and they were celebrating white excellence, 0.78

05:55:08.300 do you think that society would think that that's a good thing?

05:55:11.180 That's not what Princeton and Harvard and those Ivy League schools do?

05:55:15.180 No.

05:55:16.120 That is what they did.

05:55:17.320 They did that.

05:55:17.840 It's very hard for minorities.

05:55:20.900 Just one sec.

05:55:22.140 Speaking for all men.

05:55:23.680 You have a big sass. 1.00

05:55:24.500 Thank you, man.

05:55:24.780 In the woods scenario, I know for a fact most all men would find a higher call to duty to get the woman out of the woods in this scenario.

05:55:32.860 No man would think of Sling you. 0.70

05:55:35.120 Well, let's be fair.

05:55:36.980 There's some men would.

05:55:39.020 I'm glad that that's the men you surround yourself.

05:55:41.000 I mean, it's been like 10 years ago, men started asking for consent just because of the Me Too movement.

05:55:46.300 Before that, it was like, bend over.

05:55:48.440 Come on.

05:55:49.180 Even in the 90s.

05:55:50.140 Did you want the guy to ask you for consent today?

05:55:52.900 Yes.

05:55:53.240 I would like to always be asked for consent.

05:55:55.280 Yeah, of course.

05:55:56.340 What do you want him to say?

05:55:57.200 Can I touch you here?

05:55:58.360 Can I touch you here?

05:55:59.320 Not like that, but it's the same with you.

05:56:01.580 Would you like, well, maybe you would, a woman to come and like touch you all over without you knowing her?

05:56:06.540 But if you're in a situation where you're romantically involved with someone.

05:56:09.860 That's different.

05:56:10.180 No woman wants that. 1.00

05:56:11.220 No woman wants some dude to start saying, can I do this? 1.00

05:56:14.220 Can I do this?

05:56:14.940 They want you to take the lead. 1.00

05:56:17.280 She said she was like, she hit the dude up to come and fuck her. 1.00

05:56:20.820 Yeah. 1.00

05:56:21.240 Is that not consent?

05:56:22.840 That is consent.

05:56:23.900 But what I mean is men haven't really taken in consideration women's anything.

05:56:29.880 Like, the whole bear thing, that's where it's coming from.

05:56:33.400 It's like, oh, we'd rather because it's been so horrible.

05:56:35.660 It's not because you guys have been so nice to us for like millions of years.

05:56:39.980 It's been like pretty bad.

05:56:42.060 We've been nice to you guys for millions of years.

05:56:43.800 You have?

05:56:44.460 We have.

05:56:44.700 Is that why they passed that law where they can marry nine-year-old girls in Iraq now? 0.55

05:56:49.260 We're not talking about those countries.

05:56:51.400 I mean, it's men.

05:56:52.000 That's a different culture. 0.92

05:56:53.040 That's a totally...

05:56:53.680 That's a different culture. 0.92

05:56:54.800 We could have a different conversation.

05:56:55.720 So American men never like S8 anybody or graped anyone?

05:57:00.060 And they didn't even get a point to vote for a while.

05:57:01.940 We're not like crime denialists here.

05:57:04.520 Yes.

05:57:05.020 Feels like it.

05:57:06.020 Yes.

05:57:06.360 This crime is an awful crime.

05:57:08.560 It should be punished to the fullest extent of the law.

05:57:11.020 And there would be some dudes who would see you in that forest and want to, you know.

05:57:15.160 But I think a much, much smaller percentage.

05:57:17.260 So what's the percentage for you guys?

05:57:19.220 Like 20%?

05:57:20.160 No.

05:57:20.500 Not even close.

05:57:21.460 I think it would be much, much less than that.

05:57:22.840 I would go off of whatever like the FBI and the DOJ statistics are.

05:57:26.960 Like the incidence rate.

05:57:28.280 Right.

05:57:28.580 That's what I would go off of.

05:57:30.120 I don't have it in front of me, but it's not 50%.

05:57:33.880 It's not 20%.

05:57:35.320 It's not 30%.

05:57:36.700 I'll put it this way.

05:57:37.320 If I had a little sister, I wouldn't advise her to go walking in the woods alone.

05:57:40.380 Right.

05:57:41.360 In case.

05:57:41.840 We do have to move it on to the next thing.

05:57:44.220 And we're going to go to, we're not going to hit all of these just for the sake of time.

05:57:48.720 But starting, okay, Natasha, you said, so here's the statement.

05:57:54.420 And then you're disagreeing with the statement.

05:57:57.540 Women have equal rights to men in the United States.

05:57:59.980 Natasha, Trinidad, Bionni, you disagree.

05:58:06.180 Callie, you disagree.

05:58:09.540 And then I think that's it.

05:58:10.860 Um, why don't we, here, why don't we start with Callie and we work our way down to Natasha

05:58:17.560 just for a little change of pace.

05:58:19.680 Uh, why do you disagree?

05:58:22.140 That women. 0.99

05:58:23.700 So the statement is women have equal rights to men in the USA.

05:58:26.780 You disagree.

05:58:29.200 Honestly, it doesn't feel like it.

05:58:30.820 And I know this is unevolved, like the most evolved country, I guess, where women have 1.00

05:58:34.920 it, you know, they're independent and they're making as much money or maybe more money than

05:58:39.200 men, but it's such a uphill battle.

05:58:42.300 Like every time I, and I, and it's hard for me to explain it because anything I say is

05:58:46.220 going to sound like complaining to you guys or, oh, poor little whatever.

05:58:50.220 But it's truly perfect example.

05:58:53.120 You know, I'm, I, I write comedy.

05:58:54.660 I'm a writer and I, I'm always around guys.

05:58:57.400 And to this day, there's always, I always have to prove myself, even though that's how

05:59:02.580 I make money.

05:59:03.320 That's how I make a living for years.

05:59:04.580 Now I always have to be like, oh yeah, comedy.

05:59:06.840 Oh, you're funny. 0.61

05:59:07.600 Like you always have to be like, that's because women aren't funny though. 1.00

05:59:10.980 Well, but I've been making more money than you with comedy.

05:59:13.680 So please.

05:59:14.460 Well, you don't know how much money I make.

05:59:15.660 You look pretty broke.

05:59:16.640 Men have to prove themselves too.

05:59:18.860 Whenever you're in sort of some sort of creative endeavor, it's not, you think like men, 0.54

05:59:23.180 it's just handed to them on the silver platter. 0.99

05:59:24.940 It's not handed, but there's the shit, the handshakes and the golf course. 0.99

05:59:28.300 Tell us your, tell us your, the camaraderie. 0.99

05:59:31.500 Comedians don't play golf.

05:59:32.520 The frat house, the, the rich ones do.

05:59:35.200 Tell us a good joke. 1.00

05:59:36.440 No, fuck you. 1.00

05:59:37.520 Make it funny. 1.00

05:59:38.040 Tell us a good joke.

05:59:38.780 You're a comedian.

05:59:39.620 Are you going to pay me?

05:59:40.040 You're a comedian.

05:59:40.680 Tell us a funny joke.

05:59:41.340 Are you going to pay me?

05:59:41.720 So your women aren't funny, I told you. 1.00

05:59:43.180 You're a man.

05:59:43.860 Can you do something?

05:59:44.560 So you're, you've faced, you've faced difficulties in your comedy career.

05:59:50.380 But the, so the statement is women have equal rights to men in the United States.

05:59:54.540 Is there anything else that you'd, why do you disagree besides that?

05:59:58.040 The comedy stuff?

05:59:58.740 Also because when a woman gives birth, she's expected to be back at work in like six weeks 1.00

06:00:04.600 or what is it?

06:00:05.320 Six, three months or something.

06:00:07.100 And the guy is, um.

06:00:10.200 This is not going to be a good argument for you because.

06:00:12.500 Well, the guy has to provide for his family or something.

06:00:13.900 The what?

06:00:14.320 The guy has to provide for his family.

06:00:15.800 Oh, of course, but then we're wrecked with the, is giving birth to you means nothing?

06:00:20.340 You think a robot could do it?

06:00:21.540 Yeah, but hold on, I just, just to know.

06:00:22.420 Or maybe a man, you can hire a man to do it. 0.97

06:00:24.320 Just to move things along here a little bit.

06:00:25.780 Keep it in the family.

06:00:26.240 I'm not sure this is the most compelling argument just because women get more maternity leave, 1.00

06:00:30.500 excuse me, maternity leave than men get paternity leave. 0.60

06:00:33.920 So I don't think this is really a compelling argument when it comes to equal rights.

06:00:38.440 It doesn't feel equal.

06:00:39.780 Even to the dollar, we don't make the same amount.

06:00:42.200 Okay, that's the wage gap.

06:00:43.220 That's another thing, but sure.

06:00:44.380 Anything else?

06:00:44.840 Um, that's it.

06:00:47.880 Okay, go ahead.

06:00:49.020 Yeah, I wanted to mention that a woman has never been president in the United States. 1.00

06:00:52.460 And then most of the CEOs are men.

06:00:55.600 So I just think that it's not really an even playing field in that sense.

06:00:59.440 But so this, we can engage with those, but it's about equal rights.

06:01:04.560 So a woman has an equal right to try to become the president, right? 1.00

06:01:10.720 Sure.

06:01:11.280 There's nothing, there's no law that says women can't be president, right? 1.00

06:01:14.840 Right.

06:01:15.300 Okay.

06:01:15.860 And there's no law that prevents women from being CEOs. 1.00

06:01:18.220 In fact, there are women CEOs, Yahoo, et cetera. 1.00

06:01:21.640 Right.

06:01:22.240 But I just think.

06:01:22.980 Twitter has a female CEO.

06:01:24.580 Okay.

06:01:24.820 So I take it back.

06:01:25.980 Okay.

06:01:26.140 I think we do have the same amount of rights.

06:01:28.260 Same amount of rights.

06:01:29.000 Okay.

06:01:29.160 What about you?

06:01:32.200 Um, I was thinking more so like how she was saying, not like necessarily like CEOs or president

06:01:39.320 or anything like that, but just like, as in the right.

06:01:41.980 And like how you, I guess you touched on it, like equal pay, things like that.

06:01:45.620 But also like to kind of piggyback off of what she was saying, um, about like her comedy career

06:01:51.620 or things like that.

06:01:52.180 Like how you asked me earlier, like, Hey, in the music industry, you might get people

06:01:55.580 who'd be like, Hey, I'll sleep, you know, like things like that.

06:01:58.260 We don't like, it is harder.

06:02:00.240 And I think more so what she was saying, kind of, again, to piggyback off the, um, working

06:02:04.980 harder for the respect in the room.

06:02:07.000 It's like when it's a male dominant field, it's different for women involved. 0.76

06:02:11.820 Who's the highest earning musical artist in 2024?

06:02:14.360 I don't know.

06:02:15.280 Taylor Swift.

06:02:16.720 Okay.

06:02:17.080 I mean, what barriers do you have when it comes to it?

06:02:19.380 I mean, also, if you're going to use Taylor Swift as an example, what about all the issues

06:02:23.160 she had with her management and the money that they were taking from her and things like

06:02:26.900 that, and it's a whole guy who did that and literally manipulated a lot of people, took

06:02:32.180 money from a lot of people, stole from a lot of people, you know, it's like poor, poor Taylor

06:02:36.520 Swift with her billions of dollars.

06:02:37.960 Um, so I know what you're, I'm actually very familiar with what you're talking about.

06:02:41.360 Scooter Braun bought the master recordings to her back catalog.

06:02:46.020 Um, there was nothing illegal done.

06:02:48.320 He legally bought them.

06:02:50.020 Her dad was like on the, uh, board of directors for the recording company.

06:02:55.120 He signed off on it.

06:02:56.920 She knew what was happening.

06:02:57.980 She could have bought them herself or there could have been steps taken if she really

06:03:03.180 didn't want him to buy it, but he, there, he didn't steal it.

06:03:07.220 There was a contract.

06:03:09.920 I mean, he didn't do anything.

06:03:11.680 I don't really pay it.

06:03:12.480 Obviously I don't know Taylor Swift like that because I didn't even know she was the highest. 0.93

06:03:15.840 Now what she ended up doing though, uh, she ended up just making up like a whole bunch

06:03:20.380 of bogus claims about the whole scenario and pretty much ended up, which ended up resulting

06:03:26.160 in Scooter Braun getting death threats, being harassed.

06:03:30.100 She's got like very vicious fans and she totally like painted this picture that wasn't at all

06:03:36.020 charitable to his position.

06:03:37.320 So, I mean, who's the worst in that position?

06:03:39.660 He legally bought her masters.

06:03:41.720 If she didn't want that to happen, she could have prevented it.

06:03:44.780 The record company who her dad's part of signed off on the deal, but listen, you just said

06:03:50.760 like her dad, the record company, most people at the record companies are men too.

06:03:54.700 So it's like, I mean, Michael Jackson bought the masters for the Beatles.

06:03:58.460 I mean, look, this is just something that happens in the recording industry when he tried

06:04:02.240 to buy his masters from them.

06:04:03.860 So I don't know what the deal is with that, but a lot of times in these industries though,

06:04:08.700 men are just going to be better at a lot of these sorts of things.

06:04:10.900 So there's going to be a gap naturally, like even with entertainment, for example, women 1.00

06:04:16.460 are only, especially when it comes to singers, for example, if they're not relying on their

06:04:21.080 sexuality, then there's really not much of an avenue for them.

06:04:23.940 There's not, there's not that many women who are just purely creative. 1.00

06:04:26.220 I kind of want to debate you on this, Jake.

06:04:27.900 Let's do it.

06:04:28.400 I mean, Taylor Swift, I don't think she's relying on her sexuality. 1.00

06:04:33.180 She is an outlier when it comes to this.

06:04:36.920 Okay, that's fair.

06:04:37.420 But generally speaking, women tend to rely on their sexuality, whereas I think men just 0.98

06:04:41.680 have a broader spectrum of things that they can rely on in terms of, like, you've got 0.92

06:04:46.060 some, like, gross, ugly dudes who are, like Pitbull, who's a successful recording artist. 0.54

06:04:51.780 No, and I agree, sorry to cut you off and stuff, but I agree with what you're saying, but I 0.97

06:04:55.620 feel like that aspect comes from a lot of the women having to sleep with people in their 1.00

06:05:01.320 career because they feel like they have to or else they're not going to make it somewhere

06:05:04.560 and they're rather going to do something for someone they're sleeping with than someone

06:05:07.660 who told them no.

06:05:08.420 So, here, just to, I guess, get to the bottom of this, is, like, the casting couch in the

06:05:14.460 entertainment industry, music industry, is that bad?

06:05:17.020 Yeah, absolutely.

06:05:18.480 Is there a lot of shady stuff going on?

06:05:20.360 Absolutely.

06:05:20.760 But, like, it's not clear to me, because the statement is, women have equal rights to men

06:05:27.360 in the United States.

06:05:28.460 You disagree.

06:05:32.460 Oh, casting couch is, like, it, it, yeah, the casting couch is kind of this idea of, like,

06:05:38.380 a guy, a man who's, like, a producer in Hollywood, he'll give a woman a role if she sleeps with 0.94

06:05:45.040 him.

06:05:45.180 What Harvey Weinstein did, basically.

06:05:46.940 Yeah.

06:05:47.780 And so, this is absolutely a phenomenon in the, in the music industry, in the entertainment

06:05:52.600 industry.

06:05:54.140 Is it, is it bad?

06:05:56.060 Is it inappropriate?

06:05:57.640 Absolutely.

06:05:58.260 But I don't know if it's evidence of a discrepancy when it comes to rights between men and women.

06:06:04.860 That's why I said, after listening to them and, like, what you were saying and stuff,

06:06:07.320 I was, like, I kind of was just piggybacking off of that.

06:06:09.540 But now that you made that clear and, like, the equal pay and that's a whole different topic.

06:06:12.900 Sure, it's supposed to show that they still have to leverage their sexuality. 0.76

06:06:15.280 Yeah.

06:06:15.840 All of the women who progress up through the, through the hierarchy. 0.99

06:06:18.300 It's harder, especially when you don't, like, for instance, you asked me how many times I

06:06:22.020 said, like, coochie in my song, I said never, because that's not the image that I'm portraying.

06:06:26.280 It happens in, you know, in a lot of industries.

06:06:28.240 No, it do, though.

06:06:28.660 And even with comedy, for example, whenever you see women who are aspiring comedians, oftentimes

06:06:33.460 they'll walk out and they'll try and act like a man.

06:06:36.080 You know, they'll say something about, like, something like vulgar.

06:06:39.480 I saw one the other day where she just started burping into the microphone. 1.00

06:06:42.500 It's very hard for women to capture a feminine essence whilst being funny. 1.00

06:06:45.740 Yeah.

