Whatever Podcast - She DISRESPECTED Him？! Based VlRGlN Mason & Brian Atlas vs. Women HEATED DEBATE! ｜ Dating Talk 290

00:00:00.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense

00:00:28.060 of the modern dating hellscape i uh i'm very sorry for our uh delay there boy do i have some

00:00:36.880 stuff to tell you guys um so sorry that we're starting late guys uh my sincerest and deepest

00:00:45.380 apologies for that uh we as you can see uh something we've perhaps done only once in history 0.99

00:00:55.360 uh i had to you know i had to recruit the fuck do you see her her head's like all fucked up 0.99

00:01:04.320 the the you see that it's like all fucking bloppy jaw i had to fucking we have kiki 0.99

00:01:12.240 joining us mason's girlfriend they're they're getting comfortable and uh that's ashley 0.99

00:01:21.640 Ashley St. Whore, the one with the pink hair.

00:01:28.620 So where do I begin today?

00:01:32.180 Well, you know what?

00:01:34.620 Before I get into it, I'll let some more people roll in and join the stream.

00:01:41.040 I will have the guests introduce themselves.

00:01:43.700 So tell us your name, age, location, occupation, and education.

00:01:49.300 Go ahead.

00:01:50.480 My name is Molly.

00:01:52.100 I'm 19, and I'm originally from Utah, but I live in California now in Santa Monica.

00:01:58.700 Okay.

00:01:59.080 I do OnlyFans.

00:02:02.360 All right.

00:02:03.320 And how long have you been doing OF?

00:02:06.640 Probably like three months, four months now.

00:02:10.700 Okay.

00:02:12.120 And you said you're from where again?

00:02:14.540 Sorry, I missed that part.

00:02:15.520 Utah.

00:02:16.360 Salt Lake City?

00:02:17.520 St. George, Utah.

00:02:19.000 Are you Mormon?

00:02:19.540 I am Mormon.

00:02:21.640 lds lds yeah okay what does that stand for latter day saints why was there a question

00:02:30.540 mark at the end of the because i'm nervous okay all right so and you're um

00:02:35.540 what do you do on of is it boy girl content or yeah i do a bit of everything um solo and boy

00:02:43.960 girl content. I see. Okay. All right. What about you? I'm Jade. I'm 28. I live in Oceanside. I'm

00:02:53.620 originally from Ohio. I'm a holistic health practitioner. Holistic health practitioner.

00:02:59.380 Okay. Massage, body work, sound baths, all that good shit. Okay. Any education, any college? 1.00

00:03:06.480 Yeah. I have my degree from MiraCosta. In what? Kinesiology. When did you get that? In 2022.

00:03:13.960 Is that a bachelor's degree or?

00:03:15.860 No, just associates.

00:03:17.260 Okay, and then have you done any college or?

00:03:19.540 No.

00:03:20.020 Anything?

00:03:20.540 Okay.

00:03:21.340 Planning to or?

00:03:22.560 No, I don't plan to.

00:03:24.580 Gotcha.

00:03:25.260 What about you?

00:03:26.280 My name is Dana.

00:03:27.740 I'm 50 years old and I am from right outside of Memphis, Tennessee.

00:03:32.880 I have a bachelor's degree and I am in insurance.

00:03:38.280 Okay, all right.

00:03:40.180 And you live in Memphis?

00:03:41.320 I live right outside about 30 minutes.

00:03:43.960 but Memphis. And are you like, is that where you were? That's where I'm from. Grew up there. Okay.

00:03:49.640 Memphis, Tennessee. All right. All right. Uh, college, anything like that or I have a bachelor's

00:03:56.080 bachelor's. Okay. Got it. All right. Uh, what about you? My name is Angelica. I am 41 and I

00:04:03.360 am a mortgage professional and a real estate developer. I did some college, but, um, I stopped

00:04:11.120 once I started my real estate career. Okay. And where are you from? I am from the greater Los

00:04:18.280 Angeles area. I'm in the West Valley. Okay. All right. Mason, what about you? Yeah. My name is

00:04:24.900 Mason Gregoire. I am 29, turning 30 in like seven days. So hitting that 30 wall. You can find me on

00:04:35.060 Instagram, YouTube, I guess Facebook if you're old,

00:04:39.120 TikTok as MG Barbell.

00:04:43.080 Yeah, I was a mechanical engineer.

00:04:46.040 I got my degree in mechanical engineering, natural sciences.

00:04:48.820 I also have another degree in natural sciences from Covenant College.

00:04:55.380 But I did all that, threw that away, and now I'm going into the EMS field.

00:04:59.480 I'm an EMT working on an ambulance, going in to be a firefighter.

00:05:02.940 all right and you had kind of a miraculous recovery about a year over a year ago yeah it

00:05:08.660 was over a year ago uh my motorcycle accident yes that was a motorcycle accident um it was

00:05:15.000 i think the doctors every single doctor said that by far i should have died it was it's a miracle

00:05:19.980 that i'm still alive uh it happened on 9 11 of 2024 so a magical day for oh goodness so many

00:05:27.300 people, but obviously being a joke. But yeah, so got in that motorcycle crash, had a grade four

00:05:33.980 aortic tear, a open book pelvis fracture, abdominal perforations, compound tib-fib

00:05:42.240 fracture, femur fracture, broke my jaw, intracranial swelling, cerebral spinal fluid leakage.

00:05:51.560 What else am I missing?

00:05:54.380 Oh, yeah.

00:05:54.740 And then, I mean, I had a colostomy bag for like six months there.

00:05:58.120 Actually, last time I was on the show, I had a colostomy bag.

00:06:00.980 And about probably a few hundred thousand people saw me take a dump on live footage a few times that day.

00:06:08.080 So that was nice.

00:06:09.640 Yes.

00:06:10.180 But, yeah, motorcycle crash. 1.00

00:06:12.300 Can you place this African-American baby in that seat there? 1.00

00:06:18.180 Yes, I may. 1.00

00:06:18.620 I don't want the table to be too empty.

00:06:20.420 Let's fill it up

00:06:23.540 You know what, because of my OCD

00:06:25.980 Can you tilt him slightly

00:06:27.560 Just maybe center him a little bit

00:06:29.600 He's a bit off to the

00:06:31.200 Yeah, that works

00:06:32.460 I think we can work with that

00:06:36.140 Alright, thank you, appreciate it

00:06:37.760 We have a TTS from Jorge

00:06:39.700 Thank you, man

00:06:40.460 Hello

00:06:42.220 Thank you, Desert Jorge

00:06:44.960 Desert Jorge donated $200

00:06:47.140 Happy show day 1.00

00:06:49.220 Shout out to all the based homies in the whatever discord 0.99

00:06:52.840 Based JC, based Jay Ekin, based Paddy, based Thor, based Mr. Drake, based Mara, slash Mike, based Jess, based Josh, based B, based Nat, and based Wiggles 0.81

00:07:02.920 Thank you, based Desert Jorge, appreciate that

00:07:07.820 Alright, so before we get into the relationship status

00:07:11.340 I do, you know, normally I wouldn't do this

00:07:15.500 So it's funny, almost ironic

00:07:18.280 it's not without a sense of irony that if you those of you who tuned in last show last week

00:07:25.520 we had 13 people on the panel because what i do i i overbook i'll usually you know aim to

00:07:32.940 like have 15 people on schedule a week out with the anticipation that as the show approaches you

00:07:39.780 know we'll get we'll get like five six flakes you know leading up to it the day before the day of

00:07:47.200 uh today and by the way i overbooked for today but unfortunately uh it was just a uh what's the 0.81

00:07:56.580 word like uh perfect storm i don't know just fucking everybody almost everybody except for 0.95

00:08:02.460 you guys uh fucking like no showed um and i'm gonna get into that here in just a moment uh 0.98

00:08:11.860 hold the super chats for just a moment while i'm getting through this like just take it off 0.99

00:08:16.360 Uh, so, um, I feel like it warrants, given the egregiousness of the flakage and the no-showingness and et cetera, et cetera, I feel like it warrants, uh, us calling these people out individually and, uh, also providing and showing their bullshit excuses.

00:08:42.480 uh so i i think that's warranted under the circumstances normally i just let it go

00:08:48.420 um so the first one which i find the most egregious uh well and by the way let me just

00:08:56.560 make something clear guys on like five separate occasions in our comms with the people we have

00:09:03.160 on the show we tell them the date we tell them the show time uh especially oftentimes we're

00:09:08.680 booking people sometimes we'll be booking people kind of like you know the week of but oftentimes

00:09:13.900 we're booking people weeks even months in advance um and it varies it varies but for the most part

00:09:20.780 the majority of people we have booked are booked like weeks out weeks out so we send five remind

00:09:26.660 like there's a total of five um points where we you know confirm we we sent out initial show

00:09:34.500 information. We ask for initial confirmation. A week out, we send like the show information.

00:09:40.580 Like midweek, we send a midweek reminder. We send a day before reminder and we send a day of

00:09:46.980 reminder. And man, people are just not reliable. So I'm going to show you some of the bullshittery.

00:09:57.580 I only had time to take screenshots of some of the messages, but we'll show you each individual

00:10:02.020 person. Uh, so the first one we're going to pull up was a, a no show. Uh, go ahead, pull that one

00:10:09.120 up, Tiffany. All right. So Jocelyn Silva, uh, she just straight up no showed. And so we called her,

00:10:20.260 we called her up and we're like, Hey, uh, and I think we had, you two were there. You witnessed

00:10:27.440 missed my frustrated phone call. So I call her up and she actually picks up. I was actually

00:10:33.740 surprised. And she says that, oh, what did she, well, she said that at 3 a.m. she had to drive

00:10:43.220 her mom to the hospital. And that in, at that moment though, she was, I heard the TV on in

00:10:49.680 the background. She was babysitting two children. Now, mind you, she didn't tell us. I had to call

00:10:58.880 her. So our meet time is 4 p.m. Our meet time's 4 p.m. I called her at like 4.15, 4.20. She had

00:11:07.640 not sent any message. She didn't take like five, 10 seconds to just message us and say, hey,

00:11:12.800 I'm sorry. I had an emergency. Something happened. I'm not going to be able to make it.

00:11:17.800 she didn't do that and she claims that she you know had to take her mom to the hospital which

00:11:23.100 is a lie she was babysitting some kids which i don't know the truth of that but what we do know

00:11:29.940 is uh that she was posting as you can see she has some stories active there and uh so um go ahead

00:11:39.960 so this was two hours ago hold on so she she says she didn't have time to take you know it takes 10

00:11:46.840 seconds to send a message and just say, hey, I'm not, look, I'm not coming. Even, hey, you know

00:11:52.540 what? You could just be like, you know what? Fuck your podcast. I don't like it. I'm not coming.

00:11:56.200 So two hours ago, so our call time's 4 p.m. It's currently 5 30 p.m. now. Now, so this,

00:12:01.560 she probably took this at like 3 p.m., 2 p.m. She never told us. She never reached out. She

00:12:07.280 didn't send a message that she wasn't coming. Her excuses she had in emergency, yet she had time to

00:12:13.220 post stories to her Instagram. She has time to take a video and then post it. And then think of

00:12:19.020 the retarded caption she's going to post and then put all those filters on it. So she doesn't look 0.99

00:12:22.960 ugly. So, uh, go ahead and play hit play there. So she posts a story two hours ago. Oh, wait, 1.00

00:12:30.300 whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Okay. What the fuck? Okay. Uh, I don't know what happened

00:12:34.560 there. Uh, you're going to have to X out, like close that one down. Close. Just, just that page.

00:12:39.960 okay just that one though okay tiffany yeah all right pull it back up

00:12:45.740 yeah she deleted it wait wait no did you close the the the oh okay so this is her she has a

00:12:53.240 poetry page so she also had the time to her second alt instagram account she didn't have time to take 0.94

00:13:00.060 10 seconds to be like hey i'm not gonna make it sorry she had time to post some like retarded

00:13:04.020 poetry okay cool uh tab over next okay so that's the one of the stories she took tab over 0.60

00:13:11.380 because i guess she took she privated uh i'm a woman that knows what i'm going to name my kids

00:13:17.280 i live on my own and pay my own bills i know what i want of course i'm not easy now she posted this 1.00

00:13:23.880 she had time to post this retarded shit uh but she didn't have time to message us she's a fucking 1.00

00:13:31.340 liar she's a fucking scumbag uh tab over there's one more she had time to she had time to post this 1.00

00:13:37.580 i guess so she had time to post all this shit how do you have time first off she's obviously lying 1.00

00:13:46.280 about the emergency how do you it's total bullshit by the way you got i don't know if you guys were 0.99

00:13:51.380 listening uh you guys were listening um did she apologize did she say sorry not once what did she 0.98

00:13:59.300 say she was annoyed through the whole thing and then she was gonna speak into the mic she was

00:14:03.620 annoyed through like the whole conversation like you were putting her out to call her out for her

00:14:08.380 crap i was like i was like hi hey this is uh we're calling here from the whatever podcast just 0.94

00:14:13.360 checking in are you coming and she was like oh uh no i was like okay well and then i think i said 0.97

00:14:21.500 something like okay well you it's 4 20 the call time was four you're coming from la you would

00:14:27.640 have had to you would have known two hours ago if you weren't coming you could have taken 10

00:14:32.640 seconds to just say and she was like you know I should have done that she said something like

00:14:37.640 you know you're right you're right I should have done that

00:14:41.540 the next words maybe I'm sorry no she didn't say sorry and then I was like well what uh what's the

00:14:49.660 deal and then like she was like well wait hold on and then hung up on me so like oh I'll hold

00:14:56.940 the whole hang up so uh pull back up her instagram though like the you might have to go back a few 1.00

00:15:04.080 tabs so look i mean she's a piece of shit um go ahead pull it up yeah uh jocelyn silva 1.00

00:15:13.980 fucking scumbag fucking terrible person fucking piece of shit um and uh 1.00

00:15:20.460 let's see let's see that dumb ass story again uh you tab over next one next one 1.00

00:15:28.660 i'm a woman that knows what i'm going to name my kids oh my god you're so you're such a terrible 0.99

00:15:34.760 person i'm like should i say it chat um i don't honestly this person is so bad i don't think she 0.56

00:15:43.720 should procreate to be honest like if you don't if you're i think she's i don't know in her mid

00:15:48.340 twenties. If you are in your mid twenties and you don't have the courtesy to just be like,

00:15:58.920 take 10 seconds when you've agreed to do something and just be like, Hey, I'm not, I'm not coming.

00:16:08.360 Look, you could throw in an apology in there, but at least tell the person, Hey, I'm not coming.

00:16:14.640 now there's no there was no emergency she was posting instagram stories i'm sorry your mom's

00:16:21.460 in the hospital you're babysitting kids you got time to post stories but you don't have time to 1.00

00:16:26.500 take 10 seconds to message and tell someone you have an appointment with so you don't fuck their 1.00

00:16:31.620 production over not that i don't you know there's the fucking black baby and the fucking pink-haired 1.00

00:16:36.640 ashley saint whore and fucking kiki over not that i don't mind it i'm just saying all right now 1.00

00:16:43.460 that's one of the seven voice crack that's one of the seven motherfuckers who pulled some bullshit 1.00

00:16:52.160 today next that's one fuck her now this is samantha wheeler who i attempted to call her 1.00

00:17:04.220 but she just no showed complete no show uh so samantha wheeler she's a content creator she's 1.00

00:17:11.820 an international, multi-published, petite model. Scroll down a little bit. I just want 1.00

00:17:19.160 to see, you know, anybody, you know, everyone's calling them. Keep going. Scroll down. Everyone's

00:17:26.440 a model. I mean, do you think she has? I don't think she has the chops, to be honest. She

00:17:33.060 does not have oh my god put that away god damn put oh my sorry um 0.98

00:17:40.120 no i tried to call i was like hey you coming she didn't no answer no no no what's it called 0.97

00:17:49.120 no call no show she didn't hey i'm sorry i'm not coming we sent reminders today yesterday the day

00:17:56.880 like uh the day before we had her we've had her on schedule since hold on let me look we had her

00:18:03.520 on schedule for like a month i think i think it was a month let me check and uh yeah man so that's

00:18:12.240 that's number two that was the number two no show uh that we had so i'm trying to see if i can find

00:18:18.820 it but samantha wheeler look if you're in los angeles and you're trying to book a woman who 0.93

00:18:24.160 looks like she does crack cocaine and like overdoses like every other week i mean maybe 0.99

00:18:30.440 she's your girl yeah we had her on schedule we we booked her march 11th it's april 12th she was on 0.93

00:18:38.520 schedule for a month 30 days she was on schedule march 27th sent a reminder april 3rd sent the

00:18:46.940 show information uh thursday sent it a reminder saturday sent a reminder sent a reminder today

00:18:53.940 so okay that was a no show that was a no show by the way this is going to relate to dating

00:18:59.160 because this is how people operate this is how people move this is how people are and it could

00:19:05.920 be business it could be friends it could be you're dating people have no respect for time anymore

00:19:12.260 I partially blame well social media but I blame this a lot but uh I remember look I don't know 0.99

00:19:19.560 if I'm, we do have some older women here. We got, uh, you're 50, you're 41. I'm 36. Mason, 0.97

00:19:24.580 how old are you? Uh, 29 turning 30. And you're 28. So I don't know, maybe you guys might be on

00:19:28.840 the younger side, but I remember when I was a kid and I was a fucking seven, when I was a seven 0.65

00:19:34.700 year old, if I told my friend, Hey, we're meeting at the handball courts. I was at the fucking 0.98

00:19:40.260 handball courts. I don't care. I could be fucking, if I was sick, I'm showing up, I'm showing up. I 1.00

00:19:46.180 can't leave my friend waiting at the handball courts we're gonna play tetherball or some shit 0.98

00:19:51.060 we're gonna fuck i don't know so it's like it's become way too common to just 0.98

00:19:58.360 it's been very common to just cancel plans last minute i don't know i'm a no g i'm a no g 0.99

00:20:07.120 you don't fucking do that you say you're gonna be somewhere you're gonna be you you show up 1.00

00:20:11.680 next person fuck samantha wheeler pull up pull her up again let me just talk some more shit 1.00

00:20:19.740 real quick but then next person fuck samantha guys this this woman is completely unreliable 1.00

00:20:26.100 if you want to book somebody you don't want to deal with her she will not show up she won't give 1.00

00:20:31.660 you you don't don't waste your production if there's any bookers out there in fucking los 0.98

00:20:36.800 Angeles. Do not, don't book this woman. She's, she's going to fuck your production up. You're 1.00

00:20:41.720 going to get a fucking, and Hey, look, we, we can roll with the punches a little bit because we got 1.00

00:20:46.000 a panel show, but you're, you're in LA. You're going to, you're trying to book a zombie shoot. 1.00

00:20:50.940 Like you're, you're doing the walking dead in Los Angeles and you're trying to book this chick. 0.95

00:20:54.920 You don't even got to put her in makeup. Like she's already good to go. She's good to go as 0.67

00:21:01.000 a zombie. She's already good to go, but I'm maybe don't book her. There's a, there's other people 1.00

00:21:06.080 in LA who need the work. She doesn't need to make, she's already set. You don't need to put

00:21:11.840 the zombie face on her. She's already a zombie. Okay, next. Uh, this girl apparently, so okay, 1.00

00:21:19.920 she, she, this one, Rocky, Raquel, old soul, fucking dumb soul. I'll tell you that much. 1.00

00:21:27.900 She, uh, so this is what she did here. Why did I post it in the discord? I might have you

00:21:33.060 one sec. I might have put it in the discord. I do have the, the, the DM in the discord. Go ahead.

00:21:38.900 Pull, pull up the discord. And then, so three 50. No, no, no, no. Okay. Here. Three 55.

00:21:45.380 Our meet time is 4 PM. Three 55. Go ahead. Pull it up. Pull it up. Guys, this is what I'm dealing

00:21:52.480 with. This is what I'm dealing with every fucking week. Hey, I'm having our meet time is 4 PM. 0.99

00:21:58.500 hey I'm having some car issues right now

00:22:01.080 and I think it's going to hinder me from coming

00:22:03.240 in. I was just getting off the

00:22:05.140 freeway. I'm waiting for AAA. Sorry

00:22:07.120 for the inconvenience.

00:22:09.020 Now

00:22:09.240 mind you

00:22:11.600 355 she got off the

00:22:15.160 freeway. She's already in Santa Barbara

00:22:17.160 I'm assuming because she's coming from Los Angeles.

00:22:19.360 It's like

00:22:19.780 what

00:22:22.860 okay so just show up late then.

00:22:25.520 But she was like no I can't do it

00:22:27.180 oh my god.

00:22:28.500 oh you okay 1.00

00:22:30.820 so i don't believe it i think she's lying i think she's just lying uh anyways fuck uh pull up her 1.00

00:22:38.620 ig again fuck her uh rocky get fucked you're i think you're a fucking liar show me you know what 1.00

00:22:46.280 i will retract my rude comments if you send me a dm i with proof of your your triple a 1.00

00:22:53.640 send me a photo that you actually your car oh your car broke down send me a photo

00:22:59.220 and then show me the triple a bill you know what's unfortunate though people can like make ai

00:23:05.360 like ai car breakdowns because i i've had people send me like fake photos in the past

00:23:12.780 and you can google image uh google reverse image search i've had women send me broken car photos

00:23:20.340 and it's like hold on this was posted three years ago i one time i had a girl send me a photo of

00:23:28.280 her car broken down and it was foggy and she was in santa barbara and it was clear skies

00:23:35.800 i'm like the cloud there's no clouds your car's broken down oh boy anybody remember that show 1.00

00:23:43.220 that was crazy all right uh next who am i talking shit to next who's next who's next oh this fucking 1.00

00:23:49.680 Okay, all right, Samantha, okay, this person's ridiculous 1.00

00:23:52.620 Get this right 0.72

00:23:54.160 Okay, pull up the Discord

00:23:55.360 Pull up the Discord, oh boy 0.90

00:23:58.080 Ridiculous 0.93

00:23:59.800 Bro, but this is what you're going to deal with when you're dating 1.00

00:24:03.580 These girls are going to lie 1.00

00:24:05.360 Oh my god, I can't make it 1.00

00:24:07.100 But they're doing some other shit 0.93

00:24:09.840 Unfortunately, won't be able to make it 0.98

00:24:12.160 I'm bedridden, got in an accident last night 0.98

00:24:15.080 Totaled my car and fucked my backup 0.99

00:24:16.720 I don't believe it 0.99

00:24:18.920 I'm sorry

00:24:20.160 I don't believe it

00:24:21.860 I think they're all lying 1.00

00:24:22.880 Believe all women 1.00

00:24:24.780 They're all fucking lying 1.00

00:24:27.520 They're lying 1.00

00:24:28.120 It's all bullshit 1.00

00:24:29.060 It's all lies 1.00

00:24:31.780 A lot of car trouble

00:24:33.520 Yeah a lot of car trouble conveniently

00:24:35.920 Two hours before the shoot 1.00

00:24:38.260 I want to believe all women 1.00

00:24:39.520 But it's ones like these 1.00

00:24:41.380 Where they throw this stuff out

00:24:42.960 This is obviously fake

00:24:44.760 It makes it very difficult 1.00

00:24:46.440 To have to believe all women 1.00

00:24:48.060 Well, also, it's appropriating car crashes. 0.99

00:24:51.000 Exactly.

00:24:51.720 Well, yeah, I'm an ambulance driver.

00:24:54.000 Yeah, bro.

00:24:54.740 Yeah, like appropriating car crashes.

00:24:56.900 Like if you're in a wreck and you total your car, there's no way you're just bedridden in some wherever,

00:25:03.800 like messaging us, oh, my gosh, I'm so sorry, I'm bedridden, my back hurts.

00:25:07.660 No, that's not what would be happening.

00:25:10.000 You would be in surgery, you would be operated on.

00:25:12.560 There's no way you would be texting the whatever podcast.

00:25:15.660 No way, no way.

00:25:16.600 This is obviously a lie.

00:25:18.380 As a professional EMT, I can confirm that is a lie.

00:25:23.160 Yeah.

00:25:23.460 Well, also, it's just like you had your own car motorcycle accident.

00:25:28.280 And it's like they're using your pain.

00:25:31.400 Exactly.

00:25:32.220 I feel like they're appropriating my suffering.

00:25:36.980 Yes.

00:25:38.080 That is. 1.00

00:25:38.560 It's fucked up, man. 1.00

00:25:39.560 So messed up. 1.00

00:25:40.420 So messed up.

00:25:40.560 You know what bothers me, Mason?

00:25:42.100 Tell me.

00:25:42.400 Is the emotional support animal people.

00:25:46.600 And they claim, they'll claim their dog is, is what, wait, wait, wait.

00:25:51.000 It's a, no, that, that's like a step down, a service animal.

00:25:55.540 Oh yeah. 1.00

00:25:56.000 So the, we've had girls on the show. 0.94

00:25:58.420 It's, it's happened once or twice.

00:25:59.960 One girl came on the show claiming her little poodle was a service animal.

00:26:06.120 Now it might be a ESA, an emotional support animal, which is, you can get that. 0.99

00:26:11.560 You can pay 20 bucks online, get a fucking certificate. 1.00

00:26:14.400 But what they do is, which I find very troubling, and it's mostly women who do this, is lie about the status of your dog. 1.00

00:26:26.400 So it's like, so they can, like, for flying and stuff, it makes it easier to, like, I guess, get your dog on board. 0.98

00:26:36.020 Yeah, it's just a loophole through the system.

00:26:37.760 Yeah, or, like, for flights, they'll claim the dog is a service animal, but it's not.

00:26:44.400 women overwhelmingly like men probably do that too but women more so do it um also like they'll do it 0.92

00:26:51.760 like just to get into like for buildings and stuff for events they'll lie and say it's a service 0.89

00:26:57.400 animal but it's not and that's kind of like it's fucked up just to lie about that but it kind of

00:27:04.180 makes people doubt the people who actually need the service animal for a genuine need whether 0.52

00:27:11.640 it's someone who who has uh i don't know what the pc term is like vision trouble who's um who has a

00:27:18.960 disability yeah who's legally blind who's blind yeah and uh or someone who like has seizures or 0.78

00:27:25.380 whatever it is like these people it's just like they're bullshitting the service animal thing

00:27:29.420 whenever i see britney walk in with her like little small poodle she's all dressed up real

00:27:34.040 nice and she's like oh it's my emotional emotional support animal who's makes me 0.53

00:27:38.020 I don't know, you got me, I'm just making the name of it.

00:27:40.260 Oh, you're making, okay.

00:27:40.920 Yeah, yeah.

00:27:41.860 I mean, obviously, everyone with emotional support animals, Brittany, maybe Karen, you know, one of those names.

00:27:47.320 Yeah.

00:27:47.720 But yeah, and then, like, so whenever I see someone who's actually blind, I'm wondering, are they actually blind?

00:27:52.200 Do they actually need that support animal? 0.95

00:27:53.660 It makes me doubt, and I shouldn't have to doubt, but I do.

00:27:56.600 True, true.

00:27:57.860 All right, Tiffany, come on.

00:27:59.540 Next, please.

00:28:02.260 All right, so that was, wait, yeah.

00:28:08.020 Okay, yeah. So she claimed she was in a catastrophic car accident and let me know. When did she let me know? Pull up the Discord really quick. You know what? Never mind. Just to move it on.

00:28:25.900 at 1.50 p.m.

00:28:28.120 So she, yeah, just pull it up, actually. 1.00

00:28:29.940 Fuck it. Pull it up. 1.00

00:28:31.340 At 1.50 p.m.,

00:28:33.200 but she got into the car accident last night.

00:28:38.260 So it's like, why are you letting us know

00:28:40.160 two hours before call time?

00:28:42.260 Go ahead, pull it up.

00:28:44.140 Why? Pull it up.

00:28:49.700 1.50 p.m.

00:28:51.480 That's two hours before call time.

00:28:53.600 We don't have, that doesn't give us enough time

00:28:55.780 to like find a replacement uh you could let us know sooner but i mean at least she let us know

00:29:02.080 she didn't know actually you know what uh she would not she probably wouldn't have told us

00:29:08.080 so i sent i sent a reminder at like 1 p.m i sent a i send a day of reminder to everybody like around

00:29:16.380 1 p.m i don't think had i not sent that reminder i she wouldn't have told us volunteer like she

00:29:24.700 If she didn't get that notification, she would have just probably no-showed.

00:29:28.380 So anyways, next.

00:29:31.200 Next one.

00:29:32.360 All right.

00:29:33.120 I'm going to blast through the rest of these so we can actually get to the show because it's probably – I'm beating a dead horse at this point.

00:29:38.980 All right. 1.00

00:29:40.080 This chick, bro, she did let us know ahead of time at like 2 p.m. or some shit that she was having – 0.72

00:29:51.080 Okay, actually, go to the Discord then, and then pull up the message. 0.98

00:29:58.420 So that's like three, two no-shows, four, I think it was like seven total or some shit.

00:30:04.680 Pull up the Discord, and then it's going to be the one below the cat photo, the image.

00:30:09.100 I'm fairly sure that's a new record for me.

00:30:11.320 So I do think I need it, but I'm going to order the Uber, and as long as I'm taking the bus back, I don't need it with me.

00:30:18.440 Just going to double-check with my ride.

00:30:19.720 So I'm having a slight transportation issue, just trying to see what my best option is now.

00:30:23.780 I should have gotten on that side this morning, like blah, blah, blah.

00:30:26.500 The bus with the traffic is getting me there way late and Uber and everything rose.

00:30:30.340 This is my second time out here.

00:30:31.820 So I'm still learning.

00:30:33.080 So that's a woman who flew in.

00:30:34.980 She arrived like yesterday or something, not in Santa Barbara.

00:30:37.840 She, I told her to fly to Santa Barbara, but she flew to LA and she's crashing in LA.

00:30:43.900 And we gave her all the info.

00:30:45.600 and uh i she messaged me at like 1 1 30 that message and i told her i'm like the if you're 0.92

00:30:55.460 if the bus is going to be late get yourself a fucking uber pay the 200 pay the 250 by the way 1.00

00:31:02.060 she she canceled she had actually flaked on us like two two three months ago uh and she had 1.00

00:31:07.480 missed her flight the day of uh this was like two three months ago she i maybe i'll post that in the 0.87

00:31:13.460 discord she missed her flight um so that that's the second time she canceled on this day of because 0.96

00:31:20.560 of transportation issues that's a 20 i think that's a 28 29 year old woman and then uh the 0.52

00:31:26.280 discord there's one more uh pull up the cat one that's the final one then we'll get to the show

00:31:32.060 sorry to the panelists here who have to hear me ranting and raving and being a lunatic uh well i 0.91

00:31:37.960 can't make this shit up i don't know what she did but she's this is a different different girl i 0.97

00:31:43.480 don't know what she did but she's limping and i need to stay here or take her to the vet i don't 0.99

00:31:47.420 have people to cat sit her since my roommates are going out of town 10 45 a.m uh by the way that's 0.98

00:31:53.600 i don't know if you guys remember that woman that's uh emily she's been on the show like two

00:31:57.120 times long time ago she's actually kind of based uh and she's cool like i like her um so i'm not 0.99

00:32:03.100 gonna like show her IG but like everyone else fuck them like fuck all those other people uh Emily 0.99

00:32:09.080 you owe me something like if we're gonna rebook you you need to give me a fucking deposit and you 1.00

00:32:14.500 need to send me 300 bucks as a deposit and fucking bring cookies or some bullshit uh but uh I mean 0.99

00:32:22.500 look I believe her on the cat thing but um to be fair you know you could have taken the the cat 0.99

00:32:29.080 limping video like weeks or months ago and just like people will use old shit as an excuse 0.95

00:32:35.220 whenever they need it um but in any case 10 45 a.m meet time 4 p.m you can figure out a solution 0.89

00:32:42.900 like you could have taken her the cat to the vet right away like to the emergency vet and like i

00:32:49.320 don't know got it sorted right away she and then i was like yeah can can you call one of those like

00:32:55.080 what's that there's like apps like where where you can have a pet sitter i forgot the names of

00:33:00.560 them when i had a dog i used to use the apps all the time to uh like you can you can have people

00:33:06.420 do homestays rover and wag yeah you can have them stay at your house you can have bring them to

00:33:13.360 their house you could have a friend you could have a family member she's got a boyfriend

00:33:18.200 so it's like look i i have a cat of course like yeah that's terrible if you know your cat's 0.89

00:33:25.280 actually all fucked up or whatever i don't know i think there could have been solutions 0.88

00:33:28.980 anyways that's it all right uh well okay shows up no i'm just kidding all right all right so um 0.96

00:33:39.260 i need to get that off my chest guys we deal with flakes and no shows every week

00:33:44.560 and i don't feel the need to expose uh the many the dozens or hundreds of people who've done so 0.86

00:33:51.060 in the past but if you're gonna fuck with our production to i mean today it was just total 0.99

00:33:56.000 clusterfuck so that made something like seven let me see oops hold on what the fuck one sec guys 0.99

00:34:03.620 we had 0.99

00:34:06.120 one

00:34:07.840 we basically had

00:34:10.380 three no-shows

00:34:11.660 and four flakes today

00:34:13.940 so anyways, okay

00:34:15.720 I think that's it, I don't know, any thoughts from

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00:35:02.660 rude

00:35:08.200 you know what my wrath is not fully complete um final thing here

00:35:18.040 final thing because i'm a i'm what's called a i'm a social assassin

00:35:24.500 in. I do away with, how do I put this, with, eh, fuck it, whatever. So you were a little 0.99

00:35:37.020 bit late. I was, yes, I'm sorry about that. I didn't, my staff told me, you know, when

00:35:44.600 you came in, I didn't get an apology. I'm really sorry. I wasn't. Was there an apology

00:35:53.020 to my staff tiffany did she apologize not an oh not even an apology because maybe

00:35:59.920 as my staff greets the guests as they arrive you know maybe there was an apology there

00:36:05.880 at 30 minutes late i think an apology was in order i did notify and i sent my location on

00:36:14.160 the app and i said it's telling me i'm going to be there at 4 17 i sent my location

00:36:18.180 well you did communicate

00:36:21.200 still rude to be late

00:36:23.300 even with notice but that

00:36:25.420 is the courteous thing to do

00:36:27.660 still think there should have been an apology

00:36:33.920 I'm sorry for not apologizing

00:36:36.260 sooner

00:36:36.660 well now you're apologizing for not apologizing

00:36:39.900 yes well to be fair you did

00:36:41.740 apologize when I brought it up

00:36:43.880 now so

00:36:44.400 I will accept your apology

00:36:46.960 but just know as a 36 year old having to educate a 41 year old if you're 30 minutes late

00:36:54.120 the apology should be unprompted you know it's like the manners you know the manners thing

00:37:00.720 the courtesy thing it was very quiet so i wasn't sure um what the protocol um protocol yeah it's

00:37:10.500 just you know you're already kind of on edge because you're late and um if i was 30

00:37:16.900 minutes late i might offer up hold on actually i'm not going to say that but if i was 30 minutes

00:37:22.880 late somewhere i might do you have you ever seen those japanese bows where they actually like

00:37:29.200 lay on the floor like i think you you could have done that no i'm kidding but

00:37:35.420 apology an apology was in order i'm really sorry and i do have snacks in the car

00:37:41.020 by the way which by the way hold on but but but actually the worst thing was

00:37:47.920 you you parked in the wrong lot or something don't say where but you like you parked somewhere

00:37:55.580 and then you you were slowly well i saw you slowly walking and then you you arrived and

00:38:05.960 then you had to go back to move your car and then you slowly walked back to your car and then you

00:38:11.640 moved by the way you should you should have just taken the ticket at that point but and then you

00:38:17.740 you uh you found a new parking spot and then you slowly meandered back

00:38:25.980 just just pointing it out okay yeah but brian she was wearing heels if she was if she was moving 0.98

00:38:34.880 too fast they could have got stuck in a crack or something well and she would have been like 1.00

00:38:38.320 another like five minutes late well i was what i was saying i think before she arrived is even 0.97

00:38:45.200 with the heels if i was 30 minutes late i'm fucking bolting to the i'm running whipping 0.77

00:38:51.700 the heels off even if i'm wearing if i know i'm keeping the heels on as a man i'm wearing the 0.98

00:38:56.720 heels okay okay okay and i'm bolting i don't care if i snap my ankle i don't care if i tear my

00:39:02.260 achilles tendon i don't care if i get an acl tear lcl tear if i'm 30 minutes late i'm taking the l i

00:39:10.300 guess but uh anyways uh oh the girl the jocelyn silva girl who no showed who i called the first

00:39:21.080 girl i mentioned she just sent me a dm at least don't pull it up tiffany at least i put my

00:39:26.040 responsibilities first thank you for the shout out i can't apologize for taking care of important 0.98

00:39:31.500 things have a great day though well i don't know if you're watching the stream you fucking retard 0.96

00:39:36.100 jocelyn silva but taking care of important things even if we were to grant that last night your mom 0.97

00:39:42.880 had an emergency and you had to take her to the hospital you're not the one being treated if you 1.00

00:39:47.640 know you're not gonna make it here watch retard bump bump bump hey sorry fuck your podcast you're 1.00

00:39:58.020 a fuck. I don't like you. I'm not coming. 15 seconds while you're waiting in the waiting room. 1.00

00:40:03.700 Instead, you're posting Instagram stories. You're posting Instagram stories. You fucking retard.

00:40:09.180 You're either lying or even if you're telling the truth, what's that scene from Casino with Robert 1.00

00:40:13.740 De Niro where that there's that local guy who, where, uh, there was like three jackpots in 15

00:40:20.160 minutes. And it's like, you're either fucking in on it, in which case you're fired or you're too 0.92

00:40:27.020 fucking incompetent to see that you were getting set up and they were rigging the games. In either 0.99

00:40:32.240 case, you're fucking fired. Either case, even if your mom was in the hospital, you still could 0.99

00:40:38.280 have said something. You were posting Instagram stories. You had time to post retarded ass

00:40:44.140 Instagram stories. You had time to DM us and be like, hey, I'm a piece of shit. I'm not coming. 1.00

00:40:50.380 you could have done that but you didn't so fuck you 1.00

00:40:54.220 hold on fuck it okay all right 1.00

00:40:59.740 this is my therapy by the way 1.00

00:41:04.180 um trying to think uh pull up mason's instagram i'm going to talk some shit about mason bring it 0.92

00:41:12.520 up pull up mason's instagram pull this pull up mason this guy get me out of here all right this 0.95

00:41:18.180 fucking guy uh so guys mason uh click on that first photo mason had it has a documentary 0.96

00:41:25.040 coming out it's called uh rise under or what we haven't officially named it but rise under is my 0.98

00:41:31.580 like slo go yeah logo logo not slo go words they're difficult and so yeah guys if you um

00:41:38.320 there's a trailer out uh we're not going to be able to like show the whole thing but if you guys

00:41:42.960 want to check out the trailer for for mason's recovery uh they're doing like a documentary

00:41:47.260 uh it's on his instagram they've posted on youtube but they can just go to your instagram

00:41:51.540 right to see yeah and go to my instagram it's just it's this one right the uh i partnered with um

00:41:56.120 emily hayes she's an incredible documentary maker um i she's shown me some of like the the content

00:42:02.520 uh from the documentary itself and it's absolutely incredible um very surprised at how she how good

00:42:08.800 she's done with it but uh yeah go to my instagram page go to hers x there tiffany just so they can

00:42:13.840 see the page yeah that's mason's instagram page uh check out his documentary that once is it like

00:42:20.320 there's a date so right now we're thinking about june july okay yeah rock and roll okay guys uh

00:42:27.200 we're gonna get into the show i needed to cover a few things there at the beginning so sorry that

00:42:33.480 we're late sorry for the the the uh that whole uh kerfuffle and uh let's see um uh well okay here

00:42:47.400 let's do this uh won't you guys tell uh your relationship status i'm married okay uh for how

00:42:57.740 long i've been married for two years now married or engaged i no married i guess i should say

00:43:03.920 almost two years because i'm about to turn 20 so like okay a year and and is this your longest

00:43:10.320 relationship yes how long were you together before you were married um maybe like three or four

00:43:18.560 months okay so about short you've been together for basically two years yeah okay uh all right

00:43:25.940 is he LDS also? He is. Okay. Uh, and are you from Utah or? Yeah, we're both from Utah. And you,

00:43:34.320 but you both live now in Los Angeles. Yes, we both do. Okay. Um, and you do OnlyFans. Yes,

00:43:41.700 I do OnlyFans. Uh, so we're not going to dive into that quite yet, but we will definitely

00:43:47.040 talk about the OnlyFans stuff and how that might potentially conflict with being Mormon and LDS.

00:43:54.240 yes um uh what about you relationship status single all right how long you've been single for

00:44:01.020 um about two two years all right sing for about two years what's the longest relationship you've

00:44:09.800 had five years five years okay is that the one that ended two years ago yes okay who broke up

00:44:15.860 with who um well he cheated so i left him um but he's deceased now so rest in peace oh okay 1.00

00:44:25.180 like recently or yeah on march 1st oh shit drugs gracious car accident oh fuck 0.99

00:44:34.000 damn yeah sorry to hear that so i agree with you know people who appropriate those car accidents 0.99

00:44:40.360 because real people get hurt real people lose their lives so yeah yeah just like you know look 0.97

00:44:44.920 if you're don't lie about being in a car accident or like a family member dying just be like i have

00:44:52.300 explosive diarrhea yeah like have it be something just to do like i can respect that if you tell me

00:44:59.040 i have explosive diarrhea then it's like i okay don't show up yeah please don't show up we beg of

00:45:06.040 you yes and like it takes some like it takes some uh gumption some like fortitude some foundation

00:45:12.260 to be able to tell somebody, hey, the real reason I can't be there right now 0.99

00:45:16.320 is because you suck or I have explosive diarrhea. 1.00

00:45:19.860 100. 1.00

00:45:20.320 I can respect that.

00:45:22.320 Just keep it a stack.

00:45:23.380 Exactly.

00:45:23.980 Just tell me the truth.

00:45:24.880 Come on.

00:45:25.340 Wow.

00:45:25.900 Okay, so any kids?

00:45:27.600 I raised my nephew since he was baby, but I don't have any of my own.

00:45:31.680 Are you still, like he lives with you, your nephew?

00:45:33.740 Yeah, he's graduating high school soon.

00:45:36.180 You're the guardian or the adoptive parent?

00:45:38.900 Yeah, his parent, yeah.

00:45:39.660 You adopted him?

00:45:40.760 Yes.

00:45:41.260 How old is he?

00:45:42.020 He's 19.

00:45:42.920 Oh, okay.

00:45:43.340 So he still lives with you?

00:45:45.480 Yeah, he's a senior in high school, so he's graduating this June.

00:45:48.340 Okay, interesting.

00:45:49.220 Nephew.

00:45:49.980 Yes.

00:45:50.380 Interesting.

00:45:53.040 Let's see.

00:45:53.720 Okay.

00:45:56.060 In the two years you've been single, any guys in the picture?

00:45:58.960 Yeah, I've had a situationship.

00:46:01.260 Currently?

00:46:02.260 Yeah, my man, but not my man.

00:46:04.080 What does that mean?

00:46:05.080 What does that mean?

00:46:05.800 He's my man, but he's not my man.

00:46:07.620 So I'm loyal to him, but, you know.

00:46:09.860 You're loyal to him, but he's not.

00:46:11.040 I'm not constricted into a thing.

00:46:12.620 Because I'm moving, too, so it's like I'm not trying to, you know.

00:46:15.540 Where are you moving to?

00:46:16.880 North Carolina.

00:46:18.680 From California?

00:46:19.560 You're in L.A.?

00:46:20.500 I'm in San Diego, like Oceanside area, so North Carolina.

00:46:23.660 San Diego to North Carolina?

00:46:25.320 Yeah, I'm originally from Ohio, so that's a little more of my speed.

00:46:28.540 It's kind of a downgrade, to be honest.

00:46:30.740 It's more affordable, you know.

00:46:32.960 I don't know.

00:46:33.520 Well, yeah.

00:46:33.940 It's a little more real, too.

00:46:35.360 It's just I'm a little over, like, the facade out here.

00:46:37.840 So I need new energy.

00:46:38.380 San Diego's not that bad.

00:46:39.600 have you ever been to the south yeah oh yeah yeah i have some family um in the south and

00:46:46.040 ohio is pretty similar to that area as well so i went to school in the south so i lived there for

00:46:51.360 like eight years what when are you moving december december okay okay oh so you're here for another

00:46:58.080 nine eight months all right um but so you're in a situationship how long have you been in the

00:47:04.520 situationship um well it's been on and off we were like locked in for a couple months and then

00:47:11.380 we went our separate ways and we just kind of re um connected how soon after the breakup of your

00:47:18.280 five-year relationship did you get involved with the situationship eight months so eight months

00:47:23.520 later yeah but between the breakup of your five-year relationship and the now on off

00:47:29.260 situationship were there any other guys in between and have there been any guys uh i guess between

00:47:35.900 the breakup two years ago with the five-year guy and now any other guys in the picture other than

00:47:41.460 one situation no okay so you've been seeing the situationship for over a year is that correct

00:47:48.200 yeah like on and off is it currently on it's on right now yeah when's the last so when's the last

00:47:53.700 time you saw him yesterday did you guys have cardinal knowledge yes

00:47:59.700 what now see this is what is interesting to me is like this is a guy you've been seeing

00:48:10.300 granted on and off but you're currently on for it sounds like 14 months or I don't know 15 months

00:48:19.160 he was inside of you yesterday but when i asked you what your relationship status was you said

00:48:26.220 single yeah now perhaps this is a bit presumptuous and it's you know making an assumption but when 0.99

00:48:34.040 someone tells me they're single i assume there at least hasn't been a penis inside of them for

00:48:41.540 like a fortnight you know two weeks you know that's like the you know what i mean now technically 1.00

00:48:49.720 look a woman could have had a one-night stand the night before and it was strictly a one-night stand

00:48:54.440 she's never going to see the guy again if she tech she's single yes if she was asked what her

00:49:00.220 relationship status is would she say single yes but in your case there's been this ongoing thing

00:49:06.260 you're loyal to him he's not loyal to you though is that correct

00:49:10.480 yeah in a way I guess you could say that like like he sleeps with other women no it's just more like

00:49:18.180 we're enjoying each other's company we're enjoying each other and if he wanted to go do that

00:49:23.560 he would let me know and then I would just you know take my take my leave because I don't do

00:49:29.200 sharing so it's just more I just don't have the title because like that's just not necessary

00:49:35.280 because like at the day I'm moving so I'm not gonna like pretty much go pour new energy into

00:49:43.520 people for a temporary time versus like spending time with someone who I already have a connection

00:49:47.880 with you know the only complication there is how long have you like when did you make the

00:49:53.140 determination that you're going to be moving is this a new thing um this was decided officially

00:50:00.580 um at the end of last year so december yeah i decided so five months ago yeah but you've been

00:50:09.560 seeing the guy for a year and a half or something no no we were involved for a couple months and

00:50:15.900 then we separated he was got into a relationship and then once he got out of that relationship and

00:50:22.740 then like we just reconnected through there because he had reached back out to me i see

00:50:27.060 okay and when was that before the uh november or december of 25 when he reached out back yeah

00:50:33.180 when he reached back out to you before you decided or after you decided it was after i had decided

00:50:37.680 prior to the breakup did you guys have a title then when you guys were together for what eight

00:50:48.340 months or something or um no we didn't have a title because i like i said was out of my relationship

00:50:54.460 and i didn't feel like i was ready to be like fully locked into someone okay so it was more

00:50:59.960 just like okay this is someone i have a really good connection with we are compatible on a lot

00:51:04.460 of things but like i don't want to hold myself or him to a standard that we can't like follow

00:51:08.860 through on so until i felt like that but then once we decided to separate because i was more

00:51:15.420 ready for a commitment and he was not so I was like okay will you go do you so I guess find what

00:51:19.440 I need so you guys pretty much right now you have a planned breakup yes okay got it huh okay I see

00:51:28.000 um interesting interesting so although it's all right um you're leaving so you're not trying to

00:51:36.840 have anything more I guess um but you're not totally single right so like if a guy were to

00:51:45.260 hit on you at the grocery store that you found attractive and he was like hey can I get your

00:51:51.140 number would you no so you'd tell him you're taken no it's just I just don't really believe

00:51:59.860 for myself being involved with more than one person at a time like physically because I'm

00:52:04.200 all about clean and safety so it's like if I'm going to be involved with this one person physically

00:52:08.760 that's it and until we decide like okay that's off or I let him know like hey I'm going to go

00:52:13.980 explore my options i'm gonna just respectfully decline well let's say um okay i'm just thinking

00:52:22.720 of a scenario where like conceivably a guy could approach you who you find more attractive

00:52:28.500 than your current guy or whatever yeah what's your reasoning for turning down like an attractive guy

00:52:35.940 that comes up to you just say in the store like why are you going to turn him down but you're not

00:52:40.140 going to turn down this situationship that you have well as of right now it's because like i'm

00:52:43.540 moving so it's like there's no point in me putting like energy or wasting someone else's time you

00:52:48.780 know so i guess yeah yeah it makes sense makes sense uh so why are you putting that energy into

00:52:53.840 something you know is going to end like what's your justification for that or like it's continuity

00:52:59.760 comfort probably um i think it's more just the like it's the ease of like okay like i don't have

00:53:07.240 to stress like because of your girl brain right like when you don't have an end date right it's

00:53:12.380 like okay well maybe my delulu will kick in i'm like oh maybe he'll want to commit maybe he'll

00:53:16.420 want to do this but it's like we both know this is going to end at some point so it takes the

00:53:20.780 pressure and the stress of like oh my god like the insecurity all that and because it's just like 0.86

00:53:24.880 we're just going to enjoy each other for as long as this shit lasts like and that's just it yeah 0.96

00:53:29.360 i guess so yes i mean i mean from an outside point of view i'm not in your head i'm not in his head 0.99

00:53:35.640 it just looks like you're using him for sex and like not being alone like you don't want to be

00:53:43.400 outside of relationship and you don't want to lose the sex therefore I want to keep this guy

00:53:49.400 around I want to keep my arm candy around yeah you can absolutely say that okay that's very fair

00:53:54.520 yeah but I guess I the the single thing is you because I asked your relationship status you said

00:54:03.980 single well just because like i'm not gonna like claim like a false advertisement i'm not gonna

00:54:11.420 claim to be something that i'm not so like he's not gonna tell people i'm his girlfriend so i'm

00:54:17.180 not gonna tell him that that's my boyfriend because that's just ridiculous but there would

00:54:20.500 be other categories besides single that would describe your situation that don't go to the

00:54:26.520 extent of i'm in a relationship i have a boyfriend i would say you are you you might not want to put

00:54:33.880 the title of boyfriend i would categorize you as in a relationship but at the bare minimum you are

00:54:40.200 seeing a guy you're not single i like to use the term boot up i think that boot up yeah i'm just

00:54:46.480 i'm boot up like oh boot up what boo oh boo a boo now yeah a boo okay i get you boot up yeah i

00:54:55.820 thought you were saying buddha for a second i thought you were saying boot up like a computer

00:54:59.720 that's what i thought second of all boot up does anybody remember that like from the 90s that 0.97

00:55:06.400 it was like one of the first 3d animated things reboot that was that shit was the that was the 0.99

00:55:13.380 shit that was the bomb yo reboot with the fucking oh man and then like that little kid grew up and 1.00

00:55:20.500 he had a fucking he had like a five o'clock shadow and he's all fucking jacked i actually remember 1.00

00:55:24.840 this and there was like wait fuck there was hexadecimal oh my god wait there's like probably 0.99

00:55:30.480 like 10 people in the chat who know what i'm talking about reboot it was this 3d thing oh my 0.99

00:55:34.920 god that was the shit there was hexadecimal there was wait fuck what was the name of the 0.98

00:55:40.260 the the the the the male bad guy chat what was the name of the male bad guy uh man it was megatron 1.00

00:55:51.800 fong megabyte yeah megabyte back when megabytes were like actually a lot of space

00:56:00.140 goodness nintendo 64 it was 64 megabytes right the nintendo 64 nothing to do with dating by the way 0.95

00:56:09.500 and guys remember like the purple spheres would like come down and like dude that was so fucking

00:56:16.460 cool where are the like kind of like quirky you know i know i know this is totally off topic but 0.72

00:56:23.300 fuck it where are those like with with i don't know if you guys know this there's like a homogeneity 0.87

00:56:29.820 homogen homogenous homogeneity i'm not sure if i'm saying exactly how to pronounce it but now 1.00

00:56:35.380 that you say it i don't know how homogen homogenous well i know yeah i know homogenous

00:56:40.720 but homogeneity i don't know movies that thing movies um well yeah movies music and i guess

00:56:49.720 all forms of like i don't know it's very like cookie cutter in a way like i feel like with

00:56:58.440 music especially like in the 90s that you would have like kind of these like kind of unique

00:57:04.300 i don't know i need to think this out homogen homogenetical i don't know you you would have 0.97

00:57:12.700 like two princes wait no hold on that's not the song i'm thinking of fuck whatever it doesn't 0.99

00:57:19.580 matter anyways moving on warning incoming game yes and then the fucking bro that shit was so cool 1.00

00:57:27.320 Oh, fuck. Okay. Anyways, moving on. All right. Relationship status? 1.00

00:57:33.020 I'm married 25 years.

00:57:35.480 All right. Wow. 25 years. And how long were you with him before the marriage?

00:57:41.300 It's going to freak you out. But we knew each other six weeks before we got engaged and six months before we got married.

00:57:49.800 I'm kind of actually all for this. So far, you're selling me.

00:57:53.640 Okay. So you knew each other six months, you said?

00:57:56.300 Mm-hmm.

00:57:56.600 Okay.

00:57:56.920 So you got married around like 24, 25?

00:58:00.660 Yeah, I met him when I was 24 and turned 25, yeah.

00:58:04.300 And then got married.

00:58:04.980 Okay.

00:58:05.200 I'm assuming that's your longest relationship, though.

00:58:07.700 Yeah.

00:58:08.820 Did you have relationships before him?

00:58:11.060 Seven years.

00:58:12.200 Oh, seven years.

00:58:13.160 How soon after the seven-year relationship ended did you start dating your now husband?

00:58:18.900 Two years.

00:58:19.720 Two years.

00:58:20.280 Okay, I see.

00:58:21.440 All right.

00:58:22.420 That's a pretty good track record.

00:58:24.220 Pretty good.

00:58:24.600 Honestly.

00:58:25.000 Pretty clean. 0.97

00:58:26.040 Pretty clean there, unless shit was going down in high school, I don't know, or after 0.98

00:58:30.880 the breakup, I guess, but wow, and kids? 0.98

00:58:34.200 I have three kids.

00:58:35.580 And you have, were you married to the seven-year?

00:58:39.220 No.

00:58:40.040 Just dating him?

00:58:41.100 Yeah.

00:58:41.480 But you have a kid from him?

00:58:42.600 I do.

00:58:43.460 One kid?

00:58:44.100 Yes.

00:58:44.520 And then you have two kids from your husband?

00:58:46.280 Yes.

00:58:46.640 Okay, so three kids total?

00:58:48.020 Yes.

00:58:48.740 All right, got it.

00:58:49.860 um a question for you the custody arrangement from your ex shared custody or

00:58:59.220 kind of a long story um give us the short version the short version so

00:59:04.800 he basically was not in her life and then his parents kind of got in the middle of it and we

00:59:13.480 got a every other weekend situation and then seven years into it he married and then we had

00:59:21.080 I never kept her from seeing him but he they wanted a firm agreement which was Wednesday night

00:59:26.460 and every other weekend which lasted till she was about 14 and then she just saw him sporadically

00:59:33.620 at that point so she was primarily with me and my husband most of her life

00:59:41.100 okay all right um did he pay you child support or not at first not at all um and then sporadically

00:59:52.460 and then when he got married and they took his taxes he started paying it religiously after that

00:59:58.200 um but a very small amount i never asked for an increase until she was about 14 i was pregnant

01:00:04.880 with my son and she was going to cheerleading nationals i was like hey can you throw a little

01:00:09.100 extra money because i won't be going with her um he told me no he had to pay i think it was like

01:00:15.100 285 a month and then when we went my husband said take him back to court this is 285 you know he he

01:00:23.260 makes a lot more money this is ridiculous and um they changed it to 996 a month based off of what

01:00:30.300 he made when she was in ninth grade so yeah we finally started getting normal but i mean in high

01:00:35.740 school you have cars and she cheered and it uh it did help but she was expensive uh yeah yeah

01:00:44.460 all right uh what about you my relationship status is in a committed relationship uh but i

01:00:52.480 was married for a very long time before that for 15 years and i was with the same guy for 20 before

01:01:01.360 that you you're with my ex-husband yeah 20 years total yeah and how long is your current relationship

01:01:07.520 status uh 11 months almost a year okay um any kids i have three kids with my ex-husband three

01:01:15.540 with the ex-husband yes okay um actually i'm gonna come to that really quick just really quick going

01:01:22.040 back to you um any particular reason it ended with the uh the father of your first child

01:01:28.500 um so I kept kind of waiting for him to be a man and he was kind of waiting for me to be the man

01:01:40.800 and then when I finished college and he was on my couch every week and he still wasn't doing

01:01:50.300 anything I was just over it because he left when I was pregnant like I just I'm from the south you

01:01:58.140 know you you want to be you're having a baby with this guy you want to be married to this guy you

01:02:01.820 want to make this work and it was very I'm doing all the things to make it work while he's laying

01:02:08.020 on the couch and this just did he have a job um he did work all kinds of jobs at that point

01:02:14.440 like so when you say he was just laying around the house uh did he have a full-time job he did

01:02:21.700 he he had more than one job no he just won oh just one full-time job but what I'm saying is

01:02:27.200 were you working too oh yeah okay I was I finished college he didn't I was progressing

01:02:34.600 our family forward and he was just kind of there it wasn't a team effort it was a one-way effort

01:02:41.260 if that makes sense and I just well was he contributing to the bills no but he was working

01:02:48.580 though yes and you guys were living together no no well when you say he was just laying around

01:02:55.500 the house his his he would come to my apartment like he he would be at my apartment this is when

01:03:00.560 you had a kid yes right okay yeah um he was just there and it just kind of just so what were the

01:03:09.580 things that you would have liked to have seen him more involved with doing i guess just progressing

01:03:16.060 in your life i mean maybe finish your degree um move out of your parents house uh wait how old

01:03:23.840 was he at this point if i was uh he was like 26 27 he's almost four years older than me okay um

01:03:34.220 now was he assisting like taking care of the kid when he would get her every other weekend but he

01:03:42.380 lived when you guys were still together yeah yeah wait when you were still together he was only

01:03:47.600 he would get her on the weekends yeah but really his mother got her because he lived there and so

01:03:53.480 So he still went out and still did all the things he would usually do.

01:03:56.660 His mom just had her.

01:03:58.040 You're talking like partying and stuff?

01:04:00.080 Yeah.

01:04:01.240 Yeah.

01:04:01.860 I see.

01:04:02.680 Okay.

01:04:04.800 Don't get me wrong.

01:04:05.820 When I didn't have my daughter with me, I was young.

01:04:07.640 I mean, I went out with my girlfriends.

01:04:09.160 We'd go do things.

01:04:10.460 But I just feel like I was progressing.

01:04:17.980 I just wasn't going to.

01:04:18.860 he just wasn't putting forth the effort at all to be together. I see. And he really liked to

01:04:27.340 cheat. Oh, he was cheating on you. Was also awesome. Um, yeah, it was a whole thing. You

01:04:34.700 know, teenage love when you're young, you don't. Hey, if I'm on my phone, just don't even put it

01:04:38.420 on me. You don't, you don't think about, Hey, is this dude going to be a great dad and husband?

01:04:43.060 you're not thinking that so and then uh going so going to you um you uh were married when sorry

01:04:53.180 when did you split up with your husband uh late 2024 is when the problems really started and

01:05:01.000 the divorce was finalized last year okay so when you say problems what do you mean can you give us

01:05:05.920 details um we grew apart up in the sense of attraction uh getting our emotional needs met

01:05:15.160 uh resentment grew into contempt and that's a recipe for a relationship ending

01:05:20.300 who was resentful you or he was also resentful we got we got pretty you know passive aggressive

01:05:28.840 with each other which leads to resentment which leads to criticism which leads to

01:05:34.700 i'm not even attracted to this person anymore

01:05:36.940 so it was a mutual escalation of not liking each other uh yes i tried my very best to bring the

01:05:47.480 relationship back forward i mean i was pregnant or breastfeeding kids for a long time right so

01:05:55.000 you know you kind of put yourself in the backseat you're not important so i started to

01:06:00.960 take care of myself again and be the woman he fell in love with and unfortunately it didn't

01:06:08.900 who initiated the divorce we got to switch cameras please um huh i i initiated the divorce

01:06:15.740 okay um uh what did you cite on the divorce for what was the reason or whatever

01:06:27.740 Irreconcilable differences.

