Whatever Podcast - She BETRAYED Brian？! FERAL Gen Z California College Girls？! She Says Men Are GROSS？! ｜ Dating Talk #257

00:00:00.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast.

00:00:23.880 Jay Ekin donated $999.

00:00:28.340 Here's to a great show.

00:00:30.360 Felicity, grab a popsicle.

00:00:32.720 Rude, go get it. 1.00

00:00:35.560 Jay, literally three seconds before we went live, I almost took my eyeball out.

00:00:48.420 I had it ready.

00:00:49.780 I was going to pop it as soon as we transitioned.

00:00:53.600 So I have the champagne here.

00:00:56.040 Thank you for the champagne, Paul.

00:00:56.880 I appreciate it.

00:00:57.500 But unfortunately, yeah, it had a mind of its own.

00:01:04.200 But thank you, Jay, guys.

00:01:05.260 W's in the chat for Jay.

00:01:06.140 I'm going to pour the champagne here to get everybody going.

00:01:08.720 I'm a little bamboozled.

00:01:14.360 I'm a little startled because I nearly died.

00:01:17.080 Nearly died.

00:01:18.000 That thing almost took my eye out. 0.62

00:01:20.880 Anyways, welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast.

00:01:23.800 We try to make sense of the modern dating housecape.

00:01:26.080 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

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00:04:13.480 So without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:04:17.580 Please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you are from, and education.

00:04:25.420 Wait, hold on.

00:04:26.000 First, let me pass out the champagne.

00:04:28.960 All right.

00:04:29.380 Boom.

00:04:30.980 Boom.

00:04:31.820 Oh, can you pass one down all the way to her?

00:04:35.160 So just like pass it down.

00:04:37.540 Jay, thank you for the champagne pop.

00:04:39.080 I totally butchered it.

00:04:42.100 Is that, am I ripping him off?

00:04:44.860 Because the pop itself wasn't on?

00:04:47.580 It happened literally three seconds before we went live.

00:04:50.420 It auto-popped.

00:04:52.380 It auto-popped.

00:04:53.480 It auto-popped by itself.

00:04:56.320 That was the easiest champagne opening ever, which means a lot on the Whatever Podcast.

00:05:01.140 I frequently struggle with opening champagne bottles.

00:05:04.240 Anyways, I guess since we have some people who are not 21, just you can cheers with your water.

00:05:10.480 Let's do cheers. 0.91

00:05:11.180 Thank you, Jay, for the champagne.

00:05:13.100 Cheers.

00:05:13.540 Salud.

00:05:13.880 Cheers.

00:05:14.100 Cheers.

00:05:14.760 To Jay.

00:05:19.080 Retinal. 0.81

00:05:19.920 Almost not having a retina attached to my epineus.

00:05:26.260 Introduce yourself, please.

00:05:27.520 Hi.

00:05:27.880 My name is Lexi.

00:05:29.280 I'm an integrative healing arts practitioner.

00:05:31.260 I specialize in yoga, health and wellness, lifestyle coaching, and I'm also a full-service

00:05:39.420 escort.

00:05:40.400 Okay.

00:05:41.080 Age?

00:05:42.040 I'm 24, and I'm based in Arizona.

00:05:45.520 All right.

00:05:46.060 How long have you been escorting for?

00:05:49.400 For three years now.

00:05:51.960 Okay.

00:05:52.640 All right.

00:05:54.020 Oh, and I also help women in the sex work industry either transition out or help them, 0.97

00:06:00.980 like, guide them in the path of sex work. 0.99

00:06:04.080 All right.

00:06:05.080 What about you?

00:06:06.720 It's hard to follow.

00:06:09.640 My name's Ava.

00:06:11.680 I'm 18.

00:06:12.720 I'm from the San Francisco Bay Area.

00:06:14.680 I'm a server at a sushi restaurant, and I go to the city college, and I'm studying psychology.

00:06:23.480 All right.

00:06:24.200 Do you have a sense of what you want to do after you graduate from college?

00:06:27.320 Yeah.

00:06:27.820 I would like to go on and go to graduate school and then become a psychiatrist and not prescribe

00:06:34.920 kids with crazy meds that they don't need.

00:06:37.380 Oh, like, which kinds?

00:06:39.180 Like, the antidepressant stuff?

00:06:40.600 Like, yeah, honestly, a lot, especially, like, ADHD medication.

00:06:45.080 Honestly.

00:06:45.460 Oh, like Adderall?

00:06:46.000 Like, I think Adderall is, like, really messing kids up.

00:06:49.260 Like, I feel strongly about it.

00:06:50.900 Have you had, like, bad firsthand experiences?

00:06:53.200 Yeah.

00:06:53.860 I took...

00:06:54.400 God, why are we talking about my psychiatric medications?

00:06:57.420 Yeah.

00:06:57.660 Can you just list all the meds you're currently taking?

00:07:01.380 Really?

00:07:02.000 Yes.

00:07:02.500 Do it.

00:07:02.640 Okay, currently?

00:07:03.980 Currently?

00:07:04.540 No, I'm so...

00:07:05.460 Previously, then. 1.00

00:07:06.340 Oh, fuck. 1.00

00:07:07.120 Shit. 1.00

00:07:07.360 Um, I took Adderall from ages five to sixteen. 1.00

00:07:14.480 Five?

00:07:15.220 Five.

00:07:15.600 They started you on Adderall at five?

00:07:16.780 Five years old.

00:07:18.500 How messed up is that?

00:07:19.760 Yeah.

00:07:19.860 Wait, question.

00:07:21.240 Was there...

00:07:22.680 Were you in school at the time?

00:07:24.280 Yeah.

00:07:24.860 And so did, like...

00:07:25.520 No, the teachers were like, what's wrong with this kid?

00:07:27.340 She can't tell time.

00:07:28.260 Yeah, so the teachers...

00:07:28.760 I was like, what?

00:07:29.840 But was it something your parents noticed, or did the teachers go to your parents and

00:07:34.060 be like...

00:07:34.140 No, the teachers went to the parents.

00:07:35.380 My parents were like, she's great, but...

00:07:37.620 I have a similar story where I think I was maybe in second grade.

00:07:41.780 Oh, yeah?

00:07:42.580 And the teacher said I was disruptive.

00:07:46.620 Oh, yeah.

00:07:48.120 Disruptive.

00:07:49.120 What a word.

00:07:49.700 And then this was a while ago, but...

00:07:52.280 And then, luckily, I didn't...

00:07:55.300 I was on Ritalin for a month or two.

00:07:57.880 But it is a common thing.

00:07:59.920 The teachers can't...

00:08:01.220 And I think it's normal behavior for, like, five, six, seven, eight, nine-year-olds to

00:08:04.600 be...

00:08:05.080 Yeah.

00:08:05.620 To sit them down in a seat for eight hours a day.

00:08:08.780 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:09.280 And sit there, listen to my boring ass, you know? 1.00

00:08:11.960 Yeah, exactly. 1.00

00:08:13.120 Like, maybe I'm just rowdy.

00:08:14.880 Maybe I just like to have a good time. 1.00

00:08:16.420 But damn, they screwed you over. 1.00

00:08:17.620 The teacher screwed you over. 1.00

00:08:18.480 Oh, my God.

00:08:18.880 I know. 1.00

00:08:19.360 That crazy bitch. 1.00

00:08:20.840 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:21.160 She's rude. 1.00

00:08:22.780 So rude. 0.80

00:08:23.460 She's so bad at karaoke, too. 1.00

00:08:25.320 Wow.

00:08:25.780 You keep tabs on her, or... 0.99

00:08:27.860 Kick it with her. 1.00

00:08:30.140 Or she was doing karaoke back then. 0.96

00:08:31.720 I'm going to dox her on this podcast right now.

00:08:34.040 So, and sorry, you're from where again?

00:08:35.980 San Francisco area.

00:08:37.180 San Francisco.

00:08:38.040 Okay.

00:08:38.280 And you said you want to become a psychiatrist.

00:08:40.540 So that you...

00:08:40.840 That's the plan right now, but...

00:08:42.820 So you don't have to prescribe people mind-altering medication.

00:08:46.020 Yeah, well, yeah, pretty much.

00:08:47.540 Okay, cool.

00:08:48.420 Yeah.

00:08:49.260 All right.

00:08:49.660 What about you?

00:08:50.760 My name is Bella.

00:08:52.220 I'm a singer-songwriter.

00:08:53.580 I go by BB.

00:08:55.500 I'm from Oregon, and also the Bay, before here.

00:09:00.720 And I'm going to school for cosmetology.

00:09:03.620 At the...

00:09:04.360 Is it the City College?

00:09:05.460 Yes.

00:09:05.860 Okay.

00:09:06.120 It's through the City College.

00:09:06.540 They have a cosmetology?

00:09:07.900 Yeah.

00:09:08.140 It's not in the same location, but it's...

00:09:09.720 Oh, it's a different location.

00:09:10.760 It's through SPCC, yeah.

00:09:12.020 And then is that what you want to do?

00:09:13.160 You want to be like a makeup artist or...

00:09:15.460 No, definitely hair.

00:09:17.600 Hair, okay.

00:09:18.120 That's just more of my plan for, like, income-wise, but my actual plan is to, like, pursue music

00:09:23.960 fully.

00:09:24.820 Okay.

00:09:25.380 And what do you do for music?

00:09:27.000 I'm a singer.

00:09:28.320 Do you play any instruments?

00:09:29.380 Yes, I play the guitar and the piano.

00:09:31.080 Okay.

00:09:31.300 And me and my sister make, like, tracks digitally for me to sing on.

00:09:34.660 That's how we, like, make music.

00:09:35.700 Mm-hmm.

00:09:36.160 Are you a soprano?

00:09:39.480 I think I have a pretty good range.

00:09:40.880 I think I can be all of them.

00:09:42.140 Okay.

00:09:42.560 Maybe not, like, bass.

00:09:43.080 Can we get a little demo, or...?

00:09:44.760 Maybe not yet.

00:09:46.260 I'm still nervous.

00:09:48.100 But, yeah, if I can say this, Bella's Vocals is my TikTok for music.

00:09:53.280 Follow me.

00:09:55.000 And you're both, you both are from San Francisco?

00:09:58.980 Well, you're from the Bay.

00:09:59.700 Well, I lived in, like, Concord.

00:10:01.200 Okay.

00:10:01.780 I lived in Marin County.

00:10:03.140 Do you know Hy-Fi, the Hy-Fi movement?

00:10:05.640 Hy-Fi.

00:10:06.260 Hy-Fi?

00:10:06.780 Never mind.

00:10:07.220 Anyways.

00:10:07.840 That, yeah, I don't.

00:10:09.560 Ghost Ride the Whip?

00:10:10.380 She might be kind of young.

00:10:12.020 I am kind of young.

00:10:12.520 It is a bit of an older...

00:10:13.760 I'm pretty young, yeah.

00:10:14.360 A bit older.

00:10:15.020 Then I don't know.

00:10:16.140 All right.

00:10:16.600 What about you?

00:10:17.700 Hi.

00:10:18.140 I'm Kaya.

00:10:18.980 I'm 18, and I'm from the Bay Area as well.

00:10:22.020 No.

00:10:22.820 Wait.

00:10:24.460 I go to SBCC.

00:10:25.820 I'm a first year, and I'm a business major, but I don't know what I want to do with that

00:10:31.660 after yet.

00:10:33.120 Okay.

00:10:33.620 All right.

00:10:34.220 Yes.

00:10:34.540 And what about you?

00:10:37.640 And what about you?

00:10:38.560 My name's Solo.

00:10:40.360 I'm 18.

00:10:41.480 I'm also a first year at SBCC.

00:10:45.680 I'm from Santa Barbara County, and I want to be a radiation therapist.

00:10:50.880 Okay.

00:10:51.420 When you say you're from Santa Barbara County, are you from north, south, or Santa Barbara?

00:10:55.560 I'm from Lompoc, Santa Ynez area.

00:10:57.700 Oh, Lompoc.

00:10:58.500 Okay.

00:10:59.520 And Santa Ynez.

00:11:00.460 You got to add that one in there.

00:11:02.320 Don't just judge me off of the first one.

00:11:03.680 Right.

00:11:04.020 Yeah, yeah.

00:11:04.320 Of course.

00:11:05.040 All right.

00:11:05.280 Cool.

00:11:05.840 And you said you wanted to be a radiation tech?

00:11:08.460 Therapist.

00:11:09.040 Therapist.

00:11:09.420 Got it.

00:11:10.100 What about you?

00:11:11.260 I'm a sativa.

00:11:12.500 I'm 30, and I'm a tattoo artist, and I do, like, murals and stuff like that.

00:11:16.900 Ooh.

00:11:17.440 All right.

00:11:17.900 And you've done a bunch of body mods, too.

00:11:19.760 Is that correct?

00:11:20.580 Yeah.

00:11:20.760 Can you show us the body mod?

00:11:24.940 I felt like this was going to happen.

00:11:27.980 What's a body mod?

00:11:29.840 Ooh.

00:11:30.880 Oh, my gosh.

00:11:31.940 Her tongue is split.

00:11:33.680 Can you taste two things at once?

00:11:36.920 Wait, what?

00:11:37.840 It's like it.

00:11:38.920 I don't know.

00:11:39.400 You can.

00:11:40.560 I can put my tongue in, like, two different ice creams.

00:11:45.340 Whoa.

00:11:47.880 That's so cool.

00:11:49.220 She's so old. 0.97

00:11:49.720 She's going to trip me out.

00:11:50.500 Oh, my God.

00:11:51.120 She's going to sign me up.

00:11:51.440 You could have, like, ten smoothies, probably.

00:11:53.980 That is dope.

00:11:55.380 How long did it take to heal?

00:11:57.420 It only took seven days, so the tongue is, like, the fastest healing body part in the body.

00:12:02.580 Oh, my goodness.

00:12:03.680 Nice.

00:12:04.240 And where are you from?

00:12:05.420 Uh, I'm from Oceanside, California, but I live in Oklahoma.

00:12:10.640 Gotcha.

00:12:11.080 And any, uh, education?

00:12:13.140 Um, I went to college for a little bit, but then I dropped out and became an entrepreneur pretty much instead.

00:12:19.580 When you say, what were you doing?

00:12:21.180 Uh, when I was in college.

00:12:22.860 Well, you said you were an entrepreneur.

00:12:23.900 Oh, I'm a tattoo artist, and I do, yeah, yeah, yeah, and I do, like, custom canvases and murals and stuff.

00:12:29.260 Sure.

00:12:29.620 Cool.

00:12:30.460 What about you?

00:12:31.720 My name is Kayla.

00:12:32.740 I'm 27.

00:12:33.880 I'm from Las Vegas, Nevada, but I currently live in Chattanooga, Tennessee.

00:12:37.800 I have a master's degree, and I currently work as an addiction counselor.

00:12:42.400 You have a master's in what?

00:12:44.040 Forensic psychology.

00:12:45.960 Forensic psychology.

00:12:47.480 That's so sick.

00:12:47.900 Can you explain to, perhaps, viewers who don't know what that is, what is forensic psychology?

00:12:53.740 Forensic psychology is the study of criminal behavior and psychology, kind of combined.

00:12:57.640 Like, what is behind people's behaviors and why they commit certain crimes and things like that.

00:13:03.840 My, I really can't, never mind, scratch that.

00:13:06.200 I can't talk about it on this podcast.

00:13:08.220 You're a spy?

00:13:09.600 No, no, my specialty, and it's an essay offender registry and why sometimes it could be bad

00:13:16.080 and what better ways to treat it.

00:13:19.140 So, yeah, that is my occupation.

00:13:20.700 I am looking forward to going back to school for my Ph.D. in maybe the next coming year.

00:13:25.360 All right.

00:13:26.200 What about you?

00:13:27.820 My name is Sina.

00:13:29.220 I'm an influencer, and I'm 19 years old.

00:13:31.960 I'm from Canada.

00:13:33.700 All right.

00:13:34.280 Are you in school right now?

00:13:35.620 Yes.

00:13:36.200 What are you studying?

00:13:36.960 Engineering.

00:13:37.980 What kind?

00:13:40.300 Mechanical engineering.

00:13:42.180 Mechanical engineering.

00:13:43.060 Okay.

00:13:43.680 And you're going into your second year, third year?

00:13:46.280 Second.

00:13:47.580 Second.

00:13:49.600 Okay.

00:13:50.880 Cool.

00:13:52.660 All right.

00:13:53.880 Oh, we have a couple chats coming through.

00:13:56.080 We'll get to those, then we'll get into the relationship status.

00:13:59.140 We have Desert George, Jorge.

00:14:02.180 Desert George donated $200.

00:14:04.920 Appreciate it.

00:14:05.420 To the panel, be kind to your host.

00:14:07.880 Walks with burritos.

00:14:09.280 Be kind.

00:14:09.620 Be kind.

00:14:09.760 He really wants to help everyone learn something.

00:14:12.940 Also, shout out to my homies in the Discord. 0.78

00:14:16.400 Best based chat on the interwebs.

00:14:18.860 Hands down.

00:14:20.700 Yo, Desert Jorge.

00:14:22.400 Thank you for that TTS, man.

00:14:24.920 Really appreciate it.

00:14:25.660 Thank you.

00:14:25.960 Thank you.

00:14:26.980 All right, guys.

00:14:27.640 We're going to go around the table once more.

00:14:30.120 What is everyone's current relationship status?

00:14:32.680 If you're single, how long have you been single?

00:14:34.820 And what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:14:37.340 I am currently single.

00:14:39.440 My longest relationship was probably about four years.

00:14:42.580 And what was the next question?

00:14:46.380 How long have you been single?

00:14:49.220 About two years.

00:14:50.980 And longest relationship, four years.

00:14:52.520 Okay.

00:14:53.720 Is that the one that ended two years ago?

00:14:55.840 Yes.

00:14:55.980 The four year?

00:14:56.720 Okay.

00:14:57.060 Who broke up with who?

00:14:58.740 I broke up with him.

00:15:00.380 Okay.

00:15:01.020 What about you?

00:15:01.640 Um, sorry.

00:15:06.360 I've been single for like two weeks.

00:15:12.260 Okay.

00:15:13.300 My longest relationship was like just under two years.

00:15:18.520 Is that the one that ended two weeks ago?

00:15:22.860 No.

00:15:23.660 Okay.

00:15:24.860 Uh, the one that ended two weeks ago, how long were you seeing that person?

00:15:29.220 Um, just over the summer, really.

00:15:31.480 We just decided that we were going to be together until we each were like parting ways.

00:15:36.620 Because long distance is not.

00:15:40.280 Long distance, no.

00:15:43.120 That's what I was saying.

00:15:44.900 Okay.

00:15:45.260 Um.

00:15:46.020 So you guys, what, two months, three months?

00:15:47.800 Yeah, probably like two, three months, maybe.

00:15:50.600 Okay.

00:15:51.400 And so it was kind of pre-planned that you guys were going to stop seeing each other?

00:15:55.020 Um, like, yeah.

00:15:57.560 Yeah.

00:15:59.720 Yeah.

00:16:00.520 So there wasn't a breakup?

00:16:02.180 No.

00:16:02.980 Not quite.

00:16:03.160 It was just like, all right, later.

00:16:05.260 It wasn't really like all right later, but it was definitely like, bye.

00:16:10.960 And this is in your, uh, where you live at home?

00:16:15.020 Yeah.

00:16:15.760 Yeah.

00:16:16.120 Did he go off to college too, or is he staying?

00:16:18.580 Yeah, so he's older than, he's a year older.

00:16:22.020 Okay.

00:16:22.160 He goes to school, like, on the East Coast, and he was just going back, and I'm going here.

00:16:28.820 So are you guys going to try to meet up, like, during holidays, like Thanksgiving, Christmas?

00:16:33.180 No, guys, this is, no, she's not, she's not going to do that.

00:16:38.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:16:39.000 We'll see you.

00:16:40.740 That's a complicated question.

00:16:41.920 I mean, but did things end badly, or?

00:16:43.920 No, things didn't end badly.

00:16:45.340 Yes.

00:16:45.440 No, they did not.

00:16:46.500 I like the honesty of your friends, by the way.

00:16:48.460 No, they did not end badly.

00:16:50.300 If someone, someone I know is like.

00:16:51.200 What, what, what happened?

00:16:53.240 Yeah, so what happened?

00:16:54.920 No, don't.

00:16:55.760 I'm not going to, I'm not going to go into detail, but.

00:16:58.080 Um.

00:16:59.020 She cheated on him. 1.00

00:16:59.480 Think about what?

00:17:00.420 No, I didn't cheat on him.

00:17:01.660 You cheated on him? 1.00

00:17:01.920 What do you think?

00:17:02.620 No.

00:17:03.540 You stole his cat?

00:17:05.080 No, literally nothing went wrong.

00:17:06.800 I was just like, okay, I'm really busy, like, stop reaching out.

00:17:10.860 And he kept reaching out.

00:17:12.180 Guys, no, it's not even.

00:17:13.040 Oh my God.

00:17:13.500 And he disrespected her boundaries, and he's insecure.

00:17:16.520 That's not what happened.

00:17:17.400 That's not what happened.

00:17:18.880 And that's basically it.

00:17:19.720 That's not what happened.

00:17:20.580 He's a, guys, he's a really good guy.

00:17:22.420 Shout out.

00:17:23.680 No.

00:17:24.320 Shout out.

00:17:25.300 If you're watching, like, no hard feelings.

00:17:28.360 We're good.

00:17:29.480 That's it.

00:17:30.400 That's it.

00:17:30.780 That's cute. 1.00

00:17:31.660 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:17:33.760 Shit ain't cute. 1.00

00:17:35.140 It is. 0.99

00:17:36.620 All right.

00:17:37.280 Good times.

00:17:38.620 It was so good.

00:17:39.680 Going to the two-year relationship that you had, though, who broke up with him for that

00:17:43.740 one?

00:17:45.140 We say now that it was a mutual thing, but I broke up with him.

00:17:49.460 Good times.

00:17:50.300 Yeah.

00:17:50.700 Cool.

00:17:51.380 All right.

00:17:52.820 Any reason why, or just?

00:17:54.760 It was just not.

00:17:55.560 We were just kids.

00:17:56.540 Like, it just didn't work.

00:17:58.020 Yeah.

00:17:58.380 Yeah, it just, like, just wasn't working.

00:18:01.360 All right.

00:18:01.840 Normal reasons.

00:18:02.660 What about you?

00:18:04.040 I'm currently single.

00:18:05.760 My last relationship was, I think, a little, barely under a year ago.

00:18:11.000 And my longest relationship was two years total, but off and on.

00:18:15.940 Is that the one that ended a year ago?

00:18:18.360 No.

00:18:19.020 That was my first boyfriend.

00:18:20.200 How many times was the two-year one off and on?

00:18:23.160 Like, three times.

00:18:24.480 Three times.

00:18:25.000 Who would, what was the breakdown for each of those times?

00:18:28.320 Who ended things?

00:18:29.680 I've never been broken up with.

00:18:31.320 So you would end things with him?

00:18:32.840 Yes.

00:18:33.420 And then who would reach back out?

00:18:37.840 Kind of just, like, both, I guess.

00:18:40.420 Like, split?

00:18:41.200 Yeah.

00:18:41.620 Okay.

00:18:41.900 Like, yeah.

00:18:43.360 All right.

00:18:43.780 What were the reasons for it going off?

00:18:47.000 Basically, when we dated, he was two years older than me, and I was only, like, 14 when

00:18:53.340 we started dating, and he was, like, just barely 16.

00:18:56.700 And, I don't know, I guess I was just going through, like, kind of a rough patch in my

00:19:00.800 life, and he didn't know how to, like, um, what's the word?

00:19:07.340 Cater to that, if that makes sense.

00:19:09.920 So it was, like, on me, because I wasn't, like, probably in the best situation to be in

00:19:15.300 a relationship.

00:19:16.420 So it was, like, no one's fault.

00:19:17.540 Like, I don't have anything against him, but it was just not working.

00:19:20.220 Gotcha.

00:19:21.020 And then the most recent one, you said it ended a year ago.

00:19:26.300 Yes.

00:19:27.180 How long were you seeing that guy?

00:19:29.080 Um, probably, like, under a year.

00:19:32.220 Okay.

00:19:32.540 Who broke up with who?

00:19:33.560 Me.

00:19:34.220 You?

00:19:34.560 Okay.

00:19:34.860 Any reason? 0.98

00:19:35.860 He's crazy. 0.98

00:19:37.080 He's crazy? 1.00

00:19:37.880 He's crazy. 0.98

00:19:38.640 What was crazy? 0.91

00:19:39.760 He just, um, he was just a very jealous person, I think.

00:19:44.920 That was it.

00:19:45.660 Because we were in the same friend group, this massive friend group, and we all went out

00:19:50.260 together, like, whenever we went to, like, parties, like, hangouts or anything.

00:19:54.580 And, like, I don't know, I guess, like, even, like, speaking to, like, a guy friend, he'd,

00:19:58.020 like, get mad at me.

00:19:58.840 We just fought a lot.

00:19:59.760 I'm also at fault.

00:20:01.740 Just didn't work.

00:20:02.560 What's, like, one, two, or three things that you feel, you think you did wrong?

00:20:07.340 I think that I had poor communication, because I would get angry, and then instead of being,

00:20:12.500 like, hey, I'm mad at you, I would just be, like, you know, like, attitude.

00:20:16.200 And that started fights and stuff.

00:20:17.940 I think that I definitely could have been better with raising my voice sometimes.

00:20:24.500 So, you, would you yell at him?

00:20:26.360 We'd yell at each other.

00:20:27.660 Okay.

00:20:27.840 But, like, yeah, like, I shouldn't, like, doesn't matter.

00:20:29.180 But when you say yell, what level of, because there's, there's, not, like, vocal fry screaming,

00:20:35.200 but, like, raising my voice, like.

00:20:37.140 Raised voice.

00:20:37.600 Like, interrupting each other.

00:20:38.860 Gotcha.

00:20:39.060 Because, like, we had completely different standpoints.

00:20:41.360 What was the biggest blow up that you guys had?

00:20:43.980 Oh, my goodness.

00:20:44.680 Like, what was it over?

00:20:46.500 So, basically, the biggest blow up, I have to, like, remember the specifics, but it was

00:20:50.860 his birthday, and he was, like, having people over at his house for, like, a party, and then

00:20:57.320 he got, like, really drunk, and, like, towards the end of the night, he was, like, oh, like,

00:21:01.500 I'm going to drive my, like, some of the rest of our friends home.

00:21:05.320 And I was, like, no, you're not.

00:21:06.640 Like, you're drunk.

00:21:07.760 And I wasn't.

00:21:08.600 And so I was, like, I can drive.

00:21:10.320 And then he was, like, okay.

00:21:11.200 And then he gave me his keys, and I drove our friends, and he came.

00:21:13.860 And then after I had dropped off the second friend, he, like, wakes up, and he was, like, 0.96

00:21:20.240 why the fuck are you driving my car right now? 0.91

00:21:22.700 And I was, like, what? 0.99

00:21:24.000 And he was, like, you have no right to be driving my car using my gas.

00:21:28.180 I was, like, what is wrong with you?

00:21:31.000 And that turned into, like, a huge fight.

00:21:33.660 Got it.

00:21:34.160 Okay.

00:21:35.260 All right.

00:21:35.840 So you've been single for a year.

00:21:38.700 You said that when you were 14, you had a rough patch.

00:21:43.080 Yeah.

00:21:43.480 What was the rough patch?

00:21:45.080 I was just.

00:21:47.740 Growing pins.

00:21:49.120 Huh?

00:21:49.700 Growing pins.

00:21:51.100 Yeah, for sure.

00:21:52.220 I mean, I was just, like, there was just a lot of things that I was, like, finding out in that time.

00:21:56.740 And, like, school was really hard for me.

00:21:58.700 High school has always been absolute torture for me, except for my last one, because I went to six of them.

00:22:04.980 You went to six different high schools?

00:22:06.360 Six different high schools.

00:22:07.340 Why is that?

00:22:08.020 Because my stepdad's in the Marine Corps.

00:22:10.120 Oh, he's in the military?

00:22:10.800 Yes, and then also my mom just, like, often changes where she wants to live.

00:22:17.580 For work or just?

00:22:18.740 Just, like, fun.

00:22:19.300 Just because?

00:22:19.880 Be like, oh, I want to live on the beach.

00:22:21.120 Then we'd move.

00:22:21.440 Oh, okay.

00:22:22.580 Yeah.

00:22:22.840 So, yeah, I went to a bunch of different high schools.

00:22:25.800 But, yeah, like, 14 to 16 was just, like, rough for me.

00:22:29.440 Gotcha.

00:22:29.820 Like, I feel like that's normal, though.

00:22:31.160 Like, the emo phase.

00:22:33.100 Sure.

00:22:34.000 All right.

00:22:34.700 What about you?

00:22:36.260 I'm single.

00:22:37.500 I've been single for a month now.

00:22:39.760 And my longest relationship was with my first boyfriend, and it was, like, almost three

00:22:47.140 years.

00:22:48.480 Almost three years?

00:22:49.320 Yes.

00:22:50.420 Okay.

00:22:50.520 And the, but a month ago, you just got out of something.

00:22:53.920 How long was that relationship?

00:22:55.820 That was the three-year one.

00:22:56.780 Oh, that was the three-year one.

00:22:58.160 Gotcha.

00:22:58.480 Who broke up with who?

00:22:59.720 It was mutual.

00:23:00.920 It was, he wanted it more than I did.

00:23:03.600 The relationship?

00:23:04.720 No.

00:23:05.080 He wanted to break up more.

00:23:06.140 Oh, he wanted to break up more.

00:23:07.320 I see.

00:23:07.780 Okay.

00:23:08.100 Yeah.

00:23:08.360 Okay.

00:23:12.040 Did you also kind of want to break up, or?

00:23:14.400 No.

00:23:15.260 Oh, you wanted to stay?

00:23:16.340 Yeah. 1.00

00:23:16.600 Damn. 1.00

00:23:16.940 Okay, three years. 1.00

00:23:17.920 Only, it's only been a month.

00:23:20.160 Yeah.

00:23:20.860 That's, that's pretty fresh.

00:23:22.760 That's bad.

00:23:23.300 Are you okay?

00:23:24.380 Yeah.

00:23:25.240 I wanted to do the distance, but he did not.

00:23:27.680 You wanted, you wanted to do long distance.

00:23:29.140 It's only a four-hour drive, so.

00:23:31.560 Back in SF or the Bay or, yeah.

00:23:34.960 It's not even bad.

00:23:35.780 Yeah.

00:23:36.380 Yeah.

00:23:36.700 Because a lot of people, was he also your age?

00:23:39.740 No, he's a senior in high school.

00:23:41.600 Wait, he's younger than you?

00:23:42.700 Yeah.

00:23:43.620 Okay, Cougar, Cougar over here.

00:23:47.320 So, I see.

00:23:48.520 Okay, so you were going off to college.

00:23:51.860 Was that part of it?

00:23:52.860 Like, you were leaving, so?

00:23:54.060 Uh, I don't, I guess.

00:23:57.740 He, I, like, kept asking him, like, like, in the middle of school, I'm like, okay, like,

00:24:02.080 we're in your distance, right?

00:24:03.000 And he'd be like, yeah, like, yeah, like, I only want you, like, we're in your distance.

00:24:06.740 And then, like, a month before, like, I, like, was, like, before, like, I left, he was like,

00:24:12.640 oh, like, I don't know if I want to do it anymore.

00:24:14.480 And I was like, you just told me you did, so I believed it. 0.98

00:24:16.860 And then, you changed your mind about it.

00:24:19.820 All right.

00:24:20.340 Yeah.

00:24:20.820 Okay.

00:24:21.760 Yeah, I mean, uh, it is pretty common.

00:24:23.620 People, uh, when they go off to college, oftentimes relationships, even longer relationships like

00:24:29.560 yours, people opt to, you know, they want the college experience.

00:24:33.400 They opt to break up.

00:24:35.160 Everything, okay?

00:24:36.660 Is there?

00:24:37.960 What?

00:24:39.020 I've never seen glass versions.

00:24:41.800 Grass?

00:24:42.360 Glass versions.

00:24:43.680 Glass versions of the Cubs.

00:24:45.360 Oh, right.

00:24:46.400 Okay.

00:24:46.640 Oh, wait, I just realized that as well.

00:24:48.040 Dude, and he has a plastic version.

00:24:49.000 Look, plastic.

00:24:49.720 A paper version.

00:24:51.580 Yeah, we, all of the above.

00:24:53.480 We, yeah.

00:24:55.040 Your stock.

00:24:55.680 Diversity.

00:24:56.460 Yeah.

00:24:57.320 I got it.

00:24:57.760 Diversity initiatives.

00:24:58.740 Inclusion.

00:24:59.500 Right.

00:25:00.120 Inclusion.

00:25:00.620 Yes, exactly.

00:25:01.580 Equity.

00:25:02.640 Yeah.

00:25:03.220 Whatever podcast.

00:25:04.520 Very modern approach.

00:25:05.960 Black, big lady of matter. 1.00

00:25:07.420 There you go. 0.94

00:25:08.240 Yeah.

00:25:09.560 What about you?

00:25:11.480 I've been single for seven months now.

00:25:15.280 Okay.

00:25:15.500 I, my longest relationship was probably like a year and a half-ish.

00:25:23.880 Was it on again, off again?

00:25:25.360 Yeah.

00:25:25.780 Okay.

00:25:26.000 How many times off?

00:25:27.720 Three.

00:25:28.500 Three?

00:25:28.960 Who would initiate?

00:25:30.060 Um, me.

00:25:31.400 Who would initiate to get back?

00:25:34.140 Mutual.

00:25:34.860 Mutual.

00:25:35.460 Okay.

00:25:36.040 What were the reasons for the off? 1.00

00:25:37.580 Um, the first time he cheated on me, um, fuck that guy. 0.99

00:25:44.060 Uh, this is a funny story. 1.00

00:25:46.900 Um, I was at my sister's wedding.

00:25:49.720 It was two days before my birthday and I told him I loved him and he cheated on me that

00:25:55.600 night.

00:25:56.020 Oh, hell no.

00:25:58.980 Yeah.

00:25:59.840 Yeah. 1.00

00:26:00.600 Shit. 1.00

00:26:01.600 And, um, then the second time he thought I cheated on him. 1.00

00:26:07.620 Did you?

00:26:09.640 No.

00:26:10.400 Okay.

00:26:10.840 And then the third time he really pissed me off.

00:26:14.860 So I gave him a letter and made him read it in front of me and told him he couldn't speak

00:26:18.880 until he finished reading it.

00:26:20.740 And that was it.

00:26:21.800 Do you have a copy of the letter?

00:26:23.700 Probably.

00:26:24.540 Like, was it?

00:26:25.820 It was a handwritten letter, but I took a picture.

00:26:27.920 You have a picture?

00:26:29.020 Probably.

00:26:29.580 Can we read that?

00:26:32.020 Probably.

00:26:32.640 You can, like, if I could find it.

00:26:34.480 Yeah.

00:26:34.940 Can we get her a phone? 0.87

00:26:35.920 Why not?

00:26:36.460 Get her the phone. 0.96

00:26:36.780 If I could find it, I'll read it.

00:26:38.280 Let's go.

00:26:38.820 It's a maroon case and it has, like, edges.

00:26:42.420 Like, yes.

00:26:43.520 And if you, you can omit, like, if it says his name in it or whatever, just omit it.

00:26:47.780 Um, while you're getting that, what's your relationship status?

00:26:51.520 Um, I'm in a relationship.

00:26:53.280 Okay.

00:26:53.600 How long have you been in that?

00:26:55.200 Uh, almost a year now.

00:26:56.420 All right.

00:26:57.440 One year.

00:26:57.920 Longest relationship?

00:26:59.180 Uh, like, close to five.

00:27:01.540 Like, four or five years.

00:27:02.940 Ever married?

00:27:04.020 No.

00:27:05.300 Ever engaged?

00:27:06.620 No.

00:27:07.420 Any kids?

00:27:08.380 Yes, I have one.

00:27:09.480 One kid.

00:27:10.000 Is that from the five-year relationship?

00:27:12.360 No.

00:27:12.820 I had my son when I was 19 and his father died to...

00:27:17.060 Sorry, died of what?

00:27:18.300 Uh, MRSA.

00:27:19.160 He had a staph infection. 1.00

00:27:20.580 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:27:21.300 How did he get it? 1.00

00:27:22.540 Um, so he had got, um, surgery in his eye at the hospital because he got glass in it.

00:27:27.700 And then he died two days later from a staph infection.

00:27:30.940 From the, was it, do you think it was from the hospital or from the glass getting in his eye?

00:27:35.660 Um, uh, so I started to, like, kind of look and do some research.

00:27:39.160 And one of the main places that people get staph infections in MRSA is actually from hospitals.

00:27:45.060 So...

00:27:45.180 I'm so sorry.

00:27:46.200 I'm so sorry.

00:27:47.020 But I was, like, so young, so I didn't even think about, like, malpractice or wrongful death or things like that.

00:27:53.180 So, um, but my son's 11 now, so...

00:27:56.060 How's he doing?

00:27:57.180 He's great.

00:27:58.400 It's actually, it's been very interesting.

00:27:59.960 My son actually had a stroke two years ago, too.

00:28:02.320 Oh, my God.

00:28:02.840 Oh, my goodness.

00:28:04.420 At nine, your son had a stroke?

00:28:06.300 Yeah.

00:28:06.540 He had a brain aneurysm, an AVM. 1.00

00:28:08.780 Oh, holy shit. 0.99

00:28:10.260 So I've had a very interesting, uh, life. 0.98

00:28:13.340 Very interesting.

00:28:15.220 Wow.

00:28:15.760 I guess the lesson is, don't go to the hospital.

00:28:19.600 Never go to the hospital.

00:28:20.840 You got a glass in your eye, you gotta lose the eye, I guess.

00:28:23.320 I don't know.

00:28:23.520 That's crazy, though.

00:28:24.220 Sorry to hear about that.

00:28:25.100 No, it's okay.

00:28:26.480 Okay.

00:28:27.180 Son 11, uh, and then you've been in a one-year relationship.

00:28:31.520 Wait, the five-year relationship?

00:28:33.620 How long had you been dating the guy, uh, who had your son?

00:28:38.020 Or you had, who had, who you had your son with?

00:28:41.360 So I, I actually, so I was like 18, 19.

00:28:44.760 He was like 22 or something like that.

00:28:46.640 And I was dating him for like two months before I ended up getting pregnant.

00:28:50.320 Okay.

00:28:50.740 So pretty early on.

00:28:52.060 Yeah.

00:28:52.440 Yeah.

00:28:52.740 And then we, and then we were like on and off and very toxic up until he died, honestly. 0.99

00:28:59.660 Damn. 0.98

00:29:00.820 It's like, you know, funny, uh, what is it? 1.00

00:29:03.340 Uh, trauma, humor.

00:29:04.480 It's like not funny, but humor makes it better to deal with.

00:29:07.800 That's how you got it.

00:29:08.960 Yeah.

00:29:09.340 That's it.

00:29:09.800 All right.

00:29:10.520 Uh, what about you?

00:29:11.840 Or actually really quick.

00:29:12.780 Do you have, do you have it?

00:29:13.780 I'm getting there.

00:29:14.500 Okay.

00:29:14.700 I'm going to go to my notes app.

00:29:15.720 There's a lot in there.

00:29:17.080 Oh, not the notes app.

00:29:18.100 I'm currently single.

00:29:19.520 I've been single for like four years on and off dating.

00:29:22.800 My longest relationship, probably a year and a half.

00:29:26.780 All right.

00:29:28.520 What's your, uh, I saw you showed me your dating app profile before.

00:29:32.080 What's your orientation?

00:29:35.060 Um, so it's kind of weird.

00:29:38.380 I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I am with women, but I do like men emotionally.

00:29:42.880 And that's why my last, my last relationship was with a man and he broke up with me because,

00:29:48.500 um, I wasn't physically attracted to him in that way.

00:29:53.440 Um, so I don't really, I think I'm more homosexual just because of sexuality of it.

00:29:58.500 But, um, I guess you would say Demi, um, emotional, um, connection.

00:30:05.000 Mm-hmm.

00:30:05.920 Uh, the, your longest relationship, the one and a half year one, was that with a man or

00:30:09.860 a woman? 0.80

00:30:10.580 It was with a man.

00:30:11.440 With a man.

00:30:11.940 Okay.

00:30:12.160 Uh, have you had a long-term relationship with any women?

00:30:16.460 No.

00:30:17.840 Okay.

00:30:18.240 And so you said you're not sexually attracted to men.

00:30:21.760 Correct.

00:30:22.600 I see.

00:30:23.320 Okay.

00:30:23.620 You're sexually attracted to women, but you, is it, you said you prefer the relationship

00:30:30.060 component with the man?

00:30:32.340 Well, I'll put it this way.

00:30:34.260 I have a lot of guy friends only because for me, it's easier to get along with them.

00:30:39.140 Um, they're a little more laid back.

00:30:40.980 Um, they don't really cause drama.

00:30:43.500 Um, however, I am physically and emotionally and all that attracted to women. 0.55

00:30:48.080 Um, if I could, I think that's probably why, why I struggle with dating only because I

00:30:56.720 really don't know where I stand.

00:30:58.040 So, um, but I do enjoy the company of whoever is around me, I guess.

00:31:04.880 By the way, are your glasses prescription?

00:31:06.820 Yes, they are.

00:31:07.300 Okay.

00:31:07.740 All right.

00:31:08.540 What's the correction level?

00:31:09.880 Is it bad?

00:31:10.500 It's really bad.

00:31:11.900 All right.

00:31:12.300 So you know what about you?

00:31:13.380 Um, I've been single.

00:31:14.960 Well, I'm single right now.

00:31:16.200 I've been single for about two years and my longest was about two years.

00:31:20.960 All right.

00:31:21.380 Longest two years.

00:31:22.460 Who broke up with who?

00:31:23.720 I broke up with him.

00:31:25.560 All right.

00:31:27.720 Rock and roll.

00:31:28.600 Uh, do you have it?

00:31:29.860 I cannot find it.

00:31:30.480 You found it.

00:31:31.180 Come on.

00:31:31.540 You just don't want to read it.

00:31:32.600 I can tell you the gist of it.

00:31:34.060 Yeah, sure.

00:31:34.480 We can do that.

00:31:35.100 Um, also, why don't we, uh, pass the phone down that way and Nick can retake it.

00:31:40.180 All right.

00:31:40.700 Go ahead.

00:31:41.020 Um, so essentially he would get mad at me a lot.

00:31:46.240 Like every single day, examples, um, I would be taking a nap and he would say, solo, I can't 0.93

00:31:53.180 fucking do this right now. 0.93

00:31:54.400 I can't do this with you anymore. 0.99

00:31:55.780 You're not answering me.

00:31:56.900 And I would be like, bro, I literally took a nap.

00:31:59.520 And another time I was updating my phone and my life 360 turned off because I was updating

00:32:06.700 my phone and he, he texted me after, like I saw after it updated and he was like, I can't 0.95

00:32:16.380 fucking do this. 0.99

00:32:17.160 You're cheating on me, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:32:19.840 And I was like, I literally have been home watching a movie with my mommy and I, I don't

00:32:27.020 know what to tell you.

00:32:27.820 He was just really insecure and I told him that and I told him I didn't like that.

00:32:32.580 And, um, he also really liked to be right.

00:32:36.420 Like a lot, all the time.

00:32:37.820 He was always right.

00:32:39.460 And that pissed me off really bad.

00:32:43.880 So those were the things he did bad in terms of the letter that you had him write or sorry.

00:32:50.180 Oh, I explained that.

00:32:51.140 Excuse me.

00:32:52.020 Yeah.

00:32:52.560 Oh yeah.

00:32:53.140 Yeah.

00:32:53.280 So how long, like how long did it, did he actually read it?

00:32:56.000 He actually read it.

00:32:56.980 It took him about seven minutes.

00:32:58.920 Did he read it out loud?

00:33:00.040 Like Dr. Seuss or was it in his brain?

00:33:02.080 It was in his brain because he was crying.

00:33:04.040 So he had to, he was crying while reading the letter.

00:33:09.340 Yeah.

00:33:10.260 I hope he has asked to use this letter.

00:33:15.640 Wow.

00:33:16.280 Um, cool.

00:33:17.260 Can I interject that he's also like not cute enough to be acting this way?

00:33:22.320 Not cute enough?

00:33:23.680 Yeah.

00:33:24.100 He's not anything.

00:33:25.200 How tall is he?

00:33:26.240 Oh wait, no, that's, that's not the one you know.

00:33:28.480 Oh, it's a different one.

00:33:30.200 There's been multiple letters.

00:33:32.060 Yeah.

00:33:33.200 That's how I break up with people.

00:33:34.960 You give them a letter.

00:33:36.740 I write, I handwrite them a letter and I give it to them.

00:33:39.080 Wow. 1.00

00:33:39.620 Damn. 1.00

00:33:39.980 How many times have you done the letter thing? 1.00

00:33:42.160 Twice, but.

00:33:43.000 Okay.

00:33:43.860 That's going to be your go-to move.

00:33:45.020 Yeah.

00:33:45.400 I kind of like that.

00:33:46.400 Yeah.

00:33:46.920 I like it.

00:33:47.480 I like jotting that down.

00:33:48.220 Because then they won't interrupt you and you get to get all your thoughts out.

00:33:53.560 You're not overstimulated or anything and they can keep it if they're really butthurt.

00:33:58.440 That's smart.

00:33:59.180 What's those things called where somebody goes to your, you can hire a service and then they

00:34:04.020 can deliver a message.

00:34:04.840 Like a hitman?

00:34:05.400 Like a telegram.

00:34:06.280 What is that called?

00:34:06.920 Like a hitman?

00:34:08.040 Yes, a hitman.

00:34:09.240 Like a server?

00:34:10.440 Like where they serve.

00:34:11.760 No, no, it's a.

00:34:12.900 A messenger?

00:34:14.340 Like a pigeon?

00:34:15.260 But they'll read it.

00:34:16.280 A scroll?

00:34:17.080 A scroll?

00:34:17.720 Oh! 0.60

00:34:18.520 A scribe!

00:34:19.260 A scribe.

00:34:19.780 No.

00:34:20.220 A scribe.

00:34:20.500 Those are people that write things.

00:34:21.780 Like a telegram.

00:34:22.540 It would be a scroll.

00:34:23.120 Is it a telegram?

00:34:24.140 I think it's a telegram.

00:34:25.440 I think you should step it up to the telegram instead.

00:34:27.860 Yeah, have them sing a song.

00:34:29.660 But then you don't get to watch the pain and fear in their eyes.

00:34:33.380 A singing telegram.

00:34:34.720 Pigeon.

00:34:35.420 Break up via pigeon.

00:34:36.320 Sent one of my friends to do it.

00:34:37.780 Oh, yeah.

00:34:38.120 Hey, hey, hey.

00:34:39.080 Guys, guys, guys, guys.

00:34:39.220 Guys, guys, guys.

00:34:39.540 Just one at a time.

00:34:40.380 Oh, sorry.

00:34:40.880 It's okay.

00:34:42.240 Oh, what?

00:34:43.120 Oops.

00:34:43.660 I'm really confused.

00:34:45.100 You were talking?

00:34:47.080 Oh, I almost sent one of my friends.

00:34:49.080 Well, for my last boyfriend, not the one that I just told you about, but my last boyfriend,

00:34:53.760 I was like, hey, can we hang out?

00:34:57.280 And this was before we broke up, and he was completely avoiding me, and I was literally

00:35:00.860 just going to show up to his house and hand his mom the letter because he's such a mommy's

00:35:05.040 boy.

00:35:06.960 Clock it.

00:35:07.440 Wow.

00:35:07.940 Okay.

00:35:09.060 Tea.

00:35:10.160 All right.

00:35:11.260 I got so much of that.

00:35:13.620 One sec, guys.

00:35:14.660 We have a chat coming through here.

00:35:16.180 Sorry for the delay on this.

00:35:18.220 Just a couple minute delay.

00:35:19.740 We have Mr. Nobody.

00:35:21.580 Thank you for the TTS.

00:35:23.860 Oh, my gosh.

00:35:24.300 Mr. Nobody donated $200.

00:35:27.420 Lexi Lovelace, when you walk in, do guys fall for you, or do they just trip over their

00:35:33.380 own pickup lines?

00:35:35.180 They can fall or fumble all they want.

00:35:38.020 I just know I'm lucky enough to say you've got my heart.

00:35:40.900 Thank you, Mr. Nobody.

00:35:44.060 I appreciate you so much.

00:35:46.000 We have a rule.

00:35:46.960 If you send in a simpish TTS, you have to send in another one as an apology for simping.

00:35:55.280 So, Mr. Nobody, you need to, and we'll, you know, if you want to do champagne pop, we'll

00:35:59.140 accept that too.

00:36:01.120 We'll dedicate it to Lexi here, your crush, I guess.

00:36:03.980 Do you know this guy in person, or is he?

00:36:06.120 He's a retweet guy, a reply guy on my socials.

00:36:11.940 Oh, okay.

00:36:12.420 He shares a lot of love with me, and your love never goes unnoticed, so thank you.

00:36:17.240 All right.

00:36:17.900 Rock and roll.

00:36:18.900 Rock and roll.

00:36:19.720 All right.

00:36:20.480 We're going to get into the show notes.

00:36:22.980 So, here's what we're going to do.

00:36:24.920 Actually, you know what?

00:36:25.740 Hold on one sec.

00:36:26.700 Rock, we have smoothies.

00:36:33.360 They're coming.

00:36:34.080 Right.

00:36:34.340 They're coming.

00:36:34.460 I was just about to say.

00:36:36.280 All right.

00:36:37.180 This next segment is called, we're introducing a new one here, red flag, green flag.

00:36:41.860 Oh.

00:36:42.300 I'm going to read to you 10 different things, and you're going to, we're going to go around

00:36:46.620 the table one by one, or you know what?

00:36:48.700 Maybe should we do a hand raise simultaneously? 0.68

00:36:51.660 Yeah.

00:36:52.020 I think we'll just do a hand raise simultaneously.

00:36:56.000 Felicity.

00:36:56.700 Yeah.

00:36:57.600 All right.

00:36:58.640 So, raise your hand.

00:37:00.400 Raise your hand if you think the following is a red flag.

00:37:04.920 So, if you don't raise your hand, I guess that's either neutral or green flag.

00:37:10.200 He's 30 and still lives with his parents.

00:37:15.640 Raise your hand if it's a red flag.

00:37:17.680 No?

00:37:18.840 You're fine?

00:37:19.500 You're fine with it?

00:37:20.020 Yeah, I'm okay with it.

00:37:21.540 Okay.

00:37:23.440 Actually.

00:37:24.360 You're fine?

00:37:25.440 You're fine with it?

00:37:25.740 I think it depends.

00:37:27.220 Depends on the situation.

00:37:28.500 I have red flag.

00:37:29.520 Red flag.

00:37:30.240 Okay.

00:37:31.640 He has no Instagram at all.

00:37:34.940 Red flag or green flag?

00:37:38.300 Green flag?

00:37:39.120 Okay.

00:37:40.340 No Instagram.

00:37:41.740 I don't think it matters.

00:37:43.260 I don't think that has any relevance.

00:37:44.740 I love a man that has no Instagram.

00:37:46.360 Right?

00:37:46.700 I love that.

00:37:47.520 That's hot.

00:37:48.100 For the first question, did you mean, like, who he's following?

00:37:50.780 Is that what you had meant for the first question you said?

00:37:53.800 I think he meant living with.

00:37:55.560 No, he has no Instagram.

00:37:57.260 Oh, we have this coming in.

00:37:58.340 Oh, whoops.

00:37:59.240 Mike underscore it donated $200.

00:38:01.880 You messed that up.

00:38:02.640 Fit check.

00:38:03.140 My sprinkler goes like this.

00:38:11.780 Nice.

00:38:13.040 Still going.

00:38:13.860 Comes back like this.

00:38:15.220 Thank you, Mike Litt.

00:38:21.140 Appreciate it.

00:38:22.860 He asked for the fit check.

00:38:24.840 I guess we could do that super quick.

00:38:26.340 We have another one coming in.

00:38:29.000 Pasty George donated $200.

00:38:31.000 Simultaneous?

00:38:31.640 I guess we just do simultaneous fit check. 1.00

00:38:33.820 Don't be a pathetic sim. 1.00

00:38:35.340 Yep. 1.00

00:38:35.680 Pay the sim tax.

00:38:36.820 Well done, Pasty George. 0.97

00:38:37.920 Thank you for calling him out.

00:38:39.600 Pay the sim tax.

00:38:40.680 You got to send in another TTS.

00:38:42.200 That's what it is.

00:38:44.640 Mike, it's one of those names.

00:38:47.720 Okay.

00:38:48.960 We'll do a fit check simultaneous.

00:38:50.700 If everybody just wants to stand up, show the fit.

00:38:55.720 All right.

00:38:56.360 Fit incoming.

00:38:58.200 There it is.

00:38:59.460 Fit.

00:39:01.580 There's the fit.

00:39:02.880 Wow.

00:39:03.380 Great fit.

00:39:04.220 Amazing.

00:39:04.900 Best I've ever seen.

00:39:07.220 Anybody want to do, like, a spin?

00:39:09.280 Everybody do a spin.

00:39:10.760 I don't think I have room to spin.

00:39:12.480 No room to spin.

00:39:13.360 Okay.

00:39:13.860 I don't have room to spin.

00:39:14.920 All right.

00:39:15.380 No spinning room.

00:39:16.500 There you go.

00:39:17.120 Mike underscore lit.

00:39:19.440 Thank you for that.

00:39:20.040 Appreciate it.

00:39:21.100 And then we have Aria.

00:39:22.620 Looks like you bought a piece of merch.

00:39:24.660 Whoops.

00:39:24.840 I messed that up.

00:39:25.460 Hold on.

00:39:25.940 Let's see if this comes through.

00:39:28.360 Aria.

00:39:28.840 Thank you for the purchase there.

00:39:31.980 It looks like you got a T-shirt on a merch shop.

00:39:33.840 Shop.whatever.com.

00:39:34.740 Thank you.

00:39:35.380 If you guys want to get yourself one, feel free to go to shop.whatever.com.

00:39:39.020 Get yourself a T-shirt.

00:39:39.760 All right.

00:39:40.780 Back to the red flag, green flag.

00:39:42.640 Okay.

00:39:43.120 He asks to split the bill on the first date.

00:39:48.260 Raise your hands if that's a red flag.

00:39:50.300 Can I stand up?

00:39:51.460 Yeah.

00:39:51.800 Go ahead.

00:39:52.200 Stand up again.

00:39:52.820 She's doing a second fit check. 0.96

00:39:54.340 Boom.

00:39:54.960 That's how big.

00:39:55.820 That's how big I think it is.

00:39:57.560 Watch out.

00:39:58.100 Elon Musk got in trouble for doing that.

00:39:59.960 I'm just kidding.

00:40:00.420 Okay.

00:40:01.100 Whoa.

00:40:02.100 Whoa.

00:40:02.920 Whoa.

00:40:04.300 All right.

00:40:04.980 Um, next one.

00:40:09.380 He owns a podcast.

00:40:12.540 I have a podcast.

00:40:15.400 He has a podcast.

00:40:17.340 I love Gary Breka.

00:40:21.300 I think you're a little bit too much of like a, like a little drama.

00:40:25.480 Like if you own a podcast, like you're too much of a drama queen.

00:40:29.500 You're a drama queen.

00:40:30.540 Okay.

00:40:30.760 I think it depends on what the podcast is.

00:40:32.760 Gossip girl.

00:40:33.140 Yeah.

00:40:33.400 I like gossip.

00:40:34.080 Yeah.

00:40:35.180 There you have it folks. 0.75

00:40:36.680 He's a gym rat.

00:40:37.740 That and posts shirtless pics daily. 0.79

00:40:41.260 Red flag?

00:40:42.800 Yeah.

00:40:43.100 For me?

00:40:44.820 Like we're for like a girl.

00:40:47.480 Red flag.

00:40:48.080 For you.

00:40:48.440 Every single day is extensive.

00:40:51.140 Every day.

00:40:51.540 It's excessive.

00:40:52.120 I mean.

00:40:52.500 Yeah.

00:40:53.000 Yeah.

00:40:53.140 That's wrong.

00:40:53.940 Why?

00:40:54.440 I want to see them.

00:40:56.140 Yeah.

00:40:56.760 Send them to me.

00:40:58.220 Don't like that.

00:40:59.420 Why?

00:41:01.480 It kind of grosses me out when they send them to me.

00:41:04.100 I'm kind of like, oh, I can see you making this like face.

00:41:08.300 And also like imagining them like taking the picture.

00:41:11.520 I'm just like.

00:41:11.900 They have to show the camera and tie it.

00:41:13.020 They don't set it up.

00:41:13.980 Yeah.

00:41:14.140 No, especially, you know, when they like roll up their shorts and like they like flex their

00:41:20.080 thighs and you're just like, I would rather die than ever see this photo ever again. 0.63

00:41:25.320 Like.

00:41:25.980 Okay.

00:41:26.560 We're going to rapid fire the rest.

00:41:28.240 All right.

00:41:28.840 My bad.

00:41:29.380 He uses Snapchat.

00:41:31.040 Red flag.

00:41:31.460 Uses Snapchat.

00:41:33.040 Depends on the age.

00:41:34.420 Yeah.

00:41:34.900 Red flag.

00:41:35.880 The age of the guy that you would date.

00:41:37.440 Yes.

00:41:38.760 Yes.

00:41:39.080 Okay.

00:41:39.520 He claps when the plane lands.

00:41:42.080 That's kind of cute.

00:41:43.380 That's adorable.

00:41:44.020 That's cute.

00:41:44.760 Yeah.

00:41:45.080 That's kind of cute.

00:41:45.400 I'm like funny.

00:41:46.140 I don't know.

00:41:46.660 All right.

00:41:47.700 He uses way too many emojis.

00:41:50.560 I like that.

00:41:51.280 That's nice.

00:41:52.580 Never enough emojis.

00:41:54.240 I mean, this is sort of targeted towards these guys, but if a girl uses too many emojis, 0.82

00:41:59.780 red flag.

00:42:00.800 Huge red flag.

00:42:01.720 Why?

00:42:01.940 Why?

00:42:02.500 Why?

00:42:02.620 You've never, like, when it's in between words, like it's emoji, like a couple words,

00:42:12.400 and then there's another emoji, words, emoji, words, emoji, words. 0.62

00:42:17.560 That person is crazy. 0.66

00:42:19.640 Trust me. 0.99

00:42:20.740 Something's not right there.

00:42:21.900 I'm like going through. 1.00

00:42:22.720 Why you do that shit, Sina? 1.00

00:42:23.820 I bet you. 1.00

00:42:24.260 I don't. 1.00

00:42:25.740 Sina does that shit. 1.00

00:42:26.960 I don't. 1.00

00:42:32.820 It's a red flag.

00:42:33.820 Massive red flag.

00:42:35.700 Let's see.

00:42:37.720 He says, I don't believe in therapy.

00:42:40.860 Oh, my God.

00:42:41.700 Is that a red flag?

00:42:42.760 Red flag.

00:42:43.400 Red flag.

00:42:44.500 She's.

00:42:45.240 I don't think that's a red flag.

00:42:46.840 Not a red flag.

00:42:47.520 I mean, like, when you say don't believe in therapy, do you mean, like, don't believe

00:42:51.960 in resolving your issues or don't believe in needing someone else to resolve your issues?

00:42:55.800 Probably that one.

00:42:56.920 No.

00:42:57.080 The second one?

00:42:57.800 Because I personally don't, like, agree with therapy.

00:43:01.820 Personally.

00:43:02.340 Not as a whole.

00:43:03.100 I think it's great for everyone.

00:43:04.740 But, like, I wouldn't.

00:43:05.580 What is the psychiatrist, future psychiatrist?

00:43:07.440 Oh, yeah.

00:43:07.880 Think about that.

00:43:08.460 I totally respect that.

00:43:09.920 Yeah.

00:43:10.120 I 100%.

00:43:10.700 I think that it's a personal preference.

00:43:12.960 I think that, like, there's a type of something that can be useful to everyone.

00:43:18.020 But that doesn't mean, like, sitting in a room and talking to a therapist all the time.

00:43:22.880 You know?

00:43:24.080 I think it's silly to say that it's for everyone.

00:43:27.420 Can I say something?

00:43:28.160 Yeah.

00:43:28.400 Go ahead.

00:43:28.620 I feel like if you're constantly going through a pattern in life where you're running into

00:43:36.420 the same issues time after time after time again and you yourself are, like, talking to

00:43:42.220 friends or family and you're, like, this is going on in my life and everything sucks and 0.61

00:43:46.820 is so shitty, I feel like then that could be a good tool to have a professional step in

00:43:52.280 and, like, voice your thoughts and your opinions to a professional versus voicing those thoughts 0.92

00:43:57.240 to, like, a friend or a family because sometimes you need somebody else to kind of, like, call

00:44:02.460 you out for that pattern and that behavior, you know what I mean?

00:44:05.820 So sometimes it can help somebody and sometimes it won't.

00:44:10.160 It's just depending on where you are within yourself to seek that help or that guidance

00:44:14.280 from others, you know?

00:44:15.940 Can I interject?

00:44:17.040 Go ahead.

00:44:17.880 I think men who don't go to therapy have a lot of inner stress, a lot of anger, and a

00:44:23.100 lot of things that can resolve because society tells them that no man can talk about it.

00:44:28.980 And that's why a lot of men end up in jail.

00:44:31.360 That's why most men end up addicts.

00:44:33.040 That's why most men are.

00:44:34.480 It's because society is telling them, you don't need to go see a therapist.

00:44:38.040 It is bad.

00:44:39.240 Right.

00:44:39.600 I don't think men are ending up in jail because of their lack of going to therapy.

00:44:46.200 Well, that's not what I'm saying.

00:44:47.000 What I'm saying is anger.

00:44:48.480 That's the only anger they express because that's the only anger that society seems as

00:44:52.740 necessary for them to feel.

00:44:54.420 I'm not saying lack of therapy will resort in jail or prison time, but I'm saying it could

00:44:58.880 definitely help them keep them out of it.

00:45:00.520 Wait, do you genuinely think that, like, would you agree that the cohort of people that

00:45:05.380 go to prison or jail, do you think they have the socioeconomics to be able to afford therapy?

00:45:13.920 No.

00:45:14.580 No, probably not.

00:45:15.760 Typically, people in prison and jail are really low in terms of socioeconomic class.

00:45:22.040 They don't have the resources to go to therapy.

00:45:23.860 That's the problem.

00:45:24.680 And one other thing I want to mention, I agree with what you're saying because it's like,

00:45:28.660 in society, we've built these walls up for men not to be able to seek those resources and

00:45:33.000 help.

00:45:33.220 And so as a society, how I think that we can help that is being able to hold space for the

00:45:37.980 men that do suffer with severe mental health issues or problems so that we can kind of 0.98

00:45:43.080 counteract that stigma of, hey, mental health sucks, you should be a man, suck it up, and 0.57

00:45:48.280 actually seek that help with somebody that's trusted in a safe environment for them to be 0.98

00:45:52.580 able to share that.

00:45:53.880 Yeah.

00:45:54.240 Plus, men being able to talk about how they feel is actually a more powerful thing.

00:45:58.680 Like, being vulnerable is a good thing.

00:46:00.300 I was going to say, I think, yes, Brian, get in tune with your emotions, Brian.

00:46:05.120 I think a man who's, if a man can come to me and tell me how he feels in general or to

00:46:10.360 me, that to me is like the strongest thing you can do.

00:46:14.040 Well, let me, let's test this out.

00:46:16.120 Let's test this out, though.

00:46:18.220 First date, the guy cries.

00:46:20.280 That's different.

00:46:21.300 That's different.

00:46:22.080 You don't cry to a girlfriend that you meet.

00:46:24.600 That is different. 0.99

00:46:24.960 Like, I don't, I didn't meet solo and start fucking crying. 0.99

00:46:28.160 Like, that would be emotionally vulnerable. 0.99

00:46:30.640 That'd be weird.

00:46:30.960 Yeah, but that's going to say, so like, so, hold on one second.

00:46:34.700 You know it.

00:46:35.160 So, if you're coming to me as a partner and you're like, on the first date, you're getting

00:46:38.400 a little too vulnerable, I'd be like, that's too soon.

00:46:41.560 Just like me and you and with anybody at this table to trauma dump anything on you guys,

00:46:45.920 it would be way too soon.

00:46:47.160 Sure.

00:46:47.460 But if you're in a relationship with somebody and you want to build that authentic connection

00:46:51.880 where you're able to, like, hold that space and create vulnerability with your

00:46:56.760 partner in longevity, you know what I mean?

00:47:00.000 Yes, you don't have to be at a restaurant and be like, oh my God, crying and, like, letting

00:47:04.180 all those emotions out.

00:47:05.200 But when you're able to express your emotions in a positive way, just simply communicating

00:47:12.320 just like this to your partner, that's different.

00:47:15.080 You know what I mean?

00:47:15.740 Being able to talk to your partner and be vulnerable and be like, hey, I don't like

00:47:19.440 this.

00:47:20.060 I don't agree with this.

00:47:21.420 This makes me feel some type of way versus being, like, crying or screaming.

00:47:24.920 Because when you start to bring in those negative emotions, that's when that's not

00:47:28.680 cute.

00:47:29.220 And it's like, you know what I mean?

00:47:31.680 Well, when we're talking about vulnerability, so you're just saying the guy has a base level

00:47:37.520 of problem solving and communication, I guess you guys will have to specify what you mean

00:47:46.160 when you say men should be vulnerable.

00:47:48.700 Emotional intelligence.

00:47:50.280 What does that mean, though?

00:47:51.280 What is emotional intelligence?

00:47:52.360 It means to be able to regulate your emotions, talk about it, be able to communicate, analyze

00:47:58.860 the problem.

00:47:59.300 What's an example?

00:47:59.700 Give me an example.

00:48:00.680 Being emotionally regulated means being able to, A, identify the emotion that you're having.

00:48:07.560 Once you identify the emotion that you're having, you can, B, start to say, okay, how

00:48:12.120 does this emotion resonate with me and how I'm feeling?

00:48:15.080 Where do I feel this emotion?

00:48:16.600 That would be three.

00:48:17.200 Where do I feel this emotion inside my body?

00:48:19.700 And how can I actively process that and vocalize that to the group of people that I'm speaking

00:48:25.300 with instead of being like, hey, I'm pissed off.

00:48:28.540 I'm upset.

00:48:29.280 Because as soon as you're activated and your amygdala is activated, you can't calm down and

00:48:35.020 relax yourself.

00:48:35.760 So if you're able to recognize a pattern within yourself of being like, hey, this person said

00:48:41.180 something to me, you upset me, I don't agree with what you said, and you're able to analyze

00:48:46.220 that and be like, well, why would that trigger me?

00:48:49.420 And, you know, go within and seek within.

00:48:53.580 You can get a lot of answers for that.

00:48:56.200 I'm going to respond in just a moment, but Mr. Nobody has paid the SIM tax.

00:49:01.100 Thank you, man.

00:49:01.820 Appreciate it.

00:49:02.380 Mr. Nobody donated $200.

00:49:05.820 All right, Lexi, I'll admit it that I've been simping.

00:49:09.360 But don't worry, I paid the SIM tax, compliments up front, loyalty in full, and maybe a coffee.

00:49:16.540 So yeah, call it Simp Energy, but it's all invested in you.

00:49:20.320 Thank you.

00:49:21.240 You guys are so sweet.

00:49:22.340 Thank you for supporting me.

00:49:24.500 All right, cool.

00:49:25.400 Thank you, Mr. Nobody, for the TTS.

00:49:28.160 Well, I think what you're describing is just healthy communication styles.

00:49:31.380 I guess I'm looking for an example of a scenario in which a man would be hesitant to be vulnerable,

00:49:39.740 but he should be vulnerable.

00:49:41.960 Go ahead.

00:49:42.900 During funerals, a lot of men, well, not a lot, but I guess I'd say a lot,

00:49:49.720 do kind of don't show emotions during time of death and grieving.

00:49:54.540 Both my brothers, for example, you know, it's just men always say I have to be strong for my family, but sometimes...

00:50:03.540 What's wrong with that, though?

00:50:04.380 There's nothing wrong with that.

00:50:05.380 Okay.

00:50:05.600 Nothing at all.

00:50:06.280 But what I'm saying is sometimes it's okay to let go because if it's the other way around, let's say it's like the man's mom or dad, you know,

00:50:14.260 and the woman has to be there to comfort them, it is okay to not be okay, and that goes for all sexes. 1.00

00:50:22.000 It doesn't just apply to women. 1.00

00:50:23.140 It doesn't apply to men.

