RAGE QUIT？! DEBATE： Chivalry = Dead! Hater CONFRONTS Brian？! HIPLETS = MANLETS？! ｜ Dating Talk 301
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In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, host Brian Atlas is joined by tattoo artist Maya and sex coach Micaela to talk about their love of the NFL, dating, and the modern dating hellscape we live in.
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uh let's see uh i need help to get to one million followers on my instagram that's
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at brianatlas x uh scroll down tiffany it's the scroll down yeah no no not on my instagram on the
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the thing the stream yards thing to pull it up you're it nope scroll down it's right there
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yep one million followers guys i don't know i'm like 60k away or something
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uh i think i'm shadow banned currently on there so my it's kind of slowed down a little bit uh
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usually that resolves itself but uh yeah get me the million followers over there on instagram i
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think we'll maybe do it in july let's see uh if you can't you can also support me by putting me
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in your last will and testament and bequeathing some or all of your state to me we're casting
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women do you have any bad date stories awful acts hot takes or disagreements with me or the show
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dm at whatever on instagram if you'd like to be on the show be sure to follow us on the free
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speech platform rumble at rumble.com slash whatever uh without further ado we're going
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to have the guests introduce themselves starting with you go ahead my name is maya i'm 21 years
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old i was born in new jersey and i work as a tattoo artist what part of jersey i don't remember
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i think it was like princeton oh where do you live currently still jersey do i have to disclose that
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uh state you want to do state indiana okay sorry about that um that you live in indiana um
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what do you do for work sorry i must have missed that tattoo artist any and you do content creation
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too no only fans have you ever done only fans okay uh what kind of content do you make mostly
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like cosplay stuff like i'll do like little dance videos or whatever what's like a trending dance
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video right now um i don't know there's like the tongue tongue guy have you seen little like ai he's
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like no show us one of your dances though or something i can't really dance in the chair
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there's like like the pants dances you don't know this one no i don't know what you're watching
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you're you're behind on the times i guess um okay and uh let's see any college anything like that
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um i did go to college for a year and a half and then i dropped out what were you studying it was
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a double major in biomedical engineering and art and design and then i was also minoring in spanish
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okay do you have tattoos oh i see you got one on okay yeah most of them are on like my torso okay
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gotcha tattoo artist so uh what about you i'm michelina 42 from well from pennsylvania live
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in miami now and i do adult content i do only fans i'm a massage therapist um sex and relationship
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coach and i have my associate's degree for massage therapy all right and um how long have you been
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doing adult content for 2018 is when i started and so is that are you doing like only fans are
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Are you doing, like, hardcore mainstream stuff?
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And you had some disagreements with the show, which we'll get into.
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You also have some very interesting dating stories, which we'll also get into.
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So the name of the service, it's Naked Massage?
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now do you actually get naked during the massages sure do not okay ah it's like the free beer
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you guys don't talk about like um or wait what am i thinking of with the free beer thing
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free wi-fi like if you named your business like free beer but there was no free beer it's just
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like the best like name to like attract people because i do spray tanning as well i have my own
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spray tan business so you get naked and glow get naked massage and then with the coaching
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You get naked, but it's also you're getting naked figuratively.
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But their hope is that I get naked and I don't.
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Now, on your OnlyFans, you either currently or in the past described yourself as a BJ queen.
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So what do you have to, like, does Guinness World Record do that?
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You know, actually, I've had it since high school.
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And it just kind of rolled over into adulthood.
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You had it, like, senior year or earlier than senior year?
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in your and wait you're 42 you said 42 when did you graduate 2002 i graduated high school
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2002 okay so back in i've been changing the world one job at a time prior to the millennium
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so in 99 you were the bj queen of your high school in uh you're from wait uh originally
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you're from amish country pa baby pennsylvania you were the bj queen yeah of some not like
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philadelphia see how you know i've also traveled the world since then
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so you were the bj queen in 99 yeah in high school yeah and was this people like new
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or was it like out in the open or was it more private no this was like you know guys definitely
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knew because i was like hey like would you smash two or just bj's only the bj's only the bj's
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sometimes that's okay yeah it works here i am sometimes it's like you know rather just get
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like if a girl is so good at that yeah it's almost like yeah yeah we can just do that yeah
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yeah so but you kind of get in trouble there because if you want to fuck then the guy's like
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nah can we just yeah i know so if you're too good with the bjs they don't want sex everything else
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okay so the bj queen you also some i don't know if this is current or former foreign slash sharp
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object insertion what what what's that that is chef's knives guns cactuses that is what the fuck
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Because you want them shooting out of the pussy, right?
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Yeah, it was like at the Sausage Castle with Mike Busey years ago,
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and he's like, let's see how many you can put in.
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What's the appeal of the foreign objects in the pussy?
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Because nobody else will do it, and there's something so sexy about it.
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It feels so good to know that I can put something so foreign and sharp and dangerous.
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What kind of firearms have you put in your vagina?
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We're going to put a bazooka up in your pussy.
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um and uh you said swords too swords swords yes like um like samurai like samurai like a katana
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like long yeah have you ever put i'm gonna just i need to google the kinds of swords um kinds of
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i because there's one on the tip of my tongue like what about a uh fencing sword have you put
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no but that would be a good idea what about a claymore have you have you put a claymore
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that I've obviously didn't think of before. Maybe like
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Now I'm going to have to go look at all these.
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Brings a new meaning to the term hatchet wound.
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Thanks for helping out your local psyche ward, Brian.
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I actually got this entire panel from the local asylum.
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uh okay so uh any unusual other objects like have you put like a lamp post in there or something or
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a paper towel holder was probably a weird one okay that was an uh how long you've been doing
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this i've been doing this like 2018 started off with a pair of scissors scissors and i was like
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this is basic as you know what can you if you're near a pool can you run that way because they say
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because you can fall. Well, you're not supposed to run near
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You should try it. Wait, what are... I'm gonna try
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Hard-boiled eggs just to see how much you push out.
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I guess, have you ever smuggled anything into a prison?
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Have you smuggled drugs into a prison for someone?
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No, but it's a felony, I'm pretty sure, so I just wouldn't admit it.
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You should put one in there and have someone call you.
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Do you know how badass it is to do a whisk and just spread your whole vagina and see
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And then I baked my mother-in-law a cake with that whisk after it was just like that.
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Well, we're going to come back to some of that stuff.
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But on your booking website that I looked at, you teach women slash couples how, because you're the BJ queen, how to give BJs.
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There is things that I'm teaching them as we go.
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I don't mind doing it live, or I can also just walk them through it as they do it.
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But I'd actually prefer to be there in person so I can guide them.
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But there is a whole slew of things that these girls need to know when they're sucking dick.
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what's give us three big takeaways when it comes to giving a good blowy for one you better fucking
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enjoy it okay do it like it's the last thing you're ever going to do your whole entire life
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and your life now depends on it type of enthusiasm yeah enthusiasm um deep throat put that thing in
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the back of your throat so much that it creates so much phlegm and makes it the dirtiest nastiest
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wettest blowjob ever okay okay all right what's the last one what's the last the last one is going
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to be make sure you use your hands too okay all right use your hands too you know look uh you
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know certain men have different preferences the first point was good third point was good
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the second point you know i a little sloppy can be okay but i i personally don't enjoy the like
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near vomiting thing really i don't know i don't want some of that acid reflux all up on there
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i would just suck it right off if i did it would be fine but i don't know i i think
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you don't deep throat isn't necessary it's not necessary not necessary but they like it
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but it does create the whole experience you know it makes the guy feel so good that some
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chick is sucking on his dick you know what i mean it goes with the like psychology of it you know
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well she's still sucking if it's not even if it's not but he's like oh man she's choking my dick's
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got to be big i'm gonna need a sign up for your class it's really not but i'm gonna choke out
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anyhow to make you feel good i don't know me personally i don't know i don't want her i don't
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like the gagging okay that's fair it you know that's fair i'm like and sometimes you can be
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but uh while we have uh you introduce yourself hi i'm abigail i'm 21 from indiana sorry about that
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it's okay gary indiana you guys are from gary oh okay uh 21 uh what do you do for work um i work
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for a billing company and i'm also um do my i'm a makeup artist and cosmetologist any college
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no just cosmetology school and you're from indiana like grew up there okay all right uh
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what about you uh i'm millie i'm from iowa i'm 27 um what was the other questions uh occupation
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i'm a recording artist and you're born in uh iowa south central iowa south central is that the same
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as like south central la it's rural so it's the opposite of south central la um education high
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school high school okay and you're a recording artist yeah so you sing you produce what do you
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do i sing and rap can we hear a rap like mine yeah yeah uh or do some tupac fuck it why not
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bitches dropping comments they all never drop they low always flapping jaws but you never want
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to smoke thank you fucking with me bitch you out here smoking pole you know what that means
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Is it about literal grilled cheese, or is it a metaphor?
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No, because I'm like, I'm going to grill you for some cheese.
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Because there's a strain of weed called cheddar cheese, too.
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Well, I mean, you could do something for, you could do that.
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I'm Tanika. I'm over 40. I'm a grandmother, a massage therapist, a singer, a writer, a dancer, a content creator, a government agency worker, resource community, community resource provider, and soon to be music therapist.
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All right. And where are you from? Did you say that?
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Look at that. Two women from South Central.
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I don't think I've seen anybody from Iowa yet on the show.
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I've tried to find somebody because I've gone through them all and watched the intros.
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I went through and tried to watch a bunch of intros.
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I have watched several episodes all the way through.
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I majored in psychology and business, and then I went to a bunch of trade schools.
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I worked in about every industry there is, from retail to a criminal defense attorney.
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They're both in L.A. County, but they're different cities.
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I actually live on the border of South Central and Englewood.
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So South Central is the South Central part of Los Angeles.
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27 okay and how old is their kid two two okay all right so you are a grandma nice
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and um how many uh how many kids do you have three three kids all right i guess we'll i'll
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do the kids i guess when we come back to the relationship status um you and you're from the
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mean streets of south central yep i'm from the mean streets of santa barbara
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in psychotherapy before i got political i was known as la's premier divorcee success coach and
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dating expert so it's nice to talk about this stuff again well welcome um and oh just one
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question are those prescription they are do you want me to take them off uh is it the glare
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it's they're a little bit but if if you need it that's fine yeah well i don't mind taking them
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But you have good vision in both eyes, is that?
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Also, they're two different colors, which is very weird.
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I don't qualify because my eyes are kind of smaller.
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Yeah, it's a side effect of one of the surgeries.
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Well, I had to have surgery as a newborn because if the brain does not learn to use the eyes, it won't use them.
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And you said you have a background in psychotherapy.
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Yeah, I got my license as a marriage family therapist.
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I currently live in Los Angeles, and I've had my own business since 2014.
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It's Genius Eyelashes and Skin Care, where I educate women how to do lashes, how to do facials,
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Now, maybe for the panelists or the viewers who aren't familiar with that, what is that?
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Well, in 2020, yeah, 2021, sorry, January 6th, we attended the Capitol to watch our president.
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We peacefully and patriotically walked over to the Capitol to have our voices heard.
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It was stolen, inequivocally stolen, because there's no way Joe Biden got more votes than any other president in history.
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We went there to peacefully and patriotically have our voices be heard.
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I myself at the time didn't know they were certifying the election at the time.
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Well, in any case, though, you were there on January 6th.
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And so were you, like, charged federally with a crime?
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I had some of the highest charges of any moment.
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Aiding and abetting, which is treason, aiding and abetting, trying to stop an election proceeding, which is treason, civil disorder, and then I had six misdemeanors.
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So I don't remember, because I was so traumatized, honestly, at the time, I didn't really study the charges.
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and initially when i first uh was arrested i had a public defender and i made bail when i met when
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i made bail i went the next day to pay it and washington decided that i was a danger to society
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so they revoked my bail as i went to go pay my bail they kidnapped me and um essentially i was
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kidnapped and incarcerated for a month so nobody knew where i was they were flying me around on
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con air and um oh so you were being shifted between different detention facilities yes
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now how long were you uh in detention for or in jail okay five weeks five in total yeah without
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being able to the first three weeks unable to contact anyone my friends were calling around
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where is she my clients had no idea where i was wow i didn't know where i was the uh i couldn't
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believe where i was the eventual disposition you you were found now i understand that trump
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pardoned everybody correct but you were found at that time uh guilty of what what were you
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treason treason wow right what a patriot so what a patriot unfortunately there was a lot of
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misconceptions um i'm being called a fed and but unfortunately i was um incarcerated and my family
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hired a mobster attorney that was a criminal attorney that was a rhino who hated trump and
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And he was having a very deep relationship with the prosecutor, and he was telling her she's going to cooperate, and he never even asked me.
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So the whole time I was incarcerated, not once did he contact me.
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By the time I got out, they let me out in Oklahoma.
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and um the the attorney didn't contact me until two weeks after i was let out and i was in los
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angeles he's like what do you think i'm a clown i don't care what you have to say you're gonna
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cooperate i'm like well i don't have any information to give we went there peacefully
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they started shooting at us people were killed i don't care you're gonna make something up
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unfortunately i was so traumatized i couldn't really fight back um so he made all the decisions
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So, but in any case, you did get the pardon, I believe, from Trump.
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Obviously, though, it must have been quite a financial burden, probably with lawyers.
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Usually all my money comes from content creating.
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that keep me busy when i'm not doing what i'm doing all right and uh college anything like that
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no not really um i got pregnant at 16 so you got pregnant yeah so i'm just so you have how many
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kids i have two i have a 17 year old from same father oh no two different baby daddies okay yeah
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the first one i didn't know who it was but then and then we figured it out later right the second
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one i tell him it's not his but he swears it is so i don't know wait you don't the second i'm kidding
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i'm joking maybe i don't know maybe i wanted to go to dairy springer or maury but i think they're
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dead yeah you are not the father next best thing the whatever podcast yeah but you know what like
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most of the guys they want to be my baby daddy like it's it's okay though it's like
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wait so are you well i guess we'll get to the relationship thing later but
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you said the first one i got pregnant as a one-night stand i was 16 and you were sleeping
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with other men yes so you didn't you didn't know who i did kind of have an idea but um i think he
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found me when my daughter was three because somebody told him and i was like no it's not
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yours and he's like yes it is i'm like no she's not and then he's like yeah so then he made me go
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do a dna test and it turned 99.99 it was his which is one percent it's not how many men at the time
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were you sleeping with i want to say like i had like three boyfriends at that time three boyfriends
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yeah and you said this was at 16 yes i was bad i grew up in a broken home you know so this would
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i was looking for daddy issues would this have been like what 2007 no like i had my daughter in
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2009 so i want to say like yeah like 2008 2007 or yeah maybe around 20 yeah got it uh what about
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you next I am Michaela I'm 28 and I'm originally from Minnesota born and raised but I live in New
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Jersey right now education occupation education is high school occupation I'm a barista and
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content creator mainly focusing on faith and self-improvement all right what about you my name
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is Erica. I'm 32. I am from Fort Worth, Texas. I am currently going to school for criminal justice
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and yeah, I have four kids and that's pretty much it. All right. Uh, okay. Uh, we're going to get
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into relationship status of everyone. Uh, first really quick as a reminder, guys, $10 display,
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hundred dollar read two hundred dollar tts uh starting with you relationship status
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um i have a boyfriend we've been dating for almost two years almost two years um probably watching
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and wait remind me remind me your name again it's uh maya maya maya why did i write angel i think
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that's your instagram username that's my tattoo handle angelic hold on angel uh so you said you've
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been in a four-year very toxic off and on relationship with your best friend's older
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brother yes is that your best friend sitting there that's one of my best friends but it's
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not her brother nope it's one of our mutual friends so yeah uh when you say very toxic
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off and on relationship so we dated for a year straight and like that was cool and then after
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that like he would just ghost me out of the blue like in a relationship like not say anything to
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me just like disappear and i would be like freaking the fuck out like what the fuck happened
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like there was times where i like wanted to reach out to his mom or something to see if he was like
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alive um and then he would like keep coming back and then we'd get back together and then he'd
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leave again what would be the typical period of time he would be gone usually like one to three
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months i want to say and like complete ghost like no contact no contact whatsoever and this is the
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current guy you're dating no oh this is okay wait so the guy i'm dating now we've been dating for
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almost two years oh because you said oh i see you've been in a four-year toxic off and on
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relationship but that's not your current one no i see okay so your current one those two years
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and that's not been toxic it's been good yes it's been good okay I love it uh so okay we'll
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get into that other thing a little bit later although one quick note um during that four
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year toxic off and on relationship one of the times where he just split he just left
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you said you went through a hoe phase yeah a small hoe phase it was five bodies over the course
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of like I want to say like three months okay um I was in a pretty bad headspace I was doing like
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a lot of drugs and every time he would like leave I would like wait for him and I feel like it got
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to a point where I felt like I almost was like his property or like I belonged to him and so it
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was like me trying to show myself that like I don't have to sit here and like wait for this guy
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to leave and come back over and over again have you had more than one ho phase no just that one
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okay uh and then i guess might as well now you wrote that you had also prostituted yourself
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once when you're 18 to your manager i think at a restaurant yes uh and you haven't really
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experienced you haven't really experienced being single since the start of high school
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so you've always been in something since then and you're 21 now okay okay uh we'll dive into
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some of that more later what about you your relationship status involved involved uh more
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than one exclusively no one exclusive uh man woman they them man man guy yes and i guess
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just on that orientation uh orientation sexual orientation straight by okay straight but i am by
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I married a foreigner to get him in the country.
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I was like, I'll get you a green card for sure.
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How long does it usually take to get a green card?
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I don't know, because he never got it, actually.
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But I got the money, so that's really all I was worried about.
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We worked together at Olive Garden, and I was like, I will help you out.
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And then I found a bank account that had more money in it, and I was like, let me clear this thing out.
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So wait, how did you have access to the bank account?
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me and my best friend happened to find that I had that he had a bank account and had my name on it
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as well so I was like if my name's on that that money's mine too but you took all of it sure did
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not half of it not half of it yeah and he didn't even get the green card didn't get the green now
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how long were you married for four years we were married did he end up having to pay you alimony
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no it was like a clean split type thing like you probably could I had met my second husband at
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that point and i was like listen i'm really in love well actually to another foreigner that
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happened i need a green card too so um but i was like i'm really in love like i don't want to be
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married to you because i genuinely love this other man and you never slept with bulgarian guy never
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this was strictly i didn't even suck his dick isn't that hard to believe damn 20k plus the bank
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account that's no blow job i know wow and so where's he where's he now he's in bulgaria yeah
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he didn't get the green card. Yeah. I don't get it though. You were married to him for four years.
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How did he not get the green card? We never got the interview. I don't know what happened, but he
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never got the interview. And then when I was with the second, my, my real husband and he got
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in trouble for a fraudulent marriage that wasn't me. And I was working for immigration. They're
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like, you need to sign off on this Bulgarian guy and say that he, that was a fake marriage. And I
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was like, okay, so now he can never come to the United States. The marriage too, or Bulgarian?
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The Bulgarian guy can never come to the United States.
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Wait, was he mad when you siphoned the money from the bank account?
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Yeah, he was a little frustrated while I did it.
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But I was like, yo, you were supposed to be paying money along the way, and you have not done that.
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we need him somebody find this man tell him to tell him to tune in podcast you owe look if you
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break up with your boyfriend you owe him a bj you owe him deal you owe that guy you owe that
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bulgarian man a bj you owe him a bj he's he's really old if you don't dm him right now but uh
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Okay, so now that you said there was four or three marriages?
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So how do you sell to the guy who you actually ended up being in love with, who you got married to?
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By the way, I'm currently married to like a 40-year-old Bulgarian guy.
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Because he knew it was just for the green card.
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Yeah, and obviously he needed a green card and had done the same thing and was married to somebody else.
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But she was married to somebody else for that, and then he got caught for that and arrested.
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And I was pregnant with our first child, and I was like, listen, immigration, I don't care what he says.
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He's working for the government because I want him to stay here.
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Drugs, other fraudulent marriages, other people that are laundering money because, you know,
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I won't say who, but they love to launder money.
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Beachwear stores, candy stores, all the things.
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So it was basically throwing everybody, including his own family,
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under the bus just to stay in the United States.
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And this is the guy you were married to for 10 years.
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Now, when you guys ended up getting divorced, does he or did he pay you alimony?
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No alimony. Child support? Child support, yes. Child support, yes. How old's your oldest? 16.
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So you still, you get paid child support for all three kids? Yes. I'm always curious about the
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child support stuff because it's always interesting hearing how that differs by state. How much do you
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get for child support? $2,000 a month. Per kid or in total? Total. Total. And this is in Florida,
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is that correct? This is South Carolina. Oh, South Carolina. Yes. Okay, gotcha. All right.
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dated him all through high school and a bit after is that the relationship that ended two years ago
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yes okay who broke up with who um i was planning on breaking up with him um i told him he had 30
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days to get his shit together and he didn't so well what do you mean was he he was really um
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he was really toxic and mentally abusive he also did like um drugs strangle me once
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once yes because i slapped him no i slapped him for watching porn and not having sex with me
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he did something that you disliked which was watching porn you and beating off and not having
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sex with me well yeah um as objectionable as that may be uh you then slapped him once a safer
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new jails to keep criminals behind bars and it means there's no need to worry when i play at the
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you're he was it was a big what kind of porn was it like bbc shit or like was he watching
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because i feel like women i'm only attracted to black men so it was a black guy yes it was a
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black guy yes how did i wow okay because i feel like for example i women do not like it when
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they're generally speaking don't like their boyfriend partner husband whatever watching
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porn i get it but if the type of porn there what it's like a double whammy if the type of porn
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they're watching adds a layer of the object objectible objectionableness of it like for
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example i don't know say say i had a girlfriend and she was white and she was like he's watching
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a bunch of asian porn not only am i watching porn i'm watching porn of women that don't look like
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her that's one of my problems yeah women so what so so he was watching what um i'm a thicker woman
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so he was watching a lot of skinny skinny yeah skinny yes yes yes and were they white
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or black or white mostly white and blonde skinny women so you you walked in on him beating off
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is that correct um so he had it pulled up on his phone and i went to like he handed he i went to
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do something on his phone it was on one of like the screens it still pulled up and yeah that's
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how i found out so you slapped him yeah hard not that hard i just did a little like yeah like fuck
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you kind of slap now okay so look you did put hands on him first and who knows how that went
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so like you slap him and he immediately starts choking you is that how it went um so i slapped
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him and then he yeah he pushed me on like he grabbed me by my neck and like slammed me on the
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bed and was he saying what did he say was he like don't fucking hit me or don't put your hands on
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something like that yeah something like that oh boy and had you guys had physical things prior to
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this um i did like kind of beat him up a little bit when i found him cheating on me what oh well
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okay hold on there's two things here uh cheating is bad but also i don't think the uh i did slap
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him for that a few times a few times as frustrating and anger inducing as it is you should not uh
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physically assault somebody but um okay so
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you beat him up though was he a he was a black guy yeah he was like six two
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okay bigger than you well height wise anyways um and uh he sucked on other girls toes with my same
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name oh we'll get into that i remember that in the notes but okay so but you said the the five
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your now wait how long into the relation wait how long did you stay with him after the porn incident
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and the toe sucking incident okay so i did stay with him my dumb ass stayed with him after he
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cheated on me and he did end up getting my name tattooed on him to like prove he wouldn't do it
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again um what's your name again abigail abigail or you can call me abby he so his tattoo says abigail
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says my um first and middle first and middle because the girl had the same name as me
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so i wanted to do like first and middle abigail's are kind of rare a little bit
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but uh okay so uh you said he was um it was toxic it was very toxic and he was mentally abusive he
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was um so how would he mentally abuse you things he would say he'd use um like i try to tell him
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how i feel and like you know manipulators they'll turn it back around just because you're telling
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them how you feel give us one example like um shoot it's hard to put on the spot um you cheated
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on me and he's like well my grandma died that literally happened to me like yeah like that type
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that type he um he did like try to use his dad dying to for like an excuse that's valid
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to be honest no like his grandma had died years ago
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was he look was he a g what was he a g not a gangster i mean i guess he could have been a
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gangster what's a g what's a g top g what does that mean explain like a g like what like was
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he the boss was he the man oh what fuck no so why were you dating him i don't know why i dated him
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i shouldn't have dated him he ended up calling me after like we broke up to complain about his
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new girl too who she got who he got pregnant is that correct no um she's he's living with um he
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moved like right after we broke up he moved in with a girl um who has a child within like two
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months she let him move in oh yeah and now what how do you describe your aesthetic would you
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consider yourself goth no i'm more like kind of alt um more i'm more hippie a little more um was
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he a goth was he goth or no he didn't have like anything going on for him black black eye though
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yes there's there's goth black guys he was uh anime nerd a 6'2 black anime nerd yes
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since we were young I think tell me three things you
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um i didn't hit him that hard oh um he sounds like what an abuser would say i didn't hit you
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that hard like a man cheated on me hey look he sucked another bitch's toes can i know how you
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found out like did you walk in on him or like like found out that he was cheating no sucking
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the toe part i he has a foot fetish and i asked him oh he told you you didn't walk in i don't get
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that but um three things you did wrong three things i did wrong
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i was quick to anger really quickly but that was um yes um what else
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some of the things i said too back for back to him when he would say some really messed up shit
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to me some of the things i did say were did you call him the n-word no i don't use that we have
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a black queen here don't be my question and i think did you think you dated me because he was
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tall black and fine and that was it and he had a big day see what i'm saying he wasn't that cute
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see what i'm saying he wasn't that cute in the face though wow you also have to consider they're
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from like indiana she was digmatized yeah a little too much good word i deserved a lot better
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I've tried talking to people, but nothing's stuck.
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Not like Latinos or white guys, Asian guys, just black guys.
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Is there like, I don't know, there's not like a white guy, like a famous white guy you think
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attractive um if i would have to say one it's kind of crazy but the joker from suicide squad
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with the makeup on yes yeah jared leto with the makeup on dressed up as the joker okay i can see
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that okay yeah i like clowns a little i can see who's like um a famous black guy that's your black
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celebrity crush okay my he's not okay my all-time bruto bruto mars is my
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celebrity crush he's not even that he's not black he's part like lewis hamilton i think he's like
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half or something yeah so i don't know but he was my celebrity crush since i was like really little
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he was my celebrity crush since i was like really little bruno mars yes all right he might be short
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But I also have three kids. I wanted to add that.
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never been married though never been married how long were you with him for um almost six years
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how long you've been single for uh i'm not sure like a month or two maybe three you just like a
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month ago you broke up this is a different guy different guy yeah my kid's dad i have i divorced
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him in 2022 so you broke up with him no i divorced him through the court but you said you weren't
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married i wasn't so how could you divorce him if you weren't married um to get his name off of my
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house so i could sell it i had to divorce him but you weren't married right but because we presented
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like a married couple in iowa yeah you don't have to be together a certain amount of time like if
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you put your name as his name on facebook like you can be legally married in iowa okay does he
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pay you alimony um no child support no white guy he's from ukraine white guy probably white guy
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he's like from ukraine now you said he was trying to assassinate you oh he well he's tried to kill
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me like several times like a lot of times like explain um well the most recent time was my
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daughter's first birthday um he me and my friend went home to go to bed and he showed up after the
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party and like ripped me out of my bed by my hair and put a gun on my neck and like hit my friend
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with the gun and yeah like basically uh yeah i feel like that's like the least traumatic time
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least when's the last time he tried that was that that was the last time that was when was that um
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2021 have you when's the last time you were in contact with him um i talked to him a couple
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months ago why because it was my son's birthday well i just called to ask if he was going to send
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anything for like a gift and so wait um is he in ukraine he's in montana so you got three kids
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does he pay you child support no and you said no alimony no he's supposed i think he's supposed
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to pay child support but he's technically illegal he his green card was revoked in 2009
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uh wow okay um has he always been violent um yeah so aside from instances several times where he
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tried to kill you uh he'd also like just not try to kill you but beat you up is that correct
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um i would like lay hands on you he's very different so he's like a lot more sadistic
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i don't know how to explain it like he wouldn't just like beat me up but like one time he like
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grabbed me by the back of my head and like slammed my face in the center console and just
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like start driving down a gravel road and was like i'm gonna knock you out and throw you in the snow
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yikes good times yeah and he's an immigrant you said illegal yeah well yeah he's technically
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banned from the country but he's here he's a refugee so if oh yeah he can't be deported they
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tried to deport him in 2013 and they like ukraine was like we don't have any documentation has the
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police ever been involved in any of these he took it to trial and won the like when he busted my
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head open and so he ended up he got a lawyer and took it to trial and the lawyer was really good
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and the county attorney was awful how many times did you call the police on him though um twice
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there was two times or three times but the third time when he pulled me and my friend out of my bed
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They just, like, stood outside with bullhorns and then left.
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And so they kidnapped me because he had made false allegations to DHS after, like, obviously he's this awful person and they have documentation of that.
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um he said that they like my kids were obviously in danger or something so they sent the DHS and
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the sheriffs to my house and my kids weren't home and the sheriff deputy he ended up arresting me
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right there for obstruction in my own house and then when I was at the jail I'm like I'm trying
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to bond out and she's like you don't even have a charge I don't know why you're here and I was
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like you need like help me they can because i've been to jail and i'm like they cannot me um and
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then they said that they would drop my case if i apologize to the deputy um and so i pled guilty
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what small town shit um the guy you're currently you said you're single yeah i'm single but i was
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in like a situationship um but he was a cheater yeah you wrote situationship slash complicated
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did. Prop the door open all the way, but you're not seeing him anymore. When's the last time you
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saw him? On the way here. And you, what? But not like that. Like two days ago? Four. But not like
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that. What you mean when you say not like that, you mean sex? Yeah, no, I did not have sex with
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And if he's watching this, he should have been nicer to me this morning
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When you say DL, because you could be a down low slut
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There's a really deep, detailed story, and the FBI is, like, involved in it.
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the f the fbi is interested in this gay dude in iowa no he's in colorado is what what's his job
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he works at a gas station they're not interested in him but like why the fuck would the fbi or
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whatever be involved um because his last girlfriend died under mysterious circumstances
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What does that have to do with the gay thing, though?
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He had sent her, like, a screenshot that was, like, if you do something gay one time, does that make you gay?
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I still want a girlfriend or some shit like that.
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And, like, there's just things in there about that.
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Sounds like he was getting freaky with his face.
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When's the last time you had sex with him?
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Because I think I messaged you when I was still angry.
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That doesn't mean you want to go away from him.
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No, that's the guy who tried to kill her multiple times.
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I only talk to him because I don't know if I'm addicted to it or something.
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Look, these guys sound maybe pretty toxic, maybe even criminal, whatever.
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Is Wayne Brady going to have to choke a bitch?
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He's like, what did you do to your kid's dad for him to hit you with the lamp?
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it's a really small community so i don't date in the community what else have you done wrong
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um like are you toxic too maybe a little bit like like you run your mouth well yeah but only if it's
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like time to only if it's time to well yeah like well yeah okay define run my mouth uh just being
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insulting towards them or given attitude um after they so yeah after his infidelity yes
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okay all right um i gotta step away for a little moment here we're gonna continue on with the
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relationship status but uh i want to see what i can give you guys to talk on for just a moment
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while i step away maybe okay we got um some of your stuff you've got the bj queen stuff maybe
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maybe one of your stories uh you also wanted to talk about the legal immigration why don't you
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start there and if there's time you guys can get into that stuff i just have like an interesting
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metaphor that i use for illegal immigration um like my perspective on it like i said my children's
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father is technically an illegal immigrant um a lot of my friends from home so iowa's um hispanic
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population is like 25 percent um which is actually really high for like such a small populated state
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um and i might be wrong actually because it might be the town i live in that's 25 percent which is
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really high um but anyway so basically my metaphor is that like if you build a house
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it's for your family and the people that you deem you know to live inside like your people
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that's basically what borders are so if I build a home and someone knocks on my door and they say
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please let me in and I say well who are you where are you from well I can't tell you they're raping
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people they're murdering people they sell drugs horrible things are happening where I'm from
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you have to let me in well this is the house that I built for me and my family to keep us safe and
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You don't have the right to protect your own home if somebody's forcing their way in.
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You're pro-legal immigration, it sounds like.
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No, I'm saying, like, if you have a home and somebody that you, a stranger knocks on your door and they don't even tell you who they are.
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I don't think that we should tell anybody that they can't move here.
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If they're a Muslim or Islamic, I would like to say that they practice things in other countries that I think are despicable that Brian said we shouldn't talk about during the show.
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It's female genital mutilation, but we're not going to get into that because Brian asked us.
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You said the metaphor that you used, you made it seem like you were against illegal immigration, but then you just-
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I'm against, so like I do believe in like the right to freedom from religious persecution,
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but i feel like there are some religions that don't qualify as a religion based on western
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civilization i agree we i think a lot of stuff yeah i agree yeah help me out what religions
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don't qualify as religions um religions that require you to take your daughter's labia off
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when she's born um by any means necessary some of these countries don't have access to medical
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equipment and they burn them off that's not a religion that's a cultural that's what they
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practice in islam yes but i know ma'am not in this country because these are not devout muslims but
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in true devout muslim countries islamic countries they practice fgm that's female circumcision
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where they remove the entire outer vulva um and then so it's speaking speaking of as right i i
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have a movement i should put on my big labia matter hoodie i you know the the labiaplasty stuff
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absolutely against it as i as some thank you tiffany as someone who uh only dates women with
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large labia um i'm did someone just say ew ew why ew it's gross what's gross what's gross
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are you like body shaming are you everybody's supposed to be tight and keep it in wait that's
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not something you can control hold on i'm sorry you can be that's two different things you can
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mouth diarrhea yes sorry yes but um i mean look i don't know i just had to come back when she
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starts talking about labia i gotta come back why is that close cmi i don't know every vagina is
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beautiful i don't care what it looks like every vagina is fucking beautiful well i do waxing and
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sometimes they're not so beautiful oh you see the side yeah i i'm sorry it's pastrami meat
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if any women with like large ones i mean it's not their fault you know right that's the thing
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it's like it's you know i don't want to judge i'm just he just said he likes big and did you know
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there's a museum that's kind of a vagina that's like record i get what you're saying when you
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say there's more pussy though yeah hanging to the side like chicken no way but brian the discord and
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pull up that image i'm done and i don't mean to body shame it's just when he said he's into the
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big hanging can i ask why you love it he didn't say hanging he said big got some of them stuck on
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first we got to clarify you know what we're talking about so tiffany it's going to be in
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the blm under resources uh and then you're going to click let me know if you find it
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and then click on the first one and we'll look at the other ones i guess so this is what we're
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talking about so audi big labia that would be on the left the audi the any is on uh next one i
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guess there's more there's i don't know i know exactly why you love that you like the audi i
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when she's riding his dick or anywhere near his dick,
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So you didn't say what you were into, A, B, C, D.
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her lips might be down here where he can further feel that
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the thing is though i think women labia fish me they lie that it's bigger they collect you know
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like how guys will say hey i got a big dick and then you're like oh my god that happens all the
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time find out after the show no okay i mean unless i don't know how i would go about that like hey so
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whip it out um never had a problem but yeah guys lie about their dick size and women knowing that
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i have this preference oh boy they front and they say oh i got an audi and then that's what i mean
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like maybe they don't it's big yeah your preference is huge yeah hold on it's like i understand that i
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i can go big or go home but i'm okay like it doesn't need to be xxl jumbo size like an audi
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is an outie there's like there's grades to it there are grades so there's like small outie
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medium outie large outie xl outie and then the holy grail out which i'm on the search for the
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holy grail big girls i hope you find that big girls does not mean big lips
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he's in the big labia wait like big girls with big lips organs yeah wait what just the labia
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of it and theirs. They think they're just so huge,
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but you really like them bigger. But it's not even...
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I am dying to hear the day that you find the biggest fucking labia you've ever seen.
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Yeah, I'm glad that you, like, actually, like, spread awareness.
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No, and look, there's a bunch of, you're welcome.