01:06:29.400 Okay.

01:06:29.900 Does he pay you alimony?

01:06:31.680 No.

01:06:32.340 Do you pay him alimony?

01:06:33.460 No.

01:06:34.420 Is the divorce still ongoing?

01:06:36.500 No.

01:06:36.980 It's finalized.

01:06:38.480 Child support?

01:06:39.740 No.

01:06:40.960 So you guys have 50-50 custody?

01:06:42.920 Yes.

01:06:44.120 No child support, no alimony?

01:06:45.680 No.

01:06:45.940 What about your respective, was there a distribution of any, he paid you, you paid him, in terms of settling the community property or whatever?

01:06:56.840 there was quite a bit of that so there's like a lump sum payment or yes in which direction

01:07:03.980 um from you to him or him to you i gave him a house i remodeled the whole thing

01:07:10.380 and he moved into it so wait he got the house in the divorce no i kept my house that i built

01:07:20.000 oh um but i flip houses slash build ground up and so one of the houses that i was flipping at the

01:07:26.940 time was in my same city and so instead of flipping it i just said why don't you just

01:07:33.580 keep this house and move into it oh okay so you gave him a house yes and in terms of

01:07:41.840 any sort of distribution of uh resources or money or i gave him property yeah oh you

01:07:49.900 paid him money too yes did he give you anything or no no so you were the breadwinner in the

01:07:57.100 relationship primary yes primary breadwinner he was working but you made more yes but you know

01:08:02.620 it's i didn't hate him we didn't have we have three children together we know that um he's

01:08:11.640 gonna be in my life forever you know even when they're 18 you know they're gonna get married

01:08:16.760 they're going to have grandkids. So I know that if at any given point, uh, he's struggling

01:08:24.520 financially, my kids are going to feel that. And I never wanted them to feel that. Okay. That's

01:08:30.160 pretty, pretty reasonable, I would say. Um, so you guys were married for 15 years, you said? Yes.

01:08:37.720 What was he doing for work? Uh, he's also in the real estate related field, but you were better.

01:08:43.540 I was in a more commissionable slash self-employed state, yes.

01:08:48.720 He was more of a W-2 paycheck type of person.

01:08:53.040 Now, so if you had to do like a multiplier, how much more were you out earning in buy 2x?

01:09:05.120 On a slow year, on a good year, 5 or 6x.

01:09:12.060 Okay.

01:09:12.940 Was he making six figures?

01:09:16.480 Sometimes.

01:09:18.500 Okay, so it's fair to say you were probably making around half a mil a year.

01:09:22.040 Sometimes.

01:09:24.980 That I got a seven-figure year when...

01:09:27.920 Oh, sometimes you made seven figures in a year?

01:09:29.680 Yeah.

01:09:30.740 Wow.

01:09:32.460 Well, I get one, I guess, congrats on the success.

01:09:35.180 But the reason I say wow is because I think if the roles were reversed while you – well, you said you gave him money too.

01:09:45.460 Yes.

01:09:46.820 But you're not paying him like an ongoing alimony, which –

01:09:51.700 No, I gave him enough assets that are passive income to supplement.

01:09:58.680 Passive income?

01:10:00.180 Yeah.

01:10:02.180 Assets that generate monthly income.

01:10:05.180 Oh, so you transferred, like, some real estate holdings to him?

01:10:09.420 Like, apartments?

01:10:10.620 Assets, assets that generate, not necessarily apartments.

01:10:14.880 Sometimes it's private notes.

01:10:16.980 I do mortgages for a living.

01:10:18.320 Sometimes I lend my own money, hard money, and that generates interest income.

01:10:22.920 Okay, I see.

01:10:24.560 So, and were there lawyers involved in the divorce?

01:10:28.800 Yes.

01:10:29.680 Okay, was the divorce combative or collaborative?

01:10:33.900 Very peaceful.

01:10:35.020 Very peaceful.

01:10:36.180 Very peaceful.

01:10:37.180 All right.

01:10:38.020 So.

01:10:38.520 It was sad.

01:10:39.400 It really was.

01:10:40.660 I hate it.

01:10:41.200 There's only one lawyer?

01:10:42.620 Yeah.

01:10:43.100 We did a mediation.

01:10:47.060 Who paid the lawyer?

01:10:48.560 I did.

01:10:50.700 Did the, hold on.

01:10:54.940 Usually the lawyer has to get permission from the other party,

01:10:58.840 Because there's a bit of a conflict of interest when usually each person wants their own lawyer.

01:11:05.700 Yes.

01:11:10.160 I don't know if he was naive on that front.

01:11:13.120 No, he consulted with two other attorneys.

01:11:15.420 I told him, you need to consult with two other attorneys.

01:11:18.460 I laid out all the discoveries, basically, and said, this is everything.

01:11:24.180 This is what I can do.

01:11:26.420 if you need more than you know these are the things that are going to have to happen but

01:11:32.200 um he was very fair he wasn't you know and i was very fair too i did not give him 0.99

01:11:40.160 the short end of the stick yeah you didn't just tell him to fuck off i guess um and he's an he's 0.93

01:11:47.420 an amazing person we were just not right good for each other question for you though um had 0.99

01:11:53.000 had he been a bit more litigious, uh, do you think that while you're saying that what you

01:12:00.640 offered to him in the divorce was fair, do you think, uh, he could have gotten more given divorce

01:12:08.720 laws? Uh, potentially, but the amount would have been negligible after capital gains taxes for

01:12:15.080 assets that I would have to sell. Okay. And at the end of the day, uh, they're just assets. I'm

01:12:22.220 leaving the kids. So it kind of was, if you want to get rid of them, we can, but you're just taking

01:12:29.800 away things from our children. Okay. So you had a lot of, you had things tied up with, you know,

01:12:35.800 real estate and yeah. So yeah. Okay. It all, I'm like, this is all, and he's my default person.

01:12:41.820 And if I pass away, all of my assets are going to him.

01:12:46.060 I'm not going to – I trust him to take care of him.

01:12:48.000 Right, right, right.

01:12:49.320 Okay.

01:12:50.640 Very interesting. 1.00

01:12:54.580 Obviously, there are – when the woman is the breadwinner, the primary breadwinner, 0.97

01:13:00.520 there are instances where she's going to have to give the guy money or give him consideration.

01:13:07.520 So I do wonder, though, if the roles were reversed.

01:13:14.660 Obviously, I don't know all the details of, you know, your financial situation.

01:13:20.900 You're telling me that there's like an equitable, fair distribution.

01:13:25.040 I'll, of course, take your word for it.

01:13:28.560 But the no alimony, that to me after, because, for example,

01:13:35.520 um we had a woman on the show two weeks ago she was married to a guy for like 10-15 years

01:13:41.280 she's getting lifetime alimony from him um i guess the no alimony thing when you were

01:13:48.680 significantly out earning him is a bit interesting um although it sounds like you have

01:13:55.640 offered him you did offer him a good amount and he's he's good but i think i could see perhaps

01:14:04.360 a woman in the same situation being a bit more ruthless yeah i mean i don't know yeah i mean

01:14:12.440 statistically speaking that's what uh most divorce lawyers see when the role is reversed not saying

01:14:18.360 every single time but in the majority of cases when the roles are reversed um uh the the man

01:14:26.840 usually says he pays his lawyer here's two thousand bucks come to me when the divorce is over

01:14:31.560 he just wants to get over with. And usually, uh, when divorce lawyers deal with the females 1.00

01:14:36.960 in the, in the situation, it's very much them. I want, I want to fight him tooth and nail. I want 0.89

01:14:43.040 to take his property, his money, literally everything. Um, which I think there are like,

01:14:48.680 I understand where that comes from. Um, but they are very, very, I guess, aggressive in those

01:14:56.640 pursuits. I need to, um, I need to get up for a moment to deal with something. Um, can you guys

01:15:02.320 like carry the conversation for 10, 15 minutes and like, keep in mind, there's 5,000 people

01:15:08.280 watching right now. Please don't make it like boring chitter chatter, like actually have an

01:15:12.840 engaging convo. So take it away. I go for it. Yeah. So yeah, I think, um, yeah, in those 1.00

01:15:19.800 circumstances, uh, for some reason it's just like, I think it's built into females nature 0.98

01:15:25.700 where they're a lot more aggressive in those divorce proceedings. 0.94

01:15:30.300 What people don't understand or fail to realize is that when you do have those high profile divorces or high net worth divorces,

01:15:41.080 the attorneys are the ones that all they see is a goldmine because they know that there's the ability to pay attorney's fees.

01:15:48.640 So if you have the ex-husband paying attorney's fees and you have the ex-wife paying attorney's fees,

01:15:55.080 within two years you can rack up half a million dollars in attorney's fees easily so that's

01:16:02.540 another thing that I brought up is we can fight each other tooth and nail oh yeah and we can

01:16:08.280 have half a million dollars just go poof yeah yeah no I totally agree like in your situation

01:16:13.720 I think this is a very this is a very like the extremity situation it's not going to happen

01:16:18.920 super often it makes sense because um like what i'm trying to suggest is say the man is making

01:16:25.840 as much as you were making and the woman's making as much as he's making or that similar 0.99

01:16:30.740 circumstance just flipped um that's the case in which most divorce lawyers will see the woman 0.60

01:16:36.140 fight tooth and nail to make sure like he feels it in the divorce or like in your circumstance

01:16:41.780 um like you realize you're in you're the one making most you're the breadwinner you're making

01:16:48.040 the most money. So you want to protect those

01:16:50.080 assets, which I understand. I get

01:16:52.140 it. But

01:16:53.860 to do that, you want

01:16:56.060 to make this as less, as

01:16:57.640 minimally argumentative

01:17:00.120 and conflict

01:17:01.520 words.

01:17:03.760 I guess with as

01:17:06.080 little disagreement as possible. And we also

01:17:08.080 have three children that we were trying to protect

01:17:10.280 and shield from 0.98

01:17:11.780 any and

01:17:14.160 all potential harm that

01:17:15.960 may come their way. I agree.

01:17:17.900 i think that is wise um but still in the opposite case like even if three four or five children are

01:17:25.020 involved in most cases when it's the situation is reversed it doesn't really seem to inhibit

01:17:32.600 that desire from the female's point of view to really want to take everything and make him feel 0.78

01:17:37.400 that um so i i i i feel like it kind of plays to like gender roles right where it's like as women

01:17:46.100 most women I think we feel like it is like a man's duty to like provide and protect so like

01:17:53.820 even when you're leaving that marriage especially if there's like infidelity and things there's like

01:17:58.760 a sense of entitlement which I can understand from like a woman it's like okay well you're 1.00

01:18:03.140 making more I'm making less like you've been accustomed to this lifestyle so then like you 1.00

01:18:08.440 feel like you should still be able to keep your lifestyle based off whatever the circumstances

01:18:12.480 were for being divorced whereas men because of the gender roles they might just like not like

01:18:18.360 you said be as like cutthroat of like no I'm gonna get mine because they feel like okay well like

01:18:23.360 she's the female like it's not her job to provide for me so I think maybe that's why maybe some men

01:18:29.680 take a back step but there are men who are ruthless because my sister's ex-husband he cheated

01:18:34.540 on her and she was like the full sole provider like he was working for her like he was literally

01:18:39.940 getting his money from her and then when they were getting divorced because of his infidelity

01:18:44.080 he was still thought like he was going to keep his car his boat the house like all these things

01:18:49.180 and was like no baby it's time for you to go be a man and figure out your life because that's why

01:18:54.200 you cheated because you wanted something else so go find it and she still like you know gave him

01:18:58.580 what he came with you know but it's like I think that's why maybe that's what you're saying like 0.99

01:19:04.940 Like, some women are more aggressive because there's, like, that entitlement to it.

01:19:08.460 Well, no, I think it's just, like, it's the system in general. 1.00

01:19:13.280 Women are just extremely aggressive in these divorce proceedings.

01:19:16.200 Because I think referencing those sex roles where men do feel like they need to provide and protect,

01:19:24.820 they are held to a standard that, like, they need to still hold to their typical gender roles or sex roles,

01:19:31.200 where women are never like they never need to hold to their gender roles their sex roles they're

01:19:36.240 never held to that standard and i think that is just it's reflected in the divorce proceedings

01:19:42.380 because a woman doesn't have to worry about being virtuous being accommodating being kind respectful

01:19:48.880 because those are the virtues that the are usually seen in like a healthy relationship out of the

01:19:56.700 woman and those virtues are essentially sucked out when it comes to divorce and they're not held

01:20:01.040 to that standard where men are just usually vehemently attacked when they're not held

01:20:05.100 to their own standard of being that provider and protector so that they suffer the consequences

01:20:10.340 in those divorce proceedings but usually on the other side when the woman just brushes 0.96

01:20:16.160 off her gender sex roles there's not really too much consequence for it it's usually met

01:20:22.400 with more of an understanding like I get why you're why you do that I can see from your

01:20:27.300 situation why you're reacting that way whereas if a man brushed off his gender roles and said hey

01:20:32.980 i'm not going to provide i'm not going to protect i'm going to try to pull everything out of her

01:20:35.880 like immediately he's attacked he's villainized and um i see it as a huge problem i think it's

01:20:43.040 like also like female male brain type of thing where it's like women were obviously more emotional

01:20:48.360 creatures like things are very gray area for us and i feel like with men it's very much like black

01:20:54.400 and white how they move so it's like if you look at general breakups right like a guy will absolutely

01:21:00.640 get over a girl way quicker than she'll get over him and like she could carry that pettiness or

01:21:06.180 whatever because i think actually um that's it's actually the reverse usually no it is it's actually

01:21:12.880 true i feel that way too yeah um women it usually takes them like it's a lot shorter of a time for

01:21:18.760 them to get over a breakup whereas men it takes a very very very long time because there is that

01:21:25.120 I think what plays into it a little bit is that having that provider and protector status that

01:21:31.780 you're trying to hold on to like we are it's built into our DNA as men we must protect we must provide

01:21:37.480 for the woman that we love I say it's it's the way God designed us it's supposed to be our second

01:21:43.240 half um so and then one that's stripped away from us it's like well we we've just lost our

01:21:49.720 like our meaning in life when it comes to having that second half like it's gone now what do i do

01:21:56.280 with that and um i mean uh what we find in the bible and i think we see this in nature itself

01:22:02.560 um the the woman is usually is designed as the helper like to be that team player with the man

01:22:09.500 the support and um yeah essentially that's taken away uh from the man you're at that support

01:22:16.620 and um yeah i think that's it's easier for a woman to get over it's much harder for a man to get over

01:22:22.260 yeah maybe i've just encountered i think different men and that's and that's where i guess you can

01:22:29.300 say the value stance of it right like you said like when you're thinking of like like you said

01:22:34.040 your better half your rib like when you're thinking of it like in a base standpoint like

01:22:38.160 I can understand that for sure.

01:22:40.180 But I think a lot of people don't have that foundation.

01:22:43.380 They're very quick to just discard and move on to the next shiny thing.

01:22:45.840 Well, and the thing is, I think faith, the biblical point of view, is foundational. 0.97

01:22:54.460 But we see that through statistical analysis, how quickly women can move into a new relationship. 0.95

01:23:01.620 And it seems like they're just totally fine versus men. 0.61

01:23:04.820 I mean, I've seen about a billion Instagram reels.

01:23:08.160 of men talking about how like i've been i've divorced they're not divorced broke up with

01:23:13.260 this chick five years ago and i'm still not over it um i mean obviously that's like case by case

01:23:18.240 but statistically speaking that is accurate because you've also like you use the like

01:23:22.100 gone into another relationship i think maybe that's where some of my mindset differs a little

01:23:26.980 bit too it's not so as like um like he'll get into another relationship quickly but he's like

01:23:32.680 willing to like be with someone else whether it's like physically like quicker yeah well yeah in my

01:23:37.900 Yeah, and I'm not suggesting that just because you get into a relationship really quickly, it means that you've healed from your last one.

01:23:45.600 I think the vast majority of people who, I mean, pretty much every single person who has gotten out of a relationship and jumps into a new one immediately,

01:23:54.040 like, they're trying to heal the pain that they feel by, I don't know, with that new person.

01:24:00.260 And essentially ruining the future with this new person.

01:24:03.320 And it actually, I mean, it hurts them as well along that process.

01:24:06.860 yeah 100 yeah so i gotta say um i was pretty miserable in my marriage for the last two years 1.00

01:24:14.640 that it lasted and women the reason why women move on really fast is because women will literally

01:24:22.820 stay in a relationship until there was nothing left like i tried everything every stone was 1.00

01:24:29.280 turned over twice and looked at over and over and then you're just numb there's nothing left

01:24:36.820 and you just it's time to go and that's when you know when when you would rather live in a cardboard

01:24:42.020 box tend to sit in that house for five more seconds you're like this it's just done and

01:24:47.580 there's a there's a whole big difference in a scorned divorce and an amicable divorce i know

01:24:53.100 lots of people who have divorced just like her they just fell out of it they still loved each

01:24:57.880 other but it didn't work they hacked everything they moved on and then i have friends that were

01:25:01.980 cheated on that were like i'm gonna take i'm i'm gonna take everything i can get my hands on it

01:25:06.760 It depends on what leads up to the divorce, I think, of how it plays out.

01:25:11.140 Regardless of sex roles, it's just your mindset going into it.

01:25:16.360 Yeah, well, I mean, I understand there are circumstances.

01:25:19.860 Yes, I know those circumstances that do happen.

01:25:23.400 However, I mean, statistically speaking, it's usually men that will last the longest in a relationship.

01:25:29.220 They will go through, like, they realize they're held to that standard, that provider and protector role.

01:25:34.340 and they will hold to that even though they are absolutely miserable i know there are times when

01:25:39.040 men will initiate a divorce but statistically speaking what is it like 70 to 80 percent of

01:25:44.600 divorces are initiated by women yeah i think you're correct on that yeah so like men will

01:25:49.440 they will literally yeah they would rather die in with that family unit still intact

01:25:55.580 versus i'm gonna go try to find something else but i feel like even though they are miserable

01:26:00.880 the reason why women initiate more too is because what you're saying like men will just stay in it

01:26:05.340 yeah but like a lot of them will then end up being unfaithful or this not because like they would

01:26:10.120 rather go cheat and disrespect versus like just ending the relationship so it almost like takes 0.74

01:26:15.220 the woman to get to the point of like you know what okay like i'm for them to leave the man well 1.00

01:26:20.300 i think this also comes into um the understanding of like so women's brains are very emotional i

01:26:25.820 I think in men's brains, we see things black and white, very rationally based versus like

01:26:31.900 in the moment, I'm not saying women have no rationality, but generally speaking, their

01:26:36.460 nature is more emotional. 1.00

01:26:38.900 They're carers.

01:26:40.500 They're nurturers.

01:26:41.920 They love to see, I mean, they love to see their children happy. 1.00

01:26:44.640 I mean, there's that exuberance that comes out of a home because of a woman. 0.94

01:26:48.380 Me as a man, I don't really bring that exuberance. 1.00

01:26:50.580 I'm looking for that. 0.99

01:26:51.280 But anyway, so the reason I think the divorces are initially or so much overwhelmingly initiated by women is that they base their decisions on emotion. 0.73

01:27:05.940 Like today or like over the last, let's say, two, three years, I felt terribly about this marriage. 0.87

01:27:12.780 I would rather live in a cardboard box because I feel awful.

01:27:15.460 well and then i'm going to base my decision on that even though i know this is going to be

01:27:22.140 splitting up the home for these four or five children and it's going to ruin their life but

01:27:27.600 emotionally i feel terrible whereas men like we see it very rationally where we look at okay yes

01:27:34.580 i feel terrible like those emotions do occur for men as hard as that is to believe i can feel

01:27:39.660 terrible but i look at that emotion but then i look at the rational but i'll be destroying our

01:27:47.140 family that we've built i can't let that happen because i i know the the terribly rigorous

01:27:53.340 stress trauma uh that it's going to bring upon our family it's going to ruin it it's going to

01:27:59.500 tear our children apart i know the statistics of like the the children who are in a divorced

01:28:04.480 household i know the terrible stuff that comes out of that so i need to make sure i hold this

01:28:08.700 together even though i will be miserable till the day i die those people are more important than

01:28:14.020 myself and i'm not saying that every man is thinking that like consciously subconsciously

01:28:19.380 that is usually the motivation motivation or motivating factor for why they try to hold that

01:28:24.940 family together because they are held to the standard of that provider and protector yeah

01:28:30.640 i mean it's absolutely valid like a lot of people like you said where they consider like the whole

01:28:36.360 like kids and everything i think that's sometimes where it splits too is like um like the role model

01:28:43.140 aspect of like is it better to show your children to stay in a marriage you're unhappy and just

01:28:47.700 to so like they'll be okay for the moment like until they're like pretty much out of your house

01:28:53.580 or is it better for you to show your children like hey like if you're not getting what you

01:28:57.360 deserve on both sides male or female it's better for you to walk away and go find what you deserve

01:29:02.740 yeah you have to model the relationship because then you're gonna so do you really want to so I

01:29:07.940 guess pushing back a little bit do you really want to show them that like splitting up this

01:29:13.520 divinely instituted relationship is what you should do I feel like if like okay circumstance

01:29:21.640 right like if I'm in this marriage it's not working and we've like gone to counseling and

01:29:27.300 we've done all these things to like put the work in and it's still not working or one person's still

01:29:31.540 not getting treated the way they deserve then like i would be okay with my child seeing that

01:29:36.460 like hey if you put in everything you could and it's still not working because one or both are

01:29:41.680 not putting in the effort then like there's a point when you have to walk away but yeah if

01:29:45.980 you're just saying like oh well like i'm unhappy right now he's not you know whatever this person's

01:29:50.180 whatever but isn't walk away then yeah that's fine well so like but isn't the i'm not happy

01:29:55.000 with this like just saying uh we've tried to go to counseling stuff like that but it's not working

01:30:00.240 out isn't that really just the what's underlying all of those statements i'm just not very happy

01:30:04.800 with this person and you're just trying to usually just trying to make up something to

01:30:09.120 justify why we need to end this relationship well i feel like if you've done counseling you've

01:30:13.920 actually like had the proper channels of communication to try to figure out how to

01:30:17.660 make each other happy and you still have found zero conclusion like where do you i mean where

01:30:22.080 do you go from that point like i'm asking i mean i have some thoughts uh at least on this general

01:30:29.300 topic um going back to you so okay you got divorced uh when did you guys split up uh end of

01:30:38.240 2024 so uh two years ago or one and a half years ago one and a half years ago wait hold on

01:30:46.220 wait wait wait wait wait uh like divorced or like separated separated where he we were not sharing

01:30:58.220 the same bedroom anymore. A year and a half ago. Correct. And that's why it's not healthy for the

01:31:03.040 kids to see that. Hold on. But the divorce was finalized when? 2025. 2025. And, but you were

01:31:12.420 separated a year and a half ago. Correct. Do you know what month about? Around December of 2024.

01:31:20.800 Okay. Now, so it's April now. So a year, a year and four months. Yeah. We were living pretty

01:31:26.800 parallel lives before that parallel lives like we weren't we would never come together really

01:31:32.200 um okay until i asked him to you know i think it's better if he moved downstairs now you said

01:31:38.060 you were in a relationship for one year 11 months that's sort of may of 2025 okay um how did you

01:31:47.480 meet that guy uh one of my long long time friends he was actually at my wedding introduced me to him

01:31:55.600 and said um there might be some vibes here um wait introduced go ahead he he said you know why

01:32:04.920 don't you um he's like man dating in la is awful you know these these guys are not it they like

01:32:13.520 want to be chased they wanted they want the woman to text first like okay princess what's your shoe

01:32:18.780 size like you know don't it's so my friend he's like man um and he's uh in a more conservative

01:32:30.720 part of town he's like I'm gonna I'm gonna introduce you to this person I'm just gonna

01:32:36.700 make the introduction um and if you can get him I will bow down to you I think he's an unattainable

01:32:46.120 guy wait the i'm a bit confused the guy who you're currently with uh-huh was introduced to me by one

01:32:55.280 of my best friends he was at your wedding he was at my wedding wait your best friend who did the

01:33:00.340 introduction yes one of my one of my very good friends the guy guy the guy you're currently with

01:33:06.260 yes was he the one who was at your wedding no he was not at my wedding the guy that was at my

01:33:13.220 wedding introduced me to my boyfriend so you didn't know him the guy who you're currently with

01:33:20.200 no idea who he was okay never met him he basically just did a here i'm gonna show you uh he had

01:33:28.580 talked they had like bonded over their divorces and stuff like that and he said uh you know why 0.71

01:33:36.560 don't you take my friend out and he said oh no i'm not interested in women like they're a bunch

01:33:41.080 of trouble he goes here how about now and he's like okay maybe I'll take her out and uh I was

01:33:50.820 just gonna go on a date like one date because it's but so you were like what six this is uh

01:33:58.660 six months post separation that you met this yes

01:34:03.780 and you were married you were together with this guy for 20 years correct married for 15

01:34:11.200 Correct.

01:34:11.560 Three children.

01:34:12.440 Correct.

01:34:14.700 Grieved the loss of the marriage.

01:34:17.480 Six months, a little short.

01:34:19.520 Hold on.

01:34:21.040 Grieved the loss of the marriage over two years.

01:34:25.220 I begged my ex-husband to take me on a date for two years.

01:34:28.280 He didn't plan not even one.

01:34:30.560 Take what?

01:34:32.260 Wait, hold on.

01:34:33.000 Date me.

01:34:33.580 Win me over again.

01:34:34.480 I want you to win me over again.

01:34:36.140 Take me on a date.

01:34:36.960 Plan a date.

01:34:38.340 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:34:39.460 This is when I was with my ex-husband.

01:34:41.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:34:41.720 No, I understand that.

01:34:43.620 You told your ex-husband in an effort to make it work, you said what?

01:34:52.160 Can you plan a date for us?

01:34:53.520 I want you to take me on a date.

01:34:54.900 But you said, win me over again.

01:34:56.680 Yes, I said, I want you to win me over again.

01:34:59.440 He's your husband.

01:35:01.000 It was already, I want you, let's start over.

01:35:06.760 How did we fall in love?

01:35:08.400 Let's do it again.

01:35:09.460 yeah and so he spent time together again and so uh you asked him to take you out on dates

01:35:16.580 and he refused yeah i said just plan something buy me flowers on a random tuesday just because

01:35:23.300 you're thinking about me it could be a flower he should buy you flowers i wanted him to do

01:35:29.380 something for me that he loved me was he depressed i think so but was he just moping around the house

01:35:38.720 Was he out of work or was he working?

01:35:41.480 He was working and then he was out of work for a vast majority of 2024, which is where I said, okay, well, he's not working anymore.

01:35:52.480 So maybe now his job is going to be, I'm going to pay attention to my wife here.

01:35:59.560 What was there like? 0.94

01:36:01.600 A couple of clarifying things.

01:36:03.320 Yeah.

01:36:03.640 Was there any cheating in your relationship?

01:36:05.780 On either your end, his end?

01:36:07.680 Other men did not exist for me.

01:36:09.400 Okay.

01:36:12.320 So was there any abuse?

01:36:15.960 No.

01:36:16.560 No physical violence?

01:36:18.100 No.

01:36:19.180 No yelling?

01:36:21.140 No yelling, but there was a lot of criticism.

01:36:22.400 I mean, people have arguments.

01:36:23.480 That's fine.

01:36:23.960 We were very critical of each other.

01:36:25.900 Critical of each other?

01:36:26.940 Yes.

01:36:27.800 So how would he be critical of you?

01:36:33.400 He was more passive-aggressive with comments.

01:36:36.900 How so?

01:36:37.680 like you mean example um like oh yeah way to go that's a great let's say let's do it harder

01:36:45.120 because it's easier for you or you know things comments talking about sex or what are we talking

01:36:50.060 about no we're talking about like if we're putting up uh a shelf in like our kids bedroom or

01:36:57.180 something when we're redecorating you know getting them like a nursery to like a kid's room

01:37:01.620 and we have like a laser pointer and I'm like reading the directions and how to use it on the

01:37:08.660 tripod and all that he's like well let's just do it your way because let's do it the hard way

01:37:13.440 because it's easier for you or you know very critical okay so he'd be kind of sassy yeah

01:37:19.460 and then you said you would be a little bit critical critical towards him how so

01:37:25.200 the trash has been full for a while like you know that's your job why don't you do it now was there

01:37:36.900 somebody who started this war who took the first shot I did of course I did uh I'm I'm gonna take

01:37:45.660 full responsibility for that so you started nagging him yes I resented I resented him for

01:37:53.280 a lot of things. For what? Not taking the trash out? Maybe not initiating. There was a moment in

01:38:01.420 time where I had our son, our first child. He's 12 now, so this was a long time ago. Yeah. And I

01:38:06.840 profusely apologized to him because I was such a bitch and I shouldn't have been. But I resented 0.98

01:38:14.940 him because as a woman, your life changes. But I still worked. I took care of the child. I still

01:38:21.680 had all the domestic duties so and he gets up showers goes to work gets to be stuck in traffic

01:38:29.500 for an hour each way like and I have to do all of this by myself so at some point in the morning

01:38:39.020 I have my son like crying and I can't even make myself breakfast because I have to tend to my son

01:38:46.020 and my emails are piling up, my phone's ringing, and I'm like, I can't even make myself a breakfast

01:38:53.380 quickly because he didn't wash the dishes last night. Were you, um, and this is when your son

01:38:59.760 was a newborn, your first kid. It wouldn't say it was the first, the fourth, what they call the

01:39:04.240 fourth trimester of having children is that newborn. Yeah. And, um, were you taking time

01:39:12.620 off work at this point um I did take some time off of work uh but not as much as I could because

01:39:18.780 I were you working from home correct I moved my office into my house um but you took some time

01:39:25.380 off I'm assuming I did I took about I mean six weeks is not enough but I mean I was still working

01:39:32.820 because you just you run a business you have to continue to run it at that time uh because it

01:39:40.700 sounds like, uh, you were, you were out earning him, but at that time, were you earning more

01:39:46.840 than him or was he the primary breadwinner then? I was still, you were still making more than,

01:39:52.160 but not enough to the point where like he, he still had to work. Uh, yes. Uh, at that point,

01:40:02.800 I wasn't earning what I earned in the subsequent years, but he actually earned more in the

01:40:12.880 very beginning of our relationship.

01:40:15.080 Okay.

01:40:15.640 He earned more, and this is all real estate stuff.

01:40:19.940 You guys are real estate agents or brokers or-

01:40:22.840 Yeah.

01:40:23.160 I'm in the mortgage.

01:40:24.140 I'm in the mortgage and you buy a house, the crappiest house.

01:40:27.660 Yeah, the crappiest house in the best neighborhood.

01:40:29.700 You make it all beautiful.

01:40:31.160 You renovate, you flip.

01:40:32.800 Correct. Okay. Um, it's not really a world I'm super familiar with, but I don't think that that

01:40:37.480 matters all too much, but okay. So you were both doing that. You had a better, uh, you did better

01:40:44.020 than him. You were both doing the same thing. Basically. Is that fair to say? He works in a

01:40:48.280 more office clerical role. Okay. You were more the hustler. Yes. Okay. So you were flipping houses,

01:40:54.920 renovating them turning a profit doing mortgages all this stuff um okay uh you were out earning

01:41:03.800 him though but initially he was out earning you uh but you said one time i said these words and

01:41:11.100 it was so bad and i apologized profusely for him but it almost everything was his fault and i was

01:41:17.200 so critical and he deserves um a medal of patience and honor for the words that i said i mean having

01:41:29.740 so much responsibility by myself with no help was very difficult that doesn't excuse the criticism

01:41:35.660 that he received well so you said it sounded like there was yeah i said like a really bad thing that

01:41:41.940 Yeah. I mean, I'm like, I really need help with the dishes. Like if I'm, if I'm in the bedroom,

01:41:48.060 putting your son down to sleep for the night, I need you to be doing the dishes. And one day I

01:41:53.620 saw him and he was sleeping on the couch, taking a nap. And I all but yelled, you are not allowed

01:42:02.080 to sit on the couch until those dishes are clean. I am in the bedroom, putting your son to bed.

01:42:07.580 i need help and that was the wrong way to communicate that very wrong way so i know that

01:42:15.760 that was entirely my fault and but so you know when you're in a relationship uh these

01:42:23.960 issues can often be ongoing um you gave us one example of an instance where that happened

01:42:30.460 But was this a, and perhaps he could have been more helpful, was this a pattern, was this a frequent occurrence happening daily, weekly?

01:42:44.920 It was, I want to say, like once or twice a month that it was that serious.

01:42:50.760 Where you would yell and?

01:42:53.420 and was so frustrated and amped up because I was so tired and I just needed support and I wasn't

01:43:02.000 getting it um that your hormones are shot because you just gave birth to a baby you have all of this

01:43:09.100 work you have very little support at home you're I'm spent you know no one's filling my cup and

01:43:16.540 i'm filling everybody else's cup so as my son got older you know we got a better schedule

01:43:24.180 um this saint of a man was still there and i i apologized to him i see i knew that was wrong

01:43:33.940 but what you apologized a couple months later a couple years later how long a few months later

01:43:41.200 when things normalized, when we got our new normal, so to speak, I started reflecting on

01:43:47.400 things and I'm like, he didn't deserve that. Um, I shouldn't have said that or communicated that

01:43:53.500 way. My delivery was awful. Um, I should have said something different. Now you had, but also

01:44:00.460 you went on to have two more kids. So you have three kids total. I would imagine having these

01:44:06.080 other kids that creates additional burden uh additional complications it's not just one kid

01:44:13.840 which is already a handful it's two kids and then three kids and then managing all that and then the

01:44:20.980 increased burden financially of having more kids um but so you took when i asked the question who

01:44:29.160 took the first shot in this war you said you did so i mean i suppose on one hand it's you have

01:44:35.880 some degree of self you have a degree well not just a degree you do have self-awareness uh you

01:44:41.680 are taking accountability um but you you said that uh can you repeat what you said to him that first

01:44:51.180 like that first blow up that you had when you said you like you yelled at him what did you say

01:44:56.080 asked for help and um it was very difficult to put our son to bed it's like an hour process

01:45:03.420 and obviously men cannot breastfeed so that was solely my job um and i need help if i'm doing

01:45:12.440 something with your child you know i'm busy i cannot be in the kitchen at the same time

01:45:16.960 and i would ask him you know i would really appreciate your help if you can help me clean

01:45:24.080 the kitchen while I'm doing our son's bedtime routine and he agreed to do it but I must have

01:45:33.740 had an awful day and I came out after an hour hour and a half of putting my son down to bed

01:45:42.040 and the kitchen was still dirty and he was on the couch sleeping and that put me into

01:45:48.060 not being respectful caring um like i just laid down on the couch for a minute i was tired

01:46:01.580 like you're tired like it's it goes into all of those conversations you're tired like

01:46:08.240 i work just like you did you know while caring for a three-month-old baby

01:46:14.560 okay all the while yeah yeah so okay cooking the meals you know breastfeeding breastfeeding is a 0.90

01:46:22.080 full-time job like when you're breastfeeding a three-month-old baby you're breastfeeding that

01:46:25.680 baby half an hour every three hours now when this whole blow-up happened did it turn into a yelling

01:46:31.420 match an argument did he yell back or was he apologetic what was it a long argument i don't 0.96

01:46:39.000 know if you've ever had like a fucking three hour two hour two hour one hour argument was it just 0.92

01:46:43.680 that brief one minute blow up or was it it's it's very brief he was very patient that's why i said 0.93

01:46:50.480 he's a saint for taking all of that he was a saint for me and that's why i said i apologized

01:46:56.960 multiple times for that but then i mean obviously i was the first time mom i had no idea what i was

01:47:03.180 doing that doesn't excuse or my behavior what did you say again though remind me what you said to him

01:47:08.940 You are not allowed to sit on that couch

01:47:12.100 Until the dishes are clean

01:47:13.940 I know, I know, trust me, I know 1.00

01:47:19.940 Yikes

01:47:20.520 I know

01:47:21.980 A man

01:47:23.160 I know

01:47:24.220 If that was me, that's an insta-divorce

01:47:26.840 I'm just insta-divorcing 0.99

01:47:28.300 No fucking woman is ever gonna tell me 1.00

01:47:30.900 If a woman, if I was dating a woman 1.00

01:47:33.240 And she ever fucking told me 0.99

01:47:34.880 You can't 1.00

01:47:36.000 now look obviously it's like i can't fuck the maid that's fine i can't fuck you know i can't 1.00

01:47:45.160 cheat on you like of course but i can't rest in my fucking house okay it's over it's a fucking 1.00

01:47:51.940 divorce no woman can tell me is gonna boss me around like that i would never i'm sorry it's 1.00

01:47:57.840 a fucking divorce whatever we're gonna do 50 50 with the fucking kids it's fucking over i'm sorry 0.99

01:48:04.500 so yeah he's very very patient as you said um but uh in my defense i did ask nicely in the beginning 0.99

01:48:13.540 and i said how much that helps me that the kitchen's clean in the morning just coming home

01:48:19.000 i mean going into the kitchen that's clean it just need his side of the story yo

01:48:24.280 where is he tell him the drive where is he where is he at he's in la uh he he lives like two minutes 1.00

01:48:30.400 away from me yeah all right we're gonna tell it he's that black baby's fucking out here we're 0.99

01:48:34.640 gonna fucking tell him what is his what's i'm gonna make up a name for him uh fucking 0.99

01:48:39.400 bartholomew if you're watching this shit bart bartholomew we need your side of the story 1.00

01:48:46.500 hey this podcast goes long i know it's like a two hour plus drive from los angeles 1.00

01:48:50.960 luckily you know it's getting later so it's probably after rush hour you get in your fucking 0.96

01:48:55.760 car bartholome you send me a dm on instagram are you okay with this though if he comes on the 0.99

01:49:01.060 podcast instagram i usually will not date someone if they're on instagram aren't your own instagram

01:49:07.040 whatever it's just my family really it's my kids on there it's not do you think he's watching

01:49:12.680 no okay well if she's cool with it because i don't want to blind sign it i don't want to be

01:49:18.340 like jerry springer where i'm fucking blindsiding people if she's cool with it and you get in touch

01:49:23.480 with me we'll hear your side of the story if she's cool with it and you're down and if you're 0.94

01:49:28.980 even fucking watching which you probably aren't but i don't know i think he'll be much kinder

01:49:34.620 i'm i'm very critical on myself i yeah you know but that's the nice guy he's probably a nice guy 0.90

01:49:41.240 i don't know but i imagine this was like not it was an ongoing thing uh i don't know maybe you'd

01:49:49.200 because look for men respect is everything i know respect is everything and it's like

01:49:54.820 men want to feel like they're the man of the house and when you got your wife bossing you 1.00

01:50:02.660 around you got your wife you can't do this you can't do that do the fucking dishes bitch 1.00

01:50:08.980 little pussy boy do the dishes bitch i didn't say it like that well that's what that's the 1.00

01:50:16.000 that's the interpretation yes the frustrating part was that I had communicated I need help I 1.00

01:50:21.760 just cannot do everything but you were you were working from home right and like he you said he

01:50:27.320 was commuting so like he would commute an hour to work an hour back it's a pain sitting in a car

01:50:33.500 for an hour uh he's probably he's got his own shit he's working and it's like I mean you were 0.74

01:50:40.000 working too but i do feel like when you are working from home like you can work and kind of 0.98

01:50:46.260 multitask a little bit i did i had i had no choice but to i was in massive survival mode 0.70

01:50:52.680 this is why honestly bro we gotta we gotta bring we gotta bring back traditional gender roles we 0.94

01:51:00.040 can't we can't have women working because when they're working no offense like when they're 0.97

01:51:04.820 working right they're just fucking look at from a purely from a purely like pragmatic perspective 1.00

01:51:12.600 if there are things that need to be done in the household the children need to be taken care of 0.89

01:51:17.040 and you have a full-time job it's too much something's gonna suffer well it's too much

01:51:22.020 so it's like it's just like it's not even about um it's just from a purely realistic perspective

01:51:29.920 there's not enough time to both have a full-time job and be like paying attention to the you know

01:51:37.580 cleaning the house taking care of the kids this is why i think we need a return to patriarchy

01:51:42.820 we gotta i don't know we gotta men men make the big bucks let the men make the big bucks 1.00

01:51:49.160 you guys make some fucking sourdough bread make the sourdough clean the kids let them suck on the 1.00

01:51:54.980 nip or whatever, whatever it is you do, the breastfeeding or whatever. Um, you know, have 1.00

01:51:59.380 you guys seen the, the man boobs? That shit's crazy, but I don't know. I think, uh, in a 1.00

01:52:09.620 situation where it's like the man's working, the woman's working, it's like, yeah, I think

01:52:13.880 something's gonna, like, there's going to be conflict because the kid needs attention.

01:52:18.240 The house needs attention. Like, how do you, how do you juggle all those things? Maybe it can be

01:52:23.560 done but it's going to be it's going to be stressful it's going to be hard we've tried

01:52:27.440 this since like the 60s and 70s it's only gone downhill from then so let's like let's go back

01:52:32.660 to where i'm with like things are back things are solid structured back to the i would love to

01:52:39.260 go ahead i do agree like it that it's all i do believe it would be better right if one person's

01:52:47.160 working and one person's like doing more of the domestic stuff that's just it's it meshes well

01:52:51.880 but realistically that's just not going to be the case so I feel like what you hit on like respect

01:52:57.200 absolutely is like that's the one thing a man does 100 requires respect like that can make or break

01:53:02.640 but I feel like nowadays women also require respect so in a way like she was disrespectful

01:53:08.100 for thinking she could tell him like oh you're not allowed to sit on this couch but it's also

01:53:12.440 disrespectful and for him in a way to see how exhausted she was and like not just immediately

01:53:18.760 do it because what would it take maybe 20 minutes to do the dishes but he let himself fall asleep

01:53:23.680 so that's passively disrespectful so i understand what you're saying but how see how her complaint

01:53:30.120 wasn't respect it was take me out on dates like show me love give me flowers the special yeah

01:53:38.540 romance me again the thing okay so i mean again i'm just gonna dive right into this i mean why

01:53:44.540 do you think uh in scripture it tells like the men you need to be able you need to love your wives

01:53:49.340 and wives you need to respect your husbands so how she i want my husband to woo me to give me

01:53:56.880 flowers to show that he loves me like just ignite something let's get going and he like what killed 1.00

01:54:03.900 him was her disrespecting him like saying those like you're not allowed to sit on the couch until

01:54:10.900 you get this work done like showing that him hey i don't respect that you drive an hour to work

01:54:17.840 you work and do your thing and drive an hour home you're not even allowed to take a break like

01:54:23.740 from his point of view he's not allowed to even like relax a little bit so it's like taking away

01:54:29.740 that respect that he really needs and him taking away the love that she really needs um i mean the

01:54:37.180 The way that, since we are wired differently, we need different things.

01:54:41.720 And I think, I mean, we're just harping on your story.

01:54:46.180 But, I mean, this story is, like, exactly why that is evident.

01:54:51.700 And, yeah, I mean. 0.85

01:54:52.700 That's why the rules, when you go against your traditional gender rules, that's why it doesn't work. 1.00

01:54:58.460 The traditional stuff. 1.00

01:54:59.300 One million percent.

01:54:59.900 This is why it doesn't work.

01:55:01.500 It's why it doesn't work.

01:55:02.580 In that one moment, she emasculated him and became his mother.

01:55:07.180 well essentially she's trying to take the husband role yeah i mean you were taking the husband role

01:55:12.880 i'm going to make make the most money i'm going to also do the the motherly role and take care

01:55:18.920 of the kids so you're essentially taking both roles and it's like there's so many things just

01:55:23.860 out of whack with that relationship um yeah essentially just tearing down the foundation

01:55:28.720 of all of civilization and saying that ended it though because we came back we had two more

01:55:33.900 children. I was mom pro max after the first one with the second one. I mean, I was happy to do

01:55:40.600 it all at that point. We're pretty financially set and I didn't have to work as hard and it was

01:55:47.140 wonderful. Um, it was after the second child was born that things started to surface again because

01:55:58.280 now everybody is potty trained and or in preschool or school and now okay I'm back I'm I have an

01:56:08.220 identity outside of being a mother and you know mothering these children and being pregnant and

01:56:14.080 breastfeeding so I started paying attention to myself again and wanted their relationship to

01:56:18.380 go back to what it was and I tried very hard but I think it was too late. You know what I think

01:56:26.280 it's very hard to have sex with a woman who's disrespecting like you know look i just think 1.00

01:56:37.920 you know the erection just like if you just aren't the man in the room i just never did that 1.00

01:56:46.540 again it happened with our first child with the second and third child that's why we had a third

01:56:51.620 child because i was mom pro max with the two was there a period of erectile dysfunction no okay i

01:56:58.920 read that wrong then well look i don't know i think that uh you told us one scenario that

01:57:08.360 happened that was the worst probably there's some other it probably happened other times too i guess

01:57:14.940 yeah you know what i think i think i think what wait what's that saying it was written on the

01:57:25.480 wall or what what is it the the the it was doomed to fail well i mean yeah but it's wait let me let

01:57:31.120 the tts come in while i try to gather my thoughts donated two hundred dollars im disabled in a

01:57:37.280 wheelchair and obese and i get ssi benefits this channel has opened my eyes to me too and the toxic

01:57:43.520 Third wave feminism 1.00

01:57:44.720 I am actually extremely thankful 0.98

01:57:47.380 For that 1.00

01:57:48.320 Women are absolute trash 1.00

01:57:50.400 Hey disavow 1.00

01:57:53.200 Disavow 0.99

01:57:53.980 I fucking disavow that last sentence 1.00

01:57:56.780 No women are not trash 1.00

01:57:59.740 I like women 1.00

01:58:00.700 I love women 0.89

01:58:03.380 Women are great 1.00

01:58:04.160 I'm attracted to women

01:58:05.100 I am not a homosexual

01:58:06.600 Neither is Mason

01:58:08.660 Don't get it twisted

01:58:11.440 Like, we're not, no, you should not, you should not hate women.

01:58:16.800 Misogyny, bad.

01:58:18.160 Yes, yes.

01:58:22.100 Disavow.

01:58:22.720 Okay, but.

01:58:23.560 Yeah, but going off of that, patriarchy, the best, the best.

01:58:27.880 It is ideal.

01:58:28.680 Look, I stayed home for 14 years with my babies as a stay-at-home mom.

01:58:33.420 Did all the, it is the way to go. 1.00

01:58:35.600 Anybody who says, let me work, they're dumb. 0.99

01:58:37.780 I'll tell you what, you're spot on. 0.98

01:58:40.440 It is awesome.

01:58:41.280 My husband was a towboat captain, so he was gone every other month.

01:58:46.720 A tugboat captain?

01:58:47.380 A towboat. 0.90

01:58:48.020 They push.

01:58:48.720 Tugs pull.

01:58:49.600 What's that river in Mississippi?

01:58:51.420 The Mississippi River, yeah.

01:58:54.040 What are them boats on the Mississippi?

01:58:57.740 The paddle wheels.

01:58:58.680 He did actually.

01:58:58.940 With the wheels?

01:58:59.580 Yeah, he drove one in Memphis.

01:59:01.060 What are they called?

01:59:02.320 The Mississippi Queen? 0.97

01:59:03.460 No, the steamboat.

01:59:05.040 The steamboat.

01:59:05.840 It's a paddleboat.

01:59:06.900 Paddleboat.

01:59:07.380 Mm-hmm.

01:59:08.060 Mm-hmm.

01:59:08.980 Well, I'll tell you what.

01:59:10.260 and he was gone every other month and so even though I was I was home by myself with a 16 year

01:59:16.860 old a two-year-old and a newborn and I remember I looked at him and I said do you have to go back

01:59:22.840 to work and he said do you want to eat and I was like well yeah he said so I got to go but I did

01:59:28.460 it and when he came home I didn't ask him to do anything I took care of everything because I

01:59:33.760 stayed home and he was away from his family what are they're called what are those boats called a

01:59:39.120 paddle steamer are you you're talking about like the natchez and like you're talking about the

01:59:43.540 ones like they're paddle boats it's a paddle boat paddle wheels but like those boats that um

01:59:49.480 wait hold on no i'm not finding it like those little cute quaint little boats with the wheel

01:59:57.040 but i found like some big ones i'm looking for some like smaller ones don't they have some of

02:00:02.060 those on the boat with wheel the paddle wheel the paddle wheel he used to drive the paddle steamer

02:00:07.820 On the Mississippi right there in Memphis on the weekends when we first got married.

02:00:11.900 But he worked for 25 years of our marriage, gone a month, home a month,

02:00:16.900 and now he is in town working as port captain.

02:00:21.180 I bet if you're a captain of a paddle boat, let me tell you what, 0.99

02:00:28.180 you get so much pussy if you're like, forget a Ferrari. 1.00

02:00:33.340 Forget a Ferrari or a Lamborghini. 1.00

02:00:36.080 You got a fucking Mississippi River paddle wheeler. 1.00

02:00:40.280 It is funny. 1.00

02:00:41.320 When we were first married. 1.00

02:00:42.420 You get a lot of pussy. 1.00

02:00:43.360 They say, what does your husband do? 1.00

02:00:44.440 And I go, he's a boat captain.

02:00:45.960 And they would go, is he old?

02:00:48.300 And I'm like, we're 30.

02:00:50.180 I mean, no.

02:00:51.000 I mean, no.

02:00:52.240 They like picture this March Wayne individual with a little tie.

02:00:55.720 Indeed.

02:00:57.120 They sure do.

02:00:58.220 It's so crazy.

02:00:59.580 But wait.

02:01:01.580 So where was I going with all that?

02:01:03.480 Patriot.

02:01:03.760 Hold on.

02:01:04.060 Patriot.

02:01:04.340 We got a chat here from Jay Aiken.

02:01:07.560 Jay Aiken, thank you.

02:01:08.900 Question for the panel.

02:01:10.080 What are your reasons for coming on the podcast? 0.99

02:01:13.540 Manson, what the fuck? 0.99

02:01:14.700 Great to see you, brother. 1.00

02:01:16.080 Shout out the Discord gang.

02:01:18.140 Shout out Discord gang. 0.98

02:01:19.760 Clip it and ship it.

02:01:21.400 Good stuff, Jay. 0.96

02:01:22.220 We're going to probably get a goddamn good sunset, I'll tell you what. 0.95

02:01:25.240 I'll tell you what. 0.93

02:01:25.800 It's going to be like a warm summer day, man, let me tell you.

02:01:28.440 I do declare.

02:01:29.220 Is this what we're doing now?

02:01:30.080 I do declare.

02:01:31.180 I do declare.

02:01:32.020 Fiddlesticks.

02:01:33.420 Yeah.

02:01:34.340 Well, let me, okay. So back to you, back, back to you. Okay. Hold on.

02:01:43.580 Wait, the, your current relationship, you've, you divorced like a year and a half ago.

02:01:49.280 I separated. I separated. Yes. A year and a half ago. But, but you've been in a relationship

02:01:54.300 for a year and I'm, I was kind of a bit, you know, to, to be together 20 years and then to just

02:02:01.540 right back you're you're in a new relationship now and i don't know it's a bit soon like me

02:02:09.660 personally if i were to if i was dating a girl for three years i personally think after i'm done 0.87

02:02:16.420 with her she should go to a nunnery i don't think she should ever i don't think once a woman has 0.98

02:02:23.340 once a woman has been with me i think she'll never you know maybe she should never even if

02:02:30.140 we're just boyfriend girlfriend i think it's just done for her she should never she should wait for 0.73

02:02:35.440 me that was her peak she should wait for me and just in case i change my mind like she should 1.00

02:02:42.200 just stay chased and wait for me like on the cliff and every day she goes to the cliff like

02:02:49.460 i went off on a boat a steamboat or whatever and cried a paddle boat tears yeah and she's like one

02:02:55.140 day he'll be back. Like, that's how I expect a woman once I break up with her. Um, but yeah, 0.96

02:03:00.120 no, I think a year after 20 years of marriage, it's a little bit, a little bit quick, you know,

02:03:05.720 um, a little on the quick side. It is. However, um, I think you were, uh, taking a break when we

02:03:13.240 discussed this. Um, women don't leave a relationship usually until they have tried everything and there 1.00

02:03:19.980 is nothing left. Did you guys do therapy? Um, we did try. Did you go to the therapy? Yeah. Was it

02:03:26.840 gay? Um, no, it was just very post-mortem. All of the damage had been done. Um, did the therapist 1.00

02:03:34.640 agree? Did the therapist agree with you? Uh, that it was done. Yes. Like you went together or

02:03:41.960 separately? Uh, together. So, okay. How many times did you do the couple's therapy? About two months.

02:03:47.600 we went to therapy for two months and once a week or something yeah it was once a week okay so like

02:03:52.740 10 times or something yeah but like did the therapist be say something like i think you

02:03:59.620 this is what you did wrong this is or like did the therapist side with one of you more than the

02:04:04.440 other not necessarily she said you know uh she's cold with you because you're not she's telling you

02:04:11.520 she wants you to romance her and you're not doing it why does the man hold on look i look on one

02:04:17.000 hand maybe this is counter this is uh contradictory because i believe in like traditional gender roles 0.98

02:04:23.020 or whatever but it's like why is the man got to do that shit like why does the burden like he 0.55

02:04:29.680 already got you you're already married because i would always plan all the vacations all the dates 0.99

02:04:34.560 set up all of it it's like all right we're going out to dinner so i would find the whole thing do

02:04:40.040 you did you ever bring and that puts me in a masculine role that doesn't want to make me

02:04:44.520 be submissive did you ever do brunch with your husband how many times did you force him to do

02:04:50.520 brunch never i would cook at home all the time you never did brunch outside of the house no with

02:04:56.720 your husband you never went to brunch on a saturday sometimes or a sunday with him yeah

02:05:02.280 oh that's why the relationship you wanted no no look men don't want to do brunch we very rarely

02:05:10.100 You did do brunch, though.

02:05:11.280 One brunch is enough.

02:05:12.300 It's like herpes.

02:05:13.340 You do one brunch, it's like herpes. 1.00

02:05:15.740 You're fucked forever. 1.00

02:05:17.320 Well, what do you mean brunch? 1.00

02:05:19.120 When you say brunch, like breakfast?

02:05:20.640 Like, okay, your poor husband works Monday through Friday.

02:05:23.880 He commutes for an hour.

02:05:25.380 He wants his weekends for him.

02:05:27.700 He doesn't want to do brunch on a Saturday.

02:05:29.880 He doesn't want to do that. 0.99

02:05:31.080 He doesn't want to get some fucking $20 omelet. 0.99

02:05:34.340 He doesn't, men don't want $20 omelets on a Saturday at 11 a.m. 1.00

02:05:38.660 let the guy fucking rest at home you took him to brunch you demanded brunch you guilt tripped him 0.99

02:05:44.560 into brunch it's fucked as a date no i never did a brunch date you did brunch tell me be honest 1.00

02:05:50.460 no to go out because we had to go out did you have brunch did you ever do breakfast it was a 0.99

02:05:55.560 brunch breakfast also bad it was 9 a.m 9 a.m on the fucking saturday what got what guy did 0.96

02:06:01.880 your husband wants to watch i don't know did he like sports was he was he a sports guy yeah 0.99

02:06:08.080 Football.

02:06:08.780 But all of those games start at like one is the earliest one.

02:06:13.800 No heterosexual man ever wants to do brunch.

02:06:19.900 We were never really at that.

02:06:21.340 You did brunch?

02:06:22.140 You admitted don't walk back to brunch.

02:06:24.240 You admitted to the brunch.

02:06:25.300 I guess it's brunch if you want to call it that.

02:06:26.960 If it's at 9 in the morning, they did not have sandwiches.

02:06:30.720 It wasn't the brunch.

02:06:31.420 It wasn't lunch.

02:06:33.540 Were there hors d'oeuvres?

02:06:36.120 Were there hors d'oeuvres?

02:06:36.860 have you ever been somewhere with hors d'oeuvres uh like a cocktail party like a wedding yes

02:06:43.900 we'll get that will that's acceptable sort of but no not like a fancy or like a gala was there

02:06:50.940 a gala okay look like a fundraiser you took your you forced your husband to do brunch

02:07:00.540 It was over.

02:07:01.920 No, we have brunch every Sunday.

02:07:04.800 Okay, you got to stop that.

02:07:06.200 Otherwise, your 25-year marriage is coming to an end.

02:07:12.740 You know what?

02:07:13.720 I did all the cooking.

02:07:15.780 I took all of this.

02:07:17.300 I started doing so much. 0.95

02:07:19.020 I started being that traditional, gender-old wife because I wanted the marriage to work. 0.67

02:07:25.920 Were you guys swingers?

02:07:27.120 Never.

02:07:27.900 No.

02:07:28.100 No swinging?

02:07:28.880 Be honest.

02:07:29.960 Never. Look at me. Never. Never. You promise? You pinky promise? Hand to God. I never was unfaithful. No. No, that's gross to me. I can't. You can't step out like that and come back to the marriage. That's disgusting.

02:07:46.780 Question.

02:07:47.500 What was the typical bedtime for you guys?

02:07:50.440 That was a challenge.

02:07:52.840 I was exhausted from doing all of it.

02:07:56.580 Right.

02:07:56.740 Because now you're adding kids, driving them to, driving them back, making the dinner, going to the grocery store, doing the work.

02:08:03.840 Yeah.

02:08:04.800 Doing the dishes.

02:08:05.780 What time would you guys typically go to bed?

02:08:07.420 I would fall asleep around 10.

02:08:10.080 uh he'd want to channel surf and be sometimes he'd fall asleep downstairs but no matter what

02:08:17.840 happened i would always go downstairs to have that closeness with him oh okay so i was exhausted i

02:08:25.780 would fall asleep on the couch but he'd wake me up at like midnight or one like it's time to go

02:08:30.760 upstairs to go to bed did you ever as you were as he was about to fall asleep did you ever say the

02:08:38.060 following uh hey can we talk like right before he's trying to go to bed no

02:08:45.820 okay you know that pisses me off so much when uh i'm like trying to fall asleep and she had all day 0.87

02:08:57.420 he had all fucking day to say this he's like i'm literally i'm i'm going into uh what's it called 0.86

02:09:05.860 I'm not REM, but I'm, I'm going into that twilight phase. I'm like about, you ever have 0.95

02:09:13.500 those, like, where you jerk yourself? Like, like I'm, I'm basically there, right? But 0.58

02:09:19.420 instead of like, it just, my body doing something retarded, it's my girlfriend doing that. Instead 0.92

02:09:26.460 of like just my body jerking me out, it's my, do you want, can we talk? I'm like, I don't

02:09:33.700 know i just don't think women you got to bring that shit up at 3 p.m you can't bring shit i don't 1.00

02:09:40.160 care how pissed you are you stuff that shit deep down as a woman stuff it down there hopefully you 1.00

02:09:48.460 know by the time you wake up you've already you're just saying whatever i don't even care 1.00

02:09:52.660 wait for a bet women gotta wait for better moments to like bring us shit you know like 0.96

02:09:58.720 For example, I would tell a girlfriend, like, if it's a Saturday or Sunday, even a Monday, like, for the days I do my show, I do my shows on Sundays. 0.99

02:10:09.620 I don't want any friction on a Saturday the day before because I'm doing work.

02:10:14.040 Sunday, absolutely no friction.

02:10:16.440 Friday, Monday, no friction.

02:10:19.840 Because I'm not, you want to, oh, you want to argue?

02:10:24.100 You're picking, I'm going to argue with you.