00:50:24.860 Women shouldn't be so emotional, and men shouldn't be so emotionless, and it's really the idea of it.

00:50:31.000 Balance.

00:50:32.180 Exactly.

00:50:32.660 Well, I think you're using a very easy example there.

00:50:36.940 I don't think even other men would find fault in somebody having a moment of vulnerability or even crying in a funeral,

00:50:43.900 although I would say it depends who.

00:50:47.880 If you're parents or something, I think that's totally justified for a man to cry. 0.99

00:50:54.620 Under those circumstances, what kind of funeral are we talking about here, though?

00:50:59.200 Like, what's the distinction when it comes to who's the relative?

00:51:05.840 The mother of the boyfriend or the mother, I mean, the father of the boyfriend, just somebody on your spouse's family.

00:51:17.060 Like, some people aren't close to their in-laws.

00:51:19.520 Yeah, I'm totally fine if a man wants to cry because his mom or dad died.

00:51:24.800 That seems justifiable to me.

00:51:26.320 Well, what I'm saying, after the fact, though, you know, some men, you know, okay, yeah, the funeral's over, burial's over,

00:51:31.660 but then after the fact, grieving is a long process.

00:51:34.800 There's, like, ten stages of it, and sometimes men don't, that's why going to therapy would be beneficial in this case 0.71

00:51:42.260 because to help them through the grieving process instead of just having one emotion, which is I'm angry at the world,

00:51:48.680 I hate God or so forth.

00:51:51.800 I mean, I work with men and women all day, and men go in there and say I've never got the chance to grieve it

00:51:58.140 because I just, and that's why they're in my rehab center, you know what I'm saying?

00:52:02.980 So, there's a lot of things that, I mean, essay abuse and things like that that happen in young boys,

00:52:09.160 and they never, they're too afraid to come out and share what happened to them,

00:52:13.380 and that's why they end up, you know, where they end up without the help of therapy or a counselor

00:52:18.360 or somebody just supporting that level.

00:52:20.620 Well, I think there are practical applications to therapy for specific things.

00:52:23.980 If you're actually going to overcome a specific childhood trauma or perhaps you're dealing with, like, anxiety or panic attacks,

00:52:31.620 something like this, but sort of a generalized malaise, I don't think is, especially for men,

00:52:38.380 is effectively treated through therapy.

00:52:41.020 I think there's actually far better mechanisms for, you know, if you're just sort of vaguely unhappy,

00:52:47.840 vaguely dissatisfied, vaguely slightly depressed.

00:52:51.740 I don't really think therapy, especially for men, is helpful.

00:52:57.320 So, can I say something?

00:52:59.360 I think that you're speaking for, like, 4 billion people right now.

00:53:04.020 Yeah, I'm speaking in general.

00:53:05.500 I suppose there are some men who can talk about their, do talk therapy and it can help.

00:53:12.700 But generally speaking, I don't think, and I think statistics show this when they've polled people who are involved in therapy,

00:53:18.820 who do therapy, talk therapy is not particularly effective, especially for men.

00:53:24.040 Now, if you're trying to combat a specific thing, then yes, but, I mean, I can give you my own anecdotal experience.

00:53:30.100 And this is more so, like, when I've ever talked about an issue with, like, a parent or something,

00:53:34.360 there's something that's bothering me.

00:53:36.340 Oftentimes, I find talking about it just makes me more frustrated.

00:53:39.400 And I'd rather, and oftentimes, I've, in situations where I don't talk about it, a day, two days later,

00:53:46.900 I've already forgotten about the thing that was upsetting me.

00:53:49.900 I find it's just much more easy to just be like, is this really going to be an issue in a day or two?

00:53:56.600 Does that apply when the thing that made you upset is, like, another person who would like to talk about it?

00:54:01.500 What do you mean?

00:54:02.340 I mean, like, you're saying that instead of addressing the issue, you'd rather just, like, let it fade away from your brain?

00:54:07.560 Well, so if there's an interpersonal issue that needs to be resolved, that's different.

00:54:11.240 Oh, okay, so that's what I mean.

00:54:12.760 Yeah, I wouldn't stonewall a girlfriend in a relationship. 0.99

00:54:15.820 But if it's, like, more on an individual level, something's upsetting me or whatever.

00:54:20.880 I find it far more effective, like, you know, I recall when I was a bit younger, my parents would be like,

00:54:25.700 what's going on, Brian?

00:54:27.340 You want to talk about it?

00:54:28.220 And sometimes I would engage there, and I would just be ruminating while having the conversation about it.

00:54:35.100 And I'd just, it'd almost be, like, reliving the thing that made me upset.

00:54:39.760 And it would just get me upset.

00:54:41.520 And then there would be other times where they'd be like, hey, you want to talk about it?

00:54:44.020 And I'd be like, no, I'm good.

00:54:44.880 I just need some time alone.

00:54:47.520 And that was way better than just getting my parents all stressed out.

00:54:51.580 Oh, my God, he's upset, blah, blah, blah.

00:54:53.440 It's way better for me to just go and deal with it and just be like, eh, whatever.

00:54:57.480 But the other, really quick, and I'll let you make your point, I think the other thing is people claim to be depressed or whatever, dealing with something.

00:55:06.200 I think a lot of the time that's because their life circumstances aren't in check.

00:55:11.480 And going to therapy, wasting your time in therapy for your life circumstances, you're not going to really have an improvement in said life circumstances by talking to a therapist.

00:55:23.300 But you can, like, recognize that by talking to a therapist.

00:55:25.660 Well, for example, like, if I think, as a man, go get in really good shape.

00:55:33.320 You're on to something.

00:55:34.480 Hold on.

00:55:35.000 As a man, go, whatever, like, look, there's serious issues that I think seeing a professional is absolutely warranted.

00:55:42.540 But if you're, again, vaguely unhappy, vaguely depressed, go to the gym, cut out the drugs, the alcohol, eat healthy, get money.

00:55:58.180 And then if you do those things, get those things.

00:56:00.580 And then if you're still depressed afterwards, you've achieved the things you want to achieve, then maybe consider going to a therapist.

00:56:07.580 Yeah.

00:56:07.800 Okay. 0.99

00:56:07.960 But if you're just, like, eating like shit and you're just, you know, whatever, not in good shape. 0.99

00:56:12.720 Smoking all day. 1.00

00:56:13.480 You're doing drugs and drinking and, you know, your sleep's all fucked up. 0.98

00:56:17.580 No, definitely, like, correct your personal choices before you go and spend money. 0.99

00:56:21.040 Yeah.

00:56:22.300 Yeah.

00:56:23.540 Okay.

00:56:24.200 So you're statistically proven your body wants to go through whatever trauma, whatever negative emotion you have for 90 seconds.

00:56:32.180 So after you've processed it, so it's going back to what you were saying about how you were talking about it and then you want it to stop, like, you feel worse when you keep bringing it up.

00:56:40.340 Well, it's because your body processed it for 90 seconds and wants to get rid of that.

00:56:44.220 So it's, like, you talk about it, you've talked about it for 90 seconds, and then your body automatically wants to return back to homostasis.

00:56:51.840 So, like, if you're able to do that.

00:56:55.140 Wait, are you saying these conversations are 90 seconds?

00:56:57.780 Anytime I've ever had, like, a let's talk about our feelings conversation.

00:57:02.200 No, no, no, no.

00:57:02.220 I'm saying body mechanically, inside your body, I don't care what the conversation with or who it is,

00:57:08.560 your body naturally wants to get whatever was dysregulating your system.

00:57:14.020 It wants to process it for 90 seconds and then go back to homostasis where you're regular.

00:57:20.980 Right.

00:57:21.480 So if you continue to press the issue after 90 seconds and you're, like, of course it's going to heighten your senses because it's, like, your body is trying to get back to regular.

00:57:33.080 If that was the case, why aren't therapy sessions only 90 seconds?

00:57:38.900 I don't know.

00:57:39.720 So what I was saying is if you're not open to the idea of doing therapy, something that could be beneficial is lifestyle coaching.

00:57:48.080 Because we're not here to fix, save, or rescue you from any of your problems.

00:57:52.440 But we are here to integrate healthy lifestyle modalities into your life to be able to process those things.

00:57:59.300 So, like you mentioned, physical activity, breath work, sunlight, eating clean, all those things.

00:58:05.560 Like, oh, no, go ahead.

00:58:06.840 I was just going to agree with you.

00:58:07.880 No, yeah.

00:58:08.300 And so that's why I've decided to be in the integrative healing arts therapy because it's, like, that's what you're saying.

00:58:14.620 You can do all these things, like, get light, eat clean, and, you know, improve your mental health versus getting help from a therapist.

00:58:24.220 You know what I mean?

00:58:24.800 And these life coaches are just here to guide you.

00:58:27.500 They don't necessarily tell you what to do or they make plans for you to kind of, like, what you want to work on and tailor that to that.

00:58:35.760 You know what I mean?

00:58:36.580 So.

00:58:37.000 I have a response, but first we're going to let some chats come in.

00:58:40.460 GMD Gym donated $200.

00:58:42.420 Stop being our slurred. 0.64

00:58:45.320 There is no intelligence in emotions.

00:58:47.960 It is just the opposite. 1.00

00:58:49.920 Men, do not let 304s manipulate you into being weak and pathetic. 0.99

00:58:55.680 Be stoic. 1.00

00:58:56.740 Be a man, not a woman. 1.00

00:58:59.540 Jim, thank you for the TTS.

00:59:00.960 Lexi, can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table?

00:59:04.440 No, just to the edge of the table.

00:59:06.080 Yo, Jim, thank you for the TTS, man.

00:59:07.540 Appreciate it.

00:59:08.760 Look, I do think there is a lot of value when it comes to being stoic.

00:59:11.700 And then I do kind of want to quickly get back into, though, this idea of being vulnerable, especially in front of a girlfriend.

00:59:19.360 I don't think it's a good idea.

00:59:21.600 Don't think it's a good idea.

00:59:23.280 Now, sometimes it's inevitable.

00:59:24.780 But I do think it is the case that oftentimes women lose attraction for their partner when the man is vulnerable.

00:59:31.360 I think it depends on the level.

00:59:33.000 There's a line. 0.77

00:59:33.980 That's for immature women. 1.00

00:59:35.800 If you're, even as a woman, if you can't handle just hearing a man's point of thought, that's like a you thing. 0.65

00:59:42.560 Like, you got to at least be open to hearing your partner out.

00:59:46.580 Well, I think that I think even a very emotionally intelligent woman might run into something that just innately, regardless of your level of intelligence or IQ or EQ, you're going to witness a level of vulnerability in your partner that will give you. 0.56

01:00:02.340 If you're not able to manage it.

01:00:03.840 The ick.

01:00:04.940 If you're not able to manage it.

01:00:05.460 Now, let me give you an example here.

01:00:08.120 I, maybe I should, how do I preface this?

01:00:11.340 Has anybody here been dating a guy and he got beat up?

01:00:15.000 Like in a fight?

01:00:16.020 Yeah.

01:00:17.160 Oh, my God.

01:00:18.100 I would have to.

01:00:19.300 Have to what?

01:00:21.720 Say it.

01:00:22.560 Say it.

01:00:24.040 No, I thought about it and then I changed my mind.

01:00:27.240 Well, your knee-jerk reaction was just even picturing it in your head.

01:00:31.240 It sounds like you're going to say, you break up with the guy. 1.00

01:00:35.420 Well, but like, what was his idiot self doing that got him beat up? 1.00

01:00:38.840 Like, don't start a fight that you can't. 1.00

01:00:40.040 Maybe he didn't start it.

01:00:41.120 Okay, well, if it was just like he got jumped.

01:00:43.820 Like, he got jumped by like random people, I would not be unattractive.

01:00:46.860 Let's say it's a 1v1.

01:00:48.400 Oh, my God.

01:00:49.860 But even in that circumstance.

01:00:52.280 And he started the fight.

01:00:53.380 Even in that circumstance, I do think that not all women, but some women will look at

01:01:00.820 their boyfriend in this vulnerable state.

01:01:03.380 Yeah, but that's a them problem.

01:01:04.820 Not a problem that makes it so that men should act any certain way.

01:01:08.980 Yeah.

01:01:09.120 That's a good thing. 1.00

01:01:12.400 Well, I would say men should err on the side of, and just keep that shit to yourself. 1.00

01:01:20.520 That's the problem. 1.00

01:01:21.660 You're the problem.

01:01:22.140 No, no, no.

01:01:22.480 So, I'm speaking generally about vulnerability.

01:01:26.700 Generally about vulnerability.

01:01:28.360 If you want to like go whine to your girlfriend. 0.95

01:01:31.500 Like, for example, I'll know about some of y'all. 0.97

01:01:33.980 Just whine to your mom. 0.98

01:01:34.480 But I've...

01:01:35.240 No, I love it.

01:01:36.000 Tell me how you do.

01:01:37.040 I've gone through a lot of difficult things in my life.

01:01:39.240 Many difficult things.

01:01:40.620 It's never...

01:01:41.300 Even a girl I've been with for a long period of time.

01:01:44.240 It's never occurred to me to sit down, unless it comes up organically somehow in conversation,

01:01:50.580 to be like, okay, here's all the bad things that have happened to me.

01:01:55.600 If I care about you, I would never do that.

01:01:58.760 But if I care about you as a person, I would want to know how your day is going.

01:02:03.180 Exactly.

01:02:03.380 How are you sleeping?

01:02:04.340 Yeah.

01:02:04.500 What's keeping you up at night?

01:02:05.560 Like, what...

01:02:06.620 Like, you know what I mean?

01:02:07.320 Because I want to know you as a person.

01:02:09.620 So I could have the most terrible day ever.

01:02:11.540 And if my girlfriend asks me about it, I'd just be like, hey, it was good.

01:02:15.520 That's terrible.

01:02:16.180 I'm sorry.

01:02:16.820 I'm sorry.

01:02:17.540 Are you single?

01:02:18.780 Let's all apologize.

01:02:19.980 Yeah, that's why you're single.

01:02:21.360 We're sorry.

01:02:22.000 That's why you're single.

01:02:22.700 How many relationships?

01:02:23.580 No, but I don't...

01:02:24.540 Look, there's been...

01:02:25.760 No, that's...

01:02:26.440 I'm serious.

01:02:27.460 Hold on.

01:02:27.980 That's upsetting.

01:02:28.600 Sometimes I'll tell her some anecdotes.

01:02:31.800 No girl wants to be with you just to hear you...

01:02:35.240 I don't want you, like, on my lap.

01:02:36.800 Tell me about your day while I can talk to your hair.

01:02:39.420 This isn't...

01:02:40.300 Right.

01:02:40.960 I think that you're confusing, like, just, like, trauma-dumping your day and then, like,

01:02:45.220 communicating how you're feeling so that your partner can be aware of that and just...

01:02:49.380 If you're coming home...

01:02:50.620 Sometimes you just want to hug or just to be quiet a little bit.

01:02:53.180 We're going to let this come through.

01:02:54.560 Pasty George donated $200.

01:02:57.140 Thank you, man.

01:02:57.580 Appreciate it.

01:02:58.080 In Canada, residential school survivors had no resources for mental health.

01:03:02.680 There are finally resources today, but First Nations women do far better in therapy than 1.00

01:03:08.120 First Nations men.

01:03:11.080 So going back to my point here really quick, Pasty George, thank you for the TTS.

01:03:14.320 Much appreciated, man.

01:03:15.340 Thank you for the...

01:03:15.760 By the way, guys, reminder, super chats are busted, so you have to send it through Streamlabs.

01:03:20.520 Streamlabs.com slash whatever.

01:03:22.240 This comes back to the rumination thing. 0.97

01:03:25.320 And to be clear, sometimes, like, if some bullshit, you know, is going on, whatever, I might, 0.98

01:03:30.040 might relay it to the girl I'm dating. 0.98

01:03:33.240 But overall, generally speaking, even if I have a shitty day or there's some bullshit I 0.86

01:03:37.060 could relay to her, most of the time I'm just like, yeah, I'd rather not ruminate about 0.87

01:03:41.380 it.

01:03:41.580 I'd rather not have to explain it again.

01:03:43.640 But isn't you saying that...

01:03:45.060 Sir, I'm pretty sure that...

01:03:46.140 Wait.

01:03:46.400 Oh, wait, you go.

01:03:47.220 I was just going to say, isn't you, like, letting her know that that enough is still

01:03:52.060 expressing your feelings so that she can be aware that you had something happen that

01:03:55.800 day, whether you want to talk about it or not, so that she can cater to that, and that's

01:03:58.920 what, like...

01:03:59.880 She should be always catering to that to begin with. 0.80

01:04:03.300 But what does she promote it? 0.98

01:04:04.280 What do you actually talk about it?

01:04:05.160 I'm not going to agree with that.

01:04:06.160 Wait, do you, but when you have a boyfriend, all you talk about is the bad stuff that

01:04:10.020 happens to you?

01:04:10.180 No, absolutely not.

01:04:11.180 No, but it's important to...

01:04:12.260 Right, so then, what do I talk about?

01:04:13.700 All the stuff that I talk about that you wouldn't otherwise talk about that's not bad.

01:04:17.360 Talk about all the stuff that you normally talk about, plus...

01:04:21.100 Hey, this thing happened at work today.

01:04:23.240 If I'm a little grumpy or sad...

01:04:25.460 Here's a heads up.

01:04:26.260 Here's why.

01:04:27.040 Yeah, here's a good thing.

01:04:27.460 Or you walk through the door and you're like, hey, just by the way, I had a bad day.

01:04:30.880 If I have an anticipation that, like, it's going to...

01:04:34.700 I'm going to be upset when we're hanging out, then perhaps I might be like, oh, yeah,

01:04:40.640 it's kind of, like, you know, annoying.

01:04:42.020 But that's still expressing your feelings.

01:04:43.480 Right.

01:04:43.700 Because if you're able to just do that, Brian, instead of being like...

01:04:46.380 Like, expressing your feelings doesn't have to be, like, sobbing on the floor.

01:04:50.180 Right.

01:04:50.720 So I guess...

01:04:51.380 Like, when I was eight years old.

01:04:52.660 Like, you can just be like, hey, I had a kind of a rough day.

01:04:54.800 Like, I'd, like, wind down.

01:04:56.200 Simple, sweet, straight to the point.

01:04:57.760 Oh, that's the default, though.

01:04:58.580 Wind down to the default.

01:05:00.160 That's still expressing your feelings, though.

01:05:01.720 Like, I think that you think us saying vulnerable and expressing your feelings in your head, I

01:05:06.060 feel like you think that's a guy going up to a girl and being like, I'm dying.

01:05:09.660 But I think it's also okay, even if, like, something bad happened, you can also make a

01:05:14.900 determination of not even wanting to bring it up and just be like, yeah, I don't need

01:05:18.460 to bring this up.

01:05:19.660 It's not affecting you.

01:05:22.060 Like, would we say something and provoke you and then would you get mad over it?

01:05:25.500 Or would you just be like, okay, whatever?

01:05:27.460 So one component that I think is important in dating and relationships is showing the

01:05:33.200 other person grace.

01:05:34.660 So I think that it's really...

01:05:38.440 It can be really bad if you feel like you're walking on eggshells with somebody where every

01:05:44.140 single, like, microaggression or perceived slight, you need to be like, oh, my God. 0.95

01:05:50.720 Like, sometimes, I don't know, sometimes you can just let shit slide in a relationship 0.97

01:05:55.800 showing grace. 0.97

01:05:57.060 I think it's important.

01:05:58.040 Yeah.

01:05:58.480 But if it was a big thing, like some really big slight, then yeah, I'm probably going to

01:06:02.840 have a conversation with her.

01:06:04.120 But I also think it's okay to show your partner grace.

01:06:07.740 But Brian, you're also speaking about yourself, whereas a lot of men, and we're not talking

01:06:11.320 about you.

01:06:12.020 We're talking about also a lot of other men that come home and, like, slam doors and, like...

01:06:16.180 In general, not, like, your emotional feeling towards it.

01:06:18.620 Yeah.

01:06:19.000 And, like, they come home with such, like, aggression because they don't want to be vulnerable 0.99

01:06:22.480 and be like, shit, I had a bad day. 0.99

01:06:23.780 Instead, they act out like that. 1.00

01:06:24.900 And then whoever they're home with, their partner is like, oh, shit, what's wrong? 0.99

01:06:28.320 Oh, I don't deal with my problems like that. 0.99

01:06:29.940 Well, you know, other people, right?

01:06:31.260 Just let's lay...

01:06:32.000 It's just like, let's lay in bed and cuddle.

01:06:34.280 I've never...

01:06:34.680 Right.

01:06:34.920 I've never slammed a door.

01:06:36.140 That's great, though.

01:06:37.020 Can we get the plates?

01:06:38.240 Two pizzas.

01:06:39.100 Two pizzas per plate.

01:06:40.300 I just looked behind me and saw those smoothies. 0.56

01:06:42.200 And one paper towel, please.

01:06:43.560 They're hiding the smoothies right now.

01:06:45.540 What happens?

01:06:46.240 Smoothies.

01:06:47.000 I see our smoothies.

01:06:47.640 Do we have the smoothies?

01:06:49.380 Yes.

01:06:50.060 Okay.

01:06:50.780 Do we have cups?

01:06:51.980 Are we eating on camera?

01:06:52.720 Here, Felicity.

01:06:53.420 I'm going to go back for a sec.

01:06:54.740 Felicity's going to take over. 1.00

01:06:56.260 So you guys can just pretend she's me.

01:06:59.700 Direct your animosity towards Felicity.

01:07:03.640 I have to save it.

01:07:06.140 What are we talking about?

01:07:08.080 How men shouldn't express their feelings is what he said.

01:07:11.920 I think that he was saying...

01:07:13.060 I think that what he was saying was way too vague because he said,

01:07:15.540 he just said fully men shouldn't express their feelings.

01:07:18.980 But then he's also saying that he would tell his wife or let his girlfriend know if he

01:07:23.360 had a bad day in the case that it would affect his feelings.

01:07:25.280 Maybe he doesn't know what communication is.

01:07:27.500 It's literally just balance.

01:07:28.580 Might be the case.

01:07:29.400 I mean, but also the one thing that was like...

01:07:32.800 But I just want to take a moment to honor all of you guys because you guys are also smart

01:07:36.060 and beautiful.

01:07:37.140 Oh, my God.

01:07:37.720 We're right back at you.

01:07:39.320 We honor you right back.

01:07:40.280 I mean, I think there's no reason to dive into things that don't matter, that you don't

01:07:44.780 want to talk about.

01:07:45.900 If honestly your partner's upset, they should tell you, hey, I'm upset something happened.

01:07:50.860 They don't really have to tell you every little detail about it.

01:07:53.700 Yeah.

01:07:53.960 Yeah, but we never...

01:07:54.720 It doesn't have to get super in-depth every time.

01:07:57.440 It's okay.

01:07:57.900 Like, to have weird energy and animosity towards him, like you said, someone said slamming

01:08:03.020 doors, that's not okay.

01:08:04.580 But as a girlfriend, if I can visually see that you're hurt and that you're angry, I'd

01:08:09.120 want to know.

01:08:09.680 You can't just move past that.

01:08:11.300 Some men, they just like to be left alone.

01:08:15.080 Well, then they should voice it.

01:08:16.360 Yeah.

01:08:16.740 Yeah, I agree.

01:08:17.540 I think that if they need space...

01:08:18.140 I think voicing that you want to be left alone is telling you.

01:08:20.880 That's expressing...

01:08:21.360 That's still communicating.

01:08:22.680 That's still communicating.

01:08:23.380 Yeah, but some people, not even just men, really, I don't like to get into it and that's

01:08:29.020 totally fine.

01:08:29.680 I'll tell my partner that I don't want to.

01:08:31.380 Yeah, like I just need a little bit of time to process and level out.

01:08:35.600 And then there are women that are like, will jump down men's throat and be like, sit down. 1.00

01:08:42.360 You know those women that will chase a man after a man has been like, hey, I don't want 1.00

01:08:46.400 to talk about this right now.

01:08:47.320 Let's talk about it later.

01:08:48.260 And then they follow them into the bedroom and then they follow them outside like that.

01:08:52.840 I think that is like attachment styles also.

01:08:55.700 Yeah.

01:08:56.080 Or women who get irritated when their man is voicing that they had a bad day.

01:08:59.980 I don't think that should always cause it.

01:09:01.700 Like I said, it doesn't have to be super detailed every time, but I think just having

01:09:05.860 that open back and forth communication can help people grow so much better.

01:09:10.920 Yeah, I agree.

01:09:12.280 I agree.

01:09:12.740 I think when two people are together, it's a lot of compromising.

01:09:17.640 And if one person is more avoidant than the other, you kind of have to work around it

01:09:21.680 if you want to work out as a couple.

01:09:24.340 Yeah, a hundred percent.

01:09:25.620 I will give an example.

01:09:26.920 So if y'all ever heard of Chris Watts, right?

01:09:30.200 The man who did what he did to his family.

01:09:32.740 Yeah.

01:09:33.320 It was, he was actually silent.

01:09:35.380 Didn't express to his wife how he was feeling.

01:09:37.280 There was text messages of her texting other people.

01:09:39.900 He's distant from me.

01:09:41.080 He has not looked at me.

01:09:41.940 He has not touched me.

01:09:42.920 He's not telling me what's bothering him.

01:09:44.560 The next thing you know, it built up to some tragedy.

01:09:48.180 He would have just said, hey, I want a divorce. 0.98

01:09:50.940 I'm not saying that that is, that's very rare circumstance, but it's because silence

01:09:56.220 could be deemed as something they're doing something like that's, especially women who 1.00

01:10:00.080 are, I guess, are afraid or traumatized or jaded or whatever.

01:10:03.980 They're feeling like, okay, he's being silent.

01:10:05.760 He's not telling me how he feels.

01:10:07.040 He must be cheating on me.

01:10:08.380 I must have done something wrong.

01:10:09.540 Not every, you know, so that's why it's important to communicate in a way of just, because sometimes

01:10:15.820 it does, sometimes they are doing something, they just don't want to say it because they

01:10:18.940 don't want to hurt your feelings or they know you're just going to have a really bad, like,

01:10:22.800 wreck.

01:10:23.080 I think it took my boyfriend, my ex-boyfriend a month to break up with me because he was

01:10:26.900 like, I don't know how to do it.

01:10:28.740 And I knew something was wrong though because he was distant and silent.

01:10:31.800 He never, we used to text all the time and he completely stopped texting me.

01:10:36.140 And so I was like, something's not right.

01:10:38.120 And I was like, can you just tell me, like, be honest with me.

01:10:40.520 You'll be okay.

01:10:41.260 And then he told me and I was like, okay, I knew something was wrong.

01:10:44.620 Now we can move forward.

01:10:45.540 Chris watched the guy that killed his wife and kids.

01:10:47.800 Yeah.

01:10:48.080 And put them in like a, at his construction site or something.

01:10:52.400 But I feel like some people have, yeah, like he killed, and wasn't she pregnant?

01:10:56.700 Yeah, she was pregnant. 1.00

01:10:57.560 She was pregnant, I think with a son.

01:10:59.180 Yeah.

01:10:59.680 Yeah.

01:11:00.080 But I feel like also some people have a hard time, like, like speaking up, you know, and

01:11:05.180 like.

01:11:05.640 The thing is, closed mouths don't get fed.

01:11:07.600 And I've learned that.

01:11:08.200 And you're absolutely right.

01:11:09.700 And you're not struggling alone because mental health is like a big thing.

01:11:13.980 That, yeah.

01:11:14.720 Yeah.

01:11:15.060 I think it's what you talk about too.

01:11:17.680 Like if you're filling your day with meaningless, like whatever, like constantly asking what

01:11:23.020 you're doing every five seconds, someone's not going to talk to you.

01:11:26.380 Like it doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl.

01:11:28.420 If someone's harassing, not harassing me, but if someone's like constantly trying to be in

01:11:33.020 contact with me every single moment of the day, I'm going to get pissed off and I'm not

01:11:36.020 going to say anything.

01:11:37.320 I don't think phones should be as present in relationships as they are.

01:11:40.200 I agree.

01:11:40.540 At all.

01:11:41.580 Yeah.

01:11:41.980 I agree.

01:11:42.740 I would prefer.

01:11:42.960 Or I think it should be very open.

01:11:45.140 Like for me, you can have my passwords.

01:11:47.120 I don't care.

01:11:47.620 I have nothing to hide.

01:11:48.780 I don't mute my notifications.

01:11:50.340 My phone can be up.

01:11:51.700 I like transparency.

01:11:53.480 It just makes it easier for me to exist as well.

01:11:57.080 Like if you're just going to cheat on me, just leave me.

01:11:58.880 I feel like you should be in touch all the time.

01:12:01.040 Like if I'm hearing everything about your day, then what the hell are we going to talk

01:12:04.340 about when I see you?

01:12:05.680 Yeah.

01:12:06.160 You know, like I don't want, my phone is an extension of me.

01:12:10.300 Like I'm not going to.

01:12:10.680 I completely agree.

01:12:11.560 Like I want my time with you to be time that I value.

01:12:14.320 Being on your phone is really just something we do as like a filler.

01:12:17.480 Like if you're bored, you just go on it.

01:12:19.680 But like you don't have a phone.

01:12:22.500 I don't know.

01:12:22.960 I feel more productive when I don't have my phone.

01:12:26.380 And conversations are so much more meaningful in person too.

01:12:30.820 I know.

01:12:31.320 They are.

01:12:32.140 I want to see your expression.

01:12:33.860 Look at me.

01:12:35.780 So trying to talk to someone about everything on the phone 24-7, it just gets annoying.

01:12:41.860 And it's like, I don't want to see you if you're doing that.

01:12:44.300 Especially through text.

01:12:45.600 Yeah.

01:12:45.900 Is that monotone?

01:12:47.640 Like just call me like once a day.

01:12:49.860 That's cool.

01:12:50.520 You don't have to text me every like five minutes.

01:12:52.560 I've actually had guys get like upset with me.

01:12:55.860 From John.

01:12:56.620 Texting, calling, snapping back.

01:12:58.260 And to me, it's like, like that really, it's like, it's just, it just means nothing.

01:13:03.000 Like, yo, what are you doing?

01:13:05.020 Pull up.

01:13:06.020 I have a question.

01:13:06.940 So if you're in a relationship or if you're already in a relationship, ideally, how many

01:13:11.840 times a week would you like to see your partner?

01:13:15.320 Every day.

01:13:16.100 Are you living together?

01:13:17.600 Or are you?

01:13:18.800 Like right now.

01:13:19.900 Like your life right now.

01:13:21.240 Okay.

01:13:23.560 I'm going to say as much as possible.

01:13:25.120 Because my, like our life right now, for sure for us is filled with work, school, and

01:13:31.200 friends, like time for friends.

01:13:33.320 So whatever space is in between that would be for, for a partner.

01:13:36.780 I'm in a long distance relationship.

01:13:38.340 We live like 12 hours apart and have a one hour time difference too, but we definitely

01:13:44.880 make it work, but it takes a lot of open communication back and forth and like being okay with almost

01:13:51.360 each of us having some slight insecurity, especially being at a distance and being open about that.

01:13:56.160 And that is totally valid.

01:13:57.220 Yeah.

01:13:57.660 But I'm also, again, I'm also 30 and he's 28.

01:14:00.280 So it's just, we're a little bit older, so it's a little bit easier to like hold ourselves

01:14:05.380 accountable in communication.

01:14:06.980 I think it completely depends on the people.

01:14:09.540 Like I'm a pretty independent person.

01:14:13.120 Obviously, like I want to see you, but like if I'm going through stuff, I'm not going to

01:14:17.440 want to see you.

01:14:18.340 Like every day, I'm not going to be like, oh my God, let's hang out after I had three

01:14:23.420 doctor's appointments and an interview.

01:14:25.260 Like, no, I'm going to want to go home and I'm going to want to rest.

01:14:27.520 I'm different.

01:14:28.300 Hug me, please.

01:14:29.540 Like hug me.

01:14:30.340 No, me too.

01:14:31.160 If I actually really like the guy.

01:14:33.880 24.

01:14:34.720 Cause I think when, like, um, well, we both kind of, we both work for ourselves, so it's

01:14:41.180 actually allowed a lot of flexibility.

01:14:43.840 Do you want us to start?

01:14:44.620 Guys, one at a time, please.

01:14:46.820 Um, so we see each other almost like once a month to every other month.

01:14:50.980 So it's still pretty awesome.

01:14:52.400 It's still pretty often.

01:14:54.100 Um, he's supposed to actually come visit me next month.

01:14:57.040 So have you ever lived close to each other?

01:15:00.360 No, we actually met on Facebook dating and he thought I was a fake profile.

01:15:04.680 So it's kind of funny.

01:15:06.820 That has to be some kind of compliment.

01:15:08.920 What'd you say?

01:15:10.460 That has to be some kind of compliment.

01:15:12.580 Yeah.

01:15:13.000 That he thought I was.

01:15:13.940 Yeah.

01:15:14.140 Yeah.

01:15:14.500 And I have like a big social media platform and he actually followed me on my platform.

01:15:19.080 So he didn't think that I was the same person.

01:15:21.860 So he, we exchanged numbers and I sent him a video saying my name and he's like, oh, and

01:15:27.340 I was like, yeah.

01:15:29.260 And then we just never stopped talking since.

01:15:31.680 So Devon Jackson donated $200.

01:15:35.020 Thank you, man.

01:15:35.360 All of you would be so annoying to date.

01:15:38.080 You all absolutely just fish for stuff to bring up in the next argument.

01:15:42.380 And none of you are expressing EIR and shaming Brian the second he leaves.

01:15:47.020 Oh.

01:15:48.100 Hey.

01:15:48.680 What did I miss?

01:15:49.200 Brian takes over the conversation. 0.99

01:15:50.920 It's pretty hard to talk shit when he's right. 0.99

01:15:53.260 What? 1.00

01:15:53.500 He just is taking up the rest of the talking.

01:15:56.440 I'm the host of the podcast.

01:15:57.400 Yeah, exactly.

01:15:58.260 So why are we, of course, we're talking about you. 0.99

01:16:00.040 Why do we have to talk shit? 0.99

01:16:01.260 I don't get it. 1.00

01:16:02.020 What?

01:16:02.380 What did they say?

01:16:03.340 What did they say?

01:16:03.760 He's probably talking about me.

01:16:05.420 Because like, he's probably talking about me.

01:16:06.640 Because when you were over there, I like was talking to her as if I was talking to you,

01:16:09.440 like you said to do.

01:16:10.300 So I was like continuing the conversation.

01:16:11.680 Is that it?

01:16:12.580 I was just, I was just saying that because we were talking about the whole like expressing

01:16:15.840 your feelings.

01:16:17.500 What was the shaming though?

01:16:18.940 He says you guys were shaming me.

01:16:21.080 There was a small talk that he was shaming them.

01:16:24.200 I was just furthering.

01:16:26.120 He is fishing.

01:16:26.980 That guy was fishing.

01:16:27.440 Here, can you just move your microphone back to where it was, please?

01:16:31.720 All right.

01:16:33.300 Thank you, Davon Jackson, for the TTS.

01:16:36.040 Really appreciate it.

01:16:36.900 Thank you.

01:16:37.280 Thank you.

01:16:38.460 All right.

01:16:38.940 We have cherry creams here.

01:16:40.900 So if I almost died on the job and you almost got fired, who had the worst day?

01:16:44.760 Would you accept my bad day or make it about yourself?

01:16:47.320 Is this directed at somebody?

01:16:48.660 I don't know.

01:16:49.100 I was gone.

01:16:50.360 What?

01:16:51.240 Wait.

01:16:51.520 Wait.

01:16:52.820 Hey, can we only have one person back there, please, at a time?

01:16:55.740 Can you guys get that figured out?

01:17:02.700 What did it say?

01:17:06.840 This pizza is pretty good.

01:17:08.200 I'm so content and happy right now eating the pizza.

01:17:10.900 If I almost died on the job and you almost got fired, who had the worst?

01:17:15.660 Probably the person who died on the job.

01:17:17.560 Yeah.

01:17:17.780 Who almost died.

01:17:19.000 Yeah.

01:17:19.840 Like, what the hell? 0.91

01:17:20.440 Or would you make it about yourself? 0.93

01:17:22.740 Yeah, someone said that.

01:17:23.880 Oh.

01:17:25.180 There will be some people who would make it about yourself.

01:17:26.400 Do you guys want to answer this?

01:17:27.760 Wait.

01:17:28.100 Let me read it again.

01:17:29.140 Of course we would accept your bad day.

01:17:30.580 You almost died.

01:17:31.500 Yeah.

01:17:32.620 Let's just hug each other again.

01:17:34.000 I mean, I guess.

01:17:35.480 Well, I think, like, obviously one had a worse day, but you should acknowledge the other's

01:17:40.320 day as well.

01:17:41.620 Like, once they're okay, of course.

01:17:44.060 Like, you could joke about it.

01:17:45.000 You'd be like, oh, yeah, my name was, like, Polish.

01:17:46.240 Yeah, like, I got fired, too.

01:17:47.960 Like, dang, it's bad for both of us today.

01:17:50.060 Yeah.

01:17:50.520 Like, let's almost, like, put all the outside stuff to rest and just focus on each other

01:17:55.600 right now.

01:17:56.080 Just let her do it at the table. 1.00

01:17:57.780 Okay.

01:17:58.140 Pasty George donated $200.

01:18:03.140 Yeah, thank you, Pasty George.

01:18:04.360 Appreciate it.

01:18:05.140 Are these women serious? 1.00

01:18:06.980 Women trauma dump all the time when they are not talking nonsense nonstop in their boyfriend's 1.00

01:18:12.360 ear, whether it be from everyday life or past experiences. 0.97

01:18:16.860 Neat arts.

01:18:17.700 I don't relate to that at all.

01:18:19.520 Me either.

01:18:21.260 I actually don't tell anyone anything, so.

01:18:25.220 Kind of same.

01:18:25.980 You know, it's interesting, though, when I was asking about if you saw your boyfriend

01:18:29.820 get beat up, this is a phenomenon that you witness in relationships and with women. 0.91

01:18:35.520 It doesn't really go the reverse, is this ick factor.

01:18:40.140 So, there's this famous clip of this woman who was on the Joe Rogan podcast, and she was

01:18:45.180 describing how her boyfriend, who is a professional MMA fighter, got knocked out during one of his

01:18:50.060 fights.

01:18:52.180 And even that, even though it was like, you know, a professional fight bout, he got knocked

01:18:59.900 out.

01:19:01.040 Somebody gets, somebody loses the fight.

01:19:03.040 Somebody gets knocked out.

01:19:05.360 She dumped him shortly after.

01:19:08.320 And she sided.

01:19:09.280 She sided because she lost attraction for him because he got knocked out.

01:19:14.920 He was put in a vulnerable position.

01:19:16.820 So, I think this idea that men should be vulnerable in front of women, look, I guess, I'm not saying

01:19:21.840 all women are heartless creatures, but what I'm saying is there is perhaps some degree 1.00

01:19:26.740 of, maybe not for all women, innate repulsion to male weakness or male vulnerability that y'all

01:19:35.360 are going to lose attraction for your partner if you see him acting in such a way or in such

01:19:41.060 a position.

01:19:42.020 Yeah, I would say I dated one guy before where, like, I was always defending myself if

01:19:49.120 something happened.

01:19:50.020 Like, there was, and this is like a super specific situation, but we were at the laundromat before

01:19:54.520 I had, like, my current place now.

01:19:56.800 And this random guy was trying to take my cart, and I'm trying to keep my cart.

01:20:00.660 And I was the one who, like, that moment I definitely felt unattracted.

01:20:04.280 And the simple fact is, you, he should have just said, hey, this is our, you know, so

01:20:09.360 I get that.

01:20:10.620 But I think the example you used, she's a heartless woman for sure. 1.00

01:20:15.100 I want to say for me, I can totally agree with the fact that men being weak is a huge

01:20:20.600 turnoff in regards to protecting me.

01:20:25.160 Not like, like, if he, like, if I was dating a boy and I wasn't even with him and he got

01:20:29.920 home and was like, oh, I just got in a fight and I lost.

01:20:31.700 Like, it wouldn't ick me out, but, like, I have actually been in a situation where I

01:20:36.240 was punched by a man, like, fully punched by a stranger, mind you, in the side of the

01:20:43.200 neck, the rib cage, and my arm.

01:20:45.400 And my boyfriend at the time was right there, and he didn't, I, like, fully got knocked out.

01:20:51.080 And he didn't do anything.

01:20:52.600 And then apparently somebody recorded it, and when I watched back the footage, after the 0.99

01:20:57.260 boy punched me, he was like, oh, shit, now I feel bad. 0.97

01:21:00.180 And then my boyfriend was like, oh, it's okay. 0.99

01:21:02.560 And then he told me the next day that it was only because he wanted to check on me instead

01:21:07.560 of get mad at the guy. 0.99

01:21:09.300 And I was just like, you are insane. 0.83

01:21:12.080 Can I ask you a couple questions about the details of what happened there? 0.99

01:21:15.860 So he hit you hard.

01:21:17.440 You said he hit you in the neck and the side?

01:21:19.780 Uh-huh.

01:21:20.580 Was, he just walked up to you and did that?

01:21:23.020 Were you guys talking?

01:21:23.880 What was the story?

01:21:24.540 It's a pretty long story.

01:21:26.560 Give us the short version.

01:21:27.860 Okay, wait, let me do this.

01:21:30.180 Okay, so basically, I was at a party with all my friend group.

01:21:34.340 This is the most recent relationship, by the way.

01:21:37.860 So yeah, me and him went to this party together, and our ride basically canceled on us.

01:21:42.460 Like, when we got back to the car, the friend we were supposed to go with already had, like,

01:21:46.280 a full car.

01:21:47.140 It was basically like, oh, sorry, you're stranded.

01:21:48.600 And so, then this super drunk guy came up and was like, hey, I'm too drunk to drive my car, but I have a car.

01:21:55.480 Are either of you sober?

01:21:57.020 And he was like, oh, yeah, I am.

01:21:58.560 So you could drive.

01:21:59.520 And then, basically, on the walk to the car, this guy was just, like, saying, like, a lot of misogynistic things.

01:22:06.340 Like, you're a woman, you can't drive. 1.00

01:22:07.880 You're a woman, you can't talk. 1.00

01:22:08.800 You're a woman, you can't do this, you can't do that. 1.00

01:22:10.100 And I was just, like, just totally rage-baiting me.

01:22:12.300 And I was just like, like, you don't even know this guy.

01:22:14.520 Like, there's no reason to fight for your standpoint.

01:22:17.740 And then he was basically saying, like, oh, I'm going to be, like, da-da-da-da.

01:22:20.880 And then later, later on that night, after I was drunk and he got more drunk, then he, like, that happened.

01:22:28.440 Okay.

01:22:29.800 So that happened, and your boyfriend didn't do anything?

01:22:34.380 Nothing.

01:22:35.260 Okay.

01:22:36.000 Actually, yeah.

01:22:36.600 Was your question, was this guy large in size?

01:22:41.420 The guy who hit you?

01:22:42.000 The guy who hit me?

01:22:42.440 Yeah.

01:22:42.660 No.

01:22:43.380 Smaller than your boyfriend?

01:22:44.760 Yes.

01:22:45.620 Oh.

01:22:46.200 Okay.

01:22:47.320 100%.

01:22:47.640 My ex is 6'3", 6'2", or 3.

01:22:51.620 Mm-hmm.

01:22:52.040 And he's not, like, super buff, but, like, he's, like, a strong-looking guy, kind of.

01:22:55.600 Athlete?

01:22:56.220 No.

01:22:57.240 But tall?

01:22:58.100 Tall.

01:22:58.720 Okay.

01:22:58.980 He has, like, the arm length to, like, win, I feel like.

01:23:02.620 So he saw you, and you've been dating for how long?

01:23:05.640 Two years?

01:23:06.420 Was this the two-year relationship?

01:23:07.200 Oh, no.

01:23:07.480 I'm not with him anymore.

01:23:08.600 Well, when you were dating him, it was the two-year relationship guy?

01:23:11.560 No, no, no, no, no.

01:23:11.900 Like, like, under a year.

01:23:13.920 We're sorry, two years?

01:23:15.000 Under a year.

01:23:15.880 Okay.

01:23:16.100 First boyfriend was two years.

01:23:16.780 How long had you been seeing him?

01:23:18.260 Under a year.

01:23:19.320 A little under a year.

01:23:20.140 When this happened.

01:23:20.920 Okay.

01:23:21.620 Oh, no.

01:23:22.120 At the time?

01:23:24.480 Maybe, like, six months.

01:23:26.280 Okay.

01:23:26.660 You stayed with him for six months?

01:23:28.940 Yes, I did.

01:23:32.820 Never again.

01:23:34.660 Yeah, I know.

01:23:35.520 Yeah, that was bad.

01:23:38.440 So, he did nothing?

01:23:41.680 He did nothing.

01:23:42.940 That's a princess. 0.81

01:23:43.540 I mean, I could. 0.99

01:23:44.180 The only scenario I could understand that shit a little bit is if it's, like, a giant, like, 1.00

01:23:49.820 imagine you're with your girl and, like, Mike Tyson does some shit. 1.00

01:23:53.780 Picture, uh, picture, like, uh. 0.99

01:23:55.480 I'm just going to accept the breakup.

01:23:56.860 Like, you got to dump me.

01:23:58.200 You got to dump me.

01:23:59.340 I'm sorry.

01:23:59.940 I'm not.

01:24:00.160 You're not even going to try?

01:24:01.060 Imagine you're, like. 0.99

01:24:01.480 No, I'm not going to fucking fight Mike Tyson. 0.97

01:24:03.320 It was, like, um, picture, like, an incoming, like, soccer player senior boy who's, like, 0.98

01:24:07.760 maybe 5'9".

01:24:08.740 Oh, my God.

01:24:10.280 Are you?

01:24:10.800 That's it.

01:24:11.740 That's it.

01:24:12.780 Not even a, what are you doing?

01:24:14.340 Like, nothing.

01:24:15.480 He saw it?

01:24:16.760 He's right there.

01:24:17.200 Like, did you get knocked down?

01:24:18.800 Yes.

01:24:19.460 You got knocked down.

01:24:20.480 I got hit here and immediately started falling forward.

01:24:23.480 Can you show us the punch?

01:24:24.820 Like, he threw.

01:24:26.020 He wound up and threw a punch.

01:24:28.500 Oh, my God.

01:24:29.300 A full-blown.

01:24:30.060 Wait, were there other guys around, too?

01:24:32.000 It was, like, it was, like, we used to have, like, parties at, like, parks and stuff.

01:24:36.400 Not, like, actual parties.

01:24:37.080 Just, like, we were, like, made up to hang out there.

01:24:38.280 Yeah, yeah.

01:24:38.820 And it was more, like, around the grass.

01:24:41.100 Like, there were definitely people there, but nobody saw it when it happened.

01:24:45.300 Okay.

01:24:45.680 Other than your boyfriend.

01:24:46.480 Other than my boyfriend.

01:24:47.200 And the girl who recorded it.

01:24:48.400 Even I would have defended you.

01:24:49.080 She recorded.

01:24:49.760 Wait, you got the.

01:24:50.480 Actually, no.

01:24:51.020 We probably can't show the fight video on YouTube. 0.98

01:24:52.760 But, damn. 0.98

01:24:54.240 No, it was really bad. 1.00

01:24:55.260 What have you just.

01:24:56.060 But I got to bully him.

01:24:56.940 Let us all watch it.

01:24:57.920 You got to what?

01:24:58.920 I got to bully him. 0.91

01:25:00.400 Bully.

01:25:00.800 Like, I had something really great against him. 1.00

01:25:03.140 Like, when we'd fight and stuff, I'd be like, okay, well, you let me get punched, so you're a bitch. 1.00

01:25:08.000 Yikes. 1.00

01:25:08.520 Okay.

01:25:09.920 But it wasn't an issue for you at the time that he didn't do anything.

01:25:15.100 Yeah, like, that's what I mean.

01:25:16.120 Like, he didn't do anything in my defense, so that, to me, was icky.

01:25:20.920 So, yeah.

01:25:21.400 You just totally reminded me where I was, where the whole purpose of that was.

01:25:24.800 Sure.

01:25:25.040 If a guy is, like, showing signs of weakness and it has nothing to do with me, totally not an ick, in my opinion.

01:25:30.460 Yeah.

01:25:31.500 But if it has something to do with me, it's, like, ew.

01:25:33.740 It's that protection stuff.

01:25:35.120 Yeah.

01:25:35.240 If you can't protect me, how can I expect you to protect our household, financially, as well as physically, and stuff like that, so.

01:25:43.260 Yeah.

01:25:43.920 Yeah, I got to feel, like, safe, I feel like, for sure.

01:25:46.440 Yeah, yeah.

01:25:46.460 Yeah, exactly.

01:25:47.900 I think a lot of girls do. 1.00

01:25:50.120 But I think, so, like, I think that they're, like, for me, like, I feel like, biologically, sorry.

01:25:57.660 It's okay, go ahead.

01:25:58.500 My bad.

01:25:59.180 You don't need to apologize.

01:25:59.800 Like, biologically, I think that, like, women. 1.00

01:26:03.420 Yeah.

01:26:03.780 So, move the mic this way.

01:26:05.260 Just move.

01:26:05.900 Scoot.

01:26:06.260 Oh, yeah, yeah.

01:26:06.940 Scoot.

01:26:06.980 Scoot the whole mic over. 0.90

01:26:08.140 And then straighten this so it's straight.

01:26:10.220 Straighten it.

01:26:10.960 So, it's, oh.

01:26:11.760 There you go.

01:26:12.260 Go ahead.

01:26:13.420 All right.

01:26:13.780 You're good.

01:26:14.300 It's okay.

01:26:14.600 Don't worry.

01:26:14.940 Just go ahead.

01:26:15.700 So, I think biologically, like, women probably want men to be strong, act strong, look strong.

01:26:22.620 Mm-hmm.

01:26:22.920 Just because, like, evolution.

01:26:27.120 Mm-hmm.

01:26:27.360 But I agree.

01:26:28.140 I don't think it's, like, if it's not about you.

01:26:31.760 But at the same time, if it's about, if it's, it has nothing to do with me, but, like, you,

01:26:39.380 like, okay, if you get into a fight and you lose and it's, like, kind of funny and you

01:26:45.820 come home and you're, like, kind of drunk and you're, like, dude, I started a fight and

01:26:49.400 I lost.

01:26:51.140 I got knocked out.

01:26:51.540 I'll laugh with you.

01:26:52.520 Like, it's okay.

01:26:53.400 But if it's, like, you're super butthurt about something that you were really, like, I think

01:26:58.980 it's unattractive to, like, to have no control of your emotions and then especially if that

01:27:03.900 no control of your emotions and you start to fight someone ends badly and then you're

01:27:07.800 still butthurt about it, that's incredibly unattractive.

01:27:11.080 But also, if you can't, like, protect yourself, then how can you protect me in, like, some

01:27:19.280 ways?

01:27:19.680 And I think that that's just, like, another biological thing.

01:27:22.780 But I also don't, like, if you really think about it, I don't know.

01:27:26.140 Pasty George donated $200.

01:27:29.180 Thank you, man.

01:27:29.460 Years back, my friend got hurt at work and was in a wheelchair for some years.

01:27:34.540 During that time, his wife had an affair behind his back and divorced him even when he was

01:27:39.520 getting better.

01:27:40.420 Wow.

01:27:40.980 That's sad.

01:27:41.660 That's so sad.

01:27:42.260 Messed up.

01:27:43.600 Women do that, too. 1.00

01:27:44.500 I just want to know what Pasty George is doing right now.

01:27:47.200 Like, I have, I wonder if he's in his kitchen.

01:27:49.200 He's a baller.

01:27:49.900 He owns many casinos in Canada.

01:27:53.020 Really, or is he in the casino right now?

01:27:55.920 Why, do you want to?

01:27:57.000 Yo, Pasty, she's Canadian. 1.00

01:27:59.120 Here, do you want to?

01:28:00.560 Hi.

01:28:02.000 He'll get you some free chips at his casino.

01:28:04.540 I'm not even old enough to be in the casino.

01:28:06.320 Oh, they have, like, a, how old did you have to be to gamble in the U.S.?

01:28:10.460 I thought it was 18.

01:28:11.120 Is it 21?

01:28:12.060 No, it's 21.

01:28:12.760 Or the Indian casinos?

01:28:14.180 No, it is 18.

01:28:15.380 The Indian casinos, I think it's 18, right?

01:28:17.240 Wait.

01:28:17.620 No.

01:28:19.100 Yeah.

01:28:19.920 No one's listening to me.

01:28:20.840 I mean, maybe times have changed, but I was definitely in a casino before I was 21.

01:28:25.860 Like, just being there.

01:28:28.180 What's that?

01:28:28.640 I got this.

01:28:29.600 If it is a Indian reservation casino, so like the Chumash Casino, right here in San Ynez,

01:28:35.000 you do have to be 21 because it is federal land.

01:28:39.080 Oh, okay.

01:28:40.280 Cool.

01:28:41.200 Anybody done with their plates?

01:28:43.680 Yeah.

01:28:44.160 Done, done, done.

01:28:45.240 So, Felicity, you're going to grab those.

01:28:46.980 Anybody done with their smoothie? 0.98

01:28:49.240 Damn, I didn't even see this one there. 0.98

01:28:51.460 Sina, do you want your smoothie? 0.99

01:28:52.540 It's okay.

01:28:53.740 Yeah.

01:28:54.240 Okay, we'll leave it there for now.

01:28:55.860 All right, we're going to get into the next thing here.

01:28:59.300 We have, one sec, guys.

01:29:01.920 I'm going to pull up the, oh, there's one more thing for the red flag thing.

01:29:06.080 All right, show of hands.

01:29:08.100 I think these plates are probably done, too, if you want to grab them.

01:29:10.640 You're done, Sina?

01:29:12.420 No.

01:29:14.120 Oh, okay.

01:29:14.980 You're just picking up.

01:29:17.100 All right, raise your hands.

01:29:18.400 I would probably leave.

01:29:19.220 Huh?

01:29:19.360 Uh, I don't know if she's done or not.

01:29:21.900 Just take it.

01:29:22.560 Just take it.

01:29:23.680 Thank you.

01:29:25.820 He follows 500 Instagram models.

01:29:28.880 Red flag.

01:29:29.980 Red flag?

01:29:30.980 Yeah.

01:29:31.520 Show of hands.

01:29:32.280 Okay. 0.79

01:29:32.920 That's so gross.

01:29:33.760 I don't even know 500 models.

01:29:35.520 Yeah.

01:29:36.620 I think men should follow no women on Instagram.

01:29:39.140 You should follow anybody.

01:29:40.080 I agree.

01:29:40.460 Don't follow anybody on Instagram.

01:29:41.400 I agree.

01:29:41.520 Don't even use Instagram. 1.00

01:29:42.440 Fuck Instagram. 1.00

01:29:42.840 You know what? 1.00

01:29:43.380 Yeah.

01:29:44.080 I do not.

01:29:45.080 I follow one account.

01:29:46.880 Big baby on matters.

01:29:48.360 And that's my own account.

01:29:50.720 Okay, we have Pastie George with a follow-up here.

01:29:53.120 Thank you, Pastie.

01:29:53.720 Appreciate it.

01:29:54.220 Pastie George donated $200.

01:29:57.020 Why are women going to dangerous places when they often feel unsafe? 1.00

01:30:01.700 Wouldn't it be-

01:30:02.360 Everywhere's unsafe.

01:30:03.480 What?

01:30:04.620 Raise kids and leave a tangible legacy in the world.

01:30:08.540 Need hard.

01:30:09.480 Raise kids.

01:30:09.820 No, I actually kind of a-

01:30:11.660 I want to be a stay-at-home mom.

01:30:13.660 I'm so sick of being an independent woman.

01:30:15.480 I don't want to do it.

01:30:16.300 I'm good.

01:30:17.220 Why do you say that?

01:30:19.080 Which, like-

01:30:20.320 Why do you-

01:30:21.280 You said you're sick of being independent.

01:30:23.260 Yeah.

01:30:24.220 You want to be a stay-at-home mom. 0.77

01:30:26.260 Why?

01:30:26.760 I like traditional rules.

01:30:29.520 I used to be definitely on the other side in a very extreme way where I didn't want to listen.

01:30:34.320 I wanted to be in charge.

01:30:36.060 And that didn't get me anywhere besides crashing and burning.

01:30:38.900 So, and even like with my relationship now, he actually challenged me so much.

01:30:45.260 It actually led me to my faith and really following Christ and completely changed my life.

01:30:50.580 So, I think humbling yourself and actually hearing someone out when-

01:30:56.220 And I had to admit I was wrong and that was probably the greatest thing that I've ever done.

01:31:00.380 So.

01:31:01.540 Okay.

01:31:02.360 Any of the girls here disagree with her? 1.00

01:31:05.440 She says she's done with the boss babe independent shit. 0.99

01:31:09.040 Yeah, I want to do it. 0.99

01:31:09.640 Who here wants to be an independent boss babe that don't need no man? 1.00

01:31:13.900 You?

01:31:14.680 You.

01:31:15.000 I like having a man.

01:31:16.040 I just-

01:31:17.120 Not that I don't need no man. 0.67

01:31:18.660 Independent.

01:31:19.220 Do you want to be an independent boss babe that don't need no man? 1.00

01:31:22.240 I mean, I'm not actively striving to not have a man, but I'm also not actively striving to have a man.

01:31:27.260 In terms-

01:31:27.680 Do you want to be a stay-at-home mom?

01:31:29.240 Wait, into the mic if you can.

01:31:30.840 He means you want to be a stay-at-home mom. 0.57

01:31:31.400 Do I want to be a stay-at-home mom?

01:31:33.240 I wouldn't mind it.

01:31:35.120 Okay.

01:31:35.540 But do you think that all women should do that? 1.00

01:31:37.780 Be stay-at-home moms? 0.55

01:31:38.940 Yeah.

01:31:39.300 No.

01:31:40.800 Definitely not.

01:31:41.520 You were going to give an explanation?

01:31:44.960 No, I wasn't.

01:31:47.020 Wait, do you think they should be?

01:31:47.980 I wasn't going to do anything.

01:31:48.940 Oh my God, no.

01:31:49.820 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

01:31:52.840 I think everyone should make their own choices.

01:31:55.420 I think that everyone can be happy doing-

01:31:57.560 I think that being a stay-at-home mom is a job. 0.98

01:32:00.840 I think it's a really hard job.

01:32:02.540 100%.

01:32:02.800 110%.

01:32:03.800 That's a pretty easy job.

01:32:04.660 Oh my God, have you raised a kid?

01:32:06.520 Pretty easy job.

01:32:07.580 I have.

01:32:08.320 Raising a kid.

01:32:08.920 It's actually not-

01:32:10.620 I think the worst part of raising my son has been when he had a stroke, but other than

01:32:16.100 that, I love being a mom.

01:32:18.020 Not that it's bad.

01:32:19.180 But I'm saying I love going to the movies, having movie night, or dyeing our macaroni

01:32:25.200 blue.

01:32:25.700 Was it difficult when he was a baby baby, though?

01:32:28.580 No.

01:32:28.760 Like staying up late?

01:32:29.800 Again, it's just, I loved it.

01:32:33.200 I mean, even being a young mom.

01:32:34.620 That's wonderful.

01:32:35.140 And also, my mom had me when she was 15, so-

01:32:37.940 And my point in saying that is, I'm not saying we should have babies that young, but it can

01:32:44.740 be done in the sense that we turn out okay, you know what I'm saying?

01:32:48.200 And I think motherhood is a beautiful thing, even though it hurts.

01:32:52.540 I totally agree with you, and that makes me super happy to know that that was all good

01:32:56.720 for you, and it wasn't difficult.

01:32:57.540 But I think that you can't just say broadly that it's an easy job.

01:33:03.480 Because my mother, for example, my little brother, he's four now, and he has autism, and

01:33:08.520 there's a lot of struggles for specific moms. 1.00

01:33:11.720 There's a lot of moms who have really difficult situations, like single mothers, who have to 0.59

01:33:15.680 work and be a mom.

01:33:16.920 I do that, too.

01:33:17.640 Being a mom, go you, girl. 0.66

01:33:19.880 Being a mom is very difficult.

01:33:21.600 I suppose I agree with you in the sense that if you start adding on, you know, if your child

01:33:27.040 has autism or some sort of developmental disability, whatever it is.

01:33:31.340 Behavioral issues.

01:33:32.000 Behavioral issues.

01:33:32.780 And just, like, staying up late and, like, having to, like, it's difficult to be a good

01:33:37.460 mother and not mess up. 0.94

01:33:39.140 But then you would have to apply this also to, like, if you're adding in that metric,

01:33:44.760 you'd have to apply it to, okay, well, you have a job, and you have, like, really, really

01:33:49.320 difficult co-workers.

01:33:50.540 If we're just trying to do a like-for-like comparison, so let's say, you know, you have

01:33:56.460 a, I mean, again, it's going to depend on the job, too, but, like, the sort of typical

01:34:01.920 average experience raising a child, and you are a stay-at-home mom, that's way easier than

01:34:08.300 having a nine-to-five job.

01:34:10.040 I suppose it would depend on, like, do you mean, like, an office job?

01:34:13.600 Yeah, I would say even an office job.

01:34:15.920 But an office job, you get to clock out.

01:34:17.820 I think it's completely all situational.

01:34:20.300 I mean, if you're, okay.

01:34:21.600 You get to clock out of being a mom.

01:34:22.420 You don't ever get to stop being a mom. 0.98

01:34:23.820 Yeah, if I was a stay-at-home mom.

01:34:25.860 Well, it depends what age the kids are.

01:34:28.700 And if you're doing it to make America great hat back there.

01:34:32.480 Where?

01:34:33.320 Right there.

01:34:33.880 Oh, that's Felicity's.

01:34:34.960 She's super MAGA. 1.00

01:34:36.660 No.

01:34:36.860 I wanted to, okay, wait, can I say something?

01:34:39.340 If I was a stay-at-home mom with a loving husband.

01:34:42.440 Wait, does the camera accept her?

01:34:43.340 It's not invisible.

01:34:44.200 It's actually here.

01:34:45.080 I think it's.

01:34:45.880 Oh.

01:34:46.700 Yeah, I mean, it's just a prop we have.

01:34:49.200 But did you want to have a conversation?

01:34:50.540 No, I literally was just wondering.

01:34:52.140 Do you want to wear it?

01:34:52.940 Is that why?

01:34:53.780 I think I'm actually good today.

01:34:55.600 You're good?

01:34:56.120 Okay.

01:34:56.280 Yeah.

01:34:56.900 I think I'm going to keep Sunday.

01:34:57.600 How do you feel about that?

01:34:58.560 I feel like you have a feeling about the hat.

01:35:01.160 Why?

01:35:01.420 Oh, I mean, no.

01:35:03.260 No?

01:35:03.440 My family, I mean, I have feelings for myself, but I have family that feels both ways.

01:35:08.760 Are you good?

01:35:08.960 No, I feel like you can have whatever hat you want, boy.

01:35:11.360 Wear your hat.

01:35:12.900 Rock that hat. 0.89

01:35:14.640 You want the hat?

01:35:15.800 You're not a fan of the hat, though.

01:35:17.620 It sounds like.

01:35:18.100 I'm not a fan of the hat.

01:35:19.420 I wouldn't wear the hat.

01:35:20.920 What do you think about the movement? 1.00

01:35:23.080 Fuck you. 1.00

01:35:24.200 Oh, my God. 1.00

01:35:25.440 Can I go back to what I was saying?

01:35:26.560 You brought it up.

01:35:27.540 Can I say it?

01:35:27.880 Yeah, it literally was a, yeah, okay.

01:35:29.760 Yeah, go back to what you were saying.

01:35:30.360 Let me go back.

01:35:31.000 Let me go back.

01:35:31.580 I was on track.

01:35:33.040 I wanted to tell you that, like, if I was a stay-at-home mom with a loving husband who's

01:35:37.580 going to work 9 to 5 every day and working his ass off, and all I have to do is take 0.93

01:35:43.200 care of, like, a child or two in a situation where we're, like, financially stable and,

01:35:48.540 like, I can, like, have everything I need.

01:35:50.060 Yeah.

01:35:50.560 Yeah, I would say it can be easier than having a job, but, like, as a whole, being

01:35:55.460 a mom, you saying that that's an easy job, like, that just doesn't make sense to me.

01:35:59.960 I feel like it could be an easier job if you have, like, a support system with your spouse

01:36:03.380 or whatever.

01:36:03.880 Also, if you actually really enjoy it.

01:36:05.580 So, to me, it only feels easy because, like, I genuinely enjoy it, like, a lot.

01:36:10.620 Like, it is my favorite thing when he gets home from school.

01:36:12.400 And if you have, like, the stamina to, like, if you, like, have the everything, then go,

01:36:16.240 you grow.

01:36:16.480 And then I think women have to understand that just because you're a mom doesn't make 1.00

01:36:21.440 that your sole identity.

01:36:22.780 So, it's, like, my identity is still in Christ.

01:36:24.920 My identity is still, I'm an artist.

01:36:26.620 I'm an entrepreneur.

01:36:27.620 Those still are aspects of who I am.

01:36:30.020 But I still, like, I absolutely encourage, you know, being a mother.

01:36:35.140 It's a beautiful thing.

01:36:36.460 That's amazing.

01:36:38.020 Wow.

01:36:38.500 I'm so happy for you.

01:36:39.680 No, me too.

01:36:40.280 That's great.

01:36:41.360 And for your son.

01:36:42.340 We're going to get into some of the pre-show notes.

01:36:44.420 Some of you guys sent in some notes.

01:36:46.720 So, Ava.

01:36:49.440 Is it Ava or Ava?

01:36:51.760 Ava.

01:36:52.400 Ava.

01:36:53.160 You write, hot take.

01:36:55.200 What?

01:36:55.680 Oh, I don't remember writing this.

01:36:58.160 Oh, okay.

01:36:58.800 Oh, my God.

01:36:59.480 What time?

01:36:59.960 I don't remember.

01:37:00.560 What time was this?

01:37:02.800 Oh, I'm so, this is, like, the seventh time.

01:37:05.120 Yeah.

01:37:05.460 All right, let's. 0.99

01:37:06.520 Hot take is that most men are truly just gross. 0.99

01:37:10.160 Oh, sure. 0.99

01:37:11.180 This is after a hard conversation.

01:37:13.040 After you had a hard conversation?

01:37:16.460 Yeah, this was that, that, that text.

01:37:18.540 Oh, my God.

01:37:19.380 I'm literally.

01:37:22.120 I'm sorry.

01:37:22.740 That's not true.

01:37:23.460 I don't, I really don't believe that.

01:37:24.980 I really don't believe that.

01:37:26.120 I was just upset.

01:37:27.580 You know, there's a lot of truth and heated moments.

01:37:30.640 I was very upset.

01:37:32.500 I was very upset.

01:37:33.240 I had some guys trying to break into my apartment the other night.

01:37:38.420 And then one of them actually did.

01:37:40.340 Whoa.

01:37:40.600 Yeah.

01:37:40.760 And then he said he was looking for his keys.

01:37:42.940 And then he actually came back the night before last.

01:37:45.520 I know.

01:37:46.080 And said he was looking for his keys.

01:37:47.820 Again. 1.00

01:37:48.620 I think I'm going to kill him. 1.00

01:37:50.080 But. 0.99

01:37:50.400 Wait, I can't see that on here.

01:37:51.660 I'm not going to do that.

01:37:51.980 Do you have, like, a gun or cameras or alarm system?

01:37:55.080 I know.

01:37:55.440 We live in a.

01:37:56.320 We're getting an alarm system.

01:37:56.940 We are getting cameras for our apartment.

01:37:58.080 We're getting cameras.

01:37:58.800 Or not an alarm system.

01:37:59.800 We're getting cameras.

01:38:01.460 And we keep a knife on the table.

01:38:02.680 Do you want a gun?

01:38:03.480 I have a gun and a camera as well.

01:38:05.500 I will.

01:38:05.820 Once I'm 21, I'll have a gun.

01:38:07.820 But I don't want a hunting rifle.

01:38:09.280 Speaking of firearms, would anybody here not date a guy because he owned a firearm?

01:38:16.500 I would not date him if he didn't know how to use the firearm.

01:38:19.240 I wouldn't date a guy that doesn't own a fire gun.

01:38:22.800 Yeah.

01:38:23.180 You wouldn't date the guy.

01:38:24.200 I wouldn't date a guy.

01:38:25.120 I wouldn't date a guy that went hunting.

01:38:34.260 Oh, no.

01:38:34.820 I like that stuff.

01:38:35.740 Do you know how to use a gun or not?

01:38:37.760 I wouldn't date someone who went hunting.

01:38:40.200 I like it.