06:06:46.820 Natasha, women have equal rights to men in the USA.

06:06:49.920 You disagree.

06:06:50.560 Why is that?

06:06:51.120 I was going to agree.

06:06:52.260 I don't think I agree with the wording of that.

06:06:54.620 I think treatment is different.

06:06:56.580 There's discrepancy in treatment and in wage, but in actual legal rights in the US, I do

06:07:01.300 think it's equal.

06:07:02.880 Okay.

06:07:03.540 Yeah.

06:07:04.120 All right.

06:07:04.660 I mean, I mean, I can't really argue with you on the original statement then if you think

06:07:10.040 that there are, so that is your position, though.

06:07:12.280 You think there are 100% equal rights between men and women? 0.99

06:07:17.060 Okay.

06:07:18.460 Moving on to the next one then.

06:07:19.740 Perhaps this is more related.

06:07:22.160 The statement is, women are not oppressed in the USA.

06:07:24.940 You disagree.

06:07:25.760 You disagree.

06:07:26.440 You disagree.

06:07:27.440 And then, Callie, you did not disagree.

06:07:30.840 So you three disagree.

06:07:33.860 So your position is women are oppressed in the United States? 0.98

06:07:37.260 Is that your position?

06:07:38.380 Your position?

06:07:39.660 How?

06:07:40.820 I think even having conversations about what a woman can do with their body is oppressing

06:07:45.040 a woman.

06:07:46.980 Oppressing a woman. 1.00

06:07:47.720 Okay.

06:07:48.000 In a majority of politics, a lot of politicians are men, so it's men making that decision.

06:07:52.160 For her.

06:07:52.800 But the people who elect the politicians are women? 1.00

06:07:57.140 Right.

06:07:57.460 But that's still oppression.

06:07:58.680 Here, before we, I guess before we get into the weeds of it, is there anything else?

06:08:02.120 Other examples of how women are oppressed? 0.97

06:08:04.160 That's my main one.

06:08:04.640 Just the abortion thing?

06:08:05.440 Okay.

06:08:05.620 What about you?

06:08:06.420 Yeah.

06:08:06.680 No, I kind of agree with that.

06:08:08.760 And then, I don't know.

06:08:10.840 Is there anything else besides the, like, abortion stuff, though?

06:08:14.680 Well, yeah, there's other things, but, like...

06:08:16.380 Like what?

06:08:17.680 Well, I was trying to think of it, but then you keep asking, or, like, cutting me off,

06:08:21.000 and then now I'm thinking other things.

06:08:21.620 Well, here, think about it.

06:08:22.500 We'll come back to you.

06:08:23.400 So I guess I can go back to, like, the president thing here.

06:08:25.760 And I do think they are oppressed in that form, because they haven't had, like, representation

06:08:30.920 to look up to and aspire to.

06:08:33.700 Sure.

06:08:34.320 Well, I mean, it hasn't happened yet, but it's not clear if it's a...

06:08:39.340 Just because something hasn't happened, it's not clear if that's oppression.

06:08:44.260 But it is oppression because if they weren't oppressed, they would have gotten there by now.

06:08:47.680 We've had how many presidents already still?

06:08:49.760 Well, let me ask you a question.

06:08:50.960 Um, are, uh, there hasn't been an atheist who's become president.

06:09:02.220 Are atheists oppressed?

06:09:04.420 Sure.

06:09:04.940 Because we live in a predominantly Christian society, so I think, um, atheists, you know, 1.00

06:09:10.560 they're not going to be treated as, uh, equally as Christians are in a predominantly Christian

06:09:16.060 society.

06:09:18.780 Okay.

06:09:19.600 Um.

06:09:20.960 It's, I, when I think of oppression, I think of, like, really unfair, like, unfair, unjust

06:09:27.900 treatment.

06:09:29.060 Women can become president. 0.99

06:09:32.160 Correct.

06:09:32.700 So just because a woman hasn't yet, I mean, you had a woman vice president, uh, Kamala Harris 0.98

06:09:38.580 was the nominee for the Democratic Party.

06:09:41.920 She could have become president. 1.00

06:09:43.980 If it's put down to a vote, you know, if it's put down to a vote and people vote on it

06:09:47.300 and they decide not to have the woman president, don't you think that's equal? 1.00

06:09:50.740 They had the opportunity, but they don't want to listen to Kamala Harris's stupid voice 1.00

06:09:54.320 for, like, four years, don't you think that's fair? 1.00

06:09:57.240 But Trump's voice is better?

06:09:58.940 Yes, much better.

06:09:59.760 Of course.

06:10:00.160 He's got a baritone.

06:10:00.980 I knew it.

06:10:01.860 I knew it from the beginning. 0.99

06:10:03.580 It was a Trump freaking pot. 0.99

06:10:05.660 Yeah, of course. 0.99

06:10:06.500 I mean.

06:10:06.560 Of course.

06:10:07.540 Of course.

06:10:08.640 Departation and plane crashes and, oh, let's make American white again. 1.00

06:10:13.620 Did Trump crash the plane? 1.00

06:10:14.560 Let's put black people back. 1.00

06:10:15.700 Those animals. 1.00

06:10:17.540 That's what you believe in.

06:10:18.560 Hold on.

06:10:18.880 Nobody on the podcast said any of that stuff.

06:10:21.240 I don't know what you're talking about.

06:10:22.280 That's what Trump said, not you guys.

06:10:23.580 When did Trump...

06:10:24.320 Trump say that we should...

06:10:25.320 Oh, boy.

06:10:25.340 The way you just said.

06:10:26.380 He's been two weeks.

06:10:27.140 He's sending all kinds of people back and...

06:10:29.020 You mean illegal immigrants that illegally came into the country?

06:10:32.220 Of course. 0.99

06:10:32.240 And then the animals, black people, just... 1.00

06:10:34.820 When did he say... 1.00

06:10:35.460 When did he say the black people were animals? 1.00

06:10:36.620 Immigrants, Mexicans... 1.00

06:10:37.580 You just say things and you don't really know what you're talking about?

06:10:40.040 I know what I'm talking about.

06:10:41.200 You're a Trumper.

06:10:42.200 That's all I need to know.

06:10:43.080 Well, you got that part right.

06:10:45.220 You got that part right.

06:10:45.600 Oh, he doesn't count.

06:10:46.600 Okay.

06:10:46.920 You can't vote.

06:10:47.560 That's messed up.

06:10:48.240 I can't vote, but one day I will be able to vote.

06:10:50.500 Okay.

06:10:51.400 I'll be voting for the next Trump.

06:10:52.480 Look, we could probably talk about Trump all night.

06:10:54.460 I want to stick it to the...

06:10:56.120 So, okay.

06:10:56.780 Oh, I do have one.

06:10:57.900 Yeah, a woman hasn't become president. 1.00

06:10:59.280 Okay.

06:10:59.560 So, another way a woman was oppressed was in, like, medical studies. 0.99

06:11:03.880 A lot of doctors in the past have done experiments on women's bodies, for example, for sterilization.

06:11:12.940 And that happened here.

06:11:13.940 So, I think that's oppressive.

06:11:15.560 I mean, this happened to me.

06:11:17.360 Wasn't it, like, the...

06:11:19.640 There's lots of...

06:11:20.400 It's not gender-specific, though.

06:11:21.560 You've got MKUltra, which was a project run by the government that did all sorts of experiments on people.

06:11:28.160 And what's the...

06:11:28.660 There's another one where they gave black people syphilis. 0.95

06:11:31.860 Yeah, that's the one. 0.99

06:11:32.460 And that is racist. 0.98

06:11:33.080 And it is also oppressive to black people. 0.96

06:11:35.740 Yeah. 0.98

06:11:37.000 Wait, so...

06:11:38.080 Okay.

06:11:38.580 There's a couple things there.

06:11:41.700 So, there was, like, the abortion thing.

06:11:45.540 I don't know.

06:11:46.180 We already talked about, like, the abortion stuff.

06:11:47.780 I don't know if it's really worth going back to it.

06:11:49.720 I don't know if that's evidence, like, the...

06:11:52.080 That's evidence...

06:11:52.680 For sterilization is not evidence of women being oppressed? 0.61

06:11:57.040 I mean, you're...

06:11:59.060 Involuntary.

06:12:00.240 Here, let's investigate it a little bit.

06:12:01.880 How many women were sterilized? 1.00

06:12:04.140 I don't have the stats.

06:12:05.260 Okay.

06:12:06.100 Do you think...

06:12:06.880 It was a higher percentage.

06:12:07.640 Were men also sterilized?

06:12:09.360 No.

06:12:10.060 In Puerto Rico, I know that when America first bought it, they sterilized the women there because they wanted to have less... 0.98

06:12:15.040 Change the split.

06:12:15.580 They wanted to have less percentage of the Taino bloodline and the African descent, so they did sterilize women there, and it was, like, a huge majority of them.

06:12:25.120 They didn't do it to the men, though.

06:12:26.280 Yeah, I'll just go ahead and grant the argument that if there were specific, like, those specific women were, like, they were scientifically experimented on, and it was, like, unethical and they were sterilized. 1.00

06:12:38.080 Yeah, I think that...

06:12:39.440 That...

06:12:40.440 I don't know if it meets the definition of...

06:12:44.440 I'll just go ahead and say it's oppression.

06:12:46.880 Sure.

06:12:47.200 But it's, like, it's a very specific group, and we're talking about, like, we can find, like, massive amounts of evidence of, like, tons of men being treated unfairly.

06:12:57.760 Does that mean that men in general are oppressed in the United States?

06:13:01.500 I see what you're saying, and I think you're right.

06:13:04.820 Okay.

06:13:05.440 So do you think men are oppressed, too?

06:13:07.200 Sure.

06:13:07.660 Some men are oppressed.

06:13:08.860 So everyone's just...

06:13:09.620 Minority men, for sure. 0.99

06:13:10.940 What about the fact that all men have to register for the Selective Service and potentially be subject to forced military conscription?

06:13:19.040 All men have this burden. 0.99

06:13:22.500 It seems to me like that would mean that all men are oppressed in the United States.

06:13:27.780 But wouldn't you want to fight for your country?

06:13:30.100 Isn't that an honor?

06:13:31.000 What if you don't?

06:13:31.620 What if a man doesn't want to? 0.94

06:13:32.920 Not necessarily, yeah.

06:13:34.420 Yeah.

06:13:34.940 Wait, how would you feel if there was a draft that forced women to have to have children?

06:13:40.040 Would you be fine with it?

06:13:41.120 Sure.

06:13:41.700 Really?

06:13:41.940 If there was a need.

06:13:43.560 If there was a need.

06:13:44.420 You'd be totally okay with it?

06:13:45.620 I'm okay with popping out a kid.

06:13:47.460 Five, ten.

06:13:48.060 Big folks.

06:13:48.920 Two kids, five, ten. 0.90

06:13:49.760 I mean, you can have consensual sex, but you would, like, you would, I guess, would it even be consensual?

06:13:54.540 If it was the love of my life. 0.66

06:13:56.700 Yeah, it's with a guy you're dating, and they're like, you need to have a baby today.

06:14:00.640 I mean, if it's...

06:14:01.960 Or, like, try to have a baby in the next month.

06:14:02.860 If the world population depended on me having a baby, I would have a baby.

06:14:06.020 Like, I already want one, so...

06:14:07.960 But you'd be okay with the government passing a law that says,

06:14:11.140 you and other women who maybe don't feel the same way as you, they have to have kids, too. 0.99

06:14:16.300 Okay, I guess the government shouldn't really be saying what women should do with their bodies. 1.00

06:14:19.380 They're already doing that by saying no to abortion. 1.00

06:14:22.300 They're like, you have to have the kid.

06:14:23.720 I mean...

06:14:23.940 In Texas, at least.

06:14:24.940 Down to the individual states.

06:14:27.380 And abortion is killing another human being, so it's not your body. 0.77

06:14:30.540 Yeah, but then when we have the kid, you bounce, and you don't help us.

06:14:33.440 You're like, no, child support is the devil.

06:14:35.340 Actually, most guys don't.

06:14:36.640 Most guys just look after their families and are pretty good guys.

06:14:39.720 That's nice.

06:14:41.040 It is nice.

06:14:42.320 It is nice.

06:14:42.760 I mean, there's definitely like three bodily autonomy arguments you can make that impact men more so than even abortion.

06:14:50.220 I mean, you have forced military conscription, you have circumcision upon birth, and then you have...

06:14:55.060 Well, I mean, perhaps it's even for because of discrepancies when it comes to criminal penalties, but men are much more likely to be sent to jail versus women for the same crime, this sort of thing.

06:15:05.940 But then you have also, when it comes to child support, again, we established 90% of child support payment goes from men to women.

06:15:13.020 So the government's prepared to take away men's bodily autonomy by throwing them into jail if they don't pay child support.

06:15:19.400 Which, mind you, we've totally done away with debtors' prisons.

06:15:22.260 Like, if you have a debt to a company, no matter you don't...

06:15:26.220 If you don't pay the debt or you have student loans, if you don't pay them, there's no scenario where you can ever be sent to prison for financial debt.

06:15:33.740 The only financial debt that you can ever be sent to prison or jail for is failure to pay child support.

06:15:41.800 We realize that debtors' prison is unethical, except it's okay to do to men, which I find kind of interesting.

06:15:49.620 But so men have like a lot of bodily autonomy concerns.

06:15:51.940 And they could be on child support too.

06:15:54.880 Yes, I already granted this.

06:15:56.680 Hold on.

06:16:00.200 Are some men S-aid?

06:16:02.240 Yes.

06:16:03.000 Yes, for sure.

06:16:03.680 But women are S-aid more than men? 0.98

06:16:05.560 No, I wouldn't say necessarily because you don't really have a real statistic for men because men, like as much as women don't report it, men don't report it 10 times more than that.

06:16:17.420 So it's a problem that's equally spread amongst men.

06:16:19.980 Yeah.

06:16:20.040 You don't think that that's particularly a woman?

06:16:21.200 I feel like men that are S-aid, like especially at a younger age, because I do have... 0.89

06:16:25.840 Well, I mean, there's like childhood...

06:16:27.420 Yeah, well, because like what I learned, because I do have a minor in psychology for child development, and I work in like schools with kids and stuff like that.

06:16:35.100 That does stem, like that puts something on like anyone's mental for like when they grow up.

06:16:41.300 So like most of the time, like for instance, how you're saying one in...if she had three sons, one in the three would be an S-a-er. 1.00

06:16:48.480 Not necessarily unless they were like impacted that way.

06:16:51.760 I mean, sure.

06:16:52.100 Maybe the incidence rate...I mean, maybe if it's even higher for like when children are abused, it might even be higher like boys or whatever.

06:17:00.180 But I mean, like let's say like adults.

06:17:02.320 Like how about women...people on college campuses? 1.00

06:17:05.380 Do you think it's like 50-50 when it comes to S-a on college campuses?

06:17:09.340 In terms of men and women?

06:17:10.420 Yeah.

06:17:11.880 Like...

06:17:12.440 But so if you're saying, well, like S-a towards women is like this really big deal on college campuses, and I was like, well, yeah, but some men...

06:17:20.480 Get it too?

06:17:21.740 Also get S-a-ed. 0.99

06:17:23.760 But you would point out like, yeah, but there's more women who get... 1.00

06:17:27.340 It doesn't take away the fact that it still happens to men.

06:17:29.980 Sure, absolutely.

06:17:30.740 I agree with you.

06:17:32.080 But I don't know.

06:17:33.580 It's just like the child support thing.

06:17:35.540 Like it's...

06:17:36.760 It still happens.

06:17:38.480 How about this?

06:17:39.020 It's...

06:17:39.580 It's bad.

06:17:41.540 It's bad when women also get thrown into jail when they don't pay child support. 1.00

06:17:47.360 It is, but yeah.

06:17:48.800 But it's actually, in addition to that, just way less likely to happen even for women because there's a bias in the court system. 1.00

06:17:54.620 And they're going to be more lenient towards deadbeat moms. 1.00

06:17:57.400 No, but my thing is this too.

06:17:58.800 Why are we paying our tax dollars on people who don't want to be in their kid's life?

06:18:03.240 Like that should be something.

06:18:04.840 Like we pay for people to be in jail too and stuff.

06:18:07.760 We're praying for the police to watch them.

06:18:09.880 And like I'm really paying for somebody who didn't want to take care of their kid.

06:18:12.800 You're right.

06:18:13.220 I think we should abolish... 0.99

06:18:14.240 That's dumb. 0.97

06:18:14.900 We should abolish like prison sentences for people who don't pay child support. 0.99

06:18:19.120 Yeah.