02:10:26.040 I'm going to be upset if you bring it to me this day

02:10:28.900 I'll still be upset on a Wednesday too

02:10:31.220 But I'll be a little nicer

02:10:32.880 But I don't know

02:10:36.540 You guys got to pick your 1.00

02:10:37.420 Women 1.00

02:10:38.460 There's no arguing 1.00

02:10:40.540 There's exchanging ideas

02:10:43.120 That's so Cope

02:10:44.200 You got to pick 1.00

02:10:46.180 Women you pick the worst time 1.00

02:10:49.080 You got to pick 1.00

02:10:50.000 You got to learn when to take your shot

02:10:52.600 You know if you're like okay 0.99

02:10:54.100 this is going to be like a two-hour argument do that shit on a wednesday at like 3 p.m okay so 0.99

02:11:00.660 if you want us as women to prioritize your sleep right and schedule these arguments to appease 0.98

02:11:06.580 your schedule yes you must then why can't the man prioritize by scheduling a couple of date nights 1.00

02:11:13.180 so she doesn't feel like she doesn't matter it's meeting each other's needs any married couple

02:11:20.260 that's been married for longer than 30 years will tell you that they always dated each other like

02:11:24.360 doesn't mean like oh you have to like do all the time it's like you can go out once a night

02:11:28.100 i mean once once a week and just spend time with each other dates are this like new invention

02:11:34.860 it's this new invention that came about recently if you go back hundreds of years back in the day

02:11:44.480 But you support the patriarchy, right? 1.00

02:11:46.120 Dates are stupid. 1.00

02:11:47.460 Well, no. 1.00

02:11:48.240 I think it should be, look, I'm the man.

02:11:52.160 Obviously, my life is more stressful than yours.

02:11:56.520 Don't make my life more stressful.

02:11:58.820 Don't bring me more problems.

02:12:00.540 Make my life easier.

02:12:02.120 And then I'll give you seven children.

02:12:04.300 That's how it should be. 0.98

02:12:05.380 And if I want to lounge around the house all fucking day, that's how it should be. 0.92

02:12:10.840 It shouldn't be, oh, like, I work so hard. 0.97

02:12:14.460 Oh, you want to go see the ballet? 1.00

02:12:16.540 Fuck you. 1.00

02:12:17.460 You want to see the Nutcracker? 1.00

02:12:18.900 It doesn't have to be the Ballet of the Nutcracker. 1.00

02:12:20.420 Fuck you. 1.00

02:12:21.100 We're not going on a fucking date. 1.00

02:12:22.840 I will give you seven children? 1.00

02:12:25.300 Yeah, seven children.

02:12:26.640 You're going to give them to her, not the other way around.

02:12:29.920 I will bestow upon her the gift of my seed. 0.88

02:12:32.820 Yeah, she... 1.00

02:12:33.860 You will be pregnant, because Google says men can get pregnant now, apparently. 1.00

02:12:37.680 That is true. 1.00

02:12:38.400 So you will give her...

02:12:39.840 Even during the pregnancy, see, it's like, yes, okay, you guys bear the children. 0.99

02:12:44.120 We have to tolerate you while you're pregnant. 0.96

02:12:46.840 That goes, that's a lot of, that is a lot of emotional labor that I don't think women account for.

02:12:56.380 So I actually think when, us men, we do, there's a lot of stuff we.

02:13:01.880 That we bear.

02:13:02.660 We don't get a lot of appreciation for what we go through when y'all are pregnant.

02:13:07.520 and we go through a lot when you guys are pregnant and i do think that truth be told

02:13:14.880 um i don't know there are maybe a woman maybe there is a lot of men who do go through a lot

02:13:22.860 with a pregnant wife if they're actually like attentive and like absolutely it's a lot because

02:13:29.000 you're taking on someone's empathy that i mean truth be told she if if i'm you know like you 0.97

02:13:34.740 guys have cravings when you're pregnant right like yeah you want that chocolate ice cream you

02:13:39.200 want ice cream i personally think you know it say the woman's water just broke but i'm craving like 1.00

02:13:45.760 some cookies or something i think she should go before she goes to the hospital she should go get

02:13:53.160 me what i'm craving with the water breaking like right after the water breaking i think that that's 1.00

02:14:01.140 ideal but we do have a chat here from bob sorry for the delay not gay women just frustrate me on

02:14:07.140 how much standards they want tall guy 18 18 figure salary what is that like that's not i i don't even 0.98

02:14:14.580 that's beyond trillion uh well beyond trillion pisses me the fuck off thank you ladies for 0.98

02:14:22.160 making me the 40 year old disabled obese man wait is he talking about me wait what 0.99

02:14:27.180 no i think he's talking about himself yeah he's talking about he's a disabled 0.78

02:14:31.540 well bob if given the bob i'm gonna have to grift a little bit here you 18 figure salary uh we have

02:14:41.960 some champagne bottles that need to be popped it's a thousand dollar to pop a champagne bottle

02:14:47.040 uh and some of those are going to expire soon so it's not that i'm even i'm just looking out for

02:14:52.440 the expiration date on the champagne. Not that I'm trying to, you know, get money from you or

02:14:57.160 anything. Uh, so if you could just do us a favor, uh, but okay, so hold on. Um, wait, let me, I do

02:15:03.820 need to move things on a little bit off this topic and try to get into some other stuff, but okay,

02:15:07.820 there's no cheating. Uh, I guess the only other thing I wanted to touch on is you said that women 1.00

02:15:14.860 move on quicker. Yes, because we'll stay in a relationship until the men move on quicker, 0.98

02:15:21.680 No, I think men will process it maybe like six months after the split up.

02:15:27.600 That's when it really starts to hit them when you have memories of the stuff you guys did together and it starts to really, really hit you with real life stuff. 0.99

02:15:37.040 But women will stay in a relationship when she's like yelling at you and trying to like rile you up, like wake up, like she's in it. 1.00

02:15:47.180 She wants your attention. 1.00

02:15:48.500 She wants it when she stops arguing with you and it's calm.

02:15:51.200 Yeah.

02:15:51.680 it's not peace it's indifference i'm done with it i'm about to leave she's already looking for

02:15:56.960 your replacement i could have sworn i could have sworn though that i heard somebody say that

02:16:03.360 women take breakups harder i said that you said well not like oh we take it harder but more like 1.00

02:16:11.980 i feel like men are quicker to like go fuck somebody sooner than a woman i think a woman 0.97

02:16:17.320 will absolutely find an emotional attachment sooner but i think a dude is more likely to be 0.99

02:16:21.800 like okay well like i got them yeah hook up quicker than a female i don't know about it's 0.97

02:16:26.160 more emotional for a female physically i don't know about the hookup but like in just in terms

02:16:30.420 of who gets over the breakup sooner do you think it's men or women um like as far as moving on to

02:16:38.080 a relationship then no no not okay let here's the situation man and woman breakup neither of them

02:16:44.960 date anybody else for a period of a year who is like finding it more difficult to get over the

02:16:52.480 breakup in my experience men men get over is that yes men take a longer time to move on no that's a

02:16:58.740 different answer than her though she disagrees she thinks uh women women move on faster what do you

02:17:04.840 think i think women move on faster women move on what do you think i also think women move on a lot

02:17:10.580 faster yeah well i i do think i agree with them that women tend to get over a breakup faster this

02:17:17.660 doesn't necessarily imply that they're dating someone faster or sleeping with someone faster

02:17:22.840 i'm not making commentary on that i'm commentating on the lack of emotional uh impact that the

02:17:31.180 breakup does have i do think um and this might seem like kind of a fucked up thing and this

02:17:38.360 perhaps as a purely theoretical, but in evolutionary, uh, I believe it's like evolutionary

02:17:43.440 psychology. There's this concept called war brides. So I think one of the reasons that at 0.83

02:17:51.940 least it could theoretically be explained why women have less of a, uh, like they, they take 0.97

02:18:01.640 breakups easier. Like they get over it sooner is there's an evolutionary basis for it. So, 1.00

02:18:07.040 and i'm not saying this is a good thing like this is terrible uh like if you were conquering 1.00

02:18:11.880 another tribe another group you'd kill the men and you'd take the women for for fucking war 0.99

02:18:19.560 brides like that they're your prize prize basically like so i think there's a component of 1.00

02:18:27.460 because women like i'm not even articulate articulating this properly but uh because this 0.95

02:18:35.120 is like a phenomenon that women experience throughout humanity that it's like okay if

02:18:42.600 our tribe gets conquered I'm not going to be put to the sword I'm just going to be like the new 0.99

02:18:48.460 the fucking warlords fucking strumpet or I don't know whatever uh because we're looking for the 0.99

02:18:56.220 security because that's what it is I think there's something to that I mean I'm looking this is like 1.00

02:19:00.880 tens of thousands of years back um you know this has been a phenomenon where okay you have a tribe

02:19:07.660 of 300 people warring with 300 people one of the tribes gets conquered they're gonna kill all the 0.99

02:19:13.780 men and all those women are going so you have to like you could either just be like oh fuck 0.99

02:19:20.720 like be all sad about it or it's like okay well i'm part of this new tribe now i have a new man 1.00

02:19:26.320 now whether consensually or not again that's a terrible fucking thing that happened historically 0.82

02:19:31.140 i'm not saying it's good but i do think that that could be an explanation but it also could be 0.95

02:19:38.880 it's just a theory okay uh so there is that 0.98

02:19:46.240 imagine if there's just like conquering women who like just killed all the dudes 1.00

02:19:52.240 and then we're just like well we're gonna fuck you now that'd be fucking crazy bro all right 1.00

02:19:59.880 i don't know um here relationship status relationship status oh yeah single as a 1.00

02:20:07.040 pringle so mason uh you were last time you were on uh you were you were in a relationship oh yeah

02:20:14.560 so i mean are you at liberty to uh speak about what the what happened there no i am in prison

02:20:21.680 to not be able to speak about it.

02:20:23.700 No, I can definitely speak about it.

02:20:25.380 Yeah, I mean, we were dating at the time.

02:20:28.560 And, I mean, she was there with me

02:20:30.160 in the initial stages of my accident.

02:20:32.100 So, like, there's definite credit there.

02:20:34.720 I mean, she was there at my bedside

02:20:36.740 when I was in a coma.

02:20:38.280 Incredible.

02:20:40.240 But after a while,

02:20:41.640 before I got my colostomy bag removed,

02:20:45.200 I just, like, talked to my pastors,

02:20:47.800 other biblical men in my life,

02:20:49.600 and consulted with them on a few things and they just determined the need to end so

02:20:55.400 it had to be cut down how long was your relationship how long was it

02:21:01.780 eight months and how long after did you start seeing someone or I haven't started

02:21:13.340 yeah no i i um yeah i do not date someone until like i'm pretty well over it i mean i am over it

02:21:23.180 like i'm not still pining away for her but um yeah but and i'm also a really picky dude yeah

02:21:29.620 so it takes me a while to find somebody yeah yeah so still single

02:21:34.860 um wait so why did you guys split up yeah what were the reasons your pastors and you decided

02:21:45.560 that it was wait the pastors yeah so the elders of my church i we i sat down with them and i mean

02:21:53.140 it was even like a there were a few facetime calls that had between her myself and uh elders

02:21:58.820 of my church but um i don't really want to get into the details of that but it was determined

02:22:03.060 it needed to end okay was it a religious reason i mean i feel like everything technically within

02:22:09.540 the scope of a church is a religious reason but yeah are you yes no no no you said elders so that's

02:22:15.260 why no elders uh i mean i'm part of like a um our church has plurality of elders so there's like a

02:22:21.160 bunch of guys in our church who are like they're the ones who leave the church now this was and i

02:22:26.320 I mean, I'm actually blanking on her name, but she was on the show previously, and you both came on the show.

02:22:35.340 Correct.

02:22:36.040 This was not long after you kind of recovered from the accident, but still actually in somewhat of a recovery.

02:22:42.940 Yeah.

02:22:44.020 I still have my colostomy bag, yes.

02:22:46.600 Wait, still?

02:22:47.300 I still had it at the time.

02:22:49.080 But now you don't have it.

02:22:49.840 No, no.

02:22:50.100 I go to the bathroom the regular way now.

02:22:54.080 Prove it.

02:22:54.900 So, wait, wait, wait.

02:22:56.320 And, like, but are you guys on good terms, or did it end kind of bad, or?

02:23:00.520 No, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:23:01.160 Like, it was, it ended on good terms, yeah.

02:23:05.200 Are you friends?

02:23:06.900 I don't do friendships after, like, yeah, I don't do that.

02:23:10.560 I cut it off.

02:23:12.560 I mean, I'm praying, like, she's chasing the Lord.

02:23:16.100 She's part of a good local church.

02:23:17.820 She's growing, but I.

02:23:19.840 Were you guys engaged?

02:23:21.040 No, no, we were not.

02:23:22.320 Wait, question.

02:23:23.080 So, Mason, you were a virgin.

02:23:26.320 um are you still a virgin indeed okay okay good no she did not take that from me she did not take

02:23:32.380 no because yeah you were you were you when you first came on yeah you revert and you're wait 0.99

02:23:36.820 you're 30 now or how old are you uh turning 30 on the 19th oh shit me and hayden christensen 0.97

02:23:43.320 share a birthday oh wow is that a deal breaker like for you yeah uh like also need to no no no 0.99

02:23:50.300 know. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Mason, you fucked up once already, Mason. It's a deal breaker

02:23:59.520 now, motherfucker. Hold on. Let me say this shit, bro. Okay. I forgot. Wait, can I be, 1.00

02:24:04.320 wait, wait. Can I be, can I talk about it? Just go for it. Do your thing. All right.

02:24:08.900 so like free speech did i just when you guys okay okay okay when you guys first started dating

02:24:23.180 did i tell you what did i tell you mason i don't remember what you told me a lot of people told me

02:24:31.840 stuff but you know what though look i want to be okay can i be honest honesty and look

02:24:38.800 i don't know that girl very well fair she's been on the show a couple times she stood by you with

02:24:44.260 the the whole thing the whole thing i think like when you this was like when you went on one date

02:24:53.220 with her i think you had been on the show and we were talking after a show or something yeah and i

02:24:57.520 think i said like hey man she's like like there's nothing wrong with her but i was like i don't know

02:25:03.740 if it's a good fit i think i told you that but you didn't you did not heed my i she's the warning

02:25:13.860 by the way just to be clear i'm not like trying to she's been on the show she's a nice girl

02:25:17.720 i'm not i don't really even know her that well there's as far as i know there's nothing like

02:25:23.100 i don't know anything bad about her but i just don't think it was the fit

02:25:29.200 and i i gotta be honest i think people in the chat know who we're talking about

02:25:34.720 i mean she was on the show with you like she was on the show but there's probably

02:25:37.960 viewers who yeah they're not watching everything 1.00

02:25:40.000 i swore i fucking told you i think i do remember this that she was a feminist 0.94

02:25:50.100 if i recall and like i swore i told you but like and but here's the thing 0.97

02:25:56.640 tell me i wasn't about i wanted to like i wanted to be like yo i don't know if this is the girl

02:26:05.660 like down the road because when we first talked about it i felt like it was fair game because

02:26:12.100 you would just like you went on one date with her uh yeah but then she was your girlfriend yes and

02:26:16.800 she stood by you when all that shit went down exactly but there was a part of me that wanted

02:26:22.300 to be like careful mason i don't know about this i mean so that's why that's why i like included i

02:26:29.420 mean maybe i did kind of heed your warning because i mean that's why i included so many of those like

02:26:34.380 elders of my church of the godly men because when i look at a pretty lady like i can't i tell

02:26:40.540 myself everything i need to hear in order to keep things working so but that's why i include all

02:26:46.380 those guys in my in in the situation i tell them everything just so like they can make the rational

02:26:52.420 decisions they tell me what those should be and then like i'm like okay this is my pastor talking

02:26:57.940 to me this is the elder of my church uh he probably has a little more understanding experience than i

02:27:03.060 do um and i weigh that out i mean and the decision was made and they heeded with you brian yeah but

02:27:10.640 like i i once somebody's deep enough in a relationship like because i don't know if

02:27:18.100 alexa's gonna see this or whatever like like i while you you were like actually dating her

02:27:24.700 i never said anything no no like i want to make that clear because some people might be like whoa

02:27:29.840 he was trying to like ruin the relationship or something there was not all there was one

02:27:34.200 conversation we had when you had just been on like one date with her and i was like i don't know

02:27:41.100 you know well hey yeah but then once she like but i don't know when she came on that show 1.00

02:27:47.120 i was like bro she's a feminist like i'm sorry dude when she came on the show with you 1.00

02:27:53.780 and i was like oh man she's a feminist like dude she's conservative but she's a feminist 1.00

02:28:01.040 and i was like i think that's an oxymoron but well yeah a lot of these conservative women are 1.00

02:28:07.800 covert feminists yeah they're covert feminists for sure like yeah obviously your relationship 0.99

02:28:14.380 with her haven't dated her for so long like me and you were we're like i don't know if we'd call

02:28:21.600 each other friends like dang it hurts my heart no but i mean we're not like hanging out you know

02:28:27.080 We're more like, I like you.

02:28:29.700 You're a great guy.

02:28:30.540 Indeed.

02:28:31.000 No.

02:28:31.520 Whoa, don't look at me that way.

02:28:33.620 Not like that.

02:28:34.740 Not like that.

02:28:36.060 But I don't know.

02:28:37.280 But once you were deep enough, I felt like it wasn't my place to say anything.

02:28:43.040 But so she cheated on you? 0.55

02:28:47.200 Oh, no, no. 1.00

02:28:48.300 Did she cheat on you?

02:28:49.040 What happened?

02:28:49.820 I have no clue about that.

02:28:51.560 No, I don't think so.

02:28:52.860 No.

02:28:53.080 But so what?

02:28:54.340 I'm not going to go into the depths of everything.

02:28:55.780 Okay, okay, okay. 0.98

02:28:56.460 I don't fucking know. 0.98

02:28:57.960 No, what came about is walking through the things with my pastors. 0.99

02:29:02.980 They were like, okay, Mason, this needs to end.

02:29:04.840 That was a question mark, by the way.

02:29:07.260 Just to be clear to the viewers, there was a question mark there.

02:29:10.320 I wasn't stating that as a fact.

02:29:12.520 I was asking if there was cheating.

02:29:15.420 No.

02:29:16.260 Okay, so.

02:29:17.600 So it's like an alignment thing for you?

02:29:20.040 Well, so let me just say.

02:29:22.420 Okay, say it.

02:29:23.060 One of the reasons, I think you guys were the same age, right?

02:29:28.220 About the same age?

02:29:28.820 Yeah, yeah.

02:29:30.300 Mason's a virgin.

02:29:31.820 Indeed.

02:29:32.400 You never had a girlfriend too, right?

02:29:34.340 No, I've had a few girlfriends.

02:29:35.820 A few girlfriends, but okay, you're a virgin.

02:29:37.860 Yes.

02:29:38.680 And she was not.

02:29:40.620 Correct.

02:29:41.200 A virgin.

02:29:43.060 Was not, is not.

02:29:44.360 She had more dating experience than him. 0.85

02:29:48.000 it cannot work when the woman is more sexually or like dating really more experienced than the guy

02:29:59.060 it cannot work unequally yoked i it just can't work i like the phrasing it's and look mason but

02:30:06.320 bro because even before you got linked up with alexa um by the way look if she's watching this

02:30:12.500 alexa i'm not trying to throw shade i got no beef with you don't hate me um

02:30:17.700 we're cool i hope probably i don't know but no no but this isn't even about alexa i told you

02:30:26.100 like i'm this has been from do you see one do you see that down there i he's the chat i told him 0.93

02:30:34.080 i told mason and bro you didn't heed my my fucking i told him if he any girl got to come 0.97

02:30:40.820 through me first before they get to you like you did say no i remember chat remember i told i told 0.98

02:30:47.260 them i was like if you want to deal with mason let i got a vet this is my boy we are friends

02:30:54.020 actually this is my boy mason dog so do you feel like though that like that's my homie dog 0.99

02:31:01.180 you a girl you're trying to fuck do you feel like you've been so the only way it'll work for him 0.99

02:31:06.420 then is if she's also a virgin because you're saying a girl's more experienced which i can 0.99

02:31:10.320 understand but like he his experience is zero so if she's got one it can't work well very strong

02:31:17.040 preference for virgin agreed but extenuating circumstances can apply but i'll say this um

02:31:26.280 so you but just to be clear you you did not have carnal knowledge no i did not have carnal

02:31:34.080 No form.

02:31:35.020 Not like a Bill Clinton.

02:31:36.640 No form.

02:31:37.720 Was there a Bill Clinton?

02:31:39.000 No.

02:31:39.400 Come on. 1.00

02:31:40.000 No.

02:31:40.220 Okay.

02:31:40.500 Okay.

02:31:40.700 No carnal knowledge. 1.00

02:31:42.120 From now on, Mason, and I fucking said this shit before. 1.00

02:31:44.660 Here. 1.00

02:31:45.020 I'm fucking drafting up a contract. 0.99

02:31:46.500 Fair enough. 0.99

02:31:47.160 I'm going to draft up.

02:31:48.340 Okay.

02:31:48.800 It's just going to be an ex, and you're going to, Mason.

02:31:52.780 So, from now on, Mason, you're a virgin.

02:31:56.440 Yes, I am. 1.00

02:31:57.220 I tried to warn you, dude, about – so from now on, Mason, your dick is my dick. 1.00

02:32:07.360 I am your dick escort. 1.00

02:32:10.820 All dick decisions got to come through me. 1.00

02:32:13.900 I got veto power. 0.99

02:32:15.540 I'm the president.

02:32:16.760 I'm the dictator.

02:32:17.680 There you go. 1.00

02:32:18.840 I got vagina veto power. 1.00

02:32:21.600 This is like the mafia, the muff mafia. 0.99

02:32:25.280 I'm your consigliere. 0.74

02:32:27.220 Like, we're the Italian mafia, okay? 0.99

02:32:29.740 I'm the dick doctor. 0.99

02:32:33.220 Are you going to keep going up? 1.00

02:32:34.800 Hold on, wait, wait.

02:32:35.220 No, no, no, no.

02:32:36.500 I am the muff maestro.

02:32:38.320 Oh, I thought you were going somewhere else. 0.99

02:32:39.600 I am the peen protector, the vagina virtuoso. 1.00

02:32:44.080 And I'm going to get you to the fucking Holy Land, Mason. 1.00

02:32:47.280 Okay. 1.00

02:32:48.180 So, ladies, if you want to get to Mason, you've got to come through me.

02:32:52.280 Now, Mason, being the naive young lad that he is at 30, 1.00

02:32:57.220 He may not know how to spot a trifling hoe, but I do. 1.00

02:33:04.100 Trust me, I do. 1.00

02:33:05.660 So if any of you born-again virgin Christian thoughts think you got a shot, no.

02:33:12.320 No.

02:33:14.400 So, Mason.

02:33:15.320 Yes, okay. 1.00

02:33:16.000 Before you – I know you get a lot of women sliding into your DMs because double-byes. 1.00

02:33:19.800 Show them the double-byes up. 1.00

02:33:20.960 The double-byes.

02:33:21.320 Show them – you were supposed to wear the Blink-182 shirt.

02:33:24.040 I know.

02:33:24.520 I have it in my bag.

02:33:25.680 He's a good look.

02:33:26.360 Put it on.

02:33:26.720 Oh, well, okay.

02:33:28.140 Look, Mason's a good-looking guy.

02:33:29.900 He's Christian.

02:33:30.880 He's... 1.00

02:33:31.240 Hold on.

02:33:31.700 Wait, Mason, let me list your positive characteristics.

02:33:33.700 Okay, go for it.

02:33:34.560 Do it, Brian.

02:33:35.220 He's handsome.

02:33:36.020 He's tall.

02:33:36.860 He's insanely fit.

02:33:38.440 Top 1% physique.

02:33:41.340 He's intelligent.

02:33:42.720 What was your degree in or whatever?

02:33:44.060 Mechanical engineering.

02:33:45.360 Yeah.

02:33:46.720 He doesn't have any VD, venereal disease, as far as I know.

02:33:50.720 That's a plus, I think.

02:33:51.940 Given he's a virgin.

02:33:52.920 Winning. 1.00

02:33:53.800 He's not a man whore or a fuckboy. 1.00

02:33:55.720 He's a virgin. 1.00

02:33:56.720 Yes, indeed.

02:33:57.720 He's a true God-fearing Christian man.

02:34:00.420 He's virtuous and a good person.

02:34:05.660 Therefore, we are getting you a beautiful 19-year-old, brown-haired, blue-eyed virgin who will give you seven sons.

02:34:13.240 So, ladies, if you've been cracked before, don't bother.

02:34:17.500 Now, in all of my goodwill and charity and gent—hold on, I've got to repeat it because it wasn't on me there. 0.61

02:34:25.960 Tiffany, go stand in the corner.

02:34:28.860 Time out for you, Tiffany.

02:34:31.320 In all of my goodwill, charity, and generosity,

02:34:34.620 we will accept damaged goods under certain conditions. 1.00

02:34:41.680 Now, any women with more than one body count, 1.00

02:34:43.940 you're welcome to come my way. 1.00

02:34:46.560 I'll tear your pain.

02:34:49.040 Now, Mason, I'm not asking for payment,

02:34:51.260 but I do get to be the best man at your wedding.

02:34:54.280 Okay, okay.

02:34:55.440 I also claim the right to prima nocta.

02:35:01.960 Just kidding.

02:35:02.940 Unless you're down.

02:35:03.700 Just kidding.

02:35:04.560 You get to baptize his first son. 1.00

02:35:09.260 Now listen, fucker. 1.00

02:35:11.840 Listen, Mason. 1.00

02:35:14.720 I'm getting you a fucking chastity belt. 1.00

02:35:16.980 You are? 1.00

02:35:17.380 Okay.

02:35:18.120 This guy didn't listen to me.

02:35:19.980 He didn't listen to me. 0.70

02:35:21.760 You wasted your youth.

02:35:23.420 Your fertile years, Mason.

02:35:25.440 Yes, I did.

02:35:28.480 Anyways, ladies, Mason is single, though.

02:35:33.780 You can DM him, but I'm going to read those DMs.

02:35:38.880 I'm going to actually, Mason, you're going to send them a questionnaire.

02:35:43.540 I have a girlfriend's application that I use for myself that you could use.

02:35:47.540 It's like 100 bullet points of questions.

02:35:50.240 I'm not even joking. 0.97

02:35:51.740 It's ridiculous. 0.99

02:35:53.860 It's so fucking good, though. 0.99

02:35:55.240 I should sell this thing. 0.99

02:35:57.540 It's so good.

02:35:58.580 It's so good.

02:35:59.240 I've painstakingly.

02:36:00.740 Anyways, I'm just saying, Mason.

02:36:03.160 Yes. 0.97

02:36:04.520 The next girl you date has to be a virgin. 0.99

02:36:07.320 Okay. 1.00

02:36:08.060 Has to be a virgin. 0.98

02:36:09.260 Has to be.

02:36:09.760 Bro, you got too many good positive characteristics. 0.99

02:36:14.320 You don't got to settle for some girl who's fucked 10 guys. 1.00

02:36:17.360 What the hell? 1.00

02:36:17.840 Do you live in L.A. or Southern California? 0.96

02:36:20.800 I do.

02:36:21.360 That's the problem.

02:36:22.800 You're telling me.

02:36:23.520 you need to come to the south

02:36:26.000 oh I tried to go to the south

02:36:28.020 oh I tried to go to the south

02:36:29.460 it's just different problems you find there

02:36:32.540 anyways

02:36:33.260 anyways look 0.99

02:36:35.100 no shade to Alexa though

02:36:40.880 I'm just saying 1.00

02:36:41.660 you need like a proper 1.00

02:36:44.760 trad, Christian 0.96

02:36:46.920 conservative, virgin

02:36:49.220 woman 1.00

02:36:50.220 what's your type? white? 1.00

02:36:53.520 uh oh goodness gracious what is my type uh i look for uh i don't have like an ethnicity preference

02:37:00.920 okay we're gonna get you a white woman with blue eyes no she has okay the the one strict thing i

02:37:07.120 i like i this has to be there i mean obviously she has to be a christian she has to be going to

02:37:12.140 church that's unspoken that has to be there she has to be a gym goer if she's not a gym goer

02:37:17.720 it's not gonna happen you know what we need to do mason tell me you are blocking kiki from the

02:37:23.400 center shot can you turn kiki so she's more in the corner i was thinking about that earlier like

02:37:27.720 yeah she's not in the shot i just realized that's up this baby's getting all the 0.93

02:37:35.080 you might have to stand up to move her mason i don't even okay yeah just scooter that way a

02:37:40.760 little bit all right yeah there we go anyways let i need i need to bring some of the other 1.00

02:37:46.200 women on the panel I gotta I gotta you know but look ladies ladies he does not miss a glue day 0.99

02:37:57.980 ladies ladies uh but look Mason yes no more okay bro you before you even go on the first

02:38:10.280 date with a girl you come to me of course you I'm gonna go on the date with you actually really 0.99

02:38:15.460 That would be fun.

02:38:17.400 I'm going to be your

02:38:18.800 escort.

02:38:22.180 Chaperone. Fair enough.

02:38:23.380 You need a chaperone, Mason.

02:38:24.880 Look, I'm going to be honest, Mason.

02:38:27.600 Your track record

02:38:29.320 hasn't been great lately.

02:38:31.660 You need a chaperone.

02:38:33.120 I need a chaperone. I'm going to be Mason's chaperone.

02:38:38.040 Bro, just move to Santa Barbara.

02:38:39.540 I'll get you. Fair enough. Move to Santa Barbara.

02:38:41.540 I'll hire you.

02:38:43.040 Mason's going to work for me. I'm going to be your chaperone, though.

02:38:45.460 I'm going to go on the dates with you, and maybe we'll do double dates, you know? 0.96

02:38:50.240 She can bring her slutty older sister or something, and I'll take one for the team. 0.94

02:38:56.540 But look, Mason, look. 0.99

02:39:02.480 Oh, my God.

02:39:04.820 What's that Bible verse?

02:39:07.780 Sons in a man's youth are like arrows in a quiver.

02:39:11.940 Yes.

02:39:12.220 It is good for the quiver to be full.

02:39:16.380 That's not the verse.

02:39:17.520 I puttured that so bad.

02:39:19.040 You're pretty close.

02:39:20.100 I had the essence of it.

02:39:21.960 You had the essence of it.

02:39:23.120 You want more arrows in the quiver than not arrows.

02:39:27.760 Yes.

02:39:28.160 And those are children.

02:39:29.760 I'm just saying, bro.

02:39:31.160 I'm just saying.

02:39:32.280 Yeah.

02:39:33.180 At least solve me, Brian.

02:39:35.980 Okay.

02:39:36.560 If anyone else, I'm just amazed he is a virgin.

02:39:40.020 He is a virgin. 1.00

02:39:40.640 You look like a total F-boy 1.00

02:39:43.260 That was the first impression 0.99

02:39:45.520 I have to tell

02:39:47.700 The stash

02:39:49.180 Well I have to have the stash

02:39:50.840 Because I'm trying to go on the fire

02:39:52.240 So I had like a glow up

02:39:55.480 Like mid-college

02:39:56.820 Like I was not a good looking dude

02:39:58.940 First few years of college

02:40:00.640 When I was a kid

02:40:02.200 I was not a fantastic looking dude

02:40:05.400 But somehow

02:40:06.260 Mason go get your Blink-182

02:40:09.240 Go get Blink-182 1.00

02:40:10.420 How many women go to engineering school? 1.00

02:40:13.140 Oh, not many. 1.00

02:40:14.640 Not many.

02:40:15.300 But once I, like the last two years of college, that's when I started to blow up pretty good.

02:40:19.520 That didn't help.

02:40:20.220 It's, you know, it's like a, what, 10 to 1 ratio or something like that?

02:40:23.460 It did not help at all.

02:40:24.700 Okay, I'll grab my shirt.

02:40:25.380 My mama heart was kind of like, oh, mm.

02:40:27.940 I know.

02:40:28.260 Because that's, you know, you never, he's the age of like my oldest daughter's 31.

02:40:33.980 Like I just kind of.

02:40:35.100 Yeah, I know.

02:40:36.140 Blows my mind.

02:40:37.120 He did not heed.

02:40:38.120 i had i had a line waiting outside the door of virgin women no you did for this man

02:40:48.280 and he threw it all away he threw it all away oh goodness are there virgin dating apps because

02:40:55.860 he needs to go on it how would they bet it mason in your religion do you do self-flagellation 0.99

02:41:03.160 do you know what that is isn't that a thing like don't some catholics do that

02:41:09.320 the self is that wait do what is the do catholics do self flagellation 0.59

02:41:17.680 heavily discouraged i thought there was am i just making shit up i don't know mason i think 0.99

02:41:27.180 you need to get whipped 0.98

02:41:28.580 a little bit. Not by a woman, 1.00

02:41:31.200 but like a literal whip. 0.54

02:41:33.300 Oh, oh, oh, you mean that?

02:41:35.040 Yes. For your trespasses.

02:41:38.900 Like a

02:41:39.180 self...

02:41:40.780 Didn't they used to do that back in...

02:41:42.860 There's some people that actually still do that.

02:41:44.480 The flagellates? Is that a thing?

02:41:46.820 Could be. See, he should have been wearing this the whole time.

02:41:48.700 This is fair enough.

02:41:51.200 Flagellates?

02:41:52.280 What is that? 0.99

02:41:54.220 I haven't even done the fucking intro. 0.99

02:41:56.080 Bro. All right, let me do the introduction. 0.99

02:41:58.280 Goodness gracious, we're at this far into this.

02:42:00.040 Let me get into it, and then we'll get into some stuff here.

02:42:02.620 Okay, we did Warbrides, we did that, we did that.

02:42:05.680 You know what, before the intro, let me just do one more topic, then I'll actually do it.

02:42:10.660 You're LDS Mormon. 0.69

02:42:15.420 But you do OnlyFans. 0.98

02:42:17.220 Yes.

02:42:19.600 Okay.

02:42:21.780 Explain.

02:42:22.180 well i i know that i'm not supposed to and it's definitely against um my religion but i started

02:42:31.420 due to unfortunate circumstances um what well we moved me and my husband moved here and from utah

02:42:42.360 and he had a business, and he got sick, right, so he can no longer work, and our apartment's

02:42:53.220 very expensive, and it came down to losing the place where we live or start making quick

02:43:00.700 money, so I started doing things to make fast money.

02:43:12.360 go on that's it that's it that's all you have to say yeah uh okay so

02:43:20.000 uh how long ago was this i started probably three four months ago oh three four months ago

02:43:29.560 yeah so this is new new yeah very new okay have you made the money i guess from doing it or

02:43:37.500 well yeah I make I make money but the money wait didn't you wait didn't you say you've been doing

02:43:43.420 OF for like two years I'm confused no she said a few months perhaps I got it confused then no very

02:43:49.760 new um I started basically when I came here we always wanted to move to LA and we well he has

02:43:58.240 a business in Utah that finally like started to stabilize but once he he's still sick and we can't

02:44:07.040 doctors don't know what it is nobody knows what it is and he he's like struggling he can't really

02:44:12.400 do anything anymore so I just I don't know I guess there's definitely other things I could

02:44:18.940 have done but my rent's really expensive and we have an extravagant lifestyle so

02:44:25.460 um well why did why didn't it occur to you as a first step to pull back on the extravagant

02:44:33.800 lifestyle well that would make us sell the car well him because it's his car he would have to

02:44:43.240 like sell the car the place where we live and there's also debt so there's not much i mean

02:44:50.260 we could do we could get a new place but it is expensive and hard to find places in la that are

02:44:57.740 also safe too um now lds although i mean i think some of the main mainline uh denominations would

02:45:12.060 probably object to this but lds is uh at least as far as how they view themselves as christianity

02:45:19.700 similar yeah well it is from their perspective they're christians

02:45:25.320 yeah they do claim christianity a lot well i mean they are christians from their perspective

02:45:32.000 um but i mean and then so you draw from the bible you draw also there's the you know the specific

02:45:41.660 lds components of the faith my understanding though is that it's completely incompatible

02:45:48.540 with the religion is sex work yes so i assume you guys don't take the religion

02:45:56.540 you're like nominal mormons at best right i mean i'm like culturally mormon well do you go to church

02:46:05.280 yes we do go to church obviously i don't publicly tell anyone there what i do for work

02:46:13.380 um both of our families are also mormon like yeah do they know no they don't know you're on a podcast

02:46:21.740 so here look into this camera look into this camera right here

02:46:27.580 tiffany you gotta hello say hi mom hi mom hi dad hi dad hi brother hi brother hi step brother

02:46:38.080 hi stepbrother okay that was weird that you just did that but uh just kidding um yeah

02:46:46.480 it's just incompatible yeah I understand that but I mean we we believe we were taught that way

02:47:00.980 to be Mormon and we met from our families and stuff like that but I also drank he drinks too

02:47:09.200 and you're not supposed to like drink or do drugs no no drugs no no no but I mean couldn't you you're

02:47:17.560 from Utah I mean couldn't you move back home you're 19 right so it's not like such a bad I don't know

02:47:25.620 if you're on good terms with her parents or sort of they don't know that you do OF no they do not

02:47:33.160 but I my parents I moved out when I was like 17 so it's I for me to move back in with I

02:47:44.600 with them would be kind of crazy they're also separated so oh your parents are divorced they

02:47:50.880 were never oh they were never together yeah okay and then his parents they are married when you

02:47:58.400 and you moved to california when uh three four months ago three four when did your uh husband

02:48:07.300 have his health issue he so probably just a little bit after we got here i don't even think

02:48:13.380 i think so i remember we were about to pay rent and then all this started coming up issues where

02:48:19.960 he got extremely sick it was hospital like er visits like every single night if he eats he

02:48:25.960 his body starts turning on him it's extreme like we have to go do mris and go to the er

02:48:32.540 consistently doctor visits and there's lots of issues there okay well i mean really the only

02:48:40.560 thing i can tell you is that it is inconsistent incompatible with christianity or even mormonism

02:48:48.020 LDS um you seem to be aware of that though so yeah there's really not much else to I guess say

02:48:56.000 on the topic um I'm curious about some of your tattoos though uh what's the tattoo that you have

02:49:03.680 on the sternum my chest no like kind of on the belly I guess it says deadly or pretty poison

02:49:09.900 pretty poison pretty poison and then you have a a butterfly multiple butterflies I can't tell

02:49:16.020 No, it's just one with, like, flowering inside it.

02:49:18.580 Oh, I see the flowering, yeah.

02:49:20.600 When did you get those?

02:49:22.080 I got these, I think, all under 18, my tattoos.

02:49:26.540 I got them when I was younger, probably 17.

02:49:28.960 You got the pretty poison.

02:49:29.980 What does pretty poison mean?

02:49:31.460 I don't know.

02:49:32.360 I just found it on Pinterest.

02:49:34.080 I was 17.

02:49:35.260 It was just a Pinterest?

02:49:36.800 Yes.

02:49:37.340 It wasn't like, I'm so beautiful, but I'm toxic.

02:49:41.440 No, I...

02:49:42.560 It wasn't that?

02:49:43.440 No, I found it on Pinterest, actually, all my tattoos.

02:49:46.940 And I regret all of them.

02:49:48.240 I wish I could get rid of them all, but I'm not there yet.

02:49:51.140 Were you drinking?

02:49:53.340 I don't think I was drinking when I got it, but I just kind of, I would see people with

02:49:58.000 tattoos, and I was 17, just moved away, and I was kind of doing, like, just figuring out

02:50:04.220 that, oh, wait, now I'm an adult, I can do whatever I want, so I decided to get a bunch

02:50:09.120 of tattoos.

02:50:09.680 uh you know i i saw something interesting on this um hey uh tiffany pull up the discord

02:50:19.120 go into the research infographics uh it's kind of towards the bottom the research

02:50:25.960 bucket the research bucket there's an infographics it's going to be the very first one

02:50:32.760 apparently i found some really interesting statistics uh that tiffany's about to pull up

02:50:39.680 So this is showing, this is about tattoos.

02:50:47.100 So this is like the year ranges is when the person was born.

02:50:53.800 So if you look at people born like 1925, 1960,

02:50:57.940 so blue is male, black is gray or whatever is female,

02:51:02.420 or I guess it is black, the actual line.

02:51:05.220 uh so for the older generations uh men got more tattoos if you were born 1961 to 1980 it's kind

02:51:14.500 of about equivalent although actually no no yeah the wait hold on wait the age does this wait i'm

02:51:25.820 hold on because it uh for the 1961 to 1980 um it looks like at the like at the top peak of the age

02:51:35.480 yeah so like eventually at the time they got the tattoo wait yeah i'm confused actually by this but

02:51:41.020 yeah go ahead yeah well it's so it looks like men initially would get more tattoos than women

02:51:47.500 um but women would eventually come out to catch up to them eventually once they got to

02:51:51.720 later in their 50s. 1.00

02:51:54.960 But does that mean that the women are getting 1.00

02:51:56.680 the tattoos in their 0.98

02:51:58.720 60s? No.

02:52:00.240 We start to see an uptick around 40.

02:52:03.000 That's when it starts to catch up to men.

02:52:05.180 Or, well, no, actually, 1.00

02:52:06.240 the female graph looks very... 0.82

02:52:08.120 Wait, no, no, no, don't go that way. 0.98

02:52:09.380 Don't go that way. Go that way.

02:52:11.020 Go that way.

02:52:11.820 Yeah.

02:52:14.520 No, the middle line 0.88

02:52:17.360 shows female 0.95

02:52:18.540 tendencies linear.

02:52:20.040 so like uh there's like a very uh consistent change but then the male graph is more logarithmic

02:52:27.200 so eventually like it looks like men would get tattoos sooner um and then it eventually equals

02:52:33.140 out to is this just like but this hmm it would seem this is a bit confusing in the sense that

02:52:40.880 it's like they hit 18 and then it kind of plateaus up depending on what generation you're in and

02:52:49.100 there's way more women now when they hit 18 in the generation of 81 to 2004 getting tattoos than

02:52:55.080 there are men. That's what it looks like to me. Well, so I understand like the final reading,

02:53:01.260 like for example, 1981 to 2004, more women are getting tattoos than there are men. But I'm trying

02:53:07.440 to make, I'm trying to understand what it means. Oh wait. Okay. So the age, say the age is.

02:53:14.020 The probability that you're going to find somebody who has a tattoo. That's what I'm

02:53:17.200 right oh okay so wait the probability that so if people at this table have a tattoo uh because

02:53:24.140 like a born or yeah between those time periods it's it's a little bit confusing or maybe i'm 0.68

02:53:31.620 retarded it's so different by culturally too like by culture no like by by yeah i'm wondering like 0.59

02:53:37.920 if the a lot of cultures like for instance polynesians tattoos is like a rite of passage 0.91

02:53:44.440 like you will get tattoos very young like women and men like they mean certain things like yeah

02:53:49.580 but like but i'm wondering if they did this in in america i'm wondering if they took these

02:53:53.800 statistics in america it's probably the u.s that's what i'm guessing that's what i'm saying

02:53:57.480 yeah but like even if it was like even if it was like polynesian american or it was like world

02:54:04.740 statistics i don't think that um like the polynesian and black cultures tattooing is a

02:54:14.200 part of like tattooing is part of black culture yeah if you go to yeah if you look well tattoos

02:54:19.400 are part of all cultures not tattooing but like you know they have like scarring and things like

02:54:23.520 that that was part of like african i'm half black i'm well i mean i would say i mean i lived in

02:54:29.020 north africa for four years so i mean i would say that tattooing if we're doing a comparison between

02:54:34.580 like black americans and white americans it being part of the culture i would say is pretty

02:54:40.840 equivalent well i corrected myself on like the black part because that was more like

02:54:45.100 scarring and things in any case though women are getting women are getting more tattoos than men

02:54:50.640 and l it's a pretty big l no offense that's actually no offense hey look i what's that

02:55:02.100 you you regret them right yeah yeah so i mean um i don't know uh i don't know i brought you have

02:55:09.380 a tattoo too i have sean yeah is that your ex no it's my brother who just passed uh oh your brother 0.98

02:55:16.120 passed too shit your brother and your ex that's damn that's crazy well sorry to hear that uh do 0.92

02:55:22.640 you have tattoos i do really and i got them when i was in my 40s you would never see it like they're 1.00

02:55:29.240 what i know you would never see them though they're for me who are like rib tattoo or something

02:55:36.880 There's one right here.

02:55:37.900 Okay, you have a cross. 0.51

02:55:39.140 It's just small. 0.91

02:55:39.360 All right.

02:55:39.760 I have a small one on my foot, and then I have a real small one right here.

02:55:44.460 A tramp stamp?

02:55:46.260 It's not.

02:55:47.480 Dang.

02:55:47.880 Is it on your lower back?

02:55:49.060 It is not on my lower back.

02:55:50.340 Oh, it's on your side?

02:55:51.500 Yeah, it's like right here.

02:55:53.540 On your back, but not in the center?

02:55:55.860 Yeah, no, not like 1994 over your rear end.

02:55:59.000 The tribal tattoo? 0.56

02:56:00.240 No, no, no. 0.98

02:56:00.940 Okay.

02:56:01.300 It's not like that.

02:56:01.800 What is the negative of, like, women having tattoos, though, like, in a man's opinion? 0.90

02:56:06.880 In a man's opinion, I would probably say when I see a woman who has tattoos, it generally suggests to me that she makes permanent decisions off of how she feels in the moment. 0.92

02:56:20.540 Like, I feel like I really want to get this tattoo right now because I just really feel it. 0.98

02:56:24.720 I'm going to get that tattoo.

02:56:26.800 Mine very much means something to me.

02:56:29.360 I'm not saying that yours don't mean something to you.

02:56:31.480 I'm just saying that that is generally what happens.

02:56:34.800 Oh, I agree. 0.99

02:56:35.240 Yeah, and so when I see a woman with tattoos, I see that she makes illogical decisions in the moment based off of her emotions, and it's a permanent decision. 0.96

02:56:46.440 Like, you can't take that away. 0.72

02:56:48.000 She didn't think through that, and she doesn't have people in her life that help her think through those things.

02:56:52.460 So, like, that's a pretty big red flag to me.

02:56:54.760 So are not all permanent decisions made from emotion, though?

02:56:58.760 No, not necessarily.

02:56:59.680 When you get married, which I assume that I take that as a permanent decision, you are acting out of emotion because you love this person.

02:57:07.100 You align with this person.

02:57:08.780 So you're making a permanent decision off of an emotional.

02:57:11.240 There are plenty of relationships I've been in that if I would have made the emotional decision, I'd probably be married today.

02:57:17.260 But I put those emotions aside and made the, I think, right and logical decision by putting my emotions aside and making the hard choice to not continue with the relationship.

02:57:28.340 So you're saying that logic and emotion don't ever play hand-in-hand when you're making an impermanent decision?

02:57:33.300 Well, no, no, no.

02:57:33.880 So I think emotions are essentially like a temperature gauge.

02:57:37.140 I think emotions are good.

02:57:38.320 God gave us emotions for a very knowledgeable reason.

02:57:41.460 However, if you base your decisions primarily off of emotion, then that leaves you making terrible decisions.

02:57:52.860 Some of the most egregious atrocities in history were made by emotional decisions.

02:57:58.340 so but so it's the emotion can be a temperature stick why do i feel this way and making that

02:58:04.420 evaluation in into coming to a correct conclusion i think that is correct but if your emotions are

02:58:11.780 being uh are wild and then you make a illogical decision based off them that means you prioritize

02:58:18.680 your decision making using emotions versus making a rational decision here also uh i do want to add

02:58:25.320 you were i think you're asking was it you who was asking why the tattoo says something bad

02:58:29.380 yes yeah so i mean i would say that the graffiti uh if you see graffiti it lets you know you're

02:58:35.040 in a bad neighborhood yeah not always tiffany loves that by the way because she has tattoos

02:58:41.600 so i'm basically talking shit about her i guess but um just kidding tiffany love you but um in

02:58:46.780 a platonic work sort of way exactly um in a yeah so yeah it's like i i think it displays a lack of 0.93

02:58:55.300 long-term thinking um which can be associated with sort of other risk taking behaviors um

02:59:02.200 and even if it's not rational like for example logically it's possible that a woman could be

02:59:08.380 fully covered in tattoos and she could be a virgin she could have never done drugs ever she could

02:59:14.720 have never had a sip of alcohol she could be like a highly virtuous person but my just maybe it's 0.98

02:59:24.320 bullshit maybe it's not maybe it's just reading judging a book by its cover but when i see a 1.00

02:59:29.520 woman who's tattooed especially heavily tattooed i tend to make assumptions there's a heavy 0.99

02:59:36.520 correlation between the two and it's not a causation yeah the heavy correlation so i tend

02:59:41.300 to think she's probably sexually promiscuous probably into drugs probably into drinking

02:59:48.000 probably has mental illness probably has issues that's my now to be clear the tattoo you showed

02:59:57.920 me on your wrist they're just no no no i don't think that communicates that not because of the

03:00:03.240 symbol necessarily but like it's small the the wrist is and you're also like you can't see it

03:00:08.080 and the thing is like you purposely got them in places where people aren't going to be seeing

03:00:11.880 because i don't want to go for a job and it cost me a job because you know like you have to be

03:00:16.260 rational about it if it means something to you then it really doesn't matter where you put it

03:00:20.200 if it's for you and not for everybody else to look at yeah and i can understand like what you're

03:00:24.720 saying like placement can matter depending on job and stuff like you know for instance i'm in an

03:00:28.940 industry where that doesn't matter what's the industry um like like health and wellness like

03:00:34.640 i do because i do massage therapy i do holistic health so it's very independent i like and i work

03:00:39.560 honestly no i mean it's never well no like it's not going to inhibit you from having a job but

03:00:45.420 Well, I'll tell you this much.

03:00:47.200 Like if I'm looking online and I'm trying to get a massage or something and I'm like looking at three different providers and one of them is super clean cut and has no tattoos versus I see somebody who does have tattoos, I'm going to pick the person who has no tattoos.

03:01:06.020 So you're just prejudiced.

03:01:07.200 Okay, that's fine.

03:01:08.320 I don't know if it's –

03:01:09.220 Well, no, it's more like a subconscious.

03:01:11.160 Sure.

03:01:11.800 I'm just saying like –

03:01:13.260 I'm not saying that you're wrong.

03:01:14.740 You can have whatever your thoughts are.

03:01:15.660 Sure, if you want to label it a prejudice, I'll accept it.

03:01:19.340 Certain prejudices are granted, though. 0.92

03:01:21.600 If I saw a guy in here, he walked in the door, and he has a swastika on, I'm going to be somewhat prejudiced towards him.

03:01:29.460 Obviously not saying that tattoos are swastikas.

03:01:32.020 Some are, but you know.

03:01:33.240 If I look at the sex offender registry, I'm going to have prejudice towards that person.

03:01:39.940 That's preference, not prejudice.

03:01:41.760 Well, she's saying it's prejudice.

03:01:42.820 Well, when you're saying that

03:01:44.740 Well, no, it's prejudging somebody

03:01:46.540 based on something

03:01:47.380 Yeah, okay, I'm fine with that

03:01:49.080 And I'm not saying that in a negative way

03:01:51.560 Everyone can have their prejudgments, that's fine

03:01:53.640 But I just mean, for instance, like you said

03:01:56.180 because I have a flower

03:01:58.660 on my arm

03:02:00.000 you're going to choose somebody else

03:02:02.240 just because I have this flower

03:02:04.060 I guess let me clarify a little bit

03:02:06.400 So I wasn't necessarily saying

03:02:08.080 the degree of tattoos you have

03:02:09.620 but when I was giving that example of the guy who's

03:02:12.060 clean cut with no tattoos i'm thinking perhaps more tattoos than you that's like for example let

03:02:17.220 me let me put it like this um if i saw you or i saw a massage therapist who had like a tattoo here

03:02:24.780 and a tattoo on the forearm i and like i wouldn't not get a tattoo with them or excuse me i wouldn't

03:02:31.940 not get a massage with them no because of that but let's say they had like full sleeves

03:02:38.220 and like maybe a face tattoo neck tattoo um i might even if they're the only option for a massage

03:02:46.320 and i mean there's quite a lot of providers in a medium-sized city but i'd probably like

03:02:52.760 have some apprehension getting a massage from them well that's more but if it was a choice

03:02:59.300 between a clean cut person whether it's a man or a woman versus a man or a woman with tattoos like

03:03:05.960 like full sleeves and neck tattoo or something i would probably pick the clean cut person well

03:03:14.780 that's more where i was like trying to get to the bottom of like understanding like okay so is it

03:03:18.700 like someone like even with the dating and stuff right are you talking about something that's fully

03:03:23.080 added or just because like they have a couple texts i have six right but they're all um at least

03:03:29.080 four of them are dedicated to you know people who i've lost who mean something to me and then two

03:03:34.180 or just like my birth flower and then because i like to surf you know what i mean like that's

03:03:37.800 where i was gonna understand like okay so where are you deciding like okay this person has terrible

03:03:41.440 judgment that's not because they have a couple tattoos that mean something to them or are you 0.99

03:03:45.480 saying like you said we're no offense but like she just saw something on pinterest like fuck it i'm 0.95

03:03:50.160 gonna get this like you know what i you understand what i'm saying no i get what you're saying but 0.95

03:03:54.000 it's still like i'm gonna mark up my body with this permanent like marking like i don't know

03:04:00.560 I just don't see the forward-thinking, like, future knowledge in that. 0.94

03:04:06.740 I'm not saying that, like, because you have your tattoos, you're going to hell.

03:04:10.000 No, no.

03:04:10.560 I'm just – I'm saying, like, there's – and, like, a lot of these thoughts aren't really, like, conscious.

03:04:15.860 It's a lot of subconscious stuff.

03:04:17.380 So, like, why does someone get a tattoo?

03:04:19.200 Like, I would probably assume and probably be correct in my assumption that the people who get tattoos aren't consciously thinking,

03:04:25.380 okay i'm a degenerate person therefore i must go get tattoos because i'm short-sighted and blah

03:04:30.500 blah no i'm i'm thinking that like what motivates them to get those tattoos to become not a skin

03:04:36.300 virgin is they have these subconscious devils that they have not faced yet and they haven't

03:04:43.740 healed from or conquered i want to say so i mean it's it's not again it's just not conscious

03:04:49.000 thought? Mine was from a healing. I used to weigh 396 pounds and, um, I made some big changes in my

03:04:57.220 life. And the one on my foot is just reminds me, I'm not going back there. So if I ever look down

03:05:04.240 and I see this, I know you're laughing. No, sorry. I was laughing. I wasn't laughing at you.

03:05:09.220 Okay. I was like, really? But when I look down and I see that on my foot, I'm like, don't look

03:05:14.060 down get it together you know you you you have overcome something i overcame stage four terminal

03:05:20.080 liver disease you know like i've had a lot of stuff happen and a lot of thought went into that

03:05:25.780 and i did it in my 40s and it was um cathartic it was like an end to what was and a reminder of what

03:05:36.760 was going to be if that makes sense yeah but again like you i mean you're not trying to flaunt that

03:05:43.100 to the world because you're having a spot that's not typically seen yeah and so like yeah so i mean

03:05:47.920 i like so you're one of the exceptions to this rule like technically speaking i would still

03:05:53.700 prioritize a skin virgin but i get you're like one of the exceptions to the rule i as far as the

03:06:00.600 tattoos go i would say do you have tattoos i'm a skin virgin yes i would say like for most men

03:06:09.220 Now, there are some men who have fetishes.

03:06:11.240 There are some men who maybe they have a tattoo, so maybe they view it as, like, a commonality where it can kind of get into a potentially a positive.

03:06:20.520 I would say, though, at least for me, that tattoos are at best neutral or negative.

03:06:29.100 There's never – so when I say neutral, it's like I tolerate.

03:06:34.720 Like, there's never a woman I've ever seen with a tattoo.

03:06:37.400 not just to be clear tattoos are not deal breakers although some like if she's fully blasted it's

03:06:45.200 probably like i don't have tattoos like she's it's probably we're so different it wouldn't work

03:06:50.600 or whatever not necessarily i mean maybe it could but like we don't see a tattoo and it gets us

03:06:55.900 going yeah like i guess it depends it depends a little bit on placement what the tattoo is how

03:07:03.640 many tattoos she has it's like a scale i would say it's a spectrum of acceptability so like okay

03:07:10.720 she has a heart tattoo on her inner ankle and that's the only tattoo she has honest like

03:07:17.780 to me that's totally neutral now would i like slightly prefer her to not have it sure but like 1.00

03:07:26.480 i i don't really care that much um but would it be better if she didn't have it sure but it would

03:07:31.920 be like i don't know how can i what's the thing i can compare to okay your boyfriend makes

03:07:38.440 250 000 a year it would be nicer if he made 255 000 a year but it's it's like that's the increment

03:07:50.500 it's like okay he's an extra five thousand dollars is like if he's making 250 000 a year

03:07:56.820 Would you rather him be a plumber

03:07:58.400 or would you rather him be a firefighter?

03:08:01.700 I don't know if that's...

03:08:02.320 Come on.

03:08:03.700 Let's be honest here.

03:08:04.720 Because it's not dangerous.

03:08:06.520 That might be a pretty big...

03:08:08.060 A plumber, he can fix the house.

03:08:09.780 In terms of what I was suggesting.

03:08:10.700 Plumbers actually make really great money.

03:08:11.900 Yeah, they do.

03:08:12.880 Yeah, I think ultimately though,

03:08:14.760 for me, it's neutral at best to negative

03:08:19.200 to the point of the spectrum of tattoo having.

03:08:22.800 so neutral to negative you're falling somewhere on the spectrum neutral here would be like

03:08:31.100 very minimal tattoo small

03:08:34.680 versus like all the way here like massive negative obviously we're talking face tattoos

03:08:42.560 we're talking whites of your eyes tattoos we're talking like blackout tattoo like

03:08:48.160 Like, then we're getting into, like, this other territory. 1.00

03:08:54.140 She's got fucking gang tattoos. 0.99

03:08:55.960 She's got, like, tattoos that communicate something, actually. 1.00

03:08:58.900 Like, for example, like, if somebody has an MS-13 gang tattoo, like, that does say something, like, about you, either your current state or your past affairs.

03:09:09.680 So, I actually wrote down some notes.

03:09:12.480 I'll just blast them super quick on the tattoo topic.

03:09:14.680 So it says something about your impulsiveness, long-term judgment.

03:09:19.020 There's a potential for regret there.

03:09:21.420 It could signal a pattern of behavior, which someone might make more like emotionally driven choices.

03:09:28.840 Association with risky behavior.

03:09:31.560 They do show correlation with higher levels of risky behavior, drinking, drugs, criminal activity, sexual promiscuity.

03:09:40.520 There is a correlation, particularly with like certain types or placements, neck, face tattoos.

03:09:50.160 There's a professional social image component.

03:09:53.680 Now, I don't know if you're like a corporate businessman or you're an attorney or you're going to these functions where not that I do these things,

03:10:04.920 But where you're like bringing your wife and they're meeting the CEO and your wife is like blasted in tattoos that could have like in those professional settings that could have an impact.

03:10:18.580 There's also just an incompatibility with aesthetics, like aesthetically, you might just be like, I don't think it looks good.

03:10:27.680 And it could signal narcissism or attention seeking. 0.83

03:10:32.180 so all right sorry to pound on you guys for fucking 20 minutes i guess but i feel like we're 0.97

03:10:40.360 sitting down from most tatted to least well yeah you got the butterfly the the do you have any 0.98

03:10:47.280 other tattoos or is it just those i have this one and then i have one here also and then one on my

03:10:55.260 ankle yeah so like i wouldn't say you're like you're definitely pretty close on the spectrum

03:11:02.740 there like you're like okay so like no no tattoos to like whoa that's i mean you what's the style

03:11:13.680 called where it's just like fucking just work you have the patchwork yes yeah so i mean this one 0.77

03:11:20.320 here you got the one there uh do you have like the lip one no on the lip do you have any on your 0.90

03:11:27.640 fingers oh i i guess the hand one yeah i got the hand one yeah i mean it's uh 0.97

03:11:34.300 i've seen worse obviously like there's people who are just fucking of course yes like super 0.91

03:11:43.360 blasted you're not quite there yet but it's definitely a preference but i do regret all

03:11:48.160 of mine and I want to get them removed and I do plan to but it's not like an easy thing and

03:11:53.900 I'm scared and I think that kind of speaks to what she was saying like you know she didn't put

03:11:59.000 as much thought into it right where versus like you and I were like we said like there was so

03:12:04.960 much thought that went into it and it was like healing cathartic where it's like I'm and it's

03:12:09.420 like people I love so I'm never going to regret honoring the people I love you know versus well

03:12:14.680 Yeah, there's varying degrees of the reasons.

03:12:17.780 When I was younger, I wanted to get tattoos.

03:12:20.100 But one rule I put on it was, if I still want it in a year, I'll get it.

03:12:24.580 And if I don't, and I never wanted it.

03:12:26.680 So I never got it.