01:38:40.840 Who went hunting.

01:38:41.500 Redneck me, for sure.

01:38:42.600 What if it was not?

01:38:43.980 I love the cowboy.

01:38:45.840 What if the hunting was not for?

01:38:48.960 He, like, hunted for food or something.

01:38:52.080 I mean, it was, like, a survival thing.

01:38:53.380 No, not survival.

01:38:54.260 But, like, he likes venison or something like that, fresh from the forest.

01:38:57.820 Yeah, that thing.

01:38:58.680 You know those, like, alligator hunters?

01:39:00.540 Hell, yeah.

01:39:01.080 They kill the alligators because of all its population control.

01:39:03.460 Like, elks or deer?

01:39:04.340 Wait, do you eat meat?

01:39:05.920 Look, I do, but as far as it being, like, shot in front of me or knowing that somebody is doing it,

01:39:12.280 I don't know who's killing these cows. 1.00

01:39:13.340 Well, it wouldn't be in front of you if you don't go hunting with them.

01:39:15.240 Well, what I'm saying is I know that he did it.

01:39:16.960 I think what you're saying is ignorance is bliss.

01:39:19.460 Yeah.

01:39:19.880 Pretty much.

01:39:20.340 But at the same time, it's like you're doing the same thing.

01:39:22.060 Is it just, like, the person?

01:39:23.140 Like, you don't want to be, you don't want to see the person you love?

01:39:26.320 I don't want to be part of the problem, right?

01:39:28.200 Even though I know that you're eating meat part of the problem.

01:39:30.060 I know.

01:39:31.200 You're still with the problem.

01:39:32.180 I want to defend myself.

01:39:32.860 Okay, wait, I have a question.

01:39:33.740 Does that mean, like, are you saying that, like, animals dying is a problem?

01:39:38.500 No, no, no.

01:39:39.080 Listen, so, yes, I do eat meat only because I'm on a protein, platycic diet.

01:39:43.720 I work out.

01:39:44.360 I need the protein, right?

01:39:45.580 Yes, there are alternatives, but, like, for me, I do like meat, unfortunately.

01:39:50.900 However, unfortunately, I have gone vegetarian.

01:39:53.180 So the problem's not big enough for you to stop eating meat is what I'm hearing.

01:39:56.340 Yes, it's not big.

01:39:57.300 It's like, it's not a big enough problem.

01:39:59.480 I just don't like hunting.

01:40:00.080 So, but then you're going to pass the judgment on the people that are just...

01:40:03.380 It's just my personal preference.

01:40:05.200 Like, I don't want to have, like, a deer head in my house and look at it every day.

01:40:09.680 My boyfriend has a deer head at his house, actually.

01:40:13.000 I mean, it's good to decorate.

01:40:14.160 I think my boyfriend would be into whatever kind of...

01:40:16.000 As far as in, like...

01:40:17.580 Ethically speaking, though, ethically speaking, though, I mean, I think there's probably compelling

01:40:22.340 arguments that the factory farming of meat is worse than, like...

01:40:27.740 I completely agree.

01:40:28.580 Way worse.

01:40:29.000 100%.

01:40:29.740 10 times a year.

01:40:30.860 What are we saying?

01:40:31.280 See how they house the chickens?

01:40:32.740 I agree.

01:40:33.740 I agree.

01:40:34.400 And yes, I sound like interested in saying that, but it's only because it's for...

01:40:39.120 It's...

01:40:39.680 All the alternatives I worked, I used it, didn't work.

01:40:42.080 Go ahead.

01:40:42.980 Do you eat, like, all organic, all free-range, all grass-fed?

01:40:47.180 No, I'm not that extreme, all right?

01:40:49.060 I'm not like...

01:40:49.820 Okay, then...

01:40:50.140 It's probably just because she doesn't want to be associated.

01:40:52.340 I don't want to know who did it, you know?

01:40:54.460 It would make me feel bad.

01:40:55.660 It's kind of like, who here has an issue with guys who have post pictures of fish, like

01:41:03.260 the fish pic?

01:41:04.100 Oh, I don't care.

01:41:05.620 That's just too much.

01:41:06.520 That's so adorable.

01:41:07.560 It's a hobby.

01:41:08.120 It's like, oh, look at my little food.

01:41:08.720 Let me see how big of a fish she's got. 1.00

01:41:10.280 Wait, you don't even like...

01:41:11.440 No, every picture I see on a fish pic, I swipe the other way.

01:41:14.580 Why don't...

01:41:15.580 Because if that's all their profile is, it's fish and them, it's just like, dude, what...

01:41:19.380 It's just their little...

01:41:20.280 I think maybe you should move to California.

01:41:22.540 It's part of their hockey.

01:41:23.280 I think you'd like it better.

01:41:24.460 No, I do.

01:41:25.360 I don't like the country. 0.99

01:41:26.520 Going back to this, you said most men are truly just gross. 0.99

01:41:30.200 Oh, yeah, Ava. 0.98

01:41:32.200 Before we get into that, though, any women here agree?

01:41:34.660 Show of hands if you agree. 0.99

01:41:36.120 Men are just truly just gross. 0.99

01:41:37.820 I don't... 0.99

01:41:38.820 Genic or like... 0.79

01:41:39.720 No, like... 0.96

01:41:40.500 Like, gross-minded.

01:41:42.220 Like, this age, especially...

01:41:43.320 Yeah, at our age, absolutely.

01:41:45.720 I agree.

01:41:46.140 Most, you said?

01:41:47.780 I don't say... 0.99

01:41:48.520 Most men are truly just gross. 0.99

01:41:50.200 At this age, at our age, absolutely. 0.99

01:41:51.920 It depends on the definition.

01:41:53.040 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, please.

01:41:54.960 Only one...

01:41:55.600 Just for audio reasons.

01:41:56.940 One person speaking at a time.

01:41:58.360 Go ahead.

01:42:00.580 Well, I took a breath first.

01:42:02.120 Rock paper.

01:42:04.580 I think it depends on the definition of gross.

01:42:07.820 Like, gross-minded?

01:42:09.820 Gross-minded in, like, a weird way? 0.98

01:42:12.740 Like a perverted way. 0.98

01:42:13.760 Oh, then...

01:42:14.560 I mean, like...

01:42:15.320 I think so, because, like, we're...

01:42:17.620 Like, at our age...

01:42:18.820 Yeah.

01:42:19.500 What does that mean?

01:42:20.240 It means that, like, boys our age aren't looking...

01:42:22.500 Like, they can be kind of gross-minded.

01:42:25.140 Like, think gross and, like, be gross.

01:42:28.780 How so?

01:42:29.460 Like, no shade to all my beautiful friends at home,

01:42:32.340 but, like, walking...

01:42:33.840 Like, walking into some of my guy friends' apartments, 0.99

01:42:36.020 like, damn. 0.99

01:42:36.540 So, if you mean, like, hygienic gross? 0.99

01:42:38.140 I don't know.

01:42:38.400 Have you ever walked into a woman's bathroom? 1.00

01:42:40.760 Not that I...

01:42:41.260 Yes!

01:42:41.640 Our bathroom looks amazing.

01:42:42.980 I'm guilty of that.

01:42:44.160 My bathroom is kind of gross sometimes.

01:42:46.400 I'm not saying that, like...

01:42:48.060 It's like a terrible thing.

01:42:48.440 If I walk into any of y'all's bathroom,

01:42:49.980 I don't care if you're a man or a woman. 0.96

01:42:51.660 I'm judging if it looks nasty.

01:42:53.620 Exactly.

01:42:54.340 Well, what do you mean by, like, nasty?

01:42:55.600 Like, public women's bathrooms are... 1.00

01:42:58.640 They're pretty.

01:42:59.380 From what I've...

01:42:59.940 Wait.

01:43:00.320 No, yeah, yeah.

01:43:00.860 That's usually worse.

01:43:02.040 No, I can agree with him.

01:43:04.420 Women are... 1.00

01:43:04.900 I think women's is worse. 1.00

01:43:06.000 Yeah.

01:43:06.640 Like, at my job,

01:43:08.360 when I clean the men's and the women's restroom,

01:43:10.400 the women's restroom is always dirtier. 1.00

01:43:11.780 Yeah.

01:43:12.100 Really?

01:43:12.480 Yes.

01:43:12.620 You don't know how to...

01:43:13.200 First-hand experience.

01:43:14.900 First-hand experience.

01:43:15.880 I can tell you now.

01:43:16.860 I've had the opposite experience.

01:43:17.580 No, same.

01:43:18.100 When I worked at a gym,

01:43:19.020 there'd be, like,

01:43:20.120 either tampon strain hanging out

01:43:21.980 or, like, blood droplets on the...

01:43:24.300 Because girls do way more. 1.00

01:43:25.600 I'm in the bathroom.

01:43:26.420 Excuse me? 0.99

01:43:27.140 That's fucking disgusting. 1.00

01:43:28.860 Wow. 1.00

01:43:29.540 That is...

01:43:30.540 That is something.

01:43:32.120 Okay, that's cool. 0.99

01:43:33.720 So, men are truly just gross. 0.98

01:43:35.960 Yeah, sorry. 0.98

01:43:36.880 Would you be okay, like,

01:43:37.760 if a guy said that about women?

01:43:40.400 No, I don't... 1.00

01:43:40.880 Like, women are just gross. 1.00

01:43:41.620 I told you, I don't remember... 1.00

01:43:43.700 Women are, like, little lizards. 1.00

01:43:45.140 I don't remember... 0.99

01:43:46.060 With their tails.

01:43:47.300 That's what I gave up.

01:43:48.240 All right.

01:43:49.480 I don't.

01:43:50.140 Oh, I was, like,

01:43:51.040 all this automated...

01:43:52.220 We were sitting on the couch

01:43:53.820 and you did it.

01:43:54.380 Yeah, I was, like, okay.

01:43:55.600 But you...

01:43:56.080 So, you said...

01:43:56.640 I didn't think...

01:43:57.320 You also wrote,

01:43:58.520 one guy was stalking you

01:43:59.820 and broke into your apartment

01:44:00.780 because he wanted to...

01:44:01.780 Yeah, that's what I was talking about.

01:44:06.960 I was so mad.

01:44:08.500 I was so mad.

01:44:09.340 Like, he did a B&E.

01:44:13.300 He broke in.

01:44:14.640 He broke in.

01:44:16.400 He used a...

01:44:18.020 There were a bunch of guys outside

01:44:19.620 banging on my...

01:44:20.180 I was alone in my apartment.

01:44:21.420 They were banging on the windows

01:44:22.440 and on the door.

01:44:23.600 And I was like, 0.94

01:44:24.660 okay, what the hell?

01:44:25.520 I, like, know one of them.

01:44:27.400 Yeah, I know one of them.

01:44:28.600 And I was like,

01:44:28.980 why is he just texting me

01:44:30.040 if he needs something?

01:44:32.200 I don't know.

01:44:32.560 Yeah, it is.

01:44:33.020 He was knocking on the door

01:44:34.120 or banging?

01:44:34.900 They're banging.

01:44:35.540 Like, I mean, like,

01:44:36.540 for, like...

01:44:37.360 The dudes were banging? 0.58

01:44:38.940 They were...

01:44:39.780 Okay.

01:44:40.560 Did you make a police report?

01:44:42.060 They bang on our door

01:44:43.480 all the time.

01:44:44.620 They bang on our door

01:44:45.420 all the time.

01:44:46.080 But it was like...

01:44:46.680 This was different.

01:44:47.500 It was like 2.30 in the morning

01:44:48.460 and then you don't go alone.

01:44:48.880 Are they your friends?

01:44:49.900 And so what did you do?

01:44:50.640 No.

01:44:51.400 One of them was my friend.

01:44:52.440 I called my guy friends.

01:44:53.380 I'm like,

01:44:53.620 you need to come to my house right now.

01:44:55.220 I'm starting to get really scared

01:44:56.200 because then they came around

01:44:57.480 the other side

01:44:58.280 and multiple...

01:44:59.400 Like, one of them has my number.

01:45:00.600 He could have just texted me

01:45:01.420 and asked if they needed something.

01:45:03.100 And they came around

01:45:03.960 the other side

01:45:04.560 like where you can see

01:45:05.500 from inside my place

01:45:06.600 from the, like, balcony

01:45:07.940 like from the parking lot.

01:45:10.320 And I, like...

01:45:12.280 They came around

01:45:12.820 and they were looking at me

01:45:13.680 through the thing

01:45:14.100 and they were like,

01:45:14.660 yeah, she's in there. 0.97

01:45:15.440 And then they, like,

01:45:16.000 went back around

01:45:16.920 and I was like,

01:45:17.440 why don't they just say something?

01:45:18.820 And then so I wait for...

01:45:20.100 I call all my guy friends

01:45:21.460 and, like,

01:45:21.720 some of them are asleep.

01:45:22.520 Some of them live

01:45:23.000 in my apartment complex.

01:45:24.360 And so calling them,

01:45:25.780 I'm like,

01:45:25.980 you need to come here right now.

01:45:27.560 And so two of my guy friends

01:45:29.400 just, like,

01:45:30.060 ran over to my apartment

01:45:31.180 and they...

01:45:33.400 And I opened the door

01:45:34.200 and let them in

01:45:34.740 and then another guy,

01:45:35.680 one of the guys

01:45:36.140 that was banging on the door

01:45:36.920 was still outside my door

01:45:38.100 and he was like,

01:45:38.620 oh, I'm trying to get in there too.

01:45:40.660 And then my guy friends,

01:45:42.640 like, came inside

01:45:43.660 and they said...

01:45:44.720 And they, like,

01:45:45.160 looked behind me

01:45:45.860 and one of the guys

01:45:47.060 was standing behind me

01:45:48.340 in my living room.

01:45:49.340 He had climbed my balcony.

01:45:52.160 Oh my God.

01:45:53.320 And gone and broken into my house

01:45:55.160 and went into my living room.

01:45:56.440 And then as soon as

01:45:57.100 he saw my guy friends,

01:45:57.760 he was like,

01:45:58.040 I'm just...

01:45:59.500 I'm looking for my keys.

01:46:02.000 And I was like,

01:46:02.400 I've never seen you in my life.

01:46:04.260 You're not...

01:46:04.580 You've never been in here.

01:46:06.080 What are you talking about?

01:46:07.000 That's terrifying.

01:46:08.660 And I went back into my...

01:46:09.060 So I called the cops the next day.

01:46:10.600 I filed a police report.

01:46:11.940 Oh.

01:46:12.420 Like,

01:46:12.900 that was the picture of me

01:46:14.140 with the cops.

01:46:15.260 That was me filing...

01:46:16.420 Sorry,

01:46:17.160 there was a picture of me

01:46:17.980 sent to, like,

01:46:18.800 200 people

01:46:19.580 of me talking to some cops.

01:46:21.020 It was me filing a police report.

01:46:22.020 Good times.

01:46:22.920 Good times.

01:46:23.220 That's terrifying.

01:46:24.600 This just happened,

01:46:25.680 by the way.

01:46:25.780 And then he came back.

01:46:26.720 I saw him at a party

01:46:27.680 the other night

01:46:28.240 and I was like,

01:46:28.720 if you come near me

01:46:30.100 ever again,

01:46:30.940 I swear to God, 1.00

01:46:31.800 I will either stab you 1.00

01:46:33.680 or you will get arrested. 1.00

01:46:35.220 And then he went into my house.

01:46:36.860 Yeah,

01:46:37.060 he was in our apartment

01:46:37.940 probably two days ago.

01:46:38.840 Yeah,

01:46:38.860 that's pretty creepy.

01:46:39.900 But I wasn't there

01:46:40.480 so I didn't get to stab him. 0.99

01:46:42.020 Shoot. 1.00

01:46:43.140 Darn, 1.00

01:46:43.640 missed out. 1.00

01:46:44.280 You also wrote in your notes

01:46:45.700 that maybe that dating

01:46:48.100 doesn't always need to be to marry

01:46:49.960 and that we should enjoy

01:46:51.380 our younger years.

01:46:52.560 Yeah.

01:46:53.960 Who agrees with that?

01:46:55.180 Anybody agree with that?

01:46:56.280 Enjoy?

01:46:56.640 Depends.

01:46:56.980 Partially.

01:46:57.860 I'll put my hand halfway up.

01:46:59.020 But can you define

01:47:00.480 when you say

01:47:00.960 we should enjoy younger years?

01:47:03.540 Like I think that

01:47:04.300 not everybody is meant

01:47:05.360 to be in your life forever.

01:47:06.600 I think that a lot of people

01:47:07.680 are there just to teach you lessons

01:47:09.000 and be a chapter

01:47:09.980 and then like leave.

01:47:11.500 Prepare you for the forever person.

01:47:12.980 Yeah,

01:47:13.040 exactly.

01:47:13.620 Like I think that like most of my...

01:47:14.940 Sorry,

01:47:15.180 can you repeat that one more time?

01:47:16.400 Prepare you for the forever person.

01:47:18.480 Exactly.

01:47:18.880 That sounds kind of bad.

01:47:21.060 Yeah,

01:47:21.300 I don't think it does.

01:47:22.380 Can I please talk about

01:47:25.080 what I just said

01:47:25.560 so it doesn't like...

01:47:26.360 I don't mean that.

01:47:27.060 It didn't sound bad to me.

01:47:27.780 So the way the male brain

01:47:29.680 processes that

01:47:30.820 is...

01:47:33.380 So it's like,

01:47:33.880 okay,

01:47:34.100 my future wife...

01:47:36.380 We're not talking about sex, 0.99

01:47:37.840 you freak. 0.88

01:47:38.380 This is what I was saying

01:47:39.240 in my last thing.

01:47:40.560 Took the words

01:47:40.920 right out my mouth, girl.

01:47:42.180 No, but hold on.

01:47:43.380 That's kind of...

01:47:43.800 I'm talking emotional.

01:47:44.760 That's why I wanted to...

01:47:45.320 Stop, stop.

01:47:46.040 Stop interrupting, please.

01:47:47.680 So it's not that...

01:47:50.100 It's not a big deal.

01:47:50.700 Just you gotta let me finish

01:47:51.980 my sentence here.

01:47:53.160 Okay, go ahead.

01:47:53.820 Go on.

01:47:54.120 Go ahead.

01:47:56.020 When a guy hears that,

01:47:58.000 he's gonna think...

01:47:59.840 Like,

01:48:00.080 because you're talking about

01:48:01.120 your future final guy

01:48:03.480 being prepared for him.

01:48:05.580 He hears

01:48:06.380 she just got ran through

01:48:07.960 in college 0.99

01:48:08.320 and like fucked a bunch of dudes 1.00

01:48:09.420 and had a bunch of casual sex. 1.00

01:48:10.860 That's the male brain. 1.00

01:48:11.820 That's what the male brain is. 0.96

01:48:13.080 But that's not...

01:48:13.680 We're not talking about sex.

01:48:14.900 Yeah.

01:48:15.120 We're talking about like

01:48:15.880 learning for...

01:48:16.780 Like, that's not...

01:48:17.760 I'm not talking about...

01:48:19.000 That's not dating.

01:48:20.320 That's just...

01:48:21.140 I realize you don't sleep

01:48:22.600 with every guy you talk to.

01:48:23.980 I understand what you mean.

01:48:24.960 But like, that's what...

01:48:25.380 When I said that,

01:48:27.020 I did not mean sexually at all.

01:48:28.960 I meant that like,

01:48:29.660 when you get...

01:48:30.080 That's a component.

01:48:30.960 But go ahead.

01:48:31.740 Yeah, but I didn't even

01:48:32.700 think about that.

01:48:33.420 I'm just saying that like,

01:48:34.360 when you date people,

01:48:36.140 you like, learn more

01:48:37.880 how to be a good partner.

01:48:39.640 And so then like,

01:48:40.920 after dating,

01:48:41.700 when you find someone

01:48:42.720 that you want to be with forever,

01:48:43.680 you like, have the intelligence

01:48:46.040 through experience.

01:48:47.400 You don't have to be

01:48:47.980 in a relationship.

01:48:48.840 But you could also

01:48:49.600 generalize this,

01:48:50.460 not just with relationships,

01:48:51.600 but also friendships too.

01:48:53.160 Yes.

01:48:53.420 It's not just sex, like bars.

01:48:55.500 You can be my friend

01:48:56.460 and then we not be friends

01:48:57.620 and that could have taught us

01:48:58.540 something about our relationship

01:49:00.480 and like my personality,

01:49:02.720 your personality,

01:49:03.700 for me to be a...

01:49:04.840 Show up as a better friend

01:49:05.960 in whoever else's life.

01:49:07.580 It's not necessarily about,

01:49:09.280 oh, I'm getting ran through

01:49:10.500 by all these guys

01:49:11.500 so that I can be...

01:49:12.480 Yeah, that was really

01:49:13.240 out of pocket.

01:49:13.920 The best girl I met.

01:49:15.140 Man, it's like,

01:49:15.740 no, how can I show up

01:49:16.700 as a better version of myself

01:49:17.980 to this next person,

01:49:19.460 whether that be

01:49:20.000 as a friendship or a lover?

01:49:21.740 Yeah, that's great narrative spin

01:49:23.480 on your half.

01:49:24.720 But again, I was explaining

01:49:26.040 and describing

01:49:26.840 the male interpretation

01:49:28.760 and male understanding

01:49:29.940 of when you say

01:49:31.080 something like that.

01:49:32.200 That adds to that 1.00

01:49:33.380 men are gross. 1.00

01:49:34.920 That's the problem. 1.00

01:49:35.260 Men are gross. 1.00

01:49:35.980 See, because you went 1.00

01:49:37.440 immediately to that assumption.

01:49:39.040 It has nothing to do

01:49:39.760 with being gross.

01:49:41.060 It's just, first off,

01:49:42.360 it's the reality.

01:49:43.080 And while I agree partially... 0.97

01:49:45.280 The reality is that you're gross? 0.95

01:49:47.000 No. 0.97

01:49:48.300 I'll explain it to you.

01:49:50.060 Yeah, please explain.

01:49:51.720 Yeah, so there is a component

01:49:53.720 of when you're dating somebody,

01:49:58.140 the part I agree with...

01:50:00.840 Okay, cool, you can roll your eyes,

01:50:02.400 but I'm telling you

01:50:03.320 the male perspective.

01:50:03.980 There is a component of...

01:50:07.580 How do I frame this properly?

01:50:10.460 You were saying how

01:50:11.720 you do learn things

01:50:12.740 in relationships.

01:50:13.760 And I agree.

01:50:15.000 However, you also accrue trauma

01:50:17.980 from your relationships.

01:50:19.500 I'm sure most of you

01:50:20.480 have had some degree of trauma

01:50:22.500 or you've been in a toxic thing.

01:50:24.360 So that typically

01:50:25.540 doesn't manifest itself

01:50:26.820 very good

01:50:27.680 in your future relationships.

01:50:29.640 You develop trust issues.

01:50:31.520 You have unresolved trauma.

01:50:33.980 Like I said.

01:50:35.200 So this idea,

01:50:36.220 on one hand,

01:50:36.780 yes, I agree that

01:50:37.640 past experiences,

01:50:39.540 you can grow from that,

01:50:40.360 you can learn from that,

01:50:41.220 but also you kind of get trauma

01:50:43.040 and you get trust issues

01:50:44.980 and all this sort of stuff.

01:50:47.040 Can I add on that?

01:50:47.740 Sure.

01:50:48.420 I think that...

01:50:49.580 I think the whole

01:50:51.340 through trial and error

01:50:52.360 is like 100%.

01:50:53.240 I think that even the negatives

01:50:56.140 prepare you

01:50:57.440 for the future in a way.

01:50:59.040 The things that...

01:50:59.960 I'm a huge believer

01:51:01.840 in everything happens

01:51:02.580 for a reason,

01:51:03.320 no matter what.

01:51:04.880 That's just like...

01:51:05.360 That's the main thing.

01:51:05.860 I'm not saying that's...

01:51:06.620 Everything happens for a reason?

01:51:08.200 That's what I think.

01:51:09.260 And for me,

01:51:10.160 in general.

01:51:11.200 Because...

01:51:11.640 What about...

01:51:12.260 Yeah, I've had like

01:51:13.260 bad experiences

01:51:13.960 with boys and stuff,

01:51:15.040 but it's like...

01:51:16.740 Everything happens for a reason?

01:51:18.020 I think so.

01:51:19.220 Yeah, I think so too.

01:51:20.080 Within a person's life.

01:51:21.240 Childhood cancer?

01:51:22.140 Within a person's life.

01:51:23.160 Yeah.

01:51:24.360 I don't think that it's good

01:51:25.280 when it happens for a reason.

01:51:26.660 Everything has a outcome.

01:51:27.420 Child...

01:51:27.920 Child, like...

01:51:29.280 I'm talking about my life.

01:51:30.660 I'm talking about like...

01:51:31.260 Childhood cancer happens

01:51:32.440 for a reason?

01:51:32.640 I never had cancer.

01:51:34.380 I'm talking about like

01:51:35.320 in my life,

01:51:36.220 I think everything...

01:51:36.900 You acknowledge that

01:51:36.920 some children have cancer.

01:51:38.320 Yes.

01:51:38.860 She was speaking about her...

01:51:40.620 Like, I'm talking about myself.

01:51:41.700 No, she's... 1.00

01:51:42.640 Well, yes,

01:51:43.280 but then also...

01:51:44.140 She said I'm personally...

01:51:44.480 She's talking in general too.

01:51:46.560 In general to myself.

01:51:47.900 I heard I personally believe

01:51:49.400 that everything in my life

01:51:50.740 happens for a reason.

01:51:51.140 Exactly.

01:51:51.640 I'm not saying

01:51:51.960 that's a general thing.

01:51:52.500 That's what I heard from her.

01:51:53.040 Because like...

01:51:53.640 That's just something

01:51:54.440 that I use to like...

01:51:56.200 Just like...

01:51:57.120 Enjoy life.

01:51:58.060 I'm like, okay,

01:51:58.520 that happened,

01:51:59.260 but now I know X, Y, Z,

01:52:01.420 and next time I can...

01:52:03.120 This, that, and the third.

01:52:04.180 Happened for a reason.

01:52:05.180 Like, you don't have to

01:52:05.900 hold on to the trauma

01:52:07.080 and make it the way...

01:52:07.840 Exactly.

01:52:08.380 So that I don't have to be like,

01:52:10.620 if that happened to me,

01:52:11.060 that was horrible

01:52:11.600 and drag it forever.

01:52:13.100 I can just be like,

01:52:13.440 okay, it happened for a reason.

01:52:15.140 I learned...

01:52:15.840 I'm a bit confused here

01:52:17.540 because weren't you saying 0.98

01:52:18.600 that men are gross 0.99

01:52:20.540 because they just... 0.99

01:52:21.260 All they want to do

01:52:21.760 is hook up?

01:52:22.720 Like, they just think about sex?

01:52:24.060 No, that's not what I said.

01:52:25.260 No, she said like mentally...

01:52:26.120 I think it's okay.

01:52:27.280 I didn't...

01:52:27.600 Guys, and I also like...

01:52:28.820 I think you need to take that

01:52:30.180 with like a little bit more

01:52:31.140 of a grain of salt.

01:52:32.180 Like, I think that like

01:52:33.900 men and women

01:52:34.780 are just like different

01:52:36.260 and I think that at my age...

01:52:40.100 Guys are really, really

01:52:43.260 like having a hard time 0.62

01:52:44.620 not only thinking about sex

01:52:47.260 and like I think that it's... 0.85

01:52:49.680 Yeah, I think it's kind of gross

01:52:50.740 and like also just like

01:52:52.040 my experience with men

01:52:53.020 overall has been pretty nasty.

01:52:56.120 So and like honestly,

01:52:57.060 that's true for like

01:52:57.900 a lot of other girls

01:52:58.800 that I know

01:52:59.400 but I don't...

01:53:01.140 I think if you only think...

01:53:02.100 If you like sex, 0.99

01:53:03.320 you like sex, girl, 1.00

01:53:04.620 go have a lot of sex. 1.00

01:53:05.760 Like, I think that's true 0.99

01:53:06.620 for girls and guys. 0.93

01:53:07.700 Like, have as much sex 0.99

01:53:08.680 as you want. 1.00

01:53:09.240 I don't care.

01:53:10.120 But would it be safe

01:53:10.980 to say that if he...

01:53:12.740 Could you restate that again?

01:53:13.980 You said that you

01:53:14.860 are running into a lot of issues

01:53:16.240 where you're finding 0.94

01:53:16.740 a lot of gross men. 0.94

01:53:17.800 So would it be fair to say 0.98

01:53:18.680 that you're also picking

01:53:20.060 a pattern of choosing 0.94

01:53:21.120 these gross men? 0.99

01:53:21.700 Oh no, I don't get 0.99

01:53:22.640 with these gross men. 0.97

01:53:23.900 I mean, this is an observation 0.98

01:53:25.160 at most.

01:53:27.180 Just like the people around her.

01:53:28.580 The men that I'm around with.

01:53:29.460 But you...

01:53:30.120 So I am somebody

01:53:31.660 that believes like

01:53:32.800 you are what you attract

01:53:33.840 and you are one of five people

01:53:35.260 that you hang out with.

01:53:36.220 So if you're hanging out

01:53:37.980 in a room of five people

01:53:39.180 and those five people

01:53:40.340 are attracting... 1.00

01:53:41.180 Kind of suck. 0.99

01:53:42.100 Yeah, attracting 0.99

01:53:42.880 different vibe.

01:53:43.600 Wouldn't it be safe to say

01:53:45.180 that you're attracting 0.99

01:53:45.940 those shitty individuals 0.99

01:53:46.960 to gravitate towards you? 0.99

01:53:48.480 Because what about you

01:53:49.540 makes them feel like

01:53:50.700 it's okay to gravitate

01:53:51.580 towards you?

01:53:52.580 What about you

01:53:53.740 are you projecting out there

01:53:54.780 to be like,

01:53:55.640 oh, this one?

01:53:58.640 Have you ever thought

01:53:59.400 about that?

01:54:00.220 Yeah, no.

01:54:00.900 Honestly, I have actually.

01:54:03.180 Because my mom... 1.00

01:54:05.600 Sorry, yeah.

01:54:07.220 I actually have.

01:54:08.120 That's a pretty deep pull.

01:54:10.100 But I have thought about that.

01:54:11.140 Why does this stuff

01:54:12.560 happen to me so often?

01:54:14.040 Why is it me?

01:54:15.400 Am I enabling

01:54:16.860 this kind of stuff?

01:54:18.300 Right.

01:54:19.160 And so that's one

01:54:21.140 of the reasons

01:54:22.140 that I...

01:54:23.320 That's one thing

01:54:24.340 that I went to therapy for.

01:54:26.460 Right.

01:54:26.640 And I kind of like...

01:54:29.860 I became a lot more

01:54:31.500 like firm with...

01:54:33.760 Thank you, Kaibaka.

01:54:34.880 ...like boundaries

01:54:37.460 with men.

01:54:38.580 But at the same time,

01:54:39.620 the way that I'm speaking,

01:54:40.860 it's more like general.

01:54:41.800 It's like,

01:54:42.380 I'll go to the grocery store

01:54:44.200 and like,

01:54:45.700 these guys have nothing

01:54:46.620 to think about me,

01:54:47.520 but just like gross remarks.

01:54:48.980 Just stuff like that.

01:54:49.740 It's not like my guy friends

01:54:51.520 or like my boyfriends

01:54:53.300 that I've had.

01:54:53.880 Like none of my boyfriends

01:54:54.840 have been gross.

01:54:55.500 Just like catcalling and stuff?

01:54:57.000 Yeah, catcalling and stuff

01:54:58.360 and like,

01:54:59.120 just like a lot of experiences

01:55:00.480 where I felt like unsafe

01:55:01.880 and uncomfortable

01:55:02.540 where like...

01:55:03.480 Sexualized?

01:55:04.140 Yeah, just really sexualized

01:55:05.720 like every single day

01:55:06.900 and it's like,

01:55:07.460 all right, that's cool.

01:55:08.320 You get catcalled

01:55:09.000 every single day?

01:55:09.940 No, I feel sexualized

01:55:11.520 every single day.

01:55:12.700 In what capacity?

01:55:15.160 Just like...

01:55:16.680 Can someone else

01:55:18.240 help me with this?

01:55:19.000 I know that you guys

01:55:19.560 have been sexualized.

01:55:21.520 Have you? 0.71

01:55:21.560 Yeah, but you said

01:55:21.980 you've been sexualized 0.87

01:55:22.840 every single day. 0.85

01:55:23.740 But personally for you,

01:55:24.620 like what does that feel like?

01:55:25.340 I feel like as a woman

01:55:26.380 you're kind of like...

01:55:28.080 Like I feel like a lot

01:55:29.360 of being a woman

01:55:31.260 like can make you...

01:55:33.800 I think it's more fair

01:55:35.000 for you to say

01:55:35.500 that women are sexualized often.

01:55:37.120 Yeah, no.

01:55:37.680 I don't think that women, 1.00

01:55:38.800 every single person

01:55:39.800 is sexualized

01:55:40.400 every single day.

01:55:41.160 I think that like

01:55:41.760 I can't take

01:55:42.400 what I'm saying

01:55:42.920 a little bit less like...

01:55:44.100 I can say this

01:55:45.260 that the way I used

01:55:46.480 to post on social media

01:55:47.740 like over a year ago,

01:55:49.660 I would always complain

01:55:51.300 like why was I getting

01:55:52.300 the attention

01:55:52.860 that I was getting

01:55:53.560 or why were people

01:55:54.580 treating me how they were.

01:55:56.080 But then I had to really look

01:55:56.940 at how I was posting

01:55:57.860 and what I was like...

01:55:59.140 How I was presenting myself.

01:56:00.800 And I was presenting myself

01:56:02.240 like my tongue,

01:56:03.380 my body under here.

01:56:05.020 It was like the whole source

01:56:06.700 of my power

01:56:07.440 and people treated me that way.

01:56:09.560 And then I would complain about it.

01:56:11.560 You know,

01:56:11.800 so eventually I really had to like

01:56:13.180 look inward

01:56:13.800 and really like

01:56:14.780 why is this happening?

01:56:17.040 And what's the definition

01:56:18.300 of insanity

01:56:19.360 if you do the same thing

01:56:20.480 over and over

01:56:21.180 and you're expecting

01:56:22.380 a different outcome?

01:56:24.340 You know,

01:56:24.640 so just like how you said,

01:56:26.420 sometimes we actually have

01:56:27.640 to like hold ourselves accountable.

01:56:29.260 Like if you know,

01:56:30.080 like you guys are beautiful ladies 0.78

01:56:32.100 so there almost is more responsibility

01:56:34.960 when you are beautiful.

01:56:36.480 You know,

01:56:36.840 it doesn't mean it's fair

01:56:37.800 because life isn't fair

01:56:38.860 but that's just the truth of it.

01:56:40.500 And don't ever forget

01:56:41.440 that like you teach people

01:56:42.560 how to treat you too.

01:56:43.460 So yeah,

01:56:45.880 and literally

01:56:46.520 if you guys ever go to my page,

01:56:48.280 look,

01:56:48.540 if you guys ever go to my Instagram

01:56:50.000 and look at stuff

01:56:50.840 from like a year or two ago,

01:56:52.740 phew,

01:56:53.320 very different person.

01:56:55.600 You know what I'm saying?

01:56:56.320 And I definitely got treated

01:56:58.000 like that person

01:56:58.900 I was presenting

01:56:59.580 and then the way

01:57:00.640 that I post now

01:57:01.560 and the way I treat

01:57:02.560 my platform now,

01:57:03.620 I get way more respect

01:57:05.620 in the way that people

01:57:06.380 conversate with me.

01:57:08.860 Yo,

01:57:09.360 Pasty,

01:57:09.700 thank you, man.

01:57:10.080 George donated $200.

01:57:11.760 I once worked

01:57:13.560 as a janitor

01:57:14.340 for a few years

01:57:15.400 and the women's

01:57:16.420 public bathrooms

01:57:17.300 had bloody, 0.86

01:57:18.440 foul-smelling dampens

01:57:19.840 overflowing the trash bin,

01:57:21.660 blood on the toilet seat

01:57:23.000 and on the floors.

01:57:24.500 He's not wrong. 0.92

01:57:25.240 It's freaking gross. 1.00

01:57:26.680 Damn. 1.00

01:57:27.340 He's not wrong. 1.00

01:57:27.800 That is...

01:57:29.240 Wow.

01:57:30.080 I wish I knew.

01:57:30.980 All right,

01:57:31.300 we have another one

01:57:32.160 from Pasty George.

01:57:34.100 Time check.

01:57:34.920 Time check.

01:57:35.600 Can you just say six?

01:57:37.040 It's almost seven,

01:57:38.480 I think.

01:57:38.980 Oh.

01:57:39.160 Pasty George donated $200.

01:57:43.020 Chair three boldly stated

01:57:44.460 that everything happens

01:57:45.580 for a reason

01:57:46.360 and this was meant

01:57:47.560 not just for her life

01:57:48.720 but life in general.

01:57:50.360 So,

01:57:50.860 by her belief,

01:57:52.080 child cancer

01:57:52.900 and pedoism

01:57:53.660 happen for a reason.

01:57:55.460 Neat art.

01:57:57.360 Again,

01:57:58.140 I was just talking

01:57:59.400 about myself.

01:58:00.040 But,

01:58:00.560 how can something be

01:58:02.360 in general for you?

01:58:05.100 It's literally

01:58:06.040 like a memo for myself.

01:58:07.760 It would be specifically

01:58:08.680 for me.

01:58:09.480 You couldn't...

01:58:10.400 I don't think general...

01:58:12.500 I don't know.

01:58:12.860 Go ahead.

01:58:13.220 You wanted to explain it?

01:58:14.740 It's just...

01:58:15.380 Like,

01:58:15.600 I just...

01:58:16.060 That's just for me.

01:58:17.200 That's just my thing.

01:58:18.040 Everything happens

01:58:18.520 for a reason.

01:58:19.540 I'm not saying

01:58:20.120 that everything

01:58:20.500 in the whole entire world

01:58:21.600 happens for a reason.

01:58:23.040 I just was just

01:58:24.400 talking about myself.

01:58:25.260 Like,

01:58:25.420 I wouldn't be able to...

01:58:26.420 I wouldn't be able

01:58:27.200 to answer that.

01:58:27.640 I can't justify

01:58:28.280 why children are born

01:58:29.560 and immediately get cancer

01:58:30.520 and that type of thing.

01:58:31.560 That is not at all

01:58:32.700 what I meant to say.

01:58:33.900 Yeah.

01:58:34.120 Also,

01:58:34.320 do you want to do

01:58:34.900 the singing now?

01:58:37.040 Singing?

01:58:38.020 You said you would

01:58:38.580 sing later.

01:58:39.040 Follow Bella's vocals

01:58:40.100 TikTok, please.

01:58:41.320 You don't have to.

01:58:41.360 If you don't want to.

01:58:42.860 Acapella is crazy,

01:58:44.300 but Bella's vocals 0.59

01:58:45.760 TikTok.

01:58:46.520 Go follow me.

01:58:47.820 Bella Brown on Spotify.

01:58:50.060 Going to...

01:58:51.060 By the way,

01:58:51.360 do you prefer solo?

01:58:52.340 Do you prefer Mia?

01:58:53.160 What do you prefer

01:58:53.820 going by?

01:58:54.320 Everyone calls me solo.

01:58:55.540 Solo.

01:58:56.040 Okay.

01:58:56.900 You said your ex

01:58:57.900 lost his virginity

01:58:58.920 to a different girl

01:58:59.740 two days before

01:59:00.660 your birthday

01:59:01.360 while you were

01:59:02.000 at your sister's wedding

01:59:03.220 and also told him

01:59:05.840 you loved him

01:59:06.580 that night?

01:59:07.540 Correct.

01:59:10.720 Nice.

01:59:11.400 There's a lot

01:59:11.900 to unpack there.

01:59:12.800 Wait,

01:59:13.060 so you were dating him.

01:59:14.500 He lost his virginity.

01:59:15.540 How long were you

01:59:16.060 dating him again?

01:59:17.540 We were on and off

01:59:19.200 for over a year.

01:59:22.000 Okay,

01:59:22.300 on and off

01:59:22.700 for over a year.

01:59:23.960 He lost his virginity

01:59:25.460 to a different girl.

01:59:26.500 Yeah,

01:59:26.920 like we didn't do

01:59:27.640 anything together.

01:59:29.360 Okay.

01:59:29.580 and I was

01:59:30.600 out of town

01:59:31.460 for my sister's wedding.

01:59:38.040 Yeah.

01:59:38.540 We went over it

01:59:39.420 like at the beginning

01:59:40.700 of the show.

01:59:41.100 It's not a big deal

01:59:41.700 but just so she can

01:59:43.360 not be interrupted.

01:59:45.300 But I'm hot.

01:59:45.860 It's hot.

01:59:46.720 That's all I said.

01:59:48.620 Okay.

01:59:50.620 I don't even know.

01:59:51.560 I mean,

01:59:51.780 there's just reasons

01:59:52.620 for some of these rules

01:59:53.540 that we have.

01:59:55.080 No complaints.

01:59:56.380 I just...

01:59:56.920 It seems you're

01:59:57.480 scoffing a little bit

01:59:58.380 when Felicity

01:59:59.820 ages politely.

02:00:01.480 I just shake some

02:00:02.060 and it's rude to her. 1.00

02:00:02.840 Yeah.

02:00:03.260 All good.

02:00:03.860 Yeah,

02:00:04.080 we just have a reason

02:00:04.740 for it so that people

02:00:05.540 don't feel interrupted.

02:00:06.520 Go ahead.

02:00:08.180 I don't remember

02:00:09.200 where I was at

02:00:10.240 with that.

02:00:11.000 Okay.

02:00:11.420 You wanted to talk

02:00:12.260 about hookup culture,

02:00:13.380 red flags?

02:00:14.260 Oh,

02:00:15.260 I think

02:00:16.520 hookup culture

02:00:17.760 is...

02:00:21.000 This is hard.

02:00:23.640 It's bad

02:00:24.820 if you don't

02:00:27.020 understand

02:00:27.700 what you're

02:00:28.800 signing yourself up for.

02:00:30.880 That's my

02:00:31.520 perspective on it.

02:00:33.680 Because people are like,

02:00:34.620 oh,

02:00:34.720 I don't want to be

02:00:35.300 seen this way.

02:00:35.920 I don't want to be

02:00:36.380 doing...

02:00:36.640 Okay,

02:00:36.920 then don't go

02:00:38.280 do that.

02:00:39.300 Don't go hookup

02:00:39.900 with a bunch of guys.

02:00:40.940 I think it's fine

02:00:40.960 as long as you own it

02:00:42.060 and as long as you,

02:00:43.120 again,

02:00:43.460 let yourself into it

02:00:44.420 and then both parties

02:00:45.180 know that it's purely

02:00:46.180 for sex. 0.61

02:00:46.840 The hookup culture 0.98

02:00:47.680 has ruined

02:00:48.360 the dating scene.

02:00:49.560 I agree 100%.

02:00:50.900 It has ruined it.

02:00:51.900 It is so hard

02:00:53.800 to date now

02:00:54.380 because everybody

02:00:55.080 just knows

02:00:55.600 that they can

02:00:55.980 just hook up

02:00:56.500 with somebody.

02:00:57.640 There's no genuine

02:00:58.500 like,

02:00:59.540 I will wait

02:01:00.280 or there's no

02:01:01.300 genuine love there.

02:01:02.400 It's just physically

02:01:03.400 attracted or not

02:01:04.680 physically attracted.

02:01:05.760 Or people like

02:01:06.540 making it like

02:01:07.860 a trial run.

02:01:08.480 Well,

02:01:08.600 I need to know

02:01:09.120 what it's like

02:01:09.660 before I can...

02:01:10.640 You know,

02:01:10.940 it's just...

02:01:11.400 No,

02:01:11.600 but I agree with that.

02:01:12.800 I think guys need it.

02:01:14.360 No,

02:01:14.880 I...

02:01:15.440 Women too. 1.00

02:01:16.580 The thing is,

02:01:17.540 sex is literally 0.95

02:01:18.320 a gift from God.

02:01:19.300 It's not supposed

02:01:20.040 to be exploited.

02:01:21.120 You know what I'm saying?

02:01:21.680 And so,

02:01:22.540 I think...

02:01:23.180 And I...

02:01:23.600 I mean,

02:01:23.960 even when I...

02:01:25.200 I answered some questions,

02:01:26.880 like,

02:01:27.160 I have to own up

02:01:28.100 to my place

02:01:29.480 in that side as well.

02:01:30.720 But because of where...

02:01:32.260 Like,

02:01:33.000 where I came from

02:01:34.280 and how I presented myself,

02:01:36.580 I don't...

02:01:37.540 Like,

02:01:37.740 sex is not my source 0.98

02:01:38.900 of identity.

02:01:39.660 It's not...

02:01:39.980 Sex is not,

02:01:40.780 like,

02:01:41.360 the end-all,

02:01:42.320 be-all of what my purpose is

02:01:43.860 and stuff like that.

02:01:44.600 It literally...

02:01:45.200 It feels good

02:01:46.160 because it was a gift

02:01:47.220 and it should be treated

02:01:48.520 as such,

02:01:49.160 so...

02:01:50.160 It destroys relationships.

02:01:52.940 It, um...

02:01:54.560 No offense to those

02:01:55.480 who do only offense,

02:01:56.280 but not against...

02:01:57.100 I mean,

02:01:57.640 do what you want,

02:01:58.360 but things like that

02:01:59.540 has ruined it.

02:02:01.460 Are you saying

02:02:02.280 sex ruined relationships?

02:02:03.880 Well,

02:02:04.000 I'm thinking,

02:02:04.400 like, 0.98

02:02:05.040 having sex 0.97

02:02:05.580 with multiple people 0.93

02:02:06.580 and being able

02:02:07.280 to just get it

02:02:08.040 and see it anywhere

02:02:08.840 and then taking that experience

02:02:10.840 that they see online

02:02:11.840 or on the...

02:02:12.880 And putting it

02:02:13.460 into their relationships

02:02:14.240 when it's really

02:02:14.820 not like that.

02:02:16.100 You know what I'm saying?

02:02:16.520 But I disagree with that.

02:02:18.160 I highly feel like

02:02:19.120 men need to, 0.99

02:02:20.620 like,

02:02:22.060 have bodies

02:02:22.980 in order to find

02:02:23.900 the right one.

02:02:24.720 Because, like,

02:02:25.300 what if you're dating

02:02:26.020 a man who hasn't

02:02:27.620 experienced,

02:02:28.360 oh,

02:02:29.100 a skinny girl 0.84

02:02:29.680 or a thick girl 1.00

02:02:30.500 and he has those thoughts

02:02:31.880 running around in his head?

02:02:33.180 Then what?

02:02:33.800 Then you shouldn't have them.

02:02:34.840 Yeah,

02:02:35.100 that's,

02:02:35.340 that's,

02:02:35.680 like,

02:02:35.940 that's so,

02:02:36.540 that's just really immature,

02:02:37.940 like,

02:02:38.100 just a really immature

02:02:39.300 thought process,

02:02:40.120 especially,

02:02:40.940 like,

02:02:41.300 on the man.

02:02:41.720 I'm never gonna justify

02:02:43.440 any man I'm with

02:02:45.000 to have those,

02:02:45.840 like,

02:02:46.260 lustful type of thoughts.

02:02:48.020 Like,

02:02:48.180 it's,

02:02:48.460 it's absolutely a disservice

02:02:50.060 to us as people

02:02:50.960 to diminish ourselves

02:02:52.760 to that.

02:02:53.980 And literally,

02:02:54.700 this is,

02:02:55.120 like,

02:02:55.180 a common thing.

02:02:55.900 Human beings

02:02:56.460 are the only creatures

02:02:57.820 that live below our means,

02:02:59.160 where we've simplified

02:02:59.960 ourselves to that.

02:03:01.540 And it's just,

02:03:02.440 it's such a disservice

02:03:03.380 to ourselves as individuals.

02:03:04.940 We're so much greater

02:03:05.700 than that.

02:03:06.440 I agree with that,

02:03:07.340 but sometimes,

02:03:08.360 like,

02:03:09.100 like,

02:03:09.340 how some girls say, 1.00

02:03:10.840 like,

02:03:10.960 men are just girls. 0.98

02:03:11.720 You know,

02:03:11.920 they just have those thoughts.

02:03:13.680 So,

02:03:13.960 like,

02:03:14.080 how would you,

02:03:15.060 like,

02:03:15.600 go about that?

02:03:17.400 Would you just,

02:03:17.860 like,

02:03:17.880 that she's,

02:03:18.540 she's,

02:03:19.380 that's,

02:03:19.800 that was her individual

02:03:20.820 opinion that is not general,

02:03:23.280 just like he was saying

02:03:25.720 as well,

02:03:26.300 so. 0.79

02:03:26.800 Not all men are gross. 0.96

02:03:28.320 Yeah. 0.51

02:03:28.500 And the idea,

02:03:29.760 the fact that men are only girls 0.99

02:03:31.740 because there are people

02:03:32.600 out there that are feeding

02:03:33.340 into that.

02:03:34.160 Yeah,

02:03:34.340 like, 0.99

02:03:34.580 if I put my boobs 1.00

02:03:35.440 in your face, 1.00

02:03:36.080 I'm gonna expect you

02:03:36.920 to look,

02:03:37.540 so.

02:03:37.800 Right,

02:03:38.000 I mean,

02:03:38.380 me,

02:03:38.720 being liking women,

02:03:39.900 like,

02:03:40.180 of course,

02:03:40.700 whatever a guy feels,

02:03:42.000 I understand it.

02:03:42.860 And me being on both

02:03:43.600 sides of the fence,

02:03:44.440 I've dated men too.

02:03:45.920 I think both sexes have, 0.67

02:03:47.340 have an issue with,

02:03:49.140 um,

02:03:49.780 sexuality.

02:03:50.640 Their sexuality is, 0.61

02:03:52.480 um,

02:03:54.480 it's supposed to be like,

02:03:55.400 they act on their sexual impulses

02:03:57.700 and sexuality a lot

02:03:58.860 and sometimes it's,

02:03:59.960 it's hard.

02:04:00.920 It's really hard.

02:04:01.680 Well,

02:04:01.900 Sina,

02:04:02.180 going back to what you were saying,

02:04:03.780 uh,

02:04:04.040 you said that what if the guy

02:04:05.120 wants a thick girl 1.00

02:04:06.200 and he done,

02:04:07.660 not ever had a thick girl, 0.99

02:04:09.500 so he's gonna like, 1.00

02:04:10.080 cheat on you or some shit. 0.97

02:04:11.320 Sina, 1.00

02:04:11.900 you fucking betrayed me, 1.00

02:04:13.040 by the way. 1.00

02:04:13.520 It's in the title of the video.

02:04:15.160 Uh,

02:04:15.860 you, 0.99

02:04:16.540 I told you not to get fake titties 0.99

02:04:18.260 and you went and got fake titties. 1.00

02:04:19.560 What the fuck? 1.00

02:04:20.040 Okay, 1.00

02:04:21.220 but I wanted them.

02:04:21.940 Into the mic,

02:04:22.540 please.

02:04:23.560 But you,

02:04:24.140 so,

02:04:24.360 but kind of,

02:04:25.040 you almost like did,

02:04:26.580 did it in the relationship though

02:04:27.860 because,

02:04:28.720 like,

02:04:29.080 if you were dating a guy

02:04:30.280 and before you didn't have 0.99

02:04:32.420 the fake titties, 0.99

02:04:33.720 now you have the fake titties 0.99

02:04:35.320 so he got the best of both worlds. 0.97

02:04:37.780 So he got,

02:04:38.780 never mind.

02:04:39.500 Is that making sense?

02:04:40.520 Not really.

02:04:40.900 No.

02:04:41.300 No.

02:04:42.020 I think it makes sense.

02:04:42.960 I have no clue what you just said.

02:04:44.780 You might have to say it again

02:04:45.940 in a different way.

02:04:47.200 Why,

02:04:47.640 why did you, 0.99

02:04:50.040 decide to get some fake titties 0.98

02:04:51.940 when I specifically told you 1.00

02:04:53.240 don't do that shit? 0.99

02:04:54.220 Are you guys dating? 1.00

02:04:57.360 Me and her?

02:04:58.260 Yeah,

02:04:58.640 I don't know.

02:04:59.580 Okay.

02:04:59.800 What?

02:05:00.060 No.

02:05:00.200 I thought that that was.

02:05:01.020 Ew.

02:05:01.420 I know,

02:05:01.740 I don't know why I was thinking that too.

02:05:02.500 Was I the only one that thought that?

02:05:03.640 I was thinking,

02:05:04.440 okay,

02:05:05.020 because you're saying like

02:05:05.800 you told her not to

02:05:06.940 so I was like,

02:05:07.280 oh,

02:05:07.420 as if y'all were like together.

02:05:08.760 it's like,

02:05:09.280 it's a,

02:05:10.220 you know,

02:05:10.600 she. 0.93

02:05:10.760 Oh,

02:05:10.980 a metaphor or something.

02:05:12.340 Oh,

02:05:12.460 I have a question for you.

02:05:13.560 What do you,

02:05:13.920 what do you think about

02:05:15.460 like plastic surgery

02:05:16.820 from a man's perspective?

02:05:19.080 Yeah,

02:05:20.040 I'm against it.

02:05:21.600 Clearly,

02:05:22.140 big labias matter.

02:05:23.100 Big labias matter.

02:05:24.820 And,

02:05:25.380 I mean,

02:05:26.420 there's,

02:05:26.940 there's a whole bunch of different

02:05:27.820 plastic surgeries though.

02:05:28.940 So,

02:05:29.120 I mean,

02:05:29.300 like you have the, 0.98

02:05:30.200 you have fake breasts, 1.00

02:05:31.080 you have the BBL, 0.99

02:05:32.260 you have the lipo belly, 0.57

02:05:33.340 you have like the lip filler,

02:05:34.980 you have the Botox,

02:05:35.980 you have all these sorts of things.

02:05:39.420 Generally,

02:05:39.980 I think

02:05:40.380 plastic surgery.

02:05:45.460 Oh,

02:05:46.180 you're good.

02:05:47.880 Okay.

02:05:48.900 Okay. 0.99

02:05:49.260 I like your fake boobs. 0.98

02:05:51.320 They don't look fake to me. 0.99

02:05:53.040 Disavow.

02:05:53.780 They definitely look pretty fake,

02:05:55.720 but.

02:05:56.100 Why are you looking?

02:05:57.540 Oh,

02:05:58.100 because they're in his face.

02:05:59.800 I see them in the monitor.

02:06:01.040 Yeah,

02:06:01.060 they're in his face.

02:06:02.000 They're out.

02:06:02.900 What if a guy gets a hair transplant?

02:06:05.940 Would you say that's to boost his confidence

02:06:07.700 or would you say that's plastic surgery

02:06:09.300 and that shouldn't be allowed?

02:06:10.520 It's a form of cosmetic surgery.

02:06:12.180 And I'm not saying that plastic surgery

02:06:14.740 shouldn't be allowed,

02:06:15.960 but I think that it's.

02:06:20.080 People took it and murdered the heck out of it.

02:06:22.800 No,

02:06:23.060 I like,

02:06:23.460 I think,

02:06:24.040 look,

02:06:24.520 there's different levels to plastic surgery.

02:06:29.380 Like there's stuff that's non-invasive,

02:06:31.080 but I think ultimately I wish we lived in a society

02:06:36.000 where there was less vanity

02:06:37.660 and people felt more comfortable with how their body just is.

02:06:42.780 I agree.

02:06:43.560 So,

02:06:44.080 you know, 0.76

02:06:44.340 if a woman has small breasts, 1.00

02:06:46.460 I don't think she should feel insecure about it.

02:06:48.740 I don't think she should be shamed for it.

02:06:51.120 I think it'd be great if,

02:06:52.340 you know,

02:06:53.400 and there shouldn't be shaming from other women,

02:06:55.520 from other men,

02:06:56.220 whatever.

02:06:57.640 I think people should just kind of,

02:06:59.860 you know,

02:07:00.300 whatever they got,

02:07:01.220 that's what they got.

02:07:02.200 And they shouldn't feel the need to undergo dangerous,

02:07:04.440 expensive,

02:07:04.800 and unnecessary medical procedures to try to fix a problem.

02:07:09.380 Well,

02:07:09.440 that's not even really a problem.

02:07:11.760 Yeah.

02:07:12.000 I actually,

02:07:12.680 I had,

02:07:12.940 I wanted to get like a breast lift and stuff.

02:07:15.360 Cause I used to be 300 pounds.

02:07:17.060 So like they're,

02:07:18.720 I mean,

02:07:18.960 they're not the worst,

02:07:20.160 but in my head,

02:07:21.120 I'm like,

02:07:21.380 I want better.

02:07:21.980 And my boyfriend was like,

02:07:23.260 you would be doing that for yourself.

02:07:25.360 Cause he didn't,

02:07:26.500 it doesn't matter to him.

02:07:27.540 So,

02:07:27.900 and the thing is,

02:07:29.240 is like the same thing I was saying earlier.

02:07:31.280 And I even said to these ladies here, 0.98

02:07:33.160 like our value shouldn't come from just our physicality.

02:07:36.320 We are so much more than that.

02:07:37.960 You know what I'm saying?

02:07:38.800 So I think,

02:07:40.260 you know what?

02:07:40.820 I'll take a harder stance.

02:07:42.300 If I was dictator,

02:07:44.160 I would ban plastic surgery.

02:07:47.320 I actually, 1.00

02:07:48.000 I would ban that shit. 1.00

02:07:49.260 What about plastic surgeries that are like a medical necessity? 1.00

02:07:53.000 That's different.

02:07:53.820 Yeah.

02:07:53.920 I'm okay with that.

02:07:54.660 Okay.

02:07:55.500 But the majority,

02:07:57.220 you'd have to like prove that you need it.

02:07:58.760 Yeah.

02:07:59.800 There would have to be a medical indication for needing the surgery.

02:08:04.220 But why do you not know, 1.00

02:08:06.400 no shit, 1.00

02:08:07.220 genuine question. 1.00

02:08:08.080 Just like what,

02:08:09.920 why do you care so much?

02:08:12.180 What other people do with their bodies?

02:08:15.540 So I think,

02:08:16.380 like,

02:08:16.540 I think it's like,

02:08:17.260 okay,

02:08:17.480 if you don't want plastic surgery,

02:08:18.880 like don't get plastic surgery.

02:08:20.220 Why do you care so much?

02:08:20.820 Would you let your 12 year old child?

02:08:23.040 No,

02:08:23.360 she's 12.

02:08:24.060 I would never let anyone.

02:08:25.220 Why do you care so much about her body?

02:08:27.240 Because she's too young to make that decision for herself.

02:08:30.260 Okay.

02:08:30.580 What about your 18 year old daughter?

02:08:32.220 And she wanted to undergo like significant body modification.

02:08:37.320 I would talk to her.

02:08:38.660 I would try and tell her that like everything is,

02:08:42.660 you know,

02:08:42.880 she was,

02:08:43.680 is the way she is for a reason. 0.51

02:08:45.880 But also like,

02:08:47.140 if she,

02:08:48.100 what do you mean serious?

02:08:49.100 Like a,

02:08:49.640 like a boob job or like, 1.00

02:08:51.540 like, 0.73

02:08:52.320 like transferring gender.

02:08:54.660 Like,

02:08:55.000 I mean,

02:08:55.380 either way.

02:08:56.040 it could be that,

02:08:56.560 but I mean,

02:08:56.800 I would use the example of sometimes people will like the split tongue thing,

02:09:01.040 for example,

02:09:02.040 or I would tell her,

02:09:03.200 you know what,

02:09:03.440 if you want to split your tongue,

02:09:04.860 you're 18, 0.54

02:09:05.460 split your tongue.

02:09:06.460 I got tattoos when I was 13.

02:09:08.660 I have them.

02:09:09.440 I don't think that it makes me like,

02:09:11.020 like a bad person signing off on that.

02:09:13.980 Or they were pissed,

02:09:15.120 but it didn't make them not expect,

02:09:16.860 like,

02:09:17.080 except me for like,

02:09:19.100 like if my 12 year old daughter wanted a tattoo,

02:09:21.160 I'd be like, 1.00

02:09:21.520 you're an idiot. 1.00

02:09:22.120 If you're going to get a tattoo, 1.00

02:09:23.140 then you're going to live with that decision.

02:09:25.200 But I'm not going to like,

02:09:27.300 you're the,

02:09:27.860 going to be the one that has the consequences,

02:09:29.340 not me.

02:09:30.100 Like I'm,

02:09:31.200 you know,

02:09:31.440 as long as it's not a danger thing,

02:09:33.320 I think you should like,

02:09:34.400 I think.

02:09:34.820 Right.

02:09:35.040 Every time you undergo plastic surgery,

02:09:36.860 there's a risk of death.

02:09:37.860 There's plenty of complications when it comes to plastic surgery.

02:09:40.980 Recently,

02:09:41.520 I think a famous somebody woman died because it was like her third BBL.

02:09:46.720 Women frequently die from getting BBLs. 0.99

02:09:49.340 There's other like breast implants.

02:09:52.420 There's less chance of death.

02:09:54.240 BBL,

02:09:54.840 pretty high chance of death.

02:09:56.200 Relatively speaking,

02:09:57.260 there's a lot of complications that can occur.

02:09:59.560 I think anytime you go under anesthesia,

02:10:01.880 there's a potential risk of serious side effects or potentially death.

02:10:06.400 You're cutting into your body.

02:10:08.000 You're sometimes years down the road.

02:10:11.700 Well,

02:10:11.840 I guess plastic surgery has improved a bit,

02:10:15.260 but there's certain,

02:10:16.540 your body can project to these.

02:10:18.460 In some cases,

02:10:19.440 you can have allergic reactions.

02:10:22.000 Then it's just permanently in there for you.

02:10:24.420 Then,

02:10:25.260 you know,

02:10:25.580 also just from an aesthetic perspective,

02:10:28.380 I'm aesthetically,

02:10:30.000 I don't like it.

02:10:31.000 But the,

02:10:31.460 the,

02:10:31.920 my primary argument is these surgeries are not medically indicated and they're dangerous.

02:10:36.800 But wouldn't it be fair to say that a person who wants to like undergo a plastic surgery and is fully aware of all of the risks and everything,

02:10:47.020 isn't it fair to say that like they can just make that decision for themselves?

02:10:50.040 Even if you don't agree with it?

02:10:50.860 I think so.

02:10:51.660 I mean,

02:10:51.900 again,

02:10:52.180 it depends on the level of the surgery.

02:10:56.700 So have you ever seen some of these women who really overdo it where their lips are massive? 1.00

02:11:01.980 They've like their cheeks.

02:11:03.980 It looks weird.

02:11:05.200 Like Jeff Bezos' wife. 0.91

02:11:06.300 I think,

02:11:06.740 I think that where it's,

02:11:09.520 no,

02:11:09.680 not even Jeff Bezos' wife.

02:11:10.440 But she so overdid it because she was pretty. 1.00

02:11:12.220 No,

02:11:12.280 but you've seen more overdone than her.

02:11:14.780 Yeah,

02:11:15.100 true.

02:11:15.500 They look like a freak show.

02:11:17.760 They look like a freak show.

02:11:19.640 I think plastics,

02:11:20.900 these people who get that,

02:11:22.180 they're dealing with mental illness.

02:11:23.740 Right,

02:11:24.000 like body dysmorphia. 1.00

02:11:25.360 But the plastic surgeons who do that shit, 1.00

02:11:28.160 I think it's fucking criminal that they will ruin somebody's face just because they want to do it. 1.00

02:11:35.220 I agree. 0.99

02:11:35.440 And they're profiting off of it.

02:11:37.180 So I think that's my angle here is that,

02:11:40.500 look,

02:11:41.000 there's some that I'm,

02:11:42.220 you know,

02:11:42.480 whatever,

02:11:42.880 you want to run a plastic?

02:11:43.900 I'm confused.

02:11:44.260 Okay,

02:11:44.540 cool.

02:11:44.900 And it's because they're targeting,

02:11:46.440 and it's like women that don't feel a strong sense of self and like beauty within that go and get these done. 1.00

02:11:52.900 And then like you said,

02:11:53.640 like the doctors are advocating for it.

02:11:55.880 And then it becomes an addiction of like,

02:11:57.480 okay,

02:11:57.680 well,

02:11:57.840 I want to look better.

02:11:58.520 And then you're constantly in there.

02:11:59.720 And it's not like,

02:12:00.980 it's like,

02:12:01.360 girl,

02:12:01.560 you're going to keep getting all these surgeries,

02:12:02.820 but have you looked in the mirror and actually loved yourself for you because you're going to keep getting these surgeries and you're still going to hate yourself and want to change it again.

02:12:10.360 Yeah.

02:12:10.460 But are we talking about,

02:12:11.360 but like,

02:12:11.720 I'm just kidding.

02:12:12.500 Cause I feel like there's a lot,

02:12:14.740 like,

02:12:14.900 I feel like everyone,

02:12:15.960 we all kind of agree that like the surgeons,

02:12:18.660 obviously like that's messed up and there's people that overdo it.

02:12:20.660 But like for little things,

02:12:22.020 like I think that there's an extreme end of everything where your opinions change,

02:12:27.260 but overall,

02:12:29.860 I think,

02:12:30.440 you know,

02:12:31.080 so like overall,

02:12:32.080 do you either think that like only the dangerous,

02:12:35.400 like true,

02:12:35.940 like I know,

02:12:36.620 I know that's,

02:12:38.120 that's what you said.

02:12:38.920 I didn't know that.

02:12:39.740 I honestly have never thought about getting classic surgery.

02:12:41.760 Anytime you do anesthesia,

02:12:43.280 there's a risk.

02:12:44.020 Yeah.

02:12:44.040 I didn't.

02:12:44.520 Yeah.

02:12:44.800 You're true.

02:12:45.420 You're right.

02:12:45.900 You're right.

02:12:46.240 You're right.

02:12:46.700 But also like you go under anesthesia to get your wisdom teeth removed.

02:12:50.960 But that's medically indicated.

02:12:53.080 Like you need to do that.

02:12:54.340 Yeah,

02:12:54.540 exactly.

02:12:54.880 I'm just saying that like,

02:12:56.000 do you think,

02:12:56.820 like,

02:12:57.140 do you guys think,

02:12:59.020 I'll just need everyone.

02:13:00.280 Do you guys think like that there,

02:13:02.460 it's just the extreme end that shouldn't be allowed or like,

02:13:04.580 like,

02:13:04.900 cause you've changed your like,

02:13:06.720 cause we've just kept going more extreme and then the argument is going to change.

02:13:10.180 I mean,

02:13:10.440 I'm happy to bring it to less extreme examples.

02:13:12.420 So like,

02:13:12.840 let's just go with standard breast implants or BBL. 1.00

02:13:16.480 How about,

02:13:16.960 what about,

02:13:17.360 let's just go for a nose drop. 0.86

02:13:18.580 Cause does anyone at the table have a nose drop?

02:13:20.660 I feel like we're getting a little too specific.

02:13:22.860 All right,

02:13:23.440 let's go for a nose job. 1.00

02:13:25.500 So again,

02:13:26.220 I,

02:13:26.500 I have less issue with that because it's less invasive of a procedure.

02:13:30.400 And also it's a nose job is recreating a typically,

02:13:35.400 I mean,

02:13:35.580 sometimes they get botched,

02:13:36.740 right?

02:13:36.940 But typically in those job,

02:13:38.500 maybe they have a bit of a hump on their nose.

02:13:40.420 It's recreating a nose that would otherwise exist in out there in the ether. 0.92

02:13:46.380 Whereas like no woman has boobs, 1.00

02:13:49.200 has plastic in their chest. 0.98

02:13:52.140 That's a different level of invasiveness.

02:13:54.560 The BBL,

02:13:55.500 that's a different level of invasiveness.

02:13:57.040 So while I still have nose jobs,

02:14:00.420 I have pretty minor nose jobs.

02:14:04.160 Don't really care that much about,

02:14:05.460 but when you start injecting stuff into you,

02:14:07.820 that's like another level of invasiveness.

02:14:11.240 When you get the,

02:14:12.640 the breast implants,

02:14:14.280 BBL,

02:14:14.720 go ahead.

02:14:15.700 Um,

02:14:16.260 I'm going to give you a situation.

02:14:18.460 Cause it's a real life situation.

02:14:19.540 I had knee surgery and I didn't necessarily need it.

02:14:22.840 I could have done other things.

02:14:24.520 I could have gotten a cortisone shot.

02:14:25.980 I could have tried physical therapy another time.

02:14:28.920 I could have done other things.

02:14:29.920 I didn't necessarily,

02:14:30.900 there's nothing technically wrong with my knee that I needed surgery for,

02:14:35.860 but I got surgery.