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Like, for example, oh, well, if a woman has an Audi, that means she's ran through, or that means that she's been with an Audi.
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Yeah, like, there are women who have, like, the most perfect just slit any, and they've slept with a thousand men.
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Like, so it has no impact on your physiology.
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But yeah, and it's unfortunate that, by the way, I also think men should not be shamed for their packaging too.
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But I would like there not to be shaming of men, of women, especially something you can't really change that you're born with.
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you didn't believe me when i told him i said i watch i do watch why don't you eat pussy brian
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yeah for real let's turn the table all right that's a red flag that's a big red flag
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well here i'll i'll say any like big labias like those are ones to suck on yeah like yeah
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you just want to smother your face to sit on your face where you can't even breathe with that yeah
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so if i was into that then yes that would be beneficial but in this case i would i would
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answer it like this he's traumatized one time what what is there things about like a girl
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while you're eating her out hold on let me uh let me give the answer yeah let me give the answer
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so uh first i'd like to preface this i'd like to give a prelude i'd like to give a preamble
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this isn't a thing where it's like i don't care about her pleasure i do substantially care about
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the woman's pleasure my philosophy is i think the woman should come first if possible she should
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come multiple times if i don't come three times it's not before before before me and this can be
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achieved in other ways besides oral sex um it can be hands it can be penetrative it can be you can
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even throw in some toys i don't have issues with bringing toys in if needed uh but with that
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particular sexual act i believe people are allowed to have sexual boundaries and preferences if a
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girl didn't want to perform oral sex and that was just one of her boundaries, completely fine.
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I wouldn't, you labeled it as a red flag. Now, I think it's also acceptable to be clear.
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If you have a preference, you want your partner to perform oral sex, that's also a fair preference,
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but I suppose the person not wanting to do the thing typically should supersede for consent
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reasons but um i would say uh there's other ways to please a woman and uh but what is the reason
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that you won't do it right do you have bad experiences no not really uh i i did a few
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times when i was a young gun when i was a young lad i got a fucking noise for this on my thing
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where is it let me see if i can find it do you know how to say pussy backwards
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I don't know, but I hope you're not deflecting it.
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But for now, this wild buck has to roam free.
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So the last time I performed oral sex was, I'll say this, George Bush was still present.
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And there wasn't anything particular that happened.
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Well, the first one, just off the top of my head, is that, let's see here.
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So I read an article when I was very young that Michael Douglas, he got throat cancer.
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So oral sex is the leading risk factor for throat cancer in men.
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And men are four times more likely to develop throat cancer as compared to women.
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I don't believe that's why you don't have a pussy.
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If I just don't want to do it, no is a complete sentence.
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There are some differences when it comes to oral sex between men and women.
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Perhaps there are some stronger negatives for the men.
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like for a woman giving it to a man that whatever some but uh let's see what else um
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right mostly you're scared of getting throat cancer if you just know that you're not going
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to be good at it and that's why i don't want to do it then by all means say that
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well i'm i'm pretty talented to be honest i retired very young i retired young you know
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like these athletes like i'm i'm khabib he retired before he took an l so in my case
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like i was a killer i was a fucking killer okay and you said i'm done but look maybe you know if
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it's a girl who i'm going to spend the rest of my life okay maybe you know on valentine's day
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three years in maybe you'll risk getting cancer and she she's got the most like everything's
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perfect but the other thing the other thing i would say is one of the apprehensions is
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When it comes to oral sex there's physiological differences
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if you're in a committed monogamous relationship with somebody that offers you some level of
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protection of course people cheat people cheat so you don't know how people are necessarily moving
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you could even think you got yourself a really good girl and you don't know how she's moving
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privately unless somehow like you're living with her and you've got a fucking eyes on her 24 7 now
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even even if i knew a girl wasn't cheating on me like definitively still wouldn't do it for other
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other reasons listed but this is one of the factors so first off even if you're a guy who's
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inclined to do it there's no way you should do it on a casual fling ever agreed so so and the
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reason i say this is because if it's a casual thing unless you somehow have knowledge of like
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her recent sexual history even putting away like std stuff which is a risk
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i just think it is more you're not gonna like this word but i can back it up it is just
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physiologically more disgusting for a man to go down on a woman who's sexually active with other
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men than the reverse so for example i'll explain i'll explain as follows say a girl and say she's
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on birth control uh let's be real here people are fucking without rubbers girls are getting
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come come inside and whatever they're doing that right even if there's even if they're not but
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let's say that let's say in this scenario i'm going to present the girl is getting blasted
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inside of by one two three different guys that's in there like you're not women are not supposed
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to douche even with just water you're not supposed to put you can't soap up inside there like you
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you'll mess up your ph you'll get gigafucked you're going to get a yeast infection you're
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not supposed to do that so what do you do well you just leave the cum inside of you basically
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some of it might drip down your leg hours later you know it absorbs a bit so as a guy unless you
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really vetted a chick if you go down on a girl the idea of going down on a woman who has another
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man's seed in her that will find its way into my vicinity i find extremely disgusting and
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objectionable so um and that's even putting aside the std thing like okay just say it did you know
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if you scared just say that it's not well there's a fear that you're more like there's a fear there
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scared it's that i'm you're scared of throat cancer you're scared of having some other guys
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jizz in your mouth ears there's a fear there no that's i don't think it's a valid it's valid
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just being safe he's protecting his stuff now look i'm not to be clear i'm not saying all women are
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going to be moving like this where they're sleeping with multiple guys at the same time.
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I don't know what the actual percentage is.
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It's hard to say. It depends what kind of quality
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women you're dealing with. If you meet a girl on a dating app, my assumption
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would be she's fucking other men. Now, look, I'm not saying that's the case in all
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instances. However, from a physiological perspective,
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yes it is just if i don't want to be like for you to make me proxy gay i don't want another man's
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seed who blasted inside of you in my mouth the difference is as a man let's say i'm running
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through chicks i'm i'm fucking three new girls a day whatever and i and they're squirters and
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And their pussies are the wettest pussies in the world.
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And I'm coming inside of them and they're fucking...
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My entire bed is soaked, not even in squirt juice, but in pussy juice.
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If I take a shower, because our parts are external, I can soap.
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I can even put hand sanitizer on the dick.
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If I really want to clean the shit, I can put hand sanitizer on.
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I am not transferring genetic material from girl number one to girl number two if I've taken a good shower.
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If a woman is promiscuous, fucking a bunch of men.
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Because you want to stay clean and safe, and you don't want anybody else's DNA inside of you.
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But that little hole at the tip of your penis.
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If my man felt that way, I would be fine with that.
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I think pussy juice goes inside that little hole in your penis if you're getting soaked like that.
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so in the hole yeah so i i was listening to what she was saying i was like what well so so you're
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yes um some vaginal fluid will enter the the penile hole most but it's the the order the
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amount of it compared to the amount of deposited seed in vagina is vastly different we're talking
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like atoms compared to like i could scoop that shit out of you you know so um and then in addition
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to that after you you urinate we really are talking about perhaps adam adam level remnant
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of pussy juice in your urethra once you pee that shit goes out it goes out like you don't
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mind fingering a chick and having her totally all over your fingers and underneath your nail
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beds you can easily wash that very good hygiene okay i love that by the way because i have a
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hand fetish like a motherfucker so i just want to know that if you are fingering a chick you
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won't even slightly lick your fingers clean you won't sexually like put those wet fingers in your
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mouth because of throat cancer because of the throat cancer now look um i don't have to be
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clear assuming the girl is not sleeping with other men i don't have like a like a general disgust
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you're welcome i love pussy juice pussy juice is great get it all over me down there
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but i don't want it in here as a thing you know it's hot if a girl's like insanely wet that's
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It can be all over my hands. Totally fine with it.
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I'm trying to... I don't know where I'm going with this.
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when it's monogamous. You're more likely to
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You might change your mind if you're in a serious relationship.
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You're more likely to get a parasitic infection by getting your ass ate than eating ass.
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But actually, the person at higher risk is the person receiving the salad tossing.
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Because the mouth is disgusting, and it has bacteria.
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And you can introduce it into an area it should not be introduced in.
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I'm not willing to sacrifice giving up that just because somebody's mouth is dirty.
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Is there anything you don't need to, girl?
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for you cake i think everything's bad at this point in life wait what was the question i forgot
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there's another question over here she just had to you just had to bring that up just had to bring
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it up i try not to talk the question was do you like your ass ate i love it i knew it's a good
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conversation with women in the room you know but look don't make it don't don't get it twisted
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what the heck was that oh um that's fine oh just like you know that it's 656 just silence it if
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Yeah, it's just, look, the goal is to make the woman come before you, preferably multiple times, if she's able to do that, but without doing that.
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How do women react when you tell them that?
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There's definitely women who are like, you know what, I need that.
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they look if if you wanted to it's preference you know i don't fault women for it now i think um
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again i would say there's other ways we can get there and if at that point you're like you know
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what just can't can't do it brian i'd be like hey no no hard feelings you know go find that
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munch or whatever you may have lost your soulmate just because you won't eat her pussy it's not a
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soulmate it's possible you know but like i would i think it also comes down to value proposition
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is it that much of a deal breaker if there's other things that uh there are women who don't
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like it that's true some and i don't like it i'm gonna start right now like i i don't like it so
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there you go you guys are great it doesn't it doesn't you found the one he's gonna he's gonna
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put the he's gonna give you the cutlet i could go without it well here let's ask the panel uh
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Is it a deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you?
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It will make my throat swell the fuck up and I can't breathe.
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Is the dick hitting the back of your throat when you're sucking it?
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Okay, then that's probably why your throat burns because it hurts.
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uh relationship status for everybody uh so wait you've been huh forgot what
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oh yeah yeah i can do that can you hide the red stuff do you know how to do it just click off to
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the side do you know how to do that here tiffany go do you see the um hold on guys tiffany is uh
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we're having technical difficulties okay so do you see where she is uh the the girl in the pink
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chair one move the mouse cursor to her don't click though nope nope nope nope not there
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on the actual big monitor okay move it to the left
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other left other left yeah click there you go all right uh this is sorry guys a little technical
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difficulties ten dollar display hundred dollar read two hundred dollar tts guys drop us a fall
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All right, let's finish the relationship status.
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Okay, so you do ethical non-monogamy, is that correct?
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um let's see what is ethical non-monogamy that means that like we have our boundaries like i
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have a man like that's my man and if i meet someone or see someone that i like i can be like
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hey babe i think i like him and he will say you know if you want to explore go ahead the same with
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him but he typically doesn't oh um and are you what's your orientation straight i like girls
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he knows that you're going to be sleeping with other people
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Samwell thank you for the super chat appreciate it
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I was married for, well, we were married 14 years, together 16 years.
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And I'm now in a much healthier relationship for about seven years.
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And I could have had it for a lot longer because our marriage was over 10 years, but I chose not to.
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um seven years seven years half the length of our marriage and then the child support uh
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i'm always curious about this because it's always i'm collecting data i'm collecting data
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and perhaps as a psychologist with an academic background you can appreciate that yes uh how
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much was he paying you in alimony well he's paying me you know a fair amount i'm a fair person i
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could have asked for a lot more but i i per month i guess how much was he paying you well i still
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My children are still under 18, so I'm still receiving it.
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on paper but i have the children about 90 of the time okay yeah and you've been in a relationship
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for seven years yeah any plans to have i have no desire to get married again um he also has a son
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the man i'm in a relationship with okay so he's like my bonus child and it's working because
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we are not we don't have a little closer we don't have a need to get legally married
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We also do not live together, and I think that's the secret sauce.
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You may want to skip me because I'm really boring.
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I'm celibate, and I have been for almost 20 years.
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If you ask me anything, I'm pretty open about it.
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And you've been celibate for 20 years, you said.
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I came out, that sent me to L.A. to be an actress, came out to see me.
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That's probably the last time I was with somebody.
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I had a lot of trauma as a kid, and I dedicated my life to the Lord, and I don't judge anybody,
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And I'm waiting for the Lord to come back, and I'm building up my treasure for heaven.
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And I don't judge people, but I've lived my life a different way, and it doesn't fulfill me at all.
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So you had a MySpace last time you fucked.
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That's basically the last time I went down on it.
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And so, but you have some unique dating experience before that.
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And Tiffany, I'm going to have you pull up that Wikipedia here in just a sec.
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You dated someone from a famous, very famous, one of the biggest at the time, rock bands.
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I was here, you know, my boyfriend at the time.
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My boyfriend at the time sent me to L.A. to be an actress and a model.
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you're like the prey and there's vulture all around you and i was like so impressed because
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he seemed so very protective and um we started dating and he was in the circus tour at the time
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and he was separated from pam he had a little boy evan he was living in gene simmons guest house at
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the time and um one thing about him he wasn't really ready to settle down and i didn't want
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Now, wait, how old were you and how old was he at the time?
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Gosh, it was before my son was born, of course.
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Scroll down, scroll down, scroll down, scroll down.
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Okay, so the lead singer, keep scrolling, keep scrolling.
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Were you romantically involved with any other rock stars of the era, era, era?
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Gosh, a lot of them did like me, but I never really dated.
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I was with The Billionaire, and before that I was with the guy from Milli Vanilli.
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You know that guy who's, like, he's the pimp of New York?
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um he used to send a car for me to come pick me up um scott baio used to come in a flirt with me
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um basically just but i never dated scott but i remember it's like but now wait paul stanley
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that let's focus on yeah paul paul stanley from kiss the star child or whatever yeah
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um when you met him and you said you dated him for one year it was nine months exactly
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And so how soon into that nine months did you guys get down?
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But now you're a good Christian woman, conservative, and you're waiting until marriage for that.
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Waiting until marriage, even if a good guy comes along.
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In three years, if you haven't had sex, I'll have sex with you.
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He will not eat your pussy, but he will have sex with you.
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But look, if Paul Stanley got to hit right away, you've got to let Brian.
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I feel like it's going to be a hard sell for like a – you want to get married and have it like a –
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i feel like it's a hard sell in jerusalem oh i think it's a hard sell for for a guy
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it's to be like it's okay she let a very famous rock star hit right away but i gotta marry her
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that was in 96 it was a long time ago but look this is look people can change i get it i get it
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i would feel i don't know if some girl was like brian you gotta wait three months
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And I found out she fucked NLE Choppa right away.
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Oh, I used to date Jeff Cross and Johnny Mitchell, too.
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Football players, but that was way before.
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I think it's good that you're no longer letting rock stars fuck right away.
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On one hand, it's a tough, from the male perspective.
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like when we come along and we meet a girl we like
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it's like no actually I would want a relationship with you
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I want to date you, I want you to be my girlfriend, but I want to fuck.
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When a girl, and you know the girl's history.
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so this is boy math that i'm about to introduce so i know he's when it comes to a body when it
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comes to like body count it's not just go he's right though imagine how many women he's been
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with like right exactly yeah so a girl say she slept with one guy but that one guy is
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who's like a scummy dude who's like just a grind oh um
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god girls gone wild guy um yeah well who's this guy grimy dude but there's somebody else
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there's somebody else that's really scum andy andy what's his name the guy that's real drunk
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all the time and dirty oh charlie sheen sorry charlie charlie charlie i'm so sorry this is
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boy math right back say a girl's only slept with one guy and it might have just been a one night
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stand but that guy she did sleep with is i don't know some soldier boy or some fucking soundcloud
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ray j uh diddy diddy diddy's good um just any of the island boys diddy ain't no worse than the
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people on the island i'm waiting for donald trump oh that's amazing he's so sexy i'm sorry
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because if you deal with like a grimy dude how about this it doesn't have to be it doesn't
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necessarily even have to be a famous dude if you like fuck a guy who does like iv drug use
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that's like a hundred bodies you you fucked one guy but your body count might as well be
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a hundred if you're fucking a guy who who's like fucking shooting up you know why she could it's
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She wants to go to her car if she goes up in her hand.
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Well, then just how about we take the pad off and try that?
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It's touching my skin, but it's not, like, you know, there's a lot of...
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Well, here, grab one of those T-shirts back there
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You know the little girl Heather O'Rourke that died?
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Okay, so I don't know where I was going with that.
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But I think the other thing is it is a hard sell.
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like i guess the best way i could paint it is like this so look as a woman if you previously
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hooked up with guys super quick and then now you want to wait three weeks three months whatever i
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mean look that's your prerogative however i think from the male perspective that's a pretty raw
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deal for the guy in the same way it would be like for you as i'm about to describe
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so imagine a guy who you are somewhat familiar with him his social circle and you knew his like
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two previous exes and you knew some girls he hooked up with for all those girls whether they
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were like relationships or most of them were just casual hookups envision this in your mind
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think about this guy that you like and you're interested in and he says he likes you a lot and
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he's interested in you you know with his previous flings that weren't that serious just kind of
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casual hookups he was doing the most he was buying her gifts taking her out to nice dinners
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paying for the dinner he was getting her gifts paying for trips uh doing all these kind of
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chivalrous things do that for hookups then when you come along and he tells you i'm looking for
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a girlfriend i'm looking for the serious thing you might be the one then he says you know what though
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i don't want to we're not going to do that i want to wait until we're married i want to wait until
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three months for me to pay for dates take you on trips get you gifts be chivalrous do all these
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sort of more chivalrous generous gestures women would be like wait hold on you're gonna say hell
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no you're telling you where's the courtship you were doing that for the hood rats you were doing
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all that nice stuff for the hood rats the girls you claim you didn't really care about you're
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telling me i'm i'm supposed to be the girl that you want to you have to court it's you have to
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court i think and that's that's how men feel when y'all are like i really you're those fuckboys
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they were those jerks those bad boys they got to fuck right away you the good guy who i want
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a relationship with you get to wait three weeks three months from the male perspective it's like
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wait i'm the guy you want to be with but you don't want to have sex with me but you give the sex if
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Now, he probably went too far by on trips for hood rats.
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Actually, here's where it's, I think it's more unfair when it's, well, how do I want to frame how exactly.
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Maybe we can, like, split the bill at McDonald's.
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So in your case, I blinked my eyes and my little boy who had these little light up Spider-Man
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To me, as hard as I work, life goes by so quickly.
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I'd rather just be satisfied with what I have, wait for the Lord.
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I'd rather store up my treasures for heaven and just know that I'll be eternally with the Lord, happy.
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And this life, if I have to be alone, I'm fine with that.
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Yeah, I think, you know, there's something called grace.
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And maybe the person that Gina wants to manifest also had a past, also has found the Lord, and doesn't look at the things the way typical men would look.
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Maybe they've had so much fun that they would rather have someone complimenting their life as a companion, and sex is not their most important thing.
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Her thing is a bit unique in the sense she's walked the walk for 20 years.
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But what you'll find, and this differs a bit when it comes to people who are religious, where they both have a desire to perhaps attempt to wait for marriage.
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But like in a more, this phenomenon will occur even like among non-religious women.
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So you'll have a woman one week who gets cracked by just some random dude, and then she comes across, like literally it can be even concurrent, consecutive.
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And then another guy comes along who she marks as, ooh, this guy's like potentially long-term material.
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She might actually withhold the sex from him, and it's not even like a genuine standard that she has.
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a relationship with him, I'm going to make him wait
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from the male perspective, look I understand there's
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uh, benefits or values to one type of woman, but not give it to another. So yes, it does go both
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ways. But from the male perspective, I can't help. Like, for example, I'll give you an example,
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right? Hypothetical say I'm dating a girl and I like her. She likes me. It's like the second
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or third day. And then, you know, we're trying, I'm trying to move it there. And she's like,
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no, I want to wait a bit. And if I know that like two months earlier, she just got out of a
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friends with benefits situation and that guy didn't have to wait i would feel a type of way
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about that i would think she's either just not attracted or she's trying to how would the guy
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know i don't understand well granted in the hypothetical it's known so that's well i mean
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it's very i don't think that's the type of girl you're going after why i mean i don't think it's
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well hold on i don't think it would be unusual though like this is definitely something that
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happens where, and I mean, I've had it happen to me where I'll talk to the girl and now
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look, most of the women just want to fuck right away with, I'm so charming, but you
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have that, but I haven't encountered, I have, I have, no, I mean, well, we can get into
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that, but I, I have also encountered instances where the girl wants to wait a bit and look,
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I'm not to some degree is reasonable and it depends on her past, but if I'll give you
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one example this girl is the fourth date and you know we'd we'd make out whatever try to push it
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forward no no no totally fine okay we can stop there now she told me that the last guy she was
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with he hit right away and it was just like this friends with benefits type of thing and that was
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like a couple months before she met me she didn't have some come to jesus moment she didn't have a
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change up in her approach to this she was just like well he was just more casual and like well
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so what's her reasoning for not fucking you though she wanted she wanted to women will
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arbitrarily it doesn't even have a reason it's just like this is what women will think this is
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what i need to do to be viewed as more respectable and and um and even but even if you're like look
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I'm interested in you, we can fuck right now
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slept with a hundred men and y'all you fucked them right away five minutes
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you handshake and then you fuck and then for guy number 101 if you want to wait until marriage
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you could do that but from the male perspective that's a raw deal for guy number 101
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and look you can move how you want to move you can change it up consent should always be respected
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Is that what you were feeling? You were frustrated
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It does feel like, yeah, it makes the guy feel like a sucker
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Her instincts were correct, you only wanted to sleep with her
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Well, hold on, I think you can have a genuine interest
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to sleep with a guy prior to marriage no well okay i understand if you're fucking christian
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or religious i definitely would i would i don't know i need to know if you love someone the sex
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is gonna be good i believe whatever the sex is not true it will be all the time the lord made
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me i believe women also have preferences i used to think that too stop i believe women also have
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preferences, who say they're not Christian or religious or whatever, probably a lot of women
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also don't want to wait to have sex necessarily too. So I think it's just a mismatch of timeline.
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I don't think it's like this person isn't necessarily worth the wait necessarily.
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But to use your logic with the whole oral sex thing, maybe a woman doesn't want multiple men
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in her unless it's monogamous. But that's not what he's saying.
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yeah yeah i think she could have been nervous about the waiting like considering that you have
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like some status i feel like a lot of guys that have status are gonna like fuck as many girls as
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they can that's not true guys without status will try to fuck as many girls i was gonna say
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this is this is something i've encountered post and pre-podcast so i mean i don't think it's so
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much status related as it is just sometimes women will just arbitrarily just be like
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i would actually agree with you because i do find like like you said if it was the the roles were
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reversed i mean i would be kind of ticked off if you know i was dating somebody they had you know
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fucked around with them for a while and then all of a sudden they're like with you i'm gonna wait
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i would be like well that's kind of weird why why is that oh i just decided all of a sudden to become
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like celibate or whatever i would think that was weird because like brian was saying it's not like
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a moral you know that has come a note come over you that made you decide that okay i've accepted
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like christ in my life or whatever and now i'm just you know i'm gonna do that it was just
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a weird here there's there's actually some interesting posts that we're gonna look actually
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wait let's just do it now then i have another thing to react to tiffany go into the discord
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and you're going to go into the media and you're going to scroll up about like five or six posts
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i posted this april uh four or five april 5th it's going to be four posts let me know when you
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have it it's right about above the click on the first one and then i'm going to have you
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read it for us can you read that for us yeah i'm unsure if i should tell my boyfriend this
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information i recently gone official with a man i've been dating for a couple of months he's kind
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respectful and considerate i really think he could be the one but something is eating at me i wanted
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to build slowly with this man so we didn't become intimate until after going exclusive but between
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the first date and that point i did see an old fwb a couple of times what is that friends with
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benefits back then i didn't think anything of it as i wasn't exclusive but i underestimated how much
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I would care for my boyfriend and I feel almost like I've cheated on him have I done something
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wrong do I need to tell him will he end things with me so this is a bit of a different scenario
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here but essentially while this is different and this does get a little bit at what I'm saying
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here so to recapsulate did you read the update or no um actually pull it back up and we'll finish
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that update there was mixed reactions here but my gut told me I should tell my boyfriend he said
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sorry i don't want to be in a relationship with someone who does that then he blocked me
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on everything so that's fair that makes sense that is because they were together they were
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in a relationship her her position seems to be it had not been official yet even though they were
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like hanging out going on more serious romantic dates she did cheat i don't know if i wouldn't
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consider it i'm gonna tell you how let me tell you my position on how i feel like she cheated
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she was involved with this man a couple months for a couple of months regardless i feel like
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you know if that's what they were doing she hooked up with somebody while she was dating him even
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though they weren't exclusive he was exclusive we don't right we don't know that but she's
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admitting that she did but she had a guilty conscience and her guilty conscience is guilty
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because she felt like she cheated so she did because it sounds like she went into this wanting
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to be like in an exclusive relationship and to save her from whatever desires she had while she
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was dating this really sweet guy she went back to something familiar to fulfill her cravings and her
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desires that's cheating well I don't know if it's strictly cheating but I think what she did is
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wrong but so what she did wrote and it is a bit of a loophole she says that um that there was a
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period where they were dating where they didn't officially go exclusive and so between the first
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date and that point of becoming officially exclusive she wrote that she saw this friends
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with benefits and had sex with him a couple times uh so i guess that's sort of related to what we're
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talking about where it's like on one hand this girl is saying she wanted to build slush so she
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told him hey let's hold off on sex she cheated because she told him to hold off on sex but then
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she went off and had sex with somebody else in the middle of that that is cheating that is cheating
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whether they're exclusive or not she cheated him we don't know he did the same with no girlfriend
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either it doesn't at this point it's irrelevant she agreed that they would wait for sex that
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I don't care about her loophole the implication
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the contract well if she really liked him she wouldn't
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she could still really like him and fuck somebody else
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If you are celibate, you say there won't be any chance of marriage or relations.
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All right, well, let's do, can you read this one?
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We're not overly concerned with excuses for your personal past mistakes.
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the point is that you ought to lead the next generation of women away from making those
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mistakes not demanding we change standards nice who is that too thank you i appreciate it thank
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you thank you thank you cha um let's uh we appreciate that i want to move it on to another
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topic that's gone viral this past week it's a tick tock trend it's about hiplets anyone familiar
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with this what what are hiplets what is that so hip place hiplet like so hip dips tell us what
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hip dips it's related to hip dips oh what is that well we're gonna pull it up but uh tiffany pull
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up that first uh post uh can you make it one bigger tiffany they're going absolutely can you
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read the what it says men on tiktok are making fun of women with hip dips the same way they make
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fun of short men and they're going absolutely insane i think i have hip dips hold on while we
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get through all of these um read this genuinely what is wrong with men right now like they started
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doing this out of nowhere specifically the hip lip click on the photo just click on the photo
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what's wrong with his lips herpes you can't date nobody bruh can you can you can you read this i
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would never date a woman with hip dips i'm aware that it's a genetic factor completely out of their
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control but people have a right to prep. They're trolling. Now x out of that photo and then go to
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the next tab. There's a few here. Read this. Shiplet is now live. A new trend has resurfaced
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hip dips that are now the modern female equivalent of heitism. The hiplets are already going wild on
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social media. Will hypergamy be abolished? Click on the photo. So this is a hiplet.
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So the hip dips, so this term, I believe that the lit part of it, just quiet guys, please.
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The term is somewhat stolen from the term man lit.
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A man lit is a short man, typically, I believe, 5'7 or 5'5 and under.
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So they're now using the let, is that a suffix?
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They're adding that to hip-lit, women with hip dips, because women call short men man-lits.
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And women obviously have very strong height preferences, typically not finding short men attractive.
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So this is, I think, done in a sort of satirical revenge sort of way where they won't date women for their hip dips.
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Being around women with hip dips is so comforting.
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I would never personally date one, but they give off such good co-worker and friend energy.
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So women say this about short men, so there's like a satirical component to this.
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So women are very upset about the hip dip thing, I guess.
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Well, I mean, a tall guy could do it, too, I guess.
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And now there's news articles about this phenomenon.
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TikTok's controversial slang term and hip-dip criticism trend explained.
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uh read the one on the right there i can't fly hiplets always have a lethal face card but i
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could never date one scroll down let's see if there's anything worthy in this article
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um i'll read that there's no way guys are forcing hip dip hate as a revenge toward
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girls saying they prefer tall guys that'll teach them uh scroll down let's see if there's anything
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else let's see what Hipplet scroll up what it means uh let's see yeah read that a Hipplet is
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defined as a woman with hip dips an uncontrollable feature in some people's bone structures that
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causes their hips to dip inward giving them a more concave look as opposed to a rounded one
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wow all right I think that's it for the the pull up things on the screen what do you guys think
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about that i think that's perfectly fine but the thing about like the workouts as someone who
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works out and lifts heavy weights regularly like you you don't grow muscles there you can't
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also i think 99 of this is just rage bait to go i used to have hip dips really bad and i don't
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anymore it's very obscure and it doesn't really matter why don't you anymore um so i don't go to
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the gym but i do physical activity outside that really like so like i i've built like a staircase
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in my backyard like basically out of the earth um with my bare hands i like cut down trees and
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stuff with loppers that like shouldn't be cut down with loppers and i like put them between my legs
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and like break the trees with my legs you grew your hips out yes but i like work out outside i
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wait what did i miss she grew her hip dips into hips yeah i grew my hip dips in the woods
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basically she does the thigh master and squats that's what the i don't know i think a guy is
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entitled to that for sure like i definitely am not going to date a short guy ever no yeah there's
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nothing if a guy doesn't want to date a chick with you know the hip by all means i don't think
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it's equivalent because it can be changed though that's how well it's the equivalent would be a
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girl who's flat chested a guy tends there yes okay that's a way better example there are people
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who do it can be to work out and change that there are very short so everyone's taller you
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cannot talk at once ladies it is yes they go through the surgery it's like super they can't
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hear us if we're all talking but but you can't change your boobs or your height without surgery
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and you can hip dips yes you know i want i'd rather change hip dips without surgery right
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if genetically if your muscle doesn't grow as well there yeah i would say it also has to do
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with like weight and body fat because there was a time where i weighed like 40 more pounds and my
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hip dips were much less noticeable but i don't have that much yeah like your bmi yeah if you
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have more muscle then you would have less hip dips for sure okay all right let's move on wow
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discussion tip this i feel like the preference for men though even if they're not sure
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even if men are not sure like they like like bigger thicker women are like the that's like
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like body tea you know what i mean um that's what men are really into men want women to look like
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well i think all women are beautiful i'm saying like the beauty standard is definitely evolving
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like we went from seeing very very stick figures with no ass on the runway like literally like the
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low-rise jeans that are so low-rise that they like because they have no ass nothing to hold
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them up we're going from that beauty standard to all the ass you know what i mean like it's
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completely shifting like bigger women i'm just making an observation i'm not arguing their
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yeah it's gonna change for sure yeah but it always changes every couple years some people
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they like skinny girls and then later they're like girls that look like me and then there's
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like bigger and then sometimes like for me it was so hard for me to be a model because i was too big
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to be in the skinny section and i was too small to be in the big section and i couldn't figure it
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out i was like okay then what am i our own section our own lane pretty much what it was
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curvilicious yep i'm like i'm not skinny and i'm not big so i'm thick i think that you look good
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thank you thing in the staircase i was like your body's really you look good oh thanks you do do
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you guys think that people are using the term thick as like a synonym for obese these days
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no there's a difference i know guys you're fat like you're big there's a great yes i do
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you do i do absolutely where are you where are you guys from texas okay yeah i mean which you
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know i personally don't give a shit what you weigh you know whatever do your thing i don't
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care i don't judge people like that but i do definitely think there's a problem with
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calling obese people thick rather than just being like let's be real about i have men call me thick
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all the time yeah see i wouldn't consider you you know that's not a bad thing i feel like it's like
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based on where you are like your lingo and stuff though like how where you're from maybe they do
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use thick in a more like derogatory way even in new jersey where i currently live women call me
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nationwide do they think they do call me thick i could see that you are you are you're not skinny
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But everyone thinks I've been in relationships with them
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No, but I have to go slow me, get a few meal out of it.
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It's always be available, but never be available.
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You know, act available, but never be available.
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You know, like I can't make up my mind who I want or what I want.
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I was a widow with my first marriage, and then the second one just did not work out.
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I have four kids, and I have one with my current boyfriend, and he step-parents the rest of them.
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four different fathers correct okay i see four kids four fathers married to two of them one
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you were widowed yes um what happened there yeah so um i was 19 when we met or no 18 when we met
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and it was just in the town that i had lived in and we got along great and we just kind of moved
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fast we really liked each other wanted to get married found out he had cancer and when we got
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engaged and decided to get married anyways and so we did and then shortly after had a baby and then
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about a year into his diagnosis he passed away he was on hospice and so I'm so sorry I'm sorry for
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your loss yeah so we share a daughter together so I have one kid from him and then my second
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marriage was just terrible it was just awful um i made a lot of mistakes he made a lot of a lot
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of mistakes it was uh abusive and yeah so okay all right um let's ask me how long my longest
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relationship was or if i ever been married just saying oh of course you are going to town on that
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camera while you do it. You're going to get to us click,
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Wait, wait, wait. Scoot in. You're too far
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She was a little hesitant while she did it, but she could have missed it.
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You're telling us more than you think you are, Brian.
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Sorry, my editor asks me to do this so he doesn't have an aneurysm trying to find the lollipop moments during the fucking...
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No, he's like, look, Brian, I need to use the lollipop moments for the fucking clips, the shorts.
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I have a team of three editors that do all the clips.
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Because my experience with graphic designers and stuff like that,
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so my logo, the guy that made my logo, he's a creep.
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So I'm like, does he really need the lollipop footage for the reels,
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But all my editors are very devout Muslims, so it's not a weird – it's not like a sexual thing for them.
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Just because they tell you they don't mean it's the truth.
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Anyways, let's get into some of the show notes here.
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one of those being Carmelo Anthony which was a young black man and then a boy named Austin who
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was a white man. Metcalf. A kid sorry Metcalf and so Carmelo Anthony went into the track meet
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specifically to their tent mind you they they were not on the same team and an altercation
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erupted and then Carmelo Anthony stabbed the kid in the heart and killed him and so there's a lot
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a weapon why do you think why was he there to know why you think that my understanding is that
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this wasn't his first encounter with these people these young men he was on a he inserted himself
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in the tent yes he did insert himself in the tent he tried to leave the tent they approached him
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in the tent why use your hands i do have another question so if he was being bullied okay he was
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in fear for his life why did he bring a knife to the track meet when knives are not even prohibited
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on school grounds it's illegal in the state of texas to have a knife on the school campus so
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he took a knife before the track meet so my thing is is if you're getting bullied i'm not going to
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put myself in a position to be around the bully to start an altercation and I'm sure as heck
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not going to bring an illegal weapon to the school grounds I mean that's he was already
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breaking the law whenever he brought that weapon onto the school grounds so why did he do that if
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he was being bullied that just doesn't make logic sense to me I'm going to say how old are these
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kids? 13, 13, high school. 16. Okay, go ahead with your point. I tried to stay away from this topic
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with Carmelo Anthony because I just didn't want to be involved with it, especially after Rick Chow.
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Who? Who? The Asian man who murdered the black boy who got away with murder. I'm not familiar
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of course it makes sense that the people who are really familiar with this carmelo anthony case
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are not familiar with the rick chow case the carmelo anthony was nationally broadcast
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was also nationally broadcast as well but those are two different cases we're talking about the
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carmelo anthony case not that case i know that i said i stayed away from the carmelo
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hold on but to actually hold on to actually challenge this narrative here that is your
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contention bringing up this asian on black crime or whatever that occurred that uh when black
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when black people are victims of crimes it doesn't get the level of attention you think it deserves
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yes well okay but then i can hold on but now i can flip this on you there are plenty of police
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killings that are arguably worse than the george floyd killing towards uh white men who were killed
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by police that got no attention no attention however historically in this country police
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brutality against black people is so so horrendously higher than it is against white people
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right but it would it would counter your contention that uh black victims don't receive
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a sufficient amount of uh news or media attention when actually it's not in actuality they get
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plenty of news attention now and that's only because and that's only because that's only
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because that's because of social media that's because of community videos that's not because
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of equal well hold on the rodney king was videotaped by a bystander that's the only
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reason that they were even caught right but the look there's there's no doubt that there was
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police misconduct and police brutality for for many many years in this country and still exists
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still exists um but of course the technological limitations historically yes um people were
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victims of police brutality in the past and there was obviously no body cams back then there was
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not photo video evidence of it back then so yes uh police historically did get away with a bit more
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historically do but in any case this okay sure is it could it be that there's more police brutality
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inflicted on black individuals because more black individuals commit crimes no uh 13 of the
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population of america is black and 69 of the population of our uh correctional facilities is
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black well that's because of racism they could also argue that that's because the directly
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that's because they're committing black on black crimes no ma'am and there's no ma'am
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I'm black, I'm no black, I'm no black, ma'am.