03:12:27.460 Yeah, and I think I had, at some point, some temptation.

03:12:30.800 But I was like, I've never had a tattoo.

03:12:34.500 It's crossed my mind at moments.

03:12:36.180 But I was like, you know what?

03:12:38.220 If I still want this in a year, and it's like, but even then, I was like, eh, nah, I'll change.

03:12:44.680 my mind like i was never wanting it i always thought i'd do my kids names and i never did it

03:12:49.400 and but i think the other thing that we since it is a dating podcast i think one component so if

03:12:55.340 you're like let's say you're a man who's wanting to like have a stay-at-home wife and she's not

03:13:03.300 making any money and you're making money and she's like a tattoo fanatic that's a financial liability

03:13:09.900 like she's gonna come to me wanting me to pay for the tattoos and I'm thinking like that seems like 0.96

03:13:18.200 from my perspective that would be a waste of money if we're gonna have kids we have a household

03:13:23.740 like so what does it say about like a financial responsibility because it does seem to be the

03:13:29.040 case that people who are not often in really good financial situations get tattoos and I'm like okay

03:13:36.640 that money could have been yeah maybe it's what a hundred here a couple hundred here here and

03:13:43.080 there getting a tattoos so sometimes like over a lifetime people are thousands tens of thousands

03:13:49.480 of dollars like how much was your two tattoos these were each 150 150 each right like how much

03:13:56.280 were your tattoos this one was like 300 300 these were 150 each okay and so it's like you know you'll 0.94

03:14:04.320 see uh so what you said it's 300 this was 100 total yeah i mean shit 300 for some people that's 0.89

03:14:14.840 like a lot of money yeah 300 like that's that's your rent that's your food that's diapers so it's 0.68

03:14:23.180 like i don't know if i was dating a girl and she was like i want to get tattoos this also would 0.77

03:14:28.320 apply to like a woman who's has high degrees of vanity. So like, I guess as a next, uh, sort of

03:14:35.820 hopping off topic, a woman who wears a lot of makeup, a woman who wants plastic surgery, a woman 0.97

03:14:41.700 who has a lot of upkeep, she's getting Botox, she's getting lip fillers, she's getting procedures

03:14:46.660 done. I would want a woman who doesn't have a leaning towards needing, uh, plastic surgery 1.00

03:14:57.060 or caking on makeup, because I view that as a financial liability in a relationship, 0.74

03:15:02.560 especially, at least for me, I'm, I mean, I'm in a position where I can take care of

03:15:08.220 everything.

03:15:08.880 I'd prefer my, my girlfriend or whatever down the road. 0.76

03:15:12.460 When we have kids, she doesn't have to work, but I also want her to be, uh, responsible

03:15:19.220 financially, especially if it's my money that she's spending. 1.00

03:15:24.500 um so for me when i see a woman who's like clearly has mental health issues when it comes to 1.00

03:15:33.780 plastic surgery like i just think okay every couple years it's going to be a ten thousand dollar 1.00

03:15:40.400 surgery like i could afford it but no you're not getting it so even if she wanted it even

03:15:48.520 if i could afford it no that money can be better spent do you have hobbies that you spend money on 0.71

03:15:56.340 our money it would be her money because she's it's i think relationships are a hundred a hundred

03:16:03.100 well i'm not i'm never getting married so yeah it's always going to be my money it's always 0.96

03:16:07.600 going to be my money but and a traditional christian woman is going to be okay with never

03:16:11.160 getting i'm not christian okay yeah i didn't know that but uh you know it's i mean some of 0.99

03:16:16.320 these christian women are i i want to do air quotes though christian women most of them are 1.00

03:16:23.160 completely if they're into you they're just they get completely bulldozed like they just 1.00

03:16:31.240 they claim one thing and i'm waiting until marriage and then they're fucking like i mean 0.99

03:16:39.080 not all christian women to be clear there's a lot of hypocritical christians i agree but 0.99

03:16:44.340 uh yeah i mean i'm not getting married i mean i do agree like you know when you are married right 0.94

03:16:53.380 like it's an hour thing especially if you're following that gender role of like okay he's

03:16:58.180 the one that's going to be working then like it's an hour situation but a good woman is going to 1.00

03:17:01.920 have standards and most 90s i don't know what percentage it is but 1.00

03:17:06.640 a vast majority of the good women that you want are going to expect marriage

03:17:11.460 um i disagree with that to a degree of course an unwillingness to get married uh definitely will

03:17:20.380 close the door for uh perhaps i don't know the percentage i would assign to it uh but there's

03:17:27.720 plenty of i think um good virtuous women who would make for good girlfriends good mothers

03:17:34.680 well there are some people who are meant for singleness like that's like in the bible like

03:17:38.320 some people are i'm not talking about being single no i just mean like that's like unmarried

03:17:43.400 like in when you're talking biblically like single like a singleness like god can give to

03:17:48.860 a singleness because like you're not meant to be tied to like that rib or that person like you have

03:17:53.480 a different purpose but it's not what i'm talking about so um yeah that's so i can have a long-term

03:18:02.720 girlfriend stay with her forever being monogamous have seven children with her

03:18:07.960 what changes huh he essentially wants marriage just without the government contract right

03:18:16.140 yeah yeah i can have so all those things in marriage the children the family i can have

03:18:23.660 all those absent marriage why does the government contract scare you so much or

03:18:28.700 you don't like, you dislike it so much? Yeah. I mean, primarily just, uh, financial liability

03:18:34.660 and I don't need the government involved. The government is retarded. Um, and I don't need 1.00

03:18:41.820 some woke retarded judge telling me how I should distribute my money and how the assets should go. 1.00

03:18:50.080 And, oh, my wife cheats on me. I, and we've been married for 15 years in California. I have to pay 0.93

03:18:56.420 her alimony for her entire life. Fuck the government. Fuck the laws. If she wants to be 1.00

03:19:03.040 with me, and I hope she wants to be with me for life, and we're going to have a family, and we're

03:19:06.380 going to have kids, great. But I'm not going to let the government ever put me in a position.

03:19:12.640 Marriage is a contract. Marriage is literally a contract. And I'm a businessman. You know I'm

03:19:20.340 businessman because you find me at my places of business. And so when I look at what marriage is

03:19:27.320 from a legal perspective, it's a terrible fucking contract. Oh, here's a woman who didn't help you 1.00

03:19:34.880 build your business at all. And at any moment, she could be cheating on me. Or even if there's 1.00

03:19:44.300 no cheating. She could just be like, well, I don't like him anymore, which fair, but now he has to

03:19:51.940 pay me for the rest of my life X amount of money. That's fucking retarded. I'm not going to ever 1.00

03:19:59.300 enter into any sort of agreement that would allow for that. That's so dumb. So yes, it's a financial 1.00

03:20:08.740 liability. What about if you get a prenuptial agreement? Uh, yeah, sure. So, okay. Prenuptial

03:20:14.400 agreements can be challenged. Uh, prenuptial agreements can't be unconscionable. So for

03:20:20.460 example, the prenuptial agreement cannot state, well, yes, Brian, you make millions of dollars

03:20:26.200 per year and you're, uh, going to marry a woman who makes nothing and you're married to her for

03:20:32.320 20 years you can in the contract it cannot be like uh she gets nothing that would be an

03:20:39.040 unconscionable contract so like prenuptial agreements they're she still gets something

03:20:44.260 correct but you agree to it up front and you can have a clause in it that states this prenuptial

03:20:49.320 agreement is to be reviewed every year just like you file tax returns every year review it every

03:20:53.700 year but so the prenuptial so i believe and it depends on the state i'm not an expert in this

03:20:59.220 prenuptial agreements can, can protect assets before the marriage. Anything gained from the

03:21:10.460 marriage onwards is the, I don't believe the prenuptial agreement can really address it.

03:21:16.400 It would then go community property. So if I'm making a million dollars a year and she's making

03:21:20.860 jack shit and we're married for fucking 10 years, trust me, she's getting millions of dollars 0.98

03:21:26.560 in the divorce regardless of if there's a prenuptial agreement or not i'm sorry i'm not 1.00

03:21:33.020 giving a woman if she's even if child support is the bigger liability at that point not necessarily

03:21:38.880 because that would that would have a limit as to how long it could go and uh if we have children

03:21:45.840 uh whether we're married or not that that's something you can't escape right so i why add

03:21:52.300 another liability in that case so i don't there's no point yes okay you got me yes if i have children

03:21:58.440 with her i would have to technically pay her child support i'm okay with that i get i mean 0.90

03:22:03.800 i'm actually not so okay with child support i think that can be kind of retarded too 0.93

03:22:08.380 in some ways because sometimes it it's um most often that's the word most often child support 0.84

03:22:13.680 isn't even used for the paying for the things child needs not in in some cases the child support

03:22:19.380 doesn't cover enough for the child care expenses but sometimes it can be very exorbitant especially

03:22:25.900 if you're a high earner uh especially in california where the calculation is based off of

03:22:31.360 uh your income and it's just a percentage okay you make this much money uh say you make

03:22:37.000 a hundred thousand dollars a month you're going to be paying her ten thousand dollars

03:22:41.340 uh in child support a month it doesn't cost ten thousand dollars a month in child support to raise 1.00

03:22:46.340 a kid fuck the government and fuck her frankly um that's ridiculous that you would ever a lot 0.99

03:22:53.800 of these child support payments are completely exorbitant is the word i was looking for um 1.00

03:22:58.760 the woman is going to use the child support for things that have nothing to do with child support 1.00

03:23:04.220 if the payment is exorbitant so that's bullshit that's completely retarded 0.98

03:23:09.520 there should be a cap on it i i would challenge you on that a little bit and 1.00

03:23:14.520 Talk to an attorney about it because I think you're shutting out a lot of women that would be otherwise aligning with all of the values that you have. 0.53

03:23:25.440 Well, I mean, my perspective on this is like, okay, woman, so if I'm making millions of dollars a year, but I won't give you marriage, but it could work, or you could go marry a guy who makes $100,000 a year, like that's the tradeoff the woman's like going to have to make. 0.53

03:23:44.520 I think.

03:23:45.120 I think I definitely agree with Brian on this.

03:23:50.680 I, like personally, I don't see any benefit to getting a legal government contract to get married.

03:23:55.680 I think it is a covenant made between God.

03:23:59.220 And so it's a covenant in God's eyes made between a man and a woman.

03:24:02.540 Where is the government supposed to be in that? 0.82

03:24:04.500 Right.

03:24:04.620 It's not supposed to be anywhere. 1.00

03:24:05.960 Because the government is essentially incentivizing you in ways, hey, if you do this divorce thing, we'll give you this. 1.00

03:24:12.700 We'll make it comfortable for you.

03:24:13.960 We'll make it easy, essentially incentivizing people to do a divorce and the marriage for their own vain, feely reasons.

03:24:24.180 And, I mean, especially once we've, like, instituted, gosh, no-fault divorce laws.

03:24:29.920 Like, I think this absolutely shot marriage in the foot.

03:24:35.500 Like, it absolutely destroyed it.

03:24:36.820 Because, I mean, all it is now, it's saying, I don't feel like this marriage is working out.

03:24:41.220 And I have these divorce laws that I can fall back onto.

03:24:44.700 I can have all these incentives and benefits if I do end this marriage and ruin our children's lives, ruin our lives.

03:24:52.760 I think, yeah, I think having a marriage where there is no government contract involved makes you think very hard before you get into that marriage.

03:25:02.180 You're going to bring up all of those really difficult topics that need to be brought up before you decide to marry this person.

03:25:07.220 like all of the do you believe in abortion um what are your political views uh like do you

03:25:14.420 think we should be going to church every single week all those extremely hard topics that people

03:25:18.900 tend to avoid right now because oh i could just divorce them if we find something that we disagree

03:25:23.920 on i mean i think there's both sides because i do agree like i don't really love the role that

03:25:30.440 government plays in marriage because i also agree like it's a commitment between you your partner

03:25:34.560 and god like i would be totally fine getting married in a field with just me my partner my

03:25:38.860 family under god you know but i also think that in one way where yes it does give people that easy

03:25:44.300 out it also does make people think like okay like i need to make sure if i really marry this person

03:25:49.920 like i'm in this because if we do get divorced like that's messy it can be bad like well so

03:25:56.400 this is kind of like going in well going into this i don't know why people who aren't christians get 0.99

03:26:02.460 married honestly it's the dumbest thing ever like if you don't yeah i think it's so dumb like you 0.99

03:26:08.820 get in a governmently binding contract to spend the rest of your life with this person like you 0.98

03:26:13.900 don't really believe that you're in a covenant with them like you're doing it for like i guess

03:26:18.480 so you're not alone and you have like a fleshly pleasures with them but like why do people who

03:26:24.840 don't believe in god ever get married that blows my mind i have no clue but if you are in a christian

03:26:29.580 If you are a Christian, you get married to somebody, and they divorce you, and they take everything.

03:26:34.260 Well, if you're part of a good, healthy church, the church is what takes care of you.

03:26:38.060 I mean, my church in my motorcycle crash, they took care of me.

03:26:43.080 I mean, I had people visiting me every day at the hospital when I was recovering.

03:26:48.240 People just lent me rooms in their homes to live in while I recovered until I could start working again.

03:26:54.880 The church is designed, and it's really good at taking care of its members,

03:26:59.140 a really good, solid church.

03:27:00.300 I'm talking about those megachurches out there that, like,

03:27:03.280 you might know someone's name, and that's it.

03:27:05.260 No, like really solid churches that are actually your family.

03:27:08.780 Like when those messy divorces happen, that's what the church is there for,

03:27:14.840 to be able to take care of you. 0.97

03:27:15.880 And the government sucks at doing that.

03:27:18.460 It always prioritizes in the wrong ways. 0.99

03:27:20.860 It incentivizes people to break that marriage.

03:27:23.880 Where, I mean, if you go into a marriage without that government contract, shoot, it's so much better.

03:27:30.380 And if you're a Christian and something terrible does happen, there is that you can fall back into your church, and they're there for you.

03:27:40.020 The only legalities, then, if you're not married, would be to consult with an attorney of how you can protect your wife or your significant other if something were to happen to you.

03:27:50.420 because she doesn't have spousal rights under the laws of man well well so i mean okay if you're

03:27:57.540 like thinking of some sort of scenario where you're incapacitated or you you know uh die before

03:28:04.720 you otherwise expected to you could that's called a will and testament so okay that's not enough

03:28:11.440 huh that's not enough you minimally need a trust a living trust that would make it revocable when

03:28:16.760 you die okay but there's a lot you are acknowledging that you can have that sort of way well there's

03:28:21.680 there's that's what i said if if if in one way um you believe that the prenuptial isn't protecting

03:28:29.980 you then what security or protection does she have and okay so hold on but you're you're now

03:28:37.940 that's back to what the woman wants um how do i benefit um how do you benefit uh yeah how do i

03:28:47.540 here how i can i can your heirs so hold on i can i can list out all the negatives tell me why

03:28:55.680 as a male breadwinner i should get married um you don't have to do anything you don't want to

03:29:02.300 I know, but what are the, so, okay. If you're making a case for marriage, if you're arguing

03:29:07.280 for marriage, aside from contending with my criticisms, what are the pros? What are the,

03:29:14.880 why should I, as the man get married as the male breadwinner? You don't have to, but 0.79

03:29:19.260 that's not what I'm asking you. I know I don't have to. It'll be easy. I think you're cutting

03:29:24.240 off a lot of very traditional women that you're expecting to find. That's actually, I think that's 0.99

03:29:29.720 compelling to a degree. Yeah. But that's not enough. And have you talked to a family law

03:29:36.740 attorney to get all of the laws and specification for the state that you live in? I would want to

03:29:41.760 ask all, I mean, I'm not there. I'm not getting married. I just divorced. But if I were to

03:29:47.200 remarry, I would want to talk to the family attorney and say, okay, I need a bulletproof

03:29:52.080 legal in all 50 states, prenuptial, very blanket, you know, prenuptial. What are my options? I would

03:30:00.020 want to educate myself on that before I get married. So, I mean, ultimately, I guess you're

03:30:05.400 right that the laws vary state by state. And I don't have like in-depth knowledge necessarily

03:30:14.260 about specific outcomes or specific laws, but I have a baseline understanding of marriage and

03:30:24.480 divorce laws in the United States. I know, for example, that prenuptial agreements aren't this

03:30:30.560 magical contract that means you're going to have a good outcome in the event of a divorce. 0.96

03:30:35.560 You're still going to get financially fucked simply by virtue of having the marriage. 0.86

03:30:39.420 you're going to get lawyers involved. That creates an expense right there. It creates a 0.97

03:30:45.860 financial liability immediately. If you do get married through the court system, then yes,

03:30:51.820 you have to get a divorce if you want to separate. That is going to cost money. Whereas, hey, okay,

03:30:57.920 we don't want to be together anymore. Well, okay, we got to figure out the child legal situation,

03:31:03.800 but that that would be the only legal component should you have children if you're married then

03:31:10.400 the divorce comes into play then it's like okay we got to untangle our money if we bought a house 0.98

03:31:16.300 together if i earned things during the marriage if i had fucking bitcoin you got you're gonna grab 0.98

03:31:21.960 my fucking crypto you're gonna grab part of my assets you're gonna grab all these things 0.98

03:31:26.400 and so again i'm asking you why should the why should me as the man the male breadwinner get 0.99

03:31:32.600 married i'm the woman and i paid it okay so i so just to be clear i i understand that the the laws

03:31:41.800 also do apply to women too but i'm asking from from as it is the case that generally speaking 0.96

03:31:48.840 men are the ones who get fucked in divorce generally i'm not women can get fucked too 0.92

03:31:52.800 meant women if the woman's making more money and the the man's the stay-at-home dad or whatever 1.00

03:31:58.480 yeah the woman would uh be paying alimony would be losing money would be in a financially

03:32:04.800 bad position so i guess but that's not that's not what i'm asking i guess if if you want to 0.54

03:32:12.200 divert it to the gender thing why should the breadwinner why should the person who made which

03:32:17.680 is mostly men why should the person who makes the most money out of the two why should they get

03:32:22.640 married um well i think you would have to be fully educated on it i don't know enough to speak

03:32:30.920 intelligently about it yet because i haven't talked to a uh attorney about the prenuptial

03:32:36.360 legalities and protections and if you review it every year and you can amend it every year

03:32:40.940 i'm sorry but it's going to be very difficult to contend something that you just agreed to last

03:32:44.640 year wait what if if you have in my opinion i i don't know enough about it but in my opinion you

03:32:52.400 have a prenuptial agreement that gets you both agree before you get married is going to get

03:32:56.280 reviewed every year for any changes if any and you agree to it every single year what does that mean

03:33:02.600 how are you that doesn't how are you go how is she going to uh defend or contested in a court

03:33:10.020 of law when she just signed it last year even if you've been married for 20 years that you're not

03:33:14.940 communicating okay so what he's asking is like how do the benefits of getting married

03:33:21.960 overweigh the benefits of not getting married.

03:33:25.900 So he's listed all of these benefits to not pursuing that government contract.

03:33:30.940 How is it getting married outweighs that?

03:33:33.980 Because there's a solution to that, to that worry, I think.

03:33:37.780 No, there's not.

03:33:38.360 By speaking to an attorney that knows a little bit more. 0.98

03:33:41.720 It would not be beneficial for you to get legally married. 0.87

03:33:44.680 And especially if you're not a Christian and you have someone who has the values that you like

03:33:49.380 and they want to be with you. 0.99

03:33:50.640 it would not be advantageous for you to go into a legal contract with a woman who brought nothing

03:33:56.280 monetarily to the marriage um that is 100 true you if and if i mean that may be a deal breaker

03:34:04.400 for her but when you find the right one she might be like hell yeah brian let's do it and you may

03:34:09.200 be with her 50 years and have 10 kids you still know my belief is my perspective is is that if 0.97

03:34:15.500 the woman only wants to be with me on condition that we have a governmental marriage, like 0.75

03:34:21.640 a legally, uh, like through the courthouse or whatever, she's just not that into you. 1.00

03:34:27.340 She ain't the one, um, further, like now, if I wanted to date a woman who like, maybe

03:34:36.640 I'd be, I think I'd be okay.

03:34:39.120 Like say she was Christian or whatever.

03:34:40.960 and she wanted to have the ritual yes without the corresponding legal uh complexity obviously

03:34:50.080 some states there's like common law marriage and i believe if you were to like hold yourself as if

03:34:58.120 you were married you would technically have a common law marriage but in california and there's

03:35:02.920 other states too i don't know the breakdown of all the states that are have common law marriage

03:35:06.980 or whatever california doesn't um but yeah okay you want to have like a ritual you want to have

03:35:12.620 i guess i'm okay with that just a profession of love you know like your relationship if she

03:35:18.960 really wants it i guess we could do it at in vegas or something vows under god in church

03:35:24.480 somewhere but yeah actually having a legal government marriage yeah absolutely not yeah

03:35:31.620 no absolutely not wouldn't do it there's pretty much the only reason you should do it i mean i

03:35:38.100 would say you should get married if you're christian because that's something you should

03:35:43.060 do as a christian right um well it calls for it it calls for marriage however oh boy um however

03:35:52.340 they don't like our stream yeah um hold on one sec uh one sec uh wait wait let me just

03:36:02.480 check something really quick keep the camera there i think 0.94

03:36:04.620 i think it's just a fucking bird or something yeah okay cool yeah yeah we're good we're good 0.90

03:36:15.320 um i don't know um i mean i agree as well like i don't think it's necessary if you're not 0.97

03:36:23.740 like you said like christian to have that marriage in general because like that is a profession of

03:36:29.860 you declaring your love and your faithfulness your commitment under god to that person and if

03:36:34.600 you're not under that faith value then it doesn't make sense like for you to just go into a contract

03:36:41.100 just for that like especially someone that's more likely to hurt you then well i mean the other

03:36:45.220 thing to consider though is all my concerns still apply to christian men like all those concerns

03:36:52.140 in terms of the financial liability even though you're a christian and you're called to get

03:36:58.620 married you still have to take these things into uh consideration yeah and that's what i mean like

03:37:05.040 I wouldn't, like, if my future husband or whatever was like, hey, I don't want to, like, get married on paper, I would be fine with that.

03:37:14.460 Yeah.

03:37:14.580 Because to me, it's the commitment that matters, not this little paper we have to sign.

03:37:19.780 Because this is what's going to really matter down the line.

03:37:23.120 Yeah, well, I mean, because when you sign that paper, it puts in a bunch of incentives to end it, to get a divorce.

03:37:30.840 Yeah, that's good.

03:37:31.260 Incentives start to appear once you sign that piece of paper.

03:37:33.780 If you don't sign that piece of paper, there's no incentive to end that divorce or end with divorce.

03:37:39.520 So, I mean.

03:37:40.340 And then the other thing I was just thinking about is, and that is a good point.

03:37:45.580 It's like, well, okay, we're having an argument.

03:37:49.860 Oh, if I divorce him, I get alimony for the rest of my life and I get like thousands of dollars every month.

03:37:55.760 And so it creates an incentive for women or whoever is not the breadwinner to maybe just be like, well, do I receive a benefit by ending this, whereas if I just have a girlfriend and she ends things with me? 1.00

03:38:16.240 what about her perspective um where you can just leave because she can just leave too 0.90

03:38:28.660 well right but you are also incentivized not to really try when shit gets hard

03:38:35.160 because you just leave i mean so two i guess two things well if you just leave

03:38:40.540 you lose what the breadwinner was providing no but let's say she's let's say hypothetically in 15 1.00

03:38:48.660 years yeah after seven kids uh you just turn into a monster to her like you're just an asshole to 1.00

03:38:54.400 her like verbally abuse her um you slap her once you're like an alcoholic something okay hypothetically 1.00

03:39:01.580 speaking. Sure. Okay. Okay. And she's trying or, you know, and you're just, she criticizes you on 0.98

03:39:10.420 it. You know, if you would stop drinking that alcohol, I think, you know, it would be better

03:39:14.900 for our relationship. Okay. And you're like, F this, I'm just going to leave. And you leave.

03:39:20.360 And you're, and that's no security for her. Well, I mean, if, so if we have children,

03:39:27.320 uh the child support would cover some of it um but uh yeah i suppose a woman has to weigh that

03:39:36.620 as a potential risk uh however i mean yeah i mean i think it's hard to believe that

03:39:44.440 this uh extremely negative behavior just spawned out of nowhere in this guy i mean

03:39:50.700 i suppose it could happen i mean i guess it could happen but it's extremely rare

03:39:54.760 and like i mean again if you're part of like if you are getting married like i don't again i don't

03:40:02.320 see why the people who are not christians get married because you are a christian that stuff

03:40:06.480 happens the church is there to help you they're there like the money that people donate to the

03:40:10.840 church it's made for these kind of situations well also this hypothetical scenario you like

03:40:18.980 couldn't that go the other way too yeah like so it could go the other way too like she could be 1.00

03:40:24.580 a terrible piece of shit she could cheat on me i did get married to her and we were married for 15 1.00

03:40:29.960 years boom permanent alimony kicks in in california once you're over 10 years of marriage 1.00

03:40:35.340 she she got gang banged by my fucking best friends or like something fucking terrible could happen 1.00

03:40:42.440 and now i'm gigafucked like i i think the worst case scenario in both situations is okay the woman 0.99

03:40:52.040 Brian stopped working and she, um, she was a stay at home wife for 10 years, which

03:41:00.260 truth be told, I think is kind of like a pretty damn good scenario. Like, okay, everything is 0.98

03:41:06.680 covered by your husband. You don't have to work. That seems like kind of a blessing. Like it would

03:41:11.920 be wonderful if, if like hordes of women who had a ton of money were like ever came around to men

03:41:19.280 or to me in my life and we're like, hey, Brian, I want you to be a pampered little prince and just 1.00

03:41:26.120 do nothing and take care of the household and raise the kids. Wouldn't it be nice? I actually

03:41:32.160 think it's a privilege for women to get to be stay at home and not have to work. I think that's 0.75

03:41:37.560 a privilege, especially nowadays where economically, financially, it's actually very, very difficult.

03:41:44.140 A man has to earn quite a bit of money to actually allow that to happen. Most people are going to

03:41:48.660 have to have a two income household so i do think it's a privilege for a woman to uh be a stay at 0.90

03:41:53.860 stay at home and the guys taking care of all the finances that certainly will be the case uh for me

03:41:58.780 the woman will never have to work ever um but so i i i think ultimately though men would get

03:42:05.800 the worst end of the stick if we like the worst case scenario in both situations okay i i'm done

03:42:13.380 with her and she, we're not married. She's kind of financially fucked. I think you can get on 1.00

03:42:19.120 your, like, that seems like you can get back on your feet. Um, versus man has a financial duty

03:42:26.940 to like, you can have a clean break from somebody like, okay, fuck you're financially in a shitty 1.00

03:42:32.260 position. You're, you're completely clear from them. You're completely done with them. If I'm 0.99

03:42:38.800 married to a woman for over 10 years and she does some fuck shit. I am tied to her for life. 1.00

03:42:45.820 She gets my money for life. I, the government can force my labor. It's literally fucking slavery. 1.00

03:42:55.020 The government forces me to give her money. So long as I'm working, the government has a right 1.00

03:43:00.360 to my labor. She has a right to my labor after she fucked another dude for the rest of her life. 1.00

03:43:06.760 So 20 years later 0.99

03:43:08.200 I'm still paying 0.87

03:43:09.660 I haven't seen this woman 1.00

03:43:11.040 Imagine that

03:43:12.780 Bro, what was 20 years ago?

03:43:15.260 What was like a big band 20 years ago?

03:43:19.140 2006

03:43:19.620 Was Britney Spears crazy at that point?

03:43:24.280 2007

03:43:24.760 She got crazy I think

03:43:26.380 She still is

03:43:28.440 Imagine you haven't

03:43:29.800 Talked to somebody for 20 years

03:43:32.580 And you still gotta write them a check

03:43:34.740 20 years 1.00

03:43:36.200 That's fucking stupid. 1.00

03:43:37.900 That's stupid. 1.00

03:43:38.800 And so, like, I think the scenario you're giving us, I would rather live in a world where, like, that scenario probably happens 0.01% of the time. 1.00

03:43:49.280 Whereas the scenario nowadays where divorce is absolutely just rampant in our society, it's like 50% of marriages ended in divorce.

03:43:59.940 I would rather take the 0.01% risk than the 50% risk.

03:44:05.240 Yeah.

03:44:06.120 I think like that is a good point like you know because I was in a situation with my ex right we

03:44:10.500 were together for five years and then when I had to decide to leave because of like the infidelity

03:44:15.600 and you know the unwillingness to change that you know he was the provider like I worked a little 0.97

03:44:21.600 bit but like he took care of mostly everything but then when I left like I didn't have shit like I 0.74

03:44:27.100 ended up having to like stay in my car for like two months because in Cali like it takes a while

03:44:31.760 to get enough to like you know have a place but like i can understand like that point of like

03:44:37.280 that's something you can recover from like it did only take me like two months to like find my

03:44:42.380 bearings and get my crap together to like recover from that versus like yeah and does the situation

03:44:47.120 suck you can obviously for life yeah exactly and like it is a crappy situation to be like oh my 0.95

03:44:51.740 god now i like but don't know what to do the suck is only for a relatively a short period of time 0.98

03:44:58.000 so I do I do understand yeah and it's I mean there's certain arguments to alimony it's like 0.99

03:45:03.360 okay let's say the woman was on track to have a corporate career but I think like and so she 0.71

03:45:10.500 she didn't pursue uh she didn't elevate in her career because she chose to stop working and

03:45:18.100 stay at home and take care of the kids but it's like okay let's say I meet a girl and she was 0.90

03:45:23.920 working at chick-fil-a as a fucking i don't know like a minimum wage fast food worker when i say 1.00

03:45:29.240 chick-fil-a not in the corporate office not as some like big shot regional manager she like entry 0.97

03:45:37.400 level fast food worker and i meet her and i'm like okay six months after dating let's move in

03:45:43.860 together a year later let's have kids take care of everything i'm and and then we break up

03:45:50.380 and then 1.00

03:45:52.520 you know there's these women 1.00

03:45:54.600 who were fucking nobodies and they dated 1.00

03:45:56.620 some basketball player and it's 1.00

03:45:58.680 like they didn't take those shots

03:46:00.140 they didn't

03:46:01.700 they weren't MJ

03:46:03.560 they weren't LeBron 0.94

03:46:05.700 fucking Dr. Dre's 0.99

03:46:08.840 wife she wasn't making 1.00

03:46:10.380 fucking hits 1.00

03:46:11.820 after hits for decades 1.00

03:46:14.600 no like okay

03:46:16.400 maybe she deserves something 1.00

03:46:18.100 half half 0.99

03:46:20.060 That's fucking insane 0.99

03:46:23.280 And it's like 1.00

03:46:24.380 I don't know

03:46:25.880 I mean like

03:46:27.080 That's like the difference too of like people who

03:46:30.100 Wait wait let me just finish my thought on this

03:46:31.940 So it's like okay

03:46:33.620 She was working at Chick-fil-A

03:46:35.520 She can go 1.00

03:46:37.820 From my perspective 1.00

03:46:39.080 If she was working at Chick-fil-A 0.70

03:46:41.100 And now she's like say she's living with 1.00

03:46:43.020 She matches up with a millionaire 1.00

03:46:44.720 Her lifestyle jump 1.00

03:46:47.100 Is 0.69

03:46:47.940 Way better than it would have been

03:46:50.740 Had she just continued on her own 1.00

03:46:52.740 And dated another fucking Chick-fil-a 1.00

03:46:54.860 Worker 1.00

03:46:55.340 Her lifestyle has improved massively 0.61

03:46:58.560 I think that that's like

03:47:00.180 A huge

03:47:02.660 Benefit to her

03:47:04.080 Basically she stopped working

03:47:06.260 Everything was provided for her 0.91

03:47:08.560 Food, house, rent

03:47:10.740 Expenses, everything

03:47:12.580 Medical, everything taken care of by the man 0.99

03:47:14.800 and then you know what maybe he fucked up she fucked up they break up 0.99

03:47:20.640 she can go right back to where she was working she was at chick-fil-a back you go 1.00

03:47:25.820 you don't get half you don't get millions of dollars that's bullshit i have a question how 0.95

03:47:33.620 often does that scenario happen and how likely is it to happen what scenario the chick-fil-a girl 1.00

03:47:39.340 with a millionaire you so all these basketball players they're just wifing up millionaire women

03:47:45.380 no they're wifing up nobody's all these fucking well and that's what i'm gonna say it's the 0.79

03:47:52.000 intellect has to match because i don't think you would be tied to me i don't think you would go out 0.96

03:47:58.100 with a chick-fil-a server i think there would be it would be i think there would be a very big

03:48:05.120 intellect clash i think there'd be nothing to talk about well hold on there's a couple things there

03:48:09.340 so um i actually had a two-year relationship with a girl this was many years ago this was

03:48:15.020 gee 2018 i think 2017 2018 so quite a while ago um she worked at chick-fil-a

03:48:23.600 as far and she was great girl by the way many years ago though right how many years ago

03:48:30.340 It was 2018, about.

03:48:34.500 So you were a lot younger.

03:48:36.400 Was that six years ago?

03:48:37.560 Well, I was 27, 28, I guess.

03:48:40.140 Okay.

03:48:40.320 She was younger.

03:48:41.080 She was like 20 or something.

03:48:42.880 Okay, that kind of goes.

03:48:44.420 But, like, she was actually quite smart.

03:48:47.140 She was a good person.

03:48:49.060 She worked at Chick-fil-A. 0.50

03:48:51.520 She hooked it up.

03:48:53.400 I was a fan of the chicken.

03:48:56.760 The sauce.

03:48:57.440 But, like, intelligence, like, she's pretty, like, I'd say she's smart.

03:49:05.300 But just because you work at a fast food job doesn't mean you're not intelligent.

03:49:10.540 No, it doesn't mean that all the time.

03:49:13.320 No.

03:49:13.780 And she's also young, too.

03:49:16.280 Yes, that's why I mean, like, the scenario of someone that is successful and intelligent

03:49:23.660 is probably someone that hasn't been educated, maybe 18, 19, 20 years old, still in college,

03:49:31.400 doesn't have the intellect capacity to have a meaningful, a lot of meaningful conversations.

03:49:36.600 They don't have a life experience.

03:49:38.140 Well, IQ, yeah, but...

03:49:40.260 Life stages.

03:49:41.440 I mean, just because you work a fast food job doesn't mean you're not intelligent or don't have the capacity for... 1.00

03:49:51.320 I don't mean like you're dumb. 1.00

03:49:52.720 Like you don't, you don't know, you don't have the ability to learn. 1.00

03:49:56.060 Also, I like a simple woman, to be honest.

03:49:58.520 Let me, let me rephrase that. 1.00

03:50:02.120 Inexperience with life person.

03:50:04.400 They're just too young.

03:50:06.120 I can't imagine having a conversation with an 18 year old right now.

03:50:11.080 Besides how's the weather and how was high school?

03:50:14.240 Well, I mean, this would be like a value of values compatibility thing.

03:50:18.020 So like, for example, he's a Christian.

03:50:21.040 I would argue, and Mason's 30.

03:50:22.720 I would argue Mason has more in common with an 18-year-old Christian woman than he does with a 30-year-old atheist, liberal, woke, purple hair, septum pierced.

03:50:35.860 So this idea that you can't have compatibility and commonality and shared values with somebody younger than you, my argument would be someone much younger than Mason, an 18, 19, 20-year-old, but she's a Christian.

03:50:51.200 there's way more alignment there probably a virgin too not necessarily but well more than likely

03:50:58.080 higher than a very high chance yes well more more so the chance yes she's a virgin than the 30 year

03:51:06.220 old yes indeed but i'm not i'm not holding out for this 18 19 20 year olds being virgins but

03:51:13.280 but there's some there's some but uh yeah i mean ultimately uh this idea that i don't know also

03:51:20.600 men like they don't they don't know how to file their tax returns they're like barely calling

03:51:25.120 insurance companies to insure their car oh no a lot of a lot of them she's barely learning they're

03:51:32.040 barely learning they're like little birds just barely she's oh she's young and she's 20 and

03:51:37.920 fertile and beautiful and pleasant and doesn't have a fuck ton of baggage, although at 20,

03:51:43.680 a lot of them do. 0.93

03:51:44.640 But, oh, no, but she, I can't date her, though, because she doesn't know.

03:51:49.960 I can't talk about taxes with her. 0.65

03:51:51.160 She doesn't know how to file a tax return.

03:51:53.920 Oh, no. 0.99

03:51:55.580 Clutching ruins everything.

03:51:56.660 That's not what I'm talking about.

03:51:58.520 That's an example.

03:51:59.520 I'm not saying she needs to do that.

03:52:00.960 It's like when you're talking about certain things, like, hey, babe, I need your W-2.

03:52:05.420 Why?

03:52:06.400 I need to file our tax returns.

03:52:07.540 What do you mean?

03:52:08.040 What is that?

03:52:08.540 What is a tax return?

03:52:09.140 It's like, you know, like, just give it to me.

03:52:11.460 Wait, wait, wait. 0.89

03:52:12.380 In the calculus of do I want to have sex with this woman and or a relationship with this woman, never has it occurred to me. 1.00

03:52:24.200 Well, I would fuck her. 1.00

03:52:27.180 But she doesn't know about a W-2. 1.00

03:52:29.100 Okay, bad example, bad example.

03:52:31.460 She doesn't know about a W-2.

03:52:33.000 A bad example.

03:52:34.920 She's just saying they're not worldly wise.

03:52:37.060 You can't relate

03:52:39.440 Oh my god I went to Capri, Italy

03:52:41.640 And I had the best time

03:52:43.280 And she can't relate to that

03:52:44.700 Because she's never left the country

03:52:45.980 Wait, wait, I love that

03:52:47.480 Wait, no, good

03:52:48.600 Wait, wait, wait, let me get into that

03:52:51.000 That's good though 1.00

03:52:53.100 Because when a woman is traveled 1.00

03:52:54.820 Well traveled 1.00

03:52:56.200 Now again, kind of like with the tattoo thing

03:52:59.760 It doesn't necessarily mean it's the case

03:53:02.260 But in the male brain

03:53:03.720 When a woman's been to

03:53:04.960 she's been all over europe she's been all over asia she's been all over latin america she's been 1.00

03:53:10.700 all over fucking middle of dubai she's fucked that's what i think i think when a woman especially 1.00

03:53:17.740 solo travel she's just fucked a bunch that's what i think and also it's like if a woman hasn't 1.00

03:53:23.500 traveled i want to be her portal to those experiences exactly yes no but if if oh okay 0.96

03:53:31.020 i don't want her to have the previous baggage it's like i want for example i don't know this

03:53:36.160 this is going to sound and this wasn't like this was a woman uh she was 24 and like this is going

03:53:42.200 to sound kind of corny and silly she for some reason had never had like certain fruits before

03:53:50.180 like she hadn't had like peaches and nectarines and i don't think she had strawberries even

03:53:57.700 which is like super common fruit and like for some reason i it felt nice and i was like

03:54:05.040 let me i'm gonna buy you some and we'll have this experience together it sounds kind of corny but

03:54:14.040 it's like no that actually sounds incredible i was like woman this is what i'm going with the

03:54:18.360 capri and lemons i love lemons and i had that experience and i want i have a whole citrus

03:54:23.220 laying on my house and it's all the citruses and i love to bring that my i cook with them and i make

03:54:28.300 the most amazing homemade lemon curd on a brand new cheesecake and i like to give them to people

03:54:35.300 but we will see what i totally relate to what brian's trying to say because like having that

03:54:39.960 first experience like i mean purity virgin so that's kind of what i'm going into like the purity

03:54:48.900 like they have never had this experience eating this fruit with anybody every anywhere at any

03:54:54.460 time her having that experience with me is like that's going to be in her memory forever it's

03:55:00.840 so exactly it's like really powerful bonding and she has that with like a ton of things other than

03:55:06.940 fruit like travel uh eventually once i get married carnal knowledge like things like that

03:55:12.120 like that is a permanent bond that she will always have with me so and the thing is like i'm only

03:55:18.180 going to find that with someone who's a little younger i'm not going to find that with someone

03:55:22.680 around my age well the the other thing that the good point that mason brings up here is i don't

03:55:30.340 know it's like oh man i'm kind of losing my train of thought on this but that first experience like

03:55:37.300 i don't know well okay i actually recall i think there will be a degree of appreciation like

03:55:43.880 if a woman's been to like some snazzy restaurant 20 times if she's been in another dude's lambo

03:55:50.300 she's been in a guy's ferrari she's been in a mclaren there's there's like a she's she's been

03:55:58.020 there done that there's no novelty there but then like if you're the first one that can be the portal

03:56:04.640 to a new experience for a woman there's an appreciation that she'll have for you that

03:56:10.080 wouldn't exist otherwise and it's like whether that's a trip somewhere oh you've never like for

03:56:17.140 example a woman tells me she's never been to Hawaii or she's never been to Europe she's never

03:56:21.740 been out of the country that to me like me bringing her on a trip to Hawaii me bringing her on a trip

03:56:28.780 to Europe that's her first time experiencing that I feel like I'm providing more value to her

03:56:35.080 because like it's the first time whereas if i don't know like for example um if you've been

03:56:43.120 to hawaii a hundred times or you live in hawaii going to the beach for you isn't like necessarily

03:56:50.240 some big event but if you live in fucking uh ohio and you've never seen the beach ever and you're

03:56:59.340 going to the beach for the first time it's like you're there's a bonding moment it's like there's 0.79

03:57:04.400 going to be a level of appreciation there where it's like if she's had all these experiences

03:57:09.520 before whether it was through a man or just her own traveling or whatever there's a lack of i don't

03:57:17.080 know well it's like that bonding right like you were saying like for instance like i have not

03:57:22.040 taken certain trips because that's that's something i would want to experience with my partner like i

03:57:27.640 don't want to just go do that by myself like i would want that person to like experience this

03:57:32.280 show me things whatever but then in general like when you're talking about age I just feel like

03:57:36.800 age doesn't really matter as much because it's all it is about life experience and like I'm

03:57:43.740 someone where I experienced so many different responsibilities and like life altering things

03:57:49.500 so young that by the time I was 18 I was years ahead of people who are my same age because of

03:57:55.540 life experience so I feel like age doesn't matter but their background they're like their environments

03:58:01.680 their values whatever like that's where you can determine like okay are we at the same

03:58:06.740 i found out why you're looking for someone you all you don't have children i have children so

03:58:13.720 i'm looking at things from a different lens i need someone that's been there done that with

03:58:17.860 the whole marriage and kid situation well men and women i don't i wouldn't date someone that's

03:58:23.880 never been married or that doesn't have children. There's a certain, it makes you grow. It forces

03:58:31.960 you to grow as a person. Well, the thing is though, is there's an asymmetry between what

03:58:37.440 men find attractive and what women find attractive. So I don't even disagree with you that that's what 0.99

03:58:45.620 you or perhaps women who are in your position want, but men and women are not attracted to

03:58:53.500 the same things so i think there can sometimes be a projection i'm not sure if you're doing it but

03:58:58.420 women look at men who are hyper successful who have status who have a lot of money

03:59:04.640 you look at them and you think sometimes women think not all women think this women will think

03:59:10.900 oh this is what i find attractive men must also men must also find these traits attractive in 0.78

03:59:18.560 women no but no men don't give a fuck about your career your status your money we don't care about

03:59:24.500 it so in that same vein like you're women you're talking more about experience though like you 0.93

03:59:30.100 wouldn't date a guy who doesn't have a family who doesn't have that experience who doesn't know

03:59:34.380 but i would argue that a man who he has kids he has a family you know he's divorced or whatever

03:59:40.920 he would still defer to wanting a woman uh who who like it wouldn't be an issue for him to date

03:59:52.060 a woman who doesn't have children who doesn't like he would still look for those traits because

03:59:57.300 those are just like baseline level traits that men find attractive which if he wants more kids

04:00:02.780 yes because she's gonna want kids well i mean that's the doesn't yeah there's a it gets well

04:00:07.240 there's other complicated ones you both have children well that is true if his desire is to

04:00:12.080 continue having children then that it's actually it's actually to the contrary um it would be

04:00:17.320 better for him to find a younger woman who doesn't have kids i mean you could obviously if she's had

04:00:22.800 children with other men you could still have kids but um it would be to the man's benefit to like

04:00:29.440 go date a younger woman you know in 20 to 30s or something but even if he didn't want to have

04:00:36.340 children anymore uh well so wait so if he did want to have kids better to go younger but even

04:00:43.720 if he didn't want to have kids still better to go younger yeah still better to go younger that's 0.90

04:00:49.180 not going to be a compatibility because nine out of ten times she's going to want children 0.98

04:00:52.720 i mean there's a lot of him for not giving her any i mean there's a lot of young women who are

04:00:58.640 not at all ready to have children especially if they're more liberal uh so he could just go 0.99

04:01:03.920 fuck some liberal chick i guess yeah well and also like that's not with her values you know 1.00

04:01:08.700 well but if he doesn't want kids then if he doesn't want any more children let's say he's got 1.00

04:01:13.820 oh he already has children yes well then i i mean i would say that um

04:01:18.440 i like even a more conservative woman who well he doesn't want to have more kids but he wants to 0.95

04:01:29.160 find a life like a long-term partner correct okay but maybe down the line she wants to have kids so 0.99

04:01:35.200 it would not be it would be incompatible no heck no i don't she doesn't want to have kids right now 0.90

04:01:40.480 probably um maybe when she's 30 that biological clock is gonna start ticking and he's he met her

04:01:46.800 when he was 35 now okay i see what you're saying you know now he's 40 now it's a f no situation i

04:01:53.900 don't want to have kids at 40 well i suppose from like a pragmatic perspective if like he wants to

04:01:59.380 match up with a woman who is okay with not having kids that cohort of women and he still wants her

04:02:07.300 to be traditional that cohort of women is is gonna probably be older women who don't want or can't

04:02:16.520 have children but there is there are younger women who don't want to have children um but he's still

04:02:22.260 going to be more attracted uh to the younger women regardless yeah physically yes yes physically

04:02:31.240 uh compatibility wise it probably won't go long term that's what i mean by so i would say

04:02:36.640 compatibility wise still yeah because he still wants he still wants the person who doesn't have

04:02:41.580 the in-depth experience in other in those areas of life he still wants to find that person who

04:02:47.820 was not as experienced in the types of fruit and like places she's traveled in those life

04:02:52.960 experiences so he is still innately attracted to those women so we're not saying that like

04:02:59.180 it's going to be a success yeah what i'm what we're not i'm not saying that it's going to be

04:03:03.480 a successful relationship i'm saying that's what he's attracted to yeah yeah and women tend to be

04:03:10.440 more attracted to guys who have more experience more like stuff that they've done in their lives

04:03:15.860 who have like a plethora of experiences i've traveled all these places i know what all the

04:03:20.140 good stuff is uh they they are like peak in that area they're attracted to that generally speaking

04:03:26.620 yeah it wouldn't turn you off that it's like a child you know that you're still like i just

04:03:32.900 you feel that way because you're you feel like that because you're a mom yeah that's what i'm

04:03:37.440 saying i think that's where the that's what it is because when i look at him you know all the

04:03:40.800 girls were like oh Mason you're the age of my daughter so to me I look at you completely

04:03:47.340 different so when he's saying well you could date an 18 year old your mom brain is going

04:03:51.800 yeah but it's not it's a grown it's a as my son would say it's a grown-ass woman yeah you know

04:03:58.960 like it that's that's the disconnect you're having you're like why do you want to go be with

04:04:03.240 this little girl but she's not that's what she's crying that's where I think my mind block is at

04:04:07.840 is that I'm in such a different state of my life.

04:04:11.680 It's Mama Lamb.

04:04:12.480 One of my friends told me one time

04:04:13.860 I was griping about my brother.

04:04:15.160 He didn't want to go on vacation with us

04:04:16.820 because of my kids and what have you.

04:04:18.600 I'm griping my friend and she looked at me

04:04:21.060 and she goes,

04:04:21.840 well, you can't really complain about it.

04:04:24.060 I said, why not?

04:04:25.100 She said, well, you don't know what it's like

04:04:26.960 not to be a mom,

04:04:28.220 so you don't have that perspective.

04:04:30.520 And so I think, and I just looked at her

04:04:32.540 because I don't know what it's like.

04:04:34.300 I had my daughter when I was 18 years old.

04:04:35.800 I do not know what it's like to be on my own.

04:04:37.840 and not be a parent so we have a skewed mindset when y'all are like what if she's 20 years old

04:04:45.000 like to me i could be your mother like it's just you have a different view of it yeah uh we have

04:04:51.840 a chat here from red mason is the best example of what a real man should be in today's world

04:04:57.320 god-fearing and christian morals men need to stop being simps and supporting these only fans

04:05:03.740 was goodness gracious dang fair this is true i mean like i've come to the conclusion in my life

04:05:12.400 like i am okay die like i am okay to finish my life being single like i could go the rest of 1.00

04:05:19.060 my life being single come on hey it's not gonna happen i know hey she was a whore b she was a 0.99

04:05:25.240 indeed but no like if bro i got you between okay i would rather die as a single man having never 1.00

04:05:33.860 gotten laid before then wife up a lady who's absolutely contentious who makes me want to sit 0.94

04:05:40.720 in the corner of my roof who makes me want to run out into the desert and die there proverbs 21 19

04:05:46.480 exactly indeed dude proverbs 21 19 i would rather be single for the rest of my life because that is

04:05:53.080 that sounds so much better i don't think that i think this is becoming more of a man's view in

04:05:59.080 this day and time my son is 18 and i was like you don't have a girlfriend he's like i don't want to

04:06:05.160 invest time and money and everything in a girl that i don't want to marry that's been with all

04:06:10.540 my friends and he's in high school exactly and i think i don't think people realize this is going

04:06:17.320 to become extremely common where men like generally speaking in their nature don't really

04:06:23.340 need other people with them I mean humans in general are community like beings so like I can

04:06:29.840 go to church I have my boys at church like that's my community I don't need to have a wife I definitely 0.99

04:06:35.860 want one but I don't need it whereas women in general psychologically sociologically they need 0.96

04:06:43.460 that partner and when we find women who are single in their 50s and 60s they're crushed 0.98

04:06:50.380 and because they don't have the tools and the ability and the god-given ability in their nature

04:06:56.180 to be able to be single whereas we do and that's going to become very apparent in the decades to 0.87

04:07:02.920 come well i would agree with that because i think exactly that point is like women we have a need

04:07:09.400 for that companionship because that's what we were made for we were made to be a companion

04:07:13.940 to man you know we're like man was made man was made first and then we were made but women are

04:07:19.780 more women are morphing into something that is unrecognizable yeah well it's adaption right 0.50

04:07:26.720 no it's not adaption it's it's not adapt it's immorality at 100 i need to do the uh intro for 0.92

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04:09:09.380 they were all friends and they all knew each other it was like a group of nine girls came

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04:09:19.980 they all wore they were like OF girls some of whom we've had on the show before they all wore

04:09:28.880 like uh shirts with their OnlyFans link on them and I was like nah you guys got to change and

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04:09:53.140 out. You guys can change clothes. We're not going to do the show. And they're like, nah, we'll only

04:09:58.100 do the show if you let us on like this. So I was like, okay. So I had a full, my fucking team was

04:10:03.780 there. This was when Madison and Nick were working for me. Everything was set up. Everything was good 0.99

04:10:08.280 to go. And so we had no show. Basically I streamed for like an hour or two, just fucking telling

04:10:14.740 everyone what happened yo type in the chat if you guys were there for that episode just 0.77

04:10:19.580 one in the chat if you guys were there for that episode so that was pretty much the there's been

04:10:24.460 some other times where we've had some flakes and no shows but like normally we end up like filling

04:10:30.780 i don't recall a time where we ever like we should have another like at least three other girls here 0.98

04:10:37.240 i think so oh some of you were there for that fucking god bro it's crazy they drove from la 0.95

04:10:44.900 and we they refused to turn their shirts inside out and i was like honestly in retrospect i think 0.97

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04:15:19.960 next yep uh follow my cat april

04:15:26.700 and uh also follow my instagram page for blm big labia matter i'm the founder of the non-profit

04:15:36.900 and grassroots movement big labia matter or blm for short all labia can't matter until big labia

04:15:43.540 matter i'm the chief labia officer of this organization as someone who only dates women

04:15:48.200 with large labia this is important for me um it's an important cause you know there's a lot of

04:15:53.200 other things going on in the world right now uh we got the conflict with iran we've got venezuela 0.96

04:15:59.420 keep it up we've got you know uh ukraine we've got middle east all this shit uh immigration 0.98

04:16:08.240 we've got they're transing the kids that they're the we're not deporting enough people all this 0.99

04:16:14.700 shit right this is the number one thing uh big labia matter um it's the pressing issue of our 0.98

04:16:22.400 time because there's 10,000 of these surgeries every year in the USA alone. And these poor 0.99

04:16:28.720 women, they're chopping their lady parts off. It pisses me off. So, I don't know. I'm just saying. 1.00

04:16:36.440 No, definitely no ulterior motives from me on this whatsoever. Yeah. Let's see. We've got

04:16:45.440 clips channels, guys. I changed one of my clips channels to at Brian. I'm at Brian on YouTube

04:16:51.380 for one of the clips channels uh we have a discord discord.gg slash whatever

04:16:55.500 i guess you could pull up the discord uh we post our stream schedule behind the scenes hate mail

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04:17:06.260 gotten it's insane uh put it on behind the scenes scroll up up behind the scenes yeah just put i 0.96

04:17:15.560 post behind the scenes i posted you know if you want to see me ranting about all the bullshit 0.90

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04:17:31.460 blast it i post a bunch of shit on there check it out discord.gg slash whatever uh and that's it 0.91

04:17:38.200 okay so back to the show here mason can you read this for me actually you know what uh can you read 0.98

04:17:44.420 this molly most churches won't bless a union without legal certificate plus overtime common

04:17:53.180 law will apply government duty is to protect but benefits from divorce by separating homes to

04:18:00.260 increase consumption i'm guessing by separating homes to uh so common law marriage doesn't kick

04:18:12.340 in in every state so even if you you know do the things that would trigger common law marriage in

04:18:21.060 other states if you're not in a common law marriage state there is no common law marriage

04:18:25.460 regardless of your behavior or conduct uh let's see um but yeah i'm i take your word for it i

04:18:34.260 would assume probably yeah most churches are not going to be i don't know if it's most churches but

04:18:39.300 they won't bless the union without a legal certificate i see rachel hey shout out rachel

04:18:45.800 wilson in the chat shout out rachel wilson oh my god the chat is on fire rachel wilson 0.82

04:18:56.180 hey rachel wilson get let's get you back out here we need to get you back out here pronto tanto

04:19:02.120 april late april may let's make it happen rachel back by popular demand 0.60

04:19:08.980 Rachel Wilson in the

04:19:11.380 building

04:19:11.960 bring her back boys bring her back

04:19:15.420 you know what 0.98

04:19:17.380 and

04:19:18.920 let's see let's see if there's

04:19:21.260 anything else

04:19:22.060 self promote their only

04:19:27.280 fans

04:19:27.720 only one of the panelists has

04:19:30.860 has OF I'm not sure what your

04:19:32.720 he's talking about the

04:19:34.640 nine girls

04:19:36.500 the nine girls

04:19:38.320 oh okay okay okay yeah yeah yeah we're better than that yeah no um

04:19:47.240 yeah that was kind of it was unfortunate though because i mean obviously we put a lot of time

04:19:52.960 into the production planning my staff was there they're getting their day rate so uh anyways uh

04:20:02.620 where was i i totally forgot i don't know maybe we'll do some stuff from the questionnaire

04:20:06.400 um what is the minimum yearly income to some of you are dating people and married or whatever so

04:20:16.160 what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband um there's i don't really have

04:20:21.300 like a minimum or maximum it's just what like if he makes x amount just you have to make your

04:20:29.940 lifestyle fit into that and I would so if he made a million dollars or if he made like teacher

04:20:37.580 salary I don't know 20,000 for me it's pretty much like if I'm having to work you need to be

04:20:46.780 making more than me so like for me I bring in about like 100k so for me I would want to date

04:20:51.880 someone who's making the same and up I said 150 but my husband makes more than I said 150 but my

04:20:58.680 husband makes more than that okay so what about you i said 300 i'm in a very expensive area of la

04:21:05.540 and what part uh west valley okay um west is the guy you're currently dating does he make that much

04:21:15.920 i have never asked but i well what's he do for work uh it's a salary around that or more

04:21:24.480 Yeah, I mean, you don't have to ask, but I mean, if the guy's a doctor, he's probably not making $20,000 a year.

04:21:34.060 Okay, well, a little bit.

04:21:37.580 I mean, but you make good money, right?

04:21:42.440 It's hard. It's hard.

04:21:43.980 I mean, what do I do with someone that's making $75,000 in L.A.? That's rent.

04:21:50.180 Be a sugar mama. 0.99

04:21:51.840 Absolutely not. 1.00

04:21:52.620 Be a little sugar mama. 0.99

04:21:53.400 i'm sorry that doesn't that does nothing for me downstairs it's downstairs in the

04:21:57.640 the loins well it doesn't it doesn't make anything happen there carnal knowledge no

04:22:03.400 there will be zero carnal knowledge i wonder if i'm a gold digger just kidding i was gonna say it's

04:22:12.040 goodness like you know if she's a billionaire that does something in the loins 1.00

04:22:17.320 for me i would be able to overlook that but like i'll date a broke girl like i'll date a girl like 0.98

04:22:26.500 i said i date i did date a girl who worked at chick-fil-a i would date a girl who works at

04:22:30.000 chick-fil-a don't care about the woman's money whatsoever i've lied about my profession i've

04:22:35.320 lied about my profession because i feel like it intimidates a lot of people i don't let them pick

04:22:38.860 me up at my house because if they come to my house i wouldn't be like i don't understand that

04:22:45.520 though I don't know if men are intimidated by women who make more money I just maybe they think

04:22:50.480 it can be suboptimal in certain ways or like the character needed to be successful in business

04:22:55.820 or making a lot of money typically those traits don't tend to be feminine traits but like for me 1.00

04:23:03.020 it would never be about like it I would have no qualms dating a woman who makes more money than 1.00

04:23:08.580 me but there would be some questions as to like okay well to make more money than me like would 1.00

04:23:15.940 this be an alignment of what I'm looking for in a woman but I would never be intimidated 0.92

04:23:21.260 I would just some guys are a lot of men are yeah maybe they are in their head they start

04:23:27.600 stacking chips you know what I mean I mean if I was like a making average amount of money and like

04:23:34.140 a really wealthy woman wanted to date me like assuming she doesn't have all the defects that

04:23:40.760 may come with hyper success um that seems like it'd be kind of a good thing i mean i feel like

04:23:48.760 it kind of would depend on like how it translates to home life if you're talking about like that's

04:23:53.240 true yeah that is another consideration too like my oldest sister she owns her own company like 1.00

04:23:58.300 she's very dominant in her work world like she's the boss but then when she's home even though like 1.00

04:24:03.160 she makes more than her husband like she's submissive at home like you know what I mean 0.78

04:24:07.540 so she falls into that role at home she doesn't let that carry over but I know like there's some 0.98

04:24:11.700 women who they don't know how to step out of that so like when they come home they feel like 1.00

04:24:15.680 they're still the boss and like you can't obviously do that when you're in a marriage 1.00

04:24:19.540 like you have to yeah I mean the what even if the woman makes more money you can still be the man in 0.63

04:24:25.660 the relationship you can still lead right but it can complicate it it can muddy the waters a bit

04:24:30.700 um it kind of depends I think more so where the woman's at because it's like I don't know if I

04:24:36.040 was dating a woman who had a private jet like it's her private jet but it's my private jet

04:24:44.380 like she has to understand that like she has to understand that you know she's got to you know 0.54

04:24:50.340 what's hers is hers and what's hers is yours sort of I guess but it's like look it's your jet

04:24:58.280 but like i got you like we're in the jet i got you know i got you know um oh my god i'm so cringy

04:25:05.160 i would i would have a very hard time moving a man into my house because i feel like that would

04:25:11.320 emasculate him i think i'd want i would rather uh

04:25:18.400 well to what degree smaller house together well i mean like for example let's say like

04:25:25.360 and also i'm not really i don't really believe in like big purchases or whatever like flashy stuff

04:25:31.260 so like i don't really care about having like a fancy car or whatever but like let's say i was

04:25:37.620 dating a girl um i don't know who made more than me and she had a ferrari she's not driving the

04:25:44.760 ferrari like if we're going somewhere i'm driving her ferrari i'm driving yeah yes she's a passenger

04:25:52.860 princes a hundred percent of the time yeah no so oh anytime i see anytime i see a couple driving

04:25:58.780 a car and the woman's driving i lose so much respect for the man yeah like even if she like

04:26:05.160 let's say she makes more money than me and she has a nicer car than me and we're driving somewhere 0.99

04:26:11.080 and it's your ferrari exactly well it doesn't i'm driving the car we always take my car but

04:26:16.880 I'm always driving the car.