02:14:36.780 What do you think about that?

02:14:38.040 It was just the quicker,

02:14:39.200 easier option.

02:14:39.800 Wait,

02:14:40.080 so you had like an ACL tear or why?

02:14:43.700 I'm a bit confused.

02:14:44.240 I didn't,

02:14:44.680 I didn't tear anything.

02:14:45.960 My knee was intact.

02:14:48.280 There was,

02:14:49.420 I'll explain it.

02:14:50.200 So you can't.

02:14:50.580 Did you have knee pain?

02:14:51.840 I had pain,

02:14:52.880 but it was manageable.

02:14:54.000 I could have lived with it.

02:14:55.340 I,

02:14:55.660 but what was it?

02:14:56.440 Was it bone on bone?

02:14:57.620 Like what was it?

02:14:58.420 Hold on.

02:14:58.540 But so we're,

02:14:59.140 we're talking about cosmetic procedures.

02:15:01.460 Yeah,

02:15:01.660 but you said there's a risk.

02:15:03.000 There's a risk after you go on anesthesia all the time.

02:15:05.360 I didn't,

02:15:05.960 you don't need a cosmetic procedure.

02:15:07.440 I didn't technically need my knee surgery.

02:15:09.520 Well,

02:15:09.640 did you do physical therapy beforehand?

02:15:11.500 Did you try like a more conservative approaches to,

02:15:14.520 managing your pain?

02:15:16.300 Yeah,

02:15:16.560 I was an athlete.

02:15:17.620 I did everything.

02:15:18.100 Okay.

02:15:18.340 And when you went to the doctor,

02:15:19.420 he said,

02:15:19.800 well,

02:15:19.960 I,

02:15:20.160 I recommend getting surgery.

02:15:21.660 No,

02:15:22.080 he said,

02:15:22.700 I would try this first.

02:15:23.700 And I said,

02:15:24.180 no,

02:15:24.460 I,

02:15:24.740 I,

02:15:25.040 it's not going to work.

02:15:25.720 I know.

02:15:26.020 And your knee is better now.

02:15:27.860 No,

02:15:28.500 sometimes it's worse.

02:15:30.040 It's better.

02:15:30.700 Most of the time.

02:15:31.320 Sometimes it's not.

02:15:31.940 Well,

02:15:32.120 perhaps you made the wrong decision by jumping immediately to surgery,

02:15:34.940 but before taking the professional's advice,

02:15:38.000 you see,

02:15:39.200 the medical professional's advice,

02:15:40.840 medical professional's advice.

02:15:43.260 Um,

02:15:43.980 my mom had a really bad reaction to his other advice.

02:15:47.720 So it would have been more dangerous for me to do that in my head to get

02:15:51.260 physical therapy.

02:15:52.440 No,

02:15:52.940 he wanted to give me a shot of cortisone.

02:15:55.740 My mom had a really bad reaction to it. 0.99

02:15:57.180 I was like,

02:15:57.480 I'm not doing that.

02:15:58.620 Did you try physical therapy though?

02:16:00.540 Yeah,

02:16:00.840 I did.

02:16:01.400 I just said that.

02:16:02.800 See,

02:16:03.300 I actually can kind of,

02:16:05.280 so I got into a car accident where like the,

02:16:08.040 the whole right side of my body was messed up,

02:16:10.440 including my knee were like,

02:16:11.960 it would flare up all the time.

02:16:13.820 And,

02:16:14.300 um,

02:16:14.540 I had to get fluid drained,

02:16:15.840 all these things.

02:16:16.720 And they were saying that I would need knee surgery,

02:16:19.220 but instead I started to do mobility and calisthenics.

02:16:22.740 So really actually like strengthening the small muscles that surround the

02:16:26.780 knee.

02:16:27.100 So that way my knee could actually be able to compensate and heal a little bit

02:16:30.660 more.

02:16:31.280 And that's what I'm saying.

02:16:32.220 Like I technically would have medically needed it,

02:16:34.500 but I went a longer route.

02:16:36.400 I mean,

02:16:36.580 it took two years,

02:16:37.500 but the stuff I can do in the gym now is like pretty intense,

02:16:42.040 you know?

02:16:42.440 No,

02:16:42.660 I completely understand that.

02:16:43.620 But what I'm saying is like,

02:16:44.580 I was a really intense athlete.

02:16:46.700 It was,

02:16:47.920 you know,

02:16:48.220 I took care of myself.

02:16:49.360 I went to physical therapy.

02:16:50.360 I did all that,

02:16:51.340 but my surgery wasn't technically needed.

02:16:53.580 So what do you think about that?

02:16:55.320 I mean,

02:16:55.800 your example that you're providing is getting a little bit away from the,

02:17:00.020 the fuller context of the conversation here,

02:17:03.000 which relates to purely cosmetic procedures.

02:17:05.420 What do I think about you getting that?

02:17:11.540 Well,

02:17:11.880 cause you said,

02:17:12.980 I mean,

02:17:13.500 every surgery has a risk,

02:17:14.720 right?

02:17:15.600 Yeah.

02:17:15.880 I would have not,

02:17:16.800 me personally,

02:17:17.420 I would not have gotten the knee surgery.

02:17:21.220 I mean,

02:17:21.680 that's really all I can say.

02:17:23.120 But we're talking about like what,

02:17:24.400 like what if you were in charge of her decision?

02:17:27.000 Like,

02:17:27.420 would you have said,

02:17:28.160 no,

02:17:28.380 you can't have the,

02:17:29.640 okay,

02:17:30.180 wait.

02:17:33.500 Here,

02:17:33.920 Nick,

02:17:34.140 you got to,

02:17:34.600 this is distracting here a little bit.

02:17:36.040 Okay.

02:17:36.740 Go ahead.

02:17:38.180 Go ahead.

02:17:39.660 Me?

02:17:40.740 Yeah.

02:17:41.080 You were finishing your sentence.

02:17:43.080 Oh,

02:17:43.560 I was just saying,

02:17:45.280 I was just asking,

02:17:46.080 but would you have said like,

02:17:48.140 no,

02:17:48.500 you cannot have the surgery.

02:17:49.840 And no,

02:17:50.020 I don't think you should have.

02:17:50.980 I mean,

02:17:51.400 I already laid out my position,

02:17:53.080 my position.

02:17:54.480 I was just trying to restate.

02:17:55.440 I think what she was asking you.

02:17:57.300 Yeah.

02:17:57.720 My,

02:17:58.160 this,

02:17:58.580 this hypothetical scenario where I'm the dictator and I would ban plastic surgery.

02:18:04.300 I,

02:18:04.880 it's laid out in that position in and of itself.

02:18:07.720 I would ban plastic surgery,

02:18:09.780 not knee surgery.

02:18:12.060 Like,

02:18:12.640 so it's not even within the purview of my dictatorship.

02:18:18.140 you'd let people choose to have surgery on say their knee or their shoulder or like someone had like a bones for their shoulder or whatever.

02:18:23.960 Yeah.

02:18:24.060 These two things are not.

02:18:25.260 Were you getting like a satisfied knee where it made you run faster or something?

02:18:29.380 No.

02:18:30.140 Well,

02:18:30.340 that's what,

02:18:30.940 I mean,

02:18:31.240 it's different than plastic surgery.

02:18:33.080 You're not changing your knee or your appearance.

02:18:35.020 You're,

02:18:35.420 you're repairing it.

02:18:36.860 Yeah.

02:18:37.020 What I'm saying is a lot of his argument was because of the risks of it.

02:18:41.040 There's risks in every single surgery is what I'm saying.

02:18:43.960 Oh,

02:18:44.100 yeah.

02:18:45.360 The logic isn't really following.

02:18:47.980 Yeah.

02:18:48.320 It's not following.

02:18:49.160 So then I can just,

02:18:50.000 I feel pretty logical.

02:18:53.400 Uh,

02:18:54.100 we'll explain the logic.

02:18:56.480 Okay.

02:18:56.940 For the last time,

02:18:58.060 um,

02:19:00.860 every surgery has a risk.

02:19:02.580 Anesthesia has a risk every time.

02:19:04.880 Any,

02:19:05.460 anything you do,

02:19:06.180 any procedure you do has a risk.

02:19:07.500 Even getting a fricking tooth,

02:19:09.540 tooth full has a risk.

02:19:11.840 Tooth filled.

02:19:12.400 Sorry.

02:19:13.700 Um,

02:19:14.460 so you're saying with plastic surgeries,

02:19:17.500 one of your main points was that you are taking the risk to possibly get hurt or die or blah,

02:19:23.760 blah,

02:19:23.920 blah,

02:19:24.080 blah,

02:19:24.200 blah,

02:19:24.280 blah.

02:19:24.380 If you have a procedure done,

02:19:27.180 that's not plastic surgery,

02:19:28.540 but you don't technically need it.

02:19:31.080 Wouldn't that fall under the same category in your eyes?

02:19:36.320 Would it fall within the same?

02:19:38.380 Then short answer.

02:19:39.380 I feel like yes, 0.99

02:19:40.400 because you wouldn't need the damn surgery. 0.99

02:19:42.340 So therefore you're modifying your body because you don't need it. 0.99

02:19:45.340 And you could have taken the longer round.

02:19:46.320 I guess I'm willing to say like,

02:19:48.280 if somebody doesn't need a medical,

02:19:51.700 then yeah,

02:19:52.800 they probably shouldn't get said medical surgery,

02:19:57.740 I guess.

02:19:58.860 But in this case,

02:19:59.780 you were reporting that you,

02:20:02.400 you were dealing with a knee pain or knee injury or something.

02:20:07.220 The surgeon,

02:20:09.260 I mean,

02:20:10.020 if you like,

02:20:11.900 if you just walked into the surgeon's office and you're just like,

02:20:14.660 Hey,

02:20:14.780 I want knee surgery.

02:20:15.660 He's like,

02:20:16.060 do you have any pain?

02:20:16.700 And you're like,

02:20:17.240 no,

02:20:18.100 I'm pretty sure the surgeon's going to be like,

02:20:19.760 well,

02:20:19.920 why do you want me to operate on your knee?

02:20:21.480 And you're in this case,

02:20:22.420 you were presenting with a medical indication for a potential,

02:20:27.360 you know,

02:20:27.840 treatment for a knee issue.

02:20:30.220 Okay.

02:20:30.700 Well, 0.99

02:20:31.220 so what if someone has a lopsided boobs or they had cancer and got their boobs 0.99

02:20:37.560 removed and they want a boob job to make themselves. 1.00

02:20:39.220 I'd be willing to grant,

02:20:40.340 uh,

02:20:41.100 for the really,

02:20:42.840 so,

02:20:43.260 okay.

02:20:43.420 When it comes to for,

02:20:46.080 for the,

02:20:46.700 uh,

02:20:47.380 what's it called for the,

02:20:48.740 uh,

02:20:49.700 breast implants.

02:20:50.620 Yeah.

02:20:50.840 I'd be willing to grant under that circumstance.

02:20:53.340 Under lopsided or breast cancer.

02:20:55.840 Breast.

02:20:56.260 I think breast cancer,

02:20:57.340 breast cancer.

02:20:58.300 Yes.

02:20:58.460 But lopsided.

02:20:59.200 What's the verdict?

02:21:00.200 No.

02:21:01.220 I've seen lopsided titties matter. 0.64

02:21:03.360 Yeah. 0.98

02:21:04.000 Lopsided titties matter. 0.86

02:21:05.240 New merch idea. 0.96

02:21:06.280 Yeah.

02:21:06.720 I'd buy that.

02:21:07.780 And also I've actually seen like women who had to have both their breasts removed, 1.00

02:21:12.180 like because of breast cancer.

02:21:14.060 And then they get like just beautiful tattoos and like,

02:21:17.220 you know,

02:21:17.880 I,

02:21:18.120 I just think there's definitely lots of options,

02:21:21.360 you know what I'm saying?

02:21:21.900 And so it just depends on the person.

02:21:24.840 We have some chats coming through.

02:21:25.980 Thank you.

02:21:26.420 Pasty George.

02:21:27.360 Pasty George donated $200.

02:21:30.320 Women who get any plastic surgery, 1.00

02:21:32.540 who don't need it other than for cosmetic aesthetics are a major red flag and are a sign

02:21:37.360 of significant insecurity and promiscuity.

02:21:40.080 I agree with the insecurity part for sure.

02:21:47.300 All right.

02:21:48.000 Thank you,

02:21:48.360 Pasty George.

02:21:49.020 Don't you think people make them feel insecure though?

02:21:50.960 I mean,

02:21:51.520 that's why you have to find your value in more than your looks.

02:21:57.060 So you think that all plastic surgery is due to insecurity?

02:22:02.500 Most of it.

02:22:03.720 Because even why I wanted a boob job or like a breast lift was because I was insecure.

02:22:10.080 About them.

02:22:10.920 So do you think that it's wrong?

02:22:13.340 Hold on.

02:22:14.200 Plastic and cosmetic surgeons who take advantage of patients who keep coming back for more surgery

02:22:19.920 are like drug pushes and should be in prison.

02:22:22.420 I agree.

02:22:22.860 I agree.

02:22:23.440 I agree with that as well.

02:22:24.660 Yeah.

02:22:25.020 Pasty George.

02:22:26.100 That was a,

02:22:26.920 that was a good take.

02:22:28.500 I wanted to ask you,

02:22:29.540 do you think that somebody getting it?

02:22:32.080 Like,

02:22:32.460 like I said earlier,

02:22:33.420 like if somebody is insecure about their nose and wants to change it and it's like something

02:22:39.660 that they struggle with,

02:22:41.060 do you think that it's wrong for them to want to change that knowing all the consequences

02:22:44.780 instead of wanting to just find acceptance in themselves?

02:22:48.380 I'm going to go back to where we should find value in more than our looks.

02:22:52.220 So even like,

02:22:53.360 I'm saying like,

02:22:54.480 like if somebody had like a giant nose and like it was like an everyday struggle,

02:22:57.400 like people would point it out and stuff.

02:22:59.040 Do you think it's wrong for them to change it?

02:23:00.280 That's just the insecurity.

02:23:01.460 So I hated my nose in school cause it's like crooked and I'm so thankful that I never got

02:23:07.320 a nose job because if I had a pretty perfect nose,

02:23:10.160 like everyone else that got a nose job,

02:23:12.200 I wouldn't look like me and I find beauty and looking unique because nobody can say they

02:23:17.740 have my nose.

02:23:18.420 Yeah.

02:23:18.760 And you're beautiful.

02:23:19.860 And I'm sure that you also have value in yourself besides your physical appearance.

02:23:24.320 So it helps you not even crave having those surgeries or even find more validity and

02:23:29.640 not getting it because I love me like it's for me.

02:23:32.780 And if anybody were to hate my nose,

02:23:34.160 I'd be like,

02:23:34.940 sorry,

02:23:35.360 you feel that way.

02:23:36.240 But I like that.

02:23:36.820 Like that's a you problem,

02:23:37.880 not a problem.

02:23:38.740 Yeah.

02:23:39.000 And that's amazing that you have that self-confidence.

02:23:40.960 No,

02:23:41.140 yeah,

02:23:41.320 I agree.

02:23:41.660 And self-consistent,

02:23:42.540 you don't,

02:23:42.920 you're not born with confidence.

02:23:44.200 You teach yourself it.

02:23:45.320 Yeah,

02:23:45.520 exactly.

02:23:46.140 Yeah.

02:23:46.380 I think we live in a society even,

02:23:48.900 even before the sort of rampant increase in people seeking out plastic surgery,

02:23:54.260 I'd say in the past maybe 10,

02:23:56.560 15 years or so after,

02:23:58.020 you know, 0.98

02:23:58.260 Kim Kardashian and all shit, 0.99

02:23:59.640 I think it's been a terrible thing. 1.00

02:24:01.720 There's been such a massive increase in vanity.

02:24:04.280 I think at least from the female, 0.99

02:24:06.220 the female perspective, 0.79

02:24:08.420 women have always had a lot of self-esteem issues, 1.00

02:24:11.380 insecurities as it relates to their looks,

02:24:13.800 even before this increase in plastic surgery.

02:24:17.520 And I think now if we're talking about unachievable beauty standards,

02:24:21.520 well,

02:24:21.660 it's one thing,

02:24:22.340 okay,

02:24:22.520 maybe you got to have,

02:24:23.880 have a certain body shape,

02:24:24.980 but now it's like,

02:24:26.320 if the beauty standard becomes,

02:24:27.760 everybody needs to get plastic surgery,

02:24:30.140 otherwise all women or majority of women are going to start feeling insecure, 0.95

02:24:34.940 need to spend tens of thousands of dollars correcting or fixing themselves.

02:24:39.140 I think,

02:24:40.400 I mean,

02:24:40.700 financially it's not good.

02:24:42.100 Like I said,

02:24:42.860 there's certain risks with undergoing these procedures.

02:24:45.500 And then also,

02:24:46.320 I just think instead of approaching or tackling it from that,

02:24:50.120 what can we do as a society to make people feel comfortable,

02:24:57.180 both men and women,

02:24:58.160 with just how they are?

02:25:01.280 Why can't we do that?

02:25:02.840 Why can't we,

02:25:04.020 you know,

02:25:04.560 Because we can't.

02:25:06.340 Well,

02:25:06.760 I think we can.

02:25:08.160 I don't think anyone's ever going to always be comfortable.

02:25:10.680 I don't think everyone's always going to have that.

02:25:13.480 I think it's like,

02:25:14.280 it's a fear of your peers.

02:25:15.820 Maybe stop giving unrelevant people that energy,

02:25:17.920 like the Kardashians.

02:25:19.260 They're irrelevant.

02:25:20.220 But people have been living for hundreds and thousands of years.

02:25:28.240 Plastic surgery is a new invention.

02:25:30.980 It's a new invention.

02:25:33.420 Men and women have been attracted to each other.

02:25:37.200 No problem having kids and babies and being attracted to each other.

02:25:41.240 Men certainly,

02:25:42.680 at least from the component of this argument about the,

02:25:46.080 what men find aesthetically pleasing,

02:25:48.060 a lot of the women aren't even getting plastic surgery for the male gaze. 1.00

02:25:53.100 Some of that shit's for the female gaze. 1.00

02:25:54.720 Lip filler, 1.00

02:25:55.220 definitely not for the male gaze.

02:25:56.900 But look,

02:25:58.140 my own perspective,

02:25:58.940 I can say when it comes to plastic surgery,

02:26:00.980 I prefer a girl with a small upper lip than perfect lip filler. 1.00

02:26:04.540 I prefer a girl with small boobs, 1.00

02:26:07.420 flat boobs than perfect fake titties. 1.00

02:26:10.000 I prefer a girl with a little belly fat than lipo belly. 1.00

02:26:13.160 That shit looks weird. 1.00

02:26:14.140 Lipo belly, 1.00

02:26:14.760 weird.

02:26:15.460 I'd prefer a girl. 0.99

02:26:16.380 And you're totally allowed to have that preference.

02:26:17.220 I'd prefer a girl. 0.99

02:26:18.260 You can have that preference.

02:26:19.160 I got a few more. 0.95

02:26:20.100 I'd prefer a girl with a small butt over like the perfect BBL or whatever. 1.00

02:26:25.880 BBLs look fucking weird too. 1.00

02:26:26.940 And that's what you prefer. 1.00

02:26:27.340 And other people prefer to have those big boobs. 1.00

02:26:30.120 Other people prefer to have those. 0.99

02:26:31.340 And like,

02:26:31.600 why not let them?

02:26:32.340 And just let them express it.

02:26:33.620 Why are you guys so,

02:26:34.860 why are you guys trying to defend something that's like clearly social decay?

02:26:40.020 That's how they want to express themselves.

02:26:41.520 And I agree.

02:26:42.180 But can I ask you?

02:26:43.340 Fine.

02:26:43.560 Okay.

02:26:43.760 People want to get it. 1.00

02:26:44.700 They want to get the shit. 1.00

02:26:45.320 But do you agree like the rampant increase in primarily women getting plastic surgery? 1.00

02:26:51.000 There can always be too much of anything.

02:26:53.460 Is it not a decay?

02:26:55.140 Sometimes there's too many.

02:26:56.400 I've seen people and they,

02:26:57.740 there's too many tattoos.

02:26:58.780 Like they have their eyes tattooed.

02:27:00.360 I actually have my eyelids tattooed.

02:27:02.140 So hold on.

02:27:02.520 Let me ask you a question.

02:27:05.640 Let me ask you a question.

02:27:06.680 What is closer to a utopian society?

02:27:09.500 All women just blasted in plastic surgery and them feeling great about it or no women 1.00

02:27:14.760 getting plastic surgery and feeling mostly okay about how they look?

02:27:18.860 What's closer to a utopian society?

02:27:22.040 Everyone getting plastic surgery.

02:27:23.160 No, no, no.

02:27:23.520 Hold on.

02:27:24.020 This is for her.

02:27:24.800 Go ahead.

02:27:25.280 I'm not sure.

02:27:26.780 I don't know what utopian society means.

02:27:29.740 Utopian.

02:27:30.620 Somebody want to help out.

02:27:31.440 It's like an amazing.

02:27:35.140 It's like a picture.

02:27:36.100 Which one's better?

02:27:36.800 Like a perfect world.

02:27:37.900 Like a perfect world.

02:27:39.180 Like a perfect world where everybody's doing like the same thing.

02:27:42.120 Everybody looks alike.

02:27:42.780 I think a perfect world is ever mind the same thing.

02:27:44.720 But in my perfect world, nobody's doing anything.

02:27:47.180 A perfect world is whatever.

02:27:48.360 Like anyone wants to express themselves.

02:27:50.220 That's my perfect world.

02:27:51.460 However, anyone wants to express themselves.

02:27:53.180 And that's what I was saying. 1.00

02:27:53.940 Like if you know the risks, like fuck it. 1.00

02:27:56.400 Do it. 1.00

02:27:56.720 But because a lot of us don't care about others, that's why like society looks how it looks.

02:28:02.260 And then why, you know.

02:28:03.320 It's so superficial.

02:28:04.580 They're so superficial.

02:28:06.000 Yeah, exactly.

02:28:06.480 I feel like the plastic surgery issue is like, if there's like a pyramid that's like starts

02:28:10.340 with the base root issue, the plastic surgery is at the very tip of the pyramid.

02:28:13.700 And I feel like we don't need to start hating on women for getting plastic surgery when the

02:28:17.020 actual issue is all the stuff underneath.

02:28:19.180 I know.

02:28:19.560 The actual.

02:28:19.840 I mean, that's a fallacious argument.

02:28:21.240 Yeah, the actual issue is internal.

02:28:22.080 I know.

02:28:22.500 That's why I'm saying that even I'm talking about plastic surgery is not silly.

02:28:25.480 And I think everything else is the problem, not the plastic surgery.

02:28:29.260 But what you're doing here is it's a fallacious argument.

02:28:31.560 So you're saying, well, there's X, Y, Z, more important things.

02:28:35.020 So.

02:28:35.060 No, I just think that we need to start by supporting women at the top of it. 0.51

02:28:38.900 Like if they're going to get plastic surgery.

02:28:40.980 By supporting women.

02:28:41.880 The way we should support women is by A, being emotionally regulated and having a positive 0.73

02:28:47.080 outlook on your image.

02:28:48.740 Embrace your natural.

02:28:49.280 Having a strong sense of self.

02:28:50.820 Because without that, you're nothing. 1.00

02:28:51.920 If you're just a pretty girl, a 10 with a fat butt and big titties, but zero personality, 1.00

02:28:56.740 zero emotional regulation and all that, you're just literally, in my eyes, worthless. 1.00

02:29:01.320 Because you can't provide me nothing, then you're beauty. 1.00

02:29:04.120 And if everyone, like we're all 10s with BBLs and fat tits, okay, am. 1.00

02:29:08.940 And then it's like, what else can I get from that? 0.99

02:29:10.880 Where's the personality?

02:29:12.100 Where's the heart?

02:29:12.920 I still stand by, you do whatever you want.

02:29:15.140 I think there's no issue in it. 1.00

02:29:16.200 I could be a terrible person with fake tits or no tits. 1.00

02:29:18.960 And I could be a great person with fake tits and no tits. 0.99

02:29:21.340 Can I ask you a question? 0.99

02:29:22.080 Yeah.

02:29:22.620 So, everyone's familiar with Kylie Jenner, right?

02:29:25.540 Sorry?

02:29:26.080 Kylie Jenner?

02:29:26.860 Kylie Jenner, yeah.

02:29:27.480 Do you think it's a problem for our young females to look at someone like Kylie Jenner, 0.99

02:29:31.160 who is, by the way, you can tell she's got, if you go back to her teenage years, from

02:29:38.160 not in jail.

02:29:38.740 That's social media's problem.

02:29:40.040 But what the issue is, is the fact that somebody who's got that much plastic surgery is, when

02:29:47.000 people are visualizing it and seeing it, I didn't even know who Kylie Jenner was until 0.97

02:29:50.400 I just saw like this, holy crap, night and day thing. 0.73

02:29:54.300 And I'm totally against that. 0.92

02:29:55.920 I don't want my, if I ever had a daughter, I don't want my daughter idolizing the fact

02:29:59.420 that you have to do this to make you look a certain way.

02:30:01.500 But nobody, like, that's a social, that's a, that's like social media.

02:30:04.760 That's what I'm saying.

02:30:05.200 I think that social media is what, is the problem with the beauty centers, that's what

02:30:09.440 making people feel like they need to be X, Y, Z.

02:30:11.900 I think that what I'm saying is like, plastic surgery itself, like, like, who cares?

02:30:17.660 Like, how many surgeries are you going to get until you finally feel better about yourself?

02:30:21.040 Exactly, that's where you're almost, like, you act yourself.

02:30:22.620 But some people already feel beautiful and just do something because they have to afford

02:30:25.740 it.

02:30:25.840 Would you, would you date a guy who has a beard?

02:30:28.760 No.

02:30:29.180 Maybe?

02:30:29.840 Is that your preference?

02:30:30.920 No.

02:30:31.840 Okay.

02:30:32.140 So, I mean, just from the dating lens perspective of this, both men and women have generalized

02:30:39.160 preferences towards what they like and dislike.

02:30:41.680 Exactly.

02:30:42.140 And you guys can have your preferences, but I'm saying, you guys are saying it just like

02:30:44.860 straight up should be banned.

02:30:46.040 Yeah.

02:30:46.820 And I'm saying that.

02:30:47.560 No, yeah, that's what I'm saying.

02:30:48.980 Like, I think it's totally rightful for everyone to have their own preferences.

02:30:51.440 I'm not saying it should be banned.

02:30:52.780 So, wait, you don't think anything should be banned?

02:30:55.320 No.

02:30:55.960 No, no, no, no.

02:30:56.740 Don't hold words on off like that.

02:30:57.300 But again, you're, that's, again, you doing the thing where you're like, well, that means you

02:31:01.280 think this, but that's not what you're saying.

02:31:02.320 I don't think that, like, there's stuff that are banned for a reason.

02:31:05.520 I'm just saying, like, plastic surgery in itself.

02:31:08.320 Is harmful.

02:31:09.520 It can be.

02:31:10.920 But so can, like.

02:31:11.800 In totality, generally speaking, is plastic surgery harmful?

02:31:18.460 Yes.

02:31:19.240 It can.

02:31:19.460 To the individual, is it harmful?

02:31:22.020 Yes.

02:31:22.420 And I don't mean, like.

02:31:23.100 Yes.

02:31:23.960 But who, like, if, okay, it's harmful, but, like, if someone wanted to do it, why can't

02:31:28.420 they do it?

02:31:28.800 Just do it.

02:31:29.240 Like, they know the risks.

02:31:30.200 They have the money.

02:31:31.240 And they want to do it.

02:31:31.880 Do it.

02:31:31.900 So I'm just saying, right, obviously I'm not, never going to become dictator and be able

02:31:36.520 to see through my dictatorial plan to ban plastic surgery.

02:31:39.900 Yeah, I'm aware.

02:31:40.680 But I'm saying from a social angle here, I think for a bunch of reasons, it would be better

02:31:46.580 to have a social order where women weren't jumping to go under the knife.

02:31:52.040 But that's social media.

02:31:53.880 And it's constant comparison, but that's literally part of the problem.

02:31:56.680 Yeah, but that doesn't mean that we are supposed to, like, hate on the women that did it.

02:32:00.100 We're supposed to.

02:32:00.580 I'm not hating on the women who do it.

02:32:02.060 Can I just say something real quick?

02:32:03.200 Yes.

02:32:03.360 Me being a sex worker and, like, I'm a dancer and OnlyFans and an escort and everything, 0.85

02:32:08.860 and nothing sucks worse about my job is when I'm sitting in the dressing room listening 0.94

02:32:12.540 to a bunch of beautiful women complain. 1.00

02:32:15.420 And that's my disconnect with a lot of these women is that I'm sitting there, you're sitting 0.99

02:32:19.480 there, and all I hear about, like, 98% of the time, that's why I literally don't engage 0.98

02:32:23.660 with others, it's like, oh, my God, I wish I'm going to have bigger boobs. 0.97

02:32:27.360 Tomorrow I'm getting surgery. 0.99

02:32:28.460 Oh, my God, her butt looks good. 1.00

02:32:29.480 This is not. 0.98

02:32:30.120 It's never a conversation in that locker room at the strip club where it's like, I love

02:32:33.760 me for me.

02:32:34.580 I love my body.

02:32:35.580 I'm benefiting from my body, profiting off of this.

02:32:39.040 You're getting so much good money, and yet you're still not happy with yourself, and you're

02:32:42.220 still trying to alter your body.

02:32:43.080 That's the disconnect I have with these women, because I'm like, I can't sit in a locker 1.00

02:32:47.460 room and sit with other women that don't value themselves and don't see them for them. 1.00

02:32:51.700 And that's just actual, like, again, it is another good example of how it's an internal

02:32:56.300 thing.

02:32:56.580 But why hate on those women when they're victim to their standards? 1.00

02:32:58.400 I never said I hate them.

02:32:59.700 It's just you have to have a strong sense of self.

02:33:01.840 No, I agree.

02:33:02.320 But you guys are going to be speaking victim part.

02:33:03.640 Nobody's hating on these women. 0.99

02:33:04.940 Yeah, it's not hate.

02:33:06.080 Nobody's hating on these women. 0.99

02:33:07.160 It's just I wish I could give them a hug.

02:33:09.180 I wish that I could give them a hug and literally be like, hey, it's okay to look like you.

02:33:14.360 Because no matter what, like Brian said, if we all look the damn same, no man likes the

02:33:18.600 same flavored lollipop, right?

02:33:20.360 So it's like there's different lollipops for every man on earth.

02:33:23.500 You don't look a certain way.

02:33:24.800 Someone else is going to appreciate that.

02:33:26.040 Someone will like you for how you are.

02:33:27.700 And most importantly, you valuing yourself for how you look should be more important

02:33:33.720 than what Brian thinks of me or what you think about me or whatever, right?

02:33:36.980 Like at the end of the day, I just wish that women could like see that and love themselves 0.99

02:33:42.660 instead of being like, fuck, I need surgery. 1.00

02:33:44.800 Go ahead. 0.99

02:33:47.280 Couldn't this also go for getting like microblading done or your lashes done or your lips done

02:33:54.200 or piercings?

02:33:55.700 I have a lot of piercings.

02:33:56.720 Nails. 0.99

02:33:57.080 I used to have 20.

02:33:59.280 Like this could go for so many other things.

02:34:03.120 If you're saying women should feel beautiful, how they are completely natural, correct? 0.99

02:34:09.540 Right?

02:34:10.000 Their features?

02:34:11.000 Yes.

02:34:11.520 I'm talking body modifications.

02:34:13.340 I'm not talking nails.

02:34:14.240 I'm not talking hairs.

02:34:15.040 I'm not talking piercings.

02:34:15.820 I'm talking about real life body modifications that you can't take back.

02:34:18.900 That are dangerous.

02:34:19.320 That you say, hey, I want to get a BBL.

02:34:22.860 You can't reverse that.

02:34:24.000 You can't reverse that.

02:34:25.340 You can get laser tattoo removal if you really wish.

02:34:28.300 But I'm talking about body modifications.

02:34:30.520 You can take out implants.

02:34:31.660 Why would you do that?

02:34:32.860 Yeah, you can take them out.

02:34:33.880 Oh, yeah, you can totally take them out.

02:34:34.280 It's reversible as well.

02:34:36.040 It would not be the same.

02:34:37.280 Yeah, but it's reversible, but all the hell.

02:34:39.900 A BBL isn't.

02:34:40.680 Yes.

02:34:41.040 A BBL is.

02:34:41.820 Yeah.

02:34:42.260 It's not.

02:34:42.920 I feel like you just don't like fake things.

02:34:45.140 I don't.

02:34:45.700 It is.

02:34:46.440 A BBL?

02:34:47.320 I wouldn't know.

02:34:48.140 Can I generally ask, like, this is a general question.

02:34:50.140 So you're saying, what I'm hearing is that who cares about them because it's their bodies,

02:34:55.740 right?

02:34:56.080 Yeah.

02:34:56.360 Wouldn't that be like saying-

02:34:57.400 No, that's not what I'm saying.

02:34:58.500 Well, I'm sorry.

02:34:59.720 What you were saying is like, why do we care so much about somebody else's body, right?

02:35:04.100 It's the same thing about a drug addict, okay?

02:35:06.800 Am I going to say, hey, I don't care doing meth.

02:35:09.160 That's your choice.

02:35:09.880 We know, we know, what's the, there's a huge, what's the differentiation?

02:35:13.780 I, what the differentiation is, or I don't know if I said that right, my bad, is that

02:35:18.260 like, I can, I can go get my, I can go get lip filler and be fine, but I'm not going to,

02:35:24.420 like, you can't compare that to me going out and doing meth.

02:35:27.040 Well, I also think that when you go to someone that you care about who's doing drugs, you

02:35:33.040 don't go to them and say, ew, like, you're doing drugs.

02:35:37.000 You go to them and say, hey, like, what's going on?

02:35:39.900 Like, let's talk about this.

02:35:40.940 These are, I don't think you should be compared at all.

02:35:43.000 Also, they're not the same.

02:35:44.020 But I think, I think, I think a woman who gets a lot, a lot of plastic surgery, we actually

02:35:48.540 should be like, hey, like, what's going on?

02:35:50.400 Yeah, exactly.

02:35:51.740 Because at that point, it's an addiction.

02:35:53.780 What I'm saying, guys, is that what I heard you say is that why do we care so much about

02:35:58.180 them when they're doing it to their bodies?

02:36:00.420 It's the same thing as a wife should we care about a drug addict if they're doing it to 1.00

02:36:03.580 themselves.

02:36:03.720 It's not the same thing because one is meth and one is a boob job.

02:36:06.740 Addiction, addiction, and just one, like, simple change is two different things.

02:36:11.640 Like, a person who's addicted to body modificating or addicted to tattoos or addicted to plastic

02:36:15.680 surgery, yeah, duh, that's bad.

02:36:17.600 But that doesn't mean every single person who has plastic surgery gets addicted to it.

02:36:20.740 Even if you're not addicted, though, certain procedures are harmful regardless.

02:36:24.960 Yeah, it's still bad.

02:36:25.560 Yeah, but, like, the person who gets the procedure is, like, aware of that and wants to do it.

02:36:28.580 Yeah, but, like, so is vaping.

02:36:30.400 Right.

02:36:30.920 Yeah.

02:36:31.200 You shouldn't.

02:36:31.760 You shouldn't vape, you shouldn't smoke cigarettes.

02:36:34.220 I'm looking at you.

02:36:34.860 But, like, but it's, but, like, I'd like, like, if you're vaping and you're aware of the chat.

02:36:41.400 We're all out, yeah.

02:36:42.860 It's, like, the same thing, I guess.

02:36:44.820 Here, I have to, I have to shift gears a little bit here.

02:36:47.960 I want to do a couple shout-outs.

02:36:49.040 Troy, thank you for the 10 on Venmo.

02:36:50.860 Taylor, thank you for the 10 on Venmo.

02:36:52.400 We have a couple chats coming through.

02:36:53.700 Sorry for the delay for some of these.

02:36:55.520 One moment here.

02:36:57.560 Pasty George, I think.

02:36:58.940 I can't wait.

02:37:00.180 Here it is.

02:37:00.920 Sorry for the delay, Pasty.

02:37:01.900 My bad.

02:37:04.000 Pasty George donated $200.

02:37:07.280 Chair 5, spine, elbow, and knee surgeries, et cetera, are not plastic or cosmetic.

02:37:14.200 Don't be notarded. 1.00

02:37:16.840 Yeah, my gripe has always been about the cosmetic plastic surgeries.

02:37:21.040 That's, that's my primary gripe there.

02:37:22.820 Thank you, Pasty.

02:37:23.560 Appreciate it.

02:37:24.240 We have, uh, Paul looks like he bought a t-shirt on the merch store, and he also did a $10 donation.

02:37:29.300 Thank you, Paul.

02:37:30.460 That's coming in here in just a moment.

02:37:32.900 Simply put, yours is below the threshold, but we'll have it come up here after I let these come through.

02:37:40.100 For the panel, or Sina, can you read this?

02:37:43.560 No, I can't see.

02:37:44.500 It's okay, I'll read.

02:37:45.820 For the panel, what's the nastiest experience you've had with a man to clear things up?

02:37:49.980 Actions, not words.

02:37:50.880 Would you break up if a guy farted around you or didn't wash their hands?

02:37:54.640 Oh, so this is, like, about, um, hygiene.

02:37:57.800 Picked their nose.

02:37:59.140 What's the nast, okay, nasty experience you've had with a man?

02:38:03.020 So, like, okay, that's an interesting question, Josh.

02:38:06.360 I mean, my first boyfriend, like, literally never flushed the toilet.

02:38:09.120 Ew.

02:38:09.840 Ew.

02:38:10.060 Like, never, like, just go.

02:38:12.200 Like, number one and two?

02:38:13.400 Or, no, no, no, just number one.

02:38:14.660 He said, he was, like.

02:38:15.840 That's saving water, I'll be honest.

02:38:17.840 I mean, like, I guess, but, like, when you have company over and your house has one restroom.

02:38:22.460 Oh, yeah.

02:38:23.280 You know what I mean?

02:38:24.060 He was, like.

02:38:24.480 You're letting it marinate.

02:38:25.260 It was something, like, it was, like, if it was.

02:38:26.820 I don't even want to repeat.

02:38:27.720 It was, like, if it's brown, flush it down. 1.00

02:38:29.020 If it's yellow, let it mellow.

02:38:30.540 Yeah, yeah. 0.99

02:38:31.260 Some shit like that. 0.99

02:38:32.040 That's not a movie, actually. 0.99

02:38:32.900 I mean, I guess that's not very.

02:38:33.920 I mean, it's, like, I don't know.

02:38:35.020 It was kind of gross.

02:38:36.600 Mine wasn't too bad.

02:38:37.680 I just.

02:38:38.380 One time we were kissing, he burped in my mouth. 0.85

02:38:41.200 That's gross. 0.98

02:38:42.060 Gross. 0.94

02:38:42.680 That was gross. 0.84

02:38:43.940 Anything else from anybody?

02:38:45.000 I think that's gross. 0.99

02:38:45.600 My brothers are gross. 0.99

02:38:47.420 I love them, but they're gross. 0.99

02:38:49.500 Yo, Josh, thank you for that one.

02:38:50.560 Appreciate it.

02:38:50.960 We have inaccroachable.

02:38:52.540 Beauty is culturally subjective, and humans have been modifying their bodies to fit a standard 0.92

02:38:58.340 for thousands of years.

02:38:59.660 Olmex, Perakoz, Huns, Cayen.

02:39:02.080 And plastic surgery is not so bad, but some docs are.

02:39:06.740 1,000% agree.

02:39:08.440 I agree.

02:39:09.280 Some, some tribes, like, disagree.

02:39:11.800 Strong, strong disagree.

02:39:13.580 Okay, wait.

02:39:13.740 How do you think about steroids?

02:39:15.200 It's like, if men take those steroids shots?

02:39:17.720 I'm against that, too.

02:39:18.740 That's bad.

02:39:19.240 What about testosterone?

02:39:20.460 That's bad.

02:39:21.100 Taking testosterone.

02:39:21.500 Some people, some men need it.

02:39:23.180 Yeah, that's true.

02:39:23.660 That's true.

02:39:24.040 Some women need it, too. 1.00

02:39:25.560 But I mean, like, excess.

02:39:27.320 That's different.

02:39:27.920 There is medical indication for, like, testosterone replacement therapy.

02:39:32.360 Excess, though, if you already have enough.

02:39:35.160 Yeah, then probably shouldn't do it.

02:39:37.320 But, I mean, I would also just look at the risk profile.

02:39:40.580 Like, is it the case that even young men who take TRT, does it have a low risk profile

02:39:46.440 or no risk profile?

02:39:47.480 Then if it helps them, then I probably don't have an issue with it.

02:39:52.740 But I'm not an expert in TRT, so clearly.

02:39:56.100 I'm not an expert either, so I'm not going to, like.

02:39:57.860 Yeah.

02:39:59.280 Okay, we have, this is below the threshold, but simply put, I do appreciate your chat.

02:40:03.540 Thank you, man.

02:40:03.960 Appreciate it.

02:40:04.860 All right, we're going to get into, oh, here's a fun segment. 0.96

02:40:08.460 Roast your ex, if you want to.

02:40:10.920 Each panelist gets 30 seconds to roast one of their exes without naming names. 0.96

02:40:15.600 Anybody?

02:40:16.200 Oh, I'll go.

02:40:17.540 I have never.

02:40:18.340 Look deep into this camera.

02:40:19.220 I have never seen anyone eat.

02:40:22.240 Straight into the mic.

02:40:23.000 I have never seen anyone eat anything as disgustingly as you eat any kind of food.

02:40:28.120 It is. 1.00

02:40:29.040 The you is crazy. 1.00

02:40:30.900 It is. 1.00

02:40:32.760 I can't take you anywhere.

02:40:35.400 Ever.

02:40:36.500 And that's it.

02:40:39.080 That was the, okay.

02:40:40.320 Anybody else?

02:40:41.340 Bella, what you got?

02:40:42.860 I got that one on my mind.

02:40:43.680 You got a roast?

02:40:44.560 Anybody?

02:40:44.800 Anybody?

02:40:47.000 Nope.

02:40:47.760 Anybody?

02:40:48.580 Nobody?

02:40:49.140 Okay.

02:40:49.540 All right. 0.99

02:40:51.120 Damn, nobody. 0.99

02:40:52.500 Come on. 1.00

02:40:52.800 You go, girl.

02:40:53.660 Let's roast.

02:40:54.280 I feel like it's outing me.

02:40:56.740 Do it.

02:40:57.560 Do it.

02:40:57.800 No excuses.

02:40:58.180 Play like a champion.

02:40:59.000 Rule number 76.

02:41:00.060 No excuses.

02:41:00.660 Play like a champion. 0.99

02:41:02.300 I have never seen a guy have so much dick cheese in their life. 1.00

02:41:06.660 Oh, yeah, girl. 1.00

02:41:08.340 So much what?

02:41:09.480 Oh, yeah, girl. 0.55

02:41:10.500 I was like, don't you say it again?

02:41:12.260 Oh, no.

02:41:13.500 Oh, I'm completely wrong.

02:41:14.580 Excuse me?

02:41:15.180 How long was he your boyfriend for?

02:41:17.460 Like, no.

02:41:18.320 A year and a half?

02:41:19.960 All right.

02:41:20.580 All right.

02:41:20.980 That is exposing you. 0.98

02:41:22.000 When was the final straw of all the dick cheese? 0.99

02:41:26.120 Is it bad that I don't know what that is? 0.92

02:41:28.000 It just, like, sounds horrible.

02:41:30.200 Well, good thing you don't know, girl. 0.99

02:41:32.400 Yikes.

02:41:32.800 Okay.

02:41:33.120 Good times.

02:41:33.500 Oh, here we go.

02:41:35.300 How each panelist, Toxic Olympics, shares the most toxic thing they've ever done.

02:41:43.560 Looks like Bella has something.

02:41:46.180 Go ahead, Bella.

02:41:46.880 Oh, I literally haven't even thought yet.

02:41:49.280 I have something.

02:41:50.120 I have to think of the most toxic thing I've ever done.

02:41:52.320 Most toxic thing you've ever done.

02:41:53.680 To a partner.

02:41:55.360 Sure.

02:41:55.900 Yeah.

02:41:56.260 To a guy.

02:41:56.760 I was probably 17, and I had this co-worker that really liked me, so I used him to drive

02:42:07.420 me to another guy I was seeing, and he was really, really hurt.

02:42:12.980 I lied and said that I was going to do homeschool or some crap, but he saw the guy come out,

02:42:18.860 and so he drove off, wrote on Facebook, like, how much I liked.

02:42:21.960 And mind you, I don't know if I, I might have was giving him, like, signals or whatever,

02:42:26.320 that indication that I liked him like that, but that was probably a toxic that I remember 0.98

02:42:32.020 the most, and I just remember how hurt he was, and I was like, damn, I did not like you, 0.83

02:42:37.840 and I'm sorry that I hurt you like that.

02:42:40.120 I don't even think I even apologized to him, but if you're watching this panel, I'm sorry.

02:42:44.640 Yeah.

02:42:44.860 Aw, way to take accountability.

02:42:46.280 I think my most, like, toxic moment was when I, like, and this was the relationship where

02:42:53.260 I was with him, like, four or five years, so I, like, kept catching him actually talking

02:42:58.720 to escorts all the time, so I ended up, like, driving to his job, and he left his keys in

02:43:04.900 his car, so I, like, got in his car, and I was, like, and it was, like, a charger, so

02:43:10.300 I was, like, driving it around the parking lot and, like, honking the horn and, like,

02:43:14.740 skirt, skirt in that thing. 1.00

02:43:16.200 I'm not even going to lie.

02:43:18.120 Good job.

02:43:18.900 Yeah, and then he ended up coming out, and then we kind of, like, fought a little bit,

02:43:23.460 but I've grown, so I'm not, I'm not like that anymore, but that was probably, like, one of

02:43:27.860 my more toxic moments.

02:43:29.360 I've done crazy stuff.

02:43:30.600 I had a high-speed chase with my ex, crashed my car a little bit, and then went back home

02:43:36.060 and slept with him, like, in his bed, like, not in a second.

02:43:38.880 You know what?

02:43:39.640 Same.

02:43:40.160 Same, girl, same.

02:43:41.060 I've shown up to his house tons of times.

02:43:44.860 He's shown up to my house.

02:43:45.760 He used to, like, break into my house and stuff when we would have fights.

02:43:49.660 It's pretty crazy.

02:43:50.960 Ah, been there.

02:43:52.580 Yeah.

02:43:53.660 I don't know.

02:43:54.600 I feel like I have a lot more stories, but I just can't think of them right now.

02:43:58.000 Yeah, I definitely have more, but that one stood out the most because the way I was driving

02:44:02.560 that charger, I'm surprised I didn't crash it.

02:44:05.060 It was bad.

02:44:07.240 Bad.

02:44:07.700 How fast were you going?

02:44:08.680 Real fast in a parking lot, too, and I remember.

02:44:14.060 That's good.

02:44:15.460 I like that. 0.97

02:44:16.920 I also like crazy guys. 0.96

02:44:19.580 Same. 0.93

02:44:20.320 Oh, yeah.

02:44:21.320 A little bit.

02:44:22.060 Yeah.

02:44:22.500 I like controlling, so my boyfriend's definitely a little controlling, and I definitely like

02:44:27.820 it.

02:44:28.220 I do.

02:44:29.380 Yeah, like, I kind of like that he would show up to my house and, like, because he has a

02:44:34.080 really loud car, too, and he would just, like, terrorize my neighborhood all night until I

02:44:39.060 answered.

02:44:39.880 Yeah.

02:44:40.560 Call me from a black number. 0.50

02:44:41.580 You mean, like, obsessive?

02:44:43.140 Yeah.

02:44:44.100 Oh, gosh.

02:44:46.040 That's not my thing.

02:44:47.640 I like it.

02:44:48.400 May that love never find me.

02:44:50.920 Find me.

02:44:51.700 I don't think I ever want a boyfriend ever again.

02:44:56.060 Why?

02:44:57.240 Oh.

02:44:57.820 She's done.

02:44:58.360 No, I'm just, like, I just, I mean, not actually ever again.

02:45:01.380 Just give me, like, a few years.

02:45:03.600 I just, I just.

02:45:04.620 Yeah, just focus on yourself.

02:45:06.320 Yeah.

02:45:06.580 And you're in school.

02:45:07.680 You know what I'm saying?

02:45:08.080 Yeah, exactly.

02:45:08.820 I got other things to work on. 0.82

02:45:09.600 Yeah, but that doesn't mean just, like, say, like, have sex.

02:45:12.580 Oh, no, that's not.

02:45:13.440 And I'm just saying, like, in general, like, you know, working on yourself is still super

02:45:17.620 valid.

02:45:18.100 Yeah.

02:45:18.160 And that's still a beautiful thing, so.

02:45:19.920 Ooh.

02:45:20.600 What do you think you need to improve?

02:45:25.600 Honestly, like, I've done a lot of strong improvement over the past couple years.

02:45:31.940 I'm sober.

02:45:33.780 Not, like, I'm California sober.

02:45:35.940 I don't drink alcohol.

02:45:38.140 And that's done a lot for me.

02:45:40.140 And I don't know.

02:45:41.080 I'm starting college.

02:45:41.860 Like, I feel like I need to focus on, like, all the things that.

02:45:45.660 I'm going to start going to AA again.

02:45:49.080 Do some self work.

02:45:53.100 Wait, AA?

02:45:53.640 Like, alcoholics and all of this?

02:45:54.320 Yeah, like, alcoholics and all of this.

02:45:56.340 Were you an alcoholic at one point?

02:45:57.800 Yeah, I was.

02:45:59.420 It was an alcoholic.

02:46:00.400 But I'm good now.

02:46:02.600 Congratulations.

02:46:03.380 Ah, thanks.

02:46:04.560 Thanks, guys.

02:46:05.220 But anyways, no, just, like, stuff that I learned there.

02:46:08.200 I don't know.

02:46:08.600 It's, like, less even, like, specific things that I want to work on.

02:46:11.660 I just think that it's important for me at this time in my life to grow into myself and

02:46:15.420 not into someone else.

02:46:16.600 And, like, I want to figure out who I am.

02:46:19.800 And I don't know.

02:46:21.180 I feel like it's a really prime time in my life where I'm going to, like, be blossoming into the final me.

02:46:28.220 How long have you been sober?

02:46:30.080 Two years and it just happened.

02:46:32.260 And you're 18?

02:46:32.800 I was going to say, aren't you 18?

02:46:34.200 Yeah.

02:46:34.700 How old were you when this happened?

02:46:36.080 I was turning 16 when I finally, like, was able to, like, get that.

02:46:41.440 How long were you, like, dealing with that?

02:46:44.020 Um, four years, I think.

02:46:47.220 Straight?

02:46:47.480 It just got, yeah.

02:46:48.420 It was just, like.

02:46:49.980 It's, like, four.

02:46:50.600 Like, how old were you?

02:46:51.860 I think I was 12 when I started drinking.

02:46:54.100 Wow.

02:46:54.420 So, why, if you, if you're comfortable talking about it?

02:46:58.300 Oh, yeah.

02:46:58.320 I mean, like, um, it was just, like, around.

02:47:01.200 Like, I grew up in a place where, like, I grew up in a, like, no complaints, a beautiful area.

02:47:07.200 People were wealthy.

02:47:08.280 But that people being wealthy also means that their parents aren't around.

02:47:11.660 So, like, my friends would have alcohol and they would drink and it was, like, funny.

02:47:15.200 But, like, I would drink and it wasn't funny.

02:47:17.180 Yeah.

02:47:17.420 But nothing, like, I have great memories.

02:47:20.460 Like, no regrets at all.

02:47:21.680 Just, like, for my safety and the safety of others, I'm not going to ingest that anymore.

02:47:27.320 Meth?

02:47:27.780 Well, sorry.

02:47:28.720 Meth?

02:47:29.320 Alcohol.

02:47:29.580 No, just alcohol.

02:47:30.100 Oh, sorry, sorry.

02:47:31.080 I missed that part.

02:47:31.640 Yeah, no.

02:47:32.700 Okay, that's cool.

02:47:34.220 Anybody else?

02:47:35.140 Any most toxic thing done ever?

02:47:38.520 This isn't as crazy as yours by any means.

02:47:41.860 But I was at this 4th of July get-together.

02:47:51.300 And I was, I happened to have been talking to my ex.

02:47:58.460 He was there.

02:47:59.780 He was talking to me.

02:48:01.860 And he thought we were hanging out and everything.

02:48:06.180 And I was, like, kind of letting it happen.

02:48:07.840 Like, it was whatever.

02:48:08.760 And then the guy that I started seeing after I broke up with him walked through the door

02:48:19.420 when he was supposed to be out of town.

02:48:22.240 And I ditched my ex and ran up to the other guy and hugged him right in front of him.

02:48:28.040 No, that might be worse, actually.

02:48:29.500 And then I left with the other guy.

02:48:35.120 And, yeah.

02:48:37.620 But my ex and I are good now.

02:48:39.240 We're on good terms.

02:48:40.300 So it's okay.

02:48:40.860 Which one is this?

02:48:42.080 The one that called me in. 0.97

02:48:44.760 For the friggin' flower thing? 0.96

02:48:46.400 Yeah. 0.99

02:48:47.460 I don't like him.

02:48:50.260 We're going to get into the next segment here.

02:48:53.380 Actually, before that, I did have a question for all the panelists.

02:48:56.600 Who here is parents are still together?

02:49:01.120 Parents are together.

02:49:02.280 Together.

02:49:03.800 So why don't we just, we'll just have you guys say it into the mic just because we have

02:49:06.540 some audio-only listeners.

02:49:08.060 So are your parents still together?

02:49:09.260 Yes.

02:49:10.720 No.

02:49:11.400 Were they married?

02:49:12.640 Yes.

02:49:13.320 But divorced?

02:49:14.360 Not together.

02:49:15.160 Divorced?

02:49:15.820 Divorced.

02:49:16.380 Together.

02:49:17.620 Well, they're not together, but my parents were never married.

02:49:19.980 They were together, but they never married.

02:49:22.240 Gotcha.

02:49:22.620 What about you?

02:49:23.340 Not together, and they were never really together.

02:49:26.500 Okay.

02:49:26.800 What about you?

02:49:27.640 Not together, never been married.

02:49:30.260 They're together.

02:49:31.960 Okay.

02:49:32.620 So this next segment is, unfortunately, normally we pull it up through StreamYard, but it's

02:49:38.640 not working.

02:49:40.240 Rate your looks on a scale of one to ten.

02:49:43.080 You can't pick seven.

02:49:43.460 I was prepared for this.

02:49:44.700 She's prepared.

02:49:45.660 I watched these.

02:49:46.840 How did you watch it?

02:49:47.780 I watched all the videos so I could pre- 1.00

02:49:49.780 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:49:50.620 She's ready. 1.00

02:49:51.320 Pre-learn what you were going to ask me.

02:49:52.900 She knows.

02:49:53.520 She's ready to go.

02:49:54.360 Okay.

02:49:54.620 So what do you rate your looks on a scale of one to ten?

02:49:57.400 There's no right answer.

02:49:58.880 There's no right answer.

02:49:59.960 There's a right answer.

02:50:00.940 In my eyes, a ten.

02:50:02.260 Okay.

02:50:02.460 And that's all that matters.

02:50:03.420 Ten?

02:50:03.880 Okay.

02:50:04.320 Ten.

02:50:04.780 Ten?

02:50:05.060 Ten?

02:50:06.120 Oh, yeah.

02:50:06.880 Oh, yeah.

02:50:08.680 I think, I mean, like, I've never been hated on for my looks, and I'm pretty self-confident.

02:50:18.640 So in my current form, yeah, I guess I would say I'm a ten.

02:50:21.660 Your current form?

02:50:22.600 Yeah, I used to be hideous. 0.97

02:50:23.920 Are you super saiyan? 0.98

02:50:24.620 You used to be hideous? 1.00

02:50:26.160 Hideous. 0.99

02:50:26.680 Hideous?

02:50:27.280 Yes.

02:50:28.500 Then what changed?

02:50:32.360 I had, like, a hatred for men when I was a child.

02:50:36.440 And so I cut my hair.

02:50:39.260 I know.

02:50:40.420 I cut my hair to look like a...

02:50:42.380 Wait, were your parents, they're still together?

02:50:44.580 No.

02:50:44.880 Or they, okay.

02:50:46.280 Gotcha.

02:50:46.740 You hated men when you were young.

02:50:48.720 Not, like, all men, but just, like, the boys that were around me.

02:50:51.780 Okay.

02:50:52.260 And so I cut my hair to look like a little bull.

02:50:54.500 I did look, I cut my hair to, like, here.

02:50:56.360 You had a...

02:50:56.840 I had glasses that I didn't even need.

02:50:59.280 I just liked them.

02:51:00.200 And I had braces, and then I only dressed in clothes that were, like, two times my size.

02:51:04.880 Nice.

02:51:05.600 Like, completely unrecognizable.

02:51:07.960 Do you still not like men, or...?

02:51:10.960 No, I have no, like, specific hatred.

02:51:13.300 Oh, okay.

02:51:13.820 Really.

02:51:14.660 Do you have vague hatred?

02:51:16.460 I have vague hatred.

02:51:19.000 What is vague hatred?

02:51:20.460 Not to all men.

02:51:22.500 Okay, what percentage of men are we talking about here?

02:51:25.320 I mean, I guess just the ones that I don't like.

02:51:27.940 Like, now, because, like, I'm older now, and I don't...

02:51:30.320 I don't like to put people in categories.

02:51:32.820 Like, I hate this general amount of...

02:51:35.400 But I just...

02:51:36.080 Anyways.

02:51:36.140 Yeah.

02:51:36.660 Sorry, we're getting old.

02:51:37.200 Anyway, I think I'd call myself, I think.

02:51:41.220 Call yourself a what?

02:51:42.560 No.

02:51:43.520 I'd call myself a 10, yeah.

02:51:44.880 A 10?

02:51:45.260 A 10.

02:51:46.020 What about you?

02:51:46.600 10.

02:51:49.200 10.

02:51:49.980 Go ahead.

02:51:52.020 If I'm being honest...

02:51:53.560 Yeah, be honest.

02:51:54.380 Probably, like, a 9.

02:51:57.060 Because I know I have things to work on, and I know I'm not perfect, and I know no one's

02:52:01.340 perfect, and I think it's important to just, you know, accept your flaws and understand

02:52:07.100 that you're working on them, because I know that I'm not as good as I could be.

02:52:11.260 You're a 10 in my eyes.

02:52:12.700 Thank you.

02:52:13.280 You're a 10 in my eyes.

02:52:14.060 Same.

02:52:14.360 I love you, Ava.

02:52:15.900 I love you so much.

02:52:17.040 All right.

02:52:17.300 What about you?

02:52:18.080 I think I'm, like, a 7.

02:52:19.800 7?

02:52:20.240 Okay.

02:52:21.900 5.

02:52:23.640 Honestly, like, a 6?

02:52:24.920 Why are y'all lying to yourself?

02:52:28.100 I give myself a 5.

02:52:29.880 Okay.

02:52:30.700 Cool.

02:52:31.940 Me too.

02:52:32.460 I'm a nerd.

02:52:32.840 Wow.

02:52:33.280 You know, I always...

02:52:35.020 We have multiple 10, 10, 10, 10, 10, 10, 9.

02:52:39.040 10, 10, 10.

02:52:39.560 I think what it is is, like...

02:52:40.900 She humbled herself.

02:52:42.420 You know, I always get the most beautiful women on the show, week after week. 1.00

02:52:49.640 So, okay.

02:52:50.740 Hold on.

02:52:53.540 Wait, where was I going with this?

02:52:55.360 I really don't know.

02:52:57.780 I'll help you out.

02:52:58.480 So, you guys think you're, like, put yourself up with the most hottest women alive?

02:53:03.040 No, I just don't think there's anything wrong with me.

02:53:04.800 I like how I am.

02:53:05.960 There's nothing wrong with...

02:53:07.120 Not physically, just there's nothing wrong with you?

02:53:08.960 Oh, I was talking about, like, physically.

02:53:10.280 I like to, like...

02:53:10.780 When I look in the mirror...

02:53:11.380 What are you talking about physically?

02:53:12.960 Yeah.

02:53:13.240 Yeah, like, when I look in the mirror, I don't...

02:53:14.200 Yeah, it's only physically.

02:53:14.940 Like, I don't hate on myself.

02:53:16.400 I'm confident.

02:53:16.760 No, yeah, me too.

02:53:17.820 Like, I just...

02:53:18.280 I don't look in the mirror and be like, oh, I don't like...

02:53:20.360 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:53:20.620 Like, I...

02:53:21.200 Yeah.

02:53:22.080 Okay.

02:53:22.820 I don't dock points.

02:53:24.000 Do you have anything to dock points on us for?

02:53:27.200 Do I have anything?

02:53:28.260 Yeah.

02:53:28.580 Well, even if I did, I don't think...

02:53:30.080 It would be rather rude of me to actually articulate that.

02:53:33.500 Wait, was I rating myself, like, basically, like, my looks or just, like, in total?

02:53:36.000 No, just looks.

02:53:36.820 Looks.

02:53:37.280 Oh.

02:53:37.860 Yeah.

02:53:38.340 Still 10.

02:53:38.960 Yeah.

02:53:40.960 Okay.

02:53:41.320 I guess my question is, and this isn't directed at any one of you, specifically, why don't,

02:53:50.720 you know, average, maybe a bit above average looking women, why can't they just say, I'm 1.00

02:53:58.660 average?

02:54:00.500 Or I'm a bit above average.

02:54:02.220 You know, why can't they just say, I'm average looking?

02:54:04.260 Is that one?

02:54:05.100 What's wrong?

02:54:06.220 But why even, like...

02:54:07.200 But what is average?

02:54:08.160 Like, why are we even, like, doing that?

02:54:09.960 But what's the beauty standard?

02:54:10.980 Yeah.

02:54:11.400 What's the beauty standard of average?

02:54:12.940 Why are we putting people in a category?

02:54:14.300 Like, what defines an average looking person?

02:54:16.200 Majority of people will fall in, like, that...

02:54:18.580 Majority of people are going to be...

02:54:20.500 Okay, what does the hottest girl look like? 1.00

02:54:21.660 Like, the hottest girl look like?

02:54:23.260 By definition.

02:54:23.560 Why don't you tell me who you think is a 10?

02:54:26.300 I think everyone's a 10.

02:54:27.380 Everyone is different.

02:54:28.500 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:54:29.100 Hold on.

02:54:29.420 All women are 10s? 1.00

02:54:30.760 Everyone is different.

02:54:32.000 Are all men 10s? 0.62

02:54:33.720 Sure.

02:54:34.400 Really?

02:54:35.120 Like we said, the preference.

02:54:37.340 Everyone has a preference.

02:54:38.620 Just based on looks, you would consider every single man...

02:54:41.520 She didn't say they're a 10 to her, but they can be a 10 to someone.

02:54:45.140 Everyone is different.

02:54:45.440 No, but are they a 10 to you?

02:54:47.820 Are all men 10s to you? 0.88

02:54:48.560 No, because she has preferences. 0.98

02:54:50.780 We all have preferences.

02:54:52.180 Going back to it.

02:54:52.940 But are there generalized preferences that, you know, a lot of people have?

02:54:57.440 Absolutely.

02:54:57.960 There could be, like...

02:54:59.040 I could be in a room with 10 people, and three of them could say I'm a 2, and four of them

02:55:03.160 could say I'm a 10, but I'm, like, if you're asking, but also, like, what's what I'm saying?

02:55:08.160 No, that's so not unlike me.

02:55:09.280 Like, me and my roommates, we all have different types.

02:55:11.880 Yeah, that's what I was just about to say.

02:55:13.320 A guy who I think is a 10 is the sexiest man alive.

02:55:15.960 My roommates, ugh.

02:55:16.880 Right.

02:55:17.300 Yeah, me too.

02:55:18.140 None of that.

02:55:18.800 Yeah.

02:55:19.140 So, if you're asking...

02:55:20.560 Literally.

02:55:21.280 If you're asking us ourselves what I think of myself, like, I guess I would say a 10,

02:55:25.520 I'm pretty confident I don't really ever get called ugly, but I can't say I'm a 10

02:55:29.440 to everyone in the world.

02:55:30.280 Well, that's a good point you bring up.

02:55:32.040 Let's change it a little bit, because you say to your...

02:55:34.160 This is my rating to myself.

02:55:36.060 What do you think, if you guys were in a room with, you know, a cross-section of different

02:55:39.640 men, say 1,000 men, we can...

02:55:41.700 1,000?

02:55:42.300 Yeah, I know.

02:55:42.820 That's crazy, right?

02:55:44.420 Intimidating.

02:55:45.600 10,000, 100,000 men.

02:55:47.760 What do you think they would rate you...

02:55:49.920 Like the average?

02:55:50.540 Yeah, what would the average be?

02:55:51.320 But who's the 10?

02:55:52.060 I don't know.

02:55:52.340 But can you give me, like...

02:55:53.500 I didn't give you...

02:55:54.640 Oh, I'm sorry.

02:55:55.400 I got a little excited.

02:55:57.320 Can you give me, like, a 1, and then can you give me, like, a...

02:55:59.800 Well, here's what I'll do, so...

02:56:01.080 Maybe just give me a 10.

02:56:01.860 Yeah, sure.

02:56:02.500 I mean, I guess I could give you a couple examples.

02:56:04.440 So, like, a 10 could be Megan Fox when she was younger.

02:56:07.700 Oh, Megan Fox.

02:56:08.480 Adriana Lima, Victoria's Secret Model when she was younger.

02:56:11.880 Oh, I love that woman. 1.00

02:56:12.100 Oh, well, I mean, that's the crazy scale.

02:56:14.620 Like, those are not women that you see every day, though. 1.00

02:56:17.580 Which would make them a 10?

02:56:18.580 That would make them a 10, I guess.

02:56:19.660 So, is 10, like, supermodel status?

02:56:24.440 You have to give us more context.

02:56:25.960 Like, 10 is, like, you...

02:56:27.920 It depends where you live, I guess.

02:56:29.560 But 10 is, like, you never see someone this beautiful almost ever in person.

02:56:38.080 I think I'm...

02:56:39.240 Like, that would be a 10, right?

02:56:40.680 I think I'm beautiful, but I think I'm, like, an average amount of beautiful.

02:56:43.300 Yeah, and that's why even saying, like, how I'm a 7 doesn't mean I'm not confident.

02:56:46.700 I'm actually pretty sure of myself, and I don't have a lot of problem when it comes to dating, per se.

02:56:51.900 It's, like, getting a specific kind of guy, but...

02:56:54.580 What if we use this?

02:56:55.600 Here's this...

02:56:56.120 Here's some...

02:56:57.040 One of my viewers proposed a chart.

02:57:00.020 10, absolutely stunning.

02:57:03.060 9, gorgeous.

02:57:04.000 8, beautiful.

02:57:04.880 7, pretty.

02:57:05.760 6, above average.

02:57:07.080 5, average.

02:57:08.200 4, below average.

02:57:09.560 3, frumpy.

02:57:12.640 2, unattractive. 0.99

02:57:14.580 1, butt ugly. 0.96

02:57:17.540 Honestly, I'd say I'm gorgeous. 0.89

02:57:19.880 I think I'm gorgeous.

02:57:20.360 I think I'm beautiful.

02:57:20.920 I think I'm really pretty.

02:57:21.840 Yeah, I think I'm pretty.

02:57:22.620 I think I'm, yeah, I'd say 9, I'm pretty.

02:57:24.420 Right, you could be, like, the hottest, I'm pretty, you know?

02:57:27.220 Exactly, yeah.

02:57:28.480 Yeah, like, I, like, this is kind of drastic.

02:57:30.340 Like, I'm not gonna sit here and tell you that I'm the most beautiful girl you've ever

02:57:33.680 seen, and that I, like, am above the average person. 0.99

02:57:37.140 Like, damn. 0.99

02:57:39.060 So, if the average person is 5, and you say you're a 10... 0.99

02:57:42.620 If the average, if an average, like, good-looking person is a 5, that would change my answer.

02:57:47.660 Average, okay-looking.

02:57:48.960 And, like, it doesn't hurt you to look at them.

02:57:50.760 Yeah, 5 would be average.

02:57:52.880 That was great how you said that.

02:57:55.060 Yeah, 5 would be average.

02:57:56.580 Like, I would say a 9 or 10, heads are turning on a swivel as they walk down the street.

02:58:03.220 Okay, but that depends where you are.