06:18:19.440 And you do something else for them.

06:18:20.620 Like...

06:18:21.220 Sure.

06:18:21.400 Did you have anything else on this, Natasha?

06:18:24.820 The women are not... 1.00

06:18:26.440 You disagree?

06:18:27.680 Women are not oppressed in the USA? 1.00

06:18:30.420 No.

06:18:31.100 How about this?

06:18:32.080 Men are more oppressed than women. 0.97

06:18:33.560 Your thoughts?

06:18:36.680 Into the mic if you can.

06:18:37.920 I don't think men are more oppressed in the United States.

06:18:40.060 I think that...

06:18:40.780 Do you think they're oppressed at all?

06:18:42.120 Men are oppressed?

06:18:42.960 Yeah.

06:18:43.240 Yeah.

06:18:43.520 And I also think that they can be sexually assaulted.

06:18:46.080 I think that they have less of a propensity to say when that happens.

06:18:50.660 But I think in terms of a higher number, women, I do still think, get essayed more because a man is able to overpower them usually more physically. 0.75

06:19:01.560 Yeah, sure.

06:19:01.660 It doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

06:19:02.720 I'm more interested in the oppression conversation, though.

06:19:05.720 What was the question?

06:19:06.860 If men can also be oppressed?

06:19:08.440 Yeah, I agree.

06:19:08.980 So I think men are more oppressed than women.

06:19:10.620 I don't.

06:19:11.380 I think that traditionally and historically, they have had an easier time.

06:19:16.620 They could have public office.

06:19:18.480 They could vote.

06:19:19.240 They could do all of these things.

06:19:20.200 Yeah, women could do those, too. 1.00

06:19:21.700 Not until the last...

06:19:23.880 Now we can do it.

06:19:25.000 Yeah, now we can in recent times.

06:19:27.180 But historically, it's been more catered to men.

06:19:30.540 So I think in general, men are less oppressed.

06:19:32.700 I mean, you do realize that throughout all of human...

06:19:35.640 The microphone came out of nowhere.

06:19:37.780 Throughout all of human history, like 99% of men couldn't vote.

06:19:43.440 I wouldn't say it's 99% of men.

06:19:47.660 Yes.

06:19:48.540 There were kings...

06:19:49.440 Hold on.

06:19:49.660 Where is the stat from?

06:19:51.040 Okay, here, Damien, pull up some infographics here.

06:19:54.080 So if you go, Damien, pull up the Discord infographics tab.

06:19:58.080 So you had kings, monarchs, emperors, this sort of thing.

06:20:02.980 Powers was centralized in a very, very small amount of hands.

06:20:08.260 Democracy is a very new thing.

06:20:10.020 Yeah.

06:20:10.280 So in the United States, for example, the time period where all men could vote and when

06:20:15.200 all women could vote, there was a 50-year difference. 0.73

06:20:18.260 And you might say, well, hey, 50 years...

06:20:19.020 But prior to that, it was still men voting.

06:20:21.000 It might not have been all men, but it was still men voting.

06:20:23.580 So you could say that people of color in that situation were oppressed because it was white

06:20:27.780 men voting and people of affluence voting.

06:20:29.520 I'm not interested in the intersectional conversation.

06:20:31.840 I'll have the conversation of like...

06:20:33.520 Because then we just...

06:20:34.420 Look, we can talk about like, well, okay, let's start doing intersection.

06:20:37.920 Let's talk about like disabled people.

06:20:39.340 We can talk about like all these different intersections of like how different groups

06:20:43.240 of people and how they intersect were oppressed.

06:20:45.580 We got to keep it to just like men and women. 0.91

06:20:48.580 Okay, then I disagree because I think historically men have been able to do things women cannot. 0.94

06:20:53.700 Including voting.

06:20:55.660 For 50 years.

06:20:56.540 There's a 50-year difference.

06:20:57.840 That's still 50 years.

06:20:59.080 Yeah, let me ask you a question.

06:21:00.260 So what do you...

06:21:00.940 Building public office.

06:21:01.740 There was a lot of different things that men could do that women couldn't. 0.82

06:21:04.860 So have your own credit card.

06:21:06.720 You couldn't do that without a male signer.

06:21:10.440 Yeah, so going to the voting thing, though.

06:21:12.840 Damien, do you have the infographics tab pulled up?

06:21:15.020 Go ahead, pull it up for me so I can get this going.

06:21:19.700 Yeah, percentage of popular...

06:21:21.700 There's a different one that I think...

06:21:23.140 Exiled that really quick.

06:21:24.340 Yeah, this one's a bit better.

06:21:25.520 Countries with universal right to vote.

06:21:27.300 So the green...

06:21:30.160 Or excuse me, not the green.

06:21:31.140 The brown.

06:21:31.740 No universal right to vote.

06:21:33.120 So that's going back to 1789.

06:21:34.860 In 1850, some men started getting the right to vote.

06:21:39.960 And then you had in...

06:21:41.620 But it was very, like, very small.

06:21:44.700 And then...

06:21:45.640 Oh, this is universal?

06:21:46.920 Let's...

06:21:47.180 You know, this is a bunch of...

06:21:49.100 This is an amalgamation of different countries.

06:21:50.800 Can you go back to the other one?

06:21:52.760 Yeah.

06:21:53.780 Oh, wait.

06:21:54.320 Is there another one?

06:21:56.780 Just those two?

06:21:57.520 Okay.

06:21:58.000 Do that first one.

06:21:59.300 So I believe this is in parliamentary.

06:22:01.820 I believe this is in the UK, then.

06:22:04.600 So the pink is women. 1.00

06:22:06.680 Blue is men. 0.93

06:22:07.960 So 1600, 1700, 1800.

06:22:11.060 You did have, like, a small proportion of men.

06:22:12.920 But, like, that leaves 99, 98% of men who couldn't vote.

06:22:17.180 And then what you end up seeing is there's a brief period for about 50 years there where, like, a bit more men could vote.

06:22:24.300 And then a bit more men could vote.

06:22:25.740 And then in just a 50 years' time, it just completely equalized.

06:22:30.120 Now, and that was in...

06:22:32.240 That happened in, like, the early 1900s.

06:22:35.220 Do you know when the women's right to vote, when it was ratified? 0.98

06:22:39.140 The 19th Amendment? 0.55

06:22:40.700 I don't remember, no.

06:22:41.900 It was, like, 1920 is when it was ratified.

06:22:44.280 18 and 19, yeah.

06:22:46.320 1920.

06:22:47.220 Do you know what happened right before 1920?

06:22:51.560 Like, in general...

06:22:52.500 A big world event?

06:22:54.300 The war, you mean?

06:22:55.180 Yeah.

06:22:55.520 Yeah.

06:22:55.940 World War I.

06:22:56.460 World War I.

06:22:57.120 So here's a major difference.

06:22:59.640 I don't know about you, but if I was an 18-year-old in 1914 living in Germany or France,

06:23:05.680 I think I would trade my right to vote to not be sent to, like, Amiens or, like, the Ardennes Forest

06:23:12.760 or some sort of, like, offensive in North Africa and just, like, have, like, absolutely insane trench foot, as he said,

06:23:24.100 or have shell shock and hear, like, have permanent tinnitus where my ears are ringing from, like, the constant bombardment.

06:23:33.360 I think I would have rather been a woman at 18 in, you know, 1914 living in Europe than, you know, being a man.

06:23:42.160 By the way, most men, even then, a lot of them didn't even have the right to vote.

06:23:46.020 But men got the right to vote because they had more duty. 0.82

06:23:50.400 They had more responsibility.

06:23:52.580 You women got to dodge the ultimate, I mean, the ultimate sacrifice would be having to die for your country. 1.00

06:23:59.460 And so men got, as a woman, you can't be drafted to go to war.

06:24:06.180 The government can't force you to go to war, right?

06:24:09.660 Men should, I think men should have more say if their government representatives can say, 0.98

06:24:16.000 okay, we're going to send you to war to go die. 0.90

06:24:19.440 I kind of think that that was the fair trade-off. 0.99

06:24:21.800 How about today?

06:24:23.840 Would you be a woman, if you could? 0.98

06:24:25.940 Would you trade being a man for being a woman since you're so oppressed and so sad?

06:24:30.100 I mean, I'm happy to articulate ways in which men are disadvantaged.

06:24:33.320 I think I'm also happy being a man.

06:24:35.180 Okay, that's good.

06:24:36.040 But it's not, I think there are certain privileges that women have that trump those of my supposed male privilege.

06:24:41.880 Because now you can vote and you don't have to go to war.

06:24:44.520 You have all of the luxuries.

06:24:46.700 I mean, we still, guys, being a woman is pure pain. 0.70

06:24:50.320 It just looks flashy because we, you know, put the makeup on and all the flashy stuff.

06:24:55.240 But it's mostly painful.

06:24:57.060 Like, we're emotional beings.

06:24:58.800 We got to bleed every month for 35 plus years.

06:25:02.140 Then the menopause.

06:25:03.420 It's like, we get like one week a month to be a human. 0.99

06:25:07.240 It sucks.

06:25:08.360 It's just, I mean, but that's, some of the things you listed were biological in nature that you can't really do anything about. 0.95

06:25:14.920 Exactly.

06:25:15.480 But you guys get the advantage on that, I think, having a male body.

06:25:19.160 The fact that we don't have to have a period is an advantage.

06:25:22.760 I mean, do you want to contend with the argument, though?

06:25:24.480 I mean, you obviously disagree with me.

06:25:26.640 You think my position is untenable.

06:25:28.700 Do you want to, like, forward?

06:25:30.840 Really?

06:25:31.400 I mean, that's kind of disappointing that you don't want to have a back and forth.

06:25:35.180 I said my piece.

06:25:35.800 I don't think we're going to agree on it.

06:25:37.620 That's my stance.

06:25:38.140 I think you guys are also oppressed.

06:25:39.640 I think we're oppressed in different ways.

06:25:41.060 It doesn't mean that you're more oppressed or less oppressed.

06:25:43.080 It's just different.

06:25:43.920 But so, what I was trying to say about the voting, vast majority of human history, nobody had the right to vote.

06:25:50.680 It was monarchs, dictators, kings, queens, emperors, whatever.

06:25:55.140 Then, because of warfare, men had to be forced to go to war.

06:26:01.260 Men had a greater vested interest in saying, like, yeah, I don't want to get sent to Passchendaele.

06:26:08.800 I don't want to go get sent to one of these, like, offensive fronts in some European country to fight some war 0.91

06:26:17.020 because Archduke Franz Ferdinand got fucking capped by some, what is it, Serbian? 0.96

06:26:22.420 Serbian, yeah. 0.99

06:26:22.880 Serbian.

06:26:23.700 What was his name? 1.00

06:26:24.520 Fucking Gavril Princip or whatever. 0.99

06:26:29.720 Okay, anyways, I'm getting fucking in the weeds here. 0.99

06:26:32.220 But even with the credit cards and stuff, too, the fact of the matter is that men had to incur all of the debt. 0.79

06:26:38.400 So, they had to incur all of their wife's debt as well, and they were responsible for that.

06:26:42.780 So, women actually didn't even have to have the burden of a credit card, either. 1.00

06:26:47.020 The men had to incur all of the debt.

06:26:49.300 But you still had to have a signer for a credit card until much more recently than that standard was the case.

06:26:54.960 Yeah, but I mean, what I'm saying, though, is if you're in a marriage with a man and, say, it goes wrong,

06:26:59.160 the man has to incur all of the woman's debt.

06:27:01.800 And even nowadays, it's like women are like a burden on the welfare system, 1.00

06:27:07.600 and particularly when it comes to credit cards.

06:27:09.440 Like, they are in a lot more debt than men, single women. 0.93

06:27:13.080 Not good spenders.

06:27:14.060 They're like 80% of the consumer base or something like that.

06:27:17.020 But, look, was it unfair that women didn't have the right to vote for a period of 50 years as compared to men?

06:27:24.020 I'm sure, but...

06:27:25.080 But even then, there was a massive debate with the suffragettes and the women who didn't want to actually have the vote 1.00

06:27:30.320 because they were like, we don't want to do jury duty.

06:27:32.400 We don't want to go to war.

06:27:33.520 We don't want to do all of these sorts of things.

06:27:35.040 That's not our job as women. 1.00

06:27:36.300 And they were debating it out.

06:27:37.400 But unfortunately, there was huge financial interests that wanted to bring women into the workforce and have them vote. 1.00

06:27:44.320 I mean, and then the other thing that occurs to me is that women secured the right to vote 0.63

06:27:52.060 without any of the corresponding responsibilities that men had.

06:27:56.860 Like, even to this day, 2025, women are not subject to military conscription.

06:28:04.660 You don't have to register for the Selective Service.

06:28:07.360 Men do.

06:28:08.240 If you don't, it's a felony.

06:28:10.380 It's a $250,000 fine.

06:28:13.720 You can be barred from certain federal jobs.

06:28:16.100 You can't get, like, federal student loans.

06:28:18.580 There's some other ramifications.

06:28:19.880 You can't vote.

06:28:23.020 You can't vote.

06:28:24.040 As a man, being able to vote is tied to you registering for the Selective Service, 1.00

06:28:29.840 which would potentially make, well, no matter what, even if you don't register for that shit, 0.99

06:28:33.420 they can still draft you. 0.99

06:28:34.220 But as men, you're subject to military conscription.

06:28:39.680 I mean, you seem really big.

06:28:41.080 You seem really big on, like, bodily autonomy.

06:28:43.260 This is a bodily autonomy issue for men.

06:28:45.380 Like, governments, every single state in the world,

06:28:48.680 there's, like, maybe, I think Israel's the only one that drafts women, or maybe, I don't know.

06:28:52.480 And even then, they do support roles.

06:28:53.920 Right.

06:28:54.700 Most of the time.

06:28:55.260 God, I wish I could go to a war right now.

06:28:57.040 That's great. 0.99

06:28:57.440 Let's get blown up. 0.78

06:28:58.600 Cool.

06:28:59.300 So, in the United States, anyways, just to keep it local,

06:29:03.340 men can be, have their bodily autonomy taken away from them.

06:29:06.920 As somebody who's, like, a bodily autonomy,

06:29:09.220 you seem like a bodily autonomy advocate,

06:29:11.240 I feel like you should be a bit more on the side of men on this issue.

06:29:15.640 To at least make it equal between men and women,

06:29:17.700 you should be advocating for women being subject.

06:29:19.600 I didn't say one was more than the other.

06:29:20.820 I said they're very different.

06:29:22.000 You guys have different gender roles.

06:29:23.660 They have each other's backs.

06:29:25.080 Example A, at the beginning,

06:29:26.820 everybody's phones got taken away, except for Jake's.

06:29:29.540 Why?

06:29:30.060 Because they're like, oh, we're buddies.

06:29:32.060 We're men.

06:29:32.780 We're, ah, keep your phone.

06:29:34.780 That's right.

06:29:35.240 Male privilege.

06:29:36.220 Yeah, why?

06:29:37.440 Why he gets male privilege?

06:29:38.580 It's not even male privilege.

06:29:39.920 It's, he's been on the show, like, a dozen times.

06:29:41.700 He's your friend.

06:29:42.480 I get it.

06:29:42.900 No, because Jake knows not to be looking at his phone

06:29:45.800 and being disrespectful and rude during the conversation.

06:29:48.760 It felt like it was like, oh, only the women give your phones 1.00

06:29:51.780 because you'll be taking pictures.

06:29:53.260 Yeah, because you guys are more likely to be checking your phone and stuff,

06:29:56.100 whereas I have respect for Brian's show,

06:29:57.580 and I understand the rules,

06:29:58.580 and I'm going to stick to the rules, and he knows that.

06:30:00.200 You know what that's called?

06:30:01.260 Reciprocity, and it's called just having a trustful relationship.

06:30:04.240 Yeah.

06:30:04.600 Like, here's the reality,

06:30:06.340 and actually, when I first started the podcast,

06:30:08.800 never took phones away.

06:30:09.780 I think, I don't know, the first 40, 50 shows,

06:30:13.000 maybe, I don't know when we started it,

06:30:15.040 at least 50-plus shows never took phones away.

06:30:17.560 You know what ended up happening?

06:30:19.260 People were on their phone, not paying attention to the conversation.

06:30:22.400 It's also just rude to begin with.

06:30:24.600 And I'm, Natasha, I'm not trying to call you out.

06:30:26.760 You've been checking your little, it's not a big deal, whatever.

06:30:29.780 It's a good time.

06:30:30.460 I have a really long time.

06:30:31.220 Yeah, that's fine.