04:26:19.060 Okay, so how tall are you, and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

04:26:26.860 I'm 5'2", and I guess maybe 5'5", just taller than me.

04:26:32.700 Okay.

04:26:33.840 I'm 5'7", so I would probably do like 5'10".

04:26:37.260 Okay.

04:26:38.080 5'8", and I would say 5'10".

04:26:40.400 5'8", 5'11", minimum.

04:26:43.320 Tiffany, can you close the back door?

04:26:45.820 Just the back door?

04:26:46.880 for now um would you rather cross paths with a random man or random bear on a hike a man

04:26:54.140 bear man man why do you pick bear because i feel like men are more unpredictable than bears like

04:27:02.020 i know the protocol of what to do if i see a bear men it's i don't know you just never know

04:27:09.700 don't you like that don't you walk past men you're talking about in the wilderness

04:27:15.220 if i'm just out in the wilderness i'm like no on a hike so this would assume it's like a hiking trail

04:27:20.640 yeah oh okay well so it wouldn't be like like wilderness like if i see no but if you're on a

04:27:25.900 hiking trail it's not implausible that you're gonna pass people right so it's not just like

04:27:31.120 you're out in the sticks in the fucking middle of the woods that's where my mind went though yeah

04:27:35.660 okay yeah no but a hike i mean i you could technically be hiking middle of nowhere but 0.98

04:27:41.140 You could also be on a hiking trail, but it could be a situation where you haven't passed someone.

04:27:46.340 Like, there's not a bunch of people around, so you are in that moment.

04:27:50.860 It is a place where you could come across somebody, reasonably expect to pass somebody, but there's nobody else around.

04:27:59.780 I mean, I also do still feel like I would be more likely to be killed by a man than, like, a bear.

04:28:05.660 Like, look at all those hatchet-wielding serial killers.

04:28:07.280 Wait, aren't you on massage?

04:28:08.540 Really?

04:28:08.960 I would be a little scared.

04:28:10.500 like you're a massage therapist right yeah aren't some of your clients men yeah do you do out call

04:28:17.460 i do do you do in call i do do you do you have a massage studio or a massage space but is it um

04:28:26.820 but there's like protocols i have in place like to protect my safety like if i'm at the resort we

04:28:31.520 have like buttons in the tables where it's like if i'm uncomfortable i can hit that management

04:28:36.280 don't come in if I do mobile massage like I have I send my location to like my family members before

04:28:43.060 I go there so then if you know I'm not done or they don't respond I don't respond after they

04:28:47.700 know where to have you had a inappropriate yeah it's my first massage oh really really yeah how

04:28:54.620 long have you been doing massage um it's about four and a half years and like so you only had

04:29:00.820 one though and it was your first wow bad luck i guess um i felt like it was like the the universe

04:29:06.200 where like god tested me like do you really want to do this so like i'm going to give you the

04:29:09.380 ultimate test can you handle a weirdo um but i mean you've done all these massages i you massage

04:29:16.660 women you massage men and aside from the one you haven't had it sounds like bad encounters really

04:29:22.980 Okay, I'm not going to dig in on the bear thing.

04:29:27.640 We do have, on a scale of 0 to 10, rate your own looks.

04:29:32.760 Face, body, total.

04:29:34.420 Can't pick 7.

04:29:36.220 5.

04:29:37.120 Okay.

04:29:38.340 8.

04:29:39.220 8?

04:29:39.740 Okay.

04:29:40.220 6.

04:29:41.700 Remember the name.

04:29:42.260 6.

04:29:43.900 I put 2, general population 6, age group 8.

04:29:46.880 Wait, hold on.

04:29:49.000 General population 6, age group 8.

04:29:51.480 Yes.

04:29:51.740 okay i see mason what about you uh eight i give myself a 4.5 uh yeah i gotta lose some 0.87

04:30:01.620 weight boys i've been trying man i don't know what the fuck uh you need to go with mason to 0.80

04:30:06.420 the gym gym bros no it's the diet it's just it's the diet it's 85 food 100 it's a diet it's 0.96

04:30:14.640 fucking hard um i'm working on that you know i was thinking about this though i was watching

04:30:19.260 this video i don't know if any of you guys watch uh asmongold asmongold was streaming earlier 0.97

04:30:25.020 today and he's reacting to a clip there was a fat acceptance um what was it called it was like a fat

04:30:33.100 acceptance uh convention so fat people go to this event this convention and it's like fat acceptance

04:30:43.180 and like fat reclamation i'm trying to remember what it was but like and i don't know like some

04:30:50.780 people say brian who are you to like say these things because you're kind of you're you're

04:30:54.820 overweight you're chubby but it's like i know it and i don't cope about it it's like for example

04:31:00.120 i can sit sit here and i think a lot of women don't have this degree of self-awareness like

04:31:08.460 so I can sit here and say, I believe I'm overweight. I know I'm overweight. I know 1.00

04:31:13.500 I'm chubby. I know I need to lose weight. I know it's unhealthy. I know that, um,

04:31:20.400 women would find me more attractive if I weighed less, if I had a more fit body. Um, and, but,

04:31:28.620 But it seems like women will, like, you can't criticize women.

04:31:40.380 Does that make sense?

04:31:41.580 The body positivity movement. 0.98

04:31:43.540 Like, women will, like, I think there's a difference between me saying, I know I'm overweight. 0.78

04:31:49.760 I need to lose weight. 1.00

04:31:51.600 It's unhealthy.

04:31:53.040 It's bad.

04:31:54.100 I look less attractive. 1.00

04:31:56.580 I look like a piece of shit. 1.00

04:31:58.620 um i mean that's what i was thinking when you walked up today yeah it's crazy obviously 1.00

04:32:05.200 and uh and i know that it has a negative impact on my dating prospects and i know that uh women

04:32:12.320 are going to assess me as less attractive but like i feel like you would i don't know if you

04:32:17.380 have to be like a dentist pulling teeth to get a woman to say that like i think overweight women

04:32:23.180 i'm not saying all of them but i think overweight women would never say what i just said 0.98

04:32:28.460 No they would not 1.00

04:32:30.180 Like it would be massive

04:32:31.220 I'm beautiful the way I am

04:32:34.880 You know

04:32:35.520 Maybe I'm special

04:32:38.500 Chat what do you guys think

04:32:41.000 What do you think chat 0.60

04:32:41.920 Do men cope about it

04:32:43.860 Like I feel like most men

04:32:45.160 If they're fat they're like yeah I'm fat

04:32:48.300 I don't know

04:32:49.720 You know what I mean

04:32:50.560 They just know

04:32:52.300 They're like yeah I'm fat 1.00

04:32:54.880 Women

04:32:56.620 like I don't know right chat I don't know I mean like I used to be 300 pounds and like it wasn't

04:33:04.140 until after I lost weight where I was like okay like I understand like with my ex because I was

04:33:08.880 bigger when I was with him like obviously I'm not excusing him cheating but at the same time like

04:33:14.840 you know I if I want someone to honor me I have to be in my best self as well and if I'm not in

04:33:21.460 my best self and I'm not matching my partner in that way like it's kind of is a matter of time

04:33:26.040 before something strays because you're not like equally yoked in that way you know for sure

04:33:32.300 i think maybe for women is um if they've had children they feel justified by it like this

04:33:42.800 is my new mom bod like love me the way i am i gave birth to children yes you did give birth 1.00

04:33:50.640 but you can do a lot to still take care of yourself yeah but women can be overweight absent

04:33:58.460 having children and most like when i was looking at the clips from this fat acceptance convention 1.00

04:34:03.680 my impression was not these are moms these are women who've had children these were just obese 1.00

04:34:10.340 women and there's just massive amounts of cope um did they have blue hair and purple hair 1.00

04:34:16.780 They looked woke and liberal, I guess, but, um, uh, piercings on this. 1.00

04:34:22.600 I mean, well, look, I think, I mean, look, I think, yeah, obviously when you're a woman,

04:34:27.940 you have pregnant or when you're a woman and you're pregnant, uh, you're, you know,

04:34:32.540 you're going to put on some weight.

04:34:34.220 Uh, there's going, and then just like the expansion of your belly, that's going to,

04:34:38.560 you know, maybe you get some, um, what's it called?

04:34:42.340 Uh, scarring or whatever.

04:34:45.200 Stretch marks.

04:34:45.660 you get stretch marks um you know so the skin's gonna could could be looser so but it's yeah i

04:34:54.120 mean really all this is it's just it's easy to grab justifications for why you want to be lazy

04:34:59.460 like in i mean i mean i have this card i can play for the rest of my life in my motorcycle crash

04:35:05.420 i was supposed to be physically disabled for the rest of my life like i was in a wheelchair for

04:35:10.200 two months and during those two months i was in a wheelchair i did not stop going to the gym i would

04:35:17.080 still go to the gym and i wheel myself into the 24-hour fitness and uh people are looking at me

04:35:22.560 all weird like i've never seen somebody in a wheelchair wheel themselves into a gym and i

04:35:26.760 would jump onto the bench press and still outbench most of the guys there so that was nice but it's

04:35:32.000 like i didn't like there's a difference between a person who makes excuses and gives those

04:35:36.920 justifications for why they want to be lazy and someone who will claw tooth and nail to get out

04:35:42.580 of the circumstance that they're in right then and the beginning stages of that is to be able to

04:35:47.980 acknowledge hey i'm a fat obese like whale and i need to lose all this weight that's when i can

04:35:57.220 start working with somebody i agree yeah yeah by the way pasty george i appreciate the michael

04:36:03.540 jackson reference there or no wait no sorry weird owl it was a weird owl cover of a michael jackson

04:36:10.720 very nice song the fat no yes yes yes instead of i'm bad yes i love that um and uh w's in the

04:36:17.940 chat for pasty george where you been man good to see you good to see you pasty pasty jorge

04:36:23.140 is what we're calling you our good canadian friend there uh okay finishing i guess more

04:36:28.500 on the questionnaire damn i don't know if there's going to be much uh oh okay well uh we do have 0.95

04:36:34.340 here we'll do this wrong for high body count men to prefer to date low body count virgin women uh 0.92

04:36:41.820 jade you agree and then uh angelica you agree so why do you think that is i guess if you guys want

04:36:49.500 to why is it wrong for a high body count man to want a virgin woman

04:36:54.100 okay i'll go first um for me it's just more kind of like okay if you're out here just giving your

04:37:04.320 seed to everybody yeah i'm not talking about just like oh like five six people whatever like you're 0.74

04:37:09.900 just out here hoeing and then you are holding this woman to a standard of like pretty much like 0.86

04:37:15.880 loyalty and commitment that you can't even uphold yourself like you have to be the standard that you 0.98

04:37:21.580 also want so it's like you know if you're gonna have a 50 body count that's crazy for you to say

04:37:27.080 like you okay deal breaker and what do you what do you think same thing it's like you guys have

04:37:32.760 had different values and different you're more likely it doesn't cause it's not causation causation

04:37:39.100 but it's probably correlated to a different kind of uh lifestyle that was had before

04:37:45.680 yeah but so okay let i guess let me frame it like this so let's say through a man's

04:37:52.400 experience he's dated a variety of women he's dated some women with low body counts someone

04:37:59.720 with women with high body counts we all want the best that we can get he's made a determination

04:38:04.540 that it happens to be the he believes uh whether from his own experience or just what makes logical

04:38:10.880 sense, that women who've had sex with less men, he believes that they make for better partners.

04:38:18.560 He believes that there's less of an STD risk. He believes that this woman has a better ability to

04:38:23.480 pair bond with him. And it's just his preference. Seems like it'd be perfectly, despite his own,

04:38:32.640 let's say it was, I mean, past promiscuity. He's just made a determination. Yeah, the best

04:38:40.560 wife for me would be a virgin but he fucked 50 women before but it makes sense like the same 0.99

04:38:48.400 kind of thing like how do i know like he's a partner i can trust if yeah he's just willy-nilly 0.99

04:38:54.220 just giving it to everybody you know well so let me make a clarification here a woman who's a virgin

04:38:59.160 i'm not saying i'm not saying a woman who's a virgin has to or should date a guy who has she

04:39:06.200 can make her own determinations and have her own preferences on that and if if a woman uh doesn't

04:39:12.900 want to date a guy who has a promiscuous past i don't have a double standard i think that's totally

04:39:17.500 fine um i do think women tend to care less about a man's past if he was promiscuous or he was a

04:39:26.680 playboy um there's a couple reasons for that but i don't there's not a double standard of course

04:39:32.640 If the woman doesn't want to date the guy, I'm not saying like, okay, the woman who's

04:39:37.260 a virgin has to date the guy who has a past.

04:39:39.820 Of course not.

04:39:40.300 She can be discerning and she could reject him, but I don't see an actual issue with

04:39:45.140 a guy who has a past wanting to date the woman who doesn't have one.

04:39:51.660 Yeah.

04:39:52.140 I mean, obviously we can all just want what we want.

04:39:54.980 We all have those preferences and that's absolutely fine.

04:39:57.800 it's just more like if you're kind of like i don't want to say like looking down i mean i guess

04:40:05.780 looking down on someone who does have a higher body count but you're doing the same thing so

04:40:09.880 it just feels a little hypocritical in a way where it's like for instance like he has a no body count

04:40:14.540 right like and you just said like he should probably have someone that's like lower as well

04:40:18.940 like you're not going to probably put on some girl who has 30 bodies and be like come get mason like

04:40:24.580 you're deserving of him because like that's yeah that sure but so in a situation let's say there's

04:40:31.500 a guy who he slept with 40 women and he was like you know what i've dated some women who have had

04:40:38.880 quite an extensive history i've also dated some women with limited or no experience um

04:40:44.940 and he's like i prefer that do you think it's wrong of him i'm by the way i'm not saying the

04:40:53.660 women with low or no experience have to date him. I'm just saying, is it wrong for him to say,

04:41:01.740 do something like this? Well, I'm going to almost exclusively look out for women with low body 1.00

04:41:10.100 count or no body count. Well, no, I think everyone's open to their preference. So I think 1.00

04:41:15.500 it is a little bit hypocritical because you contributed to those women's body counts and

04:41:20.340 now you're looking for something that you haven't touched so you're you're you're contributing to

04:41:24.620 the problem that you don't prefer why are you doing that well i mean even if it is the case

04:41:33.080 that the man contributed uh i i don't see why this should prevent him uh from having a preference on

04:41:41.880 this particular issue are we talking like also like preference or like deal breaker too because

04:41:46.500 i do like you know i mean like i understand like a preference thing because we all have preferences

04:41:50.440 well i mean that we preference i understand that a man who he himself has had a promiscuous past

04:41:57.240 or he slept with many women and he uh he is open to dating a virgin or open to dating a low body

04:42:05.180 count woman but he might also be open to dating a woman who slept with 10 20 30 men uh so i suppose

04:42:12.920 it could not be a deal breaker for him but i guess i'm talking specifically about a guy who

04:42:20.280 has a high body count who's only going after women with low body like that's just one of his

04:42:25.360 that's one of sure it's a deal breaker yeah well that's where i just feel like it's just

04:42:29.640 hypocritical he's not wrong for his own preference i don't think it's hypocritical but i do think it

04:42:32.940 is well is it hypocritical for broke women to find billionaire men attractive i mean it's not

04:42:39.740 um wrong from the front of them attractive but like if you're like you said someone who's broke

04:42:44.140 and you're only like i'm only dated billionaire like i don't think that's right either because

04:42:48.280 like you should be trying to elevate and or at least meet your person like you know like you

04:42:54.820 should be at your best self so well if we're talking about should so then you're saying that 0.87

04:42:59.940 a woman should only date a guy that she makes just like she has to make just as much money as him

04:43:06.700 Not just as much, but it's more like I don't feel like it's right for you to be broke and be like, okay, well, now I'm about to go get with this billionaire and, like, you know, pretty much come up off of him and add nothing to that. 0.99

04:43:17.820 Okay, well, do you find professional athletes attractive?

04:43:22.980 I mean, yeah.

04:43:23.800 Are you a professional athlete?

04:43:25.320 I'm not a professional athlete.

04:43:25.800 Have you ever been a professional athlete?

04:43:27.280 But I probably wouldn't date a professional athlete.

04:43:28.180 Did you play, were you, like, JV in high school?

04:43:31.020 I played varsity in college basketball.

04:43:33.740 Oh, varsity in college?

04:43:35.060 varsity in high school and then college basketball women's basketball though um but uh yeah ultimately

04:43:43.020 though this idea that i guess i would frame it like this i don't believe that in order to desire

04:43:51.140 a trait in a partner i don't believe you need to possess said trait so in this case uh

04:44:00.180 the man who who he slept with a bunch of women the trait that he wants in a woman is either

04:44:08.920 it's chastity it's purity it's uh low promiscuity no promiscuity virgin low body count he doesn't 0.89

04:44:16.500 possess that trait but he wants it i don't think it makes him a hypocrite in the same way that

04:44:20.960 women desire all kinds of traits in men that they themselves don't possess a woman like i don't

04:44:27.800 think it's hypocritical for example for a woman to be attracted to and want to date a guy who's

04:44:32.400 confident if she doesn't have confidence i don't think it's hypocritical for a woman who

04:44:36.900 isn't funny at all to find attractive and want to date a guy who's funny it's all women a woman

04:44:44.280 yeah which is pretty much all women um i'm letting the motorcycles go by i don't think

04:44:51.300 it's wrong for a woman who um is dull to find men who are very charismatic attractive like i don't

04:45:04.080 think like confidence charisma humor these are all things that i think women are very much attracted 0.75

04:45:12.140 to it's never stopped an unfunny dull lacking in confidence woman from dating those men or 0.99

04:45:21.280 finding those men attractive like no woman is like hmm I'm not very funny I shouldn't date this 1.00

04:45:27.380 funny guy because it would be unfair to him I mean I think it's always like hard to generalize in

04:45:34.380 general like um like oh it's wrong for them to want that when you're talking about a general

04:45:38.320 sense it's because it's controversial I think it's also like if that man who is desiring this

04:45:45.500 like virgin is almost who has the high body count is almost saying like if they're talking down to 0.98

04:45:50.360 women who have a higher body count like you're dirty you're a whore it's not it's like well so 0.98

04:45:54.160 are you not being funny that's why i say it's hypocritical not being charismatic isn't taboo 1.00

04:45:59.660 if they're openly like putting down women who have higher body counts like you're gross you're 1.00

04:46:03.940 disgusting you're a whore it's like okay but you yeah but you're you're smuggling you're smuggling 0.99

04:46:07.560 in something that wasn't even suggested so there doesn't have to be a component of degradation to 1.00

04:46:12.460 have the preference the man could just be like uh look i think that women who have little or no

04:46:19.640 sexual history, uh, make for better partners. They're more attractive. They're less likely to 1.00

04:46:24.520 have an STD, all the positive characteristics that are associated with it. Um, I don't think

04:46:31.700 it necessarily has to be, I mean, you could have a private judgment, like you could be like, okay, 0.96

04:46:38.540 you could be a guy who's fucked a hundred women and women can think that that's gross that you 0.99

04:46:43.020 did that. And you could think that I, as the man in that situation, I would think it's gross that 1.00

04:46:48.820 the woman fucked 100 men i don't see the problem with it though even if they're the judgment exists 0.99

04:46:56.400 the preference is still valid so like i'm not okay it is a man who's fucked 100 women 0.99

04:47:04.620 is he beholden to he can only date women who've fucked a lot of men too no no right but let's say 0.99

04:47:14.120 you find your dream girl yeah your dream girl exists out there somewhere you're her dream guy 0.97

04:47:20.260 it's fireworks and magic and you're about to have this beautiful one of seven children 0.99

04:47:26.360 yeah um and you later find out that she was a hoe yeah well how do you feel now 0.99

04:47:34.600 because you vetted her you're about i would have so she well part of my girlfriend application i 0.94

04:47:40.240 ask the body count so i would have known from the get-go but she could lie to you well then now i 0.99

04:47:45.740 have two issues with her she lied she deceived me she lied she induced me into a relationship 1.00

04:47:53.280 without my consent uh kind of a little assessment you know a little weird that um most women lie 1.00

04:48:00.940 and well men should not lie about a lot of things too but nobody should lie um but she also has the

04:48:07.760 high body count uh i don't know bro it's probably the end of the relationship honestly i have never

04:48:17.440 answered that uh twofold there no good can come of it if it is high i'm automatically judged and

04:48:26.380 if it is low i'm a price to be won and i don't want either of those wait but hold on don't you

04:48:31.720 wait when you're dating you want to put your best foot forward if i'm 18 19 20 years old yes

04:48:39.260 no even if you're hold on not no when you're dating regardless of age you want to put your

04:48:44.580 best foot forward if there is something about you a characteristic or trait or what have you

04:48:50.300 that is appealing to men or is something desirous to men i i don't see how it be to to your detriment

04:49:00.280 i'm being objectified because now i'm a prize to be one it's a thing well hold on a prize to be

04:49:07.780 okay so you tell a man but i don't understand so you're objectifying me how would it be objectifying

04:49:13.520 if i tell you oh my body count is two how would it yeah i'm a prize that would not be objectification

04:49:19.340 that would be you possess a positive trait that like okay what if um well it's private and

04:49:25.900 Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. What if a guy wants a woman who likes to read books and you disclose to him that you read books and he's like more attracted to you because you read books?

04:49:40.580 Are you a prize to be won? Is he objectifying you?

04:49:43.880 No, that's not. That's not objectifying me because that is not a taboo subject.

04:49:50.540 That is not that is not that is not a subject of purity, a badge of honor.

04:49:55.900 Well, I don't see why the taboo...

04:49:58.180 Men wear that like a badge of honor.

04:50:00.020 That's why they ask.

04:50:01.480 Purity.

04:50:02.400 They wear it like a badge of honor.

04:50:04.140 A badge of honor?

04:50:04.660 Yes.

04:50:04.840 How so?

04:50:05.880 You know, you have this like...

04:50:08.240 Just to be able to say they cracked a virgin.

04:50:09.300 Like, I got a girl that's, you know, she's 30 and she's only had two bodies.

04:50:14.900 Like, I got a good one.

04:50:15.940 Like, that's a badge of honor for you.

04:50:18.760 When do you go, oh yeah, my girl likes to read books.

04:50:21.500 Yeah.

04:50:22.140 You don't do that.

04:50:23.340 Well, I mean, I was giving sort of a unique.

04:50:26.860 But it's a badge of honor.

04:50:28.060 That's why it's being objectified, in my opinion.

04:50:30.820 I think there's plenty of scenarios, maybe not the book thing, but I also think I would actually like it, to be honest, if a girl read books.

04:50:42.080 One of the girls, the Samantha girl who was supposed to be on the show, she actually apparently, at like the age of, I think she's in her 23, 22.

04:50:51.200 she had only read her first book in 2024 whereas like but like at 18 or no she must have been 20

04:51:00.360 and i'm like that's kind of sad like you're supposed to read books in school like what

04:51:05.700 the fuck but um so i actually would find the book thing kind of appealing but um 0.94

04:51:11.320 uh so sorry restate your thing uh it's taboo because it's private information you're not 0.99

04:51:19.920 going to go around parading to people that your girl only has two bodies i wouldn't even but if

04:51:27.400 you're so proud you know hey we get along really well we've both read uh the tempest by shakespeare

04:51:34.220 together again you know that's something that you can share with other people well hold on but the

04:51:39.340 it's not an ego thing internal ego absolutely well it depends what we mean by ego but uh first

04:51:48.040 First off, I'm not sharing details about my girlfriend with my friends like that.

04:51:54.340 Right, because it's private information.

04:51:56.920 Right, so it wouldn't be a badge of honor.

04:51:59.000 It's a private badge of honor?

04:52:00.900 It's your ego.

04:52:01.860 It's stroking your own ego that you have somebody that's...

04:52:05.220 So wait, it's wrong to desire things that you find positive in a partner?

04:52:10.800 That's not wrong to desire that.

04:52:12.660 The reasoning of why you ask that is to stroke your ego.

04:52:18.040 what wait i don't understand so like you have a prize to be won someone that's untouched

04:52:25.780 well if her body counts too she's i mean except for he he has all the right to do that because

04:52:31.580 he is untouched someone that has somebody hundred people it's they don't have ain't that what is it

04:52:38.160 ain't that the pot calling the kettle black no no no no so again you don't need to possess the

04:52:44.720 trait to desire or want the trait. Well, that's a taboo trait. It's a controversial trait.

04:52:50.940 I don't see, hold on. I don't see how it's taboo. Because it's, it's taboo because there's

04:52:58.600 judgment. You immediately have judgment. Are you going to judge someone because they like books?

04:53:02.640 Are you going to judge someone because they like to swim? Are you going to judge someone because

04:53:07.180 they like to uh dance are you gonna judge someone for another trade so i i agree with this point

04:53:15.180 here um the reason we make that judgment is because there are there are a ton of negative

04:53:22.360 outcomes that come from a woman who has slept with a lot of guys that's not a trade it's a lifestyle

04:53:27.920 yeah i mean yeah yeah exactly causation but i don't know i would argue it could be causation

04:53:33.460 just be the correlation does not negate causation so i would say i mean probably causal factor to 0.56

04:53:40.840 them being a a bad wife is that she has slept with a ton of guys now i'm not saying that every 1.00

04:53:49.740 single woman who has slept with a ton of guys is a bad wife because i there is a woman out there i 1.00

04:53:54.660 know she's incredible wife and she slept with way too many men but it's because she has beaten 1.00

04:54:00.680 herself up for having done that and she's worked extremely hard to get out from that situation

04:54:05.600 so i'm not saying that it can occur but the sleeping with a ton of guys has caused it is a

04:54:12.000 cause for very terrible traits and to eliminate those hey i'm just going to find a lady who

04:54:18.100 hasn't even though i have right so when you're vetting your person all of those negative traits

04:54:24.720 will come out without having to ask that but i could just make it easier by asking the hard

04:54:31.100 question immediately or very soon you yes i think you you can you you have earned your right and

04:54:38.960 well no even say like i had slept with 50 people i want to rip i want to know all these stuff i

04:54:45.920 want to know all this stuff quickly because i don't want to invest my time get that emotional

04:54:51.080 attachment to this person just to find this later on down the road and the heart and the decision

04:54:56.440 to end things is going to be infinitely harder whereas i could have just asked this question

04:55:00.520 early on figured it out and been like this just isn't for me i'm sorry and i also feel like at

04:55:07.440 the end of the day if you guys have that big of a disagreeance on body count like friends like you

04:55:12.300 feel like it's that important and i don't and like that's your deal breaker okay well then you're

04:55:17.100 That's probably not meant to, you know.

04:55:18.860 Exactly, which is why you probably should ask that question, figure that out pretty quickly.

04:55:22.880 But even if I did have 50 bodies, it's probably good.

04:55:27.980 Like, I mean, I can make the determination, okay, a woman who has as few bodies as possible, hopefully a virgin.

04:55:34.500 Like, I know that they're not going to have that baggage that I know comes with having a bunch of bodies. 0.57

04:55:40.240 So that is my preference.

04:55:41.760 That is what I'm going to choose. 1.00

04:55:42.920 and I'm going to probably sort through all of the women. 1.00

04:55:47.780 I'm going to sort through the women that have all those bodies. 1.00

04:55:50.920 I'm going to sort them out. 1.00

04:55:51.880 I'm going to pick out the ones that do have very low body counts. 1.00

04:55:55.700 Look, I think there's nothing wrong if a guy has fucked a bunch of chicks 0.99

04:56:00.160 and he's like, you know what, I've seen what's out there. 1.00

04:56:04.740 And it happens to be the case that the women with a low body count, 0.98

04:56:07.520 I find them more attractive, less likely to have an STD, 1.00

04:56:10.840 more desirable, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, nothing wrong. If he wants, he could have slept

04:56:17.160 with 50 women, a hundred women. Now I'm not saying he's going to get her. Maybe she doesn't want to

04:56:21.980 date him. I'm not saying the woman should date him. I'm just saying it's fine. If he, in his

04:56:26.940 determination has said this type of woman is more attractive. Therefore I want to date her. There's 0.97

04:56:33.060 nothing wrong with that i married him the the the strumpets your husband is a playboy he was a wild 0.87

04:56:42.980 he was a horn dog he was a horn oh boy i didn't know it till i married man though you turned him

04:56:49.200 good where where's he from tennessee he's from halena arkansas oh you got them arkansas boy i

04:56:55.140 tell you what that men from arkansas they're known for getting some their saw we have been

04:57:01.960 married a couple weeks and i asked him and he goes what's yours and i told him and i said what's

04:57:08.320 yours he goes no and i was like what do you mean no he goes i'm not telling you and then he finally

04:57:12.980 did decide to tell me but he couldn't remember so he carried around a little pad for a few days

04:57:18.560 putting tally marks on it and when we got to like i don't even remember but it was just this 0.99

04:57:23.120 ridiculous was it three figures like a hundred plus it was a lot of hoes that he'd been here 0.98

04:57:28.600 and i looked at him and i said stop stop i can't she can't do it we're gonna let it go i've already 1.00

04:57:35.040 done it we're married damn to this day it's a joke around the head it's it's blessed you have

04:57:42.860 stepchildren you haven't even met probably i probably probably so i probably have adult 0.98

04:57:48.040 well i'll tell you what i'll tell you what man um i'm just saying look it i don't see a problem

04:57:56.500 with a man who's been around the block wanting a little southern virgin woman like i don't see

04:58:02.860 a problem with that i was not a virgin i didn't have a six-year-old i'm not talking about well

04:58:08.020 i'm not talking about you but i'm just saying look i don't think there's a problem ultimately

04:58:11.940 though the thing is is that men uh men don't want to marry the town bicycle let me tell you that

04:58:17.180 much uh yeah us men we don't want the town bicycle we want a woman uh of of good virtue

04:58:24.100 and character uh purity we don't want no town bicycle i'll tell you what because uh she's been

04:58:29.320 written by everybody brian why do you and i keep going down this line of weird voices

04:58:34.980 hold on what if the town bicycle is a ferrari i could do like an italian i could do like a new

04:58:41.560 jersey i could do a new york uh what's one i was thinking about doing i could do like kind of an

04:58:47.440 upper crusty british accent that i you should do it used to annoy tiffany with tiffany yeah

04:58:53.880 Get me my loafers

04:58:56.120 Chop chop dear

04:58:58.540 What else do I know

04:59:00.600 I can do southern

04:59:01.760 I can do 1.00

04:59:03.380 I don't know fuck it 0.99

04:59:06.860 Anyways 0.99

04:59:07.440 Let's see what else on the questionnaire

04:59:10.700 We have from

04:59:13.240 Dana

04:59:14.520 Wrong for a man 1.00

04:59:17.560 To dump his girlfriend

04:59:19.320 If she regularly turns him down 0.99

04:59:21.960 For sex

04:59:22.620 And you did write depends on why 0.97

04:59:25.600 Depends on why

04:59:26.560 So yes of course

04:59:29.260 So let's rule out some extremes

04:59:31.380 She's not 0.99

04:59:32.760 She doesn't have a terminal illness

04:59:34.400 She's not ill

04:59:35.920 She doesn't have health problems

04:59:37.680 Like severe health problems

04:59:40.520 But

04:59:42.580 Oh DPG 0.99

04:59:47.740 Oh my god this guy's a fucking legend 0.99

04:59:50.020 Been a while 0.99

04:59:50.720 Howdy Brian WStream cheers

04:59:52.460 Oh, my goodness.

04:59:53.180 Guys, I need to see W's in the chat for DPG thing. 0.99

04:59:57.140 This guy's a fucking legend. 0.99

04:59:58.920 Any single ladies? 1.00

05:00:01.040 Actually, no.

05:00:02.020 None of you are single.

05:00:02.960 Well, you're single.

05:00:04.500 Ish.

05:00:05.720 See, I'm trying to wingman for DPG.

05:00:10.420 I'm trying to get him some baddies.

05:00:13.620 Some baddies?

05:00:15.140 DPG, where you live, bro?

05:00:16.820 You're going to North?

05:00:17.660 Because she will be single in a couple months, right?

05:00:20.340 she's playing the breakup wait how because you have an age cap though no no he he's like in his

05:00:27.400 30s don't worry about it no he's he's like 37 um but so um when are you moving to north carolina

05:00:35.840 december okay so like in eight months all right dpg where you live in dpg it's a it's the lighting

05:00:42.460 to be honest he's 37 where you live dpg because i'm i got you bro i'm hooking it up

05:00:49.720 do you like white guys i mean i don't like i wouldn't say no so he's he's a preference of

05:00:57.560 like he saved me from a bear once he'll protect he'll protect you he will protect you rough and

05:01:04.800 tough white boy like i can't be like a tech bro you know no he's rough and tough he's got guns

05:01:09.280 nice he he was back uh he was uh in high school he won uh county in jv wrestling

05:01:22.040 yeah county county uh and um he's he's he's got money he's he's got moolah so dpg big alpha

05:01:34.820 Huh?

05:01:35.140 Big alpha?

05:01:36.280 Big alpha?

05:01:37.540 Big alpha?

05:01:38.480 Yeah, like a big guy.

05:01:40.080 Like alpha energy.

05:01:40.640 I don't like the alpha beta thing, but he is an alpha male.

05:01:46.800 Okay.

05:01:47.180 Oh, yeah.

05:01:47.740 Big time alpha male. 0.96

05:01:49.180 He's even a sigma male. 0.99

05:01:50.900 Goodness gracious. 1.00

05:01:51.580 And he's...

05:01:53.580 Apex.

05:01:54.900 Apex predator.

05:01:57.240 Apex predator.

05:01:58.500 Can Brian do a Yoda impression?

05:02:00.620 DPG already has a girl. 0.59

05:02:01.900 Oh, he's got a girl.

05:02:02.940 okay well if you're i don't know if you're trying to do like an andrew tate like multiple wives

05:02:09.040 thing dpg thing we don't share we don't have multiples question for you though

05:02:14.080 for your perfect man

05:02:17.700 rich everything like all the traits that you care about maximized personality perfect for you

05:02:25.980 money richest man in the world perfect everything perfect in bed perfect body perfect everything

05:02:32.920 would you share him no okay all right deal breaker yeah that would be horrible i think

05:02:42.300 so i think a good amount of women would share a lot of women would like i think a lot of women

05:02:46.320 would share the newport uh newport coast moms they they go in there they walk in oh i didn't

05:02:52.900 see nothing i didn't see nothing yoda pasty i cannot do a pasty i cannot do a yoda impression

05:02:59.860 i don't know how to do it i can't do it um yeah what do i know i can do the british one the like 0.93

05:03:06.260 kind of italian i can do uh like a southern uh shit what else can i do uh

05:03:15.160 i'd like to learn how to do a vietnamese accent like a fresh dangerous one to be 1.00

05:03:22.480 fresh fresh off the boat vietnamese female go go to a nail salon i need to pick it up quick 1.00

05:03:29.160 Bro, I need to just go. 1.00

05:03:30.860 I want to hire a Vietnamese lady to read the messages so she can do it in the Vietnamese voice. 1.00

05:03:37.300 The girl that does my, I can, ooh. 1.00

05:03:38.860 D-B-D.

05:03:39.900 Oh, my God.

05:03:40.800 That's rough.

05:03:41.680 Oh, my gosh.

05:03:42.700 Oh, boy.

05:03:44.160 That's a dangerous road to go down. 1.00

05:03:45.920 Oh, shit. 1.00

05:03:46.520 For the first time. 1.00

05:03:46.860 Pasty, carnal knowledge.

05:03:49.420 Yikes, bro. 0.96

05:03:51.380 Yikes.

05:03:52.400 Bro, you're not supposed to eat.

05:03:54.160 By the way, George, you are not supposed to eat bears because apparently, even if you cook it, they have, I think, a parasite or something.

05:04:03.540 No, you have to cook it.

05:04:04.720 It's a higher temperature.

05:04:06.000 It has to reach before you can eat it.

05:04:07.460 Have you had bear, Mason?

05:04:09.420 Possibly.

05:04:11.740 Hey, hunting is fun. 1.00

05:04:13.060 I did hear, though, you can die from that shit. 1.00

05:04:15.680 Oh, yeah, you can. 1.00

05:04:16.360 If you don't cook it well enough, you can die from it.

05:04:18.600 But it is actually pretty difficult to die from.

05:04:20.120 Have you had kangaroo?

05:04:21.760 I have not had kangaroo.

05:04:22.560 I would try it.

05:04:23.200 I hear it tastes like hamburger.

05:04:24.120 Honestly, I'll try it.

05:04:25.000 I hear it tastes good. 1.00

05:04:26.120 Fuck kangaroos, too. 1.00

05:04:27.200 They're kind of dicks. 1.00

05:04:27.900 It's scary. 1.00

05:04:28.500 Okay.

05:04:29.540 Wait.

05:04:30.020 So, hold on.

05:04:30.760 The question is,

05:04:31.600 the wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend

05:04:32.920 if she regularly turns him down for sex.

05:04:39.480 Where did we go?

05:04:41.700 It was me.

05:04:42.200 I said it depends.

05:04:43.320 It depends on the situation.

05:04:46.000 Oh.

05:04:47.180 Well, let's not use any extremes.

05:04:49.960 Like, let's just say it's like...

05:04:51.520 The typical.

05:04:52.020 oh if you don't want to do it then yeah i mean if there's no reason you're just like

05:04:55.680 no not tonight then i mean yeah i get it you would probably end up getting dumped well i think it's

05:05:00.640 okay like in individual instances to just not be in the mood and like that's okay yeah um

05:05:09.040 and it's like a pattern but yeah it's more like if there's a pattern like i don't think 0.92

05:05:13.640 you've been dating you've been dating a girl for three years and she doesn't want to fuck once like

05:05:19.560 no you shouldn't break up with her over that but like three months and she's like turning you down 0.93

05:05:25.700 more often than she's having sex with you pattern recognition something's going on

05:05:31.040 that's then i'm like i was i think i'm thinking from like the married standpoint like i had some

05:05:36.180 really bad surgery complications and it was a few months oh well yeah yeah you gotta get away from

05:05:41.560 me oh well yeah if you're like physically like incapable or you're in pain or you're recovering

05:05:47.360 that's different that's different but we're talking like she's able-bodied and she's just

05:05:53.820 like there's maybe a mismatch in desire or a mismatch in um uh what's the not desire

05:06:01.660 libido so then you got to cut that loose because that doesn't work yeah yeah um

05:06:08.060 let's see we have 0.94

05:06:11.620 uh dating is jade you agree with the following statement dating is harder for women 0.80

05:06:22.200 why is that well just speaking from my experience of like here to be honest because as opposed to

05:06:30.540 southern california compared to like where i'm moving to where a lot of like some of my values

05:06:36.880 of what like a relationship and marriage is a little more aligned to over there because of

05:06:41.160 those moral values where where I'm at in SoCal it's just kind of like everybody's just trying

05:06:47.620 to fuck everybody energy and that just like doesn't so it's harder for me to find someone

05:06:51.620 because nobody wants to just be with one person and be loyal to that person like they want that 0.59

05:06:56.840 polyamorous or just that playboy lifestyle so that's what I would say is like just if your

05:07:02.280 environment doesn't match your values it's harder okay um i also think that there's a lot of really

05:07:10.740 good women out there versus like at least for my demographic then like some of the men

05:07:17.000 there's a lot of good women so there's more good women than there are good men like i think the

05:07:24.460 way that men are becoming which is like that passenger prince type of vibe is kind of like

05:07:30.060 what a lot of women are running into now and to me like that's why it's harder because most women

05:07:34.600 are looking for a man and that's just not really what's out there but like right now so men are

05:07:40.360 not being men yes are women being women no a lot of women are being men like they're putting their 1.00

05:07:46.320 no a lot of women are being children tantrum tantruming little baby oh bitches go off queen 0.99

05:07:53.780 yes well i i think there's a degree of mutual inspiration so i don't want to place full blame 0.99

05:08:01.220 on women i don't want to place full blame on men well certainly not that but but i do think

05:08:07.400 this might fall a bit more on women i'm not saying it's fully women i think that there's a lack like

05:08:15.940 for men to be men there has to be what are the incentives and it seems like there's not a lot

05:08:21.640 of incentive uh for men and look you can say the same for women but there there's a lacking of

05:08:29.320 inspiration so like what would inspire a man to be a man and it's like okay i'm gonna be this

05:08:39.360 beacon of traditional values and i'm gonna be a beacon a paragon i'm gonna i'm gonna be a provider

05:08:46.280 and i'm gonna be a protector and i'm gonna be the knight in shining armor i'm going to be the

05:08:50.820 embodiment of virtue i'm going to be the embodiment of traditional gender roles

05:08:56.340 and then they get onto the dating marketplace and they see promiscuous women blasted in tattoos no 1.00

05:09:05.260 offense uh drug drug addicts and fucking alcoholics and all this shit and it's like 1.00

05:09:11.340 the the women aren't holding up their end of the deal i feel like um they're they're ran through 1.00

05:09:19.420 and it's like why should i be a man like why should i be a man to this woman

05:09:25.280 when like i don't know why should i for example like a lot of women have an expectation for men

05:09:33.720 to protect why should i protect why should i be willing and also for question four husband

05:09:39.560 husband should be willing to die protecting you uh husband for all of you you circled that right

05:09:44.900 and you're not wrong for circling that but i think to myself like if i gotta die the woman 0.94

05:09:51.520 should at least be a virgin oh my yeah like i think it's a bigger ask that for for me to

05:10:01.460 die or potentially die or have the willingness to die for you then for me to ask women or for

05:10:09.820 my woman or a woman to be a virgin i don't think it's a big ask in the sense of i would be willing 0.81

05:10:15.340 to die for my partner for my husband like if that if i had to take a bullet for my man like i'm gonna

05:10:20.920 take a bullet for my man same way i would for my child not not all women think that but i i i guess

05:10:26.720 that adds some validity however i would say that in a hypothetical scenario where only one of you

05:10:33.860 dies who should die well then that's like an impulse choice because i would never choose

05:10:40.700 my husband to die my husband wouldn't let me he wouldn't he wouldn't let you no he wouldn't let

05:10:45.740 me be the one but who do you think who do you think should be the one willing to die

05:10:51.940 if one of you in a hypothetical has to die i can't answer that okay what do you think

05:10:58.740 i like someone comes into our house and enters our bedroom and no it doesn't even have to be

05:11:06.960 so okay the hypothetical is simply one of you has to die it could be one of you has to die or i'm 0.99

05:11:13.500 gonna kill one of your children like no it's just supernatural so like the the grim reaper 1.00

05:11:18.860 appears and is like you guys can talk amongst each other uh you have to pick i'm taking one 1.00

05:11:27.200 of your lives all of us or none no my we that's not an option i would be like i'll this is how it

05:11:34.400 would go be like i'm gonna do it i'm gonna do it and then finally he would just push me out of the

05:11:37.680 way and do it like i know our dynamic it would be both of us like i'm gonna do it you know what i

05:11:42.560 mean and then finally he'd be like no it would be sit down and he would do it okay but would you

05:11:48.680 want him i wouldn't want him to no i would try to do it but you would try to do it i would but

05:11:54.720 he wouldn't let me how i read it is like if we're confronted on the street like i do believe that

05:12:02.000 a man should walk on the sidewalk side of the street for protection all that so if we're getting

05:12:07.820 mugged yeah yes i do expect him to protect me okay but so what do you think i i can you repeat

05:12:16.480 the question uh so okay in a hypothetical scenario where the man or the woman has to die

05:12:24.680 which one do you think should take the death um for me personally i would do it you would do it

05:12:34.080 i would do it okay how about this let me change this scenario a little bit you are on a boat

05:12:40.740 and you see a boat in the distance. Now you're not able to intervene because the choppy seas or

05:12:47.940 whatever. You're on a boat. You see a husband and a wife on that boat. They don't have children.

05:12:55.840 There's one life preserver on their sinking boat. There's no loopholes, by the way. They can't hang

05:13:02.420 on to each other. They can't swim. The outcome is pre-decided. Only one of them can get the life

05:13:10.800 preserver. The other one will definitively die. In that circumstance, they can amongst each other

05:13:18.800 make a decision as to who gets the life preserver. Which person would you more harshly judge

05:13:25.480 for getting the life preserver so you see the man uh opting to wanting to survive and taking the

05:13:33.100 life preserver the woman dies or the woman uh they came to determination and the woman keeps

05:13:38.240 the life preserver the man dies do you judge the woman more harshly or do you judge the man more

05:13:43.940 harshly the man would get judged more harshly yes i agree with that and when i'm viewing it

05:13:50.220 from a different perspective, the women should live

05:13:54.240 because they can go on and carry life and do more. 1.00

05:13:58.360 Whoa, okay, hold on.

05:13:59.760 Before I respond, I'll get the other answers.

05:14:03.220 In that circumstance, yes, I believe a man would be judged harsher.

05:14:07.720 A man would be judged harsher.

05:14:09.560 Well, would you judge harsher?

05:14:12.340 I personally would not because that's just a decision I could never.

05:14:15.200 Okay, but you do acknowledge society would judge the man harsher.

05:14:18.200 Yes, yes, yes.

05:14:18.300 but do you judge harsher the man or the woman i if i if it had nothing to do with me and it was

05:14:25.240 just like if i had to pick one just random no you you don't pick who dies they you there's two

05:14:32.000 scenarios either the man is choosing to survive or the woman's choosing to survive the man should

05:14:39.120 be the one to give it to give his life yes okay uh now you said do you think that men and women

05:14:46.520 don't have equal inherent or moral value?

05:14:52.080 Moral value when it comes to which? 0.98

05:14:54.300 Well, if I recall, you said that the woman should get the life preserver

05:15:01.400 because she can go on to have children and do more. 0.92

05:15:05.180 That's what you said. 1.00

05:15:06.180 Like basically procreate. 1.00

05:15:08.540 She can make society bigger. 1.00

05:15:11.940 Men's genetic material is necessary and needed to have children. 1.00

05:15:16.520 Yes, but one man can cede 500 females. 0.96

05:15:20.580 Okay, but so I don't see... 1.00

05:15:22.440 We need less men than we do women to carry the children. 1.00

05:15:25.860 It takes so many months to create one. 1.00

05:15:29.060 That's a macro-level analysis here.

05:15:34.540 I don't even understand the argument, to be honest. 1.00

05:15:38.720 So the woman could have kids so she's more valuable. 0.98

05:15:46.520 In that instance, yes. 0.98

05:15:48.540 Why would she be more valuable if men and women, if you have one man and one woman, do they have same value or does the woman have more value? 0.66

05:15:59.500 It depends the age and what they have at home. 0.75

05:16:01.320 They're both 25, no kids.

05:16:03.820 Then she would probably have more value because she can go and find another man who could, then she could have children with. 1.00

05:16:13.540 Okay, but that man can find a woman. 0.79

05:16:15.660 so okay that woman is already on the island and safe she's gonna go find somebody else 1.00

05:16:20.540 she's already procreating he doesn't she doesn't need him wait what the woman that's already safe

05:16:28.820 if you save the man if you save the man the woman you're saying that she he can go find someone and 0.99

05:16:35.460 procreate with her but that woman was never in danger oh shit dang ah sorry i repeat that 0.99

05:16:43.020 you're saying that she can 0.99

05:16:45.680 that

05:16:47.740 the man if he survives 0.99

05:16:50.100 he can go and find a woman and procreate with her

05:16:52.340 but that woman was never in danger

05:16:54.240 so why

05:16:57.120 that woman 0.99

05:16:58.280 this is 0.81

05:17:00.500 the lake and this is

05:17:03.000 where everybody else is in civilization

05:17:04.820 she's talking about when you said

05:17:06.780 you're watching the boat go down

05:17:08.580 you're the one woman which one 0.99

05:17:10.100 she's saying 0.98

05:17:11.320 You and I are judging more harshly, right?

05:17:13.440 I'm judging the man more harshly.

05:17:15.080 Why?

05:17:15.540 They're 25.

05:17:19.080 That's so incoherent.

05:17:20.500 I don't know what you're trying to say.

05:17:22.160 Okay.

05:17:23.520 They're both 25 and they're on the boat, right?

05:17:25.940 Okay. 0.99

05:17:26.400 Your claim is the woman has more value. 0.97

05:17:28.880 I'm asking why. 1.00

05:17:30.340 At 25, she has more value because she can go back into society and procreate and make children. 0.87

05:17:37.160 25-year-old men can't go back to society and procreate and have children.

05:17:40.260 Yes, he can.

05:17:41.320 So what's your argument?

05:17:42.720 The argument is that he would only go back into society to find a woman that was never in danger in the first place.

05:17:51.260 So she was already going to procreate with other men in society.

05:17:54.940 She didn't need that man on the boat. 0.98

05:17:58.780 What?

05:18:00.560 That's literally incoherent.

05:18:02.320 When you were first talking and you told her, pretend you're watching the water and you see a boat out there and there's two people.

05:18:09.480 she's talking about the woman that's watching this happen is that correct yes okay she she

05:18:14.320 took the scenario you gave her what that's what she's talking about when you said you're you're

05:18:19.600 watching the boat go down and there's a man and a woman and only one will survive when you were

05:18:23.740 asking her which one should drown she's taken when you said that into effect but that's not part of

05:18:31.260 what yeah that's still incoherent yeah it's not part of it it's just when you were trying to

05:18:35.840 explained you're talking about the viewer yes yes what that wouldn't change anything

05:18:40.980 you're making zero sense let me tell you there's men and women on this boat 0.90

05:18:47.820 there are two women and two men in society where the fuck did i ever include that in the hypothetical 0.97

05:18:57.020 because the woman you're saying the woman has you're asking me does the woman have more value 0.98

05:19:03.100 And I said, in that scenario, yes, she does.

05:19:05.220 What scenario?

05:19:06.420 Okay.

05:19:07.080 When did I grant that there's, wait, what?

05:19:10.700 Hold on.

05:19:11.120 You told me there were 25.

05:19:12.420 You told me there were 25.

05:19:13.600 That's why I said it depends.

05:19:14.980 Their age is 25.

05:19:16.500 Yes.

05:19:17.620 Why would that? 1.00

05:19:18.640 That's why she's more valuable at that age because she's of childbearing age. 0.98

05:19:22.720 The man is also fertile at 25. 1.00

05:19:25.500 but the woman is the one that can actually make the baby with somebody else okay with the man but

05:19:36.720 but the man isn't carrying the child he's not the vessel he still makes it hold on but there's other 0.93

05:19:41.660 okay there's other men who can give her seed and there's other women who are the vessel yeah but 1.00

05:19:48.360 if you get rid of a let's say there's only two people two women left in your society that you're 1.00

05:19:52.940 going back okay but there was never granted in the hypothetical that this is wait hold on so

05:19:58.540 wait wait that doesn't even wait wait this even using your backwards framework so okay let's say

05:20:05.300 there's only four people alive or wait hold on wait wait there's four people alive there's two

05:20:11.600 men and two women it's getting so complicated okay so then why why are men drafted into the army

05:20:18.920 you're all over the place hold on wait that's that's the same logic that i'm that i'm stating

05:20:25.100 men are drafted into the army because society will go on more uh successfully if you protect

05:20:33.060 the women and the children uh this works in like small tribal conflict uh it it really doesn't map

05:20:43.820 unless you're having massive world wars.

05:20:46.460 Well, no. 0.94

05:20:46.760 The reason men are just better soldiers

05:20:48.560 in absence reproduction. 0.99

05:20:50.380 Men are better soldiers. 0.97

05:20:53.220 Men are physically stronger than women. 1.00

05:20:54.800 That is true. 1.00

05:20:55.480 Men are physically superior to women. 1.00

05:20:56.980 Yes. 1.00

05:20:58.060 That's why men are...

05:20:59.640 If we're going to fight a war

05:21:01.220 against some other country, 0.66

05:21:03.280 I'm going to want to send my men 0.93

05:21:05.220 because I know they're going to send their men.

05:21:07.200 I'm going to send my best versus their best. 1.00

05:21:09.300 I'm not going to send ladies. 1.00

05:21:11.100 That's why we draft men. 1.00

05:21:12.200 There is a component when it comes to keeping women in the interior and protected. 0.81

05:21:20.160 There is a historical component when it comes to warfare.

05:21:24.180 It is true that when it comes to repopulating, if you get decimated in a war and repopulating your population,

05:21:36.020 that yeah like in that sense um like a given woman has more value in that sense but i'm talking about

05:21:46.580 moral value inherent value in this in a society like there's billions of people currently alive

05:21:52.000 so in this hypothetical scenario the man goes back to society there's plenty of women he can

05:21:57.580 impregnate the woman goes back to society there's plenty of men who can impregnate her men and women

05:22:03.060 have inherent equal value in uh equal moral value okay so where my mind went was if i had to pick

05:22:10.880 one because i have to pick one i have to pick one that's that's why it matters by age

05:22:17.500 to me i have to pick one okay so if the woman is 50 and she can no longer have children 1.00

05:22:26.880 you pick the man they're both 50 uh so the woman no wait hold on women are basically infertile at

05:22:35.260 50 yes i know that's what i'm saying okay the man can still bust nuts yes and get women pregnant

05:22:40.420 yes at 50 okay great so after at that point there would be no judgment there would be no judgment

05:22:47.620 wait no hold on you're going to actually see your logic here you're actually going to have to say

05:22:53.360 the moment any woman who's either infertile or doesn't have the capacity to have children

05:22:58.420 or she's above a certain age she has to die that would be the that'd be the entailment of your 1.00

05:23:04.980 position she has to die so any woman basically you know when she has no ability no she doesn't 0.99

05:23:11.880 they have equal value equal value but hold on your whole argument is the ability to reproduce

05:23:18.320 A man can reproduce into his 50s, 60s, and 70s.

05:23:21.540 So, therefore, men beyond the age of 45, I mean, women can still get pregnant. 0.87

05:23:26.680 Yeah, but they still don't need his seed. 0.92

05:23:27.840 There's plenty in society. 1.00

05:23:29.460 But then this would have to equally apply to the other women. 1.00

05:23:34.660 Other women have eggs.

05:23:37.460 So, the logic is flawed. 1.00

05:23:41.040 Other women have eggs. 0.99

05:23:42.600 If she dies, I can go in and impregnate other women with my seed.

05:23:48.320 If your seed is that desirable, then yes, I agree, but it has nothing to do.

05:23:53.240 There's plenty of other men willing to spread their seed already.

05:23:57.400 So, okay. 1.00

05:23:58.820 A given woman has opportunities for getting pregnant.

05:24:03.520 A man will have future opportunities to get women pregnant.

05:24:08.160 If there are, if there are a hundred women to one man, that one man, those a hundred 1.00

05:24:16.660 women don't need a hundred men. 1.00

05:24:18.100 They only need one. 0.99

05:24:19.320 I totally agree.

05:24:20.300 So that's why it has to do with, is that male really that critical in that scenario?

05:24:27.720 No, he's not that adding that one more man from the boat isn't adding any more value

05:24:33.820 because that one person could do all of it.

05:24:36.660 Right.

05:24:37.320 There's no, there's no dispute about the biological reality that, uh, eggs are expensive and

05:24:43.540 sperm is cheap, that there's no dispute there.

05:24:46.360 However, it wasn't granted in the hypothetical that this is some, like, reproduction –

05:24:53.760 I had to give someone value.

05:24:56.240 No, but it wasn't granted in the hypothetical that it was some sort of, like, reproduction apocalypse where it's, like, this is the woman who is going to be responsible for, like, propagating the population in society. 0.96

05:25:10.180 Correct. 0.76

05:25:11.100 But I had to give it a reason.

05:25:13.460 What would my reason be?

05:25:14.980 but it's i had to give it a reason who in the hypothetical exists in the uh in the current 1.00

05:25:24.620 state of affairs of the world which is there's like four billion other women in the world there's 0.99

05:25:30.060 four billion other men in the world the man can go and fuck a woman and get her pregnant 1.00

05:25:34.840 the woman can go and get fucked and get pregnant 1.00

05:25:37.100 I had to give it a reason 1.00

05:25:41.520 Because I don't

05:25:42.520 I don't have a choice

05:25:44.220 I have to pick something 0.99

05:25:44.980 Oh shit, oh my god 1.00

05:25:47.660 I'm such a scumbag 1.00

05:25:48.680 I was so 1.00

05:25:50.080 Bamboozled by your thing

05:25:53.120 That I missed this

05:25:55.020 Six minutes

05:25:59.060 To the underscore indie donated

05:26:01.160 $1,000

05:26:02.080 Mason, so glad you made it brother

05:26:05.140 Brian, it's homogeneity

05:26:07.760 The word from before

05:26:09.100 Homogeneity, that's it 1.00

05:26:12.080 You're such a homo 1.00

05:26:13.180 Homogeneity 1.00

05:26:15.680 Yo, Timby, Indy, thank you man 1.00

05:26:17.900 You're a fucking legend 0.99

05:26:18.840 Tiffany, get me a champagne bottle 1.00

05:26:22.520 Chop, chop 1.00

05:26:23.540 Make it quick, quick

05:26:25.040 Yes, good job

05:26:26.940 Then get me my loafers

05:26:29.400 Indy, sorry, I missed the

05:26:31.820 That was like six

05:26:33.240 it came in six minutes ago sorry i was so zoned in i was so zoned in so uh can you get me uh do

05:26:41.620 you wait how old are you sorry uh champagne champagne champagne yes please champagne i'll

05:26:48.080 take it all right i'll take uh two chains five cups five wait one two three four four cups four

05:26:57.080 cups to you thank you very much let me open see if i can open this uh thank you tiffany

05:27:05.580 tiffany pull up that super chat so mullington can read it for us go ahead pull it up for 0.56

05:27:15.220 mullington for for the rachel comeback tour men don't bail because a woman gains 200 pounds in

05:27:23.340 a long relationship but woman will bail if he steps out because she gains 200 pounds

05:27:30.420 make it make sense and if rachel ever becomes single i know a guy bro oh my rachel look rachel 1.00

05:27:39.880 i think she's in the chat by the way uh rachel has a wonderful husband that's crazy that you 0.99

05:27:48.300 fucking say that wild and i'm fairly certain rachel would bury herself with with her husband 0.98

05:27:54.100 i you know what i not to be morbid here you know i that that thing we were talking about earlier 0.99

05:28:00.400 where i was like if a woman breaks up with me i want her like on the oh yeah on the like if i

05:28:06.500 take a mississippi boat ride i want her on the cliff crying every evening waiting for me hoping 1.00

05:28:12.720 i feel like that's what rachel would do i don't know if rachel like starts dating again like i 0.97

05:28:17.540 don't think she remarries i think she's just like rachel chime in um yeah let us know yeah let us

05:28:22.280 know i think rachel just like i don't know if she becomes a nun or something something like that i

05:28:26.100 don't think she um i i don't think that she she like starts dating or remarries like i just think

05:28:32.940 she's got a picture i feel like she does what the the steve erwin's wife has done just like nothing

05:28:37.480 i've met my one true love that's it i'm done rachel confirm or deny yeah confirm or deny

05:28:43.900 Yes, indeed.

05:28:45.480 Indeed, Rachel.

05:28:46.940 Indeed, Rachel.

05:28:47.920 Oh, no.

05:28:48.540 I don't know if I'm going to be able to open this one. 0.71

05:28:50.600 I do have a bodybuilder next to me.

05:28:52.300 This is true.

05:28:54.520 Wait, hold on.

05:28:55.220 You got this, Brian.

05:28:55.920 I believe in you.

05:28:56.760 You can do it. 0.99

05:28:57.600 It's fucking slippery, boys. 0.99

05:29:00.480 I got this, boys. 0.99

05:29:01.760 Goodness gracious.

05:29:03.360 Oh, he's got it.

05:29:04.320 He's got it.

05:29:05.080 Oh, no.

05:29:05.600 It's not.

05:29:07.100 Hello?

05:29:08.160 There we go.

05:29:09.040 A little underwhelming, the pop there.

05:29:11.840 We still got the pop.