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There are more black, I'm black, violent crimes.
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You guys are like, I should go back to the law of the police.
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There's like five people talking at the same time.
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Please, just one person speaking at the same time.
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well we were talking about the camello anthony case so can we go back to that yeah so um why
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did you bring up did you have a question about it or you were just trying to get a gauge of how
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we felt riled up just because it's make things a little interesting i have no idea what happened
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until you said we've been talking about bjs and can we stick with the bjs like can we stick with
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Is the way that his parents have pimped him out
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And people have to give this situation empathy too
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his son could have absolutely gotten a much lesser sentence.
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but his parents insisted that he says he's not guilty,
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even though he said at the time of the crime he did it.
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And that, unfortunately, his sentence could have been less
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But his lawyer and his parents insisted that he plead not guilty.
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I will say that in media, they label underage black children as men more than they do white kids.
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Do you think he should have been, I guess, to get to the bottom of it.
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i'm gonna say this i'm completely biased so i'll ask what you're biased i'm gonna tell you why i'm
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completely biased i don't have faith in the criminal justice system as it pertains to black
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people okay well okay so with that being said i'm automatically probably just out of my i'm trying
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to answer you know my position okay just out of my own um experiences just in this country for
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black people in general, it just hasn't been fair. I can't speak enough on the Carmelo Anthony case
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because I didn't dive in. Right. So I think it's fair to have criticisms of the criminal justice
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system. Obviously, there can be racial components to it or even just sort of baseline criticisms of
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how the justice system operates in this country. I think that's completely fair and reasonable.
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I guess my question is, in terms of, do you think he should have been found not guilty of murder?
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I do think he should have been found not guilty of murder.
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Because he did, in fact, you do agree he did, in fact, kill the man.
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But I don't think it was premeditated and intentional.
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It doesn't mean I don't know anything about it.
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But if it wasn't premeditated, what was the point of bringing a knife into a track meet?
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Because I was in track all throughout high school, and not once have I thought, oh, I guess I need to bring my knife to my school.
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Do we know Carmelo Anthony's history with these boys prior to the track meet?
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And then also, I have a problem with, like I stated previously, I mean, any logical person, if you are getting bullied,
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why would you put yourself in the position right under the bully's tent not and then if he didn't
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know that how many coaches are at track meets how many parents are at track meets he had every
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opportunity to go and get help if he truly believed that he was you know his life was in
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danger or he why did he insert himself in the same position where he could get bullied so he
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But if he didn't know them, who did he have a vendetta against?
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um so ultimately high school boys 16 year old boys look if a fight breaks out let's even if
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we were to grant that he was being bullied which is a terrible thing right people should not be
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getting bullied or you know insulted or accosted or whatever um i think you like in a fight
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if you bring out a knife in like just a schoolyard scuffle you're escalating it to a level this is
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true look right okay you guys start punching each other that's one thing you win he wins somebody
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wins whatever but once you bring a knife out then this is like life or death right like it so you
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know even if austin was the the agitator the belligerent whatever it's like i don't know if
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like he did not deserve to lose his life i will say if you're like what a beautiful boy i don't
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know if it's a legally defensible if someone try even tries to start a schoolyard fight with you
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i don't know if it's legally defensible to pull out a knife even if you're the one who's being
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attacked i i don't know entirely committing a crime having anyways here can i we're going to
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move it on let me have you read this for us alphonse thank you hey guys favorite popsicle
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flavor probably i don't know maybe like cherry do yourself and us all a favor and stop that
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i make up very very bad chop your at and be done with it it's at s-a-e-k-u-r-a-i-n-e on instagram
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thank you you got to send in a another one for being a sim you can't we charge a sim tax you
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got to love her big eye makeup i get a lot of comments on my makeup and i'm i love it we love
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anytime soon i'm sorry it's for the girls not for the guys yeah i think it's amazing i love it i
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can't stop looking so it does look we should um very talented yeah um so what what we should do
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is at the end of the show you should like take it off so that they can do like a before and after
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i have like if you go to my instagram handle i regularly post like stories of me bare face
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well we can we can do that at the end so that people can i guess make a comparison
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all right uh just curious who here just because we'll maybe get into some politics and politics
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is linked to dating uh just going around the table how do you describe your politics are you
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liberal progressive centrist moderate republican democrat like whatever how do you label yourself
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politically uh i honestly don't pay too much attention to politics i would say i'm pretty
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like middle ground like i can see like both sides of an argument and like understand where they're
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coming from um but i've never voted or nothing i've never like paid attention what about on
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certain issues where would you fall on certain issues like immigration issues immigration i feel
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like we should be a little bit stricter than that like i don't support them illegal
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i don't know that's like a little bit like the way we're we're deporting people right now is
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like a little bit crazy like that's a little bit harsh but also do i think they should be here
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wait guys please stop the side bullshit sorry irrelevant comments i don't know i think we
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could definitely be stricter on our border policies abortion pro-life pro-choice i would
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never get one but i do believe that it's probably a good thing considering pro-choice um and then
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And I'm trying to think if there's any other ones that would kind of give us a hint as to where you land.
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But I know that you're going to obviously make me answer a couple of those questions.
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Can I have you scoot your mic that way just a 10?
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I think I can't speak on that because I don't follow politics.
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But I can commend him for all the things that he did prior to president
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because I thought he was a phenomenal businessman.
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The immigrants, how do we feel about them?
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I mean, I'm marrying them all to get them in the country.
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Don't put my name on your bank account because I'm going to take it.
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But, yeah, are you against illegal immigration or where do you fall on the immigration issue?
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i mean i feel like as somebody who's traveled the world everybody wants to come to america
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for the american dream that's not really the fucking american dream anymore anyhow
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um but given that they do want to come here for a better life whatever that is
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um i don't fault anybody for that like i just don't fault anybody for that do i believe that
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there are ways that it could be done uh that are more acceptable yes and that doesn't include
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marrying me um you know going through the right avenues to do it so i even i somebody who's
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very strongly against illegal immigration i can sit here and also say i understand why someone
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would want to come to the best country in the world i understand why they would want to leave
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there's a there's a saying our government is the worst government except for all the others
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Many of them are leaving countries with very poor economies that, you know, there could be all kinds of issues.
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So I understand, like, heck, you know, if I was born in one of these countries, I'd probably want to come here, too.
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Of course you'd want to America's dope. Of course you'd want to come here.
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However, from the citizenry perspective of America, from the law enforcement perspective of America, we should also deport them, right?
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So I guess I'm not asking for your understanding of why they come here, but them being here illegally, what should we do with them is the question.
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you know that's that puts me between a rock and a hard place as somebody who has a father of their
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children who's here illegally like so that does kind of mine is too and he tried to murder me
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i have a little bit of like a what i want my my ex-husband to be deported considering he's the
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father of my kids sure how about this legally because he's helping hold on stop let let's
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make this super simple let's say he gets uh he's allowed to stay but all the rest have to go how
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about that or just say you don't have kids with an illegal immigrant that's hard but that's okay
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well yes or no isn't he legal now though right because you're married to him doesn't that make
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him legal and he's working with the government illegal he committed a felony he can never get
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his green card so he can never get his green card um okay everyone gets i see what you're saying
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And that has nothing to do with him, so I see why you're putting that point in there.
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But I'm just going to say that, like, I'm not against it enough to say everybody has to get deported.
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So you're maybe a bit more left-leaning or perhaps leaning a bit more liberal, democratic.
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Just give her, no, don't give her the whole, okay.
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Does anyone else need a paper towel for their props?
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You can, like, put them all in one if you want.
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I want to deport all the illegal immigrants.
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I don't believe that's right because immigrants are basically what built this country.
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Like, I don't know, like, who, most of the people who build any building that you're going to be in or step in is most likely been, like, physically built properly by an immigrant.
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Yes, I'm talking about, like, actually building things.
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Okay, but so the reason that is partially is because when you can hire someone legally and, you know, they're willing to work for a lower wage, that's going to drive the actual, like, citizen tradesmen out of those jobs because they charge a higher rate.
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And they can't compete against these illegal immigrants who are more than happy to be paid like less than, you know, what a typical going salary for that sort of thing would be.
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But even that aside, they are here illegally.
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They're breaking the law just by virtue of them being here illegally or having crossed the border illegally.
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Because some people have been in this country basically their whole life.
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They might have been born somewhere else and then automatically was taken to America by their family and grew up in America.
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Let's say that that is your stance on having them all deported.
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Do you feel that if they are here on refugee that that should apply as well?
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uh there are some arguments for like true true genuine refugee status but a lot of these
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uh asylum seekers they're first off i one of the rules as it relates to asylum seeking is you have
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to stop in the first safe country so a lot of these people from like central and south america
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are passing through countries that are actually safe for them to stay in but they obviously want
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to come specifically to america for the vast economic benefits and uh sort of social benefits
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that are available here so first off they're uh they're they're doing that sort of thing where
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they're not stopping where it is safe which arguably mexico is safe um some other latin
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american countries are safe for them to seek asylum and they're they're coming here because
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America is an economic powerhouse and they, you know, they want to live in the best country they
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can. Additionally to that, though, even if they are true, blue, genuine asylum seekers and they
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are actually fleeing something, that's a small minority. Most of these people who claim asylum
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aren't actually being persecuted by the government. You simply, if that's what it takes to get into
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the country, you simply are just lying to get into the country. So they're lying about their
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refugee status about their asylum status but if you know they're here just to be refugees and you
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know that do you want them deported uh i think the ideal goal again if it's a true genuine asylum
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seeker true not just like they claim their asylum seeker they're genuinely then uh as soon as the
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conflict like we they can be here perhaps temporarily if it's true genuine asylum seeking
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otherwise as soon as the conflict or whatever fixes itself in their home nation they should
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go back but there's massive abuse with the asylum process these people are lying about their
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oh my government's prosecuting me not happening bullshit um so that needs but that's a very small
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portion of people who are illegal immigrants most of them they're not refugees they're not asylum
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seekers vast majority of illegal immigrants they're just like america's better than my country
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better economic prospects i want to fuck white women so they go there
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But is it just white women they want to fuck?
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I agree. I think if you're here illegally, you need to take your ass back home.
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Well, I mean, look. Also, there's like, what, 10, 20, 30 million illegal immigrants in this country.
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Rent sucks. Cost of living sucks. Grocery price sucks.
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And look, there are other factors that have an impact on your rent. It's not just this.
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However, say we were to deport 10 million, 20 million.
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If we could open up 10 million housing units for citizens, that's going to drive rent prices down.
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people are putting off it's one of the factors why i mean it's many factors why people are not
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like getting married and having kids it's just financially and economically a total clusterfuck
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so i think one of the ways we can address that sort of secondary issue is make it easier to
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cheaper to rent or own a house uh but yeah rent is crazy you should not be having throwing so much
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of your income towards rent and we can drive that down massively by freeing up 10 million pieces of
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housing stock in this country thank god my rent is cheap because i have foreigners living with me
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so it makes my rent much cheaper okay marry them you're getting houses in san jose for a house is
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like five thousand but i see your point i just want to tell you that i hear your point and i see
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your point i don't necessarily feel the same way simply because i love fucking foreigners i don't
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not literally fucking foreigners i fucking love foreigners yeah wait wait one thing i hear what
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you're saying yes i love you're saying no i love mexicans right mexicans are fucking dope they're
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cool people uh however we we have to balance like this isn't this this has nothing to do with like
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racial animosity or anything love mexicans i get it i love i i'm a big mexicans are very cool
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they can be cool visiting or in their country and uh but but are you saying just mexicans
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being important just for example just everybody asking i was like wait it could be anywhere from
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south america it could be people who've come from illegally from pakistan or india or russia
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or anywhere they could be white they could be white but because they're here illegally you
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just want them not here right yes they've gone through the legal process and they've done it
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legally you don't mind them being here wait sorry what's that i'm talking i'm talking about the
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legal immigrants right however i i am okay with limiting the amount of legal immigrants also
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i i mean this is completely coherent we have we have a lot of people in this country and um
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And I think I am okay with also limiting, not completely doing away with, legal immigration also.
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Because, I mean, look, for example, if we were to just, say we were to make, in order to become a legal immigrant, you just had to, like, cross the border and be like, sign one piece of paper and then you become a legal immigrant.
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All those other factors, so, I mean, we could, it is more complicated.
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I understand. No, I understand that. But this idea that just because they're doing it legally means that it's necessarily desirable to have like high influx of immigrants, period.
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So if you want it to be limiting, what would be your stipulations for having them having it be limited?
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Yeah, I mean, there can be some bona fide reasons for legal immigration.
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I would say one of the big things is they need to be in a good place financially if they want to come here, and they need to be prepared to – typically, I mean, I'd like to see highly intelligent people immigrating here.
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I want to do as much brain drain from these other nations as possible to a degree.
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I don't want them like completely gigafucked so like they're all – their entire country is retarded.
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Can we deport the highly unintelligent people here that are citizens then?
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And all the homeless people and the drug addicts?
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But the idea is if we're going to allow you, it's a privilege to come here legally.
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You should be like a productive member of society.
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not want to stab that too but it's yeah but yeah so i'd prefer to see like typically
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you know this is somebody who either has money from their home country or they're like a highly
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trained individual who can like and i'm kind of against that though because then they're going to
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take the jobs i i have some hesitation even there don't we just like trade what if they create jobs
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i'm pro-life but i don't think men should be allowed to be in that argument that's my only
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uh that i am pro-life though you're adorable uh why is that um men don't have ovaries men can
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never understand or empathize what being pregnant is like because they can't be pregnant um so
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therefore you shouldn't be able to argue in the topic of abortion it should be all women so so no
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uterus no opinion is what you're saying in in the topic of uterine lining being filled with a baby
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yes bro word salad who agrees with her i agree so men should not have a say on the abortion thing
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okay i i'd like to well first off that's fallacious this idea that um because someone
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doesn't experience a thing they can't have an opinion on it so would no you can have an opinion
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You have too much power over decision making
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I'll explain it but are you pro-choice or pro-life
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I don't think that people should be scrutinized
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for it um but i i wouldn't get one and i think that it is murder um but i also like i said men
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have no idea what it's like to be pregnant or anything that involves like the actual being
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of gestation or even like losing a child any of that men can't fathom just like women can't fathom
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what it's like uh to do things that only men can do like ejaculate uh from a penis we can't
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understand what that's like so we like how could i tell you what that's like okay but so hold on
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yeah but you can't be men can't be pregnant that doesn't matter though so what you're doing uh no
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uterus no opinion it's it's just a logical fallacy so can i ask you a question a woman who's never
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been raped is she allowed to have an opinion on rape um yeah that's because she can be raped men
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can't get pregnant men can get raped though men can't get pregnant but who gets the woman pregnant
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I'm saying men cannot be pregnant physically
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So do women have a monopoly on what is right or wrong
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Okay, so because only men can be drafted into war,
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should women not have a say on issues of war?
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If the topic is whether or not men should be drafted,
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then women shouldn't have any actual legal stance
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Um, so, so is the question, is the question drafting itself or is the question war period, just the war? Okay. So that's different. That's different. Are we voting on whether or not you can be drafted or, uh, or are we voting on the, like, I don't understand. I was talking about a voting issue.
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If only draftees can be men and draftees will be sent to war, then women should not have a say on, like, if we go to war or not.
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If only men, okay, on whether or not we go to war, the men that are going to war are the most affected.
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So, if a man agrees with your position, his opinion is invalid?
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Like, I'm just saying that men shouldn't be involved in the governing of that law of abortion.
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I have something to, what if it's, okay, what if a couple is dating and the woman decides that she wants an abortion and it's his child?
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and he wants that child so badly because it's his child it's his seed why would he not be able to
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have any say on that when it's his dna you believe it's a life and at conception also morally speaking
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i think that that's already past the point that i'm talking about i'm talking about purely the
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voting stance but that whether what i'm not talking about personal uh relatability i'm talking
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about just the stance of voting on the topic but that would take away men's rights to vote
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on that topic that's what i'm saying right but that's what she wants that well that's what i'm
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saying i don't think men should be allowed to vote about why is that even if because they
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going back to my example though if their dna if a couple is dating and they get pregnant
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and they didn't talk about it and the girl wants to have an abortion and he doesn't then she should
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have the abortion if that's her case i think abortion is murder but if that's her stance
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then she should even morally speaking pro-life yeah you're pro-life i'm saying that i just stated
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that right now too right but i just to me it doesn't logically make sense because if you're
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pro-life um yeah pro-life you believe life starts at conception that is a life that is a human life
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right right so if once you procreate that's two people's dna that now is an individual dna right
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so if the man's dna makes up that child why would he not be able to have so it's okay to murder
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it no i didn't say that you no i'm saying that you're asking me about a specific couple and you
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stated that she wanted the abortion right say yeah she wants the abortion so in this in this
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relative in this relative hypothetical situation that has nothing to do with me
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then she should do what she wants to do based on herself because that's what i see what you're
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saying he so he's not pregnant choice no no this is a this is a hypothetical what woman wants yeah
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You're obviously just focused on being condescending than you are actually asking your question.
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Okay, but if we even go into legislation, I mean, that...
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We're talking about both the male and the female.
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You said you don't feel like a man has the right to vote on this topic, right?
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Because it's not right, but it's their DNA, so that just doesn't make sense.
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She's saying that she doesn't agree because it's the woman's body.
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You think that a woman has a right to make a choice on that, and the man has no choice to vote on that legally, right?
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Has no say on whether or not that should be legal.
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No abortions have ever been committed, ever, okay?
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i don't think men should be involved in the right i know what you're saying right why because they
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can't be pregnant that's that's it so you're just they can't get pregnant and they do not have they
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can't have an abortion that has absolutely nothing to do with pro-choice i don't believe that we
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should be getting abortions i don't think that men should be voting on i do know what you're saying
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two things can be true at once i i get what you're saying and i i totally respect your opinion like i
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I don't think that you are understanding my opinion.
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They have genetically and by their DNA, they should have had a uterus.
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That's the same as saying, should we get abortion just because it's an incestual rape?
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Okay, so what about women who are post-menopause and can no longer get pregnant?
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They're a woman and probably were pregnant.
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So are you saying if only women could vote, then should it be only women who are in the period of becoming pregnant?
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In order to have an opinion on this issue, you need to be a woman who is able to get pregnant.
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Well, no, I was asking you, is that what you're saying?
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No, I'm asking you if that's your standard.
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No, I don't think you need to be a woman who's able to get pregnant.
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Right, but he's stating what if she's born without
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a uterus, so technically she wouldn't have the
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like two ex-criminalizing? We're still women.
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They're like, well, what if somebody was raped?
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What if they can't get pregnant, but there's still a woman?
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okay so look here's the your premise is people without a uterus shouldn't have an opinion on
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abortion no she said men people born with um y x chromosomes should yeah okay but but why should
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men not have an opinion because they can't get pregnant and they and how do you get pregnant
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you need to have a uterus through historically scientifically in their dna they could never get
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pregnant whether or not they were born deformed or not they could never be pregnant but your
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argument is men can't get pregnant right okay some women can't get pregnant therefore if you
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were born with x y chromosomes that's what is determined that's no but some women are not born
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with x y chromosomes okay so it's about the chromosomes yes woman okay so but it's not
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about the chromosomes it's about being a woman no it's about the uterus it's about being a woman
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every person every human that's born with uh xx chromosome is a is supposed to have the ability
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to have children yes or no yes it's not that's a yes or no question it's not a yes or no question
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it is so every person in every human born with the xx chromosome speak you know scientifically
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speaking should be born with the ability to give birth most women will have the ability to give
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birth okay but not all women have the ability to but no man ever can have an abortion exactly ever
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no man no man ever can get pregnant ever right but the issue here is the issue here so absolutely
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men can absolutely not get pregnant men can absolutely not have abortion so men should
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absolutely not have a say. It's logically incoherent because there are other...
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No, you're coherent. Let him finish his statement.
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There are other basis by which women may want to have a position on abortion beyond just their
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ability or lack thereof of being able to get pregnant. So this idea that the only incentive
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for a woman to want to have a view or an opinion or have a say on this is because by virtue of her
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being a woman, she could get pregnant. That's, that's incoherent. There are other reasons why
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there are other reasons why women might care about this issue. Well, I never said that there
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weren't other reasons. That's not what I was stating. Right. But so men could coincidingly
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also have these other men still can't have the possibility of being born with a uterus.
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Okay. Here, let's, let's try this out. So should men not be able to pass any laws
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in which they specifically, perhaps due to their gender,
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Should I not have an opinion on illegal immigration?
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You're a legal citizen of this country, so that's relevant to you.
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But I'm a white man should I not be able to have that opinion
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I would fight against any laws as a white man
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But I also completely understand what you're saying
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anybody who was ever a slave but also in history there have been like white slaves too absolutely
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yeah absolutely so it's not the same argument it's not the same argument get pregnant period
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ever this is like it's like just you're just trying to i'm not saying that i would like go
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in government and push for that i'm just that's my opinion i don't think that men should be so
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involved in female topics i agree i i would at least like it to be 50 it's not female it's
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definitely not 50 50 it's a child the pregnancy and not the parent it doesn't make any sense to
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me why we're just like discounting fatherhood we're not discounting fatherhood at all i'm not
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discounting fatherhood we're not discounting fatherhood you're putting words into my mouth
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period yeah let me finish father let me finish i'm speaking child that is disrupting fatherhood
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I'm speaking, I would like to speak to minimizing rules.
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We're not talking about anyone's feelings or emotions or any of that.
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I didn't want, well, yeah, I kind of knew who the dad was, right?
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Like, I wasn't going to reach out to everybody, hey, are you my baby daddy, you know?
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So, like, that was my choice I made, and I kept her, and it's the best decision I've
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I've had an abortion, and I don't feel bad about it whatsoever.
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my best friend my best friends had more than one of her like pill or like where they go oh no it
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was like you know vacuum you had a dnc vacuum suck that thing right up and that was your decision
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and that was my decision i knew at 25 that i was not ready to be unlocked which went against the
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laws and the rules uh and the beliefs of my jewish ex-husband at the time because he did not want me
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to do it but at the end of the fucking day it's your body so it's more convenient at the end of
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fucking day i'm the one that's going to be here while you're working to take care of this baby
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and i cannot mentally or physically or emotionally do that now granted i was pregnant pregnant again
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six months six weeks later and i kept that one and it happens because even with my 10 year old
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i found out i was pregnant i was like do i want it do i not want it do i want to be with this guy
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for the rest of my life i had so many conflicted feelings that i kind of didn't want to keep her
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but then he's like oh let's keep her i believed in someone that totally lied to me i mean he's
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still there he helps me with the child but i don't have that family that i wanted right and
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what happened if i would have had in that abortion right what's your question have you ever regretted
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having the abortion and have you ever regretted not having i've never regretted no i've never
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i've never have like the best life ever i love my life i can't imagine not growing up with my little
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twin yeah i had i was told one um you want you it's going to be very hard for you to conceive
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if you conceive you most likely won't carry the term we recommend you have a full hysterectomy
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what bitch what i had never been pregnant i hadn't even tried to get pregnant and they're
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telling me to get rid of my uterus oh what age didn't i was 19 years old 19 years old i was
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engaged i was getting ready to get married it was for my um my annual prior to marriage i said well
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god is god and we're gonna see what god say i got married three months later i was pregnant
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i carried that baby full term 100 healthy no drugs no epidural no c-section i pushed that
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baby boy out of my vagina nice okay one two years and one week later i had my daughter
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right they told me i couldn't have none after her i got pregnant almost immediately i was exhausted
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there was no way i was prepared to bring another life into this world to be a lackluster mother
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to the two that i already had and probably even more horrible to the infant coming so
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i had an abortion because i got pregnant again damn i was not ready
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let me let me finish my point wait sorry i got it on can you read this from clan good to see you
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clan of course she can see both sides of politics with fake eyes that freaking big i am not a fan
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of anime or hentai wow and she gave me four more reasons not to watch thanks for saying i look like
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an anime girl though wow we call her sailor moon awesome good to see you yes uh thank you clan
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And it looks like somebody bought some stuff on the merch store.
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So in terms of a man having a say, men will eventually, while it is true, of course, men can't get pregnant, don't get pregnant, don't go through the pregnancy.
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Are you going to bring up the artificial uterus?
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No, I was simply going to say that there are downstream legal, financial, other considerations that men may have as it relates to, yes, that woman's pregnancy.
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So, for example, perhaps then you would have to concede that you would have to make an allowance for if you're going to allow some women to have.
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I did just have a thought that I actually haven't thought before.
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And it's like, if you, if the vote is pro-life, then I guess, then it would just be women.
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But maybe, I guess if it ends up being pro-choice, then the men would be more involved.
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Like, because then there would be children, like, you know what I mean?
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Okay, well, I was simply just going to say that in terms of men having, being invested in it,
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And obviously, if they don't want the abortion or if they're fine with it, or, well, if they do want the abortion, say, but the woman doesn't, that man will then be on the hook for 18 years of child support where he otherwise did not want.
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Your body, your choice, your responsibility with great power to unilaterally decide if child is even born or not comes great responsibility to unilaterally take care of the child.
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It's not the man's nor the government's responsibility.
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Mr. Northumberland, thank you for that super chat.
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We have another one here, if you can read that one.
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Men are not becoming involved to try to control the woman's decision.
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I didn't state that they were trying to control anything.
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All I was stating is that they can't get pregnant.
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Men are allowed to have a say because they are protecting another human life that you were killing.
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It's been a little slow tonight, actually, to be honest.
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Who here is a feminist going around the table,
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I don't know because it depends on like what you would call a feminine
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I feel like he just made three hundred off my topic
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okay why i can't do that okay anyways moving on uh feminist yes or no
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i'm not going to say yes or no but what i will say is this sure if feminism is defined as equal
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opportunity or you know equal rights then yes but do i feel that the outcomes have to be equal
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uh no okay all right i don't think i could say yes or no either the same reasons uh do you
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want to smash the patriarchy is the patriarchy bad i don't know what is that earring are those
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Yeah, it's a nuanced question, but I would not describe myself as a feminist.
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I believe that the woman comes from the man's rib, and the man is to protect the woman.
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The woman has a choice, whether she wants to work with her hands, like a Proverbs 31 woman.
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But I believe that the man is made to protect the woman, and man rules.
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I could probably get you guys to admit that some of you are definitely feminists.
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Guys, if you want to learn how to become a master debater, debateuniversity.com, debateuniversity.com.
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oh okay next i'd say eight for both next um face like eight body five
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okay um face like eight body maybe a six but i've had three kids so i think that that counts for
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something like about my body because i feel like i look pretty good for having three kids that
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wasn't the question well so i'm saying like i have extra points on my six okay wait i'm confused
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no it's a six it's a six with like three in parentheses all right uh this face is a 10 honey
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and this body is a solid eight and a half nice getting better sorry 10 10 face card never
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declines gets me anywhere i want to go change the split
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and anybody who says otherwise is a hater yes they are yes they are i think i look pretty hot
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Yes. She's a ten. No, I mean, I know I'm not
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a ten, but I think it's such a ridiculous question.
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Can I say, like, in the Midwest? It's so silly.
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it's so much different like people look so much i think you're all gorgeous i'm sorry yeah i don't
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okay next okay so this is a very subjective and i'm kind of i would like to be humble but
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i think i'm a 10 for my age and i think my body's a 10 for my age and that's my opinion i'm pretty
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happy with myself with a little help from you know some plastic surgery but i would look good
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i didn't start doing stuff until i was in my 50s so get closer to your mic get closer to your mic
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i said i didn't do any like lip stuff until i was in my 50s but how about i've never done i'd say
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i'm a 10 not for your age just period oh like for my age i can't say because a 20 year old is
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hotter than no baby this is your personal opinion of yourself okay next my age i feel like my body's
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an eight and my face is a five because i still have to work on it but that's just me personally
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things i want to look like that's gorgeous i feel like my face is like a 5.5 no i think you're one
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of the most like classically beautiful girls that i've seen in a long time well i'm saying like your
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beauty is very yeah like it it gives like a whole thing it's very like it's very honestly i'm just
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gonna say this i don't really trust your guys's i love you for that i love you for that
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just look at yourself you are beautiful look at that face five body wait wait no
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face five body like if someone writes themselves no if someone reads themselves like
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way above average and they're objectively look like not above average i don't know which way
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are you inferring that someone here did that i don't know i feel like a lot of people do that
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these days are you inferring that someone on the panel right now did that did what
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did they did what i missed it i'm sorry that they gave themselves a higher number than they should
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i feel like people oh no i have to be careful i feel like people rate themselves higher
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i don't even know what they're lying but it's a yes or no question does anybody know who the
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That's who she looks like. She looks like Heather Rourke.
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Absolutely fucking me. A professional looks rater.
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the overall ranking and then the body ranking, I do have a
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For the face and the body. It's a whole different scale.
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body labia yeah we're just doing frank's body right so let's say if she was not knowing what
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her labia looks like say she's just like a four right so that's or yeah four but here's the
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breakdown small labia plus one well sorry small audi excuse me small audi labia plus one medium
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audi plus two large audi plus three xl jumbo audi plus four and then like if this is potentially
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Do you have the same standards when it comes to face or body
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Fucking bomb ass personality or she's great
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If you know the personality and have a great personality
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Well, when I was saying the overall ranking, that was like overall looks ranking.
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So obviously personality is, I guess then you would say like the overall, overall, where
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now you're incorporating looks, personality, everything.
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extra good she's got to just look i need a submissive woman to begin with she's got to
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be extra everything you better make more fucking money than if you're not licking that pussy
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it's got to be big it's enough he's not gonna lick it and all these extra things
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and i don't even like it i'm a starving college student
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wait who here has had the experience of a guy like obviously if you like you do of and i think
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you're the only yeah am I the only one that does OF or no you do some too right yes I do so two
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out of okay ten um so I do a segment on the show called the reverse hustle I shouldn't have maybe
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I shouldn't have told you what the name of the segment who here has cash on them right now be
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honest I do who's got cash you got cash you got cash you got you got cash you got cash so look um
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gas station and the guy will be like, I'll take care
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some shit. I got a sugar daddy's card in Santa Monica.
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I like it when a girl's a simp for me, you know?
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I don't need the money, but it shows me she's a good simp.
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But for the show, anyways, this is more a novelty for you women.
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I think maybe you guys have had the experience of never having given a man money.
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You've never just given a guy money just because.
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You have people who are going to be giving you hundreds of dollars.
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Like, not as anything else, but more like, you know what?
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Men have given, throughout my life, men have given me so much money.
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Not as a novelty, but, or sorry, as a novelty, just like, you know what?
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I was on the Whatever podcast, and I did a funny.
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I was the one, as a woman, to give a man money.
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So you guys down to give me some money or what?
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There's like 10 people talking at once, one person at a time.
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I said, I'll give you a quarter and buy you a gumball.
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Dude, I will tell you, I will give you solid proof.
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How about you were 20 and you tied it in a slipknot.
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I don't want to know what kind of crazy shit.
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This one looks, we've got Discount Sailor Moon,
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mad max thunder double d's gop on wednesday adams take trailer swift discount macy gray
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20 year old macy gray don't look this good he looked he cooked us a little bit
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he called me trailer swift that's hilarious i'll take it but i'm still waiting for the rating
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Unfortunately, because I haven't verified, there's no way for me to add it up.
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You want me to give you money, show you my labia?
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She doesn't have a man, so she's not spending money on a man.
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We know Gina's labia hasn't been in anybody's mouth.
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Man, it must have been good living back then, you know,
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that would have been frowned upon today, you know?
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Well, I guess I could start the ratings in the hope that she returns.
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Instagram there's some of my story up right now
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you were probably still wearing some makeup though
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So you would, wow, are you, what are you trying to say?
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I think you know what she's trying to say, yeah.
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well that i agree remains to be determined i guess but i mean there so a one point gap is
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is big right so one okay so because five is average right yeah so most people fall on around
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five they fall on average right but if one point is like 10 percent of all of the population out
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of 10 then half a point is only five percent meaning there's only a five percent difference
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wait hold on if you're reading one out of ten one yeah so if i'm if i'm a 4.5 and i give you a 5.5
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and i also said 5.56 so that would be one point to 1.5 uh difference in that range so you're saying
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that like 10 of the world's population is between us on like attractive no no wouldn't that like
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that it so it's it doesn't that's not how it works it's not there's there's not 10 of people
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at one 10% of people at two but it would be bottom 10% bottom 20% no no you'd have a you'd
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have essentially 50% at five basically yeah put it put it and the rest are kind of $2 bill I've
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had it for 10 years you can oh you're not supposed to get you got a 10 year $2 bill I think you need
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for you we've got my uh mohawk friend here she gave herself an eight yeah um let's see here i
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guess we'll go split on this uh are you going not by my instagram which is usually i'm just
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me with no makeup anyhow what's in front of me i guess go with what's right in front of you
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i'm gonna give you look and you're you're 42 i gotta also consider you know the the age or
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whatever you know i'll go ahead and give you 4.5 to 4.75 you you really and you gave yourself an
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i absolutely gave myself yeah yeah but that's only because i would really love to see what
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your version of a fucking 10 is brian yeah for real yes is it can you pull it up
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it's one of them i'll say this it's none of the women at the table even though some of them
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think they're a 10 i'll continue on the looks ratings you gave yourself eight face is that
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correct yes eight face well okay you're also wearing quite a bit of makeup and it's uh
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alternative goth makeup, which has an impact on the assessments. You've got the body mod with the
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fucking that thing, the chain. Uh, and you, you know, we both struggle with the same issues. So
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I'm, I'm a bit chubby, you know, you're on the chubbier side too. And what happens when you're
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overweight is it, it bloats the face a little bit. So my face, the fat's gone to my face in
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your case you know you've you've you're a bigger gal i'm not by the way i'm not saying that to be
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insulting i'm just being autistic so but there's a hidden the silver lining compliment here is i
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think your underlying base you probably have very strong facial aesthetics is the compliment i'm
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trying to give you here in a sort of roundabout way really round the way she's looking at me
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she's displeased with what i'm saying but i think there is a compliment in here saying that
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one thing uh facial attractiveness if if you are overweight um that has a negative impact typically
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when it comes to just look a sort of as objective assessment as you can make of facial attractiveness
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so as a compliment I would say you have a strong
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I can tell you there's a lot of men that like her
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you are a four i give you a four and i don't care that's
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can i ask you one of us can you tell can you tell that he's lower than what he said he was
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can you tell my hair is not real she's wearing a wig i'm bald i mean i just wanted to know if
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you could tell uh it did appear a bit like a wig yeah oh yeah okay does that make her number go up
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no uh well i'm just doing no i wasn't asking for that i have never been rated a four in my
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life by anybody so you're the first never well you should watch the podcast because he gives
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really beautiful women like lower than you would expect ratings and because his scale is just
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they're all tens in their own minds, that we should all
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love ourselves. It's not logical. Let's see your tens.