06:30:32.320 But I'm saying, like, you know,

06:30:34.500 there is something when it comes to respect

06:30:36.260 and not being on your phone when you're engaged in, like, a conversation

06:30:38.980 and listening to the person,

06:30:40.400 whether it's me talking, when you're talking, et cetera.

06:30:42.900 It's just kind of, that's why we take the phones away.

06:30:45.540 But you're right.

06:30:46.080 I am sexist.

06:30:46.860 I typically, you know, I did not take Jake's phone.

06:30:49.000 He's a man.

06:30:49.900 So I'm a raging sexist.

06:30:52.140 No, I understand the respect thing.

06:30:53.640 I mean, I wasn't going to be on my phone.

06:30:55.520 No gender wage gap.

06:30:56.860 I mean, I'll just say, you think there's a gender wage gap. 0.99

06:31:03.240 That's also evidence of oppression and not equal rights, right?

06:31:06.520 Gender wage gap, gender wage gap.

06:31:08.980 I mean, look, we don't have really time to linger too long on it.

06:31:12.740 So you have the controlled, uncontrolled gender wage gap. 1.00

06:31:16.880 The gender wage gap is comparing all men and all women 0.52

06:31:20.040 and just doing a comparison.

06:31:22.640 You're not factoring hours worked, type of job,

06:31:27.820 seniority in the company, location.

06:31:31.000 Like, the uncontrolled gender wage gap is like,

06:31:34.000 it's looking at everything, right?

06:31:35.280 So you're going to take a, like a, what's an attorney that, a, what's a, a public defender

06:31:44.960 in Idaho, and you're going to compare his salary to a civil litigation lawyer in New York City

06:31:53.060 who works at one of the top law firms and he went to Harvard Law School.

06:31:56.100 That's the uncontrolled wage gap. 1.00

06:31:57.800 And then, of course, you're going to have males who are in Idaho

06:32:00.680 and the woman who's like a high-powered attorney who went to Harvard 1.00

06:32:04.180 and is working civil litigation and making like maybe even millions of dollars a year.

06:32:08.780 When you start controlling for all these factors,

06:32:13.600 hours worked, type of job, location, geography, overtime, hazard pay, willingness to relocate,

06:32:22.520 there's over a dozen different factors, it shrinks down to one cent between men and women.

06:32:28.820 That's the difference.

06:32:30.020 It's one cent.

06:32:30.780 If I seem to recall, every single one of you said you want men to pay for the first date? 0.93

06:32:37.780 Well, you said yes, men should pay, men should pay, men should pay, men should pay, men should pay. 0.77

06:32:43.040 I said I was waiting at 50-50.

06:32:44.720 Yeah.

06:32:45.420 Who here wants to be a stay-at-home mom and not have to work? 1.00

06:32:49.940 You, you?

06:32:52.380 Depends.

06:32:53.320 Into the mic?

06:32:54.220 It depends.

06:32:54.940 I think it depends on the relationship and how many kids we have.

06:32:58.080 I would like to be at home raising the kids, but I think once they're a certain age, you could go back to work.

06:33:02.900 But you would want to take some time off of work, right?

06:33:05.860 And you would, I assume you would hope in that scenario, that your husband would be working during that time.

06:33:11.940 And he would continue working after that, and he was working before that, right?

06:33:15.840 Ideally, yeah.

06:33:16.400 So he'll take less time off than you, right?

06:33:18.880 Like paternity, yeah.

06:33:20.480 Paternity leave, yeah. 0.99

06:33:21.240 Yes, like, so couldn't the wage gap, whether it's controlled or under-controlled, be fully explained away by women's social and mating pressure that you guys on the individual and group level exert on men that we don't exert back on you?

06:33:40.020 You want a guy to pay for the first date. 0.67

06:33:41.400 Y'all want a guy to pay for the first date. 1.00

06:33:42.820 Some of you want to be stay-at-home wives. 1.00

06:33:44.120 You don't want to work at all, and you want the guy to be able to make enough money to do that.

06:33:50.040 Wouldn't that indicate, or wouldn't that lead men, if in order to date you, I need to make this much money, I need to spend money on the date that you don't have to spend for.

06:34:01.220 You guys are the ones who are enforcing men's greater propensity and desire to earn more money so that they could provide for your own wants.

06:34:16.720 So couldn't it just be, the gender wage gap is just entirely explained away by your standards for men.

06:34:24.140 Is there a rebuttal?

06:34:29.500 I don't know if you're disagreeing.

06:34:31.640 No, I think in general, I had said that I would prefer somebody who pays on the first date, but I think whoever is asking, whether that's the girl or guy, because you had said that you would ask a guy on a date sometimes.

06:34:41.060 I think whoever asks on the date should be the person providing the pay for that.

06:34:46.000 Do you think, so if I'm, me personally, like let's say I didn't have this podcast and girls like weren't like DMing me or whatever.

06:34:53.580 Do you think I can move through life and just wait for girls to ask me out?

06:34:57.720 Like I'm definitely not attractive enough to do that.

06:35:00.360 If that's the kind of girl you like, like some girls do like taking an initiative like that.

06:35:03.920 Okay.

06:35:04.700 But like, how long am I going to wait for that?

06:35:07.820 Because you could go to a bar and you could get a dude, like you could get, you could have 10 dudes come up to you. 0.98

06:35:16.140 How attractive as a guy do you need to be to get that?

06:35:20.680 I don't even think really hot dudes are going to get hit on 10 times.

06:35:24.480 I never asked a guy out on the first date either, but I've, yeah.

06:35:28.200 Like how many times have you approached a guy?

06:35:30.300 I would never.

06:35:31.040 Cause I like when a man takes initiative.

06:35:32.900 So even if he's like, if I saw someone that was my ideal, perfect man, I still wouldn't do it.

06:35:37.300 And do you consider yourself like, no, you're fine.

06:35:39.420 Do you consider yourself like more liberal, more progressive, like politically?

06:35:43.300 I would say I'm pretty middle ground.

06:35:44.840 I have some liberal ideologies, but I'm pretty conservative.

06:35:48.560 Even with the whole like.

06:35:49.280 Like with the family situation.

06:35:50.640 Oh, yeah.

06:35:51.120 But like politically, are you conservative?

06:35:54.120 Pretty liberal.

06:35:54.540 Pretty liberal.

06:35:55.320 If middle ground.

06:35:56.200 So what if I told you conservative women, they absolutely, which is maybe 50% of women, 1.00

06:36:00.980 they don't want to be chasing a man like that.

06:36:02.840 They don't want to approach a man.

06:36:03.780 And then even you yourself, you're a liberal woman.

06:36:07.300 You don't want to, you've never approached a guy.

06:36:09.740 You don't ask guys out on dates.

06:36:11.580 So there's a lot of women. 1.00

06:36:13.380 There's more women who think like you than think like, oh yeah, I'm approach that guy. 1.00

06:36:18.500 I agree with you.

06:36:19.820 Right.

06:36:20.520 So, but you're, you're trying to, you're saying that, oh, well, whoever asks should pay.

06:36:25.500 Yeah.

06:36:25.960 But if a girl feels obligated or like is intentional and wants to do that, then sure. 0.80

06:36:30.860 Pay for it because you're still asking.

06:36:32.480 It does happen.

06:36:33.080 Yeah.

06:36:33.840 Rarely.

06:36:34.200 But so knowing this, knowing that the entire framework of dating is 99% or 95%, whatever

06:36:41.980 you want to attribute to it, the guy's going to have to initiate.

06:36:45.660 And then by your own worldview, if the person who asks has to pay, that means the financial

06:36:51.740 burden falls on men.

06:36:53.280 There's no financial burden that falls on you.

06:36:55.540 I don't think it necessarily has to be a financial burden.

06:36:57.820 It literally, I mean, it literally is though.

06:37:00.240 No, because you could take somebody out to the park.

06:37:03.000 You could take them somewhere where you're not spending money, but I'm still saying the

06:37:06.380 person who takes initiative is what I find attractive.

06:37:09.300 So how about the first date the guy takes you to the park?

06:37:13.080 When you're in a relationship with a guy, like second date, third date, fourth date,

06:37:17.180 fifth date, let's say he does want to go out to dinner.

06:37:19.080 Should he pay for it then?

06:37:21.240 Like we're in a relationship?

06:37:23.100 Second date, third date, fourth date.

06:37:24.540 I don't know if you're in a relationship yet.

06:37:26.020 Second date, third, up to the fifth, sixth date.

06:37:28.520 Should he pay for all dates?

06:37:30.240 Not necessarily all dates.

06:37:31.320 Has that been your experience though?

06:37:33.040 That he would pay?

06:37:34.120 Has it been your dating experience when you've gone on a second, third, fourth date?

06:37:38.580 I'm sure you've been on first dates where he did take you to a nice dinner, right?

06:37:42.100 Yeah.

06:37:42.840 And second, third, fourth, fifth dates, he took you to dinner or he paid for something,

06:37:47.400 right?

06:37:47.960 Right.

06:37:48.240 So of your second, third, and fourth, fifth dates, whatever.

06:37:52.440 Sometimes I'll try to pay.

06:37:53.540 Yeah, for sure.

06:37:54.200 But has it been your experience on first, second, third, fourth, fifth dates, even in

06:38:00.040 those subsequent dates, he's still going to pay?

06:38:01.800 I mean, yeah, but I still would try.

06:38:06.020 But usually the men that I date are-

06:38:08.180 The old reach for the purse.

06:38:10.280 No, like I actually-

06:38:11.180 Pretending like you're going to pay.

06:38:12.720 No, I actually, like, I was seeing somebody and we had been on a date and he had gone

06:38:17.260 to the bathroom and I asked for the bill when he was there because he had paid for several

06:38:21.300 dates prior to that and I thought that was a nice thing to do.

06:38:23.980 And when he came back, he had asked them for the bill and I had already paid and he was

06:38:27.300 pretty upset about it.

06:38:28.300 I'd be so insulted.

06:38:29.180 But it is nice though.

06:38:30.720 If a girl- 1.00

06:38:31.760 I've had an experience before when girls have like planned a date.

06:38:34.680 They've been like, oh, I want to go to the movies.

06:38:36.080 See, that's different.

06:38:36.440 That's what I'm saying.

06:38:36.840 They're planning it.

06:38:37.260 And then they've gotten the tickets and you get there and they're like, oh, you got it.

06:38:39.340 I was like, oh, that's like, that's thoughtful.

06:38:41.040 Yeah, that's-

06:38:41.520 Shows that I'm not an ATM.

06:38:42.520 And they're planning it.

06:38:43.260 Like the guy doesn't have to pay for every date.

06:38:45.780 Yeah, that's what I mean when I say in a relationship.

06:38:48.100 Let me ask you a question.

06:38:48.820 You go on a first date with a guy and he does take you to dinner.

06:38:51.600 Uh-huh.

06:38:51.860 And, I don't know, it's maybe $100 total.

06:38:56.420 The waiter comes and waiter says, do you guys want anything more?

06:39:00.960 And he says, no, I think we're good.

06:39:02.740 We're full.

06:39:03.540 No dessert.

06:39:05.140 Two checks, please.

06:39:07.000 Are you going to go on the second date with him?

06:39:09.840 Ah, thank you for proving my point.

06:39:12.620 Even, yeah.

06:39:13.600 So, because you offered this up as a rebuttal to my position on the wage gap.

06:39:17.480 So, my argument is the wage gap is explained by the fact that women put a social and mating 1.00

06:39:23.800 pressure, a mating pressure on men that doesn't exist on you. 1.00

06:39:28.600 You guys can be motivated to succeed for your survival, but when it comes to like getting

06:39:34.220 a partner, getting romance, getting sex, down the road having kids, we are not looking at

06:39:40.280 your money.

06:39:41.100 In fact, I think when you're talking about the table, you're like, it's kind of icky when

06:39:45.240 a guy cares about a woman's money.

06:39:46.800 Yeah.

06:39:47.360 We established at the start that men don't really care about a woman's money. 0.99

06:39:51.060 I'm just saying, if you're asking me on the date and then you're asking me to split it,

06:39:54.340 I think that's odd.

06:39:56.020 I'll pay, but I'm not going to go on a date with him again.

06:39:58.900 But you're offering this up as like, so we're talking about the gender wage gap, and I'm

06:40:04.700 trying to understand if it's like you're offering it up as a rebuttal.

06:40:07.380 Well, it's men's fault because they're the ones asking for dates. 0.85

06:40:10.600 But like, I would agree with you, sort of, if men and women asked each other out at 50%

06:40:17.500 rates, but it's definitely not.

06:40:19.580 It's like 99% men are asking women out.

06:40:22.580 Maybe 1% of women ask men out.

06:40:25.740 Not 1% of women, but like 1% of the time.

06:40:28.680 The woman's being the initiator. 1.00

06:40:30.580 We could even bump it up to 5% if you disagree.

06:40:32.840 95% to 5%.

06:40:34.160 So if your standard is, well, whoever I should pay, this would make sense if men and women 0.97

06:40:41.200 asked each other out at similar rates.

06:40:43.080 It still makes sense.

06:40:43.900 It's my opinion.

06:40:44.780 Well, sure.

06:40:45.880 But like, there's a social pressure on men to initiate.

06:40:52.580 Because if we don't, like if I'm a guy, the average guy, if he doesn't initiate, he doesn't

06:40:58.300 make the first move, he's literally zeroing himself out.

06:41:02.920 Like he'll literally die a virgin.

06:41:05.320 Like if a guy never makes a move, there's not a girl coming. 0.65

06:41:08.640 You guys can move through life.

06:41:10.440 You can go to the club, just show up.

06:41:12.540 There's going to be 10 men who are hitting on you. 0.94

06:41:14.200 You can go on a dating app.

06:41:15.640 You just create the profile.

06:41:17.020 You have 500 matches, 24 hours.

06:41:19.600 You just go to Trader Joe's.

06:41:21.280 You go about your life.

06:41:22.860 Maybe some guy's going to, maybe you don't like him, whatever.

06:41:25.060 But you can go about your life and men will come to you.

06:41:27.680 Women can move through their lives without ever having to approach a man. 0.98

06:41:32.700 Not once.

06:41:33.580 Have you ever approached a guy?

06:41:34.500 Maybe you have.

06:41:35.180 Maybe you've, and how many you've dated, you've had a couple different, how many guys have

06:41:41.240 you dated?

06:41:42.820 Five, six?

06:41:44.160 Four.

06:41:44.620 No, not many.

06:41:45.500 Every single guy you've dated, every relationship you've had, you didn't need to make the first

06:41:50.000 move.

06:41:50.600 You didn't initiate.

06:41:51.940 Women can move through life that way. 1.00

06:41:53.480 As a guy, I don't have, like, I got to put myself out there. 0.95

06:41:56.960 I got to shoot my shot.

06:41:58.740 I got to deal with that kind of rejection.

06:42:00.800 You guys can move through life without ever having to make the first move.

06:42:04.260 You can.

06:42:05.000 There are women who do. 1.00

06:42:06.200 It might be, it might help you get that exact guy you want.

06:42:09.140 I don't think so though, because that guy that I would want, I don't think would want

06:42:13.600 a woman approaching them.

06:42:14.960 Like that's sure.

06:42:15.940 They want to be the dominant one engaging the conversation.

06:42:18.980 That's totally fine.

06:42:19.960 That's not really the point I'm arguing, but I'm just, again, gender wage gap. 0.87

06:42:24.400 Like you guys create, like, do you think men are like really, really motivated to, like

06:42:30.940 when it comes to dating women or to try to get sex from women, like super motivated, like

06:42:36.780 having kids. 0.58

06:42:37.580 I think women care about this too, right? 0.99

06:42:39.860 You're saying, is that why they date?

06:42:41.960 Well, I'm saying more so like how, how important is it to men to get a girlfriend, get romantic

06:42:49.840 interest, date a woman, have sex with them down, maybe down the road, have kids.

06:42:54.360 Yeah. 0.86

06:42:54.620 I think this is like for the vast majority of men, this is like probably the most important

06:42:58.860 thing in their life, right?

06:43:00.180 That's the biggest decision you make.

06:43:01.500 It's one of the biggest things in your life, right?

06:43:03.640 If it's one of the biggest things in your life, then don't you think if women set a certain 1.00

06:43:09.760 standard, you need to be financially attractive.

06:43:13.280 You need to pay for dates.

06:43:15.420 I won't date you.

06:43:16.780 I won't sleep with you if you don't pay for the first date. 1.00

06:43:20.500 Don't you think that creates a massive social pressure, a one directional social pressure

06:43:26.700 on men?

06:43:27.800 No, I don't think that you have to have some crazy financial literacy and like financial

06:43:35.240 means above a woman. 0.99

06:43:36.480 I'm saying you could take somebody out for coffee and you're offering to buy them a muffin.