02:58:04.960 If I walk in Mexico, my... 0.98

02:58:06.960 Bitches' heads are turning. 1.00

02:58:08.940 Yeah. 1.00

02:58:09.640 You're saying if you live in Mexico...

02:58:12.780 If I go on a walk in Mexico...

02:58:14.640 Have you been on a walk in Mexico?

02:58:16.060 I have, twice this summer.

02:58:17.360 I went to Mexico twice.

02:58:20.560 It's just this summer.

02:58:21.760 But, like, heads are gonna be turning, because I'm a little white, blonde American girl.

02:58:26.660 Yeah, sure.

02:58:27.500 So...

02:58:27.660 It's what happens.

02:58:28.380 I mean, we could say...

02:58:29.720 It depends where you are.

02:58:29.860 Let's say State Street.

02:58:31.320 You're walking on a State Street.

02:58:31.940 But that's also, like, cultural shock.

02:58:33.540 I know, exactly.

02:58:34.080 Like, what's this white girl doing over here? 1.00

02:58:35.940 Like, you know... 0.97

02:58:37.120 Yeah, maybe they're just trying to rob you.

02:58:38.520 Oh, yeah.

02:58:38.840 I think it depends where you are, too.

02:58:40.780 I think that I'm more beautiful...

02:58:42.580 Considered more beautiful here than I was in Oregon.

02:58:45.320 And I think that I would be considered more beautiful in Peru than I would be here.

02:58:48.560 That's what I'm saying.

02:58:48.980 It's location-based.

02:58:50.080 The girls in Scottsdale and Arizona are hot. 1.00

02:58:50.980 But hold on.

02:58:51.800 But hold on.

02:58:52.840 So, a woman who's, like, say, a 10-in-one location, you can put her in another location. 0.99

02:58:59.640 She's still gonna be appraised as really attractive. 0.94

02:59:04.860 That's why I think it's hard to, like, find the exact number.

02:59:07.460 Can we get, like, a two-number?

02:59:09.460 Yeah, that's why I'm saying...

02:59:10.340 Can we skip this topic, actually?

02:59:12.260 I know.

02:59:12.540 I'm kind of bored of this.

02:59:13.860 Going back to the question...

02:59:14.640 I want to do some shout-outs right now.

02:59:16.340 Going back to the question that I was asking, though, if you have hundreds of thousands of

02:59:21.340 men, it's true that one guy's gonna rate you a 10, and one guy's gonna rate you a 1,

02:59:26.880 and some are gonna rate you 3, some are gonna rate you 7.

02:59:29.360 But we're talking about average here.

02:59:31.180 So, what do you think the average rating would be, starting with you?

02:59:36.160 I don't know.

02:59:37.580 Wait.

02:59:37.840 Can you tilt your mic?

02:59:38.860 Wait, you gotta answer the question before you get up, please.

02:59:40.500 Out of a thousand people, that thing?

02:59:41.980 I don't...

02:59:42.340 I don't know, because I'm stuck on something else.

02:59:45.040 Tilt, tilt, tilt.

02:59:45.580 No, other way, other way.

02:59:47.340 Tilt, tilt.

02:59:47.940 I don't know, Skip, because I'm stuck on something else.

02:59:49.700 You gotta answer.

02:59:50.620 I don't know, but my argument is, is that I feel like in hotter climates in the U.S., the

02:59:55.620 women are hotter because, like, you're wearing less clothes, you're more fit, you're working 1.00

02:59:59.580 out, and, like, you go to...

03:00:00.860 Okay, cool.

03:00:00.880 It's a hotter climate.

03:00:01.480 Yeah, I know, and then you go to, like, New York City, and then you see, like, not-so-beautiful

03:00:05.520 women because it's, like, cold. 1.00

03:00:06.380 It's hot in the summertime in New York City.

03:00:07.820 Yeah.

03:00:08.180 So, that's my average say. 0.99

03:00:09.220 It's fucking brutal in the summertime in New York City. 0.99

03:00:12.400 Okay. 0.99

03:00:13.380 So, do you want...

03:00:14.100 You gotta answer the question.

03:00:15.000 I just did.

03:00:15.840 Over and out.

03:00:16.820 Thank you.

03:00:19.340 Can you repeat the question?

03:00:21.180 Okay, a hundred...

03:00:22.600 A thousand men.

03:00:23.500 What's the average?

03:00:24.300 A hundred thousand men.

03:00:25.020 And what do you think...

03:00:26.280 A hundred thousand?

03:00:27.900 Sure.

03:00:28.340 Ten.

03:00:28.800 It could be a million.

03:00:29.460 What do you think they would rate you?

03:00:31.840 Like, the average?

03:00:32.980 Yeah, the average.

03:00:33.940 Because I don't know.

03:00:34.940 Okay, some guy would rate you a ten, some would rate you a one.

03:00:38.240 Eight point six.

03:00:40.220 Love it.

03:00:40.720 Seven.

03:00:41.400 Seven.

03:00:42.380 Six, seven.

03:00:43.440 Okay.

03:00:45.300 Go ahead.

03:00:48.240 That was really bad.

03:00:49.320 That was such a good one.

03:00:51.140 That was really bad.

03:00:53.360 Shout out Kamen and Ernie for that joke.

03:00:55.820 You?

03:00:56.660 He's no fun.

03:00:57.720 I just went.

03:00:59.820 They were talking, it was probably hard for me to hear.

03:01:01.420 Okay, yeah, go ahead.

03:01:02.780 Oh, yeah, I said a seven.

03:01:04.320 Okay, what about you?

03:01:05.020 I still think a seven.

03:01:06.180 Go ahead.

03:01:07.360 Four.

03:01:08.500 Six.

03:01:09.340 Okay, cool.

03:01:10.940 Rock and roll.

03:01:11.560 What about you?

03:01:12.140 Yeah.

03:01:12.680 A thousand girls.

03:01:13.760 Women rate me. 1.00

03:01:15.220 Average.

03:01:15.580 Four, five.

03:01:18.220 Yeah.

03:01:20.240 Coolio.

03:01:21.620 Yeah.

03:01:22.800 Like, I get...

03:01:23.280 The Julio.

03:01:24.120 I mean, but this is just speaking strictly looks.

03:01:26.120 You know, some might rate me higher, some might rate me lower.

03:01:30.940 Yeah, I'll depend.

03:01:31.540 No, so I wouldn't be surprised if somebody, you know, rated me one way or the other.

03:01:35.520 We have some chats coming through, but we got some follow-up here.

03:01:40.660 What the...

03:01:41.440 Pasty George donated $200.

03:01:44.660 Chair four.

03:01:45.420 Pasty. 0.97

03:01:45.740 So, obese, sweaty, stinky people are tens as well. 0.99

03:01:50.300 LMFAO. 0.97

03:01:55.680 Okay.

03:01:56.580 It's funny or stinky, I promise.

03:01:58.740 Wait, is Lizzo a ten?

03:02:02.520 Liza?

03:02:03.300 It's Liza?

03:02:04.420 I think she's...

03:02:05.000 Anyone can be a ten. 1.00

03:02:06.560 Yeah, you got it all fucked. 1.00

03:02:08.080 Is Lizzo a ten? 1.00

03:02:11.660 Are you looking at me?

03:02:13.020 Because I was asking you...

03:02:14.320 Why did you ask everyone?

03:02:15.240 I was just pointing at me.

03:02:16.600 Because I feel like picking on you.

03:02:17.860 How about that?

03:02:18.920 Why me?

03:02:19.760 Oh, my...

03:02:20.300 Just answer the question.

03:02:21.440 I think she's beautiful.

03:02:23.160 I think that she...

03:02:24.280 I think that she works on herself, and she's beautiful.

03:02:26.740 Old Lizzo.

03:02:27.420 Because I know she done lost a bit of weight.

03:02:29.100 Old Lizzo.

03:02:29.780 She's still beautiful.

03:02:30.520 Well, you know, there's some guys that love a big lady. 1.00

03:02:34.860 Go ahead.

03:02:35.460 I'm saying...

03:02:35.940 Are you saying that, like, does she think fat people are pretty?

03:02:39.780 Because you're referring to Lizzo specifically when she was fat.

03:02:42.900 Yeah.

03:02:44.460 Yeah, I'm asking if she thought Lizzo was pretty beautiful when she was...

03:02:48.420 Anyone can be a ten.

03:02:49.920 Anyone can be a ten?

03:02:51.120 Yeah.

03:02:51.680 Yeah. 1.00

03:02:52.120 You could look at someone and be like, damn, I'm a fucking ugly. 1.00

03:02:54.420 And someone else can look at them and be like, oh, wow. 1.00

03:02:56.640 That was actually...

03:02:57.680 That was just funny how you did that.

03:02:59.700 It's just the truth.

03:03:00.660 Can I ask you a question?

03:03:01.480 If somebody said that you looked like Lizzo, would you...

03:03:04.220 How would you feel about that?

03:03:06.360 I feel like I look nothing like Lizzo.

03:03:07.920 But if you did...

03:03:09.100 If somebody did said you looked like Lizzo, you'd be...

03:03:13.440 She'd probably be quite confused because you don't.

03:03:15.780 But what if somebody was making a statement about...

03:03:18.480 Do you think Lizzo's ugly?

03:03:19.700 Because you're saying it to me like I'd be offended by it.

03:03:23.300 I think...

03:03:24.000 Nick, do you have that clip?

03:03:25.080 The rhino one?

03:03:26.100 I kind of...

03:03:27.480 You know what I'm talking about, Nick?

03:03:28.500 Thank you very much.

03:03:29.080 It's on my Twitter.

03:03:29.640 I feel like I'd be like...

03:03:31.300 Like, okay?

03:03:32.460 Thanks?

03:03:32.800 We pulled it up twice.

03:03:34.580 It's like the...

03:03:36.300 It's on the Twitter.

03:03:37.960 On my personal account.

03:03:39.920 Yeah.

03:03:41.100 Wait, did I...

03:03:42.080 Do you know if I sent it to you last time?

03:03:44.000 Oh, on your personal account?

03:03:45.880 Oh, here.

03:03:46.460 It's in the...

03:03:47.420 Here, open Instagram, Nick.

03:03:49.020 Okay.

03:03:49.940 I'm pretty sure it's sent here.

03:03:51.660 Oh, wait.

03:03:52.100 No. 1.00

03:03:52.340 Fuck. 1.00

03:03:52.580 That's not it. 1.00

03:03:54.280 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:03:55.140 I forgot we have a school. 1.00

03:03:56.620 I have a cleaning shift tomorrow.

03:03:57.820 Whatever.

03:03:59.200 I'll move it off of that.

03:04:01.860 Going around the table, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

03:04:06.140 Starting with you.

03:04:06.600 I was also ready for this question.

03:04:08.340 May I ask?

03:04:08.420 She's ready.

03:04:09.100 Go ahead.

03:04:09.220 Yes.

03:04:10.020 Okay.

03:04:10.540 So, you're 24.

03:04:11.660 At 34, better looking.

03:04:13.240 Do you think you'll be better looking 20 years' time, 44?

03:04:16.360 I don't know.

03:04:17.000 I can't predict that far ahead.

03:04:18.520 Maybe.

03:04:19.680 Perhaps not.

03:04:20.780 Yes.

03:04:21.060 Assuming like you can't get any plastic surgery.

03:04:24.920 Yeah.

03:04:25.600 Yes.

03:04:26.600 Hot.

03:04:26.940 30 years' time, 54.

03:04:29.840 Better looking.

03:04:30.960 I'm going to be that granny 100 years old in a G-string, baby. 0.99

03:04:35.700 Hot.

03:04:38.600 Okay.

03:04:39.280 Yes.

03:04:40.040 Hold on.

03:04:40.480 I need to let a couple chats come through, then we're going to come back to this.

03:04:43.980 This is for Mary, I guess. 1.00

03:04:48.220 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:04:48.660 Thank you, Chris. 0.99

03:04:49.280 Oh, my God, Mary.

03:04:50.320 Love you, baby girl. 1.00

03:04:54.420 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:04:56.600 Love you, Christian. 1.00

03:04:59.880 Oh, yeah.

03:05:00.380 You have to pay the SIM tax, I guess.

03:05:01.900 He's telling me he has to pay the SIM tax. 1.00

03:05:05.480 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:05:06.220 Oh, pasty. 1.00

03:05:06.760 You're crazy for this one. 0.90

03:05:08.100 Pasty's coming in. 0.55

03:05:09.400 Hot.

03:05:10.900 With, uh...

03:05:12.080 But, Christian, thank you for the TTS.

03:05:13.420 Pay the SIM tax.

03:05:14.780 Pasty George donated $200.

03:05:18.140 Chair three.

03:05:18.780 Who is Harvey Weinstein?

03:05:19.580 So, according to your belief, Harvey Weinstein is a tennis well.

03:05:23.540 L-M-F-A-O. 1.00

03:05:24.940 Third chair knee? 0.75

03:05:26.060 Yeah.

03:05:26.440 Yeah. 0.99

03:05:26.580 Somebody got to think that motherfucker pretty. 1.00

03:05:31.080 He's obsessed with the word. 0.99

03:05:31.980 It's only a face a mother could love.

03:05:33.460 I actually don't even know who that is.

03:05:35.980 He's the...

03:05:37.040 We shouldn't even get into it.

03:05:39.360 We're just going to avoid that one.

03:05:41.320 Thank you, Pacey.

03:05:41.880 Let's just say he's not a conventionally good-looking man.

03:05:46.180 Is he, like, disabled or something? 1.00

03:05:47.520 Is that what you're doing?

03:05:49.000 No.

03:05:49.900 He...

03:05:50.260 Anyways...

03:05:50.660 Where's this?

03:05:52.240 Let's just say he had a lot of accusations Hollywood,

03:05:56.580 Me Too stuff.

03:05:58.080 Yeah.

03:05:58.320 But that's not about his looks.

03:06:01.440 True.

03:06:02.080 But he's also not...

03:06:03.820 Attractive.

03:06:04.500 The best-looking dude.

03:06:05.820 Then he's not a 10.

03:06:07.460 Anyways.

03:06:08.240 Let's see here.

03:06:09.260 Okay.

03:06:10.600 Oh, yes.

03:06:11.320 Do you think you'll be better-looking in 10 years' time?

03:06:13.320 You're 18, better-looking at 28?

03:06:15.600 Yeah.

03:06:16.340 Yeah.

03:06:17.020 20 years' time, 38?

03:06:22.040 I mean, I wouldn't say, like, better...

03:06:23.820 Like, it depends on your standards,

03:06:25.320 because I feel like the standard is low-key, like,

03:06:28.560 17 to, like, 28 is, like...

03:06:32.560 To, like, society is, like, the hottest.

03:06:35.680 But, like, I think I'll still be really good-looking.

03:06:39.700 Okay.

03:06:40.360 Like, I'll be a hot mom.

03:06:42.180 So just as good-looking?

03:06:43.820 Yeah, just as good-looking.

03:06:45.060 Okay.

03:06:45.580 What about...

03:06:45.900 Just, like, older.

03:06:46.840 30 years' time, so...

03:06:49.320 Just as good-looking and just older.

03:06:52.260 At 38?

03:06:52.740 Yeah, it just depends.

03:06:54.080 Or that would be 48, my mistake.

03:06:55.060 Like, to another 48-year-old,

03:06:57.000 just as attractive as I would have been

03:06:58.900 to another 18-year-old.

03:07:00.620 Well, I think the question there would be,

03:07:02.140 to the, say, 40-year-old,

03:07:07.380 would you be more...

03:07:08.400 Are you more physically attractive at 38 versus 28?

03:07:12.340 38 versus 18?

03:07:13.980 But to a 40-year-old or to a 28-year-old?

03:07:17.540 The 40-year-old.

03:07:19.060 I mean, yeah, a 40-year-old's probably into an 18-year-old.

03:07:21.420 Okay, there it is.

03:07:23.920 Probably that.

03:07:24.680 But in terms of your own appraisal,

03:07:26.860 they're looking in 40 years, 58.

03:07:29.500 I would say the same amount of good-looking.

03:07:31.660 I don't think better-looking.

03:07:32.800 When's the peak, I guess?

03:07:34.760 I think 28 would be the best.

03:07:36.500 Okay.

03:07:37.000 What about, like, 78?

03:07:38.860 Just as good-looking as now?

03:07:41.920 No.

03:07:42.880 68?

03:07:44.380 Just as good-looking?

03:07:46.460 Yeah.

03:07:47.400 Okay.

03:07:48.120 You're 18, better-looking in 10 years' time at 28?

03:07:50.600 Yes.

03:07:51.520 I'm so excited to look like my mom.

03:07:53.780 All the women in my family age, like, fine wine. 1.00

03:07:57.000 She got ID'd at restaurants until I was, like, 12, 13.

03:08:02.260 Baddies.

03:08:03.120 38?

03:08:04.680 Better than now?

03:08:05.780 Yeah.

03:08:06.060 No.

03:08:06.460 I think I look better.

03:08:07.260 I think at 28, I look better than I do now,

03:08:09.800 but I think at 38, I think 28 would be peak.

03:08:12.900 Okay.

03:08:13.280 Sure.

03:08:14.000 All right.

03:08:14.440 What about you?

03:08:15.580 Actually, I take it back.

03:08:17.440 Okay.

03:08:17.980 Go ahead.

03:08:18.240 I take that back.

03:08:19.100 I might be a pretty good-looking 40-year-old.

03:08:21.480 You should see my grandma.

03:08:22.500 She looks great.

03:08:23.680 She looks a milf. 0.93

03:08:24.460 Okay.

03:08:25.240 Cool.

03:08:27.360 50 or 48, then?

03:08:29.500 Better-looking, then?

03:08:30.860 48 is when I think it would start going down.

03:08:33.460 That's the decline.

03:08:34.420 Okay.

03:08:34.640 Okay.

03:08:34.780 What about you?

03:08:35.400 Better-looking at 28 versus 18?

03:08:38.180 Yeah.

03:08:39.300 38?

03:08:43.180 Yeah.

03:08:44.140 48?

03:08:44.720 No.

03:08:45.060 Okay.

03:08:46.580 What about you?

03:08:47.080 28?

03:08:47.520 Better-looking in 10 years time?

03:08:48.640 Yes.

03:08:48.960 Yes to all of them.

03:08:50.680 38?

03:08:51.380 Yes.

03:08:51.960 Yes to every single one.

03:08:53.160 58?

03:08:53.780 Yes.

03:08:54.320 Yes.

03:08:54.520 68?

03:08:54.920 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

03:08:56.220 So you'll be better-looking at 108 than you are now?

03:09:01.260 Yeah.

03:09:02.060 Like Bella said, the women in my family age like fine wine, 1.00

03:09:07.720 and I think my grandma is the most beautiful person I've ever seen in my entire life.

03:09:11.740 100, though?

03:09:12.420 And I don't care.

03:09:15.600 I think it is.

03:09:17.000 I think being able to see life through a person is the most beautiful thing ever.

03:09:20.580 It's weird, though, like that people on both sides are not going to the retirement home

03:09:26.860 to like pick up some strange.

03:09:28.940 Like it's weird.

03:09:29.480 Like why aren't, you know, the most beautiful, you know, 70, 80, 90, 100,

03:09:35.060 why aren't, you know, these guys macking on some grandmas, you know, what's up?

03:09:40.900 Retirement homes have hella STDs.

03:09:43.440 I do not know what you're talking about right now.

03:09:45.420 They have hella STDs?

03:09:46.760 Yes.

03:09:47.400 Retirement homes?

03:09:47.980 Yes.

03:09:48.700 Have you guys not remember this?

03:09:49.040 Is this a stat that we don't know about?

03:09:51.340 Let's not understate the STD prevalence among the college-age bodies.

03:09:56.220 Okay, we're not understating.

03:09:57.880 We're just also stating.

03:10:00.600 So that's like.

03:10:01.560 Yeah, a lot of people get freaky.

03:10:02.240 Is it a battle?

03:10:03.760 Freaky in retirement homes?

03:10:05.120 So guys, wait, you're telling me that guys are not trying to mack on women in retirement

03:10:10.040 homes because they're worried about the STD risk?

03:10:13.540 What?

03:10:13.880 No, I'm saying they do.

03:10:15.060 So wait, like, no, no, in that age cohort, I'm just saying if that's when you're most

03:10:22.040 beautiful and if men tend to have preference. 0.99

03:10:25.640 I didn't say most, I said even.

03:10:28.780 I said, like, you're the same beautiful, like, as you age.

03:10:33.320 Like, I think aging is beautiful.

03:10:34.880 Okay, all right, what about you?

03:10:36.180 You're 30, better looking in 10 years' time at 40?

03:10:40.580 Yes and no, only because my mom aged really well, too, so she's 45 but looks.

03:10:45.060 She's pretty young.

03:10:46.020 Do we have the AI, Nick?

03:10:47.740 It's pulled?

03:10:48.360 Okay.

03:10:49.060 20 years' time, 50?

03:10:50.720 I think I'll start to get a little wrinkly, but I also don't think wrinkles are bad, so

03:10:55.560 and I can't wait to have gray hair, so it's kind of, it is kind of hard for me to answer.

03:11:00.800 And going back in time, were you better looking at 20 or better looking now at 30?

03:11:04.620 I'm actually better looking now than I was at 20.

03:11:07.820 Okay, all right, what about you?

03:11:09.460 You're 27, better looking in 10 years' time, 37?

03:11:12.440 Probably, yeah, yeah.

03:11:15.060 20 years' time, 47.

03:11:19.600 No.

03:11:20.240 Okay, and then going back, say 18, better looking at 18 or better looking now at 27?

03:11:26.480 Now.

03:11:27.860 Okay.

03:11:28.780 I was a hot teenager, though.

03:11:30.340 19, better looking in 10 years at 29?

03:11:32.620 Yeah.

03:11:33.360 39?

03:11:34.360 Yes.

03:11:34.800 49?

03:11:35.340 No.

03:11:35.660 Okay, got it.

03:11:37.900 All right, that's very interesting.

03:11:41.060 So, we've put all of you through AI.

03:11:46.720 I'm excited.

03:11:47.280 We've aged all of you.

03:11:48.940 We're going to see if-

03:11:49.840 Are you serious?

03:11:51.220 We have aged all of you.

03:11:51.880 I saw this part.

03:11:52.820 All of you.

03:11:54.160 Wait, what?

03:11:55.340 And, uh, wait, wait.

03:11:57.240 Now, I know you're not a natural beauty, but I think with the right clothes and the right

03:12:00.500 look, you can be very striking.

03:12:02.440 All right.

03:12:02.920 You got it ready to go?

03:12:04.700 Are we watching the screen?

03:12:05.480 All right.

03:12:05.960 I was so excited.

03:12:07.640 Oh, wait.

03:12:08.120 We got the TTS.

03:12:08.920 I'm going to let that come through.

03:12:09.780 Then we're going to get into it.

03:12:10.660 Pastey George donated $200.

03:12:15.340 I don't mean to be rude, but I will just be realistic and say that when you all hit your

03:12:19.960 mind, you'll begin to look like Tried Rubber.

03:12:23.300 That is just life and how it is.

03:12:25.400 He's a brave and a decent man.

03:12:27.000 He's a pioneer.

03:12:28.680 What?

03:12:28.940 Oh, wow.

03:12:29.440 Okay.

03:12:29.720 That's a good one, Pastey.

03:12:30.780 Thank you.

03:12:31.100 Appreciate it.

03:12:31.600 Thank you.

03:12:31.900 Thank you.

03:12:32.200 All right.

03:12:32.560 Let's get into it.

03:12:34.980 I need a-

03:12:36.200 Oh.

03:12:38.880 How many years in the future is that?

03:12:41.180 It's like five years tops.

03:12:43.680 I think she looks hot as hell. 1.00

03:12:45.420 Make a smile.

03:12:45.800 Here he is.

03:12:46.540 Nice.

03:12:47.200 She was mistaken.

03:12:48.280 I feel like that's not 20s and 30s, though.

03:12:50.100 That's what you asked us.

03:12:51.100 Boo.

03:12:52.220 And we got it up there for some of y'all.

03:12:54.460 Yeah. 0.92

03:12:55.120 I'm going to be swinging them titties just at that age. 0.98

03:12:59.360 I'm going to be swinging them titties just at that age. 0.99

03:13:02.020 Oh, that's great. 1.00

03:13:03.800 What the fuck? 1.00

03:13:04.840 Okay. 1.00

03:13:05.240 Hell yeah.

03:13:06.120 All right.

03:13:07.000 Next.

03:13:07.800 Oh, my God.

03:13:08.660 Bye.

03:13:09.400 Oh, you're cute, though.

03:13:11.100 Oh, my God.

03:13:12.000 Wait.

03:13:12.520 Let's go.

03:13:13.520 I look like my mom.

03:13:14.820 That's cute.

03:13:16.820 Oh, no.

03:13:17.260 I'm scared of mine.

03:13:18.180 Oh, my God.

03:13:18.680 It's like Bonnie.

03:13:20.300 So, I think the middle, that's probably 40s.

03:13:23.820 No.

03:13:24.520 That is not 40s.

03:13:26.720 You know I wear sunscreen.

03:13:28.040 That is 50s.

03:13:28.680 That is 50s.

03:13:28.720 That's 50s.

03:13:28.740 That's 50s.

03:13:30.040 That's 50s.

03:13:31.200 That's honestly like 50s, 60s.

03:13:33.160 That's 40s.

03:13:35.020 I'm going to have some-

03:13:36.040 No.

03:13:36.380 It's creeping.

03:13:37.300 It's creeping up.

03:13:38.260 All right.

03:13:39.480 Uh-oh.

03:13:40.020 Next.

03:13:41.560 Whoa.

03:13:42.320 Whoa. 1.00

03:13:42.600 You're a batty. 1.00

03:13:43.920 Damn. 1.00

03:13:44.780 Wait. 1.00

03:13:45.620 You're a batty. 1.00

03:13:46.340 Apparently, just everything below the necklace is still looking good, though. 0.99

03:13:51.580 It's just the neck up.

03:13:52.900 You're a fight for mine.

03:13:54.120 I don't mind this at all.

03:13:56.900 She's good with it.

03:13:57.860 Okay.

03:13:58.740 Look, that's cute.

03:14:00.420 Be wearing the slick bike.

03:14:01.220 You're going to be like a cute little old lady. 1.00

03:14:03.180 I'm excited to be a cute little old lady.

03:14:05.420 There you go.

03:14:06.000 I said it for you.

03:14:06.720 Nice.

03:14:07.100 So long as I end up wealthy by then.

03:14:10.240 End up wealthy?

03:14:11.620 Yeah, I want to be a singer so bad.

03:14:13.900 Oh, with the music thing.

03:14:15.080 Yeah, I want to be rich and retired.

03:14:16.380 But she won't sing on the show. 1.00

03:14:17.260 What the fuck? 1.00

03:14:18.760 I can't do acapella. 1.00

03:14:19.960 That's terrifying.

03:14:21.020 This could be your one jam.

03:14:22.100 I'll have a beat right now.

03:14:24.860 All right.

03:14:25.620 Let's do...

03:14:26.560 You're on the next.

03:14:29.880 That's not bad.

03:14:31.480 That's not that bad.

03:14:32.560 Aw, she's so cute. 0.99

03:14:35.080 You're like the grandma from Goku.

03:14:37.200 Oh, my gosh.

03:14:38.360 A little bit.

03:14:39.120 I'm sorry.

03:14:40.180 All right.

03:14:40.640 That's so cute.

03:14:42.740 That's not bad.

03:14:43.440 That's not so cute.

03:14:46.060 Cute.

03:14:46.340 You look like you would help lost puppies.

03:14:51.480 Leave her alone. 1.00

03:14:51.940 Yes.

03:14:52.700 She's so cute.

03:14:52.860 I'm nervous for mine.

03:14:55.720 All right.

03:14:56.800 Next.

03:14:58.440 Period.

03:14:58.840 Oh, my God.

03:14:59.580 No, that's fire.

03:15:01.000 That's fire.

03:15:02.380 That's really good.

03:15:03.080 That's funny.

03:15:03.400 That's good.

03:15:04.060 The middle one's not that bad.

03:15:04.880 Wait, hold on.

03:15:06.060 This is kind of weird. 0.87

03:15:07.480 You're black, right?

03:15:09.320 I'm black Colombian Italian. 0.96

03:15:11.060 You became a white woman over time.

03:15:13.860 That's interesting to me.

03:15:14.760 It is very interesting.

03:15:15.640 That's interesting.

03:15:16.320 But my mom is more like your color. 1.00

03:15:19.500 Pale as fuck? 1.00

03:15:20.460 Yeah, she is. 1.00

03:15:21.420 Nice.

03:15:21.800 If she sees this, she's going to get mad at me for that.

03:15:23.500 W mom.

03:15:24.760 Okay.

03:15:26.520 Let's do next.

03:15:30.340 Sweet.

03:15:31.100 You know what?

03:15:31.600 You're kind of adorable.

03:15:34.680 Oh.

03:15:36.960 You look like you would help a homeless person.

03:15:40.440 You're definitely not skipping yours.

03:15:42.280 No.

03:15:42.980 No, she's going to look so good in hers. 0.97

03:15:44.740 All right.

03:15:45.540 I don't want to.

03:15:46.500 Next.

03:15:48.300 Look.

03:15:48.860 You got to look.

03:15:49.480 Look.

03:15:49.800 Ready?

03:15:50.200 Ready?

03:15:51.740 Period.

03:15:52.420 Daddy.

03:15:53.220 Okay.

03:15:53.880 Honestly.

03:15:54.280 You look fierce.

03:15:56.020 I literally have four different AI ones now at this point.

03:16:01.560 Wait.

03:16:01.820 Hold on.

03:16:02.200 Let me pull it up again.

03:16:03.680 That middle one.

03:16:04.420 You also kind of became white too.

03:16:07.380 I don't know what it is about this AI.

03:16:09.280 It's very racist.

03:16:10.820 It only wants to see old white people for some reason. 0.97

03:16:12.880 Do we have one on you?

03:16:14.420 Oh, yeah.

03:16:15.180 Okay.

03:16:15.700 Oh, yeah.

03:16:17.640 Can we see it?

03:16:18.880 Next.

03:16:20.080 Oh, Felicity. 1.00

03:16:21.080 Yeah, we'll see.

03:16:21.740 I've seen yours.

03:16:23.340 Rip.

03:16:23.860 Okay.

03:16:24.140 Next.

03:16:24.780 We've seen.

03:16:26.860 Oh, okay.

03:16:27.940 Wait.

03:16:28.560 Hold on.

03:16:29.620 That's.

03:16:30.200 Oh, okay.

03:16:31.300 Wait.

03:16:31.580 Is there another one, Nick?

03:16:32.260 That's not AI.

03:16:34.060 Oh, they didn't.

03:16:34.700 Okay.

03:16:35.840 That's me and I was.

03:16:37.180 I was going to say, is that you?

03:16:37.800 I saw that, actually.

03:16:39.200 Yeah.

03:16:39.460 So, first off, this middle.

03:16:44.040 That one's.

03:16:45.060 They're all old.

03:16:46.500 But funnily enough, the one on the right is the oldest photo of me.

03:16:49.980 Because I was in.

03:16:51.160 It was for a.

03:16:52.520 Bad grandpa or something?

03:16:54.000 Yeah, yeah.

03:16:54.460 It was a gig I did, like, 10 years ago in Amsterdam, and they put on, like, prosthetics

03:16:58.840 and made me look old.

03:17:00.280 So, that's, I guess, probably better than the AI, maybe.

03:17:06.680 No.

03:17:06.880 They didn't do a great job, though, those makeup artists. 1.00

03:17:09.800 I should have Bella do that shit. 1.00

03:17:12.560 Me? 1.00

03:17:13.060 Aren't you a makeup artist?

03:17:14.500 Hair.

03:17:15.080 Oh, hair.

03:17:15.680 Okay, sorry.

03:17:17.520 Cosmetology, whatever.

03:17:18.320 Threw me off.

03:17:18.800 Us men, we can't differentiate between, you know, cosmetology.

03:17:23.600 Everyone immediately assumes makeup.

03:17:26.700 Every single time.

03:17:27.580 Like, everyone.

03:17:28.360 Exactly.

03:17:29.160 Easy.

03:17:29.780 Simple.

03:17:29.960 Okay, yeah.

03:17:30.820 Hair.

03:17:31.460 Wow.

03:17:32.180 Period.

03:17:32.820 Wow.

03:17:33.900 Now, we've done something else.

03:17:35.320 We've done something else.

03:17:36.880 We've also gender swapped all of you. 0.98

03:17:38.900 I'd love to.

03:17:39.180 Oh.

03:17:40.240 Gender swapped? 0.99

03:17:41.180 Oh, man.

03:17:41.560 I've always wanted to see me as a man.

03:17:43.060 I really want to see this one.

03:17:44.620 It's actually you as a grandpa.

03:17:45.880 I missed it.

03:17:46.460 Oh, okay.

03:17:47.120 Let's.

03:17:47.440 You have it?

03:17:47.840 Yeah.

03:17:48.580 All right.

03:17:49.200 Oh.

03:17:49.420 Oh, my God.

03:17:51.000 Nice.

03:17:51.500 You look like Santa Claus?

03:17:52.900 Santa, for real.

03:17:54.220 Santa Claus.

03:17:54.420 We expect you to cosplay when you get older.

03:17:57.440 I will be Santa Claus.

03:17:58.100 That's Santa Claus.

03:17:59.020 Love it.

03:17:59.600 All right, cool.

03:18:01.000 And then gender swap.

03:18:02.420 So, two questions.

03:18:05.000 Would you rate the male version of you?

03:18:07.660 And then would you date the male version of you?

03:18:10.400 Two questions.

03:18:11.280 Oh, my God.

03:18:12.060 Absolutely not.

03:18:12.820 But do we get to, like, add height and, like.

03:18:14.940 Nope.

03:18:15.760 Or, well.

03:18:16.420 Buff.

03:18:17.000 I'm going to assume he's taller than me.

03:18:19.800 I'm going to assume he's tall.

03:18:21.460 All right.

03:18:22.320 Oh.

03:18:23.460 Oh, my.

03:18:24.340 Okay. 1.00

03:18:25.860 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:18:27.220 No. 1.00

03:18:28.680 That hair.

03:18:29.640 Not bad.

03:18:31.440 Not bad.

03:18:33.000 What a bad.

03:18:33.380 Stop it.

03:18:34.480 Get some help.

03:18:36.540 All right.

03:18:37.060 Here it is.

03:18:37.840 Not bad, right?

03:18:39.220 Would you rate him?

03:18:40.960 Would you date him?

03:18:42.060 Would I rate him?

03:18:42.940 Would I date him?

03:18:43.740 Can I see him for longer?

03:18:45.280 Sure.

03:18:45.860 Okay.

03:18:47.660 Sure.

03:18:48.380 Sure.

03:18:48.800 I'd date my twin.

03:18:50.240 That looks very weird.

03:18:52.300 Sure.

03:18:53.640 Would you rate him?

03:18:54.800 I don't know.

03:18:56.820 He has a nice facial structure.

03:18:59.260 And I like his hair.

03:19:00.740 And, bro, the nose is literally like mine.

03:19:03.860 It's literally my nose.

03:19:04.920 It's a trip.

03:19:05.800 The ears are huge.

03:19:07.340 But, I mean, he's not a bad-looking dude.

03:19:09.480 I'd give it a go.

03:19:11.680 All right.

03:19:12.640 Own it, girl. 1.00

03:19:13.880 Next.

03:19:17.440 Not horrible, either.

03:19:18.500 That looks like, um, can it, wait, let me, that looks like my uncle.

03:19:26.800 Um, and also kind of my dad.

03:19:29.680 Would you date the male version of you?

03:19:31.920 His forehead's kind of big.

03:19:33.260 I'm going to be honest.

03:19:34.580 Are they all going to have beards?

03:19:36.640 Like, I, oh, I'm sorry.

03:19:39.040 His, uh, his forehead's kind of big.

03:19:42.060 His eyebrows are a little wily.

03:19:44.360 Okay, one more time.

03:19:45.440 Let me see.

03:19:47.240 Mm, I'd give him a shot.

03:19:49.220 He kind of, he reminds me of that guy who keeps coming to the door.

03:19:52.880 With the Tesla.

03:19:54.380 Oh, my God.

03:19:55.480 I think he looks like him a little bit.

03:19:57.720 All right.

03:19:58.140 Anyways, I don't think so.

03:19:59.700 I'm so excited.

03:20:00.980 Yeah.

03:20:02.040 All right.

03:20:02.840 Next.

03:20:04.280 I'm excited to see yours.

03:20:06.000 Oh, my God.

03:20:09.500 I lied.

03:20:12.040 Can we see it again?

03:20:14.600 So, that is actually the most terrifying thing I ever did see in all of my life.

03:20:19.080 I don't know why Maya ended up like that. 0.78

03:20:20.140 Hold on.

03:20:20.680 Everybody's a 10, though.

03:20:22.540 Yeah.

03:20:23.440 Somebody could make reference.

03:20:25.580 You know what?

03:20:26.340 I mean, my dude was pretty hot.

03:20:28.140 Yeah, I'm speaking from personal.

03:20:29.060 Can I see one more time?

03:20:30.200 Dude.

03:20:31.660 Your dude was pretty hot.

03:20:34.300 Everyone's a 10.

03:20:35.160 God, I'd be a horrible man.

03:20:37.820 Wait.

03:20:39.180 That's not, that's, oh, why'd I end up like that?

03:20:42.100 That's funny.

03:20:44.580 I, sometimes I think about that, what you just said.

03:20:47.660 Like, if you put women, you gender swap them. 0.99

03:20:52.240 Damn, I think a lot of y'all would be struggling. 0.99

03:20:55.080 Y'all would be struggling. 0.99

03:20:57.120 Wait, what? 0.99

03:20:57.520 Some of y'all would be incels and shit. 0.99

03:20:58.900 I think men, like, all of us as men would look, like, bad. 0.99

03:21:04.460 Sorry.

03:21:04.860 No, no.

03:21:05.500 Well, maybe, but, like, the male looks equivalent of you.

03:21:11.120 Like, because women have dating on easy mode. 1.00

03:21:13.220 All right.

03:21:13.600 I think it's that I don't have a single masculine feature on my face, I feel like.

03:21:17.500 So, like, I just can't, like, the AI-ing me into a man, like, that's obscured.

03:21:22.560 To be fair, look, I'll be charitable here.

03:21:25.940 This AI was not very generous.

03:21:28.220 Honestly, if the AI did a little bit of a better job, I think he's cute.

03:21:32.240 Do you have a bro?

03:21:32.980 Do you have a brother?

03:21:34.340 Yeah, but he's four, and it's from a different father, so he looks nothing like me.

03:21:37.180 Doesn't, okay, doesn't, yeah, never mind.

03:21:38.840 All right, next.

03:21:41.940 So, you wouldn't date that guy?

03:21:43.720 Hell no.

03:21:44.600 Hell no. 0.55

03:21:45.480 All right.

03:21:46.260 Okay.

03:21:46.620 Oh, that looks like my brother.

03:21:47.960 That looks like my uncle.

03:21:48.820 That looks like my brother.

03:21:52.320 Would you date him?

03:21:53.340 No.

03:21:54.360 Would you rate him?

03:21:56.060 A 10.

03:21:57.300 Yes.

03:21:58.500 A 10.

03:21:59.720 To someone else.

03:22:00.520 You know what's weird?

03:22:04.220 All these girls are fumbling 10 out of 10 males. 1.00

03:22:08.320 Like, he's a 10, but you're not going to date him?

03:22:11.460 To you.

03:22:12.420 To someone, I would be a really hot guy.

03:22:16.240 But not, to myself, I'm not a very hot guy.

03:22:18.380 All right.

03:22:19.300 She's.

03:22:19.740 Ditto, girl. 0.97

03:22:20.780 Okay.

03:22:21.400 Took the words out of my mouth.

03:22:22.500 All right, next.

03:22:23.940 I think you're going to be sexy.

03:22:25.660 Yeah, I think so. 0.96

03:22:26.160 Oh, why is his eye fucked up? 0.99

03:22:29.180 Okay, ignore the fucked up eye. 0.99

03:22:30.580 Just imagine the AI scuffed it. 0.99

03:22:32.240 He got a little.

03:22:32.640 Oh, he's actually.

03:22:33.380 No, he's all right.

03:22:34.520 He's cute.

03:22:35.480 He looks like the guy you look at with me.

03:22:37.780 Oh, my God.

03:22:38.940 You're so.

03:22:40.100 One at a time.

03:22:41.080 Thanks.

03:22:41.760 It looks exactly like this guy Ava showed me a picture of today while I was reorganizing

03:22:46.380 our fridge.

03:22:47.060 It's kind of funny.

03:22:47.920 Oh, my God.

03:22:48.980 Would you date him?

03:22:49.900 Yeah.

03:22:50.580 That looks like Aiden.

03:22:51.260 Ava is, honestly, if he had, like, if he had, like, if he had your hair, too.

03:22:54.660 Yeah.

03:22:55.220 I literally said this guy looks like a male version of Solo and he's so hot.

03:22:59.180 What do you rate him?

03:23:00.320 Oh, a 10.

03:23:01.200 Sweet.

03:23:01.920 Period.

03:23:02.800 Next.

03:23:03.180 It looks like a little bit of a boy.

03:23:04.340 Why did they do you like that? 0.96

03:23:08.240 Wait, let me see.

03:23:09.520 Hold on.

03:23:09.860 Go back to it.

03:23:10.980 You know, it's just.

03:23:12.040 Wait.

03:23:12.540 Just, like, the hair is.

03:23:13.860 Warped you a little.

03:23:15.000 Yeah.

03:23:15.540 Why is it?

03:23:17.160 It's a no for me.

03:23:18.700 It's a no for me.

03:23:19.480 It's a no.

03:23:20.120 It's just.

03:23:21.080 The thing is, it's funny.

03:23:22.560 It's funny because.

03:23:23.840 So, I do have brothers.

03:23:26.220 And, like, they.

03:23:27.000 It doesn't quite look like them.

03:23:29.280 But, like, the nose and the smile and the eyes are definitely still like my brothers.

03:23:34.460 And, it's probably because they're my brothers.

03:23:35.540 Because they're yours.

03:23:36.300 Yeah.

03:23:37.580 But, I would not date that at all.

03:23:40.540 Okay.

03:23:41.560 All right.

03:23:43.080 What about you?

03:23:43.640 It's probably a little bit like my brother.

03:23:45.400 Oh.

03:23:46.160 Here it is.

03:23:46.980 A little bit like my brother.

03:23:48.860 Would you date him?

03:23:50.300 Uh.

03:23:50.920 Would you?

03:23:51.680 Nah.

03:23:52.840 Okay.

03:23:54.040 Next.

03:23:54.680 Yeah, I would.

03:23:56.160 Oh.

03:23:57.860 Wait, what?

03:23:58.900 He's not bad.

03:24:01.460 Do you want him?

03:24:02.460 I think without the beard is better.

03:24:06.140 Without the beard.

03:24:07.380 Daddy.

03:24:07.860 Without the beard isn't that bad.

03:24:09.020 Ew.

03:24:09.820 The second one's not bad.

03:24:11.060 The second one's not bad at all.

03:24:11.700 That's literally you as a dude.

03:24:13.880 Get that.

03:24:14.600 Get out of here.

03:24:15.920 No.

03:24:16.780 All right.

03:24:17.080 What?

03:24:17.280 You don't date Asian guys or something?

03:24:20.060 Um.

03:24:20.660 Do I have to rate him?

03:24:21.840 Yes.

03:24:22.740 A 10 out of 10.

03:24:26.660 Period.

03:24:27.740 Brian, your face.

03:24:28.460 Can you skip it?

03:24:34.180 Do you not date?

03:24:34.740 You don't date Asian guys?

03:24:35.580 I do.

03:24:36.140 Can you skip it?

03:24:36.520 Would you?

03:24:37.060 But if.

03:24:39.340 I do.

03:24:40.200 I do date Asian guys.

03:24:42.280 Just not him.

03:24:43.180 He's not.

03:24:43.740 Not that one.

03:24:44.780 Not good.

03:24:45.560 Not good enough.

03:24:46.120 All right.

03:24:46.440 Okay.

03:24:46.680 That's cool.

03:24:47.460 Next.

03:24:47.780 Next.

03:24:51.860 Oh.

03:24:52.060 I feel like that one looks the most realistic.

03:24:57.020 Why does he have a unibrow?

03:24:59.320 Look at that.

03:24:59.960 Oh.

03:25:00.540 Is it because of your bang?

03:25:01.140 Are you trying to tell us something, Felicity?

03:25:03.340 No.

03:25:03.600 That's just shadow.

03:25:04.900 Or wait.

03:25:05.900 It's not bad.

03:25:06.520 Maybe not.

03:25:07.180 The beard one is pretty good.

03:25:10.260 All right.

03:25:10.840 It's not.

03:25:11.440 You know.

03:25:11.720 Whatever.

03:25:12.220 All right.

03:25:12.540 It's okay.

03:25:13.720 All right.

03:25:14.160 There you go.

03:25:14.620 All right.

03:25:15.660 Next.

03:25:19.340 I've seen this.

03:25:20.400 I've seen this one.

03:25:21.300 Wow.

03:25:21.600 Not the top, but I would date the bottom.

03:25:26.000 That's a little crazy.

03:25:27.920 I like the top better than the bottom one.

03:25:29.440 I like the top or the bottom one. 0.98

03:25:31.640 The AI is fucking me up, though, all the time. 0.97

03:25:33.940 That's crazy. 0.98

03:25:34.600 Yeah.

03:25:35.180 Sweet.

03:25:35.600 Yeah.

03:25:36.040 I would date her. 0.59

03:25:36.660 Why'd your eyes just get darker and darker?

03:25:40.460 Maybe it's like the color of his shirt on the bottom one.

03:25:43.920 Anyways.

03:25:44.600 Wow.

03:25:45.060 That's really cool.

03:25:46.160 Oh, it's dark outside.

03:25:47.440 I honestly didn't even assess that yet.

03:25:50.180 Clocking the sun going down.

03:25:51.200 I have no idea what time it is.

03:25:52.360 To the women who are tens, can you guys name, like, maybe a celebrity or a famous person 0.87

03:25:57.080 who you think is a ten?

03:26:02.680 Male or female?

03:26:04.700 We'll do.

03:26:06.620 Let's start with women, then we'll go back. 1.00

03:26:08.200 We'll do men afterwards.

03:26:09.520 Go ahead.

03:26:10.040 Mia Kunis.

03:26:11.380 Zendaya.

03:26:11.660 Can you tilt your mic down a little bit?

03:26:14.300 Mila Kunis and Zendaya, ten.

03:26:16.780 Okay, what about you?

03:26:17.360 I don't know any celebrities.

03:26:19.720 I have mine.

03:26:21.940 Sydney Sweeney.

03:26:23.660 Sydney Sweeney.

03:26:24.680 Okay.

03:26:24.960 Sydney Sweeney.

03:26:25.700 Ten.

03:26:26.040 Okay, what about you?

03:26:26.720 Can we come back to me?

03:26:27.680 I don't know that many celebrities off name, thinking.

03:26:30.140 Can I name multiple?

03:26:31.180 Sure.

03:26:31.360 Um, Alicia Keys.

03:26:33.780 Mm-hmm.

03:26:34.660 Zendaya.

03:26:35.260 Zendaya Aiko.

03:26:36.100 Oh, I do have one.

03:26:36.740 Mm-hmm.

03:26:38.540 Okay.

03:26:39.860 Oh, Margot Robbie.

03:26:41.720 Margot Robbie, ten.

03:26:42.840 Okay.

03:26:43.380 Oh.

03:26:44.120 Oh.

03:26:44.340 Well, this is only for the tens here.

03:26:46.020 Only for the tens, you know.

03:26:48.020 Tyler.

03:26:48.660 So, just to be...

03:26:49.760 Oh, my gosh.

03:26:50.800 She's so bad.

03:26:52.320 So, just to be clear, their tens, your tens, you guys are saying that you don't, obviously

03:26:59.100 you look different, but you're just as attractive as these people who you listed.

03:27:05.420 Oh, come on. 0.87

03:27:06.300 We already talked about this.

03:27:07.820 Perspective.

03:27:08.260 I feel like we're like...

03:27:09.160 Perspective.

03:27:09.480 I actually...

03:27:09.940 It's perspective.

03:27:10.340 Some people could say that I'm just as attractive as Tyler, but that's not common, I don't think.

03:27:14.160 Like, there's gonna be...

03:27:15.060 I think there are guys that would say I'm just as attractive.

03:27:17.500 I can't generally say that I'm just as attractive as Tyler.

03:27:20.920 What?

03:27:21.800 Yeah.

03:27:22.620 Member Perspective.

03:27:23.440 I think I'm a ten.

03:27:24.280 I don't think everyone thinks I'm a ten.

03:27:25.580 I think Tyler's a ten.

03:27:26.560 I don't think...

03:27:26.680 How about this?

03:27:27.060 Name a guy who's a ten.

03:27:29.640 Celebrity?

03:27:31.000 Gary Brecka.

03:27:32.160 Who the?

03:27:33.320 Exactly.

03:27:33.820 Who the?

03:27:34.340 Look him up in the book. 1.00

03:27:35.300 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

03:27:37.700 Go ahead. 1.00

03:27:39.220 Name a guy who's a ten.

03:27:41.060 Actor, musician.

03:27:42.360 Mark Wahlberg.

03:27:43.940 Mark Wahlberg.

03:27:45.000 Okay.

03:27:45.540 All right.

03:27:45.880 Mark Wahlberg.

03:27:46.880 All right.

03:27:47.140 What about you?

03:27:48.660 Young Will Smith.

03:27:50.160 Young Will Smith.

03:27:50.960 Younger Will Smith.

03:27:52.180 Okay.

03:27:54.220 I don't know.

03:27:54.820 I don't do like the guys.

03:27:57.400 What's the only guy I can think of?

03:27:59.440 I can't.

03:28:00.140 Like an actor.

03:28:01.100 Nothing's popping to me.

03:28:01.780 Yeah, same.

03:28:02.360 I don't watch movies ever.

03:28:03.800 I got this.

03:28:04.740 I got this.

03:28:05.100 Who you got?

03:28:05.740 Who you got?

03:28:05.960 Who you got?

03:28:06.020 Oh, um...

03:28:06.920 The guy from Euphoria.

03:28:09.420 What's his name?

03:28:10.540 Oh, my God.

03:28:11.200 Oh, my God.

03:28:11.740 Nate Jacobs?

03:28:12.780 Nate...

03:28:13.340 No.

03:28:13.720 Yeah, but what's his name?

03:28:14.740 Oh, my God.

03:28:14.840 Jacob Elordi.

03:28:15.520 Jacob Elordi.

03:28:16.380 Jacob.

03:28:17.160 Oh, yeah.

03:28:17.840 Jacob Elordi.

03:28:18.160 Oh, my God.

03:28:19.240 Jacob Elordi.

03:28:19.960 Oh, he's so cute.

03:28:21.760 Tristan from Gilmore Girls.

03:28:22.980 He's not cute.

03:28:23.680 No, but like really conventionally attractive guys.

03:28:25.920 I...

03:28:26.380 Wait.

03:28:26.620 Okay.

03:28:26.820 Well, that's going to be a whole spiral.

03:28:28.000 Let me not say that.

03:28:29.620 Wait.

03:28:30.040 I have one.

03:28:30.660 Oh, my God.

03:28:31.180 I have one.

03:28:31.840 I don't know his name.

03:28:33.100 Who?

03:28:33.320 Dude.

03:28:33.680 Tristan from Gilmore Girls.

03:28:35.200 Tristan.

03:28:35.420 Okay.

03:28:35.640 No idea who that is. 1.00

03:28:37.240 What the fuck is that guy? 0.99

03:28:38.620 Who's a 10 guy? 1.00

03:28:39.460 The guy from Gilmore Girls.

03:28:40.480 Oh, Michael B. Jordan.

03:28:42.180 Michael B. Jordan.

03:28:43.340 Patrick Dempsey.

03:28:43.900 Steph Curry.

03:28:44.720 Patrick Dempsey.

03:28:45.240 And Jason Momoa.

03:28:46.520 Jason Momoa.

03:28:47.480 Okay.

03:28:48.000 What about the guys?

03:28:48.620 Oh, wait.

03:28:48.840 No, this is just for the 10s.

03:28:50.300 All right.

03:28:50.480 So, question.

03:28:50.620 Wait.

03:28:50.640 And then another one.

03:28:51.660 Question.

03:28:51.800 Adam Sandler is a 10 in my eyes also.

03:28:54.280 Love it.

03:28:54.540 Love it for you.

03:28:55.140 I love it for me, too.

03:28:56.360 Slay Queen. 1.00

03:28:56.940 Yes, baby.

03:28:57.940 Spider-Man.

03:28:58.900 Woo! 0.99

03:28:59.720 Ooh.

03:29:00.280 Which Spider-Man?

03:29:01.240 The animated one.

03:29:01.500 The animated one.

03:29:03.480 The cartoon one.

03:29:05.000 Love that guy.

03:29:05.680 So, question for you.

03:29:06.760 The guys who are 10s who you just listed.

03:29:09.860 Since you're a 10, they're a 10.

03:29:11.680 Could you get him?

03:29:13.600 Could I get Adam Sandler?

03:29:17.840 Perhaps.

03:29:18.980 Oops.

03:29:19.420 Okay.

03:29:20.940 Mark Wahlberg, I like to think yes.

03:29:23.620 Jacob Elordi. 0.54

03:29:24.540 I'm convinced that he has to be gay because he's so, like, beautiful.

03:29:28.100 You could get him or if he was straight?

03:29:32.460 I think I could get him.

03:29:33.500 I don't think I could keep him.

03:29:36.080 That's a great way to put it.

03:29:37.220 Probably not a – that's not really a W for women. 0.92

03:29:39.660 I'm just telling you. 1.00

03:29:40.820 You can just, like, fuck a guy once. 1.00

03:29:42.160 That's not the W. 0.99

03:29:43.140 Yeah, well, I mean, okay, I think I could get him and keep him for a bit.

03:29:45.960 Okay, well, when you say –

03:29:47.540 Who said Jason Momoa?

03:29:49.080 I did.

03:29:49.640 Okay, well, we'll get to you.

03:29:51.040 All right.

03:29:51.240 When you say get him, do you mean sleep with him or be with him?

03:29:57.000 Long-term relationship.

03:30:00.980 Loki, no.

03:30:02.060 Loki, I don't think I could.

03:30:03.280 I mean, if you – okay, I'm thinking about Will Smith right now.

03:30:06.540 If he was the same age as me, yeah, I think I could bag that.

03:30:11.200 Okay.

03:30:11.620 I think I could do that.

03:30:12.480 I don't think so because I'm not his 10.

03:30:15.580 Does that make sense?

03:30:16.380 Oh, yeah, same.

03:30:17.800 I take it back.

03:30:18.820 Okay, Jason Momoa, can you land Jason Momoa?

03:30:21.820 Oh, dude, young Jason Momoa?

03:30:24.680 Well, yeah, you think he's hot, but can you land him?

03:30:27.460 Yeah, yeah, I totally could.

03:30:29.660 Same with Patrick Dempsey and most definitely Michael B. Jordan.

03:30:33.180 If I was ever in a room with Michael B. Jordan, oh, my God, I'm flirting my ass off.

03:30:38.240 I love Michael B. Jordan.

03:30:42.260 Oh, boy.

03:30:42.960 You really don't understand.

03:30:44.300 All right.

03:30:45.100 We got some confident women at the table. 1.00

03:30:47.780 Does everyone on the Sidemen YouTube channel count as celebrities? 1.00

03:30:51.380 Shit. 1.00

03:30:53.460 Sure. 1.00

03:30:54.380 I love every single one of them.

03:30:55.640 It's just somebody you could name who –

03:30:57.120 And the Beta Squad.

03:30:58.500 I watch them every day.

03:31:00.820 You've never seen that?

03:31:01.840 No.

03:31:02.340 Did you like the challenges and stuff and they have the awesome accent?

03:31:06.400 I don't know who that is.

03:31:07.340 You don't know Aiden?

03:31:08.220 She knows –

03:31:08.740 I don't know any celebrities.

03:31:09.880 I told you.

03:31:10.240 I don't watch movies.

03:31:10.980 All right.

03:31:11.840 Good times.

03:31:12.760 Good times. 1.00

03:31:13.800 Damn. 1.00

03:31:14.420 Okay. 1.00

03:31:15.260 Oh, no, man.

03:31:17.240 Why – I'll ask the question again.

03:31:20.340 Why don't average women want to date average men? 1.00

03:31:26.160 Wait.

03:31:26.520 I thought they do.

03:31:27.640 I don't even think you've asked us that yet.

03:31:29.920 Why don't average women want to date average men? 1.00

03:31:32.140 Who says they don't?

03:31:32.880 Why don't average women want to date like average guys? 1.00

03:31:36.380 I feel like they do.

03:31:37.960 I feel like they can.

03:31:39.100 I feel like they honestly do.

03:31:40.500 Well, here.

03:31:40.960 Let's do it like this.

03:31:42.540 Would you date an average guy?

03:31:45.660 Yes.

03:31:46.020 What is average – like average looking?

03:31:48.420 Average looking.

03:31:49.420 Average personality.

03:31:50.720 Average income.

03:31:52.140 I feel like they would have to meet my average if not more than that because if you're not

03:31:56.420 meeting me where I'm at, I don't want your average.

03:31:59.020 Sure.

03:31:59.300 Average personality?

03:32:00.220 Hell no.

03:32:01.020 Absolutely not.

03:32:01.900 Wait.

03:32:02.060 What do you mean?

03:32:03.040 I'm not going to date someone with an average personality.

03:32:05.580 So you're saying your personality –

03:32:07.900 I don't think –

03:32:08.400 You need some of that.

03:32:08.980 Yes.

03:32:09.520 Yes.

03:32:09.960 Ava has an amazing personality. 0.55

03:32:12.220 Thank you.

03:32:13.360 Can I agree with that?

03:32:14.880 Yeah.

03:32:15.460 She needs a lot of personality. 0.99

03:32:16.180 When you say you have an amazing personality, like what do you mean?

03:32:20.580 Like you're funny?

03:32:21.540 I don't know.

03:32:22.180 Solo, can you attest this?

03:32:23.880 I can't describe my own personality.

03:32:25.640 Ava is literally the most outgoing and like talkative and funny person I've ever met

03:32:32.940 and she needs a guy that does the same.

03:32:35.000 Thank you.

03:32:35.560 But so from the male perspective, I don't think men prioritize those personality traits.

03:32:40.540 I get as friends you're like –

03:32:42.000 Yeah, but I don't care.

03:32:43.200 Well –

03:32:44.180 But she wants someone that will make her feel how –

03:32:47.380 There's someone who thinks –

03:32:48.820 She makes her friends feel.

03:32:49.540 You know what I mean?

03:32:49.800 There are plenty of guys who do prioritize those traits, okay?

03:32:52.820 Let me tell you.

03:32:53.380 Do I advertise humor and –

03:32:55.680 Yeah.

03:32:56.320 Yes.

03:32:56.920 Actually, yeah.

03:32:57.760 There's lots of guys that like funny girls.

03:32:59.580 Guys, generally speaking, don't care about a woman being funny.

03:33:02.820 So –

03:33:03.220 Like it's really –

03:33:03.620 Oh, I completely disagree with that.

03:33:04.840 So you want to be sweet and quiet?

03:33:07.460 You got it.

03:33:08.300 Aww.

03:33:09.620 Okay.

03:33:10.700 Yeah. 0.99

03:33:11.160 That sucks. 0.82

03:33:12.380 I'm not. 0.99

03:33:13.340 Do you think men want women who are not sweet and who are boisterous? 0.88

03:33:18.220 There are men who want me and I'm not sweet.

03:33:20.260 I'm boisterous.

03:33:21.620 Okay.

03:33:22.300 I'm sweet too.

03:33:23.200 Look, this isn't –

03:33:24.320 When I'm throwing these things out –

03:33:25.760 No, I know.

03:33:26.260 I'm just saying like there are a lot of men who do that.

03:33:28.220 When I'm throwing these things out there, I'm not denying that like there's no man on

03:33:33.480 the planet Earth that wants you.

03:33:35.200 That's not the case I'm making here.

03:33:36.180 But you're referring to average men who like average girls.

03:33:40.160 I'm not an average girl.

03:33:41.440 Therefore, I don't like average men.

03:33:43.580 Average is going to be the majority.

03:33:45.120 So yeah, a lot of guys probably don't prefer me.

03:33:48.800 So but what about you is above average?

03:33:52.220 I don't think that I'm above average.

03:33:54.700 Well, you just said you are.

03:33:55.960 Well, okay.

03:33:56.560 But does average mean like average like normal?

03:34:00.760 Or does average mean like average amount of goodness?

03:34:03.960 Because again, preference.

03:34:04.740 No, everyone's average is different.

03:34:06.720 So I guess you're average.

03:34:07.060 I'm so confused.

03:34:07.900 Can you give me like a –

03:34:09.120 You're neither hot or ugly. 0.75

03:34:10.800 It's all preference.

03:34:12.000 Average to you.

03:34:12.920 Yeah, that's what I mean.

03:34:13.560 But average like boring and normal or average like better?

03:34:17.720 Because like I don't know.

03:34:20.260 I don't think I'm like better than everyone else.

03:34:22.540 I just think that like I'm not like super normal.

03:34:26.920 Okay.

03:34:28.200 Can you repeat the question?

03:34:29.400 See, it doesn't –

03:34:31.160 Which one?

03:34:31.860 The original one?

03:34:32.720 It was why don't average women want average men? 1.00

03:34:36.440 Oh, I thought we were like doing the whole circle thing where we all answer it.

03:34:40.760 Whoops.

03:34:41.380 Well, I guess I'll explain kind of quickly why this rating question is asked and why I think it's important.

03:34:48.040 Because –

03:34:48.360 And why I think it's important for both men and women, but I think this manifests itself more so in women.

03:34:54.380 Having a reasonable self-assessment of your own attractiveness. 0.95

03:34:57.140 So, just because a guy will dick you down doesn't mean he'll wife you up. 0.99

03:35:04.120 Whoa. 0.98

03:35:04.780 No, it's true.

03:35:05.920 It's true.

03:35:07.040 It's true.

03:35:07.780 It's very much it.

03:35:08.760 But there's a difference here.

03:35:09.340 Same thing with a girl though. 0.86

03:35:10.440 Yeah.

03:35:11.660 Yeah.

03:35:12.460 Yeah.

03:35:13.440 Yeah.

03:35:13.920 Same thing with a girl. 1.00

03:35:14.720 Tell my friends be sharking.

03:35:18.120 Well, I would argue while it is the case, I'm not denying that this phenomenon happens in the reverse.

03:35:24.620 I think it's way more often the case, like if a woman is going to have a one-night stand, that guy is going to at least be attractive enough.

03:35:32.900 She would be in a relationship.

03:35:33.340 No, actually, you're right.

03:35:34.500 Just let me finish.

03:35:36.120 She's going to be – the guy is going to be at least attractive enough that she would be in a relationship with him on the sole metric of looks. 0.97

03:35:44.180 Now, oftentimes though, you'll see an even different thing. 0.93

03:35:49.660 Relationship-minded women who otherwise wouldn't have hookups might break that rule if the guy is really fucking good looking or really attractive. 0.98

03:35:57.600 They might not otherwise really be into hookups, but he's so attractive, it's overwhelming, she's seduced, whatever. 0.66

03:36:04.240 Whereas for men, when men are trying to engage in casual sex, they go the opposite direction.

03:36:10.660 A man will have casual sex with a woman that on the sole basis of her physical appearance, he would never be in a relationship with her because she just doesn't meet his baseline level of what he wants for a girlfriend in terms of her looks. 1.00

03:36:24.980 Brian, I be doing that to guys all the time. 1.00

03:36:27.220 You're also a prostitute. 1.00

03:36:28.540 Yeah, but I just – yeah, but I'm also avoidant also too. 1.00

03:36:32.680 All right, so again, I'm not denying that women be slumming it from time to time for some dick. 1.00

03:36:38.540 No denying it. 1.00

03:36:39.900 Y'all be fucking some weird dude. 0.99

03:36:43.300 But again, sometimes what else is the – because okay, attraction isn't just about looks. 0.99

03:36:48.240 There's other components too.

03:36:49.860 So are you just like – it's like some of these bad looking dudes, like they're also like terrible personality and whatever, whatever?

03:36:56.340 Like what makes me want to hit it and quit it and like never text them back?

03:36:59.880 Is that the question?

03:37:02.040 Sure.

03:37:03.580 I don't know.

03:37:04.440 Just the fact – 0.99

03:37:04.860 So you're just fucking dudes with bad personalities who – 1.00

03:37:07.800 No. 1.00

03:37:08.140 Who – 0.54

03:37:08.600 So if I go out of my way to have sex – 1.00

03:37:10.560 Are you fucking girls with bad personalities that are also ugly? 1.00

03:37:12.840 Yes. 1.00

03:37:13.080 What would that have to –

03:37:14.960 If I'm – I didn't say that.

03:37:16.160 I think she said that.

03:37:16.780 Yeah, I know.

03:37:17.320 Okay. 1.00

03:37:17.680 So if I'm fucking a guy and he's attractive and he's hot, I mean, I'm going to fuck him, 1.00

03:37:22.500 but I also don't want a relationship, so – 1.00

03:37:26.200 But you said he's attractive.

03:37:27.520 Yeah. 1.00

03:37:27.760 I'm not going to fuck an ugly guy. 1.00

03:37:31.720 Wait, hold on. 1.00

03:37:32.280 You're literally making my point.

03:37:34.840 Okay.

03:37:36.800 You're literally making my point.

03:37:38.420 My argument here is that for a woman to sleep with a guy, he typically has to be at least good looking enough that she would be in a relationship with him. 0.55

03:37:44.520 Right.

03:37:44.980 But men don't do that. 0.98

03:37:46.400 A guy will sleep with a girl – 1.00

03:37:47.560 Yes, I agree with you here.

03:37:48.700 Who's – like he would be like just – she could be amazing.

03:37:52.420 She could be amazing, but just on the sole basis of her looks, he'd never be in a relationship with her.

03:37:56.760 I don't think any of us are arguing.

03:37:58.520 I agree with you.

03:37:59.200 Right.

03:37:59.440 But you don't have to argue.

03:38:01.540 I'm sure you agree with this because this is a well-documented –

03:38:04.520 I'm not arguing.

03:38:05.580 It's a phenomenon.

03:38:06.540 Now, the issue is though is when – if a woman isn't aware of her own standing in like the social order or whatever, she – I know it's – oh, my God. 0.99

03:38:17.300 He's explaining something to me that I disagree with.

03:38:19.840 Oh, my God.

03:38:22.160 I don't know. 1.00

03:38:22.860 You're rolling your eyes and shit. 0.99

03:38:24.960 So I would say this. 0.99

03:38:26.800 Because women have sexual – like for example, if I step to a girl that's outside of my league, I'm not – 1.00

03:38:36.080 she's never – it's never considered in her brain, well, I'm not really that attracted to the guy, but he's offering dick, so I guess I'll fuck him for the experience. 1.00

03:38:45.760 No. 1.00

03:38:46.240 Like if I step to a girl in – that's outside of my league, instant rejection.

03:38:51.280 So men, we get rejected on the front end.

03:38:53.720 We get rejected up front.

03:38:55.360 Y'all will get rejected on the back end where you're caught up in a situation ship.

03:39:00.500 Why won't he commit? 1.00

03:39:01.420 He's a fuck boy. 1.00

03:39:02.640 All this stuff. 1.00

03:39:03.520 Now, I'm not saying it's impossible for women to get into relationships. 1.00

03:39:06.240 No.

03:39:06.680 But what I am saying is guys will keep you around.

03:39:10.000 They'll sleep with you once, twice, three times, situation ship, friends with benefits.

03:39:13.640 And on the sole basis of your looks, they're not going to give you commitment.

03:39:17.440 You have at least that limited, limited sexual access to men outside of your league, whereas men don't get any access to women outside of their league.

03:39:26.740 Instant rejection.

03:39:27.560 You know, this isn't a blame game, by the way. 1.00

03:39:31.040 Like I think it's stupid as fuck for men to be sleeping with women who they don't have a genuine romantic interest in. 1.00

03:39:37.320 But that's sort of besides the point. 1.00

03:39:38.940 This is an actual phenomenon that happens.

03:39:40.780 And so what ends up happening is you'll have women who are dealing with a certain caliber of guy, and you'll be chasing those dudes who will never give you commitment.

03:39:50.080 And maybe they'll string you along.

03:39:52.180 You'll be able to sleep with them.

03:39:53.140 And then you'll look at the guys who are actually prepared to give you commitment, who may very well be on your level.

03:40:00.760 You're not going to give them commitment.