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he likes. No, that's what I'm saying. His scale
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generally have in their mind. Brian, what do you
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wait guys guys um i've been kind of lenient with it but you guys keep like talking amongst each
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other and talking out of turn it's getting very frustrating it's rude to who's trying to talk
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whether that's me or another guest here so i need you guys to like before you open your mouths
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think is somebody else talking right now yes somebody else is talking right now i'm not gonna
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talk at all go ahead um do you rate differently based off of if someone has had like plastic
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surgery so um sort of from an aesthetic perspective i prefer the non-plastic surgery
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and your 10 better not have no plastic surgery well i think that for example a woman could be
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a 10 like her base say for example she she was is a 10 but then she gets plastic surgery depending
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on what women can definitely botch themselves um i you might have to tell me if you think the women
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i would pull up have plastic surgery i think one of the girls has like slight a bit of a lip flip
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or slight lip filler done possibly her name's uh evangeline lily i think that's her name she's
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beautiful now i don't know if i give her a 10 by the way 10s don't exist so i would say i would
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say i can show you nines 10s don't exist i could show you nines and some of these women i would
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give between like eight to nine in that range that i could show um so tiffany you're gonna
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go in the discord and you're gonna go to the looks tab we'll we'll pull it up afterwards and
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then um and then i'll show you but it's you're gonna scroll up to the one that has gorlock in
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it okay uh okay so i gave you you gave yourself a 10 you gave yourself i gave you a four all right
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hey look it is what it is it's your opinion all right like an asshole well i i mean i don't think
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i'm trying to be an asshole i'm just no no no i didn't say you were trying to be an asshole i
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said your opinion is like an asshole everybody has one i i also sometimes sometimes women will
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underrate themselves and i'll rate them higher so this isn't just some like i want to put them
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down thing there have been women who underrate themselves and i'm like you're wrong actually
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you're higher than that uh you gave yourself a 10 well i didn't really write myself but
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go ahead well you said 10 or something i wrote down 10 i think you said 11 my boyfriend thinks
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and then she gave herself a 10 uh i mean i don't think i'm a 10 i just feel this is a question
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well i don't think it's silly but we can get into that i guess uh i'd say i'd give you somewhere
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between uh four to four point seven five uh gina you you are looking good for your age
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if you give me more money i'll up the score but um gina you gave yourself a 10
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uh it's hard it's like it's easier to rate people say from like the age of like 18 to 35
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once you get like then you have to you do have to do a consideration for the age i guess but
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uh gina for your age i think you're doing pretty good i'd say you're you're a babe for your age
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um but uh i mean if we were if you were like competing against like 25 year old women like
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you're in, you're probably in trouble. Um, I don't know, Gina, I, she gave me the $2. Do I
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give her a plus two? I don't know. Probably not. She gave herself a 10.
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I think for your, yeah, you know, I'll give you a five. How about that? All right. We got you
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yourself um thank you so and you're you're 30 sorry it's just we're close i'm getting
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you're 32 yeah i'll be 33 in september so almost 33 i would say
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you gave yourself a five uh yes i'm gonna say between five and six i'd put you in that range
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did you get it for my age too did you get my age yeah 47 48 yeah 48 what did i give you i don't
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So I'm going to show you a series of a few different women who I consider, look, are they, like, maximally attractive?
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There's maybe women who are more attractive than them.
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uh i'd put them in the eight to nine range so let's start with the first go ahead and pull it
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up okay so this is evangeline lilly now she's making a slight goofy face here she might be
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fucking stoned i don't know but this is a very attractive woman the only surgery i'm aware she
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has if you if you watch lost i believe she has some lip filler that's i believe the extent of
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the surgery lip filler lip flip i give her in the eight to nine range uh next uh so this is a
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victoria's secret model i love her eyes her eyes okay so yes she quite a bit of makeup uh however
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Now look, the makeup could have an influence on it.
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All right, well, sure, but I mean, maybe there's photos of her without makeup.
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but next uh this is uh jessica beal jessica beal has very strong facial aesthetics again and she's
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perhaps it looks like she's in her 30s here i don't know uh i give her in the eight to nine
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range um next another jessica beal photo next this is taylor hill gorgeous i think
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uh okay next jessica alba and then the true 10 the only 10 that does exist next
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and then and then i'll give you my my uh tiffany if you go up to the girl above
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oh and i have one black girl i'm gonna throw in just so i'm not called racist
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Go to the first picture in the one above it, Tiffany, if you know what I'm talking about.
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This is like a, uh, this is a wild card dark horse.
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So I don't know if she's a nine, but I think she's very attractive.
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And then, of course, my favorite black queen next, Stacey Dash.
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No, what do you rate her on a scale of a...
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I wouldn't give her a nine, but she's very attractive.
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Well, there's, like, blonde women who mog her.
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No, like, she's attractive, but there are women who are more attractive than her.
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Do you think hair color can, like, drastically improve or decline your...
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Look, if you want, I'll charge you $300 for an image consultation if you want.
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But yeah, if you wanted to hear, I mean, you're bald right now.
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If your natural color is, if you have dark hair, I do think, look, and it's not that
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I typically think dark hair does look better.
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i had a random woman come up to me recently and literally randomly say you would make a way better
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brunette and i was like oh i agree yeah but i mean i didn't even know her so it was like random but
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so i've been curious ever since then because my natural hair color obviously is not blonde
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i mean in some instances i think some women can be perceived as more attractive as blonde
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but that'll come down to like perhaps face shape and other factors but i think gen as a general
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rule um as a general rule darker hair is typically assessed as more attractive not again not to say
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that blonde women aren't attractive right it's just i look like shit with dark hair like that
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i just can't see myself i bet you look fine with dark hair stop tripping i also think
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really? because when I wear contacts I get more
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anyways good time i ain't gonna lie if i put in contacts over turquoise baby you would want me
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exactly you see what i mean we put those contacts on it bam they're looking left and right don't
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worry about it it was just a stick put on some i'm telling you i put in great contacts and i
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got pregnant again you see that you see it's the i thing it's the i thing there you go um let's get
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into you know what we didn't do we haven't really done much disagreements let's do some
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disagreement stuff we did we had a whole argument wait what's that tiffany yeah ai ai it's boring
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wait there was something else uh you know what i haven't done this in a while um if you guys can
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just give me like super quick answers uh so okay do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years
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time so tell me your age and tell me just say like yes i'll be better looking in 10 years or no
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i'm won't be i'm 21 i think about the same about the same at 31 okay no bitch you'll be better
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looking i'm 42 and no okay but you're 42 were you better looking 10 years ago at 32
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i think you have more time to like figure out what works for you okay uh what about you i'm 21
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and i think yes i would be better looking at 31 if we hit the ozempic i'm not doing ozempic
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that's what i'm not gonna do ozempic redda or is what is that what's the other one
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i gotta hit that it's it's i need to lose weight okay um what about you
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um i think probably that i think probably i'll look better well i'm 20 i'll be 28 in september
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so you'll be better looking at 38 yeah like at 21 i feel like i look better now than i did at 21
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after three kids yes better oh yeah yep oh okay all right next i think i'm gonna be better looking
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uh so you're 49 better looking at 59 yes 69 yeah black don't crack they don't baby i mean
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still be fine at these older ages it's you took me to a better better looking uh compared to now
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no probably not at 100 i'm glad to 70 yeah 70 maybe even 80 you're 49 are you better looking
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now at 49 than you were at say 29 um you know what i think i have a lot more confidence now
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than i did then so so let me finish let me finish brian brian you said when one person's speaking
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don't speak so let me speak the question so um yes actually i do at 29 i never would have
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worn anything like this i never would have worn a bikini i think i look fantastic fabulous
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what about 19 better looking 49 versus 19 i was so cute i was so pretty i'm still so pretty
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Better looking at 18 or better looking at 48, 30 years ago?
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I mean, because I was younger, but I still think I didn't own that.
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so I was more I think confidence affects attractiveness it does for sure and men feel it
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also yeah not really yes really I don't absolutely I don't think it does we don't men do care yes
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you don't care no men do high value men do you know the number of 56 60 something year old
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silver fox man they take such good care of themselves better now than they did then they're
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so in the mirror and into their skincare routines and all that stuff now look as men from a practical
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perspective even if the woman is really beautiful but say she has like severe severe body dysmorphia
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and we're like having to coddle her and like having to constantly reassure and she's like
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super super insecure to the point of like dealt diving into like mental illness or having like
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anorexia bulimia or like eating disorders yeah sure men don't want to deal with that
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Uh, but this idea that like the confidence component, uh, is going to be like the, the
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greater attraction draw to a woman in terms of her looks.
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So I get initially men are wired to be attracted to the most attractive woman.
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But when you date a woman and a woman is timid and insecure and won't eat and is constantly looking at her appearance versus a girl who just thinks she looks amazing, is willing to dance, is really, it's probably amazing in bed.
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And it does affect how a man experiences a woman.
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Here's the cope. Here's the cope is you want to make it out to be like those beautiful women, they are suffering from like severe insecurity. And the women who are perhaps not necessarily at their peak or, you know, at the ultimate level that they could be in terms of their body or face, that these women are like overly confident and the true, genuine beautiful women, no offense.
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uh these women are of course insecure or it could be the case that the woman could be like true
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genuine beauty and have a corresponding the same corresponding level of confidence in that scenario
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um the man is still going to prefer the woman who's beautiful and doesn't have like major body
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image issues no i'm not talking about the the other side where these women are overly confident
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and think that they're in their own delusions you did rate yourself a 10 no i i actually didn't my
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friend did and i'm like fine but i because i so but but i think it's an unfair comparison to say
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well here you know what maybe like from a purely looks perspective body face maybe i'm not like a
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giga stacy i maybe i'm not like 10 out of 10 victoria's secret supermodel but i'm very confident
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and that's going to translate to being comfortable in the bedroom and being sexual and sexy and
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sensual and all this stuff that all might be true. But what you're doing is you're saying,
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well, the, the other women who say that they, you're saying, would you rather be with like
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a woman who's super, super actually beautiful, but she's really insecure versus me? Who's like,
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say not you but like an average woman but she's super confident well that's like a false dichotomy
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there are women who are insanely beautiful who well i don't know what okay there are women who
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are insanely beautiful who don't have body image issues okay but if you're putting all the value
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on how a woman looks i'm putting some okay no but it sounds like you're putting a lot of value
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Because, again, if you're wired to get the hottest woman and have the clout and contribute to your hookup body count, that's one thing.
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I do think it's fair to quickly address that point.
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The idea that it is somehow some deficiency or pathologically, psychologically incorrect for a man to want to, not saying he can necessarily get, but want to get the most beautiful woman he can, as if that is somehow incorrect to do.
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much in the same way that women also want to get the most attractive man they can get,
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of course, considering the other things that both men and women care about.
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There's nothing wrong with the push towards wanting an attractive person.
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I think attraction is a very important part of it.
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No, but Brian, clearly people like you are not really wired for,
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That wouldn't be evidence of it being the only thing I care about
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And like none of them have to do with the looks
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You're totally fine taking money from women
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I think you could be a little bit more generous
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the first thing I'm going to address is my lack of generosity
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maybe a paragraph before you guys need to chime in
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there's fucking uh what what are the mexican chips called tortilla tortilla chips there's
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fucking salsa there's muffins banana bread muffins we have trail mix we have chocolate
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we have um what else we got other snacks you've got an assortment there's pizza in the refrigerator
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and there's apple sauce so this idea i'm not fucking generous that's ridiculous secondly
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um what's the other thing that okay the the women wanting uh or wanting women to pay me money
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i do that as a comedic bit on the show if i'm dating a girl look if a girl genuinely wants
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to simp for me and give me money i wouldn't refuse it but i'm like i it's not like i need
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this i need a woman to no it's like most women don't operate that way it's not like an ask of
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mine that women like send me money if they want to send me money who am i to say no but like this
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idea that i'm not doing that is just a funny thing to like direct towards women on the show
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it's obviously a comedic bit not serious about it uh the other component was me not pursuing women
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because women come to me so first off i'm i'm uh 37 up until i started this podcast in 2022
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uh pretty much starting in 2023 like just started getting essentially inundated by women sliding
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into my dms so for 34 years of my life i was the guy like it was not girls coming to me for 34
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so so and and i'm actually a guy who i i was uh i don't know what the right word is like
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a flirt i don't know if that's the right word but what i'm saying is if i saw a good looking girl
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when i was in college i'd go up to her okay um if i saw her around the town uh you know i would do
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i would like actually approach women which like 95 of men never do never like don't do now they
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used to do it more because that was the only option but then with dating apps now now that's
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reduced but like this idea that i'm somehow like cowardly because i'm sourcing from women who come
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to me. That's completely ridiculous. That's just easy. I was always the one who put myself out
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there and did the brave thing of actually approaching women in person and you've got
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to deal with rejection and blah, blah, blah, all that stuff. So, or, you know, you see a cute girl
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at the party, introduce yourself. So this idea that I've, I've just cowered in my basement waiting
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for women to come to me, completely false. When I was using dating apps, I'd be very, very much
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the pursuer so i have plenty of experience when it comes to like the sort of traditional dynamic
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where it's like i'm you know i'm more so the one who's uh taking initiative or taking charge
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by the way when women come to me i also take charge like it's a women will do very token
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initiative there's a dating app which recently changed called bumble where women had to send
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the first message and you might object to that oh that's no what happened i was on bumble when i
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what happened on bumble is it's this idea that women are going to be the pursuers and make the
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first move well it was like no it wasn't the pursuers it was like dropping a handkerchief
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and bumble the man still so but the idea here well right but the idea with bumble was for it
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to be like women to have a bit less of a passive, uh, a passivity when it comes to dating. But what
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ended up happening on the stating app is women would literally open with high and then immediately
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shuck the conversational burden back onto the man. So look, I've had the experience on the dating,
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I've had the experience on the dating apps. What I would say is, is that you got to not,
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this is not the most optically friendly term, but you should take advantage of the
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perks that you have of, of your, of your positive traits. Why would you want to diminish? Like,
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I don't know if you're like a really beautiful woman, why would you like intentionally make
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yourself all disheveled? Like you should, you should, I'm blanking on the word here.
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You should take advantage of the opportunities that you have.
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So just to be clear, it's not taking advantage of women.
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So in this case, I think, and one of the frustrations I think a lot of guys have when it comes to dating,
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because women, not all women, but a lot of women when you're dating them,
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especially if you meet them on a dating app, they're dating like five other dudes.
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Like, I'm not interested in one night stand.
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I'm not interested in just fucking a girl once, twice, three times.
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And so that's frustrating for a guy like me who's not really trying to play any games,
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who wants a relationship, who wants a girlfriend.
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And I'm like going out with girls who got rosters and they're fucking one guy here, two guys here.
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And so it can be frustrating to deal with women who are entertaining options
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and you are, like, she's on the fence about you.
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I don't want to deal with a fence-sitter woman.
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She's not going to play games with me, hopefully.
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because I'm going to match that sort of energy.
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So I actually think it's a better dynamic.
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Now, most men don't have fucking podcasts.
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They're not, they don't have like cloud on social media or whatever.
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But so this advice is not really helpful to most of my audience, I guess.
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But yeah, if women are willing to come to me, why would I, why, if a beautiful woman
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who matches up with me on my values and it's like, Brian, I love what you say on the podcast.
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But you're like, Brian, I forgot the exact framing, but you were hinting at, Brian, you're lacking in masculinity because you choose among the women who've demonstrated high levels of interest in you.
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Well, that was before you went into how you're dating was before the podcast, and I think you have some valid points, and I think it's a mess for both sides.
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I think men and women are often dating multiple people at once.
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I do agree with you that, first of all, and to just flip it, when I was on the dating apps,
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and I had a lot of success with them because I knew how to handle them, and that's what I actually taught classes on.
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Just like with the Bumble and the high, high, high, high, high, when a guy writes to a girl and actually reads what she writes in her profile,
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doesn't just like her picture, a girl also pays attention to that.
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because they do yes they do and that separates them let me explain it let me explain it so if
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the guy's attractive if the guy is like not meeting her threshold of what she deems attractive
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i don't care how witty your opening messages i don't care if it's like you're literally
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shakespeare 200 iq witty comment to her stupid prompt ferrano she is fucking immediately swiping
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as a woman who can speak to this first of all women have a lot more levels of attraction than
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men yes men it's very black and white for them but with women are harsher okay no women can yes
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they could be and that's not the right match because it's superficial people attracting
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superficial but the people the women who are serious about relationships it's not going to
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be just looks for them they're going to pay attention to what the guy writes they're going
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to pay attention to what the guy wears is he thirsty is he flexing at a gym or is he wearing
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a suit all these things we pay attention to for sure thank you thank you thank you okay but what
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were you trying to get at with uh brian you're telling me you date women who come to you first
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what kind of sick man i get it and you're busy and you can't vet a bazillion people so i'm not
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knocking you for having a system and i'm glad to learn that when you first of all you're 37 and i
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don't know what your longest relationship was but before the podcast you did make efforts you did
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talk to women. And I do think that's a huge problem. Men have become so lazy. They don't
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take risks. They don't come up to women. They do rely on the apps to do all the work. And they do
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want to be pursued by women on the apps, but they have to also bring that energy to the apps. And
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the other thing too, men like beta men, sorry if that term affects you, they like to stay on the
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apps. A real man goes from apps to texting to let's meet within the week. The problem is people
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stay on the apps because it's safer. They build up these ideal perceptions of these men and women
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to do it too. And then when they meet, it's such a disappointment. The point of dating online is
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to go quickly offline, not to go and be stuck. But so look, you have to understand, I guess my
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contention here is you were trying to allude to Brian, even though all these women are DMing you,
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This is somehow a demonstration of your lack of masculine character.
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The reality is that once, and look, I'm not saying I'm anything special.
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I'm getting a level of attention from women that basically average women get from men.
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Like, average women who have fucking 300 followers on Instagram who are nobodies are going to get, like, this level of romantic or sexual pursuit by men.
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So I'm basically, like, the equivalent – I'm basically, like, if I was a chick, in terms of the attention I get from women, I'm basically a three.
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Like, that's the level – like, well, there's a difference, right?
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But so from my perspective, though, why and look, to be clear.
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In the past year, like even when I've gotten DMs, if there's a girl who I'm interested in, I'm not saying I'd never shoot my shot.
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I'll still shoot my shot. I'll still take the initiative.
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It's not like I'm only I'm I'm not only sourcing from the women who in the past three, four years, whatever, have come to me.
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Okay, well, I'm sorry this is hard for you to hear,
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but maybe you don't want to date higher quality women.
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Top-tier men want a woman who's respectable,
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who looks amazing, who doesn't have a high body count, who will be a great devoted partner that
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he can lean on. Okay. But so you're saying that the woman in this scenario, if she's on a dating
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app or whatever, the guy needs to look at something in her bio and like write a little quip. Now I
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think if she's inclined to already be attracted to you, that'll set you apart from the guys who
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just saying hi like yes if you can come up with something clever there's no effort with high if
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you can come up with something clever from our bio yes that is optimal that is optimal but
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i mean so i get so many dms in my in instagram dms and i get like the ones that say hi or what
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are you doing or the same things are so boring right to read because i get so many we could
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pull up my instagram and however let me propose let me but when they do say something that's
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actually more than two sentences and i actually read it i'm like okay maybe i'll accept your
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request and answer back let me propose a scenario though a really attractive guy just opens you with
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hey versus an average looking guy who give who gives you the wittiest fucking banter blah blah
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So you think that's supposed to make a woman's tune just because he's
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it's going to go anywhere. Please be strong and silent.
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It does not mean it's going to go anywhere
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though? Because you have a table full of women who are
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i'm gonna be like oh that's cute yeah yeah yeah get the fuck out my face no i really am just
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because okay it's like yes you have to be attracted i gotta be attracted to you okay but so if he's
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i don't have a problem but if he comes at you funny but if he comes and he makes me laugh
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that's the difference that's what i'm saying i'm gonna lean in and laugh in the context yes if a
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man comes at me funny he can be a two that's important if you come at me funny and you make
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me laugh i'm gonna leave i'm gonna fuck the guy who's a 10 fuck you you don't stand a chance with
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a guy who's a two and it's funny as fuck right i think because i do agree with that 100 all right
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so look this is this is like dating for men basically this is dating for men and i think
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men need to reject this men need to reject i'm going to be do not be a court for you i'm going
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to like do all this shit men we don't want to go ice skating okay we don't want to go ice skating
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fuck that like what if you're not ice skating with a beautiful woman look because he can't
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ice skate and look i don't know that we don't want to do all this well yeah you're dancing
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lazy no it's not about being lazy it's about wanting a woman who has this genuine interest
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in us right yeah but you still have to court her you do have to court should pursue and a woman
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y'all ain't ladies that y'all are not ladies courtship is gone no it's not reject courtship
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no hell no no grace no when has it been yes no chivalry is dead it's not chivalry is dead
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it's not and women stop being cordial they are actively worsening the loneliness epidemic 48
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and i get courted married for 16 years why did you leave your husband my man chivalry
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first of all how many kids how many kids i have three kids i was in a 16 year marriage
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Well, I'm not going to spill my marriage to you.
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But again, when you're in a 5, 10 year, 16 plus year relationship, we can talk.
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I've been in one healthy one now for seven years.
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You've got to answer a couple of my questions here, too.
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But I don't have allegations that it was abusive.
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No, but you brought this up because you said chivalry is dead.
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No, because you were trying to attack me because you were saying, Brian, you're a 37-year-old
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Chivalry, it should not be dead. It is not dead.
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who are doing it well, and they're getting great women.
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We are going to stop the simping for women.
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The pedestalization of women is fucking terrible.
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Look, to be clear, women should be treated respectfully.
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But you guys want an extra layer of privilege on top of that called chivalry,
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this could be like provider protector essentially
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I'm trying to recall exactly where we were at there.
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Well, I guess I was just saying chivalry is dead and women killed it.
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I just wanted to say, a man can be chivalrous and he doesn't have to be a multimillionaire.
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But you were saying an extra level of provider, protectors.
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So you, correct me if I'm wrong, but you prefer, like, a submissive woman that's going to, like, fold your laundry, cook you meals.
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Which would correspond with, like, older times.
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But you don't want to, like, play your role as a man and be chill.
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So, yes, I do prefer a traditional dynamic with a woman.
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i prefer uh i do prefer her to be submissive so if i'm with a woman long term she's never
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gonna have to work everything's gonna be taken care of i'm paying all the bills and i and i'm
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going i i'm very decisive i will i will lead that relationship uh however so there's a difference
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between like what in practice i do in my individual relationships and how i observe
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like the social and cultural landscape so what i see is there are definitely traditional women
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out there there and by the way like i feel like being traditional is it's not like a on off switch
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or it's not like completely black or white like i have premarital sex so it's like well okay brian
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you want to have sex with women before marriage i don't want to get married so that's going to like
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put me further away from like a very very strict definition of like what we mean by traditional
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but in terms of like the roles between myself and a woman i'm going to be paying for everything
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she's never going to have to like this is a girl who i'm with long term right
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and we have kids she's never going to need a job everything's going to be taken care of
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um so there's that um trying to think what the other component here is uh
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so you wouldn't say that's chivalrous well so that's responsibility what i'm saying is
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i think that on an individual level i can have components of chivalry but i think you can be a
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provider in a relationship absent chivalry perhaps like you might frame that as chivalrous or
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whatever i guess what i would say as it relates to this though i think when we're thinking of
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chivalry i'm doing a sort of not just me brian but like a sort of society-wide criticism of
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our and i have criticisms of men are women holding up their traditional uh expectations i would say
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broadly speaking no now there are women who are traditional but are women deserving of chivalry
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broadly speaking given the landscape in the united states abso-fucking-lutely not now you
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might still get it like you could be a stripper a sex worker a prostitute and guys will still pay
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for your date and do those chivalrous things that's not chivalry it's part of chivalry but
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from a bird's eye birds exactly bird's eye view down perspective a bird's eye perspective i look
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at what's going on and it's like women are not traditional but they expect men to be traditional
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that's a raw deal for men the women don't deserve it they might still get it because
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when it comes to when it comes to dating men want to do the most optimal thing so
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the most optimal thing is to like pay this debate over who should pay the most optimum thing even
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if she's a fucking leftist libtard feminist pay for the date because even some of these feminist
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women they're not about the 50 50 confusingly enough so yes the most optimum move is to pay
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for dates does the woman deserve it fuck no well that's why i would say don't take women
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to expensive dinners especially on a first date just take them for coffee i don't even deserve
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coffee oh well if you don't think a woman deserves the woman you're going on with don't deserve
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coffee to be paid for what do you deem undeserving right okay that's chivalry what do you deem pulling
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your chair out that's opening the door we have to separate we have to separate my behavior in
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the context of a relationship with a woman who meets my standards and who i've assessed does
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fall into a category of woman who i think is deserving of that sort of treatment and what i
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see out there in terms of uh let's say how women not all women but a lot of women are moving so
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let me ask you do you think a sex worker deserves chivalry um well if she's a woman if she's not
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coming as a sex worker on a date no so she's um she say she's an only fans girl but this is a
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genuine interest in dating this guy does she deserve chivalry yes everyone there we go you're
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feminist you're not conservative what the hell i'm just decency towards women i don't know what
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decency how is it wait i don't understand i don't a woman's more like act like a man
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so so feminine roles gender roles for men regardless of scenario in all instances
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regardless of you don't think a woman needs to be uh emblematic what i will say and i and i think
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this, and I tell this to women all the time, women sometimes come with a sense of entitlement
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on dates. They don't even say thank you. They have this expectation that men should spend
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a fortune on dinner. And I think that's wrong. And I think that does take advantage of men
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and it leaves a very bad taste. But you have an expectation yourself. Well, of course I
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have standards like everybody else. But so you're entitled then is what you're saying.
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I don't feel, when I was dating, my standards were, if I'm interested enough in a man to give him my time, we can go for a 20-minute coffee date.
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But yes, I think an expectation of meaning for coffee, where the man goes to her neck of the words, is not an unrealistic expectation.
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So you're saying, look, I guess I agree with you in the part about, like, it's okay for women to want men to do these chivalrous acts or to be providers and protectors.
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The entitlements can definitely be an issue where a woman wants to make a big stink about it and, like, preemptively have, like, some attitude or entitlement.
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uh, even a man who's inclined to be a provider, the entitlement component, even if he's a hundred
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percent willing to do the behavior in which the woman wants, if she comes with an attitude and
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is entitled, that's an issue, but that's not what we're really talking about. Your position is
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women. There's no standard for women, women. You can act however you want and you still deserve
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the chivalry. That was your point. That was literally what you said. No, you said, does a
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sex worker deserves chivalry which which would be like the hold on which would be the biggest
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manifestation of lacking of traditional values does it so does a pimp deserve loyalty i don't
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understand does she deserve to be degraded does it no no no no you're you're very tricky you know
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you think you're clever here you smuggle in a lot of things so no no no she's smuggled here's what
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she does so tell me not not receiving chivalry here's what you do like me so you want to it's
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sort of a straw man so you smuggle in oh you you want women to be degraded is there a scenario in
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which a guy could go on a date with a woman and it's 50 50 and she's not degraded i don't know i'm
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not i'm not for him i'm not for a man going 50 50 okay but if let's assume in a situation where
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she but a woman should always offer i don't like women who are entitled but is it degrading to a
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woman to go 50 50 on a dinner i i won't use the word degrading that's their choice i'm just saying
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that's what you're smuggling it you're smuggling in the word degrading never did she or did she
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not use the word degrade or degrading oh no when i said when a woman does not get what she's not
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regarding to chivalry not receiving chivalry isn't an implication of receiving um yes so so a woman
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can date a man and there can be like it can be like a completely egalitarian maybe oh a man and
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woman say you have like true true blue egalitarians she's an egalitarian he's an egalitarian they're
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both polite respectful people the man does not pay on the date that wouldn't be degradation
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that wouldn't be degrading that's degradation and that if that works for them that works for you
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that was the implication of what you were saying i didn't really understand what you were asking me
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i thought you were asking me if a what if a sex worker goes on a date does she not does she deserve
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chivalry and my answer was yes right but that doesn't mean i have a counter question if she's
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not i'm not saying hold on you can be respectful and kind and yeah um that's treat someone well
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yeah absent chivalry chivalry is another layer above that okay so you and i do not have a
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connection on what chivalry is because those things that you just mentioned
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Can a woman be kind and respectful to a man on a date?
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Is she being chivalrous just by virtue of being kind?
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Right, so men can be polite and respectful to women absent chivalry.
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So this would be like a one-directional treatment that women receive and men give.
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So this would be things like opening the car door, pulling her seat back to let her on, observing the sidewalk rule where you walk closer to the road, paying for the date, being like sort of, I don't know if leading necessarily falls under chivalry.
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In your five-year relationship, the first one or two years, were you truly in love?
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If that was yes, he would have answered yes already.
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Because if you were truly, let me just tell you, I've had the blessing of having men truly
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A lot of these things would come naturally.
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I don't have an objection to me doing these specific actions related to chivalry or as you might categorize as chivalry with the woman I'm dating.
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I'm saying as a social commentator, what I see on the dating landscape is I think women move in a certain way that is unbecoming of a lady.
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And ladies or women who are not ladies do not deserve chivalry.
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Now, I'm not saying that if the woman, say, she's a sex worker, does only fans or, you know, she's not traditional, you should you should still be respectful.
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That doesn't mean you get to abuse her because no.
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However, these additional things that are associated with traditional gender roles, women need to uphold their traditional gender roles to, from my perspective, be deserving of the male traditional gender role treatment.
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Your position is women can do whatever they want, and men should still be chivalrous.
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I've never said that, and I feel like your blanket statements actually hurt everybody.
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Are going to be attracting a different kind of male
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Yeah, if I'm presenting to you a scenario where for you to like do an analysis of a social phenomenon of paying for dates,
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do you think some people are more or less or not deserving of certain treatment?
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I'll change it to make it super simple because you're going to be bad faith.
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Should a man pay for the date if he takes a sex worker out on the date?
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if a man chooses to ask a woman whatever her profession is sex worker porn star hooker if he
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approaches her and asks for her time he should pay for the date period that's true he's pursuing
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he's pursuing her well that's because by it's by default de facto women like 99 of the time
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don't initiate because much in the way my position i'm in uh i don't have to right so women don't
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have to so you get to pick among like it's very easy and convenient to be the selector among the
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men who come to you now look in some rare instances women will shoot their shot slide in a dm i get
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that it rarely happens 99 of like which direction the so-called initiative is going 99 of the like
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cumulative initiative is men going in the direction of women so i mean yeah like it's
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very easy for you women to sit back and be like have this criticism here but like if men didn't
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take initiative we would literally like the species would die and we'd all be virgins right
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that's a biological reason men are hunters women are gatherers so what i'm saying from my logical
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roles but again i'm looking at the dating landscape women are not upholding their the
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The social contract, the bargain of, I'm a traditional man.
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You're saying that the man should still be.
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Yeah, and usually traditional men and women find each other because they have a lot of
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You want to extend male traditional gender roles that they should be done towards women
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for green flags everything on this show is all about hold on hold on superficiality sorry you
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continue to like just make these assertions that aren't grounded in any sort of evidence or anything
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i've said tonight or on other shows you're saying i'm i i'm a sorry a magnet for red flags or sorry
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no i said in general i didn't say you i said in general you're a social commentator i said
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a lot of times men and women are are are wired for potential red flags and not green flags you
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I did say Brian specifically was wired for red flags.
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She's just literally saying things and just fucking lying afterwards.
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How am I wired for, what are you talking about?
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I met you and I met a lot of men in the way you're thinking because you already have such a,
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it seems to me, okay, I'm not trying to do therapy on you,
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But you already have such a chip on your shoulder
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Well when you say that men should not court women
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Okay, well, I'm glad you switched to most and not all.
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Can I ask you what woman you think deserves it?
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Yeah, it would be a woman who is traditional herself.
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Traditional women deserve traditional men.
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Traditional men deserve traditional women.
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And so my job is to help people find themselves on these apps and datings because sometimes they step on their own.
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They are their worst enemy with online dating.
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When you are doing your dating profiles for men and women, the first picture should always be looking straight at the camera and smiling.
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But part of that, part of people who subliminally choose certain pictures, there's a whole psychology behind it.
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And if you are choosing pictures where you're with your sunglasses or posing or you're looking away, that's telling the world you're not honest.
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We were having a conversation about chivalry and gender expectations.
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So there's all kinds of things you can do to maximize your success on dating apps.
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I'm asking if, okay, if we can say men should provide, men should pay on first dates, men should protect, men should do X, Y, Z, what are we allowed to say women should?
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They should not have an expectation of an expensive date.
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And they should also look like they're pictures.
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everything you listed also kind of applies to men and also i'm a bit confused so if women should not
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be entitled then should they not be entitled to the man paying for the first date well if it's
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like i said i think coffee is a reasonable expectation i'm not saying a three-course
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meal i'm gonna say i'm gonna say that a man should absolutely pay the first date every single time
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but this is why but this is why because this is the man that i'm going for and this is the type
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of man that i want to lead so this is the type of man that i specifically want to be with and by him
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paying for that first date for me it says a lot i'm also much more inclined to pay for that second
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date and because for me what i'm building what i like what i prefer is a team a team but he has
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to pay for the first date the first date it's totally contrary first date absolutely needs to
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pay for the first date so you're not looking for a teammate team would be 50 50 right eventually
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down like what i'm looking for a partnership is is teammate down the line however sure i'm
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specifically wanting to date these men tiffany champagne who are taking the initiative and
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showing and leading me because these are the type of men that i specifically want to be with so but
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i am much i am okay paying for that second date i am okay being like yo you you can't pay the rent
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this month i got it so i understand that i understand that so to be clear let me clarify
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my position here okay i understand that women who are uh who want men to pay for first aids
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um but say they're not traditional which would be the case for you um i understand that you still
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want it i understand that you probably still get it that's not the that's not really what's being
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discussed here what's being discussed is do you deserve it yes yes now you might still get it you
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probably it's not just might i'm sure you do what does one have to do to deserve right a date being
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well so the deserving would be from my perspective if we're going to hold men to a standard a
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traditional gender role standard we should also hold women to a traditional gender role standard
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And it is the traditional women who deserve that kind of traditional treatment.
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I mean, you can vet somebody before going on the date.
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But women want 2026 modernity gigafeminism for them.
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And you want men to be 1950s trad husbands in terms of their conduct and treatment of you.
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that seems unfair you you want a 1950s-esque man who's going to provide and protect you should be
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a 1950s-esque trad wife trad woman that's a fair proposition i agree if if that's what one is going
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for and that's what one wants that's fine that's not specifically what me personally wants i so i
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agree with you i agree that what you want is the guy to pay for the first date there's no dispute
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there my contention my contention is if you deserve it which i would say well i'm gonna
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suck his dick after that fucking dinner so i don't think you deserve my fucking dinner
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poor brian so you're a prostitute no that was back in the day not anymore
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you used to escort i used to escort from very two two very wealthy men to that i guess but
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two very wealthy men but but we're not there that seems a bit transactional though don't you think
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We shouldn't expect for a man to pay for a date
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I'm always going to attempt at least to pay for my half.
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But I think most women, I mean, you're right.
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We do have like more power when it comes to like choosing men or whatever.
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And we're going to choose men that pay for the first date.
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Like if a man doesn't pay for the first date, that's, you know, you're deducting points mentally.
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Like I'm fine paying my half for a first date, but like I'm going to choose a man that pays for the date.
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In my last relationship, I didn't expect it, but we're going to choose that.
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Tiffany, can you give me a paper towel, please?
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He's absolutely probably done his vetting on that
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can you read this chivalrous behavior is based on a code of conduct for knights it came with
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expectations for women as well women have rejected these those expectations why ought
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we maintain our side of the code so just because that they are knights they have to stop being
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knights just because a woman's changed her behavior about it that's like you saying changing
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my character or lowering who i am and what i believe in just because somebody else isn't
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what was the question you're not you're not a fucking knight anyway
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but women have basically been completely relieved of any and all traditional expectations on them
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it's not whereas we still hold men i cook i clean i still feel like girl like women should be
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Taking care of the kids, taking care of the household
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Brian by the way that champagne just so you know
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and i didn't even drink it but it was very generous of you
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it was very generous of the donator that is true yeah shout out donator shout out um
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can you read this free advice first date do rock paper scissors at the end if she wins you pay if
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she loses split the tab if you want can you all stop thank you go off coin if she loses split the
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to have if you want a second date you make it obvious he lost it's pretty smooth that does
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sound smooth i win rock paper scissors every single time that was a good one that was cute
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i like that look all i'm saying is and look men look i want to make something clear men are
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fucking up too men thank you men are not moving in a good way also a lot of men a lot of them are
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fucking porn addicts they're gooning too much they're masturbating too much like here's my
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perspective on this right you guys might say brian you're always very critical of women i'll
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be critical of men for a little bit uh men should not be following any women on social media that's
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i disagree you should not be a little fucking gooner following instagram
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that's an actual statement i agree with you shouldn't be liking girls
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their stories and leaving comments you can like you can leave comments you can like a picture i
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If you're in a relationship with a girl, you should not be doing that.