06:43:41.000 That's not going to break the bank for anybody.

06:43:42.400 No, I know.

06:43:42.960 I don't, but I'm not sure if I'm like making it clear.

06:43:45.880 So do you, I mean, I'm not sure how else to articulate this.

06:43:54.460 So you don't think men feel like a pressure to be financially attractive to women?

06:44:01.320 Maybe.

06:44:01.840 Yeah.

06:44:02.160 In general.

06:44:02.860 I mean, you said you want to, you just, just to be clear, the question is, what would you

06:44:08.000 want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband? 0.86

06:44:10.540 You said 150,000.

06:44:11.980 Right.

06:44:12.500 So you did just on that metric alone.

06:44:14.400 I'm, I think that that's top 10%.

06:44:17.520 That's top 10.

06:44:18.080 Yep.

06:44:18.460 You're disqualifying 90% of men just off of the minimum.

06:44:23.060 You said minimum.

06:44:23.700 Um, so perhaps you like, Oh, it'd be really nice to date 300 K. 0.91

06:44:26.700 Like, you know, you know how much money I care about.

06:44:31.880 How much, oh my God, sorry.

06:44:34.260 Hold on.

06:44:35.160 Let me play this. 1.00

06:44:38.660 Fucking can't speak. 1.00

06:44:39.540 Like, I don't care. 1.00

06:44:41.600 She could work at Chick-fil-A. 0.95

06:44:42.900 She could be a barista. 1.00

06:44:43.880 Don't care.

06:44:44.520 We talked about that, that we agree that men don't really care about the financial stability

06:44:49.440 of a woman.

06:44:50.100 We do agree.

06:44:50.920 But we're talking about the gender wage gap. 0.98

06:44:53.120 And what I'm trying to argue is that you're saying it's, Oh, that this evil thing, man,

06:44:58.380 blah, blah, blah.

06:44:59.600 Women are oppressed. 0.97

06:45:00.640 Gender wage gap.

06:45:01.240 There's still things in play and like laws in the United States that allow for there

06:45:06.440 to be less of a gender gap with wage.

06:45:09.520 But I'm saying in practice, like most CEOs are men.

06:45:13.420 Most higher people in businesses are men.

06:45:16.540 And that's just historically how, what the case is.

06:45:19.280 That doesn't mean that women can't make money. 1.00

06:45:21.020 And that doesn't mean that women can't hold stature like that. 1.00

06:45:23.300 But in general, men do make more money.

06:45:26.620 But you want that though.

06:45:28.000 Like, how can you simultaneously say gender wage gap, gender wage gap bad, but I want a

06:45:36.480 guy to pay for the first date.

06:45:37.580 I said gender wage gap is prevalent. 0.98

06:45:39.420 Oh, so you're in favor of the gender wage gap. 0.95

06:45:41.300 Like you think it's good.

06:45:41.880 I don't think that it's good or bad, but it is a thing.

06:45:45.440 But you said it was, hold on.

06:45:46.760 You said the gender wage gap is evidence of either unequal rights or women's oppression

06:45:50.800 in the USA.

06:45:51.920 Is women's. 0.92

06:45:52.380 That is a type of oppression just because men have different oppression.

06:45:55.220 Okay.

06:45:55.440 Is oppression bad?

06:45:56.600 Of course.

06:45:57.200 Okay.

06:45:57.700 If the gender wage gap is evidence of women's oppression, then ergo, the gender wage gap 0.98

06:46:03.300 must surely be bad if it's oppressing women. 1.00

06:46:06.560 Right.

06:46:07.200 And it's oppressing women in their wage. 1.00

06:46:09.500 Not every woman is dating men.

06:46:12.360 Not every woman is dating women.

06:46:14.440 Not every woman is dating in general. 0.84

06:46:16.460 Just because they make less money doesn't mean that they're going to then make more money

06:46:20.440 through marriage.

06:46:21.420 Look, you said that if a guy didn't pay for the first date and he took you to dinner and

06:46:30.940 he said two checks, you pay for your food, I pay for mine, there wouldn't be a second

06:46:35.480 date.

06:46:36.280 Yeah, that's my opinion.

06:46:37.180 As a guy, can I go on a date with a girl and ever have the expectation that she's going

06:46:43.220 to pay for the entire bill on the first date?

06:46:45.620 If she asks you on a date.

06:46:48.180 I don't know why you're getting so frustrated with me.

06:46:50.480 I'm just answering my opinion honestly.

06:46:52.440 You denied that there's a mating pressure that exists on men when it comes to money.

06:46:58.020 No, I said that's a type of oppression.

06:46:59.140 There are different types of oppression with men and women.

06:47:02.080 There's different societal pressures.

06:47:03.680 I don't think it's oppression that women want men to pay for first dates. 0.76

06:47:09.000 I think...

06:47:10.040 Is that pressure?

06:47:10.980 Yeah, that's pressure.

06:47:11.840 No, it's pressure.

06:47:12.760 But I...

06:47:13.220 Excuse me, I thought you said oppression.

06:47:15.160 Yes, there's a mating pressure. 0.59

06:47:16.960 Yes, there's pressure.

06:47:17.280 And the point I'm trying to make, because of the mating pressure, that women apply, 1.00

06:47:22.840 to men, that men do not apply at all to women.

06:47:26.980 We don't care about how much money you make.

06:47:29.240 Women care decent. 1.00

06:47:31.180 Some women are different. 1.00

06:47:32.440 Some women don't care. 1.00

06:47:33.620 A lot of...

06:47:34.200 Enough women care. 1.00

06:47:35.720 Enough women care that it creates a generalized social and mating pressure on men to be more 0.97

06:47:42.700 prone and inclined to financial achievement and success.

06:47:48.520 If there's a pressure to do something, don't you think

06:47:52.100 that that would make it more likely for somebody to achieve?

06:47:59.280 I just don't...

06:48:00.840 I don't agree.

06:48:01.660 Okay.

06:48:01.880 Like, it's fine.

06:48:02.740 If...

06:48:03.560 There is pressure, yes.

06:48:05.480 Hold on.

06:48:05.880 When it comes to making money, if I can never...

06:48:09.720 Like, let's say the dynamic here.

06:48:11.220 In order for me to get a wife who's willing to have children with me, I need to be a provider 0.97

06:48:15.800 as a man.

06:48:17.840 If I want to further my bloodline, if I want a spouse, if I want a wife, I need to be a

06:48:24.260 provider.

06:48:24.680 As a woman, you don't need to be a provider. 1.00

06:48:29.320 Would this not be a massive pressure on men?

06:48:33.800 I said several times, it's a pressure.

06:48:35.460 I agree with you.

06:48:36.200 It's a mating pressure and a social pressure, but you seem to deny that it has any impact

06:48:41.000 on the gender wage gap.

06:48:43.040 Do you think men or women are more motivated to make money?

06:48:46.740 Men.

06:48:49.100 And could one of those reasons men are more motivated to make money is that if they don't

06:48:53.300 make money, they're not going to get sexual or romantic access to women? 0.76

06:48:56.600 They're less likely to have children?

06:48:59.380 Sure.

06:49:01.660 So, this pressure, if men are more motivated to make money, would that be a way to explain

06:49:09.500 away the gender wage gap? 0.84

06:49:17.000 I'm not sure.

06:49:18.880 I've said...

06:49:19.420 I mean, I've said my stance, so...

06:49:21.820 I mean, okay.

06:49:23.020 I agree with you.

06:49:23.780 It's pressure.

06:49:26.600 All right.

06:49:29.800 I mean, I'm...

06:49:32.880 So, it's women's fault? 1.00

06:49:33.960 The gender wage gap is the women's fault? 1.00

06:49:35.920 No, that's not the leap that goes there.

06:49:38.660 I mean, that's the leap that I'm taking.

06:49:40.760 Yeah, but that doesn't make it right.

06:49:42.240 That's your opinion.

06:49:43.960 Well, I don't think it's an opinion.

06:49:46.360 It is.

06:49:47.700 So, you think men care more about...

06:49:49.180 You think it's women's fault that there's a gender gap? 1.00

06:49:52.620 In so far as women have a place, a massive pressure on men to be providers that does not

06:50:00.560 exist in the opposite.

06:50:02.260 So, if there's a differential in, like, motivation and pressure that you guys apply towards us...

06:50:07.840 So, what about single men?

06:50:09.480 Huh?

06:50:09.640 So, what about single men?

06:50:10.880 They're not trying to earn a high income because they're not trying to provide for a family?

06:50:15.420 It's not the same thing?

06:50:16.040 Single men don't want to eventually date a woman?

06:50:18.040 Like, single men are the ones who want to become financially attractive.

06:50:22.820 Are you saying just, like...

06:50:24.240 Like, I'm saying in general...

06:50:24.800 Like, asexual men? 0.95

06:50:25.960 Yeah, like, people that don't have any interest in marriage, like, whether or not they want

06:50:29.900 to date or whatever casually, they're not going to be providing for a family.

06:50:33.000 Women are still going to be more interested in them if they're high earners and if they 1.00

06:50:35.720 have resources to give.

06:50:37.660 Even if they're not married and they're not providing for a family.

06:50:39.340 Even if they're not married.

06:50:40.080 Even if they're just dating a girl, they're just sleeping with a girl.

06:50:42.680 Even if they only want to have one-night stands for the rest of their life, yes, being

06:50:47.580 financially attractive, even in that scenario, is going to confer benefits over

06:50:52.480 a broke guy.

06:50:54.360 Maybe.

06:50:54.640 It's just survival of the fittest, I think.

06:50:56.840 Just get that money up and it'll be good.

06:51:00.160 Okay.

06:51:01.060 All right.

06:51:01.600 I mean, it would be nice for you to at least...

06:51:05.160 It sounds like you're complaining about it.

06:51:05.900 It sounds like you guys are complaining about it.

06:51:07.540 Like, just get the bag and live a happy life.

06:51:11.620 It's just like...

06:51:14.160 Oh, she's... 1.00

06:51:15.460 Is that...

06:51:15.880 Are you leaving?

06:51:17.160 Oh, okay.

06:51:17.900 Sorry.

06:51:18.200 I just...

06:51:19.020 Okay.

06:51:19.460 Yeah.

06:51:21.100 All right.

06:51:22.580 Oh, Callie.

06:51:24.780 I got a question for you, Callie.

06:51:26.180 Come back.

06:51:29.140 Probably like another, like, 20 minutes.

06:51:33.060 I got you guys.

06:51:33.940 20 minutes.

06:51:34.680 We'll be out of here in no time.

06:51:36.540 It's at 10.

06:51:37.280 It's midnight.

06:51:38.440 And I can work in eight hours.

06:51:40.140 Oh, my gosh.

06:51:40.640 And my dog is in a crate.

06:51:42.280 Okay.

06:51:42.720 The whole time...

06:51:43.500 No, it builds character.

06:51:45.940 Not for my dog in a crate.

06:51:46.640 The late night, it builds character.

06:51:48.220 The whole time you've been talking about we're providers.

06:51:50.740 It's such a burden.

06:51:51.720 We have to provide.

06:51:52.540 That's the one thing.

06:51:53.060 It is a burden.

06:51:54.040 And then you say that you don't care when a woman makes money or not. 1.00

06:51:58.380 So that makes no sense.

06:51:59.580 Like, if we make no money, then you think we're like a gold digger.

06:52:03.060 And then if we make money, then you're insecure.

06:52:05.220 Because it's like, what is with the fragility of the ego, man?

06:52:08.620 I mean, there's a lot of, like, false premises there that I just outright reject.

06:52:12.660 No, because he was like...

06:52:13.980 He said it.

06:52:14.900 He was like, I'm not on ATM for once.

06:52:16.700 If he was good.

06:52:17.620 Every time you speak, it's funny because you sort of just like trauma dump.

06:52:22.080 You're like, yeah, but the guys are going to run away as soon as they have a baby. 0.99

06:52:24.880 You guys are going to think we're gold digger.

06:52:26.800 Yeah, I have to finish my own.

06:52:28.520 Let's let him ask you the questions so we can get out of here.

06:52:30.820 You also just sat on the couch on your phone for 10 minutes.

06:52:34.000 LPE, bro.

06:52:35.020 Hold on, bro.

06:52:35.760 That's crazy.

06:52:36.360 LPE.

06:52:36.620 I'm going to have to read part.

06:52:37.660 LPE, dude.

06:52:39.040 It's eight hours.

06:52:39.700 Yo, LPE.

06:52:40.440 I haven't seen you in the chat in a minute.

06:52:42.220 Good to see you, dude.

06:52:43.720 Honestly, bro, I have to wait for the roast session for this one, okay?

06:52:46.180 Hold on, LPE.

06:52:47.100 So, okay.

06:52:48.380 Callie, you said a man dating a transgender...

06:52:52.880 The statement is, a man dating a transgender woman is not straight.

06:52:55.860 You disagree?

06:52:58.840 No, he's not straight.

06:53:00.200 He's a...

06:53:01.040 I feel like...

06:53:02.680 Oh, so you agree with the statement?

06:53:05.520 What do you... 1.00

06:53:06.340 Like, if he fucks a trans man, he's not a trans woman. 0.99

06:53:09.800 So, a straight man dating a trans woman, is it straight or gay? 1.00

06:53:13.500 I think he's queer. 1.00

06:53:14.800 Isn't it like he's LGBTQ, right? 1.00

06:53:17.840 Friendly?

06:53:18.420 You were shaking your head?

06:53:19.180 What if he wants a woman to peg him?

06:53:20.580 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

06:53:21.560 You were shaking your head? 0.97

06:53:23.440 If a straight person has sex with a trans person, does that make them straight? 0.96

06:53:27.000 I don't think so. 0.66

06:53:29.120 I think gender.

06:53:29.620 Oh, okay.

06:53:30.260 So, we agree then, it sounds like.

06:53:32.380 I don't think I circled it.

06:53:34.020 No, you were shaking your head, so I just wasn't sure if there was like a disagreement.

06:53:37.540 Oh, I...

06:53:37.820 Yeah, that's totally fine.

06:53:39.640 Okay.

06:53:40.240 I think you circled it, but maybe you just...

06:53:42.860 It is a bit of a double negative.

06:53:44.940 Any final thoughts here before we wrap up the show?

06:53:47.040 We're going to do a brief row session, then we're going to wrap.

06:53:49.520 Oh! 0.60

06:53:49.740 Sorry, go ahead.

06:53:53.040 I just want to say that a lot of men, especially high-value men, are just thrilled to provide

06:53:58.640 for a woman.

06:53:59.560 Of course, a good woman.

06:54:00.900 They never complain about like, oh, it's so hard for us to provide.

06:54:04.620 Wow, boys do that.

06:54:06.160 Most men that take a woman out, we love to pay for the first date. 1.00

06:54:09.800 At fancy restaurants, too.

06:54:11.860 Yeah, me, I've been taken out to fancy restaurants.

06:54:13.940 Oh my God, wow, really?

06:54:15.880 You know what I mean?

06:54:16.640 Like, it's such a high school conversation, this whole thing. 0.98

06:54:20.820 It's like a form of masturbation. 0.98

06:54:22.080 You don't even need anyone else with you. 0.98

06:54:23.380 You just have the conversation with yourself.

06:54:24.660 It's just like a totally false premise, though.

06:54:25.920 I'm not making the argument like, woe is me.

06:54:28.560 I have to pay for first dates.

06:54:30.660 No.

06:54:31.280 We were talking about the gender wage gap, and I was making an argument why I think 1.00

06:54:35.360 at least a component of it exists.

06:54:37.120 I understand that, but it's such a turn-off when it's the first date.

06:54:40.860 You want the guy to treat you.

06:54:42.300 Like, you aren't possibly going to offer him the best, like, a partnership.

06:54:47.940 Like, the...

06:54:48.540 That's not what I thought you were going to say.

06:54:50.260 Of course, because I'm brown.

06:54:51.840 I have to give it up easy.

06:54:53.020 No.

06:54:53.720 I went to school.

06:54:54.360 Hold on, hold on. 1.00

06:54:55.000 What the fuck? 1.00

06:54:55.720 Constant projection. 1.00

06:54:57.200 After midnight, I get a little spicier, so that's why we got to... 0.96

06:55:00.220 Why can't you make it about race?

06:55:01.500 I was just going to say...

06:55:02.280 Because I fit the bill.

06:55:03.880 No man should be like, oh, all that stuff. 1.00

06:55:06.160 I know how you think.

06:55:07.180 I can see it.

06:55:07.800 Hold on, just to be clear.

06:55:08.700 I can smell it.

06:55:08.960 Just to be clear.