03:40:02.360 Maybe when you're 30, it's time to settle down. 1.00

03:40:05.040 But by that time, fuck. 1.00

03:40:06.920 That's a bad scenario. 1.00

03:40:09.520 So I guess ultimately my point here is it's important to know where you stand because it's very easy as women for you to deal with really attractive men that are going to be jerks or mistreat you or not give you the commitment you're looking for. 0.96

03:40:26.540 Now, don't get me wrong. 0.91

03:40:27.780 I understand not all women are looking for commitment.

03:40:30.420 I know some women, baby. 1.00

03:40:32.880 Hold on. 1.00

03:40:33.280 Some of them, look, some of y'all want to fuck around. 1.00

03:40:40.560 Hey, whatever, whatever, you know, no judgment. 0.98

03:40:42.640 But I guess if I were to reframe it a little bit like this, do you think, imagine like the average looking dude, average above average looking dude.

03:40:55.100 Let's just say he could constantly be getting attention from like really beautiful women. 1.00

03:41:02.060 But those really beautiful women never wanted a relationship. 1.00

03:41:06.240 They'd fuck him once, twice, keep him around like friends with benefits. 0.99

03:41:10.580 Never get a relationship though. 0.99

03:41:12.460 Do you think the average looking guy would then go and look at the average woman who's willing to be in a relationship with him and be like, yes, I'm going to stop having sex with women who are way more beautiful than you and who are doing all these things for me.

03:41:26.520 And be in a relationship with you.

03:41:28.080 I don't think they would, but that's not the case, of course, but it is the case in the reverse for women. 0.99

03:41:37.100 Okay.

03:41:37.660 Wait, but what are you trying to tell us?

03:41:39.260 Are you trying to tell us that we need to like lower our ranking?

03:41:43.640 Well, I think, look, because like you said, you, you started this whole conversation only the 10s.

03:41:49.580 These questions are only for the 10s.

03:41:50.960 Just scoot your mic that way a little bit.

03:41:52.220 I'm a little bit confused on like the point of that.

03:41:54.100 Yeah, no, well, the point is, is that the point is he's telling us we're not 10s.

03:41:59.100 That we're not 10s?

03:41:59.820 I'm pretty sure that's what he's telling us.

03:42:00.960 Is that what that whole thing was about?

03:42:01.620 I think he's telling us that we need to realize that we're not 10s, I think.

03:42:05.540 Well, if you're fine, look, I'll put it like this.

03:42:08.300 It is a cautionary tale.

03:42:09.760 If you're fine being used by really attractive men who have a bunch of options.

03:42:15.540 It's not even being used.

03:42:18.640 I mean, if.

03:42:19.360 It's a mutual benefician.

03:42:21.260 Mutual.

03:42:21.820 Sure, I agree that.

03:42:22.720 Also, you don't know about my sex life?

03:42:24.520 On these negative words.

03:42:25.100 Do you know about any of our sex lives?

03:42:27.920 Maybe you're perfectly happy engaging in like casual sexual encounters.

03:42:32.060 But I never even told you I engage in casual sexual encounters.

03:42:35.480 Well, that's fine.

03:42:36.200 But what I'm saying is, this is a phenomenon that happens where women who are average do have access to men above their league.

03:42:45.140 The reverse isn't the case.

03:42:46.900 So, it's like this.

03:42:49.560 And there's a whole bunch of ways I could break it down.

03:42:52.520 I think we understand what you're saying.

03:42:53.940 It's more so why.

03:42:54.880 Like, how did this get brought?

03:42:55.660 Like, what's the bottom line?

03:42:57.340 Because if you, it's fun and exciting to be with that really hot, attractive dude.

03:43:02.220 But just realize if you are.

03:43:04.620 Is this advice?

03:43:06.260 It's advice.

03:43:07.280 It's true.

03:43:07.680 If you'd like to take it as that, take it as that.

03:43:10.480 I just was like, I thought I was blanking for a second.

03:43:13.260 I was like, how did we get here?

03:43:14.100 What's going on?

03:43:14.640 I know me too.

03:43:15.180 I got a little bit.

03:43:15.280 I'm just saying, once you're used to a certain, there's this psychological phenomenon.

03:43:20.500 Once you're used to a certain caliber of experience.

03:43:23.880 This extends to, for example, you guys, some of you are roommates.

03:43:29.720 Do you guys, are you guys like live in a room together?

03:43:32.300 Yeah, we live in the same room.

03:43:33.380 Is it a double or triple?

03:43:34.500 No, it's a double.

03:43:35.840 Okay.

03:43:36.060 Do you have your own room where you live?

03:43:37.600 I have no roommates with either of them.

03:43:38.960 Same like area.

03:43:39.700 But do you have, it doesn't matter where, but do you have a roommate, not a housemate, roommate,

03:43:44.520 somebody who lives in your room?

03:43:45.600 Yes, two, triple.

03:43:46.540 You have a triple.

03:43:47.140 What about you?

03:43:47.560 Yes, I have a double.

03:43:49.180 Okay.

03:43:49.540 Gotcha.

03:43:50.340 So this is a bit of an analogy here.

03:43:53.260 Once you guys get out of college and then one day you guys are all going to be a very successful career women, you're going to have your own snazzy apartment. 0.82

03:44:00.980 You're living alone.

03:44:01.920 You have your own kitchen.

03:44:03.220 You have your own bathroom.

03:44:04.220 Everything can be set how you want it.

03:44:06.600 Once you've had that experience, it's going to be very difficult to go backwards to living, like once you've had your own bathroom, you've lived alone, had your own bathroom.

03:44:20.120 It's really hard to go back to sharing the bathroom. 0.98

03:44:23.140 Once you've had your own bedroom, it's really hard to go back to having a fucking triple. 1.00

03:44:30.220 Yeah, I think I get what you're saying. 0.98

03:44:31.260 I disagree.

03:44:31.660 But I just don't.

03:44:33.220 I just don't.

03:44:33.860 Why are we so codependent?

03:44:34.880 People do play comparisons when it comes to dating. 0.98

03:44:37.700 So it's like if the next guy you deal with doesn't measure up to another guy you've dealt with, perhaps on a more casual front, you're going to be like, damn, the sex was better with that guy. 0.96

03:44:48.780 He was more attractive. 0.97

03:44:49.640 He was X, Y, Z. 0.63

03:44:51.300 Maybe you deal with a rich guy or a guy with status.

03:44:55.560 Once you've had that experience, it's like you are going to, whether up front or not, you are going to be playing a comparison game.

03:45:03.460 I would say if I was just running through really hot, well, I guess I would be, if a bunch of really hot model chicks were running through me, but they won't give me commitment. 1.00

03:45:16.000 But now I got to like settle for that, settle for the average girl. 1.00

03:45:20.200 I'm going to be like, damn, I'm going to be less stoked. 0.96

03:45:25.200 I'm not going to be as yoked. 0.98

03:45:26.340 That was very millennial of you.

03:45:31.880 Yoked.

03:45:33.100 Who is this?

03:45:34.160 Equally yoked.

03:45:35.160 But anyways.

03:45:35.900 Can we move on to the next topic?

03:45:40.400 It's crickets because uncomfortable truth.

03:45:43.040 Well, no, I mean, I'm just saying like, I'm trying to like relate to the situ, like to the situ.

03:45:50.520 Sorry.

03:45:51.140 Yeah.

03:45:51.740 You're good.

03:45:52.020 I'm just, look, I guess my point is a lot of average women don't want the average guy. 0.99

03:45:57.820 I agree with that.

03:45:59.220 A lot of average women don't want to date the average guy. 1.00

03:46:03.140 And that's going to be a kind of a recipe for disaster for on the, on the individual level, but also I think societally.

03:46:14.280 Yeah.

03:46:14.840 Plus I feel like women, women always want something better than they are anyway. 1.00

03:46:19.700 I disagree.

03:46:20.520 I mean, I'm not going to lie.

03:46:22.020 Even with my boyfriend, there's aspects of him that I definitely think are better than me in the sense that it's helped me grow.

03:46:28.540 You know what I'm saying?

03:46:29.200 I'm sure that there's parts of you that are better than him though.

03:46:31.440 Word.

03:46:32.560 Okay.

03:46:32.800 We have some chats coming through.

03:46:35.460 Hanlon's underscore razor underscore 224 donated $200.

03:46:40.600 Yeah.

03:46:40.820 Thank you, man.

03:46:41.420 I do have a chill as ice.

03:46:43.180 I think everyone has given up on apps.

03:46:45.800 I am not interested on breaking into women's apartments. 1.00

03:46:48.780 Low key in love with Chetumbo. 0.99

03:46:51.700 Smoldering voice.

03:46:53.060 Got to pay a Hanlon's razor.

03:46:55.540 Hey, thank you.

03:46:56.800 You got to send in another TTS.

03:46:58.040 You have to send another one.

03:46:59.260 But send it to directly to my Venmo.

03:47:02.340 It's a A-V-A-Z. 1.00

03:47:07.320 Anyways, so that's cool.

03:47:08.860 So thank you for that, Hanlon's razor.

03:47:11.880 You do have to send in another TTS as a SimTax.

03:47:15.620 We have more coming through though.

03:47:17.400 Oh, did that not?

03:47:18.980 Wait, what the heck?

03:47:22.640 Pasty George donated $200.

03:47:24.920 To all the female panelists on the podcast who are not Tens but are Fives, why do average 1.00

03:47:31.320 women like yourselves not want average men?

03:47:34.380 Why go after the above average men who will not keep or marry you? 0.97

03:47:37.940 I don't remember any of us saying we wouldn't go for the average man.

03:47:41.380 Oh, yeah.

03:47:41.620 Did I not ask the question?

03:47:42.820 Did I not go around the table on that?

03:47:44.380 Would you date an average guy?

03:47:45.200 Yeah, you did.

03:47:45.540 No.

03:47:46.020 I don't think I did.

03:47:47.040 Would you date an average guy?

03:47:47.360 You got to date an average guy looks-wise.

03:47:50.040 Yeah, I did stop at her.

03:47:51.500 Would you date an average guy?

03:47:52.420 Looks-wise, yes.

03:47:53.120 By my definition of average.

03:47:56.500 Looks-wise, yeah.

03:47:58.200 Yeah.

03:47:58.760 Yeah.

03:48:00.280 Okay.

03:48:00.840 I think that's why I was so confused because I think you asked them to and then went on

03:48:04.880 the whole thing and I was like, what's happening right now?

03:48:08.740 Word.

03:48:09.700 Word.

03:48:10.680 Word.

03:48:12.340 But I do think that we do have some data on this.

03:48:15.960 Like, for example, on dating apps.

03:48:17.160 And most people are meeting online nowadays.

03:48:19.480 On the dating apps, what you see happening is you have, like, the vast majority of women

03:48:23.820 on dating apps are primarily matching with the top 10% of men.

03:48:28.960 And all, like, that top 10% of men, they're sharing all those women.

03:48:33.980 So you'll have women who are dating these, like, top guys and they welcome it.

03:48:37.560 It's like, okay, cool.

03:48:38.380 I have, like, seven girlfriends.

03:48:39.740 I've got ten girlfriends.

03:48:41.660 So these women think they're dating these dudes or it's just casual, whatever. 0.79

03:48:44.280 And then, meanwhile, you have the bottom, like, 70%, 80% of men, they're not dating.

03:48:51.040 And then the women who are not getting the commitment from the guys they want, those women 0.99

03:48:55.160 are frustrated.

03:48:56.480 They don't want to be situationship, bouncing the situationship, next situationship, not

03:49:01.340 getting commitment.

03:49:03.140 I don't think women are satisfied with that. 1.00

03:49:04.860 Brian.

03:49:05.500 Yeah.

03:49:05.940 Can we go to the text message I sent you, like, months ago when I was, like, the guy

03:49:11.120 I had met with this dude and then he gave me his number.

03:49:15.620 We met at, like, a house party or whatever and I punched it in my phone just to realize

03:49:19.480 that he's tried to be in contact with me in the past because he's messaged me for my services

03:49:25.720 in the past.

03:49:28.940 Well, what does that have to do?

03:49:31.040 Does it relate to the conversation at hand?

03:49:33.680 Well, because it was like a, you know, I was at a party and I was getting introduced by

03:49:38.680 all these people with, like, from my friends and stuff and then I go to get his number.

03:49:45.380 He punches his number in my phone and then I look and I'm like, oh, we already had prior

03:49:48.480 conversation logs.

03:49:50.480 And something else that I've noticed with these dating apps are guys are contacting me on my

03:49:56.320 business email being like, hey, saw your account on so-and-so and I would like to book

03:50:03.600 you.

03:50:04.000 And it's just weird because it's like, okay, you see my profile on Bumble or Hinge or whatever

03:50:09.160 and I just have photos of me linked to my Instagram, but then you're finding me off

03:50:13.660 different sources and then you're messaging me saying that you found me on these platforms.

03:50:17.100 So it's like men aren't just using these platforms for dating either.

03:50:20.440 They're doing the same thing, like seeking women out on dating apps.

03:50:26.740 You know what I mean?

03:50:27.800 And I thought that was weird.

03:50:29.760 What do you mean?

03:50:30.400 For prostitution? 1.00

03:50:32.160 Well, yeah, it's weird because it's like I was a regular, like I had a regular dating

03:50:36.340 profile.

03:50:37.280 I'm sorry.

03:50:37.820 What does this have to do with the conversation though?

03:50:40.560 Like the Bumble and the Hinge and how like the interactions of dating on the dating apps

03:50:45.180 and profile and tying it into like.

03:50:47.520 What are they doing?

03:50:48.100 What are the men looking for?

03:50:49.400 You're saying they're looking for escorts?

03:50:51.320 I'm confused. 0.99

03:50:52.120 Basically, like they're just looking for girls to have sex with. 0.99

03:50:55.180 Okay. 0.99

03:50:55.240 Well, that's different.

03:50:56.120 Yeah.

03:50:56.340 On Tinder, I would genuinely say I agree.

03:50:58.440 Probably even the other dating apps too.

03:50:59.720 And it's just weird because like in the real life when I met this guy that was just trying

03:51:02.920 to like have casual conversation or whatever, then they're like.

03:51:05.580 Okay.

03:51:06.440 Oh, I found you.

03:51:06.560 And they're also trying to get your services.

03:51:08.580 But not realizing that you're the same person.

03:51:11.720 And that's why I think it's so weird because it's like it ties into, again, dating culture,

03:51:15.780 hookup culture, whatever.

03:51:16.500 Like these guys are on these apps, but then they're finding me professionally and being

03:51:19.380 like, hey, I found you on this app.

03:51:20.780 And I'm like, whoa.

03:51:22.400 Like.

03:51:22.940 It's kind of like behind closed doors.

03:51:25.260 Right.

03:51:25.400 They're not as genuine as they're trying to make themselves seem.

03:51:27.500 Right.

03:51:28.300 I just thought that was weird.

03:51:29.820 Like a weird, like, you know.

03:51:32.700 Pasty George donated $200.

03:51:35.940 Thank you.

03:51:36.300 Shares one, two, three, four, five, and eight are perfect examples of why Western women or any 1.00

03:51:42.920 women infected with feminism are not worth it. 1.00

03:51:45.800 Just look at how they act and react to arguments. 0.99

03:51:49.860 Neat odds.

03:51:50.600 Wow.

03:51:51.260 I like to apply to that.

03:51:52.240 I actually am a feminist, but so that's totally wrong. 0.95

03:51:58.280 Actually, this guy did a, on dating apps, this guy did an experiment where he went on Tinder

03:52:05.980 and he was seeing how many women he could match with and how many dates he actually goes

03:52:11.460 on.

03:52:11.760 For me, being a woman who dated both men and women, I find it, it was extremely hard for

03:52:18.780 me to find a mate on, when I was looking for a woman. 0.93

03:52:22.480 And a guy, I mean, two days, within two days I get like 200 likes and I match with like 50

03:52:28.280 of those guys and maybe go on one or two dates.

03:52:30.880 If I were into that, for women, it's like maybe one match in like four or five months. 1.00

03:52:36.260 And even sometimes the conversation doesn't last.

03:52:38.600 So dating apps is really, really bad for men.

03:52:42.140 They can never, it's so harder for them, much harder for them than it would be for a

03:52:47.480 woman, for sure. 1.00

03:52:48.860 I don't know.

03:52:49.640 Yeah, women have dating on easy mode. 1.00

03:52:51.820 I agree.

03:52:52.580 And I would say like, I think for, yeah, no, when I've used dating apps, when I've used

03:52:59.040 dating apps, the problem wasn't getting a match or even going out on the date.

03:53:03.360 It was kind of like how things progressed after, you know, but my boyfriend now, like

03:53:08.780 I said, that was kind of like super, that was like, no, actually some of the people that

03:53:13.760 I've matched with, they definitely wanted relationships pretty quick or wanted to get

03:53:17.640 serious pretty quick, but it didn't.

03:53:20.320 I don't know.

03:53:20.620 So I think for women, it's probably easier dating. 1.00

03:53:22.600 I don't know.

03:53:23.300 So, and like, if you want to be serious and a man wants that with you too, it kind of

03:53:27.880 progresses really quick.

03:53:29.140 So I would say though, a lot of the guys, hold on, tea donated $200 society is hurting

03:53:35.420 because men always want the prettier option studies show men are nicer to prettier women

03:53:40.280 and after much rejection, the ugly duckling or plain Jane will run to plastic surgery 0.85

03:53:45.200 slash fillers.

03:53:47.700 I was going to tangent on what she said.

03:53:49.920 Everybody's nicer to prettier people, regardless of your gender, intergender, like that.

03:53:53.880 I do agree with that.

03:53:54.920 Yeah, I agree.

03:53:55.380 Yeah, for sure.

03:53:56.160 Pretty privilege is super real.

03:53:57.780 The halo.

03:53:58.380 Yeah, but this would be women are nicer. 1.00

03:54:00.120 Well, I don't, I, I actually don't know if this is actually the case.

03:54:03.320 I would say men are nicer to better looking men.

03:54:05.900 Men are nicer to better looking women. 0.99

03:54:08.140 Men, I don't, are women nicer to better looking women? 0.96

03:54:11.000 I don't know.

03:54:11.500 Maybe there's like a competition thing there.

03:54:12.960 I think, yeah.

03:54:13.680 I do.

03:54:14.640 Hard to say.

03:54:15.120 I think there's a competition thing because that's why women, like people get plastic 1.00

03:54:18.480 surgery.

03:54:19.020 It's like a comparison thing a lot.

03:54:20.920 Right.

03:54:21.200 Or feeling insecure and then wanting to make it better.

03:54:23.760 Right.

03:54:24.440 We have based or not average women want above average men because they are better than average 1.00

03:54:30.000 men.

03:54:30.660 It's not complicated.

03:54:31.540 It's how our species ended up smart and strong.

03:54:34.500 Women take the best mate they can. 1.00

03:54:36.260 It is what it is.

03:54:38.140 Uh, okay.

03:54:40.380 So you're talking about hypergamy.

03:54:42.560 That's absolutely not true.

03:54:44.380 So like you can be the hottest guy alive.

03:54:47.720 I've dated, you know, quite a good looking group of men before and they were all homeless

03:54:52.280 or criminal records. 0.99

03:54:54.480 You fucked a homeless guy? 1.00

03:54:55.560 Yes, I have. 1.00

03:54:56.620 Not, not.

03:54:57.580 Okay.

03:54:57.980 Look, look, look, look.

03:54:58.660 What kind of homeless?

03:54:59.400 He wasn't home.

03:55:00.380 Like he wasn't on the street homeless.

03:55:02.940 Like I was dating him.

03:55:03.960 He got kicked out of his parents' house.

03:55:05.620 Okay.

03:55:05.880 And then he was living on my mom's couch for a minute.

03:55:08.020 That's what I mean by homeless.

03:55:09.460 But yeah, not some guy on the, no.

03:55:11.560 But like, that's not true.

03:55:13.000 And then the richest men are really unattractive.

03:55:16.340 But get the hottest girls. 1.00

03:55:18.700 Like, um, freaking, what's his name? 0.92

03:55:20.820 Uh, Playboy dude. 0.99

03:55:21.980 Like, you wouldn't, you couldn't pay me a billion dollars to sleep with that man. 1.00

03:55:25.760 But he's got like one of the most baddest bitches on his, like, did. 1.00

03:55:29.740 And it's just bizarre to me. 0.99

03:55:31.620 So that's completely untrue.

03:55:33.000 I wouldn't say better.

03:55:34.080 No, not at all.

03:55:35.480 I think geeks and those that are on that below standpoint would treat a woman much better, 0.83

03:55:40.600 to be honest.

03:55:42.160 I guess it's like if you're going to maybe like looks.

03:55:44.820 But again, I know I keep bringing up my boyfriend.

03:55:47.680 But he's attractive.

03:55:48.800 But a lot of the other qualities he has makes him a little bit better than me.

03:55:54.360 Not in a bad way.

03:55:55.740 Yeah, like it enhances him.

03:55:56.940 So I definitely was super excited when he was interested too.

03:56:00.680 Because he literally has a lot to offer.

03:56:03.820 Oh, you mean better than us?

03:56:05.460 Oh, I didn't mean better in general.

03:56:06.640 My bad.

03:56:07.080 I guess the best way I could just encapsulate what I'm trying to convey here is

03:56:11.460 attractive men will sleep with women they don't find commitment level attractive.

03:56:16.680 Yeah, I agree with that.

03:56:17.740 The woman now thinks that she is deserving of an attractive man of that caliber. 0.64

03:56:22.520 And she won't settle for someone who's perhaps her looks equivalent.

03:56:26.940 Or looks level.

03:56:28.040 She's not satisfied in relationships because she always thinks back to the attractive guy.

03:56:33.200 She had one night, two nights, three nights situationship.

03:56:36.880 And it creates resentment.

03:56:38.280 It's just a bad, really bad dynamic.

03:56:40.680 It is.

03:56:40.960 This pathway is open for many, many women. 1.00

03:56:45.540 You can't say the same thing about men.

03:56:47.020 The pathway for that is not open to men.

03:56:49.080 You don't have average dudes who are getting, like, bombarded and ran through by, like, top-tier guys.

03:56:56.140 Or, sorry, top-tier women. 0.97

03:56:58.060 Misspoke.

03:56:58.560 Top-tier women.

03:56:59.920 Misspoke.

03:57:02.260 I think that they had money to have a good chance.

03:57:03.980 We're going to move it off of the looks thing.

03:57:06.140 I did want to get back.

03:57:07.120 We have almost everybody here is single except for you.

03:57:11.500 So, what does that actually mean, though?

03:57:13.440 I'm just curious.

03:57:14.320 So, you've been single for two years, but do you have any guys in the picture currently?

03:57:17.340 Yeah, I've actually been casually just talking to.

03:57:21.520 How many people?

03:57:22.360 You have, like, a roster or?

03:57:24.620 No.

03:57:25.240 Oh, just one guy.

03:57:26.460 Actually, a girl.

03:57:27.920 A girl.

03:57:28.400 Okay.

03:57:28.580 Yeah.

03:57:29.580 Dope.

03:57:31.360 You've been single for two weeks.

03:57:32.700 Have you had a rebound?

03:57:35.500 It's a mic, please.

03:57:37.440 I'm sorry.

03:57:38.340 I'm putting my hair up.

03:57:39.600 Give me one second.

03:57:41.320 Um, no.

03:57:43.100 I've been really celibate, actually.

03:57:46.140 For how long?

03:57:47.240 I mean, since we broke up.

03:57:49.140 So, two weeks?

03:57:50.020 It's like a few weeks, yeah.

03:57:51.280 And I'm not seeing anyone else.

03:57:53.360 Are there any guys in the picture?

03:57:55.480 No.

03:57:56.580 Okay.

03:57:57.340 Have you ever had a...

03:57:58.340 I'm going to go back to you.

03:57:59.500 Have you ever had a roster?

03:58:01.360 Yeah.

03:58:02.080 What's the biggest the roster has ever been?

03:58:06.680 Maybe, like, three or four.

03:58:07.980 Three or four guys?

03:58:08.620 Have you ever had a roster?

03:58:09.980 Does that mean I'm hooking up with them at the same time or just, like, talking to them

03:58:13.800 and kind of interested?

03:58:14.580 It could be or it could not be.

03:58:16.640 Are you talking just, like, exploring, like, a connection with multiple people?

03:58:20.560 Is that kind of where you're...

03:58:21.800 That's one way you could phrase it, sure.

03:58:23.620 Okay.

03:58:23.860 Probably, yeah.

03:58:26.080 I don't know.

03:58:26.540 How big has the roster been for you?

03:58:28.620 Like, a little bit of interest.

03:58:31.020 Like, my feet dipped in a few different pools.

03:58:33.080 Maybe, like, six or seven.

03:58:35.280 I don't know.

03:58:37.780 Is this regard...

03:58:38.660 Like, when you say roster...

03:58:39.640 Six or seven, you said?

03:58:40.620 Like, six or seven.

03:58:41.640 And was there any point, like...

03:58:42.240 I'm not thinking of a specific situation.

03:58:46.320 I know it wasn't all the guys.

03:58:47.080 But were you, like, hooking up with maybe two or three of them?

03:58:50.040 No.

03:58:50.800 Just one?

03:58:51.140 I've never...

03:58:51.500 Yeah.

03:58:52.220 Okay.

03:58:53.080 I've never, like, been able to, like, actually, like, continue.

03:58:56.820 Like, I've been able to, like, kind of hook up with one person.

03:58:59.900 But two people at the same time is confusing.

03:59:02.580 You've been single for a year.

03:59:03.700 Any guys in the picture?

03:59:05.600 Yeah.

03:59:06.020 Well, when I say...

03:59:07.080 Like, I've talked to people.

03:59:08.680 But when I say, like, single...

03:59:09.640 I thought you were meaning, like, actual dating.

03:59:11.320 Like, my last actual relationship was a year ago.

03:59:14.440 But when you mean, when you say roster, like, does that mean, like, people that I'm interested?

03:59:18.860 Like, multiple people that I'm interested in?

03:59:21.980 Sure.

03:59:22.580 Yeah.

03:59:24.620 Yeah, I've had a roster.

03:59:26.280 How big?

03:59:30.520 I mean, there was...

03:59:31.660 I think I've, like, had slight interests.

03:59:34.180 Like, I was, like, picking between maybe, like, four.

03:59:38.540 Okay.

03:59:38.740 But not like I was seeing all of them or talking to all of them.

03:59:41.460 Just, like, they were, like, the choices.

03:59:43.860 Okay.

03:59:44.900 All right.

03:59:46.220 Let's see here.

03:59:47.420 Oh, by the way, Razor, I see your TTS.

03:59:49.700 I apologize.

03:59:50.480 We'll get right to it once I finish this segment.

03:59:53.460 What about you?

03:59:54.140 You're 18.

03:59:54.740 You've been single for a month.

03:59:58.360 Any guys in the picture?

04:00:04.600 Possibly.

04:00:06.620 Possibly.

04:00:07.420 I don't know.

04:00:08.060 Are you seeing other guys?

04:00:09.160 Is there guys in the picture right now?

04:00:10.740 Just one guy?

04:00:12.080 Are you talking about right now?

04:00:13.680 Well, when I say, yeah, guys in the picture, I'm asking just for right now.

04:00:16.900 Oh.

04:00:18.040 But the roster thing, that's just any time.

04:00:20.240 Oh.

04:00:26.240 Oh.

04:00:27.640 Roster?

04:00:28.440 Do I have a roster?

04:00:30.360 Yeah.

04:00:31.400 No, I don't have a roster.

04:00:33.000 Have you ever had a roster?

04:00:33.960 No.

04:00:34.400 Okay.

04:00:34.580 Going to you, you've been single for seven months.

04:00:37.580 Multiple people you were interested in?

04:00:39.280 Yeah.

04:00:40.960 Is there a guy in the picture?

04:00:46.480 Ava, how do I mention that?

04:00:48.360 He thinks he's in the picture, but you've explained to him multiple times the why and

04:00:52.460 how he's not.

04:00:53.760 Yeah.

04:00:54.320 No.

04:00:54.920 Not really.

04:00:57.540 A little bit, because you still respond.

04:01:00.240 No, I haven't all day.

04:01:02.100 Since?

04:01:02.900 I haven't since.

04:01:03.820 Oh, okay.

04:01:04.220 Good.

04:01:04.540 Since when?

04:01:05.780 Today?

04:01:06.660 Uh.

04:01:06.740 No, we got in a really big fight.

04:01:10.640 We're not even dating at all.

04:01:13.100 You're hooking up? 0.81

04:01:14.100 No.

04:01:15.040 Nothing.

04:01:15.440 We haven't done anything.

04:01:16.920 Wait, really?

04:01:17.820 Yeah, really.

04:01:18.660 I didn't know that.

04:01:19.700 Yeah.

04:01:19.820 All right.

04:01:20.620 Okay.

04:01:21.580 Have you ever had a roster?

04:01:23.660 Yeah.

04:01:24.580 What, how big was it?

04:01:25.780 Like three people.

04:01:26.720 Three people.

04:01:27.240 Okay, what about you?

04:01:28.320 Are you in a relationship?

04:01:29.600 Have you ever had a roster?

04:01:30.920 Not really.

04:01:31.560 I would like casually date, but one person at a time.

04:01:35.060 Like, I can't really focus on multiple people.

04:01:36.980 Sure.

04:01:37.000 What about you?

04:01:38.900 Um, no.

04:01:41.000 Okay.

04:01:41.400 What about you, Sina?

04:01:42.580 Yes.

04:01:44.340 There's a guy in the picture?

04:01:45.680 No, no, just me.

04:01:46.820 You did have a roster, though.

04:01:50.360 How big was the roster?

04:01:52.120 Sorry.

04:01:53.140 Like 10.

04:01:55.020 Roster of 10?

04:01:56.140 And were you hooking up with a few of them?

04:01:59.380 No, just one.

04:02:00.360 Just one?

04:02:01.020 But you were going on dates with some of them?

04:02:03.960 Yeah.

04:02:04.840 So, like, you had the guy who you were hooking up with, and then this guy took you out to dinner.

04:02:09.140 This guy was really funny.

04:02:11.140 This guy, I don't know, bought you flowers or some shit. 0.87

04:02:16.820 They're different. 0.94

04:02:17.200 They're different.

04:02:18.600 That's, like, what I think of.

04:02:18.960 Women have, like, compartmentalized, like, okay, he's really good in bed. 0.97

04:02:24.000 He's really good looking.

04:02:25.200 He's really funny.

04:02:27.080 Is that what roster means, people that you're seeing?

04:02:29.800 No, not always.

04:02:30.680 But this guy drives me places.

04:02:32.640 This guy gets me food.

04:02:34.060 Blah, blah, blah, blah.

04:02:34.580 I don't think that's beyond something.

04:02:35.500 Just, like, using, I mean, maybe that's a good idea.

04:02:38.460 Just, like, using each guy for what they can give you.

04:02:41.620 Maybe that's a good idea.

04:02:44.080 It is something that happens, for sure.

04:02:45.800 No, that's not what I meant.

04:02:47.300 That's not what I meant by my roster.

04:02:49.080 Oh, that's not the implication.

04:02:50.320 I just had, like, a crush on, like, three different guys.

04:02:52.400 Yeah, I know.

04:02:52.880 It's not like I was, like, actually, like.

04:02:54.480 Mm-hmm.

04:02:55.720 Oh.

04:02:56.140 Did I change my answer?

04:02:57.760 Yeah, sorry about that.

04:02:59.040 We'll do it.

04:02:59.960 Where does he meet women? 0.87

04:03:01.380 A-V-A. 1.00

04:03:03.180 A-V-A-Z-O-L-E-Z-Z-I. 1.00

04:03:05.260 Where do I meet women? 1.00

04:03:06.880 That's mean.

04:03:07.780 A-V-A. 1.00

04:03:09.680 Mm-hmm.

04:03:09.960 And A-V-A. 1.00

04:03:12.700 And A-V-A-Z-O-L-E-Z-Z-I. 0.99

04:03:18.120 Z like zebra.

04:03:19.500 Where do you, I'll let the panelists win. 0.96

04:03:22.640 Where do you meet women on the streets? 1.00

04:03:23.760 I don't usually take a Pilates class because I find that every time I take Pilates and

04:03:27.960 I have, like, two or three guys in my class, I'm like, damn, what is he doing here? 0.95

04:03:31.620 Does he have a girlfriend? 0.98

04:03:33.160 Why is he here?

04:03:34.020 I think it's so hot.

04:03:35.060 In person is the best way to meet people.

04:03:37.040 He is.

04:03:37.320 100%.

04:03:37.960 Let it happen naturally.

04:03:39.540 Ask for a number, not on Instagram.

04:03:41.360 Don't go looking.

04:03:42.440 Don't go looking.

04:03:43.580 Like, go outside.

04:03:44.780 Yeah, go outside.

04:03:45.860 Yeah.

04:03:46.500 But I mean, like, go about your day.

04:03:47.660 He's asking where, though.

04:03:47.940 Go do something new.

04:03:49.240 He's asking where.

04:03:49.380 Pilates.

04:03:50.120 Restaurants.

04:03:50.400 Yoga.

04:03:51.280 Bars. 0.86

04:03:52.500 Pilates.

04:03:52.940 Puppies.

04:03:53.580 Coffee shops.

04:03:55.320 Church is a good place.

04:03:57.020 Church.

04:03:57.340 Church.

04:03:57.900 Church.

04:03:58.240 Church.

04:03:58.740 Yeah.

04:03:59.320 I agree.

04:04:00.180 I'm looking for love at church.

04:04:01.600 The beach.

04:04:02.720 Yeah, like, if you're anywhere else.

04:04:04.220 Alcoholics Anonymous.

04:04:05.060 No, that's actually a great place to look for it.

04:04:07.360 N.A.

04:04:08.800 Naranon.

04:04:10.720 Naranon?

04:04:11.840 12-step music.

04:04:12.500 Oh, yeah.

04:04:13.180 No, that is Al-Anon.

04:04:14.560 Al-Anon.

04:04:15.240 Well, you can.

04:04:16.300 There's one for narcotics addicts, too.

04:04:19.280 N.A.

04:04:19.840 N.A.

04:04:20.180 Yeah, it's N.A.

04:04:20.680 Yeah.

04:04:23.720 Sex Addicts Anonymous.

04:04:25.760 Like, sex addicts meetings are pretty good.

04:04:27.620 Oh, like, the kids from Shameless did.

04:04:30.080 Yeah.

04:04:30.280 Yeah, that girl. 1.00

04:04:31.240 Yeah, do that.

04:04:32.160 Yeah.

04:04:32.360 A support group for sex addicts.

04:04:34.320 I didn't know that was a thing.

04:04:35.560 You could try there. 1.00

04:04:37.100 You could be a sex addict. 1.00

04:04:38.580 Meetup. 1.00

04:04:39.000 Anyone here could be a sex addict. 0.93

04:04:40.100 You can download this thing called Meetup. 0.93

04:04:41.540 I didn't mean that.

04:04:42.940 And you can put in what you're looking for, and there's a bunch of groups you can meet other

04:04:46.680 single women.

04:04:47.360 And sometimes they have speed dating.

04:04:49.180 Hobby.

04:04:50.200 Do you have a hobby?

04:04:51.360 Hobbies.

04:04:52.040 You could try a hobby.

04:04:53.120 You know, if there's a hobby, a sport, something.

04:04:54.840 Go to the beach.

04:04:55.940 Go for a walk.

04:04:56.980 Yeah.

04:04:57.700 What if he lives in, like, Antarctica?

04:04:58.940 Tell a girl you like her hair.

04:05:00.500 I live in Antarctica. 0.91

04:05:01.720 Not her boobs. 0.99

04:05:02.560 True. 0.53

04:05:03.040 Had he donated $200?

04:05:05.740 What's happened to society?

04:05:07.800 How can any of y'all have a roster?

04:05:10.140 None of you got it like that.

04:05:12.120 Bricks and send the asteroid. 0.99

04:05:14.060 Sure, man.

04:05:14.600 I got you.

04:05:15.680 Boom.

04:05:15.980 Asteroid Scent incoming.

04:05:18.200 Yo, Patty.

04:05:18.920 Uh-oh.

04:05:19.360 Is this the Patty who did the Champagne Pop last show?

04:05:23.380 What a legend.

04:05:24.560 Patty D.

04:05:26.900 Lexi over here was asking for more alcohol, but unfortunately we're tapped.

04:05:31.360 Yo, good to see you, man.

04:05:32.300 Thank you for the TTS.

04:05:33.120 Appreciate the support.

04:05:34.620 All right.

04:05:35.380 What was the next thing we had to get into?

04:05:37.320 I think, you know what?

04:05:38.320 We got to get into, oh, you know what?

04:05:40.060 Do you think it's wrong for a man to care about a woman's body count?

04:05:51.540 No.

04:05:52.240 No.

04:05:52.780 Wait, can you repeat that?

04:05:53.760 I think that's justified.

04:05:56.440 Wrong for a man to care about a woman's body count. 0.92

04:05:58.780 Do you think it's wrong?

04:05:59.980 No.

04:06:00.040 If it matters to him, it matters to him.

04:06:02.780 If it matters.

04:06:05.100 Yeah.

04:06:06.060 I don't think it's wrong at all.

04:06:08.400 I think that's completely...

04:06:09.940 Can you guess what I'm going to say?

04:06:11.020 Is he insecure, though?

04:06:11.760 Can you guess what I'm going to say?

04:06:12.980 No.

04:06:13.540 Preference.

04:06:14.800 Is he insecure, though?

04:06:16.400 No.

04:06:16.780 No?

04:06:17.100 No?

04:06:17.480 No.

04:06:17.780 I think it's normal to want to know.

04:06:19.680 Yeah, I think it's okay for a man to care.

04:06:22.160 Yeah.

04:06:22.400 You know?

04:06:22.860 There's men who do care and there's men who don't care.

04:06:25.320 And there's women who do and don't care. 1.00

04:06:26.960 Yeah.

04:06:27.480 Mm-hmm.

04:06:28.660 I think I personally care.

04:06:30.580 I care.

04:06:31.140 About body count?

04:06:31.860 Yeah.

04:06:32.640 Like the guy's body count?

04:06:33.960 Yeah.

04:06:34.220 You don't want to date no hoe? 1.00

04:06:35.440 I would...

04:06:36.080 No, it's not that I wouldn't...

04:06:36.900 Like, I'm not going to, like, judge at all.

04:06:38.900 But I don't think I would...

04:06:40.060 I wouldn't want to be with a guy who slept with...

04:06:43.160 Like, 50.

04:06:43.600 Especially at my age.

04:06:44.660 Yeah, 50, 60.

04:06:45.900 Like, 18 years old, like, just barely an adult.

04:06:48.080 And if you have more than, like, 10 bodies, it's kind of insane.

04:06:51.980 Yeah.

04:06:52.480 Because it's like, okay, so then, like...

04:06:53.900 Okay, let's say it's 15, though.

04:06:55.260 I wouldn't judge, but I judge if you lie.

04:06:58.640 Oh, yeah.

04:06:59.720 I'm not judging how many you have, but I'm judging if you lie.

04:07:02.420 There's just no point to lie about it.

04:07:04.440 I think there's no judging, but if it comes to someone that, like, I'm going to be with,

04:07:10.160 I...

04:07:11.260 It matters.

04:07:12.300 I see.

04:07:13.460 Kind of.

04:07:13.920 Well, the question...

04:07:15.220 It beckons the question.

04:07:18.080 What's your body count, starting with you?

04:07:21.440 One, two...

04:07:22.800 Number of pie.

04:07:25.260 Crickets, crickets.

04:07:32.420 You've shared it before.

04:07:34.020 One, two, three, the number of pie.

04:07:35.940 Look it up.

04:07:37.020 Oh, 1,234.

04:07:38.960 3.14151972438.

04:07:43.940 Number of pie?

04:07:44.980 Okay, G.

04:07:45.760 Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.

04:07:51.120 Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. 1.00

04:07:54.640 The fuck was that? 1.00

04:07:56.700 Number of pie! 1.00

04:07:59.260 I like that.

04:08:00.200 Can somebody get her meds, please? 0.99

04:08:03.820 Whole body count.

04:08:05.060 We're not going first.

04:08:06.260 You didn't tell the right answer.

04:08:07.160 Okay, Cena, go ahead.

04:08:08.180 We'll go this way.

04:08:09.360 Three.

04:08:10.220 Three?

04:08:10.680 Okay.

04:08:10.940 What about you?

04:08:12.860 From both men and women.

04:08:14.740 Break it down between the two.

04:08:16.360 Okay.

04:08:16.660 So with men, I'm probably in the 20s.

04:08:20.140 But mind you, I've had most of them before I was the age of 18.

04:08:24.160 And with women, I'm probably in the teens, 15. 1.00

04:08:28.000 Okay.

04:08:28.320 What about you?

04:08:29.160 Mine's also probably in the 20s, too.

04:08:32.580 Gotcha.

04:08:33.060 What about you?

04:08:34.140 Three.

04:08:35.100 Three?

04:08:35.600 Okay.

04:08:36.240 Do I have to answer?

04:08:37.180 Yes.

04:08:38.000 No, I do not.

04:08:38.600 Must.

04:08:39.020 Must.

04:08:41.300 Must.

04:08:41.800 You must answer.

04:08:42.820 You have free will, girl.

04:08:44.120 Yeah.

04:08:44.460 You must answer.

04:08:46.520 I'm uncomfortable.

04:08:47.520 I'm personally uncomfortable answering the question.

04:08:49.400 I'll participate in the conversation.

04:08:51.300 How about, do you want to do a ballpark?

04:08:53.420 Like it's five to ten.

04:08:57.400 Why are you looking at a hurry?

04:08:58.740 Zero to one.

04:09:00.460 Two to three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten.

04:09:02.580 I don't know.

04:09:04.740 What about you?

04:09:05.580 Ballpark?

04:09:05.980 I'm uncomfortable answering the question.

04:09:08.300 Okay.

04:09:08.740 My family's probably going to see this.

04:09:11.240 People are going to assume.

04:09:12.440 No, it's definitely, I promise you're here.

04:09:14.560 Okay, I'll give you a ballpark.

04:09:15.700 Ballpark it.

04:09:16.160 It's under five.

04:09:17.220 Okay, that's fair.

04:09:18.880 I'm also going to give that ballpark.

04:09:20.460 Boo.

04:09:20.840 I'm sorry, three.

04:09:21.760 It's not, you want to give us the ballpark?

04:09:24.420 She just said three.

04:09:25.200 I just said it's three.

04:09:26.200 Oh, three.

04:09:26.740 Okay.

04:09:27.160 That's the truth.

04:09:27.740 Sweet.

04:09:28.660 Ballpark or no?

04:09:29.600 I just, no.

04:09:31.300 Ballpark?

04:09:31.500 My ballpark is the number of pi.

04:09:33.780 I say again.

04:09:34.380 Three, four, one, four, one, five, nine, two, six, five, three.

04:09:36.360 Okay.

04:09:36.920 You guys know pi is a number between three and four, right?

04:09:40.320 Here, I'm going to, somebody in the chat, she's been on the show like two or three times.

04:09:42.800 She's said it before.

04:09:43.720 She's just being intentionally obnoxious. 0.58

04:09:45.400 Oh, the times before the chat, babes, they were all also just like the number of pi.

04:09:51.600 Three, four, one, four, one, two, six, five, three.

04:09:53.680 You could pull it up every time.

04:09:54.840 Look, if I recall correctly, it's like because of your work.

04:09:57.920 We couldn't do the math if 3.141519.

04:10:02.400 It's literally those numbers.

04:10:05.080 It's over 1,000 or something, right?

04:10:08.780 3.1415.

04:10:10.120 It's really a bonding experience.

04:10:11.700 I can't wait to see you guys in the halls now.

04:10:13.860 Awesome.

04:10:14.600 Yeah.

04:10:14.800 All right.

04:10:17.980 Multiply it by three and that's the real number.

04:10:19.960 Yeah.

04:10:20.960 I don't know.

04:10:22.060 That's the rule.

04:10:22.760 That's the math.

04:10:23.440 That's the boy math.

04:10:25.760 Got to multiply by three.

04:10:28.900 Okay.

04:10:29.280 Let's see.

04:10:29.720 What else do we have to do?

04:10:33.020 Oh, Nick had some interesting.

04:10:34.800 Hold on, Nick.

04:10:35.400 Nick had some suggestions we're going to do, so let me pull that up.

04:10:39.400 Oh, let me shout out.

04:10:40.480 Yo, John, thank you for the 25 on Venmo, man.

04:10:43.540 Really appreciate it.

04:10:44.180 Thank you.

04:10:44.560 Thank you.

04:10:45.800 Oh, should we do the Bumble thing? 0.98

04:10:48.260 Yeah.

04:10:48.720 Also, anybody want to recharge energy drink?

04:10:51.120 Anybody want to recharge here?

04:10:53.500 How long do I go over there?

04:10:55.440 A million years we have left.

04:10:57.580 What's up, Nick?

04:10:58.240 Wait, what time is it?

04:10:59.100 It's like nine.

04:11:01.780 Nine, ten, two more hours?

04:11:03.140 Five, ten.

04:11:03.720 Two more hours?

04:11:05.940 Of who I want to date?

04:11:08.720 Like 27 and up?

04:11:13.800 27 and up?

04:11:14.580 We're going to do the Bumble thing later.

04:11:16.660 Okay, Nick?

04:11:17.080 Are you creating me a profile right now?

04:11:19.700 No, no, no.

04:11:20.940 Nope.

04:11:21.500 Definitely not doing that.

04:11:26.040 I do want to...

04:11:26.840 I'm going to wait until she's back from the...

04:11:28.580 Oh, it's all good.

04:11:30.260 I need to stand up.

04:11:31.020 No, it's all good.

04:11:31.720 All good.

04:11:32.920 It's really pretty.

04:11:34.020 Yeah, really?

04:11:35.080 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

04:11:42.660 It doesn't stop.

04:11:43.660 What?

04:11:44.180 Okay.

04:11:44.700 You're talking about others.

04:11:45.820 What happened?

04:11:48.140 Just don't make comments about that.

04:11:52.880 Yeah, Nick.

04:11:53.660 Pull up Twitch.

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04:12:47.040 Pretty sure that's everything.

04:12:47.820 Oh, let's do, nah.

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04:12:50.000 Can I go to?

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04:12:57.340 Show of hands.

04:12:57.920 Who here is a feminist? 1.00

04:13:00.380 Feminist.

04:13:00.880 What is that?

04:13:01.400 Can you define it?

04:13:02.960 I mean, there's varying definitions.

04:13:06.860 Like support women? 0.88

04:13:08.980 Yes.

04:13:09.660 Nah.

04:13:10.700 Feminism would be. 1.00

04:13:12.660 There's made it into some extreme thing.

04:13:14.940 I mean, a feminist doesn't mean that you're running at rallies and stuff every day. 1.00

04:13:19.760 Feminist is someone who supports women. 1.00

04:13:21.800 Nah, that's not really.

04:13:22.720 Someone who supports that general idea of equality.

04:13:26.240 That's way too charitable.

04:13:27.000 Someone who supports the general idea of feminism.

04:13:29.200 Here's my nicest definition.

04:13:31.740 No, do the real one.

04:13:32.860 Do what you think feminism is. 1.00

04:13:33.900 Well, I'll give you the, the, here, I'll give you two then.

04:13:36.940 Okay.

04:13:37.660 My charitable definition is feminism is a woman's advocacy movement, but baked into that means

04:13:44.740 it's not an equality movement.

04:13:47.820 So feminism is women's advocacy, but it has nothing to do with seeking equality. 1.00

04:13:51.940 So feminism means that like women who think women are better than men. 1.00

04:13:55.260 That's not true.

04:13:55.540 No, not necessarily.

04:13:56.540 They're extremists.

04:13:57.800 Not under my charitable definition.

04:14:00.520 There's nothing wrong with women's advocacy, but my own assessment, as charitable as possible,

04:14:06.160 is women, excuse me, is feminism is not truly an equality movement.

04:14:11.120 It's about advocating for women, which is fine.

04:14:13.620 Now, my real definition of it is it is a woman's advocacy movement, but it's also clearly, clearly,

04:14:23.100 strongly anti-male and has massive amounts of anti-male rhetoric.

04:14:29.680 That's my definition.

04:14:30.940 Based off your first definition.

04:14:32.760 Yeah.

04:14:33.320 Yeah.

04:14:33.620 The first definition.

04:14:35.280 Okay.

04:14:36.200 Who here is a feminist? 1.00

04:14:38.260 Off the first one.

04:14:39.600 Yeah.

04:14:39.940 Off the first one.

04:14:40.980 But what about this though?

04:14:41.640 Should we smash the patriarchy?

04:14:45.680 I should have added.

04:14:47.020 I don't think they're really, no.

04:14:50.340 There's another definition.

04:14:53.700 A movement towards equality while simultaneously dismantling the patriarchy.

04:15:00.660 That's another definition.

04:15:01.860 I don't like that.

04:15:03.100 I don't like that either.

04:15:03.940 I think.

04:15:04.640 In favor of the patriarchy based.

04:15:05.960 I think women's advocacy is good for problems with women, like specifically women. 1.00

04:15:11.640 But I think it's important to prioritize equality over that.

04:15:16.560 You're explaining this as if people explain the Black Lives Matter movement, saying that

04:15:20.520 black people are better than white people, and that's not what it's about. 0.99

04:15:24.340 Feminism is also not about women being better. 1.00

04:15:27.560 And Black Lives Matter is also not about.

04:15:29.220 That's a total straw man.

04:15:29.980 Didn't even say that.

04:15:30.740 Well, I mean, you kind of are referring to it in the same way.

04:15:33.940 You're saying that like a lot of feminism is people thinking that women are better than 1.00

04:15:39.400 men.

04:15:39.500 No, well, what I specifically said is there's overt anti-male rhetoric in the feminist movement 0.94

04:15:44.760 and misandry.

04:15:46.780 So misandry, the counterpoint to misogyny.

04:15:48.340 I feel like, I feel like you're missing, I feel like the, that line of thinking is part

04:15:52.580 of the issue that it's like, you're missing the point.

04:15:55.360 I think people took the, I think that like, there is anti-men and there's like also anti,

04:16:00.560 like anti-men and anti-women.

04:16:02.720 Yes, I agree.

04:16:03.580 So like, I don't think that like.

04:16:04.760 But the feminist movement, it's steeped in anti-male rhetoric. 1.00

04:16:09.220 I kind of agree.

04:16:10.700 I agree with that.

04:16:11.600 I think they took the feminist and just like, again, made something that it was. 0.87

04:16:15.980 It's perverse.

04:16:16.460 Hey, that's what I, that's the, yeah.

04:16:18.280 Like, I'm a.

04:16:19.000 It's the mainstream feminism that is. 1.00

04:16:20.520 Yeah, it's the mainstream feminism. 1.00

04:16:22.200 I actually believe that it should be, it's equality.

04:16:24.800 I'm talking about across all boards.

04:16:26.160 I know.

04:16:26.960 I think that women should be drafted. 1.00

04:16:28.740 I think that women should get out there and do men's work. 1.00

04:16:32.020 That's just me.

04:16:32.600 But to me, if we're going to talk about women's rights and equality and all that, then it should

04:16:38.480 mean everything, not just when it best benefits you, you know what I'm saying?

04:16:43.620 Well, that's my, that's my first definition because if, for example, if there is a form

04:16:50.160 of equality that comes to the detriment of women, feminists absolutely will not fight 1.00

04:16:57.120 for that equality if it conceivably comes to the detriment of women. 1.00

04:17:03.700 So, for example, equalizing the military draft, that would create equality between men and

04:17:09.400 women. 0.81

04:17:09.940 This is not a feminist talking point. 1.00

04:17:11.700 Feminists don't argue for this. 1.00

04:17:13.220 There's other certain things like, an example in Florida a couple years ago, I think it was

04:17:18.680 the National Organization for Women.

04:17:20.520 I could be mixing it up with another women's or girl or whatever.

04:17:23.920 However, the court system was trying to equalize custody between parents, between fathers and

04:17:31.020 mothers, with an assumption that both parents should have equal split custody.

04:17:36.200 The way the law previously was, was that women were treated preferentially in the court 1.00

04:17:41.560 system.

04:17:43.220 Feminist organizations, women's organizations fought against this because conceivably doing 1.00

04:17:48.800 that would come to the detriment of women. 1.00

04:17:50.760 That's why my position is, feminism, while it advocates for women, doesn't actually seek 1.00

04:17:55.900 to have equality if said equality hurts women in some sort of way. 1.00

04:18:00.880 Yeah, I agree with that.

04:18:03.160 How does having more, or like, more access to your child hurt women? 1.00

04:18:10.660 That's, I feel like women want to have their kids. 1.00

04:18:12.840 I don't think that that's, I don't think the feminists were like, fuck this. 1.00

04:18:16.520 No, they were arguing against the other position, saying it hurt, I guess it hurts women conceivably 0.98

04:18:22.240 to their detriment, because women often want more, they don't want 50-50 custody, they want 1.00

04:18:28.280 more custody, but in the interest of fairness, and frankly, what's best for the child, it is

04:18:32.920 best for both parents to be involved, and we shouldn't, like, do this bigoted, gender-sexist

04:18:38.600 thing of defaulting women to getting custody of their children. 1.00

04:18:41.720 I've never heard any, like, feminist movement about that, though.

04:18:46.220 Like, I feel like that's...

04:18:47.280 Okay, just because you haven't heard of it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

04:18:50.460 Feminist, really.

04:18:51.400 That's not really about women. 1.00

04:18:52.940 Like, that's not, like, that's more, like, about child care.

04:18:56.720 The organization...

04:18:57.600 Hold on.

04:18:58.100 That's a component of feminism and gender dynamics between men and women. 1.00

04:19:02.400 The organization I cite to is the preeminent women's advocacy or feminist organization.

04:19:07.900 The courts absolutely do give, usually, the rights to...

04:19:12.260 Oh, no, I know that.

04:19:13.440 I know that.

04:19:14.160 I'm just saying it.

04:19:15.140 Yeah, there's a massive bias in the court system against men, especially as it relates

04:19:18.180 to custody.

04:19:19.820 It doesn't matter even if the woman, even if the man makes more money, the court's still 1.00

04:19:23.380 in favor with the woman, usually. 0.57

04:19:25.340 I think that it shouldn't be that way at all.

04:19:28.940 I guess I'm not a feminist, but... 1.00

04:19:30.900 But, I mean...

04:19:33.240 But, look, there's nothing necessarily wrong with groups of people wanting to advocate

04:19:39.300 specifically for their in-group.

04:19:42.160 But I don't think feminists want to paint it as, it's about equality. 1.00

04:19:47.640 Well, only equality when it benefits women. 0.99

04:19:50.100 When it benefits them.

04:19:50.860 If it doesn't, they'll fight against the equality.

04:19:54.060 So just call it what it is.

04:19:55.240 It's women's advocacy. 1.00

04:19:56.740 Nothing wrong with that, but don't try to...

04:19:59.300 But what was the point of bringing up feminism?

04:20:01.620 I'm pretty sure you...

04:20:02.400 No, I was just asking who's a feminist here. 1.00

04:20:05.740 Yeah.

04:20:09.500 Cool!

04:20:10.380 Okay.

04:20:11.020 Yeah.

04:20:11.820 Yeah.

04:20:12.920 But do you think, like, I don't know, do you believe...

04:20:15.440 No, I think that parents should have equal custody.

04:20:18.300 Yeah, sure.

04:20:18.760 But I was just giving you one example in which feminists will fight to ensure that there 1.00

04:20:24.420 isn't equality in certain realms for the benefit.

04:20:27.900 Are you for, like, so what's your position on feminism? 1.00

04:20:32.260 What's my position?

04:20:33.020 I mean...

04:20:33.300 Yeah, like, are you a feminist? 1.00

04:20:34.820 Do you care about...

04:20:35.240 Absolutely not.

04:20:36.880 Absolutely not.

04:20:37.840 Definitely not a feminist. 1.00

04:20:39.460 You might even say I could be, I'm an anti-feminist. 0.83

04:20:42.280 That doesn't mean anti-woman.

04:20:44.500 Because there are male feminists. 1.00

04:20:46.000 So I'm anti-feminist. 0.98

04:20:47.380 Because feminism, clearly, especially with much of the rhetoric that is espoused by feminists, 1.00

04:20:54.000 is really, really harmful and misandrist. 0.96

04:20:57.460 And it's clearly anti-male.

04:20:59.440 And the whole foundation of most feminist teachings and theories is anti-male. 0.69

04:21:05.460 And that's the patriarchy theory.

04:21:06.960 If that's your basis for establishing, like, that's the lens that you look through.

04:21:10.820 The basis for feminism was, like, women should vote. 1.00

04:21:15.320 Yeah, that's fine.

04:21:17.080 But that's how it started as...

04:21:19.080 And it turned into...

04:21:20.140 Yeah, there were legitimate...

04:21:20.820 Exactly.

04:21:21.280 I'm more traditional feminist.

04:21:21.980 There were legitimate things that were unequal when it comes to, you know, certain things

04:21:26.620 that women had that men... 0.69

04:21:27.720 Or that men had that women didn't.

04:21:30.300 But if you look at much of the rhetoric involved, even historically, but especially modern day,

04:21:36.140 when women have secured all these rights and there really is equality between men and women,

04:21:41.680 most of the rhetoric is incredibly misandrist and quite anti-male.

04:21:48.980 I mean, I guess I would ask you, if feminism is about fighting for women's rights, 1.00

04:21:54.180 I would just...

04:21:56.000 I guess I would ask, do you think that men and women don't have equal rights?

04:22:00.800 Well, 100% men and women do not have equal rights. 0.94

04:22:03.960 Okay.

04:22:04.320 Well, I guess, which ones?

04:22:09.880 You're saying it's...

04:22:10.900 You're laughing because you think it's self-evident?

04:22:13.200 Yeah.

04:22:13.780 How could I even ask that?

04:22:14.700 Well...

04:22:15.380 Like, literally, the pay gap.

04:22:18.680 Like, the...

04:22:19.720 What?

04:22:20.100 Okay, I'll engage you on there, but...

04:22:21.520 Literally, men are paid more.

04:22:22.820 I'll engage you on the pay gap, but...

04:22:24.160 That is...

04:22:24.780 But can you tell me, like, what are some of the actual rights that men have that women

04:22:28.920 don't?

04:22:30.920 I guess, like, rights?

04:22:32.420 Like, do you mean, like, the right to bear arms and, like, the right to vote?

04:22:36.380 Well, that was the conversation.

04:22:37.580 I guess, yeah.

04:22:38.240 Legally, legally, no.

04:22:40.100 But why did you scoff, then?

04:22:41.400 If it is the case that women have equal rights to men, why did you... 1.00

04:22:44.000 Well, I guess I was thinking more just, like, are women seen as equals? 0.52

04:22:48.940 I was thinking that way.

04:22:50.420 I shouldn't have scoffed.

04:22:52.380 Are women seen as equals? 1.00

04:22:54.160 Yeah, I don't think that women are seen as equal to men. 1.00

04:22:57.020 In what way?

04:22:58.120 I think you have to be a bit more precise. 1.00

04:22:59.780 I think that we're looked at as more, like, stupid. 1.00

04:23:03.780 And, like, I think... 1.00

04:23:05.060 Yeah, it's true.

04:23:06.160 Like, you don't feel like you get talked down to by men because you're a woman?

04:23:11.220 No, I do.

04:23:11.840 I feel that way every day.

04:23:13.360 Okay, I get talked down to by women, so, I mean... 1.00

04:23:16.500 That's true.

04:23:16.740 Yeah, but I don't think that they're talking down to you because you're a man.

04:23:21.240 Maybe some women that are super anti-men. 1.00

04:23:24.900 So, maybe there are women that are anti-men that are, like, talking to you. 1.00

04:23:28.320 But I think that, like, a lot of people are born with, like, internalized sexism. 0.99

04:23:32.260 But what if somebody's just stupid? 1.00

04:23:33.940 Like, what if a man is stupid? 1.00

04:23:35.100 What if a woman is stupid? 1.00

04:23:35.740 Then you treat them like they're stupid, but not because they're a man or a woman, because they're stupid. 1.00

04:23:39.220 But I think one thing that's interesting to me about that is it seems like it's often the case when a bad thing happens to women or a bad thing happens to a minority, somebody in a minority group, whether they're Hispanic or they're black or they're Asian, whatever it is, there is this yearning to the bad thing that happened to them happened because they're part of this identity group. 1.00

04:24:05.100 A bad thing happened to a woman, and it happened because she's a woman. 1.00

04:24:09.340 But we don't put this sort of same thing on them.

04:24:12.500 So, give me an example of something that, like, someone, like, something that might happen to me, and then I might say, like, okay, it's because I'm a woman.

04:24:20.280 Well, you mentioned Black Lives Matter recently, so I guess I'll take it in that direction. 0.99

04:24:24.660 I can't wait.

04:24:25.660 Yeah, so what happened, you know, look, that whole thing's very complicated.

04:24:31.640 The George Floyd killing, there's varying disputes over, you know, did he OD, did the police contribute to his unfortunate death?

04:24:41.760 You know, there are legal disputes there.

04:24:44.140 However, nothing actually in the conduct of the police officer would indicate to me that it was racially motivated.

04:24:52.880 But those were race riots.

04:24:55.720 A black man did happen to die, and that's unfortunate.

04:24:58.080 But there was nothing in the actual conduct of the police officers that would indicate that they was racially motivated.

04:25:04.720 He did happen to be black.

04:25:06.580 But where's the racism?

04:25:10.700 I think it's, I think that in that situation, I honestly am going to say, like, this one thing.

04:25:15.120 And then I think that, like, what I was really asking was an example, like, for myself.

04:25:18.820 Like, something that would happen to me so that I can judge, like, what I say, oh, is this because I'm a woman or whatever.

04:25:25.160 But in that situation, I think it's really just statistics of things like that happening to black men over white men.

04:25:30.580 Well, the exact, then shifting off of that, then the exact example you provided, you say men talk down to women.

04:25:37.260 And you're saying that it's because they're women. 1.00

04:25:40.220 But then the reverse.

04:25:42.600 But why would suddenly, after, like, so many centuries of sexism and women being less than, and, like, suddenly, yeah, okay, we have the same rights. 0.93

04:25:53.440 But suddenly, like, men are really going to treat you the same.

04:25:56.900 Like, that's just not how it is.

04:25:58.260 That's not.

04:25:59.380 Women also. 0.93

04:26:00.500 Also women. 0.97

04:26:01.320 I think that we have internalized sexism, too.

04:26:03.500 And sometimes we might think a man is better suited to be our surgeon than a woman. 0.85

04:26:09.300 Like, if you're, like, you know, I think that it's, like, it's.

04:26:11.820 Do you think that?

04:26:12.340 No.

04:26:13.000 But I think that off first bat, a lot of people, maybe myself, if I was given two options, the first thing, because that's what we're trained to think, is that, like, men are going to do a better job at certain things.

04:26:22.440 I don't.

04:26:22.960 But I don't think that it's true.

04:26:24.580 I don't think that way.

04:26:26.240 Actually, I mean, again, I'm not, I'm sure there's been studies on this.

04:26:30.240 I'm not familiar with them.

04:26:31.180 Um, there, there maybe has been some studies that actually, that actually maybe point out that in some surgical practices, women have some degree of better, like, hand-eye coordination, or I don't know the exact, anyways, that's, that's besides the point.

04:26:49.880 Manual dexterity.

04:26:51.000 I, like, for example, and this would kind of just make sense without, like, a study needed, like, assuming women have smaller hands, they're better able to, like, make sort of, like, if you have big, big man hands or some shit, it's kind of, like, hard to, you know, like, with really small instruments, you know, so. 0.77

04:27:09.140 I think that men are better than women at some things, and women are better than men at some things. 0.84

04:27:13.000 I agree with that.

04:27:14.260 I agree with that.

04:27:15.480 But I also think that there can be women that are better than men at things that men are normally better at, too.

04:27:21.780 Mm-hmm.

04:27:22.260 And vice versa.

04:27:23.420 Sure.

04:27:23.660 No, I agree.

04:27:24.480 Yeah.

04:27:24.760 It literally doesn't matter if you're good at something, you're good at something.

04:27:27.800 That's the end of the story.

04:27:29.160 So I'm saying, wait, I, did it sound like I was saying that people should think that men are better surgeons?

04:27:35.400 No.

04:27:35.660 Oh, okay, just making sure that's not.

04:27:38.040 But, so I guess, is there, and one thing, actually, you mentioned that, you mentioned that there was a lot of sexism for long periods of time.

04:27:47.380 Are you talking, like, about the vote?

04:27:49.820 I mean, I'm talking about, like, everything.

04:27:51.500 Like, we all know, like, the history of sexism.

04:27:55.060 Like, what?

04:27:55.720 Mm-hmm.

04:27:56.240 But you do realize, for example, men only got the right to vote very, very shortly before women?

04:28:03.200 Like, it was not a long period of time.

04:28:04.740 You mean, like, like, poor men or black men or Native American men?

04:28:10.880 Are you talking about this country, other countries?

04:28:13.120 All men. 0.93

04:28:13.520 Because voting started happening?

04:28:15.600 Yeah, so voting is a pretty new phenomenon for the vast majority of human history.

04:28:19.420 Yeah, I think we started voting in, like, multiple hundreds of years ago.

04:28:24.540 Maybe, yeah.

04:28:25.440 Broadly, voting is very recent, past 200, 300 years.

04:28:30.020 Yeah, women's voting is, like, past 100 years. 1.00

04:28:33.120 So I think the differential, so in the United States, I think the difference is, like, 50 years from when all men could vote and from when all women could vote.

04:28:42.640 Very small period of time.

04:28:43.780 Yeah, but that's all men. 0.82

04:28:44.880 Like, like, they waited to allow, like, men who were poor that weren't property owners and stuff to vote.

04:28:51.560 Like, that was years after, like, men with money or white men.

04:28:56.580 Like, first it was men that were property owners and, like, were also religious and also white could vote.

04:29:04.260 And then it was men that were property owners and white.

04:29:09.380 And then it was, yeah.

04:29:10.520 And then, like, it kept going.

04:29:11.900 Like, but up until the very end, it was just men who were this and men who were that.

04:29:16.600 Well, the point I'm trying to make is that for the vast majority of human history, most men and most women didn't have any power, didn't have any say.

04:29:26.600 Yeah, no, that's true.

04:29:29.480 Like, monarchy, yeah.

04:29:31.460 Right, there were kings and emperors and this sort of thing.

04:29:34.860 Yeah, most of the time it was men that were kings and emperors, right?

04:29:37.820 Yeah, sure, but that's a very small apex of men that had any power.

04:29:41.460 I know, but it was men, wasn't it?

04:29:43.180 It wasn't women. 1.00

04:29:44.060 Right, but that's an apex fallacy.

04:29:45.360 So just because, like, I would say that has more to do with power.

04:29:47.460 Yeah, but you're talking about everyone else didn't have power, so then the people that did have power.

04:29:51.780 Queens came into power, so it wasn't just men.

04:29:55.920 Okay.

04:29:57.040 Are you denying that queens had power?

04:30:00.040 No, I think that this conversation has gone really far off of where we started, and I just don't really feel like I need to continue.

04:30:05.380 I'm totally fine having the conversation.

04:30:07.980 Yeah, no, I'm good having the conversation, too.

04:30:10.040 Does anyone else want to input anything, though?

04:30:12.520 All right.

04:30:12.940 Let's have a new topic.

04:30:15.100 No, I'm just...

04:30:15.780 No, we can talk about it.

04:30:16.780 I'm totally fine with it.

04:30:17.500 Oh, I don't want to talk about it.

04:30:19.040 Is it...

04:30:19.680 Is it...

04:30:20.580 No, I just feel like I'm trying to give it a history lesson right now.

04:30:23.900 Uncomfortable truths?

04:30:24.780 Like, I just don't feel educated enough to, like...

04:30:27.460 That's totally fine.

04:30:28.020 I can't be a part of this conversation.

04:30:29.260 Totally fine.

04:30:29.900 Accurately.

04:30:30.600 So I'm just spectating for now.

04:30:32.260 And that takes a level...

04:30:33.300 Yeah.

04:30:33.340 It takes a level of intelligence to say, you know what, I just don't know about this.

04:30:37.060 I don't want to weigh in.

04:30:37.660 That's totally fine.

04:30:38.120 I don't know enough.

04:30:38.920 So, as far as equality goes, yes, women do have... 1.00

04:30:43.760 Like, they can do...

04:30:44.520 They can own houses.

04:30:45.380 They can own credit financially.

04:30:46.900 They used to not...

04:30:47.440 They used to not...

04:30:48.120 So we did come a long way.

04:30:49.300 However, there are still things that men are given more privilege to as far as pay.

04:30:55.800 The pay rate is actually a serious thing.