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You shouldn't be doing it even if you're single.
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In a relationship, you shouldn't be watching porn.
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I'll give a granting if you can watch the videos she sends you while with her.
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What if it's for your own personal viewing pleasure
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this poor girl here she had a she had a 6'2 black man who's jerking it to who
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and this poor girl this poor girl he's not saving his sexual energy to please his woman
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so you're saying like or comment or follow women but if women didn't do that either you would
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literally have no roster whatsoever what if like you would have no roster like like no women in
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your dms you're saying that men shouldn't be simps on like on i think if they're in a relationship
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i think it's kind of cringe like even if you're not even if you're not in a relationship
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to be um i don't think social media is necessary to be like liking girls like if you're thirsting
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after just some chick who's never gonna even like wouldn't even glance at you in real like rl
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i don't know like it's just stupid like i follow my own instagram account that's it i don't i don't
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follow other dudes i don't follow women maybe i'm weird like that but i i don't think it's good for
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men to be like it's basically soft core porn for a lot of these dudes oh my god she's so hot look
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at her titties i hear you yes you need to there's too much available you gotta have blinders on
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you gotta be looking at your girl and not because of like oh if i do that there'll be 10 like i'll
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be tempted to do anything it's just like i believe in terms of showing respect for your partner
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so you're not saying all recently no i think all men should not be simping on these chicks on
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instagram recently i had a guy tell me he said like follow or like like a picture he's like
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he's like you have no idea how many times i've backed off and i'm like what content do you have
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of me that would make you want to do that and he's like absolutely none your instagram i'm all
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out sorry guys oh can someone donate a thousand so we can get more thank you i think the other
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thing is if a guy's playing too much video games oh my god yes i do not like guys who play a lot
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of games i agree i hate it i used to play video games like i i played a lot i could see that
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Doggy style position in front of you butt naked
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And she's like begging for you to fuck her
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True. That is my fault because I'll stay with that.
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it, though, if I'm working. Like, if I'm working on the
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Brian, come to Dubai. You'll be treated like
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Anyways, I don't know what we were talking about
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But I know we were disagreeing on the fucktons.
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But, yeah, I still haven't heard a really good answer from you as to you say men should do X, Y, Z.
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Well, again, I think they should be in their feminine.
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That would warrant a first date and a man paying for a date
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I think be or do I think it's it's much easier for a man to be in that energy of pursuing and
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masculine if a girl is also in her feminine I think she should look great I think she should
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be happy I think she should be open and curious I don't think she should have a list of checkboxes
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I think when you meet someone it should happen in a way that people are just genuinely curious
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and I think a lot of energy is brought what what should women do I'm looking for something
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emotionally available uh without commitment issues i'm i'm looking for unique like so there's
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gendered things yeah well again a man is a man is a hunter so he should have a great work ethic
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i'm not saying he has to be a multi-millionaire but he should want to be a provider provider okay
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okay what about women women should want to women ideally should be nurturing um they should be um
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they should look, they should care about their appearance. Um, and they should, you know,
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want to make their house a home. They should want to be maternal, uh, want to be, you know,
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want to procreate on, and they should, men and women should share the same values though. And
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it's, and not everyone has traditional values, but I'm talking about what tends to work is true.
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And I think we agree on that, Brian, there is a reason why a man and woman, when they have a
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long-term partnership, gender roles do help with that. Okay. But I guess my primary contention is
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you want to hold men to a traditional standard, but you seem to give much more leeway to women.
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It's like for women, I said they should pay on the first date, right? Cause there's other
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components, but that's part of it. Yeah. And want to, okay. Well, again, I think it's, it's a,
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I think men naturally would want to be in these roles because...
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Okay, do women naturally want to be in these roles?
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Not every woman wants to be a stay-at-home wife and cook because a lot of women...
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There's also an economical point that you brought up.
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There's a lot of two-income households because a lot of people,
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especially living in blue cities, can't afford a lot of things.
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If you want to have to shake it, we can come show off.
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Does he watch the show when he goes to the beach?
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oh gosh yeah i've gotten that a lot too i used to get i'm not even lying in high school yeah
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it's a store-bought pizza it's a frozen pizza or no
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maybe stuff crust we have to make it right because we're working work to the traditional
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that's why maybe we're supposed to go in there and cook
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is that what he's trying to do he does want us to be the traditional
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And we just cleaned up and started making dinner.
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And I want to say Mr. North Lumberland or whatever your name is.
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We're all just having side conversations over here, huh?
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When a woman shuts the hell up and follows
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Okay, about, I wanted to say that women do want to, look, I chose a profession, psychotherapy, where I could also be a mom and somewhat of a traditional wife.
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I understand that there's a lot of women who believe career is more important than family, and then they have regret, you know, when they're 35, 40, that maybe they should have done something differently.
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just categorically does not need to work that's how higher you don't even have to that was my
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situation you don't have to be that high that was your situation and you still chose to work
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i well i didn't choose to work full-time where i couldn't be a mom but when my kids were in
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preschool i wanted to see clients what's wrong with that hold on clarify here so you have three
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kids and so when so okay so when they started school like one is seven one is five one is three
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He would be, would have been fine with me staying at home, but he also supported that
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um but i mean you were so consecutively pregnant so for like the first
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what five years seven years you were not working is that correct yes but then when the youngest was
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three yeah is that when you went back to work it's okay for seven years you were not working
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yeah well yeah okay yeah but then the youngest you put into preschool preschool i was still able to
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pick them up from school back and forth. I was still a very hands-on mom. Was there ever child
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care like at younger ages where you know you drop them off? Not until they were older. No I mean
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they were at least three. So you're dating a doctor. He had the resources to allow you to
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stay at home completely. You wanted to hear other people complain about their lives to you so you
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can make a bit extra money you passed on your kids to essentially minimum wage strangers no
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i don't know where you're getting this no i said no okay daycare is not preschool preschool actually
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helps them thrive it's not daycare okay um it is a difference you have to be a teacher to do
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preschool okay um and also wait hold on i didn't do it for the money i did it for the impact and
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i think there's nothing wrong with women who want to have more than wait what do you mean
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Don't get me started about fucking psychotherapists.
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But I guess my confusion here is my perspective is...
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I'm saying if a woman is presented with a situation where the man can be the sole breadwinner
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and take care of the finances of the house completely.
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Although it would be more common if women were more inclined
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to allowing men to take the positions that they're occupying.
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which should and ought to supersede your superficial...
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The child's needs should supersede the mother's desire to have a career.
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So in this case, I believe the best thing for the kids is that, and look, by the way.
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You're implying something that's not fair.
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You're talking preschool, which is like kind of bullshit.
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Most people want their kids to be in preschool.
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The mother is the first teacher, and I think the mother should be in charge of the children.
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I would like to have my turn to speak uninterrupted, please.
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the best thing for the children the best thing for the children i believe is throughout childhood
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for one parent to be fully taking there shouldn't be child care there shouldn't be daycare there
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shouldn't be uh you call it preschool or whatever it's basically daycare um i think that one parent
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by the way this is i'm saying one parent now you might think whoa brian that's really crazy that's
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kind of like untrout of you there are instances where like really high iq women actually have like
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a higher earning capacity than their male partner there's an argument at least past breastfeeding
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i guess where if the woman just has a higher capacity to earn you could argue that for the
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sake of the family maybe she should be the one that works in that situation now i think look
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from a traditional gender perspective the ideal still would be for the man to be the earner
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but like look for example say i could go back in time and i have like precognition i can see that i
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can see the future and i can not that she would ever fucking go for me i'm just saying as an
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example and i get with ariana grande when she's like i don't know 19 or so how old is she we were
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probably 30 is she i think she's older i can go back in time and like she's she's just getting
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getting her career started or whatever yeah and i can see the future and it's like okay brian you're
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gonna have a podcast she's gonna be ariana grande for the sake of the family it's gonna make sense
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for me to hang back she has the great the much higher earning capacity in this instance in that
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instance there are some arguments to be made for the woman to be the earner now as a general
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principle it is rare but um i don't really have any objections to it i'm not sure if women are
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necessarily going to be happy with that kind of dynamic that doesn't sound very traditional brian
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well hold on hold on so okay that's not necessarily what that's not his thing look hold on he's making
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i'm gonna stay my ass down yeah like i'm gonna cook i'm gonna clean i'm gonna shut the fuck up
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i'm gonna suck his dick and i'm gonna give him good sex i will be as traditional as you want
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a rich woman like really rich woman comes my way and she's like look brian i'm making a billion
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dollars a year i don't even know who this fucking woman would be and she's like i choose you i don't
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know why the fuck a billionaire well you know i'm so charming she's like i brian i i choose you and
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i don't know we're gonna have a bunch of surrogate fucking i don't know how that's fucking gonna go
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so she's not having i'm gonna have to breastfeed this motherfucker i'm gonna have to breastfeed
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these little fucking kids i don't know if you can milk a man but whatever no she will she will pump
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Realistically, realistically, the dynamic I will have is
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She's not going to be just sitting around on the couch.
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But I'm going to be holding things down financially
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so they um typically produce daughters so that's why like a lot of player dudes get daughters
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because they're moving shifty yep yep and then um or guys who have been like a lot of military guys
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end up having a lot of dot it's it's not like you're 100 gonna have daughters but it is like
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the stress response in the man will have an impact on his children so if you have a super stressful
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You can still have sons. Or a stressful wife.
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has an impact. It doesn't. She stresses you
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out. I'm saying your wife stresses you out.
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the mother's the first teacher the mother's the first feeder the mother's essentially god to an
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infant okay so raising you have to feed the man can't feed the baby right and if we're the if
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the woman is the the natural nurturer if the woman is the natural nurturer we're providing
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nurture to the man then we have to provide that same nurture to the children and it takes a
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significant amount of time i was taught that the woman the mother should stay with the children
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at least until the age of five six when they start to enter regular school what about the
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children socializing they can socialize you can have play dates i'm an only child and they say
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that there's like a there's a very crucial developmental period between two and four
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where if you don't socialize with other children your age and get like that you don't have to go
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Well, look, I think ultimately, though, in terms of what's best for the children, is it, okay, we're going to put you in daycare, child care, preschool, however you want to frame it, or especially with like, okay, maybe you didn't do daycare, but a lot of women will throw their kids in daycare, some minimum weight, who knows, like the quality of care that the young children are going to get.
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It's going to be basically a minimum wage worker
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it's very easy for you to say this you have no idea how it is like to raise children today and
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yeah the expression it takes a village is a real thing this is just his opinion so just let him
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have that opinion because he doesn't know any differently so you right you have to understand
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that i think this maps on so i think women who have kids would probably agree with me i have i
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agree i have three and i agree i disagree my kids were in in daycare as soon as they were
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fucking six weeks old, because get them the fuck
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look, I understand you don't want to deal with the kids or whatever,
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the mom's abusive, right? I have a friend who didn't
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know it was illegal to smoke in the car with your
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what? These little motherfuckers are riding with me.
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You compare a responsible mom to a responsible daycare employee, the care will still be better from the mom.
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And that's why you were ready to get rid of them.
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Knocked up, knocked up, knocked up, fucking knocked up.
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And so, because it's juice, sperm, that stuff's really strong.
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I did not enjoy being home all day long with my kids.
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I knew I could not give them the best me, the best mother by being home with three kids that literally were just so much.
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And he worked so much that he was never home to help me with those kids, which is not what I signed up for and which is not what I got married for.
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Well, perhaps those conversations could have been fleshed out, like, you know, when you guys were dating or before having kids.
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Like, hey, what are going to be the expectations?
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And then suddenly he has 5, 10, 15, 20 businesses.
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So all of a sudden it's just like here we are having to deal with life as it comes.
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But going back to you, you said I was shaming women.
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No, I think when you, when you make this statement that I was so hands on with my kids, but yeah, we're going to have a babysitter for date night. We're going to like have help. I don't, I don't, I again, when people have traditionally been at home raising kids, it wasn't just by themselves.
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They had schools of moms, they had their parents, they had aunts and uncles.
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A lot of people don't have that support system.
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And I think, you know, you can't make blanket statements.
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I think just like she was saying, this is what worked for her.
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I was an avid breastfeeder, so I wasn't going anywhere.
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And when the kids were at school, I thought that was the right time for me to do something
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that fulfilled me because i'm a better mom when i'm happier yes and i did that during school hours
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so there was always a stay-at-home parent right so i don't think these statements are fair so if
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it is in fact the case that went throughout the course of preschooling or whatever that it had
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zero impact zero impact in terms of your time and ability to give energy and attention to your
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children, perhaps so be it. However, there's a broader criticism here of sort of the daycare,
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the, the childcare, and this could also encompass even the preschool here where again, look,
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even the preschool stuff, maybe some of that burden can be taken on by, by the, the woman
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in this situation. You also alluded to, well, you know, in the past, you know, the mom might
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be busy. So the grandparents and the, look, I think it's okay to like involve grandparents and
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and uncles and that sort of thing i think that's okay but you were in a situation where your husband
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was a higher earner he was a doctor you had the ability to stay home and you opted away from i did
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stay home well you opted away to some degree from when they were in school go ahead during school
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hours yeah i just don't see what the problem is stay at home girlfriend it gets lonely like being
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at home all by yourself it is so lonely especially when you have so much to do like you can do like
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stay at home girlfriend as in white counters make a meal but like it gets lonely but okay so you're
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saying yeah tell me if this is correct what from from the point of zero to when your youngest was
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is your youngest 18 how no my eldest is 17 how old's your youngest the ages at the time were
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seven five and three okay but has your career your profession prevented you hours still is it though
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you're i mean look if that if that's the case you've managed to have again i told you i told
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you i have the kids 90 of the time so yes i've chosen a career i've chosen i've made choices
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specifically so I can have working hours, working responsibilities while they are in school. So I
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am home. Yeah. Now that they're older, now that they're teenagers, I do maybe go to a conference
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or maybe I go to something in the evenings. They're okay. They're in sports. I make sure
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they go to all their sports. And again, I'm not saying anything that's so crazy. I think so many
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households are in this at all situation well and there's not one trap for everything there's right
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so everybody's yeah but but okay so i understand that there's a financial and economic reality
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that it does take two incomes nowadays typically speaking uh however in her case it wasn't the
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case she had a high earning she had a high earning husband but i guess my question um
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Now, I'm a bit, I guess my curiosity here, and I think I was asking you this earlier.
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Well, no, I'm sort of moving it into, and I want to start getting into some of the other conversation here.
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Well, you said there was no physical abuse, correct?
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It could have gotten there, but no, there was not.
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There was no infidelity, no cheating on his part?
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No, of course, and I was always grateful for that.
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and he's working hard so he can provide for his family.
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But he wasn't very hands-on with the kids as a result of that.
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Did you know he was pregnant before he got pregnant?
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I don't think men necessarily need to be as involved in that way.
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I'm not saying to be like completely hands off,
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but I think a man can kind of just be there, be there.
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I think there can be some actual benefits if the man is a bit more hands off
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I was the one, I was the one getting up all night.
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there were things that i didn't expect him to do like i didn't have to change diapers
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i think i got lucky because my kid's vagina split and you can't change a dirty diaper
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yeah I don't think men should have to change diapers
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what if it's just piss and it's not shit not just that but i mean it's not as bad
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and it's your son you're gonna have to learn you're gonna have to teach him how to piss
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i didn't know very ill my wife girlfriends whatever ill if she's ill and she can't
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do not show him your lady i swear you better not do not look look you know i'm but i'm gonna be
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taking care of everything yeah but hold on i have a question what do you define as care
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what is care it's pregnancy childbirth breastfeeding i don't understand how much
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you do need help you know you need your take care of everything but bond with your children
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when you say take care i can bond without having to change a diaper no you can't yes
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what is your thoughts about bonding with your own child
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and I'm going to call you and ask you how that's really going
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you'll never have to work a day in your life
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Let's not forget about postpartum depression.
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Whoever I end up dating is going to have such a strong mental constitution.
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given you a different perspective and you've been like,
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suffrage? I'm kidding. Women should be able to vote.
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Have you seen that video where he goes around a college
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campus and he's like do you believe in ending women's women's suffrage and all the women are
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like yes they don't even know what they have no idea what it yeah because women's suffrage is the
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right to vote yeah yeah i know what you're talking about they probably mean women's suffering
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they think they're saying suffering i'm gonna do a female i'm a taurus i'm fucking stubborn okay
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me i'm fucking i'm a tourist i'm so i'm a tourist are you really in response to you no nobody's
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come on the show and like change my perspective on anything i am steadfast in my beliefs in what
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i think and no i've not had my mind changed i'm open to it though if somebody prevents a compelling
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argument but so far nope not changing your views is way different than you also understanding
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somebody else's views oh my god you really are a taurus i believe so i believe there's the truth
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i don't believe in my truth yes there's there is your truth i don't believe there's her truth
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no there is the truth there is the truth no i don't think he sees anybody else's perspective
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okay you by the way by the way my ex was a taurus w him um you ended a marriage you divorced him
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because of verbal... You don't know all the reasons, Brian?
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I don't want to make assumptions. You said he was abusive.
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When I finally made the choice to leave my marriage,
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I don't know if my kids are going to watch this
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you know what did you do wrong but he did I'm happy to answer that too I love you yeah okay
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what did you do wrong well I think I think that was not the problem at all he would even say that
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but um I I would say that I understood that I was absolutely operating as a codependent my
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happiness was his happiness I lost myself in him and he and I feel like that was a huge problem
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and um it was a very toxic situation and i also you know i was very isolated i had we had no
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family where we were living uh i had very young kids and yes um despite what you may think brian
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having three young kids by yourself when you're the one up at night you're the one doing it all
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um it it does take a toll when you don't have a partner absolutely you did have a partner no she
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didn't yes she did she was married to a man who wasn't home there was no partnership there's no
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partnership you guys would hate andrew tate's perspective and we probably would andrew tate
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i don't like him he's got like 20 kids and the women don't even live with him
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they have such a sad excuse for a man sad excuse and i kind of love that setup i'm on board i would
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love that i bet you would did you just say you're a whore huh did you say you're a whore no i am no
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Let's say you have seven fucking daughters instead of seven boys.
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And your daughters are married to someone who has the same mindset as you.
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dad daddy because they're daddy's girls uh i really want to have like a career of my own i
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really want to find my own purpose i really want to do life for myself but my husband won't let me
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but dad i'm really i'm really not happy dad you can see it all over my face that i'm not happy
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would never happen brian brian no be illogical for what would never happen
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so okay i'll answer it's the italian in me his daughter would be scared to approach him with that
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out of the garage i'm serious oh hey you're talking to me like that okay
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so listen let me tell you something okay let me fucking tell you tell me about it
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you want to talk about if i had fucking seven daughters and they came to me
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I'm a feminist and I want to have a career.
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I would not raise my daughters to have the feminist mind virus.
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I would not raise my daughters and my girlfriend would be on board with this.
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They're not going to be living in this paradigm of career orientation.
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They're going to be living through the paradigm of family orientation.
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If you have all of your wives and kids living in satellite houses like Andrew Tate, how are you going to raise them at home?
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Your daughters would have a different personality than you and your wife.
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To be fair, you would raise your daughters that way.
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But when they leave that house, they're going to have their own minds, their own lives, their own decisions.
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Look, I agree in the sense that you can do your best as a parent to attempt to raise them in a certain way.
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Hold on, we'll hide it for now, because we'll finish this point, then we'll do it later.
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So, yes, I agree that, you know, you have a son, you have a daughter, they can diverge from you in values, in politics, this happens all the time, right?
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But you can do your best to be there for your children, and try to impart your worldview and your perspective, and I think that I have a, me and my girlfriend, who I have kids with.
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refuse to get married capture to tradition don't worry about it we will have such a force of will
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in our implementation and explanation of our worldview that while it might be true that hey
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you know they could end up one way or the other i think there's a very high probability that my
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sons and or daughters do share in our worldview and in our perspective based on how i want to
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raise quite possible but sure let's hypothesize that for one second well hold on i'm gonna be
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like i'm not gonna do this like free range shit where the kids can they're gonna have some
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autonomy but i'm going to um over their own body that's wild that's not what i said obviously hold
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on i'm the parent i have i have authority over my children yes yes so you don't have authority
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The Bible said I have authority over my children.
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the legal wait wait stop you're not the legal definition of property but if i have a girlfriend
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and we have kids there are both both of ours there are kids right and we have authority
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collectively over our children yes you you have authority right as far as you being able to make
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certain decisions because they're under age or whatever the case may be that's what the end of
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day these children are are are humans that are they're autonomous should be making their own
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choice no they should not hold on hold on so absolutely not it's your job to guide them
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right like for example let's just say that a child wanted to not go to college okay i don't
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know i don't know your stance on college i don't i don't know your stance on good job son okay
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But at the end of the day it's your choice to make
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That's when they come to legal age to run their own lives
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Right. Your guidance, not your control. That's what I'm trying to say. Your guidance. I love that. Thank you for that.
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Well, hold on. So technically, if they're 18, they can like go off and join the circus.
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However, if they're still living in my household, I'm still going to have a level of authority over my children.
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Even past 18. But you're not going to make a compelling argument.
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Right. Like leaving the house. Like if they don't want them to leave the house.
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Under 18, you're not going to make a compelling argument that I will not have authority over my children.
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there's a difference between being controlling there's a difference between being controlling
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and having some authority based on making a good decision for them or making a good suggestion
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here i'll give you an example i'll give you a few examples okay you give me so examples
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now i'm not i'm going to be strict but sometimes people think strict parenting is like harsh or
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mean i'm a very strict there should be it should be like strict gentle in the sense that in the
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sense that like you know there's the strict parents who are like being really rough like
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that's not what i'm going for but what i am going for is like some pretty rigid guidelines in terms
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of certain things for example i'm going to have very strict oversight to the kind of media my
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children are exposed to they're not going to have a smart no youtube no nothing they're not going to
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have a smartphone maybe 16 but it could even be 18 they might we might give them like a one of
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these phones that you can just text so they can text me beyond that no smartphones there's going
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to be strict uh overseeing is that a word oversight oversight over the media they're
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going to consume they're not they're not going to be on certain platforms they're not going to be
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exposed to certain media i'm going to literally one of the things i'm going to do but also whoever
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i'm with we're going to curate because i'm not hey you can watch tv but we're going to curate
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You don't want your kids going out to a party
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Getting drunk, getting fucked up, doing drugs too
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Here are my expectations of having you as a child.
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So that word authority is just a trigger for you.
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Because what you're speaking is what he's speaking.
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Those guidelines that you're imparting on your children, are you exercising your authority?
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He makes this word authority comes across as controlling.
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He said, I'm going to have authority over my children.
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The way he said it in the context that he said it sounded like I wanted to have control
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but yes what would actually be wrong with it like even if i use the word control i should
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definitely control my children yes like i should control i don't agree with that don't you control
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your kids when you give them rules and guidelines wait let's test this out okay okay your your kid
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your i don't know say you have a 10 year old comes to you i do have a 10 year old son daughter
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okay your son's like i'm a i'm a girl okay all right so my job as a parent is to be like
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no you're not who told you that oh i thought you were going to keep going well so so what do you
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do in that situation okay so i'm gonna have a conversation with him that like listen you're
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you're not a girl you are a boy if if for some reason at 18 you decide that you would like to
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revisit that when you are an adult you can revisit that at 18 when you're out of my house okay so
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that's a fair perspective but like in terms of the control here they're like well if they push back
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on it for whatever reason not that i think this would ever be the case but if it was the case
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and they're like no well i want puberty blockers uh no you're not getting puberty blockers i'm
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controlling you in the sense that you're not taking that medication i listen i don't think
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that it should be that you're controlling i think that you're guiding them because the end of the
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day you're a fucking guide for these kids but so if they reject my guidance these are like listen
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I agree with a lot of the points you just said
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And most of this is after your first baby daddy
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between being there enough and providing balance i don't know i feel like i'm lucky because my baby
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daddy provided so much for my kids not like financially kind of but more like being there
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he picks them up drops them off does so much for us and i'm like and it's to the point that
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sometimes they're like does this girl even have a mom and they're like yes i do exist i'm there
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you know but behind the works but yes here's that one okay years and years to leave sounds like that
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shortly after you went back to work you went to work when your youngest was three and left out
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five maybe verbal abuse was when the house wasn't getting taken care of to the level he expected
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for a man working so much i thought that's another interesting so even if you were there
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even if you were there when the kids were uh you know not in the preschool was there a lacking in
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care because you're either tired or not fully able to take care of the household because you
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were working? I was tired when I wasn't working and I had three kids at home. It's a very exhausting
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job to be present with young children. You're always in motion. And because my husband was a
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high earner, I had the blessing of having a regular housekeeper. So no, that was not the issue. Thank
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you. Okay. All right. Uh, let's see. I'm trying to think here. Where's the notes? Uh, we're going
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to you. Okay. We're going to you. All right. Where, where is it? That sounds like a disagreement.
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So in your very first opening message, you wrote the following. Do you have intelligent women on
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your show or just women who lack intelligence to boost your ego my ego their cringes fuck to watch
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but that seems to be what you're going for you further wrote bring on women who can actually
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challenge you and let the conversation breathe uh so i take it that you take some issue with
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the format of the show perhaps certain things i say either i've said tonight or in previous episodes
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The clips I saw, they were just funny and a little bit dingy.
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When you say bring on women who can actually challenge you,
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what are some of the topics in which you wanted to or want to challenge me on?
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i think the issue that i had was that i think sometimes that you bring on women who are young
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who are inexperienced okay okay i feel like you try to have conversations with them or discussions
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with them and intentionally make them look incompetent i disagree um you know whether
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or not you know the answer to 66 plus 34 before you come on this show and you can brian cannot
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make you look any more or less intelligent than you are that's their that's their problem like
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if you don't know the answers to the questions you knew that before you came here he doesn't
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have intelligent women on the show right but like i'm saying you said that like that's him
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making them look dumb and i would disagree i say that they make themselves look dumb but he's
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choosing them to come on the show well they're messaging him to be casted that's what i'm saying
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but i think that he really enjoys that i think that the viewers enjoy it for sure hold on and
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but i get it because as somebody who thrives on on being able to make social media look a certain
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way being able to make myself look a certain way on social media it's also genius of you because
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how else are you going to get the views but i reject the idea that i make them look stupid if
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somebody says something stupid that's them being stupid i think it's i think it's the clip editing
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sometimes too no well he doesn't ever clip anything to like alter what you said yeah let
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me let me give an example so for example um say yes right now yes right now well just say yes
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yes by the way this is just for demonstration but just say yes yes okay have you ever murdered
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somebody are you wanting me to continually say yes well yes no i'll say no okay no okay so what
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would be deceptive would be if i clipped that yes and put it in response to me asking if you
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ever murdered somebody okay that would be deceptive we don't do that so we don't do like
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okay they said this but we're gonna clip in that that doesn't happen that doesn't happen but again
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i would say that if uh i don't make people look stupid they make themselves look stupid i make
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myself i say stupid shit on here all the time you guys were about to murder me when i said
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men should not change diapers that like probably yeah 80 90 percent of women would be like the
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fuck i ain't dealing with this guy see i say retarded shit too right but sometimes do you
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do you specifically choose women that you do you do you vet these women do you look at their stuff
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I mean there's I mean you went through the casting process we asked some questions
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but like I would say if you ask to be on and you're able to make it into the studio okay
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we're not typically turning people down I mean we have women who are higher educated than me
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here on the panel I'm a college dropout you look at all of the also like the the women here while
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While we do have two women who are 21, this panel, the very panel that we're on.
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I actually thought you did that on purpose.
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very much so much older impressive by the way good job but like it's even other panels um look
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sometimes it can skew a bit younger but overall that i think that and i'm working on doing i i
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have somebody who's going through every episode and gathering statistics i think what we're
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arriving at is like the average age of the guests is around i think 26 27 um so that's not exactly
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like young naive age in 2026 it is no no no i mean i think back when i was 25 i was very naive
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well okay i understand that yes when you're 30 perhaps or 35 you have a bit more insight into
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the world than when you're 25 but let's not play this game 42 but i'll take the 35 comment well
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i'm just using it as a filler but when you're um you're not exactly like brain dead at 27
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But it's not me like just bullying fresh out of high school girls.
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Please don't say that because I would never think that you're bullying.
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I mean, you provide champagne for the whole table.
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That was like, you guys got like this much.
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I don't think that you're bullying these people.
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I do think that you can absolutely, positively, 100% use their intelligence or lack thereof for your own benefit.
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Yeah, but you act as if I'm, like, some intelligent type, like, some titan of intelligence.
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No, I think you're very good at wording and circling the wording to where you really love to confuse
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some of these women with your questions don't come on that's where's the evidence for that
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zero evidence preposterous my dear preposterous however i think i'm pretty plain for the most
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part i'm pretty plain in my language i think i communicate fairly clearly i'm not trying to
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I'm not typically dropping very deep philosophical...
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I think the problem is that you want your point to be so correct that it's very hard for anybody to sit here and have a conversation with you because you're so not willing to see any other perspective.
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No, I hear and I listen to the other perspective, but just because someone has a different perspective doesn't mean that they're right or that I need to accept it.
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totally agree so if but if i believe i can sit here with everything that you've said tonight
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and even though i respect you you agree with some i agree with i think we'll get you on board
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eventually i i agree with some but i also understand that like it's just your fucking
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opinion it doesn't mean shit for my life because i live my life differently i say true things for
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the most part but um well hold on this this this idea though i don't know um uh i kind of
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if i have a worldview i have a duty to push back against worldviews that diverge from mine
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and that are contrary to mine so i'm going to be i'm supposed to be an advocate for myself
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in my perspective much as you guys are here to be advocates advocates for your perspective
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even if they diverge from my here to convince anybody of anything i'm here to share my life
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experience how i live life in my own perspective i'm not here to change your mind her mind nobody's
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mind well i'm here to change minds i just feel like he doesn't listen to what we have to say
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i listen he will listen to an extent you got knocked up on the one night stand
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okay you were listening i was listening now look sometimes
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sometimes i do forget certain details you know i think she said she was single or something i think
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Bald trailer Swift has really redeemed herself.
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brian move her to the intelligent i should put her next to me so where's the intelligent side
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of the table wait next to you that's what i want to know because if that's the case we need to
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i think you guys need to thank you from bald taylor swift trailer switch wait take it off
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can you take it off no i did not take it off i bet you look so hot without we've been trying to see
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i'm i've never done only fans but a lot of people do want to see my head let let them see that so i
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thought about doing only fans just for the bald head yeah and you can like that money switch it
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in different colors i've done they will love that they pay me money to shave the sides of my head
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a lot of money to shave the sides of my head really that's what i'm saying like i really think
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that a lot of people would pay money to see me ball and i think that's a fetish guys have fetishes
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and that's like one of them can you just tell us what he did that was abusive
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can you just tell us we're back to this um i it wasn't just a verbal abuse okay there were real
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real life situations that were not changing and i had to think of my children so
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that wasn't very specific i think he wants details i know
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yeah why do you want to know so badly what that is i mean look it's a dating discussion podcast
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i'm curious because look i don't know the details i'm curious to learn the details
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reason. I said that very clearly. Well, were there other
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I do think people, I don't like that kind of talk.
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Ryan, there are people who divorce for reasons that they should not be divorcing.
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There are certain situations where things can be worked through and people are too quick sometimes to end a marriage, especially with children.
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It took a while to, that's a whole other discussion is the broken family court system.
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The family court system is anything but for the family.
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And I can understand why a lot of people are not getting married today because they probably know someone who's been through a really shitty dysfunctional divorce.
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You know, but it really makes me sad when we have record numbers of men and women who are single today.
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Like, I think it's 60% more men and women are single today than 50 years ago.
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And when men and women are not in relationships and they're not getting the benefits of relationships, that does negatively affect society.
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what do you think girl homegirl homegirl what's uh what you think reparations give black people
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money give black people money do you want to do it do you want to do it you want to do it
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because of the reparations because slavery and jim crow and institutional racism i don't
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appreciate your banter right now i'm on your side calm it's okay i'm trying to get i'm trying to
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I want you guys to pay reparations to my black queen over here
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It's so funny that you're trying so hard right now
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and then like i don't believe it but maybe they do i'm on your side i'm trying to get you paid
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but i won't give you my two dollars i'm not gonna give you my two dollar bill i mean not me but
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somebody else could do it all right all right so the question was does anybody believe in reparations
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and i do and the reason i do is because you've given we've given this country not we because
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not me this country has given reparations to so many others but not to the descendants of slaves
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the people who foundationally were ripped from their native home yes can i ask you a question
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you can are you left-handed i am i'm lefty too yes you are we need fucking reparations for being
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left-handed okay we've the fucking when we were kids you know and you're drawing you were writing
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with a pencil you interrupted me and i don't appreciate it i don't appreciate you not being
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on board with the left-handed reparations okay are you are you going to be part of the team
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solidarity you're pissing me off you're pissing me off you're pissing me off for not being on board
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with the left-handed reparations you interrupted my statement to be funny you're my sister sorry
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definitely due to the descendants of slaves
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was that a major human atrocity the biggest hugest human atrocity in the world
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then after the emancipation proclamation 1863 it took two and a half years for everybody to get
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their so-called freedom and then after that there were laws made to still continue to keep
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black people basically enslaved they rewrote laws to continue to criminalize because it wasn't that
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slavery was abolished it was abolished except for as a punishment of a crime so they made
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not having a home a crime they made being free a crime we couldn't even gather together in a park
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to celebrate our newfound freedom because of racist laws so yes reparations for the atrocities
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done to black people are definitely definitely definitely found any slaves no and i know should
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i pay reparations no but your your your family my my dad has never owned you don't have to pay
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reparations this government owns reparations but that's us but that's us it's coming out of our
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taxpayer dollars yeah taxpayer dollars came out of all of the other reparations so black people
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just going to have to look it up. No, you got to tell me who he is.
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You're going to have to tell her who it is.
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was the first black man to own a slave and not only that and it was a black man as a slave right
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okay so he owned a slave the slave that he owned was freed and he went off to live his life
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anthony johnson took it to court to have him as his slave for the rest of his life
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so instead of allowing him to be free a black man re-enslaved him and kept him enslaved i don't know
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who Anthony Johnson is. Wait, so Anthony Johnson's
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Yeah, and he's a black... Fuck Anthony Johnson.
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And when did he come? I don't know who he is. Wait, can I ask you a question?
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and I have, like, a fucking sip of champagne.
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are you my are we we good we good we we homies we straight we straight go ahead
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like heterosexual what you gotta say man i'm gonna get it just wait a second okay um
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okay deep breath go ahead am i like you're like all you women here are my caucasian except you've
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been kind of mean to me so you're but it's with love y'all y'all my caucasians you're my caucasian
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like my my caucasian am i your you know what i mean i'm your caucasian you're my caucasian is he
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your you know you're trying to boy stop no never never no i see what you're saying
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you're black but like you know how black i know what you're saying and no eminem like i know black
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people are like you're my i understand i'm not gonna say it but no i would never you would never
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am i am i your no okay you can be my wife i had a black guy in texas give me a hard r
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whoa okay that's crazy you went a black man in texas he gave he told me i was a hard r
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okay okay so technically okay bear with me i'm technically i'm african-american
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because who's from africa he was born in france hold on my dad hold on my my dad was born in
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north africa my mom was born in america so if my dad's born in africa my mom's born in america
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technically no african-american no no technically he's rich i'm not black no i think i'm not black
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no but you don't look no i'm african-american no hey babe no yes i know what you're saying
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and no no no i'm not black but i'm african-american i hear what you're saying like charlie
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starren no what does african-american mean yeah she's from south africa what does it mean to be
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african-american so no like i'm asking you're asking me yes what it means to be technically
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because technically doesn't one of your parents have to be from let me just tell you this we
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didn't name ourselves african-american oh shit well that's not what i asked though i'm just
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I'm going to answer your question, so let me answer it.