06:55:10.720 Projection is unbelievable.

06:55:11.560 Yeah, it's crazy.

06:55:12.900 Because I haven't been eight hours being said, like, oh, women are nothing and men suffer

06:55:17.440 more.

06:55:17.880 For eight hours, I thought it was only six.

06:55:20.540 God forbid you have to do an eight-hour shift, right?

06:55:22.160 You know what?

06:55:22.180 I don't...

06:55:22.700 I'm pretty agnostic when it comes to, like, giving it up quickly.

06:55:26.200 I'm pretty agnostic when it comes to, like, this race.

06:55:29.260 I'm just, like, it's across the board.

06:55:32.000 But Latinas do give it up more easy. 1.00

06:55:33.980 That's true. 1.00

06:55:34.460 What the fuck? 1.00

06:55:35.580 Dudes? 1.00

06:55:36.600 Latinas? 0.87

06:55:37.240 No, bro.

06:55:37.900 That's not true. 1.00

06:55:38.540 White girls are the dirtiest. 1.00

06:55:41.060 Where are you from? 1.00

06:55:41.860 Where are you from?

06:55:42.480 I'm Dominican.

06:55:43.460 Dominican.

06:55:43.980 I don't know about Dominican girls, but... 1.00

06:55:46.220 Well, if you go to, like, England or something, they're pretty bad, but those Latin countries 1.00

06:55:50.040 are pretty sexual. 0.67

06:55:51.200 They are sexual, but, you know, they make you work a little bit.

06:55:53.960 They're more traditional, too.

06:55:55.180 Yeah.

06:55:55.400 You know, the thing, look, I've encountered easy to...

06:56:01.080 I don't like that term.

06:56:02.240 I've encountered women who have sex relatively quickly of all races, and I've encountered 1.00

06:56:07.580 women of all races who want to wait till marriage or wait 90 days, like... 1.00

06:56:12.540 Which one do you like better?

06:56:14.260 Because you're still single, so clearly none of them.

06:56:17.100 Which one do you pick?

06:56:18.440 Which race?

06:56:19.260 No, no.

06:56:19.780 Not race.

06:56:20.380 She said, like, do you like easy girls, or do you like to work for it? 0.62

06:56:24.500 I look a girl who's easy for me and hard for everybody else. 1.00

06:56:28.860 Pop that pussy, boy. 1.00

06:56:29.580 A guy can... 1.00

06:56:30.440 What the fuck? 1.00

06:56:31.680 What was that? 1.00

06:56:32.820 What?

06:56:33.580 Say that again. 0.71

06:56:34.480 Wait, Darkavia. 0.85

06:56:35.340 Say that again. 0.71

06:56:37.020 Say it again, Darkavia. 1.00

06:56:39.020 Pop that pussy, boy. 1.00

06:56:39.700 I was saying that because you said that you like girls that are easy for you, so I said 1.00

06:56:46.200 I was thinking of... 1.00

06:56:47.320 What the fuck? 0.99

06:56:48.500 All right, guys, we're doing a $20 roast session, and then we're going to wrap the show. 0.99

06:56:53.720 So any final thoughts from anybody else while we're getting this roast session going?

06:56:58.280 Give me a sec.

06:56:59.520 I have a question.

06:57:00.840 Go ahead, Milena.

06:57:01.620 I had put on my questions that you asked us over Instagram.

06:57:09.240 Do you think it's okay for a girl to have guy friends while in a relationship?

06:57:13.440 No.

06:57:14.580 Yes.

06:57:15.240 Let's talk about it.

06:57:15.860 Go ahead, Natasha.

06:57:16.520 You got something on that?

06:57:17.540 Yeah, I think if there's a level of respect, and it isn't somebody that you've ever been intimate

06:57:22.580 in that way, like, if it's truly platonic, like a brother-sister relationship, then I think

06:57:27.180 it's fine, as long as there's communication and respect.

06:57:29.680 I don't think they should ever be, like, above your partner, because you obviously want your

06:57:34.560 partner to be the best friend, but I think a lot of the insecurity from, like, girl-guy

06:57:39.480 best friendships is because of disrespect and, like, a lack of boundary.

06:57:44.100 Men are wired a certain way, and I've heard many times in the past when girls have been 1.00

06:57:48.900 like, no, he's just a brother to me.

06:57:50.400 He's just like a brother to me.

06:57:51.600 He's just, like, such a close friend.

06:57:53.020 And then you ask them, but if you crept into his bed late at night, one night, after a

06:57:58.720 night out, do you reckon he'd kick you out?

06:58:00.320 Nah, he wouldn't.

06:58:01.400 So men have an intention.

06:58:02.940 And it's funny, because, like, whenever guys have these female friends who are like their

06:58:06.960 sister, they're never ugly.

06:58:09.280 They're always attractive.

06:58:10.580 So it's never the sort of the ugly ones, getting all the male friends, you know?

06:58:15.700 Guys, TTS, $20?

06:58:17.740 Oh, was there something else somebody wanted to come in on?

06:58:20.560 Let's do a couple quick shout-outs for these few things here. 0.51

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06:58:41.480 Also, drop us a follow.

06:58:42.620 We've got discord.gg slash whatever.

06:58:44.180 Also, if you want to support the show without these, any, YouTube takes 30.

06:58:48.400 Streamlabs takes, like, 3% to 4%.

06:58:50.400 Venmo, Cash App, whatever pod.

06:58:53.720 Let me do just three shout-outs here.

06:58:56.040 We have Billy, think for the 10 on Cash App.

06:59:01.200 Ben, think for the 20 on Venmo.

06:59:04.400 Jenna, think for the 25 on Venmo.

06:59:08.540 Venmo, Cash App, whatever pod.

06:59:10.000 If you want to, like, fully put your patronage towards the podcast without any cut being taken.

06:59:16.420 And then, a reminder, $20 TTS.

06:59:18.300 We're going to do a brief row session.

06:59:19.900 They're going to wrap the show.

06:59:22.360 I need to get up momentarily to get up momentarily.

06:59:27.740 Any final thought from any panelists here?

06:59:30.260 Speak now forever.

06:59:31.020 Hold your peace.

06:59:32.600 Go ahead.

06:59:33.300 Questions, queries, comments? 0.99

06:59:35.640 Let's just talk shit about Brian. 0.95

06:59:37.080 What do you want to say about Brian while he's gone? 0.99

06:59:40.760 Melina, why did you say that?

06:59:43.200 Jesus.

06:59:44.360 What would you like to say about Brian while he's gone?

06:59:47.640 I like his beard.

06:59:49.480 Oh, God.

06:59:51.100 Really?

06:59:51.360 He's a man-child.

06:59:52.820 Really?

06:59:53.100 I thought you said you wanted to engage in some Pleasures of the Flesh with Brian after the show.

06:59:57.780 I'm a little disappointed he didn't bring pizza this time.

07:00:01.680 Is there normally pizza?

07:00:02.500 Yeah, frozen pizza.

07:00:03.760 Last summer's pizza.

07:00:04.920 Was there pizza here last time?

07:00:07.600 Yeah.

07:00:08.260 When she was here, yeah.

07:00:10.000 We haven't even had a panelist buy pizza, order pizza.

07:00:13.660 I'll forgive them, but...

07:00:15.120 Any more questions that you've got for the now lone man on the panel?

07:00:21.020 That was kind of it, but I have mostly guy friends, and so no one I've dated has had a problem with it.

07:00:29.800 But when you say you've got mostly guy friends, are these guy friends ones that you would consider platonic?

07:00:37.380 Yeah, but I actually agree with what you said.

07:00:39.920 Yeah, I mean, if you crept into the bed late at night.

07:00:41.680 If I tried.

07:00:42.720 And went and became Big Spoon, you'd think that he'd kick you out?

07:00:45.420 But what if you know, like, your girl isn't attracted to the person?

07:00:50.800 Isn't attracted?

07:00:51.680 No, no, no, because...

07:00:53.140 If I've got a nice roast chicken, right?

07:00:57.680 And I've got it there, and it's my roast chicken, I'm going to eat it.

07:01:01.120 Would I put it in a room where I can't wash it with the dogs around it? 0.99

07:01:06.880 Damn. 1.00

07:01:08.240 I'm going to eat my roast chicken. 1.00

07:01:09.520 Even if my roast chicken doesn't want to be eaten.

07:01:11.740 You know what I mean?

07:01:12.520 They've never tried to eat me.

07:01:14.620 Guys, stop with the side bow conversations.

07:01:17.220 Rude.

07:01:18.160 We're so rude.

07:01:18.920 I get what you're saying.

07:01:19.460 Wait, did they react to the bow video?

07:01:21.480 Yeah.

07:01:21.920 Would you guys bow for your man?

07:01:23.520 Yes.

07:01:24.000 Sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt him.

07:01:26.980 Honestly, after this podcast, I want to die alone.

07:01:29.200 Like, that was my biggest fear, but now I want to make millions of dollars and just get a dog.

07:01:33.500 You go, girl.

07:01:34.180 Do you want to know something, man?

07:01:35.080 And just live my dreams.

07:01:35.920 What's up?

07:01:36.220 You want to know something?

07:01:36.940 So, being on this podcast or even just listening to the women, bro, it literally makes me want to, like... 0.68

07:01:41.880 Be a massager.

07:01:43.140 Yes.

07:01:43.900 I understand that.

07:01:44.360 Like, it makes me want to go, like, it makes me just, like, oh, it makes me...

07:01:48.540 It brings you over to the dark side.

07:01:49.780 Wow.

07:01:49.980 And it's not even just the women.

07:01:51.240 It's, like, me.

07:01:52.160 I look back on the videos. 0.99

07:01:53.620 I'm like, bro, I sound stupid. 0.99

07:01:54.560 Let's get that. 0.99

07:01:56.640 That's what they want you to think.

07:01:58.200 Wait, let's get W's in the chat for Darkavia.

07:02:01.040 I do like coming on.

07:02:02.220 The podcast has changed my life, guys.

07:02:04.500 That's gross.

07:02:04.800 You have opened my eyes to other opinions. 0.71

07:02:06.560 There you go.

07:02:07.660 There you go.

07:02:08.240 After 30, you'll think differently.

07:02:10.700 Maybe if they make the right decisions...

07:02:12.500 After 30, they'll probably be happy.

07:02:12.980 Make the right decisions, you'll go more down this road.

07:02:16.040 Wait.

07:02:17.220 So, would you bow for your boyfriend, husband, whatever?

07:02:22.100 I'm saying, like, every time I walk in a room?

07:02:24.700 No.

07:02:24.880 No, just, like, once a day.

07:02:26.780 Just, like...

07:02:27.340 Why?

07:02:27.940 What's the reason? 1.00

07:02:29.000 So you can feel better about your tiny penis? 1.00

07:02:31.440 Great. 1.00

07:02:32.160 So I can...

07:02:33.100 Wait, what about...

07:02:33.560 He said he was average.

07:02:35.400 What about me?

07:02:36.020 He literally said he was average.

07:02:37.380 Hey, can you not bring that up, please?

07:02:38.720 He said he was average for a while.

07:02:39.380 I only like to say that once a show.

07:02:40.760 Don't bring it up.

07:02:41.620 No, just kidding.

07:02:42.140 There you go.

07:02:42.500 There you go.

07:02:42.860 Would you bow for your man?

07:02:45.420 I don't understand what you're asking.

07:02:48.300 Oh, the...

07:02:48.980 Were you here for the bow video?

07:02:50.480 The Asian woman who's... 1.00

07:02:51.740 Oh, the bow.

07:02:52.840 Bow, like...

07:02:53.240 The bow.

07:02:53.440 Would you bow?

07:02:54.160 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:02:54.600 The bow.

07:02:55.060 Oh.

07:02:55.900 Yeah.

07:02:56.840 Would you do it?

07:02:57.340 No, I'm not opposed to it, but you're gonna be a real special man, maybe.

07:03:03.300 Okay, sure.

07:03:04.540 Of course I would.

07:03:06.640 I would.

07:03:08.260 Yeah, it'd be weird, but sure.

07:03:10.920 I would.

07:03:11.660 I think the guys I'm attracted to, though, would...

07:03:13.980 It'd be like a joke.

07:03:15.460 Yeah.

07:03:15.720 Yeah.

07:03:16.400 Okay.

07:03:18.360 No.

07:03:19.160 All right, that's fine.

07:03:20.160 Girl, you like the Asian man. 1.00

07:03:21.260 It's crazy, though.

07:03:22.120 You'll get there.

07:03:22.440 Remember, guys.

07:03:23.600 Just remember.

07:03:24.600 That was cultural.

07:03:25.960 You say you like culture.

07:03:27.060 That was cultural.

07:03:27.740 That whole video was very cultural.

07:03:30.400 Some cultures.

07:03:31.660 Some cultures.

07:03:32.140 But Asians specifically.

07:03:33.540 Yeah, I know, but I'm saying some Asians do that, but some...

07:03:36.580 Because I lived in...

07:03:37.400 I'm telling you, in Asian culture, in significant other, I may be wrong, but I'm saying that most 1.00

07:03:41.940 of them, they don't bow to their significant other.

07:03:44.320 No, no.

07:03:44.940 It becomes like they don't...

07:03:46.320 But everything she was doing in the video is what I was speaking on, like how she was

07:03:50.000 running to the next room to open the door.

07:03:53.140 Oh, my God.

07:03:54.240 Wait, I do want you guys to remember one thing.

07:04:02.740 I'm pretty sure all of you said, maybe one of...

07:04:04.960 I forget. 0.95

07:04:06.240 You said you want a guy to take a bullet for you.

07:04:07.940 You said you want a guy who's willing to die for you, but you won't do a totally effortless

07:04:15.240 physical gesture.

07:04:17.340 You guys want...

07:04:18.720 You probably want guys to open car doors for you, which takes more physical effort than

07:04:22.340 a bow.

07:04:23.120 You want a guy to protect you in some sort of...

07:04:25.560 If it's something that was meaningful and it had like significance to him, like if there

07:04:28.760 was a culture thing...

07:04:29.560 You also said you wouldn't take a bullet.

07:04:31.520 You said you wouldn't.

07:04:32.560 I'm not Asian.

07:04:34.840 I'm white.

07:04:35.520 What?

07:04:36.280 I want the bow.

07:04:37.360 It has nothing to do with culture.

07:04:38.840 It has everything to do with respect.

07:04:41.440 That's not respect.

07:04:42.560 It's respect.

07:04:42.900 That's slavery. 0.99

07:04:44.060 That's not born of like...

07:04:45.440 It's not slavery.

07:04:46.580 Modern slavery.

07:04:47.380 She's... 1.00

07:04:47.860 She's... 1.00

07:04:48.480 When I said if a man makes me feel like doing...

07:04:51.820 Yeah, like you said, she agrees to do it.

07:04:53.220 Like I said, it takes a special kind of man to make me want to do it.

07:04:56.360 Are you going to bow to her?

07:04:57.860 No.

07:04:58.320 Why not?

07:04:59.700 Are you going to pay on the first day?

07:05:01.680 Would you get on your knee to propose?

07:05:02.640 Why the first day?

07:05:03.440 This is a partnership.

07:05:05.040 Is your wife bowing to you? 0.92

07:05:06.540 Okay, in this theoretical world where you are getting married, would you get on one knee

07:05:09.640 to propose?

07:05:10.480 No. 1.00

07:05:10.580 This little boy shit. 1.00

07:05:11.480 I don't want to get married. 1.00

07:05:12.540 But it's interesting.

07:05:13.360 You would want a guy... 0.54

07:05:14.500 You want to get married, right?

07:05:15.460 Let's go with the roast. 0.99

07:05:16.700 I'm assuming you would want the guy to get down on one knee to propose to you.

07:05:20.640 I said if it was meaningful to him, sure.

07:05:23.340 But to do it just randomly, I feel like it would make me giggle.

07:05:27.000 That means nothing to me, so it would just make me laugh.

07:05:29.480 That's fine.

07:05:30.220 But just here.

07:05:31.420 Think about this. 0.66

07:05:32.740 You want men to die for you? 1.00

07:05:34.380 You won't do that.

07:05:35.740 That's it.

07:05:36.520 Also, here's another thing.

07:05:38.220 You won't do the bow, but you'll get down on your knees and then move your head back 1.00

07:05:44.980 and forth on his penis. 1.00

07:05:46.440 But who said they wouldn't do the bow? 1.00

07:05:48.000 I'm complaining.

07:05:48.680 It's almost kind of like a bow.

07:05:50.040 Everyone said yes, but they did.

07:05:53.300 No, she won't bow.

07:05:55.140 No, I said if it was a meaningful thing, sure.

07:05:57.780 Is this part of the road?