04:30:58.460 The girl from Shameless actually quit the show because they were not paying her the amount 1.00

04:31:02.580 of money as the other guy.

04:31:04.640 Yeah, that's...

04:31:05.280 Okay.

04:31:06.280 Go ahead.

04:31:07.180 Finish your spot.

04:31:08.340 I'll respond.

04:31:09.260 Presidency.

04:31:09.880 We only have one vice woman president after so many years. 0.99

04:31:13.580 And she still didn't win because she is a woman. 1.00

04:31:16.840 And a lot of other reasons.

04:31:20.340 Women... 1.00

04:31:20.740 Wait, wait.

04:31:21.380 Hold on.

04:31:21.640 Let's do one thing at a time.

04:31:22.900 Go ahead.

04:31:23.220 No percentile.

04:31:23.840 Because I'm going to have difficulty keeping up before just shotgunning all these things.

04:31:27.720 Right.

04:31:28.200 Okay.

04:31:29.020 So...

04:31:29.620 I don't think she didn't win because she was a woman, but... 1.00

04:31:32.480 Yeah, I would say...

04:31:33.380 But there's a...

04:31:34.000 Yeah, I mean, there's a reason we've never had a woman president. 1.00

04:31:36.740 It had nothing to do with...

04:31:37.920 Like, because people don't...

04:31:39.680 Had nothing to do with the fact that she was a woman.

04:31:42.860 Part of the reason.

04:31:43.720 It was one of the reasons.

04:31:44.280 I think it was part of the reason.

04:31:44.920 It wasn't all of it, but it was one of the reasons.

04:31:46.340 I think she would have gotten more votes if she had the same policy if it was a man. 1.00

04:31:49.560 Would you...

04:31:50.520 If you could choose, not knowing their specific politics, between voting for a woman or a man,

04:31:57.140 who would you vote for?

04:31:58.400 A man.

04:31:59.220 A man.

04:31:59.780 Oh.

04:32:00.460 Absolutely.

04:32:01.500 I don't...

04:32:01.940 I think...

04:32:02.180 Who would you pick?

04:32:02.580 The man or the woman? 0.99

04:32:03.500 I think...

04:32:04.880 Well, first of all, if they're solely based on their sex?

04:32:08.600 Yeah, assume it's like your political affiliation, your political alignment, but they're just

04:32:14.500 mostly the same.

04:32:16.780 One's a man, one's a woman. 0.98

04:32:18.040 Mostly the same woman, just because, just because men have been ruined all this time 0.99

04:32:23.940 and it still has not been any different.

04:32:26.800 I feel like it would probably be different if a woman did run and did run the country. 1.00

04:32:31.200 How would it be different?

04:32:32.220 Well, first of all, when far as, let's say, women can't be present, it's because they're 1.00

04:32:36.300 emotional, too emotional.

04:32:38.060 Who do you think of the fact that the guy in office right now is a little too emotional?

04:32:42.700 Guys are also emotional creatures as far as reacting on their anger impulses and setting

04:32:48.400 things like, you know, overturning Roe v. Wade and all that other stuff.

04:32:53.180 Why are they, you know, they're acting on...

04:32:55.240 You realize there are multiple female justices on the Supreme Court? 1.00

04:32:58.120 Absolutely.

04:32:58.640 I'm not, I'm not sitting there and saying that there aren't women who also... 0.95

04:33:01.280 You know he didn't overturn it, right?

04:33:03.040 Well, I'm just saying.

04:33:03.820 That's not his decision.

04:33:05.100 I'm just saying, like, wanting to do that.

04:33:08.440 When did, didn't that, did that happen during the Biden administration?

04:33:11.420 When did that happen?

04:33:12.180 I forgot.

04:33:12.500 That happened during Trump's first term.

04:33:13.900 It wasn't during his, um, his second term, though.

04:33:18.240 It was his first.

04:33:18.820 When was that?

04:33:20.400 Was it?

04:33:20.960 I thought it happened...

04:33:21.460 I'm just saying, dude, like, honestly, we, there's, the Queen of England has been ruling

04:33:25.900 England for such a long time.

04:33:27.240 The Queen of England is dead.

04:33:28.560 There's a king now.

04:33:29.320 Well, okay, well, she's ruled for a long time outside of being dead, obviously.

04:33:34.420 Okay, yeah, she did rule for a long time.

04:33:36.100 She did rule for a long time.

04:33:37.260 What's her point?

04:33:38.100 My point is that, that's, that's prime example that women can run a country. 1.00

04:33:43.380 There's also women in South America. 1.00

04:33:45.140 Hold on.

04:33:45.920 The UK, the country which lost all its, lost its entire empire, lost its, its territory,

04:33:53.940 and then has, like, rampant crime issues in all of its major cities and has imported, like...

04:33:59.720 Well, that's because the king or queen of the country in the UK doesn't actually, they

04:34:02.940 don't rule the country.

04:34:03.040 That is true.

04:34:04.000 At least in the UK...

04:34:04.640 Like, the queen does not rule the country. 1.00

04:34:06.260 They don't rule the country.

04:34:06.300 You do make a good point.

04:34:07.680 In the UK, the, the, it's primarily a ceremonial position.

04:34:11.880 They don't really have much say or power as it relates to the politics of the country.

04:34:16.000 Although she probably had a bit more say, a little bit, like, earlier in her reign, but 1.00

04:34:24.600 the monarchy is, like, over time, gradually lost power, so...

04:34:28.320 Right.

04:34:29.700 Okay, here, let's just jump to the wage gap, then, because you also mentioned that.

04:34:32.680 Yeah, there's no wage gap.

04:34:34.120 I agree with that, too.

04:34:35.260 Well, how come there are CEOs who get paid more than women CEOs, and it's a factual thing,

04:34:39.780 I mean, you can Google this, um, that men, men do get paid more in certain, in certain,

04:34:45.360 um, fields that women also are in. 1.00

04:34:49.960 Well, who, who brought up, uh, the actor from...

04:34:53.560 I did.

04:34:54.600 Oh, you did.

04:34:55.600 Emma, Emma Rolson.

04:34:56.600 She actually did quit shameless because they were not paying her the money.

04:34:59.660 Same with the scream woman, the lady who plays scream. 1.00

04:35:02.040 Can I ask you a question?

04:35:03.100 Um, do you think the extra on the set of a Brad Pitt movie should be paid the same as Brad

04:35:08.400 Pitt?

04:35:08.620 An extra?

04:35:10.240 That's different than a main character.

04:35:11.880 Okay, how about, sure, should the, should a brand new actor, who's also a main...

04:35:16.720 She's not brand new.

04:35:17.760 Hold on, just...

04:35:18.800 Okay, go ahead.

04:35:19.480 You can give your specifics after.

04:35:23.200 Brand new main character, co-starring with Brad Pitt, do you think that person should be

04:35:28.120 paid the same as Brad Pitt?

04:35:29.800 No.

04:35:30.660 Why?

04:35:31.580 Because she's an upcoming actress, it'd be like somebody with, uh, years of experience should

04:35:35.900 not be getting paid the same amount of money as someone who's just came into the field.

04:35:39.900 Okay, so now that we have that established, give me the specifics of this female actress 1.00

04:35:44.000 in your show.

04:35:44.680 So Emma Rolson's a very noble actress.

04:35:46.500 She played in numerous things.

04:35:47.960 I don't even know the guy who played Frank.

04:35:49.260 I don't know his name.

04:35:50.360 Is he the main guy?

04:35:51.320 The guy, the older guy?

04:35:51.780 Yeah, he's the father, yes.

04:35:53.100 I've seen like one episode of this show.

04:35:54.580 What's it called again?

04:35:55.320 Shameless?

04:35:55.680 Shameless.

04:35:56.000 I love that show.

04:35:57.200 Emma Rolson plays the Fiona, the bigger sister.

04:36:01.120 However...

04:36:01.600 The main character.

04:36:02.420 Wait, hold on.

04:36:02.980 A main character.

04:36:03.440 Shameless?

04:36:04.040 Yes.

04:36:04.500 What's his name?

04:36:05.420 I don't know the guy who plays Frank.

04:36:06.980 That's why...

04:36:07.460 William H. Macy?

04:36:08.240 Is that him?

04:36:08.640 Yeah, apparently he's a really big actor.

04:36:10.500 I mean, I don't only know him in Shameless.

04:36:11.860 Okay, he's 75.

04:36:13.340 And then Emma Rossum?

04:36:15.040 Yes.

04:36:15.540 Who's 38?

04:36:16.900 Yes.

04:36:17.320 Okay, and this show's been going on for a long time.

04:36:19.060 A long time, and she wasn't in the last, I think, season or two.

04:36:22.260 Wait, so hold on.

04:36:22.960 You're comparing a guy who's been in Hollywood for like decades, and you're surprised that

04:36:28.060 because of his seniority, he's being paid more for...

04:36:31.080 No, not necessarily.

04:36:32.460 She also is well-known in a lot of other movies.

04:36:35.480 She doesn't have... 1.00

04:36:36.160 And she removed her clothes on TV.

04:36:39.380 So?

04:36:39.940 Yeah.

04:36:40.680 So, well...

04:36:41.920 So?

04:36:42.300 They typically pay you more money.

04:36:44.020 They're supposed to pay you more money.

04:36:45.260 Like, I'm not about to get naked.

04:36:46.460 More money than, like, the guy who's been in Hollywood for decades upon decades.

04:36:49.460 But what I'm...

04:36:49.920 Okay, well...

04:36:50.820 Wait, hold on.

04:36:51.460 When...

04:36:51.700 How long has this show been going on?

04:36:53.140 Like, 12, 13 years.

04:36:54.960 Okay, okay.

04:36:55.540 Wait, okay.

04:36:55.960 It started 2011.

04:36:58.520 And ended in...

04:36:59.460 So she... 0.98

04:37:00.560 She's 38. 0.59

04:37:03.260 So she would have been like 22, 23, 24.

04:37:07.180 I'm sorry.

04:37:07.800 That's really young in...

04:37:09.180 That's very young in Hollywood.

04:37:10.440 Um, it's not surprising to me that the main character of the series was paid more than

04:37:16.200 his super, much younger female co-star.

04:37:18.800 They were all...

04:37:19.820 It does make sense.

04:37:20.300 She was... 0.97

04:37:21.260 She was also a main character, is what I'm saying.

04:37:25.180 And she's not, like, an upcoming new actress.

04:37:27.560 He's trying to make the point that she's still not as experienced.

04:37:30.920 She's not as senior as he is.

04:37:32.860 Yeah.

04:37:33.080 I don't even...

04:37:33.480 It's like seniority, of course, you're going to get paid more if you have more qualifications,

04:37:38.080 more experience.

04:37:38.900 All those things are going to equate to more pay.

04:37:41.460 And...

04:37:41.560 He has...

04:37:42.740 William Macy has two-time Emmy Awards, four-time Screen Actors Guild Award.

04:37:47.200 I don't know if this is from before the show.

04:37:48.900 I think this is not a great example.

04:37:50.220 Okay, I'll give you another example.

04:37:52.320 Okay, the girl... 0.99

04:37:53.040 Let's use... 0.74

04:37:53.360 Let's do the WNBA. 1.00

04:37:54.460 We have a women's basketball player here. 1.00

04:37:56.240 Well, I feel like the WNBA, we're getting paid based off views and tickets.

04:37:59.960 So, like, the men basketball, like, they're getting paid based off of views and tickets.

04:38:03.980 We'll come right back to this.

04:38:04.700 I need to let a couple chats come through.

04:38:06.500 Sorry for the delay on these guys.

04:38:08.100 I was so interested in talking about Shameless that I lost track.

04:38:14.360 Pastey George donated $200.

04:38:17.460 Thank you.

04:38:17.780 A feminist is a person who dislikes or hates the male gender and seeks control of men under 1.00

04:38:22.780 the guise of equality.

04:38:24.520 They seek the overthrow of the patriarchy.

04:38:27.580 Okay.

04:38:27.900 All ways of feminism have a cult origin. 0.98

04:38:30.500 Excuse me?

04:38:32.440 Wow.

04:38:33.040 Well...

04:38:33.400 Anybody disagree with Pastey George there?

04:38:36.160 She disagrees.

04:38:37.220 Why is that?

04:38:37.600 Really quick?

04:38:38.280 I think that's a little aggressive.

04:38:40.100 I think that's a little aggressive as well.

04:38:42.960 But you did say that there's...

04:38:44.100 He's Canadian, so just blame it for him being Canadian.

04:38:47.940 We have Britt.

04:38:49.340 Looks like Britt bought a hoodie from our merch store.

04:38:54.180 Thank you, guys.

04:38:55.020 That's coming in right now.

04:38:55.860 You don't need to pull it up.

04:38:56.580 It's fun.

04:38:57.300 Britt, thank you for that.

04:38:58.320 All these Twitches are coming through. 1.00

04:38:59.960 So then we have another one from Pastey here.

04:39:04.020 And then we'll get Sosh.

04:39:07.600 Thank you, man.

04:39:08.760 Britt, thank you for the t-shirt purchase.

04:39:10.220 Appreciate it.

04:39:11.260 Thank you.

04:39:11.500 Or sorry, not t-shirt.

04:39:12.320 You got a hoodie.

04:39:12.920 Thank you.

04:39:13.500 Appreciate it.

04:39:14.560 And then we have Pastey again.

04:39:15.840 Pastey George donated $200.

04:39:19.300 The Queen of England made many poor decisions during her reign, and she was responsible, along

04:39:25.220 with the Vatican and particular churches, for the residential school era and other atrocities

04:39:30.440 as well.

04:39:31.140 Oh.

04:39:31.560 Are you talking about what was going on in Canada?

04:39:33.220 Well, a pope is a male in the Vatican, so I don't really know the point of that one, but

04:39:39.120 a pope is a male, so.

04:39:42.360 Sure.

04:39:43.780 Wait.

04:39:44.600 When were we talking about the pope?

04:39:46.320 Well, because he brought up the Vatican.

04:39:47.820 Here, we have a chat from the wizard.

04:39:48.560 No, I think they're talking about the fire. 1.00

04:39:50.160 It's stupid to still believe in the pay gap. 0.96

04:39:51.880 Do some research, not just TikTok. 1.00

04:39:54.360 If you own a business and can pay equally qualified women less, you would only hire women. 0.99

04:39:59.160 All men would be fired. 0.98

04:40:00.600 Yeah, I heard.

04:40:01.900 It's a good argument.

04:40:02.760 Yeah, and I watched Candace Owens a lot, and she made, like, such a great point that just 0.89

04:40:06.880 a lot of the jobs that men do are just naturally higher paying, too, especially because they're

04:40:11.840 a little bit more dangerous, a little bit more intense, like firefighters.

04:40:14.640 Well, I get that.

04:40:15.220 We're not talking about job per job.

04:40:17.180 I'm not talking about same job.

04:40:18.000 No, but that's why the average, but that's why the average is different.

04:40:21.600 But it should be based on.

04:40:22.440 Yeah, we're not talking about that.

04:40:23.320 It should be based on the numbers.

04:40:24.300 No, but that is the wage gap.

04:40:26.240 So, what the.

04:40:27.900 Oh, I don't mean the average wage gap.

04:40:29.980 No, but the wage gap is, they say, women earn 79 cents to the dollar a man makes. 1.00

04:40:35.580 That stat that they were always, whatever, it's 83 cents, 80 cents.

04:40:38.300 I apologize for the, yeah.

04:40:39.700 The wage gap there is, what they're doing is, they're comparing all the money that men make,

04:40:44.800 all the women that money make, just doing a like-for-like comparison. 1.00

04:40:47.320 And it's completely, anybody who does statistics knows this is like actually like retarded. 1.00

04:40:54.820 You can't, you can't do an analysis like that and say sexism.

04:40:58.880 You have to start controlling for, okay, do men work more than women? 0.93

04:41:02.980 Do men work different jobs than women? 0.94

04:41:04.840 Are men more likely to relocate?

04:41:06.800 Are men more likely to work dangerous jobs?

04:41:10.680 Are men more likely to work overtime?

04:41:12.600 All these sorts of different things.

04:41:14.760 What kind of fields do men go in? 0.98

04:41:16.800 What kind of things do men study?

04:41:19.200 These sorts of things start to factor in.

04:41:21.620 And you, if you do the, the controlled wage gap, it shrinks to one cent.

04:41:28.240 One cent.

04:41:29.320 Accounted, account for all these variables.

04:41:32.160 Women earn one cent less than men. 0.56

04:41:34.260 Well, that's great.

04:41:37.020 Yeah.

04:41:37.100 I mean, even think about in the military, like when men do more of like, I don't know why 0.98

04:41:42.720 I can't think, like when they're like the ones who shoot, I can't think of the, infantry.

04:41:47.440 Yeah.

04:41:47.680 Combat.

04:41:48.280 Yeah.

04:41:48.480 They have higher pay because it's a more dangerous and hostile job.

04:41:52.460 And I get it should be that way.

04:41:54.060 And I was talking about more so like the payment in the same career field.

04:41:57.920 Sure, but even, so first off, back in the sixties, a law was passed.

04:42:03.360 If you're a woman and you can prove that your coworker is being paid more because they're 0.99

04:42:08.200 a man, uh, you can file a lawsuit and make a bunch of money.

04:42:11.960 So there's a law protecting women for that. 1.00

04:42:14.040 In addition, we really just don't see it.

04:42:18.280 We don't see it.

04:42:19.220 Also to his point, the person who sent in the TTS, if it was the case that you could

04:42:25.660 genuinely, and corporations don't, there's not like this idea in a corporation where,

04:42:32.180 oh, uh, we're just going to be really sexist for the sake of sexism.

04:42:35.980 And we're just going to ignore the fact if women are just as good as men, they work just 1.00

04:42:41.120 as hard.

04:42:41.860 Let's just go ahead and just keep hiring men. 0.61

04:42:44.660 And it's going to cost our company more.

04:42:46.060 We're going to be less competitive in the capitalist system.

04:42:49.800 We live in a capitalist system.

04:42:52.700 If you could get away with hiring women and saving 70% on your payroll, corporations, trust 1.00

04:42:59.080 me, would not hire men.

04:43:00.700 They would only hire women. 1.00

04:43:02.180 It's just not true.

04:43:03.380 Yep.

04:43:03.800 I mean, even, even with tattooing, like when I first started tattooing, I was, it was like

04:43:08.900 $30 a tattoo, you know, just to do flashes and stuff.

04:43:11.860 But now, like on average, I probably have 500 or more per client, but just as I've

04:43:16.560 gained experience and stuff like that.

04:43:18.480 And there's male tattoo artists who don't make as much as me.

04:43:21.340 And there's also some that make more than me and vice versa.

04:43:24.100 I'm more in like corporate world where it's not really like controlled by like the per,

04:43:28.420 like you are.

04:43:29.120 Yeah.

04:43:29.260 But I mean, still, even in corporate world, it's the same thing.

04:43:31.860 It's the concept of experience qualifications, like what, like where your level is.

04:43:37.780 That's how it should be, but it's not a lot.

04:43:40.140 Like my mom was in a lawsuit like four years ago because of people that she was in charge 0.96

04:43:46.340 of.

04:43:46.440 It's like the concept of not all.

04:43:48.480 I mean, there's always going to be like one or two instances, you know.

04:43:52.300 She did.

04:43:53.360 And she won under $20,000 and she was making over $400,000 a year.

04:44:00.980 So it didn't exactly go in her favor, but that's what happened.

04:44:03.920 So, well, she did get a payment, but it was under $20,000.

04:44:08.380 There was also sexual assault involved in the lawsuit as well.

04:44:10.860 Oh, well, okay.

04:44:11.540 Hold on.

04:44:11.880 Now you're smuggling in this other thing.

04:44:13.660 I'm not smuggling in it.

04:44:14.840 No, but if we're having a conversation about the wage gap.

04:44:17.800 No, but when you bring a lawsuit and it's, well, these people were underpaid.

04:44:21.580 Well, there was a lawsuit and then there was the.

04:44:24.980 Yeah.

04:44:25.240 Sexual harassment is different though.

04:44:26.580 Yeah.

04:44:27.200 That's wrong.

04:44:27.880 That's bad.

04:44:28.540 In total.

04:44:29.500 They're separate things.

04:44:30.720 Sorry.

04:44:30.920 I was just throwing that out.

04:44:31.580 I'm saying that she didn't make a lot of money off of that. 0.92

04:44:33.860 So like your argument that like you can make a crazy amount of money if you get paid less.

04:44:37.580 That's like not always true.

04:44:39.180 Like even with the sexual assault, like you were saying that you can, like if you file

04:44:43.740 a lawsuit because of that law, if you're getting paid less.

04:44:47.060 No, if you can prove that there's sexual discrimination in your company and you are being discriminated

04:44:52.080 against paid less.

04:44:52.900 And it doesn't always, but it doesn't always go that way.

04:44:54.680 Well, I actually don't think I made a claim.

04:44:56.440 Did I make a claim about how much money you can make?

04:44:58.840 You said you can make a lot of.

04:45:00.600 I suppose it depends.

04:45:02.780 Yeah.

04:45:03.260 You can bring a lawsuit though.

04:45:04.540 I was just bringing it up.

04:45:04.740 You can bring a lawsuit.

04:45:05.960 We have a chat.

04:45:06.960 Actually, I'm going to wait on that chat.

04:45:08.440 But I do wonder though, why does society care more about a female wage gap and not a male 0.98

04:45:15.880 death gap in the workplace?

04:45:18.720 It's actually crazy that you said that because I saw this one video on TikTok where it was

04:45:22.760 for men's mental health awareness.

04:45:25.400 And it was like this girl, like it was like the sound of a screaming noise.

04:45:29.180 And it was like when they say a moment of silence for men who've like committed suicide

04:45:33.320 and she's like screaming and dancing and like, it's just crazy.

04:45:37.960 Again, you bring that up.

04:45:39.180 I have to move off the wage gap stuff.

04:45:41.400 Really quick though, the basketball player, there was recently this controversy, the WNBA,

04:45:46.060 all these female players. 1.00

04:45:47.040 So basically NBA players, top NBA players make a lot of money, a lot of money.

04:45:52.000 WNBA players, they make like a hundred thousand a year. 0.99

04:45:56.280 Don't make a lot of money.

04:45:57.360 They were like, hey, we want to make more.

04:46:00.540 We want to be paid the same as the NBA players.

04:46:02.700 What do you think?

04:46:03.520 They need it.

04:46:04.920 Into the mic, please.

04:46:08.100 Just scoot your chair and it might help.

04:46:10.140 I can't.

04:46:10.640 There's no room.

04:46:11.040 Oh, okay.

04:46:11.600 That's fine then.

04:46:13.760 I feel like now for the – honestly, I watch college basketball more than WNBA.

04:46:21.040 Here, I'll just – go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

04:46:22.800 I think now it's different because I think everyone can agree that the WNBA got better.

04:46:30.940 People started watching it more when Angel Reese and Paige Beckers came in. 1.00

04:46:35.400 I think everyone can agree on that.

04:46:36.780 Okay, sure.

04:46:37.240 I'll go ahead and agree that the WNBA has gotten better than it used to be. 0.98

04:46:40.760 I think the NBA is very different than the WNBA and I –

04:46:46.440 So the question is, though, should WNBA players be paid the same as NBA players?

04:46:53.800 No.

04:46:54.360 If they want to be paid more, they need to –

04:46:55.860 Does anybody here think that?

04:46:57.280 Do you think that?

04:46:58.620 You mentioned the wage gap.

04:46:59.200 I mean, no, like if it's like the supply and demand, you know what I mean?

04:47:02.980 Do you think that?

04:47:03.760 Should the WNBA players be paid the same? 1.00

04:47:06.500 Don't they get paid based off fame?

04:47:07.300 I also don't really know anything about this.

04:47:09.500 That's why they need to increase booze. 1.00

04:47:11.600 I'm on the fence.

04:47:12.380 I would say it's a lot like minor league baseball players and major league baseball players.

04:47:18.480 I mean, the more – not many people watch WN – I don't think I've ever watched WNB,

04:47:22.800 so I don't even know any of the professional players.

04:47:25.220 So I would say it really depends on the player.

04:47:27.260 Like I think that's NBA the same thing.

04:47:30.560 I don't think that – I think that a good, fantastic WNB player,

04:47:35.400 just as good as a good NBA player should be paid the same.

04:47:38.840 But that's literally –

04:47:39.320 I think it depends on how much you're going to watch, though.

04:47:41.120 It's literally – I don't think you understand the difference of physicality between men and women.

04:47:45.120 No, I understand.

04:47:45.900 I do.

04:47:46.380 The best WNBA female player – hold on, WNBA –

04:47:52.040 will get absolutely scorched by like a top-level high school boy.

04:47:58.680 I was just about to say that, too.

04:48:00.000 Oh, yeah, of course.

04:48:00.280 And this isn't just the case in basketball.

04:48:02.620 It's the case –

04:48:03.040 Can you play basketball?

04:48:04.780 Why would that matter?

04:48:05.940 I'm just asking.

04:48:06.940 I'm literally just asking you.

04:48:08.640 No.

04:48:08.740 No, yeah.

04:48:09.840 A W – yeah, a W –

04:48:11.040 Wait, like an average high school boy could beat Paige Beckers. 0.75

04:48:14.220 No, he said top.

04:48:14.780 I'm saying like a top high school boy will smoke a WNBA player.

04:48:18.760 That's 100% absolutely not.

04:48:21.340 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

04:48:21.980 I know.

04:48:23.320 A top high school boy out of all the high schools or at like an average given high school?

04:48:29.200 Honestly, for – I mean –

04:48:31.720 With like bylaws, like is he really tall?

04:48:33.460 Is he like senior in high school?

04:48:34.320 Like is he like really tall?

04:48:35.620 I've seen –

04:48:36.300 I've seen –

04:48:36.820 I can – honestly, I can –

04:48:40.680 Look.

04:48:41.560 Go ahead.

04:48:41.940 It's okay.

04:48:42.500 Own it.

04:48:43.060 Own it.

04:48:43.520 Own it.

04:48:44.100 I'm a queen.

04:48:45.240 She plays basketball.

04:48:46.320 Because I'm thinking – I don't know if it –

04:48:47.900 We'll die.

04:48:48.760 Brandon – Tyron Stokes or Brandon McCoy.

04:48:51.480 Tyron Stokes is a large – he's a man.

04:48:53.980 He's a very large man.

04:48:55.340 Yeah.

04:48:57.980 Obviously, a man who is that big and that much stronger than a woman, they would obviously 1.00

04:49:03.240 clearly be a woman. 1.00

04:49:04.720 Dominate.

04:49:05.220 We so – I appreciate you saying that.

04:49:08.680 Thank you.

04:49:09.280 We see this happen in almost all sports.

04:49:11.680 It's like the – for example, the women's national soccer team – and this happens 0.98

04:49:15.820 in multiple countries – they will play against like the under-15 boys division and get fucking 0.98

04:49:22.060 scorched. 1.00

04:49:23.060 These are professional women. 0.99

04:49:24.680 They're at the top.

04:49:25.360 They're Olympics.

04:49:27.000 They're the Women's World Cup.

04:49:28.880 They are the national teams.

04:49:30.380 And I don't know why – why are you looking like that?

04:49:34.280 You look upset.

04:49:35.060 She's zoned out.

04:49:35.720 She's zoned out.

04:49:35.940 Oh, no.

04:49:36.140 You seem upset.

04:49:36.800 You seem upset that I'm just speaking facts.

04:49:38.140 Well, I literally – I honestly couldn't tell you what the last two sentences that you

04:49:41.980 said were.

04:49:42.120 Yeah, you're zoned out.

04:49:42.960 You don't want to hear the fact –

04:49:44.280 No.

04:49:44.780 I'm just – just give me a second.

04:49:46.320 I'm waking up.

04:49:47.100 I think waking up.

04:49:48.040 I think waking up.

04:49:48.120 Hold on.

04:49:48.440 Women are better at some things than men. 1.00

04:49:49.840 I can say that.

04:49:50.720 Yeah.

04:49:51.100 That's the same thing we sort of said earlier.

04:49:53.020 But sports –

04:49:53.200 Like, biologically, women are just not, like – 1.00

04:49:55.760 Yeah.

04:49:56.260 When it comes to sports, you can take, like, an amateur male athlete and he'll scorch a

04:50:01.640 woman who's a pro. 0.99

04:50:02.260 Well, that's why we have the whole transgenders in sports thing. 1.00

04:50:05.420 That's the –

04:50:05.820 Are you against that?

04:50:07.300 Yes.

04:50:07.620 I honestly keep my face out of that issue and I'm not transgender and I don't have transgender

04:50:13.220 feelings.

04:50:13.240 I'm totally against it.

04:50:14.700 I don't have transgender family.

04:50:16.680 I don't watch sports, so I don't care.

04:50:18.820 I'll take a strong position.

04:50:19.940 I don't think transgender people should be competing with women. 1.00

04:50:22.160 Hell, no. 0.99

04:50:22.540 I agree.

04:50:23.240 Okay.

04:50:23.580 I don't think so either.

04:50:24.500 I agree.

04:50:25.300 W Solo.

04:50:26.740 Do you play any sports solo?

04:50:28.360 Yeah.

04:50:28.660 I played water polo and I swam for 11 years.

04:50:31.900 Okay.

04:50:32.280 Wasn't there a summer of Penn State?

04:50:33.660 Oh, yeah.

04:50:34.320 The –

04:50:34.640 Leah Thomas.

04:50:35.400 Yes.

04:50:35.920 Leah Thomas.

04:50:36.680 And she was beating the women and some women didn't get to get medals or get to go off 1.00

04:50:41.580 to compete. 1.00

04:50:41.740 I think that is literally the most stupid thing anyone has ever thought was to compete. 1.00

04:50:46.060 W Solo. 0.99

04:50:46.860 Guys, W's in the chat for based solo over there.

04:50:50.400 Based solo.

04:50:51.180 Yeah.

04:50:51.740 And I do have transgender family members and I completely – I agree with it.

04:50:56.640 Well, even some transgender – a lot of transgender people say –

04:51:00.200 Are against it.

04:51:01.080 You should have your own division.

04:51:02.400 Wait, wait.

04:51:02.740 You should be in your own team.

04:51:03.380 You don't see no transgender to male competing in women.

04:51:06.200 I want to be part of this.

04:51:06.220 I mean, males – I mean, it's not fair. 1.00

04:51:08.340 You know what I mean?

04:51:09.120 Whatever, trans, whatever. 0.98

04:51:10.280 One of the girls –

04:51:10.820 And I love you guys.

04:51:11.460 I'm sorry.

04:51:12.340 Those that are watching are my friends who are trans.

04:51:14.020 Okay.

04:51:14.360 They don't care.

04:51:15.340 They do.

04:51:16.100 They do.

04:51:16.260 One of the girls at my – like, one of the high schools I transferred from, she recently

04:51:20.560 just won state for a triple jump.

04:51:23.020 And the runner-up or, like, they tied for first place was a transgendered female.

04:51:28.360 So, she technically won, but the person who, like –

04:51:33.660 They tied for first?

04:51:35.420 They just gave them – they both –

04:51:37.360 Gave them first. 0.62

04:51:38.440 Yes.

04:51:39.480 That's what happens.

04:51:40.080 Not as good as being the only person who's first, you know?

04:51:43.340 Right, that is.

04:51:43.780 They still screwed her over.

04:51:44.900 Yes, they did.

04:51:45.540 And she could have very closely lost that, you know?

04:51:48.160 Go ahead.

04:51:48.520 Me and my sister had, actually, like, a really long conversation about this topic because

04:51:51.600 she's an excellent runner, always has been. 0.66

04:51:53.880 Heavily involved in track all throughout school.

04:51:56.200 Mm-hmm.

04:51:56.440 And I think it's completely unfair because, like, let's say a woman from birth and then 1.00

04:52:04.820 a transgender woman both endure the same training all the way through, the transgender 0.71

04:52:10.600 person will always win because they're taller and can have more muscle.

04:52:15.600 And that is no discrimination towards transgender people at all.

04:52:19.180 I'm all for everyone do whatever the hell you want and you be that happy person.

04:52:23.320 It's just not fair.

04:52:24.120 It's not fair.

04:52:24.940 It's not fair.

04:52:25.480 You just want things to be fair.

04:52:26.440 Because, honestly, I played softball and I played a little bit of college softball and

04:52:30.500 I'm not going to lie, I would be terrified if, like, a 5'10 transgender was up to bat 1.00

04:52:35.840 and I played third base.

04:52:36.980 I'm not going to lie, I'd be scared.

04:52:38.360 I would be mad if I lost.

04:52:40.060 I'd be terrified.

04:52:41.400 Like, first place to a biological male, I would be pissed.

04:52:44.080 Pissed?

04:52:44.560 I would be really pissed.

04:52:45.340 Pissed?

04:52:45.900 Yes.

04:52:46.760 All right, well, look, ultimately.

04:52:49.040 It's such a hard topic, though, because then it's like, okay, I don't think it's...

04:52:51.100 It's not that hard.

04:52:52.260 It's not that hard.

04:52:53.620 No, it is because one category.

04:52:55.480 If you want to mention the women who want to play sports, who are they supposed to be? 1.00

04:52:57.620 They should have their own team.

04:52:59.440 Yeah, either have their own team.

04:53:00.820 Or they should be, like, able to do that.

04:53:03.000 Yeah, their own team or still be in, like, play with males.

04:53:06.380 And I feel like it would be unfair for the trans people not to understand where we as women

04:53:10.200 are coming from because it's, like, it's not fair for us to compete in that same room

04:53:14.140 when it's, like, you clearly have an advantage.

04:53:16.240 Isn't water polo, like, really physical?

04:53:18.180 Extremely.

04:53:18.420 Like, you don't want, like, people, like...

04:53:20.000 I wouldn't want a man-touching kid in there.

04:53:21.880 I played with the guys. 0.99

04:53:23.040 They're gross. 0.96

04:53:23.520 I played hockey. 1.00

04:53:24.580 I would shit my pants in, like, a 6'2". 1.00

04:53:26.480 That's what I'm saying. 1.00

04:53:27.620 This person coming at me.

04:53:29.780 Again, getting a line drive by a man right at their base, that's real close.

04:53:33.900 That's real close.

04:53:35.220 We've ever seen South Park.

04:53:36.680 Well, because I feel like for sports, it's not even about, like, gender or what you identify as.

04:53:41.780 Whatever the hell.

04:53:42.620 It has nothing to do with it.

04:53:43.860 It's about what you are bored as and what you are by a lot of time and what you're capable of doing.

04:53:49.200 Got Pasty George here.

04:53:52.040 Thank you, man.

04:53:52.680 Appreciate it.

04:53:53.080 When the WMBA wasn't doing so well, it started to blame men for its low ratings and low ticket sales.

04:54:00.120 My question is, where were all the women and feminists? 1.00

04:54:04.260 Why were they not supporting it?

04:54:06.340 Women have different interests. 1.00

04:54:08.040 I feel like women aren't, generally speaking, as into sports as men are.

04:54:12.560 It's okay.

04:54:13.020 Women just have... 1.00

04:54:14.220 That goes into what you said earlier.

04:54:15.740 Like watching sports.

04:54:16.380 They pick and choose.

04:54:17.660 Feminists pick and choose what is actually the best benefit. 1.00

04:54:20.100 Also, the WMBA loses money.

04:54:23.760 It's been a...

04:54:25.720 Nick was an NBA draft, but he hurt his knee.

04:54:30.820 No way.

04:54:31.080 He's a tall...

04:54:31.640 I'm serious.

04:54:32.480 Nick, tall guy.

04:54:34.520 I don't like to brag.

04:54:35.160 Handsome guy.

04:54:36.100 Very handsome.

04:54:37.460 Very handsome.

04:54:38.520 Looking very sharp in his little blue light.

04:54:41.180 What do you mean by that?

04:54:41.800 What are the blue light blocking glasses there?

04:54:45.880 He hurt his knee, man.

04:54:47.540 And unfortunately, now he works for the whatever podcast. 1.00

04:54:52.900 Fuck, man. 1.00

04:54:53.600 That sucks, dude. 1.00

04:54:54.720 Anyways. 0.98

04:54:55.780 So, okay.

04:54:56.780 We're going to move off the wage gap stuff, I guess.

04:55:01.000 We were...

04:55:01.780 Oh, speaking of transgender stuff, though, I guess we can relate it to dating.

04:55:04.760 Do you guys think that...

04:55:08.660 Do you think it's straight? 0.98

04:55:10.380 It's gay. 1.00

04:55:11.560 It's gay as hell. 1.00

04:55:13.740 I would never... 1.00

04:55:14.820 It's gay. 1.00

04:55:15.220 No, it's gay. 0.98

04:55:15.740 Personally, it's my preference.

04:55:17.480 I could not... 0.94

04:55:18.320 But it's gay. 0.90

04:55:19.920 I was one...

04:55:20.400 Guys, Solo's pretty based.

04:55:22.460 I gotta say she's pretty based, you know. 0.87

04:55:24.600 Played water polo, you know.

04:55:26.460 Yeah, that's pretty cool.

04:55:27.240 Yeah, she's pretty based. 1.00

04:55:28.980 Okay, good talk.

04:55:30.440 Good talk.

04:55:30.980 Anybody, you know...

04:55:32.500 I don't think it's gay.

04:55:34.320 You do or don't?

04:55:35.780 I don't.

04:55:36.960 You don't.

04:55:37.880 Okay.

04:55:38.000 I mean, like, if...

04:55:40.160 Oh, this is such a sensitive topic.

04:55:41.960 Oh, let's see.

04:55:42.440 If a man transitioned to a woman, or a transgender woman, like, still had, like, everything of 0.95

04:55:53.780 a man, and then was with opposite sex, and they were, like, doing things together, I

04:55:59.860 guess?

04:56:00.920 It's kind of confusing.

04:56:01.940 Yeah, but I mean, a fake vajayjay isn't a vajayjay, so... 0.99

04:56:05.800 It's not pussy. 1.00

04:56:06.780 Yeah. 0.99

04:56:07.060 Not the same thing.

04:56:07.840 Big labia matter. 1.00

04:56:08.420 I'm gonna opt out of this conversation.

04:56:10.520 I think... 0.91

04:56:10.880 It's not vagina. 1.00

04:56:12.000 It's okay. 0.96

04:56:12.560 You don't...

04:56:12.920 Look, I think...

04:56:14.780 Look, even if you get the bottom surgery or whatever, nah.

04:56:21.020 It doesn't make you a woman. 1.00

04:56:22.240 That's still a...

04:56:22.640 That's still a male.

04:56:24.200 That's still a male. 0.96

04:56:25.200 Still pretty gay. 1.00

04:56:26.800 I think to each their own, but personally, I don't think I could.

04:56:31.180 She couldn't do it.

04:56:32.700 Solo over there can't do it.

04:56:34.240 Well, yeah, but that just goes down to preferences again.

04:56:37.460 Yeah.

04:56:38.780 I guess, ultimately, look, even granting that you can change your gender, you can't change 1.00

04:56:43.580 your sex, so if we're talking about heterosexuality, homosexuality, gay, straight, this is short 0.72

04:56:52.240 form slang for either homosexuality, heterosexuality, you can't change your sex, you can put on a 1.00

04:56:57.780 wig, get fake titties, even chop your dick off, get the fake vagina, whatever. 1.00

04:57:05.260 You're still a male. 1.00

04:57:07.460 You're still a male.

04:57:08.620 Your gender identity can be that of a woman. 0.95

04:57:10.620 You're still a male. 0.99

04:57:11.360 Two males having sex is gay. 0.99

04:57:14.740 That's technically homosexual. 0.93

04:57:17.280 There's, like, a meme that where I don't know how he says it, but he says it so funny. 0.86

04:57:20.860 It's gay. 1.00

04:57:23.080 Yeah. 0.96

04:57:23.580 Anyways, we have Pasty George here.

04:57:26.440 Thank you, man.

04:57:27.160 Appreciate it.

04:57:27.500 Pasty George donated $200.

04:57:30.720 Trans should not be in women's sports at all. 1.00

04:57:33.860 It is unfair to the biological women in their athletic fields and takes away their hard work 1.00

04:57:39.020 and dedication.

04:57:40.240 Yep.

04:57:43.120 Word.

04:57:44.840 Word.

04:57:45.740 Look, the reality is...

04:57:46.980 How much money has Pasty George donated?

04:57:49.240 This is nothing to him.

04:57:51.440 Watch this. 1.00

04:57:52.220 Check the shit. 1.00

04:57:53.140 Pasty George. 1.00

04:57:54.180 Hit me up later.

04:57:55.720 Champagne pop, Pasty. 0.98

04:57:56.720 Go ahead.

04:57:57.080 Oh, do you want me to set you up with him?

04:58:00.960 Oh, yeah.

04:58:02.380 Okay.

04:58:03.100 She's Pasty George. 1.00

04:58:04.800 Do you want to take her on a date, Pasty George? 0.96

04:58:09.400 Hit me up.

04:58:11.140 You want to take her on a date? 1.00

04:58:12.340 I don't know.

04:58:12.760 Do you like Canadian guys?

04:58:15.060 If his name is Pasty George, I like him.

04:58:17.500 He's tall.

04:58:18.560 He's handsome.

04:58:19.320 He's Native American. 1.00

04:58:21.220 Huge penis. 1.00

04:58:22.960 Oh, you know. 1.00

04:58:24.380 He told me. 1.00

04:58:24.640 So, I actually like vaginas. 1.00

04:58:26.720 Fake vaginas. 1.00

04:58:27.800 You're... 1.00

04:58:28.320 Okay.

04:58:28.800 So...

04:58:29.360 So, he should transition into a...

04:58:32.040 You want to just get...

04:58:32.940 Everyone thinks I'm gay, but I'm not.

04:58:34.400 You want to just...

04:58:35.120 Wait, you...

04:58:35.680 Wait.

04:58:36.040 Are you joking?

04:58:36.820 I'm joking.

04:58:37.560 I like men.

04:58:38.540 I was...

04:58:39.540 Because maybe somebody or...

04:58:40.780 Some people are into that.

04:58:42.460 So, no. 0.99

04:58:43.680 The fake vagina. 1.00

04:58:44.520 I'm good. 1.00

04:58:45.340 But, yeah.

04:58:45.900 Hit me up, Pasty George. 0.98

04:58:47.860 Boom.

04:58:48.420 Hit her up, Pasty George. 0.99

04:58:50.500 Hit her up. 1.00

04:58:52.740 Wait.

04:58:53.160 Hold on.

04:58:53.600 Did he send another one, this guy?

04:58:54.980 Oh, my goodness.

04:58:56.000 Oh, wait.

04:58:56.480 No.

04:58:56.560 He didn't.

04:58:57.220 He's going to be like, I don't want you, you feminist. 1.00

04:59:02.420 Wait.

04:59:02.820 Did he?

04:59:03.300 Wait.

04:59:03.700 A straight...

04:59:04.100 Did he...

04:59:04.500 The one that just came through.

04:59:05.500 A straight man and a trans woman. 0.58

04:59:07.760 Did this one just...

04:59:08.580 Is this the one that just came through?

04:59:11.120 Am I...

04:59:12.340 Did this one come through?

04:59:14.060 Or is it about the...

04:59:14.860 Pasty George donated $200.

04:59:16.860 Did it already come through? 0.99

04:59:17.420 A straight man and a trans woman entering into a relationship is absolutely gay. 0.99

04:59:21.960 As fact. 0.98

04:59:22.980 Unless the trans woman gets an actual Joyful. 1.00

04:59:26.340 But the tech is not at that advanced level yet.

04:59:30.080 Oh, wait.

04:59:31.020 You're saying...

04:59:31.960 Oh, that's interesting. 0.99

04:59:32.280 But if the vagina is really good, I guess. 1.00

04:59:34.680 Joyful, it got the sensor, whatever, change it. 1.00

04:59:37.580 It's vagina. 1.00

04:59:38.680 An actual vagina instead of Joyful. 1.00

04:59:42.260 Oh, so like, what if a transgender person got a vagina transplant? 1.00

04:59:47.980 So it's a real vagina. 1.00

04:59:50.600 Still no. 0.99

04:59:51.080 Still no.

04:59:51.400 Still...

04:59:52.000 Still no uterus in there. 1.00

04:59:53.680 That's still...

04:59:54.960 Still no babies.

04:59:56.220 I don't know.

04:59:57.400 Honestly? 1.00

04:59:59.200 Fuck. 1.00

04:59:59.860 No. 1.00

05:00:00.020 There was a video... 0.68

05:00:00.720 I'm gonna say it's still gay. 1.00

05:00:02.340 Yeah.

05:00:02.820 There was this video...

05:00:03.420 It ain't straight.

05:00:04.140 ...of this one transgender woman who said that she wanted a uterus transplant to be the 0.80

05:00:09.060 first trans to get an abortion. 1.00

05:00:11.500 What the fuck? 1.00

05:00:11.960 Okay, but that's like crazy, like... 1.00

05:00:13.540 That shit's... 1.00

05:00:14.020 That's crazy. 1.00

05:00:14.540 That's like crazy people.

05:00:15.820 Yeah.

05:00:16.360 That's not like...

05:00:17.040 Absolutely why.

05:00:17.880 The average trans person. 0.93

05:00:19.060 Like, get pregnant just to get rid of it? 1.00

05:00:22.240 Yeah.

05:00:22.880 That's crazy.

05:00:23.780 That's what she said.

05:00:24.520 I don't do that.

05:00:26.560 Yeah.

05:00:26.900 When I saw that, I was taken off guard by that.

05:00:31.320 Let's just rage bait.

05:00:32.800 Final thing on the wage gap thing.

05:00:35.880 Quick...

05:00:35.920 Wait, why?

05:00:37.260 Oh my god, relax.

05:00:38.060 Go back.

05:00:39.000 So, rapid fire, show of hands, are you attracted to men who are successful?

05:00:46.680 Rapid fire, raise them high, raise them high.

05:00:49.060 Not like Elon Musk, though.

05:00:50.500 Okay.

05:00:51.560 Are you attracted to men who make a lot of money?

05:00:54.680 Or will make a lot of money?

05:00:56.400 Pasty George.

05:00:58.100 Are you attracted to men with status?

05:01:01.240 So, this could be like fame, or they're like at the top.

05:01:03.200 Purely off of this?

05:01:05.440 Status.

05:01:05.960 Like, so it could be fame.

05:01:06.880 Like, am I attracted...

05:01:07.500 Like, you're asking me if I'm attracted to a man purely off the fact that he has money?

05:01:10.200 Status.

05:01:10.800 So, status would be...

05:01:11.460 Like, he's famous.

05:01:12.320 Wait, no, but like, not only that.

05:01:13.380 Like, just because he's famous?

05:01:14.860 Or, like, is this an add-on to it?

05:01:16.300 Status could be fame, but it could also be he's, like, he's not famous, but he's the

05:01:20.160 top of his field, or like...

05:01:21.560 No, but do we mean...

05:01:22.420 But do you mean, like, are we attracted to him only because of that and everything else

05:01:25.820 is bad?

05:01:26.120 No, no, no, no, no, no.

05:01:27.000 Oh, yeah.

05:01:27.600 It's just one.

05:01:28.340 It's just a one thing.

05:01:30.000 Okay, yeah.

05:01:30.640 Like, are you attracted to guys who are funny?

05:01:32.900 Obviously, you want more than just that, though.

05:01:34.660 Okay.

05:01:34.980 Yeah.

05:01:35.140 So, do you want a man who's a leader?

05:01:37.000 Show of hands.

05:01:38.480 Do you want a man who takes charge?

05:01:40.520 Show of hands.

05:01:41.560 Do you want a man who takes initiative?

05:01:43.960 Do you want a man to make the first move? 0.89

05:01:46.020 Might as well keep...

05:01:46.580 Do you want a man to plan the date?

05:01:48.560 Do you want a man to pay for the first date? 1.00

05:01:50.460 This is an important one.

05:01:51.460 Show your hands.

05:01:52.660 Okay.

05:01:53.120 Do you want a man to go for the first kiss? 1.00

05:01:55.420 To make the move for the first kiss?

05:01:57.720 Okay.

05:01:59.240 Do you want a man, like, deeper into the relationship?

05:02:02.260 Do you want to be 50-50? 0.51

05:02:03.320 Or do you want him to still take care of things in the relationship?

05:02:06.020 I know some of you guys are young, so you're probably not going to...

05:02:08.520 I don't know.

05:02:09.040 ...get that dynamic at 18, but...

05:02:11.160 Yeah, that's one thing that you, like, for me, like, as a college student, like, a

05:02:15.600 broke college student, like, I know that everyone around me is also struggling to,

05:02:18.960 like, get on their feet.

05:02:19.560 No, exactly.

05:02:19.960 So, I can't go on a first date with a guy and expect him to drop $50 on the both of us.

05:02:23.900 I mean, even the first date, that's probably okay, but he's probably not

05:02:26.380 going to be, like, able...

05:02:27.800 A college guy's not going to be able to take care of you. 0.77

05:02:29.200 I think first date is...

05:02:30.220 First date is...

05:02:31.760 I feel like...

05:02:32.260 I mean, it would be nice, but, like, if it was split, I'm not going to sit there and

05:02:35.940 be like, oh, my God, you're broke.

05:02:36.980 Oh, no, me neither.

05:02:38.060 You know what I mean?

05:02:38.520 Yeah.

05:02:39.140 Oh, do you want a man... 0.95

05:02:40.520 Yeah.

05:02:41.420 Maybe...

05:02:41.860 I know some of you are young, maybe when you're a bit older.

05:02:43.740 Do you want a man to take care of all the bills? 1.00

05:02:47.260 Yeah. 0.99

05:02:48.440 If I'm doing shit in return. 0.93

05:02:51.060 Okay. 0.99

05:02:51.620 Do you want...

05:02:53.540 Who here wants to have kids? 1.00

05:02:54.680 Show of hands.

05:02:56.280 No kids.

05:02:56.940 Hell no.

05:02:57.800 Hell no.

05:02:58.360 I don't know. 1.00

05:02:59.200 She had a rough patch at 14 and ever since she'd be like, fuck that shit. 1.00

05:03:03.680 Okay. 1.00

05:03:04.620 Who here wants to...

05:03:05.760 Those of you who do want to have kids want to take a few years off from work when you

05:03:10.600 do have kids.

05:03:11.640 If I did, I would.

05:03:12.820 A bit of time...

05:03:13.400 Some time off, a couple years off.

05:03:15.120 Maybe you want two or three kids, you know, whatever.

05:03:17.440 Anybody here want to be a stay-at-home mom while your husband works? 1.00

05:03:21.600 Beautiful.

05:03:21.920 Thank you, everybody, for participating.

05:03:25.660 This is why the gender wage gap... 1.00

05:03:29.040 It's not because of sexism.

05:03:30.580 It's not because of sexism.

05:03:31.900 It's because of a mating pressure that women one-directionally put on men that isn't in 1.00

05:03:40.020 the reverse.

05:03:40.940 So all these things I listed, most of these things I listed, it's one-directional for

05:03:46.580 men, or excuse me, women want these things in men. 0.87

05:03:49.840 Men typically don't want these things in women. 0.99

05:03:51.840 Men, if this is the case, if even just on one of these, and I listed like 10, 15 different

05:03:58.000 ones, even just the men should pay for first dates, if that's the only thing you raised 0.98

05:04:01.680 your hand to, if, I don't know what the percentage is, let's say it's 50% of women, 1.00

05:04:07.640 I think it's more, maybe, who knows, whatever, 50% of women want men to pay for the first 1.00

05:04:11.700 date.

05:04:13.200 This is a sociological thing that creates a pressure on men that doesn't exist in the

05:04:18.800 reverse.

05:04:19.600 Men would thus be more motivated to make money because there's no, there's no burden

05:04:25.880 on women to be providers or pay on first dates.

05:04:29.500 If women create a- 1.00

05:04:30.040 Lucky cooking right now.

05:04:31.060 Thank you.

05:04:31.400 Thank you.

05:04:31.760 Thank you, Bella.

05:04:32.580 Appreciate it.

05:04:33.160 You're my cheerleader here.

05:04:34.800 If, if men are then more, there's more of a reason, there's more motivation to achieve,

05:04:42.040 to become high status, to make money, to make a lot of money so that women find you more 0.98

05:04:47.980 appealing.

05:04:49.560 This is going to create a dynamic where men are more motivated, where men are more invested

05:04:56.700 in making money.

05:04:58.840 Not to say that there's a complete lack thereof in women. 1.00

05:05:02.660 Obviously people want money for a variety of reasons, not just for romantic, having better

05:05:07.700 romantic prospects, obviously you need money to survive, but there's this additional dynamic

05:05:13.460 that happens to men that doesn't happen to women.

05:05:16.380 Like no guy's not going to, Oh, you don't want to, you don't want to pay for me.

05:05:22.680 Cause some women, if the guy won't pay for the whole meal, she won't date him. 1.00

05:05:27.580 She, there won't be a second date to checks.

05:05:30.700 He says, two checks.

05:05:31.640 Oh, you want to be friends?

05:05:34.300 Okay.

05:05:35.140 Goodbye.

05:05:36.120 This never happens in the reverse.

05:05:38.340 Never happens in the reverse.

05:05:40.060 So the wage gap is because of you guys.

05:05:46.360 I'll own that.

05:05:47.540 It's because of women holding men to more traditional gender roles, being the leader, being the provider, 0.99

05:05:54.360 paying for dates, et cetera.

05:05:55.840 I think that would, if the, I deny that there's a wage gap, whatever.

05:05:59.520 If the wage gap even existed though, it would be explained away by the fact that men, women 1.00

05:06:06.140 have these expectations on men and it's never in the reverse.

05:06:10.060 Well, you expect us to be submissive, right?

05:06:14.220 Uh, yeah, sure.

05:06:15.820 So aren't we providing stuff?

05:06:17.960 Oh, well, so when I say providing, I'm just talking financially.

05:06:20.880 Women do provide like in other metrics. 1.00

05:06:24.140 I don't know if providing is the right word.

05:06:26.580 You're bringing other things to the table.

05:06:28.100 But I'm just speaking financially here.

05:06:30.380 If we're talking about the wage gap, of course, it relates to finances.

05:06:34.120 Y'all women want men to pay for first dates? 1.00

05:06:37.560 Maybe there should be a wage gap. 1.00

05:06:38.940 Shit, I don't know. 0.99

05:06:39.520 I've dated people before I made more money than them. 0.99

05:06:42.340 So I can't relate to any of this because I've never really cared for, I mean, I don't

05:06:46.900 want to date somebody who makes you less than me only because it's that threshold of taking

05:06:53.080 care of another grown person.

05:06:55.040 Look, just to be clear, I'm speaking in very general terms.

05:06:57.620 Well, I got you. 0.77

05:06:58.240 Women do date bummy dudes. 1.00

05:07:00.100 No, they do.

05:07:00.800 Women will sometimes even hold a guy down. 1.00

05:07:03.400 Maybe you've done it.

05:07:04.240 I don't know.

05:07:04.560 You make a lot of money.

05:07:05.700 Maybe you dealt with a dude where you were the one who was taking care of the stuff.

05:07:10.840 Sounds like a yes.

05:07:12.160 I have.

05:07:14.060 Yeah?

05:07:14.260 Me too.

05:07:16.040 I was, I dated a guy who, oh, I'm so sorry.

05:07:19.620 I dated a guy that I had a car.

05:07:24.080 He didn't.

05:07:24.600 So I drove us everywhere.

05:07:25.680 I paid for everything.

05:07:27.200 I did literally everything.

05:07:29.940 And then that's like, that was a big part of our fallout because I was like, I want to

05:07:34.200 be, you got tired of doing it.

05:07:38.200 Yeah, because that's just not what I want.

05:07:39.720 I don't mind like spoiling my partner.

05:07:42.820 The guy was Big Spoon.

05:07:43.900 Like, come on.

05:07:45.380 You know?

05:07:45.860 I agree.

05:07:46.620 Wait, the guy was Big Spoon or Little Spoon?

05:07:48.400 I was Big Spoon.

05:07:49.380 You were Big Spoon.

05:07:50.140 Yes.

05:07:50.580 I was top dog.

05:07:51.540 I wore the pants. 1.00

05:07:52.280 Look, women have had that shit on lock for a minute. 1.00

05:07:55.120 But actually, Little Spoon is kind of where it's at. 1.00

05:07:58.260 But every time.

05:08:00.040 You have to jetpack me.

05:08:03.400 That's superior.

05:08:05.700 The more comfortable superior position is obviously the woman's the Big Spoon. 1.00

05:08:10.620 All right.

05:08:12.340 Tough crowd.

05:08:13.240 I need to get up for a sec.

05:08:15.020 Felicity, you're going to do these ones right here. 0.99

05:08:17.980 Okay.

05:08:18.660 One sec.

05:08:19.280 Or actually, let me do one chat coming through.

05:08:21.780 And then boom.

05:08:24.220 Pasty George donated $200.

05:08:27.580 I ran out of space.

05:08:29.340 Unless the trans gets an actual vagager and the chroma sums are changed from time to 20. 0.65

05:08:35.280 However, our tech is not there yet.

05:08:37.440 I'm going to have it again.

05:08:39.140 George.

05:08:39.840 I get it.

05:08:40.580 Pasty George, she wants you. 1.00

05:08:41.600 Give me some love.

05:08:42.760 What's going on?

05:08:43.720 You just ignored her.

05:08:46.420 Anyways.

05:08:47.100 That's it.

05:08:47.680 So I have a question.

05:08:48.820 Would you rather cross paths with a random man?

05:08:51.440 Do the first one.

05:08:53.060 Okay.

05:08:53.260 What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband? 0.99

05:08:58.380 Can you say that again?

05:08:59.480 What would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband? 0.99

05:09:02.920 Oh, I don't know.

05:09:03.920 I don't have that.

05:09:04.620 It doesn't really matter.

05:09:05.680 He'd have to match mine or at least more.

05:09:08.020 Yeah.

05:09:08.380 That?

05:09:09.720 Mine or at least more.

05:09:11.100 No, but like what is that?

05:09:12.440 Like what's the number?

05:09:13.320 Or a range?

05:09:14.900 Whatever it is in the moment.

05:09:16.260 Yeah.

05:09:17.500 Oh, you're saying like in the future, whatever you're making.

05:09:20.080 Whatever I'm making now.

05:09:21.620 And if he can meet that with me now, then that's fine.

05:09:25.400 But that would also be a discussion between me and my significant other and whoever that is a prospect to.

05:09:31.980 Do you have like a range or like an idea?

05:09:37.040 What?

05:09:37.720 Do you?

05:09:38.540 Yeah, I do.

05:09:39.260 Okay.

05:09:39.500 How much?

05:09:40.340 150.

05:09:41.180 Okay, cool.

05:09:41.820 That's a good start.

05:09:43.040 Yeah, but what's your answer?

05:09:46.160 Definitely more than that.

05:09:48.520 Okay.

05:09:49.020 So what's more like 160?

05:09:51.620 If that's the answer that you want to give and roll for it, go for it.

05:09:56.260 I'm asking.

05:09:57.920 It's not like to hurt your feelings.

05:09:59.880 I don't know if you're feeling offended.

05:10:01.980 Roll back the clips from last time, if anybody can find that.

05:10:07.020 Whoa, I wasn't there for that.

05:10:08.740 What happened?

05:10:10.100 All I'm saying is that he would have to meet mine or if not exceed that.

05:10:14.960 So if you're looking for a specific number.

05:10:18.200 Yeah, I am looking for like a range.

05:10:20.860 Okay.

05:10:21.220 Okay, anyways, what about you?

05:10:25.880 I'm 18.

05:10:26.760 I don't know.

05:10:27.220 I, my like last boyfriend worked at the gym side.

05:10:34.840 Like in the future?

05:10:35.760 I'm like an hourly wage.

05:10:36.640 I don't.

05:10:38.080 As much as however I make.

05:10:39.840 I mean, actually, no, that's not true.

05:10:41.600 If I love him, I love him.

05:10:42.480 Maybe he's pursuing some like art stuff.

05:10:44.760 He doesn't make that much money.

05:10:45.860 It's not really that important to me.

05:10:46.880 Do you want kids?

05:10:48.380 Yeah, but that would be like a discussion that we would have about like, which, who's, like

05:10:53.720 how are we going to make that work?

05:10:55.180 You know, and be like, I expect him to be making the money.

05:10:58.360 I don't know.

05:10:58.760 It just kind of depends on the situation.

05:11:00.320 I'm just not really there yet.

05:11:02.260 Okay.

05:11:02.820 What about you?

05:11:04.340 I'm too young to know.

05:11:07.020 Arrange or something?

05:11:08.340 I don't really, I don't know.

05:11:08.940 Like in the future, do you want kids?

05:11:10.760 No, I don't want kids.

05:11:11.880 How much would you be making at 30?

05:11:13.320 I don't know.

05:11:13.980 If I am successful in my ambitions, I'll be making hopefully a lot.

05:11:20.040 What do you want to do?

05:11:20.960 You want to do cosmetology, right?

05:11:22.140 Like hair?

05:11:22.820 Yeah, cosmetology, like extensions, braiding, dreadlocks.

05:11:25.660 That would be like my stable income, but I want to like pursue music fully.

05:11:31.620 Okay.

05:11:31.940 Like I plan to go on The Voice.

05:11:33.920 I already have a pretty good platform on social media, on TikTok.

05:11:39.100 If that goes well and I actually become a singer-songwriter and I'm doing expensive extensions on people,

05:11:46.380 I think I'll be pretty good.

05:11:49.380 Pretty loaded.

05:11:50.000 I'm going to hit you up for some extensions.

05:11:51.700 Hit me up.

05:11:52.420 I'm really good at tapings.

05:11:53.740 Oh, you are?

05:11:54.500 I am.

05:11:55.020 I shaved my head when I was 14.

05:11:57.440 It's for fun.

05:11:59.020 Why?

05:11:59.340 I lived in the middle of the woods.

05:12:00.940 I had nothing to lose.

05:12:02.720 I think.

05:12:03.760 I literally just shaved my head.

05:12:05.600 And as it was growing out, I was like, let me get tapings.

05:12:09.600 And I'm like, they looked great.

05:12:11.420 I missed them a lot.

05:12:12.720 I had tapings.

05:12:13.500 It didn't work out.

05:12:14.380 Really?

05:12:15.660 I got you, girl.

05:12:16.340 Hit me up.

05:12:17.400 Thanks.

05:12:17.920 Okay.

05:12:18.120 What about you?

05:12:18.600 I don't know because I don't know what I will be doing.

05:12:23.460 I'm going to do some sort of business, but I don't know what specifically yet, but something

05:12:28.620 in that field.

05:12:29.780 You want kids? 0.85

05:12:30.960 Yes.

05:12:31.320 Do you want to stay home after you have kids?

05:12:33.560 No.

05:12:33.780 No.

05:12:33.940 So you would like just take your maternity leave that you can then go back to work? 1.00

05:12:38.880 I want to work.

05:12:39.960 Okay.

05:12:40.600 So you kind of like split it with your husband?

05:12:44.540 And there's not, you said business, right?

05:12:47.020 You don't know a specific range?

05:12:48.580 Like over a hundred thousand?

05:12:50.380 I don't know.

05:12:51.960 I just want to make a lot of money.

05:12:53.680 We're just starting, girl.

05:12:54.660 I just want to make a lot of money.

05:12:55.280 We're just starting.

05:12:56.380 Well, where do you live?

05:12:58.180 Or where do you want to live in the future?

05:13:00.100 I don't know.

05:13:02.400 I don't know.

05:13:02.960 We're just babies.

05:13:03.840 We don't know.

05:13:04.260 Fresh out of high school.

05:13:05.440 We don't know.

05:13:05.840 Working on it. 0.99

05:13:06.440 We got my shit planned. 0.99

05:13:07.660 It's okay. 0.89

05:13:08.460 I appreciate you guys, I guess, giving me a kind of answer.

05:13:14.060 What about you?

05:13:14.860 I would like my husband to ideally make $200,000 or over, and I do want kids, and I want to

05:13:26.260 go to part-time after I have kids, or stay home.

05:13:29.400 Yeah, you live in Santa Barbara County, right?

05:13:31.380 Yeah.

05:13:31.900 So it makes sense.

05:13:33.440 What about you?

05:13:34.540 Probably like at least $80,000, but again, I live in Oklahoma, and then my boyfriend lives

05:13:39.120 in Ohio, so it's a little bit cheaper.

05:13:41.920 What is the median income for Oklahoma?

05:13:44.860 I couldn't honestly tell you.

05:13:46.500 I think like minimum wage might be like, I don't want to be wrong, but I really think

05:13:52.680 it's under, yeah, I was about to say, I think it's $7.50, but on average, like when I work

05:13:57.100 say for dispensaries or 7-Eleven, I was making like $11.50 to $12.50.

05:14:01.920 In Oklahoma?

05:14:02.660 Yeah. 1.00

05:14:03.080 Damn. 1.00

05:14:03.600 Damn. 1.00

05:14:04.100 That's it? 1.00

05:14:04.640 That's where to work in Oklahoma, 7-Eleven.

05:14:06.600 Yeah, overnight.

05:14:07.520 They got hella dispensaries there too, huh?

05:14:09.120 Yeah, dispensaries are like really big, and you can get tipped pretty nice, so.

05:14:13.560 Do you want to own a dispensary?

05:14:16.220 Huh?

05:14:16.720 Do you want to own a dispensary?

05:14:18.020 No, I actually don't, I don't smoke or anything like that, so.

05:14:21.500 Where did dispensary come from?

05:14:22.860 Because I used to work for dispensaries, so I used to smoke, my name is actually a type

05:14:27.220 of marijuana, ironically, so.

05:14:29.020 Sativa.

05:14:29.480 Yeah.

05:14:30.080 Okay.

05:14:30.600 That's your actual name name, like you were born with that?

05:14:32.340 Yeah, like my mom named me that.

05:14:33.540 She also got pregnant at 14, so.

05:14:36.060 Yeah.

05:14:36.620 You know.

05:14:38.380 That's cute.

05:14:39.060 That's a cool name, though.

05:14:39.580 I think it's so cute.

05:14:40.540 Thank you.

05:14:41.440 What about you?

05:14:43.620 In my future, I get, where I need to get, hopefully I'll make about $150 to $200, and

05:14:49.540 they just have to match that.

05:14:51.620 Where do you live?

05:14:53.100 Right now, I live in Tennessee.

05:14:55.040 Where in Tennessee?

05:14:57.220 Chattanooga.

05:14:58.020 Oh my God, really?

05:14:59.920 I'm not from there, I just moved there a year ago, but I just got a job.

05:15:04.400 Did you come here from there?

05:15:05.500 For this?

05:15:05.800 Yeah, I did.

05:15:06.520 What's the median income in Tennessee?

05:15:09.380 Really, really, it's maybe 40, no, not even that.

05:15:12.540 I would say 40, average $40,000.

05:15:14.540 I think it's 60 in California.

05:15:16.320 Yeah, that's a lot.

05:15:17.200 I think, I'm not.

05:15:17.840 But I don't plan on living in Chattanooga for the rest of my life, I plan on moving out

05:15:22.240 eventually, so I know more money will have to be on the table, but as long as they match

05:15:28.020 my income, I'm okay.

05:15:29.920 Okay.

05:15:30.800 What about you?

05:15:32.180 I would say like over $400,000.

05:15:35.040 Where do you live?

05:15:35.980 Canada.

05:15:36.980 Canada?

05:15:37.920 What province?

05:15:41.260 Ontario.

05:15:42.180 Okay.

05:15:43.060 I guess, yeah, I think I'm pretty expensive, closer to Toronto.

05:15:46.100 Yeah, like, I just want him to match what I'm making or more, I guess.

05:15:52.000 What do you do for work again?

05:15:54.900 Or what do you want to do?

05:15:56.080 Okay.

05:15:56.640 I'm an influencer, but I also do OF.

05:16:00.460 Just.

05:16:00.780 Okay.

05:16:02.520 Influencer on TikTok?

05:16:04.440 Yeah, on like social media.

05:16:05.880 On like all of them?

05:16:06.680 Yeah.

05:16:07.080 That's so awesome.

05:16:07.820 Do you do like, like what do you do?

05:16:09.540 Like story times?

05:16:10.360 Like beauty videos?

05:16:11.180 I wish.

05:16:12.120 I'm starting to do those stuff, but it was just mainly like food content or like, you

05:16:17.960 know, just thirst traps.

05:16:20.320 And now it's like Twitch streaming and stuff.

05:16:22.300 OF though.

05:16:22.880 OF is a whole other story.

05:16:24.340 I'm not making money there, but you know it's okay.

05:16:31.300 Okay.

05:16:31.860 Next question.

05:16:33.080 How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

05:16:37.520 Starting with you, chair one.

05:16:39.380 5'8 and 5'8.

05:16:44.040 You date someone the same height as you?

05:16:47.680 Yes.