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The question is, you can't talk if I'm answering the question, so let me answer it.
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Like, the question was, does one of your parents have to be from Africa?
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So, again, to answer the question, the term African-American for black people in America literally means a descendant of African slaves here in America.
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But I feel like, I don't know, there was a comment that said that was a slave.
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No, what I'm telling you is that's who was applied to originally.
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We went from nigger, I can say it, I can say it.
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weren't considered human i wasn't trying to go there i was you brought it up so i'm gonna give
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you the lesson no but i'm not black no you're not i'm not i'm not claiming to be black i understand
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i'm african-american yeah for technicality technically i'm not and i'm and we're not
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talking about you that's not about you your dad being born in north africa look can can we bond
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on something maybe one time i was dating a black woman a beautiful black queen and she wanted to
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do race play and as a gentleman and i said and i stood up and i looked at her hands on his and i
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said no we do not do that in this household and i refused on principle
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to do any sort of race play i'm gonna piss myself
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i am an ally i am an ally i stand with you in solidarity but you don't believe in reparations
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did you believe that slavery in this country is an atrocity to people
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I took a black woman on a date and I paid for the date.
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reparations for the atrocities committed against
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I'm sure you would have preferred this played while she was still here.
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That was the fastest walk-off I've ever seen on the show, though.
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Well, they must have been so fast that you just don't even notice.
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That was the scene where you can't tell if Joe Pesci
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is it funny is it not funny but then he attacks the guy
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red shirt got her feelings hurt that's why you never marry
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Hey, Tiffany, can you go upstairs and close the windows?
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Do not bring Tiffany into this demonic toxic.
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He's literally trying to save all of us right now
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who died ending the North Atlantic slave trade.
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before they could watch their children grow up.
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then I'm going to let the pop come through.
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Also, 100%, white people have absolutely been slaves.
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And further to your point, there are currently no living people who are ever slaves.
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in the United States. And there are no white people or of any race who are slaveholders or
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were slaveholders currently. So are we, are we going to do the collective guilt thing of
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your ancestors? Am I guilty for the crimes? Uh, not that I had ancestry that was slave owners,
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but the collective guilt of white people, um, are of our great, great, great grandparents,
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A very small portion of people who are alive today can, like, trace themselves to slave owners.
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Guests don't make up blocking out the peripheral vision.
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do you want to know the last time there was a champagne bottle?
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would you stick like one of those like helmets that was I absolutely would probably sit my ass
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on that for sure I would absolutely sit my ass on that oh my goodness oh my goodness oh boy all
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right I don't live in LA I can reuse my time I'm out here I'll give you fresh I'll give you fresh
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Wait, Michaela, you seemed a bit perturbed when I was having that conversation with our...
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what you got it here thank you i didn't do that much on oh does everyone have yeah everyone
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does everybody have something all right you need some i want to hear um two
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that's not saying first of all that she was not intelligent
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of arrogant ignorance open to conversation and that's my opinion okay um i'm gonna blast through
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everybody's show notes as quick as i can because we are getting i i do want to hopefully get this
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wrapped in a reasonable period not not it was gonna be short yeah isn't that well it's still
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exactly what y'all just talk too much okay uh michaela with your notes you said your relationship
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status is complicated when you were messaging us in the messages you originally sent you said
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it's complicated but then i think you said you're single yeah i'm single but why did you say it was
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complicated maybe this was weeks i said it was sneaky link what's up who you got i think i said
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it was complicated no he's probably right yeah let me think
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perfect timing we literally it's our fire alarm it's our fire alarm i got it you're single yeah
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i'm single as a single okay all right uh mikayla go off on this i'm gonna prompt you and you go
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off uh you think it's very silly that there's so much hate uh towards men yeah i think it's
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ridiculous it's ridiculous yeah i feel like um elaborate elaborate um i just feel like a lot of
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women these days they just hate men and i feel like it's ridiculous because if men were to say
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the same things about women people would be because women don't want to look in the mirror
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and see that they're part of the fucking problem exactly accountability people need to be accountable
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for their actions i feel like women aren't that accountable like not at all men are easy if there's
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one thing i can say men are fucking easy and they're trainable you feed them you fuck them
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you appreciate them you support them and they will make sure that you are so incredibly fucking happy
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if you give them those things i've never had that experience and even though i gave all those things
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absolutely how did you give them those things did you show up where you're able to be somebody who
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like i was a traditional i tried to be a traditional stay at home like how much peace did you bring
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that man um are you chaos no i bought him a 24 000 silverado i bought him his business i like
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literally brought him from the ground up and he did nothing but berate me all day told me i was
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never good enough call me stupid constantly and and physically abuse me but why did you stay for
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so long um because i was really young when you're 18 years old you don't understand the consequences
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of the decisions that you're making yes you understand what decision you're making but the
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long-term consequences of being 18 with a 28 year old man having three kids with him when you're
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18 you just cannot fathom that's really similar to what I went through I got with my previous
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boyfriend um when I was 19 and he was 29 turning 30 wanting a family similar uh supersedes a lot
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of women's um need for respect and need for the things that we actually do need because like I
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said we just want that family dynamic so bad a lot of us come from broken homes I'm an only child
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so I had more than one kid because I didn't want my kids to be only children and my parents were
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separated like I I don't know a life with my parents in the same house so I always wanted to
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have my kids have that and so I only technically stayed until I was done being pregnant you know I
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came from a broken home and I think um me growing up being a mom I kind of I could take accountability
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for breaking my own home because i don't know what i want and i'm the cheater and i like to like be
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out there but that's just me right because i haven't found the right one even though they
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take good care of my daughters my daughters are fine they get whatever they want i'm you'll never
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find the right one as long as you're not the right exactly and that's the problem i'm a single mom by
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choice because that's what i want to be right but i don't have to be because they look where i'm at
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now and they're watching my kids right but like i feel like i need to figure out what i want to do
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for myself because i'm so broken i don't even know what a good family looks like and it's like
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i need someone that's gonna be more dominant than me and tell me hey you're gonna be submissive and
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this is what's gonna happen and someone that's gonna tell me what to do rather than me telling
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them what to do because somehow every time every relationship i get they start listening to me i'm
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like why are you listening to me like do you feel like you need to find out who you are first before
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you get into a relationship i think so yeah i think that a big part of why relationships fail
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is because people don't know who the fuck they are and they get involved in relationships and
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they don't know who the fuck they are and the next thing they know they become that person the other
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person and then i get upset with myself because i have a 17 year old that's going through the same
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thing she doesn't know what she wants so then it's like all these little boys like her and then
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she's all over the place and that's because she learned it for me bad habits right absolutely and
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it's like now i'm here and i'm like i don't know what i'm doing you know right it's like i want
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this guy but then i don't want her and then i want that guy and then i don't want but it's not about
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it's not about guys and what they want it's about you what makes your soul happy what makes your
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heart happy what are your values what do you and then i get so obsessive over one person and then
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and then that person thinks oh that's the guy for me and then i find somebody else and then i get so
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obsessive over that person you know right and that's just me because it's like i don't know
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if it's the adhd yeah you need to do like a whole healing journey of just yourself and you internally
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I think I need to be kind of like Gina and just not have sex for 20 years.
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I was so broken and I was so insecure that I was like,
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I want to hurt this man before he hurts me and I lost the best thing but the one good thing I did
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get was my son and I think that the fact that I never found anybody that amounted to him or was
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as good or reliable because living in LA like nobody was reliable they would say they'd show
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up and they wouldn't he was the only one who did yeah and I ruined it and I think since him I never
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really wanted anybody else I was gonna ask you that because I had a really strong sense of like
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that you had fallen in love and just never loved again because I you know I was broken as a little
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girl like my first love broke my heart which was my dad and there was three girls a boy and it's
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like I never saw a stable home life you know and and like I wanted to hurt the man before he hurt
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me but if I can be an example to other people it's like if you have that love in your life but
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you're just kind of playing around with it you're not sure because of your own insecurities like
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sit back and be like you know this person loves me and I'm not gonna end up like Gina and be alone
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for the rest but I'm okay with objection what if you I'm okay what if you love someone what if you
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love them and it's not reciprocated I'm sorry gotta move on okay we just have to trust in the
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He wants to get to the notes because it can't be in time.
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If you guys want to be here until 4 a.m., I'm going to do that.
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Michaela, you said you've been thinking more about how having sex before marriage can cloud people's judgment.
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what denomination just christian non-denomination yeah non-denomination okay not like catholic or
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orthodox or even protestant just non-denominational christian like do you go to church yeah i go to
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church every sunday same okay so you're waiting until marriage um has that been the your standard
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throughout your life definitely not so you have had premarital sex yes yeah yeah i used to be
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but you said in your notes now you say you're now single you did say that it's complicated
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you're relate when asked the relationship status question in the messages you said it's complicated
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so were you recently involved with a guy somewhat well i've still been you know like dating like on
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the apps trying to find my person um how long you've been celibate two months that's fairly
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recent i feel like now i do take offense to when you said that you don't trust any of our judgment
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because i was under the assumption that you were celibate and living this christian life for a lot
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longer well i've been christian so for well i just feel like earlier you made such a comment
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that seemed a little condescending because you were like i don't trust any of your judgment
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yeah that was about looks i thought that was about like um there was like two conversations
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going on at that time and i thought that was about a completely different we were telling her
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she was beautiful okay oh she said so i misunderstood i thought that was a part of
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a different conversation okay so you've been celibate for two months who was the guy you
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were involved with two months ago um just someone who wanted access and i allowed it when i shouldn't
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have he's crying well how did you meet him a dating app okay and at that time were you christian
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yeah and at that time was your standard waiting until marriage no obviously not well that's what
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you it's possible you wanted that at that time but you sinned essentially okay well this has been
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something that i've honestly been kind of wrestling with since my last relationship
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my last relationship ended a year and a half ago the eight-year-long relationship um
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i came to god in the middle of that relationship um my ex said that he was a christian but like he
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was definitely not living in that way like i wasn't living in that way even when i found god
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um so it was just like a big learning experience as to like what does it mean to be a christian
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what does it mean to actually be pursuing god and to be following christ but so okay you
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were it was complicated with guys so the guy that you hooked up with who you met off a dating app
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was this a one-time thing yeah like a one-night stand basically so you you met up with him
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and like it was the first date or whatever and then you guys hooked up we had been talking for
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like a while sure i understand that you're you're back and forth texting maybe phone calls whatever
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but the first time actually meeting up in person uh you guys didn't hook up is that correct
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yeah okay and then did you guys hook up again like another day or was it one
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now was the last time was it mutual or was it he didn't want to keep seeing you you wanted to keep
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him i just i realized that i can't keep putting my worth in the validation in the attention of men
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Okay. So would you say that this has been a pattern of behavior where you've had, you know, the, the one night stands or the flings or the casual hookups and it was harmful. That's why. But as recently as two months ago, is that correct? Um, you said it was two months ago. You, you've been celibate for two months.
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full decision yeah okay yeah now this does tie back into something we were talking about earlier
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where um it's it can be a bit hard to take a woman seriously who says she's waiting for marriage
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but as recently as two months prior had a not just like you were dating a guy and you guys
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were hooking up you had a one night stand a one-time sexual encounter you know what i mean
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you know i know what you mean but then also before i was actually going to bring this up too
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you're coming at it from kind of like a worldly view yeah well even from what i was going to say
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before is if you're actually like for lack of a better term like equally yoked with a man
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in christ then he should be able to understand where you're coming well you know okay here's
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my objection to this so you're saying well brian from a secular perspective of course like there's
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going to be grounds for you feeling frustrated by a girl who like just gives her pussy away but then
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when it she fucking lands on you oh no three months or whatever yeah however christian men
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should also find some level of frustration by christian women who claim to be wanting to wait
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until marriage but then like in recent history have engaged in like degenerate everyone has to
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start somewhere brian well but i think there's a component like you'll have christian women who
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like oopsie every couple months who do these oopsies every couple months and they claim or
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they say that they're waiting until marriage and i think it can be troubling at least i think these
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christian men can take quarrel with wait so you are open to having casual sex but i'm the good
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christian boy that you're gonna make way but i'm not open to having casual sex it is so
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months ago you fucked a guy after knowing him okay that's her past that was recent history
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hold on oh okay okay so you had sex let me ask where did you meet the guy like you went to a
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bar to to meet up for the date what you go to okay you matched with a guy on a dating app
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yeah where did you did you guys go on a date yeah we went and got coffee okay and then from
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the coffee shop you went back to his house my place back to your place and then how soon how
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long were you at the coffee shop a couple hours we were just chatting a couple hours okay and then
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whose idea was it to go back to your place what's your point can you be nice to her i don't think
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Um, okay. And then how soon, how soon after getting, so you're on the coffee date for a few
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hours. How soon after getting back to your place, did it go down like right away? 30 minutes, one
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hour for a while. What's a while? A few hours, maybe a couple hours. Okay. All right. So as a
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Christian man, not me, but as a Christian man, I think you can take quarrel with this because it's
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like hold on you say you're waiting for marriage two months ago you got cracked in under 12 hours
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by some random dude on tinder and i gotta be the guy who's got to marry you to get the pussy
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she has to start somewhere you literally have to start somewhere but it's like
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i don't see your point no i don't okay but you're different you're 20 there you haven't
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since george bush okay i feel like no i honestly just feel like anybody 20 20 years 20 years i
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that's she had that's dedication sure but like if she just fucked that kiss rock star paul stanley
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because you fucked paul stanley right and then like a month a month later that was scary a month
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later good christian man comes along i'm waiting for marriage i would be like you just fucked a
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rock star and i got away for the pussy now look i understand the christian men they maybe if
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they're like true true christians or whatever they want to wait till marriage too but the christian
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man should look with discernment at the woman who, by the way, you guys got to ignore, ignore
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these. They're below the threshold. We're not engaging with this shit. I appreciate the people
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who submit below the threshold, but they get a display. You guys are going to be distracted.
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Like just ignore. So unless it's like a TTS or read, keep your attention into the conversation.
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So, um, a Christian man is going to look at the woman who like two months ago just had a one night
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stand he should be discerning if he wants to wait till marriage and be like is she on board with
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this really so i think that christian no offense to you a christian man who wants to wait till
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marriage he should pass you over so you don't deserve the christian man waiting until marriage
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if he's been waiting who knows how long i think that god has who he has for me yeah that's right
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The two closest to Brian look like they will be on Fox in a year.
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no but about that you said what do you do when you get horny
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and you're talking to somebody who did that
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either you're if you're dealing with a christian man and it's like you're gonna set a standard for
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the relationship when it comes to sexuality if the standard is waiting until marriage you have
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a very recent history of just going out or well i guess he came over here uh letting a guy crack you
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literally within like less than 12 hours how is a man supposed to look at that and be like
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oh i guess i'll wait till marriage like wait one two years like or look sometimes you can get
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married on a shorter timeline that seems like a bullshit look move however you want i guess i
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think it's also the reasoning why i'm waiting like i feel like everyone is so obsessed with
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sex these days they're upset they over sexualize let me finish they're over sexualizing everything
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objectifying anything that moves anything that walks and i honestly just feel like
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if you take that aspect away from a relationship you can actually build a really good foundation
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that can last and what we're not getting is relationships that are lasting these days
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i wonder why well so i i somewhat agree in that sex can sometimes cloud do i have a genuine
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connection here or am i just being sexually fulfilled or is it just or is it just size
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I feel like at the start of relationships, it's mostly sex.
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I think it's possible to have a great relationship with a woman and sex occurs early on in said relationship.
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So there is some merit to the clouding the judgment or am I with them because I actually enjoy them or are they fulfilling my sexual desires?
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But I do think fulfilling someone's sexual desires is an important component of a relationship.
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and then you can also find you can also encounter a situation which presents itself with your
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situation where it's like okay we're gonna wait and this could either be in wait till marriage or
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wait like long periods of time and look i don't think sex is a particularly complicated procedure
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i think you can both learn what each other likes and you can both improve and improve in the ways
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that will be beneficial to your sexual partner however there is also a degree that i don't think
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can be ignored when it comes to sexual compatibility sometimes in a relationship
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if the sex just ain't working that's going to cause friction in the relationship now it can be
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worked on and you can try to you know figure it out yeah but i mean are you going to be trapped
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in a fucking relationship that especially like look if you're a virgin you're both virgins you
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don't know what else has been out there but imagine you're a girl you probably been cracked
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by some chad who's like laid it fucking down how are you gonna go and then you're gonna be with
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this guy for the rest of your life and the sex is trash divorce within three years fucking guarantee
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it even though christian saying i'm just saying when two people love no disagrees two people love
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each other i'm sorry if you're not this has to be good it has to be good that's the way the lord
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made it okay but sometimes have has anybody here like not had bad sex with somebody i have i have
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bad sex before i have sex with somebody before i was your boyfriend i'm sorry that's mean
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no it was with the guy oh was that like he was like really really obese and like
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it was like literally like an inch or like i couldn't feel it at all and he had to like put
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put his flap on top of me it was so bad did you get paid for that yeah like 1300 for like 30 minutes
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but like oh my god it traumatized the fuck out of me true all right any thoughts ever again any of
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the women on the like waiting until marriage thing but just fucked like two months ago another thing
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i feel like you're coming at it at a like a perspective where christians can't make mistakes
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just because they're a christian that doesn't make any sense very flawed so yeah christian
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being christian doesn't mean to be perfect but it it is an eyebrow raise when a girl says she's
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waiting until marriage like okay i i've had experiences where i remember there was this
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one christian girl slid into my dms like back in 2023 and then she was like saying oh i'm so into
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you brian but i'm waiting i'm waiting until marriage and i was like look hey i'm not i
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have pro-christian sentiment but i'm not christian yet yet yet i'm not a christian yet
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and uh but she was like well oh you know if you could reconsider and i was like listen
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this topic is boring you seem like a good use what's that the topic we've been talking about
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it for like two hours i find it so interesting i'm saying like calm down baldy yeah but her and
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i find it it's it seems like it's going in circles to me all right well please don't interrupt me
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while i'm trying to yeah not this this is great we can have the religious thing i'm just saying
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the being waiting for marriage that we've been talking about that for a long time back to what
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i was saying before i was rudely interrupted it was very rude of me super rude i get fucked uh
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so anyways where was i with that bad boy this christian girl 2023 she dm's me oh brian i'm
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waiting until marriage, but you're so my type, blah, blah, blah. And I was like, look, Hey,
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I respect that you're waiting until marriage, but it's just not the right fit. And then that was it.
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We talked for a day and then off she goes. She reached back out to me. Um, I don't know when
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this was, maybe it was a couple of months ago. I forgot the timeline reaches back out. And, um,
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it wasn't even to like relink. It was, we didn't, we didn't meet in person, but it was just DMS.
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and um she was like talking shit she's like brian ever you know your podcast has changed
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you're so mean blah blah blah blah and i was like all right but then i were i just for research
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purposes i was like hey three years ago you said you and she wasn't a virgin three years ago you
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told me you were waiting for marriage how's that going bad so christian girl tried to i feel like
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us not that i anything happened with her but had i like pursued her and i was doing all the things
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and taking her on dates and waiting for pussy she apparently in like i don't know this was a year
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ago christian girl waiting for marriage told me she's waiting for marriage doesn't want to fuck
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me hey that's fair you don't want to fuck that's fine i'm not interested but hey good luck she
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cracked a dude within like and this is while she had the standard of waiting until marriage
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That she just fucked some guy within 24 hours
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But a lot of these women claiming they're waiting for marriage
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But you're always going to get those people
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do you want to know why you let a guy not after i said i'm waiting until marriage
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you're two months ago that's fucking fresh she wasn't waiting till marriage may i ask something
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when you say you're waiting till marriage because i'm not sure how this all works does that mean
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you're absolutely like you're not giving handjobs you're not getting no okay we don't even kiss
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sexual nothing but he's not once ago what he is like was brian brian that's satanic i'm just
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saying brian okay what you're implying no what you're implying is that i made the promise to god
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that i'm waiting until marriage and then proceeded to have sex with somebody that's what you're
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i understand that i mean i have a hunch that prior to the sexual encounter you were inclined
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towards waiting till marriage but i did hear that this after the one night stand two months ago
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this is new however i still object i i have an objection regardless the objection exists
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regardless let's do this in one year's time you can come back on the show and tell me how the no
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waiting for marriage thing is i'll do exactly that assuming you're not married i'm very confident
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she's fucking horny, pussy's wet, she's gotta get cracked
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we all know through periods of being very horny
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she's right she's glowing you're my body get out of the house i respect you for that because i
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could not i get out of the house no honestly it's about denying your flesh there's never a time
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where you're like dripping down your fucking legs no look at the parents and look how gorgeous i
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mean honestly being a christian is sacrificing yourself yeah one sec cloud strifinal donated
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two hundred and seven dollars sec is important that's why body count matters wait till marriage
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is great but if you had sex it's just messed up brian how would you know the sex is trash when
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you're both virgins of marriage well so if you're both virgins you wouldn't have something to
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compare it to but i think even in this instance for a bit of nuance even if you're both virgins
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was the experience like pleasurable i think even if you're a virgin you could be like you can come
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to some determination not through comparison but through your level of enjoyment if it was a good
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or bad sexual encounter again not through comparison but through you know did you climax
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didn't you enjoy it was it was it like awkward was it you know to your liking so that you can
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still get something even if you're both virgins from it i guess but thank you cloud strife appreciate
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All right, we got Erica, my favorite mom of four kids.
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You disagree with not wanting to be legally married as it's important to you.
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Okay, so my boyfriend actually has the same views as you.
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w does not like well wait it's important to you to be married legally married yes but your
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boyfriend has the same views correct he doesn't well it's not that important to you he doesn't
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find it um beneficial through the government he doesn't think that it's good which i'm trying to
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see more of his viewpoints but i mean i honestly i don't really have like a a good answer for that
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other than that's just how i was raised and my views and i think that that's important to be
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married. That's what I want for me and him. And that's what I believe. So marriage, why does the
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state need to be involved in marriage? So I don't really have an objection to, okay, you go to a
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church if they're willing to even do it without being legally married, but I don't have an
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objection to marriage being a covenant between a man and a wife. Nowhere in the Bible does it say
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that marriage is a covenant between wife husband and the state that's bullshit right complete
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bullshit no religious even no religious justification or reason to be legally married
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marriage does not require some government body the state to allow you to do it or to to verify
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we're legally married and I'm the breadwinner and if you
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bullshit so you'd like buy a ring and everything
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I'd buy her a ring but I don't know if I would
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I think, you know what, this is going to seem super fucking degenerate and gooner.
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I think you should propose while you're standing and she's kneeling and she's performing the sexist.
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And you're standing and you're like, you look down on her.
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have you ever gone down okay so like the last guy i was dating i went oh my god one time and
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that was it like like i put my mouth on and went down he was done he was excited i've had a man
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come where i was just making out with his dick and i hadn't even gone down well like i mean you
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were touching like i'm saying like i touched it for less than five seconds yeah you've had that
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Yeah, but she got fake titties, so that's why I dumped her.
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And start it one more time, Tiffany, from the beginning.
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Tiffany, you didn't pause it, you degenerate.
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What do you think? Would you bow for a man?
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There have been times where my boyfriend has gone home
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uh well yeah i mean that's good too but like i don't think it should be a daily thing i want
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the vow it's not like on our knees already would you bow for your man if you told me to yeah
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would you bow for your man like in the video think about it as a joke fuck yes serious
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serious as i know where you're going with this you're not going to tell me oh that i am not
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I am not submissive because I will not bow to my man.
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Now, would I have the massage table ready for him so I can just massage him and rub on him and rub his feet and suck his dick?
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Just because I don't choose to do the bow, which is what you require, does not make me not submissive.
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And I have moments of submission, but I'm not submissive.
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But when there's role play to Judaism, we don't bow.
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I don't think it would be against like Japanese Jews.
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That's a different kind of bow than what you guys think.
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Now, wait, were there ever kings, there were kings in Judaism, correct?
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No, there were kings in like ancient Jewish history, which I'm not a fucking expert.
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There were kings in the Old Testament, I believe.
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Well, okay, you're just cool for other reasons.
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I mean, if he was like, yeah, if my boyfriend was doing all of the things and we had that,
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uh erica so erica yes the the marriage thing so uh marriage is a scam legal marriage is a scam
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i can see i think you can stay with a woman be a monogamous to her stay with her for life
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have kids with her it's the same thing basically um um i would disagree in a in a in a way i mean
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i i do see the perspective on like why people don't want to get married legally through the
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government can totally understand that and um but i do i would like to get married like in a church
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i do think that that is important i don't want to be there's a term a girlfriend for the rest of
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it's called liberty marriage there's actually a term for that where it's not a legal marriage
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it's just a marriage with either a pastor or a rabbi it's not through the government interesting
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but in the state california california if you're together for seven years you're legal
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i mean i can definitely see that i don't think there's anything wrong with that and i can all
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All right. Now, another point you raised was you would disagree that your lesser value being that you have kids from other relationships.
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I have a take on this, but you did get it a bit wrong.
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So you wrote, you believe though, you wrote, you believe Brian has mentioned something along the
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lines of not being marriage material. Um, so, um, when we're talking you, but you disagree about
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the lesser value thing. So, um, let me start here. So men and women eat, not even factoring
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in the single mom thing, men and women, whether you're a single mom, whatever men and women,
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single parent, no childless, we all have equal inherent moral value. So I'm never going to say
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men are more valuable than women. Women are more valuable. Men and women have equal moral value.
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They have equal inherent value. But when we're using the term value in a dating context, this
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is not about your worth as a human being or your value as a human being. That is undeniable that
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men and women are equal or you know whether you're you're a billionaire or whether you work at
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mcdonald's your inherent moral value is equal but from a dating value perspective it is true
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that generally speaking the appraisal of single mothers is tends to lower the the value to men
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from a dating perspective. So I'm not this to be clear. Single moms can successfully date. Hold
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on. Single moms can successfully date there. They can still find partners. They can still have love.
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I'm not saying that, but comparatively speaking, it is single mothers are generally less desirable
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off of this particular metric as compared to childless women. Oh, sure. Yeah. I actually agree
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with that i mean and there's been plenty of men when i was a single mom i mean my boyfriend now
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is just like a saint he took on me when i had three kids and he didn't have to i mean so that
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to me takes a really special man and yeah so so there will still be like men will still want to
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date you right and um i'm not saying that you should be banished from ever having love or a
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future relationship, but in the eyes of men, especially if they don't have kids, for example,
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and this would, but this isn't, I don't have a double standard here. I also think that,
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for example, childless women would probably have a stronger preference to date men who don't have
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children. So it's not a double standard. It's just, I think that this can, having children
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um can complicate things sometimes in a relationship um a lot i totally agree with
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you because i have two kids and when they meet me they think i'm single with no kids
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and then when i'm like yeah i have two kids they're like oh no we're bouncing you know like
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no i totally respect that i totally understand that you should disclose absolutely i did i
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disclose this later no you should tell them up front just to yeah just to not waste your time
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So while you will sit there and say that a woman with children is not of high value.
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I would say that they're generally speaking, it is less desirable.
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like i understand my value to women because i'm chubby like i need to lose like 30 i need to lose
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40 pounds waiter his belly i'm a little i got belly so look but i'm not i'm not doing the cope
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like i understand and this is a difference i think perhaps i mean maybe some women are realistic
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about this like i'm never going to do the cope like oh beautiful i'm beautiful as i know like
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i'm overweight yeah that is suboptimal women would be more attracted to me it would open the door for
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me for more women um i my value proposition to a woman is less because i'm i'm a bit overweight
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i'm less physically attractive so i because of that trait i am less valuable you are in it okay
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can i make my point um what's that being said you know me and you maybe we both could lose a little
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bit you know trust me i'm doing just fine the only place she has it is right here but let me
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just go ahead and say um go off queen with with a woman let's say for example like you're 37
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yeah you may or may not want kids you meet somebody who is 40 42 right sure do you feel
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that women who are 40 42 for men who are trying to start families and all the things that those
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women lose their value as well because they they they might not be able to have kids or they don't
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want kids or whatever the case may be does it make you did they lose value as well because of their
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age and sure the potential of not being able to have kids yes that's a good question um so i would
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answer it like this. So if the guy has some strong intention to having kids, well, then it's almost
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self-evident that a woman who is incapable of having kids or would struggle to get pregnant
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or to maintain that pregnancy, that's going to be for a man who does want to have kids. He's
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probably going to want to date someone younger, but this drop in value wouldn't necessarily
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strictly be related to age for example if this guy who's 30 35 who wants kids but he encounters
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say a 25 year old woman who either doesn't want kids or say she's like infertile her value also
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drops even though she's younger so it's not strictly about the age okay but yes as you do
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get older as a woman over time your fertility decreases and so yes you'll be if you're a guy
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who wants a family at that point then i guess a woman who is a single mom looks much more appealing
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because she can have the kids or wants the kids or has the kids that you would want and it might
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not be your own kids it might not be your own blood kids but at least you're getting but there's
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also plenty of childless women who do want kids who are fertile so it's not like i don't think
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that's a defeat or two well hold on she has kids that means she's probably open to having more kids
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and she's able to have kids it's like i think the assumption if you had to choose if like you had
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to choose one or the other if you were a guy who especially wants children who especially wants a
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family hey tiffany can you tell them to knock it off back there if you're a guy who especially
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wanted that yeah to choose one or the other you then then you might have to choose what's the two
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choices the the single mom with kids who's same age possibly same age ish okay 35 versus versus
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a woman who's like 40 who does not have kids who does not have kids you know so it kind of well at
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that point i would you rather get shot or stabbed like i say shot shot definitely totally shot i
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think stabbed is probably better no no yes general hold on are we dying from it hold on why are we
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getting shot hold on guys i look i was just curious hold on wait generally speaking depending
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on the location and the type of ammunition and the type of knife and how big the knife
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generally speaking details here generally speaking you want to be stabbed once instead of shot once
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gunshots typically typically deal more damage because there's like kinetic energy where it's
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not just like the immediate area i okay this is perhaps beyond like if you get shot the kinetic
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energy okay i'm not gonna have two family members that were both shot by other family members of
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mine and they are both dead i'm so sorry rather get stabbed it depends where you're stabbed so
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you can be stabbed in the place and shot in the place and you're dead you can be you know in
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extremity there are some scenarios anyways it's off topic but i don't know i guess the point i'm
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trying to make is what is the what does the value of her of a woman who's older lower as well or
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become less because she doesn't have kids or has a hard time having kids and you've answered it
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well yeah but then you answered that right you created a hypothetical where it's like if you
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had to choose between two it's like well if you're if you want kids and like you're and that's your
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priority and you're presenting me with like perhaps two suboptimal options one that just
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does not want cannot but it's self-defeating why if i want kids and she doesn't want kids why would
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i ever pick the woman who doesn't want kids but what if she has kids and then she just doesn't
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want more kids and then that guy wants more kids no but then that doesn't but it doesn't work right
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ultimately though the the reality is um you know when you have kids that is going to be typically
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less optimal for men and but also for women too like i think women probably have a preference
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to not date men who have kids that's true yeah if they don't want kids well it's not about wanting
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or not wanting kids like so okay i would argue that the guy who does want kids would prefer to
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date the woman who doesn't have kids and the guy who doesn't want kids also wants to date the woman
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who doesn't have kids it's different after divorce so you're the value proposition of a childless
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woman is higher for both the man who wants kids and the woman who or excuse it it's it's a higher
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value proposition the childless woman for the man who wants kids and the man who doesn't want kids
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i also think about the age groups as well well like i know i would never date a man who doesn't
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have kids because i have kids so if you want to date a man who understands uh sure life as a
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parent fuck no okay cool i want to date somebody because there's also a certain what it's like
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maturity a lot of guys with no when men have kids yeah yeah my boyfriend had no kids whenever i met
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him yeah i was yeah i was like a single mom of three kids and i was like i told him i was like
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are you sure like yeah you gotta know this is a this is a lot and i was very up front like i'm
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not going to be offended if you do not want to date me but these are my expectations and if you
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can't like we don't agree totally cool but he stuck it out and then we had a child together
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I lost 120 pounds and still the ladies don't want me.