05:29:12.760 Indy, thank you very much, man

05:29:15.800 Appreciate it

05:29:16.820 Alright, let me pour some liquor here for the fine folk

05:29:19.280 The fine folk

05:29:21.000 Yeah, help me with the

05:29:22.540 I gotcha

05:29:23.100 What are you doing?

05:29:26.180 What are you doing, Mason?

05:29:27.880 Alright, pass it down

05:29:29.980 Alright, there we go 0.98

05:29:33.740 Hey, fucking Indy, thank you, man 0.97

05:29:35.580 Hey, Indy, I want to thank you, dude 0.98

05:29:37.340 Thanks, Indy

05:29:38.600 Bro, today was a tough day for me

05:29:41.400 Today was a rough day.

05:29:42.460 I need some champagne.

05:29:43.680 I need this.

05:29:44.440 Bro, today was rough.

05:29:46.000 Today was really a rough little day.

05:29:48.720 I was stressed out, Indy.

05:29:50.100 So I appreciate your patronage, man.

05:29:53.820 Booze me up.

05:29:54.840 No, there's just one.

05:29:56.420 A little more for Mason there.

05:29:57.820 Okay.

05:29:58.540 All right.

05:30:00.100 Cheers.

05:30:00.900 Salud to Indy.

05:30:02.260 Salud.

05:30:03.660 I do say it, bro.

05:30:04.700 I want to watch out.

05:30:05.920 Bingo.

05:30:11.240 Very nice. Andrew has ruined me for all other men. Nobody could ever compete

05:30:14.720 with Andrew's ghost. Exactly. See, exactly. Makes sense. Yeah. I was saying earlier that

05:30:20.140 like I would ideally want, you know, if I'd been dating a girl for three months that she should

05:30:27.440 just be on the cliff side crying every evening, waiting for me to return from my voyage to the 0.99

05:30:35.300 new world. She should be waiting. She shouldn't be dealing with some other dude. Like, so I feel

05:30:40.300 like rachel i don't know i don't think i think she's she's just loyal to andrew in perpetuity

05:30:48.840 and in perpetuity good word in perpetuity that's a good one we got to bring that back

05:30:54.100 uh okay we have here mason can you read this one for us i'll read it j-o-d okay uh you serious 0.99

05:31:02.620 panel women literally want men to be their beat bitch i guess i guess i'm sure and don't want 0.97

05:31:09.960 back backtalk we get called sassy and women don't respect us they want us to obey them and let them 0.99

05:31:16.260 do as they please this is true this is true that is the typical thing i run into yeah man honestly 0.98

05:31:22.660 though on that note i think that the relationship works best when the woman is more into you than

05:31:29.040 you're into the woman i could see that i think i think that's the best dynamic i kind of agree

05:31:33.600 you know what i mean i agree with that this is weird to me because i don't have this kind of

05:31:39.420 relationship with my husband like it you're both just into each other yeah we just we have well

05:31:45.000 that's okay yeah we're not saying like he's not into you it's like hey i'm gonna be very very

05:31:50.720 into this lady but i want this lady to be more very very into me we've been together a long time

05:31:57.640 i think it takes that might be okay like at the beginning but when you've been together as long

05:32:02.360 as we have it's different yeah no i could agree with that like when i look at my my mom and dad

05:32:08.180 like i can't say like there's no way i could ever wait who likes more right right um wait i had a 0.98

05:32:15.600 thought on something fuck shit totally forgot uh it's like the the admirer or the admired 0.99

05:32:26.780 admirer or the admired which one is better because the admirer feels like they're getting like 0.99

05:32:34.900 they're getting more whereas the admired you're just kind of like she's there great

05:32:42.760 i don't know i don't know um you have to make a conscious effort i think every day to choose your

05:32:50.160 person and to be on both sides of that truthfully wait really quick going back to our little

05:32:56.200 dispute here over the sinking boat or whatever uh it's below the threshold but this actually

05:33:01.140 brought a good thing one man can impregnate 100 women but one woman can't have 100 children

05:33:06.900 now what about this though who's more valuable in wait hold on let me think about this who is

05:33:14.880 more valuable who would be more productive or valuable uh there's the sinking boat sinking

05:33:22.340 boat and this is an island civilization and it's the only civilization there's a sinking boat okay 0.97

05:33:28.360 uh and well who would be who would be no you know what fuck it there's not a sinking boat 0.97

05:33:34.260 there's an island civilization and on that island there's one man versus a hundred women 0.96

05:33:42.100 or you have a hundred men with one woman oh my god you would want to have so those are two

05:33:53.760 separate uh two separate hypotheticals i would argue that that one man is more valuable than

05:34:04.020 that one woman yeah in that circumstance oh yeah agreed because that one woman she can only get 0.94

05:34:12.040 pregnant like she can't get the dudes pregnant but she can die from a hundred men being after 0.98

05:34:17.780 her all the time so i don't know if we're gonna take that if you're gonna go down that road i 0.99

05:34:23.200 think we would have to say that you you have a situation a hundred women one men one women a

05:34:29.000 hundred men that one man is more valuable comparatively than the one woman this is a 0.89

05:34:37.400 really retarded scenario i don't know i just made up yeah well technically speaking it's 0.88

05:34:43.300 well it's is more valuable to have more women it's a well in this in this scenario the other 0.99

05:34:50.540 scenario that's a more optimal scenario yeah i agree i agree because a hundred women can get

05:34:55.820 pregnant only one so your your society is going to be more flourishing but uh that that man okay 0.98

05:35:06.020 i don't know whatever all the children that it was a really stupid scenario an insentuous society so 0.95

05:35:11.820 you need more variety at that point true fair true i would do my duties if i'm sure they would 0.96

05:35:22.080 have to hold a gun to your head to get you i it would be a lot of suffering in that it would be

05:35:28.620 so terrible how would you make it how could i ever survive i think they do that with cattle 0.99

05:35:34.160 with like cows and bulls oh shit one bull and yeah they get all the yeah yo indy but indy indy 0.82

05:35:41.720 i don't know if he's like watching from like three hours back when did when were we talking 0.95

05:35:45.500 about homogenous that was a long time ago i think he just referenced homogeneity yeah he just 0.56

05:35:50.920 referenced what a fucking legend what a legend by the way dpg thing just dipped after i just gave 0.56

05:35:55.720 him all those compliments and i was trying to get him set up or whatever i was trying to get him 0.98

05:36:00.380 like a lady friend or whatever maybe he's watching with his lady friend and the lady friend's like 0.98

05:36:04.860 yeah it's over bro you're never watching this shit again he's trying to i didn't know but to 0.99

05:36:10.300 be in my defense i did not know that he had he had a lady he had a lady friend all right uh okay so 1.00

05:36:19.080 dating harder for okay whatever um let's see if there's anything else uh you think women put in

05:36:25.920 or effort when it comes to dating and angelica why is that i can speak for myself and my 1.00

05:36:34.380 friends uh women we hair makeup dress shoes you know shower shave all the things you know it's

05:36:49.360 it's a lot of work you know we're we're getting ready for like two hours just cleaning ourselves

05:36:57.560 but men don't care you could show up in a paper bag and they'd be like sup 0.98

05:37:02.240 i mean i think a woman could do like the equivalent of men's prep so like take a shower 1.00

05:37:09.480 you know maybe just do a bit of stuff to your hair like so it's not a total mess put on your clothes 1.00

05:37:15.600 and men would be fine with it most also is it women wear makeup for men or they do it for 0.86

05:37:26.320 themselves pick a lane for themselves um so they're gonna do it for yourself you are back

05:37:34.420 you're not i feel better when i have i don't wear a lot of makeup to begin with but fair enough i do

05:37:40.080 feel more put together and i don't have a problem going out for your man or do you

05:37:46.840 wear makeup for yourself i like to get up and do bare minimum tinted moisturizer well so yeah okay

05:37:54.840 that's not necessarily the question i'm asking like are you doing your makeup because

05:37:58.640 you like it are you doing your makeup so it appeases the man i like it so i feel put together

05:38:07.000 okay so it's for you yes okay so you're not doing it so it's not effort you're putting into the

05:38:12.960 relationship it's effort you're putting into yourself you would be putting in yourself

05:38:15.980 regardless correct but i would i put on more effort like to do a little bit more if i'm going

05:38:23.780 on a date i would so it's a little more effort yes so it's a little day it's five minutes

05:38:28.780 uh on a date i'm probably spending 20 minutes okay okay uh yeah so i mean do you do not think

05:38:37.460 like i think men put in they're obviously not putting makeup on but i would say they probably

05:38:44.540 put more effort in it's just behind the scenes effort that you don't get to see so like the

05:38:49.660 only reason a man's gonna be able to date you is he makes more than you so he's gonna have to have

05:38:54.180 a job he's gonna have a job that he's been pouring a lot of work into for so many years the all the 1.00

05:39:00.300 work that you haven't been able to see and like uh and that's just pretty much any any woman that 0.99

05:39:05.260 sits down at this table i say he has to be making at least what i make her more so he's had that

05:39:10.880 behind the scenes work he's also probably uh i'm gonna guess you guys probably uh with like a fit

05:39:16.300 man more than an unfit man so you're gonna want a guy who spends hours and hours in the gym i mean

05:39:22.420 i love the gym so regardless of uh if i'm gonna have a woman or not i'm gonna go to the gym but

05:39:27.040 i've spent i've poured 15 years of my life blood sweat and tears in the gym um there's that there's

05:39:33.980 uh he like he has to have had some kind of experience that he can demonstrate that he's a

05:39:39.940 mature man who knows his way around a room that uh he like comes off to people like he is authoritative

05:39:47.800 He is a provider, a protector.

05:39:50.080 He has all of those traits that take a lot of extra work to obtain.

05:39:57.960 Traits that I don't know if women tend to have to put that same amount of effort into. 0.51

05:40:05.560 i think having been in a marriage where i planned the dates was that was easier than the actual

05:40:16.880 getting ready part for me because it's a reservation you know and yeah well i'm not

05:40:22.980 saying like uh well i mean there is the i mean generally speaking nowadays i mean i'm not speaking

05:40:29.140 to your like the situation you were in but men typically have to do all the things i just listed

05:40:34.780 plus they have to go out of their way to like ask you on the date which i think is good i think it

05:40:41.520 should be a man who does that so he needs to put that effort in but it has to risk getting rejected

05:40:47.040 he also has to plan the date which i think he should but he has to plan the date he also has

05:40:52.840 to pay for the date um uh eventually i mean then he'll continually have to pay for this relationship

05:40:59.500 i mean obviously sometimes maybe you'll throw something in but generally speaking he'll have

05:41:03.120 to pay for all that stuff and eventually he's going to be the one who has to buy the ring

05:41:06.920 get down on the knee it seems like he's having to put all of this effort in and all you have to do

05:41:12.740 is kind of just sit there and have makeup on pretty yeah i'm not saying that's all you do

05:41:17.460 but in the dating scheme it seems like that's all you have to do we also have to i mean i haven't

05:41:27.260 date in a long time i think i went on obviously four dates before i found the man i'm with today

05:41:33.940 and i was appalled you know by what i saw yeah um but i just think

05:41:45.240 yes i guess men do uh i guess from a financial standpoint they have to

05:41:53.740 pay for a lot of dates to then find the one um yeah but i don't think you know it's not just

05:42:01.160 like paying for the dates i also think they put the reputation on the line like i'm gonna go ask 1.00

05:42:05.820 this hot chick if she wants to go get go on a date with me and if we're in public like she can 1.00

05:42:11.320 absolutely eviscerate me in front of like a bunch of people i've seen too many videos of that 1.00

05:42:15.240 happening i mean i'm sure like not just in video format but i'm sure that happens way too often

05:42:20.120 like i know guys who walk up to girls at the gym that they're into like it could ruin their ability

05:42:26.280 to go to that gym because if that girl goes to the gym all the time well i can't go there anymore

05:42:31.540 because goodness gracious uh compare like everyone at the gym is going to have seen me get rejected 1.00

05:42:37.240 by this girl she's going to rip into me like all this drama could be brought up i don't know if i

05:42:42.880 really want to do that so it's like there's a lot of there's a great like social as well as financial

05:42:48.880 cost yes upon men um that i mean in the social cost not generally found upon women um i think

05:42:57.300 the question was it's harder yeah yeah that's what i'm saying like that'll be harder it's harder

05:43:01.440 um women don't get rejected really um and if they do it's very gently yes it was i i never

05:43:10.060 approached a man but i did give the eyes like it's okay to come talk to me i don't know he was

05:43:15.060 married but he was i didn't see the ring i just his hands were down here uh but he's like i i saw

05:43:21.780 you i didn't make eye contact with you because i unfortunately i married but trust me i i did see

05:43:27.420 you yeah fair enough fair enough well maybe we can make a determination like this we could you know

05:43:33.060 go back and forth women have these struggles men have these struggles i think that men

05:43:40.060 would be willing, and this might be the easiest way to settle this, I think men would very happily

05:43:47.020 switch in terms of the dynamics when it comes to dating and relationships. I think men would

05:43:56.140 very happily switch the dynamic. So women pursue, women pursue, women pursue. We're more passive. 0.99

05:44:05.460 women come to us we pick amongst the women who uh not not that there's anything that would even 1.00

05:44:11.560 prevent us from shooting our shot in the same as is the case for women but although women 0.99

05:44:17.520 overwhelmingly don't do that i i think men would be more willing to change roles not change sex

05:44:24.360 to be clear men stay men women stay women but i do think men would be way more open to uh from a

05:44:32.540 dating perspective swap roles it would make things easier honestly and when i say swap roles

05:44:41.160 the complication though with this scenario is what role specifically like are we talking okay

05:44:47.540 are women masculine and are men feminine i don't think i'm talking about that i'm talking about

05:44:53.980 like, okay, uh, women approach men, like that dynamic swapped. Um, and maybe the entailments

05:45:03.640 of that might change. Okay. Well, in the way that men will pursue women purely for sex and women

05:45:09.620 get used for sex. Well, sometimes men get used for sex in the swapped scenario. I think men take 0.97

05:45:16.480 that trade. I don't know if women take the trade. Like, I don't think, I don't know if women take 1.00

05:45:22.380 the trade of you guys have to shoot the shot you guys have to pay for dates you guys have to take

05:45:27.000 all the initiative excuse me you have to move things forward physically sexually etc you got 0.94

05:45:31.960 to make all those first moves I don't think women do that trade no we're not because I will say like

05:45:37.620 men definitely have more pressure when it comes to like the dating scene because like is it's

05:45:41.960 I think back like because I kind of operate off like courtship right you know and it is like the

05:45:47.120 man has to go you know talk to the family they have to go pursue this person they have to plan

05:45:52.060 the dates and i think sometimes that's also the difference between right man and boy is like for

05:45:56.960 women it can feel like we are putting in more when you're dealing with a boy because they're not

05:46:02.060 planning the dates they're not putting in the effort to like go the extra mile the way a man

05:46:06.040 would if that makes sense well what do you guys think about that scenario i presented so the roles

05:46:11.820 to a degree reversed you guys have to be the pursuers you guys have to be the one shooting

05:46:18.240 your shot you guys have to be the one who have to deal with like constant rejection i wouldn't mind

05:46:23.560 the like the um you see someone who's attractive and you go up and talk to them and you shoot your

05:46:28.800 shot that would be fine but then at that point if they're like oh yeah she's i want to go out with

05:46:33.300 her it would switch it would like give them the go that i'm not gonna say i don't like you or 0.92

05:46:38.100 you're ugly or i don't want to talk to you what what have you but then he would take back over 0.98

05:46:42.480 the mail you know the usual thing of taking you out because he would know where you stand he 0.99

05:46:47.020 wouldn't have to shoot a shot because you already shot it i mean i i'm glad that i'm a woman and

05:46:54.580 the guys do that would you trade um i think women like i was i don't know if you were here but i'm

05:47:03.280 like women give you the eye they look at you they do the eye contact they tell you it's okay to

05:47:07.540 approach them uh well hold on what okay that doesn't answer my question first then i'll adjust 0.85

05:47:14.220 that so that's that's kind of giving you the signal i'm not going to reject you i want you 0.98

05:47:18.760 to come talk to me that still doesn't address my question should uh should women pursue and 1.00

05:47:25.160 physically walk over would you make that trade no okay so you you enjoy your position of privilege 1.00

05:47:34.540 of being the pursued i enjoy my position of my privilege yes your privilege yes yeah so yeah i

05:47:43.600 do believe it's a privilege to be in this role where you get to sort from the men who approach

05:47:51.480 you and this idea that women giving the eyes that's the woman doing the approach simply staring

05:47:59.240 at somebody and twitching your eyelid not scary yeah i understand that but uh making eye contact

05:48:07.080 with somebody i can that that's not that's not that's takes zero effort that that that's not

05:48:15.040 initiative really like okay you glance at a guy for two seconds like no you gotta go no the thing

05:48:22.360 is like i've heard like i've heard i've heard a million stories of like guys telling me oh well

05:48:27.220 this girl looked at me at the gym or at the bar and i went up to her and tried to talk to her and

05:48:32.920 she immediately shut me down so it's like our ability to like discern what you guys mean when

05:48:39.060 you guys look at us is pretty garbage so it's like hey maybe like come up and talk to us you

05:48:46.280 know i don't know but yeah so the thing is like yeah i mean there is that cost of us trying to 0.96

05:48:53.840 shoot our shot not saying like i wouldn't i mean i'm a player i'm gonna i'm gonna shoot my shot

05:48:59.220 obviously my uh my zero yeah but i mean also this idea like it's also kind of super 0.95

05:49:07.660 fucking lame for a guy to be like i will only approach if i get like some preemptive 0.70

05:49:13.320 signal like if a guy's interested in you he should shoot his shot regardless of the signal or 0.99

05:49:20.560 whatever she's more approachable friendlier more open to communication that's that's what i okay

05:49:26.900 Can I ask you a question?

05:49:27.820 Every of all the times you've been approached in your entire life, what percentage of the time did you give the eyes?

05:49:36.040 I don't have much experience for that, but I want to say 50%.

05:49:40.600 And I never rejected them badly.

05:49:42.540 I always said, thank you.

05:49:43.660 I'm very flattered.

05:49:44.700 That's good, I guess.

05:49:47.320 But so, okay, 50% of the men that did approach you didn't have the signal.

05:49:55.980 Correct.

05:49:56.900 Right. Yeah. So it's like, I mean, the burden is on men. There's an initiative burden. Men have to

05:50:05.220 approach. Men have to make the first move. Men have to carry things. Men have to pay for dates. 0.98

05:50:09.200 There's an expectation. Men have like some financial standing to be able to provide

05:50:13.300 and pay for the dates. So my position is dating is harder for, for men. And, you know, again,

05:50:20.900 we can each list while women have to wear, put on makeup and women have to do X, Y, Z, 0.94

05:50:25.200 and they take a lot of time to look pretty i'm not even going to argue with that um i could but

05:50:30.160 ultimately though i do think in situations where we could like flip uh you know the just the

05:50:39.260 initiative burden like men definitely take that take that trade uh women do not take that trade

05:50:46.320 uh so i don't know i think that's a lot of the romance is i'm very attracted to someone

05:50:54.660 even if i'm not physically attracted to them there's something about them that came that they

05:51:01.500 wanted to talk to me that i appreciate and i thank them for that i'm very flattered

05:51:05.300 okay um well speaking of like sort of initiative and paying on dates the final things from the

05:51:12.620 questionnaire here all of you uh agreed with the first four statements which are men should pay on

05:51:18.560 first dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous husband should be willing to die

05:51:23.540 protecting me or you take taking the bullet all of you circled those uh all of you agree

05:51:31.140 uh why should men do these things then let's start with the first one why should men pay for dates

05:51:39.380 i feel like that's just part of their end of the deal they're the man's end of the deal okay uh

05:51:45.780 before we get in i'll give everybody a chance what's your thoughts as far as paying for dates

05:51:50.980 it's more to me about um like i am putting in a lot of initial investment to get ready for the

05:51:58.720 date so it's like the least you do is pay for my meal you know what i mean like that for a first

05:52:03.500 date because for if i'm getting ready on a date i'm getting my hair done that's 150 i'm sorry 0.99

05:52:08.920 hold on really quick i gotta interrupt you uh somebody in the chat audrey here oh shit you're 0.89

05:52:14.440 gonna get called out uh audrey you know what i'm not gonna even debate you in the chat uh 0.96

05:52:19.660 come on the show, come on the show and we can have a discussion on the show. You can state

05:52:25.260 your disagreements. So I don't know, Audrey, if you're just kind of lacking in critical thinking

05:52:33.740 and logical thinking. So me posing questions doesn't mean that prescriptively I'm suggesting

05:52:41.220 that there should be a reversal of the roles. That's not what I'm suggesting. Simply having

05:52:47.680 a conversation about something

05:52:49.240 doesn't imply

05:52:50.660 that you want to change

05:52:53.540 of the roles.

05:52:56.240 But it sounds like, 0.89

05:52:57.660 so Audrey, come on the show. You called me

05:52:59.660 a homosexual. Don't worry, I won't call you a 0.98

05:53:01.700 lesbian, even if you are one. 1.00

05:53:03.680 I do detect that you have 1.00

05:53:05.220 pink or purple hair. She seems like

05:53:07.400 she's one of the ladies. She could be. 0.98

05:53:09.320 She might also be homosexual. 0.97

05:53:12.300 It seems like if you asked this 0.98

05:53:13.560 lady, what would it

05:53:15.540 have felt like if you didn't eat this morning?

05:53:17.320 And then she will say, well, I did eat this morning.

05:53:20.560 She's unable to just like think outside of her reality that she lives in.

05:53:25.160 Yeah.

05:53:25.440 So you can't think outside of herself.

05:53:27.100 Yeah.

05:53:27.340 So just to be clear, Audrey, I'm totally fine.

05:53:29.820 Like I'm fine taking the initiative.

05:53:32.520 I'm fine paying for dates.

05:53:34.300 I'm fine with all of that.

05:53:36.000 But having a conversation about it wouldn't imply homosexuality.

05:53:40.560 Tell you what, Audrey, you can come on the podcast. 1.00

05:53:43.660 I'll buy you a slice of pizza and we can fuck afterwards. 1.00

05:53:45.940 and then uh we'll see how much of a homosexual i am uh challenge except i think sometimes women 1.00

05:53:52.420 call you gay to see if you want to like to try to get them to fuck you know like a woman would be 0.99

05:53:57.140 like call you gay and it's a challenge like oh let me prove to you how much of a heterosexual i am 1.00

05:54:03.240 like it's uh i don't know she's it's it's weird so look audrey i don't know you might not be my 0.92

05:54:08.500 type though but we'll see if you if you're you bring me some baked goods let's see how your

05:54:13.380 sourdough is and we can talk okay uh you can dm out whatever audrey and we'll get you on the show

05:54:18.820 and um and uh we'll have a discussion about my uh homosexuality or lack thereof uh speaking of

05:54:28.000 which uh i guess wait so okay back to this didn't mean to cut you off but i had to i saw audrey 0.99

05:54:33.360 talking shit so i gotta you know i gotta address it audrey send a fucking dm on our instagram at 0.92

05:54:39.260 whatever send a dm audrey and we'll have you on the show go ahead um yeah just pertaining to like 1.00

05:54:44.780 a first date i just feel like that there's a lot more financial investment on the woman's side as 0.56

05:54:50.100 far as preparing for it versus like the man having to pay the one yes that's where yeah yeah well can 1.00

05:54:55.380 i ask you a question so is your argument the woman invests more time and energy and she spends money 0.99

05:55:01.520 on the makeup and cosmetics uh and so because she spends conceivably more money for the date

05:55:07.400 the man should pay uh pay for the date yeah for the first date for the first date okay so can i

05:55:14.260 ask you a question though let's say uh i take a woman who works at chick-fil-a uh out on a date 0.87

05:55:20.820 and she does put on some makeup she puts on some eyeliner some mascara and maybe i don't know 0.98

05:55:26.400 something else or whatever i pick her up because uh my part of the date is to pick her up right and 1.00

05:55:33.220 i'm gonna take her to a restaurant i pick her up in a ferrari i've spent more money showing up to 1.00

05:55:41.100 that date than she has and she works at chick-fil-a and say i make millions of dollars a year 1.00

05:55:46.060 because i've spent more money in preparation for that date couldn't i just argue she should

05:55:52.900 pay for the date well you didn't buy the ferrari for the date and he didn't buy wait so hold on

05:55:58.780 Let's say that makeup that she purchased, she clearly purchased it, say, before she met me.

05:56:05.860 Okay. 0.99

05:56:07.560 And she wears makeup because she likes to wear makeup for personal reasons. 0.61

05:56:11.480 Yes, it's not for men. 0.98

05:56:12.320 She wears makeup for her. 0.99

05:56:13.660 She wears it for her.

05:56:15.320 Well, I mean, yeah, even in general, though, I do still believe that a man should pay for the first date. 0.94

05:56:20.120 No, but your argument was the man should pay for the first date because conceivably women pay more. 0.76

05:56:24.880 I'm thinking of my own experience.

05:56:26.600 It's like I put a lot into a first date.

05:56:28.520 Essentially, what are the men paying for?

05:56:30.820 No, but if the argument is men should pay on first dates, because look, and I'm willing to even grant, perhaps in most situations, in terms of preparation, women will probably, you know, with the makeup and whatever, the hair, women's haircuts cost more, although they don't get their hair cut as frequently as men, but whatever.

05:56:50.560 um i would say okay sure women spend more money generally speaking but using your logic say i'm a

05:56:58.900 i'm a multi-millionaire and she works at chick-fil-a but i'm spending more money getting 1.00

05:57:03.680 ready for the date logically wouldn't it follow that she has to pay for the date well no because

05:57:09.520 i feel like even in that if you're a millionaire like you're like why would you expect well okay 0.93

05:57:14.600 let me ask you this let's say uh i'm going on a date with a woman and she spends more money

05:57:19.740 getting ready, but 1.00

05:57:21.820 she also makes more money. 1.00

05:57:24.420 Should she pay for the date? 1.00

05:57:25.960 No. But hold on.

05:57:28.000 She makes more money. Well, that's just 1.00

05:57:30.020 because I personally just feel like men should pay 0.68

05:57:32.080 on the first date. Okay, but so then your argument

05:57:34.100 can't, but you're going to have to

05:57:35.960 abandon. I was just relating that to myself

05:57:37.980 because of what I put in. Right, but if we're

05:57:40.000 asking you for justification for why men

05:57:41.900 pay, you now, given what you just

05:57:43.940 said, you have to abandon.

05:57:46.340 Because he makes more. The logic is

05:57:48.080 because person no no you're gonna have to abandon that line of argumentation because person x whether

05:57:54.720 it's the man or the woman makes more money ergo they should pay for the date but i've just

05:57:58.980 demonstrated to you like for example the guy shows the guy's rich shows up with a rolex and

05:58:04.000 a ferrari and a super nice suit um i mean you might okay let's say he even buys the suit

05:58:11.000 in preparation for the date yeah i can abandon that okay all right i said before because it's

05:58:15.860 more about the value wise i did get you to abandon you did i did get you to abandon it though okay

05:58:21.400 so why should men pay for me it shows uh generosity should women also be generous i am very generous

05:58:28.340 should women be generous if i absolutely okay so what she should pay for the date um or go 50 50

05:58:34.820 i have when we are in a committed relationship i have no problems doing that okay but we're

05:58:40.740 talking about like first first dates first dates no i so okay but it shouldn't it demonstrate her

05:58:46.140 generosity if women should be generous uh generosity is uh i think a trait that is most

05:58:56.400 and this is gender roles is more important for men to show initially than women to show it

05:59:02.080 so what what trait should women be showing in the in this situation for a traditional man

05:59:07.540 all of their traditional values which means which are what which are what yeah which means

05:59:13.920 taking care of me that first date wait so yeah what's a woman what are the women what are the

05:59:19.880 female traits that they need to be displaying to the man on that first date i'm willing to 0.50

05:59:26.460 accept it can i pay for that date absolutely you're willing to accept accept what uh behavior

05:59:31.620 femininity is receiving also being able to accept and be thankful for that wait so 0.54

05:59:39.080 the traits that you need to display are that i'm gonna take your stuff no no not take your stuff

05:59:45.960 that's what receiving is wait what traits are you displaying are you giving to this man

05:59:52.560 to show that i should like me paying for this first date is worth it we have vetted each other

05:59:59.700 for a while now i'm not going out i'm not meeting you today and going out with you on a date tomorrow

06:00:04.700 i have been talking to you for a minimum of two weeks and we know each other so then why is he

06:00:11.340 paying for that date then because you've determined that he's generous he's already displayed that

06:00:15.520 i don't know that he's generous we've never been on a date so so what traits are is he finding out

06:00:20.980 about you on this first date because you're finding out generosity he knows enough about

06:00:25.600 me that he wants to spend time with me physically so so again what what traits are is he figuring

06:00:33.960 out about you on this first date because you're figuring out his generosity we'll give you that

06:00:38.680 you're figuring out generosity what are you giving shared experiences so we can bond together

06:00:43.620 shared experiences time together you bond together you could only talk to each other

06:00:52.240 on the phone and text each other for so long before you want to spend more time together

06:00:56.100 so i want to spend time what is he investing in our relationship because he knows me for

06:01:03.940 you know he knows about wait really quick we're gonna get right back to this topic

06:01:09.260 you said you're half black right okay keep going sorry i'm sorry i don't want to know 0.55

06:01:17.680 i don't want to know sorry sorry sorry keep going that's that's all it is it's just a joke 1.00

06:01:23.620 it's a joke it's a joke it's a joke it's a stupid you like me enough to ask me on a date 0.96

06:01:30.340 i will gladly accept i do want to spend time with you and now yes i think because i guess why is the 0.99

06:01:38.380 man paying because i am more of a traditional woman and i'm going to go for so okay so what

06:01:43.720 is that traditional what are the traditional things that a man is expecting uh from this

06:01:48.160 first date with a woman um would it turn you off as a traditional man if a woman paid for the date

06:01:55.440 uh yeah yeah it would that's why i don't do it okay so what i'm expecting certain things from

06:02:01.480 this date what are you expecting what are you expecting obviously i'm not expecting from sleep

06:02:05.980 with me but i'm expecting like virtues to be displayed what what i what i always find in 0.99

06:02:12.600 these in these uh in these conversations i have with women is they never really understand that

06:02:17.920 men are looking for a virtuous woman yeah like we're looking for someone a good i don't want

06:02:23.620 to say godly man is looking for a virtuous woman who's someone who's kind who is like looking for

06:02:29.800 leadership who wants to be a good helper who wants to be able to support you um where she's not

06:02:36.000 expecting you to just pay for everything i mean obviously i when i go on a first date i'm going

06:02:40.920 to but she's not assuming that of me like she doesn't assume that she just needs to be able

06:02:46.640 to receive whatever she can get from me because that's what she deserves as a woman no no no

06:02:51.620 she wants to be there like and she wants to display those virtues to me and one of those 1.00

06:02:56.580 key virtues that gold bar that she should have still have is her virginity like i protect myself

06:03:02.740 i i cherish those virtues that i hold strong to so when you take me on this first date i'm gonna

06:03:10.480 explain those to you. I'm going to show those to you. I'm going to be extremely kind to the

06:03:14.960 awaiting staff. I'm going to be extremely kind to you. I'm going to be interested in you. I'm

06:03:19.120 going to display those virtues. I never encountered that in these conversations.

06:03:23.480 Like, why are those never talked about? I think those are extremely important for us, man.

06:03:28.020 They are.

06:03:28.640 Why?

06:03:29.780 One quick question. I want to ask a question to the chat.

06:03:35.480 Do you guys think a woman, like, I don't know, I've had this experience, not that I,

06:03:39.240 like i don't really care and i don't think you should necessarily thank the person for just like

06:03:45.580 doing what their role is necessarily but i do think from like a purely polite courteous thing

06:03:53.820 like for example if a friend treats me to dinner i would thank them i've definitely been on dates

06:04:00.380 with women it could even be your girl like i want my girlfriend i think should say thank you

06:04:07.460 yeah if i take her if i yeah i mean i'm always going to be paying i'm always paying for the 1.00

06:04:12.920 food but yeah she should say thank you for the lunch or thank you for the dinner like that's

06:04:17.220 just a courteous thing beyond just dating and relationships but yo question for the chat have 0.99

06:04:22.360 you ever gone on a date with a woman and you paid the entire bill and she didn't do well okay two

06:04:29.660 questions for the chat do you think she should say thank you like hey thank you for the dinner

06:04:36.280 thank you for the day um and then have you ever been on a date with a woman where you paid for

06:04:41.140 the dinner whatever date and she did not thank you say it in the chat say in the chat people in

06:04:48.920 the chat are saying yes the woman should say thank you and then tell us um if you've been on a date

06:04:56.500 where the girl did not thank you because just saying oh yeah it's the least she can okay audrey

06:05:05.480 Audrey said it's the least she can do

06:05:08.100 Oh my goodness Audrey

06:05:10.100 Oh my goodness 1.00

06:05:11.380 See she's coming over to the 0.99

06:05:13.300 She agrees with me

06:05:15.700 Good job Audrey I'm proud of you

06:05:17.300 Congratulations Audrey 1.00

06:05:19.280 Oh we got this is pointless with the red hair 1.00

06:05:22.240 Oh 1.00

06:05:23.800 I paid last night and tipped 1.00

06:05:26.100 Oh shit she's wearing the pants 1.00

06:05:27.960 In the relationship 1.00

06:05:28.820 That's a woman with red hair and she 1.00

06:05:31.760 I heard it through the grapevine 1.00

06:05:35.240 that she pegs men just kidding i'm kidding i am joking she does not do that i made that up

06:05:41.260 uh i don't know i've definitely been on dates either first dates or dates with a girlfriend and 0.99

06:05:47.020 then again do i thank a woman when she cleans my house or does my laundry i fuck her after 0.66

06:05:55.260 but do i thank her i think that's a thank you to make her come that's a thank you 1.00

06:06:02.820 i'd rather have the thank you oh yeah are you sure oh yeah are you sure women are good at 0.87

06:06:11.020 faking so like are you sure she's getting hers or is she just being nice oh uh well i mean i think 1.00

06:06:18.600 it's uh i should add that to my i should add that to my girlfriend application do you fake orgasms 0.91

06:06:25.400 like but no women should not fake orgasms and uh yeah no you shouldn't um so i mean it's possible

06:06:33.980 a woman's but it's kind of polite what's polite you don't want to like sometimes make someone feel

06:06:39.980 bad you know what i mean so it's like you're like okay like i don't care everybody's i don't care

06:06:44.860 sometimes but some men do like yeah but that's pathetic like it's almost like you're protecting

06:06:50.400 their ego no no no no first off you shouldn't lie it's it's bad and then if the guy thinks he's 0.94

06:06:55.800 pleasing you but he's not it's really bad communicate women always hold on women women 1.00

06:07:01.040 complain about how oh men are terrible communicators you guys fucking fake orgasms like 1.00

06:07:06.180 what that's no here tell the guy what you like uh you know communicate with him tell him what 1.00

06:07:15.700 you like if he's not rubbing you in the right place or whatever communicate that to him but uh 1.00

06:07:23.060 yeah no women should not fake orgasms because it's like he if he thinks he's bringing you to

06:07:29.920 climax but you're not climaxing he's going to continue to do that thing but it's not always

06:07:33.860 like i think when you as you get older like you get more confident to advocate for yourself that

06:07:38.840 way in those situations but especially when you're younger you kind of are like learning and you

06:07:42.300 almost like don't know if it's you if it's them and then you don't want to like you don't know

06:07:46.500 how someone's going to respond so yeah I could say hey like you're not really getting me where

06:07:50.300 I need and they can be super offended and like it takes a left turn or they could be receptive

06:07:55.040 you don't know but you almost want to like play it safe and just be like okay like yeah that was

06:07:59.300 great well I think look obviously there's a right way and a wrong way to go about expressing you

06:08:05.120 know, uh, like you, you can go about it in a way and looks, maybe a guy's just insecure

06:08:11.620 across the board.

06:08:13.120 And even if you, uh, are as diplomatic as possible in your explanation, he's still going

06:08:20.160 to get bent out of shape no matter what.

06:08:22.060 But I mean, is that really the kind of guy you want to be with?

06:08:24.480 But, um, ultimately faking orgasm super, you shouldn't do it.

06:08:30.340 It's bad.

06:08:31.160 It's really bad and unhealthy.

06:08:34.120 Shouldn't do it.

06:08:35.120 unhealthy it's bad communicate it's bad communication it's like then okay you're

06:08:41.160 habitually but then you're what you're setting yourself up for down the road assuming i'm 0.68

06:08:47.280 assuming if you're faking an orgasm this is a guy you want to keep seeing right um eventually like

06:08:54.000 you're gonna have to keep that going indefinitely um so there's going to be a point down the road

06:08:59.920 where you're like unless you're just indefinitely gonna keep faking orgasms and never coming 0.98

06:09:04.980 you're going to have to hit at one point or the other you're going to have to hit hit his ego 0.53

06:09:12.880 at some point so it's like why even start just make it from the get-go just tell the guy what

06:09:21.080 you like that's what i said i feel like it's as you get older you get the more confidence but

06:09:26.140 when you're younger you're like you especially as a female like you don't have that confidence

06:09:30.940 to sit there like i'm talking like 18 19 years old you're not going to sit there and tell that 0.95

06:09:36.120 person that you're intimate with especially one of your first few partners like hey like that

06:09:41.120 didn't feel good that didn't get that didn't get me there like you're just you're not going to have

06:09:45.400 that kind of boldness it's a very vulnerable place well when you're young you don't really know what

06:09:51.480 you yeah like when you're when you're that young you don't really know women i'm telling you they

06:09:56.540 don't, I will tell you 100% sex in my twenties compared to sex. Now it's two different animals. 0.99

06:10:02.400 Like it's, it's very different. I mean, the orgasm response between women is very, is varied, 0.99

06:10:11.140 very varied. So, I mean, you can have a woman in her mid twenties, thirties who has significant

06:10:17.700 difficulty climaxing and you can have an 18, 19, 20 year old woman who's like multi-orgasmic and 0.99

06:10:24.400 squirts and does all this shit. So, I mean, it's just, there's a physiological component 1.00

06:10:28.760 that I don't think you can necessarily ignore. Um, but, uh, yeah, faking orgasms, super retarded, 1.00

06:10:37.460 terrible communication, super retarded. You shouldn't do it. Um, I don't think it takes 1.00

06:10:43.540 that even for an, uh, inexperienced, uh, well I would, why would an inexperienced woman, 1.00

06:10:50.340 like it seems like it would be more of an act to fake an orgasm then don't do it 0.93

06:10:58.900 no i was just like no because like you know when you're at least in my experience when i was younger

06:11:04.740 it's like you also don't like for me in my mindset i didn't know if it was me or if it was him

06:11:11.120 because like there are some women who like it's hard for them to get there like true and like

06:11:16.500 sometimes they can't so it's like i'm not gonna sit here and tell him it's him if i don't know

06:11:20.820 maybe it's not so like i'm just gonna make this a good experience for him at least you know because

06:11:26.520 i'm also like if he comes it's a good experience right but some men also get satisfaction off of

06:11:34.300 sure yes well yes i agree it is it is satisfying to the man for the woman they ask you like did

06:11:39.820 you come and you're like but i lose attraction for you if they can't get you there that's why

06:11:43.900 you have to tell them how to get you there but again sometimes it may not be them if you can't

06:11:49.540 get a woman off you'll it's better if you can get her off like it makes the sex better um and of 0.84

06:11:55.620 course as the man you should also be considerate of your partner's pleasure and enjoyment but it 0.98

06:12:02.640 is the case that for some women uh even they can't even bring themselves to climax some women

06:12:08.700 even through masturbation even using toys um so again the the physiological response is is varied

06:12:15.380 and it's different between some women um but uh i think if if it is the case that that the woman 0.97

06:12:23.540 like it's just hard to make her come i don't think that the like it yeah it's better if she could 1.00

06:12:31.220 come if she could come easily if she could have multiples if she's fucking doing exorcism 0.88

06:12:37.120 freaking out when she's coming or whatever i guess that's better but like i the this idea that a man 0.99

06:12:42.940 would be dissatisfied in a relationship with a woman who has like extreme difficulty climaxing

06:12:47.820 like regardless of course it's optimal for her to be able to come but if she doesn't i think men

06:12:53.800 can still love a woman who has difficulty coming i don't know i'm i don't think it's completely

06:13:00.360 necessary and it's it's also not necessary to have children so a man's orgasm is necessary 0.73

06:13:06.820 to have children a woman's is not now just to be clear i'm not i think a woman's pleasure is 0.79

06:13:13.140 important and ideally she comes before you as many times as she can but it's not a necessary 0.70

06:13:21.180 component of reproduction you disagree no i agree it's not necessary i just don't i think

06:13:29.680 uh if you can get your woman off i think as a man you would eventually lose some attraction to her 0.90

06:13:37.900 i think it depends like if other men have made her come perhaps if she's just like a really 1.00

06:13:45.520 difficult rubik's cube her clits i don't know she's a fucking she's a difficult case she's a 1.00

06:13:51.940 difficult patient uh then i mean it it would it is what it is some women can't some women can't 1.00

06:14:00.500 come period some women just can't come so i mean it's better if she comes it's way better if she 1.00

06:14:10.940 it's better if she's multi-orgasmic and her pussy is like every 10 seconds she's orgasm orgasm like 1.00

06:14:17.920 that's better but i don't think it would prevent a man from being satisfied in a relationship 0.99

06:14:22.500 with a woman who just physiologically had either extreme difficulty climaxing or just couldn't do

06:14:29.160 it i think she could find love i think she can find a boyfriend and a husband i mean it's still 1.00

06:14:36.640 pussy pussies like pizza like i had dominoes yesterday regrettably i was just hungry i needed 0.99

06:14:44.260 some food and it was the only thing open and i gotta tell i've sometimes domino's is good but 0.99

06:14:49.140 this particular whoever made it it was fucking pretty bad but it was still pizza it's hard to 0.99

06:14:56.440 fuck up pizza it was still i mean i ate the thing you know pussies like the reflection 1.00

06:15:03.920 like whereas dick i mean dick can be expired you know like you don't even want the dick 1.00

06:15:13.120 but like unless the pussy i mean smells bad or something like you can't turn down pussies what 1.00

06:15:20.300 i'm saying like there's no such thing really as bad pussy like it you have to go out of your way 1.00

06:15:26.080 mason turns it down well i guess what i'm saying let me most pussy how about this wait wait let me 1.00

06:15:33.240 change it let me change it up let me none of it's good enough for me most pussy most pussy 1.00

06:15:39.300 Is good pussy 1.00

06:15:41.000 There's 1.00

06:15:42.740 I would argue there's way less 0.99

06:15:45.340 Good dick 1.00

06:15:45.900 There's more good pussy than 1.00

06:15:49.120 There is good dick 1.00

06:15:50.320 Unless like the woman's like 1.00

06:15:53.260 A fucking hallway or something 1.00

06:15:55.040 Or 1.00

06:15:56.240 She's just like 1.00

06:15:59.360 Throwing a hot dog down the hallway

06:16:00.820 You can't feel anything

06:16:02.700 That's crazy

06:16:04.900 Is that real? 1.00

06:16:06.580 There are some loose women 1.00

06:16:07.980 you can't feel anything 1.00

06:16:10.300 there's minimal friction let's just say there's it's like a cavernous cavernous yeah cave like a

06:16:19.820 cave cave-esque yeah wow yeah so i mean i don't know it's honestly though i would say that's rare

06:16:32.180 i'll be honest it's did these women have children before no oh my oh wow yeah and i gotta be honest

06:16:44.420 it was a bit of an issue wow wow yeah it was a bit of an issue and uh

06:16:53.280 it's super rare though like most women like most like i want i don't know i'm not gonna 0.99

06:17:00.080 review my body count but like most women pussy like there's no issues there what do you say 1.00

06:17:09.320 you you i'm there's nothing they can do really it's they're just fucked basically oh wow yeah 1.00

06:17:16.040 what am i supposed to say sorry dear your pussy's too loose felt nothing 1.00

06:17:19.760 no you would never say that you just got to resort to oral sex or anal i guess 1.00

06:17:27.080 poor mason poor mason earmuffs mason earmuffs his poor that's why i stick to anal sex 1.00

06:17:38.420 yeah no but it's rare the loose weight chat loose pussy is rare brian has really bad takes on pussy 1.00

06:17:45.920 what the fuck is brian a two-incher what the no i said hey first off 1.00

06:17:52.360 no i don't know who that was first off i think that it's super rare like most women and it's 0.98

06:18:01.180 totally fine uh but there are there come on chat some somebody in the chat 0.98

06:18:06.280 oh yeah that reminds me does anybody want a popsicle you don't want a popsicle anybody okay 0.99

06:18:16.620 i'm straight yeah i'm good uh wait where was i going with that no chat chat like most pussies 0.94

06:18:25.140 great on a cavern but sometimes like rarely you think like let's be honest it's i don't know what 1.00

06:18:32.380 the breakdown is maybe it's like three percent i think it might be two to three percent of women 1.00

06:18:37.700 might have the cavernous vagina uh i'm sorry the cavernous cavernous vagina it's like the grand 0.99

06:18:48.800 canyon it's crazy uh okay uh molly read this for me please 1.00

06:18:55.860 into the mic we call it throwing a hot dog down a hallway yep throwing the hot dog down the hallway

06:19:04.680 uh so i don't know i don't know i don't know where i was going with that uh we're why should

06:19:11.080 men pay on dates that's where we you guys bring it to you guys bring it to crazy places why should

06:19:16.500 men pay goodness gracious well i think to touch on what you had said about like you know you want

06:19:21.020 to see certain traits which i was going to touch on it was that it's a way of almost like a man

06:19:28.180 showing that he's able to lead and then also women showing that she's able to be led in a way like

06:19:33.660 if a man is planning the date he's paying for it but but hold on couldn't i lead like this

06:19:38.840 get your wallet out you're paying for the date that's leading right that's not leading that's

06:19:46.100 leading no go get your purse go get your pink credit card out and pay for the date that would

06:19:52.740 be me i'm telling her what to do that's not that's leading that's a gangster by the way you know what

06:19:57.640 i did one time that's gangster no i was having dinner at a bar and there was a guy that came up

06:20:02.520 to me and he sat next to me and was like oh what are you drinking oh here blah blah blah whatever

06:20:08.560 and then the check came he's like oh you gotta split it he's like don't split it i put it i'll

06:20:13.660 pay for you baby don't worry and i left don't worry i got you baby you're we're splitting this

06:20:19.940 don't worry i got you wow very sassy yeah they put in a cup i wasn't into him i was expecting

06:20:25.640 to pay but because he said that to the waitress oh you paid for the whole thing i was like don't

06:20:29.740 worry baby i got you here good for him he didn't waste money on a girl who wasn't interested i mean

06:20:34.600 it works out but uh i don't know ultimately uh i don't know we're you mentioned alpha before and

06:20:42.400 i don't really like the alpha beta thing it's just the to get to the point to the be a descriptor

06:20:47.760 yeah i get it well what's more alpha a guy telling his first date take out your credit card you're

06:20:56.280 paying for this or the guy who's like hold on um oh i'm i'm gonna pay for the date like come on

06:21:09.380 bro it's obviously the it's obviously more alpha for the guy to be like you got this right no that's 0.86

06:21:17.440 very douchebag that is not alpha it's so alpha male that is so douche you have like a flat bill

06:21:23.060 hat with the sticker but anyways why should men pay i'll be honest with you i i like um i like to 0.96

06:21:29.580 be pursued back in the day and i want a man to want to go out with me and want to go out and

06:21:34.940 have dinner and um it is 100 based on um my beliefs and how i feel about it it it's yeah i

06:21:43.420 could pay a million times over and after you date for a while absolutely grab the check but i want 0.98

06:21:48.880 to be taken out and pursued old school way and if a man looked at me and was like bitch by my 0.94

06:21:55.800 dinner i'd be like deuces because that's not what i want so okay going back to the questionnaire 0.91

06:22:02.360 men should pay on first dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous husband or i

06:22:07.560 even suppose boyfriend should be willing to die protecting you take the bullet uh to which all

06:22:12.940 of you agree if we can say men should do all these things what should women do

06:22:18.400 uh hold the fort down what does that mean mean being the cook clean all of it but help make your 0.69

06:22:29.440 life better while you go to work and go to war and slay all of the dragons whatever makes your

06:22:36.360 life better if you want to come home to um i just need my loafers there or i just i need the bed to

06:22:46.100 be made every night fine i'll made it what do you know what my husband does he goes to work i do

06:22:51.700 everything else i take care of him i think it's more just like the overall support system in

06:22:57.060 general not outside like not just the household but like if whatever his dream is for us for our

06:23:04.700 family i should be doing whatever it takes to help us achieve that dream whatever way he needs

06:23:09.840 whether it's in the household whether it's you know helping him within his business or whether

06:23:14.280 it's like you should be his support you should be his rib 100 i mean women should just they should 0.99

06:23:23.240 take care of everything at home the cooking the cleaning taking care of kids men are supposed to

06:23:30.140 work and provide and protect meanwhile everything in the home like we're we're caretakers so that's

06:23:37.880 that's a woman's job okay uh so what okay so those are some of the things but it seems the burden of

06:23:47.040 should seems very front loaded on men whereas like all these things you described like maybe

06:23:54.820 when you move in with a woman she'll do those things but before that women typically aren't 0.86

06:24:00.600 going to be cooking cleaning you're like if you don't live together most women are not going to 0.99

06:24:05.360 be cleaning the guy's house most women are not going to be like cook maybe cooking is a bit on 0.78

06:24:10.440 the fence uh they're not going to be cleaning they're not going to be doing folding laundry 1.00

06:24:14.920 they're not typically going to be doing those things unless they're living together which can

06:24:18.660 be months or like years down the road. I guess I'm looking for when Mason was talking about like

06:24:24.980 the women being virtuous, I would say if men should be all those things, should women be

06:24:33.300 virtuous? Should women be virgins? I don't think that that translates into like virginity per se 1.00

06:24:42.180 versus other traits. Like if, okay, yeah, if a man should pay for the dates and set, then yeah,

06:24:48.600 you should support him in that way i'm out you should support him paying for the date like no

06:24:54.380 like support him as his woman like for instance like the guy i'm dealing with i am a very nurtured

06:24:59.520 caretaker person we're not in a relationship right we don't live together like you were saying

06:25:03.180 most women do you clean his house um i don't clean his house because he i don't like i don't really

06:25:08.840 but i make his meal prep because he works a lot so i know that like he doesn't have time to do

06:25:14.860 that so like i make his meal prep for him and i make sure i drop it off to him when he needs it

06:25:18.960 so i can make sure he's fed when he has free time on the weekends if i know he's tired after working

06:25:23.660 i'm not gonna you know make him say hey let's go out but like the other day i made him come to my

06:25:28.560 house i cooked him dinner we took a bath like we you know i'm going to nourish and nurture him

06:25:35.080 in those moments as well like well okay is it wrong for a man to say a woman should be a virgin

06:25:41.320 no however in society back in the day the average age of marriage was 18 years old 0.98

06:25:51.480 and now we have women before graduating from high school who have fucked 10 men 0.95

06:25:57.620 that's real that is also true uh no no correct i mean 0.97

06:26:04.580 because my mom got married when she was 17 yeah well i mean so i guess like to

06:26:10.500 paint Brian's picture that men paying for the first date has not changed since that time however

06:26:18.080 what has definitely changed is women being virgins by that first date that first ever date 0.88

06:26:24.500 that standard has always been held up for men that you must pay for you must pay for that first date 0.65

06:26:32.700 you must be the one to approach you must have all of these characteristics but women are pretty 1.00

06:26:38.640 lax with their well the liberal women don't have a leg to stand on for that one agreed but even the 1.00

06:26:44.460 liberal women can still sit back wait for men to take all the initiative all the burden all that 1.00

06:26:49.740 stuff they men still have to lead men still have to be if you want to be a feminist and be a liberal 1.00

06:26:54.920 then you do your 50 yeah but i mean feminism isn't is like completely contradictory because 0.99

06:27:00.440 like even if you're a feminist even if you say 50 50 like women still sit back women are very 1.00

06:27:06.620 passive when it comes to dating women generally speaking like don't shoot their shot they don't 0.90

06:27:12.480 take initiative they don't carry the conversational burden they're not making the first move they're

06:27:16.940 not going for the first kiss they're not moving things forward uh physically generally speaking

06:27:21.340 and so all that burden falls on to men these are all potential rejection points for men uh men need

06:27:27.700 to pay for dates even liberal women will have an expectation not all liberal women but a good

06:27:31.720 amount of liberal women still want men to pay for dates and then they have this sometimes they'll 0.60

06:27:35.940 even rationalize it in this really backwards way of like well uh because of the wage gap and because 1.00

06:27:42.680 of like my other liberal feminist talking points because of the patriarchy men have like this

06:27:47.500 privileged position and power in the wage gap they make more money so therefore they should 0.94

06:27:51.380 pay for dates and it's all very retarded and uh woke and also retarded i already said that but 0.99

06:27:57.540 You're being redundant, Brian. 0.99

06:27:59.400 A little bit of redundancy, but ultimately, I don't know. 1.00

06:28:04.420 It seems like we're allowed to say men should, but in terms of the ways in which we should say women should, women really aren't doing that. 1.00

06:28:14.660 I don't think women are doing their should. 1.00

06:28:17.760 Women are not shoulding. 1.00

06:28:21.860 Women are not holding up their end of the should deal. 0.99

06:28:25.240 yeah like it's so easy to say in our society there's no backlash to saying men should pay 1.00

06:28:30.640 first dates but there is a lot of backlash for saying women should be chased to deserve a first

06:28:36.860 date or even just like even if that's too much of a an ask for a woman to be a virgin women should

06:28:43.460 be submissive that's too much too much that's not appropriate it should be 50 50 but only in the

06:28:50.300 ways that benefit women i don't know no it's a hundred a hundred i feel like that's more of that 0.63

06:28:57.460 like feministic mindset though of like um when you're talking about oh women should be submissive

06:29:03.180 they don't want to be submissive that is like that like i don't need no man type of mindset 0.98

06:29:07.760 where like someone who's more traditional which i feel like a lot of us are is that like i have

06:29:13.100 no problem submitting to my man like i just also want that you provide me the space to be submissive

06:29:21.260 like you're saying like if you're making me go work full time and you're working full time like

06:29:26.420 i'm not always going to feel like i can be in my software i can be feminine i can be so you have to

06:29:31.520 create that space for your woman to feel safe enough to do that too yeah but would this fly

06:29:36.920 in the other direction if a man were to say well i'm masculine but only when the woman has created

06:29:45.460 a safe space for me a woman does have to create that space for you to yes well i have to create 0.99

06:29:51.340 that i'm i'm no longer gonna pay for my wife because she's not being very feminine no it's

06:29:57.480 more like no it's communication no no no what i'm saying is what i'm saying is like this this cope

06:30:02.680 about oh well I'll be feminine when the man is masculine I'll be feminine when the guy has

06:30:09.080 created the safe space and comfort for me but I as the woman am the arbiter of when that safe space 0.57

06:30:16.660 has been fully manifested and created whereas like you women would not tolerate a guy who's like 0.65

06:30:24.260 acting feminine but he's like look once I feel comfortable with you and once you've you as the 0.84

06:30:31.820 woman have created the safe space for me then i'm going to be masculine then i'm going to be a 1.00

06:30:35.960 leader you'd be like bro you're a fucking bitch what what are you talking about creating that 0.99

06:30:40.020 space doesn't mean like oh it's all this time that has to pass like creating those spaces can 1.00

06:30:44.880 be moment by moment for instance like if we're going on a date and you're planning it now you've

06:30:50.060 created a space for me to follow your lead to be submissive in that way and same way for a man

06:30:55.940 it's like i'm creating if i my man can't go to work all day and then he comes home and i'm like

06:31:01.040 you need to clean and then because now i'm not creating that safe space for him to be in his

06:31:06.580 masculinity either this idea that simply by virtue of the man uh initiating and paying for the first

06:31:13.320 date that that has thus created the space it's for women it's a step it's a i can't tell you the

06:31:18.860 amount of women who go on dates and the man pays for the date and he does everything right and 1.00

06:31:23.440 she's still a contentious vexatious quarrelsome nagging fucking pain in the ass masculine woman 0.99

06:31:32.080 like me paying for the date doesn't magically make a woman feminine his judgment is bad and 1.00

06:31:38.340 he didn't bet her correctly well that's secondary this idea that simply by virtue of paying for the

06:31:44.380 date that this somehow forces women into femininity is complete no that's not the case

06:31:50.660 No, it doesn't force them into it, but someone who is the maturity and the outlook of, like, looking for that, like, date to marry, like, looking for their person, that is going to open that space for them.

06:32:05.800 But someone who's just looking to take and get a quick meal or have a quick, yeah, they're not going to appreciate it.

06:32:11.160 It's not going to open up the space.

06:32:12.380 It's not going to go anywhere.

06:32:13.420 It's just going to be exactly what you're saying.

06:32:16.120 Right-o.