05:16:48.660 Okay.

05:16:49.600 What about you?

05:16:50.320 I think I'm like 5'4, 5'4 and a half.

05:16:55.320 Maybe like 5'7, I think.

05:17:01.060 5'7.

05:17:01.760 You ever dated a guy that's 5'8?

05:17:02.640 Yeah.

05:17:03.140 You really?

05:17:03.580 Actually, I did.

05:17:04.600 Yeah.

05:17:04.880 My most recent boyfriend was like 5'8.

05:17:07.360 5'7, 5'8.

05:17:08.500 He's a cutie.

05:17:09.500 That tall in like freshman year of high school.

05:17:12.280 I mean, sometimes the short guys be getting all the looks.

05:17:16.140 It's really true.

05:17:17.400 Honestly, yeah, I noticed that.

05:17:18.740 Seriously, like Mark Wahlberg.

05:17:22.340 What about you?

05:17:23.600 I think I'm 5'3 and I have dated someone my height before and like really tall guys.

05:17:33.020 I like tall boys.

05:17:34.160 I know it's generic, but like I think.

05:17:37.180 I mean, I prefer a tall boy.

05:17:38.520 I 100%.

05:17:39.200 Like I would date someone, like if I really liked a guy, I would date someone that's like

05:17:42.720 5'11, but like low-key six foot and over.

05:17:49.560 Okay.

05:17:50.660 I like tall guys.

05:17:51.500 What can I say?

05:17:53.040 What about you?

05:17:54.660 I don't.

05:17:55.180 I think I'm like 5'3, 5'4.

05:17:57.160 I like the same height.

05:17:58.020 Yeah.

05:17:58.280 It's not like a strong preference.

05:18:02.600 As long as you're tall as me, I don't really care, but I would prefer a tall guy.

05:18:06.220 Same height?

05:18:07.560 As long as you're taller than me.

05:18:08.800 You just got to be taller than me.

05:18:09.560 Oh, I thought you said same height.

05:18:10.640 No.

05:18:11.320 Okay.

05:18:11.720 So 5'4.

05:18:13.820 Actually, no.

05:18:16.880 5'5?

05:18:17.580 No, you got to be taller than me.

05:18:19.800 You got to be taller than me.

05:18:20.820 Yeah, like 6'4.

05:18:22.920 6'4.

05:18:23.860 And you're 5'2, 5'3?

05:18:25.700 5'3, 5'4.

05:18:27.040 5'3, 5'4.

05:18:28.300 We're the same.

05:18:29.060 What about you?

05:18:30.440 I'm 5'5, and I would date someone who's like 5'9 or 5'10 and up.

05:18:37.460 You said you're 5'5?

05:18:38.460 Yeah.

05:18:39.760 I have the same answer as you.

05:18:41.740 What about you?

05:18:42.920 I'm 5'3, and I like 6'2 and up.

05:18:46.200 And my boyfriend's 6'4, so.

05:18:49.860 You like him tall, though.

05:18:51.040 I do.

05:18:51.760 I do like him tall.

05:18:53.300 What about you?

05:18:55.400 I think I'm 5'4.

05:18:56.680 I do like shorter women. 1.00

05:18:59.400 Okay.

05:19:00.420 What about men, though?

05:19:01.920 Oh, I'm sorry.

05:19:03.800 In my past, I've dated same heights or higher, taller.

05:19:08.720 Okay.

05:19:09.460 What about you?

05:19:10.380 I'm 5'3.

05:19:11.920 I feel like anything 5'7 and above, like with heels.

05:19:16.200 It's fine.

05:19:17.540 Yeah, I get that.

05:19:18.460 Like, I have to be able to wear kitten heels at least.

05:19:21.860 Okay, next question.

05:19:23.180 Would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on a hike?

05:19:29.760 Starting with you.

05:19:32.160 Is the bear provoked?

05:19:34.280 I'd rather walk by a random bear because chances of me seeing a bear on a hike versus a man

05:19:39.900 is really rare, and I'd rather take that sight.

05:19:42.720 It'd be a pretty cool experience.

05:19:44.200 But if it's like a brown bear, they're usually pretty aggressive.

05:19:47.800 I'd just watch from afar.

05:19:49.380 I know, but like random, I'm saying, what if it's a brown bear?

05:19:52.520 It could be, or it could be.

05:19:54.040 I'm sure if I'm just minding my business, it would go about its way.

05:19:57.820 Is it just like your average Joe of a man, or is it some like scary man?

05:20:01.220 It's just a random guy.

05:20:02.240 Like a random guy you see walking down the street.

05:20:04.400 Oh, is it daytime?

05:20:06.140 Oh, I hope it's daytime.

05:20:07.980 You're on a hike.

05:20:08.820 Okay.

05:20:10.060 So you'd still pick the bear?

05:20:11.640 Am I alone?

05:20:13.440 Is this a publicated area?

05:20:14.660 I don't think so.

05:20:15.500 I'm literally going to freak out.

05:20:17.400 It's random.

05:20:18.760 So what's...

05:20:19.640 These are important details.

05:20:22.160 These are important details.

05:20:23.780 Keep going, keep going.

05:20:27.640 I like bears, but also men are cool.

05:20:31.360 If it's a grizzly bear, then a man.

05:20:33.480 But if it's like a black bear, like I like black bears.

05:20:36.660 I'm a big hiker.

05:20:37.420 If it's like, because the reason I'm so concerned about context,

05:20:40.520 because if it's like one in the morning, and I'm like walking down the street,

05:20:43.760 and there's no one around, I'm on a hike.

05:20:46.360 What time would you last week hike?

05:20:48.140 Because the man's probably on the hike too, minding his business.

05:20:50.760 Yeah, you usually go on hikes in like the day, morning, afternoon.

05:20:54.580 Yeah, probably.

05:20:55.940 But at the same time, seeing a bear would be cool.

05:20:58.340 If it's a grizzly bear, no.

05:21:00.300 If it's like a black bear, then a bear, no.

05:21:03.360 Okay, yeah.

05:21:03.720 I'd rather walk past a man.

05:21:05.120 I'd rather walk past a man.

05:21:06.480 Five-three.

05:21:07.120 I don't think you could intimidate the bear.

05:21:09.100 I don't know.

05:21:10.020 If it's a black bear, if you get lucky.

05:21:11.340 Could you take it on?

05:21:12.020 Black bear, you're good.

05:21:12.900 Yeah.

05:21:13.140 I mean, it would be cool to see it like in the distance.

05:21:17.200 Oh, Gracie, but didn't you play like what a black bear you're going to play? 1.00

05:21:19.540 No, it's like black bear, like get a brown bear, lay down, lay down.

05:21:26.420 One of them you play dead.

05:21:27.120 Brown bear.

05:21:27.820 Wait, if it's brown, lie down. 1.00

05:21:30.020 If it's black, fight back. 1.00

05:21:31.620 If it's white, good night. 0.99

05:21:34.380 Yeah.

05:21:35.220 I was right.

05:21:36.300 Yeah.

05:21:36.600 Yeah, I'd rather walk past a man in the morning.

05:21:38.380 Yeah, you're going to scare off a black bear.

05:21:40.140 That means you have a chance.

05:21:41.600 Yeah.

05:21:41.880 But it's random.

05:21:43.860 So it could be a white bear?

05:21:45.520 Yes.

05:21:46.020 Okay.

05:21:46.720 A polar bear.

05:21:47.340 What about you?

05:21:47.980 A polar bear.

05:21:49.480 Oh, I'd rather walk past a man.

05:21:51.620 Okay.

05:21:51.980 What about you?

05:21:52.340 I'd rather walk past a man.

05:21:53.600 Yeah.

05:21:54.280 Walk past a man.

05:21:55.360 Mm-hmm.

05:21:56.180 A man.

05:21:57.520 I would walk past a man.

05:21:58.440 A man.

05:21:58.720 Yeah, I don't, I would never want to see a bear.

05:22:02.640 Or like a, a mountain lion.

05:22:05.320 YOLO.

05:22:05.840 I've heard those.

05:22:06.540 You're not surviving.

05:22:07.560 Yeah.

05:22:07.820 Yeah, those are scary.

05:22:08.920 There's a lot around here.

05:22:10.880 There are.

05:22:11.460 And coyotes, too.

05:22:13.640 Coyotes you can scare off, though, if you like.

05:22:15.920 Yeah, coyotes.

05:22:16.260 You got to get like big.

05:22:17.240 There's a lot of them, though.

05:22:18.980 Yeah, not when it's a pack.

05:22:20.400 Coyotes generally don't bother humans.

05:22:23.760 I mean, where I live, I've seen coyotes walking down the street, and they just.

05:22:28.520 They're really looking for like stray cats or like small dogs and stuff like that.

05:22:33.160 Especially like where I, where I'm from in Oceanside, coyotes are like a real big thing,

05:22:37.620 and cats would be just getting knocked off.

05:22:39.480 I had my cat a few years ago.

05:22:41.560 Okay.

05:22:42.620 Would you rather date someone who's amazing in bed, but terrible at texting, or amazing

05:22:48.960 at texting, but terrible in bed?

05:22:50.780 Terrible texter, amazing in bed.

05:22:52.520 Terrible texter, amazing in bed.

05:22:53.760 Terrible texter, amazing in bed.

05:22:55.380 Terrible texter, amazing in bed.

05:22:56.660 Don't text me any better. 1.00

05:22:57.340 Because fuck texting either way. 1.00

05:22:58.740 Don't text me either way. 1.00

05:22:59.920 Period.

05:23:00.220 I don't care.

05:23:00.820 That part.

05:23:01.360 Texting should be purely for like short information.

05:23:04.820 No, I agree.

05:23:05.960 Like on the way.

05:23:06.540 I don't care to be texting for me.

05:23:08.920 I don't care to be texting for me. 1.00

05:23:08.940 Shit, ever. 1.00

05:23:10.020 Yeah, fuck texting. 1.00

05:23:11.320 I definitely want someone who's better at texting and can be terrible in bed. 1.00

05:23:15.780 I'm okay with that.

05:23:16.600 I don't like texting.

05:23:17.160 You can teach them.

05:23:17.940 I don't like texting either.

05:23:19.320 I'm more of a caller anyway.

05:23:20.520 What about you?

05:23:21.100 Yeah, exactly.

05:23:21.860 Better at texting.

05:23:22.560 Texting feels like a chore.

05:23:24.300 Oh my God, every time.

05:23:25.380 It's like makes me hate you.

05:23:26.420 I think I agree because like I'm not even the best texter myself.

05:23:29.880 I'm a horrible texter.

05:23:30.980 I have some of my best friends on Opened right now for like two weeks.

05:23:34.940 I'm terrible at texting.

05:23:36.060 I just FaceTime.

05:23:36.860 And you guys can just call.

05:23:37.420 I won't forget.

05:23:38.140 No.

05:23:39.000 Or in person.

05:23:39.760 So you guys would have lack of communication.

05:23:42.460 No, they can't call.

05:23:43.120 In person.

05:23:43.640 But like I don't want to communicate over a text either way.

05:23:46.960 Yeah.

05:23:47.180 Just in person.

05:23:48.000 I think yeah, texting is totally different.

05:23:49.080 But like if they're bad at like talking.

05:23:51.620 Well then that's just they have a bad personality.

05:23:53.320 And I'm more so perceiving that question as like communication and just intimacy on a more

05:23:59.100 than physical level.

05:23:59.600 I'm just saying I thought she said just texting.

05:24:01.800 Like literally just texting versus.

05:24:03.120 Yeah.

05:24:03.320 I would rather talk to my man in person.

05:24:06.120 I love updates.

05:24:07.140 It's like I love little pictures.

05:24:09.080 Yeah, but wouldn't you rather a phone call?

05:24:10.620 I like both.

05:24:11.700 And I mean we FaceTime a lot. 0.97

05:24:12.440 But wouldn't you rather like would you have like would you like choose like terrible sex 1.00

05:24:16.920 over not getting updates? 0.89

05:24:18.280 Yeah, I would absolutely be okay with that.

05:24:20.060 What's your question?

05:24:20.860 Because again.

05:24:21.280 Is it an ick if a guy is bad at spelling?

05:24:24.060 No.

05:24:24.540 Yeah, I'm bad at spelling.

05:24:26.380 As long as they're actually smart otherwise then it's not an ick.

05:24:29.220 I don't like when they don't know how to use the two.

05:24:30.880 Like two or two.

05:24:31.880 Like us two or two.

05:24:35.260 Are you serious?

05:24:36.040 Girl, you need to get that figured out. 0.84

05:24:37.700 Unless you're dyslexic, you have no excuse.

05:24:40.740 Guys, I went to too many schools.

05:24:42.200 My education is really good.

05:24:43.000 I am dyslexic.

05:24:44.660 Okay.

05:24:45.240 Next question.

05:24:46.340 Next question. 0.72

05:24:47.220 Would you rather your partner be rich and boring or broke and hilarious? 0.60

05:24:51.300 Broke and hilarious. 0.71

05:24:52.680 One at a time.

05:24:53.260 One at a time.

05:24:53.780 Starting with chair one.

05:24:55.460 What's your name?

05:24:56.040 Sorry.

05:24:56.960 Lexi.

05:24:57.600 Broke and not.

05:24:59.080 What?

05:24:59.960 Would you?

05:25:00.660 Broke and hilarious.

05:25:01.240 He can't be broke.

05:25:03.060 He can't be broke.

05:25:04.160 Next question.

05:25:04.820 He can't be broke.

05:25:08.160 He can't be broke.

05:25:10.700 So.

05:25:11.720 Rich and boring.

05:25:13.740 Oh my God.

05:25:14.280 I'm going to laugh regardless.

05:25:16.340 What about you?

05:25:17.700 You can laugh at him as long as it's not.

05:25:20.580 Ava, what about you?

05:25:22.200 Broken hilarious.

05:25:23.520 Broken hilarious.

05:25:25.180 He can get his money up.

05:25:26.360 Not his money up.

05:25:27.100 Right?

05:25:27.880 Broken hilarious.

05:25:29.420 Broken hilarious.

05:25:31.000 Broken hilarious.

05:25:31.980 Broken hilarious.

05:25:33.380 Yeah, I don't know.

05:25:36.060 I'm kind of torn on that.

05:25:38.000 He could get his money up, but he can't get his funny up.

05:25:40.580 You can't change a personality.

05:25:41.420 Yeah.

05:25:41.600 You can't change a bank account.

05:25:42.840 Yeah.

05:25:43.340 I agree.

05:25:44.340 Or what if.

05:25:44.800 Yeah, I agree.

05:25:45.760 I think if you can't make me laugh.

05:25:47.680 Like imagine.

05:25:48.340 That's like 99.9% of attraction.

05:25:49.960 Well, is he my age?

05:25:52.200 If he's like 19, then sure.

05:25:53.820 Good thing I'm funny because he doesn't need to be that funny.

05:25:57.260 Or what if he has a lot of money, but he's mean.

05:26:00.060 You know what I'm saying?

05:26:01.040 I'll laugh as much as you want.

05:26:02.460 Okay.

05:26:03.100 Next one.

05:26:04.520 Would you rather date someone who talks about their.

05:26:07.180 Sorry.

05:26:07.700 Talks about their ex too much or someone who never talks about their past at all?

05:26:12.140 Someone who never talks about their past.

05:26:13.360 Never talks about their past.

05:26:15.280 Never talk about it.

05:26:16.560 I don't want to hear about your ex.

05:26:17.820 What do you think, Lexi?

05:26:20.580 What does Lexi think? 1.00

05:26:24.300 I don't care.

05:26:25.740 Probably that doesn't talk about their past.

05:26:29.020 Okay.

05:26:29.280 And then you all answered, right?

05:26:31.520 Yeah.

05:26:31.900 Yeah.

05:26:32.220 Same thing.

05:26:33.980 Okay.

05:26:36.800 Would you rather be ghosted after three amazing dates or date someone who double texts aggressively

05:26:45.580 after every interaction?

05:26:47.680 Ghost.

05:26:47.820 Ghosted.

05:26:48.500 Ghosted.

05:26:48.940 Bye.

05:26:49.520 It's okay.

05:26:50.640 Double texted.

05:26:50.940 Wait, can you repeat that?

05:26:52.140 Really?

05:26:52.800 Yeah.

05:26:53.240 Would you rather be ghosted after three amazing dates or date someone who double texts aggressively

05:27:00.280 after every interaction?

05:27:01.500 What does that mean?

05:27:02.720 Like double texting, like blowing up your phone.

05:27:05.120 You can never just put it down.

05:27:06.140 It's constantly ringing.

05:27:07.340 And like, you have to answer otherwise.

05:27:09.920 That happened to me.

05:27:10.800 For me, this guy I met in a grocery store, he like asked for my number and then he would

05:27:16.260 not stop texting me.

05:27:17.100 Like I, I responded to like his first five texts and then he kept calling me, blowing

05:27:21.240 up my phone, calling me from like no caller ID.

05:27:22.940 It was weird.

05:27:23.500 Yeah.

05:27:23.780 That's like the best way to never hear from me ever again.

05:27:25.760 That's like creepy stalker activity, obsessive love bombing activity.

05:27:30.500 I guess, again, I'm taking it as if it's someone that I'm interested in and like I want

05:27:35.160 to receive that.

05:27:36.320 You know what I mean?

05:27:36.500 Yeah.

05:27:36.620 But there is a thing is like too much.

05:27:39.180 Yeah.

05:27:39.940 Yeah.

05:27:40.720 Oh, I feel like you're into just like really clingy men.

05:27:43.640 I am.

05:27:44.100 I do.

05:27:44.420 I like it.

05:27:44.900 But I'm clingy too.

05:27:45.720 I would like my boyfriend to text a lot, but not like be obsessed.

05:27:49.920 Yeah.

05:27:50.140 So not a random.

05:27:51.600 Well, I can't like be obsessive, but like not like, just stop.

05:27:55.440 No, I like it.

05:27:56.360 I like when my boyfriend wants like a ton of pictures or like, I like that.

05:28:00.640 But I'm also like thinking about like her question as in like, you guys have just met.

05:28:05.460 Yeah.

05:28:05.880 Not like, you know what I mean?

05:28:07.020 Because I've met guys that are like, you send them their number at their grocery store

05:28:10.760 or whatever.

05:28:11.240 And then they automatically feel like, why isn't she texting me back?

05:28:14.360 I just saw her at the grocery store. 1.00

05:28:15.600 And it's like, how do you feel entitled to this type of energy or access to me?

05:28:19.560 What yet?

05:28:19.800 We just met at the grocery store like two hours ago.

05:28:21.740 Exactly.

05:28:22.100 Your phone is not an extension of you girl.

05:28:23.860 He literally started inviting me over.

05:28:25.380 Oh no.

05:28:25.700 I hours later after.

05:28:27.120 I believe you girl.

05:28:28.020 No, thank you.

05:28:29.060 Yeah.

05:28:29.620 You're scaring me.

05:28:30.400 But when it's a guy that you're interested in, of course that feels good to be like.

05:28:34.180 And I think because I automatically go to that defaults just because I'm in a relationship.

05:28:37.840 Right.

05:28:38.300 So that's kind of like already where my head's at.

05:28:40.400 Yeah, for sure.

05:28:41.100 I understand that.

05:28:42.280 Yeah.

05:28:42.380 If I was in a relationship, I would totally want like updated photos.

05:28:45.580 Yeah.

05:28:45.720 Yeah, exactly.

05:28:46.620 Like I bought him, I bought him, him these big balloons for his birthday and he like sent

05:28:51.360 me a selfie with it.

05:28:52.480 Yeah, that's cute.

05:28:53.020 No, like that's adorable.

05:28:54.520 But that's the difference between stranger and stalker.

05:28:56.300 Right.

05:28:56.840 Yeah.

05:28:57.160 Yeah.

05:28:57.680 Difference between strange and stalker.

05:28:59.740 Right.

05:28:59.980 Cause then, then you, then.

05:29:01.620 Stalker, I don't like it.

05:29:02.280 Cause I've actually had a deal with that where he literally sent me a message and was like,

05:29:05.460 I like your new car.

05:29:06.500 Right.

05:29:06.740 And I'm like, how did you even know I got a new car?

05:29:08.900 I had a guy texting me.

05:29:10.620 He asked me for my number at some restaurant and I was like, okay, gave it to him.

05:29:13.560 And I obviously was like, didn't like respond for like, he kept texting me for a long time

05:29:18.540 and I was like, you know, I'm not actually, whatever.

05:29:20.360 He sends me a picture of myself out to dinner with my dad and his friends.

05:29:26.840 He sent me a picture.

05:29:27.620 He said, what a coincidence. 1.00

05:29:29.120 Like, I was like, you fucking creep. 1.00

05:29:30.760 Like you couldn't just come. 0.99

05:29:32.440 No, he didn't say hi.

05:29:34.300 He sent me a picture of myself.

05:29:36.540 I have a screenshot.

05:29:37.220 I literally like, and it was a horrible picture too.

05:29:40.400 I was really like, I was like, you couldn't do any better either. 0.64

05:29:43.560 He's kind of crazy. 0.92

05:29:44.760 Okay. 0.73

05:29:45.560 That was fun in so many different ways.

05:29:47.120 Would you rather fall for someone who lives across the country or lives in your building?

05:29:52.780 My building.

05:29:53.600 My building.

05:29:54.240 That's like party next door.

05:29:55.720 Yeah.

05:29:56.180 Again, I'm in a 12 hour distance.

05:29:59.420 But like, wouldn't you wish that he lived in your building?

05:30:02.320 I would say like, based on the beginning of our relationship, it was actually better that

05:30:07.100 we were at a distance because it made us like have a lot more value intellectually before

05:30:12.060 it was physical.

05:30:13.560 Distance makes the heart grow.

05:30:14.780 Yeah.

05:30:15.040 Separation makes the heart grow.

05:30:15.980 Yeah.

05:30:16.060 And honestly, because we were forced to really get to know each other before we met the first

05:30:20.200 time, like our value in each other is just a different basis.

05:30:25.060 Anytime I've ever dated someone that was in my city, it was either got toxic really fast

05:30:29.920 or their intention wasn't genuine, especially because I'm sure we all have big platforms.

05:30:34.140 So when you're well known, it's just the intention isn't always genuine.

05:30:39.000 True, true.

05:30:40.360 And what was, so you all said in your building? 0.99

05:30:43.620 Well, I say no, because it's like, I'm not going to shit where I sleep. 0.99

05:30:45.880 Like, I'm not going to go fuck a guy from my gym or from my apartment complex. 0.99

05:30:50.140 And then for me to break up or something happens, then me going downstairs to the gym or the 0.99

05:30:53.400 pool and he's there.

05:30:54.240 It's like, I'm not doing that.

05:30:55.580 Yeah, but what about the family when you like him?

05:30:57.420 No, like I would rather just pick another guy.

05:31:00.820 You want the room to be sneaky.

05:31:02.860 You want the room to like date around is what you're saying? 0.99

05:31:05.300 No, I just like, don't want to, like, I don't want to build like, like a fuck buddy 0.64

05:31:09.920 connection with somebody in my apartment complex or at my gym where like, if things go 0.99

05:31:14.140 bad and I have to show back up in that area, it's going to be like, ooh, well, fuck. 0.99

05:31:18.560 Yeah, especially if it worked out. 0.99

05:31:20.260 You know what I mean? 1.00

05:31:20.600 And then you're walking through the mail room and you're like, oh, fuck. 1.00

05:31:23.220 It's like, why would you do that to yourself? 0.99

05:31:24.940 It's the same with coworkers, right?

05:31:26.340 Yeah, if they start dating someone new, having to watch them, it's just, it can get messy.

05:31:29.480 Right, it's kind of weird.

05:31:30.700 And it's almost harder to heal when you see them on a constant basis.

05:31:33.880 Okay, guys, I'm going to do rapid fire.

05:31:36.640 Would you rather date someone who hates pets or someone who has three emotional support

05:31:42.620 reptiles, starting with three emotional support reptiles, because I have one.

05:31:46.180 Okay.

05:31:46.740 Three emotional support reptiles.

05:31:48.140 Reptiles, I love them.

05:31:49.400 Three emotional support reptiles.

05:31:51.420 Reptiles.

05:31:52.200 Reptiles.

05:31:53.200 Reptiles.

05:31:53.880 Reptiles.

05:31:54.340 Okay, I agree.

05:31:55.480 I would, I love people that love animals.

05:31:58.700 Would you rather only go on dates that involve hiking or only go on dates that involve karaoke?

05:32:04.720 Karaoke!

05:32:05.520 Hiking.

05:32:06.060 Hiking.

05:32:06.660 Hiking. 1.00

05:32:06.940 Bitch, I'm a singer. 1.00

05:32:07.900 Karaoke. 1.00

05:32:08.340 I'm not hiking.

05:32:08.900 I want to get in shame, so hiking.

05:32:10.640 I can't sing.

05:32:11.560 Karaoke.

05:32:13.440 Hiking.

05:32:14.120 But, yeah, four-wheelers.

05:32:15.540 My boyfriend has, like, three four-wheelers.

05:32:17.240 I have a bunch of TikToks who just hiking and stuff, so.

05:32:20.060 Okay, would you rather they say, I love you too soon, or take forever to say it?

05:32:24.460 Take forever to say it.

05:32:25.620 Take forever.

05:32:25.940 Because it's more beautiful.

05:32:27.820 Okay, I'm going to go around, so.

05:32:29.860 I don't know.

05:32:30.740 Rather not you say it.

05:32:32.240 So, take forever.

05:32:33.220 Probably.

05:32:33.880 Okay, what about you?

05:32:34.380 Probably take forever, because the suspense builds.

05:32:37.440 I agree.

05:32:37.840 What do you mean by how soon are we talking?

05:32:40.560 Like, after, like, three days.

05:32:42.720 Oh, take forever.

05:32:44.780 Yeah.

05:32:45.500 What about you?

05:32:45.760 Take forever.

05:32:46.440 Okay, what about you?

05:32:46.780 I care about perspective, my bad.

05:32:49.680 It's cute.

05:32:50.460 It's funny.

05:32:50.860 What about you?

05:32:51.380 It's good.

05:32:52.100 What?

05:32:52.460 Yeah, I said take forever.

05:32:53.720 Okay, what about you?

05:32:55.360 If you feel it, say it.

05:32:57.280 So, it could be too soon.

05:32:59.480 That's fine with me.

05:33:00.500 Okay.

05:33:00.900 What about you?

05:33:02.640 Take forever.

05:33:03.960 Take forever.

05:33:04.840 Yeah, I think it's more meaningful when they take forever.

05:33:06.680 Would you rather date someone who's a 10, but smells weird, or a 6, but smells amazing?

05:33:12.140 Starting with you.

05:33:15.800 Woof.

05:33:20.920 Want me to come back to you?

05:33:22.600 How weird is it?

05:33:24.700 Like, weird enough.

05:33:25.860 Like, what stench would be related?

05:33:27.820 For example, one time, I went on a date with a guy, and he had horrible breath.

05:33:32.400 Like, we didn't even kiss.

05:33:33.980 Like, he just...

05:33:34.440 Mm-mm.

05:33:35.020 No.

05:33:35.500 6, that smelled good.

05:33:36.740 6, that smells good.

05:33:38.060 If somebody smells bad, it's, like, a genuine, like, it doesn't matter how attractive you are,

05:33:43.460 how great of personality you are, I can't...

05:33:45.160 Bad hygiene.

05:33:45.660 Yeah.

05:33:46.400 I can't do it.

05:33:46.980 So gross.

05:33:47.500 6, but smells good. 0.83

05:33:48.920 What about you?

05:33:49.500 6.

05:33:50.100 6.

05:33:50.780 6.

05:33:52.420 6.

05:33:53.520 6.

05:33:54.480 Yeah, I agree.

05:33:55.060 Would you rather date someone who overshares online or someone who acts like social media

05:34:01.900 doesn't exist?

05:34:03.360 Acts like social media doesn't exist.

05:34:05.920 What about you?

05:34:07.840 Acts like social media doesn't exist, I guess.

05:34:10.260 Acts like social media doesn't exist.

05:34:12.440 Acts like social media doesn't exist.

05:34:14.480 Acts like social media doesn't exist.

05:34:17.560 Social media doesn't exist.

05:34:19.140 Yeah, social media doesn't exist.

05:34:22.400 All right, I'm back to you.

05:34:23.240 Welcome back!

05:34:23.840 thank you appreciate it appreciate it we have a chat here from pacey george sorry i missed this

05:34:28.240 one oh wait oh wait no we already did this one shoot shoot uh okay i'm trying to remember if

05:34:38.060 there's anything else we had to uh go over there a couple few more notes uh i think we should

05:34:43.760 really go back to the feminist conversation no please no please no no uh we do have a couple 1.00

05:34:50.020 chats we have twenty dollars twenty dollars for megan thank you for that rachel wilson twenty

05:34:57.540 dollars on venmo uh she writes please tell them most of what they believe about the history of

05:35:03.340 women's oppression is false and propaganda i'm a woman and i'm against it because i'm an expert 0.97

05:35:08.580 in this area well i'm not so oh shit uneducated queen over here uh can can we get wait hold on one 0.99

05:35:16.240 oh i see all right can we get what does that mean a thousand oh thank you i didn't even see you 0.98

05:35:26.160 george this one's for you but don't be a greedy boy lol oh you want me to share uh yeah i can i'll do

05:35:35.580 that share with us do you have the other one one of the yeah the other yeah yeah the that one

05:35:42.380 did you hear that pasty george the canadian girl why does pasty george call himself pasty

05:35:48.340 he felt wealthy maybe he's a pasty tree you definitely said it like that uh so guys we're

05:35:53.820 going to do a roast session but the roast so the roast session it's going to be uh we're going to

05:36:00.080 do a 69 tts for the roast session guys so if you want to get a roast in get it in 69 tts

05:36:07.680 i don't want to get roast could you get me that purple thing there we're getting roasted uh give 0.93

05:36:12.140 me one yeah everybody's getting roasted i'm getting roasted they're going to call me fat and shit 0.97

05:36:16.480 uh everybody's going to get roasted it's going to be beautiful it's going to be the best roast 0.98

05:36:21.120 the best roast why why didn't you like the maga hat though can you are you down to wear the maga hat

05:36:26.420 just saying you want to wear it honestly like you should do it would really bring out the color of

05:36:30.680 your eyes right give it to me oh she's gonna is she gonna put it on go ahead felicity grab it for her

05:36:34.900 i'm gonna get clipped and it's gonna be hilarious because everyone who knows me knows that i'm like 0.98

05:36:38.780 a little bit of an annoying anti oh shit wow look at this white supremacist my dad oh my god hey dad 0.99

05:36:47.520 do you love me look at this fascist sitting here at the table oh my goodness does anyone else want to 1.00

05:36:54.180 try it on i'm good you're clipped there's some like there's some like does it smell good yeah

05:37:00.660 mostly felicity wears it oh my god that's like impression that is not true all right take it

05:37:07.960 back if you can good prop all right 69 tts guys if you want to get a little roast in here

05:37:14.040 excuse the chair a little bit yeah let me just do a couple adjustments yeah yeah yeah

05:37:18.620 boom 69 i just don't want to be like do you guys want to refill on your champagne yes yes yes

05:37:25.820 lexi where is where is that where is that lexi person uh pass him back down i'll pour for you 0.92

05:37:34.020 guys thank you pasty george no i have i she needs oh did one of the cups get tossed she also i think

05:37:42.680 she needs a new cup yes okay easy peasy all right while i'm hopefully not gonna i need to be safe here

05:37:51.680 desert judge donated 69 dollars and 69 cents the whatever podcast discord council consulted with

05:38:01.060 representatives from the great state of arizona based thor and desert jorge for the record they

05:38:07.460 disavow lexi share one as one of their own from as as arizona they're disavowing you 0.77

05:38:14.880 huh i think they disowned her they don't i'm popping your eye what be careful here let me just

05:38:32.980 turn it towards is it cinna or cena cena that'd be bad uh let's see here oh boy i'm scared you know i'm 0.98

05:38:43.780 scared trauma you're scared i'm scared boys wait normally i do it with the other hand fuck hold on 0.96

05:38:50.640 can you do another direction wait no i do do it with this hand no pressure 0.99

05:38:56.400 i'm like oh no this is gonna be a hard one

05:39:03.780 i feel like we're all crazy oh easy

05:39:09.400 easy easy i thought it was gonna flop all right thank you pasty george we're gonna get these poured

05:39:16.060 uh getting onto a dating conversation though i'm trying to think what there's a couple what what 0.99

05:39:23.240 the fuck shut up bro oh i'm double what the hell ridiculous uh ridiculous i also don't remember which 0.99

05:39:32.020 cup was mine already so maybe oh shit wait we're popping the bottle we're there's only one right 1.00

05:39:39.420 yeah i was the only one who's okay so pass that one down to her wait are we taking the champagne 0.98

05:39:44.400 for the last tts that just came in or was that no somebody did the champagne a thousand dollars oh

05:39:50.120 yeah okay so this one is a little more that one's yours pass it down and then this one is for you

05:40:00.320 there thank you appreciate it all right let's do cheers if you guys want to hold up your water uh

05:40:06.060 cheers cheers to pasty george thank you pasty george salut uh to uh amnesty international or some shit 0.69

05:40:13.360 i don't know merci all right we have hanlon's razor here thank you man 69 tts

05:40:25.240 underscore 224 donated 69 dollars ever seen the zodiac movie it's about the serial killer

05:40:34.280 he shows up in military garb with a gun to a couple having a picnic you know what the couple probably

05:40:40.220 thought man i wish that was a bear wow hey nick did we get any super chats or no

05:40:47.520 can i ask what time it is 10 39

05:40:53.500 uh okay we have a bunch coming in we're gonna let these come through

05:41:01.100 hold on guys how many people are watching this right now 4 000 about hey hey guys

05:41:09.540 what's up guys wait what did what just happened 4 000 people are watching right now right now

05:41:17.140 that's like sing 4 000 sing sing there's probably record executives in the chat follow my tiktok

05:41:24.960 oh my god no no no bella's vocals sing why are you cutting that out yeah i'm like

05:41:31.840 bro you gotta if you're gonna deny us you're gonna wait i don't want to deny you i just don't want to

05:41:36.540 sing acapella i got you denied you denied what if we just like dropped a b anyways we don't want it 0.98

05:41:42.700 never mind we don't want to hear that shit oh now you're offended now you're offended i say sing 0.99

05:41:49.660 that's funny reverse psychology you never know who's watching manipulated boom you just got 1.00

05:41:56.160 manipulated at bella's vocals boom bella brown on spotify manipulated okay dm me oh my goodness

05:42:03.580 all right guys so tts should all everything should be good here 69 tts if you want to get it in we have

05:42:10.840 some coming through and by some i mean one wait can i ask what we're live on youtube and twitch

05:42:19.200 rachel wilson donated 69 button one gives all women a life of luxury but no children and humanity dies 0.96

05:42:29.560 out button two gives women an average life but no luxury they all have children and humanity lives 1.00

05:42:36.900 which button button two two

05:42:40.540 okay i have some roasts coming in i forgot to pull some of these up please don't hate me

05:42:49.700 some of these came in a while ago i apologize they're reads i apologize inquisitor zeal donated

05:42:54.860 one hundred dollars chair two i have enough strength to unalive oh shit why was it was it bad 0.85

05:43:04.580 that was that he told me that he could talk down to me because he could easily kill me with one hand 1.00

05:43:10.660 yeah and these are the men that are terrible 0.99

05:43:16.940 a gross man a gross man now you have to send in a simp 1.00

05:43:24.500 message um make up for your your threat don't worry don't be a gross boy 0.98

05:43:31.860 they like christopher donated one hundred dollars six seven is most attractive soft-spoken

05:43:39.700 dressed modestly easygoing smile enough to hold on to you're able to admit when she's wrong

05:43:45.800 and humble too bad for me is there a simp tax since she's not into men 1.00

05:43:51.500 uh yes christopher there actually there's not there's probably a double time yo christopher

05:43:57.880 this came in a while back it got lost in the sauce i apologize i don't know if you're even still

05:44:04.080 watching uh thank you for the message christopher if you want to send in a 10 i'll just treat it as

05:44:08.680 a tts just to make up for the delay same for josh brooks here sorry josh brooks donated one hundred

05:44:14.620 usually pretty good with these my bad here's a different perspective of a question for the panel

05:44:19.020 what is the kindest nicest sweetest thing you have ever done for any partner you've had

05:44:24.900 selfless acts do they exist a definition of

05:44:29.020 are we going down the line again

05:44:35.400 yeah in that order sweetest nicest thing you've done for a partner

05:44:42.340 i took sorry go ahead go ahead bella i was just gonna say i feel like i thought we were going

05:44:50.020 down oh yeah nobody's speaking so go for it yeah go ahead i was just gonna say like i i don't know

05:44:56.440 if i can think of a specific thing i feel like that's like all i've done in relationships

05:45:01.760 what was the question girls i date fold my laundry i feel like that's very nice and gentlemanly

05:45:08.920 behavior it's like um it's like uh what's it called acts of service yes like a love language like when i

05:45:17.740 really like someone like yeah i'll pick up your room for you like i'll do these like small things to

05:45:23.780 like make yourself make your life more convenient i'll take care of you when you're like

05:45:27.280 disgustingly sick like vomiting and like yeah like sweet i hope a girl does that for me but i don't 1.00

05:45:32.860 think i would do it in reverse really yeah she just needs to i'll send her some doordash or some 0.95

05:45:38.080 shit but well i got a show to run that thousand dollars from pasty like 0.99

05:45:42.780 you know i think the sweetest thing i've done for guys actually get him a job donated 69 dollars 0.98

05:45:49.660 i'm fried count is pie because she is cooked thank you man fried pie $69 tts dreamlabs.com

05:45:55.480 whatever uh i i have a video of my ex-girlfriend that we can play here um i know you're gonna pull

05:46:02.040 up she usually you're a fan of the show she watches i'm not a fan i just watched oh okay well i didn't

05:46:06.780 mean like that i just i watched every single video like last night to prepare myself for this 0.96

05:46:11.680 based thor donated $69 brian you need to have a limit on how many young dumb and full of bunnies 0.96

05:46:19.240 women you can have on the panel i legit got ear cancer and lost brain cells listening to chair one 0.99

05:46:25.040 through five prattle tonight oh no it was good different perspective you know i hope you get

05:46:30.920 well soon oh that was funny maybe we'll send doordash to this one yeah yo based thor thank you

05:46:40.900 for the tts i appreciate it all right oh christopher oh christopher being thank you man for understanding

05:46:47.380 sorry for the delay on that uh yo w's in chat for christopher being a good sport i there was a bit

05:46:52.140 of delay on getting his chat pulled up so thank you man shout out christopher uh oh i'm sorry i'm

05:46:59.980 literally just like leaning that's okay i just like watching pasty george donated $70 lmfao

05:47:07.000 word thank you pasty george thank you pasty george it really doesn't it's been made clear um

05:47:17.720 i guess oh uh we'll we'll go into this after the video go ahead and uh actually wait we gotta

05:47:24.720 wait for pasty i want his lmfao to cover up my okay go ahead

05:47:28.980 all right this is a video i took of it was after a long podcast episode video i took my girlfriend

05:47:34.840 just i show future girls this video just to be like this is what you need to do i want to spoil

05:47:41.400 it so bad okay go ahead play it boom huge you know what somebody told me the bow wasn't deep enough

05:47:49.600 so she has to every time she greets me at the door she has to greet me at the door has to bow 0.77

05:47:54.060 it has to get to my laundry is this really you have such a liar yes have my dinner prepared she 1.00

05:48:00.760 has to have my dinner prepared uh cracks open my beer yep well done uh i actually dumped her about 1.00

05:48:08.540 a day after this video i was a little disappointed in her but um do you study professional rage 0.99

05:48:13.960 she didn't mix those noodles rage baiting what are you what are you talking about

05:48:18.500 i was just thinking about the bow again really quick just to show the girls what what is expected 0.99

05:48:24.440 boom huge fucking bow giant bow this is my expectation for a girlfriend your first date laundry 0.98

05:48:32.060 and the bow on the first thank you cena i appreciate your support for me i wait i have a random 0.99

05:48:40.720 question go ahead how old are you i've been trying to figure i am a vampire no i'm 36

05:48:45.780 yeah you're 36 i know ancient right shit's crazy i'm 36 yeah do i look younger or older no 0.96

05:48:54.160 oh wow they're really they're like okay let me did let me put in your younger i'm really okay 0.95

05:49:00.020 yeah let me know i'll say like 34 i thought you were older thank you oh wow i lied when i said

05:49:07.500 it's okay i thought you were older too bill thank you is that a compliment you got to think about

05:49:13.360 you said it's okay i thought i just hate it when people tell me people tell me all the time i look

05:49:17.900 like 16 year old so if you tell me i look older like i appreciate you look 37 period

05:49:23.580 wait really you're gonna be like hell yeah remember we literally said we were gonna be

05:49:27.740 more attractive i don't look 37 word um so question related to that video would you bow

05:49:36.160 for the perfect guy babe no because i would literally be using him as a footstool i would

05:49:43.400 be coming home and he'd be bowing for me that's the only way thank you tilt your mic down please

05:49:50.580 okay what about you more more more more go ahead no not even the perfect guy

05:49:58.680 is he bowing to me too no no okay what about you is he bowing to me too nope 0.99

05:50:06.740 no i don't i don't think i would bow okay no i look he would if he's perfect based fucking solo 0.98

05:50:17.560 based solo if he's perfect then all right your friends are gonna call you after the show that 0.99

05:50:22.340 your friends are gonna call you a pick me by the way but yeah i know haters fucking haters over 0.97

05:50:26.220 here uh okay would you bow for the perfect i would more than bow what about you nope but i 0.99

05:50:33.180 would do that laundry okay what about you i would bow w fucking cena w's in the chat okay do it oh 0.99

05:50:40.440 yeah but bow to the audience into that camera you gotta come stand like wait are we there's not 1.00

05:50:46.920 gonna be like a titty slip is there okay it's pretty okay no fuck what it's safe never mind okay 1.00

05:50:52.660 fuck that shit um you wouldn't do it i would this isn't even a masculine thing to do 1.00

05:50:58.400 i would fucking bow for the to get the perfect woman i would i would fucking yeah but you just 1.00

05:51:04.620 told us the guy wouldn't bow so yeah no i think i got this out of context i don't know wait i don't 0.99

05:51:11.500 really get it i think this is oh i would not want my man to bow i guess if all i had to do is bow to

05:51:18.240 get the perfect guy that's what you mean yeah three seconds like oh yeah literally just that and

05:51:23.660 then boom perfect well you have to do it every day after every day you have to do the bow no i'm not

05:51:27.700 like to him oh no yeah no i don't know every day oh i would you get i think you guys underestimate

05:51:37.180 how how rare the perfect person is there's no but also in my brain i'm thinking like for at least

05:51:43.940 you could think about it like this okay perfect guy for you guys trillionaire as the most attractive

05:51:50.260 guy you could ever think of treats you perfectly etc etc etc like most of y'all are not gonna get

05:51:57.520 the hottest guy ever you're not gonna get the guy who treats you 100 perfectly all the time in all

05:52:02.080 the ways that you wish to be treated people make compromises in relationships but to get the perfect

05:52:08.660 guy by the way perfect doesn't really exist but under this hypothetical it does 0.98

05:52:12.400 i have shit i would do a lot for the perfect woman i would kneel huh you would kneel say it into 0.98

05:52:20.840 the mic say it with your chest or well i would do a lot for the perfect woman too for sure yeah but 1.00

05:52:26.740 it's a woman i have given well yeah but i mean even if i even when i was when i dated men i did a lot

05:52:32.900 for them too what about what about something more you know some people say well culturally this is kind

05:52:37.840 of weird because you know in the u.s western countries you don't bow even though i think it's

05:52:42.980 totally super arbitrary you instantly manifest your perfect guy if you do the bow um let's see we got

05:52:52.560 more pizza by the way we got more pizza if you guys we'll have to wait until later to do it just

05:52:58.220 but uh we can okay when does this end soon relax okay soon just patience patience we got school in

05:53:04.720 the morning i have roommates to be patience okay so yeah would you guys in order to get the perfect

05:53:12.580 guy would you like fold his laundry yes on the first date first night i mean how do i know he's

05:53:19.380 perfect if it's a first date though you know the universe hypothetically hypothetically yeah he

05:53:26.820 coalesces out of the ether yeah why are we at his house on the first kindness of my heart or did he

05:53:32.000 invite me over to do you're asking why you're on yes at the guy's house on the first day unless you

05:53:36.620 pay me to do your laundry boy oh i thought you were gonna say pay you to do something else um okay

05:53:41.460 oh wait yeah wait go to his house to do his laundry yes as the first day did he specifically request

05:53:49.500 you're overthinking the laundry yes overthinking the laundry thing i guess um i just i can't see myself

05:53:55.460 doing a man's laundry at his house first question what do you guys feel about this what do you guys

05:53:59.800 think about a man saying women should do x so women should cook and clean i think he against are you

05:54:09.800 you object to it or you're okay i object because i feel like if i cook then you should clean

05:54:13.820 nah she does everything no anyways do you object

05:54:18.140 i want to cook can you strain just strain your mic a little bit straighten your mic yeah sorry it's all

05:54:24.200 good um i believe in you thanks um i think they can say that we should whatever that doesn't mean i'm

05:54:34.000 gonna do it i don't know if you say i agree with you i think if i cook you clean okay or if what about

05:54:43.320 women should make me a sandwich no i don't like that because i wouldn't say men should provide for the 1.00

05:54:51.820 whole family like i wouldn't say that okay what do you think about the should thing is it okay to

05:54:56.880 say women should do x i mean like i've always like i've said this entire time people can have their

05:55:02.220 preferences okay skipping but no wait it is like me saying men should take out the trash or men should 0.99

05:55:08.680 go to war and die for a country they should you know what i mean like it goes both ways with like

05:55:14.380 the traditional stuff i don't think that women should do anything i don't think that's a way better deal 1.00

05:55:17.620 there by the way but okay i are you right yeah but um war i don't think that i don't think that

05:55:24.620 anyone should do anything like in a general way when i said you know should men do x y like i had

05:55:33.080 that huge list didn't you say men should pay for dates i didn't say that i said that i don't i mean

05:55:39.260 like i would like it but i'm not gonna judge a guy is it okay to say women should do x

05:55:44.640 to you oh she did she answered yeah oh you got this solo i don't care men say women should be

05:55:55.980 submissive i don't care what you say women should cook and clean women should stay at home i can just 1.00

05:56:02.940 not agree with you yeah that's fine yeah i don't really give a fuck what you say i might not agree 0.98

05:56:08.360 you should talk to somebody that would care about that because she's demonstrating that she would

05:56:14.960 not care okay cool yeah sorry i'm to say should yeah i'm okay with it not not okay to say should

05:56:21.880 cena into the mic guys into the mics it doesn't really matter okay i just find it interesting

05:56:28.840 that thank you i'm gonna tell you i'm gonna tell you rage bait incoming no rage no it's actually no

05:56:35.620 rage can we get a sound effect for the rage bait incoming yeah sure i got a sound effect yeah i 0.96

05:56:40.360 got a sound effect for you guys shut the fuck up anyways like i was saying like i was about to say 0.98

05:56:47.160 oh wait hold on oh do you have a bitch one anyways i knew it i knew this was you're welcome thank you 1.00

05:56:54.200 you're welcome so anyways so anyways cool i think in society there's no issue when women say men should 0.99

05:57:03.560 do this men should pay for first day hurry back on the feminism it's not feminism it is you are just 1.00

05:57:09.620 one no you are right quiet lady oh oh my god i can kill you with one arm i can talk down to you 1.00

05:57:16.940 that's you that's you right now i didn't say anything about killing you um feeling some you did get a 0.99

05:57:23.240 death threat today i did get a dread threat today dread threat so anyway there's no issues when women 1.00

05:57:32.420 say men should do this men should do that even women who say men should do xyz when it comes to

05:57:37.620 your guys's portion of that you always tend to object to women should my question is

05:57:44.880 what duties do women have it depends on the relationship i agree but if the typical duties 1.00

05:57:54.060 one directionally for men to women provide and protect that's an expectation it's a duty

05:58:00.700 what duties do women have nurture nurture care loyalty respect but all these things go both ways 0.92

05:58:08.920 women are by the way what do you guys tell me an example not nurturing no hold on tell me a way in

05:58:15.180 which women nurture that like a man can't do a childbirth yes okay well hold on so women should 1.00

05:58:22.060 have children i i believe so yeah that's a strong belief about it i disagree i can be the odd one out

05:58:30.200 i disagree i disagree i mean like yeah women like like we're the only ones that can have children but 0.69

05:58:37.360 like who the fuck is anyone to tell me to do so i actually had it have intentions on being a 0.92

05:58:44.440 that is called a surrogate like have a baby for someone who can't a surrogate yeah i just said 0.98

05:58:50.160 yeah but like that's just an idea for me i just like i mean again i'm freshly an adult don't want

05:58:56.480 kids that could easily change in like two three four five years time but i think sorry sorry sorry

05:59:01.600 he's gonna make us take off over and we have a segment called uh take your makeup off go ahead 0.99

05:59:09.520 did i barely have any odd i'm not wearing any makeup i don't wear makeup can i have a mirror

05:59:14.740 you have the camera you have i'm like getting ready for bed before i can yay i don't have to

05:59:19.680 i just ask we have chats coming through so be quiet while we let these come through

05:59:24.740 and go ahead and take it off

05:59:27.240 wait i need a nap for you i'm traveling around canada this year but next year i will visit some

05:59:33.620 countries from the passport brothers site to find the traditional woman i'm gonna get so red

05:59:38.360 feminist influence she will vow for me oh my god guys well put pasty george this isn't even like

05:59:46.160 moist i know let's try a different one some of them might it's completely dry try try that one

05:59:52.100 that one looks a bit more juicy okay go quick cina quick quick quick go go go run run run

05:59:59.000 george donated seventy dollars fake chest hello l yeah that was about you or while i guess it could

06:00:08.400 also be about i can't like she has they smell weird am i gonna break out because no 100 why does it burn

06:00:15.940 my skin has been really good try the other time other kind that's the honest brand those are the

06:00:21.660 good ones can i have a mirror i like candles use here just use the screen oh hell no you like zoom in

06:00:28.080 we don't claim chair one along with desert judge yeah say that to everybody in scottsdale

06:00:38.300 phoenix arizona stop stop 304 infected hands little miss lexi with two x's dot com

06:00:45.840 arizona that's great i know thank you hell yeah all right quiet quiet quiet guys stop stop when i was

06:00:55.520 younger one of my girlfriends did my dishes after the first date when she came over to talk and enjoy 0.99

06:01:01.040 some wine we were together for a few years until she cheated on me lol 0.70

06:01:06.260 pasty george thank you very much for the message good sir i i appreciate that we have pasty george

06:01:15.100 again oh oh a little roast here get them in roast guys we're quiet women speak only when spoken to 1.00

06:01:22.580 pasty george it's okay all right now what we're gonna do hold up the makeup lights spread them

06:01:29.420 show the makeup wipes spread the makeup she did not that is i don't wear makeup i never wear makeup

06:01:38.040 oh yeah i didn't wear makeup take your lashes off then hold it i'll do that hold it 0.99

06:01:44.120 nice there it is makeup segment completed well done let's see that just took some time off my hands

06:01:52.120 later tonight see we are looking out for you guys we're very you're so pro woman who yeah she i thought

06:01:59.140 she said you weren't really wearing makeup looks like really good too i don't think he had really

06:02:05.480 wearing makeup oh here we have makeup she's back none of y'all need makeup wait no i look he didn't

06:02:12.240 have concealer under my eyes you don't need it don't wear it your natural beauty is beautiful you don't

06:02:17.180 need makeup i would not i mean if it makes you feel good that's awesome but i just like doing it's

06:02:21.900 kind of fun personal you do not need it but getting ready with my friends yeah some music

06:02:28.340 fake chest hello l again all right good time general thing brian can i can i say something

06:02:34.500 real quick though about makeup uh sure so i went on a date with this guy he was pretty successful he

06:02:39.520 was in the military made good money took me out on dates and stuff he was like you know what i want 0.97

06:02:44.020 to date a woman that wears makeup can you do that for me i said fuck no bye oh i mean i didn't i didn't 0.98

06:02:51.280 feed into that i was like you want to date a woman that wears makeup and because i don't it freaks you 0.97

06:02:56.360 out that doesn't make any sense but yeah i just thought i would bring that up that's weird kind

06:03:01.120 of what duties what duties though do women have i don't know what do do women have duties work what 1.00

06:03:07.480 should women do i don't know women work oh here we go rapid fire segment what this is just like 1.00

06:03:16.040 the fun question portion what years were world war one starting with you oh yeah i'm gonna fail

06:03:22.360 uh i don't know i don't know uh decade just tell me the decade i hope no one's watching

06:03:29.660 i am not sure great love it 1910s and 1930s was world war one and then world war two okay what about

06:03:38.400 or no 19 just world war one just world war one whatever she just said well say it anyways i already

06:03:45.600 forgot what decade no hables english lo siento 1910 1910 1910 i failed my history class

06:03:55.020 it's great okay uh i already said it 1910s okay i'm just gonna say 1910s too because i don't know

06:04:07.660 i'll be honest 1916 and 1918 okay go ahead 1910 1910 all right it was 1914 1918 what years were world

06:04:17.980 war ii i am not sure okay just guess guess decade okay go ahead early 30s early 30s okay late 20s

06:04:31.580 late 20s early 30s okay late 20s early 30s all right i'm saying uh late 30s early 40s okay

06:04:49.360 70s 70s 70s world war two okay 1939 to 1945 1930 1930 1930 just 30 1930 okay all right uh has

06:05:04.080 cool it was oh 1939 1945 yeah has anyone here ever had a hoe phase 0.99

06:05:11.000 like do you like what like sleeping around or like just like kissing a bunch of people a hoe phase 0.99

06:05:17.800 whatever that means to you i've had a hoe but what does that mean to you it means you were a hoe 0.99

06:05:23.660 for show no what is a hoe oh my god a hoe for show do you have to do more than like when i was like 14 0.99

06:05:30.320 i kissed a bunch of people damn it's probably warm now that actually that's not poison fucking scene 0.97

06:05:36.160 in here while she's in california uh has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys 0.99

06:05:43.020 in a 24-hour period hooked as in sex just hooked up so like make out and beyond sure let's just start 0.96

06:05:50.740 with sex okay no okay all right is it a deal breaker if a guy uses the word retarded no 0.99

06:05:57.460 anybody not anymore deal breaker are you retarded no i mean i feel if you're like if i'm with a guy 0.99

06:06:08.060 and he's using it towards someone who's genuinely disabled like yeah that's fucking yeah well that's 0.98

06:06:12.080 just me i know what you'll say it's like mean energy is it a deal breaker if a guy is conservative 0.97

06:06:20.000 no no you date a trump supporter yeah she did wear the by the way she did wear the fashion i loved

06:06:28.300 you to you trump supporters i love you i'm just not one of you yeah okay would you date a uh 0.89

06:06:34.560 conservative or trump supporter if he was like like fucking crazy about it i'd be like 0.91

06:06:39.200 if that's his views he keeps it to himself like whatever he's not like insanely political but he is 0.84

06:06:45.240 a conservative he didn't vote i just want to mention one more time that i am not politically

06:06:48.780 educated at all so i was gonna say probably wait did any of you vote in the election no or maybe you

06:06:57.020 weren't 18 he wasn't 18 yet uh would you date a trump supporter slash conservative yeah all right we

06:07:02.860 got some okay he's my boyfriend is conservative and trump supporter okay conservative yes a trump supporter

06:07:10.980 probably not second oh question i know you guys are you know in school you want to have a career

06:07:17.740 one day all of you right if you met a guy who he was a high earner say he made a million dollars a year

06:07:24.020 oh and he said hey look um we've been dating for a year two years whatever um i don't want you to work

06:07:33.100 and he's going to take care of everything but you have to stop doing your work

06:07:37.540 will you stop for him but he if you don't it's going to be a major problem the relationship the

06:07:45.600 relationship's over i'm not working no more what i would do for my two work things that i have

06:07:52.560 playing the music and the hair thing that those are like hobbies so i would have to stop what i love

06:07:56.200 doing but should be like can i still like make music and do people's hair you can serenade him

06:08:01.860 privately okay i think so yeah but you can't pursue it as a career but what if he leaves you 0.96

06:08:09.020 then you're absolutely fucked no i wouldn't do it i wouldn't do it financial independence i would not 0.97

06:08:15.880 do it important if my if a guy came to me and told me to end my career for him he's obviously got 1.00

06:08:22.360 issues no i have way too much drive okay wait question really quick on the bow thing would any of you

06:08:29.540 if you if you were paid for like you were greeter at a walmart or something and for some reason they

06:08:35.460 wanted you to bow to the customers would you do it for five hundred thousand absolutely yeah

06:08:41.800 absolutely totally but question question would you would you then would you bow for a guy who makes

06:08:49.460 ten million dollars a year and he takes care of everything no oh my goodness no i don't really like

06:08:56.520 what the math isn't mathing i guess i'm tired and i'm hungry i think it's more wait for the pizza's

06:09:03.160 coming i can't talk i think it's a submissive problem i think that women just don't want to 1.00

06:09:08.340 be like submissive to a man i agree this is how i feel right now that's how bella feels um i miss my

06:09:14.860 casa where's felicity felicity get back here rude oh my god uh wait hold on you're glad you're glad 0.98

06:09:25.320 oh okay um pillow well i guess my confusion is you would you would do the same exact thing for a

06:09:33.340 an employer but you wouldn't because the money's for me but if you're married but if you're married

06:09:38.480 money is not my money but if you're married but if you're married it legally is you can ask for

06:09:42.940 allowance and the difference is 10 okay so you make what did i say a million a year or something

06:09:48.200 500 000 oh 500 000 bow every day by the guy who makes 10 million but is it like i bow to him 0.99

06:09:54.560 every time i see him like i wake up and i bow once a day once a day all right fuck it i'll bow 0.93

06:10:00.080 w bella is he like a good guy or is it just for the money no it's it's a good guy so i like i'm in 0.99

06:10:07.440 love with this man and he's rich as fuck he wants me to bow once yeah just all you have to do is bow 0.95

06:10:11.180 you get i'd do that yeah there you go oh my god beautiful i love how you like twist the circumstance 0.98

06:10:16.180 again and again until we agree yeah i know i love it too right it's like yeah keep making it better

06:10:21.280 for me manipulated yeah gas lit okay um please can we have pizza or go to wait i'm hungry i'm almost 0.88

06:10:28.580 there i'm a starving this is a good one this is a good one dinner have you had more sober sex or 1.00

06:10:34.680 drunk sex sober fucking alcoholic over sober sober sober sober sober okay cool um let's see here 1.00

06:10:46.540 uh oh question would you take a man's last name yes like get married when you get married it depends 1.00

06:10:56.140 on the last name like i have a really cool last name and i really like it i like how let's say his last

06:11:01.560 name is and then you skipped me mediocre you take too long to answer your fault you didn't give me a

06:11:07.180 chance she answered for me that would be tricky for me because like all my music is no it's good

06:11:11.720 okay sure sorry i keep just talking it's okay go ahead um that would be tricky for me because like

06:11:18.200 again with the music thing like it's under my name bella brown bb like that's what i called huh

06:11:24.280 yeah i guess like legally i take a man's last name guys final call on the tts because we're

06:11:31.500 getting this wrapped up soon so final call 69 tts you have like five six minutes if you want to get

06:11:37.280 it in because we're wrapping if kim did it you can do it huh kim kardashian she's huge and she changed 1.00

06:11:43.500 she hyphenated her last name true really she changed it was kardashian west when she married kanye

06:11:49.120 word i would i would definitely do it yeah it's just you know that's just crazy son that's just

06:11:59.180 crazy it's weird though you want a guy to pay for the first date but you won't change your last name

06:12:05.180 i said i would legally oh okay that's cool like if i get married to him i didn't know that was optional

06:12:10.320 sweet like for a 25 30 meal is different than legally this is a good one perfect man for life

06:12:18.000 or perfect career for life career career man man man career perfect career i would be i'd be bawling

06:12:28.240 oh my career just like damn wait sorry who just to show fans who picked career

06:12:33.360 perfect career perfect career perfect career okay all right you know hey you know i've got different 0.92

06:12:40.540 uh motivations let's see i think i have two more we'll let the last chats come in then we're going to

06:12:47.560 get this wrapped up oh should we do the measuring tape segment felicity i think so

06:12:54.060 oh no what's the measuring tape section here's what we're gonna do are we guessing how long six

06:13:00.100 inches is hey kaya we're we're almost done if you can just uh come back we're gonna get this wrapped

06:13:06.460 up here so felicity you're gonna go around the table you're gonna stand next to them you're gonna

06:13:10.020 be like show me the average what you think the uh average well the average is literally 3.5 wait should

06:13:16.640 we should we say should it be the average or should it be what they want what both like i think 0.98

06:13:24.040 it's like three or four let's do both fuck it both let's do both final final thing here 0.99

06:13:28.180 i might kill myself that would save that one guy from i know right inquisitor zeal 1.00

06:13:37.800 what are the questions oh so felicity stand in between all right so uh what do you think the 0.97

06:13:44.420 average size is and then tell us what the size you want is measure with your fingers and then felicity's

06:13:50.600 going to measure it the average is like three four here do it like this do it like this just

06:13:54.960 physically do this i say three four inches no like with your hands with your hands just do this

06:14:00.380 so she can

06:14:01.160 here turn it can you orient it so just say what it is five okay four that was four all right next

06:14:12.720 somebody recommended we do this what was the other question oh what's the ideal that you want

06:14:17.400 what do you want uh eight seven why am i showing with fingers if we have a ruler because i'm 0.99

06:14:29.240 supposed to bro just fucking do it oh my god trying to get these people out of here seven god damn just 0.98

06:14:35.340 i don't know do the thing all right move move it on move it on okay size queen 0.99

06:14:39.540 exactly five did i see you at that and what do you want

06:14:50.100 is this cringe no i can't yeah

06:14:55.200 somebody in the chat was like you guys should do it

06:14:59.200 i can't yeah because yo chat chat is it cringe or no chat

06:15:04.300 i would like to practice my um

06:15:07.400 it's freedom of game what is it called

06:15:10.140 freedom of uh speech in that oh my god what's it called free will

06:15:14.580 free will i'm gonna use my free will and opt out of this one

06:15:17.680 me too

06:15:18.640 okay uh

06:15:22.880 another game okay fine there's a few more notes from some of the people here who haven't got to

06:15:30.180 speak much we'll do that we're gonna wrap sativa you said that your past is your past you've been

06:15:35.320 redeemed through christ just because a woman is pretty doesn't mean she's promiscuous when you say 1.00

06:15:39.680 your past is your past like how did you used to move when it came to dating um definitely more like

06:15:45.440 i don't like this term but more like man eater like how you could benefit me and i also really fed off

06:15:51.840 like what how i could entice men and stuff like that like i like to make men less i really

06:15:57.460 enjoy doing that and i found a lot of power in that um and it's just essentially i'm not that person

06:16:04.440 anymore at all any shape or form um i'm actually i totally flipped the script i'm definitely way on

06:16:11.720 more of the modest and conservative side now and um i'm just i'm not that person so trying to relate

06:16:18.400 me to that or bring me back to that it's just essentially it's just not going to work it's just

06:16:22.620 not valid anymore i saw on your instagram also you said you were trying to be the moon

06:16:26.380 oh did you what does that mean what does that mean um so that's kind of like a viral thing that's

06:16:34.420 going on where girls are kind of showing how they looked before they found their faith and kind

06:16:38.800 of like how they've transformed through christ and i used to have like 20 piercings in my face and i

06:16:44.240 used to be extremely explicit and show off my tongue and that was my identity and essentially

06:16:49.980 i was saved by the sun so did you say same

06:16:53.400 all right uh and then we have kayla here final things for you you said you were a teenager you

06:17:00.980 dated two people who were 10 years old how old were you dated two people no no how old were you when

06:17:05.860 you were dating that these oh i'm sorry uh 15 16 that's a crime well for them yikes okay uh you said

06:17:15.180 that uh hold on you had most of your sexual partners before you were the age of 20 yes i'm ashamed of 0.77

06:17:23.420 that very good times good times it wouldn't even call it good you're a feminist leftist but we already 1.00

06:17:28.380 talked about some of that uh why is the thing okay that's pretty much it uh any final thoughts from

06:17:33.780 any of the panelists before i wrap this up speak now forever hold your peace wait what oh my god 0.96

06:17:39.740 fucking tiktok brain bro these gen z oh my god are you guys gen z or gen mommy i'm tired my final 0.99

06:17:48.220 thoughts this is why the wage gap exists because men were just fucking trucking venmo me oh my god 1.00

06:17:53.560 cash at me that's so late follow my tiktok 0.97

06:17:57.060 uh feral came in canaan kaylee izzy

06:18:03.020 ernie david it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay

06:18:12.540 it's okay bella hasty george donated $70 to the panelists is it a red flag if a guy makes fun of a 0.99

06:18:19.540 disabled person and then slaps them on the head but he then gives the disabled person 100k for his 1.00

06:18:27.400 troubles pacey george i hope you don't get hit by a car on your way home fuck whoa i don't know 0.99

06:18:34.820 that's a red flag i feel like i would come up with that is the real question hey who says that good 0.98

06:18:42.600 night everyone good night i love you all ben mommy good night george donated $70 what do all the

06:18:49.700 female panelists think of the new laws on their fraud paternity that are slowly being passed 1.00

06:18:54.860 throughout the states oh my god pacey george good night pacey george we do not wrap it up

06:19:01.440 this is why the wage gap exists gentlemen this is why the wage gap oh my god let me go home

06:19:06.680 bear me uh all right so we're gonna get this wrapped yes all right guys i'd like to end the 0.99

06:19:13.600 show by seeing if we can't use this yeah fuck it whatever oh call to action really quick will you 0.99

06:19:18.020 and will you consider stopping sex work tonight on the show for what dun dun dun your soul that 1.00

06:19:26.340 for my soul your soul not a dollar but if anyone i'll give you a two dollar belt would like to take

06:19:31.400 me off the market that's up for options good talk okay i want to say gg i will play gg well

06:19:38.760 played last call hit the like button please on your way out we'll get to that thanks all for 0.76

06:19:44.980 watching hold on hold on hold on hold on let me do my outro god damn guys leave a nice comment 0.99

06:19:50.440 i can i can make it go longer just be quiet let me do the fucking outro lady god damn here let me 1.00

06:19:58.880 play a couple things hold on uh this the fuck up uh i have this okay shut the fuck up i got this 0.99

06:20:09.080 you know what that was really rude of me i want i'd like to take this chance to apologize 0.98

06:20:15.240 we have to go nobody just get up and go bro i'm literally stop talking all right our roommates are

06:20:22.160 here and we have to go you got you said it was an end at 11 and it's 11 19 chat should we just should

06:20:29.000 we just should we just or i'm getting up and going just wait do the outro yeah do a rage quick go

06:20:36.920 ahead you can just leave just leave go ahead just leave go ahead i don't know stay oh my god just go 0.98

06:20:43.720 just go what oh my god you guys are feral chill out god damn i'm trying to wrap up you said that 0.99

06:20:49.040 five minutes ago conversation whatever holy shit i know some things sometimes things go longer 0.99

06:20:56.920 it's okay it's this is why the wage gap exists you know what there is a chat that just came through

06:21:01.760 oh my god i can't control it i'm sorry i can't base thought donated oh my god never i you couldn't

06:21:09.460 silence me even if you could let it come through you can't you 300 and you can't sorry brian

06:21:16.020 strip club and throw fake money go ahead find me in scottsdale arizona phoenix don't want to claim 0.97

06:21:21.140 you 304 az gang based thor god damn yes and now bro prolonged our session thank you so much for 0.97

06:21:33.060 that and to all my great supporters in scottsdale feral feral unhinged feral unhinged okay let me get 0.97

06:21:42.900 through my outro please 30 seconds here guys if you enjoyed the stream wait until it's ended

06:21:50.900 leave a nice little comment uh it helps with the algorithm and that i do read them thank you for

06:21:57.720 tuning in tonight thank you to the panel you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with

06:22:00.580 me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show this

06:22:04.600 show is viewer supported we couldn't do it without you guys we will be live again sunday at 5 p.m pacific

06:22:11.280 god a another fantastic panel on sunday be sure to tune in any girls who want to be on the show 1.00

06:22:15.700 you can dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara are we forgetting anything

06:22:20.440 all good okay oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat good night guys and we will see you next

06:22:29.120 time good night guys

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Whatever Podcast - August 25, 2025

She BETRAYED Brian？! FERAL Gen Z California College Girls？! She Says Men Are GROSS？! ｜ Dating Talk #257

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