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back down red flag cheetah girls sit oh yeah that was on my ick list okay whatever okay so
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no confidence no girls want me after i lost weight yeah because you're not confident yeah
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i don't think like at least for me it's not it's not a necessary it's not a deal breaker
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if a woman has kids it is for me but um i don't want no kids like i would say optimally speaking
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like of course preferably speaking you would like to start you guys shut the fuck up over there
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god damn bro i've warned i've told you guys so many times like please if somebody's talking don't
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sidebar conversation okay so i'm just trying to get through this um uh let's see here
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uh millie oh we were about to do her notes but okay uh no we already did it okay
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all right okay ta-ta all right ta-ta all right we got jasmine
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uh who's jasmine me uh you said you're single no one wants you no maybe i don't want them
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that's what you wrote i do i know i when's the last time you smashed uh honestly like a week ago
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it's been my situationship for like a year but no one wants you i don't think he wants me you
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found your ex-boyfriend with a guy uh who me yes i did oh my gosh okay so let me tell you how what
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to happen let me tell the t so he's over here like oh can i get a ride and then i'm like okay
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so then i give him a ride and then he falls asleep in my car i don't know because i think he was
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drunk or something so i called the number and i thought it was it was a girl name right so i
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called this number i'm like hey i'm dropping him off to you right a guy answer i'm like okay maybe
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it's the boyfriend or the friend whatever we pull up to this motel and it was a trans girl
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nice yeah it was awkward and she was so mad and she's like don't make me beat her up and he's
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like you're not gonna touch her and i'm like over here like what is going on like i might
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i don't think that's right for like a trans woman to like i was like so confused on what was going
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on but i guess that was like her boyfriend which was my ex-boyfriend ew and i'm still like shocked
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about it all right we got uh we got gina here uh gina says she doesn't date anymore and she's too
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picky she dated paul stanley from kiss and he started hissing like a demon what no it was at
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the sofa till hotel like during sex and he had like a wig on i think oh god i don't want to get
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in trouble for this but i said you don't need to do that because it scares me that's like some of
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the very odd experiences i've had with premarital sex and it was can you show us the hissing no
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like demonstrate it like it's okay like a snake you say you only like a demon i'm like you don't
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need to do that it does not impress me i think he might have it pumped too
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most women find men who have kids is more attractive i don't know about that i don't know
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but childless women i don't think it's their preference to date men who have children i don't
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think it's their preference um i think what you might be alluding to i know it's below the
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threshold but i caught it out of the corner of my eye is that a man who has kids there's a
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demonstration of pre-selection there a woman picked him and so there's this idea in attraction
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called pre-selection where if they're like there's this phenomenon where when a guy gets a boyfriend
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wait what the fuck wow okay keep going when a guy gets a boyfriend when a guy gets a girlfriend
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i misspoke when a guy gets a girlfriend all of a sudden women start trying to date him like now
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they're attracted to him and so there is this idea here they're like oh well if this woman finds him
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attractive then that must mean there's something about him and women are much more social creatures
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than men are so you're gonna look at indicators and signs and if like for example i don't know
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super famous guy all like the the guy that all the girls want to sleep with even if he's not
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that good looking it's like gonna put something in their head like wait why are they why do they
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all like this guy and then like so that pre-selection if all a bunch of other like who's
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that fucking pete skeet what the fuck pete davidson he's gross pete davidson i mean look
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he's got clout he's famous he's probably wealthy or whatever the hottest well i'm okay but he's not
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he's not a great looking dude um but because this guy has just run through some like very
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attractive famous women that put something in the mind of some women like okay what is it about him
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he's got something and because funny well he's funny right he is funny but i think there's a
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component of because he's been with these women that is intriguing to some other sexual market
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value for sure yeah yeah it's status gina you only date to marry was that the case with paul
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stanley from kiss look i'm not saying yeah i was looking for marriage at the time but i was not
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wearing a choker christian what is that a choker yeah my god why are you one of those who think
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chokers are so i was not a practicing christian at the time but once saved always saved chokers
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are indicator of black belts for blowjobs deep inside w boyfriends w boyfriend deep inside i
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always wanted deep inside oh okay and i ended up meeting the most amazing man that was always there
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very reliable when he said he was going to be there he was there and moving to la it was like
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everybody was such a flake so unreliable so and paul was a flake okay so i chose somebody that
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we got daniella he's like enough uh you're a psychotherapist you specialize in modern day
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dating relationship success you like oh no gosh on my website utilizing you know in your notes
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And if you send mixed signals, you're going to get those
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a guy but you think all men cheat that's the vibration you're going to send out and you're
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going to get more of that it's law attraction does not judge so true i think law of attraction
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is pseudoscience snake oil bullshit i think it's just slapping a label that's your opinion i think
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there there so there is a psychological principle sort of i'm trying to um there's a word for it
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fuck um love at first sight no no no it's um self-fulfilling self-fulfilling prophecy
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so like i do think that things like for example if you have a negative disposition in life
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that can't and i don't think it's like law of attraction shit if you have say negative
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disposition in life um this can draw negative negativity towards you uh but not for like
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metaphysical reasons but just i'm i'm finding a difficult i'm finding it difficult to properly
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articulate this but um the idea that okay is the law of traction this there's going to be a parking
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spot when i get to the parking garage and if you think it there will be a parking spot right that's
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bullshit right complete bullshit yeah i mean that's not what i'm talking about i'm not talking
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about making magic happen but a self-fulfilling prophecy in the sense of like if you're a negative
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person perhaps the people what's that term um misery loves company you can attract like you're
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that energy like you're gonna attract that in a way but not metaphysically well but just again
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we are vibrational means i know this sounds woo woo uh it's what's that ridiculous it is ridiculous
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you're happily divorced you're in a healthier committed relationship of seven years you don't
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want to get remarried and live together so you you have separate places with your boyfriend
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um did did you do anything wrong in the marriage we talked about it yeah i was i was a total
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codependent i lost everything yeah so you write after your divorce you had the best dating life
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ever you were living your 20s in your 40s you're going to write a part memoir part self-help book
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called good wife gone wild. Oh my God. I said that. Okay. Okay. Now it's up. So you were living
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your twenties and your forties. So were you like sleeping around? So no, not sleeping around, but
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I was absolutely approved when I was younger. Um, I had only one high school boyfriend and I thought
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that was all the experience I needed and I just wanted to be married. Um, so I was very sexually
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inexperienced except for my monogamous high school boyfriend. Um, I married my husband at,
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I'm, I, we were engaged at 23. So I never dated even throughout. I went to UCSB, by the way,
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go Gauchos all throughout UCSB, not one hookup, nothing. Um, which was very rare for UCSB ladies.
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Um, but when I, when I got divorced, I kind of was a different person. I discovered what it
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meant to be in your feminine and I wasn't living in that. I was very deprived and, um, I was not,
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um, I wasn't sleeping around, but I certainly enjoyed, I did date well. I was cherished. I
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had great experiences. You know, you can have great high quality experiences without sleeping
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with men. It is possible. Yeah. Okay, cool. Uh, let's see here. I'm going to, we're going to
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finish up the notes. We have the questionnaire stuff I want to blast through. So really quick,
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while we blast through some of the questionnaire, uh, I wish I did this before people. Oh wait,
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but we got one person up okay i'll wait until she's back angel
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maya oh that's you uh okay so you for your toxic gone through you went through a hope is
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you said you prostituted yourself we talked about that bad time uh you started doing drugs and
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having intercourse with your dealer i would like to say i i'm i only have seven bodies like it
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sounds like a lot but like it was like a very short span of time that i made like a lot of bad
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decisions. So you, you became friends with one of your co-managers at a restaurant job. You were
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17 when you first started there. He shared an apartment with a guy. You went over to the
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apartment, I guess. They both worked at the same restaurant, like managed the same restaurant and
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the drug dealer also worked there. You said one of these guys groomed you once you turned 18.
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He offered you money in exchange for nudes and sexual favors. You ended up having intercourse
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with him and you made about thirteen hundred dollars over the course of roughly 30 minutes
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okay uh you said you were drunk and high on weed and and acid um which you had done with the
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roommate upstairs other manager did you he's cool as fuck by the way were you interested in him
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uh no there was a time where he had like taken me to florida and afterwards he was like gonna
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moved to texas and like we had a talk and like he did well kiss me one time and i just went home
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and was like yeah i don't see you that way like that you said it was the most traumatizing and
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low point of your life and you needed a lot of therapy because of the prostitution i like severely
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severely regret that to this day it was 1300 wasn't worth it yep no absolutely uh you said
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birth control is dumped onto women and a lot of guys, at least in your experience, will try to
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push that onto the girl they're dating when there's other options like vasectomies, which are
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completely reversible. That's what you say. You feel like men should at least share the burden
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of birth control a bit more evenly with women considering women already go through so much
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with their cycles, pregnancy, child and childbirth. So really quick, vasectomies are not completely
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reversible they can be they can be reversible but typically if you're getting a vasectomy
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you should not be really thinking about reversing it my point is maybe there should be like other
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forms of birth control that are for men because why does like every single girl that i'm friends
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with or that i've known abstaining has has like is either taking or has been on birth control
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that shit now because it fucks you. Have you ever taken
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the birth control? Yes, I've taken the pill. I've had
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brian and remember n1sb hey good luck with your hike dude it's fucking brutal in europe right now
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thank you man um so okay back to the birth control thing uh so yeah vasectomies are can be reversed
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but typically you have to go into it knowing that you might not be able to reverse it so
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but that's like the same thing for like iud's and stuff like those can severely mess up well
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Well, most, so, okay, copper IUDs are, like, pretty much one of the most common forms, aside from the pill.
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While there are sometimes instances of complications arising from it, it's very unlikely to cause, like, permanent infertility.
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so there are complications related to almost any medical procedure but uh the the birth control
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that is available to women um now you might say look it's unfair but it might actually be kind
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of a privileged position i think women are in insofar as to take it women have so many birth
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control options whereas men basically have none beyond condoms and vasectomy and they are
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developing something called which has been in development for fucking 20 years vasal gel which
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is supposed to be they inject something into vas deferens to block the flow of sperm and it can be
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reversible i don't know why they're waiting so long on this it's not hormonal um assuming it
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doesn't cause like severe pain and there's a way to reverse it i'm 100 on board with it i would
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love there to be options for men to have better, like if they don't want to get a woman pregnant,
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I think that would be great. But I think there's this sort of feminist trope about, well, women
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take these hormonal birth control and men are just too pansy to take the male version of the,
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they've been in trials, the male birth control. So there's a couple of things here. First off,
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I'm not going to dispute that female birth control, hormonal birth control can definitely
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have very severe side effects. And many women do not tolerate it. Well, some women tolerate it
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mostly fine or just fine. Uh, and some women take the birth control for reasons, not even related
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to that, like for acne or other reasons, they'll just take birth control for other reasons. Um,
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now there are some negative side effects of birth control. However, there, there is a, uh,
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biological difference between men and women. So the mechanism by which through hormonal means
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we can control women's, uh, you know, you know, use birth control for women. That mechanism is
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obviously very different than the mechanism in men. So in order to, for example, stop sperm
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production, that sperm is produced constantly. Whereas, uh, women, you have, you have the one
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egg released every month. Right. And so it's, it's the, the mechanism to control that and make
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effective birth control for that is easier, which is why it's come along sooner. Um, the birth
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control, there's this trope that, well, when we did the birth control for men, like the level of
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severity that men experienced when they were in this trial for the hormonal male birth control,
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while women do have like uh it can it can cause headaches and cramps and they they can get like
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strokes and like really serious stuff sometimes right i'm not trying to downplay some of the
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risks of female birth control the severity of the men who are taking the hormone hormonal birth
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control was way more severe than the general experience of women on that birth control because
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So it's much harder to like, how do you damper, um, men's constant production of sperm that
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requires a, like a level of biological medical intervention that is, uh, much more severe
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So you agree that there should be like more testing and birth control options for men?
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look so let's just say that there was a birth control that had similar i'm just asking like
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yes or no do you agree agree with what that there should be more testing and birth control options
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for men a hundred percent a hundred percent i'd love to have i think men need more control and
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power over their uh reproductive rights because look there's definitely this this definitely
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happens guy has no intention of getting a woman pregnant woman gets pregnant and you know he just
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thought it was just a bit of fun and me you know there's there's all kinds of scenarios it can be
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a mistake the woman can be deceptive about you know oh i'm on birth control she's not on birth
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control gets pregnant she goes and gets the fucking condom from from the trash can in set
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inseminates herself the men absolutely did not it is possible um so she she gets the condom i mean
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drake apparently has to put hot sauce in his condom so that women because he's rich right so
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that women won't inseminate themselves with his seed look very few women do this i'm not gonna
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this is like minor however the men that like will try to force birth control onto a woman or be like
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i'm not gonna have sex with you or i don't want to be in a relationship with you if you're not
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taking this and i think that's unfair i think pressuring a woman beyond like an initial
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conversation about it. Uh, hello, Tiffany, are we gonna be paying attention here? Uh, so I think
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pressuring a woman who's made it kind of clear, Hey, I don't want to do birth control. I think
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it's okay to like have conversations and be like, you know, if she's like, I'm not sure about it.
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You could be like, well, what about non-hormonal options? I was in like a, you know, my like four
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year, super long relationship. And after like trying multiple options for a few years, I,
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i couldn't do it and i was like hey like i'm quitting this and like that was a problem for
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him yeah and like he has every right to like be like yeah like i don't want to get you pregnant
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like we were in high school like that's understandable but it's just it seems unfair
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that there's like not really any other options besides that like why are well so i'm on board
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with you bear that responsibility alone i'm 100 on board with you i think that it would be great
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If we had more male birth control options there, they've been trying to research it again.
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It is more difficult because the mechanism by which women can get pregnant versus like
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the constant generation of sperm, it's much more like biologically complicated to like
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So to answer your question though, about, look, if the woman doesn't want to do birth
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So I don't think it's wrong though for a guy if his preference is to be in a relationship with a woman who gets on birth control or is on birth control, it's okay to have that preference.
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Now, if you're like really being toxic and coercive and pressuring beyond, like if you're just, you know, push, push, push, that can become problematic.
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but i don't think it would be wrong just if like the girls like say it's beginning of dating and
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the girl's like listen i don't want to go on birth control and the guy's like well i don't feel
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comfortable having sex if you're not on birth control that's respecting both people's consent
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yeah and he doesn't want to have sex she doesn't want to not have sex without you know without
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protect whatever it is so i do think that um i think it's okay for a man to have a boundary
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related to making sure the sex is safe and there's not an unwanted pregnancy i mean i don't know did
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you say you're a pro-life like or pro-choice i forgot choice well for you i i forgot did you
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say like would you if you got i would never personally get an abortion i don't okay so you
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would handle that right so i think it's even more important with somebody who would not get an
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abortion to make sure you're really clear upfront about, Hey, what would happen if you did get
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pregnant? You know, even if on your own birth control, what we, what would you do in that
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instance? So I think in your case, I think it's a good idea that the man be like, look,
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you're not, you know, if he's pro-choice or whatever, you're not going to abort the kid.
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Do we want to have an unwanted pregnancy? You're 21. He's however old you were like in high school
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at the time when this was going on so it's like do you want to be in high school and pregnant but
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in high school i might have had different views also on like abortion but so if the guy doesn't
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want to have a baby then why doesn't he just get snipped yeah exactly 19 year olds should not get
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the sex that's completely ridiculous it can be permanent so it's like that like in the same way
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that there's birth control options for women that don't sterilize them like a woman who's 19 who
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doesn't want to get pregnant at 19 should not get her tubes tied there's other options for her or
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use condom but like i don't think look i think it's okay for a guy if his standard is i don't
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want to be with you unless you're on birth control yeah um i think that that's fair i think that's
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i think it's fair now when he starts pressure abusing you and like he's trying to be coercive
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enforce you after you've told him no that's a problem yeah but if if you're like hey i've been
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having issues with the birth control and he's like i just i don't want to family has told me i'm like
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a completely different person on it like my sisters my parents like changes you completely
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but i don't think like if if the guy wants to walk away from the relationship because there's a
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material change. Like she wants to get off birth. I mean, he can opt to stay in the relationship and,
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you know, weigh the balance. But if say his standard for having sex is I, he doesn't want
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to have sex. If there's not birth control involved, then I don't know. There's gotta be
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determination of is, is it worth it to continue? Um, but so I agree with you. There should be more
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male birth control options that'd be great men need more power in that realm uh but it is
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complicated it is complicated and yeah and as it currently stands yeah that there's like dozens of
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options for women there's like barely any options for for men unfortunately um but do you think men
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would even like in general be like oh like birth control i'm not doing that that's for girls so if
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there's the the vasal gel the non-hormonal option for men i think a lot of men would do it or they
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could just pull out pulling out i want to ask you all something it's pretty good all of you
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something okay we're talking about like how to prevent pregnancy we're talking about condoms
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iud's i'm not yeah we're talking about all of these other methods all right i'm not judging
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I'm not going out having sex with a bunch of guys.
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Look, in a world where people have premarital sex, including you,
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we should be responsible about birth control
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and making responsible decisions when it comes to sex
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Which applies to every person, not just males, not just females.
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Name three countries that don't border each other.
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What, three countries that don't have a border?
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Okay, so three countries that don't border each other.
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you said you need a man to open doors for you we already talked about chivalry so we already talked
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i never touched door handles around him ever we never talked we already talked about like the
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trad chivalry stuff so you had a gun pulled on you story give us the quick bullet point okay so
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i was doing a tattoo at the mall that i was working at and i was with my boyfriend and his friend
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um i'm not gonna name him i almost did uh anyways two guys came up we were eating in the food court
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before I started the tattoo and he said something like slick and like we heard it but couldn't tell
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exactly they went to the bathroom came back out my boyfriend and his friend are like kind of eyeing
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them and then they start walking away one turns around starts screaming from across the food court
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he's like I'm gonna fuck your girlfriend I'm gonna fuck your girlfriend I'm like uh okay you're short
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and you have teeth missing like I'm not gonna fuck you and then Trevin or oops I'm not supposed to
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say that anyway his friend okay whatever his name is trevin um he like went and confronted them
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because i guess he does like fighting or whatever and or like i think it's kickboxing he went and
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confronted them and they pulled like a gun out and like my boyfriend like followed him and like
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they pulled a gun out on us and they're like you're gonna fucking die in here and trevin ended
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up like talking some sense into them he was like hey like you're too young to be throwing your whole
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life away like chill out bro like it's not that deep and i ended up getting it resolved but it
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was a situation for sure what is the what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband
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80k but like 50k if i'm not having kids what about you i mean income doesn't particularly
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matter but i would just be with 40k next more than me which is what
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no hopefully in the future it's a lot more uh a stable profession that keeps growing
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i was with my husband what did you write what did you write here what did you write well
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i wrote 200k but it wasn't always 200k it was 35 000 with residency for many years
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but yeah i want stability next a million a year oh i wish a year i mean that's per year
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do kiss members even make that much did they amelia gina kids what yeah gina has high standards
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i mean that's what i i'm dressing up as you know what even if somebody didn't work and they love
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the lord and i don't care anymore at this point all right next you know honestly like about 90k
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it doesn't really matter but i do want stability so
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yeah i don't really care but like 50 60 uh how tall are you and minimum height of a man you would
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date i'm 5 10 the shortest i've ever been with he was like 5 6 oh my god i think now the shortest
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i'd go is like my height maybe an inch below but i prefer like six foot around there how does your
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boyfriend he's my height what about you i'm five seven but at the very least six feet i mean i
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prefer like six two or more but i would definitely settle for six feet settle for six feet settle
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for six just like gina will settle for a millionaire yeah uh okay what about you a
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million here i'm five eight and i would settle for five eleven settle for five eleven okay
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uh i'm five six and i prefer height um my ex-husband was six two but my current boyfriend
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is five nine oh i'm sorry next i'm five eight but i i'd like five eleven and above i i would
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prefer six two but you can't be that picky i'm like five feet so anybody that's taller than me
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agree with the following statement women do
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um i think a lot of women also still do not get as much benefits as working men especially in
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different careers if like say a man and a woman share the same career it's more likely for the
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man to make more than the woman wait let me have you um scoot your microphone that way a little
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bit this way yeah that's good okay so um men make more money is what you're saying yeah okay so um
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i can't so the wage gap has been debunked there is no wage gap there's no gender wage gap if you
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compare for same geography same level of seniority you compare for hours worked you compare for
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profession at company when you start factoring in all these variables the wage gap essentially
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essentially shrinks to nothing so but even if it there was a wage gap i guess i'm looking for
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like a right so you said is there anything else besides what you just said like a right
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women not having equal rights to men in the usa
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yes they do yeah a little bit but i feel like um is it safe to say men have more privilege
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yeah not necessarily like laws that yeah privilege is different let's stick to rights for a moment
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so what tell me the ways in which women do not have equal rights i guess i was thinking it more
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rights. Okay, so then I answered that wrong then.
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If anything, like what about the privilege part?
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well let's see if we can get anything for the rights anything men and women do not have equal
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rights why is that um okay or you're gonna have to say yes men and women do have yes sure well
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i do not know to be honest because i haven't seen too much of it that's fair you can
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I'm sure the black girl would have loved that comment.
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We shouldn't pay reparations, but I didn't want to say that.
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Abigail, you think it's wrong for a high body count man
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to prefer to date low body count or virgin women?
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Because why are you so upset about a woman having a high body count
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when you have a high body count well it's not necessarily that you're upset by it but when
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you're making determinations as to who you'd want to date both men and women want to date the best
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most attractive most optimal most best match that they can get um a woman could have a high body
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count but the number of men who made her come could be tremendously lower uh i that would i
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don't know if that would from the male perspective i don't know if that that might be true but i'll
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know from the male perspective if that really matters in terms of the assessment of do i want
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to date this woman probably actually if she's if she's a difficult woman to make climax maybe
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that's worse i guess i don't know i like these girls who just come like that that's that's way
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better damn some of these girls 10 seconds i'm telling you 10 seconds and then and she
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10 seconds she's just trying to get it over with trying to get it over
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i know this is gonna shock some of you deprived one and done orgasm girls but trust me there are
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like insanely orgasmic women who can literally come within 30 seconds and just keep coming
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but women who are like highly orgasmic tend not all the time but many of them are squirters
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interestingly enough i squirt but it's pretty hard for me to come i can come like 30 times in
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a row but i don't be squirting you can still be a squirter or whatever but uh it does seem like
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proportion oh okay gina's getting aroused over here all right
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i'm getting tired so i'm like this is what happens after 20 of years or no sex
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on this though i do think that even a guy who has a high body count i think it's okay for him to
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prefer to date a low body count i would never date a man who had a low body count well so
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there's a difference that exists between men and women generally speaking men are more invested in
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the body count thing than women are to be clear they are there are some women and it's i don't
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have a double standard in the sense that if a woman doesn't want to date like a player guy or
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date a guy who has a lot of sexual experience totally fine i just think women generally tend
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to care less about that than men do anyways so there's not a double standard there but i do think
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that totally fine if a guy's got a hundred body count and he wants to date a girl with three
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totally fine not a problem whatsoever because i believe that things are asymmetric asymmetrical
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when it comes to dating men want traits that they don't possess but then there's some men
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that have low body counts that want girls with high body perhaps i don't know it's just a fetish
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to them or something yeah yeah let's do this next next one though i'm just blasting through these
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uh hold on uh i believe it was gina you would not date a man who owned a firearm
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oh hell yeah i would oh okay you miss miss circled absolutely uh we have erica a woman's
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career money status makes her more attractive to men yeah um would i answer for that again
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i agree with the statement right um to an extent yeah i mean i don't think that guys care about
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that as much as females do but i do feel like it they do find that more attractive when a woman
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is put together um and has her shit together and maybe has a job and i do think men find that more
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attractive than someone who is doesn't have a career and doesn't have their shit together
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so i mean if a girl's life is a complete mess and she's got massive debt and she like
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can't even afford certain basic necessities that can be a a negative in in many men's eyes
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but generally speaking like once a woman reaches like some very very base level of just being able
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to take care of necessities like men do not care whatsoever and arguably i would say like
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a man would quicker pick like the woman who does have some financial issues but she's like good
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personality and beautiful over like the 30 year old woman who's like got a killer career she's
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got like a penthouse apartment most men are not like it doesn't make a woman typically more
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attractive if she's got a lot of money or unless she's just going to give it to me i guess which
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it doesn't it doesn't make her more attractive but it can some anyways whatever i'm not gonna
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get into that sure i get it but um especially guy who he makes a lot of money like the more
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money a man makes the less he cares about a woman's money like for example i'm a high earner
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i'll date a girl who works at chick-fil-a don't care i don't care about her career i don't is
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she a good person do you think it's more attractive if a female like so if you had to
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pick between the two right like not even talking about personality or anything like that are you
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more um likely to look at the female who has her shit together and has a good career versus the
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one that's working at chick-fil-a i'm genuinely curious well if the girl at chick-fil-a um
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is attractive is hot on attractiveness okay well this is it depends it depends a lot here so if
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we're going to equalize everything which isn't always going to be the case right i would present
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it i would present it as um like giving them some pro and some con in different things if you were
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to completely equalize it i would argue that a woman who's working at chick-fil-a in that instance
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versus like the career oriented woman as a man who wants my girlfriend to sire seven sons and who
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wants to, who wants to produce my progeny and change the baby diaper and yes. And, and stay
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home. I'll take care of all the bills. The career woman, the career oriented woman, Hey, maybe she
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wants kids right of course you can want a career and want kids that's fine however i think she's
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going to orient herself towards feeling a lack of fulfillment if i retire her right if she doesn't
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have to work she's gonna feel like she's not fulfilled now i think that's a psyop i think
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that's feminism you've had you've been victim to a psychological operation that has raised
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generations upon generations of women to think that fulfillment is not achieved through family
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but achieved through your ability to be a slave to the corporate system i believe and by the way
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i also think that there's a criticism that can be made about even men as slaves to corporations
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thank you i don't think a man's ultimate fulfillment even for men even though there's
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a biological uh imperative for men to be providers and you know go out and work and that's the
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traditional social hierarchy whatever whatever i think even for men family will supersede and
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should supersede career but we've done this thing where we've told women you're somehow uh not full
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you're not complete unless you're chasing a career and you're making money for some other rich fuck
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by working in a cold heartless corporation look and even if you're doing something that you feel
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is you're saving the spotted owl and fucking i don't know in fucking north dakota or some shit
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you've got it you've got some mission or some bullshit i get it that's very good good for you
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i guess and good for the spotted owl but i think the ultimate fulfillment for a woman is her family
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and the ultimate fulfillment for anybody is themselves
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okay it's jesus very selfish no i believe ultimate fulfillment should like women should feel
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this idea of like women feeling bored and unfulfilled if they're just raising the kids
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that should be your primary most people focus not uh i'm not doing a career i'm not doing a job
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i'm not saying it's career right i'm not saying that fulfillment has to be career although i i
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did that but women are are prioritizing career oftentimes even over family so or that's feminism
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Or even if there's like a, there's an equal prioritization between family, kids and career
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I'm referring to like fulfilled, like go do your own thing that makes you happy.
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If yoga makes you happy to do that during the day.
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So there are some, look, there are some jobs that are fulfilling.
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You're helping people that is fulfilling, especially say you're in healthcare.
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You're taking care of people that can be fulfilling in a way that
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your external, outside your family, you know, people can be charitable outside their family.
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But I do think that there's a psychological operation that's been done to convince women
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that you are somehow not complete or not full if you don't concurrently pursue a career
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with the raising of children. Do you think both can't be true at the same time?
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No, but what I don't understand is, look, most women are not going to have some, like, superstar career where they're, like, fucking saving this person and saving this animal and doing all this shit.
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Most women who are in career pursuit are going to work for some, like, cold, heartless corporation.
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They're going to work in the HR department.
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They're going to be, oh, working for some company that makes Snapchat filters.
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You're making good money working for some fucking tech industry.
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You don't get to define what is fulfillment for a woman.
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There's many women who work from home who can make it work by still putting their family first.
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I do agree that the corporate world is not ideal.
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Which is where most women are going to find themselves.
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i think i think most women are going to find themselves in a a completely unfulfilling type
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of job they might think it's fulfilling because they're earning money but i don't think most
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jobs most careers are like you're you're working for fucking i agree with you and you're a project
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manager and you're like okay you're in hr and you're dealing with workplace disputes or whatever
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it is working for a corporation that's bullshit also you're going to be submissive to your boss
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but you're not going to be submissive to your husband i i there's some extent that i agree
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i think it's hours of consuming i think women's waste a lot of their years absolutely doing what
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you said look but you're making blank statements there's plenty of women who do want that balance
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who do value family who do want to be there for their husbands and they are able to make it work
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He's looking for a girlfriend that's going to stay home with Teresa's seven sons.
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And maybe she wants to be a graphic designer and have her own online business.
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I guess to bring it back to the original prompt, a woman's career money status does not make
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I don't think from an evo-psych biological perspective that a woman who's a doctor does not increase her attractiveness simply by virtue of that job in contrast to the way that a male doctor is going to be much more attractive and appealing to a woman as compared to the guy who works at McDonald's.
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I think high IQ and intelligence in a woman is, uh, do I want to say attractive?
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I would say it is my preference to date an intelligent woman, a woman who's has a high
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IQ because that would confer benefits to our children.
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And also I do think it's typically better to date intelligent people because if you're
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like with someone who's like really fucking stupid, that's a liability.
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But so I think intelligence is a valuable trait in women.
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I think high IQ is a valuable trait in women.
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But I think a woman's ambition should not be, I want to be a boss babe and make a fuck
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And my ambition is to build a strong and raise good, virtuous children.
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That's all nice on paper, but it has to be implemented.
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And a really great indication of how well a man will be in a marriage is his relationship with his mom.
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And when women date men, how they talk about their ex-wives, how they talk about their mom is very telling.
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because but that's just it it has to work in real life you have to know that you can be imperfect
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you can fight you can recover exactly this is all theory personalities have to align your fighting
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styles have to align i should date a woman who wants to be with a millionaire and she can raise
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my kids you're doing check boxes i'm talking about i'm not hearing you at all saying i want to be
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able to have like i want us to mesh i want us to have great communication i want us to be able to
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have well yeah i want i want to be something that's just like a given but it's not a given
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i want to be able to find out what her needs are and please many guys and girls don't even have
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basic tools of communication yeah but there aren't guys out there like wow i hope our communication
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is really bad like guys are not there's there's signs of it i hope that like we like have constant
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conflict and like our we don't know how to communicate with each other i think it's just
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a given like of course you want to obviously no one wants to fight with the people they're with
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but i'm saying more than that that's obvious uh-huh there's indications of that you know how
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how a man treats the waitstaff how a man talks about the woman in his life i'm saying there's
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more important things to talk about than just what is ideal in a checkbox but it's the whatever
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i think his question was like you know we're talking about whatever this is too deep
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makes more money if she's more attractive i feel like maybe people are saying like that they like
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a woman who has passions and isn't just sitting around all day doing nothing so maybe that's
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look and i think obviously before a woman meets her person she should have a job and be able to
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take care of herself i'm not saying like just brian no you don't have a job and then she just
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quits her job i don't understand your logic well if we if we're like coming to a determination hey
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this relationship is getting very serious and we're contemplating having children then there's
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a conversation to be had of okay let's have kids you don't have to work anymore if there's
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alignment that's great well yeah well of course i would hope there's alignment but i like that
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seems like a come up for a woman oh he's so financially well off i don't have to work
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Another reason men don't really care about the woman's money is y'all don't share that shit.
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So even if I was inclined to be attracted to a woman who makes a lot of money, for most women, generally speaking, like you still want men to pay on dates.
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So it's like, even if the woman is successful, we don't actually reap any benefits from aligning with like perhaps down the line, like far down the line when we're like, okay, we're going to live together or whatever.
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Men don't reap initial benefits to like dating high earning women because even high earning women don't want to pay for dates, even though they can afford the dates.
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So even if I was inclined to want to date successful, high-earning women, I don't get a benefit.
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I'm not arguing about successful, high-earning women.
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You keep applying to push me into this feminist role, which I'm not.
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come back to me um okay uh hold on let's see we have oh i know i was gonna say um
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if if a stay-at-home mom was to actually get paid for her services child care oh no house care
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there's the feminist yeah there is there that's actual when you say the men doesn't get any
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benefit the benefit is of her doing all the things he doesn't have to outsource when did i make the
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claim that it's not a benefit for the woman to know you were making the statement that a high
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earner doesn't share or a woman doesn't share her her wealth or her money but she does she shares in
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other ways she she gives you peace of mind that when you're at work she's taking care of everything
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that's the way she brings her value and that's and you can put a cost to that that's like a
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non sequitur slash red herring uh yeah so wait i don't even understand the logic here um my
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contention was not that women who are career women can't bring other things to the table
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but i so i don't understand they just don't share the money they don't like share yeah my my my
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thing was strictly related to the prompt the the claim was not career women bring nothing to the
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table the claim was as it relates to her finances and her money and her career most women still
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expect men to be pay for dates women are not as generous as men are when they're high earners
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so i know a lot of women that are high earners and i feel like a lot of them are single because
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a lot of guys want to be the higher earner than the woman and it's like they're intimidated yes
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exactly and i want to feel inferior to yes they're more dominant they want more submissive
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and all that it's not the dominant the submissive it's inferior superior men are not intimidated by
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successful women. It's just oftentimes successful women have a career orientation and a lot of men
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are looking not for a woman who prioritizes career, but a woman who will prioritize him
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and their eventual children. So it's not about intimidated. It's not about any of that. It's
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just, we don't care. And even if you do make a lot of money, you still want the man to pay for
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the date and you don't want to buy gifts. And look, I don't need, I don't need gifts. I don't
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need any of that. Um, but women can at least have some like interest here. And well, there's also
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a difference too. And that, well, I'm not going to go there, but like you guys reap, if you date
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a well-off guy, unless he's stingy, which some are, you're going to reap some benefits. If you're
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dating a wealthy guy, he's going to take you on trips, pay for dates, do this, do that. Now there
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are stingy dudes for sure who are wealthy but like if if you're dating a wealthy woman she's
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not really to the same degree that like a wealthy man will be sharing his resources but i promise
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you she's gonna do it with some resent she's gonna be resentful yeah of course and also the
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difference is uh a guy who's wealthy will look at it like a young attractive woman who's broke
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and date her but a wealthy well-off woman typically wants to date a guy who's making
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at least as much as she is or more well there's biological reasons to that well sure well yes
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yes but when you get to but the idea here is that why is it that men don't find a woman's
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career money status attractive is because women don't share and then we don't have a biological
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basis for being attracted to that in women in the same way that like i don't know um
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like it could be broken down super easily. Like men are typically attracted to feminine women.
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Women are typically attracted to masculine men. So there's asymmetry there. Men want femininity
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in women. Women want masculinity in men. There's asymmetry. So not all things are symmetrical in
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the sense that just because you as a woman find something attractive in men, don't make the
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assumption that men find that particular trait attractive in women that's true now there's some
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things that are mutual like obviously we we both value i was gonna say loyalty but i think women
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are a little more forgiving on that front um that's hold on that's a can of worms i'm not gonna go
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there don't cheat but i'm not gonna go there um there's just certain things that are that are kind
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girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for
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agree with it because if a guy wasn't giving me
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you think it's wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend
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i am just personally i'm not like a very sexual person like i definitely enjoy sex at times but
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i'm not one to crave it all the time i mean i'm not on birth control so it's like really when
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i'm ovulating i'm like fucking going crazy for that shit and then like everything else like
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before my period i'm like fuck no like get away from me like i'm very i don't know in tune with
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like my hormonal cycle so i feel like i you know like to have a man that complements that and so
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like if me being not a very sexual person like bothers him then
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the relationship's just about sex to you like no not necessarily but i mean um let's say the
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frequency initially in the relationship the sex was more frequent and then it started declining
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uh do you think it would be wrong for the man to not want to be with her then um because that look
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I think it's fair early on if you let the person know or you have conversations about expectations related to sex.
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And if it's like you tell them or they have an understanding of, you know, you might say, hey, listen, my sex drive is this much.
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Or are you willing to compromise and do more, you know, whatever.
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i don't know with me and my current relationship like we were very sexually active like at the
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start of our relationship and then it did dwindle down but like if he was like i guess more willing
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to like try new things or like i'm like extremely kinky and like i feel like a lot of the times we
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don't really use as many toys as i'd like wait with your current guy yeah like if he was like
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how often do y'all smash maybe once every week or two how long y'all been dating two years
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was it was the frequency it's not like i'm cool once so like how many times a month like the sex
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is good i'm not saying it's bad like it's definitely so per month is it what like two
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to four times per month you guys have sex well i don't know like when i'm ovulating like it'll
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be like a couple times a day okay it really just depends like it's hard to average it out okay a
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few times a month it sounds like okay yeah um but i don't know if he was like willing to like be like
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okay let's try something new or something i'd be a lot more open to it well that's a conversation
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y'all should have uh let's see past should not matter body count uh mdog you agree
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michelobe you agree abby gail you agree passion not matter anyone else uh gina past should not
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matter uh jasmine passion not matter okay why is that why should pass not matter um it doesn't
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matter to me so it shouldn't matter to the guy i'm with any anyone else over here because i'm
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not asking him for his past we're moving forward yeah so i really don't care what happened after
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me love it okay yes well you know what we'll just do this now uh what is going around the table
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what is your body count oh sorry say it again oh okay 75 okay 75 ish okay um probably like um
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um like 20 some 30 maybe no like low 20 20 to 30 in between there have you for you forgot okay
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into the mic some of them weren't that memorable i don't want to say it is it i'm curious do you
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want to do a range or like an above or below it's not high i just you know i'm a mom is it below
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it's below 10 it's around that around that okay 15 all right well i don't really want to say
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because my son don't worry he's not watching oh he is he's very upset uh what go ahead do you want
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to just throw out a ballpark or a range or maybe 20 but okay there you go under 20 under 20 yeah
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okay all right what about you m dog i'm not gonna say range ballpark less than 10 more than 50
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Go on retreats and you can become a born again virgin
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Wait, say it one more time into the camera here.
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How many times I've sucked, how much dick I've sucked.
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All right, we got Abby, your friend, this friend right here.
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She has a huge attitude and is very much a man.