06:32:16.760 All right, we're going to move on to a different topic here. 1.00

06:32:20.660 but i still um i don't know maybe we could do a thing where if the woman has a body count of more

06:32:30.480 than three then she revokes her right to the man paying for the first date what do you guys think

06:32:39.280 about that no still should pay what about we got a sex worker here i've previously said on podcasts

06:32:47.040 maybe you'll weigh in on this that i don't believe uh women who do only fans or women who are sex

06:32:53.420 workers uh deserve chivalry deserve traditional treatment now you might still get it men definitely 0.98

06:33:01.200 still will pay for dates and do all that shit for sex workers women who are sex workers can still 0.86

06:33:07.240 get that treatment i don't think they deserve it though and just also let me caveat i don't think 1.00

06:33:13.900 women who are involved in that kind of work i don't think they should be mistreated they should

06:33:18.680 still be treated with respect if a man opts to perhaps mistakenly date her no offense 1.00

06:33:24.940 but they don't deserve the tradition they don't deserve the chivalry because they're not 0.99

06:33:31.000 traditional women what do you think about that i mean i definitely think that when you are putting

06:33:37.880 yourself in that environment where you are like giving your body in exchange for something to

06:33:41.980 like multiple different men like you are you can't really expect a man to have that same kind of like

06:33:49.220 respect and chivalry for you because like you're he knows like you're just giving it

06:33:56.400 to everybody and it's in the open it's not like what do you think because you're the sex worker

06:34:00.840 so i agree with you i mean i wouldn't um meet someone and expect them to like treat me like

06:34:07.740 a virgin like I feel like I couldn't talk to you and be like well you you don't want to date me

06:34:15.080 like that that would be crazy you know okay what do you guys think um fair proposition that if a 0.88

06:34:23.920 woman is a sex worker uh the man doesn't have to pay for the date or should he still pay for the

06:34:28.760 it i don't know what that world looks like but i would imagine only uh that maybe they're dating

06:34:38.500 like people that are also maybe in some sort of related field maybe also male escorts maybe 0.97

06:34:47.080 there's not enough there wouldn't be enough male only fans creators or male prostitutes or male

06:34:54.280 sex workers to be able to match up with the female or just men that have a massive high 0.99

06:35:03.160 body count that that's not that important to them to seek in a female partner i'll make the 1.00

06:35:10.180 question super simple does a girl who does only fans do you think she deserves uh when she's 0.79

06:35:16.560 dating should the guy pay for her dates it depends on who that man is and how he values her

06:35:25.260 he wants to take okay i acknowledge that there are men who will take only fans girls out on dates

06:35:33.960 and those men will pay for those dates that's not in dispute the only fans girls can still get men

06:35:40.740 to pay for dates the question is is do they deserve that

06:35:46.940 i i don't know i don't know i i don't i don't have an educated so if it's okay so right now

06:35:56.920 would you say if i took a girl out i'm a virgin if i took a girl out and i didn't pay for her

06:36:03.420 first for the first date would that be wrong for for me for me no no no it's a regular

06:36:10.720 lady a regular lady yes uh-huh and you didn't i didn't pay for the date would that be wrong it

06:36:15.080 doesn't align with the values that you have so does it would it be wrong okay yes for you so

06:36:19.060 would it be wrong if i did the same thing with a sex worker yes because that is not your value

06:36:26.140 system so what are you doing taking one out so that's the question brian's asking so i should

06:36:31.400 still provide traditional values to a person who is very much not traditional

06:36:36.400 that's a gray area i don't know yeah well i mean according to what you just said yeah i

06:36:43.920 you're abandoning your traditional values so go on a date with her

06:36:47.720 okay so don't take her out on a date yeah i mean i wouldn't she's not your girl you know so yeah

06:36:54.620 but okay you get to pass a law you get to pass a law that determines who pays for dates in what

06:37:03.420 scenarios now when you're passing the law uh let's go ahead and grant that if the man

06:37:10.080 and the woman neither of them are sex workers i assume you would pass some sort of law that the

06:37:15.980 man should have to pay for the date but in the situation in the situation of a woman being a

06:37:20.720 sex worker would you pass the law under that circumstance that the man should pay for the date 0.77

06:37:26.100 uh legally speaking no it is 50 whoever whoever wants to pay for it it's up for debate

06:37:32.480 that doesn't answer the question there is no law for that the law it's a hypothetical you're the

06:37:38.880 i know and as a dictator i would say there is no law as to who pays it is up to those people going

06:37:45.240 out okay so are you saying that but it's granted in the hypothetical that you would

06:37:55.320 you are passing the law but you get to make a determination as to which couplings correct so

06:38:02.300 the couplings would be traditional traditional the man pays the coupling would be traditional man

06:38:07.160 and sex worker he doesn't have to pay he does not have to pay but is highly encouraged to

06:38:15.120 because you need to do your own vetting figure it out

06:38:18.080 he's go to man school and figure out how to vet a woman i don't know

06:38:23.940 okay that's don't take her out if she's not okay yes men should probably not date sex workers like

06:38:30.880 yes but that's a separate conversation yes um like okay that's a separate conversation though

06:38:37.660 um okay uh let's see here where am i gonna take this um maybe there's a better example i could

06:38:46.260 views than like dictator, like passing a law and who has to pay. But, um, uh, okay here,

06:38:53.900 we're going to do, let's see here. Uh, Oh, Ooh, this is a good question. Wait. Um,

06:39:05.540 one sec hold on let me get this

06:39:12.920 I guess I'll do that a little later actually but ultimately though

06:39:18.900 I don't know I think if I have to die for a woman 1.00

06:39:22.600 she should be a virgin 1.00

06:39:23.660 definitely yeah 1.00

06:39:33.740 because i don't know man um it's like i gotta give my life for a woman who's like got a body 1.00

06:39:43.720 count of like 50 and then like within she'll probably be back on tinder at my funeral 0.87

06:39:49.420 she'll be getting dicked down within two weeks and i gotta die for her like how about this can

06:39:56.520 i ask you guys a question hypothetical scenario you have precognition have you seen minority

06:40:02.220 report with tom cruise where he could like tell when crimes like if a crime was about to happen 0.92

06:40:07.160 or some shit um you have precognition that a man is married to a woman well you don't have

06:40:16.500 precognition of that but in the scenario the man is married to the woman and you know that within 1.00

06:40:23.260 a month of him dying she's going to be fucking another guy 1.00

06:40:27.560 now you have some some power to like tell him hey bro she's gonna fuck a guy right afterwards 1.00

06:40:36.660 like maybe don't die for um do you think he should not die for her if she would 1.00

06:40:44.080 fuck another dude within a month yeah yeah i wait yes sir no he shouldn't he shouldn't die 0.99

06:40:52.480 no no he shouldn't no he shouldn't no okay so how long though three months like if she 1.00

06:40:59.320 fucks three months after he dies years no it would how long is the relationship is it like 0.81

06:41:05.780 they have kids have a family all that they've been together well i mean he's still making the 0.99

06:41:11.160 ultimate sacrifice regardless of how long they've been together but let's say i mean respectively i

06:41:17.700 feel like a year after you're like someone passes you know like for instance like with my ex like

06:41:23.660 it took me eight months from just a breakup of a girlfriend boyfriend relationship to even be open

06:41:29.200 to go on a date with someone you know so it's like if you're talking about like a marriage and your

06:41:34.220 husband just died like I couldn't even imagine dating let alone but like if you had to put a

06:41:40.200 timeline I feel like a year is a process a good process of grief but how about you've been together

06:41:46.700 with a girl for for for 10 years now how long how soon and and there's a scenario where you have to 0.96

06:41:57.660 die protecting her how soon can she fuck a new guy where you say he shouldn't be willing to give his 0.96

06:42:06.080 life for her how soon yeah so does that make sense i don't know i i would probably be so traumatized 1.00

06:42:13.440 that I that would be so long before I could even well but like so like let's say a woman okay here 1.00

06:42:20.580 maybe this will simplify things a woman waits one year before fucking a new guy 0.75

06:42:28.000 should the guy who's been dating her for 10 years right so one year one year is a good 0.88

06:42:36.080 amount of time right kind of should he give his life for a woman that one year later she'd be 0.63

06:42:46.040 fucking another guy no no okay what about three years is that acceptable like okay it's been three 0.94

06:42:55.840 years that's a long time to grieve and get over the trauma i am not dying for a woman who is 1.00

06:43:03.260 10 years she has to wait a fucking decade and even then i still like in the grave i'm pissed off 1.00

06:43:10.360 like bitch you should have been the fucking widow like if something happened and he died for me i 1.00

06:43:16.020 don't you want him to be happy i you want him to i don't think i could be in another woman's 1.00

06:43:22.080 vagina really i will come back and no i'm just kidding um i couldn't move on fast like i mean 0.99

06:43:28.660 it would be i don't even know if i ever could that would be so devastating i don't think a man

06:43:33.720 the i honestly here's the only scenario a man should die for a woman she was a virgin when

06:43:40.460 they met okay she's pregnant she was a virgin she was a virgin and if he dies she never touches

06:43:49.660 another man again that is the only scenario in which a man should die for no i'm telling you 0.83

06:43:56.620 Like, these girls have an expectation, I gotta die for you 1.00

06:43:59.620 That's perma, that's perma 1.00

06:44:01.440 You need to give me perma for me to be perma 1.00

06:44:05.280 If I'm gonna be perma dead, you gotta be perma sexless 1.00

06:44:09.600 What if you have children and there's a good man that wants to take care of her and her children? 1.00

06:44:16.800 Tough

06:44:17.120 Tough luck

06:44:18.880 He's a good man 0.99

06:44:21.740 Is he asexual?

06:44:23.320 Okay, fine 1.00

06:44:23.800 No, hold on

06:44:24.420 i i actually did have this conversation nope i had this conversation with my ex-husband

06:44:28.920 and i said if i died and something happened to me i would love for you to have the companionship

06:44:35.720 of another woman and i know you would do a good vetting process yeah and i know she would be

06:44:39.980 wonderful to you and the children i i well i'm fine like for me i would probably if my

06:44:46.520 life of 10 years died you know i'll give it a couple weeks but what i did say is in this scenario

06:44:53.960 if i'm in a coma if i'm on a coma do not ever pull the plug i will come back okay well look

06:45:00.340 ultimately though i don't know she has to be a virgin if if a woman wants me to die for her 0.67

06:45:06.120 she has to be a virgin when we meet and then uh she can i have to know somehow i don't know how 0.99

06:45:12.940 i would ever guarantee this she cannot fuck another man ever ever it's over she's struggling 1.00

06:45:21.440 She's struggling financially. 1.00

06:45:22.700 This man and his white horse. 1.00

06:45:25.320 Oh, she's going to take Dick? 1.00

06:45:26.900 No.

06:45:27.860 He's loving her.

06:45:29.340 He's loving her.

06:45:30.280 Another man wants to love her and take care of her.

06:45:33.260 I'm sorry.

06:45:34.060 The memory of me should supersede.

06:45:37.520 I cannot.

06:45:38.540 The memory of me should supersede her base desire.

06:45:45.580 I actually have a friend whose husband passed away.

06:45:49.020 And she has two daughters.

06:45:49.900 and she's wonderful and in when he was dying he said i would like you for you to move on but

06:45:56.940 never forget me always talk about me to our daughters that was his last i'm sorry i just i

06:46:02.580 if she won't find someone who will i just have very you know i just want that woman who like

06:46:09.720 i'm just the final one you know even again even if we only dated for like a month or something 1.00

06:46:14.580 keep on she can't fuck any more people like i don't care i could like have after i break up 1.00

06:46:21.240 with a girl i could have been like with three other women after i broke up with her but she 0.99

06:46:25.780 can't date anyone after me you're delusional that's a very delulu yeah she's no i feel like 0.92

06:46:32.940 she's got to be perma stuck to me i'm kidding on that one i'm kidding that one's a bit ridiculous 0.87

06:46:39.400 but i will i'm not lying i don't think i should have to die for uh a woman who during her time 0.99

06:46:48.500 on earth after my death would allow another man to put his penis in her thankfully the odds are

06:46:56.060 in your favor that's probably not going to happen what's not going to happen uh that you're going 0.99

06:47:00.220 to have to die for a woman that dramatically i will say sure it's unlikely you're saying like

06:47:05.700 oh like if you in that situation where it's like you had to die for her i do feel like you know

06:47:10.660 what like in a woman's place it's the least you could do to just like he gave you life basically 1.00

06:47:16.280 like he let you're the reason you get to walk this earth the least you could do is not fuck 0.98

06:47:20.340 is not any other men while you're talking regular life like you died of natural causes like in i 0.99

06:47:28.300 think after some time you grieving like you should be able to like move on but i also feel like it

06:47:34.280 wait hold on uh by the way tiffany any uh gifted 20 and over i don't think i told you this not

06:47:39.880 your fault uh 20 and over gifted leave them so i can shout them out yo natalia thank you for the 0.98

06:47:44.840 gifted 50 whatever memberships uh natalia guys w's in the chat for natalia what a fucking 0.98

06:47:50.280 legend natalia is thank you natalia love you thank you natalia thank you oh my god oh wait 0.99

06:48:00.200 i can do the gay voice that's the one oh my god molly your little butterfly tattoo is so cute 0.59

06:48:09.100 you do a good game that was frightening that's right oh my god she's got braces too i just 0.98

06:48:13.920 noticed oh my god the list is real just like and the little pretty poison you are so pretty oh my 0.95

06:48:22.520 on you sound gay she's giving me nothing molly gives me nothing okay uh all right next topic 0.99

06:48:30.300 let me blast through this i'm gonna wrap the show early tonight all right we got mason here 0.99

06:48:35.360 your virginity is still intact mason you can hide it natalia thank you very much natalia thank you

06:48:41.020 thank you natalia thank you that was so bad i my trump impression is not the best uh i think yeah

06:48:50.680 maybe uh okay uh i did okay we already talked about the mason stuff uh yeah uh we got jade

06:49:01.960 massage therapist uh you have jade you you have is it two fathers or how many you have how many

06:49:09.840 kids oh i have my nephew that i've raised oh you don't have kids i'm sorry i got my notes mixed up

06:49:16.340 um you oh you've got disagreement some of his opinions on the value of a woman past a certain

06:49:21.860 age uh so what are my opinions what have i said i'm trying to remember now the value of a woman

06:49:31.320 past a certain age oh i think it was um kind of like when you have mentioned before about like um

06:49:39.020 like when as a woman gets older she loses her value like because of one like i think you've 0.96

06:49:46.000 said before about like um her ability to not have children anymore like you know she just 1.00

06:49:50.820 loses her values age but then at the same time you've like talked about like women getting like 0.88

06:49:57.960 you know work done and this and that but women are getting work done to present themselves as

06:50:02.680 younger so they feel like they have more value because you've said that like as women get older

06:50:07.380 they lose their value what does that have to do with the work done thing though well first off

06:50:12.340 i haven't said that you did earlier you were when you were saying about like you would never pay for

06:50:17.360 um like your girl to get work done like her botox and this and that what i'm saying that i've never

06:50:25.360 said is i've never said that women lose their value as they age i've never i've not so maybe

06:50:31.800 it wasn't well that's not what i've said i've never said that um what i can say so um just to

06:50:38.060 clear let me preface this by saying that regardless of your age whether you're young or you're old

06:50:43.660 all people have equal whether you're a man or woman all people have equal inherent value equal

06:50:51.180 moral value now perhaps you've heard me say something like when it comes to your value on

06:50:57.500 the dating landscape in the dating marketplace then yes some people have more value than others

06:51:04.220 For example, I'm a chubby, overweight 36-year-old.

06:51:09.360 I have some positive characteristics.

06:51:11.980 I have some negative characteristics. 0.68

06:51:13.100 I think a guy who's in his mid-20s, who's a professional athlete, who makes way more money than I do, who's incredibly fit and good-looking and tall, he would be assessed as having more value by women.

06:51:31.200 But so there's not a cope that's going on on my end.

06:51:34.220 There are things that can raise your value, lower your value, not as a human being.

06:51:38.400 Again, we have equal value as human beings, but the value proposition to the opposite

06:51:45.600 sex when selecting for a partner, a husband, a wife, whatever it is, people can have varying

06:51:52.340 levels of value proposition.

06:51:55.540 So like an obese woman, for example, probably, generally speaking, has a lower value proposition

06:52:02.960 than a woman who has a healthy BMI, uh, and a woman who's 70 has lower, a lower value proposition

06:52:11.840 on the dating marketplace than a 25 year old supermodel. Like more men are going to want to

06:52:17.100 date the 25 year old supermodel than the 70 year old woman. Now, even going beyond just more extremes,

06:52:22.960 I believe a 20 year old woman who's beautiful, uh, has a higher value proposition than a 40 year old

06:52:30.380 woman who's beautiful. Yeah. I can agree with that when you're talking dating stance. Yeah. 0.98

06:52:34.940 Right. Yeah. So it's not about like, it's not about saying that a woman as a human has less

06:52:40.620 value. It's purely like, just, it's just objectively true that say like a woman who's 0.92

06:52:47.540 20, who's good looking versus like almost all things being equal, a good looking woman at 20

06:52:52.660 versus a good looking woman at 40, more men are going to gravitate towards the 20 year old

06:52:57.640 across almost like most age demographics uh just because like let's say that's men who want to have

06:53:04.880 children to be look women at 40 can still get pregnant but it's i mean it it it's harder

06:53:11.900 greater likelihood of miscarriage birth defects etc etc men have their own potential complications

06:53:19.120 as they age too but not to the degree that women do so i don't know if that explains it or if you

06:53:24.840 have any pushback or no so would you agree though that generally speaking as people by the way i

06:53:29.800 want to make something clear i also think that as men age they also lose some of their value

06:53:37.240 proposition in excuse me but i'm tripping over my tongue here in a bit different of a timeline

06:53:47.260 than women but like i generally generally think that um like there is a bit of a cope i find in

06:53:56.600 some people saying oh well a man peaks in his 40s i'm like well you take like a really attractive

06:54:03.180 guy at 25 and put him at 40 i still think like the hot 20 year olds would prefer to date the

06:54:09.520 like him at 25 than him at 40 yeah so i think there's some cope there but i do think men have

06:54:16.260 a bit more of a, a little bit more of a runway timeline. Men have a longer runway when it comes

06:54:22.720 to, um, being, I guess they're attraction, uh, attraction assessment. But I do think like also

06:54:31.640 some, some men can age terribly. And, uh, so, I mean, there's all kinds of factors, but, uh,

06:54:39.380 yeah, generally speaking, I think it goes, it's, I think it's the both for both men and women.

06:54:44.040 And I think as men age, your value can decrease. 1.00

06:54:51.360 Yeah, no, I can agree. 0.71

06:54:52.140 But there are, like, there are, there's intersections here.

06:54:55.060 So I think that, like, if a man at 20 was broke, but then, like, when he becomes 30, he's making millions of dollars a year.

06:55:05.720 He's, and sometimes often resources accrue with age, right?

06:55:10.820 he's increased his value proposition so in that instance you might argue that he

06:55:17.120 you know when he's 30 he he's more valuable so to speak no i can agree with that and a lot of

06:55:26.740 guys have the experience of when they were 20 they wouldn't get any play but as they got older

06:55:32.600 they they got more uh their options increased yeah for sure

06:55:38.000 that's it okay um let me see if there was anything else in terms of your disagreements then

06:55:46.200 um but yeah generally i would say generally speaking uh men find younger women more physically

06:55:53.840 attractive they find them more appealing as partners now can they get them a lot of the

06:55:59.820 time. No, like I would argue your average 35 year old guy doesn't have the requisite, uh,

06:56:06.580 attractiveness to get like a hot 20 year old, but will they still think that 20 year old women are

06:56:13.740 more attractive than 30 year old women? Yes, but they can't fuck them. So they can't get them. 1.00

06:56:18.640 They can't. So it's like, uh, they have to, beggars can't be choosers, you know? Um, uh,

06:56:24.740 uh but yeah um you also disagree with how many bodies she has like and that mattering i guess 0.96

06:56:33.040 well that was like kind of like with the instance we talked about earlier where it's like um when

06:56:39.060 you were saying should someone like a man who has a high body count like kind of like judge a woman

06:56:43.840 who also has a high body count that's more where that yeah that's fine but i think that's fine yeah

06:56:49.560 um well i guess uh speaking of body count uh what's your body count

06:56:56.000 eight four i don't disclose the information you want to do a range like a ballpark

06:57:08.760 it's a respectable number less than 10 um it's a respectable number more than 10

06:57:14.540 Mason what about you bud

06:57:18.000 I'm not going to disclose

06:57:22.040 what is it

06:57:23.660 you're a virgin

06:57:25.360 I'm also a virgin

06:57:27.680 very nice

06:57:28.500 I knew it

06:57:30.780 I knew you were a virgin 0.77

06:57:33.300 all this time

06:57:34.480 let's see here

06:57:36.820 you went on a date with a guy 1.00

06:57:39.340 that shit his pants halfway through 0.99

06:57:41.080 now was it before or after 1.00

06:57:44.300 you kissed him it was after nice oh wow okay you did kiss him though yeah it's well it's the guy

06:57:52.580 i'm currently seeing oh my gosh what crazy yeah we were walking um the ocean side pier and we

06:58:01.680 were just like chilling all of a sudden he just like let go of my hand and walked ahead and i was

06:58:05.820 like oh like shit i think he's mad at me or something and he just sprinted towards the 0.93

06:58:10.860 bathroom and then i finally caught up to him but and he was like yeah i projectile shit it all 0.98

06:58:14.720 over the bathroom i was like well i guess i guess that's kind of like a girl in his very so he had 0.96

06:58:21.100 ibs at the time yeah i mean shit i mean that's a that's a good girl though like you did something 0.96

06:58:27.920 embarrassing on the first date and she still stuck it out stuck it out you know so good good for him 0.99

06:58:34.880 I guess uh you said why uh why men aren't men anymore oh that yeah like why men aren't men

06:58:43.380 anymore as far as like why men do fall more into like the femininity of like um the gender roles

06:58:53.060 pretty much like men at least a lot of the men that I've encountered like in my environment is

06:58:58.620 I know you don't like the word beta but like they have that aspect of like they would rather be the

06:59:03.940 one that's chaste they would rather be the one that's just like you know catered to and that 0.93

06:59:09.600 they don't like very low effort and then expect immense effort from a woman rather than give and

06:59:15.760 take give and take i love that it's a better dynamic i think it's a better dynamic to be

06:59:21.120 honest now look i i've i've dated a lot of women i've shot my shot i most of the women i've dated

06:59:26.440 i've shot my shot but uh i think it's better for the woman to be the simp it's way better for the

06:59:32.580 woman to be the sim now my belief though my belief i think the woman should i think the well one if

06:59:39.940 the woman likes you it depends the i mean it depends on the context here if the woman likes

06:59:45.840 you and you don't even know she exists like let's say she's a fan of yours like you have a toxic 0.84

06:59:51.940 podcast and she watches your show and you have no fucking idea who she is how am i supposed to be 1.00

06:59:58.100 the traditional man i don't know who the woman is who likes me she has to shoot her shot otherwise 1.00

07:00:04.020 how the fuck am i gonna ever well i don't even mean like shooting the shot because i'm not opposed 1.00

07:00:08.820 to like a woman like addressing a man and being like yeah like i'm interested but i just mean 0.98

07:00:15.240 more of like when you are now in the aspect of dating and putting in no effort and expecting

07:00:21.500 a hundred percent from you but not giving you that same hundred percent back well i think the

07:00:26.040 woman can at least shoot her shot and then you take on the reins from there you're you lead the 1.00

07:00:31.700 way from there that's been my experience if a girl shoots her shot with me uh i'll take on the reins 0.52

07:00:37.260 i'll move things forward although it is sometimes annoying when like the woman shoots her shot

07:00:41.980 and then she has like zero follow-through and it's just like what does follow through to you

07:00:49.080 like it's like okay you're shooting your shot and then like i'm kind of all right cool talk talk

07:00:54.460 talk blah blah blah great let's meet and then she's like taking like she's she's uh making it 0.98

07:01:02.880 like a pain in the ass to actually like make that happen or whatever like making it a big 1.00

07:01:07.580 fucking complication where some women make it seem like completely seamless it's just like 1.00

07:01:13.540 okay cool i'll come see you boom make it easy um i don't know but uh okay uh but are women women 1.00

07:01:21.360 you say men aren't men are women women no a lot of women aren't women anymore it's all fucked up 0.98

07:01:28.000 we should just i don't know let the robots take over ai um what makes someone uh we're gonna skip 0.99

07:01:35.420 that one why why do men say they want a wholesome woman but only go for insta hose that's what you

07:01:40.820 wrote uh so i think men shouldn't be following any women on instagram to be honest uh they

07:01:48.460 shouldn't be liking photos they shouldn't be following them uh but you you say that like a

07:01:54.140 lot of these guys um they claim they want like wholesome women but they're following these like 0.94

07:01:59.240 fake titty women on ig and they're being gooners and degenerates is that is this a fair trade as 0.97

07:02:06.880 representative of the male delegation by the way i don't follow any women on instagram i don't like 0.97

07:02:13.320 women's photos i don't care um but as representative of all men obviously do you take the following

07:02:21.640 trade us men not me but us men we agree to never follow another woman on instagram we agree to 0.88

07:02:31.060 never uh like a woman's photo on instagram but in exchange for that you women can't have social 0.98

07:02:41.140 media that's fine i don't do you take the trade okay maybe that's a big ass though what about 1.00

07:02:46.980 this uh you women can't post revealing photos you can't post thirst traps you can't post bikini 1.00

07:02:53.020 photos you can't post photos where it's like here's my ass you can't do that shit do you take 1.00

07:02:59.340 the trade like you're talking about like in general like when you're in a relationship because 0.99

07:03:03.300 like if i'm involved with somebody i'm never doing that because that's just disrespectful

07:03:09.040 i don't do that period i don't know i'd have to look at your guys's instagrams to be honest

07:03:14.940 my babies and my kids well there you go then my business

07:03:19.360 okay um yeah uh dana you definitely have raised your daughters to be independent and capable of

07:03:32.980 taking care of themselves but they do expect a traditional man what does that mean though to be

07:03:38.100 independent? I feel like all women and girls should know that they can go out and they can

07:03:48.820 take care of themselves, that they can provide for themselves, that they can get a place to live,

07:03:53.660 have a car, pay their bills. Because I never want my girls to one day be married and it not turn 0.99

07:04:00.740 out how it was expected to. Maybe they're abusive. Who knows what can happen? I don't want them to 1.00

07:04:07.340 ever feel like i can't get out of this bad situation because i don't know how i'm going

07:04:12.600 to take care of myself and my kids like i want them to be able to know it's kind of like me

07:04:19.000 even though i didn't work when my babies were little if something were to have happened i have

07:04:25.280 an education and i have the ability to go earn as much as my husband if i want and i just i really

07:04:30.900 my girls are independent but yet they still want quote-unquote the white picket fence

07:04:37.600 situation but I think in this day and time you have to raise your daughters to be strong because

07:04:43.260 they are just being unleashed into a society that is nothing like traditional if that makes sense 0.90

07:04:51.240 yeah I mean obviously the question is is like okay what should a woman do

07:04:57.680 prior to meeting a guy she's just supposed to be destitute is she supposed to be homeless is she

07:05:05.580 just supposed to stay with her parents um i don't think the answer is yes to any of those

07:05:10.120 perhaps the staying with parents is fine but i i think there tends to be a component here where

07:05:18.500 what is the woman's career ambition? So, and does her career ambition interrupt or 0.98

07:05:29.220 what's the right word? Does it conflict or cause problems in a relationship she has with the man? 0.52

07:05:38.560 And does it prevent her from meeting a man? Because I think it's one thing, okay, great.

07:05:43.480 You have a nine to five, you have a regular anticipatory schedule. You don't, you're not

07:05:48.100 like some boss babe hustler who's like, it's a guy asked you on a date on a Saturday and you're

07:05:54.940 busy with your hustle. Then that becomes like, it, it goes from just, she's making money to

07:06:02.720 like sort of provide for a base level of comfort in her life to like chasing something beyond

07:06:09.860 that creates complications in a relationship. I've definitely encountered situations where I'm like

07:06:16.660 trying to like a girl's just so involved in her business or her hustle or whatever where I'm like 0.82

07:06:22.280 it's hard to make a plan with her I'm trying to date you right you're too busy you as a woman

07:06:30.180 you should never be too busy to go on a date if you like the guy like you should never be too busy 0.92

07:06:38.500 like that so I think there's a balance that women can strike between make having a job that isn't 1.00

07:06:45.540 like, I don't know, maybe they shouldn't be, um, some like 70 hour per week attorney where it's 1.00

07:06:56.220 like, hi, I'd like to take you on a date on a Saturday at 7 PM. Oh, sorry. I got, I got a big

07:07:01.280 case coming up. I can't go on a date. Not that I don't like you. So there's a balance that I think

07:07:06.940 women should strike there when it comes to being independent. Um, if, if like, it's complicated, 1.00

07:07:13.500 Like you got shit going on and I want to see you on a, on a, you know, a weekend or something. 0.53

07:07:19.400 And she can't, it's like, okay, well, well, have you ever heard that saying that those 0.99

07:07:23.880 who want to make time?

07:07:26.800 Yeah, but there's also gen, genuinely, there are genuinely, uh, types of jobs where you

07:07:34.860 are that busy.

07:07:35.760 Yeah, that's true. 0.99

07:07:36.480 It's like, I got shit to do. 0.98

07:07:37.860 I got the deadline. 0.99

07:07:38.860 I got X, Y, Z.

07:07:39.760 And so I think those types of jobs maybe are not well suited for, um, someone looking for

07:07:46.960 marriage and traditional.

07:07:48.300 Yeah. 1.00

07:07:48.420 Cause I, I think like if I encounter a woman who let's, and look, sometimes women will 1.00

07:07:53.900 use the excuse because they're just not that into you, but let's assume that they are into 1.00

07:07:58.260 you, but they're genuinely busy to the point where it's a frustration to go on a date with

07:08:04.440 you or she cancels like she, Oh, something came up and I've got to cancel. Or you could just have

07:08:10.560 a nine to five job where you're not going to get blindsided by some bullshit and, uh, prioritize 0.99

07:08:16.500 meeting up with me. And I'm like, in my mind, I I've had situations where even like a girl who's 0.97

07:08:23.360 got like a shitty $20 an hour job, I've had, I've had this situation occur. And I'm thinking in my

07:08:29.780 head. Okay. You can get any 20, you get five, you can get fired from your job and you can find

07:08:35.700 another job that'll pay you $20 an hour. Like that's not some big career loss to get fired

07:08:41.020 from a, like a $20 an hour job. But I've literally like, and I look, I'm, I'm not going to brag,

07:08:47.840 but like I make good money and it's like, I'm literally my value proposition that I'm offering

07:08:52.940 here is if you're with me, you're never going to have to work. And I have women who will cancel a 0.59

07:08:58.800 date on me because they got called into their twenty dollar an hour job i'm like are you 0.99

07:09:03.380 fucking retarded if you're with me you never have to work you're gonna cancel my our date 0.99

07:09:09.620 because you got called into your twenty dollar an hour job okay i see where you're i see where 1.00

07:09:16.620 your uh your uh fuck what's it called priorities are and it's like i don't know i think it depends 0.95

07:09:26.780 on what the woman wants i mean obviously if you're in that kind of situation you don't really want 0.99

07:09:32.820 to date you you know i don't know but um okay let's see uh going to i think molly's notes right

07:09:43.540 um wait where was i how did i get there uh i saw you did some content with churdly's molly are you

07:09:52.460 um are you poly you and your husband are you poly dating other people or whatever no okay

07:10:00.600 never mind i was gonna i saw you did content with chirdleys i was gonna ask if you smashed

07:10:03.920 chirdleys but no you're not poly so disregard uh you went on a date with a guy who happened

07:10:10.760 to have a girlfriend he told you up front he was looking for polyamorous relationship and

07:10:16.840 you agree to also date him while he still dated her oh i actually was when i was you sent me

07:10:23.940 those are the first questions and then the second ones i kind of answered it in my second ones

07:10:28.600 what i mean by that is uh me personally i think well for example that's my now husband he had a

07:10:37.120 girlfriend which i didn't care because if i'm gonna be with someone forever i feel like the guy

07:10:43.000 I wanted him to be able to choose like I'm not I'm not a jealous person so I think it's okay that

07:10:49.780 a man can explore his options and choose but when it comes down to like being with someone forever

07:10:55.040 you only get one person which he chose to be me okay so he was in an open relationship

07:11:02.100 yeah oh she the girlfriend didn't quite like having someone else around but so eventually

07:11:10.360 they did break up due to that but yeah so you were both dating him at the same time though

07:11:15.120 yeah but we were not dating each other me and her no no not not you and her but you were both

07:11:20.500 dating your now husband yes okay she got jealous and then she broke up with him um and now wait

07:11:28.780 i'm confused wait wait you said you're married but when did you reach out to us i reached out

07:11:35.100 to you like this week you said he's the guy you're currently engaged to when did you get married

07:11:40.860 we got married like we got together right about when i just had turned 18

07:11:48.100 maybe a few months after that so we had been together i don't know when did you get married

07:11:53.220 i don't know the exact date but how do you not know you're whoa that's hold on what 1.00

07:12:02.500 happened huh how would you wait wait no no that's fucking bullshit that's fucking bullshit 1.00

07:12:09.200 do you want to call him no that's total bullshit who doesn't know the exact date they get married 1.00

07:12:14.880 that's like your anniversary date well i have i mean you're putting me on the spot so i have 0.93

07:12:20.860 anxiety about it i can't answer things on the spot but i am very much could you answer when

07:12:27.700 your birthday is you don't have to tell me but right but that's a date like how do you not know

07:12:33.560 when you're you got married because i don't know the exact date was there was there a wedding

07:12:37.580 not really it was kind of just like just go to the courthouse and well it was in vegas i i honestly

07:12:44.720 don't know the date but i like i told you we were so wait you got legally married or you had just

07:12:49.780 like a ceremony with an elvis legally married okay um i don't know why i'm being questioned

07:12:58.140 for if i'm i don't that's an well because in your messages to us you said you were engaged

07:13:04.200 uh-huh and you messaged us a week ago so did you get married in the past week no so then why did

07:13:12.820 a week ago you said you were engaged but i i don't know if you realize but i also messed up

07:13:16.900 in my other message by saying that I was poly which I'm not when did you say you were poly

07:13:23.600 like you just said if you read my first messages they're a little bit different than my second

07:13:28.800 group of messages I said that I said yes to being in a poly amorous relationship

07:13:34.100 but then I clarified that because when I don't know when I was doing the questions I was

07:13:39.380 super excited wasn't thinking but upon answering the second questions you gave me there's way more

07:13:46.160 detail and the answers are correct okay so then you were mistaken in your messaging then i guess

07:13:53.200 um but you said currently engaged to yes but yeah we're married legally legally married yes we've

07:13:59.960 been married for over a year and i mean i'm about to turn 20 we got married like within three or

07:14:07.360 four months of being okay um you said it was controversial it's controversial you believe

07:14:12.240 women are uh are meant to serve men and men should be treated like what well wait wait

07:14:19.920 men should be treated like what

07:14:21.560 did you who wrote this for you i wrote this men should be treated like what

07:14:28.880 i don't know you said these were your own words yes but i don't who wrote this for you i wrote

07:14:38.020 that for myself but i don't know men exactly what i wrote you you wrote women are meant to serve men

07:14:46.400 and men should be treated like kings okay okay well i could have answered that but i didn't know

07:14:51.380 if i would have wrote that anyone could have answered that but that's so like it okay uh

07:14:56.860 that's also not controversial to anything we've talked about today i was expecting it to be

07:15:01.720 controversial controversial but i don't know maybe ask these women well i was expecting a bunch of

07:15:08.340 liberals so that's why i said it would i'll debate you on any of this but um okay so i mean even 0.66

07:15:15.440 conservative women will have contentions with conservative women will have contentions with

07:15:19.900 you about your claim that women are meant to serve men i don't know i think these women might

07:15:26.100 disagree with you and they probably do but i believe that you are are women meant to serve

07:15:32.760 men not meant to serve this gladly when the dynamic is correct you have my complete submission

07:15:41.060 devotion all of it obviously he has to do his part i'm not meaning any random man but my husband yes

07:15:48.980 i'm supposed to serve him all right you you also said that men should also be allowed to

07:15:55.540 explore their options in dating is that what you're talking about like date multiple women

07:16:01.660 multiple women yes before so like i explained the situation with my boyfriend at the time

07:16:07.780 um i believe guys should be able to date multiple girls in the beginning before they

07:16:14.760 decide to settle down with someone so they can see if that's the right fit for them

07:16:19.240 which not everyone agrees with but yeah

07:16:24.080 goodness i mean

07:16:29.920 yeah i mean it just i don't know

07:16:38.480 so re-explain your point again i'm trying to i'm trying to wrap my head around this

07:16:46.040 it's very different from probably what you would agree with but um i just believe that if a guy's

07:16:52.740 gonna dedicate his life to being with someone to take care of her forever to like like provide

07:16:59.300 protect that he has the right to like have choices he shouldn't just meet me and then i should expect

07:17:05.560 him to instantly devote everything to me i there should be a period of like the dating period where

07:17:13.520 he still has other options and he chooses the best wife for him you could say yeah well

07:17:21.480 So I guess what, like, the issue I think Brian is having is, like, I don't know.

07:17:30.340 It seems like there's, like, you're saying certain things, but then, like, you come back and infer other positions.

07:17:38.080 I don't know.

07:17:39.120 It is kind of strange.

07:17:41.640 It is kind of strange.

07:17:43.020 Like, it does sound like you might not have written these messages.

07:17:48.980 So I don't know.

07:17:50.600 my messages i mean i can probably if i don't i don't know how i wouldn't have written them how

07:17:56.260 did i know what that one said before he even said it i mean you you wrote it yeah i wrote it i don't

07:18:02.000 know what why i'm being questioned i mean did i are you saying if i wrote ai to answer my questions

07:18:07.420 i can't answer basic questions like either an of manager or boyfriend i have an of manager your 0.82

07:18:12.860 boyfriend well i mean even if you uh even if you did have an of manager you wouldn't a lot of women

07:18:19.060 wouldn't admit to it but um or it could just be your husband or fiance or boyfriend or whatever

07:18:25.780 but uh you say you find your your republican you're very religious but your line of work

07:18:31.340 is against all that i mean we kind of talked about that um you said you're very religious though

07:18:36.940 yeah so i do believe in god strongly even though i know what i'm doing isn't in line with that i do

07:18:45.900 believe in him and i know what i'm doing is wrong but i do consider myself to be very religious

07:18:51.940 i don't know how you so you can believe in god believe in religion or whatever

07:18:56.820 um but i don't know if you can take the label very religious yeah like i think when i think

07:19:02.780 of someone very religious this is somebody who very much observes the religion yeah like at cost

07:19:09.980 at own personal cost i will dedicate my life to this religion yeah and so your your worldly

07:19:18.860 uh materialism supersedes um because you would agree that people can struggle financially and

07:19:28.120 not turn to sex work yeah right so your desire for material through your sex work

07:19:36.200 um is contradictory to religion so you might believe in god so yeah i guess but i don't think

07:19:46.340 you're very religious yeah i agree with you there maybe i'm wording it like wrong i don't follow the

07:19:52.740 beliefs so if that's what being very religious means then i guess i'm not yeah but i do believe

07:19:58.160 in god and everything he says but i don't well you know well you know who else believes in god

07:20:02.760 and everything he says the devil believes in god and everything he says but he lives his life

07:20:09.040 exactly opposed to it so who is your god because it's probably not the one that you say it is it's

07:20:17.320 not the devil do you i'm not saying it's the devil i'm what it sounds like it's saying that

07:20:23.560 you are your own god because your desires your life is more important than his commandments

07:20:30.760 and his desires for your life because i mean you might be able to say that that's not true

07:20:36.460 but your life suggests otherwise do you think god wants you doing sex work no no okay um which

07:20:45.460 which just it suggests that you don't actually see god as god you see yourself as god because

07:20:53.840 your cares and desires and the thing the struggles that you would have to put up with

07:20:58.640 are more important than the things that he puts importance upon.

07:21:03.880 I believe that God loves everybody, and I know that what I'm doing is wrong,

07:21:08.760 but he will forgive me for it.

07:21:10.960 And he is able to understand everything everyone is going through.

07:21:16.260 Well, do you think he's going to forgive everybody for everything they've done?

07:21:21.780 Yes, he will.

07:21:22.840 Really? So hell is empty?

07:21:25.420 No.

07:21:26.080 Okay, so who goes to hell then?

07:21:28.640 I guess it depends what you do.

07:21:30.620 If you kill someone, but he does say that God forgives everybody.

07:21:35.760 He will forgive you.

07:21:37.000 Well, so then who's in hell?

07:21:38.580 People that he's already forgiven?

07:21:40.100 I don't know why people would go to hell.

07:21:42.460 I don't know what decides, like, you're going to hell, but God will forgive everyone.

07:21:49.760 so I guess maybe the people who are in hell are people who went to hell and they didn't repent

07:21:56.600 for their sins before they died I do have a chat coming through here uh blah fest I was told

07:22:04.460 recently that beer is full of female hormones I disagreed but later on I drank nine or ten pints

07:22:09.280 then suddenly I find myself to be quite obnoxious opinionated and I couldn't drive at all

07:22:16.860 hops he's i think he's talking about hops in the beer thank you blah fest appreciate it all right

07:22:26.380 um i'll just move it on uh you said your first date led to moving into someone's garage less

07:22:32.660 than one week in it brought you to a house to a mansion and then living on the beach

07:22:37.500 all within 1.5 years is that your current guy yeah okay um we moved in together basically

07:22:46.720 immediately very quick um and then he was working on the business in utah and got things going for

07:22:57.720 us and it's always been his dream to come to la so we eventually moved here and that's when he got 1.00

07:23:03.340 sick okay uh you said modern day women have forgotten what being a woman is feminism has

07:23:09.620 destroyed so much uh woke okay agreed um wokeness and men hate excuse me wokeness and men hate 0.98

07:23:19.920 is out of control and is ruining relationships you also think god should be involved

07:23:25.740 so uh what is the man hate that you like disagree with i guess i think now a lot of

07:23:34.980 women hate men just because for one it's a trend I think just I hate men because who knows really

07:23:42.860 why it's just a trend but I hear men are just cheaters men you hear all the things they do wrong 0.98

07:23:49.440 and all men are bad like the bear example that the most women would say they'd rather be

07:23:56.100 alone with a bear than a man which is just crazy I mean you're there's that's just not logical at

07:24:04.420 all so I just feel like men get hate for no reason when I mean if you were to say the same example

07:24:12.600 about anybody else like I don't know if I was to if I saw a black person kill someone can I be 0.99

07:24:22.620 scared of all black people now because they killed someone who was white and now I can hate all of 1.00

07:24:27.200 them no i can't so the same thing should go for men or anybody yeah i mean agreed um 0.99

07:24:36.920 you uh support ice also uh okay does anybody anybody else here an ice supporter

07:24:48.740 hell no hell no yeah i mean yeah mike's guys please yeah yes yes so hell no why do you say

07:25:00.000 hell no because i just don't believe that it's well i don't agree with the way that things have

07:25:07.760 been handled with ice with how like current situations i do believe that in a country we need

07:25:15.460 like areas of protection absolutely there should be enforcements that are there to protect us but

07:25:22.700 going after people who aren't an actual threat to us like our own citizens who do also pay taxes 0.97

07:25:31.600 and i mean if you want to be real like this shit is stolen land at the end of the day 0.97

07:25:34.880 so okay that's just what it is okay hold on no i just mean like we are all we all come from 0.99

07:25:41.480 somewhere like i come from like my ancestry comes from somewhere different your ancestry comes from

07:25:47.380 somewhere different so i don't think that is a basis of oh because you were not born here you

07:25:53.300 don't belong here okay hold on a couple things um what is stolen land well this land was stolen

07:26:00.900 it was not into the mic this land was stolen it was not what land like all of america all of

07:26:06.700 america so native america wait wait so native americans prior to the arrival of europeans

07:26:12.880 they uh native americans occupied all pieces of land in the united states i mean i cannot

07:26:22.600 like say oh they occupied a hundred percent of every percentage of land did native americans

07:26:28.540 occupy a lot of land but it's just the fact that you can't murder people take the land and like

07:26:35.100 Oh, well, but that's what the natives did, though. 0.99

07:26:37.660 I mean, they skinned each other alive. 1.00

07:26:40.160 They absolutely obliterated each other.

07:26:43.220 They did horrendous things to each other, taking each other's land. 0.99

07:26:46.840 I'm not saying they did, but I'm saying when you're talking about immigration, right, where they, colonizers, whatever, right? 0.99

07:26:53.500 Settlers.

07:26:54.340 Settlers, yeah. 1.00

07:26:54.960 They came here. 1.00

07:26:56.620 Agreed. 1.00

07:26:58.040 They're not born here.

07:26:59.400 So does that mean every person that comes after them doesn't belong here either?

07:27:03.580 Most people weren't actually born here either.

07:27:05.600 They actually traveled here from, what was it, Asia.

07:27:09.620 Okay, so then.

07:27:10.240 When there was a land bridge.

07:27:11.300 But how can people say then, like, oh, because you weren't born here, you don't belong here.

07:27:15.440 No one was born here.

07:27:17.180 None of us were, like, ancestry-wise.

07:27:18.640 No, because I'm a citizen here, I belong here.

07:27:22.700 But there are how many citizens.

07:27:23.920 Because people invaded this country as non-citizens, demanding all of the benefits. 0.67

07:27:29.760 Americans have committed domestic terrorism, murdered innocent people and children, and they were from here. 0.95

07:27:36.840 They were born here. 0.98

07:27:37.560 They're Americans. 1.00

07:27:38.640 And they go to jail. 0.98

07:27:39.580 They go to jail here.

07:27:40.300 We're a society, and when we know better, we do better.

07:27:43.740 I'm not saying they don't go to jail, but I'm just saying that you can't say that because someone is from somewhere else that they don't have a right to have a better life.

07:27:49.020 Wait, wait, wait.

07:27:50.620 Hold on.

07:27:51.440 Go ahead.

07:27:51.860 So if somebody else's child broke into my house and, let's say, broke a vase of mine,

07:27:58.640 should I put them in timeout into one of my bedrooms?

07:28:02.160 No. 0.65

07:28:02.700 I should kick them out of my house. 0.96

07:28:04.460 I should tell their parents, hey, you need to punish this kid because he broke something in my house. 0.97

07:28:09.620 Okay, but that's the exact point I'm making.

07:28:11.860 You're talking about someone who has done wrong.

07:28:14.460 I'm not talking about people who are committing crimes.

07:28:17.480 Say a neighbor's kid.

07:28:19.000 So say a neighbor's kid just walks into my house.

07:28:21.860 What should I do?

07:28:22.680 Should I welcome him in?

07:28:24.140 Hey, you haven't done anything wrong yet, so you should just stay. 0.99

07:28:27.740 If a child just walks into your house, you're not going to be like, get the fuck out of my house. 0.99

07:28:31.240 You're going to inquire what's going on first. 1.00

07:28:33.820 You're going to kick him out.

07:28:34.820 You're not going to immediately kick a child out of your house.

07:28:37.260 Oh, I can assure you I did one.

07:28:38.580 Yeah, you're going to kick a child out of the house.

07:28:40.280 So a couple things here.

07:28:41.880 Oh, no, it's not unrealistic.

07:28:43.640 Let's establish a couple things here. 1.00

07:28:45.120 So you're in favor of deporting the illegal immigrants who commit crimes. 1.00

07:28:51.160 who are violent. 1.00

07:28:53.720 Yes, who are violent.

07:28:54.900 Let me go back, actually. You are in favor of

07:28:57.040 deporting illegal immigrants who commit 1.00

07:28:58.940 crimes. Yeah, like crimes that are 0.99

07:29:01.140 harming against people.

07:29:02.600 What about just commit crimes?

07:29:06.020 Okay, if we're talking about people 0.52

07:29:07.180 who are like traffic 0.98

07:29:09.280 shit and stuff like that, then no, I don't 0.98

07:29:11.120 think that's validity to kick someone out. 0.99

07:29:13.440 Traffic?

07:29:14.800 Yeah, there's some people who...

07:29:16.240 No, no, no, like traffic

07:29:18.700 violations, like

07:29:20.900 civil violations no i'm talking about crimes yeah but if you're talking about like drug crimes

07:29:25.660 murder things like absolutely like that's you don't deserve to be here like i understand 0.93

07:29:30.880 and like i said like i come from you know an immigrant ancestry and i know i do too certain 0.99

07:29:37.700 areas right like so that have that's deadly for them so like if i'm thinking parent wise right 0.86

07:29:44.120 if i have an opportunity legal paper wise or not to give my family a better opportunity

07:29:50.780 i'm gonna do that and i'm gonna once i'm there i'm gonna earn every day okay so if you're here

07:29:56.780 illegally unless you like overstate a visa or something although this might still come

07:30:01.520 this might be some other sort of uh immigration crime uh a legal border crossing into the united

07:30:08.900 states is a federal crime that is a crime it's eight usc i just looked it up 1325

07:30:16.440 yeah it's a federal crime i'm not saying so they are okay but so my position would be

07:30:23.780 even if you're completely law-abiding and you're here illegally deport yes yes yes deport yes 0.81

07:30:32.560 deport them all yeah are you are you an illegal immigrant no i'm not okay don't worry i'm not 0.92

07:30:38.580 gonna call ice on you you can i know i would even if look if i had an illegal immigrant on the show 0.78

07:30:44.640 i would not call ice on them i would not that would be um inappropriate but uh yeah so basically 0.89

07:30:53.180 anybody who is here illegally who is not a citizen they should be subject to deportation

07:30:59.440 i disagree okay so i understand what you were saying this argument of well um who wouldn't 0.93

07:31:08.180 want a better life so perhaps even myself if i was born in honduras or some shit maybe i maybe

07:31:15.500 i would try to get into the country but i wouldn't be surprised if i got deported so i i understand

07:31:21.700 the motivation for wanting to live in the united states it's one of the most prosperous nations in

07:31:26.580 the world i think it's like i said i'm not disagreeing with like the the the department

07:31:36.140 of ice in a whole i'm talking about like currently the state of things how things have been handled

07:31:40.580 how people have been treated i do not agree with that i didn't you know i wasn't like okay super

07:31:46.420 anti-ice but let me make it things have been i do not well there's a lot of propaganda and

07:31:50.740 politics involved in that people were being deported in just a similar way back during

07:31:56.780 obama back during biden even like going you can go back back back uh illegally in a problem

07:32:02.620 i was socially aware of that then as i am now obama deported a bunch of people they're being

07:32:10.580 apprehended sometimes physically sometimes violently and if that's i was then that's wrong

07:32:15.500 too no it's not wrong to physically detain somebody the way that it's that i see it okay

07:32:20.840 so so hold on let's go ahead just let's cut through the noise let's go ahead and grant

07:32:25.660 that ICE has made some mistakes in either like their conduct towards citizens of the United

07:32:35.480 States or it's certainly if you're going to be mass deporting people yeah there's going to be

07:32:40.520 instances where ICE you know was a bit rough or there might have been brutality or whatever

07:32:45.880 and I'm going to agree with you in all provable and true instances of police misconduct or police

07:32:52.480 brutality or even unjustified killings which whatever let's go ahead and agree that those

07:32:58.320 are all wrong now the central mission of uh ice is to deport illegal immigrants that mission uh 0.65

07:33:06.080 ought to continue going on despite their perhaps look if you're going to be policing an entire 0.86

07:33:12.880 nation you're going to be uh enforcing immigration laws police are not perfect they're going to make

07:33:18.880 mistakes let's go ahead and grant that yeah um if there were instances of unjust killing or there

07:33:24.700 were instances of them being too rough or whatever it is that maybe that maybe that should be

07:33:30.560 addressed maybe there can be redress in the court system maybe the specific officers involved in

07:33:36.100 that should be reprimanded or fired but the core mission of ICE is to deport illegal immigrants

07:33:41.700 you're against that i mean for me it's just like if someone is here and they're not

07:33:50.120 posing a danger and they're literally just providing a better life for their family they're

07:33:54.720 paying the same tax as i am like so i don't see an issue with them being in this country

07:33:59.440 except it is damaged it is a threat you know do you know how it's a threat though

07:34:03.520 is because it costs the american taxpayer so much money why do you think the taxes in california are

07:34:10.700 so high because a ton of fraud is going on who's the who's the guy um the no it was nick shirley

07:34:18.400 yeah yeah nick shirley he did he helped uncover like what is it almost like millions i know

07:34:26.340 hundreds of millions of dollars of fraud being occurring in california a lot because of illegal

07:34:33.660 immigration because they they can take that money with no tax no tax on it they can have all of

07:34:40.880 these benefits that we as americans pay for yeah you know be fantastic and would probably lower 0.93

07:34:46.680 taxes a lot if all of those illegal immigrants were deported then we'd be able to afford the 1.00

07:34:52.280 housing that we need all all prices prices for things would drop like rocks it'd be so much 1.00

07:34:58.140 better so it is very devastating and harmful to american citizens but not every immigrant even

07:35:04.860 here in california doesn't pay a legal immigrant doesn't pay taxes i know many and they all pay

07:35:11.660 their taxes from their job so that's why i'm saying like i'm not talking just about like

07:35:16.200 people who are coming and just taking taking like i'm talking about people who are even though they

07:35:20.860 didn't come in the way people like like the right way with the paperwork and all that they are doing

07:35:27.440 like the same job that i am they are paying their taxes they are being law-abiding citizens

07:35:32.660 they are just got themselves so they should be rewarded for cheating the system that a lot of

07:35:37.700 people hold up hold up one second that they're being rewarded with being granted into the country

07:35:44.240 while other people are waiting in line to be able to get in the right way why should they why should

07:35:50.080 the people who are waiting in the line to get in correctly why are they being punished

07:35:55.140 for people who shouldn't even be here okay but then you could also say for some of the people

07:36:02.240 who are coming here the right way why is it easier for some certain people from different

07:36:06.360 countries to get in here faster than others if they are doing at the same time they have the

07:36:10.240 same mission why do like white immigrants get to get in here faster which i have seen on many

07:36:15.340 occasions versus people from like central america the caribbean like there's a whole lot of there's

07:36:20.720 a whole lot of things that come up behind that so if someone comes in from a country who is like

07:36:24.900 okay so say someone tries to come in from afghanistan like there's a lot of things i need

07:36:30.820 to be able to look into for someone who's coming from afghanistan like i need to figure out if

07:36:35.500 they have any ties any terrorist organizations i got to figure out exactly where they're coming

07:36:39.760 from who are their connections in afghanistan because there's a lot of shady stuff that goes

07:36:44.420 on there however if someone is trying to come here from a lot of shady stuff that happens in

07:36:48.300 every country no not like that if someone's trying to come from england like and they're

07:36:53.620 an Englishman, their families lived in England

07:36:55.600 forever, and they're trying to

07:36:57.380 become a U.S. citizen,

07:36:59.700 there's a lot less I'm going to have to really dig into.

07:37:01.920 There's a lot less like,

07:37:03.460 I'm going to have to figure out, are they a felon? If they're not

07:37:05.540 a felon, okay.

07:37:08.320 There's not really too many things.

07:37:09.780 I mean, we're allies with England.

07:37:11.880 So there aren't too many...

07:37:13.720 There's not nearly as much.

07:37:16.700 There are also

07:37:17.540 the people from England

07:37:19.080 speak English. They're going to be able to

07:37:21.360 assimilate to the culture. So much easier.

07:37:23.080 They're going to be able to maneuver through life easier if you speak the language.

07:37:28.000 There are a lot less hurdles that they're going to have to jump over to be able to integrate to our society.

07:37:33.640 Okay, but when you go to another country, even to travel, you don't learn the entire language immediately.

07:37:40.060 No, but I respect their customs.

07:37:42.720 Okay, you may be able to get in those certain ways, but there are certain prejudices that prevent people from getting in the right way.

07:37:51.440 So even if we were to grant that there is, and I actually haven't seen any evidence of this, that there's some sort of prejudice that offers white people preferential treatment in legal immigration, legal immigration is completely irrelevant to, for the most part, it's completely irrelevant to the question of illegal immigration.

07:38:13.660 so in this case if you want to levy criticisms of the legal immigration system and suggest that

07:38:20.240 it's racist you're welcome to do that but that doesn't pertain whatsoever uh as to illegal

07:38:26.080 immigration so uh yeah we should deport all the illegal immigrants i don't care if they've 0.66

07:38:31.000 committed zero crimes or whatever they all have to go well you can go ahead and feel that way but i 0.99

07:38:36.480 disagree yeah so um i want to get back to the stolen land thing though so again most i'm someone

07:38:45.220 in the chat might be able to correct me quite a bit of american land was purchased so you had the

07:38:50.880 louisiana purchased we purchased like alaska for example from russia um so much much of the united

07:38:57.260 states was actually purchased um the rest of it was um conquered not stolen conquered that's

07:39:04.320 different um all countries in europe uh were conquered one weird like the people were conquered

07:39:11.540 there there was kings who were conquering each other fighting each other so um you might not

07:39:17.320 like it but uh conquest for all territories in the united states is the way that nations have

07:39:22.940 been formed pretty much everywhere um so is european is like european countries are they

07:39:30.440 stolen land from other white people i guess um but yeah i don't understand the stolen land thing

07:39:37.740 well when i say stolen land i'm not talking about like i mean obviously i'm not talking about every

07:39:44.100 single piece of land but there were absolutely instances in our history as far as america where

07:39:49.800 they were forcefully purchased right when you say like either you're going to sell us this land or

07:39:57.340 we're going to kill you well it might be the case however pretty much every other piece of land and

07:40:04.580 on earth is under the same circumstance and i do not agree that that's right so every piece of land 0.97

07:40:10.820 is stolen what is your proposal should there not be borders i'm not saying there shouldn't be

07:40:14.900 borders but i'm just saying but it's stolen i don't everything's stolen land you shouldn't be

07:40:19.300 able to is mexico stolen land i mean didn't you say every piece is stolen at this i didn't say

07:40:25.860 I didn't say that.

07:40:27.500 I'm trying to use your logical, I'm trying to use your logic to be able to come to a conclusion.

07:40:31.920 My logic is that I feel like everybody has a right to make a life better for themselves if they're not posing like a violent or dangerous threat.

07:40:41.320 If someone wants to come here and make a life for themselves with their family and escape danger from where they currently live, I don't have an issue with that.

07:40:49.820 That's my personal opinion.

07:40:51.620 You can absolutely feel differently, but I won't agree with that.

07:40:54.320 Wait, hold up.

07:40:54.840 So if a homeless man decides he wants to get out of his terrible situation, he breaks into my home and demands that I take care of him.

07:41:01.700 He is posing a threat to you by breaking into your home.

07:41:04.020 No, no. 0.99

07:41:05.020 That is completely different than entering a country. 0.92

07:41:07.560 They broke into the country, though.

07:41:09.020 Yeah, this is our home. 1.00

07:41:09.640 They broke into the country, and they're going to take the benefits of our country for themselves. 0.98

07:41:14.820 We're just not going to agree on this. 0.98

07:41:16.560 Because your conclusion is not based in logic.

07:41:19.460 It's based on feelings.

07:41:21.200 Okay.

07:41:22.000 But that's my conclusion.

07:41:23.520 Okay.

07:41:23.780 I mean, as long as you understand that your conclusion has not come from any logical basis, it's based upon literally how you feel.

07:41:32.080 Because logically speaking, we're trying to walk you through it, and you're just refusing to do so.

07:41:39.240 I am. You're right. I am refusing to do so, because for me, I just can't see it that way.

07:41:43.840 Well, really quick, the stolen land thing is curious to me.

07:41:47.580 even if we grant that the land is stolen are you saying then thus there can be no laws as it relates

07:41:53.580 to uh borders on that land no it's honestly honestly where the root of all of it comes from

07:41:59.460 is i personally just i'm all about love and respect and especially within like my faith like

07:42:08.140 i just don't believe in turning yes which i don't believe in turning away people who want better for

07:42:14.340 themselves what faith christian yes like i just don't there's nothing in christianity that's

07:42:20.340 contrary to love my neighbor is absolutely a part of that well they are so no actually actually

07:42:26.720 god in his word prior and it gives a hierarchical hierarchical prioritization of who you're supposed

07:42:32.360 to love as a man i'm supposed to love my wife above everybody else i will throw my children

07:42:37.840 under a bus before i do so my wife and then it goes children so it's your your entire family

07:42:43.980 that's your second prioritization. Your third prioritization is your neighborhood in your city.

07:42:49.620 The next prioritization is your country. And at the very bottom is every other country. So I'm

07:42:55.740 not going to prioritize people of another country over my own country. And that's described in the

07:43:00.960 Bible. Yes, I do love people from other countries. I want to share the word with them, but I care

07:43:07.080 about people from my country more than I care about them because it's my duty to protect my

07:43:12.100 own countrymen and that's that's explained in the bible why do you think god has established his 0.93

07:43:16.980 country and his people in in the old testament the jewish people like he prioritizes them above

07:43:23.160 everybody else why do you think that's good well i can when you say okay like you prioritize

07:43:29.960 like your country over everywhere else like you love your country more than anyone else

07:43:34.360 i guess that's where the difference is it's because i don't just see it as like

07:43:40.020 oh I only love my country before

07:43:42.340 or I love my country more than anywhere else

07:43:44.780 I'm not saying that's my position

07:43:46.260 that's the position described

07:43:48.300 as you say you're a Christian

07:43:51.060 that's described in the Bible

07:43:52.720 for me it's like maybe that's just

07:43:55.160 one of my humanly things

07:43:57.180 I just don't see it as separate

07:43:59.060 I love everyone

07:44:00.360 I want everyone to have the best life

07:44:02.100 and I just don't see what's wrong

07:44:04.300 if someone wants to come here and make a better life for themselves

07:44:06.680 like if they're not

07:44:08.500 Because I care about the people in my country more than I care about the people in other countries.

07:44:13.260 Okay, well, I care about everyone the same.

07:44:15.320 Like, I can't say I care about my country more than others.

07:44:16.860 Well, that's definitely not true.

07:44:18.340 So, do you give...

07:44:20.140 No, okay.

07:44:20.540 So, the nephew that you are, you're parenting, like, do you care about the people outside of your home the same you care about him?

07:44:29.900 Well, that's...

07:44:30.760 There you go.

07:44:31.700 I'm making the point.

07:44:33.200 No, but I feel like...

07:44:33.760 You care about people in prioritization.

07:44:36.080 where you live and wherever you're born is different than like the care you have for your

07:44:41.100 child that's different but there is a prioritization for some and like for you that's

07:44:48.240 fine if that if you feel those ways because this country is your priority you put this country

07:44:53.300 before anywhere else then okay i understand your mindset but that doesn't change mine i don't feel

07:44:59.640 like it's in a wrong thing for someone to come here to do better for their family by whatever

07:45:05.120 those means are of like if it's but what if it's going to cost what if what if having these these

07:45:10.540 people are it's going to cost the people that you live around is that good do you do you not care

07:45:15.940 about those people that you live around it's going to cost them it's going to make it harder for them

07:45:19.240 to afford their housing to afford their jobs to afford having a family because you want to be

07:45:24.420 nice to the people in that other country that are having a hard time whereas they could just make

07:45:28.680 their country better they could just start prioritizing the investment they makes it make

07:45:34.120 into their own country instead of breaking into ours i mean i think what you can see is like with

07:45:41.500 even with our country just because the people of the country want something to be done a certain

07:45:46.680 way or different doesn't mean it's going to happen i think saying them saying oh they should fix their

07:45:50.660 country now their government should absolutely do that but they a single whatever like a single

07:45:57.600 family that mom whatever son that family is not going to be able to change their country

07:46:03.160 But they're going to do whatever it takes to change the future for their family.

07:46:08.680 So they should come in the legal way.