07:05:58.800 Yeah, I think I was the only one that said no, but I think I would.

07:06:02.300 If it was an actual cultural thing, I would.

07:06:04.200 If it was cultural or meaningful in some way, and it meant something to him, and I cared about

07:06:08.500 him, of course.

07:06:09.240 But I'm saying would I just naturally be inclined to do that?

07:06:12.040 That'd be too random.

07:06:12.880 It'd make me laugh.

07:06:13.420 Darkavia, we need to do every...

07:06:16.000 Does body count matter?

07:06:16.900 Just show of hands?

07:06:17.880 No.

07:06:19.300 Well, yeah.

07:06:19.780 Body count doesn't matter?

07:06:20.640 No, it does.

07:06:21.960 No, it doesn't.

07:06:25.040 Going around the table, what's your body count, starting with you? 1.00

07:06:28.900 Fuck this. 1.00

07:06:30.220 Nobody's going to say that. 1.00

07:06:30.880 Just repeat it?

07:06:31.560 Two.

07:06:32.060 Two?

07:06:32.480 Okay.

07:06:32.800 Start with you.

07:06:33.600 Less than five.

07:06:34.680 Less than five?

07:06:35.340 Okay.

07:06:36.520 Seven.

07:06:37.440 Is that gang signs or something?

07:06:38.860 Yeah, it was gang signs. 1.00

07:06:40.180 Oh, shit. 1.00

07:06:40.540 Don't do that. 1.00

07:06:40.880 No, I'm just kidding.

07:06:41.380 Seven?

07:06:41.960 Yeah.

07:06:42.220 Okay.

07:06:42.620 I prefer not to disclose that.

07:06:44.120 Do you want to do range?

07:06:45.340 Would you be comfortable like range, like 10 to 20?

07:06:49.200 Wait, hold on.

07:06:50.180 Wait.

07:06:51.540 Oh, no.

07:06:52.180 It's not playing audio.

07:06:53.160 Okay, never mind.

07:06:53.860 Oh, no.

07:06:54.700 Oh, no.

07:06:55.240 Here, wait.

07:06:55.900 Can I still...

07:06:56.520 No, okay.

07:06:57.040 What about you, Callie?

07:06:59.180 655.

07:07:00.100 For real?

07:07:01.040 No.

07:07:01.720 Okay.

07:07:01.900 Do you have like a list on your...

07:07:04.140 Excuse me.

07:07:04.600 No, that's not my body count.

07:07:06.800 Like, why does it even matter?

07:07:08.540 Do you have a list on your phone?

07:07:10.040 None of these questions matter.

07:07:11.740 It's all boy stuff. 0.60

07:07:13.140 It's irrelevant.

07:07:14.080 No one's going to actually marry you after you think that way.

07:07:17.540 Like, it's literally like men and women, women and men.

07:07:22.220 It literally takes two to tango.

07:07:24.080 It takes two to tango.

07:07:25.500 You want men and women to have a less body count? 1.00

07:07:26.740 You want me to bow to you?

07:07:28.080 I will bow to you.

07:07:29.060 Bow to me.

07:07:30.520 Simple.

07:07:31.200 Simple.

07:07:31.640 Look at that.

07:07:32.100 See?

07:07:32.940 Equality.

07:07:33.900 Don't you love it?

07:07:34.840 You feel good.

07:07:35.620 How do you wear these? 1.00

07:07:37.280 This is fucking terrible. 1.00

07:07:38.880 This is my life. 1.00

07:07:40.100 Terrible.

07:07:40.600 I'm a woman.

07:07:41.460 I'm used to suffering.

07:07:42.720 Okay.

07:07:43.160 Welcome to you for eight hours. 1.00

07:07:45.240 Oh, I bleed from my dick. 1.00

07:07:47.120 That's you. 1.00

07:07:48.260 Oh, men get their fucking periods on their balls. 1.00

07:07:51.420 That's you for eight hours. 1.00

07:07:52.800 That happened once.

07:07:53.740 My God. 0.96

07:07:54.640 It's like, grow the fuck up. 0.99

07:07:56.560 When you're 40, you're not going to be like this. 0.99

07:07:59.040 I'll still be like this.

07:08:00.220 Oh, God.

07:08:00.580 Hold on, hold on.

07:08:01.760 What's your body count?

07:08:04.240 655.

07:08:04.840 I'm Dominican.

07:08:05.760 We get around since we're like 14.

07:08:07.780 We go hard.

07:08:09.040 We go hard on the pain. 1.00

07:08:10.240 That's fucking disgusting. 1.00

07:08:11.960 Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah. 1.00

07:08:13.780 Like, real men. 1.00

07:08:14.680 None of that shit that you would know. 1.00

07:08:16.660 You don't know none of those sounds. 1.00

07:08:17.640 Do you want me to call somebody for you?

07:08:18.580 Are you good? 1.00

07:08:18.720 Yes, I want to go the fuck home, my G. 0.99

07:08:20.940 It's been eight hours. 1.00

07:08:22.000 You're abusing us.

07:08:23.260 Like, at this point, you got to pay us more.

07:08:25.220 I don't know this is abuse.

07:08:26.060 At this point, you're abusing.

07:08:27.360 She's being abused.

07:08:28.340 It's his face for me.

07:08:29.460 Okay. 1.00

07:08:29.740 Eight hours of this shit. 1.00

07:08:31.140 Oh, my God. 1.00

07:08:31.700 This poor woman over here. 1.00

07:08:33.020 Oh, my God.

07:08:33.740 Poor man.

07:08:34.260 How about I tell you what?

07:08:35.020 I'll make you a deal.

07:08:35.920 I just want to drive two hours to my home.

07:08:39.820 Because apparently I have to be, you know, equally.

07:08:43.580 No one's forcing you.

07:08:44.800 Jake's loving this, by the way. 1.00

07:08:46.420 You do realize, like, a male comedian would just be like, oh, fuck it. 1.00

07:08:53.040 Yeah, I'll sit here. 1.00

07:08:54.120 Fuck it. 1.00

07:08:54.540 Yeah. 1.00

07:08:54.720 You sound dumb. 1.00

07:08:55.860 Well, you don't sound so smart, sweetheart. 1.00

07:08:58.080 That's the success issue.

07:08:59.640 With your, like, oh, I want to digress my body count.

07:09:02.380 You can't go to church and digress my body count.

07:09:04.700 You already did it. 1.00

07:09:05.820 The same chair that you agreed to sit in as abuse is so stupid. 1.00

07:09:09.980 For six or seven hours, but it's midnight. 1.00

07:09:12.900 You want to keep talking about how women are shit and, like, he's not going to take a bullet 1.00

07:09:17.160 for you? 1.00

07:09:18.400 And you're defending him. 0.97

07:09:19.900 It's like you're so brainwashed.

07:09:21.540 No, it's just the fact that you're just paid to be here.

07:09:24.640 So, I would say respect him and the panel, literally.

07:09:27.580 I'm respecting him, but he's not respecting our time.

07:09:30.580 But, no, you are paid to be here.

07:09:32.260 And, yes, if it's...

07:09:33.040 But for how long, sweetheart?

07:09:34.500 We're about to wrap the show.

07:09:35.820 We've got, like, ten minutes left.

07:09:37.520 You've been saying that.

07:09:38.640 You literally screaming is just making it last longer.

07:09:41.880 Throw the roast up.

07:09:43.000 The roasts are coming.

07:09:44.180 Hold on. 1.00

07:09:44.460 It's only because you didn't get that black dick today. 1.00

07:09:46.160 We got body count. 1.00

07:09:47.200 You're angry.

07:09:48.320 Double digits.

07:09:49.360 Double digits body count.

07:09:50.120 I'm sure if I was going on a date with someone, but...

07:09:52.740 Multiply it by three.

07:09:53.640 Okay, that's cool.

07:09:54.420 What's your body count?

07:09:55.320 Like, two?

07:09:55.900 I'm a virgin.

07:09:56.620 Of course.

07:09:57.140 Yeah, sorry.

07:09:58.140 Yikes.

07:09:58.780 Yeah.

07:09:59.200 What's your body count?

07:10:00.360 I can feel it.

07:10:01.100 Definitely.

07:10:01.500 Yeah.

07:10:02.360 No, he's done a lot of women. 0.77

07:10:03.740 You can tell.

07:10:04.600 He tricks women into sleeping with them. 1.00

07:10:07.080 Not in a bad way.

07:10:08.340 Like, he's smart, so he, you know...

07:10:10.220 Bro, this chick... 1.00

07:10:11.080 This chick's... 1.00

07:10:11.680 He knows.

07:10:12.200 ...on one.

07:10:13.020 It's true.

07:10:13.740 He knows the truth.

07:10:15.240 Come on, you know.

07:10:16.040 I have no ideas about this. 0.98

07:10:17.800 This is, like, false accusation fucking territory. 0.99

07:10:20.300 Are we roasting, or what are we doing? 1.00

07:10:22.320 Women, false accusations. 1.00

07:10:23.680 Should we debate that?

07:10:25.720 Oh, my God.

07:10:27.460 Look at that.

07:10:28.060 That's, like, $1,200 you've made so far.

07:10:30.680 That's nice.

07:10:32.240 Uh, chat, I'm inviting you guys to roast...

07:10:35.240 Okay, I'm gonna let them play.

07:10:36.420 Hold on.

07:10:37.960 I'm gonna just let that slide. 0.98

07:10:39.960 Loose pussy energy donated $100. 1.00

07:10:42.720 The audacity of these midders fuck busted as 304s that offer nothing but high body count 1.00

07:10:48.560 that John Wick think most dudes want to essay them. 1.00

07:10:51.940 Get the fuck out of here. 0.96

07:10:53.240 Yo, LPE. 0.99

07:10:54.940 Sorry for the delay, bro.

07:10:56.260 This is Sparta.

07:10:57.940 Oh.

07:10:59.440 This is Sparta!

07:11:01.660 Yo.

07:11:03.280 Praying for him.

07:11:05.020 Yo, LPE.

07:11:06.040 It's so good to see you back in the chat, man.

07:11:07.780 I'm assuming it's the same guy.

07:11:08.900 Thank you so much.

07:11:09.960 W's in the chat for LPE, guys.

07:11:12.380 Yo, thank you, sons.

07:11:13.820 Rattlesnake got the degenerate to state she supports the red rum of babies. 0.99

07:11:18.500 She says, yes, on the internet forever.

07:11:21.540 Wild. 0.86

07:11:23.200 Sicko.

07:11:23.780 I think that was me. 0.99

07:11:25.000 Evil.

07:11:25.780 She's late to her rich seance.

07:11:28.020 Evil.

07:11:29.220 Thor donated $20.

07:11:31.500 Chair one says she roast men, but only roast she's bringing to men is the roast beef in 0.99

07:11:36.260 between her legs. 1.00

07:11:37.540 Take that trench foot out your ass. 1.00

07:11:40.040 I like dark labia only when she's sitting in the back quiet. 1.00

07:11:45.020 Choice.

07:11:45.880 D donated $20.

07:11:47.020 When you use a personal anecdote in an attempt to bolster an argument and then recoil and

07:11:52.960 stonewall when questions are asked, you're just being extremely bad faith.

07:11:58.020 This is classic cry bullying.

07:12:01.680 It's got a point.

07:12:03.840 It's got a point.

07:12:04.820 You know what I mean?

07:12:05.740 Beautiful point.

07:12:07.760 Jay Smooth donated $20.

07:12:09.860 IDK guys, this episode put me to sleep.

07:12:14.200 It just didn't have the pizzazz like others.

07:12:17.080 Seat one is low key, baby.

07:12:18.600 Oh, look, a compliment.

07:12:19.040 Sexy and simply delicious.

07:12:20.740 Oh, delicious.

07:12:21.820 Definitely eye candy. 0.52

07:12:22.920 Eye candy?

07:12:23.460 There you go.

07:12:24.520 Okay.

07:12:25.960 You can, you know, have one positive experience from this.

07:12:30.660 If a building was on fire and you and your friend were trapped and she was pregnant, wait, 1.00

07:12:46.780 is this for me?

07:12:48.420 Was there to save her first?

07:12:49.620 Wait, what?

07:12:51.300 Here, I'm going to play it one more time because I don't really...

07:12:53.660 I got to listen.

07:12:55.240 If a building was on fire and you and your friend were trapped and she was pregnant, 0.99

07:13:01.920 would let a man was there to save her first or have him save you first?

07:13:10.200 Is there to save her first?

07:13:13.000 If you're both in the burning building, would you...

07:13:14.740 Do I know the pregnant woman?

07:13:16.720 Your friend, yeah.

07:13:17.220 Your friend. 1.00

07:13:17.560 I'm on some Genghis Khan shit, bro. 1.00

07:13:19.120 Wait, what? 1.00

07:13:19.780 It said your friend was pregnant.

07:13:21.220 Would you let them save her first?

07:13:24.280 Right?

07:13:25.240 It said if your friend was pregnant.

07:13:26.740 I don't know if you're going to survive.

07:13:27.820 Sure.

07:13:28.380 My friend?

07:13:29.480 Yes, it said if your friend was pregnant.

07:13:30.980 I don't know.

07:13:31.340 Maybe it's too late.

07:13:32.360 Maybe my IQ is room temperature right now.

07:13:35.420 Or in general.

07:13:36.520 I don't get it.

07:13:38.580 But the pregnant... 1.00

07:13:39.260 I would save the pregnant woman first. 1.00

07:13:42.960 Jay Smooth donated $20.

07:13:45.600 Seat 4 is tripping, looking like a knock-off TAMU version of Elton John.

07:13:50.540 SMH seat 2 hairline turns a forehead into a 5-head. 0.99

07:13:54.360 Long.

07:13:55.660 What's the deal with seat 7 wearing the dunce cap?

07:13:58.940 Suits so well.

07:14:00.100 It's a pickle hobba from World War I, so it's not the dunce cap, but it's... 0.99

07:14:06.080 Yeah.

07:14:06.500 Thank you, Jay Smooth.

07:14:07.500 Appreciate it.

07:14:07.980 All right.

07:14:09.860 Two more coming through.

07:14:10.900 Mr. Baseman donated $19.99.

07:14:15.880 Chair 1, annoying AF.

07:14:18.000 Chair 2, DeLulu Lemon.

07:14:20.040 Chair 3, restarted.

07:14:21.800 Chair 4, skitzy Democrat.

07:14:24.000 Chair 5, based cutie.

07:14:25.940 Chair 6, strumpet.

07:14:27.640 Chair 7, red flag brochure.

07:14:29.600 Chair 8, inverted chat.

07:14:31.520 Chair 9, giga chat tubester.

07:14:34.060 Oh, thank you.

07:14:35.240 Thank you very much.

07:14:35.720 He called me the R-word and spelled it wrong, so...

07:14:39.680 It's because you can't say it on the bottom.

07:14:41.260 Wow.

07:14:41.860 Yeah, it auto-corrects it.

07:14:44.120 Ah, yep.

07:14:44.920 That's right.

07:14:45.920 What's this strumpet?

07:14:47.140 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:14:49.000 Don't worry about it.

07:14:49.800 I'll be praying that the women on the panel find the glory of God and can find a man they deserve. 1.00

07:14:55.420 Remember, you are there to bring peace and to make their house into a home.

07:15:00.340 Accept seat 4.

07:15:03.920 Thank you.

07:15:05.520 I don't know.

07:15:05.860 Some of these are, like, kind of pretty good comedy, I feel like, as a comedian.

07:15:09.040 Oh, I have material for days now.

07:15:11.140 She's got material for days, guys.

07:15:13.860 Willing to murder a child instead of taking responsibility is not an option for any excuse. 0.99

07:15:19.700 Disgraceful, malevolent people. 0.99

07:15:21.260 W. Rattle. 0.99

07:15:22.140 W. Brian.

07:15:23.120 P.S.

07:15:23.460 Men get the first lifeboats to equality. 1.00

07:15:26.160 Fucking go. 1.00

07:15:28.120 Men first. 1.00

07:15:29.820 Then the women and children.

07:15:31.260 That seems kind of...

07:15:32.080 Just date each other.

07:15:33.340 Yeah, just date each other.

07:15:35.100 I heard it's really good.

07:15:36.020 Bro, you're tripping, dude.

07:15:37.120 You're tripping.

07:15:37.880 But that's how it sounds like.