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a lot of people do call me that black guys i only did you called yourself that on your story
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with a little man yeah oh i think so many so many men have um called me that oh a man eater okay
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yeah i have one final thing for you really quick uh post on your instagram that said
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normalize being an evil whore that's a joke that's like literally so are you evil
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i'm not evil or a whore it's just funny i i like you might be like rage bait and put like hashtag
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men and then they like see it and then my shit blows up it's like it's all rage bait it's like
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the hip dips thing like so um a guy cheated on you who you're dating long term and he was sucking
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another girl's toes and she had the same name as you he had your name tattooed on him yes he called
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you after you broke up with him to complain about his new girlfriend um uh you haven't spoken to
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him since after that you talked to this guy he ended up fucking you while having a girlfriend
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and he got her pregnant yeah and was like in a relationship with her continued fucking you
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during the pregnancy you ended up finding out by him just telling you he ghosted you and later
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reached back out to apologize you once went on a date with a guy best date you've ever been on
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and then after that date you researched him he had kids and a wife you confronted him and he
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ended up asking you to be the unicorn to join the couple wow yes did you um so i've known him for
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probably a year now um i'm actually meeting his wife um in september um they're taking me to a
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bernal mar's concert so i told him i didn't i didn't want to be a part of like with them but
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i told him like i'd be cool like are you like hanging out like a triple no no no he's just
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you uh let's see there you there's like a gas station story you gave your instagram to one of
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the dudes he offered to buy you anything you liked and he ended up paying you to jerk off
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to his face no or he he paid me like in person or over the phone oh and on the like um
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now yeah you wrote chivalry being dead that's one of the things you wanted to talk about
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why don't men want to impress girls no mo you wrote no mo no more no more men who can't open
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doors for women and act like a man should now we kind of talked about this already yeah we already
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kind of talked about that we'll cover it here momentarily you did write act like a man should
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yeah that's interesting is it okay for us to say how women should act yeah i mean if that's
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your opinion i think women should obey i think women should be submissive i think women should
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bow i think women you've already been saying that i think women should have large labia just kidding
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how about this women should not dress revealing women should not have
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tattoos no okay i'm out of that one tattoos revealing
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I thought I heard like a bird flying to the window or something.
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Does anybody want a final in the trail end of the show?
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we do have there there's pizza thank you everybody if that's okay wait we're not done
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you have only fans and you have only fans yeah wait wait popsicle
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i'll take a possibility i hear a lot of arguments about like women who have children who also do
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only fans do your kids get made fun of like i don't really feel like they would hear if your
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kids get me they're not has your daughter like come to you she's like what 17 yeah but has she
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been like yo like people make no if anything everyone's like oh i want to be your stepdad
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or what's up hook me up with your mom and she gets all mad yeah that's what i was telling her
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that's what i was telling her she doesn't get me but it's like light-hearted like it doesn't you
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don't think it it doesn't bother her it doesn't okay because i kind of wanted to like debunk that
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if anything i should bring her to show we could ask her so my 16 year old does have issues with
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kids at school talking shit um and it bothers him sometimes depending on what's said my 13 year
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old daughter she doesn't give a flying fuck she's my biggest fan she'll tell them to go fuck
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themselves my mommy's amazing you don't know my mommy my 10 year old doesn't get that shit yet
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but i'm i'm sure at some point but i raise my kids i raise my kids and tell them like listen
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none of the stuff that people say about mommy bothers mommy so do not let it bother you
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whatsoever like i'm like 10 years too young to even know what's going on and nobody even
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is aware so were y'all open with like telling your kids like was it your decision to be like
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hey this is what i do for a living or like how did that got brought up with my kids i'm very
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honest with my kids like yeah i didn't say anything my oldest just figured it out oh really
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that was it yeah like i have my huge qr code on i've ever seen one of my videos in my car
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okay so any other friends can just scan my qr right and it takes some tending my shit you know
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wow i tell them like listen like just know that if your friends scan my stuff they're gonna see
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stuff about mommy that's like not appropriate you know right um but i am very honest with my kids
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they they know all of it and i just tell them like listen like you're gonna you're gonna hear
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some shit right i'm sorry like you're just gonna hear some shit and like i hate that for you and i
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i you know i've raised you well enough to know that like people's opinions should not fucking
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matter to you right because once you're out of school anyhow these people won't mean shit to you
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you won't even know these people you won't talk to these people anymore um but you know i've also
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had um their friends who will literally have their back and like fight for them if their kids
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if their friends say some shit so it's been um it's been challenging only with my oldest
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and that's your boy right 16 year old it's only been challenging with him why right why i think
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it's been challenging with him because he really honestly like um he's the one that's just like
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most mad at me for leaving his father so i think that because he's the and he's not even mad at me
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but he's just the one that feels the most about it yeah so i think that because he i think he
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feels the most about me you know leaving his father that it's just that kind of like emotion
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and feeling or whatever you have a gorgeous face thank you if i were you i would have long hair
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i appreciate that girl i used to have long hair growing up and i fucking hated it it's not my
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personality whatsoever god with that face i love thank you i mean it's great she is but i would
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just like have my hair yeah no i couldn't i hate it i hate it it's just not me hate what long hair
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oh i said what a face on her thank you she's so pretty thank you i appreciate that very much
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But I think being the oldest, like your oldest, like my kids, it's just hard.
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They, like, rebel, and that age is, like, so weird.
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My kids don't really rebel, so I'm very grateful and very lucky.
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They're fucking, I create a foundation with my kids, so it's very different.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you
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circled that you're going to keep your last name
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you're moving you're wanting to move in a more traditional way you want to wait until marriage
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you're a christian woman you dress modestly you want the man to pay for dates provide protect
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be chivalrous and be willing to die protecting you i'm sorry if a woman if i have to die for a
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woman she can spend a tuesday afternoon changing her shit up she can change her fucking last name
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So my whole entire life, it's been, like, a thing.
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That fucking laptop came out of fucking nowhere.
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I don't care how fucking terrible his last name is
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You're taking that motherfucker's last name
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Or what doesn't he just take her last name
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that's your favorite city oh my god yes you're so right oh my god let's go shopping there
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look i can do all wait wait you guys ready for some jamaica i should have busted oh man
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all right ready ready anyway everything irie mom
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yep and then f11 this f yeah and then bring obs back do you know how to do that uh hit
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tiffany okay that's one way to do it yeah okay she she figured it out well
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look i give t-dog a lot of flack but she figured it out you better give her more props
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Can I just say that you better get her more recognition than we all get it?
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I will give her gloves when she cleans the toilet.
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Do you know what I've realized about you is that you are absolutely going to end up just
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married to some chick from thailand because no chick in america is ever gonna fucking be with
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you and then you're gonna have to get her a green card she will bow to you and she will clean your
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feet i'm not a passport not yet but you will be passport bro you will be i won't be i won't be
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look i i've had some good luck with american women uh you know there is something to be said
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that women overseas can have some better uh attitudes so uh but i might get myself a european
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girl i think i need i think i want maybe i might you know i don't know i can't wait to see how
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this goes i'm gonna go on a tour no i'm kidding um so anyways don't worry i don't think i'm gonna
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be a passport bro i'm doing fine but mikaela you mikaela mikaela she if the dude's last name
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is rumpelstiltskin you're taking that motherfucker's last name mikaela as your daddy
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it i'm adopting you michaela i'm fucking adopting you and whoever i decide if i'm telling you if
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you want to keep that good christian man who's gonna wait for the poon poon until later you gotta
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you gotta take that motherfucker's last name otherwise i'm taking you out my motherfucking
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will you're out you're fucking disowned michaela and my name yeah no so would it be his name first
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What if it's Dingle and then it's Dingleberry?
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If I have to die for a girl, she better take my last name.
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But you're not going to have to die for a girl.
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like you have cameras everywhere you're good i can still get murked son i can get murked but
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what are the chances of like you dying by getting shot versus versus your wife dying i got enemies
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seven children i got enemies the chances of your wife i'm like drake got a lot of enemies
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do you really okay you're not bro i don't think so i get death threats every day really every day
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i get death threats every day is it is it because of the podcast actually well okay you have to
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understand so the podcast is politically uh it's it's um what's the word charged right
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leaning well sometimes it's well no it's it's uh why were they trying to cancel you
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there's a word for it right leaning yes um the podcast is yeah the podcast is politics adjacent
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we've had political people on the show i obviously have a very conservative slant
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Although it's mostly lefties who want to kill people
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dad with a woman one day please don't be like oh you're like baby girl come again
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okay it's not funny anyway okay chill out bro can we press that button please
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No Christian man who's gonna wait for the poon poon
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If you gotta wait until marriage for the pussy
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trust me you gotta take his last name i'll consider you gotta take his last name
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are you happy i'll consider it no not just consider yes she's coming back in a year
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i need you to you need to be like yes sir i changed my mind because of you
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hey what happened to your childhood that you really want that so bad what happened what
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what are you talking about maybe he took his mom's last name i want to know no don't you
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hurt people hurt people brian just because look i'm not into that i know you want to do like a
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mommy role play or whatever i don't i told you i'm submissive i like daddies like oh dd wait
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what's it called don't go there don't go there oh we can't talk about that we can't talk about
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don't go there it's hold on it's not like it what's it called uh ddlg or something yes daddy
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dom little girl dude so we like children i'm whoa whoa i'm not into that i was seeing i was saying
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you're accusing me bro hold on that can be a role play between adults not that i'm into that but
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like you're talking about mommy shit so i'm like what the fuck there's like i just asked if you
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have mommy issues and you're trying to like change the subject well I don't answer the question I
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don't have no what is what is mommy issues I mean you got issues let's be real oh see I swear to
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god I like saw something like I was like watching the podcast like prepare myself and like somebody
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said something about like your mom like treated you bad or something I know you got I know what
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you're talking about you're talking about the crazy Karen who said something who said essentially
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Does he, like, when your mom bows, does he prefer to have her be submissive?
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Hold on. I, I deviate a bit from the dynamic between my parents, but I want to make something
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very clear. Uh, both my parents are still married. They've got a great relationship.
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They're both in love. Um, there's no, I'm not denying that. I'm curious about the dynamic.
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That's amazing. I would say the dynamic between my parents is differs a bit from what I want,
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but I don't think that that is somehow, um, a negative mark either on them or me. They just
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have a different I don't think I didn't say it was negative I'm just curious yeah I would say
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they have more they have a slightly more egalitarian uh relationship and I so I would
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lean much more in terms of my uh roles I lean more traditional as compared to my parents but
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they're still great parents nothing but positive things to say about brothers or sisters uh I'd
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prefer not to disclose that on the podcast just for privacy reasons but um which is so crazy that
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you don't want to get married because your parents are obviously married so it's like not even like
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you have like a bad like taste in your mouth about marriage from your own parents not from my no not
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from my own so it's just it's funny it's just the government he's waiting for the right one well so
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absent yes my my parents do have a good relationship they're still married they've been together for
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x how many years whatever um but the pitfalls of marriage exist absent my parents successful
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marriage and for that reason uh and look if if they were ever to divorce that would
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i don't think they will i mean they're right they've made it this far yeah uh you know together
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30 plus years or however no i mean almost 40 years at this point so ultimately um
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but there would still like if they were to be divorced i suppose there would be like
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you'd get lawyers involved and there'd be conflict and ramifications financially for for both of them
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so um the the pitfalls of marriage exists despite my parents successful marriage right but usually
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that's just the first indicator for you to have your first thought for you to go the direction
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that you have well it can be so if somebody has an apprehension towards marriage it could be an
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indicator that they witnessed bad marriage outcomes in their parents. It's just interesting.
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Not necessarily. It's totally interesting. Well, it's kind of like, you know, what's interesting
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about these principles is that say a kid had a father who's an alcoholic, you can have two.
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One can go one way. One can go the other. You can have two very different outcomes. You can have,
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okay, they're repeating the behavior. The kid becomes an alcoholic or you can have the person,
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well, there's, I guess, three different multiple outcomes. They can either drink in complete
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moderation or they abstain from drinking completely. So like, that's the difficulty
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with psychology. It's like, right. You can't always just, okay. The parents, some people
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might say, well, if the parent's an alcoholic, the kid's going to be an alcoholic. Well,
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my dad was an alcoholic and I've never touched alcohol my whole entire life, but neither of
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my brother or my sister, like they don't drink either. Right. But it can go, but then you'll
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have like, like generational alcohol, alcoholism in families where like they're just all become
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alcoholic so um there's obviously different contributors there can be a genetic component
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there could be like a just a purely uh nurture component to the alcohol addiction i guess but
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uh let's see we're finishing up notes you got to take that guy's last name though that's crazy
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michaela i'm gonna you get me don't what bro what you got to get me in touch with whoever you're
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considering dating because i gotta warn that motherfucker this girl won't take your last
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name but you gotta wait for the poon poon okay so anyways he's gonna take me out of the world guys
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why do so many men finish the sentence oh what that i said in there yep want to be pegged oh
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i know the answer to that for the whole women here show of hands are you encountering a lot of
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be honest do you do race play no have you done it no okay don't bring but so you're telling me
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you only date black guys yes i do and black guys want to be pegged
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yes whoa that's wild i did not know that okay cool any what about you you pegging dudes have
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be pegged dude no never your boyfriend wants to be pegged i mean jokingly i'd be like i have i
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pegged him on the weekly no never i have a question for you so you you said in a relationship you said
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you're kinky but your boyfriend is more vanilla do i have that correct um no he's like willing to
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do like whatever i want to do but i feel like i am the like instigator of kinky he's open-minded
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yes but you're the brains because he is very like sadistic very dominant like very so you're what
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sub yeah okay um that's why she would bow so he he enjoys uh like degradation or giving you pain
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giving me what pain oh yeah well you're a masochist right um yeah okay i'm a sadist
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you're the sadist okay okay um so but what what's the degree here like so you like to be slapped
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um yeah but i wouldn't say that's like that but that's kind of now anyways um i've like
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like can i like share like like one of the kinkiest things sure is that like i've like
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drinking piss out of a dog bowl while in a cage no that's hot and got nutted on like through the
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that is fucking amazing like yeah like we'd be doing like crazy ass shit like what's another
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give us i'm trying to think like what else i don't know like like we have this like thing that
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he'll like chain me down on like i don't know he doesn't really understand like the rope but it's
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like yeah like collar handcuffs like leg cuffs if that makes sense like okay so what about
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humiliation um humiliation is like tricky for me because i well you got pissed on in a dog cage
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i got my girl m dog over here we talked about the disagreements we talked about that for a bit
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uh you dated an alcoholic who did what oh he would piss himself and then piss all over the
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floor like 4 a.m because he was such a fucking alcoholic but what did he do though that's a
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turn-on what do you mean what did he do he broke what oh broke my fucking heart while pissing on
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the floor pissed himself actually yeah i guess it was also simultaneous at the same time as well
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tell us about the tattoo oh god because uh you know when you suck dick so good and you have
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phenomenal pussy men are willing to get your names tattooed anywhere so he got my name
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michelina tattooed on his dick oh wow i love that for you dick tattoos don't play bro yeah
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it's one word i think does it start with an i i think it starts with an impact is it the impact
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it's not impact font fuck i don't think it's gonna come to me that's what she said yeah
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okay chat what is it what's the avatar font this is gonna piss me off chat what is it
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i would it's there it's there just look it up what is it chat chat hello
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gotta refresh the chat that help papyrus i would have never got that yeah you say i
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papyrus i did i did um all right let's see uh so okay a man tattooed your entire name on his dick
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now that's not the first man who did that though no that's like the there's like four men who have
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my name tattooed on my face on their dick that's the first man who has my name tattooed on their
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dick my israeli ex-husband has my whole name down his rib cage my guy best friend has my whole face
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on his calf and leg and then another friend of mine has michelina's little bitch on his ass cheek
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oh wow i need a girl who's down i only fucked two of those wow my ex-husband and then obviously the
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guy that had my name tattooed on his dick i need a woman who's willing to get my shit tattooed on
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her you know i need a girl tattooed my name on the labia that is that's why that's why i want a big
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labia because she got a tattoo because she got small labia you can't tattoo on the labia on the
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the name i agree you need to find one i need to find one it's fucking amazing when it's hard out
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there it's hard out there um you dated two wealthy men who paid you more to be their girlfriend than
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some people make up their jobs how much so i got paid a thousand dollars every single time he would
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eat my pussy thirty five hundred dollars for my blowjobs uh 35 35 this is what happened it's a
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blowjob queen he says what do i what do i owe you he he's he's way high up when i tell you like you
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would know who he is probably if you watch sports um derrick cheater no owner of the football team
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um so i was like listen you tell me what you think that i deserve so sure enough he writes me a
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fucking check for $3,500 and i was like i sure as fuck deserve that for a blowjob but was it one
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time or multiple multiple times yeah okay they were best friends actually damn $3,500 bj yeah
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you can go to hawaii with that yeah you should yeah i would so they take they took really good
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You've been stopped by the cops while giving a blowjob to a prominent business owner.
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And they knocked on that fucking window and I was like, fuck, I'm going to jail.
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But then you said, I'm the blowjob queen, and they let you go.
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They made me step out of the car, and they said, ma'am,
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But they thought that he was harassing me or making me do shit I didn't want to do.
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You married a foreigner and ended up working for ICE in the federal government.
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I had to put the wires on and go meet other Israelis
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Have his, you know, kiss these fucking Israelis
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Listen, I was a rat because I did whatever it took
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You dated another guy who would let you bank his booty with your dildos because it turned
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It was, like, completely, like, it was, like, one of the rubber ones.
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But then, like, what happened was it just completely snapped.
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But he was so fucked up on drugs and all the things that it was just so great.
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The best part, you never drank alcohol in your life.
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i did ecstasy back in the day before i had kids i tried it but i don't care for it
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wait what's that band is it lit cocaine on a plane does anybody know that song
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fuck i think it's called lit anyways whatever uh prompt or you want to talk we already talked
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about body count actually mattering i think it matters we already talked about that kind of
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whatever i'll skip that one yeah um shop at the ferrari dealership with a dollar general budget
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You write a lot of men are trying to shop at the Ferrari dealership with a dollar general budget
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Some men want an incredibly attractive woman who's like xyz multiple things
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While bringing the bare minimum to the table
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You don't get Ferrari expectations with a dollar general effort and to be fair you write women do this too
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There are plenty of women who want a six foot tall millionaire
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Who's emotionally intelligent obsessed with them while they bring chaos trauma and zero accountability. I agree. Yeah
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you want to elaborate no i think that's pretty self-explanatory
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yeah uh you gave me a huge ick list i'm not going to review everything but one that struck
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to me was having a podcast and making it your entire personality
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oh nice wink wink nod nod love it gives me ick look i my podcast that was just me fucking with
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but to be fair um yeah i think a lot of women don't want to date podcast bros it's hard out
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here you know why do you think that is you had a lot of girls in your dms well no so i i do but
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i think that like for liberal women most podcast men typically are more conservative so they just
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find it icky because the podcast guys are espousing conservative political uh perspectives
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for the most part if if yes gina sort of for like the third time i'm not perfect but whereas i think
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like if it was a podcast guy but he was like espousing super liberal progressive talking
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points they'd be like yes please impregnate me so i can have an abortion basically yeah like the
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liberal parker and dean that may be one thing we can agree on i detest dean and parker we can agree
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oh yes you were on it also yeah okay but the thing is with dean is he's very schooled within
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the leftist ideology he's not smart it's not factual well so i i i will give people credit
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where it's due right so i disagree with dean on his political positions but dean and parker are
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uh very skilled debaters that's what i'm saying very skilled in what you should not sleep on them
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in the sense that like they will run circles around like 99 of conservative people they're
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professional literally like professional debaters i get horse voice so i'm i can do one or two days
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of content these guys are streaming every single day they're young they're young guns yeah you know
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so i wish i could do that level of volume but yeah like i i dislike them they're fucking obnoxious
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but they are very very skilled debaters and what i don't like about jubilee you did go on
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a lot of conservatives even if you're right on this stuff yeah if you go up against dean or
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parker or some other really talent like or destiny for example you will like you could be right on
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an issue these guys could argue like a skilled debater could make a compelling argument and
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make you look like an idiot and they take like a pro bestiality position yes that's how dangerous
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skilled debaters are they can take a like completely untenable position and make you
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the right person look bad yeah that's why your friend is scary what's that andrew wilson yeah
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bro andrew wilson will run circles around 99 of liberals but dean and parker will run circles
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around like 99 of conservatives even if i disagree with them even charlie uh dean and
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Parker didn't have some some Charlie Kirk took some W's against them but they also did put put
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Charlie on the back foot in their debate with Charlie they have reprobate minds those but that
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surrounded thing it's like obviously and what's frustrating about it it's time the Jubilee people
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are there they're left they have left-wing bias so what they'll do is yes you're right if they're
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they're with the hat they they will stack uh they will like with charlie kirk yeah they will stack
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like genuine liberal progressive debaters against charlie but then when it's a democrat on the show
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they'll give them like just run-of-the-mill not skilled conservatives so they'll stack
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against conservatives and they'll give easy layups to um like the liberal surrounded people yeah
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there's there's even more than that yeah like dean on yours no offense and i didn't watch it yeah
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i i'm assuming because i didn't watch it wrong with a couple topics i don't think they gave
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dean any good competition no no of course like they and they didn't give us the questions
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they want. They don't want common ground. They don't want
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in the middle of the surrounded, they're the ones
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yeah well the the other thing my big gripe with it is it's just they stack uh i mean i guess i
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already said this but they'll stack against the conservative special guest uh and then if if it's
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like a progressive liberal special guest they'll give them like what what's the word for like soft
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softball opponents yeah like easy opponents and they'll give conservatives hard opponents well
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Like with the whole premise of voting people out, usually if it's a conservative in the middle, the moderator will be like, oh, we have to move on.
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But if it's someone else, if we're going to say, okay, finish your thought and then we will move on.
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I think you wrote on your OnlyFans the following somewhere.
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you gotta have no morals when giving head yeah no morals no morals oh shit that's some demon
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time shit okay i want to suck the soul out of you don't even know who the fuck you are anymore
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i agree cool good times um any other tips on the bjs or whatever
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i mean besides the fact of like the the best ones that i've given so far that was going to be my
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fourth one that you asked me earlier i was gonna be like listen you just gotta have no fucking
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morals when you're like and don't forget the balls please don't forget the balls
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that's awesome agreed well put well put uh let me have you read this chat then we're gonna do
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rapid fire then we're gonna hopefully get this wrapped ladies help me out raise a hand if you
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have an ex a baby daddy an abuser a friend a colleague a relative an acquaintance that should
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be deported even just a ninja go by my dm open pace jessa raise your hand raise your hand everybody
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should be deported raise your hand uh let's see here
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liberal okay boom boom boom boom all right what about like toxic co-workers
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all right uh let's see we're gonna just blast here when i'm done with the questionnaire we
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have the rapid fire then we're out we're outie we're outie uh okay
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no more champagne i mean if somebody wants to do um okay going around the table so tiffany
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we're going to do rapid fire now what species are we almost sapien closer to the mic almost
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sapien any divergence and okay name three countries this is for everyone name three
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countries besides the usa do it again let's go with zimbabwe japan can you scoot into the table
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a little bit scoot into the table and no scoot scoot your chair into the table yeah go ahead
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this can help instead of just like thinking of the entire world
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three countries three countries um canada israel italy
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poland ukraine and russia mikes jordan egypt yeah south korea okay nice m dog
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um norway china japan wait do you have can you show your tattoo there to the
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oh mine's california so when i travel when i get lost a bear tattoo yeah so when i get lost i could
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be like just send me back here and then i have my sj tattooed right here for san jose
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for you oh mexico and canada period different answer okay how many continents are there
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seven abby hey no you don't i heard seven no helping definitely seven seven okay how many
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states are in the usa 50 50 50 okay uh let's do what is the capital of the usa washington dc
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I probably don't live on Earth, but you guys do.
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The government building the Pentagon is what shape?
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pentagon i mean um what is it the government building the pentagon is what shape oh a pentagon
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are you sure yeah it's a pentagon well done yeah what river runs through egypt the nile
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four a hundred thousand five six what direction does the sun rise it rises in the east and sets
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in the west what country gifted the statue of liberty to the usa i think it was france
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okay i'm right it is france i i thought it was france but that just you guys i'll point i'll
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point if to i want to answer the question what uh let's i'm going to skip some for the sake of time
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what continent is brazil in south america what continent is egypt in south america again
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south america south america yep asia asia okay africa what's the question continent is egyptian
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no down south america i think it is almost done we're almost done actually i think yeah
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okay because i know israel isn't asia oh it was africa yeah africa say it's in the mic
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What country is immediately south of the United States?
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Immediately south of the United States is Mexico
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if today is monday what day is it in three days thursday who painted the mona lisa
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i want to say leonardo da vinci scoot your mic that way a little bit i think that's right like
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three inches yeah what is the wait was that correct yeah yeah what is the name of the famous
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It's just easier because you guys are across from me
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What country did the United States gain its independence from?
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Great Britain. I was going to say Great Britain.
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you need to reveal another famous musician
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You fucked Marlon Brando, didn't you, Gina?
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oh he's a handsome devil no be respectful gina i like donald trump oh my god
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would you not wait until marriage if you could crack donald trump
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oh god i would not do that hold on the guy who look i i don't who who said grab him by the pussy
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how many letters in the alphabet 26 26 26 how many days of the weekend with the letter y though
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gina i'm gonna fucking gag you gina i know you're into that calm down
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calm down gina don't get excited all right uh days of the week how many days of the weekend with
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the letter y seven seven not very confident you gotta step that step it up what language do the
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people in idaho speak english thank you was i supposed to say idaho-ian
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oh gosh why did you have to pick me because california tattoo oh she hasn't answered
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anything me yeah no i'm gonna go ahead it's the moon
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closest star to earth oh i don't know any stars name closest star to earth you do
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What weighs more, a pound of feathers or a pound of bricks?
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What country, for Michaela, what country is Cairo in?
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For you, my Caucasian next to me, what country is Vienna in?
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Country. Just throw out one guess and I'll move.
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What? Country and Europeans starts with a B?
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please. Be a good girl, Gina. Let me think through.
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I'm not trying to see you up for rid of the cobwebs.
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Fucking can't even think off the top of my head right now.
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it is somewhere over there somewhere where there's sweden somewhere there's yeah you know germany
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next with a b next yeah gina you yeah what even starts with what starts with a b wait wait wait
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stop brainstorming it barcelona that's not a crazy here guess um i don't know any places
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oh i know it i know it i know it i know it huh did you see what what is it whisper i'm curious
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belgium yeah okay what country starting with you what what country is copenhagen in
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oh my god i don't know this shit i know stay here on the mic fucking mom in
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i don't know she's in prison no she's not my mom is so beautiful and she's single
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uh no no shit fuck oh but like i think it might have been your daddy whoa okay uh so no you don't
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know wait what was the question denmark okay next well copenhagen what country the other country
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don't know this it sounds like german or something denmark denmark denmark denmark
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munich italy italy germany germany germany okay what country is helsinkian
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what what is it look here for you next to me what country is helsinkian great question what about you
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it's not france i know it's not fucking france it's not italy either
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no okay guess guess whoa i don't know i don't know it's germany what is it germany oh my god
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these people okay uh what this should be easy this should be easy what country my good friend
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what country is athens in oh is it somewhere is it like it's
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that's the only one i know oh she did it honestly she deserves it yeah at least i got one
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is there any easier ones what country is istanbul
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oh you got it girl is it though istanbul what country just i don't even think i've ever heard
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of that don't know okay what about you israel israel okay what do you turkey turkey what do
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you think boom turkey turkey budapest what country budapest budapest no guess i'm literally
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to have so late i told you this wasn't gonna be short obviously jesus does not walk where's jesus
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from jesus does not walk within you if you can't handle a late night podcast can we just ask where
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jesus is from jesus israel nazareth keep asking these are great i'm trying i'm trying what what
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country is amsterdam in oh this is an easy one no i'm not just surprised i got that but yes it's
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netherlands wait okay what country no offense i was surprised i got it too
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what country is oslo oslo and oh norway what country is warsaw in
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wait scoot your mic to the edge of the table i know it i do okay what is it
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come on quick guys quick quick quick we're close we're close we're close go next okay so just
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throughout the country if you don't know what is it the warsaw warsaw um i don't know
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okay there's a lot of tennessee just no i'm gonna say something along the lines of like um
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we'll come back focus what country is lisbon oh oh that's you starting here we always start
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lisbon it's like lesbian but different i don't know like fucking greenland or something greenland
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portugal lisbon maybe nice what do you think um she said uh where did you say like green
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greenland it could be greenland what do you think european country european country
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kiev oh what what country is kiev in that's easy never heard of that never even heard of kiev okay
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i'm sick of the geography questions i'm good at math why do we oh i'm not don't be asking
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kiev we're saying what country is it in yeah kiev oh that's a city then kiev is a city yes
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oh fuck um shit heavy kiev yeah i don't know couldn't couldn't tell you uh you over there
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with the knockers sorry i'm sorry i had my filter my filter my filter already all right
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london i'm gonna say london for every single answer now london i thought it was russia russia
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okay what do you think i already said i wasn't sure i'm sorry uh say london russia russia russia
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wait no no wait wait yeah yeah what's the other one like the united that's quiet quiet quiet
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please oh no i'm about to sound stupid vietnam and the united states because because no like
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grandpa's grandpa's were definitely in that shit so 34 plus 66
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it starts with one shut up guys shut up shut up please 100 okay 100 minus 66
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100 minus 30 is going to be 70, minus 4 is going to be 66.
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I'm sending them to fucking public school.
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If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?
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into the mics oh sorry two three three okay next two and i know the dates of them by the way
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okay uh what decade so when i'm asking what decade what decade i'm looking for 17 20s 1840s
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1970s decade what decade was world war one world just throughout a decade
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yes i'm not that old just throughout the decade 1960s maybe okay 1960s
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oh what what decade was world war one no idea throughout the decade guess the decade uh world
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war one just throughout the decade 1670 1670 okay before 1914 was even a thing oh that war
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wait what's the right answer is that the civil world no okay oh i think it was the 1910s uh what
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what was and similar what was the primary decade of world war ii starting with you go ahead oh
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1950s 40s or 60s we'll just throw out 1950s 1950s i'm gonna go ahead and say the 19
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Can you name one Allied power and one Axis power from World War II?
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I know we were, like, against Germany, but who are we allies with?
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um nctu those aren't stars those are like whatever it's fine artists go ahead continue
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um bts i don't know groups you go okay i give up next go i'm just asking you guys
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you give up yeah you said you could name three i thought like k-pop demon hunter
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Okay, starting with you and you guys can repeat
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we're naming all of them yes yes for the third time okay so courtney kim kylie kendall
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do the jenners count yeah yeah okay so chris jenner kim courtney chloe i don't know repeating all
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rob caitlin uh you so you're waiting until marriage right i'm curious i have a question
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just for you yes is there a guy who you is like you're you got a celebrity crush or a guy you're
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just super into that he would stay with you forever but he um you would uh how do i frame
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this like the best way would you be willing to break your waiting until marriage thing for like
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a guy like a certain celebrity you have a crush on no
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what about like edward cullen no he's so funny all right uh what do you think
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okay uh what percentage of men do you think are over six feet just throw a quick answer
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10 20 10 or below uh 20 percent 10 don't don't wait for me to point to you just
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Like when the person next to you finishes speaking, just like right away, right away.
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What percentage of men make at least $1 million a year?
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What percentage of them would you find attractive?
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You need to get Q back on since there's a black man he agrees with your ideology on racial topic.
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Actually, my mom found the list, so my mom has it.
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um it just depends it fluctuates how many at the most how many the one time at most
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six or seven six seven okay have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them i have
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i've done that never show of hands show of hands same day bullshit bullshit you you suck on my life
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Alright, have any of you ever gone on two dates in one night?
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If a girl's gone on multiple dates in a night
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that's a convincing argument to not pay for the date okay 100 no um as a divorced mom who only
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gets one night off a week yeah i'm gonna see a guy at seven and then i'm gonna see a guy at nine
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i think i'm not gonna dive into it but i feel like if a girl is dating like multiple men going
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on multiple dates in the night i don't think you should pay for the first date well again i'm we're
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just getting a drink i'm not doing major dinners i have i have courtesy but my time is valuable and
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Has anyone here hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
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If you hated one why would you have them on your podcast?
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So, yeah, I don't like that categorization, though.
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So I appreciate that you think I'm that or whatever.
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No, I want to take pictures with her after this.
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But if you want to see me bare face, you can check my Instagram.
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I recall very early on in the conversation, I said that the United States is the best country in the world.
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Um, personally, I feel like it's just because of the, um, economic reasons and economy.
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Well, I mean, the United States has one of the best economies in the world.
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It arguably, you might be able to find one here, but, um, the United States, well, it
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depends what your metric is for assessing the economy, but.
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as someone who's traveled the fucking world
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I feel like America is nothing but entitled
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rest of the world lives like because they really haven't
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fucking traveled outside of the fucking world
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in other countries will tell you how obnoxious Americans are
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look I think it's okay to have criticisms of certain
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like that would be the tourists i don't think you could necessarily judge the quality of a country
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based on like how tourists do or don't act when they're abroad but i i would say that if you're
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living in the united states we enjoy more freedom than basically any other country um there's more
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upward mobility potential than basically any other country uh you can even look at european
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countries, there's, there's far less upward mobility. You can come from nothing rags to
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riches in the United States. It's much more difficult in other countries. Um, even like,
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you know, you look at Germany very hard to, you know, upward mobility there, but, uh, the United
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States, our geography is dope. We're a fucking superpower. Our military is the strongest. We
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have more freedom we're not like we're not like it does matter it does matter we're not like
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cucked uk where they arrest people for social media posts and you don't have freedom of speech
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in a lot of these european countries let's talk about the iranians who can't even protest so much
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freedom in this country and we've got free speech that's a beautiful thing yeah america's the best
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A lot of our freedoms would have been taken away
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wow damn you're expensive girl oh i'm expensive as fuck as fuck wow um
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honestly almost looks better without i i actually i totally agree yeah i totally agree
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looks better you look even mine off but i bump i bump your looks rating a little bit
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All right, any final thoughts here before?
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But when you get a little older, you'll see it differently.
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sorry let's end on a good note yeah nothing nothing god is great i just said can i have a
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final thought yeah go ahead final thoughts are don't take anything that anybody fucking says
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seriously like your opinion is yours yours yours yours but at the end of the fucking day live your
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life for you don't live your life by other people's terms period you live your life on your
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own terms no subscribe to my worldview subscribe to my perspective reject modernity
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embrace he's full of shit i'm full of shit we're all full of shit and the only way to heaven is
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just choose your favorite wagon that you want to jump on and go from there the airplane and don't
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forget to add me on social media embrace reject modernity embrace masculinity that's what's up
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no baby tasman 408 reject modernity embrace i don't even know what i would say okay
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whatever traditionalism sure embrace traditionalism embrace virtue embrace if you want to
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and large labias large labias that's weird who has a large labia again was it just you
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i feel so singled out bro and then you're over here saying gross like
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let's say you're filled with botox bro you got big labia i don't think that's gross
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it's not gross oh shit what wait what the fuck did you say what just happened you're saying
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gross like your lips aren't filled with botox you got big labia they're just on your face
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it's filler yeah and not just same fucking thing same thing i don't care
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get it fucking right same thing i don't care yeah but i don't yeah but genitalia is gross
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on my face is on my face i'm not walking around in the underwear y'all crazy y'all crazy all right
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we gotta wrap we gotta wrap somebody's getting tired oh somebody has a big fat lady on her face
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oh now you want to social media handles okay oh yeah follow soccer yeah one by one
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Gina you gonna let her talk to you like that
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Last call hit the like button please on your way out
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Leave a nice comment once the live ends helps the owl go
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thank you for tuning in tonight thank you to the wonderful panel it was a long show i was hoping
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it wasn't fucking long but it ended up being long um you could have been anywhere in the world but
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you're here with me i appreciate that it was a fun show though you guys were fun though congrats
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to making it to the end uh thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show
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uh we're gonna be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific you want to be on the show you're a woman dm at
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whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara oh sevens in the chat i feel like i'm
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forgetting something am i forgetting something i don't think so uh oh follow me at the ai
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we're gonna do it in 30 seconds tiffany ai let's just do it i know i know i promise it's gonna be
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super oh tiffany here full screen full screen okay next wait wait wait wait guys guys guys
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The question is would you date the male version of you
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fuck wait wait wait it's on the tip of my tongue
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No, no, no. Stop. Wait, wait, wait. Everyone be quiet.
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it looks like my brother yeah mine looks like my brother too no thank you next
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oh my god oh okay i would take the guy version of you hello i didn't see it okay next i guess
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she's not in okay would you date him oh i mean maybe yeah he kind of has a lazy eye like me
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The one without the facial hair is kind of bad.