07:46:11.600 That's your opinion?

07:46:12.720 No, that's the opinion of literally every country that's ever existed.

07:46:16.320 If it's me, I'm doing whatever it takes to provide better for my family, even if that means going into a country legally. 1.00

07:46:20.080 Which is prioritizing your family over the people that are trying to break into your country. 1.00

07:46:25.580 I agree. 1.00

07:46:27.320 I have a question.

07:46:28.780 Do you like America?

07:46:30.140 Do you like living here?

07:46:31.060 Of course I love America.

07:46:32.100 I'm born here.

07:46:33.160 and like why do you like it though like do you like why do you prefer living here over Mexico

07:46:40.580 or well it's not that I prefer living here it's just like this is what I know this is like where

07:46:45.760 my family is so like that's why I would have it's like not like I'm opposed to living elsewhere

07:46:51.760 like I this is what my familiarity is this is there's a lot of opportunity here compared to

07:46:59.460 like some other country so like that is a main reason why i'm here is because okay opportunity

07:47:03.980 a couple things um stolen land there are portions of the united states that are not stolen land

07:47:14.260 okay i don't even buy into the stolen land paradigm but if we find an illegal immigrant

07:47:22.280 who hasn't committed any well violent crimes um you're fine with us deporting the violent 0.97

07:47:27.860 to legal immigrants if someone is here yet and they're killing people hurting people like that 0.96

07:47:33.860 okay then you're fine okay so let's say it's an illegal immigrant who hasn't done any of that 0.99

07:47:39.200 shit uh but they're on we apprehend them on a piece of american land that was not stolen can 0.97

07:47:46.320 we deport them i don't see why we have to deport someone who's right so it has nothing to do with 0.98

07:47:51.320 If you're not willing to grant that on the pieces of American land that is not stolen, if you're...

07:47:59.960 Okay, so you can throw out the stolen land, but that's fine.

07:48:01.300 Okay, you have to abandon the stolen land thing.

07:48:03.240 Okay, that's fine, but I'm just saying there's no... I still don't see...

07:48:06.280 Okay, you abandoned stolen land.

07:48:08.520 I'm still saying I don't see...

07:48:09.540 Did you abandon stolen land?

07:48:11.520 Well, not all land was not stolen.

07:48:13.540 No, but you have to – if your position is, well, even on land that isn't stolen, we still shouldn't deport illegal immigrants, then your argument that we shouldn't deport illegal immigrants because stolen land crumbles.

07:48:29.040 There has to be other justification for why we should not deport people.

07:48:32.420 Sure, there's other justification besides the stolen land part.

07:48:35.820 Okay, great.

07:48:36.960 So pushing stolen land aside.

07:48:38.700 So then you're still in favor, even if it's not stolen land, that we should not deport them.

07:48:44.880 Yeah, I think you should allow people to have the opportunity to make better for themselves.

07:48:48.200 Question for you.

07:48:49.020 In a hypothetical scenario, what percentage of the world population do you think, or you could give me a number like 500 million, 1 billion, 2 billion, 3 billion.

07:48:59.820 What percentage of people out there in the world, many of which live in third world nations and in like robust, terrible poverty, how many people in the world would like to live in the United States?

07:49:14.280 I can't give you a, I don't know that number.

07:49:16.140 How many people live in India?

07:49:18.180 I don't know that exact number either.

07:49:19.780 I would argue 99% of people who live in India would rather live in the United States.

07:49:26.080 Do you know how many people live in India? 1.00

07:49:28.200 I think there's a lot of people that would rather be weird. 1.00

07:49:30.040 Tell me how much.

07:49:30.900 Give me a number.

07:49:31.860 No, I don't know how many people are.

07:49:33.420 Guess.

07:49:33.940 Guess.

07:49:34.460 Guess.

07:49:36.920 80 million.

07:49:37.720 I don't know.

07:49:38.540 There's 80 million people.

07:49:39.820 I don't know.

07:49:39.940 It's like 1.3 or 1.4 billion people in India.

07:49:44.120 The United States population is what?

07:49:46.160 Just shy of 400?

07:49:47.660 Or what is it?

07:49:48.240 Where is that?

07:49:48.640 It's 300-something.

07:49:49.160 It's like 350.

07:49:50.820 Where is it at?

07:49:52.260 It's mid-300s.

07:49:53.440 Do you think the United States, let's say, and say, you know what?

07:49:56.500 It's not 99% of Indian people want to move to the United States.

07:49:59.740 Let's say it's only 50.

07:50:00.800 So let's say it's 700 million people, which is about double the population of the United States.

07:50:07.720 Do you think the United States has the infrastructure and the capacity to allow in 700 million people?

07:50:14.360 No.

07:50:15.040 But they want a better life for themselves.

07:50:17.040 Why should they not come here?

07:50:22.160 I understand what you're saying as far as the numbers.

07:50:26.020 of like i understand that but i'm just saying that like for me personally i wouldn't be able

07:50:32.280 to say like i'm okay with someone just being deported just because they didn't come through

07:50:37.000 the proper channels i have you ever been to have you ever been to india no i haven't so let's say

07:50:43.860 we were to import 1 billion indians into the united states do you think the united states

07:50:49.200 would continue remaining to look wait do you think the united hold on hold on wait hold on

07:50:55.700 But if we were to import one billion Indians, do you think the United States would continue to look like the United States or would it look like India within 20 years? 0.58

07:51:07.760 Like India? 0.98

07:51:08.620 I don't, I can't say, I don't, I don't know. 0.55

07:51:11.360 It would look like India.

07:51:12.240 okay for sure so do we as americans as citizens owe a stewardship to our fellow citizens and to

07:51:23.380 our country to uh not like entirely fuck up the great thing that we have going for here which is

07:51:30.100 america i like i said i can't personally i know it feels good to let all those immigrants in it

07:51:38.920 feels like the right thing to do this is honestly i don't know i shouldn't say it you need to 0.92

07:51:44.320 prioritize your family so we're not gonna let the immigrants in that's your opinion yeah so 1.00

07:51:52.460 ultimately but but you say it's not like my opinion is changing what's happening 0.99

07:51:57.300 the the issue is is that uh you say it doesn't have an impact but even if these people are are 0.97

07:52:05.600 By the way, I fucking love Mexicans 1.00

07:52:08.060 They're fucking dope 1.00

07:52:09.500 I love Mexicans, they're great 1.00

07:52:11.060 They're hard workers, I love their food

07:52:13.920 Trust me, I love their food

07:52:15.160 And they're great people

07:52:17.780 Mexicans are great people

07:52:20.540 And I want their country to prosper 1.00

07:52:23.080 They're our neighbors, they're fucking dope 1.00

07:52:25.040 Mexicans are fucking great 1.00

07:52:26.560 But they should prosper 1.00

07:52:29.060 In their country

07:52:30.200 They should prosper in their country

07:52:33.140 Wait, wait, wait

07:52:34.320 But also, like, the people that are going to leave Mexico to come here, those tend to be the ambitious people.

07:52:40.240 Those tend to be the hard workers.

07:52:42.780 Mexico needs ambitious people.

07:52:44.600 Mexico needs intelligent people.

07:52:46.320 Mexico needs the hard workers and all that stuff.

07:52:48.920 What you have happening a lot of times is called brain drain. 1.00

07:52:53.120 So, like, the smart people, they're like, fuck, this country sucks. 1.00

07:52:56.240 I'm not talking about Mexico, but, like, any country. 1.00

07:52:59.260 like you you can see people leaving like europe because they're like oh i'd rather live in the

07:53:04.040 united states or whatever you get brain drain and uh countries need like they're highly intelligent

07:53:09.480 high iq people to like be part of the infrastructure be part of the government etc etc

07:53:14.520 so you you if you just allow like the best of the best to come to america i mean it's good

07:53:21.180 can be good for us i guess um but like then that creates a a system where those countries can't

07:53:28.380 flourish because all the talent comes to the united states so in furtherance of uh the flourishing

07:53:34.400 of these other countries uh it's actually doing them harm by just allowing all these people to

07:53:39.400 come here legally or illegally and i can uh agree with what you're saying as far as like those

07:53:45.260 countries do need those ambitious people to like but at the same time like i said that comes from

07:53:50.480 like a government standpoint if they're what is a government but the people it's made of of

07:53:56.200 individuals okay but the individuals don't control the government and by the way like

07:54:01.240 mexico is has some issues but it's not like i'm not even talking about mexico like there's i'm

07:54:07.880 honestly the most like the dangerous places i'm even talking about is more like central america

07:54:13.080 like el salvador okay they should stop well first off they should stop in mexico then

07:54:17.820 first off if you're seeking asylum you're supposed to stop in the first country that is safe you're

07:54:25.740 not supposed to like i'm just going to keep going to like the the more preferable country also

07:54:31.240 mexico they speak spanish there so like you can assimilate better to the culture in which you

07:54:36.180 actually speak the language we shouldn't be taking on people who can't even speak english

07:54:40.420 control where people go to whether they stop in mexico or whether they actually can't control 0.90

07:54:47.860 where people go to do you know how i'm talking about i can't control we deport them okay but

07:54:53.220 guess what i'm not going to agree that like on your standpoint we're just not going to agree so

07:54:57.460 it's like it's an agree to disagree well there is your opinion that's your well i'm not starting to

07:55:02.040 sit here and force you to change your opinion because of mine it's just your okay hold on the

07:55:08.900 point the point of this discussion is not for me to try to force your opinion i know it's i know

07:55:13.820 it's not you trying to force your opinion on me the point of this discussion is to show the people

07:55:19.360 watching at home that there is one opinion coming from logic, reasoning, prioritizing

07:55:25.740 the caring of our families, our communities, and there's an argument being made to prioritize

07:55:32.020 the emotional, like, I feel like it would be nice to let people in my country to pursue

07:55:37.660 a better life, even though it's going to cost my family, the citizens that live around me

07:55:42.860 in this country, even though it's going to make our lives harder, it's going to be harder

07:55:46.180 to find housing it's gonna be harder to afford our lives here but it's gonna feel nice to let 0.99

07:55:52.660 people into our country illegally i want to piggyback off what uh mason was saying there so 0.95

07:55:58.100 even for the illegal immigrants that they're not committing crimes many of the illegal immigrants 0.97

07:56:02.700 they're not they're not like violent they're not thugs many of them are just like good people like 0.98

07:56:07.500 you said who want a better life and that's look if i was born in fucking i don't know venezuela 0.99

07:56:14.520 and my prospects were shit hey shit maybe i maybe even i would do it maybe i would try like shit 0.99

07:56:21.740 i think people are self-serving in that sense but i wouldn't be all surprised like if i for 1.00

07:56:27.660 example me maybe japan's super dope right never been uh but look asian women are hot not gonna 1.00

07:56:33.080 lie especially the japanese like if i just went to japan and i was like you know what i'm just 1.00

07:56:38.640 gonna stay here fuck the process i'm just running through these asian women like it's nuts and 1.00

07:56:44.840 they're just like making weird noises during sex it's crazy bro have you seen japanese porn that 1.00

07:56:48.900 just wild so anyways just kidding but uh i want to stay in japan because the japanese women they're 0.99

07:56:55.040 more trad they're they're hotter whatever it is right um they make like weird okay never mind i'm 0.98

07:57:03.740 being cringe um so i wouldn't be surprised though if like japan deported me like would you be i'm

07:57:11.320 sure you don't object to like japan uh deporting people i'm not saying like oh like i'm would i

07:57:19.400 would be surprised if they deported you it's just more do you think okay hold on is it justified for

07:57:24.520 japan to deport me yeah i'm not saying but hold on i've moved there for a better life i'm just 0.99

07:57:31.720 trying to fuck their japanese women it's not justified at like you said at the end of the day 0.99

07:57:36.480 like it's a crime that's being committed yes to come into this country no but you're saying we 1.00

07:57:41.500 shouldn't deport the illegal immigrants but i'm moving to japan for a better life i need that 1.00

07:57:48.200 japanese pussy but what i'm saying is just because oh me so horny he love you long time 1.00

07:57:56.120 Just because I feel that way, like, that's just my – like you said, it's like maybe it is coming from that emotional side. 1.00

07:58:03.000 But, okay, would you be fine with the Japanese deporting me?

07:58:07.380 No, I mean, like, I don't feel – I feel the same exact way.

07:58:10.700 It's like if you're not committing – you're not a danger to someone, you're not committing a crime, like –

07:58:14.760 Hold on.

07:58:16.160 Tiffany, the – I ordered pizza for peeps.

07:58:19.400 Tiffany, can you go get the pizza?

07:58:22.760 Okay, so –

07:58:24.640 I feel the same way everywhere as I do about, like, my stance here.

07:58:28.500 Like, it's just, like, and it may be out of that emotional, like, illogical, but that's just how I feel.

07:58:34.080 Which, someone commented this, is why we need to repeal the 19th.

07:58:41.880 Evidence before your very eyes.

07:58:44.680 Like, that's just how I, I can't change.

07:58:48.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:58:49.260 No, I agree, I agree.

07:58:50.360 I'm not saying it's not, it's, like, 100% logical.

07:58:53.120 it is coming from an emotional place but that's just yeah but are you fine with japan deporting

07:58:59.320 me no if you're not like hurting yeah i'm not like i don't think it's an issue for like anyone

07:59:05.760 to just like go live their best life like and you're doing it like okay well i guess she's

07:59:10.220 consistent i guess she's consistent but the thing i was going to point out and just picking piggybacking

07:59:17.000 off uh mason's point is you say that they're not hurting anybody but they are so how many

07:59:24.940 illegal immigrants do you think are in the united states i don't know the exact number i think it's

07:59:29.740 over 10 million it might be way higher it could be 20 it could be 30 i don't know the exact

07:59:34.220 numbers um do you do you own the house or do you pay rent i rent you rent uh you're in la

07:59:42.780 San Diego you're in San Diego do you think the rent's too expensive yeah do you think it's too

07:59:49.520 high yeah yeah so to be I want to be charitable I don't want to be completely unfair uh the the

07:59:56.620 state of the economy is not 100% influenced by illegal immigrants I don't know what percentage

08:00:05.080 I would attribute to it um it's hard to say precisely I would say that if we have a housing

08:00:12.040 stock in the united states and this applies not just to housing but to other resources too

08:00:17.960 uh this could be health care it could be it could be food well it's definitely health care

08:00:23.420 because they're going they're not even paying their hospital bills yeah um so the housing stock

08:00:30.360 though uh the if there's 10 million illegal immigrants they're not homeless most of them

08:00:37.920 are occupying housing stock that could otherwise go to American citizens. So I think rent is 0.94

08:00:47.080 fucking bullshit in this country. I think housing prices are bullshit in this country. And I don't 1.00

08:00:54.720 know the housing. It could be millions or even in the tens of millions of houses that are being

08:01:03.600 occupied apartments, houses that are being occupied by illegal immigrants. If we were to deport all 1.00

08:01:09.900 illegal immigrants, our housing prices would go down, rent would go down, healthcare costs would 1.00

08:01:15.340 go down, food costs would go down. You know what, even if it fucking went up, whatever, don't care, 1.00

08:01:20.920 fair trade-off. But I do think that it does harm people. Rent is bullshit in this country. Rent is 0.96

08:01:30.800 way too expensive it's fucking bullshit that that uh people who uh can barely afford rent 1.00

08:01:38.480 and so i'm gonna pass it to mason because i gotta take this nice nice go get the pizza 0.99

08:01:45.020 yeah i mean i i think it's absolutely garbage um yeah we we should not have to pay for the 0.90

08:01:52.620 the luxury that people from this country from other countries want to have by coming into ours 1.00

08:01:59.280 I think it's just, I think it's garbage. 1.00

08:02:02.400 If they really want, if they want to come to our country, they should come through the legal way. 1.00

08:02:06.820 They shouldn't cut the line. 0.99

08:02:09.720 And I mean, because there are plenty of people in that line.

08:02:13.420 I know some of those people and they work extremely hard to get here.

08:02:17.000 And some of those people I know who have gotten that opportunity to become American citizens and they're better American citizens.

08:02:24.020 Like they're better American citizens than the people I know who are born in this country.

08:02:28.180 because they worked hard to get here but one thing i can definitely say about people coming 0.94

08:02:33.040 here legally they're not very good american citizens they're still waving their flag 0.97

08:02:38.500 they they stomp on ours they burn ours to the ground i think it's garbage i think they should 0.99

08:02:44.080 all be deported and if they really want to come back they should come back the right way because 0.97

08:02:49.120 i know they will be they'll be appreciative of being here they'll be better citizens and i will

08:02:53.500 gladly welcome them in yeah i mean i just don't see a logical argument otherwise are you wait are

08:03:01.600 you um like you're part black part white part mexican or what's your black and white you're

08:03:08.140 black and white okay um you said you're mexican like you were born there or i was born here but 0.73

08:03:14.840 your parents your second generation i'm first generation born here okay so your parents came

08:03:20.760 from mexico yes both of them citizens here so your parents were illegal no i'm kidding i'm kidding

08:03:25.500 well quick question for you um in a morally neutral blame-free hypothetical conflict between

08:03:37.980 the united states and mexico where neither side is right or wrong to which country is your

08:03:43.720 allegiance where i live so the united states okay uh what about your parents what do you think

08:03:50.400 their answer would be i think uh my dad passed uh he's sorry to hear that

08:03:56.920 it's been a while but my mom would probably stand uh for the country that she currently

08:04:03.380 lives in as well okay cool and she'd feel for her home country obviously we should

08:04:11.940 look you know i don't think ice is doing enough to be honest i agree they should probably deport

08:04:19.240 more people look the americans voted for mass deportations instead we have these currently 0.96

08:04:26.340 there's this have you seen the dignidad yeah good fucking thing there these republicans in in 0.64

08:04:32.180 congress are uh trying to pass amnesty republicans are trying to pass amnesty 0.96

08:04:39.120 cucked l republicans uh not it's it's very uh it's not a lot of republicans but uh 0.95

08:04:46.960 we're totally ridiculous okay um hold on one sec uh okay next topic let me see if there's any 0.98

08:04:54.760 further notes uh uh i think wait wait you're not what we did yours oh wait wait angelica um 0.87

08:05:10.640 you dated a 40 year old guy who started crying after you told him gently and nicely there's

08:05:18.500 likely not a second date yes yes here just leave it there for a bit tiffany and we'll deal with it

08:05:27.420 in a sec 40 year old fully grown man uh appeared very confident very you know all the good traits

08:05:39.260 I like um and then we went on a date the date was well but he couldn't stop talking about

08:05:45.960 how much he loved his nephew and that he couldn't wait till until he had kids and I had told him

08:05:52.240 I am done having children so if you don't want to have children then maybe maybe this can work out

08:06:00.300 um but I'll go on a date with you if you want to ask me okay well he couldn't stop talking about

08:06:09.260 When I get married, when I have kids, I want my kids to speak this language because it's my native language.

08:06:15.360 I'm like, you're making a lot of plans for these kids that don't exist and that you are really desiring.

08:06:20.420 And I'm not going to be able to give these to you.

08:06:24.060 And so what are you doing?

08:06:25.840 Wasting your time and my time.

08:06:27.820 And he started.

08:06:30.160 Crying.

08:06:31.120 After the day.

08:06:31.720 Nice.

08:06:32.640 I know.

08:06:33.600 Good times.

08:06:35.120 Yeah, I don't.

08:06:36.120 Men should probably not cry, to be honest.

08:06:38.860 in general

08:06:40.680 how did you respond though in the moment

08:06:46.400 I was massively

08:06:48.680 icked

08:06:49.180 he did the grand gesture

08:06:52.080 he did a really good job on the date

08:06:54.960 flowers nice

08:06:56.780 restaurant like really

08:06:58.640 appreciated me like

08:07:00.200 was an overall

08:07:02.620 good guy but then he couldn't stop

08:07:04.600 talking about his kids like he

08:07:06.600 was maybe trying to convince me like maybe

08:07:08.420 if i take her on a nice day and he'll like me enough she likes me enough maybe she'll give me

08:07:13.360 a child wait so before he knew i did not want any more children like i just know like you told him

08:07:21.120 before the day yes i have three i don't want anymore any that's so yeah it was inconsistent

08:07:29.700 like you're you keep talking about your nephew and how much you love him and you can't wait

08:07:34.600 weird who wants pizza no yeah yeah yeah yes i need the calories yeah two slices or one

08:07:44.440 um one one one one two three three three three for you three for mason all right here mason

08:07:52.940 take it away for a bit i'll be like that all right i'll take it away

08:07:55.580 i had to tie his hand behind his back okay what to say what to say oh yes hmm we've already talked

08:08:03.860 about skin the thing is like okay so i had the plan when brian was going to get up and i was

08:08:08.620 going to take over because it happens every once in a while i was going to talk about skin virginity

08:08:12.700 but we've already covered that about what skin virginity oh yeah yeah because i'm i am a skin

08:08:18.040 virgin me too i i like that that is nice that is nice to hear yeah so i was going to ask i was

08:08:23.660 going to interrogate you people be like obviously you guys are not skin virgins but my boyfriend

08:08:28.520 has a thing about that he's like i don't know that i would like you if you had tattoos exactly

08:08:31.820 i agree i agree yeah but we've already lost that i can't bring that up what else do i talk about

08:08:37.180 brian stole your thunder i know he stole my thunder brought up tattoos and ruined it for me

08:08:42.940 but he brought me pizza so i guess i can forgive him yeah goodness gracious yeah okay uh no yes

08:08:52.100 okay this is important uh do you approve of pineapple on pizza yes i do you do oh my gosh

08:08:59.380 okay tell me really all of it are you liberal i don't consider myself i mean you're pro

08:09:07.880 i honestly like i don't feel like it would be right for me to say i'm either because like

08:09:15.360 there's some things i have like mixed feelings on yeah but just like my like values i feel like

08:09:22.000 as far as like um relationship stuff definitely falls like more traditional but i think just

08:09:28.480 because of like some of the environments and i was raised in and the things i've seen like

08:09:32.960 some of my moral like social stuff kind of falls a little more so i guess like i've experienced a

08:09:39.580 lot of how do how are your values in a relationship traditional but you're in a situationship

08:09:46.420 how are they traditional when i well because like if i the person who i'm going to marry like that

08:09:54.140 yeah and like how that would happen like that's more traditional what i'm in right now is like

08:09:59.000 it's just like this is someone i love and care about and it's like i'm here for a limited time

08:10:06.460 i would rather put my energy into this person that like i feel safe with i feel comfortable

08:10:11.880 with like i know i know he values me like we have our own situation without like going and meeting

08:10:17.060 randos and like you know giving myself to any more people whereas but once i move my the way i'm

08:10:24.880 intentionally date is like date to marry like i don't you know hook up with random people i don't

08:10:30.300 do like apps and stuff like but so would you describe this situationship thing traditional

08:10:36.580 no no this yeah so so so i guess your dating isn't traditional if but if i was staying it

08:10:44.460 would be like we would be in a more traditional setting but it's like so i guess like what i'm

08:10:50.100 what i'm trying to like uh point to is like eventually when you find this man that you

08:10:55.080 want to eventually marry who's a traditional man do you think a traditional man is gonna like

08:11:01.320 that the woman that he's starting to date

08:11:04.600 has the tendency to pursue

08:11:09.380 non-traditional relationships?

08:11:11.520 I mean, that's something I would be transparent about,

08:11:14.660 and that would just be up to his decision

08:11:15.900 if he's willing to accept that past or not.

08:11:17.760 And if he's not, then that's absolutely his will.

08:11:20.380 Well, yeah, so what I'm trying to ask is... 0.76

08:11:23.700 I don't think it's impossible to get a traditional man

08:11:25.820 just because of...

08:11:26.600 Well, yeah, it's not impossible to win the lottery.

08:11:29.180 It's just the likelihood.

08:11:30.100 so the like what is the likelihood of you running into a man who has traditional values that is

08:11:37.600 going to be that is okay with getting with a woman who has had non-traditional relationships

08:11:45.920 i think it's very likely because i know a lot of traditional men who their their wives you know

08:11:52.640 had similar situations before had a past that wasn't like you know pristine or virtuous and

08:11:58.180 you know the ways that you've described previously yeah well yeah well the thing is like i i don't

08:12:03.240 think that uh yeah i'm not saying that like you won't be able to find someone who will agree to

08:12:09.380 getting married with you i'm talking about the quality of that marriage because i would say the

08:12:13.940 quality of the marriages who i see when the guy like just takes a woman even though she's had a

08:12:20.920 checkered past like he says i just want to get married i know these i know these guys i have

08:12:25.640 know plenty of these situations where they just like i really want to get married i'll take this

08:12:30.780 broken this broken lady and i'll just fix her well and i'm not i'm not saying you're broken

08:12:36.380 i know but i'm saying like yeah but a woman who is non-traditional and i'm gonna fix her and i'm 0.85

08:12:43.000 gonna make her traditional it's never worked out well i can agree with that i think wait sorry i

08:12:47.500 do have to move things on just for the sake of time um question uh are you pro-choice or pro-life

08:12:55.640 it's tough pro-choice pro-life pro-life pro-life life i would probably lean more pro-choice

08:13:08.000 pro-choice question for you uh would you rather have abortion or democracy

08:13:15.440 wait i'm sorry so you have to choose oh like the right to abortion or democracy of course democracy

08:13:23.620 yeah okay just checking uh all right oh those of you okay let's do this one um

08:13:32.520 does anyone here have a celebrity crush

08:13:35.220 anybody oh man i don't even want to say it because it's cliche who leo no so not the actor that plays

08:13:47.020 thor thor just thor if he shows up is if he shows up is just like hey i'm chris henswood no

08:13:54.940 you gotta be thor so if do you get a hall pass yes wait really if real if if yeah does he have

08:14:03.380 a thor costume for you no he's no no he doesn't does your the husband can't pull that off the

08:14:08.720 husband cannot pull off the thor situation i love him but he he he it would have to wait would you

08:14:14.240 actually would you actually though probably not but it is you know it's not chris hemsworth it's

08:14:21.120 actually thorne oh my gosh i can't yeah i probably would no i wouldn't i wouldn't does your husband

08:14:34.640 have a hall pass oh yeah who well for a long time it was jennifer aniston um but he hasn't really

08:14:43.240 said in a long time okay probably give them one celebrity crush roman reigns oh wait um

08:14:51.480 wait yeah yeah i think i was looking at your instagram and it's like isn't it just all posts

08:14:59.140 of roman reigns in my oh like in my reposts i think your reposts i do repost when he his

08:15:05.960 clips come up i'll be like oh so yeah he's probably in there uh celebrity crush none my boyfriend is

08:15:12.900 it okay celebrity crush so you don't have a hall pass no uh okay so for you let's say you were

08:15:20.860 married but roman reigns is like um would you no but never step out but not not just for a one

08:15:31.800 night stand like roman reigns is like i love you i want to be in a relationship with you i will stay

08:15:36.580 with you for life no you you don't you don't trade you don't do the trade my husband that's my that's

08:15:42.380 my person okay if you say so uh let's see here uh okay we're gonna just do some quick questions and

08:15:50.560 then wrap uh these are like rapid fire questions so uh what species are we almost sapiens name

08:16:01.280 three countries besides the usa mexico uh india and russia can't repeat same three countries

08:16:11.920 i mean like three countries um nigeria um

08:16:18.320 uh denmark and greece italy scotland ireland finland finland norway poland okay uh how many

08:16:30.420 continents are there six i don't know guess throw the number you just throw one out throw that

08:16:39.560 number eight eight continents okay seven seven mason oh i'm not this smart how many continents

08:16:50.320 are there five no come on seven uh okay there's actually enough people to not even name all of

08:16:58.360 the continents uh name one continent you can't repeat i don't even know what it is wait wait

08:17:04.800 hold on hold on i believe wait wait name one continent one continent you got this you got this

08:17:10.300 i don't even know what a continent is just guess wait wait wait you got you you hold on wait oh

08:17:16.680 wait stop stop stop you don't know one continent no you wait you you don't even know what a continent

08:17:27.640 is no say that again i don't know what a continent is oh no yes you do okay wait

08:17:36.940 question for you is africa a country yeah okay is south america a country country no

08:17:49.380 What is South America?

08:17:51.700 Oh.

08:17:52.560 I see now.

08:17:54.320 Wow.

08:17:55.620 You know what? 1.00

08:17:56.260 Maybe we were giving her a hard time on the sex work. 1.00

08:17:58.760 Maybe it is the only option.

08:18:03.340 You know what I mean?

08:18:05.160 You don't know what the continent is? 0.99

08:18:06.980 Damn, what are they doing in Utah? 1.00

08:18:08.240 What the fuck? 1.00

08:18:09.000 I don't know. 1.00

08:18:09.740 God damn. 1.00

08:18:10.660 Were you homeschooled or what? 1.00

08:18:12.360 No.

08:18:12.900 Public school?

08:18:13.680 That makes sense.

08:18:15.060 I went to public school. 1.00

08:18:17.360 I know what the fuck is. 0.99

08:18:18.100 I was in kindergarten and I know where the continent is. 0.99

08:18:21.140 Why not Utah?

08:18:23.560 It's California.

08:18:25.920 Okay.

08:18:26.540 A lot of the schools.

08:18:27.460 Name one continent.

08:18:29.460 Australia.

08:18:30.740 Antarctica.

08:18:32.220 North America.

08:18:33.380 Europe.

08:18:34.200 Sweet.

08:18:34.640 Okay.

08:18:35.520 What two countries border the USA?

08:18:39.380 Mexico.

08:18:41.820 I don't know.

08:18:43.120 You got this.

08:18:43.700 Guess. 1.00

08:18:44.460 Shoot it. 1.00

08:18:45.300 Come on. 1.00

08:18:45.640 It's up north.

08:18:48.100 i don't know no don't help no hints i don't know i'm so i'm not smart at all that's don't say that

08:18:56.340 that's not true that is true i actually don't know what it would be i know mexico is wait is

08:19:02.960 mexico north or south south okay point with your finger which direction that is i also don't know

08:19:11.100 that i told you i'm not smart wait wait hold on okay so point using your finger which direction

08:19:21.800 is mexico i don't know okay which direction is south here put your finger i wouldn't be able

08:19:31.120 point in the direction i would not be able to tell you okay but so here some i i want to be

08:19:40.160 fair because this question could mean do you mean uh like from my own current orientation

08:19:47.120 which direction is south i'm making the question really simple if you're looking at a map

08:19:53.660 like a typical standard map which direction using your finger is south

08:20:00.960 i don't know wait do that again that way i don't know it's do it above the mic

08:20:10.960 south is that way i don't know on the map okay which which direction is north

08:20:18.460 up north is north is up i think so on a map i don't know yeah on a map on a map on the map

08:20:26.420 I think it's up.

08:20:27.860 Okay.

08:20:28.140 I don't know.

08:20:28.420 North is up. 0.76

08:20:29.200 So south is right.

08:20:30.460 North is up.

08:20:31.600 Which way is west?

08:20:34.500 I don't know.

08:20:35.580 I don't know.

08:20:37.080 I wouldn't even know.

08:20:37.780 There's two more answers.

08:20:38.800 But look, use your fingers.

08:20:40.380 Point which way is west on a map.

08:20:43.280 Well, if I already said this way and this way, then maybe that way.

08:20:46.620 I don't know.

08:20:47.040 Okay, east.

08:20:47.440 Which way is east?

08:20:48.480 There's only one remaining.

08:20:50.060 Then the only one remaining is down.

08:20:52.020 So, okay.

08:20:53.260 I'll ask again.

08:20:54.080 which direction is east pointing with your finger down east is down yeah i don't know

08:21:01.140 that's the only one remaining so i don't know

08:21:03.980 wow um which direction is south

08:21:10.900 yeah uh okay um oh uh what what's the other country that borders the usa canada you are

08:21:21.640 correct how many states in the usa 51 or 50 51 yeah 50 50 what is the capital of the usa

08:21:31.240 washington right like the state yeah washington state yeah is the capital of the u.s

08:21:39.780 yeah like washington is washington on the west coast or the east coast

08:21:44.540 i don't know i'm i'm not like the state the state of washington is it i don't know where it is it

08:21:51.320 i have no idea is the state of washington closer to california or closer to new york

08:21:58.880 closer to california but it's the capital also i honestly don't know okay i don't know uh what

08:22:06.740 is the capital of the usa okay name three u.s states uh utah texas california this one's too

08:22:16.380 easy. Let's go. Name two countries in Europe. I don't know anything about Europe. Just two

08:22:21.860 countries in Europe. I don't know any. Wait, wait, wait. I don't know. I believe in you.

08:22:29.140 I don't know countries in Europe. Countries, did you say, or cities? Countries. Countries.

08:22:34.260 Isn't Europe a country? I don't know. Europe. Continent. I don't know.

08:22:42.380 okay well name two cities in europe then is that easier i don't does that help no i just thought

08:22:51.640 you were messing with me for a second you don't know two countries and you're you get to go first

08:22:58.520 by the way which means like they couldn't repeat like you just get free reign over all of europe

08:23:03.940 um no i don't know uh yo savage thank you for the uh looks like you bought some merch there

08:23:13.820 hold on let me pull it up thank you savage appreciate the merch purchase uh

08:23:19.040 what is okay the country that speaks english what country is that

08:23:30.380 russia i don't know russia no they don't speak english russia

08:23:39.120 oh england wait what wait what language do they speak oh yeah i guess we should leave it split

08:23:47.360 yeah let's leave it split for a minute or i guess we don't we could do center and then

08:23:51.100 do that what language do they speak in russia i corrected myself i was just thinking white

08:23:58.940 people but no they speak russian aren't they white everywhere in europe well i mean it's

08:24:04.720 starting to change but um i was just trying to we should probably do something about that 1.00

08:24:09.520 we should probably whatever's going on there we got to stop that shit um deport them all 0.99

08:24:15.980 um uh okay what language do they speak in russia russian what language do they speak in england 1.00

08:24:25.280 English.

08:24:26.780 Okay, so that... 0.98

08:24:27.700 Yeah, I was being stupid. 0.90

08:24:29.220 What are some other European languages? 0.99

08:24:34.660 I don't know.

08:24:35.700 Okay, list some other languages.

08:24:38.880 Spanish, Arabic. 0.66

08:24:43.280 Other languages that white people speak.

08:24:47.080 I don't know. 0.98

08:24:47.640 I thought just English.

08:24:49.200 Russian.

08:24:49.920 I don't know. 0.81

08:24:50.360 Okay, Russian.

08:24:50.940 But you did say Spanish.

08:24:52.420 Spanish.

08:24:53.240 Okay, what...

08:24:54.500 Every country originated the Spanish language.

08:25:00.340 Spain?

08:25:01.360 Which is a country where?

08:25:03.540 Is that in Europe?

08:25:05.400 You don't know if Spain is in Europe.

08:25:10.720 No, I don't know.

08:25:11.580 Where is Spain?

08:25:13.380 I don't know.

08:25:14.160 Is it in the Middle East?

08:25:15.500 It could be. 0.52

08:25:16.120 Maybe it's, you know, next to Iran.

08:25:18.540 Spain and Iran have had many border conflicts as of late.

08:25:24.500 okay all right um two countries in europe please switzerland and italy germany and portugal

08:25:37.380 croatia and italy really yeah i didn't know i wouldn't have been able to guess that no oh boy

08:25:45.000 okay um how many planets are in our solar system that's another one i have no idea

08:25:50.280 okay

08:25:56.280 i think it's seven

08:26:01.580 nine with pluto nine okay um what planet do we live on

08:26:11.220 earth earth are you sure though are you sure okay what is the capital of california

08:26:20.280 California? I know it's not. It's one that's like not expected, but I don't remember what it is.

08:26:30.940 Someone just told me, but I don't know. I'm also new to California. The government building,

08:26:38.800 the Pentagon, is what shape? Pentagon? Final answer. Do you think most buildings are a

08:26:46.900 pentagon shape like many of them are squares or rectangles i don't know i don't i've never seen

08:26:52.920 it and i yeah are you sure you want to go with pentagon well no because that's probably not

08:26:58.540 do you think it's a wreck it's not possible for a building to be a pentagon probably not probably

08:27:03.340 not yeah it's probably a rectangle like rectangular anyways probably 0.98

08:27:09.940 why did you just let me gaslight you what the fuck you had it right um 0.74

08:27:19.700 i don't know uh what what river runs through egypt i'm sorry no the nile 0.99

08:27:26.840 you don't know okay well she just said but i don't know maybe it's wrong maybe it's right

08:27:36.220 uh okay what what country for you what country is directly north of mexico

08:27:43.080 i you ask me this over i'm never gonna be able to tell you well this is a different question

08:27:51.620 different question what what is it us what country is directly north of mexico so us then

08:27:58.680 the u.s yeah you are correct uh let's see i'm gonna skip some of these um how many sides does

08:28:06.680 a triangle have what do you call a shape with five sides

08:28:11.780 what country gifted the statue of liberty to the united states you know that you know what

08:28:21.960 the statue of liberty is though right yeah so what is the country that gifted it to us

08:28:27.160 i don't know was it japan i wasn't even aware that it was here i'm gonna do multiple choice 0.96

08:28:33.280 for you because i'm a nice guy uh germany japan england france france fuck okay 0.91

08:28:44.120 uh what gas do humans breathe in to survive 0.99

08:28:48.720 what are you breathing right now i know the answer i'm not this stupid but i just 0.73

08:28:57.160 I can't think now. 0.99

08:29:05.400 I'm too put on the spot.

08:29:09.160 What gas do plants absorb from the air?

08:29:13.040 I don't know.

08:29:14.060 What gas do humans breathe in to survive?

08:29:17.920 How many months have 28 days?

08:29:20.920 I don't know.

08:29:27.160 which which one what organ pumps uh what organ pumps blood through your heart

08:29:33.880 wait that doesn't hold on what what organ what organ hold on i messed it up what organ 0.93

08:29:46.240 pumps blood through your body oh your heart i fucked that up okay wait wait uh what continent 0.77

08:29:54.520 is brazilian i don't know oh actually that is a good idea tiffany to go from center when i ask 0.98

08:30:03.660 and then just go to split i think that works uh so what continent is brazilian i have no idea

08:30:09.960 is brazil north or south of the united states

08:30:19.460 i don't know on the map i don't i don't look at world maps so i've never looked at the map

08:30:29.800 have you ever read a book um no i mean in school like when i was in like like ender's game or

08:30:35.760 something or no like when you're to kill a mockingbird yeah probably books like that i've

08:30:40.640 never actually read a book did you have to read ender's game in school uh not for class for fun

08:30:46.820 yeah it was an assigned book for me in like eighth wait seventh grade really great book by

08:30:54.220 the way great book okay uh what continent based w teacher who made me read that book

08:31:00.960 uh what continent is egyptian again i don't know

08:31:07.140 guess i couldn't even guess okay multiple choice here

08:31:14.840 africa north america australia europe

08:31:24.280 egypt is in europe i don't know oh boy okay brazil north america europe asia south america

08:31:40.740 brazil yeah yeah i don't know but it was multiple choice so pick one um i know i don't

08:31:48.880 south america i don't know i think it's just because that's the last thing she got lucky

08:31:54.400 uh okay this is an easy one what continent is what excuse me what continent is japan

08:32:02.800 multiple choice or i won't be i don't know the continents i couldn't even give you names

08:32:09.880 like i know that there's south america and that's okay i'm gonna list all the continents

08:32:15.180 but i'm not gonna give you like four of them like multiple choice north america south america

08:32:22.280 europe africa asia australia voice crack antarctica did i is that all seven did i miss

08:32:30.520 did i say seven yeah yeah yeah okay and which one am i looking for one of the seven 0.92

08:32:38.420 i know but japan japan yeah japan what continent i don't know damn it

08:32:45.020 okay how many dimes make a dollar four no that's quarter sorry

08:32:53.940 i don't know

08:32:56.740 how much is a dime 10 cents so how many cents are in a dollar yeah

08:33:06.060 100 so 10 times then you are correct well done what is the capital of france

08:33:13.440 i have let's go center and then like for the question then split for the response

08:33:19.580 i i don't know anything about france what's the capital though what's the major city in france

08:33:26.840 i don't know name one city in france i don't know any one city the city of

08:33:34.480 um la italy italy is the city in france i don't know we gotta get her back on the show

08:33:44.000 uh okay um i i'm telling you i i have like this thing like even in utah it's a small town if you

08:33:52.260 put me there i wouldn't be able to find anything like in utah yeah like it's small like even

08:33:57.720 there's like i just don't i don't i don't know what it's called question the eiffel tower is where

08:34:03.960 Italy?

08:34:05.060 I don't know.

08:34:07.960 Okay.

08:34:08.680 What is the capital of Japan?

08:34:15.720 Tokyo?

08:34:16.500 I don't know.

08:34:17.580 Good job. 1.00

08:34:18.440 She did it. 1.00

08:34:19.260 Yay. 0.98

08:34:19.600 Oh, my God.

08:34:20.660 What country is...

08:34:22.820 Wait, I think I asked this.

08:34:25.220 Is south of the United States?

08:34:27.840 South?

08:34:28.420 Yeah.

08:34:28.900 Mexico.

08:34:29.520 Okay, good job.

08:34:30.200 What is 1,000 divided by 10?

08:34:33.060 no

08:34:38.420 mason look into the camera with me um in these moments uh okay if today

08:34:46.480 second guess if a thousand divide by ten hundred if today is monday what day is it in three days

08:34:54.360 you're putting me on the spot i can't answer questions as fast obviously okay sorry i'll

08:35:01.300 slow it down if today is monday what day is it in three days thursday you are correct good job

08:35:13.960 uh if you have three quarters three quarters how much money do you have uh 75 cents you are

08:35:22.280 correct who painted i'm gonna skip that one uh who painted the mona lisa da vinci what is the name

08:35:28.880 of the famous car company founded by henry ford ford congratulations you got it right i have a

08:35:36.680 mustang so that explains it if it takes three minutes to boil one egg three minutes to boil

08:35:43.240 one egg how many minutes does it take to boil three eggs you said it took three minutes or

08:35:49.260 one minute it would take one minute to boil three eggs yeah well but three minutes to boil one

08:35:56.600 it's the same pot of boiling water so one minute they don't take are they all going in at the same

08:36:02.740 that's a new one well if you have a pot yes they're all going in at the same time yeah so

08:36:09.220 they would each take three minutes but i thought you said how many nickels make a dollar

08:36:14.560 nickels five cents yeah i don't know so

08:36:20.780 200 i don't know what is 15 plus 35

08:36:26.200 i guess i could count it on my fingers but i would have to so that would be a lot

08:36:34.500 you can't just brain math it no okay what is 10 plus 10 what is 30 plus 10 40

08:36:45.800 what is 45 plus 5 50 what is 15 plus 35

08:36:54.420 i don't know i would have to what is 40 plus 10

08:37:00.500 50 so if you i'm just going to explain that i guess if you take five away from the 40 and make

08:37:09.080 it 35 and you add 5 to the 10 to make it 15 yeah i'm sure i could go through that but that's just

08:37:15.900 a lot so 15 plus 35 is a lot i would have to like go through a whole process in my head i don't just

08:37:21.680 know the answer so yeah what's 3 plus 7 10 okay 90 minus 45 i don't know that's another one i could

08:37:36.160 eventually find it out but i don't know what at the top of my head what's half of 90

08:37:41.680 is it 35 or i don't know i can't tell you i was

08:37:53.120 30 half of 90 is no that's wrong that's wrong oh boy 12 divided by three i don't know

08:38:00.900 you don't know 12 divided by three no 100 divided by four

08:38:07.140 i don't know

08:38:10.540 you should look into this camera when you give the answer i don't know um maybe not don't do that

08:38:19.180 five times five i don't know at this point i can't think okay count you have five fingers right

08:38:26.860 mm-hmm it's just 5 20 mason can can you guys pass the plates down to mason uh if you're done

08:38:36.740 uh tiffany if you can come over here and grab the plate 20 5 times 5 is 20 5 10 25 sorry okay

08:38:45.640 how many branches of u.s government are there

08:38:48.020 uh name one branch of the u.s government legislative legislative oh my gosh

08:38:56.480 I'm having a complete brain fart

08:38:58.880 Judicial

08:39:00.100 What's the other one?

08:39:01.300 Executive

08:39:01.620 What document begins with we the people?

08:39:07.260 I don't know

08:39:08.200 The preamble to the constitution

08:39:12.480 How many stars are on the

08:39:15.320 How many stars are on the US flag?

08:39:18.460 D 0.99

08:39:18.600 You are correct

08:39:20.540 What century are we in?

08:39:26.480 the 20th century 21st 21st we are in the 21st century sorry sorry uh what what galaxy do we live

08:39:49.760 I don't know

08:39:52.240 Are we in the Andromeda galaxy?

08:39:57.500 I have never even heard anything about galaxies

08:39:59.960 Do you know what a galaxy is?

08:40:02.680 No

08:40:03.000 Space? I don't know

08:40:05.880 Are we in the Milky

08:40:13.540 Highway?

08:40:15.960 Milky Way?

08:40:16.680 are we in the milky way or the milky highway or the milky freeway

08:40:22.440 never heard of or the milky boulevard i've only heard of or the milky

08:40:28.780 road or the milky street i've never heard of those so what are other things like boulevard

08:40:39.080 uh are we on the milky expressway yeah do you like milk ease okay never mind

08:40:49.300 um how many in one dozen

08:40:53.840 12 how many months in a decade i have no idea how many months are in a year

08:41:03.380 12 how many years are in a decade

08:41:07.280 there's there's 12 years in a decade i don't know decade deck deck decade

08:41:16.180 maybe how many years are in a century i have no idea cent century guess i couldn't guess i don't

08:41:27.020 how many years in a decade century okay how many uh months in a decade

08:41:35.020 yep uh what year was the u.s founded i don't know uh

08:41:42.940 i honestly don't remember the exact year 1776 correct correct uh what who was the first president

08:41:51.820 of the usa um i don't know was it abraham lincoln maybe yes or no though pick one

08:42:03.340 abraham lincoln was the first president of the united states and was he assassinated by george

08:42:09.180 washington no who assassinated abraham lincoln i don't know was it abraham lincoln who assassinated

08:42:16.940 george washington no well who was the first president one of those two i'm guessing because

08:42:22.100 you keep mentioning them i don't know on a one dollar bill who is the president on the one dollar

08:42:28.680 bill um george washington i don't know and he was the first president

08:42:34.360 okay uh where are we sorry i got lost my oh what country what country is the great wall of china

08:42:43.980 in? China. You sure? No. Okay. How many seasons are there? How many days in a year? 365. How

08:42:56.940 many letters in the alphabet? How many days of the week end with the letter Y? Tiffany

08:43:04.560 goes center for question split as soon as I finish the question. Every day? Okay. What 0.98

08:43:12.140 language do the people in idaho speak english what uh how many okay we already did that if a

08:43:18.880 dozen eggs cost three dollars how much is each egg

08:43:21.080 oh i actually don't know that one if a dozen eggs is three dollars how much is each egg yeah

08:43:37.760 so like what 40 cents 40 cents 25 cents you are correct congratulations congratulations uh

08:43:50.580 are in order do you know what year the war of 1812 started

08:43:55.220 1812 oh she got one correct well done what is the closest star to earth

08:44:02.320 every time you get a question wrong you have to do an hey gal into the camera no that's too many

08:44:19.600 okay fine every three you get wrong you have to do one that's so embarrassing to do it for all

08:44:24.980 these people well maybe you shouldn't do it on your instagram then but uh okay

08:44:30.020 closest star to earth

08:44:32.180 maybe the moon okay okay it is the sun uh what weighs more a pound of feathers

08:44:43.340 or a pound of bricks the same good job good job okay what country is the panama canal in

08:44:52.240 um country country yeah you are correct uh what i'm gonna skip some of these what language do

08:45:02.700 people speak in mexico what language do people speak in canada is there another language they

08:45:10.280 sometimes speak in canada is it italian

08:45:14.800 spanish all those mexican canadians i don't know what it is but i know there is one i love those

08:45:25.440 mexican canadians um okay if you pass the person in second place what place are you in first

08:45:33.180 second you pass the person in second place you're in first okay

08:45:38.580 mason mason you're in second place you are in second place congratulations a prize is in order

08:45:49.700 uh i guess the product good we speak canonese says pacy george thank you man

08:45:56.220 where did the attack on pearl harbor take place

08:46:00.360 or no no it was it was here right no it was here sorry where

08:46:07.320 I don't know where

08:46:10.420 it was somewhere on a coast or something

08:46:12.540 on the coast of the

08:46:13.880 like so California

08:46:16.240 I don't know

08:46:17.420 which ocean is Japan

08:46:26.640 belonging to

08:46:31.120 I don't know

08:46:33.200 indeed um so wait do you think uh pearl harbor took place in japan maybe tokyo

08:46:46.540 no not japan no okay i was africa no here but i don't know where

08:46:55.700 east coast or west coast i don't know

08:47:00.580 uh closer to the west coast or closer to the east coast again i have no idea yes though

08:47:09.140 um if i had to guess random maybe the west coast okay uh adolf hitler ruled which country

08:47:19.720 who is adolf hitler

08:47:42.040 okay and which country was the nazis um i don't know was it in europe

08:47:57.420 i mean somewhere white so i don't know somewhere white yeah what about those african nazis

08:48:06.060 no i don't know not them okay uh before mount everest was discovered what was the tallest

08:48:13.060 mountain in the world um fuji okay fuji kilimanjaro kiliman okay that's an yeah i have no idea

08:48:21.300 well before something is discovered is it still there

08:48:28.860 still there oh yeah so you're so tricky that was a tricky one to be fair it's tricky uh it before

08:48:37.800 mount everest was discovered mount everest was the tallest mountain in the world uh okay what

08:48:44.980 country this is a bit of a trick question though to be fair what country did the vietnam war happen

08:48:48.960 in vietnam what continent though did that i don't know what continent is vietnam in i have no idea

08:48:57.800 What kind of people live in Vietnam

08:49:01.060 Vietnamese people 1.00

08:49:03.080 Which are what

08:49:04.280 I don't know

08:49:07.000 Are they

08:49:07.520 White 0.80

08:49:10.720 No 1.00

08:49:12.020 Are they Latino 1.00

08:49:14.200 No 1.00

08:49:16.200 Are they 1.00

08:49:17.420 Arabic 1.00

08:49:19.140 What the fuck 1.00

08:49:20.420 Are they 1.00

08:49:24.760 African 0.90

08:49:26.160 No 0.98

08:49:28.220 Are they Ruski? 0.99

08:49:43.060 Asian people? 0.81

08:49:46.040 No 1.00

08:49:46.400 Asian? No? Vietnamese are not Asians? 0.99

08:49:49.200 I don't know

08:49:49.760 Are they Indians?

08:49:51.040 No 1.00

08:49:51.360 What are they? Vietnamese? 1.00

08:49:53.580 yeah but are they also asian i guess that's probably they would look closest to that so

08:50:01.020 that's probably what they are i guess i don't know which primary continent do asian people

08:50:09.860 live on final answer good job sorry i'm sorry okay all right we're almost here at the end here

08:50:21.340 how much is a quarter of an hour

08:50:23.720 a what

08:50:25.020 quarter of an hour

08:50:26.820 oh um

08:50:28.920 25 minutes

08:50:30.100 or

08:50:31.220 it's Tuesday

08:50:36.680 innit

08:50:37.460 I don't know 1.00

08:50:39.840 fucking 0.99

08:50:40.480 quarter of an hour is how much 0.99

08:50:44.160 25 minutes

08:50:45.440 15 minutes

08:50:47.260 it is 15 minutes 1.00

08:50:50.300 You guys fucked up, bro. 1.00

08:50:52.120 Okay. 1.00

08:50:52.820 What is 34 plus 66?

08:50:57.300 I don't know.

08:50:58.140 Throw out the number.

08:51:00.620 34 plus...

08:51:01.860 I don't know.

08:51:03.100 I can't.

08:51:03.700 I'm not thinking.

08:51:05.880 You?

08:51:06.840 34 plus 66.

08:51:15.720 100.

08:51:17.520 100?

08:51:18.500 34 plus 66.

08:51:20.060 What is 100 minus 66?

08:51:29.160 Who is the current U.S. president?

08:51:32.880 Who was the president before Trump?

08:51:37.360 It was actually Obama.

08:51:38.840 No, no, I'm kidding.

08:51:39.640 What is 100 minus 34?

08:51:44.020 60 or whatever.

08:51:46.120 I don't know.

08:51:46.760 I forgot what

08:51:48.760 you guys were just saying.

08:51:51.980 Yeah, what is

08:51:53.000 100 minus 34? What's the number?

08:51:56.640 What order did Emperor Palpatine

08:51:58.820 say?

08:52:00.620 77 plus 33.

08:52:09.400 You are correct.

08:52:10.940 66 plus 44.

08:52:16.760 the 77 plus 33 is actually wrong it's not 100 i know i'm lying i know it's 110

08:52:26.060 it's 110 i was gassing that i was gaslighting them okay if you were we're so close so close 0.98

08:52:32.600 if you were born i need it my fucking pizza's getting cold fuck okay if you were born 10 years 0.99

08:52:37.480 ago if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be today if i was born 10 years ago yes yeah 1.00

08:52:44.400 how old would you let's start with you how old would you be today wow good job guys how many

08:52:49.180 world wars were there i don't know three or four three or four okay two two two well done uh what

08:53:02.560 decade was world war one so what i'm looking for like 1820s 1950s uh 1730s i don't know

08:53:14.080 throw something out guess 1730s

08:53:19.160 1730s

08:53:20.520 1920s 1910s 1920 1920s what was the primary decade of

08:53:29.260 world war ii

08:53:30.260 guess just throw that i wouldn't even know throughout the seven

08:53:37.180 1650 well it has to be it has to be after right

08:53:42.600 so it might be the 1730s it could be the 1790s it could be the 1820s what is it

08:53:47.320 um i don't know whatever you 1890s 1890s okay 1930s 40s 1940s 1940s okay uh

08:54:01.580 i'm gonna skip some uh can you name three k-pop stars no can you name three kardashians

08:54:10.040 we will accept jenner's kardashians or jenner's uh um kylie chris and kendall

08:54:20.500 chloe courtney rob there you go uh let's see here uh i'm skipping a bunch of these

08:54:31.580 do you think i am a misogynist

08:54:40.160 no not a hundred percent all right uh what percentage of men do you think are over six feet

08:54:49.240 20 30 percent um over six feet 43 i'd say around 30. 25 what did you say 40 43 to be six feet or

08:55:07.140 over is about 15 what percentage of men make at least one million dollars a year

08:55:11.440 okay 10 percent 15 15 percent one one point one it's less than one percent uh what percentage

08:55:24.320 of men do you find attractive if you're single i guess wait this is hard to ask the relationship

08:55:31.080 like the women in the relationships never mind uh what percentage of men have yachts

08:55:35.440 five percent okay five percent of men have yachts eight percent eight percent sure

08:55:42.580 yeah like three three percent point one

08:55:46.060 eight percent of men have yachts around the world or is it i don't care where you are girl 0.99

08:55:55.640 you could go to monaco i don't even think in monaco motherfuckers be having i don't even 0.98

08:56:00.740 think of monaco motherfuckers be having some uh they don't they don't got eight percent of men in 0.98

08:56:06.700 monaco don't have no yachts i'll tell you what okay um who does anybody here keep a list of all 0.98

08:56:13.880 the men they've been with i'm not raising my hand i was just demonstrating i wanted you guys to raise

08:56:20.180 your hands don't get a list who has anyone i'll answer this who here has slept with someone the

08:56:28.100 same day that you met them. I did that. At least once. Mason, you fucking slut. Answer

08:56:40.740 the question. Who here has had a threesome? Nobody? Really? Even polyamorous? Okay. Has 0.99

08:56:51.960 anyone had a hell phase no okay has anyone here hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period 1.00

08:56:59.500 yeah that's gross really nobody okay uh do men suck no are men the problem 0.99

08:57:08.140 would you prefer to live in a world without men no okay um let's see if there's anything else 1.00

08:57:17.660 uh do you think white people are inherently racist

08:57:23.000 no do you like white people yes okay have you dated a white boy yes okay uh do you think trump 0.98

08:57:35.880 is a fascist 0.87

08:57:38.200 yes or no i'm not gonna dig too deep um

08:57:47.060 i don't know if fascist is the right word i feel like he's more like elitist than anything but

08:57:54.700 so not a fascist i'm is he a nazi no okay uh

08:58:01.820 i don't know if there's any i guess i'll wrap it pretty much here is uh any final thoughts

08:58:10.540 from anybody before i wrap any final things you guys want to hit or besides

08:58:16.800 no nothing final speak now forever forever hold your peace yo

08:58:23.920 okay i think we did everything we did boom boom boom boom yeah okay all right uh that was uh a

08:58:30.820 small panel but it was fun nevertheless we still had a pretty damn long stream even though it was

08:58:37.880 a super small panel i would not have seen that coming but i also was spurging out for like at

08:58:45.060 least 30 minutes about at the very beginning it was yeah i was i was on a monologue i'm telling

08:58:51.740 I'm telling you what, I was on a monologue right there.

08:58:56.640 I'll tell you what, man.

08:58:58.540 I'll tell you what.

08:58:59.200 I went on the monologue, man. 1.00

08:59:01.700 Shit. 1.00

08:59:03.300 Hey, that guy said do the hey gal face. 1.00

08:59:05.580 Go ahead, do it. 0.86

08:59:07.320 Into the camera right here.

08:59:09.100 Everyone's watching me.

08:59:10.280 Okay, here.

08:59:10.900 Close your eyes, everybody. 1.00

08:59:12.000 Let her do it.

08:59:13.300 Okay, go ahead. 1.00

08:59:16.520 That's degenerate.

08:59:18.880 That's crazy. 1.00

08:59:19.720 Did you watch that shit? 1.00

08:59:21.100 All right. 1.00

08:59:24.860 So I guess I'll wrap here. 0.99

08:59:27.780 Goddamn, my pizza is probably cold as shit. 0.99

08:59:29.800 I haven't even had a damn slice. 1.00

08:59:31.080 I'm sending y'all home with some pizza and some muffins. 0.98

08:59:36.060 All right.

08:59:36.620 So, well, thank you guys.

08:59:38.600 Thank you to the panel here for coming.

08:59:41.420 It was a little rough start there.

08:59:43.880 I was a little bent out of shape because of all the no-shows.

08:59:46.300 but uh shout out to you guys for making it thank you appreciate it uh thank you for coming

08:59:55.240 it was a pleasure having you guys on and speaking with you you guys were fun and

09:00:00.100 tolerated my 0.58

09:00:03.640 manic episode i don't know what the fuck my spectrum activities my autism my my autism i guess 0.91

09:00:13.420 So I want to say, though, to the panel, Gigi. 0.97

09:00:16.920 Well played.

09:00:17.820 Well played.

09:00:19.020 I want to say, last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out.

09:00:23.080 Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends.

09:00:25.400 I read them.

09:00:26.000 Positivity is nice.

09:00:26.820 Helps the algorithm.

09:00:28.040 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

09:00:29.160 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

09:00:32.120 I appreciate that.

09:00:33.600 Thank you to everyone who supports, donates, and supports the show.

09:00:36.380 Thank you, everybody.

09:00:37.260 Pastey, shout out, Pastey.

09:00:38.560 shout out um uh indy for the champagne pop earlier and uh appreciate you guys couldn't do it without

09:00:46.560 you guys uh the viewer support uh we're gonna be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific any girls who

09:00:52.520 want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara

09:00:55.940 oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat good night guys and we will let me just double check

09:01:02.760 make sure uh we will see you guys next time don't hit that quite yet tiffany but uh do we need to

09:01:09.900 pull up anything now guys i i don't even pull it up but guys uh show some love over there on twitch

09:01:16.780 if you're watching on twitch prime sub drop us a follow pull up the little guys like the video

09:01:22.040 like the video and uh remember big labia matter

09:01:24.920 blm big labia matter uh okay you can hide that all right uh oh seven's in the chat good night

09:01:35.320 guys i had some new things i added to the soundboard and then i i'll have to bust those

09:01:40.960 out later okay anyways uh oh sevens guys it was a fun stream good night guys and we'll see you

09:01:46.880 next time so okay uh did anybody lie about anything we're now wrapped

09:01:53.960 no anybody lie about their body count or anything mason 0.99

09:01:57.320 oh what the fuck 0.99

09:02:16.880 Thank you. 0.99

Whatever Podcast - April 13, 2026

She DISRESPECTED Him？! Based VlRGlN Mason & Brian Atlas vs. Women HEATED DEBATE! ｜ Dating Talk 290

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