07:15:39.600 That's how it sounds like. 0.96

07:15:40.340 You hate women? 1.00

07:15:40.500 Bro, gentlemen, be very careful of this woman because she takes shit. 1.00

07:15:44.180 Like, she'll bend something that happens and just, like, she'll accuse you of some crazy shit. 1.00

07:15:48.980 You got to be careful with this one. 0.99

07:15:49.820 She's the last truth bender over here. 1.00

07:15:51.380 Wow. 1.00

07:15:52.380 She just, like, makes up shit. 1.00

07:15:54.180 Just makes up shit. 1.00

07:15:55.000 Oh, they must be gay because they have a different opinion. 1.00

07:15:58.380 No, because for eight hours you've talked about how bad women are and you keep saying, 0.97

07:16:02.740 Jake, you're cute.

07:16:03.720 Jake, you're handsome.

07:16:04.920 Jake, you're so hot.

07:16:06.000 Like, that's what you keep...

07:16:07.400 I didn't hear that, but I'd take it if you did say it.

07:16:09.820 For sure.

07:16:10.140 I could call them a 10.

07:16:11.760 Oh, yes.

07:16:12.680 And that's while Simon...

07:16:14.820 Okay.

07:16:15.260 So, women, if you look at women's Instagrams and you look at the comments section, all the

07:16:19.760 comments are gassing up these, like, mid-chicks. 0.90

07:16:22.400 So, you're saying the women who are gassing up their female friends, they're just lesbians? 1.00

07:16:26.460 No, but they haven't spent nine hours talking shit about women. 1.00

07:16:30.580 Quiet. 1.00

07:16:30.860 If a woman calls another woman beautiful, she's a lesbian? 0.93

07:16:33.800 No, but they haven't spent 10 hours saying, like, oh, men are blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

07:16:38.240 You know, actually, but the funny thing is that a lot of normal people are actually able

07:16:41.460 to sit here and have the conversation for nine hours.

07:16:43.840 It's like, people have actually done it.

07:16:45.160 It's crazy.

07:16:45.960 And they don't just start screaming and squirking me out and just projecting and insulting people

07:16:49.460 and trauma dumping.

07:16:51.000 So, you're actually the outlier, which is funny.

07:16:53.280 When you're 39 with a drinking problem, holler at me.

07:16:56.460 Are you 39 with a drinking problem?

07:16:58.000 When you're 39, you're like, oh, I'm the king of the world. 0.98

07:17:00.480 And you're 35 and miserable. 0.97

07:17:02.500 And I'll continue to be like this. 1.00

07:17:04.080 I know you're going to be.

07:17:04.840 It's obvious.

07:17:05.440 I'd rather be free than with a guy like you next to me. 0.99

07:17:07.500 I'd rather be free than with an ogre like you. 0.97

07:17:10.360 So, it's perfect. 0.97

07:17:10.760 Oh, I feel so sad.

07:17:11.940 You do.

07:17:12.400 You're clearly very sad.

07:17:13.360 That's it.

07:17:13.700 You broke me down.

07:17:14.540 Can I leave now?

07:17:15.360 Is that how it works?

07:17:16.600 You've been insulting us nonstop for the past, like, 20 years?

07:17:18.820 Because I'm projecting what you're giving me.

07:17:21.000 Okay.

07:17:21.280 I'm only doing what you're giving me.

07:17:22.660 You're the only person on the panel who's just being irrational and odd.

07:17:25.620 That's good.

07:17:26.640 That's good.

07:17:27.100 I don't think Jake insulted you once.

07:17:29.160 I didn't insult him either. 0.70

07:17:31.620 You've called us, like, gay. 0.56

07:17:33.780 You've called me names, too. 0.82

07:17:35.220 What did we call you? 0.99

07:17:35.960 He called you the slur for gay. 0.99

07:17:37.820 Yeah. 0.96

07:17:38.200 Oh, that is true. 0.99

07:17:39.080 You called me a fag before. 0.99

07:17:40.120 I did? 0.99

07:17:42.060 Why were you saying that I said that?

07:17:44.320 Probably something horrible about it.

07:17:46.400 All right.

07:17:46.840 I'll let the rest of the roast.

07:17:48.300 Please don't murder me.

07:17:49.480 This is all a show.

07:17:50.320 When I go out of here, it's stoned.

07:17:53.160 Josh donated $20.

07:17:54.860 Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone on the panel tonight.

07:17:59.860 Best wishes for everybody who tuned in.

07:18:02.480 Oh.

07:18:02.720 I hope everyone has a great week.

07:18:04.880 Jesus is Lord.

07:18:06.300 Yo, Josh.

07:18:06.920 Thank you, man.

07:18:07.400 Do you appreciate that?

07:18:08.380 Needed that.

07:18:09.220 All right.

07:18:09.520 I think we have, like, one more.

07:18:11.060 Needed that.

07:18:11.780 That was a good one.

07:18:12.940 Yeah.

07:18:13.460 That's crazy, bro.

07:18:14.560 That's wild.

07:18:15.520 All right.

07:18:15.880 Are we going to do Raid?

07:18:17.980 I don't know if we'll even show up, but I will Raid somebody over on Twitch.

07:18:22.060 Yeah.

07:18:23.060 We'll do, Damien, we're going to do Peekaboo IRL over there on Twitch.

07:18:30.980 Okay.

07:18:31.780 All right.

07:18:32.100 I'm about to wrap the show.

07:18:33.040 Any final thoughts?

07:18:33.820 Speak now, forever.

07:18:34.520 Hold your peace before we wrap.

07:18:36.320 Sure.

07:18:36.900 Wrap out.

07:18:37.500 Oh, wait.

07:18:38.720 I'm so sorry.

07:18:42.920 Who's willing to take off their makeup right now?

07:18:47.940 I'm willing to, but I can't use those.

07:18:49.660 Those will break out my skin.

07:18:50.880 Oh, I got it. 1.00

07:18:51.720 Damn. 1.00

07:18:52.120 Somebody in my Discord said you got to buy the better shit. 1.00

07:18:54.720 This is still good. 1.00

07:18:56.100 Okay.

07:18:56.760 Here.

07:18:56.980 Pass it around.

07:18:58.300 Take one.

07:18:59.100 Pass one down. 0.72

07:19:00.740 One's not going to do it.

07:19:02.000 I'll take it out.

07:19:02.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:19:03.340 Of course.

07:19:03.580 You'll do it?

07:19:04.320 I'm allergic to these.

07:19:05.380 They break out my skin.

07:19:06.200 But I'll do it.

07:19:07.720 Do you want, like, just a washcloth or something?

07:19:10.800 Yeah, do you have...

07:19:11.640 No, it's got to be here.

07:19:12.500 It's got to be here.

07:19:12.920 You've got to get tea tree oil.

07:19:14.280 Just go straight.

07:19:15.080 You can just...

07:19:16.400 If you want, look in the mirror.

07:19:19.920 Are you wearing makeup?

07:19:22.520 You'll take some off, Milena?

07:19:24.220 Okay.

07:19:24.820 You guys do that while we just finish it up here.

07:19:27.420 We're out here in just a moment.

07:19:29.140 We have a few more coming through.

07:19:31.440 We have...

07:19:32.040 Yo, Reaper, thank you for the prime.

07:19:34.940 Let's see here.

07:19:36.900 Uh-oh.

07:19:37.500 We have some roasts coming.

07:19:38.460 Okay.

07:19:38.720 That's great.

07:19:39.980 Jay Smooth donated $20.

07:19:41.860 Let me see.

07:19:42.380 I'm going to take a...

07:19:42.680 You're doing it.

07:19:43.420 Yeah, I'm going to take...

07:19:44.100 I'm going to get a paper towel.

07:19:44.840 I actually don't need the other one if someone wants to.

07:19:47.500 Okay, give it to me.

07:19:48.360 Take along in the mirror, sweetheart.

07:19:50.800 You have makeup on?

07:19:52.180 I'm just going to wash my face.

07:19:53.460 Uh-oh.

07:19:53.720 Yeah.

07:19:54.080 I can actually use a bit of a face wash.

07:19:57.400 All right.

07:19:57.860 She's getting a paper towel, boys.

07:20:00.220 We have two more here.

07:20:01.780 Yo, Jay Smooth, thank you, man.

07:20:02.860 Oh, it feels so good.

07:20:04.700 I love your ceiling.

07:20:07.180 It's the best.

07:20:08.120 Jason Castle donated $20.

07:20:10.900 Chair 4, you don't have a body count of 600 plus.

07:20:14.680 You probably don't have one. 1.00

07:20:16.800 This is because you are too ugly, both physically and mentally. 1.00

07:20:20.720 Also, we think you are a man, so there's that. 0.99

07:20:25.860 Rookie 007 donated $19.99.

07:20:31.080 Sorry for the misunderstanding, Doc.

07:20:33.040 The question was for the girls. 0.98

07:20:34.940 If you and your friend were trapped in a fire and your friend was pregnant,

07:20:39.060 would want to a man to save you first or your friend? 0.99

07:20:42.680 My friend.

07:20:43.600 My friend.

07:20:43.900 My friend, yeah.

07:20:46.260 I'm just kidding.

07:20:47.120 My friend.

07:20:47.280 When you guys are done, can you guys hold up to the camera, to this camera here,

07:20:51.620 the aftermath of the makeup wipe?

07:20:57.500 Okay.

07:20:57.920 So we got that.

07:20:58.960 Anything on this end?

07:20:59.840 You guys still working on it?

07:21:00.860 I mean, I'm black, so mine's just going to be pretty.

07:21:04.100 That's fair.

07:21:04.720 All right.

07:21:08.160 There you go.

07:21:09.040 Here, I'm going to read this.

07:21:10.340 You just become what?

07:21:11.360 Right.

07:21:11.660 If my chick ever comes home smelling like baby wipes, she's for the whatever streets. 1.00

07:21:18.020 Oh, all right.

07:21:19.280 Thank you, man.

07:21:20.140 These aren't baby wipes.

07:21:21.940 They are makeup remover wipes.

07:21:25.000 They have a distinct scent that is not the same as that.

07:21:31.040 Okay.

07:21:31.520 So we don't have any OF girls, so I don't need to do the call to action.

07:21:39.220 I do want to maybe a call to action for you.

07:21:43.000 I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity to give you

07:21:48.400 a call to action.

07:21:49.260 Would you consider, I don't even know what to say to be honest.

07:21:56.680 What should she consider doing differently?

07:21:59.700 Nothing.

07:22:01.520 Stop dating criminals.

07:22:03.680 Can you do that at least?

07:22:04.800 That's a good advice.

07:22:05.240 Can you stop dating criminals?

07:22:07.100 All right.

07:22:07.700 Do you want to hold yours up, the makeup?

07:22:10.420 Oh, I already did it.

07:22:11.680 Hold it up.

07:22:12.280 I didn't crumble it all.

07:22:14.340 Just show it.

07:22:15.880 Let's see it.

07:22:17.820 I didn't put it on my eyes because I don't want my eyes to burn.

07:22:21.020 That's fine.

07:22:21.800 What the hell are you wearing? 1.00

07:22:22.900 Oh, damn. 1.00

07:22:23.600 Eyeliner. 1.00

07:22:24.460 Mascara.

07:22:25.180 Okay.

07:22:25.760 All right.

07:22:26.180 There you go.

07:22:27.240 There's still, you guys didn't get all of it, you know, but.

07:22:31.680 We're in front of my mirror.

07:22:33.900 Two more and then we're wrapping.

07:22:35.800 Or while it takes any more that comes from.

07:22:37.260 A native $20.

07:22:38.980 Cooked.

07:22:40.020 Burnt.

07:22:40.760 Fried.

07:22:41.440 Zooted.

07:22:42.160 Smoked.

07:22:42.820 What else can describe you girls' mindsets? 0.99

07:22:48.540 Pure love and geniuses and beautiful queens. 0.88

07:22:51.820 And fifth dimensional vampire.

07:22:54.860 Added by goddesses.

07:22:55.900 I don't know. 1.00

07:22:56.620 Wait, what the fuck? 0.99

07:22:57.380 Why don't we take off our makeup just to see what we look like? 1.00

07:22:59.900 No, just like it's a, it's like an end of show thing we do to be nice.

07:23:05.060 It's a cherry on top.

07:23:06.860 Yeah.

07:23:07.020 It's really sending you home.

07:23:08.060 It's like a gentle, no, it's a gentlemanly, it's like, wow, the makeup, you've been wearing

07:23:13.580 it for this whole show.

07:23:14.820 You can just feel fresh.

07:23:16.280 That's a lot.

07:23:17.080 You can go home and not have it take it off.

07:23:19.300 When you, yeah.

07:23:20.120 Why are you smiling when you say it?

07:23:22.060 It's like same energy as like take you swimming on the first date, but.

07:23:25.140 He's lying.

07:23:25.760 It's cool.

07:23:26.400 I love it.

07:23:27.800 Okay.

07:23:28.700 Good talk.

07:23:29.520 All right.

07:23:30.800 Josh zero seven donated $20.

07:23:33.640 Can someone tell Bruno Mars that she makes enough money and can leave whenever she wants 0.92

07:23:38.800 to?

07:23:39.380 Maybe if she just bought the poor guy some flowers, he wouldn't have left her for the 0.98

07:23:43.900 Mexican footlock. 0.74

07:23:45.620 Wow. 0.97

07:23:46.600 That's crazy.

07:23:47.640 All right, guys.

07:23:48.780 We're going to do the raid.

07:23:50.020 If you want to get that pulled up in here in just a moment, I'll do my little outro.

07:23:53.500 All right.

07:23:53.920 Gigi.

07:23:55.240 Hold on.

07:23:55.860 Gigi.

07:23:56.260 Well played to the panel.

07:23:57.840 Last call guys hit the like button, please on your way out.

07:24:01.020 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

07:24:01.960 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you were here with me.

07:24:04.820 I appreciate that.

07:24:06.260 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates and supports the show.

07:24:09.500 We could do not, we, we could not do the show without you guys.

07:24:13.240 Your patronage is greatly appreciated and it's going to go towards also go towards my speech

07:24:19.800 therapy classes because clearly something's happening.

07:24:22.740 Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM out whatever on Instagram. 1.00

07:24:25.700 We will be live again Tuesday at 5 p.m.

07:24:28.040 Pacific.

07:24:28.460 Jake will be back.

07:24:29.600 Should be a fantastic panel on Tuesday.

07:24:32.080 Be sure you guys tune in.

07:24:33.480 Oh, sevens in the chat.

07:24:34.980 We're going to get this raid set off to peekaboo.

07:24:36.960 He's playing a world of Warcraft hardcore.

07:24:41.160 I'm going to get that sent here in 10 seconds.

07:24:43.360 Then we're going to get this wrapped up.

07:24:45.040 Looks like he's leveling up a priest in hardcore.

07:24:48.380 He's in the only fangs guilds over there on the hardcore server. 0.98

07:24:51.900 All right, guys.

07:24:52.800 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

07:24:53.860 Before you leave, just drop a follow.

07:24:55.940 If you have a prime sub, check if you have one available.

07:24:59.100 Drop us one.

07:24:59.920 I'm going to send the raid now.

07:25:01.780 Thank you guys so much for watching on Twitch.

07:25:03.140 Hope you guys have a good night.

07:25:04.100 There's some weed over here.

07:25:04.760 Where was it?

07:25:06.320 Right here.

07:25:06.660 All right.

07:25:07.360 He's a level six undead priest.

07:25:11.380 He's in Tirisfal Glades.

07:25:14.540 Maybe even have to work.

07:25:16.640 Tirisfal Glades.

07:25:17.520 Guys, he's leveling up.

07:25:19.680 Leveling up.

07:25:20.440 Excuse me.

07:25:21.020 Who's locked into the Warcraft.

07:25:22.300 I should have told him.

07:25:23.060 And that's the Sunday Scariest character.

07:25:25.700 Yo, whatever.

07:25:26.160 Did I read?

07:25:28.100 All right.

07:25:28.600 Where am I going here?

07:25:29.280 What is this?

07:25:30.480 Train tailoring.

07:25:31.520 Save up your money.

07:25:31.920 That's it for that.

07:25:33.240 You can hide that.

07:25:34.520 Okay.

07:25:35.220 07's in the chat.

07:25:36.280 Should I?

07:25:36.760 Oh, wait.

07:25:37.840 Are you coming back for the goodbye?

07:25:40.100 Really quick.

07:25:41.540 Okay, guys.

07:25:42.700 07's.

07:25:43.400 07's in the chat.

07:25:45.100 07's in the chat.

07:25:46.000 She's back, guys.

07:25:46.840 She's back.

07:25:47.720 Okay, 07's in the chat.

07:25:49.180 Good night, guys.

07:25:49.920 We will see you on Tuesday.

07:25:51.060 Good night.

07:25:51.320 Good night.

Whatever Podcast - February 03, 2025

MELTDOWN？! Heated Debate w⧸ Feminist! Men Must WORSHIP Women？! She IS The Table？! ｜ Dating Talk #